18 20 644 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c3f577b1e64b96c294e649520865a49c.jpg 01ac67d300b49a6f29c23f0ed9e22670 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5df7343d2ef171690467ddc16be5804d.pdf e98f20f52aa510572e017796bd6c6bf5 PDF Text Text Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tuleans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community Paper Available In More Than 75 City Locations Congressi,onal Committee ¯ Community Center News - Tulsa’s Gay Community Center and its Hears Tulsans On Hate Crimes ¯ TULSA parent organization, Tulsa Oldahomans for Human WASHINGTON-The Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation’s largest national Lesbian and Gay political organization, with members throughout the country, brought Tulsa hate crime victims Tony Orr and his partner Tim Beaucamp to Washington in early August to testify?before the hearing ot the House Judiciary committee on the Tony Orr & Tim Beauchamp .faced for a stonger federal response to hate crimes, specifically asking the House of Representatives to pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA). InSeptember 1997, Orr and Beaucamp were standing at an ATM at State Bank in the Brookside neighborhood when three men approached them. They called the two men "faggots" and proceeded to brutally beat them. Orr suffered a concussion and received stitches for the many gashes onhis head. Bcauchamp received permanent nerve damage after the orbital bone around his eye was broken. Speaking at a press conference before the Congxessional hearing, HRC executive director Elizabeth Birch introduced Orr, saying, "we urge Congress to listen to the courageous men and women who came forward today to speak of the unspeakable hate cr~mes that irreversibly changed their lives.., it is clear that hate crimes are a national problem and now is the time for Congress to embrace real solutions. The House should follow the Senate’s lead and pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA)." To demonstrate the reai-life impact of these crimes, Birch introduced "A Decade of Violence: Hate Crimes Based on Sexual Orientation," a newly published report by the Human Rights Campaign and the Southern Poverty Law Center. The report details the rise in hate crimes and the impact it has on its victims and society. Tulsan Orr noted, "people like us in communities all across this country need some place to turn seeCongress,p.lO United +American Airlines To Offer Partners’ Benefits WASHINGTON - In a bold move with global ramifications for Gay and Lesbian workplace equality, United Airlines - the world’s largest airline - became the first major U.S. airline to offer full domestic partner benefits, according to a press release from the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). United Airlines announced the decision on July 30. ’q’his enormous victory will have a global impact in helping to create fair and equitable workplaces for Gay and Lesbian people," noted HRC Executive Director Elizabeth Birch in a statement released early in August. "We congratulate United forjoining the rapidly growing legion of compames who realize that treating all employees with dignity and respect is good for business. United has definitely earned their wings. This is a noble challenge to other carriers to now align their benefits packages to reflect fairness and equality for every employee." As a result of United’s action, Equal Benefits Advocates, a San Francisco-based group, declared an end to the educational boycott of United. That organization called the.boycott in Febrtmry to .raise public awareness of United’s lawsuit, see United, p. 2 ¯ Rights (TOHR) have announced a full schedule of ¯ events for the next several months. On Sept. 11, TOHR andParents, Families & Friends of Lesbians ¯ & Gays (PFLAG) will hold aGarage Sale to benefit ¯ both groups. The sale will run from 7am to 4pm at ¯ 5303 E. 27th Place at Darlington. Donations of sale ¯ items may be left at the Center up to Sept. 8. Later, on Sept. 25, TOHR along with many ¯ others will host a Feast for Friends dinner which ¯ supports THE NAMES PROJECT, theAIDS Quilt ; organization. TOHR’s dinner at the "Double T ; Ranch" will begin at 5pro and a $15 donation is ¯ requested. Those who cannot attend a dinner can ¯ join the dessert finale at the Southern Hills Marriott ; at 8:30. Into: TOHR, 743-4297 or THE NAMES ; PROJECT, 748-3111. Along with the First Annual Film Festival on ¯ Oct: 7-9 (see TFN’s Entertainment column which begins on page 8for more details as well as the Film Festival ad on page 8), the Center will host ¯ TOHR’s first Coming Out Fair "Discovering ¯ Yourself" from noon to 6pro on Sat. Oct. 9th. TOHR is also kicking off a new project, the ; CommUnity Pages, which is a Gay & Lesbian ; "yellow" or "pink" pages, or directory to Gay and ¯ Gay-friendly businesses and organizations. ; Tulsa formerly had such a directory called "Gay Tulsa" which was published by former resident, Kharma Amos. Amos, however, moved to the ; Northwest to attend seminary and for a number of ; years, no directory has been published. (Editor’s ¯ note:TulsaFamilyNewsalsoprovidesfreelistings ¯ in its directory to those who request them.) ¯ TOHR volunteers will be soliciting advertisers ¯ this fall and hope to publish a community directory ; early next year. Those interested in being listed or ¯ advertising should contact TOHR board member, ¯ Kerry Lewis, at POB 2687, Tulsa 74101 or by email at pride_center@yahoo.corn Arizona Legislator Takes ¯ ’Jenny Jones’ Murderer Guilty ¯ Wichita: No GaysAIIowed ¯ Mich. (AP) - A jury rejected a claim that Jonathan On "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" ¯ PONTIAC, Schmitz was driven to kill a Gay.acquaintance because of his Tulsa Big Bros: No Prob. by Melanie Carroll, Associated Press Writer ¯ WICHITA/TULSA (AP/TFN) When the unrelenting and unwanted advances, starting by revealing a crush NEW YORK - "Don’t ask, don’t tell?" Doesn’t work. ¯ on a talk show. "If he was Gay and a woman had approached him ¯ Sedgwick County Big Brothers Big Sisters went That’s the word from an openly Gay Arizona legislator " that way, would it have been right for him to kill her because she ¯ asking for mentors for a new program, everyone and Army Reserve officer being investigated for : put a note and a flashing light in his door?" asked juror Kimberley ¯ was invited to participate. Everyone except members discharge by the military. State Rep. Steve May,in New ¯ Manney. ¯ of Ten Percent, a campus Gay and Lesbian group. ¯ York recently for a meeting of the Log Cabin Schmi tz was convicted in late August of second-degree murder Big Brother Big Sisters of Sedgwick County Republicans, a Gay political group, called for an end to . in the death of Scott Amedure,who had appeared with him on ¯ began its search for mentors by sending letters to the military’s policy on Gays. ’q’he Jenny Jones Show." It marked the second time that a jury ¯ Wichita State University student organizations. "A.t a time when recruiting and retentionis becoming ¯ had found him guilty of that charge. The first conviction was later ¯ Thoughit wasn’t supposed to,Ten Percent received a serious problem, and some members of Congress are . overturned"We wanted to send a message that it’s not all right to ¯ a letter soliciting volunteers. The letter said Big discussing a reinstatement of the draft, how much " act this way," juror Ted Hight said. : Brothers Big Sisters clients were "waiting for a longer will we degrade our military readiness by ¯ Schmitz’s second trial avoided the debate over the role played ¯ mentor like you." discharging competent, qualified, trained men and ¯ by Ms. Jones’ show, which was amajor part of acivil trial against However, Ten Percent, which describes itself as women?... This policy must come to an end," May said. " the-show and Schmitz’s first murder trial. Instead, the jury : a"campus organization for Lesbian, Bisexual,.Gay A spokesman for the Army Reserve confirmed an " debated Schmitz’s state of mind. As the verdict was read, : and Transgendered university students and their investigation of May is under way; it started Aug. 7. ¯ Schmltz, 29, hung his head, stared down and clasped his hands ¯ friends and allies," didn’t fit Big Brothers Big ’¢foday I am facing discharge proceedings because I ¯ under his chin. ¯ Sisters’ policy. The youth group does not allow have refused to lie about who I am," May said. While Schmitz’s first conviction for second-degree murder in 1996 ¯ Gay men or Lesbians to serve as mentors. never discussing his sexual orientation with military ¯ resulted in a sentence of 25 to 50 years in prison; the Verdict was ¯ Casey Ritchie, spokesman for Big Brothers Big officials, he was open about it when seeking election ¯ thrown out on appeal due to an error in jury selection. Oakland : Sisters, said theletter was part of a mass mailing to last year. May, who still serves in the Army Reserve County Assistant Prosecutor Donna Pend~rgast Raid ~he Would ¯ all Wichita State University groups. "We simply once a month, said he willlikely be discharged when the " ask for the same penalty when Schmitz is sentenced Sept. 14. "I ¯ feel it’s not in the best interest of the youths we Army’s investigation is complete. ¯ always knew if the jury followed the law it would come back with : serve to put them in the middle of any potential Sen. John McCain, a former POWl said thereis room : this verdict," she said ¯ controversy," Ritchie said. in the GOP for openly Gay _r,ep,r.,e.sen,t~tives, but,add,~e~,’ " Schmi tz’s attorney, Jerome Sabbota, sought a le~s~r verdict Of The letter was addressed to Chris Taylor, vice that besupports [he fiiiiitary s ’dOn t ask~ don t tell’ " manslaughter, saying that Amedure continued to pursue Schmitz ¯ president of the 50-member group, whose name is policy. "We should in our party refrain from ¯ to the point Schmitz "lost all reason." The segment never aired. based on studies that suggest that 10% of the discrimination in any form,.... McCaan satd. As-for May, : He said Amedure lied to Schmi tz about the show, entitled "Same- ¯ : nation’s population is Gay. see 10%,p. 3 "he’s a fine man," McCain added. "I have the greatest Sex Secret Crushes," and set Schmitz off byleaving a suggestive respect for him ?’ Yet, as a member of the:mili~, May note and blinking construction light on his door. Amedure "never DIRECTORY P. 2 is subject to constraints growing out of the natur~ ~t~the let up and he never backed off. He created a situation when any EDITORIAL p. $ military service, McCain said. He said that since soIdiers ¯ reasonable person would have snapped," Sabbota said. US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 must live in place and with people not of their own . : The facts in the case were not disputed in the four-day trial. On HEALTH NEWS P. 6 choosing, the policy regarding a soldierrs Sexual _" March 6,1995, Amedure revealed his crush on’q’he Jenny Jones ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 ¯ orientation makes sense. Show," along with a sexual fantasy. Schmitz told him he was COMMUNITY CALENDAR P. 9 Stacey Sobel, a senior attorney with the Washington- ." heterosexual. The two flew back to Detroit together and stayed D-I-Y-D P. 11 based Service Members Legal Defense Network, is ." out late drinking with a mutual friend, Donna Riley. DYKE PSYCHE P. 12 representing May against the Army Reserve. GAY STUDIES : Onthe morning of March 9, 1995, see Jones, p. 15 P. 1:3 see Officer, p. 2 �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 832-1269 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 592-2143 *Boston Willy’s Diner, !742 S. Boston 835-1207 Burger Sisters Restaurant, !545 S. Sheridan 599-9512 *Empire Bar, 1516 S. Peoria 583 -6666 *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th 749-4511 *Gold Coast Coffee House. 3509 S. 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"It’ s ironic that his qualities of integrity and honesty got him elected in Arizona. ¯ Now thosequalitiesaregettinghimkicked ¯ out of the Army Reserve," Sobel said. Sobel added that since the ¯ implementation of"don’t ask, don’t tell," ¯ in 1994 the number of people discharged ¯ from the armed services has increased. ¯" "This demonstrates that the policy is not ¯ working," Sobel said. Lastyear the Army ¯ discharged 1,149 members of the armed ¯ fo.r..ccs ~or being G.ay~,ua.der. ’~do!~t. ask,. ~" don’Lt~ll." In 1~97, idi~lhw f6i~ 997 ~: ~eopte-0ut of die miii~_y. In 1994; 6i7 :,’. ~eople were dismissed. May, a lieutenant trained in nuclear, chemical and biological warfare defense, also is qualified as a paratrooper. He is second-in-command of the 348th Transportation Company. *Free Spirit Women’ s Center, call for location &info: 587-4669 747-6827 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 582-0438 Friends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 583-6611 *HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. 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School Ave. JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 ~5.. 32, Ste. U134 417 6’2Lq-4696 * is where you can find TFN. Not allare Gay-owned bu~ll are Gay-friendly. "The boycott was a success and now it’s over,;’ Jeff Sheehy, founder of Equal Benefits Advocates, told HRC. "We are grateful that HRC supported this action;it really made a difference. Together, we liave sent a message to corporate America that this issue is important to our commlmity." "We have changed the world, and given that United is providing worldwide benefits, that is not hyperbole," said San Francisco Supervisor Mark Leno. "I want to commend and recognize HRC’s early and immediate support upon our request to honor the Equal Benefits Advocates in their designing of the boycott. Theboycott certainly played arole in the outcome, as did the courts." United’s domestic partner benefits package will offer a full range of coverage to Gay and Lesbian couples. These benefits include medical and dental benefits, life insurance, pension survivor rights, bereavement and medical leave and flight discounts. Heterosexual domestic partners will only receive non-economic benefits such as bereavement or medical leave and flight discounts. The decision will affect 97,000 United employees worldwide. According to the San Francisco Chronicle, the airline said their domestic partnership program will not go into effect until May. United came under heat from Gay and Lesbian advocates this year for.joining in a lawsuit to stop San Francisco from making them comply with a local ordinance that said they must offer domestic partner benefits in order to do business in the city. United argued that they did not have to comply with the ordinance because they were a national company that only had to follow federal government mandates. U.S. District Judge Claudia Wilkin recently ruled that the airlines had to provide "soft benefits" such as bereavement or medical leave. However, they did not have to offer employees economic benefits, such as pensions or health insurance. The airlines, represented by the Air Transport Association, are appealing the ruling. Letters Policy Tulsa Family News welcomes letters on issues which we’ve covered or on ~ssues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phone numbers, or be hand delivered. 200 wordletters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be printed as is appropriate. �Guest Editorial: Keeping Gay Kids Safe Too ¯ even in the school classroom. ¯ What can be done? ¯ The good news is progress can- and is - being made to ¯ protect our schoolchildren. In the state of New York, for ." example, legislators this summer filed (but have not yet ¯ passed) the Dignity for All Students Act, which would ¯" direct schools to adopt policies to create a safe school environment for all students. The proposal would revise : state curriculum requirements to include human relations ¯ education. This curriculum Would enable students to ¯" :foster an appreciation- of people of different sexmd ¯ orientations as well as different racial or religious ¯ [ backgrounds. school dlStrlet adopt In the state of California, legislators defeated similar concern. ¯ Let’s consider some legislation by one vote. That was disappointing, but the pollees that protect bill progressed further than ever before, and I am hopeful statistics: - 28% Of Gay, Lesbian California and New York will join Connecticut, ¯ students and teachers Massachusetts and Wisconsinin protecting their students. and Bisexual youth drop ¯ from harassment and Across the country, hundreds of school districts have out of school because of harassment and verbal discrimination; p~-ovlde examined ways to keep young people safe. Perhaps some attacks, according to a of you reading this column have joined in this effort. I like staff with workshops study conducted by the to say that equality begins at home- and there’s no better and training; support place to join the battle for GLBT equality thzn at your U.S. Department of Health local school district.Groups such as the National Youth : and Human services. eurrio~la that includes Advocacy Coalition (www.nyacyouth.org) and the Gay, ¯ - 22% of boys and 29% Lesbian, and Straight Education Network of girls perceived as Gay information about the (www.glsen.org) are already working across the country ¯ or Lesbian have reported llv~s and contributions ¯ physical attacks by to improve the lives of GLBTQ youth. of GLBT people; and students, according to What can you do? Demand that your school district another study by the same adopt polices that protect students and teachers from allow for the formation harassment and-discrimination; provide staff with agency. of Gay-Stralght -80% of Gay and workshops and training; support curricula that includes Lesbian teens report information about the lives and contributions of GLBT Ai~’~anees. , . feelings of severe social people; and allow for the formation of Gay-Straight alliances and other clubs that address homophobia and isolation at school, according to statistics provided by the Gay, Lesbian, and heterosexism in school. Straight Education Network. As the award-wiuning documentary producer Debra Right now, our nation is having a public discussion Chasnoff ("It’s Elementary") taught us, children are not overwhat to do about violence in the schools. President born with bigotry and intolerance- they learn it. Wouldn’ t Clinton held a summit. Columbine, Colorado officials it be wonderful, if we used back-to-school season as a platform to address safety for our children? put in place a policy of "zero tolerance" for harassment and taunting. Many are pointing fingers at the Five million children are waiting for us to act. Founded in 1973, the National Gay and Lesbian Task entertainment industry or the gun industry or the Interact. Force works to eliminateprejudice, violence and injustice Republicans and Democrats, in typical fashion, are pointing fingers at each other. against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and transgenderedpeople But once again, our voices are left out of the debate. at the local, state and national level. As part ofa broader Our voices are enriched by painful experience, for who socialjustice movementforfreedom,justice and equality, among us can forget the frequency with which epithets NGLTF is creating a world that respects and celebrates like "fag" and "dyke" are casually tossed around on the the diversity of human expression and identity Where all playground, in the school cafeteria, inthe locker room, people may fully.participate in society. l~y Kerry Lobel, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force More than 50 million young people in grades K~ 12 trek back to school this month. They bring with them the concerns of their parents and their communities over the issue of school safety. Seeing the flood of back-to-school stories on the local news, I sense that something - or someone - is missing from this picture. Specifically, five million someones. That’s the number ofestimatednumberofGLBTQ (Gay, -Lesbian, Bisexual, transgendered or What can you do? questioning) students in "our public schools. For Demand that your them, safetyis aneveryday Nevertheles s, airline industry experts expect Other airlines to follow United s lead~ According to the Chronicle, a spokesman for the Air Transport Association said that although none of the group’s members except United is offering the benefits, they probably will, even as they press for appeal Just a few days after United Airlines announced ~ts decision, American Airlines officials informed the Human Rights Campaign that they would become the second major U.S airline to offer domestic partner benefits to Gay and Lesbian employee~ worldwide. -.HI~ ~ s Birch~said of, American Airlines’ decision, "W~ are witnessing history and the beginning of a new era of fairness for Gay and Lesbian airline workers. United’s landmark decision has clearly had a domino effect, where walls.of discrimination-.are:falling each day." And Birch added, "American Airlines is HRC’s official airline and we ate enormously proud that they have taken this important step." American’s domestic partner benefits package will offer a full range of coverage to the partners of Gay and Lesbian workers. These benefits include medical and dental insurance, life insurance, pension survivor fights, bereavement and medical leave and flight discounts. The decision will affect more than 100,000 American and American Eagle employees worldwide. American and United Airlines join a greater trend in corporate America where employers are increasingly offering domestic partner benefits to Gay and Lesbian employees. Overall more than 2,800 U.S. employers currently offer domestic partner benefits, according to HRC’s WorkNet project which tracks this trend. Currently 70 Fortune 500 companies offer these benefits, including AT&T, Chase Manhattan Bank Corp., General Mills, IB M, Mobil Oil, Time Warner, and Walt Disney Company. In addition, more than 99 colleges and universities, 73 state and local governments and hundreds of non-profit organizations and trade umons are currently offering domestic partner benefits, according to HRC’s WorkNet. I-IRC’ s WorkNet project, which also assists companies in implementing domestic partner benefits and with other workplace issues, worked closely with GLEAM, the Gay employee group at AMR Corporation, the parent company, of American Airlines in formulating the policy. Taylor said the group would use the incident to try to get Big Brothers Big Sisters’ policy changed. However, in contrast to the Wichita group, Tulsa’s Big Brothers Big Sisters has no "’across the board" ban on Lesbians or Gay men acting as mentors. The group’s spokesperson, Martha Desmond, Community Relations Director, did note that the issue probably would come up in the screening interview and would be shared with the child’s parent. She said she was not aware of the issue having arisen before. According to executive director, John Jacobs, the agency’s overriding concern had to be the best interest of the child, especially since most of the children served by the program may already have challenges which they face. Also, Jacobs stated that while a parent might veto a potential mentor because he or she is Gay, a parent, for obvious reasons, may also chose to take into consideration matching race, or religion or a nnmber of Other factors as well. by Tom Neal, editor & publisher A few years ago, my father and I prevailed upon Sen. Don Nickles to meet with us about Gay & Lesbian issues, and we trekked over to Oklahoma City one warm winter day. We figured with one conservative Republ,ican and one progressive Democrat, one straight man and one Gay one, we were presenting a bipartisan view on civil rights issues. We were scheduled for 15 minutes and gotnearly -30.......... When all was said and Call me foolish or naive if you llke, but I done, Oklahoma’s senior senator, hardly surprisingly had not changed his still hope {or mind one little iota, though an Oklahoma that he was quite civil. All we could stand up to any got out of the meeting was the c~mpliment that "you other state in our are a good spokesman for your cause." Gee thanks. nation in justice, in So it’s not as though I equal opportunity, in really thought any constituent comment decent education. I made to his office would believe our people are make a difference, but up to it. I just wish we periodically I like to try to bdieve in our American had leaders who were. democracy: that if you have faith and speak the truth, that eventually right will prevail, despite the ample evidence of most of our history where minority Americans are involved, be we Black, Indian, Female or Gay, or any combination thereof. But after reading one or another bits of tripe from the senator about the recess uomination by Pres. Clinton of openly Gay ambassador James Hormel, I figured I should at least not let Mr. Nickles believe that all Oklahomans agreed with him. I called. I left a~ message. I didn’t think much more about it. That was until I got a form letter from our senator saying how he agreed with my position and in which letter proceeded to trash Hormel. Obviously that was not my position. Now mind you, this sort of inverse idiocy ~s just the sort of thing we’ve come to expect from Oklalaoma’s jtmior senator, Jim Inhofe, of pornographic office computer fame. Sen. Inhofe, who sings the praises of private enterprise although he’s lived off the public dole most of his ilfe, ts reputed by thosein this town who should know. not to be particularly bright. And I can say from first hand experience, that he’s rude to constituents. So the simple incomp.etence of getting a constituent’ s~position enurely wrong is somewhat expected from his office. But from Nickles, we should be able to expect a bit more. But then again, I also still believe in democracy. So of course, I called again to ask if it’s possible for Nickles’ office to do better. Because surely, surely no matter how much evil been done in this state in one way or another, nothing could have been so bad that we deserve two Inhofes! Nickles" staff did begrudgingly ad~nit that maybe they should have gotten it right. But they made the claim that they really don’t have to represent all the c~tizens of Oklahoma, that all Nic.kles has to .do is ,to represent whatever he said in his campaign that got him elected and that was enough. So forget about whatever you may have believed about representative democracy, about the need for elected officials to find solutio~as for all their constituents, it’s winner take all and the rest be damned. I can’t believe that this approach is in our state or nation’s best ~nterests. I believe that Americans and Oklahomans in particular, are fair-minded people who would respond to leaders who sought compromise and consideration for all instead of the "leaders" we have who wallow in prejudice and bigotry to fill their campaign coffers and get elected (mind you, I’m not picking just on Republicans, too many Oklahoma Democrats are just as bad, the only difference is Democrats just don’t talk as dirty about you when they’re stabbing you in the back). Call me foolish or naive if you like, but I hope for an Oklahoma that could stand up to any other state in our nation injustice, in equal opportunity, in decent education. I believe our people are up to it. I just wish we had leaders who were. �Montana to several area churches. Early in the effort, center got a $1,000 grant from the Centers for Colorado Springs Holds¯ the Disease Control and Prevention. The money will go Gay Pride Parade & Rally toward a Healthy Lifestyles Program, which .will include health and mental health support serwces, COLORADO SPRINGS, Cold¯ (AP)-Two-year-old : Kyle wore a T-shirt that said "I love my Gay ¯ stress reduction and education about sexually mommies," and knows 25-year-old Jennifer " transmitted infections. The Gay Outdoors group, Gays and Straights Porterfield as "mommy" and 32-year-old Becky " Together, and other organizations will also use the Lewton as "mama." Each year Porterfield gets a card ¯ community center as their headquarters. on Mother’ s Day and Lewton gets breakfast in bed on ’°I’he idea is to have our space available for other "Becky’s Day." "We’re no different than a straight " family," Lewton says. "We argue about the same " groups, and to use our office for as a resource to bring other groups together," said volunteer Casey Charles. stuff. Believe me." . " The group has also drawn a $5,000 grant from They were among.those p.articipating .in the. m,n,th " annual Colorado Spnngs PrideFest parade and ratly, " Broadway Cares, a fund of ~the actors’ equity held on the last Sunday in August. At the end of the ¯ organization in New Y ork. It will help start a speakers’ parade, police estimated between 3,500 and 4,500 ¯ bureau and foster work on HIV prevention. The center will have security measures in place, but people filled Acacia Park for a celebration sponsored " its members stress they’ve had no trouble with by the Pikes Peak Gay &Lesbian Community Center. " "We’reteachers. We’relawyers. We’reprofessional " opposition to the center. Other Montana cities have services for Gay, Lesbian, pa,,,,,l~" Lewton said. "(The oarade) is certainly not ¯ bisexual and transgender people, but the. closest s’~xV’t~l thing, and that s"- wha’t people think it is." About a dozen protesters, some holding placards i community centers are in Spokane and Boise. The group is working on bylaws and hopes to have and a couple of them carrying crosses; stood at one ¯ a board of directors in place by the end of the year. street comer as the parade passed. Police reported no ¯ problems. The .rally capped a week that brought Gay.iss..ues into the headlines in Colorado Springs, including those triggered by a meeting of the National Religious OGDEN, Utah (AP) - The s tate Division of Child and Focus on the Family Christian ministry xor aueg y Fnmily Services has adopted apolicy to bannnmarried "inflammatory" rhetoric about homosexuality. couples from providing state-sponsored foster care. Focus responded on Sundayin~tfull-pagenewspaper The new policy, adopted Friday, August 27th, by a52 vote by the DCFS board, defies standards set by the ad that said its staff members who attended the conference had hopes of establ}shing dialogue but Child Welfare League of America, a professional were blind-sided by the accusataon. association representing more than 1,000 voluntary Focus, and the Christian Coalition of Colorado, and public agencies. also had criticized Colorado Springs Mayor Mary Board chairman Scott Clark, the driving force behind ~Lou Makepeace for sigmng a proclamation the decision, said unmarried, unrelated adults living recognizing Gay-Pride week. together abuse children more often than married men But City Councilman Richard Skorman marched in and women. "I read in the newspaper just last night of the parade and told the crowd at the park the mayor two cases in which boyfriends abused the children in would have faced controversy regardless of her their girlfriends’ homes," Clark said. response to PrideFest organizers’ request for the In the past, Clark has also referred to Gay couples proclamation. - who, because they cannot m.ar~,,_, w!ll be b~ar~,e~,, The banners in the parade heralded civil,rights from foster care-as contributing to gender contusion groups, support groups, Gay pageant winners and of children in their care. Gay-friendl y churches, including First Congregational Only two boardmembers, Regnal Garff andVirgrnia Church, All Souls Unitarian Church and Pikes Peak Higbee, opposed Clark’s recommendations. They Metropolitan Community Church. argued the new rule would narrow the field of foster parents, who are already outnumbered nearly 2-to- 1 The handful of protesters staked out the no,rthw.e,st comer of Platte Avenue and Tejon Street wlaere me by children in state custody who need homes. six-block parade terminated. Parade participants Garff, a retired juvenile court judge, also criticized occasionally taunted and blew kisses to the protesters Clark’s example because neither of the cases sited involved foster children. "I am relterating my who called for the marchers to "’repent." opposiuon to this whole thing.., that example is poorly conceived and poorly argued," he said. The change brings matches similar state restncuons ¯ passed earlier this year for adoptive parents. But groups like the Child Welfare League of MISSOULA (AP) - Wanting to show they’re "just ¯ America, the American Bar Association and the next-door people," volunteers will open a downtown ¯ American Civil Liberties Union have opposed such Gay and Lesbian community center here Wednesday¯ policies. Opponents say too many quesuons are left Founders of the Wes tern Montana Gay and Lesbian ¯ Community Center have Seen raising money for the ¯ unanswered by the policy. For example, there is no provision for common-law marriages, which go into project since last fall and now have about $19,000 ¯ ¯ effect after seven 3,ears. And it is unclear if the rules from 50 paid members. apply when an unrelated adult rents living space from But finding an affordable rent in Missoula’ s visible ¯ a foster or adoptive paxent. down~own axea wa.s ~ bigger challenge than raising ¯ The Child Welfare League is so staunch ih its the money, supporters said. With a rent budget of opposition that the association recently sent DCFS $800 a month and their goal focused on downtown, ¯ Director Ken Patterson aletter asking its end°rsement the members hav e beencombing the real-estate market ¯ be removed from the agency’s po!icy manual...Th,e formonths:: ...... -, ’ -: -’ ’-~. ":. What they ended up with is a two-room office state ¯ board gwiftly a~ounrt0dated that reituest b~removing wi~ hardly=the room for a dance or even a public ¯ the phrase that refers to DCFS policy as "in accordance with the standards of the Child Welfare League of lectfire. But it’s a start, said Cat Carrel, one of the ¯ America." lcadera~pf the effort. ’qlais is a start-up space," she,, said,"and it rsa good first start-up. We can get goln~. Missoula last had a Gay and ,L~,,sbian commumty ~enter during the first half of the 80s, when the nowdefunct organization."Out in Montana" hadoffices in ¯ the Wilma Building in downtown Missoula. After 15 ¯ AMES, Iowa (AP) - Though technically an outcast in years without asocial and service-oriented center; the the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, Steve town’ s Gays and Lesbians wanted aplace to meet that ¯ Sabin’s ministry continues at Lord of Life Lutheran was not a bar, said Randy Chancy, executive director Church. of the Missoula AIDS Council. The ELCA has removed Sabin from its roster of The center’s fledgling efforts had a wide variety of ] ministers because he has a Gay parmer. The church allies, from student groups at the Uni~iersity of Utah Bans Unmarried Foster Parents Missoula Gets First Gay Community Center Again ¯ Gay Pastor’s Church : Work Continues in Ames Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 S. Harvard, Suite 2.1_0,.Tulsa 74135 MCC-United formerly Family of Faith & Greater Tulsa MCC Joined as one body of believers¯ Come celebrate with us. 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"I’m going to stop holding my breath for the ELCA to come along." When Sabin was.removed from the church’s list of ordained ministers last year, the 150-member congregation supported him. By keeping him as their pastor, the congregation risks .expulsion from the While Bishop Philip Hougen of the Southeastern Iowa Synod said he is "uncomfortable" with Sabin as Lord of Life’s minister, he has not asked the Synod Council to expel the congregation. ’To remove them in,order to make some sort of point about purity seems t0be~to benot worth the effort," Hougen said. "I don’t want to cause any more pain." At the Churchwide Assembly earlier this month in Denver, ELCA leaders passed a resolution that reaffirmed previous assembly statements that committed the church to continuing discussion of the issue of ordination of Gays and Lesbians. "How long do you have to keep studying it?". Sabin asked last week. Sabin, who has two daughters, was ordained as a minister in 1985 and became pastor at the Lord of Life Church in Ames later that year. He was married at the time, but the 10-year marriage ended i.n 1990. Sabin began living with Karl von Uhi abont four years ago. Former Lesbian Couple Must Share Custody GOLDEN, Colo. (AP) - A district judge has ordered a former Lesbian couple to share custody of a 10year-old girl they raised, but ruled the youngster must live in New York with her biological mother during the school year. Jefferson County District Judge Christopher Munch said he based the decision on what he considered the best interests of the child. The youngster will spend summers and school vacations in Colorado. He noted she will be able to make friends and attend a neighborhood school in Albany, but if she remains in Colorado, she will have to commute daily from Aurora to Jefferson County, rougtfly a ’40-mile round trip, Munch said. "(Gift M) will be living in a race middle-class, rural to suburban home with her morn and stepdad," Munch said. The judge emphasized that he did not consider the past rdationship of the two women or their sexual orientation when he made the decision. Identifiedin court papers as "Gift M," the youngster was raised by Leaune Bueker, her "psychological" mother, and Kelly Cunningham, her bi o1 ogi cat mother, until the two women separated two years ago. The women were awarded joint custody in February 1998, but the arrangement became complicated when Ms. Cunningham married Michael Naylor and moved to Albany. Ms. Bueker remains single. Mrs. Naylor "was pleased with the decision. "The judge gave appropriate (onsiderat~on to the facts and came up with a. decision that was difficult to make," said attorney Ron Litvak. Ms. Bucker declined comment. Sen. Hatch Apologizes to Blacks But Not To Gays SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - Sen. Orrin Hatch said Wednes day he had been "inarticulate" and apologized to NAACP officials for a statement in which he compared Gay civil rights with black issues. . The Utah Republican, who is a GOP presidential candidate, came under fire earlier this month for saying,"People of color can’t do anything about their color." Hatch continued: "I do believe Gay people have a choice to live within the legal rules or not. That’s why we have civil-rights laws to protect African-Americans from discrimination." JeanettaWilliams, president of the Salt Lake branch of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, called Hatch’s remark "a poor articulation of what he was trying to say." Heather Barney, a Hatch spokeswoman, said Hatch "apologized for being inarticulate." "He did note that he was coming from a strictly legal perspective, that there is judicial precedent that the courts have treated race as distinct from sexual orientation, which is the point h~ was making," Barney said. Darin Hobbs of the Gay and Lesbian Political Action Committee in Salt Lake said Hatch did the right thing by apologizing to the NAACP. Next, he said Hatch should apologize to Utah’s Gay community. "The senator is unable to recognize the commonalities between homophobiaand racism," Hobbs said. "Both are bigotries rooted in fear and ignorance." Williams and Edward J. Lewis, president of the NAACP tri-state conference for Utah, Nevada and Idaho, said they felt Hatch’s’apology was sincere. They were scheduled to meet with Hatch at 1 p.m. but di’dn’t arrive at his Salt~Lake office until-an hour later. Hatch pushed back other meetings and talked with them for 45 minutes. "The importance of this meeting was we established a need to sit down and have a dialogue with him," Lewis said. Williams said she also discussed concerns about Hatch’s voting record on civil-rights issues. She said Hatch made no promises but agreed to consider the NAACP’s views. Hatch and Sen. Bob Bennett, RUtah, received F’s in the NAACP’s latest congressional report cards. Also, Bennett apologized to the NAACP for saying Texas Gov. George W. Bush would win the GOP presidential nomination unless "some woman comes forward, let’s say some black woman ~omes forward, with an illegitimate child that he fathered." Comparing the remarks by the two senators, Lewis’ said: "On,e, was more severe, but they were both in the same pie. Williams and Lewis said Hatch and his wife, Elaine, are lifelong NAACP members. Hatch co-sponsored a bill to award civil-rights pioneer Rosa Parks the Congressional Gold Medal, whichis Congress’ highest honor. Barney said Hatch has enjoyed a good relationship with the NAACP. "His door has always been open to Jeanetta and the NAACP," she said. "They meet regularly and he is proud of some of the things he has been able to accomplish which benefit minority communities in Utah." Hatch has previously raised the ire of Gay civilrights groups. In 1988, he called the Democratic Party "’the party of homosexuals; they are the party of abortion." In June, he told delegates to the Republican state convention they could be proud because "we don’t have the Gays and Lesbians with us." Gay Couple Murdered After Recording Message REDDING, California (AP) - Two brothers killed a Gay couple after forcing them to record an answering machine message saying they had suddenly become ill and were leaving town for medical help, authorities say. Benjamin Williams, 31, and James Willianas, 29, could face the death penalty if convicted of murdering Gary Matson, 50, and Winfield Mowder, 40. The men were found shot to death in their bed July 1. in rural Happy Valley near Redding, northeast of San Francisco. The suspects have pleaded innocent. According to the court documents, sheriff’s deputies went to the victirrisr home after Matson’s relatives thought the answering machine message sounded forced and odd, and may have been someone else’s voice. The message said the. victims were headed to San Francisco to see "a specialist friend"for medical help and would return "in about a week." "Off the message, it’s evident that the person who recorded the message is under distress and was possibly forced to make the recording," officers said. In the background, another voice can be heard saying, "just calm down." Based on information from Matson’s father and brother, investigators said the message was recorded "very dose" to the time of the slayings. The documents were unsealed following a legal challenge by several news organizations. Evidence in the brothers’ homes also allegedly links them to the arson of three California synagogues. Those fires caused more than $1 million in damages. Authorities also found handouts from the World Church of the Creator, a white supremacist group, which preaches extreme racial and religious views. �AIDS Deaths Decline ATLANTA (AP) - Two years after powerful new drugs brought a sharp drop in AIDS deaths nationwide, new government figures released today show the declinein AIDS deaths slowed sharply a year later. AIDS killed 17,047 people in the United States last year - a decline of 20% from 1997. From 1996 to 1997, the drop in deaths was a much more dramatic 42%, which health officials attributed to the effectiveness of new drugs. "As we anticipated, we are now seeing the first signs ofa slowing in this trend,’" said Dr. Helene Gayle, director of HIV prevention for-the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, said during the National HIV Prevention Conference. "In a period of only two years, new combination therapies cut the annual level of death in half," she said. "But for the time being, it appears that much of the benefit of these new therapies has been realized." In 1995, 49,351 people died from AIDS in the United States. By 1996, that dropped to 36,792, and the number was down to 21,222 in 1997. The CDC listed several possible causes for the slowdown in reductions of AIDS deaths. Most people who know they have HIV are already being treated, Gayle said. Drug resistance among some AIDS patients causes the treatment to fail, and other patients fail to keep up with, the complicated juggling of pills they,have to take for the drugs to be effective. New HIV infections in 1998 were estimated at roughly 40,000 - a number that’ s held steady for the past decade. The CDC said AIDS continues to kill blacks in higher numbers than other racial groups. Blacks, who make up about 13% of the population, accounted for 49% of AIDS deaths in 1998. Thirty-two% of deaths were among whites and Hispamcs made up 18%. "In many ways, the story of how well we do in HIV and AIDS will be told by how well we do with the AfricanAmerican population," Gayle said. The three-day conference, organized by the CDC and 17 other agencies, features 2,000 scientists, doctors, researchers and advocates addressing efforts to monitor and prevent the spread of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Gayle and others opened the conference by warning against complacency. "It’s becoming increasingly difficult to get people to pay attenuon to HIV prevention and that in and of itsdf is a primary reason for this conference," she said. Since the 1980s, more than 300,000 have died of AIDS. The recent success of some treatments have made some people complacent about the disease. "Despite a growing complacency about the need for HIV prevention, HIV remains a serious disease that is still very much with us and there is a greater need for HIV prevention today more than ever," she said. Black Churches To Step Up AIDS Fight BOSTON (AP) - Local black religious leaders plan to meet with state Department of Public Health officials and members of the AIDS Action Committee to discuss ways to better educate their congregations about the disease. The meeting, involving 26 black leaders, signals a change in the black church’s approach to AIDS, religious scholars and activists told the Boston Globe. They said the conservative theological views about homosexuality, intravenous drug use and premarital sex held by many black religious leaders have led them to shy away from the issue. But leaders are now seeing they must pay attention to the disease because of their obligation to help people in need, according to Pemissa Seele, founder of the New York-based Balm in Gilead ministry. The ministry raises AIDS and HIV awareness among black congregations nationwide. "Their responsibility to save lives has nothing to do with their theology on homosexuality or sex outside marriage," Seele said. "We’re talking about two different apples." In the Boston area, only about 90 of 450 black churches promote HIV awareness, the Globe reported. Meanwhile, blacks account for 26% of all AIDS cases in Massachusetts, though they make up only 6% of the population. Nationally, AIDS is the leading cause of death for black men and women ages 25 to 44. Rev. Conley Hughes, pastor of Concord Baptist Church in Boston’s South End, said the church can be a powerful influence in the fight against AIDS because it has historically been an institution blacks could count on. Many blacks consider the church society’ s most credible source of authority, Hughes said. Medical Excellence And Compassionate Care Since 1926. ¯ ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTE_R Experts-Discuss Vaccine Progress BALTIMORE (AP) - Doctors and scientists from 20 countries gathered in Baltimore las t month for a conference to . discuss progress made in the effort to find an AIDS vaccine. The annual meeting, which began years ago as an informal gathering of Dr. Robert C. Gallo, codiscoverer of the AIDS virus, and his colleagues, has grown into one of the largest AIDS conferences in the w6rld. More-than 1,000 physicians, scientists and others are expected to attend the conference, hosted by Gallo and the University of Maryland’s Institute of Humafi Virology, which he directs. "It is possible that the components for a reasonably successful vaccine are almost there, in our hands, but we don’ t know it yet," Gallo told The (Baltimore) Sun. ’T m much more positively inclined than a year or two ago." However, it could be years before a vaccine is developed. At the conference, Gallo expected one of the more significant discussions to deal withTat, or transactivating protein, which is made by HIV. Researchers have found that Tat plays a key role in HIV spreading. "You can regard it as one of the missiles from HIV infection that leads to the problems in the immune system and facilitates the virus’ spread," said Gallo, who has done some of the work. Researchers have -shown that vaccinating monkeys against Tat lowers the amount of the virus and lessens the immune system’s impairment. Gallo and his collaborators have tested Tat in humans for safety, both as a preventive vaccine and as a therapeutic one. He said his group’ s strategy will be to create a sort of vaccine cocktail, by combining an inactivated Tat protein with another vaccine approach. Over the past 10 years, more than 40 preventive AIDS vaccines have been tested worldwide involving about 10,000 volunteers. 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What he does want is data - hard numbers that will prove or disprove the theory that transplants can help people infected with HIV. Key to HIV transplants i s finding patients who are heal thy enough to qualify and are willing to take care of their new organs once they get them. Another key is controlling hepatitis C, which is often found in HIV patients and invariably reinfects the new liver once i~ has been transplanted. At this point, there is very little data on transplantation for patients infected with HIV, the virus which causes AIDS, and no papers have been published, experts said. Only recently have a select few surgeons performed the procedure knowingly, although there is some historical data from before patients were checked for HIV infections. "’People think we’re crazy for doing it," said Dr. John Fung, head’of the Um~ersity of Pittsburgh Medical Center’ s transplant center. But early indications show that liver transplantation is effective in reversing the complications of end-stage organ failure m some HIV-positive patients, Fung said. He presented findings at the conference on four HIV patients who underwent the procedure between September 1997 and March 1999. In all the cases, the liver transplants reversed the distinguishing characteristics of chronic liver failure, including fluid retention, muscle wasting, fatigue and jaundice. HIV traces remained undetectable with patients who continued the drug combination with protease inhibitor and none developed opportunistic infections, Fung said. Medical experts often question Fung and others about the.use of scarce resources - in this case, healthy human organs- and the safety of surgeons operating on HIV infected patients in a procedure that involves a lot of blood . S0cietallv sorn0 ~o,,~,i,~ ,~;.J ~,.,, whether org~a~s sho~d~’tiao~’~ lifestyle choices may have led to their infection, said the doctors, who prefer that medical reasons determine who gets a transplant. Recently, the University of California in San Francisco received a $1 million grant to perform transplants on HIV patients. The state money will fund transplants for 10 people, and doctors hope the information will help build a database to determine if the operation can be a medical success in HIV patients. "I think there is a great deal of trepidation in the medical community, and I don’ t think it’s ill-founded at all," said Peter Stock, associate professor of surgery at UCSF. "We have to be very cautious." While some insurance companies in the Calif. A! ow Needle Exchange SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP)- Tryi:n~ to slow the spread of AIDS, the Legislature sent Gov. Gray Davis a,bill that would let cities and counties setup n~dle-exchange pro~s for ~g addicts. Cmwent state law b~s such progrmns but four CNifo~a cities - Berkeley, Los Angeles, San Fr~cisco and Santa Cruz - ~d M~n County have adopted emergency ordi~s ~lowing needle exchm~ges. Davis’ office said the Democratic governor has not taken a position on the Nll, wNch passed the state Senate. At le~t 15 o~er states have authorized ne~e-exch~ge pro~s, ~ough ~ere ~e exch~ge progr~s operating in more th~ twi~ that m~y states, according to AssemNy~voman Ke~ M~zoni’s office~ Supporters of her proposN sNd studies have shown exchange progrmns redu~ the spread of the A IDS vires. There lmve been atleast six o~er needleexch~ge bills intr~uced in ~ifo~a since 1993. They either died in the Legislature or were vetoed by thenRepubti~ Gov. Pete Wilson. Chemist Gets $7 m. For AIDS Research NEW BRUNSWICK,’N.J. (AP) - A Rutgers University chemist who helped researchers study the most lethal part of the AIDS virns will get nearly $7 million in federal fnnds to continue his work. Dr. Edward Arnold has won an award from the National Institutes of Health that will double federal suppor~ of his research. The prize, called MERIT for Method ~o Extend Research in Time, will extend his funding from a five-year grant for $3.4 million to a grant spanning 10 years and providing nearly $7 million. His work is aimed at developing longerlasting drugs to fight the deadly AIDS virus. "The whole philosophy of research is the more you know, the better chavce you have to fight something," Arnold told the East Brunswick Home News Tribune. The new funding will aid his study of a protein called reverse transcriptase, or RT. The protein plays a key role in the virus’ early life cycle, giving it insm~ctions to duplicate its deadly properties. It is the . molecule targeted by anti-AIDS drugs ¯ includingAZT, DDI, Nevirapineand3TC. : The virus colnmonly mutates so quickly " that it becomes irmnune to drugs. Arnold ." is trying to devise a way to see what drug resistance looks like. Heis mapping three. dimensional pictures of the RT protein, _" getting a look at its detailed atomic " structure. Such views can help researchers ¯ see how the virus interacts with" drugs. ". "We need to understand how drugs can ¯ fail," Arnold said. "If we can do that, we - can be more aware of how to design them .* - how to avoid those hurdles." His work first gained prominence in ¯ 1992 when he and others created a threedimensional computer model of the RT protein. Arnold’ s workis also focusing on the design and development of an AIDS vaccine, something that has eluded researchers thus far. �by James Christjohn ¯ with or without an interest in the genre. TFN entertainment writer They have everything: magic, intrigue, Hey there, hi there; ho there! Where ho? romance, murder, and just about There ho? Who you callin’ a ho? Sorry, everything else you can think of, in a just had to. Something about Disney artistically perfect package. The events inspires that kind of mania, especially and characters are such that you hate the after having lived with a Beast for so long. book to end, and the characters stay with (editor’s note: aren ’t lucky you long after the last page the Beast is occasionally is turned. I wondered ff the quite for-bearing?) ~Lynn was gracious average fantas~ r~.a+der Speaking of beasts, enough to spare some time Beauty and the Beast is would follow that far for some questions while here! They’ve been working on the new book, they have, and building sets, chopping "The Bone Doll’s Twin:" ¢ladly for sets, recreating and creatJC: I have enjoyed the ing costumes for a month Nightrunner series. Your the most part. now, working 15 hour characters are so wellI eet letters from days[ And it looks to be drawn, that they seem real faaaabulous ! Especially enough to wonder what straiCht Curs they’re up to long after the those moving pillars., I sayln~ essentially LOVE those moving book is finished. pillars t There’s just someLF: I’m so glad to hear "I shouldn’t be ok with thing so intrinsically... that the story and the t~s, but I amP’... characters work for you. phallic about moving pillars ! I want some for my. That’s high praise indeed. Others ~ve sald it house! Really the- magic That’s how I feel about made it ~sler to talk my favorite books. begins September 7 and ~th Gay relatives. JC: What inspired you runs through the 19. And to write these characters the conductor and assistant conductor, James and Brent, are very as "Gay" men (Seregil & Alec, the protagohists) ? handsome and char~i,"ng men, so say hi if you can when they re out on ~e town! LF: Well, as I recall, I wanted to create "a hero that challenged the stereotypical Call 596-7111 for tix. molds set by Eddings. or Jordan (well Lynn Flewdling has written one of the known fantasy writers). Hence his best series of Gay fantasy novels to come along since Mercedes Lackey’s "Last profession and methods. The Gay part not: sure. Partly the mold breaking, bu~ Herald Mage" trilogy. "Luck in the mostly just how he wanted to be. Perhaps Shadows", which I’ve written of before; he’s my animus? Whatever the case, the "Stalking Darkness", and the just out character just came out that way and I love "Traitor’s Moon" follows the trail of him. Alec was more of a conscious choice. intrigue and romance of Seregil and Alec, the main protagonists. I could see where it was all headed, see Fantasy, p. 14 I recommend the books highly to anyone T Call today to receive a 1999-2000 season brochure Season subscriptions, starting at $44 for adults, are now on SALE! FOR 1999-2000 SEASON BROCHURES CALL 1999-2000 SEASON TULSA~PERA MEET THREE WOMEN To.DIE FOR CARMEN MANON TOSCA Season tickets on sale now! Save 25% off single ticket prices! Season tickets start at just $36 for three operas! FOR 1999-2000 SEASON BROCHURES CALL J by. TFN staff As we move into the fall, Oklahoma’s arts calendar is increasingly busy. On Sept. 11, at 8pm at Holland Hall’ s Branch Theatre, Richard Gere Productions, the Loseling Institute and Unity Church of Christianity and Unity Center of Tulsa present "The Mystical Arts of Tibet" featuring the Drepung Loseling Monks. This group of monks have performed with composer Phillip Glass, and performers such as Paul Simon, Natalie Merchant, the Beastie Boys and others. For tickets, call 582-6624 or 749-8833. Already open at Gilcrease is an exhibit of Inuit art which will be shown until Nov. 7th. The .works, which include sculpture, prints and tapestries, draw on a private collection which has never before been publicly exhibited. Pieces from Gilcrease’s-collection will complement the exhibit. Gilcrease anthropology curator, Jason Jackson, suggested that these works will appeal to those who appreciate traditional Native American art as well as those who like modem art coming out of western Europeantmditions. hffo: 596-2700. Local youth activist Emily Sizemore is one of the organizers of Arts for AIDS, an event scheduled for Sept. 25th. They are looking for singers, other musicians, writers, actors, visual artists, etc. If interestedin parlicipating, please call 3611000. That same evening, the Tulsa Philharmonic will open see Arts, p. 14 HoT "It’s Elementary" Tolerance Film Provokes Debate CHICAGO/TULSA (AP/TFN) - Thirdgraders in New York debate the idea of Gay mamage. Storytime for first- and second-graders ata school in Cambridge, Mass., includes the book "Asha’ s Mums" about a little girl who has two Lesbian mothers. Eighth-graders in San Francisco fire questions at a Gay man and Lesbian who visit their classroom. All areexcerpts from a controversial documentary, "It’s Elementary: Talking About Gay Issues In School," which first caused a stir when several public television stations decided to air it this summer. Now it’s being used by many schrol districts nationwide as a training tool for teachers, most recently in Chicago unifying what some say is a growing move to incorporate Gay and Lesbian issues into curriculum, from elementary to high school. Critics say talk about suchissues belongs at home. But others say it’s a matter of dealing with issues that students already see every day in newspapers, on television, in movies - and maybe even in their own communities or classrooms. "Both schools and families have to address the issue somehow because it’s there - and it’s not going back into the closet," says Tony D’Augelli, a psychologist at Penn State’s College of Health and Human Development who studies Gay youth ~sues. see Elem.,p.15 THE SEASON! TULSA ¯ Mas~Ywol"~s " PHILHARMONIC . Classics usic on . "toe RocRs" No ! FOR 1999-2000 T~CKaT INFORMATION CALL 1999-2000 Celtic Series SAVE $10 by purchasing the entire series! Natalie MacMaster An Irish Christmas October 8t~ & 9~ ¯ 8pro November 21,~ ¯ 3pro Gaelic Storm (Celtic BonusO The ’Party Band’ from the blockbuster movie 17tanic January 19m & 20za ° 8pro Trinity Irish Dance Company February 20= ¯ 3pro Anam March 3,1 & �~c~~h~d Gere Productions & the Loseling Institute present The Mystical Arts of Tibet Sacred Music Sacred Dance for World Healing with the famed Multiphonic Singers of Drepung Loseling Monastery September 11, 8 pm Branch Theatre, Holland Hall School 5666 East 81 st Street Jointly sponsored by Unity Church of Christianity and Unity Center of Tulsa Call 749-8833 for tickets. ~ SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service ~ 6pro, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 1 lam, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Sbiviee - t 1am, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-13 I4 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, llam, 1623 North Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc~ Sunday School - 9.’45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass --11am, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance 6:30 pm, Meets at the Canterbury Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~ MONDAYS Mixed Volleyball, Helmerich Park, 71st & .Riverside, 6pm, call Shawn at 243-5190. HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E. Admiral (east of Harvard) HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pm. 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mon]each mo. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for times, info: 585-COMC (2662) ~ TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 T 0 H R L M E T I-VAL BER Live And Let Live, Community of Hope United Methodist, 7:30pm, 2545 S. Yale Multicultural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pro, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pm, 3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more information, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pro, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~" THURSDAYS HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pro 834-8378, 3507 E. Admiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) ¯ Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-232.5 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, Info: 834-4194 ~" FRIDAYS Safe Haven, Young Adul{s Social Group, 1 st Fri/each mo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th ~" SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pm, Community of Hope,1703 E. 2nd, Info: .585-1800 Lambda A-A, 6 pro, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. I~" OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Womens Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long rides & short rides from Zeigler Park. Long & ~hort rides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 If your organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 or fax 583-4615. �Associated Press - Your lawn crunches ¯ base of the plant," he said. "That way, you like potato chips.when you walk on it.. don’t drown the roots, and new roots have Even your older trees are showing stress. : moist soil to move ~nto." Mulching is the next best solution to Although you might be tempted to coddle _" your plants, you can kill them with too ¯ watering, Nuss says. "But be sure to water much kindness, say experts in Penn State’ s : under mulch, not on top of it. It takes at *- least an inch of rain to get through organic College of Agricultural Sciences. mulch." In extreme condi"Pruning, fertilizing and watering can fool plants.into "Focus your tions, Nuss said covering the soil surface with black plastic thinking it’s springtime and water~ng-efforts will retain extra moisture. trigger new growth," said "You.can hide the plastic with Robert Nuss, professor of on plants you organic mulch," he says. ornamental horticulture. "New ~n do To supplement watering, use growth won’t have time to mature before the frost. Not some~blng about, gray water (from such uses as cooking and the laundry rinse only will you kill it, but you’ll llke ornamentals," cycle) on ornamentals, Nuss use up next year’s buds." "If you have a landscape said. "But move from tree to ke added. tree so you dilute it. Also, don’t contractor or arborist do your "With lawns, it’s use water that contains work, there’s only so much chlorine bleaches or laundry they’ll want to do during a just a waiting softeners. For health reasons, drought," said Rick Johnson, game until the don’t use gray water on leafy associate extension agent in vegetables or root vegetables. Delaware County. "Since rMn and cool "With a drought this serious, normal plant care practices w~ther return." I’d focus watering on highmight be harmful under value plants and shrubs," Nuss drought conditions, understand that these contractors may advise ¯ said. "Save fresh water for your vegetables, ¯ use gray water on the ornamentals, and against them." ¯ don’t water your flowers. Flowers are Nuss and others offer some specific ¯ going to die with the. first frost anyway." suggestions. "Grasses gO into a semi"Droughts have a negative effect on dormant state and become vulnerable ¯ most insect and mite pests that attack when it’s dry," said Peter Landschoot, associate professor of turfgrass science. : landscape plants," says Greg Hoover, extension entomologist. "Because of last "Now that the water’s been turned off, year’ s drought, forinstanee, we have fewer you should limit activities and traffic on adult Japanese beetles this year, and lawns as much as .possible. Come probably will see even fewer next year." September (October in Oklahoma) - if But hot, dry weather favors two different we get rain and cooler weather- you can groups of insect and mite pests. "Woodfertilize and overseed to get some recovery. boring insects successfully attack trees If we don’t get enough rain in September, and shrubs that are stressed," Hoover said. wait tmtil next spring to oversee&’" "If you don’t have water restrictions, the "Focns your watering efforts on plants bes~ thing you can do for woody plants is you can do something about, like water them. Supplement watering with ornaments," he added¯ "With lawns, it’s rainfall collected in buckets or barrels, or just a waiting game until the rain and cool water from dehumidifiers." weather return.’" "The two-spotted spider ~mite, a common "Pruning’s a gamble," said Nuss. "If pest on garden and landscape plants, also you’re sure the parts are dead - if they’re thrives in hot, dry weather," Hoover said. brittle and dry - go ahead and cut back to "The winged euonymus - what some the live tissue. This will promote some people call ’burning bush’ -is particularly healing and help the plants aesthetically. vulnerable. When indicated, use an But remember, ff we get somerain, proning appropriate miticide on infested plants." can trigger growth in the buds." Hoover recorfimends using wet powder "Fertilizers are salts - even organic insecticide formulations. ’q’hey’re less materials such as manure -and salts can likely to damage plant tissues during hot, bum roots," Nuss said. "If you want to dry Weather when used according to label give plants nutrients, wait until October directions." (late November or December here) when they’re fully dormant." "Watering is key for woody plants," Nuss said. "When the top 1-11/2 inches of soil are dry, water down to 8-10 inches when justice is not served. We need to be to the root zone," he said. "You can able to appeal to a higher authority’when accompllsh~ this by dire~t, slow watering. localities and states do not-for whatever Trickle water on very slowly so it soaks reason- fully investigate and prosecute a into the soil, with no rtmoff. Also, when hate crime. On behalf of hate crimes you water at night, you lose less to victims everywhere, I urge Congress to evapOration." pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act." But watering has its dangers. "If you On" added, "we were targeted because of overwater in areas with heavy soil or slow who we are, not for any other reason... drainage, you can saturate the root zone they were trying to send a message that and force out the air," Nuss says. "This "our kind’ are not welcome in Tulsa and can suffocate the roots and kill them." deserve to be beaten or die. It is time to When roots die, you’ll _see top wilting in send a message that what is not welcome ¯ the plant, Nnss says. "Mostpeopleinterpret are hate crimes." this as a lack of water, add even more and Under current law, a hate crime can be aggravate the problem. After watering, federally prosecuted only if the victim is most plants should recover overnight. But targeted on the basis of race, religion, if the plant remains wilted, you may have color or national origin, while on federal root damage from overwatering." property or while exercising a federally For new plantings, Nuss recommends protectedright, such as vodng or attending keeping the initial root ball moist. "Water school: see Congress, p. 11 bevond the planting hole, not just at the Change... ~- Postage Stamp 1985 22¢ 1998 Minimum:Wage 1985 $3.35 1998 $5.15 Average New Car Price 1985 $ 9,011 1998 $20,0OO q- e More Stay The m ee. A lot has changed since 1985. Prices for many consumer goods have more than doubled. But one Average Price of Electricity Per Residential kWh 1985 1998 6.4¢ 5.7¢ thing has stayed the same. Our rates. They’ve remained virtually unchanged for almost fifteen years. Top value for your energy dollar. The mo st reliable ser vice p~~ Public Service Company of Oklahoma possible. And better choices than ever before. You can count on it. 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Currently, hate crimes ¯ monitoring and enforcement consists of a ¯ patchwork of laws that offer citizens ¯ varying see Congress, p. 12 �Red Rock Tulsa by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. get cervical cancer." Two women even Dr. Sue Wilkinson is currently reported that they were considered conducting the first national survey of "virgins" by the medical profession Lesbian health in the United Kingdom because they had had sex with women but with doctoral student Julie Fish. The" not with men! survey managed to contact Lesbians in But the pap smear is not a comfoitable almost every postal district of the United procedure for many women, and may be Kingdom, from the southern particularly painful, uncomCervical cancer tip of England to the islands fortable, unusual or trauoff northern Scotland. Over. matizing for Lesbians. 38% of appears to l~e 1,000 Lesbians answered the Lesbians in the U.K. study .connected. with questionnaire, which focused reported .that they. had never sexual activity, on breast cancer, mammohad a cervical smear for this grams, breast self-exam, reason. One Lesbian reported particularly cervical cancer, and pap that she viewed a speculum as penetrative sex staears, "a huge metal crocodile." I recently spoke with Sue Othershadheardhorrorstories wlt]~men. Tl~is about the early results of this . from friends and partners that Is why Lesi~ians studY, Which focus on cervica1 the procedure was aversive, screemng. Unlike many lmve traditionally humiliating, or painful. cancers, cervical cancer has Finally,, Lesbians raised ]~een vlewed as an early warning stage, with questions about havingamale at low rls]~ for abnormal cells present. This is health provider "pokingwhy women are told to have around in my body," cervical cancer, regular pap smears (or cervical specifically, in the vagina. Or But Lesglans smears, as they’re called in the. they were concerned that the may lmve ]~ad health care provider conU.K.). SueandJuliefoundthat 12% ducting the procedure would sex with men of Lesbians eligible for result in questions about their cervical screening had previously, and/ sexual activity or would NEVERhadapap:mear.This assume they were heteroor t]aey may ]~e is higher than comparable U.S. sexual. ha’~cln~ sex with figures of 5% found by the This important study raises National Lesbian Health Care men evenw]a~le some questions about cervical smears. Do Lesbians whohave However,Surveyinthisthefiguremid-1980’S.is lower eallln~ t]aemselves neverhadintercourseneedpap Lesl~ans. than that of 17% for women in smears at all, or need pap the general U.K. population smears less often? How can Cervical cancer who report never having had a pap smears be performed in a is not well cervical smear. What is matter that is more positive surprising about these low understood, so for Lesbians? figures for women in the U.K. Sue Wilkinson and Julie women, ineludin~ is that the U.K. has national Fish can be contacted at the health service. Pap smears are Lesl~ians, may l~e Department of Social free, and women receive a Sciences, Loughborough at rls]~ for other reminder letter every five University, Loughborough reasons unrelated years,withtwoorthreefollowLE11 3TU United Kingdom. uplettersiftheydon’tcomein tosexualaetlvity. - Esther Rothblum is for the pap sinear, Professor ofPsychology at the When Sue andJulieexaminedLesbians’ ¯ University of Vermont and Editor of the written comments about cervical Journal of Lesbian Studies. She can be screening, they found that one reason for " reached at John Dewey Hall, University non-attendance was lack of time. "But " of Vermont, Burlington, VT. E-maih apart from that, it looks as though the two ¯ esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. main categories of response are-that " Lesbians feel they don’t need a smear and ° secondly, negative aspects of the ¯ procedure," said Sue, "they imagine the " procedurewillbepainful,orembarrassing, ° levels of legal protection depending on where they live. Twenty-two states and or thatthey will encounterheterosexism." Cervicalcancerappearstobeconnected " the District of Columbia have hate crimes with sexual activity, particularly " laws that include sexual orientation. penetrative sex with men. This is why ¯ Twentystateshavelawsthatdonotinclude Lesbians have traditionally been viewed- ¯ sexual orientation. Eight states have no as at low risk for cervical cancer. But " hate crimes laws at all. Lesbians may have had sex with men ¯ SpeakingwithTFN, Orr&Beauchamp previously, and/or they may be having ¯ expressed their disappointment with how sex with men even while calling Tulsa district attorney staff members themselves Lesbians. " handled the prosecution of their attackers. Cervical cancer is not wall understood, ° They indicated that had Orr not had so women, including Lesbians, may be at ¯ .professional experience as a journalist, risk for other reasons unrelated to sexual : specifically covering crime stories, they activity, In the U.K. study, about 40% of : likely would have given up in frustration Lesbians felt they did not need a cervical : while trying to get information about how screen because they had never had ¯ the case was going. Their perception intercourse. Many Lesbians wrote that : remains that Tulsa DA considered the they had specifically been told this by a " assault to unimportant because they are doctor or nurse. 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Emotionally, he couldn’t handle knowledgeofhis lover’s onetimerelations with : And difficult cultures have different ways of.classifying and interpreting those same other guys. We’ve got a name for that emotion: ¯ chemical flushes. You may have heard of the sexual jealousy. Shawn’s anthropologists German emotion tmhappiness prompted me to schadenfreude which is debate the facts think about the green emotion. Jealous feelings, and their of human emotion. pleasure felt at someone else’ s misfortune. Many of us also sorry consequences, are an Can we say that take pleasure from other’s endlessly fascinating motif in misfortunes, but English has popular novel and film. Besides, most of us have emotions that we no word that specifically labds this twisted enjoyment. Does experienced jealously in all feel because this lin,g,nistic gap mean that person. We’ve learned to use wedon t sense this pleasure as the word to label a peculiar we are human? deeply as do Germans? mental state and aching body And even if jealousy is a If so, whleh ones? sensation sparked by our love human universal, it may be interests. Love, bate, that some of us experience the The word has been around bappiness, feeling more intensely. Gore for years. English speakers of Vidal reports in his sadness, f~r, the 12th century borrowed autobiography Palimpsestthat ’jealousy’ from Old French. anger? he and his lover never have And those speakers on the sex. This he finds this on the Are there other continent previously had street. His "lover," instead, adopteditfrom the Latinzelus, emotions that provides breakfast derived from the even more people in one conversation and other forms ancient Greek zelos, that of sexless companionship. culture eultlvate originally m,,eant something Clearly, many couples have like ardor or "fervor." and learn to feel created similar "open" Jealousy and zeal- and jealous relationships in which they are that are and zealot - are linguistic able to at least mute any cousins, all derived from the unknown or less feelings of sexual jealousy, s ame root concept of emotional important in Some occasionally have upheaval and intensity. campaigned to open up all other soeieties? Jealousy’ s deep cultural and relationships. linguistic roots indicate the During the 1960s, many popular reach of both emotion and concept. : preached and sometimes practiced "free We use a language of jealousy to understand why Shawn’s boyfriend ¯ love." They hoped to stifle sexual jealousy in order to rework the economy of dumped him. Whose lips were kissing ¯ Shawn before his? Whose arms had ¯ relationships. No one was meant to own anyone else. No one ought get jealous. already held that waist? Yet, Sex was healthy recreation, freedom, even anthropologists debate the facts of human ¯ spiritual; jealousy was wrongly emotion. Can we say that there are ¯ emotions that we all feel because we are ¯ possessive, limiting, and neurotic. It was no dice, though. For most of us, human? If so, which ones? Love, hate, ¯ jealousy remains the flip side of love- or happiness, sadness, fear, anger? Are there of love American-style anyway. The other emotions that people in one culture ¯ cultivate and learn to feel that are unknown ¯ babyboomers failed to stamp out jealousy or less important m other societies? Just ¯ because they could not remake the how normal - and how universal - are ¯ associated emotion of love. It remains might) hard to love and not get jealous. If feelings such as sexual jealousy? ¯ you don’t feel jealous, can you really be in Those anthropologists of the love? It is plausible that humans in other sociobiological persuasion often figure ¯ places and at other times have experienced that jealousy ~s indeed a human universal ¯ with an adaptive function. Men are never ¯ and understood the body flashes that we completely sure that the baby a woman ]¯ call jealousy in various ways. But around here, don’t let me catch you messing carries is theirs. Jealousy works = so goes ¯ around! the story - to motivate men to police their Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthrowomen in order to better the odds that the. y have fathered her babies. An), ¯ pology at the University of Tulsai: easygoing man withdut Some yet~to-beidentified gene for.jealousy would have contributed less to the human gene pool in that he may not have fathered the children ¯ profesgionally, did local law enford~ment; he thought he did. Butwhatof women?They always know ¯¯ take the casemore seriously. SpecifiCally, two of their assailants had not been made that they are the mothers of their children, so what should they care if the guys mess : to perform their sentences whichinduded community service and a fine to the court. around elsewhere? Andwhat of Shawn? ¯ Orr and Beauchamp also stated that it is It’s unlikely thathis boyfriendwas jealous ¯ typical in assaults of this type for the because of evoluationary womes that a ~ victims to receive compensation for their rival would make him pregnant. ¯ We could argue that our bodies have an ¯ losses due to the assault, and that they inbnilt heritage of emotions, includln. ¯ specifically requested compensation from theDistrictAttomeys, see Congress, p.14 jealously, no matter who are lovers happen �¯ ¯ Bernhardt, Guy Logsdgn, CliftonTaulbert, Eddie Faye Gates, C.J. Cherryh, Rich ¯ Fisher and folksinger Michael Martin ." Murphey. Info: 594-8215. ¯ Alsoin Oct. the Performing Arts Center Trust presents Sabella, featuring"global" ¯ music on Oct. 2 and on Oct. 8th & 9th, TPACT’s Celtic series (now so popular ¯ that they’ve added 2nd performances, and alas, forgotten their friends who helped ¯ them before the Celtic series got so ¯ popular) will start with Natalie ¯ MacMaster, fiddler extraordinaire. I don’t think any of the Celtic series artists I’ve ¯ seen have ever been bad, so check it out. And on that same busy weekend, both ." ¯ Tulsa’s and Oklahoma City’s Gay ¯ communities are presenting arts events in ¯ honor of National Coming Out Day. ¯ OUTART’99inOKCwillfeature 10new ." release films, two plays, a music special ¯ and visual artists. The Gala opening, A ¯ Black Tie Dinner and A Movie, Friday, ¯ Oct. 8th will present the southwest : premiere of the film"Edge of Seventeen" ¯ as well as a buffet dinner and wine bar. ¯ For more information or tickets, see the ¯ advertisement on page 16, or call 405¯ 752-2762 or 800-722-8866. ¯ That same busy weekend, TOHR and ¯ the Gay Community Center will hold ¯ TOHR’s first film festival at the Center. ¯ The first film will be shown at 7:30pro on Thursday~ Oct. 7 with films also being ¯ shown on Fri. evening and on Sat. ¯ afternoon and evening. Call 743-4297 for ¯ more information. : It also appears that local presentation of ¯ Gay and Lesbian films may show back up on a big screen. AMC Southroads 20 will ¯ present a Lesbian themed film, "Better ¯ Than Chocolate" on Sept. 10, and a Gay ¯ film, "Trick" on Oct. 1st. The key to ¯ getting these on aregular basis is to support the theatre that takes the risk. S o vote with your dollars ! but wondered if the average fantasy reader would follow that far - they have, and gladly for the most part. I get letters from straight guys saying essentially "I shouldn’t be ok with this, but I am!" even if it makes them a little uncomfortable any-way. Others have said it made it easier to talk with Gay relatives. Ifmy stories have any social value, perhaps it’s .that. Mostly, I just follow my muse where~she leads and hope it works. JC: And how have you managed to do it so well? LF: Love is love. JC: And how do you keep track ofall the .intrigues? My head is spinningfrom what l’ve gotten through in "Traitor’s Moon!" LF: Copious notes and charts on the wall. I see that Bantam (though they cut my glossary, now available on.my web page) left a blank page at the ends. I hope people will use it for notes, like I did reading "Trainspotting." The next book, ’‘The Bone Doll’s Twin" goes back in history to one of the. Skalan queens, but there will be more Nightnmners, too. A&S are already prowling restlessly about my brain, hungry for more work. JC: 1 understand you’re appearing at Gaylaxicon, a sci-fi convention for Gay and Lesbian fans of the genre in Alexandria, Virginia. LF: Gaylaxicon promises to be a lot of fun. I’ve had a lot of contact with the organizers and they are simply the best I’ve ever dealt with. Hope to teach a writing workshop for them while I’m there. JC." Have you heard of Loreena McKennitt? Her music and appearance reminds me of some of your "aurenfaie" characters. LF: Aurenfaie? I’ll claim her. "Mask and Mirror" is my personal favorite of all her disks. My husband is a great fan of female vocalists and has amassed quite a collection, which I dip into. (My tastes seem torunmore to GeorgeThoroughgood and Melissa Etheridge a lot of the time, along with some Leonard Cohen and Rufus ¯ Wainwright, a new discovery.) ¯ JC : And on that musical note, l ’d like to say thank you to Lynn for sharing some of ¯ her inspirations, writings, and - methods ¯¯ behind the madness’ with us. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ !ts 51 st season wiihpianist John Browning m a program featuring Brahms, ¯ Tchaikovsky and Berlioz. Prior to the concert at 7pm, long time radio man and ¯ the voice of the OK Mozart Festival ¯ (Simon Estes - he’s the bestest!) Edward ¯ Dumit will lead "Musical Moments" a pre-concert discussion. For more ¯ information, call the Phil at 747-7445. ¯ Also at the end of Sept. Heller Theatre, one of Tulsa’s theatre companies that actually interested in newer works (as opposed-to recycling the same old stuff, again and again and again), are presenting "Dallas to LaGuardia R.T." on Sept. 2325 and Sept.. 30-OcL 2, a play about a couple that misses a flight and winds up invited to stay .over with complete strangers. Later in Oct. Heller will present "Fortinbras" revisiting Hamlet in a contemporary political context. ¯ Early in Oct. the Oklahoma Center for Poets and Writers presents its Celebration ¯ of Books on Oct. 1-2 at OSU-Tulsa with ¯ a remarkable assemblage of artists, even ¯ including some Gay ones. Some names include Michael Wallis, William . FRE 100% LOCAL Per o a M use code 393 Megaplnone aoes not prescreen callers & assumes no ]JabJlit~ for personal meetings. 24hr Customer Service. 18+ :~nly. © lggg Pe None was ever received. In fact,-this became an issue in Orr’s Congressional testimony. Rep. Mary Bonn, widow of the late Sonny Bonn, attacked err and Beauchamp saying that the Tulsa District Attorneys office claimed that they had been uncooperative with th DA and had not filled out the forms necessary to receive compensation..Orr and Beauchamp counter that not only-did they not receive the forms, thry did not even know of their existance until Bonn raised the issue. Commenting to TFN, Human Rights Campaign Political Director Winnie Stachelberg said, "I urge "the Gay and Lesbian community of Tulsa to act now in support of this bill (HCPA), so that incidents like these are prevented .... i~t is important that the; Gay and LeSbian community of Oklahoma is protected at a federal if not at a state level.’" Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Need a Coming Out Support Group? 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If nothing .else, ~ v~.:~ parents can ask to have their , excused from a lesson the-: find that "It’s Elementary" will not be shown . objecttonable: SaysP~,~shall, Mywarm g to parents would be: Beware.’ " to students - are atadskittishabouttalking In Oklahoma, there’s been no public about, their plan. They confirm that the " outcry about "It’s Elementary" because district’s 589principals will view thefilm beginning in September and receive a " the Oklahoma Educational Television ¯ Association has chosen not to air the piece. copy of the Video for their schools - a plan funded by Lesbian tennis star Billie Jean " Malcomn Wall, executive director of King. But several teachers who vealready " OEFA, claimed that OETA’s decision toair theprogram was not based onthe viewed the film on their-own declined to : not content, i.e. Gay & Lesbian issues but be interviewed out of feat of criticism, A city official who helped get the film " rather that OETA is offered far more - in part due to backing from chicago " programs thaJa it can ,possibly. air. He characterized it as.a routine passing over. Mayor Richard Daley ~ .into the dis~t was more forthcoming. She says the " However, Wallis relatively new at OETA decision was aimed at fostering tolera9,ce ¯ and the association has had a history of and, in turn, preventing violepce ag..mns, t " mostly refusing to air programs with Gayand Lesbian students. "It’s pmcttcm. Lesbian and Gay content. One notable Itmakes good sense. It’s about safety_, for " exception was the airing of an award children.Idon’tthinkanybody,regardless winning program, "Breaking the Code" of their religious background, can argue ¯ about the Gay man who broke the Nazi messagecodeinWorldWarlI. However, with that," says Mary Morten, Daley’s ¯ liaison on Gay and Lesbian issues. " OETA first refused to air this program School officials in San Francisco, who ] and did so only after being pressured by are also using "It’s Elementary" have ¯ Oklahoma City’s Gayly Oklaho_.man gone as far as imposing a ban on anti-Gay newspaper and Tulsa Family News. "they There’s no charge to slurs. "Go stand on a playground. I " also waited to air the program later in the create an ad! guarantee you that you will hear within " summer of 1998 after the Oklahoma ......... ’Oh , that’s so Gay ¯ ¯ Legislature was out of session, instead of Call Runutes raos ~ay in" ~,,, What at(you a fag? says KevinGogin, airing in May or June like many PBS 1-800-326-MEET director of support services for sexual : affiliates did. SMALL TOWN G!RL minority youth for the San Francisco ." Unified School District who regularly ¯ 36-year:old BF, looking speaks to teachers and principals for a F, to have a good nationwide. ¯ DO YOU time with and maybe Moves to address Gay and Lesbian " Schmitzarrivedhometofindthenoteand FULFILL MY FAN- WHAT issues in the classroom are not, however, " light in his doorway from Amedure. TASY Straight-acting WANT? Bi-curious more. 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Text Any textual data included in the document United +AmericanAirlines To Offer Partners’ Benefits WASHINGTON - In a bold move with global ramifications for Gay and Lesbian workplace equality, United Airlines - the world’s largest airline - became the first major U.S. airline to offerfull domestic partner benefits, according to a press release from the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). United Airlines announced the decision on July 30. ’q’his enormous victory will have a global impact in helping to create fair and equitable workplaces for Gay and Lesbian people," noted HRC Executive Director Elizabeth Birch in a statement released early in August. "We congratulate Unitedforjoining therapidly growing legion of compames who realize that treating all employees with dignity andrespect is goodfor business. United has definitely earned their wings. This is a noble challenge to other carriers to now align their benefits packages to reflect fairness and equality for every employee." As a result of United’s action, Equal Benefits Advocates, a San Francisco-based group, declared an end to the educational boycott of United. That organization called the.boycott in Febrtmry to .raise public awareness of United’s lawsuit, see United, p. 2 Arizona Legislator Takes On "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" by Melanie Carroll, Associated Press Writer NEW YORK - "Don’t ask, don’t tell?" Doesn’t work. ¯ That’s the word from an openly Gay Arizona legislator " and Army Reserve officer being investigated for : dischargeby the military. State Rep. Steve May,inNew ¯ York recently for a meeting of the Log Cabin Republicans, a Gay political group, called for an end to . the military’s policy on Gays. "A.t a time when recruiting and retentionis becoming ¯ a serious problem, and some members of Congress are . discussing a reinstatement of the draft, how much " longer will we degrade our military readiness by ¯ discharging competent, qualified, trained men and ¯ women?... This policymustcome to an end,"May said. " A spokesman for the Army Reserve confirmed an " investigation of May is under way; it started Aug. 7. ¯ ’¢foday I am facing discharge proceedings because I ¯ have refused to lie about who I am," May said. While never discussing his sexual orientation with military ¯ officials, he was open about it when seeking election ¯ last year. May, who still serves in the Army Reserve once a month, saidhe willlikely be discharged when the " Army’s investigation is complete. - ¯ Sen. John McCain, a former POWl said thereis room : in the GOP for openly Gay _r,ep,r.,e.sen,t~tives, but,add,~e~,’ " that besupports [he fiiiiitary s ’dOn t ask~ don t tell’ " policy. "We should in our party refrain from ¯ discrimination in any form,.M.cC.aan.satd. As-forMay, : "he’s a fine man," McCain added. "I have the greatest respect for him?’ Yet, as a member of the:mili~,May is subject to constraints growing out of the natur~ ~t~the military service, McCain said. Hesaid that sincesoIdiers ¯ must live in place and with people not of their own . : choosing, the policy regarding a soldierrs Sexual _" orientation makes sense. Stacey Sobel, a senior attorney with the Washingtonbased Service Members Legal Defense Network, is representing May against the Army Reserve. see Officer, p. 2 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tuleans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations Congressi,onal Committee Hears Tulsans On Hate Crimes WASHINGTON-TheHuman Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation’s largest national Lesbian and Gay political organization, with members throughout the country, brought Tulsa hate crime victims Tony Orr and his partner Tim Beaucamp to Washington in early August to testify?before the hearing ot the House Judiciary committee on the .faced for a stonger federal response to hate crimes, specifically asking the House of Representatives to pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA). InSeptember 1997, Orr and Beaucamp were standing at an ATM at State Bank in the Brookside neighborhood when three men approached them. They called the two men "faggots" and proceeded to brutally beat them. Orr suffered a concussion and received stitches for the many gashes onhis head. Bcauchampreceivedpermanentnerve damage after the orbital bone around his eye was broken. Speaking at a press conference before the Congxessional hearing, HRCexecutive director Elizabeth Birch introduced Orr, saying, "we urge Congress to listen to the courageous men and women who came forward today to speak ofthe unspeakable hate cr~mes that irreversibly changed their lives.., it is clear that hate crimes are a national problem and now is the time for Congress to embrace real solutions. The House should follow the Senate’s lead and pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA)." To demonstrate the reai-life impact of these crimes, Birch introduced "A Decade of Violence: Hate Crimes Based on Sexual Orientation," a newly published report by the Human Rights Campaign and the Southern Poverty Law Center. The report details the rise in hate crimes and the impact it has on its victims and society. Tulsan Orr noted, "people like us in communities all across this country need some place to turn seeCongress,p.lO Tony Orr & Tim Beauchamp ¯ ’Jenny Jones’ Murderer Guilty ¯ PONTIAC, Mich. (AP) - A jury rejected a claim that Jonathan ¯ Schmitz was driven to kill a Gay.acquaintance because of his unrelenting and unwanted advances, starting by revealing a crush on a talk show. "If he was Gay and a woman had approached him that way, would it have been right for him to kill her because she put anote and a flashing light in his door?" askedjuror Kimberley Manney. Schmitzwas convicted inlate August of second-degree murder in the death of Scott Amedure,who had appeared with him on ’q’he Jenny Jones Show." It marked the second time that a jury hadfoundhim guilty of that charge. The first conviction was later overturned"We wanted to send a message that it’s not all right to act this way," juror Ted Hight said. Schmitz’s second trial avoided the debate over the role played by Ms. Jones’ show, which was amajor part of acivil trial against the-show and Schmitz’s first murder trial. Instead, the jury debated Schmitz’s state of mind. As the verdict was read, Schmltz, 29, hung his head, stared down and clasped his hands under his chin. Schmitz’s first conviction for second-degree murder in 1996 resulted in a sentence of 25 to 50 years in prison; the Verdict was thrown out on appeal due to an error in jury selection. Oakland County Assistant Prosecutor Donna Pend~rgast Raid ~he Would ask for the same penalty when Schmitz is sentenced Sept. 14. "I always knew if thejury followed the law it would come back with this verdict," she said Schmi tz’s attorney, Jerome Sabbota, sought a le~s~r verdict Of manslaughter, saying that Amedure continued to pursue Schmitz to the point Schmitz "lost all reason." The segment never aired. He said Amedure lied to Schmi tz about the show, entitled "Same- Sex Secret Crushes," and set Schmitz off byleaving a suggestive note and blinking construction lightonhis door. Amedure "never let up and he never backed off. He created a situation when any reasonable person would have snapped," Sabbota said. The facts in the case were not disputed in the four-day trial. On ¯ March 6,1995,Amedure revealed his crush on’q’heJenny Jones Show," along with a sexual fantasy. Schmitz told him he was ." heterosexual. The two flew back to Detroit together and stayed ." out late drinking with a mutual friend, Donna Riley. : Onthe morning of March 9, 1995, see Jones, p. 15 ¯ Community Center News ¯ TULSA - Tulsa’s Gay Community Center and its parent organization, Tulsa Oldahomans for Human ¯ Rights (TOHR) have announced a full schedule of ¯ events for the next several months. On Sept. 11, ¯ TOHRandParents, Families &Friends ofLesbians &Gays (PFLAG) will hold aGarage Sale to benefit ¯ both groups. The sale will run from 7am to 4pm at ¯ 5303 E. 27th Place atDarlington. Donations of sale ¯ items may be left at the Center up to Sept. 8. Later, on Sept. 25, TOHR along with many ¯ others will host a Feast for Friends dinner which ¯ supports THENAMES PROJECT, theAIDS Quilt ; organization. TOHR’s dinner at the "Double T ; Ranch" will begin at 5pro and a $15 donation is ¯ requested. Those who cannot attend a dinner can ¯ join the dessert finale at the Southern Hills Marriott ; at 8:30. Into: TOHR, 743-4297 or THE NAMES ; PROJECT, 748-3111. ¯ Along with the First Annual Film Festival on Oct: 7-9 (see TFN’s Entertainment column which begins on page 8for more details as well as the Film Festival ad on page 8), the Center will host ¯ TOHR’s first Coming Out Fair "Discovering ¯ Yourself" from noon to 6pro on Sat. Oct. 9th. ; TOHR is also kicking off a new project, the CommUnity Pages, which is a Gay & Lesbian ; "yellow" or "pink" pages, or directory to Gay and ¯ Gay-friendly businesses and organizations. ; Tulsa formerly had such a directory called "Gay Tulsa" which was published by former resident, Kharma Amos. Amos, however, moved to the ; Northwest to attend seminary and for a number of ; years, no directory has been published. (Editor’s ¯ note:TulsaFamilyNewsalsoprovidesfreelistings ¯ in its directory to those who request them.) ¯ TOHR volunteers will be soliciting advertisers ¯ this fall and hope to publish a community directory ; early next year. Those interested in being listed or ¯ advertising should contact TOHR board member, ¯ Kerry Lewis, at POB 2687, Tulsa 74101 or by email at pride_center@yahoo.corn ¯ Wichita: No GaysAIIowed Tulsa Big Bros: No Prob. ¯ WICHITA/TULSA (AP/TFN) When the ¯ Sedgwick County Big Brothers Big Sisters went ¯ asking for mentors for a new program, everyone ¯ was invited to participate. Everyone exceptmembers ¯ of Ten Percent, a campus Gay and Lesbian group. ¯ Big Brother Big Sisters of Sedgwick County ¯ began its search for mentors by sending letters to ¯ Wichita State University student organizations. ¯ Thoughit wasn’t supposed to,Ten Percentreceived ¯ a letter soliciting volunteers. The letter said Big : Brothers Big Sisters clients were "waiting for a ¯ mentor like you." However, Ten Percent, which describes itself as : a"campus organization for Lesbian, Bisexual,.Gay : and Transgendered university students and their ¯ friends and allies," didn’t fit Big Brothers Big ¯ Sisters’ policy. The youth group does not allow ¯ Gay men or Lesbians to serve as mentors. ¯ Casey Ritchie, spokesman for Big Brothers Big : Sisters, said theletter was part of a mass mailing to ¯ all Wichita State University groups. "We simply ¯ feel it’s not in the best interest of the youths we : serve to put them in the middle of any potential ¯ controversy," Ritchie said. The letter was addressed to Chris Taylor, vice ¯ president of the 50-member group, whose name is ¯ based on studies that suggest that 10% of the : nation’s population is Gay. see 10%,p. 3 DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL p. $ US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 COMMUNITY CALENDAR P. 9 D-I-Y-D P. 11 DYKE PSYCHE P. 12 GAY STUDIES P. 1:3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Boston Willy’s Diner, !742 S. Boston Burger Sisters Restaurant, !545 S. Sheridan *Empire Bar, 1516 S. Peoria *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th *Gold Coast Coffee House. 3509 S. 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Harvard, #210 747-5466 *Living ArtSpace, 19 E Brady 585-1234 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd 584-3112 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 663-5934 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 664-2951 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 747-7672 Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo 838-7626 *Peace of Mind Bookstore, 1401 E.. 15 583-1090 The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor 743-4297 Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 747-593.2 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 834-0617 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921, 747-4746 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 749-6301 Patti Tay, Car Salesman 260-7829 *Tickled Pink, 3340 S. Peoria 697-0017 *Tulsa Book Exchange, 3749 S. Peoria 742-2007 *Tulsa Comedy Club; 6906 S. Lewis 481-0558 *Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard 835-5563 Fred Wdch, LCSW, Counseling 743-1733 *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 *All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 743-2363 Black & White, Inc. 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"It’ s ironic that his qualities ofintegrity and honesty got him elected in Arizona. ¯ Now thosequalitiesaregettinghimkicked ¯ out of the Army Reserve," Sobel said. ¯ Sobel added that since the implementation of"don’t ask, don’t tell," ¯ in 1994 the number of people discharged ¯ from the armed services has increased. ¯" "This demonstrates that the policy is not ¯ working," Sobel said. Lastyear the Army ¯ discharged 1,149 members of the armed ¯ fo.r..ccs ~or being G.ay~,ua.der. ’~do!~t. ask,. ~" don’Lt~ll." In 1~97, idi~lhw f6i~ 997 ~: ~eopte-0ut of die miii~_y. In 1994; 6i7 :,’. ~eople were dismissed. May, a lieutenant trained in nuclear, chemical and biological warfare defense, also is qualified as a paratrooper. He is second-in-command of the 348th Transportation Company. "The boycott was a success and now it’s over,;’ Jeff Sheehy, founder of Equal Benefits Advocates, told HRC. "We are grateful thatHRC supported this action;it really made a difference. Together, we liave sent amessage to corporateAmerica that this issue is important to our commlmity." "Wehave changed the world, and given that United is providing worldwide benefits, that is not hyperbole," said San Francisco Supervisor Mark Leno. "I want to commend and recognize HRC’s early and immediate support upon our request to honor the Equal Benefits Advocates in their designing of the boycott. Theboycott certainly played arole in the outcome, as did the courts." United’s domestic partner benefits package will offer a full range ofcoverage toGayandLesbian couples. Thesebenefits include medical and dental benefits, life insurance, pension survivor rights, bereavement and medical leave and flight discounts. Heterosexual domesticpartners will only receive non-economic benefits such as bereavement or medical leave and flight discounts. The decision will affect 97,000 United employees worldwide. According to the SanFrancisco Chronicle, the airline said their domestic partnership program will not go into effect until May. United came under heat from Gay and Lesbian advocates this year for.joining in a lawsuit to stop San Francisco from making them comply with a local ordinance that said they must offer domestic partner benefits in order to do business in the city. United argued that they did not have to comply with the ordinance because they were a national company that only had to follow federal government mandates. U.S. District Judge Claudia Wilkin recently ruled that the airlines had to provide "soft benefits" such as bereavement or medical leave. However, they did not have to offer employees economic benefits, such as pensions or health insurance. Theairlines, represented by the Air Transport Association, are appealing the ruling. Letters Policy Tulsa Family News welcomes letters on issues which we’ve covered or on ~ssues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phone numbers, or be hand delivered. 200 wordletters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be printed as is appropriate. Guest Editorial: Keeping Gay Kids Safe Too l~y Kerry Lobel, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force More than 50 million young people in grades K~ 12 trek back to school this month. They bring with them the concerns of their parents and their communities over the issue of school safety. Seeing the flood of back-to-school stories on the local news, I sense that something - or someone - is missing from this picture. Specifically, five million someones. That’s thenumber ofestimatednumberofGLBTQ (Gay, -Lesbian, Bisexual, transgendered or questioning) students in "our public schools. For them, safetyis aneveryday concern. Let’s consider some statistics: - 28% Of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual youth drop out of school because of harassment and verbal attacks, according to a study conducted by the U.S. DepartmentofHealth and Human services. - 22% ofboys and29% of girls perceived as Gay or Lesbian have reported physical attacks by students, according to another study by the same agency. -80% of Gay and Lesbian teens report feelings of severe social isolation at school, What can you do? Demand that your school dlStrlet adopt pollees that protect students and teachers from harassment and discrimination; p~-ovlde staff with workshops and training; support eurrio~la that includes information about the llv~s and contributions of GLBT people; and allow for the formation of Gay-Stralght Ai~’~anees. , . according to statistics provided by the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network. Right now, our nation is having a public discussion overwhat to do about violence in the schools. President Clinton held a summit. Columbine, Colorado officials put in place a policy of "zero tolerance" for harassment and taunting. Many are pointing fingers at the entertainment industry or the gunindustry or the Interact. Republicans and Democrats, in typical fashion, are pointing fingers at each other. But once again, our voices are left out of the debate. Our voices are enriched by painful experience, for who among us can forget the frequency with which epithets like "fag" and "dyke" are casually tossed around on the playground, in the school cafeteria, inthe locker room, Nevertheless, airlineindustry experts expect Other airlines to follow United s lead~ ¯ even in the school classroom. ¯¯ What can be done? The good news is progress can- and is - being made to ¯ protect our schoolchildren. In the state of New York, for ." example, legislators this summer filed (but have not yet ¯ passed) the Dignity for All Students Act, which would ¯" direct schools to adopt policies to create a safe school environment for all students. The proposal would revise : state curriculum requirements to include human relations ¯ education. This curriculum Would enable students to ¯" :foster an appreciation- of people of different sexmd ¯ orientations as well as different racial or religious backgrounds. In the state of California, legislators defeated similar legislation by one vote. That was disappointing, but the bill progressed further than ever before, and I amhopeful California and New York will join Connecticut, Massachusetts and Wisconsinin protecting their students. Across the country, hundreds of school districts have examined ways to keep young people safe. Perhaps some ofyoureading this columnhavejoined in this effort. I like to say that equality begins at home- and there’s no better place to join the battle for GLBT equality thzn at your local school district.Groups such as the National Youth Advocacy Coalition (www.nyacyouth.org) and the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (www.glsen.org) are already working across the country to improve the lives of GLBTQ youth. What can you do? Demand that your school district adopt polices that protect students and teachers from harassment and-discrimination; provide staff with workshops and training; support curricula that includes information about the lives and contributions of GLBT people; and allow for the formation of Gay-Straight alliances and other clubs that address homophobia and heterosexism in school. As the award-wiuning documentary producer Debra Chasnoff ("It’s Elementary") taught us, children are not bornwith bigotry andintolerance- they learn it. Wouldn’t it be wonderful, if we used back-to-school season as a platform to address safety for our children? Five million children are waiting for us to act. Founded in 1973, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force works to eliminateprejudice, violenceandinjustice against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexualandtransgenderedpeople at the local, state and national level. Aspart ofa broader socialjustice movementforfreedom,justice andequality, NGLTF is creating a world that respects and celebrates the diversity ofhuman expression and identity Where all people mayfully.participate in society. According to the Chronicle, a spokesman for the Air Transport Association said that although none of the group’s members except United is offering the benefits, they probably will, even as they press for appeal Just a few days after United Airlines announced ~ts decision, AmericanAirlines officials informed theHuman Rights Campaign that they would become the second major U.S airline to offer domestic partner benefits to Gay and Lesbian employee~ worldwide. -.HI~ ~ s Birch~said of,American Airlines’ decision, "W~ are witnessing history and the beginning of a new era of fairness for Gay and Lesbian airline workers. United’s landmark decision has clearly had a domino effect, where walls.of discrimination-.are:falling each day." And Birch added, "American Airlines is HRC’s official airline and we ate enormously proud that they have taken this important step." American’s domestic partner benefits package will offer a full range of coverage to the partners of Gay and Lesbian workers. These benefits include medical and dental insurance, life insurance, pension survivor fights, bereavement and medical leave and flight discounts. The decision will affect more than 100,000 American and American Eagle employees worldwide. American and United Airlines join a greater trend in corporate America where employers are increasingly offering domestic partner benefits to Gay and Lesbian employees. Overall more than 2,800 U.S. employers currently offer domestic partner benefits, according to HRC’s WorkNetprojectwhich tracks this trend. Currently 70 Fortune 500 companies offer these benefits, including AT&T, Chase Manhattan Bank Corp., General Mills, IBM, Mobil Oil,TimeWarner, and Walt DisneyCompany. In addition, more than 99 colleges and universities, 73 state and local governments and hundreds of non-profit organizations and trade umons are currently offering domestic partner benefits, according to HRC’s WorkNet. I-IRC’ s WorkNet project, which also assists companies in implementing domestic partner benefits and with other workplace issues, worked closely with GLEAM, the Gay employee group atAMRCorporation, the parentcompany, of American Airlines in formulating the policy. Taylor said the group would use the incident to try to get Big Brothers Big Sisters’ policy changed. However, in contrast to the Wichita group, Tulsa’s Big Brothers Big Sisters has no "’across the board" ban on Lesbians or Gay men acting as mentors. The group’s spokesperson, Martha Desmond, Community Relations Director, did note that the issue probably would come up in the screening interview and would be shared with the child’s parent. She said she was not aware of the issue having arisen before. According to executive director, John Jacobs, the agency’s overriding concern had to be the best interest of the child, especially since most of the children served by the program may already have challenges which they face. Also, Jacobs stated that while a parent might veto a potential mentor because he or she is Gay, a parent, for obvious reasons, may also chose to take into consideration matching race, or religion or a nnmber of Other factors as well. ¯ Call me foolish or [ naive if you llke, but I ¯ still hope {or an Oklahoma that ¯ could stand up to any ¯ other state in our nation in justice, in equal opportunity, in : decent education. I ¯ believe our people are ¯ up to it. I just wish we ¯ had leaders who were. by Tom Neal, editor & publisher A few years ago, my father and I prevailed upon Sen. Don Nickles to meet with us about Gay &Lesbian issues, and we trekked over to Oklahoma City one warm winter day. We figured with one conservative Republ,ican and one progressive Democrat, one straightman and one Gay one, we were presenting a bipartisan view on civil rights issues. We were scheduled for 15 minutes and gotnearly -30.......... When all was said and done, Oklahoma’s senior senator, hardly surprisingly had not changed his mindone little iota, though he was quite civil. All we got out of the meeting was the c~mpliment that "you are a good spokesman for your cause." Gee thanks. So it’s not as though I really thought any constituent comment made to his office would make a difference, but periodically I like to try to bdieve in our American democracy: that if you have faith and speak the truth, that eventually right will prevail, despite the ample evidence ofmostofourhistory whereminority Americans are involved, be we Black, Indian, Female or Gay, or any combination thereof. But after reading one or another bits of tripe from the senator about the recess uomination by Pres. Clinton of openly Gay ambassador James Hormel, I figured I should at least not let Mr. Nickles believe that all Oklahomans agreed with him. I called. I left a~ message. I didn’t think much more about it. That was until I got a form letter from our senator saying how he agreed withmy position and in which letter proceeded to trash Hormel. Obviously that was not my position. Now mind you, this sort of inverse idiocy ~s just the sort of thing we’ve come to expect from Oklalaoma’s jtmior senator, Jim Inhofe, of pornographic office computer fame. Sen. Inhofe, who sings the praises of private enterprise although he’s lived off the public dole most of his ilfe, ts reputed by thosein this town who should know. not to be particularly bright. And I can say from first hand experience, that he’s rude to constituents. So the simple incomp.etence of getting a constituent’ s~position enurely wrong is somewhat expected from his office. But from Nickles, we should be able to expect a bit more. But then again, I also still believe in democracy. So of course, I called again to ask if it’s possible for Nickles’ office to do better. Because surely, surely no matter how much evil been done in this state in one way or another, nothing could have been so bad that we deserve two Inhofes! Nickles" staff did begrudgingly ad~nit that maybe they should have gotten it right. But they made the claim that they really don’t have to represent all the c~tizens of Oklahoma, that all Nic.kles has to .do is ,to represent whatever he said in his campaign that gothim elected and that was enough. So forget about whatever you may have believed about representative democracy, about the need for elected officials to find solutio~as for all their constituents, it’s winner take all and the rest be damned. I can’t believe that this approach is in our state or nation’s best ~nterests. I believe that Americans and Oklahomans in particular, are fair-minded people who would respond to leaders who sought compromise and consideration for all instead of the "leaders" wehave who wallow in prejudice and bigotry to fill their campaign coffers and get elected (mind you, I’m not picking just on Republicans, too many Oklahoma Democrats are just as bad, the only difference is Democrats just don’t talk as dirty about you when they’re stabbing you in the back). Call me foolish or naive if you like, but I hope for an Oklahoma that could stand up to any other state in our nation injustice, in equal opportunity, in decent education. I believe our people are up to it. I just wish we had leaders who were. Colorado Springs Holds¯ Gay Pride Parade & Rally COLORADO SPRINGS, Cold¯ (AP)-Two-year-old : Kyle wore a T-shirt that said "I love my Gay ¯ mommies," and knows 25-year-old Jennifer " Porterfield as "mommy" and 32-year-old Becky " Lewton as "mama." Each year Porterfield gets a card ¯ on Mother’ s Day and Lewton gets breakfast in bed on "Becky’s Day." "We’re no different than a straight " family," Lewton says. "We argue about the same " stuff. Believe me." . " They were among.those p.articipating .in the. m,n,th " annual Colorado Spnngs PrideFest parade and ratly, " held on the last Sunday in August. At the end of the ¯ parade, police estimated between 3,500 and 4,500 ¯ people filled Acacia Park for a celebration sponsored " by the Pikes Peak Gay &Lesbian Community Center. " "We’reteachers. We’relawyers. We’reprofessional " pa,,,,,l~" Lewton said. "(The oarade) is certainly not ¯ s’~xV’t~l thing, and thats"- wha’t people think it is." About a dozen protesters, some holding placards i and a couple of them carrying crosses; stood at one ¯ street comer as the parade passed. Police reported no ¯ problems. The .rally capped a week that brought Gay.iss..ues into the headlines in Colorado Springs, including those triggeredby ameeting oftheNational Religious Focus on the Family Christian ministry xor aueg y "inflammatory" rhetoric about homosexuality. Focus respondedonSundayin~tfull-pagenewspaper ad that said its staff members who attended the conference had hopes of establ}shing dialogue but were blind-sided by the accusataon. Focus, and the Christian Coalition of Colorado, also had criticized Colorado Springs Mayor Mary ~Lou Makepeace for sigmng a proclamation recognizing Gay-Pride week. ButCity Councilman Richard Skorman marchedin the parade and told the crowd at the park the mayor would have faced controversy regardless of her response to PrideFest organizers’ request for the proclamation. The banners in the parade heralded civil,rights groups, support groups, Gay pageant winners and Gay-friendly churches, includingFirstCongregational Church, All Souls Unitarian Church and Pikes Peak Metropolitan Community Church. The handful of protesters staked out the no,rthw.e,st comer of Platte Avenue and Tejon Street wlaere me six-block parade terminated. Parade participants occasionally taunted and blew kisses to the protesters who called for the marchers to "’repent." Missoula Gets First Gay Community CenterAgain MISSOULA (AP) - Wanting to show they’re "just next-door people," volunteers will open a downtown Gay and Lesbian community center here Wednesday¯ Founders of the Wes tern MontanaGay and Lesbian Community Center have Seen raising money for the project since last fall and now have about $19,000 from 50 paid members. But finding an affordable rent in Missoula’ s visible down~own axea wa.s ~ bigger challenge than raising the money, supporters said. With a rent budget of $800 a month and their goal focused on downtown, themembers havebeencombing thereal-estate market formonths:: ...... -, ’ -: - -’ ’-~. ":. What they ended up with is a two-room office state wi~ hardly=the room for a dance or even a public lectfire. But it’s a start, said Cat Carrel, one of the lcadera~pf the effort. ’qlais is a start-up space," she,, said,"and itrsa good first start-up. Wecan get goln~. Missoula last had a Gay and ,L~,,sbian commumty ~enter during the first half of the 80s, when the nowdefunct organization."Out in Montana" hadoffices in the Wilma Building in downtown Missoula. After 15 years without asocial and service-oriented center; the town’ s Gays and Lesbians wanted aplace to meet that was not a bar, said Randy Chancy, executive director of the Missoula AIDS Council. The center’s fledgling efforts had a wide variety of allies, from student groups at the Uni~iersity of Montana to several area churches. Early in the effort, the center got a $1,000 grant from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The money will go toward a Healthy Lifestyles Program, which .will include health and mental health support serwces, stress reduction and education about sexually transmitted infections. The Gay Outdoors group, Gays and Straights Together, and other organizations will also use the community center as their headquarters. ’°I’he idea is to have our space available for other groups, and to use our office for as a resource to bring other groups together," said volunteer Casey Charles. The group has also drawn a $5,000 grant from Broadway Cares, a fund of ~the actors’ equity organization inNew York. It willhelp starta speakers’ bureau and foster work on HIV prevention. The center will have security measures in place, but its members stress they’ve had no trouble with opposition to the center. OtherMontanacities have services forGay, Lesbian, bisexual and transgender people, but the. closest community centers are in Spokane and Boise. The group is working on bylaws and hopes to have a board of directors in place by the end of the year. Utah Bans Unmarried Foster Parents OGDEN, Utah (AP) -The s tate Division of Child and Fnmily Services has adopted apolicy to bannnmarried couples from providing state-sponsored foster care. The new policy, adopted Friday, August 27th, by a5- 2 vote by the DCFS board, defies standards set by the Child Welfare League of America, a professional association representing more than 1,000 voluntary and public agencies. Board chairman Scott Clark, the drivingforcebehind the decision, said unmarried, unrelated adults living together abuse children more often than married men and women. "I read in the newspaperjust last night of two cases in which boyfriends abused the children in their girlfriends’ homes," Clark said. In the past, Clark has also referred to Gay couples - who, because they cannot m.ar~,,_, w!ll be b~ar~,e~,, from fostercare-as contributing to gendercontusion of children in their care. Only twoboardmembers, Regnal GarffandVirgrnia Higbee, opposed Clark’s recommendations. They argued the new rule would narrow the field of foster parents, who are already outnumbered nearly 2-to- 1 by children in state custody who need homes. Garff, a retired juvenile court judge, also criticized Clark’s example because neither of the cases sited involved foster children. "I am relterating my opposiuon to this whole thing.., that example is poorly conceived and poorly argued," he said. The changebrings matches similar state restncuons ¯ passed earlier this year for adoptive parents. But groups like the Child Welfare League of ¯ America, the American Bar Association and the ¯ American Civil Liberties Union have opposed such policies. Opponents say too many quesuons are left ¯ unanswered by the policy. For example, there is no ¯ provision for common-law marriages, which go into ¯¯ effect after seven 3,ears. And it is unclear if the rules apply when an unrelated adult rents living space from ¯ a foster or adoptive paxent. ¯ The Child Welfare League is so staunch ih its ¯ opposition that the association recently sent DCFS Director Ken Patterson aletter asking its end°rsement ¯ be removed from the agency’s po!icy manual...Th,e ¯ board gwiftly a~ounrt0datedthat reituestb~removing ¯ thephrase that refers toDCFS policy as "in accordance with the standards of the Child Welfare League of ¯ America." ¯ Gay Pastor’s Church : Work Continues in Ames ¯ ¯ AMES, Iowa (AP) -Though technically an outcast in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, Steve ¯ Sabin’s ministry continues at Lord of Life Lutheran Church. The ELCA has removed Sabin from its roster of ] ministers because he has a Gay parmer. 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Cincinnati. 425-7882 Saint John 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Trinity 501 S. Cincinriati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You earlier this month voted to keep its ride requiring homosexual ministers to remain celibate. "My call right now is ministry at Lord of Life," Sabin said. "I’m going to stop holdingmy breath for the ELCA to come along." When Sabin was.removed from the church’s list of ordained ministers last year, the 150-member congregation supported him. By keeping him as their pastor, the congregation risks .expulsion from the While Bishop Philip Hougen of the Southeastern Iowa Synod said he is "uncomfortable" with Sabin as Lord of Life’s minister, he has not asked the Synod Council to expel the congregation. ’To remove them in,order tomakesome sort ofpoint about purity seems t0be~to benot worth the effort," Hougen said. "I don’t want to cause any more pain." At the Churchwide Assembly earlier this month in Denver, ELCA leaders passed a resolution that reaffirmed previous assembly statements that committed the church to continuing discussion of the issue of ordination of Gays and Lesbians. "How long do you have to keep studying it?". Sabin asked last week. Sabin, who has two daughters, was ordained as a minister in 1985 andbecame pastor at the Lord of Life Church inAmes later that year. He was married at the time, but the 10-year marriage ended i.n 1990. Sabin began living with Karl von Uhi abont four years ago. Former Lesbian Couple Must Share Custody GOLDEN, Colo. (AP) - A district judge has ordered a former Lesbian couple to share custody of a 10- year-old girl they raised, but ruled the youngster must live in New York with her biological mother during the school year. Jefferson County DistrictJudge Christopher Munch said he based the decision on what he considered the best interests of the child. The youngster will spend summers and school vacations in Colorado. He noted she will be able to make friends and attend a neighborhood school in Albany, but if she remains in Colorado, she will have to commute daily from Aurora to Jefferson County, rougtfly a ’40-mile round trip, Munch said. "(Gift M) will be living in a race middle-class, rural to suburban home with her morn and stepdad," Munch said. Thejudge emphasized that he did not consider the past rdationship of the two women or their sexual orientation when he made the decision. Identifiedin court papers as "Gift M," the youngster was raised by Leaune Bueker, her "psychological" mother, and Kelly Cunningham, her bio1ogicat mother, until the two women separated two years ago. The womenwere awardedjoint custody in February 1998, but the arrangement became complicated when Ms. Cunninghammarried Michael Naylor andmoved to Albany. Ms. Bueker remains single. Mrs. Naylor "was pleased with the decision. "The judge gave appropriate (onsiderat~on to the facts and came up with a. decision that was difficult to make," said attorney Ron Litvak. Ms. Bucker declined comment. Sen. Hatch Apologizes to Blacks But Not To Gays SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - Sen. Orrin Hatch said Wednesday hehad been "inarticulate" and apologized to NAACP officials for a statement in which he compared Gay civil rights with black issues. . The Utah Republican, who is a GOP presidential candidate, came under fire earlier this month for saying,"People of color can’t do anything about their color." Hatch continued: "I do believe Gay people have a choice to live within the legal rules or not. That’s why we have civil-rights laws to protect African-Americans from discrimination." JeanettaWilliams, presidentof the SaltLakebranch of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, called Hatch’s remark "a poor articulation of what he was trying to say." Heather Barney, a Hatchspokeswoman, said Hatch "apologized for being inarticulate." "He did note that he was coming from a strictly legal perspective, that there is judicial precedent that the courts have treated race as distinct from sexual orientation, which is the point h~ was making," Barney said. Darin Hobbs of the Gay and Lesbian Political Action Committee in Salt Lake said Hatch did the right thing by apologizing to the NAACP. Next, he saidHatch shouldapologize to Utah’s Gaycommunity. "The senatoris unable to recognize the commonalities between homophobiaandracism," Hobbs said. "Both are bigotries rooted in fear and ignorance." Williams and Edward J. Lewis, president of the NAACP tri-state conference for Utah, Nevada and Idaho, said they felt Hatch’s’apology was sincere. They were scheduled to meet with Hatch at 1 p.m. but di’dn’t arrive at his Salt~Lake office until-an hour later. Hatch pushed back other meetings and talked with them for 45 minutes. "The importance of this meeting was we established a need to sit down and have a dialogue with him," Lewis said. Williams said she also discussed concerns about Hatch’s voting record on civil-rights issues. She said Hatch made no promises but agreed to consider the NAACP’s views. Hatch and Sen. Bob Bennett, RUtah, received F’s in the NAACP’s latest congressional report cards. Also, Bennett apologized to theNAACPfor saying Texas Gov. George W. Bush would win the GOP presidential nomination unless "some woman comes forward, let’s say some black woman ~omes forward, with an illegitimate child that he fathered." Comparing the remarks by the two senators, Lewis’ said: "On,e, was more severe, but they were both in the same pie. Williams and Lewis said Hatch and his wife, Elaine, are lifelong NAACPmembers. Hatch co-sponsored a bill to award civil-rights pioneer Rosa Parks the Congressional Gold Medal, whichis Congress’ highest honor. Barney said Hatch has enjoyed a good relationship with the NAACP. "His door has always been open to Jeanetta and the NAACP," she said. "They meet regularly and he is proud of some of the things he has been able to accomplish which benefit minority communities in Utah." Hatch has previously raised the ire of Gay civilrights groups. In 1988, he called the Democratic Party "’the party of homosexuals; they are the party of abortion." InJune, he told delegates to the Republican state convention they could be proud because "we don’t have the Gays and Lesbians with us." Gay Couple Murdered After Recording Message REDDING, California (AP) - Two brothers killed a Gay couple after forcing them to record an answering machine message saying they had suddenly become ill and were leaving town for medical help, authorities say. Benjamin Williams, 31, and James Willianas, 29, could face the death penalty ifconvicted of murdering Gary Matson, 50, and Winfield Mowder, 40. The men were found shot to death in their bed July 1. in rural Happy Valley near Redding, northeast of San Francisco. The suspects have pleaded innocent. According to the court documents, sheriff’s deputies went to the victirrisr home after Matson’s relatives thought the answering machine message sounded forced and odd, and may have been someone else’s voice. The message said the. victims were headed to San Francisco to see "a specialist friend"for medical help and would return "in about a week." "Off the message, it’s evident that the person who recorded themessageis under distress andwas possibly forced to make the recording," officers said. In the background, another voice can be heard saying, "just calm down." Based on information from Matson’s father and brother, investigators said the message was recorded "very dose" to the time of the slayings. Thedocuments were unsealed following a legal challenge by several news organizations. Evidence in the brothers’ homes also allegedly links themto the arson ofthree California synagogues. Those fires caused more than $1 million in damages. Authorities also found handouts from the World Church of the Creator, a white supremacist group, which preaches extreme racial and religious views. AIDS Deaths Decline ATLANTA (AP) - Two years after powerful new drugs brought a sharp drop in AIDS deaths nationwide, new government figures released today show the declinein AIDS deaths slowed sharply a year later. AIDS killed 17,047 people in the United States last year - a decline of 20% from 1997. From 1996 to 1997, the drop in deaths was a much more dramatic 42%, which health officials attributed to the effectiveness of new drugs. "As we anticipated, we are now seeing the first signs ofa slowing in this trend,’" said Dr. Helene Gayle, director of HIV prevention for-the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, said during the National HIV Prevention Conference. "In a period of only two years, new combination therapies cut the annual level of death in half," she said. "But for the time being, it appears that much of the benefit of these new therapies has beenrealized." In 1995, 49,351 people died from AIDS in the United States. By 1996, that dropped to 36,792, and the number was down to 21,222 in 1997. TheCDClisted several possible causes for the slowdown in reductions of AIDS deaths. Most people who know they have HIV are already being treated, Gayle said. Drug resistance among some AIDS patients causes the treatment to fail, and other patients fail to keep up with, the complicatedjuggling of pills they,have to take for the drugs to be effective. New HIV infections in 1998 were estimated at roughly 40,000 - a number that’ s held steady for the past decade. The CDC said AIDS continues to kill blacks in higher numbers than other racial groups. Blacks, who make up about 13% of the population, accounted for 49% of AIDS deaths in 1998. Thirty-two% of deaths were among whites and Hispamcs made up 18%. "In many ways, the story of how well we do in HIV and AIDS will be told by how well we do with the African- American population," Gayle said. The three-day conference, organized by theCDCand 17 other agencies, features 2,000 scientists, doctors, researchers and advocates addressing efforts to monitor and prevent the spread of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Gayle and others opened the conference by warning against complacency. "It’s becoming increasingly difficult to get people to pay attenuon to HIV prevention and that in and of itsdf is a primary reason for this conference," she said. Since the 1980s, more than 300,000 have died of AIDS. The recent success of some treatments have made some people complacent about the disease. "Despite a growing complacency about the need for HIV prevention, HIV remains a serious disease that is still very much with us and there is a greater need for HIV prevention today more than ever," she said. Black Churches To Step Up AIDS Fight BOSTON (AP) - Local black religious leaders plan tomeetwith state Department of Public Health officials and members of the AIDS Action Committee to discuss ways to better educate their congregations about the disease. The meeting, involving 26 black leaders, signals a change in the black church’s approach to AIDS, religious scholars and activists told the Boston Globe. They said the conservative theological views about homosexuality, intravenous drug use and premarital sex held by many black religious leaders have led them to shy away from the issue. But leaders are now seeing they must pay attention to the disease because of their obligation to help people in need, according to Pemissa Seele, founder of the New York-based Balm in Gilead ministry. The ministry raises AIDS and HIV awareness among black congregations nationwide. "Their responsibility to save lives has nothing to do with their theology on homosexuality or sex outside marriage," Seele said. "We’re talking about two different apples." In the Boston area, only about 90 of450 black churches promote HIV awareness, the Globe reported. Meanwhile, blacks account for 26% of all AIDS cases in Massachusetts, though they make up only 6% of the population. Nationally, AIDS is the leading cause of death for black men and women ages 25 to 44. Rev. Conley Hughes, pastor ofConcord Baptist Church in Boston’s South End, said thechurchcanbe apowerful influence in the fight against AIDS because it has historically been an institution blacks could count on. Many blacks consider the church society’ s most credible source of authority, Hughes said. Experts-Discuss Vaccine Progress BALTIMORE (AP) - Doctors and scientists from 20 countries gathered in Baltimore las t month for a conference to . discuss progress made in the effort to find an AIDS vaccine. The annual meeting, which began years ago as an informal gathering of Dr. Robert C. Gallo, codiscoverer of the AIDS virus, and his colleagues, has grown into one of the largest AIDS conferences in the w6rld. More-than 1,000 physicians, scientists and others are expected to attend the conference, hosted by Gallo and the University of Maryland’s Institute of Humafi Virology, which he directs. "It is possible that the components for a reasonably successful vaccine are almost there, in our hands, but we don’ t know it yet," Gallo told The(Baltimore) Sun. ’Tm much more positively inclined than a year or two ago." However, it could be years before a vaccine is developed. At the conference, Gallo expected one of the more significant discussions to deal withTat, or transactivating protein, which is made by HIV. Researchers have found that Tat plays akey role inHIV spreading. "You can regard it as one of the missiles from HIV infection that leads to the problems in the immune system and facilitates the virus’ spread," said Gallo, who has done some of the work. Researchers have -shown that vaccinating monkeys against Tat lowers the amount of the virus and lessens the immune system’s impairment. Gallo and his collaborators have tested Tat in humans for safety, both as a preventive vaccine and as a therapeutic one. He said his group’ s strategy will be to create a sort of vaccine cocktail, by combining aninactivatedTatprotein with another vaccine approach. Over the past 10 years, more than 40 preventive AIDS vaccines have been tested worldwide involving about 10,000 volunteers. 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What he does want is data - hard numbers that will prove or disprove the theory that transplants can help people infected with HIV. Key toHIV transplants i s finding patients who are healthy enough to qualify and are willing to take care of their new organs once they get them. Another key is controlling hepatitis C, which is often found in HIV patients and invariably reinfects the new liver once i~ has been transplanted. At this point, there is very little data on transplantation for patients infected with HIV, the virus which causes AIDS, and no papers have been published, experts said. Only recently have a select few surgeons performed the procedure knowingly, although there is some historical data from before patients were checked for HIV infections. "’People think we’re crazy for doing it," said Dr. John Fung, head’of the Um~ersity ofPittsburgh Medical Center’ s transplant center. But early indications show that liver transplantation is effective in reversing the complications of end-stage organ failure m some HIV-positive patients, Fung said. He presented findings at the conference on four HIV patients who underwent the procedure between September 1997 and March 1999. In all the cases, the liver transplants reversed the distinguishing characteristics of chronic liver failure, including fluid retention, muscle wasting, fatigue and jaundice. HIV traces remained undetectable with patients who continued the drug combination with protease inhibitor and none developedopportunistic infections, Fung said. Medical experts often question Fung and others about the.use of scarce resources - in this case, healthy human organs- and the safety of surgeons operating on HIV Calif. A! ow Needle Exchange SACRAMENTO,Calif. (AP)- Tryi:n~ to slow the spread of AIDS, the Legislature sent Gov. Gray Davis a,bill that would let cities and counties setup n~dle-exchange pro~s for ~g addicts. Cmwent state law b~s such progrmns butfour CNifo~a cities - Berkeley, Los Angeles, San Fr~cisco and Santa Cruz - ~d M~n County have adopted emergency ordi~s ~lowing needle exchm~ges. Davis’ office said the Democratic governor has not taken a position on the Nll, wNch passed the state Senate. At le~t 15 o~er states have authorized ne~e-exch~gepro~s,~ough~ere ~e exch~ge progr~s operating in more th~ twi~ that m~y states, according to AssemNy~vomanKe~ M~zoni’s office~ Supporters of her proposN sNd studies have shown exchange progrmns redu~ the spread of the A IDS vires. There lmve been atleast six o~erneedleexch~ ge bills intr~uced in ~ifo~a since 1993. They either died in the Legislature or were vetoed by then- Repubti~ Gov. Pete Wilson. infected patients in a procedure that Chemist Gets $7 m. For AIDS Research NEW BRUNSWICK,’N.J. (AP) - A Rutgers University chemist who helped researchers study the most lethal part of the AIDS virns will get nearly $7 million in federal fnnds to continue his work. Dr. Edward Arnold has won an award from the National Institutes of Health that will double federal suppor~ of his research. The prize, called MERIT for Method ~o Extend Research in Time, will extend his funding from a five-year grant for $3.4 million to a grant spanning 10 years and providing nearly $7 million. His work is aimed at developing longerlasting drugs to fight the deadly AIDS virus. "The whole philosophy of research is the more you know, the better chavce you have to fight something," Arnold told the East Brunswick Home News Tribune. The new funding will aid his study of a protein called reverse transcriptase, or RT. The protein plays a key role in the virus’ early life cycle, giving itinsm~ctions to duplicate its deadly properties. It is the involves a lot of blood . . molecule targeted by anti-AIDS drugs S0cietallv sorn0 ~o,,~,i,~ ,~;.J ~,.,, ¯ includingAZT, DDI, Nevirapineand3TC. whether org~a~s sho~d~’tiao~’~ : The virus colnmonly mutates so quickly lifestyle choices may have led to their " that it becomes irmnune to drugs. Arnold infection, said the doctors, who prefer that medical reasons determine who gets a transplant. Recently, the University of California in San Francisco received a $1 million grant to perform transplants on HIV patients. The state money will fund transplants for 10 people, and doctors hope the information will help build a database to determine if the operation can be a medical success in HIV patients. "I think there is a great deal of trepidation in the medical community, and I don’ t think it’s ill-founded at all," said Peter Stock, associate professor of surgery at UCSF. "We have to be very cautious." While some insurance companies in the ." is trying to devise a way to see what drug resistance looks like. Heis mapping three- . dimensional pictures of the RT protein, _" getting a look at its detailed atomic " structure. Such views can help researchers ¯ see how the virus interacts with" drugs. ". "We need to understand how drugs can ¯ fail," Arnold said. "If we can do that, we - can be more aware of how to design them .* - how to avoid those hurdles." ¯ His work first gained prominence in 1992 when he and others created a threedimensional computer model of the RT protein. Arnold’ s workis also focusing on the design and development of an AIDS vaccine, something that has eluded researchers thus far. J by James Christjohn TFN entertainment writer Hey there, hi there; ho there! Whereho? There ho? Who you callin’ a ho? Sorry, just had to. Something about Disney inspires that kind of mania, especially after having lived with a Beast for so long. (editor’s note: aren ’tlucky the Beast is occasionally quitefor-bearing?) Speaking of beasts, Beauty and the Beast is here! They’ve been building sets, chopping sets, recreating and creating costumes for a month now, working 15 hour days[ And it looks to be faaaabulous ! Especially those moving pillars., I LOVE those moving pillars t There’s just something so intrinsically... phallic about moving pillars ! I want somefor my. house! Really the- magic begins September 7 and runs through the 19. And the conductorand assistant conductor, James and Brent, are very handsome and char~i,"ng men, so say hi if you can when they re out on ~e town! Call 596-7111 for tix. Lynn Flewdling has written one of the best series of Gay fantasy novels to come along since Mercedes Lackey’s "Last Herald Mage" trilogy. "Luck in the Shadows", which I’ve written of before; "Stalking Darkness", and the just out "Traitor’s Moon" follows the trail of intrigue and romance of Seregil and Alec, the main protagonists. I recommendthe books highly to anyone ¯ with or without an interest in the genre. They have everything: magic, intrigue, romance, murder, and just about everything else you can think of, in a artistically perfect package. The events and characters are such that you hate the book to end, and the characters stay with I wondered ff the average fantas~ r~.a+der would follow that far - they have, and ¢ladly for the most part. I eet letters from straiCht Curs sayln~ essentially "I shouldn’t be ok with t~s, but I amP’... Others ~ve sald it made it ~sler to talk ~th Gay relatives. youlong after the lastpage is turned. ~Lynn was gracious enoughto spare some time for some questions while working on the new book, "The Bone Doll’s Twin:" JC: I have enjoyed the Nightrunner series. Your characters are so welldrawn, that theyseem real enough to wonder what they’re up to long after the book isfinished. LF: I’m so glad to hear that the story and the characters work for you. That’s high praise indeed. That’s how I feel about my favorite books. JC: What inspired you to write these characters as "Gay" men (Seregil & Alec, the protagohists) ? LF: Well, as I recall, I wanted to create "a hero that challenged the stereotypical molds set by Eddings. or Jordan (well known fantasy writers). Hence his profession and methods. The Gay part - not: sure. Partly the mold breaking, bu~ mostly just how he wanted to be. Perhaps he’s my animus? Whatever the case, the characterjust cameout that way and I love him. Alec was more ofa conscious choice. I could see where it was all headed, see Fantasy, p. 14 by.TFN staff As we move into the fall, Oklahoma’s arts calendar is increasingly busy. On Sept. 11, at 8pm at Holland Hall’ s Branch Theatre, Richard Gere Productions, the Loseling Institute and Unity Church of Christianity and Unity Center of Tulsa present "The Mystical Arts of Tibet" featuring the Drepung Loseling Monks. This group ofmonks have performed with composer Phillip Glass, and performers such as Paul Simon, Natalie Merchant, the Beastie Boys and others. For tickets, call 582-6624 or 749-8833. Already open at Gilcrease is an exhibit of Inuit artwhich will be shownuntil Nov. 7th. The .works, which include sculpture, prints and tapestries, draw on a private collection which has never before been publicly exhibited. Pieces from Gilcrease’s-collection will complement the exhibit. Gilcrease anthropology curator, Jason Jackson, suggested that these works will appeal to those who appreciate traditional Native American art as well as those who like modem art coming outofwestern Europeantmditions. hffo: 596-2700. Local youth activist Emily Sizemore is one of the organizers of Arts for AIDS, an event scheduled for Sept. 25th. They are looking for singers, other musicians, writers, actors, visual artists, etc. If interestedinparlicipating, please call 361- 1000. That same evening, the Tulsa Philharmonic will open see Arts, p. 14 "It’s Elementary" Tolerance Film Provokes Debate CHICAGO/TULSA (AP/TFN) - Thirdgraders in New York debate the idea of Gay mamage. Storytime for first- and second-graders ata school in Cambridge, Mass., includes the book "Asha’ s Mums" about a little girl who has two Lesbian mothers. Eighth-graders in San Francisco fire questions at a Gay man and Lesbian who visit their classroom. All areexcerpts from a controversial documentary, "It’s Elementary: Talking About Gay Issues In School," which first caused a stir when several public television stations decided to air it this summer. Now it’s being used by many schrol districts nationwide as a training tool for teachers, most recently in Chicago - unifying what some say is a growing move to incorporate Gay and Lesbian issues into curriculum, from elementary to high school. Critics say talkabout suchissues belongs at home. But others say it’s a matter of dealing with issues that students already see every day innewspapers,ontelevision, in movies - and maybe even in their own communities or classrooms. "Both schools and families have to address the issue somehow because it’s there - and it’s not going back into the closet," says Tony D’Augelli, a psychologist at Penn State’s College of Health and Human Development who studies Gay youth ~sues. see Elem.,p.15 T Call today to receive a 1999-2000 season brochure Season subscriptions, starting at $44for adults, are now on SALE! FOR 1999-2000 SEASON BROCHURES CALL TULSA~PERA 1999-2000 SEASON MEET THREE WOMEN To.DIE FOR CARMEN MANON TOSCA Season tickets on sale now! Save 25% off single ticket prices! Season tickets start at just $36 for three operas! FOR 1999-2000 SEASON BROCHURES CALL TULSA PHILHARMONIC HoT THE SEASON! ¯ Mas~Ywol"~s " . Classics usic on . "toe RocRs" No ! 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Long rides & short rides from Zeigler Park. Long & ~hort rides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 Ifyour organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 orfax 583-4615. Associated Press - Your lawn crunches ¯ like potato chips.when you walk on it.. Even your older trees are showing stress. : Although you mightbe tempted to coddle _" your plants, you can kill them with too ¯ muchkindness, say experts inPenn State’ s : College of Agricultural Sciences. *- "Pruning, fertilizing and watering can fool plants.into thinking it’s springtime and trigger new growth," said Robert Nuss, professor of ornamental horticulture. "New growth won’t have time to mature before the frost. Not only will you kill it, but you’ll use up next year’s buds." "If you have a landscape contractor or arborist do your work, there’s only so much they’ll want to do during a drought," said Rick Johnson, associate extension agent in Delaware County. "Since normal plant care practices might be harmful under drought conditions, under- "Focus your water~ng-efforts on plants you ~n do some~blng about, llke ornamentals," ke added. "With lawns, it’s just a waiting game until the rMn and cool w~ther return." stand that these contractors may advise against them." Nuss and others offer some specific suggestions. "Grasses gO into a semidormant state and become vulnerable when it’s dry," said Peter Landschoot, associate professor of turfgrass science. "Now that the water’s been turned off, you should limit activities and traffic on lawns as much as .possible. Come September (October in Oklahoma) - if we get rain and cooler weather- you can fertilize and overseedto getsomerecovery. Ifwe don’t get enough rain in September, wait tmtil next spring to oversee&’" "Focns your watering efforts on plants you can do something about, like ornaments," he added¯ "With lawns, it’s just a waiting game until the rain and cool weather return.’" "Pruning’s a gamble," said Nuss. "If you’re sure the parts are dead - if they’re brittle and dry - go ahead and cut back to the live tissue. This will promote some healing and help the plants aesthetically. Butremember, ffweget somerain,proning can trigger growth in the buds." "Fertilizers are salts - even organic materials such as manure -and salts can bum roots," Nuss said. "If you want to give plants nutrients, wait until October (late November or December here) when they’re fully dormant." "Watering is key for woody plants," Nuss said. "When the top 1-11/2 inches of soil are dry, water down to 8-10 inches - to the root zone," he said. "You can accompllsh~ this by dire~t, slow watering. Trickle water on very slowly so it soaks into the soil, with no rtmoff. Also, when you water at night, you lose less to evapOration." But watering has its dangers. "If you overwater in areas with heavy soil or slow drainage, you can saturate the root zone and force out the air," Nuss says. "This can suffocate the roots and kill them." Whenroots die, you’ll _see top wilting in ¯ the plant, Nnss says. "Mostpeopleinterpret this as a lack of water, add even more and aggravate the problem. After watering, most plants should recover overnight. But if the plant remains wilted, you may have root damage from overwatering." For new plantings, Nuss recommends keeping the initial root ball moist. "Water bevond the planting hole, not just at the base of the plant," he said. "That way, you don’t drown the roots, and new roots have moist soil to move ~nto." Mulching is the next best solution to watering, Nuss says. "But be sure to water under mulch, not on top of it. It takes at least an inch ofrain to get through organic mulch." In extreme conditions, Nuss said covering the soil surface with black plastic will retain extra moisture. "You.can hide the plastic with organic mulch," he says. To supplement watering, use gray water (from such uses as cooking and the laundry rinse cycle) on ornamentals, Nuss said. "But move from tree to tree soyoudilute it. Also, don’t use water that contains chlorine bleaches or laundry softeners. For health reasons, don’t use gray water on leafy vegetables or root vegetables. "With a drought this serious, I’d focus watering on highvalue plants and shrubs," Nuss ¯ said. "Savefresh waterforyour vegetables, ¯ use gray water on the ornamentals, and ¯ don’t water your flowers. Flowers are ¯ going to die with the. first frost anyway." "Droughts have a negative effect on ¯ most insect and mite pests that attack : landscape plants," says Greg Hoover, extension entomologist. "Because of last year’ s drought, forinstanee, wehavefewer adult Japanese beetles this year, and probably will see even fewer next year." But hot, dry weatherfavors two different groups of insect and mite pests. "Woodboring insects successfully attack trees and shrubs that are stressed," Hoover said. "If you don’t have water restrictions, the bes~ thing you can do for woody plants is water them. Supplement watering with rainfall collected in buckets or barrels, or water from dehumidifiers." "The two-spotted spider~mite, acommon pest on garden and landscape plants, also thrives in hot, dry weather," Hoover said. "The winged euonymus - what some people call ’burning bush’ -is particularly vulnerable. When indicated, use an appropriate miticide on infested plants." Hooverrecorfimends using wetpowder insecticide formulations. ’q’hey’re less likely to damage plant tissues during hot, dry Weather when used according to label directions." whenjustice is not served. We need to be able to appeal to a higher authority’when localities and states do not-for whatever reason- fully investigate and prosecute a hate crime. On behalf of hate crimes victims everywhere, I urge Congress to pass the Hate Crimes Prevention Act." On" added, "we were targeted because of who we are, not for any other reason... they were trying to send a message that "our kind’ are not welcome in Tulsa and deserve to be beaten or die. It is time to send a message that what is not welcome are hate crimes." Under current law, a hate crime can be federally prosecuted only if the victim is targeted on the basis of race, religion, color or national origin, while on federal property or while exercising a federally protectedright, such as vodng or attending school: see Congress, p. 11 Change... ~- Minimum:Wage 1985 $3.35 Average 1998 $5.15 New Car Price Postage Stamp 1985 22¢ 1998 1985 $ 9,011 1998 $20,0OO q- e More Stay The m ee. 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Fortunately, not everyone has tumbled onto the fact that those steel lawn chairs that, until ten years ago, decorated many a grandma’s porch or front lawn are highly collectible. And they comfortable and easy t~o maintain. Garage sales andthe more junky variety of antique stores can still offer a bargain; where you might pick up a rocker or glider for as little as five to fifteen dollars. Otherwise, prepare to pay upwards of thirty dollars. Your DIYD know what she’ll choose! Economize on the chairs and tempt a sweet lady with a lovely cocktail and still have change. Yours is a most practical, yet romantic, DIYD! .Check some of the basics out when buying a chair. Water and rust tend to congregate in certain places. Checkriveted areas as well as the runners that contact the ground for excessive rust. Stay away from anything that is too rotten or any spots that look like the metal has started to buckle and pinch. There’s a proper time and place for buckles and pinches, but it’s not on your lawn furniture. Or perhaps it will be... Minor rust holes on the runners are not unusual as long as the runner is still relatively strong. Find that welder and have a new half round piece welded on for about fivedollars, unless you know ofone who can sit with you on your soon-to-beseductive glider. Quid pro quo can be so entertaining. Paint removal can be a real chore. the rust and paint (trust your ¯.. The palntln~ DIYD on this one: it isn’t anything like a big vibrator. is where you e.an Jollies are definitely limited); really express or take it down to the friendly yourselves with Dip ’n Strip furniture refinisher and pay a modest color, color, color! stun to have it done for you. Go wild with The DIYD strongly recommends the latter, if only for those hold colors the reason that people tendeo - it pays to fo paint these chairs with leadbased paints, and inhaling the advertise! dust is quite dangerous. Or irritate l~he Got most of that loose paint and rust off now? Oh, you’re neighbors with a doing so well! As you may hot pink that remember from painting our kitchenproject,weleftarather matches your enthusiastic dyke vigorously lawn ~larnln~oes. shaking her can of Rust-OLeum Well, girlfriend, it is The possibilities your time to shine! are endless! Put your stripling chair on newspaper and put on the coat ¯ of spray primer. Darlings, I know you’re : coIor conscious, but it doesn’t matter if ¯¯ you use the red or the gray primer. It really doesn’t. Please follow the directions on ¯ the can. Keep the can about 10 inches ¯ away from yourwork, use a slow side to : sidemotion, andrememberthatthreelight ¯ coats are better than one heavy one that ¯ willrun and trailandjust ruin your look of ¯ urban sophistication. Put an extra coat on ¯ curces and any other rust:prone areas. ¯ Use a minimum of three color coats to ¯ finish the project. ¯ The painting is where you can really ¯ express yourselves with color, color, color ! ¯ Go wild with those bold colors -it pays to : advertise! Or irritate the neighbors with a ¯ hot pink that matches your lawn ¯ flamingoes. The possibilities are endless ! ¯ And if you don’t like the color, paint over it. It’s a tradition with this sort offurniture. ¯ Consider it your cultural contribution ¯ to the neighborhood, and fix your DIYD a ¯ cocktail when you are done. She prefers ¯ Manhattans ! ¯ Two cherries, of course. Ciao, Bella! The Hate Crimes Prevention Act would address these limitations by allowing federal involvement when necessary and thereby helping to forge and strengthen a lasting partnership between state and federal law enforcement officials m fighting hate crimes. The Hate Crimes Prevention Act limits the federal governrnent’ sjurisdiction to only themost serious violent .crimes directed at persons, not property crimes. Lead House sponsors ofthe Hate Crimes Prevention Act are Reps.. John Conyers, D-Mich; Mictiael Forbes, D-N.Y.; Connie Morella, R-Md;TammyBaldwin, D-Wis.; and House Minority Leader Richard Gephardt, D-Mo. The Hate Crimes Prevention Act was passed by the Senate this summer as an amendment to the Commerce, State, Justice Appropriations Bill. President Clinton has-promised to sign HCPA into law if it is passed by ¯ ¯ Congress. This bill would allow states with inadequate resources to take advantage of ¯ Department of Justice resources and personnel in limited cases that have been ¯ authorized by the Attorney General. The Hate Crimes Prevention Act has broad ¯ bipartisan backing and support from notable law enforcement agencies and state and local leaders, including 22 state ¯ attorneys general, the National Sheriff’s ¯ Association, President Bush’s former Attorney General Dick Thoruburgh, the Police Foundation and the U.S. ¯ Conference of Mayors. ¯ Hate.crimes basedon sexual orientation were up 8% in 1997, according to the ¯ latest FBI statistics. Sexual orientation ," was the third highest category of hate ¯ crimes behind race and religion and ¯ represented 14% of all hate crimes ¯ reported. Currently, hate crimes ¯ monitoring and enforcement consists of a ¯ patchwork of laws that offer citizens ¯ varying see Congress, p. 12 by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. get cervical cancer." Two women even Dr. Sue Wilkinson is currently reported that they were considered conducting the first national survey of "virgins" by the medical profession Lesbian health in the United Kingdom because they had had sex withwomen but with doctoral student Julie Fish. The" not with men! survey managed to contact Lesbians in But the pap smear is not a comfoitable almost every postal district of the United procedure for many women, and may be Kingdom, from the southern particularly painful, uncomtip of England to the islands Cervical cancer fortable, unusual or trauoff northern Scotland. Over. appears to l~e matizing for Lesbians. 38% of 1,000 Lesbians answered the Lesbians in the U.K. study questionnaire, which focused .connected. with reported .that they. had never on breast cancer, mammo- sexual activity, had a cervical smear for this grams, breast self-exam, particularly reason. One Lesbian reported cervical cancer, and pap that she viewed a speculum as staears, penetrative sex "a huge metal crocodile." I recently spoke with Sue wlt]~men. Tl~is Othershadheardhorrorstories about the early results of this . from friends and partners that studY, Which focus oncervica1 Is why Lesi~ians the procedure was aversive, screemng. Unlike many lmve traditionally humiliating, or painful. cancers, cervical cancer has ]~een vlewed as Finally,, Lesbians raised an early warning stage, with questions about havingamale abnormal cells present. This is at low rls]~ for health provider "pokingwhy women are told to have cervical cancer, around in my body," regular pap smears (or cervical specifically, in the vagina. Or smears, as they’re called in the. But Lesglans they were concerned that the U.K.). may lmve ]~ad health care provider con- SueandJuliefoundthat 12% sex with men ducting the procedure would of Lesbians eligible for result in questions about their cervical screening had previously, and/ sexual activity or would NEVERhadapap:mear.This or t]aey may ]~e assume they were heterois higher than comparable U.S. sexual. figures of 5% found by the ha’~cln~ sex with This important study raises National Lesbian Health Care men evenw]a~le some questions about cervical smears. DoLesbians whohave However,Surveiynthisthefiguremid-19lo80w’Se.isr eallln~ t]aemselves neverhadintercourseneedpap than that of 17% for women in Lesl~ans. smears at all, or need pap the general U.K. population Cervical cancer smears less often? How can who report never having had a cervical smear. What is is not well pap smears be performed in a matter that is more positive surprising about these low understood, so for Lesbians? figures for womenin the U.K. ineludin~ is that the U.K. has national Fish can be contacted at the women, Sue Wilkinson and Julie health service. Pap smears are Lesl~ians, may l~e Department of Social free, and women receive a at rls]~ for other Sciences, Loughborough reminder letter every five years,withtwoorthreefollow- reasons unrelated University, Loughborough LE11 3TU United Kingdom. uplettersiftheydon’tcomein tosexualaetlvity. - Esther Rothblum is for the pap sinear, Professor ofPsychology at the When Sue andJulieexaminedLesbians’ ¯ University of Vermont and Editor of the written comments about cervical Journal of Lesbian Studies. She can be screening, they found that one reason for " reached at John Dewey Hall, University non-attendance was lack of time. "But " of Vermont, Burlington, VT. E-maih apart from that, it looks as though the two ¯ esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. main categories of response are-that " Lesbians feel they don’t need a smear and ° secondly, negative aspects of the ¯ procedure," said Sue, "they imagine the " procedurewillbepainful,orembarrassing, ° levels of legal protection depending on or thatthey will encounterheterosexism." where they live. Twenty-two states and Cervicalcancerappearstobeconnected " the District of Columbia have hate crimes with sexual activity, particularly " laws that include sexual orientation. penetrative sex with men. This is why ¯ Twentystateshavelawsthatdonotinclude Lesbians have traditionally been viewed- ¯ sexual orientation. Eight states have no as at low risk for cervical cancer. But " hate crimes laws at all. Lesbians may have had sex with men ¯ SpeakingwithTFN, Orr&Beauchamp previously, and/or they may be having ¯ expressed their disappointment with how sex with men even while calling Tulsa district attorney staff members themselves Lesbians. " handled theprosecution of their attackers. Cervical cancer is not wall understood, ° They indicated that had Orr not had so women, including Lesbians, may be at ¯ .professional experience as a journalist, risk for other reasons unrelated to sexual : specifically covering crime stories, they activity, In the U.K. study, about 40% of : likely would have given up in frustration Lesbians felt they did not need a cervical : while trying to get information abouthow screen because they had never had ¯ the case was going. Their perception intercourse. Many Lesbians wrote that : remains that Tulsa DA considered the they had specifically been told this by a " assault to unimportant because they are doctor or nurse. 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JA~IUES MAHI-MAHI RACKOF LAMB CHOCOLATE SOUFFLE Compatibility reportv for you and"- your frieTids or lovers¯ 599-0717 Gay Owned, Operated & R~xbow Proud Gay Mecca of the Ozarks Beautiful Eureka Springs, Arkansas by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. . My lawn is wilting. So are a lot of my friends’ relationships. Maybe it’s the wicked summer heat that makes people touchy and irritable. Recent casual gossip ¯ nearly broke up my friend Shawn and his ". lover. The boyfriend walked when he ¯ heard stories of Shawn’s previous exploits. ¯ Emotionally, he couldn’t handle knowledgeofhis lover’s onetimerelations with : other guys. We’ve got a name for that emotion: ¯ sexual jealousy. Shawn’s tmhappiness prompted me to think about the green emotion. Jealous feelings, and their sorry consequences, are an endlessly fascinating motif in popular novel and film. Besides, most of us have experienced jealously in person. We’ve learned to use the word to label a peculiar mental state and aching body sensation sparked by our love interests. The word has been around for years. English speakers of the 12th century borrowed ’jealousy’ from Old French. And those speakers on the continent previously had adopteditfrom the Latinzelus, derived from the even more ancient Greek zelos, that originally m,,eant something like ardor or "fervor." Jealousy andzeal-andjealous and zealot - are linguistic cousins, all derived from the samerootconceptofemotional upheaval and intensity. Jealousy’ s deep cultural and linguistic roots indicate the popularreachofboth emotion andconcept. We use a language of jealousy to understand why Shawn’s boyfriend dumped him. Whose lips were kissing Shawn before his? Whose arms had already held that waist? Yet, anthropologists debate the facts ofhuman emotion. Can we say that there are emotions that we all feel because we are human? If so, which ones? Love, hate, happiness, sadness, fear, anger? Are there other emotions that people in one culture cultivate and learn to feel thatareunknown or less important m other societies? Just how normal - and how universal - are feelings such as sexual jealousy? Those anthropologists of the sociobiological persuasion often figure that jealousy ~s indeed a human universal ¯ with an adaptive function. Men are never completely sure that the baby a woman carries is theirs. Jealousy works = so goes the story - to motivatemen to police their women in order to better the odds that the.y have fathered her babies. An), easygoing man withdut Some yet~to-beidentified gene for.jealousy would have contributed less to thehuman gene pool in that he may not have fathered the children he thought he did. Butwhatof women?They always know that they are the mothers of their children, so what should they care if the guys mess around elsewhere? Andwhat of Shawn? It’s unlikely thathis boyfriendwas jealous because of evoluationary womes that a rival would make him pregnant. We could argue that our bodies have an inbnilt heritage of emotions, includln. jealously, nomatterwho arelovers happen to be. Still, other anthropologists argue that our body feelings are only half the story. The other half - perhaps the more important half - is the way we have of labeling, understanding, and talking about those feelings. We sense a rush of chemicals through our brains and body, butwe can’tknow what is happening to us until we put these feelings into words. Anddifficult cultures have different ways of.classifying and interpreting those same chemical flushes. anthropologists debate the facts ofhuman emotion. Can we say that emotions that we all feel because we are human? If so, whleh ones? Love, bate, bappiness, sadness, f~r, anger? Are there other emotions that people in one culture eultlvate and learn to feel that are unknown or less important in other soeieties? You may have heard of the German emotion schadenfreude - which is pleasurefelt atsomeoneelse’ s misfortune. Many of us also take pleasure from other’s misfortunes, but English has nowordthat specifically labds this twisted enjoyment. Does this lin,g,nistic gap mean that wedon t sense this pleasure as deeply as do Germans? And even if jealousy is a human universal, it may be that some ofus experience the feeling more intensely. Gore Vidal reports in his autobiography Palimpsestthat he and his lover never have sex. This he finds this on the street. His "lover," instead, provides breakfast conversation and other forms of sexless companionship. Clearly, many couples have created similar "open" relationships inwhich they are able to at least mute any feelings of sexual jealousy, Some occasionally have campaigned to open up all relationships. During the 1960s, many : preached and sometimes practiced "free love."They hopedto stifle sexualjealousy ¯ in order to rework the economy of ¯ relationships. No one was meant to own ¯ anyone else. No one ought get jealous. Sex was healthy recreation, freedom, even ¯¯ spiritual; jealousy was wrongly possessive, limiting, and neurotic. ¯ It was no dice, though. For most of us, ¯ jealousy remains the flip side of love- or of love American-style anyway. The ¯ babyboomers failed to stamp outjealousy ¯ because they could not remake the ¯ associated emotion of love. It remains ¯ ¯ might) hard to love and not get jealous. If you don’t feel jealous, can you really be in love? It is plausible that humans in other ¯ places and at other times have experienced ¯ and understood the body flashes that we ] call jealousy in various ways. But around ¯ here, don’t let me catch you messing ¯ around! Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthro- ¯ pology at the University of Tulsai: ¯ profesgionally, did local law enford~ment; ¯ take the casemore seriously. SpecifiCally, ¯ two of their assailants had not been made : to perform their sentences whichinduded community service and a fine to the court. ¯ Orr and Beauchamp also stated that it is ¯ typical in assaults of this type for the ~ victims to receive compensation for their ¯ losses due to the assault, and that they ¯ specifically requested compensationfrom ¯ theDistrictAttomeys, see Congress, p.14 butwonderedifthe averagefantasy reader would follow that far - they have, and gladly for the most part. I get letters from straight guys saying essentially "I shouldn’t be ok with this, but I am!" even if it makes them a little uncomfortable any-way. Others have said it made it easier to talk with Gay relatives. Ifmy stories have anysocial value, perhaps it’s .that. Mostly, I just follow my muse where~she leads and hope it works. JC: Andhow haveyou managed to do it so well? LF: Love is love. JC:Andhow doyou keep trackofall the .intrigues? My head is spinningfrom what l’ve gotten through in "Traitor’s Moon!" LF: Copious notes and charts on the wall. I see that Bantam (though they cut my glossary, now available on.my web page) left a blank page at the ends. I hope people will use it for notes, like I did reading "Trainspotting." The next book, ’‘The Bone Doll’s Twin" goes back in history to one of the. Skalan queens, but there will bemoreNightnmners, too. A&S are already prowling restlessly about my brain, hungry for more work. JC: 1 understand you’re appearing at Gaylaxicon, a sci-fi convention for Gay and Lesbian fans of the genre in Alexandria, Virginia. LF: Gaylaxicon promises to be a lot of fun. I’ve had a lot of contact with the organizers and they are simply the best I’ve ever dealt with. Hope to teach a writing workshop forthemwhile I’m there. JC." Have you heard of Loreena McKennitt? Her music and appearance reminds me ofsome ofyour "aurenfaie" characters. LF: Aurenfaie? I’ll claim her. "Mask and Mirror" is my personal favorite of all her disks. My husband is a great fan of female vocalists and has amassed quite a collection, which I dip into. (My tastes seem torunmore to GeorgeThoroughgood and Melissa Etheridge a lot of the time, along with someLeonardCohen and Rufus Wainwright, a new discovery.) JC: Andon thatmusical note, l ’d like to say thank you to Lynnfor sharing some of her inspirations, writings, and - methods behind the madness’ with us. !ts 51 st season wiihpianist John Browning m a program featuring Brahms, Tchaikovsky and Berlioz. Prior to the concert at 7pm, long time radio man and the voice of the OK Mozart Festival (Simon Estes - he’s the bestest!) Edward Dumit will lead "Musical Moments" a pre-concert discussion. For more information, call the Phil at 747-7445. Also at the end of Sept. Heller Theatre, one of Tulsa’s theatre companies that actually interested in newer works (as opposed-to recycling the same old stuff, again and again and again), are presenting "Dallas to LaGuardia R.T." on Sept. 23- 25 and Sept.. 30-OcL 2, a play about a couple that misses a flight and winds up invited to stay .over with complete strangers. Later in Oct. Heller will present "Fortinbras" revisiting Hamlet in a contemporary political context. Early in Oct. the Oklahoma Center for Poets and Writers presents its Celebration of Books on Oct. 1-2 at OSU-Tulsa with a remarkable assemblage of artists, even including some Gay ones. Some names include Michael Wallis, William ¯¯ Bernhardt,GuyLogsdgn,CliftonTaulbert, Eddie Faye Gates, C.J. Cherryh, Rich ¯ Fisher and folksinger Michael Martin ." Murphey. Info: 594-8215. ¯ Alsoin Oct. the Performing Arts Center Trust presents Sabella, featuring"global" ¯ music on Oct. 2 and on Oct. 8th & 9th, ¯ TPACT’s Celtic series (now so popular that they’ve added 2nd performances, and alas, forgotten their friends who helped ¯ them before the Celtic series got so ¯ popular) will start with Natalie ¯ MacMaster,fiddler extraordinaire. I don’t think any of the Celtic series artists I’ve ¯ seen have ever been bad, so check it out. ." And on that same busy weekend, both ¯ Tulsa’s and Oklahoma City’s Gay ¯ communities are presenting arts events in ¯ honor of National Coming Out Day. ¯ OUTART’99inOKCwillfeature 10new ." release films, two plays, a music special ¯ and visual artists. The Gala opening, A ¯ Black Tie Dinner and A Movie, Friday, ¯ Oct. 8th will present the southwest : premiere of the film"Edge of Seventeen" ¯ as well as a buffet dinner and wine bar. ¯ For more information or tickets, see the ¯ advertisement on page 16, or call 405- ¯ 752-2762 or 800-722-8866. ¯ That same busy weekend, TOHR and ¯ the Gay Community Center will hold ¯ TOHR’s first film festival at the Center. ¯ The first film will be shown at 7:30pro on Thursday~ Oct. 7 with films also being ¯ shown on Fri. evening and on Sat. ¯ afternoon and evening. Call 743-4297 for ¯ more information. : It also appears that local presentation of ¯ Gay and Lesbian films may show back up on a big screen. AMC Southroads 20 will ¯ present a Lesbian themed film, "Better ¯ Than Chocolate" on Sept. 10, and a Gay ¯ film, "Trick" on Oct. 1st. The key to ¯ getting theseon aregular basis is to support the theatre that takes the risk. S o vote with your dollars ! None was ever received. In fact,-this ¯ became an issue in Orr’s Congressional testimony. Rep. Mary Bonn, widow of the ¯ late Sonny Bonn, attacked err and ¯ Beauchamp saying that the Tulsa District ¯ Attorneys office claimed that they had ¯ been uncooperative with th DA and had ¯ notfilled out the forms necessary toreceive ¯ compensation..Orr and Beauchamp ¯ counter that not only-did they not receive ¯ the forms, thry did not even know of their existance until Bonn raised the issue. ¯ Commenting to TFN, Human Rights ¯ Campaign Political Director Winnie Stachelberg said, "I urge "the Gay and ¯ Lesbian community ofTulsa to act now in ¯ support of this bill (HCPA), so that incidents like these are prevented.... i~t is ¯ important that the; Gay and LeSbian ¯ community of Oklahoma is protected at a federal if not at a state level.’" Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Need a Coming Out Support Group? 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Ifnothing .else, ~ ays : parents can ask to have their , v~.:~ Chicago school officials- who stress ¯ excused from a lesson the-: find that "It’s Elementary" will not be shown . objecttonable: SaysP~,~shall, Mywarm g to students -are atadskittishabouttalking to parents would be: Beware.’ " about, their plan. They confirm that the In Oklahoma, there’s been no public district’s 589principals will view thefilm " outcry about "It’s Elementary" because beginning in September and receive a " the Oklahoma Educational Television copy of the Video for their schools - a plan ¯ Associationhas chosen not to air thepiece. funded by Lesbian tennis star Billie Jean " Malcomn Wall, executive director of King.But several teacherswho vealready " OEFA, claimed that OETA’s decision viewed the film on their-own declined to : not toair theprogram was not based onthe be interviewed out of feat of criticism, content, i.e. Gay & Lesbian issues but A city official who helped get the film " rather that OETA is offered far more - in part due to backing from chicago " programs thaJa it can ,possibly. air. He Mayor Richard Daley ~ .into the dis~t characterized it as.a routine passing over. was more forthcoming. She says the " However, Wallis relatively new at OETA decision was aimed at fostering tolera9,ce ¯ and the association has had a history of and, in turn, preventing violepce ag..mns,t " mostly refusing to air programs with Gayand Lesbian students. "It’s pmcttcm. Lesbian and Gay content. One notable Itmakes good sense. It’s about safety_, for " exception was the airing of an award children.Idon’tthinkanybody,regardless winning program, "Breaking the Code" of their religious background, can argue ¯ about the Gay man who broke the Nazi with that," says Mary Morten, Daley’s ¯ messagecodeinWorldWarlI. However, liaison on Gay and Lesbian issues. " OETA first refused to air this program School officials in San Francisco, who ] and did so only after being pressured by are also using "It’s Elementary" have ¯ Oklahoma City’s Gayly Oklaho_.man gone as far as imposing a ban on anti-Gay newspaper and Tulsa Family News. "they slurs. "Go stand on a playground. I " also waited to air the program later in the guarantee you that you will hear within " summer of 1998 after the Oklahoma Ru.n.ut.es..ra.os..~a.yin~",,,’Oh, that’s so Gay¯ ¯ Legislature was out of session, instead of What at(you a fag? says KevinGogin, airing in May or June like many PBS director of support services for sexual : affiliates did. minority youth for the San Francisco ." Unified School District who regularly ¯ speaks to teachers and principals nationwide. ¯ Moves to address Gay and Lesbian " Schmitzarrivedhometofindthenoteand issues in the classroom are not, however, " light in his doorway from Amedure. without opponents, among them tough- Schmitz withdrew money from his bank, talking radio talk show host Dr. Laura " bought shells and a shotgun and drove to Schlessinger and several religious groups " Amedure’s mobile home. Schmitz went who have made "It’s E"lementary" a "¯ inside to see if Amedure was home, then went back to his car, got the gun and shot priority target. Patti Johnson - a member of the " ~maedure twice in the chest- all while Colorado Board of Education who has wearingthegreenbowtieandwhitemxedo spoken out against use of the filmin her shirt from his job as a waiter. state - says she agrees with having a no- Pendergast told jurors that Schmitz slur policy but says some teachers are " werreactedtomereembarrassment."The going too far. "I don’t thinkyou have to go ouly reason that murder is an issue is that into bl , deep explanattons, especlall.y Scott Amedurewas Gay and (Schmitz’s) when kids are little, Johnson says. It s manhood, so to speak, was insulted on kind of like when you want to stop a 2- national TV," she said. "Wall, you know year-old fromrunninginto the street. T.hey what? Get over it." Jurors said while some don’t always understand death or dying, agreed with. Sabbota at first, they But they understand a quick swat on the eventually decided that Schmitzacted too slowly for the crime to be an actofpassion. butt." One official at the Washington-based "There was just way too much time Family Research Council, calls the film involved for a reasonable person to make ,,anindoctrinationtool-plainandsimple." some choices," said juror Bruce Sole. Sabbota said he would appealthe "Whyareyoucreating aresource to create abei~htened sensitivity.., on a behavior verdict, saying Oakland County Circuit choice that is cons!,,dered problematic to a Judge Wendy Potts should ,have letjurors whole lot of folks? ’ asks JanetParshall, a hear about Schmitz’s history of mental former teacher and spokeswoman for the illness andalcoholism. Hehadbeentreate~t. nonprofit organization which is known " for manic depression and tried to comnnt for its anti-Gay policy positions. , suicide four times in the years before the Filmmaker Debra Chasnoff says she s killing. "We knew it was an uphill battle simply providing resources to teachers from the start," Sabbota said. whoalready have to deal with such issues Ms. Jones and the producers of the in the classroom. "It just doesn’t work to show were not called to testify, as they say, ’We’re ,going to all be race to one hadbeenintheprevioustrials.Thejuryin another; don t use those words here.’ I the civil case awarded Amedure’s family thinkyouneed to explain who those words $25million; that verdictis being appealed. are hurtful to," says Chasnoff, director Jurors said the show played a role in the and co-producer of "It’s Elementary. kilhng,butwas not the sole cause. I think The debate is not likdy to end soon. most of us felt it Was a whole series of Thisfall,Chasnoff’s SanFrancisco-based events, H~,ht sal . media center also will begin distributing a After seven jurors spoke to the media, curriculum guide for.elementary teachers Amedure’s father, Frank Amedure St., that includes lessons they can incorporate shook hands with each one. "ijust want to into discussions about Gay and Lesbian thank the jury. God bless you," he said. Schrmtz’s father, Allw~ Sc~unitz, said 1ssues. " Such moves frustrate Parshall, who he didn’t ka~ow what to think about the notes that - w~le parents don’t ha;’e verdict. "T~crc’s no wwcaer~, or losers much control over what teachers use lot here," he said. "’Everybody loses." 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W .y Fun.ds i Support Anti-Gay D,scr, minat,on : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ TULSA (TFN) - In a recent promotional piece printed and inserted in The Tulsa Worm for free, Tulsa Area United Way (TAUW) touted its strong points. TAUW claims to be thelargest non-governmental funder of health and human services.in the Tulsa area, funding some 231 programs at 68 member agencies. TAUW also claims to have a lower than 10% overhead as compared to overhead of up to 40% declared acceptable by the National Charity Information Bureau. Joe Cappy, chairman/CEO and president of Dollar/Thrifty ¯ Automotive Group, in the Tulsa World insert, claimed, ’q’ulsa ¯ Area United Way gives each of us a sensible, cost-effective ¯ approach to helping the people in our community who need it European Union to British Army: No More Gay Ban ¯¯ most..." But there are those who take issuewith some aspects of United STRASBOURG, France (AP) - The European Court of Human Rights ruled late in S eptember that Britain’ s ban ¯ on homosexuals in the armed forces is a breach of ¯ human rights. The court found in favor of three men and : a woman who were discharged from the British armed ¯ forces in line with its absolute ban on homosexual ¯ personnel after they admitted their sexual orientation. ¯ The court said the British policy yciolated Article 8 of the ¯ European Convention on Human Rights which defends ¯ ¯ the right to respect for private and family life. "The Court considered the investigations, and in particular the interviews Of the applicants, to have been ¯ exceptionally intrusive," thc European court said in a ¯ statement. "The investigations conducted into the applicants’ sexual orientation together with their ¯ discharge from the armed forces constituted especially ¯ grave interferences with their private lives," it said. The verdict cannot force a-change of law, but the ¯ applicants considered it a step towards ending discriminationin the armed forces. Defense Sec. George ¯ Way s funding,, partacularly that of the Indian NaUons Council of the Boy Scouts of America (BSA). The BSA is one of the earliest organizations funded in Tulsa by the predecessors to the current United Way but the Scouting organization has been under fire nationally for its anti-Gay policies. The BSA claims the Scout pledge to be "morally straight" refers to being heterosexual and .therefore bans Gay youth from being Scouts or Gay men from being Scoutmasters on the grounds that to be Gay is intrinsically to be "morally non-straight." Recently, the B SA lost a legal challenge to thi s anti-Gay policy brought under New Jersey state law. Former Eagle scout James Dale won his lawsuit but in response to questions from The Tulsa World, aspokespersonfortheTulsa-basedIndianNafionCouncil of the BSA r~affirmed the ban in this area. And when TAUW kicked off its 75th anmversary campaign, running from Sept. 10th to Nov. 1 lth with a goal of raising $21,497,725.00, some of these individuals said no to helping United Way because of the funding for an organization which blatantly discriminates. Most of the individuals who spoke asked to remain anonymous Robertson said other existing cases involving Gays in ¯ citing fears of retaliation from TAUW or risk to their employment the British armed forces will be put on hold while the ¯ by public.ly speaking ~bout Lesbian and Gay issues in’h city with government studies the implications of:the ruling. fewprote~tious again~wolkplace discrimination based on sexual ¯ orientation. ¯ One Gay couple, both of whom are public employees, had slightly different reactions to the ¯ issue of funding for the Boy Scouts.-One noted that ¯ "we’re so used to it, that we don’ t think about it"but ¯ he added that it’s "time when United Way needs to start analyzing what they’re doing." : However, his parmer noted that the organizations ¯ his employer was set to help for United Way’s Day ¯ of Caring were the Boy Scouts and the Salvation Army, both organizations which he claims ¯ discriminate against Gay people. He notified his ¯ employer that he would not participate in the Day ¯ ¯ of Caring because of those organization’ s anti-Gay policies. ¯ Another couple, Lesbian, said that it was a"tough ¯ question." One women, again who requested ¯ anonymity because of her job (she is a teacher), ¯ characterized the Boy Scouts’ policy as ¯ reprehensible but noted too that United Way funds ¯ the YWCA, an organization which has a non" discrimination policy which includes "sexual ¯ orientation." Her partner added that TAUW also ¯ funds Youth Services of Tulsa (YST) which has ¯ ¯ programs that benefit Lesbians and Gay men but she also acknowledged that YST hadkept those ¯ programs "closeted,"i.e. not publicized because of ¯ fears that UnitedWay fundingmight be withdrawn, despite the fact that the failure to publicize the ¯ program significantly limitedYST’s ability toreach ¯ those whom the program was intended to help. : Tulsa Area United Way’s marketing representative, Beth Kuehnert was asked to explain ¯ TAUW’s continued funding for the BSA and ¯ initially, in a cordial and civil conversation, Ms. Kuehnert said she was not aware of the Boy Scouts’ position nor see TA UW, p. 12 Gay Demos Organize ¯ Community Center News Eureka Springs Holds TULSA- Local. Democratic Party activists will hold an Community Meeting 111 6. Diversity Celebration organizational meeting for a Tulsa chapter of the the ¯ National Stonewall Democratic Federation on Sunday, TULSA - Organizers of the First Annual Community Center ¯ EUREKA SPRINGS - Fall is around the comer, October 24th, at 4pro at the Tulsa Gay Community ¯ Film Festival to be held on Oct. 7-9, Tulsa’s Gay Commtmity : andintheOzarks,it’salmosttimefor thebi-annual Services Center (the Pride Center), at 1307 East 38th ¯ Center andits parent organization, Tulsa Oklahomaus for Human " Diversity Celebration Weekend in Eureka Springs, Street, 2nd floor.. : Rights (TOHR) will show both Lesbian and Gay films, both : Ark. ! Organizers say this event, scheduled for Nov . Stonewall Democrats, a caucus within the Democratic ’. feature length and shorts beginningat 5:30 onThurs, and Fri. and " 5-7, will be bigger and better than ever! Party works to secure the rights of all people, regardless : from 2pm on Sat. and Sun. ¯ Metropolitan Community Church’s Friday night ’of sexual orientation or gender identity and serves as a ¯ In addition, theCenterwillhostTOHR’sfirstComingOutFair " dance and camival will kick off the weekend at the voice within the Democratic Party for Lesbians and Gay : "Discovering Yourself" from noon to 6pro on Sat. Oct. 9th. A " top of the Basin Park Hotel. On Saturday morning, men. Organizers noted in their press release that the ." record number of community organizations have committed to " strollthestreetsofEurekaonahistoric(andcolorful) Oklahoma,Democratic party is rather conservative with ¯ particil~ating in the Coming Out Fair. . walking tour, canoe on the White River, or hike in regard to civil rights for Gays and Lesbians and seek to ¯ GregGatewood,TOHRboardpresident, noted that at the Sept. ." Lake Leatherwood Park. educate state party leadership about Lesbian and Gay ¯ .14th commlmity wide meeting held at the Center about 35 " Intheearlyaftemoon,bringthekidstoa"family" issues. family picnic at Harmon Park, sing like you’re in ihdividuals attended and the representatives decided through a They list the following specific goals of the National i largely consensus process to convene a commlmity council of the shower at karaoke, or listen to the sounds of Stonewall Democratic Federation as: ¯ organizations, churches and businesses. The group also decided : localandvisitmgGay/Lesbianmusiciansatseveral (1) mobilizing voters through a national grassroots to askTOHR to co-ordinate theproposedbi-monthlymeetings to " different venues around town. And please be sure network of Gay and Lesbian Democratic clubs and : exchange information and ideas. . to visit all the wonderfully unique shops, and individuals to advance the fight for Gay and Lesbian ¯ Marty Newman, a Human Rights Campaign board member, : support the Diversity Cooperative businesses of civil rights; ¯ who along with TOHR co-founder Dennis Neill, called the first " Eureka Springs. (2) improving the record of the Democratic party by : meeting this summer, expressed his satisfaction with the Sept. " Then, after a delightful dinner (it’s Eureka - pressing it further inthe direction of full recognition of - ". meeting and the general progress of the process. Newman-noted ¯ Spri.ngs’ Food and Wine Festival this weekend, the rightsof Gay men, Lesbians and Bisexuals to be free ¯ thatTulsaPFLAG chapter co-founder, Nancy McDonald attended ¯ too),work offthosecaloriesat two fantasticdances. from prejudice; ¯ the meeting and that Mrs. McDonald recalled that TOHRs by- : AtCenterStage, DJ Jonwillraisetheroofwithhigh (3) educating voters on the vast difference that exists ." laws had at one time had a provision for a community advisory ¯ energy club music. And the Basin Park Hotel between the two major parties on our issues, and the ¯ council. Meeting co-convener Dennis Neill, an attorney, was ¯ Ballroom will come alive with electrifying importance of voting Democxatic as the most effective i given the task of drafting a contract to clarify the relationship " performances by "Barnes", a dynamic GLAMAway to achieve our goals; ¯ betweenthevariousgroups.Formoreinformationaboutthenext ~ winningsinger/songwriter seeEureka, p. 14 (4) fighting the anti-Gay rhetoric of the Republican ¯ community meeting, call the Community Center at 743-4297. ." conservative-wing, which has increasingly become the : Also, the Community Center will be the site of an all-community ¯ instrument of those d~dicated to denying us our rights. ¯ Halloween Costume Ball to be held on Saturday, Ocotober 30th, : The organizers are encouraging those who share ¯ 8pm at 1307 East 38 Street, 2nd floor. The event will be BYOL " these values to come to the October 24 meeting which ¯ but soft drinks and ice will be provided. : will feature members from the newly formed Oklahoma : Organizers suggest that while this is a costume party, a loud ¯ City Stonewall Democrats chapter. Paul Barby, who ran ¯ shirt and simple mask will-do. Guests should not feel compelled : as an openly Gay candidate for US Congress in : to spend a lot of money, just to use a little imagination. The : Oklahon~a’s 6th district will speak. : sponsors, Prime Timers of Tulsa, stated that the purpose of the : For more information, telephone Start Simpson at _" party is for all groups connected with the Pride Center to have an 582-6557. ~ ¯ opportunitytogettoknowonemlother, andhelpbuildcommunity, i �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 832-1269 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 592-2143 *Boston Willy’s Diner, 1742 S. Boston 835-1207 Burger Sisters Restaurant, 1545 S. Sheridan 599-9512 *Empire Bar, 1516 S. 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Harvard 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink, net Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Barry Hensley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers Member of The Associated Press Issued on or before the 1 st of each month, the entire contents of this ~blication are not protected by US copyright 1998 by and may be reproduced either in Whole orT~ in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless ot.herwjse no,ted,,~must be signed & becomes the sole property of T~ Each reader is entitled to 4 copies of each edition at distribution lYoints. 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School Ave. JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 * is where you can ftndTFN. Not all are Gay-owned but allare Gay-friendly. Holy Union Ceremony Alan Williams and Gregory Casillas celebrated a Holy Union Ceremony on Friday, September 24, 1999, in Eureka Springs, AR. Presiding over the intimate union was Reverend Vivian Juett. The commitment ceremony was witnessed by Zoe Dearing and Nancy Ermding. After traveling to Dallas, TX, San Francisco, CA and Nashville, TN to celebrate with friends and family, the couple will reside for’a short period in Tulsa. Obiturary Dr. W. Malcolm Jacox, a veterinarian well known in the community for his kindness and gentleness with both his animal patients and their caregive~s, died Sept. 22. Services were held at Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Mausoleum on Sept. 25. He will be greatly missed by many both in and out of the Gay He is survived by his family and his longtime companion. Those who wish to honor his memory are encouraged to support a charity of their choice. Condolences may be sent care of Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 East 15th, Tulsa 74104. Mr. Tulsa Leather 2000 ¯ The Mr. Tulsa Leather 2000 contest was held September 10, 1999, at the Silver Star Saloon in Tulsa, Oklahoma.The evening included a benefit for Miss Gay Mid America, Catia Lee Love. Love will participate in the Miss Gay America contest. Four contestants participated in the contest: Jay Fleming, Kelly Kirby, Dayvid Montross, and Tony Hall, all of Tulsa Oklahoma. The men competed in Personal Interview, Street Wear, Swimwear/ Physique, and Full Leather Image events. The judging panel consisted of: Ron Greenwood, Mike Ryan, Ed Smith, John McCuistian, Don Lawrence, all also from Tulsa. The tally master was James Murray, Mr. Tulsa Leather 1997. The winner of the contest was Jay Fleming of Tulsa. Jay is a past "Mr Gay. Leather Long Beach 1987" and the 20th Elected Emperor, Greater California Empire. Fleming will compete for the Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2000 title on October 22-24, 1999. He is an event promoter for such events in Tulsa as Mayfest, Gatesway Balloon Festival and chairman of Street Party 2000; benefiting Street School and Tulsa at risk youth. Contest producer, Ric Poston, Mr Tulsa Leather 1999 and the Oklahoma Mr Leather 1999, said of Fleming, "he is an outstanding citizen and will be a great representative for the Tulsa Leather Community." The first runner up was Kelly Kirby and the 2nd runner up was Dayvid Montross. For more information on OML2000, check the T.U.L.S.A. website at WWW.TULSALEATHER.com �Editorial: Un!ted Our Way The Tulsa World- not frequently known for challenging the Tulsa power establishment, often inseparable from it. And what is more troubling about the unexamined decision to continue to fund the Indian Nations Council of the Boy Scouts of America by TAUW is the lack of leadership from TAUW’s board of directors. A number of TAUW board members come from corporations that claim that they do not discriminate on sexual orientation. Foremost among these are Public Service Company of Oklahoma, Dollar Thrifty Automotive Group, Inc. and Bank of America, and yet, somehow, not one of these very highly paid and presumably ratberintelligent men seem to havemade the connection between their own corporate policies emphasizing fairness andTAUW’s support for ablatantly bigoted program. Or perhaps they’ve just not"counected United Way also funds the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. or ." the dots." Or perhaps, they’re hoping that no one will ever Community Service Council that manages the other or~an{zatlons in ¯¯ hold them responsible. our eommunlty... Regardless, until Tulsa Area United Way see fit to Tulsa Community AIDS Project, one of the most groups that really do : begin to treat Lesbian and Gay Tulsans as equal human : beings by adding sexual orientation to its noneffective funding sources give a damn about for fighting HIV infection ,. discrimination policies and chooses not to fund ¯ organizations which discriminate, the best bet is for us to and for providing care for. us. Let’s stop using ¯ not to contribute to Tulsa Area United Way but to take individuals with HIV our dollars and those ." those same dollars and to give them directly to worthy relatedillnesses. These are of our families and ¯_ organizations. worthy organizations - as ¯ I’d suggest that instead of letting TAUW slice its take friends to support are many, many others ¯ off the top, give your dollars directly to Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. which TAUW funds. United Way’s However, along with the ¯. or other organizations in our community, like the prejudlee and ¯ community center, or the Cimarron Alliance or PFLAG, many good organizations which TAUW funds is eowardlee. Let us be ¯ groups that really do give a danm about us. Let’s stop ¯ using Our dollars and those of our families and friends to another. That is the Indian unlt,~ our way. ¯ support United Way’ s prejudice and cowardice. Let us be Nations Council of the ¯ united our way. Boy Scouts of America. It ¯ TulsaFamily News editorandpublisherTomNealhas is the official policy of the Boy Scouts, both locally and nationally, to discriminate on the basis of sexual ¯ volunteeredonaUnitedWayfundsdistributioncommittee ¯ on services for semor citizens tn the Tulsa area. orientation. They’ve been rather explicit about this. ¯ Unfortunately, hefound thatTulsaArea UnitedWay staff The last time the Indian Nations Council of the Boy went out of their way to censor and suppress questions Scouts of America voiced this policy locally was in August when James Dale, a former Scout in New Jersey, ¯ about how well member agencies were serving Lesbian successfully challenged the BSA’s apartheid policies ¯¯ and Gay seniors, even when the agencies were willing to answer the questions and despite TAUW claims that under New Jersey state law and won. A local BSA ¯ their evaluationprocess is "volunteer driven." Neal also representative however reiterated-its support for BSA ¯ has asked to serve on the funds distribution committee prejudice. Now as a former Boy Scout, I’m hardly hostile to the ¯¯ which looks at the funding for the Boy Scouts Indian Nations Council but, for some reason, keeps getting true values of the organization. But I do not believe that ¯ reassigned to senior services - imagine that. the phrase, "morally straight," ori_ginating around th_e tum of the century, ever, ever could be thought to refer to heterosexuality, using an interpretation of the word "straight" which never existed until at leas t some 60 years later. However I recognize that it is the prerogative under current federal, state and local law, of the BSA to engage First and foremost, let me put your mind at rest about in invidious discrimination if it chooses to do so. It is ¯ two of our regular columnists, our fabulous Do-Itreprehensible behavior but it is quite legal. " Yourself-Dyke, Mary Schepers and Tulsa City-County However, even if this bigoted conduct is legal, there is ¯ Library book reviewer, Barry Hensley. Both columns no justification for Tulsa Area United Way to use the ¯ will resume next month. funds it receives from the community as a whole to ¯ An,other upcoming event is the annual World AIDS ¯ subsidize the systematic discrimination of the Indian Day Memorial Service. This year’s event will be at Nations Council of the Boy Scouts of America. After all, ¯ Mount Zion Baptist Church under the auspices of the if we were to substitute "no Jews allowed" or "no Blacks ¯¯ Rev. Calvin McCutchen, Sr., one of Tulsa’s most allowed" lot"no fags allowed," I would hardy have to be distinguished religious leaders. The date, as always will ¯ be Dec. 1st which is a Wednesday but the details of the writing this essay. Part of why TAUW still funds this apartheid ~ march and precise time of the service will be announced. organization is an accident of history. The Boy Scouts ¯¯ It is expected that Council Oak Mens Chorale who had their first ever performance at a World AIDS Day have been funded for most of TUAW’s existence. Back ¯ in thoseearly days theBSA was one ofafew organizations Memorial Service will again lend their talents. The event that did address youth issues. That is no longer so. And in . is being co-ordinated by Diane Zike, former executive contrast with the BSA, the Girl Scouts, for example, have ¯¯ director of Interfaith AIDS Ministries and Beverly Denton explicitly said that sexual orientation is not relevant to Galbreith. For more information, call 438-2437. - TN participation in their organization and they have a nondiscrimination policy. An nouncements Policy Now if Tulsa Area United Way had a comprehensive Tulsa Family News will provide space for holy union non-discrimination policy, they might have some greater ¯ ceremony, mamage ceremony, birth, adoption and death degree of credibilityas an organization committed to fair " announcements on a space available basis. Photos are treatment of all. But they don’t. In fact, Ms. "duck’n’cover" Kathleen J. Coan, president ~ wdcome, though we cannot promise placement or return ¯ them, so please send copies to TFN, POB 4140, Tulsa and chief professional officer, is so gun-shy of the issue she’s managed not to return phone calls to this newspaper ¯ 74159. Letters Policy for nearly four years -now that’s what I call real ¯¯ Tulsa Family News¯ welcomes letters on issues which professional conduct (though in fairness, Ms. Coan did take a phone call once when TFN was calling on deadline ¯ we’ve covered or on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but and her p.r. person was unavailable) But it does call into question, Ms. Coan and TAUW’s commitment to all of ¯ letters must be signed & h.ave phone numbers, or be hand Tulsa’s communities when she seems primarily willing ~- delivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other to talk to non-minority news orggnizations, for example, ~ publications will be printed as is appropriate. Drug-resistant Strains of AIDS Virus Rising ." by Tom Neal, editor and publisher This year is the 75th anniversary of a program of ¯ charitable giving in Tulsa which has become known as ." Tulsa Area United Way (TAUW). Tulsa’s United Way ¯ supports some 231 programs offered by 68 member ¯¯ agencies and hopes to raise over $21 million and help perhaps 250,000individuals this year. Obviously, all this ¯ ¯ is worthy. ." For example, oneof the I’d suggest that agencies which TAUW ~ instead of letting supports is Tulsa ¯: "C.A.R.E.S., formerly and" TAU~V’ sllee its tare more accurately known as off the top, glve your : _" the HIV Resource dolhrs dlreetly to ¯ Consortium. Tulsa Area ¯ CHICAGO (AP) - Highly drug-resistant strains of the AIDS virus are on the rise, showing up in as many as 4.5% ofnewlyinfectedpatients in twonew studies. "Resistance is slowly increasing," said Dr. Roger J. Pomerantz, an expert not involved with either study, "If you were looking at this five years ago, you would see zero." The studies - published in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) - involve mostly Gay white men. Resistance, however, may be more prevalent in other groups, such as drug users and their sex partners, researchers-said. About 40,000 new HIV infections occur yearly in the United States. In recent years, powerful drug cocktails have subdued the virus to undetectable levels in many patients. But studies have found the virus persists or comes roaring back in 10% to 50%. The complicated drug regimen has proved difficult to adhere to, and many patients who missed doses or quit taking their medicines developed drug-resistant infections that are now being passed’along to others. "I wasn’t that surprised. This is what happens in infectious disease," said Pomerantz, director of the Center for Human Virology at Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia. HIV is still so new that scientists disagree even about how to define resistance. And since both studies used laboratory tests, no one really knows how the definitions will translate into patient care. Giving high doses of a drug may be enough to overwhelm a virus’ resistance, Pomerantz said. In one study, researchers at the University of California at San Diego defined resistance as a 10-fold increase in HIV’s ability to withstand a drug when compared with a laboratory strain. That study, led by Dr. Susan J. Little. tested 141 patients - in San Diego, Los Angeles, Dallas, Denver and Boston- and found that three (2%) had HIV with at least 10-fold greater resistance to one or more drugs. An additional 36 patients (26%) had HIV that was 2.5 to 10 times more resistant. In the other study, researchers at Rockefeller University in New York defined resistance as a threefold increase in HIV’s ability to withstand a drug. That study, led by Dr. Daniel Boden of the Aaron Diamond AIDS Research Center, tested 80 subjects in New York and Los Angeles. Of 67 in whom resistance could be tested, three (4.5%) had HIV that was highly resistant- fivefold resistant- to multiple drugs. The subjects were among 18 (26.8%) with HIV that was at least threefold resistant to at least one drug. Testing every newly infected patient for drugresistance would be impractical because the tests cost several thousand dollars and are difficult to interpret, Pomerantz said. But if a patient takes a drug cocktail faithfully and it isn’t working, testing should be considered to see how the combination of medicines might be reformulated, he said. Don’t Go to Sleep Yet ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ For a while, it seemed that there might be a light at the end of the tuunel of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. And for many things are better than they used to be: to become HIV positive is not immediatdy to know that your death was likely six months away like it was in the 80s. But the news report above from The Associated Press should slam home the message that we cannot be complacent; we must continue to educate ourselves and our children about protecting themselves against HIV infection, through all appropriate means: safer sex with its reduced risk, no sex, i.e. abstinence where appropriate and through the strengthening of longterm relationships through their legal recognition not only for heterosexuals but for Gay men and Lesbians. The best way to deal with AIDS is to prevent further infections but also to insist on adequate funding for proper care for those who are already infected and more funding for more successful treatments for AIDS. Please, please be safe, hdp those still in need and remember those whom we have lost. -Tom Neal �Accused Killer of Gay Soldier To Stand Trial FORT CAMPBELL, Ky. (AP) - An Army private charged with premeditated murder in the. beating death of afellow Fort Campbell soldier will stand trial at a general court-martial, the Army said Sept. 24th. The charge against Pvt. Calvin N. Glover was referred to court-martial by Maj. Gen. Robert T. Clark, Fort Campbell’ s commanding gelleral. Clark reviewed an iiiv~tigative hearing he~’d in August for Glovet and rexx:ived recommendations from the investigating officer, brigade commander and staffjudge advocate. The hearing was similar to a civilian grand jury investigation. Glover, of Sulphur, Okla.,is charged in the death of Pfc. Ban-y L. ,Winchell, of Kansas City, Me. No date has been set for G10ver’s courtmartial, which will be open to the public. The courtmartial is scheduled to be at Fort Campbell. According to Army investigators, the 21-year-old Winchell w as beaten with a baseball bat in his barracks on July 5 and died the following day at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville, Tenn. Gay civil-rights advocates say anti-Gay sentiment m,ay have been behind, or at least contributed to, me ldlling. Winehell was perceived as Gay by some soldiers in his mlit and friends contend he was beginning to explore his homosexuality when he Another investigative hearing was held several weeks ago for Spec. Justin R. Fisher, who is accused of being an accomplice in Winchell’s death. Fisher, of Lincoln, Neb., is accused of .encouraging Glover in the attack and lying to Army ii~qestigators about his iiavolvement. No decision has been made yet on whether Fisher’s case should proceed to a courtmartial, an Army official added. Both Glover and Fisher are being held at Fort Knox. Gay Priest Resigns NEWARK,N.J. (Ap)- A Gaypriest whose ordination divided the Episcopal church has left the parish where he ministered for six years, blaming the controversy that surroundedhim. Rev. Barry Stopfel said the furor strained his relationship with his partner, and preached his last sermon at St. George’ s Church in Maplewood at the end of September. "My ministry has not been a typical one," Stopfel told The Star-Ledger of Newark, N.J. in a story published recently. "It has been deeply gratifying but very stressful, and it has taken its toll on me and our marriage." When Stopfel was ordained as a deacon in 1990, conservative Episcopal bishops filed heresy charges against Newark Bishop Walter Righter. Righter’s trial was averted, but a church court in 1996 ruled that church doctrine does not explicitly bar the ordination of practicing homosexuals. The division, however, remained between the church’s conservative and liberal factions. Stopfel, 51, and his partner are moving to a 25-acre farm in an Amish area of Pennsylvania, where he said he will write a book. Methodist Minister Faces 2nd Church Trial OMAHA, Neb. (AP) -The Rev. Jimmy Creech, who faces another church trial for performing a Gay union ceremony, said the church law against such ceremonies amounts to institutional bigotry against Gay Christians. Reached at his Raleigh, N.C., home, Creech said he was disappointed but not surprised with.a church committee’s deci~i0n ordering him to stand trial. Nebraska United Methodist Church Bishop Joel Martinez announced thfit the former Nebraska minister will stand trial for Officiating a Chapel Hill, N.C. ceremony for two meninApril. A March 1998 church trial cleared Creech of violating church law for a similar 1997 ceremony involving two women. At least two complaints were filed as a result of the April ceremony. Atissuein Creech’s 1998 trial was whether the church’ s ban on same-sex unionswas a pastoral guideline or church law. The church has since established the ban is church law. Creech said the trial will be "a detriment to the church." "It’s a waste of time and money. The trial is an act of violence against Lesbians, Gays and bisexual people," Creech said. While Creech said he admits he violated the church law by performing the Chapel Hill ceremony, the immorality of this law makes him innocent of violating the order.and discipline of his denomination, of which he is accused. "I think the law itself is a violation of the highest ethical standards of the United Methodist Church," Creech said. Creech said the church’ s position on Gay unions is comparable to racism. "How can such an encumbered church witness to the grace bf God?" he asked. Martinez’s assistant, Rev. Mel Luetchens, said Martinez will .appoint another bishop as presiding authority for the case. A jury of 13 ministers will [ecide Creech" s fate. Ministers will lead the defense and the prosecution. The trial likely will be in Nebraska in the next couple of months,-Luetchens said. If convicted Creech faces a wide range of possible )unishments, including dismissal from the United Methodist clergy. Creech is on voluntary leave of absence after. Martinez declined to reappoint him pastor of Omah.a’ s First United Methodist Church after the earher controversy. He remains part of the Nebraska conference and is answerable to Martinez. Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 402i S.Ha~vard, sifite 2.10~-T~llsa 74135 MCC-United forme.rly Family of Faith & Greater Tulsa MCC Vermont Judge Judged .Joined as one body of believers. Come celebrate with us. By His Wife’s Vote 1623 North Maplewood, 838-1715 MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - A group opposed to same-sex marriage; "Take it to the People," says a V ermont Supreme Courtjustice mightnot be impartial as he reviews a pending case. "Take it to the People" says the wife of Justice John Dooley voted in June as a member of the Governor’s Commission on Women to give an award to the three same-sex couples who are challengxn.g Vermont marriage law. Sandra Dooley’s vote raises questions about whether the justice is impartial in the case now before the Vermont Supreme Court, said Ruth Charlesworth of Burlington, a member of the antimarriage group. "I think it is outrageous that the wife of the Supreme Court jusdce should come out (with a public stand) when this issue isn’t yet decided," Charlesworth said. ’‘This isn’t fair to the citizens of Vermont." The court is considering a law suit seeking to overtmal the state’s refusal to issue marriage licenses to samesex couples. Despite its concerns, ’’Take it to the People" hasn’t formally requested that Justice Dooley disqualify himself from the case. Judith Sutphen, executive director of the Governor’ s Commission on Women, said Sandra Dooley has been on the commission for 15 years. The organization has supported allowing same-sex couples to marry since. 1996 - before the lawsuit brought by two Gay men and four Lesbian women was appealed_ to the Supreme Court, Sutphen said. Commissioners have the right to take independent votes on issues, Sutphen said. "A wife has a right to vote as she chooses, as does a husband," she said. "The votes of one spouse don’t necessarily reflect the . judgment or opinion of the other spouse." "Take it to the People" argues that rules of judicial ¯ conduct sayjudges should disqualify themselves when their spouses have interests that could be substantially : affected by the proceeding. The lawyers at the office ." of the attorney general who are defending the state’s mamage lawweren’t available to comment. -" Beth Robinson, an attorney representing the three : couples in the Supreme Court appeal, said she felt confident the deliberations would be fair. "We have : no reason to question Jusdce Dooley’s ability to ~ impartially judge this case on its legal merits," : Robinson said. "Justice Dooley and his wife are two ¯ different people with two different jobs to do." Sunday Services, 11 am HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. Licensed Professional & National Certified Counselor, Certified Hypnotherapist Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation After Hours Appointments Available 2865 E. 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Jamestown Avenue (918) 749-8833 Rev. Steve Colladay, Minister Jay Brause and Gene Dugan had claimed in their lawsuit that it was discriminatory to not allow samesex couples the same health insurance and other benefits that married and unmarried heterosexual couples enjoy. It was their lawsuit that spurred the pbtition drive that put the same-sex marriage amendment before voters last November. Bob Wagstaff, the lawyer representing the two men, says the case will be appealed to the state Supreme Court. 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The registry would allow domestic partners - two unmarried people age 18 or older who live togetherto document that relationship. Gay couples cannot marry under Oregon law, which recognizes marriage as the union of a manand a woman. "I believe it is appropriate that AglJland, as a caring community, should lead the way," said Neil Sechan, speaking for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Political Caucus of Southern Oregon. The local chapter of Parents, Family and Friends of Lesbians and Gays are also backing the proposed registry. Mayor Cathy Shaw said she believes a registry would have limited effect on unmarried couples, whether heterosexual or same-sex. "I would be incredibly proud to be mayor of a community that provides this service," she said recendy. "I am a great believer in the institution of marriage... I understand why this community is asking us to do this -.how importantit.is to be able to celebrate in an official way your commitment to another person.’" Rosemary Dunn Dalton, also speaking for the caucus, said a registry would let unmarried couples establishrelationships for purposes of visitation rights in hospitals and other institutions. She said a registry would provide proof of partnership for businesses offering benefits to domestic partners. The Oregon Court of Appeals decided last year that if local governments offer benefits to domestic partners, they cannot deny benefits to same-sex couples because of the constitutional guarantee of equal protection. The court did not nile on Oregon’s legal definition of marriage. Ashland is among the local governments that have extended benefits to same-sex couples to comply with the ruling. A proposed ballot measure, to write the definition of marriage into the state constitution and bar benefits to unmarried couples, died in the 1999 Legislature. Albuquerque To Vote Housekeeping & Gardening Service Contact Patti on: (918) 582 8460 POB 3150, Tulsa, OK; 74101 OPENARMS, OPENMINDS, OPENHEARTS Saint Aidan Saint Dunstan 4045 N. Cincinnati. 425-7882 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Saint John Trinity 4200 S. Atlanta Place. 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You On Discrimination Ban ALBUQUERQUE (AP) - Lillian Mueller says she Gays in Albuquerque have lost their jobs and been denied housing because of their sexual orientation. Mueller, the mother of a Gay son and president of the local chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, has formed a new group called The Campaign for Human Rights. The group’s purpose is to mobilize support for a proposed amendment to the Albuquerque city charter that would add sexual orientation and mental disability to the antidiscrimination section. The issue will be on the Oct. 5 municipal election ballot. The charter now bans discrimination based on race, religion, sex and national origin. "It’s not a question of special rights," she said. "It’s a question of equal rights.’" But the Christian Coalition of New Mexico strongly opposes the charter amendment because it believes "the Gay lifestyle" is wrong. Mark Burton, Christian Coalition executive director, said his group will alert people in voters guides that go to about 300 churches. "It’s not a behavior that we want to have a nondiscrimination policy for," he said. "It’s a health haTard. It spreads AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases, so there’s no reason to endorse a behavior that’s dangerous and hazardous." Albuquerque added a human rights section to its charter in the early 1970s. The state Legislature in March rejected a bill that would have outlawed discrimination based on sexual orientation. It was the "third time such a measure was killed in the House. The bill would have expanded the state’s Human Rights Act to cover sexual orientation, malting it il!egal’to discriminate on that basis in matters of empld’yment, housing, credit, public-accommodations and’union membership. Eleven states and more than 170 local governments include sexual orientation in their nondiscrimination statutes, supporters Of the bill say. The cify of Albuquerque bars Such discrimination against its employees and when providing public services. Alleged Killers of Gay Men Must Stand Trial REDDING, Calif. (AP) - Two brothers accused of murdering a Gay couple must stand trial and may face the death penalty if convicted, Shasta County Superior Court Judge James Ruggiero has ruled. Benjamin M. Williams, 31, and James T. Williams, 29, will each be tried on two counts of murder and related charges. The brothers are accused of killing Gary Matson, 50, and Winfield Scott Mowder, 40, in July. They are also suspects in June arson fires that caused more than $1 million in damage to three Sacramento-area synagogues. Matson and Mowder were found shot to death in their bed July 1 in rural Happy Valley, about 165 miles north of Sacramento. The Williams brothers, being held without bail, have pleaded innocent to first-degree murder and four robbery, burglary and auto theft charges. The judge ruled that prosecutors can seek the death penalty, a decision that hasn’t been made. Prep School Attacker Free Until Trial GREENFIELD, Mass. (AP) - A Tennessee youth accused of using a knife to cut anti-Gay slur into the back of a fellow prep school student can continue college classes while awaiting trial, a judge said. Matthew Rogers, 20, of Franklin, Tenn., pleaded to charges of assault with a dangerous weapon. Franklin Superior Court Judge Lawrence Wemick continued bail at $10,000 cash or $50,000 bond on condition Rogers live with his parents or at the University of Mississippi where he is taking classes. Before his arrest, Rogers had held an appointment to the U.S. Naval Academy. Rogers and another student at the Northfield Mount Hermon School, Jonathan Shapiro, 18, of Keene, N.H., were initially charged in Greenfield District Court following the May 27 incident. The two are accused of slashing the word "HOMO" in shallow cuts on the back of a 17-year-old student during a dispute over music. Authorities said no one actually believed the victim was Gay. The argument arose over the rock band Queen and the characterization of its music as "Gay." Promoters of Community Center To Respond ELK CITY, Idaho (AP) - Promoters of a community education and performing ~ center expect to respond to charges by critics of the ~roposed c~nter who fear it could be used by homosexuals and become a place where teen-age girls get abortions. Plans to build the center have created division in the town of about 400 in remote Idaho County. Objections to the center range from locating it on school property to the fear homosexuals will use it to stage performances and teen-age girls getting abortions there. Critics have said since the center would be on public land there could not be restrictions placed on who uses it. �New AIDS Drug SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A medicine developed in North Carolina that blocks the AIDS virus from getting inside cells is showing promise among patients who fail to respond to standard AIDS drugs. The medicine, code-named T-20, is still in early-stage testing, but researchers said it could offer a reprieve for those who have run out of options. "It looks quite good," said Dr. Michael Saag of the University of Alabama. "We are looking at something with a.totally different method of. action. It is an important, potent new option." T~20 was discovered at Duke University. It is being developed by Hoffmatm-La Roche Inc. and Trimeris Inc., a small biotech company in Durham, N.C. Thedrug is the furthest along of a new ¯ body’s immune system may be able to ¯ k~p I-HV in check without completely eliminating it. : Satcher Looks at :¯ Kids’ Health : ROBINSVILLE, Miss. (AP) - U.S. ¯ SurgeonGeneralDavidSatcherhasissued ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ a warning about the health of America’s children. Satcher, speaking to a health association recently in Tunica County, said children are growing fatter, lazier, more sexually active and increasingly addicted to toxic substances. Satcher, former president of Meharry Medical College in Nashville, .Tenn., -spoke tO 400 public health care workers ¯ and advocates at the annual meeting of the ¯ Mississippi Public Health Association. Regarding the disparity in health care, ¯ Satcher said that in the last 10 years class of AIDS medicines called fusion ¯ minorities, women and children have inhibitors. They work by thwarting the : fallen behind in many areas. virus’s ability to fuse with blood cells and Satcher said progress has been made in ¯ insert their genetic material into them. ¯ dealing with infectious diseases and there However, the treatment has one large ¯ has been a decrease in the number of drawback compared with other AIDS ¯ cancer cases, injury-related deaths and drugs: Instead of being a pill, it must be ¯ adult smokers. However, the munber of injected twice daily. Nev~rtbeless, Saag : teen-age smokers has risen_rapidly, Satcher said patients in advanced stages of AIDS ¯ said. are willing to give themselves shots, and Obesity has become a virtual epidemic they seem to tolerate the drug well. ¯ among both adults and children, Satcher The results were reported by Dr. Jay said. The current generation of children Lalezari of Quest Clinical Research in ¯ and teen-agers is the most inactive the ¯ S an Francis co at a meeting of the.,Aga,erican country has ever had. Society for Microbiology. One of the results of that inactivity has Other AIDS drugs work principally by ¯ been an increase in Type 2 diabetes in thwarting the virus’s ability to stitch its ¯ children. In the past, physicians were told genetic material into cells it has invaded never to look for Type 2 in individuals or by blocking its ability to disperse mature ¯ - under 40 years old, Satcher said. Now, the copies of itself. disease is occurring in children under the Doctors gave T-20 to 55 people who age of 10. Emphasis must be placed on had high levels of the AIDS virus despite physical activity and on diet, Satcher said. trying many different combinations of The American diet consists mainiy of fats AIDS medicines. While these standard and sugars, he said. In one year, the average drugs have proved to be life savers for American will consume 156 pounds of many with AIDS, they do not work for all added sugar. patients. We need to promote healthy lifestyles, Doctors administered T-20 in Satcher said. "We need to promote combination with other drugs, even though physical activities. We need to promote the patients’ HIV was resistant to the nutrition and avoidance of toxins like older medicines. After four months of tobacco, alcohol and illicit drugs. We treatment, virus levels fell significantly in need to promote responsible sexual 33 of the volunteers. In 20 of them, the behavior." virus fell to levels too low to be measured. 40% of college students and 30% of Saag cautioned that the treatment is high school students are binge dri .nking, unlikely to work forever. But he said Satcher said. That has contributed to an doctors hope it will dday rebound of the increase m automobile accidents and virus for perhaps-a year. irresponsible ~exual behavior. T-20 is part of the protein that makes up "We need to talk more with our children the AIDS virus’ outer coat. Ordinarily it about what it means to be s exuall y activ e ," comes into play with another peptide- TSatcher said. "When we don’ t teach sex in 21 - as the AIDS vinm grabs onto blood the schools, at home and in the churches, ¯ cells and prepares to enter them. Scientists ¯ but they do teach it out on the streets or ¯ found that flooding the body with extra after school when there are no adults copies of T-20 gums up this attachment ¯ around, our children aren’t going to process, ¯ become responsible, sexual adults." Another AIDS study released at the ¯ His warning was directed not just to meeting found that treatment very early in teen-agers, but to all people. Every day, the course of an AIDS infection does not 16,000 people become infected with HIV, wipe out the virus entirely, as some had ¯ the virus that causes AIDS. In the years hoped. : since the disease’s discovery, HIV has Dr. Martin Markowitz of the Aaron ¯ infected 50 million people and resultedin Diamond AIDS Research Center in New 14 million AIDS-related deaths. York City reported on four patients who ¯ "In my opinion AIDS is the worst started treatment within seyen to 90 days : epidemic since the plague of the 14th of catching HIV. All signs of their virus : century or maybe the influenza epidemic disappeared, and they chose to stop therapy ," of 1918," Satcher said. "AIDS is after three years: The virus reappeared within two to three weeks, One patient went back on treatment, but the three others stayed off. After shooting up, their virus levds fell again to low but detectable levds. Researchers said the results raise the possibility that in such situations, the : ¯ : : ¯ ¯ increasingly a disease o,,f people of color, women and the young. African Americans account for almost 50% of new cases; Hispanics, 20%; and women, 25%. Not enough is being done to prevent the disease, Satcher said, even though people know how to stop the ¯ spread. Are You Gay or Bisexual? 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Peoria, Brookside 712-1400 awarded to an organization whose accomplishments include bringing health care to the Maasai and Turkana, two of Africa’s nomadic tribes. The Conrad N. Hilton Humanitarian Prize, awarded to the African Medical and Research Foundation, will give the organization funds it needs for additional work in AIDS and malaria prevention. It will also help pay to train more health care workers. ’q’his million will go along way and it will allow us to keep many projects afloat," saidJohn R. Batten, director of the Nairobi, Kenya-based AMREF, who accepted the prize at a ceremony in New York on Tuesday. Startedin 1957 as aprogram that helped needy Africans get specialized medical care- particularly reconstructive surgery - AMREF now provides health care services to 21 African countries. Programs are run from offices in Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda and South Africa. This year’s budget was $19 million. Over the years, AMREF built a twoway radio network that boosted hospital communications in East Africa, spearheaded the use of insecticide-treated mosquito nets to reduce childhood malaria deaths and performed more than 40,000 operations. It also has trained thousands of health care workers and specialists and brought services to the most remote corners of Africa, including to tribes that roam the continent. What sets AMREF apart from most international non-governmental organizations is that more than 95% of its employees are Africans. ’q’he approach we use in tackling all of theseproblems is community-based," said Peter Muchiri Ngatia, director for AMREF’s Uganda office. "Some prdl~lems "in A~r~ca, such as AIDS and HIV, areaggravated by cultural practices." Much of the prize, which will be spent over three years, will be directed at two of Africa’s biggest killers - AIDS and malaria. "AMREF’s success in building an African-led and African-run health care system that is accessible to all provides a strong model for aid agencies around the world," said Barron Hilton, chairman of Hilton Hotels Corp. and a board member of the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation. AMREF was selected out of 225 nominations made by members of the international community, including diplomats, foundation leaders and academics. Once nominations are made, the Hilton foundation researches the organization and performs On-site visits. After that, selections go to an independent international jury. Last year, Medecins Sans Frontieres, or Doctors Without Borders - the largest independent international medical aid organization - won the prize. DETROIT (AP) - Federal AIDS czar S andy Thurman and Mayor Dennis Archer led thousands of walkers in a fund-raising event for programs that help treat people infected with the deadly disease. The Detroit event was one of 12 statewide sponsored by AIDS Walk Michigan. "Walk on walkers!" Thurman shouted to cheering participants at Hart Haza, where the 3.1-mile walk began and ca_rex!.. Many held helium balloons and signs with messages such as "AIDS has many faces." Despite the cheery atmosphere and warm sunshine, Thurman brought a chilly message about the disease, which she said will have infected 100 million people worldwide by 2005. "We’re at the beginning of an epidemic, not the end of an epidemic, with no vaccine, no cure," she told reporters before the walk began. "It’s not going to be over next week. It’s not going to be over in 10 years. It’s probably not going to be over in my lifetime.’" A sign of hope is the success of antiAIDS drugs that are keeping thousands of people infected with the HIV virus free from symptoms. But in many Third World natxon~, including much of AIDSdecimated Africa, the medicines remain unaffordable and the public health system inadequate, she said. This is the second year of a coordinated AIDS Walk Michigan. Last year, 10 walks statewide raised $2~0,000, This year, walks also tookplace Sunday in Ann Arbor, BerrienCounty, Flint, Grand Rapids, Holland-Saugatuck, Kalamazoo, Lansing, Muskegon, Port Huron, Saginaw-Midland-Bay City and Traverse City. But organizers sdid/he ~)etro’it event was particularly important because of the high rate of AIDS in the city. With about 10% of the state’s population, Detroit has nearly half of the reported AIDS cases, they said. "It’s the No. 1 killer of young AfricanAmerican males and the No. 2 killer of young black females," said Detroit Episcopal Bishop R. Stewart Wood Jr. as he set out on the walk. Wood’s diocese, which has 35,000 members from Lansing to the Ohio line, has not been immune from the effects of AIDS. "Every one of our congregations has been touched by AIDS - members or loved-ones who have the disease. We’ve lost two of our clergy to AIDS," he said. Teresa and Bill Snell came in from Wayne County’s Redford Township to walk in this year’s walk, taking turns pushing 15-month-olddaughter Courtney in a three-wheeled jogger’s stroller. They raised a total of $49, most in pledges of $2 to $3, for their part in the walk. The 20 walkers from Mrs. Shell’s agency, the Detroit Hispanic Development Corp., raised $1,500 for. the fight, against AIDS. "It affects so many people and families around you," she said. "I don’t know anyone who has died,.of AIDS, but I do know that it is something that affects ¯¯ FRANKFORT, Ky~ (AP):-, The General Assembly could be asked to require all kinds of people," her husband said. "It’s something that’s got to be stopped." : doctors treating people infected with the : virus that causes AIDS to report them by ¯ name. It is the only way to ensure that : federal money for AIDS treatment and " program keeps flowing, a task force’s ~ reasoning goes. NEW YORK (AP) - The world’s largest : "The practicality is this," Dr. Anna humanitarian prize - $1 million - was ¯ Huang, see Health, p. 11 ¯ Feds Pushingf0r : Name"Reporting Award Given to African Groups �by James Christjohn, entertainment Queen ¯ (ironic, given his criticism only moments before of the "cinematic moments"). The By the time you read this, the film will ¯ be gone (thanks to Woodland Hills Cinema ¯ boys split, our hero deciding against a futurebased on deceptionand hiding with for bringing it to us!), but as it will be a great stocking stuffer - no catty remarks, : one so.uncomfortable with himself. To me, that was a happy ending - he please - I will review it for your reading ¯ pleasure anyway. And since I’ve never : was strong enough to standup for what he believed, both in a public worried about timeliness and personal sense, and before, why start now? And of course, no wasn’t willing to "settle" "Get Real" was a column written by for less. wonderful film about a 16 Yes, the sappy ending year old Gay boy in yours truly would my friend proposed would England, and the process have been ok, and his be complete of "coming out" - he runs rationale was that so many into an older boy at his without a mowes with Gay school, and they find characters end up with mention of themselves in "love", or depressing endings that what seems to be love. "You Know Who." he’d have liked to have Only one problem: The And if you seen an alternate ending older boy is ashamed of where both come out and his Gayness, and wants don’t know, then live happily ever after. everything kept "hushYeah, maybe it. would you’ve not been hush." have been nice, but I Needless to say, many reading this applaud the author and poignant moments ensue, producer’s strength to seetion regularly, all of which rang true for stick with this ending. me and the other person now have you? And to me, it was a viewing the film with me. happy ending of sorts. All Much was true to life, ¯ depends on perspective, I suppose. At any although much of it was kind of "what if I had come out at 16 instead of 21" ¯¯ rate, The activg was top-notch, the characters were real, and it is definitely a speculation for me. I was a late bloomer, ¯ film destined to be at the top of my DVD what can I say? Speaks a lot for "the ¯ wish list." environment. "Beauty and the Beast" ended its run on At any rate, I found the film absorbing :¯ aninterestingnot.e.Abeautifulproduction, and realistic, in many aspects. As my friend pointed out, "Yes, but there were so ¯ albeit with some technieal difficulties (the. many’cinematic moments.’ "My response : first week’s shows were in reality was, "yes -and ? - life is made of : "previews", in which technical errors are ’cinematic moments.’ Sometimes we’re : more or less expected and worked out) bad timing on the lighting, lucky enough to havelots of them." I ¯¯ such as ° ’ " ° pointed out several ’cinematic moments’ ¯ reveahngcharacter s disappearances"to be actors running in and out oflights when that we shared that he’d forgotten, and he ¯ it should be dark, beasts transforming into conceded the point. He also took umbrage with the ending, : princes and getting stuck in midwhichwas realistic. (Warning: Don’tread ’¯ transformation by malfunctioning "magic" ("this spell canceled due to beyond this point to the next paragraph if ¯ technical difficulties") and mysterious you haven’t seen it and don’t want it ¯ illnesses taking out cast members. spoiled) see Beast, p. 14 He wanted a more romantic ending ". ¯ Tea, who squeezed 240 pounds into a by John Curran ATLANTIC CITY - The flowers and : sequined black cocktail dress and operadime-store crown were real. Nearly " length black gloves. Down the runway ¯ everything else was fake, from the ¯ went Miss Tea, pushing acartloaded with goodies and warbling a versionofthe title eyelashes to the cleavage to the tip-synched : song from the musical "Cabaret." "Life is songs. ¯ abigb,uf,fet, myfriend. Socometothebig Welcome to Atlantic City’ s other beauty pageant, the one for men dressed in drag. ¯ buffet, sang Miss Tea. Then there was Miss Tenee, a 6-foot-3 Seven blocks and a world away from the stage where Miss America 2000 was : inch, 205-pounder, who began a talent crowned, the Miss’d America Pageant ¯¯ segment in a purple Afro wig and brown velour dress. That soon disappeared, lampooned its famous older sister with a raucous, gender-bending spoof funny : revealing a silk chemise. Miss Tenee won : the crown, was given a dozen roses and enough to bust a girdle. Held annually on the night after Miss ¯¯ headeddown the bulb-adorned runway as the crowd sang a reworked version of America’s crowning, Miss’d America provides a sarcastic antidote to the apple- ". "There She Is," the Miss Americastandard. ¯ The capacity 600-person crowd was a pie sincerity of the real pageant. The ¯ mix of Gay and straight, casino workers swimsuit competition? A display of chunky thighs and muscular arms. The ¯ and local politicians, Miss America Pageant hairstylists and female musical production numbers? Over-the¯ impersonators. , top atrocious. The evening wear contest? Not that there wasn t some authenticity Outright hysterical. ¯ to the proceedings. Miss America 1998 The only serious thing Sunday was the cause: Theeventraisedmorethan $15,000 : Kate Shindle, who spent her reign for support programs run by the South ¯ promoting AIDS advocacy and needle Jersey AIDS Alliance. "It’s the wildest : exchanges, sang "My Man" during the show this side of the Boardwalk," said : show. "As far as I’m concerned, what’s Bill Mattel, the alliance’s former chief : any pageant without a former Miss ¯ Whatever singing StreisandT’ she said. executive. Wild, indeed. There was Miss Sallotta by the Helmerich Foundation October 16, 22 & 24 Tulsa Perf:oming Arts Act Now! 587-4811 596-7111 for tickets. 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"In by George Bria ¯ essence, thesemuscles act as"guy wires," POUND RIDGE, N.Y. (AP) - Gardening ¯ to keep your baekmhne. She prescn a series of abdominal strengthening ~njoys suchaserenereputation that getting njure~ at it seems almost laughable: Yet : an overzealous green thumb can also mean ¯ exercises and also exercises to condition other muscles related to the back. a sore elbow. : If, in spite of all this, back spasm The casualty hsts are. swelled, of course, suddenly strikes, Pearlman by the power eqmpment "Lets get says stop your garden work ix~juries oaten stiffered through immediately, head for the ¯ in’attention or failure to wear down to earth house and lie down on an ice ,:protective gear~ But. what we’re pack for 20 minutes. That’s and be real;’ talking about here is soreness, a beginner. Then do some Pearlman says, just strains and sprains. exercises and maybe take a A common ailment is pain reliever. Repeat the "gardening is tendonitis. You can get tennis sequence four or five tames elbow just pulling weeds, the an active, during the first day. In two or repetitive squeezing motion three days you should be contact "sport." inciting inflzmmation. she says, and if not, Back muscle spasm is "When is the better, think of going to a doctor. another trauma that threatens last time you Pearlman prescribes a the wheelbarrow lifter or the variety of push-ups and person who bends abruptly or sat still in your weight-lifting exercises to improperly to perform some -strengthen arms. One. way to garden?" task in flower bed or vegetable strengthen hands, she says, is patch. Sometimes it just - Barbara repetitive squeezing of a happens without an easily semisoft rubber ball.. Aside Pearlman pinpointed cause. from strengthening exercises, Having suffered both these ailments from my gardening, I can testify : knee fitness involves proper squatting in they’re just as painful as if you got them " the garden, Pearlman says. This means keeping your heels flat, otherwise far on the tennis court, as I did, or from some ° : much pressure is placed on your knees." other sport or at work. To add to potential : "Knowing how to bend over andhow to miseries, a bad elbow you got in tennis ¯ might heal only to flare up again in the ¯ lift an object (or yourself) the correct way is crucial to gardening," Pearlman says. garden. Tendonitis can hit the shoulder, too, and often does. There are conditioning : ’The chance of straining your back is far : greater if youneglect to bend your knees." exercises you can do, and probably should ¯ When carrying things, she says, "you do, to prevent injuries, but in my ¯ should use the strongest and largest joints experience inflanu~tory ailments like and muscles (those in your arms) for the tendonitis sometimes seem to happen . " job to avoid direct pressure on your willy-nilly. ¯ smallestjointsandweakestmuscles (those One day you’re fine after w.eedigg an,d. : in your hands and fingers.)" another day you develop pain tlaat doesn t "There is a right way and a wrong way go away. The same thing happens to a ¯¯ pitcher or a hard-serving teums player ¯ to move when you garden and malting th,e, right moves makes good garden sense,’ despite conditioning. Proven therapies, ". Pearlman says. "It’s as simple as that." involving drugs, exercises or even surgery, exist to heal such injuries but preventing : them from happening in the first place is : something else. Nevertheless, suggestions exist, and a good book has just come out aimed at conditioning you to minimize the chances of getting hurt while gardening. "Gardener"s Fitness" by Barbara Pearlman (Taylor Publishing Co., $12.95, ¯ JOHANNESBURG, South Mrica (AP)¯ A provincial blood donor service has paperback), a Manhattan fitness expert ¯ and a gardener, prescribes exercises, ¯ started turning away black blood donors between 18 and 35 years because of the proper posture and attire and relaxation : high risk of infection from AIDS and teclmiques. The 151-page book contains easy-to-follow instructions and helpful ¯ other diseases, E-TV reported in : September. illustrations. ¯ Eric Saunderson, head of the Natal "Lets get down to earth and be real," BloodTransfusion Service, confirmed that Pearlman says, "gardening is an active, the agency is importing blood from contact "sport." "When is the last time Holland and the Western Cape, a province you sat still in your garden?" she asks, "If with a lower rate of HIV infections. you’re not hauling heavy rocks, you’re "Our responsibility is to the patient, and ¯ pushing a wheelbarrow, toting tools, ¯ it’s the right of every patient to have the dragging the hose, or whacking weeds. ¯ You’re in perpetual motion, unless of ¯ safest blood possible," Saund~rson said course your idea of gardening is planting ¯ in the television interview. Ronald Louw, a spokesman from the :apot of ~etunias or p~msies on your paso?’ ¯ Gay and Lesbian Coalition, denounced Pearlman identifies tlie body parts mat the practice of apartheid blood collection. work hardest in the garden as arms,: ,,l~ees, ¯ ’q’his is discrimination," he said. hands "and, abov,~ all, your back,. Back ¯ About 8% 0f all South Africans are pain,"shesays,~s the gardener sbugaboo. ¯ Unless your back is made of steel (in ¯ HIV positive,~a rate that reaches up to 25% in some communities in KwaZuluwhich case, you probably can’.t g.etinto ,al,1 ¯ Natal, where the Natal service is located, the contorted positions gardemng cans ¯ and elsewhere in the country. But a racial for) at some point during the season, your : breakdown of the infection rate was not back is bound to protest." ’The very best defense against back ¯ known. pain is a good offense, which means strong The More Things Postage Stamp 1985 22¢ 1998 32~ Minimum Wage 1985 $3.35 1998 $5.15 Average New Car Price 1985 $ 9,011 1998 $20,000 The More Things Stay The Same. Average Price of Electrici~ Per Residential kWh 1985 6.,$¢ A lot has changed since 1985. Prices for many 1998 5.7¢ consumer goods have more than doubled. But one thing has stayed the same. Our rates. They’ve remained virtually unchanged for almost fifteen years. 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"It’s gender real man - llke comedian’s portrayal of straight-jacketing," Pollack the ones in the schlepping through a mundane "He’s stuck in a job that’s said. ’q~hese boys believe that media - they job. going nowhere and the whole in order to be a real man- like basis (of the show) is that he is the ones in the media - they have to be ¯ . . a loser," Ms. Salisbury have to be violent and violent and said. "That tells boys that the aggressive."About 74% of the only place to be is at the top. characters and sports figures aggressive." Otherwise, you’re to be viewed by the participants laughed at." committed brutal or defiant - William Michael J. Gerson, a acts or demonstrated antipsychologist and lecturer at social behavior such as Pollack Loyola Marymount ridiculing or lying, Pollack University, criticized Children Now for said. The study was released at the start of the ¯¯ drawing what he characterized as an elementary conclusion about the effects group’ s anntml conference in Los Angeles. Children Now, an independent advocacy ¯ of media violence on young people. group for children in Oakland, plans to ¯ "Researchers can underestimate the ability of children to make distinctions between use the findings to call on entertainment ¯ fantasy andreality,"Gerson said.’~A child executives to promote a more compassionate image of men, said Lois ¯ may s~oot his fingers like a gun, but he doesn t have to develop a killer mentality Salisbury, president of the organization. According to Ms. Salisbury, the ¯ or wish to be destructive." i-iowever, kickboxing crimefighter on "Walker, ¯¯ Gerson said Children Now was correct in proposing that the blending of sex and Texas Ranger" on CBS and the ¯ violence can confuse adolescents who sensationalized crashes and arrests on Fox’s "World’s Wildest Police Videos" ¯ should instead associate gentleness with were among the worst for reinforcing ¯ intimacy. "I do object to movies where the negativ e stereotypes of authoritativemen. ¯ girl and the guy get into the back seat of ¯ the car and a Miler pops out and cuts them "They just glorify heavy-handed tactics," ¯ in half with a chain saw," Gerson said. she said. She also speculated that professional ¯ "That can cause problems." wrestling’s blend of scantily dad women Kentucky, said states should challenge the federal agencies. "It’s a terrible thing that we have to sacrifice so much privacy in the name of money," Vessels said. a University of Louisville assistant medical An AIDS patient said the stigma of the professor, said: without federal money, disease would drive many people only people with insurance will have underground. "For the fear of reporting access to the relatively few doctors with their names, they simply will not go get experience in AIDS treatment. "I think we’re at a point the legislation tested," Michael Seidler of Louisville needs to be considered," Huang said during testified. The state keepsrecords of AIDS patients a public hearing by the legislature’s Task Force on HIV/AIDS Prevention, Services " by name, but not of people infected with and Financing. " ttIV..For that reason, the state’ s reports of Thirty-three states require people ! HIV infection are considered suspect by infected with HIV, the human ¯ federal record keepers at the Centers for immundeficiency virus, to be reported by " Disease Control. Mollie’Adkins, of the name. The federal government is : Kentucky Department for Public Health, pressuring all other states, including ¯ said name reporting is the most reliable Kentucky, to follow suit. Those that balk ¯ way yet found to ensure cases are not could lose federal funding for AIDS, the " duplicated and statistics are not inflated. task force says in a report. ." Names would he maintained, in a state The recommendation brought a fierce ¯ database, not passed along to the CDC. response about privacy- even among task " The task force also says the legislature force members - at the public hearing. "I " should restrict access to the information call it blackmail," said Barry .Norris, a ," and enact stiff penalties for breaches. Seidler, the AIDS patient, said that was task force member from Louisville. But, ¯ Norris asked, what choice does Kentucky " wishful thinking. Computer hackers got 9 ° into Florida’s HIV-test database, he said. have. Do we just not take the money... ¯ Do we make a principled stand?" Jeff ." "If you can guarantee somethin g like that’ s Vessels, executive director of the ¯ not going to happen..." Seidler said, "by American Civil Liberties Union in " all means go out and get tested yourselves." �Red Rock Tulsa ~ substance use issues than are heterosexual by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. ¯ women. Oneofthe questionsinthesurvey Do Lesbians drink more alcohol than is "Have you ever wondered if you had a heterosexual women? In the not-toodrinking problem," and 47% distant past, the Lesbian bar of Lesbians answered "yes" to was one of the only places " ~ome d the this item compared with only where Lesbians could go to early studies 14% of the heterosexual meet other women. On the women. This finding again other hand, many Lesbian bars su~,rested that hints at heavy alcohol use in h~iVe Closed down, indicating the past on the part of Lesbians. P.erhaps that Lesbians -are up-to onle~thlrdFinally, there was a trend for drinking l~ss and have otherd Lesbians older Lesbians to report more places to socialize, were serious drinking, and these are the To find out more about Lesbians who were adults Lesbians and alcohol-use, I alcohol during earlier times when interviewed Dr. Tonda Hughe~ abusers~~ drinking was more part of the in the Department of Nursing Lesbian commurtities. at the University of Illinois at she said, ’but Dr. Hughes is interested in Chicago. ,Some of the early often these exploring patterns of drinking studies suggested that up .to across various age groups of one third of Lesbians were researchers Lesbians. Specifically, she is serious alcohol abusers," she co||ected tbelr interested in whether older said, "but often these Lesbian~ who were adults researchers collected their data data [rom during earlier times when from Lesbians in bars. So itis Lesblans ;n drinking was more part of the not surprising that this method Lesbian cotumunities are found a large number of bars. So it’s continuing to drink heavily. Lesbians who were heavy not surprlslng She is also interested in the drinkers. I think that that is question of how Lesbians and why we have the bdief that that this their partners moderate each Lesbians are atrisk for alcohol method [ound others drinking, because abuse." research on heterosexuals Nevertheless, Dr. Hughes shows that partners’ drinking believes that Lesbians drank o[ Lesbians is a major factor in how much more than heterosexual people drink. We still know who were women in the 1960s and 70s. very little about all Ihe factors "Lower rates of drinking heavy drinkers. that increase or decrease among Lesbians now is partly Lesbians’ risk for alcohol I think that due to changes in drinking in abuse or alcohol-related the whole population, to more that is why we problems. health consciousness, and to Esther Rothblum is Probare the belld fessor the AIDS crisis, which has of Psychology at the alerted us to the risks of alcohol that Lesbians University of Vermont and and drug use," she said. She Editor of the Journal of are at r~sk [or also felt that Lesbians used to Lesbian Studies. She can be drink more during the coming alcohol abuse.’" reached at Dewey Hall, Univ. out process, in order to deal of Vermont, Burlington, VT, with social anxiety and stigma ¯ emaih esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. involved in meeting other women and coming to terms with being a Lesbian. In a study conducted in Chicago, New York City, and Minneapolis/St. Paul in the mid-1980s with more than Lesbians, of The Tulsa Worldnews story about the Lesbians overall were no more likely to report alcohol-related problems than we.re ° New Jersey ruling. Ms. Kue.lmert promised to check into the issue and to telephone heterosexual women. Only Lesbians in the 50-60 year old age range reported ¯ back the next day. TAUW enjoys significant support from more alcohol problems than did their " heterosexualcounterparts. Dr. Hughes has ¯ some of Tulsa’s most well known conductedaseries of studies withLesbians " corporations. Debbie Graham of QuikTrip and heterosextml women that focus on ° Corporation said that her organization various mental health factors, including ¯ had supported United Way for many years because it helps a vast variety of agencies alcohol use and abuse. Her results indicate that Lesbians these " but-that Quik Trip doesn’t get involved in days are no more likely to drink heavily " "the politics of individual agencies." And while Ms. Graham could not than are heterosexual women. In fact,-confirm that Quik Trip has a nonLesbians were more likely to report ¯ abstaining from alcohol altogether for the " discrimination policy which explicitly past year than were heterosexual women.." includes "sexual orientation," she noted Most of the Lesbian and-heterosexual ¯ that it is their practice not to discriminate. Quik Trip had provided promotion of womenin her sample drank alcohol at low " levels. White Lesbians, however, drank " the United Way campaign in the form of more thandid African American or Latina ¯ a printed solicitation for support on Quik Trip paper bags. Lesbians. Emily Gill of Dollar Car Rental did "Interestingly, there are more Lesbians ." who report that they are in recovery, " confirm that her company and its parent though" she added. Only 2% of." group, Dollar/Thrifty Automotive Group (DTAG) which Mr. Cappy chairs, does heterosexual women had been in treatment have an explicit non-discrimination policy for alcohol or in 12-step programs, compared with 17% of Lesbians--a large " but Ms. Gill was unable to address whether difference. This may be the result of prior ¯ any one at DTAG saw any conflict between heavy drinking among Lesbians. Or it " their internal non-discrimination policy see TA UW, p. 13 may be thht Lesbians are more aware of " and Free Confidential HIV Testing Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Walk-in Clinics Tuesday Testing, 5 -8 pm Pride Center, 1307 East 38th Wednesday Tdsting, 5-8 pm Need a Coming Out Support Group? Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Daytime appointments available. 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And my friend : justifiedbypersonal experience. (Lesbian Steve- who is 33 and gorgeous - always shaves five or six years off his age on ¯ society is,l~___ha,p_s kinder to it_s wrin.kl,ed sisters ) It s fun to read the age limitalmns those tempting messages he leaves on in classified personal ads. telephone dating, lines. Most of the lovelorn are ISO "Gay men may Welcome to America. sweet-young things. Not many Growing up around here is be more want to date those of well-. good. But growing old can be aged .and mature vintage. panicked by a problem. We all know about Many ads have upper age cutthe bittersweetness of age than most offs - commonly 30 or 35 or, birthdays. Next time you are more rarely, 40. Some seekers Americans. in a card store, have a look at are willing to date over a those nasty if cruelly funny. We have all decade’s span-five years cards that we are encourag younger to five years older heard bitter to giveanyoneunlueky enough than themselves. Many 40to have turned 40. Women complaints somethings speei-ficaldl’y complain that the onusof age request none but the 20a~out our falls most heavily on them. something... Good luck... Men, as they wrinkle, gray; agism -and More gray hair on the way for and sag, at least might bope.~o I think. lookism - and you, grow to be distinguished. Or there is the daddy niche: Women, on the other hand, such gripes are Sugar daddies,leather daddies, age into grannies and crones. bears and cubs. A few often sadly My sly friends who have yonngish personal advertisers recycled or lost a few of their justified by won’ t touch anyone blrdadays, however, don~t underneath 45 or 50. They personal seem to be waiting eagerly for want ~eir daddy. At.least there distinguished, silver-haired experience." remarns, here m .agist maturity. They, too~ would American, one specialized rather stay young and juicy. market opporUmity for mental, ,facial,,and Theexplosion of men’s hair dye, plastic financial maturity. So you can atways ouy surgery, and youthful herbal supplement a youth if you can’t have youth yourself commercials flashing daily on my Then there are the age-blind. They "go television screen suggest an increasingly bvth niri "Thevoromisetodateanyone __ ~_e s,___t. desperate age-panic among all of us, no 18 to 88, or so they say. I logged onto a 61matter our gender. vear-old’s personal page on the Internet. When I was 24, I lived on Tanna, an "Age is only a state of mind,"it said. Yeah isolated South Pacific island. Everyone right. Are you from Tanna or America? there is related to everyone. Newcomers Check out your mirror. But I’m taking - quickly receive "fictive kin" identities in notes. Those birthdays keep rolling. And order better to fit into village life. Soon next year the cake might set off the smoke after I arrived, all the kids began calling me kaha - "grandpa." I was taken aback Lamont Lindstrom. Ph.D. teaches by this. Why, back then, I had hardly any anthropology at ~he University of Tulsa? gray hair after all! On Tanna, though, as in most places on earth, ageis pr_estigio.us.. Those kids were doing me abig favor wttla that grandpa thing. My island friend Nariu, who was hardly older than me, within a the discriminatory policies of the BSA few years had started referring to himself and United Way’s failure to pledge not to (and me) as "’we old men." Nariu was discriminate. Ms. Gill promised a response ambitious and since old men ran his after consulting with others in her society, he was determined to become a organization but failed to respond by press senior citizen as soon as he could. time. American fears of aging clearly have Likewise, Jean Johnson, Bank of much to do with how years connect up America’s southwestern press with power and prestige. I sometimes ask spokesperson, pointed out that the bank, my university students when they think with its origins in San Francisco, has adulthood begins. When do you truly some of the most progressive policies, not become an adult? They tend to place this only pledging not to discriminate but also somewhere in the 20s- a few years bey.ond ¯ prowiding domestic partner benefits to their own age. Most Americans associate ¯ their employees. She added that Bank of adulthood with economic independence: ] America is one of United Way’s largest having one’s own job, paying 0n.e’s.o.wn ~ supporters on a national level. Roger bills. We see some 35-year-old still hvlng ¯ Whaley of Bank of America serves on the with mother as sadly still a little juvenile. ~ board of directors of TAUW. I also ask my youthful students for their, : The Tulsa Area United Way campaign defimtmns of nnddle-aged and old. ¯ enjoys further promotional sup.port fr,.om Answers here are more variable. (Some Tulsa area television stations. Accoromg start middle age-at 30.) Generally, though, ’. to the staffperson at KOTV, Channel 6, true oldness connects with retirement. : the stations which represent the major Once we leave the workplace for good, ~ networks and Fox all agree to do public we lose salary, power, prestige, and any ¯ service announcements. final fleeting claims to youth. People " Pat Baldwin of KTUL, Cbannel 8 who throughout most of the world can’t wait to ¯ see TA UW, p. 14 is a member get old. The older they are, the more �: is "very clear...very firm" on their ¯ corporate non-discriminationpolicy which ¯ includes "sexual orientation." Greg Gatewood, president of Tulsa The regular Belle’s father was : hospitalized during the run, and at the last ¯¯ Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), was one .Gay person willing to have his matinee, folks in the audience never knew of the backstage drama going on. The : name used though he emphasized that he Beast became ill at the end of the first act ¯¯ was speaking as an individual not for TOHR. Gatewood saidhefeltUnitedWay (where he flings himself across a balcony In despair of ever being loved, and the : did a lot of good, funding for example, curtain falls). When the backstage crew ¯¯ TulsaC.A.R.E.S.andotherorganizations, and that he’d given to United Way in the revolved the set to help him down, they found the actor playing the Beast hanging : past. However, he added that he did not over the balcony - passed out cold. They ¯¯ agree with theBoy Scouts’ policy and that he’d like to see United Way open a revived him, and he decided to go on with : discussionwith theGay community about the show: ¯ the Boy Scouts, trying to f’md common However, you could never tell from the audience that anything was wrong. After ¯¯ ground. He added that he’d like to include the performance, he was whisked to the ¯ the Boy Scouts in that dialogue also. He suggested that instead of asking hospital as soon as the curtain fell. It ¯ Tulsa Area United Way to stop funding appears he may have been suffering from ¯ the Boy Scouts that TAUW should be a bleeding ulcer. The understudy went on that evening, : asked to fund an organization which and I hear he did well, despite misgivings : provides services to Tulsa’s Lesbian and on the part of some of the crew and other : .Gay communities. Gatewood emphaticast members- not to mentionhe himself! ¯ tally agreed thatTAUW shouldamendits I was sorry to see the troupe leave - they : own non-discrimination policy to include ¯ "sexual orientation." were such nice folk. A prominent member of Tulsa’s Gay October events at the Performing Arts : Center (596-7111 for tix) include Tulsa ¯¯ community, Vernon Jones, partner of the late Phil Wiley and civil rights and HIV/ Ballet’ s "Anna Karenina", Oct 1-3; Sabella ¯ AIDS issues activist, recalled that Tulsa Oct 2; The Celtic Series with Natalie McMaster, Oct 8-9; Tulsa Opera’s ¯ Area United Way also has a history of "Carmen, Oct 16-24; ATC’s Titanic :¯ racial discrimination. He remembers newspaper articles from his youth mystery, "Scotland Road", Ok 22-30; ¯ reporting on how TAUW refused to fund and The Phil’s pops concert, "Sound and ¯ agencies which served Tulsa’s Black Sorcery" Oct 29-30. I look forward to the arrival of Petula ¯¯ commtmity. Jones,likeothers appreciated TAUW’s support for HIV/AIDS services Clark as Norma Desmond in "Sunset Boulevard." However, I still think Carol ¯ " but thought United Way should not fund. the BSA. Bumett should tour with the show; that Beth Kuehnert, Tulsa Area United would bea .fresh interpretation in many Way’s marketing representative, did not respects. The reviews I’ve read and heard call back as she promised. When asked from friends thus far have reassured me about this by telephone, she accused Tulsa we are in for an excellent show. The Family News of calling and harassing magic in the making will arrive November United Way supporters, naming one in 23 -28. particular. Ms. Kuehnert was informed And of course, no column written by that a news story required speaking with yours truly would be complete without a more than just her and that all contacts mention of"You Know Who."And if you with United Way supporters had been don’t know, then you’ve not been reading through their designated press this section regularly, now have you? representatives and clearly identified as Shame on you! news inquiries and had been quite cordial. The ever-ethereal Stevie Nicks made a And despite earlier promises to try to stumling appearance on the top-rated answer questions about United Way’s Sheryl Crow and Friends concert on the decision to fund .the Boy Scouts, Ms. ,Fox network, and it was interesting to Kuehnert now stated that "I’m not going note that she garnered the most enthusiastic to ask this question in the middle of the audience response of the eminently campaign.., the decision [to fund the Boy talented bunch. Scouts] was made in the spring [last "Gold Dust Woman" never sounded spring]." better, and according to the rumor mill, When Tulsa Family News contacted the her new CD’s in the can, awaiting release. United Way corporate supporter who had Sheryl Crow produced the CD in between allegedly been the subject of TFN tours. Also, Lesbian Icon, Melissa harassment, TFN was told that they’d said Etheridge, if you follow the Tulsa World nothing of the sort but only that they’d columns, is rumored to be scheduling a Tulsa appearance. We’ll be awaiting word ¯ called Tulsa Area United Way president and chief professional officer, Kathleen on that situation. ¯ Coon, to say that the issue of funding the And "heart-and-other-body-partsthrob" Ricky Martin will be in Dallas : Boy Scouts had been raised. ¯ This corporate spokesperson November 4th. Ay cammba! ¯ characterized the conversation with TFN ¯ as very civil and cordial. At press dine, Tulsa Family News had ¯ made either three or four phone calls over of the board of directors of Tulsa Area : at least a four year period to Tulsa Area United Way, failed to respond to the voice ~ United Way president Kathleen Coan mail asking him to call. ¯ requesting the courtesy of a return phone In contrast, Bud Brown, new general ¯ call. manager of KOTV, Channel 6, noted he’d To date, Ms. Coon, despite an apparent ¯ only been in Tulsa for 3 weeks, and had ¯ ready accessibility to The Tulsa World not seen the Tulsa World article in which ¯ and other non-minority news orgamthe Boy Scouts reaffirmed their anti-Gay ." zations, has refused to return any calls. stance but he noted that his corporation, ¯ For a related editorial, please see The Belo Corporation which owns the ; United Our Way, p. 3. 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(and former lead singer of "lnae Nylons), whose sound is an eclectic hybrid of electronic pop with arock ’n’ roll swagger, and the fabulous "Doris Daze", an allwomen’s pop/rock band that is currently making a big splash in Dallas. (Check out these websites, www.mp3.com/dorisdaze and www.loudboybarnes.com, to get a taste of their music.) And it’s not over yet! Don’t dare miss the dance and drag show on Sunday afternoon at Center Stage. Besides the always exciting, always surprising performances of Domonique Daniels, .Carla Renee, Miss Helga, Tara T’Neil, and Tabitha Taylor of Tulsa, Okla., and our ever-popular DJ, Jon Caswell, "Barnes" will make a guest appearance! So call your friends, select your wardrobe, and make your lodging reservations now!! You won’t want to miss this weekend!!! Call The Emerald Rainbow at (501) 253-5445 or visit www.shimaka.com!eureka/diversity to get a full schedule of activities. DIVERSITY CELEBRATION SCHEDULE OF ACTIVITIES " bRIDAY, NOVEMBER 5 2:30 pm - 5:00 pin"Family" musicians perform at Mud St. Espresso Cafe on Main St. 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm More entertainment at the Kaffeehaus Aroma in Basin Park Hotel. 8:00 pm - 12:30 am M.CC. of the Living Spring hosts Carnival Under the Rainbow - Dance and Game Night. Game booths- will raise funds for local projects and organizations while Jon Caswell spins an eclectic mix of dance music. A great way to kick off the weekend! Basin Park Hotel Ballroom. Cover: $4.50 per person, $7.50 per couple. Must be 21. SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 6 10:00 am - Noon Catch the end of the fall colors canoeing down the beautiful White River. Call the Dam Store at (501) 253-6154 for details. $22!canoe. 10:30 am - Noon Enjoy a "colorful" historic walking tour wi~ Bill. Meet at Sweet Springs on upper Spring St. next to Rogue’s Manor. No charge. 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Bring the kids to a "family" family picnic at Harmon Park. Food and games. Call Samuel Strickland for details (501 ) 253 -7837. Children of all ages welcome. No charge. Be sure to check out the unique shops and restaurants listed in the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative. Let them know you’ re here for Diversity Weekend! 1:00 pm - 4:00 pro, Did you bring your singing voice? Give Karaoke a whirl with Lita at the Hole in. the Wall off Center St. No cover. 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm, Give your feet a break, and listen to some great musicians at Mud St. Espresso Cafe and Kaffeehaus Aroma. Tips appreciated. 9:00 pro- 1:00 am Party, party, party!! Dance, dance, dance!! Come on out to Center Stage, and dance like you mean it to Jon’ s high energy club tunes; OR Shake your booties at the Basin Park Hotel Ballroom to the live performances of dynamic GLAMA-winning L.A. Singer/ songwriter Barnes, and the fantastic pop/ rock Dallas-based women’s band Doris Daze. (Both will have their CDs available for sale.) Must be 21! Cover charges: Center Stage only - $5 per person. Basin Park only - $10 per person. Both venues $13 per person. What a nightt ! SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 7 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm Y ou can’t leave yet!! Meet us again at Center Stage for our tea dance and drag show. Those girls from Tulsa, those talented, and always fantabulous entertainers, Domonique Daniels, Carla Renee, Miss Helga, Tara T’Neil and Tabitha Taylor will knock your socks off with their dazzling performances, while Jon graces us with his DJ magic once again. AND, to add to the excitement, Barnes will be there to share his terrific voice and powerful music in a Special guest set. Must be 21! Cover: $5 per person. 7:00 Inn M.C.C. of the Living Spring Service at 17 Elk St. Call (501) 253-9337 for information. All are welcome! OTHER HAPPENINGS * Friday night from 10 p.m. ’til close, Clary and K.J. will have live entertainment and dancing at Center Stage. * If you’re feeling adventurous (and a little brave), you may want to check out the Ghost Tours at the Crescent Hotel. They start at 7 p.m. and 9 p.m. on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and last for approximately anhour andfifteenminutes. Discounted price of $8 per person to anyone wearing a purple"Eureka Springs Celebrating Diversity" button (available for half a buck at The Emerald Rainbow). Call (501) 253-8030 or 2428 for details. * In keeping with both themes this weekend, Judy at Pond Mountain Lodge, is hosting a "family" wine tasting, with hors d’oeuvres, from 5 to 7 p.m. on Saturday. Admission is a favorite boftle of wine from your state or $10 per person. Pond Mountain is on Hwy 23S about two miles from its intersection in town with Hwy 62. Call (800) 583-8043 for reservations. * After the dances on Friday and Saturday nights, Basin Block Cafe (across from Basin Park Hotel) will be open for breakfast from midnight ’til 3 a.m. * This weekend is also Eureka Springs’ Food and Wine Festival, and many of the town’s fine restaurants are offering special menus, from light fare to exquisite multicourse dinners. If you’re interested, call the Chamber of Commerce for more details at (501) 253-8737. Be sure to stop by The Emerald Rainbow to pick up your Diversity Cooperative booklet and discount coupons from some of the Coop’s businesses! And please join us at our next Eureka Springs Diversity Celebration Weekend on April 7, 8 & 9, 2000 ! ! ! Keep an eye on www. shimaka.com/eureka~diversity for details. The Eureka Springs Diversity Celebration weekend is produced by Linda Williams and M.C. 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Text Any textual data included in the document European Union to British Army: No More Gay Ban STRASBOURG, France (AP) - The European Court of HumanRights ruled latein September that Britain’ sban on homosexuals in the armed forces is a breach of humanrights. The court found in favor ofthreemenand a woman who were discharged from the British armed forces in line with its absolute ban on homosexual personnel after they admitted their sexual orientation. The court said the British policyyciolated Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights which defends the right to respect for private and family life. "The Court considered the investigations, and in particular the interviews Of the applicants, to have been exceptionally intrusive," thc European court said in a statement. "The investigations conducted into the applicants’ sexual orientation together with their discharge from the armed forces constituted especially grave interferences with their private lives," it said. The verdict cannot force a-change of law, but the applicants considered it a step towards ending discriminationin thearmedforces. Defense Sec. George Robertson said other existing cases involving Gays in the British armed forces will be put on hold while the government studies the implications of:the ruling. Gay Demos Organize TULSA- Local. Democratic Party activists will hold an organizational meeting for a Tulsa chapter of the the National Stonewall Democratic Federation on Sunday, October 24th, at 4pro at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center (the Pride Center), at 1307 East 38th Street, 2nd floor.. Stonewall Democrats, acaucus within the Democratic Party works to secure the rights ofall people, regardless ’of sexual orientation or gender identity and serves as a voicewithin the DemocraticParty for Lesbians andGay men. Organizers noted in their press release that the Oklahoma,Democratic party is rather conservative with regard to civil rights for Gays and Lesbians and seek to educate state party leadership about Lesbian and Gay issues. They list the following specific goals of the National Stonewall Democratic Federation as: (1) mobilizing voters through a national grassroots network of Gay and Lesbian Democratic clubs and individuals to advance the fight for Gay and Lesbian civil rights; (2) improving the record of the Democratic party by - pressing it further inthe direction of full recognition of the rightsofGay men, Lesbiansand Bisexuals to befree from prejudice; (3) educating voters on the vast difference that exists between the two major parties on our issues, and the importance of voting Democxatic as the most effective way to achieve our goals; (4) fighting the anti-Gay rhetoric of the Republican conservative-wing, which has increasingly become the instrument of those d~dicated to denying us our rights. The organizers are encouraging those who share these values to come to the October 24 meeting which will feature membersfromthenewlyformedOklahoma City Stonewall Democrats chapter. Paul Barby,whoran as an openly Gay candidate for US Congress in Oklahon~a’s 6th district will speak. For more information, telephone Start Simpson at 582-6557. ~ :.Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsane, Our Families + Friends ¯ Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations i Tulsa Area United. W .y Fun.ds Support Anti-Gay D,scr, minat,on : TULSA (TFN) - In a recent promotional piece printed and ¯ inserted in The Tulsa Worm for free, Tulsa Area United Way ¯ (TAUW) touted its strong points. TAUWclaims to be thelargest ¯ non-governmental funder of health and human services.in the ¯¯ Tulsa area, funding some 231 programs at 68 member agencies. TAUW also claims to have a lower than 10% overhead as ¯ compared to overhead of up to 40% declared acceptable by the ¯ National Charity Information Bureau. ¯ Joe Cappy, chairman/CEO and president of Dollar/Thrifty Automotive Group, in the Tulsa World insert, claimed, ’q’ulsa ¯ Area United Way gives each of us a sensible, cost-effective ¯ approach to helping the people in our community who need it ¯ most..." ¯ But there are those who take issuewith some aspects of United Way s funding,, partacularly that of the Indian NaUons Council of ¯ the Boy Scouts of America (BSA). The BSA is one of the earliest ¯ organizations funded in Tulsa by the predecessors to the current : United Way but the Scouting organization has been under fire ¯ nationally for its anti-Gay policies. The BSA claims the Scout ¯ pledge to be "morally straight" refers to being heterosexual and ¯ .therefore bans Gay youth from being Scouts or Gay men from ¯ being Scoutmasters on the grounds that to be Gay is intrinsically ¯ to be "morally non-straight." ¯ Recently, the BSA lost a legal challenge to thi s anti-Gay policy ¯ brought under New Jersey state law. Former Eagle scout James Dale won his lawsuit but in response to questions from The Tulsa ¯ World,aspokespersonfortheTulsa-basedIndianNafionCouncil of the BSA r~affirmed the ban in this area. ¯ And when TAUW kicked off its 75th anmversary campaign, ¯ running from Sept. 10th to Nov. 1 lth with a goal of raising $21,497,725.00, some of these individuals said no to helping ¯ United Way because of the funding for an organization which blatantly discriminates. ¯ Most ofthe individuals who spoke asked to remain anonymous ¯ citing fears ofretaliationfromTAUWor risk to their employment ¯ by public.ly speaking ~bout Lesbian and Gay issues in’h city with fewprote~tious again~wolkplace discriminationbasedon sexual ¯ orientation. ¯ One Gay couple, both of whom are public ¯ employees, had slightly different reactions to the issue of funding for the Boy Scouts.-One noted that ¯ "we’re so used to it, thatwedon’ t think about it"but ¯ he added that it’s "time when United Way needs to start analyzing what they’re doing." : However, his parmer noted that the organizations ¯ his employer was set to help for United Way’s Day ¯ of Caring were the Boy Scouts and the Salvation Army, both organizations which he claims ¯ discriminate against Gay people. He notified his ¯ employer that he would not participate in the Day ¯ ofCaring because of those organization’ s anti-Gay ¯ policies. ¯ Another couple, Lesbian, said that it was a"tough ¯ question." One women, again who requested ¯ anonymity because of her job (she is a teacher), ¯ characterized the Boy Scouts’ policy as ¯ reprehensible but noted too that United Way funds ¯ the YWCA, an organization which has a non- " discrimination policy which includes "sexual ¯ orientation." Her partner added that TAUW also ¯ funds Youth Services of Tulsa (YST) which has ¯ programs that benefit Lesbians and Gay men but ¯ she also acknowledged that YST hadkept those ¯ programs "closeted,"i.e. not publicized because of ¯ fears that UnitedWay fundingmight be withdrawn, despite the fact that the failure to publicize the ¯ program significantly limitedYST’s ability toreach ¯ those whom the program was intended to help. : Tulsa Area United Way’s marketing representative, Beth Kuehnert was asked to explain ¯ TAUW’s continued funding for the BSA and ¯ initially, in a cordial and civil conversation, Ms. Kuehnert said she was not aware of the Boy Scouts’ position nor see TA UW, p. 12 ¯ Community Center News Eureka Springs Holds Community Meeting 111 6. Diversity Celebration ¯ TULSA - Organizers of the First Annual Community Center ¯ EUREKA SPRINGS - Fall is around the comer, ¯ Film Festival to be held on Oct. 7-9, Tulsa’s Gay Commtmity : andintheOzarks,it’salmosttimefor thebi-annual ¯ Center andits parent organization, TulsaOklahomaus forHuman " Diversity Celebration Weekend in Eureka Springs, : Rights (TOHR) will show both Lesbian and Gay films, both : Ark. ! Organizers say this event, scheduled forNov. ’. feature length and shorts beginningat 5:30 onThurs, and Fri. and " 5-7, will be bigger and better than ever! : from 2pm on Sat. and Sun. ¯ Metropolitan Community Church’s Friday night ¯ In addition, theCenterwillhostTOHR’sfirstComingOutFair " dance and camival will kick off the weekend at the : "Discovering Yourself" from noon to 6pro on Sat. Oct. 9th. A " top of the Basin Park Hotel. On Saturday morning, ." record number of community organizations have committed to " strollthestreetsofEurekaonahistoric(andcolorful) ¯ particil~ating in the Coming Out Fair. . walking tour, canoe on the White River, or hike in ¯ GregGatewood,TOHRboardpresident,noted that at the Sept. ." Lake Leatherwood Park. ¯ .14th commlmity wide meeting held at the Center about 35 " Intheearlyaftemoon,bringthekidstoa"family" ihdividuals attended and the representatives decided through a family picnic at Harmon Park, sing like you’re in i largely consensus process to convene a commlmity council of the shower at karaoke, or listen to the sounds of ¯ organizations, churches and businesses. The group also decided : localandvisitmgGay/Lesbianmusiciansatseveral toaskTOHRto co-ordinate theproposedbi-monthlymeetings to " different venues around town. And please be sure : exchange information and ideas. . to visit all the wonderfully unique shops, and ¯ Marty Newman, a Human Rights Campaign board member, : support the Diversity Cooperative businesses of ¯ who along with TOHR co-founder Dennis Neill, called the first " Eureka Springs. : meeting this summer, expressed his satisfaction with the Sept. " Then, after a delightful dinner (it’s Eureka - ". meeting and the general progress of the process. Newman-noted ¯ Spri.ngs’ Food and Wine Festival this weekend, ¯ thatTulsaPFLAG chapter co-founder,Nancy McDonaldattended ¯ too),work offthosecaloriesattwofantasticdances. ¯ the meeting and that Mrs. McDonald recalled that TOHRs by- : AtCenterStage, DJ Jonwillraisetheroofwithhigh ." laws had at one time had a provision for a community advisory ¯ energy club music. And the Basin Park Hotel ¯ council. Meeting co-convener Dennis Neill, an attorney, was ¯ Ballroom will come alive with electrifying i given the task of drafting a contract to clarify the relationship " performances by "Barnes", a dynamic GLAMA- ¯ betweenthevariousgroups.Formoreinformationaboutthenext ~ winningsinger/songwriter seeEureka, p. 14 ¯ community meeting, call the Community Center at 743-4297. ." : Also, the CommunityCenter will be the site ofanall-community ¯ ¯ Halloween Costume Ball to be held on Saturday, Ocotober 30th, : ¯ 8pm at 1307 East 38 Street, 2nd floor. The event will be BYOL " ¯ but soft drinks and ice will be provided. : : Organizers suggest that while this is a costume party, a loud ¯ ¯ shirt and simple mask will-do. Guests should not feel compelled : : to spend a lot of money, just to use a little imagination. 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Mingo 838-7626 *Peace of Mind Bookstore, 1401 E. 15 583-1090 The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor 743-4297 Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 747-5932 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 834-0617 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921,747-4746 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 749-6301 Paul Tay, Car Salesman 260-7829 *Tickled Pink, 3340 S. Peoria 697-0017 *Tulsa Book Exchange, 3749 S. Peoria 742-2007 *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 481-0558 *Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard 835~5563 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling 743-1733 *WhittierNews Stand, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 *All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 743-2363 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 587-7314 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center. 2207 E. 6 583-7815 *B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. 583-9780 *Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. 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Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers Member of The Associated Press Issued on or before the 1 st of each month, the entire contents of this ~blicaatnidonmaaryenportobteecrteedprboyduUcSedcoepityhreirgihntW19h9o8leboyrTin~part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless ot.herwjse no,ted,,~must be signed & becomes the sole property of T~ Each reader is entitled to 4 copies of each edition at distribution lYoints. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. *Free SpiritWomen’s Center, call for location& info: 587-4669 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Friends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 582-0438 *HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. Page Blvd. 583-6611 *HIV Resource Consortium, 3507 E. Admiral 834-4194 *Holland Hall School, 5666 E. 81st 481-1111 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education 834-8378 *House of the Holy Spirit Minstries, 3210e So. Norwood Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 NAMES Project, 3507 E. Admiral P1. 748-3111 NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 365-5658 OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 *OSU-Tulsa (formerly UCT, formerly Rogers U. whoever...) *Our House, t 114 S. Quaker 584-7960 PFLAG, POB 52800, 74152 749-4901 +Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 587-7674 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 665-5174 *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 584-2325 O’RYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults O’RYAN, Jr. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth St. Aidan’s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati 425-7882 St. Dunstan’s Episcopal, 5635 E. 71st 492-7140 *St. Jerome’s Parish Church, 205 W. 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Grand HIVtesting every other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for dates EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS *Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. MCC of the Living Spring Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery Positive Idea Marketing Plans Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East *White Light, 1 Center St. FA YETTEVI LLE, ARKANSAS5 *Edna’s, 9 S. School Ave. JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 501-253-7734 501-253-7457 501-253-6807 501-253-5445 501-253-9337 501-253-2776 501-253-5332 501-624-6646 501-253-6001 501-253-4074 501-442-2845 417-623-4696 * is where you can ftndTFN. Notall areGay-ownedbutallare Gay-friendly. Holy Union Ceremony Alan Williams and Gregory Casillas celebrated a Holy Union Ceremony on Friday, September 24, 1999, in Eureka Springs, AR. Presiding over the intimate union was Reverend Vivian Juett. The commitment ceremony was witnessed by Zoe Dearing and Nancy Ermding. After traveling to Dallas, TX, San Francisco, CA and Nashville, TN to celebrate with friends and family, the couple will reside for’a short period in Tulsa. Obiturary Dr. W. Malcolm Jacox, a veterinarian well known in the community for his kindness and gentleness with both his animal patients and their caregive~s, died Sept. 22. Services were held at Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Mausoleum on Sept. 25. He will be greatly missed by many both in and out of the Gay He is survived by his family and his longtime companion. Those who wish to honor his memory are encouraged to support a charity of their choice. Condolences may be sent care of Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 East 15th, Tulsa 74104. Mr. Tulsa ¯ Leather 2000 The Mr. Tulsa Leather 2000 contest was held September 10, 1999, at the Silver Star Saloon in Tulsa, Oklahoma.The evening included a benefit for Miss Gay Mid America, Catia Lee Love. Love will participate in the Miss Gay America contest. Four contestants participated in the contest: Jay Fleming, Kelly Kirby, Dayvid Montross, and Tony Hall, all of Tulsa Oklahoma. Themencompeted in Personal Interview, Street Wear, Swimwear/ Physique, and Full Leather Image events. The judging panel consisted of: Ron Greenwood, Mike Ryan, Ed Smith, John McCuistian, Don Lawrence, all also from Tulsa. The tally master was James Murray, Mr. Tulsa Leather 1997. The winner of the contest was Jay Fleming of Tulsa. Jay is a past "Mr Gay. Leather Long Beach 1987" and the 20th Elected Emperor, Greater California Empire. Fleming will compete for the Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2000 title on October 22-24, 1999. Heis an event promoter for such events in Tulsa as Mayfest, Gatesway Balloon Festival and chairmanof Street Party 2000; benefiting Street School and Tulsa at risk youth. Contestproducer, Ric Poston,MrTulsa Leather 1999 and the Oklahoma Mr Leather 1999, said of Fleming, "he is an outstanding citizen and will be a great representative for the Tulsa Leather Community." The first runner up was Kelly Kirby and the 2nd runner up was Dayvid Montross. For more information on OML2000, check the T.U.L.S.A. website at WWW.TULSALEATHER.com Editorial: Un!ted Our Way by Tom Neal, editor andpublisher This year is the 75th anniversary of a program of charitable giving in Tulsa which has become known as Tulsa Area United Way (TAUW). Tulsa’s United Way supports some 231 programs offered by 68 member agencies and hopes to raise over $21 million and help perhaps 250,000individuals this year. Obviously, all this is worthy. For example, oneof the I’d suggest that agencies which TAUW supports is Tulsa instead of letting "C.A.R.E.S., formerly and" TAU~V’ sllee its tare moreaccuratelyknown as the HIV Resource Consortium. Tulsa Area UnitedWayalso funds the Community Service Council that manages the Tulsa Community AIDS Project, one of the most effective funding sources for fighting HIV infection and for providing care for. individuals with HIV relatedillnesses. These are worthy organizations - as are many, many others which TAUW funds. However, along withthe many good organizations which TAUW funds is another. Thatis the Indian Nations Council of the Boy Scouts ofAmerica. It off the top, glve your dolhrs dlreetly to Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. or other or~an{zatlons in our eommunlty... groups that really do give a damn about us. Let’s stop using our dollars and those of our families and friends to support United Way’s prejudlee and eowardlee. Let us be unlt,~ our way. is the official policy of the Boy Scouts, both locally and nationally, to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. They’ve been rather explicit about this. The last time the Indian Nations Council of the Boy Scouts of America voiced this policy locally was in August when James Dale, a former Scout in New Jersey, successfully challenged the BSA’s apartheid policies under New Jersey state law and won. A local BSA representative however reiterated-its support for BSA prejudice. Now as a former Boy Scout, I’m hardly hostile to the true values of the organization. But I do not believe that thephrase, "morally straight," ori_ginating around th_etum of the century, ever, ever could be thought to refer to heterosexuality, using an interpretation of the word "straight" whichnever existed until at leas t some 60 years later. However I recognize that it is the prerogative under current federal, state and local law, of the BSA to engage in invidious discrimination if it chooses to do so. It is reprehensible behavior but it is quite legal. However, even if this bigoted conduct is legal, there is no justification for Tulsa Area United Way to use the funds it receives from the community as a whole to subsidize the systematic discrimination of the Indian Nations Council of the Boy Scouts of America. After all, if we were to substitute "no Jews allowed" or "no Blacks allowed" lot"no fags allowed," I would hardy have to be writing this essay. Part of why TAUW still funds this apartheid organization is an accident of history. The Boy Scouts have been funded for most of TUAW’s existence. Back in thoseearly days theBSA was one ofafew organizations that did address youth issues. That is no longer so. Andin contrast with the BSA, the Girl Scouts, for example, have explicitly said that sexual orientation is not relevant to participation in their organization and they have a nondiscrimination policy. Now if Tulsa Area United Way had a comprehensive non-discrimination policy, they might have some greater degree of credibilityas an organization committed to fair treatment of all. But they don’t. Infact, Ms. "duck’n’cover" KathleenJ. Coan, president and chief professional officer, is so gun-shy of the issue she’s managed not to returnphone calls to this newspaper for nearly four years -now that’s what I call real professional conduct (though in fairness, Ms. Coan did take aphone call once whenTFN was calling on deadline and her p.r. person was unavailable) But it does call into question, Ms. Coan and TAUW’s commitment to all of Tulsa’s communities when she seems primarily willing to talk to non-minority news orggnizations, for example, ." The Tulsa World- not frequently known for challenging ¯ the Tulsapower establishment, often inseparable from it. ." And what is more troubling about the unexamined ¯ decision to continue to fund the Indian Nations Council ¯ of the Boy Scouts of America by TAUW is the lack of ¯ leadership from TAUW’s board of directors. ¯ A number of TAUW board members come from ¯ corporations that claim that they do not discriminate on ." sexual orientation. Foremost among these are Public ~ Service Company of Oklahoma, Dollar Thrifty ¯: Automotive Group, Inc. and Bank of America, and yet, somehow, not one of these very highly paid and : presumably ratberintelligent men seem to havemade the _" connection between their own corporate policies ¯ emphasizingfairness andTAUW’s supportfor ablatantly ¯ bigoted program. Or perhaps they’vejust not"counected ." the dots." Or perhaps, they’re hoping thatnoone will ever ¯ hold them responsible. ¯ Regardless, until Tulsa Area United Way see fit to : begin to treat Lesbian and Gay Tulsans as equal human : beings by adding sexual orientation to its non- ,. discrimination policies and chooses not to fund ¯ organizations which discriminate, the best bet is for us to ¯ not to contribute to Tulsa Area United Way but to take ." those same dollars and to give them directly to worthy ¯ organizations. ¯ I’d suggest that instead of letting TAUW slice its take ¯ off the top, give your dollars directly to Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. ¯. or other organizations in our community, like the ¯ community center, or the Cimarron Alliance or PFLAG, ¯ groups that really do give a danm about us. Let’s stop ¯ using Our dollars and those of our families and friends to ¯ support UnitedWay’s prejudice and cowardice. Let us be ¯ united our way. ¯ TulsaFamily News editorandpublisherTomNealhas ¯ volunteeredonaUnitedWayfundsdistributioncommittee ¯ on services for semor citizens tn the Tulsa area. ¯ Unfortunately, hefound thatTulsaArea UnitedWay staff went out of their way to censor and suppress questions ¯ about how well member agencies were serving Lesbian ¯ and Gay seniors, even when the agencies were willing to ¯ answer the questions and despite TAUW claims that ¯ their evaluationprocess is "volunteer driven." Neal also ¯ has asked to serve on the funds distribution committee ¯ which looks at the funding for the Boy Scouts Indian ¯ Nations Council but, for some reason, keeps getting ¯ reassigned to senior services - imagine that. First and foremost, let me put your mind at rest about ¯ two of our regular columnists, our fabulous Do-It- " Yourself-Dyke, Mary Schepers and Tulsa City-County ¯ Library book reviewer, Barry Hensley. Both columns ¯ will resume next month. ¯ An,other upcoming event is the annual World AIDS ¯ Day Memorial Service. This year’s event will be at ¯ Mount Zion Baptist Church under the auspices of the ¯ Rev. Calvin McCutchen, Sr., one of Tulsa’s most ¯ distinguished religious leaders. The date, as always will ¯ be Dec. 1st which is a Wednesday but the details of the ~ march and precise time of the service will be announced. ¯ It is expected that Council Oak Mens Chorale who had ¯ their first ever performance at a World AIDS Day ¯ Memorial Service will again lend their talents. The event . is being co-ordinated by Diane Zike, former executive ¯ directorof Interfaith AIDS Ministries andBeverlyDenton ¯ Galbreith. For more information, call 438-2437. - TN An nouncements Policy Tulsa Family News will provide space for holy union ¯ ceremony, mamage ceremony, birth, adoption and death " announcements on a space available basis. Photos are ~ wdcome, though we cannot promise placement or return ¯ them, so please send copies to TFN, POB 4140, Tulsa ¯ 74159. ¯ Letters Policy ¯ Tulsa Family News¯ welcomes letters on issues which ¯ we’ve covered or on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but ¯ letters must be signed &h.ave phone numbers, or be hand ~- delivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other ~ publications will be printed as is appropriate. Drug-resistant Strains of AIDS Virus Rising CHICAGO (AP) - Highly drug-resistant strains of the AIDS virus are on the rise, showingupin as many as 4.5% ofnewlyinfectedpatients in twonew studies. "Resistance is slowly increasing," said Dr. Roger J. Pomerantz, an expert not involved with either study, "If you were looking at this five years ago, you would see zero." The studies - published in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) - involve mostly Gay white men. Resistance, however, may be more prevalent in other groups, such as drug users and their sex partners, researchers-said. About 40,000 new HIV infections occur yearly in the United States. In recent years, powerful drug cocktails have subdued the virus to undetectable levels in many patients. But studies have found the virus persists or comes roaring back in 10% to 50%. The complicated drug regimen has proved difficult to adhere to, and many patients who missed doses or quit taking theirmedicines developed drug-resistantinfections that are now being passed’along to others. "I wasn’t that surprised. This is what happens in infectious disease," said Pomerantz, director of the Center for Human Virology at Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia. HIV is still so new that scientists disagree even about how to define resistance. And since both studies used laboratory tests, no one really knows how the definitions will translate into patient care. Giving high doses of a drug may be enough to overwhelm a virus’ resistance, Pomerantz said. In one study, researchers at the University ofCalifornia at San Diego defined resistance as a 10-fold increase in HIV’s ability to withstand a drug when compared with a laboratory strain. That study, led by Dr. Susan J. Little. tested 141 patients - in San Diego, Los Angeles, Dallas, Denver and Boston- and found that three (2%) had HIV with at least 10-fold greater resistance to one or more drugs. An additional 36 patients (26%) had HIV that was 2.5 to 10 times more resistant. In the other study, researchers at Rockefeller University in New York defined resistance as a threefold increase in HIV’s ability to withstand a drug. That study, led by Dr. Daniel Boden of the Aaron Diamond AIDS Research Center, tested 80 subjects in New York and Los Angeles. Of 67 in whom resistance could be tested, three (4.5%) had HIV that was highly resistant- fivefold resistant- to multiple drugs. The subjects were among 18 (26.8%) with HIV that was at least threefold resistant to at least one drug. Testing every newly infected patientfor drugresistance would be impractical because the tests cost several thousand dollars and are difficult to interpret, Pomerantz said. But if a patient takes a drug cocktail faithfully and it isn’t working, testing should be considered to see how the combination of medicines might be reformulated, he said. Don’t Go to Sleep Yet For a while, it seemed that there mightbe a light at the end of the tuunel of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. And for many ¯ things are better than they used to be: to become HIV ¯ positive is not immediatdy to know that your death was likely six months away like it was in the 80s. But the news report above from The Associated Press ¯ should slam home the message that we cannot be ¯ complacent; we must continue to educate ourselves and ¯ our children about protecting themselves against HIV ¯ infection, through all appropriate means: safer sex with ¯ its reduced risk, no sex, i.e. abstinence where appropriate ¯ and through the strengthening of longterm relationships ¯ through their legal recognition not only for heterosexuals ¯ but for Gay men and Lesbians. ¯ The best way to deal with AIDS is to prevent further ¯ infections but also to insist on adequate funding for ¯ proper care for those who are already infected and more ¯ funding for more successful treatments for AIDS. ¯ Please, please be safe, hdp those still in need and ¯ remember those whom we have lost. -Tom Neal Accused Killer of Gay Soldier To Stand Trial FORT CAMPBELL, Ky. (AP) - An Army private charged with premeditated murder in the. beating death ofafellow FortCampbell soldierwill stand trial at a general court-martial, the Army said Sept. 24th. Thecharge against Pvt. CalvinN. Gloverwas referred to court-martial by Maj. Gen. Robert T. Clark, Fort Campbell’ s commanding gelleral. Clark reviewed an iiiv~tigative hearing he~’d in August for Glovet and rexx:ived recommendations from the investigating officer, brigade commander and staffjudge advocate. The hearing was similar to a civilian grand jury investigation. Glover, of Sulphur, Okla.,is charged in the death of Pfc. Ban-y L. ,Winchell, of Kansas City, Me. No date has been set for G10ver’s courtmartial, which will be open to the public. The courtmartial is scheduled to be at Fort Campbell. According to Army investigators, the 21-year-old Winchellwas beaten with abaseball batinhis barracks on July 5 and died the following day at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville, Tenn. Gay civil-rights advocates say anti-Gay sentiment m,ay have been behind, or at least contributed to, me ldlling. Winehell was perceived as Gay by some soldiers in his mlit and friends contend he was beginning to explore his homosexuality when he Another investigative hearing was held several weeks ago for Spec. Justin R. Fisher, who is accused of being an accomplice in Winchell’s death. Fisher, of Lincoln, Neb., is accused of .encouraging Glover in the attack and lying to Army ii~qestigators about his iiavolvement. No decision has been made yet on whether Fisher’s case should proceed to a courtmartial, an Army official added. Both Glover and Fisher are being held at Fort Knox. Gay Priest Resigns NEWARK,N.J. (Ap)-AGaypriestwhoseordination divided the Episcopal church has left theparish where he ministered for six years, blaming the controversy that surroundedhim. Rev. Barry Stopfel said the furor strained his relationship withhis partner, andpreached his last sermon at St. George’ s Church in Maplewood at the end of September. "My ministry has not been a typical one," Stopfel toldThe Star-Ledger ofNewark, N.J. in a story published recently. "It has been deeply gratifying but very stressful, and ithas taken its toll on me and our marriage." When Stopfel was ordained as a deacon in 1990, conservative Episcopal bishops filed heresy charges against Newark Bishop Walter Righter. Righter’s trial was averted, but a church court in 1996 ruled that church doctrine does not explicitly bar the ordination of practicing homosexuals. The division, however, remained between the church’s conservative and liberal factions. Stopfel, 51, andhis partner aremoving to a 25-acre farm in an Amish area of Pennsylvania, where he said he will write a book. Methodist Minister Faces 2nd Church Trial OMAHA, Neb. (AP) -The Rev. Jimmy Creech, who faces another church trial for performing a Gay union ceremony, said the churchlaw against suchceremonies amounts to institutional bigotry againstGayChristians. Reached at his Raleigh, N.C., home, Creech said he was disappointed but not surprised with.a church committee’s deci~i0n ordering him to stand trial. Nebraska United Methodist Church Bishop Joel Martinezannouncedthfit theformerNebraskaminister will stand trial for Officiating a Chapel Hill, N.C. ceremony fortwo meninApril.AMarch 1998 church trial cleared Creech of violating church law for a similar 1997 ceremony involving two women. At least two complaints were filed as aresult of the April ceremony. Atissuein Creech’s 1998 trial was whether thechurch’s ban on same-sex unionswas a pastoral guideline or church law. The church has since established the ban is church law. Creech said the trial will be "a detriment to the church." "It’s a waste of time and money. The trial is an actofviolence againstLesbians, Gays andbisexual people," Creech said. While Creech said he admits he violated the churchlaw byperforming the Chapel Hill ceremony, the immorality of this law makes him innocent of violating the order.and discipline of his denomination, ofwhichheis accused. "I think thelaw itself is a violation of the highest ethical standards of the United Methodist Church," Creech said. Creech said thechurch’ s positiononGayunions is comparable to racism. "How can such an encumbered church witness to the grace bf God?" he asked. Martinez’s assistant, Rev. Mel Luetchens, said Martinez will .appoint another bishop as presiding authority for the case. A jury of 13 ministers will [ecide Creech"s fate. Ministers will lead the defense and theprosecution.Thetrial likely will beinNebraska in the next couple of months,-Luetchens said. If convicted Creech faces a wide range of possible )unishments, including dismissal from the United Methodist clergy. Creech is on voluntary leave of absence after. Martinezdeclined toreappointhim pastorofOmah.a’s First United Methodist Church after the earher controversy. He remains part of the Nebraska conference and is answerable to Martinez. Vermont JudgeJudged By His Wife’s Vote MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - A group opposed to same-sex marriage; "Take it to the People," says a VermontSupremeCourtjusticemightnotbeimpartial as he reviews a pending case. "Take it to the People" says the wife ofJusticeJohn Dooley voted in June as a member of the Governor’s Commission on Women to give an award to the three same-sex couples who are challengxn.g Vermont marriage law. Sandra Dooley’s vote raises questions about whether the justice is impartial in the case now before the Vermont Supreme Court, said Ruth Charlesworth of Burlington, a member of the antimarriage group. "I think it is outrageous that the wife of the Supreme Courtjusdce should come out (with a public stand) when this issue isn’t yet decided," Charlesworth said. ’‘This isn’t fair to the citizens of Vermont." Thecourtis considering alawsuit seeking to overtmal the state’s refusal to issue marriage licenses to samesex couples. Despite its concerns, ’’Take it to the People" hasn’tformally requested thatJustice Dooley disqualify himself from the case. Judith Sutphen, executive director ofthe Governor’ s Commission on Women, said Sandra Dooley has been on the commission for 15 years. Theorganization has supported allowing same-sex couples to marry since. 1996 - before the lawsuit brought by two Gay men and four Lesbian women was appealed_ to the Supreme Court, Sutphen said. Commissioners have the right to take independent votes on issues, Sutphen said. "A wife has a right to vote as she chooses, as does a husband," she said. "The votes of one spouse don’t necessarily reflect the . judgment or opinion of the other spouse." "Take it to the People" argues that rules of judicial ¯ conduct sayjudges should disqualify themselves when their spouses have interests that could be substantially : affected by the proceeding. The lawyers at the office ." of the attorney general who are defending the state’s mamage lawweren’t available to comment. -" Beth Robinson, an attorney representing the three : couples in the Supreme Court appeal, said she felt confident the deliberations would be fair. "We have : no reason to question Jusdce Dooley’s ability to ~ impartially judge this case on its legal merits," : Robinson said. "Justice Dooley and his wife are two ¯ different people with two different jobs to do." ¯ Judge Dismisses Same- Sex Marriage Lawsuit ¯ ANCHORAGE (AP) - A judge has dismissed a lawsuit filedby twoAnchoragemenwho claimed that : the state’s marriage laws discriminated against them. ¯ Judge Peter Michalski took the action late in ¯ September, nearly a year after Alaska voters ¯ overwhelmingly passed a constitutional amendment ¯ limiting marriage to a union of one man and one Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 402i S.Ha~vard, sifite 2.10~-T~llsa 74135 MCC-United forme.rly Family of Faith & Greater Tulsa MCC .Joined as one body of believers. Come celebrate with us. Sunday Services, 11 am 1623 North Maplewood, 838-1715 HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. 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Cincinnati. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Jay Brause and Gene Dugan had claimed in their lawsuit that it was discriminatory to not allow samesex couples the same health insurance and other benefits that married and unmarried heterosexual couples enjoy. It was their lawsuit that spurred the pbtition drive that put the same-sex marriage amendment before voters last November. Bob Wagstaff, the lawyer representing the two men, says the case will be appealed to the state Supreme Court. Wagstaff says his clients’ lawsuit is at its heart an equal-rights case, not a Gay marriage Town Considering Partners Registry ASHLAND, Ore: (AP) - Same-sex couples can’t get married in Oregon, but in this town, they may soon be able to get registered. The City Council is likely to consider settingupsucharegistry for domesticpartners at its upcoming meeting Oct. 5. City Attorney Patti Nolte said he is unaware of a similar registry in Oregon. The registry would allow domestic partners - two unmarried people age 18 or older who live togetherto document that relationship. Gay couples cannot marry under Oregon law, which recognizes marriage as the union of a manand a woman. "I believe it is appropriate that AglJland, as a caring community, should lead the way," said Neil Sechan, speaking for the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Political Caucus of Southern Oregon. The local chapter of Parents, Family and Friends of Lesbians and Gays are also backing the proposed registry. Mayor Cathy Shaw said she believes a registry would have limited effect on unmarried couples, whether heterosexual or same-sex. "I would be incredibly proud to be mayor of a community that provides this service," she said recendy. "I am a great believer in the institution of marriage... I understand why this community is asking us to do this -.how importantit.is to be able to celebrate in an official way your commitment to another person.’" Rosemary Dunn Dalton, also speaking for the caucus, said a registry would let unmarried couples establishrelationships for purposes ofvisitation rights in hospitals and other institutions. She said a registry would provide proof of partnership for businesses offering benefits to domestic partners. The Oregon Court ofAppeals decided last year that if local governments offer benefits to domestic partners, they cannot deny benefits to same-sex couples because of the constitutional guarantee of equal protection. The court did not nile on Oregon’s legal definition of marriage. Ashland is among the local governments that have extended benefits to same-sex couples to comply with the ruling. A proposed ballot measure, to write the definition of marriage into the state constitution and bar benefits to unmarried couples, died in the 1999 Legislature. Albuquerque To Vote On Discrimination Ban ALBUQUERQUE (AP) - Lillian Mueller says she Gays in Albuquerque have lost their jobs and been denied housing because of their sexual orientation. Mueller, the mother of a Gay son and president of the local chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, has formed a new group called TheCampaignforHumanRights. The group’s purpose is to mobilize support for a proposed amendment to the Albuquerque city charter that would add sexual orientation and mental disability to the antidiscrimination section. The issue will be on the Oct. 5 municipal election ballot. The charter now bans discrimination based on race, religion, sex and national origin. "It’s not a question of special rights," she said. "It’s a question of equal rights.’" Butthe Christian Coalition ofNew Mexico strongly opposes the charter amendment because it believes "the Gay lifestyle" is wrong. Mark Burton, Christian Coalition executive director, said his group will alert people in voters guides that go to about 300 churches. "It’s not a behavior that we want to have a nondiscrimination policy for," he said. "It’s a health haTard. It spreads AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases, so there’s no reason to endorse a behavior that’s dangerous and hazardous." Albuquerque added a human rights section to its charter in the early 1970s. The state Legislature in March rejected a bill that would have outlawed discrimination based on sexual orientation. It was the "third time such a measure was killedin the House. The bill would have expanded the state’s Human Rights Act to cover sexual orientation, malting it il!egal’to discriminate on that basis in matters of empld’yment, housing, credit, public-accommodations and’union membership. Eleven states and more than 170 local governments include sexual orientation in their nondiscrimination statutes, supporters Of the bill say. The cify of Albuquerque bars Such discrimination against its employees and when providing public services. Alleged Killers of Gay Men Must Stand Trial REDDING, Calif. (AP) - Two brothers accused of murdering a Gay couplemust stand trial and may face the deathpenalty ifconvicted, ShastaCounty Superior Court Judge James Ruggiero has ruled. Benjamin M. Williams, 31, and James T. Williams, 29, will each be tried on two counts of murder and related charges. The brothers are accused of killing Gary Matson, 50, and Winfield Scott Mowder, 40, in July. They are also suspects in June arson fires that caused more than $1 million in damage to three Sacramento-area synagogues. Matson and Mowder were found shot to death in their bed July 1 in rural Happy Valley, about 165 miles north of Sacramento. The Williams brothers, being held without bail, have pleaded innocent to first-degreemurder and four robbery, burglary and auto theft charges. The judge ruled that prosecutors can seek the death penalty, a decision that hasn’t been made. Prep School Attacker Free Until Trial GREENFIELD, Mass. (AP) - A Tennessee youth accused of using a knife to cut anti-Gay slur into the back of a fellow prep school student can continue college classes while awaiting trial, a judge said. Matthew Rogers, 20, of Franklin, Tenn., pleaded to charges of assault with a dangerous weapon. Franklin Superior Court Judge Lawrence Wemick continued bail at $10,000 cash or $50,000 bond on condition Rogers live with his parents or at the University of Mississippi where he is taking classes. Before his arrest, Rogers had held an appointment to the U.S. Naval Academy. Rogers and another student at the Northfield Mount Hermon School, Jonathan Shapiro, 18, of Keene, N.H., were initially charged in Greenfield District Court following the May 27 incident. The two are accused of slashing the word "HOMO" in shallow cuts on the back of a 17-year-old student during a dispute over music. Authorities said no one actually believed the victim was Gay. The argument arose over the rock band Queen and the characterization of its music as "Gay." Promoters of Community Center To Respond ELK CITY, Idaho (AP) - Promoters of a community education and performing~center expect to respond to charges by critics of the ~roposed c~nter who fear it could be used by homosexuals and become a place where teen-age girls get abortions. Plans to build the center have created division in the town of about 400 in remote Idaho County. Objections to the center range from locating it on school property to the fear homosexuals will use it to stage performances and teen-age girls getting abortions there. Critics have said since the center would be on public land there could not be restrictions placed on who uses it. New AIDS Drug SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A medicine developed in North Carolina that blocks the AIDS virus from getting inside cells is showing promise among patients whofail to respond to standard AIDS drugs. The medicine, code-named T-20, is still in early-stage testing, but researchers said it could offer a reprieve for those who have run out of options. "It looks quite good," said Dr. Michael Saag of the University of Alabama. "We are looking at something with a.totally different method of. action. It is an important, potent new option." T~20 was discovered at Duke University. It is being developed by Hoffmatm-La Roche Inc. and Trimeris Inc., a small biotech company in Durham, N.C. Thedrug is the furthest along of a new class of AIDS medicines called fusion inhibitors. They work by thwarting the virus’s ability to fuse with blood cells and insert their genetic material into them. However, the treatment has one large drawback compared with other AIDS drugs: Instead of being a pill, it must be injected twice daily. Nev~rtbeless, Saag said patients in advanced stages of AIDS are willing to give themselves shots, and they seem to tolerate the drug well. The results were reported by Dr. Jay Lalezari of Quest Clinical Research in SanFrancisco atameeting ofthe.,Aga,erican Society for Microbiology. Other AIDS drugs work principally by thwarting the virus’s ability to stitch its genetic material into cells it has invaded orbyblocking its ability to dispersemature copies of itself. Doctors gave T-20 to 55 people who had high levels of the AIDS virus despite trying many different combinations of AIDS medicines. While these standard drugs have proved to be life savers for many with AIDS, they do not work for all patients. Doctors administered T-20 in combinationwith other drugs, eventhough the patients’ HIV was resistant to the older medicines. After four months of treatment, virus levels fell significantly in 33 of the volunteers. In 20 of them, the virus fell to levels too low to bemeasured. Saag cautioned that the treatment is unlikely to work forever. But he said doctors hope it will dday rebound of the virus for perhaps-a year. T-20 is part of the protein thatmakes up the AIDS virus’ outer coat. Ordinarily it comes into play with another peptide- T- 21 - as the AIDS vinm grabs onto blood cells andprepares to enter them. Scientists found that flooding the body with extra copies of T-20 gums up this attachment process, Another AIDS study released at the meeting found that treatment very early in the course of an AIDS infection does not wipe out the virus entirely, as some had hoped. Dr. Martin Markowitz of the Aaron Diamond AIDS Research Center in New York City reported on four patients who started treatment within seyen to 90 days of catching HIV. All signs of their virus disappeared, andthey chose to stop therapy after three years: Thevirus reappeared within two to three weeks, One patient went back on treatment, but the three others stayed off. After shooting up, their virus levds fell again to low butdetectable levds. Researchers said the results raise the possibility that in such situations, the ¯ body’s immune system may be able to ¯ k~p I-HV in check without completely eliminating it. Are You Gay or Bisexual? : Satcher Looks at Are You Native American? :¯ Kids’ Health , . , Tulsa s Two-Sp,r,ted ,nd,an Mens : ROBINSVILLE, Miss. (AP) - U.S. ¯ SurgeonGeneralDavidSatcherhasissued Support Group is here for you! ¯ a warning about the health of America’s ¯ children. Satcher, speaking to a health ¯ Evening support group meetings : association recently in Tunica County, ¯ said children are growing fatter, lazier, ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ more sexually active and increasingly ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ addicted to toxic substances. ¯ Free HIV testing ¯ Satcher, former president of Meharry ¯ Medical College in Nashville, .Tenn., -spoke tO 400 public health care workers ¯ and advocates at the annual meeting of the ¯ Mississippi Public Health Association. ¯ Regarding the disparity in health care, ¯ Satcher said that in the last 10 years minorities, women and children have : fallen behind in many areas. ¯ Satcher said progress has been made in ¯ dealing with infectious diseases and there ¯ has been a decrease in the number of ¯ cancer cases, injury-related deaths and ¯ adult smokers. However, the munber of : teen-age smokers has risen_rapidly, Satcher ¯ said. Obesity has become a virtual epidemic ¯ among both adults and children, Satcher said. The current generation of children ¯ and teen-agers is the most inactive the ¯ country has ever had. One of the results of that inactivity has ¯ been an increase in Type 2 diabetes in ¯ children. In the past, physicians were told never to look for Type 2 in individuals ¯ - under40 years old, Satcher said. Now, the disease is occurring in children under the age of 10. Emphasis must be placed on physical activity and on diet, Satcher said. The American diet consists mainiy offats and sugars, he said. In one year, the average American will consume 156 pounds of added sugar. Weneedto promotehealthy lifestyles, Satcher said. "We need to promote physical activities. We need to promote nutrition and avoidance of toxins like tobacco, alcohol and illicit drugs. We need to promote responsible sexual behavior." 40% of college students and 30% of high school students are binge dri.nking, Satcher said. That has contributed to an increase m automobile accidents and irresponsible ~exual behavior. "Weneed to talkmorewith ourchildren aboutwhatit means tobesexually active," Satcher said. "When we don’ t teach sex in ¯ the schools, at home and in the churches, ¯ but they do teach it out on the streets or ¯ after school when there are no adults ¯ around, our children aren’t going to ¯ become responsible, sexual adults." ¯ His warning was directed not just to teen-agers, but to all people. Every day, 16,000 peoplebecomeinfected with HIV, ¯ the virus that causes AIDS. In the years : since the disease’s discovery, HIV has ¯ infected 50 million people and resultedin 14 million AIDS-related deaths. ¯ "In my opinion AIDS is the worst : epidemic since the plague of the 14th : century or maybe the influenza epidemic ," of 1918," Satcher said. "AIDS is : increasingly a disease o,,f people of color, ¯ women and the young. : African Americans account for almost : 50% of new cases; Hispanics, 20%; and ¯ women, 25%. Not enough is being done ¯ to prevent the disease, Satcher said, even though people know how to stop the ¯ spread. For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext. 208 or 218 Dial-Up Accounts Dedicated ISDN Connections Vi rtual Hosting Visit our web page "www.igisweb.net" (918) 622-4965 Internet Marketing E-Commerce Web Page Design On-Site Setup Available ~ Medical Excellence And Compass.ionate Care S nce 1926. ¯ ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER q P Medical Excellence-Compassionate Care Stay Healthy Naturally Wellness Rejuvenat "on Longevity Dr. Terrance L. 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"We’re at the beginning of an epidemic, not the end of an epidemic, with no vaccine, no cure," she told reporters before the walk began. "It’s not going to be over next week. It’s not going to be over in 10 years. It’s probably not going to be over in my lifetime.’" A sign of hope is the success of anti- AIDS drugs that are keeping thousands of people infected with the HIV virus free from symptoms. ButinmanyThirdWorld natxon~, including much of AIDSdecimated Africa, the medicines remain unaffordable and the publichealth system inadequate, she said. This is the second year of a coordinated AIDS WalkMichigan. Lastyear, 10 walks statewide raised $2~0,000, This year, walks also tookplace Sunday inAnnArbor, BerrienCounty, Flint,Grand Rapids, Holland-Saugatuck, Kalamazoo, Lansing, Muskegon, Port Huron, Saginaw-Midland-Bay City and Traverse City. But organizers sdid/he ~)etro’it event was particularly important because of the high rate of AIDS in the city. With about 10% of the state’s population, Detroit has nearly half of the reported AIDS cases, they said. "It’s the No. 1 killer of young African- American males and the No. 2 killer of young black females," said Detroit Episcopal Bishop R. Stewart Wood Jr. as he set out on the walk. Wood’s diocese, which has 35,000 members from Lansing to the Ohio line, has not been immune from the effects of AIDS. "Every one of our congregations has been touched by AIDS - members or loved-ones who have the disease. We’ve lost two of our clergy to AIDS," he said. Teresa and Bill Snell came in from Wayne County’s Redford Township to walk in this year’s walk, taking turns pushing 15-month-olddaughter Courtney in a three-wheeled jogger’s stroller. They raised a total of $49, most in pledges of $2 to $3, for their part in the walk. The 20 walkers from Mrs. Shell’s agency, the Detroit Hispanic Development Corp., raised $1,500 for. the fight, against AIDS. "It affects so many people and families around you," she said. "I don’t know anyone who has died,.of AIDS, but I do know that it is something that affects all kinds of people," her husband said. "It’s something that’s got to be stopped." Award Given to African Groups NEW YORK (AP) - The world’s largest humanitarian prize - $1 million - was awarded to an organization whose accomplishments include bringing health care to the Maasai and Turkana, two of Africa’s nomadic tribes. The Conrad N. Hilton Humanitarian Prize, awarded to the African Medical and Research Foundation, will give the organization funds it needs for additional work in AIDS and malaria prevention. It will also helppay to trainmore health care workers. ’q’his million will go along way and it will allow us tokeepmanyprojects afloat," saidJohn R. Batten, director ofthe Nairobi, Kenya-based AMREF, who accepted the prize at a ceremony in New York on Tuesday. Startedin 1957as aprogram thathelped needy Africans get specialized medical care- particularly reconstructive surgery - AMREF now provides health care services to 21 African countries. Programs are run from offices in Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda and South Africa. This year’s budget was $19 million. Over the years, AMREF built a twoway radio network that boosted hospital communications in East Africa, spearheaded the use ofinsecticide-treated mosquito nets to reduce childhoodmalaria deaths and performed more than 40,000 operations. It also has trained thousands of health care workers and specialists and brought services to the most remote corners of Africa, including to tribes that roam the continent. What sets AMREF apart from most international non-governmental organizations is that more than 95% of its employees are Africans. ’q’he approach we use in tackling all of theseproblems is community-based," said Peter Muchiri Ngatia, director for AMREF’s Uganda office. "Some prdl~lems "in A~r~ca, such as AIDS and HIV, areaggravatedby cultural practices." Much of the prize, which will be spent over three years, will be directed at two of Africa’s biggest killers - AIDS and malaria. "AMREF’s success in building an African-led and African-run health care system that is accessible to all provides a strong model for aid agencies around the world," said Barron Hilton, chairman of Hilton Hotels Corp. and a board member of the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation. AMREF was selected out of 225 nominations made by members of the international community, including diplomats, foundation leaders and academics. Once nominations are made, the Hilton foundation researches the organization and performs On-site visits. After that, selections go to an independent international jury. Last year, Medecins Sans Frontieres, or Doctors Without Borders - the largest independent international medical aid organization - won the prize. ¯ Feds Pushingf0r : Name"Reporting ¯ FRANKFORT, Ky~ (AP):-, The General ¯ Assembly could be asked to require : doctors treating people infected with the : virus that causes AIDS to report them by ¯ name. It is the only way to ensure that : federal money for AIDS treatment and " program keeps flowing, a task force’s ~ reasoning goes. : "The practicality is this," Dr. Anna ¯ Huang, see Health, p. 11 byJames Christjohn, entertainmentQueen By the time you read this, the film will be gone (thanks toWoodlandHills Cinema for bringing it to us!), but as it will be a great stocking stuffer - no catty remarks, please - I will review it for your reading pleasure anyway. And since I’ve never worried about timeliness before, why start now? "Get Real" was a wonderful film about a 16 year old Gay boy in England, and the process of "coming out" - he runs into an older boy at his school, and they find themselves in "love", or what seems to be love. Only one problem: The older boy is ashamed of his Gayness, and wants everything kept "hushhush." Needless to say, many poignant moments ensue, all of which rang true for me and the other person viewing the film with me. Much was true to life, although much of it was kind of "what if I had come out at 16 instead of 21" speculation for me. I was a late bloomer, what can I say? Speaks a lot for "the environment. At any rate, I found the film absorbing and realistic, in many aspects. As my friendpointed out, "Yes, but there were so many’cinematicmoments.’ "Myresponse was, "yes -and ? - life is made of ’cinematic moments.’ Sometimes we’re lucky enough to havelots of them." I pointed out several ’cinematic moments’ that we shared that he’d forgotten, and he conceded the point. He also took umbrage with the ending, whichwas realistic. (Warning: Don’tread beyond this point to the next paragraph if you haven’t seen it and don’t want it spoiled) He wanted a more romantic ending ¯ (ironic, given his criticism only moments before of the "cinematic moments"). The ¯¯ boys split, our hero deciding against a futurebased on deceptionand hiding with : one so.uncomfortable with himself. ¯ To me, that was a happy ending - he : was strong enough to standup for whathe believed, both in a public And of course, no column written by yours truly would be complete without a mention of "You Know Who." And if you don’t know, then you’ve not been reading this seetion regularly, now have you? and personal sense, and wasn’t willing to "settle" for less. Yes, the sappy ending myfriendproposedwould have been ok, and his rationalewas that so many mowes with Gay characters end up with depressing endings that he’d have liked to have seen an alternate ending where both come out and live happily ever after. Yeah, maybe it. would have been nice, but I applaud the author and producer’s strength to stick with this ending. And to me, it was a happy ending of sorts. All ¯ depends on perspective, I suppose. At any ¯ rate, The activg was top-notch, the ¯ characters were real, and it is definitely a ¯ film destined to be at the top of my DVD ¯ wish list." : "Beauty and the Beast" ended its run on ¯ aninterestingnot.e.Abeautifulproduction, ¯ albeit with sometechnieal difficulties (the. : first week’s shows were in reality : "previews", in which technical errors are : more or less expected and worked out) ¯ such as bad timing on the lighting, ¯ ° reveahngcharacter’ s "di° sappearances"to ¯ beactors running inand out oflights when ¯ it should bedark, beasts transforming into : princes and getting stuck in mid- ’ transformation by malfunctioning ¯ "magic" ("this spell canceled due to ¯ technical difficulties") and mysterious ¯ illnesses taking out cast members. ". see Beast, p. 14 by the Helmerich Foundation October 16, 22 & 24 Tulsa Perf:oming Arts Act Now! 587-4811 596-7111 for tickets. OKLAHOMA T 0 H R by John Curran ATLANTIC CITY - The flowers and dime-store crown were real. Nearly everything else was fake, from the eyelashes to thecleavage tothetip-synched songs. WelcometoAtlantic City’ s otherbeauty pageant, the one for men dressed in drag. Seven blocks and a world away from the stage where Miss America 2000 was crowned, the Miss’d America Pageant lampooned its famous older sister with a raucous, gender-bending spoof funny enough to bust a girdle. Held annually on the night after Miss America’s crowning, Miss’d America provides a sarcastic antidote to the applepie sincerity of the real pageant. The swimsuit competition? A display of chunky thighs and muscular arms. The musical production numbers? Over-thetop atrocious. The evening wear contest? Outright hysterical. The only serious thing Sunday was the cause: Theeventraisedmorethan $15,000 for support programs run by the South Jersey AIDS Alliance. "It’s the wildest show this side of the Boardwalk," said Bill Mattel, the alliance’s former chief executive. Wild, indeed. There was Miss Sallotta ¯ Tea, who squeezed 240 pounds into a : sequined black cocktail dress and opera- " length black gloves. Down the runway ¯ wentMissTea, pushing acartloadedwith ¯ goodies and warbling a versionofthe title : song from the musical "Cabaret." "Life is ¯ abigb,uf,fet, myfriend. Socometothebig buffet, sang Miss Tea. ¯ Then there was Miss Tenee, a 6-foot-3 : inch, 205-pounder, who began a talent ¯ segment in a purple Afro wig and brown ¯ velour dress. That soon disappeared, : revealing a silk chemise. Miss Tenee won : the crown, was given a dozen roses and ¯ headeddown the bulb-adornedrunway as ¯ the crowd sang a reworked version of ". "There She Is," the Miss Americastandard. ¯ The capacity 600-person crowd was a ¯ mix of Gay and straight, casino workers and local politicians, Miss America ¯ Pageant hairstylists and female ¯ impersonators. , Not that there wasn t some authenticity ¯ to the proceedings. Miss America 1998 : Kate Shindle, who spent her reign ¯ promoting AIDS advocacy and needle : exchanges, sang "My Man" during the : show. "As far as I’m concerned, what’s : any pageant without a former Miss ¯ Whatever singing StreisandT’ she said. M E TI"VAL OCTOBER 7, 8, 99 9 9 9 Professional Business "You don’t have to know ballet to love ballet. You just have to try it." AR11Sl1[: :Mixed Repertory includes two Oklahoma premieres Exposition ~SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pm, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 1 lain, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 1 lain, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, l lain, 1623 North Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1 lain, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance 6:30 pm, Meets at the Canterbury Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~ MONDAYS Mixed Volleyball, Helmerich Park, 71st & Riverside, 6pm, call Shawn at 243-5190. HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E. Admiral (east of Harvard) HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pro, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2rid Mon/each mo. 6:30pro, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for times, info: 748-3888. I~"TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 Live And Let Live, Commuuity of Hope United Methodist, 7:30pm, 2545 S. Yale Multicultural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pro, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, info: 743-4297 I~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pm,’3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more information, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pm, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~THURSDAYS HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pm 834-8378, 3507 E. Admiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-2325 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, Info: 834-4194 I~" FRIDAYS SafeHaven, Young Adults Social Group, I st Fri/eachmo. 8pro, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th ~" SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pm, Commmlity of Hope, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Lambda A-A, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd t, ~i~ _ I~’ OTHER GROUPS ...... T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info:298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Women~ Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long rides & short ddes from Zeigler Park. Long & short rides from Tulsa Gay Commtmity Center. Write for info: PUB 9165. Tulsa, OK 74157 Ifyour organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 orfax 583-4615. by George Bria POUND RIDGE, N.Y. (AP) - Gardening ~njoys suchaserenereputation thatgetting njure~ at it seems almost laughable: Yet anoverzealous greenthumbcanalsomean a sore elbow. Thecasualtyhsts are. swelled, ofcourse, by the power eqmpment ix~juries oaten stiffered through ¯ in’attention or failure to wear ,:protective gear~ But.whatwe’re talking about here is soreness, strains and sprains. A common ailment is tendonitis. You can get tennis elbow just pulling weeds, the repetitive squeezing motion inciting inflzmmation. Back muscle spasm is another trauma that threatens the wheelbarrow lifter or the person who bends abruptly or improperly to perform some taskinflowerbed or vegetable patch. Sometimes it just happens without an easily pinpointed cause. Having suffered both these : abdominal muscles," Pearlman says. "In ¯ essence, thesemuscles act as"guy wires," ¯ to keep your baekmhne. She prescn a series of abdominal strengthening : exercises and also exercises to condition ¯ other muscles related to the back. : If, in spite of all this, back spasm suddenly strikes, Pearlman says stop your garden work immediately, head for the house and lie down on an ice pack for 20 minutes. That’s just a beginner. Then do some exercises and maybe take a pain reliever. Repeat the sequence four or five tames during the first day. In two or three days you should be better, she says, and if not, think of going to a doctor. Pearlman prescribes a variety of push-ups and weight-lifting exercises to -strengthen arms. One. way to strengthen hands, she says, is repetitive squeezing of a semisoft rubber ball.. Aside from strengthening exercises, "Lets get down to earth and be real;’ Pearlman says, "gardening is an active, contact "sport." "When is the last time you sat still in your garden?" - Barbara Pearlman ailments from my gardening, I can testify : they’re just as painful as if you got them " on the tennis court, as I did, or from some ° other sport or at work. To add to potential miseries, a bad elbow you got in tennis might heal only to flare up again in the garden. Tendonitis can hit the shoulder, too,andoften does. There are conditioning exercises youcan do, andprobably should do, to prevent injuries, but in my experience inflanu~tory ailments like tendonitis sometimes seem to happen willy-nilly. One day you’re fine after w.eedigg an,d. anotherday you develop pain tlaat doesn t go away. The same thing happens to a pitcher or a hard-serving teums player despite conditioning. Proven therapies, involving drugs, exercises or even surgery, exist to heal such injuries but preventing them from happening in the first place is something else. Nevertheless, suggestions exist, and a good book has just come out aimed at conditioning youto minimize the chances of getting hurt while gardening. "Gardener"s Fitness" by Barbara Pearlman (Taylor Publishing Co., $12.95, paperback), a Manhattan fitness expert and a gardener, prescribes exercises, proper posture and attire and relaxation teclmiques. The 151-page book contains easy-to-follow instructions and helpful illustrations. "Lets get down to earth and be real," Pearlman says, "gardening is an active, contact "sport." "When is the last time you sat still in your garden?" she asks, "If you’re not hauling heavy rocks, you’re pushing a wheelbarrow, toting tools, dragging the hose, or whacking weeds. You’re in perpetual motion, unless of course your idea of gardening is planting :apot of~etunias orp~msies onyourpaso?’ Pearlman identifies tlie body parts mat workhardestinthe garden as arms,: ,,l~ees, hands "and, abov,~ all, your back,. Back pain,"shesays,~s the gardener sbugaboo. Unless your back is made of steel (in which case, youprobably can’.t g.etinto ,al,1 the contorted positions gardemng cans for) at some point during the season, your back is bound to protest." ’The very best defense against back painis agoodoffense, whichmeans strong knee fitness involves proper squatting in the garden, Pearlman says. This means keeping your heels flat, otherwise far : much pressure is placed on your knees." : "Knowing how to bend over andhow to ¯¯ lift an object (or yourself) the correctway is crucial to gardening," Pearlman says. : ’The chance of straining your back is far : greater if youneglect tobendyourknees." ¯ When carrying things, she says, "you ¯ should use the strongest and largestjoints and muscles (those in your arms) for the ." job to avoid direct pressure on your ¯ smallestjointsandweakestmuscles (those : in your hands and fingers.)" ¯ "There is a right way and a wrong way ¯ to move when you garden and malting th,e, ¯ right moves makes good garden sense,’ ". Pearlman says. 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A survey of 1,200 boys, ranging from 10- to 17-yearsold, revealed their favorite entertainment often depicts brutality as a heroic way to solve~problems, said Harvard psychologistWilliam Pollack, who helped analyze the study for ChildrenNow. "It’s gender straight-jacketing," Pollack said. ’q~hese boys believe that in order to be a real man- like the ones in the media - they have to be violent and aggressive."About74%ofthe characters and sports figures viewed by the participants committed brutal or defiant acts or demonstrated antisocial behavior such as ridiculing or lying, Pollack said. The study was released at the start ofthe group’ s anntml conferencein Los Angeles. Children Now, an independent advocacy group for children in Oakland, plans to use the findings to call on entertainment executives to promote a more compassionate image of men, said Lois Salisbury, president of the organization. According to Ms. Salisbury, the kickboxing crimefighter on "Walker, Texas Ranger" on CBS and the sensationalized crashes and arrests on Fox’s "World’s Wildest Police Videos" were among the worst for reinforcing negative stereotypes ofauthoritativemen. "Theyjust glorify heavy-handed tactics," she said. She also speculated that professional wrestling’s blend of scantily dad women a University ofLouisville assistantmedical professor, said: without federal money, only people with insurance will have access to the relatively few doctors with experience in AIDS treatment. "I think we’re at a point the legislation needs tobe considered,"Huangsaidduring a public hearing by the legislature’s Task "It’s gender straightjacketing," Pollack said. "These boys believe that in order to be a real man - llke the ones in the media - they have to be violent and aggressive." - William Pollack : and muscle-bound fighters could cause ¯ relationship problems for adolescent boys "_ who might imitate the behaviors they see ¯ acted out by the wrestlers when trying to : woo women. ’The image is that men are meant to be defined by anger and violence and power and sex," Ms. Salisbury said. ’There is very little roomfor a range of behaviors such as compassion and compromise." She points to ABC’s ’¢Fhe Drew Carey Show" as an example ofaprogram that has very little violence and draws itshumorfrom the crew-cutted comedian’s portrayal of schlepping throughamundane job. "He’s stuck in ajob that’s going nowhere and the whole basis (of the show) is that he is ¯ . . a loser," Ms. Salisbury said. "That tells boys that the only place to be is at the top. Otherwise, you’re to be laughed at." Michael J. Gerson, a psychologist and lecturer at Loyola Marymount University, criticized Children Now for ¯¯ drawing what he characterized as an elementary conclusion about the effects ¯ of media violence on young people. ¯ "Researchers canunderestimate the ability of children to make distinctions between ¯ fantasy andreality,"Gerson said.’~A child ¯ may s~oot his fingers like a gun, but he doesn t have to develop a killer mentality ¯ or wish to be destructive." i-iowever, ¯ Gerson saidChildren Now was correct in ¯ proposing that the blending of sex and ¯ violence can confuse adolescents who ¯ should instead associate gentleness with ¯ intimacy. "I do object to movies where the ¯ girl and the guy get into the back seat of ¯ the car and a Miler pops out and cuts them ¯ in half with a chain saw," Gerson said. ¯ "That can cause problems." Force on HIV/AIDS Prevention, Services " and Financing. " Thirty-three states require people ! infected with HIV, the human ¯ immundeficiency virus, to be reported by " name. The federal government is : pressuring all other states, including ¯ Kentucky, to follow suit. Those that balk ¯ could lose federal funding for AIDS, the " task force says in a report. ." The recommendation brought a fierce ¯ response aboutprivacy-evenamong task " force members - at the public hearing. "I " call it blackmail," said Barry .Norris, a ," task force member from Louisville. But, ¯ Norris asked, what choice does Kentucky " have. Do we just not take themoney9... ° ¯ Do we make a principled stand?" Jeff ." Vessels, executive director of the ¯ American Civil Liberties Union in " Kentucky, said states should challenge the federal agencies. "It’s a terrible thing that we have to sacrifice so much privacy in the name of money," Vessels said. An AIDS patient said the stigma of the disease would drive many people underground. "For the fear of reporting their names, they simply will not go get tested," Michael Seidler of Louisville testified. Thestate keepsrecords ofAIDS patients by name, but not of people infected with ttIV..For that reason, the state’ s reports of HIV infection are considered suspect by federal record keepers at the Centers for Disease Control. Mollie’Adkins, of the Kentucky Department for Public Health, said name reporting is the most reliable way yet found to ensure cases are not duplicated and statistics are not inflated. Names would he maintained, in a state database, not passed along to the CDC. The task force also says the legislature should restrict access to the information and enact stiff penalties for breaches. Seidler, the AIDS patient, said that was wishful thinking. Computer hackers got into Florida’s HIV-test database, he said. "Ifyoucan guarantee somethinglike that’ s not going to happen..." Seidler said, "by all means go outand get tested yourselves." by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. Do Lesbians drink more alcohol than heterosexual women? In the not-toodistant past, the Lesbian bar was one of the only places " ~ome d the where Lesbians could go to early studies meet other women. On the otherhand,many Lesbianbars su~,rested that h~iVe Closed down, indicating Pdr.einrhkainpgs lt~hsast aLndeshbaivaensot-haerer- upd-toLoensblei~atnhlsrdplaces to socialize, To find out more about Lesbians and alcohol-use, I interviewedDr. TondaHughe~ in the Department of Nursing at the University of Illinois at Chicago. ,Some of the early studies suggested that up .to one third of Lesbians were serious alcohol abusers," she said, "but often these researchers collected their data from Lesbians in bars. So itis not surprising that this method found a large number of Lesbians who were heavy drinkers. I think that that is why we have the bdief that Lesbians are atriskfor alcohol abuse." Nevertheless, Dr. Hughes believes that Lesbians drank more than heterosexual women in the 1960s and 70s. "Lower rates of drinking among Lesbians now is partly due to changes in drinking in the whole population, to more health consciousness, and to the AIDS crisis, which has alertedus to the risks ofalcohol and drug use," she said. She also felt that Lesbians used to drink more during the coming out process, in order to deal with social anxiety and stigma involved in meeting other women and coming to terms with being a Lesbian. In a study conducted in Chicago, New York City, and Minneapolis/St. Paul in the mid-1980s with more than Lesbians, Lesbians overall were no more likely to reportalcohol-relatedproblems than we.re ° heterosexual women. Only Lesbians in the 50-60 year old age range reported ¯ more alcohol problems than did their " heterosexualcounterparts. Dr. Hughes has ¯ conductedaseries of studies withLesbians " and heterosextml women that focus on ° various mental health factors, including ¯ alcohol use and abuse. Her results indicate that Lesbians these " days are no more likely to drink heavily " than are heterosexual women. In fact,-- Lesbians were more likely to report ¯ abstaining from alcohol altogether for the " past year than were heterosexual women.." Most of the Lesbian and-heterosexual ¯ womeninher sample drank alcohol at low " levels. White Lesbians, however, drank " morethandid AfricanAmericanor Latina ¯ Lesbians. "Interestingly, there are more Lesbians ." who report that they are in recovery, " though" she added. Only 2% of." heterosexual womenhadbeenin treatment for alcohol or in 12-step programs, compared with 17% of Lesbians--a large " difference. This may be the result of prior ¯ heavy drinking among Lesbians. Or it " may be thht Lesbians are more aware of " were serious alcohol abusers~~ she said, ’but often these researchers co||ected tbelr data [rom Lesblans ;n bars. So it’s not surprlslng that this method [ound o[ Lesbians who were heavy drinkers. I think that that is why we bare the belld that Lesbians are at r~sk [or alcohol abuse.’" ~ substanceuse issues than areheterosexual ¯ women. Oneofthe questionsinthesurvey is "Have you ever wondered if you had a drinking problem," and 47% of Lesbians answered "yes" to this item compared with only 14% of the heterosexual women. This finding again hints at heavy alcohol use in thepastonthepartofLesbians. Finally, there was a trend for older Lesbians to report more drinking, and these are the Lesbians who were adults during earlier times when drinking was more part of the Lesbian commurtities. Dr. Hughes is interested in exploring patterns of drinking across various age groups of Lesbians. Specifically, she is interested in whether older Lesbian~ who were adults during earlier times when drinking was more part of the Lesbian cotumunities are continuing to drink heavily. She is also interested in the question of how Lesbians and their partners moderate each others drinking, because research on heterosexuals shows that partners’ drinking is a major factor in how much people drink. We still know very little about all Ihe factors that increase or decrease Lesbians’ risk for alcohol abuse or alcohol-related problems. Esther Rothblum is Professor of Psychology at the University of Vermont and Editor of the Journal of Lesbian Studies. She can be reached at Dewey Hall, Univ. of Vermont, Burlington, VT, ¯ emaih esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. of The Tulsa Worldnews story about the New Jersey ruling. Ms. Kue.lmertpromised to check into the issue and to telephone back the next day. TAUWenjoys significant supportfrom some of Tulsa’s most well known corporations. Debbie Graham ofQuikTrip Corporation said that her organization had supported UnitedWayformany years because it helps a vast variety of agencies but-that QuikTrip doesn’t get involved in "the politics of individual agencies." And while Ms. Graham could not confirm that Quik Trip has a nondiscrimination policy which explicitly includes "sexual orientation," she noted that it is their practice not to discriminate. Quik Trip had provided promotion of the United Way campaign in the form of a printed solicitation for support on Quik Trip paper bags. Emily Gill of Dollar Car Rental did confirm that her company and its parent group, Dollar/Thrifty Automotive Group (DTAG) which Mr. Cappy chairs, does have an explicitnon-discrimination policy butMs. Gill wasunable to address whether any one atDTAG saw any conflictbetween their internal non-discrimination policy and see TA UW, p. 13 Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing Walk-in Clinics Tuesday Testing, 5 -8 pm Pride Center, 1307 East 38th Wednesday Tdsting, 5-8 pm Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Daytime appointments available. Call for more information: 918-584-2325 Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday 1314 North Greenwood 587-1314 We knowyou’re going to love this..r Restaurant & Cabaret ltxst~~ tla~ ~’f~rO~ ¯. 310 East First Streel 918-599-9949 Massage Therapy Services Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Need a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743-GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th at Peoria, 2nd floor Country Club Barbering Custom Styling ¯ for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236 Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm ¯ IGTA member Call 341. 6866 International Tours/ormoreinformation. Red Rock Tulsa O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting times and place: 918-584-2325 ERESH ITALIAN RAINBOW CUSINE TROUT ofEureka Springs Voted Number One in Arkansas! (501) 253-680Z Closed Wednesday 5 Cen~er Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 TOM NEAL BUILDING & GARDEN DESIGN 583- 1248 Compatibility reports . for you and your friends or lovers. 599-0717 Gay Owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud Gay Mecca of the Ozarks Beautiful Eureka Springs, Arkansas by Lamont Lindstrom, Phdg. Last snmmer I wentto afriend’ s fiftieth birthday p~arty.,] I think actually it was at least his tbir or even fourth fiftieth birthday. He is de_t,_e~_.ined.n_o,t to get any older. Freezingone s agent50ts somewhat more mature than those of us who fixate on 30, or even 25. Another birthday boy I know is at 28 and holding. Andmy friend Steve- who is 33 and gorgeous - always shaves five or six years off his age on those tempting messages he leaves on telephone dating, lines. Welcome to America. Growing up around here is good. But growing old can be a problem. We all know about the bittersweetness of birthdays. Next time you are in a card store, have a look at those nasty if cruelly funny. cards that we are encourag to giveanyoneunlueky enough to have turned 40. Women complain that the onusof age falls most heavily on them. Men, as they wrinkle, gray; and sag, at least might bope.~o grow to be distinguished. Women, on the other hand, age into grannies and crones. My sly friends who have recycled or lost a few of their blrdadays, however, don~t seem to be waiting eagerly for distinguished, silver-haired maturity. They, too~ would rather stay young and juicy. Theexplosion of men’s hair dye, plastic surgery, and youthful herbal supplement commercials flashing daily on my television screen suggest an increasingly desperate age-panic among all of us, no matter our gender. When I was 24, I lived on Tanna, an isolated South Pacific island. Everyone there is related to everyone. Newcomers - quickly receive "fictive kin" identities in order better to fit into village life. Soon after I arrived, all the kids began calling me kaha - "grandpa." I was taken aback by this. Why, back then, I had hardly any gray hair after all! OnTanna, though, as in most places on earth, ageis pr_estigio.us.. Those kids were doing me abig favor wttla that grandpa thing. Myislandfriend Nariu, who was hardly older than me, within a few years had started referring to himself (and me) as "’we old men." Nariu was ambitious and since old men ran his society, he was determined to become a senior citizen as soon as he could. American fears of aging clearly have much to do with how years connect up with power and prestige. I sometimes ask my university students when they think adulthood begins. When do you truly become an adult? They tend to place this somewherein the20s-afew years bey.ond their own age. Most Americans associate adulthood with economic independence: having one’s own job, paying 0n.e’s.o.wn bills. We see some 35-year-old still hvlng with mother as sadly still a little juvenile. I also askmy youthful students for their, defimtmns of nnddle-aged and old. Answers here are more variable. (Some startmiddleage-at30.) Generally, though, true oldness connects with retirement. Once we leave the workplace for good, we lose salary, power, prestige, and any final fleeting claims to youth. People throughoutmost of the world can’t wait to get old. The older they are, the more ¯ authority and influence they have within their fzmilies and societies. Here, if you : want to be president at age 69, like Ronald ¯ Reagan you’d better pour on that black ¯ hair dye. . Gay menmay bemore panickedby age : than most Americans. We have all heard : bitter complaints about our agi_sm ~ a~,d lookism- and such gripes are often samy : justifiedbypersonal experience. (Lesbian ¯¯ society is,l~___ha,p_s kinder to it_s wrin.kl,ed sisters ) It s fun to read the age limitalmns in classified personal ads. "Gay men may Most of the lovelorn are ISO sweet-youngthings. Notmany be more want to date those of well-. panicked by age than most Americans. We have all heard bitter complaints a~out our agism -- and lookism - and such gripes are often sadly justified by personal experience." aged .and mature vintage. Many ads have upper age cutoffs - commonly 30 or 35 or, morerarely, 40. Some seekers are willing to date over a decade’s span-five years younger to five years older than themselves. Many 40- somethings speei-ficaldl’y request none but the 20- something... Good luck... More gray hair on the way for you, I think. Or there is the daddy niche: Sugardaddies,leatherdaddies, bears and cubs. A few yonngish personal advertisers won’ t touch anyone underneath 45 or 50. They want~eir daddy. At.leastthere remarns, here m .agist American, one specialized market opporUmity for mental, ,facial,,and financial maturity. So you can atways ouy a youth if you can’t have youth yourself Then there are the age-blind. They "go bv~t_he s,n_i_r_i t. "Thev_o_romisetodateanyone 18 to 88, or so they say. I logged onto a 61- vear-old’s personal page on the Internet. "Ageis only a state of mind,"it said. Yeah right. Are you from Tanna or America? Check out your mirror. But I’m taking notes. Those birthdays keep rolling. And next year the cake might set off the smoke Lamont Lindstrom. Ph.D. teaches anthropology at ~he University of Tulsa? the discriminatory policies of the BSA and United Way’s failure to pledge not to discriminate. Ms. Gill promised aresponse after consulting with others in her organizationbutfailed to respondby press time. Likewise, Jean Johnson, Bank of America’s southwestern press spokesperson, pointed out that the bank, with its origins in San Francisco, has some of themostprogressive policies, not only pledging not to discriminate but also ¯ prowiding domestic partner benefits to ¯ their employees. She added that Bank of ] America is one of United Way’s largest ~ supporters on a national level. Roger ¯ Whaley ofBank of America serves on the ~ board of directors of TAUW. : The Tulsa Area United Way campaign ¯ enjoys further promotional sup.port fr,.om Tulsa area television stations. Accoromg ’. to the staffperson at KOTV, Channel 6, : the stations which represent the major ~ networks and Fox all agree to do public ¯ service announcements. " Pat Baldwin of KTUL, Cbannel 8 who ¯ is a member see TAUW, p. 14 The regular Belle’s father was hospitalized during the run, and at the last matinee, folks in the audience neverknew of the backstage drama going on. The Beast became ill at the end of the first act (where he flings himself across a balcony In despair of ever being loved, and the curtain falls). When the backstage crew revolved the set to help him down, they found the actor playing the Beast hanging over the balcony - passed out cold. They revived him, and he decided to go on with the show: However, you could never tell from the audience that anything was wrong. After the performance, he was whisked to the hospital as soon as the curtain fell. It appears he may have been suffering from a bleeding ulcer. The understudy went on that evening, and I hear he did well, despite misgivings on the part of some of the crew and other castmembers-not tomentionhehimself! I was sorry to see the troupe leave - they were such nice folk. October events at the Performing Arts Center (596-7111 for tix) include Tulsa Ballet’ s "AnnaKarenina", Oct 1-3; Sabella Oct 2; The Celtic Series with Natalie McMaster, Oct 8-9; Tulsa Opera’s "Carmen, Oct 16-24; ATC’s Titanic mystery, "Scotland Road", Ok 22-30; and The Phil’s pops concert, "Sound and Sorcery" Oct 29-30. I look forward to the arrival of Petula Clark as Norma Desmond in "Sunset Boulevard." However, I still think Carol Bumett should tour with the show; that would bea .fresh interpretation in many respects. The reviews I’ve read and heard from friends thus far have reassured me we are in for an excellent show. The magicin themaking will arriveNovember 23 -28. And of course, no column written by yours truly would be complete without a mention of"YouKnow Who."Andifyou don’tknow, then you’ve not been reading this section regularly, now have you? Shame on you! The ever-ethereal Stevie Nicks made a stumling appearance on the top-rated Sheryl Crow and Friends concert on the ,Fox network, and it was interesting to note that she garneredthemostenthusiastic audience response of the eminently talented bunch. "Gold Dust Woman" never sounded better, and according to the rumor mill, her new CD’s in the can, awaiting release. Sheryl Crow produced theCDin between tours. Also, Lesbian Icon, Melissa Etheridge, if you follow the Tulsa World columns, is rumored to be scheduling a Tulsa appearance. We’ll be awaiting word on that situation. And "heart-and-other-body-partsthrob" Ricky Martin will be in Dallas November 4th. Ay cammba! of the board of directors of Tulsa Area UnitedWay, failed to respond to the voice mail asking him to call. In contrast, Bud Brown, new general manager ofKOTV, Channel 6, noted he’d only been in Tulsa for 3 weeks, and had not seen the Tulsa World article in which the Boy Scouts reaffirmed their anti-Gay stance but he noted that his corporation, The Belo Corporation which owns the Dallas Morning News, WFAA in Dallas and a number of other television_ stations, : is "very clear...very firm" on their ¯ corporatenon-discriminationpolicy which ¯ includes "sexual orientation." : Greg Gatewood, president of Tulsa ¯ Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), ¯ was one .Gay person willing to have his : name used though he emphasized that he ¯ was speaking as an individual not for ¯ TOHR. Gatewood saidhefeltUnitedWay : did a lot of good, funding for example, ¯ TulsaC.A.R.E.S.andotherorganizations, ¯ and that he’d given to United Way in the : past. However, he added that he did not ¯¯ agreewith theBoy Scouts’ policy and that he’d like to see United Way open a : discussionwith theGay community about ¯ the Boy Scouts, trying to f’md common ¯ ground. He added thathe’dlike to include ¯ the Boy Scouts in that dialogue also. ¯ He suggested that instead of asking ¯ Tulsa Area United Way to stop funding ¯ the Boy Scouts that TAUW should be : asked to fund an organization which : provides services to Tulsa’s Lesbian and : .Gay communities. Gatewood emphati- ¯ tally agreed thatTAUW shouldamendits : ownnon-discrimination policy to include ¯ "sexual orientation." : A prominent member of Tulsa’s Gay ¯ community, Vernon Jones, partner of the ¯ late Phil Wiley and civil rights and HIV/ ¯ AIDS issues activist, recalled that Tulsa ¯ Area United Way also has a history of : racial discrimination. He remembers ¯ newspaper articles from his youth ¯ reporting on how TAUW refused to fund ¯ agencies which served Tulsa’s Black ¯ commtmity. Jones,likeothers appreciated ¯ TAUW’s support for HIV/AIDS services ¯ " but thought United Way should not fund. the BSA. Beth Kuehnert, Tulsa Area United Way’s marketing representative, did not call back as she promised. When asked about this by telephone, she accused Tulsa Family News of calling and harassing United Way supporters, naming one in particular. Ms. Kuehnert was informed that a news story required speaking with more than just her and that all contacts with United Way supporters had been through their designated press representatives and clearly identified as news inquiries and had been quite cordial. And despite earlier promises to try to answer questions about United Way’s decision to fund .the Boy Scouts, Ms. Kuehnert now stated that "I’m not going to ask this question in the middle of the campaign.., the decision [to fund the Boy Scouts] was made in the spring [last spring]." When TulsaFamilyNews contacted the UnitedWay corporate supporter who had allegedly been the subject of TFN harassment,TFN was told that they’d said nothing of the sort but only that they’d called Tulsa Area United Way president ¯ and chief professional officer, Kathleen ¯ Coon, to say that the issue of funding the : Boy Scouts had been raised. ¯ This corporate spokesperson ¯ characterized the conversation with TFN ¯ as very civil and cordial. At press dine, Tulsa Family News had ¯ made either three or four phone calls over : at least a four year period to Tulsa Area ~ United Way president Kathleen Coan ¯ requesting the courtesy of a return phone ¯ call. ¯ To date, Ms. Coon, despite an apparent ¯ ready accessibility to The Tulsa World ¯ and other non-minority news orgam- ." zations, has refused to return any calls. ¯ For a related editorial, please see ; United Our Way, p. 3. 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(and former lead singer of "lnae Nylons), whose sound is an eclectic hybrid of electronicpop witharock ’n’ roll swagger, and the fabulous "Doris Daze", an allwomen’s pop/rock band that is currently making a big splash in Dallas. (Check out these websites, www.mp3.com/dorisdaze and www.loudboybarnes.com, to get a taste of their music.) And it’s not over yet! Don’t dare miss the dance and drag show on Sunday afternoon at Center Stage. Besides the always exciting, always surprising performances of Domonique Daniels, .Carla Renee, Miss Helga, Tara T’Neil, and Tabitha Taylor of Tulsa, Okla., and our ever-popular DJ, Jon Caswell, "Barnes" will make a guest appearance! So call your friends, select your wardrobe, and make your lodging reservations now!! You won’t want to miss this weekend!!! Call The Emerald Rainbow at (501) 253-5445 or visit www.shimaka.com!eureka/diversity to get a full schedule of activities. DIVERSITY CELEBRATION SCHEDULE OF ACTIVITIES " bRIDAY, NOVEMBER 5 2:30 pm - 5:00 pin"Family" musicians perform at Mud St. Espresso Cafe on Main St. 6:00 pm - 7:30 pm More entertainment at the Kaffeehaus Aroma in Basin Park Hotel. 8:00 pm - 12:30 am M.CC. of the Living Spring hosts Carnival Under the Rainbow - Dance and Game Night. Game booths- will raise funds for local projects and organizations while Jon Caswell spins an eclectic mix of dance music. A great way to kick off the weekend! Basin Park Hotel Ballroom. Cover: $4.50 per person, $7.50 per couple. Must be 21. SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 6 10:00 am - Noon Catch the end of the fall colors canoeing down the beautiful White River. Call the Dam Store at (501) 253-6154 for details. $22!canoe. 10:30 am - Noon Enjoy a "colorful" historic walking tour wi~ Bill. Meet at Sweet Springs on upper Spring St. next to Rogue’s Manor. No charge. 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm Bring the kids to a "family" family picnic at Harmon Park. Food and games. Call Samuel Strickland for details (501) 253-7837. Children of all ages welcome. No charge. Be sure to check out the unique shops andrestaurants listed in the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative. Let them know you’re here for Diversity Weekend! 1:00 pm - 4:00 pro, Did you bring your singing voice? Give Karaoke a whirl with Lita at the Hole in. the Wall off Center St. No cover. 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm, Give your feet a break, and listen to some great musicians at Mud St. Espresso Cafe and Kaffeehaus Aroma. Tips appreciated. 9:00 pro- 1:00 am Party, party, party!! Dance, dance, dance!! Come on out to Center Stage, and dance like you mean it to Jon’ s high energy club tunes;ORShake your booties at the Basin Park Hotel Ballroom to the live performances of dynamic GLAMA-winning L.A. Singer/ songwriter Barnes, and the fantastic pop/ rock Dallas-based women’s band Doris Daze. (Both will have their CDs available for sale.) Must be 21! Cover charges: Center Stage only - $5 per person. Basin Park only - $10 per person. Both venues - $13 per person. What a nightt ! SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 7 2:00 pm - 6:00pmYou can’t leave yet!! Meet us again at Center Stage for our tea dance and drag show. Those girls from Tulsa, those talented, and always fantabulous entertainers, Domonique Daniels, Carla Renee, Miss Helga, Tara T’Neil and Tabitha Taylor will knock your socks off with their dazzling performances, while Jon graces us with his DJ magic once again. AND, to add to the excitement, Barnes will be there to sharehis terrificvoice andpowerful music in a Special guest set. Must be 21! Cover: $5 per person. 7:00 Inn M.C.C. of the Living Spring Service at 17 Elk St. Call (501) 253-9337 for information. All are welcome! OTHER HAPPENINGS * Friday night from 10 p.m. ’til close, Clary and K.J. will havelive entertainment and dancing at Center Stage. * If you’re feeling adventurous (and a little brave), you may want to check out the Ghost Tours at the Crescent Hotel. They start at 7 p.m. and 9 p.m. on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and last for approximately anhour andfifteenminutes. Discounted price of $8 per person to anyone wearing a purple"Eureka Springs Celebrating Diversity" button (available for half a buck at The Emerald Rainbow). Call (501) 253-8030 or 2428 for details. * In keeping with both themes this weekend, Judy at Pond Mountain Lodge, is hosting a "family" wine tasting, with hors d’oeuvres, from 5 to 7 p.m. on Saturday. Admission is a favorite boftle of wine from your state or $10 per person. Pond Mountain is on Hwy 23S about two miles from its intersection in town with Hwy 62. Call (800) 583-8043 for reservations. * After the dances on Friday and Saturday nights, Basin Block Cafe (across from Basin Park Hotel) will be open for breakfast from midnight ’til 3 a.m. * This weekend is also Eureka Springs’ Food and Wine Festival, and many of the town’s fine restaurants are offering special menus, from light fare to exquisite multicourse dinners. If you’re interested, call theChamberofCommerceformoredetails at (501) 253-8737. Be sure to stop byThe EmeraldRainbow to pick up your Diversity Cooperative booklet and discount coupons from some of the Coop’s businesses! And please join us at our next Eureka Springs Diversity Celebration Weekend on April 7, 8 &9, 2000 ! ! ! Keep an eye on www.shimaka.com/eureka~diversity for details. The Eureka Springs Diversity Celebrationweekendis producedby Linda Williams and M.C. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1999] Tulsa Family News, October 1999; Volume 6, Issue 10 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Zion Baptist Church Dedicated to the Memory of HIV/AIDS Activist Phil Wiley THE NAMES PROJECT Quilt Tours Black Colleges Coretta Scott King Slams Homophobia ATLANTA (AP) - During the AIDS Quilt tour of historically Black colleges and universities, Coretta Scott King told those viewing the memorial that homophobia has prolonged and worsened the epidemic within the Black community. "It is particularly sad to me when I hear Black people, includiug some in leadership positions, making homophobic comments and attacking t.he humm] rights of Gay and Lesbian people," the widow of die Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. said Monday during the tour’s opening ceremonies at Clark Atlanta University, Regardless of sexual orientation or gender, Blacks have a signiticantly higher risk of becoming infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Stati-stics show ntost new HIV infections occur among people 25 and younger. The Black community has been hit particularly hard. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Blacks account for about half the new HIV infections, AIDS cases and AIDS deaths, though they represent only 13% of the U.S. population, "With the stigma on homosexual behavior m the African-American coxmnunit~¢, ¯ see Ki.,t~, ~9.: 15 Matthew Shepard Murder Trial Update LARAMIE, Wyo. (AP) - Gay college student Matthew Shepard was pumaneled to death by Aaron McKirmey in a drunken, drug-induced rage after Shepard made a pass at him, McKirmey’s attorney Said as: his trial began. "’Did Matthew Shepard deserve to die? No, that’s ridiculous-. No manslaughter victim deserved to die," Jason Tangeman said in opening statements. "That’s what Aaron McKirmey is guilty of, manslaughter." The roofer’s judgment that night Vas affected bv alcohol, methamphetamines and "~ome sexuall} traumatic and confusing events in his life," Tangeman told jurors. Prosecutor Cal Rerncha said his case against McKinney will not deal with Shepard’s Gayness. "It will simply be about the pain, suffering and death of Matthew Shepard at the hands of the defendant, Aaron James:McKimaey," he said." The Human Rights Campaign, a national Gay civil rights organization strongly condenmed the use of the.’’blame the victim" defense in the trial. Shepard, McKinney and Henderson met in a Laramie bar about a year ago, where Shepard asked McKinney for a ride home, humiliating him in front of friends because McKinney believed Shepard was Gay, Tangeman contended. Tangeman said McKinney, 22, was confused by three homosexual encounters that occurred when he was 7, 15 and 20: In one case, McKinney was forced into an oral sex act with a neighborhood bully, Tangeman said. Rerucha said McKirmey and Henderson drove Shepard, 21, to a remote area, where they robbed, lashed him to.the fence and pistol-whippinghim into a coma. Opening statements were made after a jury of 10 men and:six women, including four alternates, was seated in McKinney’s trial on charges of first-degree murder, kidnapping and robbery. The jury includes three students at the University of Wyoming, where Shepard was a freshman. McKinney could receive the.death penalty. TULSA - The 10th annual World AIDS Day Candlelight March and Memorial Service will be held at one of Tulsa’s most historical traditionally African-American churches, Mt. Zion Baptist Church, led b~ the Rev. Calvin McCutcheon. The march will begin gathering at 6:30 near St. Monica’s Church just south of Carver School east of Greenwood Avenue This is just south of Pine. The march will begin about 7pm and will continue about a mile south on Greenwood to John ttope Franklin Bottlevard which travels west through the Oklahoma State University at Tulsa campus to Elgin. Mt. Zion is on FJ~n just across the OSU-Tulsa parking lots near 1-244. The theme for the march and memorial is "Fa~d the Silence" and the service will feature the music of Ernestine Dillard, the Council Oak Mens Chorale and the Mr. Zion church choir. Tiffs Tulsa service is dedicated to the memory of 1o "cal ttIV AIDS and Gay civil rights activist Phil Wiley who died of kidney failure last summer. Orgamzers note that all tilnes are approximate aud that lhey will provide candles and matches but encourage marchers to bring banners and bells to nng on the march. For more information, call Interfaith ..\ IDS Mira stries at 4382437. Also on World AIDS Day, an organization called "\Vc The Peopl.e Li.ving .with AIDS/HIV’" will join with thousm~ds of other orgmuzatlons m remembering, fiercel3, those the~ lmvc !ost to the AIDS epidemic. They will do this through the posting of the manes of their members, friends and loved ones lost to ,A IDS on the. \ IDS \Vatch webpage, which will display the .,aan]es of tens of thousands of people who have died from :kIDS. one at a mnc in the 48 honrs before and after December ist. They request that readers consider adding the uames of those whom they have lost to AIDS to the list. The page is localed m http:/iwww.aidswatch.org. Click on "’Add a name "’ to include the name, of~v°ur loved one, friend or colleague to the li st. Falwell MeetsWith Gays LYNCHB URG, Va. (AP)-The Rev. Jerry Falwell, who has denounced homosexuals for years, held an .unprecedented meeting with Gay Christians recently m an attempt to reduce violent acts against Gays and Christians. Both sides said the gathering was productive. Dozens of anti-Gay protesters denmnstrated outside, yelling at Gay supporters as they entered the church parking lot. The Rex’. Fred Phelps of Topeka, Kan.. whose congregafiou also taunted Gays at the funeral of slain Gay college studcm Matthew Shepard. said Falwdl is a hypocrite for ineeting with the Rev. Mel White, a Gay minister and his followers. "Falwell used to teach the Bible word for word. now he’s going off and meeting with these fags and going against everything he’s ever taught," Phelp,~ said. "He always says ’hate the sin. bnt love the simmr,’ but it’s ~mpossible to separate the t~o Does a judge send the crime or the crintinal to jail’?" Falwell. who has long believed lha~ homosexuality is a sin, insists he will not change Iris views, but has agreed to tone down tfis anti language that Gay civil rights activists encourages hatred and violence towar~t homosexuals. "’We are here because ihnocent people ol vari~ faiths, racial and ethnic groups and sexual preferences have increasingly had their live~ abruptly mid violently ended by people ~vilh opposing vie~\s.’" Fah~ell told th~ group of 4 delegates in ~velcomiug then] to the anti "~ml,,ncc fortun Saturday afternoou x~q]itc brought 200 Gays mid Lesbians l’rom 3~* slates to p~ticil)atc in the forum. They were ]t)]ncd by 2~)evm~gelic~d Chnsfians who supjmrt Fid~ cEstmacc "q hi s is the first step iu ourjoume3 tm~ auct~ reconciliation." s~d White, who held a pra3 e~ ~ ~gil Ffida3 mght for 20 Gay men or gm~sgcndcred people killed because of their sexu~ oneutation. see Fahvell, p. 10 Community Center News France OK’s Gay and All Community Meeting, Nov. 16, 6:30pm TOHR Meeting, 11/9: Carol Petersen, Author, Poet + Gay Man in Hitler’s Navy TULSA - The third all community meeting will be held at the Communiiy Center on Tues., Nov. 16th at 6:30pm. About 35 individuals attended the last meeting in Sept. and the representatives of a number of organizations, churches and businesses decided to convene a community council with TOHR, Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights, the parent organization of the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center, coordinating the exchange of information. Local attorney and original meeting co-convener Dennis Neill will present a draft contract to clarify the relationship between the various groups. For more information about the next conmaunitv meeting, call the Community Center at 743-4297. On Tues. Nov. 9th at 7:30pro, TOHR will hold its montlflv membership meeting. The meeting, which is open to the publiC, will feature remarks by Carol Petersen, a Romanian born poet, biographer and educator. Petersen, a Gay man.~ even found lfimself serving in the German Navy during the N~i government of Adolf Hitler. Petersen has-published works on Albert Camus, Andre Gide, John Steinbeck, Goethe, Spanish poet Lorca, Thomas Mann as wall as works of poetry. He has taught French and German literature and awarded one of the highest honors in France, the Chevalier de L’oi’dre des Palmiers Academique de France. Other News: House of the Holy Spirit Calls Pastor House of the Holy Spirit Ministries announces that they have selected a new full-time pastor, Chuck Breckenridge. Breckenridge served in a pastoral capacity in a Wichita congregation where he formerly resided. Breckenridge is also known for having published and edited The Parachute, a now defunct regional publication. He also started The Triangle Of which he has recently served as general manager. Breckenridge was installed as pastor on October 17th. Troy McGoveran, spokesman for House of the Holy Spirit notes, "the entire congregation is very excited about the movement going on in our church.., we.. welcome Pastor Breckemidge to our church.. ?’ Non-Gay Partnerships The British Broadcasting System (BBC) reported in October that the French Parlimnent has approved a controversial bill that gives Gay couples mare of the rights enjoyed by married people. The NatiOnal Assmnbly passed the Civil Solidarity Pact (PACS) by 315 votes to 249. The PACS allows unmarried couples to register their umon and enjoy some of the tax, legal and social welfare benefits associated with marriage. It is intended to allow Gay and heterosexual couples who are not married to "’organise their common life". Partners who want to separate will be able to do so via a letter of separation. According to Justice Minister Elisabeth Guigou, the bill will improve the lives of more than five million people. Conservative opponents immediately said they would ask the Constitutional Council to role whether the law was unconstitutional. Religious leaders have strongly denounced the law, saying it enables a form of homosexual marriage. The PACS wasintroduced by the riding socialists and the government’s majority made approval virtually certain. It has been one of the most bitterlycontested pieces of social legislation for years, opposed by conservatives and by leaders of the Christian, Jewish and Muslim faiths in France. see France, p. 15 LI~ ~I~ ~ ~ Z mmm D IRECTORY EDITORIAL U S & WORLD NEWS . HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT COMMUNITY CALENDAR READ ALL ABOUT IT D O-IT-YOUR-SELF DYKE DYKE PSYCHE GAY STUDIES P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 P. 9 P. 10 P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 832-1269 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Boston Willy’s Diner, 1742 S. Boston 592-2143 599-9512 *Empire Bar, 1516 S: Peoria 583 -6666 *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th 749-4511 *Gold Coast Coffee House; 3509 S. Peoria 59%7777 *Jason’s Deli, 15th & Peoria 749-1563 *The Mix, 2630 E. 15th 744-4280 *Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 834-4234 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 585-3405 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 660-0856 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 584-1308 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Advanced Wireless & PCS, Digital Cellular 747-1508 *Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 250-5034 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 665-4580 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231 E. 41 712-1122 Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 712-9955 *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 494-2665 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale 743-5272 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria 746-0313 *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 622-0700 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 352-9504, 800-742-9468 L:m Daniel. Attorney 749-3620 " ~_~eco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 587-2611 *Devena’s Gallery, 13 Brady 744-5556 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S Peoria 838-8503 *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 584-0337, 712,-9379 *Ross Edward Salon 592-0460 Events Unlimited, 507 S. Mai~’ 744-9595 *Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria 610-0880 Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th P1. 628-3709 Cathy Furlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. 808-8026 Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 742-1460 *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E 21st 459-9349 Leanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning 744-7440 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney *Sandra J. Hill, MS. Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skellv 745-1111 341-6866 *International Tours 712-2750 Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 582-3018 *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th 747-0236 David Kanskey, Country Club Barbering 582-8460 The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening 599-8070 *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 747-~-!-66 Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 585-1234 *Living ArtSpace, 19 E. Brad3,’ 584-3112 *Midtown Theater. 319 E. 3rd 663-5934 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 664-2951 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 838-7626 Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo 583-1090 *Peace Of Mind Bookstore, 1401 E. 15 743-4297 The Pride Store. 1307 E. 38, 2nd floor 747-5932 Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 834-0617 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921, 747-4746 749-6301 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 260-7829 Paul Tay, Car Salesman 48t-0558 *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 835-5563 *Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard 743-1733 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling 592-0767 *W~hittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities 579-9593 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 743-2363 All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 587-7314 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 583-7815 *B/L/G/T Alliance. Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 583-9780 585-1201 *Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence *Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood 587-1314 *Community of Hope United Methodist, 2545 S. Yale 747-6300 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 748-3888 Coundl Oak Men’s Chorale 7!2-t511 *Dela}vare Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware 742-2457 *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 Dignity!Integrity of Tulsa - Lesbian & Gay Catholics & 355-3140 Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 747-7777 *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard *Free Spirit Women’s Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews @ earthlink.net Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Barry Hensley, J.-P. 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Grand HIVtesting every other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for dates EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS 501-253-7734 Autunm Breeze Restaurant, Hwv. 23 501~253-7457 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Ma]n 501-253-6807 DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-5445 Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-9337 MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-2776 Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-5332 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-624-6646 Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-253-6001 Sparky’s, Hwy; 62 East 501-253-4074 White Light, 1 Center St. JOPLIN, MISSOURI 417-623-4696 *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. Audra Sommers: To All .My Friends Tiff s rues sage brings to you information about my up-coming benefit called ’~onnecting The Hearts of Tulsa" Friday November 5th, at 10:30 p.m. at the Silver Star. This event focuses onthe Prescription Assistance Program which as you know is very, very important to many. As a community of caring individuals I ask all of you once again to come together as compassionate and sympathetic members of our community and show your support. Without fai! every year, you pull out all the stops and arrive in droves. My heart shines with delight to see all of your faces as we raise the much needed money to keep those who can’t afford the necessary medications alive and well. Come, meet new people and see some new faces. Uniting together_we make the difference. Please join all my guests: Miss Gay America - Catia Lee Love Miss Gay Oklahoma America - Bridgett Lee Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA - Kris Kohl Miss Fish-Lake Nevada - Slutisha Swamppussy Miss Midwestern Plains USofA - Victoria Turrell Miss Tulsa USofA 1998 - Jasmine Turrell Miss Gay University Of Tulsa Homecoming Queen 1999 - Audriana Sommers The Green Country Cloggers Miss Silver Star USofA 1996 - Tera "T" Neil Miss Gay Oklahoma At Large USofA 96 - Domonique Daniel’s Miss Feticia Winters Miss Ebony Hall Miss Tabatha Taylor Miss Gain A Pound Miss Miranda McMillian Miss Tore McMillian Miss Audra Sommers and her special "Grab Bag Segment" Mr. Steve Sludder And Mr. Brock Masters - video star along with many, maaay others. I look forward to seeing everyone at the StarFriday NovemberSthat 10:30p.m. It is going to be the best show ever! With love and respect, - Audra Marie Sommers Announcements Policy Tulsa Family News will provide space for holy union ceremony, marriage ceremony, birth, adoption and death announcements on a space available basis. Photos are welcome, though we cannot promise placement or return them, so please send copies to Tulsa Family News, POB 4140, Tulsa 74159. Letters Policy Tulsa Family Newswelcomes letters on issues which we’ve covered or on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phone numbers, or be hand delivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be re-printed as is appropriate. �Editorial: Singing Those Millennium March Blues serving as a representative) meetings. To March or Not March? :¯ from And according to the Nov. 9th i°ssue of The Advocate, That is the question - ok, ok, yes that’s tired and ¯ perhaps, even trite but I couldn’t help it. The millennium ~ does indeed approach and with it, the next great Gay march scheduled for next April. Called by Robin Tyler, Lesbian event organizer par excellence, taken up by the Gay community’s organizational 800 pound gorillas, the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) and the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the Millennium March has been fraught with controversy from its beginning. No one doubts that these events are tremendously ehapowering for those of us who attend. I can attest to that from my experience .at the last march. My long-suffering ex (just ask him ;-) and I organized a group mostly of students and others on limited incomes from Texas to travel by bus to DC. Since this was a budget trip we stayed about 12 to a room, 3 or 4 to a bed with some on the floor of a hotel in the Virginia suburbs. But the moment of my epiphany was when we boarded the Metro (subway) at the 2nd to the last stop that far out into the suburbs, and everyone waiting, and everyone on the train but for perhaps one or two per car, w,as Gay, or Lesbian, or Bi, ornon-Gays whom we’ddearly welcomed into our tribe. For once to be safe, for once to be in OUR space is a rare and precious thing. There we could hold hands in the street without the fear that we Were taking our !ives literally in our hands. For once, we could say that we don’t mind "straights" as long as they "behave" themselves. For many this was alife transforming experience¯ From it, they came back and became active in the organizations of their hometowns. This clearly is go6~l: And yet, some questions remain. First of these i.s whether, this march will even come off at all. Because MCC and HRC proclaimed that a march was going to happened before they consulted the many other organizations which make up the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered civil fights and cultural movement, the March was immediately caught up in controversy. This "movement" is-tremendously diverse and building consensus is long hard work. Prior march organizers did do so through long and sometimes painful (I write this control of the event has _been shifted from Robin Tyler to Malcolm Lazin, interim executive director. Kerry Lobel, executive director of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF), earlier resigned from an oversight board for the March because of concerns about event Do you know where a number of Tulsans have been during the last 18 months? Buried in trash. We studied different curbside recycling programs from around the state and from across the country. About 100 cities were looked at by the TARE board’ s subcommittee on recycling. Our most important discovery: each community is unique in its requirements for recycling. In Tulsa, most of the trash we generate is incinerated at the trash-to-energy plant. The burning process results in waste by-products that can mad do pollute our air. For example, some substances like plastic can be harmful when burned. Recycling will take them out of the trash collection burned at the Walker Hall recovery plant. The more Tulsa recycles, the more we improve Tulsa’s air quality for our young, our elderly, and most significantly, our chronically ill. And let us not forget that we are breathing the same air. Recycling does not ouly help in making the environment cleaner and healflfier; it also has economic benefits other than quality of life. Once Tulsa citizens recycle enough items that can be reused, a recycling industry will be created an become a viable part of the economy with added job opportunities, In the beginning, Tulsans, will be able to recycle four types of items. Newspapers, includin°g the slick advertisement sections, compose the first recycling category. Now you cannot recycle magazines and business forms; these are another category which may be added at a later date. However, you can still take them to MET recycling centers. The second category acceptable for recycling in Tulsa will be aluminum. Drop all aluminum beverage cans inj the recycling container; however, you cannot recycle other forms of aluminum. Please rinse them immediately after use. Remember that recycling pick up is every other week. Besides, you will make it so much easier for those separating our recyclables. Plastic is one of the most important things to recycle. As petroleum-based products, these items release toxins when burned. You can recycle all plastic beverage bottles including most pop, milk, and water containers, as well as soap and detergent bottles. Rinse our the container to prepare these items for recycling and dispose of the lids. It is easy to remember which plastic items are acceptable. Look for the number "1 "or "2" inside the little triangle on the bottom of the container. .The final or fotu:th category for Tulsa’s new recycling program is glass. Both clear and colored glass bottles and jars will be accepted. No unbroken glass will be taken, nor will the program accept other housewares or plate glass from windows. Since the glass before putting out for collection and discard the lid. Because of the once-everytwo-weeks collection, you may want to rinse after use, if it contains food. Curbside recycling is a great addition to Tulsa’s solid waste disposal program. Now it is up to us to make it succeed. Begin sign up for this new service. Just call the Mayor’s Action Center at 596-2100 and tell them that you wish to sign up for curbside recycling. It is scheduled to start on Nov. 1st. The cost is only $2/month; it will be added to your city utility bill. Recycled items will be collected twice a month on an every other week basis. Before the program begins, you will be informed about your curbside pickup days. You can also sign up by clicking on www cityoftulsa.org/recycle or www.tulsarecycles.com. Remember this program can succeed only if enough of us participate. So sign on now! Bob D. Rounsavell is a freelance Tulsa writer who specializes in environmental education. dollars did stay here in Oklahoma instead of adding to the profits of American Airlines, or United, or Marriott or Hilton? Let’s guess that many of those 50 attending spent about $500 to $1000 for their visit. A few who traveled as I did with my student group perhaps spent as little as $200300¯ One might argue that an average expenditure might be about $600 for a total of $30,000. But on the other hand, $30k would pay the current rent on the Community Center for almost two years ! Now that other TOHR ex-president argues that while many in our community are willing to spend that money on what is in essence an extra Queer vacation, he feels that few would be willing to mm around and invest that amount into our community if there’s no immediate gain for themselves. And sadly, I would like to argue with him but as a community organizer, I can’t - because I’ve seen that what he claims is mostly true. What if we did value our rights and invested in our communities as much as we did our fabulous vacations, great clothes, stylish homes and cars ? What coul d w e accompli sh then? After all, if w e don’t take care of ourselves, who is going to? "Straight" people? - Tom Neal PS: those of you who’ve already got this message, thanks! Keep up the good work and drag a friend along. Tom Neal, publisher & editor of Tulsa Family News, helped to found and direct the Coalition of Lesbian/Gay Student Groups and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, Dallas Chapter andhelped iofoundGLAAD National. He also served as co-chair of the University of Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Association, and helped to found the Rice University Gay Alumni group as well as serving on Tulsa’s Pride committee for several years. "...the moment of my epiphany was when we boarded the Metro (subway) at the gnd to the last stop that far out into the suburbs, and everyone waltln~, and everyone on the train but for perhaps one or two per ear, was Gay, or Lesl~ian, or Bi, or non-Gays whom we’d el rly we6om l into our tdl . " organization and raised the question of whether the event would need to be rescheduled or dropped. But another question to ask is this: is this the best use of our communities’ resources ? NGLTF has been arguing that we, as a movement, should be putting more of our energies into local and state efforts at change. This doesn’tmean abandoning federal level efforts but working harder locally. In Oklahoma, we’ve started to see some results from just such efforts; the Cimarron Alliance has substantially changed some legislative attitudes in the Oklahoma House. Funding for HIV/AIDS care andprevenfionhas benefited from lobbying by Tulsan Steve Eberle. These things would not have happened unless some Oklahomans decided to invest in local efforts. According to Kelly Kirby, former Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) president, longtime activist and current Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) board member, at least 40-50 Tulsans stopped by a reception Marty Newman gave at the last march. And likely there were some from the city who did not attend. So I have to ask, as another former TOHR president who begged for money for that organization and for the community center, what would happen if some of those On Nov. 9th, Tulsans will have the opportunity to vote on a $109 million bond package to invest in the needs of Tulsa Public Schools and the children of the district. The Citizens Bond Development Committee has identified more than $600 million in building, facilities, teaching materials and transportation needs for the District in a comprehensive, strategic plan that covers 20 years. The bond issue to be presented to voters on Nov. 9th will be m~ important step in adequately addressing the need of the District and in creating a District of unparalleled excellence in the state... - Sincerely, Ruth Ann Fate President, Tulsa Public Schools Board of Education Chair, Citizens for Better Education 2121 So, Columbia, Suite 103, Tulsa : ¯ ¯ ~ ¯ by Tom Neal, editor/publisher Some Gay readers will likely look at the excerpted letter above and respond: "yeah right, why should I care - I don’t have kids"and"TPS is a homophobic institution which doesn’t deserve my support." Some non-Gay ~ readers will likely read this and also wonder why Gay people should care about education issues. But the reality is that many Gay people (using the term broadly to include LGB and T folk) do have children, some by marriages to non-Gay folk before coming out, and some by adoption, and some creative Lesbians and Gay men are having our own children. Even those of us who do not have children directly of our own, like me, have no fewer than eight nephews and nieces about half of whom were educated in Tulsa Public Schools. And we have friends with children too. .My pointis that despite the an.ti-Gay stereotypes which paint Lesbians and Gay men as anti-family, we have a strong interest in providing a good educational system to the children of our community. We also have some selfinterest in that there tends to be a correlation between education and the lessening of anti-Gay prejudice. And if we insist that TPS, an educational system which we help fund, seek to teach the values of respect and tolerance for all citizens, to teach that the diversity of our city makes us stronger, then we, Gay and Lesbian citizens, regardless of whether we have children who directly benefit from TPS, will gain. Therefore, on Nov. 9th, please consider voting yes: do it for kids. �Friends Mourn Murdered Gay Pastor SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) - Calling him a "an ov ersized angel in human form," mourners and friendsof a slain pastor and Gay civil rights activist led tributes to him. The Rev. Edward R. Sherriff, 68, an associate pastor at the Cathedral of Promise Metropolitan Commtmity Church in Sacramento was found stabbed to death in his home Oct. 20 in what police believe was a robbery. More than 300 friends andfzraily crowded into the church where Sherriff served as co-pastor for 11 years. Later in the day, mourners filled the sidew~ilks to "celebrate the home~zoing" of the slain activist. A t~ndf-ul.of local religious leaders paid tribute to Sherriff, including Sister Catherine Connell, director of the Catholic Wellspring women’s center, and the Rev. Isaiah Muhammad of the Nation of Islam. Sherriff’s daughters were als0 among the crowds. "It’s amazing to me the people who love him, who truly love him," said Scharlene Sheriff. Sherriff’s other daughter Marsha Lanier said she does not believe her father’s murder was ahate crime. He likely died because he went out of his way to help, Lanier said. ’That’s one thing he would have been proud of," she said. Court to Reconsider Religious Bias Ruling challenges .by religious landlords. But if the federal appeals court sides with the landlords, property owners throughout the circuit could sidestep state court rulings and go into federal court for religious exemptions. The suit was filed by Kevin Thomas and Joyce Baker, who each own several rental properties in Anchorage and said they had consistently refused to rent to unmarried cohabitants because of their Christian beliefs. They have not been accused of violating the state or local laws but asked the court to bar" their enforcement. In the January ruling, Judge Diarmuid O’ Scannlain said the law not only placed an unconstitutional burden on landlords’ religious practices but also violated freedom of speech, by prohibiting owners from asking about a tenant’s marital status, States can impose such restrictions on businesses for compelling reasons, such as preventing discrimination based on race or sex, O’Scannlain said. But he said discrimination on the basis of marital status isn’t banned by the Constitution, federal law or the laws of many states, and no compelling interest has. been shown for its elimination. The case is Thomas vs. Anchorage Equal Rights Commission, 97-35220. 4021 S. Harvard, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 Methodists Attack Boy Scouts’ Anti-Gay Policy Sunday Services, 11 am tIACKENSACK, N.J. (AP) - The Boy Scouts of America could lose an important ally as it prepares to appeal a New Jersey Supreme Court ruling that the group could not remove a New Jersey man because he SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - The federal appeals court is Gay. that allowed religious landlords to deny rentals to The United Methodist Church, which sponsors unmarried couples agreed to reconsider recently at about 15% of the 3.3 million Scouts in the United the request of states, cities and civil rights groups. The States, has scolded the group and is threatening to halt 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals said an 11-judge its sponsorship if things don’t change. Although the panel will decide whether property owners with church "would like to enthusiastically affirm and religious objections to certain types of tenants are encourage this continuing partnership of the church entitled to exemptions from housing discrimination and Scouting, we cannot due to the Boy Scouts of laws. The case involves state and local laws in America s discnmanat~on agmnstGays; the Gener Anchorage prohibiting housing discrimination based Board of Church and Society said earlier this month. on marital status. The ruling would also al’fect The board is a top policy-making body of the discrimination based on sexual orientation, where Methodists. It also encouraged the Boy Scouts to stop barred by law, and possibly other categories covered the policy barring homosexuals. ’"We further, for the by laws in the nine states of the nation’s largest sake of our continmng partnership, call upon the Boy federal circuit. Scouts of America to discontinue this exclusion of A panel of the court ruled 2-1 in January that Gays," the board concluded in the Oct. 10 statement. enforcement of the discriminationlaws would violate The Methodists earlier had said the church wanted to the rdigious freedom of two Anchorage landlords triple the number of Scouts it sponsors. who had religious objections to providing homes for But the Boy Scouts say the threat won’t dissuade unmarried couples. With no compelling state interest them from appealing to the U.S. Supreme Court. Greg at Stake, the landlords could not be forced to choose Shields, a spokesman for the Boy Scouts, said the between their businesses and their religious beliefs, organization hopes the case will be heard before next the court majority said. The court said a majority of its year’s summer recess. Shields also said he believes 21 active judges had voted to set the January decision the Boy Scouts’ longtime relationship with the aside and order a new hearing before the 11-judge Methodists will endure. "We feel like we have a panel, at a date not yet scheduled. ¯ Requests by Alaska and Anchorage for a reheating ¯ strong base of support within the congregations," were supported by national civil liberties and Gay ¯ Shields told The Record of Hackensack. The appeal plan follows aunanimous August ruling civil-rights orgamzations, cities including Los_Angeles by the state Supreme Court that says the policy of : and San Francisco, and the states of California, keeping out homosex~mls violates the state’s antiNevada, Washington, Oregon, Montana and Hawaii. " California Attorney General Bill Lockyer, who ¯ discrimination law. The court said the Boy Scouts organization constitutes a "place of public enlisted his counterparts in the other states, said accommodation" because it has a broad-based discrimination laws would be affected in every state. "q’here’s no inherent conflict between state anti- ¯ membership and forms partnerships with public entities such as police and fire departments. discrimination law s and the private religious view s of James Dale, 29, of Matawan in Momnouth County, a landlord," he said. "Fhe issue is whether they can ¯ discriminate in their commercial and business ¯ was an assistant scoutmaster whe was kicked out of the Boy Scouts nine years ago whenleaders found out activities." ¯ Kevin G. Clarkson, lawyer for the Anchorage ¯ he is Gay. He sued., seeking reinstatement. Dale earned 30 merit badges, seven achievement honors landlords, said he wasn’t surprised by the rehearing, ¯ but argued that his clients’ ’interests were more ¯ and other awards, and became an Eagle Scout during important than those of the state or would-be tenants. ¯ his 12 years in the organization. He was expelled by theMoumouthCouncilin 1990 after the group leamed ’%Vhat’s at stake is the First Amendment right of from a newspaper article that he was Gay. The Irving, property owners to manage their property consistent ¯ with their religious beliefs," Clarkson said. He said ¯ Texas-based organization has said if forced to accept there was no evidence that unmarried couples in any ¯ Gays, the organization would not be able to build moral character in boys. state have had trouble finding housing because of the The New Jersey ruling contrasted with a March religious objections of a small number of landlords. ¯ Conservative religious organizations such as Focus ¯ 1998 decision by the California Supreme Court inthe Boy Scouts’ favor. In that ruling, alsounammous, the on the Family and the American Center for Law and ¯ said the organization was not abusiness and was Justice, as well as the more liberal National Council : court therefore free to exclude Gays, as well as atheists and of Churches, have filed arguments supporting the ¯ agnostics. The U.S. Supreme Court refused to hear an landlords. 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Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You also scattered downtown and placed on cars. Boeing ExtendsBenefits ¯¯ were City and police officials said they are taking the ¯ very seriously because they appear to be part to Same-Sex Partners ¯ threats of an organized effort. In response, the police assigned SEATTLE (AP) - The Boeing Co., citing the need to ¯ extra officers downtown. "In this day and age, this maintain a quality work force and the benefits of ’- should not be. We’re not going to tolerate it," Cianci diversity, plans-to extend health-care benefits next ~ told The Providence Journal. year to same-sex domestic partners of salaried non- ¯ W. Fitzgerald Himmelsbach, the city’s liaison to umon employees. The decision, announced to the Gay and Lesbian community, also received a company managers by electronic mail, was praised " death threat over the telephone. He received a call at by Gay civil rights advocatesl It was criticized by business from aman who said, "Die, you fagg.ot . union leaders, however, for leaving out their members ¯~ his All the letters said ’~omosexuality is a sin against ¯ and nnmarried heterosexual partners. Company humankind and God," and all were signed "The officials did not say how many employees would be ¯ Trench Coat Mafia" - the name used by a group of affected. Roughly half of Boeing’ s 202,000 employees "- students at Columbine High School, in I.ittleton, ¯ worldwide are salaried and non-union. Colo., that .included the two gnmmen who killed 13 A recent Forbes Magazine survey indicated ¯ people there last spring. unmarried partners are covered by health benefits in Himmelsbach saidletters received by the two assault 10% of the businesses with at least 200 employees. ". victims threatened that they would"end up in hell like Companies that provide same-sex-partner benefits [ Matthew Shepard," the Wyoming college student include Lotus Development Corp., Microsoft Corp., ¯ who was beaten to deathlast fall because he was Gay. IBM, Walt Disney Co., U S West, Honeywell and ¯ The letters were sent to Ed Webb, 34, and Noah Xerox. ] Schwartz, 41, both of Providence. On Sept. 19 in In the e-mail, James B. Dagnon, Boeing’s senior : downtown Providence, the men said about 20 collegevice president for personnel, said the move was made " aged men yelled "faggots" and then five of the men for two reasons: ’~First to attract and retain talented ¯ beat them up. employees, and second to walk the talk on diversity. ¯ Both Himmelsbaeh, who has been the liaison for "Diversity, with a capital D, means acknowledging ~ two years,and Cianci saidreceiving threats is nothing employees have different backgrounds, preferences ¯ new but both are worried that this is part of an and interests." ~ organized effort. ’~Eianci vowed to fred the "cowards" A task force of personnd managers and minority .. who are the perpetrators and then prosecute them for employees w.as formed to study the is sue last year, bu.t . hate crimes. Police do not have any suspects yet. consii~eration of an initial proposal was stalled until the company’s financial performance improved in recent months, Boeing spokesman Peter Conte said. The decision is long overdue, said Charles Fay, chairman of Hands-Off Washington in Snohomish County and Dennis Rybicki, a spokesman for the ¯ DENVER (AP) - City Council members are SnohomishCounty Elections Committee., which,r~an~__. s : considering a proposal that would create a registry to political candidates on Gay and Lesbian xssues, q’his ~ record the relationships of Gay and Lesbian partners should send a signal to other employers, large and and other committed but unmarried couples. The small, that it’s good business to recognize the value of ¯ proposal, heard by the city council, would allow Denverites to officially record their partnerships to all families," Fay said. ¯ Charles Bofferding, executive director of the Society qualify for insurance benefits some companies offer ¯ to the "domestic partners" of their workers. And, for of ProfesSional Engineering Employees in A.erospa.~, said the move seemed to be designed to sabotage ,his ¯ same-sex couples, it would allow their unions to be group’s contract-negotiations, which begin soon. : acknowledg?,.d,, if only nominally, by local S PF.EA, formerly the Seattle Professional Engineering " government. It sfinallytimeforthecitytorecognize Employees Association, is the second-largest imion ." committed relationships," said Councilman Ed at Boeing, representing 23,000 scientists, engineers, ¯¯ Thomas, who, along with Councilwoman Cathy manual writers and technical workers. SPEEA Reynolds, has been planning such a registry for several negotiators will seek the benefit but don’t want to ¯ years. . sacrifice other potential contract gains to obtain it, ¯ To qualify, both members of a couple would have Bofferding said. ’This attitude, that management ¯¯ to be unmarried, 18 years or older and sharing the knows best and employees will take whatever is same household with a partner who is not a blood ¯ dished, out, this is outrageous ,"he said. "Is the Boeing relative. A filing fee at the city’s clerk and recorder’s Co. going to discriminate against heterosexuals now?" ¯¯ office is expected to be about $20. Couples would be Conte said health-care benefits will not be offered ¯ required to notify that office if their relationships tO unmarried heterosexual partners because they can dissolve. The plan had tentative approval by most get married, an option from which same-sex parmers members of the city s Safety and Personnel Commatt ¯ except council member Ted Hackworth, who said it are barred by law. Tim Flynn, a spokesman for the International ¯ "doesn’t make sense." ¯ Itis slated for further discussionby council members Association of Machinists and Aerospace Workers, ¯ which r~ep~resents hourly producuon workers and is in the coming weeks. Advocates hope to have the Boeings largest union, said Machinist leaders may registry in place by Valentin~ s Day. If approved, discuss same-sex benefits before expiration of the ¯ filing with the registry wouldn t constitute a marriage three-year contract that was ratified in September. or common-law marriage, nor would it affect Annetta Small, director of the West Coast office of ¯ inheritance rights. Kerusso Ministries, which seeks to persuade Gays ¯¯ Still, advocates say it wouldprovide documentation and Lesbians to become heterosexual through for couples seeking benefits from United Airlines, Chrsfianity, said she opposes any extension of benefits ¯ Coors, Denver city government and other employers to non-married partners. "We are giving benefits to a ¯ who insure domestic partners of workers. Proponents behavior that I believe is wrong and that I believe is ¯ also hope it would help advance rights whenit comes immoral," she said. "I don’t believe that we should ¯ to visiting partners in the hospital or making medical extend these benefits to people who are not married." ¯ decisions on their behalf. Theregistry would similarly ¯ benefit senior couples who choose not to marry because ¯ they would lose Social Security or other benefits. ~ Boulder has a similar registry program, as do the state ¯ of California and 35 cities in 25 states nationwide. : Denver Considers : Couples Registry Hate Letters Sent to Rhode Island Politicos PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - Threatening letters with anti-Gay sentiments have been sent to the Providence mayor, the city’s liaison to the Gay community and two men who were recently assaulted in a Gaybashing attack. One letter, which Mayor Vincent A. Cianci Jr. received, described Providence as a ’Tag lovin’ city". Leaflets that said "Fake Action Against Queer’s, ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ Irish Jury Convicts Writer’s Assailants PHILADELPHIA (AP)- A jury in Irdand convicted two men in the near-fatal beating of a well-known Philadelphia writer of Gay-themed books who was see News, p. 13 overseas researching a novel �Magic Johnson Plays in Sweden ¯ new clinics since 1994, traditional state ¯ hospitalshavefilledupwithAIDS patients ¯ who occupy up to 60% of the beds, South : BORAS, Sweden (AP) - Magic Johnson ¯ African Health Minister Manto Tshabalala-Msimang said recently. entertained a sellout crowd Tuesday night ¯ ’’We expected the demand for hospital with some of the trademark skills he used to help the Los Angeles Lakers win five ¯ caretodrop,"shesaidatanews conference ; at theheadquarters of theAfrican National NBA rifles. ¯ Congress. "But the HIV and AIDS The 40-year-old star, 10 years older than the second oldest player on the court, ¯ epidemic has increased the burden." The had 14 points and 11 rebounds as Magic ¯¯ briefing was one of a series by the ANC on M7 beat Sallen 84-60 in.the Swedish ¯ its progress in ruling the country. Tshabalala-Msimang chairs the party’s basketball league. ¯ health committee. "The first half was a little tough, but the Some 3.6 million South Africans are second w as easier.," Johnson told the 3,319 -" ¯ infected with AIDS, roughly one in eight spectators after,the game, his first nonexlfihition contest since leaving the NBA ." adults, and the government says 1,500 ¯ new :infections occur every day in one of for good in 1996. Johnson missed some easy layup ." the world’s fastest rates of infection. A attempts. "That’s easy when the ¯ narionalAIDS councilwillbefunctioning atmosphere was as charged and the : by year’s end, Tshabalala-Msimang said. euphoria as high as it was tonight," he ¯ ’’We should have had the council in place said. After a standing ovation before the : already," she said. Controversial proposals, such treating game, Johnson drew further cheers when : he promised to return to play more games : pregnant women with HIV with a drug ¯ therapy to prevent transmission of the for Magic MT. ¯ MT, which missed the playoffs last ¯ virus to infants, will be discussed next season, is 7-0 this season,.with Johnson’s ¯ month at a meeting of regional health ministers, she said. The government so far appearance generating great interest in : has rejected the proposal as too expensive the sport in Boras, a city of 110,000 in : and possibly even dangerous in terms of western Sweden. ¯ long-term side effects. Johnson, who led Michigan State to the The health ministers from the Southern 1979 U.S. National Collegiate Athletic ¯¯ African Development Community will Association rifle, learned he had tested ¯ positive for the HIV virus that can cause ¯ also discuss blood safety and development of an HIV vaccine. AIDS in 1991. He retired for the first rime just before the start of the 1991-92 season. After returning to play on the U.S. Dream Team that won the gold medal in the 1992 Olympics, he made a brief comeback before the !992-93 season, but KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) -The quit again after several players expressed AIDS epidemic in Asia could erase the concerns about playing against him. region’s economic gains over the last two In January 1996, he returned to the decades unless governments maintain Lakers and played the remaining half of funding for social programs, a World B ank the season, retiring again, at age 37, after expert warned late last month. the Lakers were eliminated from the In Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia, playoffs. Myanmar, Malaysia, Vietnam and Southern China, AIDS had gained a "strong foothold," even before the economic crisis struckin 1997, saidMartha Ainsworth, a senior World Bank economist. HOLLYWOOD, Fla. (AP) - Greg The dreaded virus "threatens to slowly Louganis has picked up a new habit. The unravel the progress in improving the Olympxc gold medal-winning diver is human condition.and to diminate if not starring in the musical comedy, ’~lunsense reverse the benefits of the economic A-Men," which runs through Dec. 5 at the miracle,’’ Ainsworth told the 5th Hollywood Playhouse. International Congress on AIDS in Asia Lougams, who won four gold medals in and the Pacific. two Olympics and later disclosed he was The region’s two-year economic crisis Gayand HIV-positive, will pull on a habit may have further hurt Asia’s fight against six rimes a week for his role as Sister AIDS, said Ainsworth. Cash-strapped Robert Ann, a streetwise nun who always governments were forced to slash budgets wanted to be a star. All the nuns in this and lower wages. The crisis also pushed production are men. thousands of families into poverty and The former diver, author and many women into prostitution. motivational speaker says he likes working "’Even before the crisis, political in an ensemble cast. "There’s always commitment to AIDS prevention in the someone there to hold your hand," said region was weak," said Ainsworth. "Many I_ouganis, 39. "It feels more supportive, I policy makers are still in denial." guess.’" Development policies before the crisis Thou.gh Louganis now has AIDS, he channeled funds into education and health looks and feels healthy. He says he does not think about being a role model. "We’ re ¯ care budgets, resulting in higher life expectancies and reduced poverty: all haman. We all make mistakes," he "The full impact of the crisis on HIV ¯ said "Role model, in my mind, is perfection and one can’t be that. I try to : depends critically on how well encourage young people to be their own ~ governments and households succeeded ¯ .in maintaining socialsafety nets," said heroes and their own role models." : AJnsworth, an expert on the effect of ¯ AIDS on households. Ainsworth said : AIDS hadalready subtracted several years ¯ JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - ¯ offtheaveragelifeexpectancies of certain countries. After the end of apartheid, South Africa A U.N report released at the four-day pushed to get patients out of overcroWded hospitals and into preventive care clinics. ¯¯ conference esrimates that by 2010, the overall death rate will be 20% higher in But as fast as the country has built 700 : Louganis in Nun-Drag? AIDS Threatens Asia’s Prosperity OECE~% WorldAIDS Day 1999 Candlelight March & Memorial Service sponsored by Interfaith AIDS Ministries Wednesday, December 1st End the Silence Mount Zion Baptist Church 419 North Elgin (next to OSU-Tulsa) Gather 6:30 at St. Monica’s, Marshall Place at Greenwood (just south of Pine), March at 7pm, Service at 7:30, all times approximate! Bring banners & bells; candles provided. Info: 438-2437. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American~.~ Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Men s ¯ Support Group ~s here for you! ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Evening support group meetings Relationship workshops Short trips, outings and retreats Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native.American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext, 208 or 218 Dial-Up Accounts Dedicated ISDN Connections Virtual Hosting AIDS & So. Africa Visit our web page "www.igisweb.net" (918) 622-4965 Internet Marketing E-Commerce Web Page Design On-Site Setup Available �Oklahoma NARAL cordially invites you to a chocOlate and champagne fete in support of abortion and reproductive rights in Oklahoma. Celebrating 26 Yedrs.of Choice Sunday, November 7, 1999, 1:30 - 3:30 p.m. to be held at Resonance 1608 S. Elwood, Tulsa, Oklahoma Champagne, Coffee, Chocolates $25 per individual Please R.S.V.P. to the NARAL Office: 494-9585 Stay Healthy Naturally Wellness Rejuvenation Longevity Dr. Terrance L. Sullivan Doctor of Naturopathy Certified Colonic Hygenist Certified Reflexologist Certified Herbalist Certified Accupres suri st provides consultations by appointment Iridology- Hair Analysis - Herbal Supplements Pain Control - Nutritional Analysis 4520 So. Peoria, Brookside, 712-1400 L Myanmar due to AIDS fatalities. In " at least 10 days to complete. And that’s Cambodia and Thailand, it may rise 15% : only if the expected 80 participants keep because of AIDS. The United Nations up a good pace. The snow layers the trail estimates that 7 million people in Asia are ¯ in multiple feet, not mere inches. infected with the HIV virus or AIDS. ¯" Temperatures dip deep into thenegatives, Speakers at the conference, which ends numbing hands and lungs. At night; Wednesday, have urged Asia to act fast to ¯ Sections of the woods-darkened course curb the epidemic or risk the devastation ." are lit only by the aurora borealis, which now faced by Africa, which has 21 million ¯ crackle and cast shadows in the trees and AIDS-related cases. : snow. Switchbacks get so steep in some Experts are particularly concemedabout ¯ areasthatdrivers can’tseetheleadoftheir the effects of AIDS on Indonesia, the ¯¯ 16-dogpack.A driver unlucky enough to world’s fourth largest country, where the fall off gets left in a cloud of snow and regional economic crisis was compounded ¯ regret. ’q~here ain’t no waitin’ in this by political upheaval. It diverted attention ." race," said Raymond "Raymie" and funding from the AIDS epidemic, ¯ Redington, King’s sled-dog trainer. ’q’he Aiusworth said. ’~olitical turmoil no doubt ¯" huskies are bred to go. They’ll bolt off the increased risky behavior for the spread of ." starting line even if you say halt." HIV," Ainsworth said. ." Redington should know. The 54-yearShe said countries such as Thailand . old Alaska native’s father founded the one of the high-risk areas in Asia, had ¯ racein 1973. He has been in 111ditarods; proved that maintaining commitment to : his highest placing was seventh. Since AIDS -prevention programs paid : September, Redington has trained King dividends. HIV cases dropped among ¯ on a four-wheeler that simulates a sledprostitutes, men with sexually-transmitted : dog team. King will work with the dogs as diseases and blood donors in Thailand ¯ the snow starts to fall. ¯ despite the economic crisis, she said. King began training last year, gaining ¯ "Many governments in this region have about 100 miles of mushing experience. ¯ Oddly, being a native Arizonan could a window of opportunity to act early and prevent an epidemic," Ainsworth said. give him a boost: King was trained as a bo.y to handle a mule drawn wagon, which ¯ ~mrrors mushing techniques, Redington ¯ said. King will have to be up to speed by : Jan. 1, whenthelditarod’sfirstqualifying race, the Knik 200, takes place. The 2nd JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - ~ qualifier is a week later. Seeking to help young children deal with Only after the 500 miles of racing will a soanng number of sexual assaults, ¯ Redington know whether King is ready national heal th and education officials are :’ for the Iditarod. "I don’t know how he’s considering an education program for " ¯ going to do when it gets real freezing," primary students to teach about rape and ¯ said Redington, who remembers the 38HIV infections, a newspaper reported below zero wind chill he endured in the Sunday. ¯ A pilot program was tested in the ¯ 1974Iditarod. "Buthelooks healthy now . "" That hasn’t always been the case for Nor~ern and F~ee State provinces, where ¯ King. Six years ago, the 6-foot man had about 700 children received the lessons, ¯ the Sunday Times of Johannesburg ¯ wastedto 118pounds. Doctors gav,e King, a former respiratory physician, 90 days to reported. About 14,000 children are live after diagnosing him with multidrug sexually violated every year, police reports say, but a large number of rapes go ¯ resistant tuberculosis. At one point, his Tcell count, a measure of the body’s unreported, anti-rape activists say. ¯ resistance to disease, bottomed out at 40; About 8% of the adult population is HIV positive. One factor that experts ~ a virus-free, healthy person’s T-cell coun! usually reaches 1,000. belie,ve has contributed to child rape is the King had one wish: to see Alaska before persxstent myth that sex with a virgin can ¯ he died. Two years ago he took a cruise cure the disease. ." there, and he caught another bug. This Abraham Seckle, an Education time, it was mushing. "That’s all he could Department official, was quoted as saying the program would "empower learners to ¯ talk about," said his father, Dick King. protect themselves." A consultant- ¯ "He was suicidal, depressed at times. BUt this brought him out." involved in the project, Darleen Edwards, Science lent a hand, too. Strong antisaid that children are taught to "run, yell viral drugs called protease inhibitors and tell" in the program. ¯ became available. King was soon on a ¯ five-drug ’.’cocktail"prescribed to him by Children at Risk in South Africa PLWA to Race in Iditarod Next Year Scottsdale’s Dr. Thanes Vanig. He began ¯ popping about 26 pills a day. He said he ¯ has to smoke marijuana to beat down the MESA, Ariz. (AP)- The first Arizonan to ¯ nausea caused by themedieation. He also enter Alaska’s most grueling sled dog ,- has to take percocet, and even morphine, race faces two major obstacles before he ¯ to numb the neurological pain to his lower ¯ legs that was caused by the tuberculosis even steps to the starting line. Chuck ¯ and AIDS drugs. His T-cell count has Kin.g, 39, of Tempe, has no experience racang. He has only 100 miles actually ¯ jumped to 560, the lower side of normal. riding a dog sled. And King is. HIV ¯ He’s also gained 44 pounds, thanks in positive. Every day, he takes fisffuls of ¯ large part to injections of human growth anti-viral pills just to stay alive. : hormone, a $4,000-a-month drug that he But he doesn’t see this as a setback. He ; said was donated by a pharmaceutical views his illness and the March 4 Iditarod ¯ company. sled-dog race as a chance to prove that ¯ When King recently returned to Alaska, people with AIDS don’t have to ¯ his spirits were high, His po~c,k,etbook is concentrate on survival alone. "In the last ¯ - the opposite. King is feveris!!) lining up seven years, I was supposed to have died ¯ sponsors, such as Tempe Mayor Neil three times and I made it through all of ¯ Giuliano, to make it through the race and that," King said in a telephone interview ¯ bring AIDS awareness to a new level, ¯ "It’s not just for people with AIDS," he from Wasilla, Alaska. ¯ The Iditarod this year will stretch 1,152 s.aid. ’q~hemessageis for everyone: Don’t miles from Wasilla to Nome, taking racers ¯ g~ve up. Don’t ever give up." �because in Native cultures, song and dance by James Christjohn are usually linked. You can’t have one Upon viewing the PBS production of without the other. They both contribute to "Spirit: A Journey in Dance, Drum, and the telling of the story. And the projections Song" on PBS, I contacted Peter Buffett, help bring the natural (or unnatural.., or the composer and creator. Upon learning supernatural) worldinto the theatre. That’s that there would be a National Tour with the "art" reason. a stop in Tulsa at the Brady "A hundred years ago The "commerce" reaTheatre on January 3, sonis that I knew my show 2000; I had the opportunity people sang would be competing with to ask afew questions. You the Ghost Dance larger and larger events. can get the video of the songs in the hopes Not only theatrical, but production that originally lmax movies, huge budget aired on PBS, as well as that the world would movies and all sorts of the CD at areamusic/video return to the way entertainment that tugs at stores. It’s powerful in the consumer. I wanted to those mediums (reviewed it once was, try and create something previously), and one can Now, the choir in that people could honestly only imagine the impact of say they hadn’ t seen before some of the Spirit the piece live. (no small feat). So this was JC: Hello, Peter! songs are singing those my attempt.. PB: Hello! Well... very same words in JC: Well,judgingfrom finally I’m answering your the response at the taping questions. I was frantically hopes that the world from the audience, and the finishing a record for a can become incredible response I’ve friend. It had to be done by seen to the video, l’d say what it could be. "" yesterday (which it was) you achieved your goal. so I can go to New York - Peter Buffett PB: It’s important to today to start all the note that I’m not in the "bigger is better" mechanics it’s going to take to get the "Spirit" showon the road by the Fall. At : camp (as it may sound) but people want and deserve their money’s worth. And it’s some point, you’ 11 hav e to get the’’making getting harder to "outdo" the last thing ~n of" part of the video. I think you’ll really enjoy it. "(Note: The "Making of..." is [ terms ofp0werful soundandimagery. My included on the retail vide~’Of the show.) [ hope is that the message of the show has as much effect on people as anything else. JC: It’s such an amazing piece that works on so many diffdrent levels, l was JC: I can only speak from my own wondering what inspired the idea to bring ¯. experience, and that of listening to others together the different elements - dance. ¯ who have seen the video, to say that it was very powerful in that regard, and song, etc. - to create the show? PB: I wanted to bring all the elements ¯ communicated its message wonderfully. see Buffett, p. 14 together for two main reasons. One, by That Entertainment Guy Livin La Vida Loca Tour, the Divine king, Ricky Martin appears in Dallas al Reunion Arena, Dallas, Thursday, Nov 4, 1999, at 8:00PM. Now this would be the concert to take binocnlars to - and the telephoto mini-camera. Ticket prices for the Prince of Pop: $35.00- $75.00 ChargeBy-Phone #: 214-373-8000. The Divine Queen of All Things is also performing in Dallas in November. No, not S tevie, although she is the other Queen of All T’nings Divine; but the Divine Ms. Millennium Tour: Bette Midler in Concert, A Beaver Production takes place Sunday, Nov128,1999 at 8:00prn at ReunionArena. As she said in one early concert tour, ’qTais ain’t no cheap meat you’re lookin’ at!": Ticket prices run $50.50 - $150.50, Charge-By-Phone at 214-373-8000. Peter Buffett’s "Spirit - A Journey in Dance, Drums and Song" is a music, dance and percussion spectacle that combines the power of contemporary music with the songs, chants and dances of Native American culture. The release of the CD coincides with the PBS Broadcast of the live show of Spirit, which features over 80 performers - including twenty dancers with both modem and traditional training, an orchestra with both modem and ancient tribal instruments, a flits choir and percussionists pounding out heart-stopping rhythms on a variety of drums. The show runs in Tulsa, January 4-9, at the Brady Theatre; and if you miss that, then you can catch "Spirit" in Dallas, March 7-12 at the Majestic Theatre. You really didn’t think I’d let you get away without the obligatory mention of Stevie Nicks herself, did you? Yes, La Diva nicks is performing three shows: Two in California’s HOuse of Biues in December, and one in Las Vegas HOB on New Year’s eve. Tickets went for an outrageous $127 (balcony seating) and $227 (Orchestra - STANDING!). There only a few floor spaces left for the New Year’s show.. All others sold out. Believe it or not. Anyone wishing to contribute to the "Send the obsessed reviewer to see S tevie and not come back fund" can send contributions to TFN. Just make sure my name’s in big letters on the envelope, or I’ll never see the money. It’ll end up in the "buy the publisher new household gimmicks" fund. The Divine Ms. Nick’s new album should be out the 1st of the year, if not sooner. And hopefully, with a more affordable tour. Apparently the cost of chiffon has risen - a lot. Fight Clubis.amovie that under ordinary circumstances, I would have never gone to see. However, I was not under ordinary circumstances, and was swept along to see it. I thought I’d hate it. After seeing it, I think everyone should see it. The acting is dynamic, the pace is breathless, and the intellect behind it is tremendous. The violence is not that bad, one scene aside, and the points the movie makes are well worth the viewing. The humor is well done, and the homoeroticism between Ed Norton and Brad Pitt makes it worthwhile. see Fight, p. 15 Is proud to present gie Hall veteran soprano, Floxane La Combe. nature "COMC Sound" has attracted sold out audiences. Order your tickets in advance. November 19 & 20 couNciL JOHN WILLIAMS THEATRE TULSA PERFORMING ARTS CENTER Call 596-7111 for tickets www.counciloak.org ~’~#Made possible in part oy a grant from the Tulsa Pedorming Arts Center Trust. .Parade of Ligh! s. Come celebrate the spirit of the holiday season at the PSO Christmas Parade of Lights. Saturday, December 11, Downtown Tulsa at 6 p.m. View parade floats up close, Friday, December 10, at the HolidayFest (Brady Arts Distriot) fl om 6-9 p.m. Pubfic Service Company of Oklahoma A Central and South West Company �I B B (I T Z ~ SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center "emotionally and visually rich ..." -Performing Arts Review, Taiwan Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pro, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 "unforgettable scenes of disparate beauty" -Davar Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 1 lain, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) "intense in feeling ... deep in intellectual content" -The Plain Dealer Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 1 lam, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United "bold, flLnging athleticism" -The Kansas City Star Service, 1 lain, 1623 North Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood November 16 at 8 p.m. Presenting Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangdical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1 lam, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center 3rd & Cincinnati Unity Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. 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Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for thnes, info: 748-3888. ~ TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call, for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 Live And Let Live, Community of Hope U~fited Methodist, 7:30pm, 2545 S. Yale Multicultural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. "You don’t have to know ballet to love ballet. You just have to try it." -- MARCELLO ANGELINI ART ST C D RECTOR Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E 38th, info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 :Mixed Repertory includes two Oklahoma premieres House of the Holy Spirit Ministries,. Inc. Service - Vpm, 3210b So. 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Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 If your organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 or fax 583-4615. �reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library What happens when a"radical Lesbian" goes undercover to infiltrate the organizations of the religious : : ¯ " substanceabuse and, now, a sympathetic wife with a decidedly un-Christian like penchant for screaming and yelling. The author’s interaction with this member of Focus on the Family is most "The a.thor’s insightful. She also meets with right? She writes a book, of several high level executives course! Fortunately, this isn’t interaetion with in the organization whose "jnsta another Christian bashing this member of arguments that they are not book, as Minkowitz is able to homophobic are astounding in see past her obvious Focus on the disagreements with these their hypocrisy. Family is most After these encounters with groups and find some real, the religious right, the author human common ground. Life ;nsi~htful. She inexplicably dives into an is full of gray area, as this book also meets with account of the International S/ shows. Ferocious Romance is a several high level M Leather Fetish Celebration that she attended in New York humorous but serious look into exeeutlves in the City to-celebrate the twentyreligious fight organizations, fifth anniversary of the such as Promise Keepers and or~anlzatlon Stonewall Riots. We really Focus on the Family. whose arguments learn more than we ever Minkowitz dons a fake monstachc and lowers her t~t they are not wanted to know about her involvement in S/M. This voice to attend a Promise homophone are topic surfaces occasionally Keepers weekend that really throughout the book and her opens her eyes. In addition to astoundln~ in comparison of conservative experiencing the fully their h~oe~sy." Christians and S/M expected propaganda of men practitioners is humorously itaking charge of the familyi and making women submissive, she al~o ¯¯ enlightening. As the 2000 elections approach, the witnesses burly men crying, hugging each other and expressing words of forgiveness. : religions right will undoubtedly take center She enjoys discussing this absurdity of .. stage to promote their candidates and the feminization of the Christian Men’s , agenda. It is in everyone’s best interest to : understand what these groups have in movement~ Her discussions with James Dobson’s ¯¯ store for the country, should their candidates be elected. This book gives a Focus on the Family are of more concern. She has long conversations with a cute : bit ofinsightinto what’ s going onin these voung man named Bobby, who is an ¯ organizations. Check out Ferocious Romance at your local branch library or ~tthappy "ex-Gay." It becomes evident ¯ call the Reader’s Services department at that Bobby’ s life is in a shambles due to the cumulative effects of childhood abuse, : Central library, at 596-7966. Members of each group were paired ¯ " together at the tables and encouraged to ¯ get to know each other. Before the meeting, : the groups agreed to disagree on whether : Gays can be Christians and to focus on ¯ ways to deter violence against Gays and : Christians, Falwell cited the September ." shootings at a Texas church and recent ¯ ¯ school shootings in which Christians were ¯ targeted. ¯ At a news conference following the meeting, Falwell and White apologized to : each other for harsh words they have said ¯" about the other’s groups over the years. ¯ "I’ve been a preacher for 47 years, a ¯ preacher of the gospel.., but in the end homosexuality is. wrong," Falwell said. ¯¯ ’’It is my hope that evangelicals might build a bridge of friendship -to Gays and : Lesbians as we have to alcoholics and : ¯ unwed mothers." ¯ White, an author and minister with the Metropolitan Community Churches, was : the ghost writerofFalwell’s autobiography ¯¯ before White acknowledged being Gay. Delegates from both groups thought the : ." meeting was good. The same weekend, many of Mel ¯ White’s groups listened to Falwell’s : Sunday sermon. Falwell, 66, began the : ¯ service by welcoming White andhis guests and briefing his congregation on the anti- ¯ violence forum conducted at the church : ¯ the day before. A t that meeting, both si des ¯ apologized for harsh words said over the years and discussed ways to reduce ¯¯ vio~lence against homosexualS. ’His sermon was amazang, said David Chandler, 36, a Gay man from San Francisco and one of the more than 4,000 worshippers who jammed into Thomas Roads BaptistChurch. "Hesentamessage to parents to love their children no matter what .... I admire and respect Falwell for taking that stand." In his sermon, Falwell stressed that he will hot change his belief that homosexuality is a sin. But he added, "That has nothing to do with the love factor involved. We are to be lovers of all men and women." Falwell’ s sermon came from Proverbs 13, which offers advice on successful living in the eyes of God. He spoke on the importance of working hard, living with integrity and not focusing on material things. He also talked at length about the importance of parents loving their children unconditionally. "For him to invite these fags here and into his church is an abomination,"Phelps said outside the church. "Now, Jerry Falwell is just as much a sinner as Mel White and both will bum in hell." The service ended with the congregation, singing the hymn "Only Trust Him. Falwell interrupted the song to reiterate to worshippers that what he or anyone else thought of them did not matter, but what was important is their relationship with God. White said it was "a shame" that protesters like Phelps brought hostility to aplace of worship. "What we have hereis a great moment for our country, Gays and Falwell worshipping together," White said. "It’s a small start, but it’s a start." The Gift of Pride In Honor of... Or In Memory of... Someone Special to You. 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More info. after Dec. 1st. 743-4297 ¯ reduced chance of injury. Heater by Mary Schepers, Do-It- Yourself-Dyke Hey, baby, it’ s cold outside. And before ¯¯ malfunctions can result in explosions or fires, and sweeties, we have worked so you start heating it up in front of the fireplace, take some precautions. Not just ¯¯ hard to make your house into a fabulous home.- It’s worth your peace of mind and the ustml ones, ducklings! The house needs personal safety. If you some love and attention, have a fireplace, 6all a too. And by attending to a "This is a good tlme of licensed sweep to clean few simple details, not year for a lube job, or the chimney and to inspect only will your house o’ and repair the firebox and perhaps several. No, love be snug, but safer, flue: Your DIYD prefers too. You know what a we’re not back in front to do this in the spring, raving bitch your DIYD when scheduling is less is about safety, but she of the fireplace with hectic for the sweep, and does it out of a place of Baby just yet then the fireplace is ready love. Which place, she togo as soonas inspiration demurs to answer.. patience, and a little cool weather The first order of hits. This should be an business is to keep the my impetuous darlings! annual event for masonry winter winds and drafts Borrow Dorothy’s oll fireplaces, and every two outdoors where they years if you have a metal can and put a drop on belong. In the oftrepeated flue. words of the Oracle, ’We If you’re the intrepid don’t have a heating door hinges and garage sort who doesn’t mind contract with the great door ehaln drives to scampering out on the outdoors,’ although you keep things smoothly roof like a rabid squirrel, may feel that way when a good extension you get the first heating operating and silent in get ladder and do some bill for the winter. And maintenance and cleaning the wlnter, when the the side benefit is that if on the roof..Be sure that you can keep the house metal contracts and the ladder has firm, steady warm, you won’t have to footing and is not placed bundle up, and neither squeaks. You know near any power lines. Get will your schnookie, your DIYD eonslders " a hose with a power unless,of course, you fred the layers of sweats and the aesthetles as well as nozzle or a blower and blast those gutters clean, sweaters an erotic the practleal matters." especially at the challenge. From thereon, downspouts. Clean any you’re on your own! Try to take care of your outside heat ; leaves, sticks or debris offthe valleys and sinks (places you lose heat) before the ¯¯ gables of the roof, and look for any loose shingles. Use an appropriate kind of roof weather dips to 45 degrees during the day. ¯ goo or caulking to repair, and use this also Most ofthematerials you will useperform better when it’s warm - that’s a life ¯¯ around any flue flashings that might benefit from some extra sealant. This is a good philosophy worth adopting! Check around ¯ time to evaluate if you will need to repair windows and doors for loose or cracked caulking and replace where needed. ¯ or replace your roof in the spring. Be Around pipes or conduits that enter the : careful up there, and never crawl around ¯ on the roof without having someone at house, use an expanding foam product ¯ home in case you need help or get hurt. like Good Stuff or better yet, Daptex, Make sure she or he is not glued to a ball which can be tooled, painted and cleaned ¯ game or otherwise out of contact. At a up with water, It costs a little more but is worth it. Use this also to seal any gaps ¯¯ time like that, you deserve the extra attention, pookie! between your foundation and the siding of This is a good time of year for a lube your house. It’ s like mousse with attitude. ~" Work it, girl[ If you’re really hard core, ¯ job, or perhaps several. No, we’re not make a trip under the house and seM up ¯ back in front of the fireplace with Baby just yet-patience,my impetuous darlings ! around the pipes coming up into your house, and the same from the garage. This ¯ Borrow Dorothy’ s oil can and put a drop also discourages unwanted visits from ¯ on door hinges and garage door chain drives to keep things smoothly operating mice, who use pipe and conduit holes like ¯ a superhighway to the supermarket. And ¯ and silent in the winter, when the metal darlings, there’s no way to make trapping ¯ contracts and squeaks. You know your DIYD considers the aesthetics as well as mice attractive. Think about it. ¯ the practical matters. It is also a good idea to insulate behind If you have storm windows, give them switch and wall outlet plates. Special foam. cutouts can be bought at your local home ¯¯ a good cleaning to let in as much winter sunlight as possible, and check for any repair store, so that all you have to do is unscrew the plate, fit the cutout in and ¯ necessary repairs. If you don’ t haveenergy efficient windows,consider getting ~torms replace the plate. It is amazing how much cold air leaks in that way, especially in ¯¯ or even using the heat shrink film to provide some dead air spacq on your older houses. Occasionally, the fit between ¯ windows and to keep your house toastier. the plate is too tight, but not often. The foam cutouts are cheap and it takes little 0 : Now that the DIYD has planned your : social life for the next couple of weekends, time to do this. Before firing up the furnace for the first ¯ you can get busy making your nest cozy time, it is advisable to have a contractor ¯. and snuggly for the winter: And if you’re come and give it a gogd cleaning and ¯¯ very lucky, perhaps you will get your just reward- and we’re not only talking about inspection - the older your unit, the more important this step is. Most heating and ." a lower bill! Why don’t you go get a cooling contractors will do a combined ; couple pairs of silk boxer shorts,just to be winter and summer service for a reasonable ¯¯ prepared? Be hot, not frigid, this winter! Ciao, ducklings! sum, resulting in increased efficiency and �Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. permission to come out; being I_~sbian Coming out as a Lesbian is difficult was very freeing in this way. I’ve even spoken with Lesbians born in the U.S. enough, but is even more stressful when who have told me that the woman is an they had to move all the immigrant and is struggling to come out in way across the country in order to come out." a new country and using a been.., interviewing The other group of new language. immigrant women... women Dr. Espin For several years now, Dr. Oliva Espin, a interviewed was actively "Coming to a new professor of women’s Lesbian in their home country made it studies at San Diego State country, immigrated to University, has been the U.S., and found that possible [or them to studying the lives of the U.S. Lesbian culture immigrant and refugee was different and had to come out. Lesbians. The topic had adjust their way of being This is true for to the new culture. That to do with her own life experience as an., was sometimes very women from all immigrant and with the difficult. "Some women who were used to playing imm.!grant eli .ents she was countries, not just seeing m her roles very actively," Dr. Espin continued, "if they those from psychotherapy practice were used to being ’the for over twenty years. traditional cultures. man,’, they couldn’t "I saw that there were some experiences that Being away from the understand why their partner did not want to .were common to immigrant women," Dr: familiar environment cook their meals, for Espin .told me. "A major example. Or, vice versa, gave them women who lived lives theme I found most interesting w as how often that were ve~ closeted in permission the woman would be their home countries, talking to me in Spanish~ foundit terribly offensive to come out; for example, and then when I would use the being Lesbian was word ’Lesbian’ and were switch to English when threatened by not having she began talking about very freeing being a Lesbian. There a cover-up." seemed to be something In general, Dr. Espin in this way. about using a second has found that immigrant I’ve even spohen with communities focus very language that helped distance Lesbians from much on the "decency" Lesbians born in the and "purit.y" of the whatever they had been women in their told was bad in their U.S. who have told community. "Because the communities are i also think that me that they had to experiencing difficulty women who have come move all the way out as Lesbians when they adjusting to the U.S., they were still children, may to prove that they across the country in want have more disruptions are good people. It is the about their own i dentity," behavior of women that order to come out." Dr. Espin said. ’q’hey describes the family. So ask ’who am I?’ or ’What is wrong with : when you have a Lesbian daughter, how me?’ For .them, coming out so young gets ¯ are you going to explain that to yourself mixed up with other issues of identity. For : andto your community? They may think girls who also fecl that they are not ’rexd : , that this is what happens to all women Americans,’ or who as immigrants are ¯ when they come to America." Dr. Espin has also found that Lesbian different in color or in language or in cultural traditions - being Lesbian is one : daughters tend to be more educated than more thing that strains their relationship : their parents or their heterosexual sisters. with their parents." ¯ As a result, the Lesbian daughters tend to Furthermore, the parents may feel that : bemaking more money andin many cases their daughter’s Lesbianism is something : runmng the community centers and she has "caught from those Americans." ¯ activities. "So coming out is also difficult When immigrant Lesbians come out as : for the Lesbian immigrant in terms of the adults, they have a stronger sense of : community losing their mast in her. The community doesn’t have the language identity and comin g out does not get mixed up with the turmoil of adolescence skills, the education, and the access to the although it may get mixed up with the dominant culture that she does." turmoil of migration if they are recent Dr. Espin has written about her immigrants. experiences in two recent books. For more Dr. Espin has been conducting research information, see Women Crossing and interviewing immigrant women. She Bbundaries: The Psychology of found two types of immigration Immigration and the Transformation of Sexuality (Routledge, 1999) and Latina experiences. Some women were Lesbian Realities: Essays on Healing Migration before the migration, or else where somewhat dissatisfied with what they were and Sexualities (Westview, 1997). even if they had no language for this. Esther Rothblum is Professor of ’~2oming to a new country made it possible Psychology at the University of Vermont for them to come out. This is true for and Editor of the Journal of Lesbian women from all countries, not just those Studies. She can be reached at Dewey Hall, Univ. of Vermont, Burlington, VT, from traditional cultures. Being away from the familiar environment gave them email: esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. Dr. Espln has Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Walk-in Clinics Tuesday Testing, 5 -8 pm Pride Center, 1307 East 38th Wednesday Testing, 5-8 pm Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Need a Coming Out Support Group? Daytime appointments available. Call Call for more information: 743-GAYS (4297) 918-584-2325 Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday 1314 North Greenwood 587-1314 Tulsa Gay Community Services Center i307 E. 38th at Peoria, 2nd floor We know you’re going to love this[ Restaurant & Cabaret 3 i 0 East First Street 918-599-9949 Massage Therapy Services Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. 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"It’s one of ¯ these things where they’re wise enough to ¯ realize that if there were a grievance with ¯ respect to this sort of an issue, that based : on the case law both around the country ¯ -and the Labor Relations Board here in ¯ Vermont, that they would be fighting an : uphill legal battle," Fisher said of the : select board. "I think they look at it as an ¯ opportunity to perhaps steer clear of ¯ possible legal pitfalls in the future." " Blue Cross-Blue Shidd of Vermont, : which supplies health insurance to most Vermont municipalities through the ¯ Vermont LeagueofCities andTowns,has : offered domestic partner benefits to large ¯ groups for a few years now, said Leigh Tofferi, a company spokesman. Those benefits were available to same-sex and different-sex partners. at the time of the assault. A Circuit Court jury in northwest Ireland deliberated about two hours before finding 20-year-old Ian Monaghan and 21-year-old Glen Mahon, both of Sligo, guilty of "recklessly causing serious harm" in the Jan. 31 attack on Robert Drake, at his apartment. The defendants were convicP,xlofIrishcharges equivalent to aggravated assault in the U.S. Barely conscious, Drake lay for more than 12 hours in a pool of blood before a friend, Ciaran Slevin, discovered him. A police officer who recorded Drake’s words as he lay motionless in his blood-spattered kitchen with a severe head injury told the jury that he believed he was recording Drake’s "dying declaration." The defense contended that Drake made a crude homosexual pass at one of the men and that the other then struck Drake in the face to make him stop. Doctors had to open a hole in his windpipe to ease his breathing; he also experienced pneumonia, kidney failure : and other complications. Drake returned : to Philadelphia by medical transport in ¯ March to undergo five months of rehabilitation to learn to walk and speak " again. Though he was released from the : hospital two weeks ago, his speech and ¯ mobility remain seriously impaired. He ¯¯ uses a wheelchair to get around, and a ¯ letter board to assist in communicating. Drake was in the middle of a speech- ~ ¯ therapy session at his Center City ¯ apartment when word of the verdict reached him. Through a friend, he said :¯ that he was pleased with the verdict, ’"out ¯ not surprised." ¯ Monaghan and Mahon are free on bail awaiting sentencing Jan. 10, when they ¯ could get up to 10 years in jail. "It speaks ¯ volumes that Robert, eight months after ¯ ¯ theincident, needs round-the-clock care," said Slevin, an Irish physician now living with Drake in philadelphia. "I hope the : severity of the punishment meets the ¯ : severity of the crime." ¯ Brattleboro Offers ¯ Partners Benefits :¯ Compatibility reports for you and your friends or lovers. 59%0717 Gay Owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud Gay Mecca of the Ozarks Beautiful Eureka Springs, Arkansas BRATI’LEBORO, Vt. (AP) - Selectmen have voted to extend health benefits to same-sex domestic partners of town employees. Town Attorney Robert Fisher said the decision to extend the privileges to same-sex parmers, but not unmarried partners of the opposite sex, followed the trend of law in Vermont and other states. The University of Vermont extends benefits to same-sex couples, Fisher said. The city of Winooski is planning to as well after an employee filed a complaint with the Vermont Labor Relations Board. "Winooski hasn’t come out with a policy just yet," Fisher added. "They’re still researching insurance issues. But if they don’t follow the arbitrator’s decision, they’ll likely wind up back in court." He said Burlington, Vermont’s largest city, extends health benefits to all the domestic partners of city employees, whether the rdationship is same-sex or opposite sex. The town of Middlebury also offers benefits to same-sex couples, said Steve Jeffrey, the executive director of- the Vermont League of Cities and Towns. The Vermont Supreme Court is deciding whether to legalize same-sex marriages in Vermont. If it does, the towns’ policies ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Lesbian & Gay Seniors Sought BOSTON (AP) - Targeting an older generation open about its sexuality and thinking about its golden years, some developer~ are looking to build Gayfriendly retirement communities. "We want to create something that mirrors the life they’re living now," said BoSton real estate agent John Goode, part of 9gr°up planning .an urban homosexual reUrement commumty in Boston. In generations past, societal pressures forced many Gays and Lesbians to keep their sexual orientations under wraps. Today,developers think those who helped pave the way for vibrant Gay communities will want to continue living in Gay communities after retirement. "In the mainstream aging community, there is the assumption that everyone is straight," said Terry Kaelber, executive director of the New York-based Seniors Active in a Gay Environment. ’’We have a place that does not assume that. In fact, it assumes that old people can be attracted to old people of the same gender." Kaelber’s group is working with a real estate development company to locate a site and investors for a 100-unit, mixedincome assisted living facility. Current options for Gay- and Lesbian-themed retirement housing consist primarily of a handful of mobile home parks and small resorts in Florida and Arizona. Goode’s group of seven partners wants to build a 75- to 100-unit retirement community somewhere in Boston. The project, called Stonewall Communities, is named after a Gay bar in New York City where a 1969 police raid sparked what many say is the begimfing of the modem Gay civil rights movement. Other entrepreneurs across the country also have begun thinking about how the Gay and Lesbian baby boomers pushing into their 50s will want to spend their retirement years. "I’m looking for the active retirement market," said Peter Lundberg of San Francisco, who is trying to round up capital to build a Gay retirement community in California. Gay retirement housing options will likelyincreasedramaticallyinthecoming years, said Laura Connolly, who chairs the LesbianandGayAging Issues Network for the San Francisco-based American Society on Aging. "I think it will grow over the years," slie said. "They will be in a variety of configurations, from the more : affordable trailer park options on upto the ¯ more upscale and expensive models." �How did the story develop? PB: Many years ago while reading "Son of the Morning Start’ I was struck by what we all may have lost by the greed and ego of relatively few men. I wasn’t so much taken by Native history as I was the belief system behind the first people of.this land. JC: One of the things that struck me while viewing the show was that this was much more than a show, this was a ritual, what theatre started out as. And ritual that worked successfully to bridge past and present. PB: I alsoknew that most people (myself included) thought of Indian hi story as just that.., history, museum pieces etc. So it was important to do a couple of things. Bring the culture into the present and future tense. And incorporate a mythical story about aman"s journey to findhimself. By understanding his past - better understanding his role in this life. I was hoping to bridge worlds for people on both sides. We might be able to accept, as _ opposed to feel guilty or angry. And if we can get to acceptance, we can progress to learning. JC: I like that philosophy PB: A hundred years ago people sang the Ghost Dance songs in the hopes that the world would return to the way it once was. Now, the choir in some of the Spirit songs are singing those very same words in hopes that the world can become, what it could be. JC: What a lovely vtsion. PB: Pretty lofty goals., but hey, somebody’s got to try. JC: !’d say, from what l’ve seen and heard, you’ve succeeded admirably. Before I wear out my welcome, one last question: What inspired you to utilize Native American music in 3,our works ? PB: To me, almost all Native tribes on may land have the true connection and understanding of that land. Here, not only can we learn things about how we fit into the fabric of the physical world through Native American culture. But we can also learn a thing or two about the spiritual world. PB: I’m really glad that you hear the music staying true to the ancient as well as the modem. The show (and the music) can’t work any other way. It’s where the two worlds combine that the magic happens. JC: That is so true. in more ways than one. It’s a dzfficult balance, and rarely have I heard it done so well. PB: If you liked the video, I’m sure you’ll love the live version! JC: Having seen the video and the impact it had on people, 1 can barely begin to imagine the effect ofseeing it live. I can’t wait. Thank you, Mr. Buffett. © 1999 J. Christjohn, all fights reserved represented in galleries or who are just starting their careers. We’re having the show at my house and studio to keep the whole setting fun and relaxed, as well as making these exciting works accessible to a broad audience. ’~lt’s a good time to consider buying a special gift for the significant people in ~our life, or for adding an original piece of art to your own home, or even for buying something practical like hath salts, candles, display cases or smudges. Prices are reasonable, especially compared to the premiums paid for works shown in galleries or higher priced venues such as Eureka Springs. We’ll have clayworks and sculptures, paintings, etchings, and many other fun items." The preview for the show is Friday, Nov. 5 from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm. The show and sale continues Saturday Nov. 6 . from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 pro. The address is2727E. 56thSt. (51sttoColumbiaAve, South on Columbia to 56th St) in Tulsa. For details or directions, please call Mary at 743-6740. The Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company, an Israeli arts group will present .... Aide Memoire"," a full-length contemporary dance by renowned choreographer and KCDC Artistic Director Rami Be’er at the at Tulsa Performing Arts Center’ s Chapman Music Hall on November 16 at 8 pm. Tickets are $15, $22, and $25 with discoants for groups of 10 or more and student discounts at the door (call (918) 596-711 lot order online: www.tulsapac.com). Choreographer Rami Be’er states that .... Aide Memoire .... is not about the Holocaust nor does it describe the Holocaust; it deals neither with documentation nor a historical account. Rather, "Aide Memoire" introduces the maaner in which the remembrance of the Holocaust can be approfiched and expressed in an inspired, artistic medimn. The subject of Holocaust remembrance is relevant to present-day life and reality as it lurks in the background of mundane existence, penetrates deep subconsciousness, and dwells forever in personal and collective memories. "’Aide Memoire" presents the audience with a sequence of scenes moving about the stage just like a cinematic flashback. The production conveys a fleeting glimpse of images which.the audience must face in a lfighly personal manner. The audience has ne alternative but to use its senses to impart meaning to the images. "Aide Memoire" has no central narrative, nor do two opposing sides face each other. Cruel stormtroopers are absent, yet there exists a reminder of the struggle by those who were there and experienced those atrocities firsthand. Within this conflict, we observe their efforts to continue the fabric of human relationships, whether as : individuals, couples or xn groups, and to express the fundamental right of every A unique opportunity to view and ¯ person to continue to dream. Be’er joined Kibbutz Contemporary purchase art works and hand crafts from local women artists occurs Nov. 5 - 6. : Dance Company in 1981 as a dancer and Hosted by local artists Kathleen ¯ choreographer. His works have won Pendergrass and Mary Schepers, the show ¯ several international awards and have and sale will also highlight works by ~-become the trademark of KCDC’s Susan Norris, Robin Dunn, Donna : repertoire. He became the company’s Artistic Director in 1996. Richardson, Cara Liggett, Nicolasa ¯ The Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Kuster, Gayla Norman and others. "We want to showcase the incredible : Company was founded in 1970 by talent that we have in the Tulsa area," _" Holocaust survivor Yehudit Arnon. Schepers said. 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Earlier this month, Black churches in Atlanta gathered for the first National Black Church HIV/ AIDS Institute. The gathering was an effort to help pastors learn how to deal with the disease. Last Thursday, faith leaders, policy makers, commumty activists and AIDS researchers met in Atlanta to discuss combating AIDS among Blacks. On the same day, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, announced a series of educational films aimed at raising HIV awareness. The CDC has also awarded $39 million in federal funds to 100 national, state and local organizations to help prevent HIV infections in minority communities. "We must mount prevention and treatment strategies that deal with people where they are now, not where we want them to be or where we imagine them to be," said Phill Wilson, director of the AIDS Social Policy Archive. Nonetheless, the statistics continue to upset AIDS activist Denise Stokes, who has been HIV-positive fo~ 17 years. "One day, this is ultimately where I’m going to end up," she said pointing to the quilt. "I’m going to be a panel on some wall in some library. "I just hope the library isn’t full of people with AIDS." on Saturday, November 13 from 12 - 3 PM at Warrior Way martial Arts, 2717 S. Memorial. The cost is $25 in advance; $35 after Nov. 6. Call to register at 6649100. These guys are serious and know their stuff, and with the violence against Gay folk on the rise, I think everyone should make an investment in something like this. Knowledge is power, and in this case could mean the difference between life and death. Literally. Learn, and practice what you learn, and stay safe. And my final words for this column: life is not about surviving orjobs or l’mding love, although it’s nice if it happens. It’s about facing fears and making dreams come true, struggling against yourself and others to find your strength and make things happen. Being ready, and in the right place and time for opportunity to strike is important. Butifyou’re notready, or are afraid, it will pass you by before you know it, and that’s when regret sets in, which leads to bitterness. So try all the things you can, and do all the things you wanted to do - and it’s never too late. - James Christjohn its members come from settlements all over Israel. The dancers rehearse five days a week at Ga’aton Studio, but on weekends return home to work on their various kibbutzim. Not only is KCDC one of Israel’s foremost companies, it has also earned an international reputation of renown and is invited to perform at numerous festivals worldwide. Kibbutz Contemporary Dance is copresented by the Oklahoma Israel Exchange. Sponsors for this event include the Oklahoma Arts Council, Heartland Arts Fund. The National Endowment for the Arts, S chustennan Family Foundation, KCFM 94.1 and ONEOK Foundation. 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Text Any textual data included in the document THE NAMES PROJECT Quilt Tours Black Colleges Coretta Scott King Slams Homophobia ATLANTA (AP) - During the AIDS Quilt tour of historically Black colleges and universities, Coretta Scott King told those viewing the memorial that homophobiahas prolonged and worsened the epidemic within the Black community. "It is particularly sad tome when I hear Black people, includiug some in leadership positions, making homophobic comments and attacking t.he humm] rights of Gay and Lesbian people," the widow of die Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. said Monday during the tour’s opening ceremonies at Clark Atlanta University, Regardless of sexual orientation or gender, Blacks have a signiticantly higher risk of becoming infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Stati-stics show ntost new HIV infections occur among people 25 and younger. The Black community has been hit particularly hard. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Blacks account for about half the new HIV infections, AIDS cases and AIDS deaths, though they represent only 13% of the U.S. population, "With the stigma on homosexual behavior mthe African-American coxmnunit~¢, ¯ see Ki.,t~, ~9.: 15 Matthew Shepard Murder Trial Update LARAMIE, Wyo. (AP) - Gay college student Matthew Shepardwas pumaneled to deathby Aaron McKirmey in a drunken, drug-induced rage after Shepard made a pass at him, McKirmey’s attorney Said as: his trial began. "’Did Matthew Shepard deserve to die? No, that’s ridiculous-. No manslaughter victim deserved to die," Jason Tangeman said in opening statements. "That’s what Aaron McKirmey is guilty of, manslaughter." The roofer’s judgment that night Vas affected bv alcohol, methamphetamines and "~ome sexuall} traumatic and confusing events in his life," Tangeman told jurors. Prosecutor Cal Rerncha said his case against McKinney will not deal with Shepard’s Gayness. "It will simply be about the pain, suffering and death of Matthew Shepard at the hands of the defendant, Aaron James:McKimaey," he said." The Human Rights Campaign, a national Gay civil rights organization strongly condenmed the use of the.’’blame the victim" defense in the trial. Shepard, McKinney and Henderson met in a Laramie bar about a year ago, where Shepard asked McKinney for a ride home, humiliating him in front of friends because McKinney believed Shepard was Gay, Tangeman contended. Tangeman said McKinney, 22, was confused by three homosexual encounters that occurred when he was 7, 15 and 20: In one case, McKinney was forced into an oral sex act with a neighborhood bully, Tangeman said. Rerucha said McKirmey and Henderson drove Shepard, 21, to a remote area, where they robbed, lashed him to.the fence and pistol-whippinghim into a coma. Opening statements were made after ajury of 10 men and:six women, including four alternates, was seated in McKinney’s trial on charges of first-degree murder, kidnapping androbbery. Thejury includes three students at the University of Wyoming, where Shepard was a freshman. McKinney could receive the.death penalty. Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations World AIDS Day Memorial Service at Historic Mt. Zion Baptist Church Dedicated to the Memory of HIV/AIDS Activist Phil Wiley TULSA - The 10th annual World AIDS Day Candlelight March and Memorial Service will be held at one of Tulsa’s most historical traditionally African-American churches, Mt. Zion Baptist Church, led b~ the Rev. Calvin McCutcheon. The march will begin gathering at 6:30 near St. Monica’s Churchjust south of Carver School east of Greenwood Avenue This is just south of Pine. The march will begin about 7pm and will continue about a mile south on Greenwood to John ttope Franklin Bottlevard which travels west through the Oklahoma State University at Tulsa campus to Elgin. Mt. Zion is on FJ~n just across the OSU-Tulsa parking lots near 1-244. The theme for the march and memorial is "Fa~d the Silence" and the service will feature the music of Ernestine Dillard, the Council Oak Mens Chorale and the Mr. Zion church choir. Tiffs Tulsa service is dedicated to the memory of 1o"cal ttIV AIDS and Gay civil rights activist Phil Wiley who died of kidney failure last summer. Orgamzers note that all tilnes are approximate aud that lhey will provide candles and matches but encourage marchers to bring banners and bells to nng on the march. For more information, call Interfaith ..\ IDS Mira stries at 438- 2437. Also on World AIDS Day, an organization called "\Vc The Peopl.e Li.ving .with AIDS/HIV’" will join with thousm~ds of other orgmuzatlons m remembering, fiercel3, those the~ lmvc !ost to the AIDS epidemic. They will do this through the posting of the manes of their members, friends and loved ones lost to ,A IDS on the. \ IDS \Vatch webpage, which will display the .,aan]es of tens of thousands of people who have died from :kIDS. one at a mnc in the 48 honrs before and after December ist. They request that readers consider adding the uames of those whom they have lost to AIDS to the list. The page is localed m http:/iwww.aidswatch.org. Click on "’Add a name "’ to include the name, of~v°ur loved one, friend or colleague to the li st. Community Center News All Community Meeting, Nov. 16, 6:30pm TOHR Meeting, 11/9: Carol Petersen, Author, Poet + Gay Man in Hitler’s Navy TULSA - The third all community meeting will be held at the Communiiy Center on Tues., Nov. 16th at 6:30pm. About 35 individuals attended the last meeting in Sept. and the representatives of a number of organizations, churches and businesses decided to convene a community council with TOHR, Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights, the parent organization of the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center, coordinating the exchange of information. Local attorney and original meeting co-convener Dennis Neill will present a draft contract to clarify the relationship between the various groups. For more information about the next conmaunitv meeting, call the Community Center at 743-4297. On Tues. Nov. 9th at 7:30pro, TOHR will hold its montlflv membership meeting. The meeting, which is open to the publiC, will feature remarks by Carol Petersen, a Romanian born poet, biographer and educator. Petersen, a Gay man.~ even found lfimself serving in the German Navy during the N~i government of Adolf Hitler. Petersen has-published works on Albert Camus, Andre Gide, John Steinbeck, Goethe, Spanish poet Lorca, Thomas Mann as wall as works of poetry. He has taught French and German literature and awarded one of the highest honors in France, the Chevalier de L’oi’dre des Palmiers Academique de France. Other News: House of the Holy Spirit Calls Pastor House of the Holy Spirit Ministries announces that they have selected a new full-time pastor, Chuck Breckenridge. Breckenridge served in a pastoral capacity in a Wichita congregation where he formerly resided. Breckenridge is also known for having published and edited The Parachute, a now defunct regional publication. He also started The Triangle Of which he has recently served as general manager. Breckenridge was installed as pastor on October 17th. Troy McGoveran, spokesman for House of the Holy Spirit notes, "the entire congregation is very excited about the movement going on in our church.., we.. welcome Pastor Breckemidge to our church.. ?’ Falwell MeetsWith Gays LYNCHBURG, Va. (AP)-The Rev. Jerry Falwell, who has denounced homosexuals for years, held an .unprecedentedmeeting with GayChristians recently m an attempt to reduce violent acts against Gays and Christians. Both sides said the gathering was productive. Dozens of anti-Gay protesters denmnstrated outside, yelling at Gay supporters as they entered the church parking lot. The Rex’. Fred Phelps of Topeka, Kan.. whose congregafiou also taunted Gays at the funeral of slain Gay college studcm Matthew Shepard. said Falwdl is a hypocrite for ineeting with the Rev. Mel White, a Gay minister and his followers. "Falwell used to teach the Bible word for word. now he’s going off and meeting with these fags and going against everything he’s ever taught," Phelp,~ said. "He always says ’hate the sin. bnt love the simmr,’ but it’s ~mpossible to separate the t~o Does ajudge send the crime or the crintinal tojail’?" Falwell. who has long believed lha~ homosexuality is a sin, insists he will not change Iris views, but has agreed to tone down tfis anti language that Gay civil rights activists encourages hatred and violence towar~t homosexuals. "’We are here because ihnocent people ol vari~ faiths, racial and ethnic groups and sexual preferences have increasingly had their live~ abruptly mid violently ended by people ~vilh opposing vie~\s.’" Fah~ell told th~ group of 4 delegates in ~velcomiug then] to the anti "~ml,,ncc fortun Saturday afternoou x~q]itc brought 200 Gays mid Lesbians l’rom 3~* slates to p~ticil)atc in the forum. They were ]t)]ncd by 2~)evm~gelic~d Chnsfians who supjmrt Fid~ cEstmacc "q hi s is the first step iu ourjoume3 tm~ auct~ reconciliation." s~d White, who held a pra3 e~ ~ ~gil Ffida3 mght for 20 Gay men or gm~sgcndcred people killed because of their sexu~ oneutation. see Fahvell, p. 10 France OK’s Gay and Non-Gay Partnerships The British Broadcasting System (BBC) reported in October that the French Parlimnent has approved a controversial bill that gives Gay couples mare of the rights enjoyed by married people. The NatiOnal Assmnbly passed the Civil Solidarity Pact (PACS) by 315 votes to 249. The PACS allows unmarried couples to register their umon and enjoy some of the tax, legal and social welfare benefits associated with marriage. It is intended to allow Gay and heterosexual couples who are not married to "’organise their common life". Partners who want to separate will be able to do so via a letter of separation. According to Justice Minister Elisabeth Guigou, the bill will improve the lives of more than five million people. Conservative opponents immediately said they would ask the Constitutional Council to role whether the law was unconstitutional. Religious leaders have strongly denounced the law, saying it enables a form of homosexual marriage. The PACS wasintroduced by the riding socialists and the government’s majority made approval virtually certain. It has been one of themostbitterlycontested pieces of social legislation for years, opposed by conservatives and by leaders of the Christian, Jewish and Muslim faiths in France. see France, p. 15 LI~ DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 ~I~ US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 . HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ~ ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 COMMUNITY CALENDAR P. 9 READ ALL ABOUT IT P. 10 Z DO-IT-YOUR-SELF DYKE P. 11 DYKE PSYCHE P. 12 mmm GAY STUDIES P. 13 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Boston Willy’s Diner, 1742 S. 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Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. Audra Sommers: To All .My Friends Tiff s ruessage brings to youinformation about my up-coming benefit called ’~onnecting The Hearts of Tulsa" Friday November 5th, at 10:30 p.m. at the Silver Star. This eventfocuses onthe Prescription Assistance Program which as youknow is very, very important to many. As a community of caring individuals I ask all ofyou once again to come together as compassionate and sympathetic members of our community and show your support. Without fai! every year, you pull out all the stops and arrive in droves. My heart shines with delight to see all of your faces as we raise the much needed money to keep those who can’t afford the necessary medications alive and well. Come, meet new people and see some new faces. Uniting together_we make the difference. Please join all my guests: Miss Gay America - Catia Lee Love Miss Gay Oklahoma America - Bridgett Lee Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA - Kris Kohl Miss Fish-Lake Nevada - Slutisha Swamppussy Miss Midwestern Plains USofA - Victoria Turrell Miss Tulsa USofA 1998 - Jasmine Turrell Miss Gay University Of Tulsa Homecoming Queen 1999 - Audriana Sommers The Green Country Cloggers Miss Silver Star USofA 1996 - Tera "T" Neil Miss Gay Oklahoma At Large USofA 96 - Domonique Daniel’s Miss Feticia Winters Miss Ebony Hall Miss Tabatha Taylor Miss Gain A Pound Miss Miranda McMillian Miss Tore McMillian Miss Audra Sommers and her special "Grab Bag Segment" Mr. Steve Sludder And Mr. Brock Masters - video star along with many, maaay others. I look forward to seeing everyone at the StarFriday NovemberSthat 10:30p.m. It is going to be the best show ever! With love and respect, - Audra Marie Sommers Announcements Policy Tulsa Family News will provide space for holy union ceremony, marriage ceremony, birth, adoption and death announcements on a space available basis. Photos are welcome, though we cannot promise placement or return them, so please send copies to Tulsa Family News, POB 4140, Tulsa 74159. Letters Policy Tulsa Family Newswelcomes letters on issues which we’ve covered or on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phone numbers, or behand delivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be re-printed as is appropriate. Editorial: Singing Those Millennium March Blues To March or Not March? That is the question - ok, ok, yes that’s tired and perhaps, even trite but I couldn’t help it. The millennium does indeed approach and with it, the next great Gay march scheduled for next April. Called by Robin Tyler, Lesbian event organizer par excellence, taken up by the Gay community’s organizational 800 pound gorillas, the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) and the Human Rights Campaign(HRC), the Millennium Marchhas beenfraught with controversy from its beginning. No one doubts that these events are tremendously ehapowering for those ofus who attend. I can attest to that from my experience.at the last march. My long-suffering ex (just ask him ;-) and I organized a group mostly of students and others on limited incomes from Texas to travel bybus to DC. Since this was a budget trip we stayed about 12 to a room, 3 or 4 to a bed with some on the floor of a hotel in the Virginia suburbs. But the moment ofmy epiphany was when weboarded the Metro (subway) at the 2nd to the last stop that far out into the suburbs, and everyone waiting, and everyone on the train but for perhaps one or two per car, w,as Gay, or Lesbian, or Bi, ornon-Gays whomwe’ddearly welcomed into our tribe. For once tobe safe, for once to be inOUR space is a rare and precious thing. There we could hold hands in the street without the fear that we Were taking our !ives literally in our hands. For once, we could say that we don’t mind "straights" as long as they "behave" themselves. Formany this was alife transforming experience¯ From it, they came back and became active in the organizations of their hometowns. This clearly is go6~l: And yet, some questions remain. First of these i.s whether, this march will even come off at all. Because MCC and HRC proclaimed that a march was going to happened before they consulted the many other organizations which make up the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered civil fights and cultural movement, the March was immediately caught up in controversy. This "movement" is-tremendously diverse and building consensus is long hard work. Prior march organizers did do so through long and sometimes painful (I write this Do you know where a number of Tulsans have been during the last 18 months? Buried in trash. We studied different curbside recycling programs from around the state and from across the country. About 100 cities were looked atby theTAREboard’ s subcommittee onrecycling. Ourmost important discovery: each community is unique in its requirements for recycling. In Tulsa, most of the trash we generate is incinerated at the trash-to-energy plant. The burning process results in waste by-products that can mad do pollute our air. For example, some substances like plastic can be harmful when burned. Recycling will take them out of the trash collection burned at the Walker Hall recovery plant. The more Tulsa recycles, the more we improve Tulsa’s air quality for our young, our elderly, and most significantly, our chronically ill. And let us not forget that we are breathing the same air. Recycling does not ouly helpinmaking the environment cleaner and healflfier; it also has economic benefits other than quality of life. Once Tulsa citizens recycle enough items that can be reused, a recycling industry will be created an become a viable part of the economy with added job opportunities, In the beginning, Tulsans, will be able to recycle four types of items. Newspapers, includin°g the slick advertisement sections, compose the first recycling category. Now you cannotrecyclemagazines and business forms; these are another category which may be added at a later date. However, you can still take them to MET recycling centers. The second category acceptable for recycling in Tulsa will be aluminum. Drop all aluminum beverage cans inj the recycling container; however, you cannot recycle other forms of aluminum. Please rinse them immediately after use. Remember that recycling pick up is every other : from serving as a representative) meetings. ¯ And according to the Nov. 9th i°ssue of The Advocate, ¯ control of the event has _been shifted from Robin Tyler to ~ Malcolm Lazin, interim executive director. Kerry Lobel, executive director of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF), earlier resigned from an oversight board for the March because of concerns about event "...the moment of my epiphany was when we boarded the Metro (subway) at the gnd to the last stop that far out into the suburbs, and everyone waltln~, and everyone on the train but for perhaps one or two per ear, was Gay, or Lesl~ian, or Bi, or non-Gays whom we’d el rly we6om l into our tdl . " organization and raised the question of whether the event would need to be rescheduled or dropped. But another question to ask is this: is this the best use ofour communities’ resources? NGLTFhas been arguing that we, as a movement, should be putting more of our energies into local and state efforts at change. This doesn’tmean abandoning federal level efforts but working harder locally. In Oklahoma, we’ve started to see some results from just such efforts; the Cimarron Alliance has substantially changed somelegislative attitudes in theOklahomaHouse. FundingforHIV/AIDS care andprevenfionhas benefited from lobbying by Tulsan Steve Eberle. These things would not have happened unless some Oklahomans decided to invest in local efforts. According to Kelly Kirby, former Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) president, longtime activist and current Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) board member, at least 40-50 Tulsans stopped by a reception Marty Newman gave at the last march. And likely there were some from the city who did not attend. So I have to ask, as another former TOHR president who begged for money for that organization and for the community center, what would happen if some of those week. Besides, you will make it so much easier for those separating our recyclables. Plastic is one of the most important things to recycle. As petroleum-based products, these items release toxins when burned. You can recycle all plastic beverage bottles including mostpop, milk, and water containers, as well as soap and detergent bottles. Rinse our the container to prepare these items for recycling and dispose of the lids. It is easy to remember which plastic items are acceptable. Look for the number "1 "or "2" inside the little triangle on the bottom of the container. .The final or fotu:th category for Tulsa’s new recycling program is glass. Both clear and colored glass bottles and jars will be accepted. Nounbroken glass will be taken, nor will the program accept other housewares or plate glass from windows. Since the glass before putting out for collection and discard the lid. Because of the once-everytwo- weeks collection, you may want to rinse after use, if it contains food. Curbside recycling is a great addition to Tulsa’s solid waste disposal program. Now it is up to us to make it succeed. Begin sign up for this new service. Just call the Mayor’s Action Center at 596-2100 and tell them that you wish to sign up for curbside recycling. It is scheduled to start on Nov. 1st. The cost is only $2/month; it will be added to your city utility bill. Recycled items will be collected twice a month on an every other week basis. Before the program begins, you will be informed about your curbside pickup days. You can also sign up by clicking on www cityoftulsa.org/recycle or www.tulsarecycles.com. Remember this program can succeed only ifenough ofus participate. So sign on now! Bob D. Rounsavell is a freelance Tulsa writer who specializes in environmental education. dollars did stay here in Oklahomainstead of adding to the profits of American Airlines, or United, or Marriott or Hilton? Let’s guess that many of those 50 attending spent about $500 to $1000 for their visit. A few who traveled as I did with my student group perhaps spent as little as $200- 300¯ One might argue that an average expenditure might be about $600 for a total of $30,000. But on the other hand, $30k would pay the current rent on the Community Center for almost two years ! Now that other TOHR ex-president argues that while many in our community are willing to spend that money on whatis in essence an extraQueer vacation, he feels that few would be willing to mm around and invest that amount into our community if there’s no immediate gain for themselves. And sadly, I would like to argue with him but as a community organizer, I can’t - because I’ve seen that what he claims is mostly true. What if we did value our rights and invested in our communities as much as we did our fabulous vacations, great clothes, stylish homes and cars?Whatcould we accomplish then? After all, ifwe don’t take care of ourselves, who is going to? "Straight" people? - Tom Neal PS: those of you who’ve already got this message, thanks! Keep up the good work and drag a friend along. Tom Neal, publisher & editor ofTulsa Family News, helped tofound and direct the Coalition of Lesbian/Gay Student Groups and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, Dallas Chapter andhelped iofoundGLAAD National. He also served as co-chair ofthe University of Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Association, and helped to found the Rice University Gay Alumni group as well as serving on Tulsa’s Pride committeefor several years. On Nov. 9th, Tulsans will have the opportunity to vote on a $109 million bond package to invest in the needs of Tulsa Public Schools and the children of the district. The Citizens Bond Development Committee has identified more than $600 million in building, facilities, teaching materials and transportation needs for the District in a comprehensive, strategic plan that covers 20 years. The bond issue to be presented to voters on Nov. 9th will be m~ important step in adequately addressing the need of the District and in creating a District ofunparalleled excellence in the state... - Sincerely, Ruth Ann Fate President, Tulsa Public Schools Board of Education Chair, Citizens for Better Education 2121 So, Columbia, Suite 103, Tulsa : by Tom Neal, editor/publisher ¯ Some Gay readers will likely look at the excerpted ¯ letter above and respond: "yeah right, why should I care ~ - I don’t have kids"and"TPS is ahomophobic institution ¯ which doesn’t deserve my support." Some non-Gay ~ readers will likely read this and also wonder why Gay people should care about education issues. But the reality is that many Gay people (using the term broadly to include LGB and T folk) do have children, some by marriages to non-Gay folk before coming out, and some by adoption, and some creative Lesbians and Gay men are having our own children. Even those of us who do not have children directly of our own, like me, have no fewer than eight nephews and nieces about half of whom were educated in Tulsa Public Schools. And we have friends with children too. .My pointis that despite the an.ti-Gay stereotypes which paint Lesbians and Gay men as anti-family, we have a strong interest in providing a good educational system to the children of our community. We also have some selfinterest in that there tends to be a correlation between education and the lessening of anti-Gay prejudice. And if we insist that TPS, an educational system which we help fund, seek to teach the values of respect and tolerance for all citizens, to teach that the diversity of our city makes us stronger, then we, Gay and Lesbian citizens, regardless of whether we have children who directly benefit from TPS, will gain. Therefore, on Nov. 9th, please consider voting yes: do it for kids. Friends Mourn Murdered Gay Pastor SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) - Calling him a "an oversized angel inhumanform,"mourners andfriendsof a slain pastor and Gay civil rights activist led tributes to him. The Rev. Edward R. Sherriff, 68, an associate pastor at the Cathedral of Promise MetropolitanCommtmity Churchin Sacramento was found stabbed to death in his home Oct. 20 in what police believe was a robbery. More than 300 friends andfzraily crowded into the church where Sherriff served as co-pastor for 11 years. Later in the day, mourners filled the sidew~ilks to "celebrate the home~zoing" of the slain activist. A t~ndf-ul.of local religious leaders paid tribute to Sherriff, including Sister Catherine Connell, director of the Catholic Wellspring women’s center, and the Rev. Isaiah Muhammad of the Nation of Islam. Sherriff’s daughters were als0 among the crowds. "It’s amazing to me the people who love him, who truly love him," said Scharlene Sheriff. Sherriff’s other daughter Marsha Lanier said she does notbelieve her father’s murder was ahate crime. Helikely died because he went out ofhis way to help, Lanier said. ’That’s one thing he would have been proud of," she said. Court to Reconsider Religious Bias Ruling SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - The federal appeals court that allowed religious landlords to deny rentals to unmarried couples agreed to reconsider recently at therequest of states, cities andcivil rights groups. The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals said an 11-judge panel will decide whether property owners with religious objections to certain types of tenants are entitled to exemptions from housing discrimination laws. The case involves state and local laws in Anchorage prohibiting housing discrimination based on marital status. The ruling would also al’fect discrimination based on sexual orientation, where barred by law, and possibly other categories covered by laws in the nine states of the nation’s largest federal circuit. A panel of the court ruled 2-1 in January that enforcement of the discriminationlaws would violate the rdigious freedom of two Anchorage landlords who had religious objections to providing homes for unmarried couples. With no compelling state interest at Stake, the landlords could not be forced to choose between their businesses and their religious beliefs, the courtmajority said. The court said a majority ofits 21 activejudges had voted to set the January decision aside and order a new hearing before the 11-judge panel, at a date not yet scheduled. Requests by Alaska and Anchorage for a reheating were supported by national civil liberties and Gay civil-rights orgamzations, cities including Los_Angeles and San Francisco, and the states of California, Nevada, Washington, Oregon, Montana and Hawaii. California Attorney General Bill Lockyer, who enlisted his counterparts in the other states, said discrimination laws would be affected in every state. "q’here’s no inherent conflict between state antidiscrimination laws and the private religious view s of a landlord," he said. "Fhe issue is whether they can discriminate in their commercial and business activities." Kevin G. Clarkson, lawyer for the Anchorage landlords, said he wasn’t surprised by the rehearing, but argued that his clients’ ’interests were more important than those of the state or would-be tenants. ’%Vhat’s at stake is the First Amendment right of property owners to manage their property consistent with their religious beliefs," Clarkson said. He said there was no evidence that unmarried couples in any state have had trouble finding housing because of the religious objections of a small number of landlords. Conservative religious organizations such as Focus on the Family and the American Center for Law and Justice, as well as the more liberal National Council of Churches, have filed arguments supporting the landlords. The Supreme Courts of Alaska and Californiahave upheld their state discrimination laws against challenges .by religious landlords. But if the federal appeals court sides with thelandlords, property owners throughout the circuitcould sidestep statecourtrulings and go into federal court for religious exemptions. The suit was filedby KevinThomas and Joyce Baker, who each own several rental properties in Anchorage and said they had consistently refused to rent to unmarried cohabitants because of their Christian beliefs. They have not been accused of violating the state or local laws but asked the court to bar" their enforcement. In the January ruling, Judge Diarmuid O’Scannlain said the law not only placed an unconstitutional burden on landlords’ religious practices but also violated freedom of speech, by prohibiting owners from asking about a tenant’s marital status, States can imposesuchrestrictions onbusinesses for compelling reasons, such as preventing discrimination based on race or sex, O’Scannlain said. But he said discrimination on the basis of marital status isn’t banned by the Constitution, federal law or the laws of many states, and no compelling interest has. been shown for its elimination. The case is Thomas vs. Anchorage Equal Rights Commission, 97-35220. Methodists Attack Boy Scouts’ Anti-Gay Policy tIACKENSACK, N.J. (AP) - The Boy Scouts of America could lose an important ally as it prepares to appeal a New Jersey Supreme Court ruling that the group couldnotremove aNew Jersey manbecausehe is Gay. The United Methodist Church, which sponsors about 15% of the 3.3 million Scouts in the United States, has scolded the group and is threatening to halt its sponsorship if things don’t change. Although the church "would like to enthusiastically affirm and encourage this continuing partnership of the church and Scouting, we cannot due to the Boy Scouts of America s discnmanat~on agmnstGays; the Gener Board of Church and Society said earlier this month. The board is a top policy-making body of the Methodists. It also encouraged the Boy Scouts to stop the policy barring homosexuals. ’"We further, for the sake of our continmng partnership, call upon the Boy Scouts of America to discontinue this exclusion of Gays," the board concluded in the Oct. 10 statement. The Methodists earlier had said the church wanted to triple the number of Scouts it sponsors. But the Boy Scouts say the threat won’t dissuade themfrom appealing to the U.S. Supreme Court. Greg Shields, a spokesman for the Boy Scouts, said the organization hopes the case will be heard before next year’s summer recess. Shields also said he believes the Boy Scouts’ longtime relationship with the Methodists will endure. "We feel like we have a ¯ strong base of support within the congregations," ¯ Shields told The Record of Hackensack. ¯ The appeal plan follows aunanimous Augustruling : by the state Supreme Court that says the policy of keeping out homosex~mls violates the state’s anti- " discrimination law. The court said the Boy Scouts ¯ organization constitutes a "place of public accommodation" because it has a broad-based membership and forms partnerships with public ¯ entities such as police and fire departments. ¯ James Dale, 29, ofMatawan inMomnouth County, ¯ was an assistant scoutmaster whe was kicked out of the Boy Scouts nine years ago whenleaders found out ¯ he is Gay. He sued., seeking reinstatement. Dale ¯ earned 30 merit badges, seven achievement honors ¯ and other awards, and became an Eagle Scout during ¯ his 12 years in the organization. He was expelled by ¯ theMoumouthCouncilin 1990 after the group leamed from a newspaper article that he was Gay. The Irving, ¯ Texas-based organization has said if forced to accept ¯ Gays, the organization would not be able to build ¯ moral character in boys. The New Jersey ruling contrasted with a March ¯ 1998 decision by the California Supreme Court inthe ¯ Boy Scouts’ favor. In that ruling, alsounammous, the ¯ court said the organization was not abusiness and was : therefore free to exclude Gays, as well as atheists and ¯ agnostics. The U.S. Supreme Court refused to hear an : appeal of that decision. Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 S. Harvard, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 MCC-United formerly Family of Faith & Greater Tulsa MCC Joined as one body of believers. Come celebrate with us, Sunday Services, 11 am 1623 North Maplewood, 838-1715 HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. 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Atlanta Place, 742-7381 Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Trinity 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Boeing ExtendsBenefits to Same-Sex Partners SEATTLE (AP) - The Boeing Co., citing the need to maintain a quality work force and the benefits of diversity, plans-to extend health-care benefits next year to same-sex domestic partners of salaried nonumon employees. The decision, announced to company managers by electronic mail, was praised by Gay civil rights advocatesl It was criticized by unionleaders, however, for leaving outtheirmembers and nnmarried heterosexual partners. Company officials did not say how many employees would be affected. RoughlyhalfofBoeing’s 202,000 employees worldwide are salaried and non-union. A recent Forbes Magazine survey indicated unmarried partners are covered by health benefits in 10% of the businesses with at least 200 employees. Companies that provide same-sex-partner benefits include Lotus Development Corp., Microsoft Corp., IBM, Walt Disney Co., U S West, Honeywell and Xerox. In the e-mail, James B. Dagnon, Boeing’s senior vice president for personnel, said the move was made for two reasons: ’~First to attract and retain talented employees, and second to walk the talk on diversity. "Diversity, with a capital D, means acknowledging employees have different backgrounds, preferences and interests." A task force of personnd managers and minority employees w.asformedto study theissue last year, bu.t consii~eration of an initial proposal was stalled until the company’s financial performance improved in recent months, Boeing spokesman Peter Conte said. The decision is long overdue, said Charles Fay, chairman of Hands-Off Washington in Snohomish County€ and Dennis Rybicki, a spokesman for the SnohomishCountyElections Committee., which,r~an~__. s political candidates on Gay and Lesbian xssues, q’his should send a signal to other employers, large and small, that it’s goodbusiness to recognize the value of all families," Fay said. Charles Bofferding, executive directorof the Society ofProfesSional Engineering Employees inA.erospa.~, said the move seemed to be designed to sabotage ,his group’s contract-negotiations, which begin soon. SPF.EA, formerly the Seattle Professional Engineering Employees Association, is the second-largest imion at Boeing, representing 23,000 scientists, engineers, manual writers and technical workers. SPEEA negotiators will seek the benefit but don’t want to sacrifice other potential contract gains to obtain it, Bofferding said. ’This attitude, that management knows best and employees will take whatever is dished, out, this is outrageous ,"he said. "Is the Boeing Co. going to discriminate againstheterosexuals now?" Conte said health-care benefits will not be offered tO unmarried heterosexual partners because they can get married, an option from which same-sex parmers are barred by law. Tim Flynn, a spokesman for the International Association of Machinists and Aerospace Workers, which r~ep~resents hourly producuon workers and is Boeings largest union, said Machinist leaders may discuss same-sex benefits before expiration of the three-year contract that was ratified in September. Annetta Small, director of the West Coast office of Kerusso Ministries, which seeks to persuade Gays and Lesbians to become heterosexual through Chrsfianity, said she opposes any extension ofbenefits to non-married partners. "We are giving benefits to a behavior that I believe is wrong and that I believe is immoral," she said. "I don’t believe that we should extend these benefits to people who are not married." Hate Letters Sent to Rhode Island Politicos PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - Threatening letters with anti-Gay sentiments have been sent to the Providence mayor, the city’s liaison to the Gay community and two men who were recently assaulted in a Gaybashing attack. One letter, which Mayor Vincent A. Cianci Jr. received, described Providence as a ’Tag lovin’ city". Leaflets that said "Fake Action Against Queer’s, ¯ were also scattered downtown and placed on cars. ¯¯ City and police officials said they are taking the threats very seriously because they appear to be part ¯ ofan organized effort. Inresponse, thepolice assigned ¯ extra officers downtown. "In this day and age, this ’- should not be. We’re not going to tolerate it," Cianci ~ told The Providence Journal. ¯ W. Fitzgerald Himmelsbach, the city’s liaison to the Gay and Lesbian community, also received a " death threat over the telephone. He received a call at ¯ his business from aman who said, "Die, you fagg.ot . ~ All the letters said ’~omosexuality is a sin against ¯ humankind and God," and all were signed "The ¯ Trench Coat Mafia" - the name used by a group of "- students at Columbine High School, in I.ittleton, ¯ Colo., that .included the two gnmmen who killed 13 ¯ people there last spring. - Himmelsbach saidletters receivedby the twoassault ". victims threatened that they would"endup inhell like [ Matthew Shepard," the Wyoming college student ¯ who was beaten to deathlast fall because he was Gay. ¯ The letters were sent to Ed Webb, 34, and Noah ] Schwartz, 41, both of Providence. On Sept. 19 in : downtownProvidence, themensaid about20college- " aged men yelled "faggots" and then five of the men ¯ beat them up. ¯ Both Himmelsbaeh, who has been the liaison for ~ two years,and Cianci saidreceiving threats is nothing ¯ new but both are worried that this is part of an ~ organized effort. ’~Eianci vowedto fred the "cowards" .. who are the perpetrators and then prosecute them for . hate crimes. Police do not have any suspects yet. : Denver Considers :: Couples Registry ¯ DENVER (AP) - City Council members are : considering a proposal that would create a registry to ~ record the relationships of Gay and Lesbian partners and other committed but unmarried couples. The ¯ proposal, heard by the city council, would allow Denverites to officially record their partnerships to ¯ qualify for insurance benefits some companies offer ¯ to the "domestic partners" of their workers. And, for ¯ same-sex couples, it would allow their unions to be : acknowledg?,.d,, if only nominally, by local " government. It sfinallytimeforthecitytorecognize ." committed relationships," said Councilman Ed ¯ Thomas, who, along with Councilwoman Cathy ¯ Reynolds, has beenplanning such aregistry for several ¯ years. . ¯ To qualify, both members of a couple would have ¯ to be unmarried, 18 years or older and sharing the ¯ ¯ same household with a partner who is not a blood relative. A filing fee at the city’s clerk and recorder’s ¯ office is expected to be about $20. Couples would be ¯ ¯ required to notify that office if their relationships dissolve. The plan had tentative approval by most members ofthe city s Safety and Personnel Commatt ¯ except council member Ted Hackworth, who said it ¯ "doesn’t make sense." ¯ Itis slated for further discussionby council members ¯ in the coming weeks. Advocates hope to have the registry in place by Valentin~ s Day. If approved, ¯ filing with the registry wouldn t constitute amarriage or common-law marriage, nor would it affect ¯ inheritance rights. ¯ Still, advocates say itwouldprovide documentation ¯ ¯ for couples seeking benefits from United Airlines, Coors, Denver city government and other employers ¯ who insure domestic partners of workers. Proponents ¯ also hope it would help advance rights whenit comes ¯ to visiting partners in the hospital ormaking medical ¯ decisions on their behalf. Theregistry would similarly ¯ benefit seniorcouples who choosenot to marry because ¯ they would lose Social Security or other benefits. ~ Boulder has a similar registry program, as do the state ¯ of California and 35 cities in 25 states nationwide. ¯ Irish Jury Convicts Writer’s Assailants : PHILADELPHIA (AP)- Ajury in Irdand convicted ¯ two men in the near-fatal beating of a well-known ¯ Philadelphia writer of Gay-themed books who was ¯ overseas researching a novel see News, p. 13 Magic Johnson Plays in Sweden BORAS, Sweden (AP) - Magic Johnson entertained a sellout crowdTuesday night with some of the trademark skills he used to help the Los Angeles Lakers win five NBA rifles. The 40-year-old star, 10 years older than the second oldest player on the court, had 14 points and 11 rebounds as Magic M7 beat Sallen 84-60 in.the Swedish basketball league. "The first half was a little tough, but the second was easier.,"Johnson told the 3,319 spectators after,the game, his first nonexlfihition contest since leaving the NBA for good in 1996. Johnson missed some easy layup attempts. "That’s easy when the atmosphere was as charged and the euphoria as high as it was tonight," he said. After a standing ovation before the game, Johnson drew further cheers when he promised to return to play more games for Magic MT. MT, which missed the playoffs last season, is 7-0 this season,.with Johnson’s appearance generating great interest in the sport in Boras, a city of 110,000 in western Sweden. Johnson, who led Michigan State to the 1979 U.S. National Collegiate Athletic Association rifle, learned he had tested positive for the HIV virus that can cause AIDS in 1991. He retired for the first rime justbefore the startof the 1991-92 season. After returning to play on the U.S. Dream Team that won the gold medal in the 1992 Olympics, he made a brief comeback before the !992-93 season, but quit again after several players expressed concerns about playing against him. In January 1996, he returned to the Lakers and played the remaining half of the season, retiring again, at age 37, after the Lakers were eliminated from the playoffs. Louganis in Nun-Drag? HOLLYWOOD, Fla. (AP) - Greg Louganis has picked up a new habit. The Olympxc gold medal-winning diver is starring in the musical comedy, ’~lunsense A-Men," which runs through Dec. 5 at the Hollywood Playhouse. Lougams, who wonfour gold medals in two Olympics and later disclosed he was Gayand HIV-positive, will pull on a habit six rimes a week for his role as Sister Robert Ann, a streetwise nun who always wanted to be a star. All the nuns in this production are men. The former diver, author and motivational speaker says he likes working in an ensemble cast. "There’s always someone there to hold your hand," said I_ouganis, 39. "It feels more supportive, I guess.’" Thou.gh Louganis now has AIDS, he looks and feels healthy. He says he does not think aboutbeing arole model. "We’re all haman. We all make mistakes," he said "Role model, in my mind, is perfection and one can’t be that. I try to encourage young people to be their own heroes and their own role models." AIDS & So. Africa JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - After the end of apartheid, South Africa pushed to get patients out of overcroWded hospitals and into preventive care clinics. But as fast as the country has built 700 ¯ new clinics since 1994, traditional state ¯¯ hospitalshavefilledupwithAIDS patients who occupy up to 60% of the beds, South : African Health Minister Manto ¯ Tshabalala-Msimang said recently. ¯ ’’We expected the demand for hospital ¯ caretodrop,"shesaidatanews conference ; at theheadquarters oftheAfrican National ¯ Congress. "But the HIV and AIDS ¯ epidemic has increased the burden." The ¯ briefingwas one ofa series by theANCon ¯ its progress in ruling the country. ¯ Tshabalala-Msimang chairs the party’s ¯ health committee. -" Some 3.6 million South Africans are ¯ infected with AIDS, roughly one in eight ." adults, and the government says 1,500 ¯ new :infections occur every day in one of ." the world’s fastest rates of infection. A ¯ narionalAIDS councilwillbefunctioning : by year’s end, Tshabalala-Msimang said. ¯ ’’We should have had the council in place : already," she said. : Controversial proposals, such treating : pregnant women with HIV with a drug ¯ therapy to prevent transmission of the ¯ virus to infants, will be discussed next ¯ month at a meeting of regional health ¯ ministers, she said. The government so far : has rejected the proposal as too expensive : and possibly even dangerous in terms of ¯ long-term side effects. ¯ The healthministers fromthe Southern ¯ African Development Community will ¯ also discuss blood safety anddevelopment ¯ of an HIV vaccine. : AIDS Threatens Asia’s Prosperity KUALALUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) -The AIDS epidemic in Asia could erase the region’s economic gains over the last two decades unless governments maintain funding for social programs, aWorldBank expert warned late last month. In Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia, Myanmar, Malaysia, Vietnam and Southern China, AIDS had gained a "strong foothold," even before the economiccrisis struckin 1997, saidMartha Ainsworth, a senior World Bank economist. The dreaded virus "threatens to slowly unravel the progress in improving the human condition.and to diminate if not reverse the benefits of the economic miracle,’’ Ainsworth told the 5th International Congress on AIDS in Asia and the Pacific. The region’s two-year economic crisis may have further hurt Asia’s fight against AIDS, said Ainsworth. Cash-strapped governments wereforced to slash budgets and lower wages. The crisis also pushed thousands of families into poverty and many women into prostitution. "’Even before the crisis, political commitment to AIDS prevention in the region was weak," said Ainsworth. "Many policy makers are still in denial." Development policies before the crisis channeled funds into education and health ¯ care budgets, resulting in higher life expectancies and reduced poverty: ¯ "The full impact of the crisis on HIV : depends critically on how well ~ governments and households succeeded ¯ .in maintaining socialsafety nets," said : AJnsworth, an expert on the effect of ¯ AIDS on households. Ainsworth said : AIDS hadalready subtracted several years ¯ offtheaveragelifeexpectancies ofcertain ¯ countries. A U.N report released at the four-day ¯ conference esrimates that by 2010, the ¯ overall death rate will be 20% higher in OECE~% WorldAIDS Day 1999 Candlelight March & Memorial Service sponsored by Interfaith AIDS Ministries Wednesday, December 1st End the Silence Mount Zion Baptist Church 419 North Elgin (next to OSU-Tulsa) Gather 6:30 at St. Monica’s, Marshall Place at Greenwood (just south of Pine), March at 7pm, Service at 7:30, all times approximate! Bring banners & bells; candles provided. Info: 438-2437. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American~.~ Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Men s ¯ Support Group ~s here for you! ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native.American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext, 208 or 218 Dial-Up Accounts Dedicated ISDN Connections Virtual Hosting Visit our web page "www.igisweb.net" (918) 622-4965 Internet Marketing E-Commerce Web Page Design On-Site Setup Available Oklahoma NARAL cordially invites you to a chocOlate and champagne fete in support of abortion and reproductive rights in Oklahoma. Celebrating 26 Yedrs.of Choice Sunday, November 7, 1999, 1:30 - 3:30 p.m. to be held at Resonance 1608 S. Elwood, Tulsa, Oklahoma Champagne, Coffee, Chocolates $25 per individual Please R.S.V.P. to the NARAL Office: 494-9585 Stay Healthy Naturally Wellness Rejuvenation Longevity Dr. Terrance L. Sullivan Doctor ofNaturopathy Certified Colonic Hygenist Certified Reflexologist Certified Herbalist Certified Accupressurist provides consultations by appointment Iridology- Hair Analysis - Herbal Supplements Pain Control - Nutritional Analysis 4520 So. Peoria, Brookside, 712-1400 Myanmar due to AIDS fatalities. In Cambodia and Thailand, it may rise 15% because of AIDS. The United Nations estimates that 7 million people in Asia are infected with the HIV virus or AIDS. Speakers at the conference, which ends Wednesday, have urged Asia to act fast to curb the epidemic or risk the devastation now facedby Africa, which has 21 million AIDS-related cases. Experts areparticularlyconcemedabout the effects of AIDS on Indonesia, the world’s fourth largest country, where the regional economiccrisis was compounded by political upheaval. It diverted attention and funding from the AIDS epidemic, Aiusworth said. ’~olitical turmoil nodoubt increased risky behavior for the spread of HIV," Ainsworth said. She said countries such as Thailand one of the high-risk areas in Asia, had proved that maintaining commitment to AIDS -prevention programs paid dividends. HIV cases dropped among prostitutes,menwith sexually-transmitted diseases and blood donors in Thailand despite the economic crisis, she said. "Many governments in this region have a window of opportunity to act early and prevent an epidemic," Ainsworth said. Children at Risk in South Africa JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - Seeking to help young children deal with a soanng number of sexual assaults, national health and education officials are considering an education program for primary students to teach about rape and HIV infections, a newspaper reported Sunday. A pilot program was tested in the Nor~ern and F~ee State provinces, where about 700 children received the lessons, the Sunday Times of Johannesburg reported. About 14,000 children are sexually violated every year, police reports say, but a large number of rapes go unreported, anti-rape activists say. About 8% of the adult population is HIV positive. One factor that experts belie,ve has contributed to child rape is the persxstent myth that sex with a virgin can cure the disease. Abraham Seckle, an Education Department official, was quoted assaying the program would "empower learners to protect themselves." A consultantinvolved in the project, Darleen Edwards, said that children are taught to "run, yell and tell" in the program. PLWA to Race in Iditarod Next Year MESA, Ariz. (AP)-The first Arizonan to enter Alaska’s most grueling sled dog race faces two major obstacles before he even steps to the starting line. Chuck Kin.g, 39, of Tempe, has no experience racang. He has only 100 miles actually riding a dog sled. And King is. HIV positive. Every day, he takes fisffuls of anti-viral pills just to stay alive. But he doesn’t see this as a setback. He views his illness and the March 4 Iditarod sled-dog race as a chance to prove that people with AIDS don’t have to concentrate on survival alone. "In the last seven years, I was supposed to have died three times and I made it through all of that," King said in a telephone interview from Wasilla, Alaska. The Iditarod this year will stretch 1,152 miles fromWasilla to Nome, takingracers " at least 10 days to complete. And that’s : only if the expected 80 participants keep up a good pace. The snow layers the trail ¯ in multiple feet, not mere inches. ¯" Temperatures dip deep into thenegatives, numbing hands and lungs. At night; ¯ Sections of the woods-darkened course ." are lit only by the aurora borealis, which ¯ crackle and cast shadows in the trees and : snow. Switchbacks get so steep in some ¯ areasthatdrivers can’tseetheleadoftheir ¯¯ 16-dogpack.A driver unlucky enough to fall off gets left in a cloud of snow and ¯ regret. ’q~here ain’t no waitin’ in this ." race," said Raymond "Raymie" ¯ Redington, King’s sled-dog trainer. ’q’he ¯" huskies are bred to go. They’ll bolt off the ." starting line even if you say halt." ." Redington should know. The 54-year- . old Alaska native’s father founded the ¯ racein 1973. He has been in 111ditarods; : his highest placing was seventh. Since : September, Redington has trained King ¯ on a four-wheeler that simulates a sled- : dog team. King will work with the dogs as ¯ the snow starts to fall. ¯ King began training last year, gaining ¯ ¯ about 100 miles of mushing experience. Oddly, being a native Arizonan could give him a boost: King was trained as a bo.y to handle amule drawn wagon, which ¯ ~mrrors mushing techniques, Redington ¯ said. King will have to be up to speed by : Jan. 1, whenthelditarod’sfirstqualifying race, the Knik 200, takes place. The 2nd ~ qualifier is a week later. ¯ Only after the 500 miles of racing will ’ Redington know whether King is ready : for the Iditarod. "I don’t know how he’s ¯" going to do when it gets real freezing," ¯ said Redington, who remembers the 38- below zero wind chill he endured in the ¯ 1974Iditarod. "Buthelooks healthynow. "" ¯ That hasn’t always been the case for ¯ King. Six years ago, the 6-foot man had ¯ wastedto 118pounds. Doctors gav,eKing, ¯ a former respiratory physician, 90 days to live after diagnosing him with multidrug ¯ resistant tuberculosis. At one point, his Tcell count, a measure of the body’s ¯ resistance to disease, bottomed out at 40; ~ a virus-free, healthy person’s T-cell coun! usually reaches 1,000. Kinghad one wish: to see Alaska before ¯ he died. Two years ago he took a cruise ." there, and he caught another bug. This time, it was mushing. "That’s all he could ¯ talk about," said his father, Dick King. ¯ "He was suicidal, depressed at times. BUt this brought him out." Science lent a hand, too. Strong anti¯ viral drugs called protease inhibitors became available. King was soon on a ¯ five-drug ’.’cocktail"prescribed to him by Scottsdale’s Dr. Thanes Vanig. He began ¯ popping about 26 pills a day. He said he ¯ has to smoke marijuana to beat down the ¯ nausea caused by themedieation. He also ,- has to take percocet, and even morphine, ¯ to numb the neurological pain to his lower ¯ legs that was caused by the tuberculosis ¯ and AIDS drugs. His T-cell count has ¯ jumped to 560, the lower side of normal. ¯ He’s also gained 44 pounds, thanks in ¯ large part to injections of human growth : hormone, a $4,000-a-month drug that he ; said was donated by a pharmaceutical ¯ company. ¯ WhenKingrecentlyreturned to Alaska, ¯ his spirits were high, His po~c,k,etbook is ¯ - the opposite. King is feveris!!) lining up ¯ sponsors, such as Tempe Mayor Neil ¯ Giuliano, to make it through the race and ¯ bring AIDS awareness to a new level, ¯ "It’s not just for people with AIDS," he ¯ s.aid. ’q~hemessageis for everyone: Don’t ¯ g~ve up. Don’t ever give up." L by James Christjohn Upon viewing the PBS production of "Spirit: A Journey in Dance, Drum, and Song" on PBS, I contacted Peter Buffett, the composer and creator. Upon learning that there would be a National Tour with a stop in Tulsa at the Brady Theatre on January 3, 2000; I had the opportunity to askafew questions. You can get the video of the production that originally aired on PBS, as well as theCDat areamusic/video stores. It’s powerful in those mediums (reviewed previously), and one can only imagine the impact of the piece live. JC: Hello, Peter! PB: Hello! Well... finally I’m answering your questions. I was frantically finishing a record for a friend. It had to be done by yesterday (which it was) so I can go to New York today to start all the mechanics it’s going to take to get the "Spirit" showon the road by the Fall. At somepoint, you’11 have to get the’’making of" part of the video. I think you’ll really enjoy it. "(Note: The "Making of..." is included on the retail vide~’Of the show.) JC: It’s such an amazing piece that works on so many diffdrent levels, l was wondering whatinspired the idea to bring together the different elements - dance. song, etc. - to create the show? PB: I wanted to bring all the elements together for two main reasons. One, "A hundred years ago people sang the Ghost Dance songs in the hopes that the world would return to the way it once was, Now, the choir in some of the Spirit songs are singing those very same words in hopes that the world can become what it could be. "" - Peter Buffett because in Native cultures, song anddance are usually linked. You can’t have one without the other. They both contribute to the telling ofthe story. Andthe projections help bring the natural (or unnatural.., or supernatural) worldinto the theatre. That’s the "art" reason. The "commerce" reasonis that I knew my show would be competing with larger and larger events. Not only theatrical, but lmaxmovies,hugebudget movies and all sorts of entertainment that tugs at the consumer. I wanted to try and create something thatpeople could honestly say they hadn’ t seenbefore (no small feat). So this was my attempt.. JC: Well,judgingfrom the response at the taping from the audience, and the incredible response I’ve seen to the video, l’d say you achieved your goal. PB: It’s important to note that I’m not in the "bigger is better" : camp (as it may sound) but people want and deserve their money’s worth. Andit’s getting harder to "outdo" the last thing ~n [ terms ofp0werful soundandimagery. My [ hope is that the message of the show has as much effect on people as anything else. JC: I can only speak from my own ¯. experience, and that oflistening to others ¯ who have seen the video, to say that it was very powerful in that regard, and ¯ communicated its message wonderfully. see Buffett, p. 14 couNciL Is proud to present gie Hall veteran soprano, Floxane La Combe. nature "COMC Sound" has attracted sold out audiences. Order your tickets in advance. November 19 & 20 JOHN WILLIAMS THEATRE TULSA PERFORMING ARTS CENTER Call 596-7111 for tickets www.counciloak.org ~’~#Made possible in part oy a grant from the Tulsa Pedorming Arts Center Trust. by That Entertainment Guy Livin La Vida Loca Tour, the Divine king, Ricky Martin appears in Dallas al Reunion Arena, Dallas, Thursday, Nov 4, 1999, at 8:00PM. Now this would be the concert to take binocnlars to - and the telephoto mini-camera. Ticket prices for the Prince ofPop: $35.00- $75.00 Charge- By-Phone #: 214-373-8000. The Divine Queen of All Things is also performing in Dallas in November. No, not Stevie, although she is the otherQueen of All T’nings Divine; but the Divine Ms. Millennium Tour: Bette Midler in Concert, A Beaver Production takes place Sunday, Nov128,1999 at8:00prn at ReunionArena. As she said in one early concert tour, ’qTais ain’t no cheap meat you’re lookin’ at!": Ticket prices run $50.50 - $150.50, Charge-By-Phone at 214-373-8000. Peter Buffett’s "Spirit - A Journey in Dance, Drums and Song" is a music, dance and percussion spectacle that combines the power of contemporary music with the songs, chants and dances of Native American culture. The release of the CD coincides with the PBS Broadcast ofthe live show of Spirit, which features over 80 performers - including twenty dancers with both modem and traditional training, an orchestra withboth modem and ancient tribal instruments, a flits choir and percussionists pounding outheart-stopping rhythms on a variety of drums. The show runs in Tulsa, January 4-9, at the Brady Theatre; and if you miss that, then you can catch "Spirit" in Dallas, March 7-12 at the Majestic Theatre. You really didn’t think I’d let you get away without the obligatory mention of Stevie Nicks herself, did you? Yes, La Diva nicks is performing three shows: Two in California’s HOuse of Biues in December, and one in Las Vegas HOB on New Year’s eve. Tickets went for an outrageous $127 (balcony seating) and $227 (Orchestra - STANDING!). There only a few floor spaces left for the New Year’s show.. All others sold out. Believe it or not. Anyone wishing to contribute to the "Send the obsessed reviewer to see S tevie and not come back fund" can send contributions to TFN. Just make sure my name’s in big letters on the envelope, or I’ll never see the money. It’ll end up in the "buy the publisher new household gimmicks" fund. The Divine Ms. Nick’s new album should be out the 1st of the year, if not sooner. And hopefully, with a more affordable tour. Apparently the cost of chiffon has risen - a lot. Fight Clubis.amovie that under ordinary circumstances, I would have never gone to see. However, I was not under ordinary circumstances, and was swept along to see it. I thought I’d hate it. After seeing it, I think everyone should see it. The acting is dynamic, the pace is breathless, and the intellect behind it is tremendous. The violence is not that bad, one scene aside, and the points the movie makes are well worth the viewing. The humor is well done, and the homoeroticism between Ed Norton and Brad Pittmakes it worthwhile. see Fight, p. 15 .Parade of Ligh! s. Come celebrate the spirit of the holiday season at the PSO Christmas Parade of Lights. Saturday, December 11, Downtown Tulsa at 6 p.m. View parade floats up close, Friday, December 10, at the HolidayFest (Brady Arts Distriot) fl om 6-9 p.m. Pubfic Service Company of Oklahoma A Central and South West Company I B B (I T Z "emotionally and visually rich ..." -Performing Arts Review, Taiwan "unforgettable scenes of disparate beauty" -Davar "intense in feeling ... deep in intellectual content" -The Plain Dealer "bold, flLnging athleticism" -The Kansas City Star November 16 at 8 p.m. Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center 3rd & Cincinnati Tickets: $15, $22, $25 Call: (918) 596-7111 Outside Tulsa: 1-800-364-7111 Online: www.tulsapac.com Presenting by Rami Be’er Co-presented bj,: Oklahoma Israel Exchange "Dazzling," "Pounding," "Unsettling," "Erotic" "The dancing--real, vital dancing--of these 18 people becomes a dyfiamo for transforming experience and recharging the spirit." The Village Voice Sponsored in part by: "You don’t have to know ballet to love ballet. You just have to try it." -- MARCELLO ANGELINI ART ST C D RECTOR :Mixed Repertory includes two Oklahoma premieres FRIDAY 8 PM NOVEMBER 5 SATURDAY 8 PM " NOVEMBER 6 SUNDAY 3 PM NOVEMBER 7 Be one of the first anywhere to witness Tulsa Ballet’s first commissioned piece. Tailored to the strengths of the Company by an international genius. Classical ’roots, contemporary movements A prime-time performance of2Oth-century choreography. The way people dance today. Andwili tom0rrow: " Tickets start at $8. THE 199.9 - 2000 SEASON IS SPONSORED IN PART BY: Order tickets,by calling The Tulsa Ballet Ticket Office at 749-6006, PAC at 596-7111 or Carson Attractions at 584~2000 * 4512 S. Peoria Ave. ¯ Tulsa, OK 74105-4563 Visit our web site at www.webtek.€omitulsaballet ~ SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pro, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 1 lain, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 1 lam, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, 1 lain, 1623 North Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangdical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1 lam, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexuai/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance 6:30 pm, Meets at the United Ministry Cir., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~ MONDAYS Mixed Volleyball, Helmerich Park, 71st & Riverside, 6pm, call Shawn at 243-5190. HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E. Admiral (east of Harvard) HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pm, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mordeach mo. 6:30pro, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for thnes, info: 748-3888. ~ TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call, for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 Live And Let Live, Community of Hope U~fited Methodist, 7:30pm, 2545 S. Yale Multicultural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E 38th, info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries,. Inc. Service - Vpm, 3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more information, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pm, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~ THURSDAYS HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pm 834-8378, 3507 E. Admiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-2325 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, Info: 834-4194 ~ FRIDAYS SafeHaven, Young Adults Social Group, l st Fri/each mo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th ~ SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, I 1 pm, Community o!~ Hope, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585;-1800 Lambda A-A, 6.pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd fl. ~ OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Womens Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long rides & short rides from Zcigler Park. Long & short rides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 Ifyour organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 orfax 583-4615. reviewed by Barry Hensley : substanceabuse and, now, a sympathetic Tulsa City-County Library : wife with a decidedly un-Christian like Whathappens whena"radical Lesbian" ¯ penchant for screaming and yelling. The goes undercover to infiltrate the " author’s interaction with this member of organizations of the religious Focus on the Family is most right? She writes a book, of course! Fortunately, this isn’t "jnstaanotherChristianbashing book, as Minkowitz is able to see past her obvious disagreements with these groups and find some real, human common ground. Life is full ofgray area, as this book shows. Ferocious Romance is a humorous but serious lookinto religious fight organizations, such as Promise Keepers and Focus on the Family. Minkowitz dons a fake monstachc and lowers her voice to attend a Promise Keepers weekend that really opens her eyes. In addition to experiencing the fully expected propaganda of men itaking charge of the familyi and making women submissive, she al~o witnesses burly mencrying,hugging each other andexpressing words offorgiveness. She enjoys discussing this absurdity of the feminization of the Christian Men’s movement~ Her discussions with James Dobson’s Focus on the Family are of more concern. She has long conversations with a cute voung man named Bobby, who is an ~tthappy "ex-Gay." It becomes evident that Bobby’ s life is in a shambles due to the cumulative effects ofchildhood abuse, "The a.thor’s interaetion with this member of Focus on the Family is most ;nsi~htful. She also meets with several high level exeeutlves in the or~anlzatlon whose arguments t~t they are not homophone are astoundln~ in their h~oe~sy." insightful. Shealso meets with several high level executives in the organization whose arguments that they are not homophobicareastoundingin their hypocrisy. After these encounters with the religious right, the author inexplicably dives into an account ofthe International S/ M Leather Fetish Celebration that she attended inNew York City to-celebrate the twentyfifth anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. We really learn more than we ever wanted to know about her involvement in S/M. This topic surfaces occasionally throughout the book and her comparison of conservative Christians and S/M practitioners is humorously ¯¯ enlightening. As the 2000 elections approach, the : religions right will undoubtedly take center .. stage to promote their candidates and , agenda. It is in everyone’s best interest to : understand what these groups have in ¯ store for the country, should their ¯ candidates be elected. This book gives a : bit ofinsightinto what’ s going onin these ¯ organizations. Check out Ferocious Romance at your local branch library or ¯ call the Reader’s Services department at : Central library, at 596-7966. Members of each group were paired together at the tables and encouraged to gettoknow each other. Before the meeting, the groups agreed to disagree on whether Gays can be Christians and to focus on ways to deter violence against Gays and Christians, Falwell cited the September shootings at a Texas church and recent school shootings inwhichChristians were targeted. At a news conference following the meeting, Falwell andWhite apologized to each other for harsh words they have said about the other’s groups over the years. "I’ve been a preacher for 47 years, a preacher of the gospel.., but in the end homosexuality is. wrong," Falwell said. ’’It is my hope that evangelicals might build a bridge of friendship -to Gays and Lesbians as we have to alcoholics and unwed mothers." White, an author and minister with the Metropolitan Community Churches, was the ghost writerofFalwell’s autobiography before White acknowledged being Gay. Delegates from both groups thought the meeting was good. The same weekend, many of Mel White’s groups listened to Falwell’s Sunday sermon. Falwell, 66, began the serviceby welcoming White andhis guests and briefing his congregation on the antiviolence forum conducted at the church the day before. At that meeting, both sides apologized for harsh words said over the years and discussed ways to reduce vio~lence against homosexualS. ¯" ’His sermon was amazang, said David ¯ Chandler, 36, a Gay man from San : Francisco and one of the more than 4,000 : worshippers who jammed into Thomas ¯ Roads BaptistChurch. "Hesentamessage : to parents to love their children no matter ." what.... I admire and respect Falwell for ¯ taking that stand." In his sermon, Falwell ¯ stressed that he will hot change his belief ¯ that homosexuality is a sin. But he added, ¯ "That has nothing to do with the love : factor involved. We are to be lovers of all menand women."Falwell’ s sermon came ¯" from Proverbs 13, which offers advice on ¯ successful living in the eyes of God. He ¯ spoke on the importance of working hard, ¯ living with integrity and not focusing on ¯ material things. He also talked at length : about the importance of parents loving : their children unconditionally. ¯ "For him to invite these fags here and ¯ into his church is an abomination,"Phelps : said outside the church. "Now, Jerry ¯ Falwell is just as much a sinner as Mel ¯ White and both will bum in hell." : Theservice endedwiththe congregation, ." singing the hymn "Only Trust Him. ¯ Falwell interrupted the song to reiterate to : worshippers that what he or anyone else : thought of them did not matter, but what ¯ was important is their relationship with ¯ God. White said it was "a shame" that : protesters like Phelps brought hostility to ¯ aplace of worship. "What we have hereis ¯ a great moment for our country, Gays and ¯ Falwell worshipping together," White ¯ said. "It’s a small start, but it’s a start." The Gift of Pride In Honor of... Or In Memory of... Someone Special to You. For a small gift of $25.00, you can donate a beautiful Christmas poinsettia to a local AIDS hospice. Your gifts will adorn the stage at" "A Council Oak Christmas," November 19-20. Call Today for COMC Carolers at Your Holiday Party! To Order: Call COMC at (918) 748-3888 Medical Excellence And Compassionate Care Since 1926. ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER WJj Medical Excdlence ’ Compassionate Care Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal La w & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. RESTAURANT AT PHILBROOK TUES-SUN, I I-2 $13.95 ¯ Sunday, II to2 ¯ Reservations, 748-5367 TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Home Holiday Tour Saturday, December 11,noon- five o’clock Several homes in historic Tulsa. Reception at the Center tofollow. More info. after Dec. 1st. 743-4297 by Mary Schepers, Do-It- Yourself-Dyke Hey, baby, it’ s coldoutside. Andbefore you start heating it up in front of the fireplace, take some precautions. Notjust theustml ones, ducklings! Thehouseneeds some love and attention, too. And by attending to a few simple details, not only will your house o’ love be snug, but safer, too. You know what a raving bitch your DIYD is about safety, but she does it out of a place of love. Which place, she demurs to answer.. The first order of business is to keep the winter winds and drafts outdoors where they belong. Inthe oftrepeated words of the Oracle, ’We don’t have a heating contract with the great outdoors,’ although you may feel that way when you get the first heating bill for the winter. And the side benefit is that if you can keep the house warm, you won’t have to bundle up, and neither will your schnookie, unless,ofcourse, youfred the layers of sweats and sweaters an erotic challenge. From thereon, you’re on your own! Try to take care of your outside heat sinks (places you lose heat) before the weather dips to 45 degrees during the day. Mostofthematerials you will useperform better when it’s warm - that’s a life philosophy worth adopting! Checkaround windows and doors for loose or cracked caulking and replace where needed. Around pipes or conduits that enter the house, use an expanding foam product like Good Stuff or better yet, Daptex, which can be tooled, painted and cleaned up with water, It costs a little more but is worth it. Use this also to seal any gaps between your foundation and the siding of your house. It’ s like mousse with attitude. Work it, girl[ If you’re really hard core, make a trip under the house and seM up around the pipes coming up into your house, and the same from the garage. This also discourages unwanted visits from mice, who use pipe and conduit holes like a superhighway to the supermarket. And darlings, there’s no way to make trapping mice attractive. Think about it. It is also a good idea to insulate behind switch and wall outlet plates. Special foam. cutouts can be bought at your local home repair store, so that all you have to do is unscrew the plate, fit the cutout in and replace the plate. It is amazing how much cold air leaks in that way, especially in older houses. Occasionally, thefitbetween the plate is too tight, but not often. The foam cutouts are cheap and it takes little time to do this. Before firing up the furnace for the first time, it is advisable to have a contractor come and give it a gogd cleaning and inspection - the older your unit, the more important this step is. Most heating and cooling contractors will do a combined winterandsummerservice forareasonable sum, resulting in increased efficiency and ¯ reduced chance of injury. Heater ¯ malfunctions can result in explosions or ¯ fires, and sweeties, we have worked so ¯¯ hard to make your house into a fabulous home.- It’s worth your peace of mind and personal safety. If you have a fireplace, 6all a licensed sweep to clean thechimneyandto inspect and repair the firebox and flue: Your DIYD prefers to do this in the spring, when scheduling is less hectic for the sweep, and then the fireplace is ready togo as soonas inspiration and a little cool weather hits. This should be an annual event for masonry fireplaces, and every two years if you have a metal flue. If you’re the intrepid sort who doesn’t mind scampering out on the roof like a rabid squirrel, get a good extension ladder and do some maintenance and cleaning on the roof..Be sure that the ladder has firm, steady footing and is not placed near any powerlines. Get a hose with a power nozzle or a blower and blast those gutters clean, especially at the downspouts. Clean any ; leaves, sticks or debris offthe valleys and ¯ gables of the roof, and look for any loose ¯ shingles. Use an appropriate kind of roof ¯ goo or caulking to repair, and use this also ¯ around any flueflashings thatmightbenefit ¯ from some extra sealant. This is a good ¯ time to evaluate if you will need to repair ¯ or replace your roof in the spring. Be : careful up there, and never crawl around ¯ on the roof without having someone at ¯ home in case you need help or get hurt. Make sure she or he is not glued to a ball ¯ game or otherwise out of contact. At a ¯ time like that, you deserve the extra ¯ attention, pookie! ~" This is a good time of year for a lube ¯ job, or perhaps several. No, we’re not back in front of the fireplace with Baby ¯ justyet-patience,my impetuous darlings ! ¯ Borrow Dorothy’ s oil can and put a drop on door hinges and garage door chain ¯ drives to keep things smoothly operating ¯ and silent in the winter, when the metal ¯ ¯ contracts and squeaks. You know your DIYD considers the aesthetics as well as ¯ the practical matters. If you have storm windows, give them ¯ a good cleaning to let in as much winter ¯ sunlight as possible, and check for any necessary repairs. Ifyoudon’ t haveenergy ¯ efficient windows,consider getting ~torms ¯ or even using the heat shrink film to ¯ provide some dead air spacq on your ¯ windows and to keep your house toastier. 0 : Now that the DIYD has planned your : social life for the next couple of weekends, ¯ you can get busy making your nest cozy ¯. and snuggly for the winter: And if you’re ¯ very lucky, perhaps you will get yourjust ¯ reward- and we’re not only talking about ." a lower bill! Why don’t you go get a ; couple pairs of silk boxer shorts,just to be ¯ prepared? Be hot, not frigid, this winter! ¯ Ciao, ducklings! "This is a good tlme of year for a lube job, or perhaps several. No, we’re not back in front of the fireplace with Baby just yet - patience, my impetuous darlings! Borrow Dorothy’s oll can and put a drop on door hinges and garage door ehaln drives to keep things smoothly operating and silent in the wlnter, when the metal contracts and squeaks. You know your DIYD eonslders " the aesthetles as well as the practleal matters." by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. Coming out as a Lesbian is difficult enough, but is even more stressful when the woman is an immigrant and is struggling to come out in anew countryand using a new language. For several years now, Dr. Oliva Espin, a professor of women’s studies at SanDiego State University, has been studying the lives of immigrant and refugee Lesbians. The topic had to do with her own life experience as an., immigrant and with the imm.!granteli.ents she was seeing m her psychotherapy practice for over twenty years. "I saw that there were some experiences that .were common to immigrant women," Dr: Espin .told me. "A major theme I found most interestingwashow often the woman would be talking to me in Spanish~ for example, and then switch to English when she began talking about being a Lesbian. There seemed to be something about using a second language that helped distance Lesbians from whatever they had been told was bad in their i also think that women who have come outas Lesbians when they were still children, may have more disruptions about theirownidentity," Dr. Espin said. ’q’hey ask ’who am I?’ or ’What is wrong with me?’ For .them, coming out so young gets mixedup with other issues ofidentity. For girls who also fecl that they are not ’rexd Americans,’ or who as immigrants are different in color or in language or in cultural traditions - being Lesbian is one more thing that strains their relationship with their parents." Furthermore, the parents may feel that their daughter’s Lesbianism is something she has "caught from those Americans." When immigrant Lesbians come out as adults, they have a stronger sense of identity and coming outdoes not getmixed up with the turmoil of adolescence although it may get mixed up with the turmoil of migration if they are recent immigrants. Dr. Espin has been conducting research and interviewing immigrant women. She found two types of immigration experiences. Some women were Lesbian before the migration, or else where somewhatdissatisfied with what they were even if they had no language for this. ’~2oming to anew countrymadeitpossible for them to come out. This is true for women from all countries, not just those from traditional cultures. Being awayfrom the familiar environment gave them permission to come out; being I_~sbian Dr. Espln has been.., interviewing immigrant women... "Coming to a new country made it possible [or them to come out. This is true for women from all countries, not just those from traditional cultures. Being away from the familiar environment gave them permission to come out; being Lesbian was very freeing in this way. I’ve even spohen with Lesbians born in the U.S. who have told me that they had to move all the way across the country in order to come out." was very freeing in this way. I’ve even spoken with Lesbians born in the U.S. who have told me that they had to move all the way across the country in order to come out." The other group of women Dr. Espin interviewed was actively Lesbian in their home country, immigrated to the U.S., and found that the U.S. Lesbian culture was different and had to adjust their way of being to the new culture. That was sometimes very difficult. "Some women who were used to playing roles very actively," Dr. Espin continued, "if they were used to being ’the man,’, they couldn’t understand why their partner did not want to cook their meals, for example. Or, vice versa, women who lived lives that were ve~ closeted in their home countries, foundit terribly offensive when I would use the word ’Lesbian’ and were threatened by not having a cover-up." In general, Dr. Espin has found that immigrant communities focus very much on the "decency" and "purit.y" of the women in their community. "Because the communities are experiencing difficulty adjusting to the U.S., they want to prove that they are good people. It is the behavior of women that describes the family. So : when you have a Lesbian daughter, how ¯ are you going to explain that to yourself : andto your community? They may think : , that this is what happens to all women ¯ when they come to America." Dr. Espin has also found that Lesbian : daughters tend to be more educated than : their parents or their heterosexual sisters. ¯ As a result, the Lesbian daughters tend to : bemaking more money andin many cases : runmng the community centers and ¯ activities. "So coming out is also difficult : for the Lesbian immigrant in terms of the : community losing their mast in her. The community doesn’t have the language skills, the education, and the access to the dominant culture that she does." Dr. Espin has written about her experiences intwo recent books. Formore information, see Women Crossing Bbundaries: The Psychology of Immigration and the Transformation of Sexuality (Routledge, 1999) and Latina Realities: Essays on Healing Migration and Sexualities (Westview, 1997). Esther Rothblum is Professor of Psychology at the University of Vermont and Editor of the Journal of Lesbian Studies. She can be reached at Dewey Hall, Univ. of Vermont, Burlington, VT, email: esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing Walk-in Clinics Tuesday Testing, 5 -8 pm Pride Center, 1307 East 38th Wednesday Testing, 5-8 pm Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Daytime appointments available. 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A police officerwhorecordedDrake’s words as he lay motionless inhis blood-spattered kitchen with a severe head injury told the jury that he believed he was recording Drake’s "dying declaration." Thedefensecontended thatDrakemade acrudehomosexual pass atone ofthemen and that the other then struck Drake in the face to make him stop. Doctors had to open a hole in his windpipe to ease his breathing; he also experienced pneumonia, kidney failure and other complications. Drake returned to Philadelphia by medical transport in March to undergo five months of rehabilitation to learn to walk and speak again. Though he was released from the hospital two weeks ago, his speech and mobility remain seriously impaired. He uses a wheelchair to get around, and a letter board to assist in communicating. Drake was in the middle of a speechtherapy session at his Center City apartment when word of the verdict reached him. Through a friend, he said that he was pleased with the verdict, ’"out not surprised." Monaghan and Mahon are free on bail awaiting sentencing Jan. 10, when they could get up to 10 years in jail. "It speaks volumes that Robert, eight months after ¯ theincident, needs round-the-clock care," said Slevin, an Irish physician now living with Drake in philadelphia. "I hope the severity of the punishment meets the severity of the crime." Brattleboro Offers Partners Benefits BRATI’LEBORO, Vt. (AP) - Selectmen have voted to extend health benefits to same-sex domestic partners of town employees. TownAttorney Robert Fisher said the decision to extend the privileges to same-sex parmers, but not unmarried partners of the opposite sex, followed the trend of law in Vermont and other states. The University of Vermont extends benefits to same-sex couples, Fisher said. The city of Winooski is planning to as well after an employee filed a complaint with the Vermont Labor Relations Board. "Winooski hasn’t come out with a policy just yet," Fisher added. "They’re still researching insurance issues. But if they don’t follow the arbitrator’s decision, they’ll likely wind up back in court." He said Burlington, Vermont’s largest city, extends health benefits to all the domestic partners of city employees, whether the rdationship is same-sex or opposite sex. The town of Middlebury also offers benefits to same-sex couples, said Steve Jeffrey, the executive director of- the Vermont League of Cities and Towns. TheVermontSupremeCourtis deciding whether to legalize same-sex marriages in Vermont. If it does, the towns’ policies : will be irrelevant, Fisher said. The policy : passed tmanimously. The issue wasn’t ¯¯ controversial, Fisher said. "It’s one of these things where they’re wiseenough to ¯ realize that if there were a grievance with ¯ respect to this sort of an issue, that based : on the case law both around the country ¯ -and the Labor Relations Board here in ¯ Vermont, that they would be fighting an : uphill legal battle," Fisher said of the : select board. "I think they look at it as an ¯ opportunity to perhaps steer clear of ¯ possible legal pitfalls in the future." " Blue Cross-Blue Shidd of Vermont, : which supplies health insurance to most Vermont municipalities through the ¯ VermontLeagueofCities andTowns,has : offered domestic partner benefits to large ¯ groups for a few years now, said Leigh Tofferi, a company spokesman. Those benefits were available to same-sex and different-sex partners. Lesbian & Gay Seniors Sought : BOSTON (AP) - Targeting an older : generation open about its sexuality and ¯ thinking about its golden years, some developer~ are looking to build Gay- " friendly retirement communities. : "We want to create something that ¯ mirrors the life they’re living now," said ¯ BoSton real estate agent John Goode, part ¯ of9gr°up planning .an urban homosexual ¯ reUrement commumty in Boston. ~ In generations past, societal pressures ¯ forced many Gays and Lesbians to keep ¯ their sexual orientations under wraps. : Today,developers think those who helped ¯ pave the wayfor vibrantGay communities ¯ will want to continue living in Gay ¯ communities after retirement. ¯ "In the mainstream aging community, there is the assumption that everyone is ¯ straight," said Terry Kaelber, executive ¯ director of the New York-based Seniors Active in a Gay Environment. ’’We have : a place that does not assume that. In fact, ¯ it assumes that old people can be attracted : to old people of the same gender." ¯ Kaelber’s group is working with a real estate development company to locate a ¯ site and investors for a 100-unit, mixed- : income assisted living facility. Current options for Gay- and Lesbian-themed ¯ retirement housing consist primarily of a ¯ handful of mobile home parks and small ¯ resorts in Florida and Arizona. Goode’s group of seven partners wants ¯ to build a 75- to 100-unit retirement community somewhere in Boston. The project, called Stonewall Communities, ¯ is named after aGay bar inNew York City ¯ where a 1969 police raid sparked what many say is the begimfing of the modem ¯ Gay civil rights movement. ¯ Other entrepreneurs across the country ¯ also have begun thinking about how the ¯ Gay and Lesbian baby boomers pushing ¯ into their 50s will want to spend their ¯ retirement years. "I’m looking for the ¯ active retirement market," said Peter Lundberg of San Francisco, who is trying to round up capital to build a Gay ¯ retirement community in California. ¯ Gay retirement housing options will : likelyincreasedramaticallyinthecoming ¯ years, said Laura Connolly, who chairs ¯ theLesbianandGayAgingIssues Network ¯ for the San Francisco-based American ¯ Society on Aging. "I think it will grow ¯ over the years," slie said. "They will be in ¯ a variety ofconfigurations, from the more : affordable trailer park options on upto the ¯ more upscale and expensive models." How did the story develop? PB: Many years ago whilereading "Son of the Morning Start’ I was struck by what we all may have lost by the greed and ego of relatively few men. I wasn’t so much taken by Native history as I was the belief system behind the firstpeople of.this land. JC: One of the things that struck me while viewing the show was that this was much more than a show, this was a ritual, what theatre started out as. And ritual that worked successfully to bridge past andpresent. PB: I alsoknew thatmostpeople (myself included) thought of Indian history asjust that.., history, museum pieces etc. So it was important to do a couple of things. Bring the culture into the present and future tense. And incorporate a mythical story about aman"sjourney tofindhimself. By understanding his past - better understanding his role in this life. I was hoping to bridge worlds for people on both sides. Wemight be able to accept, as _ opposed to feel guilty or angry. And if we can get to acceptance, we can progress to learning. JC: I like that philosophy PB: A hundred years ago people sang the Ghost Dance songs in the hopes that the world would return to the way it once was. Now, the choir in some of the Spirit songs are singing those very same words in hopes that the world can become, what it could be. JC: What a lovely vtsion. PB: Pretty lofty goals., but hey, somebody’s got to try. JC: !’d say, from what l’ve seen and heard, you’ve succeeded admirably. Before I wear out my welcome, one last question: What inspired you to utilize Native American music in 3,our works ? PB: To me, almost all Native tribes on may land have the true connection and understanding of that land. Here, not only can we learn things about how we fit into the fabric of the physical world through Native American culture. But we can also learn a thing or two about the spiritual world. PB: I’m really glad that you hear the music staying true to the ancient as well as the modem. The show (and the music) can’t work any other way. It’s where the two worlds combine that the magic happens. JC: That is so true. in more ways than one. It’s a dzfficult balance, and rarely have I heard it done so well. PB: If you liked the video, I’m sure you’ll love the live version! JC: Having seen the video and the impact it had on people, 1 can barely begin to imagine the effect ofseeing it live. I can’t wait. Thank you, Mr. Buffett. © 1999J. Christjohn, all fights reserved A unique opportunity to view and purchase art works and hand crafts from local women artists occurs Nov. 5 - 6. Hosted by local artists Kathleen Pendergrass andMary Schepers, the show and sale will also highlight works by Susan Norris, Robin Dunn, Donna Richardson, Cara Liggett, Nicolasa Kuster, Gayla Norman and others. "We want to showcase the incredible talent that we have in the Tulsa area," Schepers said. "There ’are a lot of very talented artisans here who are not represented in galleries or who are just starting their careers. We’re having the show at my house and studio to keep the whole setting fun and relaxed, as well as making these exciting works accessible to a broad audience. ’~lt’s a good time to consider buying a special gift for the significant people in ~our life, or for adding an original piece of art to your own home, or even for buying something practical likehath salts, candles, display cases or smudges. Prices are reasonable, especially compared to the premiums paid for works shown in galleries or higher priced venues such as Eureka Springs. We’ll have clayworks and sculptures, paintings, etchings, and many other fun items." The preview for the show is Friday, Nov. 5 from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm. The show and sale continues Saturday Nov. 6 . from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 pro. The address is2727E. 56thSt. (51sttoColumbiaAve, South on Columbia to 56th St) in Tulsa. For details or directions, please call Mary at 743-6740. The Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company, an Israeli arts group will present ....Aide Memoire"," a full-length contemporary dance by renowned choreographer and KCDC Artistic Director Rami Be’er at the at Tulsa Performing Arts Center’ s Chapman Music Hall on November 16 at 8 pm. Tickets are $15, $22, and $25 with discoants for groups of 10 ormore and student discounts at the door (call (918) 596-711 lot order online: www.tulsapac.com). Choreographer Rami Be’er states that ....Aide Memoire.... is not about the Holocaust nor does it describe the Holocaust; it deals neither with documentation nor a historical account. Rather, "Aide Memoire" introduces the maaner in which the remembrance of the Holocaust can be approfiched and expressed in an inspired, artistic medimn. The subject of Holocaust remembrance is relevant to present-day life and reality as it lurks in the background of mundane existence, penetrates deep subconsciousness, and dwells forever in personal and collective memories. "’Aide Memoire" presents the audience with a sequence of scenes moving about the stage just like a cinematic flashback. Theproduction conveys afleeting glimpse of images which.the audience must face in a lfighly personal manner. The audience has ne alternative but to use its senses to impart meaning to the images. "Aide Memoire" has no central narrative, nor do two opposing sides face each other. Cruel stormtroopers are absent, yet there exists a reminder of the struggle by those who were there and experienced those atrocities firsthand. Within this conflict, we observe their efforts to continue the fabric of human relationships, whether as : individuals, couples or xn groups, and to express the fundamental right of every ¯ person to continue to dream. Be’er joined Kibbutz Contemporary : Dance Company in 1981 as a dancer and ¯ choreographer. His works have won ¯ several international awards and have ~-become the trademark of KCDC’s : repertoire. He became the company’s Artistic Director in 1996. ¯ The Kibbutz Contemporary Dance : Company was founded in 1970 by _" Holocaust survivor Yehudit Arnon. : Although based in Kibbutz Ga’aton near ¯ the Lebanese border, see Dance, p. 15 use code 393 ~eqaDhone does noI presereen sal[ers & assumes rio liability for personal meetings. 24hr Customer Service. 18+ only. © 1999 PC Sprint PCS" The Glear Alternative to Cellular Serint PC$" Select Retailer ;9935 :25.oo $74.95 New Sprint PCS Phone Less instore rebate " Net cost Buy any Sprint PCS Phone and get S25 off!* Everyone is approved! :~,.o~,,,,,: ,~.,,,~.;.,.~,.:,oc,.,,,¢., All Sprint PCS service plans include: ¯ Free Voicemail ¯ Free Caller ID phonesistartingat. ¯ Free. Call Waiting¯ Free 3 way calling ................ ¯ No activation, fee o No contract required ¯ 100% Sprint PCS Nationwide Network. Tulsa Locations: 2001 S. Garnett, 437-2444 3733 S. Memorial, 6600344 1216 S. Harvard, 587-1778 Sapuipa Location: 109 N. 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Slowly, leaders say, more attention is being focused on the issue. Earlier this month, Black churches in Atlantagathered for the first National Black Church HIV/ AIDS Institute. Thegathering was an effort to help pastors learn how to deal with the disease. Last Thursday, faith leaders, policy makers, commumty activists and AIDS researchers met in Atlanta to discuss combating AIDS among Blacks. On the same day, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, announced a series of educational films aimed at raising HIV awareness. The CDC has also awarded $39 million in federal funds to 100 national, state and local organizations to help prevent HIV infections in minority communities. "We must mount prevention and treatment strategies that deal with people where they are now, not where we want them to be or where we imagine them to be," said Phill Wilson, director of the AIDS Social Policy Archive. Nonetheless, the statistics continue to upset AIDS activist Denise Stokes, who has been HIV-positive fo~ 17 years. "One day, this is ultimately where I’m going to end up," she said pointing to the quilt. "I’m going to be a panel on some wall in some library. "I just hope the library isn’t full of people with AIDS." A lot of straight folk are going to go into this thinking it’s aboutbeating otherpeople up, and come out thinking about a lot of things. Some of you, due to the timing of the paper will have seen it - don’t ruin the ending for those that haven’t. And if you haven’t seen it because you don’t think it"s your kind of movie, go see it. You’ll be surprised. Brad Pitt’s bod is well worth seeing. Amd since I work in a football sized building filled with cubicles, I could relate well to Ed Norton’s plight in the beginning of the film- living life to support things he’s bought, working in a mindless dronin.gnumbness of cubicality. Anyway, go see It. Oh yeah, Helena Bonham Carter turns in a magnificent performance as well. I kept wondering why her character was sleeping with guys, though. In the interest of a public service announcement, I will pass this along: Warrior Way Martial Arts is offering a 3 hour class on selfdefense againstpunches, kicks, and grab attacks; knife and gun attacks; and club attacks. This takes place on Saturday, November 13 from 12 - 3 PM at Warrior Way martial Arts, 2717 S. Memorial. The cost is $25 in advance; $35 after Nov. 6. Call to register at 664- 9100. These guys are serious and know their stuff, and with the violence against Gay folk on the rise, I think everyone should make an investment in something like this. Knowledge is power, and in this case could mean the difference between life and death. Literally. Learn, and practice what you learn, and stay safe. And my final words for this column: life is notabout surviving orjobs orl’mding love, although it’s nice if it happens. It’s about facing fears and making dreams come true, struggling against yourselfand others to find your strength and make things happen. Being ready, and in the right place and time for opportunity to strike is important. Butifyou’re notready, or are afraid, it will pass youby before you know it, and that’s when regret sets in, which leads to bitterness. So try all the things you can, and do all the things you wanted to do - and it’s never too late. - James Christjohn its members come from settlements all over Israel. The dancers rehearse five days a week at Ga’aton Studio, but on weekends return home to work on their various kibbutzim. Not only is KCDCone of Israel’s foremost companies, it has also earned an international reputation of renown and is invited to perform at numerous festivals worldwide. Kibbutz Contemporary Dance is copresented by the Oklahoma Israel Exchange. Sponsors for this event include the Oklahoma Arts Council, Heartland Arts Fund. The National Endowment for the Arts, Schustennan Family Foundation, KCFM 94.1 and ONEOK Foundation. Opponents fear it will eventually lead to Gay couples being able to adopt children, although the government has opposed any such move. Last November, parliament rejected a conservative bid to sink the controversial bill. At the time, left-wingers said PACS was needed to adapt outdated laws to the evolution of French society, where marriage is on the decline. Classifieds - how to work them: First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. Options for your ad: Bold headline - $1, ali capital letters - $1, all bold & capital letters - $2. ad in box - $2, Ad reversed - $3. tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind P.O. Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the words - word is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space. TFN reserves the fight to edit or refuse any ad. No refunds. Send ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa. OK 74159 with your name, address, telephone. 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Title A name given to the resource [1999] Tulsa Family News, November 1999; Volume 6, Issue 11 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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"We cannot change our policies. But we do not ask the sexual orientation of anyone who wants to join, and I don’tbelieve we~have ever denied anyone membership." Pokorny said he did not know how much the state, employee charity program contributesannually to the Boy Scouts. One U.nited Way official said the total was atleast $25,000. Wyman said her position~"is one of intolerance for discrimination, no~intoieran~e of the Boy Scout~ SACRAMENTO~ Calif. (AP) - California Southern ¯ Baptists havepl’edged to support an aati-Gay marriage. initiative on the March 2000 ballot, saying it affirms the sanctity of .marriage. The motion to support ¯ Proposition 22, which would prohibit the _state from ~ recognizing same~sex marriages, received unanimous ". supp0rtat the Califomi~iSouthern Baptist Convention. ¯ Themove comes shortlyafter the Georgi,a Southern ¢. Baptist Conveiition ousted twp ~hu~ti6~ f6~allo~iing ¯. _orgapi~zati~n.’" . ¯ h0mb~xtmls’t0 lie difir~h !eadersai~ff:-f6r all:owing a Gay marriage, tb btiJeff0,~r~,ed at iSn~ 6f th~ ch~ehes. The motioii to ~slapport the iniffafive Wasmade :b3) Norma Ma~of Glendale, a trustee Of the church’s Ethics and Religious" LibertyC0mmission,_whi~h SACRAMENTO, California (AP) - California has instructs churches on the nioral and Socialimplicati ons quietly eliminated a regulation that required state of political is sues. "It’ s a significant posi~,ve statement government to automatically oppose adoptions of to reaffirm ’the sanctify bf marriage,’ May said. foster children by Gay and other unmarried couples. "Some peoplesay this is negative, but I don’t see it Attorneys representing Gay and Lesbian groups that way. We neeit strong family values now With all challenged the regulation earlier this year, and the the vidence thatgoes on." state Department of Social Services concluded the The convention also overwhelmingly voted, without policy "did not go through the proper legal process," debate, to condemn Gov. Gray Davis, for signing agency spokeswoman Sidonie Squier said. The change, recent Gay civil rights bills. The state organization approved by the Gov. Gray Davi~, a Democrat, rescinds will send Metter toDavis outlining.their"disapproval a 1995 order by then-Gov. Pete Wilson, a Republican. of recent bills passed in California ~ving"special Yet that doesn’t mean Davis supports adoption by rights’ to homosexuals," said the Rev. Wiley Drake. Gay couples, said spokesman Michael Bustamante. The new laws ban discrimination based on sexual "The previous administration took a position~.on orientation in public schools, strengthen protection adoptions. This administrauon is not," he said. ’¢I’his againstjob discrimination.based on sexual orientation governor has made the’ determination that, the .and provide health benefits to the same-sex domestic professionals, not the state, are best suited to decide" partners bf state employees. which couples are suitable adoptive parents. "When the governor signed this legislation he Last month, the state advised all California adoption made clear that he believed that all Californians have agencies and county welfare directors of the shift. a contribution to make," Davis spokesman Michael Opposition to all petitions by unmarried couples to Bustamante’said. Davis has not taken a position on adopt a foster child hadbeen state policy since 1987. Proposition 22, Bustamante said. Ed Condom 38, who adopred a child with his partner during the 1995 regulatory lapse, said the change is an important step. "There was kind of a sClfizophrenic effortby the state," Condon said. "There was recruiting of Gays and Lesbians into foster care HARTFORD, ,Coma, (AP).- The Boy Scouts of but you couldn’ t take the final step" and adopt. He and America’s r(fusal to admit Gays may cost the his partner plan to complete the adoption of their organization donations through a state employee second child this week contribution program. The United Way program The Rev. Louis Sheldon, chairman of the Anaheimallows state employees to contribute to a list: of based Traditional Values Coalition, said the state’s charities with donations taken directly from their decision "is not in the best interest of children and the paycheoks. home environment that they need so desperately in Cynthia Watts Elder, director of the state’s such an amoral society." California. No Opposes.Gay adoptions Boy Scouts’ Anti-Gay Stance May Cost Charity Commission on Human Rights and OppOrtunities, said allowing the Boy Scouts to parti(ipate in the paycheck deduction program may violate Counecticut’s anti-discrimination laws. "Allowing the-Boy Scouts of America to benefit from a fundraiser that uses state-resources . . . including the solicitation in employees~ paychecks.., potentially makes the state a party to the discrimination," Elder wrote in a recent letter to the Connecticut State Employees’ Campaign for Charitable Giving comnllttee. The state also may prevent the United Way from giving the Boy Scouts any employee paycheck contributions not designated for a particular agency. ,Such donations are usually divided equally anzong all member charities of the United Way. The CHRO began examining the state’s United Way drive after the New Jersey Supreme Court found the Boy Scouts pblicy bhnning Gays was unconstitutional. Elder’s letter prompted the employees’ charity campaign committee last week to request .that the CtIR.O=defin~ the.committee! s legal respoff~ibil~tie~;a~step .whida official_ s sai~l N aney ~yman,,che S tate~l~p troller and h, membe r of the (ornm~ttee,~vants hergroup to reques~a Written statement from each parti.cipating ¢hari~z.ist~ting that it will comply with Cqnnecticut anti~di~crimii~ation laws. "I believe this matter to be of Such magnitude as to warrant exploration of the possibility of cessation of this year’s campaign funds to-the (Boy Scouts of America) ,, Wyman wrote in a letter to the commi ttee. Harry L. Pokorny, chief executive officer for tile Boy Scouts of America’s Three Rivers" Council in East Hartford, said his organization’s removal from MCC-United formerly ,Family-of Faith,& Greater Tulsa MCC Joined as one body of believers. ¯ Come celebrate With us. ....... 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Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You The board needed an opportunity to talk to its sake of their adopted son, who has since died of heart "_ failure. "They felt that it would be very strange to ¯ attorney and members needed more time look into the have their son grow up in a world where their legal ." matter, board member Maureen Aschoff told the relationship to him was recognized, but their ’ audience. ’’This is an important and complex issue," relationship to each other was not," said Bonauto, of : she said. But Kendra Huerd of People for the~ American the BOston-based Gay & Lesbian Advocates & : Defenders. ¯ Way, a legal defense organization also representing Their case uses three legal arguments, including ." the Students, said the delay violated federal law. the notion that marriage is a fundamental right. Iris " ’‘They have had plenty of time," she said. "They have to understand the consequences of their delay." also gateway to hundreds of rights andresponsibilities Codell and Ms,’ Huerd said a lawsuit against the and a unique status which designates the "person to ¯ board would be filed before the next meeting. call if I get hit by a bus," Bonauto said. StUdent Anthony Colin~ 15,proposed the dub as a. Although the legal battle has proved to be a : cumbersome process, therehas been growing support i place for all students at Fl Modena High School to disenss issues related to sexual orientation. for the plaintiffs as indicated by public opinion polls, Although reviewing proposed :campus clubs is Bonauto said. "People areinterested and engage~! and : they get the civil rights issue. And of course, some *, generally aroutine press, board meiffbers decided people don’t.:’ : to have a public vote after holding a"forum to get Because the case is predicated entirely on the state ¯ community feedback. The debate has lined up parents and religious leaders constitution, there will be no U.S. Supreme Court : review. The ruling, however, could prompt.other ’_ who say school is no place to deal with sexual issues states to begin mapping out their own strategies, said ¯ against those who say it is the perfect place to teach state Rep. Michael S. Pisaturo, who is one of two " tolerance. Jack Lewis., a parent of three children in the school openly Gay elected officials in the Rhode Island " Legislature. : district, pleaded with the board to not v ote for club. He For the last three years, he has filed bills asking for ¯ suggested the district bring a psychologist.in to ineet legalized marriage for Gays and Lesbians; but has " with students who want to talkabout sexual orientation. never called for a hearing or a vote on those bills. ¯ "I love my children enough to die for them," he told Instead, he plans to take action once the Vermont ¯ the board. "I am begging and pleading with the people who want to form this dub.., to let me be the father decision comes down. "I will continue to. introduce the bill until it is thelaw of theland," said Pisaturo, co- : of my two sons." But student Heather Zetin, 15, disagreed. ~’The chair of the event. ’’That is the promise I have made " to the Gay and Lesbian community of Rhode Island." : point of this .dub is about having a place to get But for now, his work remains a symbolic gesture. ¯ together to talk," the high school junior told board "Clearly, it’s going to be a long road,".he said. " members. ’!It’s not about sex, it’s not about recruiting ¯ or anything like tha.C’ ¯ After the board’ s Vote, which was met by boos from ¯ both sides, heated debates between Gay stndeiats and ¯ their parents and those opposed to dub broke out. A recorded church sermon by Pastor Rick Danna of ." BERLIN (AP)-Leading oppositionpoliticiaias called ¯ Anaheim was left on the Windshields of cars parked on Chancellor Gerhard Schroeder’s government to ¯ outside the school district’s offices. It advocated stop delaying on a campaign promise to grant legal ¯ respect for all people, but derided what it termed "the rights to Gay couples, but coalition members said the ¯ homosexual agenda." ruling parties are split over how far to go. Several people have suggested following the Former parliamentary president Rita Suessmuth, ~ example set by school officials in Salt Lake City, who who chairs the women’ s grouping in the conservative : in 1996 did away with student dubs rather than allow Christian Democratic Union, said in Welt am Sonntag : such an organization. The decision is being appealed that the government should create "a sensible ¯ in federal court. r.egulation for registered life partnerships", dealing with such tax and legal questions as inheritances. Guido Westerwelle, general secretary of the liberal Free Democrats, noted that the governing Social : LOS ANGELES (AP) - The City Council voted to Democrats and Greens promised before the September ¯ - extend rules for domestic partner benefits so they also 1998 election to introduce rights for Gay couples in ¯ apply to companies that do business with the city. An their first 100 days if elected. Instead, the partners : ordinance unanimously approved would require have brought to the matter "only vague, confused : municipal contractors that offer health msurance to ¯ workers and their spouses to also extend the benefits talk," he told the same newspaper. Justice Minister Herta Daeubler-Gmelin said in ¯ to their Gay, Lesbian and heterosexual domestic September she hoped to introduce a bill "soon" to : partners. grant some legal recognition to same-sex couples. "There are people like me, who have been in a But a leading Social Democrat in parliament, Dieter ¯ committed relationship for 20 years, and are not able Wiefelspuetz, told Welt am Sonntag there are "very ¯ togetbenefits," saidCouncilwomanJackieGoldberg, different positions" within the governing coalition on ¯ whois a Lesbian and author of the proposal. "It seems what should be included with the registered only a matter of fairness to offer to all workers the partnerships. benefits now offered only some." Greens lawmaker Volker Beck said the main point : Councilman Rudy Svorinich at first voted against of conflict is over granting Gay couples the right to : the proposal. That would have pushed adoption back adopt children, which his party favors but the Social ¯ one week. But he agreed to leave the chamber so the Democrats reject. ¯ council could pass the proposal unopposed and send ¯ it to Mayor Richard Riordan for consideration. Svorinich said he opposed it because some firms ¯ : might stop offering benefits to all their employees jus! ¯ to get out of the domestic partner rule. "It could end ¯" up hurting more people than it helps," he said. ORANGE, Calif. (AP) - School board members have Goldberg says she does not think firms will risk put off a vote on a Gay high school student’ s request i losing their workers by taking such a step. Riordan is to form a dub, prompting the teen’s attorneys:to say ¯ leaning toward approval but wants to study the they will sue because of discrimination. ¯ proposal’s impact, an aide said. "What’ s most disappointing about this is that this is : ’q]ae mayor will evaluate this through the lens of a school board entrusted with the education of these ~ equal opportunity and the fact that Los Angeles is the students, including civic virtues," said attorney David Codell. ’qqae example they should set for students is ¯ most diverse cityin thenation," Deputy Mayor Noelia : Rodriguez said. to follow the law." Under the rule, homosexual and heterosexual The Orange Unified School District voted 7-0 to ¯ domestic partners could seek benefits from employers consider the request Dec. 7 after an emotional meeting : that already offerhealthbenefits andhave city contracts attended by more than 300 parents, students and : worth at least $5,000. community leaders. Germans Debating Couples Recognition ¯ LAAdds Partner Benefits Students Sue School Board Over Gay Club �Fashion Show Goes to the Dogs Now there is a place to go: the new online treatment directory of the American Foundation for AIDS Research. Since 1985, the directory has been NEW YORK (AP) - Dogs took over the catwalk at the Kit Kat Klub for thenational " published in a book of hundreds of pages. launch of Canine Couture, a collection of " The foundation placed an expanded utilitarian fashions created by today’s : version of it online at www.amfar.org/td. leading designers for the 21st-century dog. ¯ Directory editors plan to update the online Canine Couture is part of fund-raising : version continuously; the printed version efforts by the Web site www.pets.com. It " will still be published twice a year. Dr. Kenneth H. Mayer, the director of will benefit the Design Industries the Brown University AIDS Program in Foundation Fighting AIDS and animal Pawtucket, R.L, said he has used the humane organizations. Nearly two dozen dogs wore fashions ¯ foundation’s printed directory smceit was createdbyleading designers DonnaKaran, ¯ first published. He said patients were coming to him asking about treatments . Todd Oldham, Carolina Hen’era, Isabel Toledo, Nicole Miller, Kate Spade, James " they had read about and he relied on the " book as a quick reference for analysis of Purcell and others. all medical claims. The runway show started late "because "There are some patients who will the makeup artist didn’t show up for the invariably .know more about the latest dogs," joked Julie Wainwright, CEO of treatment than the doctor," Mayer said. Pets.com. But as soon as the dogs - of all That is especially true if the patient is sizes and breeds - hit the catwalk, they seeing a doctor who only treats a few ruled the evening. Elite model Maggie Rizer - a familiar " )atients with HIV and AIDS, he said. The online directory will include Web face on the runways of New York, Paris, links to abstracts of original research, Milan and London - was among the saving the reader the time of going to a humans who accompanied big dogs, little medical library. An up-to-date listing of dogs, shy dogs and rowdy dogs as they clinical trials of ne~v treatments that are strutted their stuff. Seeking patients will also be on the site. Some of the doggie designs were "I can look up in the directory and find whimsical; others were practical. They out where clinical trials for new and ranged from a green sweater paired with a promising therapies may be found," Mayer big purple hat to a glittery collar andleash. said. During spring and summer 2000, the The online directory was launched in Canine Couture collection will tour the Philadelphia to coincide with the United States. The collection will be convention of the Infectious Diseases displayed in fashion shows held at Dog Society of America. Bob Huff, the Day AfternOon, a fun-filled day of - directory’s editor, said he has to remove. activities and contests for dogs and their some information from each editionof the pet owners. The event will be held in printed directory to keep it to amanageable Atlanta, Boston, Dallas/Fort Worth, Los size, something that will not be a problem Angeles, Minnesota, New York, San in cyberspace. Francisco, Seattle, Hartford, Conn., and Dr. Gary A. Noskin, the medical director Washington, D.C. of infection control and health care At the end of the tour, there will be an epidemiology at Northwestern University auction of the donated designs, with Medical Scheol in Chicago, said the timely proceeds benefiting DIFFA and animal nature of an online directory should be a humane organizations. hig asset. To ~,et something written, peerDavid Sheppard, executive director of reviewed and published takes a good year DIFFA, said the organization had raised to 15 montlas at a minimum," Noskin said. over $25 million for AIDS organizations Adding another delay with a twice-yearly since its founding in 1984. "DIFFA is publishing schedule would further hamper having its best y ear" , he said, thanks to getting reliable information, he said. organizations like Pets.corn Dr. G. Diego Miralles, who treats The online snpplier of pet products, patients at Duke University Hospital and information and services has a $1 million also serves as amedical adviser to Triangle Pets.commitme~nt Fund, which provides Pharmaceutica|s of Durham, N.C., said direct financial support to organizations there is already a lot of information about of two types: "people helping animals" AIDS and HIV on the Web. But, he said, and "animals helping people." this is the first site he knows of that puts so Wainwright said Pets .commitment was much information in one place. created because many of the organizations "Having one Web site where you can that bring people and animals toge@er"in do all your shopping in has got to be very special, life-changing ways are useful," Miralles said. "Physicians don’t underfunded, making it difficult for them haye much time to spend an hour cruising to fulfill their missions. the Web every day." Funds will go to shelter organizations, He also said many Web sites direct programs that train animals to assist and unsnspecting patients to quack treatments. support people, and organizations that As long as the foundation is careful about provide pet owners with expert care and editing its site, he said, it should be a wellness information. protection for consumers. Kevin Robert Frost, the foundation’s director of clinical research and information, said the site is intended for a wide variety of people, including doctors; PHILADELPHIA (AP)-, The AIDS nurses, social workers and sophisticated .patient Walks int0the doctor s Office with patients. But he said it has limits. a newspaper dipping about what appears The foundationreeommends thatpeople to be apromising experimental treatment. who have just been diagnosed with HIV The doctor, who only treats a few AIDS or AIDS should learn about the disease patients, has not heard of the treatment. from their doctors, social workers, support The patient wants to participate in groups and others first before turning to clinical trials of the experimental therapy. the Web site,.he said. Where can the doctor turn to find out "I think alot of human contact is what’s whether the treatment is appropriate and necessary," Mayer said. who is running the experiment? Online Treatment D rectory for HIV The More Change... Postage Stamp 1985 22¢ 1998 32, Min|mum Wage Average New Car Price 1985 $3.35 1998 $5.15 1985 $ 9,011 1998 $20,000 The More Things Sgay The Same. Average Price of Electricity Per Residential kWh 1985 6.4¢ A lot has changed since 1985. 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Compulsory licensing enables governments to provide medicines cheaply by licensing local firms to manufacture thedrugs using formulas patented by other compames. "Stop interfering with poor countries" efforts to increase access to essential medications," said Susan Whitaker, a spokeswoman for ACT-UP’s Philadelphia chapter, after leaving the building. Thailand and South Africa are among the countries that want to license companies to produce patented medicines if their manufacture is in the public interest. Repeated calls by. The Associated Press to the US Trade Representative’s office were not immediately returned. Four of the protesters chained themselves together at the wrists with their arms inside sections of plastic pipe, five inches in diameter and four feet long. District of Columbia firefighters were called to help Federal Protective Services guards saw through the pipes and cut the chains. Six men and four women from Pennsylvania and New Jersey were expected to be charged with urdawful entry, trespass and disorderly conduct all misdemeanors. "The government is going to prosecute them for executing their First Amendment Rights," said Thomas Rnffin, an attorney representing the protesters. Ms. Wqaitaker and another woman who left the building voluntarily will not be charged, officials said. So. African Official Defends .Policy President Thabo Mbeki told the legislature on Oct. 28 that there was significant evidence the drug was dangerous, a claim scoffed at by many researchers in South Africa and abroad ~ well as U.N. AIDS officials. AZT is one of the oldest and most established AIDS drugs and researchers consider it a significant weapon in preventing mother-child transmission. It is approved, in South Africa, the United States and scores of other countries. South Africa has one of the world’s worst and fastest-growing AIDS problems. Tshabalala-Msimang said that up to 4 million South Africans are infected with the virus that causes AIDS, compared to a previous government estimate of 3.6 million. That amounts to nearly one-tenth the population. Providing AZT, along with other drugs in the usual combination therapy, to all infected South Africans would far exceed the entire health budget, she said. Tshabalala-Msimang also cited studies on the effectiveness of preventing motherto-child transmission, noting that AZT reduced the risk for only a small number 6f newborns because up to three-quarters of babies born to HIV-positive mothers did not get the disease anyway. "We don’t know which babies will be in the healthy 75%, so we have to give the drugs to.all mothers with HIV/AIDS," she said. Exposing so many healthy babies to potentially toxic drugs was not justified, she said. But John Moore, an AIDS researcher at Rockefeller University in New York, said AZT’s toxicity to infants is poorly supported by evidence, and that treating children with AIDS is much more expensive than paying for AZT to prevent infection. South Africa’s health ministry is reviewing AZT’s safety, a review manufacturer Glaxo-Wellcome says is unnecessary. 10 million Chinese New HIV Infections BEIJING (AP) - Rampant prostitution and sharp increases in the incidence of sexual diseases are opening the door to AIDS in China, and unsafe sex could replace drug use as the main route of infection, state media reported recently. Without effective control and prevention, more than 10 million Chinese could be infected with the HIV virus that causes AIDS by the year 2010, up from an estimated 400,000 people now, the China Daily said, quoting Ministry of Health official Chen Xianyi. But with the correct measures, the number of HIV positive individuals could belimited to 1.5 million, Chen added, Police arrested 420,000 prostitutes and their clients in 1996, but that is only a tenth of the numbers involved in the illegal CAPETOWN, SouthAfrica (AP)- Citing concerns about the cost, side effects and effectiveness of drugs such as AZT, South Africa’s health minister on Tuesday defended the government’s refusal to provide the anti,AIDS drug through the public health system. Giving perhaps the most detailed explanation yet, of, her, reasons, Manto. Tshabalala-Msimang told Parliament the nation’s health policy rests on the "affordability and appropriateness" of. treating people with HtV or AIDS:- : -L Th_e govemmenL.must :"ensure~that w~.~ .~ polir~’~fi~ates. China"~so rep0~ied pro~cidethe peoplein our country who are~ living, wi~h-HIg/:AIDS :with.treatment, di~eas~ in 1998,an incr~as~’b~’J %~er that,,is .not: only :clinically, effective in~ Lg~.., butstill$_u,st a tdnth offlle:~e fi~e dealing with the progress of the disease: "’ rf not Mgiier, 0ie sfiat~niii ~fia News but also cost effectiv e, in terms of what we ~ Agency said. can afford," Tshabalala-Msimang said. ¯ So far, about 70% of the estimated There has been a major debate on AIDS ¯ 400,000 HIV positive individuals are treatments in South Africa, with : intravenous drug users, many of-whom researchers and AIDS activists calling on ¯ were infected by sharing needles. But, as ¯ the government to provide AZT to HIVin other parts of the world, unsafe sex infected mothers to prevent transmission ," could replace drug use as the main means to newborns. Activists ’also have called ¯ of infection in China. for the anti-retroviral drug to be provided to rape victims. �:, very "Greetings, folks, and a happy Yule &, silly Solstice to everyone! (Everyoneneeds: " a little silliness, now and then.) I would like to .take a moment tospeak: of a personal matter and to give thanks to: someone who deserves it: My mother had a heart attack and was hospitalized. The day I was leaving work to drive down to Fort Worth, something told me to look at the temperature gauge on my car; which was doing an unusual .,dance. I decided to have it checked, anda blown head gasket was the [~llal result: "Do NOT drive it on the freeway!’: being the warning of the mechalfi c. Given my history of relatives and friends going into hospital and not cormng out, or not too well if they did, I get a little nervous when loved ones good. Idisagreed with the Tulsa World’s assessment of Lewis Cleale’s Joe Gillis as being to weak a voice for the role, I thought he did well. And I am glad to report his is as nice as he is handsome. Pianist Jim Brickman ¯ go into hospitals. Tom Neal, editor, mid friend, graciously, loaned me the air fare :e get down there. ¯ And at an hour’s notice, ~t was not cheap. : That was ~va\ above mid be.vondcand I : wanted to mention it ¯ tte can, on occasion, be a pretty race : guy. Even if his entertai~m~ent writer’ sometimes utilizes his foibles for," humorous purposes. So now ~ have to be : tnce - which is ~dnd of frustrating, since ". iherc goes my best material. I was at’rai’d I’d have nothing to write ~ about tkis month. Not ;o... the sun has set ¯ on Sunset Boulevard, but the ~nemories ," shali ahvavs remain. . The day ! showed l’etuh| Clark to her dressing room - she walked in, in ftdl.: Nonna Desmond drag - long flowing. leopard skin print coat with black cnffs : and collar, black pant suit, darksunglasses, : ,’rod yes - a turban. Black ruff, leopard skin : prini, of course. Playing Norma since. 1996 would have ,an effect, l suppose. : "’And now, Mr. DeMille.. I’m ready for : my dresdng room." . outh Boston Company, ¯ one of Tulsa’s newer and interesting galleries, which is h:~,ated at 1730 S. Boston (584-7000) is showing the work of IrishAmerican artist, Jon Michael Riley, along with other works by Shan Goshorn, David ° llalperu, Grog Roach and others. :~. Rilev’s. images of the Irish landscape and monuments, frequently with enigmatic nude male or female fignres ,are striking, lovely works which, make you wistf, no disrespect to the other artists, that the entire show had been :levoted to his work. Studying in the US and France, Riley took a Master’s Degree at New York University’.s Graduate Institute of Film & Television has had a career in both film and in still photography, fie produced three major one man shows at the Soho I noticed that some interesting "Clarkisms" scooped notes, adding an extra note here and there increased during Petula’s numbers over the performances: Opening night was her strongest perfonnance; _as the run progressed she was stIaining for sonic of those notes. Insofar as backstage gossip goes, I was witness to one "star" fit that was just amazing to behold. Petula IS the greatest star of all -just ask her, she’ll tell you. She did inake an apology of sorts later¯ I heard of a couple of other tantrums, as well. As oue person remarked,"So, you met Petulm~t. ’ The next shows at the PAC will be the usual rounds of holiday shows: ATC’s Christmas Carol; "i’ulsa Ballet’s Nutcracker (_’,all 596-7111 for dates mid times ]he ever handsome pianist Jim Brickmau wil! be perfolming at the PAC on the tenth. I look forward to watching his fingers fickle the ivories, and listening to him pla.,, the pimlo, too. His work is so~ne of the most beauti ful I’ve heard in a long time. Don’t miss this one. 596-7111 for tickets¯ I’m looking forward to Peter Buffeli’s "’Spirit: A Journey in Dance, Drum, and Song, Jannary 3 and 4th, 200(; at the Brady Theatre. It’s a wonderful show, and having corn ersed with Peter, I only wish he were performing at the PAC and Petulant had been at the Brady. I’m wondering if the Clmstjolm that was listed on the video and CD as one of the Iroquois Singers will be traveling with the troupe. That would be ironic... Photo Gallery between 1974 and 1978. In addition, tfis ;xork was included in several group shows and was published in the photographic press. He began, with his spouse, a photo-imaging business. concentratihg on corporate/industrial & advertisin g accounts. In the mid-90’s, Riley began to return to his artistic roots, spending less time with demanding commercial assignments and more time with l~is Own art. The images in the SoBo exhibit sprang from a trip to Ireland which involved family history along with other Irish subjects. The work, still unfinished, is being shown in galleries across the USA and work is in progress for the book version of the show entitled "Ireland: Spirits in the Land". Check out www.irishimage. om in January 2000. the First Annual \. \ ,:g’. , ",, "\ loliday Home Tour December ~ ,_, .TOHR 1999 , 12 pm -5 pm ~ ~ti :k~ts: $5.00 & on sale now~ tickets als~ a~i~ fie ~ the houses, the day of the tour c~ll ~ .74~4297 for more information :~H~ ~ay~ception & Silent Auction ~e~9~be~,11, 1999 / 6 pm- 9 pm Tulsa, Ga~Com~unity Se~ices Center ...~ 1~07 ~ 38t~ Street (38th & Peoda) Parade of Lights. Come celebrate the spirit of the holiday season at the PSO Christmas Parade of Lights. Saturday, December 11, Downtown Tulsa at 6 p.m. View parade floats up close. FridaY, December 10. at. the ttoliday?est (Brady Arts District) from 6-9 p.m. Public Service Company of Oklahoma A Cen~al and South West Company �Illl Tulsa Parents,. Families and Friends of Lesbian~ and Gays (PFLAG) ~nd TOHR, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights invite you to a Community. Holiday Dinner & Dance Monday, December 13th The Silver Star Saloon 1565 So. Sheridan !~ SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming); Service - 6pro, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Uni~ersalist Congregation Service - 11am, 2545 S. Yale, 749:0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 11am, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, 11am, 1623 North Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45mn, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 11am, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance 6:30 pro, Meets at the United Ministry Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~" MONDAYS Dinner at 6:45, Dancing at 8pm Dance Instruction by Bobby Davis Pot Luck Diq~,.er, ReaseBring: A-H, Vegetable, I-P, Salad, Q-Z, Dessert Turkey, ham, soft drinks, and place settings provided, Cash bar. Must be 21 or older, Anon-smoking event. Mixed Volleyball, Helmerich Park, 7lst & Riverside, 6pm, call Shawn at 243-5190. HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anony~nous testing. No.appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E Admiral (east o|" Harvardl aIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pro, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mon/each too. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, "call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for times, info: 748-3888. I~" TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, "call tbr next meeting, date. 1430 S Boulder, .585-5.551 Live And Let Live, Conm~mfity of Hope United Methodi~l, 7:30pm, 25-1.5 S "~~Lle American Theatre Co. presents its holiday classic A Christmas Carol Dec. 9-22, 596-7111 Tulsa Performing Arts. C~nter;i. ’~ " Multicultural AIDS Coalition, cal! for ucx~ mectin~date. Urban League, 240 FAst Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 381h Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pm. Pride Center. 1307 E. 38th~ info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pro. 3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more informatmn, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), (.’all for i~ffo: 595-7632 Lambda A-A, 7 pm, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~" THURSDAYS Holiday at Harwelden Sunday, December 12 Noon - 3pm, $5 Guided Tours of Harwelden Proceeds to benefit the Campaign for Harwelden 2210 Si Main, 584-3333 Arts & maniti Council 9f’-I lsa HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pro 834-8378. 350"7 E. Adnfiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN Support/social ~oup for 18-24"s. call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-2325 Substauce Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV ~AIDS, hffo: 834-4194 ~ FRIDAYS SafeHaven, Youug Adnlts Social Group, I st ["ri each too. 8pro, Pride Cir.. 1307 E 381h ~" SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pro, Conmmnity Of I1op~:,1703 E. 2nd. Info: 585-18(X) Lambda A-A, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2ndfi( I~’ OTHER GROUPS T.U~L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, i~ffo: 298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Womens Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization Long rides & short rides from . Zeigler Park. Long & short rides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 If your organization is not listed, plea~e !et us b~ow. Call 583-1248 or fax 583-461A �ALBANY, N,Y. (AP) - Pulitzer Prize- : problems between the lines. "I have no winning author E. Annie Proulx calls ¯ Solutions. I’m not a futurologist," she herself a"professional outsider" and says : said, adding that her business is merely to she plans to continue visiting rural ¯ note conditions as they are. communities .facing economic hardship .’ Nonetheless, Proulx added, some of for use as settings in. her her stories, including fiction. "The Shipping News," ~[one] short story, Proulx pens her work have foreshadowedactual -in Wyoming, but as an Brol~ebael~ Mo.nta;n, events. itinerant novelist and And a short story, about two Gay short-story writer seeking "Brokeback Mountain," cowboys who cannot about two Gay cowboys new backdrops, finds herself attached to no who cannot consnmmate consummate particular home. "I’m their love because they literally rootless and live in a vehemently their love because moving on," she said in a homophobic culture, also they live in a recent interview. ’q’here matched elements of the are no ceremonies. There later attack on Matthew vehemently Shepard. The beating and are no tears of regret. homophobie culture, subsequent death of the There’s always another place and that’s where my student took place also matched elements college heart is." 25 miles from where Proulx, known for her of the later attack on Proulx writes. fragmented prose full of Proulx said prescience Matthew Shepard. is common among regional vocabulary and writers. She said it merely rich landscape The beating and description, says her next stems from paying close subsequent death of attention to what’s going stop may be Saskatchewan logging on, like knowing that a t[~ college student communities. She won bunch of clouds will roll in after seeing a few the Pulitzer Prize, the took place fingers of clouds in the NationalBookAwardand 25 miles from where sky. other major honors for her Proulx’ s remarks came 1993 "The Shipping Proulx writes." in a question-and-answer News," a tale about a session before an third-rate newspaperman audience at the State University at Albany, set in Newfoundland. She is a descendant following a reading sponsored by the New of CanadianS, and has traveled to the country frequently. York State Writers Institute. Her work, "Close Range: Wyoming Proulx examines rural areas where traditional economic structures collapse. Stories," which contains "Brokeback But don’t expect answers to the economic Mountain," was published this year. LONDON (AP) - Tennessee Williams’ "A Streetcar Named Desire" plays a crucial role in "All About My Mother." But it’s not for that reason alone that viewers might .be tempted to think of Spanish writer-director Pedro Almodovar’s new film as the" foreign-language script the quintessentially American Williams never wrote. Like Williams, Almodovar is a Gay man who writes beautifully for women, not to mention for fragile, damaged men whose poetic souls exist to be bruised. Bruises and wounds - both physical and psychological - proliferate during "All About My Mother," alongsideabelief in the power of what might be called ’*the sisterhood" to provide some balm. The result is that time-honored genre, a "woman ~ s picrate,, giv en a contemporary, even timdess spin.~Small wonder .that~this ~ fil~ has~..promptextitalk.of:, an~Acaden~y~ ~Should~that: ,happen;r~,Atmodovar, s, newfbund.!statu~ ,will ha~e be~ aehie~zed~ at adi.sc~mible eosL~For all.its emhraee, o~ people on the margins of society, "All About My Mother" lacks the sheer irreverence and zest of the f’flmmaker’s ~career-maldng "Women On the Verge of a Nervous-Breakdown" more than adecade ago. Few will question the sexual politics of this latest film. The new movie is a model of good behavior compared, say, to Almodovar’ s’q~ie Me Up! Tie Me Down!" - the un-PC title of which sparked its own mini-revolution before people had even seen the movie. By contrast, "Al! About My Mother" bespeaks a new sobriety in a director whose outrageousness was once inseparable from his charm. That’s why this time one can welcome the maturity of an artist even as one hopes next time for a healthy dollop of his childlike glee. Not that this movie offers much to be gleeful about.. From the start, Manuela (Cecilia Roth) clearly couldn’t be closer to her son, Esteban (Eloy Azarin), and marks his 17th birthday by taking him to a performance in Madrid of "Streetcar." The outing is a triumph, not least in the performance of Huma Rojo-(Marisa Paredes), the fiery stage diva cast as Blanche. Emotions intensify when ’Manuela informs her son that she once played~Blanche’ssister, Stella;inabygone pr0duction opposite the Stanley Kowalski who s:theboys now absenffather.So lt~;s doubly cruel, when.Est~ban’-:.a sensitive: young man in love with lite~ature:: is struck by a car and killed inhismad dash for Rojo’s autograph. What ensues is an upheaval for Manuela, who relocates to Barcelona to fred her son’s father and inform him of the boy’s death. That quest brings her to the socalled "Field"- an outdoor crmsing ground - and the violent and lonely world of that city’s drag scene. The grieving mother is unexpectedly The Second Annual Progressive Alliance Summit The State Capitol Oklahoma City Saturday, January 15th 2000 Join activists from many different progressive movements from across the state for skills and coalition building. Keynote Speaker: Frosty Troy The Oklahoma Observer For more information or for reservations contact Planned Parenthood in Tulsa at 918-587-7674 or Keith Smith at The SmithGroup: 405-840-2219 I Hostile fi’om across the dice: You can hel �¯ Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal LaW & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 .East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. RESTAURANT AT PHILBROOK TUES-SUN, I I-2 $13.95 ¯ Sunday, II to l ¯ Reservations, 748-5367 she has modest hopes. "Nothing has been more important to me than asking for my children in every possible way," she said regardless of how deep the emotional ." in a telephone interview. ¯ bond. The next major ruling on the issue may Massachusetts’ highest court, in ¯ come in New Jersey. The state Supreme contrast, granted visitation rights in June " Courtplans hearings this fallonan appeals to a Lesbian who helped raise her ex- ¯ court’s split decision granting a Lesbian partner’sson.Thew0manwasa"defacto" : visitation rights to her former partner’s parent, saidthecourt, winmngpraisefrom ¯ twin toddlers. The twins,, a boy and girl, Gay civil rights groups were born two years after for asserting that "~re want courts to the women began living nontraditional families together., and the plaintiff force our deserve legal respect. The shared child-rearing Massachusetts judges duties with the biological families to play were venturing into.alegal mother. Each took turns vacuum; one dissenting changing diapers, picking by the very same justice condemned the up the twins from day riding as an unwarranted care, rocking them to rules that step toward endorging sleep. same-sex marriages, heterosexual To date, virtually every Courts in many other high-profile court case couples have been states have sided regarding children of categorically with the same-sex partners has forced to play by biological mother in such involved Lesbians, not disputes, ruling that Gay men. That could for decades," estranged Lesbian change, however, as says Kate Kendell, partners have no more liberalized adoption legal right to demand policies expand the ranks executive director visitationthanalong-t~rm of Gay fathers. nanny or close family Although many Gay of the National friend. civil rights groups have "rlae courts aren’tused intervened in the court Center for to looking at people cases to espouse the Lesbian Rights in without a biological validity of same-sex relationship as being a partnerships, they would San Francisco. child’s parent," says prefer that couples avoid Michael Adams, litigation. This summer, "We don’t want associate director of the an alliance of groups American Civil Liberties anytkln~ special or published guidelines for Union’s Lesbian and Gay same-sex couples, urging civil rights project. "We different." those who want children are forced to work within to agree in advance on laws passed by legislatures that simply how to solve problems that might arise if never considered these circumstances, and they separate. Options vary from state to wecangetsome veryunfortunateresults." state, but it is often possible for a partner Gay civilrights activists don’tcontend to become a legal parent through that every ex-partner’s demand should be guardianship or adoption. granted. But they do want courts at least to "There are ways to resolve these things consider whether requested visitation outside of court," says Mary Bonauto, a rights might be in a child’s best interest. Bostonlawyer whodrafted the guidelines. "We want courts to force our families to "We have a legal system that for the most play by the very same rules that part does not acknowledge the legal heterosexual couples have been forced to existence of our families. So it’s important play by for decades," says Kate Kendell, that we honor our own agreements." executive director of the National Center - Bonauto, civil rights director for Gay for Lesbian Rights in San Francisco. "We and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, don’t want anything special or different." says children of same-sex couples, and In Crandell’s case, the Cfiiifornia the Gay civil rights movement, can be SupremeCourtinJulyletstandanappeals losers when a case goes to court. "It is court ruling against her. The lower court extremely damaging to our commumty said no legal grounds exist for granting and our families when we disavow as visitation rights to a nonparent over the insignificant the very relationships for biological mother’s objection, which we are seeking legal and societal "It’s the height of irony, given that respect," she wrote in the guidelines. California has perhaps more Lesbian As a positive example, Bonauto cites couples raising children than any other .JoyceKauffman, aLesbian-rightslawyer state," Kendall says. "We’re not talking in Boston who settled a child-custody aboutlive-ingirlfriends. We’renottalking dispute with her former partner without about a nanny. We all kngw a parent when litigation. we see one- someone who read a child Kauffman gave birth to her daughter, storiesatnight, whochangedtheirdiapers, Becca, as a single mother 15 years ago, who was there day in, day out, nurturing and soon afterward began a relationship and caring." that lasted four years. When the partners Crandell,now 43,andher partner started broke up~ and realized how distraught the: livingtogetherin 1985whenthepartner’s child was, they decided to continue codaughter was almost 3. Two years later, parenting. For thepast 10 years, Becea the partner gave birth to another daughter has spent half of each week with each of by artificial insemination. The couple the women, who live a few blocks apart. joinflyraisedthetwogidsuntilseparating "My daughter still calls both of us in1990.In 1994 the ex-partner demanded Morn," Kauffman says. "It was not my that Crandell cease her periodic visits, favorite thing to do, to deal with my exThe court ruling means Crandell cannot partner all the time. But I didn’t feel I had see the children until they mm 18. They any right to curtail my daughter’s are now 17 and 12. relationship with her. I felt morally it Crandell hasn’t ruledout trying to take would have been wrong." her case to the U.S. Supreme Court, though see Morns, p. 14 �Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing by Esther Rothblum, Ph.D. : labeled as traitors, as fence-sitterS, makeHow do Lesbians. feel about Bisexual "" up-your-mind-you-haven’t-come-yet women?Havethesefeelingschangedover : thdt’s where [hose stereotypes come time? I asked Paula Rust, from." a professor of sociology "~ueer really ]aas But with younger at the State University of generations of women two meanings. One there is more adherence New York at Geneseo, who has conducted to Queer polities. "With meanhag ~s that research ~on Bisexuality younger people,:the word ever since she was a an umbrella term. ¯ queer’ is close to what graduate student. ’Gay’ meant to women It ~melu~les - anyone who "I had been out five or came out earlier, six years by the time I before Lesbianfeminism" was in graduate school," she explained. "One of she said, "and what the goals of Gay liberation interested me was how the was to work towards the world- looked different goal of sexual orientation when you’ rein a different no longer mattering. The traditional sex an~ social location. All of a whole point was not to be sudden I could see ~ender eat~o~es. proud of being a Lesbian, heterosexual privilege but instead there was a The ot~er mean~n~ focus on breaking down everywhere. The world qooked different. But once the distinctions so that it ls almost doesn’t matter who you I was in the Lesbian contra~ctlon to t~e sleep with. But in fact community, I began to see the same kinds of societal discrimination dynamies~ Some people proved that the distinction reject other people does matter. So Lesbian because of their social feminists built -up location." At a personal categorical boundaries level, Paulabeganhaylng between heterosexuals do~ those very an affair with a man and and Lesbians, and thatleft Bisexual women out in identifying as a Lesbian. cathodes. So "I was keeping that the cold." ~uestlon ls, relationship hidden the Paulafeels that theidea " same way that most of Queerness is somewhat ~uee~ a way to similar to the original idea heterosexual womenkeep of Gay liberation, of their relationships with ln~lude Bl~exuals working towards a dme other women.hidden. The ~ one 0~ many when the boundaries similarity reallystruck don’t matter, and where me." The relationship ~roups, or who you sleep with ended, but the result of doesn’t define yourBlsexualhy part o~ this was that Paula began sexuality, "Queer really to study prejudice and the ~ueer has two meanings. One boundaries within the meaning is that it’s an Lesbian community. Her movement umbrella term. It includes dissertation was on anyone who doesn’t fit "controversial issues into what might be within the Lesbian t~e removal considered traditional sex community," including and gender categories. how Lesbians felt about The other meaning is Bisexual women. almost in contradiction to "The tension is the ¯ the first. This meaning focuses on queer strongest among the Lesbian feminist generation," she said. "These are the as a way of breaking down those very women who came out in the 1970’s. They ¯ categories. So the question is, is ’queer’ a ¯ way to include Bisexuals as One of many came out in a feminist context where they viewed Lesbianism and feminism as ¯ groups, or is Bisexuality part of the queer interrelated. Becoming a Lesbian wasn’t ¯ movement which has as its end goal the just a personal stance. It had to do with a "_ removal of all categories?" ¯ In general, Paula thinks that Lesbians political awakening ." ¯ Paula feels that for that generation of ¯ are a littleless threatened than we used to be about Bisexuality, and therefore more women, heterosexuality is "sleeping with the enemy." Heterosexual women were : abletoopenupourownboundaries. Also, not to be trusted; they had benefits due to ¯ she sees Bisexuality becoming more of a be being in relationships with men. "Being : political identity and so there is less Bisexual was not only keeping your foot : concern that including Bisexuals will in the door of heterosexual privilege, but, ¯ "water down" the polities of Lesbians. For further reading, see Paula Rnst’s even worse, wanting the best of both : worlds. So Bisexual women were in some ." books: "Bisexuality and the Challenge to ways even more suspect than heterosexual ¯ Lesbian Politics: Sex, Loyalty and women. With heterosexual women you .. Revolution"(New York University Press, 1995) and "Bisexuality in the United could always come up with the excuse that they don’t know any better yet. But a i States: A Social Science Reader" Bisexual woman is more threatening ¯ (Columbia University Press, in press). because she knows what the alternative is : " Esther Rothblum is Professor of but still chooses to be involved in ¯ Psychology at the University of Vermont ¯ heterosexuality or to say that she’S willing and Editor of the Journal of Lesbian to go that way. And that’s threatening to : Studies. She can be reached at Dewey Lesbians who see sexual orientation as a ¯ Hall, Univ. of Vermont, Burlington, VT, political decision. So Bisexuals were ¯ emaih esther.rothblum@uvm.edu. wl~o Jo~,n’t f~t ~to ~t m~t ~ f~t. Th~ m~. fo~u~ o~ qu~ Want to get involved? Needto get tested for HIV? 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On Tanna, every, fam il y owns arrive until January 1, between a set of distinct personal --- ..... names (say, David, 2001, since there was no "~ year 0. But the rest of :us ¯odometer MichiieI, "~ Eugene) that-parents:, perpetualIy know the’",mn!l-0fmulfiple . zeros, we ve all yelled to-,," calendar re’rid us. recycle; one generation passengers inthebackseat’ to-ttie next. N0 matter that we conceive - toleanover and watchour What ,year, what century,. cars’ Odometers hi~thebig or what millennium it is, of time in there is always a David, 100,000 miles spatial terms. elderly Honda-knockon and a Michael, and a Eugene alive at any The years from 1 200,000 sometime in moment. Islanders don’t quite think that they are 2000.) When all those zeros line up on the identical with their previous namesakes, odometer, or on the timeline. And calendar, we figure we although they do use the individuafly, our must have passed some first person pronoun T notablemilestone. talking about lives feel like they when Parallels between something a namesake odometer and caleudar are composed of a did perhaps 200 years remind us that we ago. Because their time Conceive of time in spatial series of annual does notmove, this makes terms. The years from 1 to good sense. The past is steps, We move 2000 form a timeline. And also the present, and it is individually, our lives feel future, too. through time as ff theLocal understandings like they are composed Of a series of annual steps. of lime thus directly shape we are walking notions of who we are. We move through time as across a landscape. if we are walking across a Unlike Tanna, our ’American lineal time landscape. This llne, however, models require that we TNs line, however, is ’forward and that not the only way to is not the only way move 1999 be followed by 2000 perceive time. We also and not, say, by the year someumes think of time to perceive time.,.. 413 or maybe 6001. as a circle. The watch is The current Likewise, we can’t go married to the calendar. backwards - just always Time can ,go around and and only onwards. We around, like the hands on. ’Western ealendar~ who believe that time :a watch~ or it can progress and assoeiated progresses sequentially onwards onajourney,like years on the march of time. spatial metaphors~ along a line, also believe in the possibilities of Hours of the day, days of have spread individual development. the week, .months and Nowadays, we may be seasons of the year.move around the globe - postmodern but we still in cycles Years, on the Other hand, are a series of although it won’t entertain a deep, touching faith in individual irreversible, one-way be the year 2000 steps into the future. perfectibility. As outlives flow along the timeline, The current Western everywhere." we work to develop calendar, and associated ourselves our spatial metaphors, have kiaowledge; our skills, our capacities.spread around the globe - although it during this "journey" through life. won’t be the year 2000 everywhere. Some people believe m multiple According to the Jewish calendar, we are journeys, in recycling lives. Like the way beyond the 2nd and into the 6th seasons, Wekeep going aroundand around millennium. The upcoming year will be again. If Shirley MacLaine, in some of her 5760. And it’s 1421 for ’Muslims, 4698 past lives, was a man, then you too ~nay for the classical C~nese, and the 1 lth have bounced from one sex back to the year ofthe Heisei Era nowadays in Japan. other. And, if you are Gay or lesbian now, These other ways of counting and then you are also Straight, or bi, or conceiving timeexistalongside Europeanderived models. My neighbors on Tanna, whatever in both your past and your future. Lineal models of life’ s journey demand a small island in the South Pacific-nation that we dis cover and work on our identities of Vanuatu, have learned, like us, to ¯tell tim~ and count fire years. Bm th,ey also a~ W~e thke our one walk down that.timeline. : ~,’w !, .: ?. o. . : L ~ ............ ¯ still retain, a traditioiaal .appr~c.’iati6,n :of It" s the-o~lffe we ~e got, or.so finfeoth’~/’diffe,i!s markeRly from Our o~’fl: ifiS~i.aperdei4ing their INes as moving alqng a:line tl!a{ P0ints"relenfiessiy.igto ifi:timK. Maybe ~6u aren! t.just Gii~f;~.¢ jffst the’future, time.6n Tanna goes hoWhei~e. S~t~ii~ht? P~flihp~s y0ff~Gay~ia The local word for .day-after-tomorrow millennium but Straight in the 3rd? Or al~o means day-bef0re-yesterday. The your brother is heterosexual this time, but word for the distant future also means .the next time around he’s family. So, whether ’distant past. Pas t and future merge into the you travel in circles or down a line, happy same thing. Temporarily, islanders occupy year 2000, and 5760, and 1421. and 4698, an unchanging space. Their days and years and 11. cycle around, but their time as a whole Lamont Lindstrorn, Ph.D. teaches anthropolqgy at the University of Tulsa. does not move forwar& "Parallels IGTA.member Red Rock Tulsa O,RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network ¯ Outreach Progrmn Thurs. 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Almodovar has dedicated the filmto actresses who over the years have played actresses - Gena Rowlands and Bette Davis, among them. (Davis’ name isn’t the only evocation of "All About Eve.") But it’s the performers within the film, many of them drawn from this director’s informal troupe of players, who dearly dominate a story that inlesser hands could have devolved into kitsch. Instead, for all of its talk of solitude, "All About My Mother’~ movingly insists upon a shared compassion. It’s as if the film’s import is too weighty for Almodovar’s one-time antics. For all of its emphasis on death, the movie believes in life. saying doing so would legitimize the church law he was accused of violating. He pronounced the trial "corrupted, contaminated.., illicit," and implored the jury during the 90-minute trial to refuse to reach a verdict. "I believe the law that prohibits pastors from celebrating holy unions with Gay and lesbian couples is an unjust and immoral law," he said. His actions have plunged the church’s 9.5 million members into a bitter debate over its doctrine. Rew Gregory Ddl, a United Methodist minister from Illinois suspended for marrying two Gay men, said he was saddened by the verdict. "It suggests how deeply the polarization has gone in the church," he said. Bishop William Grove, who presided over Creech’s trial, said he saidhe worries the controversy will further divide the church. "Nobody takes any joy in this d~iy." he said. "We think the church did what it was called on... to do." -Creech first touched off a controversy within the church when he performed a union ceremony for a Lesbian couple in his Omaha congregation in 1997. After a trial, a church tribunal decided not to act against him, leaving it unclear whether a ban on performing "same-sex commitments" carries the weight of church law. The church’s Judicial Council has since ruled that it does. After that trial, Creech was not reappointed to his pulpit but remained a member of the clergy. Kauffman’is frustrated by the tactics some Lesbian mothers use to oppose visitation rights. "We’ve been working so hard for so many decades to gain respect," she says. "Then to have people withi~t our own community use homophobic law against other Gay and Lesbian people that really troubles me. If we don’t respect oug own.relationships, how can we expect other people to respect- them?" (McKiuney) agreed to it. Even if it was our idea, he agreed to it. He had that choice. He definitely did." The day of the jury’s verdict, Nov. 3, Mrs. Shepard said she and Dennis learned that the defense team wanted to speak with them. She said she and her husband were skeptical but met with McKiuney’s attorneys that afternoon. For her, the meeting was difficult. "Even though, intellectually, you know they arejust doing their job, emotionally you wonder how in the world they can defend him," she said. "Just by association they become as despicable as he is." When the defense proposed that McKinney would agree not to speak with the press, she thought, "Oh my God, how great is that?" Defense attorney Jason Tangeman, citing the agreement, declined to comment further about the case. Rerucha said the Shepards’ involvement in the case was what the Legislature envisioned when it established the Victim’s Bill of Rights. He said Judy Shepard was instrumental in changing his mind about pursuing the case further but the ultimate decision was his. "The buck stops here," he said. TOHR incurred only about $75 in filing fees and copy costs. The attorney time was donated pro bone. Lewis noted that it was nice for TOHR to get this issue behind them. "The landlord was very aggressive, and theTOHR Board had to spend too much time and worry over an issue that could have been easily and amicably resolved. The Board is looking forward to spending that time and worry on more important issues in the community." Local activists, TOI-IR president Greg Gatewood and board member, Kerry Lewis attended the 12th annual "Creating Change" conference,, sponsored by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, and came back pledging to get more from Oklahoma to future events. Creating Change is the annual political gathering and skills-building conference of the GLBT movement and was held in Oakland, Califor.nia. Next year’s conference will be hdd in Atlanta. An address by U.S. Rep. Barbara Lee, who reminded attendees that GLBT people throughout much of thenation face danger and discrimination on a daily basis. "In our human rights movement, we certainly have come a long way oyer the past 20 years," said Rep. Lee, an Oakland Democrat. "In cities such as San Francisco, New York and West Hollywood, and of course Oakland, it is easier to live freely for most Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay and Transgendered people. . Unfortunately, however, not all enjoy this right. In other parts of our country, many of our brothers and sisters still live with the fear that if they choose to live freely, their own lives are endangered. Our work is very clear: we have to work to build a society that values every life regardless of sexual preference or orientation." Former religious right ghostwriter, the Rev. Mel White, leader of SoulForce. 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(;all to meet local guys tonight! : This is particularly disturbing since the : number of reporting agencies for 1998 ¯ decreased from 11,211 to 10, 461, with : two fewer states reporting, as wall. Hate Henry Hyde, R-Ill., Senate Judiciary Chairman Orrin Hatch, R-Utah, and House ~ crimes based on sexual orientation Speaker Dennis Hastert, R-IlL, among : continue to make up the third highest ¯ category of those reported to the FBI after others. "Speaker Hastert and Chairman Hyde were dearly movedby the Shepards, ¯ race and religio~ The defeat of HCPA ignores but uafortunately it did not translate into overwhelming public support for hate any concrete steps on their part," Birch said. " crime legislation. A February 1999 Gallup In July, the Senate passed the Hate ," aoll showed that 70% of Americans are in favorof tougher hate crime laws. Since Crimes Prevention Act forthe first time as 1998~ when an African American, James part of the Commerce, State, Justice B yrd Jr., w as tied to the back of a truck and appropriations bill. dragged to death bywhite supremacists in Tulsans, Tony Orr andTim Beauchamp Jasper, Texas - several ~high-profile hate who had been victims of ahate motivated crimes have shocked our country. The assault at the State Bank ATM on HCPA would extend current federal hate Brookside went to Congress and Orr crimes protection - which covers race, testified before a Congressional religion, color and national origin - to subcommittee about ",heir experience. gender, sexual~rientation and disability. The House version of the bill did not HCPA would serve as a tool to help law include HCPA. The GOP leadership enforcement by allowing federal omitted HCPA in conference, where a assistance, when necessary, in the compromise between the House and investigation and prosecution of hate Senate versions of the Commerce, State, crimes. HCPA has broad support from Justice bill was crafted. President Clinton notable law enforcement agencies and vetoed the bill~ in-part because it did not state and local Icaders including 22 state include the Hate Crimes Prevention Act. attorneys general, the Police Foundation Following the veto, a coalition of and the National Sheriff’s Association " organizations rallied to revive the bill. HRC organized a press conference on Capitol Hill that featured Dennis and Judy Shepard and Wyoming law enforcement officials. Sens. Jim Jeffords, R-Vt., and "Gandhi and King remind us that our Gordon Smith, R-Ore., spoke at the event. only task is to reconcile," White said. as well as Rep. Mark Foley, R-Fla. "You help the spirit of truth by learning to "Senator Edward Kennedy has led the love your enemy., we have to learn to way on this effort and has worked tirel es sly love each other. We have to learn to to see that hate crime victims and their reconcile with each other. We have to quit families will be protected and treated calling each other names. It is the only equally," said Birch. "In addition we way that we can save our world from applaud the dedication of so many’ other disaster." outstanding leaders, including Senate Cited for special awards this year were ,Minority Leader Tom Daschle, D-S.D., two groups and one individual. Harry Rep. John Conyers, D-Mich., Sen. Gordon Hay, a veteran activist and icon of the Smith, R-Ore., House Minority Leader early Gay movement, was honored for his. Richard Gephardt, D-Mo., and Rep. Mark work and his courage. And two local Foley, R-Fla." groups - the Kentucky Fairness Alliance Additionally, HRC launched a paid and the Fairness Campaign of Louisville advertising campaign to support HCPA. - were cited for their work in passing HRC also produced two public service several nondiscrimination ordinances in announcements (PSA) featuring Judy Kentucky. Shepard, mother of murdered hate crime This year’s Creating Change was victim and Gay college student, Matthew sponsored with the help of Gay.corn, Shepard. Pacific Bell, PlanetOu.t, Wells Fargo One of the PSA’s, Parenthood, has Mrs. Foundation, HERO Magazine, Harvey Shepard ending the piece with the words: Milk Foundation, The Advocate, "I loved Matt just the way he was. Just the BREATH/American Lung Association, way he was." Kaiser Permanente, Lesbian.corn, Olivia InTulsa, CBS affliate, KOTV, Channel Cruises and Resorts, AT&T, Pacific Gas 6 is the only station to air a spot. PSA’s & Electric, Chevron and Port of Oakland. typically air late at night when stations American Airlines was the official carner have unsold advertising air time. However, for Creating Change. a Channel 8, KTUL representative said A Gay Men’ s Singles Group scheduled that although it did not appear that they had received.a copy of the pieces, they ~ its first meeting on the 1st Thursday in December from 6:30 - 7:30 at the Gay would be willing to air them. HRC press Community Center. The group presents representative, Anabel Evora, indicated itself as an alternative to bars, the Net, or that HRC would provide the station with being alone. Future meetings will be a copy. Likewise, a spokespers0n, for announced. Call 743-4297 for more KJR.H, Channel 2 said that station would be willing to review and consider airing " information. the PSA’s. HRC’s continues, "the GOP’s thwarting of. this legislation comes just as the.FBI released new statistics ~howing a rise ~n which provided refreshments for the hate crimes against Gay and Lesbian Americans. According to the FBI’s ¯ reception, Saint Monica Catholic Church Uniform Crime Reports for 1998 - the ¯ from which the march began, Junior latest year for available statistics - hate ¯ Chamber Mission Inn Foundation for -providing a shuttle from Mount Zion to crimes based on sexual orientation increased 14.3% from 1997 to 1998. Hate ¯¯ Saint Monica, volunteer Vernon Jones, crimes based on sexual orientation have ¯ longtime companion of Phil Wiley and Tulsa Family News. nearly tripled since the FBI beg.an collecting statistics in 1991, comprising 16% of all hate crimes for 1998 at 1,260. �iim i i Closing on Home Equity Loans! h.a.t~s right. Home Equiw Loans at Bank of" Oklahoma now come with no closing costs, so you can save hundr~s of dollars. 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(AP) - By the time Nina Beck and " Friends Rally Around Accused Musician District Attorney Suspected of Bias by Tom Neal, editor & publisher Around Tulsa’ s Gay community, the reaction is one of dismay and disbelief at the allegations of indecent exposure made against musician and chorale leader, Rick Fortner. According to a Dec. 3rd Tulsa Worm story, a 16 year old man has accused Former of masturbating in front of him in a sauna of All-American Fitness Center in Broken Arrow. A spokesperson for the Broken Arrow p01ice noted that the man and Former were the onl y ones in the sauna. Friends and acquaintances note that F,grmer maintains his innocence, and have stated their suplJort for Former. Mitchell Savage, spokesperson for the Council Oak Mens Chorale (COMC) for which Former is music director, said that the board of directors of the organization has voted to express its support for Former and their belief that his innocence will be established. - The COMC board position was endorsed by the group’ s general membership also. Savage added that he has been acquainted for 15 years see Fortner, p. 10 ¯ Stacy Jolles got the news, it seemed like everyone already knew: ¯ The Vermont Supreme Court had issued its long-awaited ruling ¯ on Gay marriage. They had won. ¯ The court ruled unanimously that Gay and Lesbian couples in ¯ Vermont should enjoy all benefits and privileges afforded to ¯ heterosexual couples who can legally marry. It is the first court : in the nation to make such a sweeping ruling on the question. ’ But the justices split on whether it should amount to marriage. ¯ Onejustice split from the majority’ s view that the state Legislature ¯ should decide whether Gays and’Lesbians should actually be ¯ allbwed to marry or should be given domesticpartnership benefits ¯ equivalent to heterosexual marriage. The split was of no immediate concern to Beck and Jolles and ¯ the other two couples who sued in 1997 when their town clerks denied them marriage licenses. "It’s just fantastic this decision ¯" could come following his birth," Beck said as Jolles stood ¯ alongside her holding their month-old son Seth. The issue now will be the subject of debate before the : Legislature, which convenes on Janl 4. "I think the court has ¯ broken all barriers by dearly riding that we have a class of ¯ individuals in Vermont who are being denied their rights and I think it is the Legislature’ s responsibility to correct that injustice ," ¯ said Peter Shumlin, Senate president pro tern. ¯ But the question will be how. Should Vermont statutes be ¯ amended to permit two men or two women to marry? Should a ¯ domestic partners registry be established for Gay couples to ¯ record their relationships and therefore qualify for the benefits ¯ now accorded heterosexual mamed couples? ¯ "I think it’ s going to take a couple of weeks, anyway, for people ¯ tounderstand what this means," said Rep. Thomas Little, chairman ¯ of the House Judiciary Committee. "Everyone wants to have a : virtually immediate informed reaction to it, but I think it takes ¯ longer than.that." : Gov. Howard Dean said same-sex marriage "makes me ¯ uncomfortable, the same as anybody else." He predicted the ¯ Legislature would comply with the court decision by enacting a ¯ domestic partners law rather than making marriage legal for : same-sex couples. House Speaker~Michael Obuchowski, who Anti-Gay Harassment ¯ Evergreen Awards Recognize Alleged in Public Schools i Beal, Campbell, and Others TULSA -Allegations of anti-Gay harassment have risen at two Tulsa high schools. On two campuses, teachers contend that they and some students have been singled out for inappropriate attention. While Tulsa Public Schools (TPS) does have a nondiscrimination policywhich TPS’s attorney interprets as protecting Gay teachers, staff and students from discrimination, that policy does not explicitly ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. It "The Board is committed-to-the concept of nondiscrimination in relation to race, religion, sex, age national origin, handicap and other human differences. This policy will prevail in al matter concermng staff, students and the public." However, in the interests of protecting these teachers from possible further harassment, their names are being withheld. One teacher, who is active in a local Gay mens’ singing group, was called into his principal’ s oftrme and was shown a copy of the group’ s concert program. His participation in the group was highlighted with a - comment, -*’is -this~ legal .w’ Another teacher who helps, With a support group for Gay kids. had a self-identified "Christian" fundamentalist teack-zr attending support group meetings and the teacher who does not identify as Gay but as Gay-friendly felt there was an intent to identify her as Gay and therefore to threaten her job. Andat one campus;two young women were suspended for a public display of affectkm. A Gay teacher and other students whb were familiar with the incident claim that the two women were not behaving with any less discretion than heterosexual students use in the same circumstances, They do claim that the administration response w~:much more harsh than for heterosexuals. However,~ TPS spokesperson, Tiffany. Bruton responded to TFN inquiries, saying that the students’ conduct was well beyond socially acceptable behavior even for heterosexuals. The students involved did not respond to TFN requests for an interview. TULSA - The 1999 Evergreen Awards recognized the work of a number of Tulsans involved in HIV/AIDS issues. Prominent among these were Dr. Jeffrey Beal and his parmer Ted Campbell for their years of service as Tulsa’s principal physician treating HIV and AIDS related illness and for Campbell’s mental health practice around those issues. The lunch ceremony was held at the offices of the Community Service Council (CSC) on Dec. 7th, and opened with a remarks previously said he would support Gay mamage, : said politics might prevent that. "What I’m hearing ¯ from my colleagues is that they’re saying that ¯ domestic partnership is a more politically attainable situation and I think I’d have to agree with that ¯ analysis,"saidObuchowski,aDemocratlikeDean. ¯ Though they were ecstatic, the three couples who sued will hold off on their celebrations until they ¯ get an opportunity actually to say their vows in a ¯ wedding ceremony. "I think the acttml celebration ¯ will be when we get married," said Stan Baker, standing withhis arm around partner Peter Harrigan. Winnie Stachelberg, Political Director with the ¯ Human Rights Campaign, one national Gay ¯ organization noted,"we are thrilled that the Vermont ¯ Supreme Court had the wisdom and courage to hand down this historic, landmark decision. There ¯ has never been a logical or justifiable reason to exclude same-sex couples from marrying, and ¯ decision validates the unfairness of exclusion. This ¯ is a tremendous victory for Gay and Lesbian couples ¯ in Vermont who are now one-step closer to being ¯ considered equal in the eyes of the law." Paula Ettelbrick, attorney and Family Policy ¯ Director at the National Gay and Lesbian Task ¯: Force Policy Institute said, "the court’s decision is unique in that it commands that the state give samesex couples every benefit and protection that : currently provides to married couples." ¯ "However, by stopping short of fully recognizing : the freedom to marry, the court has opened the door ¯ to complete equality but has not constitutionally ¯ guaranteed it. Now the batde progresses to the : Vermont Legislature," Ettelbrick continued. "We ¯ have the opportunity as a community to convince lawmakers to provide the full badge of citizenship ¯ by recognizing the freedom to marry." ¯ Ettelbrick noted that Vermont is a logical state to ¯ become the first see Vermont, p. 12 New Leather Contest TULSA- Ric Poston, Oklahoma Mr Leather 1999 and his partner James Murray _Mr Tulsa Leather 1997 have announced they are producing a new leather contest, Mr. Sooner State Leather. The contest will be a preliminary event to the StateTitle of "Oklahoma Mr Leather" and is open to any Oklahoma resident. This first event will be held in Oklahoma City on the weekend of April 21 - 23, 2000 and any profits from the contest will benefit the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago.. The event will provide education and information about the community, "demonstrations," opportunities for brotherhood, a brunch on Sunday, and the contest itself on Saturday night April 22, 2000. Judges for the contest .will be Dave Rhodes, owner and editor of The Leather Journal, Terrell Brown, Oklahoma Mr Leather 2000, Oklahoma Drummer 2000 (to be announced in February 2000), and Michael Vrooman, the current International Miss Gay Rodeo and a former International Mr ayRodeo, MarkMalonInternational Mr. Leather, tRunner Up-t997;and alternate judge, Ed Smith who is an avid supportor of local and nadonal Leather and Drummer events. The contest will be held at the Habana Inn, Oklahoma’s all Gay hotel and bar complex. For reservations (be sure to mention the contest for special rates), contact the Habana Inn, 2200 Northwest 39th Expressway, OklahomaCity, 73112 1-800-988-2221, www.habanainn.com. For any further information about the contest, applications, and weekend packages contact: ms.oonerstatelthr @aol .com. ~s Ted Campbell & Dr. Jeffrey Beal by ~chael Conley of Tulsa CARF~, Melanie Speetor of Tulsa ’County Health Dept. and John Hawk Cocke of Indian Health Services. Presenters and the recipients of the awards included many of Tulsa’ s most prominent activist/workers around HIV/AIDS care and prevention. Sharon Thoele, exeentive director of Tulsa CARES, Erie Ramirez of Planned Parenthood, Kathy Bird of Regional AIDS Interfaith Network, Tulsa office w ere a few of the presenters and recipients included videographer Allison Cosslett, Wendy Weisberg, Audra Sommers for her fundraising work, Kay Rollins for NAMES PROJEC~ leadership, and Jeremy Simmons for prevention education. The Evergreen Awards are presented by the Tulsa AIDS Coalition which was introduced at this event by Tim Gillean and represented by CSC staffer, Janice Nicklas. �" It’s Elementary + more... Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants . December 22, 1999 712-2324 *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 " On the heels of a tremendously 610-5323 *CW’s, 1737 S. 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Letters to other *Free Spirit Women’ s Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 publications will be re-printed as is * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay- friendly. Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 appropriate. �by Tom Neal, editor & publisher January is National Volunteer Blood Donor Month and most newspapers in the city have received press releases exhorting Tulsans to donate blood. According to Tulsa’s chapter of the American Red Cross’ communications manager, Maggie Jewell, "the winter time is a crucial time for blood donations and that many new donors are needed to help meet patient needs in local hospitals...many donors who regularly give find that they cannot during the winter months because of a cold or the flu.., the nation’ sblood supply... [is] just a few hours ahead of demand. As it stands today, if everyone stopped donating blood, our nation’s supply would disappear within only two days..." So you’d think that the Red Cross would welcome all donors. In the Red Cross" press releases, they state, "to donate, one must be 17 years or older, weigh at least 110 pounds, and be feeling wall the day of the donation..." What they don’t say is that ff you are Gay, you don’ t lie about it, and you give blood, they throw your blood away - even though ALL blood is tested for HIV antibodies anyway! Anyone who’s had sex with someone of the same gender since,if memory serves me, 1984, is banned. To reframe a 19th century prejudice: "Irish need not apply" becomes "Faggots need not apply." The local Red Cross shrugs off responsibility, saying it’s a national policy. The national Red Cross places the blame on the Federal Drug Administration (FDA). They all know that thisis bad science. " Once one might have presumed-a tight correlation between sexual orientation/behavior and HIV status. Today, those exposed to the HIV virus can just as easily be heterosexual. Infact, one of the parts of our population which has disproportionately highinfection rates is young Mrican-Americans. Does anyone think we’d see the Red Cross or FDA saying, "Young Blacks need not apply"? The reality is that this discrimination is socially wrong as well as bad public health policy. Tulsa Area Red Cross can’ t:change it by itsdf but its Board of Directors can go on record to call for a change in the policy (it wouldn’t hurt if they added a non-discrimination pohcy too). And it can stop trying to sweep this prejudice under the rug. Until it and the FDA change their policies, its press releases should read, "to donate, one must be 17 years or older, weigh at least 110 pounds, and be feeling well the day of the donation.., and not be a Gay or Bisexual man." himself can 0nly be costly even if the charges are without by Tom Neal, editor/publisher merit. Early on the morning of Dec. 3rd, like many others, I So why is this haptmning? Political and other observers was shocked to see the face of a friend, someone whom. have known for some dme that Tulsa District Attorney I respect and like, in The Worl d accused of a v cry unlikely Tim Harris is closely associated with right wing political act. extremists who call themselves "Christian." Reading the article and knowing the man, my first Tulsa’s DA’s earlier demonstrated their willingness to reaction was to wonder that the charges had been brought abuse the powers of the office to promote a ultra rightat all. It is a classic, "he said, she said" recast as "the wing agenda when they failed to prosecute seriously the straight ’boy’ said, the Gay man said." brutal hate assault against Tony Orr and Tim Beauchamp According to comments made to the Tulsa World by until after prim media had Broken Arrow police, the written about the DA’s bias, only persons present at the " Fortner says he is innocent and I failing even to get them alleged act were Rick Fortner victim’s compensation for believe him... But even when his and the man who has accused their medical injuries as the him of lewd behavior (I say innocence is proven, and these DA’s office does for other man who accused because at crime victims. charges likely are shown to be 16 if he were a murderer, Local attorney and he’d be considered an adult shameless politlea! opportunism by TOHR board member Kerry and 16maynotbevery wise, Lewis suggests that Harris is Tulsa County District Attorney but it’s hardly a child in this shamelessly using this day and age). Tim Harris, Fortner remains accusation to appeal to the I then wondered at part of his electorate who are victimized by the accusation .... " possible motivations for his rabidly prejudiced, to appear accuser. Was this the sick as though Hams is "fighting crime" and just incidentally behavior of a young man struggling with his own destroying Rick Fortner’s lifein the process. homosexuality and projecting his self-hatred onto another We can likely anticipate that much of our District target? Attorney’ s strategy, if they have the nerve to push such a Or is he yet another young American man warped into seemingly meritless case so far, is going to be to engage mindless hatred Of men who love other men by a society in blatant legal "Gay-bashing." It will be suggested that, whose need for some hated "other’ dates back to before ipso facto, Rick’s a"homo" and therefore capable of any the Republic was founded (let me see: we Americans evil, and that any accusation by a red-blooded, allhavehated Indians in the East, we’ ve hated Blacks, we’ve American boy is, of course, God’s own Truth! hated Jews, we’ve hated Germans, we especially hated But what’s really on trial here, is American justice the Irish, we’ve hated Catholics, and Poles, and again itself. As has played out generation after generation, with Indians in the West, and Asians: Chinese, Japanese, Fast minority after minority, the reality has been that our Indians, we’ve hated Commumsts, Socialists, Unionists, justice, at its best- is uneven, and more often than not is women who dared to vote -or merely not be endless wildly unfair, favoring wealth, whiteness and heterobaby-factories, hell, we’ ve even hated some Republicans maleness. - I personally have thought that Ronnie Reagan was one And all the problem is not in the DA’s office. Some of the most profoundly and blandly evil men of our time Tulsa police, year after year, engage in varieties of antibut I digress). Gay bias, including breaking the very law, with no Former says he is innocent and I believe him as do his restriction nor anti-bias training from Chief Palmer nor friends and colleagues at his work, All Souls Unitarian the elected official to whom he answers, Mayor Savage. Church andin Council Oaks Mens Chorale which Fortner But right now, what matter is that Rick Former is founded and leads, and I hear his family, thank God. treated fairly. I don’ t know if he’ s got alegal defense fund But even when his innocence is proven, and these set up but he may need it. charges likely are shown to be shameless political I’d suggest that any help readers might give, be sent to opportunism by Tulsa County District Attorney Tim the Rev. Suzanne Meyers at All Souls Unitarian Church. Harris, Fortuer remains victimized by the accusation. His They’re in the book. reputation has been called into question and defending ¯ : trying to decide how quickly to exit. When he stopped ¯ ourselves, we build communities and organizations by Dave Fleischer designed to shelter us. But we thenmiss genuine, reciprocal : talking, we paused and looked at each other. Then I said, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force "Well, I’m Gay. I like my life, and if IYm doing a good job ¯ connection with other people, especially those who aren’ t Ask voters a question - then listen to their answers - ¯ at my job, do you think my boss should be able to fire me ¯ just like us. We rarely ask them what they think of us. We and you get what Lily Tomlin calls a "goosebump assume we know. ¯ just because I’m Gay?" experience." Why the adrenaline rush? Because you When we don’ t ask real questions - like "What do you ¯ The voter looked astonished: "Wall of course, no one ¯ challenge not only your cherished ideas about the voters, ¯ think?"- we rely on Our past experience. No wonder that should fire you for that." That started a back-and-forth ¯ but also what you believe about yourself. ¯ that surprised both of us. We disagreed about why people we hold onto ahigh level of paranoia. We can’ t forget the ¯ feelings we knew when we were young. We can’t miss I was reminded of this while campaigning in Carol are Gay. We agreed that discrimination against G.ays is City, an African-American, working-class Miami ¯ the hostility expressed by right-wing extremists now. that neighborhood. I was with a team of volunteers from ¯¯ unacceptable. After a few minutes, as he was prepanng to ¯ we are older. SAVE Dade, the group preparing to defend their county ¯ read to me from the Bible, I called a halt, thanked him, and ¯ But, guess what? Neither has much to do with where moved to the next door. Human Rights Ordinance. : What I learned about myself was how hard itis to ask ¯ most Americans stand today. When we lack confidence Scene: short, bald, Jewish me at.the door, talking to a ¯ in other people, it is no wonder we struggle in campaigns. voter: "The Ordinance protects all of us from : a question and hear the answer. Both times, it only took ¯ Ourlifeis a niche, but in elections we need 50% + 1 of the discrimination, whether we’~re a man or woman, black or : three words before I thought I knew what was coming. ¯ participating voters on our side. ¯ Both times, I was Wrong but I realized why asking white, Gay or non-Gay. The newest part of the law is the ¯ It is understandably scary to put aside our past hurts to part that includes Gay people. Some people want to take ~¯ questions is uncomfortable. When we ask a question, and test the possibilities in the present. It’s easier to avoid really wait to hear the answer, we are not Controlling the the law .apart and remove Gay people from it. But we ¯ situation. We are sharing control with the other person. person-to-person campaigning; it’s tempting instead to think that s wrong- we think everyone ought to be treated ¯ rely on every other possible form of communication, all American culture teaches us all to like control. To with dignity and respect. What do you think?" which have at least some value. But what price do we ¯ our individuality - to believe that one pe.rson [ of ,,W,_ith barely a pause, the voter began "My church says. ¯ celebrate pay for our lack of curiosity, our unwillingness to risk can make a difference to have it our way--is as ¯. Oy ray. I figured I knew where we were headed, and ¯ : authentic exchange? Are we, without meaning to, buying American as a.microwaved Mcwhopper. it wasn’t the promised land. "My church says--Jesus ¯ intothelargerculture’stoleranceofstereotypicalthinking? But growing up Gay raises the stakes. Many of us loves everybody. Diseriminadon is always wrong." She ~ Who is most imperiled when it’ s a deviant act to ask a realize early on that we’ re different, subject to ridicule or and I had a brief, affirming discussion. ¯ ¯ question - or to question a stereotype? Let’s rescue hurt. So we crave control as a way to protect ourselves, ¯ I went to door #2, said my piece, and the voter ¯ ourselves. Goosebumps are ours, for the asking. and to survive. We pump up our talent for isolated immediately began,"My church says..." I listened. "My ¯ individual achievement, sometimes neglecting teamchurch says homosexuality is a sin. It’s wrong. Read Dave Fleischer is a seniorfellow at the Policy Institute your Bible, and you’ll see the Lord has a plan for a better " building and our curiosity about others. of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. Our life becomes a search for refuge. To protect : life for you." As he amplified his point of view, I was �Nationwide Insurance : Allen said. Allen said much of the group’s time is ¯ teachers can ha,,v.e a tough time discussing even with Adds Partners’ Benefits: COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) - Nationwide Insurance those~who don t have a disability. 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The biggest challenge for those appealing .their convictions may be convincing the appealS.court that they have legal standing to overturn a’law that affects not just them, but all adult Virgimans. In 1979 - the-last’ time a NEW HAVEN, Conn. (AP)- For decades, the ¯ higtier state court heard a challenge of the sodomy_. sexuality of people with mental, dis~abi!i_ti_e_s,^W_~e]~ ¯ law, the Virginia Supreme Court ruled that a man taboo a subject that parents ann prolesslonm~ ,o~ ~ arrested in Richmond had no such standing2 ’ acknowledged its ..ex~stence. The disabl.ed were o~ften ¯ Since then, several states have recoglfized that treatedas if they Were eternal children; immune irom defendants arrested for alleg.ed public ~.ex acts are desire. 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Helen’s attorney, Leon Finkel, noted that Illinois does not recognize common law in such cases’~ He said boyfriends, aunts and uncles and in some cases even stepparents are among those who are not entitled to visitation rights under Illinois law. Finkel also said limiting the list was a good idea. because parents should only m special instances be forced to give up the power to determine who is allowed to visit their children. He added that while Illinois doesn’t recognize same-sex marriages, it does recognize same-sex adoptions. Had Amanda legally adopted the girl, she would have had visitation rights and the dispute would never have taken place, he said. Study Says Marriage Ban Would Hurt Children SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) - At least 40,000 children living with Gay couples and 100,000 more with Gay single parents would be affected by a proposed state ban on same-sex marriages, according to a new study. Those children could feel ostracized by. society if their parents’ Unions were considered invalid, concludes the review by Michael Wald, a Stanford University law professor who specializes in public policy’s effect on children. Proposition 22 would let California recognize only marriages performed between a man and a woman. It will be voted on in March. ’q’his alleged study, which promotes homosexual marriages, is nothing more than a bogus political campaign hit piece against Proposition 22 and the institution of marriage," said Robert Glazier, a spokesman for the Yes on Proposition 22 campaign. Wald’s review used findings by the American Psychological Association and several research studies on same-sex parents. "By all reports, these families are doing very wall," Wald said. "It is different, obviously, growing up in a family with two parents of the same sex, but children adjust to it." Studies have shown that the children of Gay parents are welladjusted and do wall in school, but often face intolerance, he said. The report drew criticism from David Orgon Coolidge, director of the Marriage Law Project at The Catholic University of America inWashington, D.C., who called it "an attempt to mislead voters." "prop 22 is not about same-sex couples," Coolidge said in a written statement. "Prop 22 is about whether Californians will be allowed to decide for themselves how marriage will be defined in this state." reputation as a place of intolerance." Candace McCune, an Englewood lawyer representing proponents of the measure who formed the group Coloradans for Traditional Marriage, said the measure would close a loophole in the state Constitution. The Legislaturelast year rejected an attempt by Sen. Marilyn Musgrave, R-Fort Morgan, to pass a statute similar to the proposed amendment. Opponents of the initiative have 30 days to challenge it. If it survives, signatures of nearly 64,000 registered voters. W~ould have to be collected tO.l~m the ~easure off ~1i~ ~6all0t. Coloradatis- for Tradiu6nal" Marriage also withdrew a proposal to ban same-sex marriages. Hank Aaron Slams Pitcher’s Comments ATLANTA (AP)- Hall of Famer Hank Aaron joined the barrage of criticism against Atlanta Braves pitcher Johp_ Rocker, despite his apology for making derogatory comments about Gays and minorities. Aaron said he was "very sick and disgusted about the whole situation" and questioned how Rocker could continue in baseball. "I have no place in my heart for people who feel that way," the all -time home run king, who is the Braves’ senior vice president, told syndicated radio host Jay Mariotti. About 15 activists protested outside Turner Field, urging the Braves to fire Rocker for the comments, which were published i~n a recent Sports Illustrated. "There may be some room for redemption, but not as an Atlanta Brave," said Michael Langford, president of the United Youth-Adult Conference. "We encourage him to enter his resignation right now and go into an early retirement." Rocker told Sports Illustrated he would never play for a New York team because he didn’t want to ride a subway train "next to some queer with AIDS." He also bashed immigrants, saying, "I’m not a very big fan of foreigners... How the hell did they get in this country?" While driving in Atlanta during the interview, Rocker criticized Asian women: Look. Look at this idiot," he said of another driver. "I guarantee you she’s a Japanese woman. How bad are Asian women at driving?" He also called an overweighl black teammate "a fat monkey." Rocker apologized in a ffritten statement, saying he was carried away by his "competitive zeal" against New York Mets fans. He said heis not a racist mad the comments do not reflect his true feelings. Civic groups and a member of the Atlanta city Council delivered aletter to Braves owner Ted Turner and general manager John Schuerholz demanding Rocker’s immediate firing. "We would have hoped there would have been a more scathing condemnation of these comments," said Councilman Derrick Boazman. "This was more than just rhetoric. This was hate." There was no answer at Turner’ s office, and his publicist did pot return a telephone call. Baseball Commissioner Bud Selig called Rocker’s remarks "inappropriate and offensive." He said baseball is reviewing the matter and would take "appropriate action." There is precedent: Former Cincinnati Reds owner Marge Schott was suspended from baseball for the 1993 season for her use of racial and ethnic slurs. Colorado Anti-Marriage ¯ Pentagon .Seeks Tougher Amendment Progresses : Stand Aga, nst Harassers ¯ DENVER (AP) - A proposed constitutional ¯ amendment to restrict same-sex marriages in Colorado ¯ has been approved by the .secretary of state’s office ¯ and now advances to a 30-day challenge period, if- : approved by voters, the measure would recognize : only marriages between, a man and a woman and would make same-sex marriages performed in other : states invalid in Colorado. : The measure, which cleared the secretary of state’s : ritle-setting board in December, will face opposition. ¯ "As a statewide agency, we are eommi tted to fighting ¯ this every step of the way," said LoriAnn Girvan, ¯ executive director of Equality Colorado. "We feel ¯ that the taxpayers of Colorado don’t need another ¯ anti-Gay ballotinitiative that will re-ignite our state’s ". WASH!NGTON (AP) -The U.S. Defense Department is piessing armed services leaders to re-emphasize to commanders that harassment of troops based on their sexual orientation will not be tolerated. The Pentagon has drawn fire recently for its "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. Critics say an increasing number of Gay and Lesbian service members are being harassed, contrary to the stated policy of permitting them to serve so long as they do not declare their sexual orientation. The criticism sharpened after a court-martial in which an Army private was convicted of murdering a Gay ,soldier harassed with the knowledge of his superiors. President Bill Clinton said earlier last month that the Pentagon’s policy on Gays was "out of whack." see Briefs, p. 14 �Older Americans With HIV Increasing such as AIDS, medical researchers say. ~esearchers doing work at St. Petersburg’s All Children’s Hospital published their findings in this week’s HOUSTON (AP) - An aging population, Proceedings of the National Academy of life-extending treatments, and a Sciences, an academic journal. misperception that AIDS is a disease of Despite the finding, researchers do not the young have fostered an increase in know what the newly found gene does, AIDS infections among older Americans, said Gary Litman, the University of South the Houston Chronicle reported recently. Nationally, about 11% of reported AIDS : qoridaimmunologist who led the research effort. cases are in people 50 or older, the However, they do know the gene plays newspaper reported. a major role in the immune system because Seniors are the age group with the of its complex structure. fastest-growing AIDS rates - up 22% In addition to the puffer fish, the between 1991 and 1996, compared with a ~mportant gene is found in other bony 9% increase among people age 13-49, fish, including zebra fish and sharks. according to the U.S. Centers for Disease "The hunt is on for this gene in man," Control and Prevention in Atlanta. said Litman, who is working with eight However, health officials warned that other researchers in Florida and in the increases seem dramatic because the California and Massachusetts. "Now we numbers are small. A 106% increase in know where to look." the number of older women infected Researchers are using computers .to through sex, for example, is based on an search human DNA for the identical or increase from 340 eases to 700 eases. similar sequence of 114,000 amino acids "’At this point, the numbers are so small found in the fish DNA. There are about 3 that they really have not been perceived as million amino acids in the human body. a problem," said Dr. Rose Brownridge, Discoveries about the immune system acting bureau chief of the Texas can affectnew developments in treatments Department:of Health division that deals for diseases ranging from common with AIDS and other sexually transmitted allergies to cancer and Alzheimer’s diseases. She added, however, that the disease. issue needs further study. Litman said the new gene mightprovide About 72,000 .americans age 50 and clues to an additional type of immunity over and about 4,50(3 Texans have been. that doctors might not have realized. diagnosed withAIDS. N~gneknows how many seniors are infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, because not all states require HIV reporting and because older people arethought to be tested far less often than their younger counterparts. HUTCHINSON, Kan. (AP)- The According to the CDC, slightly more than discovery of and ongoing efforts to treat one-third of older people with AIDS are and find a cure for AIDS was the top story Gay or Bisexual men. About one of five of the century, according to a survey of a was infected by using a dirty needle to group of high school history students. The inject drugs. students surveyed by The Hutchinson While popular attention has been News otherwise generally agreed with focused on declining infection rotes among adult readers surveyed by the newspaper, children, AIDS among seniors has been but, adults gave AIDS barely a mention. virtually ignored. That must change, said ’ It had such a high impact on what they Marcia try, chief of social science thought about their own mortality," said research on aging at the National Institute Susan Smith, a teacher at Hutchinson High on Aging. "The pointis that society cannot School. "They didn’t think they could die, ignore AIDS in that pediatric population, and they certainly didn’t think having sex in the young adult population or the older could make them die." population," Ms. try said. "For people Lindsey Derr, 16, said news aboutAIDS living longer or getting infected at_ an is evenmore important now that the disease older age, these people are incredibly is generally understood by experts and isolated, and they may not get the treatment millions of people have been identified as they need." AIDS,positive. Jacqui Faber, 16, said a That is likely to change with the lot of people still don’t know enough onslaught of baby boomers nearing about where and how to get tested. retirement age, said Kathy Nokes, a New Some issues identified by students as York nurse who works with infected older most important occurred long before their patients and editor of a book on seniors lifetimes, such as women gaining theright with AIDS. "Baby boomers talk about to vote in America. Other issues that are everything, try everything, demand again xn the news, such as the Scopes everything," she said. "To a 60- or 70"Monkey" trial pitting evolutionary theory year-old, that’s not polite." against creationism, weren’t seen as Ironically, the drug Viagra that has important. allowed many older men to revive dormant Other stories that were big during their sex lives also has heightened concern lifetimes, such as the explosion of the about the spread of AIDS. "They are pretty space shuttle Challenger and the meltdown AIDS-unaware as they venture out into ¯ of the Russian nuclear power plant at the world of sexual activity," said Sara Cheruobyl, were neat the bottom of the Selber, executive director of AIDS high-school list. Foundation Houston. "AIDS wasn’ treally The bombing of Pearl Harbor that led to on their screen at the time they were U.S. entry into World War II, top of the (previously) sextmlly active." general readership’ s li st, w as in fifth pl ace among the students. A high-ranking story on the students’ list that ranked low among the gener~ readership was the "I Have a Dream speech given by the Rev. Martin Luther TAMPA, Fla. (AP) - A gene discovered King Jr. Talesha Brassield, a 16-year-old in puffer fish - which have immune junior, said King’s speech was still a systems similar to humans - may hold reminder that Americans have a lot to secrets to learning more about diseases learn about respecting each other. "There that affect the human immune system, AIDS Most Important Story Fish Gene Key to Immune System The Second Annual Progressive Alliance Summit The State Capitol Oklahoma City Saturday Januar 15th, 2000 Join activists from many different progressive movements from across the state for skills and coalition building. Keynote Speaker: Frosty Troy The Oklahoma Observer For more information or for reservations contact Planned Parenthood in Tulsa at 918-587-7674 or Keith Smith at The Smith Group: 405-840-2219 Are You Gay or Bisexual? 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Kennedy Memorial Stadium, Washington, DC are still people that believe people have to ¯ Talking on the telephone with her think the same, look the same and believe : grandmother was OK, Annisha pointed ¯ out, or going rollerblading together. the same things," Talesha said. ¯ Thus was born "My Grandma Has : AIDS: Annisha’s Story," a 14-page ¯ illustrated children’s book that was ¯ published this year by a pharmaceutical " ¯ company and distributed at the U.S. BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - Some 120 Conference on AIDS in Denver and a Thai activists and HIV-AIDS patients World AIDS Day commemoration in camped Wednesday outside the Health ¯ Boston. Ministry demanding an end to a U.S. "Annisha and her grandmotherare both pharmaceutical monopoly thatmakes antilisted as authors, but thebookis writtenin ¯ viral drugs too expensive for most in ¯ Annisha’s voice. "Hi. My name is Thailand. They want the Thai government ¯ Annisha. This is a story about my to enforce a patent act to legalize local grandma," the book begins. "She is real manufacture of Didanosine or DDI, a : special to me. Mygrandmaisjustlikeany medicine that suppresses the deadly HIV ¯ other grandma. My grandma has AIDS." virus in a patient’s blood, delaying the The book goes on to describe the various onset of AIDS. things they do together. "I know that if my Few. of the more than 1 million HIV friend has AIDS, I cannot catch it by being postive individuals in Thailand, a country ~ their friend," Annisha says in the book. of 62 million people, can afford drugs ~ Reeder-Bey, who also lives with her such as DDI and AZT, imported to ¯ husband, Tommy, is excited about the Thailand from overseas,mainly from U.S. : book’s distribution and hopes parents will manufacturers. ¯" use it to introduce the subject of AIDS to DDI,manufacturedby U.S. ftrmBristolchildren. She is also the founder of Myers S quibb, is sold at50 baht ($1.25) a i¯ their Heavenin View,anonprofit that provides tablet in Thai hospitals. Patients need at : health counseling and support groups for least four tablets a day, costingin all about ¯ people living with AIDS. "I would love 6,000 baht-10,000 baht ($160-250) a to be in ev,,e~y household. That’s ~e month. A Thai office worker earns about ¯ forit ultimate dream,’ she said. "Even if it s 4,400 baht($110) amonth. The drugprice ¯ not in every household, I want everyone would be halved if Thailand produce it ~ to know about it." locally. The road to "My Grandma Has-AIDS: : Last month, Medecins Sans Frontieres, ¯ Annisha’s Story" was along one. It began ¯ the Nobel Peace Prize-winnlng emergency whenReeder-Bey went to herownmother, healthcare group, said U.S. trade pressure ¯ looking for solace after she learned she has made proper health care for H!V/ ¯" was HIV-positive. Reeder-Bey said she AIDS patients nnaffordable in Thailand ¯ spent 22 years as an alcoholic and drug and other less developed countries. ¯ addict. Her mother could not accept the Activists said access to DDI, used by : diagnosis and sent her daughter away, she around 5% of people living with HIV in : said: "I forgive my mother now, but then, 1997, declined over the past two years due ¯ I couldn’t take it," she recalled. to Thailand’s economic recession. Since ¯ Six years later, Reeder-Bey was alcoholthe HIV epidemicbeganin the early 1990s, . and drug-free and embarking onanew life more than 260,000 Thais have contracted ¯ as an AIDS activist and drug counselor. full-blown AIDS. ¯ Then her daughter, who has had her own ’q’he government has full legislation to : struggles with addiction, asked her to take enforce the act butit fears the U.S. will be in Annisha. "We had already spent a lot of angry andit mightlead to trade sanctions," ." time together," Reeder-Bey said of said Paisal Tan-ud, spokesman of the Thai ¯ Annisha. "She just became a part of my Network For People Living With HIV- : life." AIDS. The activists plan to camp outside When Annisha was 6, Reeder-Bey the ministly in Bangkok until they get an thought the two of them had a book worth ¯ answer from the government. ¯ sharing. She went to several well-known Earlier this year, campaigners succeeded : children’s book publishers, who told her in demanding local manufacture of ¯ that the subject matter was inappropriate Diflu.can, a drug used to treat cryptococcat ¯ or didn’t fit their needs. memngitis, a fungal infection of the brain ¯ But the book did catch the eye of officials which occurs in HIV-AIDS patients. ." at Agouron Pharmaceuticals, a La Jolla, The government has allowed two local ." Calif.-based company that makes the pharmaceutical compames to produce the ." AIDS drug Viracept, and Agouron drug, originally manufactured by the U.S. ¯ published it. Agouron has an active drug company Pfizer. : outreachprogramthatfocuses particularly ¯" on minority communities, and the book ¯ worked well with that program, said Joy ¯ Schmitt, a company spokeswoman. : Reeder-Bey also made sure that Prince WOODBRIDGE, Va. - When Annisha ¯ William County school administrators got Wilbum was 4 years old, she went to live : a copy of"Annisha’s Story." Annishais a with her grandmother, Valerie Reeder- ¯¯ third-grader at Featherstone Elementary. Agouron said it plans to distribute the Bey, who is HIV-positive. Reeder-Bey knew she had to talk about her condition ~ book at other AIDS conferences, with the with her granddaughter. The hard part ¯¯ authors’ permission. In the meantime, was finding a way to do it without ¯ Reeder-Bey is a one-woman distribution machine, bringing books to her doctor’s frightening her or delving into uncomfortable details. "I was living in ¯ office, to work, to wherever she thinks fear that anything could happen," said ¯ someone would pick one up. "I want Reeder-Bey,46,wholives inWoodbridge. : people to open up and start talking to kids "I wanted to tell her. I just really had to : about it. Kids want you to be open with : them," Reeder-Bey said. find the way without being graphic." And Annisha said she plans to keep She started by jotting down things that ¯¯ writing. She has advice for other wouldAnnisha shouldn’ t worry about: "It’ s okay to hug," she wrote. "It’s okay to hold ~ be authors: "I think they should write hands." As the girl got older, she started ¯ what’s in their imagination, and write making her own contributions to the list. : what’sin their heart." Thais Protest US Drug Monopoly Girl + Grandmother Tell Their Story Hear Our Voices Our Vision For the New Millennium IsAWorld Where Peopl.e Can Live With Hope, Equality and Safety. Join Melissa Etheridge, Ellen Degeneres, Anne Heche and a Host of other Stars as They Rock. the New Millennium and Take a Stand for a Safer, BetterWorld for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People Everywhere. Tickets on Sale at 800..551.SEAT or www.ticketmaster.com �Happy New Year and Century to " hit Broadway, running for 2 years. This everyone! "If you’re with me, next year : ground breaking drama about 9 Gay men willbe... The perfect year!" Sorry, Petula ¯ gathering for a birthday party with catty, left a little Norma Desmond behind. (The ¯ emotionally trying results spawned a film line is from a song that features ~ -by William Friedldn (who went on to prominentlyinthemusical, direct "the Exorcist", and "Sorcerer") and nnhinged "Sunset Boulevard".) the closet door that held Actually, there were afew Gay theater locked inside days I couldn’ t tell the two and blew it down the apart. What, me catty? I hallway. don’t know what you . Fort Worth Theatre has mean. . . (Eyes bat already produced two iunocenfly. Well, as close shows this season that had as I can get... Shaddup! to do with some aspect of Stop snickering amongst homosexuality: yoursdves!) "Seducing Sally" and January at the PAC: Ben "The SantalandDiaries". E. King performs with the Folks, this is a city Tulsa philharmonic the 7 nicknamed "Cowtown". & 8. The armchair traveler Hello? It’ s about the size goes to France on the 10; of Tulsa. They have 3 and the All State Music theatres there that are Festival happens on the 15. unafraid to try something "Gaelic Storm," the Irish new -Circle Theatre, Stage band that played in the 3rd West, and now, the most class steerage section of staid of the Fort Worth the Titanic appears at the Theatres. PAC January 19 &20. Leo We have Heller, and danced a jig to their tunes : sometimes TU, and the quality of theatre in the film. Latin music is played by Scarles, Allen and River on the 22, and a ¯ in this town is very hit and miss. I know concurrent concert hapl~L’ns with Janina : that’ll tick some folks off, but it’s true. Fialkowska at the piano. On the 23, Das ¯ And more often than not, it’s missing. Puppenspeil (I love that name!) puppet : Let’s work on that, shall we? I mean, theatre performs with the Philharmonic, ¯ Cowtown, really! Tickets are $10 - $12 dollars, and a and the month closes with "Buddy," the ¯ percentage of ticket sales goes to AIDS Buddy Holly musical from the 25 through the 30. "Crossing Delancy" opens on the ~ Resources of Rural Texas. And from the 28. More info on these artists to come. If : pics of the cast, it looks like it would be a ~ou lust can’t wait, you can always call ¯ handsome evening, indeed. Thanks to e f~iendly folks at the PAC ticket office : Mark Lowry of the Fort Worth Star Telegram for some of the info used in this at 596-7111. : tern. For those a bit more venturesome, Dallas Usually, when I write of an album seems to be the place of interest in wherein the songs, music and lyrics, tend upcoming months. George Winston plays to eerily reflect events in my own time Majestic Theatre Jan 7; and for those who space, it’ s a safe bet that I’m writing about recall a rather large member of the Rocky Stevie Nicks. She just does thht sort thing. Horror Picture Show cast, Meat Loaf I got walloped this last week by an album performs at McFarlin Auditorium Jan 16. my best friend Karin (who’ s straight, by My, they’re really bringing in the class the way) made me listen to. She started off acts now, aren’t they? by saying some of the songs reminded her For the more modem crown, Counting of me and one of my last major romantic Crows plays the Bronco bowl Jan 25, and entanglements. Then she started playing Beck plays there Jail 26. Kids in the Hall, it, and I was just about knocked out of the the all male cross dressing comedy troupe car. The album is by an artist I never gave of some fame in the mid-90’s plays the much ~hought to, except to wish that I’ d Bronco bowl Feb 3. The Pretenders, with never hear the phrase "I Wanna Come opening act "Gay Dad", perform at the Over" again. Yes, I was ~,valloped by a Bronco Bowl Feb 6. The Chieftains, for Lesbian MdissaEtheridge slat~stalbum, those who like their Irish music Irish, are "Breakdown" (an ironic rifle, given the at the Fort Worth Bass Performance Hall album’ s previously stated significance) is Feb 6. Back in Dallas, Diana Krall plays a treasure trove of powerful lyrics and the Majestic Theatre Feb 18. And for dynamite music. those into boy bands, Backstreet Boys The song "Stronger Than Me" is one of (almost has-beenS) are at Reunion Arena the ones my best friend Karin related to March 3-4. For the more folksy set, Crosby, : my experience from her viewpoint. The Stills, Nash and Young are playing ~ lyrics are dark and intense, and the music Reunion Arena March 7th. For those pining for some decent theatre ; echoes their intent. "I don’t know how - and I know many of you are, even if you : you can take it / invest your heart and then don’t attend it- Mort Crowley’ s seminal ¯ you breakit / I don’ tknow how you can set work, "The Boys in the Band", runs : it free / you must be stronger than me" through January 29 at the Fort Worth : certainly sums up my somewhat ¯ overoptimistic romantic enthusiasms Theatre (817-921-5300). It rated a full according to Karin. page storyin theFort WorthStar Telegram. "Breakdown" is a power ballad about a Apparently, Fort Worth has become a progressive town, in that one of its oldest ~ love gone so wrong one has left, but the p~rson keeps pulling you back like and most prestigious theatres has started a ¯~ other a pit of quicksand. "I’m coming to your series of Gay plays called the "Labor of ~ breakdown tonight.""Enough of Me" was Love" series. They have sold out. ¯ another sock to the stomach in its eerie Hello, Theatre Tulsa! "Boys" opened in April 1968, and was : capturing of what the last year of my last one of’the first, if not the first, Gay play to ; majorrelationship was like. see Jirn,p. 14 The Tulsa Phiharmonicpresents pianist Janina Fialkowska the third concert in the, Masterworks Series Saturday, January 22, 8pm Tulsa Performing-Arts Center Debussy, Prelude a l’apres midi d’une faune Grieg, Piano Concerto in A minor, op. 16 Wagner, selections from Der Ring des Nibelungen Tickets: 747-PHIL or 596-7111 earles, Allen & Rive.ra URBANTULSA �"You don’t have to knew ballet to love ballet. You just have to try it." -- MARCE£LO ARGELJNI ARTISTIC DIRECTOI~ THE KERR FOUNDATION, INC. FOUNDERS AND ASSOCIATES, INC. "cO IJ/IELLIAS cao~oea~v:VAL CANIPAROLIw~ :FREOEIIIC CHOPIN Long before multi-million dollar book deals were the fashion, Alexandre Dumas’ son (yes, the "The Three Musketeers" author) converted his torrid:turned-terminal love affair into a best seller. From there, composer Guiseppe Verdi adapted the story for opera (hello, "La Traviata"). Today, choreographer Val Canipamli finished the iob of turning "La Traviata" into dance. Using drama, not melodrama. For understatement underscored. A full-length love story. " FRIDAY 8 PI~EBRUARY 11 SATURDAY B PMFEBRUARY 12 SUNDAY 3 PMFEBRUARY 13 I~" SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pm, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 11am, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 1 lain, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, llam, 1623 North Maplew00d, Info! 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1lain, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity. Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown,749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gayfrransgendercd Alliance 6:30 pm, Meets at the United Ministry Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~’ MONDAYS HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378)3501 E. Admiral (east of Harvard) SEASON SPONSORS: HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pro, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 ABC Music Order tickets by calling The Tulsa BaJlet Ticket Offica: 749-600| 4512 S. Peoria Ava. , Tulsa, OK 74105-4563 ¯ VisH GILCREASE MUSE PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2rid Mon/each mo. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for times, info: 748-3888. I~" TUESDAYSAIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 Live And Let Live, Community of Hope United Methodist, 7:30pro, 2545 S. Yale Multienltural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center. 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pm, 3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more information, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pm, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~" THURSDAYS HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pm 834-8378, 3507 E. Admiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’ s, call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-2325 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, Info: 834-4194 ~ FRIDAYS Safe Haven, Young Adults Social Group, 1 st Fri/each mo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th I~" SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pm, Community of Hope,1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Lambda A-A, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. t~= OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Womens Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long rides & short rides from Zeigler Park. Long & short tides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 Mixed Volleyball, non-active in winter, call Shawn at 243-5190 for spring activities. If your organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 or fax 583-4615. �reviewed by Barry Hensley ¯ reclaim youthful ambitions. This tendency Tulsa City-County Library : can be compared to the stage of Here are a couple of new books at the ¯ ’bargaining’ in grief reactions. If only I’d library that you shouldn’t miss! A few ¯ just work harder, exercise more, go to years ago, author Rik Isensee wrote an ¯ bars, get a facelift, get a tattoo- I’ll be all ¯ eulightening book for Gay right." men, rifled "Reclaiming One of the suggested "One d Isensee’s Your Life: The Gay steps toward stabilizing Man’s Guide to Love, your life is to get in a long primary tasks is to Self-Acceptance and term relationship. Just Trust." He’s back with a because it didn’t work help Gay males new winner for those of when you were young and us in our, ahem, late reach closure with a foolish doesn’t mean it thirties (and on up), "Are won’t work now! There youtlt~l identity¯ You Ready?" is a good section that The time has come for The key to this is provides some basic the community to guidance toward finding understand that Gay life learning to stop a rdationship, including doesn’t end simply "what are you looking living for the because you remember for?," "distinguish Watergilte. This book _between desirables.and moment¯ For a helps you learn to necessary qualities," and celebraie i the positive variety of reasons, "be open to men who things about aging " don’tfityouinsual type." (flexibility, " greater we are living longer. _There are also some good ¯.... examples tolerances, self ann neell of how " 1.... to remmn " ~ and nav"lgate~_____-~_ ate acceptance) ~. relationships change over the negatives (dis-eti~ vital and involved. the years. No, thesethi~gs over physical aging, are not easy, but the hard d i s i 11Usi on m e n t,--It Is very Important work will pay off in. the depressio, and lethargy). end! to-not waste time One of Isensee’s Another new book is, primary tasks is to help ’q’he Book of Gay and re]ivln6 Gay males reach closure Lesbian Quotations." the past.. with a youthful identity, This is a fun compilation The key to this is learning of quotes by Gays and to stop living for the moment. For a variety ¯ Lesbians; and Gay-friendly people as well, of re~ons~ we are living long~-and need ¯ from ancient times to the present. It is a to remain vital and involved. It is very ." simple reference book broken down into important to not waste time reliving the ¯ broad subjects: solitude, morality, hope, ¯ etc. past. As Isensee explains, "During this : Some of the better quotes are: "a waist uncertain time, when we’ ve lost our way, ¯ is terrible thing to mind," "anyone who there may be a sense of not having ¯ says that softball is a boring game to accomplished anything. Itmay be difficult . watch isn’t looking at the right things!," to remember earlier goals or to ascribe : and "the only way of getting dd of any significance to them. It’s also hard to temptation is to yield to it." This is a super imagine what else we would like to do. : book for one liners. Rather than tolerating the anxiety of not : Check for these and other fun books at knowing, some men are tempted to make ¯¯ your local branch library, or call the up for lost time - through some radical Readers ServicesdepartmentattheCentral change for its own sake, or a mad dash to : Library at 596-7966. with Former and does not believe the accusation to be credible. Attorney Kerry Lewis, who is also a board member of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights suggested that anti-Gay bias and political opportunism on the part of Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris and his staff may be behind this accusation. Lewis noted that such a case would have appeal for Republican Harris whose voter bast is tied to religious extremist elements in the Republican Party. Lewis also said that given the level of anti-Gay prejudice in the area’s jury pool; Harris may be calculating that he need not actually prove Former guilty, that is that merely being a Gay man accused by a younger man will be taken as proof of guilt in a legal system. that is hostile to minority citizens. Drumwright attorney Tim Daniel whose practice~has’included defending Gay men : who say they were entrapped by Tulsa ¯ Police, believes that the Tulsa County District Attorney uses anti-Gay bias in the ¯ legal system to plea bargain cases, : knowing that accused Gay men, even if ¯ they are not guilty, or even if the police ¯ engaged in illegal conduct themselves in ¯ order to make an arrest, will accept a ~ "deal" rather than risk having a hostile ¯ jury and even more serious charges and ¯ punishment. : Anti-Gay hate crime victims, Tony Orr ¯ & Tim Beauchamp, also have pointed out ¯ that Hams’ office failed to assist them in : getting normal compensation for their : medical expenses due to the assault on ¯ them, and that the DA’s office did not ¯ even prosecute seriously their assailants ¯ until after The Tulsa World wrote a story : about the DA’s inaction. ¯ Fortner did return a call to TulsaFami!y : News but onadviceofhis attorney declined ; to comment onthe allegations. 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The holidays are over, the mistletoe " - I resolve to keep saw blades sharp and delightfullynsed, abusedandrefused.The ¯ clean. I will unplug power saws before long nights and short days of winter seem ¯ removing the blade. to stretch on forever. It is - I resolve to use trendy "In all modesty, and colors and designs in my the time to dream of future projects that will not be home sparingly, rememwith absolutely no started until spring time bering fully how appalled comes. And it is time for sense of overstepping I was by the ’50’s Peptomaking all of those godpink bathroom walls, tile boundaries, your awful New Year’s resoand tub. I am leaving a lutions that endure but for DIYD gently offers legacy! (this does not a mere matter of days. apply if you wish venher suggestions for Why not combine home geance on your heirs) projects with good - I will always get three your approval . . . intentions andmake some quotes for any contract Consider it your resolutions you’ll actually labor, as well as keep? references. blueprint for a Inall modesty, and with - I resolve to be more absolutely no sense of respectful for the people millennium of overstepping boundaries, wor.king at my local home satisfying home your DIYD gently offers repatr palace, even thal her own suggestions for patronizing boob in projects. your approval and plumbing. Fantasize Or consider it your about replumbing his implementatzon. Consider i t your blueprint fixtures, but don’t actually DIYD telling you for a millennium of threaten to do it this time. satisfying home projects. what to do - again. -I resolve to buy very Or consider it your DIYD good paint brushes and And always. telling you what to do keep them clean and again. And always. Why Why should this properly stored for a should this century be any lifetime of painting century be any different than the. last? pleasure. You love it, ducklings, -I will not tell friends, different you know you do! Now, family or relative repeat after me than the last?" strangers how they - I resolve to always work screwed up their latest safely! I will read and follow direction~ project and what I wouldhave done better. and will not by-pass guards or safety Do give them a stack of DIYD columns as devices. I will use personal protection a form of gentle guidance. (safety glasses, earplugs, etc.), and ask for - I resolve to do one project this year, no help if I need it. matter how small, to improve the -I will measure twice (minimum!) and aesthetics, efficiency or value of my home. cut once. Wood is expensive and screwing - I resolve to make my DIYD that cocktail up makes me cranky and unbearable. Let’ s - a Manhattan with two cherries - as a avoid that this year. small token of the gratitude I bear her for -I will not swear to the extent and/or enlightening my life and improving my noise level that the dog or cat needs deep home! therapy. And your DIYD resolves to be back -I will always involve my partner (if next month to help you make good on applicable) in home repair and decoration some of these intentions. decisions. Even if they say they "don’t PS: Your DIYD doesn’ t waste precious care" - trust me, cupcake, theydo! energy tying cherry stems into knots with - I resolve to take good care of my tools. her tongue when it is better applied to I will keep them clean, organized and in practical projects! good repair. I will thereby not waste precious project time obsessing about the mystery location of the screwdriver or paint roller. - I resolve not to treat any of my partner’ s ¯ By the time ~this song played, I was questions as stupid - no matter how ¯ becoming a fan. So much so, I bought the glaringly obvious the answer or solution. CD If you ’ ve been depressed, and couldn , t - Iwill not loan out tools I care about to : people who abuse them or do not return ¯ explain how debilitating a state it really them, I will acknowledge my emotional/ ¯ can be, "Into The Dark" is one of those psychological bond with my tools, ¯ songs you play for people to make them ¯ especially those requiring apower supply, understand what the dark night of the soul - I will buy that leather tool bdt as soon as ¯ is all about. One ofthemore powerful and I can. And I will use it (silk boxers dark songs on thi~ album, it leaves you optional). ." haunted. It’ s a ditty about going "into the - I resolve to always set my ladder up on ¯ soullinto the heart/into the dark", and a stable, even surface and to have someone : realizing that one’s been spinning one’s watching out for me nearby. That wheels keeping a dead relationship alive, especially applies if I am on the roof. The not that I would know anything about that. dog does not count as my ’safety buddy.’ ¯ "There was tire/therewas death/there was -I resolve to overcome my fear and ¯ lyingonyourbreath/Itumedaway/Iwould loathing of spiders and slugs long enough ¯ pretend/but the fire never ends/I’ve been to enter the crawl space and make that ¯ here sleeping all these years. " minorplumbingrepair to the bathtub drain. _" Lest you think it’s all doom a~ad gloom, Other-wise, I will overcome my aversion : JulieCypher, Melissa’s longtimepartner, to paying a plumber to do the same. ¯ requested a more upbeat song for fear her �¯ inlimate same-sex relationships, but rather ¯ on the statutory and constitutionai basis for the exclusion of same-sex couples to recognize same-sex civil marriage. It : from the secular benefits and protections was the first state to offer domestic partner : offered married couples. benefits to state workers, one of the first ¯ We conclude that under the Common states to recognize second-parent Benefits Clause of the Vermont adoptions and one ofthe first states to ban. Constitution, which, in pertinent part, discrimination based on sexual orientation. e,ads, that government ~s, or ought to be, -The Mormon church, which has instituted for the common benefit, campaigned.-against Gay marriage in ¯ protection, and security of the people,. Vermont, Hawaii and California, issued a ¯ nation, or community, and not for the brief statement repeating its position and ¯ particular emolument or advantage of any ¯ saying,"As the legislative process moves i single person, family, or set of persons, forward, The ChUrch of Jesus Cqh-’ist of who are a part only of that community," Latter-day Saints urges the citizens of ¯ plaintiffs may not be deprived of the Vermont and their elected representatives : statutory benefits andprotections afforded to protect the uniqueness and sanctity of ¯ persons of the opposite sex who choose to traditional marriage and to preserve the ~ marry. We hold that the state is family ~ the basic unit of society." ¯ constitutionally required to extend to Next Door In New Hampshire ¯ same-sex couples the common benefits A state lawmaker is trying to make sure : and protections that flow from marriage Gay New Hampshire couples do riot take under Vermont law. advantage of the Vermont ruling. Rep. ". (and) Gary Torressen, R-Center Harbor, says ¯ While the laws relating to marriage he was disappointed by the decision that ¯ have undergone many changes during the Gay couples are entitled to the same ¯¯ last century, largely toward the goal of benefits and protections as husbands and equalizing the status of husbands and wives. Torressen said he filed., his bill, ¯ wives, the benefits of marriage have not which would prevent New Hampshire ¯ diminished in value. On the contrary, the from recognizing same-sex marriages ¯ =benefits and protections incident to a contracted out of state, in anticipation of : marriagelicense under Vermontlaw have : never been greater. the Vermont court’s decision. The Legislature repealed a ban on Gay ¯ (andfrom Justice Denise Johnson) foster parents and Gay adoptions. The ¯ This case is undoubtedly one of the state also has a law that protects Gays and ¯ most controversial ever to come before Lesbiansfrom discrimination in housing, ¯ this court. Newspaper, radio andtelevision employment and access to public facilities. ¯ media have disclosed widespread public State Sen. Rick Trombly, a Boscawen ¯ interest in its outcome, as well as the full ¯ spectrum of opinion as to what that Democrat who is Gay, said New ¯ outcome should be and what its Hampshire should go further and set up its own domestic partnership system. Rep. ¯¯ ramifications may be for our society as a whole. Martha Fuller Clark, D-Portsmouth, has ¯ filed a bill that would extend medical .One line of opinion contends that this is benefits to domestic partners, and recently, ¯ an issue that ought to be decided only by trustees for the state university system ¯ the most broadly democratic of our approved domestic partner benefits for ¯ governmental institutions, the Legislature; ¯ and that the small group of men and women employees. But Gays and Lesbians still lack full acess to the samehealthinsurance, : comprising this court has no business deciding an issue of such enormous disability benefits, tax breaks and inheritance protections that married ¯ moment. couples enjoy. For better or worse, however, this is : Trombly believes New Hampshire ¯ simply not So. This case came before us lawmakers would support a domestic ¯ because citizens of the state invoked their ¯ partnership system as a fundamental constitutional right to seek redress through affirmation of equal rights. But he does ¯ the judicial process of a perceived not believe they would support Gay ¯ deprivation under state law. The Vermont marriage, because many believe Constitution does not permit the courts to ¯ decline to adjudicate a matter because its heterosexual marriage has a religious ¯ subject is controverslal, or because the significance. State Sen. Pat Krueger, a conservative ¯ outcome may be deeply offense to the Republican from Manchester, said Strongly held beliefs of many of our ¯ citizens. Tuesday she had Gay friends whose lives We do not have, as does the Supreme were complicated by their lack of legal ¯ protections, and she would consider ¯ Court of the United States, certiorari supporting domestic partnerships. A -’ jurisdiction, which allows thatcourt, inits spokeswoman for Gov. Jeanne Shaheen ¯ sole discretion, to decline to hear almost said the governor remains opposed to Gay ¯ any case. To the contrary, if a case has marriage. Spokeswoman Pamela Walsh ¯¯ been brought before us, and if the established procedures have been declined:comment on Shaheen’ s .view of ¯ followed, as they were here, we must hear domesticpartnership.legislation, sayingit ¯ and decide it. was premature. : Moreover, we must decide the case on Excerpts from the Supreme ¯ legal grounds. However much history, Court decision on marriages: : sociology, religious belief, personal May the state of Vermont exclude same- ¯ experienceor other considerations may ¯ sex couples from the benefits and inform our individual or collective protections that its laws provide to : deliberations, we must decide this case, opposite-sex married couples? That is the ¯ and all cases, on the basis of our fundamental question we address in this ¯ understanding of the law, and the law appeal, aquestionthat the court well knows ¯ alone. arouses deeply-felt religious, moral, and This must be the true and constant effort political beliefs. Our constitutional ¯" ¯ of every member of the judiciary. That responsibility to consider the legal merits ¯ effort, needless to say, is not a guarantee of issues properly before us provides no ¯ of infallibility, nor even an assurance of exception for the controversial case. The ¯ wisdom. 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Collecting things is oddly ¯ Several of my friends with young sons important formany of us. complain that it is difficult I have other friends who to find gender-neutral "We slot our accumulate Native toys: One two-ye~ old ehildren into gender boy loves to play with. American artifacts. And books. And jazz vinyl brooms and vacuum patterns as soon as recordings. And Cacti. cleaners. His ~m0m+ of And uniforms. they are born, course, has to go to the Most of us collect girls’ side to find toy wrapping some-thing evenif this is household cleaning only string or a draw full equipment. And, worse, them in blue or Of condoms. Our houses the kid likes to play with are museums. One of my pink blankets. dolls. His father nerprofessors saved sheets vously protests his son’s. Walk into any toy of toilet paper from bathbabydoll games. Jeez! rooms around the world. store and you know Can’t you buy the boy a Me, I have.a stupendous truck? collection of refrigerator when you’ve entered This paternal nervousmagnets. ness signals the symbolic the girls’ aisle... We buy stuff; we give strength of the connecit away; we receive it; tions we draw between Several of my and we curateit: Think of things and identity, ff doll all those shoeboxes lined friends w~th young equals girl, then boy-who-with-doll equals UP in Anthony’s bedsons complain that plays room. Things, clearly,are girlish, perhaps even Gay. important for reasons it is difficult to find Our use of particular beyond the utilitarian. things sends messages, gender-neutral toys. accurate or not, about who. Even wearing them every second until the day he we might be. We know ’One two-year old dies, Anthony will never that both men and women use up all his Shoes. He need to.practice nurturing. boy loves to play buys them to own and not But the doll -loving boy, particularly to wear. They with brooms and like the toy gun-toting girl, help make sense of whom violates the cultural code vacuunl cleaners. he is - or at least who he of consumption that attrithinks he wants to be. His morn, of course, butes gender to things. Because of thiS, or maybe And, who knows? Maybe has to go to the it’s their smell(they give the Kid really just likes him a buzz. dolls. Or maybe he has girlS’ side to find Having just survived already figured out our the holiday season, we toy household consumption code and he know the pleasures and likes dolls on purpose in eleanlng equipment. order to Send dad a pains of stuff. Did you get what you want for the And, worse, the kid message. holidays? Did you make My daughters, too’old a list? Did you check it likes to play with for dolls, and also,too old twice? for Pokemon, this year dolls. His father Everyone grumbles wrote Gameboy camera about the materialism of on their Christmas lists. nervously protests a onetime religious They didn’ t seem worried celebration. But comhis about the name. Why plain away, I sure had a Gameboy and not babydoll games. lot of desperate company Gamegirl? In hierarchical last month when I went " Je~z! Can’t you buy systems, it is easier to foraging for things in the "ups,h,ift" than "dowm bleak shopping expanses Shifi. Gifts wear pants. of Walmart. Not .too many boys wear son’s the boy atru~k?" This connection Of stuff and identity is characteristically American. We learn early on to~ define ourselves in terms of things, We_+play a:game with children called "favorites." We insist that kids tell us their favorite"color~ music, television show, make of car,.or ice-cream. Evenif ¯ dresses. Women become d0ctors; not too ¯ many mendreamaboutbecominganurse. " Except, perhaps+ some of those sweet, ¯ doff-loving boys of course ~When I was a kid, Barbie dolls didn’t :~ last long in my neighborhood. We’ d steal ¯ them from our sisters .and use thbm cruelly. we aetuallyhave,no favorites-~ this question ¯ They,w~ould.’be J..gan of Arc atthe stake, puslies~s tomeasureandsztuateoursel~es: . andWor~.~ If ~eh~d any ~ense, w~ W~~d svi _thin the w0dd of goods.. So goes .,".ha’ve,ca~-~f~illyst6i?&l them away intheig American.inff!~iduality:;~and.so..goe~rour..: ." boxes to’become’rich by selling them to _economy:as well ....... ~ , - ....... " ........ ., today’s fanatic Barbie ¢_ollectors: I can Favorites make less senseintta.ditional~ ~ recommend a great website with-pictures societies where individuality is ,muted~ ." of.Ken, from 1961 to 2000: Check out and where the range of goods is.litfiited. ¯ www.manbehindthedoll.com. This guy But even in ¯simpler societies,¯ things: ." ~ really likes,his boy dol|s.J’m suggesting differentiate gender.. Women wear : to Anthony thathe build a similar Shrine z differentarticles of clothing than do men~ : to his boy shoes :’ . They oftent~s~different tO~Is~ The)~ may .~ Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.’D,~ ~teaChes noteatihesamefoods~.W,eslotourchi.’l.dren. "- anthropology, at .t:he.~ University of Tulsa, �¯ lover’s arms and listening to him/her ¯ breathing, and feeling trusting and ¯ comfortable enough with another person We dedicate an enormous mount of : to be able to sleep. It’s a lovely song of resources to outreach, networking, ¯¯ quiet comfort. And then there’s issues of equality. building allies and forging ties with advocacy, educational and religious : "Truth of the Heart"is a wonderful ballad organizations. Even when distribution ¯ to the truth that "We all begin this race at goes well, though, it hardly covers our : the start" and about how "deep down costs. To do this kind of media work, we : inside we’re all the same / try not to judge rely on outside support from our friends ¯¯ someone / and never shame." Partnered for almost 11 years now, the two have two who share our goals and understand the unique role films like IT’ S ¯ children of their own. Melissa wrote this ELEMENTARY and THAT’S A ¯¯ song to explain to their children about how to deal with life. Words to live by. In FAMILY !canplayinprevenfingprejudice : "Mama I’m Strange", the joys of growing and violence. Please help us keep the huge momentum ¯ up Gay - or just different - is artfully IT’S ELEMENTARY generated going : explored, with just the fight amountof strong. Help us welcome the millennium ¯ angst to remind us where we came from ¯ and how hard the struggle could be at by getting THAT’S A FAMILY! out of our editing room and into elementary ¯ times~ The single most striking song is called school classrooms all across the country. ¯ Please send your tax-deductible : "S~carecrow", and it’s about Matthew donations to Women’ s Educational Media, ¯ Sheppard. She said she hadlots of trouble 2180 Bryant Street, Suite 203, San ," w~riting that because here she was also Francisco, CA 94110. Or go to this interuet ¯¯ writing ’’Truth of the Heart" as well and felt she couldn’t be writing about people address to make a secure on-line donation : being good in one song and denounce with your visa or mastercard: http://www.womedia.org/support.html ¯ them in another. So the end of the song is Donations of any size will be of great ".¯ her way of forgiving (but not forgetting) the second attacker (I think he was going help. With warm regards and deep ¯ to trial or prison at that time). It has to be appreciation for your generous support, - Debra Chasnoffand Helen S. Cohen : heard to be experienced. If you aren’t Producers ¯ crying and angry after hearing it, you’re ¯ dead. P.S. We are honored to let you know There are two versions of this CD, one that IT’S ELEMENTARY just won the ¯ 1999 Multicultural Education Media ¯¯ of which is already hard to find. It has three extra songs, "Touch and Go", Award, given by th6National Association for Multicultural Education (N.A.M.E.). : "Cherry Avenue" (where she mentions the name of one-of the Lesbian bars in We know this award -- the first N.A.M.E. which she sang for about 4 years before has ever given to anything Gay-related ¯ being discovered -Que Sera), and "My will help us build even better alliances ¯ Beloved", and is released in a cardboard with educators who are committed to addressing diversity !ssues. Please help ¯" case. The regular version has 11 songs in the usual plastic jewel box; Which includes ustoday to get THAT S A FAMILY! out : the lovely ode to unrequitedlove, ’"’Angels where it can be put to good use. ¯ Will Fall". That’ s the one most folks are Women’s Educational Media 2180 Bryant Sreet Suite 203 ¯¯ going to be familiar with at this point. For you men out there: I know that in San Francisco, CA 94110 ¯ some-minds, there’s a big chasm between (415) 641-4616, (415) 641-4632 fax ¯ Gay men and Lesbians, and this extends ¯ to performer preferences. I’ve heard the ¯ nasty comments - from both sides. All I ¯ can say is, get over your prejudices, and Pentagon spokesman Kenneth Bacon ¯ get this CD. It’s well worth it, and said that Rudy de Leon, the under secretary ¯ incredible in its beauty and reflection of of defense for personnel, and Douglas ¯ life. And, Melissa, you have a new fan. Dw0rkin, the acting general counsel,raised Thank you Karin, for your contributions the matter in a Dec. 18 memorandum to ¯ to widening my musical horizons and the service leaders. "It is important that the infolmation contained in the above article leadership of each of the services issue a ¯ about the backgrbund of the songs. Seems strong statement to the field that ¯ ironic that I’ mbeing tutoredin Gay culture harassment~of service members for any ¯ and musical icons by a straight woman, ¯ reason, to include alleged or perceived but such is life. I feel like I should know all homosexuality, will not be tolerated," ¯ this alrcady! according to the memo,released Thursday ." There’s a few things Karin said that I ¯ think bear repeating, for both Melissa by the Defense Department. ¯ Bacon said it had not been made fans, and more importandy, for us all: "I sufficiently clear to commanders that a ¯ am so happy that I could bring a singer service member’ s complaint about being ¯¯ into your life who writes and sings from harassed for alleged homosexuality is not the heart. VH1 is rertmmng her "Behind grotmds forinvestigating the complainant. ¯ the Music" next week, and I’m going to Instead it should be the basis for tape it for you You’ll like it. It’ s the only ¯ oneI veseenwheretheartmtlsn thit~hing investigating the harassers, he said. ¯ about something. Someofthemjustwhine ¯ endlessly. ’I love Shania Twain, but her ¯ BTM special was one endless bitch and ¯ whine. image would be one see Jim, p. 14 ¯ Stevie Nicks doesn’t bitch, but she’s of a liorrible drago,n,, given the tone of the : had such lousy things happen, to her, by oth~"rdationship songs. Melissa asked : her own hand, that it just sounds so her~f,"How much do I love Juiie? I love ¯ depressing. You know Melissa has been her ~uch that I would want to die in her ¯ depressed, butthere’s somuchshedoesn’t ar~ Quite a wonderful thing to say ¯ aboi~.’ anyone’s lover, male or female. ¯ say. I saw John Mellencamp’s BTM (Behind the Music), I’ve sc~en Cherts "S!O~p" was the answer to the question, a ¯ dozens of times, along with Madonna’ s, lovely song about getting away from the and Melissa’ s just seems so upbeat that noise of the world and snuggling into your Timothy Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. 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And remember, she’s the only one I know of getting the word out to the .mainstream crowd. P,e~,,ple like her so much that they tend to. forget" (or tryto ...forget) that she’s Gay. She doesn’t let them. ("Someone’s spitting blood/face downin the dirt/someone’ s thinking about ~ a gun/to try and stop the hurt/someone drew conclusious/on the wail of destiny/ someone’s getting louder/and that someone would be me.") That should be importanttous ail."- Miss KarinGregory. And I agree. Janis Ianis performing Saturday March 4 in Dallas, TX at a club called Uncle Caivin’s with Buddy Mondlock. And ladies, as aiways, if you have something to contribute or would like to see in this column, please let me know care of TFN, or email me at tfnentritr@aol.com. I wouldn’ t want to disappoint the diehard readers of this column, so now it’s time for... The Stevie Nicks mention. She has a featured track on the new Sheryl Crow and Friends CD and video. The song is the venerable Gold Dust Woman, and she’s never sounded better! The CD’ s out now, video to follow. Sarah. McLachlan, Chrissie Hynde, the Dixie Chicks and others aiso sing with Sheryl. And Stevie still has a few shows left to do in Las Vegas at the house of Blues this month. Her new album, first duein October oflast year, now set for sometime this year, maybe, is being produced by one of the better known producers of hip hop and rap. I’d mention the name, but I caff t remember it. Shery! Crow was producing, which would have made for an interesting aibum - she did the excellent jobs of producing the Stevie songs for the Practical Magic soundtrack. Stevie and rap... That will be interesting as well, aithough I fear for different ~easous. We shall see.., or hear. The ever handsome pianist Jim Brickman performed at the PAC on December 10, 1999, along with the very talented John Trones and the beautiful Anne Cochran. The show was lovely, an evening of romance and seasonal favorites, and as Mr. Brickman described the evening, much like a gathering of friends round the piano. Okay, if the friends had a really large living room, and reaily good - mood lighting. And amplifiers. The group .i did a swell job of making a cavern into an intimate cabaret. Mx. Brickman has a charming sense of humor and intelligence .to complement his goodlooks. (Evenbetter m person and up close. I love my job...) He seemed very relaxed, and it was like meeting an old friend for the first dine. His playing can certainly set a mood, from exuberant to melancholy and romantic all at the same time; and has a warmth to it that is reminiscent of spending the evening with a loved one by a fire. Or, if you’ re .single, as I am, curled up in a comforter with a good book and cup, of cocoa. Now that we know how I spend my evenings... What? Have I said too much? Mr. Brickman is a prolific songwriter as well, setting words to music that is lovely : to hear and unabashedly sentimental in feeling. : Anne Cochran, who met Mr. Brickman ¯ inhigh school, where they formed aband, : has one of the most incredible voices I’ve : heard. And her phrasing with a song is : immaculate. She captured the warmth and joy of the compositions she performed with expert ease, andhas alovely, energetic yet relaxed stage presence that also added to the ambiance of the evening. She has a new CD out called "Lucky Girl’_’, which I would highly recommend for a gift based on what I heard that evening. I would have one in my hot little hands right now had they not been sold out. She isa name you might be familiar with, she has had a top ¯ 5 hit with Jim Bfickman on the song : -"After All These Years" which has been : reed by skater Rosalyun:Summers, both : live and recorded. It was also the song ¯ used on the final episode of "Home : Improvement", and she will be featured in :- the Lifetime television speciai"A Golden Moment". Definitely worth checking out. You can order her CD at www.AnneCochran.com. John Trones (pronounced ~tro-ness’), who is as nice and gorgeous as he is .talented (what a voice! what a smile! what a chest! what a pleasant man!), was a delight to listen to as well. With a million dollar smile that shines like a searchlight, and a voice that has incredible range and expressiOn, hejoined Anne on several numbers and had some lovely solos. His singing soared through the Chapman theatre and could melt the most hardened heart. He has an aibum of standards and ballads out called "Forward", which I was able to snag and most definitely would make a great Valentine’s girlie for the special man on your list. He can melt the ice off the fiorth Pole with that voice, and his phrasing and reading of the standards is right on target. A pity he’s in Minneapolis, I would love to see more of him. He does Cabaret there at Blanche’s, and has performed in a number of Gay plays, listed on his web site, www.JohnTrones.com, which is worth a look. You can also order his CD there. After listening to several review CDs of dubious quality sent to TFN, put out by Gay artists of dubious talent, attempting to sing standards and not succeeding very well at anything other than murdering the music, I am glad to say that his would be the one I would, and did, purchase. They were joined by Tracy Silverman on electric violin, and he did quite an interesting variation on the Beade’ s"Here Comes The Sun". His playing added an interesting embellishment to Mr. Brickman’s piano. I will say he had the most lovely and LONG hair I’ ve seen on a man in along time. He has an album out on Windham Hill records. If you get the chance to catch any or all of these artists should they make a return appearance, DO SO! You won’t regret it. Just make sure you have a date, and one that won’t stand you up. I was looking forward to Peter Buffett’ s "Spirit: A Journey in Dance, Drum, and Song"a unique blend of Native American and contemporary music, dance, and storytelling, to have been held January 3 and 4th, 2000 at the Brady Theatre. According to the latest info, ail spring dates have been put on hold. According to my sources, a late spring tour is in the plans. James Christjohn serves as TFN Entertainment editor with emphasis on the performing arts. �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Friends RallyAround Accused Musician District Attorney Suspected of Bias by Tom Neal, editor &publisher Around Tulsa’ s Gay community, the reaction is one of dismay and disbelief at the allegations of indecent exposure made against musician and chorale leader, Rick Fortner. According to a Dec. 3rd Tulsa Worm story, a 16 year old man has accused Former of masturbating in front of him in a sauna of All-American Fitness Center in Broken Arrow. A spokesperson for the Broken Arrow p01icenoted that themanand Former were the only ones in the sauna. Friends and acquaintances notethat F,grmermaintains his innocence, and have stated their suplJort for Former. Mitchell Savage, spokesperson for the Council Oak Mens Chorale (COMC) for which Former is music director, said that the board of directors of the organization has voted to express its support for Former and their belief that his innocence will be established. - TheCOMCboardposition was endorsedby the group’ s general membership also. Savage added that he has been acquainted for 15 years see Fortner, p. 10 Anti-Gay Harassment Alleged in Public Schools Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations V rmont Marriage Victory SOUTH BURLINGTON, Vt. (AP) - By the time Nina Beck and " previously said he would support Gay mamage, ¯ Stacy Jolles got the news, it seemed like everyone already knew: ¯¯ The Vermont Supreme Court had issued its long-awaited ruling on Gay marriage. They had won. ¯ The court ruled unanimously that Gay and Lesbian couples in ¯ Vermont should enjoy all benefits and privileges afforded to ¯ heterosexual couples who can legally marry. It is the first court : in the nation to make such a sweeping ruling on the question. ’ But the justices split on whether it should amount to marriage. ¯ Onejustice splitfrom themajority’ s view that the state Legislature ¯ should decide whether Gays and’Lesbians should actually be ¯ allbwed to marry or shouldbe given domesticpartnership benefits ¯ equivalent to heterosexual marriage. The split was of no immediate concern to Beck and Jolles and ¯ the other two couples who sued in 1997 when their town clerks denied them marriage licenses. "It’s just fantastic this decision ¯" could come following his birth," Beck said as Jolles stood ¯ alongside her holding their month-old son Seth. The issue now will be the subject of debate before the : Legislature, which convenes on Janl 4. "I think the court has ¯ broken all barriers by dearly riding that we have a class of ¯ individuals in Vermont who are being denied their rights and I thinkit is the Legislature’ s responsibility to correct that injustice ," ¯ said Peter Shumlin, Senate president pro tern. ¯ But the question will be how. Should Vermont statutes be ¯ amended to permit two men or two women to marry? Should a ¯ domestic partners registry be established for Gay couples to ¯ record their relationships and therefore qualify for the benefits ¯ now accorded heterosexual mamed couples? ¯ "I think it’ s going to take a couple ofweeks, anyway, forpeople ¯ tounderstand what this means," said Rep. Thomas Little, chairman ¯ of the House Judiciary Committee. "Everyone wants to have a : virtually immediate informed reaction to it, but I think it takes ¯ longer than.that." : Gov. Howard Dean said same-sex marriage "makes me ¯ uncomfortable, the same as anybody else." He predicted the ¯ Legislature would comply with the court decision by enacting a ¯ domestic partners law rather than making marriage legal for : same-sex couples. House Speaker~Michael Obuchowski, who ¯ Evergreen Awards Recognize i Beal, Campbell, and Others TULSA -Allegations of anti-Gay harassment have risen at two Tulsa high schools. On two campuses, teachers contend that they and some students have been singled out for inappropriate attention. While Tulsa Public Schools (TPS) does have a nondiscrimination policywhich TPS’s attorney interprets as protecting Gay teachers, staff and students from discrimination, that policy does not explicitly ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. It "The Board is committed-to-the concept of nondiscrimination in relation to race, religion, sex, age national origin, handicap and other human differences. This policy will prevail in al matter concermng staff, students and the public." However, in the interests of protecting these teachers from possible further harassment, their names are being withheld. One teacher, who is active in a local Gay mens’ singing group, was called into his principal’ s oftrme and was shown a copy of the group’ s concert program. His participation in the group was highlighted with a - comment, -*’is -this~ legal .w’ Another teacherwhohelps, With a support group for Gay kids. had a self-identified "Christian" fundamentalist teack-zr attending support group meetings andthe teacher whodoes notidentify as Gay but as Gay-friendly felt there was an intent to identify her as Gay and therefore to threaten her job. Andatonecampus;twoyoungwomenwere suspended for a public display of affectkm. A Gay teacher and other students whb were familiar with the incident claim that the two women were not behaving with any less discretion than heterosexual students use in the same circumstances, They do claim that the administration response w~:much more harsh than for heterosexuals. However,~ TPS spokesperson, Tiffany. Bruton responded to TFN inquiries, saying that the students’ conduct was well beyond socially acceptable behavior even for heterosexuals. The students involved did not respond to TFN requests for an interview. TULSA - The 1999 Evergreen Awards recognized the work of a number of Tulsans involved in HIV/AIDS issues. Prominent among these were Dr. Jeffrey Beal and his parmer Ted Campbell for their years of service as Tulsa’s principal physician treating HIV and AIDS related illness and for Campbell’s mental health practice around those issues. The lunch ceremony was held at the offices of the Community Service Council (CSC) on Dec. 7th, and opened with a remarks Ted Campbell & Dr. Jeffrey Beal by ~chael Conley of Tulsa CARF~, Melanie Speetor of Tulsa ’County Health Dept. and John Hawk Cocke of Indian Health Services. Presenters and the recipients of the awards included many of Tulsa’ s most prominent activist/workers around HIV/AIDS care and prevention. Sharon Thoele, exeentive director of Tulsa CARES, Erie Ramirez of Planned Parenthood, Kathy Bird of RegionalAIDS Interfaith Network, Tulsa officewere afew of the presenters andrecipients included videographerAllisonCosslett, Wendy Weisberg, Audra Sommers for her fundraising work, Kay Rollins for NAMES PROJEC~ leadership, and Jeremy Simmons for prevention education. The Evergreen Awards are presented by the Tulsa AIDS Coalition which was introduced at this event by Tim Gillean and represented by CSC staffer, Janice Nicklas. : said politics might prevent that. "What I’m hearing ¯ from my colleagues is that they’re saying that ¯ domestic partnership is amorepolitically attainable situation and I think I’d have to agree with that ¯ analysis,"saidObuchowski,aDemocratlikeDean. ¯ Thoughthey were ecstatic, the three couples who sued will hold off on their celebrations until they ¯ get an opportunity actually to say their vows in a ¯ wedding ceremony. "I think the acttml celebration ¯ will be when we get married," said Stan Baker, standing withhis armaround partner Peter Harrigan. Winnie Stachelberg, Political Director with the ¯ Human Rights Campaign, one national Gay ¯ organization noted,"we are thrilled that the Vermont ¯ Supreme Court had the wisdom and courage to hand down this historic, landmark decision. There ¯ has never been a logical or justifiable reason to exclude same-sex couples from marrying, and ¯ decision validates the unfairness of exclusion. This ¯ is a tremendous victory forGay and Lesbian couples ¯ in Vermont who are now one-step closer to being ¯ considered equal in the eyes of the law." ¯ Paula Ettelbrick, attorney and Family Policy Director at the National Gay and Lesbian Task ¯: Force Policy Institute said, "the court’s decision is unique in that it commands that the state give samesex couples every benefit and protection that : currently provides to married couples." ¯ "However, bystopping short offully recognizing : the freedom to marry, the court has opened the door ¯ to complete equality but has not constitutionally ¯ guaranteed it. Now the batde progresses to the : Vermont Legislature," Ettelbrick continued. "We ¯ have the opportunity as a community to convince lawmakers to provide the full badge of citizenship ¯ by recognizing the freedom to marry." ¯ Ettelbrick noted that Vermont is a logical state to ¯ become the first see Vermont, p. 12 New Leather Contest TULSA- Ric Poston, Oklahoma Mr Leather 1999 and his partner James Murray _Mr Tulsa Leather 1997 have announced they are producing a new leather contest, Mr. Sooner State Leather. The contest will be a preliminary event to the StateTitle of "Oklahoma Mr Leather" and is open to any Oklahoma resident. This first event will be held in Oklahoma City on the weekend of April 21 - 23, 2000 and any profits from the contest will benefit the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago.. The event will provide education and information about the community, "demonstrations," opportunities for brotherhood, a brunchonSunday,andthe contestitselfon Saturday night April 22, 2000. Judges for the contest .will be Dave Rhodes, owner and editor of The Leather Journal, Terrell Brown, Oklahoma Mr Leather 2000, Oklahoma Drummer2000 (to be announcedin February 2000), and Michael Vrooman, the current International Miss Gay Rodeo and a former International Mr ~sayRodeo,MarkMalonInternational Mr. Leather, tRunnerUp-t997;and alternatejudge, Ed Smith who is an avid supportor of local and nadonal Leather and Drummer events. The contest will be held at the Habana Inn, Oklahoma’s all Gay hotel and bar complex. For reservations (be sure to mention the contest for special rates), contact the Habana Inn, 2200 Northwest39thExpressway, OklahomaCity,73112 1-800-988-2221, www.habanainn.com. For any furtherinformation about the contest, applications, and weekend packages contact: ms.oonerstatelthr@aol.com. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. 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Not all are Gay-owned butall are Gay-friendly. 501-253-7734 ," 501-253-7457 ¯ 501-253-6807 ¯ 501-253-5445 " 501-253-9337 " 501-253-2776 " 501-253-5332 ¯ 501-624-6646 " 501-253-6001 -’. 501-253-4074 " 417-623-4696 " It’s Elementary + more... December 22, 1999 On the heels of a tremendously successful campaign togetIt "sElementary aired on public television, we are thrilled~ to announce our new media series for kids. We are writing to you today to tell you a little about the project and to ask for yo~help: .W.e.hopeyo.u’!l eonside.rm.~king a year-end contribution toward its completion and distribution. We’ve been asked repeatedly by It’s Elementaryfans, "When are you going to make sombthing we can show to kids?"" .Finally wehave an answer -- THAT’S A. FAMILY! -- a video for elementary school children about family diversity. To learn more about THAT’S A FAMILY! and to make a donation to ensure its successful completion, please read the rest of this email, or go to: http:.//www.womedia.org/support.html on the internet. THAT’S A FAMILY! is the first video in our. long-awaited media series for children, "Respect for All." THAT’S A FAMILY! introduces children to different kinds of families, while the second and third videos~in the series center on dispelling Gay and Lesbian stereotypes and confronting anti-Gay name-calling. In THAT’S.A FAMILY! you’ll meet children’ who were adopted; are multiracial; haveparents whoare divorced; are being raised by step-parents, single morns or dads, or by grandparents and guardians. There also are children with Gay dads or Lesbian morns, and their stories are intertwined with those of the other families. THAT’S A FAMILY! is scheduled for release in the spring of 2000. It has the potential to reach hundreds of thousands of children, giving elementary schools a truly inclusive, respectful teaching tool that children will love to watch. Wehave no doubt that the long-term impact of this project will be tremendous. Giving elementary school students the opportunity to hear the words "Gay" and "Lesbian" described in a matter-of-fact way by their peers, and experience Gay and Lesbian families inthe contextofsuchanincredibly diverse group of other families, could have a profound effect on their values and behavior for the rest of their lives. To kick off this ambitious media series for children, we need your help. We need to raise additional funds to finishTHAT’S A FAMILY! this winter and to launch its distribution. Our work is not commissioned- instead we independently produceand distribute ourmediaprojects. see It’s... p. 14 Announcements Policy Tulsa Family Newswitl provide-space for holy union ceremony, marriage ceremony, birth, adoption and death announcements onaspace availablebasis. Photos are welcome, though we cannot promise placement or return them, so please send copies to Tulsa Family News, POB 4140, Tulsa 74159. Letters Policy Tulsa Family News welcomes letters on issues which we’ve covered or on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phonenumbers, or behand delivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be re-printed as is appropriate. by Tom Neal, editor & publisher January is National Volunteer BloodDonor Month and most newspapers in the city have received press releases exhorting Tulsans to donate blood. According to Tulsa’s chapter of the American Red Cross’ communications manager, Maggie Jewell, "the winter time is a crucial time for blood donations and that many new donors are needed to help meet patient needs in local hospitals...many donors who regularly give find that they cannot during the winter months because of a cold or the flu.., the nation’ sblood supply... [is] just a few hours aheadofdemand. Asit stands today, ifeveryone stopped donating blood, our nation’s supply would disappear within only two days..." So you’d think that the Red Cross would welcome all donors. In the Red Cross" press releases, they state, "to donate, one must be 17 years or older, weigh at least 110 pounds, and be feeling wall the day of the donation..." What they don’t say is that ffyou are Gay, you don’ t lie about it, and you give blood, they throw your blood away - even though ALL blood is tested for HIV antibodies anyway! Anyone who’s had sex with someone of the samegender since,ifmemory serves me, 1984, is banned. To reframe a 19th century prejudice: "Irish need not apply" becomes "Faggots need not apply." The local Red Cross shrugs off responsibility, saying it’s a national policy. The national Red Cross places the blame on the Federal Drug Administration (FDA). They all know that thisis bad science. " Once one might have presumed-a tight correlation between sexual orientation/behavior and HIV status. Today, those exposed to the HIV virus can just as easily be heterosexual. Infact, one of the parts ofour population whichhas disproportionately highinfectionrates is young Mrican-Americans. Does anyone think we’d see the Red Cross or FDA saying, "Young Blacks need not apply"? The reality is that this discrimination is socially wrong as well as bad public health policy. TulsaArea Red Cross can’ t:change it by itsdf but its Board of Directors can go on record to call for a change in the policy (it wouldn’t hurt if they added a non-discrimination pohcy too). And it can stop trying to sweep this prejudice under the rug. Until it and the FDA change their policies, its press releases should read, "to donate, one must be 17 years or older, weigh at least 110 pounds, and be feeling well the day of the donation.., andnot be aGay or Bisexual man." by Tom Neal, editor/publisher Early on the morning of Dec. 3rd, like many others, I was shocked to see the face of a friend, someone whom. I respectandlike, inTheWorld accused ofa vcry unlikely act. Reading the article and knowing the man, my first reaction was to wonder that the charges had been brought at all. It is a classic, "he said, she said" recast as "the straight ’boy’ said, the Gay man said." According to comments made to the Tulsa World by Broken Arrow police, the only persons present at the allegedactwere RickFortner and themanwhohas accused him of lewd behavior (I say man who accused because at 16 if he were a murderer, he’d be considered an adult and 16maynotbevery wise, but it’s hardly a child in this day and age). I then wondered at possible motivations for his accuser. Was this the sick behavior of a young man struggling with his own homosexuality andprojecting his self-hatred onto another target? Or is he yet another young American man warped into mindless hatred Of men who love other men by a society whose need for some hated "other’ dates back to before the Republic was founded (let me see: we Americans havehated Indians in the East, we’ ve hated Blacks, we’ve hated Jews, we’ve hated Germans, we especially hated the Irish, we’ve hated Catholics, and Poles, and again Indians in the West, and Asians: Chinese, Japanese, Fast Indians, we’ve hated Commumsts, Socialists, Unionists, women who dared to vote -or merely not be endless baby-factories, hell, we’ ve even hated some Republicans - I personally have thought that Ronnie Reagan was one of the most profoundly and blandly evil men of our time but I digress). Former says he is innocent and I believe him as do his friends and colleagues at his work, All Souls Unitarian ChurchandinCouncil Oaks Mens Chorale whichFortner founded and leads, and I hear his family, thank God. But even when his innocence is proven, and these charges likely are shown to be shameless political opportunism by Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris, Fortuer remains victimized by the accusation. His reputation has been called into question and defending " Fortner says he is innocent and I believe him... But even when his innocence is proven, and these charges likely are shown to be shameless politlea! opportunism by Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris, Fortner remains victimized by the accusation...." himself can 0nly be costly even if the charges are without merit. So why is this haptmning? Political and other observers have known for some dme that Tulsa District Attorney Tim Harris is closely associated with right wing political extremists who call themselves "Christian." Tulsa’s DA’s earlier demonstrated their willingness to abuse the powers of the office to promote a ultra rightwing agenda when they failed to prosecute seriously the brutal hate assault against Tony Orr and Tim Beauchamp until after prim media had written about the DA’s bias, failing even to get them victim’s compensation for their medical injuries as the DA’s office does for other crime victims. Local attorney and TOHRboard member Kerry Lewis suggests that Harris is shamelessly using this accusation to appeal to the part ofhis electoratewho are rabidly prejudiced, to appear as though Hams is "fighting crime" andjust incidentally destroying Rick Fortner’s lifein the process. We can likely anticipate that much of our District Attorney’ s strategy, if they have the nerve to push such a seemingly meritless case so far, is going to be to engage in blatant legal "Gay-bashing." It will be suggested that, ipso facto, Rick’s a"homo" and therefore capable of any evil, and that any accusation by a red-blooded, all- American boy is, of course, God’s own Truth! But what’s really on trial here, is American justice itself. As has played out generation after generation, with minority after minority, the reality has been that our justice, at its best- is uneven, and more often than not is wildly unfair, favoring wealth, whiteness and heteromaleness. And all the problem is not in the DA’s office. Some Tulsa police, year after year, engage in varieties of anti- Gay bias, including breaking the very law, with no restriction nor anti-bias training from Chief Palmer nor the elected official to whom he answers, Mayor Savage. But right now, what matter is that Rick Former is treated fairly. I don’ tknow if he’ s got alegal defense fund set up but he may need it. I’d suggest that any help readers might give, be sent to the Rev. Suzanne Meyers at All Souls Unitarian Church. They’re in the book. by Dave Fleischer National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Ask voters a question - then listen to their answers - and you get what Lily Tomlin calls a "goosebump experience." Why the adrenaline rush? Because you challenge not only your cherished ideas about the voters, but also what you believe about yourself. I was reminded of this while campaigning in Carol City, an African-American, working-class Miami neighborhood. I was with a team of volunteers from SAVE Dade, the group preparing to defend their county Human Rights Ordinance. Scene: short, bald, Jewish me at.the door, talking to a voter: "The Ordinance protects all of us from discrimination, whether we’~re aman or woman, black or white, Gay or non-Gay. The newest part of the law is the part that includes Gay people. Some people want to take the law .apart and remove Gay people from it. But we think that s wrong-wethink everyone ought to be treated with dignity and respect. What do you think?" ,,W,_ith barely a pause, the voter began "My church says. ¯. Oy ray. I figured I knew where we were headed, and it wasn’t the promised land. "My church says--Jesus loves everybody. Diseriminadon is always wrong." She and I had a brief, affirming discussion. I went to door #2, said my piece, and the voter immediately began,"My church says..." I listened. "My church says homosexuality is a sin. It’s wrong. Read your Bible, and you’ll see the Lord has a plan for a better life for you." As he amplified his point of view, I was : trying to decide how quickly to exit. When he stopped : talking, we paused and looked at each other. Then I said, "Well, I’m Gay. I likemylife, and if IYm doing a goodjob ¯ at myjob, do you think my boss should be able to fire me ¯ just because I’m Gay?" ¯¯ The voter looked astonished: "Wall of course, no one should fire you for that." That started a back-and-forth ¯ that surprised both of us. Wedisagreed about why people are Gay. We agreed that discrimination against G.ays is ¯ unacceptable. After a fewminutes, as hewas prepanng to ¯ read tomefrom the Bible, I called ahalt, thanked him, and ¯ moved to the next door. : What I learned about myself was how hard itis to ask : a question and hear the answer. Both times, it only took : three words before I thought I knew what was coming. ¯ Both times, I was Wrong but I realized why asking ~¯ questions is uncomfortable.Whenwe ask a question, and really wait to hear the answer, we are not Controlling the ¯ situation. We are sharing control with the other person. American culture teaches us all to like control. To ¯ celebrate our individuality - to believe that one pe.rson ¯ can make a difference - to have it our way--is as ¯ American as a.microwaved Mcwhopper. But growing up Gay raises the stakes. Many of us realize early on that we’ re different, subject to ridicule or ¯ hurt. So we crave control as a way to protect ourselves, ¯ and to survive. We pump up our talent for isolated ¯ individual achievement, sometimes neglecting team- " building and our curiosity about others. : Our life becomes a search for refuge. To protect ¯ ourselves, we build communities and organizations ¯ designed to shelter us. Butwe thenmiss genuine, reciprocal ¯ connectionwithotherpeople, especially thosewho aren’ t just like us. Werarely ask them what they think ofus. We ¯ assume we know. ¯ When we don’ t ask real questions - like "What do you think?"- we rely on Our past experience. No wonder that ¯ we hold onto ahigh level of paranoia. We can’ t forget the ¯ feelings we knew when we were young. We can’t miss ¯ the hostility expressed by right-wing extremists now. that ¯ we are older. ¯ But, guess what? Neither has much to do with where ¯ most Americans stand today. When we lack confidence ¯ in other people, it is no wonderwe struggle in campaigns. ¯ Ourlifeis a niche, but in elections we need50% + 1 of the ¯ participating voters on our side. ¯ It is understandably scary to put aside our past hurts to test the possibilities in the present. It’s easier to avoid person-to-person campaigning; it’s tempting instead to ¯ rely on every other possible form of communication, all of which have at least some value. But what price do we [ pay for our lack of curiosity, our unwillingness to risk : authentic exchange? Are we, without meaning to, buying ¯ intothelargerculture’stoleranceofstereotypicalthinking? ~ Who is most imperiled when it’ s a deviant act to ask a ¯ question - or to question a stereotype? Let’s rescue ¯ ourselves. Goosebumps are ours, for the asking. Dave Fleischer is a seniorfellow at the Policy Institute ofthe National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. Nationwide Insurance : Allen said. Allen said much of the group’s time is Adds Partners’ Benefits:¯ teachers can ha,,v.e a tough time discussing even with COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) - Nationwide Insurance those~who don t have a disability. Company has just begun to offer employees a new : The Arc, formerly known as th.e .Associatio~ benefits package that will recognize same-sex : Retarded Citizens, adopt,e~,.. a posmon paper mr d0mestic partners. The plan also .will cover relatives " " year~ ago affirmin_g that. indiv]~du,~.s with m~enn~ _ including extended family members~uch as : retardationarepe°plew~tlasexualIeel.mgs’~nhee~n~} ’grandparents - roommates and unmarriedpartners ~vho live w,ith the .employees, Donna. James; [ the 7:2 million people with,,mental retardation in the Nationwide s senior vice president :of ihuman ¯ United States, s~ys people have fundamental ri,g,h,ts resources, told The Outlook, an iaiiependent [ as individuals to have privacy, love and be loved. ¯ eater Columbus Ga,c community. ~ Sfill,. Gay people with mental disabilities are often newsPaper°f,thegr.: - . . .,’.= ~,-~-’--,=-1= ¯ o,;~,~: "zed somefimesb arents,orcaretakers-the Those co,v:_cream.u..~si tt~. a:.e.,p-enaoe.n..t.o. nm. e~’~auP~..’u~ . o~,~att_ ,, em lo eeforsupp0rtorsnarelmanclalrespOn~t°mq¢ v~"v *~ a r " P Y. ........... .... . .... ’ r-All of Nationwide s 28,000 . ¯ . ¯ _ . .’. .--. ¯ wem~pthlotyheeewsaorere.klig.eib..!.e..f0rth-,ep~ lan.Byear: ly~’mber"’ ¯ ’. " W : ~lrglfllfl CoHrt to lalevle A recentForbesMagazine sur~ey, mo!€area: unmarried parmers .are €ovyr~..byh~e’~l~9.ben,efitS ~ :: ’ ROANOKE, Va. (AP)-A Virginia.appe~s court,has 10% of .the businesses with :at least zoo em~toy~.. : agreed"to review the constitutionality oI a state taw Companies that.pr0vide.same-sex P.-aFtner~e3Its .: tl~t ~nalizes oral sex between consenting adults. indtide:Lotus!.De~vd0pment Corp.,MicrosoRtsorp:, .. The.Virginia Court of Appeals agreed to ~ear. the -IBM, Walt Disney Co.,Honeywell and Xerox. ¯ ~i~s ~)f nine men convicted of soliciting sodomy ¯ " " e : from undercover police posing as Gay me~... . McCam, Forbes:Endors : The case will test alaw that some autho~taes say ~ a legitimate way to deter public sex acts. opponen ’Don’t Ask, DOn’t-Tell’- ": 0fthelawarguethatit’sanarchaicinvasionofprivacy .... .........si .that targets homosexu~,,s. The law, referred to as WASHINGTON(AP)-TheClintona~stxatto.n polieybarfing0penh0mosex.ual~sfro,m,..military~e_ ; ,crimes against nature, applies to all consenting ~vorksandshouldbepreserYed,Kepumtcancanoauate~ ’" adults, homosexual and heterosexual, who engagem " oral sex in public or private. Violating the law is a Sen. JohnMcCainanffSteveForbes s~din Decem~ber; ¯ McCain~ a former naval officer and prisoner oI war felony, plmishable ,by up to five years in prison. inVietnam, Saiahewo,~dhave sen.1.°r o,f.fieer,s,re,v]ew Those who say it s time for Virginia to join the list the p0ffcy, but ad,d,ed, I support me poncy, i oeueve of states that have abolished their alifi-sodgmy laws that it;s working. ’ ,, , " i are. encouraged that the appeals court has agr.e.e,d to On"Fox Ne~s Sunday, Forbes said: ’The military ¯ hear the case. The sodomy law also was invokedmthe is not an institution for socialengineering. It has. a ¯ case of Sharon Bottoms, a Richmond-area woman ~:ery real,role of protectingus. It... operates in very " who lost custody of her son in 1993 when ajudge said speJzial circumstance§, and theref0reapresident must " she was an linfit mother because she and her female take heed of leaders such as Gen. Powell and G.en. ¯ lo~er engaged in oral sex. Scfiwarzkopf Who s,a,y that you cannot have open inhispetitiontothe.appealscourt, Garrison said,,,the Gays in the military.. The Repu.bh,ca~,~ fro,nt-ru~n~ar~ ’ : case is not just a Gay issue, but one that affects me ri ht to 4 5 million adult Virginians to be Texas Gov George W.-Bush, also nas. enaorseu Clinton policy. " , The position of Vice President A1 Gore, a,Viemam they have a reasonable expectataon to privacy, t ne veterat~, and.his Democratic Opponent Bill Bradle~ is appeal attacks the law from several angles: that it that people who.can be firefighters, police officers ¯ violates privacy rights guaranteed by both state and andmembe~s,ofColigress shouldhaVeopenaccess to federal Constitutions; that it is based on religious .military service as wall. Gay civilrights activists who ¯ met with Clinton ¯last week said the president¯ told " them the ~’don’.t ask, dOn~t.tell’’ policy was a failure.. R.., ,rded-Gays and ¯ Lesb"ia"ns" "Find Support. NEW HAVEN, Conn. (AP)- For decades, the ¯ sexuality of people with mental, dis~abi!i_ti_e_s,^W_~e]~ ¯ taboo a subject that parents ann prolesslonm~ ,o~ ~ acknowledged its ..ex~stence. The disabl.ed were o~ften ¯ treatedas if they Were eternal children; immune irom desire. Bu,t as people with mental disabilities come of : age in a more accepting’atmosphere, they are’: grounds and thus violates the separation ofchurch and state; and that its potential five-year prison sentence subjects defendants to cruel find unusual punishment. Eighteen men were charged under the law-in the Roanoke Police Depfirtment;s sting. The biggest challenge for those appealing .their convictions may be convincing the appealS.court that they have legal standing to overturn a’law that affects not just them, but all adult Virgimans. In 1979 - the-last’ time a higtier state court heard a challenge of the sodomy_. law, the Virginia Supreme Court ruled that a man arrested in Richmond had no such standing2 ’ Since then, several states have recoglfized that defendants arrested for alleg.ed public ~.ex acts are entitled to fight the law not just as it was applied to them, but as it potentially co~d be applied to bthers.i formerly Family of Faith & Greater Tulsa MCC Joined as one body of believers. Come celebrate with us. Sunday Services, 11 am ~aplewood, 8~18-1715 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 S. Harvard, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIq Sun. Worship, ~0:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 prn 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.S. Licensed Professional & National Certified Counselor, Cel:tifled Hypnotherapist .,Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation After Hours Appointments Available 2865 E. 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Cincinnati, 425-7882 Saint John 4200 S; Atlanta Place, 742-7381 Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Tdnity 501 S. Cincinnati-, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Amanda met her partner, "Helen," in 1984 when they were living in Georgia. Helen was artificially inseminated in 1993 and gave birth to a daughter that December. Amanda was involved in the preparations for the birth and helped take care of the little girl for a year and a half. The relationship ended in 1995. The next year, Helenmoved to Chicago with her daughter and has refused to allow Amanda any contact with the child since 1997, the court said. Amanda’s suitargued that even though she was not married to Helen, She Should have the same rights parents have under common law. Sawyer, an attorney for the Eainbda Legal Foundation, said a decision would be made later on. whether to appeal to the Illinois Supreme Court. Helen’s attorney, Leon Finkel, noted that Illinois does not recognize common law in such cases’~ He said boyfriends, aunts and uncles and in some cases even stepparents are among those whoare not entitled to visitation rights under Illinois law. Finkel also said limiting the list was a good idea. because parents should only m special instances be forced to give up the power to determine who is allowed to visit their children. He added that while Illinois doesn’t recognize same-sex marriages, it does recognize same-sex adoptions. Had Amanda legally adopted the girl, she would have had visitation rights and the dispute would never have taken place, he said. Study Says Marriage Ban Would Hurt Children SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) - At least 40,000 children living with Gay couples and 100,000 more with Gay single parents would be affected by a proposed state ban on same-sex marriages, according to a new study. Those children could feel ostracized by. society if their parents’ Unions were considered invalid, concludes the review by Michael Wald, a Stanford University law professor who specializes in public policy’s effect on children. Proposition 22 would let California recognize only marriages performed between a man and a woman. It will be voted on in March. ’q’his alleged study, which promotes homosexual marriages, is nothing more than a bogus political campaign hit piece against Proposition 22 and the institution of marriage," said Robert Glazier, a spokesman for the Yes on Proposition 22 campaign. Wald’s review used findings by the American Psychological Association and several research studies on same-sex parents. "By all reports, these families are doing very wall," Wald said. "It is different, obviously, growingup in afamily with two parents of the same sex, but children adjust to it." Studies have shown that the children of Gay parents are welladjusted and do wall in school, but often face intolerance, he said. The report drew criticism from David Orgon Coolidge, director of the Marriage Law Project atThe Catholic University ofAmerica inWashington, D.C., who called it "an attempt to mislead voters." "prop 22 is not about same-sex couples," Coolidge said in a written statement. "Prop 22 is about whether Californians will be allowed to decide for themselves how marriage will be defined in this state." Colorado Anti-Marriage Amendment Progresses DENVER (AP) - A proposed constitutional amendmentto restrict same-sexmarriages in Colorado has been approved by the .secretary of state’s office and now advances to a 30-day challenge period, ifapproved by voters, the measure would recognize only marriages between, a man and a woman and would make same-sex marriages performed in other states invalid in Colorado. Themeasure, which cleared the secretary of state’s ritle-setting board in December, will face opposition. "As a statewide agency,we are eommitted to fighting this every step of the way," said LoriAnn Girvan, executive director of Equality Colorado. "We feel that the taxpayers of Colorado don’t need another anti-Gay ballotinitiative that will re-ignite our state’s reputation as a place of intolerance." Candace McCune, an Englewood lawyer representing proponents of the measure who formed the group Coloradans for Traditional Marriage, said the measure would close a loophole in the state Constitution. The Legislaturelast year rejected an attempt by Sen. Marilyn Musgrave, R-Fort Morgan, to pass a statute similar to the proposed amendment. Opponents oftheinitiativehave 30 days to challenge it. Ifit survives, signatures ofnearly 64,000 registered voters. W~ould have to be collected tO.l~m the ~easure off ~1i~ ~6all0t. Coloradatis- for Tradiu6nal" Marriage also withdrew a proposal to ban same-sex marriages. Hank Aaron Slams Pitcher’s Comments ATLANTA (AP)- Hall of Famer Hank Aaronjoined thebarrage ofcriticism against AtlantaBraves pitcher Johp_ Rocker, despite his apology for making derogatory comments about Gays and minorities. Aaron said he was "very sick and disgusted about the whole situation" and questioned how Rocker could continue in baseball. "I have no place in my heart for peoplewhofeel that way," the all-time home run king, who is the Braves’ senior vice president, told syndicated radio host Jay Mariotti. About 15 activists protested outside Turner Field, urging the Braves to fire Rocker for the comments, which were published i~n a recent Sports Illustrated. "There may be some room for redemption, but not as anAtlantaBrave," said Michael Langford, president of the United Youth-Adult Conference. "We encourage him to enter his resignation right now and go into an early retirement." Rocker told Sports Illustrated he would never play for a New York team because he didn’t want to ride a subway train "next to some queer with AIDS." He also bashed immigrants, saying, "I’m not a very big fan of foreigners... How the hell did they get in this country?" While driving in Atlanta during the interview, Rocker criticized Asian women: Look. Look at this idiot," he said of another driver. "I guarantee you she’s a Japanese woman. How bad are Asianwomenatdriving?" Healso calledan overweighl black teammate "a fat monkey." Rocker apologized in a ffritten statement, saying he was carried away by his "competitive zeal" against New York Mets fans. He said heis not a racist mad the comments do not reflect his true feelings. Civic groups and a member of the Atlanta city Council delivered aletter to Braves owner TedTurner and general manager John Schuerholz demanding Rocker’s immediate firing. "We would have hoped there would havebeen amore scathing condemnation of these comments," said Councilman Derrick Boazman. "This was more thanjust rhetoric. This was hate." There was no answer at Turner’ s office, and his publicist did pot return a telephone call. Baseball Commissioner Bud Selig called Rocker’s remarks "inappropriate and offensive." He said baseball is reviewing the matter and would take "appropriate action." There is precedent: Former Cincinnati Reds owner Marge Schott was suspended from baseball for the 1993 season for her use of racial and ethnic slurs. ¯ Pentagon .Seeks Tougher : Stand Aga,nst Harassers ¯ WASH!NGTON(AP)-The U.S. Defense Department ¯ is piessing armed services leaders to re-emphasize to ¯¯ commanders that harassment of troops based on their sexual orientation will notbe tolerated. The Pentagon : has drawn fire recently for its "don’t ask, don’t tell" : policy. Critics say an increasing number ofGay and Lesbian servicemembers arebeingharassed, contrary : to the stated policy ofpermitting them to serve so long : as they do not declare their sexual orientation. : The criticism sharpened after a court-martial in ¯ which anArmyprivate was convicted of murdering a ¯ Gay ,soldier harassed with the knowledge of his ¯ superiors. PresidentBill Clinton said earlier lastmonth ¯ that the Pentagon’s policy on Gays was "out of ¯ whack." ". see Briefs, p. 14 Older Americans With HIV Increasing HOUSTON (AP) - An aging population, life-extending treatments, and a misperception that AIDS is a disease of the young have fostered an increase in AIDS infections among older Americans, the Houston Chronicle reported recently. Nationally, about 11% of reported AIDS : cases are in people 50 or older, the newspaper reported. Seniors are the age group with the fastest-growing AIDS rates - up 22% between 1991 and 1996, compared with a 9% increase among people age 13-49, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta. However, health officials warned that the increases seem dramatic because the numbers are small. A 106% increase in the number of older women infected through sex, for example, is based on an increase from 340 eases to 700 eases. "’At this point, the numbers are so small that they really have notbeen perceived as a problem," said Dr. Rose Brownridge, acting bureau chief of the Texas Department:of Health division that deals with AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. She added, however, that the issue needs further study. About 72,000 .americans age 50 and over and about 4,50(3 Texans have been. diagnosedwithAIDS. N~gneknows how many seniors are infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, because not all states require HIV reporting and because older people arethought to be tested far less often than their younger counterparts. According to the CDC, slightly more than one-third of older people with AIDS are Gay or Bisexual men. About one of five was infected by using a dirty needle to inject drugs. While popular attention has been focusedon declining infection rotes among children, AIDS among seniors has been virtually ignored. That must change, said Marcia try, chief of social science research on aging at the National Institute onAging. "The pointis that society cannot ignore AIDS in that pediatric population, in the young adult population or the older population," Ms. try said. "For people living longer or getting infected at_ an older age, these people are incredibly isolated, and they may not getthe treatment they need." That is likely to change with the onslaught of baby boomers nearing retirement age, said Kathy Nokes, a New Yorknursewho works withinfected older patients and editor of a book on seniors with AIDS. "Baby boomers talk about everything, try everything, demand everything," she said. "To a 60- or 70- year-old, that’s not polite." Ironically, the drug Viagra that has allowedmanyoldermento revive dormant sex lives also has heightened concern aboutthe spread ofAIDS. "They are pretty AIDS-unaware as they venture out into the world of sexual activity," said Sara Selber, executive director of AIDS Foundation Houston. "AIDS wasn’ treally on their screen at the time they were (previously) sextmlly active." Fish Gene Key to Immune System TAMPA, Fla. (AP) - A gene discovered in puffer fish - which have immune systems similar to humans - may hold secrets to learning more about diseases that affect the human immune system, such as AIDS, medical researchers say. ~esearchers doing work at St. Petersburg’s All Children’s Hospital published their findings in this week’s Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, an academic journal. Despite the finding, researchers do not know what the newly found gene does, said Gary Litman, the University of South qoridaimmunologistwholedthe research effort. However, they do know the gene plays amajor role in theimmune systembecause of its complex structure. In addition to the puffer fish, the ~mportant gene is found in other bony fish, including zebra fish and sharks. "The hunt is on for this gene in man," said Litman, who is working with eight other researchers in Florida and in California and Massachusetts. "Now we know where to look." Researchers are using computers .to search human DNA for the identical or similar sequence of 114,000 amino acids found in the fish DNA. There are about 3 million amino acids in the human body. Discoveries about the immune system can affectnew developments in treatments for diseases ranging from common allergies to cancer and Alzheimer’s disease. Litman said thenew gene mightprovide clues to an additional type of immunity that doctors might not have realized. AIDS Most Important Story HUTCHINSON, Kan. (AP)- The discovery of and ongoing efforts to treat and find a cure for AIDS was the top story of the century, according to a survey of a group ofhigh school history students. The students surveyed by The Hutchinson News otherwise generally agreed with adult readers surveyed by the newspaper, but, adults gave AIDS barely a mention. ’ It had such a high impact on what they thought about their own mortality," said Susan Smith, a teacher atHutchinsonHigh School. "They didn’t think they could die, and they certainly didn’t think having sex could make them die." Lindsey Derr, 16, saidnews aboutAIDS is evenmoreimportantnow that the disease is generally understood by experts and millions of people have been identified as AIDS,positive. Jacqui Faber, 16, said a lot of people still don’t know enough about where and how to get tested. Some issues identified by students as mostimportant occurred long before their lifetimes, such as womengaining theright to vote in America. Other issues that are again xn the news, such as the Scopes "Monkey" trial pitting evolutionary theory against creationism, weren’t seen as important. Other stories that were big during their lifetimes, such as the explosion of the space shuttle Challengerandthemeltdown ¯of the Russian nuclear power plant at Cheruobyl, were neat the bottom of the high-school list. Thebombing ofPearl Harbor that led to U.S. entry into World War II, top of the general readership’ s list,was infifthplace among the students. A high-ranking story on the students’ list that ranked low among the gener~ readership was the "I Have a Dream speech given by the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. Talesha Brassield, a 16-year-old junior, said King’s speech was still a reminder that Americans have a lot to learn about respecting each other. "There The Second Annual Progressive Alliance Summit The State Capitol Oklahoma City Saturday Januar 15th, 2000 Join activists from many different progressive movements from across the state for skills and coalition building. Keynote Speaker: Frosty Troy The Oklahoma Observer For more information or for reservations contact Planned Parenthood in Tulsa at 918-587-7674 or Keith Smith at The Smith Group: 405-840-2219 Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here for you! ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext. 208 or 218 Dial-Up Accounts Dedicated ISDN Con nections Virtual Hosting Visit our web page wwwag~sweb.net (918) 622-4965 Internet Marketing E-Commerce Web Page Design On-Site Setu p Avail able Medical Excellence And Compassionate Since 1926. ST. JOHN.MEDICAL CENTER THE HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN FOUNDATION PRESENTS Equality Rocks Saturday, April 29, 2000 Robert F. Kennedy Memorial Stadium, Washington, DC Hear Our Voices Our Vision For the New Millennium IsAWorld Where Peopl.e Can Live With Hope, Equality and Safety. Join Melissa Etheridge, Ellen Degeneres, Anne Heche and a Host of other Stars as They Rock. the New Millennium and Take a Stand for a Safer, BetterWorld for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People Everywhere. Tickets on Sale at 800..551.SEAT or www.ticketmaster.com are still people that believe people have to think the same, look the same and believe the same things," Talesha said. Thais Protest US Drug Monopoly BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - Some 120 Thai activists and HIV-AIDS patients camped Wednesday outside the Health Ministry demanding an end to a U.S. pharmaceutical monopoly thatmakes antiviral drugs too expensive for most in Thailand. They want theThai government to enforce a patent act to legalize local manufacture of Didanosine or DDI, a medicine that suppresses the deadly HIV virus in a patient’s blood, delaying the onset of AIDS. Few. of the more than 1 million HIV postive individuals in Thailand, a country of 62 million people, can afford drugs such as DDI and AZT, imported to Thailandfromoverseas,mainlyfromU.S. manufacturers. DDI,manufacturedby U.S. ftrmBristol- Myers Squibb, is sold at50 baht ($1.25) a tablet in Thai hospitals. Patients need at least fourtablets aday, costingin all about 6,000 baht-10,000 baht ($160-250) a month. A Thai office worker earns about 4,400 baht($110) amonth. Thedrugprice would be halved if Thailand produce it locally. Last month, Medecins Sans Frontieres, the Nobel Peace Prize-winnlngemergency healthcare group, said U.S. trade pressure has made proper health care for H!V/ AIDS patients nnaffordable in Thailand and other less developed countries. Activists said access to DDI, used by around 5% of people living with HIV in 1997, declined over the past two years due to Thailand’s economic recession. Since theHIV epidemicbeganin the early 1990s, more than 260,000 Thais have contracted full-blown AIDS. ’q’he government has full legislation to enforce the act butit fears the U.S. will be angry andit mightlead to trade sanctions," said Paisal Tan-ud, spokesmanoftheThai Network For People Living With HIVAIDS. The activists plan to camp outside the ministly in Bangkok until they get an answer from the government. Earlier this year, campaigners succeeded in demanding local manufacture of Diflu.can, a drug used to treat cryptococcat memngitis, a fungal infection of the brain which occurs in HIV-AIDS patients. The government has allowed two local pharmaceutical compames to produce the drug, originally manufactured by the U.S. drug company Pfizer. Girl + Grandmother Tell Their Story WOODBRIDGE, Va. - When Annisha Wilbum was 4 years old, she went to live with her grandmother, Valerie Reeder- Bey, who is HIV-positive. Reeder-Bey knew she had to talk about her condition with her granddaughter. The hard part was finding a way to do it without frightening her or delving into uncomfortable details. "I was living in fear that anything could happen," said Reeder-Bey,46,wholives inWoodbridge. "I wanted to tell her. I just really had to find the way without being graphic." She started by jotting down things that Annisha shouldn’tworry about: "It’ s okay to hug," she wrote. "It’s okay to hold hands." As the girl got older, she started making her own contributions to the list. ¯ Talking on the telephone with her : grandmother was OK, Annisha pointed ¯ out, or going rollerblading together. ¯ Thus was born "My Grandma Has : AIDS: Annisha’s Story," a 14-page ¯ illustrated children’s book that was ¯ published this year by a pharmaceutical " ¯ company and distributed at the U.S. Conference on AIDS in Denver and a World AIDS Day commemoration in ¯ Boston. "- Annisha and her grandmotherare both ¯ listed as authors, but thebookis writtenin ¯¯ Annisha’s voice. "Hi. My name is Annisha. This is a story about my grandma," the book begins. "She is real : special to me. Mygrandmaisjustlikeany ¯ other grandma. My grandma has AIDS." The book goes on to describe the various things they do together. "I know that ifmy friendhas AIDS, I cannotcatch itbybeing ~ their friend," Annisha says in the book. ~ Reeder-Bey, who also lives with her ¯ husband, Tommy, is excited about the : book’s distributionandhopes parents will ¯" use it to introduce the subject of AIDS to i¯ tHheeairvcehniilndrVenie.wS,haeniosnaplrsoofitthtehafotpurnodveirdeosf : health counseling and support groups for ¯ people living with AIDS. "I would love ¯ forit to be in ev,,e~y household. That’s ~e ultimate dream,’ she said. "Even if it s ¯ not in every household, I want everyone ~ to know about it." : The road to "My Grandma Has-AIDS: ¯ Annisha’s Story"was along one. It began ¯ ¯ whenReeder-Beywent toherownmother, looking for solace after she learned she ¯" was HIV-positive. Reeder-Bey said she ¯ spent 22 years as an alcoholic and drug ¯ addict. Her mother could not accept the : diagnosis and sent her daughter away, she : said: "I forgive my mother now, but then, ¯ I couldn’t take it," she recalled. ¯ Six years later, Reeder-Beywas alcohol- . and drug-free andembarking onanew life ¯ as an AIDS activist and drug counselor. ¯ Then her daughter, who has had her own : struggles with addiction, asked her to take in Annisha. "Wehad already spent a lot of ." time together," Reeder-Bey said of ¯ Annisha. "She just became a part of my : life." When Annisha was 6, Reeder-Bey ¯ thought the two of them had a book worth ¯ sharing. She went to several well-known : children’s book publishers, who told her ¯ that the subject matter was inappropriate ¯ or didn’t fit their needs. ¯ Butthebookdidcatch the eye ofofficials ." at Agouron Pharmaceuticals, a La Jolla, ." Calif.-based company that makes the ." AIDS drug Viracept, and Agouron ¯ published it. Agouron has an active : outreachprogramthatfocuses particularly ¯" on minority communities, and the book ¯ worked well with that program, said Joy ¯ Schmitt, a company spokeswoman. : Reeder-Bey also made sure that Prince ¯ WilliamCounty school administrators got : a copy of"Annisha’s Story." Annishais a ¯ third-grader at Featherstone Elementary. ¯ Agouron said it plans to distribute the ~ book at otherAIDS conferences, with the ¯ authors’ permission. In the meantime, ¯ Reeder-Bey is a one-woman distribution ¯ machine, bringing books to her doctor’s ¯ office, to work, to wherever she thinks ¯ someone would pick one up. "I want : people to open up and start talking to kids : about it. Kids want you to be open with : them," Reeder-Bey said. ¯ And Annisha said she plans to keep ¯ writing. She has advice for other would- ~ be authors: "I think they should write ¯ what’s in their imagination, and write : what’sin their heart." Happy New Year and Century to " hit Broadway, running for 2 years. This everyone! "If you’re with me, next year : ground breaking drama about 9 Gay men willbe... The perfect year!" Sorry, Petula ¯ gathering for a birthday party with catty, left a little Norma Desmond behind. (The ¯ emotionally trying results spawned a film line is from a song that features ~ -by William Friedldn (who went on to prominentlyinthemusical, direct "the Exorcist", and "Sunset Boulevard".) Actually, there were afew days I couldn’ t tell the two apart. What, me catty? I don’t know what you mean. . . (Eyes bat iunocenfly. Well, as close as I can get... Shaddup! Stop snickering amongst yoursdves!) January at the PAC: Ben E. King performs with the Tulsa philharmonic the 7 &8. The armchair traveler goes to France on the 10; and the All State Music Festival happens onthe 15. "Gaelic Storm," the Irish band that played in the 3rd class steerage section of the Titanic appears at the PACJanuary 19 &20. Leo danced a jig to their tunes in the film. Latin music is played by Scarles, Allen and River on the 22, and a concurrent concert hapl~L’ns with Janina Fialkowska at the piano. On the 23, Das Puppenspeil (I love that name!) puppet theatre performs with the Philharmonic, and the month closes with "Buddy," the Buddy Holly musical from the 25 through the 30. "Crossing Delancy" opens on the 28. More info on these artists to come. If ~ou lust can’t wait, you can always call e f~iendly folks at the PAC ticket office at 596-7111. Forthose abitmoreventuresome, Dallas seems to be the place of interest in upcoming months. GeorgeWinstonplays Majestic Theatre Jan 7; and for those who recall a rather large member of the Rocky Horror Picture Show cast, Meat Loaf performs at McFarlin Auditorium Jan 16. My, they’re really bringing in the class acts now, aren’t they? For the more modem crown, Counting Crows plays the Bronco bowl Jan 25, and Beck plays there Jail 26. Kids in the Hall, the all male cross dressing comedy troupe of some fame in the mid-90’s plays the Bronco bowl Feb 3. The Pretenders, with opening act "Gay Dad", perform at the Bronco Bowl Feb 6. The Chieftains, for those who like their Irish music Irish, are at the Fort Worth Bass Performance Hall Feb 6. Back in Dallas, Diana Krall plays the Majestic Theatre Feb 18. And for those into boy bands, Backstreet Boys (almost has-beenS) are at Reunion Arena March3-4. For themorefolksy set, Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young are playing Reunion Arena March 7th. For thosepining for somedecent theatre - and I know many of you are, even if you don’t attend it- Mort Crowley’ s seminal work, "The Boys in the Band", runs through January 29 at the Fort Worth Theatre (817-921-5300). It rated a full page storyin theFortWorthStarTelegram. Apparently, Fort Worth has become a progressive town, in that one of its oldest and mostprestigious theatres has started a series of Gay plays called the "Labor of Love" series. They have sold out. Hello, Theatre Tulsa! "Boys" opened in April 1968, and was one of’the first, if not the first, Gay play to "Sorcerer") and nnhinged the closet door that held Gay theater locked inside and blew it down the hallway. . FortWorthTheatrehas already produced two shows this season thathad to do with some aspect of homosexuality: "Seducing Sally" and "The SantalandDiaries". Folks, this is a city nicknamed "Cowtown". Hello? It’ s about the size of Tulsa. They have 3 theatres there that are unafraid to try something new -CircleTheatre, Stage West, and now, the most staid of the Fort Worth Theatres. We have Heller, and : sometimes TU, and the quality of theatre ¯ in this town is very hit and miss. I know : that’ll tick some folks off, but it’s true. ¯ And more often than not, it’s missing. : Let’s work on that, shall we? I mean, ¯ Cowtown, really! Tickets are $10 - $12 dollars, and a ¯ percentage of ticket sales goes to AIDS ~ Resources of Rural Texas. And from the : pics of the cast, it looks like it would be a ¯ handsome evening, indeed. Thanks to : Mark Lowry of the Fort Worth Star Telegram for some of the info used in this : tern. Usually, when I write of an album wherein the songs, music and lyrics, tend to eerily reflect events in my own time space, it’ s a safe bet that I’m writing about Stevie Nicks. Shejust does thht sort thing. I got walloped this last week by an album my best friend Karin (who’ s straight, by the way) mademelisten to. She started off by saying some of the songs reminded her of me and one of my last major romantic entanglements. Then she started playing it, and I was just about knocked out of the car. The album is by an artist I never gave much ~hought to, except to wish that I’ d never hear the phrase "I Wanna Come Over" again. Yes, I was ~,valloped by a Lesbian MdissaEtheridge slat~stalbum, "Breakdown" (an ironic rifle, given the album’ s previously stated significance) is a treasure trove of powerful lyrics and dynamite music. The song "Stronger Than Me" is one of the ones my best friend Karin related to : my experience from her viewpoint. The ~ lyrics are dark and intense, and the music ; echoes their intent. "I don’t know how : you can take it / invest your heart and then ¯ youbreakit / I don’ tknow how youcan set : it free / you must be stronger than me" : certainly sums up my somewhat ¯ overoptimistic romantic enthusiasms according to Karin. "Breakdown" is a power ballad about a ~ love gone so wrong one has left, but the ¯ other p~rson keeps pulling you back like ~ a pit of quicksand. "I’m coming to your ~ breakdowntonight.""Enough ofMe" was ¯ another sock to the stomach in its eerie : capturing of what the last year of my last ; majorrelationship was like. see Jirn,p. 14 The Tulsa Phiharmonicpresents pianist Janina Fialkowska the third concert in the, Masterworks Series Saturday, January 22, 8pm Tulsa Performing-Arts Center Debussy, Prelude a l’apres midi d’une faune Grieg, Piano Concerto in A minor, op. 16 Wagner, selections from Der Ring des Nibelungen Tickets: 747-PHIL or 596-7111 earles, Allen & Rive.ra URBANTULSA THE KERR FOUNDATION, INC. FOUNDERS AND ASSOCIATES, INC. "cO IJ/IELLIAS cao~oea~v:VAL CANIPAROLIw~€:FREOEIIIC CHOPIN Long before multi-million dollar book deals - were the fashion, Alexandre Dumas’ son (yes, the "The Three Musketeers" author) converted his torrid:turned-terminal love affair into a best seller. From there, composer Guiseppe Verdi adapted the story for opera (hello, "La Traviata"). Today, choreographer Val Canipamli finished the iob of turning "La Traviata" into dance. Using drama, not melodrama. For understatement underscored. A full-length love story. "You don’t have to knew ballet to love ballet. You just have to try it." -- MARCE£LO ARGELJNI ARTISTIC DIRECTOI~ " FRIDAY 8 PI~EBRUARY 11 SATURDAY B PMFEBRUARY 12 SUNDAY 3 PMFEBRUARY 13 SEASON SPONSORS: ABC Music Order tickets by calling The Tulsa BaJlet Ticket Offica: 749-600| 4512 S. Peoria Ava. , Tulsa, OK 74105-4563 ¯ VisH GILCREASE MUSE I~" SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pm, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Service - 11am, 2545 S. Yale, 749-0595 (Welcoming) Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Service - 1 lain, 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 Metropolitan Community Church United Service, llam, 1623 North Maplew00d, Info! 838-1715 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1lain, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity. Church of Christianity Services: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown,749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gayfrransgendercd Alliance 6:30 pm, Meets at the United Ministry Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~’ MONDAYS HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378)3501 E. Admiral (east of Harvard) HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center 7:30pro, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2rid Mon/each mo. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AIDS Committee, call for meeting date, noon, 585-5551 Council Oak Men’s Chorale, rehearsals - call for times, info: 748-3888. I~" TUESDAYSAIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call for next meeting date. 1430 S. Boulder, 585-5551 Live And Let Live, Community of Hope United Methodist, 7:30pro, 2545 S. Yale Multienltural AIDS Coalition, call for next meeting date. Urban League, 240 East Apache, 584-0001 PrimeTimers, mens group, Pride Center. 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/HOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, info: 743-4297 ~ WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pm, 3210b So. Norwood Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group, more information, call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pm, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. ~" THURSDAYS HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pm 834-8378, 3507 E. Admiral Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’ s, call Red Rock Mental Health at 584-2325 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, Info: 834-4194 ~ FRIDAYS SafeHaven, Young Adults Social Group, 1 st Fri/each mo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th I~" SATURDAYS Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pm, Community of Hope,1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Lambda A-A, 6 pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. t~= OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 298-0827 Gal-A-Vanting, Womens Social & Cultural Group Call for info: Kathy at 322-6322, or Barb at 459-6825. OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long rides & short rides from Zeigler Park. Long & short tides from Tulsa Gay Community Center. Write for info: POB 9165, Tulsa, OK 74157 Mixed Volleyball, non-active in winter, call Shawn at 243-5190 for spring activities. Ifyour organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 orfax 583-4615. reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library Here are a couple of new books at the library that you shouldn’t miss! A few years ago, author Rik Isensee wrote an eulighteningbookforGay men, rifled "Reclaiming Your Life: The Gay Man’s Guide to Love, Self-Acceptance and Trust." He’s back with a new winner for those of us in our, ahem, late thirties (and on up), "Are You Ready?" The time has come for the community to understand that Gay life doesn’t end simply because you remember Watergilte. This book helps you learn to celebraie i the positive things about aging (flexibility, " greater "One d Isensee’s primary tasks is to help Gay males reach closure with a youtlt~l identity¯ The key to this is learning to stop living for the moment¯ For a ¯ reclaim youthful ambitions. This tendency : can be compared to the stage of ¯¯ ’bargaining’ in grief reactions. If only I’d just work harder, exercise more, go to ¯ bars, get a facelift, get a tattoo- I’ll be all ¯ right." One of the suggested steps toward stabilizing your life is to get in a long term relationship. Just because it didn’t work whenyouwereyoungand foolish doesn’t mean it won’t work now! There is a good section that provides some basic guidance toward finding a rdationship, including "what are you looking for?," "distinguish _between desirables.and necessary qualities," and variety of reasons, "be open to men who " don’tfityouinsual type." we are living longer. _There are alsosomegood tolerances, self ann " 1- .... ¯.... " ~ d nav" ate neell to remmn acceptance) an lgate~_____-~_~. the negatives (dis-eti~ vital and involved. over physical aging, d i s i 11Usi onm e n t,--It Is very Important examples of how depressio,and lethargy). One of Isensee’s to-not waste time primary tasks is to help re]ivln6 - Gay males reach closure with a youthful identity, the past.. The key to this is learning to stoplivingfor themoment. Fora variety of re~ons~ we are living long~-and need to remain vital and involved. It is very important to not waste time reliving the past. As Isensee explains, "During this uncertain time, when we’ ve lost our way, there may be a sense of not having accomplished anything. Itmay be difficult to remember earlier goals or to ascribe any significance to them. It’s also hard to imagine what else we would like to do. Rather than tolerating the anxiety of not knowing, some men are tempted to make up for lost time - through some radical change for its own sake, or a mad dash to with Former and does not believe the accusation to be credible. Attorney Kerry Lewis, who is also a board member of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights suggested that anti-Gay bias and political opportunism on the part of Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris and his staff may be behind this accusation. Lewis noted that such a case would have appeal for Republican Harris whose voter bast is tied to religious extremist elements in the Republican Party. Lewis also said that given the level of anti-Gay prejudice in the area’s jury pool; Harris maybecalculating thatheneednotactually prove Former guilty, that is that merely being a Gay man accused by a younger man will be taken as proof of guilt in a legal system. that is hostile to minority citizens. DrumwrightattorneyTimDaniel whose practice~has’included defending Gaymen relationships change over the years. No, thesethi~gs are not easy, but the hard work will pay off in. the end! Another new book is, ’q’he Book of Gay and Lesbian Quotations." This is a fun compilation of quotes by Gays and ¯ Lesbians; and Gay-friendly peopleas well, ¯ from ancient times to the present. It is a ." simple reference book broken down into ¯ broad subjects: solitude, morality, hope, ¯ etc. : Some of the better quotes are: "a waist ¯ is terrible thing to mind," "anyone who ¯ says that softball is a boring game to . watch isn’t looking at the right things!," : and "the only way of getting dd of temptation is to yield to it." This is a super : book for one liners. : Check for these and other fun books at ¯ your local branch library, or call the ¯ Readers ServicesdepartmentattheCentral : Library at 596-7966. : who say they were entrapped by Tulsa ¯ Police, believes that the Tulsa County ¯ DistrictAttorney uses anti-Gay bias in the legal system to plea bargain cases, : knowing that accused Gay men, even if ¯ they are not guilty, or even if the police ¯ engaged in illegal conduct themselves in ¯ order to make an arrest, will accept a ~ "deal" rather than risk having a hostile ¯ jury and even more serious charges and ¯ punishment. : Anti-Gay hate crime victims, Tony Orr ¯ &TimBeauchamp, also have pointed out ¯ that Hams’ office failed to assist them in : getting normal compensation for their : medical expenses due to the assault on ¯ them, and that the DA’s office did not ¯ even prosecute seriously their assailants ¯ until after The Tulsa World wrote a story : about the DA’s inaction. ¯ Fortner did return a call to TulsaFami!y : Newsbutonadviceofhis attorney declined ; to comment onthe allegations. 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The holidays are over, the mistletoe " - I resolve to keep saw blades sharp and delightfullynsed, abusedandrefused.The ¯ clean. I will unplug power saws before long nights and short days of winter seem ¯ removing the blade. to stretch on forever. It is - I resolve to use trendy the time to dreamoffuture projects that will not be started until spring time comes. And it is time for making all of those godawful New Year’s resolutions that endurebutfor a mere matter of days. Why not combine home projects with good intentions andmake some resolutions you’ll actually keep? Inall modesty, and with absolutely no sense of overstepping boundaries, your DIYD gently offers her own suggestions for your approval and implementatzon. Considerityourblueprint for a millennium of satisfying home projects. Or consider it your DIYD telling you what to do - again. And always. Why should this century be any different than the. last? You love it, ducklings, you know you do! Now, repeat after me - I resolve to always work safely! I will read and follow direction~ and will not by-pass guards or safety devices. I will use personal protection (safety glasses, earplugs, etc.), and ask for help if I need it. -I will measure twice (minimum!) and cut once. Woodis expensive and screwing up makesmecranky and unbearable. Let’ s avoid that this year. -I will not swear to the extent and/or noise level that the dog or cat needs deep therapy. -I will always involve my partner (if applicable) inhome repair and decoration decisions. Even if they say they "don’t care" - trust me, cupcake, theydo! - I resolve to take good care of my tools. I will keep them clean, organized and in good repair. I will thereby not waste precious project time obsessing about the mystery location of the screwdriver or paint roller. - I resolve not to treat any ofmy partner’ s questions as stupid - no matter how glaringly obvious the answer or solution. - Iwill not loan out tools I care about to people who abuse them or do not return them, I will acknowledge my emotional/ psychological bond with my tools, especially thoserequiring apower supply, - I will buy that leather tool bdtas soon as I can. And I will use it (silk boxers optional). - I resolve to always set my ladder up on a stable, even surface and to havesomeone watching out for me nearby. That especially applies if I am on the roof. The dog does not count as my ’safety buddy.’ -I resolve to overcome my fear and loathing of spiders and slugs long enough to enter the crawl space and make that minorplumbingrepair to thebathtub drain. Other-wise, I will overcome my aversion to paying a plumber to do the same. "In all modesty, and with absolutely no sense of overstepping boundaries, your DIYD gently offers her suggestions for your approval . . . Consider it your blueprint for a millennium of satisfying home projects. Or consider it your DIYD telling you what to do - again. And always. Why should this century be any different than the last?" colors and designs in my home sparingly, remembering fullyhow appalled I was by the ’50’s Peptopink bathroom walls, tile and tub. I am leaving a legacy! (this does not apply if you wish vengeance on your heirs) - I will always get three quotes for any contract labor, as well as references. - I resolve to be more respectful for the people wor.king atmylocal home repatr palace, even thal patronizing boob in plumbing. Fantasize about replumbing his fixtures, butdon’tactually threaten to do it this time. -I resolve to buy very good paint brushes and keep them clean and properly stored for a lifetime of painting pleasure. -I will not tell friends, family or relative strangers how they screwed up their latest project and what I wouldhavedonebetter. Do give them a stack ofDIYD columns as a form of gentle guidance. - I resolve to do one project this year, no matter how small, to improve the aesthetics, efficiency or value ofmyhome. - I resolve tomakemy DIYD that cocktail - a Manhattan with two cherries - as a small token of the gratitude I bear her for enlightening my life and improving my home! And your DIYD resolves to be back next month to help you make good on some of these intentions. PS: Your DIYD doesn’ t waste precious energy tying cherry stems into knots with her tongue when it is better applied to practical projects! ¯ By the time ~this song played, I was ¯ becoming a fan. So much so, I bought the CD If ’ , : you ve been depressed, and couldn t ¯ explain how debilitating a state it really ¯ can be, "Into The Dark" is one of those ¯¯ songs you play for people to make them understand what the dark night of the soul ¯ is all about. One ofthemore powerful and dark songs on thi~ album, it leaves you ." haunted. It’ s a ditty about going "into the ¯ soullinto the heart/into the dark", and : realizing that one’s been spinning one’s wheels keeping a dead relationship alive, ¯ not that Iwouldknowanythingabout that. "There was tire/therewas death/there was ¯ lyingonyourbreath/Itumedaway/Iwould ¯ pretend/but the fire never ends/I’ve been ¯ here sleeping all these years. " _" Lest you think it’s all doom a~ad gloom, : JulieCypher, Melissa’s longtimepartner, ¯ requested a more upbeat song for fear her to recognize same-sex civil marriage. It was thefirst state to offer domesticpartner benefits to state workers, one of the first states to recognize second-parent adoptions and one ofthe first states to ban. discriminationbasedonsexual orientation. -The Mormon church, which has campaigned.-against Gay marriage in Vermont, Hawaii and California, issued a brief statement repeating its position and ¯ saying,"As the legislative process moves forward, The ChUrch of Jesus Cqh-’ist of Latter-day Saints urges the citizens of Vermont and their elected representatives to protect the uniqueness and sanctity of traditional marriage and to preserve the family ~ the basic unit of society." Next Door In New Hampshire A statelawmakeris trying to make sure Gay New Hampshire couples do riot take advantage of the Vermont ruling. Rep. Gary Torressen, R-Center Harbor, says he was disappointed by the decision that Gay couples are entitled to the same benefits and protections as husbands and wives. Torressen said he filed., his bill, which would prevent New Hampshire from recognizing same-sex marriages contracted out of state, in anticipation of the Vermont court’s decision. The Legislature repealed a ban on Gay foster parents and Gay adoptions. The state also has a law that protects Gays and Lesbiansfrom discrimination in housing, employmentand access topublicfacilities. State Sen. Rick Trombly, a Boscawen Democrat who is Gay, said New Hampshire shouldgo further and set upits own domestic partnership system. Rep. Martha Fuller Clark, D-Portsmouth, has filed a bill that would extend medical benefits to domestic partners, andrecently, trustees for the state university system approved domestic partner benefits for employees. But Gays and Lesbians still lackfull acess to the samehealthinsurance, disability benefits, tax breaks and inheritance protections that married couples enjoy. Trombly believes New Hampshire lawmakers would support a domestic partnership system as a fundamental affirmation of equal rights. But he does not believe they would support Gay marriage, because many believe heterosexual marriage has a religious significance. State Sen. Pat Krueger, a conservative Republican from Manchester, said Tuesday she had Gay friends whose lives were complicated by their lack of legal protections, and she would consider supporting domestic partnerships. A spokeswoman for Gov. Jeanne Shaheen said the governorremains opposed to Gay marriage. Spokeswoman Pamela Walsh declined:comment on Shaheen’ s .view of domesticpartnership.legislation, sayingit was premature. Excerpts from the Supreme Court decision on marriages: Maythe stateofVermontexclude samesex couples from the benefits and protections that its laws provide to opposite-sex married couples? That is the fundamental question we address in this appeal, aquestionthatthecourtwellknows arouses deeply-felt religious, moral, and political beliefs. Our constitutional responsibility to consider the legal merits of issues properly before us provides no exception for the controversial case. The issue before the court, moreover, does not turnon the religious-or moral debate over ¯ inlimate same-sex relationships, butrather ¯ on the statutory and constitutionai basis for the exclusion of same-sex couples : from the secular benefits and protections : offered married couples. ¯ We conclude that under the Common Benefits Clause of the Vermont Constitution, which, in pertinent part, e,ads, that government ~s, or ought to be, instituted for the common benefit, ¯¯ protection, and security of the people,. ¯ nation, or community, and not for the particular emolument or advantage ofany i single person, family, or set of persons, ¯ who are a part only of that community," plaintiffs may not be deprived of the : statutory benefits andprotections afforded ¯ persons of the opposite sex who choose to ~ marry. We hold that the state is ¯ constitutionally required to extend to ¯ same-sex couples the common benefits : and protections that flow from marriage under Vermont law. ". (and) ¯ While the laws relating to marriage ¯ have undergone many changes during the ¯ last century, largely toward the goal of ¯ equalizing the status of husbands and ¯ wives, the benefits of marriage have not ¯ diminished in value. On the contrary, the ¯ =benefits and protections incident to a : marriagelicense under Vermontlaw have : never been greater. ¯ (andfrom Justice Denise Johnson) ¯ This case is undoubtedly one of the ¯ most controversial ever to come before ¯ this court. Newspaper, radio andtelevision ¯ media have disclosed widespread public ¯ interest in its outcome, as well as the full ¯ spectrum of opinion as to what that ¯ outcome should be and what its ¯ ramifications may be for our society as a ¯ whole. ¯ .One line of opinion contends that this is ¯ an issue that ought to be decided only by ¯ the most broadly democratic of our ¯ governmental institutions, theLegislature; ¯ and thatthe small group ofmenandwomen : comprising this court has no business deciding an issue of such enormous ¯ moment. : For better or worse, however, this is ¯ simply not So. This case came before us ¯ because citizens of the state invoked their ¯ ¯ constitutional right to seekredress through the judicial process of a perceived ¯ deprivation under state law. The Vermont ¯ Constitution does not permit the courts to decline to adjudicate a matter because its ¯ subject is controverslal, or because the ¯ outcome may be deeply offense to the Strongly held beliefs of many of our ¯ citizens. ¯ We do not have, as does the Supreme ¯ Court of the United States, certiorari -’ jurisdiction, which allows thatcourt, inits ¯ sole discretion, to decline to hear almost ¯ any case. To the contrary, if a case has ¯ been brought before us, and if the ¯ established procedures have been ¯ followed, as they were here, we must hear ¯ and decide it. : Moreover, we must decide the case on ¯ legal grounds. However much history, : sociology, religious belief, personal ¯ experienceor other considerations may ¯ inform our individual or collective : deliberations, we must decide this case, ¯ and all cases, on the basis of our ¯ understanding of the law, and the law ¯ alone. ¯" Thismustbethe trueandconstant effort ¯ of every member of the judiciary. That ¯ effort, needless to say, is not a guarantee ¯ of infallibility, nor even an assurance of ¯ wisdom. It is, however, the fulfillment of .. our pledge of office. Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing Walk-in Clinics Tuesday Testing, 5 -8 pm Pride Center, 1307 East 38th Wednesday Testing, 5-8 pm Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Daytime.appointments available. Call for more information: 918-584-2325 Church of the RestoratiOn Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday 1314 North Greenwood 587-1314 We knowyou’re going to love this[ Restaurant & Cabaret 310,East First Street Massage Therapy Services ¯ / Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T.| Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV? Need a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743-GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th at Peoria, 2nd floor Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236 Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pro IGTA member Call 341, 6866 International Toursformoreinformation. A UTHENTIC FRESH 1TALIAN RAINBOW CUSINE TROUT OfEureka Springs ,Voted Number One in Arkansas! (SOD 253-6807 Closed Wednesday Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 Red Rock Tulsa O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow ¯ Young Adult Network . Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting times and place: 918-584-2325. TOM NEAL BUILDING & GARDEN DESIGN 58:3- 1248 by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. ¯ into gender patterns as soon as they are One of my students owns 189 pairs of ~ born, wrapping them in blue or pink athletic shoes. Not quite Imelda Marcos, ~ blankets. Walk into any toy store and you butgettingthere.Anthonyisjust20years ¯ knowwhenyou’veenteredthegirls’aisle. old and already he is a sophisticated ¯ Everything suddenly has turned pink. collector. Collecting things is oddly ¯ Several of my friends with young sons importantformany ofus. I have other friends who accumulate Native American artifacts. And books. And jazz vinyl recordings. And Cacti. And uniforms. Most of us collect some-thing evenif this is only string or a draw full Of condoms. Our houses are museums. One ofmy professors saved sheets of toilet paper from bathrooms around the world. Me, I have.a stupendous collection of refrigerator magnets. We buy stuff; we give it away; we receive it; andwe curateit: Think of all those shoeboxes lined UP in Anthony’s bedroom. Things, clearly,are important for reasons beyond the utilitarian. Evenwearing themevery second until the day he dies, Anthony will never use up all his Shoes. He buys themto ownandnot particularly to wear. They helpmake sense ofwhom he is - or at least who he thinks he wants to be. Because ofthiS, ormaybe it’s their smell(they give him a buzz. Having just survived the holiday season, we know the pleasures and pains of stuff. Did you get what you want for the holidays? Did you make a list? Did you check it twice? Everyone grumbles about the materialism of a onetime religious celebration. But complain away, I sure had a lot of desperate company last month when I went foraging for things in the bleak shopping expanses of Walmart. "We slot our ehildren into gender patterns as soon as they are born, wrapping them in blue or pink blankets. Walk into any toy store and you know when you’ve entered the girls’ aisle... Several of my friends w~th young sons complain that it is difficult to find gender-neutral toys. ’One two-year old boy loves to play with brooms and vacuunl cleaners. His morn, of course, has to go to the girlS’ side to find toy household eleanlng equipment. And, worse, the kid likes to play with dolls. His father nervously protests his son’s babydoll games. " Je~z! Can’t you buy the boy atru~k?" This connection Of stuff and identity is characteristically American. We learn early on to~ define ourselves in terms of things, We_+play a:game with children called "favorites." Weinsist that kids tell us their favorite"color~ music, television show, make of car,.or ice-cream. Evenif complain that it is difficult to find gender-neutral toys: One two-ye~ old boy loves to play with. brooms and vacuum cleaners. His ~m0m+ of course, has to go to the girls’ side to find toy household cleaning equipment. And, worse, the kid likes to play with dolls. His father nervously protests his son’s. babydoll games. Jeez! Can’t you buy the boy a truck? This paternal nervousness signals the symbolic strength of the connections we draw between things and identity, ff doll equals girl, thenboy-whoplays -with-doll equals girlish, perhaps even Gay. Our use of particular things sends messages, accurate or not, aboutwho. we might be. We know that both men and women need to.practice nurturing. Butthe doll-loving boy, like the toy gun-toting girl, violates the cultural code of consumption that attributes gender to things. And, who knows? Maybe the Kid really just likes dolls. Or maybe he has already figured out our consumption code and he likes dolls on purpose in order to Send dad a message. My daughters, too’old for dolls, and also,too old for Pokemon, this year wrote Gameboy camera on their Christmas lists. They didn’ t seem worried about the name. Why Gameboy and not Gamegirl? In hierarchical systems, it is easier to "ups,h,ift" than "dowm Shifi. Gifts wear pants. Not .too many boys wear ¯ dresses. Women become d0ctors; not too ¯ many mendreamaboutbecominganurse. " Except, perhaps+ some of those sweet, ¯ doff-loving boys of course ~When I was a kid, Barbie dolls didn’t :~ last long in my neighborhood. We’ d steal ¯ themfromour sisters .and use thbm cruelly. we aetuallyhave,nofavorites-~ this question ¯ They,w~ould.’be J..gan of Arc atthe stake, puslies~s tomeasureandsztuateoursel~es: . andWor~.~ If ~eh~d any ~ense, w~ W~~d svi_thin the w0dd of goods.. So goes .,".ha’ve,ca~-~f~illyst6i?&l them away intheig American.inff!~iduality:;~and.so..goe~rour..: ." boxes to’become’rich by selling them to _economy:as well....... ~ , - ....... " ........ ., today’s fanatic Barbie ¢_ollectors: I can Favorites make less senseintta.ditional~ ~ recommend a great website with-pictures societies where individuality is ,muted~ ." of.Ken, from 1961 to 2000: Check out and where the range of goods is.litfiited. ¯ www.manbehindthedoll.com. This guy But even in ¯simpler societies,¯ things: ." ~ really likes,his boy dol|s.J’m suggesting differentiate gender.. Women wear : to Anthony thathe build a similar Shrine differentarticles of clothing than do men~ : to his boy shoes :’ . z They oftent~s~different tO~Is~ The)~ may .~ Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.’D,~ ~teaChes noteatihesamefoods~.W,eslotourchi.’l.dren. "- anthropology, at .t:he.~University of Tulsa, We dedicate an enormous mount of resources to outreach, networking, building allies and forging ties with advocacy, educational and religious organizations. Even when distribution goes well, though, it hardly covers our costs. To do this kind of media work, we rely on outside support from our friends who share our goals and understand the unique role films like IT’ S ELEMENTARY and THAT’S A FAMILY!canplayinprevenfingprejudice and violence. Pleasehelp us keep thehugemomentum IT’S ELEMENTARY generated going strong. Help us welcome the millennium by getting THAT’S A FAMILY! out of our editing room and into elementary school classrooms all across the country. 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Women’s Educational Media 2180 Bryant Sreet Suite 203 San Francisco, CA 94110 (415) 641-4616, (415) 641-4632 fax Pentagon spokesman Kenneth Bacon said thatRudyde Leon, the under secretary of defense for personnel, and Douglas Dw0rkin, the acting general counsel,raised the matter in a Dec. 18 memorandum to service leaders. "It is important that the leadership of each of the services issue a strong statement to the field that harassment~of service members for any reason, to include alleged or perceived homosexuality, will not be tolerated," according to thememo,releasedThursday by the Defense Department. Bacon said it had not been made sufficiently clear to commanders that a service member’ s complaint about being harassed for alleged homosexuality is not grotmds forinvestigating the complainant. Instead it should be the basis for investigating the harassers, he said. image would be one see Jim, p. 14 of a liorrible drago,n,, given the tone of the oth~"rdationship songs. Melissa asked her~f,"How much do I love Juiie? I love her~uchthat I would want to die in her ar~ Quite a wonderful thing to say aboi~.’ anyone’s lover, male or female. "S!O~p" was the answer to the question, a lovely song about getting away from the noise ofthe world and snuggling into your ¯¯ lover’s arms and listening to him/her breathing, and feeling trusting and ¯ comfortable enough with another person : to be able to sleep. It’s a lovely song of ¯ quiet comfort. ¯ And then there’s issues of equality. : "Truth of the Heart"is a wonderful ballad ¯ to the truth that "We all begin this race at : the start" and about how "deep down : inside we’re all the same / try not tojudge ¯ someone / and never shame." Partnered ¯ for almost 11 years now, the two have two ¯ children of their own. Melissa wrote this ¯ song to explain to their children about ¯ how to deal with life. Words to live by. In : "MamaI’m Strange", thejoys of growing ¯ up Gay - or just different - is artfully : explored, with just the fight amountof ¯ angst to remind us where we came from ¯ and how hard the struggle could be at ¯ times~ ¯ The single most striking song is called : "S~carecrow", and it’s about Matthew ¯ Sheppard. She said she hadlots of trouble ," w~riting that because here she was also ¯ writing ’’Truth of the Heart" as well and ¯ felt she couldn’t be writing about people : being good in one song and denounce ¯ them in another. So the end of the song is ". her way of forgiving (but not forgetting) ¯ the second attacker (I think he was going ¯ to trial or prison at that time). It has to be : heard to be experienced. If you aren’t ¯ crying and angry after hearing it, you’re ¯ dead. ¯ There are two versions of this CD, one ¯ of which is already hard to find. It has ¯ three extra songs, "Touch and Go", : "Cherry Avenue" (where she mentions the name of one-of the Lesbian bars in ¯ which she sang for about 4 years before being discovered -Que Sera), and "My ¯ Beloved", and is released in a cardboard ¯" case. The regular version has 11 songs in theusual plasticjewel box; Whichincludes : the lovely ode tounrequitedlove, ’"’Angels ¯ Will Fall". That’ s the one most folks are ¯ going to be familiar with at this point. ¯ For you men out there: I know that in ¯ some-minds, there’s a big chasm between ¯ Gay men and Lesbians, and this extends ¯ to performer preferences. I’ve heard the ¯ nasty comments - from both sides. All I ¯ can say is, get over your prejudices, and ¯ get this CD. It’s well worth it, and ¯ incredible in its beauty and reflection of ¯ life. And, Melissa, you have a new fan. Thank you Karin, for your contributions ¯ to widening my musical horizons and the infolmation contained in the above article ¯ about the backgrbund of the songs. Seems ¯ ironic that I’ mbeing tutoredinGay culture ¯ and musical icons by a straight woman, ¯ but suchis life. I feel like I shouldknow all ¯ this alrcady! ." There’s a few things Karin said that I ¯ think bear repeating, for both Melissa ¯ fans, and more importandy, for us all: "I ¯ am so happy that I could bring a singer ¯ into your life who writes and sings from ¯ ¯ the heart. VH1 is rertmmng her "Behind the Music" next week, and I’m going to tape it for you You’ll like it. It’ s the only ¯ oneI veseenwheretheartmtlsn thit~hing ¯ about something. Someofthemjustwhine ¯ endlessly. ’I love Shania Twain, but her ¯ BTM special was one endless bitch and ¯ whine. ¯ Stevie Nicks doesn’t bitch, but she’s : had such lousy things happen, to her, by : her own hand, that it just sounds so ¯ depressing. You know Melissa has been ¯ depressed, butthere’s somuchshedoesn’t ¯ say. I saw John Mellencamp’s BTM ¯ (Behind the Music), I’ve sc~en Cherts ¯ dozens of times, along with Madonna’ s, and Melissa’ s just seems so upbeat that Timothy Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fightfor justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. SprinL Sprint PCS" The C ear Alternative to Cellular Sprint PCS" Select Retailer $99.95 New Sprint PCS Phone -25.00 Less instore rebate $74.95 Net cost Buy any Sprint PCS Phone and get $25 off!’ Everyone is approved! All Sprint PCS service plans include.~ ¯ Free Voicemail, Free Caller ID ¯ Free Call Waiting ¯ Free 3 way calling , No activation fee ¯ No contract required ¯ 100% Sprint PCS Nationwide Neb,vork. Tulsa Locations: 2001 S. Garnett, 437-2dd~. 3733S. Memorial, 66003zl4 1216 S. Harvard, 587-1778 Sapulpa Location: ,109 N. Mission, 227-2322 Meet Local .Guys for Hot Ti @Origin. 18+. Additional features from personal ads see Jim, p. 15 she seems to have had a great life. Like I said before, growing up Gay anywhere, I know from you, is awful, but growing up Gay in Leavenworth, Kaus~ must be the pits. She doesn’t make much of anything depressing. I was veryimpressed. Thanks for the remark to the Gay men to listen to Lesbians. I think they shodd each take heed of that. And remember, she’s the only one I know of getting the word out to the .mainstream crowd. P,e~,,ple like her so much that they tend to. forget" (or tryto ...forget) that she’s Gay. She doesn’t let them. ("Someone’s spitting blood/face downinthe dirt/someone’ s thinking about ~ a gun/to try and stop the hurt/someone drew conclusious/on the wail of destiny/ someone’s getting louder/and that someone would be me.") That should be importanttous ail."- Miss KarinGregory. And I agree. Janis Ianis performing Saturday March 4 in Dallas, TX at a club called Uncle Caivin’s with Buddy Mondlock. And ladies, as aiways, if you have something to contribute or would like to see in this column, please let me know care ofTFN, or email me at tfnentritr@aol.com. I wouldn’ twantto disappointthe diehard readers of this column, so now it’s time for... The Stevie Nicks mention. She has a featured track on the new Sheryl Crow and FriendsCDand video. The song is the venerable Gold Dust Woman, and she’s never sounded better! The CD’ s out now, video to follow. Sarah. McLachlan, Chrissie Hynde, the Dixie Chicks and others aiso sing with Sheryl. And Stevie still has a few shows left to do in Las Vegas at the house of Blues this month. Hernew album, first duein October oflast year, now set for sometime this year, maybe, is being produced by one of the better known producers of hip hop and rap. I’d mention the name, but I caff t rememberit. Shery! Crow was producing, which wouldhavemadefor an interesting aibum - she did the excellent jobs of producing the Stevie songs forthe Practical Magic soundtrack. Stevie and rap... That will be interesting as well, aithough I fear for different ~easous. We shall see.., or hear. The ever handsome pianist Jim Brickman performed at the PAC on December 10, 1999, along with the very talented John Trones and the beautiful Anne Cochran. The show was lovely, an eveningofromance and seasonal favorites, and as Mr. Brickman described the evening, much like a gathering of friends round the piano. Okay, if the friends had areally large living room, and reaily good - moodlighting. Andamplifiers. Thegroup .i did a swell job ofmaking a cavern into an intimate cabaret. Mx. Brickman has a charming sense ofhumor and intelligence .to complementhis goodlooks. (Evenbetter m person and up close. I love my job...) He seemed very relaxed, and it was like meeting an old friend for the first dine. His playing can certainly set amood, from exuberant to melancholy and romantic all at the same time; and has a warmth to it thatis reminiscentof spending the evening with a loved one by a fire. Or, if you’ re .single, as I am, curledup in a comforter with a good book and cup, of cocoa. Now that weknow how I spendmy evenings... What? Have I said too much? Mr. Brickman is a prolific songwriter as well, setting words to music that is lovely : to hear and unabashedly sentimental in feeling. : Anne Cochran, who met Mr. Brickman ¯ inhigh school, where they formed aband, : has one of the most incredible voices I’ve : heard. And her phrasing with a song is : immaculate. Shecaptured thewarmthand joy of the compositions she performed withexpertease, andhas alovely, energetic yet relaxed stage presence that also added to the ambiance of the evening. She has a new CD out called "Lucky Girl’_’, which I would highly recommend for a gift based on whatI heard that evening. Iwould have one in my hot little hands right now had they not been sold out. She isa name you might be familiar with, she has had a top ¯ 5 hit with Jim Bfickman on the song : -"After All These Years" which has been : reed by skater Rosalyun:Summers, both : live and recorded. It was also the song ¯ used on the final episode of "Home : Improvement", andshe will be featured in :- the Lifetime television speciai"A Golden Moment". Definitely worth checking out. You can order her CD at www.AnneCochran.com. John Trones (pronounced ~tro-ness’), who is as nice and gorgeous as he is .talented (what a voice! whata smile! what a chest! what a pleasant man!), was a delight to listen to as well. With a million dollar smile that shines like a searchlight, and a voice that has incrediblerange and expressiOn,hejoined Anne on several numbers and had some lovely solos. His singing soared through the Chapman theatre and could melt the most hardened heart. He has an aibum of standards and ballads out called "Forward", which I was able to snag and most definitely would make a great Valentine’s girlie for the special man on your list. He can melt the ice off the fiorth Pole with that voice, and his phrasing and reading of the standards is right on target. A pity he’s in Minneapolis, I would love to see more of him. He does Cabaret there at Blanche’s, and has performed in a number of Gay plays, listed on his web site, www.JohnTrones.com, which is worth a look. You can also order his CD there. After listening to several review CDs of dubious quality sent to TFN, put out by Gay artists of dubious talent, attempting to sing standards and not succeeding very well at anything other than murdering the music, I am glad to say that his would be the one I would, and did, purchase. They were joined by Tracy Silverman on electric violin, and he did quite an interesting variationonthe Beade’ s"Here Comes The Sun". His playing added an interesting embellishment to Mr. Brickman’s piano. I will say he had the most lovely and LONG hair I’ ve seen on aman in along time. He has an album out on Windham Hill records. If you get the chance to catch any or all of these artists should they make a return appearance, DO SO! You won’t regret it. Just make sure you have a date, and one that won’t stand you up. I was looking forward to Peter Buffett’ s "Spirit: A Journey in Dance, Drum, and Song"aunique blend of Native American and contemporary music, dance, and storytelling, to have been held January 3 and 4th, 2000 at the Brady Theatre. According to the latest info, ail spring dates have been put onhold. According to my sources, a late spring tour is in the plans. James Christjohn serves as TFN Entertainment editor with emphasis on the performing arts. 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City Locations !Teachers Credit Union: No :-Loan for Lesbians as Couple : Credit Union AskedAuto Dealer If They Were Gay ¯ TULSA- WhenTheresaand Joan Wright went toTulsaTeachers " Credit Union, they just wanted a car loan. The women are : expecting their second child and had found a van.at a local auto : collection. And since they have shared checking and savings accounts at Tulsa Teachers Credit Union, and good credit, they : naturally went there, expecting that getting a loan would be : relafivd~ painless. " .i.~ ~Wlmt they experienced they say, however, was hurtful and Bishop.Spong Retires TEANECK, N.J. (AP) - Bishop John Spong, an outspoken supporter of the ordination of Gays and women, and blessings of same-sex unions in the Episcopal church, retired in January as head of the Diocese of Newark. Spong, 68, celebrated one of his final services as bishop at the Glenpointe Marriott ballroom before hundreds of guests. His successor will be John Croneberger. Since his elevation to bishop in 1976, Spong has raised eyebrows and blood pressures for his beliefs_ ranging from women becoming priests to supporting same-sex marriages to the ordination of openly Gay ministers. ButSpong, a native of Charlotte, N.C. who speaks with the slightest ac~ut, left the diocese with few words of controversy. "It’s just the next stage of my life," said Spong. .’,. "Basically, I’ve been a bishop, but also an author and lecturer," he said. "But in all of my ordained life, it was participating in movements of people who’ve been diminished in society, like people of color and Gays, that the church has diminished where I’ve worked." Among those present at Friday’s 126th annual convention of the Diocese of Newark were the Rev. Ri chard Hollowayof Edinburgh; ~.-~- - See Spong~.p.lO ~ demeaning. ,According to the Wrights, Tulsa Teachers Credit ; Union (rITCU), not only refused to evaluate them as a couple, i.e. : basing alOan!on their combined income but someone from the : credit union even called the auto dealership asking if the dealership : staff"knew they were Gay?" ¯ And the Wrights characterized the behavior of their loan officer, Sandy Roth as very rude, particularly about the issue of : evaluating their joint income for loan purpose. Roth refused to ¯ look at their joint income saying it was because they are not ". married. In contrast to Tulsa Teachers Credit Union, a loan officer at i Tulsa Municipal Employees Credit Union stated that they accept ¯ unmarried couples with combined households as loan applicants, : noting that she’d assisted at least two Lesbian and two Gay : couples with loans. ¯ Bank of Oklahoma stated that they had not always accepted : couples whose relationships were not legally recognized but that : they now do so. And a senior officer at Spirit Bank encouraged ¯ Lesbian.and Gay couples to apply with her bank, noting that : Spirit Bank would not tolerate anti-Lesbian or Gay bias. ." Theresa Wright noted that Ms. Roth refused even to look her : in the eye when she went in to sign the loan papers. The Wrights : noted that the dealership, in contrast to the credit union, was very ¯ nice, and that irwas the manager assisting them in purchasing ¯ their new vehicle, who said, "I’m just going to say something. : Your bank called and wanted to know the nature of .your : re!ationship-are they Gay?" He assuredthem that his organization ¯ welcomed everyone and also had Gay people working for it. ¯ Ms. Rpth’s su_l~’visor-at TI’CU, David Snyder refused to comm~h~ and ref~ed’~ to Chuck Reed, ~ see Credit, p. 10 New Pastor Leads at Tulsa’s MCC-United ¯ TULSA - After a number of months with an ¯ interim pastor, Oklahoma’s oldest extant Lesbian ¯ and Gay organization, the MetropolitanCommunity ¯ Church United (MCCU), has a new pastor, the ¯ ReverendCathy l~liott, whojoinedthecongregation ¯ at theend of 1’999. ¯ Elliott,grew upin the midwest, but came to Tulsa ¯ from Florida where she was invoIved with two : Metropolitan Community Churches in the MCC Fellowship. However, prior to working in Florida, ¯ she served a Congregation in-Rochester, New York ¯ and some years ago, was associated with the MCC ¯ in Little Rock. Like many MCC pastors, Elliott came to the ¯ MCC Fellowship through a winding path, having ¯ become more serious about her faith while at university. There, she joined a church that was ¯ theologically evangelical, but after a fe~v years, as ¯ she acknowledged bring Lesbian, she foundherself ¯ becoming involved in an MCC that was about 40 miles away. And it was from this initial association, : that her calling to the ministry came. ¯ In a recent interview with TFN, Elliott praised ¯ theworkhernew congregation had done in merging ¯ the formerly two separate churches, MCC-Greater ¯ Tulsa and Family of Faith MCC. As she and they ¯ have begun to become acquainled, the congregation ¯ is looking at how they will grow, spiritually and otherwise. ¯ Some members of the congregation .have also ¯ become involved in a serious social action ¯ organization, called Soul Force. The group was ¯ founded by MCC pastor and writer, the Reverend ¯ Mel White. White, who once wrote for anti-Gay ¯ evangelical such as Jerry. Falwell, modeled Soul ¯ Force on the theories of non-violent confrontation " for social .change of Martin Luther King, Jr. and ¯ Mahatma oGhandi. see Elliott, p. 11. Southwest Air Adds, NonDiscrimination Policies ¯ Marriage Is Civil-Rights "Issue Says Vermonter DALLAS - Southwest Airlines has amended its nondiscrimination and anti-harassment policies to include sexual orientation, according to Chief Executive Herb Kelleher. The move, announced Jan. 24, came after a spate of alleged anti-Gay harassment at the airline, which led some Southwest employees to raise safety concerns. The tensions boiled over when Southwest Airlines’ Pilots’ Associationpublished ahomophobic letter from one of its members in its December newsletter. The letter, by Capt. Gary S. Ward, urged Kelleher to reject calls for the airline to provide domestic partner benefits saying, ’Will there be a need to hire a department to check on who is shackin..e, t~p with whom?" The newsletterinstructedpilots to write their ownletters and deliver them to their S WAPA representati ve for deftv cry to Kelleher. Dean Hervochon, vice president of the Transport Workers Union Local 556 representing Southwest’s flight attendants, said the publication "institutionalized homophobia" and created a hostile work environment that "could jeopardize the safety of all persons on the aircraft." "If the front doesn’t talk to the back of the airplane, you’ve got a problem," Hervochon told WorkAlert. Kelleher and leaders of sWAPA and TWU met Jan. 17 to discuss how to respond. TWU representatives also pressed Kelleher to add sexual orientation to the antiharassment and non-discriminationpolicies. Meanwhile, the vice presidents for flight operations and in-flight services along with SWAPA and TWU officials sent a letter Jan. 20 to flight attendants and pilots attempting to defuse the situation. Howcver, Gay employees criticized the letter as inadequate and for using objectionable language, such as "lifestyle choices." Then Kelleher announced the change in company policy in a letter to all Southwest Airlines employees. "For some years, I have explidfly declined to amend our anti-harassment and see SW Air, p. 10 : MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP)- One of the most painful : things about figuring out he was Gay as a teen-ager ¯ was coming to the realization that he would never : get married and have a family. Ed Flanagan came ¯ from an Irish-Catholic family, one of five kids, : "four straight and one Gay," he says. His father had : an alcohol problem and"the end resnlt was that we ¯ children were very, very closein terms of supporting : each other to get through that environment." His : relationships with his brother and three sisters : "have been very crucial in terms of all of the five of : us surviving and flourishing," Flanagan said. "It’s ¯ a very strong presence that we all feel with one : another and a source of important emotional ¯ Tulsa PFLAG & TOHR members marchedfor thefirst time in the ¯ Martin Luther King, Jr. Commemorative Parade in January. TOHR Receives a. $10k Grant ¯ support." i TULSA- In mid-December, Tulsa Oklahomas for Human Rights ¯ (TOHR) received a $10,000 grant from the Colin Higgius : Foundation. Thegrantis for the Tnlsa Gay Community Services : Center programming, marketing and development expansion ¯ project. Specific goals of the project include the production and : distribution of a ommttnity referral guide, the enhancement of _" Lesbian Connection- a program that encourages increased : involvement from the women of our community, and an expanded ¯¯ Pride 2000 Festival. The marketing and development aspects of the project will focus on enhanced communication and media inaterial as well as ¯ increased membership and volunteer involvement. : The Colin Higgins Foundation is based in San Francisco, : California. Colin Higgins,screenwriter, director and producer, : established the Foundation in 1986. Mr. Higgins is remembered ¯ for his remarkable human comedies, including Harold and : Maude, Silverstreak, Foul Play and Nine To Five. : He created the Foundation in order to further his humanitarian : goals. OneoftheFoundation’smainprioritiesistoempowerGay men and Lesbians by supporting community-based organizations : that combat homophobia and foster leadership. : TOHRdirectors indicated thatitis honored to receive thegrant : and that they have ambitious goals for 2000 and beyond. Trying to find a place within the Gay comrmmity : of the 1960s and ’70s wasn’t easy for someone with : such strong family ties. "That culture back then did ¯ not accommodate the id_ea,,o,f family," he said in an interview this past week. In the midst of the Gay : culture I felt Very alien, for that reason and others." : Now that culture is changing, it’s "becoming more ¯ family-oriented, and longer-term relationships are ¯" becoming more prevalent," Flanagan said. And ¯ state law appears to be changing, too. ¯ Today, Flanagan sees a future in which getting married, perhaps even being aparent, may become : options for him and otherGaysandLesbians. There ." may be an oasis on the horizon for people who have ¯ wandered much of their lives in an emotional : desert. And as the first and still only openly Gay ¯ man in the country to hold a statewide elective : office, Flanagan believes he might be in the right ¯ time- the dawn of a new millennium - and place ". Vermont - to help bring that future about. ’~l’his is : the course of history in Vermont. Here i t is and here : I am," he said. From the windows of the office 6f state auditor of : accounts, see Ed, p. 11 �Tulaa Cluba & Reataumnta 712-2324 : *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 610-5323 : *CTg’s, 1737S. Memorial 583-6666. *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th 749-4511 :. *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria 749-1563 ~ -*The Mix, 2630 E. 15th *Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square 744-4280 ¯ *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st- 745-9998 834-4234 *Silver Star. Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 835-2376 ~The Storm, 21,82S, Sheridan 585-3405 *Renegades/iRainbowRoom, 1649 S: Main.~Tdrl-’ BOX, 1338~13.>3ra ~ ~° : :: : :: :’"~84~ l~3"0g " 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink.net Publisher + Editor: " " Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Barry H~nsley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, .Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers ~.. Member of The Associated Press " Gay Pro Lifers March On ¯ On january 24, 2000, about20 members :of the Pro-Life Alliance of Gays .and : Leshi.ans. (PLAGAL). did an am.P_y~ng :,~ at the annual Marcia ior Lit-e protesung :. the Roe vs. Wade decision on its i nnniversary despite being .tl~¯cate_n.e.d : .: March told PLAGAL that they~.~uta no_ ¯ march, s~n,,c~_, they. ,,w,ere Gay.-Now, if :. PLAGAL closet’ed themsd~ and just Issued on or before’the 1st ~af, cach~m0nth,-the enUre~contents.; of this publication: ar6 ptrt~t&l?l~tda:~yrightl~~ .... ~9 A%~e’Righ.t to t~te MarCH, an oth groups,_w, e aUow t0 .ma@be,. hind T~ ( F~,~ N~ ~ ~fid may ~6t ~ ~q~oducetl’,~ ~: whole orin part without written ~Ssion from th~ publisli&:. ~: b:~nners- refl~tingtheir various eiamcnes, Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’s : organizations or states but if.PLAGA~ ¯ m~mbers carried its banner, they woma sexual orientation. Correspondence is, assumed to be. for ". be arrested and thrown in jail. publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed& be¯ This being known at the annual ¯ comes the sole property of T~J.~ ~ Nc~u÷ ~acli reader PLAGALmeefng onthe eve of the march, is entitled to 4 copies of each edidon at ,distribution " members decided to risk being arrested. "_ After all, they reasoned it would be points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. hypocritical ff PLAGAL hid at the March ~ ’:r ,TUl~a BUsinesses, Services, & Professionals ~: Advanced WireleSs & PCS, Digital Cellular.. 74%1508 *Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S.Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health& Life Insurance 747-9506 250~5034 *Barnes &Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 665-4580 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 523 1 E. 41 . 712=1122. Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 712-9955 *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 494-2665 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria ,Fufiends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 - -583-6611 582-0438 .~: .hardtobeincludedopenlyinprideevents for Life when for years they fought so *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria . HiVERCenter,4138Chas.PageBlv~a1 Cherry St Psy_cho~eralff, 1,51~5 S,. Lew*s .581-trot 834Z4194 : ~-indparadeswithinitsowncommunity.in Community Cleamng, heruy tsager ;,~..... , onK-~-~ 481-1111 ." addition, if PLAGAL bowed to the HollandC.A.R:E.S., Hall School,3507 5666 E. 81st :Tulsa Admi " Tim Daniel, Attorney 33z-~tr*, ~....-~ 749-3620 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention,.E~_u__ca~on _ 83~8378 : 0ressmesimposedbytheorganizers, they *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 587-2611 *House of the Holy Spirit Miustries, 3?~l,0e,,S,~%Nff~rw~oo~ 2437 .. : ~ do the Gay ~)mmunity no, g.oqd.. *Devena’s Gallery, 13 Brady lnt,~fslth IDSMinistries ’ ~..~6-/~-I,DI, OUU-~.~’I-z¢’~, ... By.not marching, they would be 744-5556 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria ~’l~"~mA’ted,i623 N, Maplewood ac~nowiedging that is was fight t~o hate 838:8503 .: g ~8-~ ~ ~ *Elite Books & Videos; 821 S. Sheridan ~, ~,~a~_~.~ ¯ and this would be a backward step. 584-0337, 7i2-9379 I~AMES Project,3507 E. Ad_mi,ml_ ~PI,: ..... *Ross Edward Salon :)to-o,, :. PLAGAL members do not want to be 592-O460 NOW, Nat’lOrg. forWomen~POB lqotas, t,H3y Events Unlimited, 507 S. Main . excluded from the Gay community just 744-9595 ¯ OK Spokes Club ~cyding), FOB 9i65, 74157 *Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria became of their pro-life beliefs and values, 610-0880 - *OSU-Tulsa . " Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th PI. 749-4901 628-3709 : PFLAG, FOB 52800, 74152 kmewise, they do want to be excluded Cathy Fmlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. 58%7674 : the pro-life community just because 8O8-8O26 *Harmed parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 742-1460 they are Lesbian and Gay. Therefore, Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st ~ 749-4195 despite the threats, PLAGAL appegr,ex] _at 459-9349 *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network I_eanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning 584-2325 ." themarch, and when the policebamcaneu 744-7440 *Red Rock Mental.Center, 1724 E. 8 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney : . them. PLAGAL .members maneuvered. 745-1111 .O’RYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy~ 2865 E. Skelly " around the police and entered the parade 341-6866 O’RYAN, ~r. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth *International Toms ¯ 425-7882 further up the street marching under their 712-2750 St. Aid,art’s Episcopal Chinch, 4045N. Cincinnati 492-7140 " banner with the word "censored" taped Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 151h 582-3018 S,, r~,,-~tan’s EniScoval, 5635 E. 71st *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th 582-3088 " across so everyone would know what the 747-0236 ~t.Jer~--~me’s P~arish ~hurch, 205 W. King David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering vords were underneath. Their decision to *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder 583-7171 582-8460 The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening ignore the arrest threats from the organizers 599-8070 *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 was noted in The Washington Post, The 747-5466 ?ulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 595-4105 Kdly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 Washington Times, and several others Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thmsdays only 585-1234 *Living ArtSpace, 19 E. Brady new s publications throughout the counlry. Tulsa Olda. for Human Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 584-3112 298-0827 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd The majority of Gays and Lesbians may 663-5934 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 not share the briefs of PLAGAL, but the~ 664-2951 *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place should be proud of this small group within 838-7626 *Tulsa Community College Campuses Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo 743 -4297 its community. PLAGAL’s presence was 743-4297 *~ulsa Gay Comn;unity Center, 1307 E. 38, 74105 749-8833 *The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor a step toward bridging the gap between 747-5932 Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696,74101 those individuals and the Gay community 834-0617 BARTLESVILLE Richard’s Carpet Cleaning as a whole. 834-7921,747-4746 *Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors At the end of the march, members of 749-6301 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square OKLAHOMA CITY/NORMAN FemtmstforLife , Colleg~ates for Life , 260-7829 Paul Tay, Car Salesman *Borders Books & Music, 3209 NW Expressway 405-848-2667 Catholic priests and bishops, and others 481-0558 *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis *Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 from all walks of life and religions 835-5563 Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard ~ congratulated and thanked PLAGAL. 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Letters to other Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 publications will be re-printed as is *Fellowship Congre,g. _Church, info" 58%4669 * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but allare Gay-frlendly. *Free SpiritWomen s Center, cm appropriate. " 747-6827 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 ~o �byChristoptterGraff " ~ So lawmakers are faced with a division that is widening ¯ !dONTPF.l.lP.R, Vt,(AP)-DonnaLescoeofStarksb°r° ¯ at a time they are looking for .~...useus~s_;ReP.- T~o~. Little, : had a simple message for legislators when she testified the chairman of the.HouseJudidary COmm;ttee, ls aman ,,onGaymmriage."Beheroes~" ~ who has a keen ability to fmd common ground and to lawmakers tohavethe courage toextendi¯ stitch together=. divisions, He Js -a Repubfican who bv Tom Neal, puoltflg,r & eaztor from-both parfies~:~But he seemed : the nmrriage laws tOinclude Gays¯ and Lesbians. , commandS’.respeCt .... than ,r :, -~ ,,,~h, SO simule It is hard to be a hero , frustrated this past. week by the w~demng rather ¯ ¯ u ~t ~,~,. ,~ . . v _:.. ..... .... : ohab y most non-Gry O @Oma .".es,the o ti=.rew.lawmakers i _,. mp ..-...~ wmlesomeoi *_..m°nmemle’mmm-,emvm,~°-nsares°ucmP" la~. . . they had no Lesbian or Gay constfluents.. : . .... ...... them aresimply bigots, many of them know that they- . looked _li~..e .anything bu.~ ....... oughtto:~be mpportive of basic.civil fights for Gay "- heroe~ folio.wt~.g a re~,,.m " " " ........ ~aUzens.’But they are scared that,treating Gay people ¯ " ¯ " Tuesday__ mgIlk ¯ UUIIC P, ." . " ’~f’k,, ~-~..!. f~ogn6 lavcmaker~ ~. aaa,o ..~.~ .~--~.~ _ l~nw stron~ the evidence that _ " vgters.. : ~ that they., are=oft.m__:..,. _h-.~,g~!tgo~-a.~a-~.t ....... not ea@-. It ~s nothln~ less ,, other ~..,faidy. ..wall .... so, mcense. ,. " . ¯ " ’, , . ~.~lhdistta~ttishfibt~ fr0in Oldalaoma R~publicans. ,,-~ ~ " .. ~ .... shell’sn,°q~cm-a~Y-~ ~ : ~ ¯ will be~ deaded 0n TU~da.y; Match 14th. Some 0f,the " them9before. Per!laps : never races are dfeetivdy settled (Brady Pringledoes~have a i have .1..~0,l~.!e att_~dyd Democratic oppon~eatbut in thai~ heavily Republican . a pum~c nearing at me district, it likely doesn’t matter), but others ~ar~.. still : Statehouse.Andthenumber unsettled. " - ~ ¯ ~ " : ¯ would have been thousands Of particular interestto TulSa’s Lesbian and Gay - moreifasnowstormhadnot commlmities is Cound! District 4 .for which former ~ kept many away. ./ " w~’lling to casts: vote that . ouldbothdrlast.Nomatter * !* ..../ ....L .... o[ Freedomand Unlt-~. " How to ~ve Gays and Lesbians tl~elr ~xlom an~l yet preserve tl~e unity at the state~ - dmiedthdr dviln~ghts;~t~s t...a f~r a leoislator to cast a firestormot :polls in November. And even if lawmakers craft a package extending to Gays and Lesbians benefits such as having a say in the medical decisions of, their It is the stm~ heroes are madeo. [" Yes, eye.one who spoke parmers; they know there will Anna Falling. While _.Gay and ~tiian households a~ - wascivil.Butthecivilitydid foundthroughont thedty~-thisdistri¢t, mosflyMidtown, ; not mask the passion: Or the division. The tremors in " be a vote on the.floor on same-sex marriage - and that is. easily the most. heavily Gaylone. of the..dt~ For_ ~ people’s voices, a mixture of nerves .and emotion, spoke - tally, no matter what the outcome, will be used in .the fall examp!e, jnstonornextttlny_v~;shortbloek~thereare " volumes about-the depths of feeling.~ What became " elections. " Following .the hearing it seemed m the incumbent Gary W~tts is challenging currentincumbent .~ at least six Gay families2 . i-.~ ~ ~. - ,.. -. :. . One could argue, of course, that- Ms~ Fallingrs very -nubile lan.qe., in ,, oood < iudoment issues (win ~-" r..::-:~.,r.:-.,r-~-.,. onnon-Gav ..... ~. hnsband~s~ her recycling program pu.bfic or private,: her ......-_ ¯ n,mmdfi~ oroaniTatlon arml~n~f0~nUbfic funds on.which ¯" . ,~ ~.~’~l"~.---e7------rr:~--~, r , i . .snewastovote),areenoughtopersuaaeLesmananatJay - apparent’at theheming is thatthe two sides are moving :- Statehouse timton lawmakers would like to f’md way to avoid any vote this issue this year. Theidea ofacreating fresher aparL WhentheSupr_em~eC.o.urtissuedi~.~be.r. idec.i.’s.ion :.a special com~!ssio.n .to .craft. a solu~o~n ,~an~d .rgel~O~ht;o~ saymg Gays and Lesbians are eg.~fled tP the rights,. ". law.n~Kersnex[yearmt~mgatscus.ssa.tmt _P~r.napsua~ ¯ ¯ ¯ - ...... . o t the bendits and protecuons gtven roamed couples, e_veryone ¯ ~s just a mo.m~entar~. ,.a.nd, ex.p.ected hesitancy ¯foil w ng . ~_~__,= .t,d--.A ~,~,~teww P,,-a~e and I ~=~h~rt~ ~.q tile DUDIIC lleallnl~. e coul"t -" na~sion80t _r.t.~_.,~,,t,.nm,~tttiiiX~endnnhowthedebateis ’-~..’2p~. ""~"*,?." ""~ .’~"..~"~’.’.’-:...l.~a~s.ed the.. . ¯ p _ ~ex mamao ~.F2 ......... ,;~l,~t~i r~.,~.,~t~ nf ~.e -_.. , me. m __age al80 rimmed ¯ frmned m the comm~ _ weeks . Opponents llge . " andlnaole - s ultra-extreme rengto-ponucos, .... ¯ ¯ ¯ Largent ano - ¯..... " vr--........ " to" portray the Supreme Court deeimon as ,. ........ ........... ....... .~,.t.~, b~ause the court did not strike down the. state, s . are seeking . . . . . her rtosuu[y Io OUr t’I1oe evenls, it s Cl~ar Inat amlost . ,a,.~..j . ¯ mamage laws~ Bishop Kenneth Angell calle~_, the court . some_ra.di.’.ca.l, andug,com.ttm.~fio.na).mo.ye ,F~Ve.nnon.t.ers, ,,~....,,1,1 h~ ~,~tt,~ ¯ thoughdtlshardtotmagrnet~meIJusuceJenreyAmestoY, ~: ................ Thatbrings us toGaryWatts. Gary, like someOklahoma - ruling aadecisivevictoryfor.tradifionalmamage." : amuch beloved and eminently respected person who is as Democrats is not particularly prejudiced. Like those : R seemed at that moment that legislation creating : moderate and generally as cautious as they come, doing same Democrats, he’s not shown much leadership, He and they don’t hale us - they just don’.t want to deal with our issues. ,But sOi~eone "s got to.start, kno@ing that.we’ll lose the first or five engagements but that.each time our issues, like a city non-discrimination ordinance, or equal compensation (full benefits for our familiesas well as equal wages)for Gay cityemployees, or a city domestic partners registry, are debated,the public learns. I believe that-Oklahomans are basically fair and eventually will respond to a reasoned argument. And in the meantime, a fair-minded city councilor could push for administrative changes, like getting the "diversity" training for our police department to deal with more than just race. After all, it’s our city too. : domestic partnerships forsince Gaysthe anddecision Lesbians ~s~ ¯ something radical or unconstitutional. It was Amestoy through. But in the month thewould. two sloes : who wrote the court rnling. have’ staked out positions worlds aparL Andthe hearing didmuch toeducate notju~t lawmnkers, : Bishop An,g,ell recently-condemned domestic : : partnerships as steponetowardfullacceptanceofsame- " but also the public at large. ~Vermont Public Radio did a great service by broadcasting the hearing statewide. ¯ sex marriage" and has even challenged ~e validity ofthe Vermonters of all political and social back_groun.ds .got a Supreme C,o.~_~ ruling itseLf, saying ~.his ~ t.o ,arms,to . ¯ Catholics, q~ere are many sound legm minus WhO . chance to hear the scripture readings, the pasmon, the ¯ question the Supreme Court’s authority to even issue " division. They also got to hear from the real.people whose ¯ such mandates to the legislature.’" lives will be most affected by the legislative action. The task facing lawmakers is not easy. It is nothing less : At the same time, Gays and Lesbians are saying a ¯ system of domestic partnerships is insufficient to meet " than living up to the state’s motto of "’Freedom and the spirit of the Supreme Courtrtding. A domesticpartner " Unity." How to give Gays and Lesbians their freedom and yet preserve the unity of the state? sounds like someone who cleans the house, Jonathan It is the stuff heroes are made of. Radigan told lawmakers. : "Hometown Project", because it builds on the power of Thd challengeof being out has turned us inward before. by Dave Fleischer, Senior Fellow Policy Institute : Look around our community. Most of our organizations ¯ our relationships with family and friends, even when National Gay and Lesbian Task Force : are refuges -"safe space"- safe from meaningful ; we’ve been out of touch. We love coming out - except when we hate it. : If you have never lived in the hot-spots du jour, don’t We love reminiscing on and celebrating our past acts of ¯ encounters with straight people. We draw 200,000 to a ¯ feel neglected. Make a list of everyone you know who : pride parade to celebrate, yet only a relative handful to ¯ daring. Comingoutishow wediscoveredbothcommunity ¯ does live in one. You must know 20 people. Send them political campaigns to safeguard our fights. and freedom. It’s how we found both love and a life. ¯ this colnmn. Follow up on the phone. We need every vote, ¯ But relying on refuges is a risky strategy. It suggests to But it’s hard to snmmon the energy and courage to ¯ and you will help create a new habit of doing the one-oncome out 24/7 - to ask, tell, and pursue on a daily basis. :¯ our opponents that the rest of the world is theirs, and it " one ask. leaves us vulnerable topolitical attack. Soplease consider That’s why campaigns sidestep the "G" word. When 2. Host a house party to raise money for one of the ¯ afew specificcoming-outactionsthatbuildourcollective ~ we say~ person-to-person, "What do you think ,a,b~,ut tl~." s ¯ power and don’t unduly disrupt your everyday life. communities under attack. Invite 120 friends and anti-Gay ballot measure?", we are also asking, "What do ¯ 1. Join a campaign where you get to ask voters one-on- ." acquaintances to your home to hear about this new wave you think about me? Do you see me as a human being, ¯ of ballot measures. Call all 120 personally and ask each : one, preferably face-to-face, if we can count-on their although I’m Gay and you probably aren’tT’ ¯ to come. You will bring together 40 people, raise a ¯ ’. Most campaigns avoid coming out, way out_ They ¯¯ votes. In 2000, California, Miami-Dade County, Florida, ¯ minimum of $1000, and f’md at, least six new volunteers. rarely engage voters .perso.n-to-person, and of,te~, av~oid ¯ 3. Get training. If face-to-face voter contact sounds Maine, and possibly Oregon face ballot measures that mentioning sexual on~mtataon. Recent research oy ls.en ¯ affect your rights. If you live in one of these places, join : intimidating, seek out training, At the¯National Gay & ~eager (himself an openly-~ay candidate for office) ¯ ¯ Lesbian Task Force Creating Change conference ¯ ~uggests that 57% of candidate’~ who think of themselves ¯ your local campaign. If you used to live in one, make a list of everyone you ¯ November 10-14, we taught the nuts and bolts, went as "openly Gay" don’t actually disclose their sexual door-to-door talking with Oakland voters about the anti; know in your old hometown. Dig out your old address orientation to voters before the election. book or high school yearbook. Ask your siblings or -¯ Gay-marriage Knight Initiative. In one evening, we will Likewise, many campaigns to defeat anti-Gay ballot ¯ identified hundreds of our supporters, and educated measures twist themselves into p~etzels to avoid the ¯ parents to jog your memory. I’ll bet you know at least 50 undecided, voters. people you can call. Whea you reach them, explain the words "Gay", "Lesbian", or that new scare word ,. rput up the periscooI~..~::~t~sgreat that our community and ask if we can count on (rarely so clearly): - but reality i fax �II Court UpholdsPortl and Civil Rights Ordinance SALEM, Ore. (AP) - Gay rights advocates have won a round as the Oregon Court of Appeals upheld a Portland ordinance against discrimination based on sexual orientation. The court, in a 9-1 ruling reversing a lower court, said the city had the power to give citizens the right to go to state courts to enforce the anti-discrimination ordinance. Even some,of,the appealsjudges in the.majority, tho~.igtr, ~orried-@ati tl~e~c0~ ~.i,,hav~ V~iatut~d roofs, toward giving private partigs new..avenues sUeiffSeateeo.ur~s overlocaHa~sx.The rightto sue-was tthet~yi ~su~-,N~bod~:oIai,m~ 4 ltmt !he city1 aek~ ~he ~weri lx~:iid0pt~:~e-ordinanee.in~t991., that bars disNNmati~n, i~ eniployment, housing, and public accommodations.. ,S~te.taws against employment discrimination don’t include sexual orientation. The city ordinance also outlaws discrimination based on sources of income, which is aimed at protecting welfare recipients. "This is a great day for civil rights in Oregon,P said Portland Mayor Vera¯ Katz. .... Portland ~s once agatn a leaderin efforts to protectthe rights of all our citizens." The case decided involved employment. A MultuomahCounty temporary judge, Monte Bricker, ~n .1.997 ruled against David Sims, who claimed he was fired as a cook at Besaw’s Cafe in .Portland because he is Gay. Owners of the business denied the accusations and have not made a decision-on whether to appeal to the oregon Supreme Court. Bricker said the city couldn’t givepeople apathway to state courts to seek enforcement of rights under a local law. But the appeals court said the city didn’t exceed its authority, giving Sims the chance to continue ............ with hislav~sttitin_which he.~6"nght either damages or In some cases, the registry document can provide further legal proof of a relationship, Roche said. It could come into play, for exhmple, when a Gay couple with jointly owned assets separates. The registry stirred relatively little opposition in Ashland, where it was approvea by a 4-1 vote of the City Council, Roche said. Nationally, registries have spurred voter initiatives and lawsuits. Courts validated Atlanta’s registry but overturned a registry in Minneapolis, according to the Lmnbda Legal Defense and Education Fund. The registries can be designed !o ~PP!~ ~ both Gays and t~f~rosextml~i~,as Seattle s i~,i[~i~ ~be purely ;~.~ml~6iic o{’~iV~ sp~i~...d tl~e-~ ’~ :: ~ :": " RTL N , Or . eit: of t’ortland and Multnomah County are ~nsiderir~ theadopdon of a domesdc partuefship registry as away~’pr Gay couples t6 Officially iog thdr ~;~i~onships, A jOint ~registry wotfld be ihe second ,~.::~gon ,ag_.d~ong three dozen nationwide. In Oc~be~AsKihhd approved a registry for s/tree-sex couples 18:or older. So did California. Seattle has had one since 1994. And New Orleans, Boston, New York and Iowa City, Iowa also have them. The registries stop far short of conferring marriage s-tatus- on- Gay -couples= "~Bul~, it’s~ ,still-. an acknowledgment of. a relationship that two people who are committed to one another have," said Maura Roche, spokeswoman for Basic Rights Oregon. "And it’~ s a way~to aeknoWiedge i-t in:a pt~bli~.forum~ which hopefally Wi~,leadito. ~g~puh!ie: understanding ¯~at~drmi~icaneedi:BotmJ~T~] cxec~ti:ve director Of She.-said the~Ialks are;.~.~st~p)i’~-thffright direction becaus,e a registry represent§ a chatNejn family. That s oae o~ the mNn..eoiicerns of Lou Bores exec~utive ~r...e.rgtor ~:;ffae:C~eg0ii chapter of the :.~)::: :~ais in Po~ilanO;and the na~9~’~, heL~aid: B eres added that he would try to organize h:pmtegt~a~ainst Katz and Naito if registries were e~(tended io homosexual MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathg.E~liot Pastor ~) 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood ’ .~ 918/838~715 "7.- ~.~,~ ~ i .Reform :Same-Gender Rituals Basic Rights Oregon, a leading Gay civil rights advocacy organization, also praised the decision. "We’re very pleased to hear that the court has upheld employees’ access to fight discrimination at the state courtle el, : stud spokeswoman Maura Roche. More than one appeals judge had mixed feelingson .. thecase, which had been before the~cottrt since fall of 1998. Only Judge Walter Edmonds Jr. dissented i entirely. But four others, including Chief Judge Mary ¯ Deits, said while they agreed with the outcome, the court went further than necessary. The decision : "sweeps too broadly" in deciding that cities can ¯¯ broaden the "duties and liabilities of private parties," Judge Virginia Linder wrote in a separate concurring opinion. Edmonds said the decision violated the concept of state sovereignty over local governments. Oregon City/Count,y May Try-Partners R gistry ~. -" United in God’s Love NEW YORK (AP).=-Two years after they postponed a contentious showdown over same-sex blessing rituals, the rabbis of Judaism "S liberal Reform branch will face a decision on the issue at this year’s convention. Leaders of the 200-member Women’s Rabbinic Network have agreed to force the issue by submitting a resolution sanctioning such ceremonies to the Central Conference Of American Rabbis, which holds-*its national convention, March 26-29 in Greensboro, North Carolina. The coqeaders of the women’s network, Rabbis Shira Stem and Susan-Stone, said the resolution agreed" to’recently will differ only slightly from a proposed text the same group published in January. " That text said: "The relationship of a Jewish, samegender couple is worthy ofaffirmation through appropriate Jewish ritual and. :-: .each rabbi should decide ab0ut-0l’ficiafio-n- a~,Ysfdin-g-t6 hig/her"own rabbinic conscience." The conference’s top two officials had signed a January declaration urging all American tdig~ons to normalize same-sex couples. And a conference Sexuality study committee in 1998 endorSed recognition rituals for such couples. The women’s net~brk cffes the sexuality C~mtifittee’s view that Judaism’s historic opposition to homosexual behavior no longer applies. But there is division within Reform rabbinic ranks. The conference’s "responsa comnuttee,’,whose rulings guide the practices of Reform rabbis, opposed thechangeinaT-2decision.Amemberoftheresponsa committee majority, .Rabbi .:Jeffrey Salkin of Port Washington, New Y ork, said Reform rabbi s are already free to conduct same-sex rituals if they want. But Salkin fears that officially approving the practice would "tear rdati,onships apart" amongReform rabbis, and hurt Reform s relations ~ith otl~[r branches and its hopes-.~fot full a-cce~tance.in {g~el?-Whatevet happens, Salkin said; ~’We:are looking at something that will ha¢e massive historical iml~pr~ce." ~ "¯ Me,mawhile, the Episcopal’Churchig~s to release a proposal on same-same rituals within a weekortwo Conventions ofthe Presb~[6ri~m Ch~Ch (U,S.~.) an~ United Methodist Church will also deb~!le the issue this year. .:. ~" ~ Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am .................. Wgd_._Bible- Study, ~7 pm 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. 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Now Newzille has creati~d ~dmewhere to go.,~qaough Catholic ze~cNag bars ~homosex~mt¢ from tam’Gage and sexual activity, &e State’[ only Roman Cail~olic college has:f0~-med a stude~tdub where heterosexual and homosesua! smdcms The Gay/S t~ight stat~ff " as s~uden~ dozen Jennifer B@iiton;pres~d~nt~of: the student.senate; Mingo Valley Flowers 9413 K 31st St., Tulsa 74145 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-444-5934 Family Owned& Operated - - - - -- ~" ~- --7--- - - - �rZ 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor Tulsa Gay Commtmity Sen, ices Center .. 743-GAYS (743-4297) said the ~cp.llege’s administrators, staff and students have received the new group well. "On our campus, iwe’re open to all issues, and as students we’re encouraged to discuss issues in society. Gay issues are one of those," she said. The alliance has more heterosexual than homosexual members and is not intended to compel anyone to endorse homosexuality, Neuville said. "We’re not a ~ mili~ant group. We’re not protesting, pickefn,g, saying, "Damn it, we want you to accept us,"" he said. club 6=~ pm, Sunday - Friday.. Gay on "12-9~m, Saturday; all sales.benefit’the Center/~-.i. ¯ ." ." ¯ ." ." ¯ ." whether homosexuality is a choice or biological is irrelevant. "Gay and Lesbian people are not treated equally in many respects,’" sa~d Jane Marquardt, an attorney who donated to the Shepard scholarship fund. The scholarship is meant "to help a particular Gay student develop leadership skills, than people can realize Gay people are no different than anyone else," Marquardt said. : Gay Student Sues School RENO. Nev._ (AP) - A former Washoe County high i School studentclaims WashoeCounty school officials : failed t0 stop verbal and physica! harassmentinflicted i-liy classmates becaus~ h~,is.Gay... In afederal lawsuit .to talk andleam andbias against l to make :. fded recendy, Derek Henkle ailcges school officials tissues Of troths Local 1 : denied him ~i:~te~:~.~.elofhls sexual .. ofientation:~d ,d~died,’:.~ fr~:, ~li:rigllts by; ’: allegedly urging him tohide being ~ay. Tl~_e suit als0~ .. maizes claimsof negfigence andinfliclion ofemolional. ¯" distress. " ’" ...... :’=. ..... : .Saint Straight problematic For the sexual I-Ienkle:~suit is .being h~ndled.~by me:Lamb~a : Legal Defense and Eduction Fund, a New York¯ : : based Gay rights.o~ganiza~on, it seeks unspecified t .::damages, Namedas defendan.ts are prindpals;a vice : prin~pal, a.teache~, and ~pus poSce officers. : School district offi~:ials had no iimnediate comment. ¯ "we haven’t been served with anythin$ yet and unSl " we do, obvionsly we ~m’t comment on the spedfi~," district Spokesman~Steve Mulvenon said. Jon ,Derek thandled I and ,a~Gay .~"It’ s not a conditiOn at:the-hands .of who is But the Catholics, said. call: :.Henkle : a highway~ said his complaints to : shouidbe~ Catholic clearly what :the stated " administrators ~ -. Gay Scho|ershi - --KEVIN BURLESON Ke lle r ~Willgams R e a !ty 712-2252 Burleson@kw.com 2651 East 21st Street, Ste. 100, Tulsa 74114 An Independent Member Broker OPENARMS, OPENMINDS-,OPENHEAKq’S Saint Aidan ,<. .Saint Dunstan 4045 N. Cincinnali,i ~7882 .ii~~East 71st 492~7140 Saint John :...... Td~ty 4200 S. Atlanta Pla~.~/42-7381 - " .,501: $.: Cincinnati, 582-4128 Welcomes You. including students ~and faculty at University have raised more than $50 ~e. Matthew Shepard Scholarship enaowment wil!.pro~ide $2,000 a year Bisexual or transg~ grade point average,.= "I think it makes":us a, Hinds,. a Weber: State staff member who lot while two campus At Washoe ! relatedlY : students to Davidson said the p_ri’ncipal pcople hewas Gay. students who tell Lesbians and Gay closet," Davidson said. ¯Gay Pride to. Happen pite vatican ROME (AP) - A Gay Pride week that comes smack --~, Wyo., in thethe middle of the Holy Year college student who was Severely pistol ’ i irked Vatican, butRoman,Catholic Rome s mayor insisted thathas the. .: left to die. The : ¯ " laws across the nation. with the .G,,a~y pride event, but it would be a ."_.-i .Scho!arshiplapplieants must be a sophQ~ or :: along eventwillbeallowedtotakeplace."Youmightnotgo : higher level, t~king 12 credit hours per s~es~er. A : mistake to ban it, Mayor Francesco Rutelli said. World Pride Roma 2000 is expected to bring 500 to 750 word essay, the .: hundredsofthonsandsofGaysandLeshianstoRome needs, academic performance ¯ at the same fire, the eityis overflowing with religions with or service to the pay, Lesbian, : pilgrims eomingto th~Jubileemillenniumcelebrations : calledby Pope J0hn Paul II."Romehas amillenninm: old code of welcome ~.and respect that won’t change in Organizers are working to finalize ¯ 2000." RutelEtold a city council meeting on Holy scholarship endowment with the : Year issues:,~:The. ~Vatican, which condemns there are no applications. : homosexual acts but.not homosexuality itself, had no "There are sexnal m~inorifies. And this is official comment ~ the July 1-9 event. Vatican "there’s a scliolarship here,"’ said Officials denied~.~.~ that the Holy See had tried to President But ÷:: get it cancele~.-,.~ii;~[~,~ti_.the officials, who Spoke on condition of anon~, also acknowledged that the said Weber State student Niki with culture Vafica was irritate, by the fact that the gathering t~mes ~: J~ee yeax. see News, p. 10 �Better.Drugs i Equal Fewer Pills i Oral Sex Not As Safe As Thought SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Powerful new ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Many Gay men consider oral sex a safer alternative AIDS drugs in development should help to intercourse, but a new study finds it relieve one of the biggest problems of carries a real risk of spreading AIDS. treatment - the pill burden. Over the past Even without condoms, oral sex is four years, new treatment combinations widely regarded to be safe sex, even though have revolutionized AIDS care, changing HIV infection from a death sentence to a : health agencies have never officially disease that is treatable, if not curable. : conceded that. A new study conducted in San Francisco shows that frequent However, patients must adhere to a tedious i unprotected oral sex can also be risky, and exacting sehedule of downing pills, ." though certainly not as much as anal sex. .often more than 20 a day. "The message is not that everyone will Now, drugmakers are working on new : drugs that require m~ch smaller doses as ¯ get infected through oral sex," said Dr. wall as better versions of the old standbys -" Frederick Hecht of San Francisco General ." Hospital, a coauthor of the study. In fact, that can be taken less frequently. Experts say that if all goes well, over the ¯ analintercoursecouldbe 100timesriskier. Because of declines in unprotected anal next two or so years it may be possible to ¯ reduce the .pill burden to just four tablets : intercourse, therehas beenabigreduction taken once a day. "Most drugs are dosed ." in high-risk exposure, I-Iecht said. But twice or three times a day for a reason. ~ -~._~ere is still plenty of low-risk exposure Once a day is not enough. The Holy Grail ¯ tl~ough oral sex without condoms, "and would be to take all your medicines once ." that low risk adds up." His study found aday with as few capsules as possible. We : that oral sex was probably the cause of 8% are not so far from that, maybe in the next ¯¯ of recent HIV infections among a group of homosexual men examined in S~m couple of years," said Dr. Eugene Sun, head of antiviral drug research at Abbott ~ Francisco. ¯ In the past, there have been occasional Laboratories. About half of all patients who initially ¯ reports of people apparently catching HIV orally. But health investigators have had respond to treatment eventually find their ¯ difficulty being certain, since Gay men virus levels rebounding, and the most common reason for this is failure to stick ¯¯ who have do oral sex also may engage in to apill schedule. The pill-taking schedule ¯ other, riskier sex practices, such as anal intercourse. is more than just a nuisance. 71~ose who ¯ Now diagnostic tests allow doctors to miss even a few doses risk losing control over their virus. Without enough medicine ¯ narrow down the timing of HIV infections. in the bloodstream, HIV comes roaring ¯ They were used in the latest study, back, often generating mutant versions ." described as the most definitive on the subject to date. The work, conducted with that are resistant to the drugs. A keyingredient of most drug regimens ¯ the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and is a class of medicines called protease ¯¯ Prevention, was presented in San Francisco at the 7th Conference on inhibitors. They are often combined with ¯ Retrovirases and Opporttmistic Infectious. two or three older kinds of drugs, such as ¯ "’Wlfile oral sex may still be safer than ddI and AZT. At last month’s 7th Conference on .¯" anal intercourse or vaginal intercourse, it is not without risk and perhaps has higher Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections ¯ risk than we would have expected in San Francisco, doctors described results of testing with new varieties of prot.ease ¯ otherwise," said Dr. Helene Gayle, the CDC’s AIDS chief. inhihibors. Some of these medicines are The researchers sought to learn the 10 times more powerful than the ones that " transformed AIDS treatment. Protease ¯ meaus ofinfectionin 102 Gay and Bisexual inhibitors are by far the biggest lump in ¯¯ men who had recently caught HIV. When the pill burden. Typically patients must ¯ all other possible means of infection were ruled out, oral sex turned out to be the only take three of them three times a day - a total of nine pills -often on an empty ¯ risk behavior in eight of these men. Most 0 said they thought- oral sex had little or no stomach. ° risk. In the works areproteaseinhibitors that ° Because o~ the strict criteria used, the doctors hope will need to be taken twice or even just once a day. One of these is :° real number of cases resulting from oral Bristol-Myers Squibb’ s drug code-named ° sex may actually have been higher. For instance, two men said they had oral sex BMS-232632. In preliminary testing directed by Sanne, it appears that one or -" but not anal sex. But they also said they two of these pills once aday is as effective o° had blacked out once and could not be at suppressing HIV as the standard dose ¯ sure what had happened, so they were excluded from the total. of nelfinavir, an older protease inhibitor. All of the men apparently caught the Abbott presented promising results with . its experimental protease inhibitor ABT- ¯ virus by giving oral sex, rather than 378, showing it Seems to work against ¯ receiving it, and none used condoms. "We know that the only safe sex is total strains of virus that are already resistant to other drugs. The drug will be combined 0 abstinence or sex with a mutually withritonavir, another protease inhibitor, o monogamous,non-HIV-infectedparmer," into pills that willbo-taken three at a time, : ’~ Gayle said. "Everything else has some twic~:~a day. The comp.,.a~y?~.s working on ° degree of risk. The sense that oral sex is safe sex may have been an unfortunate smaller doses ~ wel! ..... ~ ~ message." .~’ Ufie~p~.cteff~ide et~l~b.cts can quickly Gayle said she a~sumes that the risk of derail deq~loptuent of these drugs -MerCk oral sex when properly using a condom is Research Laboratories was scheduled to close to zero. She also .said that if oral sex presentresultS of its new protease inhibitor alone has played a large role in the spread at the meeting. But two weeks ago, it of AIDS, that would already have become suspended human testing of the drug after obvious during the 20 years. rat experiments turned up possible kidney Dr. Anthony Fauci, head of the National damage. The medicine, called MK-944A, Institute of Allergy and Infectious is acombination of anew protease inhibitor Diseases, noted that some Gay men turned and an older one, called indinavir, into a to frequent unprotected oral sex after single pill that would be taken once or twice a day. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. 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"People the riskfellatio," is low, but AIDS Virus First Emerged in 1930 SAN FRANCISCO (AP)-The worldwide AIDS pandemic has been traced to asingle viral ancestor who emerged perhaps around 1930. Earlier research had ¯ suggested that the ol~tbreak began in the ¯ first half of the 20th century, but the latest : analysis, done at the Los Alamos National ." Lab in New Mexico, appears to be the ¯ most definitive so far. -" Bette Korber, who keeps a’database of HIV genetic, information at the lab, calculated HIV’s family tree by looking at the rate the virus mutates over time. She assumed these genetic changes happen at a constant rate and used a supercomputer to clock the mutations back through time tO a common ancestor. Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. Electronic filing is ~yailable for faster refunds. 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 Are You-Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Mona Support Group is here for. you! _ / ~\~"~ .~i=-J.~Y LX~ ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext. 208 or 218, Korber estimates that the current pandemic goes back to one or a small group of infected humans around 1930, though this ancestor virus could have emerged as early-as 1910 or as late as 1950. From this single source, she suggests, came the virus that now infects roughly 40 million people all over the .world. ’This offers a small piece in a larger puzzle concermng the origins of HIV," she said. Experts believe that HIV’ s ancestor is a virus that ordinarily infects chimpanzees. Somehow it spread to people - .perhaps thirough abite or hunting mishap -~n west equatorial Africa. Just when this happened, though, is .still a mystery, Korber Said. The leap from chimp to man could have been around 1930. Or it may have occurred much earlier and the virus stayed within a small group of humans. The work challenges a theory that AIDs actually began in the 1950s, when HIV was accidentally mixed with the polio vaccine. In last year’s book ’¢Fhe River," Edward Hopper theorizes that HIV contaminated batches of the vaccine that were grown in chimp dssue. This then spread when the vaccine was tested in the Belgian Congo. Korber said this is highly unlikely, since it would require the introduction of at least 10 genetically separate strains of the virus into the vaccine from different chimps. Dr. Steven Wolinsky of Northwestern University called Korber’s project "a computational tour de force." Korber based her work on the genetic codes of 160 different copies of the AIDS virus. She analyzed them on a Los Alamos supercomputer, called Nirvana, that can perform l trillion computations per second. The earliest existing sample of HIV was found in a blood specimen obtained in Leopoldville - now Kinshasa - in 1959. Virus Testing Helps AIDS Treatments SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Doctors say they can improve the chance of successfully treating AIDS by measuring how each patient’s virus stands up to the drugs intended to kill HIV. Through evolution, HIV can grow resistant to any of the standard AIDS drugs, and often it is invulnerable to several at once. The specific combination of viral resistance varies from patient to patient. In theory, doctors can brew up the most potent AIDS drug cocktails for their patients if they know the strengths and vulnerabilities of the viruses they carry. In the past, doctors have attempted to do this by checking the virus for the genefc mutations that make it impervious to various drugs. However, complex mixes of mutations are sometimes hard to translate into drug treatment plans.’ In a new approach called phenotypic resistance tesdng, doctors can check the virus against all of the standard drugs to see which ones can kill it, then .use~the results to tailor their strategy. "With this information, you can make better decisions," said Dr. Calvin Cohen. Understanding virus resistance is especially important w hen putting together new drug combinations after the initial drug cocktail fails to wipe out all visible signs of the virus. Doctors have 15 AIDS drugs to pick from, and the choice often amounts to an educated guess. Cohen and colleagues studied phenotypic testing at the Community Research Initiative of New England, an independent AIDS research organization in Brookline, Mass. He described the results Monday, in San Francisco at the 7th Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections. . The test was developed by Virco N.M., a European biotechnology company that financed the study with Glaxo Wellcome Inc., the pharmaceutical company. Doctors say an advantage ofp,henotypic testing is the simplicity of ~lle results. "The person’s virus is grown in a culture and then ,put into a test tube with each antiviral drug," Cohen said. "We monitor to see how wellitgrow s. If it stops growing, .that drug works. It’s that simple." The new test costs $800 per patient. Screening the genetic mutations in HIV to figure out drug resistance has been around longer and cOsts about $400 to $500 per patient. Doctors say that trying to understand how well drugs will work by analyzing viral genes can be daunting when the virus is resistant to several drugs. Sometimes resistance to one pill can help the virus withstand another, even though it does not specifically have resistance to that medicine. "Phenotypic resistance testing will be attractive because it is so much easier to interpret," said Dr. Douglas D. Richman of the University of California at San Diego. To check the test’s value, Cohen’s team studied 274 patients who had failed to respond to an initial round of AIDS drugs. Half were randomly assigned to receive phenotypic testing, while the rest got standard care without testing. After 16 weeks, 58% of the patients getting phenotypic-testing had responded so well to their new combination of drugs that the virus had fallen too low to measure. By comparison, 37% of those without testing did this wall. "Until this study, all of this was reasonable but unproven," Cohen said. "Now we can prove it." ~:~": Wa~ to get involved? Need to.get tested for HI~ or a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743-GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor �~ J. 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Tickets: $12, 16 & 20 Call:-596-7111 Order on line: www~,tulsapac.com Irish Dance Company -The-original and the best.t Tulsa Performing ~rfs Center Trust World Treasures S~ason: Celtic Gems. ¯ -Si~0ns~rs: O.klah~ma Arts ~:.:ur~i~,..Urban T.u!sa - : " " ommumty C House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1 lain, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity ServiceS: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance ~6:30 pm, Meets at the United Minis,try Cir., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 I~" MONDAYS lilY Testing Clinic, Fr~ & anonTmous testing. No appoinl~¢n[ r~zluired. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E. 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Ad~niral O~lahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’.RYAN) " Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health a~ 584-2325 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, [nfo: 834-4194 I~" FRIDAYS Safe Haven,~iotm~AduJts Sc;ci~d Group, l st Eft/each ~no. 8pro, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th ~" SATURDAYS " ~ .... �Scotland, dozeus of prints, and Spong’s -" anti-discrimination policies, to. include second:wife; ChriSti~i~. ’When In~arried ," specifically :sexual- orienta’tion::~ Why?: Jack, I knew. what was ahead," said Christine, whomameA 1990... ncexled Kelleher wrote ’Perha " was ..... , ............ Spong. m........... ’When ~ou:-~up. (forGays)~,you~r¢~ =/Wrong going to ge~:hit. ?You cannot know Gay ." _ think so, at least with restart to theVast imd Lesbian people without wanting to .. maioriW of oar nconle." kelleher addrd hugthcm.Someofthcmhavebeenthr~wn ." he was modifying the pohcy to include out-of their h0mes~ ! can’t i~..gin~e throwing my Child out of;the hbu~e: ; The S~~m by Holloway, ~as ..¯ ~smge;whatcver or anxiety might uncertaint~,-ambiguity have existed-on this ." score." ¯ S~tan, wh0:cam¢.~s’s am~’ Who _" ’WVhat happened at. Southwdst is an ’ had been r6b~ andiron on the road. ¯ example In the story, the priest, afraid of being -" well-mcnningexecutives simplyto donor deemed unclean, passes by. But the _" give sexual orientation issues in the Samaritan stopped to care for the unknown workplace the consideration they mall. deserve, stud Kim I. Mills, HRC s "The point of the parable is that good ." education director. "We applaud refiglon, following, traditions in these ." Southwest Airlines for taking this_stcp developed systems, can now get in the toward creating an inclusive work Massage Therapy Services ¯ .,w.a.y. of us g~tting t,o~:~ saidI~oll0way..~ environmont~ for ih~ OayandLesbian e~. of us arc, w_all~g on the road to i amployees., While Southwest has added Jericho, andwem~t Iookf~ Him because along the s~d¢ of the road. ..... .’. offer dom=sticParm~r~:healthbenefits. priestandmothcr,stoodnexttoSpongas policies and e~pects sord~ missed,." saidDeats, whowas first ,." _ _ a sign language interpreter. "He will be :: announc=ment nO later the,, June. " ............. ago.~Imayn0tagreewithevcrythingh¢ ! [~]l=-Ie.ll -....- I says; but I truly minfi..~’re and respect him . . for stan,.d~n.gup,f0r~hat he believ~ in." ._. vice president orlon"di.ng, andI_~s Rector, Deats said she believed in more ." president, neither of.whom had returned traditional routines of-prayer. "It can be ¯ calls by press time. Dr. Jerry. Carr611, boring, I know. And I’m not saying the -" chairperson of the TTCU board of bisho~ does.n’t pray, bu~ I believe ~-nore ." directors, andpr0vostatOSU-Oldahoma .strongly in the mystical practices ofprayer in the ~hurch," said De~ts. Croneberger was rector of the Church of the Atonement in Tenafiy for i8 years, and a priest for more thsn 34 years. Croneberger~ 60, was oneofsix candidates - all of whom favor ordaining noncelibate Gays and blessing same-sex unions - in a field that included the Rev. Canon Gene Robinson of New Hampshire, who missed becoming the first openly Gay Episcopal bishop in the nation by several votes. As for Spong, he willlecture at Harvard University starting next month, but has no plans to move from Morris County. His latest book, "Here I Stand," was published this year. Spong, father of three daughters, said he found talking to students a great pleasure, Last week, Spong lectured at Lewis & Clark University in Portland, Ore.- "I love the minds of 18- to 23-yearolds," Spong said. "Nothing is sacred and they asked all kinds of questions." There were no,,questions asked here during the service, butthere was amomen! of fear when the Rev. Dana Rose slipped off the back of the riser as Spong and others wereblessing bread and wine. Rose was helped to his feeti and Spong quickly gave him the sign of the cross. Rose, a Gay priest who’s also black, was ordained first as a deacon by Spong in May 1998. "People say, ’You’re a priest and you’re GayT" said l~ose, who works for the Gay and Lesbian ministry in the diocesez "Now, there are ;many, priests who are Gay, but black? I believe in inclusion of all people, like me, into .the church, just like the bishop." Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 " City, did callback andsaid he thought there mustbe "a major misunderstanding" and that the "professional loan officers would not do that [make inquiri~,into. 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Rutdli has been a big Jubilee booster, shepherding the city through major constructionprojects-includingaVatican garage-to spruce itup for an estimated 30 million pilgrims. Gays have criticized the pope’s teachings on homosexuality, but Italian Gay leaders denied any disrespect is intended by holding World Pride during the Jubilee. "It’s not an anti-Jubilee event nor an event against the pope," said Francesco Falsetta, an official of the Mario Mieli Homosexual Cultural Association, one of the organizing groups. World Pride’s main event will be a July 8 march through the city. Organizers say it will also feature conferences, sporting events and parties.. -~Spri~t. Sprint PCS" The Clear A~terna’dve to Cellular Spdnt PCS" Select Retailer New Sprint PCS Phone :25.00 Less instore rebate $7435 Net cost Buy any Sprint PCS Phone and get $25 off!* Everyone is approved! 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" ;-y0ufeelgt~fig~ed:t.0makeit’diff~emtrom ¯Bu~aoindividualwinsanelection;alone i ~ theCivil m~a~e’ 6flexed to ~ght Meet ,Local If!we don’t engage oth~r humanb~ings, ; VermonterS?" ~ " ¯ ~. we remain tempting targets to-the :bullies : Hanagan said :he believes there’s an ontheright:IfwewanttoendGay-baiting " analogy to be drawn from the experience many Gays and’ Lesbians had coming to in public life, we have ~o use what we grips with themselves 20 or 30 years ago, know: the power of one h,man being to the straggle many straight people are talkln£ to another human berg about having now When thinking about what matters. something like same-’sex marriage. "When We need to be outward bound, despite you foste~ real bigotry against someone the discomfort. Because, in elections, the a i.d of greatest thing we have to fearis fearitself. "That’s-the he said. of bigotry.. It weighs ~guys you like years, but Hanagan can see diagonally across-State Street to the Statehouse, where the Vermont Legislature this year is crafting a response to ahistofic decision from the .stat~-~ i :~Supreme " ~ i ,:.~.Court. That decision said i~"~iola~d the "For me, some time tc mamage Vermont Constitution to deny~tted Gay-and Lesbian couples the~i~health of other benefits heterosexuaV~ed stress couples take for granted. .=.!i!:."ii( Hanagan, 49, is in his fourth i~year term as ~mditor and long has beea.,kn~_w,.n_ come when to harbor loftier potitical ambiO~,He s ~md~,ttaking 0ae long-expected:~i~tfo_r ~X3rigin. 18+. Additional features from 67 higher office this year, and has.raised more than$400,000" alotfor achallenger in Vermont - so far in his campaign for the Democratic U.S.. Senate nomination. He’s been able to raise money around the country from supporters of Gay men and Lesbians, but even more so from former Harvard Law School classmates who have found themselves in lucrative careers and can afford to be generous. Flanagan took a risk five years ago when he acknowledged for the first time publicly that he was Gay, and he’s taking a risk now in being such a strong advocate for same-sex marriage. "I assume any professional political consultant would advise against it," he said. "But some issues are so compelling and so pure that political considerations become trivial and inappropriate. This is at the core of my beliefs. I’mnot going to equivocate in the slightest and I hope Vermonters will respect my commitment to prmcipl,,e, even if they may not thoroughly agree. More often than the campaign trail, Flanagan is drawn these days to the Statehouse, because he senses history in the making, because he relishes and is fascinated by legislative deliberation and because he knows that, for many lawmakers, he can put ahuman face on an abstract set of issues. As he’s walked the Statehouse halls lately, Flanagan sm.’d he’ s noticed "people tend to move ~n my direction more often than normal. I’m a person they know and most often like quite a bi~ and relate to. I’m real. I have a real personality that they’re familiar with, so there isn’t that fear component of something foreign. "I don’t think often people are as homophobic as they think they should and "one’s private life will be put back into its private place." Flanagan, who said he has "a great capacity tolove," also offered a glimpse into what a personal heaven on earth might look like. "I would love to be a dad. I’ve always cherished the idea of being a dad and I think I would be a good dad?’ Locally, members of MCC United have created a chapter of Soul Force and at least one member joined White and 200 other Gay and Lesbian (or friendly) Christians in a meeting with FalWell. Elliott has as a personal goal, the development of the Community of the church, not the building or the number of members as much as the network of support for the members - much like the model of the earliest Christian communities. However, Elliott and other congregational leaders do discuss the possibilities of physical change for the group. Acknowledging the s~ ,newhat isolated location of the church build~ z (off major streets in a ver) q~ neighborhOod)~, they consider that t tufty-sell this building and find a more visible .and central location. But Elliott emphasizesthat these things are ouly just possibilities and are not anything which will happen soon. The spiritual life comes first and the rest will follow as the Spirit calls MCC-United to be. For more information about the Metropolitan Community Church United or about the Soul Force efforts, call 838!715. �The Eight Annual 2000 Saturday, March 4 Cocktails, 7pm, Dinner, 8:15 Myriad Convention Center, Grand Ballroom Auction & Dancing, Blacl( or Red Tie to benefit the Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund 1999 Beneficiaries: AIDS Support Program, Inc. American Red Cross, Oklahoma County Chapter CarePoint, Inc. Cimarron Alliance Foundation LegalAi6of Westem Oklahoma, Inc. Northern Lights Altematives Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund, Individual Assistance Fund Oklahoma Hemophilia Foundation Oklahoma Medical Research Foundation Oklahoma Mental Health Council Red Rock Behavioral Health Service Other Options, Inc. Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN) Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Bishop.Spong Retires TEANECK, N.J. (AP) - Bishop John Spong, an outspoken supporter of the ordination of Gays and women, and blessings of same-sex unions in the Episcopal church, retired in January as head of the Diocese of Newark. Spong, 68, celebrated one of his final services as bishop at the Glenpointe Marriott ballroom before hundreds of guests. His successor will be John Croneberger. Since his elevation to bishop in 1976, Spong has raised eyebrows and blood pressures for his beliefs_ ranging from women becoming priests to supporting same-sex marriages to the ordination of openly Gay ministers. ButSpong, a native of Charlotte, N.C. who speaks with the slightest ac~ut, left the diocese with few words of controversy. "It’sjust the next stage ofmy life," said Spong. .’,. "Basically, I’ve been a bishop, but also an author and lecturer," he said. "But in all ofmy ordained life, it was participating in movements of people who’ve been diminished in society, like people of color and Gays, that the church has diminished where I’ve worked." Among those present at Friday’s 126th annual convention of the Diocese of Newark were the Rev. Richard HollowayofEdinburgh; ~.-~- - See Spong~.p.lO Southwest Air Adds, Non- Discrimination Policies DALLAS - Southwest Airlines has amended its nondiscrimination and anti-harassment policies to include sexual orientation, according to Chief Executive Herb Kelleher. The move, announced Jan. 24, came after a spate of alleged anti-Gay harassment at the airline, which led some Southwest employees to raise safety concerns. The tensions boiled over when Southwest Airlines’ Pilots’ Associationpublished ahomophobicletterfrom one of its members in its December newsletter. The letter, by Capt. Gary S. Ward, urged Kelleher to reject calls for the airline to provide domestic partner benefits saying, ’Will therebeaneedto hireadepartment to check on who is shackin..e, t~p with whom?" The newsletterinstructedpilots to write theirownlettersand deliverthemto their SWAPArepresentativefordeftvcry to Kelleher. Dean Hervochon, vice president of the Transport Workers Union Local 556 representing Southwest’s flight attendants, said the publication "institutionalized homophobia" and created a hostile work environment that "could jeopardize the safety of all persons on the aircraft." "If the front doesn’t talk to the back of the airplane, you’ve got a problem," Hervochon told WorkAlert. Kelleher and leaders of sWAPA and TWU met Jan. 17 to discuss how to respond.TWUrepresentatives also pressed Kelleher to add sexual orientation to the antiharassment andnon-discriminationpolicies. Meanwhile, the vice presidents for flight operations and in-flight services along with SWAPA and TWU officials sent a letter Jan. 20 to flight attendants and pilots attempting to defusethe situation. Howcver, Gayemployees criticized the letter as inadequate and for using objectionable language, such as "lifestyle choices." Then Kelleher announced the change in company policy in a letter to all Southwest Airlines employees. "Forsomeyears, I have explidfly declined toamendour anti-harassment and see SWAir, p. 10 " Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families .+ Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation CommunityP~perA~vailable In More Than 75. City Locations !Teachers Credit Union: No :-Loan for Lesbians as Couple : Credit Union AskedAuto Dealer If They Were Gay ¯ TULSA- WhenTheresaandJoanWrightwenttoTulsaTeachers " Credit Union, they just wanted a car loan. The women are : expecting their second child and had found a van.at a local auto : collection. And since they have shared checking and savings accounts at Tulsa Teachers Credit Union, and good credit, they : naturally went there, expecting that getting a loan would be : relafivd~ painless. " .i.~ ~Wlmt they experienced they say, however, was hurtful and ~; dUenmioenan(riInTgC. U,A)c, cnoortdoinnlgytroeftuhseedWtoriegvhatlsu,aTteutlhsaemTeaascahceoruspCler,eid.ei.t : basing alOan!on their combined income but someone from the : creditunion evencalled theauto dealershipaskingifthedealership : staff"knew they were Gay?" ¯ And the Wrights characterized the behavior of their loan officer, Sandy Roth as very rude, particularly about the issue of : evaluating their joint income for loan purpose. Roth refused to ¯ look at their joint income saying it was because they are not ". married. In contrast to Tulsa Teachers Credit Union, a loan officer at i Tulsa Municipal Employees Credit Union stated that they accept ¯ unmarried couples withcombinedhouseholds as loan applicants, : noting that she’d assisted at least two Lesbian and two Gay : couples with loans. ¯ Bank of Oklahoma stated that they had not always accepted : couples whose relationships were not legally recognized but that : they now do so. And a senior officer at Spirit Bank encouraged ¯ Lesbian.and Gay couples to apply with her bank, noting that : Spirit Bank would not tolerate anti-Lesbian or Gay bias. ." Theresa Wright noted that Ms. Roth refused even to look her : in the eye when she went in to sign the loan papers. The Wrights : noted that the dealership, in contrast to the credit union, was very ¯ nice, and that irwas the manager assisting them in purchasing ¯ their new vehicle, who said, "I’m just going to say something. : Your bank called and wanted to know the nature of .your : re!ationship-are they Gay?" Heassuredthemthathis organization ¯¯ welcomed everyone and also had Gay people working for it. Ms. Rpth’s su_l~’visor-at TI’CU, David Snyder refused to comm~h~ and ref~ed’~ to Chuck Reed, ~ see Credit,p. 10 ¯ TulsaPFLAG & TOHRmembersmarchedfor thefirst time in the ¯ Martin Luther King, Jr. Commemorative Parade in January. TOHR Receives a. $10k Grant i TULSA-Inmid-December, TulsaOklahomasforHumanRights ¯ (TOHR) received a $10,000 grant from the Colin Higgius : Foundation. Thegrantis for the Tnlsa Gay Community Services : Center programming, marketing and development expansion ¯ project. Specific goals of the project include the production and : distribution of a €ommttnity referral guide, the enhancement of _" Lesbian Connection- a program that encourages increased : involvementfromthewomenofourcommunity, and anexpanded ¯¯ Pride 2000 Festival. The marketing and development aspects of the project will focus on enhanced communication and media inaterial as well as ¯ increased membership and volunteer involvement. : The Colin Higgins Foundation is based in San Francisco, : California. Colin Higgins,screenwriter, director and producer, : established the Foundation in 1986. Mr. Higgins is remembered ¯ for his remarkable human comedies, including Harold and : Maude, Silverstreak, Foul Play and Nine To Five. : He created the Foundation in order to further his humanitarian : goals. OneoftheFoundation’smainprioritiesistoempowerGay menand Lesbiansby supporting community-based organizations : that combat homophobia and foster leadership. : TOHRdirectors indicated thatitis honored to receive thegrant : and that they have ambitious goals for 2000 and beyond. New Pastor Leads at Tulsa’s MCC-United ¯ TULSA - After a number of months with an ¯ interim pastor, Oklahoma’s oldest extant Lesbian ¯ andGayorganization, theMetropolitanCommunity ¯ Church United (MCCU), has a new pastor, the ¯ ReverendCathy l~liott, whojoinedthecongregation ¯ at theend of 1’999. ¯ Elliott,grewupin themidwest, butcame toTulsa ¯ from Florida where she was invoIved with two : Metropolitan Community Churches in the MCC Fellowship. However, prior to working in Florida, ¯ she served a Congregation in-Rochester, New York ¯ and some years ago, was associated with the MCC ¯ in Little Rock. Like many MCC pastors, Elliott came to the ¯ MCC Fellowship through a winding path, having ¯ become more serious about her faith while at university. There, she joined a church that was ¯ theologically evangelical, but after a fe~v years, as ¯ sheacknowledgedbring Lesbian, she foundherself ¯ becoming involved in an MCC that was about 40 miles away. Anditwas fromthis initial association, : that her calling to the ministry came. ¯ In a recent interview with TFN, Elliott praised ¯ theworkhernew congregationhaddoneinmerging ¯ the formerly two separate churches, MCC-Greater ¯ Tulsa and Family of Faith MCC. As she and they ¯ havebeguntobecomeacquainled, thecongregation ¯ is looking at how they will grow, spiritually and otherwise. ¯ Some members of the congregation .have also ¯ become involved in a serious social action ¯ organization, called Soul Force. The group was ¯ founded by MCC pastor and writer, the Reverend ¯ Mel White. White, who once wrote for anti-Gay ¯ evangelical such as Jerry. Falwell, modeled Soul ¯ Force on the theories of non-violent confrontation " for social .change of Martin Luther King, Jr. and ¯ MahatmaoGhandi. see Elliott, p. 11. ¯ Marriage Is Civil-Rights "Issue Says Vermonter : MONTPELIER,Vt. (AP)-One ofthemostpainful : things about figuring out he was Gay as a teen-ager ¯ was coming to the realization that he would never : get married and have a family. Ed Flanagan came ¯ from an Irish-Catholic family, one of five kids, : "four straight and one Gay," he says. His fatherhad : an alcohol problem and"the end resnlt was that we ¯ childrenwerevery, very closein terms ofsupporting : each other to get through that environment." His : relationships with his brother and three sisters : "have been very crucial in terms of all of the five of : us surviving and flourishing," Flanagan said. "It’s ¯ a very strong presence that we all feel with one : another and a source of important emotional ¯ support." Trying to find a place within the Gay comrmmity : ofthe 1960s and ’70s wasn’t easy for someone with : such strong family ties. "That culture back then did ¯ not accommodate the id_ea,,o,f family," he said in an interview this past week. In the midst of the Gay : culture I felt Very alien, for that reason and others." : Now that culture is changing, it’s "becoming more ¯ family-oriented, and longer-term relationships are ¯" becoming more prevalent," Flanagan said. And ¯ state law appears to be changing, too. ¯ Today, Flanagan sees a future in which getting married, perhaps even being aparent, may become : options forhimandotherGaysandLesbians. There ." may be an oasis on the horizon for people who have ¯ wandered much of their lives in an emotional : desert. And as the first and still only openly Gay ¯ man in the country to hold a statewide elective : office, Flanagan believes he might be in the right ¯ time- the dawn of a new millennium - and place - ". Vermont - to help bring that future about. ’~l’his is : the course ofhistory inVermont. Here it is andhere : I am," he said. Fromthe windows oftheoffice 6fstate auditorof : accounts, see Ed, p. 11 Tulaa Cluba & Reataumnta *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CTg’s, 1737S. Memorial *Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria -*The Mix, 2630 E. 15th 712-2324 : 610-5323 : 583-6666. 749-4511 :. 749-1563 ~ *Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square 744-4280 ¯ *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st- 745-9998 *Silver Star. Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 ~The Storm, 21,82S, Sheridan 835-2376 *Renegades/iRainbowRoom, 1649 S: Main- 585-3405 .~Tdrl-’ BOX, 1338~13.>3ra ~° : :: : :: :’"~84~ l~3"0g " ~ ~ ’:r ,TUl~a BUsinesses, Services, & Professionals ~: Advanced WireleSs & PCS, Digital Cellular- .. 74%1508 *Assoc. in Med. &Mental Health, 2325 S.Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health& Life Insurance 747-9506 *Barnes &Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 250~5034 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 523 1 E. 41 665-4580 Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 . 712=1122. *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 712-9955 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale - 494-2665 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria . Cherry St Psy_cho~eralff, 1,51~5 S,. Lew*s .581-trot Community Cleamng, heruy tsager ;,~....., onK-~-~ Tim Daniel, Attorney 33z-~tr*, ~....-~ *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th *Devena’s Gallery, 13 Brady 749-3620 587-2611 744-5556 838:8503 584-0337, 7i2-9379 592-O460 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria *Elite Books & Videos; 821 S. Sheridan *Ross Edward Salon Events Unlimited, 507 S. Main *Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th PI. Cathy Fmlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st I_eanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning Mark T. Hamby, Attorney *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy~ 2865 E. Skelly *International Toms ¯ Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 151h *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 Kdly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 *Living ArtSpace, 19 E. Brady *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo *The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor Rainbowz on the River B+B,POB 696,74101 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 744-9595 ¯ 610-0880 - 628-3709 : 8O8-8O26 742-1460 459-9349 744-7440 745-1111 341-6866 712-2750 582-3018 747-0236 582-8460 599-8070 747-5466 585-1234 584-3112 663-5934 664-2951 838-7626 743-4297 747-5932 834-0617 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square Paul Tay, Car Salesman *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard ~ Fred Welch, LCSW, Counsding *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 834-7921,747-4746 749-6301 260-7829 481-0558 835-5563 743-1733 665-2222 592-0767 Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 All Sods Unitarian Chmch~ 2952 S. Peoria 743-2363 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 " 587-7314’ Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 583-7815 *B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 583-9780 *Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston 585-1201 ~Chapman Student:Ctr.; University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence *Church of the Resto~ationUU, 1314N.Greenwood 587-1314 ,C.-ommunity ofHopeUnitedMethodist, 2545 S" Yale 747-6300 ,CommunityUnitafian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 Council Oak Men’s Chorale 748-3888 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware 712-1511 *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 742-2457 Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa- Lesbian & Gay Catholics & Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 355-3140 *Fellowship Congre,g. _Church, info" 58%4669 *Free SpiritWomen s Center, cm " 747-6827 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140, Tulsa, OK74159 e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlink.net Publisher + Editor: " " Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Barry H~nsley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, .Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers ~.. Member of The Associated Press : Issued on or before’the 1st~af,cach~m0nth,-the enUre~contents.; of this publication: ar6 ptrt~t&l?l~tda:~yrightl~~ T~€( F~,~ N~€~ ~fid may ~6t~ ~q~oducetl’,~ ~: wholeorin partwithoutwritten~Ssionfromth~publisli&:. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is, assumed to be. for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed& becomes the sole property of T~J.~~Nc~u÷ ~acli reader is entitled to 4 copies of each edidon at ,distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. " Gay Pro Lifers March On ¯ Onjanuary24,2000,about20members :of the Pro-Life Alliance of Gays .and : Leshi.ans. (PLAGAL). did an am.P_y~ng :,~ at the annual Marcia ior Lit-e protesung :. the Roe vs. Wade decision on its i nnniversary despite being .tl~¯cate_n.e.d .: March told PLAGAL that they~.~uta no_ ¯ march, s~n,,c~_, they. ,,w,ere Gay.-Now, if :. PLAGAL closet’ed themsd~ andjust ....~9A%~e’Righ.t to t~te MarCH, an oth groups,_w, eaUow t0.ma@be,. hind ~: b:~nners- refl~tingtheir various eiamcnes, : organizations or states but if.PLAGA~ ¯ m~mbers carried its banner, they woma ". be arrested and thrown in jail. ¯¯ This being known at the annual PLAGALmeefngontheeveofthemarch, " members decided to risk being arrested. "_ After all, they reasoned it would be hypocritical ffPLAGALhid at the March ,FHufiieVndEsRinCUennitteyr,S4o1c3ia8lCOhrags.,.PPaOgBeB85lv4~2a, 174101 - -558832--60641318 .:~ .fhoarrdLtiofebewinhcelnudfoerdoypeearnslytihnepyrifdoeuegvhetnstos :Tulsa C.A.R:E.S., 3507 E. Admi 834Z4194 : ~-indparadeswithinitsowncommunity.in Holland Hall School, 5666 E. 81st " 481-1111 ." addition, if PLAGAL bowed to the HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention,.E~_u__ca~on _ 83~8378 : 0ressmesimposedbytheorganizers, they *House of the Holy Spirit Miustries, 3?~l,0e,,S,~%Nff~rw~oo~ 2437 .. : ~do the Gay ~)mmunity no, g.oqd.. lnt,~fslth IDSMinistries ’ ~..~6-/~-I,DI, OUU-~.~’I-z¢’~, ... By.not marching, they would be ~’l~"~mA’ted,i623 N, Maplewood - .: g ~8-~~ ~ ac~nowiedging that is was fight t~o hate I~AMES Project,3507 E. Ad_mi,ml_ ~PI,: ..... ~, ~,~a~_~.~ ¯ and this would be a backward step. NOW, Nat’lOrg. forWomen~POB lqotas, t,H3y :)to-o,, :. PLAGAL members do not want to be OK Spokes Club ~cyding), FOB 9i65, 74157 . excluded from the Gay community just *OSU-Tulsa . " PFLAG, FOB 52800, 74152 749-4901 - *Harmed parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 58%7674 : Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network ~ 749-4195 *Red Rock Mental.Center, 1724 E. 8 584-2325 ." .O’RYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults : O’RYAN, ~r. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth " St. Aid,art’s Episcopal Chinch, 4045N. Cincinnati 425-7882 S,, r~,,-~tan’s EniScoval, 5635 E. 71st 492-7140 " ~t.Jer~--~me’s P~arish ~hurch, 205 W. King 582-3088 " *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder 583-7171 *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 ?ulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 595-4105 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thmsdays only Tulsa Olda. for HumanRights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule *Tulsa Community College Campuses *~ulsa Gay Comn;unity Center, 1307 E. 38, 74105 743-4297 Unity Churchof Christianity,3355 S. Jamestown 749-8833 BARTLESVILLE *Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 OKLAHOMA CITY/NORMAN *Borders Books &Music, 3209NWExpressway 405-848-2667 *Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 TAHLEQUAH *Stonewall League, call for information: 918-456-7900 *Tahlequah Unitarian-UniversalistChinch 918-456-7900 *Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 918-453-9360 NSU School of Optometry, 1001N. Grand HIVtesting every other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for dates EUREKA SPRINGS,~ARKANSAS " - Autumn Breeze Restamant, Hwy. 23 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main DeVito’s Restamant, 5 Center St. Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. MCC of the Living Spring Geek to Go!,~ PC Specialist, FOB 429 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery Positive Idea Marketing Plans Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East White Light, 1 Center St. JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 501-253-7734 " 501-253-7457 " 501-253-6807 ¯ 501-253-5445 501-253-9337 ¯ 501-253-2776 " 501-253~5332 501-624-6646 ¯ 501-253-6001 " 501-253-4074 " 417-623-4696 * is where you can find TFN. Notall are Gay-owned butallare Gay-frlendly. becameoftheirpro-lifebeliefs andvalues, ~okmewise, they do want to be excluded the pro-life communityjustbecause they are Lesbian and Gay. Therefore, despite the threats, PLAGALappegr,ex]_at themarch,andwhenthepolicebamcaneu . them. PLAGAL .members maneuvered. around the police and entered the parade further up the street marching under their banner with the word "censored" taped across so everyone would know what the vords were underneath. Their decision to ignorethearrestthreatsfromtheorganizers was noted in The Washington Post, The Washington Times, and several others news publications throughoutthe counlry. Themajority ofGays and Lesbians may not share the briefs ofPLAGAL,but the~ shouldbeproud ofthis small group within its community. PLAGAL’s presence was a step toward bridging the gap between those individuals and the Gay community as a whole. At the end of the march, members of FemtmstforLife , Colleg~ates for Life , Catholic priests and bishops, and others from all walks of life and religions congratulated and thanked PLAGAL. see Letters, p.8 An nouncements Policy Tulsa Family News will provide space for holy union ceremony, marriage ceremony, birth, adoption~ .and death announcements ona space availablebasis. Photos are welcome, though we cannot promise placement o~r ,re~ttEn ~e~, so please send copies to I utsa ~ amtty ~vews, POB 4140, Tulsa 74159. ~ ¯ ~. Letters Policy :~’ i" Tulk~’Fam@ News welcomes letters 0~ issfi~:,which we’ve covered or~on issues you think need to be considered. You may request that your name be withheld but letters must be signed & have phonenumbers, or be hand ddivered. 200 word letters are preferred. Letters to other publications will be re-printed as is appropriate. byChristoptterGraff " ~ Solawmakers arefaced withadivision thatis widening ¯ !dONTPF.l.lP.R, Vt,(AP)-DonnaLescoeofStarksb°r° ¯ atatime they are looking for .~...useus~s_;ReP.- T~o~. Little, : had a simple message for legislators when she testified the chairman of the.HouseJudidary COmm;ttee, ls aman ,,onGaymmriage."Beheroes~" ~ who has a keen ability to fmd commonground and to lawmakers tohavethe courage toextendi¯ stitch together=. divisions, He Js -a Repubfican who : the nmrriage laws tOincludeGays¯ and Lesbians. , commandS’.re.speCt.from-b.oth par.fies~:~But he seetmhaend ,r :, -~ ,,,~h, SO simule It is hard to be a hero , frustrated this past. week by the w~demng rather bv Tom Neal, puoltflg,r & eaztor .... . u ~t ~,~,. ,~ v _:.. ..... ¯ ¯ . ohab y most non-Gry O @Oma : i .".es,the o ti=.rew.lawmakers they had no Lesbian orGcoa:ynstfl.uents.. wmlesomeoi *_..m°nmemlle’mmma-,em. vm,.~°~-nsare.s°ucmP."......... _,. mp ..-...~ . " w~’lling to casts: vote that them aresimply bigots, many of them know that they- . looked _li~..e .anything bu.~....... . €ouldbothdrlast.Nomatter oughtto:~be mpportive of basic.civil fights for Gay "- heroe~ folio.wt~.g a re~,,.m " ’~f’k,, ~-~..!. f~ogn6 lavcmaker~ ~. - l~nw stron~ the evidence that ........ " " " ¯ Ilk UUIIC aaa,o ..~.~ .~--~- .~ ~aUzens.’But they are scared that,treating Gay people Tuesday__ mg P, . _ _ ¯ ,. " . ¯ " ’, , . " " ¯ " .. " * " ~..,faidy. ..w..a.l.l so, mc,e,nse. othvegr te:rs~.. that they., are=oft.m__:..., _h-.~,g~!tgo~-a.~a-~.t ....... not ea@-. It ~s nothln~ less dmiedthdr dviln~ghts;~t~s ~.~lhdistta~ttishfibt~ fr0in Oldalaoma R~publicans. ,,-~ ~ ~ ....shell’sn,°q~cm-a~Y-~ ~ : ~ ./ !* ..../ ....L .... - t...a f~ra leoislator to cast a ¯will be~ deaded 0n TU~da.y;Match 14th. Some 0f,the " them9bPere:!lapfs noeverr e. o[ Freedomand Unlt-~. firestormot races are dfeetivdy settled (Brady Pringledoes~have a i have .1..~0,l~.!e att_~dyd Democratic oppon~eatbut in thai~ heavily Republican . a pum~c nearing at me " How to ~ve Gays and Lesbians :polls in November. district, it likely doesn’t matter), but others ~ar~.. still : Statehouse.Andthenumber unsettled. " - ~ ¯ ~ " : ¯ would have been thousands Of particular interestto TulSa’s Lesbian and Gay - moreifasnowstormhadnot commlmities is Cound! District 4 .for which former ~ kept many away. .~ Yes, eye.one who spoke And even if lawmakers tl~elr ~xlom an~l yet preserve tl~e craft a package extending to unity at the state~ Gays and Lesbians benefits such as having a say in the It is the stm~ heroes are madeo[." medical decisions of, their incumbent Gary W~tts ischallengingcurrentincumbent parmers;theyknow therewill Anna Falling. While _.Gay and ~tiian households a~ - wascivil.Butthecivilitydid foundthroughont thedty~-thisdistri¢t,mosflyMidtown, ; not mask the passion: Or the division. The tremors in " be a vote on the.floor on same-sex marriage - and that is. easily the most. heavily Gaylone.of the..dt~ For_ ~ people’s voices, a mixture of nerves .and emotion, spoke - tally, no matter what the outcome, will beused in .the fall examp!e,jnstonornextttlny_v~;shortbloek~thereare " volumes about-the depths of feeling.~ What became " elections. " Following .the hearing it seemed m the at least six Gay families2 . i-.~~ ~. - ,.. -. :. apparent’at theheming is thatthe two sides are moving : Statehouse timt lawmakers would like to f’md a way to . One could argue, of course, that- Ms~ Fallingrs very -- fresher aparL - avoidany voteonthis issue this year.Theideaofcreating nubile lan.qe., in oood iudoment onnon-Gav issues (win ~-" WhentheSupr_em~eC.o.urtissuedi~.~be.r.idec.i.’s.ion :.a special com~!ssio.n .to .craft. a solu~o~n ,~an~d .rgel~O~ht;o~ r..::-:~.,r.:-- ,, < .,r-~-.,. ..... : ~. nsband~s~ -_ sa g Gays and Lesbians are eg.~fled tP the rights,. ". law.n~Kersnex[yearmt~mgatscus.ssa.tmt _P~r.napsua~ her recycling program pu.bfic or private, her h ...... ym ¯ ¯ ¯ - - ...... . o t the ¯ n,mmdfi~oroaniTatlon arml~n~f0~nUbficfundson.which ¯ bendits and protecuons gtvenroamedcouples, e_veryone ¯ ~sjustamo.m~entar~. ,.a.nd, ex.p.ected hesitancy foil w ng ~.~’~l"~.---e7------rr:~--~, r , i . - . ,~ " .t,d--.A ~,~,~teww P,,-a~e and I ~=~h~rt~ ~.q e coul"t -" na~sion80t tile DUDIIC lleallnl~. ¯ . .snewastovote),areenoughtopersuaaeLesmananatJay - ’-~..’2p~. ""~"*,?." ""~ .’~"..~"~’.’.’-:...l.~a~s.ed the.. . ~_~__,= _r.t.~_.,~,,t,.nm,~tttiiiX~endnnhowthedebateis _ " ~.F2.-............¯,.;~.l,~.t~.i .r~v.r,~--..,~.t.~.n.f.~..e.-~_e.x. mam__aaoge al80 rimmed ¯ frmned m the comm~_ weeks. Opponents ll,ge me. m. p ,L. arg.en.t a.n.dl.na.ol.e .sul.tra.-e.xtr.em.e.re.ng.to.-po.n.u.co.s,.a.no..-..~,¯ .t.~, b~" ause the court di¯d not stri¯ke down the state,s .¯ are seeki"ng to" portray the Supreme Court deeimon as her rtosuu[y Io OUr t’I1oe evenls, it s Cl~ar Inat amlost . ,a,.~..j . . . . . . . ,,~....,,1,1 h~ ~,~tt,~ ¯ mamage laws~ Bishop Kenneth Angell calle~_, the court . some_ra.di.’.ca.l, andug,com.ttm.~fio.na).mo.ye ,F~Ve.nnon.t.ers, ~:................ - ruling aadecisivevictoryfor.tradifionalmamage." ¯ thoughdtlshardtotmagrnet~meIJusuceJenreyAmestoY, Thatbringsus toGaryWatts. Gary,likesomeOklahoma - Democrats is not particularly prejudiced. Like those : R seemed at that moment that legislation creating same Democrats, he’s not shown much leadership, He : dthormouegshti.cBpuatritnnetrhsehmiposnftohrsGinacyestahneddeLceissbioianntshewtowuolds.l~ose~s and they don’t haleus - theyjust don’.t want to deal with - our issues. have’ staked out positions worlds aparL ,But sOi~eone"s got to.start, kno@ing that.we’ll lose the first or five engagements but that.each time our issues, like a city non-discrimination ordinance, or equal compensation (full benefits for our familiesas well as equal wages)for Gay cityemployees, or a city domestic partners registry, are debated,the public learns. I believe that-Oklahomans are basically fair and eventually will respond to a reasoned argument. And in the meantime, a fair-minded city councilor could push for administrative changes, like getting the "diversity" training forourpolice departmentto deal with more than just race. After all, it’s our city too. : Bishop An,g,ell recently-condemned domestic : partnerships as steponetowardfullacceptanceofsame- " ¯ sex marriage" and has evenchallenged ~evalidity ofthe ¯ Supreme C,o.~_~ ruling itseLf, saying ~.his~t.o ,arms,to . Catholics, q~ere are many sound legm minus WhO . ¯ question the Supreme Court’s authority to even issue " ¯ such mandates to the legislature.’" : At the same time, Gays and Lesbians are saying a ¯ system of domestic partnerships is insufficient to meet " the spiritofthe Supreme Courtrtding. Adomesticpartner " sounds like someone who cleans the house, Jonathan Radigan told lawmakers. : amuchbeloved andeminentlyrespectedpersonwhois as : moderate and generally as cautious as they come, doing ¯ something radical or unconstitutional. It was Amestoy : who wrote the court rnling. : Andthe hearingdidmuchtoeducatenotju~tlawmnkers, but also the public at large. ~Vermont Public Radio did a great service by broadcasting the hearing statewide. Vermonters of all political and social back_groun.ds .got a chance to hear the scripture readings, the pasmon, the division. They also got to hearfrom the real.people whose lives will be most affected by the legislative action. The task facing lawmakers is noteasy. It is nothing less than living up to the state’s motto of "’Freedom and Unity." How to giveGays andLesbians theirfreedomand yet preserve the unity of the state? It is the stuff heroes are made of. by Dave Fleischer, Senior Fellow Policy Institute National Gay and Lesbian Task Force We love coming out - except when we hate it. Welovereminiscing onand celebrating ourpast acts of daring. Comingoutishow wediscoveredbothcommunity and freedom. It’s how we found both love and a life. But it’s hard to snmmon the energy and courage to come out 24/7 - to ask, tell, and pursue on a daily basis. That’s why campaigns sidestep the "G" word. When we say~ person-to-person, "What do you think ,a,b~,ut tl~."s anti-Gay ballot measure?", we are also asking, "What do you think about me? Do you see me as a human being, although I’m Gay and you probably aren’tT’ ’. Most campaigns avoid coming out, way out_ They rarely engage voters .perso.n-to-person, and of,te~, av~oid mentioning sexual on~mtataon. Recent research oy ls.en ~eager (himself an openly-~ay candidate for office) ~uggests that57% of candidate’~ who think of themselves as "openly Gay" don’t actually disclose their sexual orientation to voters before the election. Likewise, many campaigns to defeat anti-Gay ballot measures twist themselves into p~etzels to avoid the words "Gay", "Lesbian", or that new scare word (rarely so clearly): ifax Thd challengeofbeing outhas turned us inward before. : Look around our community. Most of our organizations : are refuges -"safe space"- safe from meaningful ¯ encounters with straight people. We draw 200,000 to a : pride parade to celebrate, yet only a relative handful to ¯ political campaigns to safeguard our fights. ¯ But relying onrefuges is a risky strategy. It suggests to : our opponents that the rest of the world is theirs, and it ¯ leaves us vulnerable topolitical attack. Soplease consider ¯ afew specificcoming-outactionsthatbuildourcollective ¯ power and don’t unduly disrupt your everyday life. ¯ 1. Join acampaign where you get to ask voters one-on- : one, preferably face-to-face, if we can count-on their ¯ votes. ¯ In 2000, California, Miami-Dade County, Florida, ¯ Maine, and possibly Oregon face ballot measures that ¯ affect your rights. If you live in one of these places, join ¯ your local campaign. ¯ If you used to live in one, make a list of everyone you ; know in your old hometown. Dig out your old address book or high school yearbook. Ask your siblings or ¯ parents to jog your memory. I’ll bet you know at least 50 ¯ people you can call. Whea you reach them, explain the and ask if we can count on : "Hometown Project", because it builds on the power of ¯ our relationships with family and friends, even when ; we’ve been out of touch. : If you have never lived in the hot-spots du jour, don’t ¯ feel neglected. Make a list of everyone you know who ¯ does live in one. You must know 20 people. Send them ¯ this colnmn. Follow uponthephone.Weneedevery vote, ¯ and you will help create a new habit of doing the one-on- " one ask. ~ 2. Host a house party to raise money for one of the communities under attack. Invite 120 friends and ." acquaintances to your home to hear about this new wave ¯ of ballot measures. Call all 120 personally and ask each ¯ to come. You will bring together 40 people, raise a ¯ minimum of $1000, and f’md at, least six new volunteers. ¯ 3. Get training. If face-to-face voter contact sounds : intimidating, seek out training, At the¯National Gay & ¯ Lesbian Task Force Creating Change conference ¯ November 10-14, we taught the nuts and bolts, went ¯ door-to-door talking with Oakland voters about the anti- -¯ Gay-marriage Knight Initiative. In one evening, we will identified hundreds of our supporters, and educated undecided, voters. ,. rput up the periscooI~..~::~t~sgreat that our community - but reality In some cases, the registry document can provide further legal proof of a relationship, Roche said. It could come into play, for exhmple, when a Gay couple with jointly owned assets separates. The registry stirred relatively little opposition in Ashland, where it was approvea by a 4-1 vote of the City Council, Roche said. Nationally, registries have spurred voter initiatives and lawsuits. Courts validated Atlanta’s registry but overturned a registry in Minneapolis, according to the Lmnbda Legal Defense and Education Fund. The registries can be designed !o ~PP!~ ~ both Gays and t~f~rosextml~i~,as Seattle s i~,i[~i~ ~bepurely ;~.~ml~6iic o{’~iV~ sp~i~...d tl~e-~ ’~ :: ~ :": " ~. -" ’ .~ i .Reform :Same-Gender Rituals NEW YORK (AP).=-Two years after they postponed a contentious showdown over same-sex blessing rituals, the rabbis ofJudaism"S liberal Reform branch will face a decision on the issue at this year’s convention. Leaders of the 200-member Women’s Rabbinic Network have agreed to force the issue by submitting a resolution sanctioning such ceremonies to the Central Conference OfAmerican Rabbis, which holds-*its national convention, March 26-29 in Greensboro, North Carolina. The coqeaders of the women’s network, Rabbis Shira Stem and Susan-Stone, said the resolution agreed" to’recently will differ only slightly from a proposed text the same group published in January. " That text said: "The relationship of a Jewish, samegender couple is worthy ofaffirmation through appropriate Jewish ritual and. :-: .each rabbi should decide ab0ut-0l’ficiafio-n- a~,Ysfdin-g-t6 hig/her"own rabbinic conscience." The conference’s top two officials had signed a January declaration urging all American tdig~ons to normalize same-sex couples. And a conference Sexuality study committee in 1998 .. endorSed recognition rituals for such couples. The women’s net~brk cffes the sexuality i C~mtifittee’s view that Judaism’s historic opposition ¯ to homosexual behavior no longer applies. But there is division within Reform rabbinic ranks. : The conference’s "responsa comnuttee,’,whose ¯¯ rulings guide the practices of Reformrabbis, opposed thechangeinaT-2decision.Amemberoftheresponsa committee majority, .Rabbi .:Jeffrey Salkin of Port Washington,NewYork, saidReformrabbis arealready free to conduct same-sex rituals if they want. But Salkin fears that officially approving the practice would"tearrdati,onships apart" amongReformrabbis, and hurt Reform s relations ~ith otl~[r branches and its hopes-.~fot full a-cce~tance.in {g~el?-Whatevet happens, Salkin said; ~’We:are looking at something that will ha¢e massive historical iml~pr~ce." ~ "- ¯ Me,mawhile, the Episcopal’Churchig~s to release a proposal on same-same rituals within a weekortwo Conventions ofthe Presb~[6ri~m Ch~Ch (U,S.~.) an~ United Methodist Church will also deb~!le the issue this year. .:. ~- " ~ Gay Club Embraced at Catholic College United in God’s Love MCC-United Reverend Cathg.E~liot Pastor ~) Sunday Worship 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood 918/838~715 ~.~,~ ~ "7.- Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am .................. Wgd_._Bible- Study, ~7 pm 3210b S. Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. Licensed Professional & National Certified Counselor, Certified Hypnotherapist Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation After Hours Appointments Available 2865 E. Skelly DriSe, Suite 215,745-1111 Red Rock Tulsa- O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Y0hng Adult Network i~’ Outreach Prografn Thurs: Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment ~. .: Call for.mee.ting tinies ~ind place: ~ 918-584:2325 Mingo Valley Flowers II Court UpholdsPortl and Civil Rights Ordinance SALEM, Ore. (AP) - Gay rights advocates have won a round as the Oregon Court of Appeals upheld a Portland ordinance against discrimination based on sexual orientation. The court, in a 9-1 ruling reversing a lower court, said the city had the power to give citizens the right to go to state courts to enforce the anti-discrimination ordinance. Even some,of,the appealsjudges in the.majority, tho~.igtr, ~orried-@ati tl~e~c0~ ~.i,,hav~ V~iatut~d roofs, toward giving private partigs new..avenues sUeiffSeateeo.ur~s overlocaHa~sx.The rightto sue-was tthet~yi~su~-,N~bod~:oIai,m~4ltmt!hecity1aek~ ~he ~weri lx~:iid0pt~:~e-ordinanee.in~t991., that bars disNNmati~n, i~ eniployment, housing, and public accommodations.. ,S~te.taws against employment discrimination don’t include sexual orientation. The city ordinance also outlaws discrimination based on sources of income, which is aimed at protecting welfare recipients. "This is a great day for civil rights in Oregon,P said PortlandMayor Vera¯ Katz..Port.land ~.s once.agatn a leaderin efforts to protecttherights ofall our citizens." The case decided involved employment. A MultuomahCounty temporaryjudge, MonteBricker, ~n .1.997 ruled against David Sims, who claimed he was fired as a cook at Besaw’s Cafe in .Portland because he is Gay. Owners of the business denied the accusations and have not made a decision-on whether to appeal to the oregon Supreme Court. Bricker said the city couldn’t givepeopleapathway to state courts to seek enforcement of rights under a local law. But the appeals court said the city didn’t exceedits authority, giving Sims the chance to continue ............with hislav~sttitin_which he.~6"nght either damages or Basic Rights Oregon, a leading Gay civil rights advocacy organization, also praised the decision. "We’re very pleased to hear that the court has upheld employees’ access to fight discrimination at the state courtle el, : stud spokeswoman Maura Roche. More than one appealsjudge hadmixed feelingson thecase, which had been before the~cottrt since fall of 1998. Only Judge Walter Edmonds Jr. dissented entirely. But four others, including Chief Judge Mary Deits, said while they agreed with the outcome, the court went further than necessary. The decision "sweeps too broadly" in deciding that cities can broaden the "duties and liabilities of private parties," Judge Virginia Linder wrote in a separate concurring opinion. Edmonds said the decision violated the concept of state sovereignty over local governments. Oregon City/Count,y May Try-Partners R gistry RTL N , Or . eit: of t’ortland and Multnomah County are ~nsiderir~ theadopdon of a domesdcpartuefship registry as away~’prGay couples t6 Officially iog thdr ~;~i~onships, A jOint ~registry wotfld be ihe second ,~.::~gon ,ag_.d~ong three dozen nationwide. In Oc~be~AsKihhd approved a registry for s/tree-sex couples 18:or older. So did California. Seattle has had one since 1994. And New Orleans, Boston, New York and Iowa City, Iowa also have them. The registries stop far short of conferring marriage s-tatus- on- Gay -couples= "~Bul~, it’s~ ,still-. an acknowledgment of. a relationship that two people who are committed to one another have," said Maura Roche, spokeswoman for Basic Rights Oregon. "And it’~ s away~to aeknoWiedge i-t in:a pt~bli~.forum~ which hopefally Wi~,leadito. ~g~puh!ie: understanding ¯~at~drmi~icaneedi:BotmJ~T~] cxec~ti:ve director Of She.-said the~Ialks are;.~.~st~p)i’~-thffright direction becaus,e a registry represent§ a chatNejn family. That s oae o~ the mNn..eoiicerns of Lou Bores exec~utive ~r...e.rgtor ~:;ffae:C~eg0ii chapter of the :.~)::: :~ais in Po~ilanO;and the na~9~’~, heL~aid:Beres added that he would try to organize h:pmtegt~a~ainst Katz and Naito if registries were e~(tended io homosexual PORTLAND, Maine (AP) - When Dan Neuville started classes as a freshman at Saint Joseph’s College in Standish last year~ the Gay man felt very lonely. Considering the church’s stance on homosexuality, Neuville wasn’t suq:rrised that there was no Lesbian- ¯ Gay studentorganizationlike.~ose at-secular colleges. "Tl~ere was-novd~ere form~to go.on,campus," Neuville said........... Now Newzille has creati~d ~dmewhere to go.,~qaough Catholic ze~cNag bars ~homosex~mt¢ from tam’Gage and sexual activity, &e State’[ only Roman Cail~olic college has:f0~-med a stude~tdub where heterosexual and homosesua! smdcms The Gay/St~ight stat~ff "as s~uden~ dozen Jennifer B@iiton;pres~d~nt~of: the student.senate; 9413 K 31st St., Tulsa 74145 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-444-5934 Family Owned& Operated - - - - -- ~" ~- --7--- - - - 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor Tulsa Gay Commtmity Sen,ices Center 743-GAYS (743-4297) 6=~pm, Sunday - Friday.. "12-9~m, Saturday; all sales.benefit’the Center/~-.i. Local - --KEVIN BURLESON Keller ~Willgams Rea!ty 712-2252 Burleson@kw.com 2651 East 21st Street, Ste. 100, Tulsa 74114 An Independent Member Broker OPENARMS,OPENMINDS-,OPENHEAKq’S Saint Aidan ,<. .Saint Dunstan 4045 N. Cincinnali,i~7882 .ii~~East 71st 492~7140 Saint John :......Td~ty - " 4200 S. Atlanta Pla~.~/42-7381 .,501: $.: Cincinnati, 582-4128 Welcomes You. said the ~cp.llege’s administrators, staff and students have received the new group well. "On our campus, iwe’re open to all issues, and as students we’re encouraged to discuss issues in society. Gay issues are one of those," she said. Thealliancehasmoreheterosexual than homosexual members and is not intended to compel anyone to endorse homosexuality, Neuville said. "We’re not a .. ~ mili~antgroup. We’renotprotesting,pickefn,g, saying, "Damn it, we want you to accept us,"" he said. club Gay on .to talk andleam tissues andbias against l to make Of troths .Saint Straight For the problematic sexual ¯ whether homosexuality is a choice or biological is ." irrelevant. "Gay and Lesbian people are not treated ." equally in many respects,’" sa~d Jane Marquardt, an ¯ attorney who donated to the Shepard scholarship ." fund. The scholarship is meant "to help a particular ." Gay student develop leadership skills, than people ¯ can realize Gay people are no different than anyone ." else," Marquardt said. :: Gay Student Sues School RENO. Nev._ (AP) - A former Washoe County high i School studentclaimsWashoeCounty school officials : failed t0 stopverbal andphysica!harassmentinflicted i-liy classmates becaus~ h~,is.Gay... In afederal lawsuit :. fded recendy, Derek Henkle ailcges school officials 1 : denied him~i:~te~:~.~.elofhls sexual .. ofientation:~d ,d~died,’:.~ fr~:, ~li:rigllts by; ’: allegedly urging him tohide being ~ay. Tl~_e suit als0~ .. maizes claimsofnegfigenceandinfliclionofemolional. ¯" distress. " ’" ...... :’=. ..... : I-Ienkle:~suit is .being h~ndled.~by me:Lamb~a : Legal Defense and Eduction Fund, a New York- ¯ : : based Gay rights.o~ganiza~on, it seeks unspecified t .::damages, Namedas defendan.ts are prindpals;a vice : prin~pal, a.teache~, and ~pus poSce officers. : School district offi~:ials had no iimnediate comment. ¯ "we haven’t been served with anythin$ yet and unSl " wedo,obvionsly we~m’tcommenton thespedfi~," district Spokesman~Steve Mulvenon said. Jon ,a~Gay .~"It’s not a conditiOn who is But the Catholics, : shouidbe~ Catholic ,Derek thandled I and at:the-hands .of said. call: :.Henkle clearly what :the stated -.Gay Scho|ershi including students ~and faculty at University have raised more than $50 ~e. Matthew Shepard Scholarship enaowment wil!.pro~ide $2,000 a year Bisexual ortransg~ grade point average,.= "I think it makes":us a, Hinds,. a Weber: State staff member who : a highway~ " administrators ~ At Washoe ! relatedlY : students to said his complaints to lot while two campus Davidson said the p_ri’ncipal pcople hewas Gay. students who tell Lesbians and Gay closet," Davidson said. ¯Gay Pride to. Happen pite vatican --~, Wyo., ROME (AP) - A Gay Pride week that comes smack .: college studentwho was Severely pistol ’ i iirnktehdetmheidVdalteicoafnt,hbeuRt Roommane,CsmatahyoolircinHsoislytedYtehaarththaes. left to die. The - ¯ " laws across the nation. : ."_.-i .Scho!arshiplapplieants must be a sophQ~ or :: aelvoenngtwwiiltlhbethalelo.Gw,,ae~ydptoritdaekeepvleancte,."bYutoiutmwioguhltdnobtegoa : higher level, t~king 12 credit hours per s~es~er. A : mistake to ban it, Mayor Francesco Rutelli said. 500 to 750 word essay, the World Pride Roma 2000 is expected to bring needs, academicperformance .: hundredsofthonsandsofGaysandLeshianstoRome with or service to the pay, Lesbian, Organizers are working to finalize scholarship endowment with the there are no applications. "There are sexnal m~inorifies.Andthis is "there’s a scliolarship here,"’ said President But said Weber State student Niki with culture ¯ at the same fire,the eityis overflowing with religions : pilgrims eomingto th~Jubileemillenniumcelebrations : calledby PopeJ0hnPaul II."Romehas amillenninm- : old code of welcome~.and respect that won’t change in ¯ 2000." RutelEtold a city council meeting on Holy : Year issues:,~:The. ~Vatican, which condemns : homosexual acts but.not homosexuality itself, had no official comment ~the July 1-9 event. Vatican Officials denied~.~.~ that the Holy See had tried to ÷:: cgoent diitticoanncoelfe~a.-,.n~iio;~[n~,~~ti_.,thae lsooffaiccikanlso,wwlehdogeSdptohkaet tohne Vafica was irritate, by the fact that the gathering t~mes ~:J~ee yeax. seeNews,p. 10 rZ Better.Drugs i Oral Sex Not As Equal Fewer Pills i Safe As Thought SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Powerful new ¯ AIDS drugs in development should help relieve one of the biggest problems of treatment - the pill burden. Over the past four years, new treatment combinations have revolutionized AIDS care, changing HIV infection from a death sentence to a disease that is treatable, if not curable. However,patientsmustadhereto atedious and exacting sehedule of downing pills, .often more than 20 a day. Now, drugmakers are working on new drugs that require m~ch smaller doses as wall as better versions of the old standbys that can be taken less frequently. Experts say that if all goes well, overthe next two or so years it may be possible to reduce the .pill burden to just four tablets taken once a day. "Most drugs are dosed twice or three times a day for a reason. Once a day is not enough. The Holy Grail would be to take all your medicines once aday with as few capsules as possible. We are not so far from that, maybe in the next couple of years," said Dr. Eugene Sun, head of antiviral drug research at Abbott Laboratories. About half of all patients who initially respond to treatment eventually find their virus levels rebounding, and the most common reason for this is failure to stick to apill schedule. Thepill-taking schedule is more than just a nuisance. 71~ose who miss even a few doses risk losing control overtheir virus. Withoutenoughmedicine in the bloodstream, HIV comes roaring back, often generating mutant versions that are resistant to the drugs. Akeyingredient of mostdrug regimens is a class of medicines called protease inhibitors. They are often combined with two or three older kinds of drugs, such as ddI and AZT. At last month’s 7th Conference on Retroviruses andOpportunistic Infections in SanFrancisco, doctors describedresults of testing with new varieties of prot.ease inhihibors. Some of these medicines are 10 times more powerful than the ones that transformed AIDS treatment. Protease inhibitors are by far the biggest lump in the pill burden. Typically patients must take three of them three times a day - a total of nine pills -often on an empty stomach. In the works areproteaseinhibitors that doctors hope will need to be taken twice or even just once a day. One of these is Bristol-Myers Squibb’s drugcode-named BMS-232632. In preliminary testing directed by Sanne, it appears that one or two ofthese pills once aday is as effective at suppressing HIV as the standard dose of nelfinavir, an older protease inhibitor. Abbottpresentedpromising results with its experimental protease inhibitor ABT- 378, showing it Seems to work against strains of virus that are already resistant to SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Many Gay men consider oral sex a safer alternative to intercourse, but a new study finds it carries a real risk of spreading AIDS. Even without condoms, oral sex is widelyregardedtobe safe sex, eventhough : health agencies have never officially : conceded that. A new study conducted in i San Francisco shows that frequent unprotected oral sex can also be risky, ." though certainly not as much as anal sex. : "The message is not that everyone will ¯ get infected through oral sex," said Dr. -" FrederickHechtofSanFrancisco General ." Hospital, a coauthor of the study. In fact, ¯ analintercoursecouldbe 100timesriskier. ¯ Because of declines in unprotected anal : intercourse, therehas beenabigreduction ." in high-risk exposure, I-Iecht said. But ~ -~._~ere is still plenty of low-risk exposure ¯ tl~ough oral sex without condoms, "and ." that low risk adds up." His study found : that oral sex was probably the cause of8% ¯¯ of recent HIV infections among a group of homosexual men examined in S~m ~ Francisco. ¯ In the past, there have been occasional ¯ reports ofpeopleapparently catching HIV orally. But health investigators have had ¯ difficulty being certain, since Gay men ¯ who have do oral sex also may engage in ¯ ¯ other, riskier sex practices, such as anal intercourse. ¯ Now diagnostic tests allow doctors to ¯ narrow downthe timing ofHIV infections. ¯ They were used in the latest study, ." described as the most definitive on the subject to date. The work, conducted with ¯ the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and ¯ Prevention, was presented in San ¯ Francisco at the 7th Conference on ¯ Retrovirases and Opporttmistic Infectious. ¯ "’Wlfile oral sex may still be safer than ." anal intercourse or vaginal intercourse, it ¯ is not without risk and perhaps has higher ¯ risk than we would have expected ¯ otherwise," said Dr. Helene Gayle, the CDC’s AIDS chief. " The researchers sought to learn the ¯ meaus ofinfectionin 102 GayandBisexual ¯ men who had recently caught HIV. When ¯ all other possible means of infection were ¯ ruled out, oral sex turnedout to be the only ¯ risk behavior in eight of these men. Most 0 said they thought- oral sex had little or no ° risk. ° Because o~ the strict criteria used, the : real number of cases resulting from oral ° sex may actually have been higher. For ° instance, two men said they had oral sex -" but not anal sex. But they also said they o had blacked out once and could not be ° sure what had happened, so they were ¯ excluded from the total. . All of the men apparently caught the ¯ virus by giving oral sex, rather than receiving it, and none used condoms. ¯ "We know that the only safe sex is total other drugs. The drug will be combined 0 abstinence or sex with a mutually smaller doses~ wel!..... ~ ~ .~’ Ufie~p~.cteff~ide et~l~b.cts can quickly derail deq~loptuent of these drugs -MerCk Research Laboratories was scheduled to presentresultS ofits new protease inhibitor at the meeting. But two weeks ago, it suspended human testing of the drug after rat experiments turnedup possible kidney damage. Themedicine, called MK-944A, is acombination ofanew protease inhibitor and an older one, called indinavir, into a single pill that would be taken once or Timothy W. 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Electronic filing is ~yailable for faster refunds. 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 Are You-Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Mona _ / ~\~"~ Support Group is here for. you! .~i=-J.~Y LX~ ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project at 582-7225 Ext. 208 or 218, giving up anal intercourse. "A lot of us in the public health field havebeen saying all along to be careful of ~akrottehceteridskfieslllaotwio,,"buhtewshaaitd.s l"oPwe?o"ple AIDS Virus First Emerged in 1930 SANFRANCISCO (AP)-Theworldwide AIDS pandemic has beentraced to asingle viral ancestor who emerged perhaps around 1930. Earlier research had ¯ suggested that the ol~tbreak began in the ¯ first half of the 20th century, but the latest : analysis, doneat the Los Alamos National ." Lab in New Mexico, appears to be the ¯ most definitive so far. -" Bette Korber, who keeps a’database of HIV genetic, information at the lab, calculatedHIV’s family treebylooking at the rate the virus mutates over time. She assumed these genetic changes happen at a constant rate and used a supercomputer to clock the mutations back through time tO a common ancestor. Korber estimates that the current pandemic goes back to one or a small group of infected humans around 1930, though this ancestor virus could have emerged as early-as 1910 or as late as 1950. From this single source, she suggests, came the virus that now infects roughly 40 million people all over the .world. ’This offers a small piece in a larger puzzle concermng the origins of HIV," she said. Experts believe that HIV’s ancestor is a virus that ordinarily infects chimpanzees. Somehow it spread to people - .perhaps thirough abite or hunting mishap -~n west equatorial Africa. Justwhenthis happened, though, is .still a mystery, Korber Said. The leap from chimp to man could have beenaround 1930. Oritmayhaveoccurred much earlier and the virus stayed within a small group of humans. Theworkchallenges atheory thatAIDs actually began in the 1950s, when HIV was accidentally mixed with the polio vaccine. In last year’s book ’¢Fhe River," Edward Hopper theorizes that HIV contaminated batches of the vaccine that were grown in chimp dssue. This then spread when the vaccine was tested in the Belgian Congo. Korber said this is highly unlikely, since it would require the introduction of at least 10 genetically separate strains ofthe virus into the vaccine from different chimps. Dr. Steven Wolinsky of Northwestern University called Korber’s project "a computational tour de force." Korber based her work on the genetic codes of 160 different copies of the AIDS virus. She analyzed them on a Los Alamos supercomputer, called Nirvana, that can perform l trillion computations per second. The earliest existing sample of HIV was found in a blood specimen obtained in Leopoldville - now Kinshasa - in 1959. Virus Testing Helps AIDS Treatments SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - Doctors say they can improve the chance of successfully treating AIDS by measuring how each patient’s virus stands up to the drugs intended to kill HIV. Through evolution, HIV can grow resistant to any of the standard AIDS drugs, andoftenitis invulnerable to several at once. The specific combination of viral resistance varies from patient to patient. In theory, doctors can brew up the most potent AIDS drug cocktails for their patients if they know the strengths and vulnerabilities of the viruses they carry. In the past, doctors have attempted to dothisbychecking the virus forthegenefc mutations that make it impervious to various drugs. However, complex mixes of mutations are sometimes hard to translate into drug treatment plans.’ In a new approach called phenotypic resistance tesdng, doctors can check the virus against all of the standard drugs to see which ones can kill it, then .use~the results to tailor their strategy. "With this information, you can make better decisions," said Dr. Calvin Cohen. Understanding virus resistance is especiallyimportantwhenputting together new drug combinations after the initial drug cocktail fails to wipe out all visible signs of the virus. Doctors have 15 AIDS drugs to pick from, and the choice often amounts to an educated guess. Cohen and colleagues studied phenotypic testing at the Community Research Initiative of New England, an independent AIDS research organization in Brookline, Mass. He described the results Monday, in San Francisco at the 7th Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections. . The test was developed by Virco N.M., a European biotechnology company that financed the study with Glaxo Wellcome Inc., the pharmaceutical company. Doctors say anadvantage ofp,henotypic testing is the simplicity of ~lle results. "The person’s virus is grown in a culture and then ,put into a test tube with each antiviral drug," Cohen said. "We monitor to seehow wellitgrows. Ifitstops growing, .that drug works. It’s that simple." The new test costs $800 per patient. Screening the geneticmutations inHIV to figure outdrug resistance has beenaround longer and cOsts about $400 to $500 per patient. Doctors say that trying to understand how well drugs will work by analyzing viral genes can be daunting when the virus is resistant to several drugs. Sometimes resistance to one pill can help the virus withstand another, even though it does not specifically have resistance to that medicine. "Phenotypic resistance testing will be attractive because it is so mucheasier to interpret," said Dr. Douglas D. Richmanofthe University ofCalifornia at San Diego. To check the test’s value, Cohen’s team studied 274 patients who had failed to respond to an initial round ofAIDS drugs. Half were randomly assigned to receive phenotypic testing, while the rest got standard care without testing. After 16 weeks, 58% of the patients getting phenotypic-testing had responded so well to their new combination of drugs that the virus hadfallentoolow tomeasure. By comparison, 37% of those without testing did this wall. "Until this study, all of this was reasonable but unproven," Cohen said. "Now we can prove it." ~:~":Wa~ to get involved? Need to.get tested for HI~ or a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743-GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor ~ J. Christjohn Happy Imbolc, Groundhog’s Time for initsfirstt for some~ the ,~cultural list of events and. relevance. ~ At thispoint, I or film and, : On with the ." good month for staying in and riding out ¯ winter storms. Orgiving into spring fever y ." when possible. when ¯ Now for those thirty-somethings that : recall growing up to the sounds of the Partridge Family. with "As you may fondness, David ~sidy hasaCDoutentitled:"Old notice, I’ve’-~: Dog, .Ne~ T~ck." S~inging ~no is so. it’s ok, is else, an and the Of -interest ,dosed music v URL: it 13th. 18th pretty of the~ show that fisten on tS~ Partrid childhood favorites in col~. Back to.the present.. VALENTINE’S DAYis 9oming!~Gift idea?i,.The ever handso.m~,<~piani~t’.:Jim Bric~provide~ lovely~usic p~ect for,~elight dinners, an~ohn T,rones croo~,the perfect ballads t6~t]hem0od for ..~gh romance on [h~ir-~CDs, restively. ThelIX~rfect m~ic.to ~t the moodfor a romanticev~.... Ok,themomentyou :reall-~n atting for. TheStevie Nicks mentioa.She’s back ¯" in the Studio working onthe~W CDafter ". the performing break i~’Vegas and i Cafifomia. SherylCrow isagamproducing - no mention of what happened to Mr. ." Hip-Hop producer. Thank G~oddess! , m,~chers ¯ wereGay or straight, what mattered was i the sl~ed.belief of those ~ching that day. ~dnow those Right to’Life March org~fi have Somethingto. think h!~out ¯ for n~t ye,ar, : o~~. . .::~. .Ch~,..’.rman-oMfPicLhAaGelAFLeP~A¢.nCs : : -~lie ~4~li~al Action Committ~for ~.- i~: " .~.=~Lffe Lesbians and~ays . . :.::~. Long b~fom multi:million-dollar book deals were the fashion~Alexandre Dumas’ son (yes, the "The Three Musketeers" author) converted his tonidLtomedqerminal love affair into a best sel~.~lhe~, composer Guisep.,pe Ve~: ~dpted. ~8r story for o~ra (hello, ka Travi~), Toda~ choreoorapher Val Canipamli flni~edthe job of turning. "La Traviata" into dance. Usino drama,. not melodrama. For understatement underscored. A full-lenoth Iovestory. FRIDAY 8 PI~:EBRUARY 11 SATURDAY 8 PMFI:RRUARY1~ SUNDAY 3 PMFEDRUARY 1~ SEASO~ SPON~: Irish Dance Company -The-original and the best.t Chapman Music Hall 3rd & Cincinnati.... ¯. Tickets: $12, 16 & 20 Call:-596-7111 Order on line: www~,tulsapac.com Tulsa Performing ~rfs Center Trust World Treasures S~ason: Celtic Gems. ¯-Si~0ns~rs: O.klah~ma Arts ~:.:ur~i~,..Urban T.u!sa JOIN US FOR A SPECIAL EVENIN~ ON THE SET OFMANON WINE AND HORS D’OEUVRES. ENTERT]~INMENT ...... ooooo o~60~oo o oo oo~.~_O~O oo~o o o o oo out o-o’o o~ooo o FRIDAY, MARCH 3, 5:30 - 8:00 PM ON THE STAGE OF THE .......~UtLSA PERFORMING ARTS CENTER $35 PER PERSON $75 PARTY AND :. ~ SUNDAYS ~Ble~qs the Lord At All Times Christian Center, Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 5837815 Community of Hope (Welcoming), Service - 6pm, 2545 S. Yale, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation S~rvice - i 1am, 2~5~.~5 &Yale, 749-05~ (WeicQ~ing) - : " " Church of theRestoration Unitarian Universaiist ropo ommumty C House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 10:45am, 3210b So. Norwood Parish Church of St. Jerome (Evangelical Anglican Church in America) Mass - 1 lain, 205 W. King (east of N. Denver), Info: 582-3088 Unity Church of Christianity ServiceS: 9:15 & 11:00 am, 3355 S. Jamestown, 749-8833 University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance ~6:30 pm, Meets at the United Minis,try Cir., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 I~" MONDAYS lilY Testing Clinic, Fr~ & anonTmous testing. No appoinl~¢n[ r~zluired. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm, 834-TEST (8378) 3501 E. Admiral (~st o~ Hazard) HIV Rap Sessions at Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Ceater 7:30pro, 220"7 E. 6th, 583-78t5 PFLAG, Parents., Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mo~/~ach too. 6:30pro,Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Women/Children & AB)S Committee, call ~or meeting date, aoon, 585-5551 Council Oak Meu’s Chorale, rehearsals - ca]! for times, imfo: 748-3888. ~ TUESDAYS AIDS Coalition of Tulsa, call, ~or ne×t.m~ting date. 1430 S. BouJder, 585-5551 ~!~e=~d Let Liye, CommlmitT o~ ~0pe ~nitedMethodist, 7:~, 2,~5 S. ~ale IYlultieultural ~I])S Coalitiou, call for ne×t m~ting date. ~rban L~ague, 240 E~st Apache, 584;0001 PrimeTimers, meus group, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th Coming Out Support Group (TOHR/IIOPE) Tuesdays, 6 pro, Pride Genter, 1307 E: 38th, irffo: 743-4297 I~" WEDNESDAYS Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 House of the Holy Spirit Ministries, Inc. Service - 7pm, 3210b~o. Norwood Tulsa-Native American Mens Support Group, more informatidJL. ~call 582-7225 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call fo_r..info: 595-7632. Lambda A-A, 7 pro, 1307 E. 38th, 2nd ft. - -. ...... I~’THURSDAYS , H~PE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Edu~(ion "~:;~)~": _ Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing:,~ ~ 8:313pm 834-83.-7~ 3507’E. Ad~niral " ~ O~lahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’.RYAN) " - Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health a~ 584-2325 .... Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS, [nfo: 834-4194 I~" FRIDAYS Safe Haven,~iotm~AduJts Sc;ci~d Group, l st Eft/each ~no. 8pro, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th ~" SATURDAYS out-of their h0mes~ ! can’t i~..gin~e throwing my Child out of;the hbu~e: ; TheS~~mby Holloway, ~as ¯S~tan,wh0:cam¢.~s’s am~’Who ’ had been r6b~andiron on the road. In the story, the priest, afraid of being deemed unclean, passes by. But the Samaritan stoppedtocarefortheunknown mall. "The point of the parable is that good refiglon, following, traditions in these Scotland, dozeus of prints, and Spong’s -" anti-discrimination policies, to. include second:wife; ChriSti~i~. ’When In~arried ," specifically :sexual- orienta’tion::~ Why?: Jack, I knew. what was ahead," said Christ.i.ne.,.w.,h..o..m..a..m..e.A. Spong. m..19.9.0......nc.e.xl.ed. Kelleher wrote ’Perha " was ’When ~ou:-~up. (forGays)~,you~r¢~ =/Wrong going to ge~:hit. ?You cannot know Gay ." _ think so, at least with restart to theVast imd Lesbian people without wanting to .. maioriW of oar nconle." kelleher addrd hugthcm.Someofthcmhavebeenthr~wn ." he was modifying the pohcy to include ¯.. o~rsmagnex;iewthyatmcivgehrtuhncaevretaeixnits~t,e-dam-boingutihtiys ." score." _" ’WVhat happened at. Southwdst is an ¯ example -" well-mcnningexecutives simplyto donor _" give sexual orientation issues in the workplace the consideration they deserve, stud Kim I. Mills, HRC s ." education director. "We applaud ." Southwest Airlines for taking this_stcp developed systems, can now get in the toward creating an inclusive work .,w.a.y. ofus g~tting t,o~:~ saidI~oll0way..~ environmont~ for ih~ OayandLesbian e~. of us arc, w_all~g on the road to i amployees., While Southwest has added Jericho,andwem~tIookf~Himbecause along the s~d¢ of the road...... .’. offer dom=sticParm~r~:healthbenefits. priestandmothcr,stoodnexttoSpongas policies and e~pects a sign language interpreter. "He will be :: announc=ment nO later the,, June. " sord~ missed,." saidDeats, whowas first ,." _ _ " ............. ago.~Imayn0tagreewithevcrythingh¢ ! [~]l=-Ie.ll -....- I says; but I truly minfi..~’re and respect him . . for stan,.d~n.gup,f0r~hat he believ~ in." ._. vice president orlon"di.ng, andI_~s Rector, Deats said she believed in more ." president, neither of.whom had returned traditional routines of-prayer. "It can be ¯ calls by press time. Dr. Jerry. Carr611, boring, I know. And I’m not saying the -" chairperson of the TTCU board of bisho~ does.n’t pray, bu~ I believe ~-nore ." directors,andpr0vostatOSU-Oldahoma .stronglyin themystical practices ofprayer in the ~hurch," said De~ts. Croneberger was rector of the Church of the Atonement in Tenafiy for i8 years, and a priest for more thsn 34 years. Croneberger~60,was oneofsix candidates - all ofwhomfavor ordaining noncelibate Gays and blessing same-sex unions - in a field that included the Rev. Canon Gene RobinsonofNewHampshire,whomissed becoming the first openly Gay Episcopal bishop in the nation by several votes. Asfor Spong, he willlecture at Harvard University starting next month, buthas no plans to move from Morris County. His latest book, "Here I Stand," was published this year. Spong, father of three daughters, said he found talking to students a great pleasure, Last week, Spong lectured at Lewis & Clark University in Portland, Ore.- "I love the minds of 18- to 23-yearolds," Spong said. "Nothing is sacred and they asked all kinds of questions." There were no,,questions asked here duringthe service, buttherewas amomen! of fear when the Rev. Dana Rose slipped off the back of the riser as Spong and others wereblessing breadandwine. Rose was helped to his feeti and Spong quickly gave him the sign of the cross. Rose, a Gay priest who’s also black, was ordainedfirstas adeaconby Spongin May 1998. "People say, ’You’re a priest and you’re GayT" said l~ose, who works for the Gay and Lesbian ministry in the diocesez "Now, there are ;many, priests who are Gay, but black? I believe in inclusion of all people, like me, into .the church, just like the bishop." City, did callback andsaid he thought theremustbe"amajormisunderstanding" and that the "professional loan officers would not do that [make inquiri~,into. loan applica=s sex~.orientation]~. .- as saying that the Vatican "expects from the premier a gesture ofcommon sense," anapparentcallforthe Italiangovernment to intervene to cancel the Gay event. Sodano also was quoted as saying the controversy "puts into question" the concordat, adocumentregulalingrelafions . between Rome and the Vatican that was first signed in 1929 and was revised in the 1980s. A pro-Vatican member of parliament, Mario Baccini, called the mayor’s decision’a "moral and material slap" in the face of the Holy See. Vatican officials said theHoly See was displeased by the city’s cooperation with the organizers, including allocation of $180,000 to cover municipal costs like security. Rutdli has been a big Jubilee booster, shepherding the city through major constructionprojects-includingaVatican garage-to spruce itupforan estimated30 million pilgrims. Gays have criticized the pope’s teachings on homosexuality, but Italian Gay leaders denied any disrespect is intended by holding World Pride during theJubilee. "It’s not an anti-Jubilee event nor an event against the pope," said Francesco Falsetta, an official oftheMario Mieli Homosexual Cultural Association, one of the organizing groups. World Pride’s main event will be a July 8 march through the city. Organizers say it will also feature conferences, sporting events and parties.. Massage Therapy Services ¯ Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women DavidKauskey 33i0 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm -~Spri~t. 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" ;-y0ufeelgt~fig~ed:t.0makeit’diff~emtrom ¯Bu~aoindividualwinsanelection;alone i ~ theCivil m~a~e’ 6flexed to ~ght If!we don’t engage oth~r humanb~ings, ; VermonterS?" ~ " ¯ ~. we remain tempting targets to-the :bullies : Hanagan said :he believes there’s an ontheright:IfwewanttoendGay-baiting " analogy to be drawn from the experience in public life, we have ~o use what we know: the power of one h,man being talkln£ to another human berg about what matters. We need to be outward bound, despite the discomfort. Because, in elections, the greatest thing wehave to fearis fearitself. Hanagan can see diagonally across-State Street to the Statehouse, where the Vermont Legislature this year is crafting a response to ahistofic decision from the .stat~-~ i :~Supreme " ~ i ,:.~.Court. That decision said i~"~iola~d the VermontConstitution todeny~tted Gay-and Lesbian couples the~i~health of other benefits heterosexuaV~ed couples take for granted. .=.!i!:."ii( Hanagan, 49, is in his fourthi~year term as ~mditor and long has beea.,kn~_w,.n_ to harbor loftier potitical ambiO~,He s ~md~,ttaking 0ae long-expected:~i~tfo_r higher office this year, and has.raised morethan$400,000" alotforachallenger inVermont- so farinhis campaignfor the Democratic U.S.. Senate nomination. He’s been able to raise money around the country from supporters of Gay men and Lesbians, but even more so from former Harvard Law School classmates who have found themselves in lucrative careers and can afford to be generous. Flanagan took a risk five years ago when he acknowledged for the first time publicly that he was Gay, and he’s taking arisk now in being such a strong advocate for same-sex marriage. "I assume any professional political consultant would advise against it," he said. "But some issues are so compelling and so pure that political considerations becometrivialand inappropriate. This is at the core of my beliefs. I’mnot going to equivocate in the slightest and I hope Vermonters will respectmycommitmentto prmcipl,,e, even if they may not thoroughly agree. More often than the campaign trail, Flanagan is drawn these days to the Statehouse, because he senses history in the making, because he relishes and is fascinated by legislative deliberation and because he knows that, for many lawmakers, he can put ahumanface on an abstract set of issues. As he’s walked the Statehousehalls lately, Flanagan sm.’dhe’ s noticed "people tend to move ~n my direction more often than normal. I’m a person they know and most often like quite a bi~ and relate to. I’m real. I have a real personality that they’re familiar with, so there isn’t that fear component of something foreign. "I don’t think often people are as homophobic as they think they should "For me, some time tc mamage stress come when many Gays and’ Lesbians had coming to grips with themselves 20 or 30 years ago, to the straggle many straight people are having now When thinking about somethinglike same-’sexmarriage. "When you foste~ real bigotry againast iso.mdeonoef he said. "That’s-the of bigotry.. It weighs years, but and "one’s private life will be put back into its private place." Flanagan, who said he has "a great capacity tolove," also offered a glimpse into whatapersonal heavenonearthmight look like. "I would love to be a dad. I’ve always cherished the idea of being a dad and I think I would be a good dad?’ Locally, members ofMCCUnited have created a chapter of Soul Force and at least one member joined White and 200 other Gay and Lesbian (or friendly) Christians in a meeting with FalWell. Elliott has as a personal goal, the development of the Community of the church, not the building or the number of members as much as the network of support for the members - much like the model of the earliest Christian communities. However, Elliott and other congregational leaders do discuss the possibilities of physical change for the group. Acknowledging the s~ ,newhat isolated location of the church build~ z (off major streets in a ver) q~ neighborhOod)~, they consider that t tufty-sell this building and find a more visible .and central location. But Elliott emphasizesthat these things are ouly just possibilities and are not anything which will happen soon. The spiritual life comes first and the rest will follow as the Spirit calls MCC-United to be. For more information about the Metropolitan Community Church United or about the Soul Force efforts, call 838- !715. 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Mel White to Begin Week’s Events Bomber of London Gay Pub Pleads Guilty LONDON (AP) - A man accused of setting off~in~bs apparently targetedatracial minorities andGays pleaded " guilty to three counts of manslaughter late in February " and admitted causing three explosions that injured more than a hundred people. David Copeland, 23, admitted " planting the bomb that killed three people on April 30,- " at the Admiral Duncan, a Gay pub in central London. " Prosecutors did not immediately accept the ¯ manslaughter pleas, and a further hearing was set for " sometime in March. Copeland also admitted ¯ responsibility for explosions .on April 17 in Brixton, a : south London neighborhood with a large black ¯ population; and April 24in Brick Lane, an east London " neighborhood with a large Banglades.~ population. " NY State’s 1st Gay Mayor " PLATTSBURGH, N.Y. (AP)-. Dan Stewart, New York’s first openly Gay mayor, is intimately acquainted ." with Gay-bashing bigots..AYter all he used to beone.." "When I was in high school, two boys went to court over . the right to go to the prom together," Stewart said. "I ¯ spoke out loudly against them on TV, on the steps of the Rhode Island Supreme Court. I made a mockery of them - because I knew who I was, and I was scared ~to. death people would find me out." ¯ Two decades later, Stewart has no such fears. He was " open about his homosexuality when he ran for mayor of ¯ this lakeside city near the Canadian border last fall. "I told the people,’I am what ! am- Take me or leaveme,"’ : Stewart said."Itold them, ’Ifyouchooseto takeme, I’m " going to do one hell of a job for you. But if you choose ¯ not tO take me because I’m Gay, I understand. I used to : be prejudiced too." : Asittumedout, his sexualitywasn’tanissue. Perhaps ¯ it would have been, had hebronght a male partner to a : political event during his,six years on the City Council. ¯ But Stewart keeps his personal life out of the public eye : ~- mostly 60 miles away in Montreal, where his partner ¯ lives. It also helped that his opponent, the five-term " Democratieincumbent, was knOWn for supporting Gay ." and Lesbian issues such as nondiscrimination statutes, ¯ and had long enjoyed the endorsement of Gay lobby ." groups. "The.race was on community issues," Stewart " said. "My opponent never used the words ’sexual ¯ orientation. ’" ¯ Buoyed by endorsements from Republican Gov. ¯ George Pataki and the city police union, the former Air ° Force sergeant and long-haul trucker won by a narrow ¯ margin, becoming one of five openly Gay city mayors ¯ in the country. " In some ways, Stewart has taken more heat for being " GOP than for being Gay. The Empire State Pride : Agenda didn’t endorse him until the llth hour - and then, he insisted that part of the Gay lobby group’s " $1,000 campaign donation go to the Republican Party. : "I always get thesame thing (from Gays) wherever I go: How canyon be Gay and be a Repubhcan. What as wrong with you?Are you insane?,’"- said Stewart, a tall, " dapper man with an enthusiastic manner and a dimpled : grin. "But there’s a change going on. In exit polls over ¯ the past 10 years, consistently ~a third of people who ¯ identified themselves as Gay have said they voted " Republican." : In a recent interview in his second-floor City Hall ¯ office, see Mayor, p. 7 " TULSA - Some Gay community observers might have thought that the annual pride festival organizers would be hard pressed to top their accomplishments of 1999 with US Congressman Barney Frank, Democrat from Massachnsetts, serving as grand marshall of Tulsa’s first Gay Pride Parade. However, event organizers from Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, have, at the very least, matched the stature of last year’s speaker with US Olympic champion, Greg Louganis, to se’ive as Grand Mhrshall for the Millennium Pride Parade this June. Louganis’ appearance will cap a week of Pride events which will begin with an interfaith w orship service featuring the Reverend Dr. Mel White. White is known as an author, for his autobiography, "’Stranger at the Gate," and formerly as a ghostwriter for right wing religious leaders like Jerry Falwell. White more recently has been leading a social change organization, Soul Force, modeled on the ideas of Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mohatmas Ghandi. Like White, Louganis is also an anthor and an actor as wall as an athlete. His autobiography, "Breaking the Surface" topped the New York Times bestseller list, and as a lecturer, he has spoken about his chall~nges with a difficult childhood, his struggles in coming out and with dyslexia, his experience with domestic violence and with being HIV positive. Louganis won his first Olympic medal, a silver, at age 16 in the 1976 Games. In 1984, at age 24, he won two gold medals, one for the platform and one for the springboard - the first man in 56 years to accomplish this feat. In 1986, he again won awards the same events in the World Championships, and then in 1988, won double gold medals for diving in two consecutive Olympics. Louganis will speak at a black fie optional dinner to be held at the prestigious Summit Club on Friday, June 9th. Tickets for th,e, event are $75/person and there will be a VIP reception at $50~ person. These events will benefit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, the parent orgamzation of the Gay Community Center and Oklahoma’s oldest Lesbian and Gay non-religious organization. Organizers Greg Lougams anticipate that the parade will follow the stone route as last year, beginning at the Ga~’ Community Center.at 37th and Peoria and ending. at Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder. The parade will begin at llam. The Pride Festival will also begin at Veterans Park at 1 lain and will continue till about 7 or 8pro, finishing off the week’s events. TOI-IR organizers include Kerry Lewis as chairperson of the overall effort, "Htunanity United for Human Rights - Diversity Celebration 2000," Greg Gatewood,TOHR president and festival chair. Audra Sommers, parade chair, Lynn Moesteller, sponsor chair, Mitchell Savage, media chair, Kris Kohl, festival entertainment chair and Ned Bruha, in charge of festival booths and beverages. Other Pride events include a Soul Force workshop, led by the Rev. Mel White, to be held in the Performing Arts Center (PAC) Lower LevelTheatre on June 3, Saturday, from 2-5pro (free). That evening also at the PAC Doenges Theatre, theTOHR Follies, not seen for a number of years, will reprise, 100 Years of Broadway with tickets available through the PAC. see Pride, p. 11 : Vermont:Married or Partners? MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - Lawmakers debated last ~nonth whether to limit a proposed domestic partnership system to stonesex couples or to allow opposite-sex and blood-relative couples to qualify, also. There are some in the Legislature who believe that broadening the proposal might make it more politically palatable to a greater number of people, improving its d~ances of passing. But others argue that such a revision would diminish the central aim of the legislation being drafted by the House Judiciary Committee: providing therights and protections ofeivil marriage to Gay and Lesbian couples. As the Judiciary Committee prepares to finish its work on the bill,that debate is coming into sharper relief. Members of the committee faced the issue, along with the potential political implications. "Iunderstand that there are people who see expanding : this ... enhances the attractiveness of the legislation," said Committee Chairman Thomas Little, R-Shelburue. "’But I’m not sure we have the time to expl.ore all that stuff." "I support that in prineiple, but it’s a significant diversion from what we’ve been working on," said Rep. Steve Hintgen, P-Burlington. "q hope it doesn’t drive this to a halt." "ff you don’t do it you might drive it to a halt," said Rep. Michael Vinton, D-Colchester. In sum, that’s what the comunttee faces. In recognition of that, Little has been trying to develop a companion to the domestic partnership systemknown as reciprocal benefits, that falls short of the marriage-like benefits that would be provided to Gay and ¯ Lesbiancouples. Thereciprocal benefits,.however, might include ¯ workers’ compensation benefits that could flow to a reciprocal ¯ ¯ benefits partner, certain inheritance and real estate and other ¯ property benefits. Althouglino votes have been taken, no consensus has developed ~ in the Judiciary Committee that opposite-sex couple should be ¯ included in the domestic partnership system, which the panel has -" taken to calling "civil domestic unions." There also has not been ¯ a lot of discussion in the committee about permitting blood : relatives- such as two brothers, two sisters, a brother and a sister, or a daughter and her elderly mother - to become domestic : partnerships. ," ¯ But such expansions have been discussed down th~hall in the ¯ Ways and Means Commi ttee, the tax-writing panel that will have to review the tax implications of the bill Rep. Albert Perry, D- ¯ Richford, see Vermont, p. 5 " Gordmans recently invited diva Audra Sommers to try shopping with them again after she first received poor treatment at the Yale Ave. store. Sommers praised the Corporate and store management for their.responsiveness, Gay Men’s Chorale to ¯ Hold Spring Concert TULSA- Council Oak Men’s Chorale will present two concerts on Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8 at 8pm in the John Williams Theatre of Tulsa’s Performing Arts Center. The concerts, entitled "’Harmonic Diversity" will feature music from Broadway tunes, 5O’s & 60’s pop songs, "sea chanteys," a Welsh lullaby, and a baroque piece. The Green Country Cloggers will perform a cameo number. The Council Oak Men’s Chorale is a fellowship of Gay men dedicated to musical excellence who seek to provide a source of pride, unity and support and to present a positive image for themselves, the Gay community and to society, as a whole. 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It is a spartan, yet ¯ appropn,’,ate setting for "The Laramie Project, astirring, emotional tale, almost ¯ epicinscaleas itswirls through the details of this young gay man’s brutal death and ¯ how the residents of Laramie dealt with it. The-play, which had its world premiere ¯ in February at the Denver Theater Center, ¯ presents a cavalcade of characters ¯ portrayedby eight actors from the Tectonic Theater Project, a New Y ork-based troupe. ¯ They even play themselves. "The Laramie Project," written by these actors as well as other Tectonic members ¯ including founder Moises Kaufman, was drawn from their interviews with more than 200 people. Yet it is more than just ,docudrama. It is a story of feeling as well ¯ as fact. Each gets its fair share of stage ¯ time, grounding the evening in reality ¯ without sacrificing the emotional intensity of people trying to deal with their hopes, ¯ fears and prejudices. ¯ What makes "The Laramie Project" so ¯ intriguing are its shades of gray. Nothing is simple. There are no easy answers in coming to terms with Shepard’s death. ¯ Kaufman and ctmpany presenta variety ¯ of memorable portraits culled from their taped interviews. There’s Reggie Fluty, ¯ the policewoman who untied Shepard from ¯ the fence post. As vividly portrayed by ¯ Mercedes Herrero, Fluty is a vibrant ¯ woman, confronted with something so ¯ horrific that she says, at one point, "They ¯ show showed me a picture.., days later I saw a picture of Matthew... I would ¯ have never recognized him." ¯ Equally unnerving are comments from Rulon Stacey, spokesman at the hospital where Shepard died. In Greg Pierotti’s intense performance, Stacey breaks down, ¯ watclfingthecourageofShepard’sparents as they confront their son’s death. Pierotti ¯ also gives weight and an emotional honesty : to the commonsense statements from a ¯ priest, Father Roger, who decides to get involved in leading a vigil for Shepard. ¯ What ties the townspeople together are ¯ their efforts to understand. As the doctor ¯ who first treated Shepard when he was ¯ brought into a Laramie hospital emergency ¯ room says,"This is something that offends us. I used that word a little earlier and I ¯ think that’s a good word. It offends us!" Stephen Belber excels at two of the ¯ showier roles in the play - particularly a ¯ tough-talking taxicab driver who ¯ epitomizes the "live and let live" ¯ .philosophy that threads its way through ." the speeches of many of the many of ¯ people interviewed. ¯ Right now, "The Laramie Project" is ¯ still undergoing changes. Thirty minutes ; were cut from the play after the .first ¯ preview. Even now at two hours and 45 minutes, it could use more of a trim. : Shepard himself is not a character in ¯ "The Laramie Project," but his presence ¯ haunts the play. It hovers sweetly yet sadly over the entire proceedings, as well ¯ as the town he loved so much. That is only appropriate. As one of the residents says at the end of the evening, ’¢I’he last thing Matthew Shepard saw on ¯ this Earth were the sparkling lights of Laramie, Wyo." �Lesbian Survey Results li- In the past two years, you may have seen an gathered 58,000 petition si~latures to call the February amlouncement about a study on how "Lesbians and thei? ¯ by Dave Fleischer 1998 election. They began the cmnpaign With the name, : Senior Fellow, Policy Institute sisters are similar or different." This mmouncement ¯ National Gay and Lesbian Task Force address and phone number of 58.000 voters who they appeared in 200 Lesbian mad Gay/Lesbian periodicals could turn out to vote. As our community faces a new wave of Millennial anti(including Tulsa Family News). It was also sent to 614 ¯ Pro-Gay activists started withno sitnilar list. We cotfld Lesbian/Gay religious orgamzations; 105 Lesbian bars: "¯ Gay ballot measures, it would be easy to be fearful about have- m November 1995. voters across Maine defeated our prospects. After all, eight out of twelve votes on 54 women’s bookstores; 346 cmnpus Lesbian/Gay ¯ homophobic referenda went against us in 1998 and 1999 ml m~ti-Gay measttre. But the "95 cmnpaign didn’t talk Bisexual/Transgender groups; and 83 groups listed as ¯ alone. Yet the shocking thing about our cotmnumty with voters oue-on-ouc to idenlify our supporter,s. Of the "’etlltlicimttlticul tural." ¯ 221.562 people who voted with us, our comnmnity eudcd losing so many elections is that we actually "know how to Tiffs research was conducted by Esther Rothblum, a ¯ win them. the canlpaign -l~aowing the professor of psychonmnc. address and phone What effective strategy logy at the University "... eight out of twelve votes on number of fewer than 3000 ¯ persuades voters to stand of Ver-mont, who Gav.and pro.Gay,voters. - -. :-, with-us? After six years studies Lesbi~m igsue~. homophoble re~erencla went-a.~M~nst .... eontrlbutes ¯ training Gay, lesbian, X\~ began the" 98 cmnpmgn She was interested~in ¯ bisexual and transgender us in 1998 and 1999 alone. with 30(~) on our list..versus to [Lesbian] how Lesbians mid their 58,000 on theirs. Whc~ ¯ (GLBT) leaders around the heterosexual sisters ¯ demoSraphle Yet the shoekin$ thln$ about our e]ectiou day ’98 crone, wc country to run for office and differ on demographic ¯ manage campaigns, I know lost by 7.299 votes, bccansc eommunlty losln$ so many eleetlons factors. ¯ it’ s when we "come out mad 83,409 who voted wiOa us in For exanlple, manv ¯ is that we actually "95 didn’t ttma out to vote ¯ .. }-][ere are some talk" - engage voters onestudies about Lesbimas ¯ again in "98. We lost Ihal on-one and ask them what have found them to be hnow how to win them . . 7’ speeulatlons: ¯ they think. election, but we shouldnt highly educated, not lose [le~’l - so long as Vehen we do, the fuzz)’, very religi,ous, and ¯ lcmn from theexpencucc. unflattering image of us as livi~’lg in l:u’ge cities. ¯ For cxmnple, wc will likely fnce an anti-’Gay repeal oddities from an X-Files episode dissolvcs._ Voters Obviou_’~ly, this does ¯ reconsider who we are and are much less likely m fall vote just like Maine’s m *’liami-Dade Couutx The not describe all may result in ¯ for propaganda that makes us out to be something we’re upconm~g cmnpmgl~ is hatmtcd bx the one wc losl [111977 Lcsbia~, but there It Anita Brvaut"s "’Save timChildren" cauapai~n ¯ not. mav be reasons why beeomln Just as importantly, what proven strategy identifies Fortunatel y, key leaders in SA VI ~ Dade, the local lmlnan Lesbimls are differeut ¯ voters who are already supportive? The very stone rights group, Jorge Murstfli. Shcila O’Fmlell, Gcore flom women iu the ¯ conversation. Because when we do "voter I.D.’" -askiug Kctclholm. mid Griscl R~xlrigncz, have begun to bnihl general U.S. ¯ each voter "Can we count on your vote’?" - we build a their list. By lcachiug lcssous flom other canq)aigus, thcx population. ¯ reliable list of Gay and pro-Gay voters to whom ~ve can have motivated their vohmtccrs to talk face-to-face For example, Lesbians may move to large cities to find VOleI’S. other Lesbians, to move aw@ froth their parents and their ¯ return, to turn out our vote, election after election. Since ¯ many of our strongest supporters often miss clectious, ~vc On July 29. SAVI~ l)adc had its biggest voter I politically conservative home town, or to be more success v~t. In twelve hours. 300 volunteers had facc-toanonwnous. Similarly, Lesbians nmy have high levels of _. lose without this kind of follow-up. Making a voter I.D. list isn’ t glamorous, but it makes or facc couversations with 4.909 voters. SAVE Dadc has education bccanse they didn’t get married innnediately ¯" breaks our campaigns across the country. Maine offers a ~dreadv built its list to iududc 15.000 Gay and pro-(~a after lugh school, or didn’t have clfildren at a you age. useful case study. In February 1998, fine GLBT conmlunit3 vol~rs. In this study, Rothblunt conipared Lesbians’~vith thei?~ ¯ lost Maine’s state-wide law bmnung discrinlination ou Of course. 15.0(~) i s no t cu~) n ~ h. ’l’bc Chfi s finn ( ~o~ d i u sisters. Unlike members of other minority groups (e.g., the basis Of sexual onentation. It had taken Maine leaders will begiu their cmnpmgn with a lisl of 33,000 SUpl)ortcr~ African-Americans, Jews, inunigrants), Lesbians (mad ten years to pass the law: die Christian.C.oalition erased it of their own. Ihe number ol l)ClH~on ~igllaturc~ Ihc~ Gay men) differ m one importm~ respect in that their ten months after it passed, despite a vali-anl battle bv our to put lhc issue on lhc ballot sibhngs me generally members ofthe domimmt gr0tq~ Butdm SAVE l)adc strategy to invite our fi’icnds to Ihi (hctcrosexnalsL In the case of biological sisters, thex How did we lose? The New York Times post-electiou election ~s a winning one. On July 29, as they realized would share the stone race m~d etlmicitv, and have had th~ analysis was ~ shockingly clear. It quoted a Bowdoin what they had done and bcguu, Shcila O’ Farrell c-nmilcd s~une parents. The\ mav also bc close in age. So tiffs me: "’Well. Dave. you szfid 6.000 and I laughed. You ~aid method would allo~, vou’to exmnine the lives of Lesbimls .: College professor with 25 years, of Maine polling ¯ experience, who said, "Maine is no more mtolcrmn than 30 phonc bm~k~ with 10+ vohmtccrs m~d I rolled m~ c~ side by side with sistel.s who m-e not Lesbian. ¯ other states, and given a well-lq_ln "gay;-rights- c&mpatgn, And tomght we exceeded any expectations I ever had A total of 1,2(~- questiotmmres were requested bx would likely split into tw.o canlps, with 55%. supporting do you kuow what? 1 guess that trap we teach rcall’ email, telephouc, or mail. mad 762 of these were retullmd. woi:ks~ I think 1 had quit bclicvmg thal Thanks ’Gay rights’ mad 45% against." A well-rim cmnpaign is Ilcrc are the results of the 184 sister pairs iu which one built on turmng out its base. The low turnont of pro-Gay cliallenging mc " was Lesbim] mid the other \vas heterosexual: voters cost us the election. In tough elections, there is uo SmUt Claus. XVc have - Lvsbians arc older thm] their heterosexual sisters. How did the Christian Coalition tuna out ~ ts supporters. ~lOW who our friends ;u’c if we xv~uit to win:’]’o klloXv xx - Lesbiaus are also more likely to be first-bores when they ~u-c, wc have lo ask. onc-oll-OllC. Then wc C~l~ looking at ages of all l)rother’s mad sisters. (This is ¯ when we couldn’t? They prepared for the election by starting tQ identify their voters well m ad\m~ce. Eigl~t thai List mid check il twice - and win the Iougla election. interesting, because research on Gay men has sho~vn months before electiol~ day, the Cln’istian Coalitiou that lic almad thcnt to be younger sons.) factors? - Hi her education Lesbian . . Y - Lesbians have higher levels of education th,’m do diet r heterog~’,~Ual sisters. - Heterosexual women are more likely to be homemakers than their Lesbian sisters. There ,are no differences in other types of employment status, or on occupational level. - Because Lesbians have higher educationM levels, they would be expected to have a higher individual income. Still, Lesbians mad dleir heterosexual sisters had similar individual mid fanlily incomes. - Heterosexual women were part of formal religions iu adulthood, whd’~as L~lSfan~ Were mtte likely to endorse altenmtive spiritual beliefs. - Lesbians were more likely to be living with a female partner or living alone. Heterosexual sisters were more likely to be married, li vh~g with:a,~ale p.,?r, mer, m~d living with children in a relationslfip - For those wonlen . with a partner (121 Lesbians ,and 149 heterosexual women), heterosexual women have been in this relationsltip for a longer time period ( 11.4 years) than Lesbians (6.87 years). - Lesbians were more likely to be"]iving in a large city than their heterosexual sisters. - There is no sig~fificant difference in how many years sister pairs have been living in their current location. - But Lesbians live further from their previous location than do heterosexual sisters. - Lesbimls live flirther from their lnother :rod from thcilfather than do their heterosexual sisters - l~sbim~s have moved to fl]cir CUlTent locatiou because of their oxvn cducatiou. I [ctm’oscxtud women have movcd to their cu~ent location because of their partuer’s job. - Lesbians have higher self-esteem titan do their beterosexuM sisters -There are at differences bet~veen sister pmrs ou any measure of mentM health (such as depression, m~xietv. m Lesbian communily organizatious ~md c\cnt.s What is it about being a Lesbian that contributes to dcmoglaphic factors? llcrc arc some speculations: 13cing older and firsl boru may result in Increased education. - Not bciug mmTied or havi~ tg children at a yotmg age, living Mone and/or not beiug in a long-term rclationslfip umv. result iu highcr education and geographic mobility. tli~hcr education may result iu becoming I.csbimi etc,) - Liging in l~ge cities nmy expose women to l.esbian z Lesbians and their hEterosexnalsigters ~e 6x~ctlx the " d0nmlfinifies. ............ san~e average height (5 feet 5 inches) but Lesbians w~igh Wlmt is it abont being a Lesbian that contribntcs more (161 lbs on average) than do hctcroscxn~d sisters mental health and other factors’? Ilelc arc some (143 lbs). -Lcsbimis are more likel~ to have been in specu.lati ous: l)sychotherapy than their heterosextu~ sisters. - Do l.esbians reln~fin<~m~l:byedin order to mmff}ain - Both sisters tend to have heMth insurance, but hcMth insurance whereas liet:~ro~eXnM lnm’ried heterosexual sisters are more likely to have health can become homenmkers due to their husbands’ 6cncfits? insurance through their parmer, and to have dental - Are Lesbiaus less focused ou weight and appearance? lnstlr~lce, Or do heavier young women become ~sbians m~d!or hnplications: increase edncadon becanse of fewer dating or relatiouship HeterosexuM women ~e more like census data of U.S options? women than are Lesbians on: m~age, living wifl~ rome - Does Lesbians" greater use of psychotherapy account pm’tner Ctfildren Religion ~ucation Population density for dm lack of mentM hem th differences between ~sbians Convelfience smnples of ~sbim~ flint fiud that I ~sbim~s (a stiglnatized group) and their heterosexnM sisters? live in l~ge cities, ~e lfighly educated, have a lo~v - Does belonging to a supportive conmm~fity account income relative to education, and may not be religious, for Lesbians’ higher self-esteem may ~ more representative of the ~sbians who p~ficipate A �Newspapers Refuse to Print PFLAG .Listing ¯ : ¯ LOS ANGELES (AP) - A family of weekly : newspapers distributed free to 126,000 Central Coast ~ households and businesses has created an outcry over ¯¯ its refusal to publish news deemed favorable to Gay or pro-choice viewpoints. More than a dozen editorial : employees of tWO of ~he papers have quit since the policy came to ,light last week. The papers, which circulate in San Luis Obispo, Paso Robles andAtascadero, have been hit with about 400 cancellation-requests. Earlier this week, about 100 people protested outside the County courthouse in San Luis Obispo, some carrying signs that read, "No Bigotry. in My ~owa,’: : The c~rttro~er~y:ste:r0s from:a ¢:ommuuity calendar listing; for~ Parents, Friends and ~Eamily~0f Lesbians ahd ~ays~ Bisexuals .and Transgendered Persons, which ran in the’Atascadero Gazette from Nov. 25 until Feb..17.~’=That’ s whe,n the paper’s editor, Ron Bast, wa~ ioid tlie chain S owner had 6rdered the listing pulled.Bast-said he was told there were to be no storie~ tli~ ~lit~ed Gays or abortionina favorable light. He has since quit, saying he believes the paper has failed in its mission to provide unbiased coverage of the community. Civil rights acavists, meanwhile, said theywere appalled at the action ofcompany owners Mary and David Weyrich."He has th~ fight todo thi~of course, incorporating as a nonprofit organization, outlining possible programs and figuring out how to pay for the gathering place. Travis Blackwell, 33, co-chairman of the planning committee, said he hoped the center would be a place for anyone to getin touch with the Gay community. "And I hope it will raise asvareness, understanding and tolerance for the lesbian, Gay, bisexual and transgender community," Blackwell said. "That’s. one aspect. The other is actuall y having a central place. where we cau all be safe and meet and take part in programming and workshops and things that better each of us as well as our community as a whole.’" Gay centers across the country offer everything from soccer leagnes to medical services, counseling -and day.care. Although cities nationwide of about the same size as-Charlotte have had. them.for years, no other North Carolina city has a center, qocai ;Gay leaders ,said. In 1996, Mecklenburg County commissioners cut arts funding after a local production of the Pulitzer prize-winning play "Angels in America," because of its homosexual content. And last year, Samantha Gellar won a contest for young playwrights in 1999 with her story of two women who meet on a bus, fall in love and share a kiss. The contest sponsors would not allow it to be performed, saying its subject matter was not appropriate for the festival’ s middle and high school audience. . hnttheparttliatupsetmepers°nallyisthathehadaI MiSSiSsippi Lawmakers great deal of support starting out because he was representing this as atmecommuuity .newspap~," Move to Bar Adopbons said Robyn Murphy, past president ~of.the central, i Coast Gay and.L~bian Alliance. . .... i , , . . ; The vtfeytichs m-owned billlioard giant Martin.i Media befoxe the company was sold fo~ $610 mi’llion, t... ,~,~,~ ~,,. :rt.., ~ ..,, u~,~. ~ \Ve~,~,~ : JACKSON, Miss. (AP) - Mississippi lawmakers moved, to bar Gay couples from adbpting children with a Tuesday debate about morality and the fea~ of e~ag homosexuality. The executive director Wim,~v Tlu~_v mtMi~ho~l a ~lat~mt~.nt ~,i Ihe~r ° Of ~ Misst$$1[~!. ~list Cofl¥1~aUon Boald teld a House subcmnmmee that ehiidr©n rinsed ~ ~s ............. pmtosopn~ tn recent emuoUS.. ..... tnc issuc na ¯. ~ .~ ...- ..: .......¯ ~,:~z,’~n~’~’~ ~1~ U~ith ;nt,~orilW mtt4 ~ih0 tnd~ Wifl~ - ¯ .... ~:~..~.~ .... Ilomosexuals 0~i10,1~ more mt~v to ue troy. ............. ¯ ....-, ..... ~ ...... Opponentssmdtheyfeareddieadoptionbanwould United in God’s Love MCC-United Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor Sunday Worship 11=00 am 623 N. Maplewood 9181838-1715 " ~ i" f"~ ......... Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2~Lg South Yale, Sundays at llam, "/49-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OFTHE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm ’ ~ " [ .... =~,, v~v,,--° Licensed Professional & National Certified ’ ** * " ..... 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These kids will be influenced meetings throughout the past months,we have covered ¯" in a way we don’ t want them tO beinfluenced," he said these topics in depth." : during the hour-long meeting. Rep. John Reeves, RHe said-the Gazette papers, which promote Jac.kson, the subcommittee chairman, said the bill themselves with the slogan "Hometown Journalism was not meant to punish Gay people but was "trying at its Best" on the bottom of each front page, also to do what’s right by the children." Rep.. Gary refuse advertisin,g from nightclubs and tobacco Chism, R-Columbus, said legislators should be companies. ~’We ve picked.up 13 new advertisers concerned about children and "we shouldn’t place because of this," Hansen said. "We’ve received 400 them. in a lifestyle that’s unnatural." "It gives an e-mails this week that arejust po,sitive mid supportive. indication to that child that this is a proper relationship," Pemple resiXct,,us for’what ~ve ve Said ~and that we Chism said. stand up for it. Mississippi is among five states this year debating One observer says the debaie has at least one upside legislation over adoptions, by Gays, according to - forcing residents to discuss the meaning of the First Hector Vargas,’a lawyer for the Washington-based Amendment. ’YI’he idea that free speech and a free National Gay and Lesbian TaskForce~o,The others.are press is being discussed is extremely healthy,!’ said . Hawaii, Oklahoma, South Carolina and Utah: vargas Randall Murray ,a California Polytechnic ,,U,niversity,. said judges’ rtmin consideration "should be whether San Luis Obispo, journalism professor¯ While not or not the parents are a loving couple and can provide embracing~Weydchor..his,views, ~e reali~.Lhat he is for the child." " peffecdy secure to set editorial policy. Rather than The bill also says that the state will not recognize impose on him ,o,ur editorial policing, the remedy is ¯ adoptions by Gay couples in other states. That coUnter-speech. " i ’ ~: " : provision could be unconstitutional, Vargas ~id. "_ Several states have been sued over policies banning ¯ Gays from adopting.. Only Horida statutorily bars " Gay couples from adopting. ~ Robin Lemer, staff attorney for the American Civil CHARLOTTE (AP) - Charlotte, the city that has ¯ Liberties Union in Mississippi, said state lawmakers drawn national attention in recent years for its anti- : shouldbe worried about crime committed by children Gay atmbsphere, could have its first-ever community ¯ who grow up without families. ’‘The greater issue is " how can we best raise children to be good adults," she center for Gays as early as 2002. said. The Community Center Planning Committee will spend the next six months scouting for a location, Charlotte Gays Plan Community Center Aft~l"Hours AppointmerltsAvailabl~ 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Suite 21.5, 745-1111 Red Rock Tulsa. O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting limes and place: 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers .... . 9413E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 AAA 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-...-5934 ¯ Family Owned & Operated Trinna L. W. Burrows,.LSW, ACSW Child, Family, Individual & Couple Psychotherapy (918) 743-9559 2121 South Columbia, Suite 420 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114-3518 �Georgia Hate Crimes Bill ¯ Free. Confidential HIV Testing- But Rep. Dan Grossman, D-Denver, and other oppo.nents said the Vermont Legislature appears to be moving toward recognition of ’~domestic parmerships’’ rather,than same-sex marriages. The final vote came after opponents argued it was a simple attack on homosexuals. "The billis nothing more than something : based on fear and I think it is an irrational fear,’" : Grossman said. "What horrible thing would happen : to us. It s gratmtous and mearisspirited:’" ~, - : Supporters denied that. "It’s based oh the ¯ ¯ accumulated wisdom and experience of cultures for hate crime. And he wasn’t alone in asking the Hons~ ¯ 7,000 years," said Rep. Shawn Mitchell, R~ J~.di~ary C0mmitte,elo appr~ove stiffer penalties.for Broomfield. "We alwayshave i:ecognfized as-selfcn.mes .~lotivated by race, religion, gender or sexnal !eviklent that marriage i~s ~joinih~dfopt~si te m~mbers onentataon. :~ .,o~ the human species." Pas~hail !said ~h~ Offered the Committeemembers also hear~ ~rom arabbi whose measnre as a reiriforcement OP’gootl publicpolicy." -synagogue was vandalized and a Gay mm~ who was assaulted with a knife at his throat. "Terrorism has an impact both on the victims and an .impact on the community at !arge," said Sen. Vincent Fort, DAtlanta, ~e bill s author. "Hate crimds are terrorism MIDDLETON, Wis. (AP) - Cal!ing.for an end to because of that fear." harassment and narrow-mindedeess, a group of Gay Barron Segar,.a professional fund-raiser, told the and Lesbian teen-agers and their friends,is trying to committee how he was~surrounded by eight menafter -leaving a Gay nightclub in Atlanta:in 1992. One ofthe ¯ persuade a majority of teachersand students to sign a p edge ..calling for tolerance_ 9.f ~students of all men grabbed Segar from behind and helda knife to hi.s .thro.at. "This is what we do to (Gays)," the man i b~k.:grounds and persuasions..! .... : - . . . :, stud, using an, e..pi,thet for~ho~a,os.exuals..~e al’t~ker ¯ , ~ndse,y.Clough., one of t.he s.~,d.e.nts o~g.amzang the ,v;xt.~:~x~;~:;.~.~=~,..~.=..~.~=2~.,:;,_~:.-~. .....~:..~.~,.~ ..... pmage onve~ stud she. ~dentd~es-wim the Ga - ~.,.~.~.~;mto ~g~uuuu mau-m¢ men scattere~; u o Y - 0~,~ . __ .o.;~ ....... hves-w~th;’me~erV day: tstilt~liaTe=iti!~h~es,’’ ¯ coun~.l!mty m. part tw.eause a ~e friend of her family lost a partner to AIDS.. 8he deS..eti’bed, her ;Sdgari~"dt~B~ifhly~~ttaek~dis d0h; ( Tli~ se~’~r~ed tw~ : " W~eks m tail ...... ..... " , ~. childhood as extremely difficiilt~ .r and said she has :: :;~ Rabbi;,TS.= ¯Robert Iehay of ~-Coni~te~ati~ix:,or: found. ,Goys and.lesbians to be’,~’0_~e.~0f the most : VeShalrmre~lled:h0w ~e synagog~e.~ ~D~I~alb. ¯ und..d.~smnd.ingpe°ple I’ve met in.~y~|ifei:r . "- C0tmtv vandalizex~ 1~ 4,e~;ffi-th~ag~iV",~ai~t’~ " ] ne stug~nt ~oup says its goalis to get most of the ¯d ~ag ¯ .. , .r..’~ M ~1-~ ¯ " ,-~ " ¯ ::Nl~ri:sw~ligas~dthewords~bloodsuek~r~~ ot~b~t~ " : school s 1,600 students and 200. teachers.to s~gn a ,~Sihee’thetL~I~l~ysaid,:the c0n~i~galion ~~-had:a ."-pled~e’.~f!~lerance andinthe.p~to~e~at the police.om~atev~’serv~ce~unetion=indMing_ i s¢.h~l a~qepts a!l students ..... weddings .iWe~sleepat¯ni~ht;’;hesaid::"Bat~livavs ~. :rng~schoolisoftenaprimepla~efor~a.ystudents " t~i.tll;an.e~ie :6~,, .in case~°omea,~,;; k~,,,~a,,~ ,,,-: - ~ : ¯ to be dbused, accordimz to a reoort last. Year bv the " Fort~s bill ¯passed -the Senate,bv~jttst’two~rtes ~ Gay,...L~,~fib!an and Strmght Educatto.n Network. The -. ~arlier thi’s m~nth, Thebi!t~,a!lr~S.~n~es to ii~se -. gr°up~,~9_Yed teens in32 states imd f~un~ that 91 percent of Gay and lesbian teens reported up to five years in cases Where.~ey determine the : "homo.phobic" remarks at school and 69perccnt said victims were chosen because of race, color, religion, ¯ theyexperieneedsomeformofharassmentorviolence. Patrick Kelly, an openly Gay freshman, said that national origin, ancestry, ei’hnicity, gendei, disiibility " or s~xiial 0dentationl ...... . while Middleton tends to be more accepting of Gay : students,than many other high schools, there is always ¯ room forJmprovement. ¯ "’ LisaAarli, a teacher who advises the student group, Walk-ln Clinics says she has seen great enthnsiasm over the pledge Gay Marriage Advances ¯ event. 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Cincinnati. 582-4128’ The Episcopal Church Welcomes You ATLANTA (AP)- Several hours after Palm Sunday seryices ended at Red Oak United Methodist Church, parishioners found themsdves watching from the cemetery outside as the ehnrch was Consumed by fire set by monists. "I stood there in the graveyard with my members, singing while it burned down," saidthe .Rev. John W: Pace, pastor of the black church in Stoekbridge. ’ It was hopeless. We could not stop the fire." Pace says his congregation was victimized by a : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Gay Teens Ask. ,Peers For Tolerance COlorado -Ban-on DENVER, (AP) - A marriage.between, one man and for a lot of different reasons," she,said. :’The kids on one woman would be the 0uly uniOn r~cogni2ed as ¯ the margins ,are being pulled into something big m~d .legally validby the state under a’bill approved by ¯ prayerful in tke school." . .... House lawmakers. The House,-which approved the .measureon a 36-29 vote; sent it to-the-Senate, where -it- probabl.y wDuld :pass,.,according to Sen. Mark Hillman, R-Burliugton. Senators approved a shnilar proposal earlier this inonth. Gov. Bill Owens has said ¯ said he beieved the l~gislature sliotfld be.as.inclusive he.would sign the bill if approved by the I eegislature. ¯ as possible in the bill nmv, rather th,-m have to face In its original version, House Bill 1249 would have ~ such questio~m agMn some other, time. "My persom~ authorized courts to enforcenbnee0n0~nic provigions ¯ opimon is I don?t wm~t to have to.go t~ough ins for of prenuptial ¯contracts Spousoring Rep; "Mark " another reason. I don’ t want another ~gislature to go Paschall, R-Arvada, succeeded Monday in.stfippi.ng " tl~ough ~s," he said. all language from the bill-and substituting it with Little wo~d prefer to keep tfie_~co~.e:.’of the bill provisions to ban same-sex.marriages and to ensiire focused on the Gay and ~sbi~ conples who sued for the state, would not recognize S,’une-sex marriages " the fight tomTy in the fi~st place..~at’s ~vhy the ,pefformedJoutside~tsbordet~: :=:~ ,:, ~,, qivii d0m~l[¢.u~on bill~so~eloselyznfi~ors ~age As it did Moilday, the Hbuse on :ruesda) .rejected ¯ statutes. ?We haven’t seen ~y, eviOence that people a motiOn ,to~ send the bill to- the:House~:Jddiciary ¯ that ~e.bro~ers and sisters, bro~ers ~d ’bro~ers, Committeefor a public hearing. Moderate~Republieans " sisters: ~d sisters seek to eslablishthe:s~e,.Nnd of _. on.. that, com~ttee.lastl v~ab joined.~t~b~rats in " : inti~m~ -~i!~ ~:ha~e~felt~th~ kiliing a-’. similar;bill2 Coni~nittee meinb~sargued ~hat discfi~fio~ ~ their efforts to establis~$~ly they should be allowed.to, giv~ ~the-bill a(public~ : u~," ~tfle sMd. ’~e desi~ of the ~iIl, we hope, is hearing; but Paschall and other supporte,,r.s~ said¯ the~ " to ereate~ a NNo~on" ~vherN~e~ ~ n6-~:~ateriM ¯ ~ ~, 7 " -~ ~’ ¯ ~:,..~ =~ .: ~:.~;,~ ~,,,~ : ~. ~:~.~ . -concept l~as :had extensive public input. ¯ ff~en~ between ~fir~age-~fl domeshc"umons) obvious, transparent attempt to kill the bill, said ~d t-herefore no consti~utionM differe-n~’~between House Majority Leader Doug Dean; R-Colorado " ~ tWO." Springs. . However at a r~ent Repub]i~ S~te Co--tree He and other supporters said the measure is : meet~g, Ve~ont Republic.s rejected, at least necess.ary to avoid forcing Colorado to officially ¯ tempos]y, a push by the p~ty’s state chM~, re¢ogmze same-sex marriages performed elsewhere. " Pa~ck G~, for a ConsdmdonM ~en~ent Supporters said a recent ruling by the Vermont " supporting opposite-gender m~fiage o~y, The Supreme .Court called for legislative action on same- ¯ pro~sM stated ~at bemuse ~e state Supreme Court’ s sex mamages, and that action could mean official : derision in B~er v. State open~ ~e door for s~erecognition of such unions. . gender m~age, ~e OenerM Assembly shoed be~ ¯e pro~ss of ~en~ng ~e constitution. ’4, �JeSSeJackson Get H!Y Test :Gallo, Who headed the group,of academic researeher~ studying HIV infection. That group and several other WASHINGTON (AP) - The Rev. Jesse : independent researchers learned in late Jackson stuck a cotton swab between his ." 1995 that the gene is a so-called "viral cheek and gums Thursday to demonstrate : receptor" that the HtV virus attaches to. how easy it is to take an oral test for the ¯ They also discovered that defective virus that causes AIDS and to encourage ." versions of the gene generate a protein other black Americans to be tested. " that suppresses infection by preventing ’q’he crisis has not left. It is no longer " HIV from attaching to cells. "The fron.t-page. It’s not gunfire. It’s not ." likelihood is that this is the molecule that cocame, crack or heroine. It:s not gang ¯ needs to be used for the virus to go from warfare," said the civil rights leader, " one person to another," said New York speaking at the Max Robinson Center of " University’s Dr. Dan Littman, who also the Whitman-Walker Clinic, in one of the ¯ contributed to the academic study. capital’s poorest neighborhoods. "But William Haseltine, chairman and CEO nobody is safe," Jackson said. "I want to " of Human Genome Sciences, maintains send a message to every African-American : companyresearchers did extensive work that does not know his or her HIV/AIDS ¯ isolatingthe gene that justifies the firm’s status to get tested." ." ownership of the patent. Haseltine said Jackson, who said he had taken a blood " the patent will not impede outsid~ research, test for the virus years ago, took the newe~ ] adding that the company is making the oral test to draw attention to the issue as ¯ gene available to academic researchers at hundreds of people gathered in ¯ no cost. He said the patent will only stem Washington for the Johns Hopkins " the unauthorized use of the gene for University 2000 National Conference on commercial purposes. African-Americans and AIDS¯ ¯ AIDSactivists have reacted with venom The results ofJackson’s testate expected " toward the company, which they accused to be ready Saturday but, as is common : of capitalizing on the suffering of others. practice, they will remain confidential. It ¯ "’These guys are the robber barons of the was-not immediately clear if Jackson " genetic age," said Gregg Gonsal v es, policy would release results of his test. " director of the Treatment Action Group, a Blacks make up 13% of the U.S. ; New York-based AIDS lobbying population, but they account for 57% of ¯ organization. ’q’his is not about making all new HIV infections detected and nearly’,.: progress on AIDS; its about making half of all cases of full-blown AIDS, " money.’" according to the Centers for Disease ; Meantime, the U.S. patent office plans Control and Prevention. Additionally, ¯ to enforce new guidelines in March that more treatments have become available, ¯ would require applicants to better but AIDS deaths among blacks increased ¯ demonstrate the function and usefulness 45% between 1991 and 1996, even as ¯ of discoveries. Officials at the National mortality among whites decreased by 24%, " Institutes of Health, however, complain statistics show. " that the new regulations fail to go far Jackson .called on the president, first :~ enough. lady and leading presidential candidates to set an example by submitting to testing, noting, "The first issue is to remove the taboo and reststance to testing." ¯ Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway,-Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. i Clinton Plan May ¯ Benefit HIV Postive ¯ (AP)- In an experiment Patent Could Block ¯¯ WASHINGTON that could significantly, expand federal to patients with the AIDS virus, AIDS Research ~ benefits the Clinton administration is allowing LOS ANGELES (AP) - A feud between .. Maine to provide Medicaid payments to two groups of researchers over who owns ¯ people are HIV-positive but do not yet ¯ the rights to a gene helpful inAIDS therapy have AIDS. Previously, patients could threatens to slow the development of new ; notqualifyuntil theyhadfull-blownAIDS. drugs and treatment, The Los Angeles ¯¯ Health Secretary Donna Shalala said Times has reported. Maryland-based Thursday that Maine would be the first Human Genome Sciences secured a patent ¯ state to offer such a plaff,"whichcan give earlier in February ~hat gives it a 17-year ." more people living with HIV access to claim on a gene that apparently controls ¯ promising therapies.’" Several other states how AIDS begins infecting its victims. : are looking at offering a similar plan, However, the biotech firm only isolated ¯ officials said. "Better research, prevention and decoded the gene. Company officials ¯¯ and treatment is helping people with this acknowledge they had no knowledge of disease livelonger, healthier lives, even ¯ its use when they applied.for a patent in as.we continue our search for a cure," said June 1995. A group of academic scientists ~ Shalala at a conference on black people say they were the ones who proved the ¯ with AIDS. gene could be used tO explain why. some ¯ : Recent studies have showfl that the early people repeatedly exposed t6 HIV never use of.AIDS-fighting drugs can slow the develop the disease. ." disease and increase life expectancy. However, many people with HIV Meantime, the patent, gives Human Genome Sciences control over who can ¯ _generally do not qualify for Medicaid, use the gene in commercial,devel’0p~ient ¯ which provides health insurance to lowof new AIDS drugs, potentially limiting " income Americans, until they have the practical use of the academic research. ¯¯ symptoms and are considered disabled." Without the plan, "the Medicaid The ownership decision by the U.S. Patent ¯ program was in the untenable position of and Trademark Office outraged the group of academic scientists who say thebiotech ¯ having to wait until someone grew so sick ¯ with AIDS that they became disabled" firm co-opted their discovery. ¯ "If the patent office awards a patent to before treatment and drugs conld be made someone who clones a gene, even though ¯ available, said Francis Finnegan, Maine’s they have no notion of its function and no ¯¯ Medicaid director. The state’s five-year demonstration real idea of its use, that would be like ¯ projectbeginsinSeptember.Tobeeligible, saying, ’I found a fungus, therefore I should get credit for penicillin,"’ said the ¯ a participant must be HIV-positive and University of Maryland’s Dr. Robert ¯ haveanincomeofless thanabout $25,000, January April July October DecOnber Even Out Your Monthly Electric Bills. 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The surprising twists and turns in his life. "It’s benefit package will indudedrug therapy, : ~ a strange journey," he said,, shaking office visits, lab services, case ¯ his head. "I started drug and alcohol abuse management, hospitalizations, mental : when I was around 10," he said. health and substance abuse services. ¯ The drug and alcohol abuse worsened About 1,300 Maine residents are when h_e was a teen-ager having conflicts infected with HIV and 350 have AIDS, with his policeman stepfather and according to the Maine Bureau of Health. struggling with the emer~ng realization The new waiver will allow the state to that .he was Gay. offer treatment to about 300 people who "I joined the military when I was 18 to couldn’ t otherwise afford it. Officials said escape a lot of things, and because I wanted the early intervention is expected to reduce o be somebody," Stewart said. "And, I the need for costly hospitalization and onestly thought that in the military, I d prevent addi tional infections. go straight. It didn’t quite work out that Nationally, about 900,000 people are way. I found more Gay people in the infected with HIV, a third of those with military than I’d ever known." full-blown AIDS, said Kathryn Bina, a His eight years in the Air Force brought spokeswoman for the federal Centers for him to this city of 21,000 on the shore of Disease Control and Prevention. A third Lake Champlain. When his tour of duty of those whose HIV hasn’t progressed ended, he started driving a tractor trailer. into AIDS, about 200,000 people, don’t Then came a drug and alcohol relapse. know they have the disease, she said. "I fell flat on my face," Stewart said. Claudia French, acting executive With the help of a network of friends, director of AIDS Action, a national AIDS Stewart struggled to overcome his support group, said more states need to addictions. "I sobered up on Dec. 14, ad’o~t such aplan. ’~roday’s announcement 1988, and I’ve been clean and sober ever will prolong the lives of low-income since." It was the recovery process that Mainers with HIV, but we want all HIVled Stewart out of the closet. "I was 26 positive Americans to have acces s to drugs years old, sitting in the basement of a that could keep them from developing church at a recovery meeting at 1 a.m. on full-blown AIDS," said French. New Year’s Day. I said, ’I can’t stav sober !,f, I .keep hiding the truth,"’ Stewart said. It lifted a huge burden. When you live a lie, you suffer the consequences." Backin the eab of a big rig, he considered SYDNEY, Australia (AP)- This nation’s : his furore. "I wanted a sense of inclusion first experimental heroin "shooting ¯ in the system, having a positive role," gallery" will open later this year in a " Stewart said. He got involved with the AIDS activist group, ACT UP, handing former pinball parlor in Sydney, the Uniting Church, which will run the 18- " out condoms on the street. His activism month government-approved trial, " ultimately led him into mainstream announced at the end of February. " politics. Of roughly 500,000 elected officials at The Site in Kings Cross, a suburb : notorious for drug use and prostitution, " the local and national level across the has been approved by New South Wales : country: about 180 are openly Gayand the police and the state’s health department. : vast majority are Democrats, according to It will be run by an expert on AIDS and ¯ the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund, a aim to provide a clean, safe environment : .Washington-based group flint seeks to for addicts to take their drugs. "Our ¯ increase the number of Gay and lesbian primary aim in operating the medically ¯ public officials. "It’s hard to overstate the . value of having outstanding opeul3,,’ Gay supervisedinjecting centeris to save lives," said Uniting Church spokesman Rev. ~ and lesbian people in public office, said ¯ Sloan Wiesen, a spokesman for the Gay & Harry Herbert." New South Wales state premier Bob : Lesbian Victory Fund. "When Gay and straight legislators are working together Carr said he understood concerns of local residents who have fought to prevent the : on less contentious issues, like education, gallery being opened, but said it would ; health care, or fixing roads, people are help improve public health. "We think it ¯ more inclined to stand up f0rfairness mayhelp save lives and get the problems ¯ when a nondiscrimination issue comes out of the streets of Kings. Cross into a : up," Wiesen said. Stewart hopes the national attention he " medically-supervisedlocation,’? Cart said. The center’ s medical director Dr. Ingrid ¯ en.j,,o,ys,by .virtue 0f,,b~,ing aGay Republican van Beck said about 200 addicts would ¯ Will neip the city. I m invited to all these use the center to shoot up when it opens, : events - the State of the State address, the possibly as early as July,, just weeks " State of the Union. It gives me the opportunity to get the message out that before Sydney hosts the 2000 Olympic Games. . Plattsburgh exists, and we need" things United Nations drugs experts this week " here. A lot of people around the country want to help, because they want to see me condemned "shooting galleries" but succeed." authorities in Sydney and two other cities Stewart does have some regrets. 0~e is have said they will forge ahead with plans that he never worked up the courage:to to open them. talk to his mother about the fact that he’s Gay before she died in a car acdident four Want to get involved? years ago. "I was making visits to the Need to get tested for HIV or White House on Gay issues, but I was a Coming Out Support Group? afraid to talk to my own mother about it. Call 743-GAYS (4297) It shouldn’ t have been that way," Stewart said, his voice trailing off. Tulsa Gay Another regret was that he taunted the boys who wanted to go to the prom at Services Center Cumberland High School. 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor see Mayor, p. I1 ~ Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. Electronic filing is available for faster refunds. 747-5466 4021 South Harvard-Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 Are You Gay or .Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here-for you! ~_~’/,~ ’ Evening sup~ group meetings ¯ , ¯ Sho~ trips, outings and retreats ¯ [ Free HIV testing ~or informat~n call Tul~ Native American AIDS Prevention Proj~t ’Shooting Gallery’: to Open in Sydney ¯ Community �The University of Tulsa TWO REVIEWS AND A MUSE! with .a just-too~tight cardboard Slip case [love John ~Villiams’ film scores. I covenng the CD case mid the thick liner really do; they are sweeping, grand things, notes abit too tightly, so that getting die alwaySsuitable for driving to, especially blasted tiring out is enough to prejudice the S~.Wars and Indiana Jones scores¯ your listeafing experience (childproof CD Hedidagreatjob.on 1979’s cases?).If you’re a purist Draciihi, d~ea~iiig, an qt is a nice thing to and a Williams collector., o~atie score that soared .this is for you. If not, well, andswooped al,ong with wish for rent the film. Dr~c~ffd~tly..It s my all= ~ .Jomme~he~mndoahhas peace ~ndha~mony a uewirelease out,and it is score.- too :bad it h~Snot well worth seeking out mid amm~. ~p~oipl~ been reissued comp!etdy buying. A member of the as some of his others have¯ Wolf Clan of the Oneida I wonder if it will What happened was, way (Iroquois) Indians in New ’ever kappen. ~ backwh~, scores were not York, Joaame has put out a released in the version of bestselling, One can, only hope :number heard in the film. Williams award-wi~ufing CDS that was 7::..notorious for arejustincredible tolisten that. Deganawida rerecording .chopped up to (Orenda, ~Matriarch, bits~iof, his: sc0~ds, edited will come along and Lifeblood)¯ She_has a t6gethdri .....ahogether lovely, clear,: bell-like diffe~gntly ~ft0ffa~the film, help create a world voice that .Ires an intimate aad rdea~ed as the ori quality to it that can’t, be that engenders mdtifnpicture s’dundtrack :beat. She ap,,l~ffed in Peter Whnt~.y0a ggt Wasnot the Buffet.t" S y Spirit,:- A laarmony anaong s0u.fidi~,.a~(.~,er~annoying ~re~ng~ d-f - ¯ ~,, peop, " 1 es_~. ’~.-: .-~ .-m!d:,~oug",,:-and Jotmley in,Dance,opened Drum, to~p.ufiS.~!, b.uLa reerea.ted .~rms.~...ash:..o[~,hat rmght ’ : :.. " :~ :;. ’- ~Wo.odstock ~94. :She:~has ha~g:~n~n!h9 soundtrack at somepoint~ ;. been ailed~-aa!~i-ve Ameii.can:yersion of In!re.a~..~ ca~_e~.,, this was disap~ointing, ~; Enya,:.a.1,.lhough; L.~eall~-!-hiak.,that’s This,~beguntochange,firstwithpufists ,~ ,c, ompari~g:,oa.pl~e~.:,~,d,+,oranges. rais~g~:S~jhenwithrecordcompanie,s : Pea~gmai~er,_SJoameyr:i:sanenchanting ,a,ct~[yt,iste~nipg. The score to Williams - r ~lbmn:, wi~h beautiful~melodies. Iti~ sung Close-Eae0unters of the 3rd Kind".was ~ in her~nativg~Oneida Jaaguage, and- the one::of .the. first to be remastered and ~ liner;aotes~.~conta_;n the :story. :and a rel~:witli all cues (music bits) int.act.. ¯ trans!afioa:~into:English of:/he lyrics: It is ~di]s:reallygreat~sincemuchofw.hat , the.p~effeet:~bumt~li-ght~some,oandles, mad~ the sou~dtrack~so great were ~CU! : and relax -~ith, with-its genre :melodies ¯ ."~" ~. " ’: : "- ’.~ ’ ~ ’6 --~ .... ~z ~-~ ~ ,:~-~-~,~,~-,. ,~;’,’::-, ,~:’L~"~’J-~ . ~nta~t. ~twas also great. Then the S-.~y~ i,. mumc,-ofLtl~ ~f~ri~:~ of,~.lroqums V~$i ~l~gy was. released with:.,t..b. ~;~: Co~f~%~li~x~i~ihg,~t6~er-~ter sou~atra_~ks"intact. That was beyond"~:~ many.:cemu~eS-ofW-~;-~-tli~M61iav~k, wonderful. Now, Rhino records has ~ ~Onei~;.Onoiidaga, Cayuga; Seneca; and released, something score purists have " TuscaroralndianNations.~’Peacemaker’s desired since-the film came out: The : Journey isdedicated-to children "Superman". soundtrack, complete, and, ¯" everywhere and to th0se striving for peace no pun intended, uncut. ¯" between people and harmony for all living Great in that the quality of sound is ¯ things. incredible for a score recorded in 1978, ¯ Peacemaker’ s Journey tells the storyof great that the record companies are Deganawida and Hiawatha, who smv the ¯ releasing complete sets of soundtrack CDs. tribes warring ambngst themselVes, and Not so.hot after a listen and the realization : sought to bring peace and harmony to the that Williams copying Williams is not ¯ people~ -Relationships ~etween the tribes really worth a 2" CD set, because almost ¯" had deteriorated into constant war, blood every cue on the two CDs (despite what : feuds~and revenge killings. In danger of the liner notes claim) is almost lifted note : self-destruction; the Iroquois were saved - for.~ note/from Star Wars. Oh a few ¯ by the sudden appearance of a Huron h01y sequences are rearranged, but "Luke ¯" man known as the "Peacemaker." Skywa~ker!s~" i.Theme" is clearly : Deganawida (Two RiverCurrents Flowing recognizable in one cue, and the original ; TogetheO re.ce~yeda vision from the openingnotesfrom"Star Trek" are audible ¯ Creator of peace’and cooperation among in another; in.what one might surmise to ". all Iroquois.Apparently he was hindered bea tributes,Williams borrowing of themes 2 by either.a language or speech difficulty, is nothing new;’,many classical references :... but :~ganaw,ida~ ~eaxttialty,, w:o~ ~the abound in Star Wars; but to blatantly ¯ support of Hiawatha (.Mionwatha - He borrow so much from oneself is just ¯ Makes Rivers), an Onondaga who had lazi~s~’~ ~:of.. li.ke~a~in~;i’~Well, I ~ beeo~n~..~:;Mg~aw.~:~ar~ ~i,ef. With don~f~[ lik¢i~ri~ti~t,g ~ ~,,w.hat can r.borrow from the .~,~gltv~l,~ear~ :: t.h~ir fighiiii~ Mdjoin i6~th~in ale~i~ue. S~n~.~ays,~eco~zes. T0,~,fair, m~be~h~ J~.t d~dd’ "~ h~,~e-lmucl~ tim.e .~d that. w~- tiieifio~t practic~i, s01ution~- ai~d maybe-theirwas why a fully complete score was never released. Still, it’ S a pleasant listen, especially if you recall the thrill of Christopher Reeve in blue tights and hotpants fondly, as I do. Who paid attention to the score? I must say that Rhino has done a fine job on the remastering; the sound quality is, as I said, incredible. The packaging is odd, : ~~end tdiS~fii Degan~widablotted 3ut : thesun"t;6:~dh~,~il~:tfieS:’,elucima~t;’~,i~oi~r ¯ eclipse, visible ’ih(upstate New York ." occurred in 1451 suggesting another ~ possible¯ d~t~ for these events. The ¯ formalion of the League ended the warfare : between its members bri~ging the Iroquois : a period of unprecedented peace and ¯ prosperity. It also brought political unity ¯ and military power. : "Peacemaker’s Journey" will be ~ releasedMarchT, 2000. seeAmuse, p. 11 The Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay & Trans Alliance presents ANiOKLAHOMO PROMO 2000 2-’~ightSi.~~di’,~y ~f:C£11~loid Scintillation B+~n+i’:~,+++~m+~:~+~*~@+~;~;Chi.~olls, and Out of Se~on Friday, Ma~h 24, 7- I2:0~ midnight .GOd Shave (he Queen,Watermelon Woman Indecent Acts: O~car Wilde, Cynam, P~t~ in Motion, and C~sh Sunday, March~ 26, 2-7pm Different for Girls, All Over Me, Under Heal, and Our Mom’s a Dyke ,.+ Chapman Hall Theater, 2835 East Fifth Street : -. :’- ~.: (not~the+:Alleri~Chapman~Activity Center) Eas{ of Delaware Avenue on the University of Tulsa campus. Please look lL~r rainbow flags to lead you in off Delaxvare Avenue. ¯ Thi+ ex;+fit is offered in +6iijunction withomyn,~&Hentage-Month. Actlvtt~es. P!.eg.s,e=,<+c~+ntact,..~g. J~6~s~+~at’ 63.1~:~3 i:!5 to make arrangements for accessibility, accommodations. �A Jurnpin ", Singin " . Movin" and Groovin" Good Time! by Mary Schepers, Do-lt-Yourself-Dyke : infomiation before promising her vast There was your DIYD, on her knees, ¯. array of skills, tools and energy to a friend aching, throbl~ing~-on the verge of tears - : The particulars of die story ,’ire not wondering why her mouth says "yes" ~ important. What matters is that a favor when her brain screams "No, no, no!" No, ¯¯ was asked of the DIYD - to help lay tile. gentle readers, we are not revie~ving the Rule number one: if the task at hand is one DIYD’s-latest forays into courtship, but ¯ that you are not only good at, but have a ~rather her most recent particular vanity over, Volunteer effort to help out watch out! You m’e very "There was a friend in need. As you susceptible! Alld the accumulate handy skills DIYD is the tile and grout ..~and .-become geuerally di~’a. Having refitedevery perceived as arather useful c6nv~i~tionat stiffaeeinher aehln~., indiv:idual, expect to be liouse, she finds herself asked to help out others. wonderizi~,7 Liii unguarded This is quite fair; after moments, whether the ver~e o~ tears all, most of us, your DIYD garage or the front porch included, have accumucould, benefit from the wonderln$ why lated skills and learned tasteful application of her mouth says lessons (someti~nes not ceramic tile. She was, m positive ones) from those fact, ripe for the phscking. ’yes" when her who:have helped us on our She graciously agreed. Wlfich brings us to rule ownprojects: Quid pro qu,o is a conunon currency tn nmnber two: agree on and the world of home set all the parameters improvement; the student around the proposed evolving into the teacher is an apt, and ! project befom.taldng it On: For those o,,f expected, metaphor. you.who shudder at theword "bom~dafies," " In short,_darlings;give backwhat has so ¯" find a word thai works, b~t do i t~ al!d do it generously been shared.with you~Or begin : thoroughly. This not only protec.ts you ficcumulating favors(that can be repaid ~ from unpleasant surPrises, but the party to later in your own moments Of dire need:It i whom you are lending assistance aswelE is common proffer; it is cxpected,~and it’ Nothing can sour a friendship like an is honorable, and as sly as your DIYD : ~tmisin4¢rpreted and gone aw.ry. ’ may seem, she is absolutely honorable.. : Both sid~ should knowwhat is expected, Therein lies the.theme; the exemplar. ¯ ’ what wil! actually occur, ~hat amount of and the moral of our m0nthlytale. Listen’ ¯ dme is involved, how~.much work is closely and ieani from yore DiYD.-And : inv61vht, hoW much each person is. remember that this is a. cautionary story; : responsible for, and~ what the fairexchange not a vehicle for blame,unless R is your will, be. 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Church,of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday, 1314 North Greenwood, 587-1314 50 New-Books at the Library by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library Over the last few momhs, .the Tulsa City-Cotmty Libraryhas acquired dozens of recent tides of interest to the gay community. Cheek your local branch library for these dries, or call the Readers Services department at 596-7966. LESBIAN FICTION Shy Girl by Elizabeth Stark Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters Hers 3: Brilliant New Fiction by Lesbian Writers 6th Sense: A Cassidy James Mystery by Kate Calloway Bogeywoman: A Novel by Jaimy Gordon Lost Daughters by J. M. Redmann November Ever After by Laura Tones The Other Woman by Ann OiLeary The Vintage.Book oflnternatiomd Lesbian Fiction GAY MALE FICTION Breakfast with Scot by Michae! Downing Comfort and Joy by Jim Grimsley Justice at Risk: A Benjamin Justice by John Morgan,Wilson ~iYnStery k Slip by Rita Ciresi Surrender.Dorothy by Meg Wolitzer Minions of the Moon by Richard Bowes Capital Queers by Fred Hunter Every Manfor Himselfby Orland Oudand His 3: Brilliant New Fiction by Gay Writers LESBIAN NONFICTION The Queen of Whale Cay by Kate Surmnerscale TheWhole Truth:A Case ofMurder on the Appalachian Trail by H. L. Pohlman Monologues and Scenes for Lesbian Actors by CarolynGageJanet, My Mother; and Me: A Menloir of Growing Up by William Murray Baby Precious Always Shines: Selected Love Notes by Gertrude Stein Lesbian Health: Current Assessment and Directions My Lesbian Husband: ALandscape of a Marriage by Barrie Borich Hunting the Witch byEllen Hart Apples and Oranges: My Journey Through Sexual Identity I~y Jan Clausen RestrictedAccess: LeSbians on Disability To Believe in Womem ’What, Lesbians Have Done for America by’ Lillian Faderman GA~ MALE NONFICTION How to Survive Your Own Gay L~e by Pet~ Brass " . Vulgar Favors: Andrew Cunanan, G’ianni Versace, and the Largest Failed Manhunt in U S. History by Maureen Orth Crisis of Desire by Robin Hardy Love in A Different Climate by Jeremy Seabrook Finding the Boyfriend Within by Brad Gooch When It’s Time to Leave Your Lover by Neil Kaminsky see Read, p. 1: " �by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. ¯ in public? Who can use which word, and "Faggots !" I was sitting in my car talking ¯¯ in which context? "Gay" and "Lesbian" to my friend Errol when I heard the word. have recently become broadly accepted One of ErroF s cantankerous neighbors- ¯ terms for homosexuality. Some have also no pal, obviously - had barked at us as he ¯ attempted to revaluate "queer." marched past the car. I didn’t know Revaluation succeeds when the labeled whether tO feel outraged or amused. It had ¯ themselves embrace a slur as their own, been a long time since anyone "called me a defusing its negativ e charge. Thus,"Queer name, at least publicly. Sticks mad stones, Theory" is currently being taught in I thought. And did I really mind being a ¯ Ameficau umversities. faggot anyway? Then there’s "faggot." Faggot, as a Still, the hairon my neck Stood up. negative homos’exual label dates back Rude slurs are good e~idence of the pow er ¯ onlyto 1910, although it was used as early of words. Even-if 0nly symbolic, words ¯ as the late 16th century to slur women. In have an ~mpact. Some words ,are deeds. ¯ fact, a number of today’s Gay slurs Linguists study "’speech acts" that shape ¯ including the term "Gay" itself- were ¯ or change the world. Utterances like "I first applied to women. A "Gay" woman promise, "I apologize," "I resign," or "[I ¯ in 1650 Faagland was a prostitute. Robert name you] faggot!" have serious ¯ Scott’s Gay Slang Dictionary (online at consequences (as anyone knows who has http:/!~vww.hurricane.net/.~vizard/ been "pronounced" man or wife). 19.htnfl) lists 156 synonyms for"fag" mad Language can’carry either a positive or ¯ more appear else~vhere in the dictionary. a negative charge. Both sacred speech and (Scott also has 37 terms for "Lesbian.") profane speech are dangerous. In many These include Spmfish-derived’~maricon" religions, no one knows the name of god. ~ and "’pato," French "tapette" (although Or even where onedo..,e.s; the deity’ s name ¯ pede ~srmss~n~),~dd~sh fe~,ele, and is never uttered aloud, Magical words can British/Australian "poofter." Then there ¯ change the world. The secret word are the more obscure "’cot betty," "sesame" opens the cave. Abracadabra ¯ "daffodilly," "fu," "whoopsie boy," and pulls the rabbit from the hat. Uttering a "uffimay" - "muffie’" in Pig Latin. sacred name can have unintended ~’Faggot,’" unlike "Gay". or "Queer," consequences. You might wake sleeping ~ still remains impolite. The ~vord is gods. It’s safer to steer clear of charged ¯ dangerously profane.. Not many of my labels. ¯ academic colleagues are willing to teach A similar sort of ritualized avoidance of courses ~in "Faggot Theory." But the ¯ naming characterizes many kinship profane is always close to the sacred. systems around the word. Son-in-laws ." Because of its charge, "faggot" is more never pronounce the personal names of- ¯¯ hurtful but also thus more useful indefining their wives’ parents, and .vice versa. In who and what we are. When we name ¯ other societies, brothers and sisters avoid each other by the word, we make a strong, each other’, s names like hot potatoes. ~ pt~blic claim to belong to a shared world Anthropology suggests" that such ¯ .~oFfaggotry. So, still sitting in ~ny 4,’if; I "avoidance relations" smooth over areas jnst gave that !@#S% the evil-eye. of potential social conflict. Negativel5 charged words are equally powerful. The profane also carries a wallop. A curse c,’m kill. The villagers I lived with in Vanuatu were always fearful But in 1996, at a Gay pride parade in Providence, R.I., he took the opportunity when someone spoke evil of thegn. Even if someone swore without thinking, in the to make ,’unends, heat of an angry moment, the ancestr~fl "’I stood tip in t¥ont of 3,000 people mad lnade a public apology to the Gay ghosts ufight hear and punish the person who cursed, or the person who ~vas cursed. couununity aud the two gentlemen who went to that prom together," Ste~vart said. or both. "It was very emotional." " Sociologists of the 1970s formulated what tlaey called "labeling theory?" They Stewart 1]as been criticized bv some iu analyzed the ways in which lal~els, like the Gay connnumty for not being more out froht with his personal relationslfips. faggot, impact both society and the individual. Socially. an arsenal of negative He bristles at that. labels maintains power inequalities. Those "’My personal life is extremely private," he said. "People have a lot of gall to on the bottom of the social ladder shoulder the brunt of these terms. Individually, impose their opinions on someone who’ s such slurs unavoidably tinge our sense of trying to make a difference - to tell me who we are. Like muttered curses, they that because I’ ve reached a certain stature, can harm. Even if we are of the strong, I have to promote some Gay agenda." "words may never hurt us" sort, we still ’~¥qaen it comes to being a role model, Stewart believes it’ s more important to be have to take into account their social currency:We must respond tO slurs if only a great mayor than to spotlight his personal to deny their validity and power over us. life. "Having-openly Gay elected people Labeling theory in the 1970s particularly gives us our place at the table mad proves noticed ethnic slurs the N word, the H that we are just as capable as anybody else," Stewart said. "And it helps change word, and all those othe~ lfibels ,that~e today t66 impolite to say. Dhrin~"~iE last people’s minds abont how to consider Gay people in their daily lives. It’s all generation, American speech etiquette about being positive in what you do." (what socio-linguists call "pragmatics") has shifted to make use of these labels hazardous. More recently, the same has occurred with words like faggot. In a way, however, new politeness rules give these words even more power than they once had, as Errol’ s neighbor may have realized. There is a politics of labeling here. Whose words will become the standard labels - the one everyone safely may use IGTA member Call341.6866 International Tours formoreinformation. Massage Therapy Services ~Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. ¯ Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm @SprinL Sprint PCS" The Clear Alternative to Cellular. Sprint PCS" Select Retailer ;99.95 New Sprint PCS Phone :25.00 Less instore rebate $74.95 Net cost Buyany SprintPCS Phone and get $25 off! 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Thanks to the folks who were willing to come together and fight and be,,,~ocal ~md out when it was much more dangerous to do so, the younger Gay folk do have options we older folk didn~ t have. For thai reason alone, the fight must continue. So get involved, even if it’s coming out to someone you haven’ t yet. The only way to dispel the lies and misi~ffonnation of the radically wgong is to present ourselves as we are - hmnan beings. That h~s done more to change folks around me tha_u all the marching and worn out footwear in the world. And what is it that we all seek, really? Not sex; and people who think that’s what it’s all about are just plain wrong. Tell them so. It’ s about the right to love without being discriminated against. And if they give you guff about that, just tell them what author Lynn Flewelling told me: Love is love. !n April of this year the "Warrior in Two Worlds" documentary will air nationally on PBS. Keep an eye open for the exact time and date in your area. This is a compelling story of Eli Parker, a Seneca Chief and a Union general in the Civil War. Joanne wrote the sound track. It is a nice thing to wish for peace and harmony among peoples; I wonder if it will ever happen. One can only hope thal _ Deganawida will come alo~ag and help create a word that engenders harmony among differing peoples. Maybe then there will be no more Gay bashing, lynching, genocide... Sometimes, with news of another Matthew Shepard-like case -coming along once a week, it’s hard to believe any change is occurring. Yet, I watch TV, and see Will and Grace, and many other shows that have or feature Gay/Lesbian characters, I see films that are about Gay folk even showing here in the crotch of the bible belt (Beautiful Thing, for instance) and can see a difference. Because when I grew up, the only image I had of Gay folk were the man mentioned in the book on birds and bees my parents gave me at 14 - published in 1945 - that stated homosexuals were men who hung around playgrounds in trench coats offering you candy. I remember thinking - in a rare moment when I wasn’t Tuesday, June 6th, an art exhibit, busy suppressing, repressing and denying "United" will open and on Thursday, June - that that was what I had to look forward 8th, there will be a film night. Locations to? That’s what I was? Ick. And the news and times will be announced later. at the time, if Gay folk were mentioned at For more information about these all, "was nothing but images of the most events, call the Gay Community Services whacked out, far out people on the planet. Center at 743-4297 (Gays). Groups who Lovely. want to enter a float in the parade are Now, kids have it much easier. Is it encouraged to attend the float clinic on paradise? No. Obviously not, and there March 11 from 1-4pro at the Center. are people who are very much fighting to prevent growth and understanding, and raising monsters all around us. As Melissa Etheridge wrote in her song "Scarecrow" on the albttm "Breakdown": "’We all gasp Gay Men’s Friendships: Invincible ’this can’t happen here’, we’re all much Cotnmunities by Peter Nardi too civilized, where can these monsters hide?’" She answers: "But they are The Elusive Embrace: Desire and the knocking on our front door, They’re Riddle of ldentity rocking in our cradles, They" re preadfing by Daniel Mendelsolm Prayer Warriors by Stuart Howell Miller in our churches, And eating at our tables." Widescreen Dreaths : Growing Up Gay at And she’s absolutely right; that’s exactly where they are. The boogeymen are out the Movies there; and occasionally they do get you. In by Patrick Horrigan another song on the same album, she Victory Deferred: How AIDS Changed Gay Life in America writes: "There is no marc, There are no ¯ by Johi~-Manual Andriote secrets, We all begin this race at the start, But I have come this far With a truth of the heart. Deep down inside I think we’re all ; OF INTEREST TO EVERYONE the same. Try not to judge someone And ¯ Gay Parents/Straight Schools: Building never shame. I do bdieve that people are ¯ Comnfftnication attd Trust good. They just want hope and respect by Virginia Casper And to be understood. Sometimes it hard ¯ Witness to Revolution: The Advocate sometimes it’s strange But the truth of the ¯ Reports on Gay and Lesbian Politics heart is people can change" ¯ 4 Steps to Financial Securityfor Gay attd And this is true; I’ve seen it happen. Far ¯ Lesbian Couples too infrequently, but it can happen. And ¯ by Harold Lustig that’s the hope that can feed the fire of Multicultural Detective Fiction: Murder change, andkeep us going when it gets too from the Other Side much. And it does feel that way, ¯ Out on Stage: Lesbian andGay Theatre in sometimes. I had gotten to that point, after ". the Twentieth Century seeing the internal strife within the ¯ by Alan Sin.field communities, as well as from outside. ¯ The Queer Sixties by PatriciaJuliana Smith How can we hope to change the world ¯ Gaylaw: Challenging the Apartheid of when we can’t even agree amongst ¯ the Closet ourselves? I’ d certainly decided it wasn’ t ¯ by William Eskridge worth an effort. But my best friend Karin, : To Be Continued, Take Two aftermany years of complaining about the Michele Karlsberg world, has finally taken steps. To at least i by Disidentifications: Queers of Color and make an attempt. And her doing so has ¯ the Performance of Politics reignited a flame within me. And if that ¯ by Jose Munoz spark might ignite another, then perhaps "- Something Inside: Conversations with Gay the tamers of the world can unite. And ¯ Fiction Writers �CouNCiL oak meN’S c or<aLe presents an~eclectic mix.of.choral.literature ranging from Baroque to Broadway, from pop classics of the ’50s and ’60s to a bawdy sea chantey aod an American Folk song featuring the Green Country Cloggers. Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8, 2000 at 8pm Williams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center (reception following) Tickets: PAC box office, 596-7111 in Tulsa, 1,800-364-7111 or online at www,tulsapac.com council oak a fellowship of gay men dedicated to musical excellence in the performnnce of choral literature:, providing a source ot" pride, unity, and support, w;h{]e presenting a positive image for ourselves, our community, and society as a whole. FOR MORE INFORMATION about the council oak me~’s Cl~oI~aLe and its parent organization, the non-profit Vocal Pride Foundation,visit our award-winning website at www.counciloak.org. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Bomber of London Gay Pub Pleads Guilty LONDON (AP) - A man accused of setting off~in~bs i Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulaans, Our Families + Friends : Tulsa’s Largest Circulation CommunityPaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations Louganis to Lead Pride 2000 ¯ Olympic Champion Will Be Parade Grand ¯ Marsha|l and Black Tie Dinner Speaker The Rev. Mel Whiteto Begin Week’s Events TULSA - Some Gay community observers might have thought Rights, the parent apparently targetedatracial minorities andGays pleaded " guilty to three counts of manslaughter late in February " and admitted causing three explosions thatinjuredmore than a hundred people. David Copeland, 23, admitted " planting the bomb that killed three people on April 30,- " at the Admiral Duncan, a Gay pub in central London. " Prosecutors did not immediately accept the ¯ manslaughter pleas, and a further hearing was set for " sometime in March. Copeland also admitted ¯ responsibility for explosions .on April 17 in Brixton, a : south London neighborhood with a large black ¯ population; and April 24in Brick Lane, an east London " neighborhood with a large Banglades.~ population. " NY State’s 1st Gay Mayor " PLATTSBURGH, N.Y. (AP)-. Dan Stewart, New York’s first openly Gay mayor, is intimately acquainted ." with Gay-bashing bigots..AYter all he used to beone.." "When I was in high school, two boys went to court over . the right to go to the prom together," Stewart said. "I ¯ spoke out loudly against them on TV, on the steps of the RhodeIsland Supreme Court. Imade amockery ofthem - because I knew who I was, and I was scared ~to. death people would find me out." ¯ Two decades later, Stewart has no such fears. He was " open about his homosexuality when he ran for mayor of ¯ this lakeside city near the Canadian border last fall. "I told the people,’Iam what ! am- Takeme or leaveme,"’ : Stewart said."Itold them, ’Ifyouchooseto takeme, I’m " going to do one hell of ajob for you. But if you choose ¯ not tO take me because I’m Gay, I understand. I used to : be prejudiced too." : Asittumedout, his sexualitywasn’tanissue. Perhaps ¯ it would have been, had hebronght a male partner to a : political event during his,six years on the City Council. ¯ But Stewart keeps his personal life out of the public eye : ~- mostly 60 miles away in Montreal, where his partner ¯ lives. It also helped that his opponent, the five-term " Democratieincumbent, was knOWn for supporting Gay ." and Lesbian issues such as nondiscrimination statutes, ¯ and had long enjoyed the endorsement of Gay lobby ." groups. "The.race was on community issues," Stewart " said. "My opponent never used the words ’sexual ¯ orientation. ’" ¯ Buoyed by endorsements from Republican Gov. ¯ George Pataki and the city police union, the former Air ° Force sergeant and long-haul trucker won by a narrow ¯ margin, becoming one of five openly Gay city mayors ¯ in the country. " In some ways, Stewart has taken more heat for being " GOP than for being Gay. The Empire State Pride : Agenda didn’t endorse him until the llth hour - and then, he insisted that part of the Gay lobby group’s " $1,000 campaign donation go to the Republican Party. : "I always get thesame thing (from Gays) wherever I go: How canyon be Gay and be a Repubhcan. What as wrong with you?Are you insane?,’"- said Stewart, a tall, " dapper man with an enthusiastic manner and a dimpled : grin. "But there’s a change going on. In exit polls over ¯ the past 10 years, consistently ~a third of people who ¯ identified themselves as Gay have said they voted " Republican." : In a recent interview in his second-floor City Hall ¯ office, see Mayor, p. 7 " that the annual pride festival organizers would be hard pressed to top their accomplishments of 1999 withUS Congressman Barney Frank, Democrat from Massachnsetts, serving as grand marshall of Tulsa’s first Gay Pride Parade. However, event organizers fromTulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, have, at the very least, matched the stature of last year’s speaker with US Olympic champion, Greg Louganis, to se’ive as Grand Mhrshall for the Millennium Pride Parade this June. Louganis’ appearance will cap a week of Pride events which will begin with aninterfaithworship service featuring the Reverend Dr. MelWhite. White is known as an author, forhis autobiography, "’Stranger at the Gate," and formerly as a ghostwriter for right wing religious leaders like Jerry Falwell. White more recently has been leading a social change organization, Soul Force, modeled on the ideas of Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mohatmas Ghandi. Like White, Louganis is also an anthor and an actor as wall as an athlete. His autobiography, "Breaking the Surface" topped the New York Times bestseller list, and as a lecturer, he has spoken about his chall~nges with a difficult childhood, his struggles in coming out and with dyslexia, his experience with domestic violence and with being HIV positive. Louganis wonhis first Olympicmedal, a silver, at age 16 in the 1976 Games. In 1984, at age 24, he won two gold medals, one for the platform and one for the springboard - the first man in 56 years to accomplish this feat. In 1986, he again won awards the same events in the World Championships, and then in 1988, won double gold medals for diving in two consecutive Olympics. Louganis will speak at a black fie optional dinner to be held at the prestigious Summit Club on Friday, June 9th. Tickets for th,e, event are $75/person and there will be a VIP reception at $50~ person. These events will benefit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human : Vermont:Married or Partners? MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - Lawmakers debated last ~nonth whether to limit aproposed domesticpartnership system to stonesex couples or to allow opposite-sex and blood-relative couples to qualify, also. There are some in the Legislature who believe that broadening the proposal might make it more politically palatable to a greaternumber ofpeople, improving its d~ances of passing. But others argue that such a revision would diminish the central aimofthelegislation beingdraftedby theHouse Judiciary Committee: providing therights andprotections ofeivil marriage to Gay and Lesbian couples. As the Judiciary Committee prepares to finish its work on the bill,that debate is coming into sharper relief. Members of the committee faced the issue, along with the potential political implications. "Iunderstand that there are people who see expanding this ... enhances the attractiveness of the legislation," said Committee Chairman Thomas Little, R-Shelburue. "’But I’m not sure we have the time to expl.ore all that stuff." "I support that in prineiple, but it’s a significant diversion from what we’ve been working on," said Rep. Steve Hintgen, P-Burlington. "q hope it doesn’t drive this to a halt." "ff you don’t do it you might drive it to a halt," said Rep. Michael Vinton, D-Colchester. In sum, that’s what the comunttee faces. In recognition of that, Little has been trying to develop a companion to the domestic partnership systemknown as reciprocal benefits, that falls short of the marriage-like benefits that would be provided to Gay and Lesbiancouples. Thereciprocal benefits,.however, might include workers’ compensation benefits that could flow to a reciprocal benefits partner, certain inheritance and real estate and other property benefits. Althouglino votes have been taken,noconsensus has developed in the Judiciary Committee that opposite-sex couple should be included in the domestic partnership system, which the panel has taken to calling "civil domestic unions." There also has not been a lot of discussion in the committee about permitting blood relatives- such as two brothers, two sisters, a brother and a sister, or a daughter and her elderly mother - to become domestic partnerships. ¯ But such expansions have been discussed down th~hall in the Ways and Means Committee, the tax-writing panel that will have to review the tax implications of the bill Rep. Albert Perry, DRichford, see Vermont, p. 5 orgamzation of the Gay Community Center and Oklahoma’s oldest Lesbian and Gay non-religious organization. Organizers anticipate that the Greg Lougams parade will follow the stone route as last year, beginning at the Ga~’ Community Center.at 37th and Peoria and ending. at Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder. The parade will begin at llam. The Pride Festival will also begin at Veterans Park at 1 lain and will continue till about 7 or 8pro, finishing off the week’s events. TOI-IR organizers include Kerry Lewis as chairperson of the overall effort, "Htunanity United for Human Rights - Diversity Celebration 2000," Greg Gatewood,TOHR presidentandfestival chair. Audra Sommers, parade chair, Lynn Moesteller, sponsor chair, Mitchell Savage, media chair, Kris Kohl, festival entertainment chair and Ned Bruha, in charge of festival booths and beverages. Other Pride events include a Soul Force workshop, led by the Rev. Mel White, to be held in the Performing Arts Center (PAC) LowerLevelTheatre onJune3, Saturday,from 2-5pro (free). That evening also at thePACDoenges Theatre,theTOHRFollies, not seen for a number of years, will reprise, 100 Years of Broadway with tickets available through the PAC. see Pride, p. 11 : Gordmans recently invited diva Audra Sommers to try shopping with them again after shefirst receivedpoor treatment atthe Yale Ave. store. Sommers praised the Corporate and store managementfor their.responsiveness, Gay Men’s Chorale to ¯ Hold Spring Concert ¯ TULSA- Council Oak Men’s Chorale will present ¯ two concerts on Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8 ¯¯ at 8pm in the John Williams Theatre of Tulsa’s ¯ Performing Arts Center. The concerts, entitled "’Harmonic Diversity" will feature music from ~ Broadway tunes, 5O’s & 60’s pop songs, "sea ¯ chanteys," a Welsh lullaby, and a baroque piece. -" The Green Country Cloggers will perform a cameo ¯ number. : The Council Oak Men’s Chorale is a fellowship of Gay men dedicated to musical excellence who : seek to provide a source ofpride, unity and support ," and to present a positive image for themselves, the ¯ Gay community and to society, as a whole. The ¯ group is a chapter of the Tulsa-baSed Vocal Pride Foundation, and a member of GALA: the Gay and " Lesbian Association of Choruses. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S. 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Later, a few video screens and film clips are added. ¯ Still, nothing else is reallyneeded to tell ¯ the story of Matthew Shepard and the effect his-murder had on the town-of ¯ Laramie, Wyo. It is a spartan, yet ¯ appropn,’,ate setting for "The Laramie Project, astirring, emotional tale, almost ¯ epicinscaleas itswirls through thedetails of this young gay man’s brutal death and ¯ how the residents ofLaramiedealtwithit. The-play, which had its world premiere ¯ in February at the DenverTheater Center, ¯ presents a cavalcade of characters ¯ portrayedby eightactors from theTectonic TheaterProject, aNewYork-based troupe. ¯ They even play themselves. "TheLaramie Project," writtenby these ¯ actors as well as otherTectonicmembers including founder Moises Kaufman, was drawn from their interviews with more than 200 people. Yet it is more than just ,docudrama. It is a story of feeling as well ¯ as fact. Each gets its fair share of stage ¯ time, grounding the evening in reality ¯ without sacrificing the emotional intensity of people trying to deal with their hopes, ¯ fears and prejudices. ¯ What makes "The Laramie Project" so ¯ intriguing are its shades of gray. Nothing is simple. There are no easy answers in coming to terms with Shepard’s death. ¯ Kaufmanandctmpanypresenta variety ¯ of memorable portraits culled from their taped interviews. There’s Reggie Fluty, ¯ thepolicewomanwhountied Shepardfrom ¯ the fence post. As vividly portrayed by ¯ Mercedes Herrero, Fluty is a vibrant ¯ woman, confronted with something so ¯ horrific that she says, at one point, "They ¯ show showed me a picture.., days later I saw a picture of Matthew... I would ¯ have never recognized him." ¯ Equally unnerving are comments from Rulon Stacey, spokesman at the hospital where Shepard died. In Greg Pierotti’s intense performance, Stacey breaks down, ¯ watclfingthecourageofShepard’sparents ¯ as they confront their son’s death. Pierotti also gives weightandan emotional honesty : to the commonsense statements from a ¯ priest, Father Roger, who decides to get ¯ involved in leading a vigil for Shepard. What ties the townspeople together are ¯ their efforts to understand. As the doctor ¯ who first treated Shepard when he was ¯ broughtintoaLaramiehospital emergency ¯ room says,"This is something thatoffends us. I used that word a little earlier and I ¯ think that’s a good word. It offends us!" Stephen Belber excels at two of the ¯ showier roles in the play - particularly a ¯ tough-talking taxicab driver who ¯ epitomizes the "live and let live" ¯ .philosophy that threads its way through ." the speeches of many of the many of ¯ people interviewed. ¯ Right now, "The Laramie Project" is ¯ still undergoing changes. Thirty minutes ; were cut from the play after the .first ¯ preview. Even now at two hours and 45 minutes, it could use more of a trim. : Shepard himself is not a character in ¯ "The Laramie Project," but his presence ¯ haunts the play. It hovers sweetly yet sadly over the entire proceedings, as well ¯ as the town he loved so much. That is only appropriate. As one of the residents says at the end of the evening, ’¢I’he last thing Matthew Shepard saw on ¯ this Earth were the sparkling lights of Laramie, Wyo." Lesbian Survey Results In the past two years, you may have seen an amlouncement about a study on how "Lesbians and thei? sisters are similar or different." This mmouncement appeared in 200 Lesbian mad Gay/Lesbian periodicals (including Tulsa Family News). It was also sent to 614 Lesbian/Gay religious orgamzations; 105 Lesbian bars: 54 women’s bookstores; 346 cmnpus Lesbian/Gay Bisexual/Transgender groups; and 83 groups listed as "’etlltlicimttlticul tural." Tiffs research was conducted by Esther Rothblum, a liprofessor of psychology at the University of Ver-mont, who studies Lesbi~m igsue~. She was interested~in how Lesbians mid their heterosexual sisters differ on demographic factors. For exanlple, manv studies about Lesbimas have found them to be highly educated, not very religi,ous, and livi~’lg in l:u’ge cities. Obviou_’~ly, this does not describe all Lcsbia~, but there mav be reasons why Lesbimls are differeut flom women iu the general U.S. population. .... eontrlbutes to [Lesbian] demoSraphle factors? ¯ .. }-][ere are some speeulatlons: - Hi her education may result in beeomln Lesbian . . Y For example, Lesbians may move to large cities to find other Lesbians, to moveaw@froth their parents and their politically conservative home town, or to be more anonwnous. Similarly, Lesbians nmy have high levels of education bccanse they didn’t get married innnediately after lugh school, or didn’t have clfildren at a you age. In this study, Rothblunt conipared Lesbians’~vith thei?~ sisters. Unlike members of other minority groups (e.g., African-Americans, Jews, inunigrants), Lesbians (mad Gay men) differ m one importm~ respect in that their sibhngs me generally members ofthe domimmt gr0tq~ (hctcrosexnalsL In the case of biological sisters, thex would share the stone race m~d etlmicitv, and have had th~ s~une parents. The\ mav also bc close in age. So tiffs method would allo~, vou’to exmnine the lives of Lesbimls side by side with sistel.s who m-e not Lesbian. A total of 1,2(~- questiotmmres were requested bx email, telephouc, or mail. mad 762 of these were retullmd. Ilcrc are the results of the 184 sister pairs iu which one was Lesbim] mid the other \vas heterosexual: - Lvsbians arc older thm] their heterosexual sisters. - Lesbiaus are also more likely to be first-bores when looking at ages of all l)rother’s mad sisters. (This is interesting, because research on Gay men has sho~vn thcnt to be younger sons.) - Lesbians have higher levels of education th,’m do diet r heterog~’,~Ual sisters. - Heterosexual women are more likely to be homemakers than their Lesbian sisters. There ,are no differences in other types of employment status, or on occupational level. - Because Lesbians have higher educationM levels, they would be expected to have a higher individual income. Still, Lesbians mad dleir heterosexual sisters had similar individual mid fanlily incomes. - Heterosexual women were part of formal religions iu adulthood, whd’~as L~lSfan~ Were mtte likely to endorse altenmtive spiritual beliefs. - Lesbians were more likely to be living with a female partner or living alone. Heterosexual sisters were more likely to be married, li vh~g with:a,~ale p.,?r,mer, m~d living with children - For those wonlen . in a relationslfip with a partner (121 Lesbians ,and 149 heterosexual women), heterosexual women have been in this relationsltip for a longer time period ( 11.4 years) than Lesbians (6.87 years). - Lesbians were more likely to be"]iving in a large city than their heterosexual sisters. - There is no sig~fificant difference in how many years sister pairs have been living in their current location. - But Lesbians live further from their previous location than do heterosexual sisters. ¯ by Dave Fleischer : Senior Fellow, Policy Institute ¯ National Gay and Lesbian Task Force ¯ As ourcommunity faces anew wave of Millennial anti- " Gay ballot measures, it would be easy to be fearful about ¯ our prospects. After all, eight out of twelve votes on ¯ homophobic referenda went against us in 1998 and 1999 ¯ alone. Yet the shocking thing about our cotmnumty ¯ losing so many elections is that we actually "know how to ¯ win them. What effective strategy ¯ persuades voters to stand :-, with-us? After six years ¯ training Gay, lesbian, ¯ bisexual and transgender ¯ (GLBT) leaders around the ¯ country to run for office and ¯ manage campaigns, I know ¯ it’ s when we "come out mad ¯ talk" - engage voters one- ¯ on-one and ask them what ¯ they think. ¯ Vehen we do, the fuzz)’, unflattering image of us as ¯ oddities from an X-Files episode dissolvcs._ Voters ¯ reconsider who we are and are much less likely m fall ¯ for propaganda that makes us out to be something we’re ¯ not. Just as importantly, what proven strategy identifies ¯ voters who are already supportive? The very stone ¯ conversation. Because when we do "voter I.D.’" -askiug ¯ each voter "Can we count on your vote’?" - we build a ¯ reliable list of Gay and pro-Gay voters to whom ~ve can ¯ return, to turn out our vote, election after election. Since ¯ many of our strongest supporters often miss clectious, ~vc _. lose without this kind of follow-up. Making a voter I.D. list isn’ t glamorous, but it makes or ¯" breaks our campaigns across the country. Maine offers a useful case study. In February 1998, fineGLBTconmlunit3 ¯ lost Maine’s state-wide law bmnung discrinlination ou the basis Of sexual onentation. It had taken Maine leaders ten years to pass the law: die Christian.C.oalition erased it ten months after it passed, despite a vali-anl battle bv our How did we lose? The New York Times post-electiou analysis was ~ shockingly clear. It quoted a Bowdoin .: College professor with 25 years, of Maine polling ¯ experience, who said, "Maine is no more mtolcrmn than ¯ other states, and given a well-lq_ln "gay;-rights- c&mpatgn, would likely split into tw.o canlps, with 55%. supporting ’Gay rights’ mad 45% against." A well-rim cmnpaign is built on turmng out its base. The low turnont of pro-Gay voters cost us the election. How did the Christian Coalition tuna out ~ ts supporters. ¯ when we couldn’t? They prepared for the election by starting tQ identify their voters well m ad\m~ce. Eigl~t months before electiol~ day, the Cln’istian Coalitiou gathered 58,000 petition si~latures to call the February 1998 election. They began the cmnpaign With the name, address and phone number of 58.000 voters who they could turn out to vote. Pro-Gay activists started withno sitnilar list. We cotfld have- m November 1995. voters across Maine defeated ml m~ti-Gay measttre. But the "95 cmnpaign didn’t talk with voters oue-on-ouc to idenlify our supporter,s. Of the 221.562 people who voted with us, our comnmnity eudcd "... eight out of twelve votes on homophoble re~erencla went-a.~M~nst us in 1998 and 1999 alone. Yet the shoekin$ thln$ about our eommunlty losln$ so many eleetlons is that we actually hnow how to win them . . 7’ the canlpaign -l~aowing the nmnc. address and phone number of fewer than 3000 Gav.and pro.Gay,voters. - -. X\~ began the" 98 cmnpmgn with 30(~) on our list..versus 58,000 on theirs. Whc~ e]ectiou day ’98 crone, wc lost by 7.299 votes, bccansc 83,409 who voted wiOa us in "95 didn’t ttma out to vote again in "98. We lost Ihal election, but we shouldnt lose [le~’l - so long as lcmn from theexpencucc. For cxmnple, wc will likely fnce an anti-’Gay repeal vote just like Maine’s m *’liami-Dade Couutx The upconm~g cmnpmgl~ is hatmtcd bx the one wc losl [111977 It Anita Brvaut"s "’Save timChildren" cauapai~n Fortunatel y, key leaders in SA VI ~ Dade, the local lmlnan rights group, Jorge Murstfli. Shcila O’Fmlell, Gcore Kctclholm. mid Griscl R~xlrigncz, have begun to bnihl their list. By lcachiug lcssous flom other canq)aigus, thcx have motivated their vohmtccrs to talk face-to-face VOleI’S. On July 29. SAVI~ l)adc had its biggest voter I success v~t. In twelve hours. 300 volunteers had facc-tofacc couversations with 4.909 voters. SAVE Dadc has ~dreadv built its list to iududc 15.000 Gay and pro-(~a vol~rs. Ofcourse. 15.0(~) i s not cu~)n~ h. ’l’bc Chfis finn ( ~o~ d i u will begiu their cmnpmgn with a lisl of 33,000 SUpl)ortcr~ of their own. Ihe number ol l)ClH~on ~igllaturc~ Ihc~ to put lhc issue on lhc ballot Butdm SAVE l)adc strategy to invite our fi’icnds to Ihi election ~s a winning one. On July 29, as they realized what they had done and bcguu, Shcila O’ Farrell c-nmilcd me: "’Well. Dave. you szfid 6.000 and I laughed. You ~aid 30 phonc bm~k~ with 10+ vohmtccrs m~d I rolled m~ c~ And tomght we exceeded any expectations I ever had do you kuow what? 1 guess that trap we teach rcall’ woi:ks~ I think 1 had quit bclicvmg thal Thanks cliallenging mc " In tough elections, there is uo SmUt Claus. XVc have ~lOW who our friends ;u’c if we xv~uit to win:’]’o klloXv xx they ~u-c, wc have lo ask. onc-oll-OllC. Then wc C~l~ thai List mid check il twice - and win the Iougla election. that lic almad - Lesbimls live flirther from their lnother :rod from thcilfather than do their heterosexual sisters - l~sbim~s have moved to fl]cir CUlTent locatiou because of their oxvn cducatiou. I [ctm’oscxtud women have movcd to their cu~ent location because of their partuer’s job. - Lesbians have higher self-esteem titan do their beterosexuM sisters -There are at differences bet~veen sister pmrs ou any measure of mentM health (such as depression, m~xietv. etc,) z Lesbians and their hEterosexnalsigters ~e 6x~ctlx the san~e average height (5 feet 5 inches) but Lesbians w~igh more (161 lbs on average) than do hctcroscxn~d sisters (143 lbs). -Lcsbimis are more likel~ to have been in l)sychotherapy than their heterosextu~ sisters. - Both sisters tend to have heMth insurance, but heterosexual sisters are more likely to have health insurance through their parmer, and to have dental lnstlr~lce, hnplications: HeterosexuM women ~e more like census data of U.S women than are Lesbians on: m~age, living wifl~ rome pm’tner Ctfildren Religion ~ucation Population density Convelfience smnples of~sbim~ flint fiud that I ~sbim~s live in l~ge cities, ~e lfighly educated, have a lo~v income relative to education, and may not be religious, may~morerepresentative ofthe ~sbians who p~ficipate m Lesbian communily organizatious ~md c\cnt.s What is it about being a Lesbian that contributes to dcmoglaphic factors? llcrc arc some speculations: 13cing older and firsl boru may result in Increased education. - Not bciug mmTied or havi~ tg children at a yotmg age, living Mone and/or not beiug in a long-term rclationslfip umv. result iu highcr education and geographic mobility. tli~hcr education may result iu becoming I.csbimi - Liging in l~ge cities nmy expose women to l.esbian " d0nmlfinifies. ............ Wlmt is it abont being a Lesbian that contribntcs mental health and other factors’? Ilelc arc some specu.lati ous: - Do l.esbians reln~fin<~m~l:byedin order to mmff}ain hcMth insurance whereas liet:~ro~eXnM lnm’ried can become homenmkers due to their husbands’ 6cncfits? - Are Lesbiaus less focused ou weight and appearance? Or do heavier young women become ~sbians m~d!or increase edncadon becanse of fewer dating or relatiouship options? - Does Lesbians" greater use of psychotherapy account for dmlack ofmentM hemth differences between ~sbians (a stiglnatized group) and their heterosexnM sisters? - Does belonging to a supportive conmm~fity account for Lesbians’ higher self-esteem A Newspapers Refuse to Print PFLAG .Listing LOS ANGELES (AP) - A family of weekly newspapers distributed free to 126,000 Central Coast households and businesses has created an outcry over its refusal to publish news deemed favorable to Gay orpro-choice viewpoints. More than adozeneditorial employees of tWO of ~he papers have quit since the policy came to ,light last week. The papers, which circulate in San Luis Obispo, Paso Robles andAtascadero, have beenhit with about 400 cancellation-requests. Earlier this week, about 100 people protested outside the County courthouse in San Luis Obispo, some carrying signs that read, "No Bigotry. in My ~owa,’: : The c~rttro~er~y:ste:r0s from:a ¢:ommuuity calendar listing; for~ Parents, Friends and ~Eamily~0f Lesbians ahd ~ays~ Bisexuals .and Transgendered Persons, which ran in the’Atascadero Gazette from Nov. 25 until Feb..17.~’=That’ s whe,n the paper’s editor, Ron Bast, wa~ ioid tlie chain S owner had 6rdered the listing pulled.Bast-said he was told there were to be no storie~ tli~ ~lit~ed Gays or abortioninafavorable light. He has since quit, saying he believes the paper has failed in its mission to provide unbiased coverage of the community. Civil rights acavists, meanwhile, said theywere appalled at the action ofcompany owners Mary and DavidWeyrich."Hehas th~ fight todothi~ofcourse, ¯ incorporating as a nonprofit organization, outlining : possible programs and figuring outhow to pay for the ¯ gathering place. : Travis Blackwell, 33, co-chairman of the planning ~ committee, said he hoped the center would be a place ¯¯ for anyone to getin touch with the Gay community. "And I hope it will raise asvareness, understanding : and tolerance for the lesbian, Gay, bisexual and transgender community," Blackwell said. "That’s. one aspect. Theotheris actually having a central place. where we cau all be safe and meet and take part in programming and workshops and things that better each of us as well as our community as a whole.’" Gay centers across the country offer everything from soccer leagnes to medical services, counseling -and day.care. Although cities nationwide of about the same size as-Charlotte have had. them.for years, no other North Carolina city has a center, qocai ;Gay leaders ,said. In 1996, Mecklenburg County commissioners cut arts funding after a local production of the Pulitzer prize-winning play "Angels in America," because of its homosexual content. And last year, Samantha Gellar won a contest for young playwrights in 1999 with her story of two women who meet on a bus, fall in love and share a kiss. The contest sponsors would not allow it to be performed, saying its subject matter was not appropriate for the festival’ s middle and high school audience. . United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11=00 am Pastor 623 N. Maplewood 9181838-1715 " ~ i" f"~ ......... Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2~Lg South Yale, Sundays at llam, "/49-0595 A Welcoming Congregation hnttheparttliatupsetmepers°nallyisthathehadaI MiSSiSsippi Lawmakers representing this as atmecommuuity .newspap~," Move to Bar Adopbons said Robyn Murphy, past president ~of.the central, i Coast Gay and.L~bian Alliance. . .... i , , . . ; JACKSON, Miss. (AP) - Mississippi lawmakers The vtfeytichs m-owned billlioard giant Martin.i moved, to bar Gay couples from adbpting children Mediabefoxe thecompany wassold fo~$610 mi’llion, with a Tuesday debate about morality and the fea~ of great deal of support starting out because he was HOUSE OFTHE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am t... ,~,~,~ ~,,. :rt..,~..,, u~,~. ~ \Ve~,~,~ : e~ag homosexuality. The executive director Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm Wim,~v Tlu~_v mtMi~ho~l a ~lat~mt~.nt ~,i Ihe~r ° Of~Misst$$1[~!. ~list Cofl¥1~aUon Boald teld a p.mt.os.op.n.~.tn..re.ce.nt.e.m.uoUS.. .t.n..c. issu~c ~nas ¯. ~Hou.s~e su.b..c-m.n.:m.m.ee..th.at.e.h¯iidr©n rinsed ~,:~z,’~n~’~’~ ~1~ U~ith ;nt,~orilW mtt4 ~ih0 tnd~ Wifl~ - ¯ Ilomosexuals 0~i10,1~ more mt~v to ue troy. .... ~:~..~.~ .... ............. ¯....-, ..... ~ ...... Opponentssmdtheyfeareddieadoptionbanwould ’ ~ " [ ....=~,, v~v,,-- " ¯ ’ ** * " ..... " ...... v....................... Licensed Professional & National Certified ~ ~ .... ° " ....¯ "- -;: = ;’d -~ ; onentauon =s irrele ant m adopttons; .... ...... uast ann omer mrmer stm;ers Sma mey m not , ¯ ,~,~-~; t,^^,,_:,,= ~:=,~:..... editorial content of the publicattons when theylbegan ¯ . _~ :_ ,t.~. r... u..... ~. a:.~. - m.~t.rj.ous, xnep,a~e,rs,ue~g~o:p~p~nexntgmt~t~.um ~r,: Barber said he eame to the Capitol on behalf of a Aft~l"Hours AppointmerltsAvailabl~ wire iwo more scneameo . . . , , . ................. s saidthe : Gaycoupletrymgtoadoptachild ‘They re upstanding 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Suite 21.5, 745-1111 Wevrichs ar~ notdictatino content. iuSt our ¯. etuzens~ ~neynappentouenomosexna~ -notrelevant. philosophy, which has ~. d~ from day one." "The staff onboard has a dear understanding of the Weyrichfamilyandtheirvalues," he said. "Inpublisher meetings throughout the pastmonths,wehave covered these topics in depth." He said-the Gazette papers, which promote themselves with the slogan "Hometown Journalism at its Best" on the bottom of each front page, also refuse advertisin,g from nightclubs and tobacco companies. ~’We ve picked.up 13 new advertisers because of this," Hansen said. "We’ve received 400 e-mails this week that arejustpo,sitive mid supportive. Pemple resiXct,,us for’what ~ve ve Said ~and that we stand up for it. One observer says the debaie has at least one upside - forcing residents to discuss the meaning of the First Amendment. ’YI’he idea that free speech and a free press is being discussed is extremely healthy,!’ said Randall Murray,a California Polytechnic,,U,niversity,. San Luis Obispo, journalism professor¯ While not embracing~Weydchor..his,views, ~ereali~.Lhat he is peffecdy secure to set editorial policy. Rather than impose on him ,o,ur editorial policing, the remedy is coUnter-speech. " i ’ ~: " Charlotte Gays Plan Community Center CHARLOTTE (AP) - Charlotte, the city that has drawn national attention in recent years for its anti- Gay atmbsphere, could have its first-ever community center for Gays as early as 2002. The Community Center Planning Committee will spend the next six months scouting for a location, ¯ They would make good parents," Barber said. " The Rev. Jim Futral, the Baptist leader, said by ~ allowing Gays to adop,t., the state would encourage ¯ homosexual lifestyles. These kids will be influenced ¯" in a way wedon’ t want them tO beinfluenced," he said : during the hour-long meeting. Rep. John Reeves, RJac. kson, the subcommittee chairman, said the bill was not meant to punish Gay people but was "trying to do what’s right by the children." Rep.. Gary Chism, R-Columbus, said legislators should be concerned about children and "we shouldn’t place them. in a lifestyle that’s unnatural." "It gives an indication to thatchild that this is aproperrelationship," Chism said. Mississippi is among five states this year debating legislation over adoptions, by Gays, according to Hector Vargas,’a lawyer for the Washington-based National Gay and Lesbian TaskForce~o,The others.are . Hawaii, Oklahoma, South Carolina and Utah: vargas said judges’ rtmin consideration "should be whether or not the parents are a loving couple and can provide for the child." " The bill also says that the state will not recognize ¯ adoptions by Gay couples in other states. That : provision could be unconstitutional, Vargas ~id. "_ Several states have been sued over policies banning ¯ Gays from adopting.. Only Horida statutorily bars " Gay couples from adopting. ~ Robin Lemer, staff attorney for the American Civil ¯ Liberties Union in Mississippi, said state lawmakers : shouldbe worried about crime committed by children ¯ who grow up without families. ’‘The greater issue is " how can we best raise children to be good adults," she said. Red Rock Tulsa. O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting limes and place: 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers .... . 9413E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 ¯ 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-A.A..A-5934 Family Owned & Operated Trinna L. W. 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Cincinnati. 582-4128’ The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Georgia Hate Crimes Bill ATLANTA (AP)- Several hours after Palm Sunday seryices ended at Red Oak United Methodist Church, parishioners found themsdves watching from the cemetery outside as the ehnrch was Consumed by fire set by monists. "I stood there in the graveyard with mymembers, singing while it burned down," saidthe .Rev. John W: Pace, pastor of the black church in Stoekbridge. ’ It was hopeless. We could not stop the fire." Pace says his congregation was victimized by a hate crime. And he wasn’t alone in asking the Hons~ ~ J~.di~ary C0mmitte,elo appr~ove stiffer penalties.for cn.mes .~lotivated by race, religion, gender or sexnal onentataon. Committeemembers also hear~~rom arabbi whose -synagogue was vandalized and a Gay mm~ who was assaulted with a knife at his throat. "Terrorism has an impact both on the victims and an .impact on the community at !arge," said Sen. Vincent Fort, DAtlanta, ~e bill s author. "Hate crimds are terrorism because of that fear." Barron Segar,.a professional fund-raiser, told the committeehow he was~surrounded by eight menafter -leaving aGay nightclub in Atlanta:in 1992. One ofthe men grabbed Segar from behind and helda knife to ¯ But Rep. Dan Grossman, D-Denver, and other : oppo.nents said the Vermont Legislature appears to be ¯¯ moving towardrecognitionof ’~domesticparmerships’’ rather,than same-sex marriages. The final vote came ¯ after opponents argued it was a simple attack on ¯ homosexuals. "Thebillis nothingmore than something : based on fear and I think it is an irrational fear,’" : Grossman said. "What horrible thing would happen : to us. It s gratmtous and mearisspirited:’" ~, - : ¯ Supporters denied that. "It’s based oh the ¯ accumulated wisdom and experience of cultures for ¯ 7,000 years," said Rep. Shawn Mitchell, RBroomfield. "We alwayshave i:ecognfized as-self- !eviklent that marriage i~s~joinih~dfopt~site m~mbers :~ .,o~ the human species." Pas~hail !said ~h~ Offered the measnre as a reiriforcement OP’gootl publicpolicy." Gay Teens Ask. ,Peers For Tolerance MIDDLETON, Wis. (AP) - Cal!ing.for an end to harassment and narrow-mindedeess, a group of Gay and Lesbian teen-agers and their friends,is trying to ¯ persuade a majority of teachersand students to sign a p edge ..calling for tolerance_ 9.f ~students of all hi.s .thro.at. "This is what we do to (Gays)," the man i b~k.:grounds and persuasions..! .... : - . . . ,:v, s;xtut.d~,:~uxs~i;n~g:;.a~n.~,=e.~.p,i.,t.~h.e=t..f~o.r~~=h2o~~.a,:,;o,_s~.e:.x-~u..a.l.s....~~:.e.~a.~l’,t.~~k.e.r...¯ , ~ndse,y.Clough., one of t.he s.~,d.e.nts o~g.amzang the - ~.,.~.~.~;mto ~g~uuuu mau-m¢ men scattere~; u o pma- ge0~,o~ nve.~ stud _s_he. ~dent.do.;~~ es-w...i.m... the GaY hves-w~th;’me~erV day: tstilt~liaTe=iti!~h~es,’’ ¯ coun~.l!mty m. part tw.eause a €~e friend of her ;Sdgari~"dt~B~ifhly~~ttaek~dis d0h; ( Tli~se~’~r~ed tw~ : family lost a partner to AIDS.. 8hedeS..eti’bed, her " W~eks mtail ...... ..... " ,, ~. childhood as extremely difficiilt~ .r and said she has :: :;~ Rabbi;,TS.= ¯Robert Iehay of ~-Coni~te~ati~ix:,or: found. ,Goys and.lesbians to be’,~’0_~e.~0f the most : VeShalrmre~lled:h0w ~e synagog~e.~ ~D~I~alb. ¯ und..d.~smnd.ingpe°ple I’ve met in.~y~|ifei:r . "- C0tmtv ~ag vandalizex~1~4,e~;ffi-th~ag~iV",~ai~t’~ " ] ne stug~nt ~oup says its goalis to get most of the ¯d .. - , .r..’~ ¯ M ~1-~ ¯ " ,-~ " ¯ ::Nl~ri:sw~ligas~dthewords~bloodsuek~r~~ ot~b~t~ " : school s 1,600 students and 200. teachers.to s~gn a ,~Sihee’thetL~I~l~ysaid,:the c0n~i~galion ~~-had:a ."-pled~e’.~f!~lerance andinthe.p~to~e~at the police.om~atev~’serv~ce~unetion=indMing_ i s¢.h~l a~qepts a!l students..... weddings .iWe~sleepat¯ni~ht;’;hesaid::"Bat~livavs ~. :rng~schoolisoftenaprimepla~efor~a.ystudents " t~i.tll;an.e~ie :6~,, .in case~°omea,~,;; k~,,,~a,,~ ,,,-: -~ : ¯ to be dbused, accordimz to a reoort last. Year bv the " Fort~s bill ¯passed -the Senate,bv~jttst’two~rtes ~ Gay,...L~,~fib!an and Strmght Educatto.n Network. The -. ~arlier thi’s m~nth, Thebi!t~,a!lr~S.~n~es to ii~se -. gr°up~,~9_Yed teens in32 states imd f~un~ that 91 percent of Gay and lesbian teens reported up to five years in cases Where.~ey determine the : "homo.phobic" remarks at school and 69perccnt said victims were chosen because of race, color, religion, national origin, ancestry, ei’hnicity, gendei, disiibility or s~xiial 0dentationl ...... . COlorado -Ban-on Gay Marriage Advances DENVER, (AP) - A marriage.between, one man and one woman would be the 0uly uniOn r~cogni2ed as .legally validby the state under a’bill approved by House lawmakers. The House,-which approved the .measureon a 36-29 vote; sent it to-the-Senate, where -it- probabl.y wDuld :pass,.,according to Sen. Mark Hillman, R-Burliugton. Senators approved a shnilar proposal earlier this inonth. Gov. Bill Owens has said he.would sign the bill if approved by the I eegislature. In its original version, House Bill 1249 would have authorized courts to enforcenbnee0n0~nic provigions of prenuptial ¯contracts Spousoring Rep; "Mark Paschall, R-Arvada, succeeded Monday in.stfippi.ng all language from the bill-and substituting it with provisions to ban same-sex.marriages and to ensiire the state, would not recognize S,’une-sex marriages ,pefformedJoutside~tsbordet~: :=:~ ,:, ~,, As it did Moilday, the Hbuse on :ruesda) .rejected a motiOn ,to~ send the bill to- the:House~:Jddiciary Committeeforapublic hearing. Moderate~Republieans _. on.. that, com~ttee.lastl v~ab joined.~t~b~rats in kiliing a-’.similar;bill2 Coni~nitteemeinb~sargued~hat they should be allowed.to, giv~ ~the-bill a(public~ hearing; but Paschall and other supporte,,r.s~ said¯ the~ -concept l~as :had extensive public input. obvious, transparent attempt to kill the bill, said House Majority Leader Doug Dean; R-Colorado Springs. He and other supporters said the measure is necess.ary to avoid forcing Colorado to officially re¢ogmze same-sex marriages performed elsewhere. Supporters said a recent ruling by the Vermont Supreme.Court called for legislative action on samesex mamages, and that action could mean official recognition of such unions. ¯ theyexperieneedsomeformofharassmentorviolence. " Patrick Kelly, an openly Gay freshman, said that while Middleton tends to be more accepting of Gay : students,thanmany otherhigh schools, there is always ¯ room forJmprovement. ¯ "’ LisaAarli, a teacher who advises the student group, says she has seen great enthnsiasm over the pledge ¯ event. "It’ s given a lot of kids someflfiug to Nab onto for a lot of different reasons," she,said. :’The kids on ¯ the margins ,are being pulled into something big m~d ¯ prayerful in tke school." . .... ¯ said he beieved the l~gislature sliotfld be.as.inclusive ¯ as possible in the bill nmv, rather th,-m have to face ~ such questio~m agMn some other, time. "My persom~ ¯ opimon is I don?t wm~t to have to.go t~ough ins for " another reason. I don’ t want another ~gislature to go " tl~ough ~s," he said. Little wo~d prefer to keep tfie_~co~.e:.’of the bill focused on the Gay and ~sbi~conples who sued for " the fight tomTy in the fi~st place..~at’s ~vhy the qivii d0m~l[¢.u~on bill~so~eloselyznfi~ors~age ¯ statutes. ?We haven’t seen ~y, eviOence that people ¯ that ~e.bro~ers and sisters, bro~ers ~d ’bro~ers, " sisters: ~d sisters seek to eslablishthe:s~e,.Nnd of " : inti~m~ -~i!~~:ha~e~felt~th~ discfi~fio~~their efforts toestablis~$~ly : u~," ~tfle sMd. ’~e desi~ of the ~iIl, we hope, is " to ereate~ a NNo~on" ~vherN~e~ ~ n6-~:~ateriM ¯ ~ ~, 7 " -~ ~’ ¯ ~:,..~ =~ .: ~:.~;,~ ~,,,~ : ~. ~:~.~ . ¯ff~en~ between ~fir~age-~fl domeshc"umons) ~d t-herefore no consti~utionM differe-n~’~between " ~€ tWO." . However at a r~ent Repub]i~ S~te Co--tree : meet~g, Ve~ont Republic.s rejected, at least ¯ tempos]y, a push by the p~ty’s state chM~, " Pa~ck G~, for a ConsdmdonM ~en~ent " supporting opposite-gender m~fiage o~y, The ¯ pro~sM stated ~atbemuse ~e state Supreme Court’ s : derision in B~er v. State open~ ~e door for s~e- . gender m~age, ~e OenerM Assembly shoedbe~ ¯e pro~ss of ~en~ng ~e constitution. ’4, JeSSeJackson Get H!Y Test WASHINGTON (AP) - The Rev. Jesse : Jackson stuck a cotton swab between his ." cheek and gums Thursday to demonstrate : how easy it is to take an oral test for the ¯ virus that causes AIDS and to encourage ." other black Americans to be tested. " ’q’he crisis has not left. It is no longer " fron.t-page. It’s not gunfire. It’s not ." cocame, crack or heroine. It:s not gang ¯ warfare," said the civil rights leader, " speaking at the Max Robinson Center of " the Whitman-Walker Clinic, in one of the ¯ capital’s poorest neighborhoods. "But nobody is safe," Jackson said. "I want to " send amessage to everyAfrican-American : that does not know his or her HIV/AIDS ¯ status to get tested." ." Jackson, who said he had taken a blood " test for the virus years ago, took the newe~ ] oral test to draw attention to the issue as ¯ hundreds of people gathered in ¯ Washington for the Johns Hopkins " University 2000 National Conference on African-Americans and AIDS¯ ¯ Theresults ofJackson’s testate expected " to be ready Saturday but, as is common : practice, they will remain confidential. It ¯ was-not immediately clear if Jackson " would release results of his test. " Blacks make up 13% of the U.S. ; population, but they account for 57% of ¯ all new HIV infections detected and nearly’,.: half of all cases of full-blown AIDS, " according to the Centers for Disease ; Control and Prevention. Additionally, ¯ more treatments have become available, ¯ but AIDS deaths among blacks increased ¯ 45% between 1991 and 1996, even as ¯ mortalityamongwhites decreasedby24%, " statistics show. " Jackson .called on the president, first :~ lady and leading presidential candidates to set an example by submitting to testing, noting, "The first issue is to remove the taboo and reststance to testing." Patent Could Block AIDS Research LOS ANGELES (AP) - A feud between two groups of researchers over who owns the rights to a gene helpful inAIDS therapy threatens to slow the development ofnew drugs and treatment, The Los Angeles Times has reported. Maryland-based HumanGenomeSciences securedapatent earlier in February ~hat gives it a 17-year claim on a gene that apparently controls how AIDS begins infecting its victims. However, thebiotechfirm only isolated and decoded the gene. Company officials acknowledge they had no knowledge of its use when they applied.for a patent in June 1995. Agroup ofacademic scientists say they were the ones who proved the gene could be used tO explain why. some people repeatedly exposed t6 HIV never develop the disease. Meantime, the patent, gives Human Genome Sciences control over who can use the gene in commercial,devel’0p~ient of new AIDS drugs, potentially limiting the practical use ofthe academic research. The ownership decisionby the U.S. Patent andTrademark Office outraged the group ofacademic scientists whosay thebiotech firm co-opted their discovery. "If the patent office awards a patent to someone who clones a gene, even though they have no notion of its function and no real idea of its use, that would be like saying, ’I found a fungus, therefore I should get credit for penicillin,"’ said the University of Maryland’s Dr. Robert :Gallo, Whoheaded the group,of academic researeher~ studying HIV infection. That group and several other independent researchers learned in late 1995 that the gene is a so-called "viral receptor" that the HtV virus attaches to. They also discovered that defective versions of the gene generate a protein that suppresses infection by preventing HIV from attaching to cells. "The likelihood is that this is the molecule that needs to be used for the virus to go from one person to another," said New York University’s Dr. Dan Littman, who also contributed to the academic study. William Haseltine, chairman and CEO of Human Genome Sciences, maintains companyresearchers did extensive work isolatingthe gene that justifies the firm’s ownership of the patent. Haseltine said thepatentwill notimpede outsid~ research, adding that the company is making the gene available to academic researchers at no cost. He said the patent will only stem the unauthorized use of the gene for commercial purposes. AIDSactivists havereacted withvenom toward the company, which they accused of capitalizing on the suffering of others. "’These guys are the robber barons of the geneticage," saidGreggGonsalves, policy director of the Treatment Action Group, a New York-based AIDS lobbying organization. ’q’his is not about making progress on AIDS; its about making money.’" Meantime, the U.S. patent office plans to enforce new guidelines in March that would require applicants to better demonstrate the function and usefulness of discoveries. Officials at the National Institutes of Health, however, complain that the new regulations fail to go far enough. i Clinton Plan May ¯ Benefit HIV Postive ¯¯ WASHINGTON (AP)- In an experiment that could significantly, expand federal ¯ benefits to patients with the AIDS virus, ~ the Clinton administration is allowing .. Maine to provide Medicaid payments to ¯ people are HIV-positive but do not yet ¯ have AIDS. Previously, patients could ; notqualifyuntil theyhadfull-blownAIDS. ¯ Health Secretary Donna Shalala said ¯ Thursday that Maine would be the first ¯ state to offer such a plaff,"whichcan give ." more people living with HIV access to ¯ promising therapies.’" Several other states : are looking at offering a similar plan, ¯ officials said. "Betterresearch, prevention ¯ and treatment is helping people with this ¯ ¯ disease livelonger, healthier lives, even as.we continue our search fora cure," said ~ Shalala at a conference on black people ¯ with AIDS. ¯: Recentstudies have showfl that the early use of.AIDS-fighting drugs can slow the ." disease and increase life expectancy. However, many people with HIV ¯ _generally do not qualify for Medicaid, ¯ which provides health insurance to low- " income Americans, until they have ¯ symptoms and are considered disabled." ¯ Without the plan, "the Medicaid ¯ program was in the untenable position of ¯ having to wait until someone grew so sick ¯ with AIDS that they became disabled" ¯ before treatment and drugs conld be made ¯ available, said Francis Finnegan, Maine’s ¯ Medicaid director. ¯ ¯ The state’s five-year demonstration projectbeginsinSeptember.Tobeeligible, ¯ a participant must be HIV-positive and ¯ haveanincomeofless thanabout $25,000, ¯Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway,-Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. January April July October DecOnber Even Out Your Monthly Electric Bills. 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Tulsa s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here-for you! ~_~’/,~ ’ Evening sup~ group meetings ¯ , ¯ Sho~ trips, outings and retreats ¯ [ Free HIV testing ~or informat~n call Tul~ Native American AIDS Prevention Proj~t ~’:~whlch is three times the federal poverty ,: level. Before the plan, only children, .: pregnant women and the elderly or disabled with incomes below the poverty ! the 37-year-old mayor mused:about level were eligible for assistance. The surprising twists and turns in his life. "It’s benefitpackage will indudedrugtherapy, office visits, lab services, case management, hospitalizations, mental health and substance abuse services. About 1,300 Maine residents are infected with HIV and 350 have AIDS, according to the Maine Bureau of Health. The new waiver will allow the state to offer treatment to about 300 people who couldn’ t otherwise afford it. Officials said the early intervention is expected to reduce the need for costly hospitalization and prevent addi tional infections. Nationally, about 900,000 people are infected with HIV, a third of those with full-blown AIDS, said Kathryn Bina, a spokeswoman for the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. A third of those whose HIV hasn’t progressed into AIDS, about 200,000 people, don’t know they have the disease, she said. Claudia French, acting executive director ofAIDS Action, a national AIDS support group, said more states need to ad’o~t suchaplan. ’~roday’s announcement will prolong the lives of low-income Mainers with HIV, but we want all HIVpositiveAmericans tohave access to drugs that could keep them from developing full-blown AIDS," said French. ’Shooting Gallery’: to Open in Sydney ¯ SYDNEY, Australia (AP)- This nation’s : first experimental heroin "shooting ¯ gallery" will open later this year in a " former pinball parlor in Sydney, the Uniting Church, which will run the 18- " month government-approved trial, " announced at the end of February. " The Site in Kings Cross, a suburb : notorious for drug use and prostitution, " has been approved by New South Wales : police and the state’s health department. : It will be run by an expert on AIDS and ¯ aim to provide a clean, safe environment : for addicts to take their drugs. "Our primary aim in operating the medically supervisedinjecting centeris to save lives," said Uniting Church spokesman Rev. Harry Herbert." New South Wales state premier Bob Carr said he understood concerns of local residents who have fought to prevent the gallery being opened, but said it would help improve public health. "We think it mayhelp save lives and get the problems out of the streets of Kings. Cross into a medically-supervisedlocation,’? Cartsaid. Thecenter’ s medical director Dr. Ingrid van Beck said about 200 addicts would ¯ use the center to shoot up when it opens, : possibly as early as July,, just weeks " before Sydney hosts the 2000 Olympic Games. . United Nations drugs experts this week " condemned "shooting galleries" but authorities in Sydney and two other cities have said they will forge ahead with plans to open them. Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV or a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743-GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor the : ~a strangejourney," he said,, shaking ¯ his head. "I started drugand alcohol abuse : when I was around 10," he said. ¯ The drug and alcohol abuse worsened when h_e was a teen-ager having conflicts with his policeman stepfather and struggling with the emer~ng realization that .he was Gay. "I joined the military when I was 18 to escape a lotof things, and because I wanted ~o be somebody," Stewart said. "And, I onestly thought that in the military, I d go straight. It didn’t quite work out that way. I found more Gay people in the military than I’d ever known." His eight years in the Air Force brought him to this city of 21,000 on the shore of Lake Champlain. When his tour of duty ended, he started driving a tractor trailer. Then came a drug and alcohol relapse. "I fell flat on my face," Stewart said. With the help of a network of friends, Stewart struggled to overcome his addictions. "I sobered up on Dec. 14, 1988, and I’ve been clean and sober ever since." It was the recovery process that led Stewart out of the closet. "I was 26 years old, sitting in the basement of a church at a recovery meeting at 1 a.m. on New Year’s Day. I said, ’I can’t stav sober !,f, I .keep hiding the truth,"’ Stewart said. It lifted a huge burden. When you live a lie, you suffer the consequences." Backin the eabofabigrig, he considered his furore. "I wanted a sense of inclusion in the system, having a positive role," Stewart said. He got involved with the AIDS activist group, ACT UP, handing out condoms on the street. His activism ultimately led him into mainstream politics. Of roughly 500,000 elected officials at the local and national level across the country: about 180 are openly Gayand the vast majority are Democrats, according to the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund, a .Washington-based group flint seeks to ¯ increase the number of Gay and lesbian ¯ public officials. "It’s hard to overstate the . value of having outstanding opeul3,,’ Gay ~ and lesbian people in public office, said ¯ Sloan Wiesen, a spokesman for the Gay & : Lesbian Victory Fund. "When Gay and straight legislators are working together : on less contentious issues, like education, ; health care, or fixing roads, people are ¯ more inclined to stand up f0rfairness ¯ when a nondiscrimination issue comes : up," Wiesen said. Stewart hopes the national attention he " ¯ en.j,,o,ys,by .virtue 0f,,b~,ing aGayRepublican Will neip the city. I m invited to all these events - the State of the State address, the State of the Union. It gives me the opportunity to get the message out that Plattsburgh exists, and we need" things here. A lot of people around the country want to help, because they want to see me succeed." Stewart does have some regrets. 0~e is that he never worked up the courage:to talk to his mother about the fact that he’s Gay before she died in a car acdident four years ago. "I was making visits to the White House on Gay issues, but I was afraid to talk to my own mother about it. It shouldn’ t have been that way," Stewart said, his voice trailing off. Another regret was that he taunted the boys who wanted to go to the prom at Cumberland High School. see Mayor, p. I1 TWO REVIEWS AND A MUSE! [love John ~Villiams’ film scores. I really do; they are sweeping, grand things, alwaySsuitable for driving to, especially the S~.Wars and Indiana Jones scores¯ Hedidagreatjob.on 1979’s Draciihi, d~ea~iiig, an o~atie score that soared andswooped al,ong with Dr~c~ffd~tly..It s my all= score.- too :bad it h~Snot been reissued comp!etdy as some of his others have¯ What happened was, way backwh~,scores were not released in the version heardin the film. Williams was 7::..notorious for rerecording .chopped up bits~iof, his: sc0~ds, edited t6gethdri .....ahogether diffe~gntly ~ft0ffa~the film, aadrdea~edas the ori mdtifnpicture s’dundtrack qt is a nice thing to wish for peace ~ndha~mony amm~.~p~oipl~ I wonder if it will ’ever kappen. ~ One can, only hope that. Deganawida will come along and help create a world that engenders with .a just-too~tight cardboard Slip case covenng the CD case mid the thick liner notes abit too tightly, so that getting die blasted tiring out is enough to prejudice your listeafing experience (childproofCD cases?).If you’re a purist and a Williams collector., .this is for you. If not, well, rent the film. ~ .Jomme~he~mndoahhas a uewirelease out,and it is well worth seeking out mid buying. A member of the Wolf Clan of the Oneida (Iroquois) Indians in New York, Joaame has put out a :number of bestselling, award-wi~ufing CDS that arejustincredible tolisten to (Orenda, ~Matriarch, Lifeblood)¯ She_has a lovely, clear,: bell-like voice that .Ires an intimate quality to it that can’t, be :beat. Sheap,,l~ffed in Peter Whnt~.y0a ggt Wasnot the laarmony anaong Buffet.t" S y Spirit,:- A s0u.fidi~,.a~(.~,er~annoying d-f€- ¯ ~,, " 1 ’~.- .- Jotmley in,Dance, Drum, to~p.ufiS.~!, b.uLa reerea.ted ~re~ng~ peop,es_~. : ~ .-m!d:,~oug",,:-and opened .~rms.~...ash:..o[~,hat rmght ’ : :.. " :~ :;. ’- ~Wo.odstock ~94. :She:~has ha~g:~n~n!h9 soundtrack at somepoint~ ;. been€ailed~-aa!~i-ve Ameii.can:yersion of In!re.a~..~ ca~_e~.,, this was disap~ointing, ~; Enya,:.a.1,.lhough; L.~eall~-!-hiak.,that’s This,~beguntochange,firstwithpufists ,~ ,c,ompari~g:,oa.pl~e~.:,~,d,+,oranges. rais~g~:S~jhenwithrecordcompanie,s : Pea~gmai~er,_SJoameyr:i:sanenchanting ,a,ct~[yt,iste~nipg. The score to Williams - r ~lbmn:, wi~h beautiful~melodies. Iti~ sung Close-Eae0unters of the 3rd Kind".was ~ in her~nativg~Oneida Jaaguage, and- the one::of .the. first to be remastered and ~ liner;aotes~.~conta_;n the :story. :and a rel~:witli all cues (music bits) int.act.. ¯ trans!afioa:~into:English of:/he lyrics: It is ~di]s:reallygreat~sincemuchofw.hat , the.p~effeet:~bumt~li-ght~some,oandles, mad~ the sou~dtrack~so great were ~CU! : and relax -~ith, with-its genre :melodies ¯ ."~" ~. " ’: : "- ’.~ ’ ~ ’6 --~ ....~z ~-~ ~ ,:~-~-~,~,~-,. ,~;’,’::-, ,~:’L~"~’J-~ . ~nta~t. ~twas also great. Then the S-.~y~ i,. mumc,-ofLtl~ ~f~ri~:~ of,~.lroqums V~$i ~l~gy was. released with:.,t..b.€~;~: Co~f~%~li~x~i~ihg,~t6~er-~ter sou~atra_~ks"intact. That was beyond"~:~ many.:cemu~eS-ofW-~;-~-tli~M61iav~k, wonderful. Now, Rhino records has ~ ~Onei~;.Onoiidaga, Cayuga; Seneca; and released, something score purists have " TuscaroralndianNations.~’Peacemaker’s desired since-the film came out: The "Superman". soundtrack, complete, and, no pun intended, uncut. Great in that the quality of sound is incredible for a score recorded in 1978, great that the record companies are releasing complete sets ofsoundtrack CDs. Notso.hot after a listen and the realization that Williams copying Williams is not really worth a 2" CD set, because almost every cue on the two CDs (despite what the liner notes claim) is almost lifted note - for.~ note/from Star Wars. Oh a few sequences are rearranged, but "Luke Skywa~ker!s~" i.Theme" is clearly recognizable in one cue, and the original openingnotesfrom"StarTrek" are audible in another; in.what one might surmise to beatributes,Williams borrowing ofthemes is nothing new;’,many classical references abound in Star Wars; but to blatantly borrow so much from oneself is just lazi~s~’~ ~:of.. li.ke~a~in~;i’~Well, I don~f~[lik¢i~ri~ti~t,g~~,,w.hat can r.borrow from the .~,~gltv~l,~ear~ S~n~.~ays,~eco~zes. T0,~,fair, m~be~h~J~.t d~dd’"~h~,~e-lmucl~ tim.e .~d that. w~- tiieifio~t practic~i, s01ution~- ai~d maybe-theirwas why a fully complete score was never released. Still, it’ S a pleasant listen, especially if you recall the thrill of Christopher Reeve in blue tights and hotpants fondly, as I do. Who paid attention to the score? I must say that Rhino has done a fine job on the remastering; the sound quality is, as I said, incredible. The packaging is odd, : Journey isdedicated-to children ¯" everywhere and to th0se striving forpeace ¯¯" betweenpeople andharmonyfor all living things. ¯ Peacemaker’ sJourney tells the storyof ¯ Deganawida and Hiawatha, who smv the tribes warring ambngst themselVes, and : sought to bring peace and harmony to the ¯ people~ -Relationships ~etween the tribes ¯" had deteriorated into constant war, blood : feuds~and revenge killings. In danger of : self-destruction; the Iroquois were saved ¯ by the sudden appearance ofa Huron h01y ¯" man known as the "Peacemaker." : Deganawida (Two RiverCurrents Flowing ; TogetheO re.ce~yeda vision from the ¯ Creator of peace’and cooperation among ". all Iroquois.Apparently he was hindered 2 by either.a language or speech difficulty, :... but :~ganaw,ida~ ~eaxttialty,, w:o~ ~the ¯ support of Hiawatha (.Mionwatha - He ¯ Makes Rivers), an Onondaga who had ~ beeo~n~..~:;Mg~aw.~:~ar~ ~i,ef. With :: t.h~irfighiiii~Mdjoin i6~th~inale~i~ue. : ~~end tdiS~fii Degan~widablotted 3ut : thesun"t;6:~dh~,~il~:tfieS:’,elucima~t;’~,i~oi~r ¯ eclipse, visible ’ih(upstate New York ." occurred in 1451 suggesting another ~ possible¯ d~t~ for these events. The ¯ formalion ofthe League ended the warfare : between itsmembers bri~ging the Iroquois : a period of unprecedented peace and ¯ prosperity. It also brought political unity ¯ and military power. : "Peacemaker’s Journey" will be ~ releasedMarchT, 2000. seeAmuse, p. 11 The University of Tulsa The Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay & Trans Alliance presents ANiOKLAHOMO PROMO 2000 2-’~ightSi.~~di’,~y ~f:C£11~loid Scintillation B+~n+i’:~,+++~m+~:~+~*~@+~;~;Chi.~olls, and Out of Se~on Friday, Ma~h 24, 7- I2:0~ midnight .GOd Shave (he Queen,Watermelon Woman Indecent Acts: O~car Wilde, Cynam, P~t~ in Motion, and C~sh Sunday, March~ 26, 2-7pm Different for Girls, All Over Me, Under Heal, and Our Mom’s a Dyke ,.+ Chapman Hall Theater, 2835 East Fifth Street : -. :’- ~.: (not~the+:Alleri~Chapman~Activity Center) Eas{ of Delaware Avenue on the University of Tulsa campus. Please look lL~r rainbow flags to lead you in off Delaxvare Avenue. ¯ Thi+ ex;+fit is offered in +6iijunction withomyn,~& Hentage-Month. Actlvtt~es. P!.eg.s,e=,<+c~+ntact,..~g. J~6~s~+~at’ 63.1~:~3 i:!5 to make arrangements for accessibility, accommodations. A Jurnpin ", Singin " . Movin" and Groovin" Good Time! Warren Vach4 and the NEW YORK CITY ALL,STAR BIG BAND and direct from London! THE JIVIN’ LINDY HOPPERS Sunday, March 19 at 7:30 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center, Chapman Music Hall, 3rd &.Cincinnati Tickets: $15,-$20, $2S, *Includes post-performance swing dance ’ Discounts a~aihble ~or~gr6h’p~ and’ ~tudents Call: 596-7111 or Outside Tulsa:~1-800-364-71il "Online:.’Rrano.tulsapac.com Tulsa PerformmgSA~s Center Trust Holland Hall SCHOOL MIDDLE & UPPER SCf-IOOL TESTING (GRADES4 - ll) PRIMARY SCHOOL TOUR (AC~ 3 - GRADE 3) PRIMARY SCHOOLTESTING ~qDERGARTEN- GRADE 1) To reserve your place, please call the i Admlssi~n Ot~ce at .,t81-1111, exte~i~n 25 t. 5666 E. 8 Ist Stre~J~.~ Bet~eea~le.& Sheridan ~ Tulsa ~ www.hollandhalLorg HSllatid Hall admits q~lifid’~studm~i ivfit~ ~egard to rat6 sex, religion, national or ethnic origin, or physical disability. Church,of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday, 1314 North Greenwood, 587-1314 by Mary Schepers, Do-lt-Yourself-Dyke There was your DIYD, on her knees, aching, throbl~ing~-on the verge of tears - wondering why her mouth says "yes" when her brain screams "No, no, no!" No, gentle readers, we are not revie~ving the DIYD’s-latest forays into courtship, but ~rather her most recent Volunteereffort to help out a friend in need. As you accumulate handy skills ..~and .-become geuerally perceived as arather useful indiv:idual, expect to be asked to help out others. This is quite fair; after all, most ofus, your DIYD included, have accumulated skills and learned lessons (someti~nes not positive ones) from those who:have helped us on our ownprojects: Quidpro qu,o is a conunon currency tn the world of home improvement; the student evolving into the teacher is an apt, and expected, metaphor. - " In short,_darlings;give backwhat has so generously been shared.withyou~Orbegin ficcumulating favors(that can be repaid later in yourown moments Ofdire need:It is common proffer; it is cxpected,~and it’ is honorable, and as sly as your DIYD may seem, she is absolutely honorable.. Therein lies the.theme; the exemplar. and the moral of our m0nthlytale. Listen’ closely and ieani from yore DiYD.-And remember that this is a. cautionary story; not a vehicle for blame,unlessR is your poorDIYD’S~ whodidn°taskforsufficient "There was your DIYD, on her knees, aehln~., thr0bhi O;on the ver~e o~ tears - wonderln$ why her mouth says ’yes" when her : infomiation before promising her vast ¯. array ofskills, tools and energy to a friend : The particulars of die story ,’ire not ~ important. What matters is that a favor ¯¯ was asked of the DIYD - to help lay tile. ¯ Rule number one: if the task at hand is one that you are not only good at, but have a particular vanity over, watch out! You m’e very susceptible! Alld the DIYD is the tile and grout di~’a. Having refitedevery c6nv~i~tionatstiffaeeinher liouse, she finds herself wonderizi~,7 Liii unguarded moments, whether the garage or the front porch could, benefit from the tasteful application of ceramic tile. She was, m fact, ripe for the phscking. She graciously agreed. Wlfich brings us to rule nmnber two: agree on and set all the parameters around the proposed ! project befom.taldng it On: For those o,,f you.whoshudderat theword "bom~dafies," ¯" find a word thai works, b~t doi t~ al!ddo it : thoroughly. This not only protec.ts you ~ from unpleasant surPrises, but the party to i whom you are lending assistance aswelE Nothing can sour a friendship like an : ~tmisin4¢rpretedand goneaw.ry. ’ : Both sid~ should knowwhat is expected, ¯ ’ what wil! actually occur, ~hat amount of ¯ dme is involved, how~.much work is : inv61vht, hoW much each person is. : responsible for, and~ whatthe fairexchange will, be. Any changes should be E comm,tmi.¢ated u~ front:..,., ." _’ .’," " 50 New-Books at the Library by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library Over the last few momhs, .the Tulsa City-Cotmty Libraryhas acquired dozens of recent tides of interest to the gay community. Cheek your local branch library for these dries, or call the Readers Services department at 596-7966. LESBIAN FICTION Shy Girl by Elizabeth Stark Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters Hers 3: Brilliant New Fiction by Lesbian Writers 6th Sense: A Cassidy James Mystery by Kate Calloway Bogeywoman: A Novel by Jaimy Gordon Lost Daughters by J. M. Redmann November Ever After by Laura Tones The Other Woman by Ann OiLeary The Vintage.BookoflnternatiomdLesbian Fiction GAY MALE FICTION Breakfast with Scot by Michae! Downing Comfort and Joy by Jim Grimsley Justice at Risk: A Benjamin Justice ~iYnkStSelriypbbyyJoRhintaMCiorregsain,Wilson Surrender.Dorothy by Meg Wolitzer Minions of the Moon by Richard Bowes Capital Queers by Fred Hunter EveryManfor Himselfby OrlandOudand His 3: Brilliant New Fiction by Gay Writers LESBIAN NONFICTION The Queen of Whale Cay by Kate Surmnerscale TheWhole Truth:A Case ofMurderon the Appalachian Trail by H. L. Pohlman Monologues and Scenes for Lesbian Actors by CarolynGage- Janet, My Mother; and Me: A Menloir of Growing Up by William Murray Baby Precious Always Shines: Selected Love Notes by Gertrude Stein Lesbian Health: Current Assessment and Directions My Lesbian Husband: ALandscape ofa Marriage by Barrie Borich Hunting the Witch byEllen Hart ApplesandOranges:MyJourney Through Sexual Identity I~y Jan Clausen RestrictedAccess: LeSbians on Disability To Believe in Womem ’What, Lesbians Have Done for America by’ Lillian Faderman GA~ MALE NONFICTION How to Survive Your Own Gay L~e by Pet~ Brass " . VulgarFavors:Andrew Cunanan,G’ianni " Versace, and the Largest FailedManhunt in U S. History by Maureen Orth Crisis ofDesire by Robin Hardy Love in A Different Climate by Jeremy Seabrook Finding the Boyfriend Within by Brad Gooch When It’s Time to Leave Your Lover by Neil Kaminsky see Read, p. 1: by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. "Faggots !" I was sitting inmy car talking to my friend Errol when I heard the word. One of ErroF s cantankerous neighborsno pal, obviously - had barked at us as he marched past the car. I didn’t know whether tO feel outraged or amused. It had been a long time since anyone "called me a name, at least publicly. Sticks mad stones, I thought. And did I really mind being a faggot anyway? Still, the hairon my neck Stood up. Rude slurs are good e~idence of the power of words. Even-if 0nly symbolic, words have an ~mpact. Some words ,are deeds. Linguists study "’speech acts" that shape or change the world. Utterances like "I promise, "I apologize," "I resign," or "[I name you] faggot!" have serious consequences (as anyone knows who has been "pronounced" man or wife). Language can’carry either a positive or a negative charge. Both sacred speech and profane speech are dangerous. In many religions, no one knows the name of god. Or even where onedo..,e.s; the deity’ s name is never uttered aloud, Magical words can change the world. The secret word "sesame" opens the cave. Abracadabra pulls the rabbit from the hat. Uttering a sacred name can have unintended consequences. You might wake sleeping gods. It’s safer to steer clear of charged labels. A similar sort of ritualized avoidance of naming characterizes many kinship systems around the word. Son-in-laws never pronounce the personal names oftheir wives’ parents, and .vice versa. In other societies, brothers and sisters avoid ¯ in public? Who can use which word, and ¯¯ in which context? "Gay" and "Lesbian" have recently become broadly accepted ¯ terms for homosexuality. Some have also ¯ attempted to revaluate "queer." Revaluation succeeds when the labeled ¯ themselves embrace a slur as their own, defusing its negative charge. Thus,"Queer Theory" is currently being taught in ¯ Ameficau umversities. Then there’s "faggot." Faggot, as a negative homos’exual label dates back ¯ onlyto 1910, although it was used as early ¯ as the late 16th century to slur women. In ¯ fact, a number of today’s Gay slurs - ¯ including the term "Gay" itself- were ¯ first applied to women. A "Gay" woman ¯ in 1650 Faagland was a prostitute. Robert ¯ Scott’s Gay Slang Dictionary (online at http:/!~vww.hurricane.net/.~vizard/ 19.htnfl) lists 156 synonyms for"fag" mad ¯ more appear else~vhere in the dictionary. (Scott also has 37 terms for "Lesbian.") These include Spmfish-derived’~maricon" ~ and "’pato," French "tapette" (although ¯ pede ~srmss~n~),~dd~sh fe~,ele, and ¯ British/Australian "poofter." Then there are the more obscure "’cot betty," ¯ "daffodilly," "fu," "whoopsie boy," and "uffimay" - "muffie’" in Pig Latin. ~’Faggot,’" unlike "Gay". or "Queer," ~ still remains impolite. The ~vord is ¯ dangerously profane.. Not many of my ¯ academic colleagues are willing to teach ¯ courses ~in "Faggot Theory." But the profane is always close to the sacred. ." Because of its charge, "faggot" is more ¯ hurtful but also thusmore useful indefining ¯ who and what we are. When we name ¯ each other by the word, we make a strong, each other’, s names like hot potatoes. ~ pt~blic claim to belong to a shared world Anthropology suggests" that such ¯ .~oFfaggotry. So, still sitting in ~ny 4,’if; I "avoidance relations" smooth over areas of potential social conflict. Negativel5 charged words are equally powerful. The profane also carries a wallop. A curse c,’m kill. The villagers I lived with in Vanuatu were always fearful when someone spoke evil of thegn. Even if someone swore without thinking, in the heat of an angry moment, the ancestr~fl ghosts ufight hear and punish the person who cursed, or the person who ~vas cursed. or both. Sociologists of the 1970s formulated what tlaey called "labeling theory?" They analyzed the ways in which lal~els, like faggot, impact both society and the individual. Socially. an arsenal ofnegative labels maintains power inequalities. Those on the bottom of the social ladder shoulder the brunt of these terms. Individually, such slurs unavoidably tinge our sense of who we are. Like muttered curses, they can harm. Even if we are of the strong, "words may never hurt us" sort, we still have to take into account their social currency:We must respond tO slurs ifonly to deny their validity and power over us. Labeling theory in the 1970s particularly noticed ethnic slurs the N word, the H word, and all those othe~ lfibels ,that~e today t66 impolite to say. Dhrin~"~iE last generation, American speech etiquette (what socio-linguists call "pragmatics") has shifted to make use of these labels hazardous. More recently, the same has occurred with words like faggot. In a way, however, new politeness rules give these words even more power than they once had, as Errol’ s neighbormay have realized. There is a politics of labeling here. Whose words will become the standard labels - the one everyone safely may use jnst gave that !@#S% the evil-eye. But in 1996, at a Gay pride parade in Providence, R.I., he took the opportunity to make ,’unends, "’I stood tip in t¥ont of 3,000 people mad lnade a public apology to the Gay couununity aud the two gentlemen who went to that prom together," Ste~vart said. "It was very emotional." " Stewart 1]as been criticized bv some iu the Gay connnumty for not being more out froht with his personal relationslfips. He bristles at that. "’My personal life is extremely private," he said. "People have a lot of gall to impose their opinions on someone who’ s trying to make a difference - to tell me that because I’ ve reached a certain stature, I have to promote some Gay agenda." ’~¥qaen it comes to being a role model, Stewart believes it’ s more important to be a greatmayor than to spotlight his personal life. "Having-openly Gay elected people gives us our place at the table mad proves that we are just as capable as anybody else," Stewart said. "And it helps change people’s minds abont how to consider Gay people in their daily lives. It’s all about being positive in what you do." IGTA member Call341.6866 International Toursformoreinformation. Massage Therapy Services ~EdgarO. Cruz, L.M.T. ¯ Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm @SprinL Sprint PCS" The Clear Alternative to Cellular. Sprint PCS" Select Retailer ;99.95 New Sprint PCS Phone :25.00 Less instore rebate $74.95 Net cost Buyany SprintPCS Phone and get $25 off! Everyone is approved! ~LSpriot~PCS service plans inc!ude.’- " ¯ F~ee Voicemail ¯ Fr~e Caller ID ¯ Free Call W~g"oFr~3 way €~illing ¯ Noa~~f~;~5;~tract required ¯ 100% ~pr nt: PCS Nat[~i~ide Network. Tulsa Locatioi~s~ - " 2001 S. Garnett, 437-2~.~.~. 3733 S. Memori.,~ 6600344 1216 S. Harvard, 587-1778 Sapulpa Location: 109 N. Mission, 227-2322 Meet Local Guys for Hot the other personal ads ) guys you like @Origin. 18+. Additional features from 67 !n April of this year the "Warrior in Two Worlds" documentary will air nationally on PBS. Keep an eye open for the exact time and date in your area. This is a compelling story of Eli Parker, a Seneca Chief and a Union general in the Civil War. Joanne wrote the sound track. It is a nice thing to wish for peace and harmony among peoples; I wonder if it will ever happen. One can only hope thal _ Deganawida will come alo~ag and help create a word that engenders harmony among differing peoples. Maybe then there will be no more Gay bashing, lynching, genocide... Sometimes, with news of another Matthew Shepard-like case -coming along once a week, it’s hard to believe any change is occurring. Yet, I watch TV, and see Will and Grace, and many other shows that have or feature Gay/Lesbian characters, I see films that are about Gay folk even showing here in the crotch of the bible belt (Beautiful Thing, for instance) and can see a difference. Because when I grew up, the onlyimage I had ofGay folk were the man mentioned in the book on birds and bees my parents gave me at 14 - published in 1945 - that stated homosexuals were men who hung around playgrounds in trench coats offering you candy. I remember thinking - in a rare moment when I wasn’t busy suppressing, repressing and denying - that that was what I had to look forward to? That’s what I was? Ick. And the news at the time, if Gay folk were mentioned at all, "was nothing but images of the most whacked out, far out people on the planet. Lovely. Now, kids have it much easier. Is it paradise? No. Obviously not, and there are people who are very much fighting to prevent growth and understanding, and raising monsters all around us. As Melissa Etheridge wrote in her song "Scarecrow" on the albttm "Breakdown": "’We all gasp ’this can’t happen here’, we’re all much too civilized, where can these monsters hide?’" She answers: "But they are knocking on our front door, They’re rocking in our cradles, They" re preadfing in our churches, And eating at our tables." And she’s absolutely right; that’s exactly where they are. The boogeymen are out there; and occasionally they do get you. In another song on the same album, she writes: "There is no marc, There are no secrets, We all begin this race at the start, But I have come this farWith a truth of the heart. Deep down inside I think we’re all the same. Try not to judge someone And never shame. I do bdieve that people are good. They just want hope and respect And to be understood. Sometimes it hard sometimes it’s strange But the truth of the heart is people can change" And this is true; I’ve seen it happen. Far too infrequently, but it can happen. And that’s the hope that can feed the fire of change, andkeepus going whenit gets too much. And it does feel that way, sometimes. I had gotten to that point, after seeing the internal strife within the communities, as well as from outside. How can we hope to change the world when we can’t even agree amongst ourselves? I’ d certainly decided it wasn’ t worth an effort. Butmy best friend Karin, aftermany years ofcomplainingabout the world, has finally taken steps. To at least make an attempt. And her doing so has reignited a flame within me. And if that spark might ignite another, then perhaps the tamers of the world can unite. And thus is hope reborn, like a phoenix frown the ashes. And the world has changed; it is so much easier tocome out earlier. There’ s less a chance ofsomeone being afraid that they’re the only one - like I did, There were no role models. There were no out Gay folk that I could talk to. There were few resources available even at.the library, unless it was reinforcement of the writing in that booklet morn and dad gave me. Thanks to the folks who were willing to come together and fight and be,,,~ocal ~md out when it was much more dangerous to do so, the younger Gay folk do have options we older folk didn~ t have. For thai reason alone, the fight must continue. So get involved, even if it’s coming out to someone youhaven’ t yet. The only way to dispel the lies and misi~ffonnation of the radically wgong is to present ourselves as we are - hmnan beings. That h~s done more to change folks around me tha_u all the marching and worn out footwear in the world. And what is it that we all seek, really? Not sex; and people who think that’s what it’s all about are just plain wrong. Tell them so. It’ s about the right to love without being discriminated against. And if they give you guff about that, just tell them what author Lynn Flewelling told me: Love is love. Tuesday, June 6th, an art exhibit, "United" will openandonThursday, June 8th, there will be a film night. Locations and times will be announced later. For more information about these events, call the Gay Community Services Center at 743-4297 (Gays). Groups who want to enter a float in the parade are encouraged to attend the float clinic on March 11 from 1-4pro at the Center. Gay Men’s Friendships: Invincible Cotnmunities by Peter Nardi The Elusive Embrace: Desire and the Riddle ofldentity by Daniel Mendelsolm Prayer Warriors by Stuart Howell Miller Widescreen Dreaths : Growing Up Gay at the Movies by Patrick Horrigan Victory Deferred: How AIDS Changed Gay Life in America ¯ by Johi~-Manual Andriote ; OF INTEREST TO EVERYONE ¯ Gay Parents/Straight Schools: Building ¯ Comnfftnication attd Trust by Virginia Casper ¯ Witness to Revolution: The Advocate ¯ Reports on Gay and Lesbian Politics ¯¯ 4 Steps to Financial Securityfor Gay attd Lesbian Couples ¯ by Harold Lustig Multicultural Detective Fiction: Murder ¯ from the Other Side Outon Stage: Lesbian andGay Theatre in ". the Twentieth Century ¯ by Alan Sin.field ¯ TheQueerSixties by PatriciaJuliana Smith ¯ Gaylaw: Challenging the Apartheid of ¯ the Closet ¯ by William Eskridge : To Be Continued, Take Two i by Michele Karlsberg Disidentifications: Queers of Color and ¯ the Performance ofPolitics ¯ by Jose Munoz "- SomethingInside: Conversations with Gay ¯ Fiction Writers CouNCiL oak meN’S c or<aLe presents an~eclectic mix.of.choral.literature ranging from Baroque to Broadway, from pop classics of the ’50s and ’60s to a bawdy sea chantey aod an American Folk song featuring the Green Country Cloggers. Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8, 2000 at 8pm Williams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center (reception following) Tickets: PAC box office, 596-7111 in Tulsa, 1,800-364-7111 or online at www,tulsapac.com council oak a fellowship of gay men dedicated to musical excellence in the performnnce of choral literature:, providing a source ot" pride, unity, and support, w;h{]e presenting a positive image for ourselves, our community, and society as a whole. FOR MORE INFORMATION about the council oak me~’s Cl~oI~aLe and its parent organization, the non-profit Vocal Pride Foundation,visit our award-winning website at www.counciloak.org. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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The exhibits of documents, photos, drawings and other objects collected during 10 years of researchis the largest on the subject ever mounted in Germany, project organizers said. It documents the fate of 700 individuals who suffered under the Nazis’ draconian anti-Gay laws and tells 60 personal stories. "We want to return to the Gay victims of the Nazis their names and to show their lives, as far as possible, so as to.at, least symbolically liberate them.from the dehumamzmg barbarity of the Nazis,’" said Andreas Stemweiler, project director at the Gay Museum in Berlin, where part of the exhibit is being shown. The other half opened at the Sachsenhausen concentration camp, where many Gay men - labded with a .pink triangle- ended up because of the camp’s proxim,ty to the capital, see Nazis, p.3 TULSA - Last month, the organizers of Diversity Festival 2000 announced that US Olympic champion, Greg Louganis, would serve as Grand Marshall for the° Millennium Pride Parade this ¯ Fundraiser Audra Sommers June. This month, organizers confirmed that Dr. Grethe : To Join Marty Newman in DC Cammermeyer, distiguished veteran of the United States Armed ¯ TULSA - Audra Sommers, who is planning an Forces, will join Louganis as grand marshall. ¯ AIDS benefit in Tulsa next month, has gained ¯ Cammermeyer challenged national recognition ¯ forher humanrights US anti-Gay/Lesbian policies which forced her out of her - efforts. Sommers nursing position in the United has been named to ¯ States Reserve forces. Her the Board of Gover¯ nors of the Human lifestory was made into a television film produced by ¯ Rights Campaign, a Barbra Streisand, starring 300,000-member ¯ Glenn Close. national organlza¯ tion that batdes disCammermeyer has come to Tulsa before. She spoke at -¯ crimination against the Universi ty of Tulsa in the sexual minorities. ¯ spring of 1995 to an audience As a board mereof about 300 Tulsa Family ¯ ber, Audra will be New~ writer Lauri Cooper ¯ responsible for reshown in the photo at right Audra Sommers Cooper & Cammermeyer .¯ cmiting, promoting interviewed Cammermeyer. awareness of human rights issues in Oklahoma and The week of Pride events begins with an interfaith worship ¯ serving as a liaison between Oklahoma and the service to be held at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The ¯ national organization in Washington, DC, where Reverend Dr. Mel White, author and civil rights activist, will be ¯ she will be heading for orientation this month. "I’m the principle speaker at this event. White will lead a workshop ¯ really, really happy that I was appointed, to the also to be held at the PAC on Saturday, June 3, from 2-5pm (free) : Board of Governors," she said. on the principles of non-violent social change. ¯ Sommers joins Tulsan Marty Newman on the Lougams will speak at a black tie optional dinner to be held at ¯ Board of Governors. Newman expressed delight the prestigious Summi t Club on Friday, June 9th. Tickets for the : with Sommers selection. "Audra has a ~roven event are $75/person and there will be a VIP reception at $50/ .. history of work on behalf of the commumty, and person. These events will benefit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human ¯ she has an enormous number of people wholook to Rights, the parent organization of the Gay Community Center ¯ her leadership," noted Newman. He added that and Oklahoma’ s oldest Lesbian and Gay non-religious organiza- ." HRC is concentrating its effolas on Tulsa at this tion. ¯ time and he feels Sommers will add immeasurably Organizers anticipate that the parade will follow the same route ¯ to HRC’s strengths. as last year, see Audra, p.3 Be Counted: Effort to Include Gays in Census SoulForee in Oklahoma Pentagon Admits Hate SAN JOSE, Calif. (AP) - A national campaign to include Gays and Lesbians in Census 2000 is urging same-sex couples to check off the box indicating they’re unmarried partners. Using e-mail, ads in Gay publications and word-ofmouth, the campaign is an un0fficial way to get a partial indication of the nation’s Gay and Lesbian population, the San Jose Mercury News reported recently. "We want to make the point that there is such a thing as a Gay or Lesbian family,’" said PaulaEttelbrick, family policy director for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. The federal government added the unmarried partners category to the census in 1990, to recognize heterosexual couples who live together without being married. That year, 150,000 same-sex households were identified. "It was a vast undercount,’" said Ann Northrop, board member for the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies. Those involved in the so-called "Out the Census’" campaign say that even though individual Gays and Lesbians won’t be counted, the number of couples will provide a partial account. And additional information included on U.S. Census forms could provide a valuable snapshot of the community, including income levels, ethnicity and the number of same-sex couples raising children. While the campaign is getting nationwide attention, some Gays and Lesbians are wary of revealing too much information. Rikki Westerschulte, who is raising a daughter with herparmer, says sheknows many couples who are nervous about declaring their sexual orientation on an official government form. The recent passage of Proposition 22, which recognizes only marriage between a man and a woman in California, adds to the suspicion. "You walk down the hall at work and wonder, ’Who is it I think I can trust, who really feels I’m immoral?’ "Westerschnlte asked. Other couples are angry they cannot declare themselves as married, see Census, p. 11 by Robert Burns, AP Military Writer WASHINGTON (AP) - Anti-Gay speech and harassment is commonplace in the U.S. military, especially among young enlisted troops, according to a Pentagon inspector general’s survey. 85% of those surveyed said they believed that anti-Gay comments are tolerated on their base or aboard their ship, and 37% said they had personally witnessed or been the target of harassment - such as hostile gestures, graffiti or physical assault- based on perceived homosexuality. The survey released last month also found a widespread belief among troops that the Clinton administration’s so-called "don’t ask, don’t tell’" policy on Gays in the military - which Vice President A1 Gore says he would eliminate if he were elected president-is not working. President Clinton himself has said the policy, forged in 1993, is now "’out of whack.’" Defense Secretary William Cohen, responding to the inspector general’ s survey results, announced he was creating a committee of military and civilian officials to draft a plan for measures to improve the policy’s implementation. Cohen put the onus on military chiefs to fix the problem. "The report shows that military leaders must do more to make it clear that harassment based on sexual orientation violates military values,’" Cohen said in a memo to the military chiefs and service secretaries. The administration’s policy, set in law by Congress in 1993 after a heated political battle, says Gays and Lesbians may serve in the military so long as they keep their sexual orientation to themselves. Dubbed "don’t ask, don’t tell,’" the policy still bars openly homosexual people from serving in uniform. Although the policy was designed to make it easier for Gays to serve, an increasing number have been discharged in recent years. see Pentagon, p..10 Speech is Widespread Members of Soulforce in Oklahoma Marched at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade in January. TULSA- Oklahoma’s oldest Gay and Lesbian organizataon is a religious one, the congregation now know as MCC United, the Metropolitan Community Church United. So perhaps it is fitting that one of Oklahoma’s newest community organizations also has religious roots. "Soulforce in Oklahoma" is part of an effort begun by the Rev. Mel White and his spouse Gary Nixon. Soulforce is an ecumenical network of volunteers committed to teaching and applying the principles of non-violence on behalf ofsexnal minorities. Thename derives from the work of Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, a leader of India’s independence movement. Soulforce or truth force is a translation of "satyagraha" a concept Gandhi began developing as a young lawyer fighting for racial justice in South Africa. Gandhi’s thinking greatly influenced the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in his work for civil rights for Black Americans. The goals of Soulforce are to end the suffering of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered persons, to change the minds and hearts of religious leaders whose anti-Gay campaigns lead directly and indirectly to that suffering, to be guided by the principles of "relentless non-violent resistance, and through this, try to bring hope and healing to society. 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Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial Full Moon Cafe, 1525 E. 15th *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *The Star, 1565 Sheridan *The Storm, 2182:S. Sheridan *Renegi~des/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *The Yellow ~rick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th , 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 41413, Tulsa, OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews@ ear~hlinlc net �by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. : brothers that we would never stand from "Unmarried Partner." That’s the U.S. ¯ a friend. And we ablemore easily to take Census 2000 official term for boyfriends ; our revenge on our irksome siblings, and girlfriends. It’s either that or else you " spouses, or children, unconstrained by the check Husband/Wife, Roomer/Boarder, ¯ politeness conventions that govern our Housemate/Roommate, or Other " relations with non-kin. Wash those dishes ¯ or you are grounded! Pick up your filthy Nonrelative. How should I label my live-in? I can’t ¯ socks, slob! call him Husband or Wife. He’s not a : Gays and Lesbians are in something of Boarder. He’s much more than a RoOm- " a residential quandary: many of us never mate. (TheCen~uginfbmas us tha~ Room- ¯ mo~e beyondthis stageof life with nonmates "share living quarters primarily to : kin. Straights leave behind their few years share expenses.") And Other Nonrelative; : of shared apartments and dormitories to although correct, is hopelessly inadequate. ¯ return to new households composed of So, for lack of better alternative, the boy- :. kin. But since Gays and Lesbians cannot friend must be an Unmarried Partner. marry, officially at least, we live out our I am pleased to see the Census Bureau ¯ lives with roommates, other nonrelatives, demands, rather romantically, that the ¯ and unmarried partners. Unmarried Partner have"a close personal ¯ This perhaps explains some of the fra¯ relationship with Person 1" (that is, with gility of Gay households. "It’s My Way or me). I know some Unmarried Partners ° the Highway!" is easier to demand when whose onetime close personal relations : you aren’t shouting at relatives. Many of have aged into an icy and tight-lipped co- ¯ us havemetguys who wereperfect couples erastence. " before they made the fatal mistake of The Census, as a condensed.form of " moving m together. And we have other Ameri~anculturalpresumption, thinks that : friends who are resigned to living solo. people really ought tO be related to their - No spare toothbrushes in their bathrooms. roommates either by blood or by marThey’ve relied too often on the unkind= riage. Anthropologists call such presumphess of strangers. tions "residence rules"- expectation about So you snooping Fed enumerators, come who should live with whom. There are along and count me. I’m checking the patrilocal and matrilocal societies where Unmarried Partner box. At the moment at children live with either father’s or least, I’m happily living with the UP. I mother’~ people. In avunculocal situarealize, given American cultural patterns, tions -the tropical Trobriand Islands that the non-kin structure of our househildren move an with mother s brothers. hold is anomalous. It will require extra Where virilocal rules are followed, women effort and forgiveness to keep it going. reside with their new husbands. Or there Forget or forgive those badly squeezed is the uxorilocal opposite: traditional Hopi .toothpaste tubes. The UP is neither brother Indian grooms, for example, move’ their nor spouse but t still want him arodttfl"to belongings into their bride’g house. And ,-:~: be counted in 2010: Lamont Lindstrorn teaches anttfOl~lbgy there isthe "neolocal" U.S. where all couples should establish new, indepenat the University of Tulsa. dent households. All these patterns describe the co-residency of kin, and the American situation is no different. Most of us live with relafives as we grow up: "mothers, fathers, Among the. survey’s key findings: sis{~s, and brothers. And most of us live - 80% of the 71,500 members of the with even more relatives after we marry: Army, Air Force, Navy and Marine Corps husbands, wives, sons, and daughters. surveyed said they had heard offensive There are just two anomalous periods in speech or jokes or derogatory names or most American life cycles when we might remarks about Gays in the past year. The find ourselves living with non-kin (with service members were not asked if they "Other Nonrelatives," according to Cenhad. participated in such behavior. sus language). The first consists of the -33% said they heard it often. It was few years between leaving morn and dad reported most frequently in the Marine behind and marriage. Corps and least in the Air Force. Such This typically is the time of higher behavior was reported to be most comeducalion when young twenty-somethings mon among junior enlisted troops. pile up in dormitories, fraternities, sorori--Of the offensive behaviors or actions ties, and shared apartments. The second reported as directed against Gays, offencomes with old age. We agomze over the sive speech was the most common. It was mor~ity of farming mom out to some mentioned by 89% of those who reported nursing home ward full of strangers. witnessing or experiencing some form of The experience of life with non-kin and harassment. Hostile gestures were reported strangers is fraught with aggravations and by 35%; threats or intimidation by 20%; difficulties. The common bathrooms, graffiti by 15%, vandalism of personal those dirty dishes, the housemate’s woeproperty by 7% and physical assault by ful taste in music. Life with mere friends 9%. or roommates is rocky and unstable. My The survey was done on 38 U.S. milinervous students busy themselves with tary bases and aboard 10 Navy ships and inventing "fictive kinship" labels for one one submarine from Jan. 24 to Feb. 11. another. They pretend that the co-resiThe spark that caused the Pentagon to dents in their sororities or fraternities are take a closer look at how the Gay policy is "just like" their sisters and brothers. And being implemented - and the extent of they watch a lot of "Friends," relying on anti-Gay behavior in the field - was the Hollywood to romanticize and make fun bludgeoning death last July of aGay Army of the peculiar experience of sharing their private, Barry Winchell, at FortCampbell, toilet seats with the "Other Nonrelated." Kentucky. His killer, a fellow Army priWe are brought up to live with relatives. vate, was convicted and sentenced to life S bared residence with kin is easier for two in prison. reasons. 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Only Florida has a law forbidding Gay adoptions, but other stateshave policies that keep homosexuals from seeking adoptions. Bill opponents and supporters said they were unaware of adoptions in Mississippi involving Gay couples or any couples hoping to adopt. Mississippi Baptists and the Tupelo-based American Family Association had lined up in support of the proposal. On the other side were the American Civil Liberties Union, which has threatened alawsuit, and homosexual groups. "It’s ridiculous,’" said Eddie Sandifer of Jackson, director of the Mis sissippi Gay and Lesbian Alliance. "This is going to be in court. It’s just a waste of taxpayers’ money. They know there’s going to be a lawsuit and they’ll lose eventually.’" House Public Health Commi ttee Chairman Bobby Moody, D-Louisville, said, "ff it’s the right thing to do, it doesn’t matter to me if it leads to a lawsuit or not.’" "What constitutes a family is not a homosexual couple,’" s~iid Moody. The bill was approved 107-8. There could be an attempt for a second vote. "That bill is of the assumption that anybody who’s Gay wilt,abuse children. That’ s not a good ~rgument. I can’t judge one’ s moral turpitude. I’m not qualified to do that,’" said Rep. David Green, D-Gloster. This is the second time in three years that Mississippi lawmakers have gotten involved in Gay issues. In 1997, they banned homosexual marriages. The adoption ban was added to a bill dealing with nurse practitioners. That proposal lets the practitioners prepare paperwork about the physical or mental condi- tion of a child being put up for adoption. Now doctors must do the paperwork. Moody said the House vote came in response to a public outcry. "There’s been a lot of publicity created around the state. It gave the false impression to some religious groups that it was happening or there was a possibility it could happen,’" he said of adoptions by Gay couples. Rep. Mary Coleman, D-Jackson, said lawmakers "’were infringing on people’s private lives.’" David Ingebretsen, director of the ACLU in Mississippi, has said his group may sue on behalf of a Gay couple if the bill becomes law. Other states have been sued over their adoption policies. The bill does not ban a Gay individiml from trying to adopt a child. It goes back to the Senate for more consideration. PlanetOut Website and Advocate/Out to Merge SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - PlanetOut, which caters to Gays and Lesbians, has announced plans to acquire Liberation Publications, the largest publisher of Gay and Lesbian periodicals and books in the country. Liberatiofi Publications Inc. produces the Advocate newsmagazine and will soon own Out magazine. Terms of the deal were not disclosed. The companies describe the deal as a merger, but the Interact company will be the dominant partner; allowing the magazines "tO continue publishing under their own brand names. "You can characterize it as the AOL-Time Warner in the Gay space,’" said Megan J. Smith,.chief executive of PlanetOut. Her five-year-old company operates the Web site www.planetout.com, along with an online radio and film service and PlanetOut TV, which airs on the site and on Canadian television. In 1996, the San Francisco-based site became the first Gay-oriented enterprise to secure venture capital funding. The company has since established parmer- ships with AOL, Netscape, Yahoo! and other major Web companies as well as made advertising agreements with Arista Records, Virgin Adantic Airways and Johnson & Johnson. Liberation Publications is based in Los Angeles. It announced Feb. 21 that it. would acquire New Yorkbased Out Publishing Inc., the publisher of Out and HIV+ magazines. The Advocate, a 33-year-old bi-weekly with a circulation of about 88,000, concentrates on news, politics, business and medical information. Out~ a monthly launchedin 1992, has a circulation of 115,000 and focuses on culture, entertainment, fitness and other topics. The Gay market is considered a prime for Intemet players because a high percentage of Gays and Lesbians use the Internet and because the Intemet )rovides.a level Of anonymity. Dr. Schlessinger’s TV Show Draws Protesters LOS ANGELES (AP) - Paramount Television says it is committed to putting tough-talking Dr. Laura Schlessinger on TV, the tough-talking protests of hundreds of angry Dr. Laura demonstrators notwithstanding. "Shame, shame, shame,’" more than 200 Gay civil rights protesters shouted outside Paramount Pictures, where they demanded the studio drop plans to put the controversial radio host on television this United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation fall. Schlessinger, known to her listeners as Dr. Laura, dispenses relationship advice onher enormously popular radio show. She has called homosexuality a"biological error’" and "deviant.’" "When Paramount bought Laura Schlessinger’s show, they bought abattle with the Gay community ,’" said Joan Garry, executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. "We’re going to do whatever it takes’" to get the ParamOunt Television Group to abandon the syndicated show, Garry said. So far Paramount has stood firm. and none of the stations signed on to air Schlessinger’s show have backed out. In arecent statement, the studio §aidit was committed to presenting moral and ethi’~fl issues without "creating or contributing to an en~cfroimaent of hurt, hate or intolerance.’" One of the signs carried by the demonstrators read "No More Matthew Shepards.’" a reference to the Gay student killed in Wyoming in 1998. Also fueling the protest is anger over the passage last month of Proposition 22, which bans same-sex marriage in California. "We will do whatever it takes to keep the pressure on. The strategies will be about advertisers and the affiliates,’" Garry said, declining to specify whether that meant station or sponsor boycotts. Countering the demonstrators were about 75 Schlessinger supporters organized by Campaign for California Families, a conservauve, nonprofit organization. "We’re the majority Of people who pay to see Paramount films and who tune in to Paramount television shows. 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Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You the city of Springfield. The Catholic Action League is also involved in the Cambridge case. Under the Cambridge ordinance passed in 1992, Gay couples go to City Hall and register as domestic partners. Once registered, partners of a city or school worker are entitled to the same health benefits as spouses of city and school workers. Michael Gardner, Cambridge’s personnel director, who administers the be~lefits, said he felt the ordinance was both legal and constitutional. "It was our view that we should continue to follow the ordinance passed by our legislative body,’" he said. The law firm, which brought the suit onbehalfof 12 Cambridge residents, attacked the ordinance on a number of legal fronts, but one argument was the one that succeeded in the Supreme Judicial Conrt last year. The SJC had rifled that the" Boston executive order was "inconsistent’" with a decades-old state law that granted cities the authority to provide health insurance to workers, their spouses and dependents. Gary Buseck, executive director of Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, said he would be happy if Cambridge fought the case vigorously. But he also called on the Legislature to pass a bill designed to grant cities and towns the power to extend the benefits if they chose. The bill has passed the Senate but is pending in the House, he said. "The Legislature can put an end to all of this and ~make sure cities and towns have an option of extending health insurance to all their employees,’" Buseck said. Georgia Hate Crimes Bill Gets Final Passage ATLA~’qTA (AP) - The Georgia Senate gave final passage to a bill allowing stiffer penalties for hate crimes. Gov. Roy Barnes will have to sign off on it before it can become law. ~ The. origii~ Version of the bill specified which types ofbigo.try warranted a hate crime, but the House amended the: measure to be more vague. It now mentions only.crimes motivated by "bias or preju- while men asked her [o oppose it. "It may have m do with the fact that women traditionally focus on family, and nurturing and relationships - that women’s identity comes from connecting,’" Pugh said. Rep. Michael Vinton, D-C01chester, a retired state trooper who has been outspoken in his criticisms of anti-Gay arguments, said he bdieved women felt less threatened by homosexuality. "For whatever reason, I feel there’s more fear among the male gender,’" Vinton said. "Men seem to be more crfical of people -it’s just our species, probably."" The trend reflects women’s greater receptiveness to homosexuals across the country, according to national policy experts. "Women overwhelnfingly support Gay aud Lesbian civil rights more than ~nen, generally speaking,’" said Paula Ettelbrick, director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute. "’Women identify more because, like Gays and Lesbians, they have not been part of the system as a group, and theymaderstand the need and desire to be a full citizen,’" she said. However, she said the fact that the Vermont House had passed a civil unions bill at all "shows that mendike everybody else have the capacity to change on issues involving their own communities.’" The bill passed on a final margin of 76 to 69. Voting yes were 57 Democrats, 14 Republicans, four Progressives mad one Independent. Voting no were 50 Republicans, 18 Democrats, and one Independent. N.M. Christian Coalition Files Phone Co. Benefits ALBUQUERQUE (AP) - The New Mexico branch of the Christian Coalition is accusing U S West of abusing public trust by providing employee benefits to homosexuals and other umnarried workers. In a document filed with the state Public Regulation Commission, theNew Mexico Christian Coalition says the policy is "offensive to decent, moral subscribers who want phone service.’" Edward Lopez Jr., U S West’s vice president in New Mexico, said he is disgusted to "see-this kind of hate and intolerance’" in a state as diverse as New Mexico. Lopez says. the policy is good business. "We believe our work force mirrors that of our. custom- Sen. Vincent D. Fort, D-Atlanta, said he would have preferred the.originalianguage but was willing to accept the ctian~e~. : ers,’" he said. "We’ve better able to understand .our. .A jury would, declare defendants guilty of a hate customers needs and respond to.them.’" crime after they were convicted of another crime such In its one-page filing, the Christian group contends as vandalism, arson, as sault or murder. The initial bill ¯ U S West’s benefits policy promotes the spread of would have allowed the judge to make that decision. ¯ AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. "We’re That change prompted Sen. Clay Land, R-Columbus, ¯ saying there’s a moral issue of unmarried people that to reverse his original vote and support the measure. ¯ donot deserve benefits. If there is any way to prevent ~At that time,.I felt the legislation was unconstitu- ¯ that from happening, we’ll do that,’" said Mark Burtional because it did not provide the accused with a " ton, executive director of the Albuquerque-based ¯ jury trial,’" he said. ¯ group. The group, affiliated with Pat Robertson’s Under the bill, sentences and fines for misdemeanChristian Coalition of America, also contends in the ors would be increased by half, up to the maximum ¯ filing that homosexuals are prone to violence and allowed, for hate crimes. Felony prison sentences ¯ child molestation. ¯ would be increased byfive years up to the maximum Linda Siegle, alobbyist for the Coalition for Equalsentence. Defendants convicted of hate crimes would ¯ ity, called the group’s statements "ludicrous and ¯ have to serve at least 90 percent of their sentences. absurd, based on every lie and stereotype perpetrated ¯ on people who are Gay.’" About 2,500 private corporations, universities and other organizations across the nation provide domes" tic partnership benefits, she said. ¯ In its Mar~h i0 filing,’ the New Mexico Christian MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - A greater percentage of women than men in the Vermont House of Represen- ¯ Coalition requested the PRC investigate "the social tatives voted in favor of the civil unions bill that ¯ implications of this heinous U S West policy.’" "The partners of homosexuals .shouldn’t have the right to passed in the House last week. ¯ get benefits fromamonopoly when I have no other Female representatives approved by a wide margin choice (for servic£),’" Burton said. " " granting same-sex couples tile benefits of marriage The Public Regulation Commission currently as through civil unions while their male counterparts investigating U S West’s customer rates. Commisturned it down. The women voted for the bill 35-9 sion chairman Bill Pope said he couldn’t comment on while the men voted against it 60-41. anything contained in the filing because the panel has All but one of 32 female Democrats voted in favor yet to hear the rate case. of the bill, while four of 12 Republican women voted for it. Although women make up relatively smaller proportions of each caucus, more than half of the Democrats voting yes were women, and more than a quarter of the Republicans voting yes were women. Rep. Anne Pugh, D-South Burlington, said female constituents in general asked her to support the bill, Women Lawmakers Key To Civil Unions Win �South African Gays May Give Blood JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - Gay men have a constitutional right to donate blood, the South African Human Rights Commission has ruled. The commission said it was no longer Gays who were most at risk for HIV in S outh Africa, but people in their early 20s. The commi ssion demanded that a blood bank in Western Cape change its practice of not accepting blood from homosexual men. Western Cape Blood Transfusion Service director Arthur Bird on Friday said he disagreed with the decision and was seeking legal advice. The case came about after Andrew Barnes, a public relations manager, responded to an urgent plea for new donors in the midst of a severe blood shortage last year. A nurse at Western Cape Blood Transfusion Service declined Barnes’ blood after he marked "yes’" on the form’ s question of whether he had had sex with a man. Barnes had been in a r~lationship with another man for more than two years. The commission said the decision to reject Barnes’ blood was ’~discrimination in terms of the Constitution." It said it would take the blood bank to court unless it explains what changes it will make to avoid breaching people’s constitutional right to equality before April 3. Teacher With AIDS LAKELAND, Fla. (AP) - HIV/AIDS activist Cathy Robinson was a teacher in 1991, living a storybook life with her husband, pregnant with their second child. She and her husband, Dan, went to the doctor for what was supposed to be a routine physical for life insurance and learned theunimaginable: They both Were infected with the virus that causes AIDS. Three years later, she developed AIDS. "My first instinct was, ’I know where I’ve been. Where have you been?’ " Robinson said. Then headlines flashed through her head declaring Belle Glade where she had worked with children- the AIDS capital of the state. She wondered if she had contracted the deadly virus there. But two months later, Robinson, 34, found out she had contracted HIV from a man who died from AIDS complications in prison while doing time for raping her July 4, 1984, at a Tallalaassee convenience store where she worked. Privacy laws prohibited the prison from disclosing to Robinson that he had AIDS. She went seven years without finding out she had HIV. She gave it to her husband during that time, but her children, Garrett and Lyndsy, are HIV-free. There is only about a 20% chance a pregnant mother will pass on HIV to her baby. With medicine, the chances drop to 4%. Robinson, who also wasdiagnosed with breast cancer two year~s ago, is coping with her own mortality by spending the time she has left to promote safe sex and persuade people to get tested. Her efforts includ~lhe NAMES Project AIDS Memoria~:Quilt display, which is being displayed this month in the Hollis Wellness Center at Florida Southern College. Robinson. travels throughout Florida talking with students, sheriffs’ deputies and commumty groups about HIV and AIDS, defying stereotypes of the "typical’" AIDS victim, as a mamed, white, middle-class mother of two. Laws about HIV status disclosure vary by state. In Florida, it takes a court order to have someone convicted of sexual as- sault tested. "We don’t as a state mandate testing, and emergency rooms don’t have time to do it,’" Robinson said. "They (tell) victims of sexual as sault, ’In a few weeks, you should get tested.’ " Assistant State Attorney Sherri Scarborough, who handles many of the criminal sexual assault cases in Polk County, said state statutes allow the court to order HIV tests of anyone accused of a crime where bodily fluids are exchanged. But the victim has to request the tests and ask that the health department notify them of the results. Scarborough said she only remembered two cases in the past six years when a victim wanted to have his or her attacker tested. One whs aT0-year-old woman. The other was a college student. Robinson was a student at Florida State University when she was raped. Two of her attackers were convicted, but a third man never was arrested. She testified in the two trials but did not ask that her attacker be tested because there was no HIV test at the time. "In 1985, there was a test. I called right away, but they said, ~Cathy, you don’t need to worry. The only people who get HIV are Gays and drug users,’ " she said. Meanwhile, her attacker was being treated for AIDS in prison. When Robinson found out she was HIVpositive, she said she didn’t tell anyone for amonth. Thev. two months passed, and she was about to give bir~ to her son, Garrett, now 8. "Three nurses refused to give us care. One, not knowing anything about me, assumed we decided to have children even though we had AIDS. She called (the Department of Children and Families) to try to get them to take our kids away,’" Robinson said. Then Robinson made a choice she could never take back. She decided to talk about her story in schools and churches to raise public awareness. "By going public, there was no way I could ever teach again, which was fine,’" she said. "Then they wiped my husband’s job out of his company. We paid tbr groceries with credit cards for a while... Then we realized they were going to turn our lights out. We moved in with my parents in Clewiston." Cathy and Dan since have moved to Fort Myers with her best friend, a nurse. But they decided five years ago to have Garrett and Lyndsy, 9, continue to live with her parents, to ease the transition on the day the~ know will come. The Robinsons see their children on weekends and holidays. They write in journals and make tapes to record memories they want the kids to remember. "We knew ultimately we were going to die,’" Cathy said. "We thought it was important for them to transilion. We never thought we’d still be transitioning five years later. Our biggest fear was dying before Lyndsy and Garr’ett were old enough to remember us.’" Bill Gregory, an advertising professor at Florida Southern, fellow AIDS activist and friend, said Cathy hves to spread the message. But radiation therapy has made it more difficult in recent months. Cathy travels to Miami for radiation treatments because she can get them free in exchange for leading educational programs. She puts about 1,500 miles a week on her leased Ford Explorer traveling throughout the state for AIDS education, stressing safer sex and HIV testing. "You have to be tested,’" she said. "No. 1, you don’t want others to get infected. No. 2, they can treat you. If you are negative, you have a chance to rethink your activities that got you there.’" Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. January April July October December Even Out Your Monthly Electric Bills. At WoO, we know that changing weather conditions throughout the year can cause your monthly electric bills to rise and fall dramatically. Which can make it tmrd to plan your household budget. That’s why ~ our Average Monthly Payment plan, could be your budgeting solution. 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Are You Native American?../,= Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men s Support Group is here for you~. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ E~ening support group meetings Relationship workshops Short trips, outings and retreats Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project beginning at the Gay Community Center ¯ at 37th and Peoria and ending at Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder. The parade will begin at llam The Pride Festival will also begin at Veterans Park at 1 lain and will continue till about 7 or 8pm, finishing off the week’s events. TOHR organizers include Kerry Lewis as chairperson of the overall effort. "Humanity United for Haman Rights -Diversity Celebration 2000," Greg Gatewood, TOI-IR president and festival chair, Audra Sommers, parade chair, Lynn Moesteller, sponsor chair, Mitchell Savage, media chair, Ktis Kohl, festival entertainment chair and Ned Bruha, in charge of festival booths and beverages. On June 3, Saturday, That evening also at the PAC Doenges Theatre, the TOHR Follies, not seen for a namber of years, will reprise, 100 Years of Broadway with tickets available through the PAC. Tuesday, June 6th, an art exhibit, "United" will open and on Thursday, June 8th, there will be a film night. Locations and times will be announced later. For more information about these events, call the Gay Community Services Center at 743-4297 (Gays). And while the organization has not been in Tulsa for long, already it’s become active and visible. Soulforce members along with TOHR, Tul sa Oklahomans for Haman Rights, marched in the M.L.King, Jr. Day parade, marking the first time openly Gay people and groups have partidipated. And for the kick-off for this year’s Gay Pride events, Diversity Celebration 2000, Soulforceis bringing Mel White and Gary Nixon back to Tulsa for an interfaith workshop and to lead a Soulforce workshop. White and Nixon were in Tulsa several years ago for a regional conference of i~FLAG, Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, held at All Souls Unitarian Church. Also on May 6-12, in Cleveland, Ohio, at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, Soulforce will hold Soulforce University (SFU) SFU is arare, one-week opportunity for people of faith to learn and apply the principles of nonviolence. SFU is being held in conjunction with the world congress of the United Methodist denomination of Chris-. tianity, General Conference 2000 which will also be in Cleveland, on May 2-12. Historically, Methodists have cared about the poor, the homeless, and the outcast. Soulforce organizers state, "sadly, decisions made by their [United Methodist] General Conferences over the past three decades have ended that tradition of caring and made outcasts of God’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered children. We hope to help end those unjust and discriminatory policies. For thirty-t~vo years United Methodist leaders have debated the issue of homosexuality. Too many of" their delegates have ignored the historic, scientific, psychological, pastoral and even biblical evidence thathomosexuality is neither a sickness nor a sin. As a result, with almost every General Conference the U.M.C. has hardened its anti-homosexual position. That position leads to discrimination, snffeting, and death.’" Several Tulsans involved in Soulforce will participate in the Cleveland events. The NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter is proud to announce the return of the Quilt to Tulsa for a major display at the Maxwell Convention Center December 1 through 3, 2000. The success of a major Quilt display is dependent on volunteers from our community. To develop interest and support for this major World AIDS Day event, the Tulsa Area Chapter will host a reception on Thursday evening, April 27 at 7: 00pm at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. Please join us as we bring together the community in preparation for "HEAR the Quilt." We’ll have sections of the Quilt on display and lots of information about upcoming events Refreshments will be served and it will be a great opportunity to renew old friendships and make new ones. For more information you can contact us at (918) 748-.~1 ll or at TulsaQuilt@go.com OK Spoke Club The OK Spoke Club is begimfing its tides again. A long ride (20 miles plus) will begin at Ziegler Park at 7:30am on April 8th & 15th. Water and helmet are required. A short tide (5 miles) along the Katy Bicycle path in Sand Springs will begin at 6:30 pm on April 19th. Water and helmet are strongly reconnnended. At 9am, a long ride will begin at the Pride Center, 3749 S. Peoria, rear parking lot on April 22th. Water and helmet are required. A short ride will leave from there at 6:30 pm on April 26th. Water and helmet are strongly recommended. For more information, contact the club at POB 9165, Tulsa, Ok 74157, or emaii to: Okiebicycle@prodigy.net Texas Lesbian Conference For 13 years now, Texas Lesbians have presented one of the best conferences in the US. This year’ s event, to be held at the Renaissance Hotel, Greenway Plaza on May 19-21 in Houston. The conference will feature Urvashi Vaid, former executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, cartoonist/cormnentator, Alison Bechdal, creator of "Dykes to Watch Out For," poet and author Ntozake Shange and Lesbian comic Marga Gomez. And if these were not enough of a draw, TLC offers a variety of workshops on legal, financial, spiritual and other issues. TLC is a woman only event for which you must be 18 to attend. For more information, write POB 66012, Houston 77266. Or "call 713-460-3435 for a registration form. . Living ArtSpace New Show Tul’sa’s contemporary art gall~ery~: Living Ai~tSpace, now located at 308 South Kenosha will present exhibition opening & gallery talk by artist, John Hitchcoek, on Thursday, April 6, 5:30-8pm. Hitchcock invites the viewer to become a participant in his installation by encouraging them to "play games" and receive a silk screened pnnt or an object. Using games derived from Native American traditions, the artist challenges the participant to make the comparison between traditional culture and the artwork. �a certain street in. Arlington, Texas, and Once upon a time, there was a teenager thought it was a real cool place - until he named, for lack of a better moniker, Jim. began to notice all the other patrons were He was teased most of his school life for men - and looking at him. Then he left in being gay, name calling and threats of a hurry. You can imagine physical violencebeing the chief tactics deployed by " ~roadway Damage’ the comments this brought on from the jocksters. It most of the other kids - the mainstays of which were is another little sleeper, was all Jim could do not to the dreaded "jocks." ask WHERE. In fact, Jim did devote a considerHe had few friends, but is actually quite able amount of time to one of the few he considthoughts onhow to get the ered a friend happened to wonderful... desired information withbe Shaun. Shatm was in out giving myself away, choir and on the football The film is a ~ood never could figure out team, and Jim had known old-fashloned romantle but a foolproof method. Some him for a few years, since years later, Jim did go in eornedy, kind of llke Jr High. What Jim research of the aforemenpressed and suppressed the old screwballs tioned place - and discovwas his physical and emoered it was in a shopping tional attraction for Shann. eomedles of the 30’s... center with no sign age or Shaun wasn’t classically It’s a well-wrltten, indications of any sort that handsome, but something about him was incredibly well-fihned, well-acted there was anything in the shopping center. You had attractive to Jim. Maybe it " story that is sure to to know where and what it was just that, unlike the was to get there and find other jocks, who singled brin~ a smile to the place. Interesting... Jim out for particular toranyone’s face..." Later that day, Shaun ment, Shaun always had and I found ourselves treated him with kindness alone in his parent’s house. He excused and yes, even friendline,ss. This was !lJghly unusual. Jim and Shaun s friendship~ew, himself to take a shower, and was in there along time. A really long time. Jim began and they hung out a bit together. Jim to wonder if he should just go home, continued suppressing, and just enjoyed Shaun was in there so long. Then, out he Shaun’s company, basking in the glow of popped, completely nude - and Jim with their friendship. no glasses on! (He was near blind without At one point, they went to a film tothem.) It took a lot of control not to look gether. Shaun sat with legs spread wide, down, which he recalls doing anyway, for his leg touching Jim’ s. Wall, all Jim could a split second. Shaun probably caught it. focus on throughout the film was the He paused, saying, "Sorry, forgot to take sensfition of Shaun s leg against his; the my clothes i.n with me." Then went into bea~from the other boy’s body flowing his room. Jim was nonplused. Here Shaun in~d~s, the fact that he was really uncomis, withakidhe knew was teased for being fortable due to the fact that certain feelGay, exposing himself. ingSwere rising., feelings he’d been hidHe spent a long time in his room, too, by ing from everyone, including himself. the way Jimwas certain this was all atest, 0~ things w~re rising too, and he had and the slightest wrong move would end no!~dea how tohandle this. He wasn’t sure the friendship - after all, Shaun was a ifShaun was doing this deliberately or by good Southern Baptist boy, going to a accident. In ~_ospect, it had to be on church that literally preached coercion to purpose. Shfiuns leg never left contact get new members. wi~Jim’s tmtil the film was over. Jim Yes, Jim knows better now. There were wasi:terrified.~Did he dare move, and cut off~ie contact which he really so despersignals being sent, Jimjust misinterpreted them. Jim wished he hadn’t, even though atdy Wanted?Or should he re~pond? Was that would have ted to heartbreak. Jim thi~ ~ test? Surely Shaun was aware of the really was in love with Shaun. Last Jim comments and teasing; he’d seen it hapheard, Shaun was married, with kids. Sad pen, To this day, Jim has no memory of thing is, that all Jim had to go on were that film or what it was. Just the sensation negative images of Gayness. That’s all of Shaun’s leg and the accompanying that was out there in the world then. There delight/fear. was no "Will and Grace", no positive Jim’s fervent yet deeply hidden desire movie role models. And All he knew was was for Shaun and he to be in love. Yet, of that one wrong step could end a friendcourse this could never be. Shaun was ship, Or even get him beaten - or, in one straight - Jim thought. And he was ever so case he read about, killed. aware of the fragility of friendship- he’d Which leads me to a DVD review:_"Get ~aot had many, ai~d would do nothing to Real". The story is pretty much the same jeopardize this one. as above, with nerdy schoNboy falling for One time, Shaun asked Jim to join he upperclassmanjock. Except in the case of and some friends for a swim. When Jim "Get Real", the relationship is consumgot to Shaun’s house, he discovere~...that mated when schoolboy finds out that the the friends.~were other members of the jockster is indeed, homoerotically infootball team - the ones who so delighted clined. Of course, Mr. Jock is severely in making life aliving hell for Jim. "Well", suppressing, and holding on to his straight he thought,"This should be ablast. NOT!" identity with every’ fiber of his being. The To his surprise, they all got along. Jim did film played Tulsa for about a week in ’96 feel incredibly out of place and utterly or ’97. I’m sure not everyone got to see it, self-conscious the whole time they were so I won’t spoil the ending. Let’s just say around. Had to be careful not to slip up schoolboy .comes out publicly and disand steal a glance at the wrong moment, covers his inner strength. He’s accompanot that he could see anything without his nied by a female friend, who reminded me coke-bottle glasses anyway. of my friend Karin, who is now a Lesbian! During the swim day, Shann told an More on that later, see Amuse, p. 9 interesting story: He had entered a bar on low budget movie that GILCREASE MUSEUM �EUREKA SPRINGS DIVERSITY CELEBRATION April 29, May 5 & 7, 2000 Call 587-4811 -Friday, April 7 - 8:30pm to 12:30am,Dancing in the Ozark Room at the Basin Park Hotel (12 Spring Street) with DJ Jon Caswell. Sponsored by the MCC of the Living Spring. Cover: $5 per person. Cash Bar. Must be 21. - 9pm to 12:30am, Karaoke at Shaw’s Tavern (37 Spring Street) - 10pm to 2am, Breakfast at the new Eureka House of Blues (in the basement of the x’~ :w Orleans hotel at 63 Spring Street) or, - 1 lpm to 2am, Breakfast at the Eureka Food Court (37 Spring Street) Saturday, April 8 r 10am to Noon, Canoe float on the White River. $25 per canoe. Singles welcomereservations and info, call theBeaver Dam Store at 501-253-6154. 10:30am. to Noon, Learn a littl6 of Eureka S prings’ history on a guided walking to, the Historic District. Meet at Sweet Spnngs next to Rogue’s Manor on upper !: Street. For further information, call 501-253-0070 or e-mail walking@nwaft.com. - Noon to 3:30pm "Go Fly a Kite!" Weather permitting, bring your kites and your cameras .at the beautiful Pond Mountain Lodge and Resort (two miles south on HighWay 23). For more information, contact Judy Jones at 800-583-8043. - lpm to 2:30pro Head out to Lake Leatherwood Park (off Highway 62 West) for an informative, guided trail hike. Get there a few minutes early and bring some water; some walking sticks will be provided. You can also hike on your own on one of the various trails in Eureka Springs’ "City Park". To obtain a trail map or for further information about the park, please e-mail lthrwood@ipa.net. For further information about the hike, call Steve at 501-253-9380 or 9384 or e-mail gands@ipa.net. - Please visit the unique shops and restaurants in the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative. Let them know you’re here for Diversity Weekend! - 3:30pm to 9pm, Check out The Holein the Wall (191/2 Spring Street) for Karaoke with Lita! Lunch and dinner will also be served. For further information, call 501-253-8361. - 9pm to lain; Dance to the high,energy club ttmes of DJ Jon Caswdl at Center Stage (37 Spring Street). Must be 21. Cover: $5 per person. Sponsored by The Emerald Rainbow, Mark E. Cook Properties and Center Street Bar & Grill. - 9pm to 12:30am, Belt out your favorite tunes as Shaw’ s Tavern (37 Spring Street) once again hosts a Karaoke night for "family" and friends. - 10pm to 2am, Brealffast at the new Eureka House of Blues (in the basement of the New Orleans hotel at 63 Spring Street) or, - 1 lpm to 2am, Breakfast at the Eureka Food Court (37 Spring Street) Sunday, April 9 - 2pm to 6pm, Join us again at Center Stage (37 Spring Street) for a tea dance and drag show, with performances by the "girls from Tulsa" and music by DJ Jon Caswell. Must be 21. Cover: $5 per person. Sponsored by The Emerald Rainbow, Ermilio’s Restaurant and Center Street Bar & Grill. - 7pm, MCC of the Living Spring (17 Elk Street) will hold a service. Call 501-253-9337 for information. All are welcome! For a listing of businesses supporting this and similar events, check out the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative website at www.shimaka.coln/eureka/diversity or drop by The Emerald Rainbow at 45 1/2 Spring Street for a printed copy. Oklahoma Repertory Theatre Opens TULS A-Theatreleaders from twoTulsa : and the Boys" by So. African playwright Athol Fugard. The production will mn organizations, Tulsa Repertory Theatre May 11-14 and May 18-20 at Tulsa’s and Wayward Theatre Co. have joined Performing Arts Center Liddy Doenges together to create the Oklahoma Reper~[]aeatre at 8pm and Sundays at 2pro, and tory Theatre (also known as OK REP). Catherine Adkins, Skip suraci. Christois supported in part by grants from the Oklahoma Arts Council and the Tulsa pher Ferguson-Long and Nathan Huntley Performing Arts Center Tn~st. will serve as executive artistic director, The play, directed by Nathan Huntley, advisor, associate founding artistic direcis that of a young man growing up and tor and associate artistic director, respecgrowxng aware in 1950’s South Africa tively. OK REP,like the companies out of apartheid. Tulsa actors Greg Herman, Bill which it grows is committed to "unique, Thomas and Christopher Ferguson-Long professional theatre, children’s theatre, perform the roles. Tickets are available at arts in education and community outthe PAC box office, 596-7111, for $12/ reach." adults and $9/students/seniors. For more OK REP will open its season with the Pulitzer Prize winning, "Master Harold information, call OK REP at 592-6310. Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday, 1314 North Greenwood, 587-1314 The film translates well to DVD, maintaining the widescreen image, and with excellent rarity. Sadly, there’s no extra features so prevalent now in DVD releases, such as director’s commentary, behind the scenes documentaries, etc. It would have been .nice to have the actor’s recollections of the making of the film and the affect it had on them. However, that does not detract from the fact it’s a well-written film with an excellent.cast and beautiful cinematography. The only thing that bothered one of my friends at the .initial showing was that jock boy seems to come from a well-heeled family, yet has a working class accent. I noticed after he pointed it out, but that did not detract from the otherwise excellent performanees given by Ben Silverstone as the cuteschoolboy Steven Carter, Charlotte Britain as his friend who faints on command, and the hunky Brad Gorton as the jock upon anyone Would be daft not to develop a crush. Available from Wolfe Video (www.wolfevideo.com). Along the same lines, sort of... well, not really, but there’s a well-done scene that exemplifies the kind of dynamic I wrote of regarding seeing that tmnamed film with Shaun, is "Billy’s Hollywood Screen Kiss." see Amuse, p. 11 �by Tom Neal, editor & publisher Some Oklahoma political observers have noted that the one good thing for this state about a win by Republican presidential candidate, George W. Bush, is that we’d get to send the Honorable Frank Keating, Governor of Oklahoma packing back off to DC, though others have said Oklahoma’.s gain might be to the nation’s detriment. "... ff it were not enough to invoke this bigoted image of Gay people -preying on the young, he foflowed it with a comment about how Gay people are among the wealthiest Amerleans. I had to wonder if next he’d betalklng about how ’all Black people have rhythm’ or ’the international Jewish banking eonsplraey.’..." This February, t took my’father to lunch at the Press Club to see Keating do his song and dance. I imagine that Keating expected a rather friendly reception- these days the Press Club membership hardly includesany reporters but rather mostly public relations types - good enough people but hardly known for hard hitting .journalism. They’re there to put a nice spin on tttings, not to get at the truth, typically. And you can count on The Tulsa World to report only selectively on comments made there. Then there was Dad and me sitting right up front. And dear Mr. "I am not descended from a Baboon" Keating* likely did not know what he was in for. Mr. Keating waxed eloquently about how if we only re-made government to be like"’business," and not just coincidentally turned it all over to the Republiczins, all would be great with our state. I could not have a~ked for a better setup for my question to the Governor since in Oklahoma, it’s business leading the way in treating Lesbian and Gay citizens, well, like equal citizens. The question put to the Gov. was this: Oklahoma’s leading businesses,American Airlines, the state’ s largest private employer, K.imberly-Clark, Dollar-Thrifty Auto Group whose CEO, Joseph Cappy was just appointed to the State Board of Regents for Higher Education, all of these corporations promise not to discriminate on sexual orientation. Since "business" shows us the way, Keating was asked why state government was not following their : they know they’ll be harassed or fired in any school district in the state. Any inappropriate conversation by a lead. ¯ teacher with students, whether heterosexual or homoFrank’s answer was an embarrassment to the state of Oklahoma. He said there was not a public consensus to " sexual, already has avenues for remedy. I agree with Keating, Oklahoma can learn from the support treating all people fairly and had he stopped at : example of "business." First and foremost, Frank needs this, I could hardly have argued withhim. ¯ to figure out that discrimination is bad for business and But he went on to invoke the most shameful of stereo¯ bad for Oklahoma. "Business" has figured this out. Ameritypes, saying that the state government of Oklahoma could not promise to treat Gay and Lesbian Oklahomans "¯ can and Dollar-Thrifty don’t go beyond the minimum federallaw r.eqmresjust because they regreat folks. Th y fairly because "a homosexual schoolteacher might try to ¯ ’promote’ his ’lifestyle’ to elementary school students ¯ do it because they can’t afford to lose good workers and some of those good workers ar’-e Gay. and then the state could not discipline the teacher..." ¯ It really shouldn’t be that hardfor Frank Keating. All And if it were not enough to invoke this bigoted image ¯ he needs to do is to reframe the questionin terms to which of Gay people preying on the young, he followed it with ¯ he can relate: shall we not include Catholics in our nonacomment about how Gay people are among the wealthiest Americans. I had to wonder if next he’d be talking - discnmmattonlawsbecausewecouldn tfiretbemlfthey mdocmnated our children with the Cathohc lifestyle m about how "all Black people have rhythm" and "the schools ? Keating should know that it w ash’ t that long ago international Jewish banking conspiracy." : that precisely those stereotypes were common in thisI did have the opportunity to say.his allegation about state. After all, Keating claims to be a Christian. And as Gay "wealth" was false but not to question his premises : such, he is commanded to "treat others as he would be about promising to treat public employees fairly. ¯ treated." That?s pretty straightforward. I’d bet even a And this, of course, ignores the fact that it is almost unimaginable that any Gay teacher would engage in ¯¯ "lower" primate, maybe even a baboon might be able to figure that out. The question is can our governor? inappropriate discussions - they’re all too scared because "Well, I’m Gay, and this may surprise you but it wasn’t by Dave Fleischer a choice for me. And if I’m doing a good job at work, do Senior Fellow, Policy Institute you think my boss should be. able to fire me just because National Gay and Lesbian Task Force I’m Gay?" Have you ever met a homophobe? Of course you have, "I don’t want to hear about your sex life." which is why you might not immediately be eager to "I don’t want to tell you about my sex life--but if I’m ~ campaign door-to-door using the "G" word when we doing a good job at my job, should my boss be able to fire need to win an election. me just because I’m Gay?" You might be thinking: Holy Roller, don’t a lot of . [Long pause] people go into rant mode the minute we say the Word [She says uncertainly] "I’ve never thought about that." "Gay?’" "Well, that’s what you’ll, be voting on. Here’s the wordActually, they don’t. Everywhere I’ve gone door-toing that will be on the ballot. door with teams of volunTakealookatit. [Pausewhile "... I don’t want to tell you about teers,-once we explain in she reads] What do you plalnlanguage the issue votmy%exllfe - but ff I’m doing think?" ers will be facing, the overI didn’t make this voter a whelming majority are on a job at my job, supporter. But I did move .our side. Most of the rest are her from leaning against us undecided. This has been should my boss be able to fire me to someone who might be true in Anchorage, Houston, undecided. The conversation just because I’m Gay?" and Fayetteville, Arkansas; took about two minutes. Then in San Francisco, suburban [long pause, she says uncertainly] I was on to the next door. Westchester County,.in MiIf we’ve trained our-volami (nope, not just in South "I’ve never thought about that..." unteer team well, we comBeach) and in both Demomunicate our key message cratic and Republican parts * ina recent controversy about teaching evolution in within the limits of the voter’s attention span. Then we of Spokane, Washington. And that’s just the places in public schools, Keating claimed he was not descended ask what they think. And they tell us. 1998-and 1999 that we’ve gone door-to-door in. from a baboon. The Tulsa World contested that claim. Soinetimes their answer isn’t easy to hear (I didn’t love Sure, we start in neighborhoods where we believe we’ll Ms. Informed’s ?Gays can change"). But if we listen with find many supporters. But even when we broaden to a genuine interest, and offer a clear, honest exchange, they - diverse set of neighborhoods, 60 to 90% of the time, return the favor. We usually-leave the door either knowvoters are surprised to learn that the basic rights, of Gay, ing we’ve found someone leaning toward us, or someone Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered (GLBT) people who is now open to hearing more. are under attack. Nobody says this work is easy. But, contrary to our ~Vhenthe~ydo, they say somethinglike. OfcourseI A...J--~"~’~A~.~,~’A,,’~ (;.... worst fears, it isn’t confrontational. It’s more like the u r= i i i i i i ~ i~..,,..; :=~-agai~i’s’t--d~sc~aination, against anybody. I like/don’t care ordinary experience of one tiuman being talking to anLocalentrepreneurandmouth-about-townactivistNed about/dort’f like Gay people, but discriminationis always other human being. wrong." Bruha will present "Operation Montreal" at The Silver And there’s an unexpected personal benefit. If we reSo the experience of going door-to-door is enormously Star, 1565 So. Sheridan, at 10pm on Friday May 5th. open our hearts, we are liberatedfrom a piece of internalencouraging. It’s both productive for the campaign, and Brnha notes, "’this night of rare comedy and mad-cap ized self-hate and our own stereotypical thinking about also personally affirming. entertainment will aid Audra MarieSommers, an indithe public. It turns out that most of them are human, too This doesn’t mean that every voter is immediately vidual among us who has selflessly impleme.nted her - and more open than we give them credit for being. happy to see us. But as a reality check, here’s the toughest .talents to l~tter the Tulsa area for the past decade,,She has Most importantly, voteridentification works. SAVE door I’ve had so far. raised money for the poor and the sick." , Dade in Miami has built a list of.more than 15,000 Gay Scene: a sweaty August ’98 morning in Fayetteville, The money raised the evening of thi~ event wiR, be ~used and pro-Gay voters by having dbnversations just like Arkansas; a white senior answers the door to help Payfor medications, travel and down-time trom these, by going door~to-door and by talking to voters ..’...’.Hi, Ms. Informed?" Yes both of lie) jobs for the transgendered Sommers as she when.they go to vote. Basic Rights Oregon beat back their "Hi, Ms..Informed, my name is Dave Fleischer, and recoups from surgery which will bring her physiology last two state-wide anti-Gay ballot measures by doing I’m with the Campaign for Human Dignity. A human into correspondence with her gender identity. voter idenlification on a large scale, and has a list of rights resolution is on the ballot - it says that here in This event is called Operation Montreal because after 125,000 voters statewide. Fayetteville we won’t tolerate discrimination on the job, many years of research, Sommers has chosen worldSure there are closed-minded homophobes out there. whether you’re a man or women, black or white, Gay or renowned surgeons in Montreal. Any funds raised will But they are far fewer and less grumpy than you’d guess non-Gay. What do you think about that?" not be used for the surgery. Sommers has underwrittem -a mere needle in a Gaystack. If we’re going to win "Well, I think that if Gay people would just go to the surgery by taking a mortgage on her home. elections, we need to talk with everyone to find our church, they would realize it’s a choice, they don’t have For more information about this event, call 585-1644, supporters. Factis, voters are ready tolistentous,ifwe’re to be that way". [She went on in this vein for a minute. I or write, "Operation Montreal" c/o Ned Bruha, P.O. Box willing to listen to them. Are we? listened.] 471282, Tulsa, OK. 74147-1282, or send e-mail to partygram@webzone.net Operat=on Montreal,. To ¯ Be n ef it u �Meet Local Guys for Hot ads guys you like ~Odgin. 18+. Additional features fron ¯ in his pool fully clothed. No answers ever ¯ came out of the investigation. Sir Inn ¯ McKellan, in a bravuraperformance, plays ~ Whale, the absolutely dynamic Lynn The number of Gays and Lesbians in ¯ Redgrave plays his housekeeper and the United States is not known because of ¯ caregiver Hannah, and the absolutely brillargely unreliable studies. Advocacy liant andbreathtakingly gorgeous Br~ndan groups often claim 10% of the population Fraser plays a yard man that Whale beis homosexual, based on surveys of sexual " friends. behavior conducted by researcher Alfred : This didplay the major theatres,butjust Kinsey taken in the 1940s. Other surveys ¯ in case, I won’t give away any more of the put the number between 4% and 6%. ." ending than I have. The performances A more direct census question concern- ¯ were all top notch, with nary a misstep. ing sexual orientation isn’t likely by the ¯ The cinematography is beautiful, and the ¯ lime the 2010 census roils around. It would detail in sets, costumes, and styleis deadtake a federal legislation to require collec- " on.~(No pun intended.) As an. actor, it’s tion of the data. And, advocates say, it’s a ~ ~really hard.f,0r me to see a film that makes tricky ’question. "Is sexual orientation ¯ ~m~fo~etI m~watehing~a film. This one ¯ defined by feelings of attraction, excludid. I was surprised, as the end credits ¯ sivity or praetors?’" Norfllrop asked. were rolling, to find I had tears runmng : down my face. The film so engrossed me ¯ that I wasn’t even aware when that began. ¯ It’s an interesting film on many levels, ¯ the most superficial being Whale as dirty Best known for launching the career of ." old man spying on the yard man; and~the "Will and Grace’ s" "Jack", Sean P. Hayes, ¯ deepest being the comments on aging, that’s about the best thing about this film. ¯ and the families we surround ourselves It’s got some good moments, but never ¯ with as that happens. The interplay of quite congeals into a satisfying film. Brad ¯ straight and Gay, and fear. The betrayal of ¯ Rowe, Meredith Scott Lynn, and Hayes the body.and time, the interplay between mm in good performances, but the rest of ¯ youth and age, the reasons we make the the cast falls flat, as do many of the jokes. ¯ choices in life that we do make., all are Hayes stars as Billy, a starving artist pho- ." explored on many levels. tographer who is the other man in an ¯ It’s definitely worth viewing several unsatisfying relationship he settles for ¯ times, if for nothing more than seeing the because (as he. tells everyone repeatedly ¯ details you missed first time around. The in this film until you just want to slap him) ¯ commentary, as opposed to the useless ¯ he CAN’T FIND A MAN. blathering on Billy’s HSK, is insightful, He stumbles upon Gabriel (the im- ¯ informative, and frequentlylamusing. mensely appealing Brad Rowe), and in- ." There’s enough mix in details of how the stant dysfunctional crush develops, in spite ¯ film was made, how attention to details of the fact (?) that Gabriel is straight. : was as important as performance, behind Hilarity ensues (yawn). There’s the pre- ¯ the scenes stories of what went on during requisite drag queen comic relief trio, that ¯ filming, what it was like to deal with this should never have .entered this film, be- ¯ or that to keep one quite amused. cause they are rather pointless to.the plot, ." ~ And after watching the film go by wlth content, and are really so bad they detract " the commentary, especially re~ardihg the from the film..Obvibusly, theyare ~aeant ." director’s intentions, it’s kind of a fun to be bad, but all the ~vay t~ough the ¯ game to play to see how much youpieked opening.sequence~ and at se{~eral points ’’up on. ~klso, some historica~ facts_ are ~(way too many) through the film, they ." thrown in, not in a dry, witless manner, -..seem to just be inserted for no reason. If ¯ but which augment the viewing Of the they were doing something that was : film. So, for me, it gets a definite. BUY plot~orthy and actually funny, it might be ¯ THIS! Even if you only get the video a good thing. They’re not, and basically ~ version (which may or may not have the just fill time when the director can’t pull documentary), it’s worth it. Available at his head out long enough to actually make ; Wolfe Video. a film. "Broadway Damage" is another little This DVD comes with a commentary, sleeper, low budget movie that is actually and even that - usually a high point and quite wonderful. A romantic comedy that asset - is utterly boring. Yes, Sean’s a actually is, as~ opposed to Billy, it stars wonderful actor -now. OK, Brad was some very talented unknowns in a film uncomfortable with the film and part s tartthat is well written and leaves you feeling ing out. (Why is never detailed, and that good. "Nerdy Guy’~ and "Beautiful Boy" was what might have been actually interin New York looking for"Mr. RightY BB esting.) OK yes, there are lots of homages is always finding people bad for him, and to old films, most of which are obvious, pursues one that is really bad news. NB is especially with the dream/musical seseeking Mr Right and has a crush on BB quences. Overall, Billy’s a fine addition Enter BB’s roommate Quirk~y~rl. QG is to an avid collector of Gay film, for architrying to make it in NYC on hiSrtwn, even val purposes. It’s amusing once through. though daddy’s rich. He wants her to get But it’s a definite rental, not a keeper. a job, something she’s never had to do. Also available from Wolfe Video. She and the boys form a fun trio, and have An excellent film to have on DVD for merry adventures in NYC. repeated viewings and the extras, is"Gods The film is a good old-’fashioned roand Monsters." It is a most moving and mantic comedy, kind of like the old screw affecting film, and the disc has lots of balls comedies of the 30’s upon which it is goodies, along with a commentary that patterned. The ending’s predictable, but actually IS interesting, a documentary with the g~tting there is fun, as with most Clive Barker as host, interviews with the journeys. Even if you know where you’re actors, and lots of lovely details. The film, going,, the trip is never the same twice, based on Christopher Brain’s book, is a right? It’s a well-written, well-filmed, look .at what might have happened in the well-acted story that is sure to bring a days leading to James Whale’s mysterismile to anyone’s face. It should have ous death. received wider release w~h,en it played the Whale, the director best known for the film houses, but is a gem I m sharing with films "Frankenstein" and "Bride of Franyou. Yep, available at Wolfe Video on kenstein" in the ’30’s, was found floating VHS and DVD. �presents .... an eclectic mix of choral literature ranging from Baroque to Broadway, from pop classics of the ’50s and ’60s to a bawdy sea chantey an~J.an American Folk song featuring the Green Country Cloggers. ,Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8, 2000 at 8pm Williams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center (reception following) Tickets: PAC box office, 596-7111 in Tulsa, 1-800-364-7111 or online at www.tulsapac.com COUNCIL oak a fellowship of gay men dedicated to musical excellence in the performance of choral literature, providing a source of pride, unity, and support, while presenting a positive image for ourselves, our community, and society as a whole. FOR MORE INFORMATION about the COUNCIL oak meN~S c~or~aLe and its parent organization, the non-profit Vocal Pride Foundation, visit our award-winning website at www.eouneiloak.org. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Berlin Exhibit Looks at Gay Victims of Nazis by Paul Geitner, Associated Press Writer BERLIN (AP) - Focusing attention on along-neglected group of Nazi victims, a two-part exhibition about Gays persecuted under the Nazis opened Sunday at museums m Berlin and in a former concentration camp where many of the victims were killed. The exhibits of documents, photos, drawings and other objects collected during 10 years ofresearchis the largest on the subject ever mountedinGermany, project organizers said. It documents the fate of700individuals who suffered under the Nazis’ draconian anti-Gay laws and tells 60 personal stories. "We want to return to the Gay victims of the Nazis theirnames and to show their lives, as far as possible, so as to.at, least symbolically liberate them.from the dehumamzmg barbarity of the Nazis,’" said Andreas Stemweiler, project director at the Gay Museum in Berlin, where part of the exhibit is being shown. The other half opened at the Sachsenhausen concentration camp, where many Gay men - labded with a .pink triangle- ended up because of the camp’s proxim- ,ty to the capital, see Nazis, p.3 Be Counted: Effort to Include Gays in Census SAN JOSE, Calif. (AP) - A national campaign to include Gays and Lesbians in Census 2000 is urging same-sex couples to check offtheboxindicating they’re unmarried partners. Using e-mail, ads in Gay publications and word-ofmouth, thecampaign is an un0fficial way to get a partial indication of the nation’s Gay and Lesbian population, the San Jose Mercury News reported recently. "We want to make the point that there is such a thing as a Gay or Lesbianfamily,’" said PaulaEttelbrick, family policy director for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. The federal government added the unmarried partners category to the census in 1990, to recognize heterosexual couples who live together without being married. That year, 150,000 same-sex households were identified. "It was a vast undercount,’" said Ann Northrop, board member for the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies. Those involved in the so-called "Out the Census’" campaign say that even though individual Gays and Lesbians won’t be counted, the number of couples will provide a partial account. And additional information included on U.S. Census forms could provide a valuable snapshot of the community, including income levels, ethnicity and the number of same-sex couples raising children. While the campaign is getting nationwide attention, some Gays and Lesbians are wary ofrevealing toomuch information. Rikki Westerschulte, who is raising a daughterwith herparmer, says sheknows many couples who are nervous about declaring their sexual orientation on an official government form. The recent passage of Proposition 22, which recognizes only marriage between a man and a woman in California, adds to the suspicion. "You walk down the hall at work and wonder, ’Who is it I think I can trust, who really feels I’m immoral?’ "Westerschnlte asked. Other couples are angry they cannot declare themselves as married, see Census, p. 11 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations Camme,rmeyer .To Join Lougan s at Pr de 2000 TULSA - Last month, the organizers of Diversity Festival 2000 announced that US Olympic champion, Greg Louganis, would serve as Grand Marshall for the° Millennium Pride Parade this June. This month, organizers confirmed that Dr. Grethe Cammermeyer, distiguished veteran of the United States Armed Forces, will join Louganis as grand marshall. Cammermeyer challenged US anti-Gay/Lesbian policies which forced her out of her nursing positionin the United States Reserve forces. Her lifestory was madeinto a television film produced by Barbra Streisand, starring Glenn Close. Cammermeyerhas come to Tulsa before. She spoke at the Universi ty of Tulsa in the spring of 1995 to an audience of about 300 Tulsa Family New~ writer Lauri Cooper shown in the photo at right interviewed Cammermeyer. The week of Pride events begins with an interfaith worship service to be held at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The Reverend Dr. Mel White, author and civil rights activist, will be the principle speaker at this event. White will lead a workshop also to be held at the PAC on Saturday, June 3, from 2-5pm (free) on the principles of non-violent social change. Lougams will speak at a black tie optional dinner to be held at the prestigious Summi t Club on Friday, June 9th. Tickets for the event are $75/person and there will be a VIP reception at $50/ person. These events will benefit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, the parent organization of the Gay Community Center and Oklahoma’ s oldest Lesbian and Gay non-religious organization. Organizers anticipate that the parade will follow the sameroute as last year, Cooper & Cammermeyer SoulForee in Oklahoma Members of Soulforce in Oklahoma Marched at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade in January. TULSA- Oklahoma’s oldest Gay and Lesbian organizataon is a religious one, the congregation now know as MCC United, the Metropolitan Community Church United. So perhaps it is fitting that one of Oklahoma’s newest community organizations also has religious roots. "Soulforce in Oklahoma" is part of an effort begun by the Rev. Mel White and his spouse Gary Nixon. Soulforce is an ecumenical network of volunteers committed to teaching and applying the principles ofnon-violence on behalf ofsexnal minorities. Thename derives from the workofMohandas Karamchand Gandhi, a leader of India’s independence movement. Soulforce or truth force is a translation of "satyagraha" a concept Gandhi began developing as a young lawyer fighting for racial justice in South Africa. Gandhi’s thinking greatly influenced the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in his work for civil rights for Black Americans. The goals of Soulforce are to end the suffering ofLesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered persons, to change the minds and hearts of religious leaders whose anti-Gay campaigns lead directly and indirectly to that suffering, to be guided by the principles of "relentless non-violent resistance, and through this, try to bring hope and healing to society. In Tulsa, Soulforce was organized by individuals involved in MCC United and the group has been holding regular meetings at the Gay Community Services Center. see Soul, p. 7 ¯ Tulsan Chosen For HRC Board ¯ Fundraiser Audra Sommers : To Join Marty Newman in DC ¯ TULSA - Audra Sommers, who is planning an ¯¯ AIDS benefit in Tulsa next month, has gained national recognition ¯ forher humanrights - efforts. Sommers ¯ has been named to the Board of Gover- ¯ nors of the Human ¯ Rights Campaign, a ¯ 300,000-member national organlza- ¯ tion that batdes dis- -¯ crimination against sexual minorities. ¯ As a board mere- ¯ ber, Audra will be ¯ responsible for re- . cmiting, promoting ¯ awareness ofhuman rights issues in Oklahoma and ¯ serving as a liaison between Oklahoma and the ¯ national organization in Washington, DC, where ¯ she will be heading for orientation this month. "I’m ¯ really, really happy that I was appointed, to the : Board of Governors," she said. ¯ Sommers joins Tulsan Marty Newman on the ¯ Board of Governors. Newman expressed delight : with Sommers selection. "Audra has a ~roven .. history of work on behalf of the commumty, and ¯ she has an enormous number of people wholook to ¯ her leadership," noted Newman. He added that ." HRC is concentrating its effolas on Tulsa at this ¯ time and he feels Sommers will add immeasurably ¯ to HRC’s strengths. see Audra, p.3 Audra Sommers Pentagon Admits Hate Speech is Widespread by Robert Burns, AP Military Writer WASHINGTON (AP) - Anti-Gay speech and harassment is commonplace in the U.S. military, especially among young enlisted troops, according to a Pentagon inspector general’s survey. 85% of those surveyed said they believed that anti-Gay comments are tolerated on their base or aboard their ship, and 37% said they had personally witnessed or been the target of harassment - such as hostile gestures, graffiti or physical assault- based on perceived homosexuality. The survey released last month also found a widespread belief among troops that the Clinton administration’s so-called "don’t ask, don’t tell’" policy on Gays in the military - which Vice President A1 Gore says he would eliminate if he were elected president-is not working. President Clinton himself has said the policy, forged in 1993, is now "’out of whack.’" Defense Secretary William Cohen, responding to theinspector general’ s survey results, announced he was creating a committee of military and civilian officials to draft a plan for measures to improve the policy’s implementation. Cohen put the onus on military chiefs to fix the problem. "The report shows that military leaders must do more to make it clear that harassment based on sexual orientation violates military values,’" Cohen said in a memo to the military chiefs and service secretaries. The administration’s policy, set in law by Congress in 1993 after a heated political battle, says Gays and Lesbians may serve in the military so long as they keep their sexual orientation to themselves. Dubbed "don’t ask, don’t tell,’" the policy still bars openly homosexual people from serving in uniform. 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U134 501-253-7734 501-253-7457 501-253-6807 501-253-5445 501-253-9337 501-253-2776 501-253-5332 501-624-6646 501-253-6001 501-253-4074 417-623-4696 * is where you can f’md TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay"friendly. Some 600 homosexuals were killed there between 1939 and mid-1943 alone, according to the researchers. The Nazi anti-Gay law,knownas "Paragraph 175,’" was directly solely against Gay men, since the Nazis were mainly concerned with perceived threats to their ideal of Aryan manhood. Lesbians were generally ignored, although some were arrested as "asocials’" or "prostitutes.’" Few surviving victims ever came forward after World War II because of continning stigmaassociated withhomosexualkty, whicl~remained illegal in West Germfiny ~mder the sam~ Nazi law until 1969: Tens of thousands of men were prosecuted in those postwar years. Historians also generally ignored the Nazi per.s..e~..u;~n of homosexuals until the 1980s, meaning many survivors had’ already passedaway, organizers said. Only a handful are known to still be alive; their stories are told in a U.S.-made documentary," Paragraph 175,’" whichwon awards at film festivals in Berlin and at Sundance this year. Germany’s center-left government introduced a bill last week - 55 years after the end of the war - that would require parliament to officially recognize and apologize to Gay victims. It also calls on the government to study whether a blanket annulment should be issued for convictions under the Nazi anti-Gay law, under which even a glance between men could be cause for prosecution. - Guenter Morsch, director of tli’~ Sachsenhansen memorial, noted that protests erupted after the first plaque dedicated to Gay victims of the Nazis was hung at the Dachau concentration camp outside Munich in the 1980s. Last year, Germany’s national Holocaust memorial day commemorated Gay victims for the first time with .a ceremony at S~lchsenhansen. Events like that and the ¯ new exhibit are important, he said, be- ; cause all groups - not just those that are ¯ "politically correct’" - must be remem- -"- bered if tolerance is to be promoted. : About 200,000 people were interred at Sachsenhausen between 1936 and 1945; : including Jews, Roma, communists ",rod ¯ other political prisoners. More than 1,400 Jews were killed there, thousands more sent off to be killed in Auschwitz. Others were forced to work in adjacent factories. You mayfind the Gay Museum at www.schwulesmuseum.de Audra, who is also a volunteer fund- ¯ raiser, is currently producing her largest ¯ event to date, a three-hourAIDS benefit at Tulsa’s Performing Arts Center that wi’ll ~ feature Thrifty president Don Himelfarb : as keynote speaker. ¯ ThePAC show,"Connecting the Hearts ¯ ofTulsa,"is scheduledforApri120 atTpm ¯ and will benefit Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. Fea- ¯ tured performers include Debbie ¯ Campbell, Rebecca Ungerman and ¯ children’s musical groups from All Souls ¯ Unitarian Church. ¯ The John H. Williams Theater seats 429, andAudrahopes to sellit0ut. Tickets ¯ are $10 general admission, $20 VIP seat.- ," ing, and $5 students. ¯ For more information or tickets, call ~ 832-7919. see Audra, p. 3 by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. : "Unmarried Partner." That’s the U.S. ¯ Census 2000 official term for boyfriends ; and girlfriends. It’s either that or else you " check Husband/Wife, Roomer/Boarder, ¯ Housemate/Roommate, or Other " Nonrelative. ¯ How should I label my live-in? I can’t ¯ call him Husband or Wife. He’s not a : Boarder. He’s much more than a RoOm- " mate. (TheCen~uginfbmas us tha~ Room- ¯ mates "share living quarters primarily to : share expenses.") AndOther Nonrelative; : although correct, is hopelessly inadequate. So, for lack of better alternative, the boyfriend must be an Unmarried Partner. I am pleased to see the Census Bureau demands, rather romantically, that the Unmarried Partnerhave"aclose personal relationship with Person 1" (that is, with me). I know some Unmarried Partners ° whose onetime close personal relations : have aged into an icy and tight-lipped co- ¯ erastence. " The Census, as a condensed.form of " Ameri~anculturalpresumption, thinks that : people really ought tO be related to their - roommates either by blood or by marriage. Anthropologists call such presumptions "residencerules"- expectation about who should live with whom. There are patrilocal and matrilocal societies where children live with either father’s or mother’~ people. In avunculocal situations -the tropical Trobriand Islands - hildren move an with mother s brothers. Where virilocal rules arefollowed, women reside with their new husbands. Or there is theuxorilocal opposite: traditional Hopi Indian grooms, for example, move’ their belongings into their bride’g house. And there isthe "neolocal" U.S. where all couples should establish new, independent households. All these patterns describe the co-residency of kin, and the American situation is no different. Most of us live with relafives as we grow up: "mothers, fathers, sis{~s, and brothers. And most of us live with even more relatives after we marry: husbands, wives, sons, and daughters. There are just two anomalous periods in mostAmericanlife cycles when wemight find ourselves living with non-kin (with "Other Nonrelatives," according to Census language). The first consists of the few years between leaving morn and dad behind and marriage. This typically is the time of higher educalionwhen young twenty-somethings pile up in dormitories, fraternities, sororities, and shared apartments. The second comes with old age. We agomze over the mor~ity of farming mom out to some nursing home ward full of strangers. The experience of life with non-kin and strangers is fraught with aggravations and difficulties. The common bathrooms, those dirty dishes, the housemate’s woeful taste in music. Life with mere friends or roommates is rocky and unstable. My nervous students busy themselves with inventing "fictive kinship" labels for one another. They pretend that the co-residents in their sororities or fraternities are "just like" their sisters and brothers. And they watch a lot of "Friends," relying on Hollywood to romanticize and make fun of the peculiar experience of sharing their toilet seats with the "Other Nonrelated." Weare broughtup to live with relatives. Sbared residence withkin is easier for two reasons. We are morally obliged to forgive the exasperations of our revolting brothers that we would never stand from a friend. And we ablemore easily to take our revenge on our irksome siblings, spouses, orchildren, unconstrainedby the politeness conventions that govern our relations with non-kin. Wash those dishes or you are grounded! Pick up your filthy socks, slob! Gays and Lesbians are in something of a residential quandary: many of us never mo~e beyondthis stageof life with nonkin. Straights leave behind theirfew years of shared apartments and dormitories to ¯ return to new households composed of :. kin. But since Gays and Lesbians cannot ¯ marry, officially at least, we live out our lives with roommates, other nonrelatives, ¯ and unmarried partners. ¯ This perhaps explains some of the fra- ¯ gility ofGay households. "It’sMyWay or the Highway!" is easier to demand when you aren’t shouting at relatives. Many of us havemetguys whowereperfectcouples before they made the fatal mistake of moving m together. And we have other friends who are resigned to living solo. No spare toothbrushes in theirbathrooms. They’ve relied too often on the unkind= hess of strangers. Soyou snoopingFedenumerators, come along and count me. I’m checking the Unmarried Partner box. At the moment at least, I’m happily living with the UP. I realize, given American cultural patterns, that the non-kin structure of our household is anomalous. It will require extra effort and forgiveness to keep it going. Forget or forgive those badly squeezed .toothpaste tubes. TheUPis neitherbrother nor spouse but t still want him arodttfl"to be counted in 2010: ,-:~: LamontLindstrorn teaches anttfOl~lbgy at the University of Tulsa. Among the. survey’s key findings: - 80% of the 71,500 members of the Army, Air Force, Navy and Marine Corps surveyed said they had heard offensive speech or jokes or derogatory names or remarks about Gays in the past year. The service members were not asked if they had. participated in such behavior. -33% said they heard it often. It was reported most frequently in the Marine Corps and least in the Air Force. Such behavior was reported to be most common among junior enlisted troops. --Of the offensive behaviors or actions reported as directed against Gays, offensive speech was the most common. It was mentioned by 89% of those who reported witnessing or experiencing some form of harassment. Hostile gestures were reported by 35%; threats or intimidation by 20%; graffiti by 15%, vandalism of personal property by 7% and physical assault by 9%. The survey was done on 38 U.S. military bases and aboard 10 Navy ships and one submarine from Jan. 24 to Feb. 11. The spark that caused the Pentagon to take a closer look at how the Gay policy is being implemented - and the extent of anti-Gay behavior in the field - was the bludgeoning death lastJuly ofaGay Army private, Barry Winchell, at FortCampbell, Kentucky. His killer, a fellow Army private, was convicted and sentenced to life in prison. Medical *Excellence And Compass.ionate ’ Care S nce 1926. ’* ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER q P Medical Excellence ¯ Compassionate Care IGTA member Call 341. 6866 International ToutS formore inyormation. Massage Therapy Services ~!~~gar O. Cruz, L.M.T. ¯ ¯ Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Club. Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pro Mississippi House Bans Adoptions by Gays JACKSON, Miss. (AP) - Mississippi may become the second state with a law banning homosexual couples from adopting children, althoughlawmakers embracing the idea say they are unaware of any cases ofGay adoptive parents. The House approved theban with no debate late in March, nearly a week after a similar proposal died for lack of action. The adoption ban was revived after an orchestrated phone call campaign by supporters. Only Florida has a law forbidding Gay adoptions, but other stateshave policies that keep homosexuals from seeking adoptions. Bill opponents and supporters said they were unaware of adoptions in Mississippi involving Gay couples or any couples hoping to adopt. Mississippi Baptists and the Tupelo-based American Family Association had lined up in support of the proposal. On the other side were the American Civil Liberties Union, which has threatened alawsuit, and homosexual groups. "It’s ridiculous,’" said Eddie Sandifer of Jackson, director of the Mississippi Gay and Lesbian Alliance. "This is going to be in court. It’s just a waste of taxpayers’ money. They know there’s going to be a lawsuit and they’ll lose eventually.’" House Public Health Commi ttee Chairman Bobby Moody, D-Louisville, said, "ff it’s the right thing to do, it doesn’t matter to me if it leads to a lawsuit or not.’" "What constitutes a family is not a homosexual couple,’" s~iid Moody. The bill was approved 107-8. There could be an attempt for a second vote. "That bill is of the assumption that anybody who’s Gay wilt,abuse children. That’ s not a good ~rgument. I can’tjudge one’ s moral turpitude. I’m not qualified to do that,’" said Rep. David Green, D-Gloster. This is the second time in three years that Mississippi lawmakers have gotten involved in Gay issues. In 1997, they banned homosexual marriages. The adoption ban was added to a bill dealing with nurse practitioners. That proposal lets the practitioners prepare paperwork about the physical or mental condi- - tion of a child being put up for adoption. Now doctors must do the paperwork. Moody said the House vote came in response to a public outcry. "There’s been a lot of publicity created around the state. It gave the false impression to some religious groups that it was happening or there was a possibility it could happen,’" he said of adoptions by Gay couples. Rep. Mary Coleman, D-Jackson, said lawmakers "’were infringing on people’s private lives.’" David Ingebretsen, director of theACLU in Mississippi, has said his group may sue on behalf of aGay couple if the bill becomes law. Other states have been sued over their adoption policies. The bill does not ban a Gay individiml from trying to adopt a child. It goes back to the Senate for more consideration. PlanetOut Website and Advocate/Out to Merge SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - PlanetOut, which caters to Gays and Lesbians, has announced plans to acquire Liberation Publications, the largest publisher of Gay and Lesbian periodicals and books in the country. Liberatiofi Publications Inc. produces the Advocate newsmagazine and will soon own Out magazine. Terms of the deal were not disclosed. The companies describe the deal as a merger, but the Interact company will be the dominant partner; allowing the magazines "tO continue publishing under their own brand names. "You can characterize it as the AOL-Time Warner in the Gay space,’" said Megan J. Smith,.chief executive of PlanetOut. Her five-year-old company operates the Web site www.planetout.com, along with an online radio and film service and PlanetOut TV, which airs on the site and on Canadian television. In 1996, the San Francisco-based site became the first Gay-oriented enterprise to secure venture capital funding. The company has since established parmerships with AOL, Netscape, Yahoo! and other major Web companies as well as made advertising agreements with Arista Records, Virgin Adantic Airways and Johnson & Johnson. Liberation Publications is based in Los Angeles. It announced Feb. 21 that it. would acquire New Yorkbased Out Publishing Inc., the publisher of Out and HIV+ magazines. The Advocate, a 33-year-old bi-weekly with a circulation of about 88,000, concentrates on news, politics, business and medical information. Out~ a monthly launchedin 1992, has a circulation of 115,000 and focuses on culture, entertainment, fitness and other topics. The Gay marketis considered a prime for Intemet players because a high percentage of Gays and Lesbians use the Internet and because the Intemet )rovides.a level Of anonymity. Dr. Schlessinger’s TV Show Draws Protesters LOS ANGELES (AP) - Paramount Television says it is committed to putting tough-talking Dr. Laura Schlessinger on TV, the tough-talking protests of hundreds of angry Dr. Laura demonstrators notwithstanding. "Shame, shame, shame,’" more than 200 Gay civil rights protesters shouted outside Paramount Pictures, where they demanded the studio drop plans to put the controversial radio host on television this fall. Schlessinger, known to her listeners as Dr. Laura, dispenses relationship advice onher enormously popular radio show. She has called homosexuality a"biological error’" and "deviant.’" "When Paramount bought Laura Schlessinger’s show, they bought abattle withtheGay community,’" said Joan Garry, executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. "We’re going to do whatever it takes’" to get the ParamOunt Television Group to abandon the syndicated show, Garry said. So far Paramount has stood firm. and none of the stations signed on to air Schlessinger’s show have backed out. In arecent statement, the studio §aidit was committed to presenting moral and ethi’~fl issues without "creating or contributing to an en~cfroimaent of hurt, hate or intolerance.’" One of the signs carried by the demonstrators read "No More Matthew Shepards.’" a reference to the Gay student killed in Wyoming in 1998. Also fueling the protest is anger over the passage last month of Proposition 22, which bans same-sex marriage in California. "We will do whatever it takes to keep the pressure on. The strategies will be about advertisers and the affiliates,’" Garry said, declining to specify whether that meant station or sponsor boycotts. Countering the demonstrators were about 75 Schlessinger supporters organized by Campaign for California Families, a conservauve, nonprofit organization. "We’re the majority Of people who pay to see Paramount films and who tune in to Paramount television shows. We are in support of Dr. Laura being on the air,’" Said Cherri Gardner, a spokeswoman for the group. Conservatives Sue City Over Partners Benefits BOSTON (AP) -A conservativelaw firm is suing the city of Cambridge, claiming that the ordinance that allows homosexual couples to register as domestic partners is illegal and unconstitutionhl. "The ordinance isboth legally and morally wrong. .. This legal action is necessary to defend marriage and the family,’" Vincent P. McCarthy, Northeast counsel for the Virginia-based American Center for Law and Justice, said Tuesday in a statement. In July, the state Suprem,e Judicial Court struck down an executive order issued by Boston Mayor Thomas Menino that was intended to give health insurance coverage to Gay partners of Boston city workers. The ACLJ assisted the Catholic Action League in that case and predicted another legal victory against Cambridge. It also said it planned to file a suit against United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11:00 am Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S, Norwood, Info: 224-4754, Chris or Sharon Sandra Hill M.s. Licensed Professional & National Certified Counselor, Certified Hypnotherapist Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation After Hours Appointments Available 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Suite 215,745-1111 Red Rock Tulsa - O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network Outreach Program Thurs. 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Call for more information: 918-584-2325 KEVIN BURLESO N Keller Williams Realty 712-2252 Burleson@kw.com 2651 Ea~t 21st Street, Ste. 100, Tulsa 74114:" .~An lndep(ndent Member Broker OPENARMS,OPENMINDS,OPENHEARTS Saint Aidan 4045 N. Cincinnati. 425-7882 Saint John 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Trinity 501 S. Cincinnati. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You the city of Springfield. The Catholic Action Leagueis also involved in the Cambridge case. Under the Cambridge ordinance passed in 1992, Gay couples go to City Hall and register as domestic partners. Once registered, partners of a city or school worker are entitled to the same health benefits as spouses of city and school workers. Michael Gardner, Cambridge’s personnel director, who administers the be~lefits, said he felt the ordinance was both legal and constitutional. "It was our view that we should continue to follow the ordinance passed by our legislative body,’" he said. The law firm, which brought the suit onbehalfof 12 Cambridge residents, attacked the ordinance on a number of legal fronts, but one argument was the one that succeeded in the Supreme Judicial Conrt last year. The SJC had rifled that the" Boston executive order was "inconsistent’" with a decades-old state law that granted cities the authority to provide health insurance to workers, their spouses and dependents. Gary Buseck, executive director of Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, said he would be happy if Cambridge fought the case vigorously. But he also called on the Legislature to pass a bill designed to grant cities and towns the power to extend the benefits if they chose. The bill has passed the Senate but is pending in the House, he said. "The Legislature can put an end to all of this and ~make sure cities and towns have an option of extending health insurance to all their employees,’" Buseck said. Georgia Hate Crimes Bill Gets Final Passage ATLA~’qTA (AP) - The Georgia Senate gave final passage to a bill allowing stiffer penalties for hate crimes. Gov. Roy Barnes will have to sign off on it before it can become law. ~ The. origii~ Version of the bill specified which types ofbigo.try warranted a hate crime, but the House amended the: measure to be more vague. It now mentions only.crimes motivated by "bias or preju- Sen. Vincent D. Fort, D-Atlanta, said he would have preferred the.originalianguage but was willing to accept the ctian~e~. .A jury would, declare defendants guilty of a hate crime after they were convicted ofanother crime such as vandalism, arson, assault or murder. The initial bill would have allowed the judge to make that decision. That changeprompted Sen. Clay Land, R-Columbus, to reverse his original vote and support the measure. ~At that time,.I felt the legislation was unconstitutional because it did not provide the accused with a ¯ jury trial,’" he said. Under the bill, sentences and fines for misdemeanors would be increased by half, up to the maximum allowed, for hate crimes. Felony prison sentences ¯ would be increased byfive years up to the maximum sentence. Defendants convicted ofhate crimes would have to serve at least 90 percent of their sentences. Women Lawmakers Key To Civil Unions Win MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - A greater percentage of women than menin the Vermont House of Representatives voted in favor of the civil unions bill that passed in the House last week. Female representatives approved by a wide margin granting same-sex couples tile benefits of marriage through civil unions while their male counterparts turned it down. The women voted for the bill 35-9 while the men voted against it 60-41. All but one of 32 female Democrats voted in favor of the bill, while four of 12 Republican women voted for it. Although women make up relatively smaller proportions of each caucus, more than half of the Democrats voting yes were women, and more than a quarter of the Republicans voting yes were women. Rep. Anne Pugh, D-South Burlington, said female constituents in general asked her to support the bill, while men asked her [o oppose it. "It may have m do with the fact that women traditionally focus on family, and nurturing and relationships - that women’s identity comes from connecting,’" Pugh said. Rep. Michael Vinton, D-C01chester, a retired state trooper who has been outspoken in his criticisms of anti-Gay arguments, said he bdieved women felt less threatened by homosexuality. "For whatever reason, I feel there’s more fear among the male gender,’" Vinton said. "Men seem to be more crfical of people -it’s just our species, probably."" The trend reflects women’s greater receptiveness to homosexuals across the country, according to national policy experts. "Women overwhelnfingly support Gay aud Lesbian civil rights more than ~nen, generally speaking,’" said Paula Ettelbrick, director ofthe National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute. "’Women identify more because, like Gays and Lesbians, they have not been part of the system as a group, and theymaderstand the need and desire to be a full citizen,’" she said. However, she said the fact that the Vermont House had passed a civil unions bill at all "shows that mendike everybody else have the capacity to change on issues involving their own communities.’" The bill passed on a final margin of76 to 69. Voting yes were 57 Democrats, 14 Republicans, four Progressives mad one Independent. Voting no were 50 Republicans, 18 Democrats, and one Independent. N.M. Christian Coalition Files Phone Co. Benefits ALBUQUERQUE (AP) - The New Mexico branch of the Christian Coalition is accusing U S West of abusing public trust by providing employee benefits to homosexuals and other umnarried workers. In a document filed with the state Public RegulationCommission, theNew Mexico Christian Coalition says the policy is "offensive to decent, moral subscribers who want phone service.’" Edward Lopez Jr., U S West’s vice president in New Mexico, said he is disgusted to "see-this kind of hate and intolerance’" in a state as diverse as New Mexico. Lopez says. the policy is good business. "We believe our work force mirrors that of our. custom- : ers,’" he said. "We’ve better able to understand .our. customers needs and respond to.them.’" ¯ In its one-page filing, theChristian group contends U S West’s benefits policy promotes the spread of ¯ AIDS and other sexually transmitteddiseases. "We’re ¯ saying there’s a moral issue of unmarried people that ¯ donot deserve benefits. If there is any way to prevent ¯ that from happening, we’ll do that,’" said Mark Bur- " ton, executive director of the Albuquerque-based ¯ group. The group, affiliated with Pat Robertson’s Christian Coalition of America, also contends in the ¯ filing that homosexuals are prone to violence and ¯ child molestation. ¯ Linda Siegle, alobbyist for theCoalition forEquality, called the group’s statements "ludicrous and ¯ absurd, based on every lie and stereotype perpetrated ¯ on people who are Gay.’" About 2,500 private corporations, universities and other organizations across the nation provide domes- " tic partnership benefits, she said. ¯ In its Mar~h i0 filing,’ the New Mexico Christian ¯ Coalition requested the PRC investigate "the social ¯ implications of this heinous U S West policy.’" "The partners of homosexuals .shouldn’t have the right to ¯ get benefits fromamonopoly when I have no other choice (for servic£),’" Burton said. " " The Public Regulation Commission currently as investigating U S West’s customer rates. Commission chairman Bill Pope said he couldn’t comment on anything contained in the filing because the panel has yet to hear the rate case. South African Gays May Give Blood JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - Gay men have a constitutional right to donate blood, the South African Human Rights Commission has ruled. The commission said it was no longer Gays who were most at risk for HIV in South Africa, but people in their early 20s. The commi ssiondemandedthat ablood bank in Western Cape change its practice of not accepting blood from homosexual men. Western Cape Blood Transfusion Service director Arthur Bird on Friday said he disagreed with the decision and was seeking legal advice. The case came about after Andrew Barnes, a public relations manager, responded to an urgent plea for new donors in the midst of a severe blood shortage last year. A nurse at Western Cape Blood Transfusion Service declined Barnes’ blood afterhemarked "yes’" ontheform’ s question of whether he had had sex with a man. Barnes had been in a r~lationship with anothermanformore than two years. The commission said the decision to reject Barnes’ blood was ’~discrimination in terms of the Constitution." It said it would take the blood bank to court unless it explains what changes it will make to avoid breaching people’s constitutional right to equality before April 3. Teacher With AIDS LAKELAND, Fla. (AP) - HIV/AIDS activist Cathy Robinson was a teacher in 1991, living a storybook life with her husband, pregnant with their second child. She and her husband, Dan, went to the doctor for what was supposed to be a routine physical for life insurance and learned theunimaginable: They both Were infected with the virus that causes AIDS. Three years later, she developed AIDS. "My first instinct was, ’I know where I’ve been. Where have you been?’ " Robinson said. Then headlines flashed through her head declaring Belle Glade - where she had worked with children- the AIDS capital of the state. She wondered if she had contracted the deadly virus there. Buttwomonths later, Robinson, 34, found out she had contracted HIV from a man who died from AIDS complications in prison while doing time for raping her July 4, 1984, at a Tallalaassee convenience store where she worked. Privacy laws prohibited the prison from disclosing to Robinson that he had AIDS. She went seven years without finding out she had HIV. She gave it to her husband during that time, but her children, Garrett and Lyndsy, are HIV-free. There is only about a 20% chance a pregnant mother will pass onHIV to her baby. With medicine, the chances drop to 4%. Robinson, who also wasdiagnosed with breast cancer two year~s ago, is coping with her own mortality by spending the time she has left to promote safe sex and persuade people to get tested. Her efforts includ~lhe NAMES Project AIDS Memoria~: Quilt display, which is being displayed this month in the Hollis Wellness Center at Florida Southern College. Robinson. travels throughout Florida talking with students, sheriffs’ deputies and commumty groups about HIV and AIDS, defying stereotypes of the "typical’" AIDS victim, as a mamed, white, middle-class mother of two. Laws about HIV status disclosure vary by state. In Florida, it takes a court order to have someone convicted of sexual assault tested. "We don’t as a state mandate testing, and emergency rooms don’t have time to doit,’" Robinson said. "They (tell) victims of sexual as sault, ’In afew weeks, you should get tested.’ " Assistant State Attorney Sherri Scarborough, who handles many of the criminal sexual assault cases in Polk County, said state statutes allow the court to order HIV tests of anyone accused of a crime where bodily fluids are exchanged. But the victim has to request the tests and ask that the health department notify them of the results. Scarborough said she only remembered two cases in the past six years when a victim wanted to have his or her attacker tested. One whs aT0-year-old woman. The other was a college student. Robinson was a student at Florida State University when she was raped. Two of her attackers were convicted, but a third man never was arrested. She testified in the two trials but did not ask that her attacker be tested because there was no HIV test at the time. "In 1985, there was a test. I called right away, but they said, ~Cathy, you don’t need to worry. The only people who get HIV are Gays and drug users,’ " she said. Meanwhile, her attacker was being treated for AIDS in prison. WhenRobinson foundout she was HIVpositive, she said she didn’t tell anyone for amonth. Thev. two months passed, and she was about to give bir~ to her son, Garrett, now 8. "Three nurses refused to give us care. One, not knowing anything about me, assumed we decided to have children even though we had AIDS. She called (the Department of Children and Families) to try to get them to take our kids away,’" Robinson said. ThenRobinsonmadea choice she could never take back. She decided to talk about her story in schools and churches to raise public awareness. "By going public, there was no way I could ever teach again, which was fine,’" she said. "Then they wiped my husband’s job out of his company. We paid tbr groceries with credit cards for a while... Thenwerealized they were going to turn our lights out. We moved in with my parents in Clewiston." Cathy and Dan since have moved to Fort Myers with her best friend, a nurse. But they decided five years ago to have Garrett and Lyndsy, 9, continue to live with her parents, to ease the transition on the day the~ know will come. The Robinsons see their childrenon weekends and holidays. They write in journals and make tapes to record memories they want the kids to remember. "We knew ultimately we were going to die,’" Cathy said. "We thought it was importantfor them to transilion. Wenever thought we’d still be transitioning five years later. Our biggest fear was dying before Lyndsy and Garr’ett were old enough to remember us.’" Bill Gregory, an advertising professor at Florida Southern, fellow AIDS activist and friend, said Cathy hves to spread the message. But radiation therapy has made it more difficult in recent months. Cathy travels to Miami for radiation treatments because she can get them free in exchange for leading educational programs. She puts about 1,500 miles a week on her leased Ford Explorer traveling throughout the state for AIDS education, stressing safer sex and HIV testing. "You have to be tested,’" she said. "No. 1, you don’t want others to get infected. No. 2, they can treat you. If you are negative, you have a chance to rethink your activities that got you there.’" Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. January April July October December Even Out Your Monthly Electric Bills. At WoO, we know that changing weather conditions throughout the year can cause your monthly electric bills to rise and fall dramatically. Which can make it tmrd to plan your household budget. That’s why~ our Average Monthly Payment plan, could be your budgeting solution. With~you pay about the same each month, because ifs based on your previous 12 months usage. That makes budgeting a breeze. And best of all, ifs free. AMPis}ust one of several flemq~le payment options PSO offers you. For more information, we’re available 24 hours a da~. Or s’tgn up forAMP on our website at www.csw.corm PUBLIC SERVICE COMPANY OF OKLAHOMA A Central and South Weat Company Kelly Kirby,. CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. Electronic filing is’available for faster refunds. 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American?../,= Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men s Support Group is here for you~. ¯ E~ening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project beginning at the Gay Community Center ¯ at 37th and Peoria and ending at Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder. The parade will begin at llam The Pride Festival will also begin at Veterans Park at 1 lain and will continue till about7 or8pm, finishing off the week’s events. TOHR organizers include Kerry Lewis as chairperson of the overall effort. "Humanity United for Haman Rights -Diversity Celebration 2000," Greg Gatewood, TOI-IR president and festival chair,Audra Sommers,parade chair, Lynn Moesteller, sponsor chair, Mitchell Savage, media chair, Ktis Kohl, festival entertainmentchair andNedBruha, incharge of festival booths and beverages. On June 3, Saturday, That evening also at the PAC Doenges Theatre, the TOHR Follies, not seen for a namber of years, will reprise, 100 Years of Broadway with tickets available through the PAC. Tuesday, June 6th, an art exhibit, "United" will open and on Thursday, June 8th, there will be a film night. Locations and times will be announced later. For more information about these events, call the Gay Community Services Center at 743-4297 (Gays). And while the organization has not been in Tulsa for long, already it’s become active and visible. Soulforce members along withTOHR, Tul sa Oklahomans for Haman Rights, marched in the M.L.King, Jr. Day parade, marking the first time openly Gay people and groups have partidipated. And for the kick-off for this year’s Gay Pride events, Diversity Celebration 2000, Soulforceis bringing Mel WhiteandGary Nixonback to Tulsafor aninterfaith workshop and to lead a Soulforce workshop. White and Nixon were in Tulsa several years ago for a regional conference of i~FLAG, Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, held at All Souls Unitarian Church. Also on May 6-12, in Cleveland, Ohio, at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, Soulforce will hold Soulforce University (SFU) SFU is arare, one-week opportunity for people offaith to learn and apply the principles of nonviolence. SFU is being held in conjunction with the world congress of the United Methodist denomination of Chris-. tianity, General Conference 2000 which will also be in Cleveland, on May 2-12. Historically, Methodists have cared about the poor, the homeless, and the outcast. Soulforce organizers state, "sadly, decisions made by their [United Methodist] General Conferences over the past three decades have ended that tradition of caring and made outcasts of God’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered children. We hope to help end those unjust and discriminatory policies. For thirty-t~vo years United Methodist leaders have debated the issue of homosexuality. Too many of" their delegates have ignored the historic, scientific, psychological, pastoral and even biblical evidence thathomosexuality is neither a sickness nor a sin. As a result, with almost every General Conference the U.M.C. has hardened its anti-homosexual position. That position leads to discrimination, snffeting, and death.’" Several Tulsans involved in Soulforce will participate in the Cleveland events. HEAR the Quilt The NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter is proud to announce the return of the Quilt to Tulsa for a major display at the Maxwell Convention Center December1 through 3, 2000. The success of a major Quilt display is dependent on volunteers from our community. To develop interest and support for this major World AIDS Day event, the Tulsa Area Chapter will host a reception on Thursday evening, April 27 at 7: 00pm at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 South Harvard, Tulsa. Please join us as we bring together the community in preparation for "HEAR the Quilt." We’ll have sections of the Quilt on display and lots of information about upcoming events Refreshments will be served and it will be a great opportunity to renew old friendships andmake new ones. For more information you can contact us at (918) 748-.~1 ll or at TulsaQuilt@go.com OK Spoke Club The OK Spoke Club is begimfing its tides again. A long ride (20 miles plus) will begin at Ziegler Park at 7:30am on April 8th & 15th. Water and helmet are required. A short tide (5 miles) along the Katy Bicycle path in Sand Springs will begin at 6:30 pm on April 19th. Water and helmet are strongly reconnnended. At 9am, a long ride will begin at the Pride Center, 3749 S. Peoria, rear parking lot on April 22th. Water and helmet are required. A short ride will leave from there at 6:30 pm on April 26th. Water and helmet are strongly recommended. For more information, contact the club at POB 9165, Tulsa, Ok 74157, or emaii to: Okiebicycle@prodigy.net Texas Lesbian Conference For 13 years now, Texas Lesbians have presented one of the best conferences in the US. This year’ s event, to be held at the Renaissance Hotel, Greenway Plaza on May 19-21 in Houston. The conference will feature Urvashi Vaid, former executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, cartoonist/cormnentator, Alison Bechdal, creator of"Dykes to WatchOut For," poet and author Ntozake Shange and Lesbian comic Marga Gomez. Andifthese were not enough of a draw, TLC offers a variety of workshops on legal, financial, spiritual and other issues. TLC is awoman only event for which you must be 18 to attend. For more information, write POB 66012, Houston 77266. Or "call 713-460-3435 for a registration form. . Living ArtSpace New Show Tul’sa’s contemporary art gall~ery~: Living Ai~tSpace, now located at 308 South Kenosha will present exhibition opening & gallery talk by artist, John Hitchcoek, on Thursday, April 6, 5:30-8pm. Hitchcock invites the viewer tobecome a participant in his installation by encouraging them to "play games" and receive a silk screened pnnt or an object. Using games derived from Native American traditions, the artist challenges the participant to make the comparison between traditional culture and the artwork. Once upon a time, there was a teenager named, for lack of a better moniker, Jim. He was teased most of his school life for being gay, name calling and threats of physical violencebeing the chief tactics deployed by most of the other kids -the mainstays of which were the dreaded "jocks." He had few friends, but one of the few he considered a friend happened to be Shaun. Shatm was in choir and on the football team, and Jim had known him for a few years, since Jr High. What Jim repressed and suppressed was his physical and emotional attraction for Shann. Shaun wasn’t classically handsome, but something about him was incredibly attractive to Jim. Maybe it was just that, unlike the other jocks, who singled Jim out for particular torment, Shaun always had treated him with kindness " ~roadway Damage’ is another little sleeper, low budget movie that is actually quite wonderful... The film is a ~ood old-fashloned romantle eornedy, kind of llke the old screwballs eomedles of the 30’s... It’s a well-wrltten, well-fihned, well-acted " story that is sure to brin~ a smile to anyone’s face..." and yes, even friendline,ss. This was !lJghly unusual. Jim and Shaun s friendship~ew, and they hung out a bit together. Jim continued suppressing, and just enjoyed Shaun’s company, basking in the glow of their friendship. At one point, they went to a film together. Shaun sat with legs spread wide, his leg touching Jim’ s. Wall, all Jim could focus on throughout the film was the sensfition of Shaun s leg against his; the bea~from the other boy’s body flowing in~d~s, the fact that he was really uncomfortable due to the fact that certain feelingSwere rising., feelings he’d been hiding from everyone, including himself. 0~things w~re rising too, and he had no!~deahow tohandle this. He wasn’t sure ifShaun was doing this deliberately or by accident. In ~_ospect, it had to be on purpose. Shfiuns leg never left contact wi~Jim’s tmtil the film was over. Jim wasi:terrified.~Did he dare move, and cut off~ie contact which he really so desperatdy Wanted?Or should he re~pond?Was thi~ ~test? Surely Shaun was aware of the comments and teasing; he’d seen it happen, To this day, Jim has no memory of that film or what it was. Just the sensation of Shaun’s leg and the accompanying delight/fear. Jim’s fervent yet deeply hidden desire was for Shaun and he to bein love. Yet, of course this could never be. Shaun was straight-Jim thought. Andhe was ever so aware of the fragility of friendship- he’d ~aot had many, ai~d would do nothing to jeopardize this one. One time, Shaun asked Jim to join he and some friends for a swim. When Jim got to Shaun’s house, he discovere~...that the friends.~were other members of the football team - the ones who so delighted inmakinglife aliving hell for Jim. "Well", he thought,"This should be ablast. NOT!" To his surprise, they all got along. Jim did feel incredibly out of place and utterly self-conscious the whole time they were around. Had to be careful not to slip up and steal a glance at the wrong moment, not that he could see anything without his coke-bottle glasses anyway. During the swim day, Shann told an interesting story: He had entered a bar on a certain street in. Arlington, Texas, and thought it was a real cool place - until he began to notice all the other patrons were men - and looking at him. Then he left in a hurry. You can imagine thecomments this brought on from the jocksters. It was all Jim could do not to ask WHERE. In fact, Jim did devote a considerable amount of time to thoughts onhow to get the desired information without giving myself away, but never could figure out a foolproofmethod. Some years later, Jim did go in search of the aforementioned place - and discovered it was in a shopping center with no sign age or indications of any sort that there was anything in the shopping center. You had to know where and what it was to get there and find the place. Interesting... Later that day, Shaun and I found ourselves alone in his parent’s house. He excused himself to take a shower, and was in there along time. A really long time. Jim began to wonder if he should just go home, Shaun was in there so long. Then, out he popped, completely nude - and Jim with no glasses on! (He was near blind without them.) It took a lot of control not to look down, whichhe recalls doing anyway, for a split second. Shaun probably caught it. He paused, saying, "Sorry, forgot to take my clothes i.n with me." Then went into his room. Jim was nonplused. Here Shaun is, withakidheknew was teased for being Gay, exposing himself. He spent along time inhis room, too,by the way Jimwas certain this was all atest, and the slightest wrong move would end the friendship - after all, Shaun was a good Southern Baptist boy, going to a church that literally preached coercion to get new members. Yes, Jim knows better now. There were signals being sent, Jimjust misinterpreted them. Jim wished he hadn’t, even though that would have ted to heartbreak. Jim really was in love with Shaun. Last Jim heard, Shaun was married, with kids. Sad thing is, that all Jim had to go on were negative images of Gayness. That’s all that was out there in the world then. There was no "Will and Grace", no positive movie role models. And All he knew was that one wrong step could end a friendship, Or even get him beaten - or, in one case he read about, killed. Whichleads me to aDVD review:_"Get Real". The story is pretty much the same as above, withnerdy schoNboyfallingfor upperclassmanjock. Except in the case of "Get Real", the relationship is consummated when schoolboy finds out that the jockster is indeed, homoerotically inclined. Of course, Mr. Jock is severely suppressing, and holding on to his straight identity with every’ fiber of his being. The film played Tulsa for about a week in ’96 or ’97. I’m sure not everyone got to see it, so I won’t spoil the ending. Let’s just say schoolboy .comes out publicly and discovers his inner strength. He’s accompanied by a female friend, who remindedme ofmyfriend Karin, who is now a Lesbian! More on that later, see Amuse, p. 9 GILCREASE MUSEUM April 29, May 5 & 7, 2000 Call 587-4811 Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist 11 am, Sunday, 1314 North Greenwood, 587-1314 EUREKASPRINGS DIVERSITYCELEBRATION -Friday, April 7 - 8:30pm to 12:30am,Dancing in the Ozark Room at the Basin Park Hotel (12 Spring Street) with DJ Jon Caswell. Sponsored by theMCC of the Living Spring. Cover: $5 per person. Cash Bar. Must be 21. - 9pm to 12:30am, Karaoke at Shaw’s Tavern (37 Spring Street) - 10pm to 2am, Breakfast at thenew Eureka House of Blues (in the basement of the x’~ :w Orleans hotel at 63 Spring Street) or, - 1 lpm to 2am, Breakfast at the Eureka Food Court (37 Spring Street) Saturday, April 8 10am to Noon, Canoe float on the White River. $25 per canoe. Singles welcome- r reservations and info, call theBeaver Dam Store at 501-253-6154. 10:30am. to Noon, Learn a littl6 of Eureka S prings’ history on a guided walking to, the Historic District. Meet at Sweet Spnngs next to Rogue’s Manor on upper !: Street. For further information, call 501-253-0070 or e-mail walking@nwaft.com. - Noon to 3:30pm "Go Fly a Kite!" Weather permitting, bring your kites and your cameras.at the beautiful Pond Mountain Lodge and Resort (two miles south on HighWay 23). For more information, contact Judy Jones at 800-583-8043. - lpm to 2:30pro Head out to Lake Leatherwood Park (off Highway 62 West) for an informative, guided trail hike. Get there a few minutes early and bring some water; some walking sticks will be provided. You can also hike on your own on one of the various trails in Eureka Springs’ "City Park". To obtain a trail map or for further information about the park, please e-mail lthrwood@ipa.net. For further information about the hike, call Steve at 501-253-9380 or 9384 or e-mail gands@ipa.net. - Please visit the unique shops and restaurants in the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative. Let them know you’re here for Diversity Weekend! - 3:30pm to 9pm,Check outThe Holein the Wall (191/2 Spring Street) forKaraokewith Lita! Lunch and dinner will also be served. For further information, call 501-253-8361. - 9pm to lain; Dance to the high,energy club ttmes of DJ Jon Caswdl at Center Stage (37 Spring Street). Must be 21. Cover: $5 per person. Sponsored by The Emerald Rainbow, Mark E. Cook Properties and Center Street Bar & Grill. - 9pmto 12:30am, Belt out your favorite tunes as Shaw’s Tavern (37 Spring Street) once again hosts a Karaoke night for "family" and friends. - 10pm to 2am, Brealffast at thenew Eureka House of Blues (in the basement of the New Orleans hotel at 63 Spring Street) or, - 1 lpm to 2am, Breakfast at the Eureka Food Court (37 Spring Street) Sunday, April 9 - 2pm to 6pm, Join us again at Center Stage (37 Spring Street) for a tea dance and drag show, with performances by the "girls from Tulsa" and music by DJ Jon Caswell. Must be 21. Cover: $5 per person. Sponsored by The Emerald Rainbow, Ermilio’s Restaurant and Center Street Bar & Grill. - 7pm, MCC of the Living Spring (17 Elk Street) will hold a service. Call 501-253-9337 for information. All are welcome! For a listing of businesses supporting this and similar events, check out the Eureka Springs Diversity Cooperative website at www.shimaka.coln/eureka/diversity or drop by The Emerald Rainbow at 45 1/2 Spring Street for a printed copy. Oklahoma Repertory Theatre Opens TULS A-Theatreleaders from twoTulsa : and the Boys" by So. African playwright organizations, Tulsa Repertory Theatre and Wayward Theatre Co. have joined together to create the Oklahoma Repertory Theatre (also known as OK REP). Catherine Adkins, Skip suraci. Christopher Ferguson-Long and Nathan Huntley will serve as executive artistic director, advisor, associate founding artistic director and associate artistic director, respectively. OKREP,like the companies out of which it grows is committed to "unique, professional theatre, children’s theatre, arts in education and community outreach." OK REP will open its season with the Pulitzer Prize winning, "Master Harold The film translates well to DVD, maintaining the widescreen image, and with excellent rarity. Sadly, there’s no extra features so prevalent now in DVD releases, such as director’s commentary, behind the scenes documentaries, etc. It would have been .nice to have the actor’s recollections of the making of the film and the affect it had on them. However, that does not detract from the fact it’s a well-written film with an excellent.cast and beautiful cinematography. The only thing that bothered one of my friends at the .initial showing was that jock boy Athol Fugard. The production will mn May 11-14 and May 18-20 at Tulsa’s Performing Arts Center Liddy Doenges ~[]aeatre at 8pm and Sundays at 2pro, and is supported in part by grants from the Oklahoma Arts Council and the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Tn~st. The play, directed by Nathan Huntley, is that of a young man growing up and growxng aware in 1950’s South Africa apartheid. Tulsa actors Greg Herman, Bill Thomas and Christopher Ferguson-Long perform the roles. Tickets are available at the PAC box office, 596-7111, for $12/ adults and $9/students/seniors. For more information, call OK REP at 592-6310. seems to come from a well-heeled family, yet has a working class accent. I noticed after he pointed it out, but that did not detract from the otherwise excellent performanees given by Ben Silverstone as the cuteschoolboy Steven Carter, Charlotte Britain as his friend who faints on command, and the hunky Brad Gorton as thejock upon anyone Wouldbe daft not to develop a crush. Available from Wolfe Video (www.wolfevideo.com). Along the same lines, sort of... well, not really, but there’s a well-done scene that exemplifies the kind of dynamic I wrote of regarding seeing that tmnamed film with Shaun, is "Billy’s Hollywood Screen Kiss." see Amuse, p. 11 by Tom Neal, editor & publisher Some Oklahomapolitical observers have noted that the one good thing for this state about a win by Republican presidential candidate, George W. Bush, is that we’d get to send the Honorable Frank Keating, Governor of Oklahoma packing back off to DC, though others have said Oklahoma’.s gain might be to the nation’s detriment. "... ff it were not enough to invoke this bigoted image ofGay people -preying on the young, he foflowed it with a comment about how Gay people are among the wealthiest Amerleans. I had to wonder if next he’d betalklng about how ’all Black people have rhythm’ or ’the international Jewish banking eonsplraey.’..." This February, t took my’father to lunch at the Press Club to see Keating do his song and dance. I imagine that Keating expected a rather friendly reception- these days the Press Club membership hardly includesany reporters but rather mostly public relations types - good enough people but hardly known for hard hitting .journalism. They’re there to put a nice spin on tttings, not to get at the truth, typically. Andyou can count on The Tulsa Worldto report only selectively on comments made there. Then there was Dad and me sitting right up front. And dear Mr. "I am not descended from a Baboon" Keating* likely did not know what he was in for. Mr. Keating waxed eloquently about how ifwe only re-made government to be like"’business," and not just coincidentally turned it all over to the Republiczins, all would be great with our state. I could nothave a~kedfor a better setup for my question to the Governor since in Oklahoma, it’s business leading the way in treating Lesbian and Gay citizens, well, like equal citizens. The question put to the Gov. was this: Oklahoma’s leading businesses,American Airlines, the state’ s largest private employer, K.imberly-Clark, Dollar-Thrifty Auto Group whose CEO, Joseph Cappy was just appointed to the State Board of Regents for Higher Education, all of these corporations promise not to discriminate on sexual orientation. Since "business" shows us the way, Keating * ina recent controversy about teaching evolution in public schools, Keating claimed he was not descended from a baboon. The Tulsa World contested that claim. Operat=on Montreal,. To ¯ was asked why state government was not following their lead. Frank’s answer was an embarrassment to the state of Oklahoma. He said there was not a public consensus to support treating all people fairly and had he stopped at this, I could hardly have argued withhim. But he went on to invoke the most shameful of stereotypes, saying that the state government of Oklahoma could not promise to treat Gay and Lesbian Oklahomans fairly because "a homosexual schoolteacher might try to ’promote’ his ’lifestyle’ to elementary school students and then the state could not discipline the teacher..." Andif it were not enough to invoke this bigoted image of Gay people preying on the young, he followed it with acomment abouthow Gay people are among the wealthiest Americans. I had to wonder if next he’d be talking about how "all Black people have rhythm" and "the international Jewish banking conspiracy." I did have the opportunity to say.his allegation about Gay "wealth" was false but not to question his premises about promising to treat public employees fairly. And this, of course, ignores the fact that it is almost unimaginable that any Gay teacher would engage in inappropriate discussions - they’re all too scared because : they know they’ll be harassed or fired in any school district in the state. Any inappropriate conversation by a ¯ teacher with students, whether heterosexual or homo- " sexual, already has avenues for remedy. I agree with Keating, Oklahoma can learn from the : example of "business." First and foremost, Frank needs ¯ to figure out that discrimination is bad for business and ¯ badforOklahoma. "Business" has figured this out. Ameri- " can and Dollar-Thrifty don’t go beyond the minimum ¯ federallaw r.eqmresjust because they regreatfolks. Th y ¯¯ do it because they can’t afford to lose good workers and ¯ some of those good workers ar’-e Gay. It really shouldn’t be that hardfor Frank Keating. All ¯ he needs to do is to reframe the questionin terms to which ¯ he can relate: shall we not include Catholics in our non- - discnmmattonlawsbecausewecouldn tfiretbemlfthey mdocmnated our children with the Cathohclifestyle m schools? Keating shouldknow that itwash’ t thatlong ago : that precisely those stereotypes were common in thisstate. After all, Keating claims to be a Christian. And as : such, he is commanded to "treat others as he would be ¯ treated." That?s pretty straightforward. I’d bet even a ¯ "lower" primate, maybe even a baboonmight be able to ¯ figure that out. The question is can our governor? by Dave Fleischer Senior Fellow, Policy Institute National Gay andLesbian Task Force Have you ever met ahomophobe? Of course you have, which is why you might not immediately be eager to campaign door-to-door using the "G" word when we need to win an election. You might be thinking: Holy Roller, don’t a lot of people go into rant mode the minute we say the Word "Gay?’" Actually, they don’t. Everywhere I’ve gone door-todoor with teams of volunteers,- once we explain in plalnlanguage the issue voters will be facing, the overwhelming majority are on .our side. Most of the rest are undecided. This has been true in Anchorage, Houston, and Fayetteville, Arkansas; in San Francisco, suburban Westchester County,.in Miami (nope, not just in South Beach) and in both Democratic and Republican parts of Spokane, Washington. And that’s just the places in 1998-and 1999 that we’ve gone door-to-door in. Sure, we start in neighborhoods wherewe believe we’ll find many supporters. But even when we broaden to a - diverse set of neighborhoods, 60 to 90% of the time, voters are surprised to learn that the basic rights, of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered (GLBT) people are under attack. "... I don’t want to tell you about my%exllfe - but ff I’m doing a job at my job, should my boss be able to fire me just because I’m Gay?" [long pause, she says uncertainly] "I’ve never thought about that..." "Well, I’m Gay, and this may surprise youbut it wasn’t a choice for me. And if I’m doing a goodjob at work, do you think my boss should be. able to fire mejust because I’m Gay?" "I don’t want to hear about your sex life." "I don’t want to tell you about my sex life--but if I’m ~ doing a goodjob atmyjob, shouldmy boss be able to fire me just because I’m Gay?" . [Long pause] [She says uncertainly] "I’ve never thought about that." "Well, that’s what you’ll, be voting on. Here’s the wording that will be on the ballot. Takealookatit. [Pausewhile she reads] What do you think?" I didn’t make this voter a supporter. But I did move her from leaning against us to someone who might be undecided. Theconversation took abouttwominutes. Then I was on to the next door. If we’ve trained our-volunteer team well, we communicate our key message within the limits of the voter’s attention span. Then we ask what they think. And they tell us. Soinetimes their answer isn’t easy to hear (I didn’t love Ms. Informed’s ?Gays can change"). Butifwe listen with genuine interest, and offer a clear, honest exchange, they return the favor. We usually-leave the door either knowing we’ve found someone leaning toward us, or someone who is now open to hearing more. A...J--~"~’~A~.~,~’A,,’~ (;.... ~Vhenthe~ydo, they say somethinglike. OfcourseI Benefit uur= i i i i i i~i~..,,..; :=~-agai~i’s’t--d~sc~aination, against anybody. I like/don’t care Localentrepreneurandmouth-about-townactivistNed about/dort’flike Gay people, but discriminationis always Bruha will present "Operation Montreal" at The Silver Star, 1565 So. Sheridan, at 10pm on Friday May 5th. Brnha notes, "’this night of rare comedy and mad-cap entertainment will aid Audra MarieSommers, an individual among us who has selflessly impleme.nted her .talents to l~tter the Tulsa areafor the past decade,,She has raised money for the poor and the sick." , Themoney raised the evening of thi~ event wiR,be ~used to help Payfor medications, travel and down-time trom both of lie) jobs for the transgendered Sommers as she recoups from surgery which will bring her physiology into correspondence with her gender identity. This event is called Operation Montreal because after many years of research, Sommers has chosen worldrenowned surgeons in Montreal. Any funds raised will not be used for the surgery. Sommers has underwrittem the surgery by taking a mortgage on her home. For more information about this event, call 585-1644, or write, "Operation Montreal" c/o Ned Bruha, P.O. Box 471282, Tulsa, OK. 74147-1282, or send e-mail to partygram@webzone.net wrong." So the experience of going door-to-door is enormously encouraging. It’s both productive for the campaign, and also personally affirming. This doesn’t mean that every voter is immediately happy to see us. But as a reality check, here’s the toughest door I’ve had so far. Scene: a sweaty August ’98 morning in Fayetteville, Arkansas; a white senior answers the door ..’...’.Hi, Ms. Informed?" Yes "Hi, Ms..Informed, my name is Dave Fleischer, and I’m with the Campaign for Human Dignity. A human rights resolution is on the ballot - it says that here in Fayetteville we won’t tolerate discrimination on thejob, whether you’re a man or women, black or white, Gay or non-Gay. What do you think about that?" "Well, I think that if Gay people would just go to church, they would realize it’s a choice, they don’t have to be that way". [She went on in this vein for a minute. I listened.] Nobody says this work is easy. But, contrary to our worst fears, it isn’t confrontational. It’s more like the ordinary experience of one tiuman being talking to another human being. And there’s an unexpected personal benefit. If we reopen our hearts, we are liberatedfrom a piece of internalized self-hate and our own stereotypical thinking about the public. It turns out that most of them are human, too - and more open than we give them credit for being. Most importantly, voteridentification works. SAVE Dade in Miami has built a list of.more than 15,000 Gay - and pro-Gay voters by having dbnversations just like these, by going door~to-door and by talking to voters when.they go to vote. Basic Rights Oregon beat back their last two state-wide anti-Gay ballot measures by doing voter idenlification on a large scale, and has a list of 125,000 voters statewide. Sure there are closed-minded homophobes out there. But they are far fewer and less grumpy than you’d guess -a mere needle in a Gaystack. If we’re going to win elections, we need to talk with everyone to find our supporters. Factis, voters are ready tolistentous,ifwe’re willing to listen to them. Are we? Meet Local Guys for Hot ~Odgin. 18+. Additional features fron ads guys you like The number of Gays and Lesbians in the United States is not known because of largely unreliable studies. Advocacy groups often claim 10% of the population is homosexual, basedon surveys ofsexual behavior conducted by researcher Alfred Kinsey taken in the 1940s. Other surveys put the number between 4% and 6%. Amore direct census question concerning sexual orientation isn’t likely by the lime the2010 census roils around. Itwould take afederal legislation to require collection of the data. And, advocates say, it’s a tricky ’question. "Is sexual orientation defined by feelings of attraction, exclusivity or praetors?’" Norfllrop asked. Best known for launching the career of "Willand Grace’ s" "Jack", Sean P. Hayes, that’s about the best thing about this film. It’s got some good moments, but never quite congeals into a satisfying film. Brad Rowe, Meredith Scott Lynn, and Hayes mmin good performances, but the rest of the cast falls flat, as do many of the jokes. Hayes stars as Billy, a starving artist photographer who is the other man in an unsatisfying relationship he settles for because (as he. tells everyone repeatedly in this film until youjust wantto slap him) he CAN’T FIND A MAN. He stumbles upon Gabriel (the immensely appealing Brad Rowe), and instantdysfunctional crushdevelops, in spite of the fact (?) that Gabriel is straight. Hilarity ensues (yawn). There’s the prerequisite drag queen comicrelief trio, that should never have .entered this film, because they are rather pointless to.the plot, content, and are really so bad they detract from the film..Obvibusly, theyare ~aeant to be bad, but all the ~vay t~ough the opening.sequence~ and at se{~eral points ~(way too many) through the film, they -..seem to just be inserted for no reason. If they were doing something that was plot~orthyand actually funny, itmight be a good thing. They’re not, and basically just fill time when the director can’t pull his head out long enoughto actually make a film. This DVD comes with a commentary, and even that - usually a high point and asset - is utterly boring. Yes, Sean’s a wonderful actor -now. OK, Brad was uncomfortable with thefilm and part starting out. (Why is never detailed, and that was what might have been actually interesting.) OK yes, there are lots ofhomages to old films, most of which are obvious, especially with the dream/musical sequences. Overall, Billy’s a fine addition to an avid collector ofGay film, for archival purposes. It’s amusing once through. But it’s a definite rental, not a keeper. Also available from Wolfe Video. An excellent film to have on DVD for repeated viewings and the extras, is"Gods and Monsters." It is a most moving and affecting film, and the disc has lots of goodies, along with a commentary that actually IS interesting, adocumentary with Clive Barker as host, interviews with the actors, and lots oflovely details. The film, based on Christopher Brain’s book, is a look .at what might have happened in the days leading to James Whale’s mysterious death. Whale, the director best known for the films "Frankenstein" and "Bride of Frankenstein" in the ’30’s, was found floating ¯ in his pool fully clothed. No answers ever ¯ came out of the investigation. Sir Inn ¯ McKellan, in abravuraperformance, plays ~ Whale, the absolutely dynamic Lynn ¯¯ Redgrave plays his housekeeper and caregiver Hannah, and the absolutely brilliantandbreathtakingly gorgeous Br~ndan Fraser plays a yard man that Whale be- " friends. : This didplay the major theatres,butjust ¯ in case, I won’t give away any more of the ." ending than I have. The performances ¯ were all top notch, with nary a misstep. ¯ The cinematography is beautiful, and the ¯ detail in sets, costumes, and styleis dead- " on.~(No pun intended.) As an. actor, it’s ~ ~really hard.f,0rme to see a film that makes ¯¯ ~m~fo~etI m~watehing~a film. This one did. I was surprised, as the end credits ¯ were rolling, to find I had tears runmng : down my face. The film so engrossed me ¯ that Iwasn’t even aware when that began. ¯ It’s an interesting film on many levels, ¯ the most superficial being Whale as dirty ." old man spying on the yard man; and~the ¯ deepest being the comments on aging, ¯ and the families we surround ourselves ¯ with as that happens. The interplay of ¯ straight andGay, andfear. The betrayal of ¯ ¯ the body.and time, the interplay between youth and age, the reasons we make the ¯ choices in life that we do make., all are ." explored on many levels. ¯ It’s definitely worth viewing several ¯ times, if for nothing more than seeing the ¯ details you missed first time around. The ¯ commentary, as opposed to the useless ¯ blathering on Billy’s HSK, is insightful, ¯ informative, and frequentlylamusing. ." There’s enough mix in details of how the ¯ film was made, how attention to details : was as important as performance, behind ¯ the scenes stories of what went on during ¯ filming, what it was like to deal with this ¯ or that to keep one quite amused. ." ~ And after watching the film go by wlth " the commentary, especially re~ardihg the ." director’s intentions, it’s kind of a fun ¯ game to play to seehowmuch youpieked ’’up on. ~klso, some historica~ facts_ are ." thrown in, not in a dry, witless manner, ¯ but which augment the viewing Of the : film. So, for me, it gets a definite. BUY ¯ THIS! Even if you only get the video ~ version (which may or may not have the documentary), it’s worth it. Available at ; Wolfe Video. "Broadway Damage" is another little sleeper, low budget movie that is actually quite wonderful. A romantic comedy that actually is, as~ opposed to Billy, it stars some very talented unknowns in a film that is well written and leaves you feeling good. "Nerdy Guy’~ and "Beautiful Boy" in New York looking for"Mr. RightY BB is always finding people bad for him, and pursues one that is really bad news. NB is seeking Mr Right and has a crush on BB Enter BB’s roommate Quirk~y~rl. QG is trying to make it inNYCon hiSrtwn, even though daddy’s rich. He wants her to get a job, something she’s never had to do. She and the boys form a fun trio, and have merry adventures in NYC. The film is a good old-’fashioned romantic comedy, kind oflike the old screwballs comedies of the 30’s upon which it is patterned. The ending’s predictable, but the g~tting there is fun, as with most journeys. Even if you know where you’re going,, the trip is never the same twice, right? It’s a well-written, well-filmed, well-acted story that is sure to bring a smile to anyone’s face. It should have received wider release w~h,en it played the film houses, but is a gem I m sharing with you. Yep, available at Wolfe Video on VHS and DVD. presents .... an eclectic mix of choral literature ranging from Baroque to Broadway, from pop classics of the ’50s and ’60s to a bawdy sea chantey an~J.an American Folk song featuring the Green Country Cloggers. ,Friday and Saturday, April 7 & 8, 2000 at 8pm Williams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center (reception following) Tickets: PAC box office, 596-7111 in Tulsa, 1-800-364-7111 or online at www.tulsapac.com COUNCIL oak a fellowship of gay men dedicated to musical excellence in the performance of choral literature, providing a source of pride, unity, and support, while presenting a positive image for ourselves, our community, and society as a whole. FOR MORE INFORMATION about the COUNCIL oak meN~S c~or~aLe and its parent organization, the non-profit Vocal Pride Foundation, visit our award-winning website at www.eouneiloak.org. 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Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community Paper Available In More Than 75 City Locations ¯ Co!legeHill Presbyterian Vermont Governor ::Church Welcomes Gays i Signs Gay Union Bill - Brief for Dale v. BOy Scouts by Tim Talley, Associated Press ~rite~ OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) - Some state lawmakers demanded in mid-April that Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson withdraw from participating in a U:S. Supreme Court case on whether to allow Gay boys and men in the Boy Scouts of America. Resolutions were f’ded in the state House and~ Senate opposing a friend-of-the-court brief Edmondson filed supporting a New Jersey court decision that ordered the Boy Scouts to reinstate a homosexual scout leader. "I think it is a dark day for Oklahoma that we have taken this stand, by and through our attorney general, in favor of Gay rights and against the Boy Scouts," said Rep. Frank Davis, R-Guthrie, a former scout master whose resolution has 70 co-authors. A resolution passed by the Senate says Edmondson’s position "is in dramarie opposition to the moral ideals of.our state and is inappropriate in this case of first impression before the United State Supreme Court." In a statement, Edmondson said he respects the views of lawmakers who oppose his action. But the attorney general said the state’ s position see Attorney; p. 2 TULSA - This last Palm Sunday, the Session (the board of directors) of College Hill Presbyterian Church, one of Tulsa’ s older"mainline" congregations, voted 13 yes, zero no’ s with one abstention to become officially a member of"More Light Presbyterians." College Hill, located a block west of the University of Tulsa is the first Presbyterian congregation in Eastern Oklahoma (o. take the position of welcoming all to attend and serve the church regardless of sexual orientation. More Light Presbyterians is a national network of churches and individuals working for justice, love and the full embrace and inclusion of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered persons and their families. The name is taken from the words of the Rev. John Robinson (c. 1620),"w e limit not the truth of God to our College Hill Presbyterian poor reach of mind - by notions of our day and sect - crude, partial and confined. No, let a new and better hope within our hearts be stirred, for God hath yet more light and truth to break forth from the Word." The decision for College Hill came after more than 14 months of prayer, study and discussion. A congregational vote on several statements and positions, one affirming open inclusion, another reaffirming the mission statement of More Light Presbyterians, and for becoming a More Light congregation passed, 87%, 90% and 80% respectively. . Pastor Radford Rader noted, "College Hill has long been a congregation which has stood for jnstice issues and with groups of people who others ignore or exclude.., we cannot remain in the closet, but want to rejoice in who we are as a family of faith. ¯ .we are blessed by our Gay and Lesbian members." College Hill’ s history is one of s0cialjttstice, seeChurch,p.11 by Ross Sneyd, Associated Press Writer ¯ MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - Gov. Howard Dean ¯ signed into law on Wednesday, April 26, 2000, a ¯ bill making Vermont the first state to give Gay and ’ Lesbian couples all the rights and benefits of mar¯ riage - without legally declaring it a marriage. ¯ "I think the powerful message is that in Vermont, ¯ we tend to value people for who they are, not what ¯ they are," the Democratic governor said after the House gave the measure final approval Tuesday. ° The bill, which House members supported 79-68, ¯ arrived at the governor’ s desk just before lunch and ¯ was signed quietly prior to a2pmnews confe~e,nce, ¯ Vermont lawmakers didn’t use the term mar" riage to describe the official state sanction. Instead ¯ they set up aparallel track of"civil tmions," which ¯ would give Gay and Lesbian partners the property and other legal fights of spouses. Such unions ¯ would become legal July 1. No state has ever gone ¯ so far in recognizing the relationships that Gay and "- Lesbian couples form. ." Three couples and the lawyers who sued in 1997 ¯ when they were denied marriage licenses watched in the crowded Housechamber as the final roll was ¯ called and House representatives agreed to minor ." changes made by their colleagues in the Senate. ¯ Stacy Jolles and Nina Beck stood cradling their 5¯ month-old son, Seth. Peter Harrigan stood embracing Stan Baker, who held a small necklace from ¯ which his parents’ wedding rings dangled. And ¯ Holly Puterbaugh held hands as Lois Famham ¯ wiped tears from her eyes. "This isn’ t marriage, but it’ s ahuge and powerful bundle of rights that we’ ve ¯ finally gotten," Baker said moments after the vote. ¯ After the vote, Rosana Vestuti, 41, of Montpelier, sat on a window seat as legislators, Gay and ." Lesbian couples and thepress milled about. "It’ s so ¯ nice. I have all this in my eyes," see Vermont, p. 7 GI,s Mom Suing Arm i- Supreme Court Hears Gay Civil ¯ OKC Gay Group Meets WASHINGTON(AP)-Them°ther°fas°ldiermur- " R|ghts Case: Dale vs. BSA With Daily Oklahoman dered in his barracks believes the Army’s attitude , toward Gays created the atmosphere that led to the ¯ killing. Patricia Kutteles of Kansas City, Mo., said she ¯ ¯ would file a claim with the Army, seeking roughly $1.8 million in damages for the death of her son, Pfc. Barry ¯ Wincbell,21. She said fellow soldiers believed Winchell was Gay and harassed him for months before he was : beaten to death while sleeping in his cot last July at Fort : Campbell, Ky. The Army knew about the harassment ¯ but did nothing to stop it, she said. "We want theArmy : to be held accountable," Kutteles said. ¯ Pvt. Calvin Glover, 19, of Sulphur, Okla., was con- ¯ victed of premeditated murder and sentenced to life in -" ¯ prison for the attack. Another soldier was givena 12.5year sentence for lying to investigators and obstructing ¯¯ justice. The killing prompted criticism of the Pentagon’ s policy on homosexuals in the military. Under the policy " known as "don’t ask, don’t teli.;’:~,Gay-members of the : military can continue to serve.as Ibng as they keep their ¯ ¯ sexual orientation to themselves. ¯ Kutteles’ attorney,Adam Pachter, said he plans to file under a federal law that allows people to seek reim- ¯_ bursement from the military for injury or death. The ¯ claim will be sent toMaj. Gen. Robert T. Clark, the ." commander of Fort Campbell, but Army Secretary " Louis Caldem probAbly’will make thef’mal decision on : whether to pay, Pachter said. Kutteles’ claim also al- ¯¯ leges Fort Campbell officials ignored underage drinking on the base and did not provide a way for soldiers to ¯ call 911 from the barracks.:Glover has said he had been drinking prior to theattack~ Maj. Pamela Hart, an Army : ¯ spokeswoman, declined to comment on the claim but said soldiers can now reach 911 from their barracks. She ¯ also said soldiers had received additional training about . ¯ the military’ s policy on Gays. Kutteles said her goal is to get the Army to admit : wrongdoing and take corrective action. "I don’t think : you ~ put a price on your child’ s life,’.’ she said. "Your ¯ world is changed if you lose a child. Nothing caa ever : : rip3at it." WASHINGTON, D.C. - Boy Scouts of America (BSA) is not entitled to expel an exemplary member who is openly Gay from its ranks, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force said at the end of April as theU.S. SupremeCourtwas hearingargumentsinBoy Scouts of America v. Dale. The ruling on the case will likely be issued before the term ends in early summer. ’q’he Boy Scouts’ mission is to promote model citizenship and integrity," said Panla Ettdbrick, NGLTF Family Policy Director. "It is ridiculous and wrong to exclude a man whose outstanding personal character fulfills this mission simPlY because he is Gay." "The Supreme Court agreed to hear the case on appeal by the BSA after the August 1999 unanimous decision of the New Jersey,Supreme Court. The court found that the BSA falls under New Jersey’ s anti-discrimination law and cannot deny any person "accommodations, advantages, facilities and privileges" because of sexual orientation. Because the Scouts do not organize for a specific anti-Gay message; the New Jersey Supreme Court also found that the inclusion of openly Gay assistant scoutmaster James Dale would not violate the BSA’ s First Amendment rights of free association and free speech. ~ I’llis case represents a classic struggle in our country?s everevolving democracy," said Ettelbrick, a veteran attorney and national expertLon legal-issues facing.the Ga~y~ lesbian~ bisexual and transgender community. "It is the straggle between a group’ s right to establish its own values and the government’ s obligation to ensure that the law does not give effect to those private biases when they are used to inhibit equality." .. . ~ Ettelbrick praised the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, which has served as lead counsel for James Dale and has assembled a broad collection of groups to sign friend-of-thecourt briefs. Those groups range from NGLTF and the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) to the attorneys-general of 10 states, including Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson (see related story this page). NGLTF’ S brief can be found online via I..ambda’ s website at http:/Iwww.lldef.org/sectionslseetionsldalepresskit/ amicusaclu.html. : ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ ¯_ ¯ ¯ ." ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ; ¯ ¯ ; : ¯ ¯" : : OKLAHOMA CITY - Leaders in Oklahoma City’ s are hailing an early April meeting with Sue Hale, the new executive editor of the Daily Oklahoman. The Daily Oklahoman which was characterized in the Columbia Journalism Review as "the worst newspaper in America" has been known for its unfair treatment of Lesbian and Gay issues, not only on the editorial pages but in regular, "objecfive" newscoverage. Those who met with Hale are participants in a new speakers bureau. "Speakers for Gay and Lesbian Issues" was organized with the goal of reaching out to the straight commtmity to facilitate understanding of the realities of.being Gay and Lesbian. Karen Pars0ns,Nathaniel Batchelder, Paul Thompson, and Rob Abiera attended the meeting with Hale, a thirty-year veteran of the Daily Oklahoman. Hale was chosen to be the successor to Stan Tiner, who left the Daily Oklahoman after several months of working to remold the paper into a more progressive, contemporary medium which would more accurately reflect the diversity of Oklahoma City. Halewas approached after reports.began to surface of her interest in "social justice" issues. And though homophobic diatribes continue to grace the editorial page - still under the firm control of Patrick McGuigan - the rest of the paper was showing signs of neutrality, if not being outright Gay-friendly. One place where the paper was showing signs of openness has been in the movie reviews. Kathryn Jenson White had come from the Oklahoma Gazette (OKC’ s alternative weekly) and had always been of decidedly liberal persuasion. It did not take long after Tiner’ s departure to see that she would continue to be so, and when two GLBT-themed Oscar coatenders see Daily, p. 11 �: Interfaith AIDS Ministries 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants : Dear friends, POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 712-2324 *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 ¯ The present realities of HIV/AIDS and e-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlinlc net 610-5323 *CW’ s, 1737 S. 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Harvard under the 1 lth Amendment. * Free Spirit Women’ s Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 ¯ Edmondson, a former Boy Scout and * is where you can find TFN. Not allare Gay-owned but allare Gay-friendly. Friend ForA Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 see Attorney, p.7 ¯ reques ; L’.am no longer able to d.o _; ! �by Christopher Graft, Associated Press Writer On the day Unilever bought Slim-Fast for $2.3 billion and Ben & Jerry’s for $326 million, it was the smaller purchase that captured the headlines and attention nationwide. The New York Times, The Washington Post and The Associated Press were among the major news organizations that focused on the purchase of the tiny ice cream company, mentioning the acquisition of the much-larger Slim-Fast only to savor the unusual pairing of the fatten, ing and dieting duo. Why? Why does a $326 million purchase gain more attcntionthatva$2.3~billionone?Qu~fle-simplybecauseno ¯ one ldab~s 6r~ cares ~h6 !o~vns Shn~-Fast." ~ . , Butdle ’ldid,&. ’.J erry. " mlamey ~’" ""~ care ~ . ,, ! , y.:,. ¯ ! y k~d~Be~duidflie who owns th~s’c0mpa@.~ h~;ce ~dffay~ b~fi ~ttnazed’l~ ~. the wide interest in Ben & Jerry’ s. By the news media. " And by peo_p,te in general. Because, to be blunt about it, ¯ Ben & Jerry s is a tiny company, with an insignificant share of the ice cream market. The appeal, though, stems from the fact there are two real guys at the heart of this i : company; two guys who want t6~do good. No faceless multinational ctlialj._"~,y with layers of bureau...cracy. This xs Ben and Je~’.~,~-stlll doing a little scooping here and there, and always keeping their eyes on social concerns. And that strikes a nerve with the publicl i Twoguys who want to do good. Helping out the little guy by earmarking 7.5% of the pretax p.r.ofits for charity and : running campaigns to help children and savethe family farm. Two guYS. Doing good. ¯ Bernie Sanders strikes that same nerve. This past week ~ found him gushingly profiled in the New York Times and ¯ prominently featured in the Boston Globe, the National ¯ Journal.and on Nagonal Public Radio. H~ is just one of 435 members of the U.S. House - and ye’~ he reaps far ¯ more than his share of publicity - just like Ben and Jerry ¯¯ do. Why? Because he, too, strikes a nerve. Bernie is the fighter for the little guy, taking on the powerful pharma- Editor’s note: the following are remarks made by new NGLTF Executive Director Elizabeth Toledo at the National Press Club at apress conference held on April.25. "Good morning. I am here this morning to discuss the state of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender movement (GLBT) for equality in the United States. As many state legislatures across the land wrap tip their work and adjourn, we are seeing a frenzied pace of legislative activity surrounding GLBT issues. For only the second year in our movement’ s history, we have seen bills favorable to our community outnumber unfavorable bills - and the ratio is rapidly increasing. So far this year, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force has tracked 466 bills, of which 288 are favorable and 178 are unfavorable. By comparison, last year, we tracked 269 favorable bills and 205 unfavorable bills. A trend has emerged which shows that although the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender population remains under fierce attack, the movement toward civil rights for all is steadily gaining strength. Today the Vermont House of Representatives is poised to give final approval to a bill that would allow same-sex couples the right to enter into official civil unions sanctioned by the state. If approved and signed into law, the Vermont bill will do what no state has ever done before - it will pr0~ide same~s,¢x couples wi~ al! of the fights, benefits iitid ~i~0fi-iilsNties Of niarfiag~ thai a state can offer. Vermont has garnered a lot of attention, and rightfully so. But did_you know_ about Georgia? Indiana? Mai_ne? Alabama?’GeOrgia this Tear foi~ ,the firs:t!time ever: has passed and enacted a hate crimes law. Indiana has passed and enacted a hate crimes data collection law. While not a full-blown hate crimes law, it represents the first rime hidianalegislators have ever reacted favorably to a GLBT issue. Maine has passed and forwarded to the voters a full-scale civil rights law that includes sexual orientation. In Alabama, the House has passed an historic bill adding .sexual orientation to the existing hate crimes law. The bill is scheduled to come up for a heating in the Senate tomorrow. Five states - Mississippi, Nebraska, New Hampshire, New Mexico, Wisconsin - have defeated attempts to either pass or strengthen anti-same-sex marriage laws. ¯ was there. This state has always been seen as a bastion of ¯ common sense and a breeder of courageous people. Yes, Vermont’ s pastoral image is of a bygone era of ¯ village squares and hillside farms. But its political image, its heritage, in fact, is of courage, of caring, of going where others fear to tread. ¯ Ralph Flanders was about as conservative as they ~ come. But he had the courage to stand up in the U.S. ¯ Senate and call for an end to Joe McCarthy’ s red-baiting, "... More and more in recent years Vet¯ taking a stand that for Flanders was steeled in the values mont has been out front in tackling tough ¯ in the Bill of Rights. And so it was for George Aiken, ¯ fighting against :the banks, the rai!roadS, and~ flae marble probl.ems. There is something about the ¯ and:~~ani,t.~i,n~t.u.stries in the ’3Os~ and spegaki~g up yche,It ¯ . exper~~ ¯ ,.small ~s~ze of the state that ¯ allows .... ¯ : ¯ ¯ - others,would not .about the~ ,folly’,.of,Vietnam. :, . . . .. ¯ :nlentat~i0ii. Aiad ther is something a~ well More and mpre in. recent ~ears V,e.rmont:has been out ¯ front in tackling tough problems. There is something about the attitude of its polltieal leaders : about the small size of the state that allows experimentaand people, an attitude that champions eivll ¯ tion. And there is something as well about the attitude of ¯ its political leaders and people, an attitude that champions r~ghts and foeuse~ on the little guy. ¯ civil rights and focuses on the little guy. ¯ As difficult as it seems for some people, As difficult as it seems for somepeople, the debate this ¯ year over extending benefits to Gay and Lesbian couples the debate this year over extending ¯ .is part of that tradition. Again the eyes of the nation are on benefits to Gay and Le~hian couples ~ the state. Certainly there is apprehension and even oppo¯ sition, but it is reassuring and pleasing to see how much is part of that tradition..." : applause thereis. A South Carolinanewspaper writes that theseindi~iduals, but it als0 has s0me~ng to do with the ¯ "Vermont has offered a sensible model for secular civil ¯ state, its people and its heritage. ¯ unions;" the Arizona Daily Star says "this is probably the In a time when many people feel disconnected from best solution possible to an emotional, important debate ¯ their communities, when they feel overwhelmed by the that strains the bounds of Americans’ tolerance and stresses and strains of everyday life, Vermont seems to ¯ respect for each other," and the Concord (N.H.) Monitor offer an anchor and a hope. Vermont is small enough.to ; says Vermont has "passed what was a test of conscience." retain the seBs¢ of community lost elsewhere, and is ¯ A tourist promotion campaigns a few decades back unafraid to try the unconventional - to stand up for the ¯ proclaimed that Vermont is what America was. It is more ¯ accurate today to say that Vermont is what America litde guy. Ben, Jerry, Bernie and the others are not creating a new ¯ wants to be. image for Vermont: They are simply building on what ceutical industry or whoever is his enemy of the moment. It is remarkable, actually, that Vermont gets as much attention as it does - through Ben, Jerry, and Bernie, and through U.S. Sens. Pat Leahy and Jim Jeffords and Gov. Howard Dean, all of whom have images of straight talkers in a business full of bluster. I suspect the nation’ s high interest in things Vermont has something to do with ¯ The pace of activity this year continues a trend we first ¯ noticed in 1999, a breakthrough year for the GLBT ; .- movement. Last year’ s legislative victories included his" toric advances in such disparate states as California, : Kentucky, New Hampshire and Nevada. In California, legislators passed and the governor signed a trio of bills : "...Vermont has garnered a lot of : attention, and ghtf lly But did you know about Georgla.9 Indlana.~ Maine.9 Alabama? Georgia this year for the first time ever has passed and enacted a hate erlmes law. Indiana has passed and enacted a hate cr~mes data collection law..." that established a statewide registry for same-sex couples, added sexual orientation to the nondiscrimination clauses under the state Fair Employment and Housing Act and offered public school students some protection against discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. In Kentucky, tWO cities..and two_ 9oun.ties ad~pted, proGLBT civil rights measures. In New Hampshire, a law preventing same-sex couples from adopting children was repealed. And Nevada became the 1 lth state to ban job discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. ~While we hav~ l~geiy ~picked-ul~iii flJ~ ~e’a~’2000 where we left off, the news is not all good. Two states Utah and Mississippi -have passed bills preventing same-sex couples from adopting children. Two state legislatures - Colorado and West Virginia- passed laws preventing same-sex couples from marrying, and Callfornia voters approved a measure banning the state from recognizing same-sex marriages in other states. The number of states that have explicitly passed laws banning same-sex mamage will reach 33 if the Colorado governor signs that statefs legislation. Such activity reflects the unfortunate reality of our movement. There is a checkerboard quality to the legal and cultural victories for the LGBT movement, and too often the difference between legitimacy and illegitimacy in the eyes of society may rest on something as arbitrary as a state boundary. Many residents of thiS country assume that the great strides of the civil rights movement have afforded broad protection against discrimination for " all. In fact the legal reality is that those of us in same sex relationships have not been fully protected from discrimination in housing,jobs, family law, education - virtually every aspect of our lives is subject to discrimination and sadl y, hate violence or harassment remains a reality in every state in the nation. Too often the cultural strides that are made in the media, in places or worship, in schools and universities and in the workplace are misinterpreted as a sign that equality has been won. I’ll give you an example. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force frequently receives phone calls from same-sex couples asking for alist of states in which they can legally marry. These individuals see shows like Will and Grace or Dawson’ s Creek. They worship in churches or synagogues that welcome them. They are out in the workplace or at school. They just assume, like many heterosexual Americans, that the barriers of discrimination have been eradicated. The reality, of course, is quite different¯ Not a single state allows same.sex mamage. 39 states allow Gay, ¯ "Lesbian, Bisexual:and Transgender employees.to be fired from our jobs. 28 states lack hate crimes law s that include sexual orientation. 18 states criminalize loving, same-sex relationships. - .~ " T~day the GLBT movement i~ at a crossroads We.are under open assault by those who would deny us basic " .human rights., and at the same time the nation.is witness" ing a surge in support for our cause. Ourtives, our liberty, our pursuit of happiness depend upon our ability " to build strong political infrastructure and organize on the " state and local level. " Local orgamzing has always been the trademark of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. Fortunately, we ,’. are not alone. Today, the state and local political infra: structure of the GLBT movement in the United States is ," stronger than it has ever been before. ¯ In 1996, NGLTF helped found the Federation of State" wide LGBT Political Organizations. see NGLTF, p. 11 �College Course to Focus On Net Hate Groups o.. BOSTON (AP) - One shows an image of a slain Gay man burning in hell Another claims the FBI has declared war on white Christians. A third pretends to pay homage to the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., then suggests the civil rights leader was a sex fiend, a communist and a "plastic god." They ~e radical, hate-driven Internet sites and they are increasing rapidly. This fall, they also will be the basis for a communications class at Emerson College called Hate.com. Robert Hilliard, an Emerson communications prof~e,ssor, vlans to use ,the sites to examine how radical gxpups use fi!e Internet to recrmt new members. " " Hilliard became interested in extremists~ when.he’ stumbled across a far-right talk radio show, and later wrote abook on the topic with Boston College professor Michael Keith. "We began to listen and we said, ’Here we were, communications professionals and we didn" t know about these people,’" Hilliard said. "People have got to know what these people are saying." Their book, "Waves of Rancor: Tuning in the Radical RighC’ was well-received and ended up on President Clinton’ s summer reading list. Hilliard’ s says his class will .examine how the groups target xmpressionable youth, how they multiply and how they foment rage¯ More than 300 extremistWeb sites are on the Internet today, ranging from neo-Nazi alliances to Gay and Lesbian haters to Holocaust denials sites, according to the watchdog Southern Poverty Law Center¯ In 1998, the group counted 254 such Web sites, up from 163 in 1997. Experts say extremists are careful’not to urea away viewers with upfront, inflammatory statements or epithets. Instead, rock music and games draw in new members gradually. One Neo-Nazi site features bands like RaHoWar, which stands for Racial Holy War. "Others attract viewers with seemingly mainstream articles, but the articles can lead to racist and conspiratorial theories bolstered with passages from the Bible and alternative historians. Hilliard plans toinvite some hate site creators to the class, giving them a chance to defend their work. One rote creator satdhe s open to such challenges. I thi the media is extremely biased against my point of view and I want to provide an alternative to their news," said Don Black, creator of Stormfront, one of the Web’ s oldest white nationalist sites. Hilliard and others emphasize that extremist sites are fully protected by the First Amendment and stress they are not calling for their removal. However, Hilliard makes no bones about his hopes that students work to combat them. ’q?hese are people saying’ We must arm ourselves for a holy war to rid the world of those who are not white, Aryan Christians or those who disagree with our points of view,’" he said. Idaho Public TV Faces Program Challenges IDAHO FALLS, Idaho. (AP) :- Adding a disclaimer to .controversial programming on Idaho Public Television may pacify prograrnm~ug restrictions from the .Legislature while allowing the station to keep federal funding. Idaho Board Of Education member Curtis ’Eaton ¯ proposed.Friday the board require PublieTelevision tO air a disclaimer stating the station does not sanction acts or events depicted in programming. In a letter dated,April 13, Eaton asked.the ¯board to consider the option-as a way torectncile what he describes aft contradictory statements in recent.legislation that require the board to regulate programming deemed to promote acts illegal in Idaho. The controversy over programming began last. spring, when Idaho Public Television General Manager Peter Morrill decided to air"It’ s Elementary," an hour-long documentary about how five public school districts across the country dealt with teaching kids about homosexuality. Christian conservatives lobbied the board to veto the program, but in June 1999 the board voted unanimously not to interfere with Morrill’ s programming decision. But the Legislature got involved this spring by including restrictions in a funding package for the network that reouire the board to monitor and reject programming that "promotes, supports or encourages the violation of Idaho criminal statutes." Because sodomy is illegal in Idaho, the bill could be interpreted to mean programs like"It’ s Elementary" should be cut. Or, because robbery is an Idaho felony, documentaries about legendary thieves Bonme and Clyde might be barred. But board member Harold Davis said he agreed with the restrictions and felt "It’ s Elementary’ crossed the line iiito promoting "the Gay lifestyle." He opposed Eaton’ s proposal, saying it was not sufficient to meet Legislative demands for new policy. Methodists Callings,For:+ Investigation of Bishop SACRAMENTO (AP) - Some parishioners want religious leaders to investigate the United Methodist Church bishop who decided not to charge 68 ministers who attended and endorsed a Lesbian wedding. The western region of the United Methodist Church’ s College of ~3ishops received two letters from parishioners, asking for aninvestigationinto whether Bishop Melvin Talbert disregarded church laws, including one banning same-sex unions. Bishop Elias Galvan of Seattle, a member of the religious body, said the o letters would be reviewed to see if they merit complaint status. John Stumbo, a Fort Valley, Ga., lawyer and member of the Coalition for United Methbdist Accountability, said the complaints centered around comments Talbert made when he announced that there was no basis f01~ a trial. At the time, Talbert said it was more important for the church to be all -inclusive than to puuish someone for blessing a union not officially sanctioned by the churcJa; But Stumbo said Talbert and the church’ s investigative committee disregarded a church law against homosexual, marriage in reaching their decision, If the-College of Bishops finds grounds for complaint, a separate committee wouldinvestigate whether Talbert should be tried in a church court, which would have the power to impose a number of penalties, including expulsion. Talbert’ s secretary said the bishop was travding and could not be reached for comment. The Rev. Don Fado of St..Mark’ s United Methodist Church in Sacramento performed the January 1999 ceremony for church members Ellie Charlton, 64,and. Jeanne BametL 69. He and 67 other ministers offiCiated en masse at the ceremony. University Denial of Benefits Ruled Legal P1TTSBU-RGH (AP) - The University of Pittsburgh has-legally denied health benefits to same-sex partners of employees, an AlleghenyCounty judge ruled. Judge Robert Gallo said that Pitt’ s policy is neutral because health benefits are offered to all employees regardless of sexual orientation, and Pitt also denies benefits to unmarried partners of heterosexual employees. "This ruling dearly iupholds what has been the university’ s .position, thr0~ghout these proem,dings - namely that the universityhealth benefits plan is legal and nondiscriminatory," Pitt spokesman Ken Service said. But. Deborah Henso~, ia’former Pittinstn~ctor Who-’ sued when the university denied benefits to her Le~.bian partner, said she’would appeal to Common~ wealth Court. ’~Fhis is.important in terms of fairness.,, and equality," Hens, on s~d.."pitt has .l~e~¯ ~gh~ng tooih and nail, in my opiuion,tojus ,tff,y~ disenmina~tton against Gay and Lesbi~in persons. Henson and six others were plaintiffs in a lawsuit alleging that Pitt violated a city ordinance banning discrimination against Gay~ and Lesbians. I-Ienson’ s attorneys had wanted the case to be heard by the Pittsburgh Commission on Human Relations, which hears complaints about violations of the city ordinance. Ga!lo said the commission has no jurisdiction over Pitt. In November, Gov. Tom Ridge signed a law exempting state universities and colleges from being forced by city anti-discrimination laws to provide same-sex benefits. Pitt is a state-affiliated institution. United in God’s Love ¯ MCC-Un=ted Sunday WOrship 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 .... A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S. 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BOSh on Vermont Civil Unions TEMPLE, Texas (AP)- Republican presidential candidate George W. Bush refused to be drawn into comment on Vermont’s civil unions, which would grant to same~sex couples some 300 state benefits of marriage, including medical decision-making, tax breaks and inheritance. Bush has opposed recognizing same-sex unions in Texas. "They have a right to pass a law," Bush said. "It’ s the right of the state to .make that decision just like it’s the right of the state of South Carolina to make the decision on the flag." Bush also met with a group of Gay Republicans last week in Austin and said he was "a better person" for heating their stories but still disagreed with them on Gay marriage. The Texas governor answered questions after making an elementary school appearance to_~,r.omote "character education" on the anni .v.ersary of the Columbine shootings. School District InC0urt Fi0r Rejecting Gay Club ,,7i?ne,G~y,~cltlb ~, 0n!y .n~et ~t’e~ ,h~ ~s qo~.l~.u~:~.g,rpup. thin, must ~efi( siJa~e aiii£.~hy insurance~ Th~ ~i~a’l~ ;sn ’t~16~l t6 liand ~tU~t t’l,y..¢~ oL c~uh ~ha~e.t0~ay.fQr~ :,es si Coh~:saia’.’C6iien ~’d: pcrsp.e.,,~tive~ of’G~y~ a~a)’?!;~in~."Seida ti~Z them ~ ~ 4045 N. Cincinnati, 425-7882 SaintDunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Saint John Trinity 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Clark delivered opening and dosing arguments while Richard Van Wagoner, another Salt Lake City lawyer, grilled Seidel on her decision to disqualify PRISM but sanction the Polynesian Club and the Odyssey of the Mind Club. ’Seidel also nixed a women’ s literature club, saying she had suggested a genderless literature club instead. Campbell seemed particularly interested in that decision a~d asked for ~ ".... district records on it. ." The judge frequently turned oia Dan: Larsen, an ¯ assistant Utah state attorney general d~fending the ¯ school district, attacking his argiamentsand declaring school administrators were not hb~v~:the law. Dis- trict Superintendent Darlene Roblds: who was in the ¯ courtroom but did not testify, S~iid tti~ school board ¯ "wasla:t tr~_’0g to violate studen[s" ~F,ifst Amendment ¯ ~nghk~ and welcomed any ~]anfi~ohC ~ ll~ear~ "bring on, the m~tte~r~ , Lesbian Housing Rights NEW YORK (AP) - A lawyer for a Lesbian medical student asked a state appeals court to order Yeshiva University to let the woman and her domestic partner live together in school-subsidized housing. James Esseks told a five-judge panel of the New York State Supreme Court’ s Appellate Division that Yeshiva’ s policy discriminates on the basis of marital status and sexual orientation in violation of city and state law. Esseks said the university pern-ts married students to live in school housing only with spouses and children. Because Gay couples cannot legally marry, the policy has a disparate, discriminatory impact on them, he said. Esseks represents Sara Levin, 28, of San Francisco, a fourth-year student at Yeshiva’ s Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Yeshiva University is the oldest and largest institution of higher education under Jewish auspices in the United States. University Members Protest Anti-GaY Slurs SALT Li~KE CITY (AP) - A fede~r,al judge recently shai~ly questioned a’s~hoor distiict s refuSai.to’sancGORHAM, "{~/Iaine (AP) - Abou(.125.~t_udent~, staff tibia’ "d" ’ ~ ~d:¢rff ~ dub ’ that would-focus:,on:Gay "~-: and administrators attended a meeting following three IJYe:sbjan~ssu¢si"’~ust (~ecaus~ yo~gof6"safi’6ol’d~i incidents o£ anti-Gay bias at the University of Southm~y~.~0!~ -th~ii,~’~iis~ Aiii~iidifiefi{iights; U..S," ern Maine. One student and two others were arrested Di~ft Jildg~ Teiah’ chmp~~tttold’.a lawyer for’the _ by Gorhamand USM policein connection with one of S~,t-~ .city’s~tiool ~’~&:Campbell made.no " the three_’in.cidents, all of which took place during a d~Li~ionlasr m’or~,...B.~t.~:.i.s e.x_pected’t0 nile ~60n ¯ one-week period earlier this spring. President Richo..n~a’reqye~ by stud~,nt org~:z~r~’i6b~c~ia~lVadnfiil: - : ard Pattenande assured participants.at Wednesday’ s is~t6r~ find .~_~ "PRrSM~’Peoi~l~ R~spectingIm~ :Tmeeting that anti-Gay acts will not be tolerated. pdrt~t s~iAl Mov-&ia~nt~ = ter@o:rary school privi- :’ "USM stands unflinchingly for equality~. -. homopholeges. Campbell will then’decide the crux of the case: bid has.no place at USM," Pattenande said.. w3aether schoql 9ffici~s violated the First AmendThe incidents began on the weekend of April 8-9 meat or their own- policy in sh~bb~ag., PRIS M:Tot-? when anti.Gay graffiti was foundin Woodward Hall. merly the Gay-Straight Alliaiice and_now, reconsti-. The graffiti referred to a resideatadvisor. The next ttitM M’ii~i" aii ac~id’6G~i~ ib~ar to satisfy new district: incidenthappened on April 13 when the same c[abrules, Woodward resident advisor and anotheradvisor in_ .Cynthia ~¢i_.dd i. the_Oi, S_tri’~? s. _as~istani,~upe~nten-: tervenedin an out-of-control party. Both were taunted ¯ dent, struggled on the stand Tliurs~y.~0¢xplaii~ why., ~ with violent, anti-Gay threats. Last Saturday, another PRISM didn’ t.qualify as, an academic_club;.contend: ¯ dormitory.staff workerfoundawritten-anti-Gay death ing,it represents a~ narrow..viewpoi~ o.n ~.~.erican threat had been slipped under her’dtbr~" ....... hist6ry and sociology In 1996, the school districi el.i_nu,’na,ted all nonacademicdubs’i:aiher.than idlow Qay .dub at East RighS&ooL a mbve.that ,was in~federat court ..... .....",.. ~ .... ~, , ,. i~qrpos; ,oLtll.e .cfii~ is tbi~i~ss history"f~bifi:the SaintAidan ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~O~i~ :Uec~U~ ~e’d0ii~t t~ch c,,urri~ulum from the viewpini:dfGays and Legblans. ’. . Stephen.Clark, l¢.gal director for the American Civil ,Liberties, U,ni" on of Utah, argued that the denial was a straighff0.r~v)ffd First Amendment v,iolation. Clark also contends the district manipulated its own club policy and sealed its decision against PRISM with a new, still unwritten rule disqualifying clubs advocating an "exclusive viewpoint" of subjects. ’ Alhb:ama H ate:i::Cii :i:m es Law Revision In:Trouble MONTGOMERY, Ala. (AP) - At:i~n-danc~..at. a Senate comfifittee meeting could determine the fate Of lcgist~tif~;to ~;po,laxkA!.~b._a~a,~’.A~h~.qrim,es !~w to indud~ NXnald~r~e~a~:.ti...on. !.7~.e .t)i:!$ pa~ red ~ R~ 49-39:on.April 6..George, Olssom Mbntgomery .area coordinator for-the Gay and Le~ian,Al!iartc,e .of Alabama~,s~d ’.~e ,J~c!~ci_ary _Co~t.t~ ~: sharply which commi.B~me,_~a~bcrs shoN,upat tlag ~t iil~eting. Committee, cL~irman.:Rodger,:,Smi,ih~ianan, a supporter Of the bill, agreed thdco~tteeii spfit 5050 and,attendance,could determine t!~.outcome. Alabama law already mandates, mini.mm:n prison terms that felons must serve for crimes motiyated by race, color, religion, national origin, :ethnicity or physical or mental disability. For instance,, if a person committed a crime that is normally punishable by one to 10 years in prison, the hate crimes law mandates the person must serve at least two years in prison. �TB Spreading In : "threatened sextmlly" by other inmates said they had been raped. Transgender Group :". andIf 1.1% they have AIDS or another sex~mlly ATLANTA (AP) - A tuberculosis out- ¯ transmitted disease, they’ll be spreading break in the Transgender commtulities of : it to their partners, he said. "These people Baltimore and New York City may be : are g,oing to be getting out of prison and spreading to 0ther:cities, the government ¯¯ they re going to be having sex with their wives or husbands," Hemley said. said recently. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention confirmed 26 ac- : The sweeping 46-question survey .,asks tive cases and 37 dormant cases of tuber- ¯ about jailhouse consensual sex, culosis, most of them connected to mem- : autoeroticism and rape. About 3,600 of bers of the transgender community inthe : Kentucky’ s 15.300 prisoners have been two cities. ¯ asked to participate. The survey is volunThe’ CD~,, ~s~ th~t~m~ig~asgender to: !, ~tary and_anonymouL Funded in part b~ a encbn~Ss~"cro~-~dr~ss~dr~,~ those who .: ~$1,600 ~ant from ’Morehe~id~State,! the ":~i ~ques~i~res have~n ~ent to i.m~tes haveig~.,derg0~eI and indi~id~Jai~ ~tio ~re’plafining to un~ ¯ ’. dt three Of the state’ s .12 male prisons and dergo sex-change operations. All of the : toinmatesatthestate’sonlyfemaleprison. ¯ Results will be released this fall. cases in Baltimore were men except for Hensley’ s research has "extraordinary four women who w’ere either family memvalue," said Cindy Stmckman-Johuson, a bers of the men or health care workers professor of psychology at the University who treated them. Many had a strain of of South Dakota. But ~ topic is so taboo TB treated with common antibiotics. The that few scholars focus on it, she said. government said 62% of the tuberculosis "We should have hundreds of people patients tested positive for HIV, the virus studying it," Struckman-Johnson said. that causes AIDS. People with HIV are "Sex in prison is a major cause of violence susceptible to tuberculosis and could die ... of upset and turmoil, a major cause of if not treated. disease." Transgenders often travd to many citPrisoners’ rights advocates also say the ies frequenting social clubs and particisexuality data could be useful. "Prison is paring in fashion and dance competitions. a very violent place and ff (officials) can "Frequent travel and social network links get a better idea about the reality of prison identified among the Baltimore and NYC rape and what’ s going on, hopefully they cases have raised concern that thi~ strain caTu be more prepared to deal with that ¯ . may be circulating in other’~ities issue," said Kara Gotsch, a public policy among young, mobile transgender percoordinator with the Washington, D.C.sons with HIV infection," the CDC said in based National Prison Project of the a report¯ American Civil Liberties Union. The CDC is checking for additional Struckman-Jotmson said some prison cases linked to the same strain in Atlanta, administrators try to quash these kinds of "Baltimore, Boston, New YorkCity, Philastudies out of concern about negative pubdelphia and Washington, D.C. licity. But Morehead State administrators and Kentucky prison officials approved Hensley’ s study. Hensley also has co-written an article on conjugal visitation in Mississippi, and LOS ANGELES (AP) - There’ s more to his study on consensual homosexual acthe B ruce Willis appearances on"Friends" tivity in male prisons in Oklahoma is than a potential ratings boost. The actor, scheduled for publication in December in who agreed to be a guest star on NBC’ s a prison-related academic journal. "Friends" for three episodes during the May ratings "sweeps," is donating earnings from the show to five charities. The amount of money wasn’ t disclosed. The American Foundation for AIDS MOSCOW (AP) - Authorities in a SibeResearch, AIDS Project Los Angeles, the rian region plan to open a separate prison Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundafor inmates infected with HIV, the virus tion, the Rape Treatment Center and that causes AIDS, a news report said last UCLA Unicamp for underprivileged chilmonth. dren will share the money, Willis publiAbout 600 HIV-positive convicts are cist Paul Bloch said. serving time in prisons of the Irkutsk On "Friends," Willis plays the widregion, and another 300 infected people owed father of Ross’ new girlfriend. Willis are held in pre-trial detention, said Boris became friendly with "Friends" actor Gronik, chief of the regional Justice MinMatthew Perry when they both starred in istry branch in charge of prison administhe movie "The Whole Nine Yards." tration. Gronik said afflicted inmates present a danger to other prisoners, and need to be removed; the ITAR=Tass news agency reported. "Unless they are all gathered in one place, the situation may get out MOREHEAD, Ky. (AP) - A Morehead of control," Gronik was quoted as saying. State University professor is conducting a Russia already has one special prison study on prison sexuality, a topic he says for HIV-positive convicts, ITAR-Tass has been shrouded in silence but must be said. The jail is located in the Baltic Sea dealt with. The information could be used enclave of Kaliningrad, which has one of to combat the spread of AIDS and imthe highest concentrations of AIDS cases prove prison safety. Christopher Hensley, in Russia. a sociology professor who directs In a separate development, authorities Morehead’s Institute for Correctional in the southern Siberian republic of Research and Training, said the survey is Buryafia, next door to lrkutsk, said 101 the first of its kind in Kentucky. HIV cases have been registered in the Hensley studied prison sex in Oklarepublic, up from 24 at the start of the homa and found that nearly one in four year, ITAR-Tass reported. male prisoners had engaged in sexual HIV has been spreading fast in Russia activities with fellow inmates. Overall. and more than 30,000 registered cases 13.8% of all prisoners said they had been March. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. Actor Bruce Willis Donating to Charity Russian Prison For HIV+ Inmates Study on Prison Sex in Kentucky Medical Excellence And Compass.ionate Care Since 1926. ¯ ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER Medical Excellence ¯ Compassionate Care �reviewed by Barry Hensley . 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Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here for you! ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ E~ening support group meetings Relationship workshops Short trips, outings and retreats Free HIV testing Gay rights, movement. From Dorothy in "The Wizard of Oz," through a series of film successes, to s ome embarras sing televi sion performances, and, fin.ally., to aging songstress staging substandard tunes written by her lover, Judy Garland’s career was a rollercoaster ride unparalleled in showbiz history. "s. ems especially proud her 77 ..... that he had access to these volatile personal life tapes, although at least one other Garland biography has utilized them. The conthey were probably tent of the tapes is very interesting, although painfully sad, as she lashes out at the people who .made Lesbian encounters millions off of her name that are mentioned in but left her penniless. With the exception of ~et Happy’..." some films and her celebrated Carnegie Hall concert, Clarkelargely ignores Garland’ s pro. .Through thenewspapers, radio and television, the public eagerly watched her fessional life, preferring to give us lurid career rise and fall many times over a gossip and personal problems instead of thirty year period. Each triumphant peranalyzing her varied career. In fact, of the formance was soon followed by some sort almost 500 pages in this book, only four of disaster. Extraordinarily poor at choosare dedicated to’q’he Judy Garland Show ," ing husbands, the public followed her the 1963 CBS series that was the last, volatile personal life as well, although sustained effort of her career (and which they were probably unaware of a few is currently available on DVD.) Lesbian encounters that are mentioned in Reviewers and fans seem intensely poGet Happy. 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Howa huge tome, second onl y to Gerold Frank’ s ever, his decade of research pays off occa700 page biography, "Judy," in 1975. sionally, with someinteresting stories and Clarke had access to the personal diary of comments, although we must be aware Dottle Ponedel, Judy’ s longfime makeup that what we are reading is quite probably woman, who apparently found that Judy as much a juicy novel as it is a serious was the most interesting thing in her life. biography. Either way, it’ s an intriguing Clarke also interviewed many of Judy’ s read. costars, friends, directors and conductors, Check out Get Happy, as well as many including Arfie Shaw, Lena Home, and of Garland’ s films or music at any branch Judy’ s most influential husband, SidLuft. 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The civil unions essentially duplicate marriage, but are not recognized under federal law denying Gay couples benefits such as Social Security andirmnigrafion. Under the law, Gay ~ouples will be able to go to their town clerks and have their unions certified by a judge or by a member of the clergy. Breakups will be handled in Family Court. the parent of a former Boy Scout, said there have been 255 requests for the state to join friend-of-the-court briefs since he became attorney general in 1995. The state has signed on to 111 of them, 68 dealing with states’ rights. "In making those decisions, we have always tried to focus on the legal issues rather than the political ones," he said. But lawmakers said Edmondson’s action makes ~*. appear the state opposes the right of the Boy Scouts to choose their own leaders. "’Drew Edmondson has put Oklahoma on record in the highest court in the land as being in favor of the homosexual movement against the Boy Scouts," said Rep. Bill Graves, R-OKC,-an outspoken opponent of civil rights for Gay people. "I thought the decision by the New Jersey Supreme Court was an outrage," Graves said. Editor’s note: the switchboard for the Oklahoma House of Representatives is 800-522-8502. �Editor’s lugte: due to gremh’nesque glitches tn the e-mail, our regular "Amusements" column by Jim Christjohn never got to the editorial desk. Unfortunately this came to light at first::lighr’the mormng before going to’.press, andbeing brave, but northat brave, :I dtdt no:t invoke the wrath of the dembn~ by Waking him at 5:30am. Future issues.~will feature interviews by Christjohn: with members of the cast of der of wonders, to TULSA! This Pulitzer and Tony award winning work by the late Jonathan Larson-was introduced to Tulsa theatre and media, folk at a.recent PAC reception. Coordinated by the ever gracious and lovely Tracey Norvell, fed a grea~ llmch by the Polo GrilF s Tal.madge Powell, and wowed by perfomances by two .current Broadway casrmembers flown into Tul sa for ithe; ~vent.,~’sa~_~ hear,~d.: the veff~ .era ergetie,(~md:cute-)-p~.~l~!ce~, Jeffre~ ~ !1 ~ deseribethe off-off Broadway .and shaky origins of cal, will be at the Rent, as well as the Tulsa Performing tragic death of an Arts Center beginaeortic aneurysm ning May 30 thro’ of composer/ June 4th. As the writer Jonathan promoters, the Larson on the very Tnlsa-based Ceeve of the show’s lebrity Attracsuccessful opentions, note intering. est in the ill-fated Larson drew ship has been _ ~om Sesma inspiration for great, resulting in Rent from Puccini’s La Boheme but set television programs, a"major motion pichis work in New York’ s East Village and ture," novels and "even a cookbook." with people living with HIV (rather than Indeed. TB), Lesbian lawyers, drag queens inThe show was written by Peter StOne, stead of Parisian poets and painters. known for other shows: 1776, T~e Will The music draws on!the traditions of Rogers Follies, My One & Orii~, and music and lyrics are by Maury Yeston .. American gospel and in the words of.the Houston Chronicle~ "Rent .is that rare. (Nine, Grand Hotel). musical whose content and style areo£the Titanic won multiple’q’ony" awards~in present rather than the past.. 1997 and New York Observer critic, Rex words of pro.d.ucer Jeffr,y Sellers~ tradiReed claims, " you will never see anything this impressive anywhere elser on’ to benefit Saint Joseph Residence + Regional AIDS Interfaith.Network Saturday, June 3rd, 10-5, + Sunday, June 4th, 1-5 $10 donation at the door or in advance. David Daniel, 1603 S. Carson Wiley Parsons, 1601 S. Carson Monty + Jane Butts, 240 E. Woodward Blvd. Brett + Maricarolyn Swab, 2112 S. Norfolk Ave. Dr. Robert & Dena Hudson, 2707 S. Rockford Rd. 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And patrons (donations of than $450) will gather at Doug & 525,600 Minutes : more Susan Pielsticker on June 10th. Having said that, the extraordinary new For more information, call Charles Ameficanmusical, Rent, is coming, won- " Faudree, Inc. at 747-9706. ,"~l)~:" ~" ?’Q *~ "~ .... - ; .... THE MUSEUM SHOP AT PHILBROOK 748.5304 �by Busaba Sivasoboom BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - They giggled like girls and limp-wristed their high-fives, but when these players spiked a volleyball, opponents knew they were facing some of the meanest men on a Thai April 29, May 5 & 7, 2000 Prices Start. at Just $15! Act Now! Call 587-4811 Bacldin 1996, a transvestite volleyball team with a woman coach overcame an anti-homosexual campaign to keep them out and competed!ha meffs national club volleyball championship They won both the tournament and the hearts.of the crowd. Now; their tale has been turned into a movie titled "Satree-lek," or "Iron Ladies," and it’ s quickly turning into one of the biggest box office hits in Thai history - while spotlighting the country’s ambiguous feelings about transvestites and homosexuality. Director Yongyoot Thongkongtoon said that on the surface, Thai society is open and tolerant of transvestites and homosexuality. The two are often equated in the popular mind, though not all transvestites are homosexuals, or vice versa. Transvestite cabarets are popular with tourists and several television shows feature transvestites-prompting an edict last year by the government to broadcasters to tone it down. The order, however, has widely been ignored. But Yongyoot told The Associated Pres s that transvestism was a lifestyle far removed from that led by most Thais, and his debut film takes a look at how other people : react to having transvestites as neighbors, rivals and colleagues. In the movie, the team was insulted by words and gestures at the beginning of the tournament. However, when they showed they could play as well, and better- than their rivals, they gradually gained respect from fans and other players. "I chose to present it as a comedy, because I thought a drama might be boring," said Yongyoot, who formerly directed TV commercials. "An audience is more easily attracted by a comedy film." When the movie began showing nationwide in March, it became an instant hit and pulled in more thaii 100 million baht ($2.7 million) in thefirst month, 10 times what it cost to make. That already makes it second Thai film in all-rime box office receipts behind the 150 million baht (dlrs 4 million) earned by "Nang Nak," last year’ s arty retelling of an old ghost legend that is credited with giving a new breath of life to the moribund Thai film industry. Pakorn Pimton, a transvestite and coordinator of the Gays Against AIDS group, said he was unsurprised by the success of the movie and he hoped it would open useful debate. Gays are accepted as entertainers, Pakom said, because Thais d(, see movie stars and television program hosts as serious. ,~ "Howe~,if they go beyond’that line to be a doct~,~polifiCi~, banker Or top~nfili,~ tary official - I guess the answer is no, Pakorn said. "We still use a two-tier measure for members of our society." Violence against homosexuals is rare in Thailand, Pakorn said, but many barriers remain against open homosexuals. The Gay rights movement is weak. His group regularly receives calls from homosexuals who -fear coming out of the closet because they risk their jobs or status. Kitikorn Meesapya, senior psychologist at the Department of Mental Health’ s, said that Thais can accept homosexuals that keep a low profile. Homosexuals in Parliament and the military are well treated until their lifestyles are publicly exposed - a fairly rare occurence. "But then they will fac~ harsh criticism from society," Kitikorn said, expressing hope that "Satree-lek" might encourage more tolerance and help some people to express themselves as homosexuals. For Kongrith Singnukote, one of the 1996 champion players, the film’ s strongest point is that it’*talks about peacefully living together in society by accepting the differences of each person." Kongrith works as a bank teller. He goes to work in men’s clothes, but wears makeup and ¯" speaks in a girlie voice. All his colleagues ¯ know he is a transvestite. Kongrith says : he gets teased a bit, but no one has ever ¯ shown violence toward him. He says he is : grateful that his family accepts him as he : is. : Being the subject of a hit movie hash~ t ¯ raised.his celebrity ambitions,however, and he doesn’t see a career for himself : beyond retail service. 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By fostering a A walk-through butterfly exhibit at the Tulsa Zoo and Living Mus~umwil! open ¯ greater understanding of the needs and the life,cycle of butterflies we can hdp conon May 6 and will continue through October 8. The exhibit is open from 10am - " serve these delicate creatures. In addition tothe butterfly enclosure, 5pm and visitors can experience hundreds -" of native butterflies up-el0se and in flight. : knownas"Butterfly Landing," the grounds Nearly 30 species of North American ¯ aroundtheexhibithavebeen planted with butt.efflies.and ~ few s,p~..’es of moths will : butterfly-attracting plants to encourage v~s~tataon by someof our natt,~e butterfly be represented itl an enel6~&l garden set: residents. Thebutterflies exhibited inside ring, near the Animal Kingdom Building and features a variety of flowering plants. ¯ Butterfly Landing have not been taken This exlfibit is free wi~ the ~regular Zoo ~¯ from:the wild but are procured through admission. ¯ certified butterfly suppliers. Exhibits describing the lifecycle of the Wings of Wonder is set within a 30x 96’ ¯ greenhouse covered with a light mesh to ¯ butterfly, the differences between moths and butterflies, common butterflies of contain the animals. The exhibit features ¯ Oklahoma, chrysalis and butterfly !dent!a "chrysalis house" where visitors can watch as each butterfly emerges from its :¯ fication, and about attracting butterflies chrysalis or pupa and prepares for flight. ¯ to yards will be included in the exhibit. Also planned for this summer is a vision Winding stone pathways, a water feature, benches, and educational exhibits enhance ¯ exhibit that will enable visitors to see like : a butterfly. The Animal Kingdom Buildthe exhibit area. Wings of Wonder is dedicated to in- . ing will also house agift cart specializing ¯ in butterfly-related books, souvenirs, and creasing visitor knowledge and appreciagifts. Info: 669-6600 or www.tulsazoo.org tion of butterflies which are signature r �in common? - in both cases by Lament.. Lindstrom, Ph.D. ¯ What do you call a dead Blond in a somebody is gonna closet? lose a trailer house! ¯ - a 1964 hide and seek champion! And there are many more jokes about being Gay than about beThe recent flush of Blend jokes is an interesting Straight. We usually "~V’hy is it so hard abide by the politeness ing cultural phenomenon. constraints ofjoke-telli~, Jokes are more than just for women to find funny. They are also danin fact, because we realize gerous because they are that jokes (even "just-amen that are polilical. Over thepastfew jok~sT’) have this political " weight. ,Th..o~se who feel tSe decad~s~: change~ iri sensitive, earing,, ~ ’ Sfing~hidd~n ’within the Amefi’~t"~ ~olitib~[ arena have affectedboth the conlaughter sometimes proand ’ gee dl- ook"m .... test when etiquette breaks tent and practice Ofjoking. Itis alittleless easy than down. GLAAD, the Gay & it used to be to joke about - because those guys Lesbian Alliance Against ethnic and religious already have groups, handicap, gender, Defamation, for example, or gender-orientation. has attempted to police the ho rlends!?’ Blonds have emerged as a telling of certain Gay jokes safe target in politically in the m~ss media, notably on a number of morning radio shows conscious, if not always politically corwhose sleazy hosts are keen to boost their rect, America. Andmany jokes that previmarket share. Such policing, of course, if ously featured Jews- or Blacks or Gays successful merely shrinks the arenas in have been reworked into Blond jokes. which Faggot jokes are safely told. They This is not to say that offensive joking still circulate freely in less public Spaces. has disappeared. Rather, it is just a little Each time I teach Cultural Anthropolless public. American politeness convenogy, I have my students as a group collect tions demand that I should not tell a joke jokes from their friends. I figure that these whose "butt" is in my audience, unless I, joke archives provide good evidence about too, am in the targeted category, or unless which of the joints of American society I already have a close relationship’~vith currently ache the most. those I potentially offend. But I can joke Last week, the students brought in about all I want as long as the butt can’ t hear me, 150 jokes. For the first time in years, none or if I do indeed intend to offend. of these was a"faggot"joke. And the only The website, www.whitepride.com, for ethnic joke was turned in by a clueless example, offers along list of by now very Japanese woman, happily ignorant of the stale Jewish, Black, and "faggot" jokes. American politics of public joking. InHere’ s a sample groaner from the"white stead, nearly half the collection consisted pride" boys: Why was the faggot fired from his job at the sperm back? - for drinking on the job! Romantic W ekend Package.-Accommodations Frida3, Saturday or Sunday night. Bottle ofwine, souvenir keepsake millennium corkscrew ¯ Souvenir etched glasses ¯ Specialq chocolate tklights ¯ Deluxe continental breakfast ¯ Late checkout ¯ Specialq rooms $I 80 ¯ Deluxe rooms $160 ¯ Valid weekends in February. Does not include taxes Tulsa’s Premier Boutique Hotel 14t~ & Main ¯ Tulsa ¯ 587.8200 Member: Historic Howls ofAmerica Featuring The Chalkboard Restauram, a dining landmark of Blond jokes. Blonds, poor things, are nowadays the butt of choice when American jokesters are nervous and unsure of our audience. What do Blonds put behind their ears to attract boyfriends? - their ankles! Jokesters sometimes complain about the "political correctness" that has narrowed the contexts in which they can safely perform. "Come on, it’s only a joke!" But of course jokes aren’t just jokes. They are also assertions about the world, or at least one particular view of the world. The lines that jokes ckaw between the funny and the unfunny reflect local understandings of normality. Jokes are potent oral texts that, retold over and over again, maintain certain ways of thinking about people and behavior. Our collection also included several "counter-jokes" whose butt is strategically reversed. There are, for example, Brunette jokes - the futile ripostes of oppressed Blonds. There are also "stupid men jokes" - invented jokes that attempt to counteract the dominant targeting of women within the’universe of American jokes. Why do brides wear white? - so they will match the other domestic appliances! Why did God create man? - because a vibrator can’t mow the lawn! .Even ironic jokes, such as this, refresh established ways of thinking about men, women, and the gendered division of labor. In particular, the swarm of jrke~ flying constantly around a community protects existing systems of inequality. People joke "downwards" more than they do upwards.~ :People joke far more often about the powerless than they about the powerful. There are far more jokes about women than there are about men. "More jokes about ethnic and religious minorities than the white-bread Protestant mainstream. More jokes about the handicapped than about the able. More jokes about the old than the young. More jokes about Oklahoma than about California. Do you know what an Oklahoma divorce and a Texas tornado have While these attempts to resist inequality by shifting a joke’s target upwards may have only limit ie~." politigal,fimpact, it sfillfecls"goodtolaflgh.: ~:: ~ -~’~ Why is it so hard for women to find men that are sensitive, caring, and go~dqo~king? -~ because those guys _~ already have boyfriends! IGTA Call 341.6866 member i’!~ International ToUrs formore information. Massage Therapy Services Voice Mai!~:918-697:9282 Lic. #C4133 Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthopology at the University of Tulsa. Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pro �Meet Local Guys for Hot Ti @Odgi ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ election - and what could be the most importantelectionofourgeneration. The GLBT voting bloc has proven to be one of "All About My Mother" and"Boys Don’ t the most powerful constituencies in the Cry" - actually showed up in OKC, she country in recent election cycles. If our made it abundantly clear that she had been voters are motivated to the polls and elect completely won overby them and was not supportive leaders, we could have the about to be shy about saying so in print. opportunity to shape groundbrealdng leSympathy towards GLBT issues might : gal protection. If the nation elects leaders be expected from someone like White, ¯ who are hostile to all that NGLTF stands ¯ but it was definitely a surprise to see the for, we could witness a serious backlash much nibre conservative reviewer, Jerry ¯ to our h~rd-won gains. Shottefi~irk, being taken in by the Ma- ¯ Dr. Martin Luther King. once said the ¯ .donna:Rupert Everett"Next Bgst Thing." moral arc of the universeis long but bends Surprises were cropping up in the rest .: toward justice. Dr. King was right - but !~f th~ p,gper ~. W~I!, indu~g the busi- ¯ with our continued o!;gahi~gg g~ad motif ~es .,~..; o ~ .w~i~ g~ ~)le on .~_~o ~,~ ~jzatmn, we ~ make ~at,ii~.~;0’~,.~ :~est~c p~mership~ p,6ilc~es..a~.ong OkI’fi- ¯ much more qmckly fioma compames- mcludiffg qu,otes from: $ ~,,-.~oundectir~ 1973, ttie ~Lucent’s I~aren Par~ons w~o is involved : Lesbian Tbsk Force W~’l?s to~iiniinate inLuqent~sLesbianandGayemployees’ ¯ prejudice, uiolence and iwustice against ;brgani’zafion, EQUAL!. :- Gay, Lesbian, Bisexualgtn~l T~ransgen: Striking, 5wey r, was.a group of :. &red people at the local, state dnd naarticles;oii 1~ hate crimes in the Sun- ¯ tional level. As part ofdbrOaddr ~Ocial iday, March 20 issue. Mostof these ar- : justicemovementforfreOdom;]usticeand titles appeared in ~ Community see- : equality, NGLTF is creattYg d Worm that fion, Milch w’as’d~_i’ilh~lPdedia.the late : ~respects and celebrates_ ttie’diversity of ~F,dition ’on Stmday’. The~e, in b!a~k and .’. ’human expression and identity where all White, was the opeii as~ertidii.’.tiia~ Okla- i .people may fully participate in society. h°ma City"s Human Rights CASmmlssi°n .Was abolished by(the City Council bemuse they iesent&!havingt.6 deal with the issue. 0fiG@’Ri~h?s, cbml~iete, with ~uote by c.ottt~,¢ilmenqbi~r~Je@ Fo~hee: .-.; "The councilis tiredof.th6is~ue’hlways being b~ought forward, and flae vehicle that is alWays brin~g.i’.t forward is the human rights comm, ss~on...~ If the vehicle is bringing you dompany that you don’ t want ... then you do away with the vehicle." In meeting with Hale, Speakers for Gay and Lesbian Issues hoped that they would open a dialog between the Daily Oklahoman and the Gay and Lesbian community of Oklahoma City. According to Speakers, Hale provided them with many opportunities by asking many questions about Gay and Lesbian issues. Speakers for Gay and Lesbian Issues noted the positive trend in the paper’ s coverage of Gay issues. Hale revealed that those changes had come at a price: while the articles on hate crimes had generated both positive and negative responses fromreaders, some of the negative responses had been vicious and involved actual threats. But, Hale also said she was not going to let that stop her from continuing to cover controversial issues. She said that when a story generates strong reactions on both sides, she knows she’ s doing her job right. This federation consists of political groups that fight for equality. In just four years’ time, the Federation has grown to represent members in every state in the union, gro,wthinsuch ashort period of time. With the Federation’s help, last year NGLTF was able to produce the largest :~ grassroots mob~fion:in put moyem~ntfs history. We helped organize some 350 rallies and other events in all 50 state capitols, plus D.C. and Puerto Rico, during a one-week period. Our campaign called Equality Begins at Home- and the work of the Federation paved the way for the wonderful successes we have seen in the past year. Now many state legislatures are wrapping up their business and adjourning. Attention will soon shift to the November i I ] " During WWII, the church Sheltered.Japa; nese-American students who were given the opportunity to study at TU ratherth~a,n,,, " beincarceratedinAmerican"internment camps. Later the church was involved in the "Sanctuary" movement which offered relocation of Central American political refugees, both documented and-undocumented. Aletter issued to members of the church, signed by Rader and Clerk of the Session, Kathy Evanson, notes, "None of these actions changes who we are as a congregation; but, they declare who we area and what we want to be in our relationships with one another. We are still a loyal, supporting congregation of the Presbyterian Church,U.S.A. We have done nothing improper according to our denomination’ s constitution. We are not changing any signage, letterhead, preaching or program. We are declaring inclusion and affirmation of all our members and our openness to a group of people long rejected and stigmatized by society, and within the Christian commtmity... College Hill is a majority "straight" church but with visible and welcome Lesbian and Gay families. Editor’s note: Tulsa Family News publisher and editor, Tom Neal is a member of College Hill Presbyterian Church. An Evening With The Quilt On Thursday evening, May 25, the NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter of the AIDS Memorial Quilt will sponsor an evening of meditation and remembrance at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 So. Harvard in Tulsa, from 7-9 pm. You. are invited to drop in anytime during this time period to meditate, pray, or simply view the Quilt. Feel free to stay just a few minutes, or as long as you wish. The NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter invites everyone who has been touched by the AIDS pandemic to take a moment from their evening to remember and reflect. For more information, please contact the NAMES Project Tulsa at (918) 748-3111 or TulsaQnilt@usa.net �Humanity Unites f’or Hu’man Rights Diversity .Celebration 2000 Grand Marshalls for the Millennium Parade Dr. Grethe Cammermeyer Distinguished Veteran of the United States Armed Forces Gre£! Lou~lanis US Olympic Champion Pride Week Events, .Interfaith Worship Service The Tulsa Performin£l Arts Center Speaker: the Reverend Dr. Mel W.hite, author and activist Friday, June 2, from 7pro (free) TOHR Folbes. 1OO Years of Broadway Saturday, June 8, 8pm, $15 PAC Doenges Theatre Black Tie Optional Dinner ~i:Featuri~ 6re~q Louganis The Summit Club Friday, June 9th, $75 person VIP reception at $50 person. Benefitin~l Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Ri/thts, the parent or~Ianization of the Gay Community Center Millennium Pa~de 2000 Saturday, June IO, llam Beginning at the Gay Community Center at 87th and Peoria and endin~i at Veterans Park at 18th and BouIder The Pride Festival Veterans Park, llam 8pro For more information about these events, caIl 748-4297 (gays). � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Brief for Dale v. BOy Scouts by Tim Talley, Associated Press ~rite~ - OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) - Some state lawmakers demanded in mid-April that Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson withdraw from participating in a U:S. Supreme Court case on whether to allow Gay boys and men in the Boy Scouts of America. Resolutions were f’ded in the state House and~ Senate opposing a friend-of-the-court briefEdmondson filed supporting a New Jersey court decision that ordered the Boy Scouts to reinstate a homosexual scout leader. "I think it is a dark day for Oklahoma that we have taken this stand, by and through our attorney general, in favor of Gay rights and against the Boy Scouts," said Rep. Frank Davis, R-Guthrie, a former scout master whoseresolutionhas70co-authors.Aresolutionpassed by the Senate says Edmondson’s position "is in dramarie opposition to the moral ideals of.our state and is inappropriate in this case of first impression before the United State Supreme Court." In a statement, Edmondson saidhe respects the views of lawmakers who oppose his action. But the attorney general said the state’ s position see Attorney; p. 2 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends : ,~. Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community PaperAvailable In More Than 75 City Locations ¯ Co!legeHill Presbyterian ::Church Welcomes Gays TULSA - This last Palm Sunday, the Session (the board of directors) of College Hill Presbyterian Church, one of Tulsa’ s older"mainline" congregations, voted 13 yes, zero no’ s with one abstention to become officially a member of"More Light Presbyterians." College Hill, located a block west of the University of Tulsa is the first Presbyterian congregation in Eastern Oklahoma (o. take the position of welcoming all to attend and serve the church regardless of sexual orientation. More Light Presbyterians is a national network of churches and individuals working for justice, love and the full embrace and inclusion of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered persons and their families. The name is taken from the words of the Rev. John Robinson (c. 1620),"we limit not the truth of God to our poor reach of mind - by notions of our day and sect - crude, partial and confined. No, let a new and better hope within our hearts be stirred, for Godhath yet more light and truth to break forth from the Word." The decision for College Hill came after more than 14 months ofprayer, study and discussion. Acongregational voteon several statements and positions, one affirming open inclusion, another reaffirming the mission statement of More Light Presbyterians, and for becoming a More Light congregation passed, 87%, 90% and 80% respectively. . Pastor Radford Rader noted, "College Hill has long been a congregation which has stood for jnstice issues and with groups of people who others ignore or exclude.., we cannot remain in the closet, but want to rejoice in who we are as a family of faith. ¯ .we are blessed by our Gay and Lesbian members." College Hill’ s history is one of s0cialjttstice, seeChurch,p.11 College Hill Presbyterian GI,s Mom Suing Arm i- Supreme Court Hears Gay Civil WASHINGTON(AP)-Them°ther°fas°ldiermur- " R|ghts Case: Dale vs. BSA dered in his barracks believes the Army’s attitude , toward Gays created the atmosphere that led to the killing. Patricia Kutteles of Kansas City, Mo., said she would file a claim with the Army, seeking roughly $1.8 million in damages for the death of her son, Pfc. Barry Wincbell,21. Shesaidfellow soldiers believed Winchell was Gay and harassed him for months before he was beaten to death while sleeping in his cot last July at Fort Campbell, Ky. The Army knew about the harassment but did nothing to stop it, she said. "We want theArmy to be held accountable," Kutteles said. Pvt. Calvin Glover, 19, of Sulphur, Okla., was convicted of premeditated murder and sentenced to life in prison for the attack. Another soldier was givena 12.5- year sentence for lying to investigators and obstructing justice. Thekillingprompted criticism ofthePentagon’ s policy onhomosexuals in the military. Under the policy known as "don’t ask, don’t teli.;’:~,Gay-members of the military can continue to serve.as Ibng as they keep their sexual orientation to themselves. Kutteles’ attorney,Adam Pachter, saidheplans to file under a federal law that allows people to seek reimbursement from the military for injury or death. The claim will be sent toMaj. Gen. Robert T. Clark, the commander of Fort Campbell, but Army Secretary Louis CaldemprobAbly’will make thef’mal decision on whether to pay, Pachter said. Kutteles’ claim also alleges Fort Campbell officials ignored underage drinking on the base and did not provide a way for soldiers to call 911 from the barracks.:Glover has said he had been drinking prior to theattack~ Maj. Pamela Hart, an Army spokeswoman, declined to comment on the claim but said soldiers cannow reach 911 from their barracks. She also said soldiers hadreceived additional training about the military’ s policy on Gays. Kutteles said her goal is to get the Army to admit wrongdoing and take corrective action. "I don’t think you~put aprice on your child’ s life,’.’ she said. "Your world is changed if you lose a child. Nothing caa ever rip3at it." ¯ WASHINGTON, D.C. - Boy Scouts of America (BSA) is not ¯ entitled to expel an exemplary member who is openly Gay from ¯ its ranks, the National Gay and LesbianTask Force said at the end ¯ ofApril as theU.S. SupremeCourtwas hearingargumentsinBoy Scouts of America v. Dale. The ruling on the case will likely be : issued before the term ends in early summer. : ’q’he Boy Scouts’ mission is to promote model citizenship and ¯ integrity," said Panla Ettdbrick, NGLTFFamily Policy Director. : "It is ridiculous and wrong to exclude a man whose outstanding ¯ personal character fulfills this mission simPlY because he is ¯ Gay." -" "The Supreme Court agreed to hear the case on appeal by the ¯ BSA after the August 1999 unanimous decision of the New ¯¯ Jersey,Supreme Court. The court found that the BSA falls under New Jersey’ s anti-discrimination law and cannot deny any per- " son "accommodations, advantages, facilities and privileges" : because of sexual orientation. ¯ Because the Scouts do not organize for a specific anti-Gay ¯ message; the New Jersey Supreme Court also found that the ¯ inclusion of openly Gay assistant scoutmasterJames Dale would ¯ not violate the BSA’ s First Amendment rights offree association ¯ and free speech. ." ~€I’llis case represents a classic struggle in our country?s ever- " evolving democracy," said Ettelbrick, a veteran attorney and : national expertLon legal-issues facing.the Ga~y~ lesbian~ bisexual ¯ and transgender community. "It is the stragglebetween agroup’ s ¯ right to establish its own values and the government’ s obligation ¯ to ensure that the law does not give effect to those private biases when they are used to inhibit equality." .. . ~ : Ettelbrick praised the Lambda Legal Defense and Education ¯ Fund, which has served as lead counsel for James Dale and has ¯ assembled a broad collection of groups to sign friend-of-the- . court briefs. Those groups range from NGLTF and the National ¯ Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) : to the attorneys-general of 10 states, including Oklahoma Attor- : ney General Drew Edmondson (see related story this page). ¯ NGLTF’ S brief can be found online via I..ambda’ s website at : http:/Iwww.lldef.org/sectionslseetionsldalepresskit/ : amicusaclu.html. i Vermont Governor Signs Gay Union Bill by Ross Sneyd, Associated Press Writer ¯ MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP) - Gov. Howard Dean ¯ signed into law on Wednesday, April 26, 2000, a ¯ bill making Vermont the first state to give Gay and ’ Lesbian couples all the rights and benefits of mar- ¯ riage - without legally declaring it a marriage. ¯ "I think the powerful message is that in Vermont, ¯ we tend to value people for who they are, not what ¯ they are," the Democratic governor said after the House gave the measure final approval Tuesday. ° The bill, which House members supported 79-68, ¯ arrived at the governor’ s deskjust before lunch and ¯ was signed quietly prior to a2pmnews confe~e,nce, ¯ Vermont lawmakers didn’t use the term mar- " riage to describe the official state sanction. Instead ¯ they set up aparallel track of"civil tmions," which ¯ would give Gay and Lesbian partners the property and other legal fights of spouses. Such unions ¯ would become legal July 1. No state has ever gone ¯ so far in recognizing the relationships that Gay and "- Lesbian couples form. ." Three couples and the lawyers who sued in 1997 ¯ when they were denied marriage licenses watched in the crowded Housechamber as the final roll was ¯ called and House representatives agreed to minor ." changes made by their colleagues in the Senate. ¯ Stacy Jolles and Nina Beck stood cradling their 5- ¯ month-old son, Seth. PeterHarrigan stood embracing Stan Baker, who held a small necklace from ¯ which his parents’ wedding rings dangled. And ¯ Holly Puterbaugh held hands as Lois Famham ¯ wiped tears fromher eyes. "This isn’ tmarriage, but it’ s ahuge and powerful bundle ofrights that we’ ve ¯ finally gotten," Baker said moments after the vote. ¯ After the vote, Rosana Vestuti, 41, of Montpelier, sat on a window seat as legislators, Gay and ." Lesbian couples and thepress milled about. "It’ s so ¯ nice. I have all this in my eyes," see Vermont, p. 7 ¯ OKC Gay Group Meets With Daily Oklahoman OKLAHOMACITY -Leaders in OklahomaCity’ s are hailing an early April meeting with Sue Hale, : the new executive editor of the Daily Oklahoman. ¯ The Daily Oklahoman which was characterized in ¯ the Columbia Journalism Review as "the worst : newspaper in America" has been known for its ¯ unfair treatment of Lesbian and Gay issues, not ¯ only on the editorial pages but in regular, "objec- ¯ five" newscoverage. ¯ Those who met with Hale are participants in a ¯ new speakers bureau. "Speakers for Gay and Les- ¯ bian Issues" was organized with the goal of reach- ¯ ing out to the straight commtmity to facilitate ¯ ¯ understanding of the realities of.being Gay and Lesbian. Karen Pars0ns,Nathaniel Batchelder, Paul ¯ Thompson, and Rob Abiera attended the meeting ¯ with Hale, a thirty-year veteran of the Daily Okla- " homan. ¯ Hale was chosen to be the successor to Stan ¯ Tiner, who left the Daily Oklahoman after several ¯ months of working to remold the paper into a more ¯ progressive, contemporary medium which would ¯ more accurately reflect the diversity of Oklahoma ." City. ¯ Halewas approached after reports.began to surface of her interest in "social justice" issues. And ¯ though homophobic diatribes continue to grace the editorial page - still under the firm control of ¯ Patrick McGuigan - the rest of the paper was ¯ showing signs of neutrality, if not being outright ; Gay-friendly. ¯ One place where the paper was showing signs of ¯ openness has been in the movie reviews. Kathryn ; Jenson White had come from the Oklahoma Ga- : zette (OKC’ s alternative weekly) and had always ¯ been of decidedly liberal persuasion. 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Nt,w4 Eachreader is entitled to 4 copiesof each editt0n at distribution pointsJ Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. : Interfaith AIDS Ministries : Dear friends, ¯ The present realities of HIV/AIDS and : decreased focus on and interest in HIV- : related issues have made providing HIV/ : AIDS servicesadifficnltifnotimpossible r task. This is true on a national as well as : local level, Late last fall Interfaith AIDS : Ministries (IAM) received a letter from : AIDS National InterfaithNetwork (ANIN) that itwas closing its doors," as a result of : financial difficulties which cumulatively ¯ .v". und" e,.r~l",nc.d ~I ’ ~ Vl"l~b,"l i " : reaht~l~s ~a~e~t ~n~pq~s~ble,. ~o ttmcgqq ¯ :..is With deep r~gret that I must announce : that the boardof Interfaith AIDS Minis- ¯" ’tries has’made the decision to discontinue : client services. : I have for srme time continued as the ¯ directorona.volunteerbasis at the board"g ¯ reques ; L’.am no longer able to d.o ¯ Work-~.~,~.~ and personal responslbl,~i,7 582-0~38 ties maKeit impossible forme to continue ¯ Holland Hall School, 5666 E. 81st. 481-1111 ¯ HOPEI HiV-.Outredch,Pi?~vefifibn:,Edt~cafion 834-8378 : .*H0us.e. O~ the Holy Spitff ~_~nstri¢s,.32!0~ s~~. ’Nb~wood ....... :::-iii~e~ ~iDS MJnislii~s/~ ...... 4381~437, 800-284-2437 ." :."¥~C~~ United~-i623 :N. 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U134 417-623-4696 501-253-7734 " 501-253-7457 : 501-253-6807 " 501-253-5445 ¯ 501-253-9337 : 501-253-2776 " 501-253-5332 . 501-624-6646 " 501-253-6001 " 501-253-4074 ¯ * is where you can find TFN. Not allare Gay-owned but allare Gay-friendly. commiLAnd there is no one wilting and able to take my place. The bisard has made the decision t~ continue IAM’s existence, at this time. IAM’s board will continue to meet periodicallyand monitor the changing reali:° ties of HIV/AIDS, its effect on our community and any future role IAM may play inmeeting needs. It is the ministry’ s hope, of course, that the future will bring a cure.’. that some day gatherings will be in remembrance only. The board and I wish to express our deepest appreciation for you support of the work of this ministry over the many years of its existence. Without that support IAM would not have been able to serve the hundreds of individuals which it has assisted withpractical, emotional, and spiritual support. Thank you on behalf of thosewehave served for themany gifts of your time, your talents, and your support. I appreciate the opporttmity the ministry has provided me to serve those affected by HIV/AIDS and to get to know and work with all of you. It has been very hard for me to step away from this work knowing there is so much more to be done. However, I know I have reached that place where, even though there is alot more I would have liked to have done, I have done all I can do for now. I would ask that you continue your prayers of those living:~ith and affected by HIV/A~DS and fofthOse who minister to them, for a cure for this,devastating disease, and frr those who have served Interfaith AIDS Ministries. Thank you and God bless you. Faithfully, - Chaplain Diane Zike, Director "focused on the issue of state’s rights" and that the high court’, s ruling in the case. "will have no direct effect in Oklahoma." "Oklahoma does not have the same antidiscrimination law as New Jersey," Edmondson said. "For me and my office, this matter was soldy decided on the advancement of states’ rights." Theissue ofstates’ rights involves powers reserved to the states under the 10th Amendment and immunity from lawsuits under the 1 lth Amendment. Edmondson, a former Boy Scout and see Attorney, p.7 by Christopher Graft, Associated Press Writer On the day Unilever bought Slim-Fast for $2.3 billion and Ben & Jerry’s for $326 million, it was the smaller purchase that captured the headlines and attentionnationwide. TheNew York Times, The Washington Postand The Associated Press were among the major news organizations that focused on the purchase of the tiny ice cream company, mentioning the acquisition of the much-larger Slim-Fast only to savor the unusual pairing of the fatten, ing and dieting duo. ceutical industry or whoever is his enemy of the moment. It is remarkable, actually, that Vermont gets as much attention as it does - through Ben, Jerry, and Bernie, and through U.S. Sens. Pat Leahy and Jim Jeffords and Gov. Howard Dean, all of whom have images of straight talkers in a business full of bluster. I suspect the nation’ s high interest in things Vermont has something to do with "... More and more in recent years Vetmont has been out front in tackling tough Why? Why does a $326 million purchase gain more attcntionthatva$2.3~billionone?Qu~fle-simplybecauseno ¯ probl.ems. There is something about the one ldab~s 6r~ cares ~h6 !o~vns Shn~-Fast." ~ . , ~ ¯ . ¯ Butdle k~d~Be~duidflie ’ldid,& J " ~’" ""~ ~ ,.small ~s~ze of the state that allows exper~- ¯ ! y ,, ! , y.:,. . ’. erry. mlamey care . .... ¯ ¯ : ¯ who owns th~s’c0mpa@.~ h~;ce ~dffay~ b~fi ~ttnazed’l~ ~. :nlentat~i0ii. Aiad ther is something a~ well the wide interest in Ben & Jerry’ s. By the news media. And by peo_p,te in general. Because, to be blunt about it, Ben & Jerry s is a tiny company, with an insignificant share of the ice cream market. The appeal, though, stems from the fact there are two real guys at the heart of this company; two guys who want t6~do good. No faceless multinational ctlialj._"~,y with layers of bureau...cracy. This xs Ben and Je~’.~,~-stlll doing a little scooping here and there, and always keeping their eyes on social concerns. And that strikes a nerve with the publicl Twoguys who want to do good. Helping out the little guy by earmarking 7.5% of the pretax p.r.ofits for charity and running campaigns to help children and savethe family farm. Two guYS. Doing good. Bernie Sanders strikes that same nerve. This past week found him gushingly profiled in the New York Times and prominently featured in the Boston Globe, the National Journal.and on Nagonal Public Radio. H~ is just one of 435 members of the U.S. House - and ye’~ he reaps far more than his share of publicity - just like Ben and Jerry do. Why? Because he, too, strikes a nerve. Bernie is the fighter for the little guy, taking on the powerful pharma- " about the attitude of its polltieal leaders ¯ and people, an attitude that champions eivll i r~ghts and foeuse~ on the little guy. : As difficult as it seems for some people, the debate this year over extending i benefits to Gay and Le~hian couples is part of that tradition..." : theseindi~iduals, but it als0 has s0me~ng to do with the state, its people and its heritage. ¯ In a time when many people feel disconnected from ~ their communities, when they feel overwhelmed by the ¯ stresses and strains of everyday life, Vermont seems to ¯ offer an anchor and a hope. Vermont is small enough.to retain the seBs¢ of community lost elsewhere, and is ¯ unafraid to try the unconventional - to stand up for the ¯ litde guy. ¯ Ben, Jerry, Bernie and the others are not creating a new image for Vermont: They are simply building on what Editor’s note: the following are remarks made by new NGLTF Executive Director Elizabeth Toledo at the National Press Club at apress conference held on April.25. "Good morning. I am here this morning to discuss the state of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender movement (GLBT) for equality in the United States. As many state legislatures across the land wrap tip their work and adjourn, we are seeing a frenzied pace of legislative activity surrounding GLBT issues. For only the second year in our movement’ s history, we have seen bills favorable to our community outnumber unfavorable bills - and the ratio is rapidly increasing. So far this year, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force has tracked 466 bills, of which 288 are favorable and 178 are unfavorable. By comparison, last year, we tracked 269 favorable bills and 205 unfavorable bills. A trend has emerged which shows that although the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender population remains under fierce attack, the movement toward civil rights for all is steadily gaining strength. Today the Vermont House of Representatives is poised to give final approval to a bill that would allow same-sex couples the right to enter into official civil unions sanctioned by the state. If approved and signed into law, the Vermont bill will do what no state has ever done before - it will pr0~ide same~s,¢x couples wi~ al! of the fights, benefits iitid ~i~0fi-iilsNties Of niarfiag~ thai a state can offer. Vermont has garnered a lot of attention, and rightfully so. But did_you know_ about Georgia? Indiana? Mai_ne? Alabama?’GeOrgia this Tear foi~ ,the firs:t!time ever: has passed and enacted a hate crimes law. Indiana has passed and enacted a hate crimes data collection law. While not a full-blown hate crimes law, it represents the first rime hidianalegislators have everreacted favorably to aGLBT issue. Maine has passed and forwarded to the voters a full-scale civil rights law that includes sexual orientation. In Alabama, the House has passed an historic bill adding .sexual orientation to the existing hate crimes law. Thebill is scheduled to come up for a heating in the Senate tomorrow. Five states - Mississippi, Nebraska, New Hampshire, New Mexico, Wisconsin - have defeated attempts to either pass or strengthen anti-same-sex marriage laws. ¯ The pace of activity this year continues a trend we first ¯ noticed in 1999, a breakthrough year for the GLBT ; .- movement. Last year’ s legislative victories included his- " toric advances in such disparate states as California, : Kentucky, New Hampshire and Nevada. In California, legislators passed and the governor signed a trio of bills : "...Vermont has garnered a lot of : attention, and ghtf lly But did you know about Georgla.9 Indlana.~ Maine.9 Alabama? Georgia this year for the first time ever has passed and enacted a hate erlmes law. Indiana has passed and enacted a hate cr~mes data collection law..." that established a statewide registry for same-sex couples, added sexual orientation to thenondiscrimination clauses under the state Fair Employment and Housing Act and offered public school students some protection against discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. In Kentucky, tWO cities..and two_ 9oun.ties ad~pted, pro- GLBT civil rights measures. In New Hampshire, a law ¯ preventing same-sex couples from adopting children was repealed. And Nevada became the 1 lth state to ban job discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. ~While we hav~ l~geiy ~picked-ul~iii flJ~ ~e’a~’2000 - where we left off, the news is not all good. Two states - Utah and Mississippi -have passed bills preventing " same-sex couples from adopting children. Two state " legislatures - Colorado and West Virginia- passed laws preventing same-sex couples from marrying, and Call- " fornia voters approved a measure banning the state from " recognizing same-sex marriages in other states. The " number of states that have explicitly passed laws banning same-sexmamagewill reach 33 ifthe Colorado governor ,’. signs that statefs legislation. : Such activity reflects the unfortunate reality of our ," movement. There is a checkerboard quality to the legal ¯ and cultural victories for the LGBT movement, and too " ¯ was there. This state has always been seen as a bastion of ¯ common sense and a breeder of courageous people. Yes, Vermont’ s pastoral image is of a bygone era of ¯ village squares and hillside farms. But its political image, its heritage, in fact, is of courage, of caring, of going ¯ where others fear to tread. Ralph Flanders was about as conservative as they ~ come. But he had the courage to stand up in the U.S. ¯ Senate and call for an end to Joe McCarthy’ s red-baiting, ¯ taking a stand that for Flanders was steeled in the values ¯ in the Bill of Rights. And so it was for George Aiken, ¯ fighting against :the banks, the rai!roadS, and~ flae marble ¯ and:~~ani,t.~i,n~t.u.stries in the ’3Os~ and spegaki~g up yche,It ¯¯ - others,would not .about the~ ,folly’,.of,Vietnam. :, . . . .. More and mpre in. recent ~ears V,e.rmont:has been out ¯ front in tackling tough problems. There is something : about the small size of the state that allows experimenta- ¯ tion. And there is something as well about the attitude of ¯ its political leaders and people, an attitude that champions ¯ civil rights and focuses on the little guy. ¯ As difficult as it seems for somepeople, the debate this ¯ year over extending benefits to Gay and Lesbian couples ¯ .is part of that tradition. Again the eyes of the nation are on ~ the state. Certainly there is apprehension and even oppo- ¯ sition, but it is reassuring and pleasing to see how much : applause thereis. A South Carolinanewspaper writes that ¯ "Vermont has offered a sensible model for secular civil ¯ unions;" theArizonaDaily Star says "this is probably the ¯ ¯ best solution possible to an emotional, important debate that strains the bounds of Americans’ tolerance and ¯ respect for each other," and the Concord (N.H.) Monitor ; says Vermont has "passed what was a test of conscience." ¯ A tourist promotion campaigns a few decades back ¯ proclaimed that Vermont is what America was. It is more ¯ accurate today to say that Vermont is what America ¯ wants to be. often the difference between legitimacy and illegitimacy in the eyes of society may rest on something as arbitrary as a state boundary. Many residents of thiS country assume that the great strides of the civil rights movement have afforded broad protection against discrimination for " all. In fact the legal reality is that those of us in same sex relationships have notbeen fully protectedfrom discrimination in housing,jobs, family law, education - virtually every aspect of our lives is subject to discrimination and sadl y, hate violence or harassment remains a reality in every state in the nation. Too often the cultural strides that are made in the media, in places or worship, in schools and universities and in the workplace are misinterpreted as a sign that equality has been won. I’ll give you an example. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force frequently receives phone calls from same-sex couples asking for alist of states in which they can legally marry. These individuals see shows like Will and Grace or Dawson’ s Creek. They worship in churches or synagogues that welcome them. They are out in the workplace or at school. They just assume, like many heterosexual Americans, that the barriers of discrimination have been eradicated. The reality, of course, is quite different¯ Not a single state allows same.sex mamage. 39 states allow Gay, "Lesbian, Bisexual:and Transgender employees.to be fired from ourjobs. 28 states lack hate crimes law s that include sexual orientation. 18 states criminalize loving, same-sex relationships. .~ " T~day the GLBT movement i~ at a crossroads We.are under open assault by those who would deny us basic .human rights., and at the same time the nation.is witnessing a surge in support for our cause. Ourtives, our liberty, our pursuit of happiness depend upon our ability to build strong political infrastructure and organize on the state and local level. Local orgamzing has always been the trademark of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. Fortunately, we are not alone. Today, the state and local political infrastructure of the GLBT movement in the United States is stronger than it has ever been before. In 1996, NGLTFhelped found the Federation of Statewide LGBT Political Organizations. see NGLTF, p. 11 College Course to Focus On Net Hate Groups BOSTON (AP) - One shows an image of a slain Gay man burning in hell Another claims the FBI has declared war on white Christians. A third pretends to pay homage to the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., then suggests the civil rights leader was a sex fiend, a communist and a "plastic god." They ~e radical, hate-driven Internet sites and they are increasing rapidly. This fall, they also will be the basis for a communications class at Emerson College called Hate.com. Robert Hilliard, an Emerson communications prof~e,ssor, vlans to use ,the sites to examine how radical gxpups use fi!e Internet to recrmt new members. " " Hilliard became interested in extremists~ when.he’ stumbled across a far-right talk radio show, and later wrote abookonthe topic withBoston College professor Michael Keith. "We began to listen and we said, ’Here we were, communications professionals and we didn" t know about these people,’" Hilliard said. "People have got to know what these people are saying." Their book, "Waves of Rancor: Tuning in the Radical RighC’ was well-received and ended up onPresident Clinton’ s summerreading list. Hilliard’ s says his class will .examine how the groups target xmpressionable youth, how they multiply and how they foment rage¯ More than 300 extremistWeb sites are on the Internet today, ranging from neo-Nazi alliances to Gay and Lesbian haters to Holocaust denials sites, according to the watchdog Southern Poverty Law Center¯ In 1998, the group counted 254 such Web sites, up from 163 in 1997. Experts say extremists are careful’not to urea away viewers with upfront, inflammatory statements or epithets. Instead, rock music and games draw in new members gradually. OneNeo-Nazi site features bands like RaHoWar, which stands for Racial Holy War. "Others attract viewers with seemingly mainstream articles, but the articles can lead to racist and conspiratorial theories bolstered with passages from the Bible and alternative historians. Hilliard plans toinvite some hate site creators to the class, giving them a chance to defend their work. One rote creator satdhe s open to such challenges. I thi the media is extremely biased against my point of view and I want to provide an alternative to their news," said Don Black, creator of Stormfront, one of o.. the Web’ s oldest white nationalist sites. Hilliard and others emphasize that extremist sites are fully protectedby the First Amendment and stress they are not calling for their removal. However, Hilliardmakes no bones abouthis hopes that students work to combat them. ’q?hese are people saying’We must arm ourselves for a holy war to rid the world of those who are not white, Aryan Christians or those who disagree with our points of view,’" he said. Idaho Public TV Faces Program Challenges IDAHO FALLS, Idaho. (AP) :-Adding adisclaimer to .controversial programming on Idaho Public Television may pacify prograrnm~ug restrictions from the .Legislature while allowing the stationto keep federal funding. Idaho Board Of Education member Curtis ’Eaton ¯ proposed.Friday the board require PublieTelevision tO air a disclaimer stating the station does not sanction acts or events depicted in programming. In a letter dated,April 13, Eaton asked.the ¯board to consider the option-as a way torectncile what he describes aft contradictory statements in recent.legislation that require theboard to regulateprogramming deemed to promote acts illegal in Idaho. The controversy over programming began last. spring, when Idaho Public Television General Manager Peter Morrill decided to air"It’ s Elementary," an hour-long documentary abouthow five public school districts across the country dealt with teaching kids about homosexuality. Christian conservatives lobbied the board to veto the program, but in June 1999 the board voted unanimously not to interfere with Morrill’ s programming decision. But the Legislature got involved this spring by including restrictions in a funding package for the network that reouire the board to monitor and reject programming that "promotes, supports or encourages the violation of Idaho criminal statutes." Because sodomy is illegal in Idaho, the bill could be interpreted tomeanprograms like"It’ s Elementary" should be cut. Or, because robbery is an Idaho felony, documentaries about legendary thieves Bonme and Clyde mightbebarred. ButboardmemberHarold Davis said he agreed with the restrictions and felt "It’ s Elementary’ crossed the line iiito promoting "the Gay lifestyle." Heopposed Eaton’ s proposal, saying itwas not sufficient to meet Legislative demands for new policy. Methodists Callings,For:+ Investigation of Bishop SACRAMENTO (AP) - Some parishioners want religious leaders to investigate the United Methodist Church bishop who decided not to charge 68 ministers who attended and endorsed a Lesbian wedding. The western region of the United Methodist Church’ s College of ~3ishops received two letters from parishioners, asking for aninvestigationinto whether Bishop Melvin Talbert disregarded church laws, including one banning same-sex unions. Bishop Elias Galvan of Seattle, a member of the religious body, said the o letters would be reviewed to see if they merit complaint status. John Stumbo, a Fort Valley, Ga., lawyer and member of the Coalition for United Methbdist Accountability, said the complaints centered around comments Talbert made when he announced that there was no basis f01~ a trial. At the time, Talbert said it was more important for the church to be all-inclusive than to puuish someone for blessing a union not officially sanctioned by the churcJa; But Stumbo said Talbert and the church’ s investigative committee disregarded a church law against homosexual, marriage in reaching their decision, If the-College of Bishops finds grounds for complaint, a separate committee wouldinvestigate whether Talbert should be tried in a church court, which would have the power to impose a number of penalties, including expulsion. Talbert’ s secretary said thebishop was travding and could not be reached for comment. The Rev. Don Fado of St..Mark’ s United Methodist Church in Sacramento performed the January 1999 ceremony for churchmembers Ellie Charlton, 64,and. Jeanne BametL 69. He and 67 other ministers offiCiated en masse at the ceremony. University Denial of Benefits Ruled Legal P1TTSBU-RGH (AP) - The University of Pittsburgh has-legally denied health benefits to same-sex partners of employees, an AlleghenyCounty judge ruled. Judge Robert Gallo said that Pitt’ s policy is neutral because health benefits are offered to all employees regardless of sexual orientation, and Pitt also denies benefits to unmarried partners of heterosexual employees. "This ruling dearly iupholds what has been the university’ s .position, thr0~ghout these proem,dings - namely that the universityhealth benefits plan is legal and nondiscriminatory," Pitt spokesman Ken Service said. But. Deborah Henso~, ia’former Pittinstn~ctorWho-’ sued when the university denied benefits to her Le~.- bian partner, said she’would appeal to Common~ wealth Court. ’~Fhis is.important in terms of fairness.,, and equality," Hens,on s~d.."pitt has .l~e~¯ ~gh~ng tooih and nail, inmy opiuion,tojus,tff,y~ disenmina~tton against Gay and Lesbi~in persons. 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Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You "Recognizing that Pitt’ s health care contract on its face prohibits Pitt from providing benefits to both same sex and heterosexual unmarried couples, making n~ distinction between the two, it is dear that the commi ssion would be precluded from finding that an unlawful practice hadbeen committedbyPitt," Gallo’ s written ruling said. Other universities in Pennsylvania that offer samesex benefit~ include the University of Pennsylvania, Swarthmore College and DickinsfnCollege. C.amegie MdlonUniversity.faculty earlier this monthaccepted a recommendation-that the:,.university ,provide samesex benefits as wall..CMU’ s board of trustees must approve the recommendation as well before samesex benefits will be extended, according to university spokesman Don Hale. BOSh on Vermont Civil Unions ¯ Clark delivered opening and dosing arguments ¯ while Richard Van Wagoner, another Salt Lake City ¯ lawyer, grilled Seidel on her decision to disqualify ¯ PRISM but sanction the Polynesian Club and the ¯ Odyssey of the Mind Club. ’Seidel also nixed a ¯ women’ s literature club, saying she had suggested a ¯ genderless literature club instead. Campbell seemed ¯ particularly interested in that decision a~d asked for ¯ district records on it. ~ ".... ." The judge frequently turned oia Dan: Larsen, an ¯ assistant Utah state attorney general d~fending the ¯ school district, attacking his argiamentsand declaring school administrators were not hb~v~:the law. Dis- - trict Superintendent Darlene Roblds: who was in the ¯ courtroom but did not testify, S~iid tti~ school board ¯ "wasla:t tr~_’0g to violate studen[s" ~F,ifst Amendment ¯ ~nghk~ and welcomed any ~]anfi~ohC ~ ll~ear~ "bring on, the m~tte~r~ , TEMPLE,Texas (AP)-Republican presidential candidate George W. Bush refused to be drawn into comment on Vermont’s civil unions, which would grant to same~sex couples some 300 state benefits of marriage, including medical decision-making, tax breaks and inheritance. Bush has opposed recognizing same-sex unions in Texas. "They have a right to pass a law," Bush said. "It’ s the right of the state to .make that decision just like it’s the right of the state of South Carolina to make the decision on the flag." Bush also met with a group ofGay Republicans last week in Austin and said he was "a better person" for heating their stories but still disagreed with them on Gay marriage. The Texas governor answered questions after making an elementary school appearance to_~,r.omote "character education" on the anni .v.ersary of the Columbine shootings. School District InC0urt Fi0r Rejecting Gay Club SALT Li~KE CITY (AP) - A fede~r,al judge recently shai~ly questioned a’s~hoor distiict s refuSai.to’sanctibia’ "d" ’ ~~d:¢rff ~ dub ’ that would-focus:,on:Gay "~-: IJYe:sbjan~ssu¢si"’~ust (~ecaus~ yo~gof6"safi’6ol’d~i m~y~.~0!~ -th~ii,~’~iis~ Aiii~iidifiefi{iights; U..S," Di~ft Jildg~ Teiah’ chmp~~tttold’.a lawyer for’the S~,t-~ .city’s~tiool ~’~&:Campbell made.no d~Li~ionlasr m’or~,...B.~t.~:.i.s e.x_pected’t0 nile ~60n o..n~a’reqye~ by stud~,nt org~:z~r~’i6b~c~ia~lVadnfiil: is~t6r~ find .~_~ "PRrSM~’Peoi~l~ R~spectingIm~ pdrt~t s~iAl Mov-&ia~nt~= ter@o:rary school privileges. Campbell will then’decide the crux of the case: w3aether schoql 9ffici~s violated the First Amendmeat or their own-policy in sh~bb~ag., PRISM:Tot-? merly the Gay-Straight Alliaiice and_now, reconsti-. ttitM M’ii~i" aii ac~id’6G~i~ ib~ar to satisfy new district: c[abrules, - _ .Cynthia ~¢i_.dd i. the_Oi,S_tri’~? s._as~istani,~upe~nten-: ¯ dent, struggled on the stand Tliurs~y.~0¢xplaii~ why., PRISM didn’ t.qualify as, an academic_club;.contend: ing,it represents a~ narrow..viewpoi~ o.n ~.~.erican hist6ry and sociology In 1996, the school districi el.i_nu,’na,ted all nonacademicdubs’i:aiher.than idlow Qay .dubat East RighS&ooL ambve.that ,was in~federat court..... .....",.. ~ .... ~, , ,. ,,7i?ne,G~y,~cltlb ~, 0n!y .n~et ~t’e~ ,h~ ~s qo~.l~.u~:~.g,rpup. thin, must ~efi( siJa~e aiii£.~hy insurance~ Th~~i~a’l~ ;sn ’t~16~l t6 liand ~tU~t t’l,y..¢~ oL c~uh ~ha~e.t0~ay.fQr~ :,es si Coh~:saia’.’C6iien ~’d: i~qrpos; ,oLtll.e .cfii~ is tbi~i~ss history"f~bifi:the pcrsp.e.,,~tive~ of’G~y~ a~a)’?!;~in~."Seida ti~Z them ~O~i~ :Uec~U~ ~e’d0ii~t t~ch c,,urri~ulum from the viewpini:dfGays and Legblans. ’. . Stephen.Clark, l¢.gal director for the American Civil ,Liberties, U,ni"on of Utah, argued that the denial was a straighff0.r~v)ffd First Amendment v,iolation. Clark also contends the district manipulated its own club policy and sealed its decision against PRISM with a new, still unwritten rule disqualifying clubs advocating an "exclusive viewpoint" of subjects. Lesbian Housing Rights NEW YORK (AP) - A lawyer for a Lesbian medical student asked a state appeals court to order Yeshiva University to let the woman and her domestic partner live together in school-subsidized housing. James Esseks told a five-judge panel of the New York State Supreme Court’ s Appellate Division that Yeshiva’ s policy discriminates on the basis of marital status and sexual orientation in violation of city and state law. Esseks said the university pern-ts married students to live in school housing only with spouses and children. Because Gay couples cannot legally marry, the policy has a disparate, discriminatory impact on them, he said. Esseks represents Sara Levin, 28, of San Francisco, a fourth-year student at Yeshiva’ s Albert Einstein College of Medicine. Yeshiva University is the oldest andlargest institution of higher education under Jewish auspices in the United States. University Members Protest Anti-GaY Slurs GORHAM, "{~/Iaine (AP) - Abou(.125.~t_udent~, staff and administrators attended ameeting following three incidents o£ anti-Gay bias at the University of Southern Maine. One student and two others were arrested _ by GorhamandUSMpolicein connection with one of " the three_’in.cidents, all of which took place during a ¯ one-week period earlier this spring. President Rich- - : ard Pattenande assured participants.at Wednesday’ s :Tmeeting that anti-Gay acts will not be tolerated. :’ "USM stands unflinchingly for equality~. -. homophobid has.no place at USM," Pattenande said.. The incidents began on the weekend of April 8-9 when anti.Gay graffiti was foundin Woodward Hall. The graffiti referred to a resideatadvisor. The next incidenthappened on April 13 when the same Woodward resident advisor and anotheradvisor intervenedin an out-of-control party. Both were taunted ~ with violent, anti-Gay threats. Last Saturday, another ¯ dormitory.staff workerfoundawritten-anti-Gay death threat had been slipped under her’dtbr~" ....... ’ Alhb:ama Hate:i::Cii :i:mes Law Revision In:Trouble MONTGOMERY, Ala. (AP) - At:i~n-danc~..at. a Senate comfifittee meeting could determine the fate Of lcgist~tif~;to ~;po,laxkA!.~b._a~a,~’.A~h~.qrim,es !~w to indud~NXnald~r~e~a~:.ti...on.!.7~.e.t)i:!$ pa~red~R~ 49-39:on.April 6..George, Olssom Mbntgomery .area coordinator for-the Gay and Le~ian,Al!iartc,e .of Alabama~,s~d ’.~e ,J~c!~ci_ary _Co~t.t~~: sharply which commi.B~me,_~a~bcrs shoN,upat tlag~tiil~eting. Committee, cL~irman.:Rodger,:,Smi,ih~ianan, a supporter Of the bill, agreed thdco~tteeii spfit 50- 50 and,attendance,could determine t!~.outcome. Alabama law already mandates, mini.mm:n prison terms that felons must serve for crimes motiyated by race, color, religion, national origin, :ethnicity or physical or mental disability. For instance,, if a person committed a crime that is normally punishable by one to 10 years in prison, the hate crimes law mandates the person must serve at least two years in prison. TB Spreading In Transgender Group ATLANTA (AP) - A tuberculosis outbreak in the Transgender commtulities of Baltimore and New York City may be spreading to 0ther:cities, the government said recently. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention confirmed 26 active cases and 37 dormant cases of tuberculosis, most of them connected to members of the transgender community inthe two cities. The’ CD~,, ~s~ th~t~m~ig~asgender to: encbn~Ss~"cro~-~dr~ss~dr~,~ those who haveig~.,derg0~eI and indi~id~Jai~ ~tio ~re’plafining to un~ dergo sex-change operations. All of the cases in Baltimore were men except for fourwomenwho w’ere eitherfamilymembers of the men or health care workers who treated them. Many had a strain of TB treated with common antibiotics. The government said 62% of the tuberculosis patients tested positive for HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. People with HIV are susceptible to tuberculosis and could die if not treated. Transgenders often travd to many cities frequenting social clubs and participaring in fashion and dance competitions. "Frequent travel and social network links identified among the Baltimore andNYC cases have raised concern that thi~ strain ¯ . may be circulating in other’~ities among young, mobile transgender persons withHIV infection," theCDCsaid in a report¯ The CDC is checking for additional cases linked to the same strain in Atlanta, "Baltimore, Boston,NewYorkCity, Philadelphia and Washington, D.C. Actor Bruce Willis Donating to Charity LOS ANGELES (AP) - There’ s more to theBruceWillis appearances on"Friends" than a potential ratings boost. The actor, who agreed to be a guest star on NBC’ s "Friends" for three episodes during the May ratings "sweeps," is donating earnings from the show to five charities. The amount of money wasn’ t disclosed. The American Foundation for AIDS Research, AIDS Project Los Angeles, the Elizabeth Glaser PediatricAIDS Foundation, the Rape Treatment Center and UCLAUnicamp for underprivileged children will share the money, Willis publicist Paul Bloch said. On "Friends," Willis plays the widowedfather ofRoss’ new girlfriend. Willis became friendly with "Friends" actor Matthew Perry when they both starred in the movie "The Whole Nine Yards." Study on Prison Sex in Kentucky MOREHEAD, Ky. (AP) - A Morehead State University professor is conducting a study on prison sexuality, a topic he says has been shrouded in silence but must be dealt with. The information could be used to combat the spread of AIDS and improve prison safety. Christopher Hensley, a sociology professor who directs Morehead’s Institute for Correctional Research and Training, said the survey is the first of its kind in Kentucky. Hensley studied prison sex in Oklahoma and found that nearly one in four male prisoners had engaged in sexual activities with fellow inmates. Overall. 13.8% of all prisoners said they had been : "threatened sextmlly" by other inmates : and 1.1% said they had been raped. ". If they have AIDS or another sex~mlly ¯ transmitted disease, they’ll be spreading : it to their partners, he said. "These people : are g,oing to be getting out of prison and ¯¯ they re going to be having sex with their wives or husbands," Hemley said. : The sweeping 46-question survey .,asks ¯ about jailhouse consensual sex, : autoeroticism and rape. About 3,600 of : Kentucky’ s 15.300 prisoners have been ¯ asked to participate. The survey is volun- !, ~tary and_anonymouL Funded in part b~ a .: ~$1,600 ~ant from ’Morehe~id~State,! the ":~i ~ques~i~res have~n ~ent to i.m~tes ¯ ’. dt three Of the state’ s .12 male prisons and : toinmatesatthestate’sonlyfemaleprison. ¯ Results will be released this fall. Hensley’ s research has "extraordinary value," said Cindy Stmckman-Johuson, a professor of psychology at the University of South Dakota. But~topic is so taboo that few scholars focus on it, she said. "We should have hundreds of people studying it," Struckman-Johnson said. "Sex inprisonis amajor cause ofviolence ... of upset and turmoil, a major cause of disease." Prisoners’ rights advocates also say the sexuality data could be useful. "Prison is a very violent place and ff (officials) can get a better idea about the reality ofprison rape and what’ s going on, hopefully they caTu be more prepared to deal with that issue," said Kara Gotsch, a public policy coordinator with the Washington, D.C.- based National Prison Project of the American Civil Liberties Union. Struckman-Jotmson said some prison administrators try to quash these kinds of studies out of concern about negativepublicity. But Morehead State administrators and Kentucky prison officials approved Hensley’ s study. Hensley also has co-written an article on conjugal visitation in Mississippi, and his study on consensual homosexual activity in male prisons in Oklahoma is scheduled for publication in December in a prison-related academic journal. Russian Prison For HIV+ Inmates MOSCOW (AP) - Authorities in a Siberian region plan to open a separate prison for inmates infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, a news report said last month. About 600 HIV-positive convicts are serving time in prisons of the Irkutsk region, and another 300 infected people are held in pre-trial detention, said Boris Gronik, chief of the regional Justice Ministry branch in charge of prison administration. Gronik said afflicted inmates present a danger to other prisoners, and need to be removed; the ITAR=Tass news agency reported. "Unless they are all gathered in one place, the situationmayget out of control," Gronik was quoted as saying. Russia already has one special prison for HIV-positive convicts, ITAR-Tass said. The jail is located in the Baltic Sea enclave of Kaliningrad, which has one of the highest concentrations of AIDS cases in Russia. 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Goddess of "Extraordinarily Blue Nun, it became a ti- Gay men of a certain age, . oor, at~ ehoosln , . ~ade.ag~in~t~pe°p!eand Judy died inlJun~iof. 196~,~ ¯-P. .... ~,~ :- ¯ ~ .; cbmpafli~s~ "who"~ had a week. before’thei tone.-" .... hn,s t~ d.s",,,:the ""~ ’.wronged her. C~arlde wall rio.t in York, her 77 ..... "s. ems especially proud which started the modem that he had access to these Gay rights, movement. From Dorothy in "The Wizard of Oz," through a series of film successes, to someembarrassing television performances, and, fin. ally., to aging songstress staging substandard tunes written by her lover, Judy Garland’s career was a rollercoaster ride unparalleled in showbiz history. . .Through thenewspapers, radio and television, the public eagerly watched her career rise and fall many times over a thirty year period. Each triumphant performance was soon followedby some sort of disaster. Extraordinarily poor at choosing husbands, the public followed her volatile personal life as well, although they were probably unaware of a few Lesbian encounters that are mentioned in Get Happy. Cycling down to an untimely an-d-litigation filled end, Judy’s stormy life finally exhausted and frustrated her friends, fans and family. Her story is one of the greatest indictments against the excessive use of drugs and alcohol that American popular culture has produced. After ten years of interviews and meticulous investigation, Clarke has written ahuge tome, second only to GeroldFrank’ s 700 page biography, "Judy," in 1975. Clarke had access to the personal diary of Dottle Ponedel, Judy’ s longfime makeup woman, who apparently found that Judy was the most interesting thing in her life. Clarke also interviewed many of Judy’ s costars, friends, directors and conductors, including Arfie Shaw, Lena Home, and Judy’ s mostinfluential husband, SidLuft. she said, wiping the tears and gesturing at the joyous chaos on the House floor. Their jubilahon was matched by anger among opponents, who have complained that lawmakers weren’ t listening to their concerns. "The people of the state of Vermont will be back in November and this legislation will be repealed," said John Nelson, a 70-year-old retired salesman. The state Supreme Court unammously ruled in December that the couples were being unconstitutionally denied therights and benefits of mamage. The legislature decided to establish a parallel system for Gays rather than broaden marriage statues to include Gays and Lesbians. The civil unions essentially duplicate marriage, but are not recognized under federal law denying Gay couples benefits such as Social Security andirmnigrafion. Under the law, Gay ~ouples will be able to go to their town clerks and have their unions certified by a judge or by a member of the clergy. Breakups will be handled in Family Court. volatile personal life as wall, although they were probably naware d a few Lesbian encounters that are mentioned in ~et Happy’..." tapes, although at leastone other Garland biography has utilized them. Thecontent of the tapes is very interesting, although painfully sad, as she lashes out at the people who .made millions off of her name but left her penniless. With the exception of some films and her celebrated Carnegie Hall concert, Clarkelargely ignores Garland’ s professional life, preferring to give us lurid gossip and personal problems instead of analyzing her varied career. In fact, of the almost 500 pages in this book, only four are dedicated to’q’heJudy GarlandShow," the 1963 CBS series that was the last, sustained effort of her career (and which is currently available on DVD.) Reviewers and fans seem intensely polarized about their opinions of this book. (Check out the Amazon.corn reviews!) While listing over 50 pages of notes and acknowledgements, Clarke often relies on unverifiable comments, some of them quite ugly. He also seems obsessed with Judy’s sex life, a topic well covered in Judy Garland: The SecretLife ofanAmerican Legend, by David Shipman. However, his decade ofresearch pays off occasionally, with someinteresting stories and comments, although we must be aware that what we are reading is quite probably as much a juicy novel as it is a serious biography. Either way, it’ s an intriguing read. Check out Get Happy, as well as many of Garland’ s films or music at any branch Library, or call Central at 596-7977. the parent of a former Boy Scout, said there have been 255 requests for the state to join friend-of-the-court briefs since he became attorney general in 1995. The state has signed on to 111 of them, 68 dealing with states’ rights. "In making those decisions, we have always tried to focus on the legal issues rather than the political ones," he said. But lawmakers said Edmondson’s action makes ~*. appear the state opposes the right of the Boy Scouts to choose their own leaders. "’Drew Edmondson has put Oklahoma on record in the highest court in the land as being in favor ofthe homosexual movement against the Boy Scouts," said Rep. Bill Graves, R-OKC,-an outspoken opponent of civil rights for Gay people. "I thought the decision by the New Jersey Supreme Court was an outrage," Graves said. Editor’s note: the switchboardfor the Oklahoma House of Representatives is 800-522-8502. Editor’s lugte: due to gremh’nesqueglitches tn the e-mail, our regular "Amusements" column byJim Christjohn never got to the editorial desk. Unfortunately this came to light at first::lighr’the mormng before going to’.press, andbeing brave, but northat brave, :I dtdt no:t invoke the wrath of the dembn~ by Waking him at 5:30am. Future issues.~willfeature interviews by Christjohn: with members of the cast of cal, will be at the Tulsa Performing Arts Centerbeginning May 30 thro’ June 4th. As the promoters, the Tnlsa-based Celebrity Attractions, note interest in the ill-fated ship has been _ ~om Sesma great, resulting in televisionprograms, a"major motion picture," novels and "even a cookbook." Indeed. The show was written by Peter StOne, known for other shows: 1776, T~e Will Rogers Follies, My One & Orii~, and music and lyrics are by Maury Yeston .. (Nine, Grand Hotel). Titanic wonmultiple’q’ony" awards~in 1997 and New York Observer critic, Rex Reed claims, " you will never see anyder of wonders, to TULSA! This Pulitzer and Tony award winning work by the late Jonathan Larson-was introduced to Tulsa theatre and media, folk at a.recent PAC reception. Coordinated by the ever gracious and lovely Tracey Norvell, fed a grea~ llmch by the Polo GrilF s Tal.madge Powell, and wowed by perfomances by two .current Broadway casrmembers flown into Tulsa forithe; ~vent.,~’sa~_~ hear,~d.: the veff~ .era ergetie,(~md:cute-)-p~.~l~!ce~, Jeffre~ ~€!1€~ deseribethe off-off Broadway .and shaky origins of Rent, as well as the tragic death of an aeortic aneurysm of composer/ writer Jonathan Larson on the very eve of the show’s successful opening. Larson drew inspiration for Rent from Puccini’s La Boheme but set his work in New York’ s East Village and with people living with HIV (rather than TB), Lesbian lawyers, drag queens instead of Parisian poets and painters. The music draws on!the traditions of American gospel and in the words of.the Houston Chronicle~ "Rent .is that rare. musical whose content and style areo£the present rather than the past.. words of pro.d.ucer Jeffr,y Sellers~ tradithing this impressive anywhere elser on’ tional :upt wn . t_h_eatre;,t.e..Broadway, Broadway." Certainly,Titanic seems cer~ .... was not-:~’our.characters ;,our stories, our tain t0 pl~hse the target audience ofCelebi; "" music, i. 2;.S~1~8 addecL that ,The.New rity Attractions and to bring in any nlmi: "~ York Ti~oa~.s,:q,a~:.,ed ;~e~t~Ya, shimm~ ber ofcharter buses full of traditional ~ea~ ¯ choonpceufrowr-i~ffei h~iAm.mmeri~_d.c’w~n.-ith th~Pe~q~ng theatr~igoers. ~ .... Theatre Tulsa Goes Gay!?!_,-. ~ Arts Center’s..director~-.33lm~e~i~ iii~t .......for T~s.a.;:R.¢.n.tj~!O~ag0~erdue! Tulsa Family News is delighted to re.:., Rent 9Li.t.lbe ip:Tulsa, f,om Augusi 29Rt ceive notice that TheatreZul~a’ S final seasonproductionis theTerrence McNallyhit,Lips Together, Teeih Apart." It Will run April 28, 29, and May3- 6 at8,l~.~,; ~e~e_w.ill be a:~ma~lee all PAC Jolm~H. ............Io tP+~9..Pt., 3rd :~ith -I ev.~i~n.g and marl: nee,performances. Tickets, range, be:.. $25 to.$55 ,a~..dgQ:on ~.ale on June 12. Call 596- 7111,800-364- ~731I. or go to Willidins :Tkeatre.’ ..... : Veto S~fanic~directs this "adult sitmi:" tion" drama:~dae elegant beach house " on Fi~I~taii~i:~;brother and sister and their i(d~tig~e~pouses attempt to cel-: ebrat~i=tll~-~t~6~li:0f July. Surrounded 6if: bo.th s[d~Tb,~]~e~ii~ve h~ses~Ga~.~i~ieff:~ " me" two sfi~:~i~t ~codpqeg’exi~Xa* own!ives ~[li~it;sorrow, and agnawmgup.,,~ t~my~!~es their‘ affluen! hab’-’ it~ hfid]SeR~ pi~jii~li~s ~i~zle~n the:sum:~ ,"~l)~:" ~" ?’Q *~ "~ .... - ;.... ~’;" ~i’¢ " ~ " Tl~eT~fl:aa 1§’one~,~(e!,ty-~Ndest arts ,0.~g. a~!..~a,tlons ..and -ael~owle~t~mg Gay~i~ ,th~"th~iff~ is ’a big step, n~ot t6 ¯ me~tidff~cNali~ is one Of temporary pla~fights so check this production out, W~:don’t get that many ¯ chances trsee theatre in Tulsa which acknowledges-the eXistence ofGaypeople: " 525,600 Minutes : Having said that, the extraordinary new Ameficanmusical, Rent, is coming, won- " ;~ Do, you got:Hope? ~ Fran~_.~,C.~thy Kc~ting’, sfavodte~ulsa designer_ ,~gd..H!.V/AtDS .. fund.raise-~,~ Charles-Faudree,-once again has, o~ga; nized theHopeCafid~eli.~ht~0urforea~!y, June. TI~.,"~,eve~t not,rnly,heips i~aise f~d~i groups;p~c~yide~car~, toW-opl,e liv~:ii~ see some6fTulsa s mostbeau~i~f~@~, rated, homes.- ......... -,.:~.... The pub!ic:tour on SituMay, i~; 3rd and Sunday~ Jun¢.4th i%~tures fiv~ l~0mes for a donation ofonly $10. Ticke,ts fi3r tliis tour may be obtainld a~ each..home ¯ There is also a donor tourfeaturing four more homes on Iune 1 for those who donate $125. And patrons (donations of more than $450) will gather at Doug & Susan Pielsticker on June 10th. For more information, call Charles Faudree, Inc. at 747-9706. I to benefit Saint Joseph Residence + Regional AIDS Interfaith.Network Saturday, June 3rd, 10-5, + Sunday, June 4th, 1-5 $10 donation at the door or in advance. David Daniel, 1603 S. Carson Wiley Parsons, 1601 S. Carson Monty + Jane Butts, 240 E. Woodward Blvd. Brett + Maricarolyn Swab, 2112 S. Norfolk Ave. Dr. Robert & Dena Hudson, 2707 S. Rockford Rd. Tickets for this~,t~Jr may be obtaL"gd at each home. 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OF OKLAHOMA A Central and South West Company by Busaba Sivasoboom BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - They giggled like girls and limp-wristed their high-fives, but when these players spiked a volleyball, opponents knew they were facing some of the meanest men on a Thai Bacldin 1996, a transvestite volleyball team with a woman coach overcame an anti-homosexual campaign to keep them out and competed!ha meffs national club volleyball championship They wonboth the tournamentandthehearts.of the crowd. Now; their tale has been turned into a movie titled "Satree-lek," or "Iron Ladies," and it’ s quickly turning into one of the biggest box office hits in Thai history - while spotlighting the country’s ambiguous feelings about transvestites and homosexuality. DirectorYongyootThongkongtoon said that on the surface, Thai society is open and tolerant of transvestites and homosexuality. The two are often equated in the popular mind, though not all transvestites are homosexuals, or vice versa. Transvestite cabarets are popular with tourists and several television shows feature transvestites-prompting an edict last year by the government to broadcasters to tone it down. The order, however, has widely been ignored. ButYongyoottoldTheAssociatedPress that transvestism was a lifestyle far removed from that led by most Thais, and his debut film takes a look at how other people : react to having transvestites as neighbors, rivals and colleagues. In the movie, the team was insulted by words and gestures at the beginning of the tournament. However, when they showed they could play as well, and better- than their rivals, they gradually gained respect from fans and other players. "I chose to present it as a comedy, because I thought a drama might be boring," said Yongyoot, who formerly directed TV commercials. "An audience is more easily attracted by a comedy film." When the movie began showing nationwide in March, it became an instant hit and pulled in more thaii 100 million baht ($2.7 million) in thefirst month, 10 times what it cost to make. That already makes it second Thai film in all-rime box office receipts behind the A walk-through butterfly exhibit at the Tulsa Zoo and Living Mus~umwil! open onMay 6 and will continue through October 8. The exhibit is open from 10am - 5pmand visitors canexperiencehundreds ofnative butterflies up-el0seand in flight. Nearly 30 species of North American butt.efflies.and ~ few s,p~..’es ofmoths will be represented itl an enel6~&l garden setring, near the Animal Kingdom Building and features a variety offlowering plants. This exlfibit is free wi~ the ~regular Zoo admission. Wings ofWonderis set withina30x 96’ greenhouse covered with a light mesh to contain the animals. The exhibit features a "chrysalis house" where visitors can watch as each butterfly emerges from its chrysalis or pupa and prepares for flight. Winding stone pathways, a water feature, benches, andeducational exhibits enhance the exhibit area. Wings of Wonder is dedicated to increasing visitor knowledge and appreciation of butterflies which are signature 150 million baht (dlrs 4 million) earned by "Nang Nak," last year’ s arty retelling of an old ghost legend that is credited with giving a new breath of life to the moribund Thai film industry. Pakorn Pimton, a transvestite and coordinator of the Gays Against AIDS group, said he was unsurprised by the success of the movie and he hoped it would open useful debate. Gays are accepted as entertainers, Pakom said, because Thais d(, see movie stars and television program hosts as serious. ,~ - "Howe~,ifthey go beyond’that line to be a doct~,~polifiCi~, banker Or top~nfili,~ tary official - I guess the answer is no, Pakorn said. "We still use a two-tier measure for members of our society." Violence against homosexuals is rare in Thailand, Pakorn said, but many barriers remain against open homosexuals. The Gay rights movement is weak. His group regularly receives calls fromhomosexuals who -fear coming out of the closet because they risk their jobs or status. Kitikorn Meesapya, senior psychologist at the Department of Mental Health’ s, said that Thais can accept homosexuals that keep a low profile. Homosexuals in Parliament and the military are well treated until their lifestyles are publicly exposed - a fairly rare occurence. "But then they will fac~ harsh criticism from society," Kitikorn said, expressing hope that "Satree-lek" might encourage more tolerance and help some people to express themselves as homosexuals. For Kongrith Singnukote, one of the 1996 champion players, the film’ s strongest pointis that it’*talks about peacefully living together in society by accepting the differences of each person." Kongrith works as a bank teller. He goes to work in men’s clothes, but wears makeup and ¯" speaks in a girlie voice. All his colleagues ¯ know he is a transvestite. Kongrith says : he gets teased a bit, but no one has ever ¯ shown violence toward him. He says he is : grateful that his family accepts him as he : is. : Being the subject of a hit movie hash~ t ¯ raised.his celebrity ambitions,however, and he doesn’t see a career for himself : beyondretail service. "I know that thereis ¯¯ a barrier for us," he says. "For now, I’m satisfied at being what I am." ¯ species for conservation. By fostering a greaterunderstanding of theneeds and the ¯ life,cycle of butterflies we can hdp con- " serve these delicate creatures. -" In addition tothe butterfly enclosure, : knownas"Butterfly Landing," the grounds ¯ aroundtheexhibithavebeen planted with : butterfly-attracting plants to encourage : v~s~tataon by someof our natt,~e butterfly residents. Thebutterflies exhibited inside ¯ Butterfly Landing have not been taken ~ from:the wild but are procured through ¯ certified butterfly suppliers. ¯ ¯ Exhibits describing the lifecycle of the butterfly, the differences between moths ¯ and butterflies, common butterflies of ¯ Oklahoma, chrysalis and butterfly !dent!- : fication, and about attracting butterflies ¯ to yards will be included in the exhibit. ¯ Also planned for this summer is a vision ¯ exhibit that will enable visitors to see like : a butterfly. The Animal Kingdom Build- . ing will also house agift cart specializing ¯ in butterfly-related books, souvenirs, and gifts. Info: 669-6600 orwww.tulsazoo.org r by Lament.. Lindstrom, Ph.D. What do you call a dead Blond in a closet? - a 1964 hide and seek champion! The recent flush of Blendjokes is an interesting cultural phenomenon. Jokes are more than just funny. They are also dangerous because they are polilical. Overthepastfew decad~s~: change~ iri Amefi’~t"~ ~olitib~[ arena have affectedboth the content and practice Ofjoking. Itis alittleless easy than it used to be to joke about ethnic and religious groups, handicap, gender, or gender-orientation. Blonds have emerged as a safe target in politically conscious, if not always politically correct, America. Andmanyjokes that previously featured Jews- or Blacks or Gays have been reworked into Blond jokes. This is not to say that offensive joking has disappeared. Rather, it is just a little less public. American politeness conventions demand that I should not tell a joke whose "butt" is in my audience, unless I, too, am in the targeted category, or unless I already have a close relationship’~vith those I potentially offend. But I can joke all I want as long as the butt can’ t hear me, or if I do indeed intend to offend. Thewebsite, www.whitepride.com, for example, offers along list of by now very stale Jewish, Black, and "faggot" jokes. Here’ s a sample groaner from the"white pride" boys: Why was the faggot fired from his job at the sperm back? - for drinking on the job! Jokesters sometimes complain about the "political correctness" that has narrowed the contexts in which they can safely perform. "Come on, it’s only a joke!" But of course jokes aren’t just jokes. They are also assertions about the world, or at least one particular view of the world. The lines that jokes ckaw between the funny and the unfunny reflect local understandings of normality. Jokes are potent oral texts that, retold over and over again, maintain certain ways ofthinking about people and behavior. Why do brides wear white? - so they will match the other domestic appliances! .Even ironic jokes, such as this, refresh established ways of thinking about men, women, and the gendered division of labor. In particular, the swarm of jrke~ flying constantly around a community protects existing systems of inequality. People joke "downwards" more than they do upwards.~ :People joke far more often about the powerless than they about the powerful. There are far more jokes about women than there are about men. "More jokes about ethnic and religious minorities thanthe white-bread Protestant mainstream. More jokes about the handicapped than about the able. More jokes about the old than the young. More jokes about Oklahoma than about California. Do you know what an Oklahoma divorce and a Texas tornado have in common? - in both cases ¯ somebody is gonna ¯ lose a trailer house! And there are many more jokes about being Gay than about being Straight. We usually "~V’hy is it so hard abide by the politeness constraints ofjoke-telli~, for women to find in fact, because we realize that jokes (even "just-amen that are jok~sT’) have this political " weight. ,Th..o~sewhofeel tSe sensitive, earing,, ~ ’ Sfing~hidd~n ’within the .a.n..d ’geed-look"m - because those guys already have ho rlends!?’ laughter sometimes protest when etiquette breaks down. GLAAD, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, for example, has attempted to police the telling ofcertainGayjokes in the m~ss media, notably on a number of morning radio shows whose sleazy hosts are keen to boost their market share. Such policing, of course, if successful merely shrinks the arenas in which Faggot jokes are safely told. They still circulate freely in less public Spaces. Each time I teach Cultural Anthropology, I have my students as a group collect jokes from their friends. I figure that these joke archives provide good evidence about which of the joints of American society currently ache the most. Last week, the students broughtin about 150 jokes. For the first time in years, none ofthese was a"faggot"joke. And the only ethnic joke was turned in by a clueless Japanese woman, happily ignorant of the American politics of public joking. Instead, nearly half the collection consisted of Blond jokes. Blonds, poor things, are nowadays the butt of choice when American jokesters are nervous and unsure of our audience. What do Blonds put behind their ears to attract boyfriends? - their ankles! Our collection also included several "counter-jokes" whose butt is strategically reversed. There are, for example, Brunette jokes - the futile ripostes of oppressed Blonds. There are also "stupid men jokes" - invented jokes that attempt to counteract the dominant targeting of women within the’universe of American jokes. Why did God create man? - because a vibrator can’t mow the lawn! While these attempts to resist inequality by shifting a joke’s target upwards may have only limitie~." politigal,fimpact, it sfillfecls"goodtolaflgh.: ~:: ~ -~’~ Why is it so hard for women to find men that are sensitive, caring, and go~dqo~king? -~ because those guys _~ already have boyfriends! LamontLindstrom teaches anthopology at the University of Tulsa. Romantic W ekend Package.-- Accommodations Frida3, Saturday or Sunday night. Bottle ofwine, souvenir keepsake millennium corkscrew ¯ Souvenir etched glasses ¯ Specialq chocolate tklights ¯ Deluxe continental breakfast ¯ Late checkout ¯ Specialq rooms $I80 ¯ Deluxe rooms $160 ¯ Valid weekends in February. Does not include taxes Tulsa’s Premier Boutique Hotel 14t~ & Main ¯ Tulsa ¯ 587.8200 Member: Historic Howls ofAmerica Featuring The Chalkboard Restauram, a dining landmark IGTA Calmlem3b4er1.6866i’!~ International ToUrsformore information. 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If our ¯ voters are motivated to the polls and elect ¯ supportive leaders, we could have the ¯ opportunity to shape groundbrealdng le- : gal protection. If the nation elects leaders ¯ who are hostile to all that NGLTF stands ¯ for, we could witness a serious backlash ¯ to our h~rd-won gains. ¯ Dr. Martin Luther King. once said the ¯ moral arc of the universeis long but bends Surprises were cropping up in the rest .: toward justice. Dr. King was right - but !~f th~ p,gper ~. W~I!, indu~g the busi- ¯ with our continued o!;gahi~gg g~ad motif ~es .,~..; o ~ .w~i~ g~ ~)le on .~_~o ~,~ ~jzatmn, we~make ~at,ii~.~;0’~,.~ :~est~c p~mership~ p,6ilc~es..a~.ong OkI’fi- ¯ much more qmckly fioma compames- mcludiffg qu,otes from: $~,,-.~oundectir~1973, ttie ~Lucent’s I~aren Par~ons w~o is involved : Lesbian Tbsk Force W~’l?s to~iiniinate inLuqent~sLesbianandGayemployees’ ¯ prejudice, uiolence andiwustice against ;brgani’zafion, EQUAL!. :- Gay, Lesbian, Bisexualgtn~l T~ransgen- : Striking, 5wey r, was.a group of :. &red people at the local, state dnd naarticles; oii 1~hate crimes in the Sun- ¯ tional level. As part ofdbrOaddr ~Ocial iday, March 20 issue. Mostof these ar- : justicemovementforfreOdom;]usticeand titles appeared in ~€ Community see- : equality, NGLTF is creattYg d Worm that fion, Milch w’as’d~_i’ilh~lPdedia.the late : ~respects and celebrates_ ttie’diversity of ~F,dition ’on Stmday’. The~e, in b!a~k and .’. ’human expression and identity where all White, was the opeii as~ertidii.’.tiia~ Okla- i .people mayfully participate in society. h°ma City"s Human Rights CASmmlssi°n i I ] .Was abolished by(the City Council bemuse they iesent&!havingt.6 deal with the issue. 0fiG@’Ri~h?s, cbml~iete, with ~uote by c.ottt~,¢ilmenqbi~r~Je@ Fo~hee: " During WWII, the church Sheltered.Japa- .-.; "The councilis tiredof.th6is~ue’hlways ; nese-American students who were given being b~ought forward, and flae vehicle the opportunity to study atTU ratherth~a,n,,, that is alWays brin~g.i’.t forward is the " beincarceratedinAmerican"internment human rights comm, ss~on...~ If the vehicle is bringing you dompany that you don’ t want ... then you do away with the vehicle." In meeting with Hale, Speakers for Gay and Lesbian Issues hoped that they would open a dialog between the Daily Oklahoman and the Gay and Lesbian community of Oklahoma City. According to Speakers, Hale provided them with many opportunities by asking many questions about Gay and Lesbian issues. Speakers for Gay and Lesbian Issues noted the positive trend in the paper’ s coverage of Gay issues. Hale revealed that those changes had come at a price: while the articles on hate crimes had generated both positive and negative responses fromreaders, some of the negative responses had been vicious and involved actual threats. But, Hale also said she was not going to let that stop her from continuing to cover controversial issues. She said that when a story generates strong reactions on both sides, she knows she’ s doing her job right. This federation consists ofpolitical groups that fight for equality. In just four years’ time, the Federation has grown to represent members in every state in the union, gro,wthinsuch ashort period of time. With the Federation’s help, last year NGLTF was able to produce the largest :~ grassroots mob~fion:inputmoyem~ntfs history. We helped organize some 350 rallies and other events in all 50 state capitols, plus D.C. and Puerto Rico, during a one-week period. Our campaign - called Equality Begins at Home- and the work of the Federation paved the way for the wonderful successes we have seen in the past year. Now many state legislatures are wrapping up their business and adjourning. Attention will soon shift to the November camps. Later the church was involved in the "Sanctuary" movement which offered relocation of Central American political refugees, both documented and-undocumented. Aletter issued tomembers ofthe church, signed by Rader and Clerk of the Session, Kathy Evanson, notes, "None of these actions changes who we are as a congregation; but, they declare who we area and what we want to be in our relationships with one another. We are still a loyal, supporting congregation of the Presbyterian Church,U.S.A. We have done nothing improper according to our denomination’ s constitution. We are not changing any signage, letterhead, preaching or program. We are declaring inclusion and affirmation of all our members and our openness to a group of people long rejected and stigmatized by society, and within the Christian commtmity... College Hill is a majority "straight" church but with visible and welcome Lesbian and Gay families. Editor’s note: Tulsa Family Newspublisher and editor, Tom Neal is a member of College Hill Presbyterian Church. An Evening With The Quilt On Thursday evening, May 25, the NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter of the AIDS Memorial Quilt will sponsor an evening of meditation and remembrance at Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 So. Harvard in Tulsa, from 7-9 pm. You. are invited to drop in anytime during this time period to meditate, pray, or simply view the Quilt. Feel free to stay just afew minutes, or as long as you wish. The NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter invites everyonewhohas been touchedby the AIDS pandemic to take a moment from their evening to remember and reflect. For more information, please contact the NAMES Project Tulsa at (918) 748-3111 or TulsaQnilt@usa.net Humanity Unites f’or Hu’man Rights Diversity .Celebration 2000 Grand Marshalls for the Millennium Parade Dr. Grethe Cammermeyer Distinguished Veteran of the United States Armed Forces Gre£! Lou~lanis US Olympic Champion Pride Week Events, .Interfaith Worship Service The Tulsa Performin£l Arts Center Speaker: the Reverend Dr. Mel W.hite, author and activist Friday, June 2, from 7pro (free) TOHR Folbes. 1OO Years of Broadway Saturday, June 8, 8pm, $15 PAC Doenges Theatre Black Tie Optional Dinner ~i:Featuri~ 6re~q Louganis The Summit Club Friday, June 9th, $75 person VIP reception at $50 person. Benefitin~l Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Ri/thts, the parent or~Ianization of the Gay Community Center Millennium Pa~de 2000 Saturday, June IO, llam Beginning at the Gay Community Center at 87th and Peoria and endin~i at Veterans Park at 18th and BouIder The Pride Festival Veterans Park, llam 8pro For more information about these events, caIl 748-4297 (gays). Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2000] Tulsa Family News, May 2000; Volume 7, Issue 5 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 2000 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Barry Hensley J.P. 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Bush harassment hate groups HIV HIV prevention homophobia housing Idaho Public Television Jim Christjohn Karin Gregory Lamont Lindstorm marriage equality military inclusion Murder NAMES Project National Gay and Lesbian Task Force NGLTF Partner Benefits performing arts Pride prison Raging Lesbian Read All About It restaurants slurs Supreme Court Tom Neal tuberculosis Tulsa Family News Tulsa Zoo United Methodist Church universities University of Pitsburgh https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/712578396993d523934aa25341e075bc.jpg c1b27a5396a4f0156c29c13e55faeb94 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0e437c62fbb7e50af3b715f849e29a6d.pdf 63ebf7074a306816b93e5aae614b7fb0 PDF Text Text ¯ Serving Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa’s Largest Circulation Community Paper Available In More Than 75 City Locations Tul . a,World Drops Anti-Gay Policy +Accepts PFLAG Ad ans Methodist - eet-ngM , i ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : : : TULSA-Inaneffortbothnerve-wrackingandtedious ." several Tulsans, SueKnanse, KentDoss,I~arenWeldon ." (and another who need to remain unnamed), were ¯ arrested in Cleveland with the Reverend Mel White and : 191 others in acts of peaceful civil disobedience at the " ¯ recent United Methodist Church. Conference: The acts of civil disobedience, blocking a car park " exitfolloweddaysofnegotiationswithMethodistchnrch : leaders about the anti-Gay policies of the United Meth- " odist Church (UMC). The conference held in Cleveland ¯ ¯ was attended by hundreds of UMC delegates. The Methodist church like some other "mainline" ~ Christian denominations has adopted policies which " limit participation of Lesbian and Gay persons in that ¯ group. White stated, "the United Methodist Chruch has " ahistory of social concern [butthey haye] anti-homo- " sexual policies in place that lead to discrimination ¯ _. suffering, and even death." The Tulsans joined other notable civil fights leaders. ¯ YolandaKing, theRey.Dr.JamesLawson, friendofDr. " King, Congressman John Lewis of Georgia and others. " see Arrest, p. 10 : TULSA - After banning the use of the words, Gay, Lesbian, and Homosexual since at least 1985 in advertising, the Tulsa World, has effectively dropped its blanket anti-Gay policy. The new policy, according to Nancy McDonald who was asked to lead this effort, can be paraphrased as the following: "each ¯ Humanity Unites For Human Rights request for placing an adusing the words Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, ¯ Diversity Celebration 2000t Transgender or Homosexual, would be responded to on an ¯ "Diversity Celebration 2000!" is an eight-day individual basis." Formerly the World’s policy banned these " . celebration of the human rights movement with the words altogether outside of news stories and editorials. The suggestion to try to change the World’s policy first was ¯ goal of uniting northeastern Oklahoma’ s Gay, Lesproposed at’a board meeting for Tulsa Oklahomans for Human ¯ bian, Bisexual and Transgendered (GLBT) and ¯ GLBT-friendly communities. Tulsa Oklahotnans i Rights (TOHR) early last fall by Tulsa Family News editor.and for Human Rights, Inc., Oklahoma’s oldestr~rnpublisher Tom Neal. After the TOHR board declined to take any" religious Gay community organization released it action, Neal took the suggestion to the then newly developing. final schedule "community council" which did adopt the goal. which follows: Neal suggested to council co-ordinator Marly Newman that " Friday, June 2nd McDonald be asked to lead the effort because of the World’ s ¯ Diversity Celseeming preference to deal with representatives of non-Gay ¯ ebration 2000! groups which advocate on behalf of Gay people rather than Gay will kick off at 7 ". people themselves. pm with an InterIn a widely distributed June 1st e-mail about the change, faith Service led McDonald wrote"how you will also remember that PFLAG had by Rev. Mel to be very creative in the design of our signature ad for the paper " White at the Willas part of the PROJECT OPEN MIND Campaign"- areference ¯ iams Theatre in to how PFLAG under the former World policy could not use its ¯ the Performing own legal name because it included the banned words. ~. Arts Center McDonald added, "... PFLAG submitted an ad and with (PAC). Special several revisions, it has been approved... The cost of the ad is " musical guests inapproximately $500 and [it is] to run on Sunday, June 4th, in the ¯ clude Council Living Section. It has Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians ¯ Will Allen, Emily Sizeraore & Oak Men’s Choand Gays, as well as some other statements, ’Is someone you care " Matthew Holloway are winners for gay orlesbian? Issomeoneyoulovegayorlesbian?Ifso, call ¯ ofCoraraunity Hero awards. rale, Ernestine Dillard, Jessie Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays’ and then it ¯ Holloway is notpictured. Scott, and the lists our Helpline number." McDonald also wrote, "I have no idea what the response will " Fourth Quarter gospel quartet. Participation by be? I suspect some positive and some negative so the HELPLINE ¯ persons with a variety of faith traditions will be has been notified. If anyone is so moved to help thelocal Chapter ¯ included in the program. Admission is free. An see Pride, p. 7 see World, p. 2 " offering will be taken, with the cost of the ad, Gays Better Educated,. ForJustices+Couples, Unions. Missouri Backwoods:A Lower Paid Than Straights " Require Creative Language ° Hotbed of Hate Groups WASHINGTON (AP) - Men who consider themselves "unmarried partners" of another man are better educated on average, but make less money than heterosexual men of the same age, according to a study that° claims to take the most comprehensive look ever into the lives of homosexuals in America. Women who have female "unmarried parmers" also tend to be more educated, but earn salaries comparable to those of heterosexual women in the same age bracket, according to the study in this month’s issue of "Demography," the journal of the Population Association of Americ& "An important point that is clearly articulated is that it illustrates the impact of anti-Gay discrimination .on income levels," said David Smith, spokesman for the organization Human Rights Campaign, an advocacy group for Gays and Lesbians. Advocates applauded what they said was the first comprehensive study of homosexuals but cautioned against drawing any t-nan conclusions until more research is done. "Demographically, this is a hard population to target and analyze. Data on sexual orientation is not as easily avai[dible as information on race~ gender and age," said Seth Sanders, a study author and .an economist at the University of Maryland. The study looked at statistics from the 1990 Census. ~the first,count to allow people to check off that they lived with:an .unmarried partner of the same sex. see Pay, p. 11 DIRECTORY EDITORIAL US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT GAY STUDIES P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 P. 10 by Ross Sneyd, Associated Press Writer MONTPELIER, Vt. -"And now, by the powers vested in me by ¯ ¯ the state of Vermont, I pronounce you.. ?’ What? Partners? Together as one? Joined as family? ¯ Unlike marriage, there’ s no common syntax for the new world ¯ of same-sex civil unions. Because the couples are two men or two ." women, the old fried-and-true "man and woman" or "husband ¯_ ¯ and wife" phrases don’ t quite make it. ¯ With no rulebook and few traditions-as wall as no other state sanctioning what will be the equivalent of same-sex marriage and ¯ thereby offering some guideposts - Vermont’s justices of the : peace and .couples entering civil unions are crafting their own : conventions and rituals. : There has been a lot of discussion, both lighthearted and ¯¯ serious, about how to conduct a ceremony. ’q’here’ s so much creativity in our community among Gay and Lesbian couples in : how to create outward signs of their commitment," said Mary ¯ Hurlie, a justice of the peace in Hinesburg who has been with her -¯ female partner for 13 years. "But we haven’ t gotten to that level of detail, yet." : As marriages must be "solemnized" by judges, justices of the : peace or members of the clergy, so, too, will civil unions have to ¯ be "certified." But there aren’t any rules. The civil unions law : ¯ says only that they must be certified. There’ s no script ~,State ¯ statute that must be followed for a marriage, either. ¯ "Just like marriages, there aren’t any magic words," said Secretary of State Deb Markowitz. " ’We pronounce you man ~ and wife, husband and wife,’ they’ re just made up. You don’ t find : ¯ them in statute." Training sessions have been held for justices by the secretary : ¯ of state’ s office in recent w eeks because it is almos t unquestioned that it will be to them that the primary responsibility for perform- ¯. ing civil umons ceremonies falls. That’ s because there are few ¯ religious faiths that bless same-sex unions and so there won’ t be : many clergy members willing or able to certify civil tmions on : ¯ behalf of the state. Justices of the peace have a handful of responsibilities under :¯ state law. Most have to do with taxes and elections. A town’ s ¯ iusdces - there are as few as fiveinsmall towns see Unions,p.ll by Doug Johnson, Associated Press Writer GAINESVILLE, Mo. - The remote and rugged Ozark hills blanketed with dogwoods and oaks are treasured by hunters, hikers and others wanting to get away from the bustle of urban life. The pastoral hills are also a haven for hate groups, authorities say. Southern Missouri has drawn more than its share of religious sects and white supremacists looking for a place to hide. Last week, police arrested the Rev. Gordon Winrod- the leader of an anti-Semitic church ~ for allegedly kidnapping six of his grandchildren and concealing them for years at his farmhouse in the hills. The only explanation authorities offer for why the kids were kidnappedis that Winrod thought theirtwo fathers were Jewish. Sheriff SteveBartlett said the youngsters had been taught by their grandfather to distrust authorities. At one point, the sheriff said, the children shouted at deputies, "Get your Jew hands off me." Winrod, 73, and his followers gained a reputationin Ozark County for mas s mailings of literature calling law enforcement officers and prosecutors "Jewdicials" - a play on the word judicial - and claiming-they cover up murders of whites. It’ s not uncommon to find that kind of sentiment in some areas of the Ozarks, which straddles the state line between Missouri and Arkansas. Experts say the region draws hate groups and people connected to the white supremacist "Christian Identity" movement. "We are richin these types of groups down in this part of the country for some reason," Highway Patrol Sgt. Marty Elmore said. Southwest Missouri is often characterized by a lack of adequate law enforcement in rural areas and lacks a tradition of heavy-handed local government and gun control, said Robert Flanders, former director of the Center for Ozark Studies see Hate, p. 7 �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 712-2324 *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 610-5323 *CW" s, 1737 S. Memorial 583-2119 *Club Cherry Bomb, 1926 E. Pine 835-2376 *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan 749-4511 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria 744-4280 Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 834-4234 *The Star, 1565 Sheridan 585-3405 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 660-0856 *TNT’ s, 2114 S. Memorial 584-1308 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *The Yellow Brick. Road Pub, 2630- E: 1-5th..... :- --749 - 1563 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Advanced Wireless & PCS, Digital Cellular 74% 1508 *Assoc. in Med, & Mental Health, 2325 S. 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Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers have to be a public consensus to treat all people fairly! What hideous stereotyping Member of The Associated Press by our governor... [I] regret that there is no place close to Issued on or before the 1 st of each month, the entire contents ¯ ,my ho,me, w,he,r,e !,.c,gn.get your. w.onderful of thig publication are protected by US copyright 1998 b) ", i~per. The’littl~ ~egment ,~0 ~epoi’i hate T~ /:~, ~v.~ and may not be reprodu~.d (~th~r~i~a: , ~ sigee~h 0i: virleh~e~ Call i.he Gay commuwhole orinpart W~th0ut writtenpermission from thepublish~. nit~ cent~ris so r~assuring... Loved the ~ Quilt article, unfortunately got my paper Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’ s ." too lateiio go. Extended thanks. sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for ¯ - Gay-friendly in Depew. publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of T~ ~.’. N~- Eachreader ¯ Announcements Policy is entitled to 4 copies of each editmn at distribution ¯ Tulsa Family News will provide space points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. " ¯ for holy union ceremony, marriage -" ceremony, birth, adoption and death 582-0438 ~ announcements on a space available b~sis. Friends in Unity Social Org., PUB 8542, 74101 583-6611 HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. Page Blvd. Photos are welcome, though we cannot 834-4194 *Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., 3507 E. Admiral promise placement or return them, so 481-1111 ¯ please send copies to Tulsa Family NewS, Holland Hall School, 5666 E. 81st 834-8378 ; PUB 4140, Tulsa 74159. HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education ¯ *House of the Holy Spirit Minstries, 3210e So. Norwood Letters Policy Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 Tulsa-~amily News welcomes letters ¯ 838-1715 ¯ *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood 748-3111 ¯ on issues which we’ve covered or NAMES Project, 3507 E. Admiral PI. issues you.think need to be consider~ed, 365-5658 NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, PUB 14068;’74159 ¯ You may request that your name be withOK Spokes Club (bicycling), PUB 9165, 74157 : held but letters must be signed & have *OSU-Tulsa ¯ phone numbers, or be hand ddivered. 200 749-4901 PFLAG, PUB 52800, 74152 ¯ word letters are preferred. Letters to o~¢r. 587-7674 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria publicat.ions will be re-printed as ks~ Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 appropriate. ~.~ 749-4195 R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 584-2325 *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 O’ RYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults O’ RYAN, Jr. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth 425-7882 : any donation wouldbe appreciated. Please St. Aidan’ s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati 492-7140 St. Dunstan’s Episcopal, 5635 E. 71st send to PFLAG, PO Box 52800, Tulsa, 582-3088 *St. Jerome’ s Parish Church, 205 W. King OK 74152. I truly believe this will ope~ 583-7171 ¯ the door for PFLAG as well as o~ *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder *TNAAPP (Native American men). Indian Health Care 582-7225 organizations to submit ads to the T~ 595-4105 Tulsa County Health Department, 46 16 E. 15 World. Our thanks to Joe Worley Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only ¯ assisting us with this policy change. He Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 ~ was very, very helpful.’" T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniforn~’Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 : The World’ s anti-Gay policy is doen¯ mented back to the middle’80’ s when a *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule *Tulsa Community College Campuses : Lesbian owned card, gift and book store,. 743-4297 ¯ Two’s Company, located near 31st & *Tulsa Gay Community Center, 1307 E. 38, 74105 749-8833 ¯ Harvard was told the World would not Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown ¯ accept advertising for the store because BARTLESVILLE ¯ the owners wanted to let readers know the *Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 ¯ target audience, i.e. Lesbians and Gay OKLAHOMA CITY/NORMAN ¯ Borders Books & Music, 3209 NW Expressway 405-848-2667 ¯ men. The owners conducted a one day picket of the World but the policy reBorders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 . mained unchanged. TAHLEQUAH In 1993, when Tulsa Family News pub¯" 918-456-7900 Stonewall League, call for information: lisher Tom Neal, opened a gift and card ¯ 918-456=7900 *Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church shop "tomfoolery !" at the Silver Star, the 918-453-9360 ¯ World also refused to accept advertising, Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 NSU School of Optometry, 1001 N. Grand even though the store did not trade in HIVtesting every other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for dates eroti~ Or any other possible objectionEUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS able,~fials, citing the same policy, . A ~,~arslaterl PFLAG, TulSa Cliap5~ 501-253-7734 Autuinn’Bre~ze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 501-253,7457 ter ran afrul of the same anti-Gay po|i~¢y *Jim & Brent’ s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-6807 ¯ when it tried to run a pro-Gay civi! .rights _t DeVito’ s Restaurant, 5 Center St. Emerald.R_ainbo~,4~ &l/2_Spfing,St. ~ ..... 501-25_3 -~5 :.. signature ad. !ntetesgngly, the MCC of the Living Spring 501:253:9337 : la~editsbw~ipoli’cy~’~WW~eks]~e~r,-’~te.~’~a Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, PUB~ 429 501-253-27"/6~. : runninffthe censrr~’FLAG a~.~a...i~) 501-253-5332, : accept~l’~ an anti-G~i~,iid from a"~Jali~0I¢~U Old Jailhouse_ Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-624~’6~~ ¯ of weS~side Tulsa &i~ches Positive Idea Marketing Plans . 501-253-600I": one of:~banned~c~ds. Sparky’ s~ Hwy. 62 :East 501-253-4074 : Editor’s note: for a related editorial, White Light, 1 Center St. JOPLIN, MISSOURI ¯ see page 3. The editorial was written the *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 ¯" earlier in the day before the news broke about the World’ s newpolicy. Hats offto ¯ Nancy McDonaldfor her work in negoti* is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. ating this new policy. 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 PUB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews @ ear thlink.net �by Tom Neal, editor & publisher For being the proverbial 900 lb. gorilla of our local media, those folks over at The Tulsa Worm sure seem to be thin-skinned about criticism. One editor, whom I respect greatly, took particular umbrage at my calling our daily, "a country-club newspaper." I suspect ,that a good part of his irritation is that he knows there s still truth in the charge. The Tulsa World has made great progress in providing better coverage of all of Tulsa, including our minority communities, - even Gay people. But like the town it serves, it carries with it. its parochial ,.elitist and raciSt/anfi-minority phst~. And f6r every .step forward, there s~ems tb t~ffve tO be a least one step back. " :Consider this charming carto0h"0y Simpson, reproduced here, with its somewhat sophisticated bigotry and stereotyping. The comment of "real girls only," implying that Gay men are somehow like women but yet are less than women, is full of unexamined misogynism. It comes out of a hierarchy where straight men (and traditionally straight, white men) are superior, women are lesser creatures, and Gay men are even lower because we’re men "who want to be women." Lesbians, of course, exist only to populate the sexual fantasies of straight men. To put this cartoon in the proper historical context, we need only think back to early 20th century racist political cartoons in which Black Americans were represented ape-ishly and made to speak in "step’ n’ fetch it" dialogue - or other cartoons where orthodox Jews or JapaneseAmericans were misrepresented as evil foreigners. Ironically, Simpson just gets it wrong. The GirlScouts of America are clearly on record as saying, they, unlike the Boy Scouts, do not discriminate on tile.,.basis of sexual orientation. The organization does use adult men as well as women in its programs in leadership and in training roles,: Therefore, not only would young women who are Lesbian be welcome, adult Lesbians and Gay men could also participate and no doubt have. And guess what, the Girl Scouts are doing just fine. But The Worm is not doing so well. For at least 15 years, our daily has maintained an anti-Gay .advertising policy which bans the words: Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual. by Joe Andrew and Edward G. Rendell After the overwhelming turnout at the Millenium March and record participation in the recent presidential primaries, Gays and Lesbians across the country are more united than ever in their fight for equality and inclusion. The Democratic Party is proud to stand with them - to fight with them - as we all celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride this month. Democrats have forged lasting relationships with the Gay and Lesbian community by supporting common sense issues related to basic fairness and non-discrimination for all Americans. Unlike discriminatory and divisive Republican figures like Pat Robertson, Gary Bauer, and presidential candidate George W. Bush, Democrats believe that our diversity is a source of great strength. While getting Bush to meet with Gays and Lesbians in his own party is like pulling teeth, A1 Gore has worked side-by-side with openly Gay and Lesbian advisors throughout his life. On specific policies that improve the lives of Gay Americans like hate crimes legislation, funding: ~or HIV/_AIDS¯ research, atii5~- :!he Empl9yment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA~;~.tli~re is no comparisonb~tween the candidates. Gore has supported Gays and Lesbians~time and time again. BUSHII~PPOSES HATE ¯ ..CRIMES BILLS ~ ~ ~ .t~, ,’~ ,. ~" . A.c~,r,~ng to the.Le’~fJ~an/Gay Rights Lobby of Texas (L(~."~R~.~)~,~.m.~re than 2,~ hate crimes were reported to th~’Fe~Departmen~6f Public safetybetween 1992 and 19971 ~i~(eefi percem~ere hate cfim~s motivated by the victim’s sexual orien~ation~ making Gays ’and Lesbians the second most-targeted group of hate crime victims in Texas. Given this fact, George W. Bush still opposed provisions in the James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Act that would have included protections for Gays.and Lesbians from hate crimes. The bill would have mandated stiffer penalties for cases in which victims of violence are targeted because of their race, gender, or sexual orientation. His spokesman said that Bush "does not support special They justify this saying that they are a"family" newspaper. Note that this ban does not apply to content of news articles, editorials or, obviously, cartoons! In fact, The World literally could not do the basic work of a newspaper, merely reporting the stories of our city, country and world, if they censored these words. ¯ How can anyone with a shred of reasoning think that these words if placed in an advertisement somehow have an adverse impact on any family, if dearly the same words placed in a news story right next to an ad are acceptable. What really is going on here is epitome of institutionalized prejudice. The policy doesn’ t make any sense, it is bigoted and discriminatory but no. one at The World has the courage to say that what they’re doing is just wrong. And in being silent, they, the reporters, editors, other : staff, both straight and Gay, become collaborators in ¯ societal oppression. In a society which seems to have to ¯ have an "other" against which to define itself, Gay people currently occupy the place Blacks, Jews, Indians, Irish ¯ and others have had. Contrast this with an advertorial section in a recent ¯ "Out" magazine in which The New York Times bragged ¯ about its excellent coverage of Lesbian and Gay issues, : and its commitment to its Lesbian and Gay readers and ¯ staff. Can you seeThe World doing that? I hope to see just that someday. Who knows maybe next year The World ¯ which is certainly profligate with its sponsorship of ¯ public events will even join Oklahoma’ s Gay press in ¯ being a sponsor of June’ s traditional Pride events. ¯ Don’tlaugh-itjustmighthappen.Andwhynot, thead ¯ policy’s now changed, why not even more progress? ¯ ¯ rights based on sexual orientation." ¯ Special rights? Where is the leadership? Bush wants ¯ the world to believe that he is a compassionate, but ¯ ." apparently his compassion does not extend to all the ¯; citizens of Texas. ¯ ~ ¯ "... We need leaders llke AI Gore : : : who will speak out against ¯ ¯ homophobla and prejudlee in a fight : ¯ : to maintain elvll justice and equality. ¯ ¯ ¯ Through his aetlons and ¯ the aetlons of hls party, it is clear that ¯ ¯i George W. Bush is not that leader... ¯ ¯ As we celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride, : Democrats pledge our support and ¯ eontlnued work to promote ¯" requal opp~rtufilty and ndn-dlserimlnatlon ¯ ¯ : ." ¯ : for a strong and united America. As a Party, we embrace these ideals because we believe that no American should be left behind..." Democrats, on the other hand, have begun to wage an all-out campaign against hate crimes in America. We have also endorsed and fought for civil rights legislation that would protect Gay and Lesbian Americans from discrimination. A1 Gore has been a tireless advocate for passage of the Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA), calling on Congress to come together in one voice on this issue. HCPA would expand the definition of hate crimes to include those based on sexual orientation, gender or disability and allow for the prosecution of those crimes under federal law. Democratic leaders have walked the walk in the fight against hate in America. We are the party of inclusion because we havejudged and will continue tojudgepeople based on the content of their character. BUSH: SILENT ON HIV/AIDS Bush’s silence on HIV/AIDS as governor is simply deafening. Despite the fact that almost 10,000 Texans have died of AIDS under his watch, Bush has never taken a publicpolicy position on the epidemic. In fact, he never even publicly used the word"AIDS" in office. When the Children Uniting Nations Chairperson Daphna Ziman asked US governors for assistance regarding the AIDS epidemic in Africa, forty-nine governors responded to her urgent personal letter and only one governor ignored the plea: George W. Bush. In December 1999, Bush also : received a failing grade on Lambda Legal Defense and ¯ Education Fund’s (LLDEF) World AIDS Day Report ¯ Card. :. ,Since the beginning of the Adminislxaf!on, President Clinton and Vice President Gore have proven their com-¯ mitment to fight for AIDS research again and again. During the last seven years, the Ryan White CARE Act ¯ ha~ seen funding ,increases of more than 292 percent in ° funds fo~ medicationsfserving low-inb.6_’me in~lividuals. Overall funding for AIDS ~related programs has increased ¯ by more than 122 percent during thisAdministration. A1 Gore has been on the front lines of fighting the ¯ ¯ epidemic. Recently, he announced an Administration ¯ initiative to commit more than $100 million to fight the worldwide AIDS crisis and increased funding for re" search, care and prevention. We need a leader that has put : a great deal of thought on this vital issue. : BUSH: AGAINST ENDA ." As governor, Bush opposed employment protection ¯ for Gays and Lesbians. He refused to adopt an Adminis: tration non-discrimination policy that includes sexual ¯ orientation. see Demos, p. 7 �Candian Supreme Co,,urt Holds for Pro-Gay Ruling OTTAWA (AP) -The Supreme Court has rejected an Ontario government request to re’clew a landmark decision on Gay civil rights. The Attorney General for Ontario had asked for a rehearing of the M and H case, referring to a Lesbian couple whose breakeup almost a decade ago triggered a dispute over assets. The case began when one of the women in the case, known only as M, found she couldn’t sue her ex’partner H when their relationship ended. M then went to court to have the spouse law struck down. The high court ruled in an 8-1 decision that the definition of spouse in Ontario’s family law was unconstitutional because it discriminated on the basis of sexual orientation. The ruling last year was specific to Ontario, but legal experts said other provincial governments and Ottawa had few options but to amend their lawsor face having them struck down in similar battles. The House of Commons passed legislation to bring federal legislationinto line and Ontario grudgingly amended its laws but still launched a bid for a rehearing before the Supreme Court. The two Toronto women, who had bought a home and started an ad agency together, settled the money dispute out of court long before their case wound its way to the country’ s highest court. Presbyterian Court Rulings Are Gay-friendly claiming it was for students only. However, district personnel attended, along with an attorney for the Utah chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union. The ACLU is representing East High juniors Jessi Cohen and Margaret Hinckley, who in April filed a federal-court suit claiming the district violated their First Amendment rights to free speech by rejecting PRISM as an academic club. The district banned all nonacademic clubs in 1996, a year after East High students tried to form a Gay and Lesbian support group. U.S. District Judge Tena Campbell issued a temporary restraining order against the district last month, forcing it to temporarily acknowledge PRISM as a legitimate club pending the outcome of the students’ lawsuit. The meeting was "definitely a win," said East High senior Ivy Fox, who unsuccessfully sued the district in 1998 over the ban. "It’ s such a good feding to see all your hard work pay off." Sophomore Evan Done attended the club meeting, but didn’ t think the discussion was appropriate. "It is an important step for the Gay community that needed to be taken," he said, but "I don’ t really think it has a place in school." PRISM advertised the meeting with fliers and during regular school announcements over the school intercom. Some of the fliers were destroyed and some students posted "straight pride" fliers, which showed two connecting male symbols and two connecting female symbols that were crossed out. Three Receive First Shepard Scholarships !AP)- The Presbyterian Church’ s highest court ruled ~n May that local congregations have the right to DES MOINES, Iowa (AP) - Three Gay and Lesbian conduct religious ceremonies celebrating Gay unions high school students were awarded full tuition to Iowa that stop short of marriage. The d~ision by the 16state universities under a new scholarship named for member court is binding unless the General Assemslain Gay student Matthew Shepard. bly of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) overrides it. The scholarships, worth approximately $25,000 The case, one of three on Gay issues argued before each over four years, were presented Tuesday to the tribunal, stemmed from a same-sex ceremony Galen W. Newton, Jessica M. Brackett and Paul N performed in Dobbs Ferry, N.Y. The Northeast reWharmel. The scholarships include tuition, books and gional church court ruled that ceremonies of "holy fees at the University of Iowa, Iowa State University union" for same-sex couples may be conducted if it is or University of Northern Iowa. made clear they are not marriages. The high conrt The scholarship program was announced in March agreed, though it instructed regional church bodies to by Gov. Tom Vilsack and the mother of Matthew make a clearer distinction between marriages and Shepard. the Wyoming college student who was beaten "blessing services." to death by two men. Police said the attack was A second case before the high court involved a motivated in part because Shepard was Gay. homosexual candidate for the ministry who said he The scholarships are awarded to Gay students based did not intend to remain celibate, even though church on academic achievement, financial need and comrules require clergy to observe either "fidelity in munity service, Vilsack said. Brackett credited Vilsack marriage" or"chastity in singleness." In that case~ the for trying to provide greater civil rights to Gay IoNortheast regional court decided that he could conwans. "He’ s really pushing for rights for everybody tinue as a candidate, and that his "manner of life" and I think he will be our main strength during the next could be evaluated prior to ordination. Again, the four to six years," Brackett said. "I think he’s going to high church concurred. It said the denomination’s push for progress." standards of fidelity and chastity are to be applied at Newton said he.plans to remain.active inGay rights the point that a person is azonsidered.for ordination, .’. issues whilein college. He said the Scholarship is abig not during, candidacy~ encouragement. "People are being awarded for being Freda ~ar~dn,~r~ and Clifton Kirkpatrick, the two courageou_s,".he s-aid. ¯ national leaders Of the 2.6 million-member denomiFunding for the scholarships.~omes from a chari.table foundation established by prominentDes Moines nation:~headquartered in :Louisvil!,e, Ky., said in a ~ecent i~astoral letter that the 0aurt s decisions realbusinessman Rich F...y~.~haner..An’rpe~l. y Gay RepubS :firm. church policy of disallowing Gay-marriages and lican, Eychaner mad~ an unsuccessi~ui bid for the U.S~. the.ordinatiOn Of’s(xua~ly active Gays., Theseissues .House in 1984, but’lost :in the ~. will Surface again when.the General Assembly.meets in Long Beach,:Calif., fromJune 24 to July 1. Among legislation to be considered: a proposal to ban samesex marriage. Vatican Increases Attack on World Pride Utah High School Club For Gay Issues Meets SALT LAKECITY (AP) - Five years after the debate over Gay school clubs began in Utah, East High School students on Wednesday held the state’ s first school-sanctioned club meeting to discuss current events from a Gay and Lesbian perspective. The PRISM Club - People Respecting Important Social Movements - meeting featured Laura Gray, a Salt Lake City attorney involved in Gay-rights issues. .About 45 students attended. Students said they talked about the historical, legal and religious significance of marriage and the current restrictions barring Gays and Lesbians from forming such unions. The district barred news media from the. meeting, ROME (AP) - A top Italian cardinal weighed in against a major Gay gathering scheduledin Rome in July, stepping up a campaignto move the event elsewhere. "What we are asking is not at this time and not in Rome," said Cardinal Camillo Ruini, president of the Italian Conference of Roman Catholic Bishops. World Gay Pride Roma 2000 is expected to draw hundreds of thousands of Gay and Lesbian participants for a week starting July I. The Vatican has opposed the city’ s plans to host the gathering, saying it is out of keeping with the church’ s Holy Year that has been drawing millions of pilgrims to Rome. Some opponents fear the event will turn into a demonstration against Pope John Paul II, who has defended the Vatican’ s condemnation of homosexual acts. "I don’ t believe it is by chance that they selected Rome this year," Ruilfi said. United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship 11:00 am Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor 1623 N. Maplewo0d 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at 1 lam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. 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Cincinnati, 425-7882 5635 East 71st. 492-7140 Saint John Trinity 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You In another development, the Gay civil-lights group ArciGay called for the resignation of Premier Giuliano Amato for hi s remarks before parlianlent earlier in the week.. Amato said that "unfoftnnately" the Gay Pride week week must be allowed to be held because of constitutional protection for public gatherings. Gays Losing Supporter ST. PAUL (AP) - State Sen. Allan Spear, who is retiring after 28 years, will probably be remembered for work that took "probably less than 10% of my time" - his advocacy of rights and protections for Gays and Lesbians. "Nobody can get elected and adequatelyserve a constituency on Gay,~ssues alone,: Spear said..",But it’s important to have people for whom Gay i~su~s are a~hi.gh priority." . " Spear became the first openly Gay legislator in Mimlesota- and one of only two in the nation - when he acknowledged his homosexuality in 1974. His retirement at the end of this year will likely leave just one openly Gay legislator: Rep. Karen Clark, DFLMinneapolis. Scott Dibble, who is running for a House seat in Minneapolis, is also Gay, but there would be no openly Gay senators. Spear believes ~t is important for Gay people to have legislative representation. "It helps a lot to have someone come from the Gay community who can speak from the inside," said Spear, DFL-Minneapolis. "You need someone who can talk about what it’ s like growing up Gay, or coming out, or what it’ s like to deal with a partner who you feel is your spouse, but society won’ t recognize as your spouse. Other people can sp,,eak out on those issues, but it isn’ t quite the sanle, Ann DeGroot, executive director of the Gay political action group OutFront Minnesota, said part of Spear’s legacy will be other legislators who can. advocate for Gay rights, whether they’re Gay or not. "Of course we’ re going to miss Allan," she said. "We haven’t had a session without him yet. "But we’ve worked with other people so much, other leaders who are supporters, we know we can count on them.?’ Gay.& Lesbian Parents TroUbled by State Law LOUISVILLE, Ky. (AP) - Chris and Mike CroghanMiller are like other parents, caring and proud. They videotaped their son’ s birth, took time off from work when he was born, and in the weeks before, had an announcement party, a baby shower, painted the "baby room" and spent days with a ~erious case of "the butterflies." But there is one difference some say makes them unfit parents - they’re Gay. Advocates argue that the bottom line is a good home for the child that meets the requirements set by the state. "We don’t care whether they’ re married, single or Gay," said Carolyn Amett, contract attorney "for Adoptions of Kentucky. "We don’ t discriminate." Kentucky Youth Advocates’ director Debra Miller said the concern should be "that any child is adopted by parents who have the emotional and social support necessary to be good parents. We don’t think that there’s anything constitutional that makes a Gay or Lesbian parent unable to do that. Nor is there anything that guarantees that heterosexual folk can be good parents." The Croghan-Mil!er. family is part of aboom ~ ~t~e numbe~ Of Gays ~d Les~iafls ~fi~osin~’to’becSth~e parents, according to the San Diego-based Family Pride Coalition. Though state officials and private adoption agencies in Kentucky don’ t keep any estimates on how many Gay men or Lesbian~ have adopted here, the San Diego group claims 15,000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered families as members, including dozens in Louisville. ¯ And across the nation, cases of adoption and custody issues involving Gays and Lesbians have become increasingly visible. Most recently, Mississippi joined Florida and Utah in banning adoptions by Gays, despite arguments that it is an unconstitutional violation of due process and privacy rights. The Cabinet for Families and Children has recently proposed changes that would "make our system more accepting to a broad variety of families," said Mike Jennings, a cabinet spokesman. But the change is not being made specifically out of consideration for Gay and Lesbian couples. Gay Teens Face Harassment & Isolation MILLERSVILLE, Pa. (AP) - During her junior and senior years in high school Lilith visited the hospital seven times for severe depression, self-mutilation and thoughts of suicide. She was trying to destroy hersdf, she said. Destroy the thing within her that was making her different from her classmates. Lilith is Gay and, during her early teen years, the thought of being a Lesbian "practically .disguste0, ". her. ~he denied it, ran from it, ti-ied to erie it’f~om.!,i~ ~ soul!, but her affeeti0n for bilker ffomen w~ beCrn{i~ impossible to ignor~ Lilith ~ Who, f0( pi-i~acy #~aI- i sons, chose a fictitious name for this story - is now 20, a full-time college student and a self-assured Lesbian woman. But, she says, her high school years were rough. Like many Gay youth, Lilith suffered through harassment and lack of acceptance, feelings of isolation, and self-imposed silence. Gay teens are twice as likely as heterosexual youth to seriously consider suicide because they feel adrift in an unsupportive world. Overall, the nonheterosexual population (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered) is 5-10%, said Brad Becker, executive director of the Gay & Lesbian National Hotline. High school percentages are likely the same, but surveys are skewed because most teens are not comfortable answering gender-preference questions. In addition, many have yet to figure out their sexuality, he said. "They may not be identified as Gay,, said Becker. "They know something is different but have yet to pinpoint their sexuality.". "Teens begin feeling their sexuality around the age of 13," said Linnea Bailey, a Lancaster psychologist who specializes in Gay and Lesbian issues. "So much of being a teen is exploring sexuality. If they realize they are not part of the norm, it can be frightening. They know that those who are different get picked on." Gay and Lesbian youth commonly struggle with self-esteem issues and may withdraw from family and friends. They often skip school and may eventually drop out in search of an accepting peer group. If they do come out and continue in school, they risk being harassed or beaten by those with differing bdiefs. In an average school day, says the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, the typical Gay teen will hear 26 anti-Gay remarks. And, one in six Gay youths are beaten so badly they seek medical attention. "The last acceptable form of overt prejudice is against Gays," Bailey said. "It’s still extremely bad in the public school systems." Most Gay teens wait to come out until they are in college or the work world. There tends to be greater diversity and less peer pressure. "Often it’ s the first time they are away from home and family," said Anthony Lascoskie Jr., coordinator of the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Allies at Franklin & Marshall Colleg_e and .treasurer of the Pink Triangle Coalition. "They can be Gay at school and straight at home." Boys typically come out at age 18; gifts, 23. Julian, a 19-year-old Millersville student, came out the summer before his junior year of high school by writing a letter to a trusted faculty member. During his junior year he began telling his friends. J~ian.said most of his friends were OK with his sexuality, but some faded away. And although there were no physical attacks, there were plenty of verbal attacks. - Bailey said~lack of- peer suPport is.the, one of the worst koadblbcks for ~ay teer~sl During a time When support is most important, there is typically very little. "Imagine dating as a Gay teen-ager," she said. "If you break up with a same-sex partner, there’ s no support. Who do you go to to talk about it? There is so much loneliness and isolation." �Black Church To Fight AIDS Harder "It’ s not a perfect vaccine, but it is the best candidate we have now," said Dr. Peter F. Wright, also of Vanderbilt. Side affects of the vaccine can include mild fever and mnsde soreness. There is no chance of getting infected with HIV, Graham said. "We’ re not at all worried about safety," Graham said. Vanderbilt’ s research is supported by an annllal grant of $2 million from the .federal gov emment which is good through 2005. If this year’s tests are successful, large-scale trials will be done in 2001. TUSKEGEE, Ala. (AP) - Black ~hurch leaders, trying to overcome policy differences in their efforts to combat AIDS~ have gathered in Tuskegee to try to put together a plan of action. More than 300 bishops, pastors, priests and laymen from across the nation and as far away as Africa tookpart the last week in May in the AIDS Conference for Black Churches at Tuskegee University. Black churches have been Slow to take on AIDS because of the stigma associated with frank discussion of sex, drugs and homosexuality in church, church leaders said. There is also disagreement over isMOSCOW (AP)- Registered HIV cases sues such as the distribution of condoms in Russia are snowballing and the cashand needle-exchange programs. "This strapped government is too poor to conhesitationis killing our people," U.S. Surfront the health crisis, a senior health geon General David Satcher told the conofficial said in May. "That means people ference in a videotaped statement. will simply die without treatment," said Blacks accounted for 45% of all AIDS Vadim Pokrovsky, the head of the Federal cases reported in the United States in AIDS Prevention Center. 1998, according to federal data. Africa is Last year, 18,140 new cases of infechome to 23.3 million of the world’ s 33.6 tion with HIV - the virus that causes million infected people, said Dr. Helene ¯ MDS - were registered; that’s dose to Gayle, head of the AIDS center at the U.S. half of all the HIV cases registered in Centers for Disease Control and PrevenRussia since 1987. Pokrovsky told anews tion. Within a decade, she said, there will conference that at least a two-fold inbe 40 million orphans in Africa because crease is expected this year, and that the of the disease. registered number of cases are likely only Church leaders and AIDS experts said one-fifth to one-tenth of the real number. their efforts likely will focus ottxeaching ’q’hat means that the real number of HIV teens and young adults. The Rev. Calvin cases may reach 300,000-400,000 by the Butts III, president of the Council of ~.nd of this year. By 2005 we may have Churches of the City of New York, said about 1 million cases, under an optimistic churches must teach sex education. "Un~ scenario," he said. less we learn to talk about it, we’re not Intravenous drug users aecountformost going to solve the problem of AIDS," he of the new HIV cases, but the virus is said. "You can’t be hypocritical about rapidly spreading through sexual contacts, this, because it’ s killing us." Other leaders Pokrovsky said. "In some regions around said churches should boost outreach efMoscow up to 5% of all young people forts in jails and prisons. Nearly one-fifth have AIDS," he said. "According to other of people who are HIV-positive will be estimates, up to 15% of Moscow prostiincarcerated at some point in their lives, tutes are infected with HIV." according to CDC data. The relatively small number of offiPernes sa Seele, founder of The Balm in cially registered HIV cases has prompted Gilead Inc., the organization that spona negligent attitude in the government, sored the conference, said church leaders which has been slow to earmark funds for must provide better counseling and care combatting the disease. Officials have to people with AIDS. "Church folk are sometimes hampered privately funded Gay folk, they are.., straight folk. We’re AIDS prevention efforts. TV ads and billall family," she said. "But some people boards promoting the use of condoms justdon’ tgetit. We’ ve got to tear down all have disappeared after authorities comthese barriers." plained they were harming public morals, ¯ Pokrovsky said. Currently, only the relatively rich Mos¯ cow city government can fully pay the bill ¯ for treating AIDS patients, while other NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) - Vanderbilt ¯ regions provide only a fracdon of funds University Medical Center will work with ¯ needed to pay for expensive treatment. According to Pokrovsky, a modern the nation of Haiti to test a vaccine for AIDS. The research hospital is seeking ¯ course of treatment for AIDS comes only 150 local volunteers for testing in Nash- ¯ a fraction cheaper than in the West, beville this summer. Tests begin in Haiti in ¯ causemostdrugs are imported. Suchtreat¯ ment costs about $10,000 per patient, he the fall. .’,~It’~s:important-for,the.science of vac- ’ ~aid,~ a hefty sum a’or ~the.economicalIy cine development to embrace the devel- ¯ struggling nation. "The nmnber of paoping world, where most of the AIDS ¯ dents will be so high, that only few of burden is now," said Dr. Barney S. Gra- ¯ them will get treatment," he said. "No ham ofVanderbilt~ s AIDS Vaccine Evalu- ¯ more than 10% of the patients may count ation’Unit. "We’re veery excited about ¯ on receiving treatment." workilig with Haiti." Vanderbiltis 0neof five medical centerg in °be:United States testing a vaccine ADAP, the AIDS Drug Assistance Probased on a virus which ca°mot reproduce . gram is working but is severely in mammals - the canary pox virus. Sci¯ underfunded. OKAIDS Netis asking that entist splice genes for inactive HIV pro¯ the following legislators be asked to supteins into the canary pox virus, and inject , port more funding in the next session. it into the volunteers. If it works, the Write: Senators Stratton Tayltr, Ben vaccine will stimulate the body’ s immune ¯ Robinson, Angela Monson, Cal Hobson, defenses into action, including the pro¯ Enoch Kelly Haney and Representatives duction of a white Mood cell that can ¯ Loyd Benson, and Bob Weaver at State dispose of HIV-infected cells to prevent it Capitol, 2300 No. Lincoln, OKC 730105. from spreading inthe body. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law :Russia Too Poor to Fight AIDS CriSis AIDS Vaccine to Be Tested in Haiti ¯ OK AIDS Network An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appoinlmenls are available. Tulsa City County Library System is proud to support Humanity Unites for Human Ri£!hts Diversity Celebration 2000 and presents Not All Fruits are Oranges: the Roots, Branches & Produce of the Gay & Lesbian Literary Grove by Dr. T. Alan Culpepper, Ph.D. Visiting Assistant Professor.of English~ Rogers State University Tuesday, June 13, 7pm, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Library Look for the Library Booth at the Millenium Festival and check with Central Library for books and videos of interest to Gay & Lesbian readers, families and friends. �at Southwest Missouri State University in when i dare to be powerful to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it be Qm Sptingfield. tmpo ant whether i am afraid. / ¯..audre Iorde / please oin )Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights in welcoming Dr. Margarethe Cammermeyer and Mr. Greg Louganis as guest speakers ,--of.the "Humanity Unites for Human Rights" 0 "DIVERSITY CELEBRATION 20001" black-tie (optional) benefit dinner and silent auction Friday, June 9, 2000 The Summit Club 6th & Boulder Tulsa, Oklahoma (free parking in Bank of America tower) VIP Reception; 7:00 PM / $50 per person Reception: 7:00 PM Silent Auction: 7:00 -- 9:00 PM _ Dinner:,8:00 PM/,$75 per person $550 / table of eight - ~:~ $750 /.table of eight & VIP reception for ticket information, please see enclosure I "When I think of Ozark County, I always think of how the sheriff did not have a car until 1937," he said. "The rivers weren’t bridged and there was no real road system developed." Outlaws looking for cover in the backwoods - including such notorious villains as Bonnie and Clyde and Jesse James - were drawn to the area for those reasons, Flanders said. Religious~based groups, typically those who shun the doctrines of mainstream churches, appreciate the quiet and reserved nature of fellow Ozarkers. ’’There is a long tradition in the hills that you live and let live, no matter how weird the beliefs of your neighbors might be," Flanders said. Both Springfield and Bransonhave seen national and regional supremacy conventions in the last year. In February, some 225 people gathered in Branson for the third annual convention of the Identity group Songs for His People. "You’ re tight in the middle of the Bible Belt, which plays an important role in the culture there," said Devin Burghart of the Chicag0-based Identity watchdog group, Center for New Commlmity. ’‘These guys come strolling along singing songs andholding Bibles, which allows them a certain degree of legitimacy in the area. But behind it all is still the same message of hate and intolerance," he said. Christian Identity espouses white Anglo-Saxon virtues and calls Jews, racial minorities and Gays enemies of God. S6me members believe in death sentences for those who violate "’God’ s law." In August, Identity follower Buford Furrow Jr. allegedly killed a FilipinoAmerican postal worker and wounded five others after opemng fire on a Jewish day-care center in Los Angeles. A month earlier, two brothers-also Identity adherents - allegedly killed a Gay couple in California and set fire to several synagogues. Through the 1980s, the Identity movement became associated with other extremist groups, including The Order, the Ku Klux Klan and The Covenant, the Sword, and the Arm of the Lord, or CSA. Many residents here say they have felt intimidated by supremacist groups like CSA and Winrod’ s church. Most define to be interviewed or ask not to be identified for fear of retaliation. "These guys would wear fatigues and walkinto the post office with guns swapped to their waists," said Tim Morgan, owner of a marina in Pontiac, a town of fewer than 300 not far from Gainesville. "They were intimidating because they were so military-looking." Winrod’ s church, called Our Savior’ s, consisted-mostly~ ofhi~ adult ehilO*en, their families and a few other followers. The sheriff said he began distributing his racist mailings to every county resident. "People Wouldcall and Complainabout it, but there is nothing we could do- he had First Amendment tights ," Bartlett said. "We could only keep an eye on him." Now, Winrod is accused along with two of his children of abducting his grandchildren from their North Dakota hometowns in 1994 and 1995. Their mothers are M.ready serving ptison terms for kidnapping. At ~ pretrial court, appearance Thursday, Wiurod said he did not have an attorney The court has given him until June 13 to either retain counsel or waive his tight to representation. A preliminary hearing on the case was set for June 21. Authorities fear the Wiurod case will attract attention from other affiliated groups. ’‘There are groups like this all over the country, people who maybe aren’ t. closely affiliated with one another but who share similar beliefs, and they decide they want to come and get involved in these situations," Said Elmore, the highway patrol sergeant. "We don’ t want that to happen this time." On the Net: Southern Poverty Law Center: http://www.splcenter.org ~ Center for New Community: http://www.newcomm.org Yet again, he dismissed these basic protecdons as "special tights ." In addition, he has sided with the extreme wing of his Party and refused to endorse the Fmployment Non-Discrimination Act (F_aNDA). ENDA would put an end to discrimination against Gay men and Lesbians in the workplace - discrimination that is currenfly legal in 39 states. AI Gore and the Democratic Party have fought vigorously for ENDA because we believe in the tight of every American to be judged on his or her merits and abilities, and to be allowed to contribute to society without facing discrimination on the basis of sexual ori_-_ entation. As President, AI Gore also would continue President Clinton’ s Executive Order prohibiting discrimination based on. sexual orientation in the federal civilian workforce. Facing aRepublican challenge to the Executive Order, Clinton and Gore worked with Representative Barney Frank and other fair-minded Members of Congress to defeat the Republicans’ and-Gay amendment with the support of over 90 percent of Congressional Democratsl We need leaders likeAl Gore who will speak out against homophobia and prejudice in a fight to maintain civil justice and equality. Through his actions and the actions of his party,it is clear that George W. Bush is not that leader. There is every indication that he would make no room for Gays and Lesbians in his White House. As we celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride, Democrats pledge our support and continued work to promote equal~opportunity and non-discrimination for a strong and umted America. As a Party, we embrace these ideals because we believe that no .aanetican should be left behind. An interpreter for the deaf will be provided. - The Rev. Mel.White heads, Soulforce, Inc., a non-profit organization that runs an ecumenical network of volunteers committed to the teachings and applying the principles of nonviolent civil .disobedience on behalf of sexual minorities. Rev. White has relendessly devoted his life to heal the wounds caused by: the anti-Gay rhetoric and to enter into dialogue with the faith organizations that perpetuate hatred and violence toward sexual minotifies. In the past year, Rev. White has led "direct actions" with Rev. Jerry Falwell, the trial of Rev. Jimmy Creech, and most recently, the General Assembly of the United Methodist Church. Shortly after visiting Tulsa, Rev. White will lead a delegation see Pride, p. 8~ Pr �by Jim Christjohn, mac guru & more dip of the show, s beginning, shown at the Brachetti is coming! No, it’ s not a piece press conference, it begins with a mysteof toast with herbs and tomatoes on it, it’ s rious masked man removing his mask to reveal yet another mask underneath, conArturo Brachetti, the quick-change artist. Think "Greater Tuna" meets Robin Willtinuing for some time. iams while doing David Copperfield’s Just that brief dip spoke to me of the act. fact that we all wear so many masks from Greater Tuna had two guys doing quick day to day, ,to the point where the real changes to create ,the ,22 characters of,a person becomes buried over ume. It s.eems to me, that his show is about removing the small mythi.cal town; Artur9 is one man crearii~g 88characters during the course masks of adulthood so that We can free the child trapped within, (but then agaifi, I’ m0 of an evening ~-grom cowboys to geishas a psychology maand barmaids to "... Deserlbed as Versaee on Royal Mounties, jor, and can read he is a very charmdeep insight into hyper speed, Braehettl changes anything). lng man - and costumes at lightning fast speed, I will say that handsome as well. He speaks at least sequence is very transforming into more than 80 powerful, and can three languages characters and giving llfe to fluently, and has a only imagine what therest of the show mischievous sense legions of personalities. of humor rivaling must be like. His show is a multl-medla Brachetti hopes to yours truly. restore the wonder Described as ~xtravaganza, eomblnlng Versace on hyper of the world as comedy, tousle, magle, and video seen from the eyes speed, Brachetti of kids. He alterchanges costumes in a unique collage of aetlng, nated as he spoke, at lightning fast storytelling, stunts from well-eduspeed, transformcated adult to imping into more than and earleature . . ." ish child. 80 characters and He’ll eventugiving life to leally play S_an Francisco (the costumes will gions of personalities. His show is a multigo over big there) and New York, as well media extravaganza, combining comedy, as Chicago. Brachetti arrives in Tulsa at music, magic, and video in a unique colthe PAC courtesy of Celebrity Attractions lage of acting, storytelling, stunts and August 6-13 and to OKC at the Rose State caricature. He is the winner of the 2000 Performing Arts Theater august 15-21. Moliere Award (the French "Tony" Tickets can be had by calling 596-7111. award), and a delightfully impish fellow. I don. t know if he’ s Gay, but I will tell Add a little Cirque De Soleil t~ that you now, the costumes that Brachetti demixture above, too. I had the chance to speak with him signed and created rival any elaborate Bette Midler/Cher/Drag Queen extravabefore one of his sold out shows in Paris, ganza. Did I mention he’ s cute, designs a France. A U.S. tour is planned for 2001, but his first stop for a very limited engagemean frock, inhis mid thirties (he’ s cagey about his age) and single? Me first, guys ! ment, is here in Tulsa. When asked, "Why Tulsa?" he responded, "Well, you have to For’those Goddess worshipers out there, I am pleased to announce Goddess: Tulsa start somewhere!" He spoke of it being the "center of the United States" and as Artists’ Coalition Women’ s Show 2000, sponsored by TAC and The University of such, a good place to begin. tie spoke of the Italian art of"transforTulsa School of Art. It features Goddessthemed artwork, and the exhibit goes up mation" as not having been seen in thirty years. It had its origins in the 17th century June 8 and runs through July 7th. The opening is from 5-8pm June 8, and the as an offshoot of the commedia del’ artr. According to Brachetti, Giovanni regular gallery .hours are 9am-4:30pm Gabrielli was the originator of "transforMon. - Thurs. and 9am-noon Friday. The gallery is in TU’ s Alexander Hogue Galmarion," performing all the characters of lery at 5th Street and College Avenue. the commedia del’ arte single-handedly, And for those wondering, Stevie Nicks, changing masks and characters all by himnew album "Trouble In Shangri-La" is on self. permanent delay, as usual Apparently, I asked him what prompted him to create such a show-, and his response was that there are trouble in the Shangri-La recording studio in which she’ s been working he was doing some add-on acts for a with a revolving doorful of producers production of "Midsummer Night’s Dream" (French pr~oductions often thro,w_ .since ,!997. Have fun at the Diversity. Celebrations, ~_nd be safe! ’ ¯ extra scenes ifffor fun), which led to him creating a one man show in which he played all the parts, an embryonic version of his current two hour plus show, for an arts festival. We’ ve seen it before. The horror of the A later version of the show, largely ship’ s sinking never quite made it onstage. autobiographical, opened in June ’99 in You’ re more bothered by the horror of Montreal. Selling out every night, he evenhaving paid to see this show. The songs, tually took the show to Paris. There was for the most part, are mawkishly written, no advertising budget, and the first week, they had to find people just to sit in the stealing from everyone imaginable - Gilbert and Sullivan, Lloyd Webber, audience. After that first week, however, Sondheim. Few original ideas are in the word of mouth started and the show exploded. music, which is a pity. This is portrayed as Brachetti would like audiences to leave homage, but basically, it seems Yeston the show different from when they enjust couldn’t come up with anything on tered. He said that the show speaks to the his own. Want something better? Wait for eight year old child witltin all of us. In the Rent later this summer. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men s Support Group is here for you! ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~/k~ ,-~/~.~/ Evening support group meetings Relationship workshops Short trips, outings and retreats Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Call JOHN RAGAN, the friendly, caring real estate agent who understands your special needs! 918-583-2125 800-559-1558 wrvw.NewNest.com �MINI-MOVIE FESTIVAL Thursday, June 8th A Mini-Movie Festival will run throughout the day on a 60" screen at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center. The Community Center is located on the corner of 38th and Peoria (above Boulevards). Popcorn and refreshments will be available. Admission is free. Schedule: 1:00 pro, Lilies 3:00 pm, Beautiful Thing 5:00 pm, It’ s In The Water 7:00 pro, Broadway Damage 9:00 pm, Everything Relative by James Christjohn ~ ¯ of Soulforce members on a direct action I’m not sure which is the greater trag- " to the General Assembly of the Presbyteedy: the sinking of the ship and its afterrian Church U.S.A. as they debate the math - or the creation and execution of " inclusion of Gays and Lesbians in that this musical. Don’t get me wrong, the " denomination. performances were OK, for the most part, Organizational sponsors include: some were excellent, and there were a few Soulforce in Oklahoma (presenting sponsongs that made the show somewhat worth sor) Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights the time it took to watch it. But it was a (presenting sponsor) Community of Hope remarkable example of how easy it is to Church, Commimity Unitarian/Universalget Tony Awards these days. ist Congregation Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa At the time this disaster (the musical) Fellow ship Congregational Church, Green Black Tie Benefit struck, it was the only original American Country Society of Friends (Quakers), Friday, June 9th musical offering on Broadway. EveryMetropolitan Community Church United TOHR offers the opportunity to meet thing else was Lloyd Webber (i.e., En(MCC), Parents, Families and Friends of Margarethe Cammermeyer and Greg glish) or French. So, to get a Tony, you Lesbians and Gays in Tulsa (PFLAGLouganis at a VIP Reception at 7 pm in the need to: 1. merely be American; 2. write a Tulsa), Parish Church of St. Jerome, ReGrille Room at The Summit Club on the musical: 3. base it on something historigional AIDS Interfaith Network of Okla31 st floor. The Summi t Club is located in cal, but only superficially. Take known homa (RAIN-OK), and Volunteers in the Bank of America Building at 15 West names and make up cartoonish characters Action Committee of All Soul’s Unitar6th Street. Free parking available in the to go with them; 5. even if what you write ian Church as wall as others. building. Admission is $50. An Open is unfocused and mediocre, if there are no Soulforce Workshop Reception and Silent Auction will begin other Americans writing musicals, you’ll Saturday, June 3rd at 7 pm at The Summit Club on the 31st get a Tony. floor. All proceeds will benefit TOHR’ s A Soulforce Workshop led by Rev. Md If you’ re wanting a mildly entertaining White will be held at the Charles Norman fight for GLBT equality in this region. evening with some really bad staging, Studio at the Performing Arts Center at 2 The Benefit Dinner begins at 8 pm at scenery, and costumes that dwarf the set, pro. Rev. White and his partner, Gary The Summit Club on the 30th floor. Guest and NO historical accuracy (other than speakers are Margarethe Cammermeyer Nixon, will provide training in the printhe fact_the ship sank), by all means waste ciples of M.K. Gandhi and Martin Luther and Greg Louganis. Please join TOHR in your money. King, Jr. as part of the non-violence juspresenting its wall-deserved "CommuThe show itself is historically inaccutice movement. The workshop will last nity Hero" awards to three high school rate to the point of sheer ridiculousness. until 5 p.m. Admissionis free. students who have shown extraordinary That wouldn’ t be such a peeve with me if courage in dealing with their sexuality: TOHR Follies 2000 the marketing weren’ t hyping it as being Will Allen, Emily Sisemore, and MatSaturday, June 3rd historically accurate, claiming the "story thew Holloway. An interpreter for the ¯he bawdy humor and sentimental is told truthfully" and that "historical acdeaf will be provided. songs of the TOHR Follies returns at 8 pm curacy of Titanic (the musical) makes it Tickets are available for the VIP Reat the Doenges Theatre, PAC. Join a host an ideal show for parents to share with ception and the Benefit Dinner by "calling of performers and singers celebrate your school age children." Only if the parents 743.4297, or by mailing ticket requests to favorite show tunes from a "100 years of wish to point out how inaccurate the marTOHR, P.O. Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101, Broadway." Elaborate productions from keting can be and musicals hyped as hisor by dropping by the Center on the corner the timeless works of Rodgers & torically accurate aren’ t. And it wouldn’ t of 38th and Peoria between 6 pm and 9 pm Hammerstein, Stephen Sondheim, Jerome be so bad if the actual stories - as told in Sundays through Friday and Noon to 9 Kern, Andrew Lloyd Webber, and Charlie the transcripts of the inquiries, easily come pm on Saturday. Smalls will entertain you. A Reception by in paperback form - were as dramatic Millennium Pride Parade will follow in the Charles Norman Studio as you can get. The), didn’ t need to ~nake Saturday, June 10th with catering provided by Curt & Marj’ s. up half of what the,’,’ did. The Millennium Pride Parade will beAdmission is $15 each. Tickets will be Thorn Sesma, who portrays Thomas ffin at 11 am at the Tulsa Gay Community sold through the Performing Arts Center Andrews, the Titanic’s Designer, sang Services Center at 38th and Peoria. Grethe Ticket Office beginning around May 3rd. like he had a mouthful of marbles. He Cammermeyer and Greg Louganis will Call the PAC for ticket information at seemed to have a speech impediment, serve as Co-Grand Marshals. Organizers 596.7111 .or 800.364.7111 or buy your making it hard to understand what he was claim it will be bigger and more colorful tickets online at www.tulsapac.com. saying. And you know, if you’ re on stage, than before. The Parade will follow the Entertainers: Sedackeiry Taylor evenifyouaremic’ d, DON’T MUMBLE. same route as last year from the Center to Alexander, Johnny Cronin, Domoniqne This was.,rampant during the evening.... Veteran’ S Park at 18tk and Main. Daniels, Veronica De,core, Vivian One man, whose Iin~s throdghout Deveroe ::.Fontaine, Green ~Country Drop-offpoints are set along the Parade song ~ere "Not a ibit not .a aide ~Oogg,e.rs, DanHale, Miitthew Holloway, Route this year. Buses!shuttles will begin ¯ repeated ad.~auseum, s~,t~a,.d..ed~!jke"Noti!’: ~H~’l.~a’..~s Horribles, KriS Kohl~.CeCe.. ~ ~mn’mg at 8!30 a;m, Please park your : bitch, not a,iittl~ bitch. ~ I ldd.you noti.. ¯ ~roi,x,~taRichards,Tabith9Tayl0r,--: veliid~ at Veteran s Park and catch ~e Marcus ~:Ch.a,it, who" played, stoker ." T~aT Neill, ’Victoria Turelie,:R~becea . bu~ofShtittleonthenorthsideofVeteran s Fredefiek.~.~tt,. ~d"a ,:bi~athless fali U.ngermah,.ahd Komona Wannaliiya, -.’Park. --’There is no charge to ride the bus/ setto q0altty-that .s~ded:lik¢ .an All events tke!d at the Performing Arts shu..tt!e. ment ~betw.’.,e~n MiChael ~Ct~w.ford,aniti.~ Center are fundedin part b~r a grant-from Andy Gibb. Even though he Was nile d tO FESTIVAL the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trnst. the hilt (as all were), y.oo, coul~l underSaturday, June 10th stand him at times, due to his breathless uNIi"ED - An Art Exhibit The Millennium Pride Festival (for"Phantom of the Opera/Michael merly the Picnic) will begin at 11 am at Tuesday, June 6th Crawford’~ style of singing. His vibrato Veteran’s Park. There will be dose to An Art Exhibit entitled "United" will was annoying as well, distracting from fifty booths, as well as food vendors, beer have an opening reception at the Recepone of the most powerful songs in the and soft drinks, and lots of activities. !ion Hall of All Soul’ s Unitarian Church show. When he whispers, you can’ t hear Margarethe Cammermeyer and Greg beginning at 6 pm. Wine and soft drinks him, when he belts, he reveals a glorious Louganis will give the opening remarks. ~vill be available. Hors d’ oeurves will be voice, a wonderful tenor. TOHR’ s "Community Hero" awards will fPrrOVided by TW Catering. Admission is Timothy A. Fitzgerald, as Fleet, the be given to three courageous local teenagee. All Souls Unitarian Church is lolookout spotting the iceberg, has the most ers: Will Alien, Matthew Holloway, and cated at 2952 South Peoria. wonderful voice, perfect for the song "No Emily Sisemore. Entertainment go on all Artists: Otto Decker, John Duvall, Jody Moon", arguably the best song in the afternoon and into the evening. A sixteenEllison, Dana Gilpin, P.S. Gordon David show, and the most haunting. Lyrically, team volleyball tournament will run Halpern, Isaac Harper, Ken Johnston, it’s one of the better moments, and throughout the day on three volleyball Elizabeth Joyner, Kraig Kallenberger, C. Fitzgerald handles it with grace and beauty, courts. There is also a Celebrity Dunk Lynn Mallett, Kathleen Pendergrass, Mary which he has plenty of in terms of stage Tank with Audra Sommers, Dyke Divine Schepers; Kelley Vandiver, David presence. Pity the authors did away with and David from gay.tulsa.org, Tom Neal Vamecky & others. the other lookout (one of those little inacof Tulsa Family News, Marty Newman of curacies); "No Moon" would have been the Human Rights Campaign, and more. awesome as a duet. The standout performances were the three Kates, immigrants in steerage revealing their dreams of a new life America. Meiissa Bell, Kristi Barber, Kate Jetmore were excellent in the" gest roles in the play. They had the successful song in the show in term revealing character and furtheriv story, revealing the hopes and dre: the immigrants of the time. Tom Gamblin, in my opinion the su c, gest male actor, was an excdlent foil and future husband as Jim Farrell, who Kate Murphy decides will be her husband. It is their story which is the most effective in a show that tries to tell the story from too many perspectives. It was their characters I actually cared for, and it was their moments that worked in an otherwise dismal script. The ragtime song,"Autumn," and a few other songs were memorable for their melodies. That’ s about all that can be said for them. The book, well, I say keep a couple of lines that were humorous, and start over. I was disappointed. It seemed like an inventive premise, and one which could have made hi story entertaining. The staging was weak, particularl y when the iceberg was sighted by the one lookout. The set did tilt at the end (like we’ ve never seen that before), but the set was mosdy made up of very inaccurately drawn and painted drops that looked like something out of a high school production. After Jekyll and Hyde’s detailed lab, Beauty and the Beast’s castles and villages, Titanic’ s drop-heavy scenery was a bit of a letdown. On Broadway, the show had a three levd set, making several of the numbers quite different. Here we were treated to awkwardly stage numbers, wlfich basically left the cast walking in circles representing different levels and areas of the ship, which ended up quite muddled ~n terms of telling who was where on the ship. At one point, as characters were stepping in and out and around, it became quite ridiculous. The tableau, which was originally to have shown the ship striking the iceberg, was nothing more than a very small model of the ship, with lights, pulled across the stage - no ice in sight. The model boat, lit up :with Chxistmas lights, being pulled across the stage was quite humorous. And the promisedcollision tableau, hyped beforetheshow opened on Broadway, is still missing. . . I really liked the cheesy and totally hilarious flame effect of the boiler room furnaces. This little .bit of very Obvious white dothbeing blown upwards by a fan, not even dose to the scale of what the flames in those boilers must have been like. Now I’m quite willing to suspend disbelief, but this went far beyond what could be expected. It looked like these big burly men were shoveling coal onto bic lighters. I was rolling with laughter. Yeston al so says "the music is the scenery." Well, ithas to be, since apparently they couldn’ t afford paint or artists from the look of it. The drops seemed to come in at the wrong scenes, particularly in the opening. I understand theatre is representational by nature, but here we’ re dealing with a very famous boat. The problem with the show is that it tries to tell too many stories, and because of that, it’ s hard to really care about any of the characters, who are portrayed as caricatures anyway. At the end, you just don’ t care. OK, the set rises at one end on hydraulics, see Titanic, p. 8 �ologist Emile Durkheim remarked that by Lamont ]~indstrom, Ph.D. Vexillology. There’s an arcane word " totems are sacred just because they stand for you. It means the "study of flags." : for the group. Our human societies exist Thousands of rainbow flags are soon to ¯ before any one of us is born, and they will continue after we die. Sowave as we enter the season of Gay Pride celebraBecause flags stand ciety, thus, is "supernatural." We make into a god tion. Gay flags, like Gay Pride, are fairly recent infor group, Gays had what has shaped us and what sustains us as indiventions. Gilbert Baker no need for a flag viduals. But it’s hard to sewed up the first rainbow grasp concepts so abstract. flag for the 1978 Gay Freedom Celebration in San until we conceived of Instead, we focus our feelings and .affiliations upon Francisco. ourselves ~1~ ~t Over the past two dethe totem - the sacred being whose material form is cades, Freedom has made_ eolleetlve --or a the flag. way for Pride and the rainWe are good at creatbow flag has lost some ¯ eommumty as ing solidarities - only hustripes. Baker’s original creationboasted~eight col- some of us llke to say. man groups_ often define themselves largely by opors, each of which repreBaker’s needlework posing themselves to some sented a fine ideal: orange other. We pledge alleis healing; yellow the sun; in 1978 signified giance tO our own totem as green is nature and blue a symbol of ourselves. And art: indigo means harmony the transformation we express distaste for our while violet stands for enemies by despoiling of homosexuality spirit: redis life and, last their flags, as Palestiuians, but notleast,pink symbolfrom a psyckologleal Israelis, and members of .1zes sex. various high school bands Pink went first. A comcondition to a are wont to do. pany Baker approached to It is pretty clear produce his flag commerpolitical identity. Durkheim was right about dally couldn’t locate any that sacredness. We have pink nylon. ¯ fervent Congressmen in Washington each And the next year, when the San Francisco parade committee adopted the flag ¯ year in a frenzy to outlaw sinful desecraas a symbol, symmetry required yet an- ¯¯ tions of the American flag. Perversely, some South Caroliniansjusother reduction. The parade decorator demanded that the route feature three colors ¯¯ tifyofficial display oftherebel Confederon the left and another three colors on the ¯ ate flag as mere historical commemoration. But everyone knows that echoes of right. Indigo disappeared. In its short lifetime, the rainbow flag has lost both sex ¯¯ their antebellum religion are also at work here. and harmon.y. Something of a .parable, Because flags stand for group, Gays perhaps, of modem Gay life. Archaeologists have dug up flag-like ¯¯ had no need for a flag until we conceiv~l symbols from civilizations in both Old of ourselves as a collective - or a "comWorld and New. Humans, from our be- " mlmity" as some of us like to say. Baker’ s ginmngs, have imagined a variety of sym- ; needlework in 1978 signified the transbolic objects to represent social groups. . formation of homosexuality from a psychological condition to a political idenAnthropologists call a symbol that stands for a group a "totem." Since this time, we have put into play Today’ s flag clearly derives from these various other symbols, including pink and original totems..In many societies, aniblack triangles borrowed from Nazi prison mals are the preeminent totemic figure, wear, the Lambda character from the Greek andanimal totems surviveinto the present. alphabet, and the red ribbon. Small town businesspersons divide up Of these, the rainbow stretches the farinto coteries of Elks, Lions, and Moose. thest. I have seen rainbow flags unfurled Andthink of the Britishlion, or the Ameriin Japan, Hong Kong, New Zealand, Den-. can eagle, or the Canadian loon, or the mark, andbeyond. Theflag’ s global spread California bear. And don’ t forget the Gay testifies to the rise of a transnational gay bear. These totems decorate our flags and community. Think of this as flags parade our money. A variety of things besides animals b~this summer. Long may the rainbows symbolize groups. The rainbow is an arwave on our totem poles. Lament Lindstrom teaches anthropolchetypal totem that we share with Austra= lian Aboriginal bands among various other ogy at the University oJ Tulsa. peoples around the world..Rainbows are syi~b01ic~dl~ p~tentl~0~ in nature and in a number of religious traditions. Some folks complain about a Gay appropriation of the_rainbow., tote.m~ just ~as some old The protesters wre joined by the Rev. Bishop C. Joseph Sprague from No. Illifogie~?gripe~ they :~no us,,e the Word.~aythht to me~’ merry i6figer or lively.’ nois. Local architect and activist Sue othdS,~i~, hav~ ebbed rainbows inKnause noted that the police were "fabueluding Jesse Jackson’s coalition, the lous" with some officers stopping to have Uuivei~ity 6f Hawai~i’s football team, their photos taken with some of the more and the US Army’ s 42nd Division. I acfamous arrestees. And their jddge, she quired one of my rainbow flags from an adds, said, "keep up the good work -I innocent straight friend who bought it stand with you today." planning to display his.concerns for the While the protests did not change the environment. policies, organizers have promised that ~/tere is no end of social and psycho1,000 arrestees at the next conference. A - logical theory that attempts to explain principal orgamzer of this action was why we dream up totems to represent our Tulsan Karen Weldon. Info. contact groups. A century ago, the pioneer sociSoulforce at the Gay Community Center. to benefit Saint Joseph Residence + Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Saturday, June 3rd, 10-5, +_ Sunday, June 4th, 1-5 $10 donation at the door or in advance. David Daniel, 1603 S. Carson Wiley Parsons, 1601 S. Carson Monty + Jane Butts, 240 E. Woodward Blvd. Brett + Maricarolyn Swab, 2112 So Norfolk Ave.. Dr. Robert & Dena Hudson, 2707 S. Rockford Rd. Tickets for this tour may be obtained at each home. For more information; call Charles Faudree, Inc: at 747-9706. METROPOLITAN TULSA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE salutes Humanity Unites for Human Ri$lhts Millennium Pride 2000 and honors Tulsa’s Lesbian and Gay .’.,. Chamber of Commerce members for their leadership on business, civil rights and health issues in the Tulsa community., To join MTCC, call 585-1201. �IGTA member Call 341.6866 ]. XourS ,ternational ormo ,,n. o mo ,on. Massage Therapy Services Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 CountryClub Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E, 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm Poweful Images: Tulsa’s only portrayals of Native America body-piercing Gilcrease Museum 1400 Gilcrease Museum Road 5 9 6 2 7 0 0 and as many as 15 in larger communities - sit as the board of civil authority to certify yoter checklists or to hear tax appeals. They also have the option of officiating at wedding ceremonies. Beginning July 1, they’ll also have the authority to officiate at civil unions. The one catch is if they do one, they’ 11 have to do both. That’ s enough to prompt some justices to quit the marriage business because they oppose the civil unions law. Experts, such as lawyer and former Deputy Secretary of State Paul Gillies, who have been guiding justices through thenew responsibilities, say that’ s fine, so long as they don’t discriminate. Under Vermont’s non-discrimination laws, if justices perform weddings for heterosexual couples, they may not refuse to perform civil unions ceremonies just because those couples are homosexuals. Some justices have put out the word that they’re happy to officiate at civil unions ceremonies. "I feel they deserve it," said Huntington justice Don Dresser, who has officiated at two weddings. "It’ s the law and I’ m comfortable with it. I hav e a lot of Gay friends... I’m going to treat everyone the same." Some Gays and Lesbians who happen to be justices say they’re excited that they’ll be able to officiate at civil unions ceremonies. ’T m excited. I’ m so thrilled," Hurlie said. "This is really an honor to certify civil unions for folks." So, now, what’ s left is to determine just what ceremonies should be. The short answer is that whatever is done for a Wedding would work for a civil union. "’The big question was, "What do .you sa.y at the end?’ ’I hereby .. what?’ "" Gillies said. "We suggested:’ I hereby certify this civil union.’" Markowitz said her office did not want to dictate the words, but she recognized they would carry emotional weight. "The justice has to say sonaething that shows the imprimatur of the state is making the union official, whether it’ s a marriage or a civil union," Markowitz said. "The most straightforward, kind of sticking to the law pronouncement would be: ’I now certify your civil union.’ Really, that’s what a person is doing." There are some traditions to follow, though. There have beena few religious faiths, for example, who bless same-sex relationships. The Unitarian Universalist Society is one. The Rev. Brendan Hadash of the St. Johnsbury Unitarian church, for example, estimates he’ s performed probably 20 opposite-sex marriages and about an equal number of same-sex commitment ceremonies over the years. He’ s developed a series of phrases and uses the one that the couple finds most comfortable. "I usually pronounce that It also culled data from two other academic studies that studied the Gay and Lesbian population: the National Health and Social Life Survey and the General Social Survey. Starting with the 1990 C~nsus, respondents living with a person of the same sex had the option of checking off "unmarried partner" in the section that asks for the relationship between people. Other options included "husband/wife," "roomer/ boarder," "housemate/roommate" or "other nonrelative." The study said that among men aged 25-34 living with a male parmer, 29% had at least a college degree, and 13 % a graduate degree, compared with 13% and 4% for men with female parmers. However, within the same age group, men with a college degree and a female partner had mean earnings of $29,162 a year, compared with $28,618 for samesex unmarried partnered men with a college degree. For those with graduate deees, the discrepancy grew to nearly ,000 - $36,072 to $32,465. Of men aged 35-44 with unmarried partners of the same sex, 32% graduated from college, and 24% had a graduate degree, compared with 13% and 7% for males with a female partner. Within the same age bracket, males with college degrees and same-sex partners had mean earnings of $36,054 per year, compared with $38,629 for those with female partners. The same discrepancies were not found among Lesbians, Sanders said. For instance, women aged 35-44 with college degrees and with a same-sex partner had mean earmngs of $28,387, while those with a male partner had mean earnings of $28,734; of those with graduate degrees in the same age range, the figures were $34,427 for women with same-sex partners, and $34,295 for those with male partners. Sanders shied away from saying it was definitive proof of discrimination against Gays. He instead suggested one reason may be that Gays tend to enter more fields that offer lower salaries. The study also found that 22% of Lesbian couples living together have children, compared to 5% of Gay couples living together. Sanders said that may show that Gay couples have less pressure to get higher-paying jobs. "This is the tip of the iceberg in terms of finding out who the Gay and Lesbian community is," said PaulaEttelbrick, family policy director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "What they also point out it is the clear problem of how to define what it is to be Gay or Lesbian." ~4 OK Spoke Club The OK Spoke Club is beginning its rides again. A long ride (20 miles plus) will begin, atZiegler Park at 7:30am’on June 3rd & 24th. Length and destination to be use: "I recognize you as spiritually united," determined at the ride. Water and helmet or "You are now joined as wife and wife, ". are required. which I find a little odd. Others are "You ¯ A short ride(5 miles) along the Katy arejoined as spouses, partuers, iovers~" or ’: Bicydep~in Saii.d)SiJfings will beginat "I declare that you are now.united inlove, . 6:30pmonJuneT~atid21s’t. Wateriand that you are duly wed." ¯ helmet~ate ~tr0ngly r~mmelided...: ¯ : With the civil unions law, though, he’ 11 Af6:30plh, a short fide will begin at the be adding one phrase to his blessings. "At Pride Cent~L 3749 S. Peoria, rea~ parking the end of the service I used to always ¯ lotonJune24th. Waterandhelmetstrongly make a point of saying, ’By the power ¯ recommended. vested in me by my denomination, I de- ¯ Info: POB 9165, Tulsa, Ok 74157, clare you...’ "Hadash said. "Now I can ¯ email: Okiebicycle@prodigy.net say ’by.the power vested in me by the ] www.geocities.com/westhollywood/pachurch - and the state.’ " ¯ rade/3301 �Humanity Unites for Human R lhts Diversit Celebration 2000 Grand Marshalls for the Millennium Pride Parade Dr. Grethe Cammermever Oistin~luished Veteran of the United States Armed Forces Gre~! Lou~lanis US O!~mpie Champion Pride Week Events Interfaith Worship Service Performing Arts Center, Williams Theatre Speaker: the Reverend Dr. Mel White Friday, June 2, from 7pro (free) Interfaith Soulforce Workshop Performing Arts Center, Norman Studio Led by the Reverend Dr. Mel White Saturday, June 8, 2 - 5pro (free) Humanity Unites For Human Rights Black Tie Optional Dinner Speakers: Greg Louganis and Grethe Cammermeyer Summit Club, 7pro reception, Bpm dinner Friday, June 9th, $75 person Benefiting Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, the parent organization of the Gay Community Center TOHR Follies: 1OO Years of Broadway Performing Arts Center, Ooenges Theatre Saturday, June 8, 8pm, $15 Millennium Parade 2000 Saturday, JunelQ, llam From the Gay Community Center to Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder United Art Exhibit, Opening Reception All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 So. Peoria Tuesday, June 6, 6 - 8pro Pride Festival, Veterans Park, llam - 8pro Free shuttle from Veterans Park to Parade. Mini-Film Festival Tulsa Gay Community Services Center Thursday, June 8, z~ - till it’s over... For more information about these events, call 7~8-~297 (Gays). � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Methodist "community council" which did adopt the goal. Neal suggested to council co-ordinator Marly Newman that " TULSA-Inaneffortbothnerve-wrackingandtedious ." McDonald be asked to lead the effort because of the World’ s ¯ several Tulsans, SueKnanse, KentDoss,I~arenWeldon ." seeming preference to deal with representatives of non-Gay ¯ (and another who need to remain unnamed), were ¯ groups which advocate on behalf of Gay people rather than Gay arrested in Cleveland with the Reverend Mel White and : people themselves. ". 191 others in acts of peaceful civil disobedience at the " In a widely distributed June 1st e-mail about the change, recent United Methodist Church. Conference: ¯ McDonald wrote"how you will also remember that PFLAG had The acts of civil disobedience, blocking a car park " to be very creative in the design of our signature ad for the paper " exitfolloweddaysofnegotiationswithMethodistchnrch : as part of the PROJECT OPEN MIND Campaign"- areference ¯ leaders about the anti-Gay policies of the United Meth- " to how PFLAG under the former World policy could not use its ¯ odistChurch (UMC). The conference held in Cleveland ¯ own legal name because it included the banned words. ~. was attended by hundreds of UMC delegates. ¯ McDonald added, "... PFLAG submitted an ad and with The Methodist church like some other "mainline" ~ several revisions, it has been approved... The cost of the ad is " Christian denominations has adopted policies which " approximately $500 and [it is] to run on Sunday, June 4th, in the ¯ limit participation of Lesbian and Gay persons in that ¯ Living Section. It has Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians ¯ Will Allen, Emily Sizeraore & group. White stated, "the United Methodist Chruch has " and Gays, as well as some other statements, ’Is someone you care " Matthew Holloway are winners ahistory of social concern [butthey haye] anti-homo- " for gay orlesbian? Issomeoneyoulovegayorlesbian?Ifso, call ¯ ofCoraraunity Hero awards. sexual policies in place that lead to discrimination ¯ Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays’ and then it ¯ suffering, and even death." _. lists our Helpline number." The Tulsans joined other notable civil fights leaders. ¯ McDonald also wrote, "I have no idea what the response will " YolandaKing, theRey.Dr.JamesLawson, friendofDr. " be? I suspect some positive and some negative so theHELPLINE ¯ King, Congressman John Lewis of Georgia and others. " has been notified. If anyone is so moved to help thelocal Chapter ¯ see Arrest, p. 10 : with the cost of the ad, see World, p. 2 " Gays Better Educated,. ForJustices+Couples, Unions. Missouri Backwoods:A Lower Paid Than Straights " Require Creative Language ° Hotbed of Hate Groups WASHINGTON (AP) - Men who consider themselves "unmarried partners" of another man are better educated on average, but make less money than heterosexual men of the same age, according to a study that° claims to take the most comprehensive look ever into the lives of homosexuals in America. Women who have female "unmarried parmers" also tend to be more educated, but earn salaries comparable to those ofheterosexual womenin the same age bracket, according to the study in this month’s issue of "Demography," the journal of the Population Association of Americ& "An important point that is clearly articulated is that it illustrates the impact of anti-Gay discrimination .on income levels," said David Smith, spokesman for the organization Human Rights Campaign, an advocacy group for Gays and Lesbians. Advocates applauded what they said was the first comprehensive study of homosexuals but cautioned against drawing any t-nan conclusions until more research is done. "Demographically, this is a hard population to target and analyze. Data on sexual orientation is not as easily avai[dible as information on race~ gender and age," said Seth Sanders, a study author and .an economist at the University of Maryland. The study looked at statistics from the 1990 Census. ~the first,count to allow people to check offthatthey lived with:an .unmarried partner of the same sex. see Pay, p. 11 DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 by Ross Sneyd, Associated Press Writer MONTPELIER, Vt. -"And now, by the powers vested in me by the state of Vermont, I pronounce you.. ?’ What? Partners? Together as one? Joined as family? Unlike marriage, there’ s no common syntax for the new world of same-sex civil unions. Because the couples are twomen or two women, the old fried-and-true "man and woman" or "husband and wife" phrases don’ t quite make it. With no rulebook and few traditions-as wall as no other state sanctioning what willbe the equivalent of same-sex marriage and thereby offering some guideposts - Vermont’s justices of the peace and .couples entering civil unions are crafting their own conventions and rituals. There has been a lot of discussion, both lighthearted and serious, about how to conduct a ceremony. ’q’here’ s so much creativity in our community among Gay and Lesbian couples in how to create outward signs of their commitment," said Mary Hurlie, ajustice of the peace in Hinesburg who has been with her female partner for 13 years. "But we haven’ t gotten to that level of detail, yet." As marriages must be "solemnized" by judges, justices of the peace or members of the clergy, so, too, will civil unions have to be "certified." But there aren’t any rules. The civil unions law says only that they must be certified. There’ s no script ~,State statute that must be followed for a marriage, either. "Just like marriages, there aren’t any magic words," said Secretary of State Deb Markowitz. " ’We pronounce you man and wife, husband and wife,’ they’ rejustmade up. Youdon’ t find them in statute." Training sessions have been held for justices by the secretary of state’ s office in recentweeks becauseit is almost unquestioned that it will be to them that the primary responsibility for performing civil umons ceremonies falls. That’ s because there are few religious faiths that bless same-sex unions and so there won’ t be many clergy members willing or able to certify civil tmions on behalf of the state. Justices of the peace have a handful of responsibilities under state law. Most have to do with taxes and elections. A town’ s iusdces - there are as few as fiveinsmall towns see Unions,p.ll Humanity Unites For Human Rights Diversity Celebration 2000t "Diversity Celebration 2000!" is an eight-day celebration of the human rights movement with the goal ofuniting northeastern Oklahoma’ s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered (GLBT) and ¯ GLBT-friendly communities. Tulsa Oklahotnans for Human Rights, Inc., Oklahoma’s oldestr~rnreligious Gay community organization released it final schedule which follows: Friday,June 2nd Diversity Celebration 2000! will kick off at 7 pm with an Interfaith Service led by Rev. Mel White at the Williams Theatre in the Performing Arts Center (PAC). Special musical guests include Council Oak Men’s Chorale, Ernestine Holloway is notpictured. Dillard, Jessie Scott, and the Fourth Quarter gospel quartet. Participation by persons with a variety of faith traditions will be included in the program. Admission is free. An offering will be taken, see Pride, p. 7 by Doug Johnson, Associated Press Writer ¯ GAINESVILLE, Mo. - The remote and rugged ¯ Ozark hills blanketed with dogwoods and oaks are ¯ treasured by hunters, hikers and others wanting to ¯ get away from the bustle of urban life. ." The pastoral hills are also a haven for hate ¯ groups, authorities say. Southern Missouri has ¯ drawn more than its share of religious sects and ¯ white supremacists looking for a place to hide. ¯ Last week, police arrested the Rev. Gordon : Winrod- the leader of an anti-Semitic church ~ for : allegedly kidnapping six of his grandchildren and : concealing them for years at his farmhouse in the ¯ hills. The only explanation authorities offer for ¯ why the kids werekidnappedis thatWinrod thought : theirtwo fathers wereJewish. Sheriff SteveBartlett ¯ said the youngsters had been taught by their grand- -¯ father to distrust authorities. At one point, the sheriff said, the children shouted at deputies, "Get : your Jew hands off me." : Winrod, 73, and his followers gained a reputa- ¯ tioninOzark Countyformass mailings ofliterature : calling law enforcement officers and prosecutors ¯ "Jewdicials" - a play on the word judicial - and ¯ claiming-they cover up murders of whites. ¯ It’ s not uncommon to find that kind of sentiment ~ in some areas of the Ozarks, which straddles the : state line between Missouri and Arkansas. Experts ¯ say the region draws hate groups and people con- : nected to the white supremacist "Christian Iden- ¯ tity" movement. ¯. "We are richin these types of groups down in this ¯ part of the country for some reason," Highway : Patrol Sgt. Marty Elmore said. 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Please send to PFLAG, PO Box 52800, Tulsa, ¯ OK 74152. I truly believe this will ope~ the door for PFLAG as well as o~ organizations to submit ads to theT~ World. Our thanks to Joe Worley ¯ assisting us with this policy change. He ~ was very, very helpful.’" : The World’ s anti-Gay policy is doen- ¯ mented back to the middle’80’ s when a : Lesbian owned card, gift and book store,. 743-4297 ¯ Two’s Company, located near 31st & 749-8833 ¯ Harvard was told the World would not ¯ accept advertising for the store because ¯ the owners wanted to let readers know the ¯ target audience, i.e. Lesbians and Gay ¯ men. The owners conducted a one day ¯ picket of the World but the policy re- . mained unchanged. ¯" In 1993, when Tulsa Family News pub¯ lisher Tom Neal, opened a gift and card ¯ shop "tomfoolery !" at the Silver Star, the World also refused to accept advertising, even though the store did not trade in eroti~ Or any other possible objectionable,~ fials, citing the same policy, . A~,~arslaterl PFLAG, TulSa Cliap5~ ter ran afrul of the same anti-Gay po|i~¢y 501-253-6807 ¯ when it tried to run a pro-Gay civi! .rights _t 501-25_3-~5 :.. signature ad. !ntetesgngly, the 501:253:9337 : la~editsbw~ipoli’cy~’~WW~eks]~e~r,-’~te.~’~a 501-253-27"/6~. : runninffthe censrr~’FLAGa~.~a...i~) 501-253-5332, : accept~l’~ an anti-G~i~,iid from a"~Jali~0I¢~U 501-624~’6~~ ¯ of weS~side Tulsa &i~ches 501-253-600I": one of:~banned~c~ds. . 501-253-4074 : Editor’s note: for a related editorial, ¯ see page 3. The editorial was written the 417-623-4696 " earlier in the day before the news broke ¯ about the World’ s newpolicy. Hats offto ¯ Nancy McDonaldfor her work in negoti* is where you can findTFN. Not all areGay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. ating this new policy. by Tom Neal, editor &publisher For being the proverbial 900 lb. gorilla of our local media, those folks over at The Tulsa Worm sure seem to be thin-skinned about criticism. One editor, whom I respect greatly, took particular umbrage atmy calling our daily, "a country-club newspaper." I suspect ,that a good part of his irritation is that he knows there s still truth in the charge. The Tulsa World has made great progress in providing better coverage of all of Tulsa, including our minority communities, - even Gay people. But like the town it serves, it carries with it. its parochial,.elitist and raciSt/anfi-minority phst~. And f6r every .step forward, there s~ems tb t~ffve tO be a least one step back. " :- Consider this charming carto0h"0y Simpson, reproduced here, with its somewhat sophisticated bigotry and stereotyping. The comment of "real girls only," implying that Gay men are somehow like women but yet are less than women, is full ofunexaminedmisogynism. It comes out of a hierarchy where straight men (and traditionally straight, white men) are superior, women are lesser creatures, and Gay men are even lower because we’re men "who want to be women." Lesbians, of course, exist only to populate the sexual fantasies of straight men. To put this cartoon in the proper historical context, we need only think back to early 20th century racist political cartoons in which Black Americans were represented ape-ishly and made to speak in "step’ n’ fetch it" dialogue - or other cartoons where orthodox Jews or Japanese- Americans were misrepresented as evil foreigners. Ironically, Simpsonjust gets it wrong. The GirlScouts of America are clearly on record as saying, they, unlike the Boy Scouts, do not discriminate on tile.,.basis of sexual orientation. The organization does use adult men as well as women in its programs in leadership and in training roles,: Therefore, not only would young women who are Lesbian be welcome, adult Lesbians and Gay men could also participate and no doubt have. And guess what, the Girl Scouts are doing just fine. But The Worm is not doing so well. For at least 15 years, our daily has maintained an anti-Gay .advertising policy which bans the words: Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual. Theyjustify this saying that they are a"family" newspaper. Note that this ban does not apply to content of news articles, editorials or, obviously, cartoons! In fact, The World literally could notdo the basic work of a newspaper, merely reporting the stories of our city, country and world, if they censored these words. ¯ How can anyone with a shred of reasoning think that these words ifplaced in an advertisement somehow have an adverse impact on any family, if dearly the same words placed in a news story right next to an ad are acceptable. What really is going on here is epitome of institutionalized prejudice. The policy doesn’ t make any sense, it is bigoted and discriminatory but no. one at The World has the courage to say that what they’re doing is just wrong. And in being silent, they, the reporters, editors, other : staff, both straight and Gay, become collaborators in ¯ societal oppression. In a society which seems to have to ¯ have an "other" againstwhich to define itself,Gay people currently occupy the place Blacks, Jews, Indians, Irish ¯ and others have had. ¯ Contrast this with an advertorial section in a recent "Out" magazine in which The New York Times bragged ¯ about its excellent coverage of Lesbian and Gay issues, : and its commitment to its Lesbian and Gay readers and ¯ staff. Can you seeThe World doing that? I hope to seejust that someday. Who knows maybe next year The World ¯ which is certainly profligate with its sponsorship of ¯ public events will even join Oklahoma’ s Gay press in ¯ being a sponsor of June’ s traditional Pride events. ¯ Don’tlaugh-itjustmighthappen.Andwhynot, thead ¯ policy’s now changed, why not even more progress? by Joe Andrew and Edward G. Rendell After theoverwhelming turnout at the MilleniumMarch and record participation in the recent presidential primaries, Gays and Lesbians across the country are more united than ever in their fight for equality and inclusion. The Democratic Party is proud to stand with them - to fight with them - as we all celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride this month. Democrats have forged lasting relationships with the Gay and Lesbian community by supporting common sense issues related to basic fairness and non-discrimination for all Americans. Unlike discriminatory and divisive Republican figures like Pat Robertson, Gary Bauer, and presidential candidate George W. Bush, Democrats believe that our diversity is a source of great strength. While getting Bush to meet with Gays and Lesbians in his own party is like pulling teeth, A1 Gore has worked side-by-side with openly Gay and Lesbian advisors throughout his life. On specific policies that improve the lives of Gay Americans like hate crimes legislation, funding: ~or HIV/_AIDS¯ research, atii5~- :!he Empl9yment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA~;~.tli~re is no comparisonb~ tween the candidates. Gorehas supportedGays and Lesbians~time and time again. BUSHII~PPOSES HATE CRIMES BILLS ~ ~ ~ .t~, ,’~ ,. ¯ .. ~" . - A.c~,r,~ng to the.Le’~fJ~an/Gay Rights Lobby of Texas (L(~."~R~.~)~,~.m.~re than 2,~ hate crimes were reported to th~’Fe~Departmen~6fPublic safetybetween 1992 and 19971 ~i~(eefi percem~ere hate cfim~s motivated by the victim’s sexual orien~ation~ making Gays ’and Lesbians the second most-targeted group of hate crime victims in Texas. Given this fact, George W. Bush still opposed provisions in the James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Act that would have included protections for Gays.and Lesbians from hate crimes. The bill would have mandated stiffer penalties for cases in which victims of violence are targeted because of their race, gender, or sexual orientation. His spokesman said that Bush "does not support special ¯ rights based on sexual orientation." ¯ Special rights? Where is the leadership? Bush wants ¯ the world to believe that he is a compassionate, but ." apparently his compassion does not extend to all the citizens of Texas. ¯ "... We need leaders llke AI Gore : who will speak out against ¯ homophobla and prejudlee in a fight : to maintain elvll justice and equality. ¯ Through his aetlons and i the aetlons of hls party, it is clear that ¯ George W. Bush is not that leader... As we celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride, : Democrats pledge our support and ¯ eontlnued work to promote ¯" requal opp~rtufilty and ndn-dlserimlnatlon ¯ for a strong and united America. As a Party, we embrace these ideals because we believe that no American should be left behind..." Democrats, on the other hand, have begun to wage an all-out campaign against hate crimes in America. We have also endorsed and fought for civil rights legislation that would protect Gay and Lesbian Americans from ¯ discrimination. A1 Gore has been a tireless advocate for passage of the : Hate Crimes Prevention Act (HCPA), calling on Con- ." gress to come together in one voice on this issue. HCPA ¯ would expand the definition of hate crimes to include : those based on sexual orientation, gender or disability ¯ and allow for the prosecution of those crimes under federal law. ¯ Democratic leaders have walked the walk in the fight ¯ ; against hate in America. We are the party of inclusion ¯ because wehavejudgedandwill continue tojudgepeople ~ based on the content of their character. : BUSH: SILENT ON HIV/AIDS : Bush’s silence on HIV/AIDS as governor is simply ¯ deafening. Despite the fact that almost 10,000 Texans : have died ofAIDS under his watch, Bush has never taken ¯ a publicpolicy position on the epidemic. In fact, he never ¯ even publicly used the word"AIDS" in office.When the ¯ Children Uniting Nations Chairperson Daphna Ziman ¯ asked US governors for assistance regarding the AIDS ¯ epidemic in Africa, forty-nine governors responded to ¯ her urgent personal letter and only one governor ignored ¯ the plea: George W. Bush. In December 1999, Bush also : received a failing grade on Lambda Legal Defense and ¯ Education Fund’s (LLDEF) World AIDS Day Report ¯ Card. :. ,Since the beginning of the Adminislxaf!on, President Clinton and Vice President Gore have proven their com- -¯ mitment to fight for AIDS research again and again. During the last seven years, the Ryan White CARE Act ¯ ha~ seen funding ,increases of more than 292 percent in ° funds fo~ medicationsfserving low-inb.6_’me in~lividuals. ¯ Overall fundingforAIDS~relatedprograms has increased by more than 122 percent during thisAdministration. ¯ A1 Gore has been on the front lines of fighting the ¯ epidemic. Recently, he announced an Administration ¯ initiative to commit more than $100 million to fight the worldwide AIDS crisis and increased funding for re- " search, care andprevention. Weneed a leader that has put : a great deal of thought on this vital issue. : BUSH: AGAINST ENDA ." As governor, Bush opposed employment protection ¯ for Gays and Lesbians. He refused to adopt an Adminis- : tration non-discrimination policy that includes sexual ¯ orientation. see Demos, p. 7 Candian Supreme Co,,urt Holds for Pro-Gay Ruling OTTAWA (AP) -The Supreme Courthas rejected an Ontario government request to re’clew a landmark decision on Gay civil rights. The Attorney General for Ontario had asked for a rehearing of theM and H case, referring to a Lesbian couple whose breakeup almost a decade ago triggered a dispute over assets. The case began when one of the women in the case, known only as M, found she couldn’t sue her ex’- partnerHwhen their relationship ended. Mthen went to court to have the spouse law struck down. The high court ruled in an 8-1 decision that the definition of spouse in Ontario’s family law was unconstitutional because it discriminated on the basis of sexual orientation. Theruling last yearwas specific to Ontario, but legal experts said other provincial governments and Ottawa had few options but to amend their lawsor face having them struck down in similar battles. The House ofCommons passed legislation to bring federal legislationinto lineandOntario grudgingly amended its laws but still launched a bid for a rehearing before the Supreme Court. The two Toronto women, who had bought a home and started an ad agency together, settled the money dispute out of court long before their case wound its way to the country’ s highest court. Presbyterian Court Rulings Are Gay-friendly !AP)-The Presbyterian Church’ s highest court ruled ~n May that local congregations have the right to conduct religious ceremonies celebrating Gay unions that stop short of marriage. The d~ision by the 16- member court is binding unless the General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) overrides it. The case, one of three on Gay issues argued before the tribunal, stemmed from a same-sex ceremony performed in Dobbs Ferry, N.Y. The Northeast regional church court ruled that ceremonies of "holy union" for same-sex couples may be conducted ifit is made clear they are not marriages. The high conrt agreed, though it instructed regional church bodies to make a clearer distinction between marriages and "blessing services." A second case before the high court involved a homosexual candidate for the ministry who said he did not intend to remain celibate, even though church rules require clergy to observe either "fidelity in marriage" or"chastity in singleness." In that case~ the Northeast regional court decided that he could continue as a candidate, and that his "manner of life" could be evaluated prior to ordination. Again, the high church concurred. It said the denomination’s standards of fidelity and chastity are to be applied at the point that a person is azonsidered.for ordination, not during, candidacy~ Freda ~ar~dn,~r~ and Clifton Kirkpatrick, the two national leaders Of the 2.6 million-member denomination:~ headquartered in :Louisvil!,e, Ky., said in a ~ecent i~astoral letter that the 0aurt s decisions real- :firm. churchpolicy of disallowing Gay-marriages and the.ordinatiOn Of’s(xua~ly active Gays., Theseissues will Surface again when.the General Assembly.meets in Long Beach,:Calif., fromJune 24 to July 1. Among legislation to be considered: a proposal to ban samesex marriage. Utah High School Club For Gay Issues Meets SALT LAKECITY (AP) - Five years after the debate over Gay school clubs began in Utah, East High School students on Wednesday held the state’ s first school-sanctioned club meeting to discuss current events from a Gay and Lesbian perspective. The PRISM Club - People Respecting Important Social Movements - meeting featured Laura Gray, a Salt Lake City attorney involved in Gay-rights issues. .About45 students attended. Students said they talked about the historical, legal and religious significance of marriage and the current restrictions barring Gays and Lesbians from forming such unions. The district barred news media from the. meeting, claiming it was for students only. However, district personnel attended, along with an attorney for the Utah chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union. The ACLU is representing East High juniors Jessi Cohen and Margaret Hinckley, who in April filed a federal-court suit claiming the district violated their First Amendment rights to free speech by rejecting PRISM as an academic club. The district banned all nonacademic clubs in 1996, a year after East High students tried to form a Gay and Lesbian support group. U.S. District Judge Tena Campbell issued a temporary restraining order against the district last month, forcing it to temporarily acknowledgePRISM as a legitimate club pending the outcome of the students’ lawsuit. The meeting was "definitely a win," said East High senior Ivy Fox, whounsuccessfully sued the districtin 1998 over the ban. "It’ s such a good feding to see all your hard work pay off." Sophomore Evan Done attended the club meeting, but didn’ t think the discussion was appropriate. "It is an important step for the Gay community that needed to be taken," he said, but "I don’ t really think it has a place in school." PRISM advertised the meeting with fliers and during regular school announcements over the school intercom. Some of the fliers were destroyed and some students posted "straight pride" fliers, which showed two connecting male symbols and two connecting female symbols that were crossed out. Three Receive First Shepard Scholarships DES MOINES, Iowa (AP) - Three Gay and Lesbian high school students were awardedfull tuition to Iowa state universities under a new scholarship named for slain Gay student Matthew Shepard. The scholarships, worth approximately $25,000 each over four years, were presented Tuesday to Galen W. Newton, Jessica M. Brackett and Paul N Wharmel. The scholarships include tuition, books and fees at the University of Iowa, Iowa State University or University of Northern Iowa. The scholarship program was announced in March by Gov. Tom Vilsack and the mother of Matthew Shepard. theWyoming college student who was beaten to death by two men. Police said the attack was motivated in part because Shepard was Gay. The scholarships are awarded to Gay students based on academic achievement, financial need and community service, Vilsack said. Brackettcredited Vilsack for trying to provide greater civil rights to Gay Iowans. "He’ s really pushing for rights for everybody andI thinkhewill be ourmain strength during thenext four to six years," Brackett said. "I think he’s going to push for progress." Newton said he.plans to remain.active inGay rights .’. issues whilein college. He said the Scholarship is abig encouragement. "People are beingawarded for being courageou_s,".he s-aid. ¯ - Funding for the scholarships.~omes from a chari- .tablefoundation establishedbyprominentDes Moines businessman Rich F...y~.~haner..An’rpe~l.y Gay RepubS lican, Eychanermad~ an unsuccessi~ui bid for the U.S~. .House in 1984, but’lost :in the~. Vatican Increases Attack on World Pride ROME (AP) - A top Italian cardinal weighed in against a major Gay gathering scheduledin Rome in July, stepping up a campaignto move the event elsewhere. "What we are asking is not at this time and not in Rome," said Cardinal Camillo Ruini, president of the Italian Conference ofRoman Catholic Bishops. World Gay Pride Roma 2000 is expected to draw hundreds of thousands of Gay and Lesbian participants for a week starting July I. The Vatican has opposed the city’ s plans to host the gathering, saying it is out of keeping with the church’ s Holy Year that has been drawing millions of pilgrims to Rome. Some opponents fear the event will turn into a demonstration against Pope John Paul II, who has defended the Vatican’ s condemnation of homosexual acts. "I don’ t believe it is by chance that they selected Rome this year," Ruilfi said. United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11:00 am Pastor 1623 N. Maplewo0d 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at 1 lam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 3210b S. 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Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You In another development, the Gay civil-lights group ArciGay called for the resignation ofPremier Giuliano Amatoforhi s remarks before parlianlent earlier in the week.. Amato said that "unfoftnnately" the Gay Pride week week must be allowed to be held because of constitutional protection for public gatherings. Gays Losing Supporter ST. PAUL (AP) - State Sen. Allan Spear, who is retiring after 28 years, will probably be remembered for work that took "probably less than 10% of my time" - his advocacy of rights and protections for Gays and Lesbians. "Nobody can get elected and adequatelyserve a constituency on Gay,~ssues alone,: Spear said..",But it’s important to have people for whom Gay i~su~s are a~hi.gh priority." . " Spear became the first openly Gay legislator in Mimlesota- and one of only two in the nation - when he acknowledged his homosexuality in 1974. His retirement at the end of this year will likely leave just one openly Gay legislator: Rep. Karen Clark, DFLMinneapolis. Scott Dibble, who is running for a House seat in Minneapolis, is also Gay, but there would be no openly Gay senators. Spear believes ~t is important for Gay people to have legislative representation. "It helps a lot to have someone come from the Gay community who can speak from the inside," said Spear, DFL-Minneapolis. "You need someone who can talk about what it’ s like growing up Gay, or coming out, or what it’ s like to deal with a partner who you feel is your spouse, but society won’ t recognize as your spouse. Other people can sp,,eak out on those issues, but it isn’ t quite the sanle, Ann DeGroot, executive director of the Gay political action group OutFront Minnesota, said part of Spear’s legacy will be other legislators who can. advocate for Gay rights, whether they’re Gay or not. "Of course we’ re going to miss Allan," she said. "We haven’t had a session without him yet. "But we’ve worked with other people so much, other leaders who are supporters, we know we can count on them.?’ Gay.& Lesbian Parents TroUbled by State Law LOUISVILLE, Ky. (AP) - Chris and Mike Croghan- Miller are like other parents, caring and proud. They videotaped their son’ s birth, took time off from work when he was born, and in the weeks before, had an announcement party, a baby shower, painted the "baby room" and spent days with a ~erious case of "the butterflies." But there is one difference some say makes them unfit parents - they’re Gay. Advocates argue that the bottom line is a good home for the child that meets the requirements set by the state. "We don’t care whether they’ re married, single or Gay," said Carolyn Amett, contract attorney "for Adoptions ofKentucky. "We don’ t discriminate." Kentucky Youth Advocates’ director Debra Miller said the concern should be "that any child is adopted by parents who have the emotional and social support necessary to be good parents. We don’t think that there’s anything constitutional that makes a Gay or Lesbian parent unable to do that. Noris there anything that guarantees that heterosexual folk can be good parents." The Croghan-Mil!er.family is part ofaboom~~t~e numbe~ Of Gays ~d Les~iafls ~fi~osin~’to’becSth~e parents, according to the San Diego-based Family Pride Coalition. Though state officials and private adoption agencies in Kentucky don’ t keep any estimates on how many Gay men or Lesbian~ have adopted here, the San Diego group claims 15,000 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered families as members, including dozens in Louisville. ¯ And across the nation, cases of adoption and custody issues involving Gays and Lesbians have become increasingly visible. Mostrecently, Mississippi joined Florida and Utah in banning adoptions by Gays, despite arguments that it is an unconstitutional violation of due process and privacy rights. The Cabinet for Families and Children has recently proposed changes that would "make our systemmore accepting to a broad variety of families," said Mike Jennings, a cabinet spokesman. But the change is not being made specifically out of consideration for Gay and Lesbian couples. Gay Teens Face Harassment & Isolation MILLERSVILLE, Pa. (AP) - During her junior and senior years in high school Lilith visited the hospital seven times for severe depression, self-mutilation and thoughts of suicide. She was trying to destroy hersdf, she said. Destroy the thing within her that was making her different from her classmates. Lilith is Gay and, during her early teen years, the thought of being a Lesbian "practically .disguste0,". her. ~he denied it, ran from it, ti-ied to erie it’f~om.!,i~ ~ soul!, but her affeeti0n for bilker ffomenw~ beCrn{i~ impossible to ignor~ Lilith ~ Who, f0( pi-i~acy #~aI- i sons, chose a fictitious name for this story - is now 20, a full-time college student and a self-assured Lesbian woman. But, she says, her high school years were rough. Like many Gay youth, Lilith suffered through harassment and lack of acceptance, feelings of isolation, and self-imposed silence. Gay teens are twice as likely as heterosexual youth to seriously consider suicide because they feel adrift in an unsupportive world. Overall, the nonheterosexual population (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered) is 5-10%, said Brad Becker, executive director of the Gay &Lesbian National Hotline. High school percentages are likely the same, but surveys are skewed because most teens are not comfortable answering gender-preference questions. In addition, many have yet to figure out their sexuality, he said. "They may not be identified as Gay,, said Becker. "They know something is different but have yet to pinpoint their sexuality.". "Teens begin feeling their sexuality around the age of 13," said Linnea Bailey, a Lancaster psychologist who specializes in Gay and Lesbian issues. "So much of being a teen is exploring sexuality. If they realize they are not part of the norm, it can be frightening. They know that those who are different get picked on." Gay and Lesbian youth commonly struggle with self-esteem issues and may withdraw from family and friends. They often skip school and may eventually drop out in search of an accepting peer group. If they do come out and continue in school, they risk being harassed or beaten by those with differing bdiefs. In an average school day, says the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, the typical Gay teen will hear 26 anti-Gay remarks. And, one in six Gay youths are beaten so badly they seek medical attention. "The last acceptable form of overt prejudice is against Gays," Bailey said. "It’s still extremely bad in the public school systems." Most Gay teens wait to come out until they are in college or the work world. There tends to be greater diversity and less peer pressure. "Often it’ s the first time they are away from home and family," said Anthony Lascoskie Jr., coordinator of the Lesbian Gay Bisexual Allies at Franklin & Marshall Colleg_e and .treasurer of the Pink Triangle Coalition. "They can be Gay at school and straight at home." Boys typically come out at age 18; gifts, 23. Julian, a 19-year-old Millersville student, came out the summer before his junior year of high school by writing a letter to a trusted faculty member. During his junior year he began telling his friends. J~ian.said most of his friends were OK with his sexuality, but some faded away. And although there were no physical attacks, there were plenty of verbal attacks. - Bailey said~lack of- peer suPport is.the, one of the worst koadblbcks for ~ay teer~sl During a time When support is most important, there is typically very little. "Imagine dating as a Gay teen-ager," she said. "If you break up with a same-sex partner, there’ s no support. Who do you go to to talk about it? There is so much loneliness and isolation." Black Church To Fight AIDS Harder TUSKEGEE, Ala. (AP) - Black ~hurch leaders, trying to overcome policy differences in their efforts to combat AIDS~ have gathered in Tuskegee to try to put together a plan of action. More than 300 bishops, pastors, priests and laymen from across the nation and as far away as Africa tookpart the lastweek inMay in theAIDS Conference for Black Churches at Tuskegee University. Black churches have been Slow to take onAIDS because of the stigma associated with frank discussion of sex, drugs and homosexuality in church, church leaders said. There is also disagreement over issues such as the distribution of condoms and needle-exchange programs. "This hesitationis killing our people," U.S. Surgeon General David Satcher told the conference in a videotaped statement. Blacks accounted for 45% of all AIDS cases reported in the United States in 1998, according to federal data. Africa is home to 23.3 million of the world’ s 33.6 million infected people, said Dr. Helene Gayle, head of the AIDS center at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Within a decade, she said, there will be 40 million orphans in Africa because of the disease. Church leaders and AIDS experts said their efforts likely will focus ottxeaching teens and young adults. The Rev. Calvin Butts III, president of the Council of Churches of the City of New York, said churches must teach sex education. "Un~ less we learn to talk about it, we’re not going to solve the problem of AIDS," he said. "You can’t be hypocritical about this, because it’ s killing us." Other leaders said churches should boost outreach efforts in jails and prisons. Nearly one-fifth of people who are HIV-positive will be incarcerated at some point in their lives, according to CDC data. Pernessa Seele, founder ofThe Balm in Gilead Inc., the organization that sponsored the conference, said church leaders must provide better counseling and care to people with AIDS. "Church folk are Gay folk, they are.., straight folk. We’re all family," she said. "But some people justdon’ tgetit. We’ ve got to tear down all these barriers." AIDS Vaccine to Be Tested in Haiti NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) - Vanderbilt University Medical Center will work with the nation of Haiti to test a vaccine for AIDS. The research hospital is seeking 150 local volunteers for testing in Nashville this summer. Tests begin in Haiti in the fall. .’,~It’~s:important-for,the.science of vaccine development to embrace the developing world, where most of the AIDS burden is now," said Dr. Barney S. GrahamofVanderbilt~ s AIDS Vaccine Evaluation’Unit. "We’re veery excited about workilig with Haiti." Vanderbiltis 0neof five medical centerg in °be:United States testing a vaccine based on a virus which ca°mot reproduce in mammals - the canary pox virus. Scientist splice genes for inactive HIV proteins into the canary pox virus, and inject it into the volunteers. If it works, the vaccine will stimulate the body’ s immune defenses into action, including the production of a white Mood cell that can dispose of HIV-infected cells to prevent it from spreading inthe body. "It’ s not a perfect vaccine, but it is the best candidate we have now," said Dr. Peter F. Wright, also of Vanderbilt. Side affects of the vaccine can include mild fever and mnsde soreness. There is no chance of getting infected with HIV, Graham said. "We’ re not at all worried about safety," Graham said. Vanderbilt’ s research is supported by an annllal grant of $2 million from the .federal govemmentwhichis goodthrough 2005. If this year’s tests are successful, large-scale trials will be done in 2001. :Russia Too Poor to Fight AIDS CriSis MOSCOW (AP)- Registered HIV cases in Russia are snowballing and the cashstrapped government is too poor to confront the health crisis, a senior health official said in May. "That means people will simply die without treatment," said VadimPokrovsky, thehead ofthe Federal AIDS Prevention Center. Last year, 18,140 new cases of infection with HIV - the virus that causes ¯ MDS - were registered; that’s dose to half of all the HIV cases registered in Russia since 1987. Pokrovsky told anews conference that at least a two-fold increase is expected this year, and that the registered number of cases are likely only one-fifth to one-tenth of the real number. ’q’hat means that the real number of HIV cases may reach 300,000-400,000 by the ~.nd of this year. By 2005 we may have about 1 million cases, under an optimistic scenario," he said. Intravenous drug users aecountformost of the new HIV cases, but the virus is rapidly spreading through sexual contacts, Pokrovsky said. "In some regions around Moscow up to 5% of all young people have AIDS," he said. "According to other estimates, up to 15% of Moscow prostitutes are infected with HIV." The relatively small number of officially registered HIV cases has prompted a negligent attitude in the government, which has been slow to earmark funds for combatting the disease. Officials have sometimes hampered privately funded AIDS prevention efforts. TV ads and billboards promoting the use of condoms have disappeared after authorities complained they were harming public morals, ¯ Pokrovsky said. Currently, only therelatively rich Mos- ¯ cow city governmentcan fully pay the bill ¯ for treating AIDS patients, while other ¯ regions provide only a fracdon of funds ¯ needed to pay for expensive treatment. According to Pokrovsky, a modern ¯ course of treatment for AIDS comes only ¯ a fraction cheaper than in the West, be- ¯ causemostdrugs areimported. Suchtreat- ¯ ment costs about $10,000 per patient, he ’ ~aid,~ a hefty sum a’or ~the.economicalIy ¯ struggling nation. "The nmnber of pa- ¯ dents will be so high, that only few of ¯ them will get treatment," he said. "No ¯ more than 10% of the patients may count ¯ on receiving treatment." ¯ OK AIDS Network ADAP, the AIDS Drug Assistance Pro- . gram is working but is severely ¯ underfunded. OKAIDS Netis asking that ¯ the following legislators be asked to sup- , port more funding in the next session. Write: Senators Stratton Tayltr, Ben ¯ Robinson, Angela Monson, Cal Hobson, ¯ Enoch Kelly Haney and Representatives ¯ Loyd Benson, and Bob Weaver at State Capitol, 2300 No. Lincoln,OKC730105. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appoinlmenls are available. Tulsa City County Library System is proud to support Humanity Unites for Human Ri£!hts Diversity Celebration 2000 and presents Not All Fruits are Oranges: the Roots, Branches & Produce of the Gay & Lesbian Literary Grove by Dr. T. Alan Culpepper, Ph.D. Visiting Assistant Professor.ofEnglish~ Rogers State University Tuesday, June 13, 7pm, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Library Look for the Library Booth at the Millenium Festival and check with Central Library for books and videos of interest to Gay & Lesbian readers, families and friends. when i dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then itbe Qm tmpo ant whether i am afraid. ¯..audre Iorde please oin )Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights in welcoming / / Dr. Margarethe Cammermeyer and Mr. Greg Louganis as guest speakers ,--of.the "Humanity Unites for Human Rights" 0 "DIVERSITY CELEBRATION 20001" black-tie (optional) benefit dinner and silent auction Friday, June 9, 2000 The Summit Club 6th & Boulder Tulsa, Oklahoma (free parking in Bank of America tower) VIP Reception; 7:00 PM / $50 per person Reception: 7:00 PM Silent Auction: 7:00 -- 9:00 PM _ Dinner:,8:00 PM/,$75 per person $550 / table of eight - ~:~ $750 /.table of eight & VIP reception for ticket information, please see enclosure I at Southwest Missouri State University in Sptingfield. "When I think of Ozark County, I always think ofhow the sheriff did not have a car until 1937," he said. "The rivers weren’t bridged and there was no real road system developed." Outlaws looking for cover in the backwoods - including such notorious villains as Bonnie and Clyde and Jesse James - were drawn to the area for those reasons, Flanders said. Religious~based groups, typically those who shun the doctrines of mainstream churches, appreciate the quietandreserved nature of fellow Ozarkers. ’’There is a long tradition in the hills that you live and let live, no matterhow weird the beliefs of your neighbors might be," Flanders said. Both Springfield and Bransonhave seen national and regional supremacy conventions in the last year. In February, some 225 people gathered in Branson for the third annual convention of the Identity group Songs for His People. "You’ re tight in the middle of the Bible Belt, which plays an important role in the culture there," said Devin Burghart of the Chicag0-based Identity watchdog group, Center for New Commlmity. ’‘These guys come strolling along singing songs andholding Bibles, which allows them a certain degree of legitimacy in the area. But behind it all is still the same message of hate and intolerance," he said. Christian Identity espouses white Anglo-Saxon virtues and calls Jews, racial minorities and Gays enemies of God. S6memembers believe in death sentences for those who violate "’God’ s law." In August, Identity follower Buford Furrow Jr. allegedly killed a Filipino- American postal worker and wounded five others after opemng fire on a Jewish day-care center in Los Angeles. A month earlier, two brothers-also Identity adherents - allegedly killed a Gay couple in California and set fire to several synagogues. Through the 1980s, the Identity movement became associated with other extremist groups, including The Order, the Ku Klux Klan and The Covenant, the Sword, and the Arm of the Lord, or CSA. Many residents here say they have felt intimidated by supremacist groups like CSA and Winrod’ s church. Most define to be interviewed or ask not to be identified for fear of retaliation. "These guys would wear fatigues and walkinto thepostoffice withguns swapped to their waists," said Tim Morgan, owner of a marina in Pontiac, a town of fewer than 300 not far from Gainesville. "They were intimidating because they were so military-looking." Winrod’ s church, called Our Savior’ s, consisted-mostly~ ofhi~ adult ehilO*en, their families and a few other followers. The sheriff said he began distributing his racist mailings to every county resident. "People Wouldcall and Complainabout it, but there is nothing we could do- he hadFirstAmendmenttights ," Bartlett said. "We could only keep an eye on him." Now, Winrod is accused along with two ofhis childrenofabducting his grandchildren from their North Dakota hometowns in 1994 and 1995. Their mothers are M.ready serving ptison terms for kidnapping. At ~ pretrial court, appearance Thursday, Wiurod said he did not have an attorney The court has givenhim until June 13 to either retain counsel or waive his tight to representation. A preliminary hearing on the case was set for June 21. Authorities fear the Wiurod case will attract attention from other affiliated groups. ’‘There are groups like this all over the country, peoplewhomaybearen’ t. closely affiliated with one another but who share similar beliefs, and they decide they want to come and get involved in these situations," Said Elmore, the highway patrol sergeant. "We don’ t want that to happen this time." On the Net: Southern Poverty Law Center: http://www.splcenter.org ~ Center for New Community: http://www.newcomm.org Yet again, he dismissed these basic protecdons as "special tights ." In addition, he has sided with the extreme wing of his Party and refused to endorse the Fmployment Non-Discrimination Act (F_aNDA). ENDA wouldput an end to discrimination against Gay men and Lesbians in the workplace - discrimination that is currenfly legal in 39 states. AI Gore and the Democratic Party have fought vigorously for ENDA because we believe in the tight of every American to bejudged on his or her merits and abilities, and to be allowed to contribute to society without facing discrimination on the basis of sexual ori_-_ entation. As President, AI Gore also would continue President Clinton’ s Executive Order prohibiting discrimination based on. sexual orientation in the federal civilian workforce. Facing aRepublican challenge to the Executive Order, Clinton and Gore worked with Representative Barney Frank and other fair-minded Members of Congress to defeat the Republicans’ and-Gay amendment with the support of over 90 percent of Congressional Democratsl We need leaders likeAl Gore who will speak out against homophobia and prejudice in afight to maintain civil justice and equality. Through his actions and the actions ofhis party,it is clear thatGeorgeW. Bush is not that leader. There is every indication that he would make no room forGays and Lesbians inhis WhiteHouse. As we celebrate Gay and Lesbian Pride, Democrats pledge our support and continued work to promote equal~opportunity and non-discrimination for a strong and umted America. As a Party, we embrace these ideals because we believe that no .aanetican should be left behind. An interpreter for the deaf will be provided. - The Rev. Mel.White heads, Soulforce, Inc., anon-profitorganization thatruns an ecumenical network of volunteers committed to the teachings and applying the principles of nonviolent civil .disobedience on behalf of sexual minorities. Rev. White has relendessly devoted his life to heal the wounds caused by: the anti-Gay rhetoric and to enter into dialogue with the faith organizations that perpetuate hatred and violence toward sexual minotifies. In the past year, Rev. White has led "direct actions" with Rev. Jerry Falwell, the trial of Rev. Jimmy Creech, and most recently, the General Assembly of the United Methodist Church. Shortly after visiting Tulsa, Rev. White will lead a delegation see Pride,p. 8~ Pr by Jim Christjohn, mac guru & more Brachetti is coming! No, it’ s not apiece of toast with herbs and tomatoes on it, it’ s Arturo Brachetti, the quick-change artist. Think "Greater Tuna" meets Robin Williams while doing David Copperfield’s act. GreaterTuna had two guys doing quick changes to create ,the ,22 characters of,a small mythi.cal town; Artur9 is one man crearii~g 88characters during the course of an evening ~-grom cowboys to geishas and barmaids to Royal Mounties, he is a very charmlng man - and handsome as well. He speaks at least three languages fluently, and has a mischievous sense of humor rivaling yours truly. Described as Versace on hyper speed, Brachetti changes costumes at lightning fast speed, transforming into more than 80 characters and giving life to le- "... Deserlbed as Versaee on hyper speed, Braehettl changes costumes at lightning fast speed, transforming into more than 80 characters and giving llfe to legions of personalities. His show is a multl-medla ~xtravaganza, eomblnlng comedy, tousle, magle, and video in a unique collage of aetlng, storytelling, stunts and earleature . . ." gions of personalities. His show is a multimedia extravaganza, combining comedy, music, magic, and video in a unique collage of acting, storytelling, stunts and caricature. He is the winner of the 2000 Moliere Award (the French "Tony" award), and a delightfully impish fellow. Add a little Cirque De Soleil t~ that mixture above, too. I had the chance to speak with him before one of his sold out shows in Paris, France. A U.S. tour is planned for 2001, buthis first stop for a very limited engagement, is here in Tulsa. Whenasked, "Why Tulsa?" he responded, "Well, you have to start somewhere!" He spoke of it being the "center of the United States" and as such, a good place to begin. tie spoke of the Italian art of"transformation" as not having been seen in thirty years. It had its origins in the 17th century as an offshoot of the commedia del’ artr. According to Brachetti, Giovanni Gabrielli was the originator of "transformarion," performing all the characters of the commedia del’ arte single-handedly, changing masks and characters all byhimself. I asked him what prompted him to create such a show-, and his response was that he was doing some add-on acts for a production of "Midsummer Night’s Dream" (French pr~oductions often thro,w_ extra scenes ifffor fun), which led to him creating a one man show in which he played all the parts, an embryonic version of his current two hour plus show, for an arts festival. A later version of the show, largely autobiographical, opened in June ’99 in Montreal. Selling outevery night, he eventually took the show to Paris. There was no advertising budget, and the first week, they had to find people just to sit in the audience. After that first week, however, word of mouth started and the show exploded. Brachetti would like audiences to leave the show different from when they entered. He said that the show speaks to the eight year old child witltin all of us. In the dip of the show, s beginning, shown at the press conference, it begins with a mysterious masked man removing his mask to reveal yet another mask underneath, continuing for some time. Just that brief dip spoke to me of the fact that we all wear so many masks from day to day, ,to the point where the real personbecomes buried over ume. It s.eems to me, that his show is about removing the masks of adulthood so that We can free the child trapped within, (but then agaifi, I’ m0 a psychology major, and can read deep insight into anything). I will say that sequence is very powerful, and can only imagine what therest ofthe show must be like. Brachetti hopes to restore the wonder of the world as seen from the eyes of kids. He alternated as he spoke, from well-educated adult to impish child. He’ll eventually play S_an Francisco (the costumes will go over big there) and New York, as well as Chicago. Brachetti arrives in Tulsa at thePAC courtesy ofCelebrity Attractions August 6-13 and to OKCat the Rose State Performing Arts Theater august 15-21. Tickets can be had by calling 596-7111. I don. t know if he’ s Gay, but I will tell you now, the costumes that Brachetti designed and created rival any elaborate Bette Midler/Cher/Drag Queen extravaganza. Did I mention he’ s cute, designs a meanfrock, inhis mid thirties (he’ s cagey about his age) and single? Me first, guys ! For’those Goddess worshipers out there, I am pleased to announce Goddess: Tulsa Artists’ Coalition Women’ s Show 2000, sponsored by TAC and The University of Tulsa School of Art. It features Goddessthemed artwork, and the exhibit goes up June 8 and runs through July 7th. The opening is from 5-8pm June 8, and the regular gallery .hours are 9am-4:30pm Mon. - Thurs. and 9am-noon Friday. The gallery is in TU’ s Alexander Hogue Gallery at 5th Street and College Avenue. Andfor those wondering, Stevie Nicks, new album "Trouble In Shangri-La" is on permanent delay, as usual Apparently, there are troublein the Shangri-La recording studio in which she’ s been working with a revolving doorful of producers .since ,!997. Have fun at the Diversity. Celebrations, ~_nd be safe! ’ ¯ We’ ve seen it before. The horror of the ship’ s sinking never quitemadeit onstage. You’ re more bothered by the horror of having paid to see this show. The songs, for the most part, are mawkishly written, stealing from everyone imaginable - Gilbert and Sullivan, Lloyd Webber, Sondheim. Few original ideas are in the music, which is a pity. This is portrayed as homage, but basically, it seems Yeston just couldn’t come up with anything on his own. Want something better? Wait for Rent later this summer. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men s ~/k~ Support Group is here for you! ,-~/~.~/ ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Call JOHN RAGAN, the friendly, caring real estate agent who understands your special needs! 918-583-2125 800-559-1558 wrvw.NewNest.com of Soulforce members on a direct action to the General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church U.S.A. as they debate the inclusion of Gays and Lesbians in that denomination. Organizational sponsors include: Soulforce in Oklahoma (presenting sponsor) TulsaOklahomans forHumanRights (presenting sponsor) Community ofHope Church,CommimityUnitarian/UniversalistCongregationDignity/ IntegrityofTulsa FellowshipCongregational Church, Green Country Society of Friends (Quakers), Metropolitan Community Church United (MCC), Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays in Tulsa (PFLAGTulsa), Parish Church of St. Jerome, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network of Oklahoma (RAIN-OK), and Volunteers in Action Committee of All Soul’s Unitarian Church as wall as others. Soulforce Workshop Saturday, June 3rd A SoulforceWorkshop led by Rev. Md White will be held at the Charles Norman Studio at the Performing Arts Center at 2 pro. Rev. White and his partner, Gary Nixon, will provide training in the principles of M.K. Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr. as part of the non-violence justice movement. The workshop will last until 5 p.m. Admissionis free. TOHR Follies 2000 Saturday, June 3rd ¯he bawdy humor and sentimental songs of theTOHRFollies returns at 8 pm at the Doenges Theatre, PAC. Join a host of performers and singers celebrate your favorite show tunes from a "100 years of Broadway." Elaborate productions from the timeless works of Rodgers & Hammerstein, Stephen Sondheim, Jerome Kern, Andrew Lloyd Webber, and Charlie Smalls will entertain you. A Reception will follow in the Charles Norman Studio with catering provided by Curt & Marj’ s. Admission is $15 each. Tickets will be sold through the Performing Arts Center Ticket Office beginning around May 3rd. Call the PAC for ticket information at 596.7111 .or 800.364.7111 or buy your tickets online at www.tulsapac.com. Entertainers: Sedackeiry Taylor Alexander, Johnny Cronin, Domoniqne Daniels, Veronica De,core, Vivian MINI-MOVIE FESTIVAL Thursday, June 8th AMini-Movie Festival will run throughout the day on a 60" screen at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center. The Community Center is located on the corner of 38th and Peoria (above Boulevards). Popcorn and refreshments will be available. Admission is free. Schedule: 1:00 pro, Lilies 3:00 pm, Beautiful Thing 5:00 pm, It’ s In The Water 7:00 pro, Broadway Damage 9:00 pm, Everything Relative Black Tie Benefit Friday, June 9th TOHR offers the opportunity to meet Margarethe Cammermeyer and Greg Louganis at a VIP Reception at7pmin the Grille Room at The Summit Club on the 31 st floor. The Summi t Club is located in the Bank of America Building at 15 West 6th Street. Free parking available in the building. Admission is $50. An Open Reception and Silent Auction will begin at 7 pm at The Summit Club on the 31st floor. All proceeds will benefit TOHR’ s fight for GLBT equality in this region. The Benefit Dinner begins at 8 pm at The Summit Club on the 30th floor. Guest speakers are Margarethe Cammermeyer and Greg Louganis. Please joinTOHR in presenting its wall-deserved "Community Hero" awards to three high school students who have shown extraordinary courage in dealing with their sexuality: Will Allen, Emily Sisemore, and Matthew Holloway. An interpreter for the deaf will be provided. Tickets are available for the VIP Reception and the Benefit Dinner by "calling 743.4297, or by mailing ticket requests to TOHR, P.O. Box 2687, Tulsa, OK74101, or by dropping by the Center on the corner of38th and Peoria between 6 pm and 9 pm Sundays through Friday and Noon to 9 pm on Saturday. Millennium Pride Parade Saturday, June 10th The Millennium Pride Parade will beffin at 11 am at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center at 38th and Peoria. Grethe Cammermeyer and Greg Louganis will serve as Co-Grand Marshals. Organizers claim it will be bigger and more colorful than before. The Parade will follow the same route as last year from the Center to Veteran’ S Park at 18tk and Main. Deveroe ::.Fontaine, Green ~Country Drop-offpoints are set along the Parade ~Oogg,e.rs, DanHale, Miitthew Holloway, Routethis year. Buses!shuttles will begin ~H~’l.~a’..~s Horribles, KriS Kohl~.CeCe.. ~ ~mn’mg at 8!30 a;m, Please park your ¯~roi,x,~taRichards,Tabith9Tayl0r,--: veliid~ at Veteran s Park and catch ~e T~aT Neill, ’Victoria Turelie,:R~becea . bu~ofShtittleonthenorthsideofVeteran s U.ngermah,.ahd Komona Wannaliiya, -.’Park. --’There is no charge to ride the bus/ All events tke!d at the Performing Arts Center are fundedin part b~r a grant-from the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trnst. uNIi"ED - An Art Exhibit Tuesday, June 6th An Art Exhibit entitled "United" will have an opening reception at the Recep- !ion Hall of All Soul’ s Unitarian Church beginning at 6 pm. Wine and soft drinks ~vill be available. Hors d’ oeurves will be fPrereO.VAideldl bSyouTlsWUCnaittaerriinang.CAhdumrcihssiios nloiscated at 2952 South Peoria. Artists: Otto Decker, John Duvall, Jody Ellison, Dana Gilpin, P.S. Gordon David Halpern, Isaac Harper, Ken Johnston, Elizabeth Joyner, Kraig Kallenberger, C. LynnMallett, KathleenPendergrass, Mary Schepers; Kelley Vandiver, David Vamecky & others. shu..tt!e. FESTIVAL Saturday, June 10th The Millennium Pride Festival (formerly the Picnic) will begin at 11 am at Veteran’s Park. There will be dose to fifty booths, as well as food vendors, beer and soft drinks, and lots of activities. Margarethe Cammermeyer and Greg Louganis will give the opening remarks. TOHR’ s "Community Hero" awards will be given to three courageous local teenagers: Will Alien, Matthew Holloway, and Emily Sisemore. Entertainment go on all afternoon and into the evening. A sixteenteam volleyball tournament will run throughout the day on three volleyball courts. There is also a Celebrity Dunk Tank with Audra Sommers, Dyke Divine and David from gay.tulsa.org, Tom Neal ofTulsa Family News, Marty Newmanof the Human Rights Campaign, and more. by James Christjohn ~ ¯ I’m not sure which is the greater trag- " edy: the sinking of the ship and its aftermath - or the creation and execution of " this musical. Don’t get me wrong, the " performances were OK, for the most part, some were excellent, and there were afew songs thatmade the show somewhatworth the time it took to watch it. But it was a remarkable example of how easy it is to get Tony Awards these days. At the time this disaster (the musical) struck, it was the only original American musical offering on Broadway. Everything else was Lloyd Webber (i.e., English) or French. So, to get a Tony, you need to: 1. merely be American; 2. write a musical: 3. base it on something historical, but only superficially. Take known names and make up cartoonish characters to go with them; 5. even if what you write is unfocused and mediocre, if there are no other Americans writing musicals, you’ll get a Tony. If you’ re wanting a mildly entertaining evening with some really bad staging, scenery, and costumes that dwarf the set, and NO historical accuracy (other than the fact_the ship sank), by all means waste your money. The show itself is historically inaccurate to the point of sheer ridiculousness. That wouldn’ t be such a peeve with me if the marketing weren’ t hyping it as being historically accurate, claiming the "story is told truthfully" and that "historical accuracy of Titanic (the musical) makes it an ideal show for parents to share with school age children." Only if the parents wish to point out how inaccurate the marketing can be and musicals hyped as historically accurate aren’ t. And it wouldn’ t be so bad if the actual stories - as told in the transcripts of the inquiries, easily come by in paperback form - were as dramatic as you can get. The), didn’ t need to ~nake up half of what the,’,’ did. Thorn Sesma, who portrays Thomas Andrews, the Titanic’s Designer, sang like he had a mouthful of marbles. He seemed to have a speech impediment, making it hard to understand what he was saying. And youknow, if you’ re on stage, evenifyouaremic’ d,DON’TMUMBLE. This was.,rampant during the evening.... One man, whose Iin~s throdghout song ~ere "Not a ibit not .a aide ¯ repeated ad.~auseum, s~,t~a,.d..ed~!jke"Noti!’: : bitch, not a,iittl~ bitch. ~ I ldd.you noti.. Marcus ~:Ch.a,it, who" played, stoker ." Fredefiek.~.~tt,. ~d"a ,:bi~athless fali setto q0altty-that .s~ded:lik¢ .an ment ~betw.’.,e~n MiChael ~Ct~w.ford,aniti.~ Andy Gibb. Even though he Was nile d tO the hilt (as all were), y.oo, coul~l understand him at times, due to his breathless "Phantom of the Opera/Michael Crawford’~ style of singing. His vibrato was annoying as well, distracting from one of the most powerful songs in the show. When he whispers, you can’ t hear him, when he belts, he reveals a glorious voice, a wonderful tenor. Timothy A. Fitzgerald, as Fleet, the lookout spotting the iceberg, has the most wonderful voice, perfect for the song "No Moon", arguably the best song in the show, and the most haunting. Lyrically, it’s one of the better moments, and Fitzgeraldhandles it withgrace andbeauty, which he has plenty of in terms of stage presence. Pity the authors did away with the other lookout (one of those little inaccuracies); "No Moon" would have been awesome as a duet. The standout performances were the three Kates, immigrants in steerage revealing their dreams of a new life America. Meiissa Bell, Kristi Barber, Kate Jetmore were excellent in the" gest roles in the play. They had the successful song in the show in term revealing character and furtheriv story, revealing the hopes and dre: the immigrants of the time. TomGamblin, in my opinion the su c, gest male actor, was an excdlent foil and future husband as Jim Farrell, who Kate Murphy decides will be her husband. It is their story which is the most effective in a show that tries to tell the story from too many perspectives. It was their characters I actually cared for, and it was their moments that worked in an otherwise dismal script. Theragtime song,"Autumn," and afew other songs were memorable for their melodies. That’ s about all that can be said for them. The book, well, I say keep a couple of lines that were humorous, and start over. I was disappointed. It seemed like an inventive premise, and one which could havemade history entertaining. The staging was weak, particularl y when the iceberg was sighted by the one lookout. The set did tilt at the end (like we’ ve never seen that before), but the set was mosdy made up of very inaccurately drawn and painted drops that looked like something out of a high school production. After Jekyll and Hyde’s detailed lab, Beauty and the Beast’s castles and villages, Titanic’ s drop-heavy scenery was a bit of a letdown. On Broadway, the show had a three levd set, making several of the numbers quite different. Here we were treated to awkwardly stage numbers, wlfich basically left the cast walking in circles representing different levels and areas of the ship, which ended up quite muddled ~n terms of telling who was where on the ship. At one point, as characters were stepping in and out and around, it became quite ridiculous. The tableau, which was originally to have shown the ship striking the iceberg, was nothing more than a very small model of the ship, withlights, pulled across the stage - no ice in sight. The model boat, lit up :with Chxistmas lights, being pulled across the stage was quite humorous. And the promisedcollision tableau, hyped beforetheshow opened on Broadway, is still missing. . . I really liked the cheesy and totally hilarious flame effect of the boiler room furnaces. This little .bit of very Obvious whitedothbeing blownupwards by afan, not even dose to the scale of what the flames in those boilers must have been like. Now I’m quite willing to suspend disbelief, but this went far beyond what could be expected. It looked like these big burly men were shoveling coal onto bic lighters. Iwas rolling withlaughter. Yeston also says "themusic is the scenery." Well, ithas to be, since apparently they couldn’ t afford paint or artists from the look of it. The drops seemed to come in at the wrong scenes, particularly in the opening. I understand theatre is representational by nature, but here we’ re dealing with a very famous boat. The problem with the show is that it tries to tell too many stories, and because of that, it’ s hard to really care about any of the characters, who are portrayed as caricatures anyway. At the end, youjust don’ t care. OK, the set rises at one end on hydraulics, see Titanic, p. 8 by Lamont ]~indstrom, Ph.D. Vexillology. There’s an arcane word " for you. It means the "study of flags." : Thousands of rainbow flags are soon to ¯ wave as we enter the season of Gay Pride celebration. Gay flags, like Gay Pride, are fairly recent inventions. Gilbert Baker sewed up the first rainbow flag for the 1978 Gay Freedom Celebration in San Francisco. Over the past two decades, Freedom has made_ way for Pride and the rainbow flag has lost some stripes. Baker’s original creationboasted~eight colors, each of which represented a fine ideal: orange is healing; yellow the sun; green is nature and blue art: indigomeansharmony while violet stands for spirit: redis life and, last butnotleast,pink symbol- .1zes sex. Pink went first. A company Baker approached to produce his flag commerdally couldn’t locate any pink nylon. And the next year, when the San Francisco parade committee adopted the flag as a symbol, symmetry required yet another reduction. The parade decorator demanded that the route feature three colors on the left and another three colors on the right. Indigo disappeared. In its short lifetime, the rainbow flag has lost both sex and harmon.y. Something of a .parable, perhaps, of modem Gay life. Archaeologists have dug up flag-like symbols from civilizations in both Old World and New. Humans, from our beginmngs, have imagined a variety of symbolic objects to represent social groups. Anthropologists call a symbol that stands for a group a "totem." Today’ s flag clearly derives from these original totems..In many societies, animals are the preeminent totemic figure, andanimal totems surviveinto thepresent. Small town businesspersons divide up into coteries of Elks, Lions, and Moose. Andthink ofthe Britishlion, orthe American eagle, or the Canadian loon, or the California bear. And don’ t forget the Gay bear. These totems decorate our flags and our money. A variety of things besides animals symbolize groups. The rainbow is an archetypal totem that we share with Austra= lianAboriginal bands amongvarious other peoples around the world..Rainbows are syi~b01ic~dl~ p~tentl~0~ in nature and in a number of religious traditions. Some folks complain about aGay appropriation of the_rainbow., tote.m~ just ~as some old ftohgeieW~?ogrdri.p~ea~ythtohtmthee~y :’~mnerroy io6rfilgiveerluys,.,’e othdS,~i~, hav~ ebbed rainbows ineluding Jesse Jackson’s coalition, the Uuivei~ity 6f Hawai~i’s football team, and the US Army’ s 42nd Division. I acquired one of my rainbow flags from an innocent straight friend who bought it planning to display his.concerns for the environment. ~/tere is no end of social and psycho- - logical theory that attempts to explain why we dream up totems to represent our groups. A century ago, the pioneer soci- Because flags stand for group, Gays had no need for a flag until we conceived of ourselves ~1~ ~t eolleetlve --or a ¯ eommumty as some of us llke to say. Baker’s needlework in 1978 signified the transformation of homosexuality from a psyckologleal condition to a political identity. ologist Emile Durkheim remarked that totems are sacred just because they stand for the group. Our human societies exist before any one of us is born, and they will continue after we die. Society, thus, is "supernatural." We make into a god what has shaped us and what sustains us as individuals. But it’s hard to grasp concepts so abstract. Instead, wefocus our feelings and .affiliations upon the totem - the sacred being whosematerial formis the flag. We are good at creating solidarities - only human groups_ often define themselves largely by opposing themselves to some other. We pledge allegiance tO ourown totem as a symbol ofourselves. And we express distaste for our enemies by despoiling their flags, as Palestiuians, Israelis, and members of various high school bands are wont to do. It is pretty clear Durkheim was right about that sacredness. We have ¯ fervent Congressmen in Washington each ¯ year in a frenzy to outlaw sinful desecra- ¯ tions of the American flag. ¯ Perversely, some South Caroliniansjus- ¯ tifyofficial display oftherebel Confeder- ¯ ate flag as mere historical commemora- ¯ tion. But everyone knows that echoes of ¯ their antebellum religion are also at work ¯ here. Because flags stand for group, Gays ¯ had no need for a flag until we conceiv~l ¯ of ourselves as a collective - or a "com- " mlmity" as some of us like to say. Baker’ s ; needlework in 1978 signified the trans- . formation of homosexuality from a psychological condition to a political iden- Since this time, we have put into play various other symbols, including pink and black triangles borrowedfrom Nazi prison wear, theLambdacharacterfrom the Greek alphabet, and the red ribbon. Of these, the rainbow stretches the farthest. I have seen rainbow flags unfurled in Japan, Hong Kong, New Zealand, Den-. mark, andbeyond. Theflag’ s global spread testifies to the rise of a transnational gay community. Think of this as flags parade b~this summer. Long may the rainbows wave on our totem poles. Lament Lindstrom teaches anthropology at the University oJ Tulsa. The protesters wre joined by the Rev. Bishop C. Joseph Sprague from No. Illinois. Local architect and activist Sue Knause noted that the police were "fabulous" with some officers stopping to have their photos taken with some of the more famous arrestees. And their jddge, she adds, said, "keep up the good work -I stand with you today." While the protests did not change the policies, organizers have promised that 1,000 arrestees at the next conference. A principal orgamzer of this action was Tulsan Karen Weldon. Info. contact Soulforce at the Gay Community Center. to benefit Saint Joseph Residence + Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Saturday, June 3rd, 10-5, +_ Sunday, June 4th, 1-5 $10 donation at the door or in advance. David Daniel, 1603 S. Carson Wiley Parsons, 1601 S. Carson Monty + Jane Butts, 240 E. Woodward Blvd. Brett + Maricarolyn Swab, 2112 So Norfolk Ave.. Dr. Robert & Dena Hudson, 2707 S. Rockford Rd. Tickets for this tour may be obtained at each home. For more information; call Charles Faudree, Inc: at 747-9706. METROPOLITAN TULSA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE salutes Humanity Unites for Human Ri$lhts Millennium Pride 2000 and honors Tulsa’s Lesbian and Gay .’.,. Chamber of Commerce members for their leadership on business, civil rights and health issues in the Tulsa community., To join MTCC, call 585-1201. IGTA member Call 341.6866 ]. X,otuerSr onrmaot ,i,no. on maol ,on. Massage Therapy Services Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 CountryClub Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E, 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm Tulsa’s only body-piercing Poweful Images: portrayals of Native America GilcreaseMuseum 1400 Gilcrease Museum Road 5 9 6 2 7 0 0 and as many as 15 in larger communities - sit as the board of civil authority to certify yoter checklists or to hear tax appeals. They also have the option of officiating atweddingceremonies. Beginning July 1, they’ll also have the authority to officiate at civil unions. The one catch is if they do one, they’ 11 have to doboth. That’ s enough to prompt some justices to quit the marriage business because they oppose the civil unions law. Experts, such as lawyer and former Deputy Secretary of State Paul Gillies, who have been guiding justices through thenew responsibilities, say that’ s fine, so long as they don’t discriminate. Under Vermont’s non-discrimination laws, if justices perform weddings for heterosexual couples, they may not refuse to perform civil unions ceremonies just because those couples are homosexuals. Some justices have put out the word that they’re happy to officiate at civil unions ceremonies. "I feel they deserve it," said Huntington justice Don Dresser, who has officiated at two weddings. "It’ s thelaw and I’mcomfortable with it. I have a lot of Gay friends... I’m going to treat everyone the same." Some Gays and Lesbians who happen to be justices say they’re excited that they’ll be able to officiate at civil unions ceremonies. ’Tmexcited. I’mso thrilled," Hurlie said. "This is really an honor to certify civil unions for folks." So, now, what’ s left is to determinejust what ceremonies should be. The short answer is that whatever is done for a Wedding would work for a civil union. "’The big question was, "What do .you sa.y at the end?’ ’I hereby .. what?’ "" Gillies said. "We suggested:’ I hereby certify this civil union.’" Markowitz said her office did not want to dictate the words, but she recognized they would carry emotional weight. "The justice has to say sonaething that shows the imprimatur of the state is making the union official, whether it’ s a marriage or a civil union," Markowitz said. "The most straightforward, kind of sticking to the law pronouncement would be: ’I now certify your civil union.’ Really, that’s what a person is doing." There are some traditions to follow, though. There have beena few religious faiths, for example, who bless same-sex relationships. The Unitarian Universalist Society is one. The Rev. Brendan Hadash of the St. Johnsbury Unitarian church, for example, estimates he’ s performed probably 20 opposite-sex marriages and about an equal number of same-sex commitment ceremonies over the years. He’ s developed a series of phrases and uses the one that the couple finds most comfortable. "I usually pronounce that use: "I recognizeyouas spirituallyunited," or "You are now joined as wife and wife, which I find a little odd. Others are "You arejoined as spouses, partuers, iovers~" or "I declare that you are now.united inlove, that you are duly wed." With the civil unions law, though, he’ 11 be adding one phrase to his blessings. "At the end of the service I used to always make a point of saying, ’By the power vested in me by my denomination, I declare you...’ "Hadash said. "Now I can say ’by.the power vested in me by the church - and the state.’ " It also culled data from two other academic studies that studied the Gay and Lesbian population: the National Health and Social Life Survey and the General Social Survey. Starting with the 1990 C~nsus, respondents living with a person of the same sex had the option ofchecking off "unmarried partner" in the section that asks for the relationship between people. Other options included "husband/wife," "roomer/ boarder," "housemate/roommate" or "other nonrelative." The study said that among men aged 25-34 living with amale parmer, 29% had at least a college degree, and 13% a graduate degree, compared with 13% and 4% for men with female parmers. However, within the same age group, men with a college degree and a female partner had mean earnings of $29,162 a year, compared with $28,618 for samesex unmarried partnered men with a college degree. For those with graduate de- ~4ees, the discrepancy grew to nearly ,000 - $36,072 to $32,465. Of men aged 35-44 with unmarried partners of the same sex, 32% graduated from college, and 24% had a graduate degree, compared with 13% and 7% for males with a female partner. Within the same age bracket, males with college degrees and same-sex partners had mean earnings of $36,054 per year, compared with $38,629 for those with female partners. The same discrepancies were not found among Lesbians, Sanders said. For instance, women aged 35-44 with college degrees and with a same-sex partner had mean earmngs of $28,387, while those with a male partner had mean earnings of $28,734; of those with graduate degrees in the same age range, the figures were $34,427 for women with same-sex partners, and $34,295 for those with male partners. Sanders shied away from saying it was definitive proof of discrimination against Gays. He instead suggested one reason may be that Gays tend to enter more fields that offer lower salaries. The study also found that 22% of Lesbian couples living together have children, compared to 5% of Gay couples living together. Sanders said that may show that Gay couples have less pressure to get higher-paying jobs. "This is the tip of the iceberg in terms of finding out who the Gay and Lesbian community is," said PaulaEttelbrick, family policy director ofthe National Gay and LesbianTaskForce. "Whatthey also point out it is the clear problem ofhow to define what it is to be Gay or Lesbian." OK Spoke Club TheOK Spoke Club is beginning its rides again. A long ride (20 miles plus) will begin, atZiegler Park at 7:30am’on June 3rd & 24th. Length and destination to be determined at the ride. Water and helmet ". are required. ¯ A short ride(5 miles) along the Katy ’: Bicydep~in Saii.d)SiJfings will beginat . 6:30pmonJuneT~atid21s’t. Wateriand ¯ helmet~ate ~tr0ngly r~mmelided...: ¯ : Af6:30plh, a short fide will begin at the Pride Cent~L 3749 S. Peoria, rea~ parking ¯ lotonJune24th. Waterandhelmetstrongly ¯ recommended. ¯ Info: POB 9165, Tulsa, Ok 74157, ¯ email: Okiebicycle@prodigy.net ] www.geocities.com/westhollywood/pa- ¯ rade/3301 Humanity Unites for Human R lhts Diversit Celebration 2000 Grand Marshalls for the Millennium Pride Parade Dr. Grethe Cammermever Oistin~luished Veteran of the United States Armed Forces Gre~! Lou~lanis US O!~mpie Champion Pride Week Events Interfaith Worship Service Performing Arts Center, Williams Theatre Speaker: the Reverend Dr. Mel White Friday, June 2, from 7pro (free) Interfaith Soulforce Workshop Performing Arts Center, Norman Studio Led by the Reverend Dr. Mel White Saturday, June 8, 2 - 5pro (free) Humanity Unites For Human Rights Black Tie Optional Dinner Speakers: Greg Louganis and Grethe Cammermeyer Summit Club, 7pro reception, Bpm dinner Friday, June 9th, $75 person Benefiting Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, the parent organization of the Gay Community Center TOHR Follies: 1OO Years of Broadway Performing Arts Center, Ooenges Theatre Saturday, June 8, 8pm, $15 United Art Exhibit, Opening Reception All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 So. Peoria Tuesday, June 6, 6 - 8pro Millennium Parade 2000 Saturday, JunelQ, llam From the Gay Community Center to Veterans Park at 18th and Boulder Pride Festival, Veterans Park, llam - 8pro Free shuttle from Veterans Park to Parade. Mini-Film Festival Tulsa Gay Community Services Center Thursday, June 8, z~ - till it’s over... For more information about these events, call 7~8-~297 (Gays). Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2000] Tulsa Family News, June 2000; Volume 7, Issue 6 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 2000 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Barry Hensley J.P. 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The decision may also let the-6.2-millionmember organization reject Gay boys as members. Forcing the Scouts to accept Gay troop leaders would violate the organization’ s right of"expressive association" under the Constitution’s First Amendment, the justices nded on the last day of their 1999-2000 term. "The Boy Scouts asserts that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the values it seeks to instill," Chief Justice William H. Relmquist wrote for the court. Requiring the organization to have a Gay scoutmaster would force it "to send a message, both~£o the youth members and the world, that the Boy Scouts accepts homosexual conduct as a legitimate form of behavior," the ,..hief justice said. "-.We’ re very pleased," said Scouts spokesman Gregg Shields. "It’ s going to allow us to continue our mission of providing character-building programs for youth." see Scouts._ tg. 9 TULSA - While the Edsel ferrying Greg Louganis broke down and despite a steady but mild rain, Tulsa’s 2nd Pride Parade went off without a hitch. Beginning at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center near 41st & Peoria, several hundreds gathered along with grand marshals, Olympic champion Greg Louganis and distinguished US Army veteran Greta Cammermeyer. The. parade featured churches, choirs, drag queens and female impersonators, leather "boys and daddies," bars and businessmen who spread out over more than a mile and ended up at Veteran’ s Park for the Pride Festival. This year like last, a handful of protesters gathered at the beginning of the parade, and then scurried to the end Oral Roberts University Alumni Humanity Unites for Human Rights to protest yet again. In contrast with those who were protesting, the pastor and a couple of members of the Carbondale Assembly of God passed out bottles of water without any message of condemnation as they did last year also. When asked about their effort, they said they just wanted to act with compassion and to avoid the nastiness - leaving judgement to the Almighty. see Pride, p. 6 Gree Louganis at the Millennium Parade Sharon Toele with Greta Cammermever uNPredicts: AIDS Will Kill i" Vermont Judge Won’t Block- Coke Adds Benefits for One Half.of African Teens Unions, Officials Rebel + More Gay +-Lesbian Partners GENEVA (AP) - AIDS has killed 19 million people ¯¯ worldwide, but the worst is yet to come, the United Nations has just predicted: the disease is expected to ¯ wipe out half the teen-agers in some African nations, ¯ ¯ devastating economies and societies. ’q’here is a whole generation which is being taken outYsaid Peter Plot, head of the U.N. Joint Program on HIV/AIDS. He said vulnerable countries in Asia, Eastem Europe and the Caribbean risk a similar catastrophe unless they act now to control infection rates. In its 135-page report released at the end of June, UNAIDS estimates: -The virus has killed 19 million people worldwide, up fronr 16.3 million at the end of 1998. ~t has infected 34 million more, including 5.4 million last year alone. -More than 13 million children have been orphaned by AIDS. -In 16 sub-SaharanAfrican countries, more than onetenth of the population ages 15-49 carries the Human lmmunodeficiency Virus, or HIV. -In seven of those countries, at least one-fifth of the population is infected. One-of the countries where 20% of the population is infected is South Africa, which has 4.2 million people who are HIV positive- the largest single national total. The southern African nation of Botswana has the worst rate, with more than one in three adults infected. That is the equivalent of 90 million people out of the U.S. population of 270 million, see Africa, p. 9 DIRECTORY PRIDE PHOTOS US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT GAY STUDIES P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 P. 10 MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP)- Opponents of Vermont’ s civil unions. made another legal bid to block thelaw from taking effect on July ¯ 1st. A day after a Superior Court judge refused to issue a ." preliminary injunction blocking the first civil unions ceremonies. from taking place, opponents filed a new request and added new ° plaintiffs. A Virginia lawyer representing Shdtra and the other plaintiffs ° said Superior Cpurt Judge Stephen Martin did not have enough ; information beftre him when the judge ruled that no irreparable ° harm would occur if the law went into effect. ¯ Lawyer Erik Stanley asked to add two new plaintiffs to the ; lawsuit: town clerks in Corinth and Fairfield, who say they would ° be harmed if forced to issue civil union licenses. ¯ "These town clerks object to doing that on moral and religious ° grounds and have asked the attorney general’ s office if they could " not issue these licenses," Stanley said. ’The attorney general ; responded in a letter to them that if they refuse to issue civil ¯ unions licenses, they could be faced with civil lawsuits from the " individuals to whom they refused to issue licenses." There also ¯ is the remote possibility of criminal fines or prison terms. ¯ Several town clerks say they object to homosexuality and do ¯ not want to be forced into providing licenses that will grant same- " sex couples nearly all the rights and benefits Of marriage. " " The clerks now have been added to 15 people who sued to -" overturn the law. Eleven of those plaintiffs are members of the ¯ Vermont House who opposed civil unions, including prominent" representatives such as Sheltra, Oreste Valsangiacomo, D-Barre, ° Robert Starr, D-Troy, and George Schiavone, R-Shelburne. ¯ They argue that an informal betting pool among 14 House " members who supported the bill should invalidate it. The 14" bettors each threw in a dollar to wager on the number of "yes" ¯ votes the bill would garner when it went before the House for ¯ preliminary approval in March. It passed by seven votes that day. " Opponents argued the pool should have disqualified those who " participated because it gave them an interest in the outcome of the ¯ vote. ¯ In a recent ruling, Martin said allowing Gay and Lesbian " couples to enter into civil unions beginning Saturday would pose : no harm to the initial 15 plaintiffs, see Vermont, p. 9. WASHINGTON The Human Rights Campaign, a national Gay civil rights organization, commended the Coea-Cola Co. today for announcing plans to extend health care benefits to same-sex domestic partners of its United States-based employees. "This is excellent news, and yet another sign that domestic partner benefits are becoming a standard component of benefits packages at forward-thinking companies," said Kim I. Mills, HRC’ s education director who oversees WorkNet, HRC’s workplac project. "With this announcement, Coke becomes the 99th member of the Fortune 500 to take this important step." The Human Rights Campaign and its Business Council have been working with Coea-Cola and KOLAGE, its Lesbian and Gay employee resource group, for many months on this issue, Mills said. HRC WorkNet (www.hrc.org/worknet) provided data, strategy and other advice as needed. The Coca-Cola Co. released a statement today announcing the benefits, which will begin Jan. 1, 2001. According to the statement, employees will be able to sign up during the fall benefits enrollment period. The company also said it is researching opportunities for implementing its policy on a global basis. "Our company is committed to attracting and retaining the most diverse workforce in the world," Coca-Cola said in the statement. "Our goal is to ensure that the Coea-Cola Company is the best place for all people to work. This extension of benefits is another step toward achieving that goal." 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Cathy Furlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. 749-4901 808-8026 PFLAG, POB 52800, 74152 Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare GEP also unveiled a new initiadvg~to587-7674 ¯ 742-1460 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758.E. 21st ¯ day to persuade nine other Georgia COm459-9349 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 Leanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning 749-4195 " panies to provide domestic partner ben744-7440 R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Mark T. Hamby, Attorney 584-2325 " efits to their Lesbian and Gay employees. *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 ¯ These companies are: Home Depot, At341-6866 O’ RYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults *International Tours : lanta Gas Light Co., BellSouth, Georgia 712-2750 ¯ Pacific, DeltaAirlines, Wachovia, United O’ RYAN, Jr. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 425-7882 582-3018 ¯ parcel.Service, Shaw Industries and Gulf St. Aidan’ s ,Episcopal church, 4045 N. Cincinnati *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th 492-7140 747-0236 St. Dunstan,s Episcopal, 5635 E. 71st David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering ¯ Stream Aerospace. 582-3088 582-8460 ¯ *St. Jerome s Parish Church, 205 W. King "Some companies in Georgia are beThe Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening 583-7171 : 599-8070 *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder hind the times in their treatment of their *Kerfs Flowers, 1635 E. 15 582-7225 747-5466 *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care Lesbian and Gay employees, said Kno . Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 595-4105 585-1234 Tulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 "We are launching this initiative because *Living ArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha 584-3112 Confidential I-IIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only our Gay daughters, sons, fathers, moth*Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd 663-5934 Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 . ers, aunts, uncles and cousins should reMingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 298-0827 664-2951 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. . ceive benefits for their dependent family *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 838-7626 *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo ¯ members just like everyone eis . 743-4297 ¯ *Tulsa Community College Campuses Earlier this month, DaimlerChrysler *The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2nd floor 743-4297 : 747-5932 *Tulsa Gay Community Center, 1307 E. 38, 74105 Corp., Ford Motor Co. and General MoRainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 749-8833 834-0617 Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown ¯ tots Corp., along with the United Auto Richard’ s Carpet Cleaning ¯ Workers umon, announced they would 834-7921, 747-4746 B, ARTLESVILLE Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 749-6301 *Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 ¯ offer health care coverage to same-sex Scribner’ s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 260-7829 partners of all eligible U.S. employees. It Paul Tay, Car Salesman OKLAHO MA CITY/NORMAN ¯ 481-0558 was the first time an endre industry, along *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 835-5563 ¯ Borders Books & Music, 3209 NW Expressway 405-848::2667 ¯ with its leading umon, announeed domesVenus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard 743-1733 : Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 ¯ - tic partner benefits simultaneously. More Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling 665-2222 : TAHLEQUAH : than.3,400 private and public employers *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan 918-456-7900 592-0767 : Stonewall League, call for information: *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 918-456-7900 ¯¯ provide these benefits to their employees. ¯ *Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church So far this year, an average of five www.gaytulsa.org 918-453-9360 : Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 employers a week are announcing these Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities NSU School of Optometry, 1001N. Grand : benefits, according to HRC’ s WorkNet, 579-9593 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 HIVtesting every other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for dates 743-2363 : which tracks these trends. Many of All Sods Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria ¯ America’ s leading companies offer these 587-7314 EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS ¯ Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 501-253-7734 benefits including: IBM, Microsoft Shell 583-7815 Autunm Bre~.,ze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 501-253-7457 ~ Oil, Walt Disney, Fannie Mae, Cifgroup, 583-9780 *Jim & Brent s Bistro, 173 S. Main "13/UGFr Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 501-253-6807 ¯ Xerox, Time Warner and United and 585-1201 DeVito’ s Restaurant, 5 Center St. *Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston 501-253-5445 : American Airlines. Additionally, more Fmerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence 501-253-9337 ¯ thanhalfoftheFortune 500includesexual MCC of the Living Spring *ChurchoftheRestorationUU, 1314 N.Greenwood 587-1314 501-253-2776 : orientation in their non-discrimination Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 *Community of Hope United Me~o~li."~st, 2545 S:.Y ale 747-6300 501-253~5332 ¯ polities. 749-0595 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery *Community Unitarian-Universanst tgongregauon 501-624-6646 : Letters Policy 748-3888 Positive Idea Marketing Plans Council Oak Men’ s Chorale 501-253-6001 : 712-1511 TulsaFamily News welcomes letters on Sparky’ s, Hwy. 62 East *Ddaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware 501-253-4074 ¯ 742-2457 White Light, 1 Center St. issues which we’ve covered or on issues *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 : you think need to be considered. You may JOPLIN, MISSOURI Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa- Lesbian & Gay Catholics & 355-3140 Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 *Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 41%623-4696 : request that your name be withheld but 747-7777 letters must be signed & have phone num* is where youcan fin dTFN ¯ NotallareGaY" ownedbutallareGay " friendly *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard " " ~ bers, or be hand ddivered. *Free Spirit Women’ s Center, call forlocation &info: 587-4669 stirs controversy ��of police was once so pervasive that Anti-Gay Ads in Mexico "¯ hate past. crimes andsame-sex domestic violence went MEXICO CITY (AP) - The two leading candidates ¯ unreported, activists said. "I think there was, clearly, some traditional stereoin Mexico’ s presidential campaign have raised eye- : brows by casting doubts on each other’ s masculinity. . typing on both sides, but that has changed alot," said Jimmy Martinez, who leads a communi.ty-poli.c; But the real surprise to .many,,,I~__ple in tl~i."s land w~.ith ¯~ Lt. ing team in the Cheesman Park area: Marttnez sara a reputation for "machismo has been me negauve ¯ acting Police Chief Gerry Whitman devised the stratreaction to the tactic. ~ - egy when he was captain of District 6 surrounding Criticism led opposition candidate Vicente Fox to quickly drop a negative TV ad aimed at rival Fran= ~ Cheesman. Once the "Fort Apache" of city police cisco Labastida, the candidate of the long-governing ~ districts, District 6 is now a model for communityInstitutional Revohition.ary. Party, or PRI. Using a ~ policing programs. Cheesman is ~a .well:known gathering #ace for ~ -~ ¯ Mexican slang termfbr s0iii~0ne Of madefined seXu2 Gays and Lesbians,~and friction de~eloped between ality, the ad showed Labastida hugging and lifting a ~ neighbors and parkusers¯ Marfinez ~id policegot the~ -PRI colleague by the thighs: It also featured shots of Cheesman Park West Neighborhood Association and male strippers at a’ campaign rally for another PRI candidate. " Equality Colorado, a statewide Gay civil-rights orgaAfter canceling the ad, Fox’ s socially conservative :¯ nization, directly involved. Representatives on both sides said the strategy has . National Action Party, known as PAN, ran an adver- ~ worked. "For one thing, our work with the Denver tisement in newspapers defending itself tothe Gay police has become a model for how an organization community. The p~t,,y is "not against.the ,O,,ay com- :~ like ours can work with law enforcement," said Lori munity in any way,’ the ad said, adding: In a Fox ¯ Girvan, director of Equality Colomdo.DedeDePerein, admiulstration, there will befrcedOm for people to ¯ who heads Equality’s Anti-Violence Project, sai.’d live without masks." i cooperadun with police has "built bridges" over me Carlos Monsivais, an author and social critic, said the party’ s retreat was a milestone for Mexico, where ". Gay community’ s prevalent, persistent fear and mistrust of law enforcement. there are no openly Gay politicians and homosexualJoe Barrows of the Chcesman Park West Neighbortty has not been wtdely accepted..The most tm.po, hood As sociation said he and his neighbors frequently t~( thing is that even Fox and the right had to oacK down and apologize to the Gay commumty,, h,e’ s .atd.." called oolice with complaints before the community"It’ s incredible to hear the word ’homophobta oemg ~ policing campatgn. Now compl.amt.s a~..e rare: Tl~.e result has been a positive change m tlae atsrupttons m used even by the right." the neighborhood. It’ s been a positive experience all Labastida’ s supporters have drawn their own critithe way around," he said. cism for taking shots at.Fox’ s masct!!.inity with allusions to his separation from his wife and his being the father of four adopted children. Such attacks have seldom been so direct in Mexican politics, although in the previous presidential election six years ago, the PRI allegedly hired transvestites to attend an opposiCARSON C1TY (AP) - A Mormon church-endorsed tion campaign rallyin Veracruz state in an attempt to ban on same-sex marriages cleared one hurdle rediscredit it. cendy when the secretary of state’ s office said aballot ~etition contained enough signatures. The ruling by This time, the attacks were started by Fox. Fo,x, called the PRI candidate a sissy and" La Vesttda, Deputy Secretary for Elections Susan Morandi advanced the constitutional referendum to its final step a pun on his rival’s name implying Labastida is a cross-dresser. But the atmosphere changed when a - a test sampling names on the petition for regist.ered minor-party candidate, Gilberto Rincon Gallardo of voters. County clerks and voter registrars were given the Social Democratic Party, stuck up for homosexuuntil July 7 toverify that registered voters signed the als, the handicapped, rape victims and Indians in a petition. televised debate, the first time many of those groups. Morandi’ s office said the Coalition for the Protection of Mamage got 120,558 people to sign its 15etihad been mentioned in the race. "In weak democracies like Mexico, legal protections are necessary to tlon, which is almost three times the number of registered voters needed to put a question on the prevent a tyranny of the majority over minorities, so that people can decide on their own private lives Nevada ballot: Under the measure, Nevada would withou,,t a majority imposing its moral or cultural recogmze mamages only of a re.an and woman. ,That already is part of state law, but advocates want to t~acK views, Rincon Gallardo said. On June 17, the Gay community held what was by it up in the state constitution. far the largest Gay-pride parade in Mexican history, Opponents say the initiative amounts to discriminadota and bigotry. The Progressive Leadership Alliwith organizers estimating a turnout of 30,000. Just ance of Nevada and about 20 other groups across the ¯ five years ago, SUCh parades drew an average of about 1,000 people. But Gays haven’ t had much success in state formed the Coalition for Unity to campaign their effort to make an issue of the banning of some against the ballot measure. The Coalition for the Protection of Marriage is Gay cultural events by PAN officials in towns they heavily supported by the Church of Jesus Christ of govem. Benjamin Araujo of the Front for-People with Latter-day Saints, whose members were central to AIDS-HIV said that "Gays are more tolerated than anti-Gay marriage efforts in Hawaii and Alaska, and most recently, in California. However, the former acceuted" in Mexico and that an openly .Gay pol~iti .c.a.1. can~date is an impossibility. The prev. at.e,nce,,.o.I" an,uCatholic bishop of Las Vegas, Daniel Walsh, asked Gay attitudes wasillnstratedbY areport oy me t_,mzen) priests and paris.ke_s to. support the ’~.aditi0nal f_~amCommitteeAgainst Homophobic Hate Crimes: It ily" but not to support Ziser’ s effort because it fosters estimates that 190 Gays were killed in Mexico beill-will toward Gays. cause of their sexual sees orientation between 1994 andt 1999. ButMons~vats progress. We sul!haven" i Mormans Attack Gay Relationships in Nevada Gay Pride in Tel Aviv reached the point of having an openly Gay candi" TEL AVIV, Israel (AP) - Celebrating Gay pride, date," he said. "But we are now at a point where there thousands of Israelis in tank tops and shorts danced to can no longer be an openly anti-Gay candidate." ¯ deafening music and waved rainbow-colored flags at ¯ the end of June. The annual street party has become ¯ the latest venue in the culture war between secular ¯ Israelis and devout Jews who consider h°m°sexuality ¯ an abomination. DENVER (AP) - Gays and Lesbians have formed an ¯ "We promise to support your struggle against the alliance with police to deal with late-night cruising, ~ religious," legislator Tommy Lapid, leader of the loud noise and sex in public around Cheesman Park. ¯ secular rights party Shinui, told the cheering crowd. Police, Gay civil-rights activists and park neigh- ~ In recent years, Gays and Lesbians in Israel have bors have been handing out fliers to motorists for the ¯ scored a string of successes in the courts, though not past few weeks warning that police will crack do.wn ¯ in parliament, where ultra-Orthodox religi°us Parties on traffic, park curfew violations and inappropriate ¯ have considerable deut. Last month, the Supreme activity on surrounding streets. ¯ Court allowed a Lesbian spouse to be registered as the The joint effort would not have been possible in the Denver Cops & Gays Work Together United in God’s Love MCC-United Reverend Cathy Elliot P~tor ..... Sunday Worship ~ 1 1:00 am 62~ N. Maplewood ; Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 254~ South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am .. Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 Sandra Hill Licensed Professional & National Certified Counselor, Certified Hypnotherapist Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation After Hours Appointments Available 2865 E. Skelly Drive; Suite 215,745-1111 Red Rock Tulsa- O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network Outreach Program Thurs. 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Norway’ s only female bishop, RosmarieKohn, faced ¯ a revolt by nearly one-third of her own clergy when ¯ : she allowed openly Lesbian Siri Sunde to return to the " ". ¯ : ¯ : pulpit. Sunde had been barred after she married her female companion. Gay marriages are legal in Norway, with all the fights of heterosexual marriages except church weddings and the right to adopt. ¯ Couples Bill Germany Considers Over the last few years, the Gay pride parade has ¯ drawn more and more people. On Fri.day, .Rg,bin i Rp.r~iJN(AP~-Germanv’s~ovemingSocialDem°- Square was lined with Israeli flags and me rai.noo.w_ . ~r~s--a~d &reins have ag~eed~on the outhneof a draft. ~’r~ (?0 ~ ba~erstof the Ga3~ prid~ moyeme.nt~ T~ech~,0 6-9 l~m, Sunday..,-.:F~day "12-~pm,~Sa.turd~y, ~t]l ~sales benefi~t t~h~ ,C.~e~t~tq~ .... 1 ’ ~7 bl~ed from. lod~m_o._umed:on ~ : ; ) f’_ ~". 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The bill, to be presented to parliament before during which observant Jews refrain from work and t breaks for summer next month, would recognize a professional corporation travel. registered Gay palTmerships as families, said Greens Taking a break from the blazing heat, Kinneret lawmaker Volker Beck. However, homosexual G01an said the scene made her feel that Israel was no couples apparendy would not have the right to adopt different from othercountries. "You only see pictures children - a demand of the Greens rejected by the of Israel when rocks are being thrown. I’ m proud that dominant Social Democrats. despite everything we can still do this," she said. Gay partnerships wonld get legal rights similar to 747-5466 Golan~ said that in the increasingly bitter culture heterosexual couples on taxes, social security and war betwTeen Israel’ s secular majority and thedevout ~mmigration law - an important point for Gay couples 402~ South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 7;~i35 minority, the distrust is. so great that "each side where one parmer is a foreigner. Beck said the prodefines itself as the opposite:of what the other is." posals still require formal approval bythe parliamenTherefore, she said, many secular Israelis will suptary groups of the two governing parties. ]2~ort causes as long as they are denounced by the Opposition conservatives blasted the plahs and ’~:~’~r~igious community. hinted they would try to stall the bill in th~ upper Lapid, standard bearer of the secular fight against house of parliament, where the govemment,lack.s a what he calls religious coercion, said his party and the majority. Thomas Goppel, aleader of Bavaria s righthomosexual movement are natural partners. Next ist Christian Social Union party, called the proposals week, a bill proposing recognition of same-sex civil ILDING & GARDEN "absurd." Germany’ s Association of Gays and Lesbiunions will be up for approval. However, Lapid said ans welcomed the draft saying it did not meet all of the it will likely fail because of the influence of the DESIGN group’ s demands but still were a great st p forward." religious parties. But some of those dancing in the parade said they paid little heed to politics. "Who 583-1248 cares what they do in the Knesset? Look at this celebration," said Anat Schumaker, one of theparticipants. "We’ re here and they can’ t do anything to stop ¯ ¯ MINNEAPOLIS (AP) - A state law that makes oral and anal sex acrimeis unconstitutional and shouldbe ¯ thrown out, tim Minnesota Civil Liberties Union ¯ claimed in a lawsuit filed at the end of June. The MCLU and the Lesbian and Gay Rights Project of the American Civil Liberties Union are challenging OSLO, Norway (AP) - The selection of an openly ¯ Minnesota’ s sodomy statute, saying the law violates Walk-in Clinics Gay clergyman in defiance of state Lutheran church the right of privacy guaranteed by the state constituguidelines raised concerns Friday that the issue of Tuesdays, 5 -8 pm, Center, 1307 East 38th tion. Thelaw - which applies to all consenting adults, homosexuality could split the church. The Church of i even married heterosexuals - makes violations punWednesdays, 5-8 pm, Red Rock, 1724 East 8th Norway’ s highest body, its 85-member national con- : ishable with a year in prison and up to $3,000 in tines. The class-action lawsuit, filedin Hennepin CountY, gress, ruled in November 1997 that clergy who enter ¯ Daytime appointments available. homosexual partnerships could not hold jobs that ¯ asks the court to declare the statute void and prevent Call for more information: ¯ require ordination. the state from enforcing it. The plaintiffs include two However, the~Oslo Bishops’ Council of clergy and : married heterosexuals who say they risk prosecution, laity voted 4-3 on June 15 to appoint Jens Torstein : a Lesbian who fears eviction because her lease proOlsen as chaplain for the Majorstue Church. Olsen " hibits illegal activity, a Gay law student who fears noted onhis application that he was living with a Gay ¯ being disbarred, a divorced Gay man who fears losing ¯ his right to visithis children, and a group of Lesbian, partner. The council minority appealed the decision to ¯ Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered lawyers and law Trend Giske, head of the churches and education ¯ students. Keller Williams Realty ministry that formally employs state church clergy. ¯ According to the MCLU, 18 states still have sodHe initially said he saw no reason to reverse the .: omy, statutes, down from all 50 in 1961. In five of council majority’s decision, but will make a final~ ": ~ose s’tat~s, the law hpplies 0nly to Gays [editor’s decision next month. If hired, the 51-year-old Olsen ¯ note: Oldahoma is one of those with laws only diwould be Norway’ s first male minister who is openly ¯ rected at Gay people]’. Legislatures have repealed Burleson~ ~k’w.com ¯ sodomy laws in 25 states, while courts have overliving with a Gay partner. Oslo Bishop Gmmar Staalsett saidhe expects the. . turned them in others. In one of the most recent cases, ministry to respect his council’ s majority, in keeping 2651 East 21st Street, Ste. 100, Tulsa 74114 an appeals court in Texas voided that state’ s sodomy with usual practice. "Olsen is dearly the best quali- ¯ law two weeks ago. ~,;o~, An Independent Member Broker fied for the post," Staalsett said. ¯ Attorney General Mike Hatch was out of state and ¯ But the move prompted Norway’s head bishop, unavailable for comment on the lawsuit, said his Odd B0ndevik, to say he was calling an emergency ¯ spokeswoman, Leslie Sandberg. meeting of the national bishops council on the matter Tom Prichard, executive director of the Minnesota ¯ OPENARMs,OPENMINDS,OPENHEARTS probably in August. "The appointment.., can split Family Council, which has helped fight off attempts the Church of Norway," he was quoted as telling the ¯ to repeal the law at the Legislature, said the law Saint Dunstan Saint Aidan Norwegian news agency NTB.-"When we said the should stay on the books, and he criticized the MCLU 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 4045 N. Cincinnati, 425-7882 issue does not have to be a splitting factor, we asfor filing the lawsuit. ’°They’ re trying to do an end run ¯ Trinity sumed that each individual bishop would be loyal to Saint John by getting the courts to strike it down instead of going the national church council’s resolutions and the through the appropriate channel, which is the Legis501 S. Cincinnati. 582-4128 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 ¯ lature," Prichard said. church itself," Bondevik was quoted as saying. An anguished debate over Gay clergy has already The Episcopal Church Welcomes You led to bitter disputes within the church. Last year, Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC TOM NEAL .................... Minnesota ’Sodomy’ Law Under Challenge Red Rock Tulsa Flee Confidential HIV Testing 918-584-2325 KEVIN BURLESO N 712-2252 Gay Clergyman Shakes Up Norweigan Church i �alth Officials to Focus Gay Needs . ated offices to deal specifically with Gay health issues. Officials in Seattle have :d velo#as iali d mpaigntovac¯ cinate Gay men for hepatitis. BOSTON (AP) - Boston public health officials have agreed to try to better meet the needs of the city’ s Gay community by collecting data onillnesses,raising awareness of health issues and seeking funding ¯ WASHINGTON (AP) - Four new partfor new programs. Their decision follows " nerships were announced by a federal the lead of other big U.S. cities, where ¯ health agency Tuesday to provide fundofficials have already taken action to ad: ing to groups attempting to bring an AIDS dress the health needs of Gay, Lesbian, ¯ vaccine to market. Bisexual and Transgender residents. i Theseparme.rships, call,edHIV ~acone ’q’here is clear data that show s there are ¯ design and development teams, were health differences between the Gay and ¯_ prompted by~ a. presidential dirertive to larger communities," said Stephen ¯ increase public-private cooperation in Boswell, executive director of the Fenway : developing vaccines to major diseases, Community Health Center, which serves : according to the National Institute of Aia high percentage of Boston’ s Gay popu: lergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID), lation. "If those problems are addressed, ¯ the section of the National Institutes of we can make a significant impact." : Health that set up the deals. ¯ At a conference held in Boston in May, "Many vaccines in use today resulted officials from public health agencies fr°m b°th g°verument-sp°., snL0r--~and pfi.around the country cited studies showing i vate research," said Dr. Anthony S. Faucl, Gays are at risk for a range of health : director of NIAID. problems, including depression, breast ¯ The awards are incentive-based, aimed cancer, and substance abuse. ¯ at teams that have a vaccine in developAfter years of focusing solely on HIV : ment but have not yet reach_ed human and AIDS, Boston’s public health offi~ testing. The teams will receive funds as cials decided soon after the conference to ¯ they achieve preset goals. develop a more efficient way to deal with ¯ Three U.S. companies - Advanced the community’s other pressing needs, ~ BioScience Laboratories in Kensington, said John Auerbach, executive director of ¯ Md.; Chiron Corporataon in Emeryville, ¯ Calif.; and Wyeth Lederle Vaccines and me Boston Public Health Commission. q~nis.is the first time the he~Ith depart¯ Nutrition in Pearl River, N.Y. - as well as ment has acknowledged it needs to spe~ a consortium of Australian universities cifically address the health needs of the ¯ led by the University of New South Wales Gay community," he said. "This is a sig¯ all have different tactics on how to create nificant step forward." ¯ a serum that will protect humans from Health departments in New York, Chi; HIV infection, which causes AIDS. cago and San Francisco have already c~e- Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law : Feds to Fund AIDS ¯ Vaccine Search While Louganis left immediatdy alter the parade to fly out of the city, Cammermeyer spoke briefly in the rain, noting that she really might have preferred not to come to Tulsa, thinking that it might not really be safe or wdcoming, but that probably she needed to come to Tulsa for precisdy that reason. Another group which received great atteiation was ORU.out.com, a new Lesbian and Gay alumni organization for Oral Roberts University (ORU). While Gay alumni groups exist around the country, ORU.out.com is unusual in that ORU .district. Boolmng techno and 0asco music ¯ played as drag queens and other elabo¯ rately costumed men and women danced on colorful floats and along the sidelines of the parade Police estimated the crowd size at between 100,000 and 130,000 people, while organizers said that 250,000 people turned out for the event. Coinciding with the weekend of the parade, Social Affairs Minister Martine ¯ Aubry said the government planned to : introduce new laws oudawing discrimi¯ nadon against homosexuals. Aubry said : the new legislation would appear as an ¯ amendment tO a "social modernization" : bill currently going through Parliament. has a policy of banning Gays as.students, faculty or staff. Regardless, ~e ~oup numbered about 20 and group orgamzer, Jeff McKissic notes that about 60 people have gotten involved. Orgamzers of the Parade and Festival, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, Inc. estimated that some 3,000 participated or attended. More than !00,000 march in Paris Gay Pride parade PARIS (AP)- In a festive celebration of Gay pride; more than 100,000 people marched and danced on the last weekend in June through the streets of Paris behind a giantbanner with the slogan for this year’s parade: ,Homophobia - a social ¯ Denver Pride Draws 100,000 ¯ DENVER (AP) - More.than 100,000 at" tended Denver PrideFest 2000. The festi~ val, organized by the Gay, Lesbian & An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weeke~qd and evening appointments are available. Just for laughs artur0 Italy’s quick chang Welcomed : Bisexual Community Services Center, is ¯ inits 10th year. No violence was reported ~ dUring the parade between Cheesman Park : and Civic Center Park that featured 100 : floats. The festival also featured 230 ¯ booths and. a family zone with the signs: ~ "drug-~ alcohol-, hate-flee zone." ¯ Activists told a crowd at the Civic Cen: ter that good people standing up to big~ otry, not legislation, will protect Gays, ¯ Lesbians and Bisexuals from violence. ¯ "In every case, a mass mobilization of ¯ people changed thepolitteal clunate, sm ¯ Leslie Feinberg, author of ’q’ransgender ¯ Warriors" and "Stone Butch Blues." 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In my case, my 44 Barbie doll and spent many Marolyn was year old closet was so t’ffled a day practicing undressthat I couldn’t hea~ the ing her. It was when I was i~autfful, with echo e~}en if I tried, i fi13 that things became, for lees and naily Sprang out, machete want of a better word, inland, :r~dy to tell evsticky. eryone that I’ m a Lesbian! III. Crushes weB, 7ou She walked in beauty, Well, two or three people, like the night...OK, so anyway. ~en yo~ mantra they all did at one time or Because I didn’t know [or a smmer other, didn’t they? This what was all involved in particular she walked into "coming out." I had no my eighth grade English good role models to speak classroOm, and I immedi--of in that area. And don’ t ately thought,"Wow, she’ s tell me Melissa Etheridge pretty." I never used that and Ellen DeGeneres s~s no~ word to describe any gift because famous people before. All right, there was will always be heard and ~ST yo~ ~d;’ the time I whistled at Ann don’ t have to repeat them" Margret in the movie theselves. I, on the other hand, atre when she came on have to tell friends individually and hear such remarks as: "Oh, I " screen in "Viva Las Vegas." Some people don’t see signs that say always knew that"; "Yeah, I was wonder- ¯ ing when you were going to tell me"; and " "Caution - Falling Rocks"; I don’t see the ever popular, "YES! We knew it! We ¯ signs that clearly scream, "Karin- you’ re. ¯ a Lesbian. Get over it. when my eighth win the bet!" Umm, friends, if you knew it for so ¯ grade crush continued into ninth grade, I long, how come I JUST found out? You ¯ went to her house for a sleepover. I’ll say this here and now - Jane Eyre could have let me in on it! (Best friend’ s ¯ note: I tried! You don’ t just sit someone ¯ should be forbidden reading injunior high. down and tell them "Um, Karin, I think " The protagonist as a little girl has a crush you’re Gay. Deal with it!" - Jim) Actu- " on her best friend, which author Charlotte ally, I hav& known, all my life, but I never ¯ Bronte says ~s normal Besides the very gave a name to it. And there were the ¯ obvious inference that Charlotte had her various signs that threw me totally off ¯ own Lesbian feelings, it did much to help track. Instead of telling you my. boring ¯ me rationalize the rest of my life. If I felt life, I’ 11 give you a sampling of it, inter- ¯ something for a girl, then I invoked the spersed with the steps I went through (and ¯ name of Charlotte Bronte, and things were probably many of us go through) in real- ¯ "normal" again. So when I wanted to izing my true nature. ~ : watch my friend undress in front of me, I know what you’ re saying. If I’ m read- ¯ that was just anormal straight girl feeling. ing Tulsa Family News, I know I’ m Gay ¯" When I fantasized about crawling in bed and what could you possibly tell me about : naked withher, I still usedCharlotte Bronte it?" Nothing, but since I want you to read : as a guide. Charlotte was talking about about my boring life anyway, I have to - "little" girls, mind you. jazz itup somehow. Also, there may be a ¯ When I was 30 I met a woman who, few of you who are reading your ". without touching me, did things to my boyfriend’s copy of this newspaper. If ¯ southerly regions that no one had ever you’re "curious" and your boyfriend is done before. When I’ d had enough frusreading Tulsa Family News, then you’ re " tration, I had sex with a man, and truly both Gay! Read on. ¯ believed there was something wrong with I. "I’m What?" : me for not feeling what I thought I should Sooner or later you have to start ques- ¯ feel. Whom did I call in as my counselor? tioning. What kind of music do you listen " Yep, good old Charlotte. to? Yep, if you answered Tori Amos, Ani ¯ IV. In Love DiFranco, Sophie B. Hawkins, !Indigo It was bound to happen, and this time a Girls, and Sarah McLachlan, then you ¯ Lesbian became not only my crush, but need to examine your lifestyle. I haven’ t ¯ probably the only person I’ ve ever fallen known a Gay personyet who doesn’ t love : in love with. Marolyn was beautiful, with Sarah McLachlan. However, if you own ¯ great legs and a great pair of - well, you five different copies ofMelissa Etheridge’ s ¯ get it. When your mantra for a summer is Breakdown (and I do!), the questioning is ¯ "She’s just my friend, she’s just friend, over. ’ ~ ¯ ¯ she’ sjustmy friend", she’ s not JUST your II..Environment ¯ friend. ¯ .I came into this world kicking and Have you ever had a moment of clarity? screaming, and when I found out, in my ¯ A moment when suddenly the clouds part, neighborhood full of boys,-that I was ¯ the sky opens up, and you just KNOW different from them, I kicked and screamed -" what you want? Marolyn took me to my again. I wanted to be a boy. lplayed just ¯ first Lesbian bar (we were "just friendg’:,, like ~the boys; doing everything they did ¯ mind you), Sue Ellen’ s in Dallas. As we exeep,tJ~,e,, standing up. And I was pissed danced a slow _..d~,c~ together, my m~ .... I icouldn’t master that! Physically and -" merit of clarity hit. I d shoved down the~.;~ ~ ¢motionall);i Was a gifl~but I thought like ¯ feelings about Marolyn for so long that a!l, ;!’~:: a:boy. So when I would question myself ¯ at once they came rushing at me and l - years later, I always went back to the same ¯ conldn’ t deny any longer. I looked arotmd thing: I HATED girls then. Well, most ¯ and just knew I had finally found somelittle boys do hate little girls at that age. If " place to belong, see Lesbian, p. 11 �by Jim Christjotm, entertainment editor Some of you might ask, "What’s he clucking about this time?" And well you might - run, don’t walk, to see Chicken Pun. Created by ’%Vallace and Gromit" impresario Hick Parks, this rollicking comedy about chickens dreaming of a KD Lang ¯ : : ¯ : ¯ KD Lang’s newCD is a delight. Remember those lazy weekends when mom (in some ease, you) Wouldpiit her favorite records on the changer in the late 60’ s early70’s?BarbraStreisand’sStoneyEnd, and Sergio Mendes’ Brazil ’66 come to THE ART 0f PERFORMANCE better p!a~..~.~, ~far away fromthe ~neentra¯ iipdated iiii{ a ~ fio~sl~. ~mi~f’.~_~v~-, ~ ~ ¯ tion c~ami3 Chlcken farm ttiey re in’fs a i mind. Well, KDhas taken that sound and " witty, int~-.ligentfi~~1m........ ¯ .~ I havehad my suspicions~’abtut Nicks~ ¯ met fling that grows in to ab~t diore of a. familystatus given serious thing. And it is the persome subtle refer"...While the films are fect album for a ences in the cloudy Sunday afWallace & Gromit claymation, they are not ternoon with your shorts (available loved One, your. on video, and well children’s films. worth it), such as summertime fling., Gromit (a dog) or even an imagiWith "Chicken Run," nary lover. The knitting a rainbow the reality of what happens to -albuin’ S title is In~.. striped sweater.~ vindbte Summer, The Wallace and ehiekles who don’t lay their : and La Lang has Gromit shorts are ne~er soundedbetguaranteed to share of eggs is brought home in ter. The album procheer up the most an unflinehlngly touching way. gresses with the depressed person nervous, first on~in the world, and And yes, you will relate to tact ditty about a watch for the For ~.ales, contact Rupy Robateau 280.5999 subtle touches he the characters- and never look possibleloveinter-or Marcus Winkler 280.6234 est titled "The puts in, like the For Service, contact Danny Quigg 280.6828 at chicken pot pies Consequences of newspaper-headFalling", and she lines in thepapers the same way again ...." captures the mothe characters ment perfectly. read. While the films are claymation, they ¯ This segues into an up tempo number ¯ JAGUAR called"Summertime Fling" that eapsulizes are not children’s films. With Chicken 9607 S. Memorial Dr. Run, the reality of what happens to chickies ¯¯ that high, giddy feeling when itis discovered that indeed, the objet d’affection who don’ t lay theft share of eggs is brought home in an unflinchingly touching way. : returns the feeling. It is sure to bring a And yes, you wiII reIate to the characters : smile to the most jaded heart. Thememory - and never look at chicken pot pies the ¯ may be buried deep, but it’ s in there somesame way again. As for the aforemen- " where! The albums builds to a quieter tioned clues as to the Gay sensibility of : climax than one might imagine, as the the film, Cheek out the ratsi relationship. : seriousness of the relationship deepens. "Love’ s Great Ocw.an" is a winner, and And when the birds are practicing flying, ¯ ~B~,~t Va~ll ~r’~[il/a~ &m~.e’|eltrm9 _ /’~1 ~ /OM II~.ilI~.~ a’~III~.~lI~.ll. has a mysterious feel to it that gives the one ofthe best gags was when they fall, album some weight. The rest are pretty~-and the rat says "It’ s raining hens", which standard love songs, pleasant to~ " ............. n’ to those of us who re,c~l a certain song /ulsas iwo-~plrlteo inolan Me S ",eta \"~ eat for a dinner o essin towith a similar rifle, realize it’ s a pretty big Support Group ts here for you. tipoff as to the sensibility that inspired : makeout album. The retro feel is great, ¯ andblends well into the music, capturing this film. ¯ Evening support group meetings The jokes are all extremely well done, ¯" the feeling perfecdy of some of my favor¯ Relationship workshops and the sight gags, well, the film begs a : ite songs remembered-from childhood second and third viewing to take every- : and beyond. Highly recommended. It’ s a ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats thing in, and look at the backgrounds. ¯ great companion, piece to Melissa ¯ Free HIV testing There are gems hidden everywhere. It is : Etheridge’s darker "Breakdown". With ironic that Mel Gibson,homophobic adul- : Melissa, you cover the darker cynical For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project terer that he is, lends his voice to the film : moments, with La 1 ang, the bright sunin a really well done turn as a Rhode : shiny day moments. I caught Arturo Brachetti on a guest Island Red cock named Rocky. One must ¯ ¯ appearaneeonDrewCarey, andyes,he’s think that someone planned that casting and this is the place for an obvious joke, : family, and yes,he’ s fantastic. Well worth . Are You Gay or Bisexual? which I will leave to your imaginations. ¯ seeing what he’ s got up his sleeve! Check Think about it. (R~oc~y,.....Rhode, gg~.it? ;.,rpriorcol~f~r~t~.. ¯ : Right up there with Ginger Chickeh, ifi~ : .... And fi~t mbliffi, the’R~ilt ifiteiaiiews!’ heroine of the piece. Rosemary is the : Chicken that doesn’ t have babies. You’ll get it when :~you see.the, film.) All the actors are marvelous, and if you’ re a fan of any of the British comedies on PBS Sunday nights, you’ll recognize a few voices. If there’s one film you see this summer, make it this one. It’ 11 be well worth your time. I plan to see it several more times, and get the DVD when it comes out - just to scroll through the frames and catch what I missed the first ten times. And I think instead of chicken pot pies, I’ll stock up on the vegetarian ones instead. And instead of roast chicken sandwiches, the veggie chick burgers as well. Buh-bye, colonel! ¯" in the city’s 30th annual Lesbian Gay ¯ Bisexual Transgender Pride Parade, he ¯ said such events provide "a little light of : hope.., acceptance of Gay people is still ¯ the toughest issue out there," said Ellard, ¯ ¯ 35. "The religious right still thinks we’re a threat to family values. But when you ¯ look at the Gay families marching with : their children.., you see thatit’ s not true." ¯ What began in 1970 as a meager pro: cession followed by an unassuming"Gay¯ in" at Golden Gate Park has become one : of California’ s biggest events, ¯ see Pride, p. 9 �¯ In Washington, the Peace Corps an: nounced a worldwide campaign to push ¯ similar measures - training its 2,400 vol’q’be probability that you die from AIDS : unteers in Affieain preventive tedmiques when you arc 15 today is over 50%in ¯ and forming a200-member"crisis corps" these countries," Plot told a press confer- : to help educate commtmities. "There is no ence. "We arc going into societies where ¯ option for any organization working in there arc more people in their 60’ s and : development other than to play a role in 70’ s than there are in their 40’ s and 30’ s," ¯ helping these countries confront the HIV¯ AIDS crisis," Peace Corps Director Mark hc said. "This is unheard of." With dwindling numbers of economi- i Schneider sai~. eally active adults left tosupport the re~ L .,~ .~o ~~i~ ~~.~d~l~st rate of the .’.population, the. impact on ~.~tff~ot~:~i~A~i~t~i2~.; %~ is cooving ¯. ~!~ ..... ,~ ~,-~.o:,~. ~7~." ~~ ~7,~>.>-.~ : ~_.: Afficamnattous ts devastating. Agng,~ t.~ ~ai[ .an*-~i~su~ssf.u~ ~..emBpatgn 0,f protural production in nations like Zim.~: ~ moting’¢Offdoni~us~. And’ Brazil" s policy bwe, wh,ere 2,000 people die each w..~ee;;~ : of prevention coupled with locally proAIDS, is falling. Businesses are goi~i~g ¯ ducedaltemativestohigh,costanfi-AIDS bankrupt beeause of the deaths of skilled, : drugs has halved the number of deaths educated staff members. Hopes of better : and led to huge savings in hospital bills, education are also in tatters. The number ," the report said. of new teachers trained in 7a~bia is just ¯ "In the West and in Europe, the impact keeping pace with .the number felled by :. of treatment has been spectaculars" Piot AIDS. Children are leaving school besaid. "Mortality has really collapsed..There cause they are orphaned or forced to work isa longer and better life for people with to support their families. AIDS."On the Net: http://www.uuaids.org Hospitals are overwhelmed by AIDS patients. Many have inadequate supplies of even basic antibiotics to fight the pneumonia, tuberculosis or mouth fungus that accompany AIDS, let alone the sophistiIn renewing his plea for suspending the eated drugs which have eased suffering in law until the central issues go to trial, rich countries, the report said. Stanley argued that there is realharm that Denial continues to be a problem. The could happen.’ The clerks’ rights to freereport cited a 1999 survey of 72 minors d0m of religion under the Vermont Conorphaned by AIDS in a hard-hit Kenyan": stitution would be violated, he said:, commnIfity: Although all knew of the He also argued that tax money would be disease~one of them believed their parspent through providing, rights and benents had died of it. Most thought witchefits to same-sex couples. Permitting craft or a curse was to blame. umous to go forward that may in the Piot Said one of the reasons for the future be ruled unconstitutional would explosion of cases in southern Africa is cause irreparable harm, he said. In all, the the legacy of apartheid~ which separated. ~ lawsuit_,claims.:that the.,civil unions_law_ men from their families in rural areas and violates five different articles of the state forced them to work in towns, with only Consttitution, several state statutes and prostitutes for relief. But he said govern: House rules. ments were also to blame for ignoring the Many of those arguments were made problem for too long. "What is happening when the i|~wsuit first was flied and the in southern Africa should.be a lesson for state’ s lawyer handling the ease said he countries today which don’t have a big did not believe any substantially new claims were made that would prompt the problem yet," he said. "I’m thinking of judge to change his mind. "I don’t think Asia, I’ m thinking of easte,,m, Europe, I’m thinking of the Caribbean. About $~ bill there’ s a ntl~ ttdt:~~ys~~u:can only ask lionis needed annually for prevention and once, butinpractical term~ someone would education programs to turn the tide, Plot put together their best case for a preliminary injunction," said Chief Assistant said. He called for debt-relief programs for poor comitries.. Attorney General William Griffin. "My Sandra Thurman, director of President view is they’ ve had their day in court and -the court made a decision. I.guess I’ d be a Clinton’s White House Office on AIDS policy, said the report urgently underlittle surprised if we went around again." scores the need for goverm~ent l~aders to Varmont Official May.Dof~ LaW face the crisis head on. "It will take the TOPSHAM, Vt. (AP) - The town clerk is engagement of all sectors of all societies considering defying the state by refusing if we want to win the battle against AIDS," to issue civil union licenses to Gay and Thurman said in a recent statement. Lesbian couples. Juanita Claflin describes Although Asiahas relatively low infec: the unions as "endorsed perversion." The tionrates overall, there are fears that could law, which is to go into effect July 1, states change because of the density of its poputhat if a town clerk does not want to issue lation, gome 0.7% of the Indian po,,p~athe licenses he or she must at least appoint tion is ~IV-positive, or 3.7 milliof~ii~e someone else to do so. overall: The disease has so farbeenl~g~ly In a memo sent on town letterhead to confined to drug addicts. every Topsham honsehold earlier this Infections in the former Soviet blocare month, Claflin tells voters she will not soaring because of drug addiction. Piot issue the licenses and asks if they believe said the number of new HIV cases in she should defy the law, resign or appoint Moscow last year far outstripped all prea willing assistant to deal with the papervious years combined. And the disease is work. Most of the responses so far have proliferating in Caribbean countries like urged defiance of the law, but Claflin said Haiti and Barbados because people have she has not decided whether to risk lawmultiple sexual partners from an early suits and penalties by following the age. townspeople’ s wishes. Despite the gloom of the report, Plot "I still have to make that absolute final said there are signs of hope. Uganda, decision," she said. After the townspeople which used to be the worst-affected counrespond, she will meet with the select try, has slowed new infections thanks to board and possibly hold a public meeting strong prevention campaigns and into tell residents about the potential consecreased condom use. Zambia is following quences of defying the law. "I made the suit. commitment to the people that I would uphold what they said," she added. "If they’ re still of that opinion (after being informed of the consequences), I’ll take my licks." At least one other town clerk, in Tunbridge, has resigned over the issue. In Waterbury, the town clerk and assistant town clerk also resigned recently, citing unspecified personal reasons and an effective date of July 1. Claflin’ s opposition to civil unions has ~ no secret since She was elected in p~,,~.e sell summa.,edCh. the ~When she ,w,exceptto as sw0rnin, shecivil inon licenses into her oath of office. At the time Claflin thought the bill, then being debated, would notpass, she says in her letter. "Well, I was wrong... The unthinkable did become law," she writes. "I stand firm and unwavering in my commitment to refuse to be a party to this endorsed perversion based on my constitutional rights and personal belief." But the New Jersey assistant scoutmaster ousted when the organization learned he is Gay expressed dismay at the ruling. "I’ m def’mitely saddened by the decision," said James Dale. "People don’t join the Boy Scouts beeaus~ they’re anti-Gay. People join the Boy Scouts because they want acceptance, they want community." The ruling did not specifically give the Scouts permission to bar Gay youth from membership, but its language left room for that interpretation. "I think it suggests that they can" ban Gay boys from being Scouts, said Evan Wolfson, Dale’ s lawyer. "They won the.right to declare themselves an anti-Gay group." University of Southern California law professor Erwin Chemerinsky agreed, saying, "I don’ t see any basis for drawing a distinction between Scout leaders and Scouts." The Scouts organization, formed in the United States in 1910 and now boasting 6.2 million members and adult leaders, has a policy that "avowed homosexuals are not extended membership or leadership positions," Shields said. He would not say whether the organization has withdrawn membership from Gay youths. But Scott Cozza, an adult Scout leader in California and president of Scouting For All, which advocates letting homosexuals join, said: "They’ve kicked out Gay Scouts and now they’ll continue to do so because they’ ve been given the goahead by the Supreme Court to continue to discriminate." The justices reversed a New Jersey Supreme Court decision that said the Scouts wrongly ousted Dale, an Eagle Scout. The state court said the Scouts violated a New Jersey law banning discrimination in public accommodations. But Rehnquist wrote, ’q’he forced inclusion of an unwanted person in a group infringes the group’ s freedom of expressive association" if it harms the group’s ability to advocate its viewpoint. His opinion was joined by Justices Sandra Day O’ Connor, Antonin Scalia, Anthony M. Kennedy and Clarence Thomas. Dissenting were Justices John Paul Stevens, David H. Souter, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Stephen G. Breyer. Writing for the four, Stevens said the New Jersey law does not force the Scouts "to communicate any message that it does not wish to endorse. New Jersey’s law, therefore, abridges no constitutional right of the Boy Scouts." Wolfson, Dale’ s lawyer, had cited Supreme Court decisions " : ¯ " " , ¯ " " during the 1980s that let states force the Jaycees and Rotary International to admit women as full members. But Rehnquist said requiring such groups to accept women members would not interfere with the message they seek to express. Instead, the chief justice likened Dale’ s case to a 1995 Supreme Court ruling in which the justices let the private sponsor of the Boston St. Patrick’s Day Parade exclude a group of Gays and lesbi7 a~.s, s,,aying parades are a"form0f expres~ slon. The American Center for Law and Jus~ tice, a conservative advocacy group that supported the Scouts’ appeal, said the ruling "will have a dramatic impact on all private organizations - including religious groups - to define their own mission and set their Own criteria for leadership." The. Human Rights Campaign, of the largest Lesbian and Gay civil rights organizatious, called the Supreme Court decision to allow the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) to continue its ban on Gay scouts a travesty of justice that may allow large, open membership groups to be above the law and evade .state and local nondiscrimination laws. "We are gravely disappointed with a ruling that gives the Boy Scouts of America the ability to discriminate with impunity," said HRC Legal Director Tony Varona. "TMs is a hollow victory for the Boy Scouts of America - considering the wasted time, energy and money it has spent on maintaining its ability to .discriminate and attack young men who have served its organization with distinction. Is this any way to teach youth about fairness, honesty and justiceT’ Dale was 19 and an assistant scoutmaster of a Matawan, N.J., troop when in 1990 he was identified in a newspaper article as co-president of a campus Lesbian and Gay student group at Rutgers University. The Scouts’ Monmouth Council revoked Dale’ s registration as an adult leader, andhe sued, citing the New Jersey anti-discrimination law. The New Jersey court ruled that the BSA is not a private club, but a public accommodation given its size, open membership and extensive entanglement with government agencies. In its appeal to the Supreme Court, the Boy Scouts argued that New Jersey’ s antidiscrimination law infringed on its First Amendment right to association. )’In accepting the BSA’s arguments concerning expressive association, the Court inexplicably ignored the fact that the BSA’ s purpose andmessagehas never had anything to do with sexual orientation," added HRC’ s Varona. "To the contrary, the Boy ScOuts’ oath stresses public service and honesty, and its Congressional charter and bylaws make clear that membership is open to ’any boy’." Dale now lives in New York City and is advertising director for a magazine for people who are HIV-positive. On the Net: Supreme Court decision in Boy Scouts of America v. Dale: http:// supct.law.cornell.edu/supct/html/99699.ZS.html and one of the world’s best known celebrations of Gay pride. Numerous celebrities, including comedienne Margaret Cho, made appearances. Police said the parade had proceeded peacefully, and knew of no counter-demonstrations. Parades took place also in S~atfle. New York, Chicago and Atlanta. �skins for very long. Early medical science by Lamont Linds~rom. Ph.D. Is it the unkixxdest cut? That’s what a ¯ of the late 19th century seized on the foreskin-challenged writer to Dear Abby " operation as a cure for excessive masturrecently claimed. He bitterly reproached ¯ bation and also to treat an odd collection of other conditions. Once his morn for letti~ag him be circumcision became part Cireumelslon is a circumcised - a condition of the modern medical he blamed for bis regretbody modlfleatlon toolkit, doctors were loath table shortcomin~,~ inbed. to giveitup. They invented Circtmacision is a body ritual that has a series of spurious rationmodification ritua~ ",hat has ales for the operation. The faselnated fascinated antLropolonew es t defens e of circumgists. People everywhere anthropologists. cision argues that uncut redesign-their ~odies. men are three to eight limes Modification may be as People everywhere more likely (different studsimple as a haircut and a redesign ies give different numbers) shave, or more invasive to.catch HIV. The vires foot-binding, ear-piercing, their bodies. so says this hypothesis - head-molding, ~attoomg, Modifieatlon may be attaches its elf more readily or scarification. Modifyto cells that have been kept ing the body carries social as simple as a halreut tender underneath a foreand personal meaning. Inskin. dividuals may remake and a shave, or Whether or not this latthemselves - and how they naore invaslve footest medical rationale for think about themselves circumcision holds up, by altering their bodies. blndln~, ear-piereln~, cutting has powerful soThese alterations have social meanings that go far h d-mo!dln , cial implications as well. beyond the merely hyWe ustmlly know what to tattooln~, gienic. Just why do we think when we see somemess with foreskins? Is this or searlfleatlon. one dieting, or sporting a a male attempt to appronew tattoo, or a tongue l~lbdlfyln~ the body priate natural female ferpierce, or a shaven head. tility: Men bleed their geniHumans modify lots of earrles sodal and tals to mimic menstruabody parts - elbows, fintion? Or are men conpersonal rneanlnff gers, chins, bellies - but eemed to drain away danit’ s no surprise that many gerous female blood from societies have fixated upon their sons, as do the Tannese, in order that the foreskin. Like earlobes, foreskins are these boys can fully mature? Or do men easily pierced, sliced, or cut away without cut their sons - and in so doing potentially much endangering human functiomng. endanger the reproductive future of their Unilke earlobes, however, foreskins atfamily line - as a mark of loyalty to their tach to the dhief organ of male pleasure tribe? Or do boys undergo symbolic casand reproduction. Many cultures have tration as a-price they pay fatherg to join elaborated the powerful symbolic uses of the men? Anthropologists have proposed snipping off a piece of men’ s genitals. all these explanations. Circumcision is often the key compoIt’s pretty clear that in 20th century nent of male initiation rituals, as it is on America circumcision became a marker Tanna, an island in the S outh Pacific where of class and status. Only people with 1lived for some years. The Tarmese gather money could afford doctors and genital up their sons between the ages of six and surgery. And only trendy parents who twelve and lead them away to a secret supported mainstream beliefs about pubhouse in the forest to be snipped. Tradilic hygiene would accept new scientific tionally, boys were cut withbamboo knives rationalizations for the operation. Circum- their foreskins sliced down the top - an cision rates were far higher among the superincision rather than a circumcision. urban and the wealthy than they were Nowadays, island fathers and uncles might among poorer, rural, immigrant, or mitake the boys down to a local clinic for a nority-group families. Middle-class white full-blown Western circumcision. boys carried on their bodies the mark of The loss of foreskin marks the boy’s their family’ s status claims. journey into manlaood. Tannese kids tease By the 1940’ s, the medical industry had boys who are yet to be circumcised. They captured control of childbirth. A majority call them a name that means something of women went into hospital to give birth. like "pulls back skin." A Presbyterian And for the first time a maj ofity of Amerimissionary from New Zealand lived on :canb0ys wer~eircumcised. Circumcision Tanna, in th~ 1980S wi,th his triple~ sons. rates peaked at around 85% in the 1970’ s. My island friends were scandalized that Since that decade, these numbers have these boys remained uncircumcised as dropped - as an anthropologist would they approached their teen years. Every predict - down to 60% in the mid 1990’ s. time the boys wandered by, you knew When everyoneshares the same practice, local men were pondering bamboo knives. that practice no longer serves to create New Zealanders, like most people in the distinctions of class and status among us. world, leave their foreskins alone. CirThe fact that many HMOs nowadays force cumcigion is uncommon in Europe, Asia, parents to.pay for the.operation also has and Latin America and is disappearing in spared many sons’ foreskins~ AustraJia and Canada. We Americans Still, being cut continues to symbolize share the ritual mostly with sundry Pacific "clear," "healthy," and "modem" across Islanders and Australian Aborigines, much of America. Until these meanings peoples of the Middle East (notably Jews erode, it’ s likely that many of us will yet and Arabs), and various northern and cenbe able to hold our heads up high, should tral African societies. we happen to mn into any teasing Pacific Artistic depictions of circumcision in island boys. Egypt dated to 4500 years ago suggest Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropolthat the ritual has a long history. But ogy at the University of TUlsa. Americans haven’t been snipping fore- Council Oak Men’s Chorale presents Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 8pm ALL SOULS UNITARLdN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TICKEZ~ $10 CALL 748-3888 THE COUNCIL OAK MEN’S CHORALE IS PROUD TO REPRESENT OKLAHOMA AT THE INTERNATIONAL GALA FESTIVAL LN SAN lOSE, CALIFORNIA �Callmember 341. 6866"1~ IOTA Int rnational Tours for more information. 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The cast includes John Orsulak and Patrick Hobbs, members of the Council Oak Men’s Chorale’ s (we really need agood acronym here!) and formerly Finales, along with David Hubbard, Kathy LaFortlme, Bradd Gillespie, Larry Gray, and Eric Cornell (an actor and singer to watch, as he’s got a lotta talent, and he’s dedicated to performing enough to go far). Directed by New York’s Jon Grodeski, the musical is a.,lively rethinking of the biblical tale of Joseph and his jealous brothers. Sam Harris, a Sand Springs native, left home at 15 to pursue the dream of performing on Broadway. Everyone knows about Star Search, and the recording career that followed. His latest endeavors have included the critically acclaimed "In the Life," a Broadway musical; Grease on Broadway; and his latest CD, "Revival", a return tohis pop and soul roots.. He also wrote the TBS sitcom "Down to Earth." He’s been a busy boy! And he still manages to look fabulous! . He recently completed work on the feature film "In the Weeds", with Eric Bogosian, Molly Ringwald, and Joshua More importantly, the woman with her arms around me was the woman I wanted to be with. My heart was telling me this was right, tree and just. Then the song ended, and that insidious thing called my brain took over. Years of living in the Bible Belt made me once again think too much, and I acted straight again. Which is fnnny since I obviously don’t know from straight. Too many missed opportunities later, and my unrequited love affair with Marolyn (I didn’t DARE think about this at the time!) ended when she moved away. V. Random Musings Don’t get me wrong. Three girls does not a Lesbian make. There have been many more I’ve felt "that way" about, including Ms. Black Hair, Deep Blue Eyes with whom I worked; Ms. Nude Model whom I LOVED to draw in art class; the two English teachers at school where I taught; and the young P.E. teacher at the same school. Come on, there’ s ALWAYS a P.E. teacher! And when I was 25, there was the <ahem!> 16 year old I worked with! Hey, I can’t be arrested for my thoughts, not even in Tulsa! VI. Acceptance. I know acceptance doesn’ t come in six easy steps, but time and space being what they are, I’ ve cut to the chase. What made me finally accept myself as a Lesbian? Not any one thing. I guess years of chipping away at my libido, and the fact that everytime I had sex with a man, it coincided with some girl I had a crush on. Then there’ s the entertainment world. A friend got me interested in’qRte X-Files" Leonard. He recently premiered his new one man show, "Revival", and is planning to tour the show after a New York Run. He’ 11 be making his Tulsa concert debut July 28 in "An Intimate Evening with Sam Harris." There’s a joke in that, but I’m trying to maintain a more staid image. Actually, there’s about three jokes I could make. It’s kinda like resisting chocolate - you know it’s the right thing to do, but it’s just so tempting.., but no, I have eschewed that behavior. Performances run July 14th- 23rd, and the Sam Harris evening shows start atT:30 rather than the usual 8pm, so plan accordingly. Matinees are at 2pm. The venue is Tulsa Community College’s PACE theatre at their southeast campus at 81st and 169, so don’ t go downtown to the PAC for this one. For more info., call 595-7777. July 15th is "Sand Springs Night" in honor of Mr. Harris’ hometown roots. July 19th is "Youth Night" - if you don’t qualify for that one, you can at least pretend to be from Sand Springs. And I would like to welcome a couple of new writers to Tulsa Family News. Hughston Walkinshaw will be covering film and local theatre for us here. He’ll make his debut in our August issue. And while -I’m at it, some of you have read about my best friend Karin. Wall, who w ould have thunk it but she’ s finally’ ’come out" and this month, we will feature her thoughts, in a new column entitled"Raging Lesbian." years ago, but for the past few seasons my heart has skipped a few beats more and I’ ve thought,"Was David Duchovny even in that episode tonight?" If you listen exclusively to Melissa Etheridge for a year, it’ s not just her music you identify with. And even when you do identify with it- need I say more?- you’ re Gay! When you tape the ENTIRE Gay Rights Rally on CSPAN it’ s a pretty sure bet that, yes, you’ re Gay!When you seriously consider moving to the state capital (what do you call a city FULL of Lesbians? Austin!), then, you guessed it - you’ re Gay! When your best friend calls you long distance from Tulsa to tell you the new issue of Curve is out - with Gillian Anderson on the cover- and you haul ass to the nearest Gay neighborhood to buy it within the hour, well, you’ ve just taken a ride on the Dyke Express! 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Text Any textual data included in the document High Court + Scouts: No Gays Need Apply by Laurie Asseo, Associated Press WASHINGTON - The Boy Scouts can bar Gays from serving as troop leaders, the Supreme Court said at the end of June in a 5-4 decision on "free-association rights." The decision may also let the-6.2-millionmember organization reject Gay boys as members. Forcing the Scouts to accept Gay troop leaders would violate the organization’ s right of"expressive association" under the Constitution’s First Amendment, the justices nded on the last day of their 1999-2000 term. "The Boy Scouts asserts that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the values it seeks to instill," Chief Justice William H. Relmquist wrote for the court. Requiring the organization to have a Gay scoutmaster would force it "to send a message, both~£o the youth members and the world, that the Boy Scouts accepts homosexual conduct as a legitimate form of behavior," the €,..hief justice said. "-.We’ re very pleased," said Scouts spokesman Gregg Shields. "It’ s going to allow us to continue our mission of providing character-building programs for youth." see Scouts._ tg. 9 uNPredicts: AIDS Will Kill One Half.of African Teens GENEVA (AP) - AIDS has killed 19 million people worldwide, but the worst is yet to come, the United Nations has just predicted: the disease is expected to wipe out half the teen-agers in some African nations, devastating economies and societies. ’q’here is a whole generation which is being taken outYsaid Peter Plot, head of the U.N. Joint Program on HIV/AIDS. He said vulnerable countries in Asia, Eastem Europe and the Caribbean risk a similar catastrophe unless they act now to control infection rates. In its 135-page report released at the end of June, UNAIDS estimates: -The virus has killed 19 million people worldwide, up fronr 16.3 million at the end of 1998. ~t has infected 34 million more, including 5.4 million last year alone. -More than 13 million children have been orphaned by AIDS. -In 16 sub-SaharanAfrican countries, more than onetenth of the population ages 15-49 carries the Human lmmunodeficiency Virus, or HIV. -In seven of those countries, at least one-fifth of the population is infected. One-of the countries where 20% of the population is infected is South Africa, which has 4.2 million people who are HIV positive- the largest single national total. The southern African nation of Botswana has the worst rate, with more than one in three adults infected. That is the equivalent of 90 million people out of the U.S. population of 270 million, see Africa, p. 9 DIRECTORY P. 2 PRIDE PHOTOS P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 Serving Lesbian; Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Pride 2000: Greg, Greta + ORU Too TULSA - While the Edsel ferrying Greg Louganis broke down and despite a steady but mild rain, Tulsa’s 2nd Pride Parade went off without a hitch. Beginning at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center near 41st & Peoria, several hundreds gathered along with grand marshals, Olympic champion Greg Louganis and distinguished US Army veteran Greta Cammermeyer. The. parade featured churches, choirs, drag queens and female impersonators, leather "boys and daddies," bars and businessmen who spread out over more than a mile and ended up at Veteran’ s Park for the Pride Festival. This yearlikelast, a handful of protesters gathered at the beginning of the parade, and then scurried to the end to protest yet again. Incontrast with those who were protesting, the pastor and a couple of members of the CarbondaleAssembly of God passed out bottles of water without any message of condemnation as they did last year also. When asked about their effort, they said they just wanted to act with compassion and to avoid the nastiness - leaving judgement to the Almighty. see Pride, p. 6 Humanity Unites for Human Rights Oral Roberts University Alumni Gree Louganis at the Millennium Parade Sharon Toele with Greta Cammermever i" Vermont Judge Won’t Block- Unions, Officials Rebel + More ¯ MONTPELIER,Vt. (AP)-Opponents ofVermont’ s civil unions. ¯ made another legal bid to block thelaw from taking effect on July ¯ ¯ 1st. A day after a Superior Court judge refused to issue a ." ¯ preliminary injunction blocking the first civil unions ceremonies. ¯ from taking place, opponents filed a new request and added new ° plaintiffs. A Virginia lawyer representing Shdtra and the other plaintiffs ° said Superior Cpurt Judge Stephen Martin did not have enough ; information beftre him when the judge ruled that no irreparable ° harm would occur if the law went into effect. ¯ Lawyer Erik Stanley asked to add two new plaintiffs to the ; lawsuit: town clerks in Corinth and Fairfield, who say they would ° be harmed if forced to issue civil union licenses. ¯ "These town clerks object to doing that on moral and religious ° grounds and have asked the attorney general’ s office if they could " not issue these licenses," Stanley said. ’The attorney general ; responded in a letter to them that if they refuse to issue civil ¯ unions licenses, they could be faced with civil lawsuits from the " individuals to whom they refused to issue licenses." There also ¯ is the remote possibility of criminal fines or prison terms. ¯ Several town clerks say they object to homosexuality and do ¯ not want to be forced into providing licenses that will grant same- " sex couples nearly all the rights and benefits Of marriage. " " The clerks now have been added to 15 people who sued to -" overturn the law. Eleven of those plaintiffs are members of the ¯ Vermont House who opposed civil unions, including prominent" representatives such as Sheltra, Oreste Valsangiacomo, D-Barre, ° Robert Starr, D-Troy, and George Schiavone, R-Shelburne. ¯ They argue that an informal betting pool among 14 House " members who supported the bill should invalidate it. The 14" bettors each threw in a dollar to wager on the number of "yes" ¯ votes the bill would garner when it went before the House for ¯ preliminary approval in March. It passed by seven votes that day. " Opponents argued the pool should have disqualified those who " participated because it gave them an interest in the outcome of the ¯ vote. ¯ In a recent ruling, Martin said allowing Gay and Lesbian " couples to enter into civil unions beginning Saturday would pose : no harm to the initial 15 plaintiffs, see Vermont, p. 9. Coke Adds Benefits for Gay +-Lesbian Partners WASHINGTON The Human Rights Campaign, anational Gay civil rights organization, commended the Coea-Cola Co. today for announcing plans to extend health care benefits to same-sex domestic partners of its United States-based employees. "This is excellent news, and yet another sign that domestic partner benefits are becoming a standard component of benefits packages at forward-thinking companies," said Kim I. Mills, HRC’ s education director who oversees WorkNet, HRC’s workplac project. "With this announcement, Coke becomes the 99th member of the Fortune 500 to take this important step." The Human Rights Campaign and its Business Council have been working with Coea-Cola and KOLAGE, its Lesbian and Gay employee resource group, for many months on this issue, Mills said. HRC WorkNet (www.hrc.org/worknet) provided data, strategy and other advice as needed. The Coca-Cola Co. released a statement today announcing the benefits, which will begin Jan. 1, 2001. According to the statement, employees will be able to sign up during the fall benefits enrollment period. The company also said it is researching opportunities for implementing its policy on a global basis. "Our company is committed to attracting and retaining the most diverse workforce in the world," Coca-Cola said in the statement. "Our goal is to ensure that the Coea-Cola Company is the best place for all people to work. This extension ofbenefits is another step toward achieving that goal." 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U134 41%623-4696 * is where youcan findTFN¯NotallareGaY"ownedbutallareGay"fri"endly" i The Georgia Equality Project also played ¯ a key role in working with the company : andKOLAGEto helpbring aboutthenew ¯ policy. ¯ GEP also unveiled a new initiadvg~to- ¯ day to persuade nine other Georgia COm- " panies to provide domestic partner ben- " efits to their Lesbian and Gay employees. ¯ These companies are: Home Depot, At- : lanta Gas Light Co., BellSouth, Georgia ¯ Pacific, DeltaAirlines, Wachovia, United ¯ parcel.Service, Shaw Industries and Gulf ¯ Stream Aerospace. ¯ "Some companies in Georgia are be- : hind the times in their treatment of their Lesbian and Gay employees, said Kno . "We are launching this initiative because our Gay daughters, sons, fathers, moth- . ers, aunts, uncles and cousins should re- . ceive benefits for their dependent family ¯ members just like everyone eis . ¯ Earlier this month, DaimlerChrysler : Corp., Ford Motor Co. and General Mo- ¯ tots Corp., along with the United Auto ¯ Workers umon, announced they would offer health care coverage to same-sex ¯ partners of all eligible U.S. employees. It ¯ was the first time an endre industry, along ¯ with its leading umon, announeed domes- ¯ - tic partner benefits simultaneously. More : than.3,400 private and public employers ¯ provide these benefits to their employees. ¯ So far this year, an average of five : employers a week are announcing these : benefits, according to HRC’ s WorkNet, : which tracks these trends. Many of ¯ America’ s leading companies offer these ¯ benefits including: IBM, Microsoft€Shell ~ Oil, Walt Disney, Fannie Mae, Cifgroup, ¯ Xerox, Time Warner and United and : American Airlines. Additionally, more ¯ thanhalfoftheFortune 500includesexual : orientation in their non-discrimination ¯ polities. : Letters Policy : TulsaFamilyNewswelcomes letters on ¯ issues which we’ve covered or on issues : you thinkneed to be considered. Youmay : request that your name be withheld but letters mustbe signed&have phonenum- ~ bers, or be hand ddivered. Anti-Gay Ads in Mexico "¯ past. of police was once so pervasive that hate crimes andsame-sex domestic violence went MEXICO CITY (AP) - The two leading candidates in Mexico’ s presidential campaign have raised eyebrows by casting doubts on each other’ s masculinity. But the real surprise to .many,,,I~__ple in tl~i."s land w~.ith a reputation for "machismo has been me negauve reaction to the tactic. Criticism led opposition candidate Vicente Fox to quickly drop a negative TV ad aimed at rival Fran= cisco Labastida, the candidate of the long-governing Institutional Revohition.ary. Party, or PRI. Using a ¯ Mexican slang termfbr s0iii~0ne Of madefined seXu2 ality, the ad showed Labastida hugging and lifting a ~ PRI colleague by the thighs: It also featured shots of male strippers at a’ campaign rally for another PRI candidate. " After canceling the ad, Fox’ s socially conservative National Action Party, known as PAN, ran an advertisement in newspapers defending itself tothe Gay community. The p~t,,y is "not against.the ,O,,ay community in any way,’ the ad said, adding: In a Fox admiulstration, there will befrcedOm for people to live without masks." Carlos Monsivais, an author and social critic, said the party’ s retreat was a milestone for Mexico, where there are no openly Gay politicians and homosexualtty has not been wtdely accepted..The most tm.po, t~( thing is that even Fox and the right had to oacK down and apologize to the Gay commumty,, h,e’ s.atd.." "It’ s incredible to hear the word ’homophobta oemg ~ used even by the right." Labastida’ s supporters have drawn their own criticism for taking shots at.Fox’ s masct!!.inity with allusions to his separation fromhis wife andhis being the father of four adopted children. Such attacks have seldombeenso directinMexicanpolitics, althoughin the previous presidential election six years ago, the PRI allegedly hired transvestites to attend an opposition campaign rallyin Veracruz state in an attempt to discredit it. This time, the attacks were started by Fox. Fo,x, called the PRI candidate a sissy and" La Vesttda, a pun on his rival’s name implying Labastida is a cross-dresser. But the atmosphere changed when a minor-party candidate, Gilberto Rincon Gallardo of the Social Democratic Party, stuck up for homosexuals, the handicapped, rape victims and Indians in a televised debate, the first time many of those groups. had been mentioned in the race. "In weak democracies like Mexico, legal protections are necessary to prevent a tyranny of the majority over minorities, so that people can decide on their own private lives withou,,t a majority imposing its moral or cultural views, Rincon Gallardo said. On June 17, the Gay community held what was by far the largest Gay-pride parade in Mexican history, with organizers estimating a turnout of 30,000. Just ¯ five years ago, SUCh parades drew an average of about 1,000 people. But Gays haven’ t had much success in their effort to make an issue of the banning of some Gay cultural events by PAN officials in towns they goBveemnj.amin Araujo of the Front for-People with AIDS-HIV said that "Gays are more tolerated than accacne~udteadte"iisnaMneimxipcoosasnibdiltihtyat. aTnhoepperenvl.yat..Ge,nacye,,p.oo.Il"~iatni.c,.ua.1-. Gayattitudes wasillnstratedbY areportoymet_,mzen) CommitteeAgainst Homophobic Hate Crimes: It estimates that 190 Gays were killed in Mexico bec1a9u9s9e. BofuttMheoirnss~evxautasl soereisenptraotgiorenssb.etWweeesnul1!h9a9v4ena"ndt reached the point of having an openly Gay candidate," he said. "But we are now at a point where there can no longer be an openly anti-Gay candidate." Denver Cops & Gays Work Together DENVER (AP) - Gays and Lesbians have formed an alliance with police to deal with late-night cruising, loud noise and sex in public around Cheesman Park. Police, Gay civil-rights activists and park neighbors have been handing out fliers to motorists for the past few weeks warning that police will crack do.wn on traffic, park curfew violations and inappropriate activity on surrounding streets. ¯ Thejoint effort wouldnot have been possible in the ¯ unreported, activists said. : "I think there was, clearly, some traditional stereo- . typing on both sides, but that has changed alot," said ¯ Lt. Jimmy Martinez, who leads a communi.ty-poli.c; ~ ing team in the Cheesman Park area: Marttnez sara ¯ acting Police Chief Gerry Whitman devised the strat- ~ - egy when he was captain of District 6 surrounding ~ Cheesman. Once the "Fort Apache" of city police ~ districts, District 6 is now a model for community- ~ policing programs. Cheesman is ~a .well:known gathering #ace for ~ -~ Gays and Lesbians,~and friction de~eloped between neighbors andparkusers¯ Marfinez~idpolicegot the~ -- Cheesman Park West Neighborhood Associationand Equality Colorado, a statewide Gay civil-rights orga- : nization, directly involved. ¯ Representatives on both sides said the strategy has . ~ worked. "For one thing, our work with the Denver :~ police has become a model for how an organization like ours can work with law enforcement," said Lori ¯ Girvan, directorofEquality Colomdo.DedeDePerein, ¯ who heads Equality’s Anti-Violence Project, sai.’d i cooperadun with police has "built bridges" over me ". Gay community’ s prevalent, persistent fear and misi trust of law enforcement. JoeBarrows of theChcesman ParkWestNeighborhoodAssociation saidheandhis neighbors frequently called oolice with complaints before the communitypolicing campatgn. Now compl.amt.s a~..e rare: Tl~.e result has been a positive changem tlae atsrupttons m the neighborhood. It’ s been a positive experience all the way around," he said. Mormans Attack Gay Relationships in Nevada CARSON C1TY (AP) - A Mormon church-endorsed ban on same-sex marriages cleared one hurdle recendy when the secretary of state’ s office said aballot ~etition contained enough signatures. The ruling by Deputy Secretary for Elections Susan Morandi advanced the constitutional referendum to its final step - a test sampling names on the petition for regist.ered voters. County clerks and voter registrars were given until July 7 toverify that registered voters signed the petition. Morandi’ s office said the Coalition for the Protection of Mamage got 120,558 people to sign its 15etitlon, which is almost three times the number of registered voters needed to put a question on the Nevada ballot: Under the measure, Nevada would recogmze mamages only of a re.an and woman. ,That already is part of state law, but advocates want to t~acK it up in the state constitution. Opponents say the initiative amounts to discriminadota and bigotry. The Progressive Leadership Alliance of Nevada and about 20 other groups across the state formed the Coalition for Unity to campaign against the ballot measure. The Coalition for the Protection of Marriage is heavily supported by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, whose members were central to anti-Gay marriage efforts in Hawaii and Alaska, and most recently, in California. However, the former Catholic bishop of Las Vegas, Daniel Walsh, asked priests and paris.ke_s to. support the ’~.aditi0nal f_~amily" but not to support Ziser’ s effort because it fosters ill-will toward Gays. Gay Pride in Tel Aviv " TEL AVIV, Israel (AP) - Celebrating Gay pride, thousands of Israelis in tank tops and shorts danced to ¯ deafening music and waved rainbow-colored flags at ¯ the end of June. The annual street party has become ¯ the latest venue in the culture war between secular ¯ Israelis and devoutJews who consider h°m°sexuality ¯ an abomination. ¯ "We promise to support your struggle against the ~ religious," legislator Tommy Lapid, leader of the ¯ secular rights party Shinui, told the cheering crowd. ~ In recent years, Gays and Lesbians in Israel have ¯ scored a string of successes in the courts, though not ¯ in parliament, where ultra-Orthodox religi°us Parties ¯ have considerable deut. 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There were no religious protests. Tel Aviv is anoverwhelmingly secular city, and the parade was being heldjust before the onset oftheJewish Sabbath, during which observant Jews refrain from work and travel. Taking a break from the blazing heat, Kinneret G01an said the scene made her feel that Israel was no different from othercountries. "You only see pictures of Israel when rocks are being thrown. I’m proud that despite everything we can still do this," she said. Golan~ said that in the increasingly bitter culture war betwTeen Israel’ s secular majority and thedevout minority, the distrust is. so great that "each side defines itself as the opposite:of what the other is." Therefore, she said, many secular Israelis will sup- ]2~ort causes as long as they are denounced by the ’~:~’~r~igious community. Lapid, standard bearer of the secular fight against whathe calls religious coercion, said his party and the homosexual movement are natural partners. Next week, a bill proposing recognition of same-sex civil unions will be up for approval. However, Lapid said it will likely fail because of the influence of the religious parties. But some of those dancing in the parade said they paid little heed to politics. "Who cares what they do in the Knesset? Look at this celebration," saidAnat Schumaker, one of theparticipants. "We’ re here and they can’ t do anything to stop Gay Clergyman Shakes Up Norweigan Church OSLO, Norway (AP) - The selection of an openly Gay clergyman in defiance of state Lutheran church guidelines raised concerns Friday that the issue of homosexuality could split the church. The Church of Norway’ s highest body, its 85-member national congress, ruled in November 1997 that clergy who enter homosexual partnerships could not hold jobs that require ordination. However, the~Oslo Bishops’ Council of clergy and laity voted 4-3 on June 15 to appoint Jens Torstein Olsen as chaplain for the Majorstue Church. Olsen noted onhis application that he was living with a Gay partner. The council minority appealed the decision to Trend Giske, head of the churches and education ministry that formally employs state church clergy. He initially said he saw no reason to reverse the council majority’s decision, but will make a final~ decision next month. If hired, the 51-year-old Olsen would be Norway’ s first male minister who is openly living with a Gay partner. Oslo Bishop Gmmar Staalsett saidhe expects the. ministry to respect his council’ s majority, in keeping with usual practice. "Olsen is dearly the best qualified for the post," Staalsett said. But the move prompted Norway’s head bishop, Odd B0ndevik, to say he was calling an emergency meeting of the national bishops council on the matter probably in August. "The appointment.., can split the Church of Norway," he was quoted as telling the Norwegian news agency NTB.-"When we said the issue does not have to be a splitting factor, we assumed that each individual bishop would be loyal to the national church council’s resolutions and the church itself," Bondevik was quoted as saying. An anguished debate over Gay clergy has already led to bitter disputes within the church. Last year, reform. Half a million people were expected for the annual Christopher Street Day parade in the German capital. The bill, to be presented to parliament before t breaks for summer next month, would recognize registered Gay palTmerships as families, said Greens lawmaker Volker Beck. However, homosexual couples apparendy would not have the right to adopt children - a demand of the Greens rejected by the dominant Social Democrats. Gay partnerships wonld get legal rights similar to heterosexual couples on taxes, social security and ~mmigration law - an important point for Gay couples where one parmer is a foreigner. Beck said the proposals still require formal approval bythe parliamentary groups of the two governing parties. Opposition conservatives blasted the plahs and hinted they would try to stall the bill in th~ upper house of parliament, where the govemment,lack.s a majority. Thomas Goppel, aleader of Bavaria s rightist Christian Social Union party, called the proposals "absurd." Germany’ s Association ofGays and Lesbians welcomed the draft saying it did notmeet all of the group’ s demands but still were a great st p forward." Minnesota ’Sodomy’ Law Under Challenge ¯ ¯ MINNEAPOLIS (AP) - A state law that makes oral and anal sex acrimeis unconstitutional and shouldbe ¯ thrown out, tim Minnesota Civil Liberties Union ¯ claimed in a lawsuit filed at the end of June. The i MCLU and the Lesbian and Gay Rights Project of the American Civil Liberties Union are challenging ¯ Minnesota’ s sodomy statute, saying the law violates the right of privacy guaranteed by the state constitui tion. Thelaw - which applies to all consenting adults, even married heterosexuals - makes violations pun- : ishable with a year in prison and up to $3,000 in tines. ¯ Theclass-actionlawsuit,filedinHennepinCountY, ¯ asks the court to declare the statute void and prevent ¯ the state from enforcing it. The plaintiffs include two : married heterosexuals who say they risk prosecution, : a Lesbian who fears eviction because her lease pro- " hibits illegal activity, a Gay law student who fears ¯ being disbarred, a divorced Gay manwhofears losing ¯ his right to visithis children, and a group of Lesbian, ¯ Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered lawyers and law ¯ students. ¯ According to the MCLU, 18 states still have sod- .: omy, statutes, down from all 50 in 1961. In five of ": ~ose s’tat~s, the law hpplies 0nly to Gays [editor’s ¯ note: Oldahoma is one of those with laws only di- ¯ rected at Gay people]’. Legislatures have repealed ¯ sodomy laws in 25 states, while courts have over- . turned them in others. In one of the most recent cases, an appeals court in Texas voided that state’ s sodomy ¯ law two weeks ago. ¯ Attorney General Mike Hatch was out of state and ¯ unavailable for comment on the lawsuit, said his ¯ spokeswoman, Leslie Sandberg. ¯ Tom Prichard, executive director of theMinnesota Family Council, which has helped fight off attempts ¯ to repeal the law at the Legislature, said the law should stay on the books, and he criticized theMCLU ¯ for filing the lawsuit. ’°They’ re trying to do an end run by getting the courts to strike it down instead of going through the appropriate channel, which is the Legis- ¯ lature," Prichard said. . ated offices to deal specifically with Gay alth Officials to health issues. Officials in Seattle have Focus Gay Needs :d velo#as iali d mpaigntovac- ¯ cinate Gay men for hepatitis. BOSTON (AP) - Boston public health officials have agreed to try to better meet the needs of the city’ s Gay community by collecting data onillnesses,raising awareness of health issues and seeking funding for new programs. Their decision follows the lead of other big U.S. cities, where officials have already taken action to address the health needs of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender residents. ’q’hereis clear datathat shows there are health differences between the Gay and larger communities," said Stephen Boswell, executive director oftheFenway Community Health Center, which serves a high percentage of Boston’ s Gay population. "If those problems are addressed, we can make a significant impact." At a conference held in Boston in May, officials from public health agencies around the country cited studies showing Gays are at risk for a range of health problems, including depression, breast cancer, and substance abuse. After years of focusing solely on HIV and AIDS, Boston’s public health officials decided soon after the conference to develop a more efficient way to deal with the community’s other pressing needs, said John Auerbach, executive director of me Boston Public Health Commission. q~nis.is the first time the he~Ith department has acknowledged it needs to specifically address the health needs of the Gay community," he said. "This is a significant step forward." Health departments in New York, Chicago and San Francisco have already c~e- While Louganis left immediatdy alter the parade to fly out of the city, Cammermeyer spoke briefly in the rain, noting that she really might have preferred not to come to Tulsa, thinking that it might not really be safe or wdcoming, but that probably she needed to come to Tulsa for precisdy that reason. Another group which received great atteiation was ORU.out.com, a new Lesbian and Gay alumni organization for Oral Roberts University (ORU). While Gay alumni groups exist around the country, ORU.out.com is unusual in thatORU has a policy of banning Gays as.students, faculty or staff. Regardless, ~e ~oup numbered about 20 and group orgamzer, Jeff McKissic notes that about 60 people have gotten involved. Orgamzers of the Parade and Festival, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, Inc. estimated that some 3,000 participated or attended. More than !00,000 march in Paris Gay Pride parade PARIS (AP)- In a festive celebration of Gay pride; more than 100,000 people marched and danced on the last weekend in June through the streets of Paris behind a giantbanner with the slogan for this year’s parade: ,Homophobia - a social pl~gr~h------ Educatton Mimster Jack Lang and the Socialist Party’s mayoral candidate Bertrand Delanoe were among the politicians thatkicked offGay Pride 2000 behind dozens of motorcyclists from the Gay Bikers Club. Rainbow-colored flags waved under overcast skies as the parade wound from :: Feds to Fund AIDS ¯ Vaccine Search ¯ WASHINGTON (AP) - Four new part- " nerships were announced by a federal ¯ health agency Tuesday to provide fund- : ing to groups attempting to bring anAIDS ¯ vaccine to market. i Theseparme.rships, call,edHIV ~acone ¯ design and development teams, were ¯_ prompted by~ a. presidential dirertive to ¯ increase public-private cooperation in : developing vaccines to major diseases, : according to the National Institute of Ai- : lergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID), ¯ the section of the National Institutes of : Health that set up the deals. ¯ "Many vaccines in use today resulted i fr°mb°th g°verument-sp°., snL0r--~andpfi.- vate research," said Dr. Anthony S. Faucl, : director of NIAID. ¯ The awards are incentive-based, aimed ¯ at teams that have a vaccine in develop- : ment but have not yet reach_ed human ~ testing. The teams will receive funds as ¯ they achieve preset goals. ¯ Three U.S. companies - Advanced ~ BioScience Laboratories in Kensington, ¯ Md.; Chiron Corporataon in Emeryville, ¯ Calif.; and Wyeth Lederle Vaccines and ¯ Nutrition in Pearl River, N.Y. - as well as ~ a consortium of Australian universities ¯ led by the University ofNew SouthWales ¯ all have different tactics on how to create ¯ a serum that will protect humans from ; HIV infection, which causes AIDS. .district. Boolmng techno and 0asco music ¯ played as drag queens and other elabo- ¯ rately costumed men and women danced on colorful floats and along the sidelines of the parade Police estimated the crowd size at between 100,000 and 130,000 people, while organizers said that 250,000 people turned out for the event. Coinciding with the weekend of the parade, Social Affairs Minister Martine ¯ Aubry said the government planned to : introduce new laws oudawing discrimi- ¯ nadon against homosexuals. Aubry said : the new legislation would appear as an ¯ amendment tO a "social modernization" : bill currently going through Parliament. ¯ Denver Pride Draws 100,000 ¯ DENVER (AP) - More.than 100,000 at- " tended Denver PrideFest 2000. The festi- ~ val, organized by the Gay, Lesbian & : Bisexual Community Services Center, is ¯ inits 10th year. No violence was reported ~ dUring the parade betweenCheesmanPark : and Civic Center Park that featured 100 : floats. The festival also featured 230 ¯ booths and. a family zone with the signs: ~ "drug-~ alcohol-, hate-flee zone." ¯ Activists told a crowd at the Civic Cen- : ter that good people standing up to big- ~ otry, not legislation, will protect Gays, ¯ Lesbians and Bisexuals from violence. ¯ "In every case, a mass mobilization of ¯ people changed thepolitteal clunate, sm ¯ Leslie Feinberg, author of ’q’ransgender ¯ Warriors" and "Stone Butch Blues." 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I I I I I I I I I I I mO..~ Clip And Save CALL 24 HOURS FOR TOLL-FREE SERVICE Customer Services: 1-888-216-3523 Billing Inquiries: 1-888-216-3490 Outage Reporting: 1-888-218-3919 I I I I I I I Serviei~ a Clientes: 1-888-216-3505 I I Preguntas Sobre su Cuenta: .1-888-216-3491 ! I I .i :-’ I Falta De Suministro: 1-888-218-3924 I I I I- I " ~I I , PublicServiceC0mpany,0fOklah0ma , by Karin Gregory COMING OUT. Even the words evoke an ominous, almost surreal scene, like the Great and Powerful Wizard, whose deep voice echoes throughout closets everywhere. In my case, my 44 yearold closetwas sot’ffled that I couldn’t hea~ the echo e~}en if I tried, i finaily Sprang out, machete inland, :r~dy to tell everyone that I’ma Lesbian! Well, two or three people, anyway. Because I didn’t know what was all involved in "coming out." I had no good role models to speak --of in that area. And don’ t tell me Melissa Etheridge and Ellen DeGeneres - because famous people will always be heard and don’ t have to repeat themselves. I, onthe otherhand, have to tell friends individually and hear such remarks as: "Oh, I always knew that"; "Yeah, I was wondering when you were going to tell me"; and the ever popular, "YES! We knew it! We win the bet!" Umm, friends, if you knew it for so long, how come I JUST found out? You could have let me in on it! (Best friend’ s ¯ note: I tried! You don’ t just sit someone down and tell them "Um, Karin, I think you’re Gay. Deal with it!" - Jim) Actually, I hav&known, all my life, but I never gave a name to it. And there were the various signs that threw me totally off track. Instead of telling you my. boring life, I’ 11 give you a sampling of it, interspersed with the steps I went through (and probably many of us go through) in realizing my true nature. ~ I know what you’ re saying. If I’mreading Tulsa Family News, I know I’m Gay and what could you possibly tell meabout it?" Nothing, but since I want you to read about my boring life anyway, I have to jazz itup somehow. Also, there may be a few of you who are reading your boyfriend’s copy of this newspaper. If you’re "curious" and your boyfriend is reading Tulsa Family News, then you’ re both Gay! Read on. I. "I’m What?" Sooner or later you have to start questioning. What kind of music do you listen to? Yep, if you answered Tori Amos, Ani DiFranco, Sophie B. Hawkins, !Indigo Girls, and Sarah McLachlan, then you need to examine your lifestyle. I haven’ t known a Gay personyet who doesn’ t love Sarah McLachlan. However, if you own five differentcopies ofMelissa Etheridge’ s Breakdown (and I do!), the questioning is over. ’ ~ ¯ II..Environment .I came into this world kicking and screaming, and when I found out, in my neighborhood full of boys,-that I was differentfromthem, Ikickedandscreamed again. I wanted to be a boy. lplayed just like ~the boys; doing everything they did exeep,tJ~,e,, standing up. And I was pissed I icouldn’t master that! Physically and ¢motionall);i Was a gifl~butI thought like a:boy. So when I would question myself - years later, I always wentback to the same thing: I HATED girls then. Well, most little boys do hate little girls at that age. If "It was hound to happen... Marolyn was i~autfful, with lees and weB, 7ou ~en yo~ mantra [or a smmer s~s no~ ~ST yo~ ~d;’ " they don’ t, they’ re usually Gay boys WhOr’i". .. feel more comfortable around girls play- " ing house, school, and Easy Bake Oven. ¯ By the .way, if you played with dolls when you werelittle, don’ t think that disqualifies you. Especially if you. had a Barbie doll and spentmany a day practicing undressing her. It was when I was 13 that things became, for want of a better word, sticky. III. Crushes She walked in beauty, like the night...OK, so they all did at one time or other, didn’t they? This particular she walked into my eighth grade English classroOm, and I immediately thought,"Wow, she’ s pretty." I never used that word to describe any gift before. All right, there was the time I whistled at Ann " Margret in the movie theatre when she came on " screen in "Viva Las Vegas." ¯ Some people don’t see signs that say " "Caution - Falling Rocks"; I don’t see ¯ signs that clearly scream, "Karin- you’ re. ¯ a Lesbian. Get over it. when my eighth ¯ grade crush continued into ninth grade, I ¯ went to her house for a sleepover. I’ll say this here and now - Jane Eyre ¯ shouldbeforbidden reading injunior high. " The protagonist as a little girl has a crush " on her best friend, which author Charlotte ¯ Bronte says ~s normal Besides the very ¯ obvious inference that Charlotte had her ¯ own Lesbian feelings, it did much to help ¯ me rationalize the rest of my life. If I felt ¯ something for a girl, then I invoked the ¯ name ofCharlotte Bronte, and things were ¯ "normal" again. So when I wanted to : watch my friend undress in front of me, ¯ that wasjust anormal straight girl feeling. ¯" When I fantasized about crawling in bed : naked withher, I still usedCharlotte Bronte : as a guide. Charlotte was talking about - "little" girls, mind you. ¯ When I was 30 I met a woman who, ". without touching me, did things to my ¯ southerly regions that no one had ever done before. When I’ d had enough frus- " tration, I had sex with a man, and truly ¯ believed there was something wrong with : me for not feeling what I thought I should ¯ feel. Whom did I call in as my counselor? " Yep, good old Charlotte. ¯ IV. In Love It was bound to happen, and this time a ¯ Lesbian became not only my crush, but ¯ probably the only person I’ ve ever fallen : in love with. Marolyn was beautiful, with ¯ great legs and a great pair of - well, you ¯ get it. When your mantra for a summer is ¯ "She’s just my friend, she’s just friend, ¯ she’ sjustmy friend", she’ s notJUST your ¯¯ friend. Have you ever had amoment of clarity? ¯ Amoment when suddenly the clouds part, ¯ the sky opens up, and you just KNOW -" what you want? Marolyn took me to my ¯ first Lesbian bar (we were "just friendg’:,, ¯ mind you), Sue Ellen’ s in Dallas. As we danced a slow _..d~,c~ together, my m~ .... -" merit of clarity hit. I d shoved down the~.;~ ~ ¯ feelings about Marolynfor so long that a!l,;!’~:: ¯ at once they came rushing at me and l ¯ conldn’ t deny any longer. I looked arotmd ¯ and just knew I had finally found some- " place to belong, see Lesbian, p. 11 by Jim Christjotm, entertainment editor Some of you might ask, "What’s he clucking about this time?" And well you might - run, don’t walk, to see Chicken Pun. Created by ’%Vallace and Gromit" impresario Hick Parks, this rollicking comedy about chickens dreaming of a better p!a~..~.~, ~far away fromthe ~neentra- ¯ tion c~ami3 Chlcken farm ttiey re in’fs a witty, int~-.ligentfi~~1m........ ¯ .~ I havehad my suspicions~’abtut Nicks~ familystatus given some subtle references in the Wallace&Gromit shorts (available on video, and well worth it), such as Gromit (a dog) knitting a rainbow striped sweater.~ The Wallace and Gromit shorts are guaranteed to cheer up the most depressed person in the world, and watch for the subtle touches he puts in, like the newspaper-headlines in thepapers the characters read. While the films are claymation, they are not children’s films. With Chicken Run, thereality ofwhathappens to chickies whodon’ tlay theft share ofeggs is brought home in an unflinchingly touching way. And yes, you wiII reIate to the characters - and never look at chicken pot pies the same way again. As for the aforementioned clues as to the Gay sensibility of the film, Cheek out the ratsi relationship. And when the birds are practicing flying, one ofthe best gags was when they fall, and the rat says "It’ s raining hens", which to those of us who re,c~l a certain song with a similar rifle, realize it’ s a pretty big tipoff as to the sensibility that inspired this film. The jokes are all extremely well done, and the sight gags, well, the film begs a second and third viewing to take everything in, and look at the backgrounds. There are gems hidden everywhere. It is ironicthatMel Gibson,homophobicadulterer that he is, lends his voice to the film in a really well done turn as a Rhode KD Lang ¯ KD Lang’s newCD is a delight. Re- : member those lazy weekends whenmom : (in some ease, you) Wouldpiit her favorite ¯ records on the changer in the late 60’ s : early70’s?BarbraStreisand’sStoneyEnd, ¯ and Sergio Mendes’ Brazil ’66 come to ¯i miipindadt.eWd ieiilil{,aK~D€fhioa~sslt~a.k~enmthait~sofu’n.d~_a~nv~d-,"~ ~ ¯ met fling that grows in to ab~t diore of a. "...While the films are claymation, they are not children’s films. With "Chicken Run," the reality of what happens to ehiekles who don’t lay their : share of eggs is brought home in an unflinehlngly touching way. And yes, you will relate to the characters- and never look at chicken pot pies the same way again...." serious thing. And it is the perfect album for a cloudy Sunday afternoon with your loved One, your. summertimefling., or even an imaginary lover. The -albuin’ S title is In~.. vindbte Summer, and La Lang has ne~er soundedbetter. Thealbumprogresses with the nervous, first €on~- tact ditty about a possibleloveinter-- est titled "The Consequences of Falling", and she captures the moment perfectly. Island Red cock named Rocky. One must think that someone planned that casting - and this is the place for an obvious joke, ¯ This segues into an up tempo number ¯ called"Summertime Fling" thateapsulizes ¯ that high, giddy feeling when itis discov- ¯ ered that indeed, the objet d’affection : returns the feeling. It is sure to bring a : smile to the mostjaded heart. Thememory ¯ may be buried deep, but it’ s in there some- " where! The albums builds to a quieter : climax than one might imagine, as the THE ART 0f PERFORMANCE For ~.ales, contact Rupy Robateau 280.5999 . or Marcus Winkler 280.6234 For Service, contact Danny Quigg 280.6828 JAGUAR 9607 S. Memorial Dr. : seriousness of the relationship deepens. Are You Gay or Bisexual? ¯ "Love’ s Great Ocw.an" is a winner, and - ~B~,~t Va~ll ~r’~[il/a~ &m~.e’|eltrm9 _ has a mysterious feel to it that gives the /’~1 ~ /OM II~.ilI~.~ a’~III~.~lI~.ll. album some weight. The rest are pretty~-- standard love songs, pleasantto~ " ............. n’ eat for a dinner o essin to- /ulsas iwo-~plrlteo inolan Me S ",eta \"~ : makeout album. The retro feel is great, Support Group ts here for you. ¯ andblends well into the music, capturing ¯" the feeling perfecdy ofsome ofmy favor- : ite songs remembered-from childhood : and beyond. Highly recommended. It’ s a ¯ great companion, piece to Melissa : Etheridge’s darker "Breakdown". With : Melissa, you cover the darker cynical : moments, with La 1 ang, the bright sun- : shiny day moments. ¯ I caught Arturo Brachetti on a guest ¯ appearaneeonDrewCarey, andyes,he’s : family, and yes,he’ s fantastic. Well worth ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing - which I will leave to your imaginations. ¯ seeing what he’ s gotup his sleeve! Check Think about it. (R~oc~y,.....Rhode, gg~.it? ;.,rpriorcol~f~r~t~.. ¯ : Right up there with Ginger Chickeh, ifi~ : .... And fi~t mbliffi, the’R~ilt ifiteiaiiews!’ heroine of the piece. Rosemary is the : Chicken that doesn’ t have babies. You’ll get it when :~you see.the, film.) All the actors are marvelous, and if you’ re a fan of any of the British comedies on PBS Sunday nights, you’ll recognize a few voices. If there’s one film you see this summer, make it this one. It’ 11 be well worth your time. I plan to see it several more times, and get the DVD when it comes out - just to scroll through the frames and catch what I missed the first ten times. And I think instead of chicken pot pies, I’ll stock up on the vegetarian ones instead. Andinstead of roast chicken sandwiches, the veggie chick burgers as well. Buh-bye, colonel! ¯" in the city’s 30th annual Lesbian Gay ¯ Bisexual Transgender Pride Parade, he ¯ said such events provide "a little light of : hope.., acceptance of Gay people is still ¯ the toughest issue out there," said Ellard, ¯ 35. "The religious right still thinks we’re ¯ a threat to family values. But when you ¯ look at the Gay families marching with : their children.., you see thatit’ s not true." ¯ What began in 1970 as a meager pro- : cessionfollowedby an unassuming"Gay- ¯ in" at Golden Gate Park has become one : of California’ s biggest events, ¯ see Pride, p. 9 For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project ’q’beprobability thatyoudiefromAIDS when you arc 15 today is over 50%in these countries," Plot told a press conference. "We arc going into societies where there arc more people in their 60’ s and 70’ s than there are in their 40’ s and30’ s," hc said. "This is unheard of." ¯ In Washington, the Peace Corps an- : nounced a worldwide campaign to push ¯ similar measures - training its 2,400 vol- : unteers inAffieain preventive tedmiques ¯ and forming a200-member"crisis corps" : tohelp educate commtmities. "There is no ¯ option for any organization working in : development other than to play a role in ¯ helping these countries confront the HIV- ¯ AIDS crisis," Peace Corps Director Mark With dwindling numbers of economi- i Schneider sai~. eally active adults left tosupport the re~ L .,~ .~o~~i~~~.~d~l~st rate of the .’.population, the. impact on ~.~tff~ot~:~i~A~i~t~i2~.;€%~ is cooving ¯ . ~!~ .....,~ ~,-~.o:,~. ~7~." ~~ ~7,~>.>-.~ : ~_.: Afficamnattous ts devastating. Agng,~ t.~ ~ai[.an*-~i~su~ssf.u~ ~..emBpatgn 0,f protural production in nations like Zim.~: ~ moting’¢Offdoni~us~. And’ Brazil" s policy bwe, wh,ere 2,000people die each w..~ee;;~ : of prevention coupled with locally pro- AIDS, is falling. Businesses are goi~i~g ¯ ducedaltemativestohigh,costanfi-AIDS bankrupt beeause of the deaths of skilled, : drugs has halved the number of deaths educated staff members. Hopes of better education are also in tatters. The number of new teachers trained in 7a~bia is just keeping pace with .the number felled by AIDS. Children are leaving school because they are orphaned or forced to work to support their families. Hospitals are overwhelmed by AIDS patients. Many have inadequate supplies of even basic antibiotics to fight the pneumonia, tuberculosis or mouth fungus that accompany AIDS, let alone the sophistieated drugs whichhave eased suffering in rich countries, the report said. Denial continues to be a problem. The report cited a 1999 survey of 72 minors orphaned by AIDS in a hard-hit Kenyan": commnIfity: Although all knew of the disease~one of them believed their parents had died of it. Most thought witchcraft or a curse was to blame. Piot Said one of the reasons for the explosion of cases in southern Africa is the legacy of apartheid~ which separated. men from their families in rural areas and forced them to work in towns, with only prostitutes for relief. But he said govern: ments were also to blame for ignoring the problem for too long. "What is happening in southern Africa should.be a lesson for countries today which don’t have a big problem yet," he said. "I’m thinking of Asia, I’m thinking of easte,,m, Europe, I’m thinking of the Caribbean. About $~ bill lionis needed annually forprevention and education programs to turn the tide, Plot said. He called for debt-relief programs for poor comitries.. Sandra Thurman, director of President Clinton’s White House Office on AIDS policy, said the report urgently underscores the need for goverm~ent l~aders to face the crisis head on. "It will take the engagement of all sectors of all societies ifwewantto winthebattle againstAIDS," Thurman said in a recent statement. Although Asiahas relatively low infec: tionrates overall, there arefears that could change because of the density of its population, gome 0.7% of the Indian po,,p~ation is ~IV-positive, or 3.7 milliof~ii~e overall:Thediseasehas so farbeenl~g~ly confined to drug addicts. Infections in the former Soviet blocare soaring because of drug addiction. Piot said the number of new HIV cases in Moscow last year far outstripped all previous years combined. And the disease is proliferating in Caribbean countries like Haiti and Barbados because people have multiple sexual partners from an early age. Despite the gloom of the report, Plot said there are signs of hope. Uganda, whichused to be the worst-affected country, has slowed new infections thanks to strong prevention campaigns and increased condom use. Zambia is following suit. : and led to huge savings in hospital bills, ," the report said. ¯ "In the West and in Europe, the impact :. of treatment has been spectaculars" Piot said. "Mortality has really collapsed..There isa longer and better life for people with AIDS."Onthe Net: http://www.uuaids.org In renewing his plea for suspending the law until the central issues go to trial, Stanley argued that there is realharm that could happen.’ The clerks’ rights to freed0m of religion under the Vermont Constitution would be violated, he said:, He also argued that taxmoney wouldbe spent through providing,rights and benefits to same-sex couples. Permitting umous to go forward that may in the future be ruled unconstitutional would cause irreparable harm, he said. In all, the ~ lawsuit_,claims.:that the.,civil unions_law_ violates five different articles of the state Consttitution, several state statutes and House rules. Many of those arguments were made when the i|~wsuit first was flied and the state’ s lawyer handling the ease said he did not believe any substantially new claims were made that would prompt the judge to change his mind. "I don’t think there’ s a ntl~ ttdt:~~ys~~u:can only ask once, butinpractical term~ someonewould put together their best case for a preliminary injunction," said Chief Assistant Attorney General William Griffin. "My view is they’ ve had their day in court and -the court made a decision. I.guess I’ d be a little surprised if we went around again." Varmont Official May.Dof~ LaW TOPSHAM, Vt. (AP) - The town clerk is considering defying the state by refusing to issue civil union licenses to Gay and Lesbian couples. Juanita Claflin describes the unions as "endorsed perversion." The law, whichis to gointo effectJuly 1, states that if a town clerk does not want to issue the licenses he or she must at least appoint someone else to do so. In a memo sent on town letterhead to every Topsham honsehold earlier this month, Claflin tells voters she will not issue the licenses and asks if they believe she should defy the law, resign or appoint a willing assistant to deal with the paperwork. Most of the responses so far have urged defiance of the law, but Claflin said she has not decided whether to risk lawsuits and penalties by following the townspeople’ s wishes. "I still have to make that absolute final decision," she said. After the townspeople respond, she will meet with the select board and possibly hold a public meeting to tell residents about the potential consequences of defying the law. "I made the commitment to the people that I would uphold what they said," she added. "If " they’ re still of that opinion (after being informed of the consequences), I’ll take : my licks." ¯ At least one other town clerk, in " Tunbridge, has resigned over the issue. In Waterbury, the town clerk and assistant town clerk also resigned recently, citing " unspecified personal reasons and an ef- , fective date of July 1. ¯ Claflin’ s opposition to civil unions has " ~no secret since She was elected in " summa.e,dCh. t~hWe hpe~n,,s~h.ee ,w,easxcsewp0trtonins,elslheciivni-l on licenses into her oath of office. At the time Claflin thought the bill, then being debated, would notpass, she says in her letter. "Well, I was wrong... The unthinkable did become law," she writes. "I stand firm and unwavering in my commitment to refuse to be a party to this endorsed perversion based on my constitutional rights and personal belief." But theNew Jersey assistant scoutmaster ousted when the organization learned he is Gay expressed dismay at the ruling. "I’mdef’mitely saddenedby thedecision," said James Dale. "People don’t join the Boy Scouts beeaus~ they’re anti-Gay. People join the Boy Scouts because they want acceptance, they want community." The ruling did not specifically give the Scouts permission to bar Gay youth from membership, but its language left room for that interpretation. "I think it suggests that they can" ban Gay boys from being Scouts, said Evan Wolfson, Dale’ s lawyer. "They won the.right to declare themselves an anti-Gay group." University of Southern California law professor Erwin Chemerinsky agreed, saying, "I don’ t see any basis for drawing a distinction between Scout leaders and Scouts." The Scouts organization, formed in the United States in 1910 and now boasting 6.2 million members and adult leaders, has a policy that "avowed homosexuals are not extended membership or leadership positions," Shields said. He would not say whether the organizationhas withdrawn membership from Gay youths. But Scott Cozza, an adult Scout leader in California and president of Scouting For All, which advocates letting homosexuals join, said: "They’ve kicked out Gay Scouts and now they’ll continue to do so because they’ ve been given the goahead by the Supreme Court to continue to discriminate." The justices reversed a New Jersey Supreme Court decision that said the Scouts wrongly ousted Dale, an Eagle Scout. The state court said the Scouts violated a New Jersey law banning discrimination in public accommodations. But Rehnquist wrote, ’q’he forced inclusion of an unwanted person in a group infringes the group’ s freedom of expressive association" if it harms the group’s ability to advocate its viewpoint. His opinion was joined by Justices Sandra Day O’ Connor, Antonin Scalia, Anthony M. Kennedy and Clarence Thomas. Dissenting wereJustices John Paul Stevens, David H. Souter, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Stephen G. Breyer. Writing for the four, Stevens said the New Jersey law does notforce the Scouts "to communicate any message that it does not wish to endorse. New Jersey’s law, therefore, abridges no constitutional right of the Boy Scouts." Wolfson, Dale’ s lawyer, had cited Supreme Court decisions during the 1980s that let states force the Jaycees and Rotary International to admit women as full members. But Rehnquist said requiring such groups to accept women members would not interfere with the message they seek to express. Instead, the chief justice likened Dale’ s case to a 1995 Supreme Court ruling in which thejustices let the private sponsor of the Boston St. Patrick’s Day Parade exclude a group ofGays andlesbi7 a~.s, s,,aying parades are a"form0fexpres~ slon. The American Center for Law and Jus~ tice, a conservative advocacy group that supported the Scouts’ appeal, said the ruling "will have a dramatic impact on all private organizations - including religious groups - to define their own mission and set their Own criteria for leadership." The. Human Rights Campaign, of the largest Lesbian and Gay civil rights organizatious, called the Supreme Court decision to allow the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) to continue its ban on Gay scouts a travesty of justice that may allow large, open membership groups to be above the law and evade .state and local nondiscrimination laws. "We are gravely disappointed with a ruling thatgives theBoy Scouts ofAmerica the ability to discriminate withimpunity," said HRC Legal Director Tony Varona. "TMs is a hollow victory for the Boy Scouts of America - considering the wasted time, energy and money it has spent on maintaining its ability to .discriminateand attack young menwhohave served its organization with distinction. Is this any way to teach youth aboutfairness, honesty and justiceT’ Dale was 19 and an assistant scoutmaster of a Matawan, N.J., troop when in 1990 he was identified in a newspaper article as co-president of a campus Lesbian and Gay student group at Rutgers University. The Scouts’ MonmouthCouncil revoked Dale’ s registration as an adult leader, andhe sued, citing the New Jersey anti-discrimination law. The New Jersey court ruled that the BSA is not a private club, but a public accommodation given its size, open membership and extensive entanglement with government agencies. In its appeal to the Supreme Court, the Boy Scouts argued that New Jersey’ s antidiscrimination law infringed on its First Amendment right to association. )’In accepting the BSA’s arguments concerning expressive association, the Court inexplicably ignored the fact that theBSA’ s purposeandmessagehas never had anything to do with sexual orientation," added HRC’ s Varona. "To the contrary, the Boy ScOuts’ oath stresses public serviceandhonesty, andits Congressional charter and bylaws make clear that membership is open to ’any boy’." Dale now lives inNew York City and is advertising director for a magazine for people who are HIV-positive. On the Net: Supreme Court decision in Boy Scouts of America v. Dale: http:// supct.law.cornell.edu/supct/html/99- 699.ZS.html and one of the world’s best known celebrations of Gay pride. Numerous celebrities, including comedienne Margaret Cho, made appearances. Police said the parade had proceeded peacefully, and knew of no counter-demonstrations. Parades took place also in S~atfle. New York, Chicago and Atlanta. by Lamont Linds~rom. Ph.D. skins for very long. Early medical science Is it the unkixxdest cut? That’s what a ¯ of the late 19th century seized on the foreskin-challenged writer to Dear Abby " operation as a cure for excessive masturrecently claimed. He bitterly reproached ¯ bation and also to treat an odd collection his morn for letti~ag himbe circumcised - a condition he blamed for bis regrettable shortcomin~,~ inbed. Circtmacision is a body modificationritua~ ",hathas fascinated antLropologists. People everywhere redesign-their ~odies. Modification may be as simple as a haircut and a shave, or more invasive foot-binding, ear-piercing, - head-molding, ~attoomg, or scarification. Modifying the body carries social and personal meaning. Individuals may remake themselves -andhow they think about themselves - by altering their bodies. These alterations have social implications as well. We ustmlly know what to think when we see someone dieting, or sporting a new tattoo, or a tongue pierce, or a shaven head. Humans modify lots of body parts - elbows, fingers, chins, bellies - but it’ s no surprise that many societies have fixatedupon Cireumelslon is a body modlfleatlon ritual that has faselnated anthropologists. People everywhere redesign their bodies. Modifieatlon may be as simple as a halreut and a shave, or naore invaslve footblndln~, ear-piereln~, h d-mo!dln , tattooln~, or searlfleatlon. l~lbdlfyln~ the body earrles sodal and personal rneanlnff the foreskin. Like earlobes, foreskins are easily pierced, sliced, or cut away without much endangering human functiomng. Unilke earlobes, however, foreskins attach to the dhief organ of male pleasure and reproduction. Many cultures have elaborated the powerful symbolic uses of snipping off a piece of men’ s genitals. Circumcision is often the key component of male initiation rituals, as it is on Tanna, anislandin the SouthPacificwhere 1livedfor some years. TheTarmese gather up their sons between the ages of six and twelve and lead them away to a secret house in the forest to be snipped. Traditionally, boys were cutwithbambooknives - their foreskins sliced down the top - an superincision rather than a circumcision. Nowadays, island fathers anduncles might take the boys down to a local clinic for a full-blown Western circumcision. The loss of foreskin marks the boy’s journey into manlaood. Tannese kids tease boys who are yet to be circumcised. They call them a name that means something like "pulls back skin." A Presbyterian missionary from New Zealand lived on Tanna, in th~ 1980S wi,th his triple~ sons. My island friends were scandalized that these boys remained uncircumcised as they approached their teen years. Every time the boys wandered by, you knew localmenwere ponderingbambooknives. New Zealanders, like most people in the world, leave their foreskins alone. Circumcigion is uncommon in Europe, Asia, and Latin America and is disappearing in AustraJia and Canada. We Americans share the ritual mostly with sundry Pacific Islanders and Australian Aborigines, peoples of the Middle East (notably Jews and Arabs), and various northern and central African societies. Artistic depictions of circumcision in Egypt dated to 4500 years ago suggest that the ritual has a long history. But Americans haven’t been snipping foreof other conditions. Once circumcision became part of the modern medical toolkit, doctors were loath to giveitup. They invented a series of spurious rationales for the operation. The newes t defense of circumcision argues that uncut menare three to eight limes morelikely (different studies give differentnumbers) to.catch HIV. The vires - so says this hypothesis - attaches itselfmorereadily to cells thathave been kept tender underneath a foreskin. Whether or not this latest medical rationale for circumcision holds up, cutting has powerful social meanings that go far beyond the merely hygienic. Just why do we mess withforeskins? Is this a male attempt to appropriate natural female fertility: Menbleed their genitals to mimic menstruation? Or are men coneemed to drain away dangerous female blood from their sons, as do the Tannese, in order that these boys can fully mature? Or do men cut their sons - and in so doing potentially endanger the reproductive future of their family line - as a mark of loyalty to their tribe? Or do boys undergo symbolic castration as a-price they pay fatherg to join the men? Anthropologists have proposed all these explanations. It’s pretty clear that in 20th century America circumcision became a marker of class and status. Only people with money could afford doctors and genital surgery. And only trendy parents who supported mainstream beliefs about public hygiene would accept new scientific rationalizations for the operation. Circumcision rates were far higher among the urban and the wealthy than they were among poorer, rural, immigrant, or minority- group families. Middle-class white boys carried on their bodies the mark of their family’ s status claims. By the 1940’ s, the medical industry had captured control of childbirth. A majority of women went into hospital to give birth. And for the first time amajofity of Ameri- :canb0ys wer~eircumcised. Circumcision rates peaked at around 85% in the 1970’ s. Since that decade, these numbers have dropped - as an anthropologist would predict - down to 60% in the mid 1990’ s. When everyoneshares the same practice, that practice no longer serves to create distinctions of class and status among us. Thefact thatmanyHMOs nowadays force parents to.pay for the.operation also has spared many sons’ foreskins~ Still, being cut continues to symbolize "clear," "healthy," and "modem" across much of America. Until these meanings erode, it’ s likely that many of us will yet be able to hold our heads up high, should we happen to mninto any teasing Pacific island boys. Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropology at the University of TUlsa. Council Oak Men’s Chorale presents Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 8pm ALL SOULS UNITARLdN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TICKEZ~ $10 CALL 748-3888 THE COUNCIL OAK MEN’S CHORALE IS PROUD TO REPRESENT OKLAHOMA AT THE INTERNATIONAL GALA FESTIVAL LN SAN lOSE, CALIFORNIA IOTA member "1~ Call 341. 6866 Int rnational Toursfor more information. Massage Therapy Services ~agarger:O9. 1C8r-u8z8,9L-5M2.5T5. Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Club Barbering Custom.Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, ~at. 8-5pro Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing Poweful Images: Portrayals of Native America Gilcrease Museum 1400 Gilcrease Museum Road 5 9 6 2 7 0 0 by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor Sam Harris returns to Tulsa as Josephin Theatre Arts’ productionofAndrew Lloyd Webber’s "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat" heading up a cast of thousands of locals - well, ok, maybe not quite thousands, but it’ s aprettylong cast list. The cast includes John Orsulak and Patrick Hobbs, members of the Council Oak Men’s Chorale’ s (we really need agoodacronymhere!) and formerly Finales, along with David Hubbard, Kathy LaFortlme, Bradd Gillespie, Larry Gray, and Eric Cornell (an actor and singer to watch, as he’s got a lotta talent, and he’s dedicated to performing enough to go far). Directed by New York’s Jon Grodeski, the musical is a.,lively rethinking of the biblical tale of Joseph and his jealous brothers. Sam Harris, a Sand Springs native, left home at 15 to pursue the dream of performing on Broadway. Everyone knows about Star Search, and the recording career that followed. His latest endeavors have included the critically acclaimed "In the Life," a Broadway musical; Grease on Broadway; and his latest CD, "Revival", a return tohis pop and soul roots.. He also wrote the TBS sitcom "Down to Earth." He’s been a busy boy! And he still manages to look fabulous! . He recently completed work on the feature film "In the Weeds", with Eric Bogosian, Molly Ringwald, and Joshua Leonard. He recently premiered his new oneman show, "Revival", and is planning to tour the show after a New York Run. He’ 11 bemaking his Tulsa concert debut July 28 in "An Intimate Evening with SamHarris." There’s a joke in that, but I’m trying to maintain a more staid image. Actually, there’s about three jokes I could make. It’s kindalike resisting chocolate - you know it’s the right thing to do, but it’s just so tempting.., but no, I have eschewed that behavior. Performances run July 14th- 23rd, and the evening shows start atT:30 rather than the usual 8pm, so plan accordingly. Matinees are at 2pm. The venue is Tulsa Community College’s PACE theatre at their southeast campus at 81st and 169, so don’ t go downtown to thePACfor this one. For more info., call 595-7777. July 15th is "Sand Springs Night" in honor of Mr. Harris’ hometown roots. July 19th is "Youth Night" - if you don’t qualify for that one, you can at least pretend to be from Sand Springs. And I would like to welcome a couple of new writers to Tulsa Family News. Hughston Walkinshaw will be covering film and local theatre for us here. He’ll make his debut in our August issue. And while -I’m at it, some of you have read about my best friend Karin. Wall, who wouldhave thunkitbut she’ s finally’’come out" and this month, we will feature her thoughts, in a new column entitled"Raging Lesbian." Sam Harris More importantly, the woman with her arms around me was the woman I wanted to be with. My heart was telling me this was right, tree and just. Then the song ended, and that insidious thing called my brain took over. Years of living in the Bible Belt made me once again think too much, and I acted straight again. Which is fnnny since I obviously don’t know from straight. Too many missed opportunities later, and my unrequited love affair with Marolyn (I didn’t DARE think about this at the time!) endedwhen shemovedaway. V. Random Musings Don’t get me wrong. Three girls does not a Lesbian make. There have been many more I’ve felt "that way" about, including Ms. Black Hair, DeepBlueEyes with whom I worked; Ms. Nude Model whom I LOVED to draw in art class; the two English teachers at school where I taught; and the young P.E. teacher at the same school. Comeon, there’ sALWAYS a P.E. teacher! And when I was 25, there was the <ahem!> 16 year old I worked with! Hey, I can’t be arrested for my thoughts, not even in Tulsa! VI. Acceptance. I know acceptance doesn’ t come in six easy steps, but time and space being what they are, I’ ve cut to the chase. What made me finally accept myself as a Lesbian? Not any one thing. I guess years of chipping away at my libido, and the fact that everytime I had sex with a man, it coincided with some girl I had a crush on. Then there’ s the entertainment world. A friend got me interested in’qRte X-Files" years ago, but for the past few seasons my heart has skipped a few beats more and I’ ve thought,"Was DavidDuchovny even in that episode tonight?" If you listen exclusively to Melissa Etheridge for a year, it’ s not just her music you identify with. And even when you do identify with it- need I say more?- you’ re Gay! When you tape the ENTIRE Gay Rights Rally on CSPAN it’ s a pretty sure bet that, yes, you’ re Gay!When you seriously consider moving to the state capital (what do you call a city FULL of Lesbians? Austin!), then, you guessed it - you’ re Gay! When your best friend calls you long distance from Tulsa to tell you the new issue of Curve is out - with Gillian Anderson on thecover- and youhaul ass to the nearest Gay neighborhood to buy it within the hour, well, you’ vejust taken a ride on the Dyke Express! When you own copies of "Desert Hearts", "Bound", "Everything Relative", "Claire of the Moon", etc., and display them prominently on your shelf, then grrlfriend, you have swung those closet doors open for the last time. And it feels good, clean, and honest. | Want to get involved? 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The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 2000 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Karin Gregory Barry Hensley J.P. Legrandbouche Lamont Lindstrom Esther Rothblum Mary Schepers Hughston Walkinshaw Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, June 2000; Volume 7, Issue 6 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa(Oklahoma)---newspaper Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/602 2000 AIDS aMUSEments arts and entertainment Bars Boy Scouts businesses churches civil unions Diversity celebration Gay Studies health HIV Jim Christjohn Karin Gregory Lamont Lindstorm performing arts Pride Raging Lesbian Read All About It restaurants sodomy laws Tom Neal Tulsa Family News https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5d64f090519b9e896592128f02ec0c39.jpg 7132a01dcf7dd73f4768874198f90742 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/edf3b5a7d2dc2176171bea400a278963.pdf 2e81c7efa036dc8294c8bd398356f8a4 PDF Text Text Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans;Our.Families + Friends " Building AEVER ¯ Boy Scou.ts Target.ed For Ant -Gay B=as ¯ TULSA - In conjunction with a National Day of ¯ Protest of the Boy Scouts of America~ Kerry Lewis, ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC +American Expre. ss Offer Financial Planning TULSA - Tulsa’s Metropolitan Community Church United (MCC-United) with Theresa M. Barnard, a financial planning advisor with American Express Financial Advisors will present a series of financial planning seminars at MCC United. One seminar will be "Financial Strategies for Gay Men & Lesbians" and will be held on Tuesday, S eptember 5th and will be repeated on Tuesday, October 10th. Barnard will present "Retirement - Explore Your Options, Create your Retirement Income," on Tuesday, .September 19th and ,Estate Planning" on Tuesday, October 24th. All seminars will be at 7pro at the church located at 1623 No. Maplewood, just north and west of Sheridan and Pine. Bamard and MCC United provided the following statement from American Express Financial Advisors: "We want to make our commitment to Gay men and Lesbians clear. Just as we have ~ktended domestic partner benefits to our Lesbian and Gay employees worldwide, we are commi tted to providing sound finan, cial advice that specifically addresses the unique finandal issues affecting our Lesbian and Gay clients." see MCC, p. 3 ¯ ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ spokesperson for Tulsa Oklahomans for Human A More Light Presb erMn Weekend ¯¯ Rights (TOHR), has announced that TOHR and TULSA - A local liberal protestant church, College Hill Presbyterian Church recently became a"More Light" church by joining the More Light network, a group of Presbyterian affiliated organizations which are dedicated to welcoming Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals and Transgendered persons into the church in all roles, both as lay members and as ordained leaders and clergy. Now in August, on the 25, 26, and 27, the congregation will host a "More Light" event and organizer both to help educate local religious groups and individuals, and to recognize and celebrate College Hill’s joining the More Light group. The Session (the board of directors of the congregation) has invited Michael Adee, Ph.D., who is a full time organizer for More Light network, a weekend of workshops. According to College Hill’s spokesperson, "these three days will be filled with opportunities for worship mad fellowship together, to learn more about ministry to and with Gay, Lesbian; Bisexual and Transgendered persons, and to inform and welcome others to this ministry of compassion, inclusion and justice." The opening event will be a lunch on Friday; August 25th, from noon to 1:30 in the Fellowship Hall of the church which is located at 712 So. Columbia Ave. The church is just west of the campus of the UniversityofTulsa and since TU has tom down the old Kendall School to build a Tennis Center, the church can be seen from Delaware. The lunch presentation is called, "Building a Church for Everyone," and church professionals and elders from Presbyterian Churches in the area are invited to attend this luncheon. Adee will give a short presentation on the history and goals of More Light Presbyterians, followed by a question and answer session. The meal will be $5.00. On Saturday, August 26th, Adee will lead a workshop "Caring for All God’s People," from 8:30- 12:30 again in the Fellowship Hall. According to organizers; those attending this event will gain greater understanding of the pastoral care needs of GLBT people and their families, see Light, p. 3 : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~ ¯ ¯ : : other local organizations will hold a protest at the local headquarters of the Boy Scouts of America on August 21st. The time of the event will be available by contacting TOHR at 743-4297. The protes t is in response to a recent US S upreme Court decision which overturned a New Jersey court ruling that the Boy Scouts’ anti-Gay policies were illegal under New Jersey non-discrimination laws. According to Lewis, "the purpose of these protests is to provide a visible and rational response to their discriminatory and de-humanizing policies." The Indian Nations Council of the BSA is located at 3206 So. Peoria. Parking is limited at the site but is available on the street a few blocks away in the Brookside business area. Lewis noted also that there are also several other options for you to register your protest of the Boy Scout policy. One is to write a letters of complaint. Informational materials, including sample letters, are available by contacting TOHR. And in discussions with Tulsa Family News, Lewis acknowledged that another aspect of the Boy Scouts’ discriminatory policies was Tulsa AreaUnitedWay’s (TAUW) funding for the BSA. Lewis acknowledged that some in the community favor designating TAUW as the target of protests or demonstrations, but that those discussions were ongoing. Lewis also said that the next meeting of Tulsa’s Diversity Council will be on Tuesday, August 22nd at 7pm at the Center. Further in the future is a visit to Tulsa by Dr. Laura Schlessinger, radio talk show host known for her characterization of Gay people see BSA, p. 3 Others May Follow Women Try to Change ¯ Barnes & Noble Boots Canada’s Marriage Law ¯ Vermont’s Lead On Unions ¯ Minority Newspapers VICTORIA, CANADA (AP.)- Two women at the center of a constitutional court challenge exchanged vows in July as friends and relatives witnessed the union ceremony. Judy Lightwater, 49, and Cynthia Callahan, 36, pledged to "cherish and sustain each other" for all of their days with "passion, honor, patience and laughter." Since Canadian law recognizes marriage only between a man and a woman, it was legally impossible for the Gay activism to get a marriage license. But the British Columbia government has asked the provincial Supreme Court on behalf of the couple to declare that same-sex marriages are legal. The court challenge is expected to reach the Supreme Court of Canada within about seven years. The provincial government issues marriage licenses but is bound by federal rules as to who qualifies. "When I see there are two people who are dearlyin love and want to make a commitment to each other and want to have the same access to laws that are available to others, as a human being I ask myself why should ~ose people not be able to make that commitment? said B.C. Attorney General Andrew Petter. "We’re in love and we want to tell everyone about it," ........... said Lightwater: "It"s not that complicated.~ More love in the world is something everyone supports." The other couple named in B.C.’s court petition are Murray Warren and Peter Cook, who filed a human rights complaint after they were. refused a marriage license 18 months ago. see Courts, p. 3 US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P, 6 P, 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 DIRECTORY EDITORIAL MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP)- Legislators in Rhode Island and New York are hoping their states follow Vermont’s lead in granting same-sex couples the benefits of marriage. "From New Hampshire to California, politicians are intrigued by the civil unions statute Vermont created to grant Gay and Lesbian couples rights and benefits without wandering into the politically volatile thicket of marriage. But most advocates say Vermont will remain ." a pioneer on the issue for the foreseeable future while the public ¯ becomes more comfortable with the idea. ¯ A state senator in New York is drafting a bill based on : Vermont’s statute and a Rhode Island state representative is ." pushingabill to expandhis state’s marriage laws toinclude same¯ sex couples. "I would not introduce anything but marriage;’ said : Rep: Michael Pisamro, a Democrat from Cranston, R.I. "I don’t : necessarily see something like civil unions or domestic partner. ships as a stepping stone to marriage." Pisaturo earlier this year ; said Rhode Islanders are still uncomfortable with the idea of ¯ recognized partnerships between Gay people. That’s why he held ~ . off on a bill to legalize same-sex marriage and will try next year. ¯ In the New York state Senate, Manhattan Democrat Tom : Duane is drafting a bill that his aide said would be "similar to" ." Vermont’s first-in-the-nation civil unions statute, although de." tails were still being worked out. "Our Legislature won’t be back , ’ until January., ~s~ it wouldn’t be until then,", said Scott Mdvin. ~ : Advocates also see opportunities in New Hampshire, Con: nectient, New Jersey, Massachusetts and California for laws ¯ granting marriage benefits, either through marriage itself or ¯ through a civil unions compromise like Vermont, s. ¯ "I think the situation we’re in is Vermont will be there and will ." have to have the courage of its convictions for a while and then, ¯ I think, it will fall into place in a number of spots," said Beatrice ¯ Dohrn, a lawyer for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education : Fund, which led the legal fight in Hawaii for Gay marriage. ¯ Although most advocates insist that full inclusion in marriage ¯ statutes is the only way for Gay and Lesbian couples to achieve ; equality, some see the civil unions statute as a good way to begin ." moving toward that goal. ¯ "Using Vermontas a model, other legislatures wishing to enact ¯ equal benefits,~ see Unions, p. 2 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ TULSA- In amove thatis being decriedby smaller ¯ newspaper publishers across the US, Barnes & ¯ Noble has thrown out most community publica¯ dons out of its stores across the US. ¯ In Tulsa, Barnes & Noble representatives sent ¯ notice to TulSa Family News by letter in the last ¯ week of June of the new policy which went into : effect on July 1st. Newspaper reports from else. where in the US note that Barnes & Noble sent the : letter to most publication in sometime in March. : Local representatives could give no explanation for ¯ the several month delay before informing Tulsa : publications. ¯ Barnes & Noble stated in its letter that it was : removing the publications in order to use the space ¯ forit own merchandise but after TFN publisher : spoke with (the no~w former) manager of the 71st : St. store, it became clear that while minority pub: lieatious were being removed, Barnes & Noble was ¯ creating a new space inside the store for two com" ¯ mtmitypublications; TulsaPeopleand Urban Tulsa. ¯ These two were retaining distribution privileges ¯ because they have the largest volume of copies ¯ ¯ distributed. Both- Tulsa People (TP) and Urban : Tulsa (UT) are publications with histories of fail" ing to serve Tulsa’s Gay & Lesbian communities or : of having anti-Gay policies (UT). Tulsa Family News publisher Tom Neal said, ¯~ "this policy inherently discriminates against mi¯ nority community publications. By virtue of being ¯ minority, we simply cannot compete on a highest ," volume basis." : Neal added that given a choice between making ¯ purchases at Barnes & Noble or at Borders, he ¯ encourages community members to buy at Borders ¯ which consistently has been more supportive of : Lesbians and Gay menin Tulsa. Neal also suggests ¯ that readers let Matt Mozzoni, manager of the 41st ¯ St. Barnes & Noble see Barnes & Noble, p. 3 �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 712-2324 *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 610-5323 *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial 583-2119 *Club Cherry Bomb, 1926 E. Pine 835-2376 *Club Vortex, 2!82 S. Sheridan 749-4511 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria 744-4280 Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael"s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 834-4234 *The Star, 1565 Sheridan 585-3405 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 660-0856 *TNT’s, 2114 S. 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In Oklahoma, Democrats aren’t much better. Republicans talk nasty about Gay taxpayers. Democrats keep quiet but both abuse the authority of the State to attack Gay Oklahomans. God forbid we should get through a legislative session without a vote by the majority to remind us of the contempt in which we are held. When both parties treat all fairly, when the accidents of birth: race, ability, ethnicity, sexual orientation and the choices of a free citizenry: political affiliation, religious "lifestyles" or "preferences", all are of no more importance than that of being left or fight-handed, then Americans, Republican and Democrat, can say we are the nation of fairness for all. The statement continues, "whether you’re single, in a committed relationship, or caring for children, yotir ?maerican Express financial advisor ca~’help you take control of your financial future. We can help you: Establish savings and investment plans. Protect your assets from unnecessary taxation. Avoid financial restrictions placed on unmarried couples. Avoid cosily delays in the receipt of life insurance proceeds." Bamard requests that those wishing to attend please telephone in advance to her at 748-8191, ext. 121. They have been in a relationship for 29 years. "The community support has been really important to me because I don’t have the support from my family," said Callahan, whose parents did not attend her union ceremony. as being "biological error[s]". TOHR is trying to work with other groups to design an effective protest for her visit this fall. On Tuesday, Aug. 8th, TOHR will hold its general membership meeting at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center at 7:30pm. The regular business session (which is usually short) will be followed by a special program presented by the Credit Counsding Center of Tulsa, a Short presentation on financial responsibility, etc. Members and those interested in the community are invited and encouraged to attend. And on Sunday, Aug. 13th, the"Lesbian Connection," a program of TOHR, is inviting EVERYONE in the community to come out and have fun at Keystone lake. Burgers will be provided - you bring the rest! Swimming, volleyball, fishing, boating, etc. will be available all day. Call the Center for directions. The initial planning meeting for "Diversity Celebration 2001" will be held at the Tulsa Gay Cominunity Services Center beginning at 1 lain on Saturday, Aug. 19th. know about their nnhappiness with the new policy. Mozzoni seemed to be sympathetic to the situation but has stated that since it comes down from corporate. headquarters, he has litfle choice. Mozzoni can be reached at 665-4580. WASHINGTON, D.C. - The Human Rights Campaign : ate." (HRC) and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force ¯. HRC has endorsed Vice President A1 Gore for presi(NGLTF) have issued comments on the record o’f Rich- ¯ dent. He has yet to name a running mate. Cheney is ard B. Cheney, George W. Bush’s Vice-presidential : currently the chief executive officer of the Halliburton : Co., a publicly traded company that supplies equipment nominee, on Gay and AIDS issues. ¯ to the oil industry. Halliburton does not have a nonCheney, a former defense secretary in the administration of Bush’s father, and a member of the U.S. House of . discrimination policy thiat includes sexual orientation nor Representatives from 1978-1989, has an extremely con- : a domestic partner program for Gay employees. ¯ According to the NGLTF research, Cheney opposed servative record, HRC noted. Like Gov. Bush, however, Cheney seeks to package a conservative record with a : the Equal Rights Amendment, opposes reproductive moderate image, the organization said. "The choice of ¯¯ choice and supports prayer in public schools. NGLTF notes like HRC that Cheney in 1993 opposed Secretary Cheney is in keeping with Governor Bush’s ¯ strategy of staking out conservative pos!,tions and wrap- ¯ President Clinton’s effort to lift the military ban and openly Gay servicemembers. At the height of the debate, ping them in a moderate package, said Wiunie ¯ Cheney warned that defense cuts and the proposal to lift Stachelberg, HRC’s political director. As a Wyoming congressman, Cheney opposed early :¯ the ban "have led to a decline in the quality of military recruits." efforts to address the HIV/AIDS crisis. Most notably, he He added that "the whole reduction in defense spendwas one of 13 House members who voted against the ¯ AIDS Federal Policy Act of 1988, the first major bill to : ing, the controversy over Gays in the military, has led to provide funding for HIV/AIDS counseling and testing. : an unwillingness to serve and low morale." ¯ NGLTF adds that Cheney has served as a trustee of the Cheney also supported an effort to reduce funding for HIV/AIDS research. In addition, Cheney voted against ¯¯ arch-conservative American Enterprise Institute, where the Hate Crimes Statistics Act of 1988 and supported an ¯ he was a former senior fellow. The American Enterprise Institute is home to many right-wing thinkers, such as amendment that added anti-Gay language to the bill. ¯ former Supreme Court nominee Robert Bork, former As defense secretary, Cheney supported Pete Williams, the department’s chief spokesman, when The Ad- ¯¯ House Speaker Newt Gingrich and Charles Murray, author of "The Bell Curve," a book which suggests that vocate magazine revealed his homosexuality. "I have ¯ differences inintelligence exist between blacks and whites operated on the basi, s over the.years with respect tO my personal staff that I don’t ask them about their private ¯ and that these differences are genetic and immutable. lives," said Cheney. "As long as they perform their ¯ American Enterprise Institute scholars have also been professional responsibilities in a responsible manner, ~ outspoken in their opposition to equal rights for Gay, : Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender people. their private lives are their business." "George W. Bush has flubbed the most important Cheney opposed President Clinton’s effort to lift the : ban on Gays serving openly in the military. Cheney told ¯¯ decision in his presidential camp~gn," said Elizabeth Toledo, NGLTF executive director. "His compassionate CNN in 1993,"I am one of those people who believes that ¯ conservatism holds out no compassion whatsoever for people’s sexual preference and orientation are a private matter. It’s something that is a personal matter for them, ¯¯ theGay, Lesbian,BisexualandTransgendercommunity. Furthermore, it sends a chilling signal to women, to and no one else’.s business. And that’s the way I ran the ¯ people of colo~: and to those concerned with fairness and civilian side of the Pentagon... On the military side, : equality that a major political party would offer up a though, you can’t pursue that policy." candidate with such a background to the voters. This Later in the interview, Cheney ffaid: "I basically don’t believe in discrimination, but I did conclude, as secretary ¯ selection demonstrates that right-wing, religious extremof defense, that the ban on Gays in uniform was appropri- ¯ ists are still a powerful force on the political landscape." ¯ ¯ Openly Gay Republican Featured at Convention Topics include: coming out, integration of sexuality and faith, responding to homophobia in the church and soci- . PHILADELPHIA -Rep: Jim Kolbe of Arizona made ¯ history when he became the first openly Gay member of ety, helping parents of GLBT children and children of ¯ GLBT parents. This group is open to all. ’ It will be ¯ Congress to address a Republican convention. The Ariespecially helpful for GLBT people and their families, ¯ zona congressman had a prime-time speaking slot, addressing the GOP on trade issues for three minutes. their friends, and fellow church members, elders, teachers ¯ Kolbe, first elected in 1984, is the most senior openly and youth leaders. Continental breakfast and snacks will ¯ Gay member of Congress andis the only openly Gay be served. ¯ Sunday morning, the Church School Mid-highs to ¯ Republican in the House. Having Kolbe speak at the convention was an idea first raised by Washington city Adults will.begin at 9:35 in the Chapel. This event is rifled ¯ councilm_.an David Cataniain April, when the Log Cabin "Bringing Body and Soul Together (Let’s Talk about ] Republicans, the most prominent Gay GOP organization, Faith and Sexuality)" This Church School Class will feature’an interactive discussion on Christian sexual ." met with presidential candidate George W. Bush. Bush met with the group, a first for a candidate preparethics. Those choosing to attend will share in an hour ¯ ing to pick up the GOP presidential nomination, despite devoted to how Christians integrate faith and sexuality in his opposition to many of the its issues, including Gay living the Christian life. The focus will be what makes ." marriage. Log Cabin Republicans Pleased Members of ’good relationships’ for all God’s people. Then on Sunday, August 27th, the regular worship ¯ the Log Cabin Republic,~ns are delighted by Kolbe’s service at 11 am in the Sanctuary will feature a sermon by :¯ place.in the convention lineup - especially considering Michael Adee. The service entitled "Celebrating Diver- ¯ that he backed Bush’s rival, Sen. John McCain, during the primary season. sity and Inclusiveness" will honor "Christ’s call to be ¯ According to the group, this is the first lime a wallinclusive." The chancel choir will offer special music for ¯ known openly Gay person has gone to the podium at the the occasion and communion will be celebrated. This is ¯ the formal event to mark College Hill’s declaration to be ¯ GOP national convention. In 1996, a little-known Log Cabin Republican member from California, Steve Fong, inclusive and work as part of More Light Presbyterians to bring the Presbyterian denomination to the inclusion of ¯ gave a low -prof’ile, one-mi nute speech amid little fanfare. [ But some socially conservative Republicans, who are GLBT people in ordination as well as membership.. ¯ Finally on Sunday afternoon from 5:30- 7:30, a Youth ¯ opposed to civil rights for Gay people and have warned Bush about reaching out to the Gay community, were Event, "On Being Gay & Being Christian" will be held. " unhappy with the prospect of having Kolbe speak, One The College Hill youth fellowship will be hosting leading conservative Republican told ABCNEWS he individuals and other youth groups for pizza and open, informal conversation about sexuality and faith for youth. ¯ was "flabbergasted" by the decision, and called it a Adee will be the facilitator on topics ranging from being ~ "shock." "It is not going to be a happy time," said the GLBT and Christian, coming out, harassment at school ¯ Republican. "I think it is a really bad decision." Kolbe is a founding member of the National Advisory and church, sexual sdf-esteem, dealing with family, and : ¯ Board of the Log Cabin Republicans; the nation’s most Gay/Straight friendships. This event hopes to help Gay and Straight youth under- [ prominent Gay GOP group. In 1997, he gave the keynote ¯ address at the LOg Cabin Republicans convention. Kolbe ctand themselves and each other better. ¯ was a strong proponent of the North American Free Trade For more information about these events, contact " i Agreement. College Hill Presbyterian Church at 592-5800. �Pentagon Says Gay Policy Is Working WASHINGTON (AP) - The military’s much-criticized policy on Gays in uniform is working, but training must be improved to eliminate anti-Gay behavior like the abuse that led to a soldier’s murder in Kentucky last year, the Defense Department said. "We think we’ve got it right this time," Carol DiBattiste, the undersecretary of the Air Force, told a news conference Friday to publicize anew Pentagon program to re-emphasize in training that such behavior is unacceptable. Speaking at the same news conference, Bernard ¯ Rostker, the undersecretary of defense, said he disagreed with President Clinton’s statement last year, after the beating death of Pfc. Barry Winchell by a fellow soldier at Fort Campbell, Ky., that implementation of his policy on Gays was "out of whack." "I don’ t agree with that characterization. I think the policy is working reasonably wall to provide a degree of safety’.’ for Gays in uniform, Rostker said. "The days of witch hunts, the days of stakeouts, are really gone." Even so, Rostker said, more needs to be done to ensure that everyone in the military understands the policy. The Clinton administration’s policy on Gays in the military is derived from a law passed in 1993 after Clinton failed to persuade Congress and the Pentagon to allow Gays to serve openly. ~.The policy, known as "don’t ask, don’t tell," holds that Gays can serve in uniform so long as they don’t reveal their sexual orientation. One problem, however, has been unwarranted investigations of people suspected of being homosexual. There also is a fear among discreetly Gay service members that if they ,qomplain about harassment, they will be discharged. ’" The announced plan to eliminate anti-Gay behavior was created by a panel of civilian and military officials led by DiBattiste of theAir Force. It was in response to a Pentagon inspector general’s report in March that found anti-Gay behavior was commonplace in the military. DiBattiste said the key to her panel’ s plan is adoption of an"overarching principle" meant to clarify to all in the military that unacceptable behavior includes not just abuse of Gays but also "inappropriate comments or gestures." "That’s the high road that we need to take," she Said. The DiBattiste panel’s 13-point "action plan" is largely reiteration of previous expressions of deterruination to stamp out anti-Gay behavior and to hold military commanders responsible for policy infractions. Last December, Rostker’s predecessor in the undersecretary’s post, Rudy de Leon, issued a statement that "harassment of service members for any reason, to include alleged or perceived homosexuality, will not be tolerated," and commanders must take prompt action against violators. Michelle Benecke, an executive director of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Fund, an advocate for Gay rights in the military and a frequent critic of Pentagon policy; called the DiBattiste panel’s report "’thoughtful and considered." ’.’Today’s recommendations, if implemented, would be a very good start," Benecke said. The spark that caused- the Pentagon to take a closer look at the Gay policy’s implementation, and at the extent of anti-Gay behavior in the field, was the Winchell murder at Fort Campbell on July 5, 1999. Two of Winchell’ s fellow soldiers were convicted in the crime and are in prison. Gen. Eric Shinseki, the Army chief of staff, released the Army inspector general’s report Friday on circumstances surrounding the Winchell murder. The report concluded that some members of D Company, 2nd Battalion, 502rid Infantry Regiment, Winchell,’ s unit in the 101st Airborne Division, violated the military’s policy against anti-Gay behavior, but it exonerated all commanders at Fort Campbell. The Army report also concluded no general climate of homophobia existed at Fort Campbell. With some exceptions, "It was determined that the command climate at Fort Campbell before 5 July 1999 was a positive environment," the inspector general’s report said. It also said the chain of command at Fort Campbell "responded appropri ate1 y" w hen confronted with situations that appeared to violate the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. United in God’s Love " Rep. Mart,y,. Meehan, D-Mass., questioned these conduslons. ’Giving Fort Campbdl arelatively dean bill of health doesn’t square with recent reports of prevalent anti-Gay harassment throughout the services," Meehan said. Vermont Papers Will Print Civil Union Notices RUTLAND, Vt. (AP) - Aunotmcements for civil unions are beginning to appear alongside wedding announcements on wedding pages in newspapers around the state. At many newspapers, editors said they will treat announcements of same-sex unions the same as traditional marriages, placing them in the same section of their newspapers and in the same format, although perhaps under a different heading. The decision "took about 30 seconds of deep thought," said Valley News editor Jim Fox. "It wasn’t very difficult." "Of course we would treat them the same," said .amnette Sharon, managing editor of the Manchester Journal. "ff they want to make that announcement to their neighbors, the newspaper is the place for that to happen." Even newspapers that have editorialized against the law granting marriage-like benefits to same-sex couples appear likely to print civil union announcements. Mark Smith, publisher of The CaledonianRecord, said no one had.brought such a notice to his St. Johnsbury paper, but if someone did, he would probably publish it. "My personality is such that it will depend on the attitude of the person who comes through the door," he said. Smith said he would comply with a polite request but dig in his heels if he felt pressured. So far,the reqtlests have been few. In Brattleboro, where the first civil union was certified just after midnight on July 1, no announcements have been submitted to the local newspaper, the Reformer. In August, that will likely change, though, when John Calvi and Marshall Brewer of Putney, have a civil union ceremony, and submit an announcement. The coupl e - and the new spaper i- made national new s more than a decade ago when the Reformer became the first mainstream newspaper in the United States to publish a Gay wedding announcement. Joseph Watson of Leicester, entered a civil union with his partner, Michael Warner, on July 7. Watson said he had no problem with sending out the notice, which has appeared in the Addison County Independent and was in the July 23 edition of the Sunday Rutland Herald and Times Argus. It will also be in a new "Milestones" section of the Gay newspaper "Out in the Mountains" and is expected to be published soon by The Burlington Free Press. Addison . County Independent publisher Angelo Lynn said his paper received only aletter of praise for its publication of Watson’s civil union notice. At the Newport Daily Express, however, managing editor Susan Davis doesn’t expect such a smooth reception. Davis said if she receives civil union notices, she will print them as long as her publisher approves. But she anticipates a backlash. "I don’t have a problem with it, but I know a lot of people do," she said. "’This is the Northeast Kingdom and everybody is running anti-civil unions (for the upcoming dections).. It’s a huge issue up here." Man Charged With Hate : Crime in Beating Death : : ¯ ¯ : : ." ¯ ". ~ BARRON, Wis. (AP) - A man charged with helping murder a 22-year-old hearing-impaired, mentally dis abled man now also is accused of a hate crime in the killing. Prosecutors contend Raymond C. Walton,33, of Barron, helped beat Michael J. Hatch to death with a tire :iron Oct. 20 because Walton thought Hatch was Gay, according to court records. Walton was charged with being party to firstdegree intentional homicide and armed robbery in Hatch’s death. The hate-crime enhancer was added to the charges last week. Barron County District Attorney James Babler dedined comment on the hate crime filing, which says MCC-United Sunday Worship 11:00 am Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor " 1623 N. 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Kralewski pleaded innocent to a homicide charge and goes on trial Aug. 7. Reed, 34, pleaded guilty to aiding a feton and was sentenced to t~vo years in prison. tors said Mick attacked another man he had met, but the victim was able to fight him off. Chicago Bishop Faces Ecclesiatical -Charges CHICAGO (AP) - A United Methodist lay member has filed a complaint with the church, accusing his Chicago-based bishop of using the office"as a public relations and news media channel for promoting homosexuality," among other things. John Juergensmeyer, an attorney and member of a United Methodist church inElgin, is calling for Bishop C. Joseph Sprague to resign or be removed. Sprague, formerly a United Methodist pastor in Columbus, Ohio, heads the church’s Northern Illinois Conference. He was one of several Methodists, including at least one other bishop, arrested while protesting anti-Gay measures adopted at the church’ s general conference in Cleveland in May Juergensmeyer said that Sprague’s arrest was a "triggering point" for his complaint. But he said Sprague’s overall political views have long troubled him and other conservative United Methodists. "He is reducing the church only to a political instrument rather than a spiritual force." said Juergensmeyer, rather than a spmtum io~c~, ~a~,., o~.~r,~,l ..... av., who also ~s accusing Sprague of promotang writings about Jesus Christ that luergensmeyer says violate church doctrine. Earlier this month, Sprague told the United Methodist News Service that the letters of complaint seemed to be "part of an organized effort of a small, very vocal minority." He also said he made his views clear when he stood for election as bishop four years ago. Sprague was re-elected to his second four-year term at the church s North Central Jurisdictional Conference this month. Lesbian Recieves Headof-Household Status SACRAMENTO (AP) -The state Board of Equalization has voted to grant head-of-household tax status to a Lesbian who is supporting her partner and nonbiological child. The board voted 3 -2 to allow the Los Angeles family to file with one of the women as the head-of-household, which will save them about $2,500 a year in state and federal taxes. Helmi Hisserich and Tori Patterson of Los Angeles have been together 14 years and had a daughter in 1997. Patterson gave birth and has stayed home to raise the baby since then. When Hisserich filed a tax return for 1997, she checked the box for head of household and calculated accordingly. The Franchise Tax Board said she was not eligible, saying head of household status covered situations only where an unmarried person was paying more than half the expenses of an adoptive or foster child, or any blood relative. They said she owed $1,050, Hisserich said. Sbnnnon Minter, staff attorney for the National Center for Lesbian Rights in San Francisco, argued Hisserich’s case before the board June 30. "This is the first time they’ve addressed this issue," he said. "It recognizes the reality of our families and gives legal validation to the reality that our client is a parent regardless of the fact that she doesn’t have a biological relationship to the child." Hisserich said the board had to consider whether a heterosexual couple would be treated in the same manner. "But if we were a heterosexual couple, we would be mamed. We’ve been together 14 years, we’ve registered as domestic partners in our city, our county and the state. We’ ve done everything we can," she said. The Board of Equalization will vote again after its staff prepares a written decision, and will comment publicly on its reasoning when the vote is final, according to spokeswoman Cristina Herrera. That could take up to three mouths, she said. -- ~i~-n~)g~s~i~d tile vote was the logical extension of Califo~aua court rulingsin the past two years that had granted parental status to Gay men and Lesbian couples planning and having children. Because intent was the basis of his winning argument in the tax case, Minter said the deciston most likely woulon’t apply to situations where someone moved in with a partner who already had a child. The ruling affects only state tax status, but I-Iisserich said the Internal Revenue Service followed the state on head of household status. Man Gets Two Life Sentences for Slaying Jury Votes Death to Killer of Lesbian Couple BALTIMORE (AP) - A man who told police he attacked Gay men because he thought Gays were evil was given two life sentences for the slaying of a h.otel guest last June. Gary William Mick, 25, was gaven one life sentence for first-degree murder and a concurrent 20-year sentence for robbery for the attack on Christopher Williams Jones. He received a consecutive life sentence with all but 30 years suspended for first-degree attempted murder and a concurrent 20year sentence for attempted robbery for a separate incident last September. Mick, of Baltimore, pleaded guilty to the two attacks in May. Jones, 37, of Metuchen, N.J., was attending a pharmaceutical conference in B altimore when he was found bludgeoned to death at the Admiral Fell Inn. "We loved our son and his partner in life as we love all our children and their lifemates. The emptiness we feel because of this loss is extreme," said Howard Jones, the father of one of the victims, in a family statement to the court. Prosecutors said Mick accompanied Jones to his hotel room after the two met. once.inside, Mick struck Jones nine times on the right side of the head with a claw hammer. He then stole Jones’ truck and credit cards, which he used to buy clothes, jewelry, food and a beard trimmer, prosecutors said. The second attack occurred in September. Prosecu- PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) - A Mnltnomah County jury sentenced to death a Portland man who killed a Lesbian couple in a karaoke bar. Eric Walter Running, 49, was fOund guilty of two counts of aggravated murder in the February 1998 shotgun slayings of Jaqueline J. A_ffderson, whom he had dated, and Barbara J. Gilpin. Running killed the women after Anderson, 29, a poet and writer, broke up with him and returned to her 10-year-relationship with Gilpin, 44, a landscaper. In an unusual split, the jury imposed the death sentence only for Anderson’s murder, giving a life sentence without the possibility of parole for Gilpin’.s death. Ten of the 12 jurors voted to give a deat~ sentence in Gilpin’s murder, but a unanimous verdict is needed. "’Barbara Gilpin deserved the same verdict as my daughter," said Jack Anderson. "But one death sentence is all that it takes. I don’t care if he dies tomorrow or never, I’m just glad he can’t be a threat to anyone anymore." Running smiled as the verdicts were read. He will become the 25thperson on Oregon s Death Row at the state penitentiary in Salem. Almost 20 patrons at the Ambassador Restaurar.’-a and Lounge in Portland witnessed Running kill women Feb. 24, 1998. Rurming’s lawyers offered insanity defense. �Speaking ahead of the Se.n.a.te OK’s $600 ¯ batfleHIV/AIDS. $200 million interuational program to " ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian Million for AIDS . WASHINGTON (AP)-Legislafioncom- " Nations) Regional Forum, Asia’s largest mitring up to $600 million in U.S. aid for " security conference, Downer noted prefighting HIV and AIDS in Africa and ¯ dictions that AIDS threatens to reduce or developing countries elsewhere was " even reverse Asia’s economic growth. "I don’t think the Asia-Pacific region can passed at the end of July by the Senate. On turn,!ts back on this devastating probavoicevote, theSenateapprovedabillby lem, Downer told’anews conference. Sens. Bill Ffist and Jesse Helms, both " Most of the $200 million will be tarRepublicans, authorizing $300 million in ¯ geted at countries in the Asia-Pacific reeach of the next two years for AIDS " glen, Downer said, and Canberra expects prevention and treatment and also for the to work dosdy with the Association of care of AIDS orphans in developing coun- ¯¯ Southeast Asian Nations. tries. The bill directs the Treasury Depart- ¯ Much of the funding remains uncomment to establish a trust fund with the ", mitted, but some will augment existing World Bank for the prevention efforts and ¯. programs in Indonesia and Papua New the treatment of orphans. ¯ Guinea, Australia’s immediate northeru Helms, chairman of the Senate Foreign ¯ neighbors. Relations Committee, said the bill requires that up to $220 million of all U.S. bilateral funding for HIV -AIDS programs over the next two years be spent on supporting orphans in Africa. T,he United Nations has predicted that the disease is expected to wipe out half the teen-age population in some poor countries in Africa. Similar legislation passed in the House, which voted earlier this month to fully fund President Clinton’s request for $2’44 million next year for combating and treating AIDS in poor counmes. HIV-Treatment Ctr. Targets Blacks Russia’s Infections Growing MOSCOW (AP) - The number of registered HIV cases in Russia has soared in the last six months and will continue to grow, but the government doesn’t have the money to fight the epidemic adequately, a top health official said. By tl~e middle of July, Russia had some 53,1~30 registered HIV cases, with almost half of them coming in the last six months, said Vadim Pokrovsky, the head of the Federal AIDS Prevention Center. But he said that the actual number of Russians infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, is probably more than 300,000, since only about 10% of the population. has been checked. "The regi,s, tered cases are only the tip of the iceberg, Pokrov sky said. "We must accept the fact that we are facing a very quickly spreading epidemic." Increased drug use and prostitution since the collapse of the Soviet Union have been two key reasons for the rise in HIV cases? Still, a low incidence in HIV-ca.ses in recent years as well as more pressing economic problems m.ean ~.e~g~o v ~eru~ ,~t, has been slow to combat AID~. in zu , only 46 million rubles ($1.65 million) was set aside to combat HIV and AIDS, Pokrovsky said. If Russia doesn’t take new measures to stop the spread of the virus, the country could have some 1.6 million HIV cases by 2015, he said..and those who are infected nrobablv won’tbe able to get the help they. ROCHESTER, N.Y. (AP) - A treatment center for blacks who have AIDS or HIV is planned in a county where only a third of black AIDS patients get treatment, compared to half of infected whites. Rochesterhas the second-highestnumber of AIDS cases in Ne~v York state, after New York City. The number of local AIDS cases has leveled off among whites but is climbing among blacks, according to the Rochester Primary Care Network. Existing programs are not reaching t~ growing number of black men ana wom who are HIV-positive, Art Collier, prestdent of Primary Care Network, said. The rate among Monroe County’residents who are black is over eight times the rate among white residents, he added. Before 1991, 64% of reported AIDS cases in Monroe County were among whites mad 27% were among blacks. The center expects to have an initial the government’s manmty to pay. wm casdoad of about 150 patients. Besides people probably shouldn t count on getmedical care, services will include mental ting treatment," Pokrovsky said. . health counseling and treatment for subHIV is worst in the Moscow regto.n, stance abuse. The National Black Leaderwhere some 5% of young people are inship Commisston on AIDS is helping plan fected, Pokrovsky said. the center and recruit a black staff, Collier said. Coordinatbrs believe black patients will respond better to treatment by black medical personnel. Dr~Anson .,W;urapa.,~ black physician at strong Memon ¯ Hospital’s AIDS Center, said blacks tend TORONTO (AP) - Figures showing.a to mistrust the medical sys.te.m, a~.d w.~en , rise of HIV infections amongG~Y., men m everyone on the staff is whtte, tlae s~tua- " Ontario could be the fLrst sigu O~ mcreastion is worse. - " ~ .... " ing HIV levds for Gay men in Cam.a.dar Natioo~!JY, one in .5~b,~abk.,m~,’~s,.m7 AIDS. activists note. A. recent prownce2 fectedw~HIV,’,andAiDSis’theleaamg i wide study conducted by University ot cause’of!~a,.~.~d~allblackAmerica~ Toronto and community gr6ups f°und an between:th~.~g~of 25:and44:Thbdis-~. increasing number of HIV infections ease i’s gr6wiiig fastest among -black among O~tario Gay men ~ter_ 19°~6,~ _ r In 1992, the infection rate was ,.~ 1~ women, who a~.ount for 56% of HIT ~ cases in women.¯ " " 100 people tested, the ~tudy found. The number dr°pped t° 0"87J 1"00 in 1 "996; d Rise in HIV Infections ih Gays Australia College Hill Presbyterian Church announces a "More Light" Weekend with Michael Adee National Field Organizer, More Light Presbyterians August 25 - 27, 2000 Building A Church for Everyone Friday, August 25th, Luncheon: Noon - 1:30, Fellowship Hall History and goals of More Light Presbyterians, followed by a question and answer session. Cost: $5.00 for the meal Caring for All God’s People Saturday, August 26th, Workshop: 8:30 - 12:30, Fellowship Hall Pastoral care needs of GLBT people and their families. Continental breakfast and snacks will be served. Bringing Body and Soul Together Sunday, August 27th, Church School Mid-highs to Adults, 9:35am, Chapel An interactive discussion on Christian sexual ethics. Celebrating Diversity and Inclusiveness Sunday, August 27th, Worship ll:00am, Sanctuary A special worship to celebrate our diversity and Christ’s call to be inclusive. Michael Adee will preach and we will share communion together. On Being Gay and Being Christian Sunday, August 27th, Youth Event 5:30 - 7:00pm The ColleggHill youth fellowship will be hosting individuals and other youth groups for pizza and informal conversation about sexuality and faith for youth. College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Col~bia Avenue, 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the Uni;~sity of Tulsa Campus) ’Financial Pla.nning With A Clear Comm,tment. ~t American Express Financial Advisors, we want to make our 3ommitment to gay men and lesbians clear. Just as we have extended domestic partner oenefits to our lesbian and gay employees worldwide, we are committed to providing sound financial advice that specifically addresses the unique financial issues affecting our lesbian and gay clients. Nhether you’re single, in a committed relationship, or caring for children, your Americar ~xpress financial advisor can help you take control of your financial future. 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Gee, I didn’tknow that the Jewgirlfriend (eeeewwww, not that way!!!) ¯ ish could also play pick and choose with because every stupid thing I’ve ever said ¯ religious teachings like some Christians. How much does she really believe in in my life would sound intelligent next to the things she says. And she’ll be saying ¯ these religious texts? Who knows? She doesn’t even have a consistency when it plenty, I’m sure, come October, when she ¯ comes to condemning homosexuality. rides in on her broomstick to Tulsa. ¯ Well, she does, but she tries to say that Who is Dr. Laura, you ask? If you’re Gay, you’ve been in a cave. Laura ¯ she’s not condemning anyone. The point Schlessinger, shock jock advice-giver of ¯¯ is,shehas saidthingsinprintandonradio, taken them back, backpedaled, madeother the radio circuit, has called Gays and ¯ people speak for her so many times it’s Lesbians "biological errors", "sexual deviants", and my personal favorite, ¯ ridiculous. Her stand is so ambivalent, so ¯ setin sand, that no one canbelieve or trust "pedophiles." She says she does this out of compas- ¯ anything that comes out of her mouth. Her ¯ press agents said she apologized for her sion for us, not out of hatred. Oh no, I don’t feel hated and maligned by those ¯¯ remarks about Gays being "errors", and statements, do you? She spews her hatred ¯ then the next day she said she wasn’t apologizing. and bile via the airwaves, with complete ¯ Dr. Laura has denounced the American support from the Religious Right. You know them- that group that has the inside ¯¯ Psychiatric Association and the National info on the "homosextml agenda"! As if ¯ Education Association for their - oh, I suppose- compassk hate stance on equal her radio show weren’t bad enough, Schlessinger’s taking her "teach intoler- ¯ rights for all, andinstead has sold her soul a-:ze" rantings to the TV screen in Sep- ¯ to Religious Right organizations like Fotember, courtesy of that "giant" of great ¯¯ cus on the Family. She promotes, within her own radio show, an intolerance totelevision programming, Paramount. "OK," you’re saying, "the Lesbian is " ward Gay people on all levels, even to the once more raging about something, but ¯ point of denouncing hate crimes legislawhat has that got to do with me? What’s ¯ tion. ¯ I can see her leading cheers to teach one more ignorant person in a long line?" children who’ve just come home from Funny you should ask. "Dr." Laura (she has a Ph.D in physiology, not psychol- ¯ school how to actively hate homosexuals. "Gays are bad! Gays are fey! Let’s go ogy) has become svch a controversial ¯ bash ~ Gay today!" She says she is a figure (much like Am., Bryant in the late ’70s when she tried to inflate anti-Gay ¯ moralist and has openly opposed the Verlegislation) that the G/L/B/T commurnty ¯ mont same-sex partners’ rights decision a few months ago. But again, she’s not has united to protest her television show. ¯ hatingus. She’sjustcompassionate.Yeah, All over this country are planned protests to keep her off the TV screen. ¯ this is why she takes an attitude of "I’m And debates have become so heated ¯ right no matter what" on her radio show, and will also, I’m sure, on TV. But let’s that major advertisers such as Proctor & ¯ see how that could work against her, shall Gamble, American Express and United Airlines have pulled out, saying that they ¯ we? Anyone who’s ever watched a few epidon’t need any more controversy. And Geico Insurance Company (my insurance : sodes of"Frasier" knows how easy it is to company!) tookits advertising away from ¯ just hit a button and get rid of pesky caller her radio show at the beginning of July. ¯ #1. How does this work on TV, when The reason? The company could not, be- ¯ you’re faced with the pesky caller in pering supporters of diversity, condone the " son? Taping. has already begun on her words and actions of someone who clearly : show, and from the reports, it doesn’ t look sees diversity as wrong. These are not ¯¯ likeasuccess. Dr. Lauradidn’tknow how their exact words, mind you, but .you may ¯ to ask the proper questions, or even know some rudimentary technical televison find out more by going to ¯ www.stopdrlaura.com. knowledge i~her first tapings. Let’ s look at this woman’ s career briefly ¯¯ There’s n~question that Dr. Laura is used to the ~d~o. But she also wants an and find out just what led her to this ¯ audience like the one on radio - one she homophobic phase in her life. Several years ago I.first heard her radio program, ¯¯ can rant to ,and not have to.see. Because and I thought that she was telling people ¯ for all her bravado and showmanship, she really DOESN’T WANT to help anyone. the truth, even if they didn’t want to hear it. Somehow I admired that, although I : She actually doesn’t seem to like people. didn’t always agree with everything she ¯ You can bitch and moan to people all you said. She is a big proponent of parents : wantif you don’tsee their faces. She’s on taking control in the home and not blam- : radio and~feels safe. Guess What? Rea[peopie~ ing everyone else for how their’children behave. That part hooked me since Iwas ! may had.e, more difneultyi~ing~p.le 0ff if she him to .fae~i. them, [f’.~votild be a middle school teacher at the time and interesting to seehow b~y!hla~ di~S if saw parents who didn’t think they had an] responsibility for their child’s behavior. ¯ she has to face questions about her views So far, so good. And I even read reports ¯ on homosexuality, but I know I won’t be that she used to support the G/IJB/T com- ~ watching. I think she should just quietly ¯ go away, like Anita Bryant. A career munity. Two years ago, however, she converted to Orthodox Judaism, adopting ¯¯ shriveled by her own hatred. Gregory is a Texas based writer, who intolerance as her Bible. Now she says she ¯ lives near Ft. Worth. Sheformerly taught can’t support the G/L/B/T community ¯ school and also was a newspaper rebecause of religious teachings. If you hate me, hate me. But don’t lie . porter. i Public Service Company of Oklahoma �by Jim Christjohn, entertainment queen Happy summer, folks! Been a lot of changes since the last column- went on a visit to Chicago where I discovered an artist I’m eager to tell you about, and closed the door on a ghost from the past; started a new job and more. First, local news: Cyndi Vetter directs Heller Theatre’s first production of the new season, "A Coupla White Chicks Sitting Around Talking" by John Foi:d Noonan. Starring local favorites Julie Tattershall (an excellent actress) and Maude Mix, it is the story of two women who are complete opposites of each other, and the unlikdy bond they form. They discover that, together, they can overcome anything. The production runs August 3-6, at the Heller Theatre, 5328 S. Wheeling Ave. Reservations are rectAmended at 746-5065. While in Chicago, I had the chance to meet some marvelous people, including TomMichael,whoIlaterlearnedisoneof the top cabaret artists across the nation, consistently in the industr~’s top ten lists amongthecompanyofMichaelFeinstein, Maureen McGovern, Betty Buckley, Michael McAssey (who hosted the eveningatthepianobar-somethingTulsa desperately needs), Sally Mayer, Donna Murphy, and Amanda McBro(~fi. ~He’s been actively singing in the Chicago nightclub scene for 12years, andhas also performed with the Boston Pops and Spokane symphonies. In 1995, he was invited to participate in the national Cabaret Symposium with such luminaries as MargaretWqfiting, Julie Wilson. and Ann Hampton Callaway. His album, "Sailing On," is the perfect music for romancing yournewguyorgal.TomMichael’svoice wraps around you like a warm blanket on a winter’s night, and draws you in. I was privileged to meet the man behind the voice, and spend-an afternoon with him. He is as nice as the voice he sings those incredible love songs with. And he’sboyishlyhandsome, withblondehair and incredibly intense eyes that dance with light ’ every so often. His smooth " tenor voice and immaculate phrasing finmediately gave me a new perspective on that style of voice, My favorite cut is the title song, which I’ve heard done before, but not with such feeling that you feel the song flowing around you. Beckie McKenzie, who unfortunately was out of town the.Sunday I saw Tom perform, lent her voice and arranged the music for the album, and there’s not a tinker on it. When I asked my host "Which local artists’ CD should take home with me as a souvemr. , the immediateresponsewasTomMichael’s’, And he was right. Tom Michael’s "Sailing On" is available from Amazon.corn, or Tower Records, Original Cast Records (1-888-627-3993), Borders, Barnes and Noble, Footlight Records, and CDNOW.com: BrachettllS comang. No,~t s notaplece of tOast with herbs and tomatoes on ~t, it’s ArturoBrachetti, the quick-change artist, Think "Greater Tuna" meets Robin WillJams while doing David Copperfield’s act. Greater Tuna had two guys doing quick changes to create the 22 characters of a small mythical town; Arturo is one man creating 88 characters during the course of an evening - from cowboys to geishas and barmaids to Royal Mounties, he is a very channing man and handsome as ffelll He speaks atleast threelanguages o trammg. And to do this you need that of doing the constant prePs/media events, fluently, and has a mischievous sense of o traimng. So it’s easy to injure your voice, being portrayed in press as living a life that wasn’t close to reality and the rumors humor. Welose alot of cast members, who haven’t Described as Versace on hyper speed, ¯ had the kind of vocal traimng that will based on the illusion. For instance, "There’d be a photo op at a party. I’d go Braehetti changes costumes at lightning ¯ sustain you through a show like this. And, fast speed, transforming into more than " like I said, even if you have had it, there just long enough for the picture, then g~t home to a cup of tea and bed. DoingS8 80 characters and giving life to legions of ¯ are moments you forget. And you defishows a week plus recording an~ alb~ personalities. His show is a multi-media o nitely feel it later. Even the trained folks didn’t leave much time for a Wild extravaganza, combining comedy, mu- . lose voices as they get caught up in the even if I’d wanted to live one. Thenthe~ sic, magic, and emotions of the I’d be, splashed across the C~adian video in a unique show " ". , .Deserll~ed as Versace on collage of acting, equivalent of the National Inquirer, with Jc: What elan article about what a party boy I was. storytelling, stunts fect has doing this layper speed, Braelaett] c]aan~es Please." and caricature. He show had in terms Feeling too tied to the show, he decided is thewinner of the costumes at li~latnin~ fast speed, of impacting your 2000 Moliere life and/or views to start over and move to NYC, where ironically, he ended up being recast in Award(theFrench transformln~ into more tlaan 80 of the world? Tony, which has MH: "A s I Rent. He took a week or so off to record el~araeters and ~ix,~n~ life to. vocals for the new album, which he pronever been one by said, I’ ve been duced and played instrument~ for. anyone outside of through years of le~ions of personalities, Heloves performing, dislikes pressjuntraining, withsingFrance), and a deHis slaow is a multl-media lighffully impish ing, and acting, kets and meeting hordes of people. He made an exception to come to Tulsa, for fellow.Addalittle and dancing. I’d extravaganza, eomblnln~ which the event was nice and relatively Cirque De Soleil been so close to low key, in his eyes. At th~ time of the too that mixture comedy, music, marie, and v’ldeo getting parts so interview,hehadflownoutfromNYCity many times, only above, too. 6:30pm the prior evening, didpress, upat Brachetti arin a uniclue colla~e of acting, to lose them to 5:30am for more press, and was flying peoplewhohadn’t rivesinTulsaatthe storytelling, stunts and earleaback an’hour after I spoke with him. Ah, PAC courtesy of had any training. I was about to quit Celebrity Attracthe glamorous life! ture. He is... a tions August6-13. show busines s Chad was kind enough to give me a CD sampler of his new album, "No. 1 Fan," when the call came Tickets can be had deliChffully impish fellow, by calling 596from the Rent and it’s very good. Nice melodic rock, Add a little Cirque De Soldl and I love the first song -"Small Town 7111.Iwilltellyou people. I’dbeenin so many situations Girl;" atl.~,ode to not giving up on dreams now, the costumes too tlaat mixture above, too.., where I’d been that Brachetti deand p~venng with what life gives vou Ng~i~2i~ really nice beach-boys n{eets signedandcreated through al! this rival any elaborate training, and Fl’~i~,ood Mac kinda tune about break[and] workedreallvhard ~ mg-!:~p¢ or ~vantiug to, by the title .of Bette Midler on my craft c~nly to ¯ "I~xmgton." After that is "Say Good-bye Cheridrag Queen ...RENT opens August 99 see people with no : t~ hip-hoppy kinda rappish song extravaganza. Di experieuce get wi~eat pop hook, withsomejazz~a~,d I mention he’s and runs tlarou~la September 8 rock bi-~:thrown in for good measure. It s parts I was up for, cute, designs a and had just beabout growing up, growing old, selling mean frock, in his for 8 performances, out, doing what you’re told. "I know who come so disheartmid thirties (he’s I wanna be..." The next ~s a ham~ting ened with the biz. RENT is only ttae cagey about his Sothis,gethngthat ballad/rocker, an ode to loneliness of a age) and single? ~tla musical to win both lostfriencFrelationshipanddrinkingalone. call, really .reinRENT Opens forced my faith in On each, his voice handles the material August 29 and tlae Pulltzer Prize and and styles with aplomb, and he has a very the business and runs through Sepappealing tone. It seems there will be that renewed tember3for8perseveral qony Awards..." something for everyone on the full CD, dream, formances. Tix go and it will be worth picking up. I hope ~t Also, I’ve beon sale June 12th gets radio play. at 596 7111. RENT is only the fifth musicome much more spiritual. I wasn’t spiriJeffrey Seller, the show’s producer, tual at all when I took this part. But Mimi cal to win both the Pulitzer Prize and speaks of show with real enthusiasm, and seve :al Tony ,Awards. Matinees are set is such a wonderful character and she’ s his eyes light up when speaking of the for Sat & Sunday, and there will be a grounded in faith, and to play that, every impacthe’s witnessedthe showhaveupon special $25 per seat matinee on Wednesnight I have to believe it on stage. Since its audience. He sees "Rent" as a transforday, August 30. doing the show and portraying a characmative experience. He hopes the show Presentatthepressconferenceannouncter, Mimi, who is very spiritual, I have will reach the younger Gay teens and become more open to that aspect of life ing this special addition to Celebrity Attwenty-somethings and send a message tractions’ season were Marcy Harriell, where once I wasn’t, and I’ve heard from that "Yes, you can be gay and successful, MIMI on Broadway, and Chad friends and fans about their own searches that gay is more than OK and is cool. You for meaning, whichis one of the themes of Richardson, ROGERon Broadway, flown can live ~oodlife, a rich life," and hopes the show. And that has inspired me to in for the day to perform a couple of they will be moved by the relevant expestart searching. It’s so nice to bein a show numbers from the show. They were both rienees the show represents. The message that’s inspiring instead of traumatizang." dynamate, and had incredible voices, of inclusiveness is important to him for Marcy Harriell has not done a CD yet, I was able to ask a few questions of the audience to ’get." but hopes ~t is in her future. And I can them, which they were most ~acious in Even today, he still has a passion for assure you, evenifshe sings the telephone answering. I spoke first with Ms Harriell, book, it would be well worth listening to. this show evident in his speech and the who was as gracious as she was beautiful, JC: This seems like an incredibly diffiway his eyes light up. Having aecomChad Richardson is Canadian rock plished quite a bit for his 35 years, he singer, and has had two albums produced, cult show to do, especially in terms of the His third is the upcoming "No. 1 Fan," chalks his success up to being a vocals. workaholic. He never tires of seeing the due out in May. He’s a handsome man, MH: (laughing) "Oh yes! Well, I’m a show s effect on audiences, its power to and he also has an incredible voice, much classically trained singer - opera and so easier to listen to in many ways than embrace and connect with all people, and on, so doing this show was really different make them feel part of a family. Anthony Rapp, the originator of the role. in terms of it being arock show, basically. Of course, that does kind of clash with He also has incredible presence and very It places totally different stresses on your piercing eyes. the show’s detractors, who feel that it vocalchords,andrequiresalotofstamina; glamorizes drug use and unsafe sex, but Chad was a member of the Canadian because when you get caught up in the you can’t please everyone. cast ~f Rent, who reached rock-star fame emotion of the show - which happens at some point every night - you forget the .o as a member of the show. He quickly tired ��¯ tions of sexuality. Gayness exists in order by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. : to maintain the boundaries of straightness. My sister just reported in from the an- ¯ We just don’t admit it: nual family reunion. Earlier this month, Gayness has to exist as an open secret. the uncles, aunts, and cousins congre- ¯ It is a shadowy, inverted, gated in apark on the suband devalued reflection of urban slopes ofMt. Diablo, My family doesn’t straight. When it emerges California. Safe here in from the closet and appears talk much. What Oklahoma, I’ve somehow clearly in public, it threatmanaged to .miss the last f~ets I have derive ens ¯ straightness if it bedecade of these family piccomes a possible, alternafrom the Oakland tive normal sexuality. But news filters back. Straight can’t exist withTribune Internet This year my second out Gay; but it perhaps also cousin Michael reapnewspaper archives. can’ t exist - not in the same peared, somehow on paway, anyway - when the role. I am surprised beOr rather, the truth open secret is revealed. cause it wasn’t too long Like murder and autism is that we happily ago that he attacked an eldin the family, the erly couple in their car, gossip about each unspeakability of secret pulled up at a gas station. Gayness has maintained its He stabbed the old woman other when those shame. We’ve heard the dead. A .Vietnam War reaction: "Go ahead and flashback, Michael’s lawothers aren’t be Gay. Butkeepit to youryer said, which could wall self. Don’t thrust your listening. We just be true. lifestyle in my face. We My family doesn’t talk don’t speak such don’t want to know about much. What facts I have it. How dare you Gays derive from the Oakland things publiely. flaunt k ? Can’t you keep it Tribune lnternet newspasecret?" per archives. Or rather, the You can understand the worry. Flaunttruth is that we happily gossip about each ¯ other when those others aren’t listening. " ing destroys open secrets. Public recogniWe just don’t speak such things publicly. ¯ ,tion of Gayness erodes the normality and And there at the picnic also were my ¯ "6ounds of straightness. Telling one’s sesecond cousins, once-removed, who are ¯ crets unsettles the uncles and the aunts autistic. Our gossip wonders if this condi- ¯ and their elemental notions about who tion is their parents’ fault. The brothers, ¯ and what they are. Who can blame them? who are now in their 30s, somehow make ¯ Nowonderthey’dratherhappily smalltalk a living repairing trails in Yosemite Na- ¯ with arson abouthis job andhis car- and not about what he does when no one is tional Park. We all know something about them despite the fact that their autism is ;"¯ looking (or when they are pretending not to be looking). never spoken of at our reunions. ¯ So my family dogs its job, keeping our My first cousin arson was at the picnic ¯ open secrets. And it’s not just my timotoo. arson is 46, unmarried, does some- ¯ thing with computers, and still lives with ¯ rous relatives. I have thirty-something my aging aunt and uncle. It makes one ¯ Gay friends who avoid certain bars for fear they might run into family friends think. It makes us gossip, too. Perhaps I " mother. Likemom " ¯ who’dtell thexr doesn ’t have a Gay cousin: Or perhaps arson is ¯ already know. But, sometimes, she really just a happy solitary. Who knows? We doesn’t knowshe honors the open secret never talk about it:Opeuly, that is. ¯ by not admitting that she’s seen through My family - likes yours, maybe - reli¯ her son years ago. giously follows our own policy of "Don’t One of these years I’m going to finally ask, don’t tell." This peculiar sort of se- ¯¯ make it home to the family reunion. crecy is the framewt,rk of the closet. The ¯ "Orson," maybe I’ll say,"So what do you closet comes into being just because we ¯ of those Back Street Boys?" have agreed not to notice what is obvious. ¯ think Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropolarson’s sexual identity is an open secret. ogy at the University of Tu,lsa. He knows what he is, and we know what he is too. But because we never admit what we know, not publicly anyway, we avoid having to deal with its consequences. If we did acknowledge that we know, ¯ we might have to do something. Dismiss ¯ It takes courage to scrutinize your defense structures, belief system, values, selfthe newly uncloseted Gay from the Army, " worth, self-doubt, behavioral patterns, and for example. My family wouldn’t dis- ¯ overall identity, and to shed the traits and charge Orson.(or me either,.for that mat¯ beliefs that no longer functionin your life. ter) from the clan, but it w ould face having ¯ It takes uncommon courage and integrity to revalue Gayness. It would lose the ~ comfort of our open secret. This would ¯ to implement the insights of that scrutiny, and to live honesty and authentically. demand considerable emotional and po- ¯ Anyone who enters and completes this litical transformation on all sides, It’s alot : process is a survivor, and deserves the easier just to go along to eat the hotdogs ¯ rewards of liberation, identity autonomy, and hamburgers and chat about kids and ¯ and happiness." the weather. : While much of this book is geared toEve Sedgwick, a literary critic and one " ward use by straight therapists for their of the founders of "queer theory," pro- ¯ posedin"The Epistemology of the Closet" ¯ Lesbian and Gay clients, lay people will that open secrets are fundamental within ¯ also find it valuable. It will help people to fully understand that the rituals they have modern American culture. ¯ gone through are not unusual and that Part of her argument can be restated simply. 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She is an easy target focus in upon than the face that launched for a hip, sarcastic documentary. Instead, 1,000 quips? That’s the mission of a new we find out about a woman who was documentary, and "Tile Eyes of Tammy reaching out to Gays and AIDS patients Faye" doesn’t disappoint. long before anyone else in the Christian For those of you living on Jupiter’s broadcasting community We learn about moons, Tammy Faye Bakker (now a woman who endured cancer, then judged. Tammy Faye Messner) was/is the excruthe experience worthwhile because ~t ciatingly mascaraed ex-wife of brought her closer to her daughter. And tdevangelist Jim Bakker and former cowe discover, though she never says it star of PTL, the North Carolina-based outfight, that she still respects Jim Bakker television ministry that imploded in a pit - and may well still love him xn some of accusations and recriminations in the ways. Bakker, too, is interviewed here, late 1980s. watched balefully by his new wife as he He trysted with Jessica Hahn (who later talks - and sometimes reminisces fondly paraded in Playboy) and went to jail. She - about his time with Tammy Faye. got addicted to pills and ended up marryIn the end, you’re left with several ing his best friend. Jerry Falwell got inquestions about Tammy Faye: What DID volved. Things got nasty. Pop culture she and Bakker believe in? God? Ego? references were born. Mascara compaMoney? Themselve,’ 9 And what does she nies prospered. really look like under all those layers? Now, more than a decade later, Tammy Whatever she ultimately is, Tammy Fgye paces-the halls of her California Faye deserves some sympathy. She’ s been gated-community house, trying to sti~lI through alot that wasn’t her own making. together the swatches of her life and fin__ She’s going to church again, singing ~n a out what’s important to her. This proves local choir and trying to figure out just to be a funny and tragic endeavor, and who she is - an admirable trait in anyone, filmmakers Randy Barbato and Fenton and something not to be lampooned, no Baily chronicle it as it unfolds. Narrated matter what her past has held. "I don’t by RuPaul, of all people, it’s a festival of know of any woman in our time who has weirdness camed out on an impressively been so maligned," Pat Boone tells the documentarian level, and it offers a deadcamera. "And yet she just keeps going." on look at Tammy _ aye without ever And that trajectory makes for a fascinatpoking fun at her. It lets her do all the ing documentary - whether you end up work, and work she does. seeing it as a valid piece of journalism or - She gives us a tour of her makeup case an entertaining celebrity car wreck. (the eyes come from L’Oreal Waterproof Theatre Company presents Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night Augus, 17- !9 August 24 - 26 Eight o’clock Eight dollars at. the gate Tulsa ’sonly professional body-piercing Phil brook Museum 2727 South Rockford Road. Homosexual Rites of Passage: A Road to Visibility & Validation by Marie Mohler, MA reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa Ciry-CounU Eibrary Like e~eryone else, Lesbians and Gay men go through a series of life events that shape their personalities, morals and ability to interact with other people. However, because of sexual orientation, there is often a different set of events and there are different hurdles to jump. This book analyzes these rites of passage to help Lesbians and Gay men understand themselves. Author ~ [thief approaches a variety of topics, each with, a sep~ate chapter, inciudi~.g ~,~nderstar,,ding Fear, Overcoming c.~Coming Out, Con-a~fitment Rimai s ar,_d Aging Rites. Each topic builds o~ the prevtous one. Fern plays a big role for both straights and Ga)’s. For Gay people, fear serves as an obstacle to growth. For straightpeople, fear of Gays "’smt’aces in antiGay bashing, picketing, propaganda, hazing, attempts at converting homosexuals and discrimination in the workforce. Energy is tied up in keeping the Lesbian and Gay individual out of their world, consciousness, and own ide.nti.ty,.b.y attemp.ting t,o, keep homosexuahty mws~ble and stlent. Mohler suggests that straights fear Gays due to ignorance. "This ignorance often arises from lack of awareness that others may differ from one’s sdf. There is often no motivation to learn about other cultures or sexual orientations. Thus, anything different from the self is considered abnormal." One thought provoking section in the chapter on aging deals with the death of a same sex life partner. A Gay or Lesbian individual’s "truest support system, emotionally, physically, sexually, and finandally, may be flflfilled by this one person. In light of’the fact that many heterosexual peers and families may not mfite understand the magnitude of homo~sexual fee!rags _~md. Gay!Lesbi,~ conuni~mem to !ife parmers, ~t ma~ be devastating to not rec~’~c ~N’.: much-needed suppn<i: dmSng this a;~,::’~;v-g pefic,l. The heterosextml majci:~.~? ~m,,y be blind to exiuatiL~g the loss of one’s life partner to ’,he loss of a husband or wife. While this lack of support is a great tragedy, with great potenial for re~njuring and shaming homosexuals during a time of great mourning, it is thevery reason why Gay men and Lesbian women needto stand together as a community and validate the troth of their parmerships." The chapter on coming out summarizes the upbeat feel of the entire book: "(the coming out) process affects homosexuals physically, emotionally, and intellectuall) see Passages, p. 10 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document MCC +American Expre.ss Offer Financial Planning TULSA - Tulsa’s Metropolitan Community Church United (MCC-United) with Theresa M. Barnard, a financial planning advisor with American Express Financial Advisors will present a series of financial planning seminars at MCC United. One seminar will be "Financial Strategies forGayMen&Lesbians" and will be held onTuesday, September 5th and will be repeated on Tuesday, October 10th. Barnard will present "Retirement - Explore Your Options, Create your Retirement Income," on Tuesday, .September 19th and ,Estate Planning" on Tuesday, October 24th. All seminars will be at 7pro at the church located at 1623 No. Maplewood, just north and west of Sheridan and Pine. Bamard and MCC United provided the following statement from American Express Financial Advisors: "We want to make our commitment to Gay men and Lesbians clear. Just as we have ~ktended domestic partner benefits to our Lesbian and Gay employees worldwide, wearecommi tted to providing sound finan, cial advice that specifically addresses the unique finandal issues affecting our Lesbian and Gay clients." see MCC, p. 3 Women Try to Change Canada’s Marriage Law VICTORIA, CANADA (AP.)- Two women at the center of a constitutional court challenge exchanged vows inJuly as friends andrelatives witnessed the union ceremony. Judy Lightwater, 49, and Cynthia Callahan, 36, pledged to "cherish and sustain each other" for all of their days with "passion, honor, patience and laughter." Since Canadian law recognizes marriage only between aman and awoman, it was legally impossible for the Gay activism to get a marriage license. But the British Columbia government has asked the provincial Supreme Court on behalf of the couple to declare that same-sex marriages are legal. The court challenge is expected to reach the Supreme Court of Canada within about seven years. The provincial government issues marriage licenses but is boundby federal rules as to who qualifies. "When I see there are two people who are dearlyin love and want to make a commitment to each other and want to have the same access to laws that are available to others, as a human being I ask myself why should ~ose people not be able to make that commitment? said B.C. Attorney General Andrew Petter. "We’rein loveandwe want to tell everyone about it," ........... said Lightwater: "It"s not that complicated.~ More love in the world is something everyone supports." The other couple named in B.C.’s court petition are Murray Warren and Peter Cook, who filed a human rights complaint after they were. refused a marriage license 18 months ago. see Courts, p. 3 DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P, 6 ENTERTAINMENT P, 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans;Our.Families + Friends " Building AEVER A More Light Presb erMn Weekend ¯ TULSA - A local liberal protestant church, College Hill Presby- ¯ terian Church recently became a"More Light" church byjoining ¯ the More Light network, a group of Presbyterian affiliated ¯ organizations which are dedicated to welcoming Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals and Transgendered persons into the church in all roles, both as lay members and as ordained leaders and clergy. Now in August, on the 25, 26, and 27, the congregation will host a "More Light" event and organizer both to help educate local religious groups and individuals, and to recognize and ¯ celebrate College Hill’s joining the More Light group. The Session (the board of directors of the congregation) has invited Michael Adee, Ph.D., who is a full time organizer for More Light network, a weekend of workshops. ~ According to College Hill’s spokesperson, "these three days ¯ will be filled with opportunities for worship mad fellowship ¯ together, to learn more about ministry to and with Gay, Lesbian; Bisexual and Transgendered persons, and to inform and welcome ¯ others to this ministry of compassion, inclusion and justice." The opening event will be a lunch on Friday; August 25th, ¯ from noon to 1:30 in the Fellowship Hall of the church which is ¯ located at 712 So. Columbia Ave. The church is just west of the ¯¯ campus of theUniversityofTulsa and sinceTU has tomdown the old Kendall School to build a Tennis Center, the church can be seen from Delaware. The lunch presentation is called, "Building a Church for Everyone," and church professionals and elders from Presbyterian Churches in the area are invited to attend this luncheon. Adee will give a short presentation on the history and goals of More Light Presbyterians, followed by a question and answer session. The meal will be $5.00. On Saturday, August 26th, Adee will lead a workshop "Caring for All God’s People," from 8:30- 12:30 again in the Fellowship Hall. According to organizers; those attending this event will gain greater understanding of the pastoral care needs of GLBT people and their families, see Light, p. 3 ¯ Others May Follow Vermont’s Lead On Unions ¯ MONTPELIER, Vt. (AP)- Legislators in Rhode Island and New ¯ York are hoping their states follow Vermont’s lead in granting ¯ same-sex couples the benefits of marriage. "From New Hamp- ¯ shire to California, politicians are intrigued by the civil unions ¯ statute Vermont created to grant Gay and Lesbian couples rights ¯ and benefits without wandering into the politically volatile ¯ thicket ofmarriage. But most advocates say Vermont will remain ." a pioneer on the issue for the foreseeable future while the public ¯ becomes more comfortable with the idea. ¯ A state senator in New York is drafting a bill based on : Vermont’s statute and a Rhode Island state representative is ." pushingabill to expandhis state’s marriage laws toinclude same- ¯ sex couples. "I would not introduce anything but marriage;’ said : Rep: Michael Pisamro, a Democrat from Cranston, R.I. "I don’t : necessarily see something like civil unions or domestic partner- . ships as a stepping stone to marriage." Pisaturo earlier this year ; said Rhode Islanders are still uncomfortable with the idea of ¯ recognized partnerships between Gay people. That’s why heheld ~ . off on a bill to legalize same-sex marriage and will try next year. ¯ In the New York state Senate, Manhattan Democrat Tom : Duane is drafting a bill that his aide said would be "similar to" ." Vermont’s first-in-the-nation civil unions statute, although de- ." tails were still being worked out. "Our Legislature won’t be back , ’ until January., ~s~ it wouldn’t be until then,", said Scott Mdvin. ~ : Advocates also see opportunities in New Hampshire, Con- : nectient, New Jersey, Massachusetts and California for laws ¯ granting marriage benefits, either through marriage itself or ¯ through a civil unions compromise like Vermont, s. ¯ "I think the situation we’re in is Vermont will be there and will ." have to have the courage of its convictions for a while and then, ¯ I think, it will fall into place in a number of spots," said Beatrice ¯ Dohrn, a lawyer for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education : Fund, which led the legal fight in Hawaii for Gay marriage. ¯ Although most advocates insist that full inclusion in marriage ¯ statutes is the only way for Gay and Lesbian couples to achieve ; equality, some see the civil unions statute as a good way to begin ." moving toward that goal. ¯ "Using Vermontas a model, other legislatures wishing to enact ¯ equal benefits,~ see Unions, p. 2 ¯ Boy Scou.ts Target.ed For Ant -Gay B=as ¯ TULSA - In conjunction with a National Day of ¯ Protest ofthe Boy Scouts ofAmerica~ Kerry Lewis, ¯ spokesperson for Tulsa Oklahomans for Human ¯ Rights (TOHR), has announced that TOHR and : other local organizations will hold a protest at the ¯ local headquarters of the Boy Scouts of America on ¯ August 21st. The time of the event will be available ¯ by contacting TOHR at 743-4297. The protest is in response to a recent US Supreme Court decision which overturned a New Jersey court ruling that the Boy Scouts’ anti-Gay policies were illegal under New Jersey non-discrimination laws. According to Lewis, "the purpose of these protests is to provide a visible and rational response to their discriminatory and de-humanizing policies." The Indian Nations Council of the BSA is located at 3206 So. Peoria. Parking is limited at the site but is available on the street a few blocks away in the Brookside business area. Lewis noted also that there are also several other options for you to register your protest of the Boy Scout policy. One is to write a letters of complaint. Informational materials, including sample letters, are available by contacting TOHR. ¯ And in discussions with Tulsa Family News, ¯ Lewis acknowledged that another aspect of the ¯ Boy Scouts’ discriminatory policies was Tulsa ¯ AreaUnitedWay’s (TAUW) funding for the BSA. ¯ Lewis acknowledged that some in the community ¯ favor designating TAUW as the target of protests ¯ or demonstrations, but that those discussions were ~ ongoing. ¯ Lewis also said that the next meeting of Tulsa’s Diversity Council will beonTuesday, August 22nd ¯ at 7pm at the Center. : Further in the future is a visit to Tulsa by Dr. : Laura Schlessinger, radio talk show host known for her characterization of Gay people see BSA, p. 3 Barnes & Noble Boots ¯ TULSA-In amove thatis being decriedby smaller ¯ newspaper publishers across the US, Barnes & ¯ Noble has thrown out most community publica- ¯ dons out of its stores across the US. ¯ In Tulsa, Barnes & Noble representatives sent ¯ notice to TulSa Family News by letter in the last ¯ week of June of the new policy which went into : effect on July 1st. Newspaper reports from else- . where in the US note that Barnes & Noble sent the : letter to most publication in sometime in March. : Local representatives could giveno explanation for ¯ the several month delay before informing Tulsa : publications. ¯ Barnes & Noble stated in its letter that it was : removing the publications in order to use the space ¯ forit own merchandise but after TFN publisher : spoke with (the no~w former) manager of the 71st : St. store, it became clear that while minority pub- : lieatious were being removed, Barnes &Noble was ¯ creating a new space inside the store for two com- " ¯ mtmitypublications; TulsaPeopleand Urban Tulsa. ¯ These two were retaining distribution privileges ¯ because they have the largest volume of copies ¯ ¯ distributed. Both- Tulsa People (TP) and Urban : Tulsa (UT) are publications with histories of fail- " ing to serve Tulsa’s Gay &Lesbian communities or : of having anti-Gay policies (UT). 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Humau Rights Campaign, the nation’s the country that would look to this.’.’ Vermont’s law is parallel to mamage but ~s a separate legal creation. It has prompted a lot of debate around the country about granting benefits to couples who want legal recognition and protection for their long-term relationships. Vermont lawmakers have said repeatedly that their law could be a model for other states to emulate as they seek to steer clear of the emotional debate about marriage. Thirty-two states have adopted statutes specifically outlawing Gay marriage. Because civil unions aren’t marriage, though, the Vermont authors of the law say, they’re a way to take a step without getting bogged down in emotion, religion and morality. But to people like California Assemblywoman Rep. Carole Migden of San Francisco, that’s demeaning. ’.’Thepremise of civil union is still an insult, but nevertheless we’re pleased that the state of Vermont recognizes the quality of Lesbian and Gay equality in a less-than-dignified way," said Migden, whose state last year outlawed Gay marriage in a referendum. "We’re moving along. Each year we add to it, It’s a step-by-step buildingblock process." Some Gay civil rights advocates caudonthat experiences in Hawaii and Alaska, where courts said same-sex couples should be allowed to marry and then lawmakers and voters reversed them, should temper any predictions that the idea of civil unions will spread quickly beyond Vermont. "I think it’s important to bear in mind that Vermonti s aleader in notjust civil rations, but in terms of hate crimes, second parent adoption and nondiscrimination is sues for the Lesbian and Gay community," said Tim Sweeney, deputy executive director of New York state’s Fanpire State Pride Agenda. "I think that’s an important context to keep in mind." Political considerations appear to be far from the minds of many of the people entering into civil unions since they became thelaw on July !. Ofthe 115 that had been reported to the state vital records division through Monday~ more th;m tw othirds have b~eu between conples from outside Vermont. That’ s even though civil unions are not legally recognized anywhere else in the country. That "alone will make a difference in other states, though, advocates say, be~ cause it is generating debate in practically every state. "The whole mo~cement an Vermonthas createda tremendous amount of education and discussion about Lesbian and Gay relationships and the kind of discrimination we face," Sweeney said. "It’ s been an extremely positive discusstun and very helpful to humanize Lesbian and Gay relationships and our families ." by Tom Neal, editor/publisher How disappointing that Colin Powell would lend his credibility to the Republican scam of being a party of inclusion at the recentGOPconvention. Since the days of that deficit-creating monster Reagan, Republicans have represented the worst in American character: hate-mongering, religiously intolerant, and committed to undermining constitutional rights of those unlike themselves. In Philadelphia, we see Blacks, Latinos, women and the disabled trotted out but we still read the same attacks o~ Gay Americans. Gays can be soldiers ouly at the cost offree speech. Gayrelationships,by federal law, can only be end class. In Oklahoma, Democrats aren’t much better. Republicans talk nasty about Gay taxpayers. Democrats keep quiet but both abuse the authority of the State to attack Gay Oklahomans. God forbid we should get through a legislative session without a vote by the majority to remind us of the contempt in which we are held. Whenboth parties treat all fairly, when the accidents of birth: race, ability, ethnicity, sexual orientation and the choices of a free citizenry: political affiliation, religious "lifestyles" or "preferences", all are of no more importance than that of being left or fight-handed, then Americans, Republican and Democrat, can say we are thenation of fairness for all. The statement continues, "whether you’re single, in a committed relationship, or caring for children, yotir ?maerican Express financial advisor ca~’help you take control of your financial future. We can help you: Establish savings and investment plans. Protect your assets from unnecessary taxation. Avoid financial restrictions placed on unmarried couples. Avoid cosily delays in the receipt of life insurance proceeds." Bamard requests that those wishing to attend please telephone in advance to her at 748-8191, ext. 121. They have been in a relationship for 29 years. "The community support has been really important to me because I don’t have the support from my family," said Callahan, whose parents did not attend her union ceremony. as being "biological error[s]". TOHR is trying to work with other groups to design an effective protest for her visit this fall. On Tuesday, Aug. 8th, TOHR will hold its general membership meeting at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center at 7:30pm. The regular business session (which is usually short) will be followed by a special program presented by the Credit Counsding Center of Tulsa, a Short presentation on financial responsibility, etc. Members and those interested in the community are invited and encouraged to attend. And on Sunday, Aug. 13th, the"Lesbian Connection," a program of TOHR, is inviting EVERYONE in the community to come out and have fun at Keystone lake. Burgers will beprovided - youbring the rest! Swimming, volleyball, fishing, boating, etc. will be available all day. Call the Center for directions. The initial planning meeting for "Diversity Celebration 2001" will be held at the Tulsa Gay Cominunity Services Center beginning at 1 lain on Saturday, Aug. 19th. know about their nnhappiness with the new policy. Mozzoni seemed to be sympathetic to the situation but has stated that since it comes down from corporate. headquarters, hehas litflechoice. Mozzoni canbe reached at 665-4580. National Gay Organizations Comment on Cheney WASHINGTON, D.C. - The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) have issued comments on the record o’f Richard B. Cheney, George W. Bush’s Vice-presidential nominee, on Gay and AIDS issues. Cheney, a former defense secretary in the administration of Bush’s father, and a member of the U.S. House of Representatives from 1978-1989, has an extremely conservative record, HRC noted. Like Gov. Bush, however, Cheney seeks to package a conservative record with a moderate image, the organization said. "The choice of Secretary Cheney is in keeping with Governor Bush’s strategy of staking out conservative pos!,tions and wrapping them in a moderate package, said Wiunie Stachelberg, HRC’s political director. As a Wyoming congressman, Cheney opposed early efforts to address the HIV/AIDS crisis. Most notably, he was one of 13 House members who voted against the AIDS Federal Policy Act of 1988, the first major bill to provide funding for HIV/AIDS counseling and testing. Cheney also supported an effort to reduce funding for HIV/AIDS research. In addition, Cheney voted against the Hate Crimes Statistics Act of 1988 and supported an amendment that added anti-Gay language to the bill. As defense secretary, Cheney supported Pete Williams, the department’s chief spokesman, when The Advocate magazine revealed his homosexuality. "I have operated on the basi, s over the.years with respect tO my personal staff that I don’t ask them about their private lives," said Cheney. "As long as they perform their professional responsibilities in a responsible manner, their private lives are their business." Cheney opposed President Clinton’s effort to lift the ban on Gays serving openly in the military. Cheney told CNNin 1993,"I am one of those people who believes that people’s sexual preference and orientation are a private matter. It’s something that is a personal matter for them, and no one else’.s business. And that’s the way I ran the civilian side of the Pentagon... On the military side, though, you can’t pursue that policy." Later in the interview, Cheney ffaid: "I basically don’t believe in discrimination, but I did conclude, as secretary of defense, that the ban on Gays in uniform was appropri- Topics include: coming out, integration of sexuality and faith, responding to homophobia in the church and society, helping parents of GLBT children and children of GLBT parents. This group is open to all. ’ It will be especially helpful for GLBT people and their families, their friends, and fellow church members, elders, teachers and youth leaders. Continental breakfast and snacks will be served. Sunday morning, the Church School Mid-highs to Adults will.begin at 9:35 in the Chapel. This event is rifled "Bringing Body and Soul Together (Let’s Talk about Faith and Sexuality)" This Church School Class will feature’an interactive discussion on Christian sexual ethics. Those choosing to attend will share in an hour devoted to how Christians integrate faith and sexuality in living the Christian life. The focus will be what makes ’good relationships’ for all God’s people. Then on Sunday, August 27th, the regular worship service at 11amin the Sanctuary will feature a sermon by Michael Adee. The service entitled "Celebrating Diversity and Inclusiveness" will honor "Christ’s call to be inclusive." The chancel choir will offer special music for the occasion and communion will be celebrated. This is the formal event to mark College Hill’s declaration to be inclusive and work as part ofMore Light Presbyterians to bring the Presbyterian denomination to the inclusion of GLBT people in ordination as well as membership.. Finally on Sunday afternoon from 5:30- 7:30, aYouth Event, "On Being Gay & Being Christian" will be held. The College Hill youth fellowship will be hosting individuals and other youth groups for pizza and open, informal conversation about sexuality andfaithfor youth. Adee will be the facilitator on topics ranging from being GLBT and Christian, coming out, harassment at school and church, sexual sdf-esteem, dealing with family, and Gay/Straight friendships. This event hopes to help Gay and Straight youth underctand themselves and each other better. For more information about these events, contact " College Hill Presbyterian Church at 592-5800. : ate." ¯. HRC has endorsed Vice President A1 Gore for presi- ¯ dent. He has yet to name a running mate. Cheney is : currently the chief executive officer of the Halliburton : Co., a publicly traded company that supplies equipment ¯ to the oil industry. Halliburton does not have a non- . discrimination policy thiat includes sexual orientation nor : a domestic partner program for Gay employees. ¯ According to the NGLTF research, Cheney opposed : the Equal Rights Amendment, opposes reproductive ¯¯ choice and supports prayer in public schools. NGLTF notes like HRC that Cheney in 1993 opposed ¯ President Clinton’s effort to lift the military ban and ¯ openly Gay servicemembers. At the height of the debate, ¯ Cheney warned that defense cuts and the proposal to lift : the ban "have led to a decline in the quality of military ¯ recruits." ¯ He added that "the whole reduction in defense spend- : ing, the controversy over Gays in the military, has led to : an unwillingness to serve and low morale." ¯ NGLTF adds that Cheney has served as a trustee of the ¯ arch-conservative American Enterprise Institute, where ¯ he was a former senior fellow. The American Enterprise ¯ Institute is home to many right-wing thinkers, such as ¯ former Supreme Court nominee Robert Bork, former ¯ House Speaker Newt Gingrich and Charles Murray, ¯ author of "The Bell Curve," a book which suggests that ¯ differences inintelligence existbetweenblacks and whites ¯ and that these differences are genetic and immutable. ¯ American Enterprise Institute scholars have also been ~ outspoken in their opposition to equal rights for Gay, : Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender people. : "George W. Bush has flubbed the most important ¯ decision in his presidential camp~gn," said Elizabeth ¯ Toledo, NGLTF executive director. "His compassionate ¯ conservatism holds out no compassion whatsoever for ¯ theGay, Lesbian,BisexualandTransgendercommunity. ¯ Furthermore, it sends a chilling signal to women, to ¯ people of colo~: and to those concerned with fairness and : equality that a major political party would offer up a candidate with such a background to the voters. This ¯ selection demonstrates that right-wing, religious extrem- ¯ ists are still a powerful force on the political landscape." ¯ Openly Gay Republican ¯ Featured at Convention . PHILADELPHIA -Rep: Jim Kolbe of Arizona made ¯ history when he became the first openly Gay member of ¯ Congress to address a Republican convention. The Ari- ¯ zona congressman had a prime-time speaking slot, ad- ¯ dressing the GOP on trade issues for three minutes. ¯ Kolbe, first elected in 1984, is the most senior openly ¯ Gay member of Congress andis the only openly Gay ¯ Republican in the House. Having Kolbe speak at the ¯ convention was an idea first raised by Washington city ¯ councilm_.an David Cataniain April, when the Log Cabin ] Republicans, themostprominent Gay GOPorganization, ." met with presidential candidate George W. Bush. ¯ Bushmetwith the group, a first for a candidate preparing to pick up the GOP presidential nomination, despite his opposition to many of the its issues, including Gay ." marriage. Log Cabin Republicans Pleased Members of ¯ the Log Cabin Republic,~ns are delighted by Kolbe’s : place.in the convention lineup - especially considering ¯ that he backed Bush’s rival, Sen. John McCain, during ¯ the primary season. ¯ According to the group, this is the first lime a wall- ¯ known openly Gay person has gone to the podium at the ¯ GOP national convention. In 1996, a little-known Log ¯ Cabin Republican member from California, Steve Fong, ¯ gave alow-prof’ile, one-mi nute speech amidlittle fanfare. [ But some socially conservative Republicans, who are ¯ opposed to civil rights for Gay people and have warned ¯ Bush about reaching out to the Gay community, were " unhappy with the prospect of having Kolbe speak, One leading conservative Republican told ABCNEWS he ¯ was "flabbergasted" by the decision, and called it a ~ "shock." "It is not going to be a happy time," said the ¯ Republican. "I think it is a really bad decision." : Kolbe is a founding member of the National Advisory ¯ Board of the Log Cabin Republicans; the nation’s most [ prominent Gay GOP group. In 1997, he gave the keynote ¯ address at the LOg Cabin Republicans convention. Kolbe ¯ was a strong proponent of the NorthAmerican Free Trade i Agreement. Pentagon Says Gay Policy Is Working WASHINGTON (AP) - The military’s much-criticized policy on Gays in uniform is working, but training must be improved to eliminate anti-Gay behavior like the abuse that led to a soldier’s murder in Kentucky last year, the Defense Department said. "We think we’ve got it right this time," Carol DiBattiste, the undersecretary of the Air Force, told a news conference Friday to publicize anew Pentagon program to re-emphasize in training that such behavior is unacceptable. Speaking at the same news conference, Bernard ¯ Rostker, the undersecretary of defense, said he disagreed with President Clinton’s statement last year, after the beating death of Pfc. Barry Winchell by a fellow soldier at Fort Campbell, Ky., that implementation of his policy on Gays was "out of whack." "I don’ t agree with that characterization. I think the policy is working reasonably wall to provide a degree of safety’.’ for Gays in uniform, Rostker said. "The days of witch hunts, the days of stakeouts, are really gone." Even so, Rostker said, more needs to be done to ensure that everyone in the military understands the policy. The Clinton administration’s policy on Gays in the military is derived from a law passed in 1993 after Clintonfailed topersuade Congress and the Pentagon to allow Gays to serve openly. ~.The policy, known as "don’t ask, don’t tell," holds that Gays can serve in uniform so long as they don’t reveal their sexual orientation. One problem, however, has been unwarranted investigations of people suspected of being homosexual. There also is a fear among discreetly Gay service members that if they ,qomplain about harassment, they will be discharged. ’" The announced plan to eliminate anti-Gay behavior was created by a panel of civilian and military officials led by DiBattiste of theAir Force. It was in response to a Pentagon inspector general’s report in March that found anti-Gay behavior was commonplace in the military. DiBattiste said the key to her panel’ s plan is adoption of an"overarching principle" meant to clarify to all in the military that unacceptable behavior includes not just abuse of Gays but also "inappropriate comments or gestures." "That’s the high road that we need to take," she Said. The DiBattiste panel’s 13-point "action plan" is largely reiteration of previous expressions of deterruination to stamp out anti-Gay behavior and to hold military commanders responsible for policy infractions. Last December, Rostker’s predecessor in the undersecretary’s post, Rudy de Leon, issued a statement that "harassment of service members for any reason, to include alleged or perceived homosexuality, will not be tolerated," and commanders must take prompt action against violators. Michelle Benecke, an executive director of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Fund, an advocate for Gay rights in the military and a frequent critic of Pentagon policy; called the DiBattiste panel’s report "’thoughtful and considered." ’.’Today’s recommendations, if implemented, would be a very good start," Benecke said. The spark that caused- the Pentagon to take a closer look at the Gay policy’s implementation, and at the extent of anti-Gay behavior in the field, was the Winchell murder at Fort Campbell on July 5, 1999. Two of Winchell’ s fellow soldiers were convicted in the crime and are in prison. Gen. Eric Shinseki, the Army chief of staff, released the Army inspector general’s report Friday on circumstances surrounding the Winchell murder. The report concluded that some members ofDCompany, 2nd Battalion, 502rid Infantry Regiment, Winchell,’ s unit in the 101st Airborne Division, violated the military’s policy against anti-Gay behavior, but it exonerated all commanders at Fort Campbell. TheArmy report also concludedno general climate of homophobia existed at Fort Campbell. With some exceptions, "It was determined that the command climate at Fort Campbell before 5 July 1999 was a positive environment," the inspector general’s report said. It also said the chain of command at Fort Campbell "respondedappropriate1y"when confronted with situations that appeared to violate the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. " Rep. Mart,y,. Meehan, D-Mass., questioned these conduslons. ’Giving FortCampbdl arelatively dean bill of health doesn’t square with recent reports of prevalent anti-Gay harassment throughout the services," Meehan said. Vermont Papers Will Print Civil Union Notices RUTLAND, Vt. (AP) - Aunotmcements for civil unions are beginning to appear alongside wedding announcements on wedding pages in newspapers around the state. At many newspapers, editors said they will treat announcements of same-sex unions the same as traditional marriages, placing them in the same section of their newspapers and in the same format, although perhaps under a different heading. The decision "took about 30 seconds of deep thought," said Valley News editorJim Fox. "It wasn’t very difficult." "Of course we would treat them the same," said .amnette Sharon, managing editor of the Manchester Journal. "ff they want to make that announcement to their neighbors, the newspaper is the place for that to happen." Evennewspapers thathave editorialized against the law granting marriage-like benefits to same-sex couples appear likely to print civil union announcements. Mark Smith, publisher of The Caledonian- Record, said no one had.brought such a notice to his St. Johnsbury paper, but if someone did, he would probably publish it. "My personality is such that it will depend on the attitude of the person who comes through the door," he said. Smith said he would comply with a polite request but dig in his heels if he felt pressured. So far,the reqtlests have been few. In Brattleboro, where the first civil union was certified just after midnight on July 1, no announcements have been submitted to the local newspaper, the Reformer. In August, that will likely change, though, when John Calvi and Marshall Brewer of Putney, have a civil union ceremony, and submit an announcement. The couple- and the newspaperi- made national news more than a decade ago when the Reformer became the first mainstream newspaper in the United States to publish a Gay wedding announcement. Joseph Watson of Leicester, entered a civil union with his partner, Michael Warner, on July 7. Watson said he had no problem with sending out the notice, which has appeared in the Addison County Independent and was in the July 23 edition of the Sunday Rutland Herald and Times Argus. It will also be in a new "Milestones" section of the Gay newspaper "Out in the Mountains" and is expected to be published soon by The Burlington Free Press. Addison . County Independent publisher Angelo Lynn said his paper received only aletter of praise for its publication of Watson’s civil union notice. At the Newport Daily Express, however, managing editor Susan Davis doesn’t expect such a smooth reception. Davis said if she receives civil union notices, she will print them as long as her publisher approves. But she anticipates a backlash. "I don’t have a problem with it, but I know a lot of people do," she said. "’This is the Northeast Kingdom and everybody is running anti-civil unions (for the upcoming dections).. It’s a huge issue up here." Man Charged With Hate : Crime in Beating Death BARRON, Wis. (AP) - A man charged with helping murder a 22-year-old hearing-impaired, mentally dis - : abled man now also is accused of a hate crime in the : killing. Prosecutors contend Raymond C. Walton,33, ¯ of Barron, helped beat Michael J. Hatch to death with ¯ a tire :iron Oct. 20 because Walton thought Hatch was : Gay, according to court records. : Walton was charged with being party to first- ." degree intentional homicide and armed robbery in ¯ Hatch’s death. The hate-crime enhancer was added to ". the charges last week. ~ Barron County District Attorney James Babler dedined comment on the hate crime filing, which says United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11:00 am Pastor " 1623 N. 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Atlanta Place, 742-’7381 Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Trinity 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church We Icomes You Walton intentionally selected the victim because of his belief or perception regaa’ding Hatch’s sexual orientation. Authorities say Walton a~d Corey L. Kralewski, 21, killed Hatch and left his body in a rural Barron County corufield. A criminal complaint said Kralewski, Walton and Mary Reed spend the evening of Oct. 19 at several Barron bars. Kralewski played pool with Hatch, whom he knew from high school. Later, the group left the pool hall and drove to a field near the Dunn County line. Reed told authorities she sat in her truck while Kralewski beat Hatch with a tire iron. Walton also hit Hatch several times, she said. In a written statement, Kralewski told authorities heknocked Hatch down with afew blows but that Walton did most of the beating. Walton showed authorities Hatch’s body. Kralewski pleaded innocent to a homicide charge and goes on trial Aug. 7. Reed, 34, pleaded guilty to aiding a feton and was sentenced to t~vo years in prison. Chicago Bishop Faces Ecclesiatical -Charges CHICAGO (AP) - A United Methodist lay member has filed a complaint with the church, accusing his Chicago-based bishop of using the office"as a public relations and news media channel for promoting homosexuality," among other things. John Juergensmeyer, an attorney and member of a United Methodist church inElgin, is calling for Bishop C. Joseph Sprague to resign or be removed. Sprague, formerly a United Methodist pastor in Columbus, Ohio, heads the church’s Northern Illinois Conference. He was one of several Methodists, including at least one other bishop, arrested while protesting anti-Gay measures adopted at the church’ s general conference in Cleveland in May Juergensmeyer said that Sprague’s arrest was a "triggering point" for his complaint. But he said Sprague’s overall political views have long troubled him and other conservative United Methodists. "He is reducing the church only to a political instrument rather than a spiritual force." said Juergensmeyer, rather than a spmtum io~c~, ~a~,., o~.~r,~,l.....av., who also ~s accusing Sprague of promotang writings about Jesus Christ that luergensmeyer says violate church doctrine. Earlier this month, Sprague told the United Methodist News Service that the letters of complaint seemed to be "part of an organized effort of a small, very vocal minority." He also said he made his views clear when he stood for election as bishop four years ago. Sprague was re-elected to his second four-year term at the church s North Central Jurisdictional Conference this month. Man Gets Two Life Sentences for Slaying BALTIMORE (AP) - A man who told police he attacked Gay men because he thought Gays were evil was given two life sentences for the slaying of a h.otel guest last June. Gary William Mick, 25, was gaven one life sentence for first-degree murder and a concurrent 20-year sentence for robbery for the attack on Christopher Williams Jones. He received a consecutive life sentence with all but 30 years suspended for first-degree attempted murder and a concurrent 20- year sentence for attempted robbery for a separate incident last September. Mick, of Baltimore, pleaded guilty to the two attacks in May. Jones, 37, of Metuchen, N.J., was attending a pharmaceutical conference in Baltimore whenhewas found bludgeoned to death at the Admiral Fell Inn. "We loved our son and his partner in life as we love all our children and their lifemates. The emptiness we feel because of this loss is extreme," said Howard Jones, the father of one of the victims, in a family statement to the court. Prosecutors said Mick accompanied Jones to his hotel room after the two met. once.inside, Mick struck Jones nine times on the right side of the head with a claw hammer. He then stole Jones’ truck and credit cards, which he used to buy clothes, jewelry, food and a beard trimmer, prosecutors said. The second attack occurred in September. Prosecutors said Mick attacked another man he had met, but the victim was able to fight him off. Lesbian Recieves Headof- Household Status SACRAMENTO (AP) -The state Board of Equalizationhas voted to grant head-of-household tax status to a Lesbian who is supporting her partner and nonbiological child. The board voted 3-2 to allow the Los Angeles family to file with one of the women as the head-of-household, which will savethem about $2,500 a year in state and federal taxes. Helmi Hisserich and Tori Patterson of Los Angeles have been together 14 years and had a daughter in 1997. Patterson gave birth and has stayed home to raise the baby since then. When Hisserich filed a tax return for 1997, she checked the box for head of household and calculated accordingly. The Franchise Tax Board said she was not eligible, saying head of household status covered situations only where an unmarried person was paying more than half the expenses of an adoptive or foster child, or any blood relative. They said she owed $1,050, Hisserich said. Sbnnnon Minter, staff attorney for the National Center for Lesbian Rights in San Francisco, argued Hisserich’s case before the board June 30. "This is the first time they’ve addressed this issue," he said. "It recognizes the reality of our families and gives legal validation to the reality that our client is a parent regardless of the fact that she doesn’t have a biological relationship to the child." Hisserich said the board had to consider whether a heterosexual couple would be treated in the same manner. "But if we were a heterosexual couple, we would be mamed. We’ve been together 14 years, we’ve registered as domestic partners in our city, our county and the state. We’ ve done everything we can," she said. The Board of Equalization will vote again after its staff prepares a written decision, and will comment publicly on its reasoning when the vote is final, according to spokeswoman Cristina Herrera. That could take up to three mouths, she said. -- ~i~-n~)g~s~i~d tile vote was the logical extension of Califo~aua court rulingsin the past two years that had granted parental status to Gay men and Lesbian couples planning and having children. Because intent was the basis of his winning argument in the tax case, Minter said the decistonmostlikely woulon’t apply to situations where someone moved in with a partner who already had a child. The ruling affects only state tax status, but I-Iisserich said the Internal Revenue Service followed the state on head of household status. Jury Votes Death to Killer of Lesbian Couple PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) -A Mnltnomah Countyjury sentenced to death a Portland man who killed a Lesbian couple in a karaoke bar. Eric Walter Running, 49, was fOund guilty of two counts of aggravated murder in the February 1998 shotgun slayings of Jaqueline J. A_ffderson, whom he had dated, and Barbara J. Gilpin. Running killed the women after Anderson, 29, a poet and writer, broke up with him and returned to her 10-year-relationship with Gilpin, 44, a landscaper. In an unusual split, the jury imposed the death sentence only for Anderson’s murder, giving a life sentence without the possibility of parole for Gilpin’.s death. Ten of the 12 jurors voted to give a deat~ sentence in Gilpin’s murder, but a unanimous verdict is needed. "’Barbara Gilpin deserved the same verdict as my daughter," said Jack Anderson. "But one death sentence is all that it takes. I don’t care if he dies tomorrow or never, I’m just glad he can’t be a threat to anyone anymore." Running smiled as the verdicts were read. Hewill become the 25thperson onOregon s Death Row at the state penitentiary in Salem. Almost 20 patrons at the Ambassador Restaurar.’-a and Lounge in Portland witnessed Running kill women Feb. 24, 1998. Rurming’s lawyers offered insanity defense. Se.n.a.te OK’s $600 ¯ $200 million interuational program to Million for AIDS batfleHIV/AIDS. Speaking ahead of the . " ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian WASHINGTON (AP)-Legislafioncom- " Nations) Regional Forum, Asia’s largest mitring up to $600 million in U.S. aid for " security conference, Downer noted prefighting HIV and AIDS in Africa and ¯ dictions that AIDS threatens to reduce or developing countries elsewhere was " even reverse Asia’s economic growth. "I passed at the end of July by the Senate. On don’t think the Asia-Pacific region can avoicevote, theSenateapprovedabillby turn,!ts back on this devastating prob- Sens. Bill Ffist and Jesse Helms, both lem, Downer told’anews conference. Republicans, authorizing $300 million in " Most of the $200 million will be tar- ¯ geted at countries in the Asia-Pacific re- " glen, Downer said, and Canberra expects ¯ to work dosdy with the Association of ¯ Southeast Asian Nations. ¯ Much of the funding remains uncom- ", mitted, but some will augment existing ¯. programs in Indonesia and Papua New ¯ Guinea, Australia’s immediate northeru ¯ neighbors. Relations Committee, said the bill requires that up to $220 million of all U.S. bilateral funding forHIV-AIDS programs over the next two years be spent on supporting orphans in Africa. T,he United Nations has predicted that the disease is expected to wipe out half the teen-age population in some poor countries in Africa. Similar legislation passed in the House, which voted earlier this month to fully fund President Clinton’s request for $2’44 million next year for combating and treating AIDS in poor counmes. each of the next two years for AIDS prevention and treatment and also for the care ofAIDS orphans in developing countries. Thebill directs the Treasury Department to establish a trust fund with the World Bankfor the prevention efforts and the treatment of orphans. Helms, chairman of the Senate Foreign HIV-Treatment Ctr. Targets Blacks ROCHESTER, N.Y. (AP) - A treatment center for blacks who have AIDS or HIV is planned in a county where only a third ofblackAIDS patients gettreatment, compared to half of infected whites. Rochesterhas the second-highestnumber ofAIDS cases in Ne~v York state, after New York City. The number of local AIDS cases has leveled off among whites but is climbing among blacks, according to the Rochester Primary Care Network. Existing programs are not reaching t~ growing number ofblackmenanawom who are HIV-positive, Art Collier, prestdent of Primary Care Network, said. The rateamong MonroeCounty’residents who are black is over eight times the rate among white residents, he added. Before 1991, 64% of reported AIDS cases in Monroe County were among whites mad 27% were among blacks. The center expects to have an initial casdoad of about 150 patients. Besides medical care, services will include mental health counseling and treatment for substance abuse. TheNational Black Leadership Commisston onAIDS is helping plan the center and recruit ablack staff, Collier said. Coordinatbrs believe black patients will respond better to treatment by black medical personnel. Dr~Anson .,W;urapa.,~ black physician at strong Memon Hospital’s AIDS Center, said blacks tend Russia’s Infections Growing MOSCOW (AP) - The number of registered HIV cases in Russia has soared in the last six months and will continue to grow, but the government doesn’t have the money to fight the epidemic adequately, a top health official said. By tl~e middle of July, Russia had some 53,1~30 registered HIV cases, with almost half ofthemcomingin the last six months, said Vadim Pokrovsky, the head of the Federal AIDS Prevention Center. But he said that the actual number of Russians infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, is probably more than 300,000, since only about 10% of the population. has been checked. "The regi,s,tered cases are only the tip of the iceberg, Pokrovsky said. "We must accept the fact that we are facing avery quickly spreading epidemic." Increaseddrug use andprostitution since the collapse of the Soviet Union have been two key reasons for the rise in HIV cases? Still, a low incidence in HIV-ca.ses in recent years as well as more pressing economicproblems m.ean ~.e~g~ov~eru~,~t, has been slow to combat AID~. in zu , only 46 million rubles ($1.65 million) was set aside to combat HIV and AIDS, Pokrovsky said. If Russia doesn’t take new measures to stop the spread of the virus, the country could have some 1.6 million HIV cases by 2015, he said..and those who are infected nrobablv won’tbeable to get the help they. the government’s manmty to pay. wm people probably shouldn t count on getting treatment," Pokrovsky said. . HIV is worst in the Moscow regto.n, where some 5% of young people are infected, Pokrovsky said. Rise in HIV Infections ih Gays College Hill Presbyterian Church announces a "More Light" Weekend with Michael Adee National Field Organizer, More Light Presbyterians August 25 - 27, 2000 Building A Church for Everyone Friday, August 25th, Luncheon: Noon - 1:30, Fellowship Hall History and goals of MoreLight Presbyterians, followedby a question and answer session. Cost: $5.00 for the meal Caring for All God’s People Saturday, August 26th, Workshop: 8:30 - 12:30, Fellowship Hall Pastoral care needs ofGLBT people and their families. Continental breakfast and snacks will be served. Bringing Body and Soul Together Sunday, August 27th, Church School Mid-highs to Adults, 9:35am, Chapel An interactive discussion on Christian sexual ethics. Celebrating Diversity and Inclusiveness Sunday, August 27th, Worship ll:00am, Sanctuary A special worship to celebrate our diversity and Christ’s call to be inclusive. Michael Adee will preach and we will share communion together. On Being Gay and Being Christian Sunday, August 27th, Youth Event 5:30 - 7:00pm The ColleggHill youth fellowship will be hosting individuals and other youth groups for pizza and informal conversation about sexuality and faith for youth. College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Col~bia Avenue, 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the Uni;~sity of Tulsa Campus) ’Financial Pla.nning With A Clear Comm,tment. ~t American Express Financial Advisors, we want to make our 3ommitment to gay men and lesbians clear. Just as we have extended domestic partner oenefits to our lesbian and gay employees worldwide, we are committed to providing sound financial advice that specifically addresses the unique financial issues affecting our lesbian and gay clients. Nhether you’re single, in a committed relationship, or caring for children, your Americar ~xpress financial advisor can help you take control of your financial future. 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Well, Dr. Laura could be my girlfriend (eeeewwww, not that way!!!) because every stupid thing I’ve ever said in my life would sound intelligent next to the things she says. And she’ll be saying plenty, I’m sure, come October, when she rides in on her broomstick to Tulsa. Who is Dr. Laura, you ask? If you’re Gay, you’ve been in a cave. Laura Schlessinger, shock jock advice-giver of the radio circuit, has called Gays and Lesbians "biological errors", "sexual deviants", and my personal favorite, "pedophiles." She says she does this out of compassion for us, not out of hatred. Oh no, I don’t feel hated and maligned by those statements, do you? She spews her hatred and bile via the airwaves, with complete support from the Religious Right. You know them- that group that has the inside info on the "homosextml agenda"! As if her radio show weren’t bad enough, Schlessinger’s taking her "teach intolera-: ze" rantings to the TV screen in September, courtesy of that "giant" of great television programming, Paramount. "OK," you’re saying, "the Lesbian is once more raging about something, but what has that got to do with me? What’s one more ignorant person in a long line?" Funny you should ask. "Dr." Laura (she has a Ph.D in physiology, not psychology) has become svch a controversial figure (much like Am., Bryant in the late ’70s when she tried to inflate anti-Gay legislation) that the G/L/B/T commurnty has united to protest her television show. All over this country are planned protests to keep her off the TV screen. And debates have become so heated that major advertisers such as Proctor & Gamble, American Express and United Airlines have pulled out, saying that they don’t need any more controversy. And Geico InsuranceCompany (my insurance company!) tookits advertising away from her radio show at the beginning of July. The reason? The company could not, being supporters of diversity, condone the words and actions ofsomeone who clearly sees diversity as wrong. These are not their exact words, mind you, but .youmay find out more by going to www.stopdrlaura.com. Let’ s lookat this woman’s careerbriefly and find out just what led her to this homophobic phase in her life. Several years ago I.first heard her radio program, and I thought that she was telling people the truth, even if they didn’t want to hear it. Somehow I admired that, although I didn’t always agree with everything she said. She is a big proponent of parents taking control in the home and not blaming everyone else for how their’children behave. That part hooked me since Iwas a middle school teacher at the time and saw parents who didn’t think they hadan] responsibility for their child’s behavior. So far, so good. And I even read reports that she used to support theG/IJB/T community. Two years ago, however, she converted to Orthodox Judaism, adopting intolerance as her Bible. Now she says she can’t support the G/L/B/T community because of religious teachings. If you hate me, hate me. But don’t lie : about it, saying you’rejust~following the ¯ Old Testament. Hell, if we followed all the Old T0.~tament teachings we’d still be ¯ selling ot~ daughters into slavery; still ¯ buying s~ves from neighboring coma- " tries; and~ould be allowed to kill, with- " out impunity, anyone who worked on the ¯ Sabbath. Gee, I didn’tknow that the Jew- ¯ ish could also play pick and choose with ¯ religious teachings like some Christians. How much does she really believe in ¯ these religious texts? Who knows? She doesn’t even have a consistency when it ¯ comes to condemning homosexuality. ¯ Well, she does, but she tries to say that ¯ she’s not condemning anyone. The point ¯ is,shehas saidthingsinprintandonradio, ¯ takenthemback, backpedaled, madeother ¯ people speak for her so many times it’s ¯ ridiculous. Her stand is so ambivalent, so ¯ setin sand, thatno one canbelieve or trust ¯ anything that comes out ofher mouth. Her ¯ press agents said she apologized for her ¯ remarks about Gays being "errors", and ¯ ¯ then the next day she said she wasn’t apologizing. ¯ Dr. Laura has denounced the American ¯ Psychiatric Association and the National ¯ ¯ Education Association for their - oh, I suppose- compassk hate stance on equal ¯ rights for all, andinstead has sold her soul ¯ to Religious Right organizations like Fo- ¯ cus on the Family. She promotes, within ¯ her own radio show, an intolerance to- " ward Gay people on all levels, even to the ¯ point of denouncing hate crimes legisla- ¯ tion. ¯ I can see her leading cheers to teach children who’ve just come home from ¯ school how to actively hate homosexuals. "Gays are bad! Gays are fey! Let’s go ¯ bash ~ Gay today!" She says she is a ¯ moralist and has openly opposed the Ver¯ mont same-sex partners’ rights decision a few months ago. But again, she’s not ¯ hatingus. She’sjustcompassionate.Yeah, ¯ this is why she takes an attitude of "I’m right no matter what" on her radio show, ¯ and will also, I’m sure, on TV. But let’s ¯ see how that could work against her, shall ¯ we? Anyone who’s ever watched a few epi- : sodes of"Frasier" knows how easy it is to ¯ just hit a button and get rid of pesky caller ¯ #1. How does this work on TV, when ¯ you’re faced with the pesky caller in per- " son? Taping. has already begun on her : show, andfrom the reports, it doesn’ tlook ¯ likeasuccess. Dr. Lauradidn’tknow how ¯ to ask the proper questions, or even know ¯ some rudimentary technical televison ¯ knowledge i~her first tapings. ¯ There’s n~question that Dr. Laura is ¯ used to the ~d~o. But she also wants an ¯ audience like the one on radio - one she ¯ can rant to ,and not have to.see. Because ¯ ¯ for all her bravado and showmanship, she really DOESN’T WANT to help anyone. : She actually doesn’t seem to like people. ¯ You can bitch and moan to people all you : wantif you don’tsee their faces. She’s on : radio and~feels safe. i Guess What? Rea[peopie~ ! may had.e, more difneultyi~ing~p.le 0ff if she him to .fae~i. them, [f’.~votild be interesting to seehow b~y!hla~ di~S if ¯ she has to face questions about her views ¯ on homosexuality, but I know I won’t be ~ watching. I think she should just quietly ¯ go away, like Anita Bryant. A career ¯ shriveled by her own hatred. ¯ ¯ Gregory is a Texas based writer, who lives near Ft. Worth. Sheformerly taught ¯ school and also was a newspaper re- . porter. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment queen as ffelll He speaks atleast threelanguages o trammg. And to do this you need that of doing the constant prePs/media events, Happy summer, folks! Been a lot of fluently, and has a mischievous sense of o traimng. So it’s easy to injure your voice, being portrayed in press as living a life changes since the last column- went on a humor. Welose alotofcastmembers, whohaven’t that wasn’t close to reality and the rumors visit to Chicago where I discovered an Described as Versace on hyper speed, ¯ had the kind of vocal traimng that will based on the illusion. For instance, artist I’m eager to tell you about, and Braehetti changes costumes at lightning ¯ sustain you through a show like this. And, "There’d be a photo op at a party. I’d go closed the door on a ghost from the past; fast speed, transforming into more than " like I said, even if you have had it, there just long enough for the picture, then g~t started a new job and more. 80 characters and giving life to legions of ¯ are moments you forget. And you defi- home to a cup of tea and bed. DoingS8 First, local news: Cyndi Vetter directs personalities. His show is a multi-media o nitely feel it later. Even the trained folks shows a week plus recording an~ alb~ Heller Theatre’s first production of the extravaganza, combining comedy, mu- . lose voices as they get caught up in the didn’t leave much time for a Wild new season, "A Coupla White Chicks sic, magic, and emotions of the even if I’d wanted to live one. Thenthe~ Sitting Around Talking" by John Foi:d video in a unique show " I’d be, splashed across the C~adian Noonan. Starring local favorites Julie collage of acting, ". , .Deserll~ed as Versace on Jc: What el- equivalent of the National Inquirer, with Tattershall (an excellent actress) and storytelling, stunts layper speed, Braelaett] c]aan~es fect has doing this an article about what a party boy I was. Maude Mix, it is the story of two women and caricature. 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And RENT Opens call, really .rein- lostfriencFrelationshipanddrinkingalone. he’sboyishlyhandsome, withblondehair August 29 and tlae Pulltzer Prize and forced my faith in On each, his voice handles the material and incredibly intense eyes that dance runs through Sep- the business and and styles with aplomb, and he has a very with light ’ every so often. His smooth tember3for8per- several qony Awards..." renewed that appealing tone. It seems there will be " tenor voice and immaculate phrasing fin- formances. Tix go dream, something for everyone on the full CD, mediately gave me a new perspective on on sale June 12th Also, I’ve be- and it will be worth picking up. I hope ~t that style of voice, at 596 7111. RENT is only the fifth musi- come much more spiritual. I wasn’t spiri- gets radio play. My favorite cut is the title song, which cal to win both the Pulitzer Prize and tual at all when I took this part. But Mimi Jeffrey Seller, the show’s producer, I’ve heard done before, but not with such seve :al Tony ,Awards. Matinees are set is such a wonderful character and she’ s speaks of show with real enthusiasm, and feeling that you feel the song flowing for Sat & Sunday, and there will be a grounded in faith, and to play that, every his eyes light up when speaking of the around you. Beckie McKenzie, who un- special $25 per seat matinee on Wednes- night I have to believe it on stage. Since impacthe’s witnessedthe showhaveupon fortunately was out of town the.Sunday I day, August 30. doing the show and portraying a charac- its audience. He sees "Rent" as a transforsaw Tom perform, lent her voice and Presentatthepressconferenceannounc- ter, Mimi, who is very spiritual, I have mative experience. He hopes the show arranged the music for the album, and ing this special addition to Celebrity At- become more open to that aspect of life will reach the younger Gay teens and there’s not a tinker on it. When I asked tractions’ season were Marcy Harriell, where once I wasn’t, and I’ve heard from twenty-somethings and send a message my host "Which local artists’ CD should MIMI on Broadway, and Chad friends and fans about their own searches that "Yes, you can be gay and successful, take home with me as a souvemr. , the Richardson,ROGERonBroadway, flown for meaning, whichis one of the themes of that gay is more than OK and is cool. You immediateresponsewasTomMichael’s’, in for the day to perform a couple of the show. And that has inspired me to can live ~oodlife, a rich life," and hopes And he was right. Tom Michael’s "Sail- numbers from the show. They were both start searching. It’s so nice to bein a show they will be moved by the relevant expeing On" is available from Amazon.corn, dynamate, and had incredible voices, that’s inspiring instead of traumatizang." rienees the show represents. The message or Tower Records, Original Cast Records I was able to ask a few questions of Marcy Harriell has not done a CD yet, of inclusiveness is important to him for (1-888-627-3993), Borders, Barnes and them, which they were most ~acious in but hopes ~t is in her future. And I can the audience to ’get." Noble, Footlight Records, and answering. I spoke first with Ms Harriell, assure you, evenifshe sings the telephone Even today, he still has a passion for CDNOW.com: who was as gracious as she was beautiful, book, it would be well worth listening to. this show evident in his speech and the BrachettllS comang. No,~t s notaplece JC: This seems like an incredibly diffi- Chad Richardson is Canadian rock way his eyes light up. Having aecomof tOast with herbs and tomatoes on ~t, it’s cult show to do, especially in terms of the singer, and has had two albums produced, plished quite a bit for his 35 years, he ArturoBrachetti, the quick-change artist, vocals. His third is the upcoming "No. 1 Fan," chalks his success up to being a Think "Greater Tuna" meets Robin Will- MH: (laughing) "Oh yes! Well, I’m a due out in May. He’s a handsome man, workaholic. He never tires of seeing the Jams while doing David Copperfield’s classically trained singer - opera and so and he also has an incredible voice, much show s effect on audiences, its power to act. Greater Tuna had two guys doing on, so doing this show was really different easier to listen to in many ways than embrace and connect with all people, and quick changes to create the 22 characters in terms of it being arock show, basically. Anthony Rapp, the originator of the role. make them feel part of a family. of a small mythical town; Arturo is one It places totally different stresses on your He also has incredible presence and very Of course, that does kind of clash with man creating 88 characters during the vocalchords,andrequiresalotofstamina; piercing eyes. the show’s detractors, who feel that it course of an evening - from cowboys to because when you get caught up in the Chad was a member of the Canadian glamorizes drug use and unsafe sex, but geishas and barmaids to Royal Mounties, emotion of the show - which happens at cast ~f Rent, who reached rock-star fame you can’t please everyone. he is a very channing man and handsome some point every night - you forget the .o as a member of the show. He quickly tired by Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. My sister just reported in from the annual family reunion. Earlier this month, the uncles, aunts, and cousins congregated in apark on the suburban slopes ofMt. Diablo, California. Safe here in Oklahoma, I’ve somehow managed to .miss the last decade ofthese family pic- But news filters back. This year my second cousin Michael reappeared, somehow on parole. I am surprised because it wasn’t too long ago thathe attacked an elderly couple in their car, pulled up at a gas station. He stabbed the oldwoman dead. A .Vietnam War flashback, Michael’s lawyer said, which could wall be true. My family doesn’t talk much. What facts I have derive from the Oakland Tribune lnternet newspaper archives. Orrather, the truth is that we happily gossip about each other when those others aren’t listening. Wejust don’t speak such things publicly. And there at the picnic also were my second cousins, once-removed, who are autistic. Our gossip wonders if this condition is their parents’ fault. The brothers, who are now in their 30s, somehow make a living repairing trails in Yosemite National Park. We all know something about them despite the fact that their autism is never spoken of at our reunions. My first cousin arson was at the picnic too. arson is 46, unmarried, does something with computers, and still lives with my aging aunt and uncle. It makes one think. It makes us gossip, too. Perhaps I have a Gay cousin: Or perhaps arson is just a happy solitary. Who knows? We never talk about it:Opeuly, that is. My family - likes yours, maybe - religiously follows our own policy of "Don’t ask, don’t tell." This peculiar sort of secrecy is the framewt,rk of the closet. The closet comes into being just because we have agreed not to notice what is obvious. arson’s sexual identity is an open secret. He knows what he is, and we know what he is too. But because we never admit what we know, not publicly anyway, we avoidhaving to deal withits consequences. If we did acknowledge that we know, we might have to do something. Dismiss the newly uncloseted Gay from the Army, for example. My family wouldn’t discharge Orson.(or me either,.for that matter) fromthe clan,butitwouldface having to revalue Gayness. It would lose the comfort of our open secret. This would demand considerable emotional and political transformationonall sides, It’s alot easier just to go along to eat the hotdogs and hamburgers and chat about kids and the weather. Eve Sedgwick, a literary critic and one of the founders of "queer theory," proposedin" TheEpistemology ofthe Closet" that open secrets are fundamental within modern American culture. Part of her argument can be restated simply. Homosexuality - which throughout much of the 20th century couldnot be recognized publicly - is nonetheless always present within contemporary no- My family doesn’t talk much. What f~ets I have derive from the Oakland Tribune Internet newspaper archives. Or rather, the truth is that we happily gossip about each other when those others aren’t listening. We just don’t speak such things publiely. ¯ tions of sexuality. Gayness exists in order : to maintain theboundaries of straightness. ¯ Wejust don’t admit it: ¯ Gayness has to exist as an open secret. It is a shadowy, inverted, and devalued reflection of straight. When it emerges from the closetand appears clearly in public, it threatens ¯straightness if it becomes a possible, alternative normal sexuality. Straight can’t exist withoutGay; butitperhaps also can’t exist-notin thesame way, anyway - when the open secret is revealed. Likemurder and autism in the family, the unspeakability of secret Gayness has maintainedits shame. We’ve heard the reaction: "Go ahead and be Gay. Butkeepit to yourself. Don’t thrust your lifestyle in my face. We don’t want to know about it. How dare you Gays flaunt k ? Can’t you keep it secret?" ¯ You can understand the worry. Flaunt- " ing destroys open secrets. Public recogni- ¯ ,tion of Gayness erodes the normality and "6ounds of straightness. Telling one’s se- ¯ crets unsettles the uncles and the aunts ¯¯ and their elemental notions about who ¯ and what they are. Who can blame them? Nowonderthey’dratherhappily smalltalk ¯ with arson abouthis job andhis car- and ¯ not about what he does when no one is ;" looking (or when they are pretending not ¯ to be looking). ¯ So my family dogs its job, keeping our ¯ open secrets. And it’s not just my timo- ¯ ¯ rous relatives. I have thirty-something Gay friends who avoid certain bars for ¯ fear they might run into family friends ¯ who’dtell thex" rmother. Li" kemomdoesn’t ¯ already know. But, sometimes, she really doesn’tknow- she honors the open secret ¯ by not admitting that she’s seen through ¯ her son years ago. ¯ One of these years I’m going to finally ¯ make it home to the family reunion. ¯ "Orson," maybe I’ll say,"So what do you ¯ think of those Back Street Boys?" ¯ Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropology at the University of Tu,lsa. ¯ ¯ It takes courage to scrutinize yourdefense structures, belief system, values, self- " worth, self-doubt, behavioral patterns, and ¯ overall identity, and to shed the traits and ¯ beliefs thatno longer functionin your life. ¯ It takes uncommon courage and integrity ~ to implement the insights of that scrutiny, ¯ and to live honesty and authentically. ¯ Anyone who enters and completes this : process is a survivor, and deserves the ¯ rewards of liberation, identity autonomy, ¯ and happiness." : While much of this book is geared to- " ward use by straight therapists for their ¯ Lesbian and Gay clients, lay people will ¯ also find it valuable. It will help people to ¯ fully understand that the rituals they have ¯ gone through are not unusual and that : their goal shou!.d be a vibrant, happy and ¯ healthy life. ¯ Check for this title at your local library, ¯ or call Readers Services at 596-7966. Timothy .W. Daniel Attorney at Law | An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy I 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma ~sareavailable. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American Support Group is here .for you! ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project rr IGTA member Call 341.6866 international Toursiormorein!ormation. e Therapy services Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #t34133 Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Ffi., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pro Tulsa ’sonly professional body-piercing American Theatre Company presents Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night Augus, 17- !9 August 24 - 26 Eight o’clock Eight dollars at. the gate Phil brook Museum 2727 South Rockford Road. by Ted Anthony, AP National Writer N~V YORK (AP) - 715ose eyes. ~tNose eyelashes. Those cheekbones. Those outfits. She Is m~ American original, this Tammy Faye Bakker - for better and for worse, an utterly umque vessel that conrains the strange stew of celebrity, spirituality and sin we have come to expect from our fallen 1cons in recent decades. Who better, then, to explore, to figure out, to focus in upon than the face that launched 1,000 quips? That’s the mission of a new documentary, and "Tile Eyes of Tammy Faye" doesn’t disappoint. For those of you living on Jupiter’s moons, Tammy Faye Bakker (now Tammy Faye Messner) was/is the excruciatingly mascaraed ex-wife of tdevangelist Jim Bakker and former costar of PTL, the North Carolina-based television ministry that imploded in a pit of accusations and recriminations in the late 1980s. He trysted with Jessica Hahn (who later paraded in Playboy) and went to jail. She got addicted to pills and ended up marrying his best friend. Jerry Falwell got involved. Things got nasty. Pop culture references were born. Mascara companies prospered. Now, more than a decade later, Tammy Fgye paces-the halls of her California gated-community house, trying to sti~lI together the swatches of her life and fin__ out what’s important to her. This proves to be a funny and tragic endeavor, and filmmakers Randy Barbato and Fenton Baily chronicle it as it unfolds. Narrated by RuPaul, of all people, it’s a festival of weirdness camed out on an impressively documentarian level, and it offers a deadon look at Tammy _ aye without ever poking fun at her. It lets her do all the work, and work she does. - She gives us a tour of her makeup case (the eyes come from L’Oreal Waterproof - She is praised by relatives in strange ways ("When she was born, she had perfecfly manicured fingernails:’ says an aunt). - She goes to a photographer to get new head shots and smpri ses the makeup artist by announcing that her lips, eyes and eyebrows are permanently lined. The film’s success, though, lies in assembling a portrait of Tammy Faye that transcends parody. She is an easy target for a hip, sarcastic documentary. Instead, we find out about a woman who was reaching out to Gays and AIDS patients long before anyone else in the Christian broadcasting community Welearn about awoman who endured cancer, thenjudged. the experience worthwhile because ~t brought her closer to her daughter. And we discover, though she never says it outfight, that she still respects Jim Bakker - and may well still love him xn some ways. Bakker, too, is interviewed here, watched balefully by his new wife as he talks - and sometimes reminisces fondly - about his time with Tammy Faye. In the end, you’re left with several questions aboutTammy Faye: What DID she and Bakker believe in? God? Ego? Money? Themselve,’ 9 And what does she really look like under all those layers? Whatever she ultimately is, Tammy Faye deserves some sympathy. She’ s been through alot that wasn’t her ownmaking. She’s going to church again, singing ~n a local choir and trying to figure out just who she is - an admirable trait in anyone, and something not to be lampooned, no matter what her past has held. "I don’t know of any woman in our time who has been so maligned," Pat Boone tells the camera. "And yet she just keeps going." And that trajectory makes for a fascinating documentary - whether you end up seeing it as a valid piece of journalism or an entertaining celebrity car wreck. Homosexual Rites of Passage: arises from lack of awareness that others A Road to Visibility & Validation by Marie Mohler, MA reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa Ciry-CounU Eibrary Like e~eryone else, Lesbians and Gay men go through a series of life events that shape their personalities, morals and ability to interact with other people. However, because of sexual orientation, there is often a different set of events and there are different hurdles to jump. This book analyzes these rites of passage to help Lesbians and Gay men understand themselves. Author ~ [thief approaches a variety of topics, each with, a sep~ate chapter, inciudi~. g ~,~nderstar,,ding Fear, Overcoming c.~- Coming Out, Con-a~fitment Rimai s ar,_d Aging Rites. Each topic builds o~ the prevtous one. Fern plays a big role for both straights and Ga)’s. For Gay people, fear serves as an obstacle to growth. For straightpeople, fear of Gays "’smt’aces in antiGay bashing, picketing, propaganda, hazing, attempts at converting homosexuals and discrimination in the workforce. Energy is tied up in keeping the Lesbian and Gay individual out of their world, consciousness, and own ide.nti.ty,.b.y attemp.ting t,o, keep homosexuahty mws~ble and stlent. Mohler suggests that straights fear Gays due to ignorance. "This ignorance often may differ from one’s sdf. There is often no motivation to learn about other cultures or sexual orientations. Thus, anything different from the self is considered abnormal." One thought provoking section in the chapter on aging deals with the death of a same sex life partner. A Gay or Lesbian individual’s "truest support system, emotionally, physically, sexually, and finandally, may be flflfilled by this one person. In light of’the fact that many heterosexual peers and families may not mfite understand the magnitude of homo~sexual fee!- rags _~md. Gay!Lesbi,~ conuni~mem to !ife parmers, ~t ma~ be devastating to not rec~’~c ~N’.: much-needed suppn<i: dmSng this a;~,::’~;v-g pefic,l. The heterosextml majci:~.~? ~m,,y be blind to exiuatiL~g the loss of one’s life partner to ’,he loss of a husband or wife. While this lack of support is a great tragedy, with great potenial for re- ~njuring and shaming homosexuals during a time of great mourning, it is thevery reason why Gay men and Lesbian women needto stand together as a community and validate the troth of their parmerships." The chapter on coming out summarizes the upbeat feel of the entire book: "(the coming out) process affects homosexuals physically, emotionally, and intellectuall) - see Passages, p. 10 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2000] Tulsa Family News, August 2000; Volume 7, Issue 8 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). 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(AP) - Two 17-year-old Marion County boys were indicted at the end of August for the murder of a Gay Black man. Jared Wilson and David Allen Parker of Grant Town were each charged as adults with first-degree murder and conspiracy to commit murder in the July 4 death of Arthur "J.R." Warren. They are accused of beating and kicking Warren, 26, then running over him with a Camaro to disguise his injuries as a hit-and-run. If convicted, they could be sentenced to life in prison. A 15-year,old witness, Jason Shoemaker of Grant Town, has been charged as a juvenile with being an accessory after the fact for allegedly helping the older boys dispose of evidence. Conviction on that misdemeanor offense could mean up to.a year in jail. Shoemaker has testified that Warren was beaten and kicked with steel-toed boots in a.hous¢.then put in a car. He was still alive and begging t6 be taken home when the other boys dragged him from the car on a Grant Town road to kick and beat him some more. Parker then drove over Warren four times, the boy said. see Murder, p. 11 .-. ¯ ¯ " : ¯ ¯ ~ : [ ¯ -" ." ¯ ° ¯ ." ~ ¯ ." ~ ¯ ¯ ~ ¯ OKC/TULSA (AP/TFN) - A handful of demonstrators asking the Boy Scouts to stop discriminating against Gay scouts and leaders took their message to the streets Monday, August 21, targeting motorists at a busy intersection not far from the Last Frontier Boy Scout headquarters in OklahomaCity (OKC) andin front of the Indian Nations Council in the Brookside neighborhood in Tulsa. The Tulsa and Oklahoma City rallies were part of an effort plannedin atleast 36 cities and 21 states initiated by Scouting For All, a national nonprofit organization formed by Steven Cozza, 15, of Petaluma, Calif. Cozza started Scouting For All several years ago after his father was removed as a Scout leader for supporting Gay civil rights. Cozza, who said neither he nor his father is Gay, left the Boy Scouts about six months ago after becoming an Eagle Scout. Cozz~ said he no could longer support the program because it discriminates. "Scoutmasters are people to look up to. What’s wrong with being influenced by a Gay man? Someone’s sexuality has nothing to do with his character or personality," he said. The dozen OKC protesters held signs that read "Scouting should be for everyone", "Open scouting to Gays" and "Honk for Gay Boy Scouts". People honked. In Oklahoma City, a couple of people shouted obscenities and one truck driver shouted, "You guys are wrong"but i,n Tulsa, most of those commenting as they drove by were supportive of the demonstrators who averaged about 20 over a couple hour period. Kent Doss, a 21-year-old student a! the University of Oklahoma and an Eagle Scout, attended both the Oklahoma City and the Tulsa protests. Doss, who is Gay, became an Eagle Scout in 1997. He had been in scouting since the third grade. "Even after that many years of hard work it’s just not worth it because of the negative influence," he said. ’’It is so hypocritical Everything I grew up with has been ignored," Doss said. ’q don’t want to abandon the scouts. I want to be apart of the dialogue, but I’m not proud of scouting." In Tulsa, Doss did turn in his uniform, his merit badges and his Eagle Scout award. In June, the US Supreme Cotvt ruled 5-4 that Boy Scouts of America (BSA) can bar Gays from serving as troop leaders. see Scouts, p. 2 Los Angeles Dod.gers For Life 200-0 ApOlogize to Lesbians -" Walk TULSA (TFN) - For the years, AIDS activists, pasl seven WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. (AP) - The Dodgers apologized Wednesday to a Lesbian couple ejected from Dodger Stadium earlier this month after the two shared a kiss during a game against the Chicago Cubs. ’‘i was troubled.., because of what it implied about the Dodger organization," said team President Bob Gratiano. "It means a lot to me that you are Dodger fans," he said to Danielle Goldey and Meredith Kott. "We will continue to do the right thing," Graziano said. The two were escorted out of the ballpark on Aug. 8. Goldey and Kott say they were not initially told why they were being ejected, but later they were told that someone complained and said children should not be exposed to "those people." The couple said their companions, a heterosexual couple, also kissedbut were not ejeeted. Because of this, they felt the action of the eight security guards was discrimination. Besides the public apology, the Dodgers donated 5,000 tickets to three Gay and Lesbian organizations and promised sensitivity training for their employees. ’’I think they stepped up to the plate more than they had to,"Goldey said. "All we wanted was an apology ... I’m very proud to be a Dodger fan." ’’I’m extremely happy with the results," Kott said. The couple was going to file a civil rights lawsuit if the Dodgers didn’t apologize, said their lawyer Bernie Bemheim. see Courts, p. 3 U_! ~ ~,~ Z DIRECTORY EDITORIAL US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT GAY STUDIES P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 P. 10 TULSA (TFN) - After several years in Brookside, Tulsa’s Gay Community Services Center is rdocating - likely to a building near 21st and Memorial. After the ownership of the current location changed, TOHR (Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, sponsoring organization of,\the center) had to fight a legal battle just to finish the current lease. The new owners have spent considerable funds to update the location in order to lease it at much higher rates. None of the other original tenants still remain. TOHR president Greg Gatewood noted that the new center will have about the same amount of space as the current one but may have slightly lower operating costs. The new space will still have a Pride Store, the Nancy McDonald Library, and an expanded TOHR members only free video lending library. Volunteers to help prepare for the move and to move are quite welcome, Gatewood added and can call the Center at 743-4297 for details. TOHR events for September include: a protest planning meeting to respond to the upcormng visit to Tulsa by radio "therapist" Dr. Laura on Tuesday, Sept. 5th at 7pm at the Center (current location at 37th & Peoria, 2nd floor), new Center volunteer orientation on Wednesday, Sept. 6th at 7pm,TOHR membership meeting on Tuesday, Sept. 12 at 7:30pm. This meeting will feature a presentation of an A&E (Arts & Entertainment Network) program on hate crimes. Votes on the nominating committee for next year’s officers and on bylaws revisions will also be held. And planning for next year’s Pride events, Diversity Festival and Parade will begin on Saturday, Sept. 9th at 1 lain at the Center. On Friday, Sept. 29, 8pm, there will be a video release party for Diversity 2000, a commemorative video created by BoyBlue Productions in support of TOHR. It will include highlights of all Pride Week events including: see Video, p.8 ¯ Florida Politicians Push Federal Hate Crime Bill - WEST PALM BEACH, Fla. (AP) - Two Republi¯ can congressmen are touting legislation that would ~ expand the federal government’s rolein investigat~ ing and prosecuting crimes based on sexual often, tation, religion, gender or ethnicity. , U.S. Reps. Bill McCollum of Orlando and Mark ¯ Foley of West Palm Beach said while they may be ¯ members of a conservative political party, that ¯ doesn’t mean they find hate crimes against Gays ¯ and other historically persecuted groups any less -" foul than Democrats do. "The issue is not Gay : rights, the issue is hate crime," McCollum said ¯ Tuesday while meeting with Jewish leaders. "When ¯ someone is brutalized or killed.., it is fundamen: tally wrong." ¯ The bill would provide grants of up to $100,000 ¯ for the investigation, and prosecution of hate crimes in all 50 states. It also would give federal authori¯ ties the ability to prosecute hate crimes under ¯ interstate commerce laws. o According to the Southern Poverty Law Center, ¯ Florida ranks second in the nation in the number of [ active hate groups. FBI statistics show a total of [ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A cross-dressing, Gay Mexican man " 7,755 bias-motivated criminal incidents were re¯ persecuted in his homeland is entitled to asylum in the United . ported in 46 states and the District of Columbia in . 1998, down about 10% over 1997. ¯ States, a federal appeals panel ruled in August. Angela Lampert of the Jewish Federation of -" The decision by three judges of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of " Palm Beach County said the group strongly sup¯ Appeals expanded the social circumstances of persecution that . ports the bill. ’’We think hate crimes are abhorrent ¯ immigration officials must consider during asylum hearings. ¯ Federal. courts have already allowed asylum for a variety of ¯ and do not need to be tolerated," Lampert said after ¯ political and social reasons, including a woman’s fear of genital ¯ meeting with McCollum and Foley at Temple Beth ¯ El in West Palm Beach. : mutilation in her African homeland. Just last month, the 9th In July, the Senate passed similar legislation as ¯ Circuit ruled that an Armenian who says he has was given an ¯ an amendment to a defense department appropria¯ ultimatum to become a Communist or leave Armenia deserved " tions bill. This adds offenses motivated by sexual ¯ another bid for asylum. The case involves Geovanni Hernandez-Montiel, a Gay Mexi- ; orientation, sex or disability to the list of crimes " can citizen who dresses and behaves as a woman. He testified that ¯ covered under federal law. McCollum, chair of the ¯ he was persecuted by his family, school officials and police, who ¯ House Subcommittee on Crime, and Foley hope to " he said sexually assaulted him. see Asylum, p. 9 ¯ pass the House version in the same way. [ caregivers, people living with AIDS/HIV, and others have come : together to walk to raise money for I-IIV/AIDS care-giving and ¯ education agencies. Their services include n~lical assistance, _" prevention efforts, transportation, support groups, and home and ." hospice care. ¯ Walkers are asked to solicit pledges prior to this year’s event [ and to bring their pledge sheets and those donations to the Walk _" which will be held on Saturday, Oct. 7, at 9:30am at Veterans’ ¯ Park, located at 21st & Boulder. The Walk will begin and end at : the park going down the River Park to the 31 st Pedestrian Bridge ." and returning. ¯ Donations to Walk for Life 2000, the 8th Annual Tulsa AIDS ¯ Walk will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the : generosity of the Elton John AIDS Foundation. The Walk is ~ sponsored by the Community Service Council, and will benefit .- the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP). ¯ The Walk is an all volunteer effort and there are no admiuistra"_ five costs. For more information or for pledge forms, call 585¯ 5551. :US Court Rules Gay Mexican ¯ Citizen Eligible for U,S, Asylum �Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants ;712-2324 *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial 610-5323 *Club Cherry Bomb, 1926 E. Pine 583-2119 *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan 835-2376 Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square 744-4280 *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 *The Star, 1565 Sheridan 834,4234 *Renegades!Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 *TNT’s, 2114 S. 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Not all are Gay- owned but all are Gay-friendly. The ruling may also permit the 6.2-mib lion-member organization to reject Gays as members. The Boys Scouts consider homosexuality contrary to their oath .requiring scouts tube "morally straight:" The 90?ye~ff-Oldorganization says its goal is to ’l~iS~’itle educational programs for boys and young adults to build character, to train in the responsibilities of participating citizenship and to devdop personal fitness.¯ Edmrdd resident Justin Spears, aformer Boy Scout l~ader, said he doesn’t know if he want~.:..Ms 8-year-old son to become a Boy Scoii~ because of the stance against Gays. "Even though they have a legal mandate, this discrimination needs to be stopped," he said. In Tulsa, longtime PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and GayS) activist Cathy Hinkle marched and spoke of how her Gay son was a scout but would have been barred under the BSA policy. Hinkle was joined for part of the protest by the new pastor of All Souls Unitarian Church. The OKC demonstrators marched to the headquarters, where former scout member Jim Craig, turned in his handbodkin prdtest to Jim Russnogle, director of field services for the Last Frontier Council. "In Boy Scouts I learned a lot about Boy Scout law. I believe scout law is not being followed," Craig said. "A lot of kids:that are Gay might not be tempted to co~Iv;uicide if they had more support." " Russnogle read from a statement that said that the Boy Scouts respects their rights, and ask that the rights of the BSA also be respected. "We believe avowed homosexuals should not be role models;" Russnogle read. He added that he is sorry, that Dose. no longer wants to be consid;,~ ered an Eagle Scout, "But if that is his opinion, I respect that." Rob Abiera, owner and operator of Ga~,0k~:(0m said thedemonstration was called to show support for Gay Boy Scouts and Scout Masters and to educate how Gay Scouts face discrimination. "We know that the Boy Scouts has~been a pioneer in reaching out to minorities and,¯. should continue that effort in reaching out to Gays. It is completely inconsistentwith what they have done in the past," Abierav ~ said. Demonstrators were turned away from the national B oy S couts of America headquarters M onday after presenting a 55,000signature petition protesting the organization’s ban on Gay troop leaders. Fewer than a dozen demonstrators, some wearing Boy Scout uniforms, see p. 3 �Assault at Rose Hill : the Nadonal Conference of Christians and Jews) sends by Tom Neal, editor/publisher were met by a security guard and not allowed past the It was a picture perfect "photo op." The rabbi, draped ¯ letters to the World condemning firemen who put Chrisfront desk. A secretary who refused to give her name said with his prayer shawl, was flanked one one side by "¯ tian holiday decorations up and condemns anti-Semetic she would forward the petition to the organization’s attacks on Joe Lieberman but never to my knowledge has Mouzon Biggs of Boston Avenue Methodist Church, president. The protesters had hoped to talk withleaders of Black pastor Dr. McCutchen, and the Bishop (Catholic) ¯ responded publicly to attacks on Tulsa’s Gay Commuthe organization or at least schedule a meeting. of Tulsa, Edward Slattery, and on the other side by our ¯¯ nity Center, to anti-Gay Oklahoma legislation, to the ’"vVe’re disappointed," said Dave Rice, a former Scout beating of Orr and Beauchamp, or even to the murder of mayor, M. Susan Savage, and Sheryl Siddiqui of Tulsa’s leader who marched in Irving. ’°We don’t like confronta¯ Mathew Sheppard. Islamic Society. tion. We like to sit down, shake hands and discuss a However, the organization has engaged in deliberate .M1 were gathered in the 100 plus degree heat and sun ¯ solution that’s mutually beneficial." and conscious acts of anti-Gay discrimination, most to condenm a horrible act of desecration: the toppling of In Seattle, more than_ 100 people rallied~ in protest recently at an event at Bigg’s BOston Jewish tombstones in Rose Hill CemMonday night. One, former Eagle Scout Doug Barnes, etery. And Rabbi Fitzerman of Con- "So when Rabbi Fitzerman Avenue Methodist Church. And in a said he planned to send hisbadge back. Another, Jon Wartes, said he already had done so. "Does the Boy gregation B’nai Emunah put in consays he’s grateful to llve in particularly cynical fundraising ploy, NCCJ honored Robert Lorton, owner text just precisely how this act hurt, of Scouts of America really understand the hurt that they’re and publisher of the Tulsa WorM, a an "open eommunlty," how it invoked memories of Nazi doing?" said Wartes, who became an Eagle Scout in 1959 business known for at least fifteen years atrocities with a story of a road to one and wrote part of the Boy Scout handbook. one that "embraces for its anti-Gay discriminatory busiNazi labor/death camp being paved At the Washington, D.C. protest, Graham Segroves ness practices, its "humanitarian" of with Jewish tombstones. diversity," "a place of wore his Boy Scout shirt complete with his Eagle Scout the year. But when push comes to shove, this badge and other honors. Now with the National Gay and profound moral health," So when Rabbi Fitzerman says he’s still was a crime against property not Lesbian Task Force, Segroves, 25, said he did not realize grateful to live in an "’open commua taking of life. Was it an assault on the he was Gay until he left the scouts eight years ago. I am grateful that for nity," one that "embraces diversity," psyche of a community? Of course! Segroves said he hopes President Clinton will agree to Tulsa’s Jewish eommunlty, "a place of profound moral health," I Not unlike the year-in and year-out a task force request that he resign his honorary presidency am grateful that for Tulsa’s Jewish psychic assaults on Gay Tulsans from of the Boy Scouts He also is watching for congressional this may finally be true. community, this may finally be true. I our own elected leaders (members of action on a proposed "Scouting f0~ All" act, which seeks hope so. the legislature, our governor, our conto revoke the Boy Scouts’ congre~slbhal charter. I hope so. But for Gay people clearly this is gressman, our sen~ttors, our district The Supreme Court decision has ~IS0 left compames But for Gay people dearly not yet true. For Gay Tulsans, Tulsa attorney),as well as from individual~ that donate to the Boy Scouts of America in a quandary: . remains a place of deep hypocrisy, like Jonathan Brian Duke, the man their employment policies contradict the Boy Scouts’ this is not yet true. For where our tax dollars, and our talents who was caught in the cemetery. Accourt-upheld right to ban Gay troop members. The stance Gay Tulsans, Tulsa are greedily taken but our existence is cording to the Tulsa WorM, Duke had already has cost the Scouts financial support from commostly denied when not specifically been accused of harassing two Gay panies such as Levi Strauss & Co: arid Wells Fargo. remains a place of deep condemned. It is a place where even men who lived near him. Others, concerned about hurting the beneficiaries of such our presence in human rights groups is Indeed, if you knew who and what to funding - the boys themselves - are w~ighing their hypoerlsy, where our begrudging and is predicated on our look for, Tulsa’s Gay community was options. tax dollars, not getting "’uppity." (Note how these wall represented in the crowd. I susChase Manhattan Corp. is considering revoking its groups much prefer to have non-Gay pect that after Jews, we may have been contributions. ’XDn the face of it, some issues appear to be and our talents are Gay advocates like Nancy McDonald the largest single group. There were in conflict with our commitment to diversity," spokesrather than actually have Gay people at greedily taken but our "baby" Gays in rainbow beads and man Jim Finn said. ’%Ve will make a final determination the table. Note also that this is no on this soon. It’s not something we are going to let rest for : shorts, a young lesbian couple quietly exlstenee is mostly cnttcism of Nancy’s good and hard a long time." Merrill Lynch & Co. in New York, which : holding hands leaving the ceremony work. She’s not responsible for their denied when not gives between $100,000 and $150,000 a year, is "actively ] after all was over, establishment Gays prejudice.) reviewing" its relationship with the Scouts, said spokes- ¯ from the Church of Saint Jerome, even speeffleally condemned. " And while Gay people seem to get some hardy human rights activists from man Joe Cohen. the connection between anti-semitism : Oklahoma City who dropped everyMedia company Knight Ridder has asked "that funds it - Tom Neal and anti-Gay values, the ~luestion regives to the United Way not be directed to the Boy Scouts : thing to come to be here in solidarity. mains whether Tulsa’s Jewish comAmazingly, Rabbi Fitzerman did because it conflicts "with the company’s philosophy on munity does. While Tulsa’s Jewish community by an3’ mention Gay people along with Jews, Catholics, Blacks, people and di~cersity, and the company could not support standard is successful in business and in political impact, Asians and Hispanic Americans as those .who are atsuch a discriminatory stance," said Polk Laffoon, vice and is influential due to those talents in wild disproportacked because we do not fit some "mythological profile" president of corporate relations. tion to its numbers, it still seems to bdieve that it cannot of a "true’.’ American. But as a long observer of Tulsa’s The Tulsa Area United Way (l’AUW)does fund the risk expending its "’capital" to help Gay people. And it is so-called "human rights" community, it is hard not to be Indian Nations Council of the BSA. TAUW’s director, also, frankly, a community which has not dealt with its somewhat bitter at the contrast between how seriously Kathleen Coan, at a mid-summer news conference was own prejudices against Gay people, its homophobia and assaults on Tulsa’ s Jewish community are taken as comasked, "since TAUW doesn’t fund racist or anti-semitic Its heterosexism. pared to those on Tulsa’s Gay commumty. organizations, why it funds non-profits (BSA, Big BrothPart of the reason that things are better in Tulsa for Jew s Let us merely start with who was on, and who was not ers and Big Sisters of Green Country, the American Red is that non-Jews made the effort to try to make things on, the dais! While there seems to be evidence that Gays Cross) which discriminate against Lesbian and Gay better. It’s morally right for those still excluded to call on were also targets 6f Jonathan Brian Duke, and there Tulsans?" Coan, responding with obvious anger,, stated those who’ve been helped to turn and to help those still certainly are Gay community leaders who were conthat she was "quite proud" of the funding decisions which left behind. Tulsa’s Jewish community and Tulsa’s Gay cerned and attending the event, like Father Rick TAUW has made, and made no effort to explain or justify community have much in common. Hollingsworth of Saint Jerome, or members of Tulsa those decisions. Unlike racial minorities, neither community is an "onOklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), we were not Steve Tumbo, of the public relations firm Sctmake, sight" minority. We are known by our actions, by going represented. Brookey Turnbo, and a recent addition to the Tulsa Area to our places of worship’or our community centers, or Duke had not attacked Cathohcs but the Catholic United Way board was present at that press conference businesses. We are subject to similar pressures to just bishop was on the dais. Nor did he attack Methodists but and also reacted angrily to questiond about TAUW bias. "convert." And we share the horror of Nazi persecution, Mouzon Biggs was there. Nor had he attacked Blacks but Mr. Turnbo, a longtime supporter of the National a fact finally acknowledged by organizers of the local one of the most senior Black clergymen was there. Nor Conference for Community and Justice, a Tulsa "human Holocaust interfaith remembrance event this year, albeit did he attack Muslims but Siddiqui was invited to the rights" organization with a history of anti-Gay discrimionly after much cajoling and the intervention of one dais. nation, had promised to respond to inquiries about blessedly open minded Tulsan, herself the daughter of TAUW’s funding of anti-Gay groups if the concerns Can anyone remember when ever our mayor has atHolocaust survivors. tended a Gay event? She’s usually conveniently out of were expressed by letter. To date, TFN has received no The rabbi’s inclusive language is a good start. God town. Sure she sends her best bud, Hilary Kitz, whom we response to a letter sent in April. forbid that there should be a next time for suchan event adore but it’s not the same. We did not see her at the Turnbo also was the organizer a few years ago of a but when next there is a shared stage, an effort at reprememorial hdd in City Hall Plaza for Mathew Sheppard, conference which claimed to be about diversity but which senting the"diversity"of our town, maybe then one of our nor did she release comment about that crime, or more failed to include Lesbians and Gay men in any of its leaders will be on the dais. And maybe just like the Gay relevantly did she comment on the brutal Brookside planning and Turubo also refused to alter the event even people who were in that 100 degree heat, who understand beating of Tony Orr and Tim Beauchamp- indeed a local when the matter was brought to his attention and indithat an attack on Jews is an attack on us too, Tulsa’s crime. Nor has our mayor responded to now years worth viduals were willing to volunteer to help correct the Jewish commumty will throw their influence behind the of calls for diversity training for police and other city exclusion. Gay commumty’s efforts for fair treatment by our law workers which actually includes Gay people in the "diTumbo’s firm enjoys a privileged relationship with enforcement system, by our legislature, and by our comversity." Nor did she add her voice to the effort to amend Tulsa’s establiskment frequently working closely with munity organizations. our state hate crime statute to include "sexual orientaTulsa mayor, M. Susan Savage, the Chamber of ComThe God of Israel commands, "... justice,justice, shalt lion." merce and Tulsa Public Schools, frequently being inLocal ’’human rights" organizations like the National thou seek..." You don’t have to be a Jew or a Christian volved in bond and other elections. Conference for Community and Justice (NCCJ, formerly to honor these words. �Universal Florida To Offer Partners Benefits ORLANDO, Fla. (AP) - Universal Florida will start offering health and other benefits to domestic partners, both Gay and straight. The benefits, which will take effect Oct. 1, also will cover dependents of domestic partners. ’This is a part of our ongoing efforts to recognize the diversity of the team members in our workforce and to provide an array of benefits and services sufficient to be recognized as an employer of choice in this very dynamic Orlando labor market," said an internal Universal document obtained by The Orlando Sentinel. Walt Disney World Resort, Orlando’s largest employer with more than 55,000 workers, has offered health benefits to employees’ Gay partners since 1996. But Disney doesn’t cover heterosexual partners of employees tmless they are married. Disney doesn’t plan to change its policy regarding unmarried heterosexual partners, said spokesman Bill Warren. "It’s our position that there is a legal remedy to be’formally married, and Seeg those benefits with heterosexual couples," Warren said. Universal, the area’s fourth-largest employer with 11,800 employees, will extend the benefits to any domestic, partner 18 or older who has lived with the employee for at least six months. In addition, the theme park resort’s statement said, partners, must have ’~oint responsibility for eachother’s financial wdfare and basic living expenses," although it is not dear how that would be proved. In addition to medical, dental, vision and dependent life insurance, domestic partners will be able to use Universal’s employee assistance program, sctfolarships and other benefits. Employees can enroll their partners in September. Hate crimes increase 11.7% in Los Angeles LOS ANGELES (AP) -Hate crimes increased 11.7% in Los Angeles County last year, with blacks, Jews and Gays the target of most attacks, the. Human Relations Commission said. The increase was due in part to better reporting of hate crimes, officials said recently. Last year’s attack on the North Valley Jewish Community Center by a gunman led to an "unprecedented awareness" of hate crimes, said Robin Toma, acting executive director of the county Human Relations Commission. Buford O. Furrow Jr., a white supremacist, is charged with. shooting to death Filipino-American postal worker 3oseph Ileto and then wounding five people at the Jewish center. Overall in 1999, the report said, 859 crimes motivated by race. religion or sexual orientation-were reported. That was up 11.7% from 1998. It was the second-highest tally in 20 years, behind the peak year of’ 1996, when 995 hate crimes were reported. The upswing matched a 12% statewide increase in hate crimes, announced last month by the state attorney general’s office. The crimes ranges from crossbumings to killings. Overall, blacks werethe most frequent victims of hate crimes, but crimes involving religion or sexual orientation saw the largest increases. Hate crimes on school campuses .also rose sharply for the second year in a row, jumping 58.7%, from 46 to 73. Most of the crimes based on religion were nonviolent, but more than half of those against Gays and Lesbians were violent, the commission said. Univ. of Minnesota Alum Donates for Gay Center MINNEAPOLIS (AP) - A University of Minnesota alunmus who made a fortune in the computer software industry has donated $500,000 to the school for an endowed Gay, Lesbian, bisexual and transgender studies center. The Steven J. Schochet Center for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Studies opened July 1. Schochet, a 1959 graduate, said he faced many barriers as a Gay man on campus and hopes the donation will improve the climate for GLBT students. The center will be responsible for coordinating graduate studies, establishing archives and starting a lecture series and community forums. ’.The goal of the center is to enhance the creation of knowledge about GLBT lives through academic studies and community interaction," said Liunea Stenson, Schochet Center program director. Texas A&M Waffles COLLEGE STATION, Texas (AP) - A Gay civil rights group urged Texas A&M University to implement an on-again, off-again ban on discrimination again~st Gays. School president Ray Bowen suspended the policy change on Aug. 16, a few hours after it was posted on the university’s Web site. In a vaguely worded statement, Bowen said the issue needed more study. In a letter to Bowen, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force said Texas A&M should join other major universities around the state in prohibiting discrimination against homosexuals. "Failure to expressly -forbid discrimination also sends the message to the campus community that (homosexual) people are second-class citizens and that discrimination against them is acceptable," said Elizabeth Toledo, executive director of the task force. Bowen has stated the matter will be reconsidered after a better understanding by all confirmed parties has been achieved, said university spokesman Lane Stephenson. "He has directed the matter to go through the Office of the Dean of Student Life as the start of the process of reconsideration," Stephenson said. "We are already starting to have productive discussions within the university community." On the Net: .Texas A&M University: http:// www.tamu.edu United in God’s Love MCC-United Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Su~nda~.ys ~ at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm Drag Queens-Invited to Olympic Celebrations 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 SYDNEY, Australia (AP) - The Olympics’ dosing ceremony is going to be a drag. Drag queens will be part of the Sydney 2000 games’ finale regardless of what "right-wing reactionaries" think, ceremonies director Ric Birch said at the end of August/ The men dressed up in outlandish dresses, wigs and makeup, will be "part of one tiny section" of the dosing ceremony, a tribute to Australian films including the 1994 cult hit ’.The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert," he said. Some of the participants would be dressed in original costumes, including a frill-necked lizard outfit from the film, which features twodrag queens and a transsexual driving a pink bus through Australia’s Outback. A report in the Sydney Morning Herald newspaper sparked heated debate on radio shows. One, caller said he would trade his dosing ceremony ticket after hearing the news. Birch directed the opemng ceremony at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics and was involved in the opener at Atlanta four years ago. He said he was annoyed that constant leaks were wrecking what should be a surprise for the public. "I’m really disappointed at the way the media is gleefully trying to expose the secrets that we call surprises," Birch told Australian Broadcasting Corp. radio. Photographs of the Olympic cauldron being lit in rehearsals, which are usually kept under wraps, have been printed. Speculation on who will ignite the cauldron has intensified. Birch said the inclusion of drag queens also reflected one of Sydney’s most colorful events, the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, a Gay pride march and street carnival that attracts hundreds of thousands of spectators each year. "That’s part of Sydney life whether (critics) like it or not." Birch said. "For the right-wing reactionaries or whatever part of a community is ..outraged about it - well, they’re always going to be outraged." 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Call for mo~e&ffonnation: Officials Say No to Two Morns on Birth Certificate 918:i 2 :2325- KEVIN BURLESO N Keller Williams Realty 712-2252 Burleson@kw.cona ~ 2651 East 21st Street, Ste. 100, Tulsa 74114 An Independent Member Broker ................... _~7" r r- ..... ~EN~; OPEN--S, OPENHEARTS Saint Aidan Saint Dunstan 4045 N. Cincinnati, 425-7882 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Saint John Trinity 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You LINCOLN, Neb. (AP) - It appears likely voters will get a chance to decide whether to ban same-sex marriages in Nebraska: A petition effort to place the proposed constitutional an~endment on th~ ballot gathered at leas t 19,000 more than the needed 105,214 signatures:, the Secretary Of State’ s,office announbed. The same~sex p~tition was circulated: by the De[fehse: of Marriage Amendment Committee. With signatures t¥om 82 counties counted, the total-verified was 124,495. About 10% of the signatures were determined to be invalid. The petition effort was headed by Guyla Mills, director of the NebraskaFamily Council and a lobbyist for the Nonpartisan Family Coalifon- two groups that support the peftion. Mills said sheis confident that when all the signatures are verified they will have about 45,000 more than what is required, and that will deter anyone from thinking about challenging them. At this time the Nebraska chapter of the American Civil Liberges Union has no intention of challenging any of the signatures, even though it remains opposed to. the amendment; said ACLU director Tim Butz. A group organized to fight]he initiative, called the Vote No on DOMA (Defense of Marriage Amendment) Committee, also has no plans to challenge the signature count. Other groups opposing the effort include Nebraska Advocates for Justice & Equality, a nonprofit Omaha group, and PFLAG (Parents and Families of Lesbians and Gays). Butz said the ACLU id researching what impact the amendment would have on exisfng laws dealing with business partnerships and existing legal agreements between Gay and Lesbian couples. The ACIJd also is looking into what impactit would have on companies that offer same-sex health~benefits,-to workers. ¯ The proposed constitutional amendment will read: ’~Only marriage between a man and a woman shall be valid or recognized in Nebraska. The uniting of two persons of the same sex in a civil union, domestic partnership, or other similar same-sex relationship shall not be valid or recognized in Nebraska.’" Nothing in current Nebraska law s.pecifically prohibits same-sex marriage. Supporters of the petition say it will clarify in the consmutlon that only marriages of a man and woman are legal in Nebraska. Thirt.y-tl~r.ee states have passed law s or amended their const~tutxons to ban same-sex marriages. DENVER (AP) -The state health department will ask the Colorado Supreme Court to ban Lesbian couples from placing both their nmnes on a baby’s birth certificate, a health official said. The issue was raised after two Boulder District Court judges allowed seven Lesbian couples to place their names on birth certificates. One of the women in each couple was the birth mother. The judges said Colorado law allows people who have :no biological,connection to "a child tO ~ssume parentalrights ii~ certain situations. The Department of Public Health and Environment appealed, arguing that the judges had overstepped their legal authority by creating a new_ kind of pare_ntchild relationship. "It needs to be the decision of the legislature rather than the courts," said Cynthia Honssinger, a director in the health department. But the Colorado Court of Appeals turned down the health department’s request to overturn the Boulder courts. The appellate court said the health department didn’t appeal on time nor should it have any interest in the matter. Honssinger said the health department now plans to ask theColorado Supreme Court to look at what the Legislature intended when it enacted the Uniform Parentage Act. Lawmakers wanted to help single mothers get child-support payments from deadbeat dads, she said. Jeanine Pow, a lawyer representing one of the Lesbian couples, said the law traditionally wants what is in the "best interest" of the child, which is two adults who are responsible for the child. "The health department is wasting taxpayer money on punishing the children of Lesbian mothers," she said. The women in the seven Boulder cases want to remain anonymous to protect their clfildren and themselves, their lawyers said. Gay Arts Group Sues San Antonio; Claims Bias SAN-ANTONIO (AP) - A chItural arts 2roup fliat]ost Its c~ty fundlng.m 1997 armd 4omplaint~ ,o~er !ts +ponsorship of ~i Gay and Lesbiati fihri fest~fil’ the city to court on accusations of violating the First Amendment. Attorneys for the nonprofit Esperanza Center contend the City Council cut off the organization because of its viewpoints a violation of free speech- mad because of pressure from residents who told council members they opposed "promoting a Gay lifestyle." Also Suing the city are two groups under the 13year-old Esperanza’s fiscal umbrella, the San Antonio Lesbian andGay Media Project mad the s~nall arts gr,o,up VAN ~lie Esperanza_N~d other plaintiffs were singled out by the city because of the viewpoints expressed by ~he Esperanza ~n a variety of ways, Esperanza lawyer Am~; Kastely told U.S. District Judge Orlando L. G,qrci~i iff0utlining their case. The Esperanza Center filed suit after the council voted in September 1997 to stop giving it money. Although the couucil reduced funding to most arts groups by 15% at the stone time, Esperanza was the only one ~hat was cut off altogether. Several residents had voiced their opposition to financing Esperanza, saying they disapproved of the behavior they believed the group was advocating. The city’s Cultural Arts Board had recommended $62 ~500 for Esperanza, which had been receiving city money for ~even years. But after the council vote, the cit)/ i~’ei~aJ:~ment 6f Ar~s .and dultural Affhirs also withheld $14,000 from the Texas Commission on the Arts, for a total loss of about $76,500. Now, the group’s leaders are seeking the money they believe they deserve. They’re also seekang an order from the court to force the city to follow its own criteria for granting arts funding. But lawyers representing the city say council members didn’t stra~: from the criteria. They say some council members just didn’l support the Esperanza Center while others wanted to divert some of the arts funding toward more basic city progrmns. For~ner councilman Jose Menendez testified that while he had received several phone calls and letters objecting to financing Esperanza, he simply felt that artsfluading was not a priority. He said Iris district needed sidewalks, speed bumps and more firefighters. ’qqae arts ~vas an area where we could get lnore money for basic servxces." The city’s law yers questioned whether Esperanza, which used to be called the Esperanza Peace & Justice Center, should have been eligible for arts money in the first place. Indeed, some council members had viewed it more as a political organization than an arts group, former councilman Roger Flores testified. Eduardo Diaz, former director of the city’s arts depar.tment: ~onceded~ ~upon, questioning.by assistant city attorney. Amy Eubanks that Esperanza technically is not an arts organization because its massion is not exclusively the presentation or production of art. ¯ But-he-added that it has.been Esperanza’s practice over the years to incorporate arts progran~s. Diaz testified earlier that he had no doubt that Esperanza met the criteria for funding He.said the g up has been an acttve player tn cultural events for many years. He said there are :other Ynon-arts" groups that receive arts funding. At the time of the’ 97 cotmcil vote, the Witte Museum, primarily a natural history and science museum, was among four organizations that were receiving 70 to 75% of the total amount of arts funding, Diaz said. Esperanza execuuve director Graciela S anchez testified the center has used arts programs to "g~ve voice to the voiceless." �Medical Marijuana "_ Muslim men to HIV tests before they are to getmarried, anews report said. To Be Investigated ."¯¯ allowed The criticism of the move by Islamic religious authorities in Johor state came SAN DIEGO (AP) - The University of California, San Diego will soon begin ¯ fromPrimeMinisterMahathirMohamad’s trials on medical marijuana at the nation’ s o° daughter, MarinaMahathir, an outspoken first research center designed to explore : AIDS activist who heads the Malaysian AIDS Council. "The assumption is blood the drug’s therapeutic potential. Doctors announced the Center for Medicinal Can- ~ testing is somehow preventive, unfortu¯ nately it is not," Marina was quoted as nabis Research as part of the state’s effort to set medical guidelines following the ¯ saying by the Beriiama news agency. Mandatory HIV testing was also a viovoter-approved medical marijuana law. "-¯ lation of human rights, she said. AIDS The center, headquartered in San Diego, will begin distributing grants to con- ¯ activists would soon meet with state offiduct clinical trials at lmiversities and re- ¯ cials to ’discuss the proposal, she was search centers throughout California as ~ quoted as saying. ° She told reporters that educating the early as January. The studies will look at whether mari- ¯ public on preventive measures will be juana is a safe alternative for treating ¯ more effective in curbing the deadly discertmn kinds of medical conditions and " ease in the predominantly Muslim Souththe best ways to administer it, such as ¯ east Asian country where discussing sexual issues in public is taboo and where through pills, patches or sprays. ’~Ourjobis to show if these products are ¯ introducing sex education in schools is helpful and we can answer t~.at defini- -" being resisted by conservattves. Over the weekend, top government oftively," said Igor Grant, the center’s dificials in Johor proposed compulsory rector and professor of psychiatry at UCSD. ¯ blood tests on Muslim men, a move that Gov. Gray Davis has already approved ¯ would affect men in the dominant Malay community. Johor chief minister Abdul $3 malhon to fund theprogram first year Ghani Othman was quoted as saying by while legislation calls for a three-year newspapers that it was part of efforts to program. The center was set up in large check the alarming rise of HIV cases in response to Proposition 215, the 1996 state initiative allowing seriously ill pa- ° the state. "In 1999 alone, there was a 73% tients to grow and use marij uana f~ pain o increasein ttIV cases among Malays comrelief, if they have a doctor’srecommen- o pared to the previous year,"he was quoted dation. Measures similar_to the California ¯ as saying by New Sunday Times. initiative have passed in Alaska, Arizona,. Hawaii, Maine, Nevada, Oregon and Washington state. ¯ State Sen. John Vasconcellos, who ¯ pushed for medical marijuana, pelmed the ¯ ABUJA, Nigeria (AP) - Africans must program in 1996 but initially faced oppo"break the siIence" about AIDS or risk sition fromlaw enforcement groups. Only ¯ losing hard-fought democratic and ecoafter working with Attorney General Bill nomic gains, President Clinton said SunLockyer did Vasconcellos convincemany ¯ day as the White House highlighted more that research was a good idea. than $20 million in U.S. aid to fight AIDS, "It’s been a very long road since the ° malaria and other diseases devastating passage of 215 to even get as far as we had Africa. with research," said Rand Martin, a ¯ "In every country, in any culture, it is spokesman for Vasconcellos. "We have ° difficult, painful, at the very least embarhad to deal with alot of political problems ° rassing, to talk about the issues involved and the most exciting thing is that we’re ¯ with AIDS," Clinton said after touring a putting the politics behind us." o health center in the Nigerian capital and Proponents have long argued that marl- " hearing the stories of several people livjuana helps patients with chronic pain and " ing with the disease. with AIDS, cancer and multiple sclerosis ¯ Clinton’s two-day stay in Nigeria was by relieving pain and nausea. Opponents . intended to underscore U.S. approval of of marijuana say scientific research is " the 15-month-old democratic government necessary. ’Wee consider research a good thing,’" -" in Africa’s most populous nation, with 123 million people. said Bob Weiner of the White House Along with dealing with the heavy National Drug Control Policy Office. "Fo " themes of AIDS and debt relief, Clinton have medicine determined by science and ¯ used the trip to get to know a country he not by popular will is exactly what we deliberated bypassed on his last trip to support." ¯ Africa, in 1998, when it was under a Doctors at UCSD’s center hope the " military dictatorship. research will eventually determine" Led by a throng of singing children, he whether marijuana has medical benefits - trudged through the Nigerian village of because current federal law says the drug " Ushafa on Sunday, past mud brick huts has no medical purpose. and flimsy metal sheds, with scrawny Trial patients will get marijuana from : chickens scattering in his path. the National InStitute on Drug Abuse and "We want to help you build your researchers have pledged to follow all economy, educate your children and build medical guidelines. ’‘There’s been a long " a better life," he told villagers, wearing a history of contention around cannabis and cream-colored royal African robe given it has been difficult to do research," said , to him by the village chief. 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That puts2.6 themillion countryNigerians, on better5.4% footing About of:i And she insisted the company agree to than many of its neighbors with higher ¯ continue paying for treatment after the infection rates, but in danger of letting the:test. "In some places, the drug companies disease gain ground, Clinton said. "AIDS ". can rob a country of its future," Clinton ; come in, do the trial and then they leave, said. "I know you are not going to let that ¯ and the people don’t have the money to : buy the medicine," said Ceneyda Brito at happen to Nigeria.’" He promised continued U.S. support " the Dominican advocacy group AIDS for Nigeria’s transition to democracy, but ," Action. did not, as Nigerian President Olusegun Obasanjo had hoped, agree to cancel or i cut the nearly $1 billion U.S. portion of . Nigeria’ s $32 billion foreign debt, amove _" thatwouldrequirecongressional approval.. JOHANNESBURG, SouthAfrica(AP)Speaking to business executives later : than 50 physicians here are accused Sunday, however, Clinton said he sup- ." More of HIV-testing patients without their ports reducing the debt, but only ff Nigeria spends the extra money on improving ° knowledge or consent - and then passing | I | I I ! I I I I I | I ¯t on the result to the patients’ employers, lives anddiversifying the economy. ’q-here : media reported at the end of August. must be a dividend to democracy for the ° The University of Witwatersrand’s ¯ people of Nigeria," Clinton said. Clinton, accompanied by danghter i AIDS Law Project has filed complaints against the doctors with the Health PracChelsea, began his day with services at a ° titioners AssociationofSouthAfrica. The Baptist church in Abuja, and then ventests were performed at the request of the tured outside the capital to get a firsthand -" patients’ employers, the Johannesburg look Sunday at both the pageantry and ~ newspaper the Saturday Star reported. F.-verty of life in Ushafa, a pottery-mak- ° Most patients were not given counseling center. ’‘icame to Nigeria to express ¯" ing before or after the test, the group said, the support of the people of the United "States,"Clintontoldvillagersfromamake- ; adding that in some cases, test results were sent directly to the employer without shift platform. ~"VVe snpport your democ- "¯ informing the patient. racy. "" A positive result meant almost certain I~LhairatAbdulrazaq Gwadabe, whorepdismissal, the group said. In a fifth of the resents the village in the Nigerian Senate, " cases, the employee was a domestic said she explained Clinton’s visit to vii- "¯ worker. "It’s nothing less than total dislagers ahead of time¯ "I had to translate it crimination. The doctor is not concerned as the king of the world himself is coming. : ¯ with the well-being of the patient, just the The president of the world is coming to.. continued loyalty of the employer who their chief," Gwadabe said. "o wants to know if their employee is HIV the project.SaidJennifer Joni, an attomey Dominican Republic : positive,"with According to the Health Practitioners Hosts Drug Tests :¯ Association’s rules, HIV tests can only be SANTO DOMINGO, Dominican Repub- : lic (AP) - American researchers testing a o new AIDS drug needed patients who had : never received any treatment. The Do- ¯ mimcan Republic has them-by the thou- : ¯ sands. "It seems like a win-win," said Joy : Schmitt, spokeswoman for Agouron Phar- : maceuficalsofLaJolla, California. People o "are getfingtreatment., and we’re get- : ting the patients we need for the trial." : Agouron is using Dominicans to test its ¯ capravinne because it canbe hardin the : United Statesand Europe to find patients who haven’t received any other treat-; ments, between health insurance and pub- lic health systems. : Finding such people here was easy: ¯ More than 2% of the country’s 8 million ° people are infected with the AIDS virus - . and few can afford medicines that cost : many times the average income. "No one ¯ helps you here if you have this disease," ¯ said Fe Maria, who lived 13 years carry- " ing the AIDS virus without hope of get- i - ting treatment before going on the trial. " C apravirine, which researchers hope" will help fight off mutations of the-virus., has already been through the safety phase " of testing. In the current and critical phase, 90 Dominicans and about 200 people inthe United States and Canada are helping ¯ test its effectiveness. Some participants " get a four-drug cocktail including " capravirine; others receiveadrug cocktail ¯ without capravirme. performed without a patient’s consent if a health professional has been exposed to infection by a needle. Possible punishments for physioans found to break the association’s rules include a warning, a reprimand, a fine of less than 10,000 rand ($1,450), and suspensaon or removal from the medical reg- ister. About a.2 million South Africans roug.hly 10% of the populafion~ - are HIV pos~uve. Police Arrest Man For Spreading HIV NATCHITOCHES, LA (AP) - For the second time recently, policehave charged a man with intentionally spreading the AIDS virus. Eric Vashawn Alexander, 26, was arrested and charged with intentional exposing of the AIDS virus. Alexander reportedly bit a man in the back as he intervened in a fight between a boyfriend and girlfriend, said police Lt. Chris Stanfield. During their investigation, officers learned that Alexander had tested positive for HIV. He was booked into the Natchitoches Parish Detention Center. If convicted, he faces up to 10 years in prison, Stanfield said. Police also arrestedEamestWest,,onthesamecharge after receiving complaints that he allegedly exposed four women to the AIDS virus through unprotected sexual contact. �" Issue right now; as a friend of mine is ¯ taking a journey down that hard road that ¯ I have taken so many times before, and am " in the middle of right now. Lots of things masquerade as love ¯ control, fear, even hatred. The real firing doesn’t land in your lap too often. Lot of lookalikes do, the trick is distinguishing ¯ the real from the fake. And too often, the -real is waF.to0 scary, and so is re. : .M~eh has fused. If you’ve got the real thing, show, inc|udln criticism o{ hang on to it. Well, join me on my will Not so. It poignantly points out ramble, you?Dunno where all that came from. the effects -0f such a llfe. What ¯ . Well, I do, but the show is about, in my estithat’s a whole book unto itself. mation, is the pursuit of RENT succeeds dreams: and the most common admirably inillus- by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor As an author who prides himself on getting the facts correct (Never straight, always correct); I have to own up .to an error that appeared in print in the August issue. I mistakenly attributed the appearanc~ to RENT hiTulsato the auspices of ~d~brity. AttraCtions. Thins¯ Was false, it was actually SF~:Thea~cal Group with ¯ . Norvell, who tm~e been promoting RENT. My apologies to all parties; the error was actually caught and corrected before press time (Thanks Kristin!), but the publisher used the unrevised version of the column at press time. To err is human, and it can happen to the best of us, no mat- been maded the- lamo izlng a drug-rldden life. dream of all finding.love;{or that is common to allof us. Gay, Straight. trating ¯the aforementioned ideas, albeit in a much less lOngwinded way (editorr s note: indeed)¯ ,, ter how careful we The ~tandout Blael~. White. and so on... try to be. songs were "I will . So,.n6~v that the . cover you , ’X)ne "oopls,~.¢g60fed ..... ’ " .,,song", m~d "’Without You", wlrich is by p0rfi6n 6f~h¢ ~61Umnis out of the ~vas, on far the most beantiful and-evocative song withthe ~uia Stuff!-Hope you get a ~h’ance in the whole show It captures exactly to see RENT, it’ s a powerful show, and as how one feels when you know the one real one friend of mine remarked, is "bite) and thing has gotten away from you, either by zippy." I’ll leave it to the reader to intercircumstance, or worse, by your own pret those comments-. I liked the choice of clioice. "Without you, the w .d,rld turns, but words, personally. The show does reach I die too.., without you.. ¯ .... out and bite, and it does move zippily Speaking of Dreams, Arturo Brachetti along. The only problems I had were that was fabulous. Let me rephrase that... the mix of the sound left the vocals muddy Arturo Brachetti’s show was fabulous! I & almost inaudible under the guitars; and hope most of you caught it, as it was an that some of the performers need to work excellent evening of theatre. The man is on their diction. This observation was literally a cast of thousands unto himself. echoed by TFN writer Karin Gregory in And his quick change of Scarlett pre and Dallas, who saw the same touting show post curtains was worth the price of addown there. mission! His show was a fast paced conThis show is basically rock opera, sung glomeration of incredibly quick changes through almost entirely. That requires the that left yon wondering ’~aow did he ’o lyrics to be audible and clear, otherwise that?", mixed with comedy, magic, and it’s impossibleto understand the plot. I excellent s torytelling. And he can do amazknew the show, and still l~ad to strain at ing things with his hands. Making many points to catch dialogue or lyrics. shadowplays, I mean. Hopefully, these issues will be addressed His theme? Dreams... Finding them, for die future shows in the rnn. In all other’ aspects, ~t was a powerful evening of ¯ follo::-ing them, accomplishing them; and : having, fun with your inner ~hild while theatre and storytelling. doin2 it Alternatively hilarious and p0iMuch-has been made of the show, ingnant~; his range ofcharacters and’ theatre cluding criticism of glamorizing a drugis amazing to see. He is a prime example ridden life. Not so. It poigriantly points of what one can do with dreams, belief in out the effects of such a life. What the those dreams, and hard work - the two show is about, in my estimation, is the main ingredients of magic. The other aspursuit of dreams; and the most common pect of that was the fact that, regrettably, dream of all - finding love; for that is so many of Us h~ve that child within that common to all of us, gay, straight, black, still has those dreams of ~hildhood, and white, and so on. "Love is love", to quote we lock them away. Arturo was all about fantasy writer Lynn Flewelling. And as letting that child out to play, and having such, should be respected and honored no fun, which showed in his production. matter What form it takes. RENT illusThe show was excellent in all regards, trates this in an upffont, grab you by the from the autobiographical structure that shirt kind0f way?Sound of Music, it alia’ t, set up the changes and made it an intimate so be prepared.evening even for the PAC’s Chapman RENT explores the issues, of love and Hall. The music ran the gamutfrom dance/ its pursuff~ finding iL recognizing it; and techno to classical, the lighting was fannot letting fear, pri~le,and n~i Sunderstandtastic, and Arturo’s box was huge! Well, ing, and the defenses we all build to proat least the one onstage that served as sets, tect ourselves deny the love we really movie screen, prop house, and costume want to have. Fear can be an amazing storage. At one pointed, he enacted an old thing when it comes to that. In that sense, western playing every character, and it REN~ is also about overcoming those was truly indescribably hilarious. obstacles and recognizing that love is He also performed a series of vignettes hard to find, and shouldn’t be tossed away in tribute te film director see Arturo, p. 9 when the genuine articleis found. A timely septem;ber FRIDAY 8 pm september 22 SATURDAY’~NgH SUNDAY 3 pro° s~ptember 2~3 ~’;~ :?’ september 24 Altan "The hottest group in the Celtic realm these days." The Boston Globe September 12 at 8 p.m. Chapman Music Hall ................. Tulsa PAC, 3rd & Cincinnati Tickets $14, $16, $18 Call 596-7111 Outside ~ulsa call 1-800-364-7111 Online: www.tulsapac.com TULSA PERFORI~ING ARTS CENTER TRUST Presented by the Tulsa Performing spo,,,o,~ ~ .~" .. ......... ?~’ "~: �And you thought the ice cream man brought joy to your street¯ Sure, popsides are great. But how about a truckload of new channels, including WGN? How about.a high-speed Internet that’s always on and better priced? How.:about service so thorough and sweet you, can almost ~taste it? Now these, these are the things you can sink your teeth into. We’.re in.gear. COMMUNII~ATIONI~ 665-0200 Tulsa’s PRIDE 2000! VIDEO RELEASE PARTY Now that summer’s end is in sight and cool weather a hopeful prospect, the time is ripe to celebrate the Pride Week events that began Oklahoma’s heat wave. The Diversity Celebration 2000was a huge success that attracted fabulous people, was spectacularly beautiful, socially concious, wi.ttyand revealing. And its all on tape. This year Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights has joined with BoyBlue Productions in making a.professional commemorative video. It will include highlights of all Pride Week events including: appearances by Greg Louganis, Rev. Mel White and Grethe Cammemeyer~ the enormous parade, the art show, follies, community heroes, festival and the Soulforce. workshop. Friday night’s release party will include.a preview of the video, live performances and dancing. Details are pending but mark your calendar for 8pro Sept. 29th. And you wilI of course be able to purchase your copy at the party. Proceeds from the sales of the Diversity Celebration 2000 Commerative Video will benefit the services and programs of TOHR Orders may be placed in advance with visa or mastercard by calling TOHR at 743-4287. Orders plaCed by Sept 22 will be .available for pick up at the Release Party. # For your copies of Diversity Fest 2000 Contact the Tulsa Gay Community Service Center, 743-4297, POB 2687, 74101 x $20.00 = $ MO, Check, Visa, MC, no cash please. exp. date Signature Federico Fellini, who passed away afew years ago. It was touching, but I don’t think the audience "got it."I doubt mos t of the audience had a clue who Fellini was. At one point, the box split, and the curtains were raised to reveal the work be-. hind the magic. A nice touch, giving honor and recognition to the work that goes on ." behind the magic to make it happen. . ¯ It was truly a magical evening, and it was funny to see the audience go from the ¯ thought process of"What the hell is this?" ¯¯ to ’qhis is so cool!" Armro was different from anything Tulsa has seen, and it’s a " good thing. He soon held us all in the palm ¯ of his hand. Not as tasty as this writer ¯¯ would have liked, but it was the markof a true artist. Tulsa’s a tough crowd to win " over, especially for anything avant garde, ¯ but Arturo did it magnificently. He’ll be ¯¯ in a sitcom this fall, so that’ll be some¯ thing to watch for. For our Lesbian readers, as wall as Gay ¯ men, Janis Ian will be appearing in con- ¯ cert at The Oklahoma Center for Poets ." and Writers’ Celebration of Books, along with. poet Maya Angelou, This occurs : September 29-30, and for more informa" tion, call 594-8215. In September, we have a few events ¯ wc.-th catching: On the 12th, the Irish music group Altan will make an appearance at the PAC. They have had rave reviews, and itlooks like a lovely evening ,,f traditional Irish music ahead. For tickets, call 596-7122 September 14-23, Heller Theatre presents "Art", a show about a painting that engenders discussions of the quality and meaning of.life itself. 746-5065. Theater Tulsa offers up some pop culture with the musical version of "Everything l Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten" September 15-23. Tchaikovsky’s "Sleeping Beauty" wakes in Tulsa as Tulsa Ballet presents the venerable dance epic September 2224. (I would love to see Matthew Bourne’s take on this one! He’s the man behind the homoerotic version of Swan Lake. I doubt that will happen in Tulsa, though TBT is moving beyond a stdctly traditional approach under Maestro Angelini.) Go see it for the music and the grace. For info, call 749-6006 Warren’s murder has drawnnational attention from Gay and non-Gay civil rights acti.vists, who fear he was killed because of his race or sexual orientation, or both. "At this point there is no evidence of abate crime," Marion County Prosecutor Richard Bunner said after the indictments were issued. "If any evidence is uncovered, appropriate action will be taken." Court records indicate Warren, Parker and Wilson argued twice the night of the beating - once about an unspecified rumor that had circulated about Warren and Parker, and the second time about $20 that Wilson took from Warren’s wallet: The beating began after the second argument. The grand jury met for about 90 rain: utes and then immediately issued the indictments. Wilson had sought to block the grandjury from hearing allegations against him, saying he should not have been transferred to adult court. The Supreme Court mined down his petition 3-0. Wilson and Parker will continue to be held in a juvenile detention facility until their trial. If convicted they likely will remain in a juvenile facility until they are 21, at which point they would be moved to an adult facility. A trial date has not been set. TULSA - Furniture queens can now rejoicet Tulsa is now home to an Odds & Ends Outlet Store, the fourth in the US which the distinguished Baker Furniture has opened. The store is located at 4329 So. Peoria, near the old John Zink property and is open 7 days a week. The store features Baker, MillingRoad, andMcguire furniture in a gallery like setting. Baker president, Chris Plasman, responded to questions about the choice of Tulsa, saying, "residents in larger cities, such as Chicago and Atlanta, have been clamoring to get but we chose Tulsa. Certainly Tulsa’s demographics are very favorable, but the decisionwas alsoheavily imquencedbytheresidents’ reputationfor uncompromising taste and style and a genuine app,r,eciation of history and crafts manship... For more information, or store hours, call 746-0329. He was also hospitalized for a week after being attacked with a knife by a group of men who called him derogatory names, he said. In 1995, he fled to the United States and requested asylum, but was deAt his hearing before immi gration officials, a Latin American history expert testified that Gay men with female sexual identities in Mexico are heavily persecuted by the police and other groups and are likely to become scapegoats for Mexico’s economic and political problems. The expert said Hernandez-Montiel faced persecution if deported to Mexico. Federico Gomez, press director of Mexico’s National Human Rights Commission, acknowledged that homosexuals and cross-dressers still suffer from discrimination, but added that he believes Mexicans, in general, have become more tolerant of people’s sexual orientation. Gomez said he did not think the Hernandez-Montiel case "reflected society as the whole." Judge A. Wallace Tashima wrote that the appeals panel had determined that ’~3ay men with female sexual identities in Mexico constitutea protected ’particular social group’ under the asylum statute... and that Geovanm is a member of that group." The Board of |mmigration Appeals had contended that Hemandez-Montiel should return to Mexico, saying he did not estalJlish that he suffered abuse because of his membership in a particular social group. The appellate panel ordered the board to reverse its decision and grant HernandezMontiel asylum. Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV or a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743=GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor �dogs or cats). This is another instance- as by Lamont Lindstrom with penis size - where Gays are When I was in highschool, my soon-tohypermasculine. Gays who do not reprobe-Gay friend Carl spent all hi s spare time duce naturally specialize instead in masdrawing fantastically elaborated plans for culine cultural creativity. pipe organs. In his Some have criticized sketches, he piled key"...Anthropologist Ortner for oversimplifying board behind keyboard and Sherry Ortner, cross-cultural nuances of rank onto rank. (All those male!female power relapipes and organs, of drawing on the tions. Another sort of comcourse, should have gaven plication comes from the French feminist me a clue.) fact that many people disSince that year, I have Simone Beauvolr, believe an individual cremet many Gay guys with ativity. Everyone, of considerable creative talonce proposed that course, has a theory about ents, sometimes eccentrically applied. One friend ’Man is to Culture as where new things come from. But not everyone in constructs fantasy ChristWoman is to the world credits indimas trees. Another designs websites. Another does Nature.’ Ortner was vidual creativity, or genius, or talent for the birth of flower arrangements. Anseeking a reason for new things and new ideas. other collects rococo picEven in ,our own cultures of the Holy Mother. why, almost everyture, notions of creativity Gays are deeply inwhere, people value aren’t that old. The Envolved in the fine and less glish noun "creativity" fine arts, from opera and what men do more only dates back to 1875 or ballet down to cheesy TV programs like Survivor. than they value what so. Before the modem era - and the triumph of indiWhen the AIDS epidemic women do..." w[dualism - our ancestors was at its worst, activists talked instead of "inspirainvented the "Day without tion," as others still do today. Once upon Art" which foreshadowed how dull art a time, the word "’genius" referred to an and culture would be in America should external spirit who inspired you with new all homosexuals ever pass away. ideas. It did not mean some internal, menWhy all this Gay creativity - creativity tal brilliance. which often is frenzied and even odd? Onthe South Pacific island where I Anthropologist Sherry Ortner, drawing once lived, nobody believes in creativity on the Frenchfeminist Simone Beauvoir, in the sense of some mysterious once proposed that ’Man is to Culture as brainpower. Rather, clever people are Woman is to Nature.’ Ortner was seeking those with good ties to the world of ancesa-reason for why, almost everywhere, tral spirits. Nobody believes that men are people value what men do more than they naturally more or less intelligent, either. value what women do. She concluded that New ideas and new firings - if they are we associate women with nature, mostly worth anything - have to Come via inspibecause women have kids. Women are .ration from the ancestors. naturally creauve. Men, whose contribuClever people are those with good comtions to making babies are momentary at municauve links with spirits, not those best, and much less embodied, have to who claim inborn talent. Men, for inexpress our creativity by other means. stance, who come up with new songs Ortner observed that humans value culinsist that they overhear these in their ture over nature. Culture is what predreams. Nobody would take credit for serves us in nature. It tells us how to make composing a song by himself. If he d. 1, a living off the land. Whereas culture how can it be any good? If you simply protects, nature kills. Disease, aging, make up something on your own, it obvidrought, famine, earthquakes and tornaously can’t compete with music inspired dos may well be theendofus. Culture also with spiritual wisdom. needs continuous reconstruction and culBut even on this Pacific island, men tivation. We have to keep it all going and manase cultural production although they we have to make sure to pass it down to do so by monopolizing the means of inkids. spiration rather than the means of creativGiven this preference for culture over ity, as is the case here in America. Have a nature, Ortner concluded that men’s cullook around at your culture, good and bad. tural contributions are valued more than Most of it is a male production, and a women’s natural creativity. Others have notable ratio of that is Gay male producalso pointed tomasculinejealousy of femition. nine fertility. Women unmistakably bring Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D., teaches annew life out of their bodies. Less natural thropology at the University of Tulsa men are driven to invent culture instead. where he can be reached at: lamontAnd we are jealous enough to insist that lindstrom@utulsa.edu our male creations - rituals, clubs, political parties, novels, symphonies, paintings, whatever- are somehow better, more noble, and more enduring that just another slobbery child. There is some truth Hospice of Green Country seeks volunhere, too. An ordinary human being lasts teers to help provide care for patients and little more than three quarters of a century their families who are dealing with issues at best. Cultural creations-such as politiof terminal illness. Volunteers help run cal parties or rituals -may endure for errands and provide companionship. generations. For more information, call 747-CARE Gay men are particularly engaged in (747-2273). cultural production insofar-as many of us Volunteers are also needed at the Tulsa don’t contribute even the minor male doGay Community Services Center, 743nation to human reproduction. Instead of GAYS (743-4297), to staff the Pride Store, children, we have to live in our art, our answer phones, pack boxes, catalogue books, our sense of style (or maybe our books and videos. Call for more info. Timothy.W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. Are You Gay or Bisexual? .. Are You Native American? -Iulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here for ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Evening support group meetings Relationship workshops Short trips, outings and retreats Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project �Call 341; 6866 Int rn.ational Tours Sormorein/ormat’on. Massage Therapy S~ Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Cl ab Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm HOLY TRINITY GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH lbody Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing THUR’SAT 11-11 SUNDAY 11-3 by Karin Gregory, TFN correspondent " appointing Supreme Court Justices, and With election year just around the cor- ¯ Bush has at least one to appoint, if he’s ner, I want to ask you a question: Aren’t " elected. How many of you think he’ll you afraid? Many people want to bury ¯ appoint someone who’s sensitive.to Gay civil rights? If anyone if raising ’his/her their heads, but you just can’t this year. hand - PUT IT DOWN It’s too important. NOW! "...What 1;es Are you registered? Do Under Bush, many laws you know the candidates were working brought about by the Suand what they support, tol preme Court, laws which erate, condone, condenm, the floor helped to make us a deand deny? Looking at highmoeracy, could be overthe week of the i lights of the Rep.ublican turned~ What would hap: National Convention last Republican pen if the Roe vs. Wade month (What- you thought decision was overturned? I’d watch the whole "Convention? ¯ ¯ ¯ It could happen very easthing?), I was interested in ily. And what do you think Our eonservatlve many things they pointed would happen to the out, one of which was the friends made a b;g progress of Gay and Les"leave no child behind" couplelaws that have theme Bush espoused. deal about inclusion bian come about in the last few Funny, when he was our govemor’for afew months - Hispanies, African years? Gays? Lesbians? Able to have rights? Bush before embarking on his Amerieans, the already denies that Gays Presidential campaign, his and Lesbians should have "leave no state behind GaylLesbian "special rights". Read that without a governor" theme as "equal rights" and you Community, didn’t work so well for him. have the makings of a fasMake no mistake grrls cist country. The makings this is one Bush you of a man who would make DON’T want to push an)’the Pro-Choieers. Charlton Heston look libwhere, especially into the Yep, they really want eral. ~Zqlite House! But there’s another Let’s look at the issues the votes, don’t they? story to this "coupling" of facing all of us this year. Bush and Dick. Yep, you ’ These people were Many have spoken of a know what I’m talking "different kind of Repubwooed and charmed about. Or rather, who I’m lican"in George W. Bush. talking about. It’s the old- i Hrnmmm, I wonder. The in front of cameras, est story around. Weak Republicans made a great Texas governor runs for but what show of including as many President; weak Texas minorities as they could happened the governor wins primary; find on the streets of Philaweak Texas governor. delphia to join their little ,’morning after"? " picks running mate; rtmconvention. Again, great ¯ ning mate has Lesbian daughter. WHAT? show. The Republicans are like that, you Dick Cheney, so hell-bent to do everyknow. Every few years they assume a different identity, much like a chameleon, " thing Conservative in the book, has a Les¯ so they can get votes by convincing peg.ple ¯ bian daughter? What I want to know is they’re something "different" this ttme. ¯ why would this man be a party to a party Each time (I’m talking Reagan and ¯ that denies his daughter equal rights? Why would she want her father to run in this George, Sr. here) the public has been ¯ party? fooled by the rhetoric, the nicely groomed : On yet another television news procandidates, and the lies. " gram, host Cokie Roberts asked Mrs. What lies were working the floor theweek of the Republican Convention? Well, : Cheney about the possible hypocritical let’ s go back to those people picked from ¯ effects this has on their family. Mrs. the streets of Philadelphia. Our conserva- : Cheney said her daughter’s lifestyle was a five friends made a big deal about inclu- .¯" "private matter." Well, Mary Cheney has sion- Hispanics, African Americans, the ¯ been very out for many years and has Gay/Lesbian Community, and even the ¯ worked for Gay civil rights for many Pro-Choicers. Yep, they really want the ¯ years. And I resent Mrs. Cheney saying votes, don’t they? These people were ¯ that her daughter’s Lesbianism is a "priwooed and charmed in front of cameras, ¯ vate matter" as if the girl has a disease. but what happened the "morning after"? ¯ Sounds to me like mom is the sicko here. So why, if homosexuality is such a Well, the Republicans got together and ¯ private matter, has George W. Bush supvoted on NOT including same-sex recognition among couples, NOT including - ported every anti-gay legislation? If hoGays in hate crimes legislation, NOT in- ¯¯ mo~exuality is a private matter, why does cluding Gay civil rights of any kind, and ¯ he thiM: he has the right to tell me with whom I sleep? Why do the Republicans NOT including abortion for any reason. ¯ want to make such a federal issue out of Yeah, lies, damn lies¯ ¯ such a"private matter"? Is homosexuality Despite all this bravado show of inclusion, the Republican ticket of George Bush "¯ only private to the privileged few, like Mary Cheney? Or is it a matter that will and Dick Cheney already shows a HUGE ¯ bias - Bush and Dick. See? They just had ¯ decide, muchlike the sexual revolution of to get those "family values" in after all! ¯ the sixties, the very way people look at one another in the future? As human beMany may be wondering why I’m so worried about this election year. George " ings, not as Gay, Straight, Lesbian, BiW. Bush is certainly not a strong politi- ¯ sexual, Transgendered, etc., etc., etc. You have a decision to make. If you cian, given the fact he was a Texas gover- ]¯ nor, the weakest form of governor. And ¯ want ANY possibility of equality, make you may be saying, ’He doesn’t make the ¯ sure you are registered. Then make a date with yourself to go to a little booth in rules; Congress does." ¯ November. You know what to do. OK, but the President is responsible for �Walk for Life 2000 8th Annual Tulsa AIDS Walk Saturday, Oct. 7, 9:30am Vete ran’s Park, 21 st & Boulder Fo.r more information, call 585-5551. Donations-will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the generosity of -the Elton John AIDS Foundation. The Walk is sponsored by the Community Service Council, and will benefit the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP), The Walk is an all volunteer effort and there are no administrative costs. Tulsa Family News is proud to donate this advertisement in support of the Walk and the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Two Teens Indicted In Murder of Gay Black Man FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) - Two 17-year-old Marion County boys were indicted at the end of August for the murder of a Gay Black man. Jared Wilson and David Allen Parker ofGrantTown were each charged as adults with first-degree murder and conspiracy to commit murder in the July 4 death of Arthur "J.R." Warren. They are accused of beating and kicking Warren, 26, then running over him with a Camaro to disguise his injuries as a hit-and-run. If convicted, they could be sentenced to life in prison. A 15-year,old witness, Jason Shoemaker of Grant Town, has been charged as a juvenile with being an accessory after the fact for allegedly helping the older boys dispose of evidence. Conviction on that misdemeanor offense could mean up to.a year in jail. Shoemaker has testified that Warren was beaten and kicked with steel-toed boots in a.hous¢.then put in a car. He was still alive and begging t6 be taken home when the other boys dragged him from the car on a Grant Town road to kick and beat him some more. Parker then drove over Warren four times, the boy said. see Murder, p. 11 Los Angeles Dod.gers ApOlogize to Lesbians WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. (AP) - The Dodgers apologized Wednesday to a Lesbian couple ejected from Dodger Stadium earlier this month after the two shared a kiss during a game against the Chicago Cubs. ’‘i was troubled.., because ofwhatit implied about the Dodger organization," said team President Bob Gratiano. "It means a lot to me that you are Dodger fans," he said to Danielle Goldey and Meredith Kott. "We will continue to do the right thing," Graziano said. The two were escorted out of the ballpark on Aug. 8. Goldey and Kott say they were not initially told why they were being ejected, but later they were told that someone complained and said children should not be exposed to "those people." The couple said their companions, a heterosexual couple, also kissedbut werenot ejeeted. Because ofthis, they felt the action of the eight security guards was discrimination. Besides the public apology, the Dodgers donated 5,000 tickets to three Gay and Lesbian organizations and promised sensitivity training for their employees. ’’I think they stepped up to the plate more than they had to,"Goldey said. "All we wanted was an apology ... I’m very proud to be a Dodger fan." ’’I’m extremely happy with the results," Kott said. The couple was going to file a civil rights lawsuit if the Dodgers didn’t apologize, said their lawyer Bernie Bemheim. see Courts, p. 3 U_! DIRECTORY P. 2 ~ EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 ~,~ HEALTH NEWS P. 6 Z ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Tulsa + US Protests of Boy Scouts’ Anti-Gay Policies " OKC/TULSA (AP/TFN) - A handful of demonstrators asking ¯ the Boy Scouts to stop discriminating against Gay scouts and " leaders took their message to the streets Monday, August 21, ° targeting motorists at a busy intersection not far from the Last o FrontierBoy Scout headquarters inOklahomaCity (OKC) andin ¯ front of the Indian Nations Council in the Brookside neighbor- " hood in Tulsa. The Tulsa and Oklahoma City rallies were part of an effort ¯ plannedin atleast 36 cities and 21 states initiated by Scouting For All, a national nonprofit organization formed by Steven Cozza, " 15, of Petaluma, Calif. Cozza started Scouting For All several ¯ years ago after his father was removed as a Scout leader for .-. supporting Gay civil rights. Cozza, who said neither he nor his father is Gay, left the Boy ¯ Scouts about six months ago after becoming an Eagle Scout. ¯ Cozz~ said he no could longer support the program because it discriminates. "Scoutmasters are people to look up to. What’s " wrong with being influenced by a Gay man? Someone’s sexual- : ity has nothing to do with his character or personality," he said. ¯ The dozen OKC protesters held signs that read "Scouting ¯ should be for everyone", "Open scouting to Gays" and "Honk for ~ Gay Boy Scouts". People honked. In Oklahoma City, a couple of : people shouted obscenities and one truck driver shouted, "You [ guys are wrong"but i,n Tulsa, most of those commenting as they ¯ drove by were supportive of the demonstrators who averaged -" about 20 over a couple hour period. ." Kent Doss, a 21-year-old student a! the University of Okla- ¯ homa and an Eagle Scout, attended both the Oklahoma City and ° the Tulsa protests. Doss, who is Gay, became an Eagle Scout in ¯ 1997. He had been in scouting since the third grade. "Even after ." that many years of hard work it’s just not worth it because of the ~ negative influence," he said. ’’It is so hypocritical Everything I ¯ grew up with has been ignored," Doss said. ’q don’t want to ." abandon the scouts. I want to be apart of the dialogue, but I’m not ~ proud of scouting." In Tulsa, Doss did turn in his uniform, his ¯ merit badges and his Eagle Scout award. ¯ In June, the US Supreme Cotvt ruled 5-4 that Boy Scouts of ~ America (BSA) can bar Gays from serving as troop leaders. ¯ see Scouts, p. 2 Walk For Life 200-0 -" TULSA (TFN) - For the pasl seven years, AIDS activists, [ caregivers, people living with AIDS/HIV, and others have come : together to walk to raise money for I-IIV/AIDS care-giving and ¯ education agencies. Their services include n~lical assistance, _" prevention efforts, transportation, support groups, and home and ." hospice care. ¯ Walkers are asked to solicit pledges prior to this year’s event [ and to bring their pledge sheets and those donations to the Walk _" which will be held on Saturday, Oct. 7, at 9:30am at Veterans’ ¯ Park, located at 21st & Boulder. The Walk will begin and end at : the park going down the River Park to the 31 st Pedestrian Bridge ." and returning. ¯ Donations to Walk for Life 2000, the 8th Annual Tulsa AIDS ¯ Walk will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the : generosity of the Elton John AIDS Foundation. The Walk is ~ sponsored by the Community Service Council, and will benefit .- the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP). ¯ The Walk is an all volunteer effort and there are no admiuistra- "_ five costs. For more information or for pledge forms, call 585- ¯ 5551. :US Court Rules Gay Mexican ¯ Citizen Eligible for U,S, Asylum [ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A cross-dressing, Gay Mexican man ¯ persecuted in his homeland is entitled to asylum in the United ¯ States, a federal appeals panel ruled in August. -" The decision by three judges of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of ¯ Appeals expanded the social circumstances of persecution that ¯ immigration officials must consider during asylum hearings. ¯ Federal. courts have already allowed asylum for a variety of ¯ political and social reasons, including a woman’s fear of genital : mutilation in her African homeland. Just last month, the 9th ¯ Circuit ruled that an Armenian who says he has was given an ¯ ultimatum to become a Communist or leave Armenia deserved ¯ another bid for asylum. The case involves Geovanni Hernandez-Montiel, a Gay Mexi- " can citizen who dresses and behaves as a woman. Hetestified that ¯ he was persecuted by his family, school officials and police, who " he said sexually assaulted him. see Asylum, p. 9 Gay Services Center Moving to Memorial TULSA (TFN) - After several years in Brookside, Tulsa’s Gay Community Services Center is rdocating - likely to a building near 21st and Memorial. After the ownership of the current location changed, TOHR (Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, sponsoring organization of,\the center) had to fight a legal battlejust to finish the current lease. The new owners have spent considerable funds to update the location in order to lease it at much higher rates. None of the other original tenants still remain. TOHR president Greg Gatewood noted that the new center will have about the same amount of space as the current one but may have slightly lower operating costs. The new space will still have a Pride Store, the Nancy McDonald Library, and an expanded TOHRmembers only free video lending library. Volunteers to help prepare for the move and to move are quite welcome, Gatewood added and can call the Center at 743-4297 for details. TOHR events for September include: a protest planning meeting to respond to the upcormng visit to Tulsa by radio "therapist" Dr. Laura on Tuesday, Sept. 5th at 7pm at the Center (current location at 37th & Peoria, 2nd floor), new Center volunteer orientation on Wednesday, Sept. 6th at7pm,TOHR membership meeting on Tuesday, Sept. 12 at 7:30pm. This meeting will feature a presentation of an A&E (Arts & Entertainment Network) program onhate crimes. Votes on the nominating committee for next year’s officers and on bylaws revisions will also be held. And planning for next year’s Pride events, Diversity Festival and Parade will begin on Saturday, Sept. 9th at 1 lain at the Center. On Friday, Sept. 29, 8pm, there will be a video release party for Diversity 2000, a commemorative video created by BoyBlue Productions in support of TOHR. It will include highlights of all Pride Week events including: see Video, p.8 ¯ Florida Politicians Push Federal Hate Crime Bill - WEST PALM BEACH, Fla. (AP) - Two Republi- ¯ can congressmen are touting legislation that would ~ expand the federal government’s rolein investigat- ~ ing and prosecuting crimes based on sexual often- , tation, religion, gender or ethnicity. , U.S. Reps. Bill McCollum of Orlando and Mark ¯ Foley of West Palm Beach said while they may be ¯ members of a conservative political party, that ¯ doesn’t mean they find hate crimes against Gays ¯ and other historically persecuted groups any less -" foul than Democrats do. "The issue is not Gay : rights, the issue is hate crime," McCollum said ¯ Tuesday while meeting with Jewish leaders. "When ¯ someone is brutalized or killed.., it is fundamen- : tally wrong." ¯ The bill would provide grants of up to $100,000 ¯ for the investigation,and prosecution ofhate crimes in all 50 states. It also would give federal authori- ¯ ties the ability to prosecute hate crimes under ¯ interstate commerce laws. o According to the Southern Poverty Law Center, ¯ Florida ranks second in the nation in the number of [ active hate groups. FBI statistics show a total of " 7,755 bias-motivated criminal incidents were re- . ported in 46 states and the District of Columbia in . 1998, down about 10% over 1997. Angela Lampert of the Jewish Federation of " Palm Beach County said the group strongly sup- . ports the bill. ’’We think hate crimes are abhorrent ¯ and do not need to be tolerated," Lampert said after ¯ meeting with McCollum and Foley at Temple Beth ¯ El in West Palm Beach. In July, the Senate passed similar legislation as ¯ an amendment to a defense department appropria- " tions bill. This adds offenses motivated by sexual ; orientation, sex or disability to the list of crimes ¯ covered under federal law. 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Not all are Gay-owned butall are Gay-friendly. Hesaid he first thought the Dodgers might have a policy against Gay and Lesbian couples showing affectionin theball park. "I’m frankly shocked," Bernheim said. ’q’heir response is atypical and outstanding." He said the Dodgers have donemore to make amends than any other corporation he’s dealt with. Goldey and Kott have been invited to sit behind home plate to make up for the game they missed. ¯ - - "It i-s not trivial-to-be thrown ouf’Of p.u,b’,!.]c..p.l~ac:eb~as~ed Of, who YOU "are,"s"d Jon Da~cids0n 0f the Lambda L~g~i’ D~-: fense and: Edlacafion Fund, a Gay advocacy group. ’q’his result is a home run for all concerned." The ruling may also permit the 6.2-mib lion-member organization to reject Gays as members. The Boys Scouts consider homosexuality contrary to their oath .requiring scouts tube "morally straight:" The90?ye~ff-Oldorganization says its goal is to ’l~iS~’itle educational programs for boys and young adults to build character, to train in the responsibilities of participating citizenship and to devdop personal fitness.¯ EdmrddresidentJustin Spears, aformer Boy Scout l~ader, said he doesn’t know if he want~.:..Ms 8-year-old son to become a Boy Scoii~ because of the stance against Gays. "Even though they have a legal mandate, this discrimination needs to be stopped," he said. In Tulsa, longtime PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and GayS) activist Cathy Hinkle marched and spoke ofhow her Gay son was a scout but would have been barred under the BSA policy. Hinkle was joined for part of the protest by the new pastor of All Souls Unitarian Church. The OKC demonstrators marched to the headquarters, where former scout member Jim Craig, turned in his handbodkin prdtest to Jim Russnogle, director of field services for the Last Frontier Council. "In Boy Scouts I learned a lot about Boy Scout law. I believe scout law is not being followed," Craig said. "A lot of kids:that are Gay might not be tempted to co~Iv;uicide if they had more support." " Russnogle read from a statement that said that the Boy Scouts respects their rights, and ask that the rights of the BSA also be respected. "We believe avowed homosexuals should not be role models;" Russnogle read. He added that he is sorry, that Dose. no longer wants to be consid;,~ ered an Eagle Scout, "But if that is his opinion, I respect that." Rob Abiera, owner and operator of Ga~,0k~:(0m said thedemonstration was - called to show supportfor Gay Boy Scouts and Scout Masters and to educate how Gay Scouts face discrimination. "We know that the Boy Scouts has~been a pioneer in reaching out to minorities and,¯. should continue that effort in reaching out to Gays. It is completely inconsistentwith what they have done in the past," Abierav ~ said. Demonstrators were turned away from the national Boy Scouts ofAmericaheadquartersMonday afterpresenting a 55,000- signature petition protesting the organization’s ban on Gay troop leaders. Fewer than a dozen demonstrators, some wearing Boy Scout uniforms, see p. 3 were met by a security guard and not allowed past the front desk. A secretary who refused to give her name said she would forward the petition to the organization’s president. The protesters hadhoped to talk withleaders of the organization or at least schedule a meeting. ’"vVe’re disappointed," said Dave Rice, a former Scout leader who marched in Irving. ’°We don’t like confrontation. We like to sit down, shake hands and discuss a solution that’s mutually beneficial." In Seattle, more than_ 100 people rallied~ in protest Monday night. One, former Eagle Scout Doug Barnes, said he planned to send hisbadge back. Another, Jon Wartes, said he already had done so. "Does the Boy Scouts of Americareally understand the hurt that they’re doing?" said Wartes, who became an Eagle Scout in 1959 and wrote part of the Boy Scout handbook. At the Washington, D.C. protest, Graham Segroves wore his Boy Scout shirt complete with his Eagle Scout badge and other honors. Now with the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Segroves, 25, said he did not realize he was Gay until he left the scouts eight years ago. Segroves said he hopes President Clinton will agree to a task force request thathe resignhis honorary presidency of the Boy Scouts He also is watching for congressional action on a proposed "Scouting f0~ All" act, which seeks to revoke the Boy Scouts’ congre~slbhal charter. The Supreme Court decision has ~IS0 left compames that donate to the Boy Scouts of America in a quandary: their employment policies contradict the Boy Scouts’ court-upheld right toban Gay troop members. The stance already has cost the Scouts financial support from companies such as Levi Strauss & Co: arid Wells Fargo. Others, concerned about hurting the beneficiaries of such funding - the boys themselves - are w~ighing their options. Chase Manhattan Corp. is considering revoking its contributions. ’XDn the face of it, some issues appear to be in conflict with our commitment to diversity," spokesman Jim Finn said. ’%Ve will make a final determination on this soon. It’s notsomething we are going to let rest for a long time." Merrill Lynch & Co. in New York, which gives between $100,000 and $150,000 a year, is "actively reviewing" its relationship with the Scouts, said spokesman Joe Cohen. Media company Knight Ridder has asked "that funds it gives to the UnitedWay notbe directed to the Boy Scouts because it conflicts "with the company’s philosophy on people and di~cersity, and the company could not support such a discriminatory stance," said Polk Laffoon, vice president of corporate relations. The Tulsa Area United Way (l’AUW)does fund the Indian Nations Council of the BSA. TAUW’s director, Kathleen Coan, at a mid-summer news conference was asked, "since TAUW doesn’t fund racist or anti-semitic organizations, why it funds non-profits (BSA, Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Green Country, the American Red Cross) which discriminate against Lesbian and Gay Tulsans?" Coan, responding with obvious anger,, stated that she was "quite proud" of thefunding decisions which TAUWhas made, and made no effort to explain orjustify those decisions. Steve Tumbo, of the public relations firm Sctmake, Brookey Turnbo, and a recent addition to the Tulsa Area United Way board was present at that press conference and also reacted angrily to questiond aboutTAUW bias. Mr. Turnbo, a longtime supporter of the National Conference for Community and Justice, a Tulsa "human rights" organization with a history of anti-Gay discrimination, had promised to respond to inquiries about TAUW’s funding of anti-Gay groups if the concerns were expressed by letter. To date, TFN has received no response to a letter sent in April. Turnbo also was the organizer a few years ago of a conference which claimed to be about diversity butwhich failed to include Lesbians and Gay men in any of its planning and Turubo also refused to alter the event even when the matter was brought to his attention and individuals were willing to volunteer to help correct the exclusion. Tumbo’s firm enjoys a privileged relationship with Tulsa’s establiskment frequently working closely with Tulsa mayor, M. Susan Savage, the Chamber of Commerce and Tulsa Public Schools, frequently being involved in bond and other elections. Assault at Rose Hill by Tom Neal, editor/publisher It was a picture perfect "photo op." The rabbi, draped with his prayer shawl, was flanked one one side by Mouzon Biggs of Boston Avenue Methodist Church, Black pastor Dr. McCutchen, and the Bishop (Catholic) of Tulsa, Edward Slattery, and on the other side by our mayor, M. Susan Savage, and Sheryl Siddiqui of Tulsa’s Islamic Society. .M1 were gathered in the 100 plus degree heat and sun to condenm a horrible act of desecration: the toppling of Jewish tombstones in Rose Hill Cem- : the Nadonal Conference of Christians and Jews) sends ¯ letters to the World condemning firemen who put Chris- " tian holiday decorations up and condemns anti-Semetic ¯ attacks on Joe Lieberman but never to my knowledge has ¯ responded publicly to attacks on Tulsa’s Gay Commu- ¯ nity Center, to anti-Gay Oklahoma legislation, to the ¯ beating of Orr and Beauchamp, or even to the murder of ¯ Mathew Sheppard. However, the organization has engaged in deliberate ¯ and conscious acts of anti-Gay discrimination, most recently at an event at Bigg’s BOston etery. And Rabbi Fitzerman of Congregation B’nai Emunah put in context just precisely how this act hurt, of how it invoked memories of Nazi atrocities with a story of a road to one Nazi labor/death camp being paved with Jewish tombstones. But when push comes to shove, this still was a crime against property - not a taking oflife. Was it an assault on the psyche of a community? Of course! Not unlike the year-in and year-out psychic assaults on Gay Tulsans from our own elected leaders (members of the legislature, our governor, our congressman, our sen~ttors, our district attorney),as well as from individual~ like Jonathan Brian Duke, the man who was caught in the cemetery. According to the Tulsa WorM, Duke had been accused of harassing two Gay men who lived near him. Indeed, ifyouknew who and what to look for, Tulsa’s Gay community was wall represented in the crowd. I suspect that after Jews, we may have been the largest single group. There were "baby" Gays in rainbow beads and : shorts, a young lesbian couple quietly : holding hands leaving the ceremony ] after all was over, establishment Gays ¯ from the Church of Saint Jerome, even somehardyhumanrights activists from : Oklahoma City who dropped every- : thing to come to be here in solidarity. "So when Rabbi Fitzerman says he’s grateful to llve in an "open eommunlty," one that "embraces diversity," "a place of profound moral health," I am grateful that for Tulsa’s Jewish eommunlty, this may finally be true. I hope so. But for Gay people dearly this is not yet true. For Gay Tulsans, Tulsa remains a place of deep hypoerlsy, where our tax dollars, and our talents are greedily taken but our exlstenee is mostly denied when not speeffleally condemned. " - Tom Neal Amazingly, Rabbi Fitzerman did Avenue Methodist Church. And in a particularly cynical fundraising ploy, NCCJ honored Robert Lorton, owner and publisher of the Tulsa WorM, a business knownfor at least fifteen years for its anti-Gay discriminatory business practices, its "humanitarian" of the year. So when Rabbi Fitzerman says he’s grateful to live in an "’open community," one that "embraces diversity," "a place of profound moral health," I am grateful that for Tulsa’s Jewish community, this may finally be true. I hope so. But for Gay people clearly this is not yet true. For Gay Tulsans, Tulsa . remains a place of deep hypocrisy, where our tax dollars, and our talents are greedily taken but our existence is mostly denied when not specifically condemned. It is a place where even our presence in human rights groups is begrudging and is predicated on our not getting "’uppity." (Note how these groups much prefer to have non-Gay Gay advocates like Nancy McDonald rather than actually have Gay people at the table. Note also that this is no cnttcism of Nancy’s good and hard work. She’s not responsible for their prejudice.) And while Gay people seem to get the connection between anti-semitism and anti-Gay values, the ~luestion remains whether Tulsa’s Jewish commention Gay people along with Jews, Catholics, Blacks, Asians and Hispanic Americans as those .who are attacked because we do not fit some "mythological profile" of a "true’.’ American. But as a long observer of Tulsa’s so-called "human rights" community, it is hard not to be somewhat bitter at the contrast between how seriously assaults on Tulsa’ s Jewish community are taken as compared to those on Tulsa’s Gay commumty. Let us merely start with who was on, and who was not on, the dais! While there seems to be evidence that Gays were also targets 6f Jonathan Brian Duke, and there certainly are Gay community leaders who were concerned and attending the event, like Father Rick Hollingsworth of Saint Jerome, or members of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), we were not represented. Duke had not attacked Cathohcs but the Catholic bishop was on the dais. Nor did he attack Methodists but Mouzon Biggs was there. Nor had he attacked Blacks but one of the most senior Black clergymen was there. Nor did he attack Muslims but Siddiqui was invited to the dais. Can anyone remember when ever our mayor has attended a Gay event? She’s usually conveniently out of town. Sure she sends her best bud, Hilary Kitz, whom we adore but it’s not the same. We did not see her at the memorial hdd in City Hall Plaza for Mathew Sheppard, nor did she release comment about that crime, or more relevantly did she comment on the brutal Brookside beating ofTony Orr andTim Beauchamp- indeed a local crime. Nor has our mayor responded to now years worth of calls for diversity training for police and other city workers which actually includes Gay people in the "diversity." Nor did she add her voice to the effort to amend our state hate crime statute to include "sexual orientalion." Local ’’human rights" organizations like the National Conference for Community and Justice (NCCJ, formerly munity does. While Tulsa’s Jewish community by an3’ standard is successful in business and in political impact, and is influential due to those talents in wild disproportion to its numbers, it still seems to bdieve that it cannot risk expending its "’capital" to help Gay people. And it is also, frankly, a community which has not dealt with its own prejudices against Gay people, its homophobia and Its heterosexism. Part of the reason that things are better in Tulsa forJews is that non-Jews made the effort to try to make things better. It’s morally right for those still excluded to call on those who’ve been helped to turn and to help those still left behind. Tulsa’s Jewish community and Tulsa’s Gay community have much in common. Unlike racial minorities, neither community is an "onsight" minority. We are known by our actions, by going to our places of worship’or our community centers, or businesses. We are subject to similar pressures to just "convert." And we share the horror of Nazi persecution, a fact finally acknowledged by organizers of the local Holocaust interfaith remembrance event this year, albeit only after much cajoling and the intervention of one blessedly open minded Tulsan, herself the daughter of Holocaust survivors. The rabbi’s inclusive language is a good start. God forbid that there should be a next time for suchan event but when next there is a shared stage, an effort at representing the"diversity"ofour town, maybe thenone of our leaders will be on the dais. And maybe just like the Gay people who were in that 100 degree heat, who understand that an attack on Jews is an attack on us too, Tulsa’s Jewish commumty will throw their influence behind the Gay commumty’s efforts for fair treatment by our law enforcement system, by our legislature, and by our community organizations. The God of Israel commands, "... justice,justice, shalt thou seek..." You don’t have to be a Jew or a Christian to honor these words. Universal Florida To Offer Partners Benefits ORLANDO, Fla. (AP) - Universal Florida will start offering health and other benefits to domestic partners, both Gayand straight. The benefits, which will take effect Oct. 1, also will cover dependents of domestic partners. ’This is a part of our ongoing efforts to recognize the diversity of the team members in our workforce and to provide an array of benefits and services sufficient to be recognized as an employer of choice in this very dynamic Orlando labor market," said an internal Universal document obtained by The Orlando Sentinel. Walt Disney World Resort, Orlando’s largest employer with more than 55,000 workers, has offered health benefits to employees’ Gay partners since 1996. But Disney doesn’t cover heterosexual partners of employees tmless they are married. Disney doesn’t plan to change its policy regarding unmarriedheterosexual partners, said spokesman Bill Warren. "It’s our position that there is a legal remedy to be’formally married, and Seeg those benefits with heterosexual couples," Warren said. Universal, the area’s fourth-largest employer with 11,800 employees, will extend the benefits to any domestic, partner 18 or older who has lived with the employee for at least six months. In addition, the theme park resort’s statement said, partners, must have ’~oint responsibility for eachother’s financial wdfare and basic living expenses," although it is not dear how that would be proved. In addition to medical, dental, vision and dependent life insurance, domestic partners will be able to use Universal’s employee assistance program, sctfolarships and other benefits. Employees can enroll their partners in September. Hate crimes increase 11.7% in Los Angeles LOS ANGELES (AP) -Hatecrimes increased 11.7% in Los Angeles County last year, with blacks, Jews and Gays the target of most attacks, the. Human Relations Commission said. The increase was due in part to better reporting of hate crimes, officials said recently. Last year’s attack on the North Valley Jewish Community Center by a gunman led to an "unprecedented awareness" ofhate crimes, said RobinToma, acting executive director of the county Human Relations Commission. Buford O. Furrow Jr., a white supremacist, is charged with. shooting to death Filipino- American postal worker 3oseph Ileto and then wounding five people at the Jewish center. Overall in 1999, the report said, 859 crimes motivated by race. religion or sexual orientation-were reported. That was up 11.7% from 1998. It was the second-highest tally in 20 years, behind the peak year of’ 1996, when 995 hate crimes were reported. The upswing matched a 12% statewide increase in hate crimes, announced last month by the state attorney general’s office. The crimes ranges from crossbumings to killings. Overall, blacks werethe most frequent victims of hate crimes, but crimes involving religion or sexual orientation saw the largest increases. Hate crimes on school campuses .also rose sharply for the second year in a row,jumping 58.7%, from 46 to 73. Most of the crimes based on religion were nonviolent, but more than half of those against Gays and Lesbians were violent, the commission said. Univ. of Minnesota Alum Donates for Gay Center MINNEAPOLIS (AP) - A University of Minnesota alunmus who made a fortune in the computer software industry has donated $500,000 to the school for an endowed Gay, Lesbian, bisexual and transgender studies center. The Steven J. Schochet Center for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Studies opened July 1. Schochet, a 1959 graduate, said he faced many barriers as a Gay man on campus and hopes the donation will improve the climate for GLBT students. The center will be responsible for coordinating graduate studies, establishing archives and starting a lecture series and community forums. ’.The goal of the center is to enhance the creation of knowledge about GLBT lives through academic studies and community interaction," said Liunea Stenson, Schochet Center program director. Texas A&M Waffles COLLEGE STATION, Texas (AP) - A Gay civil rights group urged Texas A&M University to implement an on-again, off-again ban on discrimination again~st Gays. School presidentRay Bowen suspended the policy change on Aug. 16, a few hours after it was posted on the university’s Web site. In a vaguely worded statement, Bowen said the issue needed more study. In a letter to Bowen, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force said Texas A&M shouldjoin other major universities around the state in prohibiting discrimination against homosexuals. "Failure to expressly -forbid discrimination also sends the message to the campus community that (homosexual) people are second-class citizens and that discrimination against them is acceptable," said ElizabethToledo, executive director of the task force. Bowen has stated the matter will be reconsidered after a better understanding by all confirmed parties has been achieved, said university spokesman Lane Stephenson. "He has directed the matter to go through the Office of the Dean of Student Life as the start of the process of reconsideration," Stephenson said. "We are already starting to have productive discussions within the university community." On the Net: .Texas A&M University: http:// www.tamu.edu Drag Queens-Invited to Olympic Celebrations SYDNEY, Australia (AP) - The Olympics’ dosing ceremony is going to be a drag. Drag queens will be part of the Sydney 2000 games’ finale regardless of what "right-wing reactionaries" think, ceremonies director Ric Birch said at the end of August/ Themen dressedup in outlandish dresses, wigs and makeup, will be "part of one tiny section" of the dosing ceremony, a tribute to Australian films including the 1994 cult hit ’.The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert," he said. Some of the participants would be dressed in original costumes, including a frill-necked lizard outfit from the film, which features twodrag queens and a transsexual driving a pink bus through Australia’s Outback. A report in the Sydney Morning Herald newspaper sparked heated debate onradio shows. One, caller said he would trade his dosing ceremony ticket after hearing the news. Birch directed the opemng ceremony at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics and was involved in the opener at Atlantafour years ago. He said he was annoyed that constant leaks were wrecking what should be a surprise for the public. "I’m really disappointed at the way the mediais gleefully trying to expose the secrets that we call surprises," Birch told Australian Broadcasting Corp. radio. Photographs of the Olympic cauldron being lit in rehearsals, which are usually kept under wraps, have been printed. Speculation on who will ignite the cauldron has intensified. Birch said the inclusion of drag queens also reflected one of Sydney’s mostcolorful events, the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras, a Gay pridemarch and street carnival that attracts hundreds of thousands of spectators each year. "That’s part of Sydney life whether (critics) like it or not." Birch said. "For the right-wing reactionaries or whatever part of a community is ..outraged about it - well, they’re always going to be outraged." Olympics Minister Michael Knight said all the plans forthe ceremonies had been approved by the organizing committee’s board. 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The petition effort was headed by Guyla Mills, director of the NebraskaFamily Council and a lobbyist for the Nonpartisan Family Coalifon- two groups that support the peftion. Mills said sheis confident that when all the signatures are verified they will have about 45,000 more thanwhat is required, and that will deter anyone from thinking about challenging them. At this time the Nebraska chapter of the American Civil Liberges Union has no intention of challenging anyof the signatures, even though it remains opposed to. the amendment; said ACLU director Tim Butz. A group organized to fight]he initiative, called the Vote No on DOMA (Defense of Marriage Amendment) Committee, also has no plans to challenge the signature count. Other groups opposing the effort include Nebraska Advocates for Justice & Equality, a nonprofit Omaha group, and PFLAG (Parents and Families of Lesbians and Gays). Butz said theACLU id researching what impact the amendment would have on exisfng laws dealing with business partnerships and existing legal agreements between Gay and Lesbian couples. The ACIJd also is looking into what impactit would have on companies that offer same-sex health~benefits,-to workers. ¯ The proposed constitutional amendment will read: ’~Only marriage between a man and a woman shall be valid or recognized in Nebraska. The uniting of two persons of the same sex in a civil union, domestic partnership, or other similar same-sex relationship shall not be valid or recognized in Nebraska.’" Nothing in current Nebraska law s.pecifically prohibits same-sex marriage. Supporters of the petition say it will clarify in the consmutlon that only marriages of a man and woman are legal in Nebraska. Thirt.y-tl~r.ee states have passed law s or amended their const~tutxons to ban same-sex marriages. Officials Say No to Two Morns on Birth Certificate DENVER (AP) -The state health department will ask the Colorado Supreme Court to ban Lesbian couples from placing both their nmnes on a baby’s birth certificate, a health official said. The issue was raised after two Boulder District Court judges allowed seven Lesbian couples to place their names on birth certificates. One of the women in each couple was the birth mother. The judges said Colorado law allows people who have :no biological,connection to "a child tO ~ssume parentalrights ii~ certain situations. The Department ofPublic Health and Environment appealed, arguing that the judges had overstepped their legal authority by creating a new_ kind of pare_ntchild relationship. "It needs to be the decision of the legislature rather than the courts," said Cynthia Honssinger, a director in the health department. But the Colorado Court of Appeals turned down the health department’s request to overturn the Boulder courts. The appellate court said the health department didn’t appeal on time nor should it have any interest in the matter. Honssinger said the health department now plans to ask theColorado Supreme Court to look at what the Legislature intended when it enacted the Uniform Parentage Act. Lawmakers wanted to help single mothers get child-support payments from deadbeat dads, she said. Jeanine Pow, a lawyer representing one of the Lesbian couples, said the law traditionally wants what is in the "best interest" of the child, which is two adults who are responsible for the child. "The health department is wasting taxpayer money on punishing the children of Lesbian mothers," she said. The women in the seven Boulder cases want to remain anonymous to protect their clfildren and themselves, their lawyers said. GayArts Group Sues San Antonio; Claims Bias SAN-ANTONIO (AP) - A chItural arts 2roup fliat]ost Its c~ty fundlng.m 1997 armd 4omplaint~ ,o~er !ts +ponsorship of ~i Gay and Lesbiati fihri fest~fil’ the city to court on accusations of violating the First Amendment. Attorneys for the nonprofit Esperanza Center contend the City Council cut off the organization because of its viewpoints a violation of free speech- mad because of pressure from residents who told council members they opposed "promoting a Gay lifestyle." Also Suing the city are two groups under the 13- year-old Esperanza’s fiscal umbrella, the San Antonio Lesbian andGay Media Project mad the s~nall arts gr,o,up VAN ~lie Esperanza_N~d other plaintiffs were singled out by the city because of the viewpoints expressed by ~he Esperanza ~n a variety of ways, Esperanza lawyer Am~; Kastely told U.S. District Judge Orlando L. G,qrci~i iff0utlining their case. The Esperanza Center filed suit after the council voted in September 1997 to stop giving it money. Although the couucil reduced funding to most arts groups by 15% at the stone time, Esperanza was the only one ~hat was cut off altogether. Several residents had voiced their opposition to financing Esperanza, saying they disapproved of the behavior they believed the group was advocating. The city’s Cultural Arts Board had recommended $62~500 for Esperanza, which had been receiving city money for ~even years. But after the council vote, the cit)/ i~’ei~aJ:~ment 6f Ar~s .and dultural Affhirs also withheld $14,000 from the Texas Commission on the Arts, for a total loss of about $76,500. Now, the group’s leaders are seeking the money they believe they deserve. They’re also seekang an order from the court to force the city to follow its own criteria for granting arts funding. But lawyers representing the city say council members didn’t stra~: from the criteria. They say some council members just didn’l support the Esperanza Center while others wanted to divert some of the arts funding toward more basic city progrmns. For~ner councilman Jose Menendez testified that while he had received several phone calls and letters objecting to financing Esperanza, he simply felt that artsfluading was not a priority. He said Iris district needed sidewalks, speed bumps and more firefighters. ’qqae arts ~vas an area where we could get lnore money for basic servxces." The city’s law yers questioned whether Esperanza, which used to be called the Esperanza Peace &Justice Center, should have been eligible for arts money in the first place. Indeed, some council members had viewed it more as a political organization than an arts group, former councilman Roger Flores testified. Eduardo Diaz, former director of the city’s arts depar.tment: ~onceded~ ~upon, questioning.by assistant city attorney. Amy Eubanks that Esperanza technically is not an arts organization because its massion is not exclusively the presentation or production of art. ¯ But-he-added that it has.been Esperanza’s practice over the years to incorporate arts progran~s. Diaz testified earlier that he had no doubt that Esperanza met the criteria for funding He.said the g up has been an acttve player tn cultural events for many years. He said there are :other Ynon-arts" groups that receive arts funding. At the time of the’ 97 cotmcil vote, the Witte Museum, primarily a natural history and science museum, was among four organizations that were receiving 70 to 75% of the total amount of arts funding, Diaz said. Esperanza execuuve director Graciela S anchez testified the center has used arts programs to "g~ve voice to the voiceless." Medical Marijuana To Be Investigated SAN DIEGO (AP) - The University of California, San Diego will soon begin trials on medical marijuana at the nation’ s first research center designed to explore the drug’s therapeutic potential. Doctors announced the Center for Medicinal Cannabis Research as part of the state’s effort to set medical guidelines following the voter-approved medical marijuana law. The center, headquartered in San Diego, will begin distributing grants to conduct clinical trials at lmiversities and research centers throughout California as early as January. The studies will look at whether marijuana is a safe alternative for treating certmn kinds of medical conditions and the best ways to administer it, such as ¯ through pills, patches or sprays. ’~Ourjobis to show if these products are ¯ helpful and we can answer t~.at defini- -" tively," said Igor Grant, the center’s director and professor of psychiatry at UCSD. ¯ Gov. Gray Davis has already approved ¯ $3 malhon to fund theprogram first year while legislation calls for a three-year program. The center was set up in large response to Proposition 215, the 1996 state initiative allowing seriously ill pa- ° tients to grow and use marijuana f~ pain o relief, if they have a doctor’srecommen- o dation. Measures similar_to the California ¯ initiative have passed in Alaska, Arizona,. Hawaii, Maine, Nevada, Oregon and Washington state. ¯ State Sen. John Vasconcellos, who ¯ pushed for medical marijuana, pelmed the ¯ program in 1996 but initially faced oppositionfromlaw enforcement groups. Only ¯ after working with Attorney General Bill Lockyer did Vasconcellos convincemany ¯ that research was a good idea. "It’s been a very long road since the ° passage of 215 to even get as far as we had with research," said Rand Martin, a ¯ spokesman for Vasconcellos. "We have ° had to deal with alot of political problems ° and the most exciting thing is that we’re ¯ putting the politics behind us." o Proponents have long argued that marl- " juanahelps patients with chronic pain and " with AIDS, cancer and multiple sclerosis ¯ by relieving pain and nausea. Opponents . of marijuana say scientific research is " necessary. ’Wee consider research a good thing,’" -" said Bob Weiner of the White House National Drug Control Policy Office. "Fo " have medicine determined by science and ¯ not by popular will is exactly what we support." ¯ Doctors at UCSD’s center hope the " research will eventually determine" whether marijuana has medical benefits - because current federal law says the drug " has no medical purpose. Trial patients will get marijuana from : the National InStitute on Drug Abuse and - researchers have pledged to follow all medical guidelines. ’‘There’s been a long " history of contention around cannabis and it has been difficult to do research," said , Grant. "This it the ~first study that’s " mulfidisciplinary. The state of California " has taken the lead here." ¯ Malay AIDS-Group - Protests Testing KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) -" Malaysia’s biggest AIDS .aw.areness and, " prevention body has protestea a proposat ¯ in a southern state to subject "_ Muslim men to HIV tests before they are ¯ allowed to getmarried, anews report said. ." The criticism of the move by Islamic ¯ religious authorities in Johor state came ¯ fromPrimeMinisterMahathirMohamad’s o° daughter, MarinaMahathir, an outspoken : AIDS activist who heads the Malaysian AIDS Council. "The assumption is blood ~ testing is somehow preventive, unfortu- ¯ nately it is not," Marina was quoted as ¯ saying by the Beriiama news agency. "- Mandatory HIV testing was also a vio- ¯ lation of human rights, she said. AIDS ¯ activists would soon meet with state offi- ¯ cials to ’discuss the proposal, she was ~ quoted as saying. ° She told reporters that educating the ¯ public on preventive measures will be ¯ more effective in curbing the deadly dis- " ease in the predominantly Muslim Southeast Asian country where discussing sexual issues in public is taboo and where introducing sex education in schools is being resisted by conservattves. Over the weekend, top government officials in Johor proposed compulsory blood tests on Muslim men, a move that would affect men in the dominant Malay community. Johor chief minister Abdul Ghani Othman was quoted as saying by newspapers that it was part of efforts to check the alarming rise of HIV cases in the state. "In 1999 alone, there was a 73% increasein ttIV cases among Malays compared to the previous year,"he was quoted as saying by New Sunday Times. Clinton: "Break the Silence’ about AIDS ABUJA, Nigeria (AP) - Africans must "break the siIence" about AIDS or risk losing hard-fought democratic and economic gains, President Clinton said Sunday as the White House highlighted more than $20 million in U.S. aid to fight AIDS, malaria and other diseases devastating Africa. "In every country, in any culture, it is difficult, painful, at the very least embarrassing, to talk about the issues involved with AIDS," Clinton said after touring a health center in the Nigerian capital and hearing the stories of several people living with the disease. Clinton’s two-day stay in Nigeria was intended to underscore U.S. approval of the 15-month-old democratic government in Africa’s most populous nation, with 123 million people. Along with dealing with the heavy themes of AIDS and debt relief, Clinton used the trip to get to know a country he deliberated bypassed on his last trip to Africa, in 1998, when it was under a military dictatorship. Led by a throng of singing children, he trudged through the Nigerian village of Ushafa on Sunday, past mud brick huts and flimsy metal sheds, with scrawny chickens scattering in his path. "We want to help you build your economy, educate your children andbuild a better life," he told villagers, wearing a cream-colored royal African robe given to him by the village chief. AIDS killed 2.8 million people worldwide last year, and is now the leading cause of death in Africa. The Clinton administration will spend $9.4 million this year for AIDS and HIV infection prevention and care in Nigeria, $8.7 million more for polio eradication and $2 million toward prevention of malaria. 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"We have to break the ¯ headaches. silence about how this disease spreads ; Dr. Ellen Koenig, an An~erican physiand how to prevent it." ° cian who has lived and worked in the Power About 2.6 million Nigerians, 5.4% of: DominicanRepublicfor31 years, was the the population, are afflicted with AIDS. ° impetus behind bringing the trial here. That puts the country on better footing i And she insisted the company agree to than many of its neighbors with higher ¯ continue paying for treatment after the ~onnc~~-~e1 ., infection rates, but in danger ofletting the:test. disease gain ground, Clinton said. "AIDS ". "In some places, the drug companies can rob a country of its future," Clinton ; come in, do the trial and then they leave, ¯ said. "I know you are not going to let that ¯ and the people don’t have the money to happen to Nigeria.’" : buy the medicine," said Ceneyda Brito at I~lbl|¢ S~l’~ice Cenlpan¥ of Oklahoma He promised continued U.S. support " the Dominican advocacy group AIDS for Nigeria’s transition to democracy, but ," Action. euslomer Santice Is Now Available 9.4 did not, as Nigerian President Olusegun Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week. Obasanjo had hoped, agree to cancel or i Doctors Accused of cut the nearly $1 billion U.S. portion of . These days, traditional 8-5.business hours Nigeria’ s $32 billion foreign debt, amove _" Improper HIVTesting aren’t always convenient. So PS0 has made it thatwouldrequirecongressional approval.. Speaking to business executives later : JOHANNESBURG, SouthAfrica(AP)- easier than ever for you to c0ntaet us. Sunday, however, Clinton said he sup- ." 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If convicted, he faces up to 10 Public Service Company of Oklahoma | 90 Dominicans and about 200 people in- years in prison, Stanfield said. Police also I the United States and Canada are helping ¯ arrestedEamestWest,,onthesamecharge ............. ¯t test its effectiveness. Some participants " after receiving complaints that he allegget a four-drug cocktail including " edly exposed four women to the AIDS capravirine; others receiveadrug cocktail ¯ virus through unprotected sexual contact. without capravirme. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor As an author who prides himself on getting the facts correct (Never straight, always correct); I have to own up .to an error that appeared in print in the August issue. I mistakenly attributed the appearanc~ to RENT hiTulsato the auspices of ~d~brity. AttraCtions. Thins¯ Was false, it was actually SF~:Thea~cal Group with ¯ . . : .M~eh has been maded the- Norvell, who tm~e show, inc|udln criticism o{ lamo izlng a drug-rldden life. Not so. It poignantly points out the effects -0f such a llfe. What been promoting RENT. My apologies to all parties; the error was actually caught and corrected before press time (Thanks Kristin!), but the publisher used the unrevised version of the column at press time. To err is human, and it can happen to the best of us, no matthe show is about, in my estimation, is the pursuit of dreams: and the most common dream of all - finding.love;{or that is common to allof us. Gay, Straight. ter how careful we ,, try to be. Blael~. White. and so on... So,.n6~v that the . . "oopls,~.¢g60fed..... ’ " .,,- p0rfi6n 6f~h¢ ~61Umnis out of the ~vas, on withthe ~uia Stuff!-Hope you get a ~h’ance to see RENT, it’ s a powerful show, and as one friend ofmine remarked, is "bite) and zippy." I’ll leave it to the reader to interpret those comments-. I liked the choice of words, personally. The show does reach out and bite, and it does move zippily along. The only problems I had were that themix of the sound left the vocals muddy & almost inaudible under the guitars; and that some of the performers need to work on their diction. This observation was echoed by TFN writer Karin Gregory in Dallas, who saw the same touting show down there. This show is basically rock opera, sung through almost entirely. That requires the lyrics to be audible and clear, otherwise it’s impossibleto understand the plot. I knew the show, and still l~ad to strain at many points to catch dialogue or lyrics. Hopefully, these issues will be addressed for die future shows in the rnn. In all other’ aspects, ~t was a powerful evening of theatre and storytelling. Much-has been made of the show, including criticism of glamorizing a drugridden life. Not so. It poigriantly points out the effects of such a life. What the show is about, in my estimation, is the pursuit of dreams; and the most common dream of all - finding love; for that is common to all of us, gay, straight, black, white, and so on. "Love is love", to quote fantasy writer Lynn Flewelling. And as such, should be respected and honored no matter What form it takes. RENT illustrates this in an upffont, grab you by the shirt kind0f way?Sound of Music, it alia’ t, sobe prepared.- RENT explores the issues, of love and its pursuff~ finding iL recognizing it; and notletting fear, pri~le,and n~iSunderstanding, and the defenses we all build to protect ourselves deny the love we really want to have. Fear can be an amazing thing when it comes to that. In that sense, REN~ is also about overcoming those obstacles and recognizing that love is hard to find, and shouldn’t be tossed away when the genuine articleis found.Atimely " Issue right now; as a friend of mine is ¯¯ taking a journey down that hard road that I have taken so many times before, and am " in the middle of right now. Lots of things masquerade as love - ¯ control, fear, even hatred. The real firing doesn’t land in your lap too often. Lot of lookalikes do, the trick is distinguishing ¯ the real from the fake. And too often, the -real is waF.to0 scary, and so is refused. If you’ve got the real thing, hang onto it. Well, join me on my ramble, will you?Dunno where all that came from. ¯ . Well, I do, but that’s a whole book unto itself. RENT succeeds admirably inillustrating ¯the aforementioned ideas, albeit in a much less lOngwinded way (editorr s note: indeed)¯ The ~tandout songs were "I will cover you , ’X)ne song", m~d "’Without You", wlrich is by far the most beantiful and-evocative song in the whole show It captures exactly how one feels when you know the one real thing has gotten away from you, either by circumstance, or worse, by your own clioice. "Without you, the w.d,rld turns, but I die too.., without you.. ¯ .... Speaking of Dreams, Arturo Brachetti was fabulous. Let me rephrase that... Arturo Brachetti’s show was fabulous! I hope most of you caught it, as it was an excellent evening of theatre. The man is literally a cast of thousands unto himself. And his quick change of Scarlett pre and post curtains was worth the price of admission! His show was a fast paced conglomeration of incredibly quick changes that left yon wondering ’~aow did he ’o that?", mixed with comedy, magic, and excellent s torytelling. Andhe can do amazing things with his hands. Making shadowplays, I mean. His theme? Dreams... Finding them, ¯ follo::-ing them, accomplishing them; and : having, fun with your inner ~hild while doin2 it Alternatively hilarious and p0ignant~; his range ofcharacters and’ theatre is amazing to see. He is a prime example of what one can do with dreams, belief in those dreams, and hard work - the two main ingredients of magic. The other aspect of that was the fact that, regrettably, so many of Us h~ve that child within that still has those dreams of ~hildhood, and we lock them away. Arturo was all about letting that child out to play, and having fun, which showed in his production. The show was excellent in all regards, from the autobiographical structure that set up the changes and made it an intimate evening even for the PAC’s Chapman Hall. Themusic ran the gamutfrom dance/ techno to classical, the lighting was fantastic, and Arturo’s box was huge! Well, at least the one onstage that served as sets, movie screen, prop house, and costume storage. At one pointed, he enacted an old western playing every character, and it was truly indescribably hilarious. He also performed a series of vignettes in tribute te film director see Arturo, p. 9 septem;ber FRIDAY 8 pm SATURDAY’~NgH SUNDAY 3 pro° september 22 s~ptember 2~3 ~’;~ :?’ september 24 Altan "The hottest group in the Celtic realm these days." The Boston Globe September 12 at 8 p.m. Chapman Music Hall ................. Tulsa PAC, 3rd & Cincinnati TULSA PERFORI~ING ARTS CENTER TRUST Tickets $14, $16, $18 Call 596-7111 spo,,,o,~ Outside ~ulsa call 1-800-364-7111 ~ ......... ?~’ "~: Online: www.tulsapac.com .~" Presented by the .. Tulsa Performing And you thought the ice cream man brought joy to your street¯ Sure, popsides are great. But how about a truckload of new channels, including WGN? How about.a high-speed Internet that’s always on and better priced? How.:about service so thorough and sweet you, can almost ~taste it? Now these, these are the things you can sink your teeth into. We’.re in.gear. COMMUNII~ATIONI~ 665-0200 Tulsa’s PRIDE 2000! VIDEO RELEASE PARTY Now that summer’s end is in sight and cool weather a hopeful prospect, the time is ripe to celebrate the Pride Week events that began Oklahoma’s heat wave. The Diversity Celebration 2000was a huge success that attracted fabulous people, was spectacularly beautiful, socially concious, wi.ttyand revealing. And its all on tape. This year Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights has joined with BoyBlue Productions in making a.professional commemorative video. It will include highlights of all Pride Week events including: appearances by Greg Louganis, Rev. Mel White and Grethe Cammemeyer~ the enormous parade, the art show, follies, community heroes, festival and the Soulforce. workshop. Friday night’s release party will include.a preview of the video, live performances and dancing. Details are pending but mark your calendar for 8pro Sept. 29th. And you wilI of course be able to purchase your copy at the party. Proceeds from the sales of the Diversity Celebration 2000 Commerative Video will benefit the services and programs of TOHR Orders may be placed in advance with visa or mastercard by calling TOHR at 743-4287. Orders plaCed by Sept 22 will be .available for pick up at the Release Party. # For your copies of Diversity Fest 2000 Contact the Tulsa Gay Community Service Center, 743-4297, POB 2687, 74101 x $20.00 = $ MO, Check, Visa, MC, no cash please. exp. date Signature Federico Fellini, who passed away afew years ago. It was touching, but I don’t think the audience "gotit."I doubtmost of the audience had a clue who Fellini was. At one point, the box split, and the curtains were raised to reveal the work be-. hind themagic.Anice touch, giving honor and recognition to the work that goes on behind the magic to make it happen. It was truly a magical evening, and it was funny to see the audience go from the thought process of"What the hell is this?" to ’qhis is so cool!" Armro was different from anything Tulsa has seen, and it’s a good thing. He soon held us all in thepalm of his hand. Not as tasty as this writer would have liked, but it was the markof a true artist. Tulsa’s a tough crowd to win over, especially for anything avant garde, but Arturo did it magnificently. He’ll be in a sitcom this fall, so that’ll be something to watch for. For our Lesbian readers, as wall as Gay men, Janis Ian will be appearing in concert at The Oklahoma Center for Poets and Writers’ Celebration of Books, along with. poet Maya Angelou, This occurs September 29-30, and for more information, call 594-8215. In September, we have a few events wc.-th catching: On the 12th, the Irish music group Altan will make an appearance at the PAC. They have had rave reviews, and itlooks like a lovely evening ,,f traditional Irish music ahead. For tickets, call 596-7122 September 14-23, Heller Theatre presents "Art", a show about a painting that engenders discussions of the quality and meaning of.life itself. 746-5065. Theater Tulsa offers up some pop culture with the musical version of "Everything l Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten" September 15-23. Tchaikovsky’s "Sleeping Beauty" wakes in Tulsa as Tulsa Ballet presents the venerable dance epic September 22- 24. (I wouldlove to see Matthew Bourne’s take on this one! He’s the man behind the homoerotic version ofSwan Lake. I doubt that will happen in Tulsa, though TBT is moving beyond a stdctly traditional approachunder Maestro Angelini.)Go see it for the music and the grace. For info, call 749-6006 Warren’s murder has drawnnational attention from Gay and non-Gay civil rights acti.vists, who fear he was killed because of his race or sexual orientation, or both. "At this point there is no evidence of abate crime," Marion County Prosecutor Richard Bunner said after the indictments were issued. "If any evidence is uncovered, appropriate action will be taken." Court records indicate Warren, Parker and Wilson argued twice the night of the beating - once about an unspecified rumor that had circulated about Warren and Parker, and the second timeabout $20 that Wilson took from Warren’s wallet: The beating began after the second argument. The grand jury met for about 90 rain: utes and then immediately issued the indictments. Wilson had soughtto block the grandjury fromhearing allegations against him, saying he should nothavebeen transferred to adult court. The Supreme Court mined down his petition 3-0. Wilson and Parker will continue to be held in a juvenile detention facility until their trial. If convicted they likely will remain in ajuvenile facility until they are 21, at which point they wouldbe moved to an adult facility. A trial date has not been set. ." TULSA - Furniture queens can now re- ¯. joicet Tulsa is now home to an Odds & Ends Outlet Store, the fourth in the US ¯ which the distinguished Baker Furniture ¯ has opened. The store is located at 4329 ¯ So. Peoria, near the old John Zink prop- " erty and is open 7 days a week. The store ¯ features Baker, MillingRoad, andMcguire ¯ furniture in a gallery like setting. ¯ Baker president, Chris Plasman, re- " sponded to questions about the choice of ¯ Tulsa, saying, "residents in larger cities, ¯ such as Chicago and Atlanta, have been ¯ clamoring to get but we chose Tulsa. ¯ Certainly Tulsa’s demographics are very ¯ favorable, butthe decisionwas alsoheavily ¯ imquencedbytheresidents’ reputationfor ." uncompromising taste and style and a genuineapp,r,eciation ofhistoryandcrafts - : manship... For more information, or store hours, " call 746-0329. ¯ He was also hospitalized for a week after being attacked with a knife by a group of men who called him derogatory names, he said. In 1995, he fled to the United States and requested asylum, but was de- At his hearing before immigration officials, a Latin American history expert testified that Gay men with female sexual identities in Mexico are heavily persecuted by the police and other groups and are likely to become scapegoats for Mexico’s economic and political problems. The expert said Hernandez-Montiel faced persecution if deported to Mexico. Federico Gomez, press director of Mexico’s National Human Rights Commission, acknowledged that homosexuals and cross-dressers still suffer from discrimination, but added that he believes Mexicans, in general, have become more tolerant of people’s sexual orientation. Gomez said he did not think the Hernandez-Montiel case "reflected society as the whole." Judge A. Wallace Tashima wrote that the appeals panel had determined that ’~3ay men with female sexual identities in Mexico constitutea protected ’particular social group’ under the asylum statute... and that Geovanm is a member of that group." The Board of |mmigration Appeals had contended that Hemandez-Montiel should return to Mexico, saying he did not estalJlish that he suffered abuse because of his membership in a particular social group. The appellate panel ordered the board to reverse its decision and grant Hernandez- Montiel asylum. Want to get involved? Need to get tested for HIV or a Coming Out Support Group? Call 743=GAYS (4297) Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 1307 E. 38th, 2nd floor by Lamont Lindstrom When I was in highschool, my soon-tobe- Gay friend Carl spent all hi s spare time drawing fantastically elaborated plans for pipe organs. In his sketches, he piled keyboardbehindkeyboardand rank onto rank. (All those pipes and organs, of course, should have gaven me a clue.) Since that year, I have met many Gay guys with considerable creative talents, sometimes eccentrically applied. One friend constructs fantasy Christmas trees. Another designs websites. Another does flower arrangements. Another collects rococo pictures of the Holy Mother. Gays are deeply involved in the fine and less fine arts, from opera and ballet down to cheesy TV programs like Survivor. When the AIDS epidemic was at its worst, activists invented the "Day without Art" which foreshadowed how dull art and culture would be in America should all homosexuals ever pass away. Why all this Gay creativity - creativity which often is frenzied and even odd? Anthropologist Sherry Ortner, drawing on the Frenchfeminist Simone Beauvoir, once proposed that ’Man is to Culture as Woman is to Nature.’ Ortner was seeking a-reason for why, almost everywhere, people value what men do more than they value whatwomen do. She concluded that we associate women with nature, mostly because women have kids. Women are naturally creauve. Men, whose contributions to making babies are momentary at best, and much less embodied, have to express our creativity by other means. Ortner observed thathumans value culture over nature. Culture is what preserves us in nature. It tells us how to make a living off the land. Whereas culture protects, nature kills. Disease, aging, drought, famine, earthquakes and tornados may well be theendofus. Culture also needs continuous reconstruction and cultivation. We have to keep it all going and we have to make sure to pass it down to kids. Given this preference for culture over nature, Ortner concluded that men’s cultural contributions are valued more than women’s natural creativity. Others have also pointed tomasculinejealousy offeminine fertility. Womenunmistakably bring new life out of their bodies. Less natural men are driven to invent culture instead. And we are jealous enough to insist that our male creations - rituals, clubs, political parties, novels, symphonies, paintings, whatever- are somehow better, more noble, and more enduring that just another slobbery child. There is some truth here, too. An ordinary human being lasts little more than three quarters of a century at best. Cultural creations-such as political parties or rituals -may endure for generations. Gay men are particularly engaged in cultural production insofar-as many of us don’t contribute even the minor male donation to human reproduction. Instead of children, we have to live in our art, our books, our sense of style (or maybe our "...Anthropologist Sherry Ortner, drawing on the French feminist Simone Beauvolr, once proposed that ’Man is to Culture as Woman is to Nature.’ Ortner was seeking a reason for why, almost everywhere, people value what men do more than they value what women do..." dogs or cats). This is another instance- as with penis size - where Gays are hypermasculine. Gays who do not reproduce naturally specialize instead in masculine cultural creativity. Some have criticized Ortnerforoversimplifying cross-cultural nuances of male!female power relations. Another sort of complication comes from the fact that many people disbelieve an individual creativity. Everyone, of course, has a theory about where new things come from. But not everyone in the world credits individual creativity, orgenius, or talent for the birth of new things and new ideas. Even in ,our own culture, notions of creativity aren’t that old. The English noun "creativity" only dates back to 1875 or so. Before the modem era - and the triumph of indiw[ dualism - our ancestors talked instead of "inspiration," as others still do today. Once upon a time, the word "’genius" referred to an external spirit who inspired you with new ideas. It did not mean some internal, mental brilliance. Onthe South Pacific island where I once lived, nobody believes in creativity in the sense of some mysterious brainpower. Rather, clever people are those with good ties to the world of ancestral spirits. Nobody believes that men are naturally more or less intelligent, either. New ideas and new firings - if they are worth anything - have to Come via inspi- .ration from the ancestors. Clever people are those with good communicauve links with spirits, not those who claim inborn talent. Men, for instance, who come up with new songs insist that they overhear these in their dreams. Nobody would take credit for composing a song by himself. If he d. 1, how can it be any good? If you simply make up something on your own, it obviously can’t compete with music inspired with spiritual wisdom. But even on this Pacific island, men manasecultural production although they do so by monopolizing the means of inspiration rather than the means of creativity, as is the case here in America. Have a look around at your culture, goodand bad. Most of it is a male production, and a notable ratio of that is Gay male productioLna. mont Lindstrom, Ph.D., teaches anthropology at the University of Tulsa where he can be reached at: lamontlindstrom@ utulsa.edu Hospice ofGreen Country seeks volunteers to help provide care for patients and their families who are dealing with issues of terminal illness. Volunteers help run errands and provide companionship. For more information, call 747-CARE (747-2273). Volunteers are also needed at the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center, 743- GAYS (743-4297), to staff the Pride Store, answer phones, pack boxes, catalogue books and videos. Call for more info. Timothy.W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. Are You Gay or Bisex.u. al? Are You Native American? -Iulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Men’s Support Group is here for ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Call 341; 6866 Int rn.ational ToursSormorein/ormat’on. Massage TherapyS~ Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. Pager: 918-889-5255 Voice Mail: 918-697-9282 Lic. #C4133 Country Cl ab Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm lbody Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing HOLY TRINITY GREEK ORTHODOX CHURCH THUR’SAT 11-11 SUNDAY 11-3 by Karin Gregory, TFN correspondent " With election year just around the cor- ¯ ner, I want to ask you a question: Aren’t " you afraid? Many people want to bury ¯ their heads, but you just can’t this year. It’s too important. Are you registered? Do you know the candidates and what they support, tol - erate, condone, condenm, and deny? Looking athighlights of the Rep.ublican National Convention last month (What-youthought I’d watch the whole thing?), I was interested in many things they pointed out, one of which was the "leave no child behind" theme Bush espoused. Funny, when he was our govemor’for afew months before embarking on his Presidential campaign, his "leave no state behind without a governor" theme didn’twork so well forhim. Make no mistake grrls - this is one Bush you DON’T want to push an)’- where, especially into the ~Zqlite House! Let’s look at the issues facing all of us this year. Many have spoken of a "different kind of Republican" in George W. Bush. Hrnmmm, I wonder. The Republicans made a great showof including as many minorities as they could find on the streets of Philadelphia to join their little convention. Again, great appointing Supreme Court Justices, and Bush has at least one to appoint, if he’s elected. How many of you think he’ll appoint someone who’s sensitive.to Gay civil rights? If anyone if raising ’his/her hand - PUT IT DOWN "...What 1;es were working the floor the week of the i Republican "Convention? ¯ ¯ ¯ Our eonservatlve friends made a b;g deal about inclusion - Hispanies, African Amerieans, the GaylLesbian Community, the Pro-Choieers. Yep, they really want the votes, don’t they? These people were wooed and charmed in front of cameras, but what happened the ,’morning after"? " NOW! UnderBush,manylaws brought about by the Supreme Court, laws which helped to make us a demoeracy, could be overturned~ What would hap: pen if the Roe vs. Wade decision was overturned? It could happen very easily. Andwhat do youthink would happen to the progress of Gay and Lesbian couplelaws that have come about in the last few years? Gays? Lesbians? Able to have rights? Bush already denies that Gays and Lesbians should have "special rights". Read that as "equal rights" and you have the makings of a fascist country. The makings of amanwho would make Charlton Heston look liberal. But there’s another story to this "coupling" of Bush and Dick. Yep, you ’ know what I’m talking about. Or rather, who I’m talking about. It’s the old- i est story around. Weak Texas governor runs for President; weak Texas governor wins primary; weak Texas governor. picks running mate; rtmshow. The Republicans are like that, you know. Every few years they assume a different identity, muchlike a chameleon, so they can get votes by convincing peg.ple they’re something "different" this ttme. Each time (I’m talking Reagan and George, Sr. here) the public has been fooledby the rhetoric, the nicely groomed candidates, and the lies. What lies were working the floor theweekofthe RepublicanConvention?Well, let’ s go back to those people picked from the streets of Philadelphia. Our conservafive friends made a big deal about inclusion- Hispanics, African Americans, the Gay/Lesbian Community, and even the Pro-Choicers. Yep, they really want the votes, don’t they? These people were wooed and charmed in front of cameras, but what happened the "morning after"? Well, the Republicans got together and voted onNOT including same-sex recognition among couples, NOT including Gays in hate crimes legislation, NOT including Gay civil rights of any kind, and NOT including abortion for any reason. Yeah, lies, damn lies¯ Despite all this bravado show of inclusion, the Republican ticket ofGeorgeBush and Dick Cheney already shows aHUGE bias - Bush and Dick. See? They just had to get those "family values" in after all! Many may be wondering why I’m so worried about this election year. George W. Bush is certainly not a strong politician, given the fact he was a Texas governor, the weakest form of governor. And you may be saying, ’He doesn’t make the rules; Congress does." OK, but the President is responsible for ¯ ning mate has Lesbian daughter. WHAT? Dick Cheney, so hell-bent to do every- " thing Conservative in the book, has a Les- ¯¯ bian daughter? What I want to know is ¯ why would this man be a party to a party that denies his daughter equal rights?Why ¯ would she want her father to run in this ¯ party? : On yet another television news pro- " gram, host Cokie Roberts asked Mrs. : Cheney about the possible hypocritical ¯ effects this has on their family. Mrs. : Cheney said her daughter’s lifestyle was a ." "private matter." Well, Mary Cheney has ¯ been very out for many years and has ¯ ¯ worked for Gay civil rights for many years. And I resent Mrs. Cheney saying ¯ that her daughter’s Lesbianism is a "pri- ¯ vate matter" as if the girl has a disease. ¯ ¯ Sounds to me likemomis the sicko here. So why, if homosexuality is such a ¯ private matter, has George W. Bush sup- - ported every anti-gay legislation? If ho- ¯ mo~exuality is a private matter, why does ¯ he thiM: he has the right to tell me with ¯ whom I sleep? Why do the Republicans ¯ want to make such a federal issue out of ¯ such a"private matter"? Is homosexuality " only private to the privileged few, like ¯ Mary Cheney? Or is it a matter that will ¯ decide,muchlike the sexual revolution of ¯ the sixties, the very way people look at ¯ one another in the future? As human be- " ings, not as Gay, Straight, Lesbian, Bi- ¯ sexual, Transgendered, etc., etc., etc. ] You have a decision to make. If you ¯ want ANY possibility of equality, make ¯ sure you are registered. Then make a date ¯ ¯ with yourself to go to a little booth in November. You know what to do. Walk for Life 2000 8th Annual Tulsa AIDS Walk Saturday, Oct. 7, 9:30am Vete ran’s Park, 21 st & Boulder Fo.r more information, call 585-5551. Donations-will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the generosity of -the Elton John AIDS Foundation. 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ROANOKE, Virginia (AP) - A man accused of fatally shooting another man and wounding six "History Books, Straight Sox How-to’s " others inside the Backstreet Cafe, a Gay bar, °n the : TULSA- Prodded by Tulsa City Councilor, Todd Huston, Tulsa " police vice squadofficers visitedBorders Books & Music at 8015 ¯ So. Yale Avenue, selected a number of books, presented them to ¯ store staff and suggested that they "shrinkwrap" those rifles. This : was in response to a constituent complaint made to Huston : according to Charlie Jackson, Deputy Chief, Tulsa Police. ¯ Jackson noted that after the visit to the South Yale Borders ¯ -~ store about which there was a citizen complaint, vice officers of : their own initiative went to the 2740 E. 21stSt. Borders as well ¯ as Barnes & Noble Bookstores at 5231 E. 41st St. and 8620 E. " evening of Sept. 22 has been arraigned on first" degree murder charges. The Commonwealth of Virginia’s Attorney " Donald Caldwell said additional charges such as ~ aggravated malicious wounding or malicious ¯ wounding were possible. Malicious wounding charges carry up to 20 years in prison, whereas ¯ " attempted murder charges carry up to 10 years. Ronald Edward Gay, 53, the man accused in the " " shootings, acted because of long-standing anger at St. where they went through the store selecting books which "He admits to shootingpeople, police investigator "rrial o! Accused o! 71st bookstore staff say the police indicatesd they must shrinkwrap, ° Lt. WilliamAlthoff toldTheWashingtonPost. "He staff also said the officers stated that they were no, Gay Man’s Death Moved " intendingstoreto arrest told us people made fun of his name... He told us anyone, that he was upset about that.’" FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) The first Marion County ¯ Accordingtobookstoresources,TulsapoliceSergeantCalhoun " teen-ager to be tried inthemurder of aGay black man ¯ and Corporal Best of the "sex crimes" unit said that the ¯ willfacejurorsinRaleighCountyinNovember.Marion" shrinkwrapping was required under Oklahoma state statute, title" County Circuit Court Judge Rodney Merrifield late in ¯ 21, 1040.76. This statute regulates the display of materials " SeptembersignedanordermovingDavidAllenParker’s ¯ "harmful to minors" and requires covering materials which ¯ first-degree murder trial to the southern West Virginia : depict "... nudity, sexual contact, sexual excitement, or : county. A copy of the order does not set a trial date, but " sadomasochistic abuse...when thematerial orperformancelacks ’ JudgeMen-ifield’ssecretarysaiditistentativelysched- : seriousliterary, scientific, medical, artistic, or political value for uled for Nov. 15. Merrifield had verbally approved a ¯ minors..." with minors defined as less than 18 years ofage. ¯ change of venue earlier this week after a preliminary : Typically the "shrinkwrap" requirement has been applied to " hearing that has been continued to Oct. 12. ~ sexually oriented magazines such as Playboy, Penthouse, Men, " Lawyers for Parker and co-defendant Jared Wilson, ¯ etc. but not to most books. Chief Jackson claims that the officers did not threaten the ¯ ¯ both .17, had suggested Raleigh County as a possible ¯ venue, arguing media coverage of the murder in north- " bookstore staff with arrest but merely sought their cooperation. central West Virginia has made it too difficult to find " Bookstore sources who’ ve requested to remain anonymous in. impartial jurors. Attorney Stephen"Fitz said Monday ¯ order to protect themselves from retaliation characterized the that Raleigh has a diverse population and probably has ¯ police visit as intimidation- particularly in light 6f the arrests of " had far less exposure to ~e case Prosecutor Richard " several sales clerks for the sale of Penthouse magazines a year or " Bunner did not object to the move. " so ago. They noted that the officer by mentioning that they didnot " Parker and Wilson are charged with beating and ¯ intend to arrest at this time, raised the issue as a possibility and ¯ " kickingtodeath26-year-oldacquaintanceArthur"J.R." ¯ that they felt coerced into cooperating. see Trial, p.3 " see Bookstores, p. Warren on July 4, thejokespeoplemadeofhisl~,tname, police said. Dznny Lee Overstreet, 43, was killed at the scene. One other victim, IrisPageWebb,41,wasin critical condition after being shot in the neck. According to police, Gay went to a tavern that night and asked directions to the nearest Gay bar, telling people he wanted to shoot Gays. Someone gavehimdirectionsandimmediatelycalledpolice, whowerelookingforGaywhentheshootingreport came in. John W. Collins, 39, was one of those wounded. Collins told the Post that the gunfire erupted just after he and Overstreet, a friend, hugged. Gay "stood up as I was letting go of the hug, and he was turning and he was also reaching into his black trench coat," said Collins, who was shot in the stomach. "I saw the gun come out of his pocket... Everything was like in a millionth of a second.’" Gay left the bar after the shootings but was later found by police about two blocks away. Officers found a 9 mm pistol in a trash can near the bar. see Shooting, p.3 Center To Hold Local HRCEvents HRC: More Benefits Gay Grand Re-opening WASHINGTON (AP) - More employers - including more than a fifth of Fortune 500 companies - are offering health insurance ¯ Law Group to Hold Hate Crimes Panel coverage to the partners of Gay employees, according to a report ¯ TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa Oklahomans for Human by a Gay civil rights group. " Rights (TOHR) will hold a Grand Opening event The study, by the Washington-based Human Rights Cam- ¯ for the recently relocated Tulsa Gay Community paign, found that 3,572 companies, colleges and states and local ¯ Services Center on Friday, October 20 at 7pro. The governments offered or have announced they would offer health ¯ new location is 2114 So. Memorial adjacent to insurance covering their employees’ domestic partners. This was : longtimeLesbianbar,TNT’ s. TOHR’ s also will be like to send voter registration volunteers to any event or ¯ up 25% from a year ago, when 2,856 employers extended such ¯ holding a "garage" sale to benefit the Center on benefits. organization andasks that organizers again call 584.2918. ." Saturday, Oct. 14 from 8am-noon. Donations of The findings were included in the group’ s annual "State of the ¯ For Halloween this year, HRC is sponsoring two" goods are welcome and may be dropped off at the performences of Helga’ sHorribles, in "Scenes from ¯ Wor,k~,lace for Lesbian, Gay, B isexual and Transgendered Ameri - ¯ Center before the sale. Little Shop of Horrors" at Renegades on Sun, October ¯ cans. On Oct 14, TOHR will also sponsor a Feast for ¯ 29 at 3pro and again at 7pro. Tickets are $10 each and ," "Domestic partner benefits are increasingly becoming a stanFriends dinner to benefit The NAMES PROJECT. proceeds benefit HRC-Tulsa. Renegades is also a " dard business practice in corporate America," said Kim I. Mills, ¯ The dinner, called "Tulsa - The Center of the sponsor and there will be a cash bar. You must be 21yo. " education director of the Human Rights Campaign. "Employers Universe" will be al fresco at the downtown sculpSeating is limited to only 100persons at each perfor- ¯ have discovered that these benefits hdp attract and keep the best ¯ ture entitled, ’’The Center of the Universe" located mance. Reservations may be guaranteed by mail to ¯ workers, a critical consideration in the current tight job market." : next to the Old U~ion Station on the pedestrian The report called a "landmark move" the announcement in ¯ bridge. The dinner is $20 and reservations may be 1107 E. 19th, Tulsa, OK 74120 or by credit card over the ." ¯ phone. Organizers promise big drag, big hair, big voices ¯ June by Big Three domestic automakers - DaimlerChrysler, made by calling 743-4297. Those who just want to General Motors and Ford - and the United Auto- Workers that & big fun - ’cuz size matters! ¯ ¯ attend the dessert finale may go the Allan Chapman HRC also is sponsoring an election watch party at ¯ domestic-partner benefits would be offered to their more than Activity Center at the University of Tul s a at 8:30pro. 400,000 employees. ’’This marked the first time that virtually an 9pm on Tuesday, November 7 at the fabulous I.D. Bar A $10 donation is requested. on Brookside at 3340 S. Peoria (formerly Concessions). ¯ entire sector of American commerce, along with its leading : TOHR will also present a National Coming Out There will be multiple video screens to monitor the ¯ union, decided collectively to provide domestic partner benDay (NCOD) panel at its monthly membership ¯ meeting on Oct. 10 at 7:30pm, and at TU on election returns and lots of hot music to enjoy while the " efits," the report said. ¯ Fortune 500 companies offering or planning to offer domestic ¯ Thursday, Oct. 12, the University of Tulsa College future is determined. There will be a $10 cover charge, but that will drop to only $5 if you are wearing the "I ¯¯ partner benefits increased from 70 in August 1999 to 102 last ¯ of Law Lesbian Gay Bi Trans Law Caucus will month. In addition, 41 of the top 50 companies in America ’ sponsor a Hate Crimes Panel discussion from noon voted" sticker. ¯ prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation, the report Lastly, HRC is always looking for new members. - 2 p.m. The panel, which will be held in TU’s Moot ¯ said. Membership runs $35. Info: 584.2913. ¯ Court Room of John Rogers Hall located at Fourth -" "All the signs point to private and public employers continuing ¯ Place and Florence Avenue, will address the valid¯ to institute nondiscrimination policies and domestic partner " ity of Hate Crimes legislation, opposition to the P. 2 DIRECTORY : benefits," the study said. However, it noted that there is no federal P. 3 EDITORIAL ¯ law prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, nor is ¯ Hate Crimes Prevention Act and other topics of ". relevance. Linda Lacey, a TU college of law proP. 4 US & WORLD NEWS there one in 39 states, although President Bill Clinton issued an , fessor, will moderate. ¯ P. 6 HEALTH NEWS executive order in 1998 prohibiting such discrimination in the The program is free and open to the public. For ¯ ¯ federal civilian work force. P. 8 ENTERTAINMENT ¯ more information, call Courtney Sdby at 836¯. The number of cities and counties that prohibit discrimination : 9107. P. 10 GAY STUDIES based on sexual orientation rose from 16 in 1980 to 116 in 2000. TULSA- Local Human Rights Campaign (HRC) activ ists in cooperation with the national organization are encouraging voter registration drive up fill October 13. Those interested in registering can stop by Democratic party headquarters, Republican party headquarters, the offices of the League of W0men Voters, any tag agency, the Tulsa County Election Board (No; Denver at Edison). Call for more information at 584.2918. HRC would also �Scouting~for All Opposes the 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants "Scout’s Honor Act" POB 4140, Tulsa. OK 74159 712-2324 : *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 Congressman Tom Tancredo of Coloe-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink.net 610-5323 *CW’ s, 1737 S. Memorial rado has introduced counter-legislation, 583-2119 : *Club Cherry Bomb,. 1926 E Pine Publisher + Editor: currently being referred to as the Scouts Tom Neal 835-2376 : *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan Honor Act (H.B. 5306). The bill was 744-4280...; Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square introduced along with twenty-three coWriters + contributors: *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 ¯ sponsors, on T.Uesday, Sept. 26 James Christjohn, Karin Gregory, Barry Hensley, J.-P. 834-4234 : *The Star, 1565 Sheridan Accorditi~ to AFA (editor’s note: Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom Esther Rothblum, Mary 585-3405 : *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main Amerfcah "F~mily Association, a right¯ 660-0856 Schepers, Hughston Walkinshaw *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial wing lobbying group) Director of Gov584-1308 ¯ *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd ernmental Affairs PatrickTrueman,"AFA Member of The Associated Press 749-1563 *The Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th suppo.r.ts Colorado Rep. Tancredo’s, ..... l~U~d bh’o~lsdfbre the lit of ~gcti month; th~~ritite contents Tulsa Businesses, ServiCeb~ & pi’ofessiohals Scouts Honor Act, which prohibits the "Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 i Use of federal funds to discriminate against, of thi~ °publication are protected by US copyright 1998 by ¯ 250,503:4 Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 investigate, or deny access to public propT~,~" ~:~ N~v~ and may not be reproduced either in 665-4580 : Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231 E.-41 " erty or facilities to the Boy Scouts of 712-1122 -" Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 whole or in part without written permission from the pub¯ America. In addition, the bill says that no 712-9955 " *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 entity that accepts federal funds can comlisher. Publicafi0n of a name or photo does not indicate a 494-2665 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale pel the Boy Scouts to accept members ¯ who do not share their beliefs.’" 743-5272 ~ person’ s sexual orientation. Correspondenceis assumed to be Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria 746-0313 " for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria The Scout’s Honor Act would protect 295-5868 *Cheap Thrills,.2640 E. 1 lth the BSA who dearly identifies as an orgabecomes the sole property of T~,~ /z~ N~v,~ Each ¯ Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 nization that discriminates against gay ¯ youth and adults and atheists to not be 622-0700 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker r~ader is. entitled to 4 copies of each editionat distribution Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 ~ denied access to public facilities or fund749-3620 points. Additional Copies are available by ~1"1~’583-1248. *De,co to Disco, 3212 E. 15th ing. 744-5556 ¯ Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria How can-we allow our tax dollars to 583~-6611 838-8503 " HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. Page Blvd. *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan ¯ support an organization that professes big834,4194 369-8555 ¯ *Tulsa C.A:R.E.S., 3507 E. Admiral Encompass Travel, 13161H N.Memorial otry against a segment of our society.’? 48 1-1111 584-0337, 712-9379 ~ Holland Hall School, 5666-E. 81 st Ross Edward Salon Tiffs is unthinkable and should not be 834-8378 592-0460 : HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Educauon Events Unlimited, 507 S. Main tolerated. Scouting For All asks that you 744-9595 " *House of the Holy Spirit Minstries, 1517 S. Memorial 224-4754 Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria speak out LOUD to oppose this ACT!!!! 838-1715 ¯ 610-0880 " *MCC 7United, 1623 N. Maplewood Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th PI. Rep.Tancredofeels thatifhecangetmany 748-3111 628-3709 NAMES Project, 3507 E Admiral PI. Cathy Furlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. ¯ more sponsors on thebill, the Houselead365-5658 808-8026 " NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare . ership may bring it to the floor for a vote. 742-1460 " OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 7415~ *Gloria Jean’ s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st ." Encourage your congressperson not to 459-9349 :;--*OSU~Tulsa Leanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning ¯ support- the bigoted Scout’s Honor Act! 749-4901 744-7440 ..... PFI~G, POB 52800, 74~52 :;~_~. ¯ Mark T. Hamby, Attorney ¯ ACTION NEEDED: Contact your 587-7674 *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. skelly 745-1111 " *.Planned Parenthood, 1007 SYffeoria member of Congress immediately and 341-6866 ; Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 *International Tours ask that he or she not support the Scouts 749-4195 ~¯ 712-2750 ; R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th Honor Act which is an Act supporting 584-2325 582-3018 ¯ *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 . *Jared’s Antiques.. 1602 E. 15th , bigotry in our society. Contact your Rep425-7882 747-0236 : St. Aidan’s Epis(opalChurch, 4045 N. Cincinnati David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering resentative by calling the capitol switch492-7140 582-8460 " St. Dunstan’s Episcopal, 5635 E:-71.st The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening board at (202) 225-3121. 582-3088 ~ Scouting For All also encourages you 599-8070 ¯ St. Jerome s Parish Church, 205 W. King *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 583-7171 74%5466 " *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 ; to send Rep. Tancredo a note telling him 585-1234 " *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 *Living ArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha .... thathis actions are disgusting and support 595-4105 ¯¯ 584-3112 "- Tulsa County Health Department, 46 16 E. 15 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd bigotry in America. He should be advo663-5934 ’ Confidential HIV Testing -~by appt. on Thursdays only Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 cating that the BSA discontinue its dis664-2951" Tulsa Olda. for Human Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place criminatory policy against our Gay youth 838-7626 : T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo and Gay adults and also atheists. His ac743-4297 " *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule *The Pride Store tions are a disgrace. Write to: 747-5932 *Tulsa Community College Campuses Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 - tom.tancredo @mail .house. gov 743-4297 834-0617 ; " *Tulsa Gay Community Center, 1307E.38,74105 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning - Scott Cozza,president, Scouting For All 749-8833 834-79,21, 747-4746 " Unity Church of Christianity,3355 S. Jamestown www.scoutingforall.org Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 749-6301, ". BARTLESVILLE Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 260-7829 . Bartlesville PublieLibrary, 6!30 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 Paul Tay, Car Salesman Log ~Cabin Republicans 481-0558 : OKLAHOMA CITY/NORMAN *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis to Bill Clinton 835-5563 .. Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard 743-1733 ¯ Borders Books & Music, 3209 NW Expressway 405~848-2667 Thefollowing is the text ofa letterfrom Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Rich Tafel, executive director ofLog Cabin 665~2222 "¯ Borders Books.& Music~ 300 Norman Center 405-5734907 *Whereh0use Music, 5150 S. Sheridan Republicans, to President Bill Clinton on 592-0767 " TAHLEQUAH *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis ¯ Stonewall League, call for information: - ’~i8456-7900 the issue offunding the AIDS Drug Assiswebsite for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians www.gaytulsa.org -9t8:456-7900 Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church tance Program. Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities 918-453-9360 September 27, 2000 579-9593- ¯ Green.Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 AIDS Walk Tulsa; POB 4337, 74101 -o .NSU School of Optometry, 1001N. Grand Dear Mr. President: 743-2363All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria~ HIVtesfing every other Tues. 5:30:8:30~ ~tll for dates I am writing to you again on an ~ssue of 587-7314 " Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 great importance to millions of AmeriEUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS 583:7815 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207E. 6 cans -~funding for theAIDS Drug Assis501-253 -7734 583~9780 ¯ Autumn Br~,e~,ze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 B/L/G/T Allian0p, univ: of Tulsa United Min: Ctr. .... 50i 1253-"]4_47’ ’ tanc~ Program in theRyatr~White CARt~ Jini & Breht "S Bisttt, I73 S. Main Chamber of -comm~ide- Bld~:," 616 ~s. B6st6fi .... 585-1201 Act. Since 1995, we have consistently 501-253-6807 ¯ Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th Pl. & Florence -" DeVito,’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. ¯ asked your Administration to ensure that 501-253-5445 587-1314 " Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood 501-253-9337 ¯ your annual budget requests reflect the 747:6300 MCC of the Living Spring ¯ Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale 501:253-27761 : real ne~ds in. the ADAP program; and Geek toGo!,PC Specialist, POB 429 ¯ Community UnitarianzUniversalist Congregation 749-0595 unfortunately your .bUdgets have fallen 501.-253-5332 748-3888 " " Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery Council O~ ~en’s Cl~6rale drastically short each and every year, and 50i-624-6646 712-1511 ¯ Positive Idea Marketing Hans ¯ Delawar~Playhouse;-15il S. Delaware each year the Republican Congress! has 501-253-6001 742-2457 ¯ Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East ¯ Democratic Headquarteis, 3930 E: 31 put millionS:ofMollars more into the pro501-253-4074 White Light, 1 Center St. Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa - Lesbian & Gay Catholics & ¯ 355-3140 " , gram to ansv¢~¢~ the call. This year, your Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 JOPLIN, MISSOURI 747-7777 ¯ Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 : budget request fell short again. ¯ Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard ¯ In your budget request for Fiscal Year ¯ FrceSpirit’Women’sCenter, callforlocation&info: 587-4669 ¯ ~ 2001, you asked for a $26millionincrease 747-6827 " Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 582-0438 * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. ~ in ADAP funding, while the projected Friends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 ¯ need was higher, see Letters, p.3 �¯ Censorship Through Inti midation ¯ by Tom Neal, editor & publisher Unfortunately, theneed has only increased since then. The recent visits by Tulsa police to local booksellers ¯¯ Amendment, by merely showing up in the stores identiThanks to the enactment of an important minority OUtraise very serious concerns about censorship, grand or fying themselves as law officers and requesting limiting reach program, spearheaded by the Congressional Black petit, direct or indirect, by our local government. ." access to these materials, Tulsa police succeeded in Caucus, enrollment in the ADAP program by minority The method used is frankly ingenious in skirting First ¯ obtaining the collaboration of the booksellers. And if they patients has increased throughout the year. This has Amendment protections as it depends on intimidation to ¯¯ self-censor, then the police never have to prove their case, given tremendous hope to so manyAmericans with HIV accomplish that which it is not legal to do otherwise. they never have to be held responsible for their probable that they will have access to life-savittg treatments cnrWhat I mean is that even though most, if not all of the ¯ misapplication of an Oklahoma statute. renfly out of reach. Overall, state and territorial AIDS materials which Tulsa police collected in the stores are _" Note that the police claimed they were not seeking to directors have reported that the projected national need clearly protected under the U.S. Constitution’s First .. make any arrests during these visits, see Censor, p.9 ftr ADAP will be closer to $130 million more than the previous year. Your budget request will not cover this additional need, and many of these new enrollees may face lotteries, rationing or simply a closed door. The Republican Congress has carried the ADAP program every year, despite the failure of leadership from your Administration. I respectfully ask again, Mr. President, that you become an active participant in meeting the ADAP needs for so many Americans with HIV/AIDS, AI Gore and submit a request to Congress for an increase of $130 ! b~All through the years of our nail on’ s hi s tory, the American dream has unfolded with a deeper meaning. Today, i t i s million for this life-saving program in your Statement of : a mystery that Thomas Jefferson could have written the powerful and inspiring words of our Declaration of Principles before budget negotiations end for the year. : Independence ~. and not free his slaves. Today, it is a mystery that our founders in Philadelphia could have written the I appreciate your urgent consideration of this issue. United States Constitution ? yet not allowed women to vote. Yet America has taken the inner meaning and power of - Sincerely, Rich Tafel, executive director our founding documents, and given them new life in each generation. "It sounded like firecrackers at first," said a woman who said she was sitting in a booth when the shooting began. She asked not to be identified for fear she might lose.her job. "I looked up and saw people falling to the ground," she said. "You could feel the wind off the bullets, they were so close." Darlene Overstreet, Danny Overstreet’ s sister, said her brother, who was Gay, visited the Back Street Cafe often. He worked as a telephone operator and lived alone in a house with his poodle. "He was a wonderful person. He helped everybody," Darlene Overstreet said. "He just stopped by to have a beer, that’ s all." Members of the Washington-based National Gay and Lesbian Task Force came to Roanoke for a candlelight vigil after the shooting. Flowers, cards and balloons were placed outside the bar by members of the community. Mayor Ralph Smith saidat a news conference after the event. ’T m shocked and saddened by this terrible, terrible crime .... Any time one member of our community : is hurt, we all suffer by that same hand." ¯ ." ¯ ¯ ¯ NEW SUPREHES? Nationat Coming Out D~, Oct. 11 - E|ecUon Da!/, Nov. 7 El HUMAN RIGHTS COME OUTVOTING .* www.hrc.org I believe very deeply that the time has come in America to widen the circle of fairness and dignity to include our ~friends, neighbors, ct-workers, and relatives in the gay and lesbian community. I am running for President to fight for all the people. That is why the ideals of fairness, equal opportunity, and non-discrimination are at the very heart of my campaign for President. In the past seven years, we have taken.great strides. We have appointed the first openly gay and lesbian people to high-ranking posts in our nation’ s history. We have made our government the largest employer in the world with a then nmning over him with a car to disguise his injuries : strong non-discriminati0n policy covetingsexual orientation. We have boosted funding for AIDS research, prevention, ¯ and treatment. We have created a new White House- Office of. National AIDS Policy. We fought insurance as a hit-and-rtm. ¯ In his order changing the venue, Merrifield cited a vigil .discrimination against people with pr~--~xi~fing conditions We help~l more people with HIV-AIDS get access to health for Warren that drew more than 500 people to the courthouse steps days after the murder. The rally also attracted ¯ ! am.personallY very ~)roud tO have beenthe first Vice President ever to speak at a public event with a gay rights national Gay- and civil-rights activists and an anti-Gay organization. I believe it is partly because of that record and commitment that I have been endorsed by gay andlesbian group from Kansas. ¯ leaders and civil rights organizations across this cduntry. But ]~don’ t want to rest on that record ? I want to build on it. News organizations .have since saturated the region ¯ When people filled with hate target Gaysadd Lesbi~ang, Jews;Blacks, Latinos, and Asian-Americans, it is clear that with coverage in newspapers, and on radio and television, hate Crimes are notjust like other erimes: As President, with your help, I will.lead the fight for a tough law to stiffen Merrifield said. The Dominion Post of Morgantown and the penalties for crimes~of hate the Times-West Virginian of Fairmont have each file& We need to do morb th battle HIV and AIDS 9 here at home and around the world..At the beginning of this.year, I more than 25 stories, he said. "Nearly. all of these newshad the opportunity tO address the United-Nations Security Council about the threat that AIDS poses to the stability and paper articles have been located on the front page and, in security of AfriCa and the world: As President, withy0ur help; I will lead a worldwide effort to fight HIV and AIDS. fact, most of these articles have been thelead story for that I believe we must takebold stepsto~give all.ourpe0p!ethe best health care in the.world. We need to dedicate ourselves particular day," Merrifiel~d wrot~ T.I~.~voe~ag¢ ,has con~ to provide access ,to.qua!ity heal~ coverage.to every.child and extend coverage to millions of adults by~ ~e:et~d 9f ~e ne~t t~residenfial term. :we need tO-~,tnfinue resear~into-HIV and AIDS and ~r~;clde ad~quat~ fhh~ng fdr i~."’~ riced rained detailed infOiinafion~ about tbe.inv~ti~afion°and clearly illustrates that many Marion County residents to give real prescription drug benefit to senioi:sand people with disabilitie.s who are on Medicare. We need a strong, enforceable Patients’ Bill of Rights because it’ s time that we take the medical decisions away from "have become emotionally involvedin this case and have prejudged:the defendant’s guilt," he said. ~ the HM.O accountants and insurance company bureaucrats, and give them back to the doctors, nurses, and health care Parkerhas already confessed to beating.Warr,en~but the ~ professionals. Americans:deserv.e the best health care, not just the cheapest.. " .... ~ ~’. ’ ’ ~ ...... We must also take strong new action to ban discrimifiation andmake sure every Americhn can re~iz~hi~.:6~ her judge has ~yet to d~eide:~w.hether jurors will hear that ¯ confession.~ In his Statement-to Sheriff" s Detective C.L. ~. potential. As President, I will re-issue the executive order banning discrimination in the federal w0J:kfo~ce. An’d i Will "Chip" Phillips; Parker admitted beating Warren after ¯ fight to pass the Employee Non-Discrimination Act, which will prohibit job discrimination on the basis of sexual discovering he had-toldrothe~ peo.p!.¢, about a sexual ¯ orientation. relationship he claimed to have with.~Parker. Wilson told In this campaign, there are real differences on these basic issues of fairness. My Republican opponen.t strongly Phillips that he went along with the beating because he ¯ opposes hate crimes legislation. He opposes a simple law to outlaw discrimination in hiring, firing, and promotion based was afraid of Parker, who had threatened to beat him, too. ¯ on sexual orientation, In fact, right now, in Texas and in 38 other states, you can be legally fired just because of your But defense teams argue that both boys’ confessions : sexual orientation. If I am entrusted with the Presidency, we will fight to correct that injustice. were improperly obtained. They say neither was in- ¯ The stakes are enormous in this election. We know what will happen if the Republicans take back the White House. formed of his right to an immediate juvenile detention ¯ And America cannot afford to go back to the neglect and divisiveness of the Bush-Quayle years. hearing. They also contend Phillips delayed moving the ¯ Instead, we must move forward to create the America of ~.highest ideals. That is why I need your help and your boys from Grant Town to the courthouse so he could dicit hard work. Join with me in this campaigii~and together we will win not just vttes, but powerful new victori~s.~oi dignity the confessions. Phillips denies any wrongdoing. �Lesbian Wins Visitations Idaho PFLAG Chapter PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - The Rhode Island state Supreme Court last month recognized new rights for Gay and Lesbian couples raising children. In a 3-2 decision, the court ruled that Concetta DiCenzo could not prevent her former partner Maureen Rubano from asking the Family Court for the right to visit the son they raised together. The decision gives de facto-"in fact" - parents the same rights to petition for visitation as biological and adoptive parents. "The fact that DiCenzo not 0nly gave birth to this child but also nurtured him from infancy does not mean that she can arbitrarily terminate Rubano’ s de facto parental relationship with the boy, a relationship that DiCenzo agreed to and fostered for many years," Justice Robert Flanders wrote in the majority opinion. The ruling was based on state law allowing any interested party to "bring an action to determine the existence or nonexistence of a mother and child relationship." The justices also noted the Family Court has jurisdiction over cases involving the paternity of children born out of wedlock. Attorney Cherrie Perkins, who represented Rubano, a 53-year-old professor of clinical psychiatry at the medical school at the Unive,~sity of Massachusetts, said her client cried when she heard of the ruling. "She’ s now not on thin ice any more. She’ s on pretty solid ground," Perkins said. DiCenzo’ s attorney, Rosina Hunt, said the ease has drained her client emotionally and financially. "The big thing for her is she wants to keep her son in a Stable home and she doesn’ t want to go through this," Hunt said. Similar cases began surfacing in courts around the country in the late 1980s and early 1990s, and claims by "co-parents" generally were rejected, said attorney Mary Bonauto of Gay &’Lesbians Advocates & Defenders of Boston, which filed a brief in support of Rubano. Recently, however, courts in a handful of states, including Massachusetts and New Jersey, have decided to recognize the legal status of non-biologi~ cal parents. "This decision puts Rhode Island in line with the majority of recent decisions on the topic, although this is an issue that is still hotly contested among the states," said Bonauto, who lead the fight to legalize same-sex civil umons in Vermont. Rubano and DiCenzo decided tO have a child together while they were living in Millville, Mass. DiCenzo underwent artificial insemination from an anonymous sperm donor and on Dec. 15, 1991, DiCenzo gave birth to aboy. The couple sent out birth announcements identifying them both as the child’ s parents, and had the last name of Rubano-DiCenzo listed on both the birth and baptismal certificates. The couple raised the child together for several years and the boy called Rubano her "heart room." In 1996, the pair split up and DiCenzo, now 43, moved to Cumberland. The next year, the two signed a Family Court consent order that granted Rubano permanent visitation rights on a periodic basis. In exchange Rubano waived "any claim or cause of action she has or may have to recognition as a parent of the minor child." But then DiCenzo, believing Rubano’ s visits were "disruptive and confusing" to the boy, told Rubano that no further visitations would be permitted. Rubano appealed to Family Court, asking a judge to enforce the earlier order. DiCenzo argued the Family Court lacked jurisdiction to eater the order in the first place. The Family Court, unsure how to proceed, requested that the Supreme Court rule on the case. Perkins believes the decision clears the way for the Family Court to allow visitation. Hunt expressed coneeru that the finding may pave the way for third party parent claims from grandpareats, ex-boyfriends and others. The General Assembly may want to consider changing the law, she said. But Perkins said she sees the ruling as a boon to both Gays and heterosexuals. "You could be somebody’ s second wife or husband and essentially raise their children and if you got divorced, you could have no rights," Perkins said. "We think that the court was actually looking for a way to redress alot of holes in the law because’ families are changing over time and this was maybe the ease to do it." Make Case for Inclusion SANDPOINT, Idaho (AP) --The area’ s Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays chapter will make its proposal to join the town’ s list of credible commtmity organizations. The organization hosted the ACLUsponsored slide show and talk, "The Gay Life in Idaho: Idaho’ s Little T01d History," created by Alan Virta, head of the Boise State University library’s special collections. "It’ s amazing what you find here and there in the official records," he s aid. "S ometimes trial transcripts give a lot of information." Virta’s 45-minute show includes Idaho’s reaction to the 1895 Oscar Wilde trial in London - the playwright was charged with homosexuality -and the 1955 boys of Boise scandal, a homosexual witchhum. Parents Jim and Barbara Hansen started the Sandpoint Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They say that, so far, they have not been the targets of harassment in an area of Idaho typically known for its conservatism. "I find this a very open-minded community," Jim Hansen said. "There’s more suppoyt, strokes, affirmations here than I ever thought possible. That keeps me going.’" Michigan College Offers Partner Benefits MARQUETTE, Mich. (AP) - Northern Michigan University faculty members have ratified a three-year contract that gives them 3.5% annual pay increases and same-sex domestic partner health benefits. The contract for the Northern Michigan chapter of the American Association of University Professors was ratified by a 159-33 vote, The Mining Journal reported. The union has about 290 members. The university’ s board of control is to consider the agreement Oc~ 6. Other changes include retirement contributions of 15.64% of annual salary, and extension of health insurance benefits to same-sex domesuc partners. Gay Games 2002: Anyone Can Compete SYDNEY, Australia (AP) - For those who’ ve dreamed of competing in the Olympics but failed to meet the athletic requirements, there’ s still hope: they can sign up for the Sydney 2002 Gay Games. The event is open to everyone. "There is no minimum standard required to participate," Game Gibson, chief executive officer of the Sydney Gay Games, noted. "No one is excluded, regardless of gender, sextmlity, race or physical ability." Organizers expect the two-week event, which includes a weeklong cultural.festival and opens Oct. 25, 2002, to attract over 14,000 participants from at least 78 countries. There are more than 10,000 athletes ¯ competing in the Olympics. Gibson also said the Gay Games, whiCh will attract mostly Lesbian, Gay, Transgender and Bisexual competitors, have found their biggest sponsor. San Francisco-based Gay.com, an online supplier of services to the homosexual community, has entered into a $1.5 million agreement to be the event’ s official. Internet media sponsor,.he said. The competition, which will run from Nov..3 to Nov. 9, 2002, has 31 sports; some with a distinctive Australian flavor, chairwoman Colette Steer said, including netball and touch rugby. But other sports on the agenda include Olympic events such as badminton, baseball, athletics, field hockey, tennis, swimming and volleyball. The sports will be held in two main zones - Olympic Park and around Sydney Harbor. As well as the official sports, the sixth edition of the Gay Games will feature exhibition events such as surfing and surf lifesaving, dragon boat racing and what organizers are calling "mind games" - ehes s, bridge, backgammon and mahjong. Steer played softball in the 1998 Gay Games in Amsterdam. She recalled with emotion waving he,r "little pink flag, as one does" ~t the Gay Games opening ceremony. The Gay Games are "an opportunity to celebrate what we are.., and to enjoy ourselves a United in God’s Love MCC.United Sunday Worship 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, SundaySchool, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Servic~ 6pm 1517 S. 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Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You in that fiee and open--and tolerant environment," Gibson said. Over 15,000 people competed in the Amsterdam Gay Games. The first Gay Games were held in 1982 in San Francisco. Organizers said the influx of nearly 35,000 visitors to Sydney for the games and festival will inject about $55 million into the region’ s economy. On the Net: www.Gaygamesvi.org.au Gov. Ventura to Offer Partner Benefits ST. PAUL (AP) - If his administration moves forward with a plan to provide benefits for domestic partners of state employees, Gov. Jesse Ventura would demand proof of a committed relationship, he said in September. "There will be documentation signed; there will be contractual things that will go on between these people," Ventura said. "It’s not like a fly-by-night relationship, where, ’Gee I met someone in the bar and now I’m going to make them a domestic partner for a week and a half.’ " Few other details emerged about the possible extension of health and insurance benefits to domestic partners, a still-in-the-works proposal Venture’ s ad.. ministration disclosed recently. Employee Relations Commissioner Julien Carter said if the proposal is confined to same-sex couples only, he expects it to affect about 1% of the state’s 53,000-member workforce, or 530 employees. It’s not clear if heterosexual domestic partners would be covered. "There are a series of decisions to be made and that definition of domestic partner is one of them," said Ventura’ s spokesman, John Wodele. If heterosexuals are included, Carter said his department’s best estimate is that 3% of employees would take advantage of that arrangement. "We just don’ t know for sure what the best planning number is, but it seems to be in (he ballpark," he said. Ventura stressed during his weekly radio show that the state needs to do something to stay competitive with the private sector: Both are fighting to attract new employees in a tight labor market. "What are they going to pick?" Ventura said of prospective hires. "They" re going to pick the company that gives them the best benefits, the best working conditions. That’ s what this issue is greatly about." Even before Venmra’s staff finalized the plan, conservative lawmakers discounted its chances. "I don’t think it’s going to fly," said state Rep. Tony Kielkucki, R-Lester Prairie. "He’ s got more support for unicameral than he has for this one." An effort failed this year to get a constitutional amendment On the ballot for a one,house Legislature. Vermont, Hawaii, Oregon, Washington. and Massachusetts offer benefits to domestic partners, according to OutFront Minnesota, an advocacy group for Gay, Lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities. Fort Worth city council mulls ban on Gay bias FORT WORTH-, Texas (AP) - For the third time in eight years, a measure that would protect sexual orientation under Fort Worth’s anti-discrimination law is being discussed by.members of thecity council. The current drive to add sexual orientation is being led by Councilman Chuck Silcox; a conservative Republican who ended discussions of a similar proposal in January 1999. Under the proposal,. Gays and .-Lesbians would be added to the list of protected cl~S in Fort Worth’ s anti-discrimination ordinance. The list already indudes race, creed, color, religion, gender, disability, national origin and family status. City officials said violation of the anti-discrimination ordinance is a .nfisdemeanor. !n recent editio~as of the For/~’orth Star-Tdegram. Sitcox said his posit~o,? on tee issue changed after was approached by a Fort \Vor{h man who lost Ms job after .his employer discovered he was Gay "I didn" realize we had the kind of problems out there that we do," Silcox said. "I doff t like the idea t~hat people are losing jobs over this. Anytime there is discrimination, we need to draw the line." Nebraska Amendment to Outlaw Gay Marriages KEARNEY, Neb. (AP) - The chief supporter and an opponent of a state ban on same-sex marriages predicted extremely different outcomes if the proposed constitutional amendment is approved by voters in November. The predictions varied from prohibiting homosexual couples from adopting children to outlawing all business partnerships between two people of the same sex. Initiative 416 would define marriage in Nebraska as a relationship between only a man and wo~nan, and prohibit any "civil union, domestic partnership or other similar same-sex relationship." At a sometimes-heated fonun before the state’s daily newspaper editors, an opponent of the measure argued that it is poorly written and threatens the legality of all relationships between two people of the same sex, such as business partnerships,joint ownerships and contractual agreements. "Passage of the amendment will lead to years of litigation that will be costly to the state and its taxpayers," said Linda Richenberg of Nebraska Advocate for Justice and Equality. The amendment would simply prohibit same-sex marriages from being recognized by the state, said Guyla Mills, chairwoman of the Defense of Marriage Amendment Committee, which collected more than the required 105,000 signatures to put the question on the ballot. Mills said many constitutional lawyers have reviewed the ballot language and say it is clear on its intent. "This amendment is not about taking rights away from anybody. It is about protecting the time-honored tradition of marriage," Mills said. Under the measure, homosexual couples - including someone who works for state government or the University of Nebraska system would be prevented from sharing state insurance benefits. It also would prevent Gay and Lesbians from adopting children. She said it will not impact the insurance providers in the state or the insurance policies of private businesses and corporations. Richenberg argued that if voters approve the ban. Nebraska will earn a reputalaon as a hostile place to work and live, prompting an exodus of ho~nosexuals and their families who have been productive members of the state’ s work force. "We don’ t want to see anyone leave the state because of this," Mills said. "We just don’ t think a minority of people should have the right to redefine marriage for everybody." Mills pointed out several times that both of the state’s senate candidates, Republican Don Stenberg and Democrat Ben Nelson, plan to vote in support of the same-sex marriage ban. Richenberg said the amendment is unnecessary in a conservative state like Nebraska, where there is not a push to legalize same-sex unions. "A vote against 416 is not going to legalize same-sex marriages," she said. "Same-sex marriages do not exist in Nebraska, and there will be no change." The forum was sponsored by the Nebraska Associated Press Association. Lesbian Denied Right to . Legally Change Name NEWARK, N.J. (AP) - A Lesbian who wanted to hyphenate her na03e to in.cldde ’that of hbr longume partner i’s @pealing the decision of a judge who said a name change would create the impression the two women were married. The American Civil Liberties Umon of New Jersey has appealed Superior Court Judge Anthony J. Iuliani’s decision ~o deny Jill Bacharach’s application ’ to change her name. At a hearing m Augus|o !uliani deniext fi~e Cedar Grove woman’ s petiti-’,~, sayi~g he feared it wo~d create the appem’a~m~ that she and imr female ,~artner were roamed, said ACLU staff{" attorney J.C. :~Nver. Sam.esex uNons ~z,: not !egaily recogxfizcd in ~iew Jersa y arid in every state except. Vermont. "I have ~ever expecied this sort of discrimination from a court of taw’y said Bacharach, 32. Salver said the judge’ s concern about the appearance of a same-sex union is an improper basis to deny a name change. . . see Name, p. 7 �Not EnoUgh Dollars :" m~nt in emergency rooms, wbich is more expensive than standard care. Emergency For Homeless Sick rooms also don’ t offer AIDS patients the Financial Planning With A Clear Commitment= counseling that could hdp decrease the NEW YORK (AP) - They carry their spread of HIV. life’ s possessions on withering backs and Bailey House, one of many nonprofit At American Express Financial Advisors, we want to make our hide death within their broken bodies. Commitment to gay men and lesbians clear. Just as we have extended domestic partner Some spent an entirelifetime on the streets, ¯ groups that assist the city in serving the benefits to our lesbian and gay employees worldwide, we are committed to providing homeless AIDS population, started when searching for a home under a molding ~ound financial advice that specifically addresses the unique financial issues affecting the virus was first identified and it was cardboardboxin atrash-strewn alleyway. ¯ our lesbian and gay clients. Others are teens who ran from something ¯ still considered by many as homosexuals’ punishment from God. The 6 1/2-story but stumbled into a life far worse; they " Whether you’re single, in a committed relationship, or caring for children, your Americar trade sex for a night in a bed. Still more " building, set m the primest of real estate Express financial advisor can help you take control of your financial future. We can help believe their luck has run out after re- ¯ along the Hudson River, nurtured home’OU: centlylosingjobs,apartments and friends,. " less AIDS survivors. Establish savings and investment plans In 1995, Bailey House added a vocaBut every day, a small handful of the ¯ Protect your assets from unnecessary taxation tional studies program because clients thousands of homeless men and women Avoid financial restrictions placed on unmarried couples living with AIDS in New York City make ¯ lived longer thanks to the drug cocktails Avoid costly delays in the receipt of life insurance proceeds and weren’t interested in just wasting a tremendous effort rarely taken by their brethren. They seek help. They fight for ¯ away. Three years later, Bailey House ~, series of Seminars given by opened the program to anyone with AIDS life, no matter the inevitable future. Theresa Barnard, American Express Financial Advisor living in New York. "I wanted to do Scientists haven’ t cured HIV or AIDS, something productive with my life," said When: 7:00 P.M. Where: MCC United but their powerful .drug concoctions that keep people alive longer create a curious " Sean Ransom, 31, who contracted the 1623 N Maplewood Ave virus in the late 1980s and sought help problem. Public and non-profit agencies four years ago. "I didn’ t want to... take already struggle to pay for their existing -’inancial Strategies for Gay Men & Lesbians cases. Now they wonder: How can we " my reeds and wait to die." Those medications a triple combinaTuesday, September 5th and Tuesday, October 10th possibly help the new people infected " tion of drugs - have doubledthe average Please R.S.V.P. with the virus? with Theresa at "Today, people think the ePidemic is ¯ time it takes for the HIV infection to Retirement Explore Your Options 918-748-8191 over," said Gina Quattrochi, the president " develop into AIDS, said ProfesssorAlvaro Munoz of Johns Hopkins University’s ext.121 ¯ Create your Retirement Income of the National AIDS Housing Coalition " andtheexecutivedirectoratBaileyHouse, : School of Public Health. They also inTuesday, September 19th a private center in Greenwich Village ¯ creased the average survival time of AIDS ¯ Estate Planning helping homeless AIDS survivors. "The ¯ sufferers from 18 months to six years. In the late 1980s, residents in Bailey Tuesday, October 24th reality is people are living much ~nger, " House stayed an average of three months, but the vast majority are disabled. Currently, Congress is debating next ¯ and their stay almost always ended at a year’ s budget. Advocates like.Quattrochi " funeral home. These days, they stay abont three years, if not longer. !¢lany walk out requested increasing the $232 million Financial budgetby $60 million- and were worried ¯ on their own, often to Bailey House-asAdvisors sisted apartments. when President Clinton proposed upping " Beyond treatment, stable housing is it to just $260 million. Disappointment " has turned to fear because Senate leaders ". crucial to every patients’ health, Quattrochi don’ t w ant to increas e the appropriation at ¯ says. Two-thirds of AIDS patients cite housing as a top priority,just below mediall. "It’s thin. We have to get it up," said " cal treatment. Living on a friend’ s couch or moving between shelters, patients find U.S. Rep. Jerrold Nadler, D-N.Y., a long~t difficult and tiring to get continual care; time supporter of homeless _&IDS services who pushed the House to propose " the effort weakens the body and strengthTULSA ens the disease - a deadly duo. Patients increasing funds to $250 million. "This ¯ also must live with failing organs, and " romng TECHNOLOGY "" in " mortey. " country is Expending millions of dollars .for AID.S - " need refrigerators to keep their medicine exclusive assistance meets resistance m . effective. AN EVENT OFTHETULSA METRO CHAMBER 12.000 Stable housing becomes a primal urge, every case. ’qqaere has always been pres- ¯ Quattrochi says. "Let me put it this way, sure from the far right to portray it for drug what I always ask people is, ’Where do addicts and queers," Quattrochi said, addyou want to be when you have the flu?’" ing that others question the need to fund she said. "You want- to be at home." specific AIDS housing when so much These problems become remote when a housing is already available. homeless person wakes up after a night Quattrochi says only half of Bailey under crumbled, urine-stained newspaHouse’s residents are Gay or Lesbian. pers. Medications? It’ s doubtful they have She noted that at least 450,000 Americans any. It’ s often little better in city-run shelwith AIDS nee~l, housing, and that’s a conservative estimate because some ¯ ters. Derryck, who declined to g~ve his last haven’t learned they have the illness or are mentally ill and may never know. New ¯" name, lived in emergency housing offiYork, the city that served 1,200 homeless ".. cially called Single Room Occupancy A comprehensive exposition dedicated to the needs of Tulsa’s people with AIDS in 1988, now assists : Units, but known by residents as barebusiness community, featuring 250 exhibit booths, Business After more than 27,000. That total is steadily ." boned welfare hotels. He could touch all ¯ four walls from the middle of his cubicle. Hours, Power Networking~ ..Seminars ~conduc~ed by businessincreasing as it has for the past few years, said Ruth Reinecke, a spokeswoman for "- Occupants shared a single bathroom, and building professionals and renowned luncheon speakers, a silent he shudders when remembering the filth. the city’ s Division of AIDS Services. auction, door prizes, a car giveaway, and much, much more! A Brooklyn federal judge’s decision ¯ Prostitutes, drugs, loan sharking, he re: calls, this placewas amodernday Sodom earlier this week shows the city apparently hash’ t adjusted wall to the surging :¯ and Gomorrah.’And Derryck, who is 50, concedes he was lucky to live the,re. numbers. The judge, who slammed the "There s even a lack of bad housing, he Division of AIDS Services for "chroni¯ said glumly. cally and systematically" delaying or terBut Derryck found his way to Bailey minating assistance, ordered the agency ¯ : House. Now hecansitonhisbedinhis 85placed under federal oversight for three ¯ TULSA METRO CHAMBER years. The city plans to appeal the deci- ¯ square-foot home, with its view of the Hudson River, watch TV, grab a snack sion. or his medications - from h~s mini-fridge, Quattrochi says if members of Congress would look at operations like Bailey _" or use his personal bathroom. "It works House, they’ d understand why advocates ¯ for me,"he said with a grin as smooth jazz ~ sauntered out of his stereo’s speakers. Sponsored by Tulsa Auto Collection, Media sponsors include KJRH TV2 plead for more money. The alternative, Clear Channel Communication and the Tulsa World she says, is that health care costs will soar : Behind him hung posters of singer when homeless AIDS patients seek treat- Si IOWCASE Interested in finding business solutions? Looking for business connections? Then plan to attend the Tulsa Business & Technology Showcase 2000 Thursday & Friday, October 19 & 20 Tulsa Convention Center Info: 560-0298 �BobMarley and a pink flamingo. Beyond that, the window looked out onto the water. As he spoke, a sailboat sliced through gusty winds as it cruised south heading out into the open bay. HIV Prevention Ad Power Connect. Banned from TV Public Service Company of Oklahoma Customer Service Is Now Avai|able 24 Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. 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A Better World, the San Francisco advertising agency that purchased the spot, chose the original time frame because researchers have discovered 3 and 4 p.m. shows are popular with Gay men. However, KGO leaders say that the ads clash with afternoon viewer expectations. "With a Rosie (O’ Dounell) episod,°, with ’NSYNC, or another pop culture guest on it, it would be a little eyepopping for a commercial like this to show up," said David Metz, director of programming services at KGO. Les Pappas, president of the agency., called KGO’s decision homophobic. "We’ ve done the research to find out what our target audience is watching, and they’ re watching Rosie and Oprah. We don’t want to be relegated or banished until after 10 p.m.," Pappas said. A Better World created the $345,000 ad campaign for the city’ s health department after a study last month that fond the rate of HIV infection among Gay men in San Francisco is climbing at an alarming rate. New HIV infections in the city increased form 498 in 1997 to 790 last year, according to the Health Department study. NYC Loses Case Over AIDS Care ~ Clip And Save I I I, I I I I I I I I ! I I I I I I I I I I CALL 24 HOURS FOR TOLL-FREE SERVICE Customer Services: 1-888-216-3523 Billing Inquiries: 1-888-216-3490 Outage Reporting: 1-888-218-3919 Servici0 a Cliehtes: 1-888-216-3505 Preguntas Sobre su Cuenta: 1-888-216-3491 Falta De Suministro: 1-888-218-3924 Public Service Company of Oklahoma I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I NEW YORK (AP) - A federal judge has ruled the city mistreated poor people with AIDS by subjecting them to bureaucratic mismanagement and delays in housing, health and other benefits. In his ruling, U.S. District Judge Sterling Johnson said officials violated theAmericans with Disabilities Act by "chronically and system.atically failing to.provide (AIDS patients) with meaningful access to critical subsistence benefits and services." He called the consequences "devastating." The opinion stems from a class-action lawsuit filed in federal court on behalf of 25,000 plaintiffs dtywide who have AIDS or other HIV-related illnesses. Johnson’s ruling detailed testimony heard earlier this year at a bench trial - by plaintiffs who described getting the rtmaround from the Division for AIDS Services for months, if not years. The judge appointed a federal magistrate to monitor the agency over the next three years. Michael Hess, the city’ s counsel, criticized the ruling and promised an appeal. "Very frankly, I think it’ s very flawed," Hess said, adding that the judge’ s opinion was "very poorly done and contains a lot of errors that I hope will be corrected." Hess said Johnson relied on informauon that was more than five years old. Statistics cited by Johnson showed that in one out Of three cases, the city failed to meet its own 30-day deadline for responding to requests for services. He ordered the city to comply. The ruling was the latest in which Housing Works has succeeded in forcing Mayor Rudolph Giuliani’ s administration to overhaul portions of its policies. In 1999, U.S. District Judge Allen Schwartz found that city officials had acted with "retaliatory intent" against the nonprofit group, which has been a relentless critic of Giuliani’ s policies on AIDS. Vatican Officials: Still No to Condoms VATICAN CITY (AP) - A Vatican official said recently that two American Jesuits have distorted church positions b,,y suggesting that the Vatiean has become more tolerant" about the distribution of condoms to fight AIDS. Monsignor Jacques Suaudeau said the Vatican stance hasn’ t changed, although the church must not be seen as indifferent to AIDS sufferers and the battle to stop the disease’ s spread. Some in the church have been seeking a softening in the position of the Vatican, which has been accused by some governments of hindering the AIDS battle. Writing in the Sept. 23 issue of "America," a Jesuit magazine, the authors pointed to an April article written by Suaudeau in the Vatican new spaper. They said it contained important signals: That while some individual bishops have repudiated local HIV prevention programs that include the distribution of condoms, "the Roman curia is more tolerant on the matter." The article was written by the Revs. John Fuller, an associate professor of medicine at Boston University School of Medicine, and James Keenan, professor of moral theology at Weston Jesuit School of Theology in Cambridge, Mass. Suaudeau called the article a"pretext to relaunch the argument." "This is a manipulation. It is blown up and exaggerated," he told The Associated Press. In his article, Suaudeau endorsed sexual abstinence and chastity as the methods to prevent AIDS, citing church programs to promote that. Suaudeau’ s article went on to say that the use of condoms in Thailand "had particularly good results for these people with regard to the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. It said the use of condoms in those circumstances "is actually a ’lesser evil’" but then added that "it cannot be proposed as a model of humanization and development." Suaudeau said he wrote the article to show the Vatican was not indifferent to the AIDS problem. Easier Access to Needles in NM SANTA FE (AP) - State health officials want to change New Mexico’ s Controlled Substances Act to state that pharmacists who prbvide syringes to intravenous-di’ug users are not guilty of distributing drug paraphernalia. State officials say the change would help combat the spread of infectious diseases like HIV and Hepatitis B and C. The Pharmacy Board decided to back the change, which would need to be passed by the Legislature and signed by Gov. Gary Johnson. In 1997, Johnson signed into law the Harm Reduction Act that made New Mexico the second state in the nation to create a state-funded needleexchange progran~ for drug users. �Tuesday, November 7 Election Day by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor ." homoerotically tinged moments, and it Happy Samhain! (pronounced "sow- ¯ features Amanda Bearse playing Straight. eft’- it’ s Gaelic) We turn in the wheel of " (She was the next door neighbor on"Martheyearto theseasonofthethinning of the ¯ lied With Children", who came out a few veils, when people all over the word felt ¯ years back.) Roddy McDowell is fabuthe shifts that marked th~ time of honor- " lous as an inept bachelor vampire hunter ing th.eir ancestors. " - One wonders why he never married Samhain in pagan Celtic Britain, was a .* "nudge, nudge, wink, wink." The charactime forhonoring the spirits of those that " ter, I mean. And Stephen Geoffreys turns have passed on, as in a touching perwell as the day of f0rmance as the .I love vampire Elms, and the dead in Spain " " lonelyoutcastwho andMexico.Itwas ~]alS is tlae ]~est tlme of year. gets seduced by an important bollChris Sarandon’ s day all over the ever-so-handOf course, ~t’s even l~etter ff pre-Christian some vampire. world, enough so ~t~s a darl~, w~indy, stormy Ue’s another one that when the that could show up Church took over, ni~lat w~tla t:launder craslaln~ outside my winthey renameditAll dow any time. It’ s Hallow’s Eve and and l~htnln~ flash~n~ and.., a fun film, and All Saints Day. It worth the cost. oh~ sorry~ ~ett~n~ a bit caught shrunk from a Available on three day festival, DVD. up ~n the deser~ptlon. to a one day celFor those that ebration. In like Tom Cruise Storms do that to me. Amelica, it was " " with fangs (he retrivialized into fusedtodothekiss w]aere was I? Halloween. So, with Antonio just for old times’ Banderas - was O1~ yes, vampires and film. sake, take a mo" " this due to his in"’" ment that day to security with his remember those loved ones who have own sexuality since it was inthe script?), passed on. "Interview With The Vampire" has been I love vampire films, and thisis thebest rereleased on DVD with new documentime of year. Of course, it’ s even bet{er if tary footage and a few other extras thrown it’sadark, windy, stormy night with thtm- " iu. Brad Pitt plays Lestat, and the now der crashing and lightning flashing and. quite grown up Kirsten Dunst turned in a ¯ oh, sorry, getting a bit caught up in the stellar performance as an adult trapped in description. Storms do that to me.. a child’ s body. Good for the moody vetowhere was I? Oh, yes, vampires and film. pire types. One of the best verslons of the Dracnla For fans of the original Hammer legend, although the critics ripped it to Dracnlas, there are two on DVD: Dracnla, shreds, is the 1979 Frank Langella feaPrince of Darkness, the first sequel with ture. Langella’ s Drac would be welcome ChristopherLee, after"HorrorofDracula" to show up outside my window anytime (unavailable on DVD - dammit!); and and suck anything he wanted. The film, Satanic Rites of Dracula, which was the directed by John Badham, also stars Kate last Hammer Dracula with Chris I~e. It Nelligan and Laurence Olivier in his last was a rather inept handling of putting film performance. While there are times Drac in what was them "modem" times thepacingtrudgesabitslowly, overallthe (1973). Only for those diehr~;d film is one of the lnshest productions of "I)racufans". who can’t stand to have the legend I’ve seen, even though it is completecollections.Still,it’safunromp, based more on the play than the actual and the costumes are well worthlaughing book. That didn’ t really bother me, picky at. Did people really wear that then? LOL purist that I am, and the Dracula in this The only one with any style was Drac, in filmhas quiteadry sense of humor that is timeless black and long cloak. Dracula, easy to miss if you ares’ t prone to catch- ~" PrinceofDarkness, atleastkepthiminthe ing it. It is widely available on DVD, and " 1800’ s, although Lee is left with little to although the print they used to transfer . do but hiss and look menacing. Still, it’ s a from is prone to noise (specks where the ¯ much better picture, and a fun romp. Wemer Herzog’ s remake of Nosferatu film has started to come off the magnetic " strip it’ s on), it is still a great atmospheric " is available, but unless you want to be thrill for the buck. bored to tears with Drac’ s eternal anguish Stay away from Coppola’s version, . over killingthings, pass. It really is thoug]~ ~t~ s b!9ody awful and really sucks " "Dracula Needs Prozac"., and Klaus Kinski - i’n a b~id’Wa~ (Pun intendedl) is So wtfiny in the part, that you just wanna Nosferatu, the first Dracula film ever slap him after 5 minut,e~s. And talk about made, and regarded as a masterpiece of ° pace.., those 2 hours-seem like 2 days. th~Germanexpressionisticcinema,isalso Again, only for the hardcore collector, a~lable,.meticuloi~sly restored, and with although afterhearing so much about it, it a.~gry interesting commentary on DVD. was nice to finally see it. Or not. Always -?irected by F.W: Murnau, ,an openly spoken of as a "classic," it m~es me ga~ director, the homoerotic ~ndertones wonder wlm decides what w~il be deemed ~ake fi~ walt worth having, or at least, aclassic andjt~st how hard they need robe renting. Re-scored wifia the original orhit upside the head with the inteliigencc chestra~:ion, it is a fascinating ,ook at d_m stick. Nstory. Produ~din !92~.,itacmNiyholds If 3 ou re m the moodfor something in tap wel! today, a more literary vein, I czm heartily recom-. For those seekiv.g .lus~ a fun romp mend "Desrnond", by Ulysses Deitz. A through vampire fi.hn!,’md with fang-inweL writtensagaofamodemvampinthe cheek, there s l~ngm Night", about a Anne Rice tradition, this one does not shy vampireandhisghoul, who happens to be away from the fact that, yes indeed, the male. They have a couple of lovely vamps are Gay. see Jim, p. 9 HRC WATCH PARTY Because win or lose, it’s good to be among friends 9 PM 3340 South Peoria, Tulsa, OK Must be 21 - Cash Bar HRC envisions an America where lesbian and gay people are ensured of their basic equal rights. You can help us do our work by joining us for either or both of these events (or by joining HRC - it’s just $35, call 584~2913 or email hrctulsaoklahoma @ aol.com). HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ Sunday, October 29th 3:00 PM & 7:00 PM Helga’s Horribles Present scenes from "The Little Shop of Horrors" !7th & Main, Tulsa, OK TULSA Limited Seating Call 584-~913 for reservations Must be 21 - Cash Bar �October 14 8:00 pm Friday O~tober 20 A survey of books which Tulsa police required to be shrinkwrapped in Borders’ 21st St. location turned up at least 20 wrapped tifles over half of which were Gay and Lesbian interest books, the other half being mostly how-to sex guides for heterosexuals. Among the Gay rifles were serious art monographs on the mid-century photographer, George Platt Lynes, controversial photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, and photographer David LaChappelle. Also chosen were history books like "Who’s a Pretty Boy Then? 150 Years of Gay Life in Pictures" and "Nothing But the Girl, The Blatant Lesbian Image" and "Gay Planet, All Things for All Gay Men." Only one title of all those wrapped, an art book by Tom of Finland, appeared possibly to meet the standard for shrinkwrapping. The police move has raised alarm in local ACLU (American Civil Liberties Union) activists and Gay community leaders. William Hinkle, attorney, PFLAG and ACLU activist responded to the police actions, saying "[they] can’t d,~ that. ¯. absolutely [not]." Hinkle further characterized the law as "blunt instrument," that if indeed the books were in violation of an Oklahoma statute, then an arrest should have been made. Kerry Lewis, v?’g president of TOHR (Tulsa Oklaho~ mans for Human Rights) and an attorney with a prominent Tulsa finn, called the police actions "really kind of scary" and indicated that TOHR was very interested in the impact of this action. Lewis noted thafthere appeared to be some other actions on the part of Tulsa police, a recent i.d.-check in a Tulsa club, that raised concern about a resurgence of anti-Gay harassment by Tulsa police. Other issues: Police Chief Ron Palmer stated that he did not issue the order for this action. Nor did Mayor Susan Savage know of the incident. City standards do restrict city councilors (legislative branch) from directing city employees to-perform actions. City councilor Gary Watts said that the mayor and chief of police have given permission for city councilors to talk directly to majors and deputy chiefs but that had he had a similar complaint he would have told the constituent to call the police directly. Watts said if a city councilor gave an order to the police, it was wrong, and if the officer took the order, it was doubly wrong. Corporate spokespeople for both Border and Barnes & Noble responded. Sandy Spears, district manager for Barnes & Noble said they follow state and local ordinances but we don’t censor..." Borders representatives in a conference call claimed that they have a"dear dedication to the First Amendment but they are also conscious of the community they’re in." Borders representatives claimed they have always shrinkwrapped some books and that some come that way from the printers. (All of the Gay rifles TFN examined had locally applied bar code tags under the shrinkwrap indicating that these had not originally been wrapped. Borders representatives also claim that any customer can remove shrinkwrap in order to view a book but also acknowledged that they post no signs to let customers know about that option. They also acknowledged that to some customers the presence of the shrinkwrap was intimidating - that it appeared to send a message that the materials were illicit. seeming concern about Gay patrons. Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris stated that he had not been consuited before this action commenting that he’ s often seen as acting in coordination with this,sort of action but had not done so. Borders spokespeople indicated that they will send their regional management to visit Tulsa stores sometime in the next few weeks to review the situation. See editorial: Censorship Throug,;~ Intimidation, p. 3 No dancing around the subject here. And it’ s a compelling story as well, with style and wit. One of my favorites. John Peyton Cooke’ s "Out for Blood" is another excellent book with wall-written characters and a fun romp through vampland. It’ s worth hunting for in used bookstores or garage sales, since it’ s unfortanately out of print. There are two anthologies out that are worth the reading - the stories are hit and miss, but there’ s more hits than misses, so it’s worth the time - "Brothers of the Night", and "Sons of Darkness", edited by Michael Rowe and Thomas Roche. The covers are awful, but it just goes to prove the saying,"You can’ tjudge a book, etc." I’d say about 95% of the stories are excellent, which makes the 5% bearable. And there’s something for everyone. I usually don’ t care much for anthologies, but these are worth picking up. Stay away from"Vampires Anonymous". That’ s the worst piece of dreck I’ ve read in many a year of reading vampire fiction. That’ s it for the "Things that go boink in the night section." I mean, bump, yeah, bump! Still, if you know of anyone with a cape And there’ s something for everyone. ! usually don’ t care much for anthologies, but these are worth picking up. Stay away from"Vampires Anonymous". That’ s the worst piece of dreck I’ ve read in many a year of reading vampire fiction. That’ s it for the "Things that go boink in the night section." I mean, bump, yeah, bump! Still, if you know of anyone with a cape feti sh, hates daylight, and has been around 200 years but only looks 30-something, is allergic to garlic, and has a really good immune system, send him to me... being bitten can be fun, and the neck is one of my favorite e-zones... But by merely talking about the possibility of arrests, they clearly raise that as threat if the bookstore staff doesn’t do what the police suggest/demand. Also, troubling is the role of TulSa City Councilor Todd Huston. While Chief Palmer claims that Huston did not violate city standards by contacting city staff because he did not "order" them to take a particular action (councilors are not permitted to direct city staff but are required to go through the executive branch, i.e. the mayor or chief or deputy chiefs). But any casual observer will see that comment by an elected official to mid-level officers is more likely to be heeded than the complaint of an ordinary citizen. And given the scandal related to former city councilor Anna Falling about orders given to city employees, Huston should have gone through the chain of command of the mayor or at least the chief of police. Surely then more consideration would have been given to the dubious constitutionality of this action, see Censor, p. 10 �by Lamont Lindstrom ¯ may die unless her false pregnancy is Last week my friend Henry heard a ~ diagnosed and treated by local healers. thud. Henry was hanging out at his new ," Ghosts you meet while awake can also boyfriend’s apartment in San Francisco ¯ make trouble._ One day a young woman named Risi just vanished. when something big crashed upstairs. "It’ s that Her family panicked. No"...Anthropologist body annoying yobbo in the disappears in this inSherry Ortner, timate society where evthird floor apartment at it again," or so they thought. eryone always knows evdrawln~ on the eryone else’ s business. We Henry’s boyfriend exrushed to the graveyard plained that no one in the Freneh feminist and blew triton shell trumbuilding .liked the guy. He Simone Beauvoir, was catty and manipulapets loudly to put-the spirit world on nouce: tive - the Richard Hatch of ~,~nee proposed that buuuuuuu! Village theory the apartment building. No boyfriends ever knocked ’Man is to Culture as was that the girl’s grandmother, who had died the on his door. Woman is to previous year, had come Three days later an ambulance arrived. The para- Nature.’ Ortner was back to fetch Risi to keep her company in "the other medics carried down a seekln~ a reason for side" - the world of the body from the third floor. spirits. Unlike TV’ s Survivor, the why, almost everyFour days later a someneighbor was the first to where, people value what bedraggled Risi wango, not the last. He had dered back into the vilbeen lying dead just above what men do more lage. It wasn’t grandHenry’ s head for several days. Luckily, San Fran- than they value what mother, so it turned out, but rather a handsome cisco weather can be cool, women do..." ghost she didn’ trecognize. even in September. He grabbed her by the arm The ambulance drove ¯ and pulled her off deep into the forest off but Henry still felt creepy. The guy ¯ highup on the mountainside where people upstairs was no more butstill a presen,.~ remained. A few days later, Henry was ¯ ordinarily are afraid to walk. Risi admitbending over working in the garden at the " ted that she had "cooked" for the spirit. ¯ Her folks immediately suspected that she back of the building. Suddenly he shivered. It felt like someone was watching ¯¯ and the ghost had had sex. When a girl him. He looked up quickly at the blank ¯ cooks for aguy, she’ slikely offering more than just yams and taro. window of the third floor apartment. Was Somehow Risi managed to escape and somebody still there? Was that aface? His ¯ boyfriend’ s mother, too, got goosebumps ¯ find her way back home. Her family was in the garage when she walked by the dead ¯¯ going to have to be on guard the next few months to make sure that Risi hadn’t guy’ s car. The bitter queen, it seems, was ¯ come home with a spirit child in her now a ghostly voyeur. Henry isn’ t thrilled to spend the night at ¯¯ Womb. That was her story at least, and none ahaunted apartment house, even one with ¯ doubted it - except me, just a little, but Gay ghosts. Death has been no stranger to the Gay community, especially since the ¯¯ only becauseI’veneverrunintoanyhorny early 1980s, andmany of us are hauntedin ¯ ghosts myself. But when Henry told me about his Gay ghost, I wondered if perone way or another. Still, lurking spirits who cling to home can be annoying (even " haps randiness is why the spirit refuses tO if good apartments are hard to .find in San ¯ leave the building. The guy. got no sarisFrancisco). Luckily, Henry’ s boyfriend " faction while aliVe; he now haunts lzs had already made plans to move. The ¯ luckier neighbors ~ staring, for example, ," at Henry’s handsomebehind. Maybe ghost can keep the place. My friends on Tauna - a South Pacific ¯¯ Henry should ask the ghost out on a date. Hall6ween would be perfect. island I once haunted mysdf- were similarly nervous about ghosts. Folks there are prone to stumble across spirits at any moment. Even though people mostly run into the ghosts of dead loved ones (morn, Last but hardly least is the failure of the dad, grandpa), they aren’ t too happy about bookstores to defend First Amendment these encounters. If the dead are making protections. What is most troubling was themselves known, there must be a reathe corporate response which was not to son. Ghosts can help you. But they can reassure Gay & Lesbian customers that also hurt you too, especially if they are our books will not be wrapped but which was to defend their fight to shrinkwrap I didn’ t meet a~y~Gay:gh~osts imTamaa books. Wrapping books, even if you can but there is a rather tricky Bisexual spirit open them (if you knOW to ask)C-sends a living on the island: the dreaded and semessage that some subjects a~ebad. It ductive Nakwa. People have sex with isn’ t grand censorship in the form of makghosts. What we think are "wet dreams," ing the materials unavailable but it is petit Islanders ~+piaiii akOff~~akwa ~ptrit censorship and it is still objectionable~ sneaking ~tb bai With :thdm~. A mail: (a This may seem a small issue - after ,all straight on~ atl~ast)!~s that he is it’ s just a bit of shrinkwrap -but this is having sex With ti ~tiful:w0man ~ but how rights are lost, through a slow proit’ s actually the ~iiOst Onlypretending to cess of erosion. Citizens might want to be a woman. Perfidious Nakwa steals the contact their councilors and demand that dreamer’ s semen and then changes its sex we keep our police officers out of the from female to male. It next creeps into bookstores (and who knows what next, the bed of a sleeping woman, appearing as our libraries?) and out on the streets. ahandsome guy. Ithas sex with the sleeper and impregnates her with sperm stolen from its previous victim. Such ghostly pregnancies can be deadly. The woman Timothy .W. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory ; who we are, or when we just want someBy now votes are tallied and the facts ¯ one else to take up the cause: because it’ s speak for themselves: Dr. Laura ." become too difficult beating our heads Schlessinger’ s television talk show, after ¯ against that wall. Having that door being on air only three weeks, is going ; slammed in our face. Being turned down into hiatus for "retooling." for thatjob. Tryingto reach "...Do you have what it Doesn’ t that mean a major a community that should make-over? It does in my takes to stand on a street understand one another, vocabulary. It also means but instead tries to fight corner and protest~ "trouble.’" for Ms/her space and keeps Sure you do. This is probably-due others out. Only when we stand united will anyone more to the fact that Dr. That’s the easy part. take us seriously. Look Laura’s show is BORING The dlffieulty comes in instead of controversial, what that’s done for the our everyday lives when and has also landed dead religious right. They have last in ratings among talk we eontlnuaily hide who a whole damn political shows on television (and party on their side. Join we are, or when we just among many other shows the battle for yourselves as well). However, I figure want someone else to take and your partners. As they up the cause because it’s that the people .over at sing in Les Miserables, stopdrlaura.com are giving "This is the music of a become too dlffieult themselves a pat on the people who will not be back for a job well done beatin, our heads aCalnst slaves again." Join in the that wall.. 7 since their first two procrusade. You won’ t know what you’ re missing until tests, in Chicago and Dallas back in April, made the public more you do. aware of this woman’ s dangerous rantings. ¯ Lesbian couples break up; separate--It These two major city demonstrations was bound to happen, you say. It couldn’ t weren’t the last, and August 26, Austin, " last forever, especially in Hollywood. Texas held a protest outsideits CBS affili- : Well, one couple breaks up ("I could have ate station, KEYE-TV, "The Eye of Aus- ¯ seen that coming from day one") and one ¯ ti..". The protest was organized chiefly by couple separates ("This was out of left stopdrlauraanstin.com. How do I know ." field"). The former quote could be said of this? I was on the front lines. Having ¯ the break up of the three and a half year ¯ broken my foot just a week earlier, I went relationship of Ellen DeGeneres and Anne down to march (as best I could) with other ; Heche. Umm, not too surprising. In fact, Gay/lesbian/straight concerned citizens ¯ since the new s w as armounced 1 as t month, who didn’t want the show to air at its tabloids have announced the reasons for scheduled 4 pm ttme slot. Their reason? ¯ the breakup: Ellen Finds Anne in Bed CbJldren at home, many without parental ¯ With Another Woman; Ellen Finds Anne supervision, would watch Dr. Laura and ¯ in Bed With Another Man; Ellen’s Ex receive her message, thus ensuring that Pregnant. I-Immm, why doesn’t ELLEN homophobia stays alive and dangerous in ¯ get any action? The day the couple anTexas. Every Fundamentalist Baptist is . nounced their breakup, A~tme Heche"supensuring that as we speak. We don’ t need ¯ posedly" went for a drive in very sunny, ¯ more help from a television talk show hot weather with the top down on the ¯ convertible. Not too swift for someone wannabe. Meeting with the assistant of : SO fair skinned. Later, after "supposstopdrlaura.com, Andy Thayer, was an ¯ edly" suffering heat stroke, Anne knocked experience. He’ s been to most of the Dr. ¯ on a stranger’s door and began talking Laura protests in most of the states in the ." about God and spaceships. Ellen, if you country. That’ s lots of traveling. When I ¯¯ were the one who kicked her out, all I have heard there would be about one hundred tosayis: Waytogo, Grrl! protesters, I was exhilarated and stopped ; More surprising was the. separation of thinking about the pain in my foot andmy ; rock star Melissa Etheridge and ten year hideous lack of sleep from the night be- ¯ partner Julie Cypher. Again, another press fore. But as 11 am approached, it was ." announcement.Whatisitaboutthesefour obvious there would only be about 30--35 ¯ women that makes them tell all to the participants in this protest. The demon- ¯ world? In this case, Etheridge and Cypher stmtion outside the television stationlasted ¯ split on extremely amicable terms, even approximately anhour, alongafairlykigh ; buying two separate houses next d~or to traffic area in Austin. Most cars that drove ;- one another, so their children won t feel by included sympathizers, those agaiast the separation. They will still have their ¯ two mommies beside them. Well, that’ s a the Dr. Laura talk show. ¯ We heard from a local Christian miaisway to do divorce all right, especially ter who had recently officiated at the ¯ withchildreninvolved.However, theway funeral of a Gay boy killed in a bashing. ¯¯ Melissaimmortalizes her andJulie’ s fights into her songs, I can’ t wait for Melissa’ s He said that for a week after the funeral he ¯ listened to a local Christian radio station next album, already being recorded. and heard endless Gay bashing from the ¯¯ Can anything be learned from these "Christians." He made the point that not separations?Well,if you’re a Witty comeonly should we blame Dr. Laurafor spread- " dielme, don’ t get involved with a flalse. If ing hatred about Gays, and this radio ¯ you have one of the strongest pers0nalistation, but we should ultimately look to ," ties on the planet, then maybe you ourselves to see what .we could do to ¯ shouldn’tgetinvolvedwiththeotherstron¯ prevent this abysmal crime from happengest personaiiiy on the planeL in other ing again. With only 35 protesters present, ¯ words, You can "come to:my windoff" it looked like the rest of the Gay/Lesbian] ¯ because ’T m the only one",b~t you bett~ Bisexual/Transgendered community of not be"stronger thmi me" or I n~ighthave ¯ Austin just didn’t care. Do you care? Do a "breakdown." you have what it takes to stand on a street ¯ Gregory, a former schoolteacher and corner and protest? Sure you do. That’s ¯ journalist is based in Ft. Worth. Her curthe easy part. The difficulty comes in our rent theme song appears to be Jill Sobule ’s ¯ everyday lives when we continually hide "I Kissed a Girl." �Walk for Life 2000 8th An nual Tul,sa AIDS Walk Saturday, Oct. 7, 9:30am Veteran’s Park, 21st & Boulder For more information, call 585-5551. Donations will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the generosity of the Elton John AIDS Foundation, The Walk is sponsored by the Community Service Council, and will benefit the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP). The Walk is an all volunteer effort and there are no administrative costs. Tulsa Family News is proud to donate this advertisement in support of the Walk and the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Police Censor Books at ° Gunman Shoots Six; Borders, Barnes & Noble Kills One in Virginia ¯ . ROANOKE, Virginia (AP) - A man accused of ¯ rehant$ Told to Wrap Up Art and fatally shooting another man and wounding six "History Books, Straight Sox How-to’s " others inside the Backstreet Cafe, a Gay bar, °n the : TULSA- Prodded by Tulsa City Councilor, Todd Huston, Tulsa " evening of Sept. 22 has been arraigned on first- " police vice squadofficers visitedBorders Books &Music at8015 " degree murder charges. ¯ So. Yale Avenue, selected a number of books, presented them to The Commonwealth of Virginia’s Attorney ¯ store staffand suggested that they "shrinkwrap" those rifles. This " Donald Caldwell said additional charges such as : was in response to a constituent complaint made to Huston ~ aggravated malicious wounding or malicious : according to Charlie Jackson, Deputy Chief, Tulsa Police. ¯ wounding were possible. Malicious wounding ¯ Jackson noted that after the visit to the South Yale Borders ¯ charges carry up to 20 years in prison, whereas ¯ -~ store about which there was a citizen complaint, vice officers of " attempted murder charges carry up to 10 years. : their own initiative went to the 2740 E. 21stSt. Borders as well " Ronald Edward Gay, 53, the man accused in the ¯ as Barnes & Noble Bookstores at 5231 E. 41st St. and 8620 E. " shootings, acted because of long-standing anger at "rrial o! Accused o! 71stSt. wheretheywent throughthestoreselectingbooks which thejokespeoplemadeofhisl~,tname, police said. bookstore staff say the police indicatesd they must shrinkwrap, "He admits to shootingpeople, police investigator Gay Man’s Death Moved " store staff also said the officers stated that they were no, ° Lt. WilliamAlthoff toldTheWashingtonPost. "He intending to arrest anyone, told us people made fun of his name... He told us FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) The first Marion County ¯ Accordingtobookstoresources,TulsapoliceSergeantCalhoun " that he was upset about that.’" teen-ager to be tried inthemurder of aGay black man ¯ and Corporal Best of the "sex crimes" unit said that the ¯ Dznny Lee Overstreet, 43, was killed at the willfacejurorsinRaleighCountyinNovember.Marion" shrinkwrapping was required under Oklahoma state statute, title" scene. One other victim, IrisPageWebb,41,wasin County Circuit Court Judge Rodney Merrifield late in ¯ 21, 1040.76. This statute regulates the display of materials " critical condition after being shot in the neck. SeptembersignedanordermovingDavidAllenParker’s ¯ "harmful to minors" and requires covering materials which ¯ According to police, Gay went to a tavern that first-degree murder trial to the southern West Virginia : depict "... nudity, sexual contact, sexual excitement, or : night and asked directions to the nearest Gay bar, county. A copy of the order does not set a trial date, but " sadomasochistic abuse...when thematerial orperformancelacks ’ telling people he wanted to shoot Gays. Someone JudgeMen-ifield’ssecretarysaiditistentativelysched- : seriousliterary, scientific, medical, artistic, or political value for gavehimdirectionsandimmediatelycalledpolice, uled for Nov. 15. Merrifield had verbally approved a ¯ minors..." with minors defined as less than 18 years ofage. ¯ whowerelookingforGaywhentheshootingreport change of venue earlier this week after a preliminary : Typically the "shrinkwrap" requirement has been applied to " came in. hearing that has been continued to Oct. 12. ~ sexually oriented magazines such as Playboy, Penthouse, Men, " John W. Collins, 39, was one of those wounded. Lawyers for Parker and co-defendant Jared Wilson, ¯ etc. but not to most books. Collins told the Post that the gunfire erupted just ¯ both .17, had suggested Raleigh County as a possible ¯ Chief Jackson claims that the officers did not threaten the ¯ after he and Overstreet, a friend, hugged. Gay venue, arguing media coverage of the murder in north- " bookstore staff with arrest but merely sought their cooperation. "stood up as I was letting go of the hug, and he was central West Virginia has made it too difficult to find " Bookstore sources who’ ve requested to remain anonymous in. turning and he was also reaching into his black impartial jurors. Attorney Stephen"Fitz said Monday ¯ order to protect themselves from retaliation characterized the trench coat," said Collins, who was shot in the that Raleigh has a diverse population and probably has ¯ police visit as intimidation- particularly in light 6f the arrests of " stomach. "I saw the gun come out of his pocket... had far less exposure to ~e case Prosecutor Richard " several sales clerks for the sale of Penthouse magazines a year or " Everything was like in a millionth of a second.’" Bunner did not object to the move. " so ago. They noted that the officer by mentioning that they didnot " Gay left the bar after the shootings but was later Parker and Wilson are charged with beating and ¯ intend to arrest at this time, raised the issue as a possibility and ¯ found by police about two blocks away. Officers kickingtodeath26-year-oldacquaintanceArthur"J.R." ¯ that they felt coerced into cooperating. " found a 9 mm pistol in a trash can near the bar. Warren on July 4, see Trial, p.3 " see Bookstores, p. see Shooting, p.3 Local HRCEvents HRC: More Benefits Gay Center To Hold Grand Re-opening TULSA-Local Human Rights Campaign (HRC) activ - ists in cooperation with the national organization are encouraging voter registration drive up fill October 13. Those interested in registering can stop by Democratic party headquarters, Republican party headquarters, the offices of the League ofW0menVoters, any tag agency, theTulsaCounty ElectionBoard (No; DenveratEdison). Call formore information at 584.2918. HRCwouldalso like to send voter registration volunteers to any event or ¯ organization andasks thatorganizers againcall 584.2918. For Halloween this year, HRC is sponsoring two" performences of Helga’ sHorribles, in "Scenes from ¯ Little Shop of Horrors" at Renegades on Sun, October ¯ 29 at 3pro and again at 7pro. Tickets are $10 each and ," "Domestic partner benefits are increasingly becoming a stanproceeds benefit HRC-Tulsa. Renegades is also a " dard business practice in corporate America," said Kim I. Mills, sponsor and there will be a cash bar. Youmust be 21yo. " education director of the Human Rights Campaign. "Employers Seating is limited to only 100persons at each perfor- ¯ have discovered that these benefits hdp attract and keep the best WASHINGTON (AP) - More employers - including more than a fifth of Fortune 500 companies - are offering health insurance coverage to the partners of Gay employees, according to a report by a Gay civil rights group. The study, by the Washington-based Human Rights Campaign, found that 3,572 companies, colleges and states and local governments offered or have announced they would offer health insurance covering their employees’ domestic partners. This was up 25% from a year ago, when 2,856 employers extended such benefits. The findings were included in the group’ s annual "State of the Wor,k~,lacefor Lesbian, Gay,Bisexual andTransgenderedAmericans. ¯ Law Group to Hold Hate Crimes Panel ¯ TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa Oklahomans for Human " Rights (TOHR) will hold a Grand Opening event ¯ for the recently relocated Tulsa Gay Community ¯ Services Center on Friday, October 20 at 7pro. The ¯ new location is 2114 So. Memorial adjacent to : longtimeLesbianbar,TNT’ s. TOHR’ s also will be ¯ holding a "garage" sale to benefit the Center on ." Saturday, Oct. 14 from 8am-noon. Donations of ¯ goods are welcome and may be dropped off at the ¯ Center before the sale. ¯ On Oct 14, TOHR will also sponsor a Feast for Friends dinner to benefit The NAMES PROJECT. ¯ The dinner, called "Tulsa - The Center of the Universe" will be al fresco at the downtown sculp- ¯ ture entitled, ’’The Center of the Universe" located mance. Reservations may be guaranteed by mail to 1107 E. 19th, Tulsa,OK74120 orby credit card over the phone. Organizers promise big drag, big hair, big voices & big fun - ’cuz size matters! HRC also is sponsoring an election watch party at 9pm on Tuesday, November 7 at the fabulous I.D. Bar on Brookside at3340 S. Peoria (formerly Concessions). There will be multiple video screens to monitor the election returns and lots of hot music to enjoy while the future is determined. There will be a $10 cover charge, but that will drop to only $5 if you are wearing the "I voted" sticker. Lastly, HRC is always looking for new members. Membership runs $35. Info: 584.2913. DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 ¯ workers, a critical consideration in the current tightjob market." ." The report called a "landmark move" the announcement in ¯ June by Big Three domestic automakers - DaimlerChrysler, General Motors and Ford - and the United Auto- Workers that ¯ domestic-partner benefits would be offered to their more than ¯ 400,000 employees. ’’This marked the first time that virtually an ¯ entire sector of American commerce, along with its leading ¯ union, decided collectively to provide domestic partner ben- " efits," the report said. ¯ Fortune 500 companies offering or planning to offer domestic ¯ partner benefits increased from 70 in August 1999 to 102 last ¯ month. In addition, 41 of the top 50 companies in America ¯ prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation, the report ¯ said. -" "All the signs point to private and public employers continuing ¯ to institute nondiscrimination policies and domestic partner : benefits," the study said. However, it noted that there is nofederal ¯ law prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, nor is ¯ there one in 39 states, although President Bill Clinton issued an executive order in 1998 prohibiting such discrimination in the ¯ federal civilian work force. ¯. The number of cities and counties that prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation rose from 16 in 1980 to 116 in 2000. : next to the Old U~ion Station on the pedestrian ¯ bridge. The dinner is $20 and reservations may be ¯ made by calling 743-4297. Those who just want to ¯ attend the dessert finale may go the Allan Chapman Activity Center atthe University ofTulsaat8:30pro. A $10 donation is requested. : TOHR will also present a National Coming Out Day (NCOD) panel at its monthly membership ¯ meeting on Oct. 10 at 7:30pm, and at TU on ¯ Thursday, Oct. 12, the University ofTulsa College ¯ of Law Lesbian Gay Bi Trans Law Caucus will ’ sponsor a Hate Crimes Panel discussion from noon - 2 p.m. The panel, which will be held in TU’s Moot ¯ CourtRoom of John Rogers Hall located at Fourth ¯ Place and Florence Avenue, will address the valid- " ity of Hate Crimes legislation, opposition to the ¯ Hate Crimes Prevention Act and other topics of ". relevance. Linda Lacey, a TU college of law pro- , fessor, will moderate. ¯ The program is free and open to the public. For ¯ more information, call Courtney Sdby at 836- : 9107. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’ s, 1737 S. Memorial *Club Cherry Bomb,. 1926 E Pine *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *The Star, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *The Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th 712-2324 : 610-5323 583-2119 : 835-2376 : 744-4280...; 745-9998 ¯ 834-4234 : 585-3405 : 660-0856 584-1308 749-1563 Tulsa Businesses, ServiCeb~ & pi’ofessiohals "Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231 E.-41 Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria *Cheap Thrills,.2640 E. 1 lth 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615- POB 4140, Tulsa. OK 74159 e-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink.net Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Writers + contributors: Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. 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Main DeVito,’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. MCC of the Living Spring Geek toGo!,PC Specialist, POB 429 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery Positive Idea Marketing Hans Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East White Light, 1 Center St. JOPLIN, MISSOURI Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 Scouting~for All Opposes the "Scout’s Honor Act" Congressman Tom Tancredo of Colorado has introduced counter-legislation, currently being referred to as the Scouts Honor Act (H.B. 5306). The bill was introduced along with twenty-three cosponsors, on T.Uesday, Sept. 26 Accorditi~ to AFA (editor’s note: Amerfcah "F~mily Association, a rightwing lobbying group) Director of Governmental Affairs PatrickTrueman,"AFA suppo.r.ts Colorado Rep. Tancredo’s, Scouts Honor Act, which prohibits the ¯ Useoffederal funds todiscriminate against, investigate, or deny access to public prop- " erty or facilities to the Boy Scouts of ¯ America. In addition, the bill says that no entity that accepts federal funds can compel the Boy Scouts to accept members ¯ who do not share their beliefs.’" The Scout’s Honor Act would protect ¯ the BSAwho dearly identifies as an organization that discriminates against gay ¯ youth and adults and atheists to not be ~ denied access to public facilities or funding. How can-we allow our tax dollars to ¯ support an organization thatprofesses bigotry against a segment of our society.’? Tiffs is unthinkable and should not be tolerated. Scouting For All asks that you speak out LOUD to oppose this ACT!!!! ¯ Rep.Tancredofeels thatifhecangetmany ¯ more sponsors on thebill, the Houselead- . ership may bring it to the floor for a vote. ." Encourage your congressperson not to ¯ support- the bigoted Scout’s Honor Act! ¯ ACTION NEEDED: Contact your member of Congress immediately and ~ ask that he or she not support the Scouts ¯ Honor Act which is an Act supporting , bigotry in our society. Contact your Representative by calling the capitol switchboard at (202) 225-3121. ~ Scouting For All also encourages you ; to send Rep. Tancredo a note telling him ¯ thathis actions are disgusting and support ¯ bigotry in America. He should be advocating that the BSA discontinue its discriminatory policy against our Gay youth and Gay adults and also atheists. His actions are a disgrace. Write to: - tom.tancredo@mail.house.gov - Scott Cozza,president, Scouting ForAll www.scoutingforall.org * is where you can find TFN. Notall are Gay-owned butall are Gay-friendly. Log ~Cabin Republicans to Bill Clinton Thefollowing is the text ofa letterfrom Rich Tafel, executive director ofLog Cabin Republicans, to President Bill Clinton on the issue offunding theAIDS Drug Assistance Program. September 27, 2000 Dear Mr. President: I am writing to you again on an ~ssue of great importance to millions of Americans -~funding for theAIDS Drug Assis- ’ tanc~ Program in theRyatr~White CARt~ Act. Since 1995, we have consistently ¯ asked your Administration to ensure that ¯ your annual budget requests reflect the : real ne~ds in. the ADAP program; and unfortunately your .bUdgets have fallen drastically short each and every year, and each year the Republican Congress! has put millionS:ofMollars more into the pro- , gram to ansv¢~¢~ the call. This year, your : budget request fell short again. ¯ In your budget request for Fiscal Year ~ 2001, you asked for a $26millionincrease ~ in ADAP funding, while the projected ¯ need was higher, see Letters, p.3 Unfortunately, theneed has only increased since then. Thanks to the enactment of an important minority OUtreach program, spearheaded by the Congressional Black Caucus, enrollment in the ADAP program by minority patients has increased throughout the year. This has given tremendous hope to so manyAmericans with HIV that they will have access to life-savittg treatments cnrrenfly out of reach. Overall, state and territorial AIDS directors have reported that the projected national need ftr ADAP will be closer to $130 million more than the previous year. Your budget request will not cover this additional need, and many of these new enrollees may face lotteries, rationing or simply a closed door. The Republican Congress has carried the ADAP program every year, despite the failure of leadership from your Administration. I respectfully ask again, Mr. President, that you become an active participant inmeeting the ADAP needs for so many Americans with HIV/AIDS, and submit a request to Congress for an increase of $130 million for this life-saving program in your Statement of Principles before budget negotiations end for the year. I appreciate your urgent consideration of this issue. - Sincerely, Rich Tafel, executive director "It sounded like firecrackers at first," said a woman who said she was sitting in a booth when the shooting began. She asked not to be identified for fear she might lose.her job. "I looked up and saw people falling to the ground," she said. "You could feel the wind off the bullets, they were so close." Darlene Overstreet, Danny Overstreet’ s sister, said her brother, who was Gay, visited the Back Street Cafe often. He worked as a telephone operator and lived alone in a house with his poodle. "He was a wonderful person. He helped everybody," Darlene Overstreet said. "He just stopped by to have a beer, that’ s all." Members of the Washington-based National Gay and Lesbian Task Force came to Roanoke for a candlelight vigil after the shooting. Flowers, cards and balloons were placed outside the bar by members of the community. Mayor Ralph Smith saidat anews conference after the event. ’Tm shocked and saddened by this terrible, terrible crime .... Any time one member of our community is hurt, we all suffer by that same hand." ¯ Censorship Through Inti midation ¯ by Tom Neal, editor &publisher The recent visits by Tulsa police to local booksellers raise very serious concerns about censorship, grand or petit, direct or indirect, by our local government. The method used is frankly ingenious in skirting First Amendment protections as it depends on intimidation to accomplish that which it is not legal to do otherwise. What I mean is that even though most, if not all of the materials which Tulsa police collected in the stores are clearly protected under the U.S. Constitution’s First ¯¯ Amendment, by merely showing up in the stores identifying themselves as law officers and requesting limiting ." access to these materials, Tulsa police succeeded in ¯ obtaining the collaboration ofthebooksellers. Andifthey ¯ self-censor, then thepolicenever have to prove their case, ¯ they never have to be held responsible for their probable ¯ misapplication of an Oklahoma statute. _" Note that the police claimed they were not seeking to .. make any arrests during these visits, see Censor, p.9 ! b~AAlIl Gthororeugh the years of our nailon’ s history, the American dreamhas unfolded with a deeper meaning. Today, it is : a mystery that Thomas Jefferson could have written the powerful and inspiring words of our Declaration of : Independence ~. and not free his slaves. Today, it is a mystery that our founders in Philadelphia could have written the United States Constitution ? yet not allowed women to vote. Yet America has taken the inner meaning and power of our founding documents, and given them new life in each generation. then nmning over him with a car to disguise his injuries as a hit-and-rtm. In his order changing the venue, Merrifield cited a vigil for Warren that drew more than 500 people to the courthouse steps days after the murder. The rally also attracted national Gay- and civil-rights activists and an anti-Gay group from Kansas. News organizations .have since saturated the region with coverage innewspapers, andonradio and television, Merrifield said. The Dominion Post of Morgantown and the Times-West Virginian of Fairmont have each file& more than 25 stories, he said. "Nearly. all of these newspaper articles have been located on the front page and, in fact, mostofthese articles have been thelead story for that particular day," Merrifiel~d wrot~ T.I~.~voe~ag¢ ,has con~ rained detailed infOiinafion~ about tbe.inv~ti~afion°and clearly illustrates that many Marion County residents "havebecome emotionally involvedin this case and have prejudged:the defendant’s guilt," he said. Parkerhas already confessed to beating.Warr,en~but the judge has ~yet to d~eide:~w.hether jurors will hear that confession.~ In his Statement-to Sheriff" s Detective C.L. "Chip" Phillips; Parker admitted beating Warren after discovering he had-toldrothe~ peo.p!.¢, about a sexual relationship he claimed to have with.~Parker. Wilson told Phillips that he went along with the beating because he was afraid of Parker, who had threatened to beat him, too. But defense teams argue that both boys’ confessions were improperly obtained. They say neither was informed of his right to an immediate juvenile detention hearing. They also contend Phillips delayed moving the boys from GrantTownto the courthouse sohe could dicit the confessions. Phillips denies any wrongdoing. NEW SUPREHES? Nationat Coming Out D~, Oct. 11 - E|ecUon Da!/, Nov. 7 COME OUTVOTING .* www.hrc.org El HUMAN RIGHTS : I believe very deeply that the time has come in America to widen the circle of fairness and dignity to include our ¯ ~friends, neighbors, ct-workers, and relatives in the gay and lesbian community. I am running for President to fight for ." all the people. That is why the ideals of fairness, equal opportunity, and non-discrimination are at the very heart of my ¯ campaign for President. - ¯ In the past seven years, we have taken.great strides. We have appointed the first openly gay and lesbian people to ¯ high-ranking posts in our nation’ s history. We have made our government the largest employer in the world with a : strong non-discriminati0n policy covetingsexual orientation. Wehave boosted funding for AIDS research, prevention, ¯ and treatment. We have created a new White House- Office of. National AIDS Policy. We fought insurance ¯ .discrimination against people with pr~--~xi~fing conditions Wehelp~lmore people with HIV-AIDS get access to health ¯ ! am.personallY very ~)roud tO have beenthe first Vice President ever to speak at a public event with a gay rights organization. I believe it is partly because of that record and commitment that I have been endorsed by gay andlesbian ¯ leaders and civil rights organizations across this cduntry. But ]~don’ t want to rest on that record ? I want to build on it. ¯ When people filled with hate target Gaysadd Lesbi~ang, Jews;Blacks, Latinos, and Asian-Americans, it is clear that hate Crimes are notjust like other erimes: As President, with your help, I will.lead the fight for a tough law to stiffen the penalties for crimes~of hate We need to do morb th battle HIV and AIDS 9 here at home and around the world..At the beginning of this.year, I had the opportunity tO address the United-Nations Security Council about the threat that AIDS poses to the stability and security of AfriCa and the world: As President, withy0ur help; I will lead a worldwide effort to fight HIV and AIDS. I believe wemust takebold stepsto~give all.ourpe0p!ethe best health care in the.world. Weneed to dedicate ourselves to provide access ,to.qua!ity heal~ coverage.to every.child and extend coverage to millions of adults by~ ~e:et~d 9f ~e ne~t t~residenfial term. :we needtO-~,tnfinue resear~into-HIV andAIDS and ~r~;clde ad~quat~ fhh~ng fdr i~."’~ riced to give real prescription drug benefit to senioi:sand people with disabilitie.s who are on Medicare. Weneed a strong, enforceable Patients’ Bill of Rights because it’ s time that we take the medical decisions away from ~ the HM.O accountants and insurance company bureaucrats, and give them back to the doctors, nurses, and health care ~ professionals. Americans:deserv.e the best health care, not just the cheapest.. " .... ~ ~’. ’ ’ ~ ...... ¯ We must also take strong new action to ban discrimifiation andmake sure every Americhn can re~iz~hi~.:6~ her ~. potential. As President, I will re-issue the executive order banning discrimination in the federal w0J:kfo~ce. An’d i Will ¯ fight to pass the Employee Non-Discrimination Act, which will prohibit job discrimination on the basis of sexual ¯ orientation. In this campaign, there are real differences on these basic issues of fairness. My Republican opponen.t strongly ¯ opposes hate crimes legislation. He opposes a simple law to outlaw discrimination inhiring, firing, and promotionbased ¯ on sexual orientation, In fact, right now, in Texas and in 38 other states, you can be legally fired just because of your : sexual orientation. If I am entrusted with the Presidency, we will fight to correct that injustice. ¯ The stakes are enormous in this election. We know what will happen if the Republicans take back the White House. ¯ And America cannot afford to go back to the neglect and divisiveness of the Bush-Quayle years. ¯ Instead, we must move forward to create the America of ~.highest ideals. That is why I need your help and your hard work. Join withmein this campaigii~and togetherwewill win notjust vttes, but powerful new victori~s.~oi dignity Lesbian Wins Visitations PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - The Rhode Island state Supreme Court last month recognized new rights for Gay and Lesbian couples raising children. In a 3-2 decision, the courtruled that ConcettaDiCenzo could not prevent her former partner Maureen Rubano from asking the Family Court for the right to visit the son they raised together. The decision gives de facto-"in fact" - parents the same rights to petition for visitation as biological and adoptive parents. "The fact that DiCenzo not 0nly gave birth to this child but also nurtured him from infancy does not mean that she can arbitrarily terminate Rubano’ s de facto parental relationship with the boy, a relationship that DiCenzo agreed to and fostered for many years," Justice Robert Flanders wrote in the majority opinion. The ruling was based on state law allowing any interested party to "bring an action to determine the existence or nonexistence of a mother and child relationship." The justices also noted the Family Court has jurisdiction over cases involving the paternity of children born out of wedlock. Attorney Cherrie Perkins,whorepresented Rubano, a 53-year-old professor of clinical psychiatry at the medical school at the Unive,~sity of Massachusetts, said her client cried when she heard of the ruling. "She’ s now not on thin ice any more. She’ s on pretty solid ground," Perkins said. DiCenzo’ s attorney, Rosina Hunt, said the ease has drained her client emotionally and financially. "The big thing for her is she wants to keep her son in a Stable home and she doesn’ t want to go through this," Hunt said. Similar cases began surfacing in courts around the country in the late 1980s and early 1990s, and claims by "co-parents" generally were rejected, said attorney Mary Bonauto of Gay &’Lesbians Advocates & Defenders of Boston, which filed a brief in support of Rubano. Recently, however, courts in a handful of states, including Massachusetts andNew Jersey, have decided to recognize the legal status of non-biologi~ cal parents. "This decision puts Rhode Island in line with the majority of recent decisions on the topic, although this is an issue that is still hotly contested among the states," said Bonauto, who lead the fight to legalize same-sex civil umons in Vermont. Rubano and DiCenzo decided tO have a child together while they were living in Millville, Mass. DiCenzo underwent artificial insemination from an anonymous sperm donor and on Dec. 15, 1991, DiCenzo gave birth to aboy. Thecouple sent outbirth announcements identifying them both as the child’ s parents, and had the last name of Rubano-DiCenzo listed onboth the birthand baptismal certificates. The couple raised the child together for several years and the boy called Rubano her "heart room." In 1996, the pair split up and DiCenzo, now 43, moved to Cumberland. The next year, the two signed a Family Court consent order that granted Rubano permanent visitation rights on a periodic basis. In exchange Rubano waived "any claim or cause of action she has or may have to recognition as a parent of the minor child." But then DiCenzo, believing Rubano’ s visits were "disruptive and confusing" to theboy, told Rubano thatno further visitations would be permitted. Rubano appealed to Family Court, asking a judge to enforce the earlier order. DiCenzo argued the Family Court lackedjurisdiction to eater the order in the first place. The Family Court, unsure how to proceed, requested that the Supreme Court rule on the case. Perkins believes the decision clears the way for the Family Court to allow visitation. Hunt expressed coneeru that the finding may pave the way for third party parent claims from grandpareats, ex-boyfriends and others. The General Assembly may want to consider changing the law, she said. But Perkins said she sees the ruling as a boon to both Gays and heterosexuals. "You could be somebody’ s second wife or husband and essentially raise their children and if you got divorced, you could haveno rights," Perkins said. "We think that the court was actually looking for a way to redress alot ofholes in the law because’ families are changing over time and this was maybe the ease to do it." Idaho PFLAG Chapter Make Case for Inclusion SANDPOINT, Idaho (AP) --The area’ s Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays chapter will make its proposal tojoin the town’ s list of credible commtmity organizations. The organization hosted the ACLUsponsored slide show and talk, "The Gay Life in Idaho: Idaho’ s Little T01d History," created by Alan Virta, head of the Boise State University library’s special collections. "It’ s amazing what you find here and there in the official records," he s aid. "S ometimes trial transcripts give a lot of information." Virta’s 45-minute show includes Idaho’s reaction to the 1895 Oscar Wilde trial in London - the playwright was charged with homosexuality -and the 1955 boys ofBoise scandal, a homosexual witchhum. Parents Jim and Barbara Hansen started the Sandpoint Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They say that, so far, they have not been the targets of harassment in an area of Idaho typically known for its conservatism. "I find this a very open-minded community," Jim Hansen said. "There’s more suppoyt, strokes, affirmations here than I ever thought possible. That keeps me going.’" Michigan College Offers Partner Benefits MARQUETTE, Mich. (AP) - Northern Michigan University faculty members have ratified a three-year contract that gives them 3.5% annual pay increases and same-sex domestic partner health benefits. The contract for the Northern Michigan chapter of the American Association of University Professors was ratified by a 159-33 vote, The Mining Journal reported. The union has about 290 members. The university’ s board of control is to consider the agreement Oc~ 6. Other changes include retirement contributions of 15.64% of annual salary, and extension of health insurance benefits to same-sex domesuc partners. Gay Games 2002: Anyone Can Compete SYDNEY, Australia (AP) -For those who’ ve dreamed of competing in the Olympics but failed to meet the athletic requirements, there’ s still hope: they can sign up for the Sydney 2002 Gay Games. The event is open to everyone. "There is no minimum standard required to participate," Game Gibson, chief executive officer of the Sydney Gay Games, noted. "No one is excluded, regardless of gender, sextmlity, race or physical ability." Organizers expect the two-week event, which includes a weeklong cultural.festival and opens Oct. 25, 2002, to attract over 14,000 participants from at least 78 countries. There are more than 10,000 athletes ¯ competing in the Olympics. Gibson also said the Gay Games, whiCh will attract mostly Lesbian, Gay, Transgender and Bisexual competitors, have found their biggest sponsor. San Francisco- based Gay.com, an online supplier of services to the homosexual community, has entered into a $1.5 million agreement to be the event’ s official. Internet media sponsor,.he said. The competition, which will run from Nov..3 to Nov. 9, 2002, has 31 sports; some with a distinctive Australian flavor, chairwoman Colette Steer said, including netball and touch rugby. Butother sports on the agenda include Olympic events such as badminton, baseball, athletics, field hockey, tennis, swimming and volleyball. The sports will be held in two main zones - Olympic Park and around Sydney Harbor. As well as the official sports, the sixth edition of the Gay Games will feature exhibition events such as surfing and surf lifesaving, dragon boat racing and what organizers are calling "mind games" - ehes s, bridge, backgammon and mahjong. Steer played softball in the 1998 Gay Games in Amsterdam. She recalled with emotion waving he,r "little pink flag, as one does" ~t the Gay Games opening ceremony. The Gay Games are "an opportunity to celebratewhatweare.., and to enjoy ourselves a United in God’s Love MCC.United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11:00 am Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, SundaySchool, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Servic~ 6pm 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 Sandra Hill M.s. 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Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You in that fiee and open--and tolerant environment," Gibson said. Over 15,000 people competed in the Amsterdam Gay Games. The first Gay Games were held in 1982 in San Francisco. Organizers said the influx of nearly 35,000 visitors to Sydney for the games and festival will injectabout $55millioninto the region’ s economy. On the Net: www.Gaygamesvi.org.au Gov. Ventura to Offer Partner Benefits ST. PAUL (AP) - If his administration moves forward with a plan to provide benefits for domestic partners of state employees, Gov. Jesse Venturawould demand proof of a committed relationship, he said in September. "There will be documentation signed; there will be contractual things that will go on between these people," Ventura said. "It’s not like a fly-by-night relationship, where, ’Gee I met someone in the bar and now I’m going to make them a domestic partner for a week and a half.’ " Few other details emerged about the possible extension of health and insurance benefits to domestic partners, a still-in-the-works proposal Venture’ s ad.. ministration disclosed recently. Employee Relations Commissioner Julien Carter said if the proposal is confined to same-sex couples only, he expects it to affect about 1% of the state’s 53,000-member workforce, or 530 employees. It’s not clear if heterosexual domestic partners would be covered. "There are a series of decisions to be made and that definition of domestic partner is one of them," said Ventura’ s spokesman, John Wodele. If heterosexuals are included, Carter said his department’s best estimate is that 3% of employees would take advantage of that arrangement. "We just don’ tknow for sure what the best planning number is, but it seems to be in (he ballpark," he said. Ventura stressed during his weekly radio show that the state needs to do something to stay competitive with the private sector: Both are fighting to attract new employees in a tight labor market. "What are they going to pick?" Ventura said of prospective hires. "They" re going to pick the company that gives them the best benefits, the best working conditions. That’ s what this issue is greatly about." Even before Venmra’s staff finalized the plan, conservative lawmakers discounted its chances. "I don’t think it’s going to fly," said state Rep. Tony Kielkucki, R-Lester Prairie. "He’ s got more support for unicameral than he has for this one." An effort failed this year to get a constitutional amendment On the ballot for a one,house Legislature. Vermont, Hawaii, Oregon, Washington. and Massachusetts offer benefits to domestic partners, according to OutFront Minnesota, an advocacy group for Gay, Lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities. Fort Worth city council mulls ban on Gay bias FORT WORTH-, Texas (AP) - For the third time in eight years, a measure that would protect sexual orientation under Fort Worth’s anti-discrimination law is being discussed by.members of thecity council. The current drive to add sexual orientation is being led by Councilman Chuck Silcox; a conservative Republican who ended discussions of a similar proposal in January 1999. Under the proposal,. Gays and .-Lesbians would be added to the list of protected cl~S in Fort Worth’ s anti-discrimination ordinance. The list already indudes race, creed, color, religion, gender, disability, national origin and family status. City officials said violation of the anti-discrimination ordinance is a .nfisdemeanor. !n recent editio~as of the For/~’orth Star-Tdegram. Sitcox said his posit~o,? on tee issue changed after was approached by a Fort \Vor{h man who lost Ms job after .his employer discovered he was Gay "I didn" realize we had the kind of problems out there that we do," Silcox said. "I doff t like the idea t~hat people are losingjobs over this. Anytime there is discrimination, we need to draw the line." Nebraska Amendmentto Outlaw Gay Marriages KEARNEY, Neb. (AP) - The chief supporter and an opponent of a state ban on same-sex marriages predicted extremely different outcomes if the proposed constitutional amendment is approved by voters in November. The predictions varied from prohibiting homosexual couples from adopting children to outlawing all business partnerships between two people of the same sex. Initiative 416 would define marriage in Nebraska as a relationship between only a man and wo~nan, and prohibit any "civil union, domestic partnership or other similar same-sex relationship." At a sometimes-heated fonun before the state’s daily newspaper editors, an opponent of the measure argued that it is poorly written and threatens the legality of all relationships between two people of the same sex, such as business partnerships,joint ownerships and contractual agreements. "Passage of the amendment will lead to years of litigation that will be costly to the state and its taxpayers," said Linda Richenberg of Nebraska Advocate for Justice and Equality. The amendment would simply prohibit same-sex marriages from being recognized by the state, said Guyla Mills, chairwoman of the Defense of Marriage Amendment Committee, which collected more than the required 105,000 signatures to put the question on the ballot. Mills said many constitutional lawyers have reviewed the ballot language and say it is clear on its intent. "This amendment is not about taking rights away from anybody. It is about protecting the time-honored tradition of marriage," Mills said. Under the measure, homosexual couples - including someone who works for state government or the University of Nebraska system would be prevented from sharing state insurance benefits. It also would prevent Gay and Lesbians from adopting children. She said it will not impact the insurance providers in the state or the insurance policies of private businesses and corporations. Richenberg argued that if voters approve the ban. Nebraska will earn a reputalaon as a hostile place to work and live, prompting an exodus of ho~nosexuals and their families who have been productive members of the state’ s work force. "We don’ t want to see anyone leave the state because of this," Mills said. "Wejust don’ t think a minority ofpeople should have the right to redefine marriage for everybody." Mills pointed out several times that both of the state’s senate candidates, Republican Don Stenberg and Democrat Ben Nelson, plan to vote in support of the same-sex marriage ban. Richenberg said the amendment is unnecessary in a conservative state like Nebraska, where there is not a push to legalize same-sex unions. "A vote against 416 is not going to legalize same-sex marriages," she said. "Same-sex marriages do not exist in Nebraska, and there will be no change." The forum was sponsored by the Nebraska Associated Press Association. Lesbian Denied Right to . Legally Change Name NEWARK, N.J. (AP) - A Lesbian who wanted to hyphenate her na03e to in.cldde ’that of hbr longume partner i’s @pealing the decision of a judge who said a name change would create the impression the two women were married. The American Civil Liberties Umon of New Jersey has appealed Superior Court Judge Anthony J. Iuliani’s decision ~o deny Jill Bacharach’s application ’ to change her name. At a hearing m Augus|o !uliani deniext fi~e Cedar Grove woman’ s petiti-’,~, sayi~g he feared it wo~d create the appem’a~m~ that she and imr female ,~artner were roamed, said ACLU staff{" attorney J.C. :~Nver. Sam.esex uNons ~z,: not !egaily recogxfizcd in ~iew Jersa y arid in every state except. Vermont. "I have ~ever expecied this sort of discrimination from a court of taw’y said Bacharach, 32. Salver said the judge’ s concern about the appearance of a same-sex union is an improper basis to deny a name change. . . see Name, p. 7 Not EnoUgh Dollars : m~nt in emergency rooms, wbich is more For Homeless Sick " expensive than standard care. Emergency rooms also don’ t offer AIDS patients the NEW YORK (AP) - They carry their life’ s possessions on withering backs and hide death within their broken bodies. Some spent anentirelifetimeonthe streets, ¯ searching for a home under a molding cardboardboxin atrash-strewn alleyway. ¯ Others are teens who ran from something ¯ but stumbled into a life far worse; they " trade sex for a night in a bed. Still more " believe their luck has run out after re- ¯ centlylosingjobs,apartments and friends,. " But every day, a small handful of the ¯ thousands of homeless men and women living with AIDS in New York City make ¯ a tremendous effort rarely taken by their brethren. They seek help. They fight for ¯ life, no matter the inevitable future. Scientists haven’ t cured HIV or AIDS, but their powerful .drug concoctions that keep people alive longer create a curious " problem. Public and non-profit agencies already struggle to pay for their existing cases. Now they wonder: How can we " possibly help the new people infected " with the virus? "Today, people think the ePidemic is ¯ over," said Gina Quattrochi, the president " of the National AIDS Housing Coalition " andtheexecutivedirectoratBaileyHouse, : a private center in Greenwich Village ¯ helping homeless AIDS survivors. "The ¯ reality is people are living much ~nger, " but the vast majority are disabled. Currently, Congress is debating next ¯ year’ s budget. Advocates like.Quattrochi " requested increasing the $232 million budgetby $60 million- and were worried ¯ when President Clinton proposed upping " it to just $260 million. Disappointment " has turned to fear because Senate leaders ". don’ twantto increase the appropriation at ¯ all. "It’s thin. We have to get it up," said " U.S. Rep. Jerrold Nadler, D-N.Y., a longtime supporter of homeless _&IDS services who pushed the House to propose " increasing funds to $250 million. "This country i" s ro"m"ng i"n mortey." ¯ Expending millions of dollars .for AID.S- " exclusive assistance meets resistance m . every case. ’qqaere has always been pres- ¯ surefrom thefarright to portray itfor drug addicts and queers," Quattrochi said, adding that others question the need to fund specific AIDS housing when so much housing is already available. Quattrochi says only half of Bailey House’s residents are Gay or Lesbian. She noted that at least 450,000 Americans with AIDS nee~l, housing, and that’s a conservative estimate because some haven’t learned they have the illness or are mentally ill andmay neverknow. New York, the city that served 1,200 homeless people with AIDS in 1988, now assists more than 27,000. That total is steadily increasing as it has for the past few years, said Ruth Reinecke, a spokeswoman for the city’ s Division of AIDS Services. A Brooklyn federal judge’s decision earlier this week shows the city apparently hash’ t adjusted wall to the surging numbers. The judge, who slammed the Division of AIDS Services for "chronically and systematically" delaying or terminating assistance, ordered the agency placed under federal oversight for three years. The city plans to appeal the decision. Quattrochi says if members of Congress wouldlook at operations like Bailey House, they’ d understand why advocates plead for more money. The alternative, she says, is that health care costs will soar when homeless AIDS patients seek treatcounseling that could hdp decrease the spread of HIV. Bailey House, one of many nonprofit groups that assist the city in serving the homeless AIDS population, started when the virus was first identified and it was still consideredby many as homosexuals’ punishment from God. The 6 1/2-story building, set m the primest of real estate along the Hudson River, nurtured homeless AIDS survivors. In 1995, Bailey House added a vocational studies program because clients lived longer thanks to the drug cocktails and weren’t interested in just wasting away. Three years later, Bailey House opened the program to anyone with AIDS living in New York. "I wanted to do something productive with my life," said Sean Ransom, 31, who contracted the virus in the late 1980s and sought help four years ago. "I didn’ t want to... take my reeds and wait to die." Those medications - a triple combination of drugs - have doubledthe average time it takes for the HIV infection to developinto AIDS, said ProfesssorAlvaro Munoz of Johns Hopkins University’s School of Public Health. They also increased the average survival time ofAIDS sufferers from 18 months to six years. In the late 1980s, residents in Bailey House stayed an average of three months, and their stay almost always ended at a funeral home. These days, they stay abont three years, if not longer. !¢lany walk out on their own, often to Bailey House-assisted apartments. Beyond treatment, stable housing is crucial to every patients’ health, Quattrochi says. Two-thirds of AIDS patients cite housing as a top priority,just below medical treatment. Living on a friend’ s couch or moving between shelters, patients find ~t difficult and tiring to get continual care; the effort weakens the body and strengthens the disease - a deadly duo. Patients also must live with failing organs, and need refrigerators to keep their medicine effective. Stable housing becomes a primal urge, Quattrochi says. "Let me put it this way, what I always ask people is, ’Where do you want to be when you have the flu?’" she said. "You want- to be at home." These problems becomeremote when a homeless person wakes up after a night under crumbled, urine-stained newspapers. Medications? It’ s doubtful they have any. It’ s often little better in city-run shel- ¯ ters. Derryck, who declined to g~ve his last ¯" name, lived in emergency housing offi- ".. cially called Single Room Occupancy : Units, but known by residents as bare- ." boned welfare hotels. He could touch all ¯ four walls from the middle of his cubicle. "- Occupants shared a single bathroom, and he shudders when remembering the filth. ¯ Prostitutes, drugs, loan sharking, he re- : calls, this placewas amodernday Sodom : and Gomorrah.’And Derryck, who is 50, ¯ concedes he was lucky to live the,re. "There s even a lack of bad housing, he ¯ said glumly. ¯ But Derryck found his way to Bailey : House. Now hecansitonhisbedinhis 85- ¯ square-foot home, with its view of the ¯ Hudson River, watch TV, grab a snack - or his medications -from h~s mini-fridge, _" or use his personal bathroom. 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HIV Prevention Ad Banned from TV SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A set of television ads that depict bare-chested men and a male-to-female transgender delivenng an HIV prevention message have been pulled from daytime TVat a Bay Area station. Rather than run the 30-second ad during afternoon talk shows, KGO Channel 7 offered to run the ads - which encourage HIV-positive men and women to practice safe sex and be honest with partners about their status - after 10 p.m. so that fewer children would see them. A Better World, the San Francisco advertising agency that purchased the spot, chose the original time frame because researchers have discovered 3 and 4 p.m. shows are popular with Gay men. However, KGOleaders say that the ads clash with afternoon viewer expectations. "With a Rosie (O’ Dounell) episod,°, with ’NSYNC, or another pop culture guest on it, it would be a little eyepopping for a commercial like this to show up," said David Metz, director of programming services at KGO. Les Pappas, president of the agency., called KGO’s decision homophobic. "We’ ve done the research to find out what our target audience is watching, and they’ re watching Rosie and Oprah. We don’t want to be relegated or banished until after 10 p.m.," Pappas said. ABetterWorldcreated the $345,000 ad campaign for the city’ s health department after a study last month that fond the rate of HIV infection among Gay men in San Francisco is climbing at an alarming rate. New HIV infections in the city increased form 498 in 1997 to 790 last year, according to the Health Department study. NYC Loses Case Over AIDS Care NEW YORK (AP) - A federal judge has ruled the city mistreated poor people with AIDS by subjecting them to bureaucratic mismanagement and delays in housing, health and other benefits. In his ruling, U.S. District Judge Sterling Johnson said officials violated theAmericans with Disabilities Act by "chronically and system.- atically failing to.provide (AIDS patients) with meaningful access to critical subsistence benefits and services." Hecalled the consequences "devastating." The opinion stems from a class-action lawsuit filed in federal court on behalf of 25,000 plaintiffs dtywide whohaveAIDS or other HIV-related illnesses. Johnson’s ruling detailed testimony - heard earlier this year at a bench trial - by plaintiffs who described getting the rtmaround from the Division for AIDS Services for months, if not years. The judge appointed a federal magistrate to monitor the agency over the next three years. Michael Hess, the city’ s counsel, criticized the ruling and promised an appeal. "Very frankly, I think it’ s very flawed," Hess said, adding that thejudge’ s opinion was "very poorly done and contains a lot of errors that I hope will be corrected." Hess said Johnson relied on informauon that was more than five years old. Statistics cited by Johnson showed that in one out Of three cases, the city failed to meetits own30-day deadline for responding to requests for services. He ordered the city to comply. The ruling was the latest in which Housing Works has succeeded in forcing Mayor Rudolph Giuliani’ s administration to overhaul portions of its policies. In 1999, U.S. District Judge Allen Schwartz found that city officials had acted with "retaliatory intent" against the nonprofit group, which has been a relentless critic of Giuliani’ s policies on AIDS. Vatican Officials: Still Noto Condoms VATICAN CITY (AP) - A Vatican official said recently that two American Jesuits have distorted church positions b,,y suggesting that the Vatiean has become more tolerant" about the distribution of condoms to fight AIDS. Monsignor Jacques Suaudeau said the Vatican stance hasn’ t changed, although the church must not be seen as indifferent to AIDS sufferers and the battle to stop the disease’ s spread. Some in the church have been seeking a softening in the position of the Vatican, which has been accused by some governments of hindering the AIDS battle. Writing in the Sept. 23 issue of "America," a Jesuit magazine, the authors pointed to an April article written by Suaudeauin the Vaticannewspaper. They said it contained important signals: That while some individual bishops have repudiated local HIV prevention programs that include the distribution of condoms, "the Roman curia is more tolerant on the matter." The article was written by the Revs. John Fuller, an associate professor of medicine at Boston University School of Medicine, and James Keenan, professor ofmoral theology atWestonJesuit School of Theology in Cambridge, Mass. Suaudeau called the article a"pretext to relaunch the argument." "This is a manipulation. It is blown up and exaggerated," he told The Associated Press. In his article, Suaudeau endorsed sexual abstinence and chastity as the methods to prevent AIDS, citing church programs to promote that. Suaudeau’ s article went on to say that the use of condoms in Thailand "had particularly good results for these people with regard to the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. It said the use of condoms in those circumstances "is actually a ’lesser evil’" but then added that "it cannot be proposed as a model ofhumanization and development." Suaudeau said he wrote the article to show the Vatican was not indifferent to the AIDS problem. Easier Access to Needles in NM SANTA FE (AP) - State health officials want to change New Mexico’ s Controlled Substances Act to state that pharmacists who prbvide syringes to intravenous-di’ug users are not guilty of distributing drug paraphernalia. State officials say the change would help combat the spread of infectious diseases like HIV and Hepatitis B and C. The Pharmacy Board decided to back the change, which would need to be passed by the Legislature and signed by Gov. Gary Johnson. In 1997, Johnson signed into law the Harm Reduction Act that made New Mexico the second state in the nation to create a state-funded needleexchange progran~ for drug users. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor ." homoerotically tinged moments, and it Happy Samhain! (pronounced "sow- ¯ features Amanda Bearse playing Straight. eft’- it’ s Gaelic) We turn in the wheel of " (She was the next door neighbor on"Martheyearto theseasonofthethinning ofthe ¯ lied With Children", who came out a few veils, when people all over the word felt ¯ years back.) Roddy McDowell is fabuthe shifts that marked th~ time of honor- " lous as an inept bachelor vampire hunter ing th.eir ancestors. " - One wonders why he never married - Samhain in pagan Celtic Britain, was a .* "nudge, nudge, wink, wink." The charactime forhonoring the spirits of those that " ter, I mean. And Stephen Geoffreys turns have passed on, as in a touching perwell as the day of - .I love vampire Elms, and f0rmance as the the dead in Spain " " lonelyoutcastwho andMexico.Itwas ~]alS is tlae ]~est tlme of year. gets seduced by an important boll- Chris Sarandon’ s day all over the Of course, ~t’s even l~etter ff ever-so-handpre- Christian some vampire. world, enough so ~t~s a darl~, w~indy, stormy Ue’s another one that when the that could show up Church took over, ni~lat w~tla t:launder craslaln~ outside my winthey renameditAll dow any time. It’ s Hallow’s Eve and and l~htnln~ flash~n~ and.., a fun film, and All Saints Day. It - worth the cost. shrunk from a oh~ sorry~ ~ett~n~ a bit caught Available on three day festival, DVD. to a one day cel- up ~n the deser~ptlon. For those that ebration. In Storms do that to me. like Tom Cruise Amelica, it was " " with fangs (he retrivialized into w]aere was I? fusedtodothekiss Halloween. So, with Antonio just for old times’ O1~ yes, vampires and film. Banderas - was sake, take a mo- " " this due to his inment that day to "’" security with his remember those loved ones who have own sexuality since it was inthe script?), passed on. "Interview With The Vampire" has been I love vampire films, and thisis thebest rereleased on DVD with new documentime of year. Of course, it’ s even bet{er if tary footage and a few other extras thrown it’sadark, windy, stormy night with thtm- " iu. Brad Pitt plays Lestat, and the now der crashing and lightning flashing and. quite grown up Kirsten Dunst turned in a ¯ oh, sorry, getting a bit caught up in the stellar performance as an adult trapped in description. Storms do that to me.. a child’ s body. Good for the moody vetowhere was I? Oh, yes, vampires and film. pire types. One of the best verslons of the Dracnla For fans of the original Hammer legend, although the critics ripped it to Dracnlas, there are two on DVD: Dracnla, shreds, is the 1979 Frank Langella fea- Prince of Darkness, the first sequel with ture. Langella’ s Drac would be welcome ChristopherLee, after"HorrorofDracula" to show up outside my window anytime (unavailable on DVD - dammit!); and and suck anything he wanted. The film, Satanic Rites of Dracula, which was the directed by John Badham, also stars Kate last Hammer Dracula with Chris I~e. It Nelligan and Laurence Olivier in his last was a rather inept handling of putting film performance. While there are times Drac in what was them "modem" times thepacingtrudgesabitslowly, overallthe (1973). Only for those diehr~;d film is one of the lnshest productions of "I)racufans". who can’t stand to have the legend I’ve seen, even though it is completecollections.Still,it’safunromp, based more on the play than the actual and the costumes are well worthlaughing book. That didn’ t really bother me, picky at. Did people really wear that then? LOL purist that I am, and the Dracula in this The only one with any style was Drac, in filmhas quiteadry sense of humor that is timeless black and long cloak. Dracula, easy to miss if you ares’ t prone to catch- ~" PrinceofDarkness, atleastkepthiminthe ing it. It is widely available on DVD, and " 1800’ s, although Lee is left with little to although the print they used to transfer . do but hiss and look menacing. Still, it’ s a from is prone to noise (specks where the ¯ much better picture, and a fun romp. film has started to come off the magnetic " Wemer Herzog’ s remake of Nosferatu strip it’ s on), it is still a great atmospheric " is available, but unless you want to be thrill for the buck. bored to tears with Drac’ s eternal anguish Stay away from Coppola’s version, . over killingthings, pass. It really is thoug]~ ~t~ s b!9ody awful and really sucks " "DraculaNeeds Prozac"., and Klaus Kinski - i’n a b~id’Wa~ (Pun intendedl) is So wtfiny in the part, that youjust wanna Nosferatu, the first Dracula film ever slap him after 5 minut,e~s. And talk about made, and regarded as a masterpiece of ° pace.., those 2 hours-seem like 2 days. th~Germanexpressionisticcinema,isalso Again, only for the hardcore collector, a~lable,.meticuloi~sly restored, and with although afterhearing so much about it, it a.~gry interesting commentary on DVD. was nice to finally see it. Or not. Always -?irected by F.W: Murnau, ,an openly spoken of as a "classic," it m~es me ga~ director, the homoerotic ~ndertones wonder wlm decides what w~il be deemed ~ake fi~ walt worth having, or at least, aclassic andjt~st how hard they need robe renting. Re-scored wifia the original or- hit upside the head with the inteliigencc chestra~:ion, it is a fascinating ,ook at d_m stick. Nstory. Produ~din !92~.,itacmNiyholds If 3 ou re m the moodfor something in tap wel! today, a more literary vein, I czm heartily recom-. For those seekiv.g .lus~ a fun romp mend "Desrnond", by Ulysses Deitz. A through vampire fi.hn!,’md with fang-in- weL writtensagaofamodemvampinthe cheek, there s l~ngm Night", about a Anne Rice tradition, this one does not shy vampireandhisghoul, who happens to be away from the fact that, yes indeed, the male. They have a couple of lovely vamps are Gay. see Jim, p. 9 Tuesday, November 7 Election Day HRC WATCH PARTY Because win or lose, it’s good to be among friends 9 PM 3340 South Peoria, Tulsa, OK Must be 21 - Cash Bar HRC envisions an America where lesbian and gay people are ensured of their basic equal rights. You can help us do our work by joining us for either or both of these events (or by joining HRC - it’s just $35, call 584~2913 or email hrctulsaoklahoma@aol.com). HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ TULSA Sunday, October 29th 3:00 PM & 7:00 PM Helga’s Horribles Present scenes from "The Little Shop of Horrors" !7th & Main, Tulsa, OK Limited Seating Call 584-~913 for reservations Must be 21 - Cash Bar A survey of books which Tulsa police required to be shrinkwrapped in Borders’ October 14 8:00 pm Friday O~tober 20 21st St. location turned up at least 20 wrapped tifles over half of which were Gay and Lesbian interest books, the other half being mostly how-to sex guides for heterosexuals. Among the Gay rifles were serious art monographs on the mid-century photographer, George Platt Lynes, controversial photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, and photographer David LaChappelle. Also chosen were history books like "Who’s a Pretty Boy Then? 150 Years of Gay Life in Pictures" and "Nothing But the Girl, The Blatant Lesbian Image" and "Gay Planet, All Things for All Gay Men." Only one title of all those wrapped, an art book by Tom of Finland, appeared possibly to meet the standard for shrinkwrapping. The police move has raised alarm in local ACLU (American Civil Liberties Union) activists andGay community leaders. William Hinkle, attorney, PFLAG and ACLU activist responded to the police actions, saying "[they] can’t d,~ that. ¯. absolutely [not]." Hinkle further characterized the law as "blunt instrument," that if indeed the books were in violation of an Oklahoma statute, then an arrest should have been made. Kerry Lewis, v?’g president of TOHR (Tulsa Oklaho~ mans for Human Rights) and an attorney with a prominent Tulsa finn, called the police actions "really kind of scary" and indicated that TOHR was very interested in the impact of this action. Lewis noted thafthere appeared to be some other actions on the part of Tulsa police, a recent i.d.-check in a Tulsa club, that raised concern about a resurgence of anti-Gay harassment by Tulsa police. Other issues: Police Chief Ron Palmer stated that he did not issue the order for this action. Nor did Mayor Susan Savage know of the incident. City standards do restrict city councilors (legislative branch) from directing city employees to-perform actions. City councilor Gary Watts said that the mayor and chief of police have given permission for city councilors to talk directly to majors and deputy chiefs but that had he had a similar complaint he would have told the constituent to call the police directly. Watts said if a city councilor gave an order to the police, it was wrong, and if the officer took the order, it was doubly wrong. Corporate spokespeople for both Borderand Barnes &Noble responded. Sandy Spears, district manager for Barnes & Noble said they follow state and local ordinances but we don’t censor..." Borders representatives in a conference call claimed that they have a"dear dedication to the First Amendment but they are also conscious of the community they’re in." Borders representatives claimed they have always shrinkwrapped some books and that some come that way from the printers. (All of the Gay rifles TFN examined had locally applied bar code tags under the shrinkwrap indicating that these had not originally been wrapped. Borders representatives also claim that any customer can remove shrinkwrap in order to view a book but also acknowledged that they post no signs to let customers know about that option. They also acknowledged that to some customers the presence ofthe shrinkwrap was intimidating - that it appeared to send a message that the materials were illicit. seeming concern about Gay patrons. Tulsa County District Attorney Tim Harris stated that he had not been consuited before this action commenting that he’ s often seen as acting in coordination with this,sort of action but had not done so. Borders spokespeople indicated that they will send their regional management to visit Tulsa stores sometime in the next few weeks to review the situation. See editorial: Censorship Throug,;~ Intimidation, p. 3 No dancing around the subject here. And it’ s a compelling story as well, with style and wit. One of my favorites. John Peyton Cooke’ s "Out for Blood" is another excellent book with wall-written characters and a fun romp through vampland. It’ s worth hunting for in used bookstores or garage sales, since it’ s unfortanately out of print. There are two anthologies out that are worth the reading - the stories are hit and miss, but there’ s more hits than misses, so it’s worth the time - "Brothers of the Night", and "Sons of Darkness", edited by Michael Rowe and Thomas Roche. The covers are awful, but it just goes to prove the saying,"You can’ tjudge a book, etc." I’d say about 95% of the stories are excellent, which makes the 5% bearable. And there’s something for everyone. I usually don’ t care much for anthologies, but these are worth picking up. Stay away from"Vampires Anonymous". That’ s the worst piece of dreck I’ ve read in many a year of reading vampire fiction. That’ s it for the "Things that go boink in the night section." I mean, bump, yeah, bump! Still, ifyouknow of anyone with a cape And there’ s something for everyone. ! usually don’ t care much for anthologies, but these are worth picking up. Stay away from"Vampires Anonymous". That’ s the worst piece of dreck I’ ve read in many a year of reading vampire fiction. That’ s it for the "Things that go boink in the night section." I mean, bump, yeah, bump! Still, ifyou know of anyone with a cape feti sh, hates daylight, and has been around 200 years but only looks 30-something, is allergic to garlic, and has a really good immune system, send him to me... being bitten can be fun, and the neck is one of my favorite e-zones... But by merely talking about the possibility of arrests, they clearly raise that as threat if the bookstore staff doesn’t do what the police suggest/demand. Also, troubling is the role of TulSa City Councilor Todd Huston. While Chief Palmer claims that Huston did not violate city standards by contacting city staff because he did not "order" them to take a particular action (councilors are not permitted to direct city staff but are required to go through the executive branch, i.e. the mayor or chief or deputy chiefs). But any casual observer will see thatcomment by an elected official to mid-level officers is more likely to be heeded than the complaint of an ordinary citizen. And given the scandal related to former city councilor Anna Falling about orders given to city employees, Huston should have gone through the chain of command of the mayor or at least the chief ofpolice. Surely then more consideration would have been given to the dubious constitutionality of this action, see Censor, p. 10 by Lamont Lindstrom Last week my friend Henry heard a thud. Henry was hanging out at his new boyfriend’s apartment in San Francisco when something big crashed upstairs. "It’ s that annoying yobbo in the third floor apartment at it again," or so they thought. Henry’s boyfriend explained that no one in the building.liked the guy. He was catty and manipulative- the Richard Hatch of the apartmentbuilding. No boyfriends ever knocked on his door. Three days later an ambulance arrived. Theparamedics carried down a body from the third floor. Unlike TV’ s Survivor, the neighbor was the first to go, not the last. He had been lying deadjust above Henry’ s head for several days. Luckily, San Francisco weather can be cool, even in September. The ambulance drove off but Henry still felt creepy. The guy upstairs was no more butstill a presen,.~ remained. A few days later, Henry was bending over working in the garden at the back of the building. Suddenly he shivered. It felt like someone was watching him. He looked up quickly at the blank window of the third floor apartment. Was somebody still there?Was that aface? His boyfriend’ s mother, too, got goosebumps in the garage when she walked by the dead guy’ s car. The bitter queen, it seems, was now a ghostly voyeur. Henry isn’ t thrilled to spend the night at ahaunted apartment house, even one with Gay ghosts. Death has been no stranger to the Gay community, especially since the early 1980s, andmany ofus are hauntedin one way or another. Still, lurking spirits who cling to home can be annoying (even if good apartments are hard to .find in San Francisco). Luckily, Henry’ s boyfriend had already made plans to move. The ghost can keep the place. My friends on Tauna - a South Pacific island I once haunted mysdf- were similarly nervous about ghosts. Folks there are prone to stumble across spirits at any moment. Even though people mostly run into the ghosts of dead loved ones (morn, dad, grandpa), they aren’ t toohappy about these encounters. If the dead are making themselves known, there must be a reason. Ghosts can help you. But they can also hurt you too, especially if they are I didn’ t meet a~y~Gay:gh~osts imTamaa but there is a rather tricky Bisexual spirit living on the island: the dreaded and seductive Nakwa. People have sex with ghosts. What we think are "wet dreams," Islanders ~+piaiii akOff~~akwa ~ptrit sneaking ~tb bai With :thdm~. A mail: (a straight on~ atl~ast)!~s that he is having sex With ti ~tiful:w0man ~ but it’ s actually the ~iiOst Onlypretending to be a woman. Perfidious Nakwa steals the dreamer’ s semen and then changes its sex from female to male. It next creeps into the bed ofa sleeping woman, appearing as ahandsomeguy. Ithas sex with the sleeper and impregnates her with sperm stolen from its previous victim. Such ghostly pregnancies can be deadly. The woman "...Anthropologist Sherry Ortner, drawln~ on the Freneh feminist Simone Beauvoir, ~,~nee proposed that ’Man is to Culture as Woman is to Nature.’ Ortner was seekln~ a reason for why, almost everywhere, people value what men do more than they value what women do..." ¯ may die unless her false pregnancy is ~ diagnosed and treated by local healers. ," Ghosts you meet while awake can also ¯ make trouble._ One day a young woman named Risi just vanished. Her family panicked. Nobody disappears in this intimate society where everyone always knows everyone else’ s business. We rushed to the graveyard and blew triton shell trumpets loudly to put-the spirit world on nouce: buuuuuuu! Village theory was that the girl’s grandmother, who had died the previous year, had come back to fetch Risi to keep her company in "the other side" - the world of the spirits. Four days later a somewhatbedraggled Risi wandered back into the village. It wasn’t grandmother, so it turned out, but rather a handsome ghost she didn’ trecognize. ¯ He grabbed her by the arm and pulled her off deep into the forest - ¯ highup on the mountainside where people ¯ ordinarily are afraid to walk. Risi admit- " ted that she had "cooked" for the spirit. ¯ Her folks immediately suspected that she ¯ and the ghost had had sex. When a girl ¯ ¯ cooks for aguy, she’ slikely offeringmore than just yams and taro. ¯ Somehow Risi managed to escape and ¯ find her way back home. Her family was ¯ going to have to be on guard the next few ¯ months to make sure that Risi hadn’t ¯ come home with a spirit child in her ¯ Womb. ¯ That was her story at least, and none ¯ doubted it - except me, just a little, but ¯ only becauseI’veneverrunintoanyhorny ¯ ¯ ghosts myself. But when Henry told me about his Gay ghost, I wondered if per- " haps randiness is why the spirit refuses tO ¯ leave the building. The guy. got no saris- " faction while aliVe; he now haunts lzs ¯ luckier neighbors ~ staring, for example, ," at Henry’s handsomebehind. Maybe ¯ Henry should ask the ghost out on a date. ¯ Hall6ween would be perfect. Last but hardly least is the failure of the bookstores to defend First Amendment protections. What is most troubling was the corporate response which was not to reassure Gay & Lesbian customers that our books will not be wrapped but which was to defend their fight to shrinkwrap books. Wrapping books, even if you can open them (if you knOW to ask)C-sends a message that some subjects a~ebad. It isn’ t grand censorship in theformofmaking the materials unavailable but it is petit censorship and it is still objectionable~ This may seem a small issue - after ,all it’ s just a bit of shrinkwrap -but this is how rights are lost, through a slow process of erosion. Citizens might want to contact their councilors and demand that we keep our police officers out of the bookstores (and who knows what next, our libraries?) and out on the streets. Timothy .W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. Are You Gay. or Bisex.ual? Are YOU Native Amer|can?. Tulsa’s Two-Spirited Indian Me¢n’s _ / ~uEpvpeonrtinGgrosuupppisorhtgerreoufoprmyoeue,tings ~j ’- ¯ Relationship workshops ~!~ ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free H V testing For information callTulsaNative American AIDS Prevention Project IGTA member Call 341.6866 nternationa Toursformoreinformation. Massage Therapy Services Edgar O. Cruz, L.M.T. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory ; By now votes are tallied and the facts ¯ speak for themselves: Dr. Laura ." Schlessinger’ s television talk show, after ¯ being on air only three weeks, is going ; into hiatus for "retooling." Doesn’ t that mean a major make-over? It does in my vocabulary. It also means "trouble.’" This is probably-due more to the fact that Dr. Laura’s show is BORING instead of controversial, and has also landed dead last in ratings among talk shows on television (and among many other shows as well). However, I figure that the people .over at stopdrlaura.com are giving themselves a pat on the back for a job well done since their first two protests, in Chicago and Dallas back in April, made the public more aware of this woman’ s dangerous rantings. These two major city demonstrations weren’t the last, and August 26, Austin, Texas held a protest outsideits CBS affiliate station, KEYE-TV, "The Eye of Austi..". The protest was organized chiefly by stopdrlauraanstin.com. How do I know this? I was on the front lines. Having broken my footjust a week earlier, I went down to march (as best I could) with other Gay/lesbian/straight concerned citizens who didn’t want the show to air at its scheduled 4 pm ttme slot. Their reason? CbJldren at home, many without parental supervision, would watch Dr. Laura and receive her message, thus ensuring that homophobia stays alive and dangerous in Texas. Every Fundamentalist Baptist is ensuring that as we speak. We don’ t need more help from a television talk show wannabe. Meeting with the assistant of stopdrlaura.com, Andy Thayer, was an experience. He’ s been to most of the Dr. Laura protests in most of the states in the country. That’ s lots of traveling. When I heard there would be about one hundred protesters, I was exhilarated and stopped thinking about the pain inmy footandmy hideous lack of sleep from the night before. But as 11 am approached, it was obvious there would only be about30--35 participants in this protest. The demonstmtionoutside the television stationlasted approximately anhour, alongafairlykigh traffic areain Austin. Mostcars that drove by included sympathizers, those agaiast the Dr. Laura talk show. Weheard from a local Christian miaister who had recently officiated at the funeral of a Gay boy killed in a bashing. He said that for a week after the funeral he listened to a local Christian radio station and heard endless Gay bashing from the "Christians." He made the point that not only should weblame Dr. Laurafor spreading hatred about Gays, and this radio station, but we should ultimately look to ourselves to see what .we could do to prevent this abysmal crime from happening again. Withonly35protesters present, it looked like the rest of the Gay/Lesbian] Bisexual/Transgendered community of Austin just didn’t care. Do you care? Do you have what it takes to stand on a street corner and protest? Sure you do. That’s the easy part. The difficulty comes in our everyday lives when we continually hide "...Do you have what it takes to stand on a street corner and protest~ Sure you do. That’s the easy part. The dlffieulty comes in our everyday lives when we eontlnuaily hide who we are, or when we just want someone else to take up the cause because it’s become too dlffieult beatin, our heads aCalnst that wall.. 7 who we are, or when we just want someone else to take up the cause: because it’ s become too difficult beating our heads against that wall. Having that door slammed in our face. Being turned down for thatjob. Tryingto reach a community that should understand one another, but instead tries to fight forMs/her space and keeps others out. Only when we stand united will anyone take us seriously. Look what that’s done for the religious right. They have a whole damn political party on their side. Join the battle for yourselves and your partners. As they sing in Les Miserables, "This is the music of a people who will not be slaves again." Join in the crusade. You won’ t know what you’ re missing until you do. ¯ Lesbian couples break up; separate--It was bound to happen, you say. It couldn’ t " last forever, especially in Hollywood. : Well, one couple breaks up ("I could have ¯ seen that coming from day one") and one ¯ couple separates ("This was out of left ." field"). The former quote could be said of ¯ the break up of the three and a half year ¯ relationship ofEllen DeGeneres andAnne ; Heche. Umm, not too surprising. In fact, ¯ since thenews was armounced1as tmonth, tabloids have announced the reasons for ¯ the breakup: Ellen Finds Anne in Bed ¯ With Another Woman; Ellen Finds Anne ¯ in Bed With Another Man; Ellen’s Ex Pregnant. I-Immm, why doesn’t ELLEN ¯ get any action? The day the couple an- . nouncedtheirbreakup, A~tme Heche"sup- ¯ posedly" went for a drive in very sunny, ¯ hot weather with the top down on the ¯ convertible. Not too swift for someone : SO fair skinned. Later, after "suppos- ¯ edly" suffering heat stroke,Anneknocked ¯ on a stranger’s door and began talking ." about God and spaceships. Ellen, if you ¯ were theonewhokickedherout, all Ihave ¯ tosayis: Waytogo, Grrl! ; More surprising was the. separation of ; rock star Melissa Etheridge and ten year ¯ partnerJulieCypher. Again, anotherpress ." announcement.Whatisitaboutthesefour ¯ women that makes them tell all to the ¯ world? In this case, Etheridge and Cypher ¯ split on extremely amicable terms, even ; buying two separate houses next d~or to ;- one another, so their children won t feel the separation. They will still have their ¯ two mommies beside them. Well, that’ s a ¯ way to do divorce all right, especially ¯ withchildreninvolved.However, theway ¯ Melissaimmortalizes her andJulie’ s fights ¯ into her songs, I can’ t wait for Melissa’ s ¯ next album, already being recorded. ¯ Can anything be learned from these ¯ separations?Well,if you’re a Witty come- " dielme, don’ t get involved with a flalse. If ¯ you have one of the strongest pers0nali- ," ties on the planet, then maybe you ¯ shouldn’tgetinvolvedwiththeotherstron- ¯ gest personaiiiy on the planeL in other ¯ words, You can "come to:my windoff" ¯ because ’Tmthe only one",b~tyoubett~ not be"stronger thmi me" or I n~ighthave ¯ a "breakdown." ¯ Gregory, a former schoolteacher and ¯ journalist is based in Ft. Worth. Her cur¯ rent theme song appears to beJillSobule ’s "I Kissed a Girl." Walk for Life 2000 8th Annual Tul,sa AIDS Walk Saturday, Oct. 7, 9:30am Veteran’s Park, 21st & Boulder For more information, call 585-5551. Donations will be increased by 50% with matching dollars through the generosity of the Elton John AIDS Foundation, The Walk is sponsored by the Community Service Council, and will benefit the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP). The Walk is an all volunteer effort and there are no administrative costs. Tulsa Family News is proud to donate this advertisement in support of the Walk and the Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2000] Tulsa Family News, October 2000; Volume 7, Issue 10 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Only in ¯ on December 1 - 3. The event entitled, HEAR The Tulsa where "do-gooder" organizations, like Tulsa Metropolitan ¯ Quilt" will open with student tours during daytime hours on World AIDS Day, Friday, December 1. Ministry (TMM), the National Conference on Community and The opening ceremonies for the general public for Justice (NCCJ), and others can sin~ the praises of interfaith ¯ "HEAR The Quilt" will be proceeded by the tradi¯ tolerance and understanding while excluding or ignoring Lesbian ] tionalWorldAIDS Day candlelightmarch.Themarch and Gay Tulsans, regardless of faith. ¯ will begin at the Courthouse Plaza just west of 5th and ¯ In this case, TMM issued a"Statement in Support of Diversity" ¯ which defines diversity only in terms of race, ethnicity and ¯¯ Denver at 6:30, Friday evening.Marchers are encour¯ religion. TMM’s new executive director the Rev. Stephen Cranford ¯ aged to bring organizational banners and bells; candles ¯ will be provided. Parking is available at the Convenstated that he did not know if the omission was deliberate. tion Center garage. The march will follow a short However, TMM staff said that the text of the statement was ¯ route through downtown Tulsa and will return to the written by TMM board president, Dr. Sandra Rana, who is a ¯ convention center for the Quilt’s opening at 8pro. leader in Tulsa’s Islamic community. Members of Tulsa’s IsThis display of the Quilt will feature 188 sections TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa Deputy Chief of Police Bobby " lamic community have made hostile remarks towards Gays on ¯ of the Quilt, each twelvefeet square. The display will ¯ L. Busby will be the featured speaker at the Nov. several occasions, most recently when a Muslim representative meeting of Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights ¯ at a NCCJ Trialogue on Marriage said that his society would ,¯ be free and open to the public. Organizers note that (TOHR) at the Gay Community Services Center at 21st ¯ murder any Gay men who attempted to marry each other. Dr. ¯ the Quilt has the power to teach, to touch hearts, and to change minds. & Memorial.The meeting begins at 7:30pm. Topics for ’ Rana did not respond to messages left about the "Statement in In conjunction with the "HEAR The Quilt" Disdiscussion with the Chief Busby will include expanding ¯ Support of Diversity". " play, the Council Oak Men’s Chorale under the Tulsa’s "diversity" training for new police recruits and TMM has a history of mostly ignoring Lesbian and Gay issues ¯ for in-service training to include sexual orientation as ¯ with one notable exception: the support of an amendment to ¯ direction of Rick Fortner will perform at Hope Uni¯ Oklahoma’s hate crimes statute which Tulsa Representative Don tarian Church, 8432 South Sheridan Road, Tulsa on wall as rate and etlmicity. Also on the agenda will be : Saturday evening,December2 atT:30pm. Admission discussion of recent police visits to local Gay and : Ross introduced in the legislative session prior to last year’s. ¯ ¯ Lesbian_nightclubs. All are invited to attend. Radford Rader, pastor of College Hill Presbyterian Church, an ¯ is free, with a suggested $10 donation. Proceeds will ¯ benefit the NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter. TOHR will also hold a new volunteer orientation on officially welcoming congregation of Lesbians and Gay men and There also. will be an interfaith worship service Nov. 9th at 7pm at the Center. Center organizers also ¯ member of the TMM executive board, responded that the state(coordinated by Reverend Cathy Elliott, pastor of held an open house for the new facility in October. They " ment was meant to address racial and ethnic diversity because of note that about 80 people attended the event including ¯¯ the coming of the KKK. It was written right before the incident ¯ MCC United Church) to be held at the Quilt display a substantial number of visitors in town for a leather at the Jewish cemetery. Rader stated that he did not feel that the ¯ on Sunday, Dec. 3at 9:30am. ¯ For more information, call (918) 748-3111 or send event. TOHR also hosted a Feastfor,~riends dinner exclusion was deliberate. e-mail to info@TulsaQuilt.org see TMM, p. 9 with raised over $1,000 for The NAMES Project. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Deputy Police Chief To Speak At TOHR, Nov. 14 ¯ Hate In Vermont ¯ Gay Grandmothers Just Maine To Vote Again Want to See Grandkids On Gay Civi, I Rights BROOKFIELD, Vt. (AP) - Mark Hackett was thunderstruck when he looked at the fence facing prop- ¯ TULSA (TFN) - It’s a sad story when families get caught up in ¯ HALLOWELL, Maine (AP) - Maine’s latest referhomophobia and prejudice. It’s common when couples separate " endum on civil fights for Gay citizens resurrects erty he owns on Vermont Route 14. "Exaente the Fag," after one or the other parent realizes that they are Lesbian or Gay. ¯ familiar arguments on both sides, but this time propoit declared, its message clear despite the misspelling. ¯ And when thelegal system gets involved, often the Gay parent ¯¯ nents have polished the proposal and picked up a Hackett, who is Gay, rents the property to two fami- ¯ potentially influential ally. In wirming support from loses, though around the US and evenin Oklahoma, courts cases lies, one of whom has been feuding with the property the Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland, backers owner next door on whose fence the hate message was ." are holding that Lesbians or Gay men are not ipso facto bad spray-painted. Although Hackett as landlord has been ¯¯ parents. But when grandparents are involved, it’s even more ¯ have sought to buttress an exemption for religious institutions. They have also sought to counter claims difficult because the law defers almost completely to parents. only peripherally involved in the neighborhood dispute, ¯ That’s where two Tulsa women, Julene and Schrie, find ¯ that the measure would award anything special or its message was obvious to him. "It’s clearly there for me to see.., the message to my ¯¯ themselves. Both were once married to men and have children ¯ endorse specific sexual behavior. Last time around, the Catholic church sat out the tenant was,’ See how your landlordlikes that,’ "Hackett ¯ fromthose relationships. ¯ dection debate, saying it could not support a law Some of those kids have no problem with their Lesbian moms. said. "I just think the ’Take Back Vermont’ message is making it OK to say stuff like that. I don’t have a ¯ And one of them didn’t have a problem with them, when she ¯ enacted by the Legislature and signed by Gov. Angus problem with people voting Democratic or Republican ¯¯ needed free babysitting and before she was married to a man ¯¯ .King because of ambiguities in its language. The enacted measure was repealed in February 1998 who’s areligious fundamentalists. Now the daughter and the sonor supporting any candidate they want... But you start ¯ in-law who says he’s the head of the house find that "it’s in the ¯ before it ever took effect by a rare "people’s veto" seeing that stuff around the state and it’s not about ¯ best interest of the kids" that the kids not see their grandmother ¯ referendum vote. The outcomein that special election politics, it’s about hate." : was 51% for repeal and 49% against. And it is happening more and more around Vermont ¯¯ or her partner who’s just as close. This time, with numerous other matters on state Legal experts hold out little hope, and even if there were ~ in this heated and polarized campaign season. In ¯ grounds for a court case, judges and juries in Oklahoma are often ¯ ballots expected to produce a bigger voter turnout, Burlington, the Outright Vermont office has taken to locking its doors and taking other security precautions ¯¯ .not sympathetic. But this does not deter friends of the women ¯¯ approval of Question 6 would again expand the Maine Human Rights Act. The proposal would inafter two different men walked into the office on Oct. 13 ¯ who praise them for their kindness and support to their friends " dude the category of"sexual orientation" in a list of and employees when they find themselves in need. and threatened to kill a staff member. "The first one The women own a local dub out on Garnett which while it is ¯ groups protected against discrimination in the areas basically asked her what she was going to do to elimi- ¯ not a Lesbian or Gay oriented venue has patron who are remark- ¯¯ of employment, housing or access to public accomnate herself, then told her if she didn’t eliminate hersdf modations and the extension of credit. The new he would," see Vermont, l~. 2 "¯ able supportive of the pair. version, however, approved by the Legislature and Bar employee, Tummy Peevyhouse, was particularly outspo¯ ken in her concern for her friends and employers, as was also a DIRECTORY P. 2 signed by the governor in April, is more limited than ¯ bar patron, Tommy Clown. Frustrated by the limitations offered the repealed law. 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Boston Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence White Light, 1 Center St. 501-253-4074 587-1314 Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood 747-6300 JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 748-3888 Council Oak Men’s Chorale * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay- friendly. 712-1511 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware said Keith Elston, executive director of the group dedicated to Gay and Lesbian youth. "The other one was much more blunt that he was going to ’kill fags.’ " Burlington police are investigating the incidents, but there have been no arrests and Outfight Vermont has become much more carefUl about tr~ng.t9 prgvide~ .saf.e.ty t° i.ts staff, volunteers and especially its clients. From tasteless bumper stickers to graffiti on highway pavement, it’s apparently become socially acceptable in the political climate of 2000 to use derogatory terms for Gays and Lesbians that once were considered epithets. There have been scattered but persistent reports at schools across the state about anti-Gay incidents and harassment. On the pavement of the road approaching the Champlain Bridge near Fort~i~conderoga inNew York someone recently spray-painted in large white letters "FAGS," with arrows pointing over the bridge into Vermont. "How much more explicit can you be about creating an aura of fear for day-to-day life?" said Lynne Bond, a psychology professor at the University of Vermont who has studied Gay and Lesbian issues. Vermont’s new civil unions law, granting most of the rights and benefits of marriage to same-sex couples, clearly has prompted a broad public discussion about the lives of Gays and Lesbians. There are deeply held beliefs about the morality - or some would say immorality - of homosexuality. But before the civil unions debate, those beliefs were rarely expressed in langnage that’s so offensive to Gays and Lesbians. "It seems to me that some people, have broken out of the social constraints of civility that I think people were honoring during the legislative process," said Beth Robinson, the Middlebury attorney who argued the lawsuit that led to civil unions. People who oppose civil unions say they’ve been unfairly maligned because just they don’t agree with the law. They complain that they’ve been described as bigots, hate-mongerers and homophobes. They say that their ’Take Back Vermont’ signs and other political placards havebeen knocked over, defaced with Gay symbols and stolen. "I think there have been ugly incidents on both sides," Republican gubernatorial candidate Ruth Dwyer said at a debate in Lyndon Center last week. Still, it once was eousidered ill-mannered at best to use such terms as fag and dyke aad queer in civil conversation. The anger over civil unions appears to have erased that unwritten rule in Vermont, at least for the time being. And that makes many Gay and Lesbian Vermonters feel as if they’re under attack, even if it’s a small minority of civil union opponents who:are behind the hate. ~ : ~ ~P~@I’O ~ 6*~[re~, frimtrated lthat 1 didn-t~get ~d~* ~ivil ~iOrls bill killed Legislature, some of them have taken it. upon themselves to link an ominous, mystical Gay agenda to the civil union bill," - Elston.said. ’,’They’ve.been-falsely suggest~ ing that there s something in the civil unions bill that requires the teaching of homosexuality in schools. They’ve been foolishly suggesting that Outfight teaches homosexuality in the schools, that we’re distributing pornography." see Vermont, p.3 �World Watch: News Not Covered in Our Daily by Tom Neal, editor/gadfly/publisher It’s old fashioned to place as much import on a daily newspaper but then as a newspaper publisher and editor of now seven years, I am somewhat committed to the concept. Unlike the internet, radio and television, those more ephemeral of media, the printed word, even on acid filled newsprint leaves a legacy, a picture of where we are and where we were, in a way that is more accessible and probably more permanent. This new and irregularly published column, like much of this newspaper’s coverage, intends to bring to attention things which otherwise might not get addressed. And while our daily newspaper, The Tulsa World is not the worst newspaper in America, it does have some foibles, some journalistic lapses which stem from its parochial circumstances: a privately owned, smaller town paper with a historically greater emphasis on coverage of wealthy whites, rather than minority citizens and issues. It’s better than it used to be but... We are in the height of the United Way campaagn, and as in years past, The Tulsa World is a major supporter of TulsaArea UnitedWay (TAUW). This is notintrinsically a bad thing. TAUW does do much good for many. But TAUW also funds organizations which engage in discnminatory practices and itself may discriminate. There are ongoing questions about the true percentage of funds which go to services rather than administration. One might think that The Worm would at least look into these issues. But year after year, The World’s coverage of United Way is a public relations flakmeister’s dream, with shameles sly promotional stories aboutTAUW funded agencies which nm during the United Way fundraising campaign. Can we doubt that ifTAUW were funding’~penly racist or anti-semitic agencies that The World would write about it? Despite claims of separation between the newsroom, and advertising and ownership, The Worm has a clear conflict of interest between its promotion of United Way and its commitment to good journalism. The World will change when they know that their readers like you and me find their practices unacceptable. Not to pick on Joe Worley, executive editor but ultimately he’s responsible for the decision to coddle Tulsa Area United Way and its bad mannered (and in one case, clearly lncohapetent) management. Joe’s ntunber is published on page A-2 everyday. Let him know when The World’s doing a good job of covering Lesbian and Gay issues (overall, they’re doing better these days) but also let him know what’s not working too. ’In the current, embittered political atmosphere, it is difficult to counter such arguments. And so it feeds on itself and results in slogans that once would have been considered epithets being painted on a neighbor’s fence. Although it’s unpleasant for many Vermonters, regardless of their homosexuality, people who have been involved said they will continue speaking out. "You have to just keep on.telfing the truth, over and over again," El~n ~akl. !’Everyti~n~,thCy ~y lie~ ~a~bgut you,’yqq l~av¢ t~ exp0~e. ~em ~s [i~e~ on~!,Y0q ~aYq ~to ~t~lil,th~ .tnifl~ people hear that message." "They Don’t Want Civil Rights, They Want Special Rights" cated to attacking or restricting the rights of Lesbian-and Gay citizens - and their staff are usually rude and arrogant. But not to hold them accountable is to let them assume that all agree with their prejudice. Needless-to-say, in this election, if you are reading this before Nov. 7th, please consider the difference between the Republicans and the Democrats. As bad as the Democrats may be in Oklahoma, on a national level, that party has clearly talked and walked the talk. Positions for fair treatment of Lesbian and Gay citizens are in the Democratic platform and have been honored in action by the national party, not perfectly, but under Clinton and Gore, more than ever before. Bush and the Republicans may have moderated some of their anti-Gay, neo-nazi rhetoric (though not the Oklahoma party) but this is the party which brought us years of indifference to the HIV/AIDS crisis under Reagan, as well as a documented hostility to addressing anti-Gay hate crimes, let alone civil rights issues like employment, fair housing, military service, legal recognition, of our relationships and families, etc. It’s not that I especially like Gore, or that Bush isn’t an idiot, it’s just that given the choice, we have no choice. This guy will be making the next Supreme Court appointments. And decisions which have been crucial to our lives (like Bowers v. Hardwick which said that straight oral sex is constitutionally protected but the same act for Gays can be a felony crime, Dale v. the Boy Scouts of America, Colorado’s Amendment 2) have all been mostly narrowly decided cases. Another Scalia, or Clarence Thomas, the type of choices we’ve seen from Republican presidents, would not bode us well. Vote like your life depends on it- in many ways, it does. -Tom Neal, editor & pubisher Early this morning, before I was really awake, or maybe late last night drowsing with the television on, the history channel was showing footage about the struggle Black Americans had to end legal segregation. This part of recent American history is a particular interest of mine but this was mostly things I’d heard or seen before. But then there was an image that caught my attention, one I’d never seen before. An old black and white image showed a white Southerner marching with a placard Saying, "They don’t want civil rights, they want SPECIAL rights!" And here I thought that particular carnard wg~ newly minted to mischaracterize the desire of Lesbian and Gay persons to live our lives relatively unmolested, with a some semblance of the same opportunities which non-Gay citizens enjoy. Perhaps I should not have been surprised. In the fight over whether Lesbian and Gay Americans should serve openly in defense of our country, almost word-for-word rhetoric was trotted out to oppose Gays as was used to oppose racial integration of the US military. Prejudice, like taxes and death, is, it seems, fundamental to the human condition, with Americans, like others, occasionally transcending our biases. After many shameful years of oppression, America has slowly set aside some of its racism. But different prejudices, seeing a void, have come forward. In response, we can do several things. Many simply seek to live their own lives, quietly, avoiding harassment as best as possible. Others speak out as best they can. But all who are citizens can vote, and after the election, can contact those who are supposed to be representing us. Of course, in Oklahoma, this is often an exercise in frustration. Our elected federal leaders are nearly all dedi- that there would .be no. requirement for employers to provide benefits for the partners of Gay and Lesbian workers. "The diocese has never been opposed to any of the proposals," Mutty says. But he says changes this year not only made it possible for the church to sign on as an advocate, but were also aimed at making the measure acceptable to a majority of people statewide. Michael Heath of the Christian Civic League of Maine, a leader of one of the major groups opposing the measure, says the shift from neutrality to advocacy by the Catholic diocese was a major setback. The prospect of a busy balloting day is also a concern for opponents, he says. "If there’ s a big turnout of voters, then a lot of sort of impulsive voters are going to be there," Heath says, fretting that those unfamiliar with details of the proposal may not appreciate its impact. Heath says the morality of homosexuality remains central to the debate and that conferring rights with this proposal could lead to further Gay demands. "It lays the foundation for a lot of other things," Heath says. Observers on both sides suggest much of the Maine electorate appears-to have grown weary of the issue, which in one form or another has occupied debate on public policy for at least two decades. In 1992, the first local Gay fights law was passed by the Portland City Council. Three w.gr~s later, Maine~ vot.,¢,r~,~rejected a proposal to prevent municipal and other government bodies.in the state from passing laws barring anti-Gay discrimination. In 1997, after years of legislative warring, a state civil rights law was enacted. But just months later, the people’s veto vote forced by opponents repealed that. "It was very close the last time it went around. I know there’s been a lot of work on both sides," says bakery worker Sara Wagner in Hallowell. "I hope it passes." In a brief, streetside interview, Wagner said her awareness of discrimination faced by people she knew of made the ballot question more than an abstract matter of principle. "It has real life implications," she said. Heath, in contrast, maintains the proponents’ claims of acturd discrimination are specious. "It’s obviously not widespread," he says. Earlier this month, in response tO an inquiry by one of the referendum bill’s leading legislative champions, Attorney General Andrew Ketterer advised that ~at least the threat of discrimination is real under existing statutes. "The federal and state law, as currently written and interpreted by the courts, do not prohibit the denial or termination of employment, the denial of credit, the denial of public acco~nmodation or the denial of housing because of sexual orientation," Ketterer wrote. The most recent campaign finance reports show that supporters from the Maine Coalition for Equal Rights, now known as YES on 6, reported donations of nearly $260,000 and expenditures of $240,000. The Christian Action League collected $37,500, but is also opposing proposals on video gambling and doctorassisted suicide. According to a recent poll by the Portland research firm Critical Insights Inc., respondents favored the referendum by 59% to 29%, with 11% undecided. Question 6 on Maine’s ballot asks: "Do you favor ratifying the action of the 119th Legislature whereby it passed an act extending to all citizens regardless of their sexual orientation the same basic rights to protection against discrimination now guaranteed to citizens on the basis of race, color, religion, sex or national origin in the areas of employment, housing, public~acco.ram~datipa~.a~d~cr~edi[ .and where th~ a~t expregs’ly~s~te~ confers legislative approval Of, or sp~,i~ d’gtig tb; any person or group of persons?" ¯ Okla. Reps. = Total Zeros : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Not that it should come as any surprise to anyone, but the Human Rights Campaign, HRC, reports in their scorecard for the 106th Congress that Oklahoma’s Representatives and our Senators, Largent, Cobum, Watkins, Watts, Istook, Lucas, Nickles and Inhofe received total zeros on 10 questions about legislation of concern to Gay citizens. This is why voting matters, friends. - TFN �Scouts Fire Gay Man SANTA BARBARA, Calif. (AP) - A Boy Scout executive was stripped of his Eagle Scout status and fired by the Boy Scouts of America National Council 10 days after he publicly admitted he is Gay, his attorney said. Len Lanzi, Boy Scouts Los Padres Council executive director, worked for the scouting organization 14 years before he was terminated by mail. "We plan to pursue all legal remedies available to him," said Lanzi’s attorney, Steven Serratori, whose Century City firm specializes in employment law "I think it’s fair to say that everybody is surprised at the arrogance of the Boy Scouts," Serratori said. "To think in this day and age that they think they can fire someone based on their sexual orientation..." A U.S. Supreme Court rnling last summer upholding the Boy Scouts" right to exclude Gay members does not apply to its employees, the lawyer said. Lanzi, whose territory includes Santa Barbara and San Luis Obispo counties, is believed to be the highestranking Boy Scout executive to publicly acknowledge his homosexuality since the Supreme Court ruling in June. Los Padres Boy Scout board members told the Santa Barbara News-Press their options were limited because of the national council’s policy on Gays. "We could contradict the national Boy Scout policy, and possibly risk the whole council being decommissioned, or we can go along with firing him," said Karl Eberhard a member of the Los Padres Boy Scouts board. "I maintain that the whole thing is completely idiotic," he added. Neighbors Don’t Mind Alabama Ga " Nudists WAVERLY, Ala. (AP) - h grovel road winds through John Bales’ wilderness resort. It looks like any of the paths leading to hunting lodge_s where countless Southern men spend weekends this time of year. Then, you come to the sign: "Clothing optional area." This isn’t your ordinary, out-of-the-way spot in the woods of east Alabama. Bales owns Black Bear Camp, a 33-acre resort catering to Gay men who enjoy nature au naturel. Black Bear Camp isn’t for hunting. It’ s for socializing. The clientele tends to be Gay men best described as the rugged type: Many have beards and bellies and would rather sit around the lodge watching football on TV than go to a Gay bar. "Probably more than 50% of our customers are married or divorced with kids," Bales said. "’We don’t get the flamboyant type." There were rumblings when another clothing-optional campground for Gay men opened near the south Alabama town of Geneva a couple of years ago. A Lesbian-operated retreat where guests wear clothes, Camp Sister Spirit, drew heated protests in 1993 after opening in rural Mississippi. But Bales hasn’t heard any complaints from surrounding Lee County or nearby Waverly, a town of " h 160 people, many,of them elderly. I know my ne.l.g .bors. They know I m Gay, and they know I opened ttus place," he said. "There hasn’t been a problem with it." Many residents don’t know the camp exists: Bales doe’Sn’t adverd~ locally, and there are no signs indicatinglthat a dbfhing-opti0nal resort for Gays is just off busy U.S. 280. But people who do know about the camp don’t seem concerned about what’s going on in the woods north of Auburn. "If that’ s what turns them on, let ’em go on," said Waverly town clerk DeLene Cawley. "If I belonged to a nudist colony that’s where I’d want to be." A leader of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Alabama isn’t surprised by the lack of controversy. "As long as there’s no loud music and people keep to themselves I wouldn’t think people would have a problem with it," said David White. Bales, a 57-year-old math professor at Tuskegee University, didn’t set out to get into the clothingoptional resort business. He began buying land around Little Loblockee Creek in 1982 and began building 1ears later with plans for the camp to provide a source of income when he retires in 2009. There’s bunk space for 24 in the 3,600-square-foot lodge, which has a tin roof and all the comforts of home plus some: Internet access, satellite TV, a hot tub and an above-ground swimming pool with deck. Bales has had as many as 30 customers on a weekend, but the more typical crowd is six or seven. "It was not my original intention to be clothingoptional," he said. "But shortly after I opened, I began to get inquiries from clothing-optional groups asking whether that was allowed. "It didn’t take me long to realize that the remoteness and seclusion of the camp made than a natural option and a good niche market to enter." With prices ranging from $8 for daytmae guests to $40 a night for double occupancy bunks, Bales hopes to break even this year as far as operating costs go. He weeds out the occasional unannounced visitor just looking for a good time. "No one wants to come down here and have people who are looking at naked guys and propositioning them for sex," he said. "That will drive away my business.’" Journalist Group Calls For Partner Benefits COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) - The Society of Professional Journalists approved a resolution calling for news organizations to provide benefits for domestic parmers of their Gay and Lesbian employees. . The measure was opposed by some SPJ members who said the professional organization should not get involved in employment matters such as benefits. Delegates approved the resolution by a margin of 85 to 36 at SPJ’s national convention. Sally Lehlman, SPJ’s diversity chair, said the resolution would ensure that Gay and Lesbian journalists are not treated "like second class citizens in the newsroom." "It’s not about employment from our perspecfive. It’ s about fairness and accuracy in content, which emerges in part from fairness in the newsroom," she said. Mark Scarp, an editorial writer for the Scottsdale (Ariz.) Tribune, and member of SPJ’s executive committee, said the group should follow its precedent of leaving employment issues up to unions. "I personally support domestic partner benefits but I believe it qualifies as an employer-employee relations issue," Scarp said. "We’re a professional association and I felt it wasn’t appropriate for us to make a determination on such an issue." A few years ago, SPJ comuussioned a survey on reporters’ salaries, but would not get into trying to persuade employers to improve pay, Scarp said. Gay Couple Get Abducted Child Back CATHEDRAL CITY, California (AP) - A 10-yearold boy abducted by his grandfather who accused the child’s caretakers of promoting a Gay lifestyle has been returned to the couple. Miguel Washington was surrendered to authorilies by relatives in Pennsylvania and returned to the home of his uncle, Paul Washington Jr., and Timothy Forrester. "Right now he’s really happy to be home," Washington Jr. said. "We’re absolutely elated. Our family is united again." An attorney for Paul Washington Sr. and Sandra Washington, Mignel’s grandparents and Washington Jr.’s parents, said his clients intend to pursue custody. "My clients don’t feel that’s the best home for him," said attorney Bill Hence Jr. "I’m very disappointed in the agencies that were supposed to be protecting the United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship 11:00 am 1623 N. Maplewood Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm 1517 S. 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Instead, Washington and For/ester received a letter from a Los Angeles law firm Oct. 7 stating that Miguel had been removed from their home and accusing the pair of "actively promoting or influencing a Gay lifestyle for the minor." The letter cited Miguel’s participation in ballet and "Gay art class" instead of baseball as one reason for the boy’s removal. issues and fear that it would create confusion among childr+n over sexual orientation matters, said Sue Krampe, executive director. The debate on whether to conunue to allow Gays to mentor children surfaced recently after Brian Combs, a case manager and minister at Christ View Christian Church, quit after learning a homosexual was a mentor in the program. The board was deadlocked in a vote earlier this month. Combs had been the only person to raise a complaint prior to the first vote. But since then, the agency has fielded 18 telephone calls in opposition to allowing Gays in the program, Krampe said. Volunteers had been asked their sexual orientation during the initial screening process and parents were allowed to veto amatela based on their answers. Nationally, only a "handful" of the 500 chapters of the American Big Brothers-Big Sisters prohibits homosexuals~from mentoring children, Krampe said. Each local chapter can set ~ts own policies on the issue. she said. Germany Ready to Recognize Gay Partners Newspaper Chain to Offer Partner Benefits BERLIN (AP)- Germany’s governing coalition wants to pass a law giving equal legal status to Gay couples early in November, politicians stated. Leaders from the Social Democratic and Greens parties said they plan to have the Bundestag, the lower house of parliament, approve the bill Nov. I0. Conservatives, however, control a majority in the upper house of parliament and have criticized the law. To get around their opposition that could scuttle the bill, lawmakers laid out a plan Friday to divide the legislation into two parts. The government majority in parliament would pass administrative regulations creating the legal framework for Gay couples without the upper house’ s agreement. However, the upper house will still be called on to approve lifting the disadvantages to Gays contained in labor and tax codes. GRAND RAPIDS, Mich. (AP)- Six of the eight B ooth newspapers in Michigan will offer benefits to partners of Gay employees starting in January. The papers that will offer the benefits are The Ann Arbor News. The Bay City Times, The Flint Journal, The Jackson Citizen Patriot, the Kalamazoo Gazette and The Saginaw News. The eight Booth newspapers are owned by Advance Publications, based in New York. George Arwady, publisher of the Kalamazoo paper, said the new benefits were "pretty well accepted" by employees. "It’ s a matter of equitable treatment for our employees," Arwady said. "We have not made a big deal out of it, mad it’s not a big deal." Margaret DeRitter, an editor at the Gazette, said she was pleased by the amaouncement. "I wasn’t aware of employees internally pushing for.it," said DeRitter, who is Gay and a 12-year employee of the paper. "I thought it was great the company would do this without any prompting from the staff. It says they value all of their employees and want to be fair and equitable." ACLU Trying Bias Reduction Program ATLANTA (AP) - Georgia is one of three states chosen by the American Civil Liberties Union to pilot a program to educate teachers about bullying of Gay and Lesbian students. The ACLU says students who identify themselves as Gay are more than four times as likely to suffer bullying than heterosexual students. Gary Weber, legal director of the Georgia ACLU, said Gay students also have higher rates of absenteeism and suicide. The program will use panels - including a Gay student, perhaps a parent of a Gay student, a school administrator or classroom teacher and an attorney - to explain the legal liabilities schools face if they ignore harassment. The ACLU will begin contacting schools in November to schedule traimng sessions. Districts that refuse the training may be called by an ACLU attorney to briefly explain legal liabilities. Kentucky and Indiana are the other two pilot states. No date has been set for expanding the program, which was developed in northern California, to other states, ACLU spokesman Eric Ferrero said. Big .Brothers, Big Sisters Bans Gay Volunteers OWENSBORO, Ky (AP) - The local chapter of Big Brothers-Big Sisters, which links children with adult mentors, will no longer allow Gays to participate in the program. The board voted 10-9 to bar openly Gay volunteers following a closed-door meeting. Board members had raised concerns about health Mother of Slain Soldier Appeals Army Decision WASHINGTON (AP)-The mother of a Fort Campbell soldier who was murdered in iris barracks is seeking to overturn the denial of her $1.8 million wrongful death claim against the Army Kutteles sent an appeal of the Sept. 27 decision by the military to Army Secretary Louis Caldera. Kutteles, of Kansas City, Mo., said fellow soldiers believed Winchell was Gay and harassed him for months before he was beaten to death with a baseball bat while sleeping in his cot July 5, 1999 at a post in Kentucky. The Army knew about the harassment but did nothing to stop it, she said. Pvt. Calvin Glover of Sulphur, Okla., was sentenced to life in prison for murdering Winchell. Another soldier was given a 12 1/2-year sentence for lying to investigators. The Army inspector general issued a report in July on Winchell’s murder. The report found evidence of low morale mad antiGay behavior among members of Winchell’s unit, D Company, 2nd Battalion of the 502nd Infantry Regiment. It concluded, however, that the chain of command at Fort Campbell responded,a:ppropriately with respect to enforcing the Pentagon S policy of permitting Gays to serve in the military so long as they keep their sexual orientation private. Kutteles says should Caldera side with her, the Army would be taking full responsibility for Winchell’s death. "We have to do this for our son’s sake. He died, and I want his death to be meaningful," she said. "I want other mothers and fathers not to have to go through this." �Easier-to-Swallow Anti-AIDS Pills WASHINGTON (AP).- The government approved a new easier-to-use version of a standard AIDS drug that may ease patient complaints that the medicine is too hard to swallow. The drug is ddI, often used in the multi-drug cocktails that AIDS patients take to fight the virus. Until now, patients have had to chew, or dissolve in water, two large, bitter-tasting ddI pills twice a day. Those pills also frequently were blamed for diarrhea and other gastrointestinal side effects. The Food and Drug Administration approved a once-a-day capsule version of ddI. Swallowing the capsule, to be sold under the brand name Videx F_C, means no nasty taste problem. An FDA spokeswoman said thenew ddI may cause fewer dangerous interactions with other medications that AIDS patients take, because the capsule does not contain a buffering ingredient used in thechewable version. Also, manufacturer Bristol-Myers Squibb contends a special coating on the new version means it may cause fewer gastrointestinal side effects. Although Bristol-Myers nev er ddirecdy compared the old and new ddI to prove that, the FDA said getting rid of that old buffering ingredient may indeed help. Bristol-Myers did not reveal whenVidex EC would begin.selling, or if it would cost the same as the old version,-,. Researchers & Drug Co. Dispute Results Dr. James Kahn of the University of California at San Francisco, the smdy’s lead author, said the company withheld important data and then tried to suppress publication. The company denies both claims. In an arbitration complaint last month, Immune Response also demanded $7 million to ; 10 million from Kahn and the tmiversity, claiming dissemination of the negative findings caused,it financia], harm, university attorney :Christopher Patti said. The university contends Kahn was-allowed to publ.ish the results. The study of 2,527 patients in the United States found that Remune did boost levels of infection-fighting white blood cells, but the authors questi,o....n~fl whether the effect was clinically significant. JAMA editor Dr. Catherine DeAngelis defended the journal’s decision to publish. ’q’his study stands on its own scientific merit," she said. "It was peer-reviewed as ~uch." In a JA1V[A editorial, she said the dispute illustrates what can happen when disagreement erupts between researchers and a funding sponsor who "has a proprietary interest in the findings." Moss said the study was published without the consent of some of the researchers. The company and one of the dissenting researchers, Dr. John Turner of Graduate Hospital in Philadelphia, drafted a letter Monday to DeAngelis, decrying publication of a manuscript that contains "incomplete and inaccurate information." The final manuscript contains "some major statistical flaws," said Turner, who believes HIV-1 lmmunogen can slow disease progression. "ff I were HIV-positive, I would batter down any door necessary to get it, period," Turner said. CHICAGO (AP)-A study suggesting that a vaccine-like AIDS treatment is ineffective has provoked a public dispute bet w een the manufacturer that paid for much of the study and doctors who say the company tried to squelch their research. CHICAGO (AP) - A funny thing hapThe study’s conclusions, published in a pened to Dr. Jerome Kassirer at a recent recent Journal of the American Medical lecture to medical students about financial Association, echo doubts about HIV- 1 Imconflicts of interest for doctors: It turned munogen that were expressed several years out the free buffet was provided by amajor ago by advisers to the U.S~ Food and Drug drug company. Kassirer had a blunt mesAdministration. The results suggest that sage: Medical schools and training prowhen added to the drug regimen for HIVinfectedpatients,HIV-11mmunogenfailed " grams "must teach that there is no free to reduce the ri sk of dev doping full-blown ¯ lunch. No free dinner. Or textbooks. Or AIDS. The drug cames the brand name .. even a ballpoint pen." From freebies for medical students to Remune. ¯ Immune Response Corp., the drug’s " research funding that can taint study remanufacturer, contends that researchers " sults to the growing practice of marketing prescription medicine direcdy to consumomitted favorable data and skewed the results. The company entereda fairly com- . ers, drug_companies have a growing and mon arbitration process during which it " sometimes unseemly influence on doctried to produce "a more balanced manu- : tors, according to articles, studies and ediscript," said Dr. Ronald Moss, the ¯ torials published recently in the Journal of company’s vice president of medical and " the American Medical Association. The relationship between research and scientific affairs. Instead, the researchers " ~~:.~¥i~lated daeir~eonttaomalagreement and i indus~try appears to beunde.r growing scmr. 1~blish~in~oinplete findings; Moss ~aid.~ .... ’ fihy~The edit6fof, the: New’ E~tgl~tnd Jour"It seems like tabloid journalism that " nal of Medicine wrote an extraordinary lAMA would not investigate this further" " critique in May, saying scien.ce_ is being~ compromised by the growing influence ot before publishing, Moss said, HIV-1 Immunogea was developed by ." induslry money. That same month, the the late Dr. Jonas Salk, who created the ." Harvard Medical School said it would not first polio vaccine. It was developed be- ." ease its conflict of interest standards, confore powerful "drug cocktails" including ¯ sidered the toughest in the nation, and protease inhibitors became standard HIV : Dean Joseph B. Martin called for a natreatment, and Immune Response says : tional dialogue on the issue. 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DeAngelis said such research is lower in quality and more likely to report findings favorable to the company, One study found ,that. 7,6 percent of the faculty researchers at the University of California at San Francisco~aad personal financial ties to their drug company sportsorslastyear.Mostwereshort-termspeak- Celebrating 27 Years of Choice Sunday, November 12, 2000. 1:3(.1 - 3:30 p.m. :"~’° fob~heldat Resonat~~e " ~ Champagne, Coffee, Chocolates $25 per ~ndividual [’lea.~ R.S.V.P. to the NARAL L)ffice: 4.4-9585 : ¯ " " : ing engagements or consulting agreements with minimal payments. ¯ State and federal-guidelines require researchers to disclose certain financial ties, . and a UCSF policy prohibits faculty in- ¯ volvedinindustry-sponsoredresearchfrom " receiving any compensation from the corn- " pany during the study. Elizabeth Boyd and Lisa Bert, with UCSF’s Institute for Health Policy Studies, said a campus committee "worked to accommodateallbutthemostovertlyconflicting relationships in the interest of encouraging its faculty, and, presumably, encouraging future outside investment in the university." The authors suggested that financial ties may be more prevalent at other universities with less stringent policies. A 19982000 study of 89 major universities found that only 17-19%- had specific limits or prohibitions on relationships with industry. While most had co~fflict of interest policies, the3, were not as effective because they don’t spell what is prohibited, the authors said. Dr. Jordan Cohen, president of the Association of Americau Medica! Colleges, announced that the group is forming a task force to investigate conflicts of interest and reach a consensus on what types of relationships with drug companies should be allowed, days, washing the condoms with water and soap afteruse. Researchers will check the condoms for rips or tears and examine the participants to make sure that’reuse doesn’t cause rashes or irritations. "In terms of the whole spectrum of birth control, it’s not the best," Said Barbara Lea-Kruger, spokeswoman for the Virginia Department of Health’s HIV/AIDS division."Butifwe’retalkingabout women who don’t have access to other forms of birth control and who come from a culture wheremenareless willing touseacondom, it’s a Viable alternative." Seniors & HIV/AIDS CANTON, Ohio (AP) - Older people sometimes have an awkward approach to sexual issues that puts them at risk for HIV, health counselors say. Susan J. McCollum, who teaches people 50 and older about the risks of contracting HIV, said older people must be aware of the risks. "It’s dangerous for any group of people to think they’re immune," said McCollum, a counselor for Planned Parenthood of Stark County. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the number of older people becoming infected is increasing. An estimated 10.9 percent, of men with HIV and 9.4 percent of women with HIV are 50 and older. "People that age have not grown up with condoms, like people who are in their 20s," McCollum said. "For a woman in her 60s to talk to a man about condoms.. ." McCollum also said it’s an awkward adjustmentforpeoplewhoarenewly single after having been in along-term marriage or relationship. "Women4Oandolderdon’t want to grow old alone," McColhma told The Repository for a story published Sundav."They’reputtingthemselvesoutthere, but they don’t know enough, or they’re not able to talk about condoms. It puts them at a real disadvantage." Around the world, an estimated 85,000 women, middle-age and older, have been Women’s Corldo[~ infected with HIV. McCollum has had young women come for HIV testing who want her to talk to their mothers about NORFOLK, Va. (AP) - A condom for risky sexual behavior. women that never quite caught on in the KimJackson, spekeswomanfortheOhio United States is being studied to see if AIDS Coalition, said that while her group reusing it can make it more economical does not offer educational programs speand help fight AIDS in developing couneifieally targeting seniors, older people do tries. The United Nations AIDS program participate. "We have a general education has been distributing the Reality Female program for people of all ages," Jackson Condom to women in areas such as subsaid. "We are seeing more people that age Saharan Africa, which has been-devasattending our programs. We had several tated by AIDS. people in their 70s at our last program." The key to providing female condoms, Bonnie Bolitho, executive director of which retail for $2 to $3 apiece, to poor " Planned Parenthood of Stark County, said women is making them affordable, said ; many older people have the incorrect idea Dr. Susan A. Ballagh, the clinical trial’s thatHIV-AIDS is a "homosexual" disprincipal investigator~ ..-~ :. ~ ; :;~ .ease~ ~ thatit aff~ts O~[y yo~mgtpeople. ~;- -TheChicago-based F.emal¢ H~alth Com~ i :. "rl~ere ~. s tl~ts e~e~ that :~It-cot~’ ’~t~pen’ " to pan~,theproduct’ssolemannfaclurer, sells ~ me,"’ she said. "You’re talking about of the condoms to international family plan- ¯ group of people who have been monoganing agencies for as little as 70 cents a , mous for most of their lives. Now, they’re piece. ; at a different stage of life. Some haven’t But women’s condoms could be even ¯ put a lot of thought into how it (HIV) more economical if they were reused. Re- ¯ affects them." searchers at Eastern Virginia Medical " According to Bolitho, "It’s the age-old, School arerecntiting 80 couples to test the ; overarchiugproblemoftalkingaboutsexu_ condoms. Half the couples will use the ¯ ality, and it’s plain old-fashioned denial. condom once. The other couples each will ; Denial is one of our great enemies." use a single condom five times over 15 ~ May Help HIV Fight Oklaiaorna NAI,L.\I... covdia!iv ~.t~,v~v~ v,ott to a chocolate and champa~r~~ ~ete in support of abortion and reprt~d~ctive rights in Oklahoma : ¯ : ." ¯ " " ¯ " �by Jim Christjohn, entertaiment editor ] child out once in a while. I wasn’t expectHey folks, welcome to the time of the ¯ ing a great movie, but it surprised me. The year when we celebrate the fact that the " filmis well acted - hard to find in a movie starting children; Indians helped the well written; and li...We saw pilgrims onlyto be superbly filmed. thanked with And it had some"The Little Vampire." slaughter and rething for everyone moval from ancesOK, now stop laughing. - it didn’t "talk tral lands. Go down" to kids, nor America! It’s good to let the inner did it avoid being The first thanksfunny in an adult giving was basichild out once in a while. way. cally a four day celThe film is ebration/party I wasn’t expeetlng a great ’~’:~-m~bout a young wherein the Native movie, but it surprised me. American boy who Americans promoves to England vided the food, fun, The film is well acted due to his father’s and games. It rebusiness. HE’s ally wasn’t about hard to find in a movie miserable,being an religion at all, as the outsider - and lore surrounding it starring children; picked on at school, wouldhave youbein particular by two well written; lieve. Anditwasn’t twins. It certainly too long after that brought back s ome whentheEuropean memories in that invaders started respect. I knew a pair of twins who were getting a bit greedy for the profits land the scourge of Hurst Junior high, and it conld bring from new immigrants, and so, was kind of like watching a flashback in the name of- God, "took" the land from except with better accents. Anyway, our the Natives. Oh, and there was a religious hero has a fixation with men in capes aspect to it, once the "pilgrims" figured sound familiar? (Hint: Read last month’s out how to work the land from the Natives column.) and didn’t need them anymore..,,It was And Io and behold, he meets a boy either convert or die for the heathen Navampire, and they form a close friendship. fives. Ah, the things the don’t tell you in This results in many misadventures, inschool - or church. cluding foiling a would be vampire hunter On to more cheerier thoughts - I drug and the aforementioned bullies. I highly my curmudgeonly editor to a film recently. recommend seeing this film, because it’s a (Well, OK, he wanted to go, too, and fun ride, entertaining, while putting forth hasn’t been terribly curmudgeonly lately.) some good-thoughts. A lot of care andlove We saw "The Little Vampire." OK, now went into this film, and it shows. stop laughing. It’s good to let the inner and superbly filmed... " Tmditionalists,ofcourse, abhor that each " Choralewillperform.AndonDec.9,there year December holidays begin earlier and " will be a gala dinner in the Great Hall, earlier. Christmas in September isincreas- ¯ Chaired by friends to the community, Catherine Seger ingly a reality. and Hillary Kitz. But one of the And of course, lolocal traditions cal A-listers, which we don’t Talmadge Po-well mind seeing early and Steve Wright nearly so much is are helping out by Philbrook chairing the Patron Museum’s annual and Party holiday celebration Treeview. and exhibition, The featured artHome for the Holiist for Home for the days. The event Holidays is Lisa kicks off with the Regan of the GarFestival of Trees. denDeva Sculpture T,he ~Fe~sfival Co. Regan, whose tures trees, work is seen wreaths, and more through out Tulsa’ s by local artists, degardens, has been signers and school shown in Better children. The event Homes and Garis chaired by Lou dens, shows her Hodgson and cawork at Mayfest. terer Mark Lackey Her commemorative ornament, shown is artist liaison. At the museum members’ opening on " above, .is an aluminum tree with bead Dec. 2 at noon, the Council Oak Men’s ¯ accents. GIFTS OF THE S£ASON! COUNCIL OAK MEN’S CHORALE ALL SOULS UNITARIAN �E[ecUon Day, Nov. 7 Who Will Pick the NEW SUPREHES? by Tom Neal, editor/publisher Although the National Conference for Community and Justice claims to be an anti-hate group, for at least the last 4-5 years this anti-bias organi~tion has activdy discriminated against Gay & Lesbian Tulsans as well as failing to speak out when Gay & Lesbian Tulsans were targets of physical violence as well as recipients of legislative and other attacks on their civil rights. At their Trialogue on Marriage, hosted by Boston Avenue Methodist Church (a church which has been host to several events at which Lesbian and Gay Tuls’ans were attacked or excluded), Trialogue organizer Mr. Levson, then cantor of Temple Israel, stated that JOI g 0 Decisions we make at the ballot box will resonate for decades, including the make-up of the Supreme Court. Our choice: continue the path of progress or take a sharp U-turn back to the anti-glbt politics of the ’80s. We need your voice for our jobs, for our families, for our lives. II B HATE HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN COME OUT VOTING ¯ www.hrc.org Tuesday, November 7 Election Day HRC WATCH PARTY Because win or lose, it’s good to be among friends 9 PM 3340 South Peoria, Tulsa, OK Must be 21 Cash Bar HRC envisions an America where lesbian and gay people are ensured of their basic equal rights. You can help us do our work by joining us for either or :both of ~the:se~ ev~t..s~ (or by jgining ~HRC - ’ ii~’~ !j~ :i~3-" ~i ~li !~8~[2913 ;r emaii hrctulsaoHahoma@ aol.com). HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ he and other NCCJ organizers deliberately excluded same gender mamage from discussionbecauseit would have been"too controversial." This was done despite the facts that the issue could not have been more prominent in public discussion because of court cases in Hawaii, and even though the issue is still in debate in many Christian denominations and in several Jewish organizations. NCCJ has repeated been asked to reform their actions: to add openly Gay or Lesbian persons to their board of directors, to speak out on legislative issues, to live what they say they are about. To date, they have refused to do so, preferring to raise substantial sums from Tulsa "society" events such as honoring Bob Lorton, owner of The Tulsa World for his "human rights" work despite the fact that The World for at least 15 years had documented antiGay business practices which they publicly defended and despite The Wordls acknowledgement of racist hiring practices in their newsroom in response to an EEOC complaint. Some Gay community observers, however, wonder how it is that the hate groups, like the KKK, don’t manage to forget Lesbians and Gay men including them in their hate rhetoric, but the folks who supposedly are "allies" manage only to hear the KKK’s racist and anti-Sem~itic comments. Groups who endorsed the "Statement in Support of Diversity" include a number who have been supportive of Lesbians and Gay men. These include: Community of Hope, All Souls, Hope and Community Unitarians, Fellowship Congregatxonal ¯ Church- UCC, Jewish Federation of Tulsa and even the Metropolitan Community ¯ Church United (MCC). Calls to All Souls, MCC-United, and Fellowship Congrega¯ tional were not returned. Perry Simons, ¯ executive director of Jewish Federation ¯ said that organization does not discrimi: hate on sexual orientation. ¯ In contrast, Father Rick Hollingsworth, ¯ oftheParishChurchofSaintJeromewrote ¯ a letter in protest of the the "Statement in ¯ Support of Diversity" ¯ In it, he notes that, "The Parish Church ,¯ of St Jerome is certainly in support of celebrating and supporting the wonderful ¯ diversity, which surrounds us in our beau" tiful city... I am concerned however that ¯ the statement on diversity see TMM, p. 10 �Timothy W. Daniel homophobic District Attorney, Harley Name Games by Michael Craft Kaiser, and a New Age feminist, Miriam Reviewed by Barry Hensley Westerman, who is somehow convinced Tulsa City-County Library that Gay pom"hurts women." Add to this, It takes a speci~ talent to pull off a the nephew, Thad, trying out for the school murder mystery novel and one of the better play and Mark’s lover, Gay mystery series, Mark Nell, who is trying to deManning mysteries by "...Anthropologist cide whether to move his Michael Craft, has a clever architectural practice to the new entry, Name Games. Sherry Ortner, small town from Chicago. Delving into an unlikely drawing on the When Cantrell (who has topic, the world of miniaman3, health problems) is .tures, Craft has created a French feminist discovered murdered, the fun, although not particuexhibitionis turned upside larly suspenseful mystery. Simone Beauvolr, down and things really get Set in rural Wisconsin, once proposed that uncomfortable when the main character Mark Manning is now the publisher of ’Man is to CultUre as Sheriff becomes the primary suspect. Manning, the local newspaper and Woman is to aided by his sleuths at the leading a very open and out life with a longlime part- Nature.’ Ortner was newspaper, set out to clear the Sheriff. ner, while raising a neThe characters in Name seeking a reason for glected nephew. The big Games are nicely drawn, news in town is the upcomwhy, almost everyif a bit stereotypical ]]ae ing Midwest Miniatures Society Exhibition, which where, people value town, Dumont, is remarkably (and a bit unrealistiattracts enthusiasts worldwhat men do more cally) progressive and unwide. Two of the most prominent figures in this than they value what concerned about the iGay influence~ of Manning and little underworld, Carroll his cohorts. (Could there Cantrell and Bruno women do.. ¯ " really be a town like this in Herisson , who happen to today’s America?) be arch rivals, are being The obligatory sex scenes are really just flown in. Grace Lord, a sweet little old lady,is hosting and coordinating the ev~nt. ¯¯ uninspired dream sequences, and leave a little too much to the imagination. The The Sheriff, Doug Pierce, a closeted Gay ¯ mystery is a fun and exciting ride, but it is man, is in the midst of a reelection bid while dealing with a pornography trial ¯¯ certainly nothing special. In fact, this novice mystery reader managed to figure involving "dirty book stores" on the edge of town. The trial is being pushed by the ] our whodunit long before the end of the ¯ for Human Rights (TOHR) said that the lack of inclusiveness raised concerns and ~ would likely be addressed in upcoming : organizational meetings for a formal response. is not as broad as it should be. This is evidenced I believe by the omission of : Sexual Orientation as part of that diversity : in the statement. Gay and Lesbian persons are an integral and love diversity. We have many relipart of Tulsa’s rich diversity which When joined together with other forms of diver- ¯ gions, many nationalities, many cultures sity create community. When Rabbi Marc ¯ here, and we’re taught to respect them. When the hell ~s someone going to respect Fitzerman was speaking this last Sunday ¯ us for our diversity? If you want to do at the rededication, He was very dear, ’Those who hate Jews, usually hate Catho- :¯ something to help, there’s a number to call, and an ever popular website to visit. lics, Those who hate Catholics usually ¯ It’s the Human Rights Campaign Foundahate Gay and Lesbian people...’ ¯ As a Pastor of a Parish which primarily ¯ uon, 800-498-0382, or www.hrc.org. When we stand up and show people that serves the Gay and Lesbian community ¯ we do exist, especially in great numbers, and as a religious leader who is openly ¯ then things are going to happen. Or, as Gay, I am unable to sign the document ¯ Melissa Etheridge said, "when you free without the inclusion of Sexual Orientauon as-part Of that .,diu~si.ty..._,: i ¯ " your mind, a rockin’ jam will follow." If Our people have~J~en, the Unfox~:unate .:, we can each one of us find one person, or victims of bigotry, prejudice and hate ¯ child, to reach, then we’ve taken the first crimes for centuries, including the holo- ¯¯ steps in stopping fascism. Hitler ended up caust. To not speak openly about these ¯ in a bunker, having shot his wife and sticking the guninhis mouthbefore shootissues promotes the silence, which has imprisoned Gay and Lesbian children of " ing. I think many Other fascists (read ¯ fundamentalists) forget that fact. Hatred God for far too long." ¯ Father Hollingsworth toldTulsa Family ¯ turns inward, but not before the hater has devastatingly hurt others. Something that News that he read his letter to his congre¯ shouldbetaughtinEVERY SundaySchool gation and that the response has been over-" class. And please remember one thing: whelmingly supportive of his position. Greg Gatewood of Tulsa Oklahomans : VOTE!!!!!!! Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appoinlments are available. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? 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Trusting in a living, loving God, we seek to become a compassionate voi~ for peace and justice. Our congregation.welcomes all persons who respond in trust and obedience to God’s grace in Jesus Christ, and desire to become part of the membership and ministry of Christ’s church. M~a~~s!~.9~ ~-:,Opt: ~-.~i!...~9,Pl..~. regardless of race, .ethnic origin, worldly condition, marital status, or sexual orientation. Sunday Worship. 1 lam 712 S. Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory all the people their relatives hfite." Many "Man Shot in Local Gay Bar", "Teenof them, of course, in the name of Jesus. ager Assaulted Because Suspects Believed Stealing a line from an old Woody Allen Him Gay","’We Don’ t Have Hate Crimes movie,"if Jesus came down and saw what in Brown County’". was going on in his name, he’d never stop Seems everywhere you look now, there throwing up." are hate crimes against the G/L/B/T comIf you’ve read my columns from the ~’munity, or-alleged hate beginning (and I thank "!crimes~ or people denying -"...Bach in those days, BOTH of you, by the way!), ;hate crimes exist. There you know I’m a fledgling, we didn’t have hate are even those very few Who coming out only after evdeny homosexuality exis ts, crimes. Well, we did, but eryone else has not only we didn’t call them that. and I believe our Dishonblazed the trail for me, but orable George W. Bush to made that trail a four lane Boys who were Gay just be among them (I don’ t ~ ve highway! So no, I’ve had to be beaten up and up a chance to let you all NEVER experienced what take it "llke a man", or know you MUST vote Nomost of you have in your vember 7). they had to develop those "out" lives. I still think I Interesting news about can walk hand in hand with queen-llke attitudes of the teenager. Not that it a woman in public, or kiss death that would scare doesn’t happen at every her on a residential street .school, but the school any quarterback into his in Dallas (and have!), and where this took place is the not receive any flack from tiny, homophoble, same one from which our it. But I taught public neanderthal area of his disti9,guished arts and enschool for eight years, ten body eafled a mind .... " tertainment editor .graduyears too many, and I know ated. Back in those days, what kids say to each other, we didn’t have hate crimes. Wall, we did, not caring that their words hurt. More but we didn’t call them that. Boys who importantly, I’ve heard teachers and other were Gay just had to be beaten up and take school staff go on the attack against gays, it "like a man", or they had to develop saying that the Bible doesn’t condone it. those queen-like attitudes of death that We’ve had this discussion before, but I would scare any quarterback into his tiny, just want to let you know that your chilhomophobic, neanderthal area of his body dren may be being taught by ahomophobic called a mind. teacher. And believe me, teachers still do One of my friends, the one who thinks have influence on children. So children we’re all going to hell, says all Crimes like are taught to hate another child because murder, assault, rape, etc. are hate crimes. that child may be different. Obviously, if I disagree. There are certainly crimes of I can look through a gay newspaper and passion. There are premeditated crimes. pick out,just by going through one quarter There are even assaults with deadly weapof it, three separate stories on hate crimes, ons with intent to kill. But they are for a there’s a problem. One that needs to be purpose - to either get rid of someone so addressed. Well, it’s been addressed, but disturbing to you (like a wife, husband, many ar~ turning their heads. While crime mother-in-law), or to get money to buy is rampant on the streets, and hate crimes drugs, cigarettes, or "fabulous" outfits. against the G/L/B/T community has skyThe people committing these crimes may rocketed, the legislature still cools its heels hate the person AT THAT TIME, but not over this issue. always. In other words, the criminals It shouldn’t have to take television to aren’t their own self-proclaimed Adoif fire me up, but watching highlights from Hitlers, who have decided to take all logic the "Equality Rocks" concert on VH- 1 did and reason and bury them, sending us back it for me. During the evening, the parents into the Dark Ages. But there ARE people of several hate crime victims, Matthew who are self-proclaimed Hirers, whether Shepard’s parents and James Byrd’s parthey want to believe it or not, spreading ents among them, gave a small speech that NOT the words of Jesus, but the words of had the more than 45,000 audience crying hate to a nation. openly. Then Melissa Etheridge, herself Maybe they weren’t the ones who beat not able to contain tears, sang her song up Matthew Shepard and left him to die, or about. Matthew Shepard, "Scarecrow." the ones who had a direct hand in James How can people, after watching that, Byrd’s death, or the people who raped still believe that these boys should have Brandon Teena, only to shoot him to death died? How can anyone hate a group of repeatedly, later. But they had a hand in people just because they .are different? each one of these deaths. For eachone How can they facethemselve~in themom- *. you-reading:this..fight now, there are at ing,-knowin~ thav they~ce*contril~me~.., in least 20 (at least in Texas and Oklahoma) ANY way, to these deaths? How many ignorant people who believe that homotimes can we turn away and do nothing? sexuality isn’t something you’re born with. We have a revolution going on in this That you can change if you want to. That country. Most people don’t want to beyou’ve chosen to be laughed at, beaten up, lieve it. They’d rather dose their doors. fired from your job, ostracized from your Hell, so would I, but I can see the revolufamilies. These are the people who have tion coming even stronger than before. raised the suspects in the above headlines. .The one consistent thing thatI was taught They’ve "carefully taught" their children m school about the United States is that we to, as the "South Pacific" song goes, "hate are a melting pot see Lesbian, p.lO �Healing VROJECT AIDS Memorial ~.uilt ~ wareness" World AIDS Day Candlelight Memorial March Friday, December 1st, 6:30pm Tulsa Civic Center Plaza, 5th & Denver The NAMES Project Quilt Opening, 8pm This advertisement is donated by Tulsa Family News. TFN appreciates the opportunity to support this showing of the Quilt, and The NAMES Project. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Deputy Police Chief To Speak At TOHR, Nov. 14 TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa Deputy Chief of Police Bobby L. Busby will be the featured speaker at the Nov. meeting of Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) at the Gay Community Services Center at 21st &Memorial.The meeting begins at 7:30pm. Topics for discussion with the ChiefBusby will include expanding Tulsa’s "diversity" training for new police recruits and for in-service training to include sexual orientation as wall as rate and etlmicity. Also on the agenda will be discussion of recent police visits to local Gay and Lesbian_nightclubs. All are invited to attend. TOHR will also hold a new volunteer orientation on Nov. 9th at 7pm at the Center. Center organizers also held an openhouse for thenew facility in October. They note that about 80 people attended the event including a substantial number of visitors in town for a leather event. TOHR also hosted a Feastfor,~riends dinner with raised over $1,000 for The NAMES Project. Hate In Vermont BROOKFIELD, Vt. (AP) - Mark Hackett was thunderstruck when he looked at the fence facing property he owns on Vermont Route 14. "Exaente the Fag," it declared, its message clear despite the misspelling. Hackett, who is Gay, rents the property to two families, one of whom has been feuding with the property owner next door on whose fence the hate message was spray-painted. Although Hackett as landlord has been only peripherallyinvolved in the neighborhood dispute, its message was obvious to him. "It’s clearly there for me to see.., the message to my tenant was,’ Seehow yourlandlordlikes that,’ "Hackett said. "I just think the ’Take Back Vermont’ message is making it OK to say stuff like that. I don’t have a problem with people voting Democratic or Republican or supporting any candidate they want... But you start seeing that stuff around the state and it’s not about politics, it’s about hate." And it is happening more and more around Vermont in this heated and polarized campaign season. In Burlington, the Outright Vermont office has taken to locking its doors and taking other security precautions after two differentmen walked into the office on Oct. 13 and threatened to kill a staff member. "The first one basically asked her what she was going to do to eliminate herself, then told her if she didn’t eliminate hersdf he would," see Vermont, l~. 2 DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 ¯ Servin Lesbian Ga Bisexual + Transg~n~er_ed ~ul__Fa~s_, ~r Fa~ili~.~ Friends : Gays Excluded From i Tulsa’s "Diversity" ¯ Metropolitan Ministry Lauds Local Mix : But Sees On!y Race, Religion + Ethnicity ¯ NEWS ANALYSIS ~- When is "diversity" not diverse? Only in ¯ Tulsa where "do-gooder" organizations, like Tulsa Metropolitan ¯ Ministry (TMM), the National Conference on Community and ¯ Justice (NCCJ), and others can sin~ the praises of interfaith ¯ tolerance andunderstandingwhile excluding or ignoringLesbian ¯ and Gay Tulsans, regardless of faith. In this case,TMMissued a"Statement in Support ofDiversity" ¯ which defines diversity only in terms of race, ethnicity and ¯ religion. TMM’s newexecutive director theRev. StephenCranford ¯ stated that he did not know if the omission was deliberate. However, TMM staff said that the text of the statement was written by TMM board president, Dr. Sandra Rana, who is a leader in Tulsa’s Islamic community. Members of Tulsa’s Is- " lamic community have made hostile remarks towards Gays on ¯ several occasions, most recently when a Muslim representative ¯ at a NCCJ Trialogue on Marriage said that his society would ¯ murder any Gay men who attempted to marry each other. Dr. ’ Rana did not respond to messages left about the "Statement in ¯ Support of Diversity". TMMhas a history of mostly ignoring Lesbian and Gay issues ¯ with one notable exception: the support of an amendment to ¯ Oklahoma’s hate crimes statute whichTulsa Representative Don : Ross introduced in the legislative session prior to last year’s. ¯ Radford Rader, pastor ofCollegeHill Presbyterian Church, an ¯ officially welcoming congregation of Lesbians and Gay men and ¯ member of the TMM executive board, responded that the state- " ment was meant to address racial and ethnic diversity because of ¯ the coming of the KKK. It was written right before the incident ¯ ¯ at the Jewish cemetery. Rader stated that he did not feel that the exclusion was deliberate. see TMM, p. 9 ¯ Gay Grandmothers Just Want to See Grandkids TULSA (TFN) - It’s a sad story when families get caught up in ¯ homophobia and prejudice. It’s common when couples separate after one or the other parent realizes that they are Lesbian or Gay. ¯ And when thelegal systemgets involved, often the Gay parent ¯ loses, though around the US and evenin Oklahoma, courts cases ." are holding that Lesbians or Gay men are not ipso facto bad ¯ parents. But when grandparents are involved, it’s even more ¯ difficult because the law defers almost completely to parents. ¯ That’s where two Tulsa women, Julene and Schrie, find ¯ themselves. Both were once married to men and have children ¯ fromthose relationships. ¯ Some of those kids have no problem with their Lesbian moms. ¯ And one of them didn’t have a problem with them, when she ¯ needed free babysitting and before she was married to a man ¯ who’s areligious fundamentalists. Now the daughter and the son- ¯ in-law who says he’s the head of the house find that "it’s in the ¯ best interest of the kids" that the kids not see their grandmother ¯ or her partner who’s just as close. ¯ Legal experts hold out little hope, and even if there were ¯ grounds for a court case, judges andjuries in Oklahoma are often ¯ .not sympathetic. But this does not deter friends of the women ¯ ¯ who praise them for their kindness and support to their friends and employees when they find themselves in need. ¯ The women own a local dub out on Garnett which while it is not a Lesbian or Gay oriented venue has patron who are remark- " able supportive of the pair. ¯ Bar employee, Tummy Peevyhouse, was particularly outspo- ¯ ken in her concern for her friends and employers, as was also a ¯ bar patron, Tommy Clown. Frustrated by the limitations offered by the legal system, Peevyhouse’s response was if the law allows ¯ this [situation], then the law needs to be changed. ¯ Meanwhile, the grandmothers just wait and have faith that as ¯ their grandsons reach legal maturity, they will reassert them- " selves and come to see them on their own. HEAR the Quilt World AIDS Day- Dec, 1 ¯ Council Oak Men’s Chorale Benefit ¯ TULSA-The fifth andlargestdisplay ofTheNAMES Project will behddat tbeTulsa Conventi,o,.n Centeron ¯ on December 1 - 3. The event entitled, HEAR The Quilt" will open with student tours during daytime ¯ hours on World AIDS Day, Friday, December 1. The opening ceremonies for the general public for ¯ "HEAR The Quilt" will be proceeded by the tradi- ] tionalWorldAIDS Day candlelightmarch.Themarch ¯ will begin at the Courthouse Plazajust west of 5th and ¯ Denver at 6:30, Friday evening.Marchers are encour- ¯ aged to bring organizational banners andbells; candles ¯ will be provided. Parking is available at the Conven¯ tion Center garage. The march will follow a short ¯ route through downtown Tulsa and will return to the convention center for the Quilt’s opening at 8pro. This display of the Quilt will feature 188 sections ¯ of the Quilt, each twelvefeet square. The display will , be free and open to the public. Organizers note that ¯ the Quilt has the power to teach, to touch hearts, and ¯ to change minds. In conjunction with the "HEAR The Quilt" Dis- " play, the Council Oak Men’s Chorale under the ¯ direction of Rick Fortner will perform at Hope Uni- ¯ tarian Church, 8432 South Sheridan Road, Tulsa on : Saturday evening,December2 atT:30pm. Admission ¯ is free, with a suggested $10 donation. Proceeds will ¯ benefit the NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter. There also. will be an interfaith worship service (coordinated by Reverend Cathy Elliott, pastor of MCC United Church) to be held at the Quilt display ¯ on Sunday, Dec. 3at 9:30am. ¯ For more information, call (918) 748-3111 or send e-mail to info@TulsaQuilt.org ¯ Maine To Vote Again On Gay Civi,I Rights ¯ HALLOWELL, Maine (AP) - Maine’s latest refer- " endum on civil fights for Gay citizens resurrects ¯ familiar arguments on both sides, but this time propo- ¯ nents have polished the proposal and picked up a ¯ potentially influential ally. In wirming support from the Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland, backers have sought to buttress an exemption for religious ¯ institutions. They have also sought to counter claims ¯ that the measure would award anything special or ¯ endorse specific sexual behavior. Last time around, the Catholic church sat out the ¯ dection debate, saying it could not support a law ¯ enacted by the Legislature and signed by Gov. Angus ¯ .King because of ambiguities in its language. The ¯ enacted measure was repealed in February 1998 ¯ before it ever took effect by a rare "people’s veto" ¯ referendum vote. The outcomein that special election : was 51% for repeal and 49% against. ~ This time, with numerous other matters on state ¯ ballots expected to produce a bigger voter turnout, ¯ approval of Question 6 would again expand the ¯ Maine Human Rights Act. The proposal would in- " dude the category of"sexual orientation" in a list of ¯ groups protected against discrimination in the areas ¯ of employment, housing or access to public accom- ¯ modations and the extension of credit. The new version, however, approved by the Legislature and signed by the governor in April, is more limited than the repealed law. "We’ve repeatedly said work needs to be done to clean up the language," says Catholic diocesan spokesman Marc Mutty. "And we did that." Besides the religious exemption, the new version specifies thatno change in affirmative action requirements is intended and see Maine, p.3 Tulsa~Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial *Club Cherry Bomb, 1926 E. Pine *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 712-2324 610-5323 583-2119 835-2376 744-4280 745-9998 *The Star, 1565 Shelida~, 834-4234 ~ *Renegades/Rainbow Room, i649 S~. M~in 585,3405 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial §~920836 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd ~ 1584-1308 *The Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231 E. 41 Body Piercing by Nieole, 2722 E. 15 *Border~ Books & Music, 2740 E.21 *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. 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Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation Council Oak Men’s Chorale *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware 583-7815 583-9780 585-1201 & Florence 587-1314 747-6300 749-0595 748-3888 712-1511 Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253~2776 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-253-5332 Positive Idea Marketing Plans ....... 501-624-6646 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 White Light, 1 Center St. 501-253-4074 JOPLIN, MISSOURI Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned butall are Gay-friendly. said Keith Elston, executive director of the group dedicated to Gay and Lesbian youth. "The other one was much more blunt that he was going to ’kill fags.’ " Burlington police are investigating the incidents, but there have beenno arrests and cOauretffUiglhatbVoeurtmtro~nntgh.at9s pbregcvoidme~e .msauf.ec.hty mt°oir.tes staff, volunteers and especially its clients. From tasteless bumper stickers to graffiti on highway pavement, it’s apparently become socially acceptable in the political climate of 2000 to use derogatory terms for Gays and Lesbians that once were considered epithets. There have been scattered but persistent reports at schools across the state about anti-Gay incidents and harassment. On the pavement of the road approaching the Champlain Bridge near Fort~i~conderoga inNew Yorksomeonerecently spray-painted in large white letters "FAGS," with arrows pointing over the bridge into Vermont. "How much more explicit can you be about creating an aura of fear for day-to-day life?" said Lynne Bond, a psychology professor at the University of Vermont who has studied Gay and Lesbian issues. Vermont’s new civil unions law, granting most of the rights and benefits of marriage to same-sex couples, clearly has prompted a broad public discussion about the lives of Gays and Lesbians. There are deeply held beliefs about the morality - or some would say immorality - of homosexuality. But before the civil unions debate, those beliefs were rarely expressed in langnage that’s so offensive to Gays and Lesbians. "It seems to me that some people, have broken out of the social constraints of civility that I think people were honoring during thelegislativeprocess," said BethRobinson, the Middlebury attorney who argued the lawsuit that led to civil unions. People who oppose civil unions say they’ve been unfairly maligned becausejust they don’t agree with the law. They complain that they’ve been described as bigots, hate-mongerers and homophobes. They say that their ’Take Back Vermont’ signs and other political placards havebeen knocked over, defaced with Gay symbols and stolen. "I think there have been ugly incidents on both sides," Republican gubernatorial candidate Ruth Dwyersaid atadebatein Lyndon Center last week. Still, it once was eousidered ill-mannered at best to use such terms as fag and dyke aad queer in civil conversation. The anger over civil unions appears to have erased that unwritten rule in Vermont, at least for the time being. And that makes many Gay and Lesbian Vermonters feel as if they’re under attack, even if it’s a small minority of civil union opponents who:are behind the hate. ~ : ~ ~P~@I’O~6*~[re~, frimtrated lthat 1 didn-t~get ~d~* ~ivil ~iOrls bill killed Legislature, some of them have taken it. upon themselves to link an ominous, mystical Gay agenda to the civil union bill," - Elston.said. ’,’They’ve.been-falsely suggest~ ing that there s something in the civil unions bill that requires the teaching of homosexuality in schools. They’ve been foolishly suggesting that Outfight teaches homosexuality in the schools, that we’re distributing pornography." see Vermont, p.3 World Watch: News Not Covered in Our Daily by Tom Neal, editor/gadfly/publisher It’s old fashioned to place as much import on a daily newspaper but then as a newspaper publisher and editor of now seven years, I am somewhat committed to the concept. Unlike the internet, radio and television, those more ephemeral of media, the printed word, even on acid filled newsprint leaves a legacy, a picture of where we are and where we were, in a way that is more accessible and probably more permanent. This new and irregularly published column, like much ofthis newspaper’s coverage, intends to bring to attention things which otherwise might not get addressed. Andwhile our daily newspaper, The Tulsa Worldis not the worst newspaper in America, it does have some foibles, some journalistic lapses which stem from its parochial circumstances: a privately owned, smaller town paper with a historically greater emphasis on coverage of wealthy whites, rather than minority citizens and issues. It’s better than it used to be but... We are in the height of the United Way campaagn, and as in years past, The Tulsa World is a major supporter of TulsaAreaUnitedWay (TAUW). This is notintrinsically a bad thing. TAUW does do much good for many. But TAUW also funds organizations which engage in discnminatory practices and itself may discriminate. There are ongoing questions about the true percentage of funds which go to services rather than administration. Onemight think that The Wormwouldat least look into these issues. But year after year, The World’s coverage of United Way is a public relations flakmeister’s dream, with shamelesslypromotional stories aboutTAUWfunded agencies which nm during the United Way fundraising campaign. Canwedoubt thatifTAUWwere funding’~penly racist or anti-semitic agencies that The World would write about it? Despite claims of separation between the newsroom, and advertising and ownership, The Worm has a clear conflict of interest between its promotion of United Way and its commitment to good journalism. The World will change when they know that their readers like you andme find their practices unacceptable. Not to pickonJoe Worley, executive editor butultimately he’s responsible for the decision to coddle Tulsa Area United Way and its bad mannered (and in one case, clearly lncohapetent) management. Joe’s ntunber is published on page A-2 everyday. Let him know when The World’s doing a good job of covering Lesbian and Gay issues (overall, they’re doing better these days) but also let him know what’s not working too. ’In the current, embittered political atmosphere, it is difficult to counter such arguments. And so it feeds on itself and results in slogans that once would have been considered epithets being painted on a neighbor’s fence. Although it’s unpleasant for many Vermonters, regardless of their homosexuality, people who have been involved said they will continue speaking out. "You have to just keep on.telfing the truth, over and over again," El~n ~akl. !’Everyti~n~,thCy ~ylie~ ~a~bgut you,’yqq l~av¢ t~ exp0~e. ~em ~s [i~e~ on~!,Y0q ~aYq ~to ~t~lil,th~ .tnifl~ people hear that message." "They Don’t Want Civil Rights, They Want Special Rights" Early this morning, before I was really awake, or maybe late last night drowsing with the television on, the history channel was showing footage about the struggle Black Americans had to end legal segregation. This part ofrecent American history is a particular interest of mine but this was mostly things I’d heard or seen before. But then there was an image that caught my attention, one I’d never seen before. An old black and white image showed a white Southerner marching with a placard Saying, "They don’t want civil rights, they want SPECIAL rights!" And here I thought that particular carnard wg~ newly minted to mischaracterize the desire of Lesbian and Gay persons to live our lives relatively unmolested, with a some semblance of the same opportunities which non-Gay citizens enjoy. Perhaps I should not have been surprised. In the fight over whether Lesbian and Gay Americans should serve openly in defense of our country, almost word-for-word rhetoric was trotted out to oppose Gays as was used to oppose racial integration of the US military. Prejudice, like taxes and death, is, it seems, fundamental to the human condition, with Americans, like others, occasionally transcending our biases. After many shameful years of oppression, Americahas slowly set aside some of its racism. But different prejudices, seeing a void, have come forward. In response, we can do several things. Many simply seek to live their own lives, quietly, avoiding harassment as best as possible. Others speak out as best they can. But all who are citizens can vote, and after the election, can contact those who are supposed to be representing us. Of course, in Oklahoma, this is often an exercise in frustration. Our elected federal leaders are nearly all dedicated to attacking or restricting the rights of Lesbian-and Gay citizens - and their staff are usually rude and arrogant. But not to hold them accountable is to let them assume that all agree with their prejudice. Needless-to-say, in this election, if you are reading this before Nov. 7th, please consider the difference between the Republicans and the Democrats. As bad as the Democrats may be in Oklahoma, on a national level, that party has clearly talked and walked the talk. Positions for fair treatment of Lesbian and Gay citizens are in the Democratic platform and have been honored in action by the national party, not perfectly, but under Clinton and Gore, more than ever before. Bush and the Republicans may have moderated some of their anti-Gay, neo-nazi rhetoric (though not the Oklahoma party) but this is the party which brought us years of indifference to the HIV/AIDS crisis under Reagan, as well as a documented hostility to addressing anti-Gay hate crimes, let alone civil rights issues like employment, fair housing, military service, legal recognition, of our relationships and families, etc. It’s not that I especially like Gore, or that Bush isn’t an idiot, it’s just that given the choice, we have no choice. This guy will be making the next Supreme Court appointments. And decisions which have been crucial to our lives (like Bowers v. Hardwick which said that straight oral sex is constitutionally protected but the same act for Gays can be a felony crime, Dale v. the Boy Scouts of America, Colorado’s Amendment 2) have all been mostly narrowly decided cases. Another Scalia, or Clarence Thomas, the type of choices we’ve seen from Republican presidents, would not bode us well. Vote like your life depends on it- in many ways, it does. -Tom Neal, editor & pubisher that there would .be no. requirement for employers to provide benefits for the partners of Gay and Lesbian workers. "The diocese has never been opposed to any of the proposals," Mutty says. But he says changes this year not only made it possible for the church to sign on as an advocate, but were also aimed at making the measure acceptable to a majority of people statewide. Michael Heath of the Christian Civic League of Maine, a leader of one of the major groups opposing the measure, says the shift from neutrality to advocacy by the Catholic diocese was a major setback. The prospect of a busy balloting day is also a concern for opponents, he says. "If there’ s a big turnout of voters, then a lot of sort ofimpulsive voters are going to be there," Heath says, fretting that those unfamiliar with details of the proposal may not appreciate its impact. Heath says the morality of homosexuality remains central to the debate and that conferring rights with this proposal could lead to further Gay demands. "It lays the foundation for a lot of other things," Heath says. Observers on both sides suggest much of the Maine electorate appears-to have grown weary of the issue, which in one form or another has occupied debate on public policy for at least two decades. In 1992, the first local Gay fights law was passed by the Portland City Council. Three w.gr~s later, Maine~ vot.,¢,r~,~rejected a proposal to prevent municipal and other government bodies.in the state from passing laws barring anti-Gay discrimination. In 1997, after years of legislative warring, a state civil rights law was enacted. But just months later, the people’s veto vote forced by opponents repealed that. "It was very close the last time it went around. I know there’s been a lot of work on both sides," says bakery worker Sara Wagner in Hallowell. "I hope it passes." In a brief, streetside interview, Wagner said her awareness of discrimination facedby people sheknew ofmade the ballot questionmore than an abstract matter of principle. "It has real life implications," she said. Heath, in contrast, maintains the proponents’ claims of acturd discrimination are specious. "It’s obviously not widespread," he says. Earlier this month, in response tO an inquiry by one of the referendum bill’s leading legislative champions, Attorney General Andrew Ketterer advised that ~at least the threat of discrimination is real under existing statutes. "The federal and state law, as currently written and interpreted by the courts, do not prohibit the denial or termination of employment, the denial of credit, the denial of public acco~nmodation or the denial of housing because of sexual orientation," Ketterer wrote. The most recent campaign finance reports show that supporters from the Maine Coalition for Equal Rights, now known as YES on 6, reported donations of nearly $260,000 and expenditures of $240,000. The Christian Action League collected $37,500, but is also opposing proposals on video gambling and doctorassisted suicide. According to a recent poll by the Portland research firm Critical Insights Inc., respondents favored the referendum by 59% to 29%, with 11% undecided. Question 6 on Maine’s ballot asks: "Do you favor ratifying the action of the 119th Legislature whereby it passed an act extending to all citizens regardless of their sexual orientation the same basic rights to protection against discrimination now guaranteed to citizens on the basis of race, color, religion, sex or national origin in the areas of employment, housing, public~acco.ram~datipa~.a~d~cr~edi[ .and where th~ a~t expregs’ly~s~te~ confers legislative approval Of, or sp~,i~ d’gtig tb; any person or group of persons?" ¯ Okla. Reps. = Total Zeros : Not that it should come as any surprise to anyone, but ¯ the Human Rights Campaign, HRC, reports in their ¯¯ scorecard for the 106thCongress thatOklahoma’s Representatives and our Senators, Largent, Cobum, Watkins, ¯ Watts, Istook, Lucas, Nickles and Inhofe received total ¯ zeros on 10 questions about legislation of concern to Gay ¯ citizens. This is why voting matters, friends. - TFN Scouts Fire Gay Man SANTA BARBARA, Calif. (AP) - A Boy Scout executive was stripped of his Eagle Scout status and fired by the Boy Scouts of America National Council 10 days after he publicly admitted he is Gay, his attorney said. Len Lanzi, Boy Scouts Los Padres Council executive director, worked for the scouting organization 14 years before he was terminated by mail. "We plan to pursue all legal remedies available to him," said Lanzi’s attorney, Steven Serratori, whose Century City firm specializes in employment law "I think it’s fair to say that everybody is surprised at the arrogance of the Boy Scouts," Serratori said. "To think in this day and age that they think they can fire someone based on their sexual orientation..." A U.S. Supreme Court rnling last summer upholding the Boy Scouts" right to exclude Gay members does not apply to its employees, the lawyer said. Lanzi, whose territory includes Santa Barbara and SanLuis Obispo counties, is believed to be the highestranking Boy Scout executive to publicly acknowledge his homosexuality since the Supreme Court ruling in June. Los Padres Boy Scout boardmembers told the Santa Barbara News-Press their options were limited because of the national council’s policy on Gays. "We could contradict the national Boy Scout policy, and possibly risk the whole council being decommissioned, orwecan go along with firing him," said Karl Eberhard a member of the Los Padres Boy Scouts board. "I maintain that the whole thing is completely idiotic," he added. Neighbors Don’t Mind Alabama Ga " Nudists WAVERLY, Ala. (AP) -h grovel road winds through John Bales’ wilderness resort. It looks like any of the paths leading to huntinglodge_s wherecountless Southern men spend weekends this time of year. Then, you come to the sign: "Clothing optional area." This isn’t your ordinary, out-of-the-way spot in the woods of east Alabama. Bales owns Black Bear Camp, a 33-acre resort catering to Gay men who enjoy nature au naturel. Black Bear Camp isn’t for hunting. It’ s for socializing. The clientele tends to be Gay men best described as the rugged type: Many have beards and bellies and would rather sit around the lodge watching football on TV than go to a Gay bar. "Probably more than 50% of our customers are married or divorced with kids," Bales said. "’We don’t get the flamboyant type." There were rumblings when another clothing-optional campground for Gay men opened near the south Alabama town of Geneva a couple of years ago. A Lesbian-operated retreat where guests wear clothes, Camp Sister Spirit, drew heated protests in 1993 after opening in rural Mississippi. But Bales hasn’t heard any complaints from surrounding Lee County or nearby Waverly, a town of " h 160 people, many,of them elderly. I know my ne.l.g .- bors. They know I mGay, and they know I opened ttus place," he said. "There hasn’t been a problem with it." Many residents don’t know the camp exists: Bales doe’Sn’t adverd~ locally, and there are no signs indicatinglthat a dbfhing-opti0nal resort for Gays is just off busy U.S. 280. But people who do know about the camp don’t seem concerned about what’s going on in the woods north of Auburn. "If that’ s what turns them on, let ’em go on," said Waverly town clerk DeLene Cawley. "If I belonged to a nudist colony that’s where I’d want to be." A leader of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance of Alabama isn’t surprised by the lack of controversy. "As long as there’s no loud music and people keep to themselves I wouldn’t think people would have a problem with it," said David White. Bales, a 57-year-old math professor at Tuskegee University, didn’t set out to get into the clothingoptional resort business. He began buying land around Little Loblockee Creek in 1982 and began building 1ears later with plans for the camp to provide a source of income when he retires in 2009. There’s bunk space for 24 in the 3,600-square-foot lodge, whichhas a tin roof and all the comforts ofhome plus some: Internet access, satellite TV, a hot tub and an above-ground swimming pool with deck. Bales has had as many as 30 customers on a weekend, but the more typical crowd is six or seven. "It was not my original intention to be clothingoptional," he said. "But shortly after I opened, I began to get inquiries from clothing-optional groups asking whether that was allowed. "It didn’t take me long to realize that the remoteness and seclusion of the camp made than a natural option and a good niche market to enter." With prices ranging from $8 for daytmae guests to $40 a night for double occupancy bunks, Bales hopes to break even this year as far as operating costs go. He weeds out the occasional unannounced visitor just looking for a good time. "No one wants to come down here and have people who are looking at naked guys and propositioning them for sex," he said. "That will drive away my business.’" Journalist Group Calls For Partner Benefits COLUMBUS, Ohio (AP) - The Society of Professional Journalists approved a resolution calling for news organizations to provide benefits for domestic parmers of their Gay and Lesbian employees. . The measure was opposed by some SPJ members who said the professional organization should not get involved in employment matters such as benefits. Delegates approved the resolution by a margin of 85 to 36 at SPJ’s national convention. Sally Lehlman, SPJ’s diversity chair, said the resolution would ensure that Gay and Lesbian journalists are not treated "like second class citizens in the newsroom." "It’s not about employment from our perspecfive. It’ s about fairness and accuracy in content, which emerges in part from fairness in the newsroom," she said. Mark Scarp, an editorial writer for the Scottsdale (Ariz.) Tribune, and member of SPJ’s executive committee, said the group should follow its precedent of leaving employment issues up to unions. "I personally support domestic partner benefits but I believe it qualifies as an employer-employee relations issue," Scarp said. "We’re a professional association and I felt it wasn’t appropriate for us to make a determination on such an issue." A few years ago, SPJ comuussioned a survey on reporters’ salaries, but would not get into trying to persuade employers to improve pay, Scarp said. Gay Couple Get Abducted Child Back CATHEDRAL CITY, California (AP) - A 10-yearold boy abducted by his grandfather who accused the child’s caretakers of promoting a Gay lifestyle has been returned to the couple. Miguel Washington was surrendered to authorilies by relatives in Pennsylvania and returned to the home ofhis uncle, Paul Washington Jr., and Timothy Forrester. "Right now he’s really happy to be home," Washington Jr. said. "We’re absolutely elated. Our family is united again." An attorney for Paul Washington Sr. and Sandra Washington, Mignel’s grandparents and Washington Jr.’s parents, said his clients intend to pursue custody. "My clients don’t feel that’s the best home for him," said attorney Bill Hence Jr. "I’m very disappointed in the agencies that were supposed to be protecting the United in God’s Love MCC-United Sunday Worship Reverend Cathy Elliot 11:00 am Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood 918/838-1715 Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm 1517 S. 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Instead, Washington and For/ester received a letter from a Los Angeles law firm Oct. 7 stating that Miguel had been removed from their home and accusing the pair of "actively promoting or influencing a Gay lifestyle for the minor." The letter cited Miguel’s participation in ballet and "Gay art class" instead of baseball as one reason for the boy’s removal. Germany Ready to Recognize Gay Partners BERLIN (AP)-Germany’s governing coalition wants to pass a law giving equal legal status to Gay couples early in November, politicians stated. Leaders from the Social Democratic and Greens parties said they plan to have the Bundestag, the lower house of parliament, approve the bill Nov. I0. Conservatives, however, control a majority in the upper house of parliament and have criticized the law. To get around their opposition that could scuttle the bill, lawmakers laid out a plan Friday to divide the legislation into two parts. The government majority in parliament would pass administrative regulations creating the legal frameworkforGay couples without the upper house’ s agreement. However, the upper house will still be called on to approve lifting the disadvantages to Gays contained in labor and tax codes. ACLU Trying Bias Reduction Program ATLANTA (AP) - Georgia is one of three states chosen by the American Civil Liberties Union to pilot a program to educate teachers about bullying of Gay and Lesbian students. The ACLU says students who identify themselves as Gay are more than four times as likely to suffer bullying than heterosexual students. Gary Weber, legal director of the Georgia ACLU, said Gay students also have higher rates of absenteeism and suicide. The program will use panels - including a Gay student, perhaps a parent of a Gay student, a school administrator or classroom teacher and an attorney - to explain the legal liabilities schools face if they ignore harassment. TheACLU will begin contacting schools in November to schedule traimng sessions. Districts that refuse the training may be called by an ACLU attorney to briefly explain legal liabilities. Kentucky and Indiana are the other two pilot states. No date has been set for expanding theprogram, which was developed in northern California, to other states, ACLU spokesman Eric Ferrero said. Big .Brothers, Big Sisters Bans Gay Volunteers OWENSBORO, Ky (AP) - The local chapter of Big Brothers-Big Sisters, which links children with adult mentors, will no longer allow Gays to participate in the program. The board voted 10-9 to bar openly Gay volunteers following a closed-door meeting. Board members had raised concerns about health issues and fear that it would create confusion among childr+n over sexual orientation matters, said Sue Krampe, executive director. The debate on whether to conunue to allow Gays to mentor children surfaced recently after Brian Combs, a case manager and minister at Christ View Christian Church, quit after learning a homosexual was a mentor in the program. The board was deadlocked in a vote earlier this month. Combs had been the only person to raise a complaint prior to the first vote. But since then, the agency has fielded 18 telephone calls in opposition to allowing Gays in the program, Krampe said. Volunteers had been asked their sexual orientation during the initial screening process and parents were allowed to veto amatela based on their answers. Nationally, only a "handful" of the 500 chapters of the American Big Brothers-Big Sisters prohibits homosexuals~ from mentoring children, Krampe said. Each local chapter can set ~ts ownpolicies on the issue. she said. Newspaper Chain to Offer Partner Benefits GRANDRAPIDS, Mich. (AP)- Six of the eight Booth newspapers in Michigan will offer benefits to partners of Gay employees starting in January. The papers that will offer the benefits are The Ann Arbor News. The Bay City Times, The Flint Journal, The Jackson Citizen Patriot, the Kalamazoo Gazette and The Saginaw News. The eight Booth newspapers are owned by Advance Publications, based in New York. George Arwady, publisher of the Kalamazoo paper, said the new benefits were "pretty well accepted" by employees. "It’ s a matter of equitable treatment for our employees," Arwady said. "We have not made a big deal out of it, mad it’s not a big deal." Margaret DeRitter, an editor at the Gazette, said she was pleased by the amaouncement. "I wasn’t aware of employees internally pushing for.it," said DeRitter, who is Gay and a 12-year employee of the paper. "I thought it was great the company would do this without any prompting from the staff. It says they value all of their employees and want to be fair and equitable." Mother of Slain Soldier Appeals Army Decision WASHINGTON (AP)-The mother of a FortCampbell soldier who was murdered in iris barracks is seeking to overturn the denial of her $1.8 million wrongful death claim against the Army Kutteles sent an appeal of the Sept. 27 decision by the military to Army Secretary Louis Caldera. Kutteles, of Kansas City, Mo., said fellow soldiers believed Winchell was Gay and harassed him for months before he was beaten to death with a baseball bat while sleeping in his cot July 5, 1999 at a post in Kentucky. The Army knew about the harassment but did nothing to stop it, she said. Pvt. Calvin Glover of Sulphur, Okla., was sentenced to life in prison for murdering Winchell. Another soldier was given a 12 1/2-year sentence for lying to investigators. The Army inspector general issued a report in July on Winchell’s murder. The report found evidence of low morale mad anti- Gay behavior among members of Winchell’s unit, D Company, 2nd Battalion of the 502nd Infantry Regiment. It concluded, however, that the chain of command at Fort Campbell responded,a:ppropriately with respect to enforcing the Pentagon S policy of permitting Gays to serve in the military so long as they keep their sexual orientation private. Kutteles says should Caldera side with her, the Army wouldbe taking full responsibility for Winchell’s death. "We have to do this for our son’s sake. He died, and I want his death to be meaningful," she said. "I want other mothers and fathers not to have to go through this." Easier-to-Swallow Anti-AIDS Pills WASHINGTON (AP).- The government approved a new easier-to-use version of a standard AIDS drug that may ease patient complaints that the medicine is too hard to swallow. The drug is ddI, often used in the multi-drug cocktails that AIDS patients take to fight the virus. Until now, patients havehad to chew, or dissolve in water, two large, bitter-tasting ddI pills twice a day. Those pills also frequently were blamed for diarrheaand other gastrointestinal side effects. The Food and Drug Administration approved a once-a-day capsule version of ddI. Swallowing the capsule, to be sold under the brandname Videx F_C, means no nasty taste problem. An FDA spokeswoman said thenew ddI may cause fewer dangerous interactions with other medications that AIDS patients take, because the capsule does not contain abuffering ingredient used in thechewable version. Also, manufacturer Bristol-Myers Squibb contends a special coating on the new version means it may cause fewer gastrointestinal side effects. Although Bristol-Myers never ddirecdy compared the old and new ddI to prove that, the FDA said getting rid of that old buffering ingredient may indeed help. Bristol-Myers did notreveal whenVidex EC would begin.selling, or if it would cost the same as the old version,-,. Researchers & Drug Co. Dispute Results CHICAGO (AP)-A study suggesting that a vaccine-like AIDS treatment is ineffective has provoked a public dispute between the manufacturer that paid for much of the study and doctors who say the company tried to squelch their research. The study’s conclusions, published in a recent Journal of the American Medical Association, echo doubts aboutHIV- 1 Immunogen that were expressed several years ago by advisers to the U.S~ Food and Drug Administration. The results suggest that when added to the drug regimen for HIVinfectedpatients, HIV-11mmunogenfailed " to reduce the risk of devdopingfull-blown ¯ AIDS. The drug cames the brand name .. Remune. ¯ Immune Response Corp., the drug’s " manufacturer, contends that researchers " omitted favorable data and skewed the results. The company entereda fairly com- . mon arbitration process during which it " tried to produce "a more balanced manu- : script," said Dr. Ronald Moss, the ¯ company’s vice president of medical and " scientific affairs. Instead, the researchers " ~~:.~¥i~lated daeir~eonttaomalagreement and i r. 1~blish~in~oinpletefindings;Moss ~aid.~ .... "It seems like tabloid journalism that " lAMA would not investigate this further" " before publishing, Moss said, HIV-1 Immunogea was developed by ." the late Dr. Jonas Salk, who created the ." first polio vaccine. It was developed be- ." fore powerful "drug cocktails" including ¯ protease inhibitors became standard HIV : treatment, and Immune Response says : subjects’ use of such drugs affected the : findings in the JAMA study. ". Dr. James Kahn of the University of California at San Francisco, the smdy’s lead author, said the company withheld important data and then tried to suppress publication. The company denies both claims. In an arbitration complaint last month, Immune Response also demanded $7 million to ; 10 millionfrom Kahn and the tmiversity, claiming dissemination of the negative findings caused,it financia], harm, university attorney :Christopher Patti said. The university contends Kahn was-allowed to publ.ish the results. The study of2,527 patients inthe United States found that Remune did boost levels ofinfection-fighting white blood cells, but the authors questi,o....n~fl whether the effect was clinically significant. JAMA editor Dr. Catherine DeAngelis defended thejournal’s decision to publish. ’q’his study stands on its own scientific merit," she said. "It was peer-reviewed as ~uch." In a JA1V[A editorial, she said the dispute illustrates what can happen when disagreement erupts between researchers and a funding sponsor who "has a proprietary interest in the findings." Moss said the study was published without the consent of some of the researchers. The company and one of the dissenting researchers, Dr. John Turner of Graduate Hospital in Philadelphia, drafted a letter Monday to DeAngelis, decrying publication of a manuscript that contains "incomplete and inaccurate information." The final manuscript contains "some major statistical flaws," said Turner, who believes HIV-1 lmmunogen can slow disease progression. "ff I were HIV-positive, I would batter down any door necessary to get it, period," Turner said. Doctors Org. Cites Conflicts of Interest CHICAGO (AP) - A funny thing happened to Dr. Jerome Kassirer at a recent lecture to medical students about financial conflicts of interest for doctors: It turned out the free buffet was provided by amajor drug company. Kassirer had a blunt message: Medical schools and training programs "must teach that there is no free lunch. No free dinner. Or textbooks. Or even a ballpoint pen." From freebies for medical students to research funding that can taint study results to the growing practice of marketing prescription medicine direcdy to consumers, drug_companies have a growing and sometimes unseemly influence on doctors, according to articles, studies and editorials published recently in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The relationship between research and indus~try appears to beunde.r growing scm- ’ fihy~The edit6fof, the:New’ E~tgl~tnd Journal of Medicine wrote an extraordinary critique in May, saying scien.ce_ is being~ compromised by the growing influence ot induslry money. That same month, the Harvard Medical School said it would not ease its conflict of interest standards, considered the toughest in the nation, and Dean Joseph B. Martin called for a national dialogue on the issue. Most experts agree that research needs industry dollars. The top 10 pharmaceuti- Power Connect. 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Saturday, November 11, 10 - 6pm 2727 East 56th Street 743-6740 Oklaiaorna NAI,L.\I... covdia!iv ~.t~,v~v~ v,ott to a chocolate and champa~r~~ ~ete in support of abortion and reprt~d~ctive rights in Oklahoma Celebrating 27 Years of Choice Sunday, November 12, 2000. 1:3(.1 - 3:30 p.m. :"~’° fob~heldat Resonat~~e - " ~ Champagne, Coffee, Chocolates $25 per ~ndividual [’lea.~ R.S.V.P. to the NARAL L)ffice: 4.4-9585 cal companies spent nearly $23 billion on : days, washing the condoms with water clinical research last year- more than the ¯ and soap afteruse. Researchers will check nearly $18 billion provided by the Na- : the condoms for rips or tears and examine tional Institutes of Health, JAMA editor ." the participants to make sure that’reuse Dr. Catherine DeAngelis said. ¯ doesn’t cause rashes or irritations. The problem is when researchers have " "In terms of the whole spectrum of birth f’mancial interests in companies funding " control, it’s not the best," Said Barbara their work. DeAngelis said such research ¯ Lea-Kruger, spokeswoman for the Viris lower in quality and more likely to " ginia Department of Health’s HIV/AIDS report findings favorable to the company, division."Butifwe’retalkingaboutwomen One study found ,that. 7,6 percent of the : who don’t have access to other forms of faculty researchers at the University of ¯ birth control and who come from a culture California at San Francisco~aad personal " wheremenareless willing touseacondom, financial ties to their drug company sport- " it’s a Viable alternative." sorslastyear.Mostwereshort-termspeak- : ing engagements or consulting agreements Seniors & HIV/AIDS with minimal payments. ¯ State and federal-guidelines require re- CANTON, Ohio (AP) - Older people searchers to disclose certain financial ties, . sometimes have an awkward approach to and a UCSF policy prohibits faculty in- ¯ sexual issues that puts them at risk for volvedinindustry-sponsoredresearchfrom " HIV, health counselors say. receiving any compensationfrom the corn- " SusanJ. McCollum, who teaches people pany during the study. 50 and older about the risks of contracting Elizabeth Boyd and Lisa Bert, with HIV, said older people must be aware of UCSF’s Institute for Health Policy Stud- the risks. "It’s dangerous for any group of ies, said a campus committee "worked to people to think they’re immune," said accommodateallbutthemostovertlycon- McCollum, a counselor for Planned Parflicting relationships in the interest of en- enthood ofStark County. couraging its faculty, and, presumably, According to the U.S. Centers for Disencouraging future outside investment in ease Control and Prevention, the number the university." of older people becoming infected is in- The authors suggested that financial ties creasing. An estimated 10.9 percent, of may be more prevalent at other universi- men with HIV and 9.4 percent of women ties with less stringent policies. A 1998- with HIV are 50 and older. 2000 study of 89 major universities found "People that age have not grown up with that only 17-19%- had specific limits or condoms, like people who are in their prohibitions on relationships with indus- 20s," McCollum said. "For a woman in try. While most had co~fflict of interest her 60s to talk to a man about condoms.. policies, the3, were not as effective be- ." McCollum also said it’s an awkward cause they don’t spell what is prohibited, adjustmentforpeoplewhoarenewly single the authors said. after having been in along-term marriage Dr. Jordan Cohen, president of the As- or relationship. "Women4Oandolderdon’t sociation of Americau Medica! Colleges, want to grow old alone," McColhma told announced that the group is forming a task The Repository for a story published Sunforce to investigate conflicts of interest dav."They’reputtingthemselvesoutthere, and reach a consensus on what types of but they don’t know enough, or they’re not relationships with drug companies should able to talk about condoms. It puts them at be allowed, a real disadvantage." Around the world, an estimated 85,000 Women’s Corldo[~ women, middle-age and older, have been infected with HIV. McCollum has had May Help HIV Fight young women come for HIV testing who want her to talk to their mothers about NORFOLK, Va. (AP) - A condom for risky sexual behavior. women that never quite caught on in the KimJackson, spekeswomanfortheOhio United States is being studied to see if AIDS Coalition, said that while her group reusing it can make it more economical does not offer educational programs speand help fight AIDS in developing coun- eifieally targeting seniors, older people do tries. The United Nations AIDS program participate. "We have a general education has been distributing the Reality Female program for people of all ages," Jackson Condom to women in areas such as sub- said. "We are seeing more people that age Saharan Africa, which has been-devas- attending our programs. We had several tated by AIDS. people in their 70s at our last program." The key to providing female condoms, Bonnie Bolitho, executive director of which retail for $2 to $3 apiece, to poor " Planned Parenthood of Stark County, said women is making them affordable, said ; many older people have the incorrect idea Dr. Susan A. Ballagh, the clinical trial’s thatHIV-AIDS is a "homosexual" disprincipal investigator~ ..-~ :. ~ ; :;~ .ease~~ thatit aff~ts O~[y yo~mgtpeople. ~;- -TheChicago-basedF.emal¢H~althCom~ i :. "rl~ere~.s tl~tse~e~that :~It-cot~’’~t"~pen’ to pan~,theproduct’ssolemannfaclurer, sells ~ me,"’ she said. "You’re talking about of the condoms to international family plan- ¯ group of people who have been monoganing agencies for as little as 70 cents a , mous for most of their lives. Now, they’re piece. ; at a different stage of life. Some haven’t But women’s condoms could be even ¯ put a lot of thought into how it (HIV) more economical if they were reused. Re- ¯ affects them." searchers at Eastern Virginia Medical " According to Bolitho, "It’s the age-old, School arerecntiting 80 couples to test the ; overarchiugproblemoftalkingaboutsexu_ condoms. Half the couples will use the ¯ ality, and it’s plain old-fashioned denial. condom once. The other couples each will ; Denial is one of our great enemies." use a single condom five times over 15 ~ by Jim Christjohn, entertaiment editor ] child out once in a while. I wasn’t expect- Hey folks, welcome to the time of the ¯ ing a great movie, but it surprised me. The year when we celebrate the fact that the " filmis well acted - hard to find in a movie Indians helped the pilgrims onlyto be thanked with slaughter and removal from ancestral lands. Go America! The first thanksgiving was basically afour day celebration/ party wherein the Native Americans provided the food, fun, and games. It really wasn’t about religion at all, as the lore surrounding it wouldhave youbelieve. Anditwasn’t too long after that whentheEuropean invaders started getting a bit greedy for the profits land conld bring from new immigrants, and so, in the name of- God, "took" the land from the Natives. Oh, and there was a religious aspect to it, once the "pilgrims" figured out how to work the land from the Natives and didn’t need them anymore..,,It was either convert or die for the heathen Nafives. Ah, the things the don’t tell you in school - or church. On to more cheerier thoughts - I drug my curmudgeonly editor to afilm recently. (Well, OK, he wanted to go, too, and hasn’t been terribly curmudgeonly lately.) We saw "The Little Vampire." OK, now stop laughing. It’s good to let the inner li...We saw "The Little Vampire." OK, now stop laughing. It’s good to let the inner child out once in a while. I wasn’t expeetlng a great movie, but it surprised me. The film is well acted - hard to find in a movie starring children; well written; and superbly filmed... " starting children; well written; and superbly filmed. And it had something for everyone - it didn’t "talk down" to kids, nor did it avoid being funny in an adult way. The film is ’~’:~-m~bout a young Americanboy who moves to England due to his father’s business. HE’s miserable,being an outsider - and picked on at school, in particularby two twins. It certainly broughtback some memories in that respect. I knew a pair of twins who were the scourge of Hurst Junior high, and it was kind of like watching a flashback - except with better accents. Anyway, our hero has a fixation with men in capes - sound familiar? (Hint: Read last month’s column.) And Io and behold, he meets a boy vampire, and they form a close friendship. This results in many misadventures, including foiling a would be vampire hunter and the aforementioned bullies. I highly recommend seeing this film, because it’s a fun ride, entertaining, while putting forth some good-thoughts. A lot of care andlove went into this film, and it shows. GIFTS OF THE S£ASON! COUNCIL OAK MEN’S CHORALE ALL SOULS UNITARIAN Tmditionalists,ofcourse, abhorthat each " Choralewillperform.AndonDec.9,there year December holidays begin earlier and " will be a gala dinner in the Great Hall, earlier. Christmas in September isincreas- ¯ Chaired by friends to the community, ingly a reality. Catherine Seger But one of the local traditions which we don’t mind seeing early nearly so much is Philbrook Museum’s annual holiday celebration and exhibition, Home for the Holidays. The event kicks off with the Festival of Trees. T,he ~Fe~sfival tures trees, wreaths, and more by local artists, designers and school children. The event is chaired by Lou Hodgson and caterer Mark Lackey is artist liaison. At the museum members’ opening on Dec. 2 at noon, the Council Oak Men’s and Hillary Kitz. And of course, local A-listers, Talmadge Po-well and Steve Wright are helping out by chairing the Patron Party and Treeview. The featured artistforHomefor the Holidays is Lisa Regan of the GardenDevaSculpture Co. Regan, whose work is seen through out Tulsa’ s gardens, has been shown in Better Homes and Gardens, shows her work at Mayfest. Her commemorative ornament, shown " above, .is an aluminum tree with bead ¯ accents. E[ecUon Day, Nov. 7 Who Will Pick the NEW SUPREHES? Decisions we make at the ballot box will resonate for decades, including the make-up of the Supreme Court. Our choice: continue the path of progress or take a sharp U-turn back to the anti-glbt politics of the ’80s. We need your voice for our jobs, for our families, for our lives. HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN COME OUT VOTING ¯ www.hrc.org Tuesday, November 7 Election Day HRC WATCH PARTY Because win or lose, it’s good to be among friends 9 PM 3340 South Peoria, Tulsa, OK Must be 21 Cash Bar HRC envisions an America where lesbian and gay people are ensured of their basic equal rights. You can help us do our work by joining us for either or :both of ~the:se~ ev~t..s~ (or by jgining ~HRC - ’ ii~’~ !j~ :i~3-" ~i ~li !~8~[2913 €;r emaii hrctulsaoHahoma@ aol.com). HUMAN RIGHTS CAMPAIGN~ by Tom Neal, editor/publisher Although the National Conference for Community and Justice claims to be an anti-hate group, for at least the last 4-5 years this anti-bias organi~tion has activdy discriminated against Gay & Lesbian Tulsans as well as failing to speak out when Gay & Lesbian Tulsans were targets of physical violence as well as recipients of legislative and other attacks on their civil rights. At their Trialogue on Marriage, hosted by Boston Avenue Methodist Church (a church which has been host to several events at which Lesbian and Gay Tuls’ans were attacked or excluded), Trialogue organizer Mr. Levson, then cantor of Temple Israel, stated that JOI g 0 II B HATE he and other NCCJ organizers deliberately excluded same gender mamage from discussionbecauseitwouldhave been"too controversial." This was done despite thefacts that the issue could not have been more prominent in public discussion because of court cases in Hawaii, and even though the issue is still in debate in many Christian denominations and in several Jewish organizations. NCCJ has repeated been asked to reform their actions: to add openly Gay or Lesbian persons to their board of directors, to speak out on legislative issues, to live what they say they are about. To date, they have refused to do so, preferring to raise substantial sums from Tulsa "society" events such as honoring Bob Lorton, owner ofThe Tulsa World for his "human rights" work despite the fact that The World for at least 15 years had documented anti- Gay business practices which they publicly defended and despite The Wordls acknowledgement of racist hiring practices in their newsroom in response to an EEOC complaint. Some Gay community observers, however, wonderhow it is that the hate groups, like the KKK, don’t manage to forget Lesbians and Gay men including them in their hate rhetoric, but the folks who supposedly are "allies" manage only to hear the KKK’s racist and anti-Sem~itic comments. Groups who endorsed the "Statement in Support of Diversity" include a number who have been supportive of Lesbians and Gay men. These include: Community of Hope, All Souls, Hope and Community Unitarians, Fellowship Congregatxonal ¯ Church- UCC, Jewish Federation ofTulsa and even the Metropolitan Community ¯ Church United (MCC). Calls to All Souls, MCC-United, and Fellowship Congrega- ¯ tional were not returned. Perry Simons, ¯ executive director of Jewish Federation ¯ said that organization does not discrimi- : hate on sexual orientation. ¯ In contrast, Father Rick Hollingsworth, ¯ oftheParishChurchofSaintJeromewrote ¯ a letter in protest of the the "Statement in ¯ Support of Diversity" ¯ In it, he notes that, "The Parish Church ,¯ of St Jerome is certainly in support of celebrating and supporting the wonderful ¯ diversity, which surrounds us in our beau- " tiful city... I am concerned however that ¯ the statement on diversity see TMM,p. 10 Name Games by Michael Craft Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library It takes a speci~ talent to pull off a murdermystery novel andone ofthebetter Gay mystery series, Mark Manning mysteries by Michael Craft, has a clever new entry, Name Games. Delving into an unlikely topic, the world of minia- .tures, Craft has created a fun, although not particularly suspenseful mystery. Set in rural Wisconsin, main character Mark Manning is now the publisher of the local newspaper and leading a very open and out life with a longlime partner, while raising a neglected nephew. The big news in town is the upcoming Midwest Miniatures Society Exhibition, which attracts enthusiasts worldwide. Two of the most prominent figures in this little underworld, Carroll Cantrell and Bruno Herisson , who happen to be arch rivals, are being "...Anthropologist Sherry Ortner, drawing on the French feminist Simone Beauvolr, once proposed that ’Man is to CultUre as Woman is to Nature.’ Ortner was seeking a reason for why, almost everywhere, people value what men do more than they value what women do.. ¯ " homophobic District Attorney, Harley Kaiser, and a New Age feminist, Miriam Westerman, who is somehow convinced that Gay pom"hurts women." Add to this, the nephew, Thad, trying outfor the school play and Mark’s lover, Nell, who is trying to decide whether to move his architectural practice to the small town from Chicago. When Cantrell (who has man3, health problems) is discovered murdered, the exhibitionis turned upside down and things really get uncomfortable when the Sheriff becomes the primary suspect. Manning, aided by his sleuths at the newspaper, set out to clear the Sheriff. The characters inName Games are nicely drawn, if a bit stereotypical ]]ae town, Dumont, is remarkably (and a bit unrealistically) progressive and unconcerned about the iGay influence~ ofManning and his cohorts. (Could there really be a town like this in today’s America?) flown in. Grace Lord, a sweet little old lady,is hosting and coordinating the ev~nt. The Sheriff, Doug Pierce, a closeted Gay man, is in the midst of a reelection bid while dealing with a pornography trial involving "dirty book stores" on the edge of town. The trial is being pushed by the is not as broad as it should be. This is evidenced I believe by the omission of Sexual Orientation as part of that diversity in the statement. Gay and Lesbian persons are an integral part of Tulsa’s rich diversity which When joined together with other forms of diversity create community. When Rabbi Marc Fitzerman was speaking this last Sunday at the rededication, He was very dear, ’Those whohate Jews, usually hate Catholics, Those who hate Catholics usually hate Gay and Lesbian people...’ As a Pastor of a Parish which primarily serves the Gay and Lesbian community and as a religious leader who is openly Gay, I am unable to sign the document without the inclusion of Sexual Orienta- The obligatory sex scenes are really just ¯¯ uninspired dream sequences, and leave a little too much to the imagination. The ¯ mystery is a fun and exciting ride, but it is ¯ certainly nothing special. In fact, this ¯ novice mystery reader managed to figure ] our whodunit long before the end of the ¯ for Human Rights (TOHR) said that the lack of inclusiveness raised concerns and ~ would likely be addressed in upcoming : organizational meetings for a formal response. : : and love diversity. We have many reli¯ gions, many nationalities, many cultures here, and we’re taught to respect them. ¯ When the hell ~s someone going to respect ¯ us for our diversity? If you want to do : something to help, there’s a number to ¯ call, and an ever popular website to visit. ¯ It’s the Human Rights Campaign Founda- ¯ uon, 800-498-0382, or www.hrc.org. ¯ When we stand up and show people that ¯ we do exist, especially in great numbers, ¯ then things are going to happen. Or, as ¯ Melissa Etheridge said, "when you free uon as-part Of that .,diu~si.ty..._,: i ¯ " your mind, a rockin’ jam will follow." If Our people have~J~en, the Unfox~:unate .:, we can each one of us find one person, or victims of bigotry, prejudice and hate ¯ child, to reach, then we’ve taken the first crimes for centuries, including the holocaust. To not speak openly about these issues promotes the silence, which has imprisoned Gay and Lesbian children of God for far too long." Father Hollingsworth toldTulsa Family News that he read his letter to his congregation and that the response has been overwhelmingly supportive of his position. Greg Gatewood of Tulsa Oklahomans ¯ steps in stopping fascism. Hitler ended up ¯ in a bunker, having shot his wife and ¯ sticking the guninhis mouthbefore shoot- " ing. I think many Other fascists (read ¯ fundamentalists) forget that fact. Hatred ¯ turns inward, but not before the hater has ¯ devastatingly hurt others. Something that ¯ shouldbetaughtinEVERY SundaySchool -" class. And please remember one thing: : VOTE!!!!!!! Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appoinlments are available. Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? Support Group is here:f0r yotJ!:~’ " ~’~’~.~" ~-’-" ¯ Evening support group meetings ¯ Relationship workshops ¯ Short trips, outings and retreats ¯ Free HlVtesting For information call Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project 918.588.1900, x4275 or x4276 -International Fresh Start Seeking men & women to help with expansion in the area. Must be independent, goal-oriented, have a great attitude and excellent people skills. Call 663:5323. Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236,~ues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm ody TI- ,ll Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing - College Hill Presbyterian Church In response to God’s Love, College Hill Presbyterian Church is a commtmity of God’s people called to tell others the Gospel of Jesus Christ through worship, servzce, and evangelism. To nurture our faith, we gather for worship, prayer, study and fellowship. Trusting in a living, loving God, we seek to become a compassionate voi~ for peace andjustice. Our congregation.welcomes all persons who respond in trust and obedience to God’s grace in Jesus Christ, and desire to become part of the membership and ministry of Christ’s church. M~a~~s!~.9~ ~-:,Opt: ~-.~i!...~9,Pl..~. regardless of race, .ethnic origin, worldly condition, marital status, or sexual orientation. Sunday Worship. 1 lam 712 S. Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory "Man Shot in Local Gay Bar", "TeenagerAssaulted Because Suspects Believed HimGay","’We Don’t Have Hate Crimes in Brown County’". Seems everywhere you look now, there are hate crimes against the G/L/B/T com- ~’munity, or-alleged hate "!crimes~ or people denying ;hate crimes exist. There are even those very few Who deny homosexuality exis ts, and I believe our Dishonorable George W. Bush to beamong them (I don’t~ve up a chance to let you all know you MUST vote November 7). Interesting news about the teenager. Not that it doesn’t happen at every .school, but the school where this took place is the same one from which our disti9,guished arts and entertainment editor .graduated. Back in those days, we didn’t have hate crimes. Wall, we did, but we didn’t call them that. Boys who were Gayjust had to be beaten up and take it "like a man", or they had to develop those queen-like attitudes of death that would scare any quarterback into his tiny, homophobic, neanderthal area of his body called a mind. One of my friends, the one who thinks we’re all going to hell, says all Crimes like murder, assault, rape, etc. are hate crimes. I disagree. There are certainly crimes of passion. There are premeditated crimes. There are even assaults with deadly weapons with intent to kill. But they are for a purpose - to either get rid of someone so disturbing to you (like a wife, husband, mother-in-law), or to get money to buy drugs, cigarettes, or "fabulous" outfits. The people committing these crimes may hate the person AT THAT TIME, but not always. In other words, the criminals aren’t their own self-proclaimed Adoif Hitlers, who have decided to take all logic and reason and bury them, sending us back into theDarkAges. But thereAREpeople who are self-proclaimed Hirers, whether they want to believe it or not, spreading NOT the words of Jesus, but the words of hate to a nation. Maybe they weren’t the ones who beat up Matthew Shepard and lefthim to die, or the ones who had a direct hand in James Byrd’s death, or the people who raped BrandonTeena, only to shoothim to death repeatedly, later. But they had a hand in each one of these deaths. For eachone you-reading:this..fight now, there are at least 20 (at least in Texas and Oklahoma) ignorant people who believe that homosexuality isn’t something you’re born with. That you can change if you want to. That you’ve chosen to be laughed at, beaten up, fired from your job, ostracized from your families. These are the people who have raised the suspects in the above headlines. They’ve "carefully taught" their children to, as the "South Pacific" song goes, "hate -"...Bach in those days, we didn’t have hate crimes. Well, we did, but we didn’t call them that. Boys who were Gay just had to be beaten up and take it "llke a man", or they had to develop those queen-llke attitudes of death that would scare any quarterback into his tiny, homophoble, neanderthal area of his body eafled a mind...." all the people their relatives hfite." Many of them, of course, in the name of Jesus. Stealing a line from an old Woody Allen movie,"ifJesus came down and saw what was going on in his name, he’d never stop throwing up." If you’ve read my columns from the beginning (and I thank BOTHofyou,by the way!), you know I’m a fledgling, coming out only after everyone else has not only blazed the trail for me, but made that trail a four lane highway! So no, I’ve NEVER experienced what most of you have in your "out" lives. I still think I can walkhandinhand with a woman in public, or kiss her on a residential street in Dallas (and have!), and not receive any flack from it. But I taught public school for eight years, ten years toomany, and Iknow whatkids say to each other, not caring that their words hurt. More importantly, I’ve heard teachers and other school staff go on the attack against gays, saying that the Bible doesn’t condone it. We’ve had this discussion before, but I just want to let you know that your childrenmay be being taughtbyahomophobic teacher. And believe me, teachers still do have influence on children. So children are taught to hate another child because that child may be different. Obviously, if I can look through a gay newspaper and pick out,just by going through one quarter of it, three separate stories on hate crimes, there’s a problem. One that needs to be addressed. Well, it’s been addressed, but many ar~turning their heads. While crime is rampant on the streets, and hate crimes against the G/L/B/T community has skyrocketed, thelegislature still cools its heels over this issue. It shouldn’t have to take television to fire me up, but watching highlights from the "Equality Rocks" concert onVH-1 did it for me. During the evening, the parents of several hate crime victims, Matthew Shepard’s parents and James Byrd’s parents among them, gave a small speech that had the more than 45,000 audience crying openly. Then Melissa Etheridge, herself not able to contain tears, sang her song about. Matthew Shepard, "Scarecrow." How can people, after watching that, still believe that these boys should have died? How can anyone hate a group of people just because they .are different? How can they facethemselve~inthemom- *. ing,-knowin~ thav they~ce*contril~me~.., in ANY way, to these deaths? How many times can we turn away and do nothing? We have a revolution going on in this country. Most people don’t want to believe it. They’d rather dose their doors. Hell, so would I, but I can see the revolution coming even stronger than before. .The one consistent thing thatI was taught mschool about the United States is that we are a melting pot see Lesbian, p.lO Healing VROJECT AIDS Memorial ~.uilt ~ wareness" World AIDS Day Candlelight Memorial March Friday, December 1st, 6:30pm Tulsa Civic Center Plaza, 5th & Denver The NAMES Project Quilt Opening, 8pm This advertisement is donated by Tulsa Family News. TFN appreciates the opportunity to support this showing of the Quilt, and The NAMES Project. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2000] Tulsa Family News, November 2000; Volume 7, Issue 11 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. 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There was no ¯ ¯ ¯ Pastor Says "Sexual Orientation" Was ¯ Will and Grace, few Gay or Lesbian images in print Added But TMM Board Never Told ¯ or on the airwaves, HIV was not yet discovered, and ¯ TULSA - While the incident, a KKK visit, to which a local ¯ "diversity" statement sought io i’~spond is well past, the state" merit continues to brew controversy. Tulsa Metropolitan Minis" try, an "interfaith" religious organization issued a statement -.¯ which defined Tulsa’s "diversity" as being composed of race, religion andethnicity, without mentioning sexual orientation. ¯ Earlier, it appeared that the failure to mention "sexual orienta¯ tion" might have been an oversight based on the KKK’ s historical ¯ attacks primarily on Jews and Blacks. However, in a return call ¯ to the Tulsa Family News, the Rev. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congregational Church, United Church of Christ, stated that ¯ he participated in the meeting to draft the statement, and specifically he called for the inclusion of "sexual orientation" in the NORMAN, Ok - The Oklahoma Lambda Intercollegiate Coalition (OLIC) has announced the creation of : statement. Bennett noted that he heard no objections to his the Oklahoma Lambda Youth Scholarship which they ¯ request, and he said that he expected that "sexual orientation" claim is the first such program in Oklahoma. The ¯ would be included. Perry Simons, executive director of the Jewish Federation Coalition is an umbrella network of Lesbian, Gay, : Bisexual, and Transgender student groups from Okla- ¯ attended the meeting at Fellowship Congregational Church with : Nancy Day of the National Conference for Community and homa colleges and universities. Justice, Dr. Sandra Rana, representing Tulsa’s Muslim commuAccording to OLIC spokespersons, Kent Doss of the University of Oklahoma and Mandy Whitten, the Presi- : nity, the Rev. Clark Shackleford of Sand Springs, as well as dent of University of Central Oklahoma Gay Alliance ¯ Bennett. And while Simmons says he does not remember Bennett for Tolerance and Equality (GATE), the purpose of the ." calling for adding "sexual orientation," Simons says he feels he scholarship is to promote pride in youth activism and ¯ should have raised theissue. Simons noted that Dr. Rana took the ¯ notes of what he described as a "stream of consciousness" foster leadership at Oklahoma college campuses. ¯ Oklahoma high-school graduates who intend to rediscussion. main in the state throughout their college careers will be ; However, the Rev. Radford Rader of College Hill Presbyterian eligible for the $1,000 award. Applicants will be se- ¯ and a-member of the T!VIM executive boardstated that the lected according see OLIC, p. 3 ¯ executive board never saw a version see TMM, p. 11 Gay Students Start LGBT Scholarships what was later called AIDS was just beginning to be seen in New York City and San Francisco. The ¯ Stonewall Riots had only ocurred 10 years before, ¯ Gay people were still subject to arrests and harass" ment in most of the US, and world. ¯ In Oklahoma City, community activists began a group called Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). ¯ Tnlsans joined that group and then formed a Tulsa ; branch. This group lead by three Tulsa attorneys, ¯ Dennis Neill, Bob Inglish and Mike Green and others ¯ later created Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, ¯ Oklahoma’s 2nd oldest organization after Tulsa’s ¯ Metropolitan Community Church United. ¯ Twenty years later, the world has changed. Tulsa ¯ has support groups in the public schools for Lesbian ¯ and Gay young adults, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered people are very much visible in Ameri¯" can media and society but TOHR is still here provid¯ ing community services as at the beginning with all volunteer, staffing and not that many dollars. ¯ Longtime TOHR member and former board mere¯ ber Jonathan Stanley remembers being a member as ¯ early as 1980 or 1981, adding that he recalls Bob ¯ Inglish as president and meeting in a small upstairs ¯ room in Stonehorse, a building now known as the ¯ Consortium. A particularly vivid memory of those ¯ early days was the controversy when TOHR rented a ¯ city pool for an event and cityofficials had the pool ¯ drained because Gay p_eopl_e_had, used. it..This was in the very early days of AIDS when the disease was associated exclusively with Gay men and little was known about HIV transmission. ¯ During these years, TOHR has provided a commuLANSING, Mich. (AP)- Newly dected state House Rep: Chris ¯ uity information telephone line, civil rights advoKolb heads to Lansing in January as the state’s first openly Gay cacy, anonymous HIV anti-body testing (eventually lawmaker, but he said he has a lot more he wants to tackle than ¯¯ with paid staff and HIV education outreach workers simply civil rights for Gay-people. Kolb, 42, admits his role is ¯ - a program which has spun off as the H.O.P.E. important, but it’s not his only focus. "I don’t wear it on my ¯ Testing Clinic), and for the last several years, a sleeve. I am who I am, but I don’t bring itinto every discussion," ¯ community center. The Center was in the Brookside he said of his sexual orientation. "It’s not my one and only ¯ neighborhood was first known as the Pride Center crusade in life." ¯ and featured a 5x8’ flag which flew over the building The election of Kolb, a Democrat from Ann Arbor, puts ¯ until it was repeatedly stolen. Now the Center is Michigan among 22 states that have an openly Gay man or ¯ known as theTulsa Gay Community Services Center Lesbianin their legislatures. The Ann Arbor city councilman first : and has relocated to 21st & Memorial (2114 So. got interested in politics after receiving his bachelor’s degree in ¯ Memorial), ironically sharing a wall with one of natural resources from the University of Michigan in 1982. He ¯ Tulsa’s oldest Lesbian bars, TNT’s. started with local government, distributing campaign literature ," However, TOHR president Greg Gatewood and and knocking on doors for candidates. After serving as aprecinct ; the proposed new officers, Kerry Lewis, president, captain and secretary of the local Democratic Party, he won an ¯ 1st v.p. Vance Reed, 2nd v.p. Don Glass, secretary open seat on the Ann Arbor City Councilin 1993. Eventually, he ¯ Curtis Evans, and treasurer Beth Persac, are hoping became mayor pro-tern. ¯ the current location will be a short-term one. TOHR " Working on the Democratic-controlled council with former has announced a capital raising campaign, the PyraAnn Arbor Mayor Ingrid Sheldon, a Republican, has already ¯ mid Project, to purchase a permanent commtmity helped Kolb learn to forge bipartisan alliances, a key skill in the ." center. state Legislature. Sheldon admits she and Kolb were competi." According to Gatewood, the Project has in hand ox tors, but said he never made his sexual orientation an issue. "You : in pledges and grants, $65,000 of their goal ot do not think of him as being the stereotypical Gay person in Ann ¯ $250,000. And the organization has set up legal Arbor," Sheldon said. "He’S a regular person the way you or I restrictions such that all gifts to the Pyramid Projec! would want to be relating to a person." ¯ arerestricted to that useonly. Also, thoserules (whicl: Kolb said he will work at improving the state of civil and ¯ were reviewed by outside legal counsel and CPA’s" human rights in Michigan,but he’s also interested in tackling ¯ restrict overhead expenditures to a maximum of education and environmental issues. He wants to work on legis- ¯ and all labor for the project is volunteer. lation that would make it illegal in Michigan to fire employees : Gatewood notes that the organization is setting uI based on their sexual orientation, something already prohibited web sites for TOHR and the Pyramid Projec in 11 states. "I’m not kidding myself as to how far the Legislature ¯ (www.tohr.org and www.pyramidproject.org) whicl will be able to be moved," he said. "But civil and human rights ¯ they expect to be available in mid-December. are along struggle." To celebrate the 20th anniversary of TOHR, th~ Kolb will be one of 14 new Democrats and seven Republicans .¯" group will hold a Holiday reception and silent auctiol to begin their first two-year state House terms in January. He will : on Dec. 10th from 4-7pm, see TOHR, p. be seated across the aisle see Michigan, p. 3 Tulsa Chamber Adds ¯ Michigan Elects First Gay Rep. "Sexual Orientation" ."¯ TULSA - The Tulsa Metro Chamber, which recently changed i ts name from the Metropolitan Tnlsa Chamber of Commerce, also has revised its non-discrimination policies to add the term "sexual orientation" to more traditional statues like race, religion, age, national origin, sex (gender), etc. According to Michael Hightower, media spokesperson for the organization, the .addition of "sexual orientation" was part of a comprehensive review of Chamber’ s internal policies. The Bank of Oklahoma’s Human Resources Dept. conducted this effort for the Chamber. This revision is part of a trend on the part of businesses to attract employees by committing to fair hiring practices. According to the Human Rights Campaign, a Washington based civil right group, 494 of the Fortune 500 companies have added "sexual orientation" to their policies. A number of major Tulsa employers,including American Airlines, Kimberly-Clark, AEP/PSO, Dollar/Thrifty Auto Group, and others have done the same. Kerry Lewis, president-elect of Tulsa/Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) expressed surprise and applauded this Chamber move. TFN publisher Tom Neal noted "as one of the few openly Gay members of the Chamber, I am really proud to.see the organization welcome us. We need to support them in return." 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Peoria 746-0313 ¯¯ *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 742-2457 ! others disagree with him will help him in *Cheap Th~ills,~::2(~iOE. 1 lth Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa - Lesbian & Gay Catholics’& 295"-5868 ¯ ¯ Lansing, said Jeffrey Montgomery, execuEpiscopalians, POB 701475, 74t70-1475 " ~ Cherry St. Ps,yEtirthdt~py, 1515 S. Lewis 58’1-0902, 743=4117 355-3140 Community’CI~ihiiig~’Kerby Baker . " 622-0700 ~Fellowshipcongreg.Church, 2900 S. Harvard 747-7777 ¯ tive director of the Detroit-based Gay rights group Triangle Foundation. "He’s been 352-9504, 800-742-9468’ ¯¯ -*FreeSpiritWomen’sCenter, callforloeation&info: 587-4669 Tim Daniel, At~tonie~ ¯ aroundmany, many,,ch~lenging situations," *Deco to Discoi" 3212 E. 15th Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 " " 747-6827 749=362Q. Doghouse 6n-.Brr0kside, 3311 S. Peoria 744-5556 ¯ Friends in UnitySocial Org., POB 8542, 74101 582-0438 .: Montgomery said. He s going to be able to *Elite Boules-& Vi~t~0S, 821 S. Sheridan 838-8503 : HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. Page Blvd. 583-6611 :¯ handle ahar;dful ofignorantlegislators very easily." Encompass, Travel," I3161H N. Memorial 369=8555 ¯¯ *Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., 3507 E. Admiral 834-4194 ¯ While Kolb believes the media makes a Ross Edwar~l:Sal6ii i 584~0337, 712~9379 HOPE,-HIV Oiitreach, Prevention, Education 834-8378 ¯ ¯ ¯ bigger deal about his election than anyone *HouseoftheHoly SpiritMinstries;1517 S. Memorial 224-4754 5920460 Events Uniimited;; 507S. Main " " Floral Design-S~dioi~3404 S,. Peoria 744~9595 ¯¯ *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 :¯ else, he knows his role~is important. He says the ultimate benefit of his election is as an 610-0880 NAMES Project, 3507 E. Admiral PI. - , Four Star ImpOrt.AutOmotive, 9906 E. 55th P1. ’ 748-3111 ¯ example to members of the Gay commuCathy Furlong;PhiD.~ 1980 Utica Sq..Med. Cir.365-5658 628-3709 ¯ NOW; Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 nity. "Any young person, regardless of their Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 808~8026 ¯ " ,OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 ; sexual orientation, whohears about this will 742-1460 *OSU-Tuls~ *Gloria Jear;’~ .Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st" 49-490t ¯ "’ realiz.e..that ~ere’s a world of opportunity," 459~9349 ¯"- .t~-.G, POB 52800, 74152 Learme MTG’rO~s~’En~i~ance &financial pl,.a~.ng. ~ 587 76?4.... he said..,~oo often, that s not the message ." ~*Planned Parenthood,1007 S. Peori~a Mark T. Ha~by~A’ttOrney *Sandra J. I~ll,M~S;Tsychotherapy, 2865 ~i ~kelly745:74427440T 111 .... tMme-’Timers, P.O: B.ox52t 18, 74152 our community and others hear." . - , _. -R;A:L N:; Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 341:6866 749-4195 *Internafiol~al T~urs ...... ¯ Red.Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 584-2325 712-2.750 Jacox Aniraal Cliifie, 2732 E. 15th .... St. Aidan’S Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinriati *Jared’s Antlques;"1602 E. 15th - 582-3018 425-7882 747-0236 " StTDu~stan’sEpiscopal, 5635 E. 71st 492-7140 David KauSk~y~:~otmtry Club Barbering .*St: Jerome’s Parish Church; 205 W. King Memorabilia from the years will be on dis582-8460 582-3088 The Keepers; HoUsekeeping & Gardening ¯ *TulsaArea United Way,- 1430 S..Boulder 583-7171 play as well as auction items from artists and 599-8070 *Ken’s Flowers; ’1635 E. 15 747-5466. ~-*TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian.Health Care. 582-7225 ¯ merchants such as Antiquaries inTulsa, P.S. Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #21C -’ *Living A~tSpaee; 308 South Kenosha 585-1234 ¯ Tulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 ....... 595-4105 , Gordon, DavidHoot, T.A. Lorton, Kathleen " ¯ Pendergrass, Rand’s Art & Antiques, Mary 584-3112~ .......~.,2Confideufial HIV Testing -by appt. on Thursdays ionly *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd ¯ 663-59341 :.~.Tulsi!O!d. a.T0rH,.t!m.an Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 Schepers and others. Curt & Marj’s CaterMingo Valley’Flowers, 9720c E. 31 664-2951 "..- ~.U.L.S.A.iTulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 " ing will offer refreshments as may other *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 838-7626 - .2 T~s~a City Hall, G~0und Floor Vestibule Puppy Pause: IF,1060 S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa restaurants. 743-4297 ; .... Tiii~ii CommUnityCoil~ge Campuse~ ¯" On Dec. 1 lth, TOHR and PFLAG, Par*The Pride StOre............... ¯ 743-4297 747-5932 ~ *TulsaGay Community Center, 21st & Memorial cuts, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Rainbowz’0~ the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 834:0617- ; Unity Church of Clirigtianity,3355 s. Jamestown 749-8833 ¯ Gays will hold their annual joint Holiday Richard’s Carpet Cleaning ....... potluck dinner at the Center at 7pm. The Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834~7921, 747-4746 "BARTLESVILLE 749-~6301 Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square ...... "-B~fl~svill~Piibllc Library, 600S=. Johnstone 918-337-5353 : entree will be provided as will soft drinks 260-7829 ." and tableware. Attendees should bring vegPaul Tay, Car’Salesman TAHLEQUAH .......... ¯ etables, salads and desserts and may call *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 481-0558. ¯ 918-456-7900 ¯ 743-4297. to know which of those to bring.. 835-5563 ¯ Stonewall League, call for information: Venus Salon, 1247-S: Harvard Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church 918-456-7900 ¯ 743-1733 Gatewood also notes that planning for Fred Welch, LCSW, Cotmsding ¯ ~ Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 918-453-9360 665-2222 *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan ¯ next year’s Diversity Celebration 2001, ¯ which includes the Parade, a post-parade 592-0767 ¯¯ EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis ¯ 501-253-7734 www.gaytulsa.org website for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians ¯ Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 ¯ Festival and ablack-tie dinner will continue 501-253-7457 Jim & Breut’s Bistro, 173 S. Main a mid-January meeting. The precise date Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. ¯ will be announced later, t 7pro. The entree501-253-6807 579-9593 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 ¯ Emerald Raiiabow,45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 .¯ will be provided as will soft drinks and 743-2363 All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria ¯ MCC of the Living Spring tableware. Attendees should bring veg501-253-9337 587-7314 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 ¯ ¯ 501-253 -2776 etables, salads and desserts and may call the Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 583-7815 ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-253-5332 ¯ Center at 743-4297 for which of those to 583-9780 B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. ¯ Positive Idea Marketing Plans501-624-6646 585-1201 ¯ Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S~ Boston ¯ bring. Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 Gatewood ~so notes that planning for *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence ¯ White Light, 1 Center St. 501-253-4074 ¯ next year’s Diversity Celebration 2001, 587-1314 Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood ¯ ." which includes the Parade, a post-parade 747-6300 JOPLIN, MISSOURI *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale ¯ *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 417-623-4696 ¯ Festival and ablack-tie dinner will continue Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U1.34 ~ a mid-January meeting¯ The precise date 748-3888 Council Oak Men’s Chorale * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but all are Gay-friendly. ¯ will be announced later. 712-1511 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware �World AIDS Day ¯ Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry: Gay People Need Not Exist ¯ by Tom Neal, editor & publisher ¯ committee process and edited out that inclusion. Because by Chris Labonte, semor policy advocate It might come as quite a surprise to you to learn that there " of their and their organization’s past involvement in acts Human Rights Campaign are no Gay people in Tulsa. There are no Gay bars, no Gay " of anti-Gay discrimination, it looks like Dr. Sandra Rana As we commemorate the first World AIDS Day of the churches, no Gay households, no Gay parents, no Gay kids ¯ and Nancy Day of the National Conference for Commu21st Century,itis important to bothcelebrate our achieve- you get the idea. : nity and Justice were responsible. TMM’ s executive board ments over HIV and AIDS and work vigorously to ensure At least that’s the message that Tulsa Metropolitan " never saw an inclusive version. there will be continued success in thcfuture. With success Ministry (TMM) is putting out. While"celThis does not excuse the executive in treatments, we risk the danger of resting on our laurels. ebrating" Tulsa’s "diversity" specifically, "... apologlsts for board. In this city, and in this time, it is Instead,:we :mus~ rededicate ourselves to building upon claiming to "... support each other’s right very hard not to know that Gay and LesTMM ma~e the these victories anff creating a future without HIV and to live and prosper in this great community. bian people exist. But their oversight lacks AIDS. ~People with the diseas~e live longer and healthier ¯ ." TMM. somehow managed t3 "disapexcuse that Gay the malice of deliberate exclusion. lives yet the number of those’whbar¢ newly infected in pear" Gay Tulsans. Many apologists for TMM make the Tulsans have our country each year remains steady at 40,000. We have long known that some groups in excuse that Gay Tulsans have to be sold The.new barrier to treatment and prevention is complaTMM are deeply prejudiced against Les- to be sold out in order out in order to appease the Muslims, or the cency. It comes from a variety of places and appears in bian and Gay persons. Usually these people Black churches or the Orthodox. Gay to appease the Musmany forms. New highly active antiretroviral therapies are identified as Tulsa’S Muslim commupeople are asked, again and again, year have contributed to the welcome steep decline in AIDS nity, some of Tulsa’s Black churches and lims, or the Blaeh after year, to go along because some good deaths in our nation. Media and advertising campaigns Tulsa’s Orthodox Christian commumty. comes out of it. churches for these therapies signal that one can live and should live No matter how repugnant their views are But this statement goes too far. It dea robust and long life - you can go rock climbing, ski to us, morally and theologically, we have to or the Orthodox. mands that we collaborate in the denial of down the highest mountain, and continue to do fulfilling ¯ support their constitutional right to hold Gay people are ashed, our own existence. And those.who sign it work. While all of this is true, they fail to mention that : those views. But usually their objections knowing better, knowing that TMM’ s "dithese therapies require years of medication, multiple are to.-us having those basic civil rights again and again, year versity" statement is profoundly a lie, are dtses of pills each day - sometimes with possible side protections which they enjoy themsdves. no less collaborators with evil than those after year, to go along effects- and all at a great expense. They want for it-to continue to be legal for who kept silent in the face of Nazi horrors. This somewhat slanted view of our treatment success us to be fired from our jobs, or thrown out of because some good TMMhas long tolerated a double stanmay contribute to our prevention failure. Although gay our homes or have our children taken from dard. Gay people are asked to recognize comes out of it..." ¯ and bisexual men hage made strides in reducing the us. They have objected to characterizing that Tulsa Muslims and others are "fundapercentage of HIV infections attributed to male-to-male assaults on us as hate crimes, even if the mentalists" and we are asked to tolerate sexual contact, men who have sex with men still account ¯ same act is a hate crime when they are the target. their bias agaanst us even as Muslims, Jews, Christians, for approximately 40 percent of new infections each year. : But they hadn’t before sought to deny our very existence. and. Unitarians somehow manage to respect each other. By not recognizing the tree costs of HIV infection, young This is largely a symbolic act but in some ways, it is more White supremacist groups, like the Christian Identity gay and bisexual men are engaging in risky behavior; ~ powerful than the others. Even when our fundamental civil movement and .others who use theology much like the such as intentional unprotected anal and oral sex. A recent ¯ rights are denied, we are atleast acknowledged as existing. Muslims do to justify their prejudice, are not welcomed study suggests that the more optimistic memwere about ¯ Ironically, part Of the impetus for this "diversity" stateinto.TMM. Buta special place is carved outfor anti,Gay the new treatments, the less likely they were to use safe ment was a visit by a particularly virulent part.of the Kluprejudice, sex precautions or limit their number of sexual parmers. Klux Klan. Traditionally, the KKK’ s principle targets have It is finally too much. And it is time that good people Moreover, existing health ~disparities among commm b~n Jews and Blacks. But as Gay and Lesbian people have who know better stand up for their neighbors and friends nitieS of color tuake treatments particularly out.of reach become more visible, we have been included very explicand families, ff this means that Tulsa cannot support its for them. For the first time, the numbek Of gay men fromitly in Klan hatred. This Klan visit was-no.exception. And real diversity, then at least we’ll be telling .the truth. communities of color - African Americans, Latinos, while the Klan did not forget us, Tulsds "do-gooder" Muslim Tulsans might have to acknowledge that they Asian Pacific-Islanders, Native American. and others hypocrites pretend that we don’t exist. cannot object to anti-Muslim bias while oppressing Gay outnumber the number of white gay and bisexual men in Now not all of TMM’s members take this position. Tulsans. Black Tulsans ought to know better..And Jewish new AIDS cases, according to the Centers for Disease Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congregational Church Tulsans mightneed to do for Gay people what was done Control, the federal agency :primarily responsible for sought to add sexual¯ orientation to TMM’s "diversity" for them by non-Jews in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s,which is prevention of HIV/AIDS. Prevention is also particularly statement. But ina deeply disturbing and shameful action, to be vocally and visibly advocates for civil rights. concerning with communities of color, where young gay one or two commi ttee members appear to have violated the It’s time now for this change. and bisexual men of color are often confronted with both homophobia and racism. We must address this situation immediately and offer prevention strategies targeted to ¯ III. Supporting a Queer youth movement to impact the : politics of our state and nation; the unique needs of gay and bisexual men of color so they ¯ ¯ can also benefit from treatments available to others. We IV. Providing resources to the Oklahoma GLBT youth ¯ community including political and health education, a also cannot ignore strategies that we know have been ¯ successful in reducing HIV transmission in the past. Far to three equally weighted categories; community leadersafe social environment, and an opportunity to cultivate ship, scholastic merit, and financial need. too often, policy makers ignore proven science to score : leadership skills, and; political points at the expense of peoples’ lives. Needle This year,the scholarship selection committee is .com- ¯ V. Fostering the conception and growth of new GLBT exchange programs and abstinence are two of the most prised of a student representative from five of OLIC : student groupsacross Oklahoma. vivid examples: Successful risk reduction programs also campus organizations, and five Oklahoma GLBT commu- ¯ For more information, contact, Oklahoma Lambda Insave money on future treatment costs. nity leaders..The chair-person of this year, selectiOn com- - tercollegiate Coalition 900 Asp, OMU, P,m. 363, Box 169, The CDC has set forth an ambitious goal to reduce new mittee is Whitten. The organizers add that applications will ¯ Norman OK 37019-4058 or telephone to.405-325-4452. be available Dec. 1st from our OLIC organizations, at the ¯ www. geocities.com]okolic HIV infections in our nation. In addition, the independent and science-based Institute of Medicine recently released Oklahoma City and Tulsa Gay Commlmity Centers and online at www.geocides.’com/okolic/. Applications will be areport, "No Time to Lose," that supported the use of cost effective methods of reducing HIV transmission, includdue on Feb. 15,2001 and the winners will be announced in : T.U.L.S. A~ (Tulsa Uniform Leather Seekers Associaing needle, exchange programs. A recent study from .the late March. Also, the Oklahoma ]mmbda IntercJall:egiate C0aii~0~ ¯ .ti.’9fa):held the annual Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest Heury.J. Kaiser Family Eotmda_tign~f.o_und that p.arents think schools should have more comprehensive sexual hold a fundraising reception in Tulsa Oli December 2’ls( "! ~ O.cto~b_dr 20-22 at the Silver S’t~tr in Tulsa. Four Contestants from the state competed in c~ate~ories that included inter, education curriculum and cover topics that are not generfrom 7 - 10pm at the home of Rick and Susan Dos s in Tul sa. view, streetwear, physique and full leather image. Seven ally covered, such as sexual orientation. Effective preFunds raised by this event will be used for the Oklahoma judges from the US and Canada judged the contestants. vention methods deserve support - both financial and Lambda Youth Scholarship. RSVP to 405-325-4452. A International Mr. Leather 2000 Mike Taylor was among political support- from Congress, the administration, the donation of $25 is suggested. the distinguished panel. Contestants were Jason Pelkey of public health community, and other impacted communiThe goals of the Oklahoma Lambda Intercollegiate Tulsa, Jim Stout of Ramona, Stephen Scott of OKC-Mr. ties. We must strive to continue to find even better Coalition are: Sooner State Leather 2000, and Mark Goins of Tulsa-Mr. treatments, furthe~ reduce the number HIV infections, I. Raising awareness of GLBT youth ~ssues within our Tulsa Leather 2000. provide additional assistance to nations around the globe community, schools, and society; The weekend event began with a tour of the local clubs and develop a vaccine within a reasonable time frame. II. Sharing information and resources in an effort to and Tulsa’s Gay Community Services Center. The interThese goals are attainable. In a nation as wealthy and provide the best possible programming for sponsoring views were Saturday morning and the rest of the contest creative as ours, we should expect nothing less. organizations; was held that night. Stephen Scott was first runner-up. i Stout Wins Okla.Mr.Leather �Scout Troop Defies National Anti-Gay Ban : Navy Ends Harrassment :¯ of Former Seaman PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - A second Rhode Island ANNAPOLIS, Md. (AP)- A former midshipman who Scout troop is defying the national organization’s ban : resigned from the U.S. Naval Academy amid accusaon homosexuals, Members, leaders, and parents from ¯ tious of homosexuality won’t have to repay the govemBoy Scout Troop 28 have sentaletterto the Narragansett ~ ment for his education, the Navy has ruled/The deciCouncil of Boy-Scouts saying they will ignore the ¯ sion means that Tommie Watkins, 25, will not have to policy. The troop joins Cub Scout Pack 88, which sent ." reimburse the Navy the $86,000 that covered his traina similar letter, The Providence Journal reported. . ing and tuition, plus interest. ~ Watkins, president of his clas sand an aspiring Navy .The national policy is root~,in a 1910 oath that Says Scofi~- ~’.st ke~p~el~s-~ ,.ni0ralty straigl~t:~’iThe i~ ~pil0t; ~s~id bewas pres’sured to. resign ~and did so ’ !. b~ via’g tlplldld ~y!th~ S iipr~aid Court this S~er, but ~ ~ beeau~e he feared ht~mophobia ’would preve~t him ’"about ~:d~ozen~ trbb~ ~at~oflwlde have stud thaiwill ~- fromreceiviffga fair trial:’After leaving, he acknowl-" edged being Gay. Officer trainees who drop out or are The leaders of Pack 28 said the words "morally ¯ expelled during their jtmior or senior years are required straight" have nothing to do with sexual orientation. ¯ by Pentagon policy to repay the government for their .... ’The oath did not mean to banhomosextmls but to keep ¯ education, either ~in cash or through enlisted service. ..... on the straight and narrow and do what is right," said ¯ The Navy’s Board of Correction of Naval Records Y"Allen M. Dennison, an assistant scoutmaster with ." said last year that he was a victim 6f,"error and Troop 28, who has four sons in Scouting. Our assess- ¯ injustice," and recommended the academy waive the ment of whatis right is that everyone be included, and ." payment. That decision was overruled in March by " that includes Gay leaders and Gay Scouts." ." Carolyn Becraft, the assistant secretary of the Navy for ..... The Narragansett Council will forward the letter ¯ manpower. Watkins sued, and on the day of the deadfrom Troop 28 to the Boy Scouts of Americaheadquar- : line for the Navy to respond, his lawyer got word of the ’ ters in Irving~ Texas, as it did with the letter from Pack : reversal. Watkins, who works in Miami as the project director ." 88, said state ¢o,.u~,ci! Spokesman David Preston. Pack 88hash theard from the national Boy Scouts ¯¯ for an AIDS and HIV ministry, called the decision regarding its status and calls to the Boy Scouts of "long overdue and totally justified." "It’s kind of ¯ America were not returned. Officially, troops that ironic, because the Navy says its core values are honor, " ignore Scouting rule~ Will have their charter revoked. ¯ courage and commitment," he said. "It seems like I had To date, however, the Boy.Scouts of America has not _. to exhibit those qualities to win this case.’" Officials from the Naval Academy declined to comrevoked thecharter of a troop or council for ignoring ¯ .the banon Gays. ." ment on the decision. The ban made news inRhode Island last year, when a 16-year-old Eagle Scout filed a complaint with the Rhode Island Human Rights Commission saying he was denied a job at a Scout camp because he is Gay. ¯ Iowa Order Banning AntiGay Bias to Be Reviewed DES MOINES, Iowa (AP) - It’s up to a Polk County Maryland Can Ban " ¯¯¯ district ,judge to rule on the legality-, of Gov. Tom s’ci~il-rights order. District Judge Glenn Pille Anti-Gay Discrimination Vilsack heard lawyers’ arguments about the order during a ANNAPOLIS, Md. (AP) - Gov. Parris Glendening~s ¯ :plan to add Gays to Maryland’s anti-discrimination ¯ law likely would not violate the First Amendment guarantee of free exercise of religion, according to the ¯ state attorney general’s office. : Assistant Attomey General Kathryn M. Rowe is- ¯¯ sued the four-page legal opinion this week at the request of-Delegate Sandy,I. Rosenberg, who is ex- ¯ pected to use it to counter religious-based arguments ¯ -.. against the proposed legislation. "I did this so we ¯ would have a:.iegal opinion on the matter instead of ¯ rhetoric that is not precise," Rosenberg said. "In an ¯ - issue as emotional as .this, everybody should do their ¯¯ best not to misstate the law." ¯ Rosenberg asked for the opinion after a representative of the Diocese of Wilmington testified against the : governor’s plan at a public heating in Salisbury.The ¯ diocese includes Maryland’s Eastern Shore. ¯ The hearing was conducted by a commission ere- ¯ ated by the governor to solicit testimony about dis- ¯¯ crimination against Gays, Lesbians, bisexuals and ¯ transsexuals "The teaching o.f the Catholic Church and societal tradition does not accept homosexuality as a " legitimate lifestyle," the diocese said in a position ¯¯ paper presented at the hearing. ¯ The position paper alSO said the proposed legislation "significantly and Wrongfully encroaches (on) the ~ ¯ First Amendment, free-exercise rights of religious institutions and of persons whose actions are dri-ven by their religious beliefs." In her opinion, Rowe said there wasprecedent for laws with "the incidental effect of burdening certain ¯ religious practices" - as long as the laws do not single out one religion. There is also precedent suggesting ¯ that the hiring of ministers would be exempt from the ~ ¯ proposed bill, Rowe said. : ¯ recent hearing. Vilsack issued an executive order in September 1999, forbidding discrimination against Gays, Lesbians and Transexuals in state government employment. The move sparked a legislative debate. Conservative legislators were particularly angry that the order applies to Transsexuals. A majority of lawmakers voted to repeal the order, but Vilsack vetoed the legislation. Twenty-three legislators led by Republican Senate Majority Leader Stewart Iverson, challenged the order in a lawsuit filed in July. They said that Vilsack overstepped his authority and that he, in effect, rewrote the law. Vilsack has said he is carrying out a state law providing equal opportunity in state employment to all persons. Iowa Deputy Attorney General Julie Pottorff represented Vilsack at the hearing. She said the dispute is a legal question, and that Vilsack acted within his auth6rity ensuring that legal protections apply to all executive branch employees. ’°-l’his is no more than a political disagreement," Portorff told Pille. Des Moines lawyer Mark McCormick is representing the legislators and a former state employee. He argued at the hearing that the order infringes on the constitutional separation of powers and said "The governor has no power by- ~xecutive order to create law." - Vatican in Tizzy About "Fake Marriages" VATICAN CITY (AP) - The Vatican has blasted lawmakers for givinglegal recognition to so-called"de facto" unions - including those between Gays - and said attempts to allow adoption by Gays were "a great danger." A 77-page document made public in Novem-~ Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community of Hope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at 1 lam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm ¯ 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 The Open Arms Project Young Adult Support Group Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting times and place: 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers 9413 E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-~.4-5934 Family Owned & Operated Trinna .L.W. Burrows, LSW, ACSW Child, Family, Individual & Couple Psychotherapy (918) 743-9559 2121 South Columbia, Suite 420 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114,3518 �The Pride Store 21st Street & Memorial Tulsa Gay Community Services Center .743-.GAYS (743=4297) 6-9 pm! Sudda~ ".-.!F~’{day, ~ ~ .~~°! 12,9~,prn~ ~Saturday, all sales benefit the C~nte? Important Information Call 212-461:2976 Interested? Call 918=447-8602 ber by The Pontifical Council for the Family was built heavily around similar denunciations over the last few years by Pope JohnPattl II. Italian Gay groups, stung over the summer by the Vatican’s moves to try to block Gay pride events in Rome, denounced the latest pronouncement on homosexual unions. The Vatican’s council on family matters also presented a proposal to make sex crimes against children, including "sex tourism" exploitation, crimes against humanity. But .the bulk of the positions ,pr.esented. hammered away at unions betwb.en Gays as well as legal recognition for.~tmm.arried hetgcosexual~couple~. While not citing any particular, .country, thd .,Vatica.n,. spoke of ’~great concern" about lawiiaakers’ efforts "in many countries with an ancient Christian tradition" to give legal status to unmarried couples. Earlier this month, Germany.granted legal recognition to Gay couples, following similar moves.ove~ the 1~ decade by other Western European countries. " De facto unions ~e the result.of private behavior andshoul’d remain 0ni~e pri~at~ 1,ev_ el ," . the Vatican said. It described as a ~erious sign, of.the-contempo,~ rary br0~tkd0wn in the s0dal an~ ~oral.conscilence, political eftbrts tO give institutionalstatus to delfacto couples. It Said attempts to legalize thead0ption of children by Gay. ~Q~ple,s .added ’!an elemen_t.of ~reat danger." - .. NY Town offers: Benefits Red Rock Tulsa. . Free Confidentia!.HIV Testing Walk:in Clinics Tues. & Thurs., 5 -8 pm at the Center,. 1307 East 38th Daytime appointments available. Call for more information: 918-584-2325 GREENBURGH, N.Y. (AP) -The Gr.eenburgh Town Board voted un’aJaim6u~ly" tO ’offer health-be]aefits to same-sex domestic partners 0f municipal workers. "We want to treat all our employees as if they’re valuable to us," said Supervisor Paul.Feiner. New Yoj~k ~stiite,. Ne~: Yori~ City;._a~nd/~Ve’stchester CounU,.plus several ~orporation~,~.rpv.id¢~sach:benefits to homosexual couples. Of Westchester s-municipalities, only. Eastchester has..acted before Greenburgh. Under the measure;, which goesinto effect JnJanu..ary, an uumarried,.town, employee who.says-in an affidhvit that he or she has hadan exclusive relationship for a year can extend medical.and dental coverage to\the partner. - " . )_ Phelps at Phillips Exeter KIM WILKS Independent Consultant for 357-1757 ~n just a matter of hours .Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 ing match toward the end, when a group of University of New Hampshire students arrived to denounce the church group. "Relax! It’s just sex," one student shouted. "I preach God’s word." "You preach hate." But that’s an accusation Phelps’ followers don’t deny. They maintain that God hates homosexuals and will destroy any society that condones homosexual behavior. ’q’he Christian belief is rooted not only in the love of God, but also the hate of God. You can’t have one without ,the. 9~er.,’~’. . .Pt!_dps-Roper said. "That is definitive. Th,e~ is~no.question, that Gq~t!ha,t~s, p~9..p!e.]’, ,, -~ ~W.~[bggQ Baptist ,O~,ur..ch ~s. ~gu,t 2Pq i~im~ers. . They have picketed~a~ ~e fun~ 91s of. homosexuals, including that of Matthew Shepard,.a Gay man.who was brutally beaten and tortured in Wyoming in Octo~ ber 1998. "He’s in hall. And everyone else who.lives daat lifestyle will likely be in he!! with him unle{s.they repent," Phelps-Roper said. "Of ~.course, he could.have repented, but there’ s a snowball’, s, chance of tha~;happening." _. ¯ The Rev. Phelps did not attend, the demonstr.a_.tion. ~ His grandson said Phelps,:was .geeded back at his ¯ c,,h.t~h to minister But Phe!ps~Roper.saidthe growing ¯ acceptance of homosexualit~ made,:their message to ¯ iEx~ter all the more importan.t. ’;7~..’s.isimportant ~tuff. ¯ This is a ,matter of life and ~death,’:etemRy h~-re," phelps-Roper said. "When G.0~as said something is : ~.abomination, you don’t mes~.~ith it." ¯ Representatives of 14 churches from the region ¯ j6i]aekl the university students.i0PPosing Phdps? fol19wers. They said that thoug~flaey:don’t all agree on ¯ the moral status of homosexu~fity, they univers~ally oppose Phelps’ message. ."While we recognize their, right, to express their p,ersonal views freely concermng Academy policy and : ~e subjectin general, we take,~.trong exception to/heir ¯ rhe.t.ori9 and signs denigrati.ng 0~r ~eighbors,,, the,Rev’ ¯ ¯ Daniel Weaver of the Exeter United Methodist Church said: ~’We wholcheartedly agree:thathatr’ed, expressed ¯ or implied, as well as the adVo~icy br promotion of ¯ haff~lis anathema. It is certaird:y notitt the spirit of the ¯ v0~b~dsOf Jesus, ’Love your°neiIgl~bor~ as yourself."’ ¯ Accused Murderers of " Gay Man to Stand Trial FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) = T.w,o,teen-agers will stand EXET.ER, N.H. (AP) - An anti-Gay ch~ch group : trial ear)y next year for the murder of a Gay black man opposed to Phillips Exeter Academ~ ~ s p0!~gy .alirwing from.Marion County, a judg.e., ruled~ in November. homosexuals to be dorm parents protested outside the : David Allen Parker, whose lawyers may argue a dischool recently, v~aving.signs with messages .that in- : minished .capacity defense;,is ser~ to stand trial in cluded: ’q’hank Godfor A!DS." About adoZen fol!ow- ¯ Becldey on Jan. 16. His co-defendarit, Jared Wilson. ers of the Rev. Fred Phelps of the Westboro B.aptist ¯¯ will l!0t be tried until February ...... Church of Topeka~ Kan., ~rrivedat ~e S~hob’i~r’rund Par~er, 18, of Grant Town an~tWilson, 18, of Fairview noon after making similar demonstrations in’Ve~ont : ar~’charged with first-degree.murder in the July 4 and Maine earlier. ° beating death of Arthur "J.R." Warren. Police say the The, ,church members, oppose a measure Phillips teens pummeled the 26-year,old acquaintance with Exeter truste~., S approved in May that al!0ws.Gay and : their fists and feet, then ran over him four times with ,,I~,.sbian faculty and staff to serve as dormitory parents. ] Parker’s car to disguise his injuries as a hit-and-run. ’ it’s destroying the fabric0f this nation~ the~r~ls/.hat ¯ The assault allegedly began after ~Warren told others this nation ,does have," s,aid Sam Pheligs~Roper’~ the ¯" about a sexual relationshiphe claimed to have had with Rev.Phelps grandson.".It saslippeDi~lopestraightto : Parker. hell and that’s where this.country is’headed. This is a ~ Circuit Judge Rodney Merrifield said he will likely message that they need." ¯ rule within 10 days whether jurors at thetrials will hear ~ ~..m,,d~nts, at .tl],e neari~y,22Q=ye~o!d pri~vate ,high : the teens’ confessions. Defenselawyers argue sheriff’s Schorl: apparently ~v~r~fi t irit~Stc;d~j~" h~g it~ ¯ deputies inappropriately obtained the statements the Many students and faculty members_wore x~row- :, gtay, 9.t" Lhe_.murd,er,;an accusatton, the deputies have colored pins, a symbol of support for homosexuals ¯ denied on the Witness ;/arid Judy Quirm, spokeswoman for Phillips Exeter, said " Prosecutors say Warren’s DNA showed up in evithe school’s roughly ’1,000 students decided not to : dence samples taken from the interior, exterior and attend the~demonstration; and instead .-organized a : undercarriage of Parker’s car, as well as on wood diversity celebration in another part of the campus. : paneling and molding from the house where the bea~"The values of inclusion and diversity have been ¯ ing began. hallmarks of Phillips Exeter Academy since its formd- : Parker’s attorneys, Rebecca Tate and Stephen Fitz. ing," she said in a written statement. "The fact an ¯ also asked the judge for a delay so they could hire ~., objection to these principles is what brings this group ~ expert to study their client for a possible diminished to Exeter is indeed regrettable " o capacity defense strategy. The otherwise peacefifl protest erupted into a shout- �Bayer Seeks New AIDS Treatments BERLIN (AP) - Bayer AG, Germany’s biggest drugmaker, said Tuesday it will join the search for new AIDS treatments as part of a shakeup of its drug research activities: The Leverkusen-based company, best-known for developing aspirin, will look for substances effective against resistant viruses, said Wol,fgang Hartwig, head of research in’Bayer s pharmaceuti- : cal busine.ss group. The company declined to specify:how much it will invest in AIDS research. In 2000, it budgeted a total of 1 billion euros ($845 million) for research and development. Bayer said it expects to identify the first substances suitable for precliuical HIV testing within two years. Pharmaceutical research will in the future be focused on 13 fields, including seeking new treatments in urology, Alzheimer’s dementia and Parkinson’ s disease. Bayer saidit will stop its research activities for osteoporosis, fibrosis of the liver and stroke. Key Protein in AIDS. Virus Found WASHINGTON (AP) - A protein that does housekeeping chores inside cells plays a key role in spreading the AIDS virus to other cells of the body, researchers report. In studies appearing in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS), researchers say that _HIV, the AIDS’virus, uses a group of proteins, called proteasomes, to assemble new viral partitles and to spread those new particles.to uninfected cells. Ulrich S chubert of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID) said test tube studies show that blocking the action of the proteasome proteins can reduce the spread of HIV infection by about 98%. Schubert, the first author of one study in PNAS, cautioned that the research was conducted only in test tubes and it is not known if the proteasome inkibitors would work against HIV in humans. "We would never inject this drug into an HIV-infected person because we do not know what would happen," said Schubert. The proteasome inhibitors will be tested in monkeys before any human tests are considered, and those animal studies could take months, he said. Dr. Jonathan W. Yewdell, a NIAID researcher and a co-author of the study, said that althoughinhibiting proteasome shows promise as a strategy for treating HIV, "it is possible that it may not have any effect at all." He said the proteasome function is essential for healthy cells and that a drug that blocks that function could affect every cell in the body. "It is possible that the HIV-infectedcells will be more sensitive or that there are effects against the virus before" the healthy cells are affected, said Yewdell. Yewdell and Schubert said cancer researchers are experimenting with proteasome inhibitors for the treatment of prostate cancer and early studies have shown no side effects in cancer patients. The drug, however, has not been used in HIV-infected patients, they said. Proteasome’s job inside the cell is to identify and destroy old or unneeded proteins. Another PNAS study, by researchers at Pennsylvania State University, suggests that amolecule calledubiquitinplays a key role in how viruses use the proteasome function in a cell to make new viral partitles. Still another PNAS study, by researchers from the Dana-Farber Caneer Institute, Harvard Medical School and the University of Padua in Italy, also demonstrates that ubiquitin plays a role in HIV particle formation. HIV spreads its infection inside the body by forcing white blood cells, called CD4s, to make new viral particles. These partitles are released from the cells and can then infect other cells, spreading the infection throughout the body. The final part of this virus-making proeess is called budding. During budding, a new viral particle wraps itself in a membrane from the surface of the infected cell and completes its development. When the budding process is completed, the virus particle is released and can then attach to an uninfected CD4 cell and continue to spread the infection. The researchers found that HIV uses the proteasome molecules, particularly ubiquitin, to complete the assembly of a new viral particle at the cell membrane. When the pro.teasome action is blocked, HIV particle formation is crippled, they found. "Inhibiting proteasome causes fewer viruses to detach from the cell and what viru~ is madeis notas good," saidYewdell. Proteasome is most active in the budding phase of making a new HIV viral particle. It is different from protease, an enzyme that helps the HIV virus assemble precursor proteins into active proteins. Some HIV drugs, called protease inhibitors, work by blocking the action of the protease enzyme. ¯ Leftover Medicines Help in Haiti + More CAMBRIDGE, Mass. (AP) - The jar of AIDS medications that Moses Alicea plucked from among pill bottles and vials spilled across the table were bound for the dump - worthless in the United States. But in Haiti, where the lifesaving drugs will be sent, they are priceless. The medications about $20,000 worth of protease inhibitors that can suppress HIV and prevent progression of AIDS - will be sent to the Western Hemisphere’s poorest nation to help people who would otherwise never receive the treatment. At the root of the salvage effort is the vast gulf between availability of the medications in affluent countries tike the United States and developing countries like Haiti. "This is importantbecause there’s peqple living with HIV who can’t get the meds like we do," said Alicea, 36, who gave his ownleftover AIDS medications. "ffI can’t use them, somebody else can. There’s alot of stuff out there that’ s just being dumped." Some 95% of the more than 33 million people with HIV and AIDS in the world are in poor countries, according to the World Health Orgamzation. In those regions, the so-called drug "cocktails" - Power Connect. Public Service Compa~ny of Oklahoma Customer Service.is Nb~Available 24 Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. Our Customer Service Center operates 24/7 offering around-the-clock answers to your questions - and better access to service. Now it’s easier for you to inquire about your monthly electric bill. Or report a power outage. Or arrange to have your power turned on or off. 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Protesters dogged Vice Presibe traced back to the original recipient. dent A1 Gore last year about drug prices in ¯ She said the huge overseas need for mediAfrica, and the issue is apriority for instications frustrates her, but she’s glad she’s ¯ tutions like the World Health Organizabeen able to do some good. "If the rest of ¯ the world doesn’t get better, then it doesn’t tion that are trying to combat the disease. Clients of the group Cambridge -Cares ; get better for us," she said. . About AIDS are collecting the drugs from friends and family members - even from their own medicine cabinets. Most of the donated drugs are left over when a person with AIDS switches drug regimens be¯ TORONTO (AP) - New numbers on HIV cause of debilitating sitle effects. Since infections in Canada point to a worrying last December, the group has delivered : trend away from safe sex in some segsome $200,000 worth of medications to ments of the Gay community and a steep Parmers in Health, a Boston-based organi¯ increase of infections among FirstNations zation with a clinic in Haiti which distributes them to people with AIDS and HIV. ¯ people. The number of new infections among men who have sex with menjumped Partners in Health executive director ¯ ¯ by 30% from 1996 to 1999, according to Dr. Jim Yong Kim said between 50 and ¯ the latest report on HIV and AIDS preva100 people in Haiti are regularly receiving the medications gathered by the Cam- ¯ lence issued by Health Canada. The humbridge group. But there’s an enormous : ber of new infections among Aboriginal unmet need that this effort cannot even ¯ Peoples rose 91% over the same period. : Some headway had been made over that begin to solve without global attention and a global solution- to the drug crisis, he : time in cutting the number of new cases of said. "This is now an absolute disaster and _" HIV infection among injected drug users, ¯ the report said, noting the number of new an absolute crisis," Kim said. "It’s a moral : cases declined 27% last year over 1996. problem, but it’s also an economic and ¯ "But no sooner did we do that than Gay political problem.’" : men are starting to rebound again," Chris The World Health Organization has pro¯ Archibald, Health Canada’s chief of HIV/ tocols for donated drugs. But the organiza- ¯ AIDS epidemiology and surveillance, said tion does not have separate guidelines for : from Ottawa on Thursday. AIDS medications, which generally in- ¯ Before 1996, Health Canada reported a volve complex daily regimens of 15 to 20 ¯ steady drop in the number of new cases of different pills that require close medical supervision. And the medication supply ¯ HIV among Gay men, the population most ravaged by HIV and AIDS. Gay men acmust be consistent, because interrupting counted for more than 80% of new cases in the regimen can result in the HIV virus : 1981-83; by 1996, they made up less than becoming resistant to treatment. Only a handful of groups send unused ¯ a third (30%) of new cases of HIV infection. Archibald said the upward trend has AIDS drugs overseas. Kim said agencies ¯ also been reportedin the United States and like his are "writing the book" on salvaging AIDS drugs. There is no agency over- ." the Netherlands. seeing the practice, no way of knowing how common it is or whether groups are adhering to WHO guidelines for drug donations, according to Michael R. Reich, acting chair of the Department of Popula- ¯ VANCOUVER, British Columbia (AP) tion and International Health at the Harvard ." A group of health-care advocates and inSchool of Public Health. . jection drug users is aiming to make But he said that while donations will Vancouver the first city in North America never fill the need for drugs in poor counto offer addicts a safe site to inject drugs. tries, this effort highlights the problem. ¯ Whether the facility is a"hole in the wall" "Troubling questions arise from gaps in ¯ or a comprehensive health center will be access," he said. "Haiti is a country with ." determined by funding, says the Harm extraordinary needs for good drugs, and ." ReductionActionSociety, whichreleased donations provide a mechanism for trying ¯ its pilot project proposal last month. to address the gap." ." The society would like to have support James Russo, spokesman for the Part- ¯ from all levels, "but let’s get this straight, nership for Quality Medical Donations, an we are going to do it," said board member organization composed of drug compaDean Wilson. "One way or another, there nies and non-govemmen.tal organizations ¯ will be such a facility or facilities," said thatTdistribute free drugs o~¢erseas, said it Ross Harvey, the executive director of the is a"perfecfly reasonable and understand- ¯ B.C. Peoples with AIDS Society. able and decent thing to do." The society would like to have a facility Such donations may not technically be ¯ open before Valentine’s Day. The group, legal, because the recipient is not the per- ¯ formed earlier this year, recently sent conson for whom the drugs were prescribed, . sultants to Frankfurt, Germany, where they ¯ he said. But if the drugs are properly used visited five sites set up in 1994. The city and distributed, then public health benefits ¯ released proposal recently that included a override such legal issues. "The fact that it ¯¯ safe-sites proposal,butMayorPhilipOwen needs doing is, to me, a tragic observation rejected the idea, saying it would be a ¯ about the state of public health policy," he magnet for drug addicts. said. "Nothing but good can come from ¯ Medical Excellenc.e And Compass.lonate Care S nce 1926. a ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER q P Medical Excellence-Compassi’onate Care Rise in HIV in Gays And Natives Feared Vancouver Looks At Injection Site �sung. And the lyrics aren’t too bad, either. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor Merry Yule and Winter Solstice, everyHe’s been performing since he was 6, and appeared in the film "Latin Boys Go one! This year has moved fast - hard to To Hall" singing a song believe we’ll be startof his own composition. ing a new millennium "... Siegfried and Roy He’ s played some of the soon. Hope everyone have never been involved most resi~ected venues h~ a ha~pp.y hoR.day. in NYC to critical ac~. ~- ~l~a ’frijOl, ~-Jim~ .. m ~r~ming daini. ’ ~ ’ Brf~l~iffa~ ~rbtflrh~:t~o ...... in " their Tut~d D~em6~r~5~il fdt ani~iialk ,2 He ~is also named ’ hves. a a romantic ,evening bf by HX magazine as one music and fun. If you’ve They mold things around of the ten hottest men in NY. Judging from the ?iaot seen his show bethe personality press photos, I’ll sec7~ore, .or ~ ing, it s well worfla it. of their animals." ond that. He’s currently working with songi?And he’s:iher~ ~ith ¯" ~onny oshioiia,’W~Ch And maybe, if the rest of. .writer Desmond Childe, knowi~ for being a us learned’ thattriek ’ hitwriter for Ricky Marlove ~hOUt .... ~ tin,Ch~,.and Ma~10nna. ~’should 7~I’11 miss John Trbnes, a i, family m.-.. ~~m~l~ ,~ho He’il surprise you. ~’ was here ~th the ne~ for~.e~ntrol year, but"J~bgt Doimy YOu’.dnever .guess he does a grea~jdb ~i~the we’d h~ve better was anice.Jewish bpy . frOmNew York - he~s songs. Ji~ can~take a ---got: that ~0ul sound huge thOt~.~d make relationships as well down. He deserves our . it seem " room, and :he’s gOkgcous to boot - very Support, because he dell ,v~rs.the goo~s: handsom~],~,Sf;.~tl~6~:~;i~uals are as good as Mostpr6moCDsfrom Gayarfists ’end ’the musi.~;.ye~, ~I,know...you really UPas coastdts 6tmini-frisb.ees. This one’s " didn’t exp~t ~e t akeeper. Great for dancing and romancwithout .mgn,ti.0~ngl something like that, ¯ ing, I give-it fivesnaps. He’ sgot a website: did you?. ~tf!~y!~mmended; especially WWW.ARIGOLD.COM as an earl~’. Yule gift for that sigfiffieant ¯ For those~vith.cabl~;~the’Americanized ¯ ,)ersion of the British series "Queer as other. 596~7111:fo fix. If yo~J;~:i’6bidiag for nifty gffties of an ~ ’ .F01k" begins airing On Sh0w~me Decementertaiifi~ s0~t,’I have a few recomme,n,- ~ her 3rd. For.those Without c,],,ble, fihd a dations: Fir~ oifth~’list is "Chicken Run’, ¯ ’ friend that has ~it,; The~iow delivers a just out Og DVD~dVHS. The DVD is the :" Slice of.gffy life~th~t’ ~ ~corn~ellitag, ~pto,)ocative, and unlike any showyou’ll see. preferencehe~e, due to the fun extras they For 22 riveting episodes, these unforgetthrew ina~d the".claance to see the film as table men.andw0in~nr~veal tfiemselves it was preSgntetion screen, instead of only i:eally reveal themselves - as no TV charhalf the.p.ivRtr¢fformatted to fit your TV) acters ever have." Well,Iknow some folk,on the VHS version. There’s two docuwho are queer, who~ve seenthe original mentaries 9n ..tal.ent and how they made. British series, and if it’ s kept intact and not those chickens ttm; and it’s fun to see thecast men~!~erswfiose ,v, oices you hear. And Americanized todeath, it sh.ould be good. it is so eff.~ecti~e.you I1 never eat chicken : Happyw~ffChing! pot pies again:-’ Favorite line: Ging, er .... " Open now is a duo offeline proportions Chickefi,.:~.’.fig’ to explain why they re ¯ ."in "Siegfried and Roy: The Magic Box." having ~toi~i~aS escaping the chicken i Now, I wonder if .we get to find out just hat’magi box? "Siegfried and farm/pfi~on"~to g doubting member of the .*. :Who has t flock, says’ Do’you know what the prob- : ’Roy: The Mhgic B6~" i~an’ iMAX biopic lem is? ~[]ie:fe~i~S.. aren’t just ’round the ¯ ~Which includes’their Las V~gas a~t ~ well farm, they’re up he~e- in your heads !" The ¯ as abiographical storyin-azstory of how other chick~ep!ies,"Aw, give it up, ducks. .’- the two men met .-as-boys in war-tom There’s.amillion toone chance we’ll ever ¯ Germany, combining a love of magic, get out of her,e:, Ginger, mustering up the- ’ ~animals, and each other to become the last bit of hope she has (All done with the ." "world’S greatestillu~R~nistS." ¯ Anthony Hopkins Narrates the story of eyes), rep!iles, "Well . . there’s still a chance then." And then there’s Nick and ¯¯ the two boys who meet on a cruise ship (oh, the fodder for puns that provides) and Fletcher, a pair of rats who have a rather mteresturg relataonship... And that s al ~ form "a differen,,t kind of i~agic act using I’ll say about that, except I am surprised at. ¯ exotic .snimals, .: an~" als0 ~"forni ~an~ .ex: " .::’: ". .?~2. :~:, ~; ;~ ~ ¯ , "" "~.1e a certain actlwst m town who did NOT fir ¯ -ty.~me|y lohg ~erm ~-ela~o~s~i~. oli, the ~ff a s~i-ies:.6fl6tters aboi~t Gay i~dople" ~° :jokbs that come tomind. So much material ¯ to work with, so little space. being represented as rats... Even though ¯ Actually, they have my admiration and they’re really cute rats, in that rat-like ¯ all due respect. To work and live together way, and help the chickens to escape. ¯ as long as they have and not to have killed A new artiste on the Gay scene, Ari Gold, has a new CD out, and unlike many " each other in the process, and to have artists capitalizing on the "I’m Gay and ¯ remained together, is no easy task. I have out, so even if I suck, you should still buy ¯ heardthem speakofthat, andhow attimes, my stuff", it’s actually a really good CD, . you just wanna kill your parmer, but unfilled with dance grooves and soulful bal- " derneath it all is the love that keeps you see Amuse, p. 10 lads that are slickly produced and well ¯ working together - GIFTS OF T!tI S ASON!: COUNCIL OAK �WISHING YOU A JOYOUS HOLIDAY SEASON & A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR PLEASE JOIN TULSA OKLAHOMANS FOR HUMAN RIGHTS AS WE CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS.{ HOLIDAY RECEPTION HONORING TOHR’s 20TH ANNIVERSAF~Y & SILENT AUCTION AN ~,.RT, AHTIQUES & FINE DINING.SHOWCASE SUNDAY, DECEMBER | 0 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM TULSA GAY COMMUNI’~Y SERVICES CENTER 2114 S MEMORIAL PARADE OF LIGHTS Come celebrate the spirit of the holiday season at the AEP-Public Service Company of Oklahoma Christmas Parade of Lights, Satu rday, Decem ber 9, downtown Tulsa at 6 p.m. View parade floats up close, Friday, DecemberS, at the HolidayFest (Brady Arts District) from 7 - 9 p.m. PUBLIC SERVICE COMPANY OF OKLAHOMA® by Karin Gregory there’s no room for anything else. i’ve GEls, have you ever had that Gay male ¯ been calling and calling my girlffien.: all friend who does everything with you? A : night, getting nothing but a busy sig:m! Will to your Grace? A Jack to your Karen? : That makes me anxious and frightenex~, se The one man- for some of you, the ONLY : I tall Vincent what’s going on, hoping to man - to whom you’d tell your secrets? ¯¯ get some sympathy. While I try to hug ...... Who is warm, caring, lov- ¯ : :, "ram, ~ comp~,a~ps .... Oh : ~, : ing, a great listener, and in no," in’d very pugquttbhe "...G~gr~|s,. ,halve you many cases,has better fashof voi~qe; his~us~tml t0ne. He ion. sense than you? The one man you can talk to all male friend whodoes VERY gingerlg: try’ing to night long? That guy who much me as little as poswill, even across the miles, everythln~ with you? sible, as if I’m a Lesbian allow you to cry on his A Will to leper. After he leaves, I get shoulder about your girlinto the closet (I thought your Grace? friend? And you still reI’d left that for good!) so as A Jack to member your own tearnot to wake him, and call stained shoulders from my friend Jim. He gives your Karen? when he knocked on your me a bigger hug over the The one man - for door at 3 a.m. Most of us, if phone from Tulsa than I some of you, the we’re lucky, have a guy got from Vincent. I pull who would be the perfect out my CD player and lisONLY man - to partner for apolitically corten to Melissa Etheridge whom you’d tell rect"family value" couple (who else?). Somehow it if he became a woman and makes me feel dominant. your secrets?.. ?’ we became a man. DAY TWO - After deBut I’m not talking about daring thatmy alarm woke him here. This is another Gay man who him from the other side of the house, he possesses none of the abovequalities. Sure, leaves. Now I can walk aroundlike I want. Ooops! I forget that he leaves the kitchen he can be a nice guy- when he wants to be. blinds open. Well, his neighbors will just And he DOES have better fashion sense than I, although that’s no stretch. But while be confused. They thooght they were livI embraced my.Gayness before embracing ing near a Gay man!.Oa my way to work, another woman, he did his embracing, and I find my girlfriend has called to let me know she’s all right, which should put me whatever rise (eeeewww!) earl~, on, and never really learned to enjoy being Gay. at ease, but the thought of having to live with Vincent depresses me. It already feels "How sad," you might say. Don’t feel sorry for him. Especially when you find like I’m giving up my life to live according out where I’m spending my days lately. to his schedule. When I arrive at his house, Great house, DirecTV, MUCH cleaner I’m in less than a pleasant mood. Anger than my place, and the perfect party home. sets in when I realize that I forgot to tape I had become - how shall I say? - finan"Will and Grace." It doesn’t help that cially non-existent and couldn’t pay my Vincent goes on and on about how this was rent (sounds like a musical, doesn’t it?). the funniest episode he’s ever seen. "Did My friend - let’s call him Vincent - ofyou tape it?" I ask hopefully, already knowfered to put me up in his house for a few ing the answer. "No, I was home to watch months. OK, let’s talk realism. He was it," he says, cleaning up the kitchen in a looking for someone to help him with the "don’t you dare make a mess" way. Selfi sh house payments. I would get one room and bastard! This further proves my point that a bathroom, as opposed to my car. Most when a man asks you into his life, for people in my situation would jump at this whatever reason, he really means, "I want arrangement. Although it .would save me to live my life as I always have, with no $400, the cost in psycffiatric visits over my compromises. You’ll just be around when lifetime would soon absorb the savings. and if I need you." No wonder I’m Gay! He Let’s just say that we were the other"Odd would drive Pat Buchanan’s wife to LesbiCouple." Picture a much more obsessive/ anism. I pop my popcorn (the only thing compulsive, anal retentive Felix Unger, I’ve had since noon today), and the only who is also emotionally constipated, and thing allowed to me. I once again listen to you have Vincent. You’re not where I am Melissa, who has a strange way of empownow, and I hope you never are. Let me tell ering me. I fall asleep, dreaming of using you how I got here through a progression a stun gun on Vincent repeatedly. of nightly entries. DAY THREE-Today’s finally Friday, ¯DAY ONE - Got to Vincent’s house and I might be allowed to watch some TV about 10:45 tonight after work. I can altonight. I’m fine all day until I enter ready tell our work schedules are going to Vincent’s abode. We’re eating pizza, and conflict as he made a great show of"havhe’s buying, an obvious splurge. But we ing" to be up this late. This was HIS idea, disagree on TV programming, so he remember. He showed me the alarm syswatches something in his room while I have the living room all to myself to watch tem. God, it feels like Fort Knox in here, motion detectors and all. He also gave me a Beatles special. I’ve figured out one thing - never trust anyone who hates the an extra key and garage door opener. It all Beatles. It’s positively UnAmerican! Anfeels so official. This IS just a trial run, other night of silence until he comes into after all. I’m relegated immediatdy to my the living room to switch channels so he room, as small as a nun’s cell. He said I can watch the news. seeLesbian,p.11 could have one piece of furniture, but e erMd Gay pU s n< "ar0 a.me �¯ for years, however. My dentist sends me a by Lamont Lindstrom "Gifts make slaves just as whips make ¯¯ Christmas card annually. But do I sendone back? Nope. In this case, I amrude enough dogs," or so says one bit of Native American wisdom. Keep this in mind during the ¯ to take without giving. But I understand upcoming holiday orgy of giving and re- ¯" the deal implied by this imbalanced exchange~ I take my mouth ceiving. Grits are more than around to his office every just tokens of affection. "... Perhaps we all They are’als0 ~gminde~s of six months. My friends in the South obligati’On ahdl du~. Gig- ~have had an experhne¢ Pacific go to huge efforts ing is politiCak ~Pd]~h~ps~ I of over-reeelvlng. to raise and give away pigs give you a present because just to get their neighbors’ °I like you. But if you accept Somebody gives us pigs in return. If would be my present,you also accept that you are indebted to me something that is way far easier for all villagers to eat their own pigs. But - at least until you can pay too much. What can what of us? .We are madme back. he have in mind? cap enough to enrich the I had, once, a student from Saudi Arabia whose father What does he want in Post Office every December by mailing, around a was in the rug trade. "I’m return? A peshy blizzard of Christmas contacting my father," he told me near the end of the aeq~intanee surp~ses cards. I send out about 60 each year, and in return I term. "I’d like to give you a us ~th a fine l~ther receive 60 back. But if I carpet." Oh no, I thought, really am so desperate for visions of Baluchis and ~aeket. But w~t cards to clutter up my manKilims dancing inmy head. does he expect? telpiece, why don’t I just How am I going to g~ve him keep those that I buy? I’d the "D" that he deserves? A closer friendship? save a 10t on postage that Luckily, he presented me A ~te? Need we way. with a cheap synthetic My island friends are prayer rug decorated, with give it up... ?" fanatic giftbalancers. They garish neon cameIs, worth keep exact records of how only a few dollars down at your local bazaar. I wasn’t that muchii~’his ] many pigs, baskets, and mats they receive debt after all, and I graded him down with ¯¯ so that they can give the same in return. But they sometimes over-give - just alittle. a lighter heart. l~erhaps we all have had an experience ¯ This iitfleextra gift, which al~O must be repaid at some point, keeps the :relationof over-receiving. Somebody g~ves us ship moving along. something that is waytoo much. What can Balanced exchanges celebrate the fact that he have in mind? What does he want in we are still investing in the relationship. return? A pesky acquaintance surprises us You remain important to me. But if I am to with a fine leather jacket. But what does he stay your equal, I need to give you about expect? A closer friendship? A date? Need what you give me. I am embarrassed if I we give it up? return too little OR ff I return too much. The fancy anthropological word for gift Imbalance in either direction implies eigiving is "reciprodty." I give something ther that I don’t care about us as much as to you, and you give something back to you do, or that I am trying to obligate you. me. Such exchange can be balanced or Given the importance of exchange balimbalanced. Either way,. this says someance, it is perverse that we remove price thing about power. If we engage in protags and wrap presents. It’s a bit of a game. longed, imbalanced gift giving, we find We see through these pretenses that "it’s ourselves in an enduring relationship of the thought that counts." As experienced inequality. Those fine presents have made givers, we are pretty good at striking a us into dogs and slaves. balance despite the absence of price tags or Parents, for instance, give a lot more to the concealment of gift-wrap. When a children than children give to parents. This friend drops off a gaily-wrapped present exchange imbalance fuels parental authorfor you, shake that box! Make a mistake in ity. Few morns and dads hand their chilwhat you give back and it could be the dren, on their 18th birthdays, a bill for doghouse for you! $186,000. Ratherthan reciprocating the Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropolexact dollar cost of raising us, we repay ogy at the University of Tulsa. parents in obedience. "As long as you live in MY house, you’ll do what I say!" Those gifts come with strings. . To avoid, obligfiroh~ we must balance gift giving. Only balanced exchange cre: and from murdering each other. They have ates equality. If some one gives us a holialso managed to survive a business that day present, we feel pressured togive a chews you up and spits you out. present in return. Failure to reciprocate It’s easy to make jokes at their expense, means either that we don’t mind shoulderbut you know, there is a magic there, that ing this debt and its obligations, or that we they’ve been able to survive that business want to break things off altogether. Does and remain together, when I’m sure there morn send out the family’ s holiday cards? were many times it would have been much What does she do when someone fails to easier to split under the pressure. reciprocate? Cross him off the list! see Amuse, p. 11 Sometimes exchangeimbalance persists Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic .Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appoinlrnenls are available. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (Ohe block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) This without saying a word to me. After seeing how the candidates STILL can’t " decide this election, I put on my pajamas. " That’s all, I swear. When I come out at ¯ 9:20, the TV is turned off, along with the ¯ lights. My dorm mother has declared my curfew. One thought goes through my " head - I’m going to kill him; I’m going to ¯ kill him; I’m going to kill him. Big kitchen knives flash through my mind. I go to bed " at 9:20, again listening to Melissa. She’s " giving me the wrong kind of strength, : think. And they’ve remained incredibly successDAY FOUR- This is the last day, but I " ful throughout the years and ups and downs have to spend it with HIM. I see my stu- ¯ that showbiz life provides. Living with dents at my Saturday class, knowing this : someone 5 years is a major feat, much less will probably be the last time I teachi I’ve ¯ working with them as well. And even in made up my mind as I arrive at Vincent’s. " relative anonymity, it’s hard enough. To He ignores me, as usual, while he watches ¯ have survived and remain together as long gymnastics on TV, laughing for some tea- ¯ as they have - 43 years - is a major feat. son. He won’t laugh for long. Even though ~ FYI, Roy is 5 years younger than Siegfried. I hate the color and look bffd in it, orange : About the biographical aspects of the jumpsuits will be my style for the next 20 film, Roy says "It’s ~way~ a difficult step years. Hey, they let you write,letters~in ¯ to open yourself up beeauge ~ou make prison. Ev~nLestian~olumns, I veheard. : yourself very vulnerabl~. That fneans you "Goodbye Vincent!" 5" by Karin Gregor have to let your guard down andeveryone #2238769480, Cell Block H ¯ has access to you." Scary iild~gd. The cameras were allowed full access to the home and grounds of theirestate’. He goes on to say "I have to say;~it’s~ been pretty good to do it. It goes way badk" to when I of the"diversity" statement whichincluded : was a boy. I had a catching smile, but in "sexual orientation," saying he would have : reality I was a loner. I wa~ n0t too good noticed its inclusion. ¯ with people. As a mattel: offact, I didn’t In response,’sev~al ~gregation have trustinpeople. I trustedmy animals more." commi ~ted to re=examining their endorse: I can relate to that. ment of the document? College Hill Pres- ¯ The interesting thing is that,-aozording byterian Church and’ Fellowship Congre- " to producer Bernie Yuman,’"Roy has a gational Church will’bring the.issue back bond with these animals whereby there’s to theirgov.ernmg boards. ,Andsome mere- " no force. Force createsforce. There’s alot bers of MCC~United, Tulsa s Metropoli: ¯ of love. There’s a lot of.voice intonation tan Community Church, members of and camaraderie - and a lot of meat - but predominatelyLesbianand Gay denomi- " affection and conditioning, Roy’s never nation, are concerned about their church’s ¯ trained an animal, and Siegfried and Roy endorsement of a statement which does have never been involved.in, training amnot acknowledge the existence of Lesbian -" malsin their lives. They mold things around and Gay persons. : the personality of their animals." And The welcoming committee of Commumaybe, if the rest of us learned that tricknity Unitarian-Universalist Congregation ¯ love without the need for control - we’d has drafted a letter to TMM saying, "we have longer lasting relationships .as well. erred in our endorsement of this state- " Food for thought. And so, for all the nasty ment"because the failure toinclude sexual ¯ S&Rjokes I could make, I find I really just orientation is in conflictwith the values of ¯ have too much respect for what they’ve the congregation and the letter further says ," accomplished to make them. that they wilt not endorse any future state- " In the film, you get behind the scenes ments which are not inclusive. ¯ visits to their home - which is like deOther groups such as Holland Hall ¯ signer overkill, given their taste_~or opuSchool, the Episcopal Diocese of Okla: " lence. And you get to see their private homa, and the Eastern Oklahoma : wildlife sanctuary, where they live with Presbytery -: Presbyterian Church USA, ¯ and raise the white tigers used in the act. have been asked to explain their support : Their love of the animals is evident. for a statement which is not compatible . It’s filmed in 3-D, so you’ll be able to with their policies. In the case of the Epissee Siegfried and Roy up close and percopal Diocese and. Holland Hall School, : sonal. Numerous digital techniques were staff and religious leaders were not sure if ¯ used to recreate the Europe of their childthe organization’s names had been used " hoods. As for the magic shots, they were with permission. ¯ specifically filmed uncut as master shots, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights : so that the audience would no that no (TOHR), the state’s oldest civil rights or- ¯ camera tricks were used. Andrew Dunlap, ganization has discussed the issue at a " who plays young Roy, was also in the all recent board and membership meeting and male version of "Importance of Being president, Greg Gatewood stated that he ¯ Earnest," which was interesting to note. would seek a meeting with Rana and Day : Also playing is Fantasia 2000 and 3D to request an explanation of the exclusion Mania: Encounter in the 3rd Dimension; of "sexual orientation" from the state- ¯ 71st and Highway 169. �Healing E E IIII ECT AIDS Memorial Quilt re.n. esS World AIDS Day Candlelight Memorial March Friday, December 1st, 6:30pm Tulsa Civic Center Plaza, 5th & Denver The NAMES Project Quilt Opening, 8pm This advertisement is donated by Tulsa Family News. TFN appreciates the opportunity to support this showing of the Quilt, and The NAMES Project. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Gay Students Start LGBT Scholarships NORMAN, Ok - The Oklahoma Lambda Intercollegiate Coalition (OLIC) has announced the creation of the Oklahoma Lambda Youth Scholarship which they claim is the first such program in Oklahoma. The Coalition is an umbrella network of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender student groups from Oklahoma colleges and universities. According to OLIC spokespersons, Kent Doss of the University ofOklahoma andMandy Whitten, the President of University of Central Oklahoma Gay Alliance for Tolerance and Equality (GATE), the purpose of the scholarship is to promote pride in youth activism and foster leadership at Oklahoma college campuses. Oklahoma high-school graduates who intend to remainin the state throughout their college careers will be eligible for the $1,000 award. Applicants will be selected according see OLIC, p. 3 Tulsa ChamberAdds "Sexual Orientation" TULSA - The Tulsa Metro Chamber, which recently changed i ts namefrom the MetropolitanTnlsaChamber of Commerce, also has revised its non-discrimination policies to add the term "sexual orientation" to more traditional statues like race, religion, age, national origin, sex (gender), etc. According to Michael Hightower, media spokesperson for the organization, the .addition of "sexual orientation" waspart ofacomprehensivereview ofChamber’s internal policies. The Bank of Oklahoma’s Human Resources Dept. conducted this effort for the Chamber. This revision is part of a trend on the part of businesses to attract employees by committing to fair hiring practices. According to the Human Rights Campaign, a Washington based civil right group, 494 of the Fortune 500 companies have added "sexual orientation" to their policies. Anumberof majorTulsaemployers,including American Airlines, Kimberly-Clark, AEP/PSO, Dollar/ Thrifty Auto Group, and others have done the same. Kerry Lewis, president-elect of Tulsa/Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) expressed surprise and applauded this Chamber move. TFN publisher Tom Neal noted "as one of the few openly Gay members of the Chamber, I am really proud to.see the organization welcome us. We need to support them in return." DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P, 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT P. 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 ¯ Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends TMM’s Exclusion of i oGfayDs iDscelriibmerinataetiAocnt ¯ Pastor Says "Sexual Orientation" Was ¯ Added But TMM Board Never Told ¯ TULSA - While the incident, a KKK visit, to which a local ¯ "diversity" statement sought io i’~spond is well past, the state- " merit continues to brew controversy. Tulsa Metropolitan Minis- " try, an "interfaith" religious organization issued a statement -.¯ which defined Tulsa’s "diversity" as being composed of race, religion andethnicity, without mentioning sexual orientation. ¯ Earlier, it appeared that the failure to mention "sexual orienta- ¯ tion"mighthavebeenanoversightbasedontheKKK’ s historical ¯ ¯ attacks primarily on Jews and Blacks. However, in a return call to the Tulsa Family News, the Rev. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congregational Church, UnitedChurch of Christ, stated that ¯ he participated in themeeting to draft the statement, and specifically he called for the inclusion of "sexual orientation" in the : statement. Bennett noted that he heard no objections to his ¯ request, and he said that he expected that "sexual orientation" ¯ would be included. : Perry Simons, executive director of the Jewish Federation ¯ attended the meeting at Fellowship Congregational Church with : Nancy Day of the National Conference for Community and Justice, Dr. Sandra Rana, representing Tulsa’s Muslim commu- : nity, the Rev. Clark Shackleford of Sand Springs, as well as ¯ Bennett. Andwhile Simmons says he does notrememberBennett ." calling for adding "sexual orientation," Simons says he feels he ¯ shouldhave raised theissue. Simons noted that Dr. Rana took the ¯ notes of what he described as a "stream of consciousness" ¯ discussion. ; However, the Rev. Radford Rader of College Hill Presbyterian ¯ and a-member of the T!VIM executive boardstated that the ¯ executive board never saw a version see TMM, p. 11 Michigan Elects First Gay Rep. ¯ LANSING, Mich. (AP)- Newly dected state House Rep: Chris ¯ Kolb heads to Lansing in January as the state’s first openly Gay ." lawmaker, but he said he has a lot more he wants to tackle than ¯ simply civil rights for Gay-people. Kolb, 42, admits his role is ; important, but it’s not his only focus. "I don’t wear it on my : sleeve. I am who I am, but I don’t bring itinto every discussion," ¯ he said of his sexual orientation. "It’s not my one and only ¯ crusade in life." : The election of Kolb, a Democrat from Ann Arbor, puts ¯ Michigan among 22 states that have an openly Gay man or ¯ Lesbianin their legislatures. TheAnnArborcity councilman first ¯ got interested in politics after receiving his bachelor’s degree in .. natural resources from the University of Michigan in 1982. He ¯ started with local government, distributing campaign literature ¯ and knocking on doors for candidates. After serving as aprecinct ¯ captain and secretary of the local Democratic Party, he won an ¯ open seat on theAnnArbor City Councilin 1993. Eventually, he ¯ became mayor pro-tern. 2 " Working on the Democratic-controlled council with former ." Ann Arbor Mayor Ingrid Sheldon, a Republican, has already ¯ helped Kolb learn to forge bipartisan alliances, a key skill in the ¯" state Legislature. Sheldon admits she and Kolb were competitors, but said he never made his sexual orientation an issue. "You ¯ do not think ofhimas being the stereotypical Gay person inAnn Arbor," Sheldon said. "He’S a regular person the way you or I ." would want to be relating to a person." Kolb said he will work at improving the state of civil and human rights in Michigan,but he’s also interested in tackling ¯ education and environmental issues. He wants to work on legislation that would make it illegal in Michigan to fire employees ¯ based on their sexual orientation, something already prohibited ¯ in 11 states. "I’mnotkiddingmyself as to howfar theLegislature will be able to be moved," he said. "But civil and human rights : are along struggle." ¯ Kolb will be one of 14 new Democrats and seven Republicans ¯ to begin their first two-year state House terms inJanuary. He will be seated across the aisle see Michigan, p. 3 I TOHR Celebrates 20 Years of Se.rvice Only MCC Is Older ,n State ¯ TULSA- Itwas a different world then. Therewas no ¯ Will and Grace, few Gay or Lesbian images in print ¯ or on the airwaves, HIV was not yet discovered, and ¯ what was later called AIDS was just beginning to be seen in New York City and San Francisco. The ¯ Stonewall Riots had only ocurred 10 years before, ¯ Gay people were still subject to arrests and harass- " ment in most of the US, and world. ¯ In Oklahoma City, community activists began a group calledOklahomans forHumanRights (TOHR). ¯ Tnlsans joined that group and then formed a Tulsa ; branch. This group lead by three Tulsa attorneys, ¯ Dennis Neill, Bob Inglish andMikeGreen and others ¯ later created Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, ¯ Oklahoma’s 2nd oldest organization after Tulsa’s ¯ Metropolitan Community Church United. ¯ Twenty years later, the world has changed. Tulsa ¯ has support groups in the public schools for Lesbian ¯ and Gay young adults, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgenderedpeople are verymuchvisibleinAmeri- ¯" can media and society butTOHRis still here provid- ¯ ing community services as at the beginning with all volunteer, staffing and not that many dollars. ¯ Longtime TOHRmember and former boardmere- ¯ ber Jonathan Stanley remembers being a member as ¯ early as 1980 or 1981, adding that he recalls Bob ¯ Inglish as president and meeting in a small upstairs ¯ room in Stonehorse, a building now known as the ¯ Consortium. A particularly vivid memory of those ¯ early days was the controversy whenTOHR rented a ¯ city pool for an event and cityofficials had the pool ¯ drained because Gay p_eopl_e_had, used. it..This was in the very early days of AIDS when the disease was associated exclusively with Gay men and little was known about HIV transmission. ¯ During these years,TOHRhas provided a commu- ¯ uity information telephone line, civil rights advo- ¯ cacy, anonymous HIV anti-body testing (eventually ¯ with paid staff and HIV education outreach workers ¯ - a program which has spun off as the H.O.P.E. ¯ Testing Clinic), and for the last several years, a ¯ community center. The Center was in the Brookside ¯ neighborhood was first known as the Pride Center ¯ and featured a 5x8’ flag which flew over the building ¯ until it was repeatedly stolen. Now the Center is ¯ known as theTulsa Gay Community Services Center : and has relocated to 21st & Memorial (2114 So. ¯ Memorial), ironically sharing a wall with one of ¯ Tulsa’s oldest Lesbian bars, TNT’s. ," However, TOHR president Greg Gatewood and ; the proposed new officers, Kerry Lewis, president, ¯ 1st v.p. Vance Reed, 2nd v.p. Don Glass, secretary ¯ Curtis Evans, and treasurer Beth Persac, are hoping ¯ the current location will be a short-term one. TOHR ¯ has announced a capital raising campaign, the Pyramid Project, to purchase a permanent commtmity ." center. ." According to Gatewood, the Project has in hand ox : in pledges and grants, $65,000 of their goal ot ¯ $250,000. And the organization has set up legal restrictions such that all gifts to the Pyramid Projec! ¯ arerestricted to that useonly. Also, thoserules (whicl: ¯ were reviewed by outside legal counsel and CPA’s" ¯ restrict overhead expenditures to a maximum of ¯ and all labor for the project is volunteer. : Gatewood notes that the organization is setting uI web sites for TOHR and the Pyramid Projec ¯ (www.tohr.org and www.pyramidproject.org) whicl ¯ they expect to be available in mid-December. ." To celebrate the 20th anniversary of TOHR, th~ ¯ group will hold a Holiday reception and silent auctiol : on Dec. 10th from 4-7pm, see TOHR, p. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Chasers, 4812 E. 33 *CW’s, 1737 S Memorial *Club Cherry Bomb, 1926 E. Pine *Club Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Sqtmre *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E 31st *The Star, 1565 Sheridan *Rene~ades/Rainbow. Rooni, 1649.S. Main *TNT’s, 211,4 S. 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Memorial 369=8555 Ross Edwar~l:Sal6ii i 584~0337, 712~9379 Events Uniimited;; 507S. Main ¯ 5920460 Floral Design-S~dioi~3404 S,. Peoria " " 744~9595 Four Star ImpOrt.AutOmotive, 9906 E. 55th P1. ’ 610-0880 Cathy Furlong;PhiD.~ 1980 Utica Sq..Med. Cir.- 628-3709 Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 808~8026 *Gloria Jear;’~ .Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st" 742-1460 Learme MTG’rO~s~’En~i~ance &financial pl,.~a~.ng. 459~9349 Mark T. Ha~by~A’ttOrney *Sandra J. I~ll,M~S;Tsychotherapy, 2865 ~i ~kelly745:74427414101T *Internafiol~al T~urs...... 341:6866 Jacox Aniraal Cliifie, 2732 E. 15th .... 712-2.750 *Jared’s Antlques;"1602 E. 15th - - 582-3018 David KauSk~y~:~otmtry Club Barbering 747-0236 The Keepers; HoUsekeeping & Gardening 582-8460 *Ken’s Flowers; ’1635 E. 15 599-8070 Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #21C -’ 747-5466. *Living A~tSpaee; 308 South Kenosha 585-1234 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd 584-3112~ Mingo Valley’Flowers, 9720c E. 31 663-59341 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 664-2951 Puppy Pause: IF,1060 S. Mingo 838-7626 *The Pride StOre............... 743-4297 Rainbowz’0~ the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 747-5932 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning ....... 834:0617- Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834~7921, 747-4746 Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square ...... 749-~6301 Paul Tay, Car’Salesman 260-7829 *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 481-0558. Venus Salon, 1247-S: Harvard 835-5563 Fred Welch, LCSW, Cotmsding 743-1733 *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan 665-2222 *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 www.gaytulsa.org - website for Tulsa Gays &Lesbians Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 743-2363 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 587-7314 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 583-7815 B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 583-9780 Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S~ Boston 585-1201 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence Church of the Restoration UU, 1314 N.Greenwood 587-1314 *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale 747-6300 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 Council Oak Men’s Chorale 748-3888 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware 712-1511 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159. e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlink.net Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Karin Gregory, Barry Hensley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom, Esther Rothblum. 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Harvard 747-7777 ¯¯ -*FreeSpiritWomen’sCenter, callforloeation&info: 587-4669 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 " " 747-6827 ¯ Friends in UnitySocial Org., POB 8542, 74101 582-0438 : HIV ER Center, 4138 Chas. Page Blvd. 583-6611 ¯ *Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., 3507 E. Admiral 834-4194 ¯ HOPE,-HIV Oiitreach, Prevention, Education 834-8378 ¯ *HouseoftheHoly SpiritMinstries;1517 S. Memorial 224-4754 ¯ *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 ¯ NAMES Project, 3507 E. Admiral PI. - , 748-3111 ¯ NOW;Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 365-5658 ¯ " ,OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 *OSU-Tuls~ seefrom anumber oflawmal~ers who signed a letter earlier this year asking the state Department of Education to invesugate Grand Haven High School for allowing Gay speakers to talk to students about being Gay during "Diversity Days." House Speaker-elect Rick Johnson, RLeRoy, and~GOP Rep. Valde Garcia ;o_.[ DeWitt were two. of the nine. staie House members who signed the iletter. Both,say, they wi!l not have_any problems worki,r~g with Kolb. The House will retain its 58-52 Republican majority when the new session starts. "I don’t agree with the philosophies of the Democratic Party, but that doesn’t mean I don’t work with Democrats," Garcia said. "Just because I don’t approve of his lifestyle doesn’t mean I can’t work with him." ¯ Kolb’s experience in government and : ability to handle himself well even when ! others disagree with him will help him in ¯ Lansing, said Jeffrey Montgomery, executive director of the Detroit-based Gay rights ¯ group Triangle Foundation. "He’s been ¯ aroundmany,many,,ch~lenging situations," .: Montgomery said. He s going to be able to : handle ahar;dful ofignorantlegislators very ¯ easily." ¯ While Kolb believes the media makes a ¯ bigger deal about his election than anyone : else, he knows his role~is important. He says ¯ the ultimate benefit of his election is as an ¯ example to members of the Gay community. "Any young person, regardless of their ; sexual orientation, whohears about this will ¯"- .t~-.G, POB 52800, 74152 ." ~*Planned Parenthood,1007 S. Peori~a ....tMme-’Timers, P.O: B.ox52t 18, 74152 -- R;A:L N:; Regional AIDS Interfaith Network - ¯Red.Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 St. Aidan’S Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinriati " StTDu~stan’sEpiscopal, 5635 E. 71st .*St: Jerome’s Parish Church; 205 W. King ¯ *TulsaArea United Way,- 1430 S..Boulder ~-*TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian.Health Care. 582-7225 ¯ Tulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 ....... 595-4105 .......~.,2Confideufial HIV Testing -by appt. on Thursdays ionly " :.~.Tulsi!O!d.a.T0rH,.t!m.an Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 "..- ~.U.L.S.A.iTulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 - .2 T~s~a City Hall, G~0und Floor Vestibule ;.... Tiii~ii CommUnityCoil~ge Campuse~ ~ *TulsaGay Community Center, 21st & Memorial 743-4297 ; Unity Church of Clirigtianity,3355 s. Jamestown 749-8833 "BARTLESVILLE "-B~fl~svill~Piibllc Library, 600S=. Johnstone 918-337-5353 TAHLEQUAH .......... ¯ Stonewall League, call for information: 918-456-7900 49-490t ¯ "’ realiz.e..that ~ere’s a world of opportunity," 587 76?4.... he said..,~oo often, that s not the message our community and others hear." . - , _. 749-4195 584-2325 425-7882 492-7140 582-3088 583-7171 ¯ Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church ¯ ~Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 ¯ EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS ¯ Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 ¯ Jim & Breut’s Bistro, 173 S. Main ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. ¯ Emerald Raiiabow,45 &l/2 Spring St. ¯ MCC of the Living Spring ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 ¯ Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery ¯ Positive Idea Marketing Plans- ¯ Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East ¯ White Light, 1 Center St. ¯ JOPLIN, MISSOURI ¯ Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U1.34 918-456-7900 918-453-9360 501-253-7734 501-253-7457 501-253-6807 501-253-5445 501-253-9337 501-253-2776 501-253-5332 501-624-6646 501-253-6001 501-253-4074 417-623-4696 * is where you can find TFN. Notall are Gay-owned butall are Gay-friendly. Memorabilia from the years will be on display as well as auction items from artists and ¯ merchants such as Antiquaries inTulsa, P.S. , Gordon, DavidHoot, T.A. Lorton, Kathleen ¯ Pendergrass, Rand’s Art & Antiques, Mary ¯ Schepers and others. Curt & Marj’s Cater- " ing will offer refreshments as may other ¯ Tulsa restaurants. ¯" On Dec. 1 lth, TOHR and PFLAG, Par- ¯ cuts, Families and Friends of Lesbians and ¯ Gays will hold their annual joint Holiday potluck dinner at the Center at 7pm. The : entree will be provided as will soft drinks ." and tableware. Attendees should bring veg- ¯ etables, salads and desserts and may call ¯ 743-4297. to know which of those to bring.. ¯ Gatewood also notes that planning for ¯ next year’s Diversity Celebration 2001, ¯ which includes the Parade, a post-parade ¯ ¯ Festival and ablack-tie dinnerwill continue a mid-January meeting. The precise date ¯ will be announced later, t 7pro. The entree- ¯. will be provided as will soft drinks and tableware. Attendees should bring veg- ¯ etables, salads and desserts and may call the ¯ Center at 743-4297 for which of those to ¯ bring. Gatewood ~so notes that planning for ¯ next year’s Diversity Celebration 2001, ." which includes the Parade, a post-parade ¯ Festival and ablack-tie dinner will continue ~ a mid-January meeting¯ The precise date ¯ will be announced later. World AIDS Day by Chris Labonte, semorpolicy advocate Human Rights Campaign As we commemorate the first World AIDS Day of the 21st Century,itis important to bothcelebrate our achievements over HIV and AIDS and work vigorously to ensure there will be continued success in thcfuture. With success in treatments, we risk the danger of resting on our laurels. Instead,:we :mus~ rededicate ourselves to building upon these victories anff creating a future without HIV and AIDS. ~People with the diseas~e live longer and healthier lives yet the number of those’whbar¢ newly infected in our country each year remains steady at 40,000. The.new barrier to treatment andprevention is complacency. It comes from a variety of places and appears in many forms. New highly active antiretroviral therapies have contributed to the welcome steep decline in AIDS deaths in our nation. Media and advertising campaigns for these therapies signal that one can live and should live a robust and long life - you can go rock climbing, ski down the highest mountain, and continue to do fulfilling work. While all of this is true, they fail to mention that these therapies require years of medication, multiple dtses of pills each day - sometimes with possible side effects- and all at a great expense. This somewhat slanted view of our treatment success may contribute to our prevention failure. Although gay ¯ and bisexual men hage made strides in reducing the percentage of HIV infections attributed to male-to-male sexual contact, men who have sex with men still account for approximately 40percent ofnew infections each year. By not recognizing the tree costs ofHIV infection, young gay and bisexual men are engaging in risky behavior; such as intentional unprotected anal andoral sex.Arecent study suggests that the more optimistic memwere about the new treatments, the less likely they were to use safe sex precautions or limit their number of sexual parmers. Moreover, existing health ~disparities among commm nitieS of color tuake treatments particularly out.of reach for them. For the first time, the numbek Of gay men fromcommunities of color - African Americans, Latinos, Asian Pacific-Islanders, Native American. and others - outnumber the number of white gay and bisexual men in new AIDS cases, according to the Centers for Disease Control, the federal agency :primarily responsible for prevention of HIV/AIDS. Prevention is also particularly concerning with communities of color, where young gay and bisexual men of color are often confronted with both homophobia and racism. We must address this situation immediately and offer prevention strategies targeted to the unique needs of gay and bisexual men of color so they ¯ can also benefit from treatments available to others. We also cannot ignore strategies that we know have been successful in reducing HIV transmission in the past. Far too often, policy makers ignore proven science to score political points at the expense of peoples’ lives. Needle exchange programs and abstinence are two of the most vivid examples: Successful risk reduction programs also save money on future treatment costs. The CDC has set forth an ambitious goal to reduce new HIV infections inour nation. In addition, the independent and science-based Institute ofMedicine recently released areport, "No Time to Lose," that supported the use of cost effective methods of reducing HIV transmission, including needle, exchange programs. A recent study from .the Heury.J. Kaiser Family Eotmda_tign~f.o_und that p.arents think schools should have more comprehensive sexual education curriculum and cover topics that are not generally covered, such as sexual orientation. Effective prevention methods deserve support - both financial and political support-from Congress, the administration, the public health community, and other impacted communities. We must strive to continue to find even better treatments, furthe~ reduce the number HIV infections, provide additional assistance to nations around the globe and develop a vaccine within a reasonable time frame. These goals are attainable. In a nation as wealthy and creative as ours, we should expect nothing less. ¯ Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry: Gay People Need Not Exist ¯ by Tom Neal, editor &publisher ¯ committee process and edited out that inclusion. Because It might come as quite a surprise to you to learn that there " of their and their organization’s past involvement in acts are no Gay people in Tulsa. There are no Gay bars, no Gay " of anti-Gay discrimination, it looks like Dr. Sandra Rana churches, no Gay households, no Gay parents, no Gay kids ¯ and Nancy Day of the National Conference for Commu- - you get the idea. : nity and Justice wereresponsible.TMM’s executive board At least that’s the message that Tulsa Metropolitan " never saw an inclusive version. Ministry (TMM) is putting out. While"cel- This does not excuse the executive ebrating" Tulsa’s "diversity" specifically, claiming to "... support each other’s right to live and prosper in this great community. ¯ ." TMM. somehow managed t3 "disappear" Gay Tulsans. Wehave long known that some groups in TMM are deeply prejudiced against Lesbian and Gay persons. Usually these people are identified as Tulsa’S Muslim community, some of Tulsa’s Black churches and Tulsa’s Orthodox Christian commumty. No matter how repugnant their views are to us, morally and theologically, wehave to ¯ support their constitutional right to hold : those views. But usually their objections are to.-us having those basic civil rights protections which they enjoy themsdves. They want for it-to continue to be legal for us to be firedfrom ourjobs, or thrown out of our homes or have our children taken from us. They have objected to characterizing assaults on us as hate crimes, even if the "... apologlsts for TMM ma~e the excuse that Gay Tulsans have to be sold out in order to appease the Muslims, or the Blaeh churches or the Orthodox. Gay people are ashed, again and again, year after year, to go along because some good comes out of it..." board. In this city, and in this time, it is very hard not to know that Gay and Lesbian people exist. But their oversight lacks the malice of deliberate exclusion. Many apologists for TMM make the excuse that Gay Tulsans have to be sold out in order to appease the Muslims, or the Black churches or the Orthodox. Gay people are asked, again and again, year after year, to go along because some good comes out of it. But this statement goes too far. It demands that we collaborate in the denial of our own existence. And those.who sign it knowing better, knowing thatTMM’s "diversity" statement is profoundly a lie, are no less collaborators with evil than those who kept silent in the face of Nazi horrors. TMMhas long tolerated a double standard. Gay people are asked to recognize that Tulsa Muslims and others are "funda- ¯ mentalists" and we are asked to tolerate same act is a hate crime when they are the target. : Butthey hadn’t before soughtto deny our very existence. This is largely a symbolic act but in some ways, it is more ~ powerful than the others. Even when our fundamental civil ¯ rights are denied, we are atleast acknowledged as existing. ¯ Ironically, part Of the impetus for this "diversity" statement was a visit by a particularly virulent part.of the Klu- Klux Klan. Traditionally, theKKK’s principle targets have b~nJews andBlacks.But as Gay and Lesbian people have become more visible, we have been included very explicitly in Klan hatred. This Klan visit was-no.exception. And while the Klan did not forget us, Tulsds "do-gooder" hypocrites pretend that we don’t exist. Now not all of TMM’s members take this position. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congregational Church sought to add sexual¯ orientation to TMM’s "diversity" statement. But ina deeply disturbing and shameful action, one or two commi ttee members appear to have violated the to three equally weighted categories; community leadership, scholastic merit, and financial need. This year,the scholarship selection committee is .comprised of a student representative from five of OLIC campus organizations, and five OklahomaGLBT community leaders..The chair-person of this year, selectiOn committee is Whitten. The organizers add that applications will be available Dec. 1st from our OLIC organizations, at the Oklahoma City and Tulsa Gay Commlmity Centers and online at www.geocides.’com/okolic/. Applications will be due on Feb. 15,2001 and the winners will be announced in late March. Also, the Oklahoma ]mmbda IntercJall:egiate C0aii~0~ hold a fundraising reception in Tulsa Oli December 2’ls( from7 - 10pm at thehome ofRick and Susan Doss in Tulsa. Funds raised by this event will be used for the Oklahoma Lambda Youth Scholarship. RSVP to 405-325-4452. A donation of $25 is suggested. The goals of the Oklahoma Lambda Intercollegiate Coalition are: I. Raising awareness of GLBT youth ~ssues within our community, schools, and society; II. Sharing information and resources in an effort to provide the best possible programming for sponsoring organizations; their bias agaanst us even as Muslims, Jews, Christians, and. Unitarians somehow manage to respect each other. White supremacist groups, like the Christian Identity movement and .others who use theology much like the Muslims do to justify their prejudice, are not welcomed into.TMM. Buta special place is carved outfor anti,Gay prejudice, It is finally too much. And it is time that good people who know better stand up for their neighbors and friends and families, ff this means that Tulsa cannot support its real diversity, then at least we’ll be telling .the truth. Muslim Tulsans might have to acknowledge that they cannot object to anti-Muslim bias while oppressing Gay Tulsans. Black Tulsans ought to know better..And Jewish Tulsans mightneed to do for Gay people what was done for them by non-Jews in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s,which is to be vocally and visibly advocates for civil rights. It’s time now for this change. ¯ III. Supporting a Queer youth movement to impact the : politics of our state and nation; ¯ IV. Providing resources to the Oklahoma GLBT youth ¯ community including political and health education, a ¯ safe social environment, and an opportunity to cultivate : leadership skills, and; ¯ V. Fostering the conception and growth of new GLBT : student groupsacross Oklahoma. ¯ For more information, contact, Oklahoma Lambda In- ¯- tercollegiateCoalition 900Asp,OMU, P,m. 363,Box 169, Norman OK 37019-4058 or telephone to.405-325-4452. ¯ www.geocities.com]okolic i Stout Wins Okla.Mr.Leather : T.U.L.S. A~ (Tulsa Uniform Leather Seekers Associa- ¯ .ti.’9fa):held the annual Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest "! ~ O.cto~b_dr 20-22 at the Silver S’t~tr in Tulsa. Four Contestants from the state competed in c~ate~ories that included inter, view, streetwear, physique and full leather image. Seven judges from the US and Canada judged the contestants. International Mr. Leather 2000 Mike Taylor was among the distinguished panel. Contestants were Jason Pelkey of Tulsa, Jim Stout of Ramona, Stephen Scott of OKC-Mr. Sooner State Leather 2000, and Mark Goins of Tulsa-Mr. Tulsa Leather 2000. The weekend event began with a tour of the local clubs and Tulsa’s Gay Community Services Center. The interviews were Saturday morning and the rest of the contest was held that night. Stephen Scott was first runner-up. Scout Troop Defies National Anti-Gay Ban PROVIDENCE, R.I. (AP) - A second Rhode Island Scout troop is defying the national organization’s ban on homosexuals, Members, leaders, and parents from Boy ScoutTroop 28 have sentaletterto the Narragansett Council of Boy-Scouts saying they will ignore the policy. The troopjoins Cub Scout Pack 88, which sent a similar letter, The Providence Journal reported. ~ .The national policy is root~,in a 1910 oath that Says Scofi~- ~’.st ke~p~el~s-~ ,.ni0ralty straigl~t:~’iThe ’ !. b~via’g tlplldld~y!th~ Siipr~aid CourtthisS~er,but ’"about ~:d~ozen~ trbb~ ~at~oflwlde have stud thaiwill The leaders of Pack 28 said the words "morally straight" have nothing to do with sexual orientation. ....’The oath didnotmean to banhomosextmls but to keep .....on the straight and narrow and do what is right," said Y"Allen M. Dennison, an assistant scoutmaster with Troop 28, who has four sons in Scouting. Our assessment of whatis right is that everyone be included, and " that includes Gay leaders and Gay Scouts." ..... The Narragansett Council will forward the letter fromTroop28to theBoy Scouts ofAmericaheadquar- ’ ters in Irving~ Texas, as it did with the letter from Pack 88, said state ¢o,.u~,ci! Spokesman David Preston. Pack 88hash theard from the national Boy Scouts regarding its status and calls to the Boy Scouts of America were not returned. Officially, troops that " ignore Scouting rule~ Will have their charter revoked. To date, however, the Boy.Scouts of America has not revoked thecharter of a troop or council for ignoring .the banon Gays. The ban made news inRhode Island last year, when a 16-year-old Eagle Scout filed a complaint with the Rhode Island Human Rights Commission saying he was denied a job at a Scout camp because he is Gay. Maryland Can Ban " Anti-Gay Discrimination ANNAPOLIS, Md. (AP) - Gov. Parris Glendening~s :plan to add Gays to Maryland’s anti-discrimination law likely would not violate the First Amendment guarantee of free exercise of religion, according to the state attorney general’s office. Assistant Attomey General Kathryn M. Rowe issued the four-page legal opinion this week at the request of-Delegate Sandy,I. Rosenberg, who is expected to use it to counter religious-based arguments -.. against the proposed legislation. "I did this so we would have a:.iegal opinion on the matter instead of rhetoric that is not precise," Rosenberg said. "In an - issue as emotional as .this, everybody should do their best not to misstate the law." Rosenberg asked for the opinion after a representative of the Diocese ofWilmington testified against the governor’s plan at a public heating in Salisbury.The diocese includes Maryland’s Eastern Shore. The hearing was conducted by a commission ereated by the governor to solicit testimony about discrimination against Gays, Lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals "The teaching o.f the Catholic Church and societal tradition does not accept homosexuality as a legitimate lifestyle," the diocese said in a position paper presented at the hearing. Thepositionpaper alSO said the proposed legislation "significantly and Wrongfully encroaches (on) the First Amendment, free-exercise rights of religious institutionsand ofpersons whose actions are dri-ven by their religious beliefs." In her opinion, Rowe said there wasprecedent for laws with "the incidental effect of burdening certain religious practices" - as long as the laws do not single out one religion. There is also precedent suggesting that the hiring of ministers would be exempt from the proposed bill, Rowe said. : Navy Ends Harrassment : of Former Seaman ¯ ANNAPOLIS, Md. (AP)-A former midshipman who : resigned from the U.S. Naval Academy amid accusa- ¯ tious ofhomosexuality won’thave to repay the govem- ~ ment for his education, the Navy has ruled/The deci- ¯ sion means that Tommie Watkins, 25, will not have to ." reimburse the Navy the $86,000 that covered his train- . ing and tuition, plus interest. i Watkins, president of his classand an aspiring Navy ~ ~pil0t; ~s~id bewas pres’sured to. resign ~and did so ~ ~ beeau~e he feared ht~mophobia ’would preve~t him ~- fromreceiviffga fair trial:’After leaving, he acknowl- -" edged being Gay. Officer trainees who drop out or are ¯ expelled during theirjtmior or senior years are required ¯ by Pentagon policy to repay the government for their ¯ education, either ~in cash or through enlisted service. ¯ The Navy’s Board of Correction of Naval Records ." said last year that he was a victim 6f,"error and ¯ injustice," and recommended the academy waive the ." payment. That decision was overruled in March by ." Carolyn Becraft, the assistant secretary ofthe Navy for ¯ manpower. Watkins sued, and on the day of the dead- : line for the Navy to respond, his lawyer got word of the : reversal. ." Watkins, who works in Miami as the project director ¯¯ for an AIDS and HIV ministry, called the decision ¯ "long overdue and totally justified." "It’s kind of ironic, because the Navy says its core values are honor, ¯ courage and commitment," he said. "It seems like I had _. to exhibit those qualities to win this case.’" ¯ Officials from the Naval Academy declined to com- ." ment on the decision. ¯ Iowa Order Banning Anti- Gay Bias to Be Reviewed ¯ DES MOINES, Iowa (AP) - It’s up to a Polk County ¯ district ,judge to rule on the legality-, of Gov. Tom ¯ Vilsack s’ci~il-rights order. District Judge Glenn Pille heard lawyers’ arguments about the order during a ¯ recent hearing. ¯ Vilsack issued an executive order in September 1999, forbidding discrimination against Gays, Lesbi- ¯ ans and Transexuals in state government employment. : The move sparked a legislative debate. Conservative ¯ legislators were particularly angry that the order ap- ¯ plies to Transsexuals. A majority of lawmakers voted ¯ to repeal the order, but Vilsack vetoed the legislation. ¯ Twenty-three legislators led by Republican Senate ¯ Majority Leader Stewart Iverson, challenged the order ¯ in a lawsuit filed in July. They said that Vilsack ¯ overstepped his authority and thathe, in effect, rewrote ¯ the law. ¯ Vilsack has said he is carrying out a state law ¯ providing equal opportunity in state employment to all : persons. Iowa Deputy Attorney General Julie Pottorff ¯ represented Vilsack at the hearing. She said the dispute ¯ is a legal question, and that Vilsack acted within his ¯ auth6rity ensuring that legal protections apply to all ¯ executive branch employees. ’°-l’his is no more than a ¯ ¯ political disagreement," Portorff told Pille. Des Moines lawyer Mark McCormick is represent- " ing the legislators and a former state employee. He ¯ argued at the hearing that the order infringes on the ¯ constitutional separation of powers and said "The ¯ governor has no power by- ~xecutive order to create ~ ¯ law." - : Vatican in Tizzy About ¯ "Fake Marriages" ¯ VATICAN CITY (AP) - The Vatican has blasted ¯ lawmakers for givinglegal recognition to so-called"de ~ facto" unions - including those between Gays - and ¯ said attempts to allow adoption by Gays were "a great danger." A 77-page document made public in Novem-~ Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at 1 lam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. 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Call for more information: 918-584-2325 KIM WILKS Independent Consultant for 357-1757 ~n just a matter of hours .Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 ber by The Pontifical Council for the Family was built heavily around similar denunciations over the last few years by Pope JohnPattl II. Italian Gay groups, stung over the summer by the Vatican’s moves to try to block Gay pride events in Rome, denounced the latest pronouncement on homosexual unions. The Vatican’s council on family matters also presented a proposal to make sex crimes against children, including "sex tourism" exploitation, crimes against humanity. But .the bulk of the positions ,pr.esented. hammered away at unions betwb.en Gays as well as legal recognition for.~tmm.arried hetgcosexual~couple~. While not citing any particular, .country, thd .,Vatica.n,. spoke of ’~great concern" aboutlawiiaakers’ efforts "in many countries with an ancient Christian tradition" to give legal status to unmarried couples. Earlier this month, Germany.granted legal recognition to Gay couples, following similar moves.ove~ the 1~ decade by other Western European countries. " De facto unions ~e the result.of private behavior andshoul’d remain 0ni~e pri~at~ 1,ev_el ," . the Vatican said. It described as a ~erious sign, of.the-contempo,~ rary br0~tkd0wn in the s0dal an~ ~oral.conscilence, political eftbrts tO give institutionalstatus to delfacto couples. It Said attempts to legalize thead0ption of children by Gay. ~Q~ple,s .added ’!an elemen_t.of ~reat danger." - .. NY Town offers: Benefits GREENBURGH, N.Y. (AP) -The Gr.eenburgh Town Board voted un’aJaim6u~ly" tO ’offer health-be]aefits to same-sex domestic partners 0f municipal workers. "We want to treat all our employees as if they’re valuable to us," said Supervisor Paul.Feiner. New Yoj~k ~stiite,. Ne~: Yori~ City;._a~nd/~Ve’stchester CounU,.plus several ~orporation~,~.rpv.id¢~sach:benefits to homosexual couples. Of Westchester s-municipalities, only. Eastchester has..acted before Greenburgh. Under the measure;, which goesinto effect JnJanu- ..ary, an uumarried,.town, employee who.says-in an affidhvit that he or she has hadan exclusive relationship for a year can extend medical.and dental coverage to\the partner. - " . )_ Phelps at Phillips Exeter EXET.ER, N.H. (AP) - An anti-Gay ch~ch group opposed to Phillips ExeterAcadem~~ s p0!~gy .alirwing homosexuals to be dorm parents protested outside the school recently, v~aving.signs with messages .that included: ’q’hank GodforA!DS." About adoZenfol!owers of the Rev. Fred Phelps of the Westboro B.aptist Church of Topeka~ Kan., ~rrivedat ~eS~hob’i~r’rund noon after making similar demonstrations in’Ve~ont and Maine earlier. The, ,church members, oppose a measure Phillips Exeter truste~.,S approved in May that al!0ws.Gay and ,,I~,.sbian faculty and staff to serve as dormitory parents. ’ it’s destroying the fabric0fthis nation~ the~r~ls/.hat this nation ,does have," s,aid Sam Pheligs~Roper’~ the Rev.Phelps grandson.".It saslippeDi~lopestraightto hell and that’s where this.country is’headed. This is a ing match toward the end, when a group of University of New Hampshire students arrived to denounce the church group. "Relax! It’sjust sex," one student shouted. "I preach God’s word." "You preach hate." But that’s an accusation Phelps’ followers don’t deny. They maintain that God hates homosexuals and will destroy any society that condones homosexual behavior. ’q’he Christian belief is rooted not only in the love of God, but also the hate of God. You can’t have one without ,the. 9~er.,’~’. . .Pt!_dps-Roper said. "That is definitive. Th,e~ is~no.question, that Gq~t!ha,t~s, p~9..p!e.]’, ,, -~~W.~[bggQ Baptist ,O~,ur..ch ~s. ~gu,t 2Pq i~im~ers. . They have picketed~a~ ~e fun~€91s of. homosexuals, including that of Matthew Shepard,.a Gay man.who was brutally beaten and tortured in Wyoming in Octo~ ber 1998. "He’s in hall. And everyone else who.lives daat lifestyle will likely be in he!! with him unle{s.they repent," Phelps-Roper said. "Of ~.course, he could.have repented, but there’ s a snowball’, s, chance of tha~;happening." _. ¯ The Rev. Phelps did not attend, the demonstr.a_.tion. ~ His grandson said Phelps,:was .geeded back at his ¯¯ c,,h.t~h tominister But Phe!ps~Roper.saidthe growing acceptance of homosexualit~ made,:their message to ¯ iEx~ter all the more importan.t. ’;7~..’s.isimportant ~tuff. ¯ This is a ,matter of life and ~death,’:etemRy h~-re," phelps-Roper said. "When G.0~as said something is : ~.abomination, you don’t mes~.~ith it." ¯ Representatives of 14 churches from the region ¯ j6i]aekl the university students.i0PPosing Phdps? fol- 19wers. They said that thoug~flaey:don’t all agree on ¯ the moral status of homosexu~fity, they univers~ally oppose Phelps’ message. ."While we recognize their, right, to express their p,ersonal views freely concermngAcademy policy and : ~e subjectin general, we take,~.trong exception to/heir ¯ rhe.t.ori9and signs denigrati.ng0~r~eighbors,,, the,Rev’ ¯ ¯ DanielWeaver of theExeterUnitedMethodistChurch said: ~’We wholcheartedly agree:thathatr’ed, expressed ¯ or implied, as well as the adVo~icy br promotion of ¯ haff~lis anathema. It is certaird:y notitt the spirit of the ¯ v0~b~dsOf Jesus, ’Love your°neiIgl~bor~ as yourself."’ ¯ Accused Murderers of " Gay Man to Stand Trial FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) =T.w,o,teen-agers will stand : trial ear)y next year for the murder of a Gay black man from.Marion County, a judg.e., ruled~ in November. : David Allen Parker, whose lawyers may argue a di- : minished .capacity defense;,is ser~ to stand trial in ¯ Becldey on Jan. 16. His co-defendarit, Jared Wilson. ¯ will l!0t be tried until February...... ¯ Par~er, 18, ofGrantTownan~tWilson, 18, ofFairview : ar~’charged with first-degree.murder in the July 4 ° beating death of Arthur "J.R." Warren. Police say the teens pummeled the 26-year,old acquaintance with : their fists and feet, then ran over him four times with ] Parker’s car to disguise his injuries as a hit-and-run. ¯ The assault allegedly began after ~Warren told others ¯" about a sexual relationshiphe claimed to have had with : Parker. ~ Circuit Judge Rodney Merrifield said he will likely message that they need." ¯ rule within 10 days whetherjurors at thetrials will hear ~ ~..m,,d~nts, at .tl],e neari~y,22Q=ye~o!d pri~vate ,high : the teens’ confessions. Defenselawyers argue sheriff’s Schorl: apparently ~v~r~fi t irit~Stc;d~j~"h~g it~ ¯ deputies inappropriately obtained the statements the Many students and faculty members_wore x~row- :, gtay, 9.t" Lhe_.murd,er,;an accusatton, the deputies have colored pins, a symbol of support for homosexuals ¯ denied on the Witness ;/arid Judy Quirm, spokeswoman for Phillips Exeter, said " Prosecutors say Warren’s DNA showed up in evithe school’s roughly ’1,000 students decided not to attend the~demonstration; and instead .-organized a diversity celebration in another part of the campus. "The values of inclusion and diversity have been hallmarks of Phillips Exeter Academy since its formding," she said in a written statement. "The fact an objection to these principles is what brings this group to Exeter is indeed regrettable " The otherwise peacefifl protest erupted into a shout- : dence samples taken from the interior, exterior and : undercarriage of Parker’s car, as well as on wood : paneling and molding from the house where the bea~- ¯ ing began. : Parker’s attorneys, Rebecca Tate and Stephen Fitz. ¯ also asked the judge for a delay so they could hire ~., ~ expert to study their client for a possible diminished o capacity defense strategy. Bayer Seeks New AIDS Treatments BERLIN (AP) - Bayer AG, Germany’s biggest drugmaker, said Tuesday it will join the search fornew AIDS treatments as part of a shakeup of its drug research activities: The Leverkusen-based company, best-known for developing aspirin, will look for substances effective against resistant viruses, said Wol,fgang Hartwig, head of research in’Bayer s pharmaceuti- : cal busine.ss group. The company declined to specify:how muchit will invest in AIDS research. In 2000, it budgeted a total of 1 billion euros ($845 million) for research and development. Bayer said it expects to identify the first substances suitable for precliuical HIV testing within two years. Pharmaceutical research will in the future be focused on 13 fields, including seeking new treatments in urology, Alzheimer’s dementia and Parkinson’ s disease. Bayer saidit will stop its research activities for osteoporosis, fibrosis of the liver and stroke. Key Protein in AIDS. Virus Found WASHINGTON (AP) - A protein that does housekeeping chores inside cells plays a key role in spreading the AIDS virus to other cells of the body, researchers report. In studies appearing in the Proceedings of the National AcademyofSciences (PNAS), researchers say that _HIV, the AIDS’virus, uses a group of proteins, called proteasomes, to assemble new viral partitles and to spread those new particles.to uninfected cells. Ulrich Schubert of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID) said test tube studies show that blocking the action of the proteasome proteins can reduce the spread of HIV infection by about 98%. Schubert, the first author of one study in PNAS, cautioned that the research was conducted only in test tubes and it is not known if the proteasome inkibitors would work against HIV in humans. "We would never inject this drug into an HIV-infected person because we do not know what would happen," said Schubert. Theproteasome inhibitors will be tested in monkeys before any human tests are considered, and those animal studies could take months, he said. Dr. Jonathan W. Yewdell, a NIAID researcher and a co-author of the study, said that althoughinhibitingproteasome shows promise as a strategy for treating HIV, "it is possible that it may not have any effect at all." He said the proteasome function is essential for healthy cells and that a drug thatblocks thatfunction could affect every cell in the body. "It is possible that the HIV-infectedcells will be more sensitive or that there are effects against the virus before" the healthy cells are affected, said Yewdell. Yewdell and Schubert said cancer researchers are experimenting with proteasome inhibitors for the treatment of prostate cancer and early studies have shown no side effects in cancer patients. The drug, however, has not been used in HIV-infected patients, they said. Proteasome’s job inside the cell is to identify and destroy old or unneeded proteins. Another PNAS study, by researchers at Pennsylvania State University, suggests that amolecule calledubiquitinplays akeyroleinhow viruses use theproteasome function in a cell to make new viral partitles. Still another PNAS study, by researchers from the Dana-Farber Caneer Institute, Harvard Medical School and the University of Padua in Italy, also demonstrates that ubiquitin plays a role in HIV particle formation. HIV spreads its infection inside thebody by forcing white blood cells, called CD4s, to make new viral particles. These partitles are released from the cells and can then infect other cells, spreading the infection throughout the body. The final part of this virus-making proeess is called budding. During budding, a new viral particle wraps itself in a membrane from the surface of the infected cell and completes its development. When the budding process is completed, the virus particle is released and can then attach to an uninfected CD4 cell and continue to spread the infection. The researchers found that HIV uses the proteasome molecules, particularly ubiquitin, to complete the assembly of a new viral particle at the cell membrane. When the pro.teasome action is blocked, HIV particle formation is crippled, they found. "Inhibiting proteasome causes fewer viruses to detach from the cell and what viru~ is madeis notas good," saidYewdell. Proteasome is most active in the budding phase of making a new HIV viral particle. It is different from protease, an enzyme that helps the HIV virus assemble precursor proteins into active proteins. Some HIV drugs, called protease inhibitors, work by blocking the action of the protease enzyme. Power Connect. Public Service Compa~ny of Oklahoma Customer Service.is Nb~Available 24 Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. Our Customer Service Center operates 24/7 offering around-the-clock answers to your questions - and better access to service. Now it’s easier for you to inquire about your monthly electric bill. Or report a power outage. 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"This is importantbecause there’s peqple living with HIV who can’t get the meds like we do," said Alicea, 36, who gave his ownleftoverAIDS medications. "ffI can’t use them, somebody else can. There’s alot of stuffoutthere that’ sjustbeing dumped." Some 95% of the more than 33 million people with HIV and AIDS in the world are in poor countries, according to the World Health Orgamzation. In those regions, the so-called drug "cocktails" - Clip And Save " p I I I I I I--I I I I III CALL 24 HOURS FOR TOLL-FREE SERVICE Customer Services: 1-888-216-3523 Billing Inquiries: 1-888-216-3490 Outage Reporting: 1-888-218-3919 Servicio a Clientes: 1-888-216-3505 Preguntas Sobre su Cuenta: 1-888-216-3491 Fa]ta De Suministr0:1-888-218-3924 Public Service Company of Oklahoma I I I I I I I I i I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I Medical Excellenc.e And Compass.lonate Care S nce 1926. a ¯ ST. JOHN MEDICAL CENTER q P Medical Excellence-Compassi’onate Care whichcan costupwardof $20,000 per year in the United States -are about 30 times the average monthly income and far out of reach for most people, according to the group Doctors Without Borders. The issue of global drug acess has becomeheated. Protesters doggedVice President A1 Gore last year about drug prices in Africa, and the issue is apriority for institutions like the World Health Organization that are trying to combat the disease. Clients of the group Cambridge -Cares About AIDS are collecting the drugs from friends and family members - even from their own medicine cabinets. Most of the donated drugs are left over when a person with AIDS switches drug regimens because of debilitating sitle effects. Since last December, the group has delivered some $200,000 worth of medications to Parmers in Health, a Boston-based organization with a clinic in Haiti which distributes them to people with AIDS and HIV. Partners in Health executive director Dr. Jim Yong Kim said between 50 and 100 people in Haiti are regularly receiving the medications gathered by the Cambridge group. But there’s an enormous unmet need that this effort cannot even begin to solve without global attention - and a global solution- to the drug crisis, he said. "This is now an absolute disaster and an absolute crisis," Kim said. "It’s a moral problem, but it’s also an economic and political problem.’" TheWorld Health Organizationhas protocols for donated drugs. But the organization does not have separate guidelines for AIDS medications, which generally involve complex daily regimens of 15 to 20 different pills that require close medical supervision. And the medication supply must be consistent, because interrupting the regimen can result in the HIV virus becoming resistant to treatment. Only a handful of groups send unused AIDS drugs overseas. Kim said agencies like his are "writing the book" on salvaging AIDS drugs. There is no agency overseeing the practice, no way of knowing how common it is or whether groups are adhering to WHO guidelines for drug donations, according to Michael R. Reich, acting chair of the Department of Populationand International Health at the Harvard School of Public Health. But he said that while donations will never fill the need for drugs in poor countries, this effort highlights the problem. "Troubling questions arise from gaps in access," he said. "Haiti is a country with extraordinary needs for good drugs, and donations provide a mechanism for trying to address the gap." James Russo, spokesman for the Partnership for Quality Medical Donations, an organization composed of drug companies and non-govemmen.tal organizations thatTdistribute free drugs o~¢erseas, said it is a"perfecfly reasonable and understandable and decent thing to do." Such donations may not technically be legal, because the recipient is not the person for whom the drugs were prescribed, he said. But if the drugs are properly used and distributed, thenpublichealthbenefits override such legal issues. "The fact that it needs doing is, to me, a tragic observation about the state of public health policy," he said. "Nothing but good can come from ¯ something like this." ¯ Sitting beside Alicea, Katherine Gaynes, : 54, takes a thick marker and strikes from a ¯ bottle the name of the original patient, the ¯¯ doctor who made the prescription and the pharmacy that filled it so the pills cannot ¯ be traced back to the original recipient. ¯ She said the huge overseas need for medications frustrates her, but she’s glad she’s ¯ been able to do some good. "If the rest of ¯ the world doesn’t get better, then it doesn’t ; get better for us," she said. . ¯ Rise in HIV in Gays And Natives Feared ¯ TORONTO (AP) - New numbers on HIV infections in Canada point to a worrying : trend away from safe sex in some segments of the Gay community and a steep ¯ increase of infections among FirstNations ¯ people. The number of new infections ¯ amongmenwho have sex withmenjumped ¯ by 30% from 1996 to 1999, according to ¯ the latest report on HIV and AIDS preva- ¯ lence issued by Health Canada. The hum- : ber of new infections among Aboriginal ¯ Peoples rose 91% over the same period. : Some headway hadbeen made over that : time in cutting the number ofnew cases of _" HIV infection among injected drug users, ¯ the report said, noting the number of new : cases declined 27% last year over 1996. ¯ "But no sooner did we do that than Gay : men are starting to rebound again," Chris ¯ Archibald, Health Canada’s chief of HIV/ ¯ AIDS epidemiology and surveillance, said : from Ottawa on Thursday. ¯ Before 1996, Health Canada reported a ¯ steady drop in the number of new cases of ¯ HIV among Gay men, the population most ravaged by HIV and AIDS. Gay men accounted formore than 80% ofnew cases in : 1981-83; by 1996, they made up less than ¯ a third (30%) of new cases of HIV infection. Archibald said the upward trend has ¯ VANCOUVER, British Columbia (AP) - ." A group of health-care advocates and in- . jection drug users is aiming to make Vancouver the first city in North America to offer addicts a safe site to inject drugs. ¯ Whether the facility is a"hole in the wall" ¯ or a comprehensive health center will be ." determined by funding, says the Harm ." ReductionActionSociety, whichreleased ¯ its pilot project proposal last month. ." The society would like to have support ¯ from all levels, "but let’s get this straight, we are going to do it," said board member Dean Wilson. "One way or another, there ¯ will be such a facility or facilities," said Ross Harvey, the executive director of the ¯ B.C. Peoples with AIDS Society. The society would like to have a facility ¯ open before Valentine’s Day. The group, ¯ formed earlier this year, recently sent con- ¯. sultants to Frankfurt,Germany,where they visited five sites set up in 1994. The city ¯ released proposal recently that included a ¯ safe-sites proposal,butMayorPhilipOwen ¯ rejected the idea, saying it would be a magnet for drug addicts. ¯ also been reportedin the United States and ." the Netherlands. Vancouver Looks At Injection Site sung. And the lyrics aren’t too bad, either. He’s been performing since he was 6, and appeared in the film "Latin Boys Go To Hall" singing a song "... Siegfried and Roy have never been involved ..m ~r~ming an.i.~.ii.a.lk. i"n the’ ir h,2ves. They mold things around the personality of their animals." And maybe, if the rest of. us learned’ thattriek - love ~hOUt the ne~ for~.e~ntrol - we’d h~ve better ofhis owncomposition. He’ s played some ofthe most resi~ected venues in NYC to critical acdaini. ’ ~ He ~is also named by HXmagazine as one of the ten hottest menin NY. Judging from the press photos, I’ll second that. He’s currently working with song- .writer DesmondChilde, knowi~ for being a ’ hitwriter forRickyMar- .... ~ tin,Ch~,.and Ma~10nna. He’il surprise you. YOu’.dnever .guess he was anice.Jewish bpy relationships as well . frOmNew York - he~s ---got: that ~0ul sound by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor Merry Yule and Winter Solstice, everyone! This year has moved fast - hard to believe we’ll be starting a new millennium soon. Hope everyone h~ a ha~pp.y hoR.day. ~. ~- ~l~a ’frijOl, ~-Jim~ ’ Brf~l~iffa~ ~rbtflrh~:t~o Tut~d D~em6~r~5~il fdt a a romantic ,evening bf musicandfun. Ifyou’ve ?iaot seen his show be- 7~ore, .or ~ ing, it s well worfla it. i?And he’s:iher~ ~ith ¯" ~onny oshioiia,’W~Ch ~’should 7~I’11 miss John Trbnes, a i, family m.-..~~m~l~ ,~ho ~’ was here~th year, but"J~bgt Doimy does a grea~jdb ~i~the songs. Ji~ can~take a huge thOt~.~d make . it seem " room, and :he’s gOkgcous to boot - very handsom~],~,Sf;.~tl~6~:~;i~uals are as good as ’the musi.~;.ye~, ~I,know...you really " didn’t exp~t ~e t without .mgn,ti.0~ngl something like that, did you?.~tf!~y!~mmended; especially as an earl~’. Yule gift for that sigfiffieant other. 596~7111:fo€ fix. If yo~J;~:i’6bidiag for nifty gffties of an entertaiifi~ s0~t,’I have a few recomme,n,- dations: Fir~ oifth~’list is "Chicken Run’, just outOgDVD~dVHS. TheDVDis the preferencehe~e, due to the fun extras they threw ina~d the".claance to see the film as it was preSgntetion screen, instead of only half the.p.ivRtr¢fformatted to fit your TV) on the VHS version. There’s two documentaries 9n ..tal.ent and how they made. those chickens ttm; and it’s fun to see thecast men~!~erswfiose ,v,oices you hear. And it is so eff.~ecti~e.you I1 never eat chicken pot pies again:-’ Favorite line: Ging,er Chickefi,.:~.’.fig’ to explain why they re having ~toi~i~aS escaping the chicken farm/pfi~on"~to g doubting member of the flock, says’ Do’you know what the problem is? ~[]ie:fe~i~S.. aren’t just ’round the farm, they’reuphe~e-in yourheads !" The other chick~ep!ies,"Aw, give it up, ducks. There’s.amillion toone chance we’ll ever get out of her,e:, Ginger, mustering up thelast bit of hope she has (All done with the eyes), rep!iles, "Well . . there’s still a chance then." And then there’s Nick and Fletcher, a pair of rats who have a rather mteresturg relataonship... And that s al I’ll say about that, except I am surprised at. a: c"ertai.n::’a:c"t.lw.?s~t2m. :t~o:,w~n; w;~ho~ di¯ dN, O""T"~fi.1re ~ff a s~i-ies:.6fl6tters aboi~t Gay i~dople" being represented as rats... Even though they’re really cute rats, in that rat-like way, and help the chickens to escape. A new artiste on the Gay scene, Ari Gold, has a new CD out, and unlike many artists capitalizing on the "I’m Gay and out, so even if I suck, you should still buy my stuff", it’s actually a really good CD, filled with dance grooves and soulful ballads that are slickly produced and well down. He deserves our Support, because he dell,v~rs.the goo~s: Mostpr6moCDsfrom Gayarfists ’end UPas coastdts 6tmini-frisb.ees. This one’s akeeper. Great for dancing and romanc¯ ing, I give-it fivesnaps. He’ sgot awebsite: WWW.ARIGOLD.COM ¯ For those~vith.cabl~;~the’Americanized ¯ ,)ersion of the British series "Queer as ~ ’ .F01k" begins airing On Sh0w~me Decem- ~ her 3rd. For.those Without c,],,ble, fihd a ¯ ’ friend that has ~it,; The~iow delivers a :" Slice of.gffy life~th~t’ ~ ~corn~ellitag, ~pto- ,)ocative, and unlike any showyou’ll see. For 22 riveting episodes, these unforgettable men.andw0in~nr~veal tfiemselves - i:eally reveal themselves - as no TV characters ever have." Well,Iknow some folk,- who are queer, who~ve seenthe original British series, and if it’ s kept intact and not Americanized todeath, it sh.ould be good. : Happyw~ffChing! .... " Open now is a duo offeline proportions ¯ ."in "Siegfried and Roy: The Magic Box." i Now, I wonder if .we get to find out just .*. :Who has that’magi€ box? "Siegfried and : ’Roy: The Mhgic B6~" i~an’iMAX biopic ¯ ~Which includes’their Las V~gas a~t~ well ¯ as abiographical storyin-azstory ofhow .’- the two men met .-as-boys in war-tom ¯ Germany, combining a love of magic, ’ ~animals, and each other to become the ." "world’S greatestillu~R~nistS." ¯ Anthony Hopkins Narrates the story of ¯ the two boys who meet on a cruise ship ¯ (oh, the fodder for puns that provides) and ~ form "a differen,,t kind of i~agic act using ¯ exotic .snimals, .: an~" als0 ~"forni ~an~ .ex- ¯ -ty.~me|y lohg ~erm ~-ela~o~s~i~. oli, the ~° :jokbs that come tomind. So much material ¯ to work with, so little space. ¯ Actually, they have my admiration and ¯ all due respect. To work and live together ¯ as long as they have and not to have killed " each other in the process, and to have ¯ remained together, is no easy task. I have ¯ heardthem speakofthat, andhow attimes, . you just wanna kill your parmer, but un- " derneath it all is the love that keeps you ¯ working together - see Amuse, p. 10 GIFTS OF T!tI S ASON!: COUNCIL OAK WISHING YOU A JOYOUS HOLIDAY SEASON & A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR PLEASE JOIN TULSA OKLAHOMANS FOR HUMAN RIGHTS AS WE CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS.{ HOLIDAY RECEPTION HONORING TOHR’s 20TH ANNIVERSAF~Y & SILENT AUCTION AN ~,.RT, AHTIQUES & FINE DINING.SHOWCASE SUNDAY, DECEMBER | 0 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM TULSA GAY COMMUNI’~Y SERVICES CENTER 2114 S MEMORIAL PARADE OF LIGHTS Come celebrate the spirit of the holiday season at the AEP-Public Service Company of Oklahoma Christmas Parade of Lights, Satu rday, Decem ber 9, downtown Tulsa at 6 p.m. View parade floats up close, Friday, DecemberS, at the HolidayFest (Brady Arts District) from 7 - 9 p.m. PUBLIC SERVICE COMPANY OF OKLAHOMA® by Karin Gregory GEls, have you ever had that Gay male friend who does everything with you? A Will to your Grace?AJack to your Karen? The oneman-for some of you, theONLY man - to whom you’d tell your secrets? Who is warm, caring, loving, a great listener, and in many cases,has betterfashion. sense than you? The one man you can talk to all night long? That guy who will, even across the miles, allow you to cry on his shoulder about your girlfriend? And you still remember your own tearstained shoulders from when he knocked on your door at 3 a.m. Most ofus, if we’re lucky, have a guy who would be the perfect partnerforapolitically correct" family value" couple if he became a woman and we became a man. ButI’m nottalking about him here. This is another Gay man who possesses none ofthe abovequalities. Sure, he can be a nice guy- whenhe wants to be. And he DOES have better fashion sense than I, although that’s no stretch. Butwhile I embracedmy.Gayness before embracing another woman, he did his embracing, and whatever rise (eeeewww!) earl~, on, and never really learned to enjoy being Gay. "How sad," you might say. Don’t feel sorry for him. Especially when you find out where I’m spending my days lately. Great house, DirecTV, MUCH cleaner thanmy place, and the perfect party home. I had become - how shall I say? - financially non-existent and couldn’t pay my rent (sounds like a musical, doesn’t it?). My friend - let’s call him Vincent - offered to put me up in his house for a few months. OK, let’s talk realism. He was looking for someone to help him with the house payments. I would get oneroom and a bathroom, as opposed to my car. Most people in my situation wouldjump at this arrangement. Although it .would save me $400, the cost in psycffiatric visits overmy lifetime would soon absorb the savings. Let’s just say that we were the other"Odd Couple." Picture a much more obsessive/ compulsive, anal retentive Felix Unger, who is also emotionally constipated, and you have Vincent. You’re not where I am now, and I hope you never are. Let me tell you how I got here through a progression of nightly entries. ¯DAY ONE - Got to Vincent’s house about 10:45 tonight after work. I can already tell our work schedules are going to conflict as he made a great show of"having" to be up this late. This was HIS idea, remember. He showed me the alarm system. God, it feels like Fort Knox in here, motion detectors and all. He also gave me an extra key and garage door opener. It all feels so official. This IS just a trial run, after all. I’m relegated immediatdy to my room, as small as a nun’s cell. He said I could have one piece of furniture, but there’s no room for anything else. i’ve ¯ been calling and calling my girlffien.: all : night, getting nothing but a busy sig:m! : That makes me anxious and frightenex~, se : I tall Vincent what’s going on, hoping to ¯¯ get some sympathy. While I try to hug ¯ : : ~, : :, "ra.m,.~.com.p~,.a~ps.....Oh "...G~gr~|s,. ,halve you no," in’d very pugquttbhe of voi~qe; his~us~tml t0ne. He e erMd Gay pU s n< "ar0 a.me male friend whodoes VERY gingerlg: try’ing to everythln~ with you? A Will to your Grace? A Jack to your Karen? The one man - for some of you, the ONLY man - to whom you’d tell your secrets?.. ?’ much me as little as possible, as if I’m a Lesbian leper. After he leaves, I get into the closet (I thought I’d left that for good!) so as not to wake him, and call my friend Jim. He gives me a bigger hug over the phone from Tulsa than I got from Vincent. I pull out my CD player and listen to Melissa Etheridge (who else?). Somehow it makes me feel dominant. DAY TWO - After dedaring thatmy alarm woke him from the other side of the house, he leaves. Now I can walk aroundlike I want. Ooops! I forget that he leaves the kitchen blinds open. Well, his neighbors will just be confused. They thooght they were living near a Gay man!.Oa my way to work, I find my girlfriend has called to let me know she’s all right, which should put me at ease, but the thought of having to live with Vincent depresses me. It already feels like I’m giving upmy life to live according to his schedule. WhenI arrive at his house, I’m in less than a pleasant mood. Anger sets in when I realize that I forgot to tape "Will and Grace." It doesn’t help that Vincent goes on andon abouthow this was the funniest episode he’s ever seen. "Did youtapeit?" I askhopefully, already knowing the answer. "No, I was home to watch it," he says, cleaning up the kitchen in a "don’t youdaremake amess" way. Selfish bastard! This further proves my point that when a man asks you into his life, for whatever reason, he really means, "I want to live my life as I always have, with no compromises. You’ll just be around when andif I need you." NowonderI’m Gay! He woulddrive Pat Buchanan’s wife to Lesbianism. I pop my popcorn (the only thing I’ve had since noon today), and the only thing allowed to me. I once again listen to Melissa, who has a strangeway ofempowering me. I fall asleep, dreaming of using a stun gun on Vincent repeatedly. DAY THREE-Today’s finally Friday, and I might be allowed to watch some TV tonight. I’m fine all day until I enter Vincent’s abode. We’re eating pizza, and he’s buying, an obvious splurge. But we disagree on TV programming, so he watches something in his room while I have the living room all to myself to watch a Beatles special. I’ve figured out one thing - never trust anyone who hates the Beatles. It’s positively UnAmerican! Another night of silence until he comes into the living room to switch channels so he can watch the news. seeLesbian,p.11 by Lamont Lindstrom "Gifts make slaves just as whips make dogs," or so says one bit of Native American wisdom. Keep this in mind during the upcoming holiday orgy of giving and receiving. Grits aremorethan just tokens of affection. They are’als0 ~gminde~s of obligati’On ahdl du~. Giging is politiCak ~Pd]~h~ps~ I give you a present because °I like you. Butifyou accept mypresent,you also accept that you are indebted to me - at least until you can pay me back. Ihad, once, a studentfrom Saudi Arabia whose father was in the rug trade. "I’m contacting my father," he told me near the end of the term. "I’d like to give you a carpet." Oh no, I thought, visions of Baluchis and Kilims dancing inmy head. How amI going to g~vehim the "D" that he deserves? Luckily, he presented me with a cheap synthetic prayer rug decorated,with garish neon cameIs, worth only a few dollars down at yourlocal bazaar. I wasn’t that muchii~’his debt after all, and I graded him down with a lighter heart. l~erhaps we all have had an experience of over-receiving. Somebody g~ves us something that is waytoo much. What can he have in mind? What does he want in return?A pesky acquaintance surprises us with afine leatherjacket. But what does he expect?A closer friendship?A date? Need we give it up? The fancy anthropological word for gift giving is "reciprodty." I give something to you, and you give something back to me. Such exchange can be balanced or imbalanced. Either way,. this says something about power. If we engage in prolonged, imbalanced gift giving, we find ourselves in an enduring relationship of inequality. Those fine presents have made us into dogs and slaves. Parents, for instance, give a lot more to children thanchildren giveto parents. This exchangeimbalancefuels parental authority. Few morns and dads hand their children, on their 18th birthdays, a bill for $186,000. Ratherthan reciprocating the exact dollar cost of raising us, we repay parents in obedience. "As long as you live inMYhouse, you’ll do what I say!" Those gifts come with strings. . To avoid, obligfiroh~ we must balance gift giving. Only balanced exchange cre: ates equality. If some one gives us a holiday present, we feel pressured togive a present in return. Failure to reciprocate means either that we don’tmind shouldering this debt and its obligations, or that we want to break things off altogether. Does morn send out the family’ s holiday cards? What does she do when someone fails to reciprocate? Cross him off the list! Sometimes exchangeimbalancepersists ¯ for years, however. My dentist sends me a ¯ Christmas card annually. Butdo I sendone ¯ back? Nope. In this case, I amrude enough ¯ to take without giving. But I understand ¯" the deal implied by this imbalanced exchange~ I take my mouth around to his office every six months. My friends in the South Pacific go to huge efforts to raise and give away pigs just to get their neighbors’ pigs in return. If would be far easier for all villagers to eat their own pigs. But what of us? .We are madcap enough to enrich the Post Office every December by mailing, around a blizzard of Christmas cards. I send out about 60 each year, and in return I receive 60 back. But if I really am so desperate for cards to clutterupmymantelpiece, why don’t I just keep those that I buy? I’d save a 10t on postage that way. My island friends are fanatic giftbalancers. They keep exact records of how ] many pigs, baskets, and mats they receive ¯¯ so that they can give the same in return. Butthey sometimes over-give- just alittle. ¯ This iitfleextra gift, which al~O must be "... Perhaps we all ~have had an experhne¢ of over-reeelvlng. Somebody gives us something that is way too much. What can he have in mind? What does he want in return? A peshy aeq~intanee surp~ses us ~th a fine l~ther ~aeket. But w~t does he expect? A closer friendship? A ~te? Need we give it up... ?" repaid at some point, keeps the :relationship moving along. Balanced exchanges celebrate the fact that we are still investing in the relationship. Youremain important to me. Butif I amto stay your equal, I need to give you about what you give me. I am embarrassed if I return too little OR ff I return too much. Imbalance in either direction implies either that I don’t care about us as much as you do, or that I am trying to obligate you. Given the importance of exchange balance, it is perverse that we remove price tags and wrap presents. It’s a bit of a game. We see through these pretenses that "it’s the thought that counts." As experienced givers, we are pretty good at striking a balance despite the absence ofprice tags or the concealment of gift-wrap. When a friend drops off a gaily-wrapped present for you, shake that box! Make a mistake in what you give back and it could be the doghouse for you! Lamont Lindstrom teaches anthropology at the University of Tulsa. and frommurdering each other. They have also managed to survive a business that chews you up and spits you out. It’s easy to makejokes at their expense, but you know, there is a magic there, that they’ve been able to survive that business - andremain together, whenI’m sure there were many times it wouldhavebeenmuch easier to split under the pressure. see Amuse, p. 11 Timothy W. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (Ohe block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) This without saying a word to me. After - seeing how the candidates STILL can’t " decide this election, I put on my pajamas. " That’s all, I swear. When I come out at ¯ 9:20, the TV is turned off, along with the ¯ lights. My dorm mother has declared my curfew. One thought goes through my " head - I’m going to kill him; I’m going to ¯ kill him; I’m going to kill him. Big kitchen knives flash through my mind. I go to bed " at 9:20, again listening to Melissa. She’s " giving me the wrong kind of strength, : think. DAY FOUR- This is the last day, but I " have to spend it with HIM. I see my stu- ¯ dents at my Saturday class, knowing this : will probably be the last time I teachi I’ve ¯ made up my mind as I arrive at Vincent’s. " He ignores me, as usual, while he watches ¯ gymnastics on TV, laughing for some tea- ¯ son. Hewon’t laugh forlong. Even though ~ I hate the color and look bffd in it, orange : jumpsuits will be my style for the next 20 years. Hey, they let you write,letters~in ¯ prison. Ev~nLestian~olumns, I veheard. : "Goodbye Vincent!" 5" by Karin Gregor #2238769480, Cell BlockH ¯ ofthe"diversity" statement whichincluded : "sexual orientation," saying he wouldhave : noticed its inclusion. ¯ In response,’sev~al ~gregation have commi~ted to re=examining their endorse: ment of the document? College Hill Pres- ¯ byterian Church and’ Fellowship Congre- " gational Church will’bring the.issue back to theirgov.ernmg boards. ,Andsomemere- " bers of MCC~United, Tulsa s Metropoli: ¯ tan Community Church, members of predominatelyLesbianand Gay denomi- " nation, are concerned about their church’s ¯ endorsement of a statement which does not acknowledge the existence of Lesbian -" and Gay persons. : The welcoming committee of Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation ¯ has drafted a letter to TMM saying, "we erred in our endorsement of this state- " ment"because thefailure toinclude sexual ¯ orientation is in conflictwith the values of ¯ the congregation and the letter further says ," that they wilt not endorse any future state- " ments which are not inclusive. ¯ Other groups such as Holland Hall ¯ School, the Episcopal Diocese of Okla: " homa, and the Eastern Oklahoma : Presbytery -: Presbyterian Church USA, ¯ have been asked to explain their support : for a statement which is not compatible . with their policies. In the case of the Episcopal Diocese and. Holland Hall School, : staff and religious leaders were not sure if ¯ the organization’s names had been used " with permission. ¯ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights : (TOHR), the state’s oldest civil rights or- ¯ ganization has discussed the issue at a " recentboardandmembershipmeeting and president, Greg Gatewood stated that he ¯ would seek a meeting with Rana and Day : to request an explanation of the exclusion of "sexual orientation" from the state- ¯ ment. Further action on the part of the organization will vary depending on their responses. Other congregations which signed the "diversity" statement, like the city’s Episcopal parishes and its Unitarian-Universalists congregations, all of whom have histories of being fair to Lesbian and Gay Tulsans are also being asked to consider withdrawing their support for the statement because of the failure to include "sexual orientation." And they’ve remained incredibly successful throughout the years andups anddowns that showbiz life provides. Living with someone 5 years is a major feat, much less working with them as well. And even in relative anonymity, it’s hard enough. To have survived and remain together as long as they have - 43 years - is a major feat. FYI, Royis 5 years younger thanSiegfried. About the biographical aspects of the film, Roy says "It’s ~way~ a difficult step to open yourself up beeauge ~ou make yourself very vulnerabl~. That fneans you have to let your guard down andeveryone has access to you." Scary iild~gd. The cameras were allowed full access to the home and grounds of theirestate’. He goes on to say "I have to say;~it’s~ been pretty good to do it. It goes way badk" to when I was a boy. I had a catching smile, but in reality I was a loner. I wa~ n0t too good with people. As a mattel: offact, I didn’t trustinpeople. I trustedmy animals more." I can relate to that. The interesting thing is that,-aozording to producer Bernie Yuman,’"Roy has a bond with these animals whereby there’s no force. Force createsforce. There’s alot of love. There’s a lot of.voice intonation and camaraderie - and a lot of meat - but affection and conditioning, Roy’s never trained an animal, and Siegfried and Roy have never been involved.in, training ammalsin their lives. Theymoldthings around the personality of their animals." And maybe, if the rest of us learned that tricklove without the need for control - we’d have longer lasting relationships .as well. Food for thought. And so, for all the nasty S&Rjokes I could make, I find I reallyjust have too much respect for what they’ve accomplished to make them. In the film, you get behind the scenes visits to their home - which is like designer overkill, given their taste_~or opulence. And you get to see their private wildlife sanctuary, where they live with and raise the white tigers used in the act. Their love of the animals is evident. It’s filmed in 3-D, so you’ll be able to see Siegfried and Roy up close and personal. Numerous digital techniques were used to recreate the Europe of their childhoods. As for the magic shots, they were specifically filmed uncut as master shots, so that the audience would no that no camera tricks were used. Andrew Dunlap, who plays young Roy, was also in the all male version of "Importance of Being Earnest," which was interesting to note. Also playing is Fantasia 2000 and 3D Mania: Encounter in the 3rd Dimension; 71st and Highway 169. Healing E E ECT IIII AIDS Memorial Quilt re.n.esS World AIDS Day Candlelight Memorial March Friday, December 1st, 6:30pm Tulsa Civic Center Plaza, 5th & Denver The NAMES Project Quilt Opening, 8pm This advertisement is donated by Tulsa Family News. TFN appreciates the opportunity to support this showing of the Quilt, and The NAMES Project. 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Just as in elementary ¯ TULSA - Dr. Brandon Scott will givea lecture this ¯ school, you go down to the Central Library and look up the ¯ month based the passages in the Bible that are regu¯ . material. After a friend.mentioned some stories in The Gayly ¯ larly used to attack Gay and Lesbian.people. These : Oklahoman that were published before this.newspaper existed, I ¯ are the so-called "clobber" passages seen as con: tried to do just that, only to fmd thai’our library threw out its Gay " demning homosexuality. ¯ ¯. publications after six months - so much for minority history! Dr,~Scott is a well known New TestameiR scholar, ¯ . Ha¢ing donated seven years of copies of TFN thinking that a -" a Jesus Scholar and teaches at Phillips Theological : -portion of Tulsa’s LGBT history was being perserved, I was ¯ Seminaryin Tulsa. The event is open to thepublicand ~ : concerned. Suppression of Tulsa’s minority history_is hardly ¯ will be held the January 22nd Soulforce in Oklahoma ¯ new. Tulsa’s Centennial celebration and book deliberately ¯ meeting from 6 - 8pro at TheGay Community Serexcluded any mention of the existence of Gay people, and Tulsa ¯ vices Center, 2114 S. Memorial. covered up some events, like the Rathe Riots of 1921, for years. ¯ This event will.begin the education and training for Tulsa City County Library System (TCCLS) had reasonable ¯ local actions to take place, in Tulsa along with a Would Be First Woman Killed In Oklahoma : excuses: they don’t have space to archive hard copies, they need ¯" interdenominational panel discussion on February ¯ DENVER (AP)-A womanwhois scheduled, tobecome : to have the materials on microfilm, etc. True enough. Large 26th also at the Center at 6pro, to understand where the first female executed in ~i°f Oklalioma has ¯ newspapers, like The Tulsa Worm and The Daily Oklahoman, : different denominations stand regarding this issue. filed~ an emergency appeal ~’_~10th U.S. Circuit : monopoly dailies with huge profits, of course can and do pay for ¯ Soulforce is an informal network of volunteers Court of Appeals. ’, -~-_.......... their own filming. Those film rolls are then purchased-by : -committed to teach, and apply the principles of non~ .Wanda Jean Allen wants all 10 judges-of the court to : TCCLS. However, small minority publications dearly don’t " violence as taught by Gandhi and Martin Luther King stop her scheduled Jan. 11 execution, even after a three- " have those sorts of resources. ." on behalf of sexual and gender minorities. Sodforce However, The Oklahoma Eagle is in the TCCLS archives. ¯ was founded in 1998 by the Rev. Mel White, author judge panel from the court-reftmed to overturn her : ¯ sentence in January. The U.S. Supreme Court ~efused tO -: How so? The Oklahoma Historical Society is committed to of Stranger at the Gate and his partner, Gary Nixon. preserving more than just Oklahoma’s "mainstream" history. consider her case and she was:denied clemency earlie~ ¯ ." The websiteis www.soulforce.org. In nortbeast OklaAnd in contrast to Tulsa’s usual response to its minority ¯ homa, contacts are Karen Weldin"Karen@cwis.net" this month. Alien maintains- as she has throughout_her citizens (give us your tax dollars, keep your mouth shut and just ¯ and Susan Knanse "knalig@worldnet.att.net" previous appeals - that her prior counsel was deficient: ." ¯ AsSistant Attorney General Sandra Howard said her " don’t get uppity), the Oklahoma Historical Society was delighted "Soulforce believes that religion has become the to add Tulsa Family News to its collection including microfilmoffice will oppose Alien’s request. : ~ primary source of false and inflammatory misinforAllen was convicted of the: 1988 murder of Gloria " ing the new~paper so that OHS (and TCCLS we hope) can better ." mationaboutLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, andTransgender Leathers, her lover, outside The Village police station. " reflect minority as well as majority history. people," says Sue Knause, Soulforce in Oklahoma ¯ With the interest of preserving as much of Oklahoma’s LGBT ¯ volunteer. "Fundamentalist Christians teach that we Allen had earlier been convicted Ofinanslaught~r. : Oklahoma’s Catholic, Episcopal andMethodist bish- : historyas possible, I left a message for Paula Hand Brown of The ¯ are ’sick’ and ’sinful.’ Liberal Christian denominaops have called on Gov. Frank Keating to establi.sb~a ¯ Gayly Oklahoman to encourage them to provide their back issues ¯¯ tions teach that we are "incompatible with Christian moratorium on all executions in the state .... ¯ to the Oklahoma Historical Society. teaching." Most conservative and liberal denominaseeOHS, p. 10 ¯ tions re_fuse to marry us or ordain us for ministry. The Roman Catholic Church teaches that our orientation is ’objectively disordered’ and our acts of intimacy ’intrinsically evil.’ They teach that we should not WASHINGTON, DC- The National Gay and Lesbian : WASHINGTON (AP) - Several influential Democrats said ¯ marry, adopt, co-parent, teach children,, coach youth TaskForcerecentlyannouneedaFeb, 15,2000deadline : Sund~t.y that they .are distressed by President-elect Bush’ s cabinet ¯ or serve in the military. Our goal is to. confront and to submit applications for the.NGLTF Messenger: , choices to date, mentioning .attorney general-designate John : eventually replace these tragic untruths with the truth that we are God’s children, too, created, loved, and Anderson Scholarships. The NGLTFMessenger-Ander- : Asheroft as. a particular problem, because.of his. opposition_to son. Scholarship Program next year will award four : abortion, gU~.¢ontrol measures, and anti,Gay positions, ¯ accepted.-by God exactly as weare," Knanse adds. ¯ During-the past summer Soulforce launched the $5,000 scholarships to high school seniors or under- ¯ Sen. Charles Schumer, D-N.Y., called-Asheroftrs prospects at graduate college students who plan to pursue a bachelor’ s : Senate..confirmation for at[orney general "hardly a done deal’r ; "first stage" in their campaign to STOP SPIRITUAL degr,.ee in journalism at an accredited four-year college : and said he is "truly worried" that Asheroft.would not.enforce ¯ .VIOI~ENCE noted Karen Weldin, Sodforee volun," teer. "We trained 1,000 volunteers on site at the ¯ or umverslty. ¯ federal laws. bannitlg violence against abortion clinics ~or laws : national conventions of the United Methodist, SouthThe NGLTF Messenger-Anderson Scholarship was : that restrict gun. ownership. In fact, Schumer commented that established by Larry Messenger and Jim Anderson in ~ Asheroft would work to repeal those~laws. "He is far and away ¯" ern Baptist, Presbyterian, and Episcopal Churches. After silent, candlelight vigils, more than 500 of us memory of Lawrence and Sdina Messenger. "The ¯ the most troubling choice," Schumer said on-ABC’s-’-’TMs Messengers believed that there is a pressing need to : Week." *’The questionis will Senator Asheroft enforce.thelaw of : were arrested in carefully planned acts of nonviolent : dissent. On November 12-14, 2000 we conducted encourage Gay and lesbian people to become more ." .the land on things thathe’s morally opposed to." ¯ similar vigils and protests at the National Conference inv olved in shaping media eoverage,?-’- e,,x,plained NGLTF : HoweveL Sen..,Orrin Hatch, R~Utah, appearing,, on the. same .Execufi.ve Director ElizabethTolbxlo.. ’Fair coverage of ¯ program, said he would be surprised if the Senate does not ~ of Catholic Bishops in Washington, DC." Mel White has announced Soulf0rce, s plans to take ISSUes important to the Gay,. Lesbian, Bisexual and : confirm Asheroft,-the outgoing senator from Missouri who has ¯ : the nonviolent campaign against centuries of spiritual Transgender community depend~upon the basiepremise : served ~ that state’sattorney general and governor. "Heis a man that all of us are created equally. But media coverage : of integrity. Heis aman of great experience:’ Hatch said. "I have ¯ violence and anti-Gayteachings of theRoman Catho¯ lic Church to the Vatican on January 5-6, 2001. foday often begins with thediscriminatory notion that ¯" no-doubt, as a former attorney~ general and hopefully as-this equality for GLBT people is somehow a matter for ¯ attorney general, he will enforce the laW~.regardless of whether ¯ Supporters of Soulforce and Dignity/USA plan to : place their specific demands for inclusion for all debate. By encouraging GLBT students to pursue jour- : he agrees with it or not" nalism and by assisting them with their Studies, the Task : Senate Minority ’Leader Tom Daschle, D-S.D, also expressed ; peoplein the Church on the doors of the Vatican, in :Force hopes, to improve the way the GLBT comrnttul- ¯ concerns about Asheroft, saying that he and other DemoL’rats ¯ amoveechoing that of Martin Lutherat thebeginning ¯ of the Reformation. fies, ..a~_d moyemen.t are. covered.’" intend to ask.him tough questions during hi~s confiymation Soulforee in Oklahoma is als0 joining PFLAG, see. Scholarship,p. 3 ¯ hearings~,sp~cificallYwhether he intends to enforce civil rights ¯: HRC-Oklahoma, and TOHR in the annual Martin ¯ laws that pr,o,tect~minorities and statutes protecting equal rights : Luther King Memorial Parade .on Monday, January : for women: -He has-to convincea i0tbf his eoliehgU~s~d fflrt DIRECTORY ...... P.2 : of those who are concerned.., that he Can do that," Daschle told ¯ 15th¢2001. The Parade starts atCincinnati and Pine EDITORIAL P.3 at 1 tam and ends in the Greenwood district. March: NBC’s "Meet the PressY ¯ ers are asked to arrive 30 minutes early and look for US & WORLD NEWS -. P. 4 ¯ Senate Republican Whip Don Nickles.of Oklahoma said he HEALTH NEWS : doesn’t understand-why Ashcroft’s critics are "taking-these : the Rainbow-colored banners. Parking is very limP. ¯ ited, marchers are encouraged to share a ride if ENTERTAINMENT P, unfair cracks at him:" "I think some people are .... for an ¯ issue. They’re looking for a fight,"Nickles toldlooking possible. For more information, Call the Commuuity ¯ NBC.. "They BOOK REVIEW P. 10 Center at 743 -4297 between 6-9 pm, Monday through : .want to ha~ea big divisive battle. " see Ashcroft, p. 11 ¯ Friday.. . ~,--.-.. Lesbian To BeExecuted- i NGLTF .Lesbian and-.. 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Med;.ctr. 365-5658 . ¯ in our country and do everything we can to " Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 808-8026 " OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9!~:~2~~5~ eradicate unfair treatment because of race. 742-1460 ¯ *OSU-Tulsa ...... *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st ¯" Otherwise we will not be able to reap the " - .......... 459:93;49: :-PFLAG, POB 52800, 74152 /749-4901 Leanne M. Gross, Insurance & financial p!apping :.o.¯ benefits o~our proudcommitment to liberty Mark T: Hamby, Attorney 744:7440~ " *Hanned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria .....587:7674"¯ and.justice for all .... *Sandra J, Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E." Skelly 745~-’1111 ¯ Prime-Timers, P.O~ BoX 52118, 74152 ’ 749:41,95 ; Youhaveanopportunity, too, toreachout 341-6866 ¯ ’-R~.A.I:N:; Regional~AIDS InterfaithN&~v0rk . *International Tours - ~ 384-2325 - : and listen to the concerns of Gay, Lesbian, 71252750 ; *Red-.Rock Mental~Center, 1724 E. 8 . ..... 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But you find in minority communities, a mentalby Tom Neal, editor & publisher I usually write this editorial late in November because ity that we should not hold our leaders and programs or : we published our first issue midway through December in : others up to a public standard. . Clearly we disagree. by Elizabeth Toledo, Executive Director A newspaper (unlikelocal community magazines which ." 1993. At the time, I’d been writing andlaying out the Tulsa ¯ National Gay and Lesbian Task Force section of a now defunct Kansas-based rag. Eighty-four ." seek to highlight "good things" about Tulsa and to sell The first time I picketed in front 0fthe Reagan Building advertising) exists to seek the truth and to issues have now been printed, documenting - ,, in Washington, D:C. was in protest of ii visit by Wisconthe life.and issues of our commumty, if not . . . Eighty-t~our issue~ publish it. Sometimes that is "good stuff" sin Gov. Tommy Thompson. He had signed some 0f the perfectly, then better than has ever been have now been printed, and sometimes, alas more often, it’s bad. most misogynist legislation in the country, includingthe Tulsa Family News seeks to be fair in done¯ most restrictive atiti-abortion legislation implemented " documenting the life Certaiul.y, The Gayly Oklah~man, our our reporting and dear in our editorial since the Supreme Court in Roe v Wade recognized sister, and elder, publication has been around Writing. Sometimes we have not been eiabortion as a constitutional right in 1973. He also: engiand issues d our ther which we regret. For example, we neered Wisconsin’s onerous wdfare law, which kicked ¯ longer but as Tulsans have long complained, community, if not wrote in last month’s editorial that there off the trend that resulted in punitive measures at the : their coverage of our city has iaever been as are groups involved in Tulsa Metropolitan federal level - measures that made scapegoats of many ¯ thorough. We’ve long argued that you canperfectly, then better Ministry who oppose civil rights for Leslower-income people who lacked access to educational :. not successfully provide newscoverage for than has ever been bians and Gay men. I regret that my writopportunities, job training and affordable child care. ¯ a town in which you don’t live. Unlike many .LGBT, let us say, Gay, for ing was not dear. As written, it appears Imagine then my surprise to pick:up,several publicadone.., it has been a that I attribute that position to the ministry tions that serve the gay, lesbian, bisexti,~l:~dtransgender _" brevity, newspapers, Tulsa Family News is labor of love, not itself rather than constituent groups. community and read an uncritical analysi~of Thompson~ : available in a number of mainstream venBut as I pointed out to one TMM staff whom President-designate George W. Bush has nomi- ¯¯ ues: Tulsa City Hall, Tulsa City-County money. Tulsa seems person, our editorial pages are open to nated to .be Secretary of Health and Human Services. ¯ Library System, Barnes & Noble, Borders full of people who other points of view and that we have Books &Music, anumberofTulsachurches, Replace Donna Shalala with Tommy Thompson? The dismal reality of the presidential dection has begun to ." as well as at some" Tulsa dubs, and other think that there are hig published letters to the editor, even when they are extremely critical of this newspasink in. Thequestion arises, what vision and leadership ¯ venues where Gay papers have been longer welcome. This easier access Should hardly buel~s to be-made in per and its writers. I am disappointed that will we in the GLBT movement provide over the course TMM’s. staff decided not to write with of thenext four. years9enou., Is it ghtosay that Tommy ," be taken for grantedwhen.. there was time. local publlshi,n~. ~ .... . ,, their concerns. . Thompson is not as bad an appointment as-Bush could ~ the only place Y0U.could find a Gay paper ~,, So with seven years down, and more to have made~-Is it enough to say that the nomination of Sen ? ¯ ¯ v~as in a sexually oriented bookstore, or in l"lease think .again .... go~ God, advertisers, printers and writers " i~ ~ " .i " John ’.A~h~0ft to be attorney general is somehow miti" i ." adub- v~fiue~ ff~ch sofii~ifiay.bg.ungom~ oated’bvth~nominafionofthenrO-choiceandnro-GLBT :" fortablefr~iu~ti~g,o~ttherS,thoseunder21 for example, " "’.i~illing~wewillcontinuetodowhatwedo, hopefully with New Jersey Guy. Chi~stine Whitman~to :be head of the " may not always tiavea.c_cess. . ........... ¯ .~feweramstakes and maybe even more ads. . Environmental Protection Agency9 " ’: :.~ ¯ :/" ’* And unlike many Gaypapers, TFN has~always limited. ::..i Particularthaiaksis~luetoourwriters,mostparticularly, Let’s give credit where it. is du~: As-Ch~afr of "the" :"the sex~tiall~ oi:itlii.".~. ~~.~i 9~f.,0.ur p.ag~:~¢a~e not aiiti-~ .’. myfrt~fid, form~rc0mpanion, and still neighbor, ,entercommitteethatdraftedtheRepublican’Partyplafformlast : sexbutd0t~ffni~etllaipageafterpageof-explicitpht~tos ¯ tainmentcriticJamesChristjohn.He’sbeentherefromthe summer, Th0mnson did lead the effort tO remove some ~ ¯ and personals may be profitable but push ~e llnaits of the ;i.~b’eginiiing and h/is put up with much along the way. Also, not alF:~ Of th6 ~OP’s anti-GLBT language (A measure :-:..~’:mainstream" community’s’t3feranc~",.W,e~O.ra~..e.r,g~.t.:the. :;~.’deser~,~ng of th~ a~e writers Barry Hensley, Lamont condemning recognition of same-sex Tel~ ~atioushi~s re- : hews to all, eveni~f ,i.t,’ ,c0’..s,t~ .u~.i~o,’ ~,~"~i’-; ...... . ..... :, Lindsttom, Mary Sch¢ppers, Jean-Pierre LeGrandbouche mained in Thomt~son’s draft and other~disciiminatorw ~ ¯ Which brings us-to this: it ]ias.]~,en.~a:i~biJi 0Yl0ve, nut’s. ~ (~ho t~ally, really is not me!), Karin Gregory, long-time measurea~Were later olaced back in the’platform after ¯ .~oney. Tulsa seems trUli oF people.who.thmk that thergare ;. ,advertasers Kelly Kirby, Tim Darnel, Vanessa Welch, St. religious fi~ht activist~wresfled the dotuineiit away fro~~ ’~:7’big bucks to be,made, in loCa!...pub!is.h~ Pl,,eAs~.. e tlfink ¯ ." .Michad’s Alley, TOHR, MCC United, David. Kauskey theVvV~scon~in ~overnor) ............. ,, .’i~:L~ain. 1-iSi:6iiiiseyoutha~it~Xl0t,s~.The~¢i~areas0n that i. ~.madt]~e.bthers who make it possible to print thisnewspaThomp~iJn al~o has b~n a positive advo~ate for AIl~g,." 7 Lhave anothgr, j~b ~, ~,e,ll as pubii a this, fiJ paper .per~ And I must add particular thanks to our printer (and fundin~"He~stron~lv suooorted the R~an-White Care Act. : .-, Of ourse, it wg~lfidn thur(ifinbi:etfTulsa s Gayxxwncd ;..hi.sogo,ood and patient staff), who despite beingafaithful andh~litMe~,aid~aiversforHiV_~p0sitivepeople,,. :_, i~us~iiesses"a~.~.i~Tg,~_~:i,~tio~ ~ere supporting,..u~., ,!~ can :, ,~.uth~..rn Baptist, s~d we had a right to get .our,news who are"~i~t-normallv elioible for Medi~d until they:." ""thinkofadoge~i’~sdwhocould~doso.,Graatcdi~ma.’ghtnot ": printedaudhasdone~0f°rmostofoursevenyear*,71oour have dev~’iooed AID~ s~toms. : : . ..... ~ ~’~: :. ~:ltfin~-thefii2as much beaef~t. ,~. ~ ~a~:W~.r!~d..gr.~ban : ::~adei:’s,-Ialsoaddmythanks foryourinterestand.ev,eryonce That’s two marks m favor of Thomp~qn - and in ....:l:ulsaa~tbut~t,als0.,w..o0!~...t,,,eg,~s~t,a t,eg~th.~f.:pne percent as ., m,a while, your feedback .......... oppos~ih~Tli6mpson’s nomination as Secre.,.ta:rY of Health. i~ much. ~Atld ~e,,r,e,, ~i~s;~,s0.m..._e.._.~.’n_go to_ .~e. zaid~;f,o.r, su.pporti.n.,g ; .7 ~.Las.t,:I..ran pr,oud to, n.ote th~at~, Tu~,a F,amily~,N¢.e~v~s ~.h~ nndlffii~t~h’.q~rviee~ the National Ga~aJ~sbianTask "~ your own,.as wett as not, justsupporlingguDncattons wtm ~ ¯ ,o.e,eu 0a.Oed to me arcmves oI me uraanoma rUs.totacat Force does ~ot trlvlal~ze their importance.. _. ant~-Gay hlstonesl~,i~l~s¢like,the.W~Ld,.a0d L~!7,.~.;,.~s;,a : : -:~.99xe.t~ Th,e .S,oc~,ety w~il! als~o, be~mlcrofil~.mi,’ng,co~p~¢8 of Butatgrii~inled and t~rogressive GLBTYnitfvement for ¯ community, we reatLy~oon ,t-sup.p0rt e~,c.O,,o,~e,~.~e.r.y Een. o. ~me paper wmcn men .~tusa t~ty t_.ounty LtoratT, ~yst,em .............. Now suing,will ~ay. that s because we wnte things which .. o ¯ w-ill be soclal~ustace must demandbetter ......... ¯ ,"¯ ¯ ......... ; ........... : ........... _.. ...... . ,abl to add to their permanent collex~taon ¯ ¯ Tulsa ¯ As ~’Cb~ia scott Kin~ recently noted at NGLTF’~-~:_,o_anger p.~0pl, g (.o,.r.00W t.c~ver things ,,vhich-anger~ some.¯ ,.,Faintly.News al_~_O ~c,alled and encouraged the.Gayly Oklarecen( ci(eatino Chanoe ~,onferen~e:~n~’~f the stories ¯ others). We have pubiiSl~l’e~/ti{als,critical of ctmml~- : : , ho~aan to donate opies of their productionto.th¢.OHSso behind’th’e~No~en~ger ~{~00 election is~l~3~recedented : nity leaders, articles which, were. ~’n’~l-c,hl .0f. I=I!Vii.A_ifi.s : :, ~e of Oklahoi~a’s Lesbian and Gay.history, win be coalition’-buildin~ "In a way we hav~t~s~id an object ’: i~o~bans, eVoi~fiti’~tl ofL~sbianown,ex!r.estaurants,local ¯ ¯ preserved.TFN will alsobe donating our copies of defunct lesson in’t~e nower of coalition unity:’~ Mrs Kin~ said "I " and nanonal theatrical producuons, and-more; .-.That ,s, of ¯. Oklahoma LGBT pubhcattons to the OHS as w~ell.. think we havre just seen.the future~ Am~fican°dem~ : : course; precisely what.,The.Tul~a:Wor~d doe~ daydn_aiid : . Here’s to a good year in 2001 for you and for us. racy flash before our eyes last Tuesday (Nov. 7). The " coalition.that gave AI Gore a popular majority can surely be as powerful as the New Deal coalition that transformed America in an earlier era." Quotingtheimmortal words of herhusband, Mrs. King ¯ During each year of the program’s duration, four Messen- : journalists, communications specialists and GLBT activsaid, "We -are~all ~tied together in a: single garment of. ~.! .gerzAnderson scholarships .will be available at a rate of ¯ ists will select the .winners.. The scholarship competition destiny...An inescapable network of mutuality...I can $5,000 the first year, renewable at $2,500 the next two ¯ is only open to undergraduate college students and to years for a possible total award of $10,000. never be what I ought to be until you are allowed to be : graduatinghigh school seniors. Applicants must bepursuwhat you ought to be." " Winners are required to.participate ,in a paid Messenger- ¯ ’ing a bachdor’s degree in journalism. In instances,where So in envisioning abroad-based, progressive coalition, Anderson Scholarship Intern Program at NGLTFoffices in ¯ colleges or universities do not offer such a degree, appliI think we must think of those who have suffered and will " Washington, D.C. or New York City during the summer of : cants must be able to.demonstrate that they are pursuing a suffer under a Bush-Tommy Thompson agenda. Based " 2001. To download scholarship guidelines and an applica- : career in either journalism or commtmications advocacy, Founded in 1973, NGLTF works to eliminate prejudice, on his record, how would we expect Thompson to treat ." tion,.please visit www.nglff.org/about/messenger.htm. For ¯ poor GLBT people who need social services? If he ¯ questions about the scholarship, email delliot@ngltf.org. violence and injustice against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and punishes poor women for having too many children, how " No phone calls, please. ." -Transgendered people at the local, state and national level. do we think he’s going to treat GLBT parents who need Applications fortheNGLTFMessenger-Anderson Schol- : As part of a broader social justice moyement for freedom, hdp providing for their kids? How will his support for a ." arship .Fund must be postmarked by Feb. 15, 2001¯ Win- . justice and equality, NGLTF is creating a world that pro-heterosexual-marriage agenda in wdfare policies : ners will be announced this spring, and the awards, will be ¯ respects the diversity of human expression and identity impactOUt:eoramunity?., ~,, ~., ., -,.’." .;. see .NGLTF,,p, 11, ,.:- ~distributed~’in~August.-~200~l,:, .’A, committee ,of, working ~ ,.where all people ,may.fully participate in society: ......... �Anti-Gay Petition Filed ¯ Federal and-state constitutions forbid s~hools from banniug books because officials disapprove of their SALEM; Ore. (AP) - Just weeks after Oregon voters vlewpoxnts. defeated an anti-Gay rights measure, Lon Mabon and Enterline said she ordered the books over the sumhis Oregon Citizens Alliance have filed-a similar mer because the library lacked biographies and she initiative petition for the 2002 ballot. Mabonfiled the wanted students to havethe chance to learn about Gay initiative, dubbedthe Student Protection Act II, with the secretary of staters office. If it qualifies for the andLesbianrolemodels.’qThebooksarenotaboutsex. ballot, it would .be the OCA’s fourth anti-Gay civil ".. They are just about people, who have ledlnteresting, rights ballot measure.. Voters rejected measures in i productive-livesandalsohappen¯ . . , . ....... to be Gay,"_ .... saidTom 1992 and 1994. " .... Kovac; the school s hbrary- technician. :~end_ C~thy Ellioi~ Measure" 9 would have prohibited instruction in ¯ It isn’t the first time the district bahned booKS’. TWO : years ago, the district removed the Pulitzer Prizepublic gchools~aat "encourages, promotes or sanctions" behaviors related to homosexuality and bisexu- :¯ wiariinghoog,~"Beloved;r$~-f~y Toni M0rrison;.because 918/838-1715 : 1623 N~ Maplewood of complaints that it was too graphic in its descriptions ahty. Th~new xmttattve says sexual onentatton shal of a strivewho kiils l~er daughte~ instead 0f-ha4ing her not be taught in Oregon public schools in iimauner that ~ live as a slave. ,.; .......... would express approval of, promote or endorse homosexual ot bisexual behaviors." Sexual orientation and homosexuality are defined as yielding, whether x thought of deM,_respectivdy, to urges fr~iiaptations to en~a~eifl sexu~ activity with members of the same -:’ :~ ’ gender. :~ :~’ B’ALTI~(~RE’(AP)" ~-’The ~city s ~housing . ~,-~In th~ fall ~afiapaign, lV!easure 9 oppoif~n(s said the ii sioner was arre,sted after refusing tO lea~i~-a b~, ~vhere meastii~~fifil(ed ~Children s health beCMii~’ it wou~! ~ h~b~htter’eomplained-~the commissioner made relimit AIDS;edt~ation in schools and le~d (6 increased ~t Cbthinunity of Hope peh~ed -disparaging remarks~ab0ut p.atrons h~ Su~spect~,,ed teen suicide. 7 ~ " ! ~ff being Gay. "You "gttys° are fags;~ and-"-ttfi~ whole The iie~¢’initiative says.the,,propos~AiS~te sh.o.u!,d : ~ra~ i~’friil’ 6f fags"~were’amofig the r~maik~:~ ph~flT. 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 not be~ci)fi~i,e,d,,ias limiting: age-appt.o.p~ate, ot~jecGT~fii~6 ~lS~t~dlym.ade, a, ~ording A Welcoming Congregation ,fil~d, b,~Offi~r E~cert ~Lut adeju. tive,~"dt’aetual ’AIDS educati,o,n, in~ii-ii~fi’bn reg~d~ ing hum~iii ~exuality, t~aching affi~.")i~"~the hnniim :" Gr’a~iano,47,:~cas arre~t&l ~Bertha wortli~Of"alI~st~dents,’ or suicide consoling. The and restaurant in the historic Fells Point waterfront statute al~0 ~hould not cause the firing!.ofbpenly Gay : diSLri~fi~p6li~e~pokeawomar~Ragina A~erdl’a ~Sitid. teachers, the proposal says. Ellen L0we, who worked on the Nd 6n 9campai~i, .i :Afi~r t~in~’t~i~nore~ the~remarks, the t~V~i:~at~fns, HOUSE. oF THE HOLY sPIRIT E~w~rd, 2~, and Prasad Narasimhff Ki~duvhlli, said the new effort would not persuad~ :~;0ters WI~ i~; Jason 33, asked the bartender to ask Grazi.ano to leave, the rejected the measure to switch side~. "I sense that Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am people really do understand the motive~,0f Lon Mabon. : ¯ "Police v~eiie ~alled because Mr. Graziano hadb~n " we Wed. Bible Study, 7 pro, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pro I don’t know that they are going to be fooled, Lo -~isked,to leave and refus~.ed~ to dO :so; , Averell~-s~tt~ ~. said. ¯ "P61iC~ were called to.the sceneandheSfill refli~ed’~o In a fund-raising letter dated Dec. 18, Mabon, the ¯ 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 leave~ .and- he-was ptaced..under arrest. The officer. OCA~s executive director, told supporters that ~e .advised the-suspecii repeatedly, to leave;and arrested,, antt-"Measure 9. campaign "spent close, to- a million i Gra~iimo after he Said ,I don’4 have to go anyw.here~I dollars, promoting this lie" about A!DS educataon: the report said. Graziano, who was initially, charged "We must file right away to keep the homosexual with disorderly conduct, was released from the-city activists in our schools from:taking more license w!~ detention center later the morning of his arrest, the our innocent children," the letter said. police spokeswoman .said. Gtaziano, a senior adviser and former general manYoung Adult Support Group ager of theNew York City. Housing. Authority,. ,was Outreach Program Thurs. Nights appointed in October after former commi ssioner Patricia Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Hayne resigned following disagreement with Mayor Martin O’Malley over.how to run the department. Call for meeting times and place: SANTA ANA, Calif. (AP) - Two students sued the ¯ Graziano will not be prosecuted, said Deputy State’s Anaheim Union High School District for removing 10 ¯ Attorney Haven Kodeck. "Based on our guidelines, we biographies on homosexuals from their school library ¯ determined that prosecution was not warranted," in what they contend is a violation of constitutional : Kodeck said. "The situation was abated by Mr. free-speech rights. ¯ Graziano’s arrest and removal from the situation;" A The Orangeview Junior High School students.said ¯ telephone call by The Associated Press to OrMalley’s in the U.S. District Court lawsuit that the district ¯ office was not returned. censored a book series called "Lives of Notable Gay II "- 11 " ’ M( c’United._..:i ,Baitimore:,officialSlams : Gays,,ThenGets Arrested Community U nitat: Univ e rsalist Congregation The Open Arms Project School Charged With. Censorship of Gay Bios 918-584-2325 Men and Lesbians." The books include biographies on tennis player Martina Navratilova, economist John Maynard Keynes, and writers Willa Cather and James Baldwin. " ¯ The American Civil Liberties Union, which filed the suit oi~ behalf-of the two unidentified students, de- ." manded that the district immediately return the books ¯ to the library shelves. "We all know why these books -" have been banned;" ACLU attorney Martha Matthew s ¯ said. "The books were banned because they had a _" . positive statement to make to kids about Gay and ¯ Lesbian people.. ¢Fhe books were banned because of ¯ deep-seated prejudice." "¯ Principal Barbara Smith removed the books and ¯ took them to the district office in September, the suit ¯ said. No reason was given by administrators, ¯" Orangeview library teacher Chris Enterline said. "In my heart, I know it’s because they. are about Gays and ! Lesbians, and it says so on the front of the book," ¯ ~ Enterline said. Telephone calls to Smith weren’t returned. " Conneetieut Scouts Try to Explain Anti-GayViews HARTFORD, Conn. (AP) - Connecticut Boy Scfut officials have distributed more than 25,000 copies of a pamphlet explaining the national organization’s teason~ for not accepting openly Gay members or adult leaders. "It is a statement of who we are and what our belief system is," said Douglas Ktofina, executive director of the Yankee Council, based in Milford. The pamphlet, called "In Support of Values: A Communication Tool for Parents, Leaders and Friends of Scouting," outlines the policy that was narrowly up,h~eld by the U.S. Supreme Court. "I’his is a complicated issue, but our critics are jumping up and down saying we discriminate," said Krofina, whose council serves 25,000 youths in most of New Haven and Fairfield counties. ’q~he court said we have a First Amendment fight to MingoValley Flowers 9413 E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-444-5934 Family Owned & Operated Trinna L. W. 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" atheistscan_ " the atheists been more organized, they would have ° we were,uncomfortable. If you eliminate that factor, it reached the Supreme Court first, and the court would ¯ makes [t;aiot easier to have a good .’.time." -have-niled the same. way," : To ensure that that sense of security is maintained at ..... The naiion’h highest court ruled in July thatothe Boy .." -all times, owner Peggy Thomas does not allow heteroScouts may bar Gay.s.,from:servmg as troop,leaders, .... sexuals to c,amp by themselves at the xanch. "I will ¯ 6oncluding that forcing the Scouts to accept Gay allow tffemili~ey come with Gay,campers, but not if )..eaters w~dyiolate~eo~ganization’.s First ~anend- ¯ -they come by themselves," Thomas .said.."I think it’s ment right of free’expression. ~ . ." important to have a place where you can. be yi)urself, The .a~pplieation. for adult leaders does not ask.a ¯ ._ hereyoudon t have to have strmgkt,peoplestarlng at candidate’s sexuall orientaffon, and Scouting has-~an .you. I opgned it because I liked Caml~i,ng and i didn’t unofficial "don’t ask, don’t tellY.policy similar to the : like being stared at." -..... militm-y. ’.s,;Krofina said .... ." Thomas said she picked out the location near Charlotte Begins: Gay. . Center Fundraisers Groesbeck because the land was cheaper than in other areas..Another nice aspect, she said, was. a tree line separadngmost of the grounds from the road outside, ." affording campers a little more privacy. That barrier ¯ makes campers feel more comfortable about being ¯ near such arural town, said Winn, althoughhe says the ¯ people of Groesbeck have been nice to them. Although the camp hasn’t had any trouble with the ¯ .. residents of Groesbeck or any other local people, the ¯ camp’s Web site did experience asetbacklately. While ¯ tryi~,g to locate the camp’s site on several search ; engines, Johnsen found out that it had been kicked off ¯ most of them - an act that requires some kind of ¯ complaint lodged against the business. ; Because most of the camp’s business is generated by Internet searchers, thathurt camp attendance, he said. e found outpurely by accident that we were dropped ¯ from the search engines," Johnsen said. "But we rereg: istered with all of them, and in 8 months we have had CHARLOTI’E, N.C. (AP) - Backers of a proposed communitycenter for Gays in the Charlotte area have be.g}m a campaign to generate financial support for the project. The center would serve the region’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender population with child care, sporting events, support groups and educational seminars. The center’s soon-to-be-announced board of trustees plans to begin a fund-raising campaign to buy a site. "We are looking for a place that is going to be accessible tomost of the community," said Dan KJ!’.sch, a member of a committee putting together the fundraising campaign. Kirsch said the center also will welcome memberships from Charlotte’s non-Gay population. Depending on the success of the fund-raising cam, .. over 10,000 visits, and business has picked up." "It really amazes me, the perceptions that still exist paign, supporters expect a center loeation to be secured ¯ ." that we are out here doing something strange, but it is in two or three years. Lone ,Star Living: Gay Camping Near Waco : ¯ ¯ really just like a typical campground," Johnsen said. "Our sexual identity is just a part of us, but this is a place where thatis not anissue and we can do the things we enjoy, whether it be fishing or boating or hiking. There’s just really something for everyone here." WACO, Texas - Located off.a bumpy~.gravelled road, with an inconspicuous sign and a line of trees blockin,g the ,scenic lakeside view, ,it might be said that the Rainbow Ranch has been in the,closet for the past five years..The Gay and Lesbian campground, which is just ¯ SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - A group of more than 300 outside Groesbeck, has become one of Central Texas’ ¯ Gay and Lesbian Mormons and their family is asking best kept secrets, said Nell Johnsen, a guest turned ¯ The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to ranch manager. "We, are. remotely located, and not ¯ change its stance on homosexuality. The loosely knit ¯ highlypublicized, so alot of people don’rknowthat we group "Mormon Advocates for Further .Light and ¯ are out here," Johnsen said." Knowledge" ran an advertisement with a petition in Even’Jolmsen and his partner, Kelvin.Winn~. wlao ; The Salt LakeTribune late in December. manage, the campgrbtmds~, stumbled upon .the xanch ¯ : The document.called upon Mormon general authori¯ accidentally while taking a.two~year, trip .around the taes to repudiate church statements about homosexual_ United States. "We ca~e here almost by mishap," ; ity that are false and misleading. The petition said that " "I found the Web page while we were in 7 would include the church’s position that "same-sex J6tmsensmd. Arizona, and we decided to stop in and. see..It-was .. attraction is an undesirable and unnatural emotion, going to be a two-week stop, but we’ve been here £or ¯ Which, whenacted upon results in sinful, Satan-inthe past nine.months." ] spired behavior." Church spokesman Dale Bills said it Theserenity Of the location, with campgrounds ~ is too early to respond to the petition, but that "Presioverlooking Lake Limestone and a small forest teemdent Gordon B. Hinckley has repeatedly expressed the ing’with wildlife, helps to draw many regulars to the ¯ .Church’s. compassion toward homosexuals." ranch from major cities through0tit Texas and"the ¯ The.petition’s author, Mac Madsen, said the petition entire country. But it’s reallypriyacy and.the comfort ¯ is a last-ditch appeal to church leaders for meaningful of being able to spend time out in the open with their i -dialogue about homosexuality. He said he has pleaded partners that keeps couples coming back. ¯ for two years with church leaders to hear them out. The ~ "It’s just the simple things,like holding your partner’s ¯ .former Weber_State University healthy-lifestyles prohand as you walk through the wood~," Johnsenaaid. "It : fessorandmen’s golf coach saidhemailedthepetition can’be uiieasy for f01kswith a partner of the same sex ¯ to churchleaders more than a year a.g0 _.a0~d he_r~eg.ei.v_ed ’t6be thi~m~elves af.othef campgrounds’; so the comfort ¯no response.. factor is areal draw here." " ] Madsen originally planned to run the ad during the Sinc~ beginning theif travels at their li0ni~ ¯ Church’s Octo.~berGeneral Conference, butlackedfunds. Vmi~ouver, Wash’,, J0hii~en mid Wimi li~tg~ experiNo names appear due to space constraints;but Madsen efi~d theanxiety Of Staying’ el’s’ewhere: ................ said more than 300 individuals from 12,countries and °°’W~wetestaymg.ata’ very niceRV park, and I was ,most states,.backed it. Madsen initially, hesitated to " " " "’ JOlmsen ’ " ’~ I stud " "’~’" .... *’ "" ~s " OUtsxde gnlfing, said. something have his name.printed, hoping to protecLhis daughter, basic as; ’Honey, can you pasgm8 ~li~’tong~?’ ~d you , .who is a LeSbian. But, he said, "thereis~nothing in the couldjiist f~ei th~i00ksfftfi~ the 8"6iipi~in th~ext’R~( :petition that I’m ashamed of or that’s inaccurate." ¯ Group Asks Mormonsto ¯ Change Anti-Gay Policy �Gay, Black And Positive in Chicago the nation’s black men, ages 25 to 44, according to the federal Centers for Disease Control. And still, there is a hesitance to address CHICAGO (AP) - Harsh is a word that it openly, even in the black community could describe the streets of Chicago’s struggling Austin neighborhood, where ¯ itsdf. "Even now when someone dies with trust is scarce- and two men walking hand " AIDS, people will say it was pneumonia," in hand might fear for their lives. : says the Rev. Jesse Jackson, who is among a growing number of black church leaders It’s the sort of place where Derrick Hicks, whois openly Gay and HIV-positive, could " who are preaching about AIDS from their wither away unnoti.ced, another statistic ¯ pulpits and publicly getting tested for HIV. They hope to raise the comfort level for a dusty filing cabinet. And withering ¯ away he is - though he is hardly going ." among black followers who are worried quietly. Even as he struggles to lift his " aboutbeing tied to the most common forms increasingly thin frame out of bed each." of transmission - namely Gay male sex and intravenous, drug use. morning, Hicks is still one of Chicago’s It is no easy task. In 1998, employees for most vocal advocates for the U.S. popula- ¯ tion hardest-hit by the AIDS-epidemic: " Howard Brown Health Center, a Chicago poor Blacks. : clinic long known for its care of AIDS So when Frank Oldham Jr. - a bigshot ¯ patients, carried a banner in the annual Bud Billikenparade- ahuge event founded AIDS administrator who’s run programs in New York and the District of Columbia ¯ by the city’s most prominent black news- came to town two years ago, it surprised ¯ paper publisher - and recall being met no one when Hicks welcomed Chicago’s " with hushed stares. The following year, new AIDS czar with a friendly warning. " officials at the nonprofit agency filed a "Hi, my name is Derrick Hicks," he " complaint with the city Commission on said, shaking Oldham’s hand."And I’m ¯ Human Relations, claiming that a South going to be your worst nightmare." Qui- ¯ Side Chicago realtor told them he couldn’t etly, however, Hicks was hopeful. He al- " rent them a space for a new clinic for fear of losing other.tenants. They have since ready knew that he and Oldham had some things in common. Oldham, too, was a ¯ found a space elsewhere in the neighborBlack, Gay man in a city where the combi- " hood. Oldham has had challenges of his own nation of thoselabels can make for aheavy " namely trying to unite nonprofits that, load. " before his arriv~al, were warring over limIn June, Oldham made another public ited funding while dealing with a growing revelation. "I... too, am a face of AIDS," number of HIV-positive people who were the 51-year-old New Yorker said’,-revealsurviving, but still in dire need of sei’vices. ing his HIV-positive status in a speech at a Gay vs. straight~ black vs. white vs. conference for Midwest AIDS agencies. Hispanic, rich vs, poor - the divisions Some of Oldham’ s own colleagues were stunned, but not Hicks. By that time, the : -were deep in a city WhereMayor Richard two men had forged a friendship, a bond -. Daley was sometimes,booed,and even that has supported their respective fights :¯ pelted with .condoms, over. the way- his against a virus that is sapping theii very :. admini s trati on had handled the.epidemic ¯ lifeblood. "He knows more about my health ¯ in the early to mid:i1990S. ~Even...now, Oldham- has, about $20 millionin funding than my own mother," said Hicks, who has " , to dole, out~ to AIDS, agencies: that he says fended ~off three bouts of pneumonia in 2000 alone and often directs the West Sid~ : could easily put; te~ times that much-.to ¯ good use.,~ ~ ¯ ~ -.~ neighborhood health services agency he Still, though it hasn’t alivayS been~easy founded from home. "To have one like me ¯ there," he say~ of Oldham, "’has made all : ’ ~or this admi_’tted!y private man.to shat’~ his : ,story, Oldham*is wetl’-versedinadversRy. the differenc~,"~ ,-A rising:star in-.the~.administrations-’of Though:..th.eir~openness is rare, Hicks ~i -,former ~lqew. York,m~yors-Ed Koch-and and Old_are far from alone. While the~ make up abgut !3%of~the nation s pop - ~" David Dinkins,. Oldha~ t’6ok a~,leave,,in of: Columbia, s iation, BlaCk .p~op!e represent about 37% :1 1994 tO run. ~the District ........... of the nearly ~05,-.000 AIDS cases report~ - ¯~A,IDSprogramTsho~yafterRudy Ginliani ~" ,~became ,New Y~rk. s,mayor: .:Frustrated nationwi,d.~ through Dee. 1999. And the n.umber; Qf ,those who’ve develop~ ;: -with the,sloiw,pace,of, progress in.Washfull-blo_wnl .AIDSI .or-died from it la~is : °ington, Oldham mo~ced ba~k to N~w York ¯ after justsix months; inpart; to care for.his dropped .dr~matica!ly in som.e ~.uarter.s, i -elderly,parenW-who"were,-slippi,ng into the drop.~h~...been much less stgnilicant : senility~fid.someiimes’forgetfing’me~very ~i the Hispanic..an~, particularly, Black com¯ face of their.0nly ekild.munities, ~ ~ ...... ; : In the months that followed, he began "A lotldf i~{r.ei~tes to lack of access to ;what he~c~.l,e~.~:~a’~Mp,w~n.~arii ~pjrtfl~7~He health .cax¢~’~:~.s~y.s~ Victor Barnes, deP_U.tY ~lso d~id~ i~ ~t test~xt for HIV- to director .f~ov~g.. ~,DC’s !-IIV prevention ,unit:But_~e.~ad:d.~_ that~Blaek people who ¯ .finally ’~tiifiTfiii wha~:lle’d already:, sus¯ ~tea ’~tti F~rlil~e~ ~".oujust~vant-to ,are:HIV_~po.si,_ti~ve, o£te,~.~ seek ~reatment in ’w’~ ~lkd"o~vn" a~oadand jts’~keep :g~ifi~ti,~,, the later-~Lgtg¢S: of .the illness. "And that -the road runs but andyou fall’0ff the rift,’ often has.~Q, d9, .W!.~ stigma - and dem , ~Oldham Says: of :thai period inhis-life:Barnes:said~ In.~.,cago alone,3,670blaek " It was hardy th~ life lie hadenvisioned residents; or 57%,of the total cases, were ¯ in the early 1980s.H~was h jazz Singer living with AIDS at the end of June 2000. That compares:with 27% for whites and : who took acting class’ s-on the Side and ¯ 15% for Hispanics. ¯ dreamed ofmaking ’CDs. Butwhennearly 20 of his frleiids-ineludingthebest friend Meanwhile, the number of deaths in : who was also his composer Lbegan dying major cities nationwide have helped make AIDS the leading illness-related killer of : of amystefious, ruthless ldller CalledAIDS, i Power Connect. Public Service Company of Oklahoma Service Is ~Now Available 24 Hours A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours" aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. 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The CDC’s Barnes calls the relationship ¯ Judy Crider, program manager .at the that Oldham has built between grassroots ¯ Scottsdale Prevention Institute, said she AIDS organizers and his agency, the Chi- ¯ believes there is no disparity between the . cago Department of Public Health, "a na- : national Survey and local teens. "Unfortutional example." ¯ nately, there’s a myth out there that if you Others agree. "Frank has brought us : have oral intercourse, you’re not going to some sense of civility and diversity and ¯ getdiseases,"Cridersaid.Cridersaidteens " " ¯ unfortunately internalized one of the argucomm onpurpose," says Greg Harris,chief of staff for Chicago Alderman Mary Anne ¯ ments used by President Clinton when he Smith, whose Ward includes Chicago’s ¯ defended his affair with intern Monica largest Gay neighborhood. That neighbor- : Lewinsky by proclaiming that oral sex is hoodis filled with trendy shops and restau- ¯ notsex.ThehugepushinAIDS awareness ¯ rants on a main drag lined with rainbow education, meanwhile, leads kids to becolumns that mark it as Chicago’s "offi- " lieve they can only get the disease from cial" Gay neighborhood¯ ¯ traditional intercourse, she said. It is a stark contrast to Hickg’ side of town, where his own agency tries hard to blend in. There are no rainbow flags and the word "Gay" is hardly uttered. "To lay with another man is a sin; a lot of 0eople would like to say that just doesn’t hap- ¯ EUGENE, Ore. (AP) - A University of pen," Hicks says, describing what he calls : Oregon researcher plans to study whether the general attitude in the black commu- : women are willing to use a diaphragm not : just to prevent pregnancy but also to pronity. "It’s not talked about." So even his organization, which serves . tect them from sexually transmitted disGay, Bisexual and Black clients, has a . eases. The National Institutes of Health nondescript name: the Greater Chicago : has awarded a $1 million grant to the ¯ three-year project, which will interview Committee. And when they come to his ¯ current and former diaphragm users and agency’s food pantry or clothing bank, he .try to get young women at risk of contractasks whether they are "sexually active" : ~ng STDs to use the device. and encourages them to get tested. It is estimated that today just 2% of "You have to meet them where they : are," Hicks says. Oldham agrees "If you’re ¯ contraceptive users rely on the small,discAfrican American,_ you’re fighting rac- " shaped cap that a woman fits over her cervix, creating a physical barrier to pregism.; if’ you:re African- American, you’re ¯ nancy. When used correctly, diaphragms probably fighting poverty.. So now in your own community-,, you’re .going .to fight :¯ ,arejust as effective as condoms inpreventhomophobia?" Oldham says. "You’dhave ¯ mg pregnancy. They are’also known to prevent some STDs, such as gonorrhea .to b~n awfully strong individual with a and chlamydia, although it’s not known if lot of support to come, up .and-say, ’I’m African American and I’m v~r~.proud to " flaey guard against HIV, the virus that can Iead to AIDS. Currently, reSearCh is unbe Gay, very proud to .be Lesbian and this derway on new methods for "preventing ¯ is .my partner,~ ?2 the spread of STDS‘ such as miCrobicides. ~Thete are.days when:taking:the lead on But Marie Harvey, research director at all of those frontstakesits totl,on Oldham. ¯ : ¯ the UO’s Center for the Study of Women But~’even~ when?ressed~ he.talks more fn Society, said diaphragms mayheld fill a .about-the health o£those around him than i niche for women at rihk o,f getting STDs his-0~n.~ Still, ,Hick~. says.ilie~ liears the .": ~tntil new methods are proven. fatigue.ifi" his friend’S xoice,-, especially -" Harvey is conduc~t~.g the ’study,, along wh,,e,~n,’they charon the phone.late a,t night. w ith co-researcher Sher~[ Bird. If the ." Wefietoeaeh~the~,.:. but~we reb~ diaphragm protects against (some) STDs .starting- to- feel, our, a£g and, Our.,illness ;’ ~agnd pregnancy, and might ,offer prbtection .:sa~* Hicks,, ~,ho:dedines.to. giY.e his own against HIV, it ,co,.uld ~.-h.’. Wonderful opage~buLpredicts his own death in. the next , tion for women~ Harveysai& -. five year.s.’~ut-not before-he.gets more .~ Harvey got the idea-0fstadying the ~ mark done.,, t, have a, mission,’LHicks says. ’_ -~ffectiveness of diaplir~igms>~use of "And it’s not my ~ another study she’s doing that shows high. risk couples how to ~)i?ote~t :themselves : :during sex, primarilythrdugh ~the use of a MESA, Ariz.. (AP).r.,~t,d,~,,zP,.n.,a. ,19,ealth ex- ¯-~ondom. It’s clear the’ d6iidttm protects pertsLare..,c9,~cerned abou[reSults of a’ na- : against STDs, but~it~ md4~S C~fil~Olled~by :.ti0nal. s~dY. s.h.~)wi~g ~’~ ~ies~nts be- ¯ -the male-and some.atien~,gcOn!t~uste them, ¯ she said. The benefits of the diaphragm is lieve sexually, transmi [ted diseases can ¯ that it can be iusert~t ~p’to’"two hours only.be ,contracted through .sexual inter"before sex, is not vislbl’e"and the man course, and not other .typ~s. Of. physical contact. The Centers for Disease Control [ doesn’t have to know thewoman is using it, Harvey said. " ....... and Prevehtion study Shows that 15% to Harvey believes the diaphragm is a valu20% of young men and .women will be-. able tool for women. "I.f WOmen can’t get come infected with herpes by.the time they a man to use a condom, the diaphragm is a reach adulthood. good option, period," she said, "even if we Doug Hauth, public information officer don’t find out it protects against HIV." Diaphragms May Reduce STD Risk Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether single or as couples: Electronic filing is available for fastei:refunds: 4021 South HarvardAv hue; Suite 210, Tulsa 74t35 i Are You Gay, or Bisex .ual? Are You " Tulsa’, Two-Spirited Indi:~’‘ Supra Group ~s here for you! ¯ E~ening sup~ group.~ ~gs Relation~ip workshOp~ ¯ ’ Sho~ tdps, .outings an~ ~ats ¯ Free HIV testing ....... For information call Tulsa° NatiVe American’AIDS:P~evei~ti6n ProjeCt 918.588.1900~ x4275 or x~,27& " i Teens: orailsn,t Sex �¯ -and’performingin Houston. 2~2 .. Happy Ne~ year! H~d to believe it’s Unforttmatdy, the price of the benefit ~2001. I hop~:iihelnew~iyear brings your " .was .beyond,my reach at the, time,, or I hopes and d~anS’~fi~tion, would have .been the~e. I read of a few .:.Great nev~!~ern2iidette Peters returns : moreperformances,maiulyatPoorDavid’s ::tO~ Tulsa Jan ~i .an.d~6~-.th for a~, evening of : Pub.in Dallas, but usually ! learned of the ,showtunes ~ao,.d;gl ~am~our! S~e s one of the ¯ performanceafter.thefact.~d~inceithas :fewpeopleI~es~performherethatcan : become a t~adition fin tliis column, she ¯ ~rap an entire audience . performed a Stevie " everyone should ¯ arot~nd her fi~igerwith },Iicks song from the " s~emingly, eff0rtle~s~ ~ "" ~ . ~ . 1981Steviealbum, Belher show, espeeaally just to ease.Sheperform~vith ladonna 2 "The High.thePhil, andifyouwant wayman." I really wish see ff she performs to see a true star, then I’d been there for that! "Makln, Love Alone" don’t miss her concert! "Love DeFor tickets, call cides" is her first album a~aln .... 596-7111. in 18 years, and if you And yes, it is about what I really think that evhave a lover, it’s the eryone should see her perfect Valentine’ s gift, you might think... " show, especially just to and if you don’t have a see if she performs lover, get it for your"Making Love Alone" again. (I heard the ." self. Her voice wraps around you like an song on her "Sondheim, etc.: Live at ¯ old friend’s hug, and can make the hardest Carnegie Hall" CD, a recording of a ben- " bitterest heart melt to mushy goo in no efit she did for Gay Men’s Health Crisis. ¯ time flat. And yes, I speak from experiAnd yes, it is about what you might think, : -ence. The tide track, "Love Decides".is an and she wasn’t going to perform it last ¯¯ . ode to the fact that sometimes, feelings can time she was here due to the rep Tulsa has take youby smprise, tuming somcone you ¯ wouldn’t ordinarily be attracted to into the of being, well, prudish. Can’t imagine why, what with the preying hands and all. : love of your life, and you will have no Happily, Robert Reed, then artistic di- ¯ choice in the matter. So enjoy it. My other rector of the Phil talked her into it, and the ; favorite is "Night Song", telling the story audience loved it. I was able to thank her : of realizing someone that you’ve grown for including it after the show. Shffs,. a ." fond of could be apotential love. She does lovely woman, and so tiny! You’d never ¯ a great cover of October Project’s "Bury ¯ MyLovely" - no not about murder. More think so to see her onstage, since she ¯ projects such a larger, than life persona. a song of how you are wrong for this And never underestimate the power of big ¯ person, and basically they should forget hair! Again, this will be the don’t miss ¯ you. The song I identify with~0stis "I ¯ had A Man." Get out of the gutter. More event of the Phil’s season. So don’t miss it! I am pleased to announce the new CD ¯ like, "Well, I could’ve done this or that, "Love Decides", Jane Oliver’s new re- ¯ but... I had aman. So I didn’t. Now he’s cording is one of the most rewarding lis- ¯ gone, and I’m stuck here, with thelife I’ve tens I’ve had in a long time. For those who : created. Damn, I should’ve done it!" haven’t heard her name, she was a cabaret : "Could’ve been we,~ffing rubies, Could’re diva and recording artist of the 70’s an~ ¯¯ been takin’ bows... Could’re been high society,-~could’ve been someone 80’ s. No one can beat her whenit comes to’ ¯ wringing every bit of emotion out of a proud...Should’ve had my silver spun, lyricl Her phrasing is impeccable, and her ; weaver that I am.., Should’ve been getting voice is angelic. She made four successful ¯ my work done - but I had this.., man.7 So, recordings from 1976 to 1982, which are : not all treacle and sweetness. "In The ¯ Moment" isa lovely upbeat rune, about still in print. She was rumored to have died of cancer at one point, since she never ¯ living in the now, and loving in the now. recorded any CDs after 1982’s"Jane Olivor ¯¯ So,it’s a manic depressive’s dream CD. "I Believe in You" is a lovely ode to friendin Concert". (Fhe other albums are "Jane Olivor - First Night" 1976; "Jane Olivor - " ship and support; and Jane covers "Colors Chasing Rainbows".1977; "Jane Olivor - _" of the Wind" with a magical quality that Stay the Night" 1978; and "Jane Olivor - ¯ Vanessa Williams could only hope to ¯ achieve. ’Tll be Hei’e" wraps you up in a Best Side of Goodbye" 1980. All are well worth a listen. Her version of "Vincent" ¯ warm blanket, a perfect song for those and "Some Enchanted Evening" are the .. down moments that crop up every, so ofdefinitive recordings of both songs.) . ten. Jane has an intimate quality that makes Well, I later found.she never had died. : .(Good it~gii,~’!:el~e:~e new CD would it seem she’s singing just for you, an amaz: .definitely~i~fi,~L~K~ so. y0~~expected ¯ ing thing to achieve on a studio recording. .2iiie to 16~ti~i-:’0~portunity~;~ass by? I would love to see her at the PAC - she, ¯ ~Puhleeze.) She,had.retired from recording like Jim Brickman, could make that hall due to being gyppedby the record com- ¯¯ seem like her living room, and make you fe~i like a gues~t in h.e.r li.,v~ng ~Q~om bythe pany she had~recorde~&the albums for. Left fire. Best Buy has the be,st price On the CD with a bitter taste in her mouth from the ,,experience, she :p.efformed live at small : at $12.99,, and for theperfe~t r0manfic gift, .you can t go wrong with any of Jane ..,.venues. To,.my ~s~e, she was practically in my!ba~k.;y~d?~I was living in Fort ¯ Olivor’s recordings, Ha.ve I ever.steered ¯ ~-Worth when,I,read sh~ was to perform at you wrong? Sodi~.the, ~igh~s,:!ight the .~ an AIDS benefit in:Dallas, and was living ¯ candles, .se_elaMuse p. 9 Congregation uriah i.ii’P~esents Featuring Ellen Kushner Hostof Public RadiO’s Sound & Spirit as heard on KWGS 89.5 Saturd~y,Janl 27th, 7:30pm, Tickets $5 1719 So. Owasso Avenue, Info: 583-7699 �by Karin Gregory Oh.-: .My...God! I think I should revise Melissa Etheridge’s lyrics.slightly to read: "Wake me up when we hit 2005!" For the new millennium (we all know it-begins THIS year) Imade a wish list that includes open:minde&Iess acrossthe board.However with our new administration, we can as a community of equals, rather than "dyke", "fog", "traitor", "freak." I’ve got Lesbian friends who Wonder why I have Gay-male friends. I know a few. who wouldn’t let a man into their’lives even if he’s a doctor, lawyer; veterinarian. Then there are the Gay male friends who gripe about Lesbians asifth~y’ve only seen the kiss that wish goodbye for stereotypes on TV, rather at least four years, Now than getting to know us. "..._Maybe we’re so I’m no good at makifig resoI’ve heard from some :of erltleal of the other lutions (I’just break’them th~ cfmmunlty that t~ibemuse we’re all tryln$ seximls are just Gay men before I start); but I added today "hope chest" while who cxm’t get off the fence so desperately to llve -the restof the ~ountiy was (and the-inevitable jokes normal lives when the drinking to forget the past about that!). I don’t knfw few months ~and especially rest O~’~e{ety views us how my friends feel about the outcome! Tr~insgend,ered people, but as abnormal.., to -~ ° In the spi:rit of the Season I do k~ow’ :the topic never present a eampaiSn for :just ~ast, I’.m~fediiig Opficomes UP." :misfic"despite’ ’geeiiag the " equal ~$,}at~s, we need to Maybe w&re so cridcal ~l~ngs-~f"the Reli:gious of the Other because we’re ’:Right piippet-masters ’enshow the rest all trying so desperately to live normal lives when the twining OurgM£ W. (and ’I Amerlea tlmt we rest of society views us as -Ollircmvf even rmnmng me ¯ abnormal~ In other words, a* e~luals. , . word -busk.-anymo~;e!). :, to present’a campaign for " : Being a’child of ~e Sixties," " equal’ tights, ’we need to I~,s.tillllave a hope’ that Our country will: : show therest of Americathatwe consider "" ~. ) Adopt i Ve~ont .s. generosxty. The ¯ each other in the community as equals. least theotherstates ’cafa dois to feel for it " Look what it’s done for the Religious /by taking,some of flue. weight off the " Right. They may have their squabbles, but q’e~slat~e s Shoulders. After all, I’m sure we the public don’t get to see it. They :~;&~ran:re~idents in this tiny state are still ¯ present a united front, bigoted though it tottering over th~ de~lslon to make"those " may be, and have a President to play with Gay bobs" equal; steeling themselves for ¯ for the next four years. That’s power! I . ~¢hat they must thinkwillbe Gay bars hti~ " realize we’re talking about a basic belief dildo stores on every comer. " system and moral code as opposed to MANY belief systems with many other 2) Put education"a~’ the top of the list. O,K, as a teacher I think this was a given for ¯ moral codes, but you learn from the enm~. But if you really look at the serious- . emy. If the only tip we want to take from hess of ignorance(and many of you have ¯ the Religious Right is unity, then we need first hand experience of this that I can only ¯ to study them. And finally... 5) Above all, respect us as valuable, imagine), you’ll agree tliat the ONLY Way , we can stop homophobia is by educating. ’ irreplaceable, and EQUAL human beings. My goodness, I ~nkI just put my butt on ¯ Hell, in Texas I’d sometimes just wish we the line by promising to actually do some- ¯ were considered HUMAN! But we can’t thing besides rage against a seemingly " settle. With TV exposure of Gays and unforgiving God. Only through spreading " Lesbians at its highest (thank you NBC the word, 10iidly but not angrily, can we ; and Showtime!), you’d think we’d have it change v~ews. Look at what happened to ¯ made. And that soon, in part due to the the Dr. I.aura campaign. If you’re asking, ." public’s viewing of such shows as "Queer "Dr. Who?" -then the campaign suc- " As Folk" and other programs, we can soon ¯ hold hands and kiss in public without fear ceeded! 3) Become a true democracy. Yes, I ¯ of being arrested, being stared at, and know this is autopian ideal. Homosexuals " sacrificing everything. Maybe one day soon have never been anyone’s favorite, but we " we’ll be stared at just because someone were always pushed to thebackbeeause of ¯ else wants the relationship we have, and the Native Americans, the Irish, the Jew- " for no other reason. Hey, I told you I was ish, African Americans, Hispanic,s, Japa- : optimistic. My evil twin will return next ¯ month. Happy New Year! nese-Ameficans, etc. Now we’re in the Come, listen and be enrap Saturday, January 13, 2001 . 8pro Tulsa P~rjbrming Arts Center Ed~oin O~t~oater, conductor Jennlfer Koh, ~iolin Thea Musgrave Mozart Dvo~Lk O Rainbo~oViolin Concerto No. 4 Symphony No~ 7 . tfi’-january Masterworks.e+en~: features the stunning ariimT of violinist Jennifer Koh in Mozart’s beloved ViolinConcerto No. 4. Special guest conductor Edwha Outwa[er joins her on stage for thishighly anticipated performance, also featuring the haunting beauty of I)vo~ik’s Symphony No. 7. Tickets MO to $45 limelight because racial andreligious prejudice have (finally0 become socially unacceptable. And look who S left standing in line to be hated! Ratherthan certain govemment officials complaining that we want "special rights", my hope is for them to take a look back over the past two centuries to see that all anyone has every wanted are EQUAL rights ! 4) See a united Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/ Transgendered community. I know I’m new to this so I should quitgriping and get off my duff to help unite. What I see in the community makes me understand that the war won’t get won unless we conquer this battle in front of us: accepting each other ¯ ¯ : : ¯ : : ¯ ¯ : : ¯ draw a warm bath, put this CD on, and " invite someon, over. Or, make love alone. ~ With Jane singing, you can’t lose either : way. : : ¯ " " : ¯ As for events around here, Theater Club presents "The Vagina Monologues" (God they can talk, too?) Jan 11-27. Call 8579154 for ticket info and location. Heller Theatre presents Steve Martin’s "Pieasso at theLapin Agile," the story of a fictional meeting between Picasso and Einstein. 746-5056. see amuse, p. 10 �Timothy ¯ become his f.,,a~}ly. Membe.rs of me gangs, "Christ-Like" by Emanuel Xavier " form "houses to protect tlaemselves anti reviewed by Barry Hensley " each other andin every way fulfill the role Tulsa City-County Library Where does onestart when reviewing a ] of family to Mikey. His good. look.s and violent and disturbing novel about brutal, ~ shrewdness allow him to get rata me restricted clubs where sex, young, Gay, Hispam’c gangs drugs and competitiveness " 0 o ¯ These are whose lives revolve around flow freely. This club scene carefully crafted sets of, ekaraeters from ferois particularly dangerous. rules and, at the same time, A guy bumps you accidenelous ~amilles who no rules at all? tally? NO problem! Just These are characters from understand nothln~ but stab him right there or wait ferocious families Who ununtil later and beat him deedt, eonfuslon and derstand nothing but deceit, withabaseball bat! Hehad confusion and drug induced dru¢ induced brutality it comin’ to ’ir!! It’s hard brutality. The easiest thing to understand why the ... It’s hard to underto say is that Christ-Like is reader would care about simply a Dennis Cooperstand why the reader this arrogant, misguided novel set among Gay, and contemptible youth, would eare about this Latino gangs in New York but I couldn’t put this book City. arrogant, mls~uided and down¯ Our protagonist, Mikey, Perhaps because we is born into an incredibly~ eontemptlble youth, but know that Mikey is, deep dysfunctional family in a I couldn’t put this down, a good kid shaped distressed neighborhood, by his environment, we book do~..." where Mikey’s role model want him to be able to rise is a neighbor, yelling up above being a monstrous criminal ~and from the street, Come on Mmam. I don t realize that there isanother, world out wanna come up thestairs! Just throw tl},,e, there. But, whenev~er.h~ s.tax~tS a ~ewreia:’ baby out the window! I’ll catchit! I swear!’ tionship, we know it will end in chaos.. Mikey’s mother soon has an abusive boy~,,. When he quits ~d~gs, we ~.kn~v~ h¢’!l~,, ~ friend, and a heartless relative, teenag, e start using again. When he gets beaten,.w.e Chino, stays with them, sharing Mikey s know it iS what he ~:~pected. ~rying room while secretly abusing the boy, physically and emotionally ..... exiilain his predicament proved diffiCultL As he grows upin. thischaotic, environvirtually~every paragaph is,pepp~,r,e~, ment, Mikey, of ourse, has no idea ~.at over,ly colorful l’an~ge Sr events. n0t all families arelil~e thls and, despite b-is It s haid for a whit~--i3r~ad reYi’~ei ~Vi~o intelligence and basi~gbodness, starts down the wrong path. And what a path it is! Unable to understand healthy relationships, he becomeS-se~ua!!y active and abusive with almost anyQne,.and starts busfling on the Westsidei~i~L He discovers drugs and the in~bnd~ ~that comes with dealing. He tougi~e.nS ~p ahd picks fights so he can rob afidinj~.e, i(often i_nnoce.n.t) people. He beans t0 ~ pride in ms viciousness wi~’d~iii~.~i’_~lee. V~nen he hits adolescen~;:it~ ~er kicks him out, not becans~ i~f~fiiS ~ess behgvio,r, but because he’i~iG~@~,~d~suddeulY he s p~sages to quote ff,0~ onhis own. ;~ ~.o~; ,b,’ ~ ~. In Mikey’s bi~’~ reality, the underground subcul~e,of homeless hustlers The Tulsa Philhi~monic pfesents a mati; nee performan~rf ,Peter and The Wolf with the Magic Circle Mime Company on the 14th. 747-7445. For the artsy.craftsy~crowd, Mayf6st is seeking artists and artistes tO display their wares and worksat the 2001 Mayfest. Jan 12 is the deadline to apply for space. Musical types have to apply’the 5th. In addition, Tulsa Family News will send "’If I were a rieh.m~ ~.~diddle deedle ¯ the copies we have.of the miscelleneous d icdle diddle dee: .or, as tti~ Southern ver- ¯ defimctpublications whichTulsa’sseenat ¯ sion would haveit; "Eiddle dee dee.""Fidone time or another. Tulsa Oklahomans dlcr on the.Roof’~ ~illbe appearing over- ¯ for Human Rights also published a newshead at the PAC fiom the 16-21 with " letter, TheTOHRReporter, formuch of its Theodore Bikel as Teyve. Yes, this is the ¯, 20 year history which documents much of show Bette Midler got her start on Broad¯ Tulsa’s Lesbian and Gay history. wayin the 70’s, as a chorus girl. I don’t ttfink Daniel Attorney at Law . An Attorney. who will fightfor justice & equality for Gays & LeSbians Domestic-Partnership Planning, Personal Injury; Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1 ~800- 742-9468~or-918:: 35.2-9504 128 East Broad~.~i,~i)promrigh!:OklahOma Weekend and evening appointments are available. ..... .NeW Year . . .:, .NewCareer Get a iaeM Siatt, bi~ ~your New Years resolution If you~are responsible and self’ifi*ofivated ar~dhave:a posfive .attitude. We.ii;iii’:N~!’p’)~u fulfill, ~our resolution. cati,665,,3401 �teach our students that we will reach our L,.i full potential individually_and collectively............ ¯ only when we learn to appreciate our diversity. We need to. do’::a better job of How will his Support for privatization of ." teaching our youth- our couittryfs proud ourpublie~cho0i~act~e:employment ¯ history of welcomi~!p~le~f different rightsofO~B~i~ch~tpri~)ateschool~9" ;’ religions, racial and ~,~ offgins, gen-" Or)the fight’of. :GLl~;f~ids not to gei "’." ders and opinions. Ithasnff been easy and harassed and kicked out Of those schools? " we donft always do it well, but Welcoming ,On the issue ofabortion, whaf will it ¯ diversity is at the h~gf- what has made n~ to*h~Eq.~.,(Ol~-h.ea3.~[h and human ! ournafion great. Thi~i~’whatean unite ser~ices0ffic~,r.eJi~t~!ie~un.damen~right ’. now and in’the future! We"~oW need to privaey?If lldh~s ~e rightt0 interfere : national.effort to realiz¢ihat:o’~’lives: in a deci’sion’t~~trbi~6u~reproductive ; be-enriched as individu~!~.;:a~~familie~(as ~ de~siom~~.h’&dsec~n =and frill-he do..-- communities, and asia ~atibn if We em-" to’ &ntrof Oiil fii~es~..-.: ........... .i brace, rather fear, 6~-Gi~y; Lesbian, ...... .............. i[:beheve file GLBT community ought to" "~"Bisexual and than Transgendered brothers and TULSA COUNTY DEMOCRATIC ~P’A- R T-Y: Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat: 8-5pm . . . . Co![egg Hill Presbyterian Church ody Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing In-response to God’s Love, College Hill Presbyterian Church is a communit¯.y of God’s pe_ople called tO tell others the Gospel of Jesus Christ " " ’~" - tiirough service; and evangelism. To nurtureour faith, we gather for "worship, prayer, . .... StUdy andfeilowship~ Trusting i~i a living, loving God, we.seek to become a compassionate voice.f6r:pea~ce and justice. Our congregation" wdcomes all persons who respond in trust and obedience to God’s grace . in Jesus Christ, and desire to become part of the membership and ministry of Christ’s church. Membership is open to all people regardless of race, ethnic origin, worldly condition, marital status, or sexual orientation. Sunday Worship 1 lam 712 S. Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) co.n~sider.issue~;~iik~~ reproductive heaith~ ¯ sisters, r ’~ an~pov~rty aceii,tr~il p~rfof our concerns : You have an awesom~ 0p~i~ty and f6r~any~,~,:~~-i~ ~er’all;’a~ignificani~i’ ; responsibility ahead of!yoi£’ We wiint to Portion of our c0.~m~,,ttt~~ty .grapples witlE q,~ work by your side to make-b~~ laools and 9e e issu~ in @e~ personal lives. And ¯ our country healthier. We .~all on you to mere are homophone policies and prae- ’: keep us - all of us who love, admire and ti~ in @.e.,i~.sf!~mtioos"that control these,;._ care about someone wh6 is Gay, Lesbian, serwces. :" ............... . . ¯ Bisexual and Transgendered - in mind in E{ut ev~ri’fdr’th~S~’~,BT activists who" ~ the days ahead. rejectamoteindii~i~,~’agenda, thereoug,ht " - Kirsten Kingdon, executive director to lit least be a mention of Thompson s " re~rd on.’~ese.spcialjs~sues. Does anyone : really beh’~ve t~at a politician who treats ,. women andpoor people lwith, such disre- : spect will hold our cximmunity in esteem? "’ I think they’re picking on the wrong perA movement must have a set of values - ¯ son with John Ashcroft." °therwisewearejustadisconnectedgroup :- Sen. Carl Levin, D-Mich., told CBS’ of people who are outside the norms of " "Face the Nation" he believes Ashcroft heterosexuality. i urgeus to embrace a set : will eventually be confirmed, but not beof values that represents the struggles of - fore he is thoroughly questioned by skepevery segment of our community. Let’s ." tical Democratic senators. Likewise, Sen. thank Tommy Thompson appropriately ." Harry Reid, D-Nev., told"Fox News Sunfor his few gestures of support. But let’s ¯ day" he knows of no reason why Ashcroft reserve "praise" for a nominee who has ¯ would be rejected outright. ¯ exwn.ed it. ....... ¯ While Ashcroft’s nomination brought Founded in 1973, the National Gay & ; some criticism, Bush seemed less willing I2sbian Task Force works to eliminate ~ to join an ideological fight over whether prejudice; violence and.injustice against ¯ Gays may serve in the military. Former ga~, .lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered " Indiana Sen. Dan Coats, a candidate for People at the local, state,and nati0-nal level. " secretary of defense, lost out on the job " when he reportedly told Bush he warned to ¯ scale back accommodations made to : women and Gays in the service, Newsweek : reported, quoting an unnamed source. The majority of young .people who Another Bush Cabinet choice thatraised harass, bully and assault our youth be- : questions was former Colorado attorney cause of thdr sexual orientation or gender general Gale Norton, nominated for Seeexpression do nbt fit the stereotype of : retary of the Interior. She has expressed hate-filled extremists, but are average ¯ support for oil exploration in the Arctic youngpeoplewho~ftens.eenothingwrong ¯ National Wildlife RefUge, an idea that with their behavior. ~ Bush favors and many Democratic sena~-Anti-Gay harassment - as well as ha- ~- tors oppose. Norton as Colorado attorney rassment based on religion, race, ethnic , general defended Colorado’s anti-Gay origin, or any other prejudice - destabi- : Amendment 2 which was ruled unconstilizes the learning environment for all stu- " tutional. dents. No child can learn well when they " The bigger question, Democrats said, is are scared. No child should be afraid that ¯ whether Bush can work with a Senate that they will be harassed because of who they ; ~s split evenly between Democrats and are. We need to do a much better job of " .Republicans. "He’s going to have to show teaching respect for all in our schools and : m programs and policies a willingness to in ending the toxic atmosphere that exists ¯ work with Democrats, to work out comin all too many of our schools today. We : promises with us..." he said. needyourleadershipatthefederallevelto Hatch said ~ush’s stated intention to send the message that anti-Gay harassreach out and work with Democrats is ment is wrong, genuine. We particularly ask you to Keep us in mind as you appoint a Secretary of Educa- tion. We will be watching - and hoping - to see if that is someone who is dedicated to an excellent and safe education for all our children. There is so much to be done. We need to �Midnight Saturday,~ February ,. ....... ~Den v er Th e"Brad~.Mansio n.,~ 6. 20 ~Nort ~. . h~~ D J, Hors res:, ~. Live Ente~ai~me~ Dr, .Door prizes for h,~Bar, ;~ ~Mild to Wild Dressed Tickets: . . .~-or $20 a~)! the door "~-~ ~va~lable The TU~;~ GLBT CommunityCenter 211~ S~!t3th~!~e~fi~i~ Drive 918~743.4297 and select~Ven-dors listed on the website. Proceeds benefit The Pyramid Project "Building a Home- Funding the Future, for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center." Made Possible by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), www.PyramidProject.org � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Lesbian To BeExecuted- i Would Be First Woman Killed In Oklahoma : DENVER(AP)-A womanwhois scheduled,tobecome : the first female executed in~i°fOklalioma has ¯ filed~ an emergency appeal ~’_~10th U.S. Circuit : Court of Appeals. ’, -~-_.......... ~ .Wanda Jean Allen wants all 10judges-of the court to : stop her scheduled Jan. 11 execution, even after athree- " judge panel from the court-reftmed to overturn her : sentence in January. The U.S. Supreme Court~efusedtO -: consider her case and she was:denied clemency earlie~ ¯ this month. Alien maintains- as she has throughout_her previous appeals - that her prior counsel was deficient: ." AsSistant Attorney General Sandra Howard said her " office will oppose Alien’s request. : Allen was convicted of the: 1988 murder of Gloria " Leathers, her lover, outside The Village police station. " Tulsa Family NewsAdded State HistoPical Archives Allen had earlier been convicted Ofinanslaught~r. : Oklahoma’s Catholic, Episcopal andMethodist bishops have called on Gov. Frank Keating to establi.sb~a moratorium on all executions in the state.... ¯ commentary by TomNeal, editor &publisher " " OKLAHOMA CITY/TULSA - You would have thought it was : .simple to do a little "historical" research. Just as in elementary ¯ school, you go down to the Central Library and look up the ¯ . material. After a friend.mentioned some stories in The Gayly : Oklahoman that were published before this.newspaper existed, I : tried to dojust that, only to fmd thai’our library threw out its Gay ¯. publications after six months - so much for minority history! ¯ . Ha¢ing donated seven years of copies of TFN thinking that a : -portion of Tulsa’s LGBT history was being perserved, I was ~ : concerned. Suppression of Tulsa’s minority history_is hardly ¯ new. Tulsa’s Centennial celebration and book deliberately excluded any mention of the existence of Gay people, and Tulsa covered up some events, like the Rathe Riots of 1921, for years. Tulsa City County Library System (TCCLS) had reasonable excuses: they don’t have space to archive hard copies, they need to have the materials on microfilm, etc. True enough. Large newspapers, like The Tulsa Worm and The Daily Oklahoman, monopoly dailies with huge profits, of course can and do pay for their own filming. Those film rolls are then purchased-by TCCLS. However, small minority publications dearly don’t have those sorts of resources. However, The Oklahoma Eagle is in the TCCLS archives. How so? The Oklahoma Historical Society is committed to preserving more than just Oklahoma’s "mainstream" history. And in contrast to Tulsa’s usual response to its minority citizens (give us your tax dollars, keep your mouth shut andjust don’t getuppity), theOklahoma Historical Society was delighted to add Tulsa Family News to its collection including microfilming the new~paper so that OHS (and TCCLS we hope) can better reflect minority as well as majority history. ¯ With the interest of preserving as much of Oklahoma’s LGBT : historyas possible, I left amessagefor Paula Hand Brown of The ¯ Gayly Oklahoman to encourage them to provide theirback issues ¯ to the Oklahoma Historical Society. seeOHS, p. 10 NGLTF .Lesbian and-.. Gay Democrats-Concerned About Journal,sin Scholarships i AsbcroR as Attorney General WASHINGTON, DC-The National Gay and Lesbian : WASHINGTON (AP) - Several influential Democrats said ¯ So.ulforc,e-OK to Host :Noted B,ble Scholar ¯ Prof. Scott to Address.Bible Passages, + Soulforce .Goes to Rome~ MLK Parade ¯ TULSA - Dr. Brandon Scott will givea lecture this ¯¯ month based the passages in the Bible that are regularly used to attack Gay and Lesbian.people. These ¯ are the so-called "clobber" passages seen as con- ¯" demning homosexuality. Dr,~Scott is a well known New TestameiR scholar, -" a Jesus Scholar and teaches at Phillips Theological ¯ Seminaryin Tulsa. The event is open to thepublicand ¯ will be held the January 22nd Soulforce in Oklahoma ¯ meeting from 6 - 8pro at TheGay Community Ser- ¯ vices Center, 2114 S. Memorial. ¯ This event will.begin the education and training for ¯ local actions to take place, in Tulsa along with a "¯ interdenominational panel discussion on February ¯ 26th also at the Center at 6pro, to understand where : different denominations stand regarding this issue. ¯ Soulforce is an informal network of volunteers : -committed to teach, and apply the principles of non- " violence as taughtby Gandhi and Martin Luther King ." on behalf of sexual and gender minorities. Sodforce ¯ was founded in 1998 by the Rev. Mel White, author ¯ of Stranger at the Gate and his partner, Gary Nixon. ." Thewebsiteis www.soulforce.org. Innortbeast Okla- ¯ homa, contacts are KarenWeldin"Karen@cwis.net" ¯ and Susan Knanse "knalig@worldnet.att.net" ¯ "Soulforce believes that religion has become the ~ primary source of false and inflammatory misinfor- ." mationaboutLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, andTransgender ¯ people," says Sue Knause, Soulforce in Oklahoma volunteer. "Fundamentalist Christians teach that we ¯ are ’sick’ and ’sinful.’ Liberal Christian denomina- ¯ tions teach that we are "incompatible with Christian ¯ teaching." Most conservative and liberal denomina- ¯ tions re_fuse to marry us or ordain us for ministry. The Roman Catholic Church teaches that our orientation is ’objectively disordered’ and our acts of intimacy ’intrinsically evil.’ They teach that we should not ¯ marry, adopt, co-parent, teach children,, coach youth TaskForcerecentlyannouneedaFeb, 15,2000deadline to submit applications for the.NGLTF Messenger: Anderson Scholarships. The NGLTFMessenger-Anderson. Scholarship Program next year will award four $5,000 scholarships to high school seniors or undergraduatecollege students whoplantopursue abachelor’s degr,.ee in journalism at an accredited four-year college ¯or umverslty. The NGLTF Messenger-Anderson Scholarship was established by Larry Messenger and Jim Anderson in memory of Lawrence and Sdina Messenger. "The Messengers believed that there is a pressing need to encourage Gay and lesbian people to become more involvedinshapingmediaeoverage,?-’- e,,x,plainedNGLTF .Execufi.ve Director ElizabethTolbxlo.. ’Fair coverage of ISSUes important to the Gay,. Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendercommunity depend~uponthebasiepremise that all of us are created equally. But media coverage foday often begins with thediscriminatory notion that equality for GLBT people is somehow a matter for debate. By encouraging GLBT students to pursuejournalism andby assisting them with their Studies, theTask :Force hopes, to improve the way the GLBT comrnttulfies, ..a~_d moyemen.t are. covered.’" see. Scholarship,p. 3 DIRECTORY ...... P.2 EDITORIAL P.3 US & WORLD NEWS -. P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. ENTERTAINMENT - P, BOOK REVIEW P. 10 : Sund~t.y that they .are distressed by President-elect Bush’ s cabinet , choices to date, mentioning .attorney general-designate John : Asheroft as. a particular problem, because.of his. opposition_to : abortion, gU~.¢ontrol measures, and anti,Gay positions, ¯ Sen. Charles Schumer, D-N.Y., called-Asheroftrs prospects at : Senate..confirmation for at[orney general "hardly a done deal’r : and said he is "truly worried" that Asheroft.would not.enforce ¯ federal laws. bannitlg violence against abortion clinics ~or laws : that restrict gun. ownership. In fact, Schumer commented that ~ Asheroft would work to repeal those~laws. "He is far and away ¯ the most troubling choice," Schumer said on-ABC’s-’-’TMs : Week." *’The questionis will Senator Asheroft enforce.thelaw of ." .the land on things thathe’s morally opposed to." : HoweveL Sen..,Orrin Hatch, R~Utah, appearing,,on the. same ¯ program, said he would be surprised if the Senate does not : confirm Asheroft,-the outgoing senatorfrom Missouri who has : served~that state’sattorney general and governor. "Heis aman : ofintegrity. Heis amanof great experience:’ Hatch said. "I have ¯" no-doubt, as a former attorney~ general and hopefully as-this ¯ attorney general, he will enforce the laW~.regardless of whether : he agrees with it or not" : Senate Minority ’Leader Tom Daschle, D-S.D, also expressed ¯ concerns about Asheroft, saying that he and other DemoL’rats ¯ intend to ask.him tough questions during hi~s confiymation ¯ hearings~,sp~cificallYwhether he intends to enforce civil rights ¯ laws that pr,o,tect~minorities and statutes protecting equal rights : for women: -He has-to convincea i0tbf his eoliehgU~s~d fflrt : of those who are concerned.., that he Can do that," Daschle told : NBC’s "Meet the PressY ¯ Senate Republican Whip Don Nickles.of Oklahoma said he : doesn’t understand-why Ashcroft’s critics are "taking-these ¯ unfair cracks at him:" "I think some people are .... lookingfor an ¯ issue. They’re looking for a fight,"Nickles told NBC.. "They : .want to ha~ea big divisive battle. " see Ashcroft, p. 11 ¯ or serve in the military. Our goal is to. confront and : eventually replace these tragic untruths with the truth thatwe are God’s children, too, created, loved, and ¯ accepted.-by God exactly as weare," Knanse adds. ¯ During-the past summer Soulforce launched the ; "first stage" in their campaign to STOP SPIRITUAL ¯ .VIOI~ENCE noted Karen Weldin, Sodforee volun- ," teer. "We trained 1,000 volunteers on site at the : national conventions of the United Methodist, South- ¯" ern Baptist, Presbyterian, and Episcopal Churches. After silent, candlelight vigils, more than 500 of us : were arrested in carefully planned acts of nonviolent : dissent. On November 12-14, 2000 we conducted ¯ similar vigils and protests at the National Conference ~ of Catholic Bishops in Washington, DC." ¯ Mel Whitehas announced Soulf0rce,s plans to take : thenonviolentcampaignagainst centuries ofspiritual ¯ violence and anti-Gayteachings oftheRoman Catho- ¯ lic Church to the Vatican on January 5-6, 2001. ¯ Supporters of Soulforce and Dignity/USA plan to : place their specific demands for inclusion for all ; peoplein the Church on the doors of the Vatican, in ¯ amoveechoing that of Martin Lutherat thebeginning of the Reformation. ¯: Soulforee in Oklahoma is als0 joining PFLAG, HRC-Oklahoma, and TOHR in the annual Martin : Luther King Memorial Parade .on Monday, January ¯ 15th¢2001. The Parade starts atCincinnati and Pine at 1 tam and ends in the Greenwood district. March- ¯ ers are asked to arrive 30 minutes early and look for : the Rainbow-colored banners. Parking is very limited, marchers are encouraged to share a ride if ¯ possible. 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Skelly 745~-’1111 ¯ Prime-Timers, P.O~ BoX 52118, 74152 *International Tours ’ 341-6866 ¯ ’-R~.A.I:N:; Regional~AIDS InterfaithN&~v0rk . 749:41,95 ; Youhaveanopportunity, too, toreachout Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 71252750 ; *Red-.Rock Mental~Center, 1724 E. 8 . ..... - ~ 384-2325 - : and listen to the concerns of Gay, Lesbian, *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th - 582:3018 ~ ’St’. Aidan’s~scopalChurch,4045N.Cincinnafi ."425-7882 : BisexualandTransgenderedAmericansand David Kanskey; Country Club Barbering 747-0236 St. Dufistan S Episcopal, 5635 E. 7tst ............ 492-7140 ¯ their parents, families, friends and allies. It The K,eepers, Housekeeping & Gardening --- 582-8460 -. *St.Jerome’s ParisliChurch, 205W. King _ . ’582-3088 ; is saidthatoneinfourfamilieshaveafarnily *Ken s Nowers, 1635 E. 15 ...... 599~8070 , : -Soulforce-OK; Rt.4,# 3534, SfiglerT~2 58713248~452-2761 " member who is Gay or Lesbian~ Weare sick Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 747:32166- : : ,Tulsa-Area united Wa~y, 1430-s:Bgiiider....583-717i . ’and fir.ed of fighting thosewho would.prefer . that we all go back in the closet- and;itrp *LivingArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha ....~ 585:1234 ¯ ’*:Tlq~,7iPP (Native American men),’IndiatIHeath Care" ’ 582-7225 *Midto~i,nTheater~319E..3rd ...... 584:3112 ¯¯ ...........:..... ,:,.~ - : _~,............... ¯ seekingjustice, safety and respect for those ~utsat~ountyt-teatmJJepartment,-4o~b,e. ta........ ’,a:~a.-4tua ; welo~eThatfs ev " " -- " Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720cE. 31 ..... 663-5934 : ...... .................. -........ ; .... - " ’ ’ ..... ~~ :~ " ’- " . . ,..’, ~.~ *MohaWk MusiC, 6157 E 51 Place........ 664~-2951 :~ ; ’ 297-" : : e~Pv,°.~Ussb~Y~t.°~isakexet~fa~f~.-~cel.,n. Puppy PauselI, 1060 S. Mingo ....... 83857626 . :-T:U-,L:.S.A:.Tnlsa~Uniform/Leath~rSed~i-s A~rC "298~827. :-"- ~, !Y’~’~Y’ ¯ ’ _ ~ " " " ¯ genQerco/Mllerlcans are trcaieo. *The Pride Store - -- " ..... 743’:z~297 : ’*Tulda ChyH-~lt;rrotmd FloorVestibnle ’"~ ......:...... ~ . Rainbowzon the River B÷B,POB 696, 74101 " 747-’5932 : *Tnl~ii~cism’ifi~Unii) CollegeCampu~es ..... "........ : ................. ~ ~ Nowli~kE is this more important thatt in Richard’s CarpetCleaning ~-- 834-06q7 : ~*TulsaG~Coi~fiiimii3iC~ter;2/st&Memorial .. :1743-4297 ¯ ..our s~hools. I have been struck by .your TeriSchutt, Rex’ Realtors 834-7921,74’7.~746 :-Unity~hur.chof(2hti~tiAnit~;3355S:.Janies-trWn ¯ -.749-8833 -’:P.assjOn fOr excellence in the educati°n we Scribner’s -Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square; ...... 74-%6301 BAFITLE~VIt2LE .................................... ... give Our youth. I share that passion.’l~Ut I Paul Tay, Car Salesman. " " 260-7829 i’ iBm’tlesvillePublic.Librai’y,600 S~ Jolma0nd ~i 918~3~7-53531~ i mfalStl°loe’l~~rt.t.Os:~~W’.~eotohlas,t’"~ulnelveessns othuear cbhesiltdftreeancehersa,nd *TnlsaComedyClnb,.6906S. Lewis " 8.4~.~55~38 : TAHLg:QI.JAH _ ¯ the be’t:’fi~terials will not make the differ= Venus Salon; 1247 S. Harvard °2 .- : ~:l’7~q 7 : :.Stonewall League, call for information .... 918-456-7900 ~ ence they should. We know that: Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling _._-.o___ : - . ...... " " " " - 66522222 :." Tahl.-eq-ualrUmtanan-,Umversallst Church .... 918-456-7900 ¯ * Virtually all students in public schools *Wherehouse:Musi¢; 5150 S. Sheridan *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 592 0767 ~ Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 ~ ....."918-453-9360 " regularly report heating anti-Gay remarks www.gaymlsa:0rg .... website forTulsaGays &Les-bians- ": EU" RFKA SPRIHG" ~, ARKANSAS - " " "¯ fMroamsspaceheurss(eett.sg.G,9o7v%erinnoar1is9C93oRmempiossritoonfthone Tulsa Aoenei si Churches, Sehools&0niver iiiO " "Autunm Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 501-253-7734 " Gay and LesBian Youth; and a March 1997 AIDS Walk Tulga’, POB 4337,q4101 ...... 579-9593 " Jim &Brent’s’Bistro, 173 S. Main. 501-253~7457 ¯ All Souls:UnitariaWChureh, 2952 S: Peoria - - ........743-2-363 " DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center.St. - ¯ ¯ .’.. ~ 501,253-6807- :. :smdYby’hi"ghsch°o1 studentsinDesM°ines" Black & White, Inc: POB 14001 Tulsa 74159 587-7314 ¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring-St. " - 501-253-5445 ." Iowa, found that students reported heating , ¯ anti-Gay epithets 25 times a day). Bless The Lord atAll Times Christian Center.2207 E. 6 583-7815 MCC of the Living. Spring 501-253-9337 " * Harassment of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 583-9780 " Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 ¯ or Transgendered youth often goes well Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston 585-1201 " Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-253-5332 : beyond verbal harassment to physical as- *Chapman S_tudent Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th Pl. & Florence " Positive lde;a Marketing Plans 501~624-6646 ChurchoftheRestorationUU, 1314 N.Greenwood 587-1314 " Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East ........ 501:253-6001 : sanlts. All too many of our PFLAG parents " have been devastated by the physical and *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S: Yale 747-6300 " White Light, 1 Center St. - 501-253-’4074 ¯ emotional harm done to their children by *Commtm~_’ty Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 " dOPLIN, MISSOURI "- their peers - unchecked by administrators Council Oak Men’s Chorale 748-3888 ¯ Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 " and teachers. *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware ..... 712-1511 " * iswhereyoucanfindTFN.NotallareGaY-0w.nedb.utallareGay-frieadly. ¯ see PFLAG, p. 11 " An Open Letter to President-Elect George W. Bush Congratulations on being elected to th~ office of- President of the United States:of:.: America. Like you, I am a patriotic An~¢ii~ can and a.person of deep faith. But I am also the motherlof a Gay son and the Executive .Dire~to_r~0f Parents, Families and Fri~ids ~f.: ._Lesbi.aas.,,.and Gays. (PF:I~.G)~ Through~o,. ¯ -lifetimegf,,working for equal justice~J have, foun~d~that di.vision catmotbe solved without .. compassion and inclusion. I h6pe that vision and values of "compassionat.e;eon.:. serv.a.tism"have taught you the sam~:_ .: In.yo0r .acceptance remarks, you_.men--. tioned then.eed"to address some ofsociet~yis., ¯ deeper:problems one person at a time~.by,. eneotlr~ggi~tg andempowering thegoodhe,art~_. and ~j~!i~i,orks of theAmerican people.!T!n esse~€¢i: this is what PFLAG does. We are.. peopi,,a~cro~s this country who reacho~i.in. lovg.tO~ those who differ from us, and.come. to u~.d¢~rstand and appreciate them.......... P.~.FL~..G_members share with you.~de..: sireAQ protect the rights and ens_ure potential, of all Americans. Youhave-a great opportunity to assure that all claims ~ that anyone was turned away from the polls ,or discouraged from voting because .of their race or ethnic origin are rigorously.and sympathetically investigated and pur.s.ued by your administration. As anationwemust face up to the continuing existence ofracism in our country and do everything we can to eradicate unfair treatment because of race. ¯" Otherwise we will not be able to reap the :.o.¯ benefits o~ourproudcommitment to liberty ¯ and.justice for all.... Thompson, HHS & An LGBT Agenda by Elizabeth Toledo, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Thefirst time I picketedinfront0fthe Reagan Building in Washington, D:C. was in protest of ii visit by Wisconsin Gov. Tommy Thompson. He had signed some 0f the most misogynist legislation in the country, includingthe most restrictive atiti-abortion legislation implemented " since the Supreme Court in Roe v Wade recognized abortion as a constitutional right in 1973. He also: engineered Wisconsin’s onerous wdfare law, which kicked off the trend that resulted in punitive measures at the federal level - measures that made scapegoats of many lower-income people who lacked access to educational opportunities, job training and affordable child care. Imagine then my surprise to pick:up,several publications that serve the gay, lesbian, bisexti,~l:~dtransgender community and read an uncritical analysi~ofThompson~ whom President-designate George W. Bush has nominated to .be Secretary of Health and Human Services. Replace Donna Shalala with Tommy Thompson? The dismal reality of the presidential dection has begun to sink in. Thequestion arises, what vision and leadership will we in the GLBT movement provide over the course TFN: Beginning by Tom Neal, editor &publisher I usually write this editorial late in November because : we published our first issue midway through December in ." 1993. At the time, I’d been writing andlaying out the Tulsa section of a now defunct Kansas-based rag. Eighty-four issues have now been printed, documenting - ,, the life.and issues of our commumty, if not . . . Eighty-t~our issue~ perfectly, then better than has ever been done¯ Certaiul.y, The Gayly Oklah~man, our sister, and elder, publicationhas been around ¯ longer but as Tulsans havelong complained, : their coverage of our city has iaever been as ¯ thorough. We’ve long argued that you can- :. not successfully provide newscoverage for ¯ a town in which you don’t live. Unlike many .LGBT, let us say, Gay, for _" brevity, newspapers, Tulsa Family News is : available in a number of mainstream ven- ¯ ues: Tulsa City Hall, Tulsa City-County ¯ Library System, Barnes & Noble, Borders ¯ Books &Music, anumberofTulsachurches, ." as well as at some" Tulsa dubs, and other ¯ venues where Gay papers have been longer have now been printed, documenting the life and issues d our community, if not perfectly, then better than has ever been done.., it has been a labor of love, not money. Tulsa seems full of people who think that there are hig welcome. This easier access Should hardly buel~s to be-made in Our Eighth. Year ¯ day-out. But you find in minority communities, a mentality that we should not hold our leaders and programs or : others up to a public standard. . Clearly we disagree. ¯ Anewspaper (unlikelocal community magazines which ." seek to highlight "good things" about Tulsa and to sell advertising) exists to seek the truth and to publish it. Sometimes that is "good stuff" and sometimes, alas more often, it’s bad. Tulsa Family News seeks to be fair in our reporting and dear in our editorial Writing. Sometimes we have not been either which we regret. For example, we wrote in last month’s editorial that there are groups involved in Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry who oppose civil rights for Lesbians and Gay men. I regret that my writing was not dear. As written, it appears that I attribute that position to the ministry itself rather than constituent groups. But as I pointed out to one TMM staff person, our editorial pages are open to other points of view and that we have published letters to the editor, even when they are extremely critical of this newspaper and its writers. I am disappointed that of thenexftour. years9eIns iot u.,ghtosay that Tommy ," be taken for grantewd- therhe waes timne. .. local publlshi,n~. TMM’s. staff decided not to write with Thompson is not as bad an appointment as-Bush could ~ the only place Y0U.could find a Gay paper ~,, ~ .... . ,, their concerns. . have made~-Is itenough to say that the nomination ofSen ? ¯ ¯ v~as in a sexually oriented bookstore, or in l"lease think .again.... So with seven years down, and more to John ’.A~h~0ft to be attorney general is somehow miti" i ." adub- v~fiue~ ff~ch sofii~ifiay.bg.ungom~ " i~ ~ " . i " go~ God, advertisers, printers and writers oated’bvth~nominafionofthenrO-choiceandnro-GLBT :" fortablefr~iu~ti~g,o~ttherS,thoseunder21 for example, " "’.i~illing~wewillcontinuetodowhatwedo, hopefully with New Jersey Guy. Chi~stine Whitman~to :be head of the " may not always tiavea.c_cess. . ........... ¯ .~feweramstakes and maybe even more ads. . Environmental Protection Agency9 " ’: - :.~ ¯ :/" ’* And unlike many Gaypapers, TFN has~always limited. ::..i Particularthaiaksis~luetoourwriters,mostparticularly, Let’s give credit where it. is du~: As-Ch~afr of "the" :"the sex~tiall~ oi:itlii.".~. ~~.~i9~f.,0.urp.ag~:~¢a~e not aiiti-~ .’. myfrt~fid, form~rc0mpanion, and still neighbor, ,entercommitteethatdraftedtheRepublican’Partyplafformlast : sexbutd0t~ffni~etllaipageafterpageof-explicitpht~tos ¯ tainmentcriticJamesChristjohn.He’sbeentherefromthe summer, Th0mnson did lead the effort tO remove some ~ ¯ and personals may be profitable but push ~e llnaits of the ;i.~b’eginiiing and h/is put up with much along the way. Also, not alF:~ Of th6 ~OP’s anti-GLBT language (A measure :-:..~’:mainstream" community’s’t3feranc~",.W,e~O.ra~..e.r,g~.t.:the. :;~.’deser~,~ng of th~ a~e writers Barry Hensley, Lamont condemning recognition of same-sex Tel~ ~atioushi~s re- : hews to all, eveni~f ,i.t,’ ,c0’..s,t~ .u~.i~o,’ ~,~"~i’-; ...... . ..... :, Lindsttom, Mary Sch¢ppers, Jean-Pierre LeGrandbouche mained in Thomt~son’s draft and other~disciiminatorw ~ ¯ Which brings us-to this: it ]ias.]~,en.~a:i~biJi 0Yl0ve, nut’s. ~ (~ho t~ally, really is not me!), Karin Gregory, long-time measurea~Were later olaced back in the’platform after ¯ .~oney. Tulsa seems trUli oF people.who.thmk that thergare ;. ,advertasers Kelly Kirby, Tim Darnel, Vanessa Welch, St. religious fi~ht activist~wresfled the dotuineiit away fro~~’~:7’big bucks to be,made, in loCa!...pub!is.h~ Pl,,eAs~..e tlfink ¯ ." .Michad’s Alley, TOHR, MCC United, David. Kauskey theVvV~scon~in ~overnor) ............. ,, .’i~:L~ain. 1-iSi:6iiiiseyoutha~it~Xl0t,s~.The~¢i~areas0n that i. ~.madt]~e.bthers who make it possible to print thisnewspa- Thomp~iJn al~o has b~n a positive advo~ate for AIl~g,." 7 Lhave anothgr,j~b ~, ~,e,ll as pubii a this, fiJ paper .per~ And I must add particular thanks to our printer (and fundin~"He~stron~lv suooorted the R~an-White Care Act. : .-, Of€ourse, it wg~lfidn thur(ifinbi:etfTulsa s Gayxxwncd ;..hi.sogo,ood and patient staff), who despite beingafaithful andh~litMe~,aid~aiversforHiV_~p0sitivepeople,,. :_, i~us~iiesses"a~.~.i~Tg,~_~:i,~tio~ ~ere supporting,..u~., ,!~ can :, ,~.uth~..rn Baptist, s~d we had a right to get .our,news who are"~i~t-normallv elioible for Medi~d until they:." ""thinkofadoge~i’~sdwhocould~doso.,Graatcdi~ma.’ghtnot ": printedaudhasdone~0f°rmostofoursevenyear*,71oour have dev~’iooed AID~ s~toms. : : . ..... ~ ~’~: :. ~:ltfin~-thefii2as much beaef~t. ,~. ~ ~a~:W~.r!~d..gr.~ban : ::~adei:’s,-Ialsoaddmythanks foryourinterestand.ev,eryonce That’s two marks m favor of Thomp~qn - and in ....:l:ulsaa~tbut~t,als0.,w..o0!~...t,,,eg,~s~t,a t,eg~th.~f.:pne percent as ., m,a while, your feedback.......... oppos~ih~Tli6mpson’s nomination as Secre.,.ta:rY of Health. i~ much. ~Atld ~e,,r,e,, ~i~s;~,s0.m..._e.._.~.’n_go to_ .~e. zaid~;f,o.r, su.pporti.n.,g ; .7 ~.Las.t,:I..ran pr,oud to, n.ote th~at~, Tu~,a F,amily~,N¢.e~v~s ~.h~ nndlffii~t~h’.q~rviee~ the National Ga~aJ~sbianTask "~ your own,.as wett as not,justsupporlingguDncattons wtm ~ ¯ ,o.e,eu 0a.Oed to me arcmves oI me uraanoma rUs.totacat FoBrcuetadtogersii~~ointlterldvlaanl~dzte~rtohgeriersismivepoGrLtBanTcYen.i.tfvement for _¯. acnotm~-mGuanyithyl,stwoenreesalt~L,yi~~ol~ons¢,tl-iskuep,.tph0er.tWe~~,cL.Od,,,o.,a~0e,d~.~Le~.!r7.,y.~E.;,.e~sn;,.a :o:. -~:~m.9e9pxea.pt~erTwh,em.Sc,nocm~,eetyn w.~~itlu!saals~t~o,tbye~t_m.olcurnotfyil~L.mtoi,r’angtT,c,o~~py~s¢t8,eomf soclal~ustace must demandbetter....................... ¯ ,"¯ ¯ .N.o.w.su.ing.,w.il.l ~a.y. t;h.a..t..s.b..e.c..au:s..e..w...e..w.._.n..t.e.t.h.i.ngs which .o .¯ w-ill b. e ,abl to add to their permanent collex~ta¯ on¯ T¯ ulsa As ~’Cb~ia scott Kin~ recently noted at NGLTF’~-~:_,o_anger p.~0pl,g (.o,.r.00W t.c~ver things ,,vhich-anger~ some.¯ ,.,Faintly.News al_~_O ~c,alled and encouraged the.Gayly Oklarecen( ci(eatino Chanoe ~,onferen~e:~n~’~f the stories ¯ others). We have pubiiSl~l’e~/ti{als,critical of ctmml~- : : , ho~aan to donate €opies of their productionto.th¢.OHSso behind’th’e~No~en~ger ~{~00 election is~l~3~recedented : nity leaders, articles which, were. ~’n’~l-c,hl .0f. I=I!Vii.A_ifi.s : :, ~eof Oklahoi~a’s Lesbian and Gay.history,win be coalition’-buildin~ "In a way we hav~t~s~id an object ’: i~o~bans, eVoi~fiti’~tl ofL~sbianown,ex!r.estaurants,local ¯ ¯ preserved.TFN will alsobe donating our copies ofdefunct lesson in’t~e nower of coalition unity:’~Mrs Kin~ said "I " and nanonal theatrical producuons, and-more; .-.That ,s, of ¯. Oklahoma LGBT pubhcattons to the OHS as w~ell.. think we havre just seen.the future~ Am~fican°dem~€: : course; precisely what.,The.Tul~a:Wor~d doe~ daydn_aiid : .. Here’s to a good year in 2001 for you and for us. racy flash before our eyes last Tuesday (Nov. 7). The " coalition.that gave AI Gore a popular majority can surely be as powerful as theNew Deal coalition that transformed America in an earlier era." Quotingtheimmortal words ofherhusband, Mrs. King ¯ said, "We -are~all ~tied together in a: single garment of. ~.! destiny...An inescapable network of mutuality...I can never be what I ought to be until you are allowed to be what you ought to be." " So in envisioning abroad-based, progressive coalition, I think we must think of those who have suffered and will " suffer under a Bush-Tommy Thompson agenda. Based " on his record, how would we expect Thompson to treat ." poor GLBT people who need social services? If he ¯ punishes poorwomenfor having too many children, how " do we think he’s going to treat GLBT parents who need hdp providing for their kids? How will his support for a ." During each year of the program’s duration, four Messen- .gerzAnderson scholarships .will be available at a rate of $5,000 the first year, renewable at $2,500 the next two years for a possible total award of$10,000. Winners are required to.participate ,in a paid Messenger- Anderson Scholarship Intern Program atNGLTFoffices in Washington, D.C. or New York City during the summer of 2001. To download scholarship guidelines and an application,. please visit www.nglff.org/about/messenger.htm. For questions about the scholarship, email delliot@ngltf.org. No phone calls, please. ." Applications fortheNGLTFMessenger-Anderson Schol- : arship .Fund must be postmarked by Feb. 15, 2001¯ Win- . pro-heterosexual-marriage agenda in wdfare policies : ners will be announced this spring, and the awards, will be impactOUt:eoramunity?., ~,, ~., ., -,.’." .;. see .NGLTF,,p, 11, ,.:- ~distributed~’in~August.-~200~l,:, .’A, committee ,of, working ~ : journalists, communications specialists and GLBT activ- ¯ ists will select the .winners.. The scholarship competition ¯ is only open to undergraduate college students and to : graduatinghigh school seniors. Applicants mustbepursu- ¯ ’ing a bachdor’s degree in journalism. In instances,where ¯ colleges or universities do not offer such a degree, appli- : cants must be able to.demonstrate that they are pursuing a : career in either journalism or commtmications advocacy, ¯ Foundedin 1973, NGLTFworks to eliminate prejudice, violence and injustice against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and -Transgendered people at the local, state and national level. As part of a broader social justice moyement for freedom, justice and equality, NGLTF is creating a world that ¯ respects the diversity of human expression and identity ,.where all people ,may.fully participate in society: ......... Anti-Gay Petition Filed ¯ SALEM; Ore. (AP) - Just weeks after Oregon voters defeated an anti-Gay rights measure, Lon Mabon and his Oregon Citizens Alliance have filed-a similar initiative petition for the 2002 ballot. Mabonfiled the initiative, dubbedthe Student Protection Act II, with Federal and-state constitutions forbid s~hools from banniug books because officials disapprove of their vlewpoxnts. Enterline said she ordered the books over the summer because the library lacked biographies and she wanted students to havethe chance to learn about Gay the secretary of staters office. If it qualifies for the andLesbianrolemodels.’qThebooksarenotaboutsex. ballot, it would .be the OCA’s fourth anti-Gay civil ".. They are just about people, who have ledlnteresting, rights ballot measure.. Voters rejected measures in i producti. ve-lives. an,dal.so.ha.pp.e.n¯.to.b.e Gay,"_ .s.a.i.dTom 1992 and 1994. " .... Kovac; the school s hbrary- technician. Measure" 9 would have prohibited instruction in ¯ It isn’t the first time the district bahned booKS’. TWO public gchools~aat "encourages, promotes or sanctions" behaviors related to homosexuality and bisexuahty. Th~new xmttattve says sexual onentatton shal notbe taught inOregon public schools in iimauner that would express approval of, promote or endorse homosexual ot bisexual behaviors." Sexual orientation and homosexuality are defined as yielding, whether x thought of deM,_respectivdy, to urges fr~iiaptations to en~a~eifl sexu~ activity with members of the same gender. :~ :~’ -:’ :~ ’ In th~ fall ~afiapaign, lV!easure 9 oppoif~n(s said the meastii~~fifil(ed ~Children s health beCMii~’ it wou~! limitAIDS;edt~ation in schools and le~d (6 increased teen suicide. 7 ~ " The iie~¢’initiative says.the,,propos~AiS~te sh.o.u!,d not be~ci)fi~i,e,d,,ias limiting: age-appt.o.p~ate, ot~jective,~" dt’aetual ’AIDS educati,o,n, in~ii-ii~fi’bn reg~d~ ing hum~iii ~exuality, t~aching affi~.")i~"~the hnniim wortli~Of"alI~st~dents,’ or suicide consoling. The statute al~0 ~hould not cause the firing!.ofbpenly Gay teachers, the proposal says. Ellen L0we, who worked on the Nd 6n 9campai~i, said the new effort would not persuad~ :~;0ters WI~ rejected the measure to switch side~. "I sense that people really dounderstandthe motive~,0fLonMabon. I don’t know that they are going to be fooled," Lowe said. In a fund-raising letter dated Dec. 18, Mabon, the OCA~s executive director, told supporters that ~e antt-"Measure 9. campaign "spent close, to- a million dollars, promoting this lie" about A!DS educataon: "We must file right away to keep the homosexual activists in our schools from:taking more license w!~ our innocent children," the letter said. School Charged With. Censorship of Gay Bios SANTA ANA, Calif. (AP) - Two students sued the Anaheim Union High School District for removing 10 biographies on homosexuals from their school library in what they contend is a violation of constitutional free-speech rights. The Orangeview Junior High School students.said in the U.S. District Court lawsuit that the district censored a book series called "Lives of Notable Gay Men and Lesbians." Thebooks include biographies on tennis player Martina Navratilova, economist John Maynard Keynes, and writers Willa Cather and James Baldwin. " The American Civil Liberties Union, whichfiled the suit oi~ behalf-of the two unidentified students, demanded that the district immediately return the books to the library shelves. "We all know why these books havebeenbanned;" ACLU attorney MarthaMatthews said. "The books were banned because they had a . positive statement to make to kids about Gay and Lesbian people.. ¢Fhe books were banned because of deep-seated prejudice." Principal Barbara Smith removed the books and took them to the district office in September, the suit said. No reason was given by administrators, Orangeview library teacher Chris Enterline said. "In my heart, I know it’s because they. are about Gays and Lesbians, and it says so on the front of the book," Enterline said. Telephone calls to Smith weren’t returned. : years ago, the district removed the Pulitzer Prize- : wiariinghoog,~"Beloved;r$~-f~y Toni M0rrison;.because ¯ of complaints that it was too graphic in its descriptions of a strivewho kiils l~er daughte~ instead 0f-ha4ing her ~ live as a slave. ,.;.......... ,Baitimore:,officialSlams : Gays,,ThenGets Arrested B’ALTI~(~RE’(AP)" ~-’The ~city s ~housing .~,-~- ii sioner was arre,sted after refusing tO lea~i~-a b~, ~vhere ~ h~b~htter’eomplained-~the commissioner made repeh~ ed-disparaging remarks~ab0utp.atrons h~ Su~spect~,,ed ! ~ff being Gay. "You "gttys° are fags;~ and-"-ttfi~ whole : ~ra~ i~’friil’ 6f fags"~were’amofig the r~maik~:~ ph~flT. GT~fii~6 ~lS~t~dlym.ade, a,€~ording ,fil~d, b,~Offi~r E~cert ~Lutadeju. :" Gr’a~iano,47,:~cas arre~t&l ~Bertha and restaurant in the historic Fells Point waterfront : diSLri~fi~p6li~e~pokeawomar~Ragina A~erdl’a ~Sitid. .i :Afi~r t~in~’t~i~nore~ the~remarks, the t~V~i:~at~fns, i~ Jason E~w~rd, 2~, and Prasad Narasimhff Ki~duvhlli, ; 33, asked the bartender to ask Grazi.ano to leave, the : ¯ "Police v~eiie ~alled because Mr. Graziano hadb~n -~isked,to leave and refus~.ed~ to dO :so; , Averell~-s~tt~~. ¯ "P61iC~ were called to.the sceneandheSfill refli~ed’~o ¯ leave~ .and- he-was ptaced..under arrest. The officer. i .advised the-suspecii repeatedly, to leave;and arrested,, Gra~iimo after he Said ,I don’4 have to go anyw.here~I the report said. Graziano, who was initially, charged with disorderly conduct, was released from the-city detention center later the morning of his arrest, the police spokeswoman .said. Gtaziano, a senior adviser and former general manager of theNew York City. Housing. Authority,. ,was appointedinOctober afterformercommissionerPatricia Hayne resigned following disagreement with Mayor Martin O’Malley over.how to run the department. ¯ Graziano will notbe prosecuted, said Deputy State’s ¯ Attorney HavenKodeck. "Based on our guidelines, we ¯ determined that prosecution was not warranted," : Kodeck said. "The situation was abated by Mr. ¯ Graziano’s arrest and removal from the situation;" A ¯ telephone call by The Associated Press to OrMalley’s ¯ office was not returned. " Conneetieut Scouts Try to Explain Anti-GayViews ¯ HARTFORD, Conn. (AP) - Connecticut Boy Scfut ." officials have distributed more than 25,000 copies of a ¯ pamphlet explaining the national organization’s tea- -" son~ for not accepting openly Gay members or adult ¯ leaders. "It is a statement of who we are and what our _" belief system is," said Douglas Ktofina, executive ¯ director of the Yankee Council, based in Milford. ¯ The pamphlet, called "In Support of Values: A ¯" Communication Tool for Parents, Leaders and Friends ¯ of Scouting," outlines the policy that was narrowly ¯ up,h~eld by the U.S. Supreme Court. ¯" "I’his is a complicated issue, but our critics are jumping up and down saying we discriminate," said ! Krofina, whose council serves 25,000 youths in most ¯ of New Haven and Fairfield counties. ~ ’q~he court said we have a First Amendment fight to II "- 11 " ’ M( c’United._..:i :~end_C~thy Ellioi~ : 1623 N~ Maplewood 918/838-1715 Community Unitat: Universalist Congregation ~t Cbthinunity ofHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE. oF THE HOLY sPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pro, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pro 1517 S. 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Call for more information: 918-584-2325 KIM WlLKS Independent Consultant for 357-1757 in lust a matter of hours Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation 747-5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 associate with whom we choose," he said. "Professed " The husband looks at the wife and says, ’did you see athei"stscan_’ t-beScout~leadersormembers el"thex:Had....-.¯.. ~who he called honey-?’ They were uncomfortable and the atheists been more organized, they would have ° we were,uncomfortable. If you eliminate that factor, it reached the Supreme Court first, and the court would -have-niled the same. way," ..... The naiion’h highest court ruled in July thatothe Boy Scouts may bar Gay.s.,from:servmg as troop,leaders, 6oncluding that forcing the Scouts to accept Gay )..eaters w~dyiolate~eo~ganization’.s First ~anendment right of free’expression. ~ . The .a~pplieation. for adult leaders does not ask.a candidate’s sexuall orientaffon, and Scouting has-~an unofficial "don’t ask, don’t tellY.policy similar to the militm-y. ’.s,;Krofina said.... Charlotte Begins: Gay. . Center Fundraisers CHARLOTI’E, N.C. (AP) - Backers of a proposed communitycenter for Gays in the Charlotte area have be.g}m a campaign to generate financial support for the project. The center would serve the region’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender population with child care, sporting events, support groups and educational seminars. The center’s soon-to-be-announced board of trustees plans to begin a fund-raising campaign to buy a site. "We are looking for a place that is going to be accessible tomost ofthe community," saidDanKJ!’.sch, a member of a committee putting together the fundraising campaign. Kirsch said the center also will welcome memberships from Charlotte’s non-Gay population. Depending on the success of the fund-raising cam, paign, supporters expect a centerloeation to be secured in two or three years. Lone ,Star Living: Gay Camping Near Waco WACO,Texas - Located off.a bumpy~.gravelled road, with an inconspicuous sign and a line of trees blockin,g the ,scenic lakeside view, ,it might be said that the Rainbow Ranch has been in the,closet for the past five years..The Gay and Lesbian campground, whichisjust outside Groesbeck, has become one of Central Texas’ best kept secrets, said Nell Johnsen, a guest turned ranch manager. "We, are. remotely located, and not highlypublicized, so alot ofpeople don’rknowthat we are out here," Johnsen said." Even’Jolmsen and his partner, Kelvin.Winn~. wlao manage, the campgrbtmds~, stumbled upon .the xanch accidentally while taking a.two~year, trip .around the United States. "We ca~e here almost by mishap," J6tmsensm"d. "I found theWeb page while we were in Arizona, and we decided to stop in and. see..It-was going to be a two-week stop, but we’ve been here £or the past nine.months." Theserenity Of the location, with campgrounds overlooking Lake Limestone and a small forest teeming’with wildlife, helps to draw many regulars to the ranch from major cities through0tit Texas and"the entire country. But it’s reallypriyacy and.the comfort of being able to spend time out in the open with their partners that keeps couples coming back. ~ "It’sjustthe simple things,like holding your partner’s hand as you walk through the wood~," Johnsenaaid. "It can’be uiieasy for f01kswith a partner of the same sex ’t6be thi~m~elves af.othef campgrounds’; so the comfort factor is areal draw here." " Sinc~ beginning theif travels at their li0ni~ Vmi~ouver, Wash’,, J0hii~en mid Wimi li~tg~ experiefi~ d theanxiety Of Staying’ el’s’ewhere: ................ °°’W~wetestaymg.ata’ very niceRV park, and I was OUtsx" de gn"lfi"ng,"’ JOlms’ en sai"d. ’~I stu" d"s’~om’".e..t.hi*n’ g""~s" basic as; ’Honey, can you pasgm8 ~li~’tong~?’ ~d you couldjiist f~ei th~i00ksfftfi~ the 8"6iipi~in th~ext’R~( ¯ makes [t;aiot easier to have a good .’.time." : To ensure that that sense of security is maintained at .." -all times, owner Peggy Thomas does not allow hetero- .¯...sexuals to c,amp by themselves at the xanch. "I will allow tffemili~ey come with Gay,campers, but not if ¯ -they come by themselves," Thomas .said.."I think it’s ." important to have a place where you can. be yi)urself, ¯ ._ hereyoudon t have to have strmgkt,peoplestarlng at .you. I opgned it because I liked Caml~i,ng and i didn’t : like being stared at." -..... ." Thomas said she picked out the location near Groesbeck because the land was cheaper than in other areas..Another nice aspect, she said, was. a tree line separadngmost of the grounds from the road outside, ." affording campers a little more privacy. That barrier ¯ makes campers feel more comfortable about being ¯ near such arural town, said Winn, althoughhe says the ¯ people of Groesbeck have been nice to them. ¯ Although the camp hasn’t had any trouble with the .. residents of Groesbeck or any other local people, the ¯ camp’sWebsite did experience asetbacklately. While ¯ tryi~,g to locate the camp’s site on several search ; engines, Johnsen found out that it had been kicked off ¯ most of them - an act that requires some kind of ¯ complaint lodged against the business. ; Becausemost of the camp’s business is generated by Internet searchers, thathurt camp attendance, he said. e found outpurelyby accident thatwe weredropped ¯ from the search engines," Johnsen said. "But werereg- : istered with all of them, and in 8 months we have had .. over 10,000 visits, and business has picked up." ¯ "It really amazes me, the perceptions that still exist ." that we are out here doing something strange, but it is : really just like a typical campground," Johnsen said. ¯ "Our sexual identity is just a part of us, but this is a ¯ place where thatis not anissue andwecan do the things we enjoy, whether it be fishing or boating or hiking. There’s just really something for everyone here." ¯ Group Asks Mormonsto ¯ Change Anti-Gay Policy ¯ SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - A group of more than 300 ¯ Gay and Lesbian Mormons and their family is asking ¯ The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to ¯ change its stance on homosexuality. The loosely knit ¯ group "Mormon Advocates for Further .Light and ¯ Knowledge" ran an advertisement with a petition in ; The Salt LakeTribune late in December. ¯ : The document.calleduponMormon general authori- ¯ taes to repudiate church statements about homosexual_ ; ity that are false and misleading. The petition said that 7 would include the church’s position that "same-sex .. attraction is an undesirable and unnatural emotion, ¯ Which, whenacted upon results in sinful, Satan-in- ] spired behavior." Church spokesman Dale Bills said it ~ is too early to respond to the petition, but that "President Gordon B. Hinckley has repeatedly expressed the ¯ .Church’s. compassion toward homosexuals." ¯ The.petition’s author, MacMadsen, said the petition ¯ is a last-ditch appeal to church leaders for meaningful i -dialogue about homosexuality. He said he has pleaded ¯ for two years with church leaders to hear them out. The ¯ .former Weber_State University healthy-lifestyles pro- : fessorandmen’s golf coach saidhemailedthepetition ¯ to churchleaders more than a year a.g0 _.a0~d he_r~eg.ei.v_ed ¯no response.. ] Madsen originally planned to run the ad during the ¯ Church’s Octo.~berGeneral Conference, butlackedfunds. Nonames appear due to space constraints;but Madsen said more than 300 individuals from 12,countries and ,most states,.backed it. Madsen initially, hesitated to have his name.printed, hoping to protecLhis daughter, , .who is a LeSbian. But, he said, "thereis~nothing in the :petition that I’m ashamed of or that’s inaccurate." Gay, Black And Positive in Chicago CHICAGO (AP) - Harsh is a word that could describe the streets of Chicago’s struggling Austin neighborhood, where ¯ trust is scarce- and twomenwalking hand " in hand might fear for their lives. : It’s the sortofplace whereDerrickHicks, whois openly GayandHIV-positive, could " wither away unnoti.ced, another statistic ¯ for a dusty filing cabinet. And withering ¯ away he is - though he is hardly going ." quietly. Even as he struggles to lift his " increasingly thin frame out of bed each." morning, Hicks is still one of Chicago’s most vocal advocates for the U.S. popula- ¯ tion hardest-hit by the AIDS-epidemic: " poor Blacks. : So when Frank Oldham Jr. - a bigshot ¯ AIDS administrator who’s run programs in New York and the District of Columbia ¯ - came to town two years ago, it surprised ¯ no one when Hicks welcomed Chicago’s " new AIDS czar with a friendly warning. " "Hi, my name is Derrick Hicks," he " said, shaking Oldham’s hand."And I’m ¯ going to be your worst nightmare." Qui- ¯ etly, however, Hicks was hopeful. He al- " ready knew that he and Oldham had some things in common. Oldham, too, was a ¯ Black, Gaymanin a city where the combi- " nation of thoselabels canmake for aheavy " load. " In June, Oldham made another public revelation. "I... too, am a face of AIDS," the 51-year-old New Yorker said’,-revealing his HIV-positive status in a speech at a conference for Midwest AIDS agencies. SomeofOldham’ s owncolleagues were stunned, but not Hicks. By that time, the two men had forged a friendship, a bond that has supported their respective fights against a virus that is sapping theii very lifeblood. "Heknows moreaboutmyhealth thanmy ownmother," said Hicks, whohas fended ~off three bouts of pneumonia in 2000 aloneand often directs theWest Sid~ neighborhood health services agency he foundedfrom home. "To have one likeme there," he say~ of Oldham, "’has made all the differenc~,"~ Though:..th.eir~openness is rare, Hicks andOld_arefarfromalone. Whilethe~ make up abgut !3%of~the nation s pop - iation, BlaCk .p~op!e represent about 37% of thenearly ~05,-.000AIDS cases report~ nationwi,d.~ through Dee. 1999. And the n.umber; Qf ,those who’ve develop~ full-blo_wnl .AIDSI .or-died from it la~is dropped .dr~matica!ly in som.e ~.uarter.s, the drop.~h~...beenmuch less stgnilicant the Hispanic..an~, particularly, Black communities, ~ ~ ...... ; "A lotldf i~{r.ei~tes to lack of access to health .cax¢~’~:~.s~y.s~ Victor Barnes, deP_U.tY director .f~ov~g.. ~,DC’s !-IIV prevention ,unit:But_~e.~ad:d.~_ that~Blaek people who ,are:HIV_~po.si,_ti~ve, o£te,~.~ seek ~reatment in the later-~Lgtg¢S: of .the illness. "And that often has.~Q, d9, .W!.~ stigma - and dem , Barnes:said~ In.~.,cago alone,3,670blaek residents; or 57%,of the total cases, were living with AIDS at the end of June 2000. That compares:with 27% for whites and 15% for Hispanics. Meanwhile, the number of deaths in major cities nationwidehave helped make AIDS the leading illness-related killer of the nation’s black men, ages 25 to 44, according to the federal Centers for Disease Control. And still, there is a hesitance to address it openly, even in the black community itsdf. "Evennow when someone dies with AIDS, people will say it was pneumonia," says the Rev. Jesse Jackson, who is among a growing number of black church leaders who are preaching about AIDS from their pulpits andpublicly getting testedforHIV. They hope to raise the comfort level among black followers who are worried aboutbeing tied to themostcommonforms of transmission - namely Gay male sex and intravenous, drug use. It is no easy task. In 1998, employees for Howard Brown Health Center, a Chicago clinic long known for its care of AIDS patients, carried a banner in the annual Bud Billikenparade-ahuge event founded by the city’s most prominent black newspaper publisher - and recall being met with hushed stares. The following year, officials at the nonprofit agency filed a complaint with the city Commission on Human Relations, claiming that a South Side Chicago realtor told themhe couldn’t rent them a space for a new clinic for fear of losing other.tenants. They have since found a space elsewhere in the neighborhood. Oldham has had challenges ofhis own - namely trying to unite nonprofits that, before his arriv~al, were warring over limited funding while dealing with a growing number of HIV-positive people who were surviving, but still in dire need ofsei’vices. Gay vs. straight~ black vs. white vs. Hispanic, rich vs, poor - the divisions : -were deep in a city WhereMayor Richard -. Daley was sometimes,booed,and even : pelted with .condoms, over. the way- his :¯. administration had handled the.epidemic ¯ in the early to mid:i1990S. ~Even...now, ¯ Oldham- has, about$20 millionin funding " , to dole, out~ to AIDS,agencies: thathe says : could easily put; te~ times that much-.to ¯ good use.,~ ~ ¯ ~ -.~ ¯ Still, though it hasn’t alivayS been~easy : ’ ~or thisadmi_’tted!yprivate man.to shat’~ his : ,story, Oldham*is wetl’-versedinadversRy. ,-A rising:star in-.the~.administrations-’of ~i -,former ~lqew. York,m~yors-Ed Koch-and ~" David Dinkins,. Oldha~ t’6ok a~,leave,,in :1 1994 tO run. ~the Di.st.ri.ct.o.f:.C.ol.um.b.ia., s - ¯~A,IDSprogramTsho~yafterRudyGinliani ~" ,~became ,New Y~rk. s,mayor: .:Frustrated ;: -with the,sloiw,pace,of, progress in.Wash- : °ington, Oldhammo~cedba~k to N~w York ¯ afterjustsix months; inpart; to care for.his i -elderly,parenW-who"were,-slippi,ng into ~i : senility~fid.someiimes’forgetfing’me~very ¯ face of their.0nly ekild.- : In the months that followed, he began i ;what he~c~.l,e~.~:~a’~Mp,w~n.~arii ~pjrtfl~7~He ~lso d~id~ i~ ~t test~xt for HIV- to ¯ .finally ’~tiifiTfiii wha~:lle’d already:, sus- ¯~tea ’~tti F~rlil~e~ ~".oujust~vant-to ’w’~~lkd"o~vn"a~oadandjts’~keep:g~ifi~ti,~,, -the road runs butandyoufall’0ff the rift,’ ~Oldham Says: of:thai period inhis-life:- " It was hardy th~ life lie hadenvisioned ¯ in the early 1980s.H~was h jazz Singer : who took acting class’€s-on the Side and ¯ dreamed ofmaking ’CDs. 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Are You " Tulsa’, Two-Spirited Indi:~’‘ Supra Group ~s here for you! ¯ E~ening sup~ group.~ ~gs Relation~ip workshOp~ ¯ ’ Sho~ tdps, .outings an~~ats ....... ¯ Free HIV testing For information call Tulsa° NatiVe American’AIDS:P~evei~ti6n ProjeCt 918.588.1900~ x4275 or x~,27& " more pressing matters took over¯ Nearly two decades later, Oldham saw Chicago as a chance to start the fight anew. To do it, he quickly enlisted help from everyonefrom political types and activists like Hicks to South Side pastors and anyone hooked into the city’s Gay club scene. The CDC’s Barnes calls therelationship that Oldham has built between grassroots AIDS organizers and his agency, the Chi- . cago Department of Public Health, "a national example." Others agree. "Frank has brought us some sense of civility and diversity and commonpurpose," saysGregHarr"is,chi"ef of staff for Chicago Alderman Mary Anne Smith, whose Ward includes Chicago’s largest Gay neighborhood. That neighborhoodis filled with trendy shops and restaurants on a main drag lined with rainbow columns that mark it as Chicago’s "official" Gay neighborhood¯ It is a stark contrast to Hickg’ side of town, where his own agency tries hard to blend in. There are no rainbow flags and the word "Gay" is hardly uttered. "To lay with another man is a sin; a lot of 0eople would like to say that just doesn’t happen," Hicks says, describing what he calls the general attitude in the black community. "It’s not talked about." So even his organization, which serves Gay, Bisexual and Black clients, has a nondescript name: the Greater Chicago Committee. And when they come to his agency’s food pantry or clothing bank, he asks whether they are "sexually active" and encourages them to get tested. "You have to meet them where they are," Hicks says. Oldhamagrees "Ifyou’re African American,_ you’re fighting racism.; if’ you:re African- American, you’re probably fighting poverty.. Sonow in your own community-,, you’re .going .to fight homophobia?" Oldham says. "You’dhave .to b~n awfully strong individual with a lot of support to come, up .and-say, ’I’m African American and I’m v~r~.proud to be Gay, very proud to .be Lesbian and this ¯ is .my partner,~ ?2 ~Thete are.days when:taking:the lead on all of thosefrontstakesitstotl,onOldham. But~’even~ when?ressed~ he.talks more .about-the health o£those around him than his-0~n.~ Still, ,Hick~. says.ilie~ liears the fatigue.ifi" his friend’S xoice,-, especially wh,,e,~n,’they charon the phone.late a,t night. ." Wefietoeaeh~the~,.:. but~we reb~ .starting- to- feel, our, a£gand, Our.,illness ;’ .:sa~* Hicks,, ~,ho:dedines.to. giY.e his own age~buLpredicts his own death in. the next five year.s.’~ut-not before-he.gets more ~ markdone.,, t,have a,mission,’LHicks says. "And it’s not my Teens: orailsn,t Sex MESA, Ariz.. (AP).r.,~t,d,~,,zP,.n.,a. ,19,ealth expertsLare.., c9,~cerned abou[reSults of a’ na- :.ti0nal. s~dY. s.h.~)wi~g ~’~ ~ies~nts believe sexually, transmi [ted diseases can only.be ,contracted through .sexual intercourse, and not other .typ~s. Of. physical contact. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevehtion study Shows that 15% to 20% of young men and .women will be-. come infected with herpes by.the time they reach adulthood. Doug Hauth, public information officer ¯ for the Maricopa County Department of : Public Health, said that this year alone ¯ more than 1,700 girls between the ages of ¯ 13 and 18 have been diagnosed with : chiamydia in Maricopa County, "and the ¯ numbers don’t include everybody," Hauth : said. ¯ Judy Crider, program manager .at the ¯ Scottsdale Prevention Institute, said she ¯ believes there is no disparity between the : national Survey and local teens. "Unfortu- ¯ nately, there’s a myth out there that if you : have oral intercourse, you’re not going to ¯ getdiseases,"Cridersaid.Cridersaidteens ¯ unfortunately internalized one of the argu- ¯ ments used by President Clinton when he ¯ defended his affair with intern Monica : Lewinsky by proclaiming that oral sex is ¯ notsex.ThehugepushinAIDS awareness ¯ education, meanwhile, leads kids to be- " lieve they can only get the disease from ¯ traditional intercourse, she said. Diaphragms May Reduce STD Risk ¯ EUGENE, Ore. (AP) - A University of : Oregon researcher plans to study whether : women are willing to use a diaphragm not : just to prevent pregnancy but also to pro- . tect them from sexually transmitted dis- . eases. The National Institutes of Health : has awarded a $1 million grant to the ¯ three-year project, which will interview ¯ current and former diaphragm users and .try to get young women at risk of contract- : ~ng STDs to use the device. : It is estimated that today just 2% of ¯ contraceptive users rely on the small,disc- " shaped cap that a woman fits over her cervix, creating a physical barrier to preg- ¯ nancy. When used correctly, diaphragms : ,arejust as effective as condoms inprevent- ¯ mg pregnancy. They are’also known to ¯ prevent some STDs, such as gonorrhea i and chlamydia, although it’s not known if " flaey guard against HIV, the virus that can Iead to AIDS. Currently, reSearCh is underway on new methods for "preventing the spread of STDS‘ such as miCrobicides. ¯ But Marie Harvey, research director at ¯: the UO’s Center for the Study of Women fn Society, said diaphragms mayheldfill a i niche for women at rihk o,f getting STDs .": ~tntil new methods are proven. -" Harvey is conduc~t~.g the ’study,, along i with co-researcher Sher~[ Bird. If the diaphragm protects against (some) STDs ~agnd pregnancy, and might ,offer prbtection against HIV, it ,co,.uld ~.-h.’. Wonderful op- , tion for women~ Harveysai& -. .~ Harvey got the idea-0fstadying the ’_ -~ffectiveness of diaplir~igms>~use of ~ another study she’s doing that shows high- . risk couples how to ~)i?ote~t :themselves : :during sex, primarilythrdugh ~the use of a ¯-~ondom. It’s clear the’ d6iidttm protects : against STDs, but~it~ md4~S C~fil~Olled~by ¯ -the male-and some.atien~,gcOn!t~uste them, ¯ she said. The benefits of the diaphragm is ¯ that it can be iusert~t ~p’to’"two hours "before sex, is not vislbl’e"and the man [ doesn’t have to know thewoman is using it, Harvey said. " ....... Harvey believes the diaphragmis avaluable tool for women. "I.fWOmen can’t get a man to use a condom, the diaphragm is a good option, period," she said, "even if we don’t find out it protects against HIV." 2~2 ¯ -and’performingin Houston. .. Happy Ne~ year! H~d to believe it’s ~2001. I hop~:iihelnew~iyear brings your " .was .beyond,my reach at the, time,, or I hopes and d~anS’~fi~tion, would have .been the~e. I read of a few .:.Great nev~!~ern2iidette Peters returns : moreperformances,maiulyatPoorDavid’s ::tO~ Tulsa Jan ~i.an.d~6~-.th for a~, evening of : Pub.in Dallas, but usually ! learned of the ,showtunes ~ao,.d;gl~am~our! S~e s one of the ¯ performanceafter.thefact.~d~inceithas :fewpeopleI~es~performherethatcan : become a t~adition fin tliis column, she ~rap an entire audience . ¯ performed a Stevie ¯ arot~nd her fi~igerwith " everyone should },Iicks song from the s~emingly, eff0rtle~s~ ~ "" ~ - . ~ . " 1981Steviealbum, Belease. Sheperform~vith her show, espeeaally just to ladonna 2 "The High- .thePhil, andifyouwant see ff she performs wayman." I really wish I’d been there for that! Unforttmatdy, the price of the benefit to see a true star, then don’t miss her concert! For tickets, call 596-7111. I really think that everyone should see her show, especially just to see if she performs "Making Love Alone" again. (I heard the song on her "Sondheim, etc.: Live at Carnegie Hall" CD, a recording of a benefit she did for Gay Men’s Health Crisis. And yes, it is about what you might think, and she wasn’t going to perform it last time she was here due to the rep Tulsa has of being, well, prudish. Can’t imagine why, what with the preying hands and all. Happily, Robert Reed, then artistic director of the Phil talked her into it, and the audience loved it. I was able to thank her for including it after the show. Shffs,. a lovely woman, and so tiny! You’d never think so to see her onstage, since she projects such a larger, than life persona. Andnever underestimate the power of big hair! Again, this will be the don’t miss event of the Phil’s season. So don’tmiss it! I am pleased to announce the new CD "Love Decides", Jane Oliver’s new recording is one of the most rewarding listens I’ve had in a long time. For those who haven’t heard her name, she was a cabaret diva and recording artist of the 70’s an~ 80’ s. No one can beat her whenit comes to’ wringing every bit of emotion out of a lyricl Her phrasing is impeccable, and her voice is angelic. She made four successful recordings from 1976 to 1982, which are still in print. She was rumored to have died of cancer at one point, since she never recorded anyCDsafter 1982’s"Jane Olivor in Concert". (Fhe other albums are "Jane Olivor - First Night" 1976; "Jane Olivor - Chasing Rainbows".1977; "Jane Olivor - Stay the Night" 1978; and "Jane Olivor - Best Side of Goodbye" 1980. All are well worth a listen. Her version of "Vincent" and "Some Enchanted Evening" are the definitive recordings of both songs.) Well, I later found.she never had died. .(Good it~gii,~’!:el~e:~e new CD would : .definitely~i~fi,~L~K~ so. y0~~expected .2iiie to 16~ti~i-:’0~portunity~;~ass by? ~Puhleeze.) She,had.retired from recording due to being gyppedby the record company she had~recorde~&the albums for. Left with a bitter taste in her mouth from the ,,experience, she :p.efformed live at small ..,.venues. To,.my ~s~e, she was practically in my!ba~k.;y~d?~I was living in Fort ~-Worth when,I,read sh~ was to perform at .~ an AIDS benefit in:Dallas, and was living "Makln, Love Alone" a~aln .... And yes, it is about what you might think... " "Love Decides" is her first album in 18 years, and if you have a lover, it’s the perfect Valentine’ s gift, and if you don’t have a lover, get it for your- ." self. Her voice wraps around you like an ¯ old friend’s hug, and can make the hardest " bitterest heart melt to mushy goo in no ¯ time flat. And yes, I speak from experi- : -ence. The tide track, "LoveDecides".is an ¯¯ . ode to thefact that sometimes, feelings can take youby smprise, tuming somcone you ¯ wouldn’t ordinarily be attracted to into the : love of your life, and you will have no ¯ choice in the matter. So enjoy it. My other ; favorite is "Night Song", telling the story : of realizing someone that you’ve grown ." fond of could be apotential love. She does ¯ a great cover of October Project’s "Bury ¯ MyLovely" - no not about murder. More ¯ a song of how you are wrong for this ¯ person, and basically they should forget ¯ you. The song I identify with~0stis "I ¯ had A Man." Get out of the gutter. More ¯ like, "Well, I could’ve done this or that, ¯ but... I had aman. So I didn’t. Now he’s ¯ gone, and I’m stuck here, with thelife I’ve : created. Damn, I should’ve done it!" : "Could’ve been we,~ffing rubies, Could’re ¯ been takin’ bows... Could’re been high ¯ society,-~could’ve been someone ¯ proud...Should’ve had my silver spun, ; weaver that I am.., Should’ve been getting ¯ my work done - but I had this.., man.7 So, : not all treacle and sweetness. "In The ¯ Moment" isa lovely upbeat rune, about ¯ living in the now, and loving in the now. ¯ So,it’s amanic depressive’s dreamCD. "I ¯ Believe in You" is a lovely ode to friend- " ship and support; and Jane covers "Colors _" of the Wind" with a magical quality that ¯ Vanessa Williams could only hope to ¯ achieve. ’Tll be Hei’e" wraps you up in a ¯ warm blanket, a perfect song for those .. down moments that crop up every, so of- . ten. : Jane has an intimate quality that makes it seem she’s singingjust for you, an amaz¯ ing thing to achieve on a studio recording. I would love to see her at the PAC - she, ¯ like Jim Brickman, could make that hall ¯ seem like her living room, and make you ¯ fe~i like a gues~t in h.e.r li.,v~ng ~Q~om bythe fire. Best Buy has the be,stprice On theCD : at $12.99,, andfor theperfe~t r0manfic gift, .you can t go wrong with any of Jane ¯ Olivor’s recordings, Ha.ve I ever.steered ¯ you wrong? Sodi~.the, ~igh~s,:!ight the ¯ candles, .se_elaMuse p. 9 Congregation i.ii’P~esents uriah Featuring Ellen Kushner Hostof Public RadiO’s Sound& Spirit as heard on KWGS 89.5 Saturd~y,Janl 27th, 7:30pm, Tickets $5 1719 So. Owasso Avenue, Info: 583-7699 Come, listen and be enrap Saturday, January 13, 2001 . 8pro Tulsa P~rjbrmingArts Center Ed~oin O~t~oater, conductor Jennlfer Koh, ~iolin Thea Musgrave Rainbo~o- Mozart Violin Concerto No. 4 Dvo~Lk Symphony No~ 7 . Otfi’-january Masterworks.e+en~: features the stunning ariimT ofviolinist Jennifer Koh in Mozart’s beloved ViolinConcerto No. 4. Special guest conductor Edwha Outwa[er joins her on stage for thishighly anticipated performance, also featuring the haunting beauty of I)vo~ik’s Symphony No. 7. Tickets MO to $45 by Karin Gregory Oh.-: .My...God! I think I should revise Melissa Etheridge’s lyrics.slightly to read: "Wake me up when we hit 2005!" For the new millennium (we all know it-begins THIS year) Imade a wish list that includes open:minde&Iess acrossthe board.However with our new administration, we can kiss that wish goodbye for at least four years, Now I’mnogoodatmakifigresolutions (I’just break’them before I start); but I added today "hope chest" while -the restof the~ountiy was drinking to forget the past few months~andespecially the outcome! -~ ° In the spi:rit of the Season "..._Maybe we’re so erltleal of the other bemuse we’re all tryln$ so desperately to llve normal lives when the rest O~’~e{ety views us as abnormal.., to :just ~ast, I’.m~fediiigOpfi- present a eampaiSn for :misfic"despite’ ’geeiiag the " equal ~$,}at~s, we need to ~l~ngs-~f"the Reli:gious ’:Right piippet-masters ’en- show the rest twining OurgM£ W. (and ’I Amerlea tlmt we -Ollircmvfevenrmnmngme ¯ word -busk.-anymo~;e!). :, a* e~luals. , . : Being a’child of~eSixties," " " I~,s.tillllave a hope’ that Our country will: "" ~. ) Adopt i Ve~ont .s. generosxty. The least theotherstates ’cafa dois to feel for it " /by taking,some of flue. weight off the " q’e~slat~e s Shoulders. After all, I’m sure :~;&~ran:re~idents in this tiny state are still ¯ tottering over th~ de~lslon to make"those " Gay bobs" equal; steeling themselves for ¯ . ~¢hat they must thinkwillbe Gay bars hti~ " dildo stores on every comer. " 2) Put education"a~’ the top of the list. O,K, as a teacher I think this was a given for ¯ m~. But if you really look at the serious- . hess of ignorance(and many of you have ¯ first hand experience of this that I can only ¯ imagine), you’ll agree tliat theONLY Way , we can stop homophobia is by educating. ’ My goodness, I ~nkI just putmy butt on ¯ the line by promising to actually do some- ¯ thing besides rage against a seemingly " unforgiving God. Only through spreading " the word, 10iidly but not angrily, can we ; change v~ews. Look at what happened to ¯ the Dr. I.aura campaign. If you’re asking, ." "Dr. Who?" -then the campaign suc- " ceeded! ¯ 3) Become a true democracy. Yes, I ¯ know this is autopian ideal. Homosexuals " have never been anyone’s favorite, but we " were always pushed to thebackbeeause of ¯ the Native Americans, the Irish, the Jew- " ish, African Americans, Hispanic,s, Japa- : nese-Ameficans, etc. Now we’re in the ¯ limelightbecauseracial andreligious preju- ¯ dice have (finally0 become socially unac- ¯ ceptable. And look who S left standing in : line to be hated! Ratherthan certain gov- : emmentofficials complaining thatwewant ¯ "special rights", my hope is for them to " take a look back over the past two centu- ~ ries to see that all anyonehas every wanted : are EQUALrights ! 4) See a united Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/ : Transgendered community. I know I’m : new to this so I should quitgriping and get ¯ offmy duff to help unite. What I see in the " community makes me understand that the " war won’t get wonunless we conquer this : battle in front of us: accepting each other ¯ as a community of equals, rather than ¯ "dyke", "fog", "traitor", "freak." I’ve got ¯ Lesbian friends who Wonder why I have : Gay-male friends. I know a few. who : wouldn’t let a man into their’lives even if ¯ he’s a doctor, lawyer; veterinarian. Then : there are the Gay male friends who gripe : about Lesbians asifth~y’ve only seen the stereotypes on TV, rather than getting to know us. I’ve heard from some :of th~ cfmmunlty that t~iseximls are just Gay men who cxm’t get off the fence (and the-inevitable jokes about that!). I don’t knfw how my friends feel about Tr~insgend,ered people, but I do k~ow’ :the topic never comes UP." Maybe w&re so cridcal of the Other because we’re all trying so desperately to live normal lives when the rest of society views us as abnormal~ In other words, to present’a campaign for equal’ tights, ’we need to : show therest of Americathatwe consider ¯ each other in the community as equals. Look what it’s done for the Religious Right. They may have their squabbles, but we the public don’t get to see it. They present a united front, bigoted though it may be, and have a President to play with for the next four years. That’s power! I realize we’re talking about a basic belief system and moral code as opposed to MANY belief systems with many other moral codes, but you learn from the enemy. If the only tip we want to take from the Religious Right is unity, then we need to study them. And finally... 5) Above all, respect us as valuable, irreplaceable, andEQUALhuman beings. Hell, in Texas I’d sometimes just wish we were considered HUMAN! But we can’t settle. With TV exposure of Gays and Lesbians at its highest (thank you NBC and Showtime!), you’d think we’d have it made. And that soon, in part due to the public’s viewing of such shows as "Queer As Folk" and other programs, we can soon hold hands and kiss in public without fear of being arrested, being stared at, and sacrificing everything. Maybeone day soon we’ll be stared at just because someone else wants the relationship we have, and for no other reason. Hey, I told you I was optimistic. My evil twin will return next month. Happy New Year! draw a warm bath, put this CD on, and invite someon, over. Or, make love alone. With Jane singing, you can’t lose either way. As for events around here, Theater Club presents "The Vagina Monologues" (God they can talk, too?) Jan 11-27. Call 857- 9154 for ticket info and location. Heller Theatre presents Steve Martin’s "Pieasso at theLapin Agile," the story of a fictional meeting between Picasso and Einstein. 746-5056. see amuse, p. 10 "Christ-Like" by Emanuel Xavier ¯ become his f.,,a~}ly. Membe.rs of me gangs, reviewed by Barry Hensley " form "houses to protect tlaemselves anti Tulsa City-County Library " each other andin every way fulfill the role Where does onestart when reviewing a ] of family to Mikey. His good. look.s and violent and disturbing novel about brutal, ~ shrewdness allow him to get rata me reyoung, Gay, Hispam’c gangs whoselives revolve around carefully crafted sets of, rules and, at the same time, no rules at all? These arecharacters from ferocious families Who understandnothing but deceit, confusionanddrug induced brutality. The easiest thing to say is that Christ-Like is simply a Dennis Coopernovel set among Gay, Latino gangs in New York City. Our protagonist, Mikey, is born into an incredibly~ dysfunctional family in a distressed neighborhood, where Mikey’s role model " These are 0 o ¯ ekaraeters from feroelous ~amilles who understand nothln~ but deedt, eonfuslon and dru¢ induced brutality ... It’s hard to understand why the reader would eare about this arrogant, mls~uided and eontemptlble youth, but I couldn’t put this book do~..." is a neighbor, yelling up from the street, Come on Mmam. I don t wanna come up thestairs! Just throw tl},,e, baby outthewindow! I’ll catchit! I swear!’ Mikey’s mother soon has an abusive boy~,,. friend, and a heartless relative, teenag,e Chino, stays with them, sharing Mikey s roomwhile secretly abusing theboy, physically and emotionally ..... As he grows upin. thischaotic, environment, Mikey, of €ourse, has no idea ~.at n0t all families arelil~e thls and, despite b-is intelligence and basi~gbodness, starts down the wrong path. And what a path it is! Unable to understand healthy relationships, hebecomeS-se~ua!!y active and abusive with almost anyQne,.and starts busfling on the Westsidei~i~L He discovers drugs and the in~bnd~ ~that comes with dealing. He tougi~e.nS ~p ahd picks fights so he can rob afidinj~.e, i(often i_nnoce.n.t) people. He beans t0 ~ pride in ms viciousness wi~’d~iii~.~i’_~lee. V~nen he hits adolescen~;:it~ ~er kicks him out, not becans~ i~f~fiiS~ess behgvio,r, but because he’i~iG~@~,~d~suddeulY he s onhis own. ;~ ~.o~; ,b,’ ~ ~. In Mikey’s bi~’~ reality, the underground subcul~e,of homeless hustlers stricted clubs where sex, drugs and competitiveness flow freely. This club scene is particularly dangerous. Aguy bumps you accidentally? NO problem! Just stab himright there or wait until later and beat him withabaseball bat! Hehad it comin’ to ’ir!! It’s hard to understand why the reader would care about this arrogant, misguided and contemptible youth, butI couldn’tputthisbook down¯ Perhaps because we know that Mikey is, deep down, a good kid shaped by his environment, we want him to be able to rise above being a monstrous criminal ~and realize that there isanother, world out there. But, whenev~er.h~ s.tax~tS a ~ewreia:’ tionship, we know it will end in chaos.. When he quits ~d~gs, we ~.kn~v~ h¢’!l~,, ~ start using again. Whenhe gets beaten,.w.e know it iS what he ~:~pected. ~rying p~sages to quote ff,0~ exiilain his predicament proved diffiCultL The Tulsa Philhi~monic pfesents a mati; nee performan~rf ,Peter and The Wolf with the Magic Circle Mime Companyon the 14th. 747-7445. For the artsy.craftsy~crowd, Mayf6st is seeking artists and artistes tO display their wares and worksat the 2001 Mayfest. Jan 12 is the deadline to apply for space. Musical types have to apply’the 5th. "’If I were a rieh.m~ ~.~diddle deedle dicdle diddle dee: .or, as tti~ Southern version would haveit; "Eiddle dee dee.""Fiddlcr on the.Roof’~ ~illbe appearing overhead at the PAC fiom the 16-21 with Theodore Bikel as Teyve. Yes, this is the show Bette Midler got her start on Broadwayin the 70’s, as a chorus girl. I don’t ttfink Timothy Daniel Attorney at Law . An Attorney. who will fightfor justice & equality for Gays & LeSbians Domestic-Partnership Planning, Personal Injury; Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1~800-742-9468~or-918::35.2-9504 128 East Broad~.~i,~i)promrigh!:OklahOma Weekend and evening appointments are available. ¯ the copies we have.of the miscelleneous ¯¯ defimctpublications whichTulsa’sseenat ¯ one time or another. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights also published a news- " letter, TheTOHRReporter, formuch ofits ¯, 20 year history which documents much of ¯ Tulsa’s Lesbian and Gay history. virtually~every paragaph is,pepp~,r,e~, over,ly colorful l’an~ge Sr events. It s haid for a whit~--i3r~ad reYi’~ei ~Vi~o In addition, Tulsa Family News will send ..... .NeW Year .....:, .NewCareer Get a iaeM Siatt,bi~ ~your New Yearsresolution If you~are responsible and self’ifi*ofivated ar~dhave:a posfive .attitude. We.ii;iii’:N~!’p’)~u fulfill, ~our resolution. cati,665,,3401 TULSA COUNTY DEMOCRATIC ~P’A- R T-Y: Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 747-0236, Tues.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat: 8-5pm ody Tulsa’s only professional body-piercing ........ Co![egg Hill Presbyterian Church In-response to God’s Love, College Hill Presbyterian Church is a communit¯.y of God’s pe_ople called tO tell others the Gospel of Jesus Christ " " ’~" - tiirough service; and evangelism. To nurtureour faith, we gather for "worship, prayer, . .... StUdy andfeilowship~ Trusting i~i a living, loving God, we.seek to become a compassionate voice.f6r:pea~ce and justice. Our congregation" wdcomes all persons who respond in trust and obedience to God’s grace . - in Jesus Christ, and desire to become part of the membership and ministry of Christ’s church. Membership is open to all people regardless of race, ethnic origin, worldly condition, marital status, or sexual orientation. Sunday Worship 1 lam 712 S. Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) L,.i teach our students that we will reach our full potential individually_and collectively............ ¯ only when we learn to appreciate our diversity. We need to. do’::a better job of How will his Support for privatization of ." teaching our youth- our couittryfs proud ourpublie~cho0i~act~e:employment ¯ history of welcomi~!p~le~f different rightsofO~B~i~ch~tpri~)ateschool~9" ;’ religions, racial and ~,~ offgins, gen-" Or)the fight’of. :GLl~;f~ids not to gei "’." ders and opinions. Ithasnff been easy and harassed and kicked out Of those schools? " we donft always do it well, but Welcoming ,On the issue ofabortion, whaf will it ¯ diversity is at the h~gf-what has made n~ to*h~Eq.~.,(Ol~-h.ea3.~[h and human ! ournafion great. Thi~i~’whatean unite ser~ices0ffic~,r.eJi~t~!ie~un.damen~right ’. now and in’the future! We"~oW need to privaey?If lldh~s ~e rightt0 interfere : national.effort to realiz¢ihat:o’~’lives: in a deci’sion’t~~trbi~6u~reproductive ; be-enriched as individu~!~.;:a~~familie~(as ~ de~siom~~.h’&dsec~n =and frill-he do..-- communities, and asia ~atibn if We em-" to’ &ntrofOiil fii~es~..-.:........... .- .i[.:b.e.he.ve.fil..e..G..L...B...T.. community ought to" "~i "Bbirsaecex,uarlatahnerdtThraannsfegaern,d6e~r-eGdi~byro;tLheerssbiaannd, co.n~sider.issue~;~iik~~ reproductive heaith~ ¯ sisters, r ’~ an~pov~rty aceii,tr~il p~rfof our concerns : You have an awesom~ 0p~i~ty and f6r~any~,~,:~~-i~ ~er’all;’a~ignificani~i’ ; responsibility ahead of!yoi£’ We wiint to Portion of our c0.~m~,,ttt~~ty .grapples witlE q,~ work by your side to make-b~~€laools and 9e e issu~ in @e~ personal lives. And ¯ our country healthier. We .~all on you to mere are homophone policies and prae- ’: keep us - all of us who love, admire and ti~ in @.e.,i~.sf!~mtioos"that control these,;._ care about someone wh6 is Gay, Lesbian, serwces. :" ............... . . ¯ Bisexual and Transgendered - in mind in E{ut ev~ri’fdr’th~S~’~,BT activists who" ~ the days ahead. rejectamoteindii~i~,~’agenda, thereoug,ht " - Kirsten Kingdon, executive director to lit least be a mention of Thompson s " re~rd on.’~ese.spcialjs~sues. Does anyone : really beh’~ve t~at a politician who treats ,. women andpoor people lwith, such disre- : spect will hold our cximmunity in esteem? "’ I think they’re picking on the wrong per- A movement must have a set of values - ¯ son with John Ashcroft." °therwisewearejustadisconnectedgroup :- Sen. Carl Levin, D-Mich., told CBS’ of people who are outside the norms of " "Face the Nation" he believes Ashcroft heterosexuality. i urgeus to embrace a set : will eventually be confirmed, but not beof values that represents the struggles of - fore he is thoroughly questioned by skepevery segment of our community. Let’s ." tical Democratic senators. Likewise, Sen. thank Tommy Thompson appropriately ." Harry Reid, D-Nev., told"Fox News Sunfor his few gestures of support. But let’s ¯ day" he knows of no reason why Ashcroft reserve "praise" for a nominee who has ¯ would be rejected outright. ¯ exwn.ed it........ ¯ While Ashcroft’s nomination brought Founded in 1973, the National Gay & ; some criticism, Bush seemed less willing I2sbian Task Force works to eliminate ~ to join an ideological fight over whether prejudice; violence and.injustice against ¯ Gays may serve in the military. Former ga~, .lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered " Indiana Sen. Dan Coats, a candidate for People at the local, state,and nati0-nal level. " secretary of defense, lost out on the job " whenhereportedly told Bushhe warned to ¯ scale back accommodations made to : womenandGays in the service, Newsweek : reported, quoting an unnamed source. AnotherBushCabinet choice thatraised harass, bully and assault our youth be- : questions was former Colorado attorney cause of thdr sexual orientation or gender general Gale Norton, nominated for Seeexpression do nbt fit the stereotype of : retary of the Interior. She has expressed hate-filled extremists, but are average ¯ support for oil exploration in the Arctic youngpeoplewho~ftens.eenothingwrong ¯ National Wildlife RefUge, an idea that with their behavior. ~ Bush favors and many Democratic sena- ~-Anti-Gay harassment - as well as ha- ~- tors oppose. Norton as Colorado attorney rassment based on religion, race, ethnic , general defended Colorado’s anti-Gay origin, or any other prejudice - destabi- : Amendment 2 which was ruled unconstilizes the learning environment for all stu- " tutional. dents. No child can learn well when they " The bigger question, Democrats said, is are scared. No child should be afraid that ¯ whether Bush can work with a Senate that they will be harassed because of who they ; ~s split evenly between Democrats and are. We need to do a much better job of " .Republicans. "He’s going to have to show teaching respect for all in our schools and : m programs and policies a willingness to in ending the toxic atmosphere that exists ¯ work with Democrats, to work out comin all too many of our schools today. We : promises with us..." he said. needyourleadershipatthefederallevelto Hatch said ~ush’s stated intention to send the message that anti-Gay harass- reach out and work with Democrats is ment is wrong, genuine. We particularly ask you to Keep us in mind as you appoint a Secretary of Education. Wewill be watching - and hoping - to see if that is someone who is dedicated to an excellent and safe education for all our children. There is so much to be done. We need to The majority of young .people who Saturday,~ February ,. ....... Midnight The"Brad~.Mansion.,~ 6.20~~N. .orth~~De~nver DJ, Hors res:, ~. h,~Bar, Live Ente~ai~me~ Dr, ;~ ~Mild to Wild .Door prizes for Dressed Tickets: .....~-or $20 a~)! the door "~-~ ~va~lable The TU~;~ GLBT CommunityCenter 211~ S~!t3th~!~e~fi~i~ Drive 918~743.4297 and select~Ven-dors listed on the website. Proceeds benefit The Pyramid Project "Building a Home- Funding the Future, for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center." 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Bush HIV testing homophobia Jim Christjohn John Ashcroft Karin Gregory National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Native Americans Openarms Youth Project performing arts Raging Lesbian Red Cross Red Rock Tulsa representation restaurants sex Soulforce STDs Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Wild Hearts Ball https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f061325d38e6da549e9a56e4b036c108.jpg 388c9d4d13c234452b45ff6df2aace45 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4e1445f6b83a2cb5999d574b0bf89371.pdf f42a616a6a5cc6fecfeb4cec27576541 PDF Text Text Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Gay Folk + Friends March ! TOHR n. February: In M. L. King, Jr. Parade Black +iGay in Tulsa rkansas’Sodomy’ tatute Challenged LITI’LE ROCK (AP) - A judge heard motions for a judgment in a lawsuit filed by a group challenging the state’s anti-sodomy law in late January. Last February, Pulaski County Circuit Court Judge David Bogard rejected arguments that the state had sovereign immunity from lawsuits. He cited an exception allowing officials to be sued in their official capacity when the remedy sought is injunctive rdief. Bogard dropped Attorney General Mark Pryor as a defendant but said the group challenging the 1977 law could proceed with its suit-against local prosecutors. B oth sides have filed motions for snmm aryjudgment, asking Bogard to decide the case on the basis of briefs and affidavits without the need for a trial. Seven Arkansans sued Pryor and local, prosecutors, including Larry Jegley, in an attempt to v old the 1 aw that prohibits certain sexual conduct see Law, p. 3 COMC and Tulsa Oratorio to Host Russian Choir TULSA - The Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble will perform contemporary works, ancient liturgical music and Russian folk songs at Holy Family Cathedral on Sunday, March 11, at 7:30 pm. The Council Oak Men’ s Chorale and Tulsa Oratorio Chorus have joined to bring this exceptional world-class ensemble for one performance only. Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble was founded in 1967 in Petropavlovsk, Kanchatski, and is famous in Russia for their high quality performances of challenging work. From the masterpieces of Rachmaninoff, sacred liturgical pieces to native songs of the far east masterfully arranged by its artistic director, Evgeny Morozov, Kamchatka’s repertoire exemplifies the Russian experience. The ensemble is a featured choir performing for the American Choral Directors Association (ACDA) national convention in San Antonio, Texas. A. PozdnyakoV, Professor at Gnessin Russian Academy of Music, aptly described the group in a recent review, "listening to Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble,it is difficult to believe it is a community choir. Its harmony and pureness of sound, the tonal balance of parts, all are impeccable. A subtle musician and a master of his art, Evgeny Morozov, has managed to put a superb performing group in Kamchatka, though it is appreciated as one of the best choirs within Russia." Ill ~ ~.~ Z DIRECTORY EDITORIAL US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT GAY STUDIES P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P, 8 P. 10 Soulforce in Oklahoma at the parade TU’s BLGT Alliance marched as well as Tulsa PFLAG. TULSA - On Tuesday, February 13, Tulsa Oklahomarts for Human Rights (TOHR) will hold its monthly meeting at the Gay Community Center at 7pro. The speaker will be Derrick Davis, longtime HIV/AIDS educator, speaking about being African-American and Gay in Tulsa. TOHR will also hold the Wild Hearts Ball on Saturday, Feb. 17, 8-miduight at Tulsa’s historical Brady Mansion at 620 N. Denver. Tickets are $15 in advance, $20 at the door and are available at the Community Center, 2114 S. Memorial, 743-4297, Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15th, on Cherry Street and at Tulsa Floral Design in Brookside at 3404 S. Peoria. Proceeds from the event will benefit The Pyramid Project, the effort to build or buy a permanent home for Tulsa’s Gay commtmity center. Speaking of which, TOHR’ s board of directors has voted to amend the name of the commtmity center to The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center. (editor’ s note: TFN will respectfully abbreviate this when possible to LGBT Community Center or just Community Center). see TOHR, p. 3 Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, photos: TFN Ambassador Hormel Opposes ¯ Long-Term Battle. Seen Ashcroft as Attorney General ¯ Over Gay Marriages WASHINGTON (AP) - James Hormel, who became the first openly Gay U.S. ambassador over the objections of then-Sen. John Ashcroft and others, is retttming fire in urging the Senate to reject Ashcroft’ s nomination as attorney general. "I get no satisfaction from this," Hormel told The Associated Press. "I am extremely disturbed that he was nominated for this very sensitive post, and it concerns me greatly that he might be serving as attorney general, given his stated positions on a variety of issues." The controversy over the nominee’s stand on Gay civil rights issues widened at the end of January, when a health care expert said Ashcroft asked him about his sexual orientation during a 1985 job interview. Ashcroft at the time was governor of Missouri and the applicant, Paul Offner, was applying for a state job. "His first question was, ’Do you have the same sexual preference as most men,’" Offner, of Georgetown University, told .~ WTOP radio in Washington Thursday. "I was stunned. He ¯ launched fight into it." Offner’s story was first reported in The ¯ Washington Post. ¯ Asheroft told his confirmation hearings that he has not dis" criminated against Gays while serving as governor and senator, ¯ and would not consider sexual orientation in hirings at the Justice ¯ Department. ¯ Offner said Ashcroft’ s statement "certainly didn’ t seem to be ¯ true in my case." He said he contacted the Senate Judiciary .. Committee about the 1985 interview. A friend of Offner, Kathy ¯ Sykes, said Offner told her about the interview right after it ¯ happened. "I remember he said, ’You won’t believe this,’" ¯ Sykes; a federal employee, said in an interview. Mindy Tucker, the Bush administration’s spokeswoman on ¯ the Asheroft nomination, has said Ashcroft does not recall the : meeting, nor would he begin an interview with a question about ¯ sexual orientation. ¯ Ashcroft and other conservative senators opposed the 1997 ¯ nomination of Hormel to be ambassador to Luxembourg. By David Crary, AP National Writer ¯ NEW YORK - Like rival armies locked in trench : warfare, activists supporting and opposing legal rights ¯ for same-sex couples are regrouping after bitter elec¯ tion campaigns and girding for future struggles that ¯ willlikely divideAmerica for many years to come. In ¯ state capitols, courthouses and corporate boardrooms, "_ Gay marriage and its variants - civil unions and ¯ domestic partnerships - will be an inescapable topic ¯ for policy-makers, executives and religious leaders. ¯ . In Texas, conservative legislators will try this year ¯ to make their state the 35th to adopt a law or consti¯ tutional amendment banning Gay marriage. In New : York and Rhode Island, Gay lawmakers will intro~ : duce bills to legalize it. ¯ "It isn’ t going to happen overnight - there will be ¯ setbacksandright-wingbacklash,"saidEvanWoffson, : a leading Gay civil rights lawyer with the Lambda : Legal Defense and Education Fund. "That’s exactly ." how every civilrights movement in Americanhistory ¯ has proceeded." ¯ Last spring, Gay civil rights activists were elated ¯ when Vermont enacted its landmark civil-tmions : law, becoming the first state to extend the rights and ¯ responsibilities of marriage to same-sex couples. In November, Democratic Gov. Howard Dean ¯ who signed the bill - survived an election challenge ¯ by a foe of civil unions, but more than 20 legislators ¯ who had supported the law were defeated. In Ne¯ braska and Nevada, ballot initiatives proposing to ban ¯ same-sex marriage were approved with 70 percent ¯ support. ¯ "This will be along-term battle, like abortion," said ¯ Peter LaBarbera, president of Americans for Truth, a ¯ Washington, D.C., seeBattle, p. 2 �group th~,~ opposes legal recog~.".tion of Gay 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 couples. The people on our siae are every Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants POB 4140 Tulsa, OK 74159, e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlink.net 832-1269 ~ *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine bit as committed as the people on their side," 610-5323 : Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal he said. *CW’ s, 1737 S. Memorial 838-9792 ~ Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Karin Gregory, Barry While Nevadans must vote again in 2002 *Play-Mor, 424 S. Memorial 744-4280 ¯ Hensley, J.-P. Legrandbouche. Lament Lindstrom. Esther . ~efore that state" s constitutional amendment Polo Grill, 2038 Utica.Square 585-3405 : *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main Rothblum. Mary Schepers. Hughston Walkinshaw takes force, the Nebraska constitutional amendment has gone :into effect - and al*St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 ". 280-1316 Member o! The Associated Press ready is a prime target for the Gay civil *Schatzi’ s, 2619 S. Memorial 834-4234 ¯ fights movement. *The Star, 1565 Sheridan Issued around the 1st of each month, the entire contents of this 660-G856 ~ The American Civil Liberties Union, *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial publication are protected by US copyright 2001 by Tulsa 584-1308 : backed by other groups, is preparing a law.*Tool Box II, 1338 E. 3rd Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in ¯ uit challenging the amendment, which goes 835-2376 ¯ *Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan part without written permission from the publisher. Publica749-1563 ¯ urther than other states’ laws. The amend*The Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th tion of a name or photo does not indicate a person’ s sexual ment bans legal recognition not only of Gay Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication marriage, but also domestic partnerships, unldsk otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole Assoc. in Med: & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 250-5034 civil unions "and other similar .same-sex 9roperty of Tulsa Family News. Each reader is entitled to 4 Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 665-4580 relationships." ?,. Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231. E. 41 copies of each edition at distribution points. 712-1122 "It’ s bee~ sold as a Defense of Marriage Body Piercing by Nicoie, 2722 E. 15 Additional copies are available by calling583-1248. 712-9955 amendment, but it’ s really an anti-family *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 494-2665 maendment," said Tim Butz, executive di*Borders Books.& Music, 8015 S. Yale *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 742-2457 743-5272 rector of the Nebraska ACLU. "It makes it Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa - Lesbian & Gay Catholics & 746-0313 difficult, if not impossible, for a Gay or *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria 355-3140 Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 295-5868 Lesbian family to plan for the future, for the *Cheap Thrills, 2640 E. 1 lth 747-7777 *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard adoption of children, division of property." Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 Free Sprat Women s Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 622-0700 Butz expects the legal challenge to take Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 747-6827 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 several years and likely reach the U.S. SuTim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 582-0438 749-3620 ". :riends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 preme Court. "This is a national battle*Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 834-4194 *Tulsa c.A.R.E.S., 3507 E0 Admiral 744-5556 ground here," Butz said. "If this amendment Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria 834-8378 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education 838-8503 withstands the legal challenges we’ re going *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan *House oftheHoly SpiritMinstries,1517 S. Memorial 224-4754 369-8555 to mount, the other side can go forward with Encompass Travel, 13161H N. Memorial 838-1715 *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood more confidence elsewhere." 584-0337, 712-9379 Ross Edward Salon 748-3111 NAMES Project, 3507 E. Admiral P1. 592-0460 Indeed, backers of the Nebraska amendEvents Unlimited, 507 S. Main 365~5658 NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 744-9595 ment are urging other states to broaden their Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. P~oria OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 existing Defense of Marriage laws to ad610-0880 Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th P1. *OSU-Tulsa 628-3709 dress civil unions. The aim would be to deter Cathy Furlong,-Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. 749-4901 PFLAG, POB 52800, 74152 808-8026 couples from going to Vermont for a civil Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 587-7674 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria umon ceremony, then returmng home to 742-1460 *Gloria Jean’ s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21 st Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 claim legal recognition. "Homosexual ac459-9349 749-4195 tzarme M. Gross, Insurance & financial plamaing R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 744-7440 tivists have been very crafty in calling ho584-2325 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 mosexual marriage by another name," said 745-1111 425-7882 *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly St. Aidan’ s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati Guyla Mills, a leader of the campaign on 341-6866 492-7140 *International Tours St Dunstan’s Episcopal, 5635 E. 71st 712-2750 behalf of the Nebraska amendment. ’T ve 582-3088 Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th *~t. Jerome’s Parish Church, 205 W. King had many states contact me, interested in 582-3018 *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th Soulforce-OK, Rt.4,# 3534, Stigler 74462 587-3248,452-2761 doing the same .thing we did." 747-0236 583-7171 David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder Mills moved after the election to Virginia, 582-8460 582-7225 The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening * TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care taking ajob with Kerusso Ministries, aChris599-8070 595-4105 *Ken’ s Flowers, 1635 E.- 15 Tulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 747-5466 tian group that encourages Gays to change Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only 585-1234 their sexual orientation. In a telephone inter*Living ArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, Gay Comm. Center 743-4297 view, she spoke repeatedly of animosity 584-3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd TUL-PAC, Positive Advocacy Coalition, POB2687,Tulsa 74101 663 -5934 ,g,e.,n~ated during the Nebraska campaig9. 298-0827 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 664-2951 It s becoming harder and harder for people *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule 838-7626 to express any kind of opposition to the Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo *Tulsa Community College Campuses homosexual agenda for fear of being called 743 -4297 743 -4297 *The Pride Store *Tulsa Gay Community Center, 21 st & Memorial hate mongers," she said. ’T m not one to 747-5932 749-8833 Rainbow z on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown throw in the towel... We’re going to hold 834-0617 Richard’ s Carpet Cleaning ground. We’ re going to take back ground.’" BARTLESVILLE 834-7921, 747-4746 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 918-337-5353 Amy Desai, a policy analyst for the conBartles~cille Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 260-7.829 Paul Tay, Car Salesman servadve group Focus on the Family, said 481-0558 TAHLEQUAH *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis proponents of Gay marriage underestimate 835-5563 918-456-7900 Stonewall League, call for information: Venus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard the grassroots opposition to their cause. "It 743-1733 918-456-7900 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counsding ¯ Tahlequah Unltarian-Unlversalist,_~CCCh~ur,c~h,,,, has been debated in ivory tower settings, by 665-2222 918-453-9360 *grherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan Green Country AIDS Coalition, r~D ~om the Holl~wood crowd, the political pun592-0767 *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS dits," she said. "Your average moreland501-253-7734 www.gaytulsa.org website for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 dad voter, up until this point, hadn’t viewed 501-253-7457 Tulsa Agencies, Churches, SchOols & Universities ¯ Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main this as a real threat. Now they’re waking up 501-253-6807 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. and saying, ’You can’ t force such a radical 743-2363 501-253-5445 All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 587-7314 ¯¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. i change on us without us becoming very 501-253-9337 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 of the Living Spring 583-7815 : MCC 501-253-2776 ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 In Texas, where state law explicidy de583 -9780 501-253-5332 B/L/GiT Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. ¯ Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery ". fines marriage as between a man and a 585-1201 ¯ 501-624-6646 Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston Positive Idea Marketing Plans ¯ woman, some conservatives still want to & Florence 501-253-4074 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. join the majority of other states in enacting 587-1314 ~¯ White Light, 1 Center St. Church of the RestorationUU, 1314 N.Greenwood a Defense of Marriage law. State Rep. WarJOPLIN, MISSOURI 747-6300 *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale 417-623-4696 ; ren Chisum, who unsuccessfully sponsored 749-0595 ¯ Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation ¯ similar bills see Battle, p. 11 748-3888 Council Oak Men’s Chorale * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but allare Gay.friendly. 712-1511 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware �Sound + Spirit: A Lost Opportunity ¯ by Tom Neal, editor and publisher Last weekend, Congregation B’nai Emunah, Tulsa’ s ¯ Conservative branch Jewish congregation, held an un¯ usualconcert,"SacredLove, SoundandSpirit",hosted, as is the radio show of the same name (Sound & Spirit) by : ¯ Ellen Kustmer. It was a remarkable event in many ways. The sanctuary : was full almost to capacity despite the sleety, threatening ¯ weather. The performers were many and although a few ¯ were off key, and others could hardly be heard due to poor sound mixing, it was a mostly sweet, almost ’-’alle MensChen , ~verden bruder" kind of event - that is unless you were ¯ " Gay or Lesbian. As one PFLAG mom said afterwards, "it would have ¯ been perfect if they’d just had the Council Oak Mens Chorale too..." And why not have the Chorale (COMC)? " After all, the program was a textbook example of pro- " forma Tulsa-style "diversity" reflecting both this town’s strengths and its serious prejudices. Boston Avenue Methodist represented uptight, homophobic large white Protestant Christian churches, a guitarist from Saint Francis Xavier/Our Lady of Guadaloupe did double duty for Catholic Christi~ins and Latino Tulsans, All Souls’ Youth Choir pulled in the Unitarian-Universalists,and two Black choirs represented old-line Black Christian congregations and new big-boxbuilding evangelical/pentecostal/fundamentalists. Just to round out our "diversity," Archie Mason, Osage flutist; performed and the City of Tulsa Pipes and Drums (minus the drums - just the bagpipes were present). So where were the Gay people? We were present in the audience. Dennis Neill, TOHR co-founder and business associate and’family friend of B’ nai Emunah congregation president Stacy Schusterman, attended as did Jack Wallace, a Tulsa board member of the Cimarron Alliance. It Wash’ t that Gay people weren’ t interes ted in the event. COMC artistic director, Rick Fortner, approached the organizers about participating but was blown off. Now that probably wasn’t from any malice or anti-Gay values but rather that the organizers had already filled up their program and there just wasn’t any time left. In fact, two key organizers, Laura Well and Sarai Brachman Shoup both stated that they are sympathetic to Lesbian and Gay people. But the problem is, fundamentally, we, Gay and Lesbian Tulsans just weren’t on their radar. When the effort was being made to represent Tulsa "diversity", it should have been just as high a priority that along with Blacks, along with Native Americans, along with Hispanics, that Gay and Lesbian people be remembered. Given that the special events con~nittee includes a number of people who work with or are friendly to Lesbians and Gay men (Terry Silver-Alford of the TU Theater dept., Jason Brimer, and B’nai Emunah’ s rabbi), between people of the same gender. The seven say their constitutional rights are being violated because similar contact between heterosexuals is not illegal. The state argued that because the officials named in the lawsuit ignore the sodomy statute, they should not be sued. A lawyer for the seven had argued that the prosecutors were sued because they would be the key people in deciding whether the law should be enforced. Susan Sommer, supervising attorney for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, said that she will argue that Arkansas’ law "violates the right to equal protection because it singles out Gay men and women for cnminal puuishment and stigma for engaging in the identical conduct that is free tO their heterosexual neighbors." She said the state’s only justification for the law "is perceived public moral disapproval of homosexuality." "This is just another way of saying that because th~ public as well as Rebecca Ungerman who is openly Lesbian, it is baffling not to be included. Ungerman did perform with a wonderful group from B’ nai Emunah, Kolot, whose performance was a hi ghlight of the concert. But that group hardly becomes a Lesbian group because of her presence. Some argued that COMC " ." ¯ " ¯ might not properly be included because it’ s not a religious . group though certainly muchof-its music is religious and ¯ could have fit the program. ¯ "... Gays llke Jews are not "on-sight" : mlnor~tles - we are not known by the color " of our skin or by an epleanthle fold but rather by our behavior - the manifestation . of our bellefs~ And llke Jews who have hlstorleally been forced to convert in order " " to avoid perseeutlon, Gays frequently are . asked to convert, or at least to hide any . evidence of who we are..." However, with the inclusion of Archie Mason whose participation was rationalized by saying" Native American music is’ spiritual’," the organizers moved onto shaky ground. But with the invitation to the City of Tulsa Pipes and Drums~ a clearly non-religious group included because allegedly the Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church, USA claimed that this was "Presbyterian music", the orgamzers hope for a consistent application of standards for inclusion flew away. As one Gay man who attended ~ked, why not have invited Saint Jerome’ s choir, or Community of Hope, or one of the other local churches who are known for their inclusion of Lesbians and Gay men. Organizer Sarai Brachman Shoup, on staff with the Schusterman Family Foundation, quipped that she should not be expected to know that there are six Christian congregations with significant Gay membership, since she’s Jewish. Indeed. Shoup’s neither a Black Christian, Native American, nor a bagpipe player nor a Latino Catholic guitarist, and she found those folks. It’s a much better excuse that Shoup’s relativdy new to Tulsa as is Weil. Others on the conmaittee should have known better. So what now? The event is over and most everyone, indeed, many of Tulsa’ s most progressive, probably thought it was just great - wasn’t it so "diverse"? Some will complain that this critique just spoils a lovely event. But Gay and Lesbian Tulsans do have the right to call to account those who wave the ~’diversity" banner when they disapproves of Gay people, it can subject them to a special rule that applies criminal sanction to their conduct but not to others," she said. She also said the government "should not be peering into Arkansas bedrooms to investigate adult consensual intimacy." She said Arkansas, Oklahoma~ Kansas and Texas are the only states that have same-sex sodomy prohibitions in force. Bogard said Jegley could be sued because of his authority to determine if legal actions would be brought in his jurisdiction. fall short of the standards which they themselves set. And because Gay people share with Tulsa’ s Jewish community similarities in the condition of being minorities, it is reasonable to expect to be treated fairly by that community in particular. Gays like Jews are not "on-sight" minorities - we are no.t known by the color of our skin or by an epicanthic fold but rather by our actions, our behavior - the manifestation of our bdiefs. (Obviously, racial or ethnic minority Lesbians’ and Gays’ identity as Gay persons is not "onsight" even if their racial identity is.) And like Jews who have historically been forced to convert in order to avoid persecution, Gays frequently are asked to convert, or at least to hide any evidence of who we are. Also like Jews, the prejudice and discrimination we face is often minimized by some who point to those in our corn m uni ties who are successful despite the obstacles. Tulsa’ s Jewish community, although small in number, has been particularly successful and is wall placed to do for others who are fighting for fair treatment and equal opportunity that which was done for them not so many years ago. The struggle for social acceptance, an end to restrictive property covenants, the condenmation of open prejudice, etc. came through the efforts of many non-Jews as well as the efforts of Jewish Tulsans. These are the origins of NCCJ, now the National Conference for Community and Justice, formerly "for Christians and Jews" in Tulsa. Tulsa’ s deep rooted anti-Gay prejudices are not going to go away by themselves. And it’ s more than evident that it takes more than the members of a particular oppressed group to end that oppression. It took men to get women the right to vote. It took whites to hdp end segregation, Christians to help Jews, Jews to help Muslims, and it will take all of the above to create a world in which Gay people can live in Tulsa with the same options as all others. But to get there, neither Tulsa Jews, nor any others who seek to do what is right, can sit passively aside, saving political and moral capital. Jewish voices have influence beyond their numbers - we just need to begin to hear them -just as we hear the voices of non-Jews coming to the defense of the Jewish community when it is attacked (or even when it is offended - like with Christian symbols inappropriately placed on a fire-station). And imagine if at the next such concert or event, the voices of Council Oak Mens Chorale might be heard, perhaps even ending the event with"We Shall Overcome" - that old spiritual which speaks to the struggle of all, whether Jewish, or Black, or Gay to survive oppression, whether slavery, imprisonment, bodily and psychic assault, or Nazi horrors. Maybe even Ms. Kushner will come back for that. (Editor’s note: Despite misgivings about the inclusiveness of this event, Tulsa Family News donated an advertisement to the Sound & Spirit event.) 2001 board members are Kerry Lewis, president, Vance Reed, 1st v.p., Don Glass, 2nd v.p., Curtis Evans, secretary, Beth Persac, treasurer, Wil Bruner, men’s outreach coordinator, Greg Gatewood,marketing coordinator, Scottie Hale, events coordinator, David Hoot, volunteer coordinator, Lisa Pottorf, meeting program coordinator, and Lindsey Vandeventer and Raven Ezeel, youth outreach coordinators. Planned for March but yet without a set date, the Center will host a meeting of GLEAM, the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendered Employees of American Airlines. Call the Center to cheek the date. On Feb. 17 from 10-1pm, the Center will host a Gill Foundation training program, Fundraising Fundamentals. ¯ The Denver based Gill Foundation selected TOHR as one of 10 US sites for this training For more information, call the Center at 743-4297 between 6-9 pro, Mon. - Fri. �Civil Unions Bill Filed in Hawaii Legislature HONOLULU (AP) - A bill introduced in the state House wonld grant Gay and Lesbian couples all the legal rights of married couples. House Judiciary Chairman Eric Hamakawa and Rep. Ed Case introduced the "civil unions" bill. Hamakawa said he would have to discuss the issue with fellow Democrats andcolleagues on the Judiciary Committee before he could say if. the bill would be given a hearing. Case believes-the Legislature in 1997 committed itself to provide same-sex couples with some of the benefits that married couples enjoy. Although legislators passed areciprocal beneficiaries law that extended dozens of legal benefits to registered same-sex couples, Case said la~vmakers should do more. The bill introduced by Case and Hamakawa would repeal and replace the 1997 reciprocal beneficiaries law with a new legal relationship, "civil unions." Senate President Robert Bnnda said civil unions aren’t a priority for the Senate. He said the same-sex mamage debate split Democrats, and he does.n’ t want to see that kind of division in the Senate agmn. Mike Gabbard, chairman of the Alliance for Traditional Marriage and Values, said civil unions would be same-sex marriage by a different name, and calledit .an insult to ~,oters who rejected same-sex mamage m 1998. Children’ s Hospital, said the bill "will hurt Arkansas’ kids." Rifkin said he sees many children with serious medical problems or disabililies, and that few parents will adopt them. He said because homosexuals know what it’ s like to live with a"stigma" in society, they are more likely to adopt these children. Jerry Cox, with the local Family Council, supported the bill. "We already discriminate when ~t comes to adoption and foster care," he said. Montana Senate Looks at Job Protections HELENA (AP) - A Senate committee considering a bill on job protection for Gays and Lesbians took the unusual step last month of accepting anonymous testimony, and declaring it off the record. Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Loreuts Grosfield, R-Big Timber, ordered the committee’s tape recorder shut off while the testimony was read. It w as presented as that of a man who lost his Montanajob last month, after co-workers reviled him for his bisexuality. A representative of the Montana Human Righ~ Network, Greg Haegele, read the statement and said the man’s telephone number would be available to committee members. Several questioned the anonymity, saying it goes against a law requiring openness in government and casts doubt about the veracity of the testimony, but Grosfield’s decision stood. The Judiciary Committee held a hearing on Senate Bill 266, which would prohibit firing an employee because of sexual orientation. "Doesn’ t that seem to be an element of simple, fundamental fairness?" asked Sen. Jon Ellingson, D-Missoula, the bill’ s sponsor¯ LITTLE ROCK (AP) - Opponent~pf a bill that would Opponents said that existing laws provide adequate prohibit Gays from adopting didnr t get much time to protection against dismissal, and that SB266 is part of make their case, but they emerged victorious anyway. an effort to advance specialrights for Gays and LesbiA House panel voted 10-9 to reject abill by Rep. Randy ans. Minton, R-Ward, that would prohibit Gays from adoptEllingson s~d the bill would advance equal protecing or being foster parents. tion under the law, not special rights. A vote against the More than a dozen people in the crowded committee bill would be an endorsement of discrimination, he room wore stickers saying ’Vote No on HB 1026, - For ~aid. Kids’ Sake,’ while others had buttons that read .Good ¯ Supporters of the bill included Kris Marsh, who Parents Come in Many Packages.’ works for a mental-health center in the Butte area and But only one person on each side of the bill got to said that two years ago she was "driven out of ajob that have their say, as the committee bogged down in I loved," after her employer learned she had a female questions for Minton and a strongly worded speech by partner. Marsh said her job performance ratings had chairwoman Jo Carson, D-Fort Smith, trying to disbeen high. "I know you can’t change the minds and credit research Minton offered in support of his bill. hearts of individuals," Marsh told the committee. But Minton cited several studies, including those by Famshe saidlegislators can set a standard of employment ily Research Council psychologist Paul Cameron, that fairness. he said showed children raised in homosexual homes George Bennett of the Montana Bankers Associaface greater risks. He said such homes are unstable and tion was among the bill’s opponents, arguing that that many homosexuals are more promiscuous.. existing laws provide enough protection. "You can’t "Homosexual households are not a suitable enwrondischarge anyone because they’ re Irish or Lutheran or ment for children because of their instability and Gay, or because they have big feet, Bennett said. Julie hostility toward a natural family," Minton said. "We Millam of the Christian Coalition of Montana called do not need to experiment with the lives of children." the bill a "further attempt by the homosexual lobby to Carson questioned his studies, and brought out a advance their agenda- one that will settle for nothing report from the American Psychological Association, less than having codified into law the words ’sexual whose research she said found that Gays’ parenting orientation’ as a constitutionally prot..e.c.ted class." styles are no different than those of heterosexuals. The committee did not act on the bill, but may vote "Cameron’s research methodology has been firmly : on it later¯ rejected by his peers in the research community," Carson said. The Arkansas Child Welfare Agency Review Board recently approved a ban on homo~s,e~xual fo~ste_r_..p.~en~t,s~ Since October, the Department oI tauman aervl~ asked prospective foster parents d, tttey are tJay. ,,, ¯ ST. PAUL (AP) - A man ~onvicted of indecent con: duct is entitled to a court hearing on his belief that you say yes, we will politely say, Th~aks, but no, ’spokesman Joe Quinn said, adding that no one has said ¯ police authorities have unfairly targeted Gays for arrest, the state Court of Appeals ruled. S teven A. Pinkal they are homosexual yet. "We take them at their word." Quinn said there has never been such a law or ¯ was arrested in July 1999 at a secluded St. Paul beach frequentedby Gay men, according to court documents. regulation regarding adoptiom and that the department The court reversed the conviction of Pinkal and is not.taking a position on the bill. , Minton said with such a dose vote, ana one memoer ¯ ordered a trial court judge to hold a hearing on Piakal evidenee alleging discriminatory enforeement of indeabsent from the meeting, "I’m going t,o work on some cent conduct laws in St. Paul. people and try to bring it back again.’ Dr. Daniel Rifkin~ a lung doctor at Arkansas Anti-Gay Adoption Law Rejected in Arkansas Police Park Sting Defendent to Get Hearing United in God’s Love MCC-United Reverend Cathy Elliot Pastor Sunday Worship 11:00 am 918/838-1715 1623 N. Maplewood Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community o] Hope 2~45 South Yale, Sundays at lIam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation i-IOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. 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A three-judge Appeals Court panel said that Pinkal presented evidence sufficient to raise a reasonable doubt about discriminatory enforcement of the indecent conduct law, and that he is entitled to a separate hearing on the issue. The court also said that a trial judge erred in allowing a prosecutor to question Pinkal about his religious beliefs, sexual orientation and HIV status. The cumulative effect of those errors alone, however, was not so great to warrant a new trial, the court said. University Needs Better Services for Gay Students SEATTLE (AP) - The University of Washington is generally accepting of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered students, faculty and staff, but needs to go beyond mere tolerance, a task force report says. The report by the President’s Task Force on Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian andTransgender Issues recommends creating an office to assist such students mad offering more courses in sexual studies. It also calls for providing the same benefits to school employees with samesex partners that are available to heterosexual couples, and says school leaders could do more to include sexual minorities in diversity discussions, which usually focus on race and ethnicity. "The overall thrust of the task force report is that we have to move beyond issues of tolerance, and even beyond just mere acceptance, to a condition of affirming, to actually affirm and celebrate the diversity that GBLT people bring to theuniversity," said the task force chairman, Philip Bereano, a teclmical-communication professor at the College of Engineering. The campus is free of overt hate crimes, but remains a place where Gay and Lesbian couples probably don’ t feel comfortable holding hands, the report says. Some people responded to a student survey with such comments as "The amount of tame, manpower and money being spent (on the task force) is appalling - disband and stop wasting taxpayer money," and "Stop being queer." The universities of California, Oregon and Minnesota already have Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian and Transgender resource centers, the report notes. Other colleges, such as UC-Berkeley and the University of Wisconsin, have academic programs in sexual minorlty studies. The report was released last month by the task-force, which was created in 1999 to examine issues facedby Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual andTransgender students, faculty and staff at the UW and recommend ways to address them. Aspen Police Investigate Vandalism of Gay Flag ASPEN, Colo. (AP) - A gesture of good will toward the Gay community was transformed into what police are calling a hate crime. A rainbow flag, a symbol of Gay pride recognized worldwide, was hung from the gazebo in Paepcke Park last week. Police believe someone burned the flag less than 24 hours later. Pieces and black soot were all that was left of the flag. "It will be classified as a hate-crime," said police Sgt. Sandy Brownlee. Hate-crimes are rare in Aspen, Brownlee said, saying that this is the first hatecrime she has investigated in the eight years she has been a police officer. Police have no suspects or leads in the ease. The flag was secured to the top of the gazebo with a metal chain before the start of Gay Ski Week.. More than 4,000 people attended the annual event that ran through Saturday and raised money for charity. "It’s terrible," Aspen Mayor Rachel Richards said of the vandalism. "Aspen is imperfect like the rest of the world. There are small-minded and intolerant people here just as everywhere else." Aspen was among the handful of Colorado communities whose ordinances protecting Gays and Lesbians from discrimination were criticized by proponents of Amendment 2, which would have prohibited such ordinances. The 1992 v oter-approv ed amendment never took effect and was eventually ruled unconstitutional by the U.S. Supreme Court. Jim Tomberlin, acting director for the Aspen Gay & Lesbian Community Foundation, called the incident a "bombshell." "We are very sorry to see this very serious issue here in our town," he said. "Traditionally, we’ve never had any major incidents against our guests here. We’ ve never had anything like this." Initially, Gay leaders proposed hanging the rainbow flags on lampposts along Main Street. Their proposal was rejected by Aspen City Council, which said only the government and institutions celebrating special anniversaries could use the posts. Instead, a compromise was reached allowing one rainbow flag in Paepcke Park. Next year, however, city officials promised the group can fly rainbow flags along Main Street to commemorate the 25th mufiversary of Gay Ski Week. Wisconsin Scouts Prefer Discrimination to Dollars MENASHA, Wis. (AP)- Area Boy Scout officials say they won’t adopt a policy banning discrimination against Gays even though they could lose funding from the United Way Fox Cities as a result. The United Way Fox Cities board of directors adopted a diversity statement in January that requires agencies it funds to provide services to people regardless of race, religion, Color, gender, nationality, sexual orientation, disability or age. The Boy Scouts have a national policy against Gays becoming scouts or scout leaders. ’‘The Boy Scouts have served thousands of young people in our area throughout the years and they have wonderful programs," said the board’ s chairman, Tim Higgins. "However, the fact remains, they have a policy of discrimination based on sexual orientation. The directors have decided that such a policy is not consistent with the missmn or vision of our organization." A recent U.S. Supreme Court ruhng upheld the Scouts’ right to dismiss a New Jersey assistant scout~naster after learning he is Gay. Rick Williamson, the executive for the scouts’ BayLakes Council, which represents Boy Scouts in 22 counties from Port Washington to the Michigan border, said his organization was shocked by the move. "We had hoped that the Fox Cities United Way board would value pluralism and diversity, as well as community service, and would continue to support the Bay-Lakes Council on the merits of our contributions to the Fox Cities area," he said. Williamson said the council would form a task force to look into the matter further, but would not deviate from the national policy. "The ’homosexual lifestyle’ does not provide the appropriate role models for our members," he said. "Homosexual conduct isn’ t consistent with our oath." Williamson said the United Way Fox Cities provides about $184,000 of his council’ s $580,000 budget in the Appleton-Neenah-Menasha area. The council has a total budget of $3 million. It receives $595,000 from 31 United Ways. �33% Young Gay NY " real version? The fake drug bears lot which is a real lot number Black Men Positive ¯¯ MNK612A, also found on an authentic batch. But the fake version bears the expiration date 08/ NEW YORK (AP) - The AIDS virus is ¯ 02. Genuine S erostim with that lot number striking hardest in New York City today among young black men, a new survey has ¯¯ bears the expiration date 08/01. On the Net: Food and Drug Administrafound, with 33 percent of Gay or Bisexual ¯ lion: http://www.fda.gov black men ages 23 to 29 testing_positive for HIV. The study conducted by the city’ s Health Department found that young black New Yorkers "are experiencing a larger burden of the HIV infection," Sandra Mullin, the department’s associate com- : LONDON (AP) - The number of people ¯ diagnosed with HIV in Britain last year is missioner of public affairs, noted. Only 2% of the city’ s white Gay men in ¯ expected to be the highest ever, public the same age group were HI¥-positive, ¯ health officials said. The Public Health while 14% of Hispamcs were infected, the ¯ Laboratory Service said 2,868 new cases survey found. "We don’t have a solid ¯ of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, were explanation for that because we don’ t see reported last year, a 7% increase on com¯ the kinds of differentials in behavior be- . parable figures for 1999. With some figtween black and white men to explain ¯ ures still to be collected, the total is exthis," said Lucia Torian, who directed the "- pected to exceed the previous high of study. ¯ 3,222 cases in 1985, the first year testing The Health Department surveyed 542 ¯ was widely available. men who identified themselves as either For the second year, the number of new Gay or Bisexual. A new test was used in ¯ cases was greater among heterosexuals the survey that allowed researchers to de- ¯ than among homosexuals, with 1,315 hertermineif the’.mfectionhad occurred within ¯ erosexually acquired diagnoses compared six months. The subjects in the New York : to 1,096 among Gay and Bisexual men. study were tested between March 1999 to ¯ The majority of the heterosexual cases July 2000. Researchers said the men who were acquired in areas with high rates of tested positive in all racial groups tended ¯ the virus, such as sub-Saharan Africa, the ¯ service said. to have had sex without condoms. Dr. Barry Evans, head of the service’s HIV division, said the increase in diagnoses was not entirely due to a surge of : recent infections. "Many of those being o diagnosed are people who were infected WASHINGTON (AP) - AIDS patients ghouldimmediately checkthat they weren’ t ¯ some years ago but who are only now sold a counterfeit version of the prescrip- :¯ coming forward for testing," he said. More than 20,000 peoplein Britainhave tion drug Serostim, because the fake could been diagnosed-as HIV positive, andh.~th be dangerous, Serostim’s maker has experts say about 10,000 others may be warned. The Food and Drug Administrainfected without knowing it. ’Where have tion has launched a criminal investigation al so been large increases in sexually transto track down whoever sold the fake drag, mitted infections such as gonorrhea which which so far has been found in seven states shows that unsafe sex is occurring and but could have been sold nationwide. people are putting themselves at risk of The composition of the fake substance acquiring HIV," Evans said. is not known. So far, its only reported side effects are skinirritation and redness where patients injected the substance. But offiCials noted that AIDS patients risk at least getting worse if they go without their real Serostim. The drug maker’ s warning came ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP)- Paul Torello is at the end of January. upfront about his life. He sells sex on the Serostim is an injected medicine used ¯ streets for drug money, and he’ s HIV posiby about 6,000 AIDS patients to fight the ¯ five. It’s a story he tells all of his male dangerous wasting that the virus can cause. ¯ clients before he lets them chose whether Manufacturer Serono Inc. says about 10 ¯ to proceed with or without a condom. people initially received the counterfeit But more.often than not, his words have ¯ version from pharmacies in California. So ¯ little effect. "It’ s sex that they really want far, the FDA has discovered the fake drug : to have," Torello said. "That’s primarily in six other states-Ohio, Kentucky, Michi- ¯ the attitude in the city. It’ s a fun thing for gan, New Jersey, Florida and Missouri. ", them." 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Electronic filing is available for faster refunds. 5,4 6.6 4021 SouthHarv.ard Avenue S te 2L0, Tulsa 74135 "’We’ve been at this for 20 or 21 years, and people are tired of it," said Dr. Tom Coates, director of the UCSF Aids Research Institute and one of two dozen researchers and experts on the panel that released the report. "People would rather not have to talk about difficult issues and not take precautions if they think there’ s a form of chemical s available to help them." Indeed, the new antiviral drugs responsible for extending the lives of many HIV patients may big the biggest catalyst driving up the incidence rate of new infections. Long life spans make it possible for victims to spread the virus to more people, said Mike Slmver, Mayor Willie Brown’s adviser on AIDS and HIV policy and an organizer of the research panel. In addition, he said, the drugs - first released in the mid- 1990s - have eased the horror of watching loved ones die a slow, agonizing death. "Why is it going up among men having sex among men?" said Coates, who’ s been HIV-positive since 1985. "The whole idea of Gay liberation is having sex with whom you want to have sex. It’s breaking down old moralistic barriers. But it carries with it something lethal, and it’s hard for the Gay community to come to grips with." Coates said he’ s seen a 50% decrease in HIV rates among intravenous drug users. He also hasn’t seen any increases in the heterosexual population. Yet a quarter of the city’s estimated 46,800 Gay men are HIV-positive. And 80°70 of HIV infections in the city are among Gay men, the study found. That means stories like Torello’s aren’ t uncommon. A native of Hamden, Conn., Torello, 36, came to San Francisco three years ago and contracted HIV in the past 18 months. He was sharing dirty needles to sh0ot-up speed and having unprotected sex with whomever would pay. He’ s not sure how he contracted the virus. Still, he continues to prostitute himself. "Every person who I ever hook up with, I tell them. Always," said Torello. "But I’ve only been turned down once or twice." The increase isn’t unique to San Francisco. Coates said numbers are on the rise in Sydney and Vancouver. In addition, the Centers for Disease Control and PreventioninAdantareports anincrease in syphilis and gonorrhea among Gay males in Los Angeles, Miami and Seattle. "We’ re definitely concerned about Gay men across the county," said R6bert Janssen, the CDC’s director of the division of HIV/AIDS prevention. "We’re pulling together and have begun to look at a variety of ways to improve intervention and prevention programs for Gay men and to be~n to look at specific things we need to do.’ Oti the Net: http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu 800 Thai Men Over 60 Turn Positive BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - More than 800 Thai men in their 60’ s have contracted the virus that leads to AIDS in the past two years, often after unprotected casual sex with teen-age gifts, the health ministry said. The men seek sex withminors because of the misconception there is less risk of contracting the disease from them than from intercourse with older women, said ministry spokeswoman Nittaya Mahaphol, citing a recent ministry report. "We’re not sure if it’s because of the sex-booster Viagra that drives more elderly men back to sexual activity. But these men are apparently turning to casual partners or schoolgirl prostitutes to avoid getting infected," Nittaya said. Thailand has won international acclaim for its succes s in promoting condom use to quell an HIV epidemic that swept the nation in the early 1990s, infecting about one million people. The "100% condom program" is credited with saving an estimated 200,000 lives. Infection rates have consequently dropped, but the age-old belief still lingers that sexual intercourse with teen-age girls - the younger, the better - is safe and can rejuvenate aging men. The ministry report, based on interviews with men who had contracted HIV, was released in a week when a 64-year old representatave of Thailand’ s upper house of Parliament was charged with statutory rape for having sex with five teen-agers. The incident has scandalized the public and dominated the front pages of national newspapers. Senator Chalerm Phromlert allegedly entertained the gifts at a hotel on the outskirts of Bangkok and paid each of them 4,000 baht ($93) to have sex. He has since resigned. South Africa Starts New Drug Study JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) The health department has launched a pilot project to provide free anti-retroviral medication to HIV-positive mothers and evaluate its effectiveness in reducing the virus’ transmission to their nnborn children, officials said recently. The move comes amid angry debate over the government’ s often confusing response to HIV and AIDS, which infect an estimated 4.2 million South Africans. To date, anti-retroviral drugs have not been made available through the public health system. Authorities have argued that they are too expensive and that their safety has yet to be proven. Over the next six weeks, the drug Nevirapine is to be supplied to 18 hospitals and clinics, which will issue it to pregnant women who are HIV-positive, said Dr. Noro Sinalela, head of the health department’s HIV/AIDS program. The results of the pilot study are to be evaluated over the next year and, if effective, the program is to be extended. Sinalela said the country’s Medicine Control Council approved the use of Nevirapine "about a month ago" - a move that most AIDS activists said they were unaware of. "This is a huge step forward," said Sharon Ekambaram of the AIDS consortium, an alliance of 300 AIDS service organizations: "It is a sign of political will to deal with the problem. Very few of the guidelines to date have talked about treatment." Along with anti-retrovirals, the government also intends to provide HIV-positive women with milkpowder, tominimize:the chances of them passing thevirus to their children through b~east=feeding. ~i �THE SMASH HIT RETURNSi. Welcomed by by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor ¯ well, you get the idea. "Trick" is another Well, here we are at the time of year when ¯ good film for that same effect, and has a hearts and flowers appear magically ev- ~ hilarious parody of aspiring actresses feaerywhere. St. Valentine’ s Day approach- ¯ turing Toil Spelling. Matthew Boume’s eth, and I have a few thoughts to share. ~ homocentricversionofSwanLakeisavailFirst off, it was, like many other holidays " able on video, for those with more highappropriated from the Roman feast of . brow standards (it’s about the shirtless, Lupercalia, a celebration ~’n honor of a : flawless swans). If you don’t mind your sentiment dished goddess of love. St. Valstraight up, there’s entine was later grafted "Somewhere In Time," upon the date to possibly the most rochristianize the festival mantic movie anyone in hopes of converting could watch with somemore common folk. As one. It’ II leave you snailfor the love aspect of ing and crying by the the whole thing, here’s end. Finally, if you’re anote I jotted down with into chicken, "Chicken both a friend and myRun" is a wonderful self in mind. It seemed film, with enough roworth sharing: v,rhat a shame that so Stomp, photo: Lois Greenfield mance to keep tongues clucking. OK, the puns many confuse love with had to go somewhere! control and game playing. And how sad it And since this is about love, let me take is that when love - acceptance and physia moment to give the loves in my life a calattraction- is offered on a silver platvalentine (appearing in no particular orter, gift wrapped with no strings attached, der): Tom, for giving me a forum for that people run in terror from it, believing sharing some info about some wonderful no one could ever truly love them and all artists; Bonnie and Maria for their laughter their flaws and accept them simply for and gifts of sdf they have brought into my who and what they are and the gifts they life, best of which is "The Bonnie and bring to life. Maria Show" - and the crock pot, a true Instead, they choose to ignore that gift, symbol of love if ever there was one; preferring instead to run to those ~ho will Valerie, who makes sure we stay in touch; reinforce feelings of inadequacy, who will J0ni, for being a kindred spirit and fellow rip them apart with abuse and harsh words mischief maker and survivor of dysfuncand cruelty, instead Of lifting them up. Is tional families; Kate, for all the tides shared, there something so comfortable in acceptfrustrations held, and tongues tied at work; ing that, in perhaps remmning true to our Stefani, for all her love and support and backgrounds, that we deny ourselves anyhugs for 17 years, and for growing into the thing better? We are all good enough, wonderful woman she has become - well smart enough, and worthy of acceptance. worth the diaper duties, the vom squad; to Don’t settle for anything less. Tari, for the drives to the hospital (on the And speaking of love, the one love of bumpiest roads possible) due to back my life that has outlasted any man and a spasms at 3am, for being there, and for few women, songstress Stevie Nicks is taking on Morn; to Richard for taking on finally releasing her new album "Trouble would be bullies and exes who didn’ t want in Shandri La" on April 10th. She also has to pay their share. To Mom, for being there a song on the Sweet November soundtrack, for 37 years, like it or not. To Peter, for the a tribute to a friend of hers who died of same toys growing up (Chitty), the laughcomplications from AIDS. I had the priviter, and the asnides shared during parties lege of reading the lyrics and it is beautiful, and dinners; Cody, for being a friend in a song of love and of hope that one day, spite of me, and g~ving me the joy of there will be no such disease. knowing that when i get to CA, I will know The song is "Touched By An Angel", someone there who. is relatively sane and and here is a sample of the poetry she has s w eet; Chad for being s uch a great ex-bos s written: "NO ONE SAW US GO... NO and friend (I mis.s our chats!); Marti, for all ONE SAID GOODBYE, BUT IN MY her wonderful smiles and stories and for HEART, I LEAVE GREAT EXPECTAthe big hugs; especially to Karin for the TIONS THAT YOU WILL FIND THE last 14 years of putting up with my tears, ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS, my jokes, and for .editing my poison pen AND TIL~T LIFE WILL ONCE MORE. letters - and for sharing with me all the .. BE A CELEBRATION... AND THAT joys and traumas since the day we met, as YOU WILL BE TOUCHED BY AN well as knowing me better than anyone on ANGEL." this planet - and still loving me, as well as Best Valentine gift this year: Music: eventually growing fond of the music of "Love Decides’!, Jane Olivor. Winner Stevie Nicks and sharing MelissaEtheridge hands down, sure to guarantee an evening with me; Vic and Mary Neal, for the wonof gazing into another’ s eyes, warm gooey derful dinners and poetry and laughs and feelings, and a cuddle. And ff not, then deep conversation and political rants over you’re dating an ice queen whose heart the years; Terry and Paul for taking care of simply cannot be reached. Video/DVD: puppies and finding me those CDs no one "Broadw ay Damage", a wonderful romanelse can get and for being there when I tic comedy that has a predictable but swat lock myself out of my house; ending, is well-acted, and will leave the see Amuse, p. 9 two of you smiling.., and kissing.., and, Wireless Feb. 20-25-Brady Theate All Carson Attractions locations, 584-2000 carsonattractions.com 20+ Groups, 477-7469 Presented by Celebrity Attractions. ¯ celebrityattractions.com ¯ ~.stompon|;ne.com �Drummers of Japan Don’ t let winter keep you inside hibertakes traditional Japanese drumnnng, nating-there’ s plenty going on in Tulsain "taiko," and like Stomp, combines musiFebruary ! cal performance with athletic grace Holland Hall School will present-the Call the PAC box office at 596-7111, 41st Annual Book Fair & Market (an an800-364-.7111, or www.tulsapac.com nual event since 1961). Organized by the Community women might want to head Holland Hall Parsouth to San Antonio ents’ Association., it for the 14th Texas is the state’s largest Lesbian Conference. used book sale and Comedian Karen typically draws as Williams will permany as 10,000 paform atthe Marcia 23trons. 25 event to be held at It’ s open Saturday, the Riverwalk’ s February 24, 9 - 5, Amerisuites near San Sunday, February 25, Antonio’s historic noon - 5pro at the King William DisHolland Hall Middle trict. Other speakers School,5666 E. 81st The Junior Chamber Mission and workshops will Street. Parking is Foundation held Chili for Children. a be presented coveravailable on campus. fundraiser for families affected byHtV/ ing many of Lesbian Admission is only $1 AIDS at St. Louis Bread Co. SLBC co- life. Call 210-532for adults 18 and ~ver owner" Sue Stees is joined by JCMF and 9821 or email to: and is good for both SLBC staff, photo: Tracey E. Norvell TLCSanAntonio days. Besides books @aol.com for more and art, the Fair offers a"flea market" with information. household items, clothes, electronic goods, Saturday, Feb. 10, Tulsa~s Largest Garecords and CDs, kids wear and more. rage Sale will be held at Expo Square on Not to be missed are two very big bang the Fairgrounds from 8-4pm. Only $3, it events: in February, Celebrity Attractions, helps local charities raise funds. It’ s orgaknown for their Broadway shows, is bringnized by the Mental Health Association in ing back "stomp" at the Brady on Feb. 20 Tulsa. Community of Hope usually has a - 25. Part dance, mostly drumming, the 8 booth in this event. Find cool things and do member group has played from London to good all at the same time. the Acropolis, all over television and their That same day, Dillon International, Inc. work has won Obie, Olivier and Drama will hold an international adoption workDesk awards. Call 584-2000 for more inshop from 9:30-4:30 at Asbury Methodist’ s formation and don’t miss them! "Outback" in the back side of the Park Early in March, one performance only Plaza Center. The fee is $60/family or $401. on Sunday, March 4th at 7:30pro, at the single. Unverified rumor is that Dillon’s Performing Arts Center (so get those tickdirector does not allow Gays or Lesbians ets now - March will be too late), the Kodo to adopt because of religious beliefs. Drummers of Japan return to Tulsa for the You might want to ask before you write first time in 10 years. Their performance that check! see About. p. 11 March 4 7:30 p.m. Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center 3rd & Cincinnati Tickets $17.50, $27.50, $35 Call 596,7111 Outside Tulsa: 1 800 364-7111 www.tulsapac.com presented by the Tulsa PA C Trust "Perfection in music" Boston Globe "Total brain massage" Independent on Sunday "... waves of percussive sound that seemed to turn Carnegie Hall itself into a resonant cavity ..." New York Times ....... ,, Frieda, Chewie and Luke for the licks and grins; to the staff at Metro, who have become friends and family away from home; to Terry and Barry for making me feel welcome when I first arrived and who accepted me into their circle - special thanks for the invite to the anniversary bash, guys, it was fabulous; and finally:to Brian, for refusing to let walls stand in his way, for rocking my world, and for being the one other gay man in OK who loves Stevie Nicks almost as much as I do, who knows who Linda Eder is, and for loving me in spite of myself. And to my new friend Lindsay, who bonded almost instantly with me and shares my love of Stevie’s music as wall. To all the people who have gifted me with their presence in my life, whose paths crossed with mine and left a smile on both our faces. I am incredibly lucky to have been gifted with .these people’ s presence in my life, and this ~s my .valentine to them all, and to all the people reading this column, Happy Valentine’s Day to you, too! Heller Theatre presents "Trust," Steven Dietz’ dramedy set in the rock music scene running Feb 8-17; 746-5065 for info/tix. The Lipizzaner Stallions will be trotting up the town at Maxwell Convention Center on the 1 lth; 584-2000 "Rashomon" a story of a bandit on trial for the death of a samurai and rape of his wife will be performed at the University of Tulsa; 631-2567. "She drives me crazy, ooh, ooh...’" tops, no, that’s "Driving Miss Daisy," runs Feb 23-March 3 with American Theatre Company, 747-9494. TulsaBalletpresents "Romeo and Juliet" again, Feb 23-25, 749-6006. When are they going to do the all male version, "Romeo and Julio?" Sounds like a job for. ¯ . Matthew Bourne! I’m still waiting for them to do his take on "Swan Lake." Tulsa Opera presents "Tannhauser," Wagner’ s epic of love, death, magic, religion, mayhem and revelryrtmning Feb 10, 16, and 18. Goddess bless.. Hey, Venus makes a special appearance, so if you’re looking for lo*e, the PAC’ s the place to be on those nights. And the big show of the month is "STOMP" a raucous and spirited evening of rhythm, music and percussion, all created by ordinary and extraordinary household objects! Feb 20-25 at the Brady Theatre, presented by Celebrity Attractions. It is a show that will have you tapping feet, fingers, and the chairs of other patrons. But try not to be too annoying... �Mental Health Assn’ s working group, most by Lamont Lindstrom of those arrested in Tulsa park restrooms, I was reading up on secrecy and modsimilarly, are married men. But this can esty recently and I noticed that some anonly be part of the story: True, the toilets thropologists claim that modesty is a huserve as convenient meeting places for man universal. People - unlike dogs, otherwise respectable men horses, or even chimpanin searchofanonymous sex ¯.. some zees - retire into the shadon their way home to wife ows to make love. anthropologists elalm Whoa, I thought! How~ and kids. But toilets are that modesty is a also complex sites where about all those orgies I hear self-identified Gays, selfabout (but never seem to human universal... identified Straights, and get invited to)? everyone in-between come Or those exhibitionists on Whoa, I thought! How together. webcamnow.com? And about all those orgies I Don, one of my earliest what about the infamous Gay friends, used to astonhear about . ?. Or toilets in Tulsa’s River ish me with his boldness. Parks? those exhibitionists on Don prefers anonymous Last year Tulsa’ s Mental and public sexual encounwebeamnow.eom? And Health Association hosted ters. Don has had sex in a working group on what to what about the tiny Korean Airline washdo about public sex in the rooms, underneath scraginfamous toilets parks. Various participants gly bushes near the Unifrom the city and county in Tulsa’s versity of Hawai’i’ s basepark administrations, the ball stadium, on sandy, River Parks.. ? " District Attorney’s office, public beaches, in cars - the police, probation officparked at Wal-Mart, and at trnckstops and ers, and mental health professionals conhighway rest areas stretching from Tulsa vened throughout the year to discuss soluto Los Angeles. tions to public sex. In particular, they Don also used to hang out at the one rsought ways to discourage recidivism. rated video arcade in Tulsa. I learned from Local wisdom has it (although hard statishim about the lively community of regutics seem peculiarly difficulty to produce) lars there who know, or at least recognize, that the officers who police the toilets are one another. These guys kill time chatting arresting the same individuals time and and kikiing until some fresh meat- one of again. those passing married guys, perhaps Most of the folks around the table were drops in. Then polite chatter turns into havdved, professionally, wlthneurosis and sometimes vicious competitton over who. deviance. It is no surprise, therefore, that elbows his way first into the video booth. the group favored a response that comGay activists, understandably, are conbines repression with therapy. First, arrest cemed that the public at large is way too anyone with his pants down, and then happy to tar us all with the scarlet brush of make some sort of sex therapy a judicially promiscuity and uncouth sexuality. They imposed component of his probation. Like hasten to underline that the majority of my anthropological colleagues, weTulsans park toilet denizens are married and therepresume that public sex is abnormal, even fore at least presumptively strS. But park unnatural. It’ s a problem to solve. Those toilets feature men having sex with men, who do it in the streets frighten the horses however they define themselves, and the or even worse, in this century, the chilGay community inescapably is implicated dren. and involved. My inclination instead would be to gain Equality Colorado, a Gay activist group an understanding of the culture of public in Denver, has worked with local police to sexuality..Although not exactly a commucreate an outreach program. Men hanging nity, the men involved are a population about park toilets are contacted and prowhich shares enough cultural expectations vided information about STDs, and about and understandings through which to fulbetter places to cruise. This, of course,just fill their equally shared desires. My anremoves the ]problem3 elsewhere. And thropological imperative would be, first, such removal is perhaps more difficult to to figure out the native point of view. aclfieve in Tulsa where authorities have However, there is a cautionary prececlosed down alternate sex sites such as the dent that makes one worry about hanging notorious Overlook on the way to Key~ about public sex venues. Sociologist Laud stone Lake, and downtown movie houses Humphreys got into hot water when he and restrooms. Still, one might hope that published his 1970 book, Tearoom Trade: those homy married guys might at least be Impersonal Sex in Public Places. Back in canny enough to check out the scores of those days, he hadn’ t thought to inform the chatrooms and other internet opportuni"trade" who he observed in St. Louis’ ties to meet up, and thus remove their public toilets that he was, in fact, studying business from the public eye. them. And their wives also were rather But things are not so simple. Culture and shocked when Humphreys turned up on desire both are at work here. There is an their doorsteps for an interview, having international subculture of public sexualtraced the toilet trade’ s home addresses by means of_their car tags. Humphreys’ con- ,¯ ity that stretches from Tulsa to Japan to trovers~al research was one of the factors ¯ Britain to beyond. You could take a Tulsa River Parks denizen and drop himin Hyde that encouraged sociologists to write up : Park in Sydney, Australia and within 10 code of research ethics. According to police participants in the ¯ minuteshe’dbebusy, seePrivates,p. 11 Timothy W, Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, _Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. Want to save Money and Help Build a Community Center? 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) in 1997 and 1999, says he will try again this year. ’‘The chances do look better," Chisum saidl "After Vermont’s fiasdo, there is a growing support to step up to the table and do the right thing." To Texas Gay civil rights activists, Chisum’s bill is vindictive. "We already we know we can’t get married here," said Diane Hardy-Garcia, executive director of the Lesbian and Gay Rights Lobby of Texas. "The only thing that can happen with this is division and hurt.’" Hardy-Garcia said her legislative priority this year is a hate-erimes bill. "Those of us from conservative Southern states have to be very realistic about what we do," she said. "Legislators would think I’ m crazy if I went up and asked them to pass a marriage bill fight now." In New York and Rhode Island, however, openly Gay legislators plan to introduce Gay-marriage bills this year. Rhode Island Rep. Michael Pisaturo is unsure whether his bill will get through the House Judiciary Committee, but said he is intent on persevering year after year until he prevails or loses his seat. "Most of my colleagues realize it’s the right and fair thing to do," he said. "But politically, it’s a different story. Most politicians really worry about getting re-elected." Pisaturo has rejected suggestions that he propose civil unions, rather than marriage. "I can’ t accept anything the codifies in statute my second-c!ass citizenship," he said. In New York, state Sen. Tom Duane plans to introduce two bills, one proposing civil tmions and the other full-fledged marriage for same-sex couples, according to his chief of staff, Andrew Berman. "We see these two as long-term projects," said Berman, explaining that Duane’s proposals would lack teeth until other anti-discrimination measures are enacted. Despite the efforts of Pisaturo and Duane, the director of the ACLU’s Lesbian and Gay Rights Project doesn’t expect any state to swiftly endorse Gay marriage. "There isn’ t another Vermont on the shortterm horizon," said Matt Coles. "It will look like there’ s a pause in the movement. But I say to people, ’Look more closely.’" He said polls now suggest a majority, of Americans favor some legal rights for Gay couples, albeit not official marital status. He also noted the increasing number of corporations extending domestic-partnersh~p benefits to Gay employees. "Ten years ago there were just ahandful of companies doing that," Coles said. "Now, it’ s becoming the standard of operation." Activists in both camps also detect grow- ing empathy for Gays and Lesbians among young Americans, as evidenced by the spread of Gay-Straight alliances at high schools and colleges. ’’The young people get it," said Deanna Kaffke, a Gay civil rights leader who teaches at the University of Nebraska. "Even with a conservative student body, a majority of students on campus see that this is a civil rights issue." If Vermont’ s civil union law has helped galvanize opposition to Gay marriage, it also has inspired many same-sex couples. Among them are Marcie Elias and Hillary Smith, partners for more than two years in New York City who are planning a civilunion ceremony later this year in Vermont. Elias, 28, described herself as "very traditional." ’T ve always envisioned myself getting married and having a ho~e. When I came out, that never changed. Many Gay couples see no need foi: a formal ceremony, she said, "but in my mind it’ s important to get up in front of my closest friends and family and say, ’This is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.’" Elias, a management consultant, predicted that a steady stream of same-sex couples would go to Vermont to enter civil unions, then return home and seek legal benefits reserved for heterosexual married couples. "They’ 11 get their requests denied and eventually it’ s going to work its way to the courts," she said. "As more and more Gay couples startdamoring for legal rights and protections, it will become more and more of an administrative nightmare for the states." Wolfson, the Lambda Defense Fund attorney, agreed that civil unions made in Vermont would spawn lawsuits.’’This is not some chess game," he said. "These are real people who have entered a serious legal relationship. As they encounter discrimination or even uncertainties, there will be litigation. It will arise out of genuine crisis." MiltonRegan, aprofessor at Georgetown University Law Center who specializes in family law, predicted that state courts would be the pivotal battleground over the next several years as Gay couples seek broader rights."The growing recognition from the corporate sector begins to confer some legitimacy," Regan said. "But it’s not going to be inexorable, and there will be backlashes in many areas. It’s one of those battlegrounds in which there is lurching in one direction and the other- another front in the cultural war." Over at Philbrook, if you hurry, there’ s a sweet exhibit, Tulsa Collects, Treasures from Private Collections, up till Feb. 11. The show features historical and contemporary European and American paintings, sculpture and Native American art and artifacts. There is a Thomas Moran painting as well as works by French Impressionists, Edouard Vuillard, Camille Pissarro, 20th century American ardsts Mark Rothko, Andy Warhol, Andrew Wyeth, and glass sculptor Dale Chihuly. Philbrook is located at 2727 S Rockford Rd. Call 749-7941 for information. �Saturday, February ~7th, 8pm-Midnight The Brady Mansion 620 North Denver DJ, Hors d’oeuvres, Party Pics, Cash Bar, Live Entertainment, Dress Mild to Wild Door prizes for Best Dressed Tickets: $15 advance or $20 at the door Available at: The Tulsa GLBT Community Center 2114 South Memorial Drive, 918-743-4297 and select vendors listed on the website. Proceeds benefit The Pyramid Project "Building a Home - Funding the Future, for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center." Made Possible by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), www.PyramidProject.org � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document trkansas’Sodomy’ atute Challenged LITI’LE ROCK (AP) - A judge heard motions for a judgment in a lawsuit filed by a group challenging the state’s anti-sodomy law in late January. Last February, Pulaski County Circuit Court Judge David Bogard rejected arguments that the state had sovereign immunity from lawsuits. He cited an exception allowing officials to be sued in their official capacity when the remedy sought is injunctive rdief. Bogard dropped Attorney General Mark Pryor as a defendant but said the group challenging the 1977 law could proceed with its suit-against local prosecutors. Both sideshavefiledmotions for snmmaryjudgment, asking Bogard to decide the case on the basis of briefs and affidavits without the need for a trial. Seven Arkansans sued Pryor and local,prosecutors, including Larry Jegley, in an attempt to vold the 1aw that prohibits certain sexual conduct see Law, p. 3 COMC and Tulsa Oratorio to Host Russian Choir TULSA - The Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble will perform contemporary works, ancient liturgical music and Russian folk songs at Holy Family Cathedral on Sunday, March 11, at 7:30 pm. The Council Oak Men’ s Chorale and Tulsa Oratorio Chorus havejoined to bring this exceptional world-class ensemble for one performance only. Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble was founded in 1967 in Petropavlovsk, Kanchatski, and is famous in Russia for their high quality performances of challenging work. Fromthe masterpieces of Rachmaninoff, sacred liturgical pieces to native songs of the far east masterfully arranged by its artistic director, Evgeny Morozov, Kamchatka’s repertoire exemplifies the Russian experience. The ensemble is a featured choir performing for the American Choral Directors Association (ACDA) national convention in San Antonio, Texas. A. PozdnyakoV, Professor at Gnessin Russian Academy of Music, aptly described the group in a recent review, "listening to Kamchatka Vocal Ensemble,it is difficult to believe it is a community choir. Its harmony and pureness of sound, the tonal balance ofparts, all are impeccable. A subtle musician and a master of his art, Evgeny Morozov, has managed to put a superb performing group inKamchatka, thoughit is appreciated as one of the best choirs within Russia." Ill DIRECTORY P. 2 ~ EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 ~.~ HEALTH NEWS P. 6 Z ENTERTAINMENT P, 8 GAY STUDIES P. 10 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Gay Folk + Friends March In M. L. King, Jr. Parade Soulforce in Oklahoma at theparade TU’s BLGTAlliance marched as well as Tulsa PFLAG. Ambassador Hormel Opposes ! TOHR n. February: Black +iGay in Tulsa TULSA - On Tuesday, February 13, Tulsa Oklahomarts forHumanRights (TOHR) will hold its monthly meeting at the Gay Community Center at 7pro. The speaker will be Derrick Davis, longtime HIV/AIDS educator, speaking about being African-American and Gay in Tulsa. TOHR will also hold the Wild Hearts Ball on Saturday, Feb. 17, 8-miduight at Tulsa’s historical Brady Mansion at 620 N. Denver. Tickets are $15 in advance, $20 at the door and are available at the Community Center, 2114 S. Memorial, 743-4297, Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15th, on Cherry Street and at Tulsa Floral Design in Brookside at 3404 S. Peoria. Proceeds from the event will benefit The Pyramid Project, the effort to build or buy a permanent home for Tulsa’s Gay commtmity center. Speaking of which,TOHR’ s board of directors has voted to amend the name of the commtmity center to The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center. (editor’ s note: TFN will respectfully abbreviate this when possible to LGBT Community Center or just Community Center). see TOHR, p. 3 Ashcroft as Attorney General WASHINGTON (AP) - James Hormel, who became the first openly Gay U.S. ambassador over the objections of then-Sen. John Ashcroft and others, is retttming fire in urging the Senate to reject Ashcroft’ s nomination as attorney general. "I get no satisfaction from this," Hormel told The Associated Press. "I am extremely disturbed that he was nominated for this very sensitive post, and it concerns me greatly that he might be serving as attorney general, given his stated positions on a variety of issues." The controversy over the nominee’s stand on Gay civil rights issues widened at the end of January, when a health care expert said Ashcroft asked him about his sexual orientation during a 1985 job interview. Ashcroft at the time was governor of Missouri and the applicant, Paul Offner, was applying for a statejob. "His first question was, ’Do you have the same sexual preference as most men,’" Offner, of Georgetown University, told .~ WTOP radio in Washington Thursday. "I was stunned. He ¯¯ launched fight into it." Offner’s story was first reported in The Washington Post. ¯ Asheroft told his confirmation hearings that he has not dis- " criminated against Gays while serving as governor and senator, ¯ andwouldnot consider sexual orientation in hirings at the Justice ¯ Department. ¯ Offner said Ashcroft’ s statement "certainly didn’ t seem to be ¯ true in my case." He said he contacted the Senate Judiciary .. Committee about the 1985 interview. A friend of Offner, Kathy ¯ Sykes, said Offner told her about the interview right after it ¯ happened. "I remember he said, ’You won’t believe this,’" ¯ Sykes; a federal employee, said in an interview. ¯ Mindy Tucker, the Bush administration’s spokeswoman on the Asheroft nomination, has said Ashcroft does not recall the : meeting, nor would he begin an interview with a question about ¯ sexual orientation. ¯ Ashcroft and other conservative senators opposed the 1997 ¯ nomination of Hormel to be ambassador to Luxembourg. Tulsa Oklahomansfor Human Rights, photos: TFN ¯ Long-Term Battle. Seen Over Gay Marriages ¯ By David Crary, AP National Writer ¯ NEW YORK - Like rival armies locked in trench : warfare, activists supporting andopposing legal rights ¯ for same-sex couples are regrouping after bitter elec- ¯ tion campaigns and girding for future struggles that ¯ willlikely divideAmerica formany years to come. In ¯ state capitols, courthouses andcorporate boardrooms, "_ Gay marriage and its variants - civil unions and ¯ domestic partnerships - will be an inescapable topic ¯ ¯ for policy-makers, executives and religious leaders. . In Texas, conservative legislators will try this year ¯ to make their state the 35th to adopt a law or consti- ¯ tutional amendment banning Gay marriage. In New : York and Rhode Island, Gay lawmakers will intro~ : duce bills to legalize it. ¯ "It isn’ t going to happen overnight - there will be ¯ setbacksandright-wingbacklash,"saidEvanWoffson, : a leading Gay civil rights lawyer with the Lambda : Legal Defense and Education Fund. "That’s exactly ." how every civilrights movement in Americanhistory ¯ has proceeded." ¯ Last spring, Gay civil rights activists were elated ¯ when Vermont enacted its landmark civil-tmions : law, becoming the first state to extend the rights and ¯ responsibilities of marriage to same-sex couples. In November, Democratic Gov. Howard Dean - ¯ who signed the bill - survived an election challenge ¯ by a foe of civil unions, but more than 20 legislators ¯ who had supported the law were defeated. In Ne- ¯ braskaandNevada, ballotinitiatives proposing to ban ¯ same-sex marriage were approved with 70 percent ¯ support. ¯ "This will be along-term battle, like abortion," said ¯ Peter LaBarbera, president of Americans for Truth, a ¯ Washington, D.C., seeBattle, p. 2 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *CW’ s, 1737 S. Memorial *Play-Mor, 424 S. Memorial Polo Grill, 2038 Utica.Square *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Schatzi’ s, 2619 S. Memorial *The Star, 1565 Sheridan *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box II, 1338 E. 3rd *Vortex, 2182 S. 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Main 501-253-7457 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 ¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 ¯ MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 : Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 ¯ Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 501-253-5332 ¯ Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-624-6646 ~ White Light, 1 Center St. 501-253-4074 ¯ JOPLIN, MISSOURI ¯ Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U134 417-623-4696 * is where you can find TFN. Not all are Gay-owned but allare Gay.friendly. group th~,~ opposes legal recog~.".tion of Gay couples. The people on our siae are every bit as committed as the people ontheir side," he said. While Nevadans must vote again in 2002 ~efore that state" s constitutional amendment takes force, the Nebraska constitutional amendment has gone :into effect - and already is a prime target for the Gay civil fights movement. The American Civil Liberties Union, backed by other groups, is preparing a law.- uit challenging the amendment,whichgoes urther than other states’ laws. The amendment bans legal recognition not only of Gay marriage, but also domestic partnerships, civil unions "and other similar .same-sex relationships." - ?,. "It’ s bee~ sold as a Defense of Marriage amendment, but it’ s really an anti-family maendment," said Tim Butz, executive director of the Nebraska ACLU. "It makes it difficult, if not impossible, for a Gay or Lesbian family to plan for the future, for the adoption of children, division of property." Butz expects the legal challenge to take several years and likely reach the U.S. Supreme Court. "This is a national battleground here," Butz said. "If this amendment withstands the legal challenges we’ re going to mount, the other side can go forward with more confidence elsewhere." Indeed, backers of the Nebraska amendment are urging other states to broaden their existing Defense of Marriage laws to address civil unions. The aim wouldbe to deter couples from going to Vermont for a civil umon ceremony, then returmng home to claim legal recognition. "Homosexual activists have been very crafty in calling homosexual marriage by another name," said Guyla Mills, a leader of the campaign on behalf of the Nebraska amendment. ’T ve had many states contact me, interested in doing the same .thing we did." Mills movedafter the election to Virginia, taking ajob with Kerusso Ministries, aChristian group that encourages Gays to change their sexual orientation. In a telephone interview, she spoke repeatedly of animosity ,g,e.,n~ated during the Nebraska campaig9. It s becoming harder and harder for people to express any kind of opposition to the homosexual agenda for fear of being called hate mongers," she said. ’Tm not one to throw in the towel... We’re going to hold ground. We’re going to take back ground.’" Amy Desai, a policy analyst for the conservadve group Focus on the Family, said proponents of Gay marriage underestimate the grassroots opposition to their cause. "It has been debated in ivory tower settings, by the Holl~wood crowd, the political pundits," she said. "Your average morelanddad voter, up until this point, hadn’t viewed this as a real threat. Now they’re waking up and saying, ’You can’ t force such a radical i change on us without us becoming very ¯ In Texas, where state law explicidy de- ". fines marriage as between a man and a ¯ woman, some conservatives still want to join the majority of other states in enacting a Defense of Marriage law. State Rep. War- ; ren Chisum, who unsuccessfully sponsored ¯ similar bills see Battle, p. 11 Sound + Spirit: A Lost Opportunity by Tom Neal, editor and publisher ¯ as well as Rebecca Ungerman who is openly Lesbian, it is " Last weekend, Congregation B’nai Emunah, Tulsa’ s ¯ baffling not to be included. ." Conservative branch Jewish congregation, held an un- Ungerman did perform with a wonderful group from ¯ usualconcert,"SacredLove, SoundandSpirit",hosted, as ¯ B’ nai Emunah, Kolot, whoseperformance was ahi ghlight " is the radio show of the same name (Sound & Spirit) by : of the concert. But that group hardly becomes a Lesbian ¯ Ellen Kustmer. ¯ group because of her presence. Some argued that COMC It was a remarkable event in many ways. The sanctuary : was full almost to capacity despite the sleety, threatening ¯ weather. The performers were many and although a few ¯ were off key, and others couldhardly be heard due to poor soundmixing,itwas amostly sweet, almost’-’alleMensChen , ~verden bruder" kind of event - that is unless you were ¯ Gay or Lesbian. " As one PFLAG mom said afterwards, "it would have ¯ been perfect if they’d just had the Council Oak Mens Chorale too..." And why not have the Chorale (COMC)? " After all, the program was a textbook example of pro- " forma Tulsa-style "diversity" reflecting both this town’s strengths and its serious prejudices. Boston Avenue Methodist represented uptight, homophobic large white Protestant Christian churches, a guitarist from Saint Francis Xavier/Our Lady of Guadaloupe did double duty for Catholic Christi~ins and Latino Tulsans, All Souls’ Youth Choir pulled in the Unitarian-Universalists,andtwo Black choirs represented old-line Black Christian congregations and new big-boxbuilding evangelical/pentecostal/fundamentalists. Just to round out our "diversity," Archie Mason, Osage flutist; performed and the City of Tulsa Pipes and Drums (minus the drums - just the bagpipes were present). So where were the Gay people? We were present in the audience. Dennis Neill, TOHR co-founder and business associate and’family friend of B’ nai Emunahcongregationpresident Stacy Schusterman, attended as did Jack Wallace, a Tulsa boardmember of the Cimarron Alliance. It Wash’ t that Gaypeople weren’ t interestedin the event. COMC artistic director, Rick Fortner, approached the organizers about participating but was blown off. Now that probably wasn’t from any malice or anti-Gay values but rather that the organizers had already filled up their program and there just wasn’t any time left. In fact, two key organizers, Laura Well and Sarai Brachman Shoup both stated that they are sympathetic to Lesbian and Gay people. But the problem is, fundamentally, we, Gay and Lesbian Tulsans just weren’t on their radar. When the effort was being made to represent Tulsa "diversity", it should have been just as high a priority that along with Blacks, along with Native Americans, along with Hispanics, that Gay and Lesbian people be remembered. Given that the special events con~nittee includes a number of people who work with or are friendly to Lesbians and Gay men (Terry Silver-Alford of the TU Theater dept., Jason Brimer, and B’nai Emunah’ s rabbi), might not properly be included because it’ s not a religious . group though certainly muchof-its music is religious and ¯ could have fit the program. ¯ "... Gays llke Jews are not "on-sight" : mlnor~tles - we are not known by the color " of our skin or by an epleanthle fold but rather by our behavior - the manifestation . of our bellefs~ And llke Jews who have " hlstorleally been forced to convert in order " to avoid perseeutlon, Gays frequently are . asked to convert, or at least to hide any . evidence of who we are..." However, with the inclusion of Archie Mason whose participation was rationalized by saying" Native American music is’ spiritual’," the organizers moved onto shaky ground. But with the invitation to the City of Tulsa Pipes and Drums~ a clearly non-religious group included because allegedly the Eastern Oklahoma Presbytery of the Presbyterian Church, USA claimed that this was "Presbyterian music", the orgamzers hope for a consistent application of standards for inclusion flew away. As one Gay man who attended ~ked, why not have invited Saint Jerome’ s choir, or Community of Hope, or one of the other local churches who are known for their inclusion of Lesbians and Gay men. Organizer Sarai Brachman Shoup, on staff with the Schusterman Family Foundation, quipped that she should not be expected to know that there are six Christian congregations with significant Gay membership, since she’s Jewish. Indeed. Shoup’s neither a Black Christian, Native American, nor a bagpipe player nor a Latino Catholic guitarist, and she found those folks. It’s a much better excuse that Shoup’s relativdy new to Tulsa as is Weil. Others on the conmaittee should have known better. So what now? The event is over and most everyone, indeed, many ofTulsa’ s mostprogressive, probably thought it was just great - wasn’t it so "diverse"? Some will complain that this critique just spoils a lovely event. But Gay and Lesbian Tulsans do have the right to call to account those who wave the ~’diversity" banner when they between people of the same gender. The seven say their constitutional rights are being violated because similar contact between heterosexuals is not illegal. The state argued that because the officials named in the lawsuit ignore the sodomy statute, they should not be sued. A lawyer for the seven had argued that the prosecutors were sued because they would be the key people in deciding whether the law should be enforced. Susan Sommer, supervising attorney for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, said that she will argue that Arkansas’ law "violates the right to equal protection because it singles out Gay men and women for cnminal puuishment and stigma for engaging in the identical conduct that is free tO their heterosexual neighbors." She said the state’s only justification for the law "is perceived public moral disapproval of homosexuality." "This is just another way of saying that because th~ public disapproves of Gay people, it can subject them to a special rule that applies criminal sanction to their conduct but not to others," she said. She also said the government "should not be peering into Arkansas bedrooms to investigate adult consensual intimacy." She said Arkansas, Oklahoma~ Kansas and Texas are the only states that have same-sex sodomy prohibitions in force. Bogard said Jegley could be sued because of his authority to determine if legal actions would be brought in his jurisdiction. fall short of the standards which they themselves set. And because Gaypeople share withTulsa’ s Jewishcommunity similarities in the condition of being minorities, it is reasonable to expect to be treated fairlyby thatcommunity in particular. Gays like Jews are not "on-sight" minorities - we are no.t known by the color of our skin orbyan epicanthic fold but rather by our actions, our behavior - the manifestation of our bdiefs. (Obviously, racial or ethnic minority Lesbians’ and Gays’ identity as Gay persons is not "onsight" even if their racial identity is.) And like Jews who have historically been forced to convert in order to avoid persecution, Gays frequently are asked to convert, or at least to hide any evidence of who we are. Also like Jews, the prejudice and discrimination we face is often minimized by some whopoint to those in ourcornmunities who are successful despite the obstacles. Tulsa’ s Jewish community, although small in number, has been particularly successful and is wall placed to do for others who are fighting for fair treatment and equal opportunity that which was done for them not so many years ago. The struggle for social acceptance, an end to restrictive property covenants, the condenmation of open prejudice, etc. came through the efforts ofmany non-Jews as well as the efforts of Jewish Tulsans. These are the origins of NCCJ, now the National Conference for Community and Justice, formerly "for Christians and Jews" in Tulsa. Tulsa’ s deep rooted anti-Gay prejudices are not going to go away by themselves. And it’ s more than evident that it takes more than the members of a particular oppressed group to end that oppression. It tookmen to get women the right to vote. It took whites to hdp end segregation, Christians to help Jews, Jews to help Muslims, and it will take all of the above to create a world in which Gay people can live in Tulsa with the same options as all others. But to get there, neither Tulsa Jews, nor any others who seek to do what is right, can sit passively aside, saving political and moral capital. Jewish voices have influence beyond their numbers - wejust need to begin to hear them -just as we hear the voices of non-Jews coming to the defense of the Jewish community when it is attacked (or even when it is offended - like with Christian symbols inappropriately placed on a fire-station). And imagine if at the next such concert or event, the voices of Council Oak Mens Chorale might be heard, perhaps even ending the event with"We Shall Overcome" - that old spiritual which speaks to the struggle of all, whether Jewish, or Black, or Gay to survive oppression, whether slavery, imprisonment, bodily and psychic assault, or Nazi horrors. Maybe even Ms. Kushner will come back for that. (Editor’s note: Despite misgivings about the inclusiveness ofthis event, Tulsa Family News donated an advertisement to the Sound & Spirit event.) 2001 board members are Kerry Lewis, president, Vance Reed, 1st v.p., Don Glass, 2nd v.p., Curtis Evans, secretary, Beth Persac, treasurer, Wil Bruner, men’s outreach coordinator, Greg Gatewood,marketing coordinator, Scottie Hale, events coordinator, David Hoot, volunteer coordinator, Lisa Pottorf, meeting program coordinator, and Lindsey Vandeventer and Raven Ezeel, youth outreach coordinators. Planned for March but yet without a set date, the Center will host a meeting of GLEAM, the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendered Employees of American Airlines. Call the Center to cheek the date. On Feb. 17 from 10-1pm, the Center will host a Gill Foundation training program, Fundraising Fundamentals. ¯ TheDenverbased Gill Foundation selectedTOHRas one of 10 US sites for this training For more information, call the Center at 743-4297 between 6-9 pro, Mon. - Fri. Civil Unions Bill Filed in Hawaii Legislature HONOLULU (AP) - A bill introduced in the state House wonld grant Gay and Lesbian couples all the legal rights ofmarried couples. House Judiciary Chairman Eric Hamakawa and Rep. Ed Case introduced the "civil unions" bill. Hamakawa said he would have to discuss the issue withfellow Democrats andcolleagues on the Judiciary Committee before he could say if. the bill would be given a hearing. Case believes-the Legislature in 1997 committed itself to provide same-sex couples with some of the benefits that married couples enjoy. Although legislators passed areciprocal beneficiaries law that extended dozens oflegal benefits to registered same-sex couples, Case said la~vmakers should do more. The bill introduced by Case and Hamakawa would repeal and replace the 1997 reciprocal beneficiaries law with a new legal relationship, "civil unions." Senate President Robert Bnnda said civil unions aren’t a priority for the Senate. He said the same-sex mamage debate split Democrats, and he does.n’ t want to see that kind of division in the Senate agmn. Mike Gabbard, chairman of the Alliance for Traditional Marriage and Values, said civil unions would be same-sex marriageby a different name, and calledit .an insult to ~,oters who rejected same-sex mamage m 1998. Anti-Gay Adoption Law Rejected in Arkansas LITTLE ROCK (AP) - Opponent~pf a bill that would prohibit Gays from adopting didnr t get much time to make their case, but they emerged victorious anyway. AHousepanel voted 10-9 to reject abill by Rep. Randy Minton, R-Ward, thatwouldprohibit Gays fromadopting or being foster parents. More than a dozen people in the crowded committee room wore stickers saying ’Vote No on HB 1026, - For Kids’ Sake,’ while others had buttons that read .Good ¯ Parents Come in Many Packages.’ But only one person on each side of the bill got to have their say, as the committee bogged down in questions for Minton and a strongly worded speech by chairwoman Jo Carson, D-Fort Smith, trying to discredit research Minton offered in support of his bill. Minton cited several studies, including those by Family Research Council psychologist Paul Cameron, that he said showed children raised in homosexual homes face greater risks. He said suchhomes are unstable and that many homosexuals are more promiscuous.. "Homosexual households are not a suitable enwronment for children because of their instability and hostility toward a natural family," Minton said. "We do not need to experiment with the lives of children." Carson questioned his studies, and brought out a report from the American Psychological Association, whose research she said found that Gays’ parenting styles are no different than those of heterosexuals. "Cameron’s research methodology has been firmly rejected by his peers in the research community," Carson said. The Arkansas Child Welfare Agency Review Board recently approved aban onhomo~s,e~xual fo~ste_r_..p.~en~t,s~ Since October, the Department oI tauman aervl~ asked prospective foster parents d, tttey are tJay. ,,, you say yes, we will politely say, Th~aks, but no, ’spokesman Joe Quinn said, adding thatno one has said they are homosexual yet. "We take them at their word." Quinn said there has never been such a law or regulationregarding adoptiom and that the department is not.taking a position on the bill. , Minton said with such a dose vote, ana one memoer absent from the meeting, "I’m going t,o work on some people and try to bring it back again.’ Dr. Daniel Rifkin~ a lung doctor at Arkansas Children’ s Hospital, said the bill "will hurt Arkansas’ kids." Rifkin said he sees many children with serious medical problems or disabililies, and that few parents will adopt them. He said because homosexuals know what it’ s like to live with a"stigma" in society, they are more likely to adopt these children. Jerry Cox, with the local Family Council, supported the bill. "We already discriminate when ~t comes to adoption and foster care," he said. Montana Senate Looks at Job Protections HELENA (AP) - A Senate committee considering a bill on job protection for Gays and Lesbians took the unusual step last month of accepting anonymous testimony, and declaring it off the record. Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Loreuts Grosfield, R-Big Timber, ordered the committee’s tape recorder shut off while the testimony was read. It was presented as that of amanwholost his Montanajob last month, after co-workers reviledhimforhis bisexuality. A representative of the Montana Human Righ~ Network, Greg Haegele, read the statement and said the man’s telephone number would be available to committee members. Several questioned the anonymity, saying it goes against a law requiring openness in government and casts doubt about the veracity of the testimony, but Grosfield’s decision stood. The Judiciary Committee held a hearing on Senate Bill 266, which would prohibit firing an employee because of sexual orientation. "Doesn’ t that seem to be an element of simple, fundamental fairness?" asked Sen. Jon Ellingson, D-Missoula, the bill’ s sponsor¯ Opponents said that existing laws provide adequate protection against dismissal, and that SB266 is part of an effort to advance specialrights for Gays and Lesbians. Ellingson s~d the bill would advance equal protection under the law, not special rights. Avote against the bill would be an endorsement of discrimination, he ~aid. Supporters of the bill included Kris Marsh, who works for a mental-health center in the Butte area and said that two years ago she was "driven out of ajob that I loved," after her employer learned she had a female partner. Marsh said her job performance ratings had been high. "I know you can’t change the minds and hearts of individuals," Marsh told the committee. But she saidlegislators can set a standard of employment fairness. George Bennett of the Montana Bankers Association was among the bill’s opponents, arguing that existing laws provide enough protection. "You can’t discharge anyone because they’ re Irish or Lutheran or Gay, or because they have big feet, Bennett said. Julie Millam of the Christian Coalition of Montana called the bill a "further attempt by the homosexual lobby to advance their agenda- one that will settle for nothing less than having codified into law the words ’sexual orientation’ as a constitutionally prot..e.c.ted class." The committee did not act on the bill, but may vote : on it later¯ Police Park Sting Defendent to Get Hearing ¯ ST. PAUL (AP) - A man ~onvicted of indecent con- : duct is entitled to a court hearing on his belief that ¯ police authorities have unfairly targeted Gays for arrest, the state Court of Appeals ruled. S teven A. Pinkal was arrested in July 1999 at a secluded St. Paul beach ¯ frequentedby Gay men, according to court documents. 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Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You The evidence includes statistics indicating that twothirds of St. Paul’s indecent conduct citations in the past three years went to Gay men arrested on the Mississippi River beach where Pinkal was arrested, said his attorney, Kyle White. Pinkal also offered as evidence statements by a former St. Paul police officer thatheterosexuals are not charged with indecent conduct in similar cases, and by people who heard a St. Paul prosecutor say that Gay men convicted of indecent conduct should be compelled to register as sex offenders. A three-judge Appeals Court panel said that Pinkal presented evidence sufficient to raise a reasonable doubt about discriminatory enforcement of the indecent conduct law, and that he is entitled to a separate hearing on the issue. The court also said that a trialjudge erred in allowing a prosecutor to question Pinkal about his religious beliefs, sexual orientation and HIV status. The cumulative effect of those errors alone, however, was not so great to warrant a new trial, the court said. University Needs Better Services forGay Students SEATTLE (AP) - The University of Washington is generally accepting of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered students, faculty and staff, but needs to go beyond mere tolerance, a task force report says. The report by the President’s Task Force on Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian andTransgender Issues recommends creating an office to assist such students mad offering more courses in sexual studies. It also calls for providing the same benefits to school employees with samesex partners that are available to heterosexual couples, and says school leaders could do more to include sexual minorities in diversity discussions, which usually focus on race and ethnicity. "The overall thrust of the task force report is that we have to move beyond issues of tolerance, and even beyondjust mere acceptance, to a condition of affirming, to actually affirm and celebrate the diversity that GBLT people bring to theuniversity," said the task force chairman, Philip Bereano, a teclmical-communication professor at the College of Engineering. The campus is free of overt hate crimes, but remains a place where Gay and Lesbian couples probably don’ t feel comfortable holding hands, the report says. Some people responded to a student survey with such comments as "The amount of tame, manpower and money being spent (on the task force) is appalling - disband and stop wasting taxpayer money," and "Stop being queer." The universities of California, Oregon and Minnesota already have Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian and Transgender resource centers, the report notes. Other colleges, such as UC-Berkeley and the University of Wisconsin, have academic programs in sexual minorlty studies. The report was released last month by the task-force, which was created in 1999 to examine issues facedby Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual andTransgender students, faculty and staff at the UW and recommend ways to address them. Aspen Police Investigate Vandalism of Gay Flag ASPEN, Colo. (AP) - A gesture of good will toward the Gay community was transformed into what police are calling a hate crime. A rainbow flag, a symbol of Gay pride recognized worldwide, was hung from the gazebo in Paepcke Park last week. Police believe someone burned the flag less than 24 hours later. Pieces and black soot were all that was left of the flag. "It will be classified as a hate-crime," said police Sgt. Sandy Brownlee. Hate-crimes are rare in Aspen, Brownlee said, saying that this is the first hatecrime she has investigated in the eight years she has been a police officer. Police have no suspects or leads in the ease. The flag was secured to the top of the gazebo with a metal chain before the start of Gay Ski Week.. More than 4,000 people attended the annual event that ran through Saturday and raised money for charity. "It’s terrible," Aspen Mayor Rachel Richards said of the vandalism. "Aspen is imperfect like the rest of the world. There are small-minded and intolerant people here just as everywhere else." Aspen was among the handful of Colorado communities whose ordinances protecting Gays and Lesbians from discrimination were criticized by proponents of Amendment 2, which would have prohibited such ordinances. The 1992 voter-approvedamendmentnever took effect and was eventually ruled unconstitutional by the U.S. Supreme Court. Jim Tomberlin, acting director for the Aspen Gay & Lesbian Community Foundation, called the incident a "bombshell." "We are very sorry to see this very serious issue here in our town," he said. "Traditionally, we’ve never had any major incidents against our guests here. We’ ve never had anything like this." Initially, Gay leaders proposed hanging the rainbow flags on lampposts along Main Street. Their proposal was rejected by Aspen City Council, which said only the government and institutions celebrating special anniversaries could use the posts. Instead, a compromise was reached allowing onerainbow flag in Paepcke Park. Next year, however, city officials promised the group can fly rainbow flags along Main Street to commemorate the 25th mufiversary of Gay Ski Week. Wisconsin Scouts Prefer Discrimination to Dollars MENASHA, Wis. (AP)- Area Boy Scout officials say they won’t adopt a policy banning discrimination against Gays even though they could lose funding from the United Way Fox Cities as a result. TheUnitedWayFoxCities board ofdirectors adopted a diversity statement in January that requires agencies it funds to provide services to people regardless of race, religion, Color, gender, nationality, sexual orientation, disability or age. The Boy Scouts have a national policy against Gays becoming scouts or scout leaders. ’‘The Boy Scouts have served thousands of young people in our area throughout the years and they have wonderful programs," said the board’ s chairman, Tim Higgins. "However, the fact remains, they have a policy of discrimination based on sexual orientation. The directors have decided that such a policy is not consistent with the missmn or vision of our organization." A recent U.S. Supreme Court ruhng upheld the Scouts’ right to dismiss a New Jersey assistant scout- ~naster after learning he is Gay. Rick Williamson, the executive for the scouts’ Bay- Lakes Council, which represents Boy Scouts in 22 counties from Port Washington to the Michigan border, said his organization was shocked by the move. "We had hoped that the Fox Cities United Way board would value pluralism and diversity, as well as community service, and would continue to support the Bay-Lakes Council on the merits of our contributions to the Fox Cities area," he said. Williamson said the council would form a task force to look into the matter further, but would not deviate from the national policy. "The ’homosexual lifestyle’ does not provide the appropriate role models for our members," he said. "Homosexual conduct isn’ t consistent with our oath." Williamson said the United Way Fox Cities provides about $184,000 ofhis council’ s $580,000 budget in the Appleton-Neenah-Menasha area. The council has a total budget of $3 million. It receives $595,000 from 31 United Ways. 33% Young Gay NY " Black Men Positive NEW YORK (AP) - The AIDS virus is striking hardest in New York City today among youngblack men, anew survey has found, with 33 percent of Gay or Bisexual black men ages 23 to 29 testing_positive for HIV. The study conductedby the city’ s Health Departmentfound thatyoungblack New Yorkers "are experiencing a larger burden of the HIV infection," Sandra Mullin, the department’s associate commissioner of public affairs, noted. Only 2% of the city’ s white Gay men in the same age group were HI¥-positive, while 14% of Hispamcs were infected, the survey found. "We don’t have a solid explanation for that because we don’ t see the kinds of differentials in behavior between black and white men to explain this," said Lucia Torian, who directed the study. The Health Department surveyed 542 men who identified themselves as either Gay or Bisexual. A new test was used in the survey that allowed researchers to determineif the’.mfectionhad occurred within six months. The subjects in the New York study were tested between March 1999 to July 2000. Researchers said the men who tested positive in all racial groups tended to have had sex without condoms. real version? The fake drug bears lot ¯ MNK612A, which is a real lot number also found on an authentic batch. But the ¯ fake version bears the expiration date 08/ ¯ 02. Genuine Serostim with that lot number ¯ bears the expiration date 08/01. ¯ On the Net: Food and Drug Administra- ¯ lion: http://www.fda.gov i All-Time High in HIV : Diagnoses in Britain : LONDON (AP) - The number of people ¯ diagnosed with HIV in Britain last year is ¯ expected to be the highest ever, public ¯ health officials said. The Public Health ¯ Laboratory Service said 2,868 new cases ¯ of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, were ¯ reported last year, a 7% increase on com- . parable figures for 1999. With some fig- ¯ ures still to be collected, the total is ex- "- pected to exceed the previous high of ¯ 3,222 cases in 1985, the first year testing ¯ was widely available. For the second year, the number of new ¯ cases was greater among heterosexuals ¯ than among homosexuals, with 1,315 her- ¯ erosexually acquired diagnoses compared : to 1,096 among Gay and Bisexual men. ¯ The majority of the heterosexual cases were acquired in areas with high rates of ¯ the virus, such as sub-Saharan Africa, the ¯ service said. Dr. Barry Evans, head of the service’s HIV division, said the increase in diagnoses was not entirely due to a surge of : recent infections. "Many of those being o diagnosed are people who were infected ¯ some years ago but who are only now : coming forward for testing," he said. ¯ More than 20,000 peoplein Britainhave been diagnosed-as HIV positive, andh.~th experts say about 10,000 others may be infected without knowing it. ’Where have also been large increases in sexually transmitted infections such as gonorrheawhich shows that unsafe sex is occurring and people are putting themselves at risk of acquiring HIV," Evans said. FDA Investigates Fake AIDS Drug WASHINGTON (AP) - AIDS patients ghouldimmediately checkthatthey weren’ t sold a counterfeit version of the prescription drug Serostim, because the fake could be dangerous, Serostim’s maker has warned. The Food and Drug Administration has launched a criminal investigation to track down whoever sold the fake drag, which so far has been found in seven states but could have been sold nationwide. The composition of the fake substance is not known. So far, its only reported side effects are skinirritation and redness where patients injected the substance. But offi- Cials noted that AIDS patients risk at least getting worse if they go without their real Serostim. The drug maker’ s warning came at the end of January. Serostim is an injected medicine used by about 6,000 AIDS patients to fight the dangerous wasting that the virus can cause. Manufacturer Serono Inc. says about 10 people initially received the counterfeit version from pharmacies in California. So far, the FDA has discovered the fake drug in six other states-Ohio, Kentucky, Michigan, New Jersey, Florida and Missouri. Serono first learned of fake Serostim when it receivedphone calls fromCaliforuia consumers, longtime Serostim users wondering why their newest batch looked different or reporting unexpected skin irritations. Laboratory tests showed the substance wasn’t Serostim but an elaborate fake, sold in boxes that closdy resemble real. Serostim packages. Serono alerted pharmacists and AIDS organizations to the problem in late December; the FDA told Serono to issue a broader warning Monday to ~.ensure all. AIDS pafi.ents~get the word. How to tell the fake Serostim from. the HIV Doubles In SF Gay Men Since ’97 ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP)- Paul Torello is upfront about his life. He sells sex on the ¯ streets for drug money, and he’ s HIV posi- ¯ five. It’s a story he tells all of his male ¯ clients before he lets them chose whether ¯ to proceed with or without a condom. ¯ But more.often than not, his words have ¯ little effect. "It’ s sex that they really want : to have," Torello said. "That’s primarily ¯ the attitude in the city. It’ s a fun thing for ", them." That attitude is party responsible ¯ for an alarming new report released that : finds the HIV infection rate has more than ¯ doubled among San Francisco’s Gay men : in four years. ¯ The report estimates that 2.2% of-the 37,000 Gay menin San Francisco who are not infected with HIV will contract the ¯ virus - up from 1.04%in 1997. If nothing ¯ changes, 748 Gay men in San Francisco ," will fall prey to HIV this year, the report ¯ projects.Thatdraftanalysiscombinesmore than 25 studies by the University of Cali- ¯ - fornia, San Francisco, that surveyed some ." 10,000 Gay men. I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I Power Connect. 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Indeed, the new antiviral drugs responsible for extending the lives of many HIV patients may big the biggest catalyst drivingup the incidence rate ofnew infections. Long life spans make it possible for victims to spread the virus to more people, said Mike Slmver, Mayor Willie Brown’s adviser on AIDS and HIV policy and an organizer of the research panel. In addition, he said, the drugs - first released in the mid- 1990s - have eased the horror of watching loved ones die a slow, agonizing death. "Why is it going up among men having sex among men?" said Coates, who’ s been HIV-positive since 1985. "The whole idea of Gay liberation is having sex with whom you want to have sex. It’s breaking down old moralistic barriers. But it carries with it something lethal, and it’s hard for the Gay community to come to grips with." Coates said he’ s seen a 50% decrease in HIV rates among intravenous drug users. He also hasn’t seen any increases in the heterosexual population. Yet a quarter of the city’s estimated 46,800 Gay men are HIV-positive. And 80°70 of HIV infections in the city are among Gay men, the study found. That means stories like Torello’s aren’ t uncommon. A native of Hamden, Conn., Torello, 36, came to San Francisco three years ago and contracted HIV in the past 18 months. He was sharing dirty needles to sh0ot-up speed and having unprotected sex with whomever would pay. He’ s not sure how he contracted the virus. Still, he continues to prostitute himself. "Every person who I ever hook up with, I tell them. Always," said Torello. "But I’ve only been turned down once or twice." The increase isn’t unique to San Francisco. Coates said numbers are on the rise in Sydney and Vancouver. In addition, the Centers for Disease Control and PreventioninAdantareports anincrease in syphilis and gonorrheaamong Gay males in Los Angeles, Miami and Seattle. "We’ re definitely concerned about Gay men across the county," said R6bert Janssen, the CDC’s director of the division of HIV/AIDS prevention. "We’re pulling together and have begun to look at a variety of ways to improve intervention and prevention programs for Gay men and to be~n to look at specific things we need to do.’ Oti the Net: http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu 800 Thai Men Over 60 Turn Positive BANGKOK, Thailand (AP) - More than 800 Thai menin their 60’ s have contracted the virus that leads to AIDS in the past two years, often after unprotected casual sex with teen-age gifts, the health ministry said. The men seek sex withminors because of the misconception there is less risk of contracting the disease from them than from intercourse with older women, said ministry spokeswoman Nittaya Mahaphol, citing a recent ministry report. "We’re not sure if it’s because of the sex-booster Viagra that drives more elderly men back to sexual activity. But these men are apparently turning to casual partners or schoolgirl prostitutes to avoid getting infected," Nittaya said. Thailand has won international acclaim for its success in promoting condom use to quell an HIV epidemic that swept the nation in the early 1990s, infecting about one million people. The "100% condom program" is credited with saving an estimated 200,000 lives. Infection rates have consequently dropped, but the age-old belief still lingers that sexual intercourse with teen-age girls - the younger, the better - is safe and can rejuvenate aging men. Theministry report, based oninterviews with men who had contracted HIV, was released in a week when a 64-year old representatave of Thailand’ s upper house of Parliament was charged with statutory rape for having sex with five teen-agers. The incident has scandalized the public and dominated the front pages of national newspapers. Senator Chalerm Phromlert allegedly entertained the gifts at a hotel on the outskirts of Bangkok and paid each of them 4,000 baht ($93) to have sex. He has since resigned. South Africa Starts New Drug Study JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - The health department has launched a pilot project to provide free anti-retroviral medication to HIV-positive mothers and evaluate its effectiveness in reducing the virus’ transmission to their nnborn children, officials said recently. The move comes amid angry debate over the government’ s often confusing response to HIV and AIDS, which infect an estimated 4.2 million South Africans. To date, anti-retroviral drugs have not been made available through the public health system. Authorities have argued that they are too expensive and that their safety has yet to be proven. Over the next six weeks, the drug Nevirapine is to be supplied to 18 hospitals and clinics, which will issue it to pregnant women who are HIV-positive, said Dr. Noro Sinalela, head of the health department’s HIV/AIDS program. The results of the pilot study are to be evaluated over the next year and, if effective, the program is to be extended. Sinalela said the country’s Medicine Control Council approved the use of Nevirapine "about a month ago" - a move that most AIDS activists said they were unaware of. "This is a huge step forward," said Sharon Ekambaram of the AIDS consortium, an alliance of 300 AIDS service organizations: "It is a sign of political will to deal with the problem. Very few of the guidelines to date have talked about treatment." Along with anti-retrovirals, the governmentalso intends to provide HIV-positive women with milkpowder, tominimize:the chances of them passing thevirus to their children through b~east=feeding. - ~i by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor Well, here we are at the time of year when hearts and flowers appear magically everywhere. St. Valentine’ s Day approacheth, and I have a few thoughts to share. First off, it was, like many other holidays appropriated from the Roman feast of Lupercalia, a celebration ~’n honor of a goddess oflove. St. Valentine was later grafted upon the date to christianize the festival in hopes of converting more common folk. As for the love aspect of the whole thing, here’s anote Ijotteddown with both a friend and myself in mind. It seemed worth sharing: v,rhat a shame that so many confuse love with ¯ well, you get the idea. "Trick" is another ¯ good film for that same effect, and has a ~ hilarious parody of aspiring actresses fea- ¯ turing Toil Spelling. Matthew Boume’s ~ homocentricversionofSwanLakeisavail- " able on video, for those with more high- . brow standards (it’s about the shirtless, : flawless swans). If you don’t mind your Stomp, photo: Lois Greenfield sentiment dished straight up, there’s "Somewhere In Time," possibly the most romantic movie anyone could watch with someone. It’ II leaveyou snailing and crying by the end. Finally, if you’re into chicken, "Chicken Run" is a wonderful film, with enough romance to keep tongues clucking. OK, the puns control and game playing. And how sad it is that when love - acceptance and physicalattraction- is offered on a silver platter, gift wrapped with no strings attached, that people run in terror from it, believing no one could ever truly love them and all their flaws and accept them simply for who and what they are and the gifts they bring to life. Instead, they choose to ignore that gift, preferring instead to run to those ~ho will reinforce feelings ofinadequacy, who will rip them apart with abuse and harsh words and cruelty, instead Of lifting them up. Is there something so comfortable in accepting that, in perhaps remmning true to our backgrounds, that we deny ourselves anything better? We are all good enough, smart enough, and worthy of acceptance. Don’t settle for anything less. And speaking of love, the one love of my life that has outlasted any man and a few women, songstress Stevie Nicks is finally releasing her new album "Trouble in Shandri La" on April 10th. She also has a song on the SweetNovember soundtrack, a tribute to a friend of hers who died of complications from AIDS. I had the privilege ofreading the lyrics and it is beautiful, a song of love and of hope that one day, there will be no such disease. The song is "Touched By An Angel", and here is a sample of the poetry she has written: "NO ONE SAW US GO... NO ONE SAID GOODBYE, BUT IN MY HEART, I LEAVE GREAT EXPECTATIONS THAT YOU WILL FIND THE ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS, AND TIL~T LIFE WILL ONCE MORE. .. BEA CELEBRATION... ANDTHAT YOU WILL BE TOUCHED BY AN ANGEL." Best Valentine gift this year: Music: "Love Decides’!, Jane Olivor. Winner hands down, sure to guarantee an evening of gazing into another’ s eyes, warm gooey feelings, and a cuddle. And ff not, then you’re dating an ice queen whose heart simply cannot be reached. Video/DVD: "Broadway Damage", a wonderful romantic comedy that has a predictable but swat ending, is well-acted, and will leave the two of you smiling.., and kissing.., and, had to go somewhere! And since this is about love, let me take a moment to give the loves in my life a valentine (appearing in no particular order): Tom, for giving me a forum for sharing some info about some wonderful artists; Bonnie and Mariafor their laughter and gifts of sdf they have brought into my life, best of which is "The Bonnie and Maria Show" - and the crock pot, a true symbol of love if ever there was one; Valerie, who makes sure we stay in touch; J0ni, for being a kindred spirit and fellow mischief maker and survivor of dysfunctional families; Kate, for all the tides shared, frustrations held, and tongues tied at work; - Stefani, for all her love and support and hugs for 17 years, and for growing into the wonderful woman she has become - well worth the diaper duties, the vom squad; to Tari, for the drives to the hospital (on the bumpiest roads possible) due to back spasms at 3am, for being there, and for taking on Morn; to Richard for taking on would be bullies and exes who didn’ t want to pay their share. To Mom,for being there for 37 years, like it or not. To Peter, for the same toys growing up (Chitty), the laughter, and the asnides shared during parties and dinners; Cody, for being a friend in spite of me, and g~ving me the joy of knowing that when i get to CA, I will know someone there who. is relatively sane and sweet; Chadforbeing such agreat ex-boss and friend (I mis.s our chats!); Marti, for all her wonderful smiles and stories and for the big hugs; especially to Karin for the last 14 years of putting up with my tears, my jokes, and for .editing my poison pen letters - and for sharing with me all the joys and traumas since the day we met, as well as knowing me better than anyone on this planet - and still loving me, as well as eventually growing fond of the music of Stevie Nicks and sharing MelissaEtheridge with me; Vic and Mary Neal, for the wonderful dinners and poetry and laughs and deep conversation and political rants over the years; Terry and Paul for taking care of puppies and finding me those CDs no one else can get and for being there when I lock myself out of my house; see Amuse, p. 9 THE SMASH HIT RETURNSi. Welcomed by Wireless Feb. 20-25-Brady Theate All Carson Attractions locations, 584-2000 carsonattractions.com 20+ Groups, 477-7469 Presented by Celebrity Attractions. ¯ celebrityattractions.com ¯ ~.stompon|;ne.com Drummers of Japan March 4 7:30 p.m. Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center 3rd & Cincinnati Tickets $17.50, $27.50, $35 Call 596,7111 Outside Tulsa: 1 800 364-7111 www.tulsapac.com presented by the Tulsa PAC Trust "Perfection in music" Boston Globe "Total brain massage" Independent on Sunday "... waves of percussive sound that seemed to turn Carnegie Hall itself into a resonant cavity ..." New York Times ....... ,, Don’ t let winter keep you inside hibernating- there’ s plenty going on in Tulsain February ! Holland Hall School will present-the 41st Annual Book Fair & Market (an annual event since 1961). Organized by the Holland Hall Parents’ Association., it is the state’s largest used book sale and typically draws as many as 10,000 patrons. It’ s open Saturday, February 24, 9 - 5, Sunday, February 25, noon - 5pro at the Holland Hall Middle School,5666 E. 81st Street. Parking is available on campus. Admission is only $1 for adults 18 and ~ver and is good for both days. Besides books and art, the Fair offers a"flea market" with householditems, clothes, electronic goods, records and CDs, kids wear and more. Not to be missed are two very big bang events: in February, Celebrity Attractions, knownfor their Broadway shows, is bringing back "stomp" at the Brady on Feb. 20 - 25. Part dance, mostly drumming, the 8 member group has played from London to the Acropolis, all over television and their work has won Obie, Olivier and Drama Desk awards. Call 584-2000 for more information and don’t miss them! Early in March, one performance only on Sunday, March 4th at 7:30pro, at the Performing Arts Center (so get those tickets now - March will be too late), the Kodo Drummers of Japan return to Tulsa for the first time in 10 years. Their performance Frieda, Chewie and Luke for the licks and grins; to the staff at Metro, who have become friends and family away from home; to Terry and Barry for making me feel welcome when I first arrived and who accepted me into their circle - special thanks for the invite to the anniversary bash, guys, it was fabulous; and finally:to Brian, for refusing to let walls stand in his way, for rocking my world, and for being the one other gay man in OK who loves Stevie Nicks almost as much as I do, who knows who Linda Eder is, and for loving me in spite of myself. And to my new friend Lindsay, who bonded almost instantly with me and shares my love of Stevie’s music as wall. To all the people who have gifted me with their presence in my life, whose paths crossed with mine and left a smile on both our faces. I am incredibly lucky to have been gifted with .these people’ s presence inmy life, and this ~s my .valentine to them all, and to all the people reading this column, Happy Valentine’s Day to you, too! Heller Theatre presents "Trust," Steven Dietz’ dramedy set in the rock music scene running Feb 8-17; 746-5065 for info/tix. The Lipizzaner Stallions will be trotting The Junior Chamber Mission Foundation held Chilifor Children. a fundraiserforfamilies affected byHtV/ AIDS at St. Louis Bread Co. SLBC coowner" Sue Stees is joined by JCMF and SLBC staff, photo: Tracey E. Norvell takes traditional Japanese drumnnng, "taiko," and like Stomp, combines musical performance with athletic grace Call the PAC box office at 596-7111, 800-364-.7111, or www.tulsapac.com Community women might want to head south to San Antonio for the 14th Texas Lesbian Conference. Comedian Karen Williams will perform atthe Marcia 23- 25 event to be held at the Riverwalk’ s Amerisuites near San Antonio’s historic King William District. Other speakers and workshops will be presented covering many of Lesbian life. Call 210-532- 9821 or email to: TLCSanAntonio @aol.com for more information. Saturday, Feb. 10, Tulsa~s Largest Garage Sale will be held at Expo Square on the Fairgrounds from 8-4pm. Only $3, it helps local charities raise funds. It’ s organized by the Mental Health Association in Tulsa. Community of Hope usually has a booth in this event. Find cool things and do good all at the same time. Thatsame day, Dillon International, Inc. will hold an international adoption workshop from 9:30-4:30 atAsbury Methodist’ s "Outback" in the back side of the Park Plaza Center. Thefee is $60/family or $401. single. Unverified rumor is that Dillon’s director does not allow Gays or Lesbians to adopt because of religious beliefs. You might want to ask before you write that check! see About. p. 11 up the town at Maxwell Convention Center on the 1 lth; 584-2000 "Rashomon" a story of a bandit on trial for the death of a samurai and rape of his wife will be performed at the University of Tulsa; 631-2567. "She drives me crazy, ooh, ooh...’" tops, no, that’s "Driving Miss Daisy," runs Feb 23-March 3 with American Theatre Company, 747-9494. TulsaBalletpresents "Romeo andJuliet" again, Feb 23-25, 749-6006. When are they going to do the all male version, "Romeo and Julio?" Sounds like ajob for. ¯ . Matthew Bourne! I’m still waiting for them to do his take on "Swan Lake." Tulsa Opera presents "Tannhauser," Wagner’ s epic of love, death, magic, religion, mayhem and revelryrtmning Feb 10, 16, and 18. Goddess bless.. Hey, Venus makes a special appearance, so if you’re looking for lo*e, the PAC’ s the place to be on those nights. And the big show of the month is "STOMP" a raucous and spirited evening of rhythm, music and percussion, all created by ordinary and extraordinary household objects! Feb 20-25 at the Brady Theatre, presented by Celebrity Attractions. It is a show that will have you tapping feet, fingers, and the chairs of other patrons. But try not to be too annoying... by Lamont Lindstrom I was reading up on secrecy and modesty recently and I noticed that some anthropologists claim that modesty is a human universal. People - unlike dogs, horses, or even chimpanzees - retire into the shadows to make love. Whoa, I thought! How~ about all those orgies I hear about (but never seem to get invited to)? Orthoseexhibitionists on webcamnow.com? And what about the infamous toilets in Tulsa’s River Parks? Last year Tulsa’ s Mental Health Association hosted a working group on what to do about public sex in the parks. Various participants from the city and county park administrations, the District Attorney’s office, - the police, probation offic- ¯.. some anthropologists elalm that modesty is a human universal... Whoa, I thought! How about all those orgies I hear about . ?. Or those exhibitionists on webeamnow.eom? And what about the infamous toilets in Tulsa’s River Parks.. ? " ers, and mental health professionals convened throughout the year to discuss solutions to public sex. In particular, they sought ways to discourage recidivism. Local wisdom has it (although hard statistics seem peculiarly difficulty to produce) that the officers who police the toilets are arresting the same individuals time and again. Most of the folks around the table were havdved, professionally, wlthneurosis and deviance. It is no surprise, therefore, that the group favored a response that combines repression with therapy. First, arrest anyone with his pants down, and then make some sort of sex therapy ajudicially imposed component ofhis probation. Like myanthropological colleagues, weTulsans presume that public sex is abnormal, even unnatural. It’ s a problem to solve. Those who do it in the streets frighten the horses or even worse, in this century, the children. My inclination instead would be to gain an understanding of the culture of public sexuality..Although not exactly a community, the men involved are a population which shares enoughcultural expectations and understandings through which to fulfill their equally shared desires. My anthropological imperative would be, first, to figure out the native point of view. However, there is a cautionary precedent that makes one worry about hanging about public sex venues. Sociologist Laud Humphreys got into hot water when he published his 1970 book, Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places. Back in those days, he hadn’ t thought to inform the "trade" who he observed in St. Louis’ public toilets that he was, in fact, studying them. And their wives also were rather shocked when Humphreys turned up on their doorsteps for an interview, having traced the toilet trade’ s home addresses by means of_their car tags. Humphreys’ controvers~ al research was one of the factors that encouraged sociologists to write up code of research ethics. According to police participants in the Mental HealthAssn’ s working group, most of those arrested in Tulsa park restrooms, similarly, are married men. But this can only be part of the story: True, the toilets serve as convenient meeting places for otherwise respectablemen in searchofanonymous sex on their way home to wife and kids. But toilets are also complex sites where self-identified Gays, selfidentified Straights, and everyonein-betweencome together. Don, one ofmy earliest Gay friends, used to astonish me with his boldness. Don prefers anonymous and public sexual encounters. Don has had sex in tiny Korean Airline washrooms, underneath scraggly bushes near the University of Hawai’i’ s baseball stadium, on sandy, public beaches, in cars parked at Wal-Mart, and at trnckstops and highway rest areas stretching from Tulsa to Los Angeles. Don also used to hang out at the one rrated video arcade in Tulsa. I learned from him about the lively community of regulars there who know, or at least recognize, one another. These guys kill time chatting and kikiing until some fresh meat- one of those passing married guys, perhaps - drops in. Then polite chatter turns into sometimes vicious competitton over who. elbows his way first into the video booth. Gay activists, understandably, are concemed that the public at large is way too happy to tar us all with the scarlet brush of promiscuity and uncouth sexuality. They hasten to underline that the majority of park toilet denizens are married and therefore at least presumptively strS. But park toilets feature men having sex with men, however they define themselves, and the Gay community inescapably is implicated and involved. Equality Colorado, a Gay activist group in Denver, has worked with local police to create an outreach program. Men hanging about park toilets are contacted and provided information about STDs, and about better places to cruise. This, of course,just removes the ]problem3 elsewhere. And such removal is perhaps more difficult to aclfieve in Tulsa where authorities have closed down alternate sex sites such as the notorious Overlook on the way to Key~ stone Lake, and downtown movie houses and restrooms. Still, one might hope that those homymarried guys might at least be canny enough to check out the scores of chatrooms and other internet opportunities to meet up, and thus remove their business from the public eye. Butthings are not so simple. Culture and desire both are at work here. There is an international subculture of public sexual- ¯, ity that stretches from Tulsa to Japan to Britain to beyond. You could take a Tulsa ¯ River Parks denizen and drop himin Hyde : Park in Sydney, Australia and within 10 ¯ minuteshe’dbebusy, seePrivates,p. 11 Timothy W, Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, _Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. Want to save Money and Help Build a Community Center? Switch to Rainbow Communications Long Distance and More, 10% of Revenues Will Benefit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Capital Campaign and General Fund For more information, call 665-3401 or evenings at 447-8602. your special needs! IGTA member Call 341.6866 Intorn tion l Tl~ lJ FS formoreinformation. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) If one offered an alternative space - a motel, perhaps, with backdoors - for married guys to have happy-hour sex with one another, those park toilets would still be hopping. Clearly, the forbidden can be exciting. Public and anonymous sex is a pervasive feature Ofhumannature, despite what my anthropological and psychological colleagues might suppose. in 1997 and 1999, says he will try again this year. ’‘The chances do look better," Chisum saidl "After Vermont’s fiasdo, there is a growing support to step up to the table and do the right thing." To Texas Gay civil rights activists, Chisum’s bill is vindictive. "We already we know we can’t get married here," said Diane Hardy-Garcia, executive director of the Lesbian and Gay Rights Lobby of Texas. "The only thing that can happen with this is division and hurt.’" Hardy-Garcia said her legislative priority this year is ahate-erimes bill. "Those of us from conservative Southern states have to be very realistic about what we do," she said. "Legislators would think I’mcrazy if I went up and asked them to pass a marriage bill fight now." In New York and Rhode Island, however, openly Gay legislators plan to introduce Gay-marriage bills this year. Rhode Island Rep. Michael Pisaturo is unsure whether his bill will get through the House Judiciary Committee, but said he is intent on persevering year after year until he prevails or loses his seat. "Most of my colleagues realize it’s the right and fair thing to do," he said. "But politically, it’s a different story. Most politicians really worry about getting re-elected." Pisaturo has rejected suggestions that he propose civil unions, rather than marriage. "I can’ t accept anything the codifies in statute my second-c!ass citizenship," he said. In New York, state Sen. Tom Duane plans to introduce two bills, one proposing civil tmions and the other full-fledged marriage for same-sex couples, according to his chief of staff, Andrew Berman. "We see these two as long-term projects," said Berman, explaining that Duane’s proposals would lack teeth until other anti-discrimination measures are enacted. Despite the efforts ofPisaturo andDuane, the director of the ACLU’s Lesbian and Gay Rights Project doesn’t expect any state to swiftly endorse Gay marriage. "Thereisn’ t anotherVermonton the shortterm horizon," said Matt Coles. "It will look like there’ s a pause in the movement. But I say to people, ’Look more closely.’" He said polls now suggest a majority, of Americans favor some legal rights forGay couples, albeit not official marital status. He also noted the increasing number of corporations extending domestic-partnersh~ p benefits to Gay employees. "Tenyears ago there werejust ahandful of companies doing that," Coles said. "Now, it’ s becoming the standard of operation." Activists in both camps also detect growing empathy forGays and Lesbians among young Americans, as evidenced by the spread of Gay-Straight alliances at high schools and colleges. ’’The young people get it," said Deanna Kaffke, a Gay civil rights leader who teaches at the University of Nebraska. "Even with a conservative student body, a majority of students on campus see that this is a civil rights issue." If Vermont’ s civil union law has helped galvanize opposition to Gay marriage, it also has inspired many same-sex couples. Among them are Marcie Elias and Hillary Smith, partners for more than two years in New York City who are planning a civilunion ceremony later this year in Vermont. Elias, 28, described herself as "very traditional." ’T ve always envisioned myself getting married and having a ho~e. When I came out, that never changed. Many Gay couples see no need foi: a formal ceremony, she said, "but in my mind it’ s important to get up in front ofmy closest friends and family and say, ’This is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.’" Elias, a management consultant, predicted that a steady stream of same-sex couples would go to Vermont to enter civil unions, then return home and seek legal benefits reserved for heterosexual married couples. "They’ 11 get their requests denied and eventually it’ s going toworkits way to the courts," she said. "As more and more Gay couples startdamoring forlegal rights and protections, it will become more and more of an administrative nightmare for the states." Wolfson, the Lambda Defense Fund attorney, agreed that civil unions made in Vermont would spawn lawsuits.’’This is not some chess game," he said. "These are real people who have entered a serious legal relationship. As they encounter discrimination or even uncertainties, there will be litigation. It will arise out of genuine crisis." MiltonRegan, aprofessoratGeorgetown University Law Center who specializes in family law, predicted that state courts would be the pivotal battleground over the next several years as Gay couples seek broader rights."The growing recognition from the corporate sector begins to confer some legitimacy," Regan said. "But it’s not going to be inexorable, and there will be backlashes in many areas. It’s one of thosebattlegrounds in which there is lurching in one direction and the other- another front in the cultural war." Over at Philbrook, if you hurry, there’ s a sweet exhibit, Tulsa Collects, Treasures from Private Collections, up till Feb. 11. The show features historical and contemporary European and American paintings, sculpture and Native American art and artifacts. There is a Thomas Moran painting as well as works by French Impressionists, Edouard Vuillard, Camille Pissarro, 20th century American ardsts Mark Rothko, Andy Warhol, Andrew Wyeth, and glass sculptor Dale Chihuly. Philbrook is located at 2727 S Rockford Rd. Call 749-7941 for information. Saturday, February ~7th, 8pm-Midnight The Brady Mansion 620 North Denver DJ, Hors d’oeuvres, Party Pics, Cash Bar, Live Entertainment, Dress Mild to Wild Door prizes for Best Dressed Tickets: $15 advance or $20 at the door Available at: The Tulsa GLBT Community Center 2114 South Memorial Drive, 918-743-4297 and select vendors listed on the website. Proceeds benefit The Pyramid Project "Building a Home - Funding the Future, for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center." Made Possible by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), www.PyramidProject.org Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2001] Tulsa Family News, February 2001; Volume 8, Issue 2 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. 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The policy, which applies to paid staff and volunteers, recognizes explicitly "sexual orientation" as well as statuses which traditionally have legal recognition. The written policy states the intent for the "American Red Cross to be an inclusive community, free from discrimination and prejudice." The statement includes a signature line which volunteers or staff must sign. According to Dahl and McIntosh, the change is in keeping with traditional Red Cross goals~vhich strove to provide services to all based only on need. But in a recent organizational review, see Cross, p. 10 Transgendered Cop to Speak at TOHR Meeting TULSA (TFN) - On March 13, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) will its monthly membership meeting. In addition tO a social period beginning at 6:30 with soft drinks, and organizational business at 7: 30, the meeting will feature a speaker whois opeul.y transgendered and who is an Oklahoma City police officer. The speaker is knowledgable in self-defense techniques. Other business will include budget and other announcements about this summer’s Diversity Fest and Parade. Later in the month, TOHR will host the second of the Gill Foundation fundraising seminars. Some 21 groups have joined TOHR in this training, most of whom are not Lesbian or Gay groups. They include Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Philharmonic, NARAL, the Tulsa Boys Home, Neighbors on the Line, the League of Women Voters, as well as Council Oak Men’s Chorale, HOPE, Tulsa CARES, and PFLAG. On March 24, at 7pro, TOHR wil! host a pot-luck dinner at the Center. Also, TOHR and Red Rock Behavioral Health Services are implementing two new programs. The first is a Coming Out group. This program is designed to assist persons who are in the initial stages of dealing with their sexuality. The program is open to women and men. Meetings will take place at the Community Center each Tuesday night at 7pm. see TOHR, p. 11 MJ DIRECTORY EDITORIAL US & WORLD NEWS ~ HEALTH NEWS P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 Z ENTERTAINMENT + MORE GAY STUDIES/RAGING LESBIAN P. 10/11 ~ JENKS, AMERICA (TFN) - When right wing Utah US Senator Orrin Hatch created an equal access bill to allow student religious groups to use public school facilities, he probably never dreamed he was also making it possible for Gay and Gay-friendly high school students to start Gay/Straight Alliances - even in conservative Oklahoma. But in Jenks, one of Tul sa’ s suburbs (which like Broken Arrow grew from a small farm town in the 60’s and 70’ s as Tulsa whites fled integration in Tulsa Public Schools), an 18 year old senior did his homework, knew the law, bucked the system, got some help and got a Gay/Straight Alliance (GSA) started. Kevin Barker said he once didn’t think he’d be the one to start a GSA. He is friends with Will Allen and Kent Doss, other young Gay activists and knew Allen had helped start a GSA at Tulsa’s Washington High. Doss encouraged Barker to take the initiative but Barker characterized himself as one who once considered the DC based Human Rights Campaign as "too radical." But as he went through his "coming out" process, opening up to his friends and school community - and generally being accepted, he reconsidered. And that’s when he started researching equal access laws, and looking at other resources. By the middle of last fall, he was ready and went to Jenks High School administrators and, not surprisingly, started to get the runaround. Perhaps school officials thought they could stall or bluff him enough that he’d give up. But Barker called for help and contacted the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network’s newest chapter in Oklahoma City. OKC GLSEN co-chair Rhouda Rudd received an e-mail from Barker and forwarded his letter to other members of the chapter. Chapter members Rob Abiera and Joe Quigley suggested that Barker contact Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). Qnigley, one of the founding members of Oklahoma City G LS EN and a teacher of several years’ experience, also sent a list of contacts, see Jenks, p. 2 In Or Out: Effects of the Closet TULSA ~TFN) - What are the psychological effects of being in or out of the closet for GLBT’s will be the subject of the next Sou!force In Oklahoma at a Tulsa meeting on Monday, March 19th. Dr. Shirley Hunter, from Oklahoma City, who is a Licensed Professional Coun.selor and a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, will be the guest speaker. According to Soulforce In Oklahoma, religious groups often covertly or overtly encourage Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/Transgender persons to remain silent within churches about their sexuality or risk the possibility of rejection. Many faith groups advocate a "don’t ask -.don~t tell" policy for their congregants and ministers. As a consequence, GLBT folks struggle with the decision whether or not to come out. Dr. Hunter will speak on the subject of coming out and lead a discussion for audience participation. The meeting will be from 6-8pm at the Tulsa Gay/Lesbian/ Bisexual/Transgender Services Center. The center is located at 2114 S. Memorial, Tulsa. (918-743-4297). Shirley Hunter started her private practice in psychotherapy in Oklahoma,City in 1978. The focus of her practice has been for Gays, Lesbians and their families. Dr. Hunter was instrumental in establishing the first Gay help line in Oklahoma City in the early 80’s. She was also a participant in the first homosexual hearings of the United Methodist Church, and served on the task force for homosexuality at Church of the Servant, one of the state’s largest Methodist churches. Dr. Hunter has spoken to groups throughout the stateinduding university groups, community groups, and professional groups concerning Gay, Lesbian and HIV issues. Dr. Hunter and her partner, Jan Tipton, have been together for almost 23 years, and they reside in OKC. In Tulsa, the group meets on the 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month and is a grassroots movement of GLBT and allied people, from diverse rdigious traditions who are dedicated to bringing about justice for the GLBT community. For more information visit the Soulforce National website at "www.soulforce.org" or contact local members: Karen at "karen@cwis.net", 918-4522761, Sue at "knalig@worldnet.att.net", 587-3248, or Femando at "Pandafe477@cs.com", 295-0030. TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa’s College Hill Presbyterian Church, 10ng known as the progres sive church among local congregations is sponsoring a weekend retreat for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender persons. The event called, "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" will be on March 16-18 at the historic Presbyterian camp Dwight Mission near Muskogee. It’s billed as "A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime..." and features as facilitator, the Reverend Laurene M. Lafontaine. Lafontaine is an out Lesbian and an alumnae of Princeton Theological Seminary, and serves as "pulpit supply" (floating minister) for Denver area churches. Lafontaine also teaches and coaches at Saint Mary’s Academy in Englewood, Colorado. "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The retreat hopes to help individuals to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Organizers say that the retreat’will offer opportunities for worship, discussion, recreation, bonding, and alliance building. The goal is to build a church for everyone. The event will start after 6pm on Friday evening as participants arrive. That evening will be a get acquainted time with no formal programs except for a Vespers service at 10pm. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday momingworship follows breakfast, see Retreat, p. 11 ¯ Presbyterians Vote On Anti-Gay Amendment ¯ US/TULSA (AP/TFN) -Around the United States, ¯ regional governing bodies for the Presbyterian Church, ¯ U.S.A. are voting on a measure called "Amendment O."The amendment is another product of the30-year ¯ struggle over homosexuality, that has gripped the 2.6 ¯ million-member Presbyterian church and other main¯ line Protestant denominations. The proposed amend" ment, passed by the national governing body of the ¯ denominationin2000,wouldruleoutinvoking"God’s ¯ blessing.., on any relationship that is inconsistent ¯ with" the view that people should live "in fidelity ¯ within the covenant of marriage between a man and ¯ a woman or in chasti,ty in singleness." ~ The proposed amerldment would insert an instruc~ tion in the church’s governing Book of Order that ¯ Presbyterian churches and clergy must not approve or ¯ invoke God’s blessing on any relationship but those. ¯ For some Presbyterians, that raised the specter of ¯ babies-denied baptism if born out of wedlock, or refusing marriage to couples who had lived together ~ for years. ¯ At press time, theproposed ban on same-sex unions was failing nationally, 39 to 67, according to an unofficial count on Presbyweb, one of several independent church groups posting running vote totals on ¯ the Interact. However, all sides expected the margin to tighten by the May 25 deadline. South Louisiana Presbyterians voted to reject Amendment O. The vote marked the first time that a majority of the leaders for the more than 13,000 ¯ Presbyterians in the southern part of Louisiana have granted a victory to Gay Presbyterians. It remained unclear, however, if the vote meant they approve of ¯ Gay marriage. Some commissioners of the Presbytery of South Louisiana, see Vote, p. 2 �¯ aregional grouping of 71 local Presbyterian ¯ 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants churches, said they were voting against a POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159, e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlink.net 832-1269 "¯ national proposal to ban same-sex unions *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine ¯ 610-5323 : PubLisher + Editor: Tom Neal *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial because it seemed incidentally to ban much ¯ 838-9792 ." *Play-Mor, 424 S. Memorial Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Kati~egory, Barry else, such as baptizing children of single 744-4280 ¯ ¯ mothers. 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Cindnnati 341-6866 ¯ withresistance on the part of the principal at *International Tours ¯ St Dunstan’s E iscopal, 5635 E 71st 492-7140 712-2750 ¯ Jenks High School. Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 582-3088 *St. Jerome’s Parish Church, 205 W. King 582-3018 *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th : Barker’s experience with his principal’s 747-0236 ¯¯ Soulforce-OK, Rt.4,#3534,Stigler74462 587-3248,452-2761 ¯ stalling might now seem funny. He was David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering 583-7171 *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder 582-8460 The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening ¯ *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 ¯ asked to give them more time, told that they 599-8070 *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 595-4105 ¯ had to talk with the school attorney who just 747-5466 ¯ Tulsa County Health Department, 4616E. 15 : happened not to be available, etc. but who Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only 585-1234 ¯¯ ¯ suddenly became much more accessible af*Living ArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, Gay Comm. Center 743-4297 ¯ ter Barker called local mainstream media: 584-3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd ¯ TUL-PAC, Positive Advocacy Coalition, POB2687,Tulsa 74101 ¯ 663 -5934 Apparently shortly after receiving calls from Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 ¯ T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform]Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 664-2951 ¯ : TV and Tulsa World reporters, inducting *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 838-7626 ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule ¯ Ch. 8’s Glenda Silvey, Barker was called Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo ¯ *Tulsa Community College Campuses 743 -4297 into the principal’s office where he received *The Pride Store ¯ 743-4297 *Tul sa Gay Commumty Center, 21 st & Memorial 747-5932 ", something that resembled an apology. Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 749-8833 ¯ 834-0617 ¯ Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown However, since receiving approval for the Richard’s Carpet Cleaning ¯ ¯ group, the GSA has continued to struggle to 834-7921, 748-0224 ¯ BARTLESVILLE Teri Schutt, Ellen & Co. 918-337-5353 ¯ receive equal access to school resources 260-7829 Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone Paul Tay, Car Salesman 481-0558 ¯ TAHLEQUAH ," which other groups take for granted. This *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 835-5563 ¯ 918-456-7900 : harassment ranges from the sudden enforceVenus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard Stonewall League, call for information: 743-1733 ¯ 918-456-7900 ¯ ment onrules about handing out flyers (rules Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church ¯ 665-2222 918-453-9360 that had never been enforced recently) to *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan ’ k Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 592-0767 - *Whittier News Stand, 1 N Lewis ¯ having their group announcements in the EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS school bulletin printed in miniscule type. www.gaytulsa.org website for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians 501-253-7734 Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 ¯ Despite the struggle, Jenks GSA had a Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities 501-253-7457 ¯ Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main successful first meeting with 40 people at501-253-6807 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 743-2363 501-253-5445 " tending, about 30 of whom were not Gay. ,M1 Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria ¯ And the success in Jenks appears to have 587-7314 ¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 501-253-9337 : MCC of the Living Spring 583 -7815 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 ¯ inspired the formation of groups at Tulsa 583 -9780 B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 501-253-5332 ¯¯ Rogers, Union High and in Broken Arrow. ¯ Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 585-1201 As Barker notes, if it can happen at Jenks, Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston " 501-624-6646 Positive Idea Marketing Plans ¯ then it can happen anywhere, and he stated *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI. & Florence 501-253-4074 587-1314 ¯ White Light, 1 Center St. ¯ in an e-mail to his allies, "the law, and God Church of the Restoration UU; 1314 N.Greenwood JOPLIN, MISSOURI 747-6300 " was on our side for this one, and we did it!. *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale ¯ 41%623-4696 Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U 134 ¯ .do not be discouraged, the world will *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 748-3888 iswhereyoucanffmdTl~N.NotallareGay.ownedba,,a~.~o.,.,IH~my"~’~ ~ ¯ change, even if it is one person at a timeF’ Council Oak Men’s Chorale 712-1511 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware ,.... �by Elizabeth Birch, executive director WASHINGTON (Feb.2 !) - As we begin a new political reality with Georg~W. Bush as our nation’s 43rd president and Republicans in charge of Congress and the White House for the first time in four decades, supporters of Gay equality have expressed apprehension about what this political moment portends for Gay issues. While the question remains largely unanswered, we can gain some comfort in noting that we are also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavior, whether by self-righteous radio hosts or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president. : ~ ¯ " ] President Bush has largely tried to ¯¯ sidestep Gay issues throughout his pub¯ lic career. When he has been pinned foit in noting we are down on issues, he mosdy tries to balance his positions by trying not to appear intolerant, yet not alienating his socially conservativebase. Hehas commendably stated he will not discriminate based on sexual orientation. However, his statements have consistently been tempered with implications that homosexuality is a private matter underscoring the inequity contrasted by heterosexuality being an obvious public matter. Despite his strategy of avoidance, President Bush has taken a few positions as governor and during, his campaign that are not Gay-supportave, most notably his support in the spring of 1999 for a law that would ban Gay people from adopting children. The public has come along way over the course of the last eight years toward support of Gay issues. When asked in 1992, by the Gallup organization whether Gays should have equal job opportunities, 71% Of those polled said "yes." By 1999, 83% said "yes." When asked by Gallup whether homosexuality should be an acceptable lifestyle, in 1992, 38% said"yes." By 1999, 52% had said"yes." In 1995, apoll conducted by Lake Snell Perry showed Independents, akey Bush constituency, when asked whether they thought Gay rights were equal rights or special rights, 41% said "equal." By 1998, that number jumped to 55%. This data underscores an increasingly supportive electorate that will provide a firm foundation on which we can build relationships with the new administration. The lessons we have learned since 1994 when Republicans took over the Senate and the House of Representatives, is that public opinion has provided us with vital leverage. Working with allies inside and outside of Congress we have been able to stop every anti-Gay legislative attack, and there were many, except one, the Defense of Marriage Act. During this period, the Employment Non Discrimination Act came within one of vote of passing the Senate and though it has yet to become law, the Hate Crimes Prevention Act passed the Senate by a wide margin and the House passed a non-binding resolution supporting the measure. Our progress does not rest with any one individtml, political party or component of government. It comes from making our case to the American people, who at the end of day, will be the final arbiters of judgment regarding our nation’s leaders. When the new President Bush nominated former Missouri Sen. John Ashcroft to be attorney general the conventional wisdom among most Gay advocates was that the President would have had a tough time picking someone anti-Gay. The fact that the attorney general can have a direct, dramatic impact on the lives of Gay people only exacerbated the apprehension surrounding the nomination. What transpired during the confirmation process was unexpected. Sen. Ashcroft felt the political need to state unequivocally under oath that he w ould not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, apositionhe never took (or had to take) until coming before the full body of public opinion represented by the entire Senate. Of course, we will judge him by his actions, not his words. After eight years of the Clinton Administration, our community, its orgamzations and leaders are looking at what lies ahead in this new, more ambiguous environment. Not all will come to the same conclusions and not all will be driven by the same priorities, but most are motivated by the goal of equality for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, and Transgendered Americans. At the Human Rights Campaign, we campaigned vigorously for A1 Gore for president. We thought he represented the best hope for our commum ty and would offer the best environment to move our issues forward. That did not come to pass. The campaign is over. It is time to govern. The new president has completed his transition from campaign to governing. So too does HRC move from campaigning to making sure the new administration governs fairly and inclusively. We will accomplish this by using political acumen, relationships with Congress, the moral imperative and the growing support of public opinion. The Washington, D.C. based Human Rights Campaign is the largest US civil rights organization focused On Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered issues. HRC engages in education and lobbying at the federal level. Call HRC-Tulsa at 582-4673. "... we can gain some com- that also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavlor, whether by Christian Grantham The first time I heard songs from the Marshal Mather’s LP by tapper Eminem was on MTV. The music didn’t seem all that different from everything else the network played, and I didn’t pay too much attention. It wasn’t undl the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) publicly critiqued the album and led protests at the MTV Music Awards against the artist that I gave it another listen. The questionable content that concerned GLAAD was lyrical prose depicting violence against Gays and women. The lyrics were a perfect vehicle for the organization to demonstrate how homophobia has permeated our culture. Like a predictable, virus, the controversy acted as a host and propdled the artist’s content into the spotlight whe4e art’ s success i s often measured. The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any provocative art. What’s great about the album is F,minem’s presentation: it’s angry, it’s raw and it’s real. It’s so real, in fact, that Eminem took criticism from Gay and Lesbian leaders and publications for somehow inspiring society’s homophobia. Supporters like Madonna, Stevie Wonder and Elton John came to his defense reminding us that blaming, the artist for society’s ills cuts both ways. Who knows how many unwanted pregnancies in the 80s Madonna is responsible for, right? It wasn’t until Elton John agreed to perform with the controversial tapper at the Grammy’s that the shit hit the "fans," so to speak. by self-rlghteous radio host,- or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president.. ¯." "... The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any provocative art. ~/hat’s great about the album is Emlnem’s presentation: it’s angry~ it’s raw and it’s real ..." Caught off guard, GLAAD quickly urged Elton John to live up to the standards for which he was presented GLAAD’ s Vito Russo Award the previous year for outstanding work with the Gay and Lesbian commumty. Activist Robin Tyler said in an open letter to Elton John that he was "spitting on the grave of Matthew Shepard." Gay.corn’s Michael Signorile wrote that it was "arrogant of Elton John to use his power in a way that undercuts an entire movement" unless he got a permission slip from the executive directors of the Gay and Lesbian movement. GLAAD’s Executive Director, Joan Gerry, implored Elton John to "not perform with Eminem at the Grammy Awards." Dr. Dre’s protOg6 learned from the best and rode it all the way to the bank. Gay and Lesbian attacks on tapper Eminem scapegoated the artist and a marginalized medium for society’s homophobia. The tactic was long popular with religious political extremists to blame Gays and Lesbians for everything from child molestation to broad declines of morality. Gay and Lesbian activists argued Eminem was scapegoating Gays and women inhis prose. Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! If anything, our movement s duet w~ Eminem exposes our own occasional reliance on questionable tactics. It also highlights what a willing dance parmer we make for people, such as Eminem, by rushing headlong ires giving them the attention they so desire. What’s worse m our apparent role as "art critic" is the pressure of political expectations placed on artists we ceremoniously award. Elton Johnis an entertainer who owes creative control to no one but himself. If he wishes to play the"Uncle Tom," as letters to the editor describe him, let’s pick up Elton’s depiction and talk about the Uncle Toms in our commtmi.ty. Or is this a sore spot for folks? If the duet is about homophobia in your face, let’s address what we’re doing about it and not "who should and shouldn’t artistically represent it and why." Elton John isn’t the only artist to experience this from our community. In a discussion I had on GayBC with Queer As Folk’s Executive Producer, Ron Cowen, he balked at activist demands that QAF’s story line represent diversity, as though it’s his job to be social engineer. If art reflects a less than politically correct reality, we all have short comings to address. Charles L. Mackay, LL.D, once wrote in Extraordinary Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds that people "think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly; and one by one." Our movement’s reaction to Eminem and Elton John show Gays and Lesbians aren’t immune to being apt hosts. Many of those who attack F.minem hide behind claims that his rap is not art and is a true confession. The last I recall we left deciding what is and isn’t art to Congressman Jesse Helms and NY Mayor Rudy Giuliani. Madness makes strange bedfellows of foes. I wonder what our friends must be thinking? Madonna, no stranger to the controversy herself, said in the L~A. Times that Eminem is simply’~reflecdng what s going onin society right now and That is what art ~s supposed to do." Stevie Wonder also pointed out that "art is a reflection of our society, and people don’t like to confront the realities in society." As long as Gay and Lesbian leaders dodge the"realitiesmsoc|ety ln favor of lynching homophobla smessenger, allwe refunding is an endless game of"whack the mole." I’d settle, however, for old fashion activism over playing art critic any day. In the least case, it would be great to get a heads up on when it will be Howard Stem, David Geffen or Ru Paul’s turn. William S. Burroughs, a founder of the Beat Generation, himself Gay and brought to court over the questionable content of his novels, once said "The next revolution will be iwgnOrin~ others out of existence." I have to wonder someumes if the free market of ideas ould l~ave left Eminem at the bottom had we not lifted it up as a pet example rather than focusing on society’s ills his art reflects. Enough about Eminem. Christian Grantham has a talk show on GayBC Radio Network. www.gaybc.com �School Board to Consider Advocate for Gay Kids MADISON, Wis. (AP) - Appointment of a full-time advocate for Gay.and Lesbian students is desperatdy needed in Madison to combat harassment, ignorance and indifference such students face, supporters of the proposal say. "The level of despair, the level of crisis, is often quite severe," said Michael Apple, an education professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madi- their sexual identity, becomes public. "These issues are not easy, especially when you have children," she said. The final full session of the conference ended with a ~lea by organizers for more energetic lobbying in state legislatures on behalf of stepfamilies. "State laws give almost no lega~ recogniuon to the residential stepparent,’.’ said Margorie Engel, president of the Stepfamily Association of America. "The legal system focuses too exclusively on bloodlines." Tolerance Curriculum Criticized in Santa Fe Find out for yourself how good the Lord iS! - Ps. 34:8 Come share goodness of the Lord with our community ~Sunday Morning 11:00 AM Children’s Worshi p During Service MCC United S°~o specific job description exists yet, but a prelimiRev. Cathy Elliott, Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood (918)838-1715 rncctulsa@aol,con nary proposal Calls for the advocate to work with district departments to make them more inclusive and SANTA FE (AP) - A minister and a parent say the help Gay and Lesbian students with their studies and tolerance curriculum approved by the Santa Fe school probiems. The position could be filled by the end of the board for middle and high school students needs to be redone.. The school board last week approved the year pending board approval. Dr. Paul Grossberg of University Health Services curriculum, which recognizes homophobia as s~xual said a presidential task force found about one of every violence. The Project Glyph Anti-Homophobia, Prejudice-Reduction Curriculum is optional for teachers to three youth suicides involv ,e~, teen-agers struggling with tt]eir sexual orientation. It is unconscionable for use, and parents will be notified before the lessons in usas acommtmity tobesllentaboutthislssue, hesmd. case they want to excuse their children. Michdle Parker, parent of an elementary school The Madison district has similar full-time teachers at Community of Hope that work with Southeast Asian, Hispanic and Americhild, said she stopped reading the curricuium after the can Indian students. Only eight other districts in the glossary, which includes definitions for transsexual, country are known to have full-time advocates for Gay transvestite and transgender. Bisexuality and homo2$4~ South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0~9~ T h e sexuality are listed as normal behavior - definitions the students, according to the n A Welcoming Congregation proposal has drawn several opposing letters to area . :urriculum attributes to the American Psychiatric ,A.~snewspapers. . ~ociation. Parker said the definition of homosexumxty ~ontradicts the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. "We believe it is not a normal state of being, she sa~ . Pa~ker saidhomosexuals should be treated with respect, but that the school district should throw out the, project and start over. NEW ORLEANS (AP) - Beyond the basic complexiThe Rev. Canon Dale Coleman of the Church of the Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am ties confronting most stepfamilies, those in the mil!Holy Faith Episcopal, who has two children in the tary and those headed by same-sex couples face addiWed. Bible Study, 7 pm; Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm t~ublic schools, also said the curriculum needs " .... revisi,n,g. tional daunting challenges, experts told a U.S. confersaid A "I wouldbeall for atolerance curnculum, he ¯ ence at the end of February. 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 Christian cannot support prejudice or violence against For military stepfamilies, temporary overseas dekids." However, he said Project Glyph takes "axi exployment of a spouse may leave a.stepparent alone treme position" in labeling as normal various kinds of with children who have yet to accept a new authority sexual lifestyles. Curriculum advocates say the lessons figure. Same-sex couples may have to cope withprejuare necessary because teen-agers are confronted with dices, and their children may struggle in explaiuing the derogatory slang about homosexuals and song lyrics family structure to others. The issues were raised at the about beating up homosexuals and that some students National Conference of Stepfamilies, a first-of-itsare ridiculed in school. Young Adult Support Group kind symposium bringing together experts from a The project was created by the Santa Fe Rape Crisis Outreach Program Thurs. Nights variety of fields to consider ways of improving support CentJer. Some.. ministers spoke,,out against the curricu-,, for stepfamilies. lum, feanng xt would promote ahomosexual agenda. Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Francesca Adler-Baeder, a parent education speBut the Santa Fe Ministerial Alliance said lastApril it Call for meeting times and place: cialist affiliated with Comell University, discuss.edher stood behind the tolerance-based project. The curricuwork with the U.S. Defense Department, trying to lum covers sexual orientation and gender identity; identify the problems posed by stepfamilies in the homophobia and how it affects everyone; and how to military. About 55% of all service members are marbe an ally to people of all orientations and help stop fled, and at least one-fifth of them are estimated to be " violence. I The four school board members at the meeting in stepfamilies, she said. ¯ Anne Bernstein, a family therapist and professor at ~ supported the curriculum. Supenntendent Vero_ni.’ca .C. the University of California-Berkeley, discussed the Garcia also spoke favorably of the program, calling ~ts distinctive challenges facing same-sex couplesincases ¯ subject a "human rights issue." Mayor Larry Delgado where one of them has custody of one °r m°re children has endorsed the program, too. at the time the adults become partners. "Even more 9413 E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 Project Glyph, part of the Santa-Fe Rape Crisis than other stepfnmilies, these fnmilies are at variance Center, first approached the board in Novemberi999 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-4AA-5934 with the models in our dominant culture," Bemstein with its effort to make Santa Fe safe and inclusive for Family Owned & Opbrated said. "These people can fed invisible or rejected as a all youth, especially Lesbian, Gay, bisexual and family." transgender children. She said members of such families may have diffiSome Santa Fe ministers then spoke out against the culty finding the right terms foreach other; a child curriculum, fearing it would promote the homosexual ,,n~,~ht fumble for a replywhen asked by a teach,e,r,~ lobby’s agenda. But the Santa Fe Ministerial ,Alliance ~-ho is this person who picks you up from school? Trinna L. ,W. Burrows, LSWs ACSW said in a letter last April iLstood behind the tolerance..Bemstein said most of the same=sex Couples she Child, Family, Individual & Couple Psychotherapy based project. The curriculum covers sexual orientaworks with are Lesbians, but she has detected particution and gender identity; homophobia and how it lar problems faced by some Gay men thrust.into affects everyone; and how to be an ally to people of all (918) 743-9559 stepfather roles. "For Gay men, being a parent is often orientations and help slop violence. not what one expected to include in one’s-life story, Project Glyph staff plan to make presentations to she said. "Being a stepparent is a very different 2121 South Columbia, Suite 420 students next week. The curriculum will be modified lifestyle." for middle school students. In a class of 30, on average, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114-3518 Bernstein said her home town of Berkeley, Califorthere are three to eight students who identify or might nia, is rdatively tolerant, but noted that some same-sex someday identify themselves as Lesbian, Gay or Bicouples with childrenin other areas fear stigmatization sexual, the curriculum states. - or possibly even losing custody of the children - if Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Gay+Military Stepfamilies " Face Challenges OUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT The Open Arms Project 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers �The Pride Store 21st Street & Memorial Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 743-GAYS (743-4297) 6-9 pm, Sunday - Friday 12-9 pm, Saturday, all sales benefit the Center TOM NEAL BUILDING & GARDEN DESIGN 583-1248 Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing Walk-in Clinics Tues. & Thurs., 5:8 pm at the Center, 1307 East 38th Daytime appointments available. Call for more information: 918-584-2325 American Red Cross Tulsa Area Chapter 10151 East Eleventh Tulsa 74128 Dannette McIntosh Diversity-Co-ordinator 838-1100 G American Red Cross OPENARMS OPEN MINDS OPEN I-tFAI~S Saint Aidan Saint Dunstan 4045 N. Cincinnati, 425-7882 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Saint John Trinity 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You School board member Donita Sena said she was alarmed after reading the results of the district’s recent Quality of Education Survey. Only 47% of Santa Fe high school students believed students at their schools were treated equally regardless of sexual orientation, while 71% of high school staff believed students were treated equally. "The kids are saying something obviously different," Sena said. "If this curriculum is going to help teachers, we need to do it." Scottsdale.Considers Partners Health Benefits Parker became angry with the victim for telling others about a sexual relationship the two had. After drinking beer and snorting a crushed tranquilizer, Parker allegedly starting hitting Warren with his fists and stomping on him with steel-toed boots. In his statement, Wilson told investigators he participated briefly in the beating for fear Parker’s rage would turn on him. The then-17-year-olds are also accused of taking Warren’s body to a rural road and driving over him four times with a Camaro in a failed effort to stage a hit-and-run. College Claims Adequate Response to Hate Crimes SCOTI’SDALE, Ariz. (AP) - The Scottsdale City Council is considering extending health care benefits to the domestic partners of city employees, including same-sex partners. The city’s proposed health care plan’was devised in part to bolster Scottsdale’s efforts in recruiting and retaining workers in a competitiv ejob market. The number of job applications for open positions is down, as is the overall quality of candidates, said Neal Shearer, the city’s human resources administrator. "We want to eliminate whatever barriers we can that impede our ability to attract and retain the talent we need to get the job done," Shearer said. City employees have also begun requesting the benefits, and officials hope to extend the policy to avoid any perception of discrimination, he said. Eligibility requirements still are being determined. Gay civil-rights activists see Scottsdale’s benefits proposal as part of a trend, said Steve Brandwein, a board member forthe Arizona Human Rights Fund, a Gay civil-rights advocacy group. "City councils and city human resources departments are learning just like corporations are that in order to remain competitive this is very sensible business," Brandwein said. In the state, Phoenix, Tempe, and Tucson also offer benefits to domestic partners. But an attorney with a history of challenging domestic partner policies nationally said the benefits would weaken morality. "One of the strongest reasons we oppose any attempts to broaden public support for alternative lifestyles such as the (domestic partner) ordinances or city actions do, is that they really do weaken the value of marriage," said Alan Sears, president and general counsel of the Alliance Defense Fund. LYNDON, Vt. (AP) - Lyndon State College officials have denied accusations that the college is ignoring hate crimes on campus. Officials responded to claims made last week by a sophomore student who said college administrators retaliated against him because of his Web site, http://lyndonsucks.homestead.com. The site by Jacob Fortes, of Lowell, Mass., who is not Gay,accuses officials of ignoring student concerns about hate crimes, and mentions alleged hate crimes that target Gays at LSC. College President Carol Moore said Fortes made "outrageous claims." "I think we’ve done a good job and have responded quickly to some of the concerns about the homosexual climate on campus." Moore said. "We feel we have enough data to show that we have tried to set up programs to protect our Gay and Lesbian students." Moore said the school has pursued every incident of harassment that has been reported. As well, the college has increased efforts to raise awareness on the campus about Gay and Lesbian concerns, she said, including holding open forums attended for students and faculty members. Of the nearly 1,100 full-time students at LSC, about 25 arein the Gay and Lesbian Alliance, though not all are Gay or Lesbian, she said. Moore confirmed reports that a Gay student left the campus last year because he was uncomfortable. "The student felt he was in jeopardy physically and we could not guarantee round-the-clock protection for him," she said. The situation reflects society and LSC ]s not umque in dealing with these issues, Moore said. "You can educate but sometimes it just doesn’t take," she said. Suspects in Gay’s Murder To Be Clinically Evaluated Ex-United Way Staffer Attacks BSA Funding FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) - The trials of two teenagers charged in the murder of a Gay Black man from Marion County could be delayed by requests for psychiatric reviews. Special Prosecutors Scott Smith of Wheeling and Stephen Keuney of Charleston have asked Circuit Judge David Janes to have both teenagers reviewed by a psychiatrist. David Allen Parker, 18, is tentatively set to stand ,trial in Beckley on March.26, while co-defendant Jared Matthew Wilson is scheduled to appear in a Wheeling courtroom on May 29. The teen-agers are charged with first-degree murder and could be sentenced to life in prison if convicted of beating 26-year-old Arthur "J.R." Warren to death in Grant Town in July. Their trials are expected to last about a week. The teens have been interviewed by a psychologist, but neither has been examined by a psychiatrist, the prosecutors said in a filing with the court. Forensic psychologist Dr. William Fremouw has found both defendants mentally competent to stand trial and criminally responsible at the time of their alleged attack on Warren, according to court documents. Still, Parker’s lawyers have indicated they may pursue a diminished capacity defense. The beating of Warren began early July 4 when NEPTUNE, N:J. (AP) - A former finance director for the United Way of Monmouth County has filed a complaint to try to stop the nonprofit from funding B oy Scout troops. Maureen Glover’s complaint with the state Division of Civil Rights charges that she was subject to a hostile work environment because the agency funded the Scouts. She worked for the charitable umbrella organization from last June until she resigned in January. Glover, 45, told the Asbury Park Press of Neptune that on her first day of work, she was happy to sign an ethics code that prohibited discrimination on the basis of race, creed, age, sex or sexual orientation. Days later, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the Boy Scouts ".of America could bar Gays from leadership positions m a case that originated in Monmouth County. Glover accused her employer of violating its own ethics code. She said it was particularly distressing to find herself as finance director writing checks to the same Boy Scout council that ejected James Dale as scouunaster after learning he was Gay, an action that led to the Supreme Court case. Jim Borque, executive director of the Monmouth County United Way, said he disagreed with Glover’s charges, but declined to elaborate, citing the pending litigation. �California Men’s Syphilis Rate Rising Agency to Offer Free AIDS Drugs ATLANTA (AP) - An outbreak of syphilis in Southern California last year has provided alarming new evidence that Gay and Bisexual me~ are lowering their guard against AIDS, the government said. More than half of the syphilis cases in a four-county area during the first half of 2000 were in men who reported having had at least one male sex partner- up from 26% a year earlier. Health officials said that the numbers are a signal that Gay and Bisexual men, encouraged by news of powerfully effective drug cocktails andlonger lifespans for AIDS patients, are wonying less about HIV. Both HIV and syphilis are sexually transmitted; condoms can protect against their spread. HIV "is no longer perceived to bethe threat that it once was," said Dr. Ronald Valdiserri, deputy director of the National Center for HIV, STD and TB Prevention, which is part of the Centers for .Disease Control and Prevention. ’q’hese are very serious findings." The Southern California cases and similar outbreaks in other major cities came after the national syphilis rate dropped in 1999 to its lowest level on record. Just 6,657 cases were reported in 1999, the last year for which national figures are available, or about one case per 40,000 people. Syphilis outbreaks inmajor cities"show that the disease can make a comeback," said Ken August, spokesman for ~ California D epartment of Health S ervices. ’tit’ s important for health-care providers to ask patients about their behavior and to deliver a strong prevention message." In four California counties - Los Angeles, San Diego, Orange and Riverside- 66 of 130 syphilis cases from January to July 2000 were in Gay or Bisexual men, compared with 26 of 100 cases in the same period in 1999. Of the 66 cases in 2000, 33 reported they had had anonymous sex, and 17 said they had met sex partners in bathhouses. Only onein fivereported using acondom during his most recent sexual encounter, and two in five reported using illegal drugs. ’¢rhese men were engaging m high-risk sexual behavior," Valdiserri said. "When we see reports of increasing risk behaviors, that’s when we take action. We don’t wait till we see the spike nationally" in HIV. Thirty-four of the 66 men reported they were HIV-positive, and nine said they did not know their HIV status. "You’ve got people who are doing well on the (HIV) drugs and believe then that they don’thave to worry about infection," said John Schtinlaoff, chief of public health operations for Los Angeles County. "Some people argue that there is burnout. They get weary of being protective." The CDC recommended a search for new, innovative ways to get the safe-sex message to Gay and Bisexual men in large cities. Syphilis infections in 1999 remained concentrated in the South, with roughly one case per 22,000 people. Three-quarters of syphilis victims nationwide were black. About 300 syphilis cases were reported in 2000 in California. BOMBAY, India (AP) - An international aid agency said Friday it will distribute an anti-AIDS drug purchsed from an h~dian company free of charge in 10 countries. Doctors Without Borders - or Medecins sans Frontieres - will buy the anti-AIDS cocktail from the Indian company Cipla Ltd. "In general, where the Cipla drug will be used, it will be supplied free of cost. Wherever it is purchased by governments, it would be sold at reduced prices," Daniel Berman of the agency’s Access to Essential Medicines campaign told The Associated Press. Berman said the agency will begin distributing the drugs "over the next couple of months." On Feb. 7, Cipla offered to sell a threedrug anti-retroviral cocktail to Doctors Without Borders t’or $350 per person, per year, if the aid agency agreed to distribute it for free and took care of the legalities of importing it. Cipla also offered to sell the triple-combination therapy drugs to governments for $600 per patient instead of the $10,000 to $15,000 charged in the United States and Europe. The Bombay-based company says it could manufacture the drugs cheaply becaus e production costs are low in India and it makes the raw materials. Berman along with Madrid-based pharmacist Carmen Perez met three top Cipla officials in Bombay and said the aid agency would integrate some of the Cipla drugs into antiretroviral pilot programs in-10 countries. "We will be using these drugs in these pilot programs." He declined to name the 10 countries, but said the program had already begun in Thailand and Cameroon. Berman said drug authorities from the United States, Australia, South Africa and Germany had visited the Cipla plant and certified standards. A joint statement by Doctors Without Bordersand Cipla said: "Governments of developing countries canimmediately take advantage of the offer... This offer is available without restrictions in time, geography or quantity." The Cipla offer raised concerns Lhat patent laws may be breached in some countries. In South Africa, 42 pharmaceutical comparfies have filed a lawsuit to prevent the government from distributing generic AIDS drugs becuase it ~nay violate World Trade Organization rules. Under the WTO rules, governments can issue compulsory licenses that allow genetic drugs to be manufactured if they declare a national health emergency. The AIDS cocktail on offer consists of two 40 milligram tablets of stavudine, two 150 milligram tablets of lamivudine and two 200 milligram tablets of nevirapine. : GlaxoSmithKline of Britain developed : lamivudine, also known as Heptovir, ~ihd : Boehringer Ingelheim of Germany holds ¯ the rights to nevirapine under the name ¯" Viramune. Bristol-Myers Squibb holds the ~ international patent on siavudine. The companies have been negotiating deals with individual governments to lower prices. Boehringer recently lowered prices by 80%. GlaxoSmithKline announced that ¯ it wouldlower prices by 90% for nonprofit Power Connect. Public Service Company of Oklahoma Customer_ Service Is Now Available 24 Hours .A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. Our Customer Service Center operates 24/7 - offering around-the-clock answers to your questions - and better access to service. 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(2) If your congregation is fully welcoming, but your denomination is not, withhold the percentage (10% to 15%) that goes to your denomination. (3) If you have left a church that is not fully welcoming, consider a one-time return visit to drop a card in the offering plate with a note explaining why. Write a note on the back or add a letter to explain your actions-lovingly. Do lustice. See your spirit renewed and your church transformed. Let us include you on our Honor Roll of Faithful Dissenters. , Send your name or initials with a brief account to: HonorRoll@sou]force.org For centuries, anti-homosexual religious teachings have led to suicide, wasted lives,-discrimination and violence. I am withholding my gifts until God’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender children are fully welcomed by this church and/or denomination. Today, I am withholding my tithe/offering/special gift (or portion thereof) from to and contributing it because it welcomes and provides serAces to ~ God’s chiMren equally.-~-~--~~ as much my moral obligation not to cooperate with evil as it is to cooperate with good."- Ga~9m This bulletin insert is provided by Soulforce as part of its "Stop Spiritual Violence" campaign. agencies - effectively matching the Cipla offer. Cipla Chairman Yusuf Hamied said he welcomed moves by multinational companies to slash prices. "Since our initial outburst, things are moving in a positive direction. That is very satisfying,"Hamied said in an interview over the phone. Merck Begins Vaccine Trials NEW YORK (AP) - Pharmaceutical manufacturer Merck & Co. has begun a small-scale human trial of a new experimental HIV vaccine, The Wall Street Journal reported at the end of February. The new vaccine has been able to prevent laboratory monkeys exposed to an extremely vindent strain of the disease from contracting it, sources close to the trials told the Journal. This has AIDS scientists watching the results of the trials very dosdy. The company would not discuss the details of the laboratory trials, but did say it began testing the vaccine in healthy, uninfected volunteers last week. The drug is not the first possible vaccine to go into human trials. At least a d~iten .other companies are currently experimenting with a possible vaccine, but scientists familiar with the Merck trials say that their drug is among the most promismg. Merck official said they were reluctant to release any details regarding the trials before making a.formal presentation at a scientific forum in April, lest publicity raise false hopes. Priest Challenges Drug Companies doesn’t expect the government to stop D’Agostino. Also, Ongeri noted, the government is expected to pass a bill in parliament next month that would allow aid agencies to legally import generic drugs. The obstacle, Ongeri said, will likely be the drug companies. "The pharmaceutical industry should rise to the occasion and drop their prices in good time before we getto a level of (political) crisis," he said. One in eight Kenyans between the ages of 15and 49 are HIV positive, Ongeri said. Providing them with the patented drugs would cost between $141 million and $167 million - more than the country’s entire annual health budget of $115 million. Cipla offered to sdl Doctors Without Borders the anti-AIDS cocktailif the group agreed to distribute it for free and took care of the legalities of importing it. The group has agreed to help D’Agostino obtain the drugs. GlaxoSmithYdine declined to comment on D’Agostino’s plan. However, in announcing the company’s earnings, GlaxoSmithKline chief executive JeanPierre Gamier said patents are not the obstacle to supplying developing countries with medicines - poverty and weak health care systems are. Requests for comment from Boehringer and Bristol-Myers Squibb were not answered. However, a Boehringer spokesman asked about Cipla earlier this month said "intellectual property rights should be protected." GlaxoSmithKline Has 13% Profit Rise LONDON (AP) - Strong sales for its respiratory, antiviral and central-nervous-system drugs helped boost GlaxoSmithKline PLC profits by 13 % last year, the company announced recently. Pretax profit for the year ending Dec. 31 was 5.33 billion pounds ($7.73 billion). The results "demonstrate that in the new company, we have underlying strength which wasn’t slowed by the long preg~ nancy pause of the merger," said CEO Jean-Pierre Gamier. Antivirals - including the company’s HIV treatments - rose 15%. Sales of the firm’s HIV drugs grew 14%. NAIROBI, Kenya (AP) - Expanding an international campaign to make AIDS drugs affordable in the poorest nations, an American priest who works with HIVpositive orphans in Kenya said he planned to import cheap, generic medicines from India, Importing the drugs, which are the equivalents of patented medicines, is_illegal in Kenya. However, the bigger fight for the Rev. Angelo D’Agostino could come from pharmaceutical companies who own patents on the drugs. What D’Agostino fears is a lawsuit in Kenya like the one 42 pharmaceutical companies filed in South Africa to prevent that government from distributing generic AIDS drugs. "I am sick and tired of doing JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) The U.S. pharmaceutical giant Pfizer Corp. funerals," said D’Agostino, who rims-the said Wednesday it will soon begin distribNyumbani Orphanage, home to 70 HIVuting the drug Diflucan free to HIV and positive orphans. He also treats 150 to 200 AIDS patients at government hospitals children living nearby. and clinics. Distribution of the drug will The orphanage recently received pribegin "within the next few weeks," a joint vate donations to buy drugs, but brandstatement from the health department and name medications cost $500 a month per Pfizer said. child, D’Agostino said. A generic equivaThe departr~ent removed a roadblock to lent offered by the Bombay, India-based the distribution by approving Diflucan for Cipla Ltd. would cost the orphanage $20 a the treatment of esophageal candidiasis, a month per child. fungal infection of the throat that occurs in There are legal loopholes D’Agostino could use to bring the drugs into Kenya, ¯ up_to~4-0% of AIDS patients. The drug, genetically known as Fluconazole, is albut they only provide for a small amount. ready used in South Africa as treatment for And besides, his plan to go to India, buy cryptococcal meningitis, an infection of the drugs and bring them back for his the brain that occurs in 10% of AIDS orphans seems feasible. Kenya’s minister patients. for public health, Dr. Sam Ongeri, said he Pfizer Distributing Free AIDS Drug your speci~needs! 800-559-1558 ~n~-~.NewNest.com �by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor ¯ never look at aplastic bag again as merely Happy Spring Equinox! -Also known as ¯ abag. The cast was amazingly diverse, and Easter, takenfrom the name of a Phoenician ¯ immensely handsome andbeautiful in their goddess of fertility,Oestre or Ostara, from ¯¯ ownways. Infact, itwas ashow where one would expect a bunch of athletic dancers, whence we get the imagery of bunnies and ¯ and the people in the cast were refresheggs. The hare was an animal sacred to many goddesses, and the egg was sym- - ingly real - and hll the more beautiful for bolic of the cycles of life, ~e cosmos, as ¯ it. And it was a rousing evening, marred only by the occurrence wellas eternity. Inmany "...Well, Tannhauser was several times of prechristian cultures, people’s cell phones this was also the time certainly an event not to be not part of the act - and for the rebirth of the so- missed. Lovely voices, deeply some who amazingly, lar god, of which the symbolle sta~in~ and sets, held conversations latest was Jesus. This is while the show was gothe time many scholars and some laughable and ing on. Lovely invensay he was" actually tion, the cell phone. Alborn. So there’ s the little fabulous costumes. And that lows for intrusive rudebit of learning channel was just the audlenee! ness at an unprecinfo for the month - let Actually, Wagner’s 3+ hour edented level on a masit never be said that this sive scale. The invenlon~ ~nashln~ of teeth and column is not educator, as well as the users, tional. Christian guiltfest was should all be burnt at Well, Tannhauser a~onlzln~ in terms of plot, the stake. But that’s just was certainly an event my opinion. Apparently not to be missed. Lovely but beautiful in terms these people have not voices, deeply symbolic of the eallber of the intelligence to figstaging and sets, and ure out what the OFF talent and volee .... " some laughable and button is for; or don’t fabulous costumes. And that was just the audience! Actually, ¯ have the basic intelligence to leave the Wagner’s 3+ hour long gnashing of teeth ~ danm thing in the car, if you can’t figure and clLristian guilffest was agonizing in ¯¯ out how to work it. Cirque De Soleil (CDC), the utterly terms of plot, but beautiful in terfns of the ¯ amazing acrobatic troupe, has put some of caliber of talent and voice. its acts together with a story, and created Oh, and pity the fella that dates someone who wants to major in costume design, all ¯" "Journey Of Man," an IMAX 3D film opening in Tulsa March 9. The film folyou’ll hear about is how people look, what ¯ lows the stages of human development they wore, and why they shouldn’t wear it. It was a toss up between who was more ¯¯ from birth to maturity celebrating the husuperficial - the characters onstage or the ¯ man spirit. The film was recently honored by the Giant Screen Theatre Association one critiquing everyone else’s superfici¯ as the Best Film of 200; and if you’ve alities. I mean, who the hell cares whether a patron wore a dres s that was too big in the ¯ never.seen Cirque De Soleil, I can’t urge bosom for the equipment she had to put in ; you enough to take in this flick. You will - it? It may be it’s a dress a friend loanedher ¯ be amazed at what some of the folks can do. I look forward to seeing this film, as it since she couldn’t afford a dress of her own and she had to make do! Certainly not ¯ promises to be the next best thing to actually being at a CDC performance. worth a 30 minute diatribe on the evils of If you love tap dance and beautiful men, wearing a dress too big for your bust. Oh, and I love attending cultural events ¯ then Tap Dogs is well worth the price of in Tulsa - where the woman next to me :¯ the DVD or Video. About the same vintage as Stomp,it is a festival of percussion kept sniffing- wetly andnoisily- through¯ and music featuring tap dance, and would out the show. I cut slack for that- and her hOrrifically noisy nose-blowing-because ¯¯ be well worth seeing just to marvel and if you’re sick, you’re sick. BUT STAY ¯ what these dancers can do. And in the latest on the wonderful world HOME! However, when she started chew¯ of Nicksiana,. Stevie’s album has been ing gum with her mouth open and smackpushed back to early May alas. "Singles ing like a cannon, I’d had enough. They should start appearing on radio in April, left after the second act, I don’t know why. though, and the new album is generating .. And then there was the3 year oldbehind rave reviews. Lending voices to the album ~ us - who was incessantly noisy and irkare Sarah McLachlan, Macy Gray (that stme, simply because she could be. The should be interesting), one of the Dixie child was driving both I and my companChicks, and Sheryl Crow. I still think she ion to distraction Finally, she started smackand Melissa Etheridge should do a duet; I ing On candy - loudly, noisily, and obnoxwould be incredibly powerful. Oh well, iously. I spoke to the parents, who then had next album... a heated exchange in a foreign language. The final concert of the 2000-2001 Tulsa They too left after the second act. It is very Philharmonic Lollipops S cries will be preinteresting that an event can be so easily sented Sunday, March 18, 2001, at 2pro in eclipsed by the actions of inconsiderate the Walter Arts Center at The Holland Hall audience members. School. Maestro Edwin Outwater has Stomp, on the other hand, was a wonplanned a concert entitled "Music on the derfully engaging and humorously magi.’Move," with music depicting all forms of cal romp wherein the cast created.musac movement see Amuse, p. 9 from the most unlikely of objects. I will Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. �Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC .Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether ,single or as couples. Electronic filing is available for faster refunds. 747 - 5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 The University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/ Gay/Transgendered Alliance presents their Annual Film Festival Evenings on April 6 & 7 Sunday afternoon, April 8 TU Campus, 6th& Delaware Selected titles: Westler, Summer in-My Veins, High Art and more. Exact times and auditoriums to be announced in next issueand will be available at the Community Center. "Plastic Jesus" by Poppy Z. Brite reviewed by Barry Hensley What would happen if a cutting edge author wrote a fictional account of the loving, sexual relationship between Elvis and Colonel Tom Parker? I’ll bet there the record charts and the covers of : " ¯ " " teenybopper magazines as the rock group The Kydds. WhenHaroldismurderedbyroughtrade, Seth and Peyton begin their inevitable, loving, sexual relationship. A couple of years later, in 1969, would be charges of the Stonewall riots in blasphemy, calls for "...What would-happen if a New York City inboycotts against the euttlng edge author wrote a publisher and death spire S eth and Pe.yton threats to the author. fietlonal aee0unt of the loving, to wander rnto Greenwich Village, Fortunately, author sexual relationship between giving interviews rePoppy Z. Brite has vealing their relationchosen, not Elvis, but Elvis and_Colonel Tom ship. A Newsweek the Beatles to take Parker? . . . Fortunately, cover, chronicling down the lavender their love for each road, and their fans author...Brlte has chosen, other, soon follows, seem to be much not Elvis, but the Beatles..." as does a marriage more understanding, ceremony in Holsince not a peep of land. The boys have conveniently forgotprotest has been heard about this fanciful ten to tell their bandmates about all of this romance between the icons we know as and The Kydds are soon history. Fame Paul and John. proves exhausting, and Seth and Peyton Our story starts, surprise(!), with a shootsoon slip into semi,retirement until Seth’s ing on acold New York night. Seth Grealy, untimely murder. fading rock star, hits the sidewalk in a HOW different things might have been if spreading pool of blood. A woman in the Paul and John had really followed this horrified crowd recognizes him and takes path! In the author’s afterword, Brite comthe opportunity to scoop up ablood soaked ments, "I have always believed the world piece of paper, quickly running away with would be a better place today if John and the priceless souvenir. The murderer turns Paul had been lovers. Yes, I know they out to be a Christian Fundamentalist who weren’t Gay. That has nothing to do with assumed Seth was spreading AIDS. it. This is fantasy." But what an intriguing Looking back on Seth’s early years in fantasy it is t ffyou enjoy wishful thinking, rural England, we discover him jamming check out Plastic Jesus and find out what at a local club with friends, particularly might have been. guitarist Peyton Masters. They are being Check for Plastic Jesus at your local closely observed by Gay record manager library, or call 596-7966 to get a copy. Harold Loomis. Well, you guessed it! Barry Hensley is a librarian with Tulsa Under Harold’s careful guidance, the boys, City-County Library System. plus two friends, quickly rise to the top of and transportation. The concert begins at 2pm with pre-performance activities, Including a musical petting zoo and other special surprises, beginning at 1:15pro. In this gravity-defying concert, Maestro Outwater and the Tulsa Philharmonic will present music that’ s really "going places," including Leroy Anderson’s Horse and Buggy, Johann Strauss, Pleasure Train Polka, Eduard Strauss, Skater’s Waltz, and Nicolai Rimsky-Korsakov,s Flight of the Bumblebee. With the help of a special conductor’s assistant giving introductions to each of the orchestra’s instrument families, this concert combines the best of entertainment and education. With combined sales approaching the 300,000 mark, Robin Spielberg is one of today’s most popular and prolific contemporary pianist/composers. On March 25, 2001, she will perform what promises to be a most memorable evening Of her spellbinding compositions on the Steinway piano at The Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The evening will include Ms. Spielberg’s compelling and often humorous story-telling and feature new works from her latest CD, Dreaming of Summer. The concert will begin at 3pro Ms. Spielberg will autograph CDs and sheet music following the performance. The concert is made possible in part by a grant from the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust Ms. Spielberg has recorded nine CDs, performed two sold-out concerts at Weill Hall at Carnegie Hall, toured the country an concert and has made numerous television appearances, including features/interviews and performances on "CBS-This Morning" and "LifeTime Live," and "ABC News." Spielberg’s music has also been featured on scores of radio programs, and her work in music & healing has received attention in Parenting magazine, The New York Times, and The Washington Post. Robin Spielberg-will perform at Tulsa Performing Arts Center on March 25,2001 at 3pro. Tickets can be purchased by calling 918/596-7111. Tickets are $12, and $10 for seniors & students. More information on Robin Spielberg and her recordings, can be found on the world wide web at www.robinspielberg.com The 2000-2001 Tulsa Philharmonic Pops Series-continues with guest star Roger Williams on Friday, March 9, 2001, and Saturday, M~ch 10, 2001. This consummate entertainer conducts and performs on this memorable program. Performances will be presented at 8pm in the Chapman Music Hall of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Playing the music that has served as the soundtrack of three generations, Williams will tickle the ivories with such favorites as Autumn Leaves, Talk to the Animals, From a Distance, and a medley including Feelings and Chariots of Fire. �¯ studied- still demand that devotees make Gay Studies: Pilgrimage : weekly pilgrimages down to the coastal by Lament Lindstrom "Nasir," I once asked my Gay Malaysian ¯ village where the Movement is headquar¯ tered. There, these pilgrims worship at the friend, "are you ever going on the hadj?" This is the fifth pillar of Islam - the duty of ¯¯ Movement’s spiritual center, their physical presence a marker of all good Muslims to wortheir fidelity. ship in Mecca at least once " ’Naslr,’ The pilgrimage - sacred in life. "Maybe," he said, I once asked . . . ’are traveling - knots together "when I’m older. But noW" identity and place. Sacred I’m having too much fun as you ever going travd reminds us of who, a Gay pilgrim in America." on the bade’. ,. what, and why we are. Gay pilgrims came to Today’s nation-states, mind last month when I - the duty of all good which in part modeled walked down Ocean Drive Muslims to themselves on medieval in South Beach. There, up religious institutions, borahead, shining brightly in worship in Mecca at rowed rituals of pilgrimthe Miami sunshine was least once in life. age. Gianni Versace’s weddingThe U.S., for example, cake mansion sporting a ’Maybes’ he said, ’when is splattered with large modestly phallic observatory dome. And there, at the I’m older. But now I’m numbers of National Monuments and National foot of those famously once having too much fun Historic Sites that we bloodstained steps, were the as a Gay pilgrim should visit in order to Gay pilgrims fervently learn about ourselves. The snapping pictures. Some of in Amerlea.’ " Alamo, Mount Vernon, these, no doubt, were fashGettysburg, the Arizona Memorial, and ion pilgrims. But others, like me, were many more. These places are all much like there in reverence of the lingering specchurch. Any rude chatter, hoofing, or tacle of Versace’s and Cunanan’s deadly hollering will quickly attract shushing homosexual encounter. guardians, of these politically sacred pilPilgrims. The word derives from old grimage sites. Latin roots meaning "across the field" Most of these places, of course, comwhich came to refer to traveling in fol:,eigu memorate mainstream, white-bread parts. Organized religions have profited America. Still, multicultural politics have by regularizing the pilgrimage. Besides boosted the visibility, nowadays, of mithe Islamic ’hadj,’- Roman Catholic Popes nority histories. African-Americans tour beginning in 1300 have declared Jubilee the birthplace of George Washington years, inostly recently Armo Santo 2000, Carver in Diamond, Missouri. Japaneseduring which visitors to Rome may rack Americans pilgrims drive out to Tule Lake up spintual blessing points: in Modoc County, California, site of a In pre-industrial and pre-literate social WW2 internment camp. Jewish-Ameriorders, communication between religious cans visit the monument to Revolutionary leaders and followers demanded physical War financier Haym Solomon in Queens, mobility. There was no TV, no radio, no New York. Feminists pay homage at the newspapers. Instead, one had to travel to Suffragette Memorial inWashington, DC. the source to hear and see in person. LeadBut what of Gay and Lesbian pilgrims? ers of the John Frum Movement- a homeWhere might we go? grown South Pacific religion that I once the Tulsa chapter has identified a number of areas in which to improve. These range from adding more Spanish speaking staff or volunteers to help in disaster relief to a new program in development to create a diversity curriculum in area high schools to address the challenges Lesbian~and Gay young people face. The group has offered a tolerance curriculum for some time but this new program which is being developed with a local Unitarian church, and With input from Youth Services of Tulsa and PFLAG, is explicit in addressing antiGay attitudes, noted Bowen. Dahl added that the new program specifically has board support. Dahl and his colleagues expressed frustration at the negative reputation which their part of the Red Cros s has for anti-Gay bias based on the ban on blood donations by any man who has had sex with another man since 1980. Many are not awar9 that the American Red Cross Blood Services have a separate director and board even though they share their name and building. The policy is not set by the Red Cross but by the Federal Drug Admini stration (FDA) which recently reviewed the ban and reendorsed it. Gay civil rights activists have argued that a ban based on group status rather than on risk factors is biased and while might have beenappropriate in the earliest years of the HIV/AIDS pandemic, is no longer good science. However, Dahl acknowledged that the Red Cross might be more active in challenging the policy, and noted that individual chapters may sponsor resolutions at their national meetings. The Tulsa chapter has a resolution addressing bias against the Jewish equivalent of the Red Cross which has yet to be accorded equal status as Muslim and other groups. Dalai indicated that the Tulsa chapter might address the blood donation restrictions issue in a similar fashion. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory Super Bowl Sunday is way behind us, but my heart feels like the football: kicked, stomped, beaten, thrown, punted. Oh, and abandoned. We must never forget abandoned. So abandoned that I spent Valentine’ s Day with my roommate’ s dog. And I thought the Irish had luck! Oh, right - I confused that with my father telling me that everything a Gregory touches turns to. .. to.., well, it certainly ain’t gold. After 44 years of running from love in all shapes and forms, I smacked dead into it with the arrival of a woman who, apparently, thought I was just a novelty. OK, you’re saying, "But what did the raging Lesbian expect?" With all my Gay male friends falling in and out of love as quickly as they change their clothes, you’d think I’d have learned, at least by proxy. But nooooo - I believed that women were different from men. So I plunged in with eyes wide shut, listening to a voice from God telling me things no MAN had ever said. Or maybe I just wasn’t interested enough to listen until now. She said she was a very physical person, and the woman involved with her had to love sexas much as she. Saying a silent, "Thank you, God!", I watched her beautiful eyes look back at me and all I could do (since by now my blood had rushed DOWN from my head) was to wonder, "What does she see in me?" Maybe because I’m a newbie, or maybe because I’ve been around the Gay community for so long, I have no problem showing affection. Holding hands in the open, arms around each other, kissing on a public residential street in Dallas felt, for the first time in my life, natural. When she told me she wanted me to spend a weekend with her after we’d just met a few hours before, did I balk? Hell, no! And that IS a first for me! I know it was hormonal in the beginning. When I tried to be straight for so many years, I found kissing a man to be extremely strange. At first teeth upon teeth, inadequacy on my part, as well as detachment, until it degenerated into making my grocery list in my head while his tongue was in my throat. Blech! But this! I just assumed I never got it- the fireworks, etc. That first night on the street with her, I felt the full light show, complete with thunder and earth-shattering enlightenment I should have felt about 20 years ago. I must confess that kiss was so powerful that I gave $5 to a panhandler on my way home. He probably sits at that exact corner every night waiting to catch happy Lesbians on their way home. Although I knew it was Lesbian lust, I trudged blindly ahead, not knowing or caring what the future held, but damned determined to enjoy every minute of it. And enjgy I did in October with this same woman in South Texas who spoke to me romantically. I left with a VERY healthy ego, and got a hint of what it must be like to be a straight man. I also left with the promise of another weekend the next month, this time at my place. She kept up this farce, even singing to me on my birthday. Then the phone calls stopped, emails became fewer and fewer, you know the drill. At last came the inevitable -the "Dear Jane" letter. You know that one the one that says she hopes wE’ll be friends for a long time to come. Theone that’s the very LAST message she sends. I’m sure you’ ve seen wildlife show s with the charg ing rhino who suddenly forgets the target he’s charging. Well, consider this woman a charging rhino. Or maybe I’m that forgettable. Or maybe she’s just a bitch. My astute friend Jim tells me, after I’ve called, written, and emailed to no avail, that silence is my .answer. I like that - as applied to ANYONE else but me! My Gay male roommate says, "She just wanted to get you into bed." Men - you can’t live with ’em... pass the beer nuts! Now I understand my friends who just can’t seem to get over that relationship that everyone around them knew was doomed frbm the beginning. All my "forget about him/hers" sound even emptier than they must have to my friends. You know, it hurts to remember; but it hurts more to forget. Have there been others since my experience? There’ s the older woman who bought my dining room table and chairs. She got into some financial trouble shortly afterward and I "loaned" her the same amount. She got more than that, too, one night shortly afterward. Have I heard from her since? Oh, why don’t you decide? Doesit seem that I have a sign across my forehead saying,"Horny Lesbian- Will Apparendy Do Anything For Sex. PLEASE Fold, Spindle, And Mutilate When Finished"? But even after spending my twentysixth Valentine’s Day in arow listening to Janis Ian’s "At Seventeen", I still believe in the romantic future. And in the luck of the Irish. And that there really IS a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Maybe this Gregory will be lucky enough, come St. Paddy’s Day, to believe that what she touches can turn to gold. or at least believe in love again. THAT would be lucky. Karin Gregory is a Fort Worth-based writer. organizers note that the $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast but that some financial assistance is available for those for whom the fee is too much. However, they do emphasize that the deadline is March 1 lth. For more information, contact College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, or call 592-5800. Men’s Group. This program is d~signed to assist men to learn ~t~m safe sex practices, relationships, ~dotl~erissues. Meetings will take place_~..~a~ Thursday night at 7pm. :. _ . Fri- �More Lig ht PR S B YT E R IAN S RE:CONNECTING BODY + SPIRIT March 16-18 at the historic and. beautifully wooded Dwight Mission. A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime... This LGBT specific event seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The event seeks to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Friday evening will be a get acquainted time. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday morning worship follows breakfast. The $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast. Financial assistance is available. The deadline is March 11th. College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, 592-5800 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Tulsa .Red Cross Pledges to Diversity TULSA (TFN)- In a recent interview with chief executive officer Roger Dahl, Polly Bowen, chief administrati,~ e officer, Melissa Ramirez, public relations officer, and new diversity co-ordinator Dannette McIntosh, the Tulsa Chapter of the American Red Cross (non-blood services) discussed their new "diversity" policy. The policy, which applies to paid staff and volunteers, recognizes explicitly "sexual orientation" as well as statuses which traditionally have legal recognition. The written policy states the intent for the "American Red Cross to be an inclusive community, free from discrimination and prejudice." The statement includes a signature line which volunteers or staff must sign. According to Dahl and McIntosh, the change is in keeping with traditional Red Cross goals~vhich strove to provide services to all based only on need. But in a recent organizational review, see Cross, p. 10 Transgendered Cop to Speak at TOHR Meeting TULSA (TFN) - On March 13, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) will its monthly membership meeting. In addition tO a social period beginning at 6:30 with soft drinks, and organizational business at 7:30, the meeting will feature a speaker whois opeul.y transgendered and who is an Oklahoma City police officer. The speaker is knowledgable in self-defense techniques. Other business will include budget and other announcements about this summer’s Diversity Fest and Parade. Later in the month,TOHR will host the second of the Gill Foundation fundraising seminars. Some 21 groups have joined TOHR in this training, most of whom are not Lesbian or Gay groups. They include Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Philharmonic, NARAL, the Tulsa Boys Home, Neighbors on the Line, the League ofWomenVoters, as well as Council Oak Men’s Chorale, HOPE, Tulsa CARES, and PFLAG. On March 24, at 7pro, TOHR wil! host a pot-luck dinner at the Center. Also, TOHR and Red Rock Behavioral Health Services are implementing two new programs. The first is a Coming Out group. This program is designed to assist persons who are in the initial stages of dealing with their sexuality. The program is open to women and men. Meetings will take place at the Community Center each Tuesday night at 7pm. see TOHR, p. 11 MJ DIRECTORY P. 2 ~ EDITORIAL P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 ~ HEALTH NEWS P. 6 Z ENTERTAINMENT + MORE P. 8 GAY STUDIES/RAGING LESBIAN P. 10/11 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Jenks Senior S.tarts Gay/Straight Alliance JENKS, AMERICA (TFN) - When right wing Utah US Senator Orrin Hatch created an equal access bill to allow student religious groups to use public school facilities, he probably never dreamed he was also making it possible for Gay and Gay-friendly high school students to start Gay/Straight Alliances - even in conservative Oklahoma. But in Jenks, one ofTulsa’ s suburbs (which like Broken Arrow grew from a small farm town in the 60’s and 70’ s as Tulsa whites fled integration in Tulsa Public Schools), an 18 year old senior did his homework, knew the law, bucked the system, got some help and got a Gay/Straight Alliance (GSA) started. Kevin Barker said he once didn’t think he’d be the one to start a GSA. He is friends with Will Allen and Kent Doss, other young Gay activists and knew Allen had helped start a GSA at Tulsa’s Washington High. Doss encouraged Barker to take the initiative but Barker characterized himself as one who once considered the DC based Human Rights Campaign as "too radical." But as he went through his "coming out" process, opening up to his friends and school community - and generally being accepted, he reconsidered. And that’s when he started researching equal access laws, and looking at other resources. By the middle of last fall, he was ready and went to Jenks High School administrators and, not surprisingly, started to get therunaround. Perhaps school officials thought they could stall or bluff him enough that he’d give up. But Barker called for help and contacted the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network’s newest chapter in Oklahoma City. OKC GLSEN co-chair Rhouda Rudd received an e-mail from Barker and forwarded his letter to other members of the chapter. Chapter members Rob Abiera and Joe Quigley suggested that Barker contact Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). Qnigley, oneofthefoundingmembers ofOklahomaCityGLSEN and a teacher of several years’ experience, also sent a list of contacts, see Jenks, p. 2 In Or Out: Effects of the Closet TULSA ~TFN) - What are the psychological effects of being in or out of the closet for GLBT’s will be the subject of the next Sou!force In Oklahoma at a Tulsa meeting on Monday, March 19th. Dr. Shirley Hunter, fromOklahoma City, who is a Licensed Professional Coun.selor and a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, will be the guest speaker. According to Soulforce In Oklahoma, religious groups often covertly or overtly encourage Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/Transgender persons to remain silent within churches about their sexuality or risk the possibility of rejection. Many faith groups advocate a "don’t ask -.don~t tell" policy for their congregants and ministers. As a consequence, GLBT folks struggle with the decision whether or not to come out. Dr. Hunter will speak on the subject of coming out and lead a discussion for audience participation. The meeting will be from 6-8pm at the Tulsa Gay/Lesbian/ Bisexual/Transgender Services Center. The center is located at 2114 S. Memorial, Tulsa. (918-743-4297). Shirley Hunter started her private practice in psychotherapy in Oklahoma,City in 1978. The focus of her practice has been for Gays, Lesbians and their families. Dr. Hunter was instrumental in establishing the first Gay help line in Oklahoma City in the early 80’s. She was also a participant in the first homosexual hearings of the United Methodist Church, and served on the task force for homosexuality at Church of the Servant, one of the state’s largest Methodist churches. Dr. Hunter has spoken to groups throughout the stateinduding university groups, community groups, and professional groups concerning Gay, Lesbian andHIVissues. Dr. Hunter and herpartner, Jan Tipton, have been together for almost 23 years, and they reside in OKC. In Tulsa, the group meets on the 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month and is a grassroots movement ofGLBT and allied people, from diverse rdigious traditions who are dedicated to bringing about justice for the GLBT community. For more information visit the Soulforce National website at "www.soulforce.org" or contact local members: Karen at "karen@cwis.net", 918-452- 2761, Sue at "knalig@worldnet.att.net", 587-3248, or Femando at "Pandafe477@cs.com", 295-0030. Our Families + Friends Presbyterians Hold Gay Spirituality Event TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa’s College Hill Presbyterian Church, 10ng knownas theprogressive church among local congregations is sponsoring a weekend retreat for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender persons. The event called, "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" will be on March 16-18 at the historic Presbyterian camp Dwight Mission near Muskogee. It’s billed as "A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime..." and features as facilitator, the Reverend Laurene M. Lafontaine. Lafontaine is an out Lesbian and an alumnae of Princeton Theological Seminary, and serves as "pulpit supply" (floating minister) for Denver area churches. Lafontaine also teaches and coaches at Saint Mary’s Academy in Englewood, Colorado. "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The retreat hopes to help individuals to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Organizers say that the retreat’will offer opportunities for worship, discussion, recreation, bonding, and alliance building. The goal is to build a church for everyone. The event will start after 6pm on Friday evening as participants arrive. That evening will be a get acquainted time with no formal programs except for a Vespers service at 10pm. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday momingworship follows breakfast, see Retreat, p. 11 ¯ Presbyterians Vote On Anti-Gay Amendment ¯ US/TULSA (AP/TFN) -Around the United States, ¯ regional governing bodies for the Presbyterian Church, ¯ U.S.A. are voting on a measure called "Amendment O."The amendment is another product of the30-year ¯ struggle over homosexuality, that has gripped the 2.6 ¯ million-member Presbyterianchurchand othermain- ¯ line Protestant denominations. The proposed amend- " ment, passed by the national governing body of the ¯ denominationin2000,wouldruleoutinvoking"God’s ¯ blessing.., on any relationship that is inconsistent ¯ with" the view that people should live "in fidelity ¯ within the covenant of marriage between a man and ¯ a woman or in chasti,ty in singleness." ~ The proposed amerldment would insert an instruc- ~ tion in the church’s governing Book of Order that ¯ Presbyterian churches and clergymust not approve or ¯ invoke God’s blessing on any relationship but those. ¯ For some Presbyterians, that raised the specter of ¯ babies-denied baptism if born out of wedlock, or refusing marriage to couples who had lived together ~ for years. ¯ At press time, theproposedban on same-sex unions was failing nationally, 39 to 67, according to an unofficial count on Presbyweb, one of several independent church groups posting running vote totals on ¯ the Interact. However, all sides expected the margin to tighten by the May 25 deadline. South Louisiana Presbyterians voted to reject Amendment O. The vote marked the first time that a majority of the leaders for the more than 13,000 ¯ Presbyterians in the southern part of Louisiana have granted a victory to Gay Presbyterians. It remained unclear, however, if the vote meant they approve of ¯ Gay marriage. Some commissioners of the Presbytery of South Louisiana, see Vote, p. 2 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial *Play-Mor, 424 S. Memorial Pol6 Grill, 2038 Utica Square 832-1269 "- 610-5323 : 838-9792 ." 744-4280 ¯ *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 " *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 " *Schatzi’s, 2619 S. Memorial 280-1316 : *The Star, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 ¯ *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 " *Tool Box II, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 " *Vortex, 2182 S. 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Commissioners defeated the proposal 77-63, sending their vote to headquar- ¯ ters of the Presbyterian Church in Louis- ¯ ville, Ky., where the votes of the nation’s ¯ other 172 presbyteries are being tallied. : The Presbytery of Greater Atlanta which ~- represents 110 churches voteddownAmend- " merit O, while its counterpart in northeast ¯ Georgia voted the other way. The 256-225 Atlanta vote agmnst the amendment came ~ by paper ballot after an hour’s discussion. : The Northeast Georgia Presbytery voted in ¯ favor of the amendment 65-61. "We had a ~ very spiritual, pastorally sensitive and open ¯ debateeven thoughour votewas very close," said the Rev. Keyon Meeks Jr., executive of the presbytery. Currently, according to a ruling last year by the denomination’s highest court, ministers in the denominationmay perform samesex blessing services as long as they are not c.o.nsidered the same as marriage ceremorues. - The Presbytery of Eastern Oklahoma is scheduled to vote on Amendment O, along with a number of other proposed amendments on Tuesday, March 6 at John Knox Presbyterian Church. ¯ TOHR’s president Kerry Lewis (who is an attorney) and the Oklahoma chapter of ¯ the American Civil Liberties Union pro- " vided him with legal advice on how to deal ¯ withresistance on the part of the principal at ¯ Jenks High School. : Barker’s experience with his principal’s ¯ stalling might now seem funny. He was ¯ asked to give them more time, told that they ¯ had to talk with the school attorney whojust : happened not to be available, etc. but who ¯ suddenly became much more accessible af- ¯ ter Barker called local mainstream media: ¯ Apparently shortly afterreceiving calls from : TV and Tulsa World reporters, inducting ¯ Ch. 8’s Glenda Silvey, Barker was called ¯ into the principal’s office where he received ", something that resembled an apology. ¯ However, since receiving approval for the ¯ group, the GSA has continued to struggle to ¯ receive equal access to school resources ," which other groups take for granted. This : harassmentranges from the sudden enforce- ¯ mentonrules abouthanding out flyers (rules ¯ that had never been enforced recently) to ¯ having their group announcements in the school bulletin printed in miniscule type. ¯ Despite the struggle, Jenks GSA had a ¯ successful first meeting with 40 people at- " tending, about 30 of whom were not Gay. ¯ And the success in Jenks appears to have ¯ inspired the formation of groups at Tulsa ¯ Rogers, Union High and in Broken Arrow. ¯ As Barker notes, if it can happen at Jenks, ¯ then it can happen anywhere, and he stated ¯ in an e-mail to his allies, "the law, and God " was on our side for this one, and we did it!. ¯ .do not be discouraged, the world will iswhereyoucanffmdTl~N.NotallareGay.ownedba,,a~.~o.,.,IH~my~"~’~ ¯ change, even if it is one person at a timeF’ ,.... by Elizabeth Birch, executive director WASHINGTON (Feb.2 !) - As we begin a new political reality with Georg~W. Bush as our nation’s 43rd president and Republicans in charge of Congress and the White House for the first time in four decades, supporters ofGay equality have expressed apprehension about what this political moment portends for Gay issues. While the question remains largely unanswered, we can gain some comfort in noting that we are also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavior, whether by self-righteous radio hosts or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president. "... we can gain some comfoit in noting that we are also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavlor, whether by self-rlghteous radio host,- or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president.. ¯." 1992, by the Gallup organization whether Gays should have equaljob opportunities, 71% Of those polled said "yes." By 1999, 83% said "yes." When asked by Gallup whether homosexuality should be an acceptable lifestyle, in 1992, 38% said"yes." By 1999, 52% had said"yes." In 1995, apoll conducted by Lake Snell Perry showed Independents, akey Bush constituency, when asked whether they thought Gay rights were equal rights or special rights, 41% said "equal." By 1998, that number jumped to 55%. This data underscores an increasingly supportive electorate that will provide a firm foundation on which we can build relationships with thenew administration. The lessons we have learned since 1994 when Republicans took over the Senate and the House of Representatives, is that public opinion has provided us with vital leverage. Working with allies inside and outside of Congress we have been able to stop every anti-Gay legislative attack, and there were many, except one, the Defense of Marriage Act. During this period, the Employment Non Discrimination Act came within one of vote of passing the Senate and though it has yet to become law, the Hate Crimes Prevention Act passed the Senate by a wide margin and the House passed a non-binding resolution supporting the measure. Our progress does not rest with any one individtml, political party or component of government. It comes from making our case to the American people, who at the end of day, will be the final arbiters of judgment regarding our nation’s leaders. When the new President Bush nominated former Missouri Sen. John Ashcroft to be attorney general the conventional wisdom among most Gay advocates was that the President would have had a tough time picking someone anti-Gay. The fact that the attorney general can have a direct, dramatic impact on the lives of Gay people only exacerbated the apprehension surrounding the nomination. What transpired during the confirmation process was unexpected. Sen. Ashcroft felt the political need to state unequivocally under oath thathewouldnot discriminateonthebasis of sexual orientation, apositionhe never took (orhad to take) until coming before the full body ofpublic opinion represented by the entire Senate. Of course, we will judge him by his actions, not his words. After eight years of the Clinton Administration, our community, its orgamzations and leaders are looking at what lies ahead in this new, more ambiguous environment. Not all will come to the same conclusions and not all will be driven by the same priorities, but most are motivated by the goal of equality for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, and Transgendered Americans. At the Human Rights Campaign, we campaigned vigorously for A1 Goreforpresident.Wethoughtherepresented the besthopefor ourcommumty and would offer the best environment to move our issues forward. That did not come to pass. The campaign is over. It is time to govern. Thenew president has completed his transition from campaign to governing. So too does HRC move from campaigning to making sure the new administration governs fairly and inclusively. We will accomplish this by using political acumen, relationships with Congress, the moral imperative and the growing support of public opinion. The Washington, D.C. based Human Rights Campaign is the largest US civil rights organization focused On Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered issues. HRC engages in education and lobbying at thefederal level. Call HRC-Tulsa at 582-4673. President Bush has largely tried to sidestep Gay issues throughout his public career. When he has been pinned down on issues, he mosdy tries to balance his positions by trying not to appear intolerant, yet not alienating his socially conservativebase. Hehas commendably stated he will not discriminate based on sexual orientation. However, his statements have consistently been tempered with implications that homosexuality is a private matter underscoring the inequity contrasted by heterosexuality being an obvious public matter. Despite his strategy ofavoidance, President Bush has taken a few positions as governor and during, his campaign that are not Gay-supportave, most notably his support in the spring of 1999 for a law that would ban Gay people from adopting children. The public has come along way over the course of the last eight years toward support of Gay issues. When asked in by Christian Grantham The first time I heard songs from the Marshal Mather’s LP by tapper Eminem was on MTV. The music didn’t seem all that different from everything else the network played, : and I didn’t pay too much attention. It wasn’t undl the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) publicly critiqued the album and led protests at the MTV Music ~ Awards against the artist that I gave it another listen. ¯ The questionable content that concernedGLAAD was lyrical prose depicting violence " against Gays and women. The lyrics were a perfect vehicle for the organization to ] demonstrate how homophobia has permeated our culture. Like a predictable,virus, the controversy acted as a host and propdled the artist’s content into the spotlight whe4e art’ s ¯ success i s often measured. ¯ The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any ¯ provocative art. What’s great about the album is F,minem’s presentation: it’s angry, it’s raw and it’s real. It’s so real, in fact, that Eminem took criticism from Gay and Lesbian leaders and publications for somehow inspiring society’s homophobia. Supporters like Madonna, Stevie Wonder and Elton John came to his defense reminding us that blaming, the artist for society’s ills cuts both ways. Who knows how many unwanted pregnancies in the 80s Madonna is responsible for, right? It wasn’t until Elton John agreed to perform with the controversial tapper at the Grammy’s that the shit hit the "fans," so to speak. "... The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any provocative art. ~/hat’s great about the album is Emlnem’s presentation: it’s angry~ it’s raw and it’s real ..." Caught off guard, GLAAD quickly urged Elton John to live up to the standards for which he was presented GLAAD’s Vito Russo Award the previous year for outstanding work with the Gay and Lesbian commumty. Activist Robin Tyler said in an open letter to Elton John that he was "spitting on the grave ofMatthew Shepard." Gay.corn’s Michael Signorile wrote that it was "arrogant of Elton John to use his power in a way that undercuts an entire movement" unless he got a permission slip from the executive directors of the Gay and Lesbian movement. GLAAD’s Executive Director, Joan Gerry, implored Elton John to "not perform with Eminem at the Grammy Awards." Dr. Dre’s protOg6 learned from the best and rode it all the way to the bank. Gay and Lesbian attacks on tapper Eminem scapegoated the artist and a marginalized medium for society’s homophobia. The tactic was long popular with religious political extremists to blame Gays and Lesbians for everything from child molestation to broad declines of morality. Gay and Lesbian activists argued Eminem was scapegoating Gays and women inhis prose. Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! If anything, our movement s duet w~ Eminem exposes our own occasional reliance on questionable tactics. It also highlights whata willing danceparmerwemake for people, such as Eminem, by rushing headlong ires giving them the attention they so desire. What’s worsemour apparent role as "art critic" is the pressure of political expectations placed on artists we ceremoniously award. Elton Johnis an entertainer who owes creative control to no one but himself. If he wishes to play the"Uncle Tom," as letters to the editor describe him, let’s pick up Elton’s depiction and talk about the Uncle Toms in our commtmi.ty. Or is this a sore spot for folks? If the duet is about homophobia in your face, let’s address what we’re doing about it and not "who should and shouldn’t artistically represent it and why." Elton John isn’t the only artist to experience this from our community. In a discussion I had on GayBC with Queer As Folk’s Executive Producer, Ron Cowen, he balked at activist demands that QAF’s story line represent diversity, as though it’s his job to be social engineer. If art reflects a less than politically correct reality, we all have short comings to address. Charles L. Mackay, LL.D, once wrote in Extraordinary Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds that people "think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly; and one by one." Our movement’s reaction to Eminem and Elton John show Gays and Lesbians aren’t immune to being apt hosts. Many of those who attack F.minem hide behind claims that his rap is not art and is a true confession. The last I recall we left deciding what is and isn’t art to Congressman Jesse Helms and NY Mayor Rudy Giuliani. Madness makes strange bedfellows of foes. I wonder what our friends must be thinking? Madonna, no stranger to the controversy herself, said in the L~A. Times that Eminem is simply’~reflecdng what s going onin society right now and That is what art ~s supposed to do." Stevie Wonder also pointed out that "art is a reflection of our society, and people don’t like to confront the realities in society." As long as Gay and Lesbian leaders dodge the"realitiesmsoc|ety ln favor of lynching homophobla smessenger, allwe refunding is an endless game of"whack the mole." I’d settle, however, for old fashion activism over playing art critic any day. In the least case, it would be great to get a heads up on when it will be Howard Stem, David Geffen or Ru Paul’s turn. William S. Burroughs, a founder of the Beat Generation, himself Gay and brought to court over the questionable content of his novels, once said "The next revolution will be iwgnOrin~ others out of existence." I have to wonder someumes if the free market of ideas ould l~ave left Eminem at the bottom had we not lifted it up as a pet example rather than focusing on society’s ills his art reflects. Enough about Eminem. Christian Grantham has a talk show on GayBC Radio Network. www.gaybc.com School Board to Consider Advocate for Gay Kids MADISON, Wis. (AP) - Appointment of a full-time advocate for Gay.and Lesbian students is desperatdy needed in Madison to combat harassment, ignorance and indifference such students face, supporters of the proposal say. "The level of despair, the level of crisis, is often quite severe," said Michael Apple, an education professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madi- S°~o specificjob description exists yet, but a preliminary proposal Calls for the advocate to work with district departments to make them more inclusive and help Gay and Lesbian students with their studies and probiems. The position could be filledby the end of the year pending board approval. Dr. Paul Grossberg of University Health Services said a presidential task force found about one of every three youth suicides involv,e~, teen-agers struggling with tt]eir sexual orientation. It is unconscionable for usas acommtmity tobesllentaboutthislssue, hesmd. The Madison district has similar full-time teachers that work with Southeast Asian, Hispanic and American Indian students. Only eight other districts in the country areknown to have full-time advocates for Gay students, according to the n T h e proposal has drawn several opposing letters to area . newspapers. . Gay+Military Stepfamilies " Face Challenges NEW ORLEANS (AP) - Beyond the basic complexities confronting most stepfamilies, those in the mil!- tary and those headed by same-sex couples face additional daunting challenges, experts told a U.S. conference at the end of February. For military stepfamilies, temporary overseas deployment of a spouse may leave a.stepparent alone with children who have yet to accept a new authority figure. Same-sex couples may have to cope withprejudices, and their children may struggle in explaiuing the family structure to others. The issues were raised at the National Conference of Stepfamilies, a first-of-itskind symposium bringing together experts from a variety offields to consider ways ofimproving support for stepfamilies. Francesca Adler-Baeder, a parent education specialist affiliated withComell University, discuss.edher work with the U.S. Defense Department, trying to identify the problems posed by stepfamilies in the military. About 55% of all service members are marfled, and at least one-fifth of them are estimated to be " in stepfamilies, she said. ¯ Anne Bernstein, a family therapist and professor at ~ the University of California-Berkeley, discussed the distinctive challengesfacing same-sex couplesincases ¯ where one ofthem has custody of one °rm°rechildren at the time the adults become partners. "Even more than other stepfnmilies, these fnmilies are at variance with the models in our dominant culture," Bemstein said. "These people can fed invisible or rejected as a family." She said members of such families may have difficulty finding the right terms foreach other; a child ,,n~,~ht fumble for a replywhen asked by a teach,e,r,~ ~-ho is this person who picks you up from school? ..Bemstein said most of the same=sex Couples she works with are Lesbians, but she has detected particular problems faced by some Gay men thrust.into stepfather roles. "For Gay men, being a parent is often not what one expected to include in one’s-life story, she said. "Being a stepparent is a very different lifestyle." Bernstein said her home town of Berkeley, California, is rdatively tolerant, but noted that some same-sex couples with childrenin other areas fear stigmatization - or possibly even losing custody of the children - if their sexual identity, becomes public. "These issues are not easy, especially when youhave children," she said. The final full session of the conference ended with a ~leaby organizers for more energetic lobbying in state legislatures on behalf of stepfamilies. "State laws give almost no lega~ recogniuon to the residential stepparent,’.’ said Margorie Engel, president of the Stepfamily Association of America. "Thelegal system focuses too exclusively on bloodlines." Tolerance Curriculum Criticized in Santa Fe SANTA FE (AP) - A minister and a parent say the tolerance curriculum approved by the Santa Fe school board for middle and high school students needs to be redone.. The school board last week approved the curriculum, which recognizes homophobia as s~xual violence. The Project Glyph Anti-Homophobia, Prejudice- Reduction Curriculum is optional for teachers to use, and parents will be notified before the lessons in case they want to excuse their children. Michdle Parker, parent of an elementary school child, said she stopped reading the curricuium after the glossary, which includes definitions for transsexual, transvestite and transgender. Bisexuality and homosexuality are listed as normal behavior -definitions the :urriculum attributes to the American Psychiatric ,A.~s- ~ociation. Parker said the definition of homosexumxty ~ontradicts the teachings of theRoman Catholic Church. "We believe it is not a normal state of being, she sa~ . Pa~ker saidhomosexuals should be treated with respect, but that the school district should throw out the, project and start over. The Rev. Canon Dale Coleman of the Church of the Holy Faith Episcopal, who has two children in the t-~ublic schools, also said the curricu" lumne.e...ds resvaiisdi,n,Ag. "I wouldbeall for atolerance curnculum, he ¯ Christian cannot support prejudice or violence against kids." However, he said Project Glyph takes "axi extreme position" in labeling as normal various kinds of sexual lifestyles. Curriculum advocates say the lessons are necessary because teen-agers are confronted with derogatory slang about homosexuals and song lyrics about beating up homosexuals and that some students are ridiculed in school. The project was created by the Santa Fe Rape Crisis CentJer. Some.. ministers spoke,,out against the curricu-,, lum, feanng xt would promote ahomosexual agenda. But the Santa Fe Ministerial Alliance said lastApril it stood behind the tolerance-based project. The curriculum covers sexual orientation and gender identity; homophobia and how it affects everyone; and how to be an ally to people of all orientations and help stop violence. The four school board members at the meeting supported the curriculum. Supenntendent Vero_ni.’ca .C. Garcia also spoke favorably of the program, calling ~ts subject a "human rights issue." Mayor Larry Delgado has endorsed the program, too. Project Glyph, part of the Santa-Fe Rape Crisis Center, first approached the board in Novemberi999 with its effort to make Santa Fe safe and inclusive for all youth, especially Lesbian, Gay, bisexual and transgender children. Some Santa Fe ministers then spoke out against the curriculum, fearing it would promote the homosexual lobby’s agenda. But the Santa Fe Ministerial ,Alliance said in a letter last April iLstood behind the tolerancebased project. The curriculum covers sexual orientation and gender identity; homophobia and how it affects everyone; and how to be an ally to people of all orientations and help slop violence. Project Glyph staff plan to make presentations to students next week. The curriculum will be modified for middle school students. In a class of30, on average, there are three to eight students who identify or might someday identify themselves as Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual, the curriculum states. Find out for yourself how good the Lord iS! - Ps. 34:8 Come share goodness of the Lord with our community ~Sunday Morning 11:00 AM Children’s Worshi p During Service MCC United Rev. Cathy Elliott, Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood (918)838-1715 rncctulsa@aol,con Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at Community ofHope 2$4~ South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0~9~ A Welcoming Congregation OUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm; Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm 1517 S. 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Call for more information: 918-584-2325 G American Red Cross American Red Cross Tulsa Area Chapter 10151 East Eleventh Tulsa 74128 Dannette McIntosh Diversity-Co-ordinator 838-1100 Saint Aidan 4045 N. Cincinnati, 425-7882 Saint John 4200 S. Atlanta Place, 742-7381 OPENARMS OPEN MINDS OPENI-tFAI~S Saint Dunstan 5635 East 71st, 492-7140 Trinity 501 S. Cincinnati, 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You School board member Donita Sena said she was alarmed after reading the results of the district’s recent Quality of Education Survey. Only 47% of Santa Fe high school students believed students at their schools were treated equally regardless of sexual orientation, while 71% of high school staff believed students were treated equally. "The kids are saying something obviously different," Sena said. "If this curriculum is going to help teachers, we need to do it." Scottsdale.Considers Partners Health Benefits SCOTI’SDALE, Ariz. (AP) - The Scottsdale City Council is considering extending health care benefits to the domestic partners of city employees, including same-sex partners. The city’s proposed health care plan’was devised in part to bolster Scottsdale’s efforts inrecruiting andretaining workers in a competitivejob market. The number ofjob applications for openpositions is down, as is the overall quality of candidates, said Neal Shearer, the city’s human resources administrator. "We want to eliminate whatever barriers we can that impede our ability to attract and retain the talent we need to get thejob done," Shearer said. City employees have also begun requesting the benefits, and officials hope to extend the policy to avoid any perception of discrimination, he said. Eligibility requirements still are being determined. Gay civil-rights activists see Scottsdale’s benefits proposal as part of a trend, said Steve Brandwein, a board member forthe Arizona Human Rights Fund, a Gay civil-rights advocacy group. "City councils and city human resources departments are learning just like corporations are that in order to remain competitive this is very sensible business," Brandwein said. In the state, Phoenix, Tempe, and Tucson also offer benefits to domestic partners. But an attorney with a history of challenging domestic partner policies nationally said the benefits would weaken morality. "One of the strongest reasons we oppose any attempts to broaden public support for alternative lifestyles such as the (domestic partner) ordinances or city actions do, is that they really do weaken the value of marriage," said Alan Sears, president and general counsel of the Alliance Defense Fund. Suspects in Gay’s Murder To Be Clinically Evaluated FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) - The trials of two teenagers charged in the murder of a Gay Black man from Marion County could be delayed by requests for psychiatric reviews. Special Prosecutors Scott Smith of Wheeling and Stephen Keuney of Charleston have asked Circuit Judge David Janes to have both teenagers reviewed by a psychiatrist. David Allen Parker, 18, is tentatively set to stand ,trial in Beckley on March.26, while co-defendant Jared Matthew Wilson is scheduled to appear in a Wheeling courtroom on May 29. The teen-agers are charged with first-degree murder and could be sentenced to life in prison if convicted of beating 26-year-old Arthur "J.R." Warren to death in Grant Town in July. Their trials are expected to last about a week. The teens have been interviewed by a psychologist, but neither has been examined by a psychiatrist, the prosecutors said in a filing with the court. Forensic psychologist Dr. William Fremouw has found both defendants mentally competentto stand trial andcriminally responsible at the time of their alleged attack on Warren, according to court documents. Still, Parker’s lawyers have indicated they may pursue a diminished capacity defense. The beating of Warren began early July 4 when Parker became angry with the victim for telling others about a sexual relationship the two had. After drinking beer and snorting a crushed tranquilizer, Parker allegedly starting hitting Warren with his fists and stomping on him with steel-toed boots. In his statement, Wilson told investigators he participated briefly in the beating for fear Parker’s rage would turn on him. The then-17-year-olds are also accused of taking Warren’s body to a rural road and driving over him four times with a Camaro in a failed effort to stage a hit-and-run. College Claims Adequate Response to Hate Crimes LYNDON, Vt. (AP) - Lyndon State College officials have denied accusations that the college is ignoring hate crimes on campus. Officials responded to claims made last week by a sophomore student who said college administrators retaliated against him because of his Web site, http://lyndonsucks.homestead.com. The site by Jacob Fortes, of Lowell, Mass., who is not Gay,accuses officials ofignoring student concerns about hate crimes, and mentions alleged hate crimes that target Gays at LSC. College President Carol Moore said Fortes made "outrageous claims." "I think we’ve done a good job and have responded quickly to some of the concerns about the homosexual climate on campus." Moore said. "We feel we have enough data to show that we have tried to set up programs to protect our Gay and Lesbian students." Moore said the school has pursued every incident of harassment that has been reported. As well, the college has increased efforts to raise awareness on the campus about Gay and Lesbian concerns, she said, including holding open forums attended for students and faculty members. Of the nearly 1,100 full-time students at LSC, about 25 arein the Gay and Lesbian Alliance, though not all are Gay or Lesbian, she said. Moore confirmed reports that a Gay student left the campus last year because he was uncomfortable. "The studentfelt he was injeopardy physically and we could not guarantee round-the-clock protection for him," she said. The situation reflects society and LSC ]s not umque in dealing with these issues, Moore said. "You can educate but sometimes it just doesn’t take," she said. Ex-United Way Staffer Attacks BSA Funding NEPTUNE, N:J. (AP) - A former finance director for the United Way of Monmouth County has filed a complaint to try to stop the nonprofitfromfunding Boy Scout troops. Maureen Glover’s complaint with the state Division of Civil Rights charges that she was subject to a hostile work environment because the agency funded the Scouts. She worked for the charitable umbrella organization from last June until she resigned in January. Glover, 45, told the Asbury Park Press of Neptune that on her first day of work, she was happy to sign an ethics code that prohibited discrimination on the basis of race, creed, age, sex or sexual orientation. Days later, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the Boy Scouts ".of America could bar Gays from leadership positions m a case that originated in Monmouth County. Glover accused her employer of violating its own ethics code. She said it was particularly distressing to find herself as finance director writing checks to the same Boy Scout council that ejected James Dale as scouunaster after learning he was Gay, an action that led to the Supreme Court case. Jim Borque, executive director of the Monmouth County United Way, said he disagreed with Glover’s charges, but declined to elaborate, citing the pending litigation. California Men’s Syphilis Rate Rising ATLANTA (AP) - An outbreak of syphilis in Southern California last year has provided alarming new evidence that Gay and Bisexual me~ are lowering their guard against AIDS, the government said. More than half of the syphilis cases in a four-county area during the first half of 2000 were in men who reported having had at least one male sex partner- up from 26% a year earlier. Health officials said that the numbers are a signal that Gay and Bisexual men, encouraged by news of powerfully effective drug cocktails andlonger lifespans for AIDS patients, are wonying less about HIV. Both HIV and syphilis are sexually transmitted; condoms can protect against their spread. HIV "is no longer perceived to bethe threat that it once was," said Dr. Ronald Valdiserri, deputy director of the National Center for HIV, STD and TB Prevention, which is part of the Centers for .Disease Control and Prevention. ’q’hese are very serious findings." The Southern California cases and similar outbreaks in other major cities came after the national syphilis rate dropped in 1999 to its lowest level on record. Just 6,657 cases were reported in 1999, the last year for which national figures are available, or about one case per 40,000 people. Syphilis outbreaks inmajor cities"show that the disease can make a comeback," said Ken August, spokesman for~CaliforniaDepartmentofHealth Services. ’tit’ s important for health-care providers to ask patients about theirbehavior and to deliver a strong prevention message." In four California counties - Los Angeles, San Diego, Orange and Riverside- 66 of 130 syphilis cases from January to July 2000 were in Gay or Bisexual men, compared with 26 of 100 cases in the same period in 1999. Of the 66 cases in 2000, 33 reported they had had anonymous sex, and 17 said they had met sex partners in bathhouses. Only oneinfivereported using acondomduring his most recent sexual encounter, and two in five reportedusing illegal drugs. ’¢rhese men were engaging m high-risk sexual behavior," Valdiserri said. "When we see reports of increasing risk behaviors, that’s when we take action. We don’t wait till we see the spike nationally" in HIV. Thirty-four of the 66 men reported they were HIV-positive, and nine said they did not know their HIV status. "You’ve got people who are doing well on the (HIV) drugs andbelieve then that they don’thave to worry about infection," said John Schtinlaoff, chief of public health operations for Los Angeles County. "Some people argue that there is burnout. They get weary of being protective." The CDC recommended a search for new, innovative ways to get the safe-sex message to Gay and Bisexual men in large cities. Syphilis infections in 1999 remained concentrated in the South, with roughly one case per 22,000 people. Three-quarters of syphilis victims nationwide were black. About 300 syphilis cases were reported in 2000 in California. Agency to Offer Free AIDS Drugs BOMBAY, India (AP) - An international aid agency said Friday it will distribute an anti-AIDS drug purchsed from an h~dian company free of charge in 10 countries. Doctors Without Borders - or Medecins sans Frontieres - will buy the anti-AIDS cocktail from the Indian company Cipla Ltd. "In general, wherethe Cipladrug will be used, it will be supplied free of cost. Wherever it is purchased by governments, it would be sold at reduced prices," Daniel Berman of the agency’s Access to Essential Medicines campaign told The Associated Press. Berman said the agency will begin distributing the drugs "over the next couple of months." On Feb. 7, Cipla offered to sell a threedrug anti-retroviral cocktail to Doctors Without Borders t’or $350 per person, per year, if the aid agency agreed to distribute it for free and took care of the legalities of importing it. Cipla also offered to sell the triple-combination therapy drugs to governments for $600 per patient instead of the $10,000 to $15,000 charged in the United States and Europe. The Bombay-based company says it could manufacture the drugs cheaply becauseproduction costs arelow in Indiaand it makes the raw materials. Berman along with Madrid-based pharmacist Carmen Perez met three top Cipla officials inBombay and said the aid agency would integrate some of the Cipla drugs into antiretroviral pilot programs in-10 countries. "We will be using these drugs in thesepilotprograms."Hedeclined toname the 10 countries, but said the program had already begun in Thailand and Cameroon. - Berman said drug authorities from the United States, Australia, South Africa and Germany had visited the Cipla plant and certified standards. A joint statement by Doctors Without Bordersand Cipla said: "Governments of developing countries canimmediately take advantage of the offer... This offer is available without restrictions in time, geography or quantity." The Cipla offer raised concerns Lhat patent laws may be breached in some countries. In South Africa, 42 pharmaceutical comparfies have filed a lawsuit to prevent the government from distributing genericAIDS drugs becuase it~nay violate World Trade Organization rules. Under theWTOrules, governments can issue compulsory licenses that allow genetic drugs to be manufactured if they declare a national health emergency. The AIDS cocktail on offer consists of two 40 milligram tablets of stavudine, two 150 milligram tablets of lamivudine and two 200 milligram tablets of nevirapine. : GlaxoSmithKline of Britain developed : lamivudine, also known as Heptovir, ~ihd : Boehringer Ingelheim of Germany holds ¯ the rights to nevirapine under the name ¯" Viramune. Bristol-Myers Squibb holds the ~ international patent on siavudine. The companies have been negotiating deals with individual governments to lower prices. Boehringerrecentlylowered prices by 80%. GlaxoSmithKline announced that ¯ it wouldlowerprices by 90%for nonprofit Im I I I I I I I I I. I I Power Connect. Public Service Company of Oklahoma Customer_Service Is Now Available 24 Hours .A Day, Seven Days A Week. These days, traditional 8-5 business hours aren’t always convenient. So PSO has made it easier than ever for you to contact us. 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(2) If your congregation is fully welcoming, but your denomination is not, withhold the percentage (10% to 15%) that goes to your denomination. (3) Ifyou have left a church that is not fully welcoming, consider a one-time return visit to drop a card in the offering plate with a note explaining why. Write a note on the back or add a letter to explain your actions-lovingly. Do lustice. See your spirit renewed and your church transformed. Let us include you on our Honor Roll ofFaithful Dissenters. , Send your name or initials with a brief account to: HonorRoll@sou]force.org For centuries, anti-homosexual religious teachings have led to suicide, wasted lives,-discrimination and violence. I am withholding my gifts until God’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender children are fully welcomed by this church and/or denomination. Today, I amwithholding my tithe/offering/special gift (or portion thereof) from and contributing it to because it welcomes and provides serAces to ~God’s chiMren equally.-~-~--~~ as much my moral obligation not to cooperate with evil as it is to cooperate with good."- Ga~9m This bulletin insert is provided by Soulforce as part of its "Stop Spiritual Violence" campaign. your speci~needs! 800-559-1558 ~n~-~.NewNest.com agencies - effectively matching the Cipla offer. Cipla Chairman Yusuf Hamied said he welcomed moves by multinational companies to slash prices. "Since our initial outburst, things are moving in a positive direction. That is very satisfying,"Hamied said in an interview over the phone. Merck Begins Vaccine Trials NEW YORK (AP) - Pharmaceutical manufacturer Merck & Co. has begun a small-scale human trial of a new experimental HIV vaccine, TheWall StreetJournal reported at the end of February. The new vaccine has been able to prevent laboratory monkeys exposed to an extremely vindent strain of the disease from contracting it, sources close to the trials told the Journal. This has AIDS scientists watching the results of the trials very dosdy. The company would not discuss the details of the laboratory trials, but did say it began testing the vaccine in healthy, uninfected volunteers last week. The drug is not the firstpossible vaccine to go into human trials. At least a d~iten .other companies are currently experimenting with a possible vaccine, but scientists familiar with the Merck trials say that their drug is among the most promismg. Merck official said they were reluctant to release any details regarding the trials before making a.formal presentation at a scientific forum in April, lest publicity raise false hopes. Priest Challenges Drug Companies NAIROBI, Kenya (AP) - Expanding an international campaign to make AIDS drugs affordable in the poorest nations, an American priest who works with HIVpositive orphans in Kenya said he planned to import cheap, generic medicines from India, Importing the drugs, which are the equivalents of patented medicines, is_illegal in Kenya. However, the bigger fight for the Rev. Angelo D’Agostino could comefrom pharmaceutical companies who own patents on the drugs. What D’Agostino fears is a lawsuit in Kenyalike the one42pharmaceutical companies filed in South Africa to prevent that government from distributing generic AIDS drugs. "I am sick and tired of doing funerals," said D’Agostino, who rims-the Nyumbani Orphanage, home to 70 HIVpositive orphans. He also treats 150 to 200 children living nearby. The orphanage recently received private donations to buy drugs, but brandname medications cost $500 a month per child, D’Agostino said. A generic equivalent offered by the Bombay, India-based Cipla Ltd. would cost the orphanage $20 a month per child. There are legal loopholes D’Agostino could use to bring the drugs into Kenya, but they only provide for a small amount. And besides, his plan to go to India, buy the drugs and bring them back for his orphans seems feasible. Kenya’s minister for public health, Dr. Sam Ongeri, said he doesn’t expect the government to stop D’Agostino. Also, Ongeri noted, the government is expected to pass a bill in parliament next month that would allow aid agencies to legally import generic drugs. The obstacle, Ongeri said, will likely be the drug companies. "The pharmaceutical industry should rise to the occasion and drop their prices in good time before we getto a level of (political) crisis," he said. One in eight Kenyans between the ages of 15and 49 are HIV positive, Ongeri said. Providing them with the patented drugs wouldcostbetween $141 millionand $167 million - more than the country’s entire annual health budget of $115 million. Cipla offered to sdl Doctors Without Borders the anti-AIDS cocktailifthe group agreed to distribute itforfreeandtook care of the legalities of importing it. The group has agreed to help D’Agostino obtain the drugs. GlaxoSmithYdine declined to comment on D’Agostino’s plan. However, in announcing the company’s earnings, GlaxoSmithKline chief executive Jean- Pierre Gamier said patents are not the obstacle to supplying developing countries with medicines - poverty and weak health care systems are. Requests for commentfrom Boehringer and Bristol-Myers Squibb were not answered. However, a Boehringer spokesman asked about Cipla earlier this month said "intellectual property rights should be protected." GlaxoSmithKline Has 13% Profit Rise LONDON (AP) - Strong sales for its respiratory, antiviral andcentral-nervous-system drugs helped boost GlaxoSmithKline PLCprofits by 13%last year, thecompany announced recently. Pretax profit for the year ending Dec. 31 was 5.33 billion pounds ($7.73 billion). Theresults "demonstrate that in the new company, we have underlying strength which wasn’t slowed by the long preg~ nancy pause of the merger," said CEO Jean-Pierre Gamier. Antivirals - including the company’s HIV treatments - rose 15%. Sales of the firm’s HIV drugs grew 14%. Pfizer Distributing Free AIDS Drug JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) - TheU.S. pharmaceutical giant Pfizer Corp. said Wednesday it will soon begin distributing the drug Diflucan free to HIV and AIDS patients at government hospitals and clinics. Distribution of the drug will begin "within the next few weeks," ajoint statement from the health department and Pfizer said. The departr~ent removed a roadblock to the distribution by approving Diflucan for the treatment of esophageal candidiasis, a fungal infection of the throat that occurs in ¯ up_to~4-0% of AIDS patients. The drug, genetically known as Fluconazole, is already used in South Africa as treatment for cryptococcal meningitis, an infection of the brain that occurs in 10% of AIDS patients. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor Happy Spring Equinox! -Also known as Easter, takenfrom thenameof aPhoenician goddess offertility,Oestre or Ostara, from whence we get the imagery of bunnies and eggs. The hare was an animal sacred to many goddesses, and the egg was symbolic of the cycles of life, ~e cosmos, as wellas eternity. Inmany prechristian cultures, this was also the time for the rebirth of the solar god, of which the latest was Jesus. This is the time many scholars say he was" actually born. Sothere’ s the little bit of learning channel info for the month - let it never be said that this column is not educational. Well, Tannhauser was certainly an event not to be missed. Lovely voices, deeply symbolic staging and sets, and some laughable and fabulous costumes. And that was just the audience! Actually, Wagner’s 3+ hour long gnashing of teeth and clLristian guilffest was agonizing in terms of plot, but beautiful in terfns of the caliber of talent and voice. Oh, and pity the fella that dates someone who wants to major in costume design, all you’ll hear about is how people look, what they wore, and why they shouldn’t wear it. It was a toss up between who was more superficial - the characters onstage or the one critiquing everyone else’s superficialities. I mean, who the hell cares whether apatron wore a dress that was too big in the bosom for the equipment she had to put in - it? Itmay be it’s a dress a friend loanedher since she couldn’t afford a dress of her own and she had to make do! Certainly not worth a 30 minute diatribe on the evils of wearing a dress too big for your bust. Oh, and I love attending cultural events in Tulsa - where the woman next to me kept sniffing- wetly andnoisily- throughout the show. I cut slack for that- and her hOrrifically noisy nose-blowing-because if you’re sick, you’re sick. BUT STAY HOME! However, when she started chewing gum with her mouth open and smacking like a cannon, I’d had enough. They left after the second act, I don’tknow why. .. Andthen there was the3 year oldbehind ~ us - who was incessantly noisy and irkstme, simply because she could be. The child was driving both I and my companion to distraction Finally, she started smacking On candy - loudly, noisily, and obnoxiously. I spoke to theparents, who thenhad a heated exchange in a foreign language. They too left after the second act. It is very interesting that an event can be so easily eclipsed by the actions of inconsiderate audience members. Stomp, on the other hand, was a wonderfully engaging and humorously magi.’- cal romp wherein the cast created.musac from the most unlikely of objects. I will ¯ never look at aplastic bag again as merely ¯ abag. The cast was amazingly diverse, and ¯ immensely handsomeandbeautiful in their ¯¯ ownways. Infact, itwas ashow where one would expect a bunch of athletic dancers, ¯ and the people in the cast were refresh- - ingly real - and hll the more beautiful for ¯ it. And it was a rousing evening, marred only by the occurrence several times of people’s cell phones - not part of the act - and some who amazingly, held conversations while the show was going on. Lovely invention, the cell phone. Allows for intrusive rudeness at an unprecedented level on a massive scale. The inventor, as well as the users, should all be burnt at the stake. But that’s just my opinion. Apparently these people have not the intelligence to figure out what the OFF button is for; or don’t ¯ have the basic intelligence to leave the ~ danm thing in the car, if you can’t figure ¯ out how to work it. ¯ Cirque De Soleil (CDC), the utterly ¯ amazing acrobatic troupe, has put some of its acts together with a story, and created " "Journey Of Man," an IMAX 3D film ¯ opening in Tulsa March 9. The film fol- ¯ lows the stages of human development ¯ from birth to maturity celebrating the hu- ¯ man spirit. The film was recently honored ¯ by the Giant Screen Theatre Association ¯ as the Best Film of 200; and if you’ve ¯ never.seen Cirque De Soleil, I can’t urge ; you enough to take in this flick. You will ¯ be amazed at what some of the folks can do. I look forward to seeing this film, as it ¯ promises to be the next best thing to actually being at a CDC performance. If you love tap dance and beautiful men, ¯ then Tap Dogs is well worth the price of : the DVD or Video. About the same vin- ¯ tage as Stomp,it is a festival of percussion ¯ and music featuring tap dance, and would ¯ be well worth seeing just to marvel and ¯ what these dancers can do. ¯ Andin the latest on the wonderful world ¯ of Nicksiana,. Stevie’s album has been pushed back to early May alas. "Singles should start appearing on radio in April, though, and the new album is generating rave reviews. Lending voices to the album are Sarah McLachlan, Macy Gray (that should be interesting), one of the Dixie Chicks, and Sheryl Crow. I still think she and Melissa Etheridge should do a duet; I would be incredibly powerful. Oh well, next album... Thefinal concertofthe 2000-2001 Tulsa Philharmonic Lollipops Scries will bepresented Sunday, March 18, 2001, at 2pro in theWalter Arts Center atThe Holland Hall School. Maestro Edwin Outwater has planned a concert entitled "Music on the Move," with music depicting all forms of movement see Amuse, p. 9 "...Well, Tannhauser was certainly an event not to be missed. Lovely voices, deeply symbolle sta~in~ and sets, and some laughable and fabulous costumes. And that was just the audlenee! Actually, Wagner’s 3+ hour lon~ ~nashln~ of teeth and Christian guiltfest was a~onlzln~ in terms of plot, but beautiful in terms of the eallber of talent and volee...." Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC .Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether ,single or as couples. Electronic filing is available for faster refunds. 747 - 5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 The University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/ Gay/Transgendered Alliance presents their Annual Film Festival Evenings on April 6 & 7 Sunday afternoon, April 8 TU Campus, 6th& Delaware Selected titles: Westler, Summer in-My Veins, High Art and more. Exact times and auditoriums to be announced in next issueand will be available at the Community Center. "Plastic Jesus" by Poppy Z. Brite the record charts and the covers of reviewed by Barry Hensley : teenybopper magazines as the rock group What would happen if a cutting edge " The Kydds. author wrote a fictional account of the ¯ WhenHaroldismurderedbyroughtrade, loving, sexual relationship between Elvis " Seth and Peyton begin their inevitable, and Colonel Tom Parker? I’ll bet there " loving, sexual relationship. A couple of would be charges of blasphemy, calls for boycotts against the publisher and death threats to the author. Fortunately, author Poppy Z. Brite has chosen, notElvis, but the Beatles to take down the lavender road, and their fans seem to be much more understanding, since not a peep of protest has been heard about this fanciful romance between the icons we know as Paul and John. Ourstory starts, surprise(!), with a shooting onacoldNew Yorknight. Seth Grealy, fading rock star, hits the sidewalk in a spreading pool of blood. A woman in the horrified crowd recognizes him and takes the opportunity to scoop up ablood soaked piece of paper, quickly running away with the priceless souvenir. The murderer turns out to be a Christian Fundamentalist who assumed Seth was spreading AIDS. Looking back on Seth’s early years in rural England, we discover him jamming at a local club with friends, particularly guitarist Peyton Masters. They are being closely observed by Gay record manager Harold Loomis. Well, you guessed it! UnderHarold’s careful guidance, the boys, plus two friends, quickly rise to the top of and transportation. The concert begins at 2pm with pre-performance activities, Including a musical petting zoo and other special surprises, beginning at 1:15pro. In this gravity-defying concert, Maestro Outwater and the Tulsa Philharmonic will present music that’ s really "going places," including Leroy Anderson’s Horse and Buggy, Johann Strauss, Pleasure Train Polka, Eduard Strauss, Skater’s Waltz, and Nicolai Rimsky-Korsakov,s Flight of the Bumblebee. With the help of a special conductor’s assistant giving introductions to each of the orchestra’s instrument families, this concert combines the best of entertainment and education. With combined sales approaching the 300,000 mark, Robin Spielberg is one of today’s most popular and prolific contemporary pianist/composers. On March 25, 2001, she will perform what promises to be amost memorable evening Of her spellbinding compositions on the Steinway piano at The Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The evening will include Ms. Spielberg’s compelling and oftenhumorous story-telling and feature new works from her latest CD, Dreaming of Summer. The concert will begin at 3pro Ms. Spielberg will autographCDs and sheet music following the performance. Theconcert is madepossible in part by a grant from the Tulsa "...What would-happen if a euttlng edge author wrote a fietlonal aee0unt of the loving, sexual relationship between Elvis and_Colonel Tom Parker? . . . Fortunately, author...Brlte has chosen, not Elvis, but the Beatles..." years later, in 1969, the Stonewall riots in New York City inspire Sethand Pe.yton to wander rnto Greenwich Village, giving interviews revealing their relationship. A Newsweek cover, chronicling their love for each other, soon follows, as does a marriage ceremony in Holland. The boys have conveniently forgotten to tell their bandmates about all of this and The Kydds are soon history. Fame proves exhausting, and Seth and Peyton soon slip into semi,retirement until Seth’s untimely murder. HOW different things might have been if Paul and John had really followed this path! In the author’s afterword, Brite comments, "I have always believed the world would be a better place today if John and Paul had been lovers. Yes, I know they weren’t Gay. That has nothing to do with it. This is fantasy." But what an intriguing fantasy it is t ffyou enjoy wishful thinking, check out Plastic Jesus and find out what might have been. Check for Plastic Jesus at your local library, or call 596-7966 to get a copy. Barry Hensley is a librarian with Tulsa City-County Library System. Performing Arts Center Trust Ms. Spielberg has recorded nine CDs, performed two sold-outconcerts at Weill Hall at Carnegie Hall, toured the country an concert and has made numerous television appearances, including features/interviews and performances on "CBS-This Morning" and "LifeTime Live," and "ABC News." Spielberg’s music has also been featured on scores of radio programs, and her work in music & healing has received attention in Parenting magazine, The New York Times, and The Washington Post. Robin Spielberg-will perform at Tulsa Performing Arts Center on March25,2001 at 3pro. Tickets can be purchased by calling 918/596-7111. Tickets are $12, and $10 for seniors & students. More information on Robin Spielberg and her recordings, can be found on the world wide web at www.robinspielberg.com The2000-2001 Tulsa Philharmonic Pops Series-continues with guest star Roger Williams on Friday, March 9, 2001, and Saturday, M~ch 10, 2001. This consummate entertainer conducts and performs on this memorableprogram. Performances will be presented at 8pm in the Chapman Music Hall of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Playing the music that has served as the soundtrack of three generations, Williams will tickle the ivories with such favorites as Autumn Leaves, Talk to the Animals, From a Distance, and a medley including Feelings and Chariots of Fire. Gay Studies: Pilgrimage by Lament Lindstrom "Nasir," I once asked my Gay Malaysian friend, "are you ever going on the hadj?" This is the fifth pillar of Islam - the duty of all good Muslims to worship in Mecca at least once in life. "Maybe," he said, "when I’m older. But noW" I’m having too much fun as a Gay pilgrim in America." Gay pilgrims came to mind last month when I walked down Ocean Drive in South Beach. There, up ahead, shining brightly in the Miami sunshine was Gianni Versace’s weddingcake mansion sporting a modestly phallic observatory dome. Andthere, at the footofthosefamously once bloodstained steps, were the Gay pilgrims fervently snapping pictures. Some of these, no doubt, were fash- ¯ studied- still demand that devotees make : weekly pilgrimages down to the coastal ¯ village where the Movement is headquar- ¯ tered. There, these pilgrims worship at the ¯¯ Movement’s spiritual center, their physical presence a marker of their fidelity. Thepilgrimage- sacred traveling - knots together identity and place. Sacred travd reminds us of who, what, and why we are. Today’s nation-states, which in part modeled themselves on medieval religious institutions, borrowed rituals of pilgrimage. The U.S., for example, is splattered with large numbers of National Monuments and National Historic Sites that we should visit in order to learn about ourselves. The Alamo, Mount Vernon, Gettysburg, the Arizona Memorial, and many more. These places are all much like church. Any rude chatter, hoofing, or hollering will quickly attract shushing guardians, of these politically sacred pilgrimage sites. Most of these places, of course, commemorate mainstream, white-bread America. Still, multicultural politics have boosted the visibility, nowadays, of minority histories. African-Americans tour the birthplace of George Washington Carver in Diamond, Missouri. Japanese- Americans pilgrims drive out to Tule Lake in Modoc County, California, site of a WW2 internment camp. Jewish-Americans visit the monument to Revolutionary War financier Haym Solomon in Queens, New York. Feminists pay homage at the Suffragette Memorial inWashington, DC. But what of Gay and Lesbian pilgrims? Where might we go? " ’Naslr,’ I once asked . . . ’are you ever going on the bade’. ,. - the duty of all good Muslims to worship in Mecca at least once in life. ’Maybes’ he said, ’when I’m older. But now I’m having too much fun as a Gay pilgrim in Amerlea.’ " ion pilgrims. But others, like me, were there in reverence of the lingering spectacle of Versace’s and Cunanan’s deadly homosexual encounter. Pilgrims. The word derives from old Latin roots meaning "across the field" which came to refer to traveling in fol:,eigu parts. Organized religions have profited by regularizing the pilgrimage. Besides the Islamic ’hadj,’- Roman Catholic Popes beginning in 1300 have declared Jubilee years, inostly recently Armo Santo 2000, during which visitors to Rome may rack up spintual blessing points: In pre-industrial and pre-literate social orders, communication between religious leaders and followers demanded physical mobility. There was no TV, no radio, no newspapers. Instead, one had to travel to the source to hear and see in person. Leaders of the John Frum Movement- ahomegrown South Pacific religion that I once the Tulsa chapter has identified a number of areas in which to improve. These range from adding more Spanish speaking staff or volunteers to help in disaster relief to a new program in development to create a diversity curriculum in area high schools to address the challenges Lesbian~and Gay young people face. The group has offered a tolerance curriculum for some time but this new program which is being developed with a local Unitarian church, and With input from Youth Services of Tulsa and PFLAG, is explicit in addressing anti- Gay attitudes, noted Bowen. Dahl added thatthenew program specifically has board support. Dahl and his colleagues expressed frustration at the negative reputation which their part oftheRed Cross has for anti-Gay bias based on the ban on blood donations by any man who has had sex with another man since 1980. Many are not awar9 that the American Red Cross Blood Services have a separate director and board even though they share theirname and building. The policy is not set by the Red Cross but by theFederal Drug Administration (FDA) which recently reviewed the ban and reendorsed it. Gay civil rights activists have argued that a ban based on group status rather than on risk factors is biased and while might have beenappropriate in the earliest years of the HIV/AIDS pandemic, is no longer good science. However, Dahl acknowledged that the Red Cross might be more active in challenging the policy, and noted that individual chapters may sponsorresolutions at their national meetings. The Tulsa chapter has a resolution addressing bias against the Jewish equivalent of the Red Cross which has yet to be accorded equal status as Muslim and other groups. Dalai indicated that the Tulsa chapter might address the blood donation restrictions issue in a similar fashion. For more information about volunteering Or American Red Cross diversity efforts, contact Dannette Mclntosh, Tulsa Area Chapter diversity coordinator, 918- 831-1215. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory Super Bowl Sunday is way behind us, butmy heart feels like the football: kicked, stomped, beaten, thrown, punted. Oh, and abandoned. We must never forget abandoned. So abandoned that I spent Valentine’ s Day withmyroommate’ s dog. And I thought the Irish had luck! Oh, right - I confused that withmy father tellingme that everything a Gregory touches turns to. .. to.., well, it certainly ain’t gold. After 44 years of running from love in all shapes and forms, I smacked dead into it with the arrival of a woman who, apparently, thought I was just a novelty. OK, you’re saying, "But what did the raging Lesbian expect?" With all my Gay male friends falling in and out of love as quickly as they change their clothes, you’d think I’d have learned, at least by proxy. But nooooo - I believed that women were different from men. So I plunged in with eyes wide shut, listening to a voice from God telling me things no MAN had ever said. Or maybe I just wasn’t interested enough to listen until now. She said she was a very physical person, and the woman involved with her had to love sexas much as she. Saying a silent, "Thank you, God!", I watched her beautiful eyes look back at me and all I could do (since by now my blood had rushed DOWN from my head) was to wonder, "Whatdoes she see inme?"Maybe because I’m a newbie, or maybe because I’ve been around the Gay community for so long, I have no problem showing affection. Holding hands in the open, arms around each other, kissing on a public residential street in Dallas felt, for the first time in my life, natural. When she told me she wanted me to spend a weekend with her after we’djust met a few hours before, did I balk? Hell, no! And that IS a first for me! I know it was hormonal in the beginning. When I tried to be straight for so many years, I found kissing a man to be extremely strange. Atfirstteethuponteeth, inadequacy on my part, as well as detachment, until it degenerated into making my grocery list in my head while his tongue was in my throat. Blech! But this! I just assumed I never got it- the fireworks, etc. That first night on the street with her, I felt the full light show, complete with thunder andearth-shattering enlightenment I should have felt about 20 years ago. I must confess that kiss was so powerful that I gave $5 to a panhandler on my way home. He probably sits at that exact corner every night waiting to catch happy Lesbians on their way home. Although I knew it was Lesbian lust, I trudged blindly ahead, not knowing or caring what the future held, but damned determined to enjoy every minute of it. And enjgy I did in October with this same woman in South Texas who spoke to me romantically. I left with a VERY healthy ego, and got a hint of what it must be like to be a straight man. I also left with the promise of another weekend the next month, this time at my place. She kept up this farce, even singing to me on my birthday. Then the phone calls stopped, emails became fewer and fewer, you know the drill. At last came the inevitable -the "Dear Jane" letter. You know that one - the one that says she hopes wE’ll be friends for a long time to come. Theone that’s the very LAST message she sends. I’m sure you’ve seen wildlife shows with the charging rhino who suddenly forgets the target he’s charging. Well, consider this woman a charging rhino. Or maybe I’m that forgettable. Or maybe she’s just a bitch. My astute friend Jim tells me, after I’ve called, written, and emailed to no avail, that silence is my .answer. I like that - as applied toANYONEelse but me! MyGay male roommate says, "She just wanted to get you into bed." Men - you can’t live with ’em... pass the beer nuts! Now I understand my friends who just can’t seem to get over that relationship that everyone around them knew was doomed frbm the beginning. All my "forget about him/hers" sound even emptier than they must have to my friends. You know, it hurts to remember; but it hurts more to forget. Have there been others since my experience? There’ s the olderwomanwhobought my dining room table and chairs. She got into some financial trouble shortly afterward and I "loaned" her the same amount. She got more than that, too, one night shortly afterward. Have I heard from her since? Oh, why don’t you decide? Doesit seem that I have a sign across my forehead saying,"Horny Lesbian- Will Apparendy Do Anything For Sex. PLEASE Fold, Spindle, And Mutilate When Finished"? But even after spending my twentysixth Valentine’s Day in arow listening to Janis Ian’s "At Seventeen", I still believe in the romantic future. And in the luck of the Irish. And that there really IS a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Maybe this Gregory will be lucky enough, come St. Paddy’s Day, to believe that what she touches can turn to gold. or at least believe in love again. THAT would be lucky. Karin Gregory is a Fort Worth-based writer. organizers note that the $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast but that some financial assistance is available for those for whom the fee is too much. However, they do emphasize that the deadline is March 1 lth. For more information, contact College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, or call 592-5800. Men’s Group. This program is d~signed to assist men to learn ~t~m safe sex practices, relationships, ~dotl~erissues. Meetings will take place_~..~a~ Thursday night at 7pm. :. _ . FriMore Lig ht PR S B YT E R IAN S RE:CONNECTING BODY + SPIRIT March 16-18 at the historic and. beautifully wooded Dwight Mission. A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime... This LGBT specific event seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The event seeks to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Friday evening will be a get acquainted time. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday morning worship follows breakfast. The $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast. Financial assistance is available. The deadline is March 11th. College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, 592-5800 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2001] Tulsa Family News, March 2001; Volume 8, Issue 3 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Bush Glaxo SmithKline hate crimes HIV HIV testing Karen Gregory Lamont Lindstorm LGBT police Merck and Co. military inclusion Murder Openarms Youth Project Partner Benefits performing arts Pfizer Presbyterian Church Raging Lesbian Red Cross Red Rock Tulsa restaurants Soulforce STDs the closet tolerance curriculum Tom Neal TU Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance Tulsa Family News Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights United Way https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/106cfd279f62fea97a90e873f4c2ef19.jpg 94d8f329c885af31c0dfff66fa95dc42 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8baefd28452dccf89146566a1afe87d1.pdf be16ca1224a3677c465dddb080fd7d50 PDF Text Text Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends Jenks Senior S.tarts Presbyterians Hold Gay/Straight Alliance Gay Spirituality Event Tulsa .Red Cross Pledges to Diversity TULSA (TFN)- In a recent interview with chief executive officer Roger Dahl, Polly B owen, chief administrati,~e officer, Melissa Ramirez, public relations officer, and new diversity co-ordinator Dannette McIntosh, the Tulsa Chapter of the American Red Cross (non-blood services) discussed their new "diversity" policy. The policy, which applies to paid staff and volunteers, recognizes explicitly "sexual orientation" as well as statuses which traditionally have legal recognition. The written policy states the intent for the "American Red Cross to be an inclusive community, free from discrimination and prejudice." The statement includes a signature line which volunteers or staff must sign. According to Dahl and McIntosh, the change is in keeping with traditional Red Cross goals~vhich strove to provide services to all based only on need. But in a recent organizational review, see Cross, p. 10 Transgendered Cop to Speak at TOHR Meeting TULSA (TFN) - On March 13, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) will its monthly membership meeting. In addition tO a social period beginning at 6:30 with soft drinks, and organizational business at 7: 30, the meeting will feature a speaker whois opeul.y transgendered and who is an Oklahoma City police officer. The speaker is knowledgable in self-defense techniques. Other business will include budget and other announcements about this summer’s Diversity Fest and Parade. Later in the month, TOHR will host the second of the Gill Foundation fundraising seminars. Some 21 groups have joined TOHR in this training, most of whom are not Lesbian or Gay groups. They include Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Philharmonic, NARAL, the Tulsa Boys Home, Neighbors on the Line, the League of Women Voters, as well as Council Oak Men’s Chorale, HOPE, Tulsa CARES, and PFLAG. On March 24, at 7pro, TOHR wil! host a pot-luck dinner at the Center. Also, TOHR and Red Rock Behavioral Health Services are implementing two new programs. The first is a Coming Out group. This program is designed to assist persons who are in the initial stages of dealing with their sexuality. The program is open to women and men. Meetings will take place at the Community Center each Tuesday night at 7pm. see TOHR, p. 11 MJ DIRECTORY EDITORIAL US & WORLD NEWS ~ HEALTH NEWS P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 Z ENTERTAINMENT + MORE GAY STUDIES/RAGING LESBIAN P. 10/11 ~ JENKS, AMERICA (TFN) - When right wing Utah US Senator Orrin Hatch created an equal access bill to allow student religious groups to use public school facilities, he probably never dreamed he was also making it possible for Gay and Gay-friendly high school students to start Gay/Straight Alliances - even in conservative Oklahoma. But in Jenks, one of Tul sa’ s suburbs (which like Broken Arrow grew from a small farm town in the 60’s and 70’ s as Tulsa whites fled integration in Tulsa Public Schools), an 18 year old senior did his homework, knew the law, bucked the system, got some help and got a Gay/Straight Alliance (GSA) started. Kevin Barker said he once didn’t think he’d be the one to start a GSA. He is friends with Will Allen and Kent Doss, other young Gay activists and knew Allen had helped start a GSA at Tulsa’s Washington High. Doss encouraged Barker to take the initiative but Barker characterized himself as one who once considered the DC based Human Rights Campaign as "too radical." But as he went through his "coming out" process, opening up to his friends and school community - and generally being accepted, he reconsidered. And that’s when he started researching equal access laws, and looking at other resources. By the middle of last fall, he was ready and went to Jenks High School administrators and, not surprisingly, started to get the runaround. Perhaps school officials thought they could stall or bluff him enough that he’d give up. But Barker called for help and contacted the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network’s newest chapter in Oklahoma City. OKC GLSEN co-chair Rhouda Rudd received an e-mail from Barker and forwarded his letter to other members of the chapter. Chapter members Rob Abiera and Joe Quigley suggested that Barker contact Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). Qnigley, one of the founding members of Oklahoma City G LS EN and a teacher of several years’ experience, also sent a list of contacts, see Jenks, p. 2 In Or Out: Effects of the Closet TULSA ~TFN) - What are the psychological effects of being in or out of the closet for GLBT’s will be the subject of the next Sou!force In Oklahoma at a Tulsa meeting on Monday, March 19th. Dr. Shirley Hunter, from Oklahoma City, who is a Licensed Professional Coun.selor and a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, will be the guest speaker. According to Soulforce In Oklahoma, religious groups often covertly or overtly encourage Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual/Transgender persons to remain silent within churches about their sexuality or risk the possibility of rejection. Many faith groups advocate a "don’t ask -.don~t tell" policy for their congregants and ministers. As a consequence, GLBT folks struggle with the decision whether or not to come out. Dr. Hunter will speak on the subject of coming out and lead a discussion for audience participation. The meeting will be from 6-8pm at the Tulsa Gay/Lesbian/ Bisexual/Transgender Services Center. The center is located at 2114 S. Memorial, Tulsa. (918-743-4297). Shirley Hunter started her private practice in psychotherapy in Oklahoma,City in 1978. The focus of her practice has been for Gays, Lesbians and their families. Dr. Hunter was instrumental in establishing the first Gay help line in Oklahoma City in the early 80’s. She was also a participant in the first homosexual hearings of the United Methodist Church, and served on the task force for homosexuality at Church of the Servant, one of the state’s largest Methodist churches. Dr. Hunter has spoken to groups throughout the stateinduding university groups, community groups, and professional groups concerning Gay, Lesbian and HIV issues. Dr. Hunter and her partner, Jan Tipton, have been together for almost 23 years, and they reside in OKC. In Tulsa, the group meets on the 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month and is a grassroots movement of GLBT and allied people, from diverse rdigious traditions who are dedicated to bringing about justice for the GLBT community. For more information visit the Soulforce National website at "www.soulforce.org" or contact local members: Karen at "karen@cwis.net", 918-4522761, Sue at "knalig@worldnet.att.net", 587-3248, or Femando at "Pandafe477@cs.com", 295-0030. TULSA (TFN) - Tulsa’s College Hill Presbyterian Church, 10ng known as the progres sive church among local congregations is sponsoring a weekend retreat for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender persons. The event called, "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" will be on March 16-18 at the historic Presbyterian camp Dwight Mission near Muskogee. It’s billed as "A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime..." and features as facilitator, the Reverend Laurene M. Lafontaine. Lafontaine is an out Lesbian and an alumnae of Princeton Theological Seminary, and serves as "pulpit supply" (floating minister) for Denver area churches. Lafontaine also teaches and coaches at Saint Mary’s Academy in Englewood, Colorado. "Re-Connecting Body and Spirit" seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The retreat hopes to help individuals to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Organizers say that the retreat’will offer opportunities for worship, discussion, recreation, bonding, and alliance building. The goal is to build a church for everyone. The event will start after 6pm on Friday evening as participants arrive. That evening will be a get acquainted time with no formal programs except for a Vespers service at 10pm. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday momingworship follows breakfast, see Retreat, p. 11 ¯ Presbyterians Vote On Anti-Gay Amendment ¯ US/TULSA (AP/TFN) -Around the United States, ¯ regional governing bodies for the Presbyterian Church, ¯ U.S.A. are voting on a measure called "Amendment O."The amendment is another product of the30-year ¯ struggle over homosexuality, that has gripped the 2.6 ¯ million-member Presbyterian church and other main¯ line Protestant denominations. The proposed amend" ment, passed by the national governing body of the ¯ denominationin2000,wouldruleoutinvoking"God’s ¯ blessing.., on any relationship that is inconsistent ¯ with" the view that people should live "in fidelity ¯ within the covenant of marriage between a man and ¯ a woman or in chasti,ty in singleness." ~ The proposed amerldment would insert an instruc~ tion in the church’s governing Book of Order that ¯ Presbyterian churches and clergy must not approve or ¯ invoke God’s blessing on any relationship but those. ¯ For some Presbyterians, that raised the specter of ¯ babies-denied baptism if born out of wedlock, or refusing marriage to couples who had lived together ~ for years. ¯ At press time, theproposed ban on same-sex unions was failing nationally, 39 to 67, according to an unofficial count on Presbyweb, one of several independent church groups posting running vote totals on ¯ the Interact. However, all sides expected the margin to tighten by the May 25 deadline. South Louisiana Presbyterians voted to reject Amendment O. The vote marked the first time that a majority of the leaders for the more than 13,000 ¯ Presbyterians in the southern part of Louisiana have granted a victory to Gay Presbyterians. It remained unclear, however, if the vote meant they approve of ¯ Gay marriage. Some commissioners of the Presbytery of South Louisiana, see Vote, p. 2 �¯ aregional grouping of 71 local Presbyterian ¯ 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants churches, said they were voting against a POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159, e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlink.net 832-1269 "¯ national proposal to ban same-sex unions *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine ¯ 610-5323 : PubLisher + Editor: Tom Neal *CW’s, 1737 S. Memorial because it seemed incidentally to ban much ¯ 838-9792 ." *Play-Mor, 424 S. Memorial Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Kati~egory, Barry else, such as baptizing children of single 744-4280 ¯ ¯ mothers. Commissioners defeated the proPol6 Grill, 2038 Utica Square Hensley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lamont Lindstrom,-Esther *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 " posal 77-63, sending their vote to headquarRothblum, Mary Schepers, Hughston Walkinshaw~ -. ¯ *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 " ters of the Presbyterian Church in Louis¯ ville, Ky., where the votes of the nation’s 280-1316 : Member of The Associated Press --~_~ _ *Schatzi’s, 2619 S. Memorial 834-4234 ¯ ¯ other 172 presbyteries are being tallied. *The Star, 1565 Sheridan Issued around the 1 st of each month, the entire conte~s of this 660-0856 " : The Presbytery of Greater Atlanta which *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial publication are protected by US copyright 2001 by Tulsa 584-1308 " *Tool Box II, 1338 E. 3rd ~represents 110 churches voted down AmendFamily News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in 835-2376 : *Vortex, 2182 S. Sheridan " merit O, while its counterpart in northeast part without written permission from the publisher. Publica749-1563 ¯ *The Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E. 15th ¯ Georgia voted the other way. The 256-225 tion of a name or photo does not indicate a person’s sexual " Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Atlanta vote agmnst the amendment came orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication ~ by paper ballot after an hour’s discussion. Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 : unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole 25O-5034 " : The Northeast Georgia Presbytery voted in Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 property of Tulsa Family News. Eachxeader is entitled to 4 665-4580 . ¯ favor of the amendment 65-61. "We had a Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 5231 E. 41 copies of each edition at distribution poi~.~:-~_712-1122 ~ very spiritual, pastorally sensitive and open Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722 E. 15 Additional copies are available by calling 58~3~. 712-9955 " ¯ debateeven thoughour votewas very close," *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 ¯ 494-2665 said the Rev. Keyon Meeks Jr., executive of *Borders Books & Music, 8015 S. Yale 743 -5272 ", *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E.-31~-~., 742-2457 ¯ the presbytery. Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa - Lesbian & Gay Catl:~oliEs & ¯ 746-0313 Currently, according to a ruling last year *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Peoria -- 355:T140 , Episcopalians, POB 701475, 74170-1475 295-5868 " by the denomination’s highest court, minis*Cheap Thrills, 2640 E. 1 lth 747-7777 ters in the denomination may perform sameCherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743 -4117 ." *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard *Free Spirit Women’s Center, call for location &info: 587-4669 622-0700 sex blessing services as long as they are not Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 747-6827 " Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 " Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 582-0438 " c.o.nsidered the same as marriage ceremoFriends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 749-3620 rues. *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 834-4194 *Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., 3507 E. Admiral 744-5556 The Presbytery of Eastern Oklahoma is Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria 834-8378 838-8503 ¯¯ HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education scheduled to vote on Amendment O, along *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan *HouseoftheHoly SpiritMinstrie~, 1517 S. Memorial 224-4754 369-8555 with a number of other proposed amendEncompass Travel, 13161H N. Memorial ¯ *MCC United, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 584-0337, 712-9379 ments on Tuesday, March 6 at John Knox Ross Edward Salon 748-3111 592-0460 ¯¯ NAMES Project, 3507 E. Adunr~tal P1. Presbyterian Church. Events Unlimited, 507 S. Mmn NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 365-5658 744-9595 Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. P~,o.ria ¯ OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 610-0880 Four Star Import Automotive, 9906 E. 55th P1. 628-3709 ¯ *OSU-Tulsa Cathy Furlong, Ph.D., 1980 Utica Sq. Med. Ctr. 749-4901 808-8026 ¯¯ PFLAG, POB 52800, 74152 Gay & Lesbian Affordable Daycare 587-7674 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 742-1460 TOHR’s president Kerry Lewis (who is *Gloria Jean’s Gourmet Coffee, 1758 E. 21st ¯ Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118.74152 ¯ 459-9349 an attorney) and the Oklahoma chapter of Learme M. Gross, Insurance & financial planning 749-4195 R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network ¯ 744-7440 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney the American Civil Liberties Union pro584-2325 ¯ " vided him with legal advice on how to deal *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 ¯ *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 425-7882 St. Aidan’s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cindnnati 341-6866 ¯ withresistance on the part of the principal at *International Tours ¯ St Dunstan’s E iscopal, 5635 E 71st 492-7140 712-2750 ¯ Jenks High School. Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 582-3088 *St. Jerome’s Parish Church, 205 W. King 582-3018 *Jared’s Antiques, 1602 E. 15th : Barker’s experience with his principal’s 747-0236 ¯¯ Soulforce-OK, Rt.4,#3534,Stigler74462 587-3248,452-2761 ¯ stalling might now seem funny. He was David Kauskey, Country Club Barbering 583-7171 *Tulsa Area United Way, 1430 S. Boulder 582-8460 The Keepers, Housekeeping & Gardening ¯ *TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 ¯ asked to give them more time, told that they 599-8070 *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 595-4105 ¯ had to talk with the school attorney who just 747-5466 ¯ Tulsa County Health Department, 4616E. 15 : happened not to be available, etc. but who Kelly Kirby, CPA, 4021 S. Harvard, #210 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only 585-1234 ¯¯ ¯ suddenly became much more accessible af*Living ArtSpace, 308 South Kenosha Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, Gay Comm. Center 743-4297 ¯ ter Barker called local mainstream media: 584-3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3rd ¯ TUL-PAC, Positive Advocacy Coalition, POB2687,Tulsa 74101 ¯ 663 -5934 Apparently shortly after receiving calls from Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 ¯ T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform]Leather Seekers Assoc. 298-0827 664-2951 ¯ : TV and Tulsa World reporters, inducting *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 838-7626 ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule ¯ Ch. 8’s Glenda Silvey, Barker was called Puppy Pause II, 1060 S. Mingo ¯ *Tulsa Community College Campuses 743 -4297 into the principal’s office where he received *The Pride Store ¯ 743-4297 *Tul sa Gay Commumty Center, 21 st & Memorial 747-5932 ", something that resembled an apology. Rainbowz on the River B+B, POB 696, 74101 749-8833 ¯ 834-0617 ¯ Unity Church of Christianity, 3355 S. Jamestown However, since receiving approval for the Richard’s Carpet Cleaning ¯ ¯ group, the GSA has continued to struggle to 834-7921, 748-0224 ¯ BARTLESVILLE Teri Schutt, Ellen & Co. 918-337-5353 ¯ receive equal access to school resources 260-7829 Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone Paul Tay, Car Salesman 481-0558 ¯ TAHLEQUAH ," which other groups take for granted. This *Tulsa Comedy Club, 6906 S. Lewis 835-5563 ¯ 918-456-7900 : harassment ranges from the sudden enforceVenus Salon, 1247 S. Harvard Stonewall League, call for information: 743-1733 ¯ 918-456-7900 ¯ ment onrules about handing out flyers (rules Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church ¯ 665-2222 918-453-9360 that had never been enforced recently) to *Wherehouse Music, 5150 S. Sheridan ’ k Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 592-0767 - *Whittier News Stand, 1 N Lewis ¯ having their group announcements in the EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS school bulletin printed in miniscule type. www.gaytulsa.org website for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians 501-253-7734 Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy. 23 ¯ Despite the struggle, Jenks GSA had a Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities 501-253-7457 ¯ Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main successful first meeting with 40 people at501-253-6807 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 743-2363 501-253-5445 " tending, about 30 of whom were not Gay. ,M1 Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria ¯ And the success in Jenks appears to have 587-7314 ¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 501-253-9337 : MCC of the Living Spring 583 -7815 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 ¯ inspired the formation of groups at Tulsa 583 -9780 B/L/G/T Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa United Min. Ctr. 501-253-5332 ¯¯ Rogers, Union High and in Broken Arrow. ¯ Old Jailhouse Lodging, 15 Montgomery 585-1201 As Barker notes, if it can happen at Jenks, Chamber of Commerce Bldg., 616 S. Boston " 501-624-6646 Positive Idea Marketing Plans ¯ then it can happen anywhere, and he stated *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI. & Florence 501-253-4074 587-1314 ¯ White Light, 1 Center St. ¯ in an e-mail to his allies, "the law, and God Church of the Restoration UU; 1314 N.Greenwood JOPLIN, MISSOURI 747-6300 " was on our side for this one, and we did it!. *Community of Hope Church, 2545 S. Yale ¯ 41%623-4696 Spirit of Christ MCC, 2639 E. 32, Ste. U 134 ¯ .do not be discouraged, the world will *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 748-3888 iswhereyoucanffmdTl~N.NotallareGay.ownedba,,a~.~o.,.,IH~my"~’~ ~ ¯ change, even if it is one person at a timeF’ Council Oak Men’s Chorale 712-1511 *Delaware Playhouse, 1511 S. Delaware ,.... �by Elizabeth Birch, executive director WASHINGTON (Feb.2 !) - As we begin a new political reality with Georg~W. Bush as our nation’s 43rd president and Republicans in charge of Congress and the White House for the first time in four decades, supporters of Gay equality have expressed apprehension about what this political moment portends for Gay issues. While the question remains largely unanswered, we can gain some comfort in noting that we are also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavior, whether by self-righteous radio hosts or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president. : ~ ¯ " ] President Bush has largely tried to ¯¯ sidestep Gay issues throughout his pub¯ lic career. When he has been pinned foit in noting we are down on issues, he mosdy tries to balance his positions by trying not to appear intolerant, yet not alienating his socially conservativebase. Hehas commendably stated he will not discriminate based on sexual orientation. However, his statements have consistently been tempered with implications that homosexuality is a private matter underscoring the inequity contrasted by heterosexuality being an obvious public matter. Despite his strategy of avoidance, President Bush has taken a few positions as governor and during, his campaign that are not Gay-supportave, most notably his support in the spring of 1999 for a law that would ban Gay people from adopting children. The public has come along way over the course of the last eight years toward support of Gay issues. When asked in 1992, by the Gallup organization whether Gays should have equal job opportunities, 71% Of those polled said "yes." By 1999, 83% said "yes." When asked by Gallup whether homosexuality should be an acceptable lifestyle, in 1992, 38% said"yes." By 1999, 52% had said"yes." In 1995, apoll conducted by Lake Snell Perry showed Independents, akey Bush constituency, when asked whether they thought Gay rights were equal rights or special rights, 41% said "equal." By 1998, that number jumped to 55%. This data underscores an increasingly supportive electorate that will provide a firm foundation on which we can build relationships with the new administration. The lessons we have learned since 1994 when Republicans took over the Senate and the House of Representatives, is that public opinion has provided us with vital leverage. Working with allies inside and outside of Congress we have been able to stop every anti-Gay legislative attack, and there were many, except one, the Defense of Marriage Act. During this period, the Employment Non Discrimination Act came within one of vote of passing the Senate and though it has yet to become law, the Hate Crimes Prevention Act passed the Senate by a wide margin and the House passed a non-binding resolution supporting the measure. Our progress does not rest with any one individtml, political party or component of government. It comes from making our case to the American people, who at the end of day, will be the final arbiters of judgment regarding our nation’s leaders. When the new President Bush nominated former Missouri Sen. John Ashcroft to be attorney general the conventional wisdom among most Gay advocates was that the President would have had a tough time picking someone anti-Gay. The fact that the attorney general can have a direct, dramatic impact on the lives of Gay people only exacerbated the apprehension surrounding the nomination. What transpired during the confirmation process was unexpected. Sen. Ashcroft felt the political need to state unequivocally under oath that he w ould not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, apositionhe never took (or had to take) until coming before the full body of public opinion represented by the entire Senate. Of course, we will judge him by his actions, not his words. After eight years of the Clinton Administration, our community, its orgamzations and leaders are looking at what lies ahead in this new, more ambiguous environment. Not all will come to the same conclusions and not all will be driven by the same priorities, but most are motivated by the goal of equality for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, and Transgendered Americans. At the Human Rights Campaign, we campaigned vigorously for A1 Gore for president. We thought he represented the best hope for our commum ty and would offer the best environment to move our issues forward. That did not come to pass. The campaign is over. It is time to govern. The new president has completed his transition from campaign to governing. So too does HRC move from campaigning to making sure the new administration governs fairly and inclusively. We will accomplish this by using political acumen, relationships with Congress, the moral imperative and the growing support of public opinion. The Washington, D.C. based Human Rights Campaign is the largest US civil rights organization focused On Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered issues. HRC engages in education and lobbying at the federal level. Call HRC-Tulsa at 582-4673. "... we can gain some com- that also living in a reality of growing public distaste for anti-Gay behavlor, whether by Christian Grantham The first time I heard songs from the Marshal Mather’s LP by tapper Eminem was on MTV. The music didn’t seem all that different from everything else the network played, and I didn’t pay too much attention. It wasn’t undl the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) publicly critiqued the album and led protests at the MTV Music Awards against the artist that I gave it another listen. The questionable content that concerned GLAAD was lyrical prose depicting violence against Gays and women. The lyrics were a perfect vehicle for the organization to demonstrate how homophobia has permeated our culture. Like a predictable, virus, the controversy acted as a host and propdled the artist’s content into the spotlight whe4e art’ s success i s often measured. The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any provocative art. What’s great about the album is F,minem’s presentation: it’s angry, it’s raw and it’s real. It’s so real, in fact, that Eminem took criticism from Gay and Lesbian leaders and publications for somehow inspiring society’s homophobia. Supporters like Madonna, Stevie Wonder and Elton John came to his defense reminding us that blaming, the artist for society’s ills cuts both ways. Who knows how many unwanted pregnancies in the 80s Madonna is responsible for, right? It wasn’t until Elton John agreed to perform with the controversial tapper at the Grammy’s that the shit hit the "fans," so to speak. by self-rlghteous radio host,- or misguided office seekers. In the marketplace of ideas, anti-Gay positions are finding fewer and fewer takers - a point not lost on our new president.. ¯." "... The lyrical content is disturbing. But "disturbing" can describe pretty much any provocative art. ~/hat’s great about the album is Emlnem’s presentation: it’s angry~ it’s raw and it’s real ..." Caught off guard, GLAAD quickly urged Elton John to live up to the standards for which he was presented GLAAD’ s Vito Russo Award the previous year for outstanding work with the Gay and Lesbian commumty. Activist Robin Tyler said in an open letter to Elton John that he was "spitting on the grave of Matthew Shepard." Gay.corn’s Michael Signorile wrote that it was "arrogant of Elton John to use his power in a way that undercuts an entire movement" unless he got a permission slip from the executive directors of the Gay and Lesbian movement. GLAAD’s Executive Director, Joan Gerry, implored Elton John to "not perform with Eminem at the Grammy Awards." Dr. Dre’s protOg6 learned from the best and rode it all the way to the bank. Gay and Lesbian attacks on tapper Eminem scapegoated the artist and a marginalized medium for society’s homophobia. The tactic was long popular with religious political extremists to blame Gays and Lesbians for everything from child molestation to broad declines of morality. Gay and Lesbian activists argued Eminem was scapegoating Gays and women inhis prose. Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! If anything, our movement s duet w~ Eminem exposes our own occasional reliance on questionable tactics. It also highlights what a willing dance parmer we make for people, such as Eminem, by rushing headlong ires giving them the attention they so desire. What’s worse m our apparent role as "art critic" is the pressure of political expectations placed on artists we ceremoniously award. Elton Johnis an entertainer who owes creative control to no one but himself. If he wishes to play the"Uncle Tom," as letters to the editor describe him, let’s pick up Elton’s depiction and talk about the Uncle Toms in our commtmi.ty. Or is this a sore spot for folks? If the duet is about homophobia in your face, let’s address what we’re doing about it and not "who should and shouldn’t artistically represent it and why." Elton John isn’t the only artist to experience this from our community. In a discussion I had on GayBC with Queer As Folk’s Executive Producer, Ron Cowen, he balked at activist demands that QAF’s story line represent diversity, as though it’s his job to be social engineer. If art reflects a less than politically correct reality, we all have short comings to address. Charles L. Mackay, LL.D, once wrote in Extraordinary Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds that people "think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly; and one by one." Our movement’s reaction to Eminem and Elton John show Gays and Lesbians aren’t immune to being apt hosts. Many of those who attack F.minem hide behind claims that his rap is not art and is a true confession. The last I recall we left deciding what is and isn’t art to Congressman Jesse Helms and NY Mayor Rudy Giuliani. Madness makes strange bedfellows of foes. I wonder what our friends must be thinking? Madonna, no stranger to the controversy herself, said in the L~A. Times that Eminem is simply’~reflecdng what s going onin society right now and That is what art ~s supposed to do." Stevie Wonder also pointed out that "art is a reflection of our society, and people don’t like to confront the realities in society." As long as Gay and Lesbian leaders dodge the"realitiesmsoc|ety ln favor of lynching homophobla smessenger, allwe refunding is an endless game of"whack the mole." I’d settle, however, for old fashion activism over playing art critic any day. In the least case, it would be great to get a heads up on when it will be Howard Stem, David Geffen or Ru Paul’s turn. William S. Burroughs, a founder of the Beat Generation, himself Gay and brought to court over the questionable content of his novels, once said "The next revolution will be iwgnOrin~ others out of existence." I have to wonder someumes if the free market of ideas ould l~ave left Eminem at the bottom had we not lifted it up as a pet example rather than focusing on society’s ills his art reflects. Enough about Eminem. Christian Grantham has a talk show on GayBC Radio Network. www.gaybc.com �School Board to Consider Advocate for Gay Kids MADISON, Wis. (AP) - Appointment of a full-time advocate for Gay.and Lesbian students is desperatdy needed in Madison to combat harassment, ignorance and indifference such students face, supporters of the proposal say. "The level of despair, the level of crisis, is often quite severe," said Michael Apple, an education professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madi- their sexual identity, becomes public. "These issues are not easy, especially when you have children," she said. The final full session of the conference ended with a ~lea by organizers for more energetic lobbying in state legislatures on behalf of stepfamilies. "State laws give almost no lega~ recogniuon to the residential stepparent,’.’ said Margorie Engel, president of the Stepfamily Association of America. "The legal system focuses too exclusively on bloodlines." Tolerance Curriculum Criticized in Santa Fe Find out for yourself how good the Lord iS! - Ps. 34:8 Come share goodness of the Lord with our community ~Sunday Morning 11:00 AM Children’s Worshi p During Service MCC United S°~o specific job description exists yet, but a prelimiRev. Cathy Elliott, Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood (918)838-1715 rncctulsa@aol,con nary proposal Calls for the advocate to work with district departments to make them more inclusive and SANTA FE (AP) - A minister and a parent say the help Gay and Lesbian students with their studies and tolerance curriculum approved by the Santa Fe school probiems. The position could be filled by the end of the board for middle and high school students needs to be redone.. The school board last week approved the year pending board approval. Dr. Paul Grossberg of University Health Services curriculum, which recognizes homophobia as s~xual said a presidential task force found about one of every violence. The Project Glyph Anti-Homophobia, Prejudice-Reduction Curriculum is optional for teachers to three youth suicides involv ,e~, teen-agers struggling with tt]eir sexual orientation. It is unconscionable for use, and parents will be notified before the lessons in usas acommtmity tobesllentaboutthislssue, hesmd. case they want to excuse their children. Michdle Parker, parent of an elementary school The Madison district has similar full-time teachers at Community of Hope that work with Southeast Asian, Hispanic and Americhild, said she stopped reading the curricuium after the can Indian students. Only eight other districts in the glossary, which includes definitions for transsexual, country are known to have full-time advocates for Gay transvestite and transgender. Bisexuality and homo2$4~ South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0~9~ T h e sexuality are listed as normal behavior - definitions the students, according to the n A Welcoming Congregation proposal has drawn several opposing letters to area . :urriculum attributes to the American Psychiatric ,A.~snewspapers. . ~ociation. Parker said the definition of homosexumxty ~ontradicts the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. "We believe it is not a normal state of being, she sa~ . Pa~ker saidhomosexuals should be treated with respect, but that the school district should throw out the, project and start over. NEW ORLEANS (AP) - Beyond the basic complexiThe Rev. Canon Dale Coleman of the Church of the Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am ties confronting most stepfamilies, those in the mil!Holy Faith Episcopal, who has two children in the tary and those headed by same-sex couples face addiWed. Bible Study, 7 pm; Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm t~ublic schools, also said the curriculum needs " .... revisi,n,g. tional daunting challenges, experts told a U.S. confersaid A "I wouldbeall for atolerance curnculum, he ¯ ence at the end of February. 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 Christian cannot support prejudice or violence against For military stepfamilies, temporary overseas dekids." However, he said Project Glyph takes "axi exployment of a spouse may leave a.stepparent alone treme position" in labeling as normal various kinds of with children who have yet to accept a new authority sexual lifestyles. Curriculum advocates say the lessons figure. Same-sex couples may have to cope withprejuare necessary because teen-agers are confronted with dices, and their children may struggle in explaiuing the derogatory slang about homosexuals and song lyrics family structure to others. The issues were raised at the about beating up homosexuals and that some students National Conference of Stepfamilies, a first-of-itsare ridiculed in school. Young Adult Support Group kind symposium bringing together experts from a The project was created by the Santa Fe Rape Crisis Outreach Program Thurs. Nights variety of fields to consider ways of improving support CentJer. Some.. ministers spoke,,out against the curricu-,, for stepfamilies. lum, feanng xt would promote ahomosexual agenda. Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Francesca Adler-Baeder, a parent education speBut the Santa Fe Ministerial Alliance said lastApril it Call for meeting times and place: cialist affiliated with Comell University, discuss.edher stood behind the tolerance-based project. The curricuwork with the U.S. Defense Department, trying to lum covers sexual orientation and gender identity; identify the problems posed by stepfamilies in the homophobia and how it affects everyone; and how to military. About 55% of all service members are marbe an ally to people of all orientations and help stop fled, and at least one-fifth of them are estimated to be " violence. I The four school board members at the meeting in stepfamilies, she said. ¯ Anne Bernstein, a family therapist and professor at ~ supported the curriculum. Supenntendent Vero_ni.’ca .C. the University of California-Berkeley, discussed the Garcia also spoke favorably of the program, calling ~ts distinctive challenges facing same-sex couplesincases ¯ subject a "human rights issue." Mayor Larry Delgado where one of them has custody of one °r m°re children has endorsed the program, too. at the time the adults become partners. "Even more 9413 E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 Project Glyph, part of the Santa-Fe Rape Crisis than other stepfnmilies, these fnmilies are at variance Center, first approached the board in Novemberi999 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-4AA-5934 with the models in our dominant culture," Bemstein with its effort to make Santa Fe safe and inclusive for Family Owned & Opbrated said. "These people can fed invisible or rejected as a all youth, especially Lesbian, Gay, bisexual and family." transgender children. She said members of such families may have diffiSome Santa Fe ministers then spoke out against the culty finding the right terms foreach other; a child curriculum, fearing it would promote the homosexual ,,n~,~ht fumble for a replywhen asked by a teach,e,r,~ lobby’s agenda. But the Santa Fe Ministerial ,Alliance ~-ho is this person who picks you up from school? Trinna L. ,W. Burrows, LSWs ACSW said in a letter last April iLstood behind the tolerance..Bemstein said most of the same=sex Couples she Child, Family, Individual & Couple Psychotherapy based project. The curriculum covers sexual orientaworks with are Lesbians, but she has detected particution and gender identity; homophobia and how it lar problems faced by some Gay men thrust.into affects everyone; and how to be an ally to people of all (918) 743-9559 stepfather roles. 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In a class of 30, on average, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114-3518 Bernstein said her home town of Berkeley, Califorthere are three to eight students who identify or might nia, is rdatively tolerant, but noted that some same-sex someday identify themselves as Lesbian, Gay or Bicouples with childrenin other areas fear stigmatization sexual, the curriculum states. - or possibly even losing custody of the children - if Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation Gay+Military Stepfamilies " Face Challenges OUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT The Open Arms Project 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers �The Pride Store 21st Street & Memorial Tulsa Gay Community Services Center 743-GAYS (743-4297) 6-9 pm, Sunday - Friday 12-9 pm, Saturday, all sales benefit the Center TOM NEAL BUILDING & GARDEN DESIGN 583-1248 Red Rock Tulsa Free Confidential HIV Testing Walk-in Clinics Tues. & Thurs., 5:8 pm at the Center, 1307 East 38th Daytime appointments available. 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Scottsdale.Considers Partners Health Benefits Parker became angry with the victim for telling others about a sexual relationship the two had. After drinking beer and snorting a crushed tranquilizer, Parker allegedly starting hitting Warren with his fists and stomping on him with steel-toed boots. In his statement, Wilson told investigators he participated briefly in the beating for fear Parker’s rage would turn on him. The then-17-year-olds are also accused of taking Warren’s body to a rural road and driving over him four times with a Camaro in a failed effort to stage a hit-and-run. College Claims Adequate Response to Hate Crimes SCOTI’SDALE, Ariz. (AP) - The Scottsdale City Council is considering extending health care benefits to the domestic partners of city employees, including same-sex partners. The city’s proposed health care plan’was devised in part to bolster Scottsdale’s efforts in recruiting and retaining workers in a competitiv ejob market. The number of job applications for open positions is down, as is the overall quality of candidates, said Neal Shearer, the city’s human resources administrator. "We want to eliminate whatever barriers we can that impede our ability to attract and retain the talent we need to get the job done," Shearer said. City employees have also begun requesting the benefits, and officials hope to extend the policy to avoid any perception of discrimination, he said. Eligibility requirements still are being determined. Gay civil-rights activists see Scottsdale’s benefits proposal as part of a trend, said Steve Brandwein, a board member forthe Arizona Human Rights Fund, a Gay civil-rights advocacy group. "City councils and city human resources departments are learning just like corporations are that in order to remain competitive this is very sensible business," Brandwein said. In the state, Phoenix, Tempe, and Tucson also offer benefits to domestic partners. But an attorney with a history of challenging domestic partner policies nationally said the benefits would weaken morality. "One of the strongest reasons we oppose any attempts to broaden public support for alternative lifestyles such as the (domestic partner) ordinances or city actions do, is that they really do weaken the value of marriage," said Alan Sears, president and general counsel of the Alliance Defense Fund. LYNDON, Vt. (AP) - Lyndon State College officials have denied accusations that the college is ignoring hate crimes on campus. Officials responded to claims made last week by a sophomore student who said college administrators retaliated against him because of his Web site, http://lyndonsucks.homestead.com. The site by Jacob Fortes, of Lowell, Mass., who is not Gay,accuses officials of ignoring student concerns about hate crimes, and mentions alleged hate crimes that target Gays at LSC. College President Carol Moore said Fortes made "outrageous claims." "I think we’ve done a good job and have responded quickly to some of the concerns about the homosexual climate on campus." Moore said. "We feel we have enough data to show that we have tried to set up programs to protect our Gay and Lesbian students." Moore said the school has pursued every incident of harassment that has been reported. As well, the college has increased efforts to raise awareness on the campus about Gay and Lesbian concerns, she said, including holding open forums attended for students and faculty members. Of the nearly 1,100 full-time students at LSC, about 25 arein the Gay and Lesbian Alliance, though not all are Gay or Lesbian, she said. Moore confirmed reports that a Gay student left the campus last year because he was uncomfortable. "The student felt he was in jeopardy physically and we could not guarantee round-the-clock protection for him," she said. The situation reflects society and LSC ]s not umque in dealing with these issues, Moore said. "You can educate but sometimes it just doesn’t take," she said. Suspects in Gay’s Murder To Be Clinically Evaluated Ex-United Way Staffer Attacks BSA Funding FAIRMONT, W.Va. (AP) - The trials of two teenagers charged in the murder of a Gay Black man from Marion County could be delayed by requests for psychiatric reviews. Special Prosecutors Scott Smith of Wheeling and Stephen Keuney of Charleston have asked Circuit Judge David Janes to have both teenagers reviewed by a psychiatrist. David Allen Parker, 18, is tentatively set to stand ,trial in Beckley on March.26, while co-defendant Jared Matthew Wilson is scheduled to appear in a Wheeling courtroom on May 29. The teen-agers are charged with first-degree murder and could be sentenced to life in prison if convicted of beating 26-year-old Arthur "J.R." Warren to death in Grant Town in July. Their trials are expected to last about a week. The teens have been interviewed by a psychologist, but neither has been examined by a psychiatrist, the prosecutors said in a filing with the court. Forensic psychologist Dr. William Fremouw has found both defendants mentally competent to stand trial and criminally responsible at the time of their alleged attack on Warren, according to court documents. Still, Parker’s lawyers have indicated they may pursue a diminished capacity defense. The beating of Warren began early July 4 when NEPTUNE, N:J. (AP) - A former finance director for the United Way of Monmouth County has filed a complaint to try to stop the nonprofit from funding B oy Scout troops. Maureen Glover’s complaint with the state Division of Civil Rights charges that she was subject to a hostile work environment because the agency funded the Scouts. She worked for the charitable umbrella organization from last June until she resigned in January. Glover, 45, told the Asbury Park Press of Neptune that on her first day of work, she was happy to sign an ethics code that prohibited discrimination on the basis of race, creed, age, sex or sexual orientation. Days later, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the Boy Scouts ".of America could bar Gays from leadership positions m a case that originated in Monmouth County. Glover accused her employer of violating its own ethics code. She said it was particularly distressing to find herself as finance director writing checks to the same Boy Scout council that ejected James Dale as scouunaster after learning he was Gay, an action that led to the Supreme Court case. Jim Borque, executive director of the Monmouth County United Way, said he disagreed with Glover’s charges, but declined to elaborate, citing the pending litigation. �California Men’s Syphilis Rate Rising Agency to Offer Free AIDS Drugs ATLANTA (AP) - An outbreak of syphilis in Southern California last year has provided alarming new evidence that Gay and Bisexual me~ are lowering their guard against AIDS, the government said. More than half of the syphilis cases in a four-county area during the first half of 2000 were in men who reported having had at least one male sex partner- up from 26% a year earlier. Health officials said that the numbers are a signal that Gay and Bisexual men, encouraged by news of powerfully effective drug cocktails andlonger lifespans for AIDS patients, are wonying less about HIV. Both HIV and syphilis are sexually transmitted; condoms can protect against their spread. HIV "is no longer perceived to bethe threat that it once was," said Dr. Ronald Valdiserri, deputy director of the National Center for HIV, STD and TB Prevention, which is part of the Centers for .Disease Control and Prevention. ’q’hese are very serious findings." The Southern California cases and similar outbreaks in other major cities came after the national syphilis rate dropped in 1999 to its lowest level on record. Just 6,657 cases were reported in 1999, the last year for which national figures are available, or about one case per 40,000 people. Syphilis outbreaks inmajor cities"show that the disease can make a comeback," said Ken August, spokesman for ~ California D epartment of Health S ervices. ’tit’ s important for health-care providers to ask patients about their behavior and to deliver a strong prevention message." In four California counties - Los Angeles, San Diego, Orange and Riverside- 66 of 130 syphilis cases from January to July 2000 were in Gay or Bisexual men, compared with 26 of 100 cases in the same period in 1999. Of the 66 cases in 2000, 33 reported they had had anonymous sex, and 17 said they had met sex partners in bathhouses. Only onein fivereported using acondom during his most recent sexual encounter, and two in five reported using illegal drugs. ’¢rhese men were engaging m high-risk sexual behavior," Valdiserri said. "When we see reports of increasing risk behaviors, that’s when we take action. We don’t wait till we see the spike nationally" in HIV. Thirty-four of the 66 men reported they were HIV-positive, and nine said they did not know their HIV status. "You’ve got people who are doing well on the (HIV) drugs and believe then that they don’thave to worry about infection," said John Schtinlaoff, chief of public health operations for Los Angeles County. "Some people argue that there is burnout. They get weary of being protective." The CDC recommended a search for new, innovative ways to get the safe-sex message to Gay and Bisexual men in large cities. Syphilis infections in 1999 remained concentrated in the South, with roughly one case per 22,000 people. Three-quarters of syphilis victims nationwide were black. About 300 syphilis cases were reported in 2000 in California. BOMBAY, India (AP) - An international aid agency said Friday it will distribute an anti-AIDS drug purchsed from an h~dian company free of charge in 10 countries. Doctors Without Borders - or Medecins sans Frontieres - will buy the anti-AIDS cocktail from the Indian company Cipla Ltd. "In general, where the Cipla drug will be used, it will be supplied free of cost. Wherever it is purchased by governments, it would be sold at reduced prices," Daniel Berman of the agency’s Access to Essential Medicines campaign told The Associated Press. Berman said the agency will begin distributing the drugs "over the next couple of months." On Feb. 7, Cipla offered to sell a threedrug anti-retroviral cocktail to Doctors Without Borders t’or $350 per person, per year, if the aid agency agreed to distribute it for free and took care of the legalities of importing it. Cipla also offered to sell the triple-combination therapy drugs to governments for $600 per patient instead of the $10,000 to $15,000 charged in the United States and Europe. The Bombay-based company says it could manufacture the drugs cheaply becaus e production costs are low in India and it makes the raw materials. Berman along with Madrid-based pharmacist Carmen Perez met three top Cipla officials in Bombay and said the aid agency would integrate some of the Cipla drugs into antiretroviral pilot programs in-10 countries. "We will be using these drugs in these pilot programs." He declined to name the 10 countries, but said the program had already begun in Thailand and Cameroon. Berman said drug authorities from the United States, Australia, South Africa and Germany had visited the Cipla plant and certified standards. A joint statement by Doctors Without Bordersand Cipla said: "Governments of developing countries canimmediately take advantage of the offer... This offer is available without restrictions in time, geography or quantity." The Cipla offer raised concerns Lhat patent laws may be breached in some countries. In South Africa, 42 pharmaceutical comparfies have filed a lawsuit to prevent the government from distributing generic AIDS drugs becuase it ~nay violate World Trade Organization rules. Under the WTO rules, governments can issue compulsory licenses that allow genetic drugs to be manufactured if they declare a national health emergency. 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(2) If your congregation is fully welcoming, but your denomination is not, withhold the percentage (10% to 15%) that goes to your denomination. (3) If you have left a church that is not fully welcoming, consider a one-time return visit to drop a card in the offering plate with a note explaining why. Write a note on the back or add a letter to explain your actions-lovingly. Do lustice. See your spirit renewed and your church transformed. Let us include you on our Honor Roll of Faithful Dissenters. , Send your name or initials with a brief account to: HonorRoll@sou]force.org For centuries, anti-homosexual religious teachings have led to suicide, wasted lives,-discrimination and violence. I am withholding my gifts until God’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender children are fully welcomed by this church and/or denomination. Today, I am withholding my tithe/offering/special gift (or portion thereof) from to and contributing it because it welcomes and provides serAces to ~ God’s chiMren equally.-~-~--~~ as much my moral obligation not to cooperate with evil as it is to cooperate with good."- Ga~9m This bulletin insert is provided by Soulforce as part of its "Stop Spiritual Violence" campaign. agencies - effectively matching the Cipla offer. Cipla Chairman Yusuf Hamied said he welcomed moves by multinational companies to slash prices. "Since our initial outburst, things are moving in a positive direction. That is very satisfying,"Hamied said in an interview over the phone. Merck Begins Vaccine Trials NEW YORK (AP) - Pharmaceutical manufacturer Merck & Co. has begun a small-scale human trial of a new experimental HIV vaccine, The Wall Street Journal reported at the end of February. The new vaccine has been able to prevent laboratory monkeys exposed to an extremely vindent strain of the disease from contracting it, sources close to the trials told the Journal. This has AIDS scientists watching the results of the trials very dosdy. The company would not discuss the details of the laboratory trials, but did say it began testing the vaccine in healthy, uninfected volunteers last week. The drug is not the first possible vaccine to go into human trials. At least a d~iten .other companies are currently experimenting with a possible vaccine, but scientists familiar with the Merck trials say that their drug is among the most promismg. Merck official said they were reluctant to release any details regarding the trials before making a.formal presentation at a scientific forum in April, lest publicity raise false hopes. Priest Challenges Drug Companies doesn’t expect the government to stop D’Agostino. Also, Ongeri noted, the government is expected to pass a bill in parliament next month that would allow aid agencies to legally import generic drugs. The obstacle, Ongeri said, will likely be the drug companies. "The pharmaceutical industry should rise to the occasion and drop their prices in good time before we getto a level of (political) crisis," he said. One in eight Kenyans between the ages of 15and 49 are HIV positive, Ongeri said. Providing them with the patented drugs would cost between $141 million and $167 million - more than the country’s entire annual health budget of $115 million. Cipla offered to sdl Doctors Without Borders the anti-AIDS cocktailif the group agreed to distribute it for free and took care of the legalities of importing it. The group has agreed to help D’Agostino obtain the drugs. GlaxoSmithYdine declined to comment on D’Agostino’s plan. However, in announcing the company’s earnings, GlaxoSmithKline chief executive JeanPierre Gamier said patents are not the obstacle to supplying developing countries with medicines - poverty and weak health care systems are. Requests for comment from Boehringer and Bristol-Myers Squibb were not answered. However, a Boehringer spokesman asked about Cipla earlier this month said "intellectual property rights should be protected." GlaxoSmithKline Has 13% Profit Rise LONDON (AP) - Strong sales for its respiratory, antiviral and central-nervous-system drugs helped boost GlaxoSmithKline PLC profits by 13 % last year, the company announced recently. Pretax profit for the year ending Dec. 31 was 5.33 billion pounds ($7.73 billion). The results "demonstrate that in the new company, we have underlying strength which wasn’t slowed by the long preg~ nancy pause of the merger," said CEO Jean-Pierre Gamier. Antivirals - including the company’s HIV treatments - rose 15%. Sales of the firm’s HIV drugs grew 14%. NAIROBI, Kenya (AP) - Expanding an international campaign to make AIDS drugs affordable in the poorest nations, an American priest who works with HIVpositive orphans in Kenya said he planned to import cheap, generic medicines from India, Importing the drugs, which are the equivalents of patented medicines, is_illegal in Kenya. However, the bigger fight for the Rev. Angelo D’Agostino could come from pharmaceutical companies who own patents on the drugs. What D’Agostino fears is a lawsuit in Kenya like the one 42 pharmaceutical companies filed in South Africa to prevent that government from distributing generic AIDS drugs. "I am sick and tired of doing JOHANNESBURG, South Africa (AP) The U.S. pharmaceutical giant Pfizer Corp. funerals," said D’Agostino, who rims-the said Wednesday it will soon begin distribNyumbani Orphanage, home to 70 HIVuting the drug Diflucan free to HIV and positive orphans. He also treats 150 to 200 AIDS patients at government hospitals children living nearby. and clinics. Distribution of the drug will The orphanage recently received pribegin "within the next few weeks," a joint vate donations to buy drugs, but brandstatement from the health department and name medications cost $500 a month per Pfizer said. child, D’Agostino said. A generic equivaThe departr~ent removed a roadblock to lent offered by the Bombay, India-based the distribution by approving Diflucan for Cipla Ltd. would cost the orphanage $20 a the treatment of esophageal candidiasis, a month per child. fungal infection of the throat that occurs in There are legal loopholes D’Agostino could use to bring the drugs into Kenya, ¯ up_to~4-0% of AIDS patients. The drug, genetically known as Fluconazole, is albut they only provide for a small amount. ready used in South Africa as treatment for And besides, his plan to go to India, buy cryptococcal meningitis, an infection of the drugs and bring them back for his the brain that occurs in 10% of AIDS orphans seems feasible. Kenya’s minister patients. for public health, Dr. Sam Ongeri, said he Pfizer Distributing Free AIDS Drug your speci~needs! 800-559-1558 ~n~-~.NewNest.com �by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor ¯ never look at aplastic bag again as merely Happy Spring Equinox! -Also known as ¯ abag. The cast was amazingly diverse, and Easter, takenfrom the name of a Phoenician ¯ immensely handsome andbeautiful in their goddess of fertility,Oestre or Ostara, from ¯¯ ownways. Infact, itwas ashow where one would expect a bunch of athletic dancers, whence we get the imagery of bunnies and ¯ and the people in the cast were refresheggs. The hare was an animal sacred to many goddesses, and the egg was sym- - ingly real - and hll the more beautiful for bolic of the cycles of life, ~e cosmos, as ¯ it. And it was a rousing evening, marred only by the occurrence wellas eternity. Inmany "...Well, Tannhauser was several times of prechristian cultures, people’s cell phones this was also the time certainly an event not to be not part of the act - and for the rebirth of the so- missed. Lovely voices, deeply some who amazingly, lar god, of which the symbolle sta~in~ and sets, held conversations latest was Jesus. This is while the show was gothe time many scholars and some laughable and ing on. Lovely invensay he was" actually tion, the cell phone. Alborn. So there’ s the little fabulous costumes. And that lows for intrusive rudebit of learning channel was just the audlenee! ness at an unprecinfo for the month - let Actually, Wagner’s 3+ hour edented level on a masit never be said that this sive scale. The invenlon~ ~nashln~ of teeth and column is not educator, as well as the users, tional. Christian guiltfest was should all be burnt at Well, Tannhauser a~onlzln~ in terms of plot, the stake. But that’s just was certainly an event my opinion. Apparently not to be missed. Lovely but beautiful in terms these people have not voices, deeply symbolic of the eallber of the intelligence to figstaging and sets, and ure out what the OFF talent and volee .... " some laughable and button is for; or don’t fabulous costumes. And that was just the audience! Actually, ¯ have the basic intelligence to leave the Wagner’s 3+ hour long gnashing of teeth ~ danm thing in the car, if you can’t figure and clLristian guilffest was agonizing in ¯¯ out how to work it. Cirque De Soleil (CDC), the utterly terms of plot, but beautiful in terfns of the ¯ amazing acrobatic troupe, has put some of caliber of talent and voice. its acts together with a story, and created Oh, and pity the fella that dates someone who wants to major in costume design, all ¯" "Journey Of Man," an IMAX 3D film opening in Tulsa March 9. The film folyou’ll hear about is how people look, what ¯ lows the stages of human development they wore, and why they shouldn’t wear it. It was a toss up between who was more ¯¯ from birth to maturity celebrating the husuperficial - the characters onstage or the ¯ man spirit. The film was recently honored by the Giant Screen Theatre Association one critiquing everyone else’s superfici¯ as the Best Film of 200; and if you’ve alities. I mean, who the hell cares whether a patron wore a dres s that was too big in the ¯ never.seen Cirque De Soleil, I can’t urge bosom for the equipment she had to put in ; you enough to take in this flick. You will - it? It may be it’s a dress a friend loanedher ¯ be amazed at what some of the folks can do. I look forward to seeing this film, as it since she couldn’t afford a dress of her own and she had to make do! Certainly not ¯ promises to be the next best thing to actually being at a CDC performance. worth a 30 minute diatribe on the evils of If you love tap dance and beautiful men, wearing a dress too big for your bust. Oh, and I love attending cultural events ¯ then Tap Dogs is well worth the price of in Tulsa - where the woman next to me :¯ the DVD or Video. About the same vintage as Stomp,it is a festival of percussion kept sniffing- wetly andnoisily- through¯ and music featuring tap dance, and would out the show. I cut slack for that- and her hOrrifically noisy nose-blowing-because ¯¯ be well worth seeing just to marvel and if you’re sick, you’re sick. BUT STAY ¯ what these dancers can do. And in the latest on the wonderful world HOME! However, when she started chew¯ of Nicksiana,. Stevie’s album has been ing gum with her mouth open and smackpushed back to early May alas. "Singles ing like a cannon, I’d had enough. They should start appearing on radio in April, left after the second act, I don’t know why. though, and the new album is generating .. And then there was the3 year oldbehind rave reviews. Lending voices to the album ~ us - who was incessantly noisy and irkare Sarah McLachlan, Macy Gray (that stme, simply because she could be. The should be interesting), one of the Dixie child was driving both I and my companChicks, and Sheryl Crow. I still think she ion to distraction Finally, she started smackand Melissa Etheridge should do a duet; I ing On candy - loudly, noisily, and obnoxwould be incredibly powerful. Oh well, iously. I spoke to the parents, who then had next album... a heated exchange in a foreign language. The final concert of the 2000-2001 Tulsa They too left after the second act. It is very Philharmonic Lollipops S cries will be preinteresting that an event can be so easily sented Sunday, March 18, 2001, at 2pro in eclipsed by the actions of inconsiderate the Walter Arts Center at The Holland Hall audience members. School. Maestro Edwin Outwater has Stomp, on the other hand, was a wonplanned a concert entitled "Music on the derfully engaging and humorously magi.’Move," with music depicting all forms of cal romp wherein the cast created.musac movement see Amuse, p. 9 from the most unlikely of objects. I will Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. �Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC .Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether ,single or as couples. Electronic filing is available for faster refunds. 747 - 5466 4021 South Harvard Avenue, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 The University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/ Gay/Transgendered Alliance presents their Annual Film Festival Evenings on April 6 & 7 Sunday afternoon, April 8 TU Campus, 6th& Delaware Selected titles: Westler, Summer in-My Veins, High Art and more. Exact times and auditoriums to be announced in next issueand will be available at the Community Center. "Plastic Jesus" by Poppy Z. Brite reviewed by Barry Hensley What would happen if a cutting edge author wrote a fictional account of the loving, sexual relationship between Elvis and Colonel Tom Parker? I’ll bet there the record charts and the covers of : " ¯ " " teenybopper magazines as the rock group The Kydds. WhenHaroldismurderedbyroughtrade, Seth and Peyton begin their inevitable, loving, sexual relationship. A couple of years later, in 1969, would be charges of the Stonewall riots in blasphemy, calls for "...What would-happen if a New York City inboycotts against the euttlng edge author wrote a publisher and death spire S eth and Pe.yton threats to the author. fietlonal aee0unt of the loving, to wander rnto Greenwich Village, Fortunately, author sexual relationship between giving interviews rePoppy Z. Brite has vealing their relationchosen, not Elvis, but Elvis and_Colonel Tom ship. A Newsweek the Beatles to take Parker? . . . Fortunately, cover, chronicling down the lavender their love for each road, and their fans author...Brlte has chosen, other, soon follows, seem to be much not Elvis, but the Beatles..." as does a marriage more understanding, ceremony in Holsince not a peep of land. The boys have conveniently forgotprotest has been heard about this fanciful ten to tell their bandmates about all of this romance between the icons we know as and The Kydds are soon history. Fame Paul and John. proves exhausting, and Seth and Peyton Our story starts, surprise(!), with a shootsoon slip into semi,retirement until Seth’s ing on acold New York night. Seth Grealy, untimely murder. fading rock star, hits the sidewalk in a HOW different things might have been if spreading pool of blood. A woman in the Paul and John had really followed this horrified crowd recognizes him and takes path! In the author’s afterword, Brite comthe opportunity to scoop up ablood soaked ments, "I have always believed the world piece of paper, quickly running away with would be a better place today if John and the priceless souvenir. The murderer turns Paul had been lovers. Yes, I know they out to be a Christian Fundamentalist who weren’t Gay. That has nothing to do with assumed Seth was spreading AIDS. it. This is fantasy." But what an intriguing Looking back on Seth’s early years in fantasy it is t ffyou enjoy wishful thinking, rural England, we discover him jamming check out Plastic Jesus and find out what at a local club with friends, particularly might have been. guitarist Peyton Masters. They are being Check for Plastic Jesus at your local closely observed by Gay record manager library, or call 596-7966 to get a copy. Harold Loomis. Well, you guessed it! Barry Hensley is a librarian with Tulsa Under Harold’s careful guidance, the boys, City-County Library System. plus two friends, quickly rise to the top of and transportation. The concert begins at 2pm with pre-performance activities, Including a musical petting zoo and other special surprises, beginning at 1:15pro. In this gravity-defying concert, Maestro Outwater and the Tulsa Philharmonic will present music that’ s really "going places," including Leroy Anderson’s Horse and Buggy, Johann Strauss, Pleasure Train Polka, Eduard Strauss, Skater’s Waltz, and Nicolai Rimsky-Korsakov,s Flight of the Bumblebee. With the help of a special conductor’s assistant giving introductions to each of the orchestra’s instrument families, this concert combines the best of entertainment and education. With combined sales approaching the 300,000 mark, Robin Spielberg is one of today’s most popular and prolific contemporary pianist/composers. On March 25, 2001, she will perform what promises to be a most memorable evening Of her spellbinding compositions on the Steinway piano at The Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The evening will include Ms. Spielberg’s compelling and often humorous story-telling and feature new works from her latest CD, Dreaming of Summer. The concert will begin at 3pro Ms. Spielberg will autograph CDs and sheet music following the performance. The concert is made possible in part by a grant from the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust Ms. Spielberg has recorded nine CDs, performed two sold-out concerts at Weill Hall at Carnegie Hall, toured the country an concert and has made numerous television appearances, including features/interviews and performances on "CBS-This Morning" and "LifeTime Live," and "ABC News." Spielberg’s music has also been featured on scores of radio programs, and her work in music & healing has received attention in Parenting magazine, The New York Times, and The Washington Post. Robin Spielberg-will perform at Tulsa Performing Arts Center on March 25,2001 at 3pro. Tickets can be purchased by calling 918/596-7111. Tickets are $12, and $10 for seniors & students. More information on Robin Spielberg and her recordings, can be found on the world wide web at www.robinspielberg.com The 2000-2001 Tulsa Philharmonic Pops Series-continues with guest star Roger Williams on Friday, March 9, 2001, and Saturday, M~ch 10, 2001. This consummate entertainer conducts and performs on this memorable program. Performances will be presented at 8pm in the Chapman Music Hall of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Playing the music that has served as the soundtrack of three generations, Williams will tickle the ivories with such favorites as Autumn Leaves, Talk to the Animals, From a Distance, and a medley including Feelings and Chariots of Fire. �¯ studied- still demand that devotees make Gay Studies: Pilgrimage : weekly pilgrimages down to the coastal by Lament Lindstrom "Nasir," I once asked my Gay Malaysian ¯ village where the Movement is headquar¯ tered. There, these pilgrims worship at the friend, "are you ever going on the hadj?" This is the fifth pillar of Islam - the duty of ¯¯ Movement’s spiritual center, their physical presence a marker of all good Muslims to wortheir fidelity. ship in Mecca at least once " ’Naslr,’ The pilgrimage - sacred in life. "Maybe," he said, I once asked . . . ’are traveling - knots together "when I’m older. But noW" identity and place. Sacred I’m having too much fun as you ever going travd reminds us of who, a Gay pilgrim in America." on the bade’. ,. what, and why we are. Gay pilgrims came to Today’s nation-states, mind last month when I - the duty of all good which in part modeled walked down Ocean Drive Muslims to themselves on medieval in South Beach. There, up religious institutions, borahead, shining brightly in worship in Mecca at rowed rituals of pilgrimthe Miami sunshine was least once in life. age. Gianni Versace’s weddingThe U.S., for example, cake mansion sporting a ’Maybes’ he said, ’when is splattered with large modestly phallic observatory dome. And there, at the I’m older. But now I’m numbers of National Monuments and National foot of those famously once having too much fun Historic Sites that we bloodstained steps, were the as a Gay pilgrim should visit in order to Gay pilgrims fervently learn about ourselves. The snapping pictures. Some of in Amerlea.’ " Alamo, Mount Vernon, these, no doubt, were fashGettysburg, the Arizona Memorial, and ion pilgrims. But others, like me, were many more. These places are all much like there in reverence of the lingering specchurch. Any rude chatter, hoofing, or tacle of Versace’s and Cunanan’s deadly hollering will quickly attract shushing homosexual encounter. guardians, of these politically sacred pilPilgrims. The word derives from old grimage sites. Latin roots meaning "across the field" Most of these places, of course, comwhich came to refer to traveling in fol:,eigu memorate mainstream, white-bread parts. Organized religions have profited America. Still, multicultural politics have by regularizing the pilgrimage. Besides boosted the visibility, nowadays, of mithe Islamic ’hadj,’- Roman Catholic Popes nority histories. African-Americans tour beginning in 1300 have declared Jubilee the birthplace of George Washington years, inostly recently Armo Santo 2000, Carver in Diamond, Missouri. Japaneseduring which visitors to Rome may rack Americans pilgrims drive out to Tule Lake up spintual blessing points: in Modoc County, California, site of a In pre-industrial and pre-literate social WW2 internment camp. Jewish-Ameriorders, communication between religious cans visit the monument to Revolutionary leaders and followers demanded physical War financier Haym Solomon in Queens, mobility. There was no TV, no radio, no New York. Feminists pay homage at the newspapers. Instead, one had to travel to Suffragette Memorial inWashington, DC. the source to hear and see in person. LeadBut what of Gay and Lesbian pilgrims? ers of the John Frum Movement- a homeWhere might we go? grown South Pacific religion that I once the Tulsa chapter has identified a number of areas in which to improve. These range from adding more Spanish speaking staff or volunteers to help in disaster relief to a new program in development to create a diversity curriculum in area high schools to address the challenges Lesbian~and Gay young people face. The group has offered a tolerance curriculum for some time but this new program which is being developed with a local Unitarian church, and With input from Youth Services of Tulsa and PFLAG, is explicit in addressing antiGay attitudes, noted Bowen. Dahl added that the new program specifically has board support. Dahl and his colleagues expressed frustration at the negative reputation which their part of the Red Cros s has for anti-Gay bias based on the ban on blood donations by any man who has had sex with another man since 1980. Many are not awar9 that the American Red Cross Blood Services have a separate director and board even though they share their name and building. The policy is not set by the Red Cross but by the Federal Drug Admini stration (FDA) which recently reviewed the ban and reendorsed it. Gay civil rights activists have argued that a ban based on group status rather than on risk factors is biased and while might have beenappropriate in the earliest years of the HIV/AIDS pandemic, is no longer good science. However, Dahl acknowledged that the Red Cross might be more active in challenging the policy, and noted that individual chapters may sponsor resolutions at their national meetings. The Tulsa chapter has a resolution addressing bias against the Jewish equivalent of the Red Cross which has yet to be accorded equal status as Muslim and other groups. Dalai indicated that the Tulsa chapter might address the blood donation restrictions issue in a similar fashion. 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Columbia Ave., 592-5800 (One block west of Delaware and the University of Tulsa Campus) by Karin Gregory Super Bowl Sunday is way behind us, but my heart feels like the football: kicked, stomped, beaten, thrown, punted. Oh, and abandoned. We must never forget abandoned. So abandoned that I spent Valentine’ s Day with my roommate’ s dog. And I thought the Irish had luck! Oh, right - I confused that with my father telling me that everything a Gregory touches turns to. .. to.., well, it certainly ain’t gold. After 44 years of running from love in all shapes and forms, I smacked dead into it with the arrival of a woman who, apparently, thought I was just a novelty. OK, you’re saying, "But what did the raging Lesbian expect?" With all my Gay male friends falling in and out of love as quickly as they change their clothes, you’d think I’d have learned, at least by proxy. But nooooo - I believed that women were different from men. So I plunged in with eyes wide shut, listening to a voice from God telling me things no MAN had ever said. Or maybe I just wasn’t interested enough to listen until now. She said she was a very physical person, and the woman involved with her had to love sexas much as she. Saying a silent, "Thank you, God!", I watched her beautiful eyes look back at me and all I could do (since by now my blood had rushed DOWN from my head) was to wonder, "What does she see in me?" Maybe because I’m a newbie, or maybe because I’ve been around the Gay community for so long, I have no problem showing affection. Holding hands in the open, arms around each other, kissing on a public residential street in Dallas felt, for the first time in my life, natural. When she told me she wanted me to spend a weekend with her after we’d just met a few hours before, did I balk? Hell, no! And that IS a first for me! I know it was hormonal in the beginning. When I tried to be straight for so many years, I found kissing a man to be extremely strange. At first teeth upon teeth, inadequacy on my part, as well as detachment, until it degenerated into making my grocery list in my head while his tongue was in my throat. Blech! But this! I just assumed I never got it- the fireworks, etc. That first night on the street with her, I felt the full light show, complete with thunder and earth-shattering enlightenment I should have felt about 20 years ago. I must confess that kiss was so powerful that I gave $5 to a panhandler on my way home. He probably sits at that exact corner every night waiting to catch happy Lesbians on their way home. Although I knew it was Lesbian lust, I trudged blindly ahead, not knowing or caring what the future held, but damned determined to enjoy every minute of it. And enjgy I did in October with this same woman in South Texas who spoke to me romantically. I left with a VERY healthy ego, and got a hint of what it must be like to be a straight man. I also left with the promise of another weekend the next month, this time at my place. She kept up this farce, even singing to me on my birthday. Then the phone calls stopped, emails became fewer and fewer, you know the drill. At last came the inevitable -the "Dear Jane" letter. You know that one the one that says she hopes wE’ll be friends for a long time to come. Theone that’s the very LAST message she sends. I’m sure you’ ve seen wildlife show s with the charg ing rhino who suddenly forgets the target he’s charging. Well, consider this woman a charging rhino. Or maybe I’m that forgettable. Or maybe she’s just a bitch. My astute friend Jim tells me, after I’ve called, written, and emailed to no avail, that silence is my .answer. I like that - as applied to ANYONE else but me! My Gay male roommate says, "She just wanted to get you into bed." Men - you can’t live with ’em... pass the beer nuts! Now I understand my friends who just can’t seem to get over that relationship that everyone around them knew was doomed frbm the beginning. All my "forget about him/hers" sound even emptier than they must have to my friends. You know, it hurts to remember; but it hurts more to forget. Have there been others since my experience? There’ s the older woman who bought my dining room table and chairs. She got into some financial trouble shortly afterward and I "loaned" her the same amount. She got more than that, too, one night shortly afterward. Have I heard from her since? Oh, why don’t you decide? Doesit seem that I have a sign across my forehead saying,"Horny Lesbian- Will Apparendy Do Anything For Sex. PLEASE Fold, Spindle, And Mutilate When Finished"? But even after spending my twentysixth Valentine’s Day in arow listening to Janis Ian’s "At Seventeen", I still believe in the romantic future. And in the luck of the Irish. And that there really IS a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Maybe this Gregory will be lucky enough, come St. Paddy’s Day, to believe that what she touches can turn to gold. or at least believe in love again. THAT would be lucky. Karin Gregory is a Fort Worth-based writer. organizers note that the $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast but that some financial assistance is available for those for whom the fee is too much. However, they do emphasize that the deadline is March 1 lth. For more information, contact College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, or call 592-5800. Men’s Group. This program is d~signed to assist men to learn ~t~m safe sex practices, relationships, ~dotl~erissues. Meetings will take place_~..~a~ Thursday night at 7pm. :. _ . Fri- �More Lig ht PR S B YT E R IAN S RE:CONNECTING BODY + SPIRIT March 16-18 at the historic and. beautifully wooded Dwight Mission. A Weekend Retreat about Spirituality, Sexuality and Building Relationships to Last A Lifetime... This LGBT specific event seeks to help individuals marginalized by repressive church policies around matters of sexuality. The event seeks to re-connect spirituality with identity to help build an inclusive faith community. Friday evening will be a get acquainted time. Saturday will combine fellowship at meals with workshops from "Religion and Spirituality: Our Images of God," to "Discovering and Making the Connections between Sexuality and Spirituality." Sunday morning worship follows breakfast. The $50 fee will cover bunk-room style lodging, meals on Saturday and Sunday breakfast. Financial assistance is available. The deadline is March 11th. College Hill Presbyterian Church, 712 S. Columbia, Tulsa 74104, 592-5800 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. 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"Declining social, legal and economic sanctions against samegender sexual behavior in recent years and more positive images of Gay men and Lesbians in the media may have made it easier for people to recognize their samegender sexual interest and act on it," said Amy Buffer, the study’s author. Butler, an associate professor in the University of Iowa’ s School of Social Work, used data collected for the General Social Surveys conducted by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago. Her study, published in November in the Journal of Sex Research, shows that between 1988 and 1998 the number ofwomenwhosaid theyhad a sexual encounterwith another woman in the previous year went from 0.2% of respondents to 2.8%, a 14-fold increase. For men, the number who said they had a homosexual experience jumped from 1.7% of respondents to 4.1%. Whethermorepositivemediaportrayals play arole in the increasing reports of homosexual activity is hard to determine, Butler said. For certain, the media wouldn’ t mt shows on television or produce movies that portray ~ositive Gay lives see Tolerance, p. 2 DIRECTORY P. 2 EDITORIAL. P. :3 US & woRLD, NEWS P. 4~ HEALTH NEWS P~e~ ~ ENTERTAINgE~, MORE: P~ ~ GAY STUDIE~ING L~BfAN: P~ tO/11 " Serving Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsens, Our Families + Friends "Embrace Diversity"_ 2001 Parade + Fesbval ". TULSA (TFN) - Oklahoma’s biggest celebration of its kind, ." Tulsa" s "Diversity Celebration", is shaping up to be the biggest ¯ to date. A full week of events, designed to educate the general ¯" public oncivil rights issues and the need for equality for the Gay/ ." Lesbian/Bisexual and Trmmgendered (GLBT) community are : planned for the city of Tulsa and the Midwest region. ¯ "Fmbrace Diversity" is Tulsa’ s"21st celebration of the beginning of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender civil rights ." movement. Begun as the Tulsa Pride Picnic in 1980, "Diversity " Celebration"has grown over the pastfew years to become oneof -" Tulsa’s largest events. The past two celebrations have garnered ~" national attentionfrom Los Angeles to New York with coverage : by PlanetOut, Genre and Curve, as well as local GLBT and : heterosexually oriented television, print and.ele.ctro~ic, media. 1999~saw Tulsa,welcome United States Rep. Barney Frank (D- : Mass..)~as,the OrandMarshal of Tulsa" s first full fledgedparade. ¯ Last y~t:, the city welcomed Greta Cammermeyer and Greg Loug~,s as they hhared their personal stories of triumph over adversi~ and whoserved as Grand Marshals for the Parade. ¯ Featured this year are allies outside the GLBT community - : the families of GLBT individuals. Traveling from across the ¯ nation,, these brave families come to Tulsa to educate and share ¯" their stories of loved ones as we honor them as Grand Marshals : of Tulsa’s 3rd GLBT Parade (Pride Parade). : TulsaOklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), the presenting ¯ sponsor of "Diversity Celebration 2001", has released the fol- : lowing schedule of events: Saturday, June 2, 2001 TOHR Foifies 2001 Presented by TOHR ’Trom Here to Eternity"Avondale Studio & Theatre ¯ (the old Delaware Playhouse), 1511 So. Delaware Ave., 8pm see Diversity, p. 3 ¯ HIV and Young Black Gay Men ¯ by Margie Mason, Associated Press Writer SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - In the wake of soaring HIV statistics " surrounding the nation’s Gay Black men, a panel of educators - came together at the end of March to admit their failures and : discuss strategies to help curb the rate of contraction. ¯ ’These people are coming to us to get HIV testing or to get ¯ screened for (sexually transmitted diseases)," said Lucia Torian, ¯ from the New York City Department of Health. ’They are in our " offices. They’re in our clinics. We are even counseling them. ¯ What’s going on7" ¯ Torian spoke to a packed conference room as part of. the 13th ." NationalHIV/AIDS UlxlateConference.ShesaidarecentYoung Men’ s Survey inNew York showed one in every three Blackmen ¯ sampled were HIV positive, even though they had less sexual " partners th~n white men ages 23 to 29. ¯ Torian said Gay Blackmen as a group held the highest rates of ¯ infection from 1989-1999. ’This is an incidence rate in men who " have sex with men that wehave not seen since the late 1980s.-So : we have our work cut out for us," Torian said. "’And we may be ¯ on the leading edge of the epidemic." San Francisco’s Gay Black HIV prevalence rates are compa- : rable with an estimated 54.6% of the population spanning all age : groups, said Willi McFarland from the San Francisco Depart- ¯ ment of Public Health. "It’ s an astonishing figure, and we’re not entirely sure how to ¯ answer it," he said. ’’It’s one of the highest for any group in the ¯ city." Black transgender men in San Francisco have a 60% to : 65% prevalence rate, McFarland said. ¯¯ SusanKegeles, of theUniversity ofSan Francisco’ s Center for AIDS Prevention Studies, spoke on the panel about ideas for a ¯ program to attract the troubled demographic. She heads the ¯ Mpowerment Project, hailed by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as the only effective intervention program for ¯ youngGay and bisexual men, which uses peer groups in various ¯ cities to,create a dialogue and. a safe place for men to talk about ¯ SeX. see African, p. lO City Human Rights Group Wants to Talk to Gays TULSA (TFN) - About seven years after record numbers of citizens attended public hearings on amending Tulsa’ s human rights ordinance to include "sexual orientation," at leastone staffperson with the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission/Department says she wants to know the issues and concerns of Tulsa’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered (GLBT) community. University ofTulsaintemAngieJohann_esen, asked to do an internship for her sociology degree with the City’ s HumanRights Commlssion. Atherinstigation the’ Commission is currently developing a series of focus groups with individuals in the GLBT community. Thefocus groups will takeplace later this spring. However, before any specific dates are set, the Human Rights Commission wants~to gauge the number of persons who would be willing to participate. Johaunesen contac~ted TulsaOldahomam for Human Rights, (TOHR) and TUlsa Family News to let GLBTpeopleknow about the effort and to encourage them to participate in the focus groups. Johannesen promises that individuals’ privacy will be respected.. Johaunesen noted that one goal of the Commission was to create a resource manual of LGBT groups, similar to lists which TOHR and TFN already have developed. Another goal is to provide support to Gay students in Tulsa Public Schools some ofwhomhave contacted the Commission about harassment in schools. Those willing to participate should contact Angie Johannesen at the Human Rights Commission, 596- 7837, orby e-mail at angela-johannesen@umlsa.edu. TOHR also encourages those with any questions to contact them at 743-4297 or by e:mail at tobrl0@hotmail.com, see editorial, p. 3. Gay Man Severely Beaten In Attempted Murder MiDDLEBURG, Pa, (AP) - Two brothers were ordered to stand trial in Snyder County Court, accused of stomping and punching a man who is now in a coma; one ofthem allegedly told police that the attack was provoked by a homosexual advance. Todd J. Clinger, 18, and Troy L. Clinger, 20, both of Middleburg are charged with attempted murder in the March 6 attack on Michael Auker. Hc was then carried to his trailer, where he was found two days later in a comatose state. "Wefoundhimunconscious and bleedingfrom the head. Every bone in his face was broken," state trooper Frederick Dyroff testified in a preliminary hearing. Dyroff testified that Todd Clinger said the assault on Auker was the result ofa sexual advance byAuker. Both ofthe brothers and Auker were drinking atTodd Clinger’ s trailer prior to the incident, police said. Auker remains in what Snyder County District Attorney Mike Sholley called a "permanenvcomatose" at Geisinger Medical Center in Danville. Nicki Lee White, Troy Clinger’s fiance, said the brothers planned to lure Auker out to their deck so they could "beat him up, kill him." "He (Auker) was trying to cover his face," White said. "I’hat’s when Todd started stomping on him, stomping on his face?’ Bothofthe brothers’ parents face charges related tc their role following the incident. Their father, Gary Clinger~ 37, accused of helping the brothers move Auker to his-trailer, was charged with criminal trespass, burglary., and. endangering another person. Theirmother~ConnieLynnCringers40, wascharged with criminal solicitation. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. 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Lewis 592-0767 www.gaytulsa.org - website for Tulsa Gays & Lesbians Tulsa Agencies, Churches, Schools & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 4337, 74101 579-9593 All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria 743-2363 "Black&White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 587-7314 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center, 2207 E. 6 583-7815 918.583.1248, fax: 583.4615 POB 4140. Tulsa, OK 74159, e-mail: TulsaNews@earthlinEnet Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Writers + contributors: James Christjohn, Karin Gregory, Barry Hensley, J.-P. Legrandbouche, Lament Lindstrom, Esther Rothblum, Mary Schepers, Hughston Walkinshaw Member of The Associated Press Issued around the 1st of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 2001 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced eitherin whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate a person’ s sexual orientation. 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"Perhaps it is repugnant to heterosexuals ¯ to contemplate persons of the same sex ¯ engaging privately in oral or anal sex; how- , ever, to enact a law in Arkansas which ¯ criminalizes such conductbetween consent- ¯ ing adults violates the Arkansas constitution," the judge wrote. ¯ Ruth Harlow,legal director oftheLambda ¯ Legal Defense and Education Fund in New ¯ York, whichrepresented the group, said that ¯" even though no one was prosecuted, its ¯ members did notlikebeing branded as crimi- : nals. "The law hangs over their heads and ¯ treats them like second-class citizens," she ¯ said. ’~It says it’ s illegal:when yogi do it but ¯_" not whenyourneighbordoes, as king as they ¯ are heterosexual?~- .:,~r:. ~,: ~2 Darrin-W,illiams;cNef"of staff£or Arkansas Attorney General" Mark Pryor; said the office would decide on an appeal later. The Arkansas law carried a $1,000 fine andup to a year in jail. Bogard said his opinion was not an endorsement ofhomosexuality nor a critidism. ’‘This court’ s opinion today should not in any way be deemed to condone or condemn any particular lifestyle or the moral behavior associated therewith," he said. Kansas, Louisiana, Oklahoma, Texas and Utah have similar laws. if the public wasn’ t willing to accept it, she said. Her study says the way Gays and Lesbians appear in the media may make some people more comfortable acting on homosexual impulses. Buffer said that thepercentage of people who reported having had these experiences is small. ’Tmnot documenting a full-blown revolution," she said. In 1988, 74.9% of respondents said that sex between two people of the same sex is always wrong. By 1998 that number had dropped to 54.6%, according to the General Social Surveys. Buffer. said the findings will have critics and supporters. The religious right, for example, might use the study to show how America has become too tolerant of homosexuality, she said. Gay and Lesbian actiV- : ists might beupsetby her suggestion that the ¯ data indicate sexuality is, at least in some : cases; cultttrally constructedrather thanbio- ¯ logically determined. ¯ Butler speculated that there may b~ sev- ~ eral reasons tolerance has increased, such as : declassifying homosexuality as a psychiat- ¯ ric diseasein the 1970s and the growth ofthe Gay Pride movement. The latter, she said, ¯ may have forced people to question their ¯ long-held beliefs. "But there is still a lot of ¯ intolerance," she said. Federal Hate Crimes Bill Reintroduced Bipartisan Bill Will Expand Federal Law to Include Gender, Sexual Orientation, and Disability; Expands Enforcement Powers WASHINGTON, D.C.- Senators Gordon " Smith (R-OR) and Edward Kennedy (DMA) with Senator Arlen Specter (R-PA), Congresswoman Connie Morella (R-MD) " and Democratic colleagues re-introduced ¯ federal hate crimes legislationin Congress today, advancing an important policy dis- ¯ cussion onbias-related violence across the ¯ The Local Law Enforcement Enhance- ." merit Act of 2001 is a bipartisan bill which " wo.uld extend existing federal hate crimes ¯ laws to include gender, disability, and sexual, orientation. Thebill has 51 cospon- " sors m the Senate and 180 in the House. " "A government’s first duty is topmtect ¯ and defend its citizens. Ourlaws~shoulddo ¯ that by reflegting oat.highest values, .not " by sheltering ourlowestfears~’7 said Smith. ’XDver the past several years~ .Americans have been listening with their hearts, not just their ears, and they are ready for a hate " crimes bill. I am confident that Congress ¯ will Pass legislation this year so that the ¯ potential victims of hate crimes know that the federal government is on their side." Senator Smith first sponsored.the bill ¯ with Senator Kennedy in 1999 and intro- : ducedit as an amendment to legislationin "- as voting. In addition to the newcategories, the Local Law EnforcementEnhancement Act will broaden federal jurisdiction to include hate crimes that cause death or bodily injury. The Local Law Enforcement Enhancement Act would give federal prosecutors the discretion, under the direction of the Attorney General, to ’prosecute violent crimes against individuals based on their actual or perceived race, color, religion, and national origin. The bill also gives power to the Attorney General to determine, on a case by case basis, wla~ther interstate.commerce was affected or involvedln violent crimes against individuals Od. the basis oftheir real or perceived gender, disability or sexual orientation, and federalize such prosecutions as well. The bill also gives the Department of Justice the ability to provide needed federal technical and financial assistance to state and local authorities upon request for local investigation or prosecution of bias-related crimes. Rich Tafel, executive director of Log Cabin Republicans, a Gay political group, noted, ’Xve applaud Senator Smith, Senator Specter, Congresswoman Morella and both 1999 and 2000. Currently;.federal law only "permits prosecution, of a hate crimeifthe crime prevents the victimfrom i C°ngresS and for our country." exercising afederallyprotectedright, suCh.,~., .. - ’~ Reception immediately following. Tickets: $15.00, At the Door: $20.00 " The Pride Store @ Tulsa GLBT Community Center; 2114 S Memorial orby calling 918.743.4297 or toll free (outside Tulsa)-at 866.335.9074 Sunday, Jund 3, 2001 Tulsa Interfaith Service Sponsored by TU BLGT Alliance Sharp Chapel, TU, 3pro Monday, June 4, 2001 Council Oak Men’s Chorale Concert Presented by Tulsa City/County.Library "Diversity in Song" Aaronson Auditorium, Central Library 3rd and Denver, 7pro Monday, June 4, 2001 Family Law Panel Presented by Tulsa City/County Library Professor Linda Lacey; TU Law School and a panel of family law experts. Helmerich Library; 91St and Yale, 7pro Tuesday, June 5, 2001 Art :Exhibit: "Embracing Art" ¯All- Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S: Peoria Avenue, 6-9pro" Thursday, June 7, 2001 . GLBT Film.Festivai Sponsored by Tulsa City/County Library ’‘Diversity in Film" Aaronson Auditorium, Central Library- 3rd and Denver, 7pro : .the Republican sponsors of thislegislation ¯ for leading a crucial policy.discussion in ¯ Friday, June 8, 2001 ¯ TOHR Diversity Gala ; .....Benefiting TOHR and Diversily Celebration 2001 ¯ "Death Be Notpr0ud" ". Speakers and Parade Grand Marshalls: : Ms. Gabi Clayton, Olympia, WA ¯ Ms. Dorothy Hajdys Ms. Nancy Rodrigues; Houston, TX Ms. Carolyn Wagner, Little Rock, AR "Community HerO" Awards presentation honoring those in the local GLBT community who educate the public through their everyday actions and lives. Tulsa Country Club, 701 N. Yukon Dr. 7pro, reception & silent auction 8pro dinner,.$100/ea. $1,000table of eight. Sponsorships available. Reserved seating available by calling 918.743.4297 or 866.335.9074 Saturday, June 9, 2001 The Pride Parade Cherry Street (15th Street) to BoSton Avenue to 18th Street to Veterans Park Start at 3pm, Hoat/marchers begin assembling at lpm. " During the first year of this publication, : in May of 1994, this newspaper covered ¯ three raucous , packed publichearings about ¯ a proposal to add sexual orientation to the ¯ City of Tulsa’s largely meaningless hu- ¯ man rights ordinance. I say meaningless because violating the : ordinance zs only a misdemeanor. Any : r_eal backing for civil rights for citizens ¯ comes from federal laws which.don’t in- " elude "sexual orientation," and therefore ¯ don’t cover Gay people. (For the record, ¯¯ they don’t cover straight people either but we’ve hardly seen that that’s a problem.) : The hearing brought out the best in .. some but the worst in many. Some who had not really seen the need for including ¯ sexual orientation saw the need just by ¯ listening to the bigotry expressed at the : meetings. ¯ Now this many years later, the City’s : Human Rights Commission/Dept. is look- " ing at these issues again, thanks it seems, ¯ solely to one TU student’ s efforts and just ¯ because she cares about justice -since ¯ she’s, as they put it, "straight but not ¯ narrow." What they’re doing is holding _. "focus groups" which is all well and good ¯ but it~ s much like writing another report as ¯ the last group who looked at these issues ¯ did back in ’93/94. It will take up time and ¯ energy but accomplish little especially ¯ since what’ s needed really hasn’ t changed. ." since’94,norhas it changedfrom theearly ¯ ’80’ s when a similar effort was attempted Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered people need to have the same fund mental civil rights protections which other minorities have by law and which the majority has by dominance. This includes equal opportunity in housing and employment and benefits. This means that if landlords or home sellers cannot refuse someone because of their race or religion, they should not be allowed to do so because of sexual orientation. Ditto for job hiring, advancement and equal pay/benefits for equal work. Ditto, ditto for eqnal legal protection for spouses and families, regardless of whether these are menand women, men and men or women and women; But for it to go anywhere, it will require themayor and some city councilors to give a damn. For at least 7 years, MayOr Savage could, and has been asked to, di:rect the Tulsa Police to includemo~e than just race and religion in their "diversity" training. While rumor has it that this trivial change may soon happen, why has she waited so long? And while some city councilors know what’ s right, none have the courage to work for civil rights. They all want to wait till it’ s safe for them to vote ’~yes," fill there’s a majority. But every earlier civil rights struggle lost batdesbefore prevailing. We can’t get anywhere when our "leaders" won’t talk about our issues. Focus groups, are nice. But we already know whatis needed. Wejustneed Savage under the city commission form of gov- :. mid Watts and Williams and Turner to do eminent. -" it~. - Tom Neal,. editor & publisher Rights Bills.Go Forward in 3 .States WASHINGTON - The Human Rights "- now heads to the Senate, and Gov. Ruth Campaign (HRC) late in March praised. ¯ .Ann Minner has pledged she will sign the activists in Maryland, Delaware, and Illi- " bill if she gets the opportunity. nois for advancing bills in their respective legislatures that would prohibit discrimi~ nation based on sexual orientation. ’q’his Was aweekthat saw greatprogress due to the outstanding efforts of activists in Illinois; Maryland and Delaware," said HRC Field Director Seth Kilbourn. know it will be a tough road, but we hope thattheselegislatures will continue to stand up for equality and vote these bills into law." The Illinois House of Representatives approved ameasure that would add sexual orientation to a state law that bans diserimination against people forjobs, housing, public accommodations or credit. It now heads to the more conservative Senate. But supporters of the bill got a boost when Senate PresidentJames "Pate"Philip said he plans to givethe issue a committee " No.entries after-2:45pra hearing instead of delaying it. ’I want .to Featuring: express my gratitude to my colleagues in Entries from-across Oklahoma and the Midwest Region ComroR~ity Heroes Oklahoma’s largest Pride Flag Diversity Festival Sponsored by: .Bud Light & Eastern Oklahoma Beverages Veterans’ Park 1875 So. Boulder Ave., 3pro the Honse for their support," said Illinois’ only opehly Gay staterepresentative, Larry McKeon, (D) who sponsored the bill. "I strongly encourage the Senate leadership to allow the bill to be moved tothe Senate floor for a vote by its leaders." The Delaware House of Representafives also passed a similar bill that would ban discrimination based on real or perceived sexual orientation in employment, housing, public works contracting, public accommodations and insurance.. The bill ¯ ’~-Iopefully today brings us closer to a ¯ time when our differences are not seen as " reasons for division and strife, but as op- : portunities for educafionand celebration," ¯ said Peter Medwick, state coordinator, : Delaware ACLU Lesbian and Gay Civil ¯ Rights Project. If these bills become laws, ¯ these states wouldjoin Hawaii, California, : Vermont, New Hampshire, Wisconsin, : Minnesota, New Jersey, Rhode Island, : Massachusetts, Connecticut and Nevada ¯ as states that already outlaw this type of : discrimination. :. Marylandhas the best chance ofbecom- : ing the twelfth state to ban anti-Gay dis- , crimination. The state Senate voted for a ~ measure to prohibit discrimination based ¯ on sexual orientation in honsing, public : accommodafions and employment (see : related story, p. 5). ¯ With ctn’tinued lobbying from the Gay : civil rights group,_F_ree StateJustice, the ¯ House is also expected to pass the bill. ¯ Gov. Pan’is Glendening, amajor advocate : of the Anti-Discrimination Act of 2001, ¯ will sign the bill into law if it reaches his ¯ desk. ’q’he Senate vote makes this a his- : toric day for civil rights," said Blake : ~umphrey, __m,_,a~a,_,,_,gin~,.gdirectorofFree Srate Jnstiee, the state s Gay civil rights-lobby. : "Maryland senators listened to their con- ~ stituents and’voted to end discrimination. : In voting by such a wide margin, senators ¯ also sent amessage that bias and hate will ¯ not be tolerated in the Free State." Lutherans Don’t Kick Out Gay Friendly Church KANSAS CITY, Mo.. (AP) ~- A Lutheran church official has decided not to ejec~ a Kansas City congregation that installed a Lesbian pastor who refused to commit to a lifetime of celibacy. The pastor, Donna Simon, found out that Abiding Peace Lutheran Church will not be ejected from the membership roster of the Evangdical Lutheran.Church in America. "For now, ¯ we’ve inherited eternal life,, a jubilant Simon said. " Last October, the nearly 40 members of Abiding " Peace, a predominantly Gay church in Kansas City, ¯ chose to defy the rules of the Evangelical Lutheran Church by installing Simon. Simon’s sexual orienta- " tion was not the issue. The Evangelical Lutheran ¯ Church in America, with about 5 million members ¯ nationwide, allows Gays~and Lesbians to be ordained ". as minister~~if they pr0iiiise’lifelong celibacy. Simon, 35, refused to make sucli-apromisei Because of thhtTthe EVaii~dicdl~Eutheran~urch in, Ameri~ ¯ neveriofficially:approved~her for 6~dinafion " " ," When,o~rO~t.28~ AbidingPeace otdained her :, anyway, it Committed ~in act of "eccleSiastic disobedience." Thelast churches to ordain noncelibate Gay and Lesbian pastors - St. Francis Lutheran Church and First United.Lutheran Church, both in San Franciscowere suspended in 1990 and ejected in 1995 from the membership roster of the Lutheran Church. However, after months of contemplation and discussion, Bishop Charles Maahs, head of the Lutheran synod in Missouri and Kansas, recommended the Church be censured and admonished. That action bars Abiding Peace’s members from taking part in a select number of church committees. Abiding Peace, however, will continue to be amemberofthe greaterfamily of Lutheran Churches.- Maahs said one reason his punishment was light is that he believes it. is time to foster more discussion on the question of Gay and Lesbian pastors. ’The ELCA encourages this dialogue," Maahs said. "I know the chief purpose of their calling and ordaining this pastor is really to be in mission and ministering. The thing that is important in all of this is that they have Shown themselves to be people of good faith." Colorado Senator Praises ¯ Scouts for Being Anti-Gay DENVER (AP)-Aresolution praising the Boy Scouts that succumbed to criticism this week was unfairly branded as anti-Gay, its sponsor said. Senate Minority Leader John Andrews, R-Lakewood, let his resolution die rather than renew a fight that flared when the measure was first considered by the Senate. The resolution praised the Boy Scouts for standing up for freedom of speech when they oppo_sed Gay members. "It was framed as if it were an anti-Gay resolution," Andrews said. "It was not. All itwas doing was observing the Supreme Court has said private organizations can be private." "America has gotten very permissive about its morals and laws as far as sexuality goes," Andrews added. The commendation was part of Andrews’ resolution to create "Scouting Week in Colorado." A Minnesota United Way Cuts Off Boy Scouts WINONA, Minn. (AP) - The United Way of Greater Winona plans to cut off funding to a pair of local Boy Scout councils that refused to sign an agreement not to discriminate againstGays. PeterWalsh, the local United Way-president, said that his group won’t fund any groups thatrefuse to sign thenondiscriminationpledge. The U.S. Supreme Court last year ruled that the Boy Scouts could refuse to allow Gay leaders. Since then someUnited Way organizations have decided to stop funding their local Boy Scout councils. The Winona United Way currently funds the Gamehaven Council, basedin Rochester, and the Gate- " way Area Council, basedin LaCrosse, Wis. Duringthe ¯ currentbudgetyear, whichendsJune30,theGamehaven Council received $16,473 and theGateway AreaCoun- ¯ cil received $2,108, said Beth Forkner Moe, the United ¯ Way chapter’s executive director. Mike Diamond, executive director of the Gateway Area Council, said the local scout organizations were not free to sign. ’q’here are clauses in the agreement that go against the policies of the Boy Scouts of America nationally," he said. Richard Good, executive director of the Gamehaven Council, read from the Scouts’ official position: "We believe open homosexuals should not provide a role model for Scouts that is inconsistent with the Scout Oath and t_~w. The Boy Scouts of Americardoes not accept avowed homosexuals as members or leaders." The loss of funds will definitely be felt. Goc~!~. :said UnitedWayfunding accounts for about halftheadministrative budget for the 22 troops and 1,100 Scouts in Winona County. ¯ But for the Scout leaders, it’s a matter of principle. ’’We are a private organization with the right to maintain our own standards ofleadership and decide who is appropriate and not appropriate as adult leaders, x,n - mond said. Police InvestigateAlleged Hate Crime at URI SOLrI’H KINGSTOWN, R.I. (AP) - An assault on a Gay University of Rhode Island graduate student will be investigated as a hate crime, police said. Kevin Bliven-Baker, 36, said three men confronted him after he left a campus meeting of the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Society. Bliven-Baker said one of the attackers bumped.himwith his shoulder, knockinghim into a snowbank, while another called him faggot. URI President Robert Carothers.called the alleged assault "repugnant." ~ Bliven-Baker reported the March 8 confrontation to campus police this week, The Providence Journal reported. "I used to feel really safe on this campus, and ¯ I know I have to watch myself now," Bliven-Baker ¯ said. URI Police Capt. Brian Cummings said he believes the suspects were students. No arrests havebeen made. ¯ KC Synagogue Opposes Boy Scout Bias ." KANSAS CITY, Mo. (AP) - A synagogue that spon- ¯ sots one of the city’s oldest Boy Scout troops has : decided to oppose the national Boy Scouts’ ban on . Gays. The executive board at Congregation Beth Shalom in Kansas City, which sponsors Troop 61, plans to : send aletter requesting that the organization rescindits ¯ ban on Gays from its youth membership and adult leadership ranks. ’’We are inclusive; we will not discriminate," Beth Shalom Rabbi Alan Cohen said. ¯ Troop 61 Was founded in 1925 and has seen 300 of its 1,500 or so boys become Eagle Scouts, including its ." current scoutmaster, RonFredman. Fredmandisagrees ¯ with the ban on Gays, but he is not willing to disobey ¯ the national organization - a move that has cost other troops their charters. "I don._’t want to be put in a ¯ position that could.lead to the death of (Troop) 61," ¯ Fredman said. "I don’twant anything to get in the way of this troop’s mission, which is to turn boys into ~ leaders." ~ TheTroop 61 will receive a copy of the letter that the ¯ synagogueis sending to the national council. Fredman ¯ said Troop 61 leaders will prepare a response to Beth ¯ Shalom’s position. Cohen pointed out that the letter is aimed at the no-Gays policy and should not be perceived as a criticism of Troop 61. Find out for yourself how good the Lord is! - Ps. 34:8 Come share the goodness of the Lord with our community . Sunday Morning 11:00 AM Children’s Worship During Service MCC United Rev. Cathy Elliott, Pastor 1623 N. Maplewood (918) 838-1715 mcctulsa@aol.com Community - Unitarian Uni versalist Congregation at Community oJHope 2545 South Yale, Sundays at llam, 749-0595 A Welcoming Congregation HOUSE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT Sun. Worship, 10:45 am, Sunday School, 9:30 am Wed. Bible Study, 7 pm, Sunday Eve. Service, 6pm 1517 S. Memorial, 628-0802, Info: 224-4754 The Open Arms Project Young Adult Support Group Outreach Program Thurs. Nights Meet Others in a Safe Enviroment Call for meeting times and place: 918-584-2325 Mingo Valley Flowers 9413 E. 31st St., Tulsa 74145 918-663-5934, fax: 663-5834, 800-~.AA-5934 Family Owned & Operated Trinna L. W. 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Several groups nationwide, have since pulled sponsorship of Scout troops and barred troops from longtime meeting places and some Eagle Scouts have returned their badges in protest. Houston Chapel Ends Anti-Gay Discrimination HOUSTON (AP) - A I-Iouston chapel known as a refuge for human rights supporters has reversed a 30- year-old policy banning same-sex union ceremonies from being performed there. The Rothko Chapel was founded by philanthropists John and Dominique de Menil in 1971 as a sanctuary for people ofall faiths and those committed to human rights. About 20 wedding ceremonies are pe.,.~rformed at the chapel eaCh.year. Thepolicy excluding Same=sexumons was imposed when it-opened as per the wishes of Domini.qiiede Menil;whodied in 1997at theageof89. The’C~ap.el’s board of directors decided thi~ monthto start all0~ving same-sex unions at the chapel. "It was" a decision of Mrs. de Menil after consultation, with different religions,’" said Nabila Drooby, former executive director of the chapel who helped recommendthe change. "It was takenby the board, too. Itwas not hers alone. But times have changed." Clarence Bagby of HoUston, a board member of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, said he was thrilled with the switch. Bagby had criticized the chapel know.n for opposing discrimination for banning same-sex umons. Chapel.presidentFrances Farenthold saidthe change came after a yearlong study. "It was a concern ofmine when I first heard about it," she told the Houston Chronicle in Thursday’s editions. ’’I’ve always identified with the Gay community in this city. I believe in inclusivity." Same-sex unions would be strictly ceremonial and are not recognized in Texas. Transsexual Dancers Allege Discrimination NEW YORK (AP) - Two transsexual dancers have filed a sextml discrimination suit against a trendy nightclub after they say they were fired because the club wanted to hire "real girl" dancers. Amanda Lepore and Sophia LaMar, have filed a $100,000 discrimination suit against Twilo, charging they were wrongfully terminated simply because they had once been men. "What are we supposed to have a baby while go-go dancing or something?" Lapore asked The New York Post. The two women said they were fired last February after several years working atthe club. "They’re worldclass entertainers an~d they hadneverbeenreprimanded by the club in any way," said the pair’s lawyer Tom Shanahan. The club’s lawyer, Peter Sullivan, called the suit "unfortunate," and insisted that the two. were ¯not fired as the result of discrimination. "Iqais is the place that’s probably the most sensitive to the transsexual community in New York. This is not an establishment that discriminates against Gays or transsexuals," Sullivan said. Lepore and LaMar, who work at a number of other clubs around the city, say they are pursuing the suit because "we need to protect other transsexuals." Vatican Denies Sexual Abuse of Nuns by Prtests VATICAN CITY (AP) - The Vatican denied a report in the National Catholic Reporter that says sexual abuse of nuns by priests, especially in AIDS-ravaged Africa, is a serious problem. The article is based on five reports by senior mere- ¯ bers of women’s religious orders and a priest going ¯¯ back to 1994. The National Catholic Reporter said the reports have been discussed at top Vatican levels. ¯ Vatican spokesman Joaquin Navarro-Valls acknowl- ¯ edged there were isolated cases of priests sexually ¯ abusing nuns, but said the problem is "restricted to a ¯ limited geographic area." Navarro-Valls said the ¯ Vatican was working with the leaders of religious orders and he stressed the ’~aeroic" work of many priests and nuns. According to the National Catholic Reporter, priests afraid of contracting AIDS sometimes ulrn to young nuns, who are seen as "safe" sexual partners. "In a few extreme instances, according to the documentation, priests have impregnated nuns, then encouraged them to have abortions," the magazine said. In one case reported by Sister Maura O’Donohue, a physician and member of the Medical Missionary of Mary, a priest impreg~at.e~ a.~.~.t~n..,;then arr,m!ged fo~ an abortion. She died :d~ng the al~0rtion and.he 0ff~CiatedatherftmeralMkSs,. :i’ ".~ " "~ : .- Therepolt.scite&!~~ ~eN.a~ofial c.ath0!i~ Reporier also say that nuns i~h0-b~meil~eg~fifi~i ~.e. often forced to leave their.rrders, While 0ae pfieSt~.invol,~ed are allowed to contiiiue their minisixies.Th~ Vatican statement was issued after the Italian media rehashed the article. The Vatican had refused comment to the National Catholic Reporter. The National Catholic Reporter said there are no comprehensive statistics on the sexual abuse of nuns, ¯ but the "frequency and consistency of the reports... ¯ point to a problem that needs to be addressed." The reports citedby the National Catholic Reporter link the ¯ problem to cultumlattitudes toward celibacy as well as to the fear ofAIDS and to traditions of female subser- : vience. Civil Rights Bill Appro.ved by Maryland Commtttee ANNAPOLIS, Md. (AP) - Legislation to ban discrimination against Gays cleared its biggest hurdle at the end of March, winning narrow approval in a Senate committee where it had died the last two years. Gay civil rights activists, some choking back tears, embraced and shookhands in a quiet celebration of the victory they had won with strong backing from Gov. Parris Glendening, who. made the bill on~ of his top priorities this year. The 6-5 vote in the Judicial Proceedings Committee will send thebill to thefloor of the. Senate for debate. Nancy Meyer, co-chairperson of Free State Justice, which lobbied for the bill, said she is confident there are enough votes in the Senate and House of Delegates to pass it. But supporters have less than three weeks to get the proposal through the Senate,-the House Judiciary Committee and the House of Delegates. The biggest danger would be a possible filibuster in the Senate. Supporters of the bill werejust happy they had finally gotten it out of the committee. In a news conference minutes after the vote, Glendening hailed the decision as "a tremendous victory for justice and fairness and inclusion in Maryland." "We cannot legislate acceptance. We cannot wash out hatred out of cruel and callous hearts," he said. But the governor said passage of the law would protect Gays and Lesbians from discrimination on the job and in housing. Abouthalf of the people in Maryland are covered by local Gay rights laws in Baltimore city and in Howard, Prince George’s and Montgomery Counties. Glendening’s bill would extend protections to the rest of the state by adding sexual orientation to a law that prohibits discrimination based on factors such as race, religion and gender. Thebill was.approved in cornmi tree afterabout three hours of discussion spread over two days. Gay Health Issues More Than AIDS ALBANY, N.Y. (AP) - Vickie Smith said : she was 30 before she found a gynecologist in whom she could comfortably confide that she was a Lesbian. "I certainly ~ hadn’t had anyone who didn’t, like, make ¯ aface," Smith said about thedoctors she’d -" seen before .visiting Dr. Fe Mondragon. : Often, she said, male gynecologists told her, "You don’t seem to be sexually active . . . Someone your age should be very active." " Fears of doctors giving moral lessonsor simply not understanding the mechanics of non-heterosexual practices can lead -" patients to avoid discussing intimate de- ," tails withhealth professionals, or worse, to ° steer dear of health care altogether. To help solve these problems, the Em- " pire State Pride Agenda lobbied state leg- " islators for $5 million to educate health ¯ professionals and provide support and re- ; sources for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered people. In the past three ; years, the Pride Agenda successfully lobbied for a total of about $5.5 million in state money for similar projects. "We’re ". kind of the last ones left in terms of underserved communities," said Sheila Healey, Empire State Pride Agenda Foundation program director. Between 5% and 12% of nursing students questioned in a 1998 study said they -" despised Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual : people, according to a study in the Journal : of Nursing Education. More than half of - the Black people who answered a 1999 . Kaiser Family Foundation survey said that they felt health care professionals treat ; people unfairly based on race or ethnicity ,. either very often or somewhat often. 62% of Latinos said the same thing. Mondragon, Smith’s gynecologist, does not advertise any attempt to attract Lesbians -or any specific group. One wall inher office is filled with photos of babies she’s delivered-mostly to heterosexual couples. She also has helped Lesbians start families. And Mondragondoes not ask patients to reveal their sexual habits, or lack thereof, but takes care not to assume the patient’s sexuality. ’’We don’t ask, ’Do you need contraceptives?’" said Mondragon. ’’We ask, ’Do you have a need for birth control?’ We try to eliminate any kind of assumptions." "If youbill yourselfas (providing) women’s health services," she said, ’~hy shouldn’t that include the knowl- .edge of what Lesbians do or what they need?" Pot Club At US Supreme Court vent marijuana from being given to seriously ill patients for pain relief. The cooperativd is a distribution club operating under California’s Proposition 215, the voter-approved law that allows the possession and use of marijuana for medical purposes on a doctor’s recommendation. That’s where Alcalay used to get his marijuana. But he’s had to look elsewhere since the federal government sued the cooperative and five other California pot clubs in 1998 to prevent them from distributing the drug. Afederal judge sided with the government. But last year, the 9th U.S. Circuit Court ofAppeals ruled that "medical necessity" is alegal defense. California officials, including Attorney General Bill Lockyer, argue that the state has the right to enforceqts medical marijuana law, which was approvedby voters in 1996. Distribution dubs sprang up because Proposition 215 iS~silent on how patients will get marijuana, outside of growing and harvesting it themselves. The Supreme Court is not looking directly at Proposition 215, but rather at whether medical necessity may be used as a defense against federal drug bans. It’s unclear whether *he justices will rule on that general issue or rulemorenarrowly on how lower courts have handled this case. If the court says "Yes" to the necessity defense, it could make it easier to distribute medical marijuana in California and the eight other states with similar laws - Alaska, Hawaii, Oregon, Washington, Arizona, Maine, Nevada and Colorado. Justice Department lawyers declined to comment on the case. They have argued that allowing dubs to hand out marijuana compromises the government’s ability to enforce federal drug laws. Advocates say marijuana is a reliable and nontoxic therapy that in some cases is the only relief for suffering people. That point of view was endorsed recentlyby the Institute of Medicine. The institute, which was asked to examine the issue by the White House drug policy office, said that because the chemicals in m~ijuana ease anxiety, stimulate appetite, ease pain and reduce nausea and vomiting, they can be helpful for people undergoing chemotherapy and people with AIDS. Alcalay, a 59-year-old physician who serves as theclub’ s medical director, started using marijuana to keep down his medication after he was diagnosed with HIV in the 1980s. HIV turned into AIDS and in the mid-1990s Alcalay almost died from an intestinal illness that ran roughshod over his wedkened immune system. He credits marijuana with keeping him alive until the advent of drugs that boosted his immune system and wiped out the inteStinal bug. Alcalay didn’t make it into the book about dying. Recently, he ran into the author. "He was surprised to see me," Alcalay said. - On the Net: Oakland Cannabis Coop: http://www.rxcbe.org OAKLAND, Calif. (AP) - A few years ago, an author writing about death asked ailing AIDS patient Michael Alcalay how hewas accepting, dying. "I’m not accepting it," Alcalay retorted. Alcalay is alive today~thanks.in ~part~ he believes,~.to doses of marijuana~that :heiped him j.keep hiS~,~:- 1 In 9SouthAfriCans m~eines::do~ ana~. iippetite.’~p as-lie. :,, AreHIV. Positive/" foughtthcdisease.. ~:~..... ~ :’ ~:,........ - ¯ ’ Alcalay was in the audience as~.lawyerg,~-~’ ~- PRETORIA, -Sonth Africa (AP).#.One.in~i;~ try to~convtnee :the U~.S.---,Supreme:,Court~ -:: rune South Mn~.c.c.c.c.c.c.c.c.c:am ~s. HI.V-posm~e~,~e:, that federal anti-drug,laws ShOuldg’t pre~-7~ government sa~d, more than prev~ousty, / thering April 20-23. 2001 Osage Hills State Park Pow Wow Non-Talent Show Talking Circles Crafts Give-away Stomp Dance Fellowship Native Games Guest Speaker John For more information and to be put on the ailing list, call: Hawk ke -...918-382 1276 Tommy Ch sbro - 9 r . ~lob.al. " ~’is i011 local action April 11, 2001 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Allen Chapman Activity Center, The University of Tulsa Planned Parenthood of Eastern Oklahoma and Western Arkansas, Inc. and The Universi~ of Tulsa with the support of ~ Planned Parenthood" Global Pariners~ Want to save Money and Help Build a Community Center? Switch to Rainbow Communications Long Distance and-More, 10% of Revenues Will Benefit Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights Ca_pim) C~p~n~n4"Gene(~il~Fun~ call 665 I ’or’ev ni g at r4 7 602. thought in a country that already has the world’s largest population of infected people. In the hard-hit eastern prbvince of KwaZulu-Natal, the infection rate was greater than one in every three people, a government study said. The study conducted at 400 clinics nationwide concluded that about 4.7 million In South Africa, leading drug companies went to court this monthto blockalaw that would let South Africa both import generic drugs andmake its own. But as the West pays more attention to demands for affordable HIV drugs for sub-Saharan Africa, theimpoverished regionwithmore than two-thirds of the world’s HIV-posi- South Africans were HIV-positive as of : tiv¢ people, drug.makers simultaneously the end of 2000. Previous government " announced a rapid-fire Series of concesestimates had put the figure at 4.2 million, or one in 10. About 24.5% of women attending public postnatal clinics were infected, up from 22.4% in 1999, the study based on a sampling of 16,000 pregnant women found. Health Minister MantO Tshabalala- Msimang said the figur.e.s represented a leveling off from th~’St~iJ rise in theearly to mid- 1990s, but said the pattern ofinfection suggested that prevention efforts needed to target those who were in stable relationships and might have thought they were less vulnerable. Most HIV-positive South Africans cannot afford the drugs that could prolong their lives. Last week, President Thabo Mbeki rejected calls to declare a state of emergency to allow .the nation to import cheaper generic drugs to deal with its AIDS crisis. Declaring a state of emergency would allow South Africa to produce the generic drugs without breaking World Trade Organization rules on bypassing patent laws. Mbeki told parliament a state of emergency was not needed because South Africa has its own law permitting both importation and production of generic drugs -althoughimplementation has been stalled by a. lawsuit brought by major drug compames. Africa Fighting High Drug Costs ABIDJAN, Ivory Coast (AP) - Far from the big courtroom battle over HIV-drug patents in South Africa, the West African nation of Ivory Coast quietly imports knockoff generic HIV drugs as it has for years - without fuss, patent payments or apologies. "Believe me, I don’t care," Kassim Sidibe, director of Ivory Ctast’s AIDS program, said of patent rights. ’XDur concern is what we can do for our people," said Sidibe, who runs the national program out of a dusty concrete compound in a workifig-dass Abidjan neighborhood. "The lower the prices are for us, the better for our people." With that attitude, Ivory Coast has become one of the first African nations to negotiate at-cost deals for leading HIV drugs. And now the country has reached a new deal that is expected to bringdownthe cost of amonth’ s HIV dru~treatment from $410 this year to $88 to-$112 next year. Senegal, Rwanda and Uganda announced ." similar deals with drug makers this month. In the West, a month’s HIV treatment - wo.ul,d cost about $1 ~000....... ~ It s anexampleoftheWes~tiretheWes~ - big drngmake,are f~ci.~g(~ generics€" .’Wefeel drugm~kersshould~|kel~mfi~, mEm’opeandNorthAmerica,, stud !dibe. ¯ sions in receht weeks. ¯ Most have been price cuts for Africa, to : production cost or even below. Bristol- : Myers Squibb wenteven further last week, ¯ saying it would make its patent for the drug Zerit available in South Africa at no : cost- effectively opening the market to its ¯ generic competitors. Bristol-Myers . stressed it would stickwith the drug corn- : panies’ lawsuit in SouthAfrica, however- ] portraying the case as a broad defense of ¯ patent rights fbr all its drugs. ¯ It’s a different story in the rest.of sub- Saharan Africa, where Bristol2Myers says :- it holds no patents for its HIV drugs. So when it comes to acquiring HIV drugs there, it’s a little more like the Wild West. ° In Ivory Coast, the government gets the HIV drugs it wants by taking bids for them worldwide. When two of the bids for 2001 came back for knockoff drugs at what Ivory Coast deemed the lowest and best offer, Ivory Coast took them. The national AIDS program shipped in AZT .and stavudine from a Bombay-based generic company, Cipla Ltd., bypassing their brand-name makers, GlaxoSmith- Kline and Bristol-Myers. Bristol-Myers markets stavudine as Zerit. The result was "- a 20% savings in the average monthly therapy- down to $410 from nearly $500, said Makan Coulabily, an official with the .AIDS program. Sidibe, thenational AIDS director, didn’t bother to determine whether there were patent rights at issue or not. "We bargain until we get the minimum price," he said. Yale: Undue Profits From .AIDS Drug? ....’Not-from us; We don~t have anythingy. ~ -returned.requests for comment~. NEW HAVEN, Conn. (AP) - Some 600 researchers have signed a petition calling on Yale to help make a university-owned AIDS drug more available in developing nations. The petition drive was launched lastmonth,justafter Bristol-Myers Squibb, whichmanufacturers the drug d4T, pledged to cut the price in South Africa and not contest if generic drugs are distributed, The seeds of the protest were planted when Yale licensed the drug, known commercially as Zerit, developed on campus in 1987, to Bristol-Myers Squibb. It was a relativelycommonagreement thatallowed the university to retain the drug’s patent and receive royalties while its research was distributed to millions. In turn, the company conlrolled manufacturing and distribution strategies. "I became a scientist because I wanted to helpcreatenew cures for diseases around the world," said Fran Balamuth, a :Yale,. immtmobiologist who circulated the petition. :~’Now.Lfind ttmtiY~!,e.is:.turning results of pdblicly funded research;into., Ne_ither ¥~,no~ Bri~tol-My~s Sqifibb. by Jim Christjohn, entertainment editor "My music often unfolds like the book ¯ of my life," says Stevie Nicks. And that " being said, ’Trouble in Shangri-La," is an excellent read as well as a listen. It’ll be " nice to hear some New Stevie on the radio ¯ - and the New Stevie is fabulous! ¯ Hernew album (heardmpromo form) is ¯ a winner. Her voice is dearerand strongerthan before. "Haunting" is a word I would apply to this album as a wholeit does’~n~t S te~ile’; " ~XiSre~~d some’: d6ubi abiliii\~!~it.: o~e p~, aslCJn~iTo~n eeff~~ to work with her on some songs. Andhe said, ’~No ... You don’ tneed anyone to help you with your songs. Do it Yourself." And so she has, and done an excellent job at that. In fact, that story became a song itself, "That Made Me Stronger." Stevie does country proud i~ her ’Too Far From Texas," which I loved, though. I’m not too partial to country. DiXie Chick Natalie Maines guests on this track. Stevie couldeasily cross over, andifwise,Wamer- Reprise Records will’ capitalize on that. Another track, ~andlebnght, h circulated widely in demo form, being from the early 70’ s, and is wonderful to hear in finished form, with the.edge of experience that Stevienow has in her voice. "Bombay Sapphires," with Macy Gray guesting, is another track that has a driving beat with that lost quality of regret and lost love. "Fall From Grace" is a rocker, good for that day-after-being-dumped-angry moments. According to Stevie, it will be included On the tdur. ’~t’ s the perfect balance to ’Edge of 17,’ in terms of energy. It’ s a great song to rock out to" Lestyou thinkit all:recrimination songs, there are a couple of hopeful songs about love gone right (although no one does. anger like Stevie). ’~Love Is," a closing epiphany, with Sarah McLachlan onpiano and guitar and background vocals, is an ode to what one does for love, and that even in the brightness of theflame, thereis darkness, and vice versa. The TroubleInShangn-La albumwas started before the 1997 Fleetwood Mac "Dance" album and tour, and has been well worth thewait. It is as strong analbum as her "Belladonna,"and anequal for ’The Wild Heart." No outdated Stevie here, she has successfully reinvented herself for the new millennium. "To not grow is to die," She asserts, "ofcourse, youwantto workwithin a framework that best suits your talent and style. But you also want to continually shake things up. ’Trouble in Shangri-La" has a spare acoustic sound, and in spite of the fact there are many producers,has a sound that carries all the way through, much like a narrative. The songs stand on their own, yet work exceptionally wall ~ a collection. Noother artist seems to have that gift for writing songs that can touch on such universal themes thatonecaneasily see events in one’ s ownlife mirrored in the music and lyrics of an artist. And that is the magic of Stevie Nicks;friends for whomI’veplayedthese tracks or sent these lyrics (an’d those of past albums) are astounded by just how close they come to describing these events with amaz=~ " ing details. And that is the connection and why I have always looked ~orwardtoanew release by this artist. Fleetwood Mac is confirmed to be going back into the studio in September to record a new album after Stevie’s tour for : ’Trouble." The big question on that is ¯ whether Christine McVie can be lured out of retirement to participate. She’s quite ¯ happy puttering around her manse in En- : glandanddoesn’t wanttobebotheredwith ¯¯ musicmaking; it seems. More likely, her arthritis is.so bad that ¯ playing keyboards is simply too painful; along with the fact that she hates touring; and the attitude I noticed when The Mac : toured for the Dance album in 97. Shejust : seemed to be so bored up there, staring ¯ listlessly at the crowd and mouthing along ¯ with Stevie and Lindsey’s songs during ¯ the lead vocals. ¯ Personally, I dbethrilled,butthen, that s ¯ me. Hey, I’ll put on a blonde wig, and we ¯" sing in the same key... And I can fake the ¯ piano, with the backup keyboardists like : she had on the Dance tout. ¯ If you caught the Judy garland biopic : last month, you were lucky. The perfor- ~ mances were top notch, and the actors to a : tee were so on target with the mannerisms ~ and voices that it was downright eerie. I ¯ hadan ardent interest in Judy’ s musiclong ¯ before I knew I was supposed to. ¯ Thebestintroduction to her workcanbe : :found in the "Judy: The Complete Decca Masters"box set, well worth theprice. Her ¯ earliest works are there, along with some ¯ gems that were overlooked. Her career ¯ spanned two periods, really - the MGM ¯ years, and then the concert years. ’The ¯ London Sessions" hard to find but still in : print, is a good survey of the latter. ¯ The recently remastered "Judy At ¯ Carnegie hall" is a "must have," as the ¯ sound onit is incredible andit really is like ¯ you are there. It’s a wonderful document ¯ of the power of her live performances. ¯ During my aforementioned phase of : "Judy beforelknew I was supposed tolike ¯ her"-ness, I really only liked the MGM : stuff; the countess soundtracks to gems ¯ like ’%Vizard of Oz," see Amuse, p. 9 Stevie Nicks Mozart’s Underwritten by The John Steele Zink Foundation April 21, 27, 29, 2001 TulH I~urftcmlnl Arts Cent~r Call 587-4811 www.tulsaopera.com Timothy-W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partne)ship Planning, Personal Injury,Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenl.s are available. Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Lesbians and Gay men face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. Electronic filing is available for faster refunds, 4021 747-5466 South Harv,ard Aventi , Suite210, Tulsa 74135 "Meet Me In St. Louis,"-"Easter Parade," and so on from 1937 to 1950 or so when MGM fired her. Only after the miniseries aired have I really listened to the post MGM stuff, and discovered how good it really was. Dorothy’s voice is a bit older, but also wiser, and a bit more technically refined. For an example of this, rent "Wizard of OZ" and then watch 1954’s "A Star Is ¯ Born." Judy’ s transformationfrom child star to actress is fully evident in these two pictures. And she was vastly’underrated as an actress. For example, her performance in "The Clock" is classic, and it’ s a film that, while ab-grademelodramaoflost loves, is elevated to high art by her first, and only, non-singing dramatic performance. My friend Karin, of the "raging Lesbian" column, adds this caveat: "The only thing I would add is after the bit about ’The Clock "- you NEED to mention that she also was nominated for Best Supporting Actress for "Judgment at Nuremburg" or you’ll have queens descending from places you didn’ t think existed in Tulsa! It was an excellent performance. VERY small, but very effective." Judy was nominated for an Oscar for "A Star is Born," which she should have won, but didn’ t due to politics. As for the queens coming from places I didn’ t know existed descending upon me, well, that doesn’t really sound so bad... Listening to her music made from 1936 to 1968, I am struck by how much of it is so deceptively simple and eminently hummable. When’ s the last lime a tune on the radio had you humming along because the melody was so infectious it stayed in your head? And intelligent lyrics that sdl the song arefew and far between these days as wall. Songs like ’~Zing! Went the Strings of My Heart" were and are really wall written and fun songs - to listen to and to sing. If you’ ve never heard of these songs or heard them at all, go grab a Judy Anthology - there’ s lots of them that feature the early stuff- and take a listen. You’ll be glad you did. Rumor has it that Capitol, which was her recording label from 1955 until her death, might reissue all the albums she did for them as a complete set, along with outtakes and unreleased songs. Hopefully, this will happen, while her star is again making a comeback. Its a damn shame she isn’t still here to see it. By the way, for those too young to know, the anniversary of the Stonewall. Riots, June 22, when drag queens and their friends fought back after one too many police raids and harassment occurred in New York, heralding the beginnings of contemporary activism for equal rights for Gay and Lesbian folk, happened the day of Judy Garland’s funeral. According to mythopoetic interpreta- "... No other artist seems to have that fft for writson s that can touch on such universal themes that one can easily see events in one’s own llfe m~rrorecl m the mus,e lyrles of an artist.... : tions of that days events, many linked thc ¯ two events together, even though there’ ~ ¯ no hard evidence to support it. And upon : such things are miniseries made of, and ¯ based on. ¯¯ If you get the chance to rent or buy "Broken Hearts Club," do. It’s a good ¯ addition to theGay moviecollection we all have. Featuring the ever-hunky Dean Cain "Lois and Clark: The New Adventures of Superman"; and the father from "Frasier," John Mahoney; along with Andrew Keegan "10 things I Hate About You"; MattMcGrath "Boys Don’t Cry"; Mary McCo~,.mick ’a:’ri~ate Parts. :, and ¯ Nia Long "Soul Food," written and di- ¯ rected by Greg Berlanit, co-executiveproducer of "Dawson’ s Creek." : The plot, as such, is simple - a slice of ¯ life in the Gay (can’tcall it90’s anymore, ¯ what do we call it? The Gay thousands?) : 2000,withaseries ofvignettesintertwined ¯ by the theme of friendship among Gay ¯ men. ¯ We meet Dennis on the eve of his 28th ¯ birthday, who is whining about his dys- ¯ functional family of friends, indecisive as _. to whether they’re the best or worst thing ¯ that ever happened to him. ¯ There’ s Benji, the youngestgroupmem- " ¯ ber, a punk wannabe witha penchant for ¯ gym bunnies; Howie, the psych student ¯ who thinks too much andlives to little (no, ¯ that character was not based on yours ¯ truly...); Cole, the actor bunnyboy who ¯ candono wrong, lovin’emandleaving’em ¯ as fast as you can say revolving door who ¯ also "accidentally" keeps stealing every- " one else’s guy; Patrick, the cynical quip- . ster (now, that’ s based on yours tntly); and ¯ Taylor, resident drama queen (no com- " merit), who, until recently, prided himself ¯ on his long term relationship. Rounding .. out the cast is Jack, the patriarchal force of ¯ the group. ¯ Andof course, everyone ends up at each ¯ others’ throat after tragedy strikes, and with aMickey Rooney/Judy garland wrap- " up, ends up friends again. The plot, as ¯ such, is somewhat scattered, not really ¯ sure where to focus; and of course, we’re ¯ dealing with "types" here, but the actors turn in fine performances all, and the film ¯ is enjoyable and does provide afew laughs ¯ and insights. 3 & 1/2 out of 5 stars. ¯ ¯ It’s a fun film, and fairly accurate in its portrayals - we all.know people like this - ¯ Ijust wish there were morefocus. The film ¯ simply tries to come at the issues it raises ¯ from everyone’s perspective, and it left ~ me thinking that if the director and writer ¯ had chosen maybe two.or three, it would .. have been more cohesive and a tighterfilm ¯ with more intensity and character development. ." Locally The TU Gay and L~sbian Film ¯ Festival runs April 5-7, starting at 7pm on ¯ the 5th and 6th and 2pm on the 7th in the ." Business Administration Hall. Films to be shown include Salut Victor, Orlando, ¯ Westler, Homoteens, seeAmuse, p. 10 by Lamont Lindstrom Enthusiastic pornographers now flood my. m,ailbox wi0a catalogs.. (And let me pause here to thank whichever magazine sold its lnailing list.) I was picking through one ofthesefour-colorbrochures recently, eyeballing lurid blurbs for videos an.~ DVDs. "Raw" sex, seems, is a major selling point. Hot condomless pornos must either date back to an era before the HIV epidemic or are new productions that cater to a pow,e.rf,ul,, emerging s;e,.xual fetish: "oatebacking. Public healthofficials and HIV prevention workers ate anguished, although probably not surprised, to find that the prohibited has become the desired. But there ismore to the story of why barebacking, nowadays, sells pornographic videos. True enough, we often want_what others say we should not have. But our desires also reflect our worldview - or what might be called our culture’s mythic tmderstandings. Thumbing throughthat catalog,notthose fleshy photos, it was text that caught my eye. Several pithy terms have sprung quickly into use to describe unprotected sex. These same-few words appear again and again in video advertisements~ in personal adsi and_in website mission state-. merits such as for this Yahoo! Group: ’The world’s largest bareback list. THE list for menwholove their sex condom:free, guilt: ." free, hot, and spermy." Barebackers are gay men who e~tjoy .. raw, skin-to-skin, n~atural sex with other : men." So condom-free is now bareback; : it’s skin=to-skin; it’s natural; it’s raw. ¯ ~ "Skin-to-skin;" yes. And! get "natural;" and also the cleverness of ’*oarebackingy But why "’raw?" Straight away comes to mind a Classic 1960s analysis by the celebrated French anthropologist Claude Levi-Strauss. LevbStrauss’ ’~ntroduction to the sc~en,ce of. mythology" was published in English, in 1969, as The Rawand theCooked. Asa strncturalist, Levi-Stratus believed he could locate the essential architectural elements, underlying any cultural productionbe this marriage customs, or totemic taboos, or myth. He claimed that the human brain is.neur01ogically Structured to think in dualisms, binaries, and oppositious. We:define One thing in terms of another, and vice versa: . A principal,dualism, that I_~vi-Strauss discovered in his South American Indian myths is an opposition betweennature and Culture. Nattir~iis nature.While Culture iS anything that people create: Level-Strauss argued that htima~s think mosfly in. concrete terms rather than abstract. Outmyths : v~hile fundamentally playing with an intangible opposition between nature and culture ~ rephrasethis: abstract concern concretely as a matter of raw food versus cookedfood.Themwis natural; the cooked .. cultural-; and cookingis any sort of techno- : logical process (condoms, say) that trans- ¯ forms nature into culture. Americans share with many people ¯ around the world the symbolic predilec- "... Americans slmre with many people around the world the symbolle predileetlon for equatln~ food and body, eatln~ and havln~ sex. (Keep thls in mind next time some drunk hollers out ’Eat me!’) This sort of symbolism is ’iconic’ ... insofar as it ,naturally eehaes the realness of bodie~: Our multipurpose mouths do more than tion for equating food and body, eating and having sex. (Keep this inmindnext time some drunk hollers out "Eat me!") This sort of symbolism is "iconic" (in the language of American semioticianCharles Pierce) insofar as it naturally echoes the realness of bodies: Our multipurpose mouths do more thanjust food-processing. We use food (twinkles, chocolate; vanilla) and its qualities (hot, sweet, hunky) as alanguage in which- to talk about sex. Food is either raw or cooked and so, we imagine, is sex. Skin-to-skin sex is natural andtherefore uncooked- orraw. Condoms, conversely, cook the expejust food-proeessln~. " rience. Barebacking, also, ’ ’ is natural in that one rides ¯ the horse without a saddle (a device that ¯ cultures, or cooks the ride). The symbolic : connections, here, are even clearer in : Frenchwhereddingahorsewithn0 saddle ¯ is "monter crn," which translates as "ride - ¯ raw." Or;in an.English parallel, "to sleep ¯~ in the raw"me,arts to sleep naked- without :- any transformingpajamas. - : ’.~- ¯ Raw. sex sdls videos not only because it ¯ is forbidden and therefore guiltily tempting. It sells videos because it is natural and therefore desirable. Whichis better? Natural foods or processed foods? Sincere emotion or social pretense? The untamed forest orthe zoo? But things aren’t so simple or so one~ sided. Now which is. better? Bloody cow flesh or steak? Dank caves or cathedrals? : HIV or medicine? Humans always value ¯ culture - cooking - as much as we do : nature: Culture’s devices that transform : the world make us human. Cooking draws ¯ the line between humanity and animal : nature. This is the message that Levi- : Strauss read in his myths. ¯¯ Raw sex may be.good because it is natural, but condomed sex might similarly ." be appreciated justhxcause irishin fact, ¯ cooked - that is to say, it is refined., civi- ¯ lized, and technological. Gay men in par- : titular should appreciatethis distinction. ¯ Many. mythologies - yet another dual- " ism - position women as.natural in coun- : t.erpoint to cultured men. Raw sexis feral- ¯ rune (thatis, natural, and perhaps hetero- : sexual)while cooked sex is masculine : (cultured, homosexual). H-IV prevention ¯ efforts ~have attempted to play up the ur- ¯ bane sophistication of condoms - their ¯ colors; textures, tastes, and playful meth- ¯ ods of use. They could,no doubt, domore. ¯ Condomsl- as a mode of cooking - can : make things hotter. : Lamont Lindstrom, Ph.D. teaches an- . thropology at ihe University of Tulsa. program that targets and attracts the Black ." Gay community. "Fhere’s an enormous - complacency about contracting HIV," " Kegeles said. "It’s not a big issue any- " more. People still remain healthy and ¯ strong: They think they can take two pills in the morning and two pills at night." Kegeles said the Gay black commumty hasn’t been studied sufficiently, and :it needs to be examined more closely because Gay Black men do not necessarily frequent mainstream Gay bars and other " venues. In addition, she said there’s a ¯ larger stigmaattaehedtoBlackGays. Many ¯ ~ do not even admit they have sex with other " men, Kegeles explained. Leniere Miley, assistant coordinator at the House of Latex Project in New York, ¯ said it’s important to seek out Black Gay men and educate them about the risks of " unsafe sex in a message that appeals to ¯ them. He said it’ s a toughjob that goes far beyond simply sponsoringhip-hop dances and posters depicting Black culture. ’~eople have different ways ofcommu: nicating and hearing things," Miley said. "Maybe the people in the .Black community couldn’ t hear it. Ithas to be tailored to the communities they’re going to." On the Net: www.amfar.org To report hate sp~-ch or I violence, call the Gay " Community Center: 743-4297 I Summer in my Veins, High Art, Poduck andPassion, and To My Women Friehds. The Bonnie Rideout Scottish Trio finishes outthe PerformingArtCenterTrust’ s Celtic Music Series. It should be a good ¯ time for all, especially if yon,re a fan of ¯ traditional. Celtic fiddling. April 6-7, 596- ¯ 7111. ¯ "AnAll-AmericanEvening"is theTulsa ¯ Ballet’S tribute to American choreogra- ¯ phers. Featuring the Oklahoma premiere ’of Balanchine’s "Who Cares?" with Gershwinmusic, Paul Taylor’ s ’~2ompany B"withAndrews Sisters, music,andAgnes DeMille,s "Rodeo", (usually featuring a nearly naked cowboy, but given the ads I’ ve seen for this production, it looks like no such treat is in store). April 6-8, PAC, 749-6006. For country queens, three of country’s queens will be performing April 7 at the ¯ MaxwellConventionCenter~.JanieFricke, :. Lacie J Dalton, and Juice Newton will be : a-hootin, and a-hollefin.584-2000. ¯ For queens of the Garden, it,s time for ¯ Tulsa’s Spring Garden Mart from the 13- : 14 at Tulsa Garden Center; 746-5125.- : April 19-28, Heller Theatre presents ¯ ’WitalSigus"; by Jane Martin, featuring : monologues by some of Tulsa’s most tal- :. ented actresses, 746-5065. ¯ And last but hardly least, Tulsa Opera : presents "The Marriage of Figaro" by " Mozart April 21, 27 and 29. 587-4811. IGTA member Call 341. 6866 ntern tion ToursIormoreinlormation. "TULSA COUNTY DEMOCRATIC Country Club Barbering Custom Styling for Men & Women David Kauskey 3310 E. 51st, 74%0236, T.~es.-Fri., 8-5:30, Sat. 8-5pm Tulsa’s only .College Hill Presbyterian Church In response to God’ s Love, College Hill Presbyterian Church is a community of God’ s people called to tell others the Gospel of Jesus Christ through worship, service, and evangelism. To nurture our faith, we gather for worship, prayer, study and fellowship. Trusting in a living, loving God, we seek to become a compassionate voice for peace and justice. Our congregation welcomes all persons who respond in trust and obedience to God’s grace in Jesus Christ, and desire to become part of the membership and ministry of Christ’ s church. Membership is open to all people regardless of race, ethnic origin, worldly condition, marital status, or sexual orientation. by Karin Gregory ¯ Do you ever feel like your life is a . Broadway play, a Hollywood movie, or a " television sitcom? Of course you do - you’re Gay! Some of you even think your " life is a 1930’s Hollywood musical, or La ¯ Boheme, or Rent, but we’re talking here ¯ about a Gay couple. No, not that kind of " couple- not the butch/femme, but the Gay man/Lesbian couple. The kind of couple ¯ that doesn’t require a lawyer if things " don’t work out. Fm in a Will And Grace " situation, but we’re both Gay. So we’d ¯ comemoreunder the heading ofthat Broad- " way play/Hollywood movie/television . sitcom, The Odd’Cmiplb’. One guess as to " which one of us is Felix! ¯ As you recall from the play/movie/TV ¯ show, Felix, the neamik, was kicked out of " his house by his wife and comes to live " with his sloppy friend, Oscar. Things were ¯ a tad different withus- Lesbian Oscar was " takeninbyGay Felix, butwewon’ tquibble over little things. Both characters had ex- ¯ spouses, and I suppose you can’t get more ¯ EX than SHE WHO MUST NOT BE." NAMED. When I first moved in, Gay " Felix had just met ’~the one." Yeah, right. When ’~he one" treated him much like I ¯ had been treated (except ’~&e one" actually communicated!), who was here to " hold him, talk him down from varioul ceilings in the apartment, and generally ¯ offer comfort and support?Lesbian Oscar " of course. " Being withGay Felix guarantees there’ s ¯ always drama in the place. Whether it deals with "the one" of the week, our dog " Roxie and her many weirdnesses, or just mundane money problems, it is NEVER a ¯ dull life. Simple problems are always " turned up twelve notches with us. If we " have a problem with the apartment corn- ° plex, we decide to move! The fact that we ¯ can’t afford to break the lease doesn’t " occur to us at the time. You have a mad " queenand apissed-offdyke on yourhands. ¯ We should have a sign above the door that ¯ reads, "Abandon logic, all ye who enter." " And I’m now walking a dog, like a true " Lesbian. Gay Felix came in one night, ¯ laughing, because the dog now lifts her ¯ leg. Who was blamed? Lesbian Oscar, " who oftenplays her favoritemusician (and " we all know who she is by this time, don’t we?) while the dog sits on the bed listen- ." ing. So when she lifted her leg when I " walked her, I praised her, calling her Me- " lissa and Butch. ¯ I have to say that I’ve never known any ¯ one person, even Felix Unger from the play/movie/TV show, to wash so much clothing. Gay Felix doesn’ townthatmany ¯ clothes, butdanm if I don’ thear the washer and dryer going on and on each night and ¯ morning. Maybe some of you Gay men : can enlighten me on this subject. I’m at a total loss. Gay Felix even remarked early ° on in our nightly, daily, aftemoonly, etc., ° clothes washings, "I never thought I’ d see ¯ bras h..a~.ging fr~o~ MYlauladry area. tsut ~ foldpanties, anddehl wlthvanous women s " :issues as best he can. " . ¯ Like Fehx Unger from the play/movie/ ¯ " TV siio v;Gay Felix t3 c3oL " does so on occasion. He makes the most seemingly plain dinners gourmet feasts. And he’s even started us on an exercise program. Gay Felix plays Mr. Motivator .to Lesbian Oscar’ s couch potato. No grass grows under a queen’s feet, I’ve come to realize. Because most Gay men believe Lesbians have no decorating taste 01mph!), the very few things I have in our living room I’ve had to fight for. My room has been a work in progress for almost three months now. But at least the boxes are off the middle of the floor. I now have carpet! I never knew since I moved in that I had carpet. And you know how important carpet i~ for Lesbians.t I couldn’t hide my sexual preference even if I wanted to. The reason? Gay Felix introduces me t0’each and every one of his friends: as "my Lesbian roommate." Another thing that’s similar to the play/ movie/TV show is that we do things together. Like going to Gay clubs in Dallas (would we go anywhere else at night?). True, Gay Felix is 24 years old as opposed tomy45 years of age, and I’msure it looks like I’m takingmy son to Gay bars. People must wonder just what kind of mother I am! I’ve seen more dnmken people in the past few months than I did when I was in my twenties and drank myself. I’ve also met more people in the Gay comlnunity of Dallas than I ever have before. Too bad they’re all drunk at the time. I have to reintroduce myselfeach time. It’ s funny to see Gay Felix at the bars. ¥ou hear various things as he walks by, like, "Oh, is he hot!"; "Girl, look at that!"; and ’Td take him home!" He’s one of the cutest men I’ve met, yet he doesn’t think so. The inevitable question about how the roommate handles the boyfriend situation comes up here as well. I’m introduced as the Lesbian Roommate (I almost think that’ s my name now), and we start talking. Imagine, a twenty-something man talking to me instead of jumping into bed right away. I don’t know if I’d do the same thing. But I think Gay Felix wants my views on the guys he brings home - a woman’ s perspective,ifyou will. Hell, we all know how easy ! am. If the guy’ s nice to me, I tell Gay Felix to keep him! And Lesbian Oscar, Mespite her best intentions, is slowly .becoming domesticated. You heard me, grrls! Some things that I would never have bothered about beforejump out atmenow. Duston theTV screen comes to mind. I wipe the kitchen counter every time I’mfinished with something in there. I now have places to put my things, and most of the time I actually manage t.o putmy things backin the proper place! If you’re wondering if a relationship like this can work, I’m telling you it can. We don’t fight, and when I do get bitchy (who, me?), Gay Fclix knows exactly what to say to snapme back and makeme lau~gh. Wouldthis work wlthjU~t tole$,anc.¢, !evel, for a ragLng Lesbian higii .~ ~ s!~yScraper. No~:~i~-iy:~y~r~" you, f~.d are like thaL Tiffs is or~e m~ I: want~0 live witli Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights presents Divers"ity ration 2 1 Saturday, June 2, 2001 TOHR Follies 2001 "From Here to Eternity" Avondale Studio & Theatre (the old Delaware Playhouse) 1511 So. Delaware Ave., 8pm Reception immediately following. Tickets: $15.00, At the Door: $20.00 The PriMe Store @ Tulsa GLBT Community Center; 2114 S Memorial or by calling ~918.743.4297 or toll free (outside Tulsa) at 866.335.9074 Sunday, June 3, 2001 Tulsa Interfaith Service Sponsored by TU BLGTAlliance, Sharp Chapel~ TU, 3pm Monday, June 4, 2001 Council Oak Men’s Chorale Concert Presented by Tulsa City/County Library "Diversity in Song" Aaronson Auditorium, Central Libmrym 3rd & Denver, 7pm Monday, June4, 2001 Family Law Panel Presented by Tulsa City/County Library Professor Linda Lacey, TU Law School and a panel of family law experts. Helmedch Library, 91st and Yale, 7pm Tuesday, June 5, 2001 Art Exhibit: "Embracing Art" All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S. Peoria Avenue, 6-9pm Thursday, June 7, 2001 GLBT Film Festival Sponsored by Tulsa City/County Library Aaronson Auditorium, Central Library, 3rd and Denver, 7pm Friday, June 8, 2001 TOHR Diversity Gala Benefiting TOHR and Diversity Celebration 2001 "Death Be Not Proud" Speakers and Parade Grand Marshalls: Ms. Gabi Clayton, Olympia, WA, Ms. Dorothy Hajdys Ms. Nancy Rodrigues, Houston, TX, Ms. Carolyn Wagner, Little Rock, AR "Community. Hero" Awards presentation honoring those .in the local GLBT community. Tulsa Country Club, 701 N. Yukon Dr., 7pm, reception& silent auction, 8pm dinner, $100/ea. $1,000 table of eight. Sponsorships available. Reserved seating available by calling 918.743.4297 or 866.335.9074 Saturday, June 9, 2001 The Pride Parade Cherry Street (15th Street) to Boston Avenue to 18th Street to Veterans Park Starts at 3pm, Float/marchers begin assembling at lpm. No entries after 2:45pm Featuring:Entries from across Oklahoma and the Midwest Region Community Heroes Oklahoma’s largest Pride Flag Diversity Festival Sponsored by: Bud Light & Eastern Oklahoma Beverages Veterans’~ark, 1875 So. Boulder Ave., 3pm Featuring~Entertai:nment, Speakers, and more. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2001] Tulsa Family News, April 2001; Volume 8, Issue 4 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 2001 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Karin Gregory Barry Hensley J.P. Legrandbouche Lamont Lindstrom Esther Rothblum Mary Schepers Hughston Walkinshaw Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, March 2001; Volume 8, Issue 4Image Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa(Oklahoma)---newspaper Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/611 2001 advocacy AIDS AIDS drugs arts and entertainment Boy Scouts businesses churches College Hill Presbyterian Church discrimination Elton John Eminem gay bashing Gay/Straight Alliance George W. Bush Glaxo SmithKline hate crimes HIV HIV testing Karen Gregory Lamont Lindstorm LGBT police Merck and Co. military inclusion Murder Openarms Youth Project Partner Benefits performing arts Pfizer Presbyterian Church Ragin Lesbian Red Cross Red Rock Tulsa restaurants Soulforce STDs the closet tolerance curriculum Tom Neal TU Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance Tulsa Family News Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights United Way