23 20 644 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a918105ab6adf69713364d2fce7d8fe6.jpg 897cdc4b95d5e02e0ab111a32bc1d143 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/820049079019edbbc4699ae60584c413.pdf a000a4191d62824a2816c51d7099c84b PDF Text Text 2008 A new " for Pride By Joey De By Joey De If you have lived in Tulsa for more than twenty minutes, you knmv that there is an impenetrable force-field separating the city. Most Tulsans call it Forty-First Street. Enter the Downtown Plaza Hotel, on 7th & Boulder, who for the first time in recent memory provided Tulsa Pride an official "host" hotel. Photo: Equality Festival at Tulsa’s New Centennial Park Sometimes change can be difficult, however, despite months of complaints and apocalyptic predictions about the many "firsts" at Tulsa Pride 2008, it seems that the only people who had difficulties were the protesters. For the first time in the celebration’s history, the protesters were present for only a minimal time during the Pride Parade and completely absent from the Diversity picnic. "2008 was a },ear of dramatic change," says Nate Black, one of the event’s cochairs. "However thanks to the dedication of a strong group of volunteers, all the changes to this year’s events were possible. It would not have been possible without each and every person who helped." Black especially credited his co-chairs Kristi Freeman and Toby Jenkins with making the pieces fit together. "Kristi has an incredible ability to assess and foresee needs and coordinate logistics. The fact that everything worked smoothly to host thousands of people at our events xvas a testament to her abilities." "The fact that ~hlsa Pride is able to remain free to the public is proof of Toby’s dedication to these events, which on the low end cost over $30,000. Under his leadership, we were able to, for the first time, secure the majority of our sponsorships long before the events even took place," says Black. .......... Continued page-5 Staying at a hotel room for your own city’s Pride ,nay seem a little excessive, but for a South-Tulsan, it made perfect sense. Having a place downtown to call "home" for the weekend saved time and even money on the celebration’s two largest weekends. Anyone who has ever been to a Pride observance knows that three things are true. It will be hot. You will be sweaty. You xvill be drinking. All three of those can combine to impede a "proper" Pride celebration, but with the convenience of the Downtown Plaza Hotel’s location, neither was an issue. Through taking advantage of the special Pride Rate offered by the hotel, it was effortless to enjoy the day (or early evenings) festivities, .......... Continued page-5 ��1- 80 0o535 oAI DS (2437) Ok ahoraa s H~VIST~ 2 the STAR ww~v.ozarksstar.com �Dear Editor: I thought I would add something to the political cartoon in the June 2008 Star. Presently I live in Oklahoma City, and much to my surprise have done so for the last 14 years. Originally from Boston I make an annual trip home each Christmas to see family and friends and make a quick pilgrimage to the haunts I was familiar with before leaving Boston in the mid 80’s. This pilgrimage consists of walking the city to see what is still around that I was familiar with, and perhaps who is still around that I can remember. On my most recent trip I was a little saddened to see many places that meant a lot to me are no longer around, or have been so renovated for so different a use that they are unrecognizable. As is my custom, on this outing I stopped in at every gay bar I could remember, or find, and had drinks and conversations with the bartenders. Most of the old bars are gone, as are the people. Politics begins in the bars in Boston, and gay politics was no exception. The civil rights fought for and won began with many bar patrons and owners, and in the process of getting what they were after, the bar owners found that with acceptance came a lesser need for the safety of an exclusively gay bar with the occasional straight patron. In conjunction with this the price of living in the city has made any gay ghetto prohibitive, making it necessary for what vcould have been the denizens of such an area to move into the suburbs for affordable housing with the side effect of showing the majority of the state that Gay people were pretty normal, and not the screaming stereotypes that isolation seemed to promote. Gay people were seen as responsible people and not the party animals who spent most of their lives going to bars to dance the night away and returning home each night with a different sex partner. They turned out to be people so normal that marriage did not seem to be such an improbable thing. The ultimate goal of gay gights is equality, and that means normalcy for most. Just as straights have their outlets out of the mainstream, so do gay people. But both do have their mainstreams. The gay bars still around are nostalgia for us older gentlemen who want some of the past preserved for our visits back, or who may feel more comfortable in one because life had not been all that kind to us, with just a bit of the specialty shop aura to them. Most have become very mixed, while some have become the corner bar, the lodge for men and women of like minds to talk freely among their own, but doing it willingly as opposed to necessarily. The lesser the need for exclusively gay bars, the more success can be claimed by the gay community. Joe Quigley Oklahoma City www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �DOWNTOWN PLAZA HOTEL cont. TULSA PRIDE continued then quickly retreat to air-conditioning and a cold shower. This was especially useful following the parade and block party, According to estimates provided by the Tulsa Police Department, this year’s Pride Parade and Block Party have become the largest events of their kind in Downtown Tulsa. Police estimate that there were a combined 18,000 people between the two events. just before visiting the bar,s. Adding to the convenience was the hotel s on-call shuttle. With less then a ten minute wait each time it was needed, the shuttle allowed guests to leave their cars and avoid parking headaches, expensive gas and more importantly, DUIs. Many parade-goers were excited about the new evening-format, celebrating with glow sticks and sparklers. Some of the floats even stepped into the spirit embracing christmas lights and disco balls. Most route walkers were simply excited over the fact that they no longer had the sun beating down on them and that the trek was much flatter. The hotel is currently undergoing a complete restoration, with every room being completely renovated to sport an almost TUqnspired blue and gold color scheme. Furnished with antique-style pieces, the rooms of the Downtown Plaza Hotel are uncluttered, yet comfortable and quaint. Pride guests noticed a little construction "dust" in the form of the occasional minor malfunction and missing carpet outside the elevator, however found their problems fixed quickly and courteously with a simple call to the front desk. Following the parade, the block party centered around the Equality Center came into its own, maintaining a crowd until the scheduled end at midnight. Following the event, most of the area bars reported record capacity crowds as the party continued through the evening. The following weekend at Centennial Park, the only thing to be missed was the heat and mud at the former location. For many pride-goers, this event was the first time they had visited the new Tulsa centerpiece. Most fell in love with its picturesque setting and more importantly abundant shade. According to TPD estimates, 12,000 people visited the Diversity Picnic, which according to organizers was represented by a steady flow of people through out the day. The forty-plus booths at this year’s picnic xvere the most diverse in memory, representing non-profit service organizations such as HOPE Testing Clinic, Fortune 500 companies such as Best Buy and the traditional array of Rainbow Retailers. Picnickers enjoyed the live entertainment that took the stage off and on through out the day, while kids entertained themselves on the inflatable games and climbing wall. Okay, the kids weren’t the only ones enjoying the inflatable games. The handsdown hit of the picnic was the water slide that both kids and adults rode repeatedly. w~,~N.ozarksstar.com Perhaps the most enjoyed aspect of While the three major pride attractions could be considered a successful spl!t, many attendees expressed a desire for the events to be recombined onto one weekend. A common complaint: "I didn’t know what weekend to tell my friends to come. They couldn’t take off work both weekends or afford the gas to come twice." Black reacts to such criticism openly. "There were a lot of changes this year. Some things went very well; some things didn’t go as well as we had hoped. We are going to take what we learned, listen to the feed back we receive and then will make the appropriate changes for next year." As for now, Black and the rest of the Tulsa Pride Committee are happy to place Tulsa Pride 2008 in the history books as a success, with a rejuvenated event positioned to grow in the years to come. Downtown Plaza Lobby the Downtown Plaza Hotel by some pride guests was their retreat to the New York City-eque second story outdoor pool. Tucked quietly between the rooftops of dmvntown Tulsa, the pool was quiet, clean, and theperfect place to prepare for, or recover from the festivities. Staying at the Downtown Plaza Hotel gives celebrating Tulsa Pride a new feel. For those from Tulsa, it creates an enjoyable mini-vacation, while those who travel enjoy its close proximity to the Pride events and Downtown night life. Either way, whether from in or out of town, it always feels good to stay where "family" is welcome. the STAR 5 �The Phantom Standard Joey De For Marni Raab, playing the role of Christine in the legendary musical "The Phantom of the Opera," is the fulfillment of a long time dream. "I started ~vith this show as an understudy in 2001," recalls Raab, ~vho has played the role for the past seven years internationally. "I was then promoted to performing two shmvs a week, and then when on tour six." Although it may seem odd to plan alternating actresses to play a role, Raab explains it as "just good business sense." "The show is long and Christine is onstage for almost all of it," says Raab, who notes that there is only one scene in the almost three hour show in which her character doesn’t appear. "The people they hire to play Christine are ingdnues," says Raab, who continues "They put big, heavy costumes on them, and then thrmv them around. I wind up falling and running then falling again, a lot. It’s just better to schedule somebody as a second principal then to never kno~ving when your lead will be out." "The Phantom of the Opera," is Andrew Lloyd Webbers’ hit musical about Raab’s character, Christine, and her admirer/kidnapper, ~ll~e Phantom. "He’s a maniac, a monster, disfigured and he’s a murderer," describes Raab, "but he is also a poet, an architect and a brilliant composer." Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR Christine on the other hand, is a young lady on the verge of adulthood, says Raab. "She was been raised by her violinist father, educated and probably traveled the world, which was rare then." Raab explains that her character is lonely and looking for a way in life when the brilliant, yet creepy Phantom enters her life as a mentor. Unfortunately, Christine’s’ childhood acquaintance Raoul re-enters her life at the same time, completing a love triangle that entangles the three. "She must choose between the passionate genius who has a horrible disfigurement and has been led down the wrong path, and the nice guy." When asked how the show has endured, Raab believes that "The Phantom," offers something for everyone to react to. "I have done the show across Canada, the US and Asia, and every audience reacts differently. There are lavish sets, pyrotechnics and elaborate costumes. It’s ornate, it’s majestic and at the heart it’s a love story." Helping to ensure the quality of "The Phantom" experience, Raab says that every production of the show must meet the highest standards. "Audiences demand a certain standard," says Raab," but the producers insist on it. If you xvant to produce the show, you must have the seal of approval from Andrew Lloyd Webber, Hal Prince and al! of the people associated with the original. This way the show you see (in Tulsa) is the same as what people in New York and on the West End are seeing." Raab says that there is also a standard the performers in the show must live up to. "It is humbling and an honor to be in this show, and I know I have big shoes to fill. It has been around for so long, audiences feel a sense of ownership in it, making it even more important to see it done right. You (the performers) have a responsibility to keep the show in shape and do it justice." According to Raab, the performers have help from standard’s directors, who guide their performances to prevent serious character infractions. "We dodt have the luxury of’finding’ our characters," the actress explains. "It takes a different skill set to step into a role that has been established and place our marks on it as artists." If you have not yet experienced "The Phantom," the show will be at the Tulsa PAC through July 13. Visit www.myticketoffice.corn for ticketing information. Quotable Quotes Scientists at the Karolinska Institute studied brain scans of 90 gay and straight men and women, and found that the size of the two symmetrical halves of the brains of gay men more closely resembled those of straight women than they did straight men, while the brains of homosexual women were asymmetrical like those of straight men. www.ozarksstar.com �Open Daily = High Noon www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �17 West 7th Street (corner 7~ & Boulder Ave) Tulsa, Ok 74119 R~tions: 918~5~98 e 800~5,5101 www.downtown plazatulsa:com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �JULY 2008 the STAR 9 �Oklahoma City Museum o£Art Presents Roman Art £rom the Louvre perfume bottles, and cosmetics are examined within the greater context of the role of women in the Roman Empire. Other topics addressed include the art of Roman portraiture; the Boscoreale treasure; and Hadrian’s Villa at Tivoli and the Maritime Theater. Final U.S. venue for rare ancient works from the Louvre’s esteemed collection OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Otdahoma City Museum of Art wil! be the final North American venue for Roman Art from the Louvre, June 19 through October 12, 2008. Tile seventeen-~veek exhibition, so large it will occupy the Museum’s ground floor special exhibition gallery and the eight second floor galleries of the Museum, will feature 184 works, some weighing more than 6,000 pounds. An unprecedented exhibition of ancient masterworks, drawn from the Louvre’s unparalleled collection, it provides a rare and historic opportunity for Oklahoma audiences to view these magnificent works, many of which have not been seen by the public in decades and most of which have never traveled to the United States. Furthermore, many of the objects in the exhibition have recently been restored, bringing to light their original beauty and strength of expression. The portrait busts of anonymous men, women, and children featured in "The Roman Citizen" reveal the styles and fashions popular during the Roman Empire. Clothing, hairstyles, jewelry and other accessories, 10 the STAR Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Hection Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Hection General Election Frida); October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Election CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June ! through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. "The Louvre, thanks to Napoleon’s megalomaniac interest in the glories of Ancient Rome, has one of the finest collections of Roman art outside of Italy," said Hardy George, Ph.D., chief curator at the Oklahoma City Museum of Art. "The exhibition of sculpture, jewelry, mosaics, and frescos will be scrupulously arranged in a thematic manner that will certainly be visually and aesthetically pleasing as well as historically informative." The exhibition examines the manifestations of Roman public and private life through an exploration of several themes, including religion, urbanism, war, imperial expansion, funerary practices, intellectual life, and family. Roman Art from the Louvre shows the full range of Roman artistry and taste, juxtaposing "official" art with more modest, private works. VOTER REGISTRATION Roman Art from the Louvre was organized by the American Federation of Arts and the Musde du Louvre. The exhibition is supported by an indemnity from the Federal Council on the Arts and the Humanities. American Federation of Arts: The AFA is a nonprofit institution that organizes art exhibitions for presentation in museums around the ~vorld, publishes exhibition catalogues, and develops educational materials and programs. For more information on the AFA, please visit www.afaweb.org. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Election \Vednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturda); July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AiVl - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 vavw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html www.ozarksstar.com �Congressman Frank: Why John McCain Is \Vdrong for the LGBT Community WASHINGTON, DC __ In the May edition of the Democratic National Committee’s LGBT newsletter, Democratic Congressman Barney Frank makes the case for why electing John McCain would be a step backward for the LGBT community. Frank, a member of Congress representing Massachusetts since 1981, has long been an outspoken civil rights advocate and a vocal member of the LGBT community. While McCain has tried to portray himself as a "maverick" and a "moderate," Congress: man Frank makes it clear that on LGBT rights, like so many issues, McCain offers a third Bush term. ~-he following are excerpts of Congressman Frank’s article: "With one exception, the relevance of which Senator McCain himself is rapidly diminishing, John McCain’s record is completely opposed to our efforts to combat prejudice and gain legal equality... "He has of course made it clear that he will support constitutional Amendments banning marriage at the state level, including in his mvn state of Arizona, and he regretted the fact that Arizona rejected such an amendment... "In every other area, McCain has a consistent voting record against our efforts. In 1996, the only time the Senate voted on the Employment Nondiscrimination Act, McCain was one of those who voted no. He has also consistently voted against extending hate crimes protection to gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender individuals... "This apparently reflects the prejudiced view that he expressed in 1993 when he was helping block President Clinton’s effort when he said on February 4th, as recorded in the Congressional Record, "The issue of allowing open gay lifestyles in the military is completely different from the kind of www.ozarksstar.com changes taking place in civil life ... Homosexuality is a behavioral trait, unlike skin color... "In addition to strongly opposing same-sex marriage, suggesting that he could modify his opposition to a federal constitutional amendment banning states like Massachusetts from adopting same-sex marriage, voting against ENDA, consistently opposing hate crimes coverage for us, and being recorded against every other effort in the Senate to give us fair treatment, Senator McCain also promised if he becomes president to reduce those protections we have been able to achieve at the Supreme Court level. He has noted his admiration for those justices who have consistently voted against any efforts by GLBT people to establish any right to legal equality, for example Chief Justice Rehnquist, a dissenter in the Lawrence v. Texas case, in which the sodomy laws against gay and lesbian people were stricken. "Given the alignment of Supreme Court Justices, and their ages, it is virtually certain that if John McCain is president, he will appoint justices who will overturn the Lawrence decision and the leading Supreme Court opponent of fair treatment for gay and lesbian people, Antonin Scalia ~vill gain alhes from McCmns appolntme ts. Community Peopte living 50t c (3) b~on Profit ()rganization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for PeoPle who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. the STAR 1t �~W By Donald Pile and Ray Williams MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET for Will & Grace in 2006, but Leslie also is a gifted writer and playwright. He wrote and starred in the autobiographical play, LOST IN THE PERSHING POIINT HOTEL, which was also made into a motion picture. He has appeared in dozens of TV shows including The Fall Guy, Murphy Brown, Newhart, Ski Patrol, Lois & Clark "The New Adventures of Superman", Reba, Wings, The Pretender, Dharma and Gregg, Ellen, Caroline and the City, Sabrina, the Teenage Witch, Nash Bridges, Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Judging Amy, George Lopez, Boston Legal, Ugly Betty and Hidden Palms to name just a few. Leslie Jordan, the wonderful talented actor, comedian, writer and playwright has just come out with his new book, MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET which is a fabulously funny and interesting biography of Leslie’s life, so far. We are fortunate that we met Leslie a few years ago and saw his opening performance of"Like A Dog On Linoleum" in West Hollywood. He played to sell out audiences every night, and now in his new book, he brings his life to readers throughout the nation to peruse. What began as a smal! boy growing up in Tennessee and thru his different trials and tribulations he now is one of the top actors/entertainers in the country. Leslie has written a brutally honest story of his life and tells about all of it, warts and all, from his alcoholism, addiction to drugs, street hustlers and everything in between. The greatest thing is that he has been able to overcome most all of his demons (he has now been sober for over 10 years). Most people who write biographies like to kinda forget the bad times and only tell about the good times. Not Leslie! He deals with every aspect of his life and takes the readers through everything. Yes, Leslie Jordan does have a ministry and that ministry is to be fun, funny, exciting and to bring happiness to the world. There is enough grief and misery in the world as it is. He brings a breath of fresh air wherever he goes. It is so nice reading a real biography where the author tells it just as it was and is and lets the readers get to know him personally. This should be a "must read" for all high school students, both gay and straight. It is an honest and compelling story of one person’s struggle with himself and the world around him, and he won! Leslie Jordan certainly deserves all the awards and accolades that he receives. MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET is one of the funniest yet heart-felt books that we have ever read. Leslie Jordan is real ! and in today’s world that is really something to say! Leslie Jordan is not like Paul Lynde, he is not like Truman Capote, he is not like anybody else. He is simply himself and that is what makes him so great. After reading this book we can understand why his one man performances are sell outs! We can’t wait for the sequel to this book! We URGE all of our readers to rush out and purchase a copy of this book. Leslie Jordan is taking his "act" on the road again and will be coming to a city near you with an exciting one man performance and to sign his book. Check out his website, www. thelesliejordan.com for updates. "Love, light to you, Leslie and the very best!" Donald Pile and Ray Williarm, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. Proud members ofthe IGLTA. You can Most people only know of Leslie either from the movie, Sordid Lives or from his guest appearances on Will & Grace. He was nominated and won the Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy Series 12 the STAR email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www, hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers ~vw.ozarksstar.com �Wockner News Service Two California counties Massachusetts governots ’d aughter comes rebel against marriage out ruling County clerks in California’s Kern and Butte counties have stopped performing all marriages so as not to have to marry gay couples. Katherine Patrick, daughter of Massachusetts Gov. Deval Patrick, came out publicly as a lesbian June 12 in an interview with the Boston gay newspaper Bay Windows. In Kern County, where Bakersfield is located, Clerk Ann Barnett announced her decision after county lawyers told her she could not marry straight couples but refuse to marry gay couples. Officially, she said the move stemmed from a lack ofstaffand space to meet the anticipated demand for weddings. "We... wanted people to know that it’s not only something that we accept, but it’s something that we’re very proud of," Katherine, 18, said. But in an e-mail sent to the conservative legal group Alliance Defense Fund and obtained by the Bakersfield Californian newspaper, Barnett’s office wrote: "Our question is, now that the Supreme Court has refused to stay its decision, will Alliance Defense Fund defend the County Clerk if she ceases performing all marriage ceremonies .... We fully expect to be sued and our own counsel is not being of help.’" "It was the easiest coming out experience that anyone could possibly have," Katherine said. In Butte County, north of Sacramento, County Clerk Candace Grubbs cited money problems in announcing her decision. ~:he county’s largest city is Chico, population 87,OO0. But the president of the California Association of Clerks and Elected Officials, Contra Costa County Clerk Steve Weir, said the money excuse makes no sense. He told the San Francisco Chronicle that counties make money from selling marriage licenses and performing weddings. Kern and Butte counties still have to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, but counties are not required to also offer wedding ceremonies, though most do as a courtesy and because it brings in income. She said she came out to her parents in July 2007, just before a picnic by the pool at their home in the Berkshires. First lady Diane Patrick called that event "a nonevent in the sense that there wasn’t any tension." "I was just happy for her that she knew who she was and that she was comfortable with who she was," she said. Gov. Patrick told Bay Windows, "I think when Katherine started to memorize all the episodes of The L Word, there was some hint that maybe she was sending us." Big gay gro,ups: Do marry; don t sue Leading national gay organizations have issued a strongly worded advisory al! but demanding that same-sex couples who visit California to get married not file any lawsuits seeking recognition of their marriages in their home states. The document also strongly urges married same-sex couples not to sue for federal recognition of their marriages. The lengthy document was issued June 10 by Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, the Human Rights Campaign, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, the National Center for Lesbian www.ozarksstar.com Rights, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, Equality Federation, Freedom To Marry, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Don’t go suing right away," the groups said. "Most lawsuits will likely set us all back." "One thing couples shouldn’t do is just sue the federal government or, if they are from other states, go sue their home state or their employer to recognize their marriage or open up the health plan," the advisory continued. "Pushing the federal government before we have a critical mass of states recognizing same-sex relationships or suing in states where the courts aren’t ready is likely to get us bad rulings. Bad rulings will make it much more difficult for us to win marriage, and will certainly make it take much longer." The full document can be accessed on the ACLU’s Web site at tinyurl.com/66z8kq. N.Y. governor sued over gay-marriage decision Five state lawmakers and the right-wing legal group Alliance Defense Fund sued New York Gov. David Paterson on June 3, hoping to block his order that state agencies must recognize same-sex marriages entered into in places where they are legal. The suit claims that only the Legislature can redefine marriage and seeks an injunction halting implementation of the order. Paterson has said he merely complied with a recent court decision that found that a community college could not deny benefits to the wife of a female employee -- the couple married in Canada -- because New York policy recognizes marriages performed outside the state. Same-sex marriage is allowed in Belgium, California, Canada, Denmark, Massachusetts, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain. ........ More U. S. News page 23 the STAR 13 �~e~LInside Hol~ood, reports on new Reese Witherspoon and Ben Stiller Get Secretive ~hen if you dofft get to know what it is. movie proiecr, and the reason for all the hush ator, Cameron Crowe. Crowe is known t tong as he cm~, and this one is no exception. Witherspoon and Ben Stiller, and it’s a romantic bytes, the presence of seem like the most promising. ~they mean that as Etizabethtown. So the rum re is tentatively bright. For now, Dan Butler to Karl Rove: I Love You What happens when political strategist? 7he consequences of such a strange ~ comedy from writer-director Dan Butler, _Kad Rove: I Love as Bulldog on Frasier, Butler stars in this seifa depressed careerist actor in 2004, creating a one man show about President Bush’s to goal? The win-win scenario of both swaying the above the tide for once. The Hollywood/D.( producer, screenwri ~er, director, and star, and audiences can makes the tihn-festivai circuit rounds, starting tight about now. 14 the STAR �The fellewing ,case EarthQ~ke Zin ’05 Chards & must try. Zinfandel, Petit Sirah & Carignanel the 2006 Ner~ Mi~o (Italian for "mixed black") is deep filackish-burgundy colored with a nose o~ dried herbs, pepper and leather. 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Heasing bright, ripe plum flavors with a fine tannin structure. This xvine has a lingering finish tha’ tastes of raspberries, doves and vanilla. Opolo Mountain Zin ’05 If you are one of those who believe bigger is better, read on. Appropriately named for its bountiful bouquet of fruit as well as where the grapes are grown, this full-bodied Zinfandd has plenty of ripe black cherry, plum and spice and is framed by soft tannins and balanced acidity. i Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com ’,,~##¢.Fooda ndWine.com www.Wikipedia.org Z A P www.zinfandel.org �Members from ever) VOTE For Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth & Co. 16 t~$TAR 25 club flag SSIL~’s HOT Cowboys, Let’s Rodeo! www.ozarksstar.¢om �downtown Tulsa. JULY 2008 Author Clara Nipper 0fTulga-Her new book, Femme Noir, has received num~ro~ rave reviews and was nominated for 2 Lambda Lite~ rds~ Her story backdrop is in Tulsa a~ the time 6f~h~ i921 rac~ riots, about a lesbian murder mystery featuring a hardcore black woman named Nora who finds h~rself ii~,estigating her friend’s murder, the STAR t 7 �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams WEST HOLL OOD, CALIFOrnIA 90069 Special praise needs to be given to Steve Nycklemoe who is the Director of Operations. He has done an outstanding job in putting this exhibit together. Actually it is one of the finest exhibits that we have seen in our travels. We strongly urge all of our readers to visit this museum. Be sure to visit at least one of the major movie studios while you are in West Hollywood. Steve Nycklemoe & Ray \Villiams Well, the zip code just about explains almost everything about West Hollywood! What else can be said except that it is fun and exciting and ? There is so much to see and do and not enough time. For those of you who have never been there, \Hest Hollywood which is known as "WEHO" is located between Los Angeles and Beverly Hills and the main street is Santa Monica Blvd. which is filled with gay flags, restaurants, bars and shops. At night time it is filled with thousands of people partying. The HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM is located in the historic Max Factor building at 1660 North Highland Avenue just a few blocks east of the Kodak Center in downtown Hollywood. They have over 10,000 showbiz treasures. When we were there, they had a special exhibit of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia including many of the dresses that she wore in her movies. You can see the chair where Hizabeth Taylor sat in the movie Cleopatra, view Cary Grant’s vintage Rolls Royce, Elvis Presley’s favorite bathrobe, Rocky’s boxing gloves and Indiana Jones’ whip. As you enter the beautiful Art Deco building you walk directly in to the exquisite lobby with it’s original art deco lighting fixtures, show cases and architectural moldings. There are displays of original Max Factor cosmetics and ads. Browse the different make up rooms where each has a different color mode It is truly like stepping back into old Hollywood when it was at it’s peak. There are several floors of exciting exhibits to see. Actually one could spend a whole day there and not see everything. Downstairs they have the original prison setting of Hannibal in Silence of the Lambs. They have really worked at making this one of the finest museums in the country. Anybody and everybody who is even remotely interested in movies should visit this museum. Their hours are 10 AM to 5 PM, Thursday thru Sunday. Be sure to check out their website at: www.thehollywoodmuseum.com. 18 th÷$TAR We attended the world premier play, BOISE USA by the extremely talented playwright, Gene Franklin Smith and masterly directed by Arturo Castillo. BOISE USA is a character-driven drama about gay persecution in Boise, Idaho in the 1950’s. The writing is superb! The casting is perfect! Every actor is sensational. The audience is mesmerized by all of this. Hopefully it will go to Broadway in the near future as everybody needs to experience this splendid drama. We had the good fortune of meeting Gene Franklin Smith and he is an incredibly talented playwright. We can only hope that he continues writing for many years to come. It has been playing to rave reviews. It is presently showing at the Matrix Theater at 7657 Melrose Avenue in Los Angeles. There are of course dozens and dozens of museums and galleries to visit in greater Los Angeles. As always is the case when we travel ..... too many things to see and do, and not enough time. We did have "lunch with Holly Woodlawff’ one afternoon. She was one of the Andy Warhol actresses who now lives in West Hollywood and we visited with the Countess Alexis who is one of the great Divas of all times who was also associated with Andy Warhol in New York City and was in several movies. One day we visited the new Gay and Lesbian Elder Housing. This is an incredible high-rise apartment housing project for "seasoned" gays and lesbian on a fixed income. Complete ~vith a swimming pool, library room, gym room and a social room this facility offers a safe and secure place for "seasoned" gays and lesbians to live. There are literally hundreds of restaurants in the greater Los Angles Area. Our favorites was the ABBEY which is a huge restaurant and bar right in downtown West HoltFwcood. The TASTE restaurant is also a great place that we would strongly recommend. Excellent food and service as well as ambiance at these bars. For breakfast or lunch we enjoy the French Market restaurant. There are dozens and dozens of bars in West Hollywood and on weekends there are usually long lines waiting to get in. Drink prices at most of these bars are astronomical! For our readers in the Midwest, be ready for a shock. It is nothing to pay $10 to $15 for a drink and we mean just for a regular bourbon and coke or screwdriver. We are not talking call drinks either! With gas hovering around $5.00 a gallon and drinks priced that high and with the cost of housing, it does take lots of money to have a good time. ~.ozarksstar.com �Due to a variety of social stigmas statistically they have a higher risk profile than their heterosexual counterparts. Realizing this, Tulsa Project Woman will hold an educational seminar during the Breast Impressions art show, to further promote breast cancer awareness through the communit): Opening Night of the Gallery showing will be July 3, 2008 from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, in downtown Tulsa. Refreshments will be provided by Panera Bread, Godiva Chocolate, and Escargot’s. Many of the artists and breast cancer survivor models will be in attendance to meet those who visit. The show will continue through July until the 28th, Monday through Saturday from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tulsa Project Woman will also host a dessert reception and private showing of the Breast Impressions Exhibit and then a Breast Health Education seminar on Thursday, July 17 at 7:00pm. This seminar will include information on Breast Cancer Prevention, How to do a Self Breast Exam and the Tulsa Project Woman. The Abbey Restaurant and Bar We stayed at the San Vicente Inn which is just 1/2 block from Santa Monica Blvd. It is a totally gay resort that has recently been sold and is now in the process of being completely remodeled. It is the most convenient place to stay since you can walk almost everywhere, and if you want to go anywhere else you catch the bus. The staffis one of the friendliest around. You can contact Judi Grove, founder of Breast Impressions at 918691-3874 for more information about the Equality Center gallery showing, or the upcoming Gala and Auction for the benefit of Tulsa Project Woman. NOTE: Seepage 22for 7he Abbey’s Tn~ffte Macaroni & Cheese recipe. Oklahomans for Equality and Breast Impressions of Tulsa team up to raise breast cancer awareness. Breast Impressions "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" Art on Display TULSA, OK (PR) __ For the second year Breast Impressions breast cast art will be on display at the Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Nell! Equality Center gallery through the month of July. Only breast cancer survivors have been cast in plaster this year, and local artists have turned the castings into stunning examples of each survivor’s incredible journey through breast cancer¯ The art displayed will be auctioned at the Breast Impressions Annual Gala for the benefit of Tulsa Project Woman, Inc. on October 3, 2008. But the Equality Center "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" show allows Oklahomans to see and experience he inspiration through each survivor s story. Breast Impressions is honored to display the work at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery because of the higher risk for developing breast cancer among lesbians and bisexual women. www.ozarksstar.corn theSTAR 19 �of Town By Andrew Collins Nashville, Tennessee :was �good idea). The s~ae �THE ABBEY FOOD &B£ By Donald Pile & Ray \vq’illiams The Abbey Food and Bar is located at 692 North Robertson just 1/2 block south of Santa Monica Blvd. It has been around quite a few years and it is one of the wonderful restaurants/bars that just keeps getting better year after year after year. David Cooley is the master at the art of work and play. Over the past 15+ years, his creation, The Abbey Food and Bar, has grown from a small, West Hollywood coffeehouse to one of the most popular hotspots in the country. Locals, tourists and celebrities alike all flock to The Abbey for its infamous Martinis as well as its stunning, open-air ambiance and truly relaxed elegance. In May 2006, Cooley and The Abbey entered an entirely new and exciting phase in its partnership with the Los Angeles-based SBE, which has fast become one of the pivotal players in the Los Angeles nightlife and restaurant scene. Armed with the expertise, infrastructure and corporate reach of SBE, The Abbey is beginning its biggest expansion to date - reproducing the signature Abbey experience in selected cities nationwide. While no specific locations have been finalized for national expansion, Cooley and SBE are exploring locations where The Abbey’s open-air concept would work best, including Miami’s South Beach, Atlanta, San Francisco, Dallas, Las Vegas and Phoenix. So now you have the background on the Abbey but you MUST dine and drink there. It is where it is all happening in West Hollywood and everyone who is anyone goes there. Hizabeth Taylor made a rare appearance there last month to a cheering crowd. When we dined there, everything was great...the service, the ambiance and the food was spectacular! We had the finest pork chops that we have ever had! The mac and cheese with truffles were to die for! There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine at in West Hollywood and this is certainly one of the finest. Check out their exciting menu on line at their website, http://www.abbeyfoodandbar.com/ 22 tbeSTAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com �Ca iforni s will vote on same-sex marriage They’re gonna vote on whether you are a full American. Anti-gay activists have succeeded in qualifying an initiative for the Nov. 4 ballot to amend the California Constitution to undo the state Supreme Court’s recent ruling that opened marriage to same-sex couples. The ruling takes effect, and the weddings begin, on June 16 at 5 p.m. The activists had to submit 694,354 valid petition signatures to qualify the initiative for a vote. They submitted 1,120,801 and, on June 2, Secretary of State Debra Bowen said a spot-check of 3 percent of the signatures found that a high enough percentage of them ,vere valid to extrapolate that the threshold would be met if all t. 1 million were checked. Tne amendment will state: "Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." The latest poll on the issue, a respected California Field Poll released May 28, found that 51 percent of registered California voters support same-sex marriage, 42 percent oppose it and 7 percent have no opinion. The poll found that 54 percent oppose amending the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage, 40 percent favor an amendment and 6 percent have no opinion. The biggest support for same-sex marriage came from younger voters, Democrats, liberals, nonreligious people and residents of the San Francisco Bay Area and Los Angeles County. The strongest opposition came from older people, Republicans, conservatives, bornagain Christians, Protestants and residents of the Central Valley and Southern California counties apart from L.A. County. Observers predict that the battle may be won or lost in the populous Southern California counties of Orange and San Diego. Women (53 percent) polled more supportive than men (48 percent) with 8 percent www.ozarksstar.corn of each having no opinion and the rest opposed. A majority of respondents up to age 49 favored sane-sex marriage, while a majority of people over age 50 opposed it. Kansas CoupJe Does IDO. By Greg Steele The poll questioned 1,052 voters and had a margin of error of 3.2 percentage points. Obama cdebrates gay pride Presidential candidate Barack Obama said June 6 that his campaign is actively participating in more than 60 gay pride events this summer, as detailed at pride.barackobama. com/pridemonth. "I am proud to join with our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered brothers and sisters in celebrating the accomplishments, the lives, and the families of all LGBT people during this Pride season," Obama said in a statement. "It’s time to live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect. Let’s enact federal civil rights legislation to outlaw hate crimes and protect workers against discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Let’s repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and demonstrate that the most effective and professional military in the world is open to all Americans who are ready and willing to serve our country. Let’s treat the relationships and the families of LGBT Americans with full equality under the law. "Generations of LGBT Americans, at once ordinary and extraordinary, have made possible this moment in our history. With leadership and hard work, we can fulfill the promise of equality for all," Obama said. Quotable Quotes Obama told reporters "the Republicans helped to engineer the distraction of the war in Iraq at a time when we could have pinned down the people who actually committed 9-11." He said Osama bin Laden is still at large in part because of their failed strategies. Photo: Donald Pile, Larry IVard, Riverside County, (Palm Springs) CA County Clerk and oj~ciating the wedding and Ray Williams. PALM SPRINGS, CA __ Donald Pile and Ray Williams long time friends and columnists for The Star exchanged legal vows in Palm Springs, CA on June 17, 2008. The couple drove from West Hollywood, where they were vacationing, to Palm Springs for the ceremony. The Star talked with them about the historic occasion. "We stopped by Palm Springs early this morning and were married", Donald told us. "Mel Haber, owner of the famous Melwn’S Restaurant in Palm Springs was a witness. He is a dear straight friend of ours. The other witness was our good friend, Stefan Hemming who owns the Liberace Estate. We were very cool about the whole thing until the Clerk said, "In as much as Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Commissioner of Civil Marriage for the County of Riverside (Palm Springs, CA), I now pronounce you to be united in marriage". "It was a small wedding as we didn’t have much time. When we walked out the front door of the county court house, we were crying and shouting". After 37 years we have never been more in love with each other. We are just sad for the gays and lesbians in other parts of the country who do not have the opportunity to get married". th÷STAR 23 ....... �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �June 6, O~n~ YoUth Center conducted the r annua F~hi~ ~: ,Th~ ~h~ was hosted by 106.9 s Chase and OK:: There were different artists in Pride Prade These ad es are hay ng tooooo~ ~bh fun www.ozarksstar.com �CaIJaway CD Romanticizes Man to Man AL RE-ELECTED D STRICT 88 By Victor Gorin Keith Taggart congratulates State Representative AI McAflgrey at a fundraiser for Jim Roth at the "You Ain’t Woman Enough’To Take My Man", a gay man is telling a woman, drag queen or possible a transvestite, that she isn’t woman enough to take his boyfriend. The title song "darn it, Baby, That’s Love" highlights the collection. Clay and his partner, Ty Lewis sing it as a duet with passion and love. Other song selections that will get you in the mood include "I’ve Grown Ac:customed To Your Face", "All ~e Man That I Need", "Never Loved A Man Before", and "Come In From The Rain" In the past 20 years Callaway managed to find love, work somewhat in the shadows of "the industry" (as in, behind the scenes) in Los Angeles, New York, Sweden, Dominican Republic and all points in between, boomeranged through Nashville and came to live in Hilo, Hawaii. It was here that the muse again came to him. "Hawaii is so full of music and incredible voices that I found my self facing this love I have to sing out loud and once again I felt in love with the audience, and they seemed to like me too", Clay says. "I moved to LA at 19 to finish college at ¯ LMU, that was pretty much it for singing and performing aside from high school chores and the occasional opportunity to dress up in a chicken suit. (But that’s another story.) LA was a big eye-opener, as it would be for anyone let alone a young gay guy from south Arkansas. I began to write songs and performing at lots of fun places on the Sunset Strip and beyond. Carlos & 26 th÷STAR Charlie’s, often hosted by Joan Rivers, The Rose Tatoo, the Palomino Club and other "interesting" places. All the while making a living working in television production as a production assistant and slowly moving up that food chain. Life was good, met a few cute guys along the way and a few hot messes as well. It came a time in my early 20% I was taking voice lessons with Bob Garrett and we ended up writing a couple of songs together. On my web site, I have included a demo of one of those songs from over 20 years ago for a sneak peek at one that will be resurrected for my next album. I can’t sing that high anymore, but it’s a look back to a day tong past." "Then a fire in my apartment building left me homeless and sent me back to stay with my family in Arkansas for the summer to regroup. In some ways I felt defeated, but got chosen to direct the summer musical at the community theater, the South Arkansas Arts Center, and while in my home town, met the love of my life, Ty. He had been there most of his and my life, but we had never met." Gay Chicago Magazine says "On his debut album, Callaway takes love songs many written by men and popularized by women then turns them on end by singing them in his distinctive vocal style to other men. It’s a creative approach that can make for some rather interesting word play. " You can purchase the CD online at: www. cdbaby.com/cd/daycallaway residence of Mike McLain & Richard Ogden. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma’s first openly gay legislator, Al McAffrey was re-elected to represent District 88 of central Oklahoma City. He was first elected in 2006. At the close of the filing period June 4 there was only one opponent, 27 year old Dominique Block, who was running as an Independent. His candidacy was challenged by the McAffrey campaign on the grounds that he had not been registered as an Independent for 6 months prior to the filing period, and the Oklahoma State Election Board determined he was not eligible. As there was no other opposition, Al McAffrey was automatically re-elected to of~ce. Al welcomes this opportunity stating," It’s a great feeling to know my constituents have faith in me, and by their support I’ll be able to serve them for two more years." Quotable Quotes The Tonight Show host, Jay Leno decided to make an appearance in support of the recent legalization of gay marriage by California’s Supreme Court. "He said that he is from Massachusetts and that the sky did not fall in their state when marriage equality became the law of the land there," a rep for the event said. www.ozarksstar.com �NATIONAL NEWS Task Force Action Ftmd applauds New York Assembly £or historic vote on transgender rights WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund applauds the New York Assembly’s passage today of the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA). The bill, which passed by a 102-33 vote, now moves to the state Senate. The measure seeks to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression in housing, employment, credit and public accommodations and would add gender identity or expression to the state’s hate crimes law. New York extended protections on the basis of sexual orientation in 2002 and the Task Force has worked with the Empire State Pride Agenda, legislators and community activists since then to amend the law to add gender identity or expression protections, including by helping draft GENDA. Among the other contributions the Task Force made to this effort was a convening of transgender and allied activists in 2006 at a training in Albany to provide leaders with skills for how to build coalitions in support of this bill, and a Power Summit training on Long Island in December 2007 that attracted more than 100 activists who were taught how to lobby their legislators and build grassroots support for the bill. If the bill passes the Senate, Gov. David Paterson is expected to sign it and New York would become the 13th state to explicitly ban discrimination based on gender identity or expression. Currently, 39 percent of the country’s population is covered by such a local or state law. Statement by Rea Carey, Acting Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "This is a very exciting victory for the people of New York, particularly transgender people. Legislation of this sort is not only responsible public policy, it also shows the nation that New York is unafraid to join the ranks of states that value all of their citizens, including those who are transgender or who express their gender in ways that reflect the broad and beautiful spectrum of humanity. www.ozarksstar.com "We congratulate the leadership of Assemblyman Richard Gottfried, the many transgender leaders and allies in New York, and our partner, Empire State Pride Agenda, for this important victory. We now call on the leaders of the New York Senate to bring this bill to the floor so that protections fbr transgender people and others in New York are not delayed another day." Libertarian Party selects Bob Barr.as 2008 presidential Noway adopts gaymarriage law OSLO (AFP) -- Norway’s parliament on Wednesday adopted a new marriage law that allows homosexuals to marry and adopt children and permits lesbians to be artificially inseminated. After a heated debate, the members of parliament adopted the text by a vote of 84 to 41. nominee Former Congressman plans to take the White House as Libertarian candidate The three centre-left coalition parties in power and two opposition parties, the Conservatives and the Liberals, voted largely in favour of the law, while the Christian Democrats and the far-right Progress Party voted against it. Norway thus became the sixth country in the world to grant homosexuals the right to marry on an equal footing with heterosexuals, according to Norwegian television TV2. "This decision is of an importance comparable to universal suffrage and our law on parity," Labour Party rapporteur Gunn Karin Gjul said during the debate. DENVER, CO (PR) __ The Libertarian Party has nominated former Congressman Bob Barr as its candidate for president for the 2008 election. "I’m sure we will emerge here with the strongest ticket in the history of the Libertarian Party," Barr stated in his victory speech shortly after being selected as the Party’s nominee. "I want everybody to remember that we only have 163 days to win this election. We cannot waste one single day." More than 650 Libertarian delegates met in Denver from May 22 tilt the 26 for the 2008 Libertarian National Convention. After six rounds of voting Sunday afternoon, Barr was selected as the Party’s presidential nominee. The Libertarian Party is America’s third largest political party, founded in 1971 as an alternative to the two main political parties. You can find more information on the Libertarian Party by visiting www.LP.org. The Libertarian Party proudly stands for smaller government, lower taxes and more freedom. The most controversial part of the law is that which gives lesbians the right to be artificially inseminated. The sperm donor must be identified so that the child can seek out his or her biological father at the age of 18. Outside the parliament, a handful of opponents protested with posters reading "Have fathers become superfluous?" and "Parliament has no mandate to change the laws of nature." Among other things, the new legislation replaces a so-called "partnership law" adopted in 1993 xvhich gave Norwegian homosexuals the right to civil unions. Health care workers who do not want to perform artificial inseminations on lesbians because of their personal convictions will not be under any obligation to carry out the procedure. The new law is expected to enter into force at the end of this year or eatly next year. Homosexuality was illegal until 1972 in Norway, a country which has since become one of the most liberal in the world in the field. ~÷STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig July 2008 "Nalke like a tourist, Pisces!" With Mercury, Venus, Uranus, and Eris all in mutual aspect, efforts at wit and charm are subverted by excessive impulses and eagerness to take offense. Still, it’s a good time to hash out friendly disagreements or to take up arts or crafts projects. ¯ ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Before speaking up, try to remember some bit of wisdom from a wise old woman, probably your grandmother or a teacher from early childhood. Her insight could smooth out the rough edges, turning your initial ideas from disastrous to helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You may be overly invested in a set goal that isn’t as realistic as it originally seemed. We all need to revise plans now and then. Be practical, not stubborn! Discuss it with friends, and take time alone to reconsider priorities. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You may be trying too hard to get ahead and to organize people you see as "your team." Stand back, think about what’s really important, and listen carefully to your friends and their aims. Communication is the key to cooperation. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Disruptions at home can make you cranky and argumentative. Looking for sex to blow off steam may prove more frustrating than helpful. Competitive games - especially those that test communications skills (Scrabble, Charades, Pictionary) - are probably better for releasing tension. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Keep your focus right in front of your nose. Accidents are just waiting to happen; being overloaded and distracted only encourages them! Teamwork is helpful, if you can resist the urge to get drawn into turf battles. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): The cost of fun can be a lot higher than expected. Be inventive (you can manage that!), and have a great time on the cheap. Debates over aesthetics may seem more heated than they should be, but welcome the arguments for potential inspiration. PISCES (February t9 - March 19): Feeling like a stranger at home isn’t fun, but it can fuel the creative juices. Get playful, make like a tourist, and let someone take you to places you’d never go on your own. Take a more objective, outsider’s stance in community politics. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments that seem to come out of nowhere are really about your hidden doubts and fears. Expert opinions can help set your mind at ease. Try exploring some artistic medium or musical style that wouldn’t normally interest you. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your own ideas of sexual politics could shake up your corner of the GLBT community, which can stimulate new thinking. Discussion points that come from the heart will go over better than battle cries that sound like P.C. cliches. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Flirtations and sexual politics can complicate relations with bosses and colleagues. Acknowledging sexual tension may help to dispel it, but that doesn’t always work. Think deeply and far ahead before trying it. Discuss any problems at your job with friends who work elsewhere. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Cooperation is usually more productive in the long run than competition is. Both have their place, but your eager ambitions may blind you to better opportunities. Careful listening can turn rivals into allies. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Sexual experimentation is fine in principle; just be careful that you don’t land in a bad situation. Think ahead and be cautious! Be clear about health risks, discuss at length what you really want, and look before you leap. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES IRev Steve "IF. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document By Joey De 2008 A new " for Pride By Joey De Ifyou have lived in Tulsa for more than twenty minutes, you knmv that there is an impenetrable force-field separating the city. Most Tulsans call it Forty-First Street. Photo: Equality Festival at Tulsa’s New Centennial Park Sometimes change can be difficult, however, despite months of complaints and apocalyptic predictions about the many "firsts" at Tulsa Pride 2008, it seems that the only people who had difficulties were the protesters. For the first time in the celebration’s history, the protesters were present for only a minimal time during the Pride Parade and completely absent from the Diversity picnic. "2008 was a },ear of dramatic change," says Nate Black, one of the event’s cochairs. "However thanks to the dedication of a strong group of volunteers, all the changes to this year’s events were possible. It would not have been possible without each and every person who helped." Black especially credited his co-chairs Kristi Freeman and Toby Jenkins with making the pieces fit together. "Kristi has an incredible ability to assess and foresee needs and coordinate logistics. The fact that everything worked smoothly to host thousands of people at our events xvas a testament to her abilities." "The fact that ~hlsa Pride is able to remain free to the public is proof of Toby’s dedication to these events, which on the low end cost over $30,000. Under his leadership, we were able to, for the first time, secure the majority of our sponsorships long before the events even took place," says Black. .......... Continued page-5 Enter the Downtown Plaza Hotel, on 7th & Boulder, who for the first time in recent memory provided Tulsa Pride an official "host" hotel. Staying at a hotel room for your own city’s Pride ,nay seem a little excessive, but for a South-Tulsan, it made perfect sense. Having a place downtown to call "home" for the weekend saved time and even money on the celebration’s two largest weekends. Anyone who has ever been to a Pride observance knows that three things are true. It will be hot. You will be sweaty. You xvill be drinking. All three of those can combine to impede a "proper" Pride celebration, but with the convenience of the Downtown Plaza Hotel’s location, neither was an issue. Through taking advantage of the special Pride Rate offered by the hotel, it was effortless to enjoy the day (or early evenings) festivities, ..........Continued page-5 1-800o535oAIDS (2437) Ok ahoraa s H~VIST~ 2 the STAR ww~v.ozarksstar.com Dear Editor: I thought I would add something to the political cartoon in the June 2008 Star. Presently I live in Oklahoma City, and much to my surprise have done so for the last 14 years. Originally from Boston I make an annual trip home each Christmas to see family and friends and make a quick pilgrimage to the haunts I was familiar with before leaving Boston in the mid 80’s. This pilgrimage consists ofwalking the city to see what is still around that I was familiar with, and perhaps who is still around that I can remember. On my most recent trip I was a little saddened to see many places that meant a lot to me are no longer around, or have been so renovated for so different a use that they are unrecognizable. As is my custom, on this outing I stopped in at every gay bar I could remember, or find, and had drinks and conversations with the bartenders. Most of the old bars are gone, as are the people. Politics begins in the bars in Boston, and gay politics was no exception. The civil rights fought for and won began with many bar patrons and owners, and in the process of getting what they were after, the bar owners found that with acceptance came a lesser need for the safety of an exclusively gay bar with the occasional straight patron. In conjunction with this the price of living in the city has made any gay ghetto prohibitive, making it necessary for what vcould have been the denizens of such an area to move into the suburbs for affordable housing with the side effect of showing the majority of the state that Gay people were pretty normal, and not the screaming stereotypes that isolation seemed to promote. Gay people were seen as responsible people and not the party animals who spent most of their lives going to bars to dance the night away and returning home each night with a different sex partner. They turned out to be people so normal that marriage did not seem to be such an improbable thing. The ultimate goal of gay gights is equality, and that means normalcy for most. Just as straights have their outlets out of the mainstream, so do gay people. But both do have their mainstreams. The gay bars still around are nostalgia for us older gentlemen who want some of the past preserved for our visits back, or who may feel more comfortable in one because life had not been all that kind to us, with just a bit of the specialty shop aura to them. Most have become very mixed, while some have become the corner bar, the lodge for men and women of like minds to talk freely among their own, but doing it willingly as opposed to necessarily. The lesser the need for exclusively gay bars, the more success can be claimed by the gay community. Joe Quigley Oklahoma City www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com TULSA PRIDE continued According to estimates provided by the Tulsa Police Department, this year’s Pride Parade and Block Party have become the largest events of their kind in Downtown Tulsa. Police estimate that there were a combined 18,000 people between the two events. Many parade-goers were excited about the new evening-format, celebrating with glow sticks and sparklers. Some of the floats even stepped into the spirit embracing christmas lights and disco balls. Most route walkers were simply excited over the fact that they no longer had the sun beating down on them and that the trek was much flatter. Following the parade, the block party centered around the Equality Center came into its own, maintaining a crowd until the scheduled end at midnight. Following the event, most of the area bars reported record capacity crowds as the party continued through the evening. The following weekend at Centennial Park, the only thing to be missed was the heat and mud at the former location. For many pride-goers, this event was the first time they had visited the new Tulsa centerpiece. Most fell in love with its picturesque setting and more importantly abundant shade. According to TPD estimates, 12,000 people visited the Diversity Picnic, which according to organizers was represented by a steady flow of people through out the day. The forty-plus booths at this year’s picnic xvere the most diverse in memory, representing non-profit service organizations such as HOPE Testing Clinic, Fortune 500 companies such as Best Buy and the traditional array of Rainbow Retailers. Picnickers enjoyed the live entertainment that took the stage off and on through out the day, while kids entertained themselves on the inflatable games and climbing wall. Okay, the kids weren’t the only ones enjoying the inflatable games. The handsdown hit of the picnic was the water slide that both kids and adults rode repeatedly. While the three major pride attractions could be considered a successful spl!t, many attendees expressed a desire for the events to be recombined onto one weekend. A common complaint: "I didn’t know what weekend to tell my friends to come. They couldn’t take off work both weekends or afford the gas to come twice." Black reacts to such criticism openly. "There were a lot of changes this year. Some things went very well; some things didn’t go as well as we had hoped. We are going to take what we learned, listen to the feed back we receive and then will make the appropriate changes for next year." As for now, Black and the rest of the Tulsa Pride Committee are happy to place Tulsa Pride 2008 in the history books as a success, with a rejuvenated event positioned to grow in the years to come. DOWNTOWN PLAZA HOTEL cont. then quickly retreat to air-conditioning and a cold shower. This was especially useful following the parade and block party, just before visiting the bar,s. Adding to the convenience was the hotel s on-call shuttle. With less then a ten minute wait each time it was needed, the shuttle allowed guests to leave their cars and avoid parking headaches, expensive gas and more importantly, DUIs. The hotel is currently undergoing a complete restoration, with every room being completely renovated to sport an almost TUqnspired blue and gold color scheme. Furnished with antique-style pieces, the rooms of the Downtown Plaza Hotel are uncluttered, yet comfortable and quaint. Pride guests noticed a little construction "dust" in the form of the occasional minor malfunction and missing carpet outside the elevator, however found their problems fixed quickly and courteously with a simple call to the front desk. Perhaps the most enjoyed aspect of Downtown Plaza Lobby the Downtown Plaza Hotel by some pride guests was their retreat to the New York City-eque second story outdoor pool. Tucked quietly between the rooftops of dmvntown Tulsa, the pool was quiet, clean, and theperfect place to prepare for, or recover from the festivities. Staying at the Downtown Plaza Hotel gives celebrating Tulsa Pride a new feel. For those from Tulsa, it creates an enjoyable mini-vacation, while those who travel enjoy its close proximity to the Pride events and Downtown night life. Either way, whether from in or out of town, it always feels good to stay where "family" is welcome. w~,~N.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Diversity Business Association of Tulsa The Phantom Standard Joey De For Marni Raab, playing the role of Christine in the legendary musical "The Phantom of the Opera," is the fulfillment of a long time dream. "I started ~vith this show as an understudy in 2001," recalls Raab, ~vho has played the role for the past seven years internationally. "I was then promoted to performing two shmvs a week, and then when on tour six." Although it may seem odd to plan alternating actresses to play a role, Raab explains it as "just good business sense." "The show is long and Christine is onstage for almost all of it," says Raab, who notes that there is only one scene in the almost three hour show in which her character doesn’t appear. "The people they hire to play Christine are ingdnues," says Raab, who continues "They put big, heavy costumes on them, and then thrmv them around. I wind up falling and running then falling again, a lot. It’s just better to schedule somebody as a second principal then to never kno~ving when your lead will be out." "The Phantom of the Opera," is Andrew Lloyd Webbers’ hit musical about Raab’s character, Christine, and her admirer/kidnapper, ~ll~e Phantom. "He’s a maniac, a monster, disfigured and he’s a murderer," describes Raab, "but he is also a poet, an architect and a brilliant composer." Christine on the other hand, is a young lady on the verge of adulthood, says Raab. "She was been raised by her violinist father, educated and probably traveled the world, which was rare then." Raab explains that her character is lonely and looking for a way in life when the brilliant, yet creepy Phantom enters her life as a mentor. Unfortunately, Christine’s’ childhood acquaintance Raoul re-enters her life at the same time, completing a love triangle that entangles the three. "She must choose between the passionate genius who has a horrible disfigurement and has been led down the wrong path, and the nice guy." When asked how the show has endured, Raab believes that "The Phantom," offers something for everyone to react to. "I have done the show across Canada, the US and Asia, and every audience reacts differently. There are lavish sets, pyrotechnics and elaborate costumes. It’s ornate, it’s majestic and at the heart it’s a love story." Helping to ensure the quality of "The Phantom" experience, Raab says that every production of the show must meet the highest standards. "Audiences demand a certain standard," says Raab," but the producers insist on it. If you xvant to produce the show, you must have the seal of approval from Andrew Lloyd Webber, Hal Prince and al! of the people associated with the original. This way the show you see (in Tulsa) is the same as what people in New York and on the West End are seeing." Raab says that there is also a standard the performers in the show must live up to. "It is humbling and an honor to be in this show, and I know I have big shoes to fill. It has been around for so long, audiences feel a sense of ownership in it, making it even more important to see it done right. You (the performers) have a responsibility to keep the show in shape and do it justice." According to Raab, the performers have help from standard’s directors, who guide their performances to prevent serious character infractions. "We dodt have the luxury of’finding’ our characters," the actress explains. "It takes a different skill set to step into a role that has been established and place our marks on it as artists." If you have not yet experienced "The Phantom," the show will be at the Tulsa PAC through July 13. Visit www.myticketoffice. corn for ticketing information. Quotable Quotes Scientists at the Karolinska Institute studied brain scans of 90 gay and straight men and women, and found that the size of the two symmetrical halves of the brains of gay men more closely resembled those of straight women than they did straight men, while the brains of homosexual women were asymmetrical like those of straight men. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Open Daily = High Noon www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 17 West 7th Street (corner 7~ & Boulder Ave) Tulsa, Ok 74119 R~tions: 918~5~98 e 800~5,5101 www.downtownplazatulsa:com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com JULY 2008 the STAR 9 Oklahoma City Museum o£Art Presents Roman Art £rom the Louvre Final U.S. venue for rare ancient works from the Louvre’s esteemed collection OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Otdahoma City Museum ofArt wil! be the final North American venue for Roman Art from the Louvre, June 19 through October 12, 2008. Tile seventeen-~veek exhibition, so large it will occupy the Museum’s ground floor special exhibition gallery and the eight second floor galleries of the Museum, will feature 184 works, some weighing more than 6,000 pounds. An unprecedented exhibition of ancient masterworks, drawn from the Louvre’s unparalleled collection, it provides a rare and historic opportunity for Oklahoma audiences to view these magnificent works, many of which have not been seen by the public in decades and most of which have never traveled to the United States. Furthermore, many of the objects in the exhibition have recently been restored, bringing to light their original beauty and strength of expression. "The Louvre, thanks to Napoleon’s megalomaniac interest in the glories ofAncient Rome, has one of the finest collections of Roman art outside of Italy," said Hardy George, Ph.D., chief curator at the Oklahoma City Museum ofArt. "The exhibition of sculpture, jewelry, mosaics, and frescos will be scrupulously arranged in a thematic manner that will certainly be visually and aesthetically pleasing as well as historically informative." The exhibition examines the manifestations of Roman public and private life through an exploration of several themes, including religion, urbanism, war, imperial expansion, funerary practices, intellectual life, and family. Roman Art from the Louvre shows the full range of Roman artistry and taste, juxtaposing "official" art with more modest, private works. The portrait busts of anonymous men, women, and children featured in "The Roman Citizen" reveal the styles and fashions popular during the Roman Empire. Clothing, hairstyles, jewelry and other accessories, perfume bottles, and cosmetics are examined within the greater context of the role of women in the Roman Empire. Other topics addressed include the art of Roman portraiture; the Boscoreale treasure; and Hadrian’s Villa at Tivoli and the Maritime Theater. Roman Art from the Louvre was organized by the American Federation ofArts and the Musde du Louvre. The exhibition is supported by an indemnity from the Federal Council on the Arts and the Humanities. American Federation ofArts: The AFA is a nonprofit institution that organizes art exhibitions for presentation in museums around the ~vorld, publishes exhibition catalogues, and develops educational materials and programs. For more information on the AFA, please visit www.afaweb.org. VOTER REGISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. 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While McCain has tried to portray himself as a "maverick" and a "moderate," Congress: man Frank makes it clear that on LGBT rights, like so many issues, McCain offers a third Bush term. ~-he following are excerpts of Congressman Frank’s article: changes taking place in civil life ... Homosexuality is a behavioral trait, unlike skin color... "With one exception, the relevance of which Senator McCain himself is rapidly diminishing, John McCain’s record is completely opposed to our efforts to combat prejudice and gain legal equality... "He has of course made it clear that he will support constitutional Amendments banning marriage at the state level, including in his mvn state ofArizona, and he regretted the fact that Arizona rejected such an amendment... "In every other area, McCain has a consistent voting record against our efforts. In 1996, the only time the Senate voted on the Employment Nondiscrimination Act, McCain was one of those who voted no. He has also consistently voted against extending hate crimes protection to gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender individuals... "This apparently reflects the prejudiced view that he expressed in 1993 when he was helping block President Clinton’s effort when he said on February 4th, as recorded in the Congressional Record, "The issue of allowing open gay lifestyles in the military is completely different from the kind of "In addition to strongly opposing same-sex marriage, suggesting that he could modify his opposition to a federal constitutional amendment banning states like Massachusetts from adopting same-sex marriage, voting against ENDA, consistently opposing hate crimes coverage for us, and being recorded against every other effort in the Senate to give us fair treatment, Senator McCain also promised if he becomes president to reduce those protections we have been able to achieve at the Supreme Court level. He has noted his admiration for those justices who have consistently voted against any efforts by GLBT people to establish any right to legal equality, for example ChiefJustice Rehnquist, a dissenter in the Lawrence v. Texas case, in which the sodomy laws against gay and lesbian people were stricken. "Given the alignment of Supreme Court Justices, and their ages, it is virtually certain that ifJohn McCain is president, he will appoint justices who will overturn the Lawrence decision and the leading Supreme Court opponent of fair treatment for gay and lesbian people, Antonin Scalia ~vill gain alhes from McCmns appolntme ts. Community Peopte living 50t c (3) b~on Profit ()rganization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for PeoPle who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 1t ~W By Donald Pile and Ray Williams MY TRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET for Will & Grace in 2006, but Leslie also is a gifted writer and playwright. He wrote and starred in the autobiographical play, LOST IN THE PERSHING POIINT HOTEL, which was also made into a motion picture. He has appeared in dozens ofTV shows including The Fall Guy, Murphy Brown, Newhart, Ski Patrol, Lois & Clark "The New Adventures of Superman", Reba, Wings, The Pretender, Dharma and Gregg, Ellen, Caroline and the City, Sabrina, the Teenage Witch, Nash Bridges, Ally McBeal, Boston Public, Judging Amy, George Lopez, Boston Legal, Ugly Betty and Hidden Palms to name just a few. Leslie Jordan, the wonderful talented actor, comedian, writer and playwright has just come out with his new book, MYTRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET which is a fabulously funny and interesting biography of Leslie’s life, so far. We are fortunate that we met Leslie a few years ago and saw his opening performance of"Like A Dog On Linoleum" in West Hollywood. He played to sell out audiences every night, and now in his new book, he brings his life to readers throughout the nation to peruse. What began as a smal! boy growing up in Tennessee and thru his different trials and tribulations he now is one of the top actors/entertainers in the country. Leslie has written a brutally honest story of his life and tells about all of it, warts and all, from his alcoholism, addiction to drugs, street hustlers and everything in between. The greatest thing is that he has been able to overcome most all of his demons (he has now been sober for over 10 years). Most people who write biographies like to kinda forget the bad times and only tell about the good times. Not Leslie! He deals with every aspect of his life and takes the readers through everything. Most people only know of Leslie either from the movie, Sordid Lives or from his guest appearances on Will & Grace. He was nominated and won the Emmy for Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy Series Yes, Leslie Jordan does have a ministry and that ministry is to be fun, funny, exciting and to bring happiness to the world. There is enough grief and misery in the world as it is. He brings a breath of fresh air wherever he goes. It is so nice reading a real biography where the author tells it just as it was and is and lets the readers get to know him personally. This should be a "must read" for all high school students, both gay and straight. It is an honest and compelling story of one person’s struggle with himself and the world around him, and he won! Leslie Jordan certainly deserves all the awards and accolades that he receives. MYTRIP DOWN THE PINK CARPET is one of the funniest yet heart-felt books that we have ever read. Leslie Jordan is real ! and in today’s world that is really something to say! Leslie Jordan is not like Paul Lynde, he is not like Truman Capote, he is not like anybody else. He is simply himself and that is what makes him so great. After reading this book we can understand why his one man performances are sell outs! We can’t wait for the sequel to this book! We URGE all of our readers to rush out and purchase a copy of this book. Leslie Jordan is taking his "act" on the road again and will be coming to a city near you with an exciting one man performance and to sign his book. Check out his website, www. thelesliejordan.com for updates. "Love, light to you, Leslie and the very best!" Donald Pile and Ray Williarm, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who writefor gaypublicationsfrom Coast to Coast. Proud members ofthe IGLTA. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www,hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers 12 the STAR ~vw.ozarksstar.com Wockner News Service Two California counties rebel against marriage ruling County clerks in California’s Kern and Butte counties have stopped performing all marriages so as not to have to marry gay couples. In Kern County, where Bakersfield is located, Clerk Ann Barnett announced her decision after county lawyers told her she could not marry straight couples but refuse to marry gay couples. Officially, she said the move stemmed from a lack ofstaffand space to meet the anticipated demand for weddings. But in an e-mail sent to the conservative legal group Alliance Defense Fund and obtained by the Bakersfield Californian newspaper, Barnett’s office wrote: "Our question is, now that the Supreme Court has refused to stay its decision, will Alliance Defense Fund defend the County Clerk if she ceases performing all marriage ceremonies.... We fully expect to be sued and our own counsel is not being of help.’" In Butte County, north of Sacramento, County Clerk Candace Grubbs cited money problems in announcing her decision. ~:he county’s largest city is Chico, population 87,OO0. But the president of the California Association of Clerks and Elected Officials, Contra Costa County Clerk Steve Weir, said the money excuse makes no sense. He told the San Francisco Chronicle that counties make money from selling marriage licenses and performing weddings. Kern and Butte counties still have to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, but counties are not required to also offer wedding ceremonies, though most do as a courtesy and because it brings in income. Massachusetts governot’sdaughter comes out Katherine Patrick, daughter of Massachusetts Gov. Deval Patrick, came out publicly as a lesbian June 12 in an interview with the Boston gay newspaper Bay Windows. "We... wanted people to know that it’s not only something that we accept, but it’s something that we’re very proud of," Katherine, 18, said. She said she came out to her parents in July 2007, just before a picnic by the pool at their home in the Berkshires. "It was the easiest coming out experience that anyone could possibly have," Katherine said. First lady Diane Patrick called that event "a nonevent in the sense that there wasn’t any tension." "I was just happy for her that she knew who she was and that she was comfortable with who she was," she said. Gov. Patrick told Bay Windows, "I think when Katherine started to memorize all the episodes ofThe L Word, there was some hint that maybe she was sending us." Big gay gro,ups: Do marry; dont sue Leading national gay organizations have issued a strongly worded advisory al! but demanding that same-sex couples who visit California to get married not file any lawsuits seeking recognition of their marriages in their home states. The document also strongly urges married same-sex couples not to sue for federal recognition of their marriages. The lengthy document was issued June 10 by Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, the Human Rights Campaign, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, Equality Federation, Freedom To Marry, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Don’t go suing right away," the groups said. "Most lawsuits will likely set us all back." "One thing couples shouldn’t do is just sue the federal government or, if they are from other states, go sue their home state or their employer to recognize their marriage or open up the health plan," the advisory continued. "Pushing the federal government before we have a critical mass of states recognizing same-sex relationships or suing in states where the courts aren’t ready is likely to get us bad rulings. Bad rulings will make it much more difficult for us to win marriage, and will certainly make it take much longer." The full document can be accessed on the ACLU’s Web site at tinyurl.com/66z8kq. N.Y. governor sued over gay-marriage decision Five state lawmakers and the right-wing legal group Alliance Defense Fund sued New York Gov. David Paterson on June 3, hoping to block his order that state agencies must recognize same-sex marriages entered into in places where they are legal. The suit claims that only the Legislature can redefine marriage and seeks an injunction halting implementation of the order. Paterson has said he merely complied with a recent court decision that found that a community college could not deny benefits to the wife of a female employee -- the couple married in Canada -- because New York policy recognizes marriages performed outside the state. Same-sex marriage is allowed in Belgium, California, Canada, Denmark, Massachusetts, the Netherlands, South Africa and Spain. ........More U. S. News page 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 ~e~LInside Hol~ood, reports on new Reese Witherspoon and Ben Stiller Get Secretive ~hen ifyou dofft get to know what it is. movie proiecr, and the reason for all the hush ator, Cameron Crowe. Crowe is known t tong as he cm~, and this one is no exception. Witherspoon and Ben Stiller, and it’s a romantic bytes, the presence of seem like the most promising. ~they mean that as Etizabethtown. So the rum re is tentatively bright. For now, Dan Butler to Karl Rove: I Love You What happens when political strategist? 7he consequences of such a strange ~ comedy from writer-director Dan Butler, _Kad Rove: I Love as Bulldog on Frasier, Butler stars in this seifa depressed careerist actor in 2004, creating a one man show about President Bush’s to goal? The win-win scenario of both swaying the above the tide for once. The Hollywood/D.( producer, screenwri ~er, director, and star, and audiences can makes the tihn-festivai circuit rounds, starting tight about now. 14 the STAR The fellewing EarthQ~ke Zin ’05 The Phillips brothers pride th~mselves farming on quality. Their efforts competitions. with lots zing and flavor. Earthq brands under Chards & must try. Orin Swift Cedars The wine ’Heavenly It’s rare and : pepper and tobacco wild berry, with some flavors. 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This deii~ious "field blend" styled wine has flavors 6f pomegranate, black fruits and figs with a hint of spice, medium to full bodied firm tannins, a long, lush finish/ Italian food, spicy the rig~ht now, though critics say it will next 5 - 7 ),ears. This to find so if you see it, of the better values, to be a vastly superior fbr Zinfandel. This wine, some Petite Sirak, Merlot, and Grenache blended in/exhibits ruby color. There is a sweet nose of peppery black cherry and raspberry, liqueur intermixed with spring flowers earth. The wine is medium to full-bodied. Wine critic Robert Parker gave this one Points. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events i known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com ’,,~##¢.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org Z A P www.zinfandel.org Members from ever) 25 club flag VOTE For Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth & Co. 16 t~$TAR SSIL~’s HOT Cowboys, Let’s Rodeo! www.ozarksstar.¢om JULY 2008 downtown Tulsa. Author Clara Nipper 0fTulga-Her new book, Femme Noir, has received num~ro~ rave reviews and was nominated for 2 Lambda Lite~ rds~ Her story backdrop is in Tulsa a~ the time 6f~h~ i921 rac~ riots, about a lesbian murder mystery featuring a hardcore black woman named Nora who finds h~rself ii~,estigating her friend’s murder, the STAR t 7 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams WEST HOLL OOD, CALIFOrnIA 90069 Special praise needs to be given to Steve Nycklemoe who is the Director of Operations. He has done an outstanding job in putting this exhibit together. Actually it is one of the finest exhibits that we have seen in our travels. We strongly urge all of our readers to visit this museum. Steve Nycklemoe & Ray \Villiams Well, the zip code just about explains almost everything about West Hollywood! What else can be said except that it is fun and exciting and ? There is so much to see and do and not enough time. For those of you who have never been there, \Hest Hollywood which is known as "WEHO" is located between Los Angeles and Beverly Hills and the main street is Santa Monica Blvd. which is filled with gay flags, restaurants, bars and shops. At night time it is filled with thousands of people partying. The HOLLYWOOD MUSEUM is located in the historic Max Factor building at 1660 North Highland Avenue just a few blocks east of the Kodak Center in downtown Hollywood. They have over 10,000 showbiz treasures. When we were there, they had a special exhibit of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia including many of the dresses that she wore in her movies. You can see the chair where Hizabeth Taylor sat in the movie Cleopatra, view Cary Grant’s vintage Rolls Royce, Elvis Presley’s favorite bathrobe, Rocky’s boxing gloves and Indiana Jones’ whip. As you enter the beautiful Art Deco building you walk directly in to the exquisite lobby with it’s original art deco lighting fixtures, show cases and architectural moldings. There are displays of original Max Factor cosmetics and ads. Browse the different make up rooms where each has a different color mode It is truly like stepping back into old Hollywood when it was at it’s peak. There are several floors of exciting exhibits to see. Actually one could spend a whole day there and not see everything. Downstairs they have the original prison setting of Hannibal in Silence of the Lambs. They have really worked at making this one of the finest museums in the country. Anybody and everybody who is even remotely interested in movies should visit this museum. Their hours are 10 AM to 5 PM, Thursday thru Sunday. Be sure to check out their website at: www.thehollywoodmuseum.com. Be sure to visit at least one of the major movie studios while you are in West Hollywood. We attended the world premier play, BOISE USA by the extremely talented playwright, Gene Franklin Smith and masterly directed by Arturo Castillo. BOISE USA is a character-driven drama about gay persecution in Boise, Idaho in the 1950’s. The writing is superb! The casting is perfect! Every actor is sensational. The audience is mesmerized by all of this. Hopefully it will go to Broadway in the near future as everybody needs to experience this splendid drama. We had the good fortune of meeting Gene Franklin Smith and he is an incredibly talented playwright. We can only hope that he continues writing for many years to come. It has been playing to rave reviews. It is presently showing at the Matrix Theater at 7657 Melrose Avenue in Los Angeles. There are of course dozens and dozens of museums and galleries to visit in greater Los Angeles. As always is the case when we travel..... too many things to see and do, and not enough time. We did have "lunch with Holly Woodlawff’ one afternoon. She was one of the Andy Warhol actresses who now lives in West Hollywood and we visited with the Countess Alexis who is one of the great Divas of all times who was also associated with Andy Warhol in New York City and was in several movies. One day we visited the new Gay and Lesbian Elder Housing. This is an incredible high-rise apartment housing project for "seasoned" gays and lesbian on a fixed income. Complete ~vith a swimming pool, library room, gym room and a social room this facility offers a safe and secure place for "seasoned" gays and lesbians to live. There are literally hundreds of restaurants in the greater Los Angles Area. Our favorites was the ABBEY which is a huge restaurant and bar right in downtown West HoltFwcood. The TASTE restaurant is also a great place that we would strongly recommend. Excellent food and service as well as ambiance at these bars. For breakfast or lunch we enjoy the French Market restaurant. There are dozens and dozens of bars in West Hollywood and on weekends there are usually long lines waiting to get in. Drink prices at most of these bars are astronomical! For our readers in the Midwest, be ready for a shock. It is nothing to pay $10 to $15 for a drink and we mean just for a regular bourbon and coke or screwdriver. We are not talking call drinks either! With gas hovering around $5.00 a gallon and drinks priced that high and with the cost of housing, it does take lots of money to have a good time. 18 th÷$TAR ~.ozarksstar.com The Abbey Restaurant and Bar We stayed at the San Vicente Inn which is just 1/2 block from Santa Monica Blvd. It is a totally gay resort that has recently been sold and is now in the process of being completely remodeled. It is the most convenient place to stay since you can walk almost everywhere, and if you want to go anywhere else you catch the bus. The staffis one of the friendliest around. NOTE: Seepage 22for 7he Abbey’s Tn~ffte Macaroni & Cheese recipe. Oklahomans for Equality and Breast Impressions ofTulsa team up to raise breast cancer awareness. Breast Impressions "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" Art on Display TULSA, OK (PR) __ For the second year Breast Impressions breast cast art will be on display at the Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Nell! Equality Center gallery through the month ofJuly. Only breast cancer survivors have been cast in plaster this year, and local artists have turned the castings into stunning examples of each survivor’s incredible journey through breast cancer¯ The art displayed will be auctioned at the Breast Impressions Annual Gala for the benefit ofTulsa Project Woman, Inc. on October 3, 2008. But the Equality Center "Beauty beyond Breast Cancer" show allows Oklahomans to see and experience he inspiration through each survivor s story. Breast Impressions is honored to display the work at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery because of the higher risk for developing breast cancer among lesbians and bisexual women. www.ozarksstar.corn Due to a variety of social stigmas statistically they have a higher risk profile than their heterosexual counterparts. Realizing this, Tulsa Project Woman will hold an educational seminar during the Breast Impressions art show, to further promote breast cancer awareness through the communit): Opening Night of the Gallery showing will be July 3, 2008 from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, in downtown Tulsa. Refreshments will be provided by Panera Bread, Godiva Chocolate, and Escargot’s. Many of the artists and breast cancer survivor models will be in attendance to meet those who visit. The show will continue through July until the 28th, Monday through Saturday from 3 p.m. to 9 p.m. Tulsa Project Woman will also host a dessert reception and private showing of the Breast Impressions Exhibit and then a Breast Health Education seminar on Thursday, July 17 at 7:00pm. This seminar will include information on Breast Cancer Prevention, How to do a Self Breast Exam and the Tulsa Project Woman. You can contact Judi Grove, founder of Breast Impressions at 918- 691-3874 for more information about the Equality Center gallery showing, or the upcoming Gala and Auction for the benefit ofTulsa Project Woman. theSTAR 19 of Town By Andrew Collins Nashville, Tennessee :was good idea). The s~ae THEABBEY FOOD &B£ By Donald Pile & Ray \vq’illiams The Abbey Food and Bar is located at 692 North Robertson just 1/2 block south of Santa Monica Blvd. It has been around quite a few years and it is one of the wonderful restaurants/bars that just keeps getting better year after year after year. David Cooley is the master at the art ofwork and play. Over the past 15+ years, his creation, The Abbey Food and Bar, has grown from a small, West Hollywood coffeehouse to one of the most popular hotspots in the country. Locals, tourists and celebrities alike all flock to The Abbey for its infamous Martinis as well as its stunning, open-air ambiance and truly relaxed elegance. In May 2006, Cooley and The Abbey entered an entirely new and exciting phase in its partnership with the Los Angeles-based SBE, which has fast become one of the pivotal players in the Los Angeles nightlife and restaurant scene. Armed with the expertise, infrastructure and corporate reach of SBE, The Abbey is beginning its biggest expansion to date - reproducing the signature Abbey experience in selected cities nationwide. While no specific locations have been finalized for national expansion, Cooley and SBE are exploring locations where The Abbey’s open-air concept would work best, including Miami’s South Beach, Atlanta, San Francisco, Dallas, Las Vegas and Phoenix. So now you have the background on the Abbey but you MUST dine and drink there. It is where it is all happening in West Hollywood and everyone who is anyone goes there. Hizabeth Taylor made a rare appearance there last month to a cheering crowd. When we dined there, everything was great...the service, the ambiance and the food was spectacular! We had the finest pork chops that we have ever had! The mac and cheese with truffles were to die for! There are dozens and dozens of restaurants to dine at in West Hollywood and this is certainly one of the finest. Check out their exciting menu on line at their website, http://www.abbeyfoodandbar.com/ 22 tbeSTAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com Ca iforni s will vote on same-sex marriage They’re gonna vote on whether you are a full American. Anti-gay activists have succeeded in qualifying an initiative for the Nov. 4 ballot to amend the California Constitution to undo the state Supreme Court’s recent ruling that opened marriage to same-sex couples. The ruling takes effect, and the weddings begin, on June 16 at 5 p.m. The activists had to submit 694,354 valid petition signatures to qualify the initiative for a vote. They submitted 1,120,801 and, on June 2, Secretary of State Debra Bowen said a spot-check of 3 percent of the signatures found that a high enough percentage of them ,vere valid to extrapolate that the threshold would be met if all t. 1 million were checked. Tne amendment will state: "Only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." The latest poll on the issue, a respected California Field Poll released May 28, found that 51 percent of registered California voters support same-sex marriage, 42 percent oppose it and 7 percent have no opinion. The poll found that 54 percent oppose amending the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage, 40 percent favor an amendment and 6 percent have no opinion. The biggest support for same-sex marriage came from younger voters, Democrats, liberals, nonreligious people and residents of the San Francisco Bay Area and Los Angeles County. The strongest opposition came from older people, Republicans, conservatives, bornagain Christians, Protestants and residents of the Central Valley and Southern California counties apart from L.A. County. Observers predict that the battle may be won or lost in the populous Southern California counties of Orange and San Diego. Women (53 percent) polled more supportive than men (48 percent) with 8 percent of each having no opinion and the rest opposed. A majority of respondents up to age 49 favored sane-sex marriage, while a majority of people over age 50 opposed it. The poll questioned 1,052 voters and had a margin of error of 3.2 percentage points. Obama cdebrates gay pride Presidential candidate Barack Obama said June 6 that his campaign is actively participating in more than 60 gay pride events this summer, as detailed at pride.barackobama. com/pridemonth. "I am proud to join with our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered brothers and sisters in celebrating the accomplishments, the lives, and the families of all LGBT people during this Pride season," Obama said in a statement. "It’s time to live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect. Let’s enact federal civil rights legislation to outlaw hate crimes and protect workers against discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Let’s repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and demonstrate that the most effective and professional military in the world is open to all Americans who are ready and willing to serve our country. Let’s treat the relationships and the families ofLGBT Americans with full equality under the law. "Generations ofLGBT Americans, at once ordinary and extraordinary, have made possible this moment in our history. With leadership and hard work, we can fulfill the promise of equality for all," Obama said. Quotable Quotes Obama told reporters "the Republicans helped to engineer the distraction of the war in Iraq at a time when we could have pinned down the people who actually committed 9-11." He said Osama bin Laden is still at large in part because of their failed strategies. Kansas CoupJe Does IDO. By Greg Steele Photo: Donald Pile, Larry IVard, Riverside County, (Palm Springs) CA County Clerk and oj~ciating the wedding and Ray Williams. PALM SPRINGS, CA __ Donald Pile and Ray Williams long time friends and columnists for The Star exchanged legal vows in Palm Springs, CA on June 17, 2008. The couple drove from West Hollywood, where they were vacationing, to Palm Springs for the ceremony. The Star talked with them about the historic occasion. "We stopped by Palm Springs early this morning and were married", Donald told us. "Mel Haber, owner of the famous Melwn’S Restaurant in Palm Springs was a witness. He is a dear straight friend of ours. The other witness was our good friend, Stefan Hemming who owns the Liberace Estate. We were very cool about the whole thing until the Clerk said, "In as much as ....... Donald and Raymond have thus consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the State of California as a Commissioner of Civil Marriage for the County of Riverside (Palm Springs, CA), I now pronounce you to be united in marriage". "It was a small wedding as we didn’t have much time. When we walked out the front door of the county court house, we were crying and shouting". After 37 years we have never been more in love with each other. We are just sad for the gays and lesbians in other parts of the country who do not have the opportunity to get married". www.ozarksstar.corn th÷STAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa 24 @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City June 6, O~n~YoUth Center conducted the r annua F~hi~~: ,Th~ ~h~ was hosted by 106.9 s Chase and OK:: There were different artists in Pride Prade These ad es are hay ng tooooo~ ~bh fun www.ozarksstar.com CaIJaway CD Romanticizes Man to Man AL RE-ELECTED D STRICT 88 "You Ain’t Woman Enough’To Take My Man", a gay man is telling a woman, drag queen or possible a transvestite, that she isn’t woman enough to take his boyfriend. The title song "darn it, Baby, That’s Love" highlights the collection. Clay and his partner, Ty Lewis sing it as a duet with passion and love. Other song selections that will get you in the mood include "I’ve Grown Ac- :customed To Your Face", "All ~e Man That I Need", "Never Loved A Man Before", and "Come In From The Rain" In the past 20 years Callaway managed to find love, work somewhat in the shadows of "the industry" (as in, behind the scenes) in Los Angeles, New York, Sweden, Dominican Republic and all points in between, boomeranged through Nashville and came to live in Hilo, Hawaii. It was here that the muse again came to him. "Hawaii is so full of music and incredible voices that I found my self facing this love I have to sing out loud and once again I felt in love with the audience, and they seemed to like me too", Clay says. Charlie’s, often hosted by Joan Rivers, The Rose Tatoo, the Palomino Club and other "interesting" places. All the while making a living working in television production as a production assistant and slowly moving up that food chain. Life was good, met a few cute guys along the way and a few hot messes as well. It came a time in my early 20% I was taking voice lessons with Bob Garrett and we ended up writing a couple of songs together. On my web site, I have included a demo of one of those songs from over 20 years ago for a sneak peek at one that will be resurrected for my next album. I can’t sing that high anymore, but it’s a look back to a day tong past." "Then a fire in my apartment building left me homeless and sent me back to stay with my family in Arkansas for the summer to regroup. In some ways I felt defeated, but got chosen to direct the summer musical at the community theater, the South Arkansas Arts Center, and while in my home town, met the love of my life, Ty. He had been there most of his and my life, but we had never met." "I moved to LA at 19 to finish college at ¯ LMU, that was pretty much it for singing and performing aside from high school chores and the occasional opportunity to dress up in a chicken suit. (But that’s another story.) LA was a big eye-opener, as it would be for anyone let alone a young gay guy from south Arkansas. I began to write songs and performing at lots of fun places on the Sunset Strip and beyond. Carlos & Gay Chicago Magazine says "On his debut album, Callaway takes love songs many written by men and popularized by women then turns them on end by singing them in his distinctive vocal style to other men. It’s a creative approach that can make for some rather interesting word play. " You can purchase the CD online at: www. cdbaby.com/cd/daycallaway By Victor Gorin Keith Taggart congratulates State Representative AI McAflgrey at a fundraiser for Jim Roth at the residence of Mike McLain & Richard Ogden. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma’s first openly gay legislator, Al McAffrey was re-elected to represent District 88 of central Oklahoma City. He was first elected in 2006. At the close of the filing period June 4 there was only one opponent, 27 year old Dominique Block, who was running as an Independent. His candidacy was challenged by the McAffrey campaign on the grounds that he had not been registered as an Independent for 6 months prior to the filing period, and the Oklahoma State Election Board determined he was not eligible. As there was no other opposition, Al McAffrey was automatically re-elected to of~ce. Al welcomes this opportunity stating," It’s a great feeling to know my constituents have faith in me, and by their support I’ll be able to serve them for two more years." Quotable Quotes The Tonight Show host, Jay Leno decided to make an appearance in support of the recent legalization of gay marriage by California’s Supreme Court. "He said that he is from Massachusetts and that the sky did not fall in their state when marriage equality became the law of the land there," a rep for the event said. 26 th÷STAR www.ozarksstar.com NATIONAL NEWS Task Force Action Ftmd applauds New York Assembly £or historic vote on transgender rights "We congratulate the leadership ofAssemblyman Richard Gottfried, the many transgender leaders and allies in New York, and our partner, Empire State Pride Agenda, for this important victory. We now call on the leaders of the New York Senate to bring this bill to the floor so that protections fbr transgender people and others in New York are not delayed another day." Noway adopts gaymarriage law OSLO (AFP) -- Norway’s parliament on Wednesday adopted a new marriage law that allows homosexuals to marry and adopt children and permits lesbians to be artificially inseminated. WASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund applauds the New York Assembly’s passage today of the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA). The bill, which passed by a 102-33 vote, now moves to the state Senate. The measure seeks to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression in housing, employment, credit and public accommodations and would add gender identity or expression to the state’s hate crimes law. New York extended protections on the basis of sexual orientation in 2002 and the Task Force has worked with the Empire State Pride Agenda, legislators and community activists since then to amend the law to add gender identity or expression protections, including by helping draft GENDA. Among the other contributions the Task Force made to this effort was a convening of transgender and allied activists in 2006 at a training in Albany to provide leaders with skills for how to build coalitions in support of this bill, and a Power Summit training on Long Island in December 2007 that attracted more than 100 activists who were taught how to lobby their legislators and build grassroots support for the bill. If the bill passes the Senate, Gov. David Paterson is expected to sign it and New York would become the 13th state to explicitly ban discrimination based on gender identity or expression. Currently, 39 percent of the country’s population is covered by such a local or state law. Statement by Rea Carey, Acting Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund "This is a very exciting victory for the people ofNew York, particularly transgender people. Legislation of this sort is not only responsible public policy, it also shows the nation that New York is unafraid to join the ranks of states that value all of their citizens, including those who are transgender or who express their gender in ways that reflect the broad and beautiful spectrum of humanity. www.ozarksstar.com Libertarian Party selects Bob Barr.as 2008 presidential nominee Former Congressman plans to take the White House as Libertarian candidate DENVER, CO (PR) __ The Libertarian Party has nominated former Congressman Bob Barr as its candidate for president for the 2008 election. "I’m sure we will emerge here with the strongest ticket in the history of the Libertarian Party," Barr stated in his victory speech shortly after being selected as the Party’s nominee. "I want everybody to remember that we only have 163 days to win this election. We cannot waste one single day." More than 650 Libertarian delegates met in Denver from May 22 tilt the 26 for the 2008 Libertarian National Convention. After six rounds of voting Sunday afternoon, Barr was selected as the Party’s presidential nominee. The Libertarian Party is America’s third largest political party, founded in 1971 as an alternative to the two main political parties. You can find more information on the Libertarian Party by visiting www.LP.org. The Libertarian Party proudly stands for smaller government, lower taxes and more freedom. After a heated debate, the members of parliament adopted the text by a vote of 84 to 41. The three centre-left coalition parties in power and two opposition parties, the Conservatives and the Liberals, voted largely in favour of the law, while the Christian Democrats and the far-right Progress Party voted against it. Norway thus became the sixth country in the world to grant homosexuals the right to marry on an equal footing with heterosexuals, according to Norwegian television TV2. "This decision is of an importance comparable to universal suffrage and our law on parity," Labour Party rapporteur Gunn Karin Gjul said during the debate. The most controversial part of the law is that which gives lesbians the right to be artificially inseminated. The sperm donor must be identified so that the child can seek out his or her biological father at the age of 18. Outside the parliament, a handful of opponents protested with posters reading "Have fathers become superfluous?" and "Parliament has no mandate to change the laws of nature." Among other things, the new legislation replaces a so-called "partnership law" adopted in 1993 xvhich gave Norwegian homosexuals the right to civil unions. Health care workers who do not want to perform artificial inseminations on lesbians because of their personal convictions will not be under any obligation to carry out the procedure. The new law is expected to enter into force at the end of this year or eatly next year. Homosexuality was illegal until 1972 in Norway, a country which has since become one of the most liberal in the world in the field. ~÷STAR 27 by Jack Fertig July 2008 "Nalke like a tourist, Pisces!" With Mercury, Venus, Uranus, and Eris all in mutual aspect, efforts at wit and charm are subverted by excessive impulses and eagerness to take offense. Still, it’s a good time to hash out friendly disagreements or to take up arts or crafts projects. ¯ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Before speaking up, try to remember some bit of wisdom from a wise old woman, probably your grandmother or a teacher from early childhood. Her insight could smooth out the rough edges, turning your initial ideas from disastrous to helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): You may be overly invested in a set goal that isn’t as realistic as it originally seemed. We all need to revise plans now and then. Be practical, not stubborn! Discuss it with friends, and take time alone to reconsider priorities. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): You may be trying too hard to get ahead and to organize people you see as "your team." Stand back, think about what’s really important, and listen carefully to your friends and their aims. Communication is the key to cooperation. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Arguments that seem to come out of nowhere are really about your hidden doubts and fears. Expert opinions can help set your mind at ease. Try exploring some artistic medium or musical style that wouldn’t normally interest you. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Your own ideas of sexual politics could shake up your corner of the GLBT community, which can stimulate new thinking. Discussion points that come from the heart will go over better than battle cries that sound like P.C. cliches. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Flirtations and sexual politics can complicate relations with bosses and colleagues. Acknowledging sexual tension may help to dispel it, but that doesn’t always work. Think deeply and far ahead before trying it. Discuss any problems at your job with friends who work elsewhere. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Cooperation is usually more productive in the long run than competition is. Both have their place, but your eager ambitions may blind you to better opportunities. Careful listening can turn rivals into allies. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Sexual experimentation is fine in principle; just be careful that you don’t land in a bad situation. Think ahead and be cautious! 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Title A name given to the resource [2008] The Star Magazine, July 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 7 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 01, 2008 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Charles (Chaz) Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gorin Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Judy G. Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, June 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 6 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/248 Metro Star. August 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 8 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/198 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/247 After Dark Al McAffrey Bob Bar Deval Patrick horoscopes Katherine Patrick Leslie Jordan marriage equality mixology Night club Obama Oklahoma City Museum of Art Our House Paparazzi on the Prowl pride Parade project runway Quotable Quotes recipes Star Advertisers star classified Star Scene The National Gay and Task Force The Phantom of the Opera Too travel wine https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/733b2f2153340c0152c8ddfe54b6ed5d.jpg 06b85fa3864a1cd9fb22b85f79874359 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f877c3716f55d1351dd0b5dc72bdb505.pdf cbaefc1fc50913638b9cd20f6f15b445 PDF Text Text ~nty one years ago was a world that many young people never k~ew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) ~ganizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. Nate Black, one of the co-chairs says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the Pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 will be just as incredible of a celebration as ever. Spanning over two weeks, with an event almost every evening, Tulsa Pride 2008 has something for everyone. "There will be some differences, but the spirit of the celebration is the same. It is still going to be a joyful, invigorating experience that xvill spark the same sense of pride and freedom in our community," ride Tutso PI IDE ?008 ��2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �walk or drag yourself to Tulsa Pride 2008 By Joey De It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 is a series of events you won’t want to miss. "We have our three anchor events: the gala, the parade and block party, and the picnic," explains Pride co-chair Nate Black. "There ~vill be some differences from the past, but the spirit of Tulsa Pride is as vibrant as ever." Here is a brief look at the events of Tulsa Pride 2008. For a complete listing, maps and details, visit www.tulsapride.org May 30 - "Sisters in Song" concert at All Souls Unitarian Church. May 31- Wear your rainbow attire and enjoy a day at America’s favorite zoo with your friends and family. Tnat night, join the Equality Gala and celebrate the GLBT community at Cain’s Ballroom. Jun. 1 - Rev. Barney McLaughlin and members of Tulsa’s faith community will be hosting "Spiritual Equality," an interfaith service at Bethany Christian Church. Jun. 2 - Join PFLAG at the Circle Cinema for a free screening of "Anyone and Everyone," a film about families struggling to accept their GLBT youth. Jun. 4 - Cheer the Drillers to victory and enjoy an old-fashioned ballpark picnic. Tickets must be bought in advance. That evening, Lochran Theatre’s "He&vig and the Angry Inch," opens. The show will play at various locations through the 15th. Jun. 5 - Enjoy the works of 60 artists at "More Color," a one-night ex~hibition at the Equality Center. Jun. 6 - Open Arms Youth Project Fashion Show. Jun. 7 - Dine at the OkEq Family Taco Dinner benefiting PFLAG, then join the Pride Parade and Block Party, with two stages of entertainment. Youth Services of Tulsa will be hosting a concert in their Coffee House for those under 21 and child care will be available for those under 12 at the Equality Center. Jun. 8 - Texas Hold’era at the Equality Center. Jun. 10 - Leather and Fetish fashion show at the Equality Center. Jun. 11 - Join the "Gender Avengers" for an evening of monologues and plays addressing transgender issues. Jun. 12 - Learn about raising kids in a diverse world at the Downtown Library. Speakers will be available and books attacked for their "inappropriate" messages will be displayed. Jun. 13 - Screen "The ~A’ Word," a film with no audio or subtitles, about 10 deaf lesbians. Jun. 14 - Walce up early for the YST fun run before the Equality Festival at Centennial Park on 6th and Peoria! www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 ��OKC P DE EEKEND AN EVENT TRULY ’COMING OF AGE" By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It can be hard to fathom, but OKC Pride is now 21. Had the event been a child born 21 years ago, that person would now be ready to legally enjoy the bars. Instead a spirit of human determination was born in rocky Oklahoma soil, with the joyful trappings that come with living in the Bible Belt’s buckle, q-his beginning came to Oklahoma through the brave organization of about a dozen people. As Paul Thompson recAls, "We didfft know if there wotdd be 10 people marching or a hundred." The Ku Klux Klan had promised to meet the marchers when they came over the N.W. 39th Street hill with hostile confrontation. When around 400 marchers came over the hill, the Klansmen waiting in Safeway’s (now Homeland) parking lot promptly left the scene, and a proud tradition began. It was a world that many young people never knew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) Today the Pride Festival and Parade truly showcases the theme by showing how far we’ve come. Festival booths not only feature openly gay public office holders (now even on the State level with the appointment of Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth), but also gay political organizations of Democrats and Republicans, as well as straight politicians & parties who are proud to speak out for us and seek our vote. Social organizations (from rodeo to softball), and religious www.ozarksstar.com groups bring us all together in glamorous diversity. There are countless more business organizations proud to seek out the gay community to make a buck. Last but not least, nothing compares to the mosaic of the GLBT community and their friends, people from all walks of life together in Pride. EVENTS: June 14 Saturday OKC Pride at the Zoo 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. For the first time there will be a gay day at the Oklahoma City Zoo. It will be a great way to begin the week’s festivities with family and/or friends. There is information about a special reduced rate inside every OKC Pride Participation Packet, so come out, enjoy the day and wish the animals a good week too! June 15 Sunday OKC Pride Day of Worship Cathedral of Hope & Church of the Open Arms ( both UCC) will be planning special worship celebrations to commemorate Pride Week. If you have felt left out or excluded from worship, these churches are ready to welcome you just as you are. June 20- OKC Pride Parade Now moved to Friday evening stepping off at 7 p.m. the route is unchanged. Beginning at Memorial Park ( N.W. 36th & Classen) it proceeds north on Classen two blocks north ofN.W. 39th Street, turns around on Classen and then proceeds west on N.W. 39th. Our Grand Marshall will be Joe Salmonese, the chair of the national Human Rights Campaign. Preceding the Parade will be a Strip Show ( signifying the N.W. 39th Street Strip) featuring some of our wildest and finest entertainers. Then the crowd cheers on as the parade’s first arrivals enjoy the finest climax ever enjoyed at any event. As the Parade concludes those in the mood will be ready to party, giving new meaning to a wild weekend while remembering how Pride brings us together. Still at Oklahoma Cit)?s Memorial Park at N.W. "36th & Classen, the Festival will run from noon until 10 p.m. Saturday June 21, and from noon until 5 p.m. June 22 Sunday. There will be many booths featuring organizations you can learn from or even consider joining, as well as endless types of merchandise. There will be entertainment as well Following the Festival conclusion at 5 p.m. Sunday, Church of the Open Arms has their Annual Pride Ice Cream Social, which will featuring the Therapy Sisters in concert. There’s no better way to cool off, enjoy the fun & music and recap the xveekend. This is an event you don’t want to miss, it’s there for all of us. For more infornaation pick up a Pride Guide at your favorite clubs, " or check out the website at wwv.okcpride. com DBAT Celebrates Pride by Hosting a Diversity Job Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association of Tulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on June 13th from 12:00pm to 4:00pm. The event, being held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa, will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgbt-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbtfriendly. F~r more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. June 21- 22 OKC Pride Festival the STAR 5 �By David Benkof Should gay-rights advances be put on hold until all LGBT people can be included? On this question, the position held by the most prominent voices in the gay community is so inconsistent it borders on incoherent. Last year, most leading gay-rights organizations rejected the advice of congressional experts including Rep. Barney Frank (DMass.) and pushed for an unlikely-to-pass version of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that included gender identity. \Vc~hen the broader bill was replaced with an ENDA that covered only sexual orientation, hundreds of gay and lesbian groups lobbied Congress to vote "no" on what was the most important piece of gayrights legislation in a decade. Indeed, seven Democrats who had previously been reliable votes for pro-gay bills opposed ENDA because it did not include protections for transgender people. LGBT activists defended this stance in a variety of ways, but the basic argument xvas that no part of the community should gain civil rights at the expense of other parts. Of course, had that been the approach of voting-rights activists after the Civil War, African-Americans would have forfeited the vote until women gained suffrage a halfcentury later - and they, in turn, may have been asked to wait for the passage of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 before gaining the right to vote. In any event, supporters of what became known as "United ENDA" characterized their position as a principled one, believing that LGB rights without T rights were worse than no rights at all, and that (Evita show tune be damned) politics is not "the art of the possible." This pose is simply unsustainable, as an examination of transgender military inclusion shows. The Web sites of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force; the Human Rights Campaign; Parents, Friends, and Families of Lesbians and Gays; and many other groups 6 the STAR advocate for an ENDA that includes gender identity, but the T is glaringly missing when it comes to military issues. ~nese organizations push for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals to serve openly in the armed forces, but don’t lobby on behalf of transgender people who want to serve their country. They certainly don’t insist that any repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" (DADT) be linked to equality for transgender servicemembers. There are only three ways LGBT organizations can react to this imbalance with any sort of integrity: One, they could refuse to support the repeal of DADT unless it is accompanied by a new policy that prohibits the military from discriminating on the basis of gender identity. Two, they could admit that their ENDA strategy was wrong and agree to accept an LGB-only workplace bill until such time as the votes are there to pass a more inclusive ENDA. Three, they could articulate pub!icly and precisely why discrimination against transgender people in the military is more legitimate than private-sector discrimination against them - and why it is more legitimate than discrimination against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals in the military. I would certainly prefer the second solution, but I could respect the other two approaches. My hunch, though, is that none of these stances will be adopted. The status quo is strong evidence that the "United ENDA" stance is not primarily about political principles. It’s about the internal power dynamics in the LGBT community, which have caused gay leaders to draw the line at an inclusive ENDA. No such mobilization has taken place over transgender people in the military, so there has been no perceived need for an ultimatum on that issue. Yet. David Benkof was a longtime gay columnist, historian, and entrepreneur (as David Bianco). He is openly bisexual, but as an Orthodox Jew he is guided by Jewish law in the areas ofsexvtality andfamily life. He can be reached at DavidBenkof@aol.com. www.ozarksstar.com �F~E BEER & HOT DO~ For a Family’s Dinner brought by the neighbors after the Death of Bettsie. Be sure to look on the bottom of the dish to see what neighbor brought it! Original Mo~,ie will be shown @ 7 pm dUl-h’~g dim-let. Ist Eplsede of Series will be shown immediately fo!!o~d.ug $10 D~nat~n to OG~,A inc]ludes ~nner ~$1GNING www.ozarksstar.com Meet and Greet Leslie Jordan - From Sordid Lives, Will & Grace My Trip Down The :PINK CARPET the STAR 7 �@ Coming of e ~ulsa PRIDE ar~ 2008 ONE NIGHT ONLY ThuP~day, June 5, 2008, 5:G0prn to 9:0~m atthe Dennis R. Nell Equali~ C~nt~r, Corner of 4th and Keno~, dov~ov,~ Tuls~ the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Directed by David Gatigan Oklahoma City June 8, 2008 at 8pro wv~v.ozarksstar.com the 8TAP, 9 �interview Interview by Victor Gorin eslie Jordan arrived in this world during 1955 in the Heartland of the Bible Belt, born and grown up in Chattanooga,Tennessee.. AI[ho@ ~rowing up was ~ostly nor easy, he made le~nonade o[it of lemons and marie his experiences work for him, taking a bus to HoIly~vood and never looking back. His credits are coundess, with app~ces on TV shows too numerous m men- tion them but in~ih&ag Reba and Will and Grace(which garnered him an E . Re is an accomplished playwright with his first success Like a Dog on Linoleum" followed by Hysterical B redness and other Southern Tragedies. Among his film successes i~’thd camp} dassic ’Sordid I[ives" (where he portrayed the drag que~ Brother Boy), which will be a n~w ~ series o£ LOGO ~ning July 23. His new book, "My, Trip down the P~ ~t:’ is 7h~ Slory of his life with his @s dd downs, tragedies, ~ es and tri~phs, and the story o~a flamboyant ~ who has ~y found hirrisel£ He is portr~iying his life ~lSo in a one man play of the same title in Olda~oma ~it~ June 8, for this is a must re~d and a must see. He shares his thoug~is with ~E LESHE: Well I v,~as the Pips Printing guy, and t also was the elevator operator that took people to Ha~bu}ger Hell in a Taco Bel! co~ercial, i was the ~h~ck Full of Nuts coit~e boy, a]l kinds of commercials. ~ ~ ~ 10 the,STAR www.ozarksstar.com �ma$~e that possible. ~CTOR~ g,q~.en does your new book COme *utJune 3~ and Iamso which is Ga~ ~cOholigm and RddiC’ : are some gay" activists wh6 feei that fl~bSya~t gay characters in the ueenS hinder the s{~u~le answer to Ilow iS tr~sggn: : and see me, I promise the STAR tl �Dracula of Free Speech, Kirk Humphreys, Pdses From the Po litica Grave by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY) Just as the mythic Dracula of Transylvania came back from the dead to spread horror among the peasants, so has the flesh-and-blood Kirk Humphreys come back from the politically dead to fling his homophobic horror in the hall~ of Oklahoma City’s public schools. In 1997, a fundamentalist censorship group ponied up with an Oklahoma County judge willing to make an informal ruling that the "Tin Drum" was child pornography and that copies of it could be seized in Oklahoma County wherever it could be found whether in private homes or public libraries. Reborn in the blood of his religion and bred in the desiccated dessert of intolerance, Kirk Humphreys was recently appointed by the Oklahoma City School Board to fill the position of chair until an election is held in February, 2009. Despite the facts that the film had been released in 1979, received major film awards, and not anyone prior to Humphreys had made a legal claim of obscenity against the film, Humphreys again smelled blood and was hot on the trail of what he thought would surely be a victory for fundamentalist decency. ~hinking that the cross of his religion would trump all blasphemers and dissolve the First and Fourth Amendments he encouraged the court case to proceed. Coming above ground with his first public election to the Putnam City school Board in 1987, he rose to bigger things as mayor of OKC in 1998. He resigned during his second term to run for U. S. Senate which he lost to Dr. Tom Coburn, 25% to 61%. Settling back into his businessman’s grave of multiple real estate dealings, one would have thought that we had heard the last of Mr. Humphreys. So why the concern regarding his reappearance? During his time as Mayor of OKC, he was the driving force behind the 2001 attempt to prevent Cimarron Alliance, a GLBT advocacy group, from exercising their First Amendment right to free speech with the display of banners promoting gay/lesbian equality. However, the shining light of Federal District Court Judge Robin Cauthron, exorcised the demon of Humphreys and as she ruled in favor of Cimarron Alliance and enjoined the City Council from interfering with Cimarron’s banner display on the utility poles. Hitherto the sacred utility poles had been the exclusive marketplace for hetero organizations such as the Chamber of Commerce, rodeos, and other civic clubs. Did I mention the earlier "Tin Drum" video law suit? 12 the STAR Federal District Court Judge Ralph ~hompson, however, found that the film is not child pornography, and went on to criticize that the County Judge, Richard Freeman, had made a serious error in judgment pertaining to what constitutes pornography and allowing the OKC police, carte blanche, to search homes and businesses without a warrant. Both of the lost lawsuits backed by Kirk Humphreys cost hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars in expenses and attorney fees which resulted in higher property taxes. ¯hough the "Tin Drum" adventure was publicly lead by former District Attorney Bob Macy, as mayor and the boss of the OKC police chief, I feel that Humphreys was certainly in the loop and should have had more sense and better advise in calling off the figurative police dogs. If the past is prologue, I think we can expect some more Humphreys hauntings at the expense of the Oklahoma City taxpayers. It’s been shown that the Constitution, its Bill of Rights, and especially the First Amendment, if applied in time, can counter the poisonous vapors that waft from Humphreys. �Wockner News Service Congress’ highest-ranking vet calls f.or DADT repeal Carly Simon: ’I don’t consider myself" to be not gay WASHINGTON, DC __ U.S. Rep. Joe Sestak, D-Pa., whose military rank was the highest of any veteran now in Congress, has urged fellow lawmakers to join him in repealing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy that bars open gays from the military. Sestak’s comments came at the Equality Forum, an annual GLBT conference and festival in Philadelphia. The Military Readiness Enhancement Act (H.R. 1246), which would repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and allow GLB personnel to serve openly, has 142 co-sponsors in total. "Veterans like Adm. Sestak, who have dedicated their lives to serving this country, are leading the movement in Congress to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," said Aubrey Sarvis of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. "These lawmakers agree with senior military officers, including former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff:John Shalikashvili and retired Army Maj. Gen. Vance Coleman, that when it comes to defusing IEDs, tending to injured troops, deciphering enemy codes and flying reconnaissance missions -- sexual orientation is irrelevant. Seventy-nine percent of the American people agree with them and it is time that Congress finally repeal this law." A version of the measure, known as ENDA, that protects sexual orientation but not gender identity has passed the U.S. House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. In an interview published May 1 in the San Francisco gay weeldy Bay Area Reporter, ’70s pop-music legend Carly Simon said, "I don’t consider myself to be not gay." The double-negative quasi-coming-out occurred when interviewer Gregg Shapiro inquired: "After speaking with you this morning, I’m going to be interviewing Cyndi Lauper regarding her True Colors tour, which features gay and straight artists performing to raise money for the Human Rights Campaign and other LGBT organizations. I’m wondering if Cyndi called you and asked you to be a part of the True Colors tour, might you get involved?" Simon replied: "Well, the part that I could be involved in is the gay and lesbian part. The part that would be hard for me is to commit to a tour because I’m not very comfortable being onstage. But the part that would be easiest for me would be singing on behalf of all of us. I don’t consider myself to be not gay." Shapiro responded: "Wow! Well, it’s great to have you as part of the family." "Thank you!" Simon said. "I mean, I’ve enlarged all of my possibilities. There are a lot of extremely personal stories to tell about that, but we won’t go into that right now. Let’s just say that it just depends upon who I’m with." www.ozarksstar.com Frank: Transgender people were terrible lobbyists Openly gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, DMass., says transgender people did a terrible job of lobbying for inclusion in the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act. Sestak, a three-star admiral who spent 31 years in the Navy, is one of 17 congressional veterans co-sponsoring the repeal bill. "It is easy for me to see why Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell should be repealed," Sestak said May 3. "Once you have served in war and faced danger with a gay service member, how can you come home and say gay people should not enjoy equal rights?" Attempts to contact Simon through her publicist, record label and MySpace page were unsuccessful as of press time. "I’ve never seen a worse job of lobbying done by the transgender community," Frank told the Oregon gay newspaper Just Out in its May 2 issue. "They seem to think that all they had to do was to get the gay and lesbian community to say ’OK.’ I think they thought that this was a train, and that they were a car on the train." "I said to them, ’You’ve got to work this, you’ve got to lobby people.’ They did a terrible job of lobbying, and so we didn’t have the votes," Frank said. First ot3enlv legislator dle Illinois Larry McKeon, Illinois’ first openly gay and first openly HIV-positive state legislator, died May 13 of a severe stroke. He was 63. McKeon represented a district of Chicago’s North Side in the state House of Representatives from 1997 to 2007. An Army veteran and former cop, McKeon also served as Mayor Richard M. Daley’s liaison to the GLBT community prior to his election to public office. McKeon retired last year, citing health issues related to HIV and cancer. ........ More U. S. News page 27 the STAR 13 �recently confessed to the fact that she attracts gays like a moth to a light, hall the men that like me are gay, k’~ ~e. I have a really strong gaydar. I do love gay men though,~ Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres are planning to marD: Ellen has said she is "thrilled" at the r~ing by the California supreme court to overturn the state’s ban on gay marri~e. True Co .ors pP g Alexander Payne "Hung" Up at HBO Oscar-winning screenwriter Alexander Payne (for Sideways, not his litde-usedbut-stilbcredit-getting screer~ptay for I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry) has a new pro’ect9 up his ste~we. And it~ about what’s in one man’s pants. Hung, a comedy pilot on track at HBO, will be Payne’s [IW-directing debut, from a script by Dmitry Lip~n. creator of%e Riches. ~md the subiect matter? What happens when a~l average, middle-aged basketbal! coach learns how to put his exceptionally large’~- penis to better ~e. NO actor has signed on yet to play the gifted guy, but casting is scheduled m begi n soon. If picked up for series, it will be, a; the very least, the first show" of its k5nd. But wi!I there be a Boogie Nights-style revea! shot? Or will it remain a mysteiT? Either way, expect a big deal to made about this one. STAR Cyndi LaUper~ colors are brighter than ever. F~li~Wing [tie Success of last year’s landmark tofir, Latimer is back to help the Human Ri~ts Campaign, theS~ue Colors Fund of StOnewall C~r~i-nuni~? Foundation, PFLa~G and the Centertink Network of BLGT community cemers. Holb~voodactress edl3 ship only the closet. of Foster, 45, is believed to have called offher relationship with movie producer Cydney Bernard after a series of arguments. The couple were together for 14 years and have two children ~x;~om Fosrer g~ve birth to and Bernard adopted, according to the British Daily Mail tabloid. Famous for just wanting to have fun, Lau per will be bringing her tour to the Zoo Amphitheater in Oklahoma City on Jun. 23. Joining Cyndi wilt be The B-52s, joan J~tr ~d The Blackhearts, ~mdy Belt of Erasure. Margaret Cho and Girl tn A Coma. *~ ....... with host Cars on rvresslev, for ticket" tmormarion or a full list ofto[,r dates, visit ~"~,.~,,, truecolorstour corn " " www.ozarksstar.com �Pt~oto by: Bill Gaddis The fo owing is getting hot out. Tulsa’s wonderful sprir~g ,h, as played out. Here are a coupl~ tips I d like {o pass along that may add to your summer enjoyment of vino..F,irstly, for white win~S, you know/get ern ~ld! And as the~e Wines warm up in your glass, the fruit flavors open Up to~. I really like this gradual experience. Many times, we finish a bottle so fast when sharing with friends that we don’t even notice. For red wines, put a chill on ’era as well. NOT too c.o, ld but just cool enough so that you’re not drinking warm glug. Remember, room temperatu~’e can mean a whole different thing during the summer. Proper stem ware can also make a big difference this time of year. Riedel glasses are among the best althougt~ not recommended poolside. Here are some wines for both red & white lovers. Calistoga Cellars Chardonnay 2006 This vintage was just released in ket. If you liked the ’05, this will really hit the mark. It’s li beautifully balanced mix of ripe pear and the wine is medium bodied soft finish. A favodte of l visit McGilrs on 21rst St. Vincent Pouilly-Fuisse in several This Pouilly-Fuisse areas belonging to th~ oak barrels The wine is created by Jean-Jac( owner of the Made-Antoicelebrated Chateau "). nette Vincent make a He blends the White flowwell balanced ers are on t finish. I first discovered s wine over at 1740/wine bar on Boston n~ear 18th. This Chardonnay from France i~ quite good. Michel Picard Vouvray This is Chenin Blanc from the Loi of France. Fresh aromas of apricot & on the nose and the finish is fruity and~~ slightly off dry. Enjoy this from with me,is that include shellfish to desserts like apple pies with vanilla ice cream. Ochoa Garnacha Rose 2006 This Rose wine is made entirely from Grenache grapes. The color of is a result of the short maceration period that helps to maintain the fragrant aromas and fresh flavors. A well structured Spanish wine with plenty of well-rounded fruit and balanced acidity. Food pairings include pasta, salads and vegetables. Produtorri del Barbaresco 2004 I had a chance to visit this winery when I was northern Italy. The grape is Nebbiolo and it’s one of the most important wine grape varieties of Italy’s Piedmont region. Flavors of violets, tar, cherries, truffles, tobacco & prunes come to mind. Although ~ ut the tannins, these producers make their wines more their youth. This bottle is also affordable and has received high acclaim from wine critics. Serious meat oriented pastas would go well with this wine. Toad 2006 This ;I, comes ~ where Zinf~ long h offering i~ ~ Sirah. It~!a really great Cacophony Zinfandel Hollow Zinfandel ppellation les thdve upon the nights. This new 20% Petit & jammy wine that’s a :e~.for barbecued meats. :i~va/Sparkling wine NV. Th~ rfclude; 50% Macabeo, 15% Xarelolo. This iJwhat you may be used ne or U S sparkling :he Spanish create a : old world version from wine is quite affordable pleasantly surprise you. ~s ~s a good wine to fall back on as you ;lebrate the summer months. ~ And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/wv,rw.WineS pec~ator.co m www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org is.~grape can take years to age and www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 �9t8.585,5898 ® 800.585,5101 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) ® Tulsa, Ok 74t 19 16 theSTAR e www.q plazatulsa.com June 2008 �TW’s-AFAB Catering �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams LUNA VISTA B & B aJmost knocked us over. At night we saw more stars in the sky than we ever see here in the Midwest. "Morltezuma’s Castle" There are fabulous places to visit and there are "beyond Fabulous" places to visit. Luna Vista in Rimrock, Arizona is such a place. Driving out to California on a recent trip we were guests of Kala (pronounced Calla is in Calla Lily) and her husband Frank at their "beyond Fabulous" Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast. Located just about 20 miles southeast of Sedona and just about 3 miles offthe Interstate, this has to be one of the finest and most unusual places that we have been. However to get there you get off the pavement and drive about three miles around curvy hilly, rocky and treacherous gravel and dirt roads to make your arrival. But after arriving, it is ~vorth the trip. After making the last turn you are aghast when you see this place. It is like you have arrived at the Ponderosa! Kala and Frank were residents of the East Coast and after 9111 they decided that it was time for a major move. They purchased the property in Rimrock, remodeled, repaired, built on, put in a swimming pool, Jacuzzi and many more additions and finally opened their new B and B in February, 2004 and it has been an instant success ever since. We stayed in the Don Diego (Zorro) suite. Our bathroom was 18 feet by 20 feet and included our own Jacuzzi. Our shower was 6 feet by 8 feet and included a steam room and a double vanity, bidet and every kind of amenity that you would possibly want. Our linens were 400-threat count Egyptian cotton and of course they were ironed before putting them on the beds! Oh! Did we mention that they have heated towel racks in the bathroom? Each room came with a DVDITFIVHS, CD player, etc. A bottle of wine is in every room for the guests. The grounds are fabulous. They are very pet-friendly and even have a dog run and a horse run should you care to bring your horse. Not into driving? Then use their helicopter pad and fly right in! They serve a full-course breakfast every day and on Sundays’ a full brunch. And we are not talking a muffin and coffee, but a full sit-down breakfast with wanes, breakfast steak, eggs, potatoes, etc. Nothing is left out. Guests have the full run of the house and property including an office where you can check your e-mails and work online if need be. But the most important thing about Luna Vista are the owners, KALA AND FRANK. Nxey genuinely care about their guests and cater to their every need. Tney love life and it shows. In all of our travels, they are the most sincere, heartwarming and friendly people that we have ever met. On our last night there, Kala and Frank hosted a party in our honor and invited severn of their neighbors and area antiques dealers. They fixed enough food for an entire army. Everyone was so interesting in their own way. The woman The moment that Kala opened the door to welcome us in, we I~IEW that we were going in for a big treat and we were! She is dive, animated, professional, entertaining and a great hostess. Frank ALWAYS has a smile on his face and is very excited about everything. Together they make a great team and we know that they will be in the bed and breakfast business for many years. They can’t help it if they were born straight! It happens in the best of families. Everyone is welcome at Luna Vista and we do mean everybody! We stayed there for three days and didn’t even want to go anywhere else. However one day we did drive over to Montezuma’s Castle and on to Montezumgs Lake which was extremely interesting. But the red enjoyment was taking advantage of the Luna Vista B and B and the many amenities it has to offer. It is located on 16 acres and you can take a long hike through the woods and river area. The flowers were blooming everywhere. The sights and aromas 18 theSTAR Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast www.ozarksstar.com �Les residents want Wockner News Wire Nxree residents of the Greek island of Lesbos have filed suit in an attempt to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and wrote about love between women. Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast next door to them bakes fantastic desserts and another neighbor is a spiritual advisor and yet another creams beautiful "cactus" lamps and objects. She presented us xvith one of her creations. The next time you really xvant to get away from everything and truly have a memorable experience, book yoursdf a xveek at the "beyond fabulous" Luna Vista. Their website is: wxvxv.lunavistabandb.com or call 800-611-4788. They have been featured in many travel publications from coast to coast. To get to Rimrock either fly into Flags{aff or Phoenix, rent an auto and drive. That is unless you’re already driving, then just drive on Interstate 17 and take the 293 Exit. The plaintiffs claim the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounts to "psychological and moral rape." An OLKE spokeswoman called the case "ridiculous" but an Athens court will hear the matter on June 10. Quotable Quotes Cuba’s parliament is studying proposals to legalize same-sex unions and give gay couples the benefits that people in traditional marriages enjoy. "The freedom of sexual choice and gender identity are exercises in equality and social justice," said Mariela Castro, daughter of President Raul Castro,. We stayed xvith them on a return trip from California and our "beyond fabnlous" experiences continued while staying there. We don’t make many promises, but trust us on this one, we promise that you will have one of the finest and most enjoyable weeks of your life xvith Kala and Frank. Alxvays remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for order blank. www.ozarksstar.corn ~}~eSTAR t9 �of Town B~ A~&’~w Colli~ W-eekend Getaways from Portland, Oregon with a marionberry vinaigreue. For more sophisticated fare, book a table at the Gower Street Bistro, which presents creative regional dishes, such as pan-seared sea scallops with roaste&cre~ corn, eNgplant, and tJancetta. You might spend the mornings in Cannon Beach strolling along the sand, admiring the many geological formations just Offshore, such as the famous, 237-~bot-tall Haystack Rocla Do as locals do and grab a cup of delicious java at Sleepy Mgnk C~ff?e Roasters (alofig with £ ~hick sli~e ofch0~latechip pumpkin bread)before you Set Out[ %nture south of Cannori Beach and youll pass throt~ Oswald West S~te Park, which is laced with hiking trails that weave through 01d-gro~f0rest; leading down tO the ~ch. End your day in fianky itS, with its quirlg, cafes and galleri~i perhaps enjoying a glass of Oregon wine at Vino, a snaz~ little Wine bar that also ser~e~ plate~ of delici0u] chkrcuterie and cheeSe. Between Manzanita and CannOn Beach in tiny Arch Cape, the gay-owned Ocean Point Inn comprises three oceanfront suites with chic, contempo~ furnishings, fiatscreen TVs, and gas fireplaces. Guests can enjoy a ~de range of treatments at the inn’s spa. It’s one of the most romantic accommodations along the coast. I-5} Within 30 miles of Portland, in Oregon’s verdant Willamette Valley; you’ll find some of the leading wineries in ~e United States - the area ha~ become Oregon’s Gannon Beach o~rs some ofthe best sunset-viewing on the West Coast. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Hip and cosmopolitan Portland continues to emerge as a popular urban vacation destination for gay" and lesbian travelers, thanks in part to its stellar restaurant scene, liberal social climate, and artsy personalit~: But another major draw of this charmed city is its proxmaity to so many breathtakingly beautiful places that make perfect two- to three-day getaways. In an afternoon’s drive, you can explore the rugged Oregon Coast, tile lush Willamette Valley wine country, or the high desert outdoor recreation mecca of Bend. Here’s a look at three ideal weekend getaways from the Portland area, all of them centered on communities with an increasing number of gay-owned or gay-friendly accommodations and restaurants. especially renowned for iris pinot noirs. If you have only a day to tour the region, focus your efforts a~ound the rural, hilly Yamhill area, home to such esteemed vineyards as Willakenzie, Penner,Ash, and Adelsheim. Just a short drive south, in the Dundee Hills. standouts include Archery Summit, Sokot Blosser, and Domaine Serene. ~ese are among dozens of wineries with tasting rooms open m the public. ~Ihis part of the valley abounds with excellent restaurants, too. An intimate spot serving relatively affordable French fare, Cuvee sits along the quiet main drag of tiny Carlton and is a fine place to end a day ofwine-t~asting. Among the several stellar restauvamts in Dundee, check out Tina’s, a bustling bistro that features creative American fare emphasizing ingredients from r delicious dish is the seared halibut local cheeks with diced "Ihere tic and rooms, each with a As vou Camaon Beach and Manzanita (a 90-minute drive via U.S. 26) From downtown Pordand, U.S. 26 leads west over the dramatic Coast Mountains to northern Oregon’s spectacular and relatively macrowded coast, a highlight of which is dapper Cannon Beach, a low-keyed munity set along a striking stretch of beach. Quite a few gays and lesbians (including Pordand-based filmmaker Gus Van Zant) own or rent summer homes here or in nearby beach towns, such as funk)" Manzauita and upscale Gearhart. The quieter south end of Cannon Beach. known as Tolovana Park. has a slightly more artsy feel. Here you might spend the night at the delightful Inn at Cannon Beach, a tasteful complex of contemporar5 two-srory cottages that open around a central courtyard with fragrant flower gardens and Adirondack chairs. Itk steps from the beach, and next door to’the Warren House Pub. a casual, gay-friendly spot that brews its own excellent beer and serves tast7 comfort food, such as grilled pankocrusted oysters, and house-smoked-salmon salad 20 f~eSTAR gene. Here scene of any Oregon city with parks ~nd ri~:e vci~ opportunities for recreation. A attraction is the Owen Ros~ Garden, where more than d Nearb); a former chicken-processing plant houses the Fifth Street Market, now a complex of fascinati~ shops and enticing restaurants, mclu&ng one of the regions best dining choices, Marche. Here you can ry such memorable fare as 0yen-roasted local mussels with a saffron-cream, and smoked pork chops with rhubarb chum~ From April through De~emher, check out the neaiby Saturday Market, Where ente~iners pei~form and close to 200 artisans, farmers, and cooks sell their wares. www.ozarksstar.com �OAXACA RESTAURANT Sed0na, Arizona Pronounced (Wa-ha&a) this Mexican restaurant in Sedona offers exciting food. With breath-taking scenery and beautiful views from their rooftop cantina, Oaxaca has earned it’s title "Local Secret/Big Find" by Travelocity.com. Tnis old world stTle Mexican restaurant is located in Uptown Sedona and offers casual dining with an extensive menu with a taste of every palate. Carl Butler, the owner and a registered dietitian has created a delicious menu with a healthy approach. Oaxaca serves up heart healthy, reduced fat and low cholesterol recipes which are full of flavo!! Oaxaca serves a wide range of Mexican, Southwest, American and Vegetarian dishes with authentic favorites Such as fajitas and chile rellenos. It is no wonder why people have been dining there for years and years and many people drive out of their way when traveling, just to dine there! You certainly will have a wonderful dining experience, enjoying the exciting flavors of their food and looking at the fabulous mountain scenery. q-hey are open daily: 10:30 AM to 9 PM. Happy hour: 3 PM to 6 PM. Breakfast buffet: Saturday and Sunday: 8:00 AiM to 10:30 AM. q-hey are located at 321 North Highway 89A in Sedona, Arizona. .............................. CHILE RELLENOS Next Page theSTAR 21 �di i g° New art exhibit feat rOkEq Cdebrates ing artist Dennis Olson Ca i£ornia Ru ing £or at the Dennis Ro Neill Marriage Equa ity Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) - May 15, 2008 __ Today, in a 4-3 decision, the California State Supreme Court ruled in favor of full marriage equality for same-sex couples. The decision follows lawsuits by fifteen couples who challenged the constitutionality of the state’s marriage ban. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 5-9pm, Thursday, June 5, 2008, for the opening of their June exhibit, paintings by Oklahoma City resident Dennis Olson. This event will correlate with the onenight-only Tulsa Pride "More Color" art show featuring works by sixty artists. Dennis Olson’s exhibit will remain up through the month of June, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Imsbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Quotable Quotes "I respect the Court’s decision and as Governor, I will uphold its ruling. Also, as I have said in the past, I will not support an amendment to the constitution that would overturn this state Supreme Court ruling." California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger: 22 theSTAR "This historic decision is a victory for fairness and opportunity for hundreds of thousands of loving, committed couples and their families in California," said Justice Waidner, Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director. "We continue to work and hope for the day when families in every state have the basic protections that come with marriage." A growing number of states provide recognition of same-sex relationships. Including California, eight states plus the District of Columbia allow couples to marry or confer rights and benefits similar to marriage. However, the Defense of Marriage Act still prohibits the Federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages approved in individual states. In November, Californians vote on a ballot initiative to amend the state constitution by defining marriage as between one man and one woman. If passed, this constitutional amendment would overturn the California Supreme Court’s ruling. "Many Americans believe that marriage equality will be a reality in their lifetimes," noted Waidner. "Organizations in every corner of this country are working hard to achieve the kanerican dream of equality and justice for all. We are all inspired by the California marriage decision and look forward to the day when every American in every state and territory will have the opportunity to realize their hopes and dreams by marrying the person they love." w~v.ozarksstar.com �Sound of Music Headlines Lyric’s 2008 Stammer Season OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Tickets for Lyric Theatre’s 2008 summer season of musicals are now on sale. Lyric "Iheatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, proudly continues its 46-year tradition of producing stellar Broadway-style shows for the people of Oklahoma. Lyric’s four summer season productions will be held at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oklahoma City. From June 24th through 28th, Lyric will open the season with The Sound of Music, presented for the first time on the Civic Center stage. This timeless Rodgers & Hammerstein family classic tells the story of Maria, a young, spirited, would-be nun who is appointed as governess for the seven children of a widowed sea captain. Lyric’s next production, Swing!, will run from July 8th through 12th. Swing! is a celebration of the music and dance phenomenon that swept the nation in the ’30s and ’40s. This all-singing, all-dancing evening of music features over thirty incredible numbers guaranteed to put audiences "in the mood!" Lyric will bring a beloved movie musical to the stage from July 22nd through 26th. Set in Oregon in 1850, Seven Brides For Seven Brothers is the fresh, wholesome tale of Adam Pontipee and his unkempt, burly brothers who kidnap six townswomen for the winter in hopes of finding love and companionship. Their well-meaning, but hilarious shenanigans of courtship are played out in boisterous song and dance. Seven Brides For Seven Brothers will feature Broadway performers Elisa Van Duyne as Milly and Jim Sorensen as Adam. (rated G) Concluding Lyric’s 2008 summer season is a modern musical hit, Urinetown, the Musical, fresh off the Broadway stage. The title might give off the impression that the play is about nothing more than a town that indulges itself in bathroom related humor. In reality, Urinetown, the Musical, written by Greg Kotis, a New York playwright who specializes in socially relevant comedies, is a hilarious melodrama about a town plagued by drought. In a mad attempt to regulate ,#cater consumption, the government forces www.ozarksstar.com its citizens to use pay-per-use amenities, monopolized by the Urine Good Company. Urinetown satirizes corporate and political greed, the idealism of rebellion, and also spoofs on the art of musical theatre itself, all set to a score bursting with a big Broadway sound. "Urinetown ~von the 2002 Tony Award for Best Original Score and is lauded on Broadway as one of the smartest, most comical musicals of this century;" explains Nick Demos, Lyric’s Artistic Director. There is nothing offensive about it, other than an unattractive title!" Urinetown plays from August 5th through 9th, and guarantees a unique night of unprecedented laughter. (rated PG) Single tickets to all Civic Center productions start at $27. Four-Show Season Ticket packages are also still available and start at just $80, as are the Three-Show Family Packages which include The Sound of Music, Swing!, and Seven Brides For Seven Brothers. For more info visit www.lyrictheatreokc.com or call (405) 524-9312. TOM KOVACH MAKES HISTORY WINNING A SEAT ON NOR_MAN’S CITY COUNCIL By Victor Gorin NORMAN, OK__ Tom Kovach, an out gay Democrat was elected to the Norman City Council representing Ward 2 in a runoff against political consultant Chebon Marshall. The race began running against 2 opponents, Mr. Marshall and Michael McKee. Although Chebon Marshall got the most votes, he did not get a majority of the total votes. Mr. Kovach was in second place, so as per Oklahoma election law, this resulted in a runoff election. Although vastly outspent, Mr. Kovach made up for this with hard work and determination, and making known his stands on issues to make the city better. As he puts it, " Throughout the campaign we stuck mainly to the issues, which were mainly public safety and storm water." His efforts won the endorsement of both the Sierra Club and the Norman Homeowner’s Alliance. Photo: Tom Kovach by Victor Gorin designed to turn conservative voters against him close to the election named him as endorsed by the Stonewall Democrats ( explaining for those who didn’t know that it was a gay rights organization within the Democratic Party), and a member of the American Civil Liberties Union (both true). Despite this distraction from the issues, his sincerity and practical message carried him to victory. He has lived in Norman over 40 years, much of that in Ward 2. His partner of over 10 years, Will Weir, is also an activist volunteer with the Oklahoma Department of Corrections, P-Flag, GLSEN, and helping people with disabilities. Mr. Weir won Norman’s Human Pdghts Award in 2007. Tom made history being Oklahoma’s 3rd openly gay elected public official The last 2 were Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey (Democrat District 88, elected 2006) and Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth (Democrat District 1, first elected 2002). The first was Dr. David also elected to the Norman City Council in 2001, who Tom remembers as "Someone who stood up for many issues which are now being considered by a more progressive city council, and we owe a lot to him" As for his future he is optimistic, stating that" I have been active in the city, spe~ng before the city council many times. N~ey know me well, and I think we have a good working relationship. I look forward to working with the seasoned members of the council, and look forward to working with Mayor (Cindy) Rosenthal." There was rumor mongering about his sexual orientation, and a literature drop {:h®$TAR 23 �Photo’s by Victor G. & Jud / G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Steve’s Hideawa t, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �By Greg Steele Club Rachael n downtown Jade Esteban portraying his one man play Inns III, The Gay and Lesbian History of the Wodd at OKC’s Indiv dual Artists of Oklahoma Gallery Laura Belmonte, President Oklahomans for Equality and OKC Pride Publicity Coordinator Michael Cich at the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit hosted by Cimarron Alliance Oklahoma ( Reverend Lo rce his friend Alex with their friends at May P-Flag Meeting. www.ozarksstar.com Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Male Co-Chair Paul Thompson Gay ’Star Trek’ actor George Takei is to marry his partner Brad Altman in California congratulates Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards on her ordination as a UCC minister at Church of the Open Arms. ~ �Swimsuit C01tect 0n Men From Mensuas _Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men fiaturing swimwear by Bask#, Mensuas, IV2N Bodywear and Timoteo. Jvat in time for sumrne~ these new swimsuits are great for t,6e beach or laying by the i)ool. TAMPA, FL 0)RWEB) __ Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men featuring swimsuits by Baskit, Mensuas, N2N Bodyxvear and Timoteo. Just in time for summer, these nexv sxvimsuits are great for the beach or laying by the pool Timeoteo Swim Bikini Mensuas has carried N2N Bod),wear swimsuits for several years. The N2N Bodywear 2008 Sxvimsuits include the Catalina Competitor, Corona Competitor, Cosmo Competitor and the X-Poser. The new and daring designs xvill sure to get you noticed at the beach. Mensuas has team up xvith Tulio to create the exciting nexv Mensua~ Swim Bikini in four new styles for 2008. Modeled by Levi Poulter, these unique swimsuit designs represent a bold and exciting trend in mens sxvimxvear. Mensuas new operations center is located in the suburbs of Tampa, F1. 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All orders received by 3:00 PM EST are shipped the same business day by USPS regular mail. All items shipped from Mensuas are tracked from the Post Office to ensure customers packages can be traced in case of lost or mishandled pack Mensuas Swim Bikini Timeoteo Swim Bikini 26 t~~eSTAR California Muscle Dolce Swim Brief www.ozarksstar.com �Judy Shepard, executive director of the Foundation, said, "Wearing the Erase Hate pendant is a great way for people to express how they feel and promote the values of understanding, compassion and acceptance that were so important to Matthew," Adding, "It has been ten years since the death of my son. Although we can not replace Matthew, we can join together to help spread the message of erasing hate." K ight will i;i M tthew hepard Foundation ~ h~i~ kick off National GayPride month with a symbolic dusk commitment ceremony at the faamed West Hollywood hotspot, The Abbey. At 8pm, couples from aroufid the nation will "tie the knot" in an event officiated by the Mayor of West Holly~vood and witnessed by Judy Shepard. Couples will be wearing the Matthew Shepard Erase Hate pendant courtesy of Love and Pride jewehy designer, Udi Behr. Love and Pride is the first online jewelry destination for people who believe in equality, diversity and tolerance for all. www.!oveandpride.com Behr created the Erase Hate pendant for Judy Shepard, in memory of her son, Matthew Shepard, who was the victim of a brutal anti-gay hate crime in rural Wyoming ten years ago. His murder brought national attention to the issue of hate crime legislation and was a watershed moment in the fight for gay civil rights. Behr remarks, "A public commitment ceremony is a great way to join together and strengthen our two messages; ’Celebrating Love’ and ’Erasing Hate.’" 100% of net proceeds from sales of the pendant assist the Matthew Shepard Foundation. v~’~v.ozarkssta r.com The parade lineup will start at 10 AM on Meadow Street, next to the Arvest Bank. Parade will start promptly at 12 Noon. A brief Pride rally will be held at the end of the parade in the V/alton Arts Center Parking Lot. Mayor Jeffrey Prang comments, "The City of West Hollywood supports marriage equality and continues to work hard for changes in California law." Adding, "We will not stop fighting for our rights as no government can prevent us from loving whom we choose." For more details, float and or speaker applications, please go to NWA Pride’s web site at www.nwapride.org. Volunteers still needed! World renowned recording artist Steve Oliver will perform the classic ceremonial march Pachelbel Canon in D major. "A Star Studded Night" Gala in Fayettevillle CEREMONY REGISTRATION FORM: www.MatthewShepard.org/GetMarried WEST HOLL,,~Y~VO,OD, CA (,P,R) __ On June 4, 2008i !G)~atomy star T.R. bicycles, vehicles and especially this election year, proudly wave rainbow and American flags. PRIDE PARADE OF NW" ARKANSAS FAYETTEVILLE AR (PR) __ NWA PRIDE announces the 2nd Annual NWA PRIDE PARADE, A Celebration of Diversity and Community, will be held on Saturday, June 28, 2008 in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Parade organizers invite GLBTs aald Straight allies to come together in solidarity in support of equal rights for all. It is NWA Pride’s great pleasure to honor Chris Harmon as this year’s Grand Marshal. Chris has been an unsung hero as founder of the NWA POSITIVE LINKS BUDDY PROGRAM and is currently a board member of the NWA GLBT Community Center. The Buddy Program provides information and much needed peer-to-peer support for people living with HIV and AIDS. Chris and Program volunteers maintain a food bank, make personal visits, help with chores, transportation and provide many other resources for 1Mng a positive life. Parade participants and spectators are encouraged to be artistic, have fun and show your pride. (Kid friendly and appropriate for public locations) Paint your face, wear costumes, dress up your pets, horses, FAYETTEVILLE, AR (PR) __ The NXX/A GLBT Community Center will host their 2nd Annual Fund Raising Gala "A Star Studded Night" on Friday, June 27 at the Clarion Inn located at 1255 S. Shiloh Drive in Fayetteville. The Ball Room ~vill be delightfully decorated resembling the glitz and glamor of a Hollywood party. Gala Guests’ will enjoy the fun and excitement of a "night among the stars" as guests become our Celebrities in an evening filled with great food, dancing and music provided by Dance Enhance Entertainment. The evening will begin with a lavish Prime Rib, Chicken or Vegetarian Buffet entree as well as silent auctions and special speakers which include the Rev. Lowell Grisham of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Shawn Coker the Chairperson of The NWA Diversity Council and Vice President of Diversity Business Practices of Tyson Foods. Throughout the evening guests’ will be casting their vote for the "Star of the Night" Award which will be given to the person who raises the most money through a $1 ballot. Advance tickets for the event are $50 each or $400 per table of 8 and may be purchased on-line at http:/Avww.nwaglbtcc.org or by calling 1-888-361-9222 or in person at Tymythy’s Hair Salon located at 130 E. Poplar St. Suite B in Fayetteville. Tickets will not be available at the door. Doors open at 6 p.m. and a Cash Cocktail bar will be open throughout the night. Formal Attire or Celebrity Costumes are recommended. th÷STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig June 2008 "Take bo~d risks, Aquarius!" Everyone is being just a bit too fabulous for words! Mercury is retrograde, so his alignment with Venus and the Sun is a bit more like a collision of verbosity and overaffected efforts at charm. Mars in Leo is feeding the frenzy. Remember Lucy and Ethel at charm school? It’s that kind of week! ARIES (Narch 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play, but you are atypically given more to talk than action now. Chatty word games and rambling are not usually your style, but go with it for now. Don’t be afraid to look silly. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Buying or tossing out household items could easily be a mistake. Instead try rearranging things and seeing them in a new light. This is a great time to locate problems in domestic finances, but solving them should wait a few weeks. GEMINI (May 2t - Jun.e 20): You’re going to trip over your tongue no matter what you’re talking about. Best to keep it light, nonconfrontational, and all in good humor so you can laugh with your friends over your own malapropisms and faux pas. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 o December 21}): Misunderstandings with your partner actually open new doors that could improve your relationship. Explore new pleasures and possibilities together. If anything seems disappointing, you might want to try again a few weeks later. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Anyone playing around should make regular visits to the clinic. When was your last time? If you have a clean bill of health, you can have a great time practicing any erotic techniques you’d like to develop. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Be creative! Be daring! Take bold risks and be willing to fall down and look utterly ridiculous. A good pratfall can be endearing, helping to improve your partnership orto find a good candidate for one. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You have the housecleaning energy and lack of focus typical of a speed freak. Try to concentrate on one specific task or goal at a time. You’ll soon be dissatisfied with the results, but that’s OK. Housework always needs redoing! CANCER (June 21- Ju~y 22): Hide the plastic, and keep the cash out of reach. Any urge to display your good taste is best done as tasteful restraint - and no, that doesn’t mean buying handcuffs that match the bedposts! Take time out with someone you value most. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Everyone says you look fabulous - and you do! You’re all cranked up, looking and thinking three steps ahead, but are you really three steps ahead going in the right direction? Check with friends who care about more than looking fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Someone behind the scenes offers to help you up the ladder. Some secrets may be revealed in the process, but that can also work in your favor. Everyone’s screwing up some these days, but your mistakes - and the way you handle them - look good! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You could charm anyone into believing your stories and arguments, even if they contain mistakes. Leave room for later revisions! Better just to radiate charm and energy; save the important facts for later. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Seems everybody wants a taste of what you’ve got! If you do play around, none of it will be secret. You could get a reputation as a great lover, but what would your boss and your partner say? METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com �Support those who support us. DOWNTOWN PLAZA of TULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5898 www.downtownplazatulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESS\VAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS P. O. BOX 3158 Eure "ka Springs, AR 72631 479-253-2555 www.diversitypride.com EXPRESSIONS Comm Fellowshi 311 S Klein Ave Oklahoma City, OK 73108 405-761-1878 www.myspace.com/expressionsokc HOPE TESTING CLINIC 3540 E. 31st Tulsa, OK 800-535-2437 Oklahoma’s HIV/STD Hotline KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747~5466 Certified Public Accountant ANGLES 2117 NW 39th St. Oklahoma City, OK www.anglesclub.com BAMBOO LOUNGE 7204 E. PINE Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 www.bambooloungetulsa.com CLUB MAJESTIC 124 N. 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We support the full inclusion of gay and lesbian families in the life of our nation and seek equal responsibilities, benefits and protections for these families. Taken from current platforms of the Republican and Democratic parties of Oklahoma. �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document ~nty one years ago was a world that many young people never k~ew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) ride ~ganizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. Nate Black, one of the co-chairs says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the Pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 will be just as incredible of a celebration as ever. Spanning over two weeks, with an event almost every evening, Tulsa Pride 2008 has something for everyone. "There will be some differences, but the spirit of the celebration is the same. It is still going to be a joyful, invigorating experience that xvill spark the same sense of pride and freedom in our community," Tutso PI IDE ?008 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com walk or drag yourselfto Tulsa Pride 2008 By Joey De It may not look the same, but organizers promise that Tulsa Pride 2008 is a series of events you won’t want to miss. "We have our three anchor events: the gala, the parade and block party, and the picnic," explains Pride co-chair Nate Black. "There ~vill be some differences from the past, but the spirit ofTulsa Pride is as vibrant as ever." Here is a brief look at the events ofTulsa Pride 2008. For a complete listing, maps and details, visit www.tulsapride.org May 30 - "Sisters in Song" concert at All Souls Unitarian Church. May 31- Wear your rainbow attire and enjoy a day at America’s favorite zoo with your friends and family. Tnat night, join the Equality Gala and celebrate the GLBT community at Cain’s Ballroom. Jun. 1 - Rev. Barney McLaughlin and members ofTulsa’s faith community will be hosting "Spiritual Equality," an interfaith service at Bethany Christian Church. Jun. 2 - Join PFLAG at the Circle Cinema for a free screening of "Anyone and Everyone," a film about families struggling to accept their GLBT youth. Jun. 4 - Cheer the Drillers to victory and enjoy an old-fashioned ballpark picnic. Tickets must be bought in advance. That evening, Lochran Theatre’s "He&vig and the Angry Inch," opens. The show will play at various locations through the 15th. Jun. 5 - Enjoy the works of 60 artists at "More Color," a one-night ex~hibition at the Equality Center. Jun. 6 - Open Arms Youth Project Fashion Show. Jun. 7 - Dine at the OkEq Family Taco Dinner benefiting PFLAG, then join the Pride Parade and Block Party, with two stages of entertainment. Youth Services ofTulsa will be hosting a concert in their Coffee House for those under 21 and child care will be available for those under 12 at the Equality Center. Jun. 8 - Texas Hold’era at the Equality Center. Jun. 10 - Leather and Fetish fashion show at the Equality Center. Jun. 11 - Join the "Gender Avengers" for an evening of monologues and plays addressing transgender issues. Jun. 12 - Learn about raising kids in a diverse world at the Downtown Library. Speakers will be available and books attacked for their "inappropriate" messages will be displayed. Jun. 13 - Screen "The ~A’ Word," a film with no audio or subtitles, about 10 deaf lesbians. Jun. 14 - Walce up early for the YST fun run before the Equality Festival at Centennial Park on 6th and Peoria! www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 OKC P DE EEKEND AN EVENT TRULY ’COMING OF AGE" By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It can be hard to fathom, but OKC Pride is now 21. Had the event been a child born 21 years ago, that person would now be ready to legally enjoy the bars. Instead a spirit of human determination was born in rocky Oklahoma soil, with the joyful trappings that come with living in the Bible Belt’s buckle, q-his beginning came to Oklahoma through the brave organization of about a dozen people. As Paul Thompson recAls, "We didfft know if there wotdd be 10 people marching or a hundred." The Ku Klux Klan had promised to meet the marchers when they came over the N.W. 39th Street hill with hostile confrontation. When around 400 marchers came over the hill, the Klansmen waiting in Safeway’s (now Homeland) parking lot promptly left the scene, and a proud tradition began. It was a world that many young people never knew or could comprehend. No openly gay person had been elected to public office in Oklahoma. Organizations advocating equality for GLBT Oklahomans were few and far less influential. Only 3 years earlier our Oklahoma Legislature had passed legislation (later ruled unconstitutional by the Federal court system) that would prohibit a public school teacher from even making a positive statement about the GLBT community in a classroom. Equality for GLBT people was hardly discussed, and gay marriage even more remote. Politicians could (and did) make hateful statements about our community without any fear that someone would challenge their remarks. (sorry Sally, you came along too late) Today the Pride Festival and Parade truly showcases the theme by showing how far we’ve come. Festival booths not only feature openly gay public office holders (now even on the State level with the appointment of Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth), but also gay political organizations of Democrats and Republicans, as well as straight politicians & parties who are proud to speak out for us and seek our vote. Social organizations (from rodeo to softball), and religious groups bring us all together in glamorous diversity. There are countless more business organizations proud to seek out the gay community to make a buck. Last but not least, nothing compares to the mosaic of the GLBT community and their friends, people from all walks of life together in Pride. EVENTS: June 14 Saturday OKC Pride at the Zoo 10 a.m. until 5 p.m. For the first time there will be a gay day at the Oklahoma City Zoo. It will be a great way to begin the week’s festivities with family and/or friends. There is information about a special reduced rate inside every OKC Pride Participation Packet, so come out, enjoy the day and wish the animals a good week too! June 15 Sunday OKC Pride Day ofWorship Cathedral of Hope & Church of the Open Arms ( both UCC) will be planning special worship celebrations to commemorate Pride Week. Ifyou have felt left out or excluded from worship, these churches are ready to welcome you just as you are. June 20- OKC Pride Parade Now moved to Friday evening stepping off at 7 p.m. the route is unchanged. Beginning at Memorial Park ( N.W. 36th & Classen) it proceeds north on Classen two blocks north ofN.W. 39th Street, turns around on Classen and then proceeds west on N.W. 39th. Our Grand Marshall will be Joe Salmonese, the chair of the national Human Rights Campaign. Preceding the Parade will be a Strip Show ( signifying the N.W. 39th Street Strip) featuring some of our wildest and finest entertainers. Then the crowd cheers on as the parade’s first arrivals enjoy the finest climax ever enjoyed at any event. As the Parade concludes those in the mood will be ready to party, giving new meaning to a wild weekend while remembering how Pride brings us together. June 21- 22 OKC Pride Festival Still at Oklahoma Cit)?s Memorial Park at N.W. "36th & Classen, the Festival will run from noon until 10 p.m. Saturday June 21, and from noon until 5 p.m. June 22 Sunday. There will be many booths featuring organizations you can learn from or even consider joining, as well as endless types of merchandise. There will be entertainment as well Following the Festival conclusion at 5 p.m. Sunday, Church of the Open Arms has their Annual Pride Ice Cream Social, which will featuring the Therapy Sisters in concert. There’s no better way to cool off, enjoy the fun & music and recap the xveekend. This is an event you don’t want to miss, it’s there for all of us. For more infornaation pick up a Pride Guide at your favorite clubs, " or check out the website at wwv.okcpride. com DBAT Celebrates Pride by Hosting a Diversity Job Fair TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Diversity Business Association ofTulsa (DBAT), a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is hosting a Diversity Job Fair on June 13th from 12:00pm to 4:00pm. The event, being held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Downtown Tulsa, will bring together lgbt job seekers and lgbt-friendly employers in a safe and comfortable environment, allowing for open dialogue and alleviating fears of discrimination. The Diversity Job Fair offers a unique opportunity for diversity-conscious employers to access the wealth of skilled and talented members of the lgbt community. Additionally, job seekers are given an unprecedented connection to companies that are lgbtfriendly. F~r more information or if your company is interested in participating in the job fair, contact Susan Hartman at dbat@okeq.org or call 918-698-2977. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 By David Benkof Should gay-rights advances be put on hold until all LGBT people can be included? On this question, the position held by the most prominent voices in the gay community is so inconsistent it borders on incoherent. Last year, most leading gay-rights organizations rejected the advice of congressional experts including Rep. Barney Frank (DMass.) and pushed for an unlikely-to-pass version of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) that included gender identity. \Vc~hen the broader bill was replaced with an ENDA that covered only sexual orientation, hundreds of gay and lesbian groups lobbied Congress to vote "no" on what was the most important piece of gayrights legislation in a decade. Indeed, seven Democrats who had previously been reliable votes for pro-gay bills opposed ENDA because it did not include protections for transgender people. LGBT activists defended this stance in a variety of ways, but the basic argument xvas that no part of the community should gain civil rights at the expense of other parts. Of course, had that been the approach of voting-rights activists after the Civil War, African-Americans would have forfeited the vote until women gained suffrage a halfcentury later - and they, in turn, may have been asked to wait for the passage of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 before gaining the right to vote. In any event, supporters ofwhat became known as "United ENDA" characterized their position as a principled one, believing that LGB rights without T rights were worse than no rights at all, and that (Evita show tune be damned) politics is not "the art of the possible." This pose is simply unsustainable, as an examination of transgender military inclusion shows. The Web sites of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force; the Human Rights Campaign; Parents, Friends, and Families of Lesbians and Gays; and many other groups advocate for an ENDA that includes gender identity, but the T is glaringly missing when it comes to military issues. ~nese organizations push for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals to serve openly in the armed forces, but don’t lobby on behalf of transgender people who want to serve their country. They certainly don’t insist that any repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" (DADT) be linked to equality for transgender servicemembers. There are only three ways LGBT organizations can react to this imbalance with any sort of integrity: One, they could refuse to support the repeal ofDADT unless it is accompanied by a new policy that prohibits the military from discriminating on the basis of gender identity. Two, they could admit that their ENDA strategy was wrong and agree to accept an LGB-only workplace bill until such time as the votes are there to pass a more inclusive ENDA. Three, they could articulate pub!icly and precisely why discrimination against transgender people in the military is more legitimate than private-sector discrimination against them - and why it is more legitimate than discrimination against lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals in the military. I would certainly prefer the second solution, but I could respect the other two approaches. My hunch, though, is that none of these stances will be adopted. The status quo is strong evidence that the "United ENDA" stance is not primarily about political principles. It’s about the internal power dynamics in the LGBT community, which have caused gay leaders to draw the line at an inclusive ENDA. No such mobilization has taken place over transgender people in the military, so there has been no perceived need for an ultimatum on that issue. Yet. David Benkofwas a longtime gay columnist, historian, and entrepreneur (as David Bianco). He is openly bisexual, but as an OrthodoxJew he is guided byJewish law in the areas ofsexvtality andfamily life. He can be reached at DavidBenkof@aol.com. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com F~E BEER & HOT DO~ For a Family’s Dinner brought by the neighbors after the Death of Bettsie. Be sure to look on the bottom ofthe dish to see what neighbor brought it! Original Mo~,ie will be shown @ 7 pm dUl-h’~g dim-let. Ist Eplsede of Series will be shown immediately fo!!o~d.ug $10 D~nat~n to OG~,A inc]ludes ~nner ~$1GNING Meet and Greet Leslie Jordan - From Sordid Lives, Will & Grace My Trip Down The :PINK CARPET www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 @ Coming of e ~ulsa PRIDE ar~ 2008 ONE NIGHT ONLY ThuP~day, June 5, 2008, 5:G0prn to 9:0~m atthe Dennis R. Nell Equali~ C~nt~r, Corner of 4th and Keno~, dov~ov,~ Tuls~ the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Directed by David Gatigan Oklahoma City June 8, 2008 at 8pro wv~v.ozarksstar.com the 8TAP, 9 interview Interview by Victor Gorin eslie Jordan arrived in this world during 1955 in the Heartland of the Bible Belt, born and grown up in Chattanooga,Tennessee.. AI- [ho@ ~rowing up was ~ostly nor easy, he made le~nonade o[it of lemons and marie his experiences work for him, taking a bus to HoIly~ vood and never looking back. His credits are coundess, with app~ces on TV shows too numerous m mention them but in~ih&ag Reba and Will and Grace(which garnered him an E . Re is an accomplished playwright with his first success Like a Dog on Linoleum" followed by Hysterical B redness and other Southern Tragedies. Among his film successes i~’thd camp} dassic ’Sordid I[ives" (where he portrayed the drag que~ Brother Boy), which will be a n~w~series o£ LOGO ~ningJuly 23. His new book, "My, Trip down the P~~t:’ is 7h~ Slory of his life with his @s dd downs, tragedies, ~ es and tri~phs, and the story o~a flamboyant ~who has ~yfound hirrisel£ He is portr~iying his life ~lSo in a one man play of the same title in Olda~oma ~it~ June 8, for this is a must re~d and a must see. He shares his thoug~is with~E LESHE: Well I v,~as the Pips Printing guy, and t also was the elevator operator that took people to Ha~bu}ger Hell in a Taco Bel! co~ercial, i was the ~h~ck Full of Nuts coit~e boy, a]l kinds of commercials. ~ ~ ~ 10 the,STAR www.ozarksstar.com ma$~e that possible. ~CTOR~ g,q~.en does your new book COme *utJune 3~ and Iamso which is Ga~ ~cOholigm and RddiC’ : are some gay" activists wh6 feei that fl~bSya~t gay characters in the ueenS hinder the s{~u~le answer to Ilow iS tr~sggn: : and see me, I promise the STAR tl Dracula ofFree Speech, Kirk Humphreys, Pdses From the Po litica Grave by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY) Just as the mythic Dracula ofTransylvania came back from the dead to spread horror among the peasants, so has the flesh-and-blood Kirk Humphreys come back from the politically dead to fling his homophobic horror in the hall~ of Oklahoma City’s public schools. Reborn in the blood of his religion and bred in the desiccated dessert of intolerance, Kirk Humphreys was recently appointed by the Oklahoma City School Board to fill the position of chair until an election is held in February, 2009. Coming above ground with his first public election to the Putnam City school Board in 1987, he rose to bigger things as mayor ofOKC in 1998. He resigned during his second term to run for U. S. Senate which he lost to Dr. Tom Coburn, 25% to 61%. Settling back into his businessman’s grave of multiple real estate dealings, one would have thought that we had heard the last of Mr. Humphreys. So why the concern regarding his reappearance? During his time as Mayor of OKC, he was the driving force behind the 2001 attempt to prevent Cimarron Alliance, a GLBT advocacy group, from exercising their First Amendment right to free speech with the display of banners promoting gay/lesbian equality. However, the shining light of Federal District Court Judge Robin Cauthron, exorcised the demon of Humphreys and as she ruled in favor of Cimarron Alliance and enjoined the City Council from interfering with Cimarron’s banner display on the utility poles. Hitherto the sacred utility poles had been the exclusive marketplace for hetero organizations such as the Chamber of Commerce, rodeos, and other civic clubs. Did I mention the earlier "Tin Drum" video law suit? 12 the STAR In 1997, a fundamentalist censorship group ponied up with an Oklahoma County judge willing to make an informal ruling that the "Tin Drum" was child pornography and that copies of it could be seized in Oklahoma County wherever it could be found whether in private homes or public libraries. Despite the facts that the film had been released in 1979, received major film awards, and not anyone prior to Humphreys had made a legal claim of obscenity against the film, Humphreys again smelled blood and was hot on the trail ofwhat he thought would surely be a victory for fundamentalist decency. ~hinking that the cross of his religion would trump all blasphemers and dissolve the First and Fourth Amendments he encouraged the court case to proceed. Federal District Court Judge Ralph ~hompson, however, found that the film is not child pornography, and went on to criticize that the County Judge, Richard Freeman, had made a serious error in judgment pertaining to what constitutes pornography and allowing the OKC police, carte blanche, to search homes and businesses without a warrant. Both of the lost lawsuits backed by Kirk Humphreys cost hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars in expenses and attorney fees which resulted in higher property taxes. ¯hough the "Tin Drum" adventure was publicly lead by former District Attorney Bob Macy, as mayor and the boss of the OKC police chief, I feel that Humphreys was certainly in the loop and should have had more sense and better advise in calling off the figurative police dogs. If the past is prologue, I think we can expect some more Humphreys hauntings at the expense of the Oklahoma City taxpayers. It’s been shown that the Constitution, its Bill of Rights, and especially the First Amendment, if applied in time, can counter the poisonous vapors that waft from Humphreys. Wockner News Service Congress’ highest-ranking vet calls f.or DADT repeal WASHINGTON, DC __ U.S. Rep. Joe Sestak, D-Pa., whose military rank was the highest of any veteran now in Congress, has urged fellow lawmakers to join him in repealing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy that bars open gays from the military. Sestak, a three-star admiral who spent 31 years in the Navy, is one of 17 congressional veterans co-sponsoring the repeal bill. "It is easy for me to see why Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell should be repealed," Sestak said May 3. "Once you have served in war and faced danger with a gay service member, how can you come home and say gay people should not enjoy equal rights?" Sestak’s comments came at the Equality Forum, an annual GLBT conference and festival in Philadelphia. The Military Readiness Enhancement Act (H.R. 1246), which would repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and allow GLB personnel to serve openly, has 142 co-sponsors in total. "Veterans like Adm. Sestak, who have dedicated their lives to serving this country, are leading the movement in Congress to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," said Aubrey Sarvis of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. "These lawmakers agree with senior military officers, including former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff:John Shalikashvili and retired Army Maj. Gen. Vance Coleman, that when it comes to defusing IEDs, tending to injured troops, deciphering enemy codes and flying reconnaissance missions -- sexual orientation is irrelevant. Seventy-nine percent of the American people agree with them and it is time that Congress finally repeal this law." Carly Simon: ’I don’t consider myself"to be not gay In an interview published May 1 in the San Francisco gay weeldy Bay Area Reporter, ’70s pop-music legend Carly Simon said, "I don’t consider myself to be not gay." The double-negative quasi-coming-out occurred when interviewer Gregg Shapiro inquired: "After speaking with you this morning, I’m going to be interviewing Cyndi Lauper regarding her True Colors tour, which features gay and straight artists performing to raise money for the Human Rights Campaign and other LGBT organizations. I’m wondering if Cyndi called you and asked you to be a part of the True Colors tour, might you get involved?" Simon replied: "Well, the part that I could be involved in is the gay and lesbian part. The part that would be hard for me is to commit to a tour because I’m not very comfortable being onstage. But the part that would be easiest for me would be singing on behalf of all of us. I don’t consider myself to be not gay." Shapiro responded: "Wow! Well, it’s great to have you as part of the family." "Thank you!" Simon said. "I mean, I’ve enlarged all of my possibilities. There are a lot of extremely personal stories to tell about that, but we won’t go into that right now. Let’s just say that it just depends upon who I’m with." Attempts to contact Simon through her publicist, record label and MySpace page were unsuccessful as of press time. Frank: Transgender people were terrible lobbyists Openly gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, DMass., says transgender people did a terrible job of lobbying for inclusion in the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act. A version of the measure, known as ENDA, that protects sexual orientation but not gender identity has passed the U.S. House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I’ve never seen a worse job of lobbying done by the transgender community," Frank told the Oregon gay newspaper Just Out in its May 2 issue. "They seem to think that all they had to do was to get the gay and lesbian community to say ’OK.’ I think they thought that this was a train, and that they were a car on the train." "I said to them, ’You’ve got to work this, you’ve got to lobby people.’ They did a terrible job of lobbying, and so we didn’t have the votes," Frank said. First ot3enlv Illinois legislator dle Larry McKeon, Illinois’ first openly gay and first openly HIV-positive state legislator, died May 13 of a severe stroke. He was 63. McKeon represented a district of Chicago’s North Side in the state House of Representatives from 1997 to 2007. An Army veteran and former cop, McKeon also served as Mayor Richard M. Daley’s liaison to the GLBT community prior to his election to public office. McKeon retired last year, citing health issues related to HIV and cancer. ........More U. S. News page 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 recently confessed to the fact that she attracts gays like a moth to a light, hall the men that like me are gay, k’~ ~e. I have a really strong gaydar. I do love gay men though,~ Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres are planning to marD: Ellen has said she is "thrilled" at the r~ing by the California supreme court to overturn the state’s ban on gay marri~e. Alexander Payne "Hung" Up at HBO Oscar-winning screenwriter Alexander Payne (for Sideways, not his litde-usedbut- stilbcredit-getting screer~ptay for I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry) has a new pro’ect9 up his ste~we. And it~ about what’s in one man’s pants. Hung, a comedy pilot on track at HBO, will be Payne’s [IW-directing debut, from a script by Dmitry Lip~n. creator of%e Riches. ~md the subiect matter? What happens when a~l average, middle-aged basketbal! coach learns how to put his exceptionally large’~- penis to better ~e. NO actor has signed on yet to play the gifted guy, but casting is scheduled m begi n soon. If picked up for series, it will be, a; the very least, the first show" of its k5nd. But wi!I there be a Boogie Nights-style revea! shot? Or will it remain a mysteiT? Either way, expect a big deal to made about this one. Holb~voodactress edl3 ship only the closet. of True Co .ors pP g Cyndi LaUper~ colors are brighter than ever. F~li~Wing [tie Success of last year’s landmark tofir, Latimer is back to help the Human Ri~ts Campaign, theS~ue Colors Fund of StOnewall C~r~i-nuni~? Foundation, PFLa~G and the Centertink Network ofBLGT community cemers. Famous for just wanting to have fun, Lau per will be bringing her tour to the Zoo Amphitheater in Oklahoma City on Jun. 23. Joining Cyndi wilt be The B-52s, joan J~tr ~d The Blackhearts, ~mdy Belt of STAR www.ozarksstar.com Foster, 45, is believed to have called offher Erasure. Margaret Cho and Girl tn A Coma. relationship with movie producer Cydney with host Carson r*v~ ressl.ev,.f.or.tic.ket." t.mor- Bernard after a series of arguments. The marion or a full list ofto[,r dates, visit ~~",.~,,, couple were together for 14 years and have truecolorstour corn two children ~x;~om Fosrer g~ve birth to and " " Bernard adopted, according to the British Daily Mail tabloid. Pt~oto by: Bill Gaddis getting hot out. Tulsa’s wonderful sprir~g ,h,as played out. Here are a coupl~ tips I d like {o pass along that may add to your summer enjoyment of vino..F,irstly, for white win~S, you know/get ern ~ld! And as the~e Wines warm up in your glass, the fruit flavors open Up to~. I really like this gradual experience. Many times, we finish a bottle so fast when sharing with friends that we don’t even notice. For red wines, put a chill on ’era as well. NOT too c.o,ld but just cool enough so that you’re not drinking warm glug. Remember, room temperatu~’ e can mean a whole different thing during the summer. Proper stem ware can also make a big difference this time of year. Riedel glasses are among the best althougt~ not recommended poolside. Here are some wines for both red & white lovers. www.ozarksstar.com The fo owing is Calistoga Cellars Chardonnay 2006 This vintage was just released in ket. If you liked the ’05, this will really hit the mark. It’s li beautifully balanced mix of ripe pear and the wine is medium bodied soft finish. A favodte of l visit McGilrs on 21rst St. Vincent Pouilly-Fuisse This Pouilly-Fuisse in several areas belonging to th~ The wine is created by Jean-Jac( celebrated Chateau nette Vincent He blends the well balanced ers are on t finish. I first discovered s wine over at 1740/wine bar on Boston n~ear 18th. This Chardonnay from France i~ quite good. Michel Picard Vouvray This is Chenin Blanc from the Loi of France. Fresh aromas of apricot & on the nose and the finish is fruity and~~ slightly off dry. Enjoy this from with me,is that include shellfish to desserts like apple pies with vanilla ice cream. oak barrels owner of the Made-Antoi- "). make a White flow- Ochoa Garnacha Rose 2006 This Rose wine is made entirely from Grenache grapes. The color of is a result of the short maceration period that helps to maintain the fragrant aromas and fresh flavors. A well structured Spanish wine with plenty of well-rounded fruit and balanced acidity. Food pairings include pasta, salads and vegetables. ut the tannins, these producers make their wines more their youth. This bottle is also affordable and has received high acclaim from wine critics. Serious meat oriented pastas would go well with this wine. Toad Cacophony Zinfandel 2006 This ;I, Hollow Zinfandel comes ~ ppellation where Zinf~ les thdve upon the long h nights. This new offering i~ ~ 20% Petit Sirah. It~!a really great & jammy wine that’s a :e~.for barbecued meats. :i~va/Sparkling wine NV. Th~ rfclude; 50% Macabeo, ~ 15% Xarelolo. This iJwhat you may be used ne or U S sparkling :he Spanish create a : old world version from wine is quite affordable pleasantly surprise you. ~s ~s a good wine to fall back on as you ;lebrate the summer months. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Produtorri del Barbaresco 2004 I had a chance to visit this winery when I was northern Italy. The grape is Nebbiolo and it’s one of the most important wine grape varieties of Italy’s Piedmont region. Flavors of violets, tar, cherries, truffles, tobacco & prunes come to mind. Although ~is.~grape can take years to age and Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/wv,rw.WineSpec~ator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 9t8.585,5898 ® 800.585,5101 West 7th Street (corner 7th & Boulder Ave) ® Tulsa, Ok 74t 19 e www.q plazatulsa.com 16 theSTAR June 2008 TW’s-AFAB Catering by Donald Pile and Ray Williams LUNA VISTA B & B "Morltezuma’s Castle" aJmost knocked us over. At night we saw more stars in the sky than we ever see here in the Midwest. There are fabulous places to visit and there are "beyond Fabulous" places to visit. Luna Vista in Rimrock, Arizona is such a place. Driving out to California on a recent trip we were guests of Kala (pronounced Calla is in Calla Lily) and her husband Frank at their "beyond Fabulous" Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast. Located just about 20 miles southeast of Sedona and just about 3 miles offthe Interstate, this has to be one of the finest and most unusual places that we have been. However to get there you get off the pavement and drive about three miles around curvy hilly, rocky and treacherous gravel and dirt roads to make your arrival. But after arriving, it is ~vorth the trip. After making the last turn you are aghast when you see this place. It is like you have arrived at the Ponderosa! Kala and Frank were residents of the East Coast and after 9111 they decided that it was time for a major move. They purchased the property in Rimrock, remodeled, repaired, built on, put in a swimming pool, Jacuzzi and many more additions and finally opened their new B and B in February, 2004 and it has been an instant success ever since. We stayed in the Don Diego (Zorro) suite. Our bathroom was 18 feet by 20 feet and included our own Jacuzzi. Our shower was 6 feet by 8 feet and included a steam room and a double vanity, bidet and every kind of amenity that you would possibly want. Our linens were 400-threat count Egyptian cotton and of course they were ironed before putting them on the beds! Oh! Did we mention that they have heated towel racks in the bathroom? Each room came with a DVDITFIVHS, CD player, etc. A bottle of wine is in every room for the guests. The grounds are fabulous. They are very pet-friendly and even have a dog run and a horse run should you care to bring your horse. Not into driving? Then use their helicopter pad and fly right in! They serve a full-course breakfast every day and on Sundays’ a full brunch. And we are not talking a muffin and coffee, but a full sit-down breakfast with wanes, breakfast steak, eggs, potatoes, etc. Nothing is left out. Guests have the full run of the house and property including an office where you can check your e-mails and work online if need be. But the most important thing about Luna Vista are the owners, KALA AND FRANK. Nxey genuinely care about their guests and cater to their every need. Tney love life and it shows. In all of our travels, they are the most sincere, heartwarming and friendly people that we have ever met. On our last night there, Kala and Frank hosted a party in our honor and invited severn of their neighbors and area antiques dealers. They fixed enough food for an entire army. Everyone was so interesting in their own way. The woman The moment that Kala opened the door to welcome us in, we I~IEW that we were going in for a big treat and we were! She is dive, animated, professional, entertaining and a great hostess. Frank ALWAYS has a smile on his face and is very excited about everything. Together they make a great team and we know that they will be in the bed and breakfast business for many years. They can’t help it if they were born straight! It happens in the best of families. Everyone is welcome at Luna Vista and we do mean everybody! We stayed there for three days and didn’t even want to go anywhere else. However one day we did drive over to Montezuma’s Castle and on to Montezumgs Lake which was extremely interesting. But the red enjoyment was taking advantage of the Luna Vista B and B and the many amenities it has to offer. It is located on 16 acres and you can take a long hike through the woods and river area. The flowers were blooming everywhere. The sights and aromas Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast 18 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com Luna Vista Bed and Breakfast next door to them bakes fantastic desserts and another neighbor is a spiritual advisor and yet another creams beautiful "cactus" lamps and objects. She presented us xvith one of her creations. The next time you really xvant to get away from everything and truly have a memorable experience, book yoursdf a xveek at the "beyond fabulous" Luna Vista. Their website is: wxvxv.lunavistabandb.com or call 800-611-4788. They have been featured in many travel publications from coast to coast. To get to Rimrock either fly into Flags{aff or Phoenix, rent an auto and drive. That is unless you’re already driving, then just drive on Interstate 17 and take the 293 Exit. We stayed xvith them on a return trip from California and our "beyond fabnlous" experiences continued while staying there. We don’t make many promises, but trust us on this one, we promise that you will have one of the finest and most enjoyable weeks of your life xvith Kala and Frank. Alxvays remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for order blank. Les residents want Wockner News Wire Nxree residents of the Greek island of Lesbos have filed suit in an attempt to reclaim the word "lesbian" and stop the group Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece (OLKE) from using it. Gay women are believed to have adopted the word in memory of Sappho, a poet who lived on the island in the sixth century B.C. and wrote about love between women. The plaintiffs claim the alleged theft of "lesbian" from the island’s residents amounts to "psychological and moral rape." An OLKE spokeswoman called the case "ridiculous" but an Athens court will hear the matter on June 10. Quotable Quotes Cuba’s parliament is studying proposals to legalize same-sex unions and give gay couples the benefits that people in traditional marriages enjoy. "The freedom of sexual choice and gender identity are exercises in equality and social justice," said Mariela Castro, daughter of President Raul Castro,. www.ozarksstar.corn ~}~eSTAR t9 of Town B~ A~&’~w Colli~ W-eekend Getaways from Portland, Oregon Oregon’s Gannon Beach o~rs some ofthe best sunset-viewing on the West Coast. (Photo by Andrew Collins) with a marionberry vinaigreue. For more sophisticated fare, book a table at the Gower Street Bistro, which presents creative regional dishes, such as pan-seared sea scallops with roaste&cre~ corn, eNgplant, and tJancetta. You might spend the mornings in Cannon Beach strolling along the sand, admiring the many geological formations just Offshore, such as the famous, 237-~bot-tall Haystack Rocla Do as locals do and grab a cup ofdelicious java at Sleepy Mgnk C~ff?e Roasters (alofig with £ ~hick sli~e ofch0~latechip pumpkin bread)before you Set Out[ %nture south of Cannori Beach and youll pass throt~ Oswald West S~te Park, which is laced with hiking trails that weave through 01d-gro~f0rest; leading down tO the ~ch. End your day in fianky itS, with its quirlg, cafes and galleri~i perhaps enjoying a glass of Oregon wine at Vino, a snaz~ little Wine bar that also ser~e~ plate~ of delici0u] chkrcuterie and cheeSe. Between Manzanita and CannOn Beach in tiny Arch Cape, the gay-owned Ocean Point Inn comprises three oceanfront suites with chic, contempo~ furnishings, fiatscreen TVs, and gas fireplaces. Guests can enjoy a ~de range oftreatments at the inn’s spa. It’s one of the most romantic accommodations along the coast. I-5} Within 30 miles of Portland, in Oregon’s verdant Willamette Valley; you’ll find some ofthe leading wineries in ~e United States - the area ha~ become especially renowned for iris pinot noirs. Ifyou have only a day to tour the region, focus your efforts a~ound the rural, hilly Yamhill area, home to such esteemed vineyards as Willakenzie, Penner,Ash, and Adelsheim. Just a short drive south, in the Dundee Hills. standouts include Archery Summit, Sokot Blosser, and Domaine Serene. ~ese are among dozens ofwineries with tasting rooms open m the public. Hip and cosmopolitan Portland continues to emerge as a popular urban vacation destination for gay" and lesbian travelers, thanks in part to its stellar restaurant scene, liberal social climate, and artsy personalit~: But another major draw of this charmed city is its proxmaity to so many breathtakingly beautiful places that make perfect two- to three-day getaways. In an afternoon’s drive, you can explore the rugged Oregon Coast, tile lush Willamette Valley wine country, or the high desert outdoor recreation mecca of Bend. Here’s a look at three ideal weekend getaways from the Portland area, all of them centered on communities with an increasing number of gay-owned or gay-friendly accommodations and restaurants. Camaon Beach and Manzanita (a 90-minute drive via U.S. 26) ~Ihis part of the valley abounds with excellent restaurants, too. An intimate spot serving relatively affordable French fare, Cuvee sits along the quiet main drag oftiny Carlton and is a fine place to end a day ofwine-t~asting. Among the several stellar restauvamts in Dundee, check out Tina’s, a bustling bistro that features creative American fare emphasizing ingredients from local r delicious dish is the seared halibut cheeks with diced "Ihere tic and rooms, each with a As vou From downtown Pordand, U.S. 26 leads west over the dramatic Coast Mountains to northern Oregon’s spectacular and relatively macrowded coast, a highlight ofwhich is dapper Cannon Beach, a low-keyed munity set along a striking stretch of beach. Quite a few gays and lesbians (including Pordand-based filmmaker Gus Van Zant) own or rent summer homes here or in nearby beach towns, such as funk)" Manzauita and upscale Gearhart. The quieter south end of Cannon Beach. known as Tolovana Park. has a slightly more artsy feel. Here you might spend the night at the delightful Inn at Cannon Beach, a tasteful complex of contemporar5 two-srory cottages that open around a central courtyard with fragrant flower gardens and Adirondack chairs. Itk steps from the beach, and next door to’the Warren House Pub. a casual, gay-friendly spot that brews its own excellent beer and serves tast7 comfort food, such as grilled pankocrusted oysters, and house-smoked-salmon salad gene. Here scene of any Oregon city with parks ~nd ri~:e vci~ opportunities for recreation. A attraction is the Owen Ros~ Garden, where more than d Nearb); a former chicken-processing plant houses the Fifth Street Market, now a complex of fascinati~ shops and enticing restaurants, mclu&ng one of the regions best dining choices, Marche. Here you can ry such memorable fare as 0yen-roasted local mussels with a saffron-cream, and smoked pork chops with rhubarb chum~ From April through De~emher, check out the neaiby Saturday Market, Where ente~iners pei~form and close to 200 artisans, farmers, and cooks sell their wares. 20 f~eSTAR www.ozarksstar.com OAXACA RESTAURANT Sed0na, Arizona Pronounced (Wa-ha&a) this Mexican restaurant in Sedona offers exciting food. With breath-taking scenery and beautiful views from their rooftop cantina, Oaxaca has earned it’s title "Local Secret/Big Find" by Travelocity.com. Tnis old world stTle Mexican restaurant is located in Uptown Sedona and offers casual dining with an extensive menu with a taste of every palate. Carl Butler, the owner and a registered dietitian has created a delicious menu with a healthy approach. Oaxaca serves up heart healthy, reduced fat and low cholesterol recipes which are full of flavo!! Oaxaca serves a wide range of Mexican, Southwest, American and Vegetarian dishes with authentic favorites Such as fajitas and chile rellenos. It is no wonder why people have been dining there for years and years and many people drive out of their way when traveling, just to dine there! You certainly will have a wonderful dining experience, enjoying the exciting flavors of their food and looking at the fabulous mountain scenery. q-hey are open daily: 10:30 AM to 9 PM. Happy hour: 3 PM to 6 PM. Breakfast buffet: Saturday and Sunday: 8:00 AiM to 10:30 AM. q-hey are located at 321 North Highway 89A in Sedona, Arizona. .............................. CHILE RELLENOS Next Page theSTAR 21 di i g° New art exhibit feat ring artist Dennis Olson at the Dennis Ro Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 5-9pm, Thursday, June 5, 2008, for the opening of their June exhibit, paintings by Oklahoma City resident Dennis Olson. This event will correlate with the onenight- only Tulsa Pride "More Color" art show featuring works by sixty artists. Dennis Olson’s exhibit will remain up through the month ofJune, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-gpm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Imsbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Quotable Quotes "I respect the Court’s decision and as Governor, I will uphold its ruling. Also, as I have said in the past, I will not support an amendment to the constitution that would overturn this state Supreme Court ruling." California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger: OkEq Cdebrates Ca i£ornia Ru ing £or Marriage Equa ity TULSA, OK (PR) - May 15, 2008 __ Today, in a 4-3 decision, the California State Supreme Court ruled in favor of full marriage equality for same-sex couples. The decision follows lawsuits by fifteen couples who challenged the constitutionality of the state’s marriage ban. "This historic decision is a victory for fairness and opportunity for hundreds of thousands of loving, committed couples and their families in California," said Justice Waidner, Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director. "We continue to work and hope for the day when families in every state have the basic protections that come with marriage." A growing number of states provide recognition of same-sex relationships. Including California, eight states plus the District of Columbia allow couples to marry or confer rights and benefits similar to marriage. However, the Defense of Marriage Act still prohibits the Federal government from recognizing same-sex marriages approved in individual states. In November, Californians vote on a ballot initiative to amend the state constitution by defining marriage as between one man and one woman. If passed, this constitutional amendment would overturn the California Supreme Court’s ruling. "Many Americans believe that marriage equality will be a reality in their lifetimes," noted Waidner. "Organizations in every corner of this country are working hard to achieve the kanerican dream of equality and justice for all. We are all inspired by the California marriage decision and look forward to the day when every American in every state and territory will have the opportunity to realize their hopes and dreams by marrying the person they love." 22 theSTAR w~v.ozarksstar.com Sound ofMusic Headlines Lyric’s 2008 Stammer Season OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Tickets for Lyric Theatre’s 2008 summer season of musicals are now on sale. Lyric "Iheatre, Oklahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, proudly continues its 46-year tradition of producing stellar Broadway-style shows for the people of Oklahoma. Lyric’s four summer season productions will be held at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oklahoma City. From June 24th through 28th, Lyric will open the season with The Sound of Music, presented for the first time on the Civic Center stage. This timeless Rodgers & Hammerstein family classic tells the story of Maria, a young, spirited, would-be nun who is appointed as governess for the seven children of a widowed sea captain. Lyric’s next production, Swing!, will run from July 8th through 12th. Swing! is a celebration of the music and dance phenomenon that swept the nation in the ’30s and ’40s. This all-singing, all-dancing evening of music features over thirty incredible numbers guaranteed to put audiences "in the mood!" Lyric will bring a beloved movie musical to the stage from July 22nd through 26th. Set in Oregon in 1850, Seven Brides For Seven Brothers is the fresh, wholesome tale ofAdam Pontipee and his unkempt, burly brothers who kidnap six townswomen for the winter in hopes of finding love and companionship. Their well-meaning, but hilarious shenanigans of courtship are played out in boisterous song and dance. Seven Brides For Seven Brothers will feature Broadway performers Elisa Van Duyne as Milly and Jim Sorensen as Adam. (rated G) Concluding Lyric’s 2008 summer season is a modern musical hit, Urinetown, the Musical, fresh off the Broadway stage. The title might give off the impression that the play is about nothing more than a town that indulges itself in bathroom related humor. In reality, Urinetown, the Musical, written by Greg Kotis, a New York playwright who specializes in socially relevant comedies, is a hilarious melodrama about a town plagued by drought. In a mad attempt to regulate ,#cater consumption, the government forces its citizens to use pay-per-use amenities, monopolized by the Urine Good Company. Urinetown satirizes corporate and political greed, the idealism of rebellion, and also spoofs on the art of musical theatre itself, all set to a score bursting with a big Broadway sound. "Urinetown ~von the 2002 Tony Award for Best Original Score and is lauded on Broadway as one of the smartest, most comical musicals of this century;" explains Nick Demos, Lyric’s Artistic Director. There is nothing offensive about it, other than an unattractive title!" Urinetown plays from August 5th through 9th, and guarantees a unique night of unprecedented laughter. (rated PG) Single tickets to all Civic Center productions start at $27. Four-Show Season Ticket packages are also still available and start at just $80, as are the Three-Show Family Packages which include The Sound of Music, Swing!, and Seven Brides For Seven Brothers. For more info visit www.lyrictheatreokc. com or call (405) 524-9312. TOM KOVACH MAKES HISTORY WINNING A SEAT ON NOR_MAN’S CITY COUNCIL By Victor Gorin NORMAN, OK__ Tom Kovach, an out gay Democrat was elected to the Norman City Council representing Ward 2 in a runoff against political consultant Chebon Marshall. The race began running against 2 opponents, Mr. Marshall and Michael McKee. Although Chebon Marshall got the most votes, he did not get a majority of the total votes. Mr. Kovach was in second place, so as per Oklahoma election law, this resulted in a runoff election. Although vastly outspent, Mr. Kovach made up for this with hard work and determination, and making known his stands on issues to make the city better. As he puts it, " Throughout the campaign we stuck mainly to the issues, which were mainly public safety and storm water." His efforts won the endorsement of both the Sierra Club and the Norman Homeowner’s Alliance. There was rumor mongering about his sexual orientation, and a literature drop Photo: Tom Kovach by Victor Gorin designed to turn conservative voters against him close to the election named him as endorsed by the Stonewall Democrats ( explaining for those who didn’t know that it was a gay rights organization within the Democratic Party), and a member of the American Civil Liberties Union (both true). Despite this distraction from the issues, his sincerity and practical message carried him to victory. He has lived in Norman over 40 years, much of that in Ward 2. His partner of over 10 years, Will Weir, is also an activist volunteer with the Oklahoma Department of Corrections, P-Flag, GLSEN, and helping people with disabilities. Mr. Weir won Norman’s Human Pdghts Award in 2007. Tom made history being Oklahoma’s 3rd openly gay elected public official The last 2 were Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey (Democrat District 88, elected 2006) and Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth (Democrat District 1, first elected 2002). The first was Dr. David also elected to the Norman City Council in 2001, who Tom remembers as "Someone who stood up for many issues which are now being considered by a more progressive city council, and we owe a lot to him" As for his future he is optimistic, stating that" I have been active in the city, spe~ng before the city council many times. N~ey know me well, and I think we have a good working relationship. I look forward to working with the seasoned members of the council, and look forward to working with Mayor (Cindy) Rosenthal." www.ozarksstar.com {:h®$TAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Jud / G. @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideawa t, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City 24 @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City By Greg Steele Club Rachael n downtown Jade Esteban portraying his one man play Inns III, The Gay and Lesbian History of the Wodd at OKC’s Indiv dual Artists of Oklahoma Gallery Laura Belmonte, President Oklahomans for Equality and OKC Pride Publicity Coordinator Michael Cich at the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit hosted by Cimarron Alliance Oklahoma ( Reverend Lo rce his friend Alex with their friends at May P-Flag Meeting. Gay ’Star Trek’ actor George Takei is to marry his partner Brad Altman in California Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Male Co-Chair Paul Thompson congratulates Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards on her ordination as a UCC minister at Church of the Open Arms. www.ozarksstar.com ~ Swimsuit C01tect 0n Men From Mensuas _Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collectionfor Menfiaturing swimwear by Bask#, Mensuas, IV2N Bodywear and Timoteo. Jvat in timefor sumrne~ these new swimsuits are great for t,6e beach or laying by the i)ool. TAMPA, FL 0)RWEB) __ Mensuas announces their 2008 Swimsuit Collection for Men featuring swimsuits by Baskit, Mensuas, N2N Bodyxvear and Timoteo. Just in time for summer, these nexv sxvimsuits are great for the beach or laying by the pool Timeoteo Swim Bikini Mensuas has carried N2N Bod),wear swimsuits for several years. The N2N Bodywear 2008 Sxvimsuits include the Catalina Competitor, Corona Competitor, Cosmo Competitor and the X-Poser. 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At 8pm, couples from aroufid the nation will "tie the knot" in an event officiated by the Mayor ofWest Holly~vood and witnessed by Judy Shepard. Couples will be wearing the Matthew Shepard Erase Hate pendant courtesy of Love and Pride jewehy designer, Udi Behr. Love and Pride is the first online jewelry destination for people who believe in equality, diversity and tolerance for all. www.!oveandpride.com Behr created the Erase Hate pendant for Judy Shepard, in memory of her son, Matthew Shepard, who was the victim of a brutal anti-gay hate crime in rural Wyoming ten years ago. His murder brought national attention to the issue of hate crime legislation and was a watershed moment in the fight for gay civil rights. Behr remarks, "A public commitment ceremony is a great way to join together and strengthen our two messages; ’Celebrating Love’ and ’Erasing Hate.’" 100% of net proceeds from sales of the pendant assist the Matthew Shepard Foundation. v~’~v.ozarksstar.com Judy Shepard, executive director of the Foundation, said, "Wearing the Erase Hate pendant is a great way for people to express how they feel and promote the values of understanding, compassion and acceptance that were so important to Matthew," Adding, "It has been ten years since the death of my son. Although we can not replace Matthew, we can join together to help spread the message of erasing hate." Mayor Jeffrey Prang comments, "The City of West Hollywood supports marriage equality and continues to work hard for changes in California law." Adding, "We will not stop fighting for our rights as no government can prevent us from loving whom we choose." World renowned recording artist Steve Oliver will perform the classic ceremonial march Pachelbel Canon in D major. CEREMONY REGISTRATION FORM: www.MatthewShepard.org/GetMarried PRIDE PARADE OF NW"ARKANSAS FAYETTEVILLE AR (PR) __ NWA PRIDE announces the 2nd Annual NWA PRIDE PARADE, A Celebration of Diversity and Community, will be held on Saturday, June 28, 2008 in Fayetteville, Arkansas. Parade organizers invite GLBTs aald Straight allies to come together in solidarity in support of equal rights for all. It is NWA Pride’s great pleasure to honor Chris Harmon as this year’s Grand Marshal. Chris has been an unsung hero as founder of the NWA POSITIVE LINKS BUDDY PROGRAM and is currently a board member of the NWA GLBT Community Center. The Buddy Program provides information and much needed peer-to-peer support for people living with HIV and AIDS. Chris and Program volunteers maintain a food bank, make personal visits, help with chores, transportation and provide many other resources for 1Mng a positive life. Parade participants and spectators are encouraged to be artistic, have fun and show your pride. (Kid friendly and appropriate for public locations) Paint your face, wear costumes, dress up your pets, horses, bicycles, vehicles and especially this election year, proudly wave rainbow and American flags. The parade lineup will start at 10 AM on Meadow Street, next to the Arvest Bank. Parade will start promptly at 12 Noon. A brief Pride rally will be held at the end of the parade in the V/alton Arts Center Parking Lot. For more details, float and or speaker applications, please go to NWA Pride’s web site at www.nwapride.org. Volunteers still needed! "A Star Studded Night" Gala in Fayettevillle FAYETTEVILLE, AR (PR) __ The NXX/A GLBT Community Center will host their 2nd Annual Fund Raising Gala "A Star Studded Night" on Friday, June 27 at the Clarion Inn located at 1255 S. Shiloh Drive in Fayetteville. The Ball Room ~vill be delightfully decorated resembling the glitz and glamor of a Hollywood party. Gala Guests’ will enjoy the fun and excitement of a "night among the stars" as guests become our Celebrities in an evening filled with great food, dancing and music provided by Dance Enhance Entertainment. The evening will begin with a lavish Prime Rib, Chicken or Vegetarian Buffet entree as well as silent auctions and special speakers which include the Rev. Lowell Grisham of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Shawn Coker the Chairperson ofThe NWA Diversity Council and Vice President of Diversity Business Practices ofTyson Foods. Throughout the evening guests’ will be casting their vote for the "Star of the Night" Award which will be given to the person who raises the most money through a $1 ballot. Advance tickets for the event are $50 each or $400 per table of 8 and may be purchased on-line at http:/Avww.nwaglbtcc.org or by calling 1-888-361-9222 or in person at Tymythy’s Hair Salon located at 130 E. Poplar St. Suite B in Fayetteville. Tickets will not be available at the door. Doors open at 6 p.m. and a Cash Cocktail bar will be open throughout the night. Formal Attire or Celebrity Costumes are recommended. th÷STAR 27 by Jack Fertig June 2008 "Take bo~d risks, Aquarius!" Everyone is being just a bit too fabulous for words! Mercury is retrograde, so his alignment with Venus and the Sun is a bit more like a collision of verbosity and overaffected efforts at charm. Mars in Leo is feeding the frenzy. Remember Lucy and Ethel at charm school? It’s that kind of week! ARIES (Narch 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play, but you are atypically given more to talk than action now. Chatty word games and rambling are not usually your style, but go with it for now. Don’t be afraid to look silly. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Buying or tossing out household items could easily be a mistake. Instead try rearranging things and seeing them in a new light. This is a great time to locate problems in domestic finances, but solving them should wait a few weeks. GEMINI (May 2t - Jun.e 20): You’re going to trip over your tongue no matter what you’re talking about. Best to keep it light, nonconfrontational, and all in good humor so you can laugh with your friends over your own malapropisms and faux pas. CANCER (June 21- Ju~y 22): Hide the plastic, and keep the cash out of reach. Any urge to display your good taste is best done as tasteful restraint - and no, that doesn’t mean buying handcuffs that match the bedposts! Take time out with someone you value most. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Everyone says you look fabulous - and you do! You’re all cranked up, looking and thinking three steps ahead, but are you really three steps ahead going in the right direction? Check with friends who care about more than looking fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Someone behind the scenes offers to help you up the ladder. Some secrets may be revealed in the process, but that can also work in your favor. Everyone’s screwing up some these days, but your mistakes - and the way you handle them - look good! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You could charm anyone into believing your stories and arguments, even if they contain mistakes. Leave room for later revisions! Better just to radiate charm and energy; save the important facts for later. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Seems everybody wants a taste of what you’ve got! If you do play around, none of it will be secret. You could get a reputation as a great lover, but what would your boss and your partner say? SAGITTARIUS (November 22 o December 21}): Misunderstandings with your partner actually open new doors that could improve your relationship. Explore new pleasures and possibilities together. If anything seems disappointing, you might want to try again a few weeks later. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Anyone playing around should make regular visits to the clinic. When was your last time? If you have a clean bill of health, you can have a great time practicing any erotic techniques you’d like to develop. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Be creative! Be daring! Take bold risks and be willing to fall down and look utterly ridiculous. A good pratfall can be endearing, helping to improve your partnership orto find a good candidate for one. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): You have the housecleaning energy and lack of focus typical of a speed freak. 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Title A name given to the resource [2008] The Star Magazine, June 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 6 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 01, 2008 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). 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As Nate put it, their music has been influenced by "the Indigo Girls, Simon & Garfunkel, the Mamas and Papas, and Bach." Their style, if it could be labeled, is a blend of folk, pop and bluegrass best described by Ty as "alt folk" The full house audience consisted mostly of the Blue Door’s regular folk & innovative music fans, but also featured many "Blue Door virgins", and they were not disappointed. This trio, which has previously graced Oklahoma, once opened for the Indigo Girls here in 2004, and was ready to please a capacity crowd even though they admitted they didn’t know what to expect. Masterminded by their soundperson/tour manager Heather "Turtle" Brooks, they blend their talents and insight in a way that has to be heard to be believed. So far they have recorded 3 CD’s, the latest entitled "Joyful Signs." As for their clever name, it was not inspired by the famous California Governor Schwarzenegger who in fact made that "girlyman" expression famous 2 years after the band was formed, although they do welcome the publicity. As Muramutsu puts it, "It’s playful and fun. The name Girlyman puts that all out there and lets us play with it." That they did, and they’ll win over even more new fans xvhen they play Oklahoma again. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 �Art Show by Shawn Wilson.and Merry Schepers. Michael Buble’ in OKC; "It is the ideal portrayal of America," says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in the touring production. ~ DEE[P INSIDE HO~-t-~OOD Deep Inside Hollywood, reports on new projects for Madonna and Ian Ziering. GLBT History, Past Out looks at the life of FTM pioneer Lou Sullivan. Devre Jackson reviews Australian Shiraz Bayou Crawfish Etouffee a feature at Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans ~ C~AO "~’R~VS~. Gay Travelers: Entertainers Out of Town: Chelsea, Manhattan Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans lvlen from all over the world converge on Palm Springs for spring break. Surprise performances happening all weekend long! F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Cast of "RENT" 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �LGBT Votes Sway Towards Hi11 Clinton Farrell to be best man £or brother’s gay wedding It was announced during the Sundance Film Festival that the Edward Norton/Colin Farrell cop drama "Pride and Glory" has been pushed back till 2009, even though it has been complete since last November. Farrell commented on this during the press junket for "In Bruges," trying to convince everyone that the delay has nothing to do with the quality of the movie. [via HollywoodElsewhere] All Gore Endorses Gay Marriage Photo by: David Gabber LOS ANGELES, CA __Not only is the Democratic presidential primary ticket a historic celebration of diversity, but exit polls from Super Tuesday celebrated history as well. Polling orga,xizations from around the country asked three questions never before found on exit poll surveys: Did voters pick a xvoman? Did voters pick a black man? Did voters identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender? We are part of histor): Resoundingly, voters answered two of the three questions similarly, picking Hillary Clinton as their candidate and identifying as LGBT. In California, of the gay voters (4% of total), 63% voted for Clinton, 29% for Obama and 1% stayed around for E&vards. In New York, 7% of voters identified as LGBT, and out of them 59% voted for Clinton, 36% for Obama and 3% for Edwards. In a recent survey conducted by Community Marketing, Inc. (CMI), a leading LGBT market research compan); **tore than 90percent ofgays and lesbians vote in U.S. presidential elections, compared to 64percent ofstraight citizens. Queer folk are twice as likely as s~,’aightfolk to vote in midterm elections. DUBLIN, IRELAND __ Hollywood star Colin Farrell is preparing for his next big role - best man at his brother’s gay wedding. The actor will stand beside his sibling Eamonn when he marries long-term partner Steven Mannion in Provincetown, Massachusetts this spring. Farrell is dose to his brother and helped chose Mannion’s diamond and sapphire engagement ring, when Eamonn proposed last year. A family friend tells the National Enquirer: "Colin is a firm believer in gay rights and he is proud of his brother. "He took Eamonn shopping for rings and intends to pick up the tab for the wedding." "I think that gay men and women ought to have the same rights as heterosexual men and women, to make contracts, to have hospital visiting rights, to join together in marriage," Gore said. ’~d I don’t understand why it is considered by some people to be a threat to heterosexual marriage to allow it by gays and lesbians. Shouldn’t we be promoting that kind of faithfulness and loyalty to one’s partner regardless of sexual orientation? Gore hinted that he would come around to support same-sex marriage as early as 2006, when speaking to a group of gay-rights activists, but his latest comments represent Gore’s first formal endorsement of equal marriage rights. Recognized by Keller Williams gor out~anding achievement 2005 and 2006 RE&LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOi~ WbetherbuyingorsellingI’llworkhardfbryou, W~NW.ozarksstar.corn the STAR �Can Larry Craig be Found Guilty in the Court o£Public Opinion? OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ On the facts as argued by the ACLU in a friend of the court filing, and outlined in this story from ~wccw.Bloomberg.com ( http://tinyurl. com/2b7hew ), to me it looks as if the wily and cunning coyote, Larry Craig, will get off again, pardon the pun, by thumbing his nose at the decency he pretends to legislate from the floor of the United States Senate. Just in case you’ve been living under a rock since late last summer, Senator Larry Craig of Idaho, now in his last session of Congress since he’s promised to resign, but will change his mind if enough people beg him to stay was charged with disruptive behavior in the Minneapolis airport when observed by an undercover policeman engaging in what the cop says was sexual solicitation. ¯here is a 1970 precedent in Minnesota that private solicitation of sexual activity in a private place can not be found illegal, as spying by police in a public restroom is an unreasonable search and therefore unconstitutional. The Court has yet to rule on Craig’s appeal of his guilty plea to the charge. Craig has since stated that his guilty plea was entered into in haste and without legal advice as he wanted to keep the charge out of public notice. Craig’s peculiar pantomime with his hands and feet, though laughable, is not illegal which is a good thing for him since his coitus ~vas interrupted by a too-eager cop wanting to score another statistic. Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR Though there was no exposure of body parts or verbal utterances, it’s clear to me that Craig was after an airport quickie, and whether or not his appeal is accepted or rejected his action in the restroom stall refutes his claim that he isn’t gay. - .. Don’t get me wrong: there’s nothing wro9sg~ with being gay but there is something wrong with using your Senate vote to de~rive honest men and women their equality under the law even as they work to contribute to a decent American society. If you listened to the taped interview of the Idaho Senator and the cop you must have noticed that Craig certainly had his battle hardened defense at ful! bore, strengthened as if he had done a few practice runs before. Just how self-assured would YOU be in this situation if you were claiming innocence of the charges and the sign language described? However, in the public court of reasonable opinion, I think Larry Craig would be found guilty with forethought and conspiracy of multiple counts to commit hypocrisy. Unfortunately, this crime is not punished by any jail sentence or fine. Craig’s punishment will have to be the resignation of his office and a return to, can I say, private life as a civilian where he will no doubt write a book describing the pain he’s endured from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune and his hounding from office by the Puritans of public decency, the very constituency he claimed to represent? SF~UALITY~VD SPIRITUALITY CONFERENCE ~mosexuality is Neither ness nor Sin ~ ~ Friday March 7, urday March 8 ersity of Central Oklahoma, Edmond Register online at www.PFLAGOKC.org or call Church of the Open Arms (405) 525 9555 www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Proudly serving ~Asa & OKC’s GLBT communities since 1982 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Crooner Comes ByJoey De ~~e’s blonde, he’s beautiful and his new style of classic crooning will be coming to the stage of the Oklahoma City Ford Center Mar. 4. Michael Bubld, the international superstar who has earned himself a place in music history with such hits as "Feelin’ Good," is coming to Oklahoma City as part of his third major US concert tour. All of the shows on the first leg of his 2007-2008 tour sold out in record time. Buble’ brings an irrepressible spirit, engaging humor, and confident charisma to the concert stage, and will perform hits from his current CD "Call me Irresistible and many other classics. 621 E. 4th S~reet Tulsa, OK 74120 OI~NING RECEPTION THURSDAY, iV~RCH 6 6-9PM i%n-Sal 3-gpm through March 29 TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, March 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s March exhibit "Now and Zen", featuring local artists Shawn Wilson and Merry Schepers. Shawn Wilson has been a professional artist for 25 years. A native Oklahoman, she moved to New York at 18 years old and within a short time was regularly selling her pen and -ink drawings to New Yorker magazine. She studied sculpture at New York’s famed Art Students’ League, and over the years has shown sculpture in galleries in New York, San Francisco and Atlanta. Shawn also paints-oil on canvas-and most notably, ’sumi-~’, 0apanese inkbrush painting). She studied this ancient art form with one of the few bona fide masters here in the U.S., Koho Yamamoto of NYC. Sumi-6 suits Shawn’s artistic abilities to a ’t’, as her work in all mediums concentrates on the essence of the subject rather than the details. Bubl& new CD, which he calls "my remark on the state of love," contains feeling that ,vill surprise and delight fans and impress those new to his music. "Irresponsible" contains more of Bubl& buoyant, modern interpretations and songs by such greats as Leonard Cohen, Eric Clapton and Cy Coleman. Michael won his first Grammy Award this year. The Grammy is for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album for "Call Me Irresponsible", which shot to #1, topping the charts around the world. The album included the #1 hit single "Everything", and was the fastest trip to #1 in three years on Billboard’s Adult Contemporary chart. To purchase concert tickets go to www.ticketmaster. corn or visit the Ford Center box office. Visit www. michaelbuble.com for concert schedule. .................. Continued page 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �By Joey De what can be said about "f~nt" that hasfft (and sometimes infamous) rock-opera that changed Br6adway forever ,,,ill be closing its doors on the great ~q~ite Way in Jtm~ but before it dora, the national tour will be making several stops in th~ Midwest. "Rent" is the story, of a colorful collectiot~ of frien& in Manhattan’s East End around the tiim end of the eighties. Surrounded by" povert.>; the onset of the MDS epi&mic and the rise of corporate commercialism, this group of artists defies the norm and redefines the boundaries of love. " says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in promise ofAmerica is a country of tolerance harmony. just doesn’t l~appen in rea! life, there is so much hatred utopian and unreal ~ bom~daries." ’°Rent" are persona!. "This show was the first shame and that Resnick says he connected with privately as a him want was a major 998, the summer when I first characters rand connected. It became a dream m be in the sho~; and people joked with me in High School about it because I’m so close to Mark." According to the performer, taking on the role of the show’s filmmaking n~xrator was not too much of a srxetch. "Mark and Jed are both slightly neurotic, Jewish N ew Yorkers." he laughs. "I latched on to our surface similarities and then was able to discover this~gs I didn’t realize about b~n. Things like his passion for art and fl~e ~ower it has to affect change." Photo: Jed Resnick �Cathedral of Hope Donates Scarves to Wilson Schoo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ For the fourth year in a row members of the Cathedral of Hope made scarves for Wilson Elementary School; In 2004 the church "adopted" Wilson for a number of service projects, since Wilson was their neighborhood school and included children from homeless shelters and section eight housing. Annual projects include collecting schoo! supplies, donating tissues during cold season, and sewing scarves every winter. This year members worked over two nights creating over 60 scarves. One couple also donated gloves and hats. On Tuesday, February 5, church members delivered the goodies to the school. According to pastor, the Rev. Dr. Scott Jones, "The assistant principal told us that every year the kids look forward to the day the scarves are handed out and that they wear them every day a~er that." Nancy Sanders, who has helped with the project every year said, "It’s always a lot of fun for the kids and fun for us too." the STAR �Love on tb~e Nile Deep b~4de HolI)~ood, reports on n~projects for Madonna and Ian Zierine~ Madonna khad to happen. Madonna mous disdain fbr her acting the camera. The finished product is recently premiered at the Berli~ mttsement. It stars the band Gogol Bordello) in a loose, in common with Madonna’s with her later it a refreshing new path uphill cred mountain to climb, but almost a lock that distribution reinvention will be as an aut~ur. Ian Ziering Move~ from Stretch marks, bloated ankles, ous. At least, that’s xvhat the makers given the success of other new comedy stars as a mar (The Constant Gardener) looks like eyeliner - a good to be starring in a romance set jandro ~Am~ena bar (The will direct the film, about a slave (Oscar in love with his mistress at the dawn of the Christian era, Paradise Now) co-stars as a zea!her statuette for The Constant variety of roles in movies like ~nd Definitel> Maybe, and this a~s-yetStarts shooting this month - promises to eclectic. a!most unani- )..ueer Cinema" in the early of a small miracle when a gay indie movie rea! theaters outside Trevor is one of those movies. Goodman, of unknowns, about queer the suddenly deep waters of adult life, appreciation that the recent "new naturalist" films of upstart directors like Andrew getting from critics and when the fihn gets released in May. © STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Ragged Blade Cor cer City February 29 h Oklahoma Photo by Mike W/site: Ashley Saphian, Isaac Cherry, Jerry Rabushka, Zach Jett ST LOUIS, MO (P/R) __ They are faster! louder! more blues! and more country! Ragged Blade has made four theatrical excursions to the IAO in Oklahoma City and now they’re on tap for a concert of Music worth waiting for. An evening of original pop, country, blues, and ballads by songwriter & playwright Jerry Rabushka. You’ll hear songs from some of the plays that have come to the IAO last year, and some newly hatched music with Rabushka’s trademark deep emotion and beautiful harmonies. Hang out with us for co01 country songs. No Luck At Home, the bluesy and sexually charged, Wrong Side Of Town, and Jerry’s lonely ballad Diner 4 AM. The band: Zach Jett (vocals) has toured with Ragged Blade for over a year and has been to the IAO for Woofl. The Road Show and Love of Last Resort. Ashley Saphian (vocals) has performed in several RB plays and concerts. Isaac Cherry (drums) has toured nationally as a solo drummer and with such bands as Animal 13 on the east coast and the Malibu Minstrels on the west. Jerry Rabushka (keyboard and vocals) has written & produced several musicals, was nominated for a national award for outstanding Instrumental Recording by New York based Outmusic in 2003, and received an award from the St. Louis Arts For Life Foundations for his original score to the musical, The Soviet Tango. IAO Gallery, 811 N. Broadway Oklahoma City 405-232-6060 8:00 EM. $5.00 cover At that price you can bring LOTS of friends!! For more info please visit www.raggedblade.com or www.iaogallery. org March 2008 the STAR 13 �by Liz Highleyman~~ Past Out, which looks at the life 0fFTM pioneer L0u Sullivan. Who was Lou Sullivan ? ouis Graydon Sullivan was a pioneer of the transgender movement - not just as an organizer, but as perhaps the first female-to-male (FTM) transsexual to identify publicly as a gay man. Born in June 1951 and named Sheila Jean, Sullivan grew up in a working-class family in a suburb of Milwaukee, \Vgis. He was educated at Catholic schools and took a secretarial job at the University of Wisconsin after graduating from high school. Though Sullivan later recalled that he had enjoyed "playing boys" as a child, his issues around gender and sexuality came to the fore when he was a teenager. "I look in the mirror and say to myself, ’That’s you, Sheila. That girl over there is you.’ It seems so funny," he wrote in his diary at age 14. Before long he started wearing men’s-style white shirts and ties, eventually adding men’s slacks, shoes, and hairstyle. By the early 1970s, Sullivan self-identified as a "heterosexual female transvestite who was sexually attracted to gay men," and had embarked on a long-term relationship with an effeminate man. Sullivan was active in the nascent gay liberation movement, which embraced gender-bending and favored the androgynous aesthetic of the broader counterculture. He was involved with Milwaukee’s first gay rights group, the Gay People’s Union (GPU), and helped produce its newsletter. Jumping into the controversy over drag within the women’s movement, he wrote "A Transvestite Answers a Feminist" 14 the STAR for GPU News in 1973, followed a year later by "Looking Towards Transvestite Liberation," which was widely reprinted in other gay and lesbian publications. Over the next few years, Sullivan’s gender identity shifted from transvestite to transsexual. In 1975, he and his boyfriend moved to San Francisco; as a parting gift, his supportive family gave him a good suit and an heirloom pocket watch engraved "Go West Young Man." But even amid the city’s queer milieu, Sullivan had difficulty finding others like himselfi "I want to look like what I am," he once wrote, "but don’t know what someone like me looks like." Though still presenting as a woman in his job as a secretary for the Wilson Sporting Goods company, most of the rest of the time Sullivan fully cross-dressed and lived as a gay man, hanging out in gay bars and enjoying an adventurous sex life. Sullivan sought sex-reassignment surgery in the late 1970s, but was repeatedly denied because he openly identified as ~y at a time when people undergoing the procedure were expected to adopt stereotypical heterosexual opposite-sex gender roles. "They were invested in taking sissy gay boys and transforming them into straight women, and taking tomboy women who were socially unacceptable and changing them into straight men," according to fellow FTM Shadow Morton. Sullivan recalled that one gender clinic told him he could not possibly live as a gay man, since gay men were primarily interested in large penises. Sullivan’s frustration led him to campaign for the removal of homosexuality as a contraindication for sex reassignment - an effort that finally succeeded in the late 1980s. At a time when most gender services focused on male-to-female transsexuals, he volunteered as the first FTM peer counselor with San Francisco’s Janus Information Facility (a clearinghouse for information about transsexuality) and wrote the earliest informational booldet for transmen, _Information for the Female to Male Cross-Dresser and Transsexual_ (1980). He later authored a biography of early 20th-century "passing woman" Jack Bee Garland. Sullivan was a co-founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society of Northern California (now the GLBT Historical Society), helping to ensure that it was inclusive of transgender lives. In 1979, after several refusals from established university-based gender dinics, Sullivan found sympathetic therapists and doctors and began taking testosterone. He had a double mastectomy and started a new technician job where co-workers had never known him as a woman. He finally underwent genital surgery in 1986, but experienced complications and never fully recovered; that same year, he was diagnosed as HIV positive. "I took a certain pleasure," he wrote, "in informing the gender clinic that even though their program told me I could not live as a gay man, it looks like I’m going to die like one." Sullivan devoted his final years to building the network of FTM contacts he had acquired over a decade into an organization, and eventually a visible movement. In 1986, he began holding peer-support get-togethers for people on the male transgender spectrum, which evolved into the present-day FTM International - today the largest and longest-running organization of its kind. Yet he continued to take the time to answer the many letters he received from transmen around the world, hoping to dispel the sense of isolation he had felt. Sullivan died of an AIDS-related illness in March 1991, after malting plans to ensure that the organization he created would continue. "Lou Sullivan left behind a mailing list of about 230 names, a roll of stamps, the model of inclusion in his support group, and the ethic of service to a community he hoped would someday exist," said de facto successor Jamison Green. "Now it almost does. In life and since his death, he has been an inspiration for many transmen, both gay and straight." w~,wv.ozarksstar.corn �1) Langmeil Three Gardens Barossa Valley ’05- Shiraz, Grenache and Mourv~dre. Smooth and round, with raspberry & plum most prominent/lean finish. 2) Yellow Tail Reserve Shiraz ’06- Ripe and aromatic. The past 2 vintages have scored some high points with national wine critics/ worth checking out. 3) Yalumba Y Series Shiraz-Viognier 2006Spicy, but the mix of Viognier makes a presence of lychee and peach. 4) Molly Dooker The Boxer 2006 - Ripe and smoky. A mouthful of raspberry with white pepper. A state allocated wine/very hard to find bottle here in town so if ya see it, get it! 5) Marquis Phillips Sarah’s Blend 2005Shiraz, Cabernet and Merlot. Check out the Roogle on the label. It’s cross between an Eagle and a Kangaroo and signifies the friendship between the US and Australia. Great taste/recommended. 6) Lindemans Padthaway Reserve 2005Generous cherry and raspberry flavors. From the Hunter Valley about and hour and a half from Sydney. Also gets rave reviews. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org �By Joey De An Italian-Creole restaurant in New Orleans. Photo: David Barlo,~ a,~d A,,~a,~da Ba/on Copyright Joa*¢ Marcus 2007 TULSA, OK __ One of America’s most beloved musicals, "Annie" is celebrating its 30th anniversary tour, and giving a whole new generation the chance to experience this classic about never giving up hope. The timeless tale of Little Orphan Annie is coming to the Tulsa PAC March 4-9. With music by Charles Strouse and book by Thomas Meeban, ’%nhie" is again directed by lyricist Martin Charnin, who directed the original 1977 Broadxvay production. After xvinning seven Tony Axvards in 1977, including Best blusica!, Book and Score the shoxv ran for 2,377 performances and is one of the top 20 longest running shows in Broadxvay history. With one of Broadxvay’s most memorable scores, including t~ the Hard-Knock Life" and ’"~ tomorrow,""" ~(~n ni e, "is the feel-good shoxv to bring a smile to any, face. Tickets may be purchased at 596-7111, via the internet at wwxv. MyTicketOffice.com or by visiting the PAC box oft{ce. Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepage 29for o,’der blank. the ~TA~ Bayou Crawfish Etouffee 1/4 pound butter 4 cups chopped onions 2 cups chopped green peppers 1 1/2 teaspoons fresh chopped garlic 4 cups sliced mushrooms 1 1/2 teaspoons flour Salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon cayenne pepper 4 dashes Tabasco sauce 1 tablespoon garlic powder 2 cups whipping cream 1 cup half-and-half 1 3/4 cups tomato sauce Melt butter in large heavy-duty pot. Add onions, peppers, garlic and all seasonings. Saute, stirring occasionally until onions are translucent (15 minutes). Add mushrooms and saute for 5 minutes. Add flour and mix thoroughly for 1 minute, stirring often. Add whipping cream and half-and-half. Cook until cream thickens but does not boil, stirring often. Add tomato sauce and cook for 15 minutes. Add desired meat, seafood or crawfish. Stirring often, cook until meat or vegetables are done. The longer you let the sauce cook, the more flavorful it becomes. More on PASCAL’S MANALE Restaurant see page 22 www.ozarksstar.com �c ONOUES T Join our gay and Imbian group aboard Carnival Cow, quest© ~ we set sail from Galvesm~ and call o~ the beaurifhi ports in Monrego Ba); Grand Cayman and Cx~zumel. There is no better way to celebrate Halloween than aboard a funship with Gayribbean Cruises, We offer: Our fr~ntasdc Halloweml Costume Part),, Nighdy Mixers and SO MUCH MORE ! Book early and save. Ask how m receive $75 shipboard cre<~t! For information & Reservations www.GaydbbeanCruisesocom �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams One of the manygreat things about travelin~ .... is, besides meeting interestin,~,p eople and visitin g beautiful places, sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few- )mars We were fortunate to be able to see these entertainers in action. They ernb0dy all that is good in a true entertainer. ...... fun, funny; sometimes elegant and they all put on a great show. THE COUNT.S, B&EXIS DEL LAGO of Paris, New York and HollDvood. one of the most remarkable, amazing and elegant pers0nalilties that we have,ever met in our travels. She was the most elegant drag queen ofthe 80 s New York City, she then moved to \Vest Hollywooa and 6pened a wonderful antiques b(~utique shop. She WAS Marlene Dietrich, afI day and every day[ Sh£ is the cla~;iest add best &essed of them all. She *~,-~as (~nd stil! is) a r~al star when everyone else was just pretending. She performed on stage, movies and tete~2ision. She was a bi~ hit at the famous Pyramid Club in New York and with the Andy Wathol group. Her latest "Countess Alexis with Ray Williams" Lypsinka Frank Marino 18 the STAR moade, SUPERSTAR IN A HOUSEDRESS, only proves how classy,she still iS. And always hers,d£ She believed in herself as most people don t. MOst people either dont have the, courage to be themselve~s,o,~ are s,o unsure about wh~ they are that they cant. As the Countess stares, It wasrft that I was so fabulous, it is just that the others were so stupid. \Ve have never seen her when she &dnt look hke a milhon dollars. She ALWAYS makes a grain entrance where ever she goes. And why not? She ~s N~e Countess : Check out http:lt~wv.youtube.com/watch?v=lG2DATQ_dlA to see a fabulous sm,en minute fihn clip. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at the AI~ Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKM THE BOX.ED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Conme Franos, Llbby Morns, Dorothy Sqmres and the 50 s musical ,con Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations where,)er he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaini~ag this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike marli, performers he stretches the boundaries. ~e H~llDvood Reporter says L smka ~s hke nothing you ve seen before. Theamcat art,stry that ne er seems to slow down" The New York ~mes says "I.ypsinka is a fascinating, ftmny and disturbing spectacle." From the opening scene ro the finale this performer never lets down the audience. He is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else l~}m just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to ww~:lypsinka.corn. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riviera Hotel in Las Vegas , is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "_Joan River’s’ routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in I.as Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crmv put on a class act show. He emcees the’show and introduces the different performers who do Chef. Shirley MacLaine, Tina, and many others. Tlaeir show is sold out almost every night. It is basically a musicallcomedy revie~v with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes cosrurnes between every set which gives a grear dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is ~x~;frankmarino.com ............................. Continued next page v~w.ozarksstar.com �Creating Community for People ~ivin9 with H~V/AIDS .A 50~. c (3) Non P~ofit O~ganization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistanoe to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.oom. �)ff~rs little in the way of attractions, unless, of course, you count shopping as a form of sightseeing. If you wander along West 20th through West 27th streets in the block west of 10th Avenue, you’ll find storefront after storefront of cutting-edge art galleries - check out www.chelseaartga~leries.com for details on upcoming shows. Fans of dance should note two important neighborhood institutions: the art deco Joyce Theater, which hosts high-quality dance companies throughout the year, and the dramatic Dance Theater Workshop, around the corner, which also presents acclaimed concerts throughout the year. The neighborhood draws plenty of foodies to its Chelsea Market, a bustling concourse of gourmet food stalls in which you’ll find tantalizing Thai food, savory soups, fine wines, heavenly baked goods, and lots more. Neighborhood s recently as the mid-1990s, relatively few visitors spent time in Chelsea, the neighborhood on Manhattan’s west side between Midtown and Greenwich Village. Today, however, Chelsea abounds with gay bars, coo! restaurants, diverting shops, avant-garde galleries, and an increasing number of hotels. It’s become arguably the city’s hottest destination for gay visitors, and a wonderful neighborhood to spend a weekend or short vacation. This part of the city was developed in the 1830s by clergyman Clement Clark Moore, author of"A Visit from St. Nicholas" ("~B~vas the night before Christmas..."), whose family owned most of the area. Well into the mid-20th century, Chelsea was a drab, lower-income neighborhood where workers at nearby garment factories and river docks lived in cheap boardinghouses and rickety, airless tenements. But as gays began moving here in the ’70s and ’80s, gentrification gradually took hold. And in recent years, the neighborhood has developed cachet among both residents and visitors as one of the trendiest areas in the city as well as one of the nation’s most dynamic gay communities. Chelsea comprises roughly the blocks between 5th Avenue and the Hudson River, with 14th Street forming the neighborhood’s southern boundary. Most locals consider 23rd Street to be its northern edge, but others argue the border extends as far north as 28th or even 32nd Street. For all practical purposes - particularly in terms of retail, dining, and clubbing - you’ll find the most intriguing businesses between 14th and 23rd streets. And where gay-popular establishments are concerned, the main drag is 8th Avenue, with 7th Avenue a close runner-up. Additionally, 9th and 10th avenues have witnessed the tide of gentrification in recent years, particularly as top galleries have moved into the western reaches of Chelsea. 20 the STAR In fact, restaurants have become one of the neighborhood’s leading draws. There are the obvious bastions of gay social life, such as Viceroy and Food Bar for rather standard American chow, and campy VYNL, which is known for its eclectic Asian and international dishes, plus outstanding martinis. Gym buffs on high-protein diets favor Better Burger, with its menu of lean, char-grilled burgers and fresh-squeezed juices. Other hot spots include the funky Thai restaurant Room Service, known for such ldcky creations as Thai-spicy tuna salad and chile-rubbed salmon; and Suenos, which serves some of the most innovative regional Mexican fare in the city - be sure to try the duck-confit quesadillas with poached pears and ancho chileso For weekend brunch, don’t miss East of Eighth, which turns out first-rate contemporary American food and offers lively cabaret in the evenings. Few spots are more popular at lunchtime than Dish, a glorified diner of sorts, which is also known for its relaxing Saturday and Sunday brunch. Snackers and noshers will find plenty of toothsome options, including F&B Gudtfood for gourmet hot dogs and European-style street food, Murray’s for some of the city’s finest bagels, and Pinkberry, for the mysterious yogurt-esque frozen-dessert snacks that have taken the city by storm. On the west side of the neighborhood, you can count on the Red Cat for a terrific meal of creative American fare, such as a fantastic paprika-roasted cod with spicy escarole and an anchovy-almond sauce. At cozy Tia Pol, choose from a long list of outstanding Spanish tapas, while the much-hyped Craftsteak is your go-to for superb cuts of beef- it’s part of Tom Colicchio’s (ofTV’s Top Chef) growing restaurant empire. Chelsea has become the epicenter of gay nightlife in New York City (although it’s fair to say that the Hells Kitchen and East Village neighborhoods provide plenty of competition). There are the trendy spots, such as G Lounge, a sea of coiffed and smartly dressed men hobnobbing around a central bar or relaxing in mod lounge chairs; and the long-running Splash, a two-floor temple of chic gay clubbing known for its go-go dancers and throbbing music. Quirky Barracuda cultivates a mixed arty and cruisy bunch, while the bilevel Eagle caters to the usual set of bears, leather men, and ardent porn enthusiasts (old-fashioned blue movies play on the video screens). www.ozarksstar.com �Rawhide is an old-school neighborhood bar with an age-diverse following, and the friendly Gym Sportbar has become the darling of the post-workout crowd. Locals hangouts like View Bar and XES can seem empty or bustling depending on the night, and a couple of pulsing warehouse discos, Rush and Stereo, round out the scene. Chelsea has relatively few hotel rooms compared with other key Manhattan neighborhoods, but it’s a 10- to 20-minute walk (or a short cab or subway ride) from the scads of hotels in Midtown. What you will find in Chelsea, however, are several properties with reasonable rates, most catering heavily to the gay market. A favorite of history buffs is the raffish Hotel Chelsea, the city’s tallest building when it was built in the 1880s. This bohemian hostelry has been the home of all sorts of fascinating characters, from William Burroughs to Jasper Johns to Allen Ginsberg: Just up the street, the modern and rather basic Chelsea Savoy Hotel has a terrific location at the corner of West 23rd Street and 7th Avenue, and rooms here can run as low as $99 nightly. Among the big chains, there’s a Four Points by Sheraton Manhattan Chelsea on West 25th Street, and the Hampton Inn Chelsea on West 24th Street. Both of these are clean, well-managed, and affordable. This hip neighborhood is rapidly developing, though, and within a few years you’ll find a number of additional hotels to choose from. For instance, the trendy hotel brand Indigo is planning a 122-room property for 127 West 28th Street, to open in early 2009. And, just a short walk east of Chelsea in a similarly vibrant area, you might consider the uber-cool W New York Union Square, a swank stunner that occupies the 1911 beaux-arts Guardian Life building and contains Todd English’s bustling Olives restaurant and Rande Gerber’s see-and-be-seen Underbar. Or check into Ian Schrager’s luxuriously re-imagined Gramercy Park Hotel, a glam boutique hotel overlooking the elegant park of the same name. Among smaller, gay-oriented properties, a reliable pick is the Chelsea Pines Inn, which occupies a charming 1850s town house in the heart of the neighborhood. Rooms with semiprivate bath (sink and shower are in your room, but the toilet is shared with several other rooms on same floor) start at $140, while rooms with private baths begin at $175. An even better value, with rates beginning around $130 for shared-bath units, the Chelsea Lodge is set along handsome West 22nd Street and contains 22 cozy, clean, and pleasantly furnished rooms. When you consider that generic, bland chain properties in Midtown can charge well over $400 per night, these two intimate and friendly Chelsea hideaways are a real bargain. And you can use the money you save to dine well in the neighborhood’s dozens of inviting eateries. 1- 800 - 535-AI DS (2437) Okllahoma’s H V/STD Hot ine PRO TECT YO F PROTECT YOUR PA ° F,¢ee. me~ HIV testify, t~ 20 H.O.P;~. Tes~:~ng C~inic ~ens Oetreach Pr~ram www.ozarksstar.com the STAR :)1 �~ 6, 2008 ItMian’Creole restaurant in New Orleans Fotmded in 1913, this family-run, ItaJian, Creole restaurant is 8) i New Orle~s at baxbecued shrimp. N~is . from the se~,ice to the decor. oyster bar ~nd on ~e hflf shel! and fll ~es of cocktails. We offer Sp~cialfies and delicio~ stea~, ~ i in traddtion; ir ~ s and ~hes it out daily in ~e ~tO lmltate~ !tiNe;Andwhenyou! We&esday thru Friday : thru Saturda); 5 PM to closing ~d cloSed 0h �WHITE PARTY SPRING BREAK 2008 PRESENTS THREE DAYS AND FOUR NIGHTS OF THE BEST PARTIES ON THE PLANET !’~"~ Men from all over the world converge on Palm Springs : April 17.21, 2008. Surprise performances happening aft weekend long! PALM SPRINGS, CA (PR) This is the event that attracts men from all over the world to the desert oasis of Palm Springs, CA ! Jeffrey Sanker’s White Party Spring Break happens at new date in 2008--April 17-21, with an action-packed weekend of non-stop parties, superstar performances and the hottest men from all over the globe. Totally new for 2008: the sexy Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party, happening Friday, will let it all hang out. Saturday’s main event: White Party - Boogie Fever celebrates 30 years of dance music. Not to mention Sunday’s Extreme T Dance, an over-the-top dance event taking the action farther than it’s ever been before. Weekend passes are on sale now at www.CircuitTicket.com. Express Weekend Passes ($350 until Feb. 15) include: Absolute priority access to all weekend events; Access to VIP lounge at the Saturday White Party and Sunday T Dance; Official White Party Spring Break Gift Bag and Unlimited complimentary bottled water at White Party and T Dance. Weekend Passes ($250 until Feb. 15) include: Express Entrance to White Party, T Dance & Closing Party; complementary admission to Thursday Welcome Party, plus a $25 add-on for admission to Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party. For additional information or to purchase passes in advance online, visit: www.jeffreysanker.com or vcww.circuiticket.com. For more information, call (310) 360-6100. The host hotel for White Party 2008 is the fabulous Wyndham Palm Springs, the center of all the poolside action, home to nighttime events and location of the official welcome center. For reservations, call: (760) 322-6000. Mention WP when making reservations to receive a special rate. Back by popular demand: The ultimate VIP treatment lets you experience White Party in the lap of luxury with a range of personalized services right at your fingertips. Again in 2008, White Party Spring Break offers a limited number of luxurious VIP packages to make your weekend truly unforgettable. Packages include a range of options such as premium accommodations, lavish amenities including a personal concierge, private cabanas, security escorts and special upgrades. All packages feature exclusive VIP bottle service at Saturday night’s White Party and the Sunday T Dance. Visit: www. jeffreysanker.com for more details. March 2008 The STAR 23 ��and the �By Ronald Blake esterday was my thirty-ninth birthday. I chose to wake with the roosters and run a five kilometer race to begin my fete of this event. I ruminated on my choice of a celebratory method be.fore, during, and after this competition. I discovered many reasons ~vhy I dragged my partner and our little canine companion along with me to this athletic spectacle. There is not much traffic on an early Saturday morning when you are headed to a physical challenge. I was able to really notice the mountains when I wasn’t beset by droves of angry, chafed, rush-hour motorists. I realized that the mountains were even more majestic with their verdant hue given the recent rains here in the desert. The rising sun added its paintbrush to this mountain landscape with its spangling of yellows and oranges. A good reason to get up and run. We drove past the Phoenix International Raceway on our journey to the starting line. I have lived in the Valley of the Sun for over three years and had never seen this imposing NASCAR edifice. It was quietly assuming its regnant place alongside its panoply of mountains. We also had never been to the location of this gala running affair. It too was nestled next to the mountains and was a magnificent oasis in the ribald desert landscape. I felt a contemporary thrill of a Louis and Clark moment as I gazed upon virgin ground. A good reason to get up and run. There were other people at the race site when I arrived. These people also had running shoes and were stretching. These people also brought friends, family members, and their little dogs too. These people also ran the course, sweated, and finished completely exhausted. I wasn’t the only one early to bed and early to rise. We shared camaraderie and a commonality that morning. A good reason to get up and run. I received a T-shirt, bananas, a medal, an olio of donated sundries, and some friendly discourse through out my experience. It did cost me twentyfive dollars to participate but I am not offering any regrets. I could just as easily have spent that money on a well-earned hangover but I already have plenty of those notched in my craw! of fame. I am pleased with my assortment of newly acquired memorabilia. A good reason to get up and run. There was live music after the race. It was provided by your quintessential three men and a lady cover band. The backdrop was a cupola adorned, ornate clubhouse and a lake begirded with palm trees. I would have settled for anything at that time. I had just felt the intrinsic satisfaction of completing an arduous task and the extrinsic reward of a salvo of cheers for my fait accompli. A very good reason to get up and run. I am thirty-nine today and I wil! be forty next year. I have no control over the passage of time. I will continue to enjoy my flight through the ages and I will continue to augment my reasoning for getting up and running...until the flight ends. ~sis health andfitness column is brought to you by that gvgy who noticed that sex act is followed by sexagenarian in the dictionary. ~at connect the dots guy is Ron Blake and he can be vivified at www.goblakefimess. co~n, www.ozarksstar.com �ART SHOW: Between sumi-d, drawings, oil paintings and sculpture, Shawn’s work has been shown and sold in dozens of one-woman and group showings and through commissioned work. Merry Schepers is also a native Otdahoman whose works in porcelain, clay and multimedia embrace a broad stylistic spectrum from flying porcelain vessels to shamanic, archetypal masks to functional stoneware. She earned her BA from Montclair State University (N.J.) and has worked in clay for over thirteen years. As a member of the Alternative Outsider artists, she participates in that group’s annual show. She also shows in galleries in Tulsa, Ok. and Fayetteville, AR. and participates in Tulsa’s Blue Dome Arts Festival. The exhibit will remain up through the month of March, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for A1 McAffrey To Speak At OK County Democrats Medallion Dinner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __M is the Representative for House District 88 and will be the Master of Ceremonies for our Medallion Dinner. The Oklahoma County Democrats Medallion Dinner, with Jim Roth and Al McAffrey, will be taking place on March 8, 2008 at the Regal Room (Ned’s Catering), 625 NW Grand Blvd, OKC, 73118. Visit the website for updated information, sponsor & ticket prices, and easy online ticket purchasing. www.okcountydemocrats.org Oklahoma Governor say’s NO to National Real ID Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Ga); Bisexual & Tram’gender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equali~y Center. Oklahoma City mayor challenges citizens to loose 1 million pounds OKLAHOMA CITY - With a button-popping spread of cornbread, sausage and gravy, chicken fried steak and pecan pie designated as Oklahoma’s official state meal, it’s no surprise that Oklahoma City’s mayor wants to put the city on a diet. Mick Cornett has challenged the city to shed 1 million pounds as its New Year’s resolution. (PR) The federal effort to create a national identity card, called the Real ID card, would take us one step closer to a surveillance society, erode our right to privacy and put our personal information at risk. Luckily, governors in five states, including Oklahoma, courageously rejected this invasive law. Now we need these governors to stand their ground so that Congress will be forced to repeal this horrifying program! Real ID would force all states to connect their DMV databases to one single interlinked system -- facilitating government tracking of ordinary Americans. It would also expose our most sensitive personal information to criminal identity theft. Thanks to your Governor, this invasive law -- and the dramatic tax increases required to pay its massive price tag -- was courageously rejected in Oklahoma. Help make sure that no American is forced to use the costly "Big Brother" Real ID card. The national Real ID card will take away our privacy and treat all Americans like enemies of the state! www.ozarksstar.corn "The nature of the questions LGBT human rights defenders were asked, repeatedly trying to link homosexuality and pedophilia, simply shows how far our stubborn opposition is ready to go to put obstacles before LGBT groups on their way to recognition as members of civil society," the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) said in a statement. Just two of many reasons the right wing hates McCain. 1. Same-sex marriage. McCain refuses to support a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. 2. Stem-cell research. McCain would relax restrictions on federal dollars for embryonic stem cell research, which critics consider tantamount to abortion. BERLIN (AP) __ A new Berlin memorial to the Nazis’ gay victims should be ready within months, officials said Thursday. The $890,000 memorial to gay victims will be located in Berlin’s Tiergarten Park, across from the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe, Culture Minister Bernd Neumann said. Homosexuality was banned under the Nazis. Tens of thousands of people, primarily men, were arrested, and many were sent to concentration camps. BEIJING (AFP) Chinas Ministry of Health is set to implement its first ever national programme to curb the spread of HIV/ AIDS among gay men. "The programme aims to strengthen measures to prevent and control the deadly disease among the homosexual community," the China Daily quoted Wang \greizhen, a senior official with the ministry’s HIWAIDS prevention department, as saying. "By learning more about gay people, we can better protect them against this incurable disease. Studies are under way in several cities to collect information on gay men, such as their.., behavioural patterns." The programme will also deliver special funding and technical support to gay men, Wang said, without giving further details. There are over 700 thousand gay men with HIV/AIDS in China. the STAR 27 �"Be cor~servative with money, Gemini!" As Mars enters Cancer, productive efforts are easily clouded by moods and misunderstandings. While he opposes Pluto, frustrations can gain exaggerated importance. You may feel like you need an oar to propel your craft forward, but what you may really need is a shovel to dig to the root of existing challenges. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Yours is the sign of the lone wolf, but you are now aiming for the role of head of the household. The responsibilities and obligations really don’t suit you. Try for the position of "elder statesperson" or dowager instead. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Little domestic arguments can explode way too easily. Are you just being stubborn? How important are those details, anyway? Your arguments may be more aesthetic than logical, but they should still be explainable in a calm, friendly manner. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your sexual appetite is surging, but so is your deeper desire for commitment. One is so much more easily satisfied than the other that you might find any effort frustrating. Try seeing the glass as half full. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Is your partner being too aggressive, or are you just being stubborn? You can do something about the latter. Fights come easily, but so does passion. You really need a struggle. Be nice, and you could get a good one! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Wanting too much can be a great spur to action, but acting impulsively on excessive desire is a sure path to accidents and illness. Meditate, think ahead, and confide in a friend with a cooler head before acting. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Acting on your playful urges will have far-reaching ramifications. Focus those desires responsibly and creatively. Infuriating people is not a mark of success per se, but be bold enough to risk pissing off the right people for the right reasons. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Be very careful and conservative with your money. Household and proper~ investments or any renegotiation of debt should be checked out very thoroughly. Sexual urges may take an emotional cost, challenging you to think more about your deeper needs. CANCER (June 21 -July 22): Acting on impulse can transform your relationship, and probably not for the better. Channel that energy into thinking ahead and talking about what you want, what your partner wants, and how you can deepen your connection. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worrying about your health or work only makes problems - real or imagined - worse. Take positive steps, and check out anything that bears watching. Remember the difference between focus and obsession, and stick to the task at hand. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your political aims are coming from somewhere deep in your gut, which is fine. But sensible strategy should come from your brilliant-butnow-vacationing brain. Artistic, creative expressions will give you the outlet you need. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Courtesy is usually your strongest conviction. Now other deep beliefs provoke you to speak up against authority. Think carefully about mouthing off to the police or your boss. If you want to raise hell, find a public demonstration that suits your politics. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your urge for arguments seems to be coming out of nowhere. Try to focus that energy toward digging into topics that interest you. Take up a good challenge to keep your mind busy and your mouth out of trouble! 28 the STAR METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR wwvv.ozarksstar.com By Victor Gorin Photo: Nate Borofiky, Doris Muramatsu,Blue Door owner Greg Johnson, & Ty Greenstein OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Valentine’s Day crowd at the Blue Door was trttly treated by the extraordinary innovation and harmonies of Girlyman, a gay band of 3 musicians, Nate Borofsky, Doris Muramatsu and Ty Greenstein, who wowed the house with their awesome harmonies & creative style. As Nate put it, their music has been influenced by "the Indigo Girls, Simon & Garfunkel, the Mamas and Papas, and Bach." Their style, if it could be labeled, is a blend of folk, pop and bluegrass best described by Ty as "alt folk" The full house audience consisted mostly of the Blue Door’s regular folk & innovative music fans, but also featured many "Blue Door virgins", and they were not disappointed. This trio, which has previously graced Oklahoma, once opened for the Indigo Girls here in 2004, and was ready to please a capacity crowd even though they admitted they didn’t know what to expect. Masterminded by their soundperson/tour manager Heather "Turtle" Brooks, they blend their talents and insight in a way that has to be heard to be believed. So far they have recorded 3 CD’s, the latest entitled "Joyful Signs." As for their clever name, it was not inspired by the famous California Governor Schwarzenegger who in fact made that "girlyman" expression famous 2 years after the band was formed, although they do welcome the publicity. As Muramutsu puts it, "It’s playful and fun. The name Girlyman puts that all out there and lets us play with it." That they did, and they’ll win over even more new fans xvhen they play Oklahoma again. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 Art Show by Shawn Wilson.and Merry Schepers. Michael Buble’ in OKC; "It is the ideal portrayal ofAmerica," says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in the touring production. ~ DEE[P INSIDE HO~-t-~OOD Deep Inside Hollywood, reports on new projects for Madonna and Ian Ziering. GLBT History, Past Out looks at the life ofFTM pioneer Lou Sullivan. Devre Jackson reviews Australian Shiraz Bayou Crawfish Etouffee a feature at Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans ~C~AO "~’R~VS~. Gay Travelers: Entertainers Out of Town: Chelsea, Manhattan Pascal’s Manale, New Orleans lvlen from all over the world converge on Palm Springs for spring break. Surprise performances happening all weekend long! F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Cast of "RENT" 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com LGBT Votes Sway Towards Hi11 Clinton LOS ANGELES, CA __Not only is the Democratic presidential primary ticket a historic celebration of diversity, but exit polls from Super Tuesday celebrated history as well. Polling orga,xizations from around the country asked three questions never before found on exit poll surveys: Did voters pick a xvoman? Did voters pick a black man? Did voters identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender? We are part of histor): Resoundingly, voters answered two of the three questions similarly, picking Hillary Clinton as their candidate and identifying as LGBT. In California, of the gay voters (4% of total), 63% voted for Clinton, 29% for Obama and 1% stayed around for E&vards. In New York, 7% of voters identified as LGBT, and out of them 59% voted for Clinton, 36% for Obama and 3% for Edwards. In a recent survey conducted by Community Marketing, Inc. (CMI), a leading LGBTmarket research compan); **tore than 90percent ofgays and lesbians vote in U.S. presidential elections, compared to 64percent ofstraight citizens. Queerfolk are twice as likely as s~,’aightfolk to vote in midterm elections. Farrell to be best man £or brother’s gay wedding DUBLIN, IRELAND __ Hollywood star Colin Farrell is preparing for his next big role - best man at his brother’s gay wedding. The actor will stand beside his sibling Eamonn when he marries long-term partner Steven Mannion in Provincetown, Massachusetts this spring. Farrell is dose to his brother and helped chose Mannion’s diamond and sapphire engagement ring, when Eamonn proposed last year. A family friend tells the National Enquirer: "Colin is a firm believer in gay rights and he is proud of his brother. "He took Eamonn shopping for rings and intends to pick up the tab for the wedding." It was announced during the Sundance Film Festival that the Edward Norton/Colin Farrell cop drama "Pride and Glory" has been pushed back till 2009, even though it has been complete since last November. Farrell commented on this during the press junket for "In Bruges," trying to convince everyone that the delay has nothing to do with the quality of the movie. [via HollywoodElsewhere] All Gore Endorses Gay Marriage Photo by: David Gabber "I think that gay men and women ought to have the same rights as heterosexual men and women, to make contracts, to have hospital visiting rights, to join together in marriage," Gore said. ’~d I don’t understand why it is considered by some people to be a threat to heterosexual marriage to allow it by gays and lesbians. Shouldn’t we be promoting that kind of faithfulness and loyalty to one’s partner regardless of sexual orientation? Gore hinted that he would come around to support same-sex marriage as early as 2006, when speaking to a group of gay-rights activists, but his latest comments represent Gore’s first formal endorsement of equal marriage rights. Recognized by Keller Williams gor out~anding achievement 2005 and 2006 RE&LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOi~ WbetherbuyingorsellingI’llworkhardfbryou, W~NW.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 6 the STAR Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Can Larry Craig be Found Guilty in the Court o£Public Opinion? OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ On the facts as argued by the ACLU in a friend of the court filing, and outlined in this story from ~wccw.Bloomberg.com ( http://tinyurl. com/2b7hew ), to me it looks as if the wily and cunning coyote, Larry Craig, will get off again, pardon the pun, by thumbing his nose at the decency he pretends to legislate from the floor of the United States Senate. Just in case you’ve been living under a rock since late last summer, Senator Larry Craig of Idaho, now in his last session of Congress since he’s promised to resign, but will change his mind if enough people beg him to stay was charged with disruptive behavior in the Minneapolis airport when observed by an undercover policeman engaging in what the cop says was sexual solicitation. ¯here is a 1970 precedent in Minnesota that private solicitation of sexual activity in a private place can not be found illegal, as spying by police in a public restroom is an unreasonable search and therefore unconstitutional. The Court has yet to rule on Craig’s appeal of his guilty plea to the charge. Craig has since stated that his guilty plea was entered into in haste and without legal advice as he wanted to keep the charge out of public notice. Craig’s peculiar pantomime with his hands and feet, though laughable, is not illegal which is a good thing for him since his coitus ~vas interrupted by a too-eager cop wanting to score another statistic. Though there was no exposure of body parts or verbal utterances, it’s clear to me that Craig was after an airport quickie, and whether or not his appeal is accepted or rejected his action in the restroom stall refutes his claim that he isn’t gay. - .. Don’t get me wrong: there’s nothing wro9sg~ with being gay but there is something wrong with using your Senate vote to de~rive honest men and women their equality under the law even as they work to contribute to a decent American society. Ifyou listened to the taped interview of the Idaho Senator and the cop you must have noticed that Craig certainly had his battle hardened defense at ful! bore, strengthened as if he had done a few practice runs before. Just how self-assured would YOU be in this situation if you were claiming innocence of the charges and the sign language described? However, in the public court of reasonable opinion, I think Larry Craig would be found guilty with forethought and conspiracy of multiple counts to commit hypocrisy. Unfortunately, this crime is not punished by any jail sentence or fine. Craig’s punishment will have to be the resignation of his office and a return to, can I say, private life as a civilian where he will no doubt write a book describing the pain he’s endured from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune and his hounding from office by the Puritans of public decency, the very constituency he claimed to represent? SF~UALITY~VD SPIRITUALITY CONFERENCE ~mosexuality is Neither ~ness nor Sin ~ Friday March 7, urday March 8 ersity of Central Oklahoma, Edmond Register online at www.PFLAGOKC.org or call Church of the Open Arms (405) 525 9555 www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Proudly serving ~Asa & OKC’s GLBT communities since 1982 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com 621 E. 4th S~reet Tulsa, OK 74120 OI~NING RECEPTION THURSDAY, iV~RCH 6 6-9PM i%n-Sal 3-gpm through March 29 TULSA, OK__ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, March 6, 2008, for the opening of it’s March exhibit "Now and Zen", featuring local artists Shawn Wilson and Merry Schepers. Shawn Wilson has been a professional artist for 25 years. A native Oklahoman, she moved to New York at 18 years old and within a short time was regularly selling her pen and -ink drawings to New Yorker magazine. She studied sculpture at New York’s famed Art Students’ League, and over the years has shown sculpture in galleries in New York, San Francisco and Atlanta. Shawn also paints-oil on canvas-and most notably, ’sumi-~’, 0apanese inkbrush painting). She studied this ancient art form with one of the few bona fide masters here in the U.S., Koho Yamamoto of NYC. Sumi-6 suits Shawn’s artistic abilities to a ’t’, as her work in all mediums concentrates on the essence of the subject rather than the details. ..................Continued page 27 Crooner Comes ByJoey De ~~e’s blonde, he’s beautiful and his new style of classic crooning will be coming to the stage of the Oklahoma City Ford Center Mar. 4. Michael Bubld, the international superstar who has earned himself a place in music history with such hits as "Feelin’ Good," is coming to Oklahoma City as part of his third major US concert tour. All of the shows on the first leg of his 2007-2008 tour sold out in record time. Buble’ brings an irrepressible spirit, engaging humor, and confident charisma to the concert stage, and will perform hits from his current CD "Call me Irresistible and many other classics. Bubl& new CD, which he calls "my remark on the state of love," contains feeling that ,vill surprise and delight fans and impress those new to his music. "Irresponsible" contains more of Bubl& buoyant, modern interpretations and songs by such greats as Leonard Cohen, Eric Clapton and Cy Coleman. Michael won his first Grammy Award this year. The Grammy is for Best Traditional Pop Vocal Album for "Call Me Irresponsible", which shot to #1, topping the charts around the world. The album included the #1 hit single "Everything", and was the fastest trip to #1 in three years on Billboard’s Adult Contemporary chart. To purchase concert tickets go to www.ticketmaster. corn or visit the Ford Center box office. Visit www. michaelbuble.com for concert schedule. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 By Joey De what can be said about "f~nt" that hasfft (and sometimes infamous) rock-opera that changed Br6adway forever ,,,ill be closing its doors on the great ~q~ite Way in Jtm~ but before it dora, the national tour will be making several stops in th~ Midwest. "Rent" is the story, of a colorful collectiot~ of frien& in Manhattan’s East End around the tiim end of the eighties. Surrounded by" povert.>; the onset of the MDS epi&mic and the rise of corporate commercialism, this group of artists defies the norm and redefines the boundaries oflove. " says Jed Resnick, who plays Mark in promise ofAmerica is a country of tolerance harmony. just doesn’t l~appen in rea! life, there is so much hatred utopian and unreal ~ bom~daries." ’°Rent" are persona!. "This show was the first shame and that Resnick says he connected with privately as a him want was a major 998, the summer when I first characters rand connected. It became a dream m be in the sho~; and people joked with me in High School about it because I’m so close to Mark." According to the performer, taking on the role of the show’s filmmaking n~xrator was not too much of a srxetch. "Mark and Jed are both slightly neurotic, Jewish N ew Yorkers." he laughs. "I latched on to our surface similarities and then was able to discover this~gs I didn’t realize about b~n. Things like his passion for art and fl~e ~ower it has to affect change." Photo: Jed Resnick Cathedral ofHope Donates Scarves to Wilson Schoo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ For the fourth year in a row members of the Cathedral of Hope made scarves for Wilson Elementary School; In 2004 the church "adopted" Wilson for a number of service projects, since Wilson was their neighborhood school and included children from homeless shelters and section eight housing. Annual projects include collecting schoo! supplies, donating tissues during cold season, and sewing scarves every winter. This year members worked over two nights creating over 60 scarves. One couple also donated gloves and hats. On Tuesday, February 5, church members delivered the goodies to the school. According to pastor, the Rev. Dr. Scott Jones, "The assistant principal told us that every year the kids look forward to the day the scarves are handed out and that they wear them every day a~er that." Nancy Sanders, who has helped with the project every year said, "It’s always a lot of fun for the kids and fun for us too." the STAR Deep b~4de HolI)~ood, reports on n~projectsfor Madonna and Ian Zierine~ Madonna khad to happen. Madonna mous disdain fbr her acting the camera. The finished product is recently premiered at the Berli~ mttsement. It stars the band Gogol Bordello) in a loose, in common with Madonna’s with her later it a refreshing new path uphill cred mountain to climb, but almost a lock that distribution reinvention will be as an aut~ur. a!most unani- Ian Ziering Move~ from Stretch marks, bloated ankles, ous. At least, that’s xvhat the makers given the success of other new comedy stars as a mar STAR Love on tb~e Nile (The Constant Gardener) looks like eyeliner - a good to be starring in a romance set jandro ~Am~ena bar (The will direct the film, about a slave (Oscar in love with his mistress at the dawn of the Christian era, Paradise Now) co-stars as a zea!- her statuette for The Constant variety of roles in movies like ~nd Definitel> Maybe, and this a~s-yet- Starts shooting this month - promises to eclectic. )..ueer Cinema" in the early ofa small miracle when a gay indie movie rea! theaters outside Trevor is one of those movies. Goodman, of unknowns, about queer the suddenly deep waters of adult life, appreciation that the recent "new naturalist" films of upstart directors like Andrew getting from critics and when the fihn gets released in May. © www.ozarksstar.com Ragged Blade Cor cer Oklahoma City February 29 h Photo by Mike W/site: Ashley Saphian, Isaac Cherry, Jerry Rabushka, ZachJett ST LOUIS, MO (P/R) __ They are faster! louder! more blues! and more country! Ragged Blade has made four theatrical excursions to the IAO in Oklahoma City and now they’re on tap for a concert of Music worth waiting for. An evening of original pop, country, blues, and ballads by songwriter & playwright Jerry Rabushka. You’ll hear songs from some of the plays that have come to the IAO last year, and some newly hatched music with Rabushka’s trademark deep emotion and beautiful harmonies. Hang out with us for co01 country songs. No Luck At Home, the bluesy and sexually charged, Wrong Side OfTown, and Jerry’s lonely ballad Diner 4 AM. The band: Zach Jett (vocals) has toured with Ragged Blade for over a year and has been to the IAO for Woofl. The Road Show and Love of Last Resort. Ashley Saphian (vocals) has performed in several RB plays and concerts. Isaac Cherry (drums) has toured nationally as a solo drummer and with such bands as Animal 13 on the east coast and the Malibu Minstrels on the west. Jerry Rabushka (keyboard and vocals) has written & produced several musicals, was nominated for a national award for outstanding Instrumental Recording by New York based Outmusic in 2003, and received an award from the St. Louis Arts For Life Foundations for his original score to the musical, The Soviet Tango. IAO Gallery, 811 N. Broadway Oklahoma City 405-232-6060 8:00 EM. $5.00 cover At that price you can bring LOTS of friends!! For more info please visit www.raggedblade.com or www.iaogallery. org March 2008 the STAR 13 by Liz Highleyman~~ Past Out, which looks at the life 0fFTM pioneer L0u Sullivan. Who was Lou Sullivan ? ouis Graydon Sullivan was a pioneer of the transgender movement - not just as an organizer, but as perhaps the first female-to-male (FTM) transsexual to identify publicly as a gay man. Born in June 1951 and named Sheila Jean, Sullivan grew up in a working-class family in a suburb of Milwaukee, \Vgis. He was educated at Catholic schools and took a secretarial job at the University ofWisconsin after graduating from high school. Though Sullivan later recalled that he had enjoyed "playing boys" as a child, his issues around gender and sexuality came to the fore when he was a teenager. "I look in the mirror and say to myself, ’That’s you, Sheila. That girl over there is you.’ It seems so funny," he wrote in his diary at age 14. Before long he started wearing men’s-style white shirts and ties, eventually adding men’s slacks, shoes, and hairstyle. By the early 1970s, Sullivan self-identified as a "heterosexual female transvestite who was sexually attracted to gay men," and had embarked on a long-term relationship with an effeminate man. Sullivan was active in the nascent gay liberation movement, which embraced gender-bending and favored the androgynous aesthetic of the broader counterculture. He was involved with Milwaukee’s first gay rights group, the Gay People’s Union (GPU), and helped produce its newsletter. Jumping into the controversy over drag within the women’s movement, he wrote "A Transvestite Answers a Feminist" 14 the STAR for GPU News in 1973, followed a year later by "Looking Towards Transvestite Liberation," which was widely reprinted in other gay and lesbian publications. Over the next few years, Sullivan’s gender identity shifted from transvestite to transsexual. In 1975, he and his boyfriend moved to San Francisco; as a parting gift, his supportive family gave him a good suit and an heirloom pocket watch engraved "Go West Young Man." But even amid the city’s queer milieu, Sullivan had difficulty finding others like himselfi "I want to look like what I am," he once wrote, "but don’t know what someone like me looks like." Though still presenting as a woman in his job as a secretary for the Wilson Sporting Goods company, most of the rest of the time Sullivan fully cross-dressed and lived as a gay man, hanging out in gay bars and enjoying an adventurous sex life. Sullivan sought sex-reassignment surgery in the late 1970s, but was repeatedly denied because he openly identified as ~y at a time when people undergoing the procedure were expected to adopt stereotypical heterosexual opposite-sex gender roles. "They were invested in taking sissy gay boys and transforming them into straight women, and taking tomboy women who were socially unacceptable and changing them into straight men," according to fellow FTM Shadow Morton. Sullivan recalled that one gender clinic told him he could not possibly live as a gay man, since gay men were primarily interested in large penises. Sullivan’s frustration led him to campaign for the removal of homosexuality as a contraindication for sex reassignment - an effort that finally succeeded in the late 1980s. At a time when most gender services focused on male-to-female transsexuals, he volunteered as the first FTM peer counselor with San Francisco’s Janus Information Facility (a clearinghouse for information about transsexuality) and wrote the earliest informational booldet for transmen, _Information for the Female to Male Cross-Dresser and Transsexual_ (1980). He later authored a biography of early 20th-century "passing woman" Jack Bee Garland. Sullivan was a co-founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society of Northern California (now the GLBT Historical Society), helping to ensure that it was inclusive of transgender lives. In 1979, after several refusals from established university-based gender dinics, Sullivan found sympathetic therapists and doctors and began taking testosterone. He had a double mastectomy and started a new technician job where co-workers had never known him as a woman. He finally underwent genital surgery in 1986, but experienced complications and never fully recovered; that same year, he was diagnosed as HIV positive. "I took a certain pleasure," he wrote, "in informing the gender clinic that even though their program told me I could not live as a gay man, it looks like I’m going to die like one." Sullivan devoted his final years to building the network ofFTM contacts he had acquired over a decade into an organization, and eventually a visible movement. In 1986, he began holding peer-support get-togethers for people on the male transgender spectrum, which evolved into the present-day FTM International - today the largest and longest-running organization of its kind. Yet he continued to take the time to answer the many letters he received from transmen around the world, hoping to dispel the sense of isolation he had felt. Sullivan died of an AIDS-related illness in March 1991, after malting plans to ensure that the organization he created would continue. "Lou Sullivan left behind a mailing list of about 230 names, a roll of stamps, the model of inclusion in his support group, and the ethic of service to a community he hoped would someday exist," said de facto successor Jamison Green. "Now it almost does. In life and since his death, he has been an inspiration for many transmen, both gay and straight." w~,wv.ozarksstar.corn 1) Langmeil Three Gardens Barossa Valley ’05- Shiraz, Grenache and Mourv~dre. Smooth and round, with raspberry & plum most prominent/lean finish. 2) Yellow Tail Reserve Shiraz ’06- Ripe and aromatic. The past 2 vintages have scored some high points with national wine critics/ worth checking out. 3) Yalumba Y Series Shiraz-Viognier 2006- Spicy, but the mix of Viognier makes a presence of lychee and peach. 4) Molly Dooker The Boxer 2006 - Ripe and smoky. A mouthful of raspberry with white pepper. A state allocated wine/very hard to find bottle here in town so if ya see it, get it! 5) Marquis Phillips Sarah’s Blend 2005- Shiraz, Cabernet and Merlot. Check out the Roogle on the label. It’s cross between an Eagle and a Kangaroo and signifies the friendship between the US and Australia. Great taste/recommended. 6) Lindemans Padthaway Reserve 2005- Generous cherry and raspberry flavors. From the Hunter Valley about and hour and a half from Sydney. Also gets rave reviews. And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Mr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/www.WineSpectator.com www.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org By Joey De Photo: David Barlo,~ a,~d A,,~a,~da Ba/on CopyrightJoa*¢ Marcus 2007 TULSA, OK __ One of America’s most beloved musicals, "Annie" is celebrating its 30th anniversary tour, and giving a whole new generation the chance to experience this classic about never giving up hope. The timeless tale of Little Orphan Annie is coming to the Tulsa PAC March 4-9. With music by Charles Strouse and book by Thomas Meeban, ’%nhie" is again directed by lyricist Martin Charnin, who directed the original 1977 Broadxvay production. After xvinning seven Tony Axvards in 1977, including Best blusica!, Book and Score the shoxv ran for 2,377 performances and is one of the top 20 longest running shows in Broadxvay history. With one of Broadxvay’s most memorable scores, including t~ the Hard-Knock Life" and ’"~tomorrow,""~"(~nnie,"is the feel-good shoxv to bring a smile to any, face. Tickets may be purchased at 596-7111, via the internet at wwxv. MyTicketOffice.com or by visiting the PAC box oft{ce. Get the STAR delivered to your home or office. 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 the ~TA~ Seepage 29for o,’der blank. An Italian-Creole restaurant in New Orleans. Bayou Crawfish Etouffee 1/4 pound butter 4 cups chopped onions 2 cups chopped green peppers 1 1/2 teaspoons fresh chopped garlic 4 cups sliced mushrooms 1 1/2 teaspoons flour Salt and pepper to taste 1 tablespoon cayenne pepper 4 dashes Tabasco sauce 1 tablespoon garlic powder 2 cups whipping cream 1 cup half-and-half 1 3/4 cups tomato sauce Melt butter in large heavy-duty pot. Add onions, peppers, garlic and all seasonings. Saute, stirring occasionally until onions are translucent (15 minutes). Add mushrooms and saute for 5 minutes. Add flour and mix thoroughly for 1 minute, stirring often. Add whipping cream and half-and-half. Cook until cream thickens but does not boil, stirring often. Add tomato sauce and cook for 15 minutes. Add desired meat, seafood or crawfish. Stirring often, cook until meat or vegetables are done. The longer you let the sauce cook, the more flavorful it becomes. More on PASCAL’S MANALE Restaurant see page 22 www.ozarksstar.com cONOUES T Join our gay and Imbian group aboard Carnival Cow,quest© ~ we set sail from Galvesm~ and call o~ the beaurifhi ports in Monrego Ba); Grand Cayman and Cx~zumel. There is no better way to celebrate Halloween than aboard a funship with Gayribbean Cruises, We offer: Our fr~ntasdc Halloweml Costume Part),, Nighdy Mixers and SO MUCH MORE ! Book early and save. Ask how m receive $75 shipboard cre<~t! For information & Reservations www.GaydbbeanCruisesocom by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "Countess Alexis with Ray Williams" Lypsinka Frank Marino One of the manygreat things about travel.in~ is,.besid.es me.eting interestin,~,people and visiting beautiful places, sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few- )mars We were fortunate to be able to see these entertainers in action. They ernb0dy all that is good in a true entertainer. ...... fun, funny; sometimes elegant and they all put on a great show. THE COUNT.S, B&EXIS DEL LAGO of Paris, New York and HollDvood. one of the most remarkable, amazing and elegant pers0nalilties that we have,ever met in our travels. She was the most elegant drag queen ofthe 80 s New York City, she then moved to \Vest Hollywooa and 6pened a wonderful antiques b(~utique shop. She WAS Marlene Dietrich, afI day and every day[ Sh£ is the cla~;iest add best &essed of them all. She *~,-~as (~nd stil! is) a r~al star when everyone else was just pretending. She performed on stage, movies and tete~2ision. She was a bi~ hit at the famous Pyramid Club in New York and with the Andy Wathol group. Her latest moade, SUPERSTAR IN A HOUSEDRESS, only proves how classy,she still iS. And always hers,d£ She believed in herself as most people don t. MOst people either dont have the, courage to be themselve~s,o,~ are s,o unsure about wh~ they are that they cant. As the Countess stares, It wasrft that I was so fabulous, it is just that the others were so stupid. \Ve have never seen her when she &dnt look hke a milhon dollars. She ALWAYS makes a grain entrance where ever she goes. And why not? She ~s N~e Countess : Check out http:lt~wv.youtube.com/watch?v=lG2DATQ_dlA to see a fabulous sm,en minute fihn clip. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at theAI~ Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKM THE BOX.ED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Conme Franos, Llbby Morns, Dorothy Sqmres and the 50 s musical ,con Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations where,)er he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaini~ag this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike marli, performers he stretches the boundaries. ~e H~llDvood Reporter says L smka ~s hke nothing you ve seen before. Theamcat art,stry that ne er seems to slow down" The New York~mes says "I.ypsinka is a fascinating, ftmny and disturbing spectacle." From the opening scene ro the finale this performer never lets down the audience. He is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else l~}m just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to ww~:lypsinka.corn. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riviera Hotel in Las Vegas , is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "_Joan River’s’ routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in I.as Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crmv put on a class act show. He emcees the’show and introduces the different performers who do Chef. Shirley MacLaine, Tina, and many others. Tlaeir show is sold out almost every night. It is basically a musicallcomedy revie~v with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes cosrurnes between every set which gives a grear dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is ~x~;frankmarino.com .............................Continued next page 18 the STAR v~w.ozarksstar.com Creating Community for People ~ivin9 with H~V/AIDS .A 50~. c (3) Non P~ofit O~ganization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIM+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistanoe to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.oom. Neighborhood s recently as the mid-1990s, relatively few visitors spent time in Chelsea, the neighborhood on Manhattan’s west side between Midtown and Greenwich Village. Today, however, Chelsea abounds with gay bars, coo! restaurants, diverting shops, avant-garde galleries, and an increasing number of hotels. It’s become arguably the city’s hottest destination for gay visitors, and a wonderful neighborhood to spend a weekend or short vacation. This part of the city was developed in the 1830s by clergyman Clement Clark Moore, author of"A Visit from St. Nicholas" ("~B~vas the night before Christmas..."), whose family owned most of the area. Well into the mid-20th century, Chelsea was a drab, lower-income neighborhood where workers at nearby garment factories and river docks lived in cheap boardinghouses and rickety, airless tenements. But as gays began moving here in the ’70s and ’80s, gentrification gradually took hold. And in recent years, the neighborhood has developed cachet among both residents and visitors as one of the trendiest areas in the city as well as one of the nation’s most dynamic gay communities. Chelsea comprises roughly the blocks between 5th Avenue and the Hudson River, with 14th Street forming the neighborhood’s southern boundary. Most locals consider 23rd Street to be its northern edge, but others argue the border extends as far north as 28th or even 32nd Street. For all practical purposes - particularly in terms of retail, dining, and clubbing - you’ll find the most intriguing businesses between 14th and 23rd streets. And where gay-popular establishments are concerned, the main drag is 8th Avenue, with 7th Avenue a close runner-up. Additionally, 9th and 10th avenues have witnessed the tide of gentrification in recent years, particularly as top galleries have moved into the western reaches of Chelsea. 20 the STAR )ff~rs little in the way of attractions, unless, of course, you count shopping as a form of sightseeing. If you wander along West 20th through West 27th streets in the block west of 10th Avenue, you’ll find storefront after storefront of cutting-edge art galleries - check out www.chelseaartga~leries.com for details on upcoming shows. Fans of dance should note two important neighborhood institutions: the art deco Joyce Theater, which hosts high-quality dance companies throughout the year, and the dramatic Dance Theater Workshop, around the corner, which also presents acclaimed concerts throughout the year. The neighborhood draws plenty of foodies to its Chelsea Market, a bustling concourse of gourmet food stalls in which you’ll find tantalizing Thai food, savory soups, fine wines, heavenly baked goods, and lots more. In fact, restaurants have become one of the neighborhood’s leading draws. There are the obvious bastions of gay social life, such as Viceroy and Food Bar for rather standard American chow, and campy VYNL, which is known for its eclectic Asian and international dishes, plus outstanding martinis. Gym buffs on high-protein diets favor Better Burger, with its menu of lean, char-grilled burgers and fresh-squeezed juices. Other hot spots include the funky Thai restaurant Room Service, known for such ldcky creations as Thai-spicy tuna salad and chile-rubbed salmon; and Suenos, which serves some of the most innovative regional Mexican fare in the city - be sure to try the duck-confit quesadillas with poached pears and ancho chileso For weekend brunch, don’t miss East of Eighth, which turns out first-rate contemporary American food and offers lively cabaret in the evenings. Few spots are more popular at lunchtime than Dish, a glorified diner of sorts, which is also known for its relaxing Saturday and Sunday brunch. Snackers and noshers will find plenty of toothsome options, including F&B Gudtfood for gourmet hot dogs and European-style street food, Murray’s for some of the city’s finest bagels, and Pinkberry, for the mysterious yogurt-esque frozen-dessert snacks that have taken the city by storm. On the west side of the neighborhood, you can count on the Red Cat for a terrific meal of creative American fare, such as a fantastic paprika-roasted cod with spicy escarole and an anchovy-almond sauce. At cozy Tia Pol, choose from a long list of outstanding Spanish tapas, while the much-hyped Craftsteak is your go-to for superb cuts of beef- it’s part ofTom Colicchio’s (ofTV’s Top Chef) growing restaurant empire. Chelsea has become the epicenter of gay nightlife in New York City (although it’s fair to say that the Hells Kitchen and East Village neighborhoods provide plenty of competition). There are the trendy spots, such as G Lounge, a sea of coiffed and smartly dressed men hobnobbing around a central bar or relaxing in mod lounge chairs; and the long-running Splash, a two-floor temple of chic gay clubbing known for its go-go dancers and throbbing music. Quirky Barracuda cultivates a mixed arty and cruisy bunch, while the bilevel Eagle caters to the usual set of bears, leather men, and ardent porn enthusiasts (old-fashioned blue movies play on the video screens). www.ozarksstar.com Rawhide is an old-school neighborhood bar with an age-diverse following, and the friendly Gym Sportbar has become the darling of the post-workout crowd. Locals hangouts like View Bar and XES can seem empty or bustling depending on the night, and a couple of pulsing warehouse discos, Rush and Stereo, round out the scene. Chelsea has relatively few hotel rooms compared with other key Manhattan neighborhoods, but it’s a 10- to 20-minute walk (or a short cab or subway ride) from the scads of hotels in Midtown. What you will find in Chelsea, however, are several properties with reasonable rates, most catering heavily to the gay market. A favorite of history buffs is the raffish Hotel Chelsea, the city’s tallest building when it was built in the 1880s. This bohemian hostelry has been the home of all sorts of fascinating characters, from William Burroughs to Jasper Johns to Allen Ginsberg: Just up the street, the modern and rather basic Chelsea Savoy Hotel has a terrific location at the corner ofWest 23rd Street and 7th Avenue, and rooms here can run as low as $99 nightly. Among the big chains, there’s a Four Points by Sheraton Manhattan Chelsea on West 25th Street, and the Hampton Inn Chelsea on West 24th Street. Both of these are clean, well-managed, and affordable. This hip neighborhood is rapidly developing, though, and within a few years you’ll find a number of additional hotels to choose from. For instance, the trendy hotel brand Indigo is planning a 122-room property for 127 West 28th Street, to open in early 2009. And, just a short walk east of Chelsea in a similarly vibrant area, you might consider the uber-coolWNew York Union Square, a swank stunner that occupies the 1911 beaux-arts Guardian Life building and contains Todd English’s bustling Olives restaurant and Rande Gerber’s see-and-be-seen Underbar. Or check into Ian Schrager’s luxuriously re-imagined Gramercy Park Hotel, a glam boutique hotel overlooking the elegant park of the same name. Among smaller, gay-oriented properties, a reliable pick is the Chelsea Pines Inn, which occupies a charming 1850s town house in the heart of the neighborhood. Rooms with semiprivate bath (sink and shower are in your room, but the toilet is shared with several other rooms on same floor) start at $140, while rooms with private baths begin at $175. An even better value, with rates beginning around $130 for shared-bath units, the Chelsea Lodge is set along handsome West 22nd Street and contains 22 cozy, clean, and pleasantly furnished rooms. When you consider that generic, bland chain properties in Midtown can charge well over $400 per night, these two intimate and friendly Chelsea hideaways are a real bargain. And you can use the money you save to dine well in the neighborhood’s dozens of inviting eateries. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Okllahoma’s H V/STD Hot ine PROTECT YO F PROTECT YOUR PA ° F,¢ee. me~HIV testify, t~ 20 H.O.P;~. Tes~:~ng C~inic ~ens Oetreach Pr~ram www.ozarksstar.com the STAR :)1 ~ 6, 2008 ItMian’Creole restaurant in New Orleans Fotmded in 1913, this family-run, ItaJian,Creole restaurant is 8) i New Orle~s at baxbecued shrimp. N~is . from the se~,ice to the decor. oyster bar ~nd on ~e hflf shel! and fll ~es of cocktails. We offer Sp~cialfies and delicio~ stea~, ~ i in traddtion; ir ~ s and ~hes it out daily in ~e ~tO lmltate~ !tiNe;Andwhenyou! We&esday thru Friday : thru Saturda); 5 PM to closing ~d cloSed 0h March 2008 WHITE PARTY SPRING BREAK 2008 PRESENTS THREE DAYS AND FOUR NIGHTS OF THE BEST PARTIES ON THE PLANET !’~"~ Men from all over the world converge on Palm Springs : April 17.21, 2008. Surprise performances happening aft weekend long! PALM SPRINGS, CA (PR) This is the event that attracts men from all over the world to the desert oasis of Palm Springs, CA ! Jeffrey Sanker’s White Party Spring Break happens at new date in 2008--April 17-21, with an action-packed weekend of non-stop parties, superstar performances and the hottest men from all over the globe. Totally new for 2008: the sexy Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party, happening Friday, will let it all hang out. Saturday’s main event: White Party - Boogie Fever celebrates 30 years of dance music. Not to mention Sunday’s Extreme T Dance, an over-the-top dance event taking the action farther than it’s ever been before. Weekend passes are on sale now at www.CircuitTicket.com. Express Weekend Passes ($350 until Feb. 15) include: Absolute priority access to all weekend events; Access to VIP lounge at the Saturday White Party and Sunday T Dance; Official White Party Spring Break Gift Bag and Unlimited complimentary bottled water at White Party and T Dance. Weekend Passes ($250 until Feb. 15) include: Express Entrance to White Party, T Dance & Closing Party; complementary admission to Thursday Welcome Party, plus a $25 add-on for admission to Boxers and Briefs Underwear Party. For additional information or to purchase passes in advance online, visit: www.jeffreysanker.com or vcww.circuiticket.com. For more information, call (310) 360-6100. The host hotel for White Party 2008 is the fabulous Wyndham Palm Springs, the center of all the poolside action, home to nighttime events and location of the official welcome center. For reservations, call: (760) 322-6000. Mention WP when making reservations to receive a special rate. Back by popular demand: The ultimate VIP treatment lets you experience White Party in the lap of luxury with a range of personalized services right at your fingertips. Again in 2008, White Party Spring Break offers a limited number of luxurious VIP packages to make your weekend truly unforgettable. Packages include a range of options such as premium accommodations, lavish amenities including a personal concierge, private cabanas, security escorts and special upgrades. All packages feature exclusive VIP bottle service at Saturday night’s White Party and the SundayT Dance. Visit: www. jeffreysanker.com for more details. The STAR 23 and the By Ronald Blake esterday was my thirty-ninth birthday. I chose to wake with the roosters and run a five kilometer race to begin my fete of this event. I ruminated on my choice of a celebratory method be.fore, during, and after this competition. I discovered many reasons ~vhy I dragged my partner and our little canine companion along with me to this athletic spectacle. There is not much traffic on an early Saturday morning when you are headed to a physical challenge. I was able to really notice the mountains when I wasn’t beset by droves of angry, chafed, rush-hour motorists. I realized that the mountains were even more majestic with their verdant hue given the recent rains here in the desert. The rising sun added its paintbrush to this mountain landscape with its spangling of yellows and oranges. A good reason to get up and run. We drove past the Phoenix International Raceway on our journey to the starting line. I have lived in the Valley of the Sun for over three years and had never seen this imposing NASCAR edifice. It was quietly assuming its regnant place alongside its panoply of mountains. We also had never been to the location of this gala running affair. It too was nestled next to the mountains and was a magnificent oasis in the ribald desert landscape. I felt a contemporary thrill of a Louis and Clark moment as I gazed upon virgin ground. A good reason to get up and run. There were other people at the race site when I arrived. These people also had running shoes and were stretching. These people also brought friends, family members, and their little dogs too. These people also ran the course, sweated, and finished completely exhausted. I wasn’t the only one early to bed and early to rise. We shared camaraderie and a commonality that morning. A good reason to get up and run. I received a T-shirt, bananas, a medal, an olio of donated sundries, and some friendly discourse through out my experience. It did cost me twentyfive dollars to participate but I am not offering any regrets. I could just as easily have spent that money on a well-earned hangover but I already have plenty of those notched in my craw! of fame. I am pleased with my assortment of newly acquired memorabilia. A good reason to get up and run. There was live music after the race. It was provided by your quintessential three men and a lady cover band. The backdrop was a cupola adorned, ornate clubhouse and a lake begirded with palm trees. I would have settled for anything at that time. I had just felt the intrinsic satisfaction of completing an arduous task and the extrinsic reward of a salvo of cheers for my fait accompli. A very good reason to get up and run. I am thirty-nine today and I wil! be forty next year. I have no control over the passage of time. I will continue to enjoy my flight through the ages and I will continue to augment my reasoning for getting up and running...until the flight ends. ~sis health andfitness column is brought to you by that gvgy who noticed that sex act is followed by sexagenarian in the dictionary. ~at connect the dots guy is Ron Blake and he can be vivified at www.goblakefimess. co~n, www.ozarksstar.com ART SHOW: Between sumi-d, drawings, oil paintings and sculpture, Shawn’s work has been shown and sold in dozens of one-woman and group showings and through commissioned work. Merry Schepers is also a native Otdahoman whose works in porcelain, clay and multimedia embrace a broad stylistic spectrum from flying porcelain vessels to shamanic, archetypal masks to functional stoneware. She earned her BA from Montclair State University (N.J.) and has worked in clay for over thirteen years. As a member of the Alternative Outsider artists, she participates in that group’s annual show. She also shows in galleries in Tulsa, Ok. and Fayetteville, AR. and participates in Tulsa’s Blue Dome Arts Festival. The exhibit will remain up through the month of March, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’sfor Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Ga); Bisexual & Tram’gender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation ofthe Dennis R. Neill Equali~y Center. Oklahoma City mayor challenges citizens to loose 1 million pounds OKLAHOMA CITY - With a button-popping spread of cornbread, sausage and gravy, chicken fried steak and pecan pie designated as Oklahoma’s official state meal, it’s no surprise that Oklahoma City’s mayor wants to put the city on a diet. Mick Cornett has challenged the city to shed 1 million pounds as its New Year’s resolution. A1 McAffrey To Speak At OK County Democrats Medallion Dinner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __M is the Representative for House District 88 and will be the Master of Ceremonies for our Medallion Dinner. The Oklahoma County Democrats Medallion Dinner, with Jim Roth and Al McAffrey, will be taking place on March 8, 2008 at the Regal Room (Ned’s Catering), 625 NW Grand Blvd, OKC, 73118. Visit the website for updated information, sponsor & ticket prices, and easy online ticket purchasing. www.okcountydemocrats.org Oklahoma Governor say’s NO to National Real ID (PR) The federal effort to create a national identity card, called the Real ID card, would take us one step closer to a surveillance society, erode our right to privacy and put our personal information at risk. Luckily, governors in five states, including Oklahoma, courageously rejected this invasive law. Now we need these governors to stand their ground so that Congress will be forced to repeal this horrifying program! Real ID would force all states to connect their DMV databases to one single interlinked system -- facilitating government tracking of ordinary Americans. It would also expose our most sensitive personal information to criminal identity theft. Thanks to your Governor, this invasive law -- and the dramatic tax increases required to pay its massive price tag -- was courageously rejected in Oklahoma. Help make sure that no American is forced to use the costly "Big Brother" Real ID card. The national Real ID card will take away our privacy and treat all Americans like enemies of the state! "The nature of the questions LGBT human rights defenders were asked, repeatedly trying to link homosexuality and pedophilia, simply shows how far our stubborn opposition is ready to go to put obstacles before LGBT groups on their way to recognition as members of civil society," the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) said in a statement. Just two of many reasons the right wing hates McCain. 1. Same-sex marriage. McCain refuses to support a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. 2. Stem-cell research. McCain would relax restrictions on federal dollars for embryonic stem cell research, which critics consider tantamount to abortion. BERLIN (AP) __ A new Berlin memorial to the Nazis’ gay victims should be ready within months, officials said Thursday. The $890,000 memorial to gay victims will be located in Berlin’s Tiergarten Park, across from the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe, Culture Minister Bernd Neumann said. Homosexuality was banned under the Nazis. Tens of thousands of people, primarily men, were arrested, and many were sent to concentration camps. BEIJING (AFP) Chinas Ministry of Health is set to implement its first ever national programme to curb the spread of HIV/ AIDS among gay men. "The programme aims to strengthen measures to prevent and control the deadly disease among the homosexual community," the China Daily quoted Wang \greizhen, a senior official with the ministry’s HIWAIDS prevention department, as saying. "By learning more about gay people, we can better protect them against this incurable disease. Studies are under way in several cities to collect information on gay men, such as their.., behavioural patterns." The programme will also deliver special funding and technical support to gay men, Wang said, without giving further details. There are over 700 thousand gay men with HIV/AIDS in China. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 27 "Be cor~servative with money, Gemini!" As Mars enters Cancer, productive efforts are easily clouded by moods and misunderstandings. While he opposes Pluto, frustrations can gain exaggerated importance. You may feel like you need an oar to propel your craft forward, but what you may really need is a shovel to dig to the root of existing challenges. ARIES (March 20 -Apri~ 19): Yours is the sign of the lone wolf, but you are now aiming for the role of head of the household. The responsibilities and obligations really don’t suit you. Try for the position of "elder statesperson" or dowager instead. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Little domestic arguments can explode way too easily. Are you just being stubborn? How important are those details, anyway? Your arguments may be more aesthetic than logical, but they should still be explainable in a calm, friendly manner. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Be very careful and conservative with your money. Household and proper~ investments or any renegotiation of debt should be checked out very thoroughly. Sexual urges may take an emotional cost, challenging you to think more about your deeper needs. CANCER (June 21 -July 22): Acting on impulse can transform your relationship, and probably not for the better. Channel that energy into thinking ahead and talking about what you want, what your partner wants, and how you can deepen your connection. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worrying about your health or work only makes problems - real or imagined - worse. Take positive steps, and check out anything that bears watching. Remember the difference between focus and obsession, and stick to the task at hand. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Your political aims are coming from somewhere deep in your gut, which is fine. But sensible strategy should come from your brilliant-butnow- vacationing brain. Artistic, creative expressions will give you the outlet you need. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Courtesy is usually your strongest conviction. Now other deep beliefs provoke you to speak up against authority. Think carefully about mouthing off to the police or your boss. If you want to raise hell, find a public demonstration that suits your politics. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your urge for arguments seems to be coming out of nowhere. Try to focus that energy toward digging into topics that interest you. Take up a good challenge to keep your mind busy and your mouth out of trouble! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your sexual appetite is surging, but so is your deeper desire for commitment. One is so much more easily satisfied than the other that you might find any effort frustrating. Try seeing the glass as half full. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Is your partner being too aggressive, or are you just being stubborn? You can do something about the latter. Fights come easily, but so does passion. You really need a struggle. Be nice, and you could get a good one! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Wanting too much can be a great spur to action, but acting impulsively on excessive desire is a sure path to accidents and illness. Meditate, think ahead, and confide in a friend with a cooler head before acting. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Acting on your playful urges will have far-reaching ramifications. Focus those desires responsibly and creatively. Infuriating people is not a mark of success per se, but be bold enough to risk pissing off the right people for the right reasons. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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A fun filled weekend May 23 through May 25th 2008. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. Photo: Klint Wieden with his horse Cherokee. "I grew up in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett. I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am." Klint told the Star. PAGE-12 Newly revamped drag-free Tulsa Pride 2008 unveiled By Joey De OKLAHOMA CITY, OK ~The fun begins with the Great Plains Rodeo Kickoff Party hosted at the Finishline Thursday, May 22 featuring the current reigning OGRA Royalty. This is a great chance to meet and greet, dance and party, and ready yourself for the weekend to come. State Fairgrounds on Saturday May 24 and Sunday May 25, beginning at 8 a.m. both days. To keep the weekend wild the Texas Gay Rodeo Association will host their Texas T Party on that Saturday in the Copa from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. featuring fantastic food and fun. The host hotel for the Rodeo is the Hilton Garden Inn, and there is a block of rooms available at a special rate from May 22-26 that will be available until May 16 or until they sell out, whichever comes first. Registration for the event happens Friday from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. Tickets are available from OGRA members for $10 or $15 at the gate. The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (OGRA) is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. OGRA is proud to be the first association seated at the first ever IGRA Convention in 1985 For more information check out the OGRA website at www.ogra.net. The Rodeo takes place at the Oklahoma TULSA, OK __ Organizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. "We have made a lot of changes to the entire celebration," says Nate Black, one of the co-chairs. Black says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. "People don’t kno,v downtown. They don’t know how to get here, they don’t know where to park, they don’t know how many things are down here and growing," Black says. "We have moved the events to ................ Continued Page 5 ��i 7 West 7th Street (corner 7th & ~3oulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74ii9 www.ozarksstar.com �1:800o535oAtDS (2437) PROTECT YOURSELF PROTKOT YOUR PAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �Join us for our biggest issue of the year! PRIDE 2008. Be a part of RESERVE YOUR SPACE NOW Deadline Thursday l~ay t 5f.h Serving the Oklahoma GLBT community since 2003. �Mr OkAahoma Continentall Benefits OYP Tulsao By Judy G. Charles Frederick Mr Oklahoma Continental 2008 TULSA, OK __ March 28th, Singer and entertainer Chades Frederick, Mr. Oklahoma Continental, began one of the many benefits planned to support Openarms Youth Project in Tulsa to a standing room only crowd. Many parents and grandparents of the entertainers were in attendance. David Dees, owner of Club Majestic, 124 N. Boston, Tulsa, donated the use of the dub for this worthy benefit. ~he event raised $770 for OYE. Entertainers were Sabastyn Croft, Tazia Kennedy, Cort, Brooke Kennedy-Miss OK National Queen, Mindy Bartlett, KC Morgan, Kordylia Kennedy, Alex Kennedy, Iman Scott-Miss Goddess 2007, Daphne Rio and Nicole Poverty-Miss OYE. Donations to benefit the GLBT youth group, many who are or were homeless just because they are gay, can be made to Openarms Youth Project, 2015-B S. Lakewood, Tulsa, Ok. 74112, or contact Tim or Ken at 918838-7104. TULSA PRIDE: give people a reason to check it (downtown) out, but also to come enjoy our new center and see how many resources are available." The first big change this year that Black notes is the separation of the Pride Festival from the Pride Parade. This year, the parade will occur June 7 and the festival will occur June 14. For the latest updates on the Tulsa Pride Celebration, visit their web site at www. tulsapride.org. 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit OKC Following a national trend, the Pride Parade will be held in the evening, escaping the oppressive summer sun. The parade will fol!ow a new route, taking it from the Brady Arts District through downtown to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Saturday, May 10, 9am-5pm, Ronald J. Norick Downtown Library, 300 Park Avenue, Oklahoma City When the parade ends at 4th and Kenosha, the new Pride Block Party will kick off: "There will be 2 stages of entertainment, beer tents, vendors and all kinds of activities," says Black, who also notes that national music sensation Eric Himan will be performing. Black also says that for those with children, the second floor of the equality center will be open to provide licensed babysitters for a small fee. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Cimarron Alliance Foundation wil! host the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit a one-day event with four sessions of workshops. This year’s summit features more extensive workshops about our state legislature - by far the most attended session last year - and programs appealing to college students and young adults. There will also be two community forums. A week later, the Diversity Festival will kick off in Centennial Park just west of6th & Peoria. Black says that the newly revamped festival will feature two stages of entertainment with a multi-ethnic array of performers, an international food court, children’s area, local vendors and more. The 2007 LGBT Leadership Summit was successful beyond expectations. LGBT and LGBT-friendly persons and organizations acquired tools and guidance to more effectively manage themselves and, more importantly, better collaborate with others to accomplish common goals. According to Black, including other faith and ethnic communities is not an attempt to "de-gay" Pride, but to help create community allies. "We have to realize our commitment to justice can not be for the gay community only. We have to speak out against racism and against bigotry. "The GLBT community is in every population," "By increasing our alliances we strengthen our own commitment for our people." Workshops The 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit is a one-day event with four sessions of up to five workshops per session. Workshops will address five topics: ’This is still a gay pride event," Black emphasizes. There will be a leather fashion show, there will be drag queens, and there xvill be rainbows. It’s still very gay, but it is also more professional and more inclusive." The final major change that Black says will be occurring is the moving of the www.ozarksstar.com Diversity Gala to the historic Cain’s Ballroom. Black says that not only does this help to create an emphasis on downtown, but it also provides much needed space for the event to grow. Leadership Development O Organization Development - non-profits, fundraising, etc. o Government- politics and the legislative process ® Personal Development - spirituality, equality, etc. o Anti-violence - anti-bullying, hate crimes, etc. For more information go to: wvcw.cimarronalliance.org the STAR 5 �Loving the Hater Wlaile Hating the Hate The writer gives some specific examples of public, peaceful protest that we can engage in to show that LGBTs are neither the doormats nor the monsters our enemies make us By James Nimmo to be. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I found a link recently to a blog (vavw.bilerico.com) that contains a comment (http://tinyurl. com/4qdbph) written in reaction to reading the main story about the Oklahoma City chapter of PFLAG and their recording of Rep. Sally Kern (http://tinyurl.com/2zbpgn) that catches Kern in her spider web of hubris and cant. It’s odd that our suppressors are either afraid to be in the same room with us, fearing for their own bodily integrity, keeping their knees close together; or they, dismiss us as dippy airheads, frivolous and irresponsible. How can we be both at the same time? Like the author, I too am very disappointed with the approach of "loving the hater while hating the hate." Of course, I respect our supporters who use their close relationship with Jesus to try and gain support for LGBT citizens and other minorities who are used for verbal target practice in the ~var for suppression of civil rights. I’m delighted the Oklahoma City PFLAG chapter was able to document the duplicity of Sally Kern and record with her permission the lies she later reported as irresponsibility on the part of PFLAG. This single incident should show you the arrogance and madness that is being passed offas legislative Republican leadership. Not one elected official in Oklahoma from either major party has come strongly to the defense and support of the LGBT taxpayers living in Oklahoma. Had Kern used race, skin color, or ethnic origin as her subject I bet the rent she would be rene~ving her teaching certificate and looking for a school that would hire her. The First Amendment guarantees both sides the freedom to practice their respective religious viewpoints and the market place in which to talk about them. However, this same First Amendment does NOT give either side permission to encode their religious viewpoints into CIVIL law. I feel this is where we miss the boat in establishing our birthright to equal treatment under judicial law, and not the ten laws of Deuteronomy. There will always be a Bible verse to trump the opposing Bible verse resulting in a version of ping-pong skirmishes with Jesus as the referee. 6 the STAR Their response shows more about the fiction in their minds then about the truth of our lives. Until we get out of the religious justification business the more we’ll be dragged into its historical quagmire. Look at the present wars being fought around the world and you’ll see religious intolerance at the root. Our LGBT equality will have to be established in the legislatures and the courthouses in all fifty states without religious prejudice tipping the scales of justice. �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �e Comling o~ Age 8 the STAR w-ww.ozarksstar.com �©irecYed bs/Davd Geligan Oklahoma OiV June 8~ 2008 at 8pnq Brot~-~e~ Boy www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �by Liz Highleyman What is the history o£GLAAD ?? For more than two decades, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) has served as the queer community’s watchdog against biased portrayals of lesbian, ga); bisexual, and transgender people in the media. Up until the final decades of the 20th century, representations of LGBT people in l{lms, television, popular music, and mainstream publications - if present at all - typically focused on scandal or ridicule. The burst of gay activism and visibility in the late 1960s spurred a conservative backlash, and by the mid-1980s, the community was staggering under the weight of the AIDS epidemic, as people with HIV faced stigma exacerbated by media portrayals depicting them as a danger to the "general population." In 1985, the New York LGBT community was embroiled in a debate about closure of the .city’s gay bathhouses and grew- increasingly alarmed about sensationalistic AIDS coverage in the New York Post. That November, a group of long-time activists including Vito Russo, Arnie Kantrowitz, Jim Owles, and Darrell Yates Rist called a town meeting that drew more than 700 participants. Heeding the exhortation of author Jewetle Gomez to "take responsibility for what is being said about us," they formed the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). The group began as a grassroots effort, using phone trees and monthly newsletters to issue alerts about offensive media portrayals of LGBT people. Among its earliest victories, in 1987 GLAAD persuaded the New York Times to finally use the word "gay" rather than "homosexual." Ti~e following year, the New York group hired its first full-time executive director, Craig Davidson. Meanwhile, in Los Angeles, Richard Jennings and others started a new chapter focused on the Hollywood entertainment industry. The bicoastal organization’s clout continued to grow, enabling it to secure an apology from comedian Johnny Carson for saying "fag" on the air, followed by the suspension ofAndy Rooney by CBS for homophobic and racist comments. In 1992, Entertainment Weekly named GLAAD one of the 100 most powerful entities in Hollywood. Before long, new GLAAD chapters arose in Atlanta, Dallas, Denver, Kansas City, San Diego, San Francisco, and Washington, D.C. But in 1995, the local groups merged into a centralized national organization with a single board, and a staff based in New York and Los Angeles; two years later, former Showtime executive Joan Garry took the helm. Over the next decade, GLAAD initiated projects focusing on communities of color (including Spanish and Chinese language media), sports media, faith-based groups, and youth. GLAAD continued to exert insider pressure, and, when needed, to organize larger public protests against biased portrayals - like Sharon Stone’s murderous bisexual temptress in the film Basic Instinct (1992) - or the omission of queer content, such as excising 10 the STAR a male-male kiss from the television show Melrose Place. Homophobic song lyrics by rapper Eminem and Jamaican dancehall artists Beenie Man and Buju Banton were other targets. GLAAD also reacted to current events, such as the murders of Matthew Shepard and transgender teen Gwen Araujo, as well as homophobic outbursts by the likes of the late Rev. Jerry Falwell and Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum. But in keeping with its mission of promoting "fair, accurate, and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation," GLAAD also sought to shape positive portrayals. It consulted on television and movie scripts featuring LGBT characters and themes, pitched sympathetic stories to mainstream publications, provided spokespersons for talk shows, and trained queer individuals and groups in how to effectively use the media. In addition to wielding the "stick" of protest, the organization also dangled the "carrot" of praise, introducing the GLAAD Media Awards in 1990 to recognize favorable representations of the community and its issues. After considerable pressure from LGBT media, the organization agreed in 2007 to honor them along with nongay outlets. By 2005, when Garry turned over leadership to Neil Giuliano - the openly gay former Republican mayor of Tempe, Ariz. - the organization had a budget approaching $7.5 million and a staff of more than 40. Yet GLAAD’s explosive growth, insider strategy, and increased emphasis on star-studded events did not sit well with some activists who felt the organization had moved too far from its grassroots origins. Further, some were unhappy with tactics they regarded as censorship, such as the successful pressure campaign to cancel conservative commentator Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s television show. GLAAD has "a political agenda that is murky at best - at worst, it is dangerous to free speech, artistic expression, and the interests of LGBT people," wrote activist Michae! Bronski. "Judging the accuracy of a news report is much different than judging art. GLAAD can deal with these issues by getting out of show business and back into watchdog media commentary." Despite the criticism, GLAAD continues with its goal of"changing people’s hearts and minds through what they see in the media." According to the organization, "What people see at the movies or read in the newspaper shapes how they view and treat the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people around them, and we have a responsibility to make sure those images foster awareness, understanding and respect." For further reading: Bronski, Michael. 2005. ~Not So GLAAD Anymore." Z Magazine (May 1). Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. www.glaad.org. Gross, Larry: 2002. Up From Invisibility: Lesbians, Gay Men and the Media in America (Columbia University Press). www.ozarksstar.com �OkEq Announces Anrmat Equality Gala Saturday, May 3t, 6pm, Cain’s Ballroom, 423 N Main Ave TULSA, OK__ (ENEWS) Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce its annual Equality Gala, held this year at the legendary Cain’s Ballroom. Benefiting OkEq, the Gala honors Lifetime Achievement Axvard xvinner Charles Faudree, Community Heroes George Kaiser Family Foundation and Carol Crawford, and Russ Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award winner Nancy Day: The program features a champagne and hors d’oeuvre reception, live entertainment by Jared Tyler and Valerie Eskridge accompanied by Jacob Fred Jazz Odyssey, dinner by Taste Catering and wine donated by Loring Wine Company. Don’t miss the black tie event of the season, celebrating Tulsa’s rich diversity. Sponsorship information and tickets are available at: wxvw.okeq.org Co ° munity for People iving with H P !iA1D 8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit O~:gan:izatlon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. VVe provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mj r@yahoo.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m New exhibit featuring artist Ann Marie Distefano at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Emmy Award Winner Leslie Jordan (Brother Boy) In Oklahoma City. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, May 1, 2008, for the opening of it’s May exhibit, paintings by Ann Marie Distefano. Ann Marie’s paintings emerge from an aspiration to reclaim the spiritual dignity of art. "I want to make art that might open for the receptive viewer the window onto eternity," states Distefano. She continues, "My paintings are ’plugged into’ an inner source within myself that is very deep and sometimes unknown. What I seek to achieve is independence of artistic and philosophical fashions. My goal as an artist is to reveal an ineffable presence, the contemplation of which can lead the viewer towards an intuitive recognition of his or her own inherent radiance." OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Leslie Jordan famed "Sordid Lives" star, will bring his one man show, "My Trip Down The Pink Carpet" to OKC June 8th at the Tolbert Theater @ Stage Center. "In 1982, Leslie Jordan jumped offa Greyhound bus from the hills of Tennessee, said ’hello’ to Hollywood and has never looked back. With hundreds of television and film roles to his credit, he is probably best remembered for ’Kyle’ hapless ex-con on Muphey Brown, ’Resplendent Man’ entrepreneurial super hero on Lois and Clark, and can currently be seen recurring as ’Mr. Beverly Leslie’ on the hit series, \Vgill & Grace. Mr. Jordan just finished a stint on the two hit series, Ally McBeal and Boston Public as ’Dr. Benjamin Harris’ cloning expert turned new-age reverend turned science teacher turned drama coach. Mr. Jordan has also had a successful stage career. He played ’Brother Boy’ a Tammy Wynette fixated drag queen, in Del Shores hit play Sordid Lives and went on to star in the film adaptation of that play. He also has won every award for best supporting actor LA gives in theatre (Back Stage West Garlands, LA Weekly, LA Drama Critics Circle) for his portrayal of’Peanut Leroy’ a sodden aging homosexual in the runaway hit, Southern Baptist Sissies. Distefano, a native Bostonian, has been living in Tulsa for the past four years. She is a graduate of the School of the Museum of Fine Arts of Boston. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Baxter’s Interurban Grill. The exhibit will remain up through the month of May, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq. org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq)_. OkEq seeks the STAR 11 �By Victor Gorin ooking forward to the upcoming Great Plains Rodeo, O.G.R.A. President Klint Wieden shares his thoughts and hopes not only for this event but for OGRA and the gay cowboys and cowgirls of Oklahoma. Originally from the small Oklahoma community of Arnett, he grew up as a typical Oklahoma cowboy, belonging to both 4-H and the Future Farmers of America. He went on to OSU where he majored in animal science and business, and now resides in OFdahoma City with his current career of copier sales while enjoying being a cowboy on the side. We appreciate him sharing his time with us. Victor: How many years has the Great Plains Regional Rodeo been in Oklahoma City? Klint: This is our 23rd year, and it has been held for the last 15 years at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds. It began with a group of people looking for an avenue where they could have friendly competition, socialize together and work together. It was a place for people who had something in common, a love of rodeo. They were gay cowboys who didn’t really feel that they fit into the gay scene at that time. The I.G.R.A. ( International Gay Rodeo Association) was formed, and O.G.R.A ( Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) was among the first state organizations. At the same time, the founders felt that they could also help the community by being a major fundraiser for charities of the community. Victor: A tradition that continues to this day. Klint: Besides the competition and fun involved, fundraising is truly what the rodeo all over the country. It was also read by my parents, who I had not been out with, who accepted me for the gay cowboy I was. Victor: Gay just happens, but cowboys are made. So how did it happen that you are a cowboy? Photo: Klint Wieden President OGRA Klint: I grew in the small northwest Oklahoma town of Arnett, 18 people in my graduating class. Arnett is a farming and ranching community, I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am. Like many straight people, I thought you had to be flamboyant and feminine to be gay, and that wasn’t me. Once I learned there were country gay bars with cowboys, and gay rodeos, I thought" wow!" I fit in. That was great to kno~v. is all about. \Ve raise money all year long to put it on, and then take the proceeds from that to give back to local charities. Victor: Is it still a regional rodeo? Klint: It had formerly been the Great Plains Regional Rodeo, representing other states as well. Today it is the Great Plains Rodeo, an event solely of OGRA. There is another organization in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association, who also has their own rodeo. Victor: Of course the situation is much better than it was over 25 years ago. There were probably a lot of gay cowboys who felt they couldn’t be themselves and fit into what they perceived the gay community to be at that time. But even today straight people are astounded that there are gay cowboys, much less a rodeo. Klint: A couple a years ago the Daily Oklahoman wrote about our rodeo. \Vhat was to be a small paragraph turned into a front page story, hit the AP wires and was read Victor: Of course the movie Brokeback Mountain had an enormous impact on America as a whole. I’m sure it had a special effect for the gay rodeo scene. Klint: It made people aware, both gay and straight, that there were people in that lifestyle who happened to be gay. So many gay cowboys could really relate to it, felt we had to hide for fear of not being accepted by our families, friends, bosses, or even the gay communir): Victor: So how rewarding has your hard work been with OGRA? Klint: \Veil this is my 4th term as the President of OGRA, I’ve been the rodeo director. I’m very out and very proud of what I’m doing. I have no problem telling businesses, like my dry cleaners, my dentist, my veterinarian that I support them, I’m a gay cowboy, and I’d like their support for our ............ Continued PAGE 23 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Wockner News Service Foreman eaves Task Force National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman quit his job April 15 and moved to San Francisco to head up the Gay & Lesbian Rights Program at the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund. The fund provides more grant support to GLBT organizations than aW other nongay foundation in the U.S. Foreman was at the Task Force for five years and is credited with grmving the staff to 54 full-timers and doubling the organizanon’s budget to $10 million. "I’m incredibly privileged to have had this job for the last five years, and to have been paid to be gay for the last 18," Foreman said in an interview. "There are so many people who give their hearts and souls to our movement without any compensation or for ridiculously low salaries, and that certainly includes LGBT journalists. ’Tm also overwhelmed with pride in our people," he said. "One thing I hear a lot in my travels is: ’There’s no such thing as a gay community. No one’s on the same page. In a few years we’ll all be assimilated, etc., etc.’ I couldn’t disagree more. "Name me one community -- or family, for that matter -- where everyone agrees and everyone gets along. That’s not community, but banality.... No, there’s no monolithic gay community, but there are dozens and dozens of communities within our larger movement and they’re accomplishing amazing things every day. There’s community everywhere I go -- some purely social, others religious, others political, others professional. "While we do have a very, very long way to go, the fact that we’ve made so much progress while being such a tiny minority and against such mighty opponents is, to me, proof positive that we do indeed have a vibrant people and community." www.ozarksstar.com PlanetOut to selll Advocate, Out, Myson, porn mags PlanetOut Inc. is selling The Advocate and Out magazines -- as well as The Out Traveler, HIVPlus, three porn magazines and book publisher Alyson Publications -- to an affiliate of the gay TV network here! for $6 million. The sale price is far !ess than the $31.1 million PlanetOut Inc. paid for the magazines and book compaW when it bought LPI Media Inc. and SpecPub Inc. in 2005. PlanetOut Inc. reported a loss of $51.2 million last year. The company xvill continue to own and operate Gay.com and PlanetOut.com. In January, PlanetOut Inc. "retained Allen & Company, LLC to assist the company in evaluating strategic alternatives, including a possible sale of the company," a press release said. The corporation also announced in January "that it will no longer be providing quarterly or annual earnings guidance and will not hold quarterly earnings calls." The porn magazines included in the sale to Regent Releasing and Unzipped. A fourth SpecPub Inc. porn magazine, known as [2], has ceased publication, but the sale will include the trademark "[2]," PlanetOut Inc. CEO Karen Magee said via e-mail. Obama grants interview to Advocate Under fire for not speaking with local and regional gay cations, presidential candidate Barack Obama sat down for an interviexv with Advocate.corn on April 10. "The gay press may feel like I’m not giving them enough love. But basically, all press feels that xvay at times;’ Obama said. "Obviously, when you’ve got limited amount of time, you’ve got so many oudets. We tend not to do a whole bunch of specialized press .... But I haven’t been silent on gay issues. What’s happened is, I speak oftentimes to gay issues to a public general audience" Obama said he supports passage of a federal law protecting transgender people from discrimination but he’s not sure there’s support in Congress for the move. A bill outlawing job discrimination against gays, lesbians and bisexuals has passed the House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I have been clear about my interest in including gender identity in legislation, but I’ve also been honest ~vith the groups that I’ve met with that it is a heavy lift through Congress," he said. "\Ve’ve got some Democrats who are willing to vote for a non-inclusive bill but we lose them on an inclusive bill, and we just may not be able to generate the votes" Obama said he understands gay people’s frustration with candidates such as himself(and Hillary Clinton) who support, civil-union but not marriage for same-sex couples,’ I strongly respect the right of samesex couples to insist that even if we got complete equality in benefits, it still wouldn’t be equal because the same ~vord, marriage, assigned to it; he said. "I understand that, 3ective is also the broader ,olitical and ’ historical context in which I’m opera ing" MORE PAGE 27 the STAR 13 �Rata Esparza Slays ’Era in 2518 Eventually, all the Broadway stars try their tuck in Hollywood. And it Was just ~ matter of time before Raul Esparza, the han&ome Tony Award nominee and Drama Desk Award winner (both for _Company_ and TabooL wandered west. Xhe bisexual actor has already fom~.d success on the small screen, cast m a recurring ro!e on A C s h,t Pushing Daisies. BUt n~w he ma.v be s,tepping wlay outside the feel-good box he ~ been in - hes in t~ to play a s~riaI killer in Wes Craven~ latest ~een-horror fihm, 2518. Concerning a group 0fkids being stalked by a killer believed to have died on the birthday they share in common, the film will co’star teenage collies Shareeka epps (Half-Nelson). No production or release dates yet, but the scary stuffis due to shoot soon. 0 pe ) and Cosby Gay Cast Populates C vas Shifting the Canvass. an indie drama due m rackJe the complicated lives of a group of BrooMyn friends aAer 9/11. has cast several ~:aces fan~iliar to queer audiences. notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyem~e Ja4k~on. t~t seen on film as rugby player M~k Bingha~n in United 93, and cur~endy on Broadway in the hit music~ 3~adu, Jackson will star as a heterosexuN W~ Srree~ executive involved with a group of gay ffien&. Rounding out the c~st is ~& in ~e HNI alum Scott "~,ompson, ~ well as John Paul Pimc (best remembered ~ the hotW go-go boy in N’icD and Gedde Watanabe (last seen reD,lart~ as a gay nurse on ER, but forever kmown as ’Long D~ Dong" from SNteen CanNes). ~le film rolls in June and promises ~meos ~- several ~-yevunn~ed New ~brk ni~tti~e personalties. Goes to Jail Moore kmows how hard it is for an ; a break from the business so lately she~ been a low-risk comeback? Get on indie-film bus. And that’s exacdy what he’s been doing, recently starring in the .’ist drama Flawless with Michael Caine. nd now set to shoot gay writer-director d~tchell Llchtenste~ns (Teeth) latest film. Happy Tears. She’s i~ good compan> ~oo, ~ih~e-fitm veteran P~ker Posey has signed ,n toplay lvloore’s youn get sibling. ~2ne kama focuses on the two estranged sisters me selfLaggrandizing, the other bitter and ~dn~) as they re-establish their relationlip and deal with their elderly father’s progressive dementia. Shooting now in i~hiiadelphia, look for the happiness sometim~ in 2009. who finds herself from a mate taste, 2010. Notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyenne Jack, on. Photo: By Ben Strothmann 14 the STAR wv~,.ozarksstar.com �Brief history from around the There is a lot to learn about this versatile wine. There are plenty of good Rieslings to taste. Let~ start with Australian offerings. They are noted fbr their oily- texture and citrus fruit flavors in their youth and a smooth balance of freshness and acid as they age. New Zealand Riesling was first planted in the 1970s and has flourished in the relatively cool climate of the Marlborough area. In comparison to Australian Riesting, New Zealand produces lighter and more delicate wines that range from sweet to dry. New York, particularly in ~e Finger Lakes region, was one of the eaMiest U.S, producers of Pdesling. Plantings started to appear in California by 1857 and fbllowed in xNSshington State in 1871. New ~tbrk Riesling generally has a characteristic effervescent light body with a similarly light, mellow flavor, The wine can be dynamic though rarely robust, and ranges from dry to sweet. New York is also a notable producer of Riesling based Ice Wine, although a large majority of New ~%rk ke Wine is made from Vidal Blanc and Vigno~es. In the Pacific Northwest there is a stark contrast in Riesling production. ~Ihe grape is currently on the rise in ~VZ~shington State but on the decline in neighboring Oregon. Pdesling from this area ranges from dr?" to sweet, m~d has a crisp lighmess that bodes well for e~sy drin~ng. Often there will be an easily detectable peach and mineral complex. Some Washington State winemakers, such as Chateau Ste. Michelle, are adapting Germau-style Rieslingproduction methods, and even parmering with well&~own German vinmers like Dr. Ernest Loosen to create specialty wines such as the Eroig~ Riesling, www.ozarksstar.com ][n Cati~brnia, Riesling lags far behind in popularity to Chardonnay ~d is not as commonly planted. A notable exception is opment of high quality Late Harvest So i]~r, the Late Harvest wines produced are in the Anderson Valleys (north of Santa Rosa) where is more likely to encourage dte needed botutis develop. ~ae Riesling that does ~ fornia tends to be softer, fuller, a diverse flavors than a "tTpical" ~ smoked meats, ofBonW Doon, F Mountain A~v~& with dedicated completely to With high acidity and peach has deveto area is re t facility . white sausages, crab cakes gouda & grwere~ :this wine can be paired as an cake, apples/pears, caramel/ wmilla ice creaan, [, citric, With German Riesling, ,nit of ~vin e Pr~dikat (QmP) PRAY-dee-kahq. It is the defined by the 1971. There are six subcategories categor?; ranked from determine various levels .are: K)~BINE~, SP/&TLESE BEEI?J);NAUSLESE, EISWEIN, ENBEERENAUSLESE. Each care fined by a minimum sugar content of the which varies {::rotn region to region. The focus sugar content embodies the theoW that grapes with bdgher sugar levels are riper and therefore yield richer wines with deep colors and intense flavors. Schm~ Sohne Relax ’06 Job JOS P~Urn/Spatlese ’04 Jakob Dem~er/Kabinett ’06 ~ ’06 Pacific Rim CaliforSeries Australia ’06 And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Although Riesling is best known from GermaW’s Mosel-Saa>Rmver, Pfalz, Rheinhessen and Rheingau m:eas, wines from Alsace and Austria attain equal greatness. France’ Alsace’s are coveted for their high sugar levels and endless aging abili9~. Food Paring Riesling is a versatile wine for pairing with food because of its balance of sugar and acidity: tt can ~ paired with Thai and Chinese cuisine and various . types of dishes prepared more on the spicy side. One can also enjoy this wine with spicy ham, pork with pineapple chutney, stir-fried snow peas with spicy shrimp, crab, turkey, barbequed or Vlr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/vcww.Win eS pectator.com ,#~,~v. FoodandWin e.co m www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 �HOST HOTEL OVER FLOW HOTEL 801 South Meridian Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73108 1511 NW Expressway, Oklahoma City, OK 73118 ¯35-9~2-1400 ¯ 1-877-STAY-HGI 405-840-5557 ��by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Campbell Street, Springfield, MO Early 1900’s ~or many years, Springfield, Missouri has gotten a bad rap fi’om the gay and lesbian community all over the country. Even many of our straight friends have been hesitant about visiting Springfield. Like many cities in the "Bible Belt", Springfield has had in the past a reputation for being extremely conservative and even homophobic. Well, readers, things have CHANGED and for the better ! At the invitation of the Springfield, Missouri Convention & Visitors Bureau we visited Springfield last month. They showed us their beautiful city, their museums, attractions, galleries, dining options and we must admit that we are now in love with Springfield, Missouri and we lmow that all of our gay and lesbian readers from coast to coast will also be. Springfield, Mo. is a very "vibrant and alive" city and everybody is welcome. As our readers kmow, we are a "very out’ gay couple and we were shown the highest respect everywhere we went in Springfield. There are gays and lesbians working in every field of employment in Springfield and nearly all of them are "out". MaW of the large National companies at first were hesitant to move their offices and headquarters to Springfield but things have changed and for a variety of reasons. We want to thank so many of the younger gays and lesbians that we met while we were in Springfield for their honesty and hard work that to made this happen. Now with that being said, let us tell you about the "new and improved" Springfield, Missouri. With a population of over 420,000 for metropolitan Springfield, it is the third largest city in the State and offers an unbelievable array of surprises for any traveler. When so many cities in the country are down-sizing and doing nothing to improve their cities, the 18 theSTAR Springfield, Mo. community has grown in every ~vay imaginable in their arts, business, sports, shopping, restaurants and nightlife. Their "new and improved" downtown area is something that most cities can only dream about. All within walking distance you can admire the works of local and regional artists in more than 15 galleries, artist’s studios and other venues where you can encounter sculpture, pottery, paintings, jewelry, photography and hand blown glass demonstrations. In addition you have a choice of wonderful restaurants, coffee shops and cafes to dine. In Springfield, they MADE it happen! Springfield has over 6,000 hotel/motel rooms and over 600 dining options. So whatever you are into, you will find it in Springfield! Metropolitan Springfield has so much to offer in the way of attractions, historical places to visit and things to see. FANTASTIC CAVERNS is a must see for any first time visitor to Springfield. They open daily at 8 AM until dusk. You ride thru this ancient underground cave that has massive formations. The tour is 50 minutes and your driver will explain the entire history of the cave to you. THE SPRINGFIELD ART MUSEUM is the permanent home for some 8,500 art objects representing thousands of years of culture. They are open Tuesday thru Sunday and are located at 111 E. Brookside Dr. The SPRINGFIELD LITTLE THEATRE at the historic Landers Theatre is Missouri’s oldest and largest civic theatre. This season includes Gypsy, A Tuna Christmas, the Miracle Worker and Seussical to name just a few of their productions. "WILD BILL" HICKOK SHOOTOUT SITE in Park Central Square, right downtown is the site of the nations first recorded shootout and helped solidify the reputation of Wild Bill. Look for the marker on www.ozarksstar.com �Stage coach terra cotta on Springfidd garage. East. Markers are also located in the street showing where each man stood during the shoot out. The RAILROAD HISTORICAL Museum, 1300 No. Grant Ave. is dedicated to the preservation of railroading and you can step into a locomotive, commuter car and caboose. The MISSOURI SPORTS HALL OF FAME, 3861 E. Stan Musial Drive includes thousands of sports memorabilia, exhibits and displays and of course the Springfield Cardinals Baseball team which is the Double-A affiliate of the St. Louis Cardinals and plays at Hammonds Field. Bass Pro has their big store at !935 South Campbell Ave with everything imaginable in the sports line. Tired of seeing everything yet? Well, Springfield offers a lot more things to see! The AIR AND MILITARY Museum of the Ozarks is a "hands-on" museum of military history. They are located at 2305 E. Kearney St. The Brown Derby Store at 2023 S. Glenstone offers a world-class wine selection unmatched in the Midwest. The Commercial Street Historical District (between \Vashington Ave. and Lyon Ave. is a self-guided tour which is a 6 block adventure. With a seasonal farmers market, chocolate factory, the city’s oldest tavern, new micro-brewery, antiques/art galleries, this is a great walking tour. DICKERSON PARK ZOO, 1401 W. Norton Road allows visitors to get up dose with hundreds of animals. DISCOVERY CENTER is an interactive hands-on science center and is located downtown at 438 E. St. Louis St. The TENT THEATRE is celebrating their 45th season this summer. www.ozarksstar.com This summer’s productions include Cyrano de Bergerac, June 11-14 and June 16-21, You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown, June 25-28, June 30-July 3, and our favorite, Anything Goes with lyrics and music by Cole Porter, July 9-12, July 14-20. The Theatre and Dance Department at Missouri State University in Sprinbffield offers a wide range of theatre and dance programs. The Gay and Lesbian Center of the Ozarks, 518 E. CommerciaI Street in Springfield supports the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in the greater Springfield, Missouri region by organizing and sponso> ing community activities and by increasing public understanding and appreciation of LGBT citizens. Josh Comp is the President and is doing a magnificent job. Their phone number is 417-869-3978. They organize Pridefest and help organize the annual variety show, the Queen City Cabaret. They are close partners with FOCUS - LGBT professionals group and with APO, Blossom women’s group, the First Sunday Community Potluck. They provide free professional counseling through the Forest Institute. They have an Individual and Community Services Advocate who provides services to the community and have a youth group program for LGBT youth which meets once a week and every fourth Friday. They provide an outlet for many social and support groups. They have been operating since !996 and are one of the oldest Gay and Lesbian Centers in the State. Volunteers are always needed so give them a call and donate a couple hours a week. For nightlife, they have the new CLUB 821 that is getting a lot of attention throughout the entire Midwest. ~xey are located at 821 West College, just 8 blocks West of the downtown area and NEVER A COVER ! (vavw.club821.corn) and phone (417) 866-4821 Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 4 PM to 1 AM. and happy hour is daily 4 PM to 7 PM. This bar just But the most important time we had in Springfield during our recent visit there was the "DOWNTOWN AREA". The "new:" dmvntmvn area is FABULOUS !!!!! Check out their wonderful website at www.itsalldowntown.corn \re particularly enjoyed having breakfast at Galley’s Breal’~ast Care downtown at 220 East Walnut. The setting is a wonderful old nostalgic care of the past but yet has new and innovative delicious food with service to match. The owners and staff are doing it EXACTLY RIGHT! This is the only place to have breakfast in Springfiel!! Nonna’s Italian American Care, 306 South Avenue is wonderful. Although they offer non-Italian choices, why bother? Their Italian menu is what it is all about. And it is GOOD! Our best dining experience for dinner was at the Kai Restaurant, 306 South Campbell. This new downtown Photo: Donald Pie, Rob Bel (owner Club 821) & restaurant is one of the finest in Ray Williams at Club 821, Springfield, ~Ossouri the country with great atmosphere, great service and extremely great food. Continued page 27 {HeSTAR 19 �of Town By Andrew Collins Bakimore, Maryland dozens of shops. Also che& out the Baltimore Maritime Museum, National Aquarium, and World Trade Center (which offers fine views from its 27th-floor observation decD. A regal grassy knoll south of the harbor, Federal Hill Park rises majestically above downtox~qa, and the Inner Harbor. It’s an ideal spot to laze under the sun on warm afternoons. The surrounding eponymous neighborhood has loads of inviting cafes and bars, and the neighborhood’s American Visionary Art Museum ingeniously blends two historic -warehouses within a striking contemporary structure. East of the Inner Harbor, Fells Point may be America’s best-preserved Cx3lonial waterfront, with its perfectly maintained Federa!-sryle town houses, Baltimore’s gay epicenter ties north of downtown in historic Mount Vernon, which you reach by strolling north from the Inner Harbor up the city’s backbone, Charles Street. The neighbothood is anchored by Mount Vernon Square and its 178-foot-high Washington /vlonument. Nearby are the outstanding Waiters Art Museum and the Peabody Conservatory of Music, the oldest and one of the most prestigious classical music schools in the country. kbffll need to drive or take a bus up Charles Street to reach the leaf), 140-acre campus of Johns Hopkins University, which is ideal for strolling and is next to the state’s largest museum, the Baltimore Museum of Art. West of Johns Hopkins, Hampden is a good oldfashioned "Ba~vl’mer" neighborhood, a former mill-workers’ community that has more recently developed a bounty of hip boutiques, galleries, and cafes. (John Waters, who lives nearby, occasionally strolls these parts and set his movie _Pecker_ here.) Baltimore’s mostpopular lesbian bar, Sapphos, is ])art ofthe bustling Grand Central *lu~ in the heart ofthe Mount Vernon neighborhood. (Photo by Andrew Collins) If you haven’t been to Baltimore in a while, you owe yourself a visit. This friendly, unassuming city has experienced a virtual rebi,~h over the past 15 years, rehabilitating its handsome Inner Harbor by converting dilapidated piers and ,vharves into museums, shops, restaurants, hotels, and condominiums. Often featured in the movies of camp filmmaker and native son John \V-aters, Baltimore has also developed increased cachet as a welcoming gay and lesbian destination, with its many GLBT-ffiendly businesses. Fortunately, the ci.ty’s success hasn’t gone to its head. It’s hard to find a more genuine and down-to-earth breed of urbanites than the residents of Baltimore, who retain a special affection for their hometown. You may be lured to Baltirnore by the many highly publicized ’ Inner Harbo, r and indeed most attractions set around downtowns of these museums and entertainment centers live up to their billing. But be sure to save rime to explore the man), quirky- residential neighborhoods, a few of which - Mount Vernon, Federal Hill, Fells Point - are within easy walking distance of downtown. The Inner Harbor thrived for years as a shipping crossroads before falling into a state of blight. Its conversion into an entertainment and museum district has made it one of the most engaging and picturesque harbors in America. Popular attractions include the glassenc!osed Harborplace pavilions, where you can browse through 20 t~®STAR \Vhen you’re craving a memorable meal, remember that Baltimore’s cooking is full of flavor - the city- even has its o,vn spice, Old Bay Seasoning, a feisty, concoction of 16 seasonings sprinkled mostly on shellfish but required by some locals on seemingly everything but ice cream. If you’re on the run, iust wander through the copious food stalls in the Harborplace pavilions. It may look like a zoo of tourists, but yoffd be surprised how many locals graze here. Many of these places offer top-notch local seafood - particularly oysters, clams, and Chesapeake Bay blue crabs. Walk a bit south ro Federal Hill, along South Charles or Light streets, and you’ll find dozens of appealing eateries, including one of the best little restaurants in the city~ the Bicycle Bistro, where you might dine on grilled rack of lamb with a pineapple-poblano-pepper chutney, or porcini-crusted sea scallops. East of the harbor, there’s superb dining in the city’s Little Italy (Boccaccio, with such seasonal delights as local clams and mussels in a pernod-tomato broth, is a particular standout), and in nearby Fells Point, talented chef Nancy Longo helms the kitchen at Pierpoint, which is known for such inventive contemporary regional fare as smoked crab cakes, and ftied Maryland chicken breast with parmesan grits. Mount Vernon has dozens of excellent, gay-popular restaurants. At nile high end, opulently decorated Ixia scores high marks for its wellchosen wine list and superbly rendered cuisine, including grilled baby octopus with lemon-fennel confit, and lobster-crab mac-andcheese with a creamy Fontina sauce. Across the street, Sacha’s is a great spot for toothsome grazing - the many "small plates" include crisp french fries in a cone with Old Bay-seasoned creme fraiche, www.ozarksstar.com �and fried green tomatoes topped vdth lump crab meat. Continue up Charles Street and yoff!l come to trendy Donna’s, a cheerful and modern space where an arts)- crowd mingles over light salads, roasted veggie sandwiches, fresh coffee, and fantastic tiramisu. %e Hdmand has become renowned }br its spics; well-prepared kd~han food (it’s owned by the brother of A~hanistan’s president, Harold Kharzai), and Motmt Vernon Stable and Saloon is a perfect late-night venue for chicken wings, sandwiches, burgers, ribs, and similarly comforting pub standar~Is. Finally, don’t miss City Care. an airy and inviting iava joint that also serves food and wine. Make the trip a bit north toward Johns Hopkins to reach Ixia’s sister restaurant, the lovably kitschy Paper Moon Diner, which is open choice. Near here in the Hampden neighborhood is the notable for the massive pink flamingo dangling from the front of the btfilding (not to mention tasty comfort fare like Belgian wanes topped with fresh berries, and famously good meatlo~). There’s als0 great coffee to be sipped nearby at Common Ground coffeehouse, and delicious Mexican food served within the funky confines of Holy Frijoles. property" ~ns kudos ~br its helpful service, romantically decorated roo~s, ~d afternoon tea and refreshments. In Mount Vernon, the historic 1924 Clarion Peabody Court, with its 104 handsomely outfitted rooms, enthusiastically welcomes gay and lesbian travelers. You’ll ~e ~ town house bars. Other esteemed in DyCanton. This stunner appreciate one of the ci~’s Baltimore gay-bar-goers congregate mostly at a handful of mainstays. Yuppies and stand-and-model types flock almost religiously to Gr~d Ceiatral, a large, multi-level complex that consists of a video lounge, dance bar, billiards room, and outdoor deck. Also on-site is the s[vanky lesbian bar, Sapphos, with its comfy living-room-esque decor and soft lighting. ~£ other major club i~i the n’eighborhood is Club Hippo, whose r~putation for gr~at music draws a wide mix of revelers, ga34 straight, old, and young. It’s a great place to cut loose, especially on Thursday and Saturday nights. When it gets late, the party moves to Club 1722, an 18-and-over ~er-hours club open on Fridays and Saturdays into the ~ee- hours. The,tiki-themed Coconuts Caf~ is another Mr. Vernon hangout thats popular xvith lesbians, while Club Bunns caters heavil~ to Baltimore’s sizable African-kanerican gay community and has a legendary happy hour. Leather aficionados head a few blocks up Charles to the Eagle, which, though lacking any serious back-room action, nevertheless cultivates as racy, an atmosphere as any bar in town. A classic dive that’s been serving the gay community for more than 60 years (longer, say" some, than [my bar in America), Leon’s is especially popular late on weekend evenings. Nearby Jay’s on Read is ~ das~ i~ia~o bar, and Club Phoenix is a laid-back neighborhodd hangout with a small dance area and some highly entertaining drag sho~s. In Federal Hill, the Rowan Tree is a friendly neighbor~iood spot with an eclectic crowd, and over in the up-and-coming Canton section of Baltimore, The Quest caters to fans of go-go dancers. Baltimore hotels have become slightly more expensive over the years, as the city has become a serious tourist and convention destination, but rates are still much lower than in nearby Washington, D.C. Most visitors choose properties near the Inner Harbor, dose to great restaurants and attractions. An excellent option here is the Pier 5 Hotel, a hip and lively boutique property with whimsically decorated, spacious rooms, many directly facing the Inner Harbor. The same owners run the elegant, historic (and allegedly haunted) Admiral Fells Inn in nearby Fells Harbor - this charming old-world www.ozarksstar.com heSTAR 21 �KAI REffAURANT & AFTER DARK LOUNGE Missouri For an absolutely fabtflous dining experience we highly suggest you try the new KAI RESTAURANT. It is located in the new and revitalized downtown area at 306 South Campbell. From the moment you walk thru the front door you will KNOW that you are in for a very special treat. Downstairs they have the KAI After Dark Lounge which has a very eclectic modern decor. Xhey have terrific bartenders who know how to serve every kind of drink imaginable. But the real treat is going upstairs to the KAI Restaurant where they serve "Modern Japanese Cuisine" in an unbelievable setting. ~he restaurant is dark, sexy, exciting, exotic and absolutely spectacular! Go to their website’s gallery to see for yourself. We haven’t been anywhere in the Midwest that can possibly compare to our dining experience there. Our server was extremely knowledgeable as to what was on the menu and offered good suggestions. He was a true professional. We started offwith the "Hot Rock" which is one of the restaurant’s specialties. It came with thinly sliced rare top sirloin woked on a hot stone presentation. You put one slice at a time on the sizzling hot stone and it cooks in seconds. Dip it into the sauce and you have some of the finest appetizers that we have ever had. Other Kai specialities included their Kuslyaki Filet, Kobe Beef Carpaccio and their Spicy Asian Chicken Lettuce Wraps. ~hey offer a full range of soups and salads including their Kai salad, Ika Sansai Salad, Seaweed Salad, Tri Tuna Salad and their Honey Walnut Mango Chicken Salad. For their entrees they offer everything from Teriyaki to black cod, sea bass to New York Strip, Filet Mignon and Kai Surf and Turf. Other entrees included Seven Samurai with seven kinds of fish on top of a California Roll, Drunken Tiger which is spicy tuna with asparagus wrapped with grilled tuna, Fantastic Four, with shrimp tempura, crab, spice tuna with fried eel on top. For desserts they offer a wide choice for any pallet including Irish chocolate cake, banana chocolate spring rolls, creme brulee, tiramisu and cheesecake. Xhe table next to us had been coming back almost every week since they opened. They get a lot of diners who came back again and again and again just because this restaurant knows how to do things the right way! It is just that simple! Kai Restaurant is in an old downtown building that they completely remodeled to perfection. We know that with all their professionalism that they will be in business for many years. When traveling around the country we find that so many restaurants try to copy each other and the Kai Restaurant is itself and it’s own creation and that is what makes it so special. By the way, their prices are extremely reasonable. No trip to Springfield, Mo. would be complete if you don’t have a wonderful dining experience at the Kai Restaurant. Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 5:00 PM to 1:15 AM. For reservations call 417-8320077 and check out their website, www.kaiafterdark.com. People go to a restaurant not only to dine but to have a fabtflous dining experience and trust us on this one, you will have a "beyond fabulous" dining experience. When you get the best and innovative decor, great food and great service, you know you have found the perfect place! Congratulations to the owners and stafffor making the KAI Restaurant so special. 22 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com �"While we beat our chests and proclaim ourselves the xvorld’s largest superpower, it is foolish to expect that we Americans, with only 6 percent of the world’s population, can automatically impose our xv~ll on everyone else." [p. 25] "... [~he...war in Iraq has led to a devastaring drop in world approval of the United States and sharp divisions between Muslim and Non-Muslim communities. It has provided more recruits for anti-American terrorist organizations, cost American taxpayers billions of dollars, and above all, caused loss of human life on a tragically large scale. A failure to understand the culture and history of other parts of the world has exacted a great price." ~. 28] "We cannot afford the toll that multiple Iraq-like mistakes would take on America, especially as we deal xvith emerging nations whose power and influence will become great as time passes." [p. 29] "Preemptive military engagements in the absence of an act of war against us have not proven successful. Vietnam and Iraq are dramatic examples." [p. 41] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. "Forty other countries now have a higher life expectancy than the United States, in no small part because 45 million Americans have no health insurance. When ~vill we act?" [p. 7] "... [I]t is morally imperative that we provide universal health coverage for all Ameficans...We must not rule out considering a new approach that moves away from the current rodeo. Very often they do. It’s a lot of hard work, it is very rewarding, but every year right after the Rodeo ends we start planning for the next one. Victor: Do straight people still sometimes get thrown by the idea of a gay cowboy? Klint: They don’t associate what they perceive to be a masculine lifestyle to be a part of how they perceive the gay lifestyle. So in part we are educating the public as a whole, and even still some parts of the gay community, that we come from every facet of life. Victor: So what’s in store for this year? Klint: We have a great reputation, one of the largest rodeos of the IGRA system. We have a new rodeo director from Florida, Jim Mitchell and Assistant directors Travis Parker ofOGRA & Michael Fontenot of Florida. We’re doing all kinds of promotions not only in Oklahoma but also surrounding states, and we expect people from all parts of the country. This year we are hosting the I.G.R.A.’s Board of Directors Meeting, so trustees from all of their rodeo associations throughout the United States and Canada will be here. As with tradition, all we donate stays in Oklahoma. This year we are helping out two major charities, Other Options and Rain Oklahoma. Victor: So who should join OGRA? Does one have to be a rancher or cowboy? Klint: We have many members who have never ridden a horse or worked with cattle. We welcome people who many walks of life who embrace cowboys and western heritage. As we raise money for our community, we need talented people who want to help us make a difference. employer-based system...Those who have health insurance are already paying the costs for the uninsured, who often end up in hospital emergency rooms...The uninsured wait to get help until they reach a medical crisis. This drives costs higher. There is no excuse for another presidential term to end without implementing universal health insurance." [p.p. 84-5] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. www.ozarksstar.com Victor: I think that’s an invitation. Thanks for all you and OGRA do for gay Oklahoroans, including our cowboys and cowgirls, and we can look forward to another great event. VOTER I~GISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Election Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Election General Election Friday, October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Hection CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June 1 through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Hection Wednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturday, July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AM - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 wvcw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html theSTAR 23 �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa 24 @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City �By Greg Steele on the prowl ~e 84 & Robin Dorner with The City S~Ni~i atthe fundraiser for State Senator Andrew Rice! Marlett is runn ng aga nst the nfamous sai ~ I(em. Democratic U£. senate candidate (currently State Senator) Andrew Rice with Richard Ogden Chairperson Cimarron Alliance Foundation at a fantastic fundraiser at Ogden’s home. victor G06~ ~e~nt~ O~l~h;ma C0rpora~ tion Commissioner Jim R6tha plaque with a 45 of one is his favodte inspirations, Dion’s "Abraham Martin & Johi~2 www.ozarksstar.com State Representative A! McAffrey with Oklahbrna County Democratic Party co-chair Elle~ Ste~SS at Oklahoma City fundraiser for McAffrey. : �By Ronald Blake ho wants to see you achieve health, fitness, and overall well-being? It seems like everyone wants to see you fit into that smaller size of pants or cut back on your smoking. We live in a soci.ety where it is horrible to think that people die. You need to take advantage of this munificence of the masses. Government agencies are always watching out for you. The FDA is monitoring what medications are safe for your consumption. The FAA will not let you fly with Joe Camel smoke swirling aimlessly around the cabin. The CDC monitors the incidences of West Nile virus outbreaks in all the 50 states. Your local agency on aging center will even see to it that you have a fan or air conditioner to place in your window if you can’t afford to buy one. Your taxes are ~vorking to help you after all. Restaurants and fast food establishments are even seeking to give you healthier food. Subway leads the pack of retailers by offering you groovy grinders and showcasing the slimmed down Jared as proof of eating right. Numerous restaurants are shrinking their portion sizes and now only offering enough to satisfy one hippopotamus’ appetite. Applebee’s is one example of this sensible change. They even charge a little less for this good idea. Gosh, even Hamburglar and Grimace are putting apple slices in Happy Meals. smoking cessation classes. The Cancer Society will tell you when you should get a pap smear, colorectal check, skin screening, and breast exam. There are support groups for autism, anger management, gambling addictions, mental illnesses, and many more. If you can Google it, it is out there waiting to be uncovered by you. Even money-hungry Hollywood types have your best interests in mind. "Supersize Me" was that documentary about McDonalds and the Big Mac that put the fast-food giant into a Dow Jones suicide watch. The behemoth hamburger franchiser changed their menu in response to this fat-laden epiphany. Michael Moore took on the health care industry and all the cigar-chomping politicos inside the Beltway in his documentary "Sicko". He exposed the Swiss cheese health coverage we have for the denizens of this great land. There have even been movies like a "Beautiful Mind" and "Rain Man" that have shown a superb story but have also given us a better understanding of health issues like mental illnesses. Finally, we even have philanthropists like Bill Gates, Oprah, Bono, and numerous others who are giving money to charities to improve the lives of others. These methods include education and training. Education is one of the greatest factors affecting poor health. More educated individuals are less likely to smoke, drink, or engage in drug activity than those individuals who lack a proper education. If you want to achieve it, you must seek it. It should not be difficult; there is assistance around every corner. Excuses are around every corner too. Choose your corner care- fully. This health and fitness coltunn is brought to you by that guy who has an analog mind in a digital world. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be shaken from his reverie at w~wv.goblakefitness.com. There are not-for-profit agencies out there that are a website away from accessing information for better health. The American Lung Association will tell you where to find 26 t~÷STAR w~vw.ozarksstar.com �SPRINGFIELD, MO. NATIONAL NEV S opened last October and has quickly become extremely popular. Why? Because of the owner and staff. Rob knows how to treat customers and has hired a very professional staff. Michelte, the bar manager is the kind of bartender that everybody wants. She is fun, funny, lively, interesting, professional and you can tell that she really enjoys her job. Why can’t all bartenders across the country be like this? The other bartenders there are great also. We found everybody in this bar to be extremely friendly. How many times have you walked into a bar only to be sitting at the bar all by yourself and no one talks to you. Trust us, it won’t happen in this bar! NoY. governor .snpports Another fun place is JR’s Nightclub, 504 E. Commercial, (417) 864-2823. This is the bar "where men are comfortable, but everyone is welcome". They are open Monday thru Saturday, 5 to 1:30 AM and Sunday, 2 PM to midnight. When you walk in, people either know you or they don’t and if they don’t know you, they will shortly. Everyone is friendly. The bartenders and owner are friendly. After a couple of drinks you will know everybody in the bar. And isn’t that the idea of going to a bar, to meet other people? JR’s is the only bar in Springfield that is open on Sundays. Other places to visit are Martha’s Vineyard and Latin Vibes which features special gay shows on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. If your needing to get around the city, contact Fisk Limousines, www.fisklimo.com or give them a call at 417.862.2900. They give the best service in the entire Midwest. Springfield, Missouri is indeed a city with a great future. They want EVERYONE to visit their beautiful city. We did and we certainly enjoyed our stay there as we know that all of our readers will. The Convention & Visitors Bureau has one of the best websites in the nation, www.springfieldadventures.com. Be sure and check it out. Our thanks to Susan Wade, Public Relations Manager, Springfield Convention & Visitors Bureau. She is simply "the Best of the Best" and so professional, and to Mark Templeton of Springfield. same-sex marrmge New York Gov. David Patterson said April 7 that he supports legalization of same-sex marriage. Speaking by video link to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s awards dinner in Manhattan, Patterson said: "We xvill push on and bring full marriage equality to New York state. And when xve have done that, xve’re going to do more. We’re going to protect young people from bullies. We’re going to protect against the discrimination of people in the transgender community, and xve’re going to fight for decent and affordable health care for all citizens in this state." "If you xvill join with me, and if xve xvork hard enough, xve can change the face of Nexv York, which will be the catalyst to changing national policy," he said. Patterson had planned to attend the dinner but was stuck in Albany dealing with budget problems. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! www.ozarksstar.com t~:~ {~.STAR 27 �by Jack Fertig May 2008 "Articulate conflicts, Cancer!" The Sun in Taurus offers the comforts and pleasantries of spring. Now, however, Sol is aspecting asteroid Chiron in Aquarius and new planet Eris, stirring up the question of where to settle down and with whom. Think beyond habits, and be open to surprises! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Individualist though you are, you belong with some tribe - however awkwardly. A clash of values is inevitable, but not catastrophic. Give yourself room to be not at the center of the group, but at the edge - perhaps even the leading edge. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your own personality is both a key and an impediment to success. Meditate and talk with a confidante. Issues of fitting in and reconciling different communities in your world seem like complications, but actually point to a solution. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): You’re too easily tempted into arguments with others.-Better to look within and resolve your own conflicts. Knocking those around with a friend and establishing a philosophical framework are important. Just know that the real debate is internal. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 = December 20): Team sports or games - anything from charades to rugby - can help you understand your own thought processes, or perhaps learn how to keep your mouth from getting you into trouble. You’ll never get that one perfect, but you can make progress! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Being a capricious Cappy could get expensive. Entertain members of your family or tribe at home or through some community event, staying ever mindful of your budget. Asking others to contribute can help strengthen your bonds. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Fitting in with your family can be a problem. Imagine that you are adopted and speak a different language. What would you try to say? You wouldn’t want to be just like everyone else, so celebrate your uniqueness, and they’ll love you as you are. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Don’t be afraid to speak your mind. You may expose a few secrets, but that will probably do some good for you and others concerned. Even if there is a price to pay, you will find greater value in speaking up. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Time to review that famous "gay agenda." How do your goals and ideals fit in with your immediate queer community and your sense of the broader community? Articulating the conflicts and exploring the issues could put you into a position of leadership. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Your ambitions can easily lead to arguments. That’s OK, as long as the point of the argument is to better understand _what’s_ right, not _who’s_ right. To fix a relationship, try seeing it in a different light. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): New ideas, even those that seem to come way out of left field, can help solve problems at work and with your health. (Chiropractic?) Don’t underestimate possibilities, wacky as they may seem, offered by other GLBT folks. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Rethinking group allegiances and community identity should prove helpful in understanding your sexual potential - not just as a lover, but as an erotic healer. Explore new forms of erotic play and perception. You can do this actively and/or academically. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Some housecleaning, literally or metaphorically, is important to improve your relationship or to help you be ready for one. An eccentric older relative or community elder offers an inspirational role model METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document ESTABLISHED 2003 www.ozarksstar.com MAY 2008 One of the longest running and largest of Gay Rodeo Organizations in the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) system, Oklahoma’s Great Plains Rodeo will kick off it’s 23rd year. A fun filled weekend May 23 through May 25th 2008. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK ~The fun begins with the Great Plains Rodeo Kickoff Party hosted at the Finishline Thursday, May 22 featuring the current reigning OGRA Royalty. This is a great chance to meet and greet, dance and party, and ready yourself for the weekend to come. The host hotel for the Rodeo is the Hilton Garden Inn, and there is a block of rooms available at a special rate from May 22-26 that will be available until May 16 or until they sell out, whichever comes first. Registration for the event happens Friday from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. Tickets are available from OGRA members for $10 or $15 at the gate. The Rodeo takes place at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds on Saturday May 24 and Sunday May 25, beginning at 8 a.m. both days. To keep the weekend wild the Texas Gay Rodeo Association will host their Texas T Party on that Saturday in the Copa from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. featuring fantastic food and fun. The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (OGRA) is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. OGRA is proud to be the first association seated at the first ever IGRA Convention in 1985 For more information check out the OGRA website at www.ogra.net. An Exclusive Interview With OGRA’s 4 Term President, Klint Wieden Photo: Klint Wieden with his horse Cherokee. "I grew up in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett. I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am." Klint told the Star. PAGE-12 Newly revamped drag-free Tulsa Pride 2008 unveiled By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Organizers of this year’s Tulsa Pride Celebration are promising the public that this year’s events will be anything but boring. "We have made a lot of changes to the entire celebration," says Nate Black, one of the co-chairs. Black says the changes are intended to breathe a new sense of excitement into the pride observance and to help promote the revitalization of downtown. "People don’t kno,v downtown. They don’t know how to get here, they don’t know where to park, they don’t know how many things are down here and growing," Black says. "We have moved the events to ................ Continued Page 5 i 7 West 7th Street (corner 7th & ~3oulder Ave) e Tulsa, Ok 74ii9 www.ozarksstar.com 1:800o535oAtDS (2437) PROTECT YOURSELF PROTKOT YOUR PAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 Join us for our biggest issue of the year! PRIDE 2008. Be a part of RESERVE YOUR SPACE NOW Deadline Thursday l~ay t 5f.h Serving the Oklahoma GLBT community since 2003. Mr OkAahoma Continentall Benefits OYP Tulsao By Judy G. Charles Frederick Mr Oklahoma Continental 2008 TULSA, OK __ March 28th, Singer and entertainer Chades Frederick, Mr. Oklahoma Continental, began one of the many benefits planned to support Openarms Youth Project in Tulsa to a standing room only crowd. Many parents and grandparents of the entertainers were in attendance. David Dees, owner of Club Majestic, 124 N. Boston, Tulsa, donated the use of the dub for this worthy benefit. ~he event raised $770 for OYE. Entertainers were Sabastyn Croft, Tazia Kennedy, Cort, Brooke Kennedy-Miss OK National Queen, Mindy Bartlett, KC Morgan, Kordylia Kennedy, Alex Kennedy, Iman Scott-Miss Goddess 2007, Daphne Rio and Nicole Poverty-Miss OYE. Donations to benefit the GLBT youth group, many who are or were homeless just because they are gay, can be made to Openarms Youth Project, 2015-B S. Lakewood, Tulsa, Ok. 74112, or contact Tim or Ken at 918- 838-7104. TULSA PRIDE: give people a reason to check it (downtown) out, but also to come enjoy our new center and see how many resources are available." The first big change this year that Black notes is the separation of the Pride Festival from the Pride Parade. This year, the parade will occur June 7 and the festival will occur June 14. Following a national trend, the Pride Parade will be held in the evening, escaping the oppressive summer sun. The parade will fol!ow a new route, taking it from the Brady Arts District through downtown to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. When the parade ends at 4th and Kenosha, the new Pride Block Party will kick off: "There will be 2 stages of entertainment, beer tents, vendors and all kinds of activities," says Black, who also notes that national music sensation Eric Himan will be performing. Black also says that for those with children, the second floor of the equality center will be open to provide licensed babysitters for a small fee. A week later, the Diversity Festival will kick off in Centennial Park just west of6th & Peoria. Black says that the newly revamped festival will feature two stages of entertainment with a multi-ethnic array of performers, an international food court, children’s area, local vendors and more. According to Black, including other faith and ethnic communities is not an attempt to "de-gay" Pride, but to help create community allies. "We have to realize our commitment to justice can not be for the gay community only. We have to speak out against racism and against bigotry. "The GLBT community is in every population," "By increasing our alliances we strengthen our own commitment for our people." ’This is still a gay pride event," Black emphasizes. There will be a leather fashion show, there will be drag queens, and there xvill be rainbows. It’s still very gay, but it is also more professional and more inclusive." The final major change that Black says will be occurring is the moving of the Diversity Gala to the historic Cain’s Ballroom. Black says that not only does this help to create an emphasis on downtown, but it also provides much needed space for the event to grow. For the latest updates on the Tulsa Pride Celebration, visit their web site at www. tulsapride.org. 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit OKC Saturday, May 10, 9am-5pm, Ronald J. Norick Downtown Library, 300 Park Avenue, Oklahoma City OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The Cimarron Alliance Foundation wil! host the 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit a one-day event with four sessions of workshops. This year’s summit features more extensive workshops about our state legislature - by far the most attended session last year - and programs appealing to college students and young adults. There will also be two community forums. The 2007 LGBT Leadership Summit was successful beyond expectations. LGBT and LGBT-friendly persons and organizations acquired tools and guidance to more effectively manage themselves and, more importantly, better collaborate with others to accomplish common goals. Workshops The 2008 LGBT Leadership Summit is a one-day event with four sessions of up to five workshops per session. Workshops will address five topics: Leadership Development O Organization Development - non-profits, fundraising, etc. o Government- politics and the legislative process ® Personal Development - spirituality, equality, etc. o Anti-violence - anti-bullying, hate crimes, etc. For more information go to: wvcw.cimarronalliance.org www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Loving the Hater Wlaile Hating the Hate By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I found a link recently to a blog (vavw.bilerico.com) that contains a comment (http://tinyurl. com/4qdbph) written in reaction to reading the main story about the Oklahoma City chapter of PFLAG and their recording of Rep. Sally Kern (http://tinyurl.com/2zbpgn) that catches Kern in her spider web of hubris and cant. Like the author, I too am very disappointed with the approach of "loving the hater while hating the hate." Ofcourse, I respect our supporters who use their close relationship with Jesus to try and gain support for LGBT citizens and other minorities who are used for verbal target practice in the ~var for suppression of civil rights. I’m delighted the Oklahoma City PFLAG chapter was able to document the duplicity of Sally Kern and record with her permission the lies she later reported as irresponsibility on the part of PFLAG. This single incident should show you the arrogance and madness that is being passed offas legislative Republican leadership. Not one elected official in Oklahoma from either major party has come strongly to the defense and support of the LGBT taxpayers living in Oklahoma. Had Kern used race, skin color, or ethnic origin as her subject I bet the rent she would be rene~ving her teaching certificate and looking for a school that would hire her. The First Amendment guarantees both sides the freedom to practice their respective religious viewpoints and the market place in which to talk about them. However, this same First Amendment does NOT give either side permission to encode their religious viewpoints into CIVIL law. I feel this is where we miss the boat in establishing our birthright to equal treatment under judicial law, and not the ten laws of Deuteronomy. There will always be a Bible verse to trump the opposing Bible verse resulting in a version of ping-pong skirmishes with Jesus as the referee. The writer gives some specific examples of public, peaceful protest that we can engage in to show that LGBTs are neither the doormats nor the monsters our enemies make us to be. It’s odd that our suppressors are either afraid to be in the same room with us, fearing for their own bodily integrity, keeping their knees close together; or they, dismiss us as dippy airheads, frivolous and irresponsible. How can we be both at the same time? Their response shows more about the fiction in their minds then about the truth of our lives. Until we get out of the religious justification business the more we’ll be dragged into its historical quagmire. Look at the present wars being fought around the world and you’ll see religious intolerance at the root. Our LGBT equality will have to be established in the legislatures and the courthouses in all fifty states without religious prejudice tipping the scales of justice. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Comling o~ eAge 8 the STAR w-ww.ozarksstar.com ©irecYed bs/Davd Geligan Oklahoma OiV June 8~ 2008 at 8pnq Brot~-~e~ Boy www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 by Liz Highleyman What is the history o£GLAAD ?? For more than two decades, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) has served as the queer community’s watchdog against biased portrayals of lesbian, ga); bisexual, and transgender people in the media. Up until the final decades of the 20th century, representations of LGBT people in l{lms, television, popular music, and mainstream publications - if present at all - typically focused on scandal or ridicule. The burst of gay activism and visibility in the late 1960s spurred a conservative backlash, and by the mid-1980s, the community was staggering under the weight of the AIDS epidemic, as people with HIV faced stigma exacerbated by media portrayals depicting them as a danger to the "general population." In 1985, the New York LGBT community was embroiled in a debate about closure of the .city’s gay bathhouses and grew- increasingly alarmed about sensationalistic AIDS coverage in the New York Post. That November, a group of long-time activists including Vito Russo, Arnie Kantrowitz, Jim Owles, and Darrell Yates Rist called a town meeting that drew more than 700 participants. Heeding the exhortation of author Jewetle Gomez to "take responsibility for what is being said about us," they formed the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). The group began as a grassroots effort, using phone trees and monthly newsletters to issue alerts about offensive media portrayals of LGBT people. Among its earliest victories, in 1987 GLAAD persuaded the New York Times to finally use the word "gay" rather than "homosexual." Ti~e following year, the New York group hired its first full-time executive director, Craig Davidson. Meanwhile, in Los Angeles, Richard Jennings and others started a new chapter focused on the Hollywood entertainment industry. The bicoastal organization’s clout continued to grow, enabling it to secure an apology from comedian Johnny Carson for saying "fag" on the air, followed by the suspension ofAndy Rooney by CBS for homophobic and racist comments. In 1992, Entertainment Weekly named GLAAD one of the 100 most powerful entities in Hollywood. Before long, new GLAAD chapters arose in Atlanta, Dallas, Denver, Kansas City, San Diego, San Francisco, and Washington, D.C. But in 1995, the local groups merged into a centralized national organization with a single board, and a staff based in New York and Los Angeles; two years later, former Showtime executive Joan Garry took the helm. Over the next decade, GLAAD initiated projects focusing on communities of color (including Spanish and Chinese language media), sports media, faith-based groups, and youth. GLAAD continued to exert insider pressure, and, when needed, to organize larger public protests against biased portrayals - like Sharon Stone’s murderous bisexual temptress in the film Basic Instinct (1992) - or the omission of queer content, such as excising a male-male kiss from the television show Melrose Place. Homophobic song lyrics by rapper Eminem and Jamaican dancehall artists Beenie Man and Buju Banton were other targets. GLAAD also reacted to current events, such as the murders of Matthew Shepard and transgender teen Gwen Araujo, as well as homophobic outbursts by the likes of the late Rev. Jerry Falwell and Pennsylvania Senator Rick Santorum. But in keeping with its mission of promoting "fair, accurate, and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation," GLAAD also sought to shape positive portrayals. It consulted on television and movie scripts featuring LGBT characters and themes, pitched sympathetic stories to mainstream publications, provided spokespersons for talk shows, and trained queer individuals and groups in how to effectively use the media. In addition to wielding the "stick" of protest, the organization also dangled the "carrot" of praise, introducing the GLAAD Media Awards in 1990 to recognize favorable representations of the community and its issues. After considerable pressure from LGBT media, the organization agreed in 2007 to honor them along with nongay outlets. By 2005, when Garry turned over leadership to Neil Giuliano - the openly gay former Republican mayor ofTempe, Ariz. - the organization had a budget approaching $7.5 million and a staff of more than 40. Yet GLAAD’s explosive growth, insider strategy, and increased emphasis on star-studded events did not sit well with some activists who felt the organization had moved too far from its grassroots origins. Further, some were unhappy with tactics they regarded as censorship, such as the successful pressure campaign to cancel conservative commentator Dr. Laura Schlessinger’s television show. GLAAD has "a political agenda that is murky at best - at worst, it is dangerous to free speech, artistic expression, and the interests of LGBT people," wrote activist Michae! Bronski. "Judging the accuracy of a news report is much different than judging art. GLAAD can deal with these issues by getting out of show business and back into watchdog media commentary." Despite the criticism, GLAAD continues with its goal of"changing people’s hearts and minds through what they see in the media." According to the organization, "What people see at the movies or read in the newspaper shapes how they view and treat the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people around them, and we have a responsibility to make sure those images foster awareness, understanding and respect." For further reading: Bronski, Michael. 2005. ~Not So GLAAD Anymore." Z Magazine (May 1). Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. www.glaad.org. Gross, Larry: 2002. Up From Invisibility: Lesbians, Gay Men and the Media in America (Columbia University Press). 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com OkEq Announces Anrmat Equality Gala Saturday, May 3t, 6pm, Cain’s Ballroom, 423 N Main Ave TULSA, OK__ (ENEWS) Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce its annual Equality Gala, held this year at the legendary Cain’s Ballroom. Benefiting OkEq, the Gala honors Lifetime Achievement Axvard xvinner Charles Faudree, Community Heroes George Kaiser Family Foundation and Carol Crawford, and Russ Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award winner Nancy Day: The program features a champagne and hors d’oeuvre reception, live entertainment by Jared Tyler and Valerie Eskridge accompanied by Jacob Fred Jazz Odyssey, dinner by Taste Catering and wine donated by Loring Wine Company. Don’t miss the black tie event of the season, celebrating Tulsa’s rich diversity. Sponsorship information and tickets are available at: wxvw.okeq.org Co ° munity for People iving with H P !iA1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit O~:gan:izatlon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. VVe provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m New exhibit featuring artist Ann Marie Distefano at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pm, Thursday, May 1, 2008, for the opening of it’s May exhibit, paintings by Ann Marie Distefano. Ann Marie’s paintings emerge from an aspiration to reclaim the spiritual dignity of art. "I want to make art that might open for the receptive viewer the window onto eternity," states Distefano. She continues, "My paintings are ’plugged into’ an inner source within myself that is very deep and sometimes unknown. What I seek to achieve is independence of artistic and philosophical fashions. My goal as an artist is to reveal an ineffable presence, the contemplation of which can lead the viewer towards an intuitive recognition of his or her own inherent radiance." Distefano, a native Bostonian, has been living in Tulsa for the past four years. She is a graduate of the School of the Museum of Fine Arts of Boston. The reception will be generously catered by donation by Baxter’s Interurban Grill. The exhibit will remain up through the month of May, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq. org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq)_. OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Emmy Award Winner Leslie Jordan (Brother Boy) In Oklahoma City. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Leslie Jordan famed "Sordid Lives" star, will bring his one man show, "My Trip Down The Pink Carpet" to OKC June 8th at the Tolbert Theater @ Stage Center. "In 1982, Leslie Jordan jumped offa Greyhound bus from the hills ofTennessee, said ’hello’ to Hollywood and has never looked back. With hundreds of television and film roles to his credit, he is probably best remembered for ’Kyle’ hapless ex-con on Muphey Brown, ’Resplendent Man’ entrepreneurial super hero on Lois and Clark, and can currently be seen recurring as ’Mr. Beverly Leslie’ on the hit series, \Vgill & Grace. Mr. Jordan just finished a stint on the two hit series, Ally McBeal and Boston Public as ’Dr. Benjamin Harris’ cloning expert turned new-age reverend turned science teacher turned drama coach. Mr. Jordan has also had a successful stage career. He played ’Brother Boy’ a Tammy Wynette fixated drag queen, in Del Shores hit play Sordid Lives and went on to star in the film adaptation of that play. He also has won every award for best supporting actor LA gives in theatre (Back Stage West Garlands, LA Weekly, LA Drama Critics Circle) for his portrayal of’Peanut Leroy’ a sodden aging homosexual in the runaway hit, Southern Baptist Sissies. the STAR 11 By Victor Gorin ooking forward to the upcoming Great Plains Rodeo, O.G.R.A. President Klint Wieden shares his thoughts and hopes not only for this event but for OGRA and the gay cowboys and cowgirls of Oklahoma. Originally from the small Oklahoma community of Arnett, he grew up as a typical Oklahoma cowboy, belonging to both 4-H and the Future Farmers of America. He went on to OSU where he majored in animal science and business, and now resides in OFdahoma City with his current career of copier sales while enjoying being a cowboy on the side. We appreciate him sharing his time with us. Victor: How many years has the Great Plains Regional Rodeo been in Oklahoma City? Klint: This is our 23rd year, and it has been held for the last 15 years at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds. It began with a group of people looking for an avenue where they could have friendly competition, socialize together and work together. It was a place for people who had something in common, a love of rodeo. They were gay cowboys who didn’t really feel that they fit into the gay scene at that time. The I.G.R.A. ( International Gay Rodeo Association) was formed, and O.G.R.A ( Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) was among the first state organizations. At the same time, the founders felt that they could also help the community by being a major fundraiser for charities of the community. Victor: A tradition that continues to this day. Klint: Besides the competition and fun involved, fundraising is truly what the rodeo Photo: Klint Wieden President OGRA is all about. \Ve raise money all year long to put it on, and then take the proceeds from that to give back to local charities. Victor: Is it still a regional rodeo? Klint: It had formerly been the Great Plains Regional Rodeo, representing other states as well. Today it is the Great Plains Rodeo, an event solely of OGRA. There is another organization in Tulsa, the Sooner State Rodeo Association, who also has their own rodeo. Victor: Of course the situation is much better than it was over 25 years ago. There were probably a lot of gay cowboys who felt they couldn’t be themselves and fit into what they perceived the gay community to be at that time. But even today straight people are astounded that there are gay cowboys, much less a rodeo. Klint: A couple a years ago the Daily Oklahoman wrote about our rodeo. \Vhat was to be a small paragraph turned into a front page story, hit the AP wires and was read all over the country. It was also read by my parents, who I had not been out with, who accepted me for the gay cowboy I was. Victor: Gay just happens, but cowboys are made. So how did it happen that you are a cowboy? Klint: I grew in the small northwest Oklahoma town ofArnett, 18 people in my graduating class. Arnett is a farming and ranching community, I rode horses and worked cattle my whole life, so that’s really who I am. Like many straight people, I thought you had to be flamboyant and feminine to be gay, and that wasn’t me. Once I learned there were country gay bars with cowboys, and gay rodeos, I thought" wow!" I fit in. That was great to kno~v. Victor: Of course the movie Brokeback Mountain had an enormous impact on America as a whole. I’m sure it had a special effect for the gay rodeo scene. Klint: It made people aware, both gay and straight, that there were people in that lifestyle who happened to be gay. So many gay cowboys could really relate to it, felt we had to hide for fear of not being accepted by our families, friends, bosses, or even the gay communir): Victor: So how rewarding has your hard work been with OGRA? Klint: \Veil this is my 4th term as the President of OGRA, I’ve been the rodeo director. I’m very out and very proud of what I’m doing. I have no problem telling businesses, like my dry cleaners, my dentist, my veterinarian that I support them, I’m a gay cowboy, and I’d like their support for our ............ Continued PAGE 23 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Foreman eaves Task Force National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Matt Foreman quit his job April 15 and moved to San Francisco to head up the Gay & Lesbian Rights Program at the Evelyn and Walter Haas, Jr. Fund. The fund provides more grant support to GLBT organizations than aW other nongay foundation in the U.S. Foreman was at the Task Force for five years and is credited with grmving the staff to 54 full-timers and doubling the organizanon’s budget to $10 million. "I’m incredibly privileged to have had this job for the last five years, and to have been paid to be gay for the last 18," Foreman said in an interview. "There are so many people who give their hearts and souls to our movement without any compensation or for ridiculously low salaries, and that certainly includes LGBT journalists. ’Tm also overwhelmed with pride in our people," he said. "One thing I hear a lot in my travels is: ’There’s no such thing as a gay community. No one’s on the same page. In a few years we’ll all be assimilated, etc., etc.’ I couldn’t disagree more. "Name me one community -- or family, for that matter -- where everyone agrees and everyone gets along. That’s not community, but banality.... No, there’s no monolithic gay community, but there are dozens and dozens of communities within our larger movement and they’re accomplishing amazing things every day. There’s community everywhere I go -- some purely social, others religious, others political, others professional. "While we do have a very, very long way to go, the fact that we’ve made so much progress while being such a tiny minority and against such mighty opponents is, to me, proof positive that we do indeed have a vibrant people and community." Wockner News Service PlanetOut to selll Advocate, Out, Myson, porn mags PlanetOut Inc. is selling The Advocate and Out magazines -- as well as The Out Traveler, HIVPlus, three porn magazines and book publisher Alyson Publications -- to an affiliate of the gay TV network here! for $6 million. The sale price is far !ess than the $31.1 million PlanetOut Inc. paid for the magazines and book compaW when it bought LPI Media Inc. and SpecPub Inc. in 2005. PlanetOut Inc. reported a loss of $51.2 million last year. The company xvill continue to own and operate Gay.com and PlanetOut.com. In January, PlanetOut Inc. "retained Allen & Company, LLC to assist the company in evaluating strategic alternatives, including a possible sale of the company," a press release said. The corporation also announced in January "that it will no longer be providing quarterly or annual earnings guidance and will not hold quarterly earnings calls." The porn magazines included in the sale to Regent Releasing and Unzipped. A fourth SpecPub Inc. porn magazine, known as [2], has ceased publication, but the sale will include the trademark "[2]," PlanetOut Inc. CEO Karen Magee said via e-mail. Obama grants interview to Advocate Under fire for not speaking with local and regional gay cations, presidential candidate Barack Obama sat down for an interviexv with Advocate.corn on April 10. "The gay press may feel like I’m not giving them enough love. But basically, all press feels that xvay at times;’ Obama said. "Obviously, when you’ve got limited amount of time, you’ve got so many oudets. We tend not to do a whole bunch of specialized press.... But I haven’t been silent on gay issues. What’s happened is, I speak oftentimes to gay issues to a public general audience" Obama said he supports passage of a federal law protecting transgender people from discrimination but he’s not sure there’s support in Congress for the move. A bill outlawing job discrimination against gays, lesbians and bisexuals has passed the House of Representatives and is pending in the Senate. "I have been clear about my interest in including gender identity in legislation, but I’ve also been honest ~vith the groups that I’ve met with that it is a heavy lift through Congress," he said. "\Ve’ve got some Democrats who are willing to vote for a non-inclusive bill but we lose them on an inclusive bill, and we just may not be able to generate the votes" Obama said he understands gay people’s frustration with candidates such as himself(and Hillary Clinton) who support, civil-union but not marriage for same-sex couples,’ I strongly respect the right ofsamesex couples to insist that even ifwe got complete equality in benefits, it still wouldn’t be equal because the same ~vord, marriage, assigned to it; he said. "I understand that, 3ective is also the broader ,olitical and ’ historical context in which I’m opera ing" MORE PAGE 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Rata Esparza Slays ’Era in 2518 Eventually, all the Broadway stars try their tuck in Hollywood. And it Was just ~ matter of time before Raul Esparza, the han&ome Tony Award nominee and Drama Desk Award winner (both for _Company_ and TabooL wandered west. Xhe bisexual actor has already fom~.d success on the small screen, cast m a recurring ro!e on A Cs h,t Pushing Daisies. BUt n~w he ma.v be s,tepping wlay outside the feel-good box he ~ been in - hes in t~ to play a s~riaI killer in Wes Craven~ latest ~een-horror fihm, 2518. Concerning a group 0fkids being stalked by a killer believed to have died on the birthday they share in common, the film will co’star teenage collies 0 pe ) and Shareeka epps (Half-Nelson). No production or release dates yet, but the scary stuffis due to shoot soon. Gay Cast Populates C vas Shifting the Canvass. an indie drama due m rackJe the complicated lives of a group of BrooMyn friends aAer 9/11. has cast several ~:aces fan~iliar to queer audiences. notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyem~e Ja4k~on. t~t seen on film as rugby player M~k Bingha~n in United 93, and cur~endy on Broadway in the hit music~ 3~adu, Jackson will star as a heterosexuN W~ Srree~ executive involved with a group of gay ffien&. Rounding out the c~st is ~& in ~e HNI alum Scott "~,ompson, ~ well as John Paul Pimc (best remembered ~ the hotW go-go boy in N’icD and Gedde Watanabe (last seen reD,lart~ as a gay nurse on ER, but forever kmown as ’Long D~ Dong" from SNteen CanNes). ~le film rolls in June and promises ~meos ~- several ~-yevunn~ed New ~brk ni~tti~e personalties. Cosby Goes to Jail Moore kmows how hard it is for an ; a break from the business so lately she~ been a low-risk comeback? Get on indie-film bus. And that’s exacdy what he’s been doing, recently starring in the .’ist drama Flawless with Michael Caine. nd now set to shoot gay writer-director from a d~tchell Llchtenste~ns (Teeth) latest film. mate Happy Tears. She’s i~ good compan> ~oo, ~ih~e-fitm veteran P~ker Posey has signed taste, ,n toplay lvloore’s younget sibling. ~2ne kama focuses on the two estranged sisters me selfLaggrandizing, the other bitter and ~dn~) as they re-establish their relationlip and deal with their elderly father’s progressive dementia. Shooting now in 2010. i~hiiadelphia, look for the happiness sometim~ in 2009. who finds herself Notably up-and-coming gay actor Cheyenne Jack,on. Photo: By Ben Strothmann 14 the STAR wv~,.ozarksstar.com Brief history from around the There is a lot to learn about this versatile wine. There are plenty ofgood Rieslings to taste. Let~ start with Australian offerings. They are noted fbr their oily- texture and citrus fruit flavors in their youth and a smooth balance of freshness and acid as they age. New Zealand Riesling was first planted in the 1970s and has flourished in the relatively cool climate of the Marlborough area. In comparison to Australian Riesting, New Zealand produces lighter and more delicate wines that range from sweet to dry. ][n Cati~brnia, Riesling lags far behind in popularity to Chardonnay ~d is not as commonly planted. A notable exception is opment ofhigh quality Late Harvest So i]~r, the Late Harvest wines produced are in the Anderson Valleys (north of Santa Rosa) where is more likely to encourage dte needed botutis develop. ~ae Riesling that does ~ fornia tends to be softer, fuller, a diverse flavors than a "tTpical" ~ ofBonW Doon, F Mountain A~v~& with dedicated completely to With high acidity and peach has deveto area is re t facility [, citric, With German Riesling, of ~vine Pr~dikat (QmP) PRAY-dee-kahq. It is the defined by the 1971. ,nit New York, particularly in ~e Finger Lakes region, was one ofthe eaMiest U.S, producers ofPdesling. Plantings started to appear in California by 1857 and fbllowed in xNSshington State in 1871. New ~tbrk Riesling generally has a characteristic effervescent light body with a similarly light, mellow flavor, The wine can be dynamic though rarely robust, and ranges from dry to sweet. New York is also a notable producer ofRiesling based Ice Wine, although a large majority ofNew ~%rk ke Wine is made from Vidal Blanc and Vigno~es. In the Pacific Northwest there is a stark contrast in Riesling production. ~Ihe grape is currently on the rise in ~VZ~shington State but on the decline in neighboring Oregon. Pdesling from this area ranges from dr?" to sweet, m~d has a crisp lighmess that bodes well for e~sy drin~ng. Often there will be an easily detectable peach and mineral complex. Some Washington State winemakers, such as Chateau Ste. Michelle, are adapting Germau-style There are six subcategories categor?; ranked from determine various levels .are: K)~BINE~, SP/&TLESE BEEI?J);NAUSLESE, EISWEIN, ENBEERENAUSLESE. Each care fined by a minimum sugar content of the which varies {::rotn region to region. The focus sugar content embodies the theoW that grapes with bdgher sugar levels are riper and therefore yield richer wines with deep colors and intense flavors. Although Riesling is best known from Germa- W’s Mosel-Saa>Rmver, Pfalz, Rheinhessen and Rheingau m:eas, wines from Alsace and Austria attain equal greatness. France’ Alsace’s are coveted for their high sugar levels and endless aging abili9~. Food Paring Riesling is a versatile wine for pairing with food because ofits balance ofsugar and acidity: tt can ~ paired with Thai and Chinese cuisine and various Rieslingproduction methods, and even parmering . types ofdishes prepared more on the spicy side. with well&~own German vinmers like Dr. Ernest One can also enjoy this wine with spicy ham, Loosen to create specialty wines such as the Eroig~ pork with pineapple chutney, stir-fried snow peas Riesling, with spicy shrimp, crab, turkey, barbequed or www.ozarksstar.com smoked meats, . white sausages, crab cakes gouda & grwere~ :this wine can be paired as an cake, apples/pears, caramel/ wmilla ice creaan, Schm~ Sohne Relax ’06 Job JOS P~Urn/Spatlese ’04 Jakob Dem~er/Kabinett ’06 ~ ’06 Pacific Rim Califor- Series Australia ’06 And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purchase a bottle or two. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself. Vlr. D also hosts wine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: the ABC’s of wine by James Laube/vcww.WineSpectator.com ,#~,~v.FoodandWine.com www.Wikipedia.org the STAR 15 HOST HOTEL 801 South Meridian Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73108 ¯35-9~2-1400 ¯ 1-877-STAY-HGI OVER FLOW HOTEL 1511 NW Expressway, Oklahoma City, OK 73118 405-840-5557 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Campbell Street, Springfield, MO Early 1900’s ~ormany years, Springfield, Missouri has gotten a bad rap fi’om the gay and lesbian community all over the country. Even many of our straight friends have been hesitant about visiting Springfield. Like many cities in the "Bible Belt", Springfield has had in the past a reputation for being extremely conservative and even homophobic. Well, readers, things have CHANGED and for the better ! At the invitation of the Springfield, Missouri Convention & Visitors Bureau we visited Springfield last month. They showed us their beautiful city, their museums, attractions, galleries, dining options and we must admit that we are now in love with Springfield, Missouri and we lmow that all of our gay and lesbian readers from coast to coast will also be. Springfield, Mo. is a very "vibrant and alive" city and everybody is welcome. As our readers kmow, we are a "very out’ gay couple and we were shown the highest respect everywhere we went in Springfield. There are gays and lesbians working in every field of employment in Springfield and nearly all of them are "out". MaW of the large National companies at first were hesitant to move their offices and headquarters to Springfield but things have changed and for a variety of reasons. We want to thank so many of the younger gays and lesbians that we met while we were in Springfield for their honesty and hard work that to made this happen. Now with that being said, let us tell you about the "new and improved" Springfield, Missouri. With a population of over 420,000 for metropolitan Springfield, it is the third largest city in the State and offers an unbelievable array of surprises for any traveler. When so many cities in the country are down-sizing and doing nothing to improve their cities, the Springfield, Mo. community has grown in every ~vay imaginable in their arts, business, sports, shopping, restaurants and nightlife. Their "new and improved" downtown area is something that most cities can only dream about. All within walking distance you can admire the works of local and regional artists in more than 15 galleries, artist’s studios and other venues where you can encounter sculpture, pottery, paintings, jewelry, photography and hand blown glass demonstrations. In addition you have a choice of wonderful restaurants, coffee shops and cafes to dine. In Springfield, they MADE it happen! Springfield has over 6,000 hotel/motel rooms and over 600 dining options. So whatever you are into, you will find it in Springfield! Metropolitan Springfield has so much to offer in the way of attractions, historical places to visit and things to see. FANTASTIC CAVERNS is a must see for any first time visitor to Springfield. They open daily at 8 AM until dusk. You ride thru this ancient underground cave that has massive formations. The tour is 50 minutes and your driver will explain the entire history of the cave to you. THE SPRINGFIELD ART MUSEUM is the permanent home for some 8,500 art objects representing thousands of years of culture. They are open Tuesday thru Sunday and are located at 111 E. Brookside Dr. The SPRINGFIELD LITTLE THEATRE at the historic Landers Theatre is Missouri’s oldest and largest civic theatre. This season includes Gypsy, ATuna Christmas, the Miracle Worker and Seussical to name just a few of their productions. "WILD BILL" HICKOK SHOOTOUT SITE in Park Central Square, right downtown is the site of the nations first recorded shootout and helped solidify the reputation ofWild Bill. Look for the marker on 18 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com Stage coach terra cotta on Springfidd garage. East. Markers are also located in the street showing where each man stood during the shoot out. The RAILROAD HISTORICAL Museum, 1300 No. Grant Ave. is dedicated to the preservation of railroading and you can step into a locomotive, commuter car and caboose. The MISSOURI SPORTS HALL OF FAME, 3861 E. Stan Musial Drive includes thousands of sports memorabilia, exhibits and displays and of course the Springfield Cardinals Baseball team which is the Double-A affiliate of the St. Louis Cardinals and plays at Hammonds Field. Bass Pro has their big store at !935 South Campbell Ave with everything imaginable in the sports line. Tired of seeing everything yet? Well, Springfield offers a lot more things to see! The AIRAND MILITARY Museum of the Ozarks is a "hands-on" museum of military history. They are located at 2305 E. Kearney St. The Brown Derby Store at 2023 S. Glenstone offers a world-class wine selection unmatched in the Midwest. The Commercial Street Historical District (between \Vashington Ave. and Lyon Ave. is a self-guided tour which is a 6 block adventure. With a seasonal farmers market, chocolate factory, the city’s oldest tavern, new micro-brewery, antiques/art galleries, this is a great walking tour. DICKERSON PARK ZOO, 1401 W. Norton Road allows visitors to get up dose with hundreds of animals. DISCOVERY CENTER is an interactive hands-on science center and is located downtown at 438 E. St. Louis St. The TENT THEATRE is celebrating their 45th season this summer. This summer’s productions include Cyrano de Bergerac, June 11-14 and June 16-21, You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown, June 25-28, June 30-July 3, and our favorite, Anything Goes with lyrics and music by Cole Porter, July 9-12, July 14-20. The Theatre and Dance Department at Missouri State University in Sprinbffield offers a wide range of theatre and dance programs. But the most important time we had in Springfield during our recent visit there was the "DOWNTOWN AREA". The "new:" dmvntmvn area is FABULOUS !!!!! Check out their wonderful website at www.itsalldowntown. corn \re particularly enjoyed having breakfast at Galley’s Breal’~ast Care downtown at 220 East Walnut. The setting is a wonderful old nostalgic care of the past but yet has new and innovative delicious food with service to match. The owners and staff are doing it EXACTLY RIGHT! This is the only place to have breakfast in Springfiel!! Nonna’s Italian American Care, 306 South Avenue is wonderful. Although they offer non-Italian choices, why bother? Their Italian menu is what it is all about. And it is GOOD! Our best dining experience for dinner was at the Kai Restaurant, 306 South Campbell. This new downtown restaurant is one of the finest in the country with great atmosphere, The Gay and Lesbian Center of the Ozarks, 518 E. CommerciaI Street in Springfield supports the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons in the greater Springfield, Missouri region by organizing and sponso> ing community activities and by increasing public understanding and appreciation of LGBT citizens. Josh Comp is the President and is doing a magnificent job. Their phone number is 417-869-3978. They organize Pridefest and help organize the annual variety show, the Queen City Cabaret. They are close partners with FOCUS - LGBT professionals group and with APO, Blossom women’s group, the First Sunday Community Potluck. They provide free professional counseling through the Forest Institute. They have an Individual and Community Services Advocate who provides services to the community and have a youth group program for LGBT youth which meets once a week and every fourth Friday. They provide an outlet for many social and support groups. They have been operating since !996 and are one of the oldest Gay and Lesbian Centers in the State. Volunteers are always needed so give them a call and donate a couple hours a week. For nightlife, they have the new CLUB 821 that is getting a lot of attention throughout the entire Midwest. ~xey are located at 821 West College, just 8 blocks West of the downtown area and NEVER A COVER ! (vavw.club821.corn) and phone (417) 866-4821 Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 4 PM to 1 AM. and happy hour is daily 4 PM to 7 PM. This bar just Photo: Donald Pie, Rob Bel (owner Club 821) & Ray Williams at Club 821, Springfield, ~Ossouri great service and extremely great food. Continuedpage 27 www.ozarksstar.com {HeSTAR 19 of By Andrew Collins Town Bakimore, Maryland Baltimore’s mostpopular lesbian bar, Sapphos, is ])art ofthe bustling Grand Central €*lu~ in the heart ofthe Mount Vernon neighborhood. (Photo by Andrew Collins) If you haven’t been to Baltimore in a while, you owe yourself a visit. This friendly, unassuming city has experienced a virtual rebi,~h over the past 15 years, rehabilitating its handsome Inner Harbor by converting dilapidated piers and ,vharves into museums, shops, restaurants, hotels, and condominiums. Often featured in the movies ofcamp filmmaker and native son John \V-aters, Baltimore has also developed increased cachet as a welcoming gay and lesbian destination, with its many GLBT-ffiendly businesses. Fortunately, the ci.ty’s success hasn’t gone to its head. It’s hard to find a more genuine and down-to-earth breed of urbanites than the residents of Baltimore, who retain a special affection for their hometown. You may be lured to Baltirnore by the many highly publicized attractions set around downtown’s Inner Harbor, and indeed most of these museums and entertainment centers live up to their billing. But be sure to save rime to explore the man), quirky- residential neighborhoods, a few of which - Mount Vernon, Federal Hill, Fells Point - are within easy walking distance of downtown. The Inner Harbor thrived for years as a shipping crossroads before falling into a state of blight. Its conversion into an entertainment and museum district has made it one of the most engaging and picturesque harbors in America. Popular attractions include the glassenc! osed Harborplace pavilions, where you can browse through dozens of shops. Also che& out the Baltimore Maritime Museum, National Aquarium, and World Trade Center (which offers fine views from its 27th-floor observation decD. A regal grassy knoll south of the harbor, Federal Hill Park rises majestically above downtox~qa, and the Inner Harbor. It’s an ideal spot to laze under the sun on warm afternoons. The surrounding eponymous neighborhood has loads of inviting cafes and bars, and the neighborhood’s American Visionary Art Museum ingeniously blends two historic -warehouses within a striking contemporary structure. East of the Inner Harbor, Fells Point may be America’s best-preserved Cx3lonial waterfront, with its perfectly maintained Federa!-sryle town houses, Baltimore’s gay epicenter ties north of downtown in historic Mount Vernon, which you reach by strolling north from the Inner Harbor up the city’s backbone, Charles Street. The neighbothood is anchored by Mount Vernon Square and its 178-foot-high Washington /vlonument. Nearby are the outstanding Waiters Art Museum and the Peabody Conservatory of Music, the oldest and one of the most prestigious classical music schools in the country. kbffll need to drive or take a bus up Charles Street to reach the leaf), 140-acre campus ofJohns Hopkins University, which is ideal for strolling and is next to the state’s largest museum, the Baltimore Museum ofArt. West ofJohns Hopkins, Hampden is a good oldfashioned "Ba~vl’mer" neighborhood, a former mill-workers’ community that has more recently developed a bounty of hip boutiques, galleries, and cafes. (John Waters, who lives nearby, occasionally strolls these parts and set his movie _Pecker_ here.) \Vhen you’re craving a memorable meal, remember that Baltimore’s cooking is full of flavor - the city- even has its o,vn spice, Old Bay Seasoning, a feisty, concoction of 16 seasonings sprinkled mostly on shellfish but required by some locals on seemingly everything but ice cream. If you’re on the run, iust wander through the copious food stalls in the Harborplace pavilions. It may look like a zoo of tourists, but yoffd be surprised how many locals graze here. Many of these places offer top-notch local seafood - particularly oysters, clams, and Chesapeake Bay blue crabs. Walk a bit south ro Federal Hill, along South Charles or Light streets, and you’ll find dozens of appealing eateries, including one of the best little restaurants in the city~ the Bicycle Bistro, where you might dine on grilled rack of lamb with a pineapple-poblano-pepper chutney, or porcini-crusted sea scallops. East of the harbor, there’s superb dining in the city’s Little Italy (Boccaccio, with such seasonal delights as local clams and mussels in a pernod-tomato broth, is a particular standout), and in nearby Fells Point, talented chef Nancy Longo helms the kitchen at Pierpoint, which is known for such inventive contemporary regional fare as smoked crab cakes, and ftied Maryland chicken breast with parmesan grits. Mount Vernon has dozens of excellent, gay-popular restaurants. At nile high end, opulently decorated Ixia scores high marks for its wellchosen wine list and superbly rendered cuisine, including grilled baby octopus with lemon-fennel confit, and lobster-crab mac-andcheese with a creamy Fontina sauce. Across the street, Sacha’s is a great spot for toothsome grazing - the many "small plates" include crisp french fries in a cone with Old Bay-seasoned creme fraiche, 20 t~®STAR www.ozarksstar.com and fried green tomatoes topped vdth lump crab meat. Continue up Charles Street and yoff!l come to trendy Donna’s, a cheerful and modern space where an arts)- crowd mingles over light salads, roasted veggie sandwiches, fresh coffee, and fantastic tiramisu. %e Hdmand has become renowned }br its spics; well-prepared kd~han food (it’s owned by the brother ofA~hanistan’s president, Harold Kharzai), and Motmt Vernon Stable and Saloon is a perfect late-night venue for chicken wings, sandwiches, burgers, ribs, and similarly comforting pub standar~Is. Finally, don’t miss City Care. an airy and inviting iava joint that also serves food and wine. property" ~ns kudos ~br its helpful service, romantically decorated roo~s, ~d afternoon tea and refreshments. In Mount Vernon, the historic 1924 Clarion Peabody Court, with its 104 handsomely outfitted rooms, enthusiastically welcomes gay and lesbian travelers. You’ll ~e ~ town house bars. Other esteemed in Dy- Canton. This stunner Make the trip a bit north toward Johns Hopkins to reach Ixia’s sister restaurant, the lovably kitschy Paper Moon Diner, which is open choice. Near here in the Hampden neighborhood is the notable for the massive pink flamingo dangling from the front of the btfilding (not to mention tasty comfort fare like Belgian wanes topped with fresh berries, and famously good meatlo~). There’s als0 great coffee to be sipped nearby at Common Ground coffeehouse, and delicious Mexican food served within the funky confines of Holy Frijoles. appreciate one of the ci~’s Baltimore gay-bar-goers congregate mostly at a handful of mainstays. Yuppies and stand-and-model types flock almost religiously to Gr~d Ceiatral, a large, multi-level complex that consists ofa video lounge, dance bar, billiards room, and outdoor deck. Also on-site is the s[vanky lesbian bar, Sapphos, with its comfy living-room-esque decor and soft lighting. ~£ other major club i~i the n’eighborhood is Club Hippo, whose r~putation for gr~at music draws a wide mix of revelers, ga34 straight, old, and young. It’s a great place to cut loose, especially on Thursday and Saturday nights. When it gets late, the party moves to Club 1722, an 18-and-over ~er-hours club open on Fridays and Saturdays into the ~ee- hours. The,tiki-themed Coconuts Caf~ is another Mr. Vernon hangout thats popular xvith lesbians, while Club Bunns caters heavil~ to Baltimore’s sizable African-kanerican gay community and has a legendary happy hour. Leather aficionados head a few blocks up Charles to the Eagle, which, though lacking any serious back-room action, nevertheless cultivates as racy, an atmosphere as any bar in town. A classic dive that’s been serving the gay community for more than 60 years (longer, say" some, than [my bar in America), Leon’s is especially popular late on weekend evenings. Nearby Jay’s on Read is ~ das~ i~ia~o bar, and Club Phoenix is a laid-back neighborhodd hangout with a small dance area and some highly entertaining drag sho~s. In Federal Hill, the Rowan Tree is a friendly neighbor~iood spot with an eclectic crowd, and over in the up-and-coming Canton section ofBaltimore, The Quest caters to fans of go-go dancers. Baltimore hotels have become slightly more expensive over the years, as the city has become a serious tourist and convention destination, but rates are still much lower than in nearby Washington, D.C. Most visitors choose properties near the Inner Harbor, dose to great restaurants and attractions. An excellent option here is the Pier 5 Hotel, a hip and lively boutique property with whimsically decorated, spacious rooms, many directly facing the Inner Harbor. The same owners run the elegant, historic (and allegedly haunted) Admiral Fells Inn in nearby Fells Harbor - this charming old-world www.ozarksstar.com heSTAR 21 KAI REffAURANT & AFTER DARK LOUNGE Missouri For an absolutely fabtflous dining experience we highly suggest you try the new KAI RESTAURANT. It is located in the new and revitalized downtown area at 306 South Campbell. From the moment you walk thru the front door you will KNOW that you are in for a very special treat. Downstairs they have the KAI After Dark Lounge which has a very eclectic modern decor. Xhey have terrific bartenders who know how to serve every kind of drink imaginable. But the real treat is going upstairs to the KAI Restaurant where they serve "Modern Japanese Cuisine" in an unbelievable setting. ~he restaurant is dark, sexy, exciting, exotic and absolutely spectacular! Go to their website’s gallery to see for yourself. We haven’t been anywhere in the Midwest that can possibly compare to our dining experience there. Our server was extremely knowledgeable as to what was on the menu and offered good suggestions. He was a true professional. We started offwith the "Hot Rock" which is one of the restaurant’s specialties. It came with thinly sliced rare top sirloin woked on a hot stone presentation. You put one slice at a time on the sizzling hot stone and it cooks in seconds. Dip it into the sauce and you have some of the finest appetizers that we have ever had. Other Kai specialities included their Kuslyaki Filet, Kobe Beef Carpaccio and their Spicy Asian Chicken Lettuce Wraps. ~hey offer a full range of soups and salads including their Kai salad, Ika Sansai Salad, Seaweed Salad, Tri Tuna Salad and their Honey Walnut Mango Chicken Salad. For their entrees they offer everything from Teriyaki to black cod, sea bass to New York Strip, Filet Mignon and Kai Surf and Turf. Other entrees included Seven Samurai with seven kinds of fish on top of a California Roll, Drunken Tiger which is spicy tuna with asparagus wrapped with grilled tuna, Fantastic Four, with shrimp tempura, crab, spice tuna with fried eel on top. For desserts they offer a wide choice for any pallet including Irish chocolate cake, banana chocolate spring rolls, creme brulee, tiramisu and cheesecake. Xhe table next to us had been coming back almost every week since they opened. They get a lot of diners who came back again and again and again just because this restaurant knows how to do things the right way! It is just that simple! Kai Restaurant is in an old downtown building that they completely remodeled to perfection. We know that with all their professionalism that they will be in business for many years. When traveling around the country we find that so many restaurants try to copy each other and the Kai Restaurant is itself and it’s own creation and that is what makes it so special. By the way, their prices are extremely reasonable. No trip to Springfield, Mo. would be complete if you don’t have a wonderful dining experience at the Kai Restaurant. Their hours are Monday thru Saturday, 5:00 PM to 1:15 AM. For reservations call 417-832- 0077 and check out their website, www.kaiafterdark.com. People go to a restaurant not only to dine but to have a fabtflous dining experience and trust us on this one, you will have a "beyond fabulous" dining experience. When you get the best and innovative decor, great food and great service, you know you have found the perfect place! Congratulations to the owners and stafffor making the KAI Restaurant so special. 22 theSTAR www.ozarksstar.com "While we beat our chests and proclaim ourselves the xvorld’s largest superpower, it is foolish to expect that we Americans, with only 6 percent of the world’s population, can automatically impose our xv~ll on everyone else." [p. 25] "... [~he...war in Iraq has led to a devastaring drop in world approval of the United States and sharp divisions between Muslim and Non-Muslim communities. It has provided more recruits for anti-American terrorist organizations, cost American taxpayers billions of dollars, and above all, caused loss of human life on a tragically large scale. A failure to understand the culture and history of other parts of the world has exacted a great price." ~. 28] "We cannot afford the toll that multiple Iraq-like mistakes would take on America, especially as we deal xvith emerging nations whose power and influence will become great as time passes." [p. 29] "Preemptive military engagements in the absence of an act of war against us have not proven successful. Vietnam and Iraq are dramatic examples." [p. 41] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. "Forty other countries now have a higher life expectancy than the United States, in no small part because 45 million Americans have no health insurance. When ~vill we act?" [p. 7] "... [I]t is morally imperative that we provide universal health coverage for all Ameficans... We must not rule out considering a new approach that moves away from the current employer-based system...Those who have health insurance are already paying the costs for the uninsured, who often end up in hospital emergency rooms...The uninsured wait to get help until they reach a medical crisis. This drives costs higher. There is no excuse for another presidential term to end without implementing universal health insurance." [p.p. 84-5] Source: David Boren, A Letter to America (2008). Norman, OK : University of Okla. Press. rodeo. Very often they do. It’s a lot of hard work, it is very rewarding, but every year right after the Rodeo ends we start planning for the next one. Victor: Do straight people still sometimes get thrown by the idea of a gay cowboy? Klint: They don’t associate what they perceive to be a masculine lifestyle to be a part of how they perceive the gay lifestyle. So in part we are educating the public as a whole, and even still some parts of the gay community, that we come from every facet of life. Victor: So what’s in store for this year? Klint: We have a great reputation, one of the largest rodeos of the IGRA system. We have a new rodeo director from Florida, Jim Mitchell and Assistant directors Travis Parker ofOGRA & Michael Fontenot of Florida. We’re doing all kinds of promotions not only in Oklahoma but also surrounding states, and we expect people from all parts of the country. This year we are hosting the I.G.R.A.’s Board of Directors Meeting, so trustees from all of their rodeo associations throughout the United States and Canada will be here. As with tradition, all we donate stays in Oklahoma. This year we are helping out two major charities, Other Options and Rain Oklahoma. Victor: So who should join OGRA? Does one have to be a rancher or cowboy? Klint: We have many members who have never ridden a horse or worked with cattle. We welcome people who many walks of life who embrace cowboys and western heritage. As we raise money for our community, we need talented people who want to help us make a difference. Victor: I think that’s an invitation. Thanks for all you and OGRA do for gay Oklahoroans, including our cowboys and cowgirls, and we can look forward to another great event. VOTER I~GISTRATION Voter registration applications may be submitted at any time. However, a valid application must be received at a motor license agency or a designated voter registration agency, or postmarked (if submitted by mail), more than 24 days prior to an election in order for the applicant to participate in that election. Deadlines for submitting valid voter registration applications prior to the 2008 statewide elections are as follows: Primary Election Friday, July 4 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, July 29 - Election Runoff Primary Election Friday, August 1 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, August 26 - Election General Election Friday, October 10 - Registration Deadline Tuesday, November 4 - Hection CHANGES IN POLITICAL AFFILIATION Changes in political affiliation may not be made during the period from June 1 through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which a change in political affiliation can be made before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which a change in political affiliation can be made after the closed period is September 1. OTHER IMPORTANT DATES Last day to request absentee ballot for July 29 Primary Hection Wednesday, July 23 Vote early at your County Hection Board office Friday, July 25, 8 AM - 6 PM Saturday, July 26, 8 AM - 1 PM Monday, July 28, 8 AM - 6 PM Candidate Filing for federal, state, legislative and county offices June 2 - 4 wvcw.ok, gov/-elections/index.html www.ozarksstar.com theSTAR 23 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa 24 @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Democratic U£. senate candidate (currently State Senator) Andrew Rice with Richard Ogden Chairperson Cimarron Alliance Foundation at a fantastic fundraiser at Ogden’s home. By Greg Steele on the prowl victor G06~ ~e~nt~ O~l~h;ma C0rpora~ tion Commissioner Jim R6tha plaque with a 45 of one is his favodte inspirations, Dion’s "Abraham Martin & Johi~2 ~e 84 & Robin Dorner with The City S~Ni~i atthe fundraiser for State Senator Andrew Rice! Marlett is runn ng aga nst the nfamous sai ~ I(em. State Representative A! McAffrey with Oklahbrna County Democratic Party co-chair Elle~ Ste~SS : at Oklahoma City fundraiser for McAffrey. www.ozarksstar.com By Ronald Blake ho wants to see you achieve health, fitness, and overall well-being? It seems like everyone wants to see you fit into that smaller size of pants or cut back on your smoking. We live in a soci.ety where it is horrible to think that people die. You need to take advantage of this munificence of the masses. Government agencies are always watching out for you. The FDA is monitoring what medications are safe for your consumption. The FAA will not let you fly with Joe Camel smoke swirling aimlessly around the cabin. The CDC monitors the incidences ofWest Nile virus outbreaks in all the 50 states. Your local agency on aging center will even see to it that you have a fan or air conditioner to place in your window ifyou can’t afford to buy one. Your taxes are ~vorking to help you after all. Restaurants and fast food establishments are even seeking to give you healthier food. Subway leads the pack of retailers by offering you groovy grinders and showcasing the slimmed down Jared as proof of eating right. Numerous restaurants are shrinking their portion sizes and now only offering enough to satisfy one hippopotamus’ appetite. Applebee’s is one example of this sensible change. They even charge a little less for this good idea. Gosh, even Hamburglar and Grimace are putting apple slices in Happy Meals. There are not-for-profit agencies out there that are a website away from accessing information for better health. The American Lung Association will tell you where to find smoking cessation classes. The Cancer Society will tell you when you should get a pap smear, colorectal check, skin screening, and breast exam. There are support groups for autism, anger management, gambling addictions, mental illnesses, and many more. If you can Google it, it is out there waiting to be uncovered by you. Even money-hungry Hollywood types have your best interests in mind. "Supersize Me" was that documentary about McDonalds and the Big Mac that put the fast-food giant into a Dow Jones suicide watch. The behemoth hamburger franchiser changed their menu in response to this fat-laden epiphany. Michael Moore took on the health care industry and all the cigar-chomping politicos inside the Beltway in his documentary "Sicko". He exposed the Swiss cheese health coverage we have for the denizens of this great land. There have even been movies like a "Beautiful Mind" and "Rain Man" that have shown a superb story but have also given us a better understanding of health issues like mental illnesses. Finally, we even have philanthropists like Bill Gates, Oprah, Bono, and numerous others who are giving money to charities to improve the lives of others. These methods include education and training. Education is one of the greatest factors affecting poor health. More educated individuals are less likely to smoke, drink, or engage in drug activity than those individuals who lack a proper education. If you want to achieve it, you must seek it. It should not be difficult; there is assistance around every corner. Excuses are around every corner too. Choose your corner carefully. This health and fitness coltunn is brought to you by that guy who has an analog mind in a digital world. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be shaken from his reverie at w~wv.goblakefitness.com. 26 t~÷STAR w~vw.ozarksstar.com SPRINGFIELD, MO. opened last October and has quickly become extremely popular. Why? Because of the owner and staff. Rob knows how to treat customers and has hired a very professional staff. Michelte, the bar manager is the kind of bartender that everybody wants. She is fun, funny, lively, interesting, professional and you can tell that she really enjoys her job. Why can’t all bartenders across the country be like this? The other bartenders there are great also. We found everybody in this bar to be extremely friendly. How many times have you walked into a bar only to be sitting at the bar all by yourself and no one talks to you. Trust us, it won’t happen in this bar! Another fun place is JR’s Nightclub, 504 E. Commercial, (417) 864-2823. This is the bar "where men are comfortable, but everyone is welcome". They are open Monday thru Saturday, 5 to 1:30 AM and Sunday, 2 PM to midnight. When you walk in, people either know you or they don’t and if they don’t know you, they will shortly. Everyone is friendly. The bartenders and owner are friendly. After a couple of drinks you will know everybody in the bar. And isn’t that the idea of going to a bar, to meet other people? JR’s is the only bar in Springfield that is open on Sundays. Other places to visit are Martha’s Vineyard and Latin Vibes which features special gay shows on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. If your needing to get around the city, contact Fisk Limousines, www.fisklimo.com or give them a call at 417.862.2900. They give the best service in the entire Midwest. Springfield, Missouri is indeed a city with a great future. They want EVERYONE to visit their beautiful city. We did and we certainly enjoyed our stay there as we know that all of our readers will. The Convention & Visitors Bureau has one of the best websites in the nation, www.springfieldadventures. com. Be sure and check it out. Our thanks to Susan Wade, Public Relations Manager, Springfield Convention & Visitors Bureau. She is simply "the Best of the Best" and so professional, and to Mark Templeton of Springfield. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! NATIONAL NEV S NoY. governor .snpports same-sex marrmge New York Gov. David Patterson said April 7 that he supports legalization of same-sex marriage. Speaking by video link to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force’s awards dinner in Manhattan, Patterson said: "We xvill push on and bring full marriage equality to New York state. And when xve have done that, xve’re going to do more. We’re going to protect young people from bullies. We’re going to protect against the discrimination of people in the transgender community, and xve’re going to fight for decent and affordable health care for all citizens in this state." "If you xvill join with me, and if xve xvork hard enough, xve can change the face of Nexv York, which will be the catalyst to changing national policy," he said. Patterson had planned to attend the dinner but was stuck in Albany dealing with budget problems. www.ozarksstar.com t~:~{~.STAR 27 by Jack Fertig May 2008 "Articulate conflicts, Cancer!" The Sun in Taurus offers the comforts and pleasantries of spring. Now, however, Sol is aspecting asteroid Chiron in Aquarius and new planet Eris, stirring up the question of where to settle down and with whom. Think beyond habits, and be open to surprises! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Individualist though you are, you belong with some tribe - however awkwardly. A clash of values is inevitable, but not catastrophic. Give yourself room to be not at the center of the group, but at the edge - perhaps even the leading edge. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your own personality is both a key and an impediment to success. Meditate and talk with a confidante. Issues of fitting in and reconciling different communities in your world seem like complications, but actually point to a solution. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): You’re too easily tempted into arguments with others.-Better to look within and resolve your own conflicts. Knocking those around with a friend and establishing a philosophical framework are important. Just know that the real debate is internal. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Time to review that famous "gay agenda." How do your goals and ideals fit in with your immediate queer community and your sense of the broader community? Articulating the conflicts and exploring the issues could put you into a position of leadership. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Your ambitions can easily lead to arguments. That’s OK, as long as the point of the argument is to better understand _what’s_ right, not _who’s_ right. To fix a relationship, try seeing it in a different light. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): New ideas, even those that seem to come way out of left field, can help solve problems at work and with your health. (Chiropractic?) Don’t underestimate possibilities, wacky as they may seem, offered by other GLBT folks. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Rethinking group allegiances and community identity should prove helpful in understanding your sexual potential - not just as a lover, but as an erotic healer. Explore new forms of erotic play and perception. You can do this actively and/or academically. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Some housecleaning, literally or metaphorically, is important to improve your relationship or to help you be ready for one. An eccentric older relative or community elder offers an inspirational role model 28 t~eSTAR SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 = December 20): Team sports or games - anything from charades to rugby - can help you understand your own thought processes, or perhaps learn how to keep your mouth from getting you into trouble. You’ll never get that one perfect, but you can make progress! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Being a capricious Cappy could get expensive. Entertain members of your family or tribe at home or through some community event, staying ever mindful of your budget. Asking others to contribute can help strengthen your bonds. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Fitting in with your family can be a problem. Imagine that you are adopted and speak a different language. What would you try to say? You wouldn’t want to be just like everyone else, so celebrate your uniqueness, and they’ll love you as you are. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Don’t be afraid to speak your mind. 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans For Equality Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Oklahomans For Equality Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 6, 2009 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Oklahomans For Equality Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource Ad Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Diversity Celebration 2009 PDF Text Text June 6th 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM www.tulsapride.org Centennial Park - 6th and Peoria Festival Events: Pioneer Pancake Breakfast From 7:00 AM to 10:00 AM Centennial Park Community Building Presents Golden Girls 2:00 PM and 3:30 PM Centennial Park Community Building Orasi Productions Presents BBQ ANGEL 12:00 PM and 5:00 PM Centennial Park Community Building Pride Parade at 7:30 PM Begins at Boulder and Brady ends at Centennial Park Equality Fire Works Show Centennial Park Lake at Dark Centennial Park Under the Stars Experience all of OZ after the festival! 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Title A name given to the resource [2009] Hate Crimes Prevention Act Victory Celebration Subject The topic of the resource Victory Celebration to Commemorate the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, October 28, 2009 Description An account of the resource A photocopy of a Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) and Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) brochure for an event celebrating the signing of the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act on October 28, 2009, 2 pages. Guest speakers include Nancy McDonald, representatives from United Church of Christ, Families United Against Hate, and the Tulsa City Council. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource October 28, 2009 2009 brochure Community of Hope Dennis R. 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Mr. and Mrs. Kevin Sherwood with biker group protesting Fred Phelps demonstrators at Moore High School. Gorin photo MOORE, OK __ Spreading their ukual rants of far out homophobia, members of Fred Phelps Westboro Baptist Church of Topeka, Kansas came to protest near the Oklahoma State Capitol as well as Moore High School March 2. Few in the GLBT or fair minded community are not familiar with this church, as they have been protesting with infamous "God Hates Fags" signs along with other similar sentiments nationwide and abroad for over a decade. They gained national attention in 1998 when they picketed Matthew ShepardS funeral in Laramie,Wyoming with infamous signs, some stating "Matthew is in Hell". Rarely’ missing an opportunity to present their viewpoint, they have picketed funerals of those who have died of AIDS, and staged protests against governments who have granted rights or tal~en any action they perceive as "fag enabling." More recently their skewed logic went even further when they picketed funerals of American soldiers, incredulously promoting the concept that God is punishing America with the deaths of soldiers because our nation is too tolerant of homosexuals. Understandably this has raised anger with countless patriotic Americans, especially those in the military; veterans and their families & friends. Although the Westboro group had been to Oklahoma before, they returned again to protest against the Oklahoma Legislature for permitting a gay pastor, the Reverend Scott Jones- Cathedral of Hope UCC, to lead a Prayer for the Day at the invitation of State Representative A1 McAffrey. This protest drew a small crowd with TV & press coverage coverage at N.W. 23rd and Sante Fe, before the Phelps clan moved on ........... Continued See BAPTlST Page-9 At a question-and-answer session, Clinton called on Maxim Anmeghichean, programs director for the European Region of the International Lesbian, Gay~ Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association, after commenting on his "I Love Hillaw" T-shirt. Anmeghichean said: "My name is Max. I am from Moldova, and I am a gay rights activist. In seven countries in the world homosexuals are sentenced to death and many more to prison. A lot of gay men arotmd the world die because of the HIV/ AIDS policies that the Bush administration had that did not allow to spend money on prevention for men who have sex with men. How do you see the foreign policy of the United States changing in the coming years in the field of human rights mad in partictdar sexual rights and gay and lesbian rights?" ........... Continued See HILLARY Page-8 �2 April 2009 �v~v~.metrostarnews.com ~°~t~oSTAR 3 �Busy year ahead £or Sooner State Rodeo By Michael W. Sasser New membership and renewed energy and interest in the Association are keys to a successful 2009. "XWe need the community’s involvement, bars’ involvement and participants’ involvement to bring a rodeo back to Tulsa," Dickrnan said. "It’s going to be an exciting year and we invite everyone in the commun!ty to join in." E~oto: fim Grubb, 7~m Dickmann, Don George, V¢7ll Hughes, & Scou" Gouard hosting a spaghel~i dinner to benefit St. Jerome’s Church. TULSA, OK __ With a new executive board elected in February, events already under its belt and a slate of others scheduled for the remainder of the year, the Sooner State Rodeo AssociaOon has a bustling 2009 ahead. "Our overall objective is to bring a rodeo back to Tulsa and to have one on a regular basis," said Tim Dickman, newly elected president. In addition to Dickman, Kevin George, Darin Steward, Kevin Murphy, Don George and Bob "West were elected vice president, tre~asurer, recording secretary, corresponding secretary and trustee respectively in February. "We want to remind people we’re still here, we’re still active and we are starting a new campaign to get people interested. Dickanau said. A spaghetti dinner at St. Jerome’s Church and a club night at Mavericks drew the community~ attention and attracted several new members. Key events ahead are also expected to garner notice and new members. The Associatioffs next general membership meeting is slated for Sunday, April 5th at St. Jerome’s Church in Brady Heights, and the general public is invited to attend. On April 24th at 9 pm at Mavericks, the Sooner State Royalty Roundup season kicks offwith a lead-in to the f~l 2009 competition. Past ’Royalty competitors will be on hand as well as those from other Associations. "We have the whole year m get contestants, but this event and others ~ve will have throughout the year help people raise the money they need to in order to compete and to get some experience beforehand," Dickman said. The Sooner State ¯ Rodeo Association is hosting its 3rd ka~nual Spring Blowout Barrel Race on Saturday, May 2nd at a site to be determined by the end of March. 4 For more information, call (918) 577-0030 or wvo~c.soonerstaterodeo.com KENTUCKY DERBY PARTY AT PH OENIX RISING MAY 2 OKEQ art gallery opens new exhibit featuring artist Krysta Hamilton By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Looking for some after May Day fun? On Saturday May 2 Phoenix Rising will host the 3rd annual Kentuc~- Derby ParD; where you can enjoy food with friends, wet your whistle at the cash bar and enjoy the thrill of the Kentucky Derby on the big screen. Originally organized by a group of friends who love equestrian sport, the first party had around 65 people, the next about 80, and they are hoping for a bigger crowd this year to experience the fun. As one of the organizers Max Paty puts it, "Last year it vcent from dead quiet when the race started, and then they just went crazy when the horses came down the home stretch, and it was really exciting!" It’s a free event with complimentary snacks and a cash bar, and everyone is invited, including out of towners who happen to be in OKC that day. It’s a great way to celebrate that event with your friends while meeting nev¢ ones. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis Ik Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, Thursday, April 2, 2009, for the opening of the new exhibit showing the paintings of artist, g-,Tsta Hamilton. The exhibit will remain up through the month of April, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for EqualiO, (OkEq): OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Tmnsgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill EqualiO, Cente~ April 2009 �From ~2.95 Ask About La V®nda www.metrostarnews.com ~I®t~oSTAR 5 �anna Pa ge Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland 200 By Victor Gorin Pageant co-owner James Walke~ Adrienne Fische~ Alanna Paige, Anita Ryde~ and other co-owner Mark Christensen. Gorin photo O~IOMA CITY, OK__ On February 20 Manna Paige captured the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland for 2009, with Anita Ryder ( currently also Miss Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) winning first alternate. As a preliminary contest for the Miss Gay Oldahoma America Pageant, they will go on to compete for that title. It was a festive evening at Angles as the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland Adrienne Fischer passed on that tide ( she is also the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma) to Miss Paige. A1 Mc rey O ahoma County Medalion Dinner. A NEW KING GETS CRO’WNED! Pictured above are pageant co-owner James VCalker, Adrienne Fischer, Manna Paige, Anita Ryder & other pageant co-owner Mark Christensen By Victor Gorin By Victor Gorin Judy Calhoun celebrates her birthday at the annual Oklahoma County Democratic Patty_ Medallion Dinn~ well wished by AI McAfl~ey and Ieshia who led herfriends in song. Gorin photo. OYA~S,HOMA CITY, OK__ State Representative A1 McAffrey was the Master of Ceremonies for the Oklahoma Count), Democratic Party February 20. This is an annual event for the Party that is not only for fellowship, but also strengthening plans and resolve for the future. Represented at this event were both the Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats and the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus. Count3; Conventions will be held April 4, Congressional House District Conventions May 2, with the State Convention May 16 in Oklahoma City. To become involved or register to vote, go to ww,v.okdemocrats. org, or call State Party Headquarters (405) 427-3366, and in Tulsa call Tulsa County Headquarters (918-742 2457). 6 @et~oSTAR 2nd alternate Amadeus Ka~nii York- Texas, IGng Richard Cranium oflndiana , and Ist alternate Owen McCord of Georgia. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma City again hosted the National Mr.Gay US of A MI contest at Angles dates September 1115. Emceed by the vivacious Amaya Mann, the competition began with 31 qualified contestants, narrowed down to 14 finalists for the finale March 15. Passing on his tide was the reigning King from 2008 Xander Kinidy of Tennessee, whose mother was present at the event. Capturing the tides for 2009 are 2nd Alternate Amadeus Karmanii York of Texas, 1st Alternate Owen McCord of Georgia, and the new king, Richard Cranium of Indiana. April 2009 �Wockner News Service ANALYSIS: California Supremes hear Prop 8 challenge Tl~e California Supreme Court on March 5 held its hearing in the case challenging Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage -- and the hearing was an apparent disaster t’or the gay side¯ The justices constantly interrupted the gay side’s lawyers with aggressive questions, but let pro-Prop-8 attorney Ken Starr speak mostly unimpeded. ~ae justices seemed fixated on the fact that California’s domestic-partnership law gives gay Couples the same rights as a marriage, and the), downplayed the fact that they had ruled that separate isn’t equal in their May 2008 decision that legalized same-sex marriage. The justices seemed enamored of the notion that the people can do almost whatever they want via the ballot-box amendment process -- including repealing freedom of speech, banning gay adoption and pretty much anything else. in concluding that the court is going to uphold Prop 8. ’Milk’ gays the Oscars That would leave the gay side with two options: Return to the California ballot with a proactive initiative to attempt to undo Prop 8. Or take it to,the U.S. Supreme Court, using the court s ruling in the Colorado Amendment 2 case as a precedent. In that case, the high court struck dovin a state constitutional amendment that prohibited Colorado governments from protecting gay people in anti-discrimination laws. The justices said government cannot irrationally single out~one group of people for disfavored treatment. The Academy Awards offered some gayerthan-usual moments Feb. 22 as the movie Milk snagged two Oscars. Both of these "next step" options are considered risky moves. The court must issue its ruling by early June. Dolly Parton: ’I am not gay The justices all but laughed out of the chamber state Attorney General Jerry Browffs nove! "inalienable rights" natural-law argument against Prop 8. just an amendment or instead a constitutional revision. A revision has to start in the Legislature or at a constitutional convention; it can’t start with people collecting voter signatures, as Prop 8 did. On the case’s other big question -- whether the 18,000 couples who married in California between June and November 2008 will end up un-married if the court upholds Prop 8 -- a majority of the justices seemed opposed to viewing Prop 8 as rettoactive, despite its rather plain wording: "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." At one point, the justices had a bit of Clintonian fun ruminating on "what the meaning of the word ’is’ is" in Prop 8. Kenneth Starr came across at the hearing as smart, confident, well-spoken and quick on his feet. None of the gay side’s lawyers did as well. But, in fairness, they were hardly able to get a word in edgewise because of constant interruptions from the justices. And openly gay Dustin Lance Black, accepting the trophy for original screenplay, gave a shout-out to gay kids. "When I was 13 years old, my beatitiful mother and my father moved me from a conservative Mormon home in San Antonio, Tex., to California, and I heard the story of Harvey Milk," Black said. ’~md it gave me hope. It gave me the hope to live my life. It gave me the hope one day I could live my life openly as who I am and that maybe even I could fall in love and one day get married. "If Harvey had not been taken from us 30 years ago, I think he’d want me to say to all of the gay and lesbian kids out there tonight who have been told that they are ’less than’ by : or by their you are beautiful, wonderful creatures of value and that no matter what ~yone ~eils you, God does love you, ~d that veiT SO0n~ I promise you; ~ou ~ill have equal rights federally across this great nation "~e On that key question, the gay side appears doomed as well, because court precedent on the issue does not favor the gay side’s arguments. Only a couple of the justices appeared possibly open to the idea of expanding their notion of what constitutes a constitutional revision. Accepting the award for best actor, for his portrayal of gay icon Harvey Milk, actor Sean Penn said: "You commie, homo-loving sons of guns .... For those who saw the signs of hatred as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone." of ours." In Singapore, where gay sex is illegal, MediaCorp TV deleted portions of Black’s and Penn’s speeches from its rebroadcast of the awards. Country-music legend Dolly Parton is straight, she told CNN’s Larry King on Feb. 21. "I am not ga~" Parton said. "I have been accused of that. But I have been happily married for 42 years to the same man. And he’s not the least bit, you know, threatened by the fact that I may be gay. And he knows have a lot of friends. But I love everybody. It doesn’t matter to me." Part0n said gay people like her because she’s authentic. "I think the gay people have always liked me because I have always been mysel[ I’m not intimidated by ho~v people perceive me, I don’t judge nor criticize people," she said. "I think that’s another reason they at least know that I’m sympathetic. I think all people have a right to be who they are. We’re all God’s children and God should be the one to judge, not other people. So I have a lot of gay friends, lesbian friends." MediaCorp/Channel 5 censorship manager David Christie said the broadcast "would have been in serious breach of the MDA (Media Development Authority) Programme Code if such controversial content was not editorially managed." "The code explicitly disallows content that sympathizes with, promotes or normalizes such a lifestyle from being broadcast," he said. The Asian satellite TV service STAR also censored the two men’s speeches, dropping the audio each time the word "gay" or "lesbian" was uttered. Utah senator demoted for anti-gay remarks Utah state Sen. Chris Buttars was ousted from two committees by Republican leaders Feb. 20 after he made homophobic remarks to a documentary maker. Buttars spoke in January to TV reporter Reed Cowan, who is making a documentary on the ¯ Mormon church’s involvement in the passage of California’s Proposition 8. The senator’s comments included: "Homosexuality will always be a sexual perversion. And you say that around here now and everybody goes nuts. But I don’t care .... They’re mean. They want to talk about being nice, they’re the meanest buggers I’ve ever seen .... It’s just like the Moslems. Moslems are good people and their religion is anti-war. But it’s been taken over by the radical side .... What is the morals of a gay person? You can’t answer that because anything goes .... They’re probably the greatest threat to America going down I know of. ... q]aey want superiority. It’s the beginning of the end. Oh, it’s worse than that. Sure. Sodom and Gomorrah was localized. This is worldwide." According to Salt Lake City’s KTVX, ~vhich broke the story: "Buttars also talks about a certain type of reported gay sex!~al activity which he claims is taking place. But ABC 4 does not consider that appropriate for its news content Students at George Mason University in Fairfax County, Va., elected a gay drag queen as homecoming queen Feb. 14. Senior Ryan Allen, who ran for the honor as Reann Ballslee, beat out two women for the crown. "It was just for fun," Allen told the Washington Post. "In the larger scheme of things, winning says so much about the university. X~[e’re one of the most diverse campuses in the country, and... ,ve celebrate that." MORTUARY ~ERVICE,~ STAR beams into more than 50 countries to some 300 million viewers. Media and blogger analysts were unanimous www.metrostarnews.com ~et~oSTAR 7 �Gay New Yorkers protest sex-shop arrests Beau poses nude Beau Breedtove, the 21-year-old man who had sex with Portland, Ore., Mayor Sam Adams just after Breedlove turned 18, has posed nude for the May issue of the gay porn magazine Unzipped. The revelation of the aNair nearly ended Adams’ career earlier this year. Adams was 42 years old at the time of the brief relationship and, when asked about it during his mayoral campaign, had denied it happened. Nae men claim to still be ftiends. Several dozen gay N~v ~rkers protested near Mayor Mict§ael Bloomberg~ mansion Feb. 14 over what they say are bogus arrests ofg~y men in adult video arcades. Photo by Joe Jervis Several dozen gay New ¥orkers protested near Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s mansion Feb. 14 over what they say are bogus arrests of gay men in adult video arcades. The activists claim undercover police o~cers have been hitting on gay men, then, after the men agree to have sex, leading them outside, offering them money, and arresting them for prostitution, whether they accept the money or not. At least 50 men have been victims of the sting, the activists said. The motive for the arrests is to create a pretense for shutting down the shops, the activists said. ~e arrests have been condemned by openly lesbian City Council Speaker Christine Quinn and openly gay state Sen. Tom Duane, among others. Hawaii House passes civil-union bill Hawaii’s House of Representatives passed a civil-union bill Feb. 12 by a vote of 33-17. The measure now advances to the Senate Judiciary Committee, where its fate is unpredictable. Republican Gov. Linda Lingle has not taken a position on the legislation. The proposal would grant civil-union couples all the state-level benefits, protections and responsibilities of marriage. Hawaii presendy has a reciprocal-beneficiaries law that grants registered same-sex couples limited spousal rights. Similar limited laws are in place in Maine and Washington. P~etroSTAR Colorado senator in anti- gay rant Colorado state Sen. Scott Renfroe, R-Greeley, unleashed a six-minute anti-gay diatribe on the floor of the Senate Feb. 23 during debate on a bill to allow gay state employees to share health benefits ~vith their partners. He equated gay sex with murder and adultery and seemingly suggested that people ~vho engage in gay sex commit ’,detestable" acts Renfroe said: "Homosexuality is seen as a violation of this natural creative order, and it is an offense to God .... Leviticus 18:22 ’ says: ’You shall not lie witha man as one lies with a female. It is an abomination.’ Leviticus 20:13 says, ’If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a ,voman, both of them have committed a detestable act, and they shall surely be put to death.’ ... When we create laws that goes (sic)against what biblically we are supposed to stand for, I think we are agreeing, or allowing to go forward, a sin which should not be treated by government as something that is legal. ... We are taking sins and making them to be legally OK, and that is ,vrong. That is an abomination .... And I’m not saying that this is the only sin that’s out there. Obviously, we have sin. We have murder, we have all sorts of sins. We have adultery. And we don’t make laws making those leg~A .... All sin is equa!. That sin there is as equal to any other sin that’s in the Bible." Five states -- California, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon, and Vermont -- and Washington, D.C., have full civil-union laws that grant all state-level spousal rights. The bill passed. Massachusetts and Connecticut let gay couples marry, and New York recognizes same-sex marriages from states and countries that permit them. arlns Tt~e other countries that let gay couples marry are Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa and Spain. 8 "Beau Breedlove was extremely professional at his first erotic photo shoot in Los Ba~geles this past weekend," Unzipped online editor Sean Carnage told Advocate.corn Feb. 18. "He came to L.A. to prove that the Portland scandal does not define his sexuality. The photos portray the real Beau -- a confident and extremely handsome young man who is openly sensual, openly sexual and has nothing to hide." Drag r?yalty stripped ofregaha be sergeant-atMr. and Miss Gay Vancouver XXIX, along with the Emperor and Empress V of Surrey, were allowed to enter the Canadian province of British Columbia’s Legislative Assembly only after removing their tiaras, crowns and sashes, The Vancouver Sun reported March 2. "We had some trouble getting them into this house because of some, what I believe to be, antiquated rules here, but they are here, minus tiaras and sashes," New Democratic Party legislator Spencer Herbert said as he introduced the foursome to fellow legislators. Legislative sergeant-at:arms Gary Lenz explained that "protocol" prohibits headgear and certain other items inside the chamber, to maintain "dignity." Larry amer: Lincoln and Washington were gay Veteran gay and MDS activist, author and playwright Larry Kramer says he has evidence that Abraham Lincoln and George Washington were gay. Speaking to the Montreal newspaper Hour on March 5, Kramer said he will reveal the details in a book he’s writing, The American People: A History. "It’s a monster book," Kramer said. "It’s an attempt to put us (gay people) back in history from the beginning. No history book ever recorded anything about us, and researching this book I found out that both Lincoln and George Washington were gay.... I have stuff that will go beyond anything that has ever .... been wntten or stud ......... Clinton responded: "Human rights is and will always be one of the pillars of our foreign policy. And in particular, the persecution and discrimination against gays and lesbians is something that we take very seriously. It is terribly unfortunate, as you just recited, that, you lmow, right now in unfortunately many places in the world violence against gays and lesbians, certainly discrimination and prejudice, are not just occurring but condoned and protected, and we would hope that over the next few years we could have some influence in trying to change those attitudes." Clinton continued: "Specifically, with respect to HIV/AIDS, we have made a very big treatment commitment, as some of you know, through our program called PEPFAR. And it is an important part of the American approach toward trying to deal with the HIV/ MDS pandemic. But we haven’t done enough on prevention, and we haven’t done enough on outreach or testing. We’re beginning to, and under our administration we will do much more. And I can only hope that we all live long enough -- certainly I hope I live long enough; I think you all will -- to see the end to this kind of discriminatory treatment, and recognition that human rights are the inalienable right of every person no matter who that person loves, and that’s what we should be trying to achieve." Apd12009 �Sonja Martinez Receives the Richard May Award May Award to Sonja Martinez. Sonja is the daughter of Jesse and ka~ita Martinez of Oldahoma City. The Richard May Award was established by the Oklahoma MDS Care Fund to honor Richard May, a founder of the organization who passed away in March, 2000. The premise of the Richard May Award is that it is to be given annually in recognition of an individual who has given, in an exceptional way, of their time and talents to promote education, research and service regarding HIV/AIDS. The recipient should exemplify quiet strength and compassion, never seeking recognition, which was the spirit of Richard May. Sofia Martinez (Center) with her niece Jessica Martinez-Brooks and her sister and artist Bernadette Martinez. Press phom OK_LAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _ The Oklahoma MDS Care Fund celebrated its Seventeenth Bmnual "Red Tie Night" at the Cox Communications Center February 28, 2009. The "Red Tie Night" brings together man), individuals and corporations to raise as much as one million dollars in a single night through various donations, auctions and generosity of many Oklahomans. The goal of the event is to raise money tbr education, direct services and research to fight HIV/ AIDS throughout the State of Oklahoma. One of the highlights of a very eventful evening was the presentation of the Richard Sonja has an annual Christmas Benefit to raise money for those with HIV/AIDS and this next year will be her nineteenth annual benefit. The benefit is held at the COPA bev;veen Thanksgiving and Christmas every year. Sonja accepted the award by saying: "~is award is a very big honor and I thank you so much. I would like to accept this award on behalf of all the dubs and entertainers in the Gay Community who do benefits all year around. I would also like to thank: Barbara and Jackie Cooper, Rick Moses, John Beebe, Tony Sinclair and Dee Goodwin; my family vcho have supported me and loved me unconditionally. And the Red Tie, thank you for all that you do." Christian, I623 N. iVlaplewood Tulsa, OK www,mcctuls org Oklahoma City, OK No matter who you are o are on life’s journey, y~: -R®ver®.d ~r. K~hy Kansas City’s Heartland Men’s Chorus rills OKC Crowd By Victor Gorin Charles Johnson presents director Dn Joseph Nadeau with a plaque j~om the City ofthe Village thanking them for their pe,formance. Gorin photo to Moore Oklahoma for another protest at Moore High School. Although their reasoning for picking out Moore High School for a protest site was unknown, their website did promise "We will picket you hypocrites and we continue to THANK GOD for the tornados that keep kicking Oklahoma’s backside.’Moore High School dismissed classes 15 minutes early for those students wishing to avoid the protest, but many stayed to tal~e part in what ’turned out to be a major counter protest. That protest, organized by Chelsea Marlett ( daughter ofRon Marlett, ~vho ran against Sally Kern in the State Legislative race 2008) not only brought out many from the GLBT community, but also many others to form a diverse crowd of around 2000 that included civil libertarians, yeterans groups, and just plain folks young and old. Undoubtedly the most spectacular counter protesters were the bikers, xvho rode repeatedly past the Phelps clan revving their engines to the crowd’s applause. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma City was treated to a grand performance by the Heartland Men’s Chorus March 3 when the played to a large crowd at the Village Christian Church. N~e Chorus, which began in 1986, has performed extensively in the Missouri/Kansas area, and also throughout the United States and abroad. Featuring an eclectic mix of men’s choral music encompassing several music styles, the chorus was won acclaim and respecf froma wide City has were recognized by the City ( suburban community of OKC), and this concert, which was their OKC debut, would also benefit the BritVil Food Bank. Bringing their songs to Oklahoma, they presented their concept concert, "And Justice for All." Beginning xvith a number from the musical South Pacifici "You’ve got to be Cargfully Taught/Children will Listen", which depicted racism, they ,;vent through a series of selections accompanied by readings and accompanying pictures which portrayed the struggles of blacks, women, and the more recent activism of title GLBT community. Highlights included activist classics "We Shall Overcome" & ’Tkin’t gonna let nobody Turn me Round, but also included the comic relief of"Color of Colorado," a campy classic from the off Broadway musical "When Pigs FI~’ that portrays how vital the GLBT community really is to America. Closing with "I will stand with You," they left the audience with not only a call for unity but hope for a better tomorrow. Jeannie and other Moore High School students protest Phelps group. Gorin photo As one of them put it, Kevin Sherwood stated "I fought for our country for people to be able to live their lives they way they want. I fought so they ( the Phelps group) can say what they want to say, but we get the same rights. What upset me more than anything else is that they came here to scare kids. But apparently most of them ain’t all that scared!" Living proof of that was Jeannie, a student of Moore High School,who after some colorful outbursts about her opinion of the Phelps clan, had this to say" God loves all of us, we’re all equal, gays lesbians, it doesn’t matter God loves us all." Under the direction of Dr. Joseph Nadeau, they performed the following day for the American Choral Directors National Convention which also took place in Oklahoma City. They held the distinction of being one of only 2 gay men’s choruses to be invited to perform for that conference in the group’s 50 year history. 405.525.9555 www.metrostarnews.com #~÷troSTAR 9 �10 ~oSTAR April 2009 �Wockner News Service British PM opposes Prop8 British Prime Minister Gordon Brown opposes Proposition 8, the California ballot measure that last November re-banned samesex marriage after the state Supreme Court had legalized it. "This Proposition 8, this attempt to undo the good that has been done, this attempt to create divorces among 18,000 people who were perfectly legally brought together in partnerships, this is unacceptable and shows me why we alxvays have to be vigilant, why we have alvcays got to fight homophobic behavior and any form of discrimination," Brown said March 5 at a Downing Street reception for GLBT VIPs. On March 4, the California Suprelne Court heard oral arguments in the case seeking to overturn the constitutional amendment. It is widely expected that the effort will fail, with the justices deciding, in effect, that the right of the voters to amend the constitution is more sacrosanct than the constitutional guarantee of equal protection under the law. The court must issue its decision by early June. Burundi plan to ban gay sex dies in Senate A move to ban gay sex in the Central African nati~ 6f Burundi was reiected by the Senate Feb. 16 after having passed the National Assembly unanimously in November. "Burundi’s Senate, after significant pressure and ’heated debate,’ today reiected the proposed amendment to criminalize homosexual conduct. Victory -- for the moment," said Scott Long, head of Human Rights Watclqs LGBT Rights Division. The proposal, part of a much larger bill, set a punishment of between three months and two years in prison, along with a large fine, for engaging in consensual adult gay sex. The Senate and Assembly must now form a commission to reconcile the two versions of the bill before sending it to President Pierre Nkurunziza. "Any reconciliation could, potentially, reinstate the provision criminalizing samesex conduct," said the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission. "Whatever the outcome, the fact that the majority of senators voted against the provision shows a growing recognition that all citizens are entitled to the full enjoyment of human rights irtespective of their sexual orientation." Eighty-four of the world’s 19 5 nations ban gay sex. Colombian gay leader m dered Well-lmown Colombian gay activist idvaro Miguel Rivera Linares, 41, was killed March www.rnetrostarnews.com 6 in his apartment in Call He suffered a fatal blow to the head and was found tied to his bed and gagged. The apartment had been trashed but there were no signs of forced entry and nothing was stolen. Rivera received national attention when he fought a 2001 mandate by the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia (FARC) guerrillas that all residents ofa FARC-controlled sector of the eastern state of Meta take an HIV test or leave the area within a week. Thereafter, he received death threats and was followed on the streets and harassed at worlc He eventually left Meta, his home state, as a result. Leading Latino-issues blogger Andrds Duque called Rivera’s death "a tremendous loss to the international human rights movement." Argentina lifts military gay ban Argentina’s military decriminalized homosexuality and lifted its gay ban Feb. 27. Part of an overhaul of the military justice system, the change was approved by Parliament last year and took effect six months after passage. U.S.-based Latino-issues, blogger Andrds ~t}que called the m.ove ’.on.e more L.GBT nghts development in a Latin American nation that leapfrogs over current U.S. policy" Gays in the U.S. military are required to remain in the closet under the "Don’t Ask, Dofft Tell" policy signed into law by President Bill Clinton. Prior to that time, gays were not allowed in the U.S. military at all. New regulations prohibit broadcast of songs and videos that glorify arson, rape, shooting or murder, as well as depictions of sex acts. Gay activists, locally and internationally, have campaigned for years against the anti-gay alleged "murder music" of Jamaican artists such as Sizzla, Bounty Killer, Elephant Man, Vybz Kartel, Beenie Man, Buju Banton, T.O.K. and Capleton. Phelpses banned from entering UK Anti-gay Kansas pastor Fred Phelps and his daughter Shirley have been banned from entering the United Kingdom, the Telegraph reported Feb. 19. The "God hates fags" team had announced plans to picket a performance of’l-he Laramie Project on Feb. 20 at a school arts center in Basingstoke, Hampshire. A UK Border Agency spokesman said: "Both these individuals have engaged in unacceptable behavior by inciting hatred against a number of communities .... We will continue to stop those who want to spread extremism, hatred and violent messages in our communities from coming to our country." In an interview with the BBC, Shirley PhelpsRoper stated: "There are members of WBC (Westboro Baptist Church) that are not named Phelps .... Unless they intend to begin checking the bare backsides of every person coming into that country to find that tattoo that says ’Property of WBC,’ they will have no way of identifying who is from WBC." In the end, a single, unidentified demonstrator showed up and was chased offby about 50 counterprotesters, the BBC reported. HIV rate climbs in Asia 300,000 at Sydney Mardi Gras Sydney’s 31st gay Mardi Gras parade attracted 300,000 spectators, 130 floats and 9,500 participants March 7. Openly gay Olympic gold medal diver Matthew Mitcham led offthe procession. His winning dive at the Beijing Olympics was the highest-scoring dive in Olympic history. Marching units included the Federal Police, the military and New South Wales firefighters. U.S. comedian Joan Rivers also joined in, riding on top of a truck. Jamaica .bans most anti- gay music Jamaica’s Broadcasting Commission has effectively banned most anti-gay dancehall songs from being played over the airwaves. Gay and bisexual men in Asia are having risky unprotected sex, causing dramatic climbs in HIV infection rates, said officials attending a World Health Organization HIV/AIDS conference Feb. 18 in Hong Kong. The gathering heard that more than 30 percent of gay and bisexual men in Bangkok are HIV-positive, while some Chinese cities report a rate as high as 18 percent, and China as a whole has a rate of 3.8 percent among gay/bisexual men. The director of Chinas AIDS-control center, Wu Zunyou, said amphetamine use and Internet hookups are factors in the climbing infection rate. HIV now is Chinas deadliest infectious disease, according to a new report from the Ministry of Health. Singapore censors Oscars Singapore’s MediaCorp TV censored its replay of the Academy Awards Feb. 23, removing portions of Dustin Lance Black’s acceptance speech. Black won the original screenplay Oscar for Milk, and said: "When I was 13 years old, my beautiful mother and my father moved me from a conservative Mormon home in San Antonio, Tex., to California, and I heard the story of Harvey Milk. And it gave me hope. It gave me the hope to live my life. It gave me the hope one day I could live my life openly as who I am and that maybe even I could fall in love and one day get married. "If Harvey had not been taken from us 30 years ago, I think he’d want me to say to all of the gay and lesbian kids out there tonight who have been told that they are ’less than’ by their churches, by the government or by their families, that you are beautiful, wonderful creatures of value and that no matter what anyone tells you, God does love you, and that very soon, I promise you, you will have equal rights federally across this great nation of ours." Sean Penn’s acceptance speech also was truncated. He won the best actor Oscar for his portrayal of Harvey Milk. Penn said: "You commie, homo-loving sons of guns .... For those who saw the signs of hatred as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone." Subscribers to one of the main Singaporean gay e-mail lists were outraged at the edits. "This sort of bigoted, intolerant and ignorant action by a national broadcaster is better suited for Iran or North Korea than a nation that puts itself forward as a modern worldclass city," wrote one. MediaCorp/Channel 5 censorship,manager David Christie said the broddcast would have been in serious breach of the MDA (Media Development Authority) Programme Code if such controversial content was not editorially managed." "The code explicitly disallows content that sympathizes with, promotes or normalizes such a lifestyle from being broadcast," he said. Gay sex is illegal in Singapore. The Asian satellite TV service STAR also censored the two men’s speeches, dropping the audio each time the word "gay" or "lesbian" vcas uttered. STAR beams into more than 50 countries to some 300 million viewers. More than 8 percent of gay and bisexual men in Jakarta are HIV-positive, the conference heard, as are 7.8 percent in Cambodia. #d®troSTAR 11 �By Camper English Colder, smaller, weaker: Better martinis ~lhe diplomatic way of defining the "best martini" is as "the martini that you like the best." But, really, if you’re pulling a jug of vodka out of the freezer and pouring it into a glass, you’re not drinking a martini at all. You’re drinldng a glass of cold vodl~a. Add olives and you’ve got vodka with a snack. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. I drink cold vodka all the time, and ~vho doesn’t enjoy a string of olives for dinner? But a martini is a mixed drink, necessitating more than one ingredient to mix into it. Bar-haviora Problems Gay bar bartenders, who are not necessarily gay bartenders, are usually the most ei~cient and fair intoxicologists in tl~e drinking universe. I say "fair" because at straight establishments, hot women and rid>looking men (usually jerk~) get first priority, and the bartenders frequently take drink orders out of order. Infuriating! This is not often the case in gay ~vatering holes, where the bartenders tend to be the hottest people in the room and dofft need to impress you by serving you first (you need impress them with the size of your tips). The working theory is that the martini star~ed as a spinoff of the Martinez, a cocktail made with sweetened gin, sweet vermouth, maraschino liqueur and bitters (with a lemon twist). As tastes in cocktails shifted away from sweet drinks, the "Dry Martini" made with d~/vermouth became more popular, and eventually most everybody forgot about the bitters. Vodka didn’t become an option until later. Given the variations over time, you could rightfully order your martini made with gin or vodka, sweet or dry vermouth or none at all, bitters or not, olives or a twist - and you could find a published recipe to back it up. None are the "right" way to make a martini, but I would encourage experimentation to find the way that’s right for you. While jumbo-sized martini glasses used in many bars provide a lot of liquor for the dollar, by the time you get to the bottom half you’re drinking room-temperature alcohol. That is bad. Or worse, it’s a warm salt bath if you’ve got the extra-large-sized olives in there that help to heat it xtp. The Also, gay bar patrons Imow how to behave (toward the very dassiest of bars serve their martinis in very small, very bartender anyway) and will often line up in an orderly fashion cold glasses - with an additional quantity of the drink in an at the drink well rather than shouting and waving like the ice-chilled container on the side. That is lovely. At home, I opening scene of The Love Boat al! along the bar. I take use vintage (small) glassware and keep the remainder cooling straight friends to my favorite gay bar and they are anlazed at ofthe strained drink in the the German,like efficientT in place. They are often jealous and frdezer’ ...... determine to start coming there every night, until they hear ........... .... ...... the 14th Madonna remix in a row. I can’t say I blame them. Do not fear vermouth. Try it and you might In a nightclub or other crowded venue, or anywhere with a find you actually like it mixed crowd, all bets for orderly ordering are off. You need - but probably not the to gain the attention of tl~e bartender as well as make him or 4-year-old, mostly full her think you’re going to be a good (i.e., fast, non-annoying) bottle gathering dust in customer. Here are a few suggestions for attracting the the back of your liquor bartender and keeping his attention. cabinet. Use a fresh bottle. Vermouth spoils like wine Look available. You want to make eye contact with the after opening, so buy small bartender and have her give you the "I see you" nod. To bottles and keep them in accomplish this, face the bar, not your friends behind you. If the refrigerator to lengthen you’re turned around chatting and using the bar as a leaning their life span. post, you’re not giving the right signal. Be ready. When you are trying to get the bartender’s attention, have visible cash in your hand -but don’t ~vave it around unless there is a row of drag queens in six-inch heels blocking your line of sight. And if you’re planning to pay with a credit card, you may want to keep that hidden. It takes longer to process, so the bartender will serve the cash-holding folks first. Also, be ready with your friends’ drink orders. Don’t wait until the bartender gets there to turn around and say, "What do you guys want?" As the person standing next to you, H1 swoop in and say "~ree martinis please" when your back is turned. I’m like that. S~’ategize. Don’t shout to get the bartender’s attention. Nobody likes to be yelled at while doing their job. A friendly "Hi!" sometimes helps though. Make your first tip the most generous one to help ensure prompt service and healthy pours for the rest of the evening. And be respectful of others - if the guy next to you was waiting longer but the bartender comes to you, give him the "he was here first" point. The bartender will remember that you’re next, and you never kmow if that guy next to you wil! return the favor and pay for your drink. 12 ~et~:oSTAR Ice, too, is an ingredient in the drink. If you keep your vodka or gin in the freezer, not much water will melt into your martini. Dilution brings the drink down to a manageable level of alcoholic strength to keep you from making that too-strong scrunchy face that gives you wrinkles. A martini should be refreshing, not painful. The shaken-versus-stirred decision is not worth the ~veight given to it. Shaking adds ice chips and air bubbles that make the drink look doudy and taste fizzy, whereas stirring results in a clear and smooth cocktail from the get-go. I prefer a stirred martini when I’m at a nice cocktail lounge, but I do often shake them at home. Not because it tastes better, but because shaldng is more fun. Camper English is a cocktails and spirits writer and publisher of Alcademics. com. ’ April 2009 �~e internationally renowned cast of Woody Sez- back row from left: Helen Russell, Darci Deaville, Andy Tekstein; J~ont- David Lutken as Woody @hoto courtesy of The Scotsman Publications Ltd.) OKLAHOI~La~ CITY, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~eatre, OkAahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, will present the American Premiere of Woody Sez, the words, music, & spirit ofV[oody Guthrie as part of the 2009 "Lyric at the Plaza" season. This unique theatrical concert event celebrates the life and spirit of American folk legend Vioody Guthrie, whose music continues to inspire today’s finest storytelling songwriters including Bob DyIan, Bruce Springsteen, John Mellencamp, the Indigo Girls, and Billy Bragg. Lyri& production will run from March 26th through April 1 lth and features the show’s original cast from its European generously underwritten by Continental Resources, one of the largest independent oil and natural gas companies in the United States. The show will play a special two-night engagement at the Enid Symphony Center on Tuesday, March 31st and g~rednesday, April 1st at 7:30pm, marking the first time in the company’s 47-year history that a full prod,uction will be performed outside of Lyric s home venue. Back in Oldahoma City, Woody Sez performances are March 26th through April 1 lth: Thursdays at 7:30pm, Fridays at 8:00pm, Saturdays at 2:00pm & 8:00pro. For tickets: ,a-wvc.lyrictheatreokc.com, (405) 524-9312, or in person at 1727 NW 16th St, Oldahoma City, OK. In Oklahoma City, the renovation and opening of Plaza Theatre, located on NW 16th Street between Penn and Classen, means that audiences can look forward to an intimate world-class theatrical experience, complete ~vith free accessible parking, tdtracomfortable seating, and a full service cash bar. Drinks are even allowed inside the theatre as the audience takes in the performance. The 2009 "Lyric at the Plaza" season concludes in May with Steel Magnolias. Lyric will continue to produce its annual summer season at downtmvn Oklahoma City’s Civic Center Music Hall, beginning in June with Disney’s High School Musical 2 and continuing with The Music Man, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, The Producers, and Little Shop of Horrors. tour. st0ryte!l& ~na David tutken Stars in {he and actor, musici~s Darcie Deaville ,Teirstein join in ,to portray up the fabric of Guthrie’s amazing story. The four accompany themselves on over 15 different instruments, ranging from guitar and fiddle to jaw harp and dulcimer. \Voodrow Wilson "W’oody" Guthrie was born in 1912 in Okemah, Oklahoma. He is best kmown as an American singersongwriter and folk musician, whose musical legacT indudes hundreds of political, traditional and children’s songs, ballads and improvised works. Many of his recorded songs are archived in the Library of Congress. Guthrie traveled from Oklahoma to California and later New York and used his rich life experiences and observations to write traditional folk and blues songs, many of which deal with the Great Depression. Guthrie died from complications of Huntington’s disease, a progressive genetic neurological disorder. When Nick Corley accepted the position as Lyric’s new artistic director, he was thrilled with the timing and what it meant for the future of Woody Sez. With the blessing of the Guthrie estate, Corley, who has directed the show fi’om its inception, prepared Lyric for the American premiere, so that Oklahomans could be the first in ~he country to celebrate Guthrie’s life and music in this special way. Furthermore, so that the celebration of Woody’s spirit can reach even further beyond the Oklahoma City metro area, Lyric Theatre has plans to take the show on the road. A special presentation of Woody Sez, the words, music, & spirit of Woody Guthrie has been w~-w.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 13 �Arkansas Domestic Partnership Registry Under Attack Gay News Bureau It is, said editor Don Lee in a editorial, "demagoguery based on religious prejudice bordering on moral fascism..." ~e Carroll County (AR) News reported King "felt the bill (to ban DPRs) was needed because tourism in Eureka Springs has become identified too strongly with issues of sexuality." EUREKA SPRINGS, AR The only Domestic Partnership Registry in Arkansas-and one of the fe~v in the Mid-South region of the country--may soon be history if one right-wing state legislator has his way. Given the town’s long-standing reputation as a major wedding destination, King’s rationale is fraudulent, says Walsh. But the Eureka Springs mayor, city council and supporters of the DPR, vow to vigorously oppose a move by Republican Arkansas State Rep. Bryan King to do away with it. "What the hell does he think goes on in all those heart shaped hot tubs and honeymoon cabins," Walsh said. "King’s real aim is to impose his extremist religious and political views on our town and at the expense of gay residents, business owners and tourists. In only 22 months, 256 unmarried couples from 55 Arkansas communities and 14 other states have registered as domestic partners in Eureka Springs. At least 28 of those couples came from neighboring Oklahoma and another 32 from Missouri, says Michael Walsh, who wrote the domestic partnership law that went into effect in June 2007. Efforts to keep the resort town from officially honoring gay and straight couples is "transparent homophobia," he says. "There are six words to describe State Rep. Bryan King of Arkansas," said Walsh, "and they are, ’State Rep. Sally Kern of Oklahoma’. To know one is to know the other." DPR advocates say it is hypocritical for any state lawmaker to condemn municipal domestic partnership laws while accepting campaign contributions from I~aft Foods, Wal-Mart, FedEx and Cox Communications, companies that have domestic partner policies. King is serving his final term as state representative and may next run for the Arkansas senate. His detractors say he has nothing to lose and much to gain by assaulting the DPR at this time. King introduced his anti-DPR measure March 9. Out lesbian Arkansas State Rep. Kathy Webb, a Democrat, opposes the ban and has said it may be killed at the committee level. Arkansas Speaker of the House Robbie Wills is also on record as opposing the bill. But Eureka Springs city officials are not taking any chances. In a statement signed by the entire Eureka Springs City Council, Mayor Dani Joy strongly defended the DPR and condemned King’s intrusion into city affairs. "I vdll not stand silent any longer and allow a demographic of our citizens to be humiliated and degraded," she said. "Prejudice or bigotry have no place in our city. The gay and lesbian community are our fi’iends, neighbors and family." The editor of the tmvffs weekly newspaper, The Lovely County Citizen, characterized Y,dng’s anti-DPR bill as a "regressive, faithbased, discriminatory, venal.., and cynical act." 14 ~{et~’oSTAR "Playing the gay card is a way for cheap politicians in Arkansas to fan the fires of hate and fatten up their campaign coffers." But, on the brink of what may be a precarious tourist season, King’s bill cotfld also deprive the town of a critical revenue stream. According to city records, the DPR has generated almost $10,000 for the city in less than two years. Registration costs $35 per couple. Diversity Weekend Kicks Offin Eureka Springs FRIDAY, APRIL 3 Domestic Partner Certificates. The courthouse is dosed Saturday and Sunday. City Clerl~’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 AM - 12 Noon and 1:30 to 4:30 PM. Over150 unique shops and galleries. Be sure to stop by and say hi to Charlie at A Byrds Eye View. Weekend favorites include The Tourist Stop, Mountain Eclectic, Antique Affaire, The Inn Convenience Store, Fusion Squared and Eclectic Edge. Over 6 vendors are setting up in the old Eureka Screams Theater parking lot and lobby, located on H~W 23 South. Friday Sunday, 8 AM - 5 PM, everything from Tools to Toys. Welcome Mixer, Pizza Bar, 13 N Main, 6:00 to 8:00 PM. Come feel the warmth. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the county. CITY PARKING FREE AFTER 6 PM. Rock and Roll with Tiffany Christopher, The New Delhi, 2 North Main, All ages welcome, 6:30 PM - 9:30 PM-ish. Walsh puts the figure at closer to $250,000 to $500,000 when DPR-related expenditures on hotels, motels, B &Bs, restaurants, bars, caterers, ministers, florists, gift shops, photographers mad spending by friends and }’amilies are included. It’s a Hawaiian Luau Weekend. Karake, Dance, Giveaways and FUN. Friday and Saturday, Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring, Open Noon - 2AM, Full menu served till 9 PM nightly. NO COVER CHARGE. "Precisely when the state needs all the tax revenue it can it, I~dng’s bill is exceedingly short-sighted," he said. The always popular Tiki Torch Club and their Spring Diversity Dance Par-Tee. Arrive early this place fills up fast. Midnight Teaser Drag Show with Secdackeiry. * To express your support, send a brief e-mail to Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Joy at mayor@ cityofeurekasprings.org ~ Express your outrage to Arkansas State Rep. Bryan King at: kingb@arkleg.state.ar.us * Ask your friends, co-workers, family members and neighbors to do the same. * Send this story to news outlets, LGBT organizations, web sites and blogs. * Ask your elected local and state representatives to speak out on this issue, as did the Eureka Springs mayor when Sally Kern was on the rampage last year. = Come to Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend April 3-5 and get your own DPR. See www.eurekapride.com for events. The Spring PDA photo shoot. Just some good time amusement for the tourist and to annoy the fundies. SPRINGS PUBHC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA), 12 noon, Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. Eureka Pride has free treats to pass out. The Eclectic Edge, 49 Spring, ARTIST RECEPTION drop by and meet Artist Matt Johnson and Gallery owners David and Ginny between 1 and 5 PM. Light , refreshments. Register to win a piece of Matt s artwork. Raffie to benefit the local Doggie Shelter. KARAOYdS: Jack’s Place, 37 Spring, 2 PM - 6 PM, WOW!.!! Jello Shots For a BUCK! ALL GIRLS BAND IRIS: Chelsea’s, 10 Mountain St. Better show out early, these ladies have been known to Jump Start their show as early as 7 PM and then ~vind it up Midnight. The North West Arkansas Center For Equality and UA PRIDE, are havin,,g a dance. Entire, family welcome, upstairs at The Space, located across from the U.S. Post Office in Uptown-Downtown Eureka on Spring St., DJ dance music and activities for the kids. $5 cover, FREE to children 12 and under. 8 -11 PM. For a complete list of activities and events go to www.eurekapride.com and diversitypride. com. New Owners For Joplin’s Pla-Mor Lounge. Male Illusionist. That’s right they’re all girls and they’re dressed too ’KISS’. The IgSSS Tribute Band, Lumberyard, 105 East Van Buren, 9:00 PM. Stick around for DJ TIC’S Spin Cycle and Dance Party. Ashley McBryde... the miracle gift returns for SPRING ,n Eureka. Jacks Place. 37 Spring St, 9:00 PM.- Midnight, no cover. Handsome Lee wit! be checking IDs at the door. EUREKA’S UNDERGROUND the subterranean and always gay Eureka Live, 35 North Main, Trash Disco Party, drink specials. NO COVER CHARGE! THE DIVERSITY BAND: Chelsea’s, 10 Mountain St. 9 PM - ~ Avoid those Diversity buzz-killers like getting a DUI or trying to find a parking place downtown. Eureka Springs Limousine. $5.00 point to point. Call 479-244-6320 for your PICK-UP! New owners ofJoplin’s Pla-Mor Lounge, Tim, Bonnie and Tom. Staffphoto JOPLIN, MO (PR) After more than 40 years in the bar business including several gay clubs, Dick and Billy Jack decided to retire and let longtime friends Tim, Tom and Bonnie take over their latest venture, the Pla-Mor Lounge located at 532 S. Joplin St, Joplin’s only gay club. New hours beginning in April will be Tues-Sat 5pm to 1am. Happy hour 5pro to 7pm. Phone 417-624-2722 SATURDAY, APRIL 4 Name That Tune With Sandy at the Smokehouse Card, 580 West Van Buren, 8:30 A.M to1 l:30ish, biscuits as big as your head. WIN Fabulous Prizes, like Sparlcy Sun Glasses! Saturday and Sunday Only. The Diversity Bikers "Bridges and Dam Poker Run." Planer’s Hill Parking lot on the corner of 62 and 23 (Main Street) Starting at 12:45 PM. Retiring Pla-Mor owners Dick and Billy Jack. Staffphoto April 2009 �@ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Hideaway, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City www.rnetrostarnews.com @ The End Up, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @The Mine Shaft, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa #~et~oSTAR 15 �of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850s and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel and Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that Zinfandel might have originated in Italy. However, in late 200 t, DNA fingerprinting determined that Crljenak Ka~telanski (a littleknown grape from Croatia) and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Priraitivo), there are only isolated plantings of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. The Zinfandel grape can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to Cabernet Sauvignon. Mr. D’s V2 case I really dig California Zins. For springtime/ back yard grill time, what better red xvine than Zinfandel to go with short ribs, beef brisket, grilled veggies and brats. Here are some killer bottles I think should be considered to go with your barbeque fun. Brief histoD+ of the grape [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] qlais is thought to be California’s most popular red-wine grape because it’s not widely grown in other parts EarthQuake Zin ’06 The Phillips brothers pride themselves on farming their vineyards with a meticulous eye on quality. Their wines regularly take top accolades in wine competitions. This Zin is really full bodied with lots zing and flavor. In addition to the Earthquake brand of reservetier wines, wine brands under the Michael David Winery umbrella include the popular 7 Deadly Zins. This wine has recently come down in price about 20% in this market and it’s a must try. FoxGlove Zin ’07 Wine critic Robert Parker says that this one of the most ,mpress~!}e in the coot, high elevations Cruz M+0~nt~sT’ ~is Zi~ 9~(s ffo~m Vasq Robles ~fi~ is a n~ addition t0 ~¢~e~akers Bob & Jim Varner~ oo~tfoli6. I was completely surpnse~ at[)~Ow gogd~h~s single vineyard wi~e is for the~money. ~’ ~, + }~’~ If you are one of those xvho beliei( better, read on. Hyse Couzins ’05, This is the first intriguingblend 39% Zinfandel and drinldng xvell right now, to decant. Wine critid sa3 for the next 5 - 7 years. This be hard to find so if you see it, wine has also come down in 20% in this market and Remember that Zinfandel are two Couzins. Edmeades Mendocino This hasgot to be one of and 20061ooks to be to 2005 has some Petite Grenache blended color. ~nere is a cherry ~ spring Cabernet. juicy fruit acid balanc~ comedian Robin this winery and great Cabernet also For this Zin, ~only Family, is also currently making. uch xvineries like Paradigm, and Past clients include Screaming Eagle },arc 29. "We brought a bdtfle for ) w’. file opt in California during ~he We hadnt fasted it before hand’and bottle, I Wished a c9uple more. This wine in oiar state and this zin is ]his writer is one of the managers a~ the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food town as the Enthusiasts of Tulsa. / www.l~ineSpecta- md pepper. Turn processor onand chop f~r Roasted Red Pepper Hummus Ingredients 2 -14 oz can chic~ peas, drained 4 cloves garlic, peeled " 1/2 cup jarred, i:o~ted red’peppers. drained Zest of one lemon Juice of one lemon !/4 cup tahini (may substitute ~vith pmnut or almond butter) i/2 cup olive oil | teas kosher salt 16 v~®t;oSTAR is creamy. Serve topped with a drizzle of 01ive oil, feta cheese and cracked black pepper if desired. Provide pita wedges and fresh vegetables for spreading. April 2009 �nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa Bruce Springsteen and The E Street Band .April 7, 2009 @ 7:30 Ticket Prices: $9I, $57, $4I Get tickets at LiveNation.com, all Tickets.corn Outlets, or charge by phone at 1-866-7-BOK-CTR Bruce Springsteen’s new album ’Working on a Dream’ was released today (January 27, 2009). ’~,Working on a Dream~ was recorded with the E Street Band and features twelve new Springsteen compositions plus one bonus track. It is the fourth collaboration between Springsteen and Brendan O’Brien, who produced and mixed the album. Nickelback Apr 10, 2009 at BOK Center Nickelback With Seether and Saving Abel Aprill 0, 2009 Tickets On Sale Now Prices: $75, $55, $35 Unstoppable rock powerhouse Nickelback have announced dates for their upcoming North American tour in support of their new" album Dark Horse, released on Roadrunner Records on November !8th. Nickelback are a phenomenally successful touring band whose tours have grossed in excess of $100 million thus f.ar and have sold more than 30 million albums worldwide. Dark Horse is Nickelback’s first release since the immensely popular All ~fhe Right Reasons, released in 2005. Fleetwood Mac May 3, 2009 at BOK Center "Unleashed" Tour May 3, 200~ Tickets Off Sale Now Prices: $149.50, $79.50, $49150 Wne sure to be historic "Unleashed" Tour, beginning on March 1st in Pittsburgh, is an epic cross-c0untry trek featuring 44 shows in major markets. The tour will include al!~ of the Ma& many greatest hits fi’om over the course of the band’s extraordinary career. Fleem~ood Mac, the multi-Grammy winning, multi-platinum Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductees are back on the road for the first time in five years following several successful solo projects. OKC Civic Center Music Hall April Events THE LEFT HAND SINGING a drama by Barbara Lebow Date: Frida); March 20, 2009 - Saturday, April 11, 2009 Presented by Carpenter Square Theatre MF~SURE FOR MEASURE by William Shakespeare Date: Friday, March 27, 2009 - Sunday, April i9, 2009 Presented by the Oklahoma City Theatre Company Perpetual Motion "Chiaroscuro" Date: Friday, April 03, 2009 - Saturday, April 04, 2009 Time: 7:30 p.m. Perpetual Motion presents Chiaroscuro CLASSIC SERIES: SEASON FINALE presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Date: Saturday, April 04, 2009 Time: 8:00 p.m. Featuring Yuja X~gang, Piano ZOMBIE PROM Date: Frida>; April 10, 2009 - Sunday, Apri! 19, 2009 Zombie Prombook and lyrics by John Dempse, music by Dana E Rowe based on a story by John Dempsey and Hugh Murphy April 10-19, 2009 in the Freede Litde Theatre DISNEY’S THE LION KING Date: Tnesday, April 21, 2009 - Saturday, May 23, 2009 Presented by Celebrity Attractions Begins April 21, 2009 Tracy Morgan and Martin Lawrence put the fun in Funeral When Romeo first reported on the proposed Chris Rock-led American version of the outrageous British farce Death at a Funeral, it was unclear as to whether the wild gay subplot would survive. But as casting begins it seems clear that the queer surprise in the black comedy’s casket is alive and well. Better yet, 30 Rock’s hilarious Tracy Morgan has signed on to star alongside Martin La~vrence in the corned); due in 2010, about a dead patriarch’s funeral interrupted by mishaps~ bizarre guests and the arrival of the deceased’s secret gay lover. As long as Lawrence ~snt contracted to play B~g Momma in this verSion, fans of the original can rest easy:. Now, which brave American actor is going to pla~ the family member who runs around the hOuSe naked for the entire length of the fihn? ...... Cherry Jones’ sister act Object lesson to any actor who believes that coming out will be career-damaging: Cherry Jones. The talented lesbian character actress never stops working, plays the President on 24, was Matt Damon’s reality-checking mother in Ocean’s 13 and won a Tony Award for her pre-Meryl Streep incarnation of Sister Aloysius on Broadway in Doubt. Now she’l! take on another nun role in the upcoming drama Mother and Child starring opposite Naomi xYc:atts, Samuel Jackson, Kerry Washington and Annette Bening. The female-centered adoption drama is currently in production and due for release this December - aka Beg For Your Oscar Month - so the filmmakers must be pretty confident about its chances. Who knows, maybe Jones will have to dear room next to her Tony for a new golden friend. Ghost musical to raise Broadway from the dead? It seems that everything on Broadway is going belly up. Shows are dosing faster than new ones can take their place, ticket sales are in the toilet and all seems hopeless. And it’s desperate times that lead to crazy/genius ideas like Ghost: The Musical taldng root and flowering. The smash 1990 Patrick Swayze/Demi Moore film (for which Whoopi Goldberg won her Color Purple Oscar) is going to sing its way onto one of London’s West End stages sometime in 2010 and, if sufficiently crowd-pleasing, will probably make a mad dash for Broadway sometime later. The writers of "Unchained Melody" are already spending their future royalty check bump, but who’s going to pen the song about Patrick Swayze’s heartbreaking inability to express love without invoking the word "ditto?" Neil Patrick Hat~s. 20th Century Fox photo Nell Patrick Harris hands out TV Land Awards If the Harold and Kumar movies, How I Met Your Mother, Dr. Horrible’s Sing-Along Blog, his SNL appearance and his spoonbending antics on Ellen weren’t enough to convince you that Neil Patrick Harris is a national treasure, try this: now he’s retro-nostalgia-cable-channel TV Land’s answer to Hugh Jackman. The funny, quick-witted song-and-dance man will host April’s TV Land Awards with the requisite amount of skits, mttsical numbers and awards given out to shows like Charles In Charge and Mama’s Family. Expect a lot of vintage TV personalities showing up to join Harris as he tosses out non-vintage one-liners. Romeo San Vicente could sense something was up as early as Doogie Howser, ~I.D. He can be reached care ofthis publication or at DeeplnsideHollywood@qsyndicate.com. More ENTERTAINMENT see page 20 w"ww.metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 17 �V @[8 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams SOME LEATHER_ FUN, ANYONE ? friends from North Carolina that we met there, Paul and Dick. After all, meeting new and exciting people is what traveling is all about. By the way, did we mention that they have a leather and chain sling in every room at the Inn Leather? Seriously if you are into leather, want to be into leather or just want to look and enjoy leather, then fly, drive, take a train or bus or even hitchhike and get down to die Inn Leather resort in Ft. Laxlderdale and learn how to have some real fun "leather fun". Spirit Journeys Announces Gay Travel Adventure Rafting the Grand Canyon Spirit Journeys has a new gay vacation rafting the Grand Canyon. This journey starts July 1, 2009 and ends July 10, 2009. NEW MILFORD, NJ (PRWEB)__ Spirit Journeys is very pleased to announce its new gay travel adventure rafting through the Grand Canyon. "Going Deep" is the title of this adventure and it begins and ends in Las Vegas and includes eight days and seven nights of rafting the Colorado River some 280 miles through the Grand Canyon. On this journey the goal IS tO experience the canyon and the river at a more profound level than on an ordinary vacation. Photo: Pool atThe Inn Leather Resort Since our travel columns are in publications from coast to coast and since we have readers who are into just about everything we decided to stay in this Leather Resort. The Inn Leather Resort has been serving the leather and levi gay community in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida as well as the entire East coast and the Midwest for over 10 years and a lot of gay men from all over the country love to stay there. During our stay ~ve met guys from New York, Chicago and several other places in the Midwest as well as Floridians. The general manager Chase and his staff of Benji, Kevin and Gabe are extremely professional, friendly and know how to take care of their guests. We just can’t say enough nice things about them. Chase has the most beautiful eyes and smile that you have ever seen in your life. We know that a lot of guys stay here just so that they Can see him! Tnru his professional guidance, the Inn is in the process of being remodeled. ~ae entire staff is really very accommodating. The grounds are filled with luscious tropical plants. The pool area is very inviting. wave, TWVCR/cable tv and alarm clock. They have ample off street parking for their guests. A stay here includes a complimentary continental breakfast poolside every morning. q-here are a lot of restaurants within walking distance and a major shopping center with a supermarket just a few blo~ away. If you are into leather or appreciate leather or just curious, then call and make a reservation. Oh yeah! Did we mention that there is a leather and chain SLING in every room? For those really into leather, be SURE and stop by the Ramrod leather bar at 1508 NE 4th Avenue for the most interesting time that you can EVER have in a gay bar! They have specials going on every day including Leather Sunday; Full Moon Monday, Butt to Butt Wednesda)~ Battle of the Bulge "l-hursday and Fetish Friday. They have a daily two for one happy hour from 3 to 9 PM. Check out their website at: www.ramrodbar.com A very special thanks to Chase, general manager of the Inn Leather and to our new Contact the Inn Leather Resort at: 877.532.7729 or email them at InnLeather610@aol.com and be sure to check out their website at: www.innleather.com. By the way, did we mention that they have a leather and chain sling in every room??? .Amenities include heated swimming pool, hot tub, tree wi-fi and a SLING in every room! Yep! You read that right ............ a leather and chain SLING in every room! Never tried one? XWell this is a perfect opporttinity for you. They have about a dozen rooms and suites and are located just two miles from the beach and just about a 10 minute drive to the major bars and one mile south of do~vntown Ft. Lauderdale and t’wo miles north of the Ft. Lauderdale airport. ~ae Inn Leather is a "clothing optional" resort. Did we mention that there is a leather and chain SLING in every room? Each accommodation includes queen or king size bed, private bath, kitchenette which includes fridge, coffee maker, micro18 While you in the area, be sure and check out the greatest totally nude beach in the country, Haulover Beach! which is located about a twenty minute drive south of Ft. Lauderdale. It is the only legally nude beach in the Florida. Haulover Beach Park contains one of south Florida’s most b~autiful clothing optional beaches-a 0.4 mile stretch of beach on the northernportion that draws people from all walks of life, from other states, Canada and a variety of other countries. Nestled between the Intercoastal Waterway and the Atlantic Ocean, it has pristine white sand shores, open ocean surf, various shaded picnic facilities, beautifully landscaped sand dunes, and concession stands. The beach is ideal for surfing as well as swimming. Thousands of people go to Haulover Beach on a sunny day. Simply put, Haulover Beach is one of the best clothing-optional beaches in the world, as ranked by many online and print publications. As many as 7,000 people visit the beach in a single day. There is a snack cart situated in the clothing optional area most days, as well as chairs available to rent. Haulover Beach is quite large and is broken up into different areas for gays and straights. It is a great way to meet people. Their website is http://www.hauloverbeach. org Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Grand Canyon Rafting The adventure into Self is enhanced by the inspiring surroundings the Canyon has to offer. Being on the Colorado River at the bottom of the Grand Canyonhas a way of making humans very humble in the presence of such majesty, major life shifts can happen. Meditation Heart Circles and group movement rituals will be used to help open the mind and heart and deepen the experience of this incredible place. The intention is to actively engage the Canyon and the River; to know them on a more intimate level. The raft stops several times each day to hike, to explore side canyons, to swim in favorite swimming holes or to stand in ~e power of waterfalls. Howie Holben is the guide for this gay vacation. Heis owner and caretaker of Spirit Journeys. He was raised in northern Arizona and has always felt a special bond to the sacred places of the Southwest The gifts he brings to this Journey are his extensive knowledge of these places and the love for the path we follow on this journey. Since early childhood, he has been drawn to indigenous peoples and their spiritual teachings, traditions and practices. This attraction has taken him on many adventures, exploring the countless ways of "being in the world". His personal journey through addiction and recovery has spavcned in him a genuine interest in assisting others on their own spiritual path and he takes great pleasure in introducing people to practices, sacred ways and cultures to help them "step outside their box". A Reiki/Karuna Ki Master and Quantum Touch Pracdoner, his desire is to help others uncover their potential and set their hearts and minds free. For additional information on this and other special gay vacations, contact Hmvie Holben or visit w~#.spiritjourneys.com. About Spirit Journeys: Spirit Journeys offers gay travel, gay vacations and gay retreats with a spiritual focus, and unique gay retreat and gay vacation options. Call (800) 754-1875 to learn more about Spirit Journeys. leather and chain sling in every room" April 2009 �~ifest2 Se~ons Hualani. materials ,.~VW. metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 19 �April At P.A.C. Tulsa Kyk°s Bed by Greg Fox April 18 -This year TU BLGTA’s Pride Prom 2009: A BollDvood Ball will be held on Apri! 18 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Westby Pavilion. 3-he event is a prom targeted toward Tulsa-area youth who are not alIowed m or not comfortable with bringing the date of their choice to prom, but it is open to all people ages 15 m 25. Tickets are $10 for general admission or $5 for %lsa UniversitT students. For more information emait http:l /us.mc l O.mail. yahoo.com/mc/ compose?to=tublgta@gmail.com. March-27-29 & April 2-4 8pro Up the Down Staircase -Liddy Doenges N~eatre Anyone who’s ever started a new job will relate to this comedy about Sylvia, an idealistic young English teacher maneuvering her way through a blizzard of paperwork, contradictmT orders and indecipherable instructions. She discovers that "Keep on file in numerical order" means throw in wastebasket, "Let it be a challenge" means April 14-15 7:30pro Aspen Santa Fe Ballet John H. XXqlliams ~eatre "Aspen Santa Fe Ballet is a jewel of a company...a refreshing surprise!" declares Ba&stage.com. This dazzling contemporary dance company will perform three to four pieces from its eclectic repertoire that contains works by some of the world’s [bremost choreographers, such as TwT1a %arp, Jorma Elo and Paul Taylor. The Vertical Hour April 16-18 at 8 p.m., April 19 at 2 p.m. Lid@ Doenges ~eatre "iI~e "vertical hour" is the first hour after an injury when ~sistance has the greatest chance of being beneficial, tn this 2006 play by Englishman David Hare, an ~Mnerican former war correspondent turned Yale political science professor joins her British boyfi’iend, Philip, for a visit to his fhther, Oliver. She has a pro-Iraq viewpoint, while the father, a doctor with liberal leanings, is against not only the war but many of the beliefs she holds about a range of issues. Nadia is both offended by and attracted to Oliver. Me ro Star Classfieds 2" square for as little as $39 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.net ~gebsite- vmcw.kylecornics.com E-Mail- KylesBnB@aot.com 918.835.7887 SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY e~ll: bittergirl@qsyndlcate.corn 20 ~®~ro~TAN ~w,joanhilty.net ~ ~1 April 2009 �by Jack Fertig Apill 2009 "Your are everyone’s darling Aries" Mercury, Venus, and the Sun are aligning in Aries bringing together charming, witty banter and mad, impulsive flirtations. Venus is retrograde so be careful with those flirtations. They’re not likely to go anywhere you’ll want to stay! ARIES (March 20-Apri~ 19): For now, you are everybody’s darling and could get away with almost anything. Dedicate that power for good, not selfish motives. You have so much of yourself to offer; select your beneficiaries wisely to be fully appreciated. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - May 20): Take some private time with your nearest and dearest in pursuit of pleasures that nurture your soul. No need to hide in a cloister. You can be wild, loud, and frivolous, but do get away from your usual routines and pals. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): Fun with your friends can easily get way out of hand, but is that necessarily a bad thing? You could talk a tiger out of his or her stripes, but then what? When you start to improvise, then the fun really begins! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your fascination with a new sport or hobby is probably just a passing fancy. Enjoy it, but don’t invest in new gear at this point! Same with any dates right now. Don’t confuse a great time with falling in love. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Changes are needed around your home, and will be again soon. Whatever re-arrangements or new tchatchkes you like now will become annoying later. Just think of it as a springboard - and budget accordingly. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Dahhhling! You are just too, too charming. Be careful not to ta!k your way into something you can’t get out of! Sure, you can fake sincerity for now, but that will trip you up later! Be real! No, really real! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Brace yourself and take a close look at any financial problems. This is the not the time to be buying anything (bad impulses!) or selling (you’ll get better prices later). Just take stock, and get things into order. CANCER (~une 2t- July 22): The m65n’s not full this week, but you’re shining like it may as well be. Dazzle your way up the ladder of success. Be clear on where you want to go and with ,~hom. Or at least leave room to change partners and destination. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Sometimes it’s best to let people air out their differences or to hone their arguments in fiery debate. If your peacemaking talents aren’t really needed, give yourself an aesthetic challenge at a movie or an art show you’d normally not attend. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being a love god is a better deal when you can choose your worshippers. Even then, you’re likely to make bad choices. Have your fun, but commitments should be made in the cold light of day, not in the throes of passion. L~BP.A (September 23 - October 22): This is a great time to work on a relationship, not to start one. Problems are easy to discuss now. Solutions can come later. It may feel like you’re backtracking. That’s actually good for clarifying those problems. SCORHO (October 23 - November 21): Re-evaluate your goals at the gym. How much are you motivated by pride and vanity? Oh, really? Pushing too hard for looks may be undermining your health. Prioritize health, and your looks wil! last longer! www.metrostarnews.com METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Shuttles and security will be provided. Online registration stilt open! Tulsa Folk-Rocker, Eric Hirnan is bringing his new band, Eric and the #.dams, to the Centennial Park Stage to headline at 9:00prn on Saturday night, June 6th. On May 30th at the historic Cain’s Ballroom, the annual Equality Gala will be held, celebrating the 2009 theme "Dreams Really Do Come True!" Visit ww~.okeq,org for tickets! The Tulsa Pride Exhibition of Fine Art, MOREcolor 2009, opens Thursday, June 4th from 5:00-9:00prn and continues Friday June 5th & Saturday June 6th from Noonennis R. Neill Equality Center. .. Turn-A-Bout Fundraiser Library Event PFLAG Spaghetti Dinner Diversi~ Day at the Zoo Pride ~nterfaith Service Gender Avengers/Trans Night ToUoLS.A. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document METROSTARNEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" Church Visits Oklahoma Again By Victor Gorin APRIL 1, 2009 Hi ary Clinton will[ fight for gay rights worl[dwide By Rex Wockner Mr. andMrs. Kevin Sherwood with bikergroup protesting Fred Phelps demonstrators atMoore High School. Gorin photo MOORE, OK __ Spreading their ukual rants of far out homophobia, members of Fred Phelps Westboro Baptist Church ofTopeka, Kansas came to protest near the Oklahoma State Capitol as well as Moore High School March 2. Few in the GLBT or fair minded community are not familiar with this church, as they have been protesting with infamous "God Hates Fags" signs along with other similar sentiments nationwide and abroad for over a decade. They gained national attention in 1998 when they picketed Matthew ShepardS funeral in Laramie,Wyoming with infamous signs, some stating "Matthew is in Hell". Rarely’ missing an opportunity to present their viewpoint, they have picketed funerals of those who have died ofAIDS, and staged protests against governments who have granted rights or tal~en any action they perceive as "fag enabling." More recently their skewed logic went even further when they picketed funerals of American soldiers, incredulously promoting the concept that God is punishing America with the deaths of soldiers because our nation is too tolerant of homosexuals. Understandably this has raised anger with countless patriotic Americans, especially those in the military; veterans and their families & friends. Although the Westboro group had been to Oklahoma before, they returned again to protest against the Oklahoma Legislature for permitting a gay pastor, the Reverend Scott Jones- Cathedral of Hope UCC, to lead a Prayer for the Day at the invitation of State Representative A1 McAffrey. This protest drew a small crowd with TV & press coverage coverage at N.W. 23rd and Sante Fe, before the Phelps clan moved on ........... Continued See BAPTlST Page-9 in , Clinton Wockner by Rex Meeting with young people at the European Parliament in Brussels on March 6, U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton promised to fight for gay rights on the world stage. At a question-and-answer session, Clinton called on Maxim Anmeghichean, programs director for the European Region of the International Lesbian, Gay~ Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association, after commenting on his "I Love Hillaw" T-shirt. Anmeghichean said: "My name is Max. I am from Moldova, and I am a gay rights activist. In seven countries in the world homosexuals are sentenced to death and many more to prison. A lot of gay men arotmd the world die because of the HIV/ AIDS policies that the Bush administration had that did not allow to spend money on prevention for men who have sex with men. How do you see the foreign policy of the United States changing in the coming years in the field of human rights mad in partictdar sexual rights and gay and lesbian rights?" ........... Continued See HILLARY Page-8 2 April 2009 v~v~.metrostarnews.com ~°~t~oSTAR 3 Busy year ahead £or Sooner State Rodeo By Michael W. Sasser E~oto: fim Grubb, 7~m Dickmann, Don George, V¢7ll Hughes, &Scou" Gouard hosting a spaghel~i dinner to benefit St. Jerome’s Church. TULSA, OK __ With a new executive board elected in February, events already under its belt and a slate of others scheduled for the remainder of the year, the Sooner State Rodeo AssociaOon has a bustling 2009 ahead. "Our overall objective is to bring a rodeo back to Tulsa and to have one on a regular basis," said Tim Dickman, newly elected president. In addition to Dickman, Kevin George, Darin Steward, Kevin Murphy, Don George and Bob "West were elected vice president, tre~asurer, recording secretary, corresponding secretary and trustee respectively in February. "We want to remind people we’re still here, we’re still active and we are starting a new campaign to get people interested. Dickanau said. A spaghetti dinner at St. Jerome’s Church and a club night at Mavericks drew the community~ attention and attracted several new members. Key events ahead are also expected to garner notice and new members. The Associatioffs next general membership meeting is slated for Sunday, April 5th at St. Jerome’s Church in Brady Heights, and the general public is invited to attend. On April 24th at 9 pm at Mavericks, the Sooner State Royalty Roundup season kicks offwith a lead-in to the f~l 2009 competition. Past ’Royalty competitors will be on hand as well as those from other Associations. "We have the whole year m get contestants, but this event and others ~ve will have throughout the year help people raise the money they need to in order to compete and to get some experience beforehand," Dickman said. The Sooner State ¯ Rodeo Association is hosting its 3rd ka~nual Spring Blowout Barrel Race on Saturday, May 2nd at a site to be determined by the end of March. New membership and renewed energy and interest in the Association are keys to a successful 2009. "XWe need the community’s involvement, bars’ involvement and participants’ involvement to bring a rodeo back to Tulsa," Dickrnan said. "It’s going to be an exciting year and we invite everyone in the commun!ty to join in." For more information, call (918) 577-0030 or wvo~c.soonerstaterodeo.com KENTUCKY DERBY PARTY AT PHOENIX RISING MAY 2 By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Looking for some after May Day fun? On Saturday May 2 Phoenix Rising will host the 3rd annual Kentuc~- Derby ParD; where you can enjoy food with friends, wet your whistle at the cash bar and enjoy the thrill of the Kentucky Derby on the big screen. Originally organized by a group of friends who love equestrian sport, the first party had around 65 people, the next about 80, and they are hoping for a bigger crowd this year to experience the fun. As one of the organizers Max Paty puts it, "Last year it vcent from dead quiet when the race started, and then they just went crazy when the horses came down the home stretch, and it was really exciting!" It’s a free event with complimentary snacks and a cash bar, and everyone is invited, including out of towners who happen to be in OKC that day. It’s a great way to celebrate that event with your friends while meeting nev¢ ones. OKEQart gallery opens new exhibit featuring artist Krysta Hamilton TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis Ik Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, Thursday, April 2, 2009, for the opening of the new exhibit showing the paintings of artist, g-,Tsta Hamilton. The exhibit will remain up through the month ofApril, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. 7his monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for EqualiO, (OkEq): OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Tmnsgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation ofthe Dennis R. Neill EqualiO, Cente~ 4 April 2009 From ~2.95 AskAbout LaV®nda www.metrostarnews.com ~I®t~oSTAR 5 anna Pa ge Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland 200 By Victor Gorin Pageant co-ownerJames Walke~ Adrienne Fische~ Alanna Paige, Anita Ryde~ and other co-owner Mark Christensen. Gorin photo O~IOMA CITY, OK__ On February 20 Manna Paige captured the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland for 2009, with Anita Ryder ( currently also Miss Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) winning first alternate. As a preliminary contest for the Miss Gay Oldahoma America Pageant, they will go on to compete for that title. It was a festive evening at Angles as the current A1 Mc rey O ahoma County Medalion Dinner. reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Heartland Adrienne Fischer passed on that tide ( she is also the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma) to Miss Paige. Pictured above are pageant co-owner James VCalker, Adrienne Fischer, Manna Paige, Anita Ryder & other pageant co-owner Mark Christensen By Victor Gorin A NEW KING GETS CRO’WNED! By Victor Gorin Judy Calhoun celebrates her birthday at the annual Oklahoma County Democratic Patty_ Medallion Dinn~ well wished by AIMcAfl~ey and Ieshia who led herfriends in song. Gorin photo. OYA~S,HOMA CITY, OK__ State Representative A1 McAffrey was the Master of Ceremonies for the Oklahoma Count), Democratic Party February 20. This is an annual event for the Party that is not only for fellowship, but also strengthening plans and resolve for the future. Represented at this event were both the Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats and the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus. Count3; Conventions will be held April 4, Congressional House District Conventions May 2, with the State Convention May 16 in Oklahoma City. To become involved or register to vote, go to ww,v.okdemocrats. org, or call State Party Headquarters (405) 427-3366, and in Tulsa call Tulsa County Headquarters (918-742 2457). 2nd alternate Amadeus Ka~nii York- Texas, IGng Richard Cranium oflndiana , and Ist alternate Owen McCord ofGeorgia. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma City again hosted the National Mr.Gay US ofA MI contest at Angles dates September 11- 15. Emceed by the vivacious Amaya Mann, the competition began with 31 qualified contestants, narrowed down to 14 finalists for the finale March 15. Passing on his tide was the reigning King from 2008 Xander Kinidy ofTennessee, whose mother was present at the event. Capturing the tides for 2009 are 2nd Alternate Amadeus Karmanii York ofTexas, 1st Alternate Owen McCord of Georgia, and the new king, Richard Cranium of Indiana. 6 @et~oSTAR April 2009 Wockner News Service ANALYSIS: California Supremes hear Prop 8 challenge Tl~e California Supreme Court on March 5 held its hearing in the case challenging Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage -- and the hearing was an apparent disaster t’or the gay side¯ The justices constantly interrupted the gay side’s lawyers with aggressive questions, but let pro-Prop-8 attorney Ken Starr speak mostly unimpeded. ~ae justices seemed fixated on the fact that California’s domestic-partnership law gives gay Couples the same rights as a marriage, and the), downplayed the fact that they had ruled that separate isn’t equal in their May 2008 decision that legalized same-sex marriage. The justices seemed enamored of the notion that the people can do almost whatever they want via the ballot-box amendment process -- including repealing freedom of speech, banning gay adoption and pretty much anything else. The justices all but laughed out of the chamber state Attorney General Jerry Browffs nove! "inalienable rights" natural-law argument against Prop 8. "~e just an amendment or instead a constitutional revision. A revision has to start in the Legislature or at a constitutional convention; it can’t start with people collecting voter signatures, as Prop 8 did. On that key question, the gay side appears doomed as well, because court precedent on the issue does not favor the gay side’s arguments. Only a couple of the justices appeared possibly open to the idea of expanding their notion ofwhat constitutes a constitutional revision. On the case’s other big question -- whether the 18,000 couples who married in California between June and November 2008 will end up un-married if the court upholds Prop 8 -- a majority of the justices seemed opposed to viewing Prop 8 as rettoactive, despite its rather plain wording: "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." At one point, the justices had a bit of Clintonian fun ruminating on "what the meaning of the word ’is’ is" in Prop 8. Kenneth Starr came across at the hearing as smart, confident, well-spoken and quick on his feet. None of the gay side’s lawyers did as well. But, in fairness, they were hardly able to get a word in edgewise because of constant interruptions from the justices. Media and blogger analysts were unanimous in concluding that the court is going to uphold Prop 8. That would leave the gay side with two options: Return to the California ballot with a proactive initiative to attempt to undo Prop 8. Or take it to,the U.S. Supreme Court, using the court s ruling in the Colorado Amendment 2 case as a precedent. In that case, the high court struck dovin a state constitutional amendment that prohibited Colorado governments from protecting gay people in anti-discrimination laws. The justices said government cannot irrationally single out~one group of people for disfavored treatment. Both of these "next step" options are considered risky moves. The court must issue its ruling by early June. Dolly Parton: ’I am not gay Country-music legend Dolly Parton is straight, she told CNN’s Larry King on Feb. 21. "I am not ga~" Parton said. "I have been accused of that. But I have been happily married for 42 years to the same man. And he’s not the least bit, you know, threatened by the fact that I may be gay. And he knows have a lot of friends. But I love everybody. It doesn’t matter to me." Part0n said gay people like her because she’s authentic. "I think the gay people have always liked me because I have always been mysel[ I’m not intimidated by ho~v people perceive me, I don’t judge nor criticize people," she said. "I think that’s another reason they at least know that I’m sympathetic. I think all people have a right to be who they are. We’re all God’s children and God should be the one to judge, not other people. So I have a lot of gay friends, lesbian friends." ’Milk’ gays the Oscars The Academy Awards offered some gayerthan- usual moments Feb. 22 as the movie Milk snagged two Oscars. Accepting the award for best actor, for his portrayal of gay icon Harvey Milk, actor Sean Penn said: "You commie, homo-loving sons of guns.... For those who saw the signs of hatred as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone." And openly gay Dustin Lance Black, accepting the trophy for original screenplay, gave a shout-out to gay kids. "When I was 13 years old, my beatitiful mother and my father moved me from a conservative Mormon home in San Antonio, Tex., to California, and I heard the story of Harvey Milk," Black said. ’~md it gave me hope. It gave me the hope to live my life. It gave me the hope one day I could live my life openly as who I am and that maybe even I could fall in love and one day get married. "If Harvey had not been taken from us 30 years ago, I think he’d want me to say to all of the gay and lesbian kids out there tonight who have been told that they are ’less than’ by : or by their you are beautiful, wonderful creatures ofvalue and that no matter what ~yone ~eils you, God does love you, ~d that veiT SO0n~ I promise you; ~ou ~ill have equal rights federally across this great nation of ours." In Singapore, where gay sex is illegal, MediaCorp TV deleted portions of Black’s and Penn’s speeches from its rebroadcast of the awards. MediaCorp/Channel 5 censorship manager David Christie said the broadcast "would have been in serious breach of the MDA (Media Development Authority) Programme Code if such controversial content was not editorially managed." "The code explicitly disallows content that sympathizes with, promotes or normalizes such a lifestyle from being broadcast," he said. The Asian satellite TV service STAR also censored the two men’s speeches, dropping the audio each time the word "gay" or "lesbian" was uttered. STAR beams into more than 50 countries to some 300 million viewers. Utah senator demoted for anti-gay remarks Utah state Sen. Chris Buttars was ousted from two committees by Republican leaders Feb. 20 after he made homophobic remarks to a documentary maker. Buttars spoke in January to TV reporter Reed Cowan, who is making a documentary on the ¯ Mormon church’s involvement in the passage of California’s Proposition 8. The senator’s comments included: "Homosexuality will always be a sexual perversion. And you say that around here now and everybody goes nuts. But I don’t care.... They’re mean. They want to talk about being nice, they’re the meanest buggers I’ve ever seen.... It’s just like the Moslems. Moslems are good people and their religion is anti-war. But it’s been taken over by the radical side.... What is the morals of a gay person? You can’t answer that because anything goes.... They’re probably the greatest threat to America going down I know of. ... q]aey want superiority. It’s the beginning of the end. Oh, it’s worse than that. Sure. Sodom and Gomorrah was localized. This is worldwide." According to Salt Lake City’s KTVX, ~vhich broke the story: "Buttars also talks about a certain type of reported gay sex!~al activity which he claims is taking place. But ABC 4 does not consider that appropriate for its news content Students at George Mason University in Fairfax County, Va., elected a gay drag queen as homecoming queen Feb. 14. Senior Ryan Allen, who ran for the honor as Reann Ballslee, beat out two women for the crown. "It was just for fun," Allen told the Washington Post. "In the larger scheme of things, winning says so much about the university. X~[e’re one of the most diverse campuses in the country, and... ,ve celebrate that." MORTUARY ~ERVICE,~ www.metrostarnews.com ~et~oSTAR 7 Gay New Yorkers protest sex-shop arrests Several dozen gay N~v ~rkers protested near Mayor Mict§ael Bloomberg~ mansion Feb. 14 over what they say are bogus arrests ofg~y men in adult video arcades. Photo byJoe Jervis Several dozen gay New ¥orkers protested near Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s mansion Feb. 14 over what they say are bogus arrests of gay men in adult video arcades. The activists claim undercover police o~cers have been hitting on gay men, then, after the men agree to have sex, leading them outside, offering them money, and arresting them for prostitution, whether they accept the money or not. At least 50 men have been victims of the sting, the activists said. The motive for the arrests is to create a pretense for shutting down the shops, the activists said. ~e arrests have been condemned by openly lesbian City Council Speaker Christine Quinn and openly gay state Sen. Tom Duane, among others. Hawaii House passes civil-union bill Hawaii’s House of Representatives passed a civil-union bill Feb. 12 by a vote of 33-17. The measure now advances to the Senate Judiciary Committee, where its fate is unpredictable. Republican Gov. Linda Lingle has not taken a position on the legislation. The proposal would grant civil-union couples all the state-level benefits, protections and responsibilities of marriage. Hawaii presendy has a reciprocal-beneficiaries law that grants registered same-sex couples limited spousal rights. Similar limited laws are in place in Maine and Washington. Five states -- California, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon, and Vermont -- and Washington, D.C., have full civil-union laws that grant all state-level spousal rights. Massachusetts and Connecticut let gay couples marry, and New York recognizes same-sex marriages from states and countries that permit them. Tt~e other countries that let gay couples marry are Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa and Spain. Beau poses nude Beau Breedtove, the 21-year-old man who had sex with Portland, Ore., Mayor Sam Adams just after Breedlove turned 18, has posed nude for the May issue of the gay porn magazine Unzipped. The revelation of the aNair nearly ended Adams’ career earlier this year. Adams was 42 years old at the time of the brief relationship and, when asked about it during his mayoral campaign, had denied it happened. Nae men claim to still be ftiends. "Beau Breedlove was extremely professional at his first erotic photo shoot in Los Ba~geles this past weekend," Unzipped online editor Sean Carnage told Advocate.corn Feb. 18. "He came to L.A. to prove that the Portland scandal does not define his sexuality. The photos portray the real Beau -- a confident and extremely handsome young man who is openly sensual, openly sexual and has nothing to hide." "We had some trouble getting them into this house because of some, what I believe to be, antiquated rules here, but they are here, minus tiaras and sashes," New Democratic Party legislator Spencer Herbert said as he introduced the foursome to fellow legislators. Legislative sergeant-at:arms Gary Lenz explained that "protocol" prohibits headgear and certain other items inside the chamber, to maintain "dignity." Larry amer: Lincoln and Washington were gay Veteran gay and MDS activist, author and playwright Larry Kramer says he has evidence that Abraham Lincoln and George Washington were gay. Colorado senator in antigay rant Colorado state Sen. Scott Renfroe, R-Greeley, unleashed a six-minute anti-gay diatribe on the floor of the Senate Feb. 23 during debate on a bill to allow gay state employees to share health benefits ~vith their partners. Speaking to the Montreal newspaper Hour on March 5, Kramer said he will reveal the details in a book he’s writing, The American People: A History. He equated gay sex with murder and adultery and seemingly suggested that people ~vho engage in gay sex commit ’,detestable" acts .... been wntten or stud......... "It’s a monster book," Kramer said. "It’s an attempt to put us (gay people) back in history from the beginning. No history book ever recorded anything about us, and researching this book I found out that both Lincoln and George Washington were gay.... I have stuff that will go beyond anything that has ever Renfroe said: "Homosexuality is seen as a violation of this natural creative order, and it is an offense to God.... Leviticus 18:22 ’ says: ’You shall not lie witha man as one lies with a female. It is an abomination.’ Leviticus 20:13 says, ’If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a ,voman, both of them have committed a detestable act, and they shall surely be put to death.’ ... When we create laws that goes (sic)against what biblically we are supposed to stand for, I think we are agreeing, or allowing to go forward, a sin which should not be treated by government as something that is legal. ... We are taking sins and making them to be legally OK, and that is ,vrong. That is an abomination.... And I’m not saying that this is the only sin that’s out there. Obviously, we have sin. We have murder, we have all sorts of sins. We have adultery. And we don’t make laws making those leg~A.... All sin is equa!. That sin there is as equal to any other sin that’s in the Bible." The bill passed. Drag r?yalty stripped ofregaha be sergeant-atarlns Mr. and Miss Gay Vancouver XXIX, along with the Emperor and Empress V of Surrey, were allowed to enter the Canadian province of British Columbia’s Legislative Assembly only after removing their tiaras, crowns and sashes, The Vancouver Sun reported March 2. Clinton responded: "Human rights is and will always be one of the pillars of our foreign policy. And in particular, the persecution and discrimination against gays and lesbians is something that we take very seriously. It is terribly unfortunate, as you just recited, that, you lmow, right now in unfortunately many places in the world violence against gays and lesbians, certainly discrimination and prejudice, are not just occurring but condoned and protected, and we would hope that over the next few years we could have some influence in trying to change those attitudes." Clinton continued: "Specifically, with respect to HIV/AIDS, we have made a very big treatment commitment, as some of you know, through our program called PEPFAR. And it is an important part of the American approach toward trying to deal with the HIV/ MDS pandemic. But we haven’t done enough on prevention, and we haven’t done enough on outreach or testing. We’re beginning to, and under our administration we will do much more. And I can only hope that we all live long enough -- certainly I hope I live long enough; I think you all will -- to see the end to this kind of discriminatory treatment, and recognition that human rights are the inalienable right of every person no matter who that person loves, and that’s what we should be trying to achieve." 8 P~etroSTAR Apd12009 Sonja Martinez Receives the Richard May Award Sofia Martinez (Center) with her niece Jessica Martinez-Brooks and her sister and artist Bernadette Martinez. Pressphom OK_LAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) _The Oklahoma MDS Care Fund celebrated its Seventeenth Bmnual "Red Tie Night" at the Cox Communications Center February 28, 2009. The "Red Tie Night" brings together man), individuals and corporations to raise as much as one million dollars in a single night through various donations, auctions and generosity of many Oklahomans. The goal of the event is to raise money tbr education, direct services and research to fight HIV/ AIDS throughout the State of Oklahoma. One of the highlights of a very eventful evening was the presentation of the Richard May Award to Sonja Martinez. Sonja is the daughter ofJesse and ka~ita Martinez of Oldahoma City. The Richard May Award was established by the Oklahoma MDS Care Fund to honor Richard May, a founder of the organization who passed away in March, 2000. The premise of the Richard May Award is that it is to be given annually in recognition of an individual who has given, in an exceptional way, of their time and talents to promote education, research and service regarding HIV/AIDS. The recipient should exemplify quiet strength and compassion, never seeking recognition, which was the spirit of Richard May. Sonja has an annual Christmas Benefit to raise money for those with HIV/AIDS and this next year will be her nineteenth annual benefit. The benefit is held at the COPA bev;veen Thanksgiving and Christmas every year. Sonja accepted the award by saying: "~is award is a very big honor and I thank you so much. I would like to accept this award on behalf of all the dubs and entertainers in the Gay Community who do benefits all year around. I would also like to thank: Barbara and Jackie Cooper, Rick Moses, John Beebe, Tony Sinclair and Dee Goodwin; my family vcho have supported me and loved me unconditionally. And the Red Tie, thank you for all that you do." Christian, I623 N. iVlaplewood Tulsa, OK www,mcctuls org Oklahoma City, OK No matter who you are o are on life’s journey, y~: -R®ver®.d ~r. K~hy 405.525.9555 Kansas City’s Heartland Men’s Chorus rills OKC Crowd By Victor Gorin CharlesJohnson presents director Dn Joseph Nadeau with a plaquej~om the City ofthe Village thanking themfor theirpe,formance. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Oklahoma City was treated to a grand performance by the Heartland Men’s Chorus March 3 when the played to a large crowd at the Village Christian Church. N~e Chorus, which began in 1986, has performed extensively in the Missouri/Kansas area, and also throughout the United States and abroad. Featuring an eclectic mix of men’s choral music encompassing several music styles, the chorus was won acclaim and respecf froma wide City has were recognized by the City ( suburban community of OKC), and this concert, which was their OKC debut, would also benefit the BritVil Food Bank. Bringing their songs to Oklahoma, they presented their concept concert, "And Justice for All." Beginning xvith a number from the musical South Pacifici "You’ve got to be Cargfully Taught/Children will Listen", which depicted racism, they ,;vent through a series of selections accompanied by readings and accompanying pictures which portrayed the struggles of blacks, women, and the more recent activism of title GLBT community. Highlights included activist classics "We Shall Overcome" & ’Tkin’t gonna let nobody Turn me Round, but also included the comic relief of"Color of Colorado," a campy classic from the off Broadway musical "When Pigs FI~’ that portrays how vital the GLBT community really is to America. Closing with "I will stand with You," they left the audience with not only a call for unity but hope for a better tomorrow. Under the direction of Dr. Joseph Nadeau, they performed the following day for the American Choral Directors National Convention which also took place in Oklahoma City. They held the distinction of being one of only 2 gay men’s choruses to be invited to perform for that conference in the group’s 50 year history. to Moore Oklahoma for another protest at Moore High School. Although their reasoning for picking out Moore High School for a protest site was unknown, their website did promise "We will picket you hypocrites and we continue to THANK GOD for the tornados that keep kicking Oklahoma’s backside.’Moore High School dismissed classes 15 minutes early for those students wishing to avoid the protest, but many stayed to tal~e part in what ’turned out to be a major counter protest. That protest, organized by Chelsea Marlett ( daughter ofRon Marlett, ~vho ran against Sally Kern in the State Legislative race 2008) not only brought out many from the GLBT community, but also many others to form a diverse crowd of around 2000 that included civil libertarians, yeterans groups, and just plain folks young and old. Undoubtedly the most spectacular counter protesters were the bikers, xvho rode repeatedly past the Phelps clan revving their engines to the crowd’s applause. Jeannie and other Moore High School students protest Phelps group. Gorin photo As one of them put it, Kevin Sherwood stated "I fought for our country for people to be able to live their lives they way they want. I fought so they ( the Phelps group) can say what they want to say, but we get the same rights. What upset me more than anything else is that they came here to scare kids. But apparently most of them ain’t all that scared!" Living proof of that was Jeannie, a student of Moore High School,who after some colorful outbursts about her opinion of the Phelps clan, had this to say" God loves all of us, we’re all equal, gays lesbians, it doesn’t matter God loves us all." www.metrostarnews.com #~÷troSTAR 9 10 ~oSTAR April 2009 British PM opposes Prop8 British Prime Minister Gordon Brown opposes Proposition 8, the California ballot measure that last November re-banned samesex marriage after the state Supreme Court had legalized it. "This Proposition 8, this attempt to undo the good that has been done, this attempt to create divorces among 18,000 people who were perfectly legally brought together in partnerships, this is unacceptable and shows me why we alxvays have to be vigilant, why we have alvcays got to fight homophobic behavior and any form of discrimination," Brown said March 5 at a Downing Street reception for GLBT VIPs. 6 in his apartment in Call He suffered a fatal blow to the head and was found tied to his bed and gagged. The apartment had been trashed but there were no signs of forced entry and nothing was stolen. Rivera received national attention when he fought a 2001 mandate by the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia (FARC) guerrillas that all residents ofa FARC-controlled sector of the eastern state of Meta take an HIV test or leave the area within a week. Thereafter, he received death threats and was followed on the streets and harassed at worlc He eventually left Meta, his home state, as a result. On March 4, the California Suprelne Court heard oral arguments in the case seeking to overturn the constitutional amendment. It is widely expected that the effort will fail, with the justices deciding, in effect, that the right of the voters to amend the constitution is more sacrosanct than the constitutional guarantee of equal protection under the law. The court must issue its decision by early June. Burundi plan to ban gay sex dies in Senate Leading Latino-issues blogger Andrds Duque called Rivera’s death "a tremendous loss to the international human rights movement." Argentina lifts military gay ban Argentina’s military decriminalized homosexuality and lifted its gay ban Feb. 27. Part of an overhaul of the military justice system, the change was approved by Parliament last year and took effect six months after passage. A move to ban gay sex in the Central African U.S.-based Latino-issues, blogger Andrds nati~ 6f Burundi was reiected by the Senate ~t}que called the m.ove ’.on.e more L.GBT Feb. 16 after having passed the National nghts development in a Latin American Assembly unanimously in November. nation that leapfrogs over current U.S. "Burundi’s Senate, after significant pressure and ’heated debate,’ today reiected the proposed amendment to criminalize homosexual conduct. Victory -- for the moment," said Scott Long, head of Human Rights Watclqs LGBT Rights Division. The proposal, part of a much larger bill, set a punishment of between three months and two years in prison, along with a large fine, for engaging in consensual adult gay sex. The Senate and Assembly must now form a commission to reconcile the two versions of the bill before sending it to President Pierre Nkurunziza. "Any reconciliation could, potentially, reinstate the provision criminalizing samesex conduct," said the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission. "Whatever the outcome, the fact that the majority of senators voted against the provision shows a growing recognition that all citizens are entitled to the full enjoyment of human rights irtespective of their sexual orientation." policy" Gays in the U.S. military are required to remain in the closet under the "Don’t Ask, Dofft Tell" policy signed into law by President Bill Clinton. Prior to that time, gays were not allowed in the U.S. military at all. 300,000 at Sydney Mardi Gras Sydney’s 31st gay Mardi Gras parade attracted 300,000 spectators, 130 floats and 9,500 participants March 7. Openly gay Olympic gold medal diver Matthew Mitcham led offthe procession. His winning dive at the Beijing Olympics was the highest-scoring dive in Olympic history. Marching units included the Federal Police, the military and New South Wales firefighters. U.S. comedian Joan Rivers also joined in, riding on top of a truck. Eighty-four of the world’s 19 5 nations ban gay sex. Colombian gay leader m dered Well-lmown Colombian gay activist idvaro Miguel Rivera Linares, 41, was killed March Jamaica .bans most antigay music Jamaica’s Broadcasting Commission has effectively banned most anti-gay dancehall songs from being played over the airwaves. Wockner News Service New regulations prohibit broadcast of songs and videos that glorify arson, rape, shooting or murder, as well as depictions of sex acts. Gay activists, locally and internationally, have campaigned for years against the anti-gay alleged "murder music" ofJamaican artists such as Sizzla, Bounty Killer, Elephant Man, Vybz Kartel, Beenie Man, Buju Banton, T.O.K. and Capleton. Phelpses banned from entering UK Anti-gay Kansas pastor Fred Phelps and his daughter Shirley have been banned from entering the United Kingdom, the Telegraph reported Feb. 19. The "God hates fags" team had announced plans to picket a performance of’l-he Laramie Project on Feb. 20 at a school arts center in Basingstoke, Hampshire. A UK Border Agency spokesman said: "Both these individuals have engaged in unacceptable behavior by inciting hatred against a number of communities.... We will continue to stop those who want to spread extremism, hatred and violent messages in our communities from coming to our country." In an interview with the BBC, Shirley Phelps- Roper stated: "There are members ofWBC (Westboro Baptist Church) that are not named Phelps.... Unless they intend to begin checking the bare backsides of every person coming into that country to find that tattoo that says ’Property ofWBC,’ they will have no way of identifying who is from WBC." In the end, a single, unidentified demonstrator showed up and was chased offby about 50 counterprotesters, the BBC reported. HIV rate climbs in Asia Gay and bisexual men in Asia are having risky unprotected sex, causing dramatic climbs in HIV infection rates, said officials attending a World Health Organization HIV/AIDS conference Feb. 18 in Hong Kong. The gathering heard that more than 30 percent of gay and bisexual men in Bangkok are HIV-positive, while some Chinese cities report a rate as high as 18 percent, and China as a whole has a rate of 3.8 percent among gay/bisexual men. The director of Chinas AIDS-control center, Wu Zunyou, said amphetamine use and Internet hookups are factors in the climbing infection rate. HIV now is Chinas deadliest infectious disease, according to a new report from the Ministry of Health. More than 8 percent of gay and bisexual men in Jakarta are HIV-positive, the conference heard, as are 7.8 percent in Cambodia. Singapore censors Oscars Singapore’s MediaCorp TV censored its replay of the Academy Awards Feb. 23, removing portions of Dustin Lance Black’s acceptance speech. Black won the original screenplay Oscar for Milk, and said: "When I was 13 years old, my beautiful mother and my father moved me from a conservative Mormon home in San Antonio, Tex., to California, and I heard the story of Harvey Milk. And it gave me hope. It gave me the hope to live my life. It gave me the hope one day I could live my life openly as who I am and that maybe even I could fall in love and one day get married. "If Harvey had not been taken from us 30 years ago, I think he’d want me to say to all of the gay and lesbian kids out there tonight who have been told that they are ’less than’ by their churches, by the government or by their families, that you are beautiful, wonderful creatures of value and that no matter what anyone tells you, God does love you, and that very soon, I promise you, you will have equal rights federally across this great nation of ours." Sean Penn’s acceptance speech also was truncated. He won the best actor Oscar for his portrayal of Harvey Milk. Penn said: "You commie, homo-loving sons of guns.... For those who saw the signs of hatred as our cars drove in tonight, I think that it is a good time for those who voted for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone." Subscribers to one of the main Singaporean gay e-mail lists were outraged at the edits. "This sort of bigoted, intolerant and ignorant action by a national broadcaster is better suited for Iran or North Korea than a nation that puts itself forward as a modern worldclass city," wrote one. MediaCorp/Channel 5 censorship,manager David Christie said the broddcast would have been in serious breach of the MDA (Media Development Authority) Programme Code if such controversial content was not editorially managed." "The code explicitly disallows content that sympathizes with, promotes or normalizes such a lifestyle from being broadcast," he said. Gay sex is illegal in Singapore. The Asian satellite TV service STAR also censored the two men’s speeches, dropping the audio each time the word "gay" or "lesbian" vcas uttered. STAR beams into more than 50 countries to some 300 million viewers. www.rnetrostarnews.com #d®troSTAR 11 By Camper English Colder, smaller, weaker: Better martinis ~lhe diplomatic way of defining the "best martini" is as "the martini that you like the best." But, really, if you’re pulling a jug of vodka out of the freezer and pouring it into a glass, you’re not drinking a martini at all. You’re drinldng a glass of cold vodl~a. Add olives and you’ve got vodka with a snack. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. I drink cold vodka all the time, and ~vho doesn’t enjoy a string of olives for dinner? But a martini is a mixed drink, necessitating more than one ingredient to mix into it. Bar-haviora Problems The working theory is that the martini star~ed as a spinoff of the Martinez, a cocktail made with sweetened gin, sweet vermouth, maraschino liqueur and bitters (with a lemon twist). As tastes in cocktails shifted away from sweet drinks, the "Dry Martini" made with d~/vermouth became more popular, and eventually most everybody forgot about the bitters. Vodka didn’t become an option until later. Gay bar bartenders, who are not necessarily gay bartenders, are usually the most ei~cient and fair intoxicologists in tl~e drinking universe. I say "fair" because at straight establishments, hot women and rid>looking men (usually jerk~) get first priority, and the bartenders frequently take drink orders out of order. Infuriating! This is not often the case in gay ~vatering holes, where the bartenders tend to be the hottest people in the room and dofft need to impress you by serving you first (you need impress them with the size of your tips). Given the variations over time, you could rightfully order your martini made with gin or vodka, sweet or dry vermouth or none at all, bitters or not, olives or a twist - and you could find a published recipe to back it up. None are the "right" way to make a martini, but I would encourage experimentation to find the way that’s right for you. Also, gay bar patrons Imow how to behave (toward the bartender anyway) and will often line up in an orderly fashion at the drink well rather than shouting and waving like the opening scene ofThe Love Boat al! along the bar. I take straight friends to my favorite gay bar and they are anlazed at the German,like efficientT in place. They are often jealous and ofthe strained drink in the frdezer’ ...... determine to start coming there every night, until they hear ........... .... ...... the 14th Madonna remix in a row. I can’t say I blame them. In a nightclub or other crowded venue, or anywhere with a mixed crowd, all bets for orderly ordering are off. You need to gain the attention of tl~e bartender as well as make him or her think you’re going to be a good (i.e., fast, non-annoying) customer. Here are a few suggestions for attracting the bartender and keeping his attention. While jumbo-sized martini glasses used in many bars provide a lot of liquor for the dollar, by the time you get to the bottom half you’re drinking room-temperature alcohol. That is bad. Or worse, it’s a warm salt bath if you’ve got the extra-large-sized olives in there that help to heat it xtp. The very dassiest ofbars serve their martinis in very small, very cold glasses - with an additional quantity of the drink in an ice-chilled container on the side. That is lovely. At home, I use vintage (small) glassware and keep the remainder cooling Look available. You want to make eye contact with the bartender and have her give you the "I see you" nod. To accomplish this, face the bar, not your friends behind you. If you’re turned around chatting and using the bar as a leaning post, you’re not giving the right signal. Be ready. When you are trying to get the bartender’s attention, have visible cash in your hand -but don’t ~vave it around unless there is a row of drag queens in six-inch heels blocking your line of sight. And if you’re planning to pay with a credit card, you may want to keep that hidden. It takes longer to process, so the bartender will serve the cash-holding folks first. Also, be ready with your friends’ drink orders. Don’t wait until the bartender gets there to turn around and say, "What do you guys want?" As the person standing next to you, H1 swoop in and say "~ree martinis please" when your back is turned. I’m like that. S~’ategize. Don’t shout to get the bartender’s attention. Nobody likes to be yelled at while doing their job. A friendly "Hi!" sometimes helps though. Make your first tip the most generous one to help ensure prompt service and healthy pours for the rest of the evening. And be respectful of others - if the guy next to you was waiting longer but the bartender comes to you, give him the "he was here first" point. The bartender will remember that you’re next, and you never kmow if that guy next to you wil! return the favor and pay for your drink. Do not fear vermouth. Try it and you might find you actually like it - but probably not the 4-year-old, mostly full bottle gathering dust in the back of your liquor cabinet. Use a fresh bottle. Vermouth spoils like wine after opening, so buy small bottles and keep them in the refrigerator to lengthen their life span. Ice, too, is an ingredient in the drink. Ifyou keep your vodka or gin in the freezer, not much water will melt into your martini. Dilution brings the drink down to a manageable level of alcoholic strength to keep you from making that too-strong scrunchy face that gives you wrinkles. A martini should be refreshing, not painful. The shaken-versus-stirred decision is not worth the ~veight given to it. Shaking adds ice chips and air bubbles that make the drink look doudy and taste fizzy, whereas stirring results in a clear and smooth cocktail from the get-go. I prefer a stirred martini when I’m at a nice cocktail lounge, but I do often shake them at home. Not because it tastes better, but because shaldng is more fun. Camper English is a cocktails and spirits writer andpublisher of Alcademics. com. ’ 12 ~et~:oSTAR April 2009 ~e internationally renowned cast ofWoody Sez- back rowfrom left: Helen Russell, Darci Deaville, Andy Tekstein;J~ont- David Lutken as Woody @hoto courtesy of The Scotsman Publications Ltd.) OKLAHOI~La~ CITY, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~eatre, OkAahoma’s premiere professional theatre company, will present the American Premiere ofWoody Sez, the words, music, & spirit ofV[oody Guthrie as part of the 2009 "Lyric at the Plaza" season. This unique theatrical concert event celebrates the life and spirit ofAmerican folk legend Vioody Guthrie, whose music continues to inspire today’s finest storytelling songwriters including Bob DyIan, Bruce Springsteen, John Mellencamp, the Indigo Girls, and Billy Bragg. Lyri& production will run from March 26th through April 1 lth and features the show’s original cast from its European tour. st0ryte!l& ~na David tutken Stars in {he and actor,musici~s Darcie Deaville ,Teirstein join in ,to portray up the fabric of Guthrie’s amazing story. The four accompany themselves on over 15 different instruments, ranging from guitar and fiddle to jaw harp and dulcimer. \Voodrow Wilson "W’oody" Guthrie was born in 1912 in Okemah, Oklahoma. He is best kmown as an American singersongwriter and folk musician, whose musical legacT indudes hundreds of political, traditional and children’s songs, ballads and improvised works. Many of his recorded songs are archived in the Library of Congress. Guthrie traveled from Oklahoma to California and later New York and used his rich life experiences and observations to write traditional folk and blues songs, many ofwhich deal with the Great Depression. Guthrie died from complications of Huntington’s disease, a progressive genetic neurological disorder. When Nick Corley accepted the position as Lyric’s new artistic director, he was thrilled with the timing and what it meant for the future ofWoody Sez. With the blessing of the Guthrie estate, Corley, who has directed the show fi’om its inception, prepared Lyric for the American premiere, so that Oklahomans could be the first in ~he country to celebrate Guthrie’s life and music in this special way. Furthermore, so that the celebration of Woody’s spirit can reach even further beyond the Oklahoma City metro area, Lyric Theatre has plans to take the show on the road. A special presentation ofWoody Sez, the words, music, & spirit ofWoody Guthrie has been generously underwritten by Continental Resources, one of the largest independent oil and natural gas companies in the United States. The show will play a special two-night engagement at the Enid Symphony Center on Tuesday, March 31st and g~rednesday, April 1st at 7:30pm, marking the first time in the company’s 47-year history that a full prod,uction will be performed outside of Lyric s home venue. Back in Oldahoma City, Woody Sez performances are March 26th through April 1 lth: Thursdays at 7:30pm, Fridays at 8:00pm, Saturdays at 2:00pm & 8:00pro. For tickets: ,a-wvc.lyrictheatreokc.com, (405) 524-9312, or in person at 1727 NW 16th St, Oldahoma City, OK. In Oklahoma City, the renovation and opening of Plaza Theatre, located on NW 16th Street between Penn and Classen, means that audiences can look forward to an intimate world-class theatrical experience, complete ~vith free accessible parking, tdtracomfortable seating, and a full service cash bar. Drinks are even allowed inside the theatre as the audience takes in the performance. The 2009 "Lyric at the Plaza" season concludes in May with Steel Magnolias. Lyric will continue to produce its annual summer season at downtmvn Oklahoma City’s Civic Center Music Hall, beginning in June with Disney’s High School Musical 2 and continuing with The Music Man, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, The Producers, and Little Shop of Horrors. w~-w.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 13 Arkansas Domestic Partnership Registry Under Attack Gay News Bureau EUREKA SPRINGS, AR The only Domestic Partnership Registry in Arkansas-- and one of the fe~v in the Mid-South region of the country--may soon be history if one right-wing state legislator has his way. But the Eureka Springs mayor, city council and supporters of the DPR, vow to vigorously oppose a move by Republican Arkansas State Rep. Bryan King to do away with it. In only 22 months, 256 unmarried couples from 55 Arkansas communities and 14 other states have registered as domestic partners in Eureka Springs. At least 28 of those couples came from neighboring Oklahoma and another 32 from Missouri, says Michael Walsh, who wrote the domestic partnership law that went into effect in June 2007. Efforts to keep the resort town from officially honoring gay and straight couples is "transparent homophobia," he says. "There are six words to describe State Rep. Bryan King ofArkansas," said Walsh, "and they are, ’State Rep. Sally Kern of Oklahoma’. To know one is to know the other." DPR advocates say it is hypocritical for any state lawmaker to condemn municipal domestic partnership laws while accepting campaign contributions from I~aft Foods, Wal-Mart, FedEx and Cox Communications, companies that have domestic partner policies. King is serving his final term as state representative and may next run for the Arkansas senate. His detractors say he has nothing to lose and much to gain by assaulting the DPR at this time. King introduced his anti-DPR measure March 9. Out lesbian Arkansas State Rep. Kathy Webb, a Democrat, opposes the ban and has said it may be killed at the committee level. Arkansas Speaker of the House Robbie Wills is also on record as opposing the bill. But Eureka Springs city officials are not taking any chances. In a statement signed by the entire Eureka Springs City Council, Mayor Dani Joy strongly defended the DPR and condemned King’s intrusion into city affairs. "I vdll not stand silent any longer and allow a demographic of our citizens to be humiliated and degraded," she said. "Prejudice or bigotry have no place in our city. The gay and lesbian community are our fi’iends, neighbors and family." The editor of the tmvffs weekly newspaper, The Lovely County Citizen, characterized Y,dng’s anti-DPR bill as a "regressive, faithbased, discriminatory, venal.., and cynical act." It is, said editor Don Lee in a editorial, "demagoguery based on religious prejudice bordering on moral fascism..." ~e Carroll County (AR) News reported King "felt the bill (to ban DPRs) was needed because tourism in Eureka Springs has become identified too strongly with issues of sexuality." Given the town’s long-standing reputation as a major wedding destination, King’s rationale is fraudulent, says Walsh. "What the hell does he think goes on in all those heart shaped hot tubs and honeymoon cabins," Walsh said. "King’s real aim is to impose his extremist religious and political views on our town and at the expense of gay residents, business owners and tourists. "Playing the gay card is a way for cheap politicians in Arkansas to fan the fires of hate and fatten up their campaign coffers." But, on the brink of what may be a precarious tourist season, King’s bill cotfld also deprive the town of a critical revenue stream. According to city records, the DPR has generated almost $10,000 for the city in less than two years. Registration costs $35 per couple. Walsh puts the figure at closer to $250,000 to $500,000 when DPR-related expenditures on hotels, motels, B &Bs, restaurants, bars, caterers, ministers, florists, gift shops, photographers mad spending by friends and }’amilies are included. "Precisely when the state needs all the tax revenue it can it, I~dng’s bill is exceedingly short-sighted," he said. * To express your support, send a brief e-mail to Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Joy at mayor@ cityofeurekasprings.org ~ Express your outrage to Arkansas State Rep. Bryan King at: kingb@arkleg.state.ar.us * Ask your friends, co-workers, family members and neighbors to do the same. * Send this story to news outlets, LGBT organizations, web sites and blogs. * Ask your elected local and state representatives to speak out on this issue, as did the Eureka Springs mayor when Sally Kern was on the rampage last year. = Come to Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend April 3-5 and get your own DPR. See www.eurekapride.com for events. Diversity Weekend Kicks Offin Eureka Springs FRIDAY, APRIL 3 Domestic Partner Certificates. The courthouse is dosed Saturday and Sunday. City Clerl~’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 AM - 12 Noon and 1:30 to 4:30 PM. Over150 unique shops and galleries. Be sure to stop by and say hi to Charlie at A Byrds Eye View. Weekend favorites include The Tourist Stop, Mountain Eclectic, Antique Affaire, The Inn Convenience Store, Fusion Squared and Eclectic Edge. Over 6 vendors are setting up in the old Eureka Screams Theater parking lot and lobby, located on H~W 23 South. Friday - Sunday, 8 AM - 5 PM, everything from Tools to Toys. Welcome Mixer, Pizza Bar, 13 N Main, 6:00 to 8:00 PM. Come feel the warmth. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the county. CITY PARKING FREE AFTER 6 PM. Rock and Roll with Tiffany Christopher, The New Delhi, 2 North Main, All ages welcome, 6:30 PM - 9:30 PM-ish. It’s a Hawaiian Luau Weekend. Karake, Dance, Giveaways and FUN. Friday and Saturday, Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring, Open Noon - 2AM, Full menu served till 9 PM nightly. NO COVER CHARGE. The always popular Tiki Torch Club and their Spring Diversity Dance Par-Tee. Arrive early this place fills up fast. Midnight Teaser Drag Show with Secdackeiry. Male Illusionist. That’s right they’re all girls and they’re dressed too ’KISS’. The IgSSS Tribute Band, Lumberyard, 105 East Van Buren, 9:00 PM. Stick around for DJ TIC’S Spin Cycle and Dance Party. Ashley McBryde... the miracle gift returns for SPRING ,n Eureka. Jacks Place. 37 Spring St, 9:00 PM.- Midnight, no cover. Handsome Lee wit! be checking IDs at the door. EUREKA’S UNDERGROUND the subterranean and always gay Eureka Live, 35 North Main, Trash Disco Party, drink specials. NO COVER CHARGE! THE DIVERSITY BAND: Chelsea’s, 10 Mountain St. 9 PM - ~ Avoid those Diversity buzz-killers like getting a DUI or trying to find a parking place downtown. Eureka Springs Limousine. $5.00 point to point. Call 479-244-6320 for your PICK-UP! SATURDAY, APRIL 4 Name That Tune With Sandy at the Smokehouse Card, 580 West Van Buren, 8:30 A.M to1 l:30ish, biscuits as big as your head. WIN Fabulous Prizes, like Sparlcy Sun Glasses! Saturday and Sunday Only. The Diversity Bikers "Bridges and Dam Poker Run." Planer’s Hill Parking lot on the corner of 62 and 23 (Main Street) Starting at 12:45 PM. The Spring PDA photo shoot. Just some good time amusement for the tourist and to annoy the fundies. SPRINGS PUBHC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA), 12 noon, Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. Eureka Pride has free treats to pass out. The Eclectic Edge, 49 Spring, ARTIST RECEPTION drop by and meet Artist Matt Johnson and Gallery owners David and Ginny between 1 and 5 PM. Light , refreshments. Register to win a piece of Matt s artwork. Raffie to benefit the local Doggie Shelter. KARAOYdS: Jack’s Place, 37 Spring, 2 PM - 6 PM, WOW!.!! Jello Shots For a BUCK! ALL GIRLS BAND IRIS: Chelsea’s, 10 Mountain St. Better show out early, these ladies have been known to Jump Start their show as early as 7 PM and then ~vind it up Midnight. The North West Arkansas Center For Equality and UA PRIDE, are havin,,g a dance. Entire, family welcome, upstairs at The Space, located across from the U.S. Post Office in Uptown-Downtown Eureka on Spring St., DJ dance music and activities for the kids. $5 cover, FREE to children 12 and under. 8 -11 PM. For a complete list of activities and events go to www.eurekapride.com and diversitypride. com. New Owners ForJoplin’s Pla-Mor Lounge. New owners ofJoplin’s Pla-Mor Lounge, Tim, Bonnie and Tom. Staffphoto JOPLIN, MO (PR) After more than 40 years in the bar business including several gay clubs, Dick and Billy Jack decided to retire and let longtime friends Tim, Tom and Bonnie take over their latest venture, the Pla-Mor Lounge located at 532 S. Joplin St, Joplin’s only gay club. New hours beginning in April will be Tues-Sat 5pm to 1am. Happy hour 5pro to 7pm. Phone 417-624-2722 Retiring Pla-Mor owners Dick and Billy Jack. Staffphoto 14 ~{et~’oSTAR April 2009 @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Hideaway, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa @The Mine Shaft, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa www.rnetrostarnews.com #~et~oSTAR 15 I really dig California Zins. For springtime/ back yard grill time, what better red xvine than Zinfandel to go with short ribs, beef brisket, grilled veggies and brats. Here are some killer bottles I think should be considered to go with your barbeque fun. Brief histoD+ of the grape [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] qlais is thought to be California’s most popular red-wine grape because it’s not widely grown in other parts of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850s and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel and Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that Zinfandel might have originated in Italy. However, in late 200 t, DNA fingerprinting determined that Crljenak Ka~telanski (a littleknown grape from Croatia) and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Priraitivo), there are only isolated plantings of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. The Zinfandel grape can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to Cabernet Sauvignon. Mr. D’s V2 case EarthQuake Zin ’06 The Phillips brothers pride themselves on farming their vineyards with a meticulous eye on quality. Their wines regularly take top accolades in wine competitions. This Zin is really full bodied with lots zing and flavor. In addition to the Earthquake brand of reservetier wines, wine brands under the Michael David Winery umbrella include the popular 7 Deadly Zins. This wine has recently come down in price about 20% in this market and it’s a must try. FoxGlove Zin ’07 Wine critic Robert Parker says that this one of the most ,mpress~!}e in the coot, high elevations Cruz M+0~nt~sT’ ~is Zi~ €9~(s ffo~m Vasq Robles ~fi~ is a n~ addition t0 ~¢~e~akers Bob & Jim Varner~ oo~tfoli6. I was completely surpnse~ at[)~Ow gogd~h~s single vineyard wi~e is for the~money. ~’ ~, + }~’~ Ifyou are one of those xvho beliei( better, read on. Cabernet. juicy fruit acid balanc~ comedian Robin this winery and great Cabernet also For this Zin, ~only Family, is also currently making. uch xvineries like Paradigm, and Past clients include Screaming Eagle },arc 29. "We brought a bdtfle for ) w’. file opt in California during ~he We hadnt fasted it before hand’and bottle, I Wished a c9uple more. This wine in oiar state and this zin is ]his writer is one of the managers a~ the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food town as the Enthusiasts ofTulsa. Hyse Couzins ’05, This is the first intriguingblend 39% Zinfandel and drinldng xvell right now, to decant. Wine critid sa3 for the next 5 - 7 years. This be hard to find so if you see it, wine has also come down in 20% in this market and Remember that Zinfandel are two Couzins. Edmeades Mendocino This hasgot to be one of and 20061ooks to be to 2005 has some Petite Grenache blended color. ~nere is a cherry ~ spring / www.l~ineSpectamd pepper. Turn processor onand chop f~r Roasted Red Pepper Hummus Ingredients 2 -14 oz can chic~ peas, drained 4 cloves garlic, peeled " 1/2 cup jarred, i:o~ted red’peppers. drained Zest of one lemon Juice of one lemon !/4 cup tahini (may substitute ~vith pmnut or almond butter) i/2 cup olive oil | teas kosher salt is creamy. Serve topped with a drizzle of 01ive oil, feta cheese and cracked black pepper if desired. Provide pita wedges and fresh vegetables for spreading. 16 v~®t;oSTAR April 2009 nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa Bruce Springsteen and The E Street Band .April 7, 2009 @ 7:30 Ticket Prices: $9I, $57, $4I Get tickets at LiveNation.com, all Tickets.corn Outlets, or charge by phone at 1-866-7-BOK-CTR Bruce Springsteen’s new album ’Working on a Dream’ was released today (January 27, 2009). ’~,Working on a Dream~ was recorded with the E Street Band and features twelve new Springsteen compositions plus one bonus track. It is the fourth collaboration between Springsteen and Brendan O’Brien, who produced and mixed the album. Nickelback Apr 10, 2009 at BOK Center Nickelback With Seether and Saving Abel Aprill 0, 2009 Tickets On Sale Now Prices: $75, $55, $35 Unstoppable rock powerhouse Nickelback have announced dates for their upcoming North American tour in support of their new" album Dark Horse, released on Roadrunner Records on November !8th. Nickelback are a phenomenally successful touring band whose tours have grossed in excess of $100 million thus f.ar and have sold more than 30 million albums worldwide. Dark Horse is Nickelback’s first release since the immensely popular All ~fhe Right Reasons, released in 2005. Fleetwood Mac May 3, 2009 at BOK Center "Unleashed" Tour May 3, 200~ Tickets Off Sale Now Prices: $149.50, $79.50, $49150 Wne sure to be historic "Unleashed" Tour, beginning on March 1st in Pittsburgh, is an epic cross-c0untry trek featuring 44 shows in major markets. The tour will include al!~ of the Ma& many greatest hits fi’om over the course of the band’s extraordinary career. Fleem~ood Mac, the multi-Grammy winning, multi-platinum Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductees are back on the road for the first time in five years following several successful solo projects. OKC Civic Center Music Hall April Events THE LEFT HAND SINGING a drama by Barbara Lebow Date: Frida); March 20, 2009 - Saturday, April 11, 2009 Presented by Carpenter Square Theatre MF~SURE FOR MEASURE by William Shakespeare Date: Friday, March 27, 2009 - Sunday, April i9, 2009 Presented by the Oklahoma City Theatre Company Perpetual Motion "Chiaroscuro" Date: Friday, April 03, 2009 - Saturday, April 04, 2009 Time: 7:30 p.m. Perpetual Motion presents Chiaroscuro CLASSIC SERIES: SEASON FINALE presented by the Oklahoma City Philharmonic Date: Saturday, April 04, 2009 Time: 8:00 p.m. Featuring Yuja X~gang, Piano ZOMBIE PROM Date: Frida>; April 10, 2009 - Sunday, Apri! 19, 2009 Zombie Prombook and lyrics by John Dempse, music by Dana E Rowe based on a story by John Dempsey and Hugh Murphy April 10-19, 2009 in the Freede Litde Theatre DISNEY’S THE LION KING Date: Tnesday, April 21, 2009 - Saturday, May 23, 2009 Presented by Celebrity Attractions Begins April 21, 2009 Tracy Morgan and Martin Lawrence put the fun in Funeral When Romeo first reported on the proposed Chris Rock-led American version of the outrageous British farce Death at a Funeral, it was unclear as to whether the wild gay subplot would survive. But as casting begins it seems clear that the queer surprise in the black comedy’s casket is alive and well. Better yet, 30 Rock’s hilarious Tracy Morgan has signed on to star alongside Martin La~vrence in the corned); due in 2010, about a dead patriarch’s funeral interrupted by mishaps~ bizarre guests and the arrival of the deceased’s secret gay lover. As long as Lawrence ~snt contracted to play B~g Momma in this verSion, fans of the original can rest easy:. Now, which brave American actor is going to pla~ the family member who runs around the hOuSe naked for the entire length of the fihn? ...... Cherry Jones’ sister act Object lesson to any actor who believes that coming out will be career-damaging: Cherry Jones. The talented lesbian character actress never stops working, plays the President on 24, was Matt Damon’s reality-checking mother in Ocean’s 13 and won a Tony Award for her pre-Meryl Streep incarnation of Sister Aloysius on Broadway in Doubt. Now she’l! take on another nun role in the upcoming drama Mother and Child starring opposite Naomi xYc:atts, Samuel Jackson, Kerry Washington and Annette Bening. The female-centered adoption drama is currently in production and due for release this December - aka Beg For Your Oscar Month - so the filmmakers must be pretty confident about its chances. Who knows, maybe Jones will have to dear room next to her Tony for a new golden friend. Ghost musical to raise Broadway from the dead? It seems that everything on Broadway is going belly up. Shows are dosing faster than new ones can take their place, ticket sales are in the toilet and all seems hopeless. And it’s desperate times that lead to crazy/genius ideas like Ghost: The Musical taldng root and flowering. The smash 1990 Patrick Swayze/Demi Moore film (for which Whoopi Goldberg won her Color Purple Oscar) is going to sing its way onto one of London’s West End stages sometime in 2010 and, if sufficiently crowd-pleasing, will probably make a mad dash for Broadway sometime later. The writers of "Unchained Melody" are already spending their future royalty check bump, but who’s going to pen the song about Patrick Swayze’s heartbreaking inability to express love without invoking the word "ditto?" Neil Patrick Hat~s. 20th Century Foxphoto Nell Patrick Harris hands out TV Land Awards If the Harold and Kumar movies, How I Met Your Mother, Dr. Horrible’s Sing-Along Blog, his SNL appearance and his spoonbending antics on Ellen weren’t enough to convince you that Neil Patrick Harris is a national treasure, try this: now he’s retro-nostalgia-cable-channel TV Land’s answer to Hugh Jackman. The funny, quick-witted song-and-dance man will host April’s TV Land Awards with the requisite amount of skits, mttsical numbers and awards given out to shows like Charles In Charge and Mama’s Family. Expect a lot ofvintage TV personalities showing up to join Harris as he tosses out non-vintage one-liners. Romeo San Vicente could sense something was up as early as Doogie Howser, ~I.D. He can be reached care ofthispublication or at DeeplnsideHollywood@qsyndicate.com. More ENTERTAINMENT see page 20 w"ww.metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 17 V @[8 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams SOME LEATHER_ FUN, ANYONE? Photo: Pool atThe Inn Leather Resort friends from North Carolina that we met there, Paul and Dick. After all, meeting new and exciting people is what traveling is all about. By the way, did we mention that they have a leather and chain sling in every room at the Inn Leather? Seriously ifyou are into leather, want to be into leather or just want to look and enjoy leather, then fly, drive, take a train or bus or even hitchhike and get down to die Inn Leather resort in Ft. Laxlderdale and learn how to have some real fun "leather fun". Since our travel columns are in publications from coast to coast and since we have readers who are into just about everything we decided to stay in this Leather Resort. The Inn Leather Resort has been serving the leather and levi gay community in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida as well as the entire East coast and the Midwest for over 10 years and a lot of gay men from all over the country love to stay there. During our stay ~ve met guys from New York, Chicago and several other places in the Midwest as well as Floridians. The general manager Chase and his staff of Benji, Kevin and Gabe are extremely professional, friendly and know how to take care of their guests. We just can’t say enough nice things about them. Chase has the most beautiful eyes and smile that you have ever seen in your life. We know that a lot of guys stay here just so that they Can see him! Tnru his professional guidance, the Inn is in the process of being remodeled. ~ae entire staff is really very accommodating. The grounds are filled with luscious tropical plants. The pool area is very inviting. .Amenities include heated swimming pool, hot tub, tree wi-fi and a SLING in every room! Yep! You read that right............ a leather and chain SLING in every room! Never tried one? XWell this is a perfect opporttinity for you. They have about a dozen rooms and suites and are located just two miles from the beach and just about a 10 minute drive to the major bars and one mile south of do~vntown Ft. Lauderdale and t’wo miles north of the Ft. Lauderdale airport. ~ae Inn Leather is a "clothing optional" resort. Did we mention that there is a leather and chain SLING in every room? Each accommodation includes queen or king size bed, private bath, kitchenette which includes fridge, coffee maker, microwave, TWVCR/cable tv and alarm clock. They have ample off street parking for their guests. A stay here includes a complimentary continental breakfast poolside every morning. q-here are a lot of restaurants within walking distance and a major shopping center with a supermarket just a few blo~ away. Ifyou are into leather or appreciate leather or just curious, then call and make a reservation. Oh yeah! Did we mention that there is a leather and chain SLING in every room? For those really into leather, be SURE and stop by the Ramrod leather bar at 1508 NE 4th Avenue for the most interesting time that you can EVER have in a gay bar! They have specials going on every day including Leather Sunday; Full Moon Monday, Butt to Butt Wednesda)~ Battle of the Bulge "l-hursday and Fetish Friday. They have a daily two for one happy hour from 3 to 9 PM. Check out their website at: www.ramrodbar.com A very special thanks to Chase, general manager of the Inn Leather and to our new leather and chain sling in every room" While you in the area, be sure and check out the greatest totally nude beach in the country, Haulover Beach! which is located about a twenty minute drive south of Ft. Lauderdale. It is the only legally nude beach in the Florida. Haulover Beach Park contains one of south Florida’s most b~autiful clothing optional beaches-a 0.4 mile stretch of beach on the northernportion that draws people from all walks of life, from other states, Canada and a variety of other countries. Nestled between the Intercoastal Waterway and the Atlantic Ocean, it has pristine white sand shores, open ocean surf, various shaded picnic facilities, beautifully landscaped sand dunes, and concession stands. The beach is ideal for surfing as well as swimming. Thousands of people go to Haulover Beach on a sunny day. Simply put, Haulover Beach is one of the best clothing-optional beaches in the world, as ranked by many online and print publications. As many as 7,000 people visit the beach in a single day. There is a snack cart situated in the clothing optional area most days, as well as chairs available to rent. Haulover Beach is quite large and is broken up into different areas for gays and straights. It is a great way to meet people. Their website is http://www.hauloverbeach. org Contact the Inn Leather Resort at: 877.532.7729 or email them at InnLeather610@aol.com and be sure to check out their website at: www.innleather.com. By the way, did we mention that they have a leather and chain sling in every room??? Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Spirit Journeys Announces Gay Travel Adventure Rafting the Grand Canyon Spirit Journeys has a new gay vacation rafting the Grand Canyon. This journey starts July 1, 2009 and ends July 10, 2009. NEW MILFORD, NJ (PRWEB)__ Spirit Journeys is very pleased to announce its new gay travel adventure rafting through the Grand Canyon. "Going Deep" is the title of this adventure and it begins and ends in Las Vegas and includes eight days and seven nights of rafting the Colorado River some 280 miles through the Grand Canyon. On this journey the goal IS tO experience the canyon and the river at a more profound level than on an ordinary vacation. Grand Canyon Rafting The adventure into Self is enhanced by the inspiring surroundings the Canyon has to offer. Being on the Colorado River at the bottom of the Grand Canyonhas a way of making humans very humble in the presence of such majesty, major life shifts can happen. Meditation Heart Circles and group movement rituals will be used to help open the mind and heart and deepen the experience of this incredible place. The intention is to actively engage the Canyon and the River; to know them on a more intimate level. The raft stops several times each day to hike, to explore side canyons, to swim in favorite swimming holes or to stand in ~e power ofwaterfalls. Howie Holben is the guide for this gay vacation. Heis owner and caretaker of Spirit Journeys. He was raised in northern Arizona and has always felt a special bond to the sacred places of the Southwest The gifts he brings to this Journey are his extensive knowledge of these places and the love for the path we follow on this journey. Since early childhood, he has been drawn to indigenous peoples and their spiritual teachings, traditions and practices. This attraction has taken him on many adventures, exploring the countless ways of "being in the world". His personal journey through addiction and recovery has spavcned in him a genuine interest in assisting others on their own spiritual path and he takes great pleasure in introducing people to practices, sacred ways and cultures to help them "step outside their box". A Reiki/Karuna Ki Master and Quantum Touch Pracdoner, his desire is to help others uncover their potential and set their hearts and minds free. For additional information on this and other special gay vacations, contact Hmvie Holben or visit w~#.spiritjourneys.com. About Spirit Journeys: Spirit Journeys offers gay travel, gay vacations and gay retreats with a spiritual focus, and unique gay retreat and gay vacation options. Call (800) 754-1875 to learn more about Spirit Journeys. 18 April 2009 ~ifest2 Se~ons Hualani. ,.~VW.metrostamews.com materials ~etroSTAR 19 April At P.A.C. Tulsa April 18 -This year TU BLGTA’s Pride Prom 2009: A BollDvood Ball will be held on Apri! 18 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Westby Pavilion. 3-he event is a prom targeted toward Tulsa-area youth who are not alIowed m or not comfortable with bringing the date of their choice to prom, but it is open to all people ages 15 m 25. Tickets are $10 for general admission or $5 for %lsa UniversitT students. For more information emait http:l/us.mc l O.mail.yahoo.com/mc/ compose?to=tublgta@gmail.com. March-27-29 & April 2-4 8pro Up the Down Staircase -Liddy Doenges N~eatre Anyone who’s ever started a new job will relate to this comedy about Sylvia, an idealistic young English teacher maneuvering her way through a blizzard of paperwork, contradictmT orders and indecipherable instructions. She discovers that "Keep on file in numerical order" means throw in wastebasket, "Let it be a challenge" means April 14-15 7:30pro Aspen Santa Fe Ballet John H. XXqlliams ~eatre "Aspen Santa Fe Ballet is a jewel of a company...a refreshing surprise!" declares Ba&stage.com. This dazzling contemporary dance company will perform three to four pieces from its eclectic repertoire that contains works by some of the world’s [bremost choreographers, such as TwT1a %arp, Jorma Elo and Paul Taylor. The Vertical Hour April 16-18 at 8 p.m., April 19 at 2 p.m. Lid@ Doenges ~eatre "iI~e "vertical hour" is the first hour after an injury when ~sistance has the greatest chance of being beneficial, tn this 2006 play by Englishman David Hare, an ~Mnerican former war correspondent turned Yale political science professor joins her British boyfi’iend, Philip, for a visit to his fhther, Oliver. She has a pro-Iraq viewpoint, while the father, a doctor with liberal leanings, is against not only the war but many of the beliefs she holds about a range of issues. Nadia is both offended by and attracted to Oliver. Me ro Star Classfieds 2" square for as little as $39 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.net 918.835.7887 SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY Kyk°s Bed by Greg Fox ~gebsite- vmcw.kylecornics.com E-Mail- KylesBnB@aot.com e~ll: bittergirl@qsyndlcate.corn ~w,joanhilty.net ~~1 20 ~®~ro~TAN April 2009 by Jack Fertig Apill 2009 "Your are everyone’s darling Aries" Mercury, Venus, and the Sun are aligning in Aries bringing together charming, witty banter and mad, impulsive flirtations. Venus is retrograde so be careful with those flirtations. They’re not likely to go anywhere you’ll want to stay! ARIES (March 20-Apri~ 19): For now, you are everybody’s darling and could get away with almost anything. Dedicate that power for good, not selfish motives. You have so much of yourself to offer; select your beneficiaries wisely to be fully appreciated. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - May 20): Take some private time with your nearest and dearest in pursuit of pleasures that nurture your soul. No need to hide in a cloister. You can be wild, loud, and frivolous, but do get away from your usual routines and pals. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): Fun with your friends can easily get way out of hand, but is that necessarily a bad thing? You could talk a tiger out of his or her stripes, but then what? When you start to improvise, then the fun really begins! CANCER (~une 2t- July 22): The m65n’s not full this week, but you’re shining like it may as well be. Dazzle your way up the ladder of success. Be clear on where you want to go and with ,~hom. Or at least leave room to change partners and destination. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Sometimes it’s best to let people air out their differences or to hone their arguments in fiery debate. If your peacemaking talents aren’t really needed, give yourself an aesthetic challenge at a movie or an art show you’d normally not attend. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being a love god is a better deal when you can choose your worshippers. Even then, you’re likely to make bad choices. Have your fun, but commitments should be made in the cold light of day, not in the throes of passion. L~BP.A (September 23 - October 22): This is a great time to work on a relationship, not to start one. Problems are easy to discuss now. Solutions can come later. It may feel like you’re backtracking. That’s actually good for clarifying those problems. SCORHO (October 23 - November 21): Re-evaluate your goals at the gym. How much are you motivated by pride and vanity? Oh, really? Pushing too hard for looks may be undermining your health. Prioritize health, and your looks wil! last longer! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Your fascination with a new sport or hobby is probably just a passing fancy. Enjoy it, but don’t invest in new gear at this point! Same with any dates right now. Don’t confuse a great time with falling in love. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Changes are needed around your home, and will be again soon. Whatever re-arrangements or new tchatchkes you like now will become annoying later. Just think of it as a springboard - and budget accordingly. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Dahhhling! You are just too, too charming. Be careful not to ta!k your way into something you can’t get out of! Sure, you can fake sincerity for now, but that will trip you up later! Be real! No, really real! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Brace yourself and take a close look at any financial problems. This is the not the time to be buying anything (bad impulses!) or selling (you’ll get better prices later). Just take stock, and get things into order. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Shuttles and security will be provided. Online registration stilt open! Tulsa Folk-Rocker, Eric Hirnan is bringing his new band, Eric and the #.dams, to the Centennial Park Stage to headline at 9:00prn on Saturday night, June 6th. On May 30th at the historic Cain’s Ballroom, the annual Equality Gala will be held, celebrating the 2009 theme "Dreams Really Do Come True!" Visit ww~.okeq,org for tickets! The Tulsa Pride Exhibition of Fine Art, MOREcolor 2009, opens Thursday, June 4th from 5:00-9:00prn and continues Friday June 5th & Saturday June 6th from Noonennis R. Neill Equality Center. .... Turn-A-Bout Fundraiser Library Event PFLAG Spaghetti Dinner Diversi~ Day at the Zoo Pride ~nterfaith Service Gender Avengers/Trans Night ToUoLS.A. Leather Show PFLAG Movie Night OYP Fashion Show & Fundraiser Pride, Pioneers & Pancakes April 1st, 10pro May 28th, 7pro May 29th, 6:30pm May 30th, 10am May 31st, 3pro June 1st, 7pro June 2nd, 7pro June 3rd, 7pro June 5th, 7pro June 6th, 7:00am Club Maverick Tulsa Central Libra~ Fellowship Congregational Church Tulsa Zoo St. Jerome’s Parish Church OkEq Equality Center OkEq Event Center Circle Cinema Centennial Park Stage Centennial Park Building Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Metro Star Magazine, April 1, 2009; Volume 6, Issue 4 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Metro Star News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Metro Star News Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 2009 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele James Nimmo Jeanne Flanigan Victor Gorin Rex Wockner Susan A. Muscari Gerald Libonati Michael W. 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MORE on page 11 THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR G VOLUME 6 T OKLAHOMA MetroStarN÷ws.com iSSUE 8 AUGUST 1,2009 S 0KLAHOMAAGAIN! The crowd was about equally divided among those supporting her views and those opposed. Those in opposition began shouting Shame on you! repeatedly, alon~-with "Love-thy neighb6r!" - By Victor Gorin $ 0,000 By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On Monday July 13 an emergency meeting and press conference of OKC Pride was hdd at Epworth Methodist Church to deal with the disappearance of a sum estimated to be within the $10,000 to $15,000 range. This cash, which was supposed to have been deposited in the OKC Pride bank account, was derived from contributions, T shirt sales and purchase tickets sold on behalf of vendors. Apparendy assumed to be deposited in OKC Pride’s Chase Bank account by Treasurer Christine Plante, OKC Pride Co-Chair Patti Thompson was surprised to receive word from the bank the following Wednesday after the Pride Weekend that the OKC Pride account was over $4,000 overdrawn, and thus learned that An emergency meeting about this was held by the Board of Directors Thursday July 9 at the Boom, and Ms. Plante was allegedly contacted and asked to be at this meeting, but she did not show up. Although offidally scheduled to be at the July 13 meeting as well Ms. Plante was again not present, and there was no information as to her wherabouts or situation, although a widely drculated rumor was that she had checked herself into a rehabilitation facility. In her place, OKC Press Liaison Nathan Thompson gave a report, stating that OKC Pride had met with the Oklahoma City police to report the incident July 10, but had no further information. Despite the losses, at the time of the meeting OKC Pride had paid all e cash money, which had been obtained om about 3 ago weeks up to and including the event~ hadn& be~n d~posiled ~er all J3y that time Christine Ptante had disappeared as well, leaving the community wondering what wen~ wrong and who was r~sponsible. their outstanding debts and had cash on hand of around $2500 in 2 separate bank accounts, through assis~ ~ byd~h0~ from the commtmity including John Gibbons (owner of the Boom), Dan Johnson, Jack Melisa, and Senate approves hatecrimes measure The measure, which passed on a voice vote, was attached to a defense-spending bill. A move to remove it from that bill failed 63-28. The House of Representatives already has passed a similar bill. "More than 60 senators support the Matthew Shepard Act, legislation that will provide police and sheriffs’ departments with the tools and resources they need to ensure that entire communities are not terrorized by hate violence," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. Both Oklahoma senators fel! for the radical right’s ploy and voted against the hate crimes bill failing to stand up for equali~ To contact both Oklahoma Senators call their Washington office, Sen. James ’Jim’ M. Inhofe (202) 224-4721 and Sen. Tom A. Coburn (202) 224-5754. ~ State Representative Sally Kern, Dis#qct 84 at the Oklahoma State Capitol, Gorin photo OYA~ktOMA CITY, OK__ Around 250 people gathered at the Oldahoma State Capitol for State Representative Sally Kern’s presentation of her Proclamation of Morality, about evenly divided between supporters and those in opposition. The prodamation, which does not have the force of law, blamed the economic problems of our nation due to America "forsaldng the rich Christian heritage upon which our nation was built" and because "our nation has become a world leader in promoting abortion, pornography, same sex marriage, sex trafficking, divorce, illegitimate births, child abuse and many other forms of debauchery." It also criticized President Obama for signing a proclamation recognizing June as Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Pride Month while not taking a more active role in the National Day of Prayer, although President Obama did issue a proclamation supporting that event as well on May 7. Ms.Kern, a Republican who represents District 84, has garnered international attention for her outspoken conservative views, particularly concerning the GLBT community. In a speech taped at a Republican gathering last year that later made Youtube, she stated that the gay community was a bigger threat "than Islam or terrorism," and compared gays to cancer in "one’s big toe" in their relationship to society, However, unlike similar gatherings in the past, the crowd was about equally divided among those supporting her views and those opposed. After she had given a short speech xWASHINGTON, DC (PR) The U.S. Senate approved a bill to add sexual orientation, gender identity and other categories to federal hate-crimes protections. The final vote came July 20. The bill will soon be on its way to President Obama’s desk, where he’ll get a chance to make good on his promise to sign it. This vote came on the heels of tremendous pressure from radical right-wing groups that used every trick in the book. They called the bill the "Pedophile Protection Act," among other outrageous claims. They dismissed the barbaric hate crime that took Matthew Shepard’s life as a "hoax." They flooded the Senate with hundreds of thousands of letters and calls. . ...... ContinUed See OKC PRIDE Page-4 ........... Continued See SALLY Page-4 Oklahoma Weather Forecast for August 2009 This year’s OKC Pride Grand Aug 1-4: Sunny, hot. Hurricane threat in Gulf Diversity Aug 5-10: T-storms north, hot south Aug 11-14: Scattered T-storms, ~ seasonable just love being with my friends in Oklahoma City," Aug 15-21: Sunny, very warm AUg 27-31: Scattered ~-storms, warm Over 150 unique Shops and galleries, and many parties for your entertainn{ent. Beating victim Chad Gibson, who now has a life-threatening blood clot on his brain goes home. Gibson xvants the officers to be prosecuted.. Avg. Temperature: 83.5° (avg. norda, 3° above south) Precipitation: 3.5" (1" above avg.) Page-6 N~YION L>> BILL (Lt" N"’tON= SJPPORTS~ /AYS Page 9 WO~ZLD >> ?R~DE 2009 I PLUS -~ LIFES";YLETR~ /EL ~ AR" ~ I Page 8 #INE / SCOPES �ease pa a rP Everyone who completes @e s#rvey by August 31, 2009 P~ease take the survey today, and te~ year Tremendous strides toward fa~ equality have been achieved by oar tenth, unities ever the past decade. There’s Power in ear Pride. Power te n~ake a difference: Gay and [esbiaa su~ey studies have opened doers (and minds) in ~ea~ing corporations aria organizations, which in turn have rec~gn~ze~ the va~ue of the~r LGBT employees through the es~b~shment of equa~ h~dng po~c~es an~ ~omest[c pa~ner benefits. Th~s has been a catalyst, ~ea~[ng to sweeping changes ~n pofft~cal an~ social ~nc~usJvi~. #e~egraph~c reports a~se ~nfluence ~arket~ng ~nvest~ent. V~ua~y absent unt~ recently, we now see a ~rowing variety ef p[eaacts an~ services represente~ ia gay ~edia, celebrating oar ai~ersity. Aas keep LGBT pubiications an~ websites ~a business, serving their co.manatees with [aaependent news and infermatbn. ~eyen~ s~p~y a@e~s~ng, though, these ce~panies support as ~n ~any ways, ~nc~a~ng sponsoring cow.unity events Community Marketi ~ @ 200g 8~a~uni~ ~arketing, ~nc., 584 Castro St. #834, San Francisco CA 9~114 L~SA ~.Cen~n~unity~arketing~nc.cen~ August 2009 �STATE REPRESENTATIVE AL MCAFF Y CALLS FORAN APOLOGY Tulsa Bowling Tournament a Success By Michael xyZ Sasser By Victor Gorin JOLT Bowling Tournament group at ~dsa Eagles reception party. Staffphoto State Rep. AI ~fcA~’ey and Metro Star re oorter Robin Dornet: Gorin photo OI~ObcLR CITY, OK __ "I complete identifi/with the cleep faith that many Oklahomans hold dear, but I’m appalled that MrS.Kern chose to use a state proclamation to attack the freedom of many Oklahomans xvho do not share her faith or vices." ..... ....... ...... state Reprdsentative A1 McAffrey State Representative Al McAffrey (Democrat SHD-88) is calling upon fellow legislator Sally Kern (Republican-SHD84) to rescind her proclamation and apologize for many discrepancies and misrepresentations of facts. "To blame our economic woes on a national moral crisis is ludicrous. Our economic woes are a direct result of bad financial practices and a lack of regulation on Wall Street." He pointed out that "Mrs.Kern uses her proclamation to accuse President Obama of not recognizing the National Day or Prayer, that is an absolute lie. On May 7~ 2009 President Obama proclaimed a National Day of Prayer and encouraged all Americans to ’come together in moments of great challenge and uncertainty to humble themselves in prayer.’ " McAffrey stated that he found that vwo of the quotes used attributed tO James Madison ai~d Patrick Henry were f-abricated, appearing nowhere in the writings or records of either man. McAffrey pointed out that anyone knmvledgeable of American history would kamw that James Madison and Thomas Jefferson were avid Supporters of religious freedom, and that it was Thomas Jefferson who coined the concept "separation of church and state" traced to a letter he wrote in 1802 to the Danbury Baptists. McA~}ey further stated " It’s pitiable that with all the major challenges facing our great state some of our state leaders are more concerned in mal~ng ne~vs headlines than making strides toward strengthening our economy, improving our public schools, and ensuring that all OHahomans have access to qualig; affordable and sustainable healthcare. She owes Oklahomans of all faiths a sincere apology:" www.rnetrostarnews.corn TULSA, OK__ GLBT sports are already on the minds of many in the community in anticipation of the Gay Games 2010 in Cologne. In Oklahoma, sporting gay men and women have numerous opportunities and it seems many are taking advantage of them. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League’s second annual weekend-long July Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT) attracted some 120 participants from around the region to the tourney, at Andy B Riverlanes and ldcked things offwith a registration party at the Tulsa Eagle on July 17th. . "Most of the people xvere from Oklahoma and Texas, but we also had people from Kansas and Missouri," said Lambda League President Rich Blankenship. "We consider it a big success." Blankenship said that there were 88 participants in last year’s tournament and that it took most of the year to raise the funds necessary to host this year’s. Included in the fundraising was approximately $6,000 for charity. "gC’e really need sponsors for next year since we are growing so much," Blankenship said. The Lambda League’s regular season runs from Labor Day to April, with a 12-Week summer league also available, and the July tournament. As a member of the International Gay Bowling Organization (South Plains Region), the Lambda League schedules its annual national tournament so as to not conflict with other member’s tournaments. IGBO sponsors a national tournament every Memorial Day weekend. "Every city about Tulsa’s size or larger with a league has a tournament," Blankenship said. The success of JOLT would have been unimaginable just a few years ago, when, Blankenship said; the group had dwindled down to around two dozen members. Today there are around 67 members. Some teams rotate players so that more people can play in the Tuesday night league. Already there is a waiting list for next year, although Blankenship said the,,League is, trying to ne gotiate, for,, more. lanes.,, We dont want to be exclusive, he sa~d. We want everyone to get involved to be able to play." Blankenship attributes the growth of the Lambda Leagt,ie to the recruitment efforts of former president and this years JOLT Director, Rick Cox. Other sports oriented community groups are lively around the state also. Oklahoma City supports two bowling teams, the Sunday Twisters and Tuesday Twisters. Oklahoma City and Tulsa support GLBT softballs leagues. Both the Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) and the Oldahoma Gay Rodeo Association (OGRA) are members of the International Gay Rodeo Association (tGRA). The IGRA National Finals in Albuquerque, New Mexico are expected to draw’participation and large spectator support from OHahoma. For more information on the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League, visit w~w<lambdaleague.com. Dale Gross ~ Randy Winrow email: route66malf @ att.net 8.836.3838 METRO P O LITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and Blessed DaV! #~>t~"oSTAR 3 �isolation of people living with HIV and AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations. Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weeldy lunches. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2009 are $20 per person and can be purchased ar Reasor’s, Cain’s Ballroom, Ida Red and Starship Records. others not named at the meeting. Nathan stated that the investigation is still ongoing, and there is a possibility the money or parr of it may be recovered. It was also brought up that according to the bylaws. OKC Pride Board members could not be held liable for this type of loss. Inquiries as to why nobody knew why the cash had not been deposited, or why, the bank account had not had more oversight were not answered. Mr. Thompson did promise that information would be put on the OKC Pride website along with press releases as soon as it was available Guy Peters did suggest that in the future that background checks be obtained for those responsible for OKC Pride money. Male CoChair Paul Thompson had suggested in the By Victor Gorin past that these members be bonded, which would cover losses caused by dishonest acts. Mthough Chris Plante has not been charged with any crime related to this incident at this time. she was removed ftom her Treasurer position for dereliction of duty, the motion to do so made by Scott Jaggers and passed unanimously. Until there is a new Treasurer on duty- the duties of that oi~ce would be handled by the co-chairs, currently Paul Thompson and Latricia Olmstead. The next meeting xvould be August 3, the first Monday of August. During that meeting membership in OKC Pride. which is required to be eligible to vote in the upcoming election ~’or new o~cers and board members, could be begun or renewed. Co-Chairs Paul Thompson and Latricia Ohnstead announced that the7 Tom Guild with well wishingfi’iend Esther will not be seeking re-election, nor will Bahierra. Gorin photo Festival Coordinator T.J Mc~nsey. A press confbrence was held following the meeting attended by the Metro Star, OKLAHOMA CITY; OK__ Dr. Tom Oldahoma Gazette reporter Joe Wertz, Guild, a soon to be professor emeritus at the and Patricia Millel; the treasurer preceding Ms.Plante,Ms. Miller, who resigned in protest University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond, was elected July 14 to be Oklahoma Count~fis at the May" 4 meeting over what she stated Democratic Party Secretary. This was a special were lax and dishonest financial practices election to fill that ot~ce which was vacated of OKC Pride had this to say," They are all with the resignation of the previous oI~ce fteaking out over this, which I can agree, they holder, Rosanne Jenny. A longtime human should be freaked out, but we slid the last ¯ rights activist, Tom was a professor at UCO one about Miles Tompkins* under the rug. I want to make sure this does not get slid under for 27 years, where he taught political science for 10 years and legal studies in the College the rug too. Whoever is responsible for this of Business for 17 years. He registered as should go to prison. My question is, will this aDemocrat 5 years ago, and has since been be treated like the last time?" very active in the part), by hosting the weekly Oklahoma County Democratic Party’s *Referring to a bounced check wdtten Speakers Lunch at the Boulevard Cafeteria, by Miles Tompkim to Lee Burrus for a Gala as well as other party activities. Along with Dinner on beha~%f OKC Pride in 200g. Mr Dr. Joan Luxemburg and Keith Smith, he Bu~us was reimbursed by OKC Pride and co-wrote a chapter in the book ’Hn Oklahoma M~ Tompkim, thru an agreement with OKC I’d Never seen Before: Alternative Views of Pride, made restitution. Oklahoma Histo~ "published in 1994. Their chapter was "Oklahoma’s Gay, Liberation Movement," the first academic publication in this area ever published. Working with the Democratic Party he Bingo like your mother never played... will work to achieve full collective bargaining rights and better wages and conditions for TULSA, OK (PRy __ This annual event Oklahoma’s workers, currently working on and fundraiser for Our House Too will be passage of the Employee Free Choice Act, held Friday, August 7th at Tulsa’s Cain’s Ballroom. Female impersonators will welcome which ,#could make it easier for workers to unionize. He would also work for you aboard the USS DQB cruise ship GLBT rights and human rights in general, for this, the fifth year, beginning at 8p.m. working for passage of the Employment and ending at t 1. There will be glamorous Nondiscrimination Act ( proposed Federal costumes and prizes, a silent auction and, law prohibiting employment discrimination of course, bingo! Female impersonators will against GLBTs) and repeal for the "Don’t ask perform glittering numbers from cruise ship Don’t Tell" policy of the U.S. military. showrooms to entertain the crowd. W AT Gay Man E]ec ed Oklahoma County Democratic Par v Secretary’s O ce Drag een Bingo 2009 Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to elirainate the social 4 those in opposition began shouting "Shame on you!" repeatedly, along with "Love thy neighbor!’while the other side simultaneously began singing God Bless America, and later both sides sang the national anthem. As feelings ran high the event got very loud but stayed peaceful. Ms.Kern did express her view that "The people who preach tolerance are not willing ro extend the same thing to someone who disagrees with them. So ladies and gentlemen, we are seeing a wonderful illustration of intolerance." Among those signing the petition was Paul Blair of Edmond’s Fairview Baptist Church, who also spoke at the rally. In spite of the mention of divorce as being part of our moral decline, it was likewise signed by former State Representative Kevin Calvey, a conservative Christian who is divorced. It was also signed by Oklahoma City Councilman J. Brian Waiters ( Ward 5), the lone OKC City Council member who voted against a parade permit for the OKC Pride Parade. The constitutionality of the event was questionable. As activist attorney Brittany Novomy pointed out, "They used Capitol grounds for this and that is an advancement of a particular religious agenda that is not necessarily representative of al! the other religions or even al! the branches of Christianity in Oklahoma. q£he LGBT caucus of the Young Democrats canae out to stand side by side with the ACLU to uphold the Oklahoma Constitution (Article 2 Section 5) that clearly prohibits the use of public property towards any sect, denomination or system of religion." . Brittany also gave, her angle about the proclamation as well. q-his proclamation suggests that the problems of our society are bdfig caused somehow by GLBT people. Frankly as a Young Democrat I believe most of ourproblems are being caused by economic problems, people not able to have healthcare for their kids or themselves, people filing bankruptcy because they lack healthcare coverage. There are a host of prob!ems facing every day Oldahomans, and I dont believe demonizing a whole subset of Oklahomans really accomplishes the goals of real working Oldahomans who want to be able to feed their families, have good healthcare, who just want the opportunity to live their lives in peace, and who believe in loving their neighbor." C.S. Thornton of the ACLU lamented, "She ( Representative Kern) blames all these things upon a great moral crisis, yet nowhere does she mention greedy V&ll Street executives or government regulators who were asleep at the switch. The most alarming thing about this proclamation is the level of scapegoating that it promotes." However, the Republican speaker of the House, Chris Benge, does not plan to sign the document, and State Representative Ryan Keisel, a Democrat called the proclamation a "divisive political stunt." State Representative A1 McAffrey, the only openly gay member of the legislature ( Democrat-District 88) has asked for an apology. There were otl-mrs that disagreed with Ms. Kern as well. The Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards, associate pastor of the Church of the Open Arms UCC stated that she felt Sally Kern was "one of the most hateful and divisive persons in America. The right thing is to respect people regardless of who they choose to love. Homophobia is wrong, it’s unGodlike." 300 ATTEND ENID’S FIRST PRIDE CELEBRATION By Nate Bowen Enid held their first Pride event Saturday July 18, which was a fabtdous picnic & festival at Meadowlake Park. Drawing over 300 people, the number in attendance set a record for aW Oklahoma first time Pride event. Starting offwith the Reverend J.E Wickey of Crosswalk United Church (Enid’s only open and affirming church), he spoke about being gay and Christian followed by a Q&A session. The band Blackwings gave a great performance, followed by Stephen Dillard-Carroll. This was followed by an OKC speaker and activist from the Young Democrats, Brittany Novotny. Around 6:30 p.ra. the crowd was treated to a drag show starring Raven Angel, Nikki Star and Colby Richards. Booths and vendors at the park ranged from Fulton’s BBQ to the Garfield County Democrats. ......... Continued see ENID PRIDE page 6 August 2009 �HoOoPoEo to Host 8th A ual DIVAS Benefit Concert for people to learn their HIV status and can connect clients to a variety of medical and social support services. For more information about HIV or sexually transmitted infections, call 1-800-535-MDS (2437). Openarms 4th Annual Fashion Show By Judy Gabbard "First l ursday" Art Opening and ey ibit with Creations from Local Artist - Nicholas K. Clark TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Sept. !2-13, 2009, Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.E E.) will host DWAS 2009. at the Tulsa Zoo. This year’s theme is DIVAS Gone \.gild. Proceeds from the event will help support H.O.EE. programs, such as prevention education about HIV/AIDS, hepatitis and other sexually transmitted infections, the only statewide 24-hour HIV/STD resource hotline, and the only free, anonymous testing and counseling facility in Oklahoma. This year’s concert is produced by Rebecca Ungerman, a popular Tulsa-based performer who has graced numerous venues and events in Tulsa, including the Oklal~oma Centennial Celebration and the Tulsa Perfornaing Art Center SummerStage series. The evening, celebrated in the new H.A. Chapman Event Lodge at the Tulsa Zoo, highlights Tulsds diverse musical talent with local artists covering dassic favorites. ~[hese acts come together for this annual "one time onl~# shm,~ and bring out their collective fans: This year S performei:S ind~id~ Pxeb~c~ ung~rman, Cindy Cain, Christy E. of The Red Alert, Pare Wan Dyke, ~nie Ellicotr. Fiawna Forte, John Sawyer, Darrell Christopher, Kelly Morrison. and Janet Rutland. N~e combined talent includes experience on Broadway, national and international cabaret tours, and !ocal Spot Music Awards. ~II~e evening will also include a live and silenvauction, dancing, hors d’oeuvres, and beverages. The evening gala will take place on Saturday, September 12. 7:30pm and a no frills Sund~y matinee will take.place September ! 3 at 4pro. Tickets may be purchased, beginning August 1, by contacting H.O.RE. a 918-749-TEST (8378). Tickets are $25 and $40 for general admission seats and $100 for individual table seats. A table for ten is available for $1,000. Cabaret table seats include: priority seating, publicity, auction sneak preview, and private reception with the performers which includes complimentary wine and hors d’ oeuvres. The matinee -will include the same show and champagne, with tickets ranging from $15-$50. Emcee for the event will be Mia Fleming from Fox 23. Supporters of DIVAS 2009 include Williams, F & M Bank. The Metro Star and The Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa. Raising awareness of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections remains vitally important. Young people and minorities are disproportionately affected, but HIV does not discriminate. By Imowing your status, you are better able to protect yourself and others. Prevention education and testing are keys to decreasing the stigma and infection rate of HIV. H.O.EE. provides a comfortable place www.metrostarnews.com TULSA, OK (PR) __ Continuing the monthly showcase of local artists at the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) will feature Tulsa Artist Nicholas K. Clark with an opening show and reception on Thursday, August 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month of August. Nicholas’ work is a direct reflection of his optimistic personality. From vivid oranges to metallic silvers highlighted by passionate reds, his art displays a mastery of color that cannot be taught. His mediums vary from acrylics to oils and focus on creating depth through layering and application of rich texture. Nic’s ~vorks fall into three categories: contemporary figure studies, pop art and expressionistic co!or studies. "I pull nay inspiration from fashion and music and I love working with figures because they are al~vays so challenging - the detail of a hand. the curves of a body and the. capturing of natural movement and expresslolt. 7~rn GilA.an Former Channd 23 Reporter Marianly Mendez and Miss OYP 2009: Alizay Kardashian Judy G. photo TULSA, OK Openarms Youth Project Center, located at 2015 Sm,th Lakewood Ave., Tulsa, OK, presented their 4th Annual fashion show fund raiser on July 10 and was a great success. Organizers Tim Gillean and Jerrid Horton reported that the proceeds will help continue the support of local GLBT youth of Tulsa and surrounding area. The nights title was ReFashionista. Sports and formal wear were purchased and redesigned for a splendid runway show. The evenings host, xvas Kristin Dickerson from KTUL, channel 8. Area talent added spice to the evening along with tasty hors d’oeuvres, wine and soft drinks. "Ihe silent auction ~vas an exciting array of items that were purchased by those in attendance. Funds are still needed to support the youth needs at Openarms. An), donation is appreciated. For more infbrmation call 918.838.7104. ~®t~’oSTAR 5 �France that we visited. These are affordable finds and the wines are in Oklahoma. Brief history of the grapes grown in these regions grmvn. The majority" of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Rhone wine region, the grape is often blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. OKC Pride 2009: You be the change By Robin Dorner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The end of June brought proud celebration to Oklahoma City with the annual gay pride event. dark color and robust tannins. Long year’s event was a huge success with more Red Bicyclette Syrah/Granche Rose ’07 known as one of the six grapes allowed (Languedoc) than ! 5,000 people attending the festivities. in the blend of red Bordeaux wine, the The party began on Friday evening at the Black Beret Grenache/Syrah Rouge ’05 French plantations~ofMalbec are now NW 39th Street Strip near Penn with the (Languedoc) found primarily in Cahors where the first annual "Friday Night Block Part’);’. Coussergues Viognier ’08 (Languedoc) Appellation Control4e regulations for The festival began Saturday morning and Beauv~gnac Sauv, gnon Blanc 08 C~hors require a minimtiin content of continued through Sunday, the parade began (Languedoc) 70% It is increasin ly ~elebrated as an around 5 pm. Chateau Trocard Montrepos Merlot ’06 Argentine varietal wine and is being This year the OKC Pride Grand Marshal (Bordeaux) gr~vn around the world. was attthor and TV personality Ruby Ann Jean-Luc Colombo L~s Abeilles Cotes The northern part of the Rh6ne Boxcar. "I just love being with my friends du Rhone Blanc ’07/Viognier & Grenache Valley; in France, remains one of the in Oklahoma City," Boxcar told the Metro Blanc undisputed reference points for the Star. "Anywhere there is a trailer park I feel OdUction of wines made with the Clos la Coutale Malbec (Cahors) ’06 like I’ve got family!" Boxcar is known as the ah grape. ~-he best examples of At Jeanne Ma6e ~ Champs Diva of the Double-Wide, a highly successful And as always, I say go to your favorite wine varietal Syrah, are the ones produced with entertainer and author who got her start in shop, ask questions and purcha~se a bottle or the appellations Hermitage, C6te-R6tie, Oklahoma City and is recognized in the US French connection t~vo. Share some food & wine with friends Comas, St-Joseph and Crozes-Hermitage. and abroad. ~ sampled wines 3~om all over the world. and check this out for yourself¯ \Vgines produced in these areas have strong Guests from across the city and state fruit aromas, a good acidity, dry body and an came to join in the festivities in Midtown I’m in this photo with nay partner appreciable mineral taste. Oklahoma City. "I am here because I am Lamont. For my birthday present, he bisexual, proud and I like the scene," said sent for me to join him in France where Grenache is the dominant variety in 18 year old Ruth Leila Blailock. "It’s a he was a visiting professor in Marseille at most Southern Rh6ne wines, especially in celebration of diversity really." the University of Provence¯ ! was really Chfiteauneuf-du-Pape where it is typically "We are here today because we are This writer is one of the managers at the Grand impressed with the wines of Provence, Cotes over 80% of the blend. It is generally spicy, members of the Diversity Business Vin wine shop at Utica Square. He also bar tends berry-flavoured and soft on the palate. In du Rhone. Languedoc and Bordeauex. Association (DBA)," said Shawn Adkison, and hosts wine & food events around town known The trip took on a different focus when Australia it is typically blended in "GSM" as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. JD of the Fortune Law Center in Midtown. we traveled to Bordeaux for VinExpo, the " blends with Syrah and Mourv~dre. Grenache Adkison and his firm have been members of international wine tasting event. We’re in is also used .to make ros~ wines in France and DBA, the Oklahoma City LGBT business this photo with long time wine colleague organization, for more than three years. "We Gary Vance who caught a £1st train from think it is important ~o ne~ork together; Paris to meet up with us. This was a huge 5 www.Foodand~Hne.com promote our business organizations as ~vell day/40 thousand people wine tasting event Viognier [vee-oh-nay] wines are well-known ww~:~ikioedia.or~ as diversity in general," adds Adkison. "It is www.2he~’VorldI4q~eI~ne.com with hundreds of wine makers & marketing for their floral aromas, due to terpenes, which a good thing to show our support for DBA, ww~:Epicurious.com are also found in Muscat and Riesling wines. reps. ~aere was just no way to meet all Oklahoma and the U.S. You know, these the wine raakers and taste as much as we There are also many other powerful flower kinds of events are not permitted in every wanted.In this article, I’m highlighting some and fruit aromas which can be perceived in country." these wines depending on where they were of the grape varietals from the parts of The mission of OKC Pride, Inc. is to stage a highly visible forum for the TULSA BALLET TO organizations which serve the community PERFORM IN NEW YORK both nationally, regionally, and locally; CITY decrease external homophobia by generating future goals of Enid’s GLBTQA community, Atxendees included not just the GLBT maximum media coverage to the reality but most of the discussion centered on community, but fiunilies as well coming to Oklal~oma Governor Brad Henry and Tulsa Mayor of our community; and diminish internal how great the Enid Pride Festival was and enjoy the fun and fellowship. The following Kathy Taylor will attend Tulsa Ballet’s debut at the homophobia by presenting organizational the fun they had. That evening Crosswalk Sunday there was a forum held to discuss the Joyce Theater August 10 - 15. Special Big Apple and individual role models. Additionally, the United Church Preview Night in Tulsa on August 6 at Studio K Board of Directors believe that as a civil rights hosted a showing movement, gays and lesbians need an annual of "Prayers TULSA, OK (PR) It has been 25 years forum where individually and collectively for Bobby", a since the Tulsa Ballet has performed in New they can consider where they have been, landmark film York City. This summer the company will make its long awaited return to the Big Apple where they are now and what direction they portraying for its debut at the Joyce Theater August 10 the true story need to set. -15. of a mother Several large corporations p,,articipated Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, Governor Brad in the festival and the parade. I think it is who could not Henry and First Lady Kim Henry are among just important that we embrace people with accept her sods local and national dignitaries who will attend different backgrounds and, quite frankly, it homosexuality, the opening night performance and Patron helps our company," said Wesley Seymour who became an Gala on Monday, August 10 at the Joyce frown the Frito-Lay company. "We have a activist for gay Theater, located in the heart of Manhattads philosophy; bring your whole self to work rights following Chelsea neighborhood. Tulsa Ballet will and that is one reason I like working for his suicide. give seven performances with special events Fnto-Lay; Seymour has worked for the General consensus planned throughout the week fbr patrons and company as a District Sales Manager for three supporters of Tulsa Ballet. was that the event years. The company will present a program. was not just a National and local companies supt~orted featuring Elite Syncopations by Kenneth historic first, the event as corporate sponsors as well as MacMillan, Por vos Muero by Nacho Duato but a wonderful many local sponsors. There were also several and This is Your Life by Young Soon Hue. occasion to be local churches represented, bike riding This is Your Life was commissioned by Tulsa clubs, entertainers, The Oklahoma City celebrated every Ballet in 2008 and has since been performed Peace House and much more. For more year from now by the Aalto Theater in Essen, Germany and &affVohmteets Top Row Ka~e, John, Jesse, Brandon DJ Star, TJ, Kathy, information about Pride OKC, contact www. on. the National Ballet of Ankara, Turkey. Angd A4ishalle, Bmndon "Kool Aid’; bottom row Jamie Lisa Nate okcpride.org. Malbec grapes tend to have an inky Mr. D’s 1/2 case ~;r .... Continued see BALLET page 22 August2009 6 �www, metrostarnews.com 7 �Wockner News Service Fort Worth beating victim, Chad Gibson goes home not lip service. I will meet with you wherever you want to meet. I will go to your restaurants, your house, we can eat barbecue, whatever you want to do. But ~ve’ve got to talk." Gibson, for his part, wants the raiding officers to be,~rosecuted and the city to halt its "cover-up. "You used excessive force and that’s why I got hurt," Gibson told \~rFAA-TV. "~ey have blamed it on me, that I was drunk, (that) I fell and hit my head, I groped the officer, I did this, I did that. You know ,vhat? No. Accept responsibility." In an interview with KTVT Gibson added: "I was rubbed into the concrete .... I’m just appalled that they took it to the level that they did .... They need to accept responsibility for what they did." Fort Worth police and agents fi’om the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission raided a gay bar June 28 -- the 40th anniversary ofthe Stonewall Riots -- and roughed up several patrons, inckding Chad Gibson, who now has a life-threatening blood clot on his brain. Gibson wants the officers m be prose~ted. Photo WFAA-TVscreen capmre Chad Gibson has been released from the hospital but still is in danger from a blood clot on his brain that reportedly could break loose and kill him. Gibson allegedly was beat up by cops during a June 28 raid of the Rainbow Lounge in Fort Worth, Tex; Wimesses say officers stami:ned his head into a ~vall, then into the floor. ~¢¢o Other patrons ~dso were injured in the raid -- one has broken ribs and one has a broken thumb. June 28 was the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots that kickstarted the modern gay-rights movement. ¯ne violent raid -- purported to be merely one of the state’s routine checks of bars to be sure no one is too drunk -- brought heaW condemnation from gay leaders, newspaper columnists, bloggers, politicians and others. It also received extensive national news coverage. . Both the Fort Worth Police Department and the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission, which joined in the raid, have launched interna! investigations of the incident. The results of the city police’s investigation will be reviewed by federal authorities, Mayor Mike Moncrief has promised. Apart from the raid itselfl the most controvers!al aspect Of the incident has been Police Chief Jeff Halstead’s assertions that Gibson groped one of the officers and that other patrons made what the Police Department called "sexually explicit movements" toward uniformed officers -claims that bar patrons and gay leaders have called preposterous and "lies." "You’re touched and advanced in certain ways by people inside the bar, that’s offensive," Ha!stead said shortly after the raid. "I’m happy with the restraint used when they were contacted like that." After facing ridicule for those improbable assertions, Halstead has since adopted a more conciliatory tone, telling gay people at a public meeting: "We’ve got to work together. Be patient, and you wil! see that this is just 8 Obama invites 300 GLBT leaders to White House for Stonewa 140 President Barack Obama -- under heavy fire for talking the talk but not walking the walk on numerous gay-rights promises -- had 300 GLBT leaders over to the White House on June 29 to celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Stonevcall Riots, which, in 1969, jumpstarted the modern gay-rights movement. "I know that many in this room don’t believe that progress has come fast enough, and I understand that," Obama said. "It’s not for me to tell you to be patient, any more than it was for othem to counsel patience to African Americans who were petitioning for equal rights a half-c~ntury ago. But I say this: We have made progress and we will make more. And I want you to know that I expect and hope to be judged not by words, not by promises I’ve made, but by the promises that nay administration keeps." Obama also defended his decision not to issue an order stopping the military’s expulsions of openly gay members, suggesting, again, that such an approach wouldu’t work out in the long run. "As commander in chief in a time of war, I do have a responsibility to see that this change is adnainistered in a practical way and a way that takes over the long term," he said. "That’s why I’ve asked the secretary of defense and the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staffto develop a plan for how to thoroughly implement a repeal. I know that every day that passes without a resolution is a deep disappointment to those men and women who continue to be discharged under this policy -- patriots who often possess critical language skills and years of training and who’ve served this country well. But what I hope is that these cases underscore the urgency of reversing this policy not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because it is essential for our national security." August 2009 �77 members o£ Congress ask Obama to suspend As national gay leaders continue to beat up on President Barack Obama for moving too slowly- on his myriad campaign promises to tile GLBT community, 77 members of Congress have written to the president asldng him ro immediately suspend en[brcement of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy pending its repe,,a~! by Congress. Tile letter outlines a new, two-step repeal plan which begins with a request that the president ’direct the Armed Services nor to initiate any invesrigarion of service personnel to determine their sexual orientation, and that [he] instruct them to disregard thirdparty accusations that do not allege violations of the Uniform Code of Military Justice,’" said the Palm Center, a think tank at the University of California, Santa Barbara, that has focused extensively on the militaw’s ban on open gays. ~°The letter signals renewed efforts to stop gay discharges immediately while repeal legislation moves through Congress at a slower pace," the center said. On June 23, Obama rejected the proposal. The White House said: "President Obama remains committed to a legislative repeal of Don’t Ask, Dofft Tel!, xvhich he believes will provide a durable and lasting solution to this issue. He welcomes the commitment of these members to seeing Congress take action." Episcopal Church OKs gay- clergy, bishops 7he Anglican Communion has been deeply mired in gay angst since the Episcopal Diocese oflVew Hampshire consecrated openly gay and partnered V. Gene Robinson as its bishop in 2003. GLAAD photo The Episcopal Church’s House of Bishops and House of Deputies declared in mid-July that open gays and lesbians --celibate or not -- call serve as priests and bishops in the church. At thee church’s triennial general convention, held in Ana~heim, Calif., July 8-17, bishops voted for the policy 99-45 and deputies voted for it 155-40. Deputies who are clergy voted 77-19 and lay deputies voted 78-21. The move may well lead to a full rupture between the Episcopal Church and the worldwide Anglican Communion, which has been deeply mired in gay angst since the Episcopal Diocese of New Hampshire ~wcvv.metrostarnews.com V. Gene Robinson as its bishop in 2003. Tile Episcopal Church is the U.S. branch of Anglicanism. "The Anaheim move was seen as. in essence, a flip-off by the Americans of the Anglican hierarchy and Anglican provinces in Africa and South America that strongly opposed Robinson’s consecration. De facto international Anglican leader Rowan Williams, archbishop of Canterbury, England, had urged delegates, to the U.S. convention not to make any decisions in the co,~ing days that could push us further apart. He later said he regretted that the convention had done just that with its gayclergy decision. Delegates also voted to allow local dioceses to bless same-sex marriages and civil unions if they want to, and launched a project m creare official liturgies for the blessings. Gay Pordand mayor cleared in Breedlove affair There is no credible evidence that Sam Adams, the gay mayor of Portland, Ore., had inappropriate sexual contact with Beau Breedlove before Breedlove turned 18, Oregon Attorney General John Kroger said June 22. Adams, 45, and Breedlove, 22, have acknowledged having sex in 2005 after Breedlove’s 18th birthday, but Breedlove also had claimed the pair passionately made our prior to his reaching file age of consent, which Adams denied. "There are serious questions about the credibility of Breedlove’s account, dueto his prior inconsistent statements, the lack of corroborating witnesses or evidence, his attempt to gain personally from matters related to his involvement with Adams and his prior criminal record," Kroger concluded. "There is insufficient evidence to charge, let alone convict, Adams with illegal sexual contact with a minor." The attorney general’s office interviewed 57 people and sifted through Adams’ and Breedlove’s e-mails and text messages in arriving at its conclusion. Breedlove later posed for the gay porn magazine Unzippea~ In 2006, he pleaded guilty to felony 2nd degree theft in a case that involved $750 worth of clothes ftom a Macy’s store in Haxvaii. The revelation of the brief affair nearly ended Adams’ career earlier this year, in part because he had lied about it when asked about it during the mayoral campaign, stating that it never happened. Summer Diversi y ’09 Eureka Springs. Augus 7-9 ~ DOMESTICATE Say "I DO" and register your love with a Domestic Partner Certificate One day these certificates will be highly sought after collector items on E-bay. Tile Courthouse is closed Saturday and Sunday...City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carrol Count), Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 AM - 12 Noon and 1:30 to 4:40 PM. ® YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES Money Tight? Pennies on the dollar: Tile Eureka yards sales are a top stop for the bargain hunter and antique queens. Tile 15~n annual Eureka Yards and Yards of Yard Sales. Friday and Saturday 7:00 AM to 3:00 PM. Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. ~ HEY GIRLS... LET’S iVlAKE HERSHEY’S CHOCOLATE SMORES! THEN GO SNIPE HUNTING! Camping for Summer Diversity has become an annual event for many. Stay dose to title City and book your weekend with the gay friendly Kettle Campground. (479) 2539100, 4119 E. Van Buren. ° DIVA SHOP! Over 150 unique shops and galleries. Be sure and shop the Sponsors of Eureka Pride--aBens Door, Mountain Eclectic, Fusion Squared, Byrds Eye View, Antique Affaire, Tile Tourist Shop, the Inn Convenience Store, Eureka Scents. A very and Special DW DISCOUNT from Tinmaker & Glitz, 69 S. Main. ~ MIX & MINGLE The Pizza Sluts are hosting their second Diversity Welcome Mixer. The Pizza Bar, 13 N. Main, Friday, 6-8 PM. $5.95 pizza buffet. Beer specials. All ages admitted. Come feel the ~varmth...feel, touch, hug, squeeze, grope, claw, whip...Mix and mingle with the locals and visitors from around the globe. Free City p~arking after 6 PM. ERIC HIMAN DISCOVERS EUREKA Henri’s Just One More. 19 1A Spring Street. Friday Night Only! 9 PM. Eric goes solo with his first Eureka acoustical performance. ® CHER SOME TIKI LOVE ~e always popular Glam-aphonic, E lectronic, Disco Babee, Tiki Torch Dance Party! 75 S. Main Street. Homo to the exotic, diverse crowd of celebrities, beauties, rock stars, dance divas, and some good ole fashioned Str8t Bait! Cher and Cher Alike to perform LIVE on Saturday. Shmv times will be posted. o SPEED DIAL YOUR GAY SPIRITS ~Exrot Speed reads with Mistress Lynne. Yes, speed readings --Lynne will do a 10 card reading for 10 buclcs. Just takes a few minutes as opposed to the full deck 30 minute reading. Lynne uses Gay, and Lesbian ~Tarot cards for amazing GAY readings. DaBen’s Door, 45 1/2 Spring Street, across from Jack’s Place. ~ NEW DELHI Friday & Saturday live music 6:30 9:30 PM. 2 North Main. Al! ages are welcome at the New Delhi. Atmosphere aplenty. If you never dined at the New Delhi, you really should. ~ START YOUR ENGINES: SUMMER DRAG RACES Eureka Live’s Duck Tape Divas will host Drag Racing Friday & Saturday 9PM. Special Guest performer Drag King Billy Badass and the Amazing Magic of the Tinman. 34 North Main, Underground FATZ 59 CLASSIC ROCK AT JACK’S PLACE 37 Spring Street, Friday and Saturday, 9 PM Midnight. High Octane Jell-O-Shots for a Buck!!!Legendary ’HANDSOME LEE’ On The Door. It’s all happenin’ between Center and Spring. o HARDWARE AT THE YARD Lumberyard, 105 East Van Buren, The Yard has yet to disclose what they have in store. Whatever it is, they always find some way to celebrate!! EXORCISE THE HANGOVER DEMONS You want crazy? We’ll give ya crazy! A Diversity Breakfast you will never forget. Play" Name That Tung’ With Sandy at the Smokehouse Cafd, 580 West Van Buren, Saturday & Sunday, 8:30 A.M tol l:30ish, biscuits as big as your head. WIN Fabulous Prizes. Highly Recomended. o RAMPANT STREET SEX! Not really: Just some amusement for the tourist and to annoy the fundies. The Summer Diversity Public Display Of Affection Photo Shoot..12 noon, Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. Eureka Pride has treats to pass out for the first to come, first to get. Park Music Stylings, ! 2 - 2 PM Jones Van Jones, 2-4 PM 2 - 4 Cletus Got Shot, 4-6PM 4 - 6 The HillBenders. OPEN ARMS SPIRITUALITY Saturday.Discussion on the spiritual path of the Sufis with Sufi Master: Don Kitz at Eureka Springs Library Annex 2 - 4 PM Sunday Discussion on the spiritual path of Wicca with Wiccan Priest: Tymythy Aieran at Eureka Springs Library Annex 1 - 3PM ...... Continued See EUREY,~k Page-20 MORTUARY SERVICE, =¢ #~®t~°oSTAR 9 �N Wockner News Service gay sex ban struck down 17% of GLBTs decriminalized Following an @t-year court battle, India’s Delhi High Court legalized gay sex tidy 2 in a forcefid and poetic ruling that had GLBT activists ~ying in the courtroom. Marchers protested the sodomy ban at last year’s Delhi gay pride parade. Wockner News photo by Sonali Gulati Following an eight-year court battle, India’s Delhi High Court legalized gay sex July 2 in a forceful and poetic ruling that had GLBT activists crying in the courtroom. The ruling took effect immediately -nationally -- and will remain in effect unless the Supreme Court reverses it. Several major Western media outlets erroneously reported July 2 that the ruling only applied in New Delhi. The court decision "read dowff’ Section 377 of the Indian Pena! Code so that it no longer applies to the activities of consenting adults. The section bans "carnal intercourse against the order of nature ,vith any man, woman or animal" under penalty of 10 years to life in prison. The court smashed 377’s application to gay people in myriad ways, finding it violated a constitutional guarantee of equality under the law, a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sex, and constitutional promises of personal liberty and protection of life. The ruling is chock-full of soaring statements in support of India’s GLBT population, including: * "The critninalisation of homosexuality condemns in perpetuity a sizable section of society and forces them to live their lives in {he shadow of harassment, exploitation, humiliation, cruel and degrading treatment at the hands of the law enforcement machinery. ... Section 377 IPC grossly violates their right to privacy and liberty embodied in Article 21 insofar as it criminalises consensual sexual acts between adults in private." * "Section 377 IPC targets the homosexual community as a class and is motivated by an animus towards this vulnerable class of people .... It has no other purpose than to criminalise conduct which fails to conform vdth the moral or religious views of a section of society. Tile discrimination severely affects the rights and interests of homosexuals and deeply impairs their dignity." 10 ~>{~’oSTAR * "When everything associated with homosexuality is treated as bent, queer, repugnant, the whole gay and lesbian community is marked with deviance and perversity.... The result is that a significant group of the population is, because of its sexual non-conformity, persecuted, marginalised and turned in on itself." * "We hold that sexual orientation is a ground analogous to sex and that discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is not permitted by Article 15 .... A provision of law branding one section of people as criminal based wholly on the State’s moral disapproval of that class goes counter to the equality guaranteed under Articles 14 and 15 under any standard of review." .... [R]ight to personal liberty’ and ’right to equality’ are fundamental human rights. which belong to individuals simply by virtue of their humanity: ... A Bill of Rights does not ’confer’ fundamental human rights. It confirms their existence and accords them protection." "~ "Indian Constitutional laxv does not permit the statutory criminal law to be held captive by the popular misconceptions of who the LGBTs are. It cannot be forgotten that discrimination is antithesis of equality and that it is the recognition of equality which will foster the dignity of every individual .... We declare that Section 377 IPC, insofar it criminalises consensual sexual acts of adults in private, is violative of Articles 21, 14 and t5 of the Constitution." What happens next? The national government could appeal the ruling to India’s Supreme Court, though that is considered unlikely; the national government could both accept the ruling and use it as ammo to introduce a bill in Parliament to duplicate the ruling in national law; and/or anti-gay parties to the lawsuit could appeal to the Supreme Court. But until such time as the Supreme Court overturns the Delhi ruling, India’s GLBTs -- who comprise more than 17 percent of all GLBT people on the planet -- are no longer criminals. India has a population of nearly 1.2 billion people. The erroneous reports that the ruling did not apply outside of New Delhi appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, on the Associated Press ~vire and elsewhere. (For correct information, see bit.ly/WeX,vO and bit. ly/7su4o.) "Every major media outlet in the ~vorld got this wrong because they don’t understand how the Indian courts work," said journalist Vikram Doctor of India’s Queer Media Collective. "It will apply nationally until somebody challenges that at the Supreme Court, which is where this case is going to end up anyway." In most common-law court systems, including India’s in this case, the decision of an appellate court binds lower courts within its territorial iurisdiction and also is the ’last’ word on the subject nationally unless a court of equa! authority elsewhere makes a contrary decision or the supreme court reverses the decision. An appellate decision also binds the parties in the case (which include the Indian government in this case) r~gardless of where they are in the country. Meanwhile, gay pride parades were staged in four Indian cities June 27-28 -- New Delhi, Bangalore, Chennai and Bhubaneshwar. At least 2,000 people marched in New Delhi. Marches are still to come in Mumbai and Kolkata. 300 march in Sofia Around 300 people marched in the second gay pride parade in Sofia, Bulgaria, on June 27, twice as many as last year. Police and private security officers, hired by pride organizers, protected the marchers to prevent a recurrence of last year’s violence, when sldnheads and right-wing extremists attacked the parade with bottles, rocks, eggs, firecrackers, smoke bombs and Molotov cocktails, resulting in 80 arrests. This ),ear’s march, which traveled from the National Palace of Culture~to the Red House debate club, encountered nothing more serious than some booing. Organizers called for a law to bail anti-gay discrimination in employment. Liza does Paris Pride Singer and gay icon Liza Minnelli danced on a float in Paris’gay pride parade flme 2Z To her left.: Gay Paris Mayor Bertrand DelanM. Photo by Nikolai Alekseev Singer and gay icon Liza Minnelli danced on a float in Paris’ gay pride parade June 27. Minnelli is the daughter of gay icon Judy Garland, whose death five days before the Stonewall Riots 40 years ago is thought to have contributed to the foul mood of the gays who decided to fight back against the police raid of the Stonewall Inn. "Freedom," Minnelli shouted from the float. About 700,000 people took part in the festivities. "We knew that she (Minnelli) had a concert this evening in Paris but when her agent told us that she could come, we thought it was a joke," Pride spokesman Philippe Castel mid Agence France-Presse. Berlin also held Pride on June 27. About 550,000 people turned out, reports said. Gay pride goes well in Jerusalem, for a change About 2,000 people marched in Jerusalem’s gay pride parade June 25 without incident, but for one tossed egg. Previous years’ marches have been met with violent protests, stabbings and the arrest of a man carrying a bomb. Police protection was reduced this year, to a mere 1,600 officers. No matter who you are o are on life’s journey, -Re~ere~d Dr. K~hy 3131 hi. Pennsylvania, Oklaho 405.525.9555 August 2009 �New group forms to help gay refugees Saudis arrest 67 cross- A new organization in San Francisco aims to help GLBT refugees ~vho are fleeing sexual or gender-based violence in their native lands. Only through raising consdousness of LGBT refugee issues to governments, refugee organizations, communities and the media, will help come to these individuals, who are among the most persecuted people in the world today," the Organization for Refuge, Asylum & Migration said in a statement. The group provides free legal counsel for GLBT refugees who have escaped their home countries, and it will conduct ’\videranging international advocacy to advance the protection of all LGBT refugees and asylum seekers." "LGBT refugees often fall through the cracks of the international refugee regime," said Executive Director Neil Grungras. "They have escaped systematic hatred and violence at home, and their LGBT identity brings serious new threats to their safety and protection in countries of first asylum. MaW live in a toxic mix of destitution and desperation. "The recent surge in homophobic violence in Iraq has shone a spodight on the painful truths we’re dealing with first-hand in the Middle East. LGBTs are the most persecuted people in many regions of the world today. For every reported execution, there are likely tens of judicially or family-sanctioned murders." In recent months, several Iraqigays have been shot to death by militias and anti-~ay family or tribe members; Some have h~dtheir anuses glued shut by deah squadsi arid there have been allegaions of executions by the government. Reports in April said gay men were being captured and their anuses superglued with something called "American gum," after which they were being forced to ingest a diarrhea-causing substance and sometimes died. Scott Long, director of Human Rights Watch’s LGBT Rights Division, visited Iraq in April and "collected several accounts" of the practice, which reportedly can be seen in mobile-phone videos that have been passed around inside the country. Massive abuses are taking ~lace ~ Baghdad, and apparently in other cities in the center and south," Long said. "XWe may never know the full sweep and scope of the killings so far, amid a pervasive insecurity that brutalizes innumerable people and devastates multiple communities, but we ate ,d°ing everything we,.,.can to,, determine and ctocument accountability. Police arrested 67 mostly Filipino men for wearing women’s clothing June 13 in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. The roundup took place at a private residence during a Philippines Independence Day party. The men were charged with imitating women and possessing alcohol. Similar arrests in the past have led to imprisonment and floggings. "If the police in Saudi Arabia can arrest people simply because they don’t like their clothes, no one is safe," said Human Rights Watch researcher Rasha Moumneh. "Arresting and charging people simply because the police decide that their appearance is unacceptable strikes at the heart of human freedom." Poles hate same-sex Seventy-five percent of Poles oppose legalization of same-sex marriage and 87 percent say gay couples shouldn’t be allowed {o adopt chi]’dren, a Gt~ Polonia poll has found. ~e poll is the latest example of the wide gulf on _~ay acceptance that separates Western Europe ~rom the European nations that used to be part of the Communist bloc. Same-sex marriage is legal in Europe in Belgium, the Netherlands, Norway, Spain and Sweden -- and most other Western European nations have civil-union laws for gay couples. www.metrostarnews.com I million & prime minister’s wife at London Pride dressers Ukraine bans Briino Sacha Baron Cohen’s new gay flick Br~ino has been banned in Ukraine for alleged immorality, obscenity and impropriety. The Culture Ministry said it was displeased with the movie’s "artistically unjustified" gay-sex scenes, obscene language, nudity, graphic homosexuality, sadisra and anti-soc.ial behavior. In the U.S., the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation also has dissed the film. "The filmmakers wanted to use satire to highlight and challenge homophobia," said GLAM) President Jarrett Barrios. "But their film also reinforces troubling attitudes about gay people in ways that run counter to the intentions ofthe filmmal~ers. "The movie repeatedly builds entire scenes around stock stereotypes and situations that make gay people and families the butt of crude jokes. I can’t help but think of all the teenage kids already getting bullied, beat up and ridiculed for being -- or for being thought to be -- gay. For these kids, this movie will give their tormentors one more word in the anti-gay lexicon of slurs: Br~no." Some gay bloggers and Facebook users who have seen the film say GLAAD is humorless and needs to find its funnybone -- a charge the group occasionally has encountered before. Group says GLBT activists targeted after Honduran coup ~he International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission on July 17 condemned "the recent murder and arbitrary arrests of... LGBT activists in Honduras." "IGLHRC has learned that these human rights abuses have occurred as a direct result of the military coup on June 28 ... which ousted that country’s democratically elected government," the group said. A transgender activist xvas shot dead June 29 a block from the gay community center in the city of San Pedro Sula, IGLHRC said. "Local activists in Honduras claim she was killed by military police patrolling the streets," the organization reported. Five other GLBT activists -- Hdctor Licona, Donny Reyes, Patrick Pav6n, Claudia ...... Continued see HONDURAS page 20 One million people, including Sarah Brown, wife of Prime Mimster Gordon Brown, took part m Londons gay pride pamde July 4. ScotsGay ph~to One million people and Sarah Brown, xvife of Prime Minister Gordon BroWn, took part in Londoffs gay pride parade Jnly 4. Mrs. Brown carried a red, white and pink Union Jack flag. Members of the military marched in uniform, as did firefighters and a contingent from British Airways. Prior to the march, Mr. Brown met with organizers at his residence and said theUnited Kingdom has made "massive strides" in the march toward gay equality. Marriage is almost the last thing on the agenda for British GLBTs. An existing civilpartnership law grants registered same-sex couples all the rights of marriage. Noted gay activist Peter Tatchell carried a sign in the parade that read: "Gordon & Sarah can marry, gays can’t. End the ban on gay marriage." He wore a T-shirt that said "Homo Libertd, Egatitd, Sexualit&" 1 million at Madrid Pride, 35,000 at Barcelona Pride About 35,000 people marched in Barcelona’s first large-scale gay pride parade June 28. Photo by Yves Bohic A million people turned out for Madrid’s gay pride parade July 4. With same-sex marriage already legal and little left to fight for, organizers put forth the theme of greater freedom for GLBT young people in schools. In Barcelona, about 35,000 people marched June 28. It was the city’s first largescale pride parade. The procession began at Plaga de la Universitat and ended at Plaga d’Espanya. ~®t~oSTAR 11 �p t the °°gay" in Christian, 12 ~;~STAR August 2009 �AUGUST H TH 2009 O A M ~ENTER TO WIN BANTA www.metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 13 �14 #~troSTAR August 2009 �We have found Heaven and it is BOOTHBA¥ HARBOR, MAINE by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Photo: From a room with a viw~ Topside Inn On our recent 4 week driving trip to the east coast we visited a lot of cities, towns and villages and had a wonderful time at each of them. All were fun, interesting and exciting to visit however our stay in Boothbay Harbor, Maine was "beyond fabulous"! We first checked into the Topside Inn. It is located on the tallest hill in the city and was a 19th century sea captain’s home. They also have guest cottages to the side of the main house. They have a total of 21 guest rooms. The owners, Brian Lamb and Ed McDermott have mvned the Inn for several years and they certainly know how to do everything PJGHT !!!!! The views of the harbol; ships, seals, birds and the flora and fauna from the Inn are absolutely incredible! ~le view from our room looking out into the harbor was just like a movie set! This truly was Heaven! All guest rooms have their own private in-suite bathrooms, cable TV and dial-out telephone. King, queen, or two beds are available. All rooms include hair dryers, irons and ironing boards. Brealdqast is something that is a "DO NOT MISS". A fabulously scruraptious si~down breal’~ast is served every morning in the breakfast room which overloolcs the bay. It iust doesn’t get any better! We me~ a lot of wonderful gnests from all over the country while staying there. Many guests return time and time again because of the great way that Brian and Ed makes all of their guests feel a~ home. Everything about this Inn is perfect! The owners should open a school for innkeepers on the right w~ay to run an hm. And did we mention the incredible views that we had from our room at the Iun? There’s the sunrise and the famous footbridge over the inner harbor, to the lighthouses, islands, out to sea, aud the western sunset. Their website is: http://www.topsideinn.com/and their toll free phone is 1-888-633-5404 or you can emait them at info@topsideinn.com. Downtown Boothbay is just a couple of blocks down the hill and it is filled ~vith quaint restaurants, galleries, shops and the www.metrostarnews.com the waterfront piers. You can take excursion boat trips ranging from an hour cruise to a full day at sea. Visit the Historical Society in Boothbay Harbor and the Museum in Southport to learn about ice cutting and ship building in days gone by. See the handiwork of local boat yards, which continue the tradition in state-of-the art materials, and keep aliv~ their heritage of world-class boat builders. Watch the lobstermen tend their traps, or put to sea for a close enconnter with a barnacleencrusted whale. Actually, Boothbay Harbor has been around since the 1700’S when it was a fishing village and shipbuilding center. By 1900 over 500 vessels had been built in the region. Tl~e first morning we visited the Botanical Gardens which was a real treat. Check it out at va*av.mainegardens.org. It is New England’s largest botanical garden on 248 waterfront acres with beautiful gardens, waterfront trails, sculpture and much, more. Enjoy collections of roses, native plants, rhododendrons and thousands of other perennials, ornamental trees, shrubs and spring bulbs. It is a ,vonderful walldng tour and you can either take a guided tour on visit it by yourself. They are open 9 to 5 everyday and all year long. No trip to Boothbay Harbor would be complete without taking a Schooner Eastwind cruise. Herb and Doris Smith have built six schooners and have sailed around the world t~vice with their children. They offer a 2 V2 hour cruise in the harbor where you can visit several small islands, birds, seals and other sea life and a lighthouse. They have 3 or 4 cruises everyday. Call 207.633.6598 to make a reservation. This is the finest Schooner cruise that we have ever taken. Herb and Doris really enjoy telling people about their travels and explains everything about the Schooner. This is the only cruise to take! And now, the best of the best when it comes to dining. In our travels from coast to coast we have never had such a fabulous dining experience as we had our last night in -Boothbay Harbor. Ports of Italy is a family owned and operated restaurant. Chef Davide Rossi and his wife Christa are the owners. We used taste buds that we have not used in years! We are NOT talking spaghetti and meatballs here, but a full range of northern Italian cuisine that is mouth-watering tasty. Between courses be sure and try their Intermezzo to cleanse your palette with the fabulously, delicious Lemon Sorbet and Vodka Slush. Just be sure and save room for some of the wonderful desserts. Their website is www.portsofitaly.com. As we said, in all of our travels, this is the finest dining experience that we have ever had! We had a 7 course meal that night and everything that we had was "beyond" fabulous and we know that we will never, ever have a dining experience so grand as this one. That is, until we return to Boothbay Harbor again. Boothbay Harbor is a wonderful place to spend a week or two and just relax, enjoy the sights and sounds of the area. Forget going to the Red Door for a complete rejuvenation of yourself. UCAN, INC TO FOCUS ON HIV/ AIDS PR£VENTION By Victor Gorin Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards of Church of the Open Arms UCC. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK In 2008 UCAN Inc. ( United Church of Christ MDS/HIV Network) was formed under the Health and Wholeness Ministry of the United Church of Christ to establish a program for people of faith to address the issues of HIV/MDS. This will feature a special focus on HIV prevention. Among 8 members of UCAN’s Board of Directors, one is the Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards of UCC’s Church of the Open Arms in Oklahoma City, and another is the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Tulsa’s Community of Hope UCC Church. States Reverend Loyce, " I’m excited about this new ministry because through the United Church of Christ we can work vdth local community partners to develop HIVIMDS programs, including a focus on prevention. \Ve want to do something positive, to expand our territory of ministry to include a specific outreach to those infected and affected by HIV/MDS. " UCAN has applied for a grant from the Federal Center for Disease Control which would be over 2 million dollars, but as of press time it has nor yet been approved. This outreach would bring needed services to people in need wherever UCC churches are located, throughout the United States and abroad. Instead iusr go to Boothbay Harbor, and don’t forget to stay at the wonderful Topside Inn. Owners Brian and Ed are the best of the best. For more information go to ,vww. boothbayharbor.com. Always remember to have fun ,vhen traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! }~®{~’oSTAR 15 ���18, @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa August 2009 �ARE YOU WONDERIN WHEI EVERYONE ItAS BEEN LATELY? Open Every Day 4pro to 2am 836 - 09 q 5 Monda.y Friends and Family @ 6pm Dancers @ 10pm Tuesday $0.50 Draught Beer Night Dancers @ 10pm Wednesday Pool Tournament @ 8pm Dancers @ 10pm Thursday Bin" Bingo with E-Lyra St. James @ 7pm Dancers @ 10pm Friday Dancers @ 10pm Saturday Dancers@ 10pm Sunday Free Pool All Day DanCers Open Every Day at 2pro {9"!8} 437 -0449 Monday Movie Madness - Showtimes 7pm and lOpm Tuesday Drama Lite- All the Gay, Half the Drama Wednesday A Night in Vegas Drag Show @ 10pm Thursday $0.50 Draught Beer Night Friday Cabaret Night @ 8pm Saturday Big Gay Dating Game w/Daphne Rio @ 10pm Sunday Disco Night @ 9pm The Hideaway Tropical Lounge becomes the World’s Smallest Disco ww~v.metrostarnews.com @etroSTAR 19 �By Camper English q-he Mixer Mix-up Much as I love the name, I can’t bring myself to consume what the kids today are calling the Skinny Bitch. This cocktail is usually made with a flavored vodka, Diet Coke. and a squeeze of lime. My issue with the drink doesfft involve the liquor, but with the artificially flavored and sweetened soda. But the Skinny Bitch is not really a drink focused on the Coke: it’s a drink focused on the Diet. Also focusing on the diet is a writer named Teresa Marie Howes, who wrote a whole book on diet drinks this year called Skinnydnis. Most of the recipes in the book cut calories in cocktails by adjusting the amounts of liqueurs and mixers. ,as distilled spirits like gin and vodka all have about the same -~ number of calories per volume. Her drinks call for light or diet iuices and sodas, and flavored water and other mixers ~ ~:~ ~ instead of sugarladen liqueurs in ~_o~ recipes. She makes crab/placements like swapping out the orange liqueur in a Margarita with light orange juice and Sweet ’N Low. One set of mixers that are often mixed tip are soda water and tonic water. They, both have water in the name so you can understand the confusion, but the two are vastly different liquids. Soda water is carbonated water, and mixes well with vodka. (Gin not so much.l Tonic water pairs well with more spirits, and is consumed in different countries with vodka, gin, rum. tequila, and even Port wine. But tonic began as a tonic - a medicine used to prevent and cure malaria. It gets its flavor from the very bitter quinine that was once harvested from the bark of the cinchona tree, niclmamed the "fever tree" as it cured the malarial fever. To make the powdered bark palatable, explorers and soldiers in mosquito-intense countries around the world added sugar to the solution. Later, gin was added and the G&T was born. Hooray for medicine! The important thing to note in that last paragraph is the use of sugar. Its presence (or more commonly, the presence of high fi’ucmse corn syrup) in drinks means it has those calories you’ve been trying to avoid. Many people think they’re sipping a diet drink when they choose tonic water, but 20 really they may as well be swilling cola. Now that I’m a fully functioning cocktail snob, I don’t drink the tonic water, sodas and juices that come out of the cocktail squirter in bars at all. I like fresh juices and mixers without artificial sweeteners - and it turns out these typically have less calories than do the sugared-up cranberry juice and sodas you’ll get in most bars anyway. At home. you can buy high quality mixers with natural and organic sweeteners for your cocktails: Out at the clubs though, you probably won’t have that option, so you can opt for diet soda or soda water as mixers. Or better yet, opt for that sugar-laden Apple-Cosmo-Choco~Tini at the bar. and then spend the night worldng off those calories on the dancefloor. Camper English is a cacktails and spirits writer andImblisher ofAlc~mics.com Census Bureau will count married gay couples as married The U.S Census Bureau said June 19 it will count married gay couples as married in the 2010 census. The prior plan had been to retabulate such couples as "unmarried partners," an existing census-form category, because of the federal ban on recognition of samesex marriages. Gay activists, as part of their recent broadside against President Barack Obama’s inaction on gay issues, had srepped up their criticism of the plan to skew the data. Gay marriage is legal in three states and wil! be legal in five, six or raore by the time of the census. TABC says Texas bar raid was a big mistake By Rex Wockner The head of the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission told the gay newspaper Dallas Voice on July 16 that his officers committed multiple "clear violations" of agency policy when they and local police raided the gay bar Rainbow Lounge in Fort Worth on June 28, the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. The violent raid put patron Chad Gibson in a hospital intensive-care unit with bleeding on his brain. Two other patrons sustained lesser injuries and several patrons were arrested for the crime of having drunk too much. "I don’t think you have to dig very deep to figure out that TABC has violated some of their policies," Alan Steen said. "XTqe know that and I apologize for that .... It’s real dear that however it is that ~ve were doing business that night is not the typical TABC." "You can read (our) policy and you can figure out really quickly, TABC shotfldn’t have even been there," he said. "If our guys would have followed the damn policy, we wouldn’t even have been there .... We don’t participate in those kinds of inspections when there’s not probable cause or reasonable suspicion or some public safety matter to be inspected." * THREE IMPROMPTU POOL PARTEAZE ON TAP FOR SATURDA~ The guests of the TRADEWINDS, home of the "HIDDEN POOL" are welcome to host their own s~vim party. Invite your friends over for an impromptu after dark ........ dip in the pool Reserve your Tradewinds themed room nmv by calling David or Terry (479) 253-9774, request the Summer Diversity Weekend rate. Land O Nod aka:The Pink Palace, POOL PART~. Guests are welcorne to invite their new friends, old friends, and even the Xfriends over for a swim... No glass...Plenty of towels...Pool honrs will be extended until 12 midnight... Toll Free: 1-800-526-3263 Local Phone: (479) 253-6262. Rooms as low as 59.00 a night...mffst request DW rate. Alvin & Charlie are hosting a PRIVATE MEN ONLY POOL PARTY at their private residence. MUST drop by the Byrds Eye View, 36 North Main or Contact EurekaPride Sponsors Alvin & Charlie for an invitation and details. Toll Free: 888 210-8401 ° STRADDLE THIS... For those who enjoy the thrill of wrapping your legs around a tornado of pounding pistons, THE DIVERITY BIKER’S OZARKS FUN RUN’ Sat. August 8, 11 AM, Planers Parking Lot Hwy 23 N. (Main St.) and Hwy. 62. This ride will require a helmet. Also, bring a bathing suit, if you want to take a dip. There will be a lunch stop during the ride. ~ NOWWE’RE HUNGR~q FREE GOURMET BUFFET & ARTIST RECEPTION at the new Dreamweaver Gallery, 184 N. Main. Gallery owners David artd Melanie go top chef with a full dinner buffet. Drop by for a culinary adventure, art, and meet their featured guest, art photographer Matt Johnson. Check out all the Eureka art during the "2ND Saturday ~Gallery Stroll,~’ on Saturday from 3- 8 PM. SHAYdN NOT STIRRED! Henri’s Just One More. 19 V2 Spring Street. Saturday Night Karaoke Dance Party with DJ’S Shakin" not Stirred. IMPORTA_NT REMINDER- BE COOL, BE SEEN, BE SAFE: avoid those Diversity buzz-killers like getting a DUI or trying to find a parking place downtown. Eureka Springs Limousine. $5.00 point to point. Call 479-363-6055 for your PICK-UP! Cervantes and Lizeth iivila -- were arrested, detained and beaten June 29 in Tegucigalpa, the capital, IGLHRC said. "Nae arrests occurred while the activists were participating in a demonstration in support of the democratically elected government," the group said. The five activists are well-known GLBT leaders. "The recent coup in Honduras is an illegal assault on democracy that violates the rights of all Honduran citizens, including those ,vho identify as LGBT," said IGLHRC Executive Director Cary Alan Johnson. "We especially deplore the vicious murder and arbitrary arrests of LGBT people in the wake of this crisis." August2009 �by Jack Fertig August 2009 "Keep it light, Sagittarius" Mercury in Leo trine to Eris provokes bold partisan assertions. There’s healthy room for that, but it can go overboard. Mercury then opposes Jupiter, Neptune and Chiron in Aquarius. leading through confusion, perhaps to improvement in ideals and philosophy. "You stand a better chance of improving yourself, not othe rs. ARIES (Narch 20-Apri~ 19): Culture clash can give you a better sense of who you are and who you’re not, but that will be challenged again when you reassess political ideals. Confusion and change are necessary steps to growth. Just walk through it. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - Nay 20): Pride in home and family can clash with honesty about sameness. Ask yourself the hard questions that have never been answered. "Your insights could lead to reconsidering career goals. New answers there would also be helpful! GEN~NI~ (Nay 21- June 20): Your brilliant ideas can be very helpful in political long-range planning, but they wil~ start up arguments over principles, A real world approach may be needed to get idealist notions down to earth, but grounding will not come easily. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): You need a forum for your opinion. Keep it light and playful and more people will listen. Appeal to emotions more than logic. Sticking to ideals and principles may be safer than citations that you’re "reasonably sure" of. 1 4 12 LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Playful banter with friends can lead you into a situation, pushing you to take sides, or you mig ht be able to negotiate a common ground between opposing camps. Solutions may defy logic. Creativity and intuition serve much better! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21}: You can make an effective gobetween for colleagues and bosses. Being clear about which side you’re on will make you more effective. Your focus on career can be a distraction from problems at home. Your distraction could even be the problem. w~vw.metrostarnews.com 10 11 ’12 !13 16 ! 33 ~ 39 40 ~ 58 }59 60 DovTI3 Across t Figure skater Doug 2 Nuts 0fa tall one 3 It’s deep in a movie title 4 Hall ’Universi~ 5 ~tflavor for gin 6 Shining examples CANCER (June 21o Ju~y 22): Know your worth and hang out with the right people in your profession, those whose level you should be at. Strutting you~ Stuff in the Sack - maybe some exhibitionism?, can open up new channels for fantasy and exploration. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): That buzz in your brain, perhaps about mortality or sexual identity, could prove enlightening. See where it leads. Worries about health should motivate you to better exercise and hygiene. (There’s always room for improvement!) 9 8 ~ AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with your partner are inflamed by a sense of competition. Remember, you’re on the same side! Together you can be unbeatable. Selfdoubt can be a good thing if it leads you to better answers. Island of Diamond Head Beach Come-on after following a gay guy? LEO (July 23 -August 22): The simplest observation can quickly become an ideological or academic thesis. That could be good, clarifying your own sense of where you stand. In relationships, however, your position may baffle you. Enjoy the mystery; it won’t last long. 7 ~ 15 CAPRICORN (December 21 January 19): Leaning on your own ethnic identity, or your ethnic preferences, can help you strut your hot stuff. Sexual preference for a certain skin color may be racist, or not. It’s all in the context and attitude. Checking your own couldn’t hurt. HSCES (February 19 - Narch 19): If you must argue with colleagues, make sure it’s about something important; remember you’re ultimately on the same team. Is it really something at work that’s bothering you? 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Tickets for these performances are $19; $29; $39 and can be arranged by calling JoyceCharge a 212-242-0800 " or online at "~mv.joyce.org. NOTE: Ticket prices are subject to change. %e Joyce Theater is located at 175 Eighth Avenue at I9th Street in Chelsea. If you can’t make the trip to see the company in New York, Tulsa Ballet is hosting a Big Apple Preview- Night in Tulsa on N~ursday, August 6 at Studio K, 1212 East 45th Place. Tickets are still available for this special event featuring a wine and hor d’ouevres reception at 6:30 pm followed by the performance at 7:00 pm. Tne evening will culminate with champagne and desserts on stage with the compan> Tickets can be purchased by contacting Amy Miller, Director of Development at (918) 392-5933. The 2009-20 I0 Tulsa Ballet Season begins in October with the Oklahoma premiere of Ben Stevensoffs spectacular production of Dracula that will be performed in Tulsa and Oklahoma City during the Halloween season. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document One million people, including Sarah Brown, wife of Prime Minister Gordon Brown, took part in London’s gay pride parade July 4. MORE on page 11 THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR G T OKLAHOMA VOLUME 6 iSSUE 8 MetroStarN÷ws.com AUGUST 1,2009 S 0KLAHOMAAGAIN! The crowd was about equally divided among those supporting her views and those opposed. Those in opposition began shouting Shame on you! repeatedly, alon~-with "Love-thy neighb6r!" - By Victor Gorin State Representative Sally Kern, Dis#qct 84 at the Oklahoma State Capitol, Gorin photo $ 0,000 By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On Monday July 13 an emergency meeting and press conference ofOKC Pride was hdd at Epworth Methodist Church to deal with the disappearance of a sum estimated to be within the $10,000 to $15,000 range. This cash, which was supposed to have been deposited in the OKC Pride bank account, was derived from contributions, T shirt sales and purchase tickets sold on behalf of vendors. Apparendy assumed to be deposited in OKC Pride’s Chase Bank account by Treasurer Christine Plante, OKC Pride Co-Chair Patti Thompson was surprised to receive word from the bank the following Wednesday after the Pride Weekend that the OKC Pride account was over $4,000 overdrawn, and thus learned that An emergency meeting about this was held by the Board of Directors Thursday July 9 at the Boom, and Ms. Plante was allegedly contacted and asked to be at this meeting, but she did not show up. Although offidally scheduled to be at the July 13 meeting as well Ms. Plante was again not present, and there was no information as to her wherabouts or situation, although a widely drculated rumor was that she had checked herself into a rehabilitation facility. In her place, OKC Press Liaison Nathan Thompson gave a report, stating that OKC Pride had met with the Oklahoma City police to report the incident July 10, but had no further information. Despite the losses, at the time of the meeting OKC Pride had paid all ~e cash money, which had been obtained their outstanding debts and had cash on hand om about 3 ago weeks up to and including of around $2500 in 2 separate bank accounts, the event~ hadn& be~n d~posiled ~er all J3y through assis~€~ byd~h0~ from the that time Christine Ptante had disappeared as commtmity including John Gibbons (owner well, leaving the community wondering what of the Boom), Dan Johnson, Jack Melisa, and wen~ wrong and who was r~sponsible. ....... ContinUed See OKC PRIDE Page-4 OYA~ktOMA CITY, OK__ Around 250 people gathered at the Oldahoma State Capitol for State Representative Sally Kern’s presentation of her Proclamation of Morality, about evenly divided between supporters and those in opposition. The prodamation, which does not have the force of law, blamed the economic problems of our nation due to America "forsaldng the rich Christian heritage upon which our nation was built" and because "our nation has become a world leader in promoting abortion, pornography, same sex marriage, sex trafficking, divorce, illegitimate births, child abuse and many other forms of debauchery." It also criticized President Obama for signing a proclamation recognizing June as Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Pride Month while not taking a more active role in the National Day of Prayer, although President Obama did issue a proclamation supporting that event as well on May 7. Ms.Kern, a Republican who represents District 84, has garnered international attention for her outspoken conservative views, particularly concerning the GLBT community. In a speech taped at a Republican gathering last year that later made Youtube, she stated that the gay community was a bigger threat "than Islam or terrorism," and compared gays to cancer in "one’s big toe" in their relationship to society, However, unlike similar gatherings in the past, the crowd was about equally divided among those supporting her views and those opposed. After she had given a short speech ........... Continued See SALLY Page-4 Senate approves hatecrimes measure xWASHINGTON, DC (PR) The U.S. Senate approved a bill to add sexual orientation, gender identity and other categories to federal hate-crimes protections. The final vote came July 20. The bill will soon be on its way to President Obama’s desk, where he’ll get a chance to make good on his promise to sign it. This vote came on the heels of tremendous pressure from radical right-wing groups that used every trick in the book. They called the bill the "Pedophile Protection Act," among other outrageous claims. They dismissed the barbaric hate crime that took Matthew Shepard’s life as a "hoax." They flooded the Senate with hundreds of thousands of letters and calls. The measure, which passed on a voice vote, was attached to a defense-spending bill. A move to remove it from that bill failed 63-28. The House of Representatives already has passed a similar bill. "More than 60 senators support the Matthew Shepard Act, legislation that will provide police and sheriffs’ departments with the tools and resources they need to ensure that entire communities are not terrorized by hate violence," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. Both Oklahoma senators fel! for the radical right’s ploy and voted against the hate crimes bill failing to stand up for equali~ To contact both Oklahoma Senators call their Washington office, Sen. James ’Jim’ M. Inhofe (202) 224-4721 and Sen. Tom A. Coburn (202) 224-5754. Oklahoma Weather Forecast for August 2009 Aug 1-4: Sunny, hot. Hurricane threat in Gulf Aug 5-10: T-storms north, hot south Aug 11-14: Scattered T-storms, ~ seasonable Aug 15-21: Sunny, very warm AUg 27-31: Scattered ~-storms, warm Avg. Temperature: 83.5° (avg. norda, 3° above south) Precipitation: 3.5" (1" above avg.) N~YION This year’s OKC Pride Grand just love being with my friends in Oklahoma City," Page-6 L>> BILL (Lt" N"’tON= SJPPORTS~ /AYS Diversity Over 150 unique Shops and galleries, and many parties for your entertainn{ent. Page 9 WO~ZLD >> ?R~DE 2009 I PLUS -~ LIFES";YLETR~ /EL ~ AR" ~ I Beating victim Chad Gibson, who now has a life-threatening blood clot on his brain goes home. Gibson xvants the officers to be prosecuted.. Page 8 #INE / SCOPES a ease pa rP Everyone who completes @e s#rvey by August 31, 2009 P~ease take the survey today, and te~ year Tremendous strides toward fa~ equality have been achieved by oar tenth,unities ever the past decade. There’s Power in ear Pride. Power te n~ake a difference: Gay and [esbiaa su~ey studies have opened doers (and minds) in ~ea~ing corporations aria organizations, which in turn have rec~gn~ze~ the va~ue of the~r LGBT employees through the es~b~shment of equa~ h~dng po~c~es an~ ~omest[c pa~ner benefits. Th~s has been a catalyst, ~ea~[ng to sweeping changes ~n pofft~cal an~ social ~nc~usJvi~. #e~egraph~c reports a~se ~nfluence ~arket~ng ~nvest~ent. V~ua~y absent unt~ recently, we now see a ~rowing variety ef p[eaacts an~ services represente~ ia gay ~edia, celebrating oar ai~ersity. Aas keep LGBT pubiications an~ websites ~a business, serving their co.manatees with [aaependent news and infermatbn. ~eyen~ s~p~y a@e~s~ng, though, these ce~panies support as ~n ~any ways, ~nc~a~ng sponsoring cow.unity events Community Marketi ~ @ 200g 8~a~uni~ ~arketing, ~nc., 584 Castro St. #834, San Francisco CA 9~114 L~SA ~.Cen~n~unity~arketing~nc.cen~ August 2009 STATE REPRESENTATIVE AL MCAFF Y CALLS FORAN APOLOGY By Victor Gorin State Rep. AI~fcA~’ey and Metro Star re oorter Robin Dornet: Gorin photo OI~ObcLR CITY, OK __ "I complete identifi/with the cleep faith that many Oklahomans hold dear, but I’m appalled that MrS.Kern chose to use a state proclamation to attack the freedom ofmany Oklahomans xvho do not share her faith or vices." ..... ....... ...... state Reprdsentative A1 McAffrey State Representative Al McAffrey (Democrat SHD-88) is calling upon fellow legislator Sally Kern (Republican-SHD- 84) to rescind her proclamation and apologize for many discrepancies and misrepresentations of facts. "To blame our economic woes on a national moral crisis is ludicrous. Our economic woes are a direct result of bad financial practices and a lack of regulation on Wall Street." He pointed out that "Mrs.Kern uses her proclamation to accuse President Obama of not recognizing the National Day or Prayer, that is an absolute lie. On May 7~ 2009 President Obama proclaimed a National Day of Prayer and encouraged all Americans to ’come together in moments of great challenge and uncertainty to humble themselves in prayer.’ " McAffrey stated that he found that vwo of the quotes used attributed tO James Madison ai~d Patrick Henry were f-abricated, appearing nowhere in the writings or records of either man. McAffrey pointed out that anyone knmvledgeable ofAmerican history would kamw that James Madison and Thomas Jefferson were avid Supporters of religious freedom, and that it was Thomas Jefferson who coined the concept "separation of church and state" traced to a letter he wrote in 1802 to the Danbury Baptists. McA~}ey further stated " It’s pitiable that with all the major challenges facing our great state some of our state leaders are more concerned in mal~ng ne~vs headlines than making strides toward strengthening our economy, improving our public schools, and ensuring that all OHahomans have access to qualig; affordable and sustainable healthcare. She owes Oklahomans of all faiths a sincere apology:" Tulsa Bowling Tournament a Success By Michael xyZ Sasser JOLTBowling Tournament group at ~dsa Eagles reception party. Staffphoto TULSA, OK__ GLBT sports are already on the minds of many in the community in anticipation of the Gay Games 2010 in Cologne. In Oklahoma, sporting gay men and women have numerous opportunities and it seems many are taking advantage of them. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League’s second annual weekend-long July Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT) attracted some 120 participants from around the region to the tourney, at Andy B Riverlanes and ldcked things offwith a registration party at the Tulsa Eagle on July 17th. . "Most of the people xvere from Oklahoma and Texas, but we also had people from Kansas and Missouri," said Lambda League President Rich Blankenship. "We consider it a big success." Blankenship said that there were 88 participants in last year’s tournament and that it took most of the year to raise the funds necessary to host this year’s. Included in the fundraising was approximately $6,000 for charity. "gC’e really need sponsors for next year since we are growing so much," Blankenship said. The Lambda League’s regular season runs from Labor Day to April, with a 12-Week summer league also available, and the July tournament. As a member of the International Gay Bowling Organization (South Plains Region), the Lambda League schedules its annual national tournament so as to not conflict with other member’s tournaments. IGBO sponsors a national tournament every Memorial Day weekend. "Every city about Tulsa’s size or larger with a league has a tournament," Blankenship said. The success ofJOLT would have been unimaginable just a few years ago, when, Blankenship said; the group had dwindled down to around two dozen members. Today there are around 67 members. Some teams rotate players so that more people can play in the Tuesday night league. Already there is a waiting list for next year, although Blankenship said the,,League is, trying to negotiate, for,, more. lanes.,, We dont want to be exclusive, he sa~d. We want everyone to get involved to be able to play." Blankenship attributes the growth of the Lambda Leagt,ie to the recruitment efforts of former president and this years JOLT Director, Rick Cox. Other sports oriented community groups are lively around the state also. Oklahoma City supports two bowling teams, the Sunday Twisters and Tuesday Twisters. Oklahoma City and Tulsa support GLBT softballs leagues. Both the Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) and the Oldahoma Gay Rodeo Association (OGRA) are members of the International Gay Rodeo Association (tGRA). The IGRA National Finals in Albuquerque, New Mexico are expected to draw’participation and large spectator support from OHahoma. For more information on the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League, visit w~w<lambdaleague.com. Dale Gross ~ Randy Winrow email: route66malf@att.net 8.836.3838 METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and Blessed DaV! www.rnetrostarnews.corn #~>t~"oSTAR 3 others not named at the meeting. Nathan stated that the investigation is still ongoing, and there is a possibility the money or parr of it may be recovered. It was also brought up that according to the bylaws. OKC Pride Board members could not be held liable for this type of loss. Inquiries as to why nobody knew why the cash had not been deposited, or why, the bank account had not had more oversight were not answered. Mr. Thompson did promise that information would be put on the OKC Pride website along with press releases as soon as it was available Guy Peters did suggest that in the future that background checks be obtained for those responsible for OKC Pride money. Male Co- Chair Paul Thompson had suggested in the past that these members be bonded, which would cover losses caused by dishonest acts. Mthough Chris Plante has not been charged with any crime related to this incident at this time. she was removed ftom her Treasurer position for dereliction of duty, the motion to do so made by Scott Jaggers and passed unanimously. Until there is a new Treasurer on duty- the duties of that oi~ce would be handled by the co-chairs, currently Paul Thompson and Latricia Olmstead. The next meeting xvould be August 3, the first Monday of August. During that meeting membership in OKC Pride. which is required to be eligible to vote in the upcoming election ~’or new o~cers and board members, could be begun or renewed. Co-Chairs Paul Thompson and Latricia Ohnstead announced that the7 will not be seeking re-election, nor will Festival Coordinator T.J Mc~nsey. A press confbrence was held following the meeting attended by the Metro Star, Oldahoma Gazette reporter Joe Wertz, and Patricia Millel; the treasurer preceding Ms.Plante,Ms. Miller, who resigned in protest at the May" 4 meeting over what she stated were lax and dishonest financial practices ofOKC Pride had this to say," They are all fteaking out over this, which I can agree, they should be freaked out, but we slid the last one about Miles Tompkins* under the rug. I want to make sure this does not get slid under the rug too. Whoever is responsible for this should go to prison. My question is, will this be treated like the last time?" *Referring to a bounced check wdtten by Miles Tompkim to Lee Burrusfor a Gala Dinner on beha~%fOKCPride in 200g. Mr Bu~us was reimbursed by OKCPride and M~ Tompkim, thru an agreement with OKC Pride, made restitution. Drag een Bingo 2009 Bingo like your mother never played... TULSA, OK (PRy __ This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held Friday, August 7th at Tulsa’s Cain’s Ballroom. Female impersonators will welcome you aboard the USS DQB cruise ship for this, the fifth year, beginning at 8p.m. and ending at t 1. There will be glamorous costumes and prizes, a silent auction and, of course, bingo! Female impersonators will perform glittering numbers from cruise ship showrooms to entertain the crowd. isolation of people living with HIV and AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations. Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weeldy lunches. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2009 are $20 per person and can be purchased ar Reasor’s, Cain’s Ballroom, Ida Red and Starship Records. Gay Man E]ec ed Oklahoma County Democratic Par v Secretary’s O ce By Victor Gorin Tom Guild with well wishingfi’iend Esther Bahierra. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY; OK__ Dr. Tom Guild, a soon to be professor emeritus at the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond, was elected July 14 to be Oklahoma Count~fis Democratic Party Secretary. This was a special election to fill that ot~ce which was vacated with the resignation of the previous oI~ce holder, Rosanne Jenny. A longtime human ¯ rights activist, Tom was a professor at UCO for 27 years, where he taught political science for 10 years and legal studies in the College of Business for 17 years. He registered as aDemocrat 5 years ago, and has since been very active in the part), by hosting the weekly Oklahoma County Democratic Party’s Speakers Lunch at the Boulevard Cafeteria, as well as other party activities. Along with Dr. Joan Luxemburg and Keith Smith, he co-wrote a chapter in the book ’Hn Oklahoma I’d Never seen Before: Alternative Views of Oklahoma Histo~ "published in 1994. Their chapter was "Oklahoma’s Gay, Liberation Movement," the first academic publication in this area ever published. Working with the Democratic Party he will work to achieve full collective bargaining rights and better wages and conditions for Oklahoma’s workers, currently working on passage of the Employee Free Choice Act, which ,#could make it easier for workers to unionize. He would also work for GLBT rights and human rights in general, working for passage of the Employment Nondiscrimination Act ( proposed Federal law prohibiting employment discrimination against GLBTs) and repeal for the "Don’t ask Don’t Tell" policy of the U.S. military. W AT those in opposition began shouting "Shame on you!" repeatedly, along with "Love thy neighbor!’while the other side simultaneously began singing God Bless America, and later both sides sang the national anthem. As feelings ran high the event got very loud but stayed peaceful. Ms.Kern did express her view that "The people who preach tolerance are not willing ro extend the same thing to someone who disagrees with them. So ladies and gentlemen, we are seeing a wonderful illustration of intolerance." Among those signing the petition was Paul Blair of Edmond’s Fairview Baptist Church, who also spoke at the rally. In spite of the mention of divorce as being part of our moral decline, it was likewise signed by former State Representative Kevin Calvey, a conservative Christian who is divorced. It was also signed by Oklahoma City Councilman J. Brian Waiters ( Ward 5), the lone OKC City Council member who voted against a parade permit for the OKC Pride Parade. The constitutionality of the event was questionable. As activist attorney Brittany Novomy pointed out, "They used Capitol grounds for this and that is an advancement of a particular religious agenda that is not necessarily representative of al! the other religions or even al! the branches of Christianity in Oklahoma. q£he LGBT caucus of the Young Democrats canae out to stand side by side with the ACLU to uphold the Oklahoma Constitution (Article 2 Section 5) that clearly prohibits the use of public property towards any sect, denomination or system of religion." . Brittany also gave,her angle about the proclamation as well. q-his proclamation suggests that the problems of our society are bdfig caused somehow by GLBT people. Frankly as a Young Democrat I believe most of ourproblems are being caused by economic problems, people not able to have healthcare for their kids or themselves, people filing bankruptcy because they lack healthcare coverage. There are a host of prob!ems facing every day Oldahomans, and I dont believe demonizing a whole subset of Oklahomans really accomplishes the goals of real working Oldahomans who want to be able to feed their families, have good healthcare, who just want the opportunity to live their lives in peace, and who believe in loving their neighbor." C.S. Thornton of the ACLU lamented, "She ( Representative Kern) blames all these things upon a great moral crisis, yet nowhere does she mention greedy V&ll Street executives or government regulators who were asleep at the switch. The most alarming thing about this proclamation is the level of scapegoating that it promotes." However, the Republican speaker of the House, Chris Benge, does not plan to sign the document, and State Representative Ryan Keisel, a Democrat called the proclamation a "divisive political stunt." State Representative A1 McAffrey, the only openly gay member of the legislature ( Democrat-District 88) has asked for an apology. There were otl-mrs that disagreed with Ms. Kern as well. The Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards, associate pastor of the Church of the Open Arms UCC stated that she felt Sally Kern was "one of the most hateful and divisive persons in America. The right thing is to respect people regardless ofwho they choose to love. Homophobia is wrong, it’s unGodlike." 300 ATTEND ENID’S FIRST PRIDE CELEBRATION By Nate Bowen Enid held their first Pride event Saturday July 18, which was a fabtdous picnic & festival at Meadowlake Park. Drawing over 300 people, the number in attendance set a record for aW Oklahoma first time Pride event. Starting offwith the Reverend J.E Wickey of Crosswalk United Church (Enid’s only open and affirming church), he spoke about being gay and Christian followed by a Q&A session. The band Blackwings gave a great performance, followed by Stephen Dillard-Carroll. This was followed by an OKC speaker and activist from the Young Democrats, Brittany Novotny. Around 6:30 p.ra. the crowd was treated to a drag show starring Raven Angel, Nikki Star and Colby Richards. Booths and vendors at the park ranged from Fulton’s BBQ to the Garfield County Democrats. Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to elirainate the social .........Continued see ENID PRIDE page 6 4 August 2009 HoOoPoEo to Host 8th A ual DIVAS Benefit Concert for people to learn their HIV status and can connect clients to a variety of medical and social support services. For more information about HIV or sexually transmitted infections, call 1-800-535-MDS (2437). Openarms 4th Annual Fashion Show By Judy Gabbard TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Sept. !2-13, 2009, Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.E E.) will host DWAS 2009. at the Tulsa Zoo. This year’s theme is DIVAS Gone \.gild. Proceeds from the event will help support H.O.EE. programs, such as prevention education about HIV/AIDS, hepatitis and other sexually transmitted infections, the only statewide 24-hour HIV/STD resource hotline, and the only free, anonymous testing and counseling facility in Oklahoma. This year’s concert is produced by Rebecca Ungerman, a popular Tulsa-based performer who has graced numerous venues and events in Tulsa, including the Oklal~oma Centennial Celebration and the Tulsa Perfornaing Art Center SummerStage series. The evening, celebrated in the new H.A. Chapman Event Lodge at the Tulsa Zoo, highlights Tulsds diverse musical talent with local artists covering dassic favorites. ~[hese acts come together for this annual "one time onl~# shm,~ and bring out their collective fans: This year S performei:S ind~id~ Pxeb~c~ ung~rman, Cindy Cain, Christy E. ofThe Red Alert, Pare Wan Dyke, ~nie Ellicotr. Fiawna Forte, John Sawyer, Darrell Christopher, Kelly Morrison. and Janet Rutland. N~e combined talent includes experience on Broadway, national and international cabaret tours, and !ocal Spot Music Awards. ~II~e evening will also include a live and silenvauction, dancing, hors d’oeuvres, and beverages. The evening gala will take place on Saturday, September 12. 7:30pm and a no frills Sund~y matinee will take.place September ! 3 at 4pro. Tickets may be purchased, beginning August 1, by contacting H.O.RE. a 918-749-TEST (8378). Tickets are $25 and $40 for general admission seats and $100 for individual table seats. A table for ten is available for $1,000. Cabaret table seats include: priority seating, publicity, auction sneak preview, and private reception with the performers which includes complimentary wine and hors d’ oeuvres. The matinee -will include the same show and champagne, with tickets ranging from $15-$50. Emcee for the event will be Mia Fleming from Fox 23. Supporters of DIVAS 2009 include Williams, F & M Bank. The Metro Star and The Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa. Raising awareness of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections remains vitally important. Young people and minorities are disproportionately affected, but HIV does not discriminate. By Imowing your status, you are better able to protect yourself and others. Prevention education and testing are keys to decreasing the stigma and infection rate of HIV. H.O.EE. provides a comfortable place "First l ursday" Art Opening and ey ibit with Creations from Local Artist - Nicholas K. Clark TULSA, OK (PR) __ Continuing the monthly showcase of local artists at the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) will feature Tulsa Artist Nicholas K. Clark with an opening show and reception on Thursday, August 6th from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the month ofAugust. Nicholas’ work is a direct reflection of his optimistic personality. From vivid oranges to metallic silvers highlighted by passionate reds, his art displays a mastery of color that cannot be taught. His mediums vary from acrylics to oils and focus on creating depth through layering and application of rich texture. Nic’s ~vorks fall into three categories: contemporary figure studies, pop art and expressionistic co!or studies. "I pull nay inspiration from fashion and music and I love working with figures because they are al~vays so challenging - the detail of a hand. the curves of a body and the. capturing of natural movement and expresslolt. 7~rn GilA.an Former Channd23 Reporter Marianly Mendez andMiss OYP 2009: Alizay Kardashian Judy G. photo TULSA, OK Openarms Youth Project Center, located at 2015 Sm,th Lakewood Ave., Tulsa, OK, presented their 4th Annual fashion show fund raiser on July 10 and was a great success. Organizers Tim Gillean and Jerrid Horton reported that the proceeds will help continue the support of local GLBT youth ofTulsa and surrounding area. The nights title was ReFashionista. Sports and formal wear were purchased and redesigned for a splendid runway show. The evenings host, xvas Kristin Dickerson from KTUL, channel 8. Area talent added spice to the evening along with tasty hors d’oeuvres, wine and soft drinks. "Ihe silent auction ~vas an exciting array ofitems that were purchased by those in attendance. Funds are still needed to support the youth needs at Openarms. An), donation is appreciated. For more infbrmation call 918.838.7104. www.metrostarnews.com ~®t~’oSTAR 5 AtJeanne Ma6e~ Champs French connection ~sampled wines3~om all over the world. I’m in this photo with nay partner Lamont. For my birthday present, he sent for me to join him in France where he was a visiting professor in Marseille at the University of Provence¯ ! was really impressed with the wines of Provence, Cotes du Rhone. Languedoc and Bordeauex. The trip took on a different focus when we traveled to Bordeaux for VinExpo, the " international wine tasting event. We’re in this photo with long time wine colleague Gary Vance who caught a £1st train from Paris to meet up with us. This was a huge 5 day/40 thousand people wine tasting event with hundreds of wine makers & marketing reps. ~aere was just no way to meet all the wine raakers and taste as much as we wanted.In this article, I’m highlighting some of the grape varietals from the parts of Atxendees included not just the GLBT community, but fiunilies as well coming to enjoy the fun and fellowship. The following Sunday there was a forum held to discuss the France that we visited. These are affordable finds and the wines are in Oklahoma. Brief history of the grapes grown in these regions Malbec grapes tend to have an inky dark color and robust tannins. Long known as one ofthe six grapes allowed in the blend of red Bordeaux wine, the French plantations~ofMalbec are now found primarily in Cahors where the Appellation Control4e regulations for C~hors require a minimtiin content of 70% It is increasin ly ~elebrated as an Argentine varietal wine and is being gr~vn around the world. The northern part of the Rh6ne Valley; in France, remains one of the undisputed reference points for the ~;rOdUction of wines made with the ah grape. ~-he best examples of varietal Syrah, are the ones produced with the appellations Hermitage, C6te-R6tie, Comas, St-Joseph and Crozes-Hermitage. \Vgines produced in these areas have strong fruit aromas, a good acidity, dry body and an appreciable mineral taste. Grenache is the dominant variety in most Southern Rh6ne wines, especially in Chfiteauneuf-du-Pape where it is typically over 80% of the blend. It is generally spicy, berry-flavoured and soft on the palate. In Australia it is typically blended in "GSM" blends with Syrah and Mourv~dre. Grenache is also used .to make ros~ wines in France and grmvn. The majority" of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Rhone wine region, the grape is often blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. Mr. D’s 1/2 case Red Bicyclette Syrah/Granche Rose ’07 (Languedoc) Black Beret Grenache/Syrah Rouge ’05 (Languedoc) Coussergues Viognier ’08 (Languedoc) Beauv~gnac Sauv,gnon Blanc 08 (Languedoc) Chateau Trocard Montrepos Merlot ’06 (Bordeaux) Jean-Luc Colombo L~s Abeilles Cotes du Rhone Blanc ’07/Viognier & Grenache Blanc Clos la Coutale Malbec (Cahors) ’06 And as always, I say go to your favorite wine shop, ask questions and purcha~se a bottle or t~vo. Share some food & wine with friends and check this out for yourself¯ This writer is one ofthe managers at the Grand Vin wine shop at Utica Square. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events around town known as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. Viognier [vee-oh-nay] wines are well-known for their floral aromas, due to terpenes, which are also found in Muscat and Riesling wines. There are also many other powerful flower and fruit aromas which can be perceived in these wines depending on where they were &affVohmteets Top Row Ka~e, John, Jesse, Brandon DJ Star, TJ, Kathy, Angd A4ishalle,Bmndon "KoolAid’; bottom rowJamie Lisa Nate future goals of Enid’s GLBTQA community, but most of the discussion centered on how great the Enid Pride Festival was and the fun they had. That evening Crosswalk United Church hosted a showing of "Prayers for Bobby", a landmark film portraying the true story of a mother who could not accept her sods homosexuality, who became an activist for gay rights following his suicide. General consensus was that the event was not just a historic first, but a wonderful occasion to be celebrated every year from now on. www.Foodand~Hne.com ww~:~ikioedia.or~ www.2he~’VorldI4q~eI~ne.com ww~:Epicurious.com TULSA BALLET TO PERFORM IN NEWYORK CITY Oklal~oma Governor Brad Henry and Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor will attend Tulsa Ballet’s debut at the Joyce Theater August 10 - 15. Special Big Apple Preview Night in Tulsa on August 6 at Studio K TULSA, OK (PR) It has been 25 years since the Tulsa Ballet has performed in New York City. This summer the company will make its long awaited return to the Big Apple for its debut at the Joyce Theater August 10 -15. Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, Governor Brad Henry and First Lady Kim Henry are among local and national dignitaries who will attend the opening night performance and Patron Gala on Monday, August 10 at the Joyce Theater, located in the heart of Manhattads Chelsea neighborhood. Tulsa Ballet will give seven performances with special events planned throughout the week fbr patrons and supporters ofTulsa Ballet. The company will present a program. featuring Elite Syncopations by Kenneth MacMillan, Por vos Muero by Nacho Duato and This is Your Life by Young Soon Hue. This is Your Life was commissioned by Tulsa Ballet in 2008 and has since been performed by the Aalto Theater in Essen, Germany and the National Ballet of Ankara, Turkey. ....Continued see BALLET page 22 OKC Pride 2009: You be the change By Robin Dorner OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The end of June brought proud celebration to Oklahoma City with the annual gay pride event. year’s event was a huge success with more than ! 5,000 people attending the festivities. The party began on Friday evening at the NW 39th Street Strip near Penn with the first annual "Friday Night Block Part’);’. The festival began Saturday morning and continued through Sunday, the parade began around 5 pm. This year the OKC Pride Grand Marshal was attthor andTV personality Ruby Ann Boxcar. "I just love being with my friends in Oklahoma City," Boxcar told the Metro Star. "Anywhere there is a trailer park I feel like I’ve got family!" Boxcar is known as the Diva of the Double-Wide, a highly successful entertainer and author who got her start in Oklahoma City and is recognized in the US and abroad. Guests from across the city and state came to join in the festivities in Midtown Oklahoma City. "I am here because I am bisexual, proud and I like the scene," said 18 year old Ruth Leila Blailock. "It’s a celebration of diversity really." "We are here today because we are members of the Diversity Business Association (DBA)," said Shawn Adkison, JD of the Fortune Law Center in Midtown. Adkison and his firm have been members of DBA, the Oklahoma City LGBT business organization, for more than three years. "We think it is important ~o ne~ork together; promote our business organizations as ~vell as diversity in general," adds Adkison. "It is a good thing to show our support for DBA, Oklahoma and the U.S. You know, these kinds of events are not permitted in every country." The mission ofOKC Pride, Inc. is to stage a highly visible forum for the organizations which serve the community both nationally, regionally, and locally; decrease external homophobia by generating maximum media coverage to the reality of our community; and diminish internal homophobia by presenting organizational and individual role models. Additionally, the Board of Directors believe that as a civil rights movement, gays and lesbians need an annual forum where individually and collectively they can consider where they have been, where they are now and what direction they need to set. Several large corporations p,,articipated in the festival and the parade. I think it is just important that we embrace people with different backgrounds and, quite frankly, it helps our company," said Wesley Seymour frown the Frito-Lay company. "We have a philosophy; bring your whole self to work and that is one reason I like working for Fnto-Lay; Seymour has worked for the company as a District Sales Manager for three years. National and local companies supt~orted the event as corporate sponsors as well as many local sponsors. There were also several local churches represented, bike riding clubs, entertainers, The Oklahoma City Peace House and much more. For more information about Pride OKC, contact www. okcpride.org. August2009 6 www,metrostarnews.com 7 Wockner News Service Fort Worth beating victim, Chad Gibson goes home Fort Worth police and agentsfi’om the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission raided a gay barJune 28 -- the 40th anniversary ofthe Stonewall Riots -- and roughed up several patrons, inckding Chad Gibson, who now has a life-threatening blood clot on his brain. Gibson wants the officers m beprose~ted. Photo WFAA-TVscreen capmre Chad Gibson has been released from the hospital but still is in danger from a blood clot on his brain that reportedly could break loose and kill him. Gibson allegedly was beat up by cops during a June 28 raid of the Rainbow Lounge in Fort Worth, Tex; Wimesses say officers stami:ned his head into a ~vall, then into the floor. ~¢¢o Other patrons ~dso were injured in the raid -- one has broken ribs and one has a broken thumb. June 28 was the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots that kickstarted the modern gay-rights movement. ¯ne violent raid -- purported to be merely one of the state’s routine checks of bars to be sure no one is too drunk -- brought heaW condemnation from gay leaders, newspaper columnists, bloggers, politicians and others. It also received extensive national news not lip service. I will meet with you wherever you want to meet. I will go to your restaurants, your house, we can eat barbecue, whatever you want to do. But ~ve’ve got to talk." Gibson, for his part, wants the raiding officers to be,~rosecuted and the city to halt its "cover-up. "You used excessive force and that’s why I got hurt," Gibson told \~rFAA-TV. "~ey have blamed it on me, that I was drunk, (that) I fell and hit my head, I groped the officer, I did this, I did that. You know ,vhat? No. Accept responsibility." In an interview with KTVT Gibson added: "I was rubbed into the concrete.... I’m just appalled that they took it to the level that they did.... They need to accept responsibility for what they did." Obama invites 300 GLBT leaders to White House for Stonewa 140 President Barack Obama -- under heavy fire for talking the talk but not walking the walk on numerous gay-rights promises -- had 300 GLBT leaders over to the White House on June 29 to celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Stonevcall Riots, which, in 1969, jumpstarted the modern gay-rights movement. "I know that many in this room don’t believe that progress has come fast enough, and I understand that," Obama said. "It’s not for me to tell you to be patient, any more than it was for othem to counsel patience to African Americans who were petitioning for equal rights a half-c~ntury ago. But I say this: We have made progress and we will make more. And I want you to know that I expect and hope to be judged not by words, not by promises I’ve made, but by the promises that nay administration keeps." Obama also defended his decision not to issue an order stopping the military’s expulsions of openly gay members, suggesting, again, that such an approach wouldu’t work out in the long run. "As commander in chief in a time of war, I do have a responsibility to see that this change is adnainistered in a practical way and a way that takes over the long term," he said. "That’s why I’ve asked the secretary of defense and the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staffto develop a plan for how to thoroughly implement a repeal. I know that every day that passes without a resolution is a deep disappointment to those men and women who continue to be discharged under this policy -- patriots who often possess critical language skills and years of training and who’ve served this country well. But what I hope is that these cases underscore the urgency of reversing this policy not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because it is essential for our national security." coverage. . Both the Fort Worth Police Department and the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission, which joined in the raid, have launched interna! investigations of the incident. The results of the city police’s investigation will be reviewed by federal authorities, Mayor Mike Moncrief has promised. Apart from the raid itselfl the most controvers!al aspect Of the incident has been Police ChiefJeff Halstead’s assertions that Gibson groped one of the officers and that other patrons made what the Police Department called "sexually explicit movements" toward uniformed officers -- claims that bar patrons and gay leaders have called preposterous and "lies." "You’re touched and advanced in certain ways by people inside the bar, that’s offensive," Ha!stead said shortly after the raid. "I’m happy with the restraint used when they were contacted like that." After facing ridicule for those improbable assertions, Halstead has since adopted a more conciliatory tone, telling gay people at a public meeting: "We’ve got to work together. Be patient, and you wil! see that this is just 8 August 2009 77 members o£ Congress ask Obama to suspend As national gay leaders continue to beat up on President Barack Obama for moving too slowly- on his myriad campaign promises to tile GLBT community, 77 members of Congress have written to the president asldng him ro immediately suspend en[brcement of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy pending its repe,,a~! by Congress. Tile letter outlines a new, two-step repeal plan which begins with a request that the president ’direct the Armed Services nor to initiate any invesrigarion of service personnel to determine their sexual orientation, and that [he] instruct them to disregard thirdparty accusations that do not allege violations of the Uniform Code of Military Justice,’" said the Palm Center, a think tank at the University of California, Santa Barbara, that has focused extensively on the militaw’s ban on open gays. ~°The letter signals renewed efforts to stop gay discharges immediately while repeal legislation moves through Congress at a slower pace," the center said. On June 23, Obama rejected the proposal. The White House said: "President Obama remains committed to a legislative repeal of Don’t Ask, Dofft Tel!, xvhich he believes will provide a durable and lasting solution to this issue. He welcomes the commitment of these members to seeing Congress take action." Episcopal Church OKs gay- clergy, bishops 7he Anglican Communion has been deeply mired in gay angst since the Episcopal Diocese oflVew Hampshire consecrated openly gay and partnered V. Gene Robinson as its bishop in 2003. GLAADphoto The Episcopal Church’s House of Bishops and House of Deputies declared in mid-July that open gays and lesbians --celibate or not -- call serve as priests and bishops in the church. At thee church’s triennial general convention, held in Ana~heim, Calif., July 8-17, bishops voted for the policy 99-45 and deputies voted for it 155-40. Deputies who are clergy voted 77-19 and lay deputies voted 78-21. The move may well lead to a full rupture between the Episcopal Church and the worldwide Anglican Communion, which has been deeply mired in gay angst since the Episcopal Diocese ofNew Hampshire V. Gene Robinson as its bishop in 2003. Tile Episcopal Church is the U.S. branch of Anglicanism. "The Anaheim move was seen as. in essence, a flip-off by the Americans of the Anglican hierarchy and Anglican provinces in Africa and South America that strongly opposed Robinson’s consecration. De facto international Anglican leader Rowan Williams, archbishop of Canterbury, England, had urged delegates,to the U.S. convention not to make any decisions in the co,~ing days that could push us further apart. He later said he regretted that the convention had done just that with its gayclergy decision. Delegates also voted to allow local dioceses to bless same-sex marriages and civil unions if they want to, and launched a project m creare official liturgies for the blessings. Gay Pordand mayor cleared in Breedlove affair There is no credible evidence that Sam Adams, the gay mayor of Portland, Ore., had inappropriate sexual contact with Beau Breedlove before Breedlove turned 18, Oregon Attorney General John Kroger said June 22. Adams, 45, and Breedlove, 22, have acknowledged having sex in 2005 after Breedlove’s 18th birthday, but Breedlove also had claimed the pair passionately made our prior to his reaching file age of consent, which Adams denied. "There are serious questions about the credibility of Breedlove’s account, dueto his prior inconsistent statements, the lack of corroborating witnesses or evidence, his attempt to gain personally from matters related to his involvement with Adams and his prior criminal record," Kroger concluded. "There is insufficient evidence to charge, let alone convict, Adams with illegal sexual contact with a minor." The attorney general’s office interviewed 57 people and sifted through Adams’ and Breedlove’s e-mails and text messages in arriving at its conclusion. Breedlove later posed for the gay porn magazine Unzippea~ In 2006, he pleaded guilty to felony 2nd degree theft in a case that involved $750 worth of clothes ftom a Macy’s store in Haxvaii. The revelation of the brief affair nearly ended Adams’ career earlier this year, in part because he had lied about it when asked about it during the mayoral campaign, stating that it never happened. Summer Diversi y ’09 Eureka Springs. Augus 7-9 ~ DOMESTICATE Say "I DO" and register your love with a Domestic Partner Certificate One day these certificates will be highly sought after collector items on E-bay. Tile Courthouse is closed Saturday and Sunday...City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carrol Count), Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 AM - 12 Noon and 1:30 to 4:40 PM. ® YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES Money Tight? Pennies on the dollar: Tile Eureka yards sales are a top stop for the bargain hunter and antique queens. Tile 15~n annual Eureka Yards and Yards ofYard Sales. Friday and Saturday 7:00 AM to 3:00 PM. Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. ~ HEY GIRLS... LET’S iVlAKE HERSHEY’S CHOCOLATE SMORES! THEN GO SNIPE HUNTING! Camping for Summer Diversity has become an annual event for many. Stay dose to title City and book your weekend with the gay friendly Kettle Campground. (479) 253- 9100, 4119 E. Van Buren. ° DIVA SHOP! Over 150 unique shops and galleries. Be sure and shop the Sponsors of Eureka Pride--aBens Door, Mountain Eclectic, Fusion Squared, Byrds Eye View, Antique Affaire, Tile Tourist Shop, the Inn Convenience Store, Eureka Scents. Avery and Special DW DISCOUNT from Tinmaker & Glitz, 69 S. Main. ~ MIX & MINGLE The Pizza Sluts are hosting their second Diversity Welcome Mixer. The Pizza Bar, 13 N. Main, Friday, 6-8 PM. $5.95 pizza buffet. Beer specials. All ages admitted. Come feel the ~varmth...feel, touch, hug, squeeze, grope, claw, whip...Mix and mingle with the locals and visitors from around the globe. Free City p~arking after 6 PM. ERIC HIMAN DISCOVERS EUREKA Henri’s Just One More. 19 1A Spring Street. Friday Night Only! 9 PM. Eric goes solo with his first Eureka acoustical performance. ® CHER SOME TIKI LOVE ~e always popular Glam-aphonic, E lectronic, Disco Babee, Tiki Torch Dance Party! 75 S. Main Street. Homo to the exotic, diverse crowd of celebrities, beauties, rock stars, dance divas, and some good ole fashioned Str8t Bait! Cher and Cher Alike to perform LIVE on Saturday. Shmv times will be posted. MORTUARY SERVICE, =¢ o SPEED DIAL YOUR GAY SPIRITS ~Exrot Speed reads with Mistress Lynne. Yes, speed readings --Lynne will do a 10 card reading for 10 buclcs. Just takes a few minutes as opposed to the full deck 30 minute reading. Lynne uses Gay, and Lesbian ~Tarot cards for amazing GAY readings. DaBen’s Door, 45 1/2 Spring Street, across from Jack’s Place. ~ NEW DELHI Friday & Saturday live music 6:30 9:30 PM. 2 North Main. Al! ages are welcome at the New Delhi. Atmosphere aplenty. If you never dined at the New Delhi, you really should. ~ START YOUR ENGINES: SUMMER DRAG RACES Eureka Live’s Duck Tape Divas will host Drag Racing Friday & Saturday 9PM. Special Guest performer Drag King Billy Badass and the Amazing Magic of the Tinman. 34 North Main, Underground FATZ 59 CLASSIC ROCK AT JACK’S PLACE 37 Spring Street, Friday and Saturday, 9 PM Midnight. High Octane Jell-O-Shots for a Buck!!!Legendary ’HANDSOME LEE’ On The Door. It’s all happenin’ between Center and Spring. o HARDWARE AT THE YARD Lumberyard, 105 East Van Buren, The Yard has yet to disclose what they have in store. Whatever it is, they always find some way to celebrate!! EXORCISE THE HANGOVER DEMONS You want crazy? We’ll give ya crazy! A Diversity Breakfast you will never forget. Play" Name That Tung’ With Sandy at the Smokehouse Cafd, 580 West Van Buren, Saturday & Sunday, 8:30 A.M tol l:30ish, biscuits as big as your head. WIN Fabulous Prizes. Highly Recomended. o RAMPANT STREET SEX! Not really: Just some amusement for the tourist and to annoy the fundies. The Summer Diversity Public Display Of Affection Photo Shoot..12 noon, Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. Eureka Pride has treats to pass out for the first to come, first to get. Park Music Stylings, ! 2 - 2 PM Jones Van Jones, 2-4 PM 2 - 4 Cletus Got Shot, 4-6PM 4 - 6 The HillBenders. OPEN ARMS SPIRITUALITY Saturday.Discussion on the spiritual path of the Sufis with Sufi Master: Don Kitz at Eureka Springs Library Annex 2 - 4 PM Sunday Discussion on the spiritual path of Wicca with Wiccan Priest: Tymythy Aieran at Eureka Springs Library Annex 1 - 3PM ...... Continued See EUREY,~k Page-20 ~wcvv.metrostarnews.com #~®t~°oSTAR 9 N Wockner News Service gay sex ban struck down GLBTs decriminalized 17% of Following an @t-year court battle, India’s Delhi High Court legalizedgay sextidy 2 in aforcefid andpoetic ruling that had GLBTactivists ~ying in the courtroom. Marchersprotested the sodomy ban at lastyear’s Delhi gay prideparade. Wockner Newsphoto by Sonali Gulati Following an eight-year court battle, India’s Delhi High Court legalized gay sex July 2 in a forceful and poetic ruling that had GLBT activists crying in the courtroom. The ruling took effect immediately -- nationally -- and will remain in effect unless the Supreme Court reverses it. Several major Western media outlets erroneously reported July 2 that the ruling only applied in New Delhi. The court decision "read dowff’ Section 377 of the Indian Pena! Code so that it no longer applies to the activities of consenting adults. The section bans "carnal intercourse against the order of nature ,vith any man, woman or animal" under penalty of 10 years to life in prison. The court smashed 377’s application to gay people in myriad ways, finding it violated a constitutional guarantee of equality under the law, a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sex, and constitutional promises of personal liberty and protection of life. The ruling is chock-full of soaring statements in support of India’s GLBT population, including: * "The critninalisation of homosexuality condemns in perpetuity a sizable section of society and forces them to live their lives in {he shadow of harassment, exploitation, humiliation, cruel and degrading treatment at the hands of the law enforcement machinery. ... Section 377 IPC grossly violates their right to privacy and liberty embodied in Article 21 insofar as it criminalises consensual sexual acts between adults in private." * "Section 377 IPC targets the homosexual community as a class and is motivated by an animus towards this vulnerable class of people.... It has no other purpose than to criminalise conduct which fails to conform vdth the moral or religious views of a section of society. Tile discrimination severely affects the rights and interests of homosexuals and deeply impairs their dignity." * "When everything associated with homosexuality is treated as bent, queer, repugnant, the whole gay and lesbian community is marked with deviance and perversity.... The result is that a significant group of the population is, because of its sexual non-conformity, persecuted, marginalised and turned in on itself." * "We hold that sexual orientation is a ground analogous to sex and that discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is not permitted by Article 15 .... A provision of law branding one section of people as criminal based wholly on the State’s moral disapproval of that class goes counter to the equality guaranteed under Articles 14 and 15 under any standard of review." .... [R]ight to personal liberty’ and ’right to equality’ are fundamental human rights. which belong to individuals simply by virtue of their humanity: ... A Bill of Rights does not ’confer’ fundamental human rights. It confirms their existence and accords them protection." "~ "Indian Constitutional laxv does not permit the statutory criminal law to be held captive by the popular misconceptions ofwho the LGBTs are. It cannot be forgotten that discrimination is antithesis of equality and that it is the recognition of equality which will foster the dignity of every individual.... We declare that Section 377 IPC, insofar it criminalises consensual sexual acts of adults in private, is violative of Articles 21, 14 and t5 of the Constitution." What happens next? The national government could appeal the ruling to India’s Supreme Court, though that is considered unlikely; the national government could both accept the ruling and use it as ammo to introduce a bill in Parliament to duplicate the ruling in national law; and/or anti-gay parties to the lawsuit could appeal to the Supreme Court. But until such time as the Supreme Court overturns the Delhi ruling, India’s GLBTs -- who comprise more than 17 percent of all GLBT people on the planet -- are no longer criminals. India has a population of nearly 1.2 billion people. The erroneous reports that the ruling did not apply outside ofNew Delhi appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, on the Associated Press ~vire and elsewhere. (For correct information, see bit.ly/WeX,vO and bit. ly/7su4o.) "Every major media outlet in the ~vorld got this wrong because they don’t understand how the Indian courts work," said journalist Vikram Doctor of India’s Queer Media Collective. "It will apply nationally until somebody challenges that at the Supreme Court, which is where this case is going to end up anyway." In most common-law court systems, including India’s in this case, the decision of an appellate court binds lower courts within its territorial iurisdiction and also is the ’last’ word on the subject nationally unless a court of equa! authority elsewhere makes a contrary decision or the supreme court reverses the decision. An appellate decision also binds the parties in the case (which include the Indian government in this case) r~gardless ofwhere they are in the country. Meanwhile, gay pride parades were staged in four Indian cities June 27-28 -- New Delhi, Bangalore, Chennai and Bhubaneshwar. At least 2,000 people marched in New Delhi. Marches are still to come in Mumbai and Kolkata. 300 march in Sofia Around 300 people marched in the second gay pride parade in Sofia, Bulgaria, on June 27, twice as many as last year. Police and private security officers, hired by pride organizers, protected the marchers to prevent a recurrence of last year’s violence, when sldnheads and right-wing extremists attacked the parade with bottles, rocks, eggs, firecrackers, smoke bombs and Molotov cocktails, resulting in 80 arrests. This ),ear’s march, which traveled from the National Palace of Culture~to the Red House debate club, encountered nothing more serious than some booing. Organizers called for a law to bail anti-gay discrimination in employment. Liza does Paris Pride Singer andgay icon Liza Minnelli danced on a float in Paris’gayprideparadeflme 2Z To her left.: Gay Paris Mayor Bertrand DelanM. Photo by Nikolai Alekseev Singer and gay icon Liza Minnelli danced on a float in Paris’ gay pride parade June 27. Minnelli is the daughter of gay icon Judy Garland, whose death five days before the Stonewall Riots 40 years ago is thought to have contributed to the foul mood of the gays who decided to fight back against the police raid of the Stonewall Inn. "Freedom," Minnelli shouted from the float. About 700,000 people took part in the festivities. "We knew that she (Minnelli) had a concert this evening in Paris but when her agent told us that she could come, we thought it was a joke," Pride spokesman Philippe Castel mid Agence France-Presse. Berlin also held Pride on June 27. About 550,000 people turned out, reports said. Gay pride goes well in Jerusalem, for a change About 2,000 people marched in Jerusalem’s gay pride parade June 25 without incident, but for one tossed egg. Previous years’ marches have been met with violent protests, stabbings and the arrest of a man carrying a bomb. Police protection was reduced this year, to a mere 1,600 officers. No matter who you are o are on life’s journey, -Re~ere~d Dr. K~hy 3131 hi. Pennsylvania,Oklaho 405.525.9555 10 ~>{~’oSTAR August 2009 New group forms to help gay refugees A new organization in San Francisco aims to help GLBT refugees ~vho are fleeing sexual or gender-based violence in their native lands. Only through raising consdousness of LGBT refugee issues to governments, refugee organizations, communities and the media, will help come to these individuals, who are among the most persecuted people in the world today," the Organization for Refuge, Asylum & Migration said in a statement. The group provides free legal counsel for GLBT refugees who have escaped their home countries, and it will conduct ’\videranging international advocacy to advance the protection of all LGBT refugees and asylum seekers." "LGBT refugees often fall through the cracks of the international refugee regime," said Executive Director Neil Grungras. "They have escaped systematic hatred and violence at home, and their LGBT identity brings serious new threats to their safety and protection in countries of first asylum. MaW live in a toxic mix of destitution and desperation. "The recent surge in homophobic violence in Iraq has shone a spodight on the painful truths we’re dealing with first-hand in the Middle East. LGBTs are the most persecuted people in many regions of the world today. For every reported execution, there are likely tens of judicially or family-sanctioned murders." In recent months, several Iraqigays have been shot to death by militias and anti-~ay family or tribe members; Some have h~dtheir anuses glued shut by deah squadsi arid there have been allegaions of executions by the government. Reports in April said gay men were being captured and their anuses superglued with something called "American gum," after which they were being forced to ingest a diarrhea-causing substance and sometimes died. Scott Long, director of Human Rights Watch’s LGBT Rights Division, visited Iraq in April and "collected several accounts" of the practice, which reportedly can be seen in mobile-phone videos that have been passed around inside the country. Massive abuses are taking ~lace ~ Baghdad, and apparently in other cities in the center and south," Long said. "XWe may never know the full sweep and scope of the killings so far, amid a pervasive insecurity that brutalizes innumerable people and devastates multiple communities, but we ate ,d°ing everything we,.,.can to,, determine and ctocument accountability. Poles hate same-sex Seventy-five percent of Poles oppose legalization of same-sex marriage and 87 percent say gay couples shouldn’t be allowed {o adopt chi]’dren, a Gt~ Polonia poll has found. ~e poll is the latest example of the wide gulf on _~ay acceptance that separates Western Europe ~rom the European nations that used to be part of the Communist bloc. Same-sex marriage is legal in Europe in Belgium, the Netherlands, Norway, Spain and Sweden -- and most other Western European nations have civil-union laws for gay couples. Saudis arrest 67 crossdressers Police arrested 67 mostly Filipino men for wearing women’s clothing June 13 in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. The roundup took place at a private residence during a Philippines Independence Day party. The men were charged with imitating women and possessing alcohol. Similar arrests in the past have led to imprisonment and floggings. "If the police in Saudi Arabia can arrest people simply because they don’t like their clothes, no one is safe," said Human Rights Watch researcher Rasha Moumneh. "Arresting and charging people simply because the police decide that their appearance is unacceptable strikes at the heart of human freedom." Ukraine bans Briino Sacha Baron Cohen’s new gay flick Br~ino has been banned in Ukraine for alleged immorality, obscenity and impropriety. The Culture Ministry said it was displeased with the movie’s "artistically unjustified" gay-sex scenes, obscene language, nudity, graphic homosexuality, sadisra and anti-soc.ial behavior. In the U.S., the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation also has dissed the film. "The filmmakers wanted to use satire to highlight and challenge homophobia," said GLAM) President Jarrett Barrios. "But their film also reinforces troubling attitudes about gay people in ways that run counter to the intentions ofthe filmmal~ers. "The movie repeatedly builds entire scenes around stock stereotypes and situations that make gay people and families the butt of crude jokes. I can’t help but think of all the teenage kids already getting bullied, beat up and ridiculed for being -- or for being thought to be -- gay. For these kids, this movie will give their tormentors one more word in the anti-gay lexicon of slurs: Br~no." Some gay bloggers and Facebook users who have seen the film say GLAAD is humorless and needs to find its funnybone -- a charge the group occasionally has encountered before. Group says GLBT activists targeted after Honduran coup ~he International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission on July 17 condemned "the recent murder and arbitrary arrests of... LGBT activists in Honduras." "IGLHRC has learned that these human rights abuses have occurred as a direct result of the military coup on June 28 ... which ousted that country’s democratically elected government," the group said. A transgender activist xvas shot dead June 29 a block from the gay community center in the city of San Pedro Sula, IGLHRC said. "Local activists in Honduras claim she was killed by military police patrolling the streets," the organization reported. Five other GLBT activists -- Hdctor Licona, Donny Reyes, Patrick Pav6n, Claudia ......Continued see HONDURAS page 20 I million & prime minister’s wife at London Pride One million people, including Sarah Brown, wife of Prime Mimster Gordon Brown, took part m Londons gaypridepamdeJuly 4. ScotsGayph~to One million people and Sarah Brown, xvife of Prime Minister Gordon BroWn, took part in Londoffs gay pride parade Jnly 4. Mrs. Brown carried a red, white and pink Union Jack flag. Members of the military marched in uniform, as did firefighters and a contingent from British Airways. Prior to the march, Mr. Brown met with organizers at his residence and said theUnited Kingdom has made "massive strides" in the march toward gay equality. Marriage is almost the last thing on the agenda for British GLBTs. An existing civilpartnership law grants registered same-sex couples all the rights of marriage. Noted gay activist Peter Tatchell carried a sign in the parade that read: "Gordon & Sarah can marry, gays can’t. End the ban on gay marriage." He wore a T-shirt that said "Homo Libertd, Egatitd, Sexualit&" 1 million at Madrid Pride, 35,000 at Barcelona Pride About 35,000people marched in Barcelona’sfirst large-scale gayprideparadeJune 28. Photo by Yves Bohic A million people turned out for Madrid’s gay pride parade July 4. With same-sex marriage already legal and little left to fight for, organizers put forth the theme of greater freedom for GLBT young people in schools. In Barcelona, about 35,000 people marched June 28. It was the city’s first largescale pride parade. The procession began at Plaga de la Universitat and ended at Plaga d’Espanya. www.metrostarnews.com ~®t~oSTAR 11 p t the °°gay" in Christian, 12 ~;~STAR August 2009 AUGUST TH 2009 H O M A ~ENTER TO WIN BANTA www.metrostamews.com ~etroSTAR 13 14 #~troSTAR August 2009 We have found Heaven and it is BOOTHBA¥ HARBOR, MAINE by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Photo: From a room with a viw~ Topside Inn Onour recent 4 week driving trip to the east coast we visited a lot of cities, towns and villages and had a wonderful time at each of them. All were fun, interesting and exciting to visit however our stay in Boothbay Harbor, Maine was "beyond fabulous"! We first checked into the Topside Inn. It is located on the tallest hill in the city and was a 19th century sea captain’s home. They also have guest cottages to the side of the main house. They have a total of 21 guest rooms. The owners, Brian Lamb and Ed McDermott have mvned the Inn for several years and they certainly know how to do everything PJGHT !!!!! The views of the harbol; ships, seals, birds and the flora and fauna from the Inn are absolutely incredible! ~le view from our room looking out into the harbor was just like a movie set! This truly was Heaven! All guest rooms have their own private in-suite bathrooms, cable TV and dial-out telephone. King, queen, or two beds are available. All rooms include hair dryers, irons and ironing boards. Brealdqast is something that is a "DO NOT MISS". A fabulously scruraptious si~- down breal’~ast is served every morning in the breakfast room which overloolcs the bay. It iust doesn’t get any better! We me~ a lot of wonderful gnests from all over the country while staying there. Many guests return time and time again because of the great way that Brian and Ed makes all of their guests feel a~ home. Everything about this Inn is perfect! The owners should open a school for innkeepers on the right w~ay to run an hm. And did we mention the incredible views that we had from our room at the Iun? There’s the sunrise and the famous footbridge over the inner harbor, to the lighthouses, islands, out to sea, aud the western sunset. Their website is: http://www.topsideinn.com/and their toll free phone is 1-888-633-5404 or you can emait them at info@topsideinn.com. Downtown Boothbay is just a couple of blocks down the hill and it is filled ~vith quaint restaurants, galleries, shops and the the waterfront piers. You can take excursion boat trips ranging from an hour cruise to a full day at sea. Visit the Historical Society in Boothbay Harbor and the Museum in Southport to learn about ice cutting and ship building in days gone by. See the handiwork of local boat yards, which continue the tradition in state-of-the art materials, and keep aliv~ their heritage ofworld-class boat builders. Watch the lobstermen tend their traps, or put to sea for a close enconnter with a barnacleencrusted whale. Actually, Boothbay Harbor has been around since the 1700’S when it was a fishing village and shipbuilding center. By 1900 over 500 vessels had been built in the region. Tl~e first morning we visited the Botanical Gardens which was a real treat. Check it out at va*av.mainegardens.org. It is New England’s largest botanical garden on 248 waterfront acres with beautiful gardens, waterfront trails, sculpture and much, more. Enjoy collections of roses, native plants, rhododendrons and thousands of other perennials, ornamental trees, shrubs and spring bulbs. It is a ,vonderful walldng tour and you can either take a guided tour on visit it by yourself. They are open 9 to 5 everyday and all year long. No trip to Boothbay Harbor would be complete without taking a Schooner Eastwind cruise. Herb and Doris Smith have built six schooners and have sailed around the world t~vice with their children. They offer a 2 V2 hour cruise in the harbor where you can visit several small islands, birds, seals and other sea life and a lighthouse. They have 3 or 4 cruises everyday. Call 207.633.6598 to make a reservation. This is the finest Schooner cruise that we have ever taken. Herb and Doris really enjoy telling people about their travels and explains everything about the Schooner. This is the only cruise to take! And now, the best of the best when it comes to dining. In our travels from coast to coast we have never had such a fabulous dining experience as we had our last night in -Boothbay Harbor. Ports of Italy is a family owned and operated restaurant. Chef Davide Rossi and his wife Christa are the owners. We used taste buds that we have not used in years! We are NOT talking spaghetti and meatballs here, but a full range of northern Italian cuisine that is mouth-watering tasty. Between courses be sure and try their Intermezzo to cleanse your palette with the fabulously, delicious Lemon Sorbet and Vodka Slush. Just be sure and save room for some of the wonderful desserts. Their website is www.portsofitaly.com. As we said, in all of our travels, this is the finest dining experience that we have ever had! We had a 7 course meal that night and everything that we had was "beyond" fabulous and we know that we will never, ever have a dining experience so grand as this one. That is, until we return to Boothbay Harbor again. Boothbay Harbor is a wonderful place to spend a week or two and just relax, enjoy the sights and sounds of the area. Forget going to the Red Door for a complete rejuvenation ofyourself. Instead iusr go to Boothbay Harbor, and don’t forget to stay at the wonderful Topside Inn. Owners Brian and Ed are the best of the best. For more information go to ,vww. boothbayharbor.com. Always remember to have fun ,vhen traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! UCAN, INC TO FOCUS ON HIV/ AIDS PR£VENTION By Victor Gorin Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards ofChurch of the Open Arms UCC. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK In 2008 UCAN Inc. ( United Church of Christ MDS/HIV Network) was formed under the Health and Wholeness Ministry of the United Church of Christ to establish a program for people of faith to address the issues of HIV/MDS. This will feature a special focus on HIV prevention. Among 8 members of UCAN’s Board of Directors, one is the Reverend Loyce Newton-Edwards of UCC’s Church of the Open Arms in Oklahoma City, and another is the Reverend Leslie Penrose ofTulsa’s Community of Hope UCC Church. States Reverend Loyce, " I’m excited about this new ministry because through the United Church of Christ we can work vdth local community partners to develop HIVIMDS programs, including a focus on prevention. \Ve want to do something positive, to expand our territory of ministry to include a specific outreach to those infected and affected by HIV/MDS. " UCAN has applied for a grant from the Federal Center for Disease Control which would be over 2 million dollars, but as of press time it has nor yet been approved. This outreach would bring needed services to people in need wherever UCC churches are located, throughout the United States and abroad. www.metrostarnews.com }~®{~’oSTAR 15 @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @Angles, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa 18, August 2009 ARE YOU WONDERIN WHEI EVERYONE ItAS BEEN LATELY? Open Every Day 4pro to 2am 836 - 09q 5 Monda.y Friends and Family @ 6pm Dancers @ 10pm Tuesday $0.50 Draught Beer Night Dancers @ 10pm Wednesday Pool Tournament @ 8pm Dancers @ 10pm Thursday Bin" Bingo with E-Lyra St. James @ 7pm Dancers @ 10pm Friday Dancers @ 10pm Saturday Dancers@ 10pm Sunday Free Pool All Day DanCers Open Every Day at 2pro {9"!8} 437 -0449 Monday Movie Madness - Showtimes 7pm and lOpm Tuesday Drama Lite- All the Gay, Half the Drama Wednesday A Night in Vegas Drag Show @ 10pm Thursday $0.50 Draught Beer Night Friday Cabaret Night @ 8pm Saturday Big Gay Dating Game w/Daphne Rio @ 10pm Sunday Disco Night @ 9pm The Hideaway Tropical Lounge becomes the World’s Smallest Disco ww~v.metrostarnews.com @etroSTAR 19 By Camper English q-he Mixer Mix-up Much as I love the name, I can’t bring myself to consume what the kids today are calling the Skinny Bitch. This cocktail is usually made with a flavored vodka, Diet Coke. and a squeeze of lime. My issue with the drink doesfft involve the liquor, but with the artificially flavored and sweetened soda. But the Skinny Bitch is not really a drink focused on the Coke: it’s a drink focused on the Diet. Also focusing on the diet is a really they may as well be swilling cola. Now that I’m a fully functioning cocktail snob, I don’t drink the tonic water, sodas and juices that come out of the cocktail squirter in bars at all. I like fresh juices and mixers without artificial sweeteners - and it turns out these typically have less calories than do the sugared-up cranberry juice and sodas you’ll get in most bars anyway. At home. you can buy high quality mixers with natural and organic sweeteners for your cocktails: Out at the clubs though, you probably won’t have that option, so you can opt for diet soda or soda water as mixers. Or better yet, opt for that sugar-laden Apple-Cosmo-Choco~Tini at the bar. and then spend the night worldng off writer named Teresa Marie Howes, who wrote a whole book on diet drinks this year called Skinnydnis. Most of the recipes in the book cut calories in cocktails by adjusting the amounts of liqueurs and mixers. ,as distilled spirits like gin and vodka all have about the same -~ number of calories per volume. Her drinks call for light or diet iuices and sodas, and flavored water and other mixers instead of sugar- ~ ~:~ ~ laden liqueurs in ~_o~ recipes. She makes crab/placements like swapping out the orange liqueur in a Margarita with light orange juice and Sweet ’N Low. those calories on the dancefloor. Camper English is a cacktails and spirits writer andImblisher ofAlc~mics.com Census Bureau will count married gay couples as married The U.S Census Bureau said June 19 it will count married gay couples as married in the 2010 census. The prior plan had been to retabulate such couples as "unmarried partners," an existing census-form category, because of the federal ban on recognition of samesex marriages. Gay activists, as part of their recent broadside against President Barack Obama’s inaction on gay issues, had srepped up their criticism of the plan to skew the data. Gay marriage is legal in three states and wil! be legal in five, six or raore by the time of the census. One set of mixers that are often mixed tip are soda water and tonic water. They, both have water in the name so you can understand the confusion, but the two are vastly different liquids. Soda water is carbonated water, and mixes well with vodka. (Gin not so much.l Tonic water pairs well with more spirits, and is consumed in different countries with vodka, gin, rum. tequila, and even Port wine. But tonic began as a tonic - a medicine used to prevent and cure malaria. It gets its flavor from the very bitter quinine that was once harvested from the bark of the cinchona tree, niclmamed the "fever tree" as it cured the malarial fever. To make the powdered bark palatable, explorers and soldiers in mosquito-intense countries around the world added sugar to the solution. Later, gin was added and the G&T was born. Hooray for medicine! The important thing to note in that last paragraph is the use of sugar. Its presence (or more commonly, the presence of high fi’ucmse corn syrup) in drinks means it has those calories you’ve been trying to avoid. Many people think they’re sipping a diet drink when they choose tonic water, but TABC says Texas bar raid was a big mistake By Rex Wockner The head of the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission told the gay newspaper Dallas Voice on July 16 that his officers committed multiple "clear violations" of agency policy when they and local police raided the gay bar Rainbow Lounge in Fort Worth on June 28, the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. The violent raid put patron Chad Gibson in a hospital intensive-care unit with bleeding on his brain. Two other patrons sustained lesser injuries and several patrons were arrested for the crime of having drunk too much. "I don’t think you have to dig very deep to figure out that TABC has violated some of their policies," Alan Steen said. "XTqe know that and I apologize for that.... It’s real dear that however it is that ~ve were doing business that night is not the typical TABC." "You can read (our) policy and you can figure out really quickly, TABC shotfldn’t have even been there," he said. "If our guys would have followed the damn policy, we wouldn’t even have been there.... We don’t participate in those kinds of inspections when there’s not probable cause or reasonable suspicion or some public safety matter to be inspected." * THREE IMPROMPTU POOL PARTEAZE ON TAP FOR SATURDA~ The guests of the TRADEWINDS, home of the "HIDDEN POOL" are welcome to host their own s~vim party. Invite your friends over for an impromptu after dark ........dip in the pool Reserve your Tradewinds themed room nmv by calling David or Terry (479) 253-9774, request the Summer Diversity Weekend rate. Land O Nod aka:The Pink Palace, POOL PART~. Guests are welcorne to invite their new friends, old friends, and even the Xfriends over for a swim... No glass...Plenty of towels...Pool honrs will be extended until 12 midnight... Toll Free: 1-800-526-3263 Local Phone: (479) 253-6262. Rooms as low as 59.00 a night...mffst request DW rate. Alvin & Charlie are hosting a PRIVATE MEN ONLY POOL PARTY at their private residence. MUST drop by the Byrds Eye View, 36 North Main or Contact EurekaPride Sponsors Alvin & Charlie for an invitation and details. Toll Free: 888 210-8401 ° STRADDLE THIS... For those who enjoy the thrill of wrapping your legs around a tornado of pounding pistons, THE DIVERITY BIKER’S OZARKS FUN RUN’ Sat. August 8, 11 AM, Planers Parking Lot Hwy 23 N. (Main St.) and Hwy. 62. This ride will require a helmet. Also, bring a bathing suit, ifyou want to take a dip. There will be a lunch stop during the ride. ~ NOWWE’RE HUNGR~q FREE GOURMET BUFFET & ARTIST RECEPTION at the new Dreamweaver Gallery, 184 N. Main. Gallery owners David artd Melanie go top chef with a full dinner buffet. Drop by for a culinary adventure, art, and meet their featured guest, art photographer Matt Johnson. Check out all the Eureka art during the "2ND Saturday ~Gallery Stroll~,’ on Saturday from 3-8 PM. SHAYdN NOT STIRRED! Henri’s Just One More. 19 V2 Spring Street. Saturday Night Karaoke Dance Party with DJ’S Shakin" not Stirred. IMPORTA_NT REMINDER- BE COOL, BE SEEN, BE SAFE: avoid those Diversity buzz-killers like getting a DUI or trying to find a parking place downtown. Eureka Springs Limousine. $5.00 point to point. Call 479-363-6055 for your PICK-UP! Cervantes and Lizeth iivila -- were arrested, detained and beaten June 29 in Tegucigalpa, the capital, IGLHRC said. "Nae arrests occurred while the activists were participating in a demonstration in support of the democratically elected government," the group said. The five activists are well-known GLBT leaders. "The recent coup in Honduras is an illegal assault on democracy that violates the rights of all Honduran citizens, including those ,vho identify as LGBT," said IGLHRC Executive Director Cary Alan Johnson. "We especially deplore the vicious murder and arbitrary arrests ofLGBT people in the wake of this crisis." 20 August2009 by Jack Fertig August 2009 "Keep it light, Sagittarius" Mercury in Leo trine to Eris provokes bold partisan assertions. There’s healthy room for that, but it can go overboard. Mercury then opposes Jupiter, Neptune and Chiron in Aquarius. leading through confusion, perhaps to improvement in ideals and philosophy. "You stand a better chance of improving yourself, not othe rs. ARIES (Narch 20-Apri~ 19): Culture clash can give you a better sense of who you are and who you’re not, but that will be challenged again when you reassess political ideals. Confusion and change are necessary steps to growth. Just walk through it. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - Nay 20): Pride in home and family can clash with honesty about sameness. Ask yourself the hard questions that have never been answered. "Your insights could lead to reconsidering career goals. New answers there would also be helpful! GEN~NI~ (Nay 21- June 20): Your brilliant ideas can be very helpful in political long-range planning, but they wil~ start up arguments over principles, A real world approach may be needed to get idealist notions down to earth, but grounding will not come easily. CANCER (June 21o Ju~y 22): Know your worth and hang out with the right people in your profession, those whose level you should be at. Strutting you~ Stuff in the Sack - maybe some exhibitionism?, can open up new channels for fantasy and exploration. LEO (July 23 -August 22): The simplest observation can quickly become an ideological or academic thesis. That could be good, clarifying your own sense of where you stand. In relationships, however, your position may baffle you. Enjoy the mystery; it won’t last long. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): That buzz in your brain, perhaps about mortality or sexual identity, could prove enlightening. See where it leads. Worries about health should motivate you to better exercise and hygiene. (There’s always room for improvement!) LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Playful banter with friends can lead you into a situation, pushing you to take sides, or you mig ht be able to negotiate a common ground between opposing camps. Solutions may defy logic. Creativity and intuition serve much better! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21}: You can make an effective gobetween for colleagues and bosses. Being clear about which side you’re on will make you more effective. Your focus on career can be a distraction from problems at home. Your distraction could even be the problem. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): You need a forum for your opinion. Keep it light and playful and more people will listen. Appeal to emotions more than logic. Sticking to ideals and principles may be safer than citations that you’re "reasonably sure" of. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Leaning on your own ethnic identity, or your ethnic preferences, can help you strut your hot stuff. Sexual preference for a certain skin color may be racist, or not. It’s all in the context and attitude. Checking your own couldn’t hurt. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with your partner are inflamed by a sense of competition. Remember, you’re on the same side! Together you can be unbeatable. Selfdoubt can be a good thing if it leads you to better answers. HSCES (February 19 - Narch 19): If you must argue with colleagues, make sure it’s about something important; remember you’re ultimately on the same team. Is it really something at work that’s bothering you? Take time out, and meditate to find the real problem. 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With this concept in mind, the compaW built Studio K: a 300 seat, $6 million theater, dedicated to the creation of new art. This Is Your Life vcas among the first works to be presented in the new theater. Created loosely on the concept of the 1950’s television show that bore the same name, this work merges drama, humor, acting and stunning dancing to tell the stoW of its characters. Tulsa Ballet will perform according to the fi~llowing schedule at The Joyce ~neater in New’~%rk City from August 10 - 15: Monday - \Vednesday at 7:30 pro, Tnursday- Saturday at 8pm and Sunday- at 2pro. Tickets for these performances are $19; $29; $39 and can be arranged by calling JoyceCharge a 212-242-0800 " or online at "~mv.joyce.org. NOTE: Ticket prices are subject to change. %e Joyce Theater is located at 175 Eighth Avenue at I9th Street in Chelsea. If you can’t make the trip to see the company in New York, Tulsa Ballet is hosting a Big Apple Preview- Night in Tulsa on N~ursday, August 6 at Studio K, 1212 East 45th Place. Tickets are still available for this special event featuring a wine and hor d’ouevres reception at 6:30 pm followed by the performance at 7:00 pm. Tne evening will culminate with champagne and desserts on stage with the compan> Tickets can be purchased by contacting Amy Miller, Director of Development at (918) 392-5933. The 2009-20 I0 Tulsa Ballet Season begins in October with the Oklahoma premiere of Ben Stevensoffs spectacular production of Dracula that will be performed in Tulsa and Oklahoma City during the Halloween season. Subscription packages are on sale now and can be ordered by calling the Tulsa Ballet box office at (918) 749- 6407. For more information about Tulsa Ballet, please visit ~.~xvw.tutsaballetaorg. 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Clark Obama OKC pride Oklahoma News Portland Pride celebration Qscopes Sally Kern same sex marriage snap shots stage Stonewall TABC travel Ukraine violence World Gay Rodeo finals https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e208ae2467acdf8f6091484385748583.jpg 15bd0403ba57fe81147c641b3d6966f7 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fda9c945eb7918511e42f653a03c29c1.pdf c00b651bb5318db03236e698530267db PDF Text Text Gift Guide THE VOLUME 6 PREMIER SOURCE ISSUE 12 FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA Twitter.com/MetroStad~ews ® Other Options; 20 years and going strong Celebrating with an open house for everyone By Robin Townsend Contributing Viriter MetroStarNews.com 1,2009 Fed partner benefits bill advances in House By Lisa Keen Keen News Service A House committee on Wednesday evening approved a bill to provide equal benefits to gay federal employees with domestic partners, but not without a political slugfest first over whether the legislation is an attempt to undermind the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). The clash November 18 occured in the House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform over the Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligations Act of 2009 (HR 2517). The bill seeks to provide all federal employees with the same benefits whether they are married to a person of the opposite sex or are in a long-term intimate relationship with a person of the same sex. It was sponsored by openly gay Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisc.) and had the spoken support of President Obama. All speakers for the bill were Democrats; Other Options and Friends Food Pantry’s board President Robert Painter with Executive Director Mary Arbuckle. The organization won an award this year at the National Philanthropy Day event hosted by the Association ofFundraising Professionals, Oklahoma Chapte~ The award reads, "Spirit ofPhilanthropy awards; For unmatched dedication to the people who are living with HIVAIDS. " OY-A_Ak-IOMA CITY, OK__ Since 1989 Other Options in Oldahoma City has provided professional, consistent services to PLWA’s and disabled individuals, focusing on the impact HIV/MDS has had in the lives of those they serve. The organization was founded by Cookie Arbuclde who was a Social Worker (MSW) at ChildreNs Hospital and Oklahoma Memorial Hospital (now OU Medical Center). "In 1988 morn was asked by an Oklahoma Governors Task Force who saw a need for a guide book for people living with HIV/_AADS and medical professionals," said Mary Arbuclde, Other Options Executive Director. "They hired Cookie to do this because of her background and because she was one of the founders of the ASP [AIDS Support Program] organization. "That was where the first book, t/kids for HIV/AIDS’ came from." The second edition gray paperback is the most popular and is four times larger. "The reason she [Cookie] started Other Options in 1989, was due to a generous grant by the Sarkey’s foundation. We realized the need for a non-profit to continue our services to the HIV/MDS community. Back then the patients were about 90% gay men. There were some other cases such as hemophilia, but homosexuality was the primary commonality." During the early days of Other Options there was a great need for the social services part of HIV/AIDS care. "Back then the patients rarely lived long enough to get their Social Security benefits. When we told a person they were HIV positive we explained things, but they knew their life expectancy w~s very limited even with AZT. As drug combinations have improved and there is more research, life expectancies are longer. "Our services are now more geared to improving lives, allowing people to live more productive lives. Now we see them living full lives." Today some needs are the same while some have changed "One of our methods of assistance is to give people the nutritional values they [clients] need to help them lead a more productive life, and that is what we are able to do with the Friends Food Pantry," adds Arbuckle. "We also added the HOPWA last June and service 125 [clients] there." (HOPWA- Housing Options for People Living With AIDS). Charla Stevenson is the Housing Case Manager at Other Options who manages that part of the organization. ......Continued See AWARD Page-14 all speakers against it were Republ~,can.s. :~mocrats emphasized the bill s aim to end discrimination against LGBT federal employees by providing them with equal pay for equal work. Republicans emphasized their concern that the bill is trying to circumvent DOMA and widespread public sentiment as illustrated by 31 states voting to ban same-sex marriage. The proceedings were web-streamed live on the Committee’s website but are no longer available there. The debate was a classic discourse between pro and anti-gay forces. Pro-gay legislators talked about fighting discrimination and protecting equal rights. Anti-gay forces talked about opposing special rights and protecting traditional marriage. Rep. Jim Jordan (R-Ohio), hunched over his papers during much of the proceeding and often turning away whenever an opposing legislator responded to him, offered an amendment to stipulate that nothing in the bill would modify, supersede, or otherwise affect DOMA. Rep. Edolphus To~vns (D-NY), chairman of the House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform, spoke forcefully against the Jordan Amendment saying "same-sex domestic partnership laws to do not affect DOMAY Rep. Gerald Connolly (D-Va.) opposed it, too, saying the purpose was clearly intended "to nt~ify the entirety of the effort here today." The amendment eventually failed on a vote of 22 to 12. Republicans lodged a number of contradictory complaints about the legislation. For instance, Rep. Darrell Issa (R-San Diego) complained that the bill would enable "any two individuals" to qualify for benefits, while Rep. Jeff Fortenberry (R-Neb.) complained that any two individuals would not be able to qualify. ’~klthough this legislation purports to stand on a foundation of nondiscrimination," said Fortenberry, "it appears to diminish the standing of federal employees who may share the same dwelling and collaborate intimately with an immediate or extended family member of the opposite sex in a nonsexual relationship to meet their basic financial needs." His example was a nephew caring for an aunt with cancer. Then he continued. "What about those who are in nurturing relationships neither marked by physical intimacy nor qualifying for married dependent status but share a specialness of bond based on a commitment to duty or to friendship," said Fortenberry. His example for this was "a friend helping a friend of the opposite sex if they were unemployed." Rep. Jason Chaffetz (R-Utah) repeatedly stated that he was "standing tall for traditional marriage." He offered two amendments: one to require the president to certify that the bill does not increase premiums for existing federal employees before the bill can go into effect; the other to require the Government Accountability Office (GAO) to study the impact on premiums. ....... Continued See FED BENEFITS Page-4 �T~ATS W~AT ~APS $ WILL COST THE AVE~AG~ OKLAhOmA ~I~ ~SIDENT IN SAL~S TAX A $280 CONVENTION CENTER What’s new £or the Diversity Business Association in 2010 ? Sooner State Rodeo Association presents the Festival of Trees Auction By Robin Townsend Contributing Writer TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa based Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) will host their Annual Holiday Festival of Trees, Saturday October 28th from 7:30-11PM at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa. The SSRA fundraising event will benefit SSRA and their 2009 charitable partners. The event will feature Cocktails and Hors D’oeuvres plus a Live Auction of 7 Fully Decorated Christmas Trees beginning at 8:30PM. The trees have been decorated by local interior designers, organizations, and individuals from the Tulsa GLBT Community. AN AQUATIC CENTER DOWNTOWN PARK DEVON ENERGY WE ’T AFFORD TO GIVE THE CITY A BLANK CHECK. Paid for by Concerned Citizens 2 ~tet~’oSTAR Current DBA board members at the 2009 Oklahoma Ci(y Pride parade this summer; Money Milbu~w, President, Gina Love, member-at-large and Leslie Blab; l~ce President. Dorner photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma City’s premier business organization for the LGBT community will have an overhaul soon. Plans for a new website, a rate increase and new board members appear to be in store for the Oklahoma City based gay and lesbian business and professional group. So what else is new for DBA for 20!0? Looks like there will be a new President with ~h~ f~mlt resigfiation ofM0n~ Milbur~ Tnere has been at least one members identified who may fill the roll, but at the time of this story board members have not yet been voted on. "I am resigning effective Dec. 3t, 2009. As of right now, rates will be increasing as some point in 2010 and the projected new membership will be $149.00/yr," said Milburn in his last interviev¢ to the Metro Star as DBA board president, q]ae current membership rate is $49 for a single membership. "A brand new dynamite website will be included as well as some great advertising opportunities and such. There will also be members only activities." Ti~e goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the LGBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. This includes businesses in the area that are gay or gay-friendly that can benefit from likeminded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. DBA also has a presence each year with Pride events and, for the first time, had a group who walked in the parade. There are also plans underway to hire a staff member to help the organization run more smoothly. ’%Ve just realized that we have to hire someone to make this machine run and we need to do it sooner than later," adds Milburn. "I’m not thinking that this will happen as of January 1 due to getting bids for the site and finding a DBA staff member but it is happening or DBA wil! just go away and become a social thing that requires no dues no planning, etc." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit ~w,vw.dbametro.org. Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) is Tulsa and Northeastern Oklahoma’s gay rodeo association, and is a recognized member of the International Gay Rodeo Association. SSRA was founded in 2000 and is a legal 501 3(c) and is dedicated to the promotion of the western lifestyle throughout Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma. www.soonerstaterodeo.com Picket Organized to Protest Sarah Pa~in’s Book Signing OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ When Republican past vice presidential candidate and 2012 presidential hopeful Sarah Palin holds her booksigning in Norman she may encounter more than she bargained for. On a national tour to promote her new book, "Going Rogue" she is making her only Oklahoma stop at Hasting’s Bookstore, located in Norman at 2300 W. Main from 7 p.m. until 8 p.m on Thursday, December 3. Organized by OKC gay activist Keith Kimmel, he gives his reasons for the protest. " I’m organizing this event because I don’t want Palin to be my next president. I find her homophobic views to be repugnant and I think my sentiment is shared by many. I’m compelled to say something and I hope others will join me." Those who share his views are welcome to join this event. For more information contact Keith Kimmel, http:// vrww.facebook.com/1/cee43; 405 886 5095. Oklahoma Weather Forecast for December 2009 .... : Dec 1-5: Rain, then sunny, mild; Dec 6-8: Shmvers, then sunny, cold; Dec 9-13: R~in and snow, then sunny, cold; Dec 14-18: Rain, then sunny; mild; Dec 19-20: Showers, then colder; ~ Dec 21-25: Sunny, then rain, warm; Dec 26’28: Rain, then colder; ~. Dec 29-31: Sunn)~ warm. Avg. temperature 520 (40 above avg.); precipitation -.5 (avg.); December 2009 �Memoriam Heather Harp Howland September 9th, 1968 - November 4th, 2009 TULSA, OK Heather Harp Howland was born in Oklalloma. City on September 9th, 1968 and transitioned from this life on November 4th, 2009. Her early years were spent in San Antonio Texas. Her family moved to Tulsa when she was 14. She attended Kemper Military Academy in Boonville Missouri, almamater of Will Rogers, and graduated from Tulsa Memorial High School. She majored in journalism/ marketing a the University of Oklahoma. She is preceded in death by her Mother, Sharon. She is survived by her father John Howland of San Antonio Texas, and her brother Patrick Howland and his wife Patrice Pratt of Tulsa, and her nieces Arie! Pratt of Pennsylvania, Sierra Pratt of Tulsa and nephews, Rick Pratt of Pennsylvania, Shay Howland of Tulsa and Seth Howland of Tulsa. Heather lived in San Antonio in her young adult years and then in 1995 she returned to Tulsa to care for her mother. She opened England & Harp, a successfu! antique and design store on Cherry Street in 1997. Her eye for design was impeccable. As a member of the Tulsa LGBTQ community, Heather snpported the mission of Oldahomans for Equality- (Old’q) formerly tmown as Tnlsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). She volunteered her time and efforts at the Pride Store, co-directed the Pride Events and supported other fundraising events. Heather had lots of interests and talents. She loved softball and played catcher while at OU and would gladly tell you that her knees haven’t been the same since. She could belt out a song, deliver a sermon and demonstrate an Academy Award winning speech upon request. She was a founding member of \%Zomen of Council Oak in 2003 and a supporting member of Sisters in Song. Heather developed liver disease in 2008 and was on the liver transplant waitint list. Carol Brown and friends hosted a fundraising effort in September 2009 at Club 209 to assist with current medical bills and future transplant costs. A memorial service was held on November 7th. 2009 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality- Center located at 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa Oklahoma. She will be missed. She will forever be remembered. Counci Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Some Enchanted Season December 1st, 4th, & 5th, 2009: 8pro TULSA, OK (PR) Fresh sounds of celebration and traditional favorites will once again fill Trinit~;s beautiful sancruary as Council Oak Mens Chorale presens their 2009 holiday concert. This specially selected blend of both timeless and soon-to-be classics is sure to leave you feeling warm and ~’estive... some might even say enchanted! The concert will be held at the Trinity Episcopal Church located at 5th & Cincinnati Avenue. Tickets are ~15. for more information call 918.748.3888 or visit counciloalcorg. ~¢.metrostarnews.com MISS BAMBOO 2010 CROWNED By Staff Reporter Miss Bamboo 2009 L~y Katheryn and Miss Bamboo 2010 Dominique LaRue. StaffPhoto TULSA, OK __ No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute cdebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Although this year’s contestants did break with tradition and were quite stylish. Dominique LaRue had the crowd in uncontrollable laughter with her Old W-,man on a Walker comedy routine. Christmas Eve Candlelig Thursday December 24, 8 Dominique LaRue perfbrming her comedy skit. Staffphoto Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. HOPE Clinic of Tulsa was the r4cipient of this year’s proceeds of $633.00. HOPE offers a variety of services for people with HIV/STD. For confidential information or referrals call the statewide HIV/STD resource hotline operated by trained HOPE staff 1800-535-2437. The MC’s for the show were Kris Kohl and Earlina Derrick, two well known divas of Tulsa. Flowers were provided by Glenpool Flmvers and Gifts. First runner up for the Miss Bamboo 2010 title was Serina Ashley who’s interpretation of a drunken platinum blonde slut was very convincing, but she showed way too much skin, nasty! 3131 N. Pennsylvania, Oklaho! 405.525.9555 8an ’uptcy o Civil Rights *Criminal Empl ,ment * Family Law * Litigation N.W 13th Street ahoma city, oK 7s 0s Conspicuously absent from this years entertainment line-up was self proclaimed Empress of the Bamboo, Miss Mona Lott who some suspect has been committed to Laureate for observation by her now legal husband. ¢~I<>t~oSTAR 3 �Prop 8 repeal petitions begin circ ation Tt~e state of California on Nov. 16 approved the start of signature-gathering for a voter initiative to repeal Proposition 8 in November 2010, the group Love Honor Cherish reported. The initiative ~vould remove from the California Constitution the sentence, "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California," and replace it with, "Marriage is between only two persons and shall not be restricted on the basis of race, color, creed, ancestr)~ national origin, sex, gendm; sexual orientation, or religion." The measure further states: "To protect religious freedom, no court shall interpret this measure to require any priest, minister, pastor, rabbi, or other person authorized to perform marriages by any religious denomination, church, or other non-profit religious institution to perform any marriage in violation of his or her religious beliefs. ~e refusal to perform a marriage under this provision shall not be the basis for lawsuit or liability, and shall not affect the tax-exempt status of any religious denomination, church or other religious institution." Repeal advocates must collect 694,354 valid voter signatures by April 12. To be safe, that means collecting around 1 million total signatures. ~e 2010 repeal can~paign is a grassroots effort that does not have support from large GLBT groups, many ofxvhich have said or suggested they want to wait until 2012 to attempt to undo Prop 8. The Courage Campaign had earlier supported the 2010 effort but later complained of deficiencies in governing structure, expertise, research and funding. For more information, see SignForEquality.com. Gay Euro MPs denounce Ugandan bill Members of the European Parliament’s Intergroup on LGBT Rights have strongly denounced the "Anti-Homosexuality Bill 2009" pending in Uganda’s Parliament. "The proposed legislation includes provisions to punish those alleged to be lesbian; gay or bisexual with life imprisonment and, in some cases, the death penalty; any parent or teacher failing to report their LGBT children or pupils to the authorities.~zcith a fine eqtiivalent to $2,650 or three years’ imprisonment; and landowners providing shelter to LGBT people with seven years’ imprisonment," the MEPs said Nov. 9. Co-President Ulrike Lunacek said: "I strongly appeal to Ugandan politicians to be as courageous as they were when overthrowing the Idi Amin regimel and not to ban Ugandan citizens from being free to love whomever they wish. Homosexuality is nothing un-African; it has existed at all times and in all cultures." In the U.S., lesbian U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis., and three other members of Congress have sent a letter to U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton urging her to use the full force of her o~ce to condemn the bill. 4 l:~;~ot oSTAR Brazilian man barred from living in U.S. with American husband ~ne Obama administration let the clock run out Oct. 23 on helping a Brazilian man who wants to return to Massachusetts to live with his U.S. husband. Tim Coco and Brazilian Gen&io Oliveira married in Massachusetts in 2005 and own a home together in a Boston suburb. Oliveira was sent home in August 2007 after losing an asylum case based on anti-gay persecution he said he experienced in Brazil. He later also lost a case in which he sought to return to the U~S. based on his marriage to Coco. U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder had until Oct. 23 to overrule that decision on humanitarian grounds. He had been urged to do so by U,S. Sen. John Kei~ry, D-Mass. The anti-gay Defense of Marriage Act, passed during Bill Clinton’s presidency, prevents the U.S. government from recognizing same-sex spouses for any reason. President Obaa~aa has said repeatedly that he supports DOMA’s repeal and the extension to same-sex couples of every right and obligation of marriage -- but he has taken no concrete steps to achieve his stated goals. Coco and Oliveira have said they may sue the federal government over DOMA in hopes of being reunited. Bill Clinton said that he had been "wrong" in opposing same-sex marriage. Spealdng to CNN’s Anderson Cooper, Clinton said: "I realized that I was, you know, over 60 years old, I grew Up at a different time, and I was hung up about the word (marriage). I had all these gay friends; I had all these gay couple friends, and I ~vas hung up about it. Aud I decided I was wrong. That our society has an interest in coherence and strength and commitment and mutually reinforcing loyalties, then if gay couples want to call their union marriage and a state agrees, and several have no,a, or a religious body will sanction it -and I don’t think the state should be able to stop the religious bodies from saying it -- I don’t think the rest of us should get in the way of that. I think it’s a good thing, not a bad thing." "I just realized that I was, probably for, maybe just because of my age and the way I’ve grown up, I ~vas wrong about that," he continued. "I just had too many gay friends. I saw their relationships. I just decided I couldu’t, I had an untenable position." As~ president, Clinton signed into law the Defense of Marriage Act, which prohibits the federal government fi’om recognizing s~xrne-sex marriages and a~rms that states don’t have to recognize other states’ same-sex marriages. The first amendment failed. And Rep. Mike Quigley (D-Chicago) amended the latter to have the GAO study the effect of extending benefits to domestic partners on the government’s ability to recruit and retain employees. In response to GOP complaints that two people of the same sex might pretend to be in a domestic partnership in order to gain benefits, Rep. Steve Lynch (D-Mass.) said: "I dofft think there’s a ,vhole lot of people out there, given the discrimination ,ve have against gays and lesbians in our society, trying to pretend that they’re gay or that they’re lesbian so they can get favorable treatment. That’s not the reality of today’s world." Rep. Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-DC), an African American, also rebuffed such arguments, saying "I know discrimination when I see it. This is the opposite. ~is is a civil rights bill." Norton noted, with some irony, that some years ago Republicans refused to allow a domestic partnership bill in Washington, D.C., because the bill attempted to include domestic partners and other family members living together. Chairman Towns rebutted Republican concerns that the bill would cost too much, noting that only about 15,000 to 30,000 new enrollees are expected to join federal health insurance rolls~as a results of the legislation representing 0.3 percent. Howevere Issa came back claiming that the LGBT community frequently cites a figure of 10 percent for its representation in the population. (In fact, the community hasn’t used a figure like that since the 1970s. More recent scientific surveys, according to gay statistical expert Gary Gates have been very consistent in showing that something like 2-4% of adults identify as LGB. The bill now goes to the floor in the House. Senators Joe Lieberman (I-Conn.) and Susan Collins (R-Maine) introduced a version of the bill into the Senate. In a related development, a judge for the 9th Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals ruled November 18 that the federal government violated the constitutional ~ights of a gay federal attorney when it denied him health coverage for his same-sex spouse. The two men were married in California during a period of five months last year when same-sex couples could obtain marriage licenses. Gay cop gay-bashed in Liverpool, England A 22-year-old off-duty trainee police officer was seriously gay-bashed outside the gay bar Superstar Boudoir in Liverpool, England, on Oct. 25. James Parkes was set upon by a gang of 20 youths and suffered multiple skull fractures and a broken cheek bone and eye socket. He was hospitalized in critical condition before being released Oct. 30 to recuperate at home. Citing language used by the bashers, police have deemed the assault a homophobic hate crime. Twelve of the alleged assailants, some of whom are ~s young as 13, have been arrested. December 2009 �love the Democratic Good news as LGBT’s Party but Will I Respect Mysd£in the Morning ? grow o der By Robin Townsend Contributing X~Triter by James Nimrod OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As we GLBTs emerge sweaty and disheveled fi’om our post-coital ruckus in Maine, I’m reminded that this is America and everything is for sale, including our gay/lesbian equality-that’s the American way. You want to lmow how we’re going m sell it? In 1764 an Italian nobleman named Cesare Beccaria wrote, "If we glance at the pages of history, we will find that laws, which surely are or ought to be compacts of free men, have been for the most part a mere tool for the passions of some." I’m referring to the heartbreakingly close, yet lost Maine election early in November where we gays/lesbians thought we had a better-than-good chance of winning through the ballot box the recognition of our civil equality under the law. Unfortunately; the Religious Right has used the referendum petition process in 31 states ro turn our citizenship into raffle tickets for discrimination where the prize is our continued lack of full equality under the law. Our civil rights canse has been de-railed 31 times at the bal!ot box by the usual degeption of the Biblically-dduded using the prejudiced superstitions that gays recruit and stalk children and teenagers. Nor only are gays/lesbians still secondclass raxpayers, all of the residents of those 31 states, regardless of sexual orientation, are also honorary members of the Mormon, Roman Catholic, and Southern Baptist denominations, to name only three of the biggest religious oppressors in the USA. I say this because its the oppressor’s anti-gay religious POVs that have become encoded into civil law. ~e United Church of Christ (UCC), Unitarian, and Reform Judaism adherents have 1Sassed guidelines allowing their clergy to perform their mvn versions of same-gender marriage without recognition from the resident state. Their First Amendment religious freedom is blocked by the actions and money of the theocrats ~vhose dogma trumps all attempts at fairness and fulfillment of our lives. Justice guaranteed by the Constitution is thwarted by ignorance and prejudice. Only Iowa, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, and Connecticut have legislatively passed marriage equality for same-gendered Americans. T’ne state of Washington earlier this month rejected the homo-haters attempt to overturn a law called, "Everything but Marriage." Since the ballgt box/clvil rights rathe process is spent and flaccid, activists John Aravosis and Joe Sudbay are calling for a boycott or a withholding of contributions -- Don’t Ask, Don’t Give -- to the Democratic Party until ~ve get the results they’ve promised us for years, like passage of employment protection (ENDA), removal of marriage discrimination (DO!vIA), and the privilege to serve in the military (DADT), ....... Continued see VIEW" POINT page vw,~v.metrostarnews.com LGBT activist and communi{y leader, Rob Howard of Oklahoma City. Dorn’er photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __In October, Health and Human Services (HHS) Secretary Kathleen Sebelius announced plans to establish the nation’s first national resource center to assist communities across the country in their efforts to provide services and supports for older lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) individuals. It is estimated that as many as 1.5 to 4 million LGBT individuals are age 60 and older. "I’m glad that Health and Human Services is beginning to realize that the plight of LGBT elders needs to be addressed," Rob Howard of Oklahoma City told the Metro Star. "Although their current estimate is that there are tip ro 4 million gay and lesbian seniors, in the next 10 to 15 years, as the baby boomer generation reaches retirement age, there will be twice as many - from 6 to 8 million." Howard has served in many roles helping LGBT citizens. Hie is a past Vice President of Prime Timers Worldwide and now serves as their treasure. Prime Timers Worldwide is an educational and social organization for mature gay and bisexual men. They have 72 chapters, mostly in the US and Canada, but also in Australia and Sweden. Membership is nearly 7,000. p "Organizations serving the broader aging community need to develop policies and sensitivity to this issue, and work with LGBT organizations to educate the medical care and long term care communities about our issues," he adds. "It is time for mainstream LGBT organizations to recognize the need, and to partner with seniors on these issues as ~vell." HHS reports that many agencies that provide services to older individuals may be unfamiliar or uncomfortable with the needs of this group of individuals. The center for LGBT Elders will provide information, assistance and resources for both LGBT organizations and mainstream aging services providers at the state and community level to assist them in education and development. The LGBT Center will also be available to educate the LGBT community about the importance of planning ahead for future long term care needs. "~ae most significant problem facing LGBT elders is sensitive medical care and housing," adds Howard. "Most are desperately afraid that they will be discriminated against in these settings and worse, abused by staff and other residents in long term care. This is a generation that for the most part has lived their lives in the open. They aren’t about to tolerate discrimination or abuse in their golden years." The LBGT Resource Center plans to help community-based organizations understand the unique needs and concerns of older LGBT individuals and assist them in implementing programs for local service providers, including providing help to LGBT caregivers who are providing care for an older partner with h~alth or other challenges. Funding is pending but projected to be approximately $250,000 per year. "I applaud the development of this resource center at HHS. However, the proposed $250,000 sirigle grant is woefully short of what is needed to address this problem, furthers Howard, who is an activist and well versed in these issues. "To make only a single grant to establish a resource center falls far short of the effort that will be needed across our country in this area." e g y Ch �Eddy Sarfaty treats O KC Art Opening and E ibit to his Mental Hilarity w-ith Photographs By Victor Gorin from the Robert Giard Collection State Representative AI A4cA~ey with Eddie Sa,~t): Godn phom OYJ_AHOMA CITY, OK __On October 26, an othervdse normal Monday night leading up to the Halloween celebrations, the night was interestingly hilarious for the audience at the 51st Street Speakeasy, a small intimate eatery & watering hole not widely known in the metroplex except to their faithful clientele. This was where nationally known gay comic Eddie Sarfaty made a stop on his Mental Tour of the country. His audience was warmed up for his act by !ocal comics Bradchad Porter and Spencer Hicks before Eddie cut loose with his own brand of humor. Lampooning political issues including our military’s "Don’t ask Don’t tell Polici’ and the joys of his Jewish family ba&ground, he made fun of numerous other aspects of gay life and living for everybody. The audience had many regulars, along with gays and their friends including DBA President Monty Milburn and Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey. His act also promoted his new book, "Mental:Funny in the Head," and benefitted the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. He left behind his insights and ideas along with memories of a fun filled evening. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Oklahomans for Equality (Old, q) will showcase and exhibit local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The exhibit will feature works from world renmvned photographer Robert Giard (19392002). The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the mofith of December and throughout January of 2010. Robert Girad’s subject matter for his photography is legion and includes landscapes from his travels and home, nudes and most significantly, portraits of noted gay and lesbian literary lights such as Edward Albee, Allen Ginsberg, Adrienne Rich, David Leavitt and Michael Cunningham. This unique archive of photographic portraits of gay and lesbian writers by the late Robert Giard is on loan from the Yale University’s Beinecke Rare Book and Manuscript Libraty.s prestigious American Collection, and will be on display through December 2009 and January 2010. K.C. Chiefs dump player who called reporters faggots The Kansas City Chiefs football team released running back Larry Johnson from the team Nov. 9 after he called reporters faggots and called a fellow Twitter user a fag. In the locker room Oct. 26, Johnson muttered to reporters, "Get your faggot ass out of here." The remark was captured on tape. A day earlier, he used his Twitter account to call another ~¢¢itter user a "fag." He also reportedly tweeted: "Make me regret it. Lmao. U don’t stop my checks. Lmao. So ’tweet’ away." Johnson lat,er apologized for the outbursts, saying he hadn t intended to be offensive and had not been "a good role modal (for) the kids who view athletes as role models." December 2009 �www.metrostarnews.com ~%,t~oSTAR 7 �Mikey Rox is an award-winningjournalist/writer and the pHncipal ofPaper Rox Scissors, a copywriting and creative consulting company in New York City. nd him at ~’~,~,~<l:~,~r?’~;~’~:" ~,~ co~~. ~9gith flavor infusions like Chocolate, Tomato aud Triple Three Olives Vodka is quickly gaining a reputation as the gourmand’s drink of choice. But that doesn’t mean you have to be a food and beverage snob to get your hands on a bottle. For less than a Jackson (Andrew, not Tito), you can snag 750 ml of the smooth stuffto give as a gift to the host of your next holiday party. Extra points for playing guest bartender with this Ho-Ho-Hojito recipe: Muddle !0 mint leaves and halfa lime in a tall cocktail glass. Pour in two tablespoons of simple syrup and fill the glass with ice. Add two ounces of N~ree Olives Pomegranate Vodka (and a dash more for good measure) and top it offwith dub soda. Garnish with a mint sprig and lime, and voila! Just don’t over do it, OK. Remember what happened last ),ear? 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($15.95; W~A~:~I:D~#)¢~;:: ~)~)~) December 2009 �www.metrostarnews.com �10 ~#%t~"oSTAR December 2009 �Photo’s bT Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @The End U); Tulsa @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City West), and the cocktail that helped popularize vodka in the U.S., the MosCow Muie (; odka and ~ new. Polish @Club 209, Tulsa By Keith Orr Vodka 101: ~-he Spirit of Choice What better way to start out my assignment as the host of "Cocktail Chatter" than to write about my favorite liquor, Vodka. And I am not alone. Vodka is the best-selling liquor in America, accounting for over 26% of all spirit sales. A glance around any gay bar tells you that in the U.S. gay market that number is probably higher. It was not always so. Until tlxe late 1950’s vodka :was considered an exotic Russian import. As always, marketing drove the expansion. Vodka was advertised as "White ¯ Whiskey - no taste, no smefl." Its popularity skTrocketed as imbibers believed that there would be no alcohol on their breath and they would avoid hangovers. It quickly replaced www.metrostarnews.com @ Finishline, Oklahoma City other spirits in highballs and cocktails. Most famously it usurped gin as the spirit of choice in a martini. Vodka can be made from many base ingredients: rye, wheat, potatoes, beets, grapes or grapeseed, molasses, and more. The ingredients are first fermented, then distilled. In most ~vestern vodkas the distillation process produces something fairly close ro pure alcohol, and water is added back in. Most high-end vodkas also filter the spirit as well. All of this distilling and filtering is the source of the dean taste that makes vodka so mixable and popular. Rye and wheat are the most common sources in well-known brands, with a smattering of potato vodkas. Molasses is l~’gely used for mass-producing vodka for mass market brands. Naough all vodka is highly distilled, each vodka has a unique flavor profile as a result of the }esidual components of the original distillation, as well as the various methods and materials used for filtering. @ Ledo, Oklahoma City The super premium brands such as Grey Goose, Belvedere, or Chopin each have subtle flavors best appreciated in the cocktail which features vodka in a starring role, the martini. (Martini preparation is anotlxer column!) My personal favorite is Absolut’s entry in the super premium line, Level by Absolut. Not only do I like the flavor, I choose it for political reasons. I support the vodka that supports me. Absolut has been a leading supporter of many gay organizations and events for 30 years. While martinis feature vodka in a starring role. the overwhehning popularity of the beverage is its ability to act in a supporting role. No other spirit plays so well with others. Vodka and tonic, vodka and cranberry, vodka and coke, vodka and diet coke (dubbed dae "skinny bitch" by the drag queens of Key pepper vodkas at least 200 years ago. Russian and Scandinavian vodkas used herbs and nuts for flavoring even earlier. Today vodkas are infused with dozens of flavors: lemon, lime, cranber~ pomegranate, acai berry, chocolate, grapefruit, peach, and even bacon. I like sipping infused or flavored vodkas on the rocks. They also can create new variations to martinis, cosmos, and a variety of shots. The beauty of vodka lies in versatility: Vc~hetl~er you are enjoying the refined and subtle flavors in a classic martini, or partying hard with an alcohol that plays well with your favorite mixer, vodka is the spirit of choice. ~÷t~oSTAR 11 �~÷~STAR 12 December 2009 �by Jack Fertig December 2009 "Put your waRet away, SagRtariusI" Off and on through the next year Saturn is square to Pluto, signaling profound Changes in society and government. As faster planets aspect them both we will see opportunities in this crisis. Venus in Sagittarius shows how to apply new philosophical values to greater practical benefit. ARIES (March 28-Apri~ 19): Work can be overwhelming, and the demands of relationships don’t help. The stars call for an exotic, artistic holiday. A foreign film or art show can offer enough escapism, and perhaps~a new insight to put the pressures into perspective. TAURUS (Apri~ 28 - May 20): intellectual and technical demands can make it feel as if the world is conspiring to make you feel brutish and inept. Sex remains an excellent release of tension. Explore new techniques - or just lie back and ask your partner to take care of you. GEMiNi {May 21-June 20): Relaxing and having fun may seem more trouble than it’s worth, but it is absolutely necessary. Let your sweetheart do all the work. Leaving yourself open to surprises and adventures will do you a world of good. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Put your wallet away. It’s generosity of the spirit that counts. Friends who want your money.are not really your friends. Long philosophical chats around a coffee table can be much better than expensive nights out. CAPRICORN (December 2t - January t9): It’s a good time to forge ahead in your career and make big chan.ges, but you can be much too demanding and aggressive, undermining your own best efforts. Pay attention to that little voice inside. Mediation will help. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In Greek myth, Cassandra’s curse was to see the future - and nobody believed her. Your forebodings may be excessive, but they’re not entirely wrong. Discuss them with friends you can count on to help you make better sense of them. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your capacity as a mover and shaker among your friends is sure to get noticed, but is it the sort of moving and shaking you want to get noticed? Be bold in politics and work, discreet in the bedroom, and always keep your senseof humor. CANCER (June 2% July 22): The only solution to domestic stress involves real labor. Some exotic tchotchke from a rummage sale could become the centerpiece of a new look, providing the fun and motivation for otherwise dreary housework. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Obsessing too hard on details can detract from the big picture and distract you from normal safety precautions. There is a difference between focus (good!) and obsession (bad!). Some playful diversion will help you keep perspective. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Everyone’s worried about money these days; try to keep your own wordes in perspective. Taking time out with your family (or origin or of choice)can help you relax and appreciate what you have. MBRA (September 23 - October 22): Knowing your place in your family and community is important, but probably not as much as you make it out to be. What’s bugging you? Talk it over with a sibling or a "sister" over an exotic lunch. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Step away from the plastic! Do not go near that cash register! At least stop and think before spending. When you get worried and dithery, focus on your philosophical values. Remember what’s important. "Retail therapy" is not therapeutic! Community for People iving with H V/A DS A 50’! c (3) Non Profit Org~zadon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living withAIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of ou? people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HlV+ an£t or !lying v¢ith AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobal net �& Stevenson has also successfially assisted seven by Greg Fox NOT l-OOKIlq~ FOR: A N~IA! MAN~ YObl NIAT clients out of the HOPXNrA where they now are able to live on their own since being them with employment and other aids to independence from the progrmn. We work very., hard to make sure that when one of our clients’ walks in, they pay nothing; everything is free," adds Arbudde~ "We have food supplements, clothing, misc furniture and other items and even some medical equipment." Other Options also has arranged for a commission of sales from Thrift City at 26th and MacArthur to be donated to Other Options. "Our success is because I built a great board and an advisory board," Arbuckle humbly added. "Our board president is Robert Painter owner of the Iguana and he has been a tremendous support." The two met when Painter turned to Other Options to help meet the immediate needs of a close friend. Other Options is inviting everyone over to their place to celebrate! A~er serving the community these 20 years, Other Options and Friends Food Pantry (open for 10 years) is opening their doors for a Holiday and anniversary Open House Dec. 1 lth from 4-8 pm. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to attend the event at the organization headquarters located at 3003 N. May in Oldachoma City. For more information about Other Options and Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 6058020 or visit www.aidscommunity.org. In our American two-party political syste~ laws have been made the passionate tools to be used against us as Beccaria observed centuries ago. N~e GOP couldn’t care less if GLBTs lived or died. Did you see Mary Cheney at the October March on Washington? So that leaves the Democratic Part3, as the only game in town, politically spealdng, and they think they have a monopoly on our aaCfections but with their repeated stalling and inaction on important gay issues I’m through believing them. Remember, it took ELEVEN years for Congress to pass the Shepard/Byrd Hate Crimes Law, and only two months for Congress to pass the AMBER Alert in 2002. The Victorian novelist George Meredith said, "It’s a terrific decree in life that one must act who would prevai!." If our GLBT cause is just then we must act to accomplish it; no one will give it to us freely. Until we have a sustained, visible, assertive, yet peaceful action to justify our equality and citizenship, we gays/lesbians will continue to be looked at as just limp-wristed targets for abuse, politically and physically. What’s it going to be: always the bridesmaid, never the bride; always the best man, never the groom? www.thegaycartoonsite.com ~4 A AND TtA ~N, A’T YObl W EF~I::= OWN "F.V. Webs~te- w~v.kylecomics.eom ema~ F-Mail- KylesBnB@aol.eom ~.not ~, |/~"}/,, ~ ~.g~ December 2009 �Support those who support us. Their ads allow us to distribute your community news FREE to you. 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Working to educate voters and politicians about issaes of the GLBT community, we are working to make change and shape history. 1" ~ st Tuesday of every month at the STATE EMOCRAT~C PARTY HEADQUARTERS � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document Gift Guide THE VOLUME 6 ISSUE 12 Twitter.com/MetroStad~ews Other Options; 20 years and going strong Celebrating with an open house for everyone By Robin Townsend Contributing Viriter PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA ® MetroStarNews.com Fed partner benefits bill advances in House By Lisa Keen Keen News Service Other Options andFriends Food Pantry’s board President Robert Painter with Executive Director Mary Arbuckle. The organization won an award thisyear at the National Philanthropy Day event hosted by the Association ofFundraising Professionals, Oklahoma Chapte~ The award reads, "Spirit ofPhilanthropy awards; For unmatched dedication to thepeople who are living with HIVAIDS. " but homosexuality was the primary commonality." During the early days of Other Options there was a great need for the social services part of HIV/AIDS care. "Back then the patients rarely lived long enough to get their Social Security benefits. When we told a person they were HIV positive we explained things, but they knew their life expectancy w~s very limited even with AZT. As drug combinations have improved and there is more research, life expectancies are longer. "Our services are now more geared to improving lives, allowing people to live more productive lives. Now we see them living full lives." Today some needs are the same while some have changed "One of our methods of assistance is to give people the nutritional values they [clients] need to help them lead a more productive life, and that is what we are able to do with the Friends Food Pantry," adds Arbuckle. "We also added the HOPWA last June and service 125 [clients] there." (HOPWA- Housing Options for People Living With AIDS). Charla Stevenson is the Housing Case Manager at Other Options who manages that part of the organization. OY-A_Ak-IOMA CITY, OK__ Since 1989 Other Options in Oldahoma City has provided professional, consistent services to PLWA’s and disabled individuals, focusing on the impact HIV/MDS has had in the lives of those they serve. The organization was founded by Cookie Arbuclde who was a Social Worker (MSW) at ChildreNs Hospital and Oklahoma Memorial Hospital (now OU Medical Center). "In 1988 morn was asked by an Oklahoma Governors Task Force who saw a need for a guide book for people living with HIV/_AADS and medical professionals," said Mary Arbuclde, Other Options Executive Director. "They hired Cookie to do this because of her background and because she was one of the founders of the ASP [AIDS Support Program] organization. "That was where the first book, t/kids for HIV/AIDS’ came from." The second edition gray paperback is the most popular and is four times larger. "The reason she [Cookie] started Other Options in 1989, was due to a generous grant by the Sarkey’s foundation. We realized the need for a non-profit to continue our services to the HIV/MDS community. Back then the A House committee on Wednesday evening approved a bill to provide equal benefits to gay federal employees with domestic partners, but not without a political slugfest first over whether the legislation is an attempt to undermind the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). The clash November 18 occured in the House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform over the Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligations Act of 2009 (HR 2517). The bill seeks to provide all federal employees with the same benefits whether they are married to a person of the opposite sex or are in a long-term intimate relationship with a person of the same sex. It was sponsored by openly gay Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisc.) and had the spoken support of President Obama. All speakers for the bill were Democrats; all speakers against it were Republ~,can.s. :~mocrats emphasized the bill s aim to end discrimination against LGBT federal employees by providing them with equal pay for equal work. Republicans emphasized their concern that the bill is trying to circumvent DOMA and widespread public sentiment as illustrated by 31 states voting to ban same-sex marriage. The proceedings were web-streamed live on the Committee’s website but are no longer available there. The debate was a classic discourse between pro and anti-gay forces. Pro-gay legislators talked about fighting discrimination and protecting equal rights. Anti-gay forces talked about opposing special rights and protecting traditional marriage. Rep. Jim Jordan (R-Ohio), hunched over his papers during much of the proceeding and often turning away whenever an opposing legislator responded to him, offered an amendment to stipulate that nothing in the bill would modify, supersede, or otherwise affect DOMA. Rep. Edolphus To~vns (D-NY), chairman of the House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform, spoke forcefully against the Jordan Amendment saying "same-sex domestic partnership laws to do not affect DOMAY Rep. Gerald Connolly (D-Va.) opposed it, too, saying the purpose was clearly intended "to nt~ify the entirety of the effort here today." The amendment eventually failed on a vote of 22 to 12. Republicans lodged a number of contradictory complaints about the legislation. For instance, Rep. Darrell Issa 1,2009 patients were about 90% gay men. There were some other cases such as hemophilia, ......Continued See AWARD Page-14 ....... Continued See FED BENEFITS Page-4 (R-San Diego) complained that the bill would enable "any two individuals" to qualify for benefits, while Rep. Jeff Fortenberry (R-Neb.) complained that any two individuals would not be able to qualify. ’~klthough this legislation purports to stand on a foundation of nondiscrimination," said Fortenberry, "it appears to diminish the standing of federal employees who may share the same dwelling and collaborate intimately with an immediate or extended family member of the opposite sex in a nonsexual relationship to meet their basic financial needs." His example was a nephew caring for an aunt with cancer. Then he continued. "What about those who are in nurturing relationships neither marked by physical intimacy nor qualifying for married dependent status but share a specialness of bond based on a commitment to duty or to friendship," said Fortenberry. His example for this was "a friend helping a friend of the opposite sex if they were unemployed." Rep. Jason Chaffetz (R-Utah) repeatedly stated that he was "standing tall for traditional marriage." He offered two amendments: one to require the president to certify that the bill does not increase premiums for existing federal employees before the bill can go into effect; the other to require the Government Accountability Office (GAO) to study the impact on premiums. T~ATS W~AT ~APS $ WILL COST THE AVE~AG~ OKLAhOmA ~I~ ~SIDENT IN SAL~S TAX A $280 CONVENTION CENTER AN AQUATIC CENTER DOWNTOWN PARK DEVON ENERGY WE GIVE ’T AFFORD TO THE CITY A BLANK CHECK. Paid for by Concerned Citizens 2 ~tet~’oSTAR What’s new £or the Diversity Business Association in 2010? By Robin Townsend Contributing Writer Current DBA board members at the 2009 Oklahoma Ci(y Prideparade this summer; Money Milbu~w, President, Gina Love, member-at-large and Leslie Blab; l~ce President. Dornerphoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma City’s premier business organization for the LGBT community will have an overhaul soon. Plans for a new website, a rate increase and new board members appear to be in store for the Oklahoma City based gay and lesbian business and professional group. So what else is new for DBA for 20!0? Looks like there will be a new President with ~h~ f~mlt resigfiation ofM0n~ Milbur~ Tnere has been at least one members identified who may fill the roll, but at the time of this story board members have not yet been voted on. "I am resigning effective Dec. 3t, 2009. As of right now, rates will be increasing as some point in 2010 and the projected new membership will be $149.00/yr," said Milburn in his last interviev¢ to the Metro Star as DBA board president, q]ae current membership rate is $49 for a single membership. "A brand new dynamite website will be included as well as some great advertising opportunities and such. There will also be members only activities." Ti~e goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the LGBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. This includes businesses in the area that are gay or gay-friendly that can benefit from likeminded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. DBA also has a presence each year with Pride events and, for the first time, had a group who walked in the parade. There are also plans underway to hire a staff member to help the organization run more smoothly. ’%Ve just realized that we have to hire someone to make this machine run and we need to do it sooner than later," adds Milburn. "I’m not thinking that this will happen as ofJanuary 1 due to getting bids for the site and finding a DBA staff member but it is happening or DBA wil! just go away and become a social thing that requires no dues no planning, etc." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit ~w,vw.dbametro.org. Sooner State Rodeo Association presents the Festival ofTrees Auction TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa based Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) will host their Annual Holiday Festival ofTrees, Saturday October 28th from 7:30-11PM at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa. The SSRA fundraising event will benefit SSRA and their 2009 charitable partners. The event will feature Cocktails and Hors D’oeuvres plus a Live Auction of 7 Fully Decorated Christmas Trees beginning at 8:30PM. The trees have been decorated by local interior designers, organizations, and individuals from the Tulsa GLBT Community. Sooner State Rodeo Association (SSRA) is Tulsa and Northeastern Oklahoma’s gay rodeo association, and is a recognized member of the International Gay Rodeo Association. SSRA was founded in 2000 and is a legal 501 3(c) and is dedicated to the promotion of the western lifestyle throughout Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma. www.soonerstaterodeo.com Picket Organized to Protest Sarah Pa~in’s Book Signing OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ When Republican past vice presidential candidate and 2012 presidential hopeful Sarah Palin holds her booksigning in Norman she may encounter more than she bargained for. On a national tour to promote her new book, "Going Rogue" she is making her only Oklahoma stop at Hasting’s Bookstore, located in Norman at 2300 W. Main from 7 p.m. until 8 p.m on Thursday, December 3. Organized by OKC gay activist Keith Kimmel, he gives his reasons for the protest. " I’m organizing this event because I don’t want Palin to be my next president. I find her homophobic views to be repugnant and I think my sentiment is shared by many. I’m compelled to say something and I hope others will join me." Those who share his views are welcome to join this event. For more information contact Keith Kimmel, http:// vrww.facebook.com/1/cee43; 405 886 5095. Oklahoma Weather Forecast for December 2009 .... : Dec 1-5: Rain, then sunny, mild; Dec 6-8: Shmvers, then sunny, cold; Dec 9-13: R~in and snow, then sunny, cold; Dec 14-18: Rain, then sunny; mild; ~Dec 19-20: Showers, then colder; Dec 21-25: Sunny, then rain, warm; Dec 26’28: Rain, then colder; ~. Dec 29-31: Sunn)~ warm. Avg. temperature 520 (40 above avg.); precipitation -.5 (avg.); December 2009 Memoriam Heather Harp Howland September 9th, 1968 - November 4th, 2009 TULSA, OK Heather Harp Howland was born in Oklalloma. City on September 9th, 1968 and transitioned from this life on November 4th, 2009. Her early years were spent in San Antonio Texas. Her family moved to Tulsa when she was 14. She attended Kemper Military Academy in Boonville Missouri, almamater ofWill Rogers, and graduated from Tulsa Memorial High School. She majored in journalism/ marketing a the University of Oklahoma. She is preceded in death by her Mother, Sharon. She is survived by her father John Howland of San Antonio Texas, and her brother Patrick Howland and his wife Patrice Pratt ofTulsa, and her nieces Arie! Pratt of Pennsylvania, Sierra Pratt ofTulsa and nephews, Rick Pratt of Pennsylvania, Shay Howland ofTulsa and Seth Howland of Tulsa. Heather lived in San Antonio in her young adult years and then in 1995 she returned to Tulsa to care for her mother. She opened England & Harp, a successfu! antique and design store on Cherry Street in 1997. Her eye for design was impeccable. As a member of the Tulsa LGBTQ community, Heather snpported the mission of Oldahomans for Equality- (Old’q) formerly tmown as Tnlsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). She volunteered her time and efforts at the Pride Store, co-directed the Pride Events and supported other fundraising events. Heather had lots ofinterests and talents. She loved softball and played catcher while at OU and would gladly tell you that her knees haven’t been the same since. She could belt out a song, deliver a sermon and demonstrate an Academy Award winning speech upon request. She was a founding member of \%Zomen of Council Oak in 2003 and a supporting member of Sisters in Song. Heather developed liver disease in 2008 and was on the liver transplant waitint list. Carol Brown and friends hosted a fundraising effort in September 2009 at Club 209 to assist with current medical bills and future transplant costs. A memorial service was held on November 7th. 2009 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality- Center located at 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa Oklahoma. She will be missed. She will forever be remembered. Counci Oak Mens Chorale Presents: Some Enchanted Season December 1st, 4th, & 5th, 2009: 8pro TULSA, OK (PR) Fresh sounds of celebration and traditional favorites will once again fill Trinit~;s beautiful sancruary as Council Oak Mens Chorale presens their 2009 holiday concert. This specially selected blend of both timeless and soon-to-be classics is sure to leave you feeling warm and ~’estive... some might even say enchanted! The concert will be held at the Trinity Episcopal Church located at 5th & Cincinnati Avenue. Tickets are ~15. for more information call 918.748.3888 or visit counciloalcorg. ~¢.metrostarnews.com MISS BAMBOO 2010 CROWNED By Staff Reporter Miss Bamboo 2009 L~y Katheryn andMiss Bamboo 2010 Dominique LaRue. StaffPhoto TULSA, OK __ No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute cdebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Although this year’s contestants did break with tradition and were quite stylish. Dominique LaRue had the crowd in uncontrollable laughter with her Old W-,man on a Walker comedy routine. Dominique LaRueperfbrming her comedy skit. Staffphoto Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. HOPE Clinic ofTulsa was the r4cipient of this year’s proceeds of $633.00. HOPE offers a variety of services for people with HIV/STD. For confidential information or referrals call the statewide HIV/STD resource hotline operated by trained HOPE staff 1- 800-535-2437. The MC’s for the show were Kris Kohl and Earlina Derrick, two well known divas ofTulsa. Flowers were provided by Glenpool Flmvers and Gifts. First runner up for the Miss Bamboo 2010 title was Serina Ashley who’s interpretation of a drunken platinum blonde slut was very convincing, but she showed way too much skin, nasty! Conspicuously absent from this years entertainment line-up was self proclaimed Empress of the Bamboo, Miss Mona Lott who some suspect has been committed to Laureate for observation by her now legal husband. Christmas Eve Candlelig Thursday December 24, 8 3131 N. Pennsylvania,Oklaho! 405.525.9555 8an ’uptcy o Civil Rights *Criminal Empl ,ment * Family Law * Litigation N.W 13th Street ahoma city, oK 7s 0s ¢~I<>t~oSTAR 3 Prop 8 repeal petitions begin circ ation Tt~e state of California on Nov. 16 approved the start of signature-gathering for a voter initiative to repeal Proposition 8 in November 2010, the group Love Honor Cherish reported. The initiative ~vould remove from the California Constitution the sentence, "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California," and replace it with, "Marriage is between only two persons and shall not be restricted on the basis of race, color, creed, ancestr)~ national origin, sex, gendm; sexual orientation, or religion." The measure further states: "To protect religious freedom, no court shall interpret this measure to require any priest, minister, pastor, rabbi, or other person authorized to perform marriages by any religious denomination, church, or other non-profit religious institution to perform any marriage in violation of his or her religious beliefs. ~e refusal to perform a marriage under this provision shall not be the basis for lawsuit or liability, and shall not affect the tax-exempt status of any religious denomination, church or other religious institution." Repeal advocates must collect 694,354 valid voter signatures by April 12. To be safe, that means collecting around 1 million total signatures. ~e 2010 repeal can~paign is a grassroots effort that does not have support from large GLBT groups, many ofxvhich have said or suggested they want to wait until 2012 to attempt to undo Prop 8. The Courage Campaign had earlier supported the 2010 effort but later complained of deficiencies in governing structure, expertise, research and funding. For more information, see SignForEquality.com. Gay Euro MPs denounce Ugandan bill Members of the European Parliament’s Intergroup on LGBT Rights have strongly denounced the "Anti-Homosexuality Bill 2009" pending in Uganda’s Parliament. "The proposed legislation includes provisions to punish those alleged to be lesbian; gay or bisexual with life imprisonment and, in some cases, the death penalty; any parent or teacher failing to report their LGBT children or pupils to the authorities.~zcith a fine eqtiivalent to $2,650 or three years’ imprisonment; and landowners providing shelter to LGBT people with seven years’ imprisonment," the MEPs said Nov. 9. Co-President Ulrike Lunacek said: "I strongly appeal to Ugandan politicians to be as courageous as they were when overthrowing the Idi Amin regimel and not to ban Ugandan citizens from being free to love whomever they wish. Homosexuality is nothing un-African; it has existed at all times and in all cultures." In the U.S., lesbian U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis., and three other members of Congress have sent a letter to U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton urging her to use the full force of her o~ce to condemn the bill. Brazilian man barred from living in U.S. with American husband ~ne Obama administration let the clock run out Oct. 23 on helping a Brazilian man who wants to return to Massachusetts to live with his U.S. husband. Tim Coco and Brazilian Gen&io Oliveira married in Massachusetts in 2005 and own a home together in a Boston suburb. Oliveira was sent home in August 2007 after losing an asylum case based on anti-gay persecution he said he experienced in Brazil. He later also lost a case in which he sought to return to the U~S. based on his marriage to Coco. U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder had until Oct. 23 to overrule that decision on humanitarian grounds. He had been urged to do so by U,S. Sen. John Kei~ry, D-Mass. The anti-gay Defense of Marriage Act, passed during Bill Clinton’s presidency, prevents the U.S. government from recognizing same-sex spouses for any reason. President Obaa~aa has said repeatedly that he supports DOMA’s repeal and the extension to same-sex couples of every right and obligation of marriage -- but he has taken no concrete steps to achieve his stated goals. Coco and Oliveira have said they may sue the federal government over DOMA in hopes of being reunited. Bill Clinton said that he had been "wrong" in opposing same-sex marriage. Spealdng to CNN’s Anderson Cooper, Clinton said: "I realized that I was, you know, over 60 years old, I grew Up at a different time, and I was hung up about the word (marriage). I had all these gay friends; I had all these gay couple friends, and I ~vas hung up about it. Aud I decided I was wrong. That our society has an interest in coherence and strength and commitment and mutually reinforcing loyalties, then if gay couples want to call their union marriage and a state agrees, and several have no,a, or a religious body will sanction it -- and I don’t think the state should be able to stop the religious bodies from saying it -- I don’t think the rest of us should get in the way of that. I think it’s a good thing, not a bad thing." "I just realized that I was, probably for, maybe just because of my age and the way I’ve grown up, I ~vas wrong about that," he continued. "I just had too many gay friends. I saw their relationships. I just decided I couldu’t, I had an untenable position." As~ president, Clinton signed into law the Defense of Marriage Act, which prohibits the federal government fi’om recognizing s~xrne-sex marriages and a~rms that states don’t have to recognize other states’ same-sex marriages. The first amendment failed. And Rep. Mike Quigley (D-Chicago) amended the latter to have the GAO study the effect of extending benefits to domestic partners on the government’s ability to recruit and retain employees. In response to GOP complaints that two people of the same sex might pretend to be in a domestic partnership in order to gain benefits, Rep. Steve Lynch (D-Mass.) said: "I dofft think there’s a ,vhole lot of people out there, given the discrimination ,ve have against gays and lesbians in our society, trying to pretend that they’re gay or that they’re lesbian so they can get favorable treatment. That’s not the reality of today’s world." Rep. Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-DC), an African American, also rebuffed such arguments, saying "I know discrimination when I see it. This is the opposite. ~is is a civil rights bill." Norton noted, with some irony, that some years ago Republicans refused to allow a domestic partnership bill in Washington, D.C., because the bill attempted to include domestic partners and other family members living together. Chairman Towns rebutted Republican concerns that the bill would cost too much, noting that only about 15,000 to 30,000 new enrollees are expected to join federal health insurance rolls~as a results of the legislation - representing 0.3 percent. Howevere Issa came back claiming that the LGBT community frequently cites a figure of 10 percent for its representation in the population. (In fact, the community hasn’t used a figure like that since the 1970s. More recent scientific surveys, according to gay statistical expert Gary Gates have been very consistent in showing that something like 2-4% of adults identify as LGB. The bill now goes to the floor in the House. Senators Joe Lieberman (I-Conn.) and Susan Collins (R-Maine) introduced a version of the bill into the Senate. In a related development, a judge for the 9th Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals ruled November 18 that the federal government violated the constitutional ~ights of a gay federal attorney when it denied him health coverage for his same-sex spouse. The two men were married in California during a period of five months last year when same-sex couples could obtain marriage licenses. Gay cop gay-bashed in Liverpool, England A 22-year-old off-duty trainee police officer was seriously gay-bashed outside the gay bar Superstar Boudoir in Liverpool, England, on Oct. 25. James Parkes was set upon by a gang of 20 youths and suffered multiple skull fractures and a broken cheek bone and eye socket. He was hospitalized in critical condition before being released Oct. 30 to recuperate at home. Citing language used by the bashers, police have deemed the assault a homophobic hate crime. Twelve of the alleged assailants, some of whom are ~s young as 13, have been arrested. 4 l:~;~ot oSTAR December 2009 love the Democratic Party but Will I Respect Mysd£in the Morning? by James Nimrod OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As we GLBTs emerge sweaty and disheveled fi’om our post-coital ruckus in Maine, I’m reminded that this is America and everything is for sale, including our gay/lesbian equality- -that’s the American way. You want to lmow how we’re going m sell it? In 1764 an Italian nobleman named Cesare Beccaria wrote, "Ifwe glance at the pages of history, we will find that laws, which surely are or ought to be compacts of free men, have been for the most part a mere tool for the passions of some." I’m referring to the heartbreakingly close, yet lost Maine election early in November where we gays/lesbians thought we had a better-than-good chance of winning through the ballot box the recognition of our civil equality under the law. Unfortunately; the Religious Right has used the referendum petition process in 31 states ro turn our citizenship into raffle tickets for discrimination where the prize is our continued lack of full equality under the law. Our civil rights canse has been de-railed 31 times at the bal!ot box by the usual degeption of the Biblically-dduded using the prejudiced superstitions that gays recruit and stalk children and teenagers. Nor only are gays/lesbians still secondclass raxpayers, all of the residents of those 31 states, regardless of sexual orientation, are also honorary members of the Mormon, Roman Catholic, and Southern Baptist denominations, to name only three of the biggest religious oppressors in the USA. I say this because its the oppressor’s anti-gay religious POVs that have become encoded into civil law. ~e United Church of Christ (UCC), Unitarian, and Reform Judaism adherents have 1Sassed guidelines allowing their clergy to perform their mvn versions of same-gender marriage without recognition from the resident state. Their First Amendment religious freedom is blocked by the actions and money of the theocrats ~vhose dogma trumps all attempts at fairness and fulfillment of our lives. Justice guaranteed by the Constitution is thwarted by ignorance and prejudice. Only Iowa, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, and Connecticut have legislatively passed marriage equality for same-gendered Americans. T’ne state of Washington earlier this month rejected the homo-haters attempt to overturn a law called, "Everything but Marriage." Since the ballgt box/clvil rights rathe process is spent and flaccid, activists John Aravosis and Joe Sudbay are calling for a boycott or a withholding of contributions -- Don’t Ask, Don’t Give -- to the Democratic Party until ~ve get the results they’ve promised us for years, like passage of employment protection (ENDA), removal of marriage discrimination (DO!vIA), and the privilege to serve in the military (DADT), .......Continued see VIEW" POINT page vw,~v.metrostarnews.com Good news as LGBT’s grow o der By Robin Townsend Contributing X~Triter LGBTactivist and communi{y leader, Rob Howard ofOklahoma City. Dorn’erphoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __In October, Health and Human Services (HHS) Secretary Kathleen Sebelius announced plans to establish the nation’s first national resource center to assist communities across the country in their efforts to provide services and supports for older lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) individuals. It is estimated that as many as 1.5 to 4 million LGBT individuals are age 60 and older. "I’m glad that Health and Human Services is beginning to realize that the plight ofLGBT elders needs to be addressed," Rob Howard of Oklahoma City told the Metro Star. "Although their current estimate is that there are tip ro 4 million gay and lesbian seniors, in the next 10 to 15 years, as the baby boomer generation reaches retirement age, there will be twice as many - from 6 to 8 million." Howard has served in many roles helping LGBT citizens. Hie is a past Vice President of Prime Timers Worldwide and now serves as their treasure. Prime Timers Worldwide is an educational and social organization for mature gay and bisexual men. They have 72 chapters, mostly in the US and Canada, but also in Australia and Sweden. Membership is nearly 7,000. "Organizations serving the broader aging community need to develop policies and sensitivity to this issue, and work with LGBT organizations to educate the medical care and long term care communities about our issues," he adds. "It is time for mainstream LGBT organizations to recognize the need, and to partner with seniors on these issues as ~vell." HHS reports that many agencies that provide services to older individuals may be unfamiliar or uncomfortable with the needs of this group of individuals. The center for LGBT Elders will provide information, assistance and resources for both LGBT organizations and mainstream aging services providers at the state and community level to assist them in education and development. The LGBT Center will also be available to educate the LGBT community about the importance of planning ahead for future long term care needs. "~ae most significant problem facing LGBT elders is sensitive medical care and housing," adds Howard. "Most are desperately afraid that they will be discriminated against in these settings and worse, abused by staff and other residents in long term care. This is a generation that for the most part has lived their lives in the open. They aren’t about to tolerate discrimination or abuse in their golden years." The LBGT Resource Center plans to help community-based organizations understand the unique needs and concerns of older LGBT individuals and assist them in implementing programs for local service providers, including providing help to LGBT caregivers who are providing care for an older partner with h~alth or other challenges. Funding is pending but projected to be approximately $250,000 per year. "I applaud the development of this resource center at HHS. However, the proposed $250,000 sirigle grant is woefully short ofwhat is needed to address this problem, furthers Howard, who is an activist and well versed in these issues. "To make only a single grant to establish a resource center falls far short of the effort that will be needed across our country in this area." p e g y Ch Eddy Sarfaty treats OKC to his Mental Hilarity By Victor Gorin State Representative AI A4cA~ey with Eddie Sa,~t): Godn phom OYJ_AHOMA CITY, OK __On October 26, an othervdse normal Monday night leading up to the Halloween celebrations, the night was interestingly hilarious for the audience at the 51st Street Speakeasy, a small intimate eatery & watering hole not widely known in the metroplex except to their faithful clientele. This was where nationally known gay comic Eddie Sarfaty made a stop on his Mental Tour of the country. His audience was warmed up for his act by !ocal comics Bradchad Porter and Spencer Hicks before Eddie cut loose with his own brand of humor. Lampooning political issues including our military’s "Don’t ask Don’t tell Polici’ and the joys of his Jewish family ba&ground, he made fun of numerous other aspects of gay life and living for everybody. The audience had many regulars, along with gays and their friends including DBA President Monty Milburn and Oklahoma State Representative A1 McAffrey. His act also promoted his new book, "Mental:Funny in the Head," and benefitted the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. He left behind his insights and ideas along with memories of a fun filled evening. Art Opening and E ibit w-ith Photographs from the Robert Giard Collection TULSA, OK (PR) __ Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) will showcase and exhibit local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The exhibit will feature works from world renmvned photographer Robert Giard (1939- 2002). The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 3rd from 6-9pm and continuing throughout the mofith of December and throughout January of 2010. Robert Girad’s subject matter for his photography is legion and includes landscapes from his travels and home, nudes and most significantly, portraits of noted gay and lesbian literary lights such as Edward Albee, Allen Ginsberg, Adrienne Rich, David Leavitt and Michael Cunningham. This unique archive of photographic portraits of gay and lesbian writers by the late Robert Giard is on loan from the Yale University’s Beinecke Rare Book and Manuscript Libraty.s prestigious American Collection, and will be on display through December 2009 and January 2010. K.C. Chiefs dump player who called reporters faggots The Kansas City Chiefs football team released running back Larry Johnson from the team Nov. 9 after he called reporters faggots and called a fellow Twitter user a fag. In the locker room Oct. 26, Johnson muttered to reporters, "Get your faggot ass out of here." The remark was captured on tape. A day earlier, he used his Twitter account to call another ~¢¢itter user a "fag." He also reportedly tweeted: "Make me regret it. Lmao. U don’t stop my checks. Lmao. So ’tweet’ away." Johnson lat,er apologized for the outbursts, saying he hadn t intended to be offensive and had not been "a good role modal (for) the kids who view athletes as role models." December 2009 www.metrostarnews.com ~%,t~oSTAR 7 ~9gith flavor infusions like Chocolate, Tomato aud Triple Three Olives Vodka is quickly gaining a reputation as the gourmand’s drink of choice. But that doesn’t mean you have to be a food and beverage snob to get your hands on a bottle. For less than a Jackson (Andrew, not Tito), you can snag 750 ml of the smooth stuffto give as a gift to the host of your next holiday party. Extra points for playing guest bartender with this Ho-Ho-Hojito recipe: Muddle !0 mint leaves and halfa lime in a tall cocktail glass. Pour in two tablespoons of simple syrup and fill the glass with ice. Add two ounces of N~ree Olives Pomegranate Vodka (and a dash more for good measure) and top it offwith dub soda. Garnish with a mint sprig and lime, and voila! Just don’t over do it, OK. Remember what happened last ),ear? ($19.99; wwvy’~ ~r~:~ >~ c~.~m) "Suckin" It For the Holidays," Grammynominated, gay-lovin" colnedienne Kathy Grifl~n delivers some of her best stand-up ever on an album that was recorded live from the Borgata Hotel & Casino in Atlantic City. SKIES Like you need a reason to jet offto a faraway land - but at least this is a good one. Now through the end of the year, when you purchase an American Airlines gift card you’ll join the fight against breast cancer. For every $50 you spend in travel gift cards, American Airlines will donate $5 to Susan G. Komen for the Cure. You can purchase physical cards for yourself (to enjoy a guilt-free getaway), or choose virtual cards to be delivered by e-mail with a personal message attached. Just enter code "Komen" in the tracking box when ordering online. 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Made from breathable, bodp conforming stretch fabric, the first release from this caustic collection is the "I Love..." line, which features the controversial "I Love Jesus" and "I Love Buddha" briefs, boxer briefs, lowrise briefs and jockstraps. Of course, if you’re not feeling so sacrilegious this holiday season, Piss & Vinegar - which borrows its name from British slang for living young at heart - will also introduce "I Love Boys" and "I Love Girls" briefs. Redeeming, sure. But you’re still on the shortlist for eternal damnation. ($25; www4:Asvr~:’g~r.co~rO SONIC COLOR Built on the concept of technology meeting style, DEOS introduces two collections of innovative iPod earphone covers available at all price levels. The first, DEOS DIAMOND - for those who have more cash than they can shake a peppermint stick at - consists of three distinct earphone cover styles specifically named for the number of individual diamonds imbedded in each traditional or black titanium design. DEOS CRVZ - for more budget-conscious consumers - boasts three collections: Crystal, featuring Swarovski bedazzlements; Aluminum, available in an array of metallic colors; and Silicone, designed with active lifestyles in mind. ($9.99 and up; ~:,~,~w d~:,~v~l; ~ :~ ~:: ~) 8 I¢I÷’IroSTAR December 2009 www.metrostarnews.com 10 ~#%t~"oSTAR December 2009 Photo’s bT Victor G. & Judy G. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @The End U); Tulsa @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City West), and the cocktail that helped popularize vodka in the U.S., the MosCow Muie (;€odka and ~ new. Polish @Club 209, Tulsa By Keith Orr Vodka 101: ~-he Spirit ofChoice What better way to start out my assignment as the host of "Cocktail Chatter" than to write about my favorite liquor, Vodka. And I am not alone. Vodka is the best-selling liquor in America, accounting for over 26% of all spirit sales. A glance around any gay bar tells you that in the U.S. gay market that number is probably higher. It was not always so. Until tlxe late 1950’s vodka :was considered an exotic Russian import. As always, marketing drove the expansion. Vodka was advertised as "White ¯ Whiskey - no taste, no smefl." Its popularity skTrocketed as imbibers believed that there would be no alcohol on their breath and they would avoid hangovers. It quickly replaced @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ Ledo, Oklahoma City other spirits in highballs and cocktails. Most famously it usurped gin as the spirit of choice in a martini. Vodka can be made from many base ingredients: rye, wheat, potatoes, beets, grapes or grapeseed, molasses, and more. The ingredients are first fermented, then distilled. In most ~vestern vodkas the distillation process produces something fairly close ro pure alcohol, and water is added back in. Most high-end vodkas also filter the spirit as well. All of this distilling and filtering is the source of the dean taste that makes vodka so mixable and popular. Rye and wheat are the most common sources in well-known brands, with a smattering of potato vodkas. Molasses is l~’gely used for mass-producing vodka for mass market brands. Naough all vodka is highly distilled, each vodka has a unique flavor profile as a result of the }esidual components of the original distillation, as well as the various methods and materials used for filtering. The super premium brands such as Grey Goose, Belvedere, or Chopin each have subtle flavors best appreciated in the cocktail which features vodka in a starring role, the martini. (Martini preparation is anotlxer column!) My personal favorite is Absolut’s entry in the super premium line, Level by Absolut. Not only do I like the flavor, I choose it for political reasons. I support the vodka that supports me. Absolut has been a leading supporter of many gay organizations and events for 30 years. While martinis feature vodka in a starring role. the overwhehning popularity of the beverage is its ability to act in a supporting role. No other spirit plays so well with others. Vodka and tonic, vodka and cranberry, vodka and coke, vodka and diet coke (dubbed dae "skinny bitch" by the drag queens of Key pepper vodkas at least 200 years ago. Russian and Scandinavian vodkas used herbs and nuts for flavoring even earlier. Today vodkas are infused with dozens of flavors: lemon, lime, cranber~ pomegranate, acai berry, chocolate, grapefruit, peach, and even bacon. I like sipping infused or flavored vodkas on the rocks. They also can create new variations to martinis, cosmos, and a variety of shots. The beauty of vodka lies in versatility: Vc~hetl~er you are enjoying the refined and subtle flavors in a classic martini, or partying hard with an alcohol that plays well with your favorite mixer, vodka is the spirit of choice. www.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 11 ~÷~STAR 12 December 2009 by Jack Fertig December 2009 "Put your waRet away, SagRtariusI" Off and on through the next year Saturn is square to Pluto, signaling profound Changes in society and government. As faster planets aspect them both we will see opportunities in this crisis. Venus in Sagittarius shows how to apply new philosophical values to greater practical benefit. ARIES (March 28-Apri~ 19): Work can be overwhelming, and the demands of relationships don’t help. The stars call for an exotic, artistic holiday. A foreign film or art show can offer enough escapism, and perhaps~a new insight to put the pressures into perspective. TAURUS (Apri~ 28 - May 20): intellectual and technical demands can make it feel as if the world is conspiring to make you feel brutish and inept. Sex remains an excellent release of tension. Explore new techniques - or just lie back and ask your partner to take care of you. GEMiNi {May 21-June 20): Relaxing and having fun may seem more trouble than it’s worth, but it is absolutely necessary. Let your sweetheart do all the work. Leaving yourself open to surprises and adventures will do you a world of good. CANCER (June 2% July 22): The only solution to domestic stress involves real labor. Some exotic tchotchke from a rummage sale could become the centerpiece of a new look, providing the fun and motivation for otherwise dreary housework. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Obsessing too hard on details can detract from the big picture and distract you from normal safety precautions. There is a difference between focus (good!) and obsession (bad!). Some playful diversion will help you keep perspective. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Everyone’s worried about money these days; try to keep your own wordes in perspective. Taking time out with your family (or origin or of choice)can help you relax and appreciate what you have. MBRA (September 23 - October 22): Knowing your place in your family and community is important, but probably not as much as you make it out to be. What’s bugging you? Talk it over with a sibling or a "sister" over an exotic lunch. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Step away from the plastic! Do not go near that cash register! At least stop and think before spending. When you get worried and dithery, focus on your philosophical values. Remember what’s important. "Retail therapy" is not therapeutic! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Put your wallet away. It’s generosity of the spirit that counts. Friends who want your money.are not really your friends. Long philosophical chats around a coffee table can be much better than expensive nights out. CAPRICORN (December 2t - January t9): It’s a good time to forge ahead in your career and make big chan.ges, but you can be much too demanding and aggressive, undermining your own best efforts. Pay attention to that little voice inside. Mediation will help. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In Greek myth, Cassandra’s curse was to see the future - and nobody believed her. Your forebodings may be excessive, but they’re not entirely wrong. Discuss them with friends you can count on to help you make better sense of them. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your capacity as a mover and shaker among your friends is sure to get noticed, but is it the sort of moving and shaking you want to get noticed? Be bold in politics and work, discreet in the bedroom, and always keep your senseof humor. Community for People iving with H V/A DS A 50’! c (3) Non Profit Org~zadon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living withAIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of ou? people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HlV+ an£t or !lying v¢ith AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobal net Stevenson has also successfially assisted seven clients out of the HOPXNrA where they now are able to live on their own since being them with employment and other aids to independence from the progrmn. We work very., hard to make sure that when one of our clients’ walks in, they pay nothing; everything is free," adds Arbudde~ "We have food supplements, clothing, misc furniture and other items and even some medical equipment." Other Options also has arranged for a commission of sales from Thrift City at 26th and MacArthur to be donated to Other Options. "Our success is because I built a great board and an advisory board," Arbuckle humbly added. "Our board president is Robert Painter owner of the Iguana and he has been a tremendous support." The two met when Painter turned to Other Options to help meet the immediate needs of a close friend. Other Options is inviting everyone over to their place to celebrate! A~er serving the community these 20 years, Other Options and Friends Food Pantry (open for 10 years) is opening their doors for a Holiday and anniversary Open House Dec. 1 lth from 4-8 pm. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to attend the event at the organization headquarters located at 3003 N. May in Oldachoma City. For more information about Other Options and Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 605- 8020 or visit www.aidscommunity.org. In our American two-party political syste~ laws have been made the passionate tools to be used against us as Beccaria observed centuries ago. N~e GOP couldn’t care less if GLBTs lived or died. Did you see Mary Cheney at the October March on Washington? So that leaves the Democratic Part3, as the only game in town, politically spealdng, and they think they have a monopoly on our aaCfections but with their repeated stalling and inaction on important gay issues I’m through believing them. Remember, it took ELEVEN years for Congress to pass the Shepard/Byrd Hate Crimes Law, and only two months for Congress to pass the AMBERAlert in 2002. The Victorian novelist George Meredith said, "It’s a terrific decree in life that one must act who would prevai!." If our GLBT cause is just then we must act to accomplish it; no one will give it to us freely. Until we have a sustained, visible, assertive, yet peaceful action to justify our equality and citizenship, we gays/lesbians will continue to be looked at as just limp-wristed targets for abuse, politically and physically. What’s it going to be: always the bridesmaid, never the bride; always the best man, never the groom? & by Greg Fox A NOT l-OOKIlq~ FOR: A N~IA! MAN~ YObl NIAT AND TtA ~N, A’T YObl WEF~I::= OWN "F.V. Webs~te- w~v.kylecomics.eom F-Mail- KylesBnB@aol.eom www.thegaycartoonsite.com ema~ ~.not ~, |/~"}/,,~~.g~ ~4 December 2009 Support those who support us. Their ads allow us to distribute your community news FREE to you. HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com FELLY FARBY, CPA 4815 So HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747-5466 Certified Public Accountant VALERtE \VILLIFORD 625 N.W. 13th Street Oklahoma City, OK 405-226-8585 MASSAGE: ANGLES 2117 NW 39th St. Oklahoma City, OK wxvw.anglesclub.com BAMBOO LOUNGE 7204 E. 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Gender Benders IUINIPIS IGIAILIA IOIRtEIL AIT HIE INIEIAIT IJIAIYIE IOITIEIR IWIIlLIL Ell IClEIDIE N S A ~ N G A N B U ~ N u ~ H U N O U R METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or sdling I’lt work hard for you. sales required. based. send resume to: Metro Star PC Box 581718 Tulsa, OK 74158 starnews@sbcglobal.com www.metrostarnews.com ~{~troSTAR 15 its biggest impact since Roosevelt, because the conservative. movement has been thoroughly repudiated tbo@ reali~,." "What matters, as always, is not what we can’t do, it’s what we can and must do." Stonewall Democrats is a recognized group of the Oklahoma and national Democratic Pa~. Working to educate voters and politicians about issaes of the GLBT community, we are working to make change and shape history. 1" STATE ~ st Tuesday ofevery month at the EMOCRAT~C PARTY HEADQUARTERS Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Metro Star Magazine, December 1, 2009; Volume 6, Issue 12 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Dec. 1, 2009 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Chaz Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Jeanne Flanigan Rex Wockner Gerald Libonati Michael W. 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Chiefs Kyle's Bed and Breakfast Metro scene Miss Bamboo National news Oklahoma News Other Options petition Proposition 8 protest Qscopes religion Robert Giard Sarah Palin Sooner State Rodeo Association Stonewall Democrats Ugandan bill https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f38e215fb7a7703f98948e692e0e30bf.jpg 04823a777a2bb0c30f9c2514ecfaedd9 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/95fdf5cc24bf52f1e975671e6a291b2c.pdf 043707a61e2a4a5ed94d5619ca821a35 PDF Text Text E FOR President Obama’s Gay Rights Agenda The new whitehouse.gov .... .Page 10 WWW.M ETROSTARN EWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" Gay community upbeat about new president By Michael W. Sasser TULSA, OK__ Despite the involvement of controversial Pastor Rick Warren, the gay and lesbian community responded generally favorable to the inauguration of President Barack Obama on January 20. "This is a big moment for all of the people who feel we were shut out by the Bush Administration," said Oklahoma resident Brian DunleaW, 36. Dunleavy traveled from Green Country to Washington D.C. to witness the inaugural parade and events. "That includes gays and lesbians. Obama is clearly a friend to US, even if many of us don’t always agree xvith him on everything. This could be the beginning of a new era for us." for the inauguration ceremonies. 0KC Pride Parade Stays on 39th Street Festival Will Move, No Longer At Memorial Park By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Amid an abundance of controversy and hearsay, OKC Pride hosted an open meeting January 5 at the Days Inn West, anticipating a much larger crowd than usually attends these meetings. True enough, around 60 GLBT & allied people attended to voice Concerns about rumours that OKC Pride Inc, which administers the annual June OKC Pride Parade & Festival, was not only planning to move the festival to Remington Park, but that the parade would be moved to Remington Park as well. The OKC Pride Parade route had always been, since its beginning in 1987, from Memorial Park at N.W. 36th & Classen Boulevard concluding on N.W. 39th Street & ¥oungs Street, taking it over the now famous hill leading to the Oklahoma Weather Forecast for February 2009 ’-~,~÷~ Feb. 1-5: Sunny, turning warmer ~ Feb. 6-12: Rainy periods, chilly @ Feb. 13-19: Snow north and central, rain south, then sunny, cold ¯ ~ ~ Feb. 20-22: Showers, chilly Feb. 23-25: Rain, mild he was not happy about Warren’s involvement but that he "didn’t go to D.C. for the prayer." FEBRUARY 1, 2009 Oklahomans for Equality Celebrates Anniversary at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Photo by Chaz "Hopefully it’s just a bump in the road," he added. Warren, the controversial evangelical pastor at Orange County, CA’s Saddleback Church, delivered the inaugural invocation at Tuesday’s ceremony. Warren was an outspoken supporter of California’s Proposition 8, the California measure that banned same-sex marriage in the state. 365gay. com reported that the website for Warren’s church specifically stated until recently that unrepentant gay people were not welcome to attend services. In perhaps the most virulent ’.;Warren has compared gay marriage to sanctioning ~°nnnued ~ee OBAMA Page’10 crowds on the Strip, an area where many of the gay community have felt at home for decades. OKC Pride pointed out that moving from Memorial Park was unavoidable for many reasons, including that the Festival itself had outgrown the park and less space was available due to the new Boys and Girls Club building as well as other projects under construction. Another problem was that the City of Oklahoma City required vendors on city parks to pay a sales permit fee of $150 per day ($100 for nonprofits) which made the cost of doing business prohibitive for many of the vendors. Although some members of the board were not happy with the Remington Park location for many reasons, so far it was the only option they had found, and Paul Thompson stated that if anyone could present another viable option it would definitely be considered. P~oto: Dennis R. Nei!I Equalil.y Center Downtown Tulsa TULSA, OK (PR) __In February 1999, the Pyramid Project hosted their first major fundraising event by holding a Wild H~S ~! ~ ~he Ta~ Brady Mansionl TII~ evening the ~i~i6fi 6£~ ~fi~ h0~ f~r the EG~Smmunity in north~k~ OH~6~[~s prelented~ Th~ dream seemed very far away. This February 13th, 14th, and 15th we will celebrate the 10th anniversary of the Wild Hearts Ball and the 3rd anniversary of living in our permanent home, The Dennis R Neill Equality Center. As a mission and vision moving toward fulfillment, this year’s Anniversary Weekend expands with even more events and greater visibility for EQUALITY. Passions ran much higher concerning the Parade route, as this route had been a long held tradition since the beginning Friday, February 13th at 4:00 pm kiclcs offwith a fabulous wedding reception! We will celebrate the unions of local couples who have traveled out of Oklahoma to get married, registered as domestic partners, or conducted civil unions in those places where it is recognized by the municipality, state, or country. The media has been invited to cover this special event of our community, honoring our community heroes. Oldahomans for Equality will present a certificate of recognition to our couples and a photographer will be present to memorialize the moment. As a family, we will toast our happy couples and cut the wedding cake. ........... Continued See OKC PRIDE Page-6 ......... Continued See OKEQ Page-9 Kansas City’s ’ Chorus Mirreni Jim Roth says goodbye to politics. "God bless you citizens of Oklahoma for you have blessed me so. Thank you for the honor to serve you." Thank You Jim! Feb. 26-28: Snow north, rain south; colder Avg. Temperature: 44° (4° brow avg.) Precipitation: 1.5~ (0.5" below avgl) Page 4 �2 February 2009 �~tine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. tn ancient Rome, Februa~T t4th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. ~ae Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. ~e following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festiva! of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be parmers for the duration of the f’estival with the gir! whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would {:all in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. ~e believed that. the reason was t}~at Roman men did not want to leave A~eir loves or {hmilies. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Celebrations include lots of ~asting, partying and parading on the big da~; also known as Shrove Tuesday - just before Ash Wednesday - when the Church rules of fasting and sacrifice take erect. It’s been that way in Christian countries around the ~vofld since the Middle Ages. Today most of the world’s celebrations occur duirng the ~veek of Fat Tuesday; which falls on February 24th this yeal: Fat Tuesday in New Orleans It’s been four long years since the devastation of ’The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint V~flentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdora on the 14th day of February, around the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they xvere drawn by the men as chance directed. ~The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the names of saints for those of maidens. As the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom of young men choosing maidens ~br valentines, or saints as patrons fbr the coming year, arose in this way. Hurricane Katrina, and the biggest part), town in America will pick itself up for the 2009 Fat Tuesday- celebration with even bigger crowds - and more parades - expected this year. The New Orleans Mardi Gras parade schedule kicks offonJanuary 6 and continues through to Fat Tuesday, February 24, 2009. Fat Tuesday, Mardi Gras and Carnival Celebrations around the world The biggest and loudest of them, as always, are in Rio and Ne~v Orleans...although the Karneval, or Fasching, festivities in Cologne and Berlin get pretty wild, Carnaval in Nice shows off the wackier side of the trendy Riviera scene, and the Italians in Venice are the worldwide experts on the art of street theater. $8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 DIHH£R EHTREE$ AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad with you to receive this special offer Not vatid with any other coupon, discount or offers. For anyone who’s ever been dumped, jaded, didn’t get the box of chocolates they wanted~ had bad sex or just wants to get lucky because VALENTINE’S DAY SUCKS! w,~t,,.metrostarnews.com M®t~"oSTAR 3 �A P VILEGE TO HAVE SERVED By Jim Roth OYd2kHOMA CITT, OK __ It is with immense gratitude that I say thank you to my fellow citizens for the opportunity to serve you these past years. I am forever grateful for the chance to toil in the field of public service and I am forever blessed because of you. Former State Senator Running to Chair OKC Schoolboard. By Victor Gorin RAIN Oklahoma Begins Tulsa-Area LGBTS New HIV Testing Church Celebrates New Outreach on OKC’s 39th Pastor Street Strip TULSA, OK (PR) __ MCC United(MCCU) By Victor Gorin In an inspiring speech titled "~e Man in the Arena," President Theodore Roosevelt said "the credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotion, and who spends himself in a worthy cause." While I appreciate these words, the true credit belongs to the citizens who gave me the chance to serve. As your Corporation C.ommissioner and as an Oklahoma County Commissioner, I accomplished every task I had hoped. My guiding principle was simple: Always put the people first. I thrust myself into the arena and fought the good fight defending the rights of all people. I took an oath to honor all people and in turn you have given me the highest honor of my life -- the chance to give back. As a Corporation Commissioner, i worked to expand the horizon of Oklahoma through native blessings like natural gas and wind, through new energies and energy ei~iencies. I encouraged our utility providers to think bigger and am glad fl~ey are making progress today. These willing partners are developing programs that will benefit generations of Oldahomans to come. At Otdahoma County, we implemented programs that eliminated public waste and saved the taxpayers millions of dollars. Xg4e built better roads and bridges and brought relief to our aging senior citizens. It xvasn’t always easy battling entrenched attitudes that resisted change, but working with you I never worked alone. In the end, I feel that I left Otdahoma County much better than I found it because you trusted me to serve you. So as I move into the next chapter of my life I will take with me all tl~e good friends and memories made along the way. My time in public service has come to an end, but my desire to make this state the best it can be has not. I am excited for new opportunities and new arenas to create the change I wish to see in the world. I have devoted my career to public service these past 14 years and your help along this journey has made me a better person. I hope I have made you better as well. As this chapter closes, I am reminded of another passage from President Roosevelt’s speech, where he says: "If he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so tl~at he may never be one of those cold and timid souls, who know neither victory nor defeat." God bless you citizens of Oklahoma for you have blessed me so. Thank you for the honor to serve you. is a thirty yea>old, Tulsa-area church that is part of the worldwide Universal Fellowship of Metropolirtan CommunitT Churches which invite Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Straight people to full inclusion and total participation in all aspects of church and ministry life. On Sunday, February 1st, 2009, the Reverend Ed Paul*will preach his first sermon as Pastor of MCC United. Pastor Ed is well known among the LGBTS community in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and has preached often at MCCU. P/~oto: Fom~er State &nator Angela Monson Seldom has our communit); and those interested in true quality educaOon for the Oklahoma City School District had such an opportunity as xve have now to elect a true progressive with a vision that could effect meaningful change. First elected to the Oklahoma State Legislature as a representative in 1990, she moved up to the State Senate in 1993, re-elected until she was forced out by term limits in 2005. During that time she never failed to take proud stands for any progressive cause, and was proud to be a keynote speaker at the OKC MDSWalk as well as our Pride Festival. Most importantly, she attended the Oldahoma City Public School System, a 1973 graduate of Douglass High School, following both her parents. Earning a Master’s degree in Public Health Administration from OU, she is currently employed at the OU Health Sciences Center as Director of Health Policy Development and Analysis. She currently is raising her niece and nephew ( Donovan 18, Danielle 10), also attendees of the OKC school system, so not only does she understand the problems firsthand, she has the passion to make it better. She shares ~vith the Metro Star: Victor: Angela, you must know what you are taldng on. What made you decide to xvant to run for tiffs office? Angela: I did it for our children. That really is what prompted me. These last 3 years I have been working really intensely witl~ students from the OKC public schools. What I have seen has really concerned me greatly. We should be embarrassed at the quality of education our children are receiving. I want to change the priorities, to make a difference as to the quality of education all of our children receive. Victor: What are the worst problems ~ve are facing there? Photo: [@ndell Powers, counselor, I~i Dameron, CTR Outreach Coordinator OKLAHOMA CITy, OK __ Regional AIDS Interfaith Network ( better known as R.A.I.N.) has begun an HIV testing outreach on OKC’s 39th Street Strip. Beginning on Saturday Jannary 24, and followed on the 1st Saturday of each month, free anonymous HIV testing will be provided fi’om 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. at the Brief Connection, a popular undergear/novelty shop located at 2!35 N.XgZ 39th Street. This Will help fulfill a need for those who had been getting testing and other assistance at the Red Rock Clinic located on the Strip that had closed at the end of 2008. As Kendall Powers points out, "Many people in tl~at area are transient, people may not know where help is available, and may not have transportation." Testing is also done at the R.A.I.N. Clinic located at 600 N.W. 23rd Street, hours Monday thru Thursday 9:30 a.m. until 3:30 p.m., when rapid testing is offered, which can show results in around 20 minutes. Testing like,vise here is free and anonymons. The clinic also is open on Friday with the same hours, but the rapid test is not available. Pastoral Search Team Leader Nathan Black said, "I believe this is exactly ~vhat God has for this church. Pastor Ed’S heart for people and his powerfu! leadership will be a tremendous gift to our church and our community. I believe God is calling MCCU to grow and expand its vision and mission, reaching all of northeastern Oldahoma with a message of God’s inclusive and transformative love, and I believe Pastor Ed is the man to lead us on that journey." The church is inviting community members and friends to attend worship at MCCU on Sunday morning, February 1st at 11:00 AM and to share a Celebration Potluck Dinner that ,;viii follow the service. For those who may be unable to attend worship, but want to come to the Dinnm; it should begin around 12:30pm. The church is located at 1623 N. Maplewood, just offofN. Pine and Reading. You can learn more about MCCU by visiting their website at www.mcctulsa.org, sending an email to iworship@mcctulsa.org or calling 9!8-838-1715. ........... More Oklalaoma News Page 6 With tlais outreach and other plans for testing and education, R.A.I.N. wants the GLBT community as well as Oldahomans in general to knmv that they are still around working to prevent the spread of HIV and helping those "uptc¥ * ~i~iI Rights -Criminal living witla it. Speakers are available upon request for groups interested in learning about HIV. For more information, please call (405) 232 2437. email: kdanersib@ rainoklahoma,org Continued See MONSON Page-9 4 ~(~t~°oSTAR February 2009 �w:~.metrostarnews.com t~et~ oSTAR 5 �of the parade over 20 years ago. OKC Pride’s Male co-chair Paul Thompson dispelled turnouts that city government was behind the proposed change, stating that the City had been totally cooperative for raany years. Communication was stressed as ~vell, with many people at the Ineeting stating tbat they had never been asked for their input or support, and had not been informed of OKC Pride activities. Feraale co-chair Latricia Ohnstead stated that" It’s great that you guys have come out saying xvhat you want us to do differently, but you need to come up with some solutions and possibilities to help us make it better." Monty Milburn, President of the DiversityBusiness Association, suggested that the Parade be held on Saturday, so that those fi’om out of town could arrive on Friday night, enjoy the festival and parade, and return to their homes Sunday without being rushed, and while he commended the current board members and volumeers, he did stress the need for" new blood" and new ideas. Following this public discussion, the OKC Pride Board voted unanimously to keep the parade on the same route it has always been, and announced that the next meeting would be January 26, where it would be decided, after considering all options, where and when the festival would be and when the parade would take place. At press time the outcome was not available so to find out more inforraation after that date call (405 4108102 to reach Paul Thompson or check OKC Pride’s website at www.okcpride.org. Obviously- more community involvement is needed, along with better communication. But as Paul 2Pnompson puts it, ’We hope that the parade and festival wil! continue to grow, and that those who feel there needs to be new blood, ideas and people will come out to be part of that and make it happen" EQUAL RIGHTS IN EVERY STATE TEACH IN OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) On February 14, 2009, on the South Steps of the Oklahoma State Capitol at noon, there will be a "Teach Iff’ supporting equal rights in every state. While this is largely a gay event, members of the faith community are attending and wilt be speaking to the issues of"Family Values", which has become a code word for homophobia. We intend to expose, through the use of faith based communities, that "Family Values" are toxic to gay people and to society as a whole. Our Teach In is not a protest, it is not a rally, it is a positive message that we as gay people already have equality spelled out in the Constitution, and we are going to call upon our elected officials to enforce the la~v of the land with a positive message post card campaign to our elected representatives in Oldahoma and Congress. Unless and until we ask for enforcement of our rights in every state we will not have them simply granted to us. Until we can TEACH the greater community that gay people are just regular people, doctors, laxwers, teachers, postal workers, business owners and laborers, the pervasive view of "Family Values" will persist. Now is the time, change happens. adopdom Please participate in some ~vay. You can attend the Teach In starting at noon on the South Capitol Plaza on February 14, or you can request a pack of 8 post cards for a $10 donation (we’ll pay the postage) to send to your elected representatives along with hundreds of other people, gay and straight. You can contact the coordinator. Peter Myers at hpkanyersmd@yahoo.com, you may mail your request to Peter Myers, 2512 NW 41st Street, OKC, OK 73112, or call at 405815-4059. We look forward to everyone participating. Please get involved to end all discrimination against gay people. so Eq~ality- It’s Already t’ot¢r C’onstit~¢tional R{ght. Chance also xvetare fully tax deductible, Following a screening process, the $70 adoption fee includes spa~ing/neuteringpius all vaccinations appropriate fbr the adi~aal~ age. To get involved or to adopt a cat or dog call (405) 321q915 or e-mail " secondchancenorm@aol.com 6 5Zt~,troSTAR Coweta Siloam Springs Claremore Sand Springs Jenks Owasso Sapulpa Norman Collinsville 918-486 2137 479 524 6535 918 341 1260 918 246 2543 918 299 63111 9t8-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6725 918 371 I000 Courtesy of wv~-w.labrescue.net February 2009 �Wockner News Service Gay bishop Robinson a so selected for inaugura @Je RI; Rev. H Gene Robinsom the open, gay and ?artnered bishop (fd~e Episcopal Church ~ ~w Hamuhire diocese, a~livered @e invocation at ganzck Obama~ inaugmnd concert at the Lincoln Memorkd on.~¢n. ~ 8. GL~D photo Amid the controversy over Barack Obama’s selection of anti-gay preacher Rick g~rren to ddiver the invocation at his inaugural, Obama announced Jan. 12 that the Rt. Re~: V[ Gene Robinson, the openly gay and partnered bishop of the Episcopal Church’s New- Hampshire diocese, would deliver the invocatmn at the inaugur~d concert at @e Lincoln Memorial on Jan. 18. Obama attended the concert. Because Robinson is gay and partnered, his selection as bishop in 2003 has led to an evolving schism in the Episcopal Church and a near-schism in the worldwide Anglican Communion, of which the Episcopal Church is the U.S. branch. "President-elect Obama has made a stellar choice in selecting Bishop Gene Robinson to offer the prayer at the Lincoln Memorial to kick offthe inaugural festivities," Rea Care); executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, said after the announcement. "For the first time in history, an out gay man will lead the nation in opening the transfer of power from one administration to another." Log Cabin Republicans are broke ~ne gay group Log Cabin Republicans is broke and $100,000 in debt, according to the Washington Blade. LCR President Patrick Sammon said the troubled U.S. economy has impacted donations to the organization. The ~roup currently has vwo flail,time employees and one part-time employee, three fewer than a year ago. www.rnetrostarnews.com in at least 77 nations and punishable by death in at least seven. The statement was signed by Albania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finlaaad, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel~ Ital); Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norwa}( Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tom4 and Prfncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia, TimorLeste, United Kingdom, Uruguay and Venezuela. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, daat said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights of certain persons" because "the notion of orientation spans a xvide range of personal choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization of many deplorable acts." The U.S. did not sign either statement. ACLU sues over new Arkansas adoption ban ¯ne American Civil Liberties Union filed a lawsuit Dec. 30 seeking to strike down a new voter-passed laxv that bans any unmarried person ~vho lives with a partner from serving as an adoptive or foster parent in At’kansas. ~-he suit, filed in Pulaski County Circuit Court, argues that the ban violates federal and state constitutional rights to equal protection and due process. Twenty-nine people from a dozen families are participating in the case as plaintiffs, including a grandmother who lives with her same-sex partner and is the only relative willing to adopt her grandchild, who is in At’kansas state care. Several married heterosexual couples also are plaintiffs. They previously had chosen friends or relatives who are coupled but not married to adopt their children in the event 0fthe parents’ deaths. "We’ve been hearing from all corners of the state from dozens of families who are panicking about how Act 1 impacts them," said Rita Sldar, executive director of the ACLU of Arkansas. "~ais kiw ... takes away parents’ right to decide fbr themselves xvho will adopt their children if they die, it denies the many children in Arkansas state care a chance at the largest possible pool of potential foster and adoptive homes, and (it) denies couples who are living together but unmarried the chance to provide loving homes to children who desperately need them." Four arrested in California lesbian rape case After receiving tips from residents, police in the San Francisco Bay Area city of Richmond arrested two men and two teens Jan. 1 for allegedly raping a lesbian while making antigay slurs. Humberto Hernandez Salvador, 31, Josue Gonzalez, 21, and Darrell Hodges, 16, were arraigned in Contra Costa County Superior Court Jan. 5 and 6 on charges that included carjacking, kidnapping, gang rape and hate crime. The fourth suspect, a 15-year-old, will be tried as a minor. Bail was set at $2.2 million for Hernandez and $1.85 million for Gonzalez. They could face up to life in prison if found guilty. Barney Frank details congressional gay agenda Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank said Jan. 12 that three long-delayed pieces of gay-related legislation likely will pass and become law now that Congress has a Democratic majority and the incoming president is gay-friendly. "We’re going to do three things in Congress," Frank, D-Mass., told The New Yorker. "First, a hate-crimes bill -- that shouldn’t be too hard. Next, employment discrimination. We almost got that through before, but nmv we can ~vin even if we add transgender protections, which we are going to do. And finally, after the troops get home from Iraq, gays in the military. 7he time has come." San Francisco Catholic church vandalized with swastika The Dec. 13 attack began after the woman got out of her car, which had a rainbow sticker on it. One of the men hit her with an object, ordered her to strip and raped her on the spot, with assistance from the other men, police said. Nxe woman ~vas then forced into her car and driven to a more remote location, where she was raped inside and outside the car. After about 45 minutes, the assailants left in the victim’s vehicle with her wallet, leaving her naked at the scene. Police had offered an $11,000 reward for information leading to the arrest and conviction of the alleged attackers. Gay mayor takes once in Portland, Ore. Sam Adams took the oath of office as mayor of Portland, Ore., Jan. 1 at 12:01 a.m., making the city the largest in the country with aft openly gay mayor. Adams, 45, captured more than 50 percent of the vote in a May 20 primary election that had 13 candidates, thereby avoiding a general-election runoff. SMq FRANCISCO, CA __ Someone spray-painted a Roman Catholic church in San Francisco’s Castro neighborhood with a swastika Jan. 4 in apparent protest of San Francisco Archbishop George Niederauer’s support for Proposition 8, the Nov. 4 ballot initiative ~vith which voters amended the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage. Accompanying red-and-black text sprayed on Most Holy Redeemer Catholic Church said: "Prop H8 - Niederauer Ratzinger - Where is the love?" Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger is Pope Benedict XVI. Most Holy Redeemer is considered to be liberal and gay-friendly, as Catholic churches go. He has promised to make Pordand "cleaner, greener, more sustainable, smarter, more equal, better educated." San Diego is the largest city in ATmerica ever to haace had an openly gay mayor. Toni Atkins held the jok for five months in 2005. She was appointed by the Civ Cguncil after both the mayor and the deputy, maygr quit in the wake of a pensionfunding debacle. MORTUARY SERVICE, ~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 23(}- 131~) or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plan CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED 2415-C North Walnut Avenue, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 5,~®@’oSTAR 7 �OMING ELECTS FIRST OPENLY GAY PERSON TO THEIR STATE LEGISLATUIBy Victor Gorin Photo: State Representative Cathy Connol& When Cathy Connolly got elected to the Wyoming Legislature as a Democratic representative for House District 13, she made history as the Cowboy State’s first openly gay legislator. All things being relative, it is one of the more progressive districts of Wyoming, inside one of only two counties in the state that went blue this last election. Born in Troy, New York, she came to Wyoming in 1992. Holding both a PhD in Sociology, and a law degree earned at the State University of New York in Buffalo, she is now a professor of women’s studies at the UniversitT of Wyoming in Laramie. Public policy has been an area of keen interest for her. Urged by her peers to run for this office, Ms. Connolly is active in the communit): She is a strong advocate for ~vorking people and one of her major objectives as a legislator will be to try to lessen the wage gap between men and women, which in ~’yoming is the highest in the nation. Connolly also wants to work to improve healthcare and education, and to create a better environment for all minorities, including Wyoming’s GLBT community. Obama spokesman: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel~ is history "We should be embarrassed at the quality of education our children are receiving. I want to change the priorities, to make a difference in the quality o~ education all o~ our children receive." "The two candidates are Angela Monson and Kirk Humphreys. We know from Angela’s track record that Angela cares about minorities and the GLBT community, and will understand problems like school bullying, and we know that Kirk Humphreys clearly doesn’t get it." Paul Thompson, C0-Chair of the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Angela is far and away the best candidate for this position. It is imperative that we get out and vote for her. Margaret Cox, Activist By \Vocl~ler Wire Sen*ice New White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs says the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" ban on open gays in the military will be repealed. In a video posted in mid-January at change.gov, in which Gibbs answered some of the 72,000 questions Americans have submitted to the site, he said: "Thaddeus from Lansing, Mich., asks, ’Is the new administration going to get rid of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy ?’" To volunteer or For more information call Gibbs answered: "Thaddeus, you don’t hear a politician give a one-word answer much, but It S, Yes. 8 ~÷troSTAR ® www.Monson4ourchildren.org monsonforourchildren@yahoo.com February 2009 �At 5:00 pm MY BIG EAT GAY \X;%DDING FAIR opens with vendors and merchants throughout the center. These local companies cater to same gender couples looking to plan their speciai da> Several honeymoon destinations will be participating iu a raffle fbr free prizes. Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm the dancing and partying begins with the 10th annual \Vild Hearts Ball. DJ Zeke Richardson will be playing the tunes to light up the dance floor. Raffles and prizes will be given away all evening. A cash bar and party foods will satisfy your palate. A photographer will be present for those special part), pics. Admission is free for members of OkEq, $10 admission f~e for non OkEq members. Your admission fee can be applied to your first installment of a $50.00 OkEq membership. Child care will be provided in the Wellness Room on the second level for children under 12 years of age. ~e will have games, crafts and special Valentine snacks for our young guests. Sunday, February 15th we celebrate FAITH with music and a wonderful brunch buffet. The second annual Brunch and Blessing will be in the Events Center. We will have a 9:00 am, 11:00 am and 1:00 pm seatings. Admission is $10.00 for the buffet and $2.00 for mimosas. John Sawyer will be our host extraordinaire and will be joined by Tulsa’s finest choirs, choruses, orchestras, bands and local musical artists like Rebecca Ungerman, Mindy Bardett, and Jarod Tyler. Ten years ago our community dreamed of a permanent home for the LGBT citizens of Oklahoma. Anniversary Weekend ,vill celebrate the progress towards full equality in the state we call home. You can join Oklahomans for Equality and become a full member t’or $50.00. Membership gives you discounts on special promotions in our Pride Store, discounts on special events, and supports the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please embrace our mission of serving our community and progressing towards equality. Remember what made a dream a reality for Dorothy? Click your heels and say "Tulsa .......... there is no place like home." Bathroom Bingo A Big Success TULSA, OK (PR) __ Free Bingo has caught on at Tulsa’s End Up Club. The Thursday 6:30pm event now in it’s 2nd month has attracted a large following of locals out for a fun time and the chance to ,vin great prizes. They play five games, 4 straight bingo for beer tabs, Walmart gift cards, and gas cards. The last game is blackout, and the winner gets a chance to choose one of five gift boxes. One holds the grand prize. The first grand prize was a very nice Swiss Army watch won by a Tulsa celebrity. The End up is Tulsa’s newest bar located at 5336 E. Admiral P1. Phone 918-836-0915 Angela: Dropout rates, which is indicative of the problems we are having. Some schools in our district have dropout rates over 60%. That~ terrible, they wind up in the street and too often in our prison system. On test scores, our students overall still are performing poorly. Too many students say ’I hate school!’ I want our students to be excited about the value of learning. Across America our students are not performing well enough in math and science, lagging behind other countries. don’t ~vant to become dependent on other countries for our technology, we need to educate our own to bring back our high skill/high tech .jobs. Victor: What abou.t teachers? Angela: Teacher pay is an issue, Oklahoma is 48th in the nation and I’ve heard complaints about it, but more often I’ve heard teachers express concerns about their facilities, about having to pay for school supplies with their own money. That ~hould never happen. Instead of raises for administrators, I’d like to see the money better spent on the classroom. There is a huge mistrust between the public and the administration of the school system. People don’t feel they have a voice, and as the board chair I can involve parents and the public, including groups such as the Parent-Teacher Association, faith based organizations and those groups and individuals who want to be involved. I’m a PTA president myself, I’ve worked after school programs, so I understand the problems and what needs to be done. Victor: A major issue for the GLBT community is school bullying. Currently in the Oklahoma City Public School Handbook, real or perceived sexual orientation is not listed as a category among groups not to be bullied, unlike other protected groups such as race and religion. We have tried for years to get that changed with no success. Angela: There is never any reason to bully anyone. We knmv that there is a problem, that people are bullied, discriminated against & treated differently,due to their real or perceived sexual orientation. \Vhy do we put our heads in the sand and pretend it’s not an issue? This gives tacit approval for this behavior, implying that it’s OK to be mean to people who are different. Not only should it be listed as a category, we should go further to show people how to trust and respect people who are different. As with human nature, sometimes there is friction. But like when you rub two sticks together, it creates heat and light, and used properly it can be beneficial. Addressing prejudice and dealing with it correctly can sometimes mal<e things better. ~is can be an opportunity to teach, empower and make a positive difference. Not only that, but kids would perform better academically when there are less of these kinds of conflicts and social pressures, Victor: As~ything else special you’d like to add? A_ngela: An educated worl~orce and general population makes our whole society better for a lot of reasons, and I want to help make that happen here in Oklahoma City. Victor: Thank you Angela, and I hope you get your chance to go do that. Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM CC United A Metropolitan Community Church www.metrostarnews.com To reach Angela; call 405 314 961"3, Email: Monsonforourchildren@ ~g,~rebsite: Monson4ourchildren. l°°,cOnl 918-838-1715 www.rncctulsa.org Org P~®t~’oSTAR 9 �vi÷w oints road to Barack presidency paved by entertainment machine Times o£Harvey Responsibility £or Our Ft ture By James Nimmo By Jerry Libonati FT LAUDEPd)ALE, FL __ ’11~e movie and television industry may have had a hand in shaping public opinion about electing a black president by depicting African-Americans in the role of Americas number one Times of Hawey Mill~’ available free online at http:// tinyurl.com/7qyaco. "No doubt ~hrren is on the ,vrong side on gay marriage and openly hostile to the gay community, but he isn’t the new" president," said Arkansas native Pippa Roc~’ord, 42, another inauguration spectator. ’%)~’re going to be much better off: then ever before with President Obama." More than two and a half decades lateI; Morgan Freeman played the lofty role in the 1998 comet-snaashing film, Deep h’npact. It appeared in theaters at a time, not that long ago, when no one in the real world seriously entertained the idea of a black president. "If auything, my portrayal of David Palmer; I think, may have helped open the eyes of the American people.., to prove the possibility* there could be an M~rican-American president, a female president, any type of president that puts the people first," Haysbert told reporters in a July 2008 teleconference. If Hollywood could change the way Americans thiuk about having a black president, could it also influence the way Americans took at gay and lesbian people? It already has. ~Ihe younger you are the less you will be aware that movies and "~ shows have dramaticall) changed. %efve evoNed over the years to include gay and lesbian characters. It wasn’t always like that. For most of the twentieth century, there were virtually no gay/Iesbian personalities on the big or the small scree~. Gay people were sometimes interviewed on edN, television documentaries hidden behind screens like seedy criminals. The first dine t personally saw a gay man interviewed out in the open was on the Virginia Graham talk show in the 1960s. ~his brave soul sat right their on her studio couch in front of a live audience. No screen, no mask, no garbled voice. It was revolutionary. Ellen DeGeneres’ sitcora premiered in 1994 as a lukewarm comedy show. It had a supporting cast member who was gay. But her character, Ellen Morgan, didfft turn up the heat with her coming-out episode until 1997. It was a historymaking event but not vdthout its pitfalls as some sponsors, like Wendy’s, dropped their support. The show was cancelled the next year. Since The Ellen Show, other entertainment venues made their stand. Will and Grace debuted in 1998 and became a romance-free staple. Rosie O’Donnell got off to a closeted start with her Daytime-Emmy-winning talk show in I996 but made her impact after coming out and later spoke proudly as a lesbian woman on The View. The popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy; that brought stereotypes to a new levet, popped up in 2003. A smattering of gay characters now populate mainstream sl~ows, not as devious villains, but as ordinary people. horns are still being removed from gay and lesbian heads but, who knows, when the process is done, maybe we’ll even see a gay or lesbian president. Ger~dd kibana~ ~s d*e autkor (ft~,e new novd ]’etcr ~" a.fi~mousg~3’ rock, tar who go~s ~nco~a~m to.find £we. (W~Tn&wrmctvaaw’.~)m) L~bonati is an awan’£ winning journalist in Soud* E/orie& worki*ag/ar d~e &n-&**tind news~,~pe~: He kas also written~r 7~)eMiamiHe~z,~{ ~e A&ocam and jlvea~ncesJ~r~qesbi,~n new~&ers around the count*7. 10 Met~~oSTAR We’re probably too familiar with the Santayana quote, "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." So, let’s get acquainted with a new one that’s explicitly forward looldng, by George Bernard Shaw: "We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our tq~tture." Seeing situations on screen allows viewers to get used to a new idea. As early as 1972 a movie about the first black president hit the silver screen. Based on a novel by Irving \Vgallace, The Man starred James Earl Jones. Ironically, the screenplay was written by Rod Sefling as if to suggest that such a scenario could only be seen on ~l~ne ~i\vilight Zone. Dennis Haysbert took the role on the Fox television series, 24 that premiered in 2001. In ~lct, Haysbert was voted "Favorite On-screen President" by a Blockbuster poll. Michelle Goldberg, author of Kingdom Coming: The Rise of Christian Nationalism, has written, "Modernity is the enemy of fundamentalist religion, and gende>bending is the hallmark of modernity." ( ,a~v.religiondispatches.org ) Photo: Harvey Milk OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I’m hoping you had a safe (in more ways than one) New Year’s celebration and are ready to commit to a political and social New Year of acquiring the legal recognition of our GLBT equality which is ours as a right of citizenship. This morning I watched the "The Times of Harvey Milk", a documentary of Harw2y Milk composed of interviews with people who knew and worked with him, combined with news clips illustrating the important events in Milk’s public life as a San Francisco City Commissioner. This is not to be confused with the new biopic starring Sean Penn titled simpl> "Milk". I was reminded that the defeat of’the Briggs Amendment that would have outlawed the employment of GLBT teachers in California was fiollowed by the rise of Anita Bryant, who got her inspirational juice from this setback to the fundie nuts and homo-haters agenda. She was the rolling crest of the wave of anti GLBT taws and reversals that followed across the country in the late 70s and early 80s. Think Wichita, Kansas; Dade County, Florida; and Oregon. Oklahoma had its own version of a Briggs Amendment argued before the United States Supreme Court in 1985. You can read the transcript and listen to the audio here: http:/Iwwvw:oyez.org/casesl19801989/1984/!984_83_20301argument/or http://tinyurl. com/Sznzkp. ~e Supreme Court let stand a 10th Circuit Court ruling that invalidated an Oklahoma ban on pro-gay advocaW by teachers. ( http://v,~x,:lambdalegal.orglaboutus/35th anniversary/) ( http:/itinyurI.com/9qqvc8 ) ( http:// en.wikipedia.org/wild/Anita_Bryant It would seem this knee-jerk reaction to GLBT progress is genetic to the Bible-bumping believers of America as that’s what’s going on now with our marriage-equality movement: for every Massachusetts there’s an Arizona and an Arkansas. Listening to the confession clips of Dan White, the convicted killer of Milk and Mayor George Moscone, as well as the ravings of Sally> Kern of Otdahoma and her other Kern Krew members in Oklahoma where I live, they have a single uniting fear: fear of change, be it social, legal, enviromnental, or scientific. Why else do they suck like leeches so tenaciously to a way of living now 5,000 thousand years old with its treatment of people as property~ a destructive dominance over the environment, the elevation of a small, "pure" minoriW to rule over all that~ considered different, and like leeches, drain the vigor of human imagination from our society? Obama’s positions on GLBT issues are more liberal than either Bush’s or even former President Bill Clinton. Mthough not a supporter of gay marriage, he opposes legislation to ban it and h~s asserted flail support for civil unions with rights equal to marriage. According to the ~Thite House website, President Obama supports the repeal of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" pollW for service members and of the Defense of Marriage Act. The White House also cites Obama’s support for stronger hate crimes laws, for housing anti-discrimination laws inclusive of orientation language, for adoption equality and for a comprehensive national HIV/AIDS strateD: ABC News online reported just prior to the inauguration that Obama intends to nominate openly ga,v John Berry, director of the Smithsonian~ National Zoo, as Director of the O~ce of Personnel Management. Berry was Assistant SecretaW of the Interior during Bill Clinton’s administration. Obama has also nominated a lesbian, Nancy Sutley, as chairwoman of the Council on Environmental Qsiality. Pinning down president’s roles in GLBT issues has not been easy in recent administrations. Although considered generally amenable to the GLBT community, President Clinton,s record on gay rights includes his signature on both the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 and the 1993 Colin Powetl- led strateD, of"Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell." Bush was openly supportive of a federal ban on gay marriage and retained "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" under fire; but also was the first Republican president to appoint an openly gay man to serve in his administration, Scott Evertz as Director of the Office of National AIDS Policy: Bush’s nominee as ambassador to Romania, Michael E. Guest, became the first openly gay man to be confirmed by the Senate as a U.S. ambassador. ~e first openly gay ambassador, James Hormel, received a recess appointment from Clinton aAer the Senate failed to confirm the nomination. Obama’s Gay ghts Agenda By Greg Steele Within ~ninutes after President Obama took the oath of office on Jan 20, the official x~q~ite House webpage ( http:/Aw,-w. whitehouse.govlagenda/civil_rightsl ) was updated under the heading of"~]~e Agenda, Civil Rights" to detail Obamgs support fbr tbe LGBT community. His stated agenda include the following: ÷ Expand Hate Crimes Statutes: In 2004, crimes against LGBT Americans constituted the third-highest categoU of hate crime reported and made up more than 15 percent of such crimes. @ Fight Wbrkplace Discrimination: President Obama supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, and ........ Continued See GkSK AGENDA Page 15 Februaw 2009 �Oldahomans for Equality art gallery opens Maegan Kauffman The exhibit will remain up through the month of February, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. ~Ilne Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality(OkEq). OkEq seel~s equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocac){, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Among the largest gay meffs choruses in the nation, Heartland Men’s Chorus has won acclaim for its daring programming and unique choral sound. More than 100 singers are expected to travel to Oldahoma City for this special benefit performance of And Justice for Al!. "llae concert combines lnusic, narration and multi-media in a unique "musicaI documentary" format, that has become a halhnark of HMC. The performance will trace the struggles of Afiican Americans, women, gays and lesbians in their quest for civil rights. Audience members can expect to hear inusic spawned fiom the various civil rights movements ("We Shall Overcome"), music inspired by iconic historical events ("Elegy for Matthew") and songs that resonate on the theme of social justice ("You’ve Got to be Carefully Taught"). ’Zetting Go" @ Maegan KauflCman TULSA, OK (PR) __ Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, Nmrsday, February 5th, 2009, for the opening of its new exhibit, featuring the charcoal drawings of artist Maegan Kauffman. Maegan Kauffman is an artist from Tulsa, OK. She graduated from Skiatook High School in May of 2005. Currently, Maegan is attending the Fred Jones Jr. School of Art at the University of Oldahoma where she works as a Teacher’s Assistant for Assistant Director of Undergraduate Studies, Professor Robert Dohrmann. She is a member of The Red Clay Faction Ceramics Club and will graduate with her Bachelor’s of Fine Arts degree in May of 2010. "As an artist, I draw my inspiration fiom life and the human body as it differs from individual to individual," states Ms. Kauff)nan. "I am inspired by the human condition and the way that we not only deal with the challenges we face out in the world, but also with the inner battles we have within ourselves. The way that a person feels on the inside is expressed through that person~ demeanor, the way they hold their body, and the way they force a smile. By capturing people’s expressions and their body language, I capture their inner emotional state. I consider my artwork realistic expressionism, in which I portray my subjects in a photo realistic manner. Although I put much emphasis on realistic rendering, I use techniques like contrast and composition to express sentiments of the individual portrayed." Maegan continues, "I enjoy all of the different aspects of figurative drawing, including the challenge of proportions and morphing mere shapes and shadows into recognizable form. When I approach a new piece, I don’t necessarily look at my subject as a whole, but as a million different forms. I concentrate on rendering each individual form accurately and in the end the forms melt together into one cohesive image. Charcoal is nay medium of choice for rendering these images. I have learned to manipulate the charcoal, by shading, blending, and crisping edges, to achieve the image desired. The high distinction between tones of dark, medium, and light give the subject matter a tangible quality." www.metrostarnews.com Qffe-Broadway’s popular musical corn@ Alter Boyz is set to rock the masses at Tulsa’s PAC. TULSA, OK (PR) __ ALTAR BOYZ is the hilarious account of a struggling Christian boy band from Greenville, Ohio. The Boyz - intent on saving souls and raising spirits - are on the last night of their "Raise the Praise" U.S. tour and determined to make the big time. There’s Matthew, the hunky leadm; who holds the group together; Mark, the sweet and sensitive one, who choreographs all the band’s signature moves; Luke, the bad boy with an interest in communion wine and driver of the Altar Boyz van; Juan, the Latin lover who’s popular with the ladies; and Abraham, a nice Je,vish boy who’s not sure how he ended up in the group. This concert marks the first regional tour for HMC. In addition to the performance at Village Christian Church, the men will perform at the American Choral Directors Association annual conference (to be held in Oklahoma City) and present a special weekday matinee for middle and highschool students in Kansas City. "Reaching out to diverse audiences is an integral part of our mission," says artistic director Dr. Joe Nadeau. "This particular concert, combining our music with an important social justice message, was the perfect vehicle to bring ’the HMC experience’ to those who may not have had a chance to hear us perform before." Spectacular music...sinfully sensational dancing...faith that’s stronger than their hair gel .... The ALTAR BOYZ get ready to rock the masses of all denominations by spreading the good news and soothing the troubled souls of Tulsa through the glory of sweet pop music. Produced by Grace Man Productions, ALTAR BOYZ makes its Tulsa debut March 615, 2009 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets for ALTAR BOYZ, priced $25 to $35 with special 2-top cabaret table seating at $90 are on sale nox~; at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Box Office, by phone call (918) 5967111 or purchase on-line at www.myticketoffice.com. Kansas City’s Gay Chorus Makes Oklahoma Debut ICANSAS CITY, MO (PR) __ Heartland Men’s Chorus, Kansas Ci@ gay men’s chorus, will present a flee concert performance of And Justice for All at the Village Christian Church (9401 Ridgeview Drive) at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesday, March 3, 2009. Singing out in Kansas City for more than 23 years, the concert will mark the Oklahoma City debut of this renowned group of singers. A fi’ee-will offering will benefit the BritVil Food Pantry. ~!~ ~"<~STAR 11 �OKC Community Center Planning Committee Meets By Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The steering committee for the OKC LGBT Community Center met January 21 at Church of the Open Arms, 3131 N. Pennsylvania. The meeting was attended by 10 people, some representing organizations and some attending as individuals. The goal is to have a building to house a communitT center. Several have volunteered to take responsibilities for aspects of planning for the center, and some want to be identified by first name only, for privacy concerns. Facilitator/Chair of the steering committee is Henry, Building committee chair is Ginger, Finance committee chair is Margaret, Program committee is Larry Schockley, PR/Outreach committee is Eric, and Governance committee is Saul Olivarez. "I]~e cormnittee will begin the process of forming a non-profit 501 C3 organization by reviewing the mission statements of other organizations, selecting a temporary name for the center, forming a board, and writing bylaws. The committee invites anyone interested to make suggestions for a name, attend raeetings, and help advance the process. ~ne PR/Outreach committee will establish a website eventually, but for no,v people can communicate to the committee at okcglbtcenter@ gmail.com. The next meeting will be on February 19, at 6 pro, at Church of the Open Arms. K~ns~s City’s w~rld renowned g~I/men s chorus comes ~ Okl~h~rn~ City ~nd mm, ing ~ne-night-~nly performance. Mickey Coalwell, The Kansas City Star 12 %~A oSTAR February 2009 �Health Departments React with A arm to New CDC Surveillance Data STD Rates Higher Than Ever While Funding For Prevention Declines (PRWEB) January 15, 2009 -- Today, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released national sexually transmitted disease (STD) surveillance data for 2007. The report shows persistent and staggeringly high rates of STDs as welt as a disproportionate burden of infections on youth, minorities, and women. Upon the release of this information, the National Coalition of STD Directors called for a renewed commitment ftom Congress and President Obama to fight the STD epidemic in the U.S. In 2007, more than 1.1 million Chlamydia cases were reported, which is the largest number of cases ever reported to CDC for any condition. Rates of primary and secondary (P & S) syphilis increased by 15% from 2006, and 65% of all P & S syphilis cases were among men who since Fiscal Year 2003. This has significandy hampered the ability of STD programs in state and local health departments to deliver critical prevention and treatment services, as well as conduct surveillance. "State and local health departments are responsible for controlling this epidemic and often are the medical providers of last resort for persons with STDs. There needs to be a systematic reinvestment in the public health infrastructure to provide the necessaiT clinical services to diagnose and treat STDs and contact exposed partners to insure that they are treated and further spread is prevented," stated Dr. Peter Kerndt, NCSD Board Chair and STD Program Director from Los Angeles County. "In addition to the need for a greater investment of resources for CDC’s Division of STD Prevention, NCSD strongly urges Congress and President Obama to support :evidence-based "This report should serve as a wake up call to policymakers and the public that STDs remain a significant public health threat in the U.S., and a scaled up investment of funds are desperately needed for prevention and treatment." prevention programs to prevent STDs, particularly for young people," stated Don Clark. More than $1.6 billion in federal funds have been spent on abstinenceonly-until-marriage programs, which have been unable effectiveness at have sex with men (MSM). In addition, the report shows persistent and growing racial d!sparities in Chlamydia, Syphilis, and Gonorrhea infections. In 2007, Blacks were 19 times more likely to become infected with Gonorrhea than whites, CDC estimates that approximately I~ million STD infections occur each year, and nearly half are among those aged 15:24. African American women between 15 and 19 are particularly hard hit, accounting for the highest rates of Chlan~ydia and Gonorrhea of any group. The consequences of untreated STDs include infertility, pregnancy complications, cervical cancer, pelvic inflammatory disease, birth defects and an increased risk of HIV transmission. While rates of STDs have continued to increase, federal funding for CDC’s Division of STD Prevention has steadily declined delaying sexual activity, or reducing rates of STDs, including HIV/AIDS, or unintended pregnancy. Clark continued, "It is time to end these ineffective and harmful programs, and invest ifi sciefice based ~ipproaches to STD prevention, including comprehensive sex education." The National Coalition of STD Directors is a nonprofit, nonpartisan association of public health sexually transmitted disease (STD) program directors in the 65 CDC directly funded project areas, which includes all 50 states, 7 cities, and 8 U.S. territories. As the only national organization with a constituency that provides frontline STD services, NCSD is the leading national voice for strengthening STD prevention, research and treatment. These efforts include advocating for effective policies, strategies, and sufficient resources, as xvell as increasing awareness of the medical and social impact of STDs. ’~ place where y’~t c~ be who God c-mated you to be ips becomefamit~v" 5:30 p, m. 761-[878 www.metrostarnews.com ~&~t~°oSTAR 13 �Wockner News Service een to Might British AIDS activist Sweden will not recognize Canadian Two S~vedish Lutheran ministers, Lars Gfirdfeldt and Lars Arnell, have lost their fin!l appeal in a case seeking recognition of their Canadian same-sex marriage. The Supreine Administrative Court agreed with lower courts Dec. 16 that foreign samesex marriages can be recognized in Sweden only as registered partnerships. ~e case targeted Sweden’s taxation authority for allegedly mislabeling the couple’s union. "Ihe ruling, however, may have a limited lifespan. Sweden’s government favors granting same-sex couples full access to marriage, and a new law is expected to be in place by the middle of 2009. Queen Elizabeth II ~mnounced on New i%r’s Eve */ant she will ~ni£ht leadin£ AIDS activist Ni~ Partdd£e, chi~executiw" ofthe AIDS o,gmdzation ~n’ence Hi,,ins ~’ust. THT Queen Elizabefl~ II announced on New Year’s Eve that she will knight leading MDS activist Nick Partridge, chief executive of the MDS organization Terrence Higgins Trust. Partridge told the BBC he was "absolutely delighted" by the honor. He will be "invested" later this year when Elizabeth lays a sword on his shoulders. Aussie gay partners gain access to military pensions Australian gays and lesbians will have access to their deceased partners’ military pensions starting in July. The move follows a 2003 ruling by the ofiqce of the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, which found Australia’s refusal to grant the pensions in violation of the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. ~Ihe case was brought by Edward Young of Sydney, whose partner of 38 years died 10 years ago. "What I wanted was to take on the little man, (former Prime Minister John) Howard, and fight," Young told Nae Sydney Morning Herald. "What I wanted was something that would apply right across the board." After the 2003 ruling, the former Howard government procrastinated in reviewing its policy, Howard was replaced by Kevin Rudd in December. 14 ~i?et ’oSTAR Senegal }ails nine men for having gay sex Nine gay men in Dakar, Senegal, were jailed for eight years Jan. 6 for the crimes of having gay sex and belonging to a "criminal association," an HIV-services group. HRgZ said the sentences have "produced widespread panic among organizations addressing HIV and MDS, particularly those working with men who have sex with men." Tl~e arrests occurred several days after Senegal hosted the 15th International Conference on AIDS and STIs (sexually transmitted infections) in Africa. Presentations at the conference highlighted the contradictions in countries such as Senegal that aim HIVprevention efforts at men who have sex with men but continue to criminalize same-sex relations. "ihe International AIDS Society and the Society for AIDS in Afi’ica have demanded that Senegal release nine men who were sent to prison for eight years on Jan. 6 for the crimes of engaging in gay sex and belonging to a "criminal association," the HIV-services group AIDES Sdndgal. Last February, 10 men and a woman were arrested in Dakar, the capital city, after a popular magazine published photographs of a purported marriage ceremony between two Senegalese men. "The arrest of these men based purely on their sexual orientation represents a major setback for the Senegalese response to HIV, which is widely viewed as a model in Africa," SAA President Joanna Mangueira said Jan. 12. Although the individuals were later released, "the publicity and arrests created tremendous public animosity toward LGBT people in Senegal," IGLHRC said. The nine men were sentenced in Dakar, the capital, after being arrested and jailed Dec. 19 following a raid on the apartment of gay leader Diadji Diouf. "MaW gay men and lesbians were attacked by mobs or driven fi’om their homes," the organization said. At the trial, prosecutors used condoms and lube confiscated during the raid to prove that the men had engaged in gay sex. Ugandan gay activists win awsuit On Dec. 19, police raided the apartment of gay leader Diadji Diouf, arrested him and the other men, and confiscated Condoms arid lubricants ..... In a landmark victory, the High Court of Uganda ruled Dec. 22 that constitutional rights apply to GLBT people .......... .... The men were taken to a police station and held until Dec. 24, then transferred to a detention center, where they were held until trial. Human Rights \Vc’atch said the men were beaten while in custody. Activists Victor Mukasa and Yvonne Oyoo had sued the attorney general following a 2005 raid at Mukasa’s home in which documents were seized and Oyoo was arrested, assaulted and sexually harassed. Mukasa was not present at the time of the raid. According to the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, the men’s lawyers had only limited access to case files and little time to prepare for the hearing. At the trial, prosecutors reportedly used the confiscated condoms and lube as evidence tha~ the men had engaged in gay sex. The men received the maximum five-year sentence for engaging in what the Penal Code calls "an improper or unnatural act with a person of the same sex" and three additional years for being members of the HIV-services organization AIDES Sdndgal, the "cril~ninal associatiom" "IGLHRC is deeply concerned by what appears to be a violation of the right to a flee and fair trial, the right to privacy and the right to freedom from discrimination," the group said. "These charges will have a chilling effect on AIDS programs," added Scott Long, director of Human Rights \Vatch’s LGBT Rights Division. "Outreach workers and people seeking HIV prevention or treatment should not have to worry about police persecution. Senegal should drop these charges and repeal its sodomy law (which) invades privacy, criminalizes health work, justifies brutality and feeds fear." AIDS societies call for release of imprisoned Senegalese gays The men received the maximum five-year sentence for doing what the Penal Code calls "an improper or unnatural act with a person of the same sex" and three additional years for being members of the "criminal" HIV organization. ............... More XXrorld News Page 18 Justice Stella Arach Amoko found that the raid violated the activists’ rights to, among other things, liberty; privacy, dignity, and protection from unlawful entry, unlawful search, unauthorized seizure and inhuman treatment. "The actions of the officials that molested Victor Mukasa and Oyoo were unconstitutional, inhuman, and should be condemned," Arach Amoko said. "It was my dream that justice would come and it has come," Mukasa said after the ruling. "And it is my bigger dream that justice will come to every human being in Uganda who is oppressed. This does not mark the end. ~Ihe struggle continues until every human being is free." February 2009 �believes that our anti-discrimination employment laws should be expanded to include sexual orientation and gender identitT. @ Support Ftfll Civil Unions and Federa! Rights fbr LGBT Couples: President Obama supports full civil unions that give same-sex couples legal rights and privileges equal to those of married couples. Obama also believes we need to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act and enact legislation that would ensure that the 1,100+ federal legal rights and benefits currently provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally-recognized unions. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Oppose a Constitutional Ban on Same-Sex Marriage: President Obama voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006 which would have defined marriage as between a man and a woman and prevented judicial extension of marriage-like rights to same-sex or other umnarried couples. @ Repeal Don’t Ask-Dofft Tell: President Obama agrees w’ith former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff John Shalikashvili and other military experts that we need to repeal the "don’t ask, don’t tell" polic?: @ Expaald Adoption Rights: President Obama believes that we must enstire adoption rights for all couples and individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation. He thinks that a child will benefit from a healthy and loving home, whether the parents are gay or not. @ Promote AIDS Prevention: In the first year of his presidency. @Club 209, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Empower’Women to Prevent HIV/AIDS: In the United States, the percentage of women diagnosed with AIDS has quadrupled over the last 20 years. Today, women account for more than one quarter of all new HtV/AIDS diagnoses, President Obama introduced the Microbicide Development Act, which will accelerate the development Of products that empower women in the battle against AIDS. National Gay and Lesbian Task Force responds to President Obama inauguration speec @ Finishline, Oklahoma City- @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa xWASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ ~Ihe National Gay and l~sbian Task Force responded today to President Barack Obama’s inauguration speech. "America made history today ~vith the swearing-in of Barack Obama as its 44th president. It is our hope this truly marl~ the dawn of a new political era of engagement in the life of this country. In his gpeech, the president spoke of our nation’s need to reat~rm its enduring spirit and ’carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea ... [the] promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.’ @ The End Up, Tulsa www.metrostarnews.com @ Angles, Oklahoma City "Our country has made significant strides in advancing this ’noble ideg toward ful!-fledged realitT, but we’re not there yet. Too many people continue to face discrimination and hardship. As President Obama assumes the role ofAmeric~s ~’oremost leader, we call upon him to fulfill the promise of a nation where lesbian, ga~, bisexual and transgender people are recognized and valued as part of this country’s strength, spirit and solution. ~e fact tl~at the ot~cial White House Web site was updated just this afternoon with a list of commitments to LGBT rights is already enormous positive change." ~®troSTAR 15 �Loo ng for some new exciting wines ? You may wanna check these’ out. "We Just got back fi’om a California road trip. Vie were lieading south on ~iuT 101/a road trip fi’om Napa to Paso R0bles2 Here are some highlights from our trip: Napa Silver Oak/Alexander Valley Cabernet "04 Miner Oracle Red ’05 and the ~qld Yeast Chardonnay ’07 Saddleback Scouts Honor named after wine maker Niels Venge’s late dog. This wine is naostly Zin with Petite Sirah and Charbono. My partner & I did one of our famous annual ~vhifl wind holiday road tours through northern California There are a lot of wineries between Napa & Paso Robles. Grape growing regions are expanding every year and we never have time to see as much as ~ve want to. California has so many wineries to experience and they’re all zip and dmvn the coast. We visited quite a few tasting rooms in 3 days and tried out some really good ~vines. If the wines are listed here, it’s because we fonnd them and the service to be quite exceptional. Not all we sampled will be listed here and although many are not available here in Oklahoma, you may be surprised to find out which ones are. This months recipe courtesy of: Cult Wine Central is a good place to go and check out some of Napa’s more serious wines all under one roof like Ghost Block Cabernet and many, many more. Monterey Ventana Chardonnay Arroyo Seco ’06 Paso Robles Cambria Viognier 07. Bench Break Pinot Noir ’06, Julia’s Pinot Noir ’06 anSthc Tepu-quet Vineyard Syrah ’05 Dierberg Santa Maria Valley Pinot Noir & Chardonnay both are ’06 and estate grmvn. Fess ~Parker Santa Barbara County Viognier ’07 & Melange Blanc ’06 (Marsanne, Ro)~fi & Granache Blanc). Zaca Mesa Estate Rousanne ’06 Photo: M~ D in California wine country Firestone Cabernet Franc Rose ’07 These wines are than describe the invite you to go questions and purchase a bottle some food & wine with out for yourself. This writer is one of the managers at the Grand Vin ~vine shop. He also bar tends and hosts ,vine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. References include: ~ ww. ~neSpectator.com w.lffqneCount~7-his~ek.com ~w.CultI~neCentral.com Rotta Cabernet ’05 & the Heritage Zin ’06, Opolo Summit Creek Zin ’06 1 cup Green onion 2 ts Oregano 2 drops Red hot sauce (optional) Cajun spices (blackened or Cajun king herbed spice excellent) to taste Salt to taste 2 cups Raw white rice To prepare: ~Alligator Jambalaya Ingredients: lb Marinated alligator fillet cut into small pieces 1 lb Hot sausage (Italian) cur into chunks 3 tbs Oil 213 cup Bell peppers chopped 2 cloves Garlic crushed 3/4 cup Parsley 1 cup Chopped fi-esh parsley 1 cup Ch@i3ed celery 2 can Tomatoes ~16 oz each) 2 cups Chicken stock (2 pkg chicken cube mix + water also works) 16 ~’>~ roSTAR In deep frying pan (cast iron preferably) sautd the bell pepper, garlic, parsley and celery. While this is c~oking, adT:l tomatoes & their liquid, the chicken stock &, green onion to a pot that can cook on the stove and in the oven (Corningware) Stir in spices, sautded vegetables raw rice, sausage and alligator fillet pieces. Cook on medium-high heat until liquid is absorbed (stir occasionally to make sure rice doesn’t burn on bottom) and then bake covered in the oven for 25 minutes. NOTE: Alligator meat may not be available in your area, try chicken breast fillet as a substitute: February 2009 �At ~e BOK Center Tulsa L~"W ~e Cable Guy Feb 13, 2009 at BOK Center ’Eat, Drink, and Be Larry" Tickets On Sate Nov 21 @ 10am Prices: $I0, $25. 7 5, $43.75 The man who added the catchphrase "Git-R-Done" to the Banerican lexicon is coming to Tulsa! Dan Whitney, known better as Larry The Cable Gu> has proven to be one of the most successful comics. Larry has received a Billboard Top Comedy Tour Award. For a limited time, we are offering an ’Economic Recovery Package’ where select tickets are buy one get one free. N~is off)r on select seats is valid Friday, November 2tst at 10am until Monday, November 24tb at 6pm gq-tlLE SUPPLIES ~ST! Smucker~ Stars on Ice Feb 15, 2009 at BOK Center Mirren, Gershon, Jordan Saddle Up for Love Rmach "On The Edge" "Tour Sunday, Feb 15th @ 3pm Tickets: $25, $40, $70, $115 Group Discounts: Receive $5 off groups of 10+, Additional incentives for groups of 25+!!! Please call 918-894-4252 to purchase yonr group tickets today and find out more information! In the year leading up to the 2010 Winter Games, skating fans will not find a better preview of America’s favorite Olympic sport. This year Tulsa skating fans are in for a real treat; Smucker’s Stars on Ice is proud to welcome Evan ~vsacek, Two-time U.S. Champion as a very specia! guest for this performance. Trace Adkdns NEW DATE: FEBRUARY 19, 2009 with special guest: Craig Morgan. Ticket Prices: $52 and $42 Photo: Helen Mirren Do you want to see Helen Mirren as the madam of Nevada’s first legal brothel? Of course you do, and now you can. She and Joe Pesci will play reaMife married entrepreneurs Grace and Charlie Botempo in Love Ranch, directed by Taylor Ha&ford (who~ also Mirren’s husband). The cast of gay-adjacent favorites also includes Gina Gershon and Bai Ling - playing, one would assume, "rancla hands" - as well as the hilarious Leslie Jordan (Sordid Lives, Wil! & Grace). Between Mirren and Gershon alone, there~ enough caree>spanning Photo: Leslie Jordan cinematic Sapphic scenarios to melt your Caligula and Bound DVDs into liquid plastic, and that’s not even counting the cast members who are actually homosexual. Add Ling and Jordan - one brazen bisexual and one screaming queen, respectively - and it sounds like Love Ranch will offer lots of queer pleasure when it hits theaters later this year. Tomlin Swaddles Sweet Baby Jesus Due to illness, the Trace Adkins concert for Frida?,; December 5th was postponed until Timrsday, February 19, 2009. A series of dates on the tour have been rescheduled after management reported that he had the intestinal flu and needed rime off to recover. M1 tickets previously purchased will be honored. Refunds will be available at point of The V¢-or|d-Famous Lipizzaner Stallions Mar 1, 2009 at BOK Center Tt~e World-Famous Lipizzaner Stallions Sunday; March 1, 2009 Showtimes: 2pm & 6pm Ticket Prices: $34.50, $29.50, & $24.50 Group Discount: 15 or more people get $5 discount on $24.50 tickets and $29.50 tickets. Call 918-894-4252 for more information Romeo loves a good Christmas movie - and if it’s got a whiff of sacrilege, so much the better. Sweet Baby Jesus certainly sounds promising; its about pregnant teenager Mary (Alison Pill of Milk), who returns to her hometown of Bethlehem, Md., at Christmastime. Mary’s got an older boyfriend named Joe - but he’s not the baby’s father, leading rumors to s~virl among the locals that Mary is about to give birth to Jesus in his second coming. Directed by British comedy pro Steve Bendelack (M~: Bean’s Holiday), the film offers an interestingly, eclectic cast, including lesbian goddess Lily Tomlin, Christopher Guest regular Michael McKean, Freddy Got Fingered creator Torn Green, the eve>unpredictable Melanie Griflith, and bear pin-up Hagrid himself, Robbie Coltrane. With any luck, Sweet Baby Jesus will be a blessed theatrical event this December. Can Shankanan Make Bil:die Fly? Kathy Griffin Mouths Off for 50 Years For years, Columbia Pictures has tried to launch a remake of its 1960s hit musical Bye Bye Birdie, about teenage hysteria over an Elvis-like rock icon going into the army: Tina Fey took a crack at a new script, and John Chu (Step Up 2 the Streets) was hired fresh out of film school to make a youthoriented hip-hop version of the property. After those efforts failed to soar, the studio is now turning to one of the few people responsible for making screen musicals viable again - gay Hairspray director Adam Shankrnan. He’ll develop and produce a new version of Birdie, but he probably won’t direct; he’s already got _Bob: The Musical_ and a new Sinbad adventure on his plate. Will Shankman be the wind beneath Birdies wings? Watch this space for flight information. What do you get when you cross Finding Nemo ~vith An Inconvenient Truth? Presumably Around the World in 50 Years 3D, an upcoming animated feature about a sea turtle who hatches in !959 and spends the next five decades traveling all over the Earth and observing what global warming and climate change are doing to the planet. You can’t make a cartoon without an all-star voice cast these days, and Around the World_features gay icon ICathy Gril~n. (Can you really stil! be on the "D List" after you’ve won two Emmys and been nominated for a Grammy? Discuss.) Also piping up for the film are Tim Curry, Jenny McCarthy, Anthony Anderson, and the exceedingly ecology-minded Ed Begley Jr. This 3D animated feature is set to turn your kids’ consciences green later this year or in early 2010. Romeo San Vicente has triedforyears to recycle ex-boyj%iends. It doesn’t really work. He can be reached care ofthis publication or at DeepInsideHollywood@qsyndicate.com. www.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 17 �internationa by Donald Pile and Ray Williams ATLANTA, GA Among the dozens of dozens of attractions to see in Atlanta are the APEX Museum, Atlanta Botanical Garden, Atlanta Cyclorama & Civil War Museum, CNN Center, Carter Presidential Library and Museum, Georgia Aquarium, Margaret Mitchell House, World of Coca- Cola, and the Woodruff Art Center to name a few. Since Proposition 8, just ALWAYS remember to check out businesses before you give them any of your gay dollars. ~ere are numerous lists on the internet saying which major companies financially supported Proposition 8. Never, ever give them a dime of your money. There are a lot of major companies who have worked extremely hard with the gay 5ommunity and they are the ones we need to give our business to. "He& Bed and Breakfast Adanm, GA We finally have got to visit the beautiful city of Atlanta. We usually just drive thru Atlanta on our way down m Ft. Lauderdale. However this year we decided to stop and "smell the Atlanta roses" for a few days and are we glad that we did! X)ge first checked into the Hello Bed and Breakfast. Mike, the owner is extremely friendly and hospitable. He lmows the city well and can direct you to anyplace you want to go. Atlanta of course is a very huge city and there are enough "Peachtree" streets, avenues, circles, etc. to get even the best driver lost. His B and B is tucked away in a nice, quiet neighborhood in the heart of Atlanta and is located in the lush Morningside neighborhood just north of Midtown and very close to Bucld~ead, Virginia Highlands, EmorT¢; downtown, Lennox Mall and Chinatown. You can walk to many restaurants & nearby shops. They are just a mile from the Lindbergh Marta Station. ~e railway goes directly to the Airport, Downtown, and Chinatown. Visit the CNN Center, Underground Atlanta, Coca-Cola Museum, MLK & President Carter Centers, Centennial Olympic & Piedmont Park. Enjoy their courtyard & small stream through the property plus a wonderful hot tub. They are a pet & smoke free home. They have free Wifi access. You can check out their website at ~.~v.hellobnb.com. Call him at: 404.892.8111. Email at hellobnb@aol.com and it is located at 1865 Windermere Drive. Atlanta is full of gay bars an.d we do mean FULL of gay bars! ~ere is indeed something here for everybody! Lots of disco/dancing bars, leather, cowboy, piano, stripper as well as wonderful neighborhood bars to enjo): The bars are packed neatly all the time in Atlanta. ~is is a Major pa~ty town! And everyone loves to party! The very first bar you need to visit is BURKHART’S PUB which is located at 1492 -F in a strip mall and is the friendliest bar in the entire South! The owners, Mary and Palmer have set the standard attitude 18 Before going to aW major city, always check out: funmaps.com which is the leading gay site for traveling in the entire country. The local gay publication is v,~*av.southernvoice. com and from their xvebsite you can find listings for gay churches, organizations, gay community center and most anything else you need to know about "Ga,v Atlanta: http:/! www.atlantaga.gov/Visitors/Attractions. aspxt anything you need to know about "Gay Atlanta. Also check out: wwvc.atlanta. net and http:llwww.atlantaga.govlVisitorsl Attractions.aspx. level for everyone and the rest of the bar patrons follows. In all of our travels from coast to coast we have never been to a friendlier bar. It is a rather large club with an outdoor patio, several different bars and offers food services everyday including salads, appetizers, sandwiches, entrees and desserts. The), have a live DJ every night as well. They have two stories and you can look down onto the large crowd belmv. Very simply put, if you can’t have fun at this bar, you won’t be able to have fun anyplace! Check out their ~vebsite: http://www.burkharts.com/ It is NOT one of Atlanta’s favorite bars, it IS Atlanta’s favorite bar! Tt~e number one person to meet in Atlanta is a gendeman by the Photo: Ray ~lliams, Marko & Donald Pile name of Marko. He can found at Burkhart’s on most days. He was from New York and Of course we just clm’t stress enough to moved to Atlanta a fev¢ years ago and knows remember to have fun when traveling, meet more about hospitality than anyone we new people and talk to everyone! In Atlanta, have met. He introduced us to dozens of we want to give a big thanlcs to Marko and people. ~lhe only major drawback to partying Jasen who are two wonderfu! guys! Thanks in Atlanta is that it is NOT smoke-free! to the owners of Burk~art’s Pub for having Hopefully sometime soon, they will catch up such a wonderful bar! Bar owners around the with the rest of the cities in the country and country should fly down to Atlanta and see have no smoldng! for themselves what a great bar. We dined at Einstein’s Restaurant which is near midtown at 1077 Juniper Street (12th & Juniper Streets), website: einsteinsadanta. com. They have a great atmosphere, tremendous service and ~bod to die for! Everything we had was prepared to perfection. ThiS is THE place to "see and be seeff’ in gay Atlanta! They serve lunch and dinner and are open until 11 PM during the week and Midnight on weekends. On Saturday and Sundays they open at 10:00 AM offering their famous brunches. Be sure and stop by for a meal there. Euro Parliament pushes for gay equality The European Parliament is pushing the 27 member states of the European Union to do better in treating gay people equally. The parliament adopted a report Jan. 14 that urged member nations to recognize each other’s same-sex partnerships and marriages, and condemned homophobic hate speech by political and religious leaders. The report also calls on the European Commission to propose legislation to criminalize anti-gay hate crimes, guarantee the right of free movement ~vithin the EU for same-sex couples, and assure that gay people seeking asylum from anti-gay nations receive it. The parliament further requested that a study be done to gauge the level of harassment and violence experienced by transsexuals in the 27 nations. ~lhe European Union is composed of Austria, Belgium, Bulgaria, Cyprus, the Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Italy, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, the Netherlands, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Slovalda, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden and the United Kingdom. At least 14 of the nations allow same-sex marriage or have civil-union or registeredpartnership laws that grant some, most or all of the rights and obligations of marriage to same-sex couples. In related nevcs, Thomas Hammarberg, the human rights commissioner for the 47-nation Council of Europe, recently denounced the mistreatment of transgender people in member nations. "Some people seem to have a problem with the mere existence of human beings whose outer expression of their inner gender identity is not the same as their gender determined at birth," Hammarberg said. "Aggression against transgender persons cannot however be excused as resulting from ignorance or lack of education. These attitudes cause serious harm to innocent and vulnerable people and must therefore be countered .... There is no excuse for not immediately granting this community their full and unconditional human rights." The Council of Europe is composed of Albania, Andorra, Armenia, Austria, Azerbaijan, Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Bulgaria, Croatia, Cyprus, the Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Lt~xembourg, Malta, Moldova, Monaco, Montenegro, the Netherlands, Norway; Poland, Portugal, Romania, the Russian Federation, San Marino, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, "The former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia," Turkey, Ukraine and the United Kingdom. February 2009 �resort hotels, ; Arts and www.metrostarnews.com {~{®t~’oSTAR 19 �d& by G reg Fox OKC Civic Center sic Hall Febmmry Events Feb Ray’s 83rd Birthday Show Feb. 3 - Feb. 5 Tyler I errys The Marrmge Counselor Feb. 6 .- Mar. 1 LOOK BACK IN ANGER Feb. 7 P~INVENTtNG THE PAST: PAPJF II presented by the Okiahoma Cio~ Philharmonic Feb. 8 Brian Rcgan Feb. 13 - Mar. 1 H~{Y FE~,nER by Noel Coward Feb. 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Speak up and state your opinions! GEM~N~ (May 21 - June 20): Someone in charge is taking an interest in you. It could be professional or sexual. This could be great for your career or just a lot of drama at work. Keep your eyes open and think ahead, and you’ll be fine. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Rather than acting on shopaholic impulses, use them as clues to think about what you want, what you really need, and how to practice more efficient economy. A household inventory can also spur a smarter approach to finances. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Accept flattery and flirtations with good grace, enjoying them as passing pleasantries. Try practicing the art of compliments and flirtation yourself. It can be done without compromising your integrity! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): "Retail therapy" is not therapy at all, but a symptom of deeper needs. When you get that expensive impulse, stop and ask what you really want. Deal with the deeper disappointments provoking a yen for compensation, and you’ll be stronger and richer! PISCES (February t9 - March 19): Wear more of the clothing or jewelry you’ve received as gifts. The m~rror of your friends’ eyes can show not only sides of yourself that you rarely consider, but also more of your potential. CANCER (June 21 o Ju~y 22): The stars offer a new romantic adventure! ~f you’re partnered, that could alleviate boredom, but include your mate in the fuu! Anything sporty and sweaty’ is good, perhaps ro!!#r skating in the park or exploring some kink. LEO (July 23 -August 22): "(’our eagerness to try new sexual techniques could leave you open to catching something very nasty. Think ahead on prophylaxis whenever you try anything (or anyone) new! And when was your last check-up? You’re probably fine, but make sure to get yourself tested. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Even if you’re long-partnered, this is a great time for innovative romantic fun and games. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document E FOR President Obama’s Gay Rights Agenda The new whitehouse.gov .... .Page 10 WWW.METROSTARNEWS.COM Gay community upbeat TULSA, OK__ Despite the involvement of controversial Pastor Rick Warren, the gay and lesbian community responded generally favorable to the inauguration of President Barack Obama on January 20. "This is a big moment for all of the people who feel we were shut out by the Bush Administration," said Oklahoma resident Brian DunleaW, 36. Dunleavy traveled from Green Country to Washington D.C. to witness the inaugural parade and events. "That includes gays and lesbians. Obama is clearly a friend to US, even if many of us don’t always agree xvith him on everything. This could be the beginning of a new era for us." for the inauguration ceremonies. "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" FEBRUARY 1, 2009 about By Michael W. Sasser new president he was not happy about Warren’s involvement but that he "didn’t go to D.C. for the prayer." Oklahomans for Equality Celebrates Anniversary at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Photo by Chaz "Hopefully it’s just a bump in the road," he added. Warren, the controversial evangelical pastor at Orange County, CA’s Saddleback Church, delivered the inaugural invocation at Tuesday’s ceremony. Warren was an outspoken supporter of California’s Proposition 8, the California measure that banned same-sex marriage in the state. 365gay. com reported that the website for Warren’s church specifically stated until recently that unrepentant gay people were not welcome to attend services. In perhaps the most virulent P~oto: Dennis R. Nei!I Equalil.y Center Downtown Tulsa ’.;Warren has compared gay marriage to sanctioning TULSA, OK (PR) __In February 1999, the Pyramid Project hosted their first major fundraising event by holding a Wild H~S ~! ~ ~he Ta~ Brady Mansionl TII~ evening the ~°nnnued ~ee OBAMA Page’10 ~i~i6fi 6£~ ~fi~h0~ f~r the EG~Smmunity in north~k~ OH~6~[~s prelented~ Th~ dream seemed very far away. 0KC Pride Parade Stays on 39th Street Festival Will Move, No Longer At Memorial Park By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Amid an abundance of controversy and hearsay, OKC Pride hosted an open meeting January 5 at the Days Inn West, anticipating a much larger crowd than usually attends these meetings. True enough, around 60 GLBT & allied people attended to voice Concerns about rumours that OKC Pride Inc, which administers the annual June OKC Pride Parade & Festival, was not only planning to move the festival to Remington Park, but that the parade would be moved to Remington Park as well. The OKC Pride Parade route had always been, since its beginning in 1987, from Memorial Park at N.W. 36th & Classen Boulevard concluding on N.W. 39th Street & ¥oungs Street, taking it over the now famous hill leading to the crowds on the Strip, an area where many of the gay community have felt at home for decades. OKC Pride pointed out that moving from Memorial Park was unavoidable for many reasons, including that the Festival itself had outgrown the park and less space was available due to the new Boys and Girls Club building as well as other projects under construction. Another problem was that the City of Oklahoma City required vendors on city parks to pay a sales permit fee of $150 per day ($100 for nonprofits) which made the cost of doing business prohibitive for many of the vendors. Although some members of the board were not happy with the Remington Park location for many reasons, so far it was the only option they had found, and Paul Thompson stated that if anyone could present another viable option it would definitely be considered. Passions ran much higher concerning the Parade route, as this route had been a long held tradition since the beginning ........... Continued See OKC PRIDE Page-6 This February 13th, 14th, and 15th we will celebrate the 10th anniversary of the Wild Hearts Ball and the 3rd anniversary of living in our permanent home, The Dennis R Neill Equality Center. As a mission and vision moving toward fulfillment, this year’s Anniversary Weekend expands with even more events and greater visibility for EQUALITY. Friday, February 13th at 4:00 pm kiclcs offwith a fabulous wedding reception! We will celebrate the unions of local couples who have traveled out of Oklahoma to get married, registered as domestic partners, or conducted civil unions in those places where it is recognized by the municipality, state, or country. The media has been invited to cover this special event of our community, honoring our community heroes. Oldahomans for Equality will present a certificate of recognition to our couples and a photographer will be present to memorialize the moment. As a family, we will toast our happy couples and cut the wedding cake. .........Continued See OKEQ Page-9 Oklahoma Weather Forecast for February 2009 ’-~,~÷~ Feb. 1-5: Sunny, turning warmer ~ Feb. 6-12: Rainy periods, chilly @ Feb. 13-19: Snow north and central, rain ¯ ~ south, then sunny, cold ~ Feb. 20-22: Showers, chilly Feb. 23-25: Rain, mild Feb. 26-28: Snow north, rain south; colder Avg. Temperature: 44° (4° brow avg.) Precipitation: 1.5~ (0.5" below avgl) Kansas City’s ’ Chorus Mirreni Jim Roth says goodbye to politics. "God bless you citizens of Oklahoma for you have blessed me so. Thank you for the honor to serve you." Thank You Jim! Page 4 2 February 2009 ~tine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. tn ancient Rome, Februa~ T t4th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. ~ae Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. ~e following day, February ’The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint V~flentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia. The lives ofyoung boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festiva! of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be parmers for the duration of the f’estival with the gir! whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdora on the 14th day of February, around the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names ofyoung women were placed in a box, from which they xvere drawn by the men as chance directed.~The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting {:all in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. ~e believed that. the reason was t}~at Roman men did not want to leave A~eir loves or {hmilies. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Celebrations include lots of ~asting, partying and parading on the big da~; also known as Shrove Tuesday - just before Ash Wednesday - when the Church rules offasting and sacrifice take erect. It’s been that way in Christian countries around the ~vofld since the Middle Ages. Today most ofthe world’s celebrations occur duirng the ~veek of Fat Tuesday; which falls on February 24th this yeal: Fat Tuesday in New Orleans It’s been four long years since the devastation of the names of saints for those of maidens. As the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom ofyoung men choosing maidens ~br valentines, or saints as patrons fbr the coming year, arose in this way. Hurricane Katrina, and the biggest part), town in America will pick itself up for the 2009 Fat Tuesday- celebration with even bigger crowds - and more parades - expected this year. The New Orleans Mardi Gras parade schedule kicks offonJanuary 6 and continues through to Fat Tuesday, February 24, 2009. Fat Tuesday, Mardi Gras and Carnival Celebrations around the world The biggest and loudest of them, as always, are in Rio and Ne~v Orleans...although the Karneval, or Fasching, festivities in Cologne and Berlin get pretty wild, Carnaval in Nice shows off the wackier side ofthe trendy Riviera scene, and the Italians in Venice are the worldwide experts on the art of street theater. For anyone who’s ever been dumped, jaded, didn’t get the box of chocolates they wanted~ had bad sex or just wants to get lucky because VALENTINE’S DAY SUCKS! $8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 DIHH£R EHTREE$ AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad with you to receive this special offer Not vatid with any other coupon, discount or offers. w,~t,,.metrostarnews.com M®t~"oSTAR 3 A P VILEGE TO HAVE SERVED By Jim Roth OYd2kHOMA CITT, OK __ It is with immense gratitude that I say thank you to my fellow citizens for the opportunity to serve you these past years. I am forever grateful for the chance to toil in the field of public service and I am forever blessed because of you. In an inspiring speech titled "~e Man in the Arena," President Theodore Roosevelt said "the credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotion, and who spends himself in a worthy cause." While I appreciate these words, the true credit belongs to the citizens who gave me the chance to serve. As your Corporation C.ommissioner and as an Oklahoma County Commissioner, I accomplished every task I had hoped. My guiding principle was simple: Always put the people first. I thrust myself into the arena and fought the good fight defending the rights of all people. I took an oath to honor all people and in turn you have given me the highest honor of my life -- the chance to give back. As a Corporation Commissioner, i worked to expand the horizon of Oklahoma through native blessings like natural gas and wind, through new energies and energy ei~iencies. I encouraged our utility providers to think bigger and am glad fl~ey are making progress today. These willing partners are developing programs that will benefit generations of Oldahomans to come. At Otdahoma County, we implemented programs that eliminated public waste and saved the taxpayers millions of dollars. Xg4e built better roads and bridges and brought relief to our aging senior citizens. It xvasn’t always easy battling entrenched attitudes that resisted change, but working with you I never worked alone. In the end, I feel that I left Otdahoma County much better than I found it because you trusted me to serve you. So as I move into the next chapter of my life I will take with me all tl~e good friends and memories made along the way. My time in public service has come to an end, but my desire to make this state the best it can be has not. I am excited for new opportunities and new arenas to create the change I wish to see in the world. I have devoted my career to public service these past 14 years and your help along this journey has made me a better person. I hope I have made you better as well. As this chapter closes, I am reminded of another passage from President Roosevelt’s speech, where he says: "If he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so tl~at he may never be one of those cold and timid souls, who know neither victory nor defeat." God bless you citizens of Oklahoma for you have blessed me so. Thank you for the honor to serve you. Former State Senator Running to Chair OKC Schoolboard. By Victor Gorin P/~oto: Fom~er State &nator Angela Monson Seldom has our communit); and those interested in true quality educaOon for the Oklahoma City School District had such an opportunity as xve have now to elect a true progressive with a vision that could effect meaningful change. First elected to the Oklahoma State Legislature as a representative in 1990, she moved up to the State Senate in 1993, re-elected until she was forced out by term limits in 2005. During that time she never failed to take proud stands for any progressive cause, and was proud to be a keynote speaker at the OKC MDSWalk as well as our Pride Festival. Most importantly, she attended the Oldahoma City Public School System, a 1973 graduate of Douglass High School, following both her parents. Earning a Master’s degree in Public Health Administration from OU, she is currently employed at the OU Health Sciences Center as Director of Health Policy Development and Analysis. She currently is raising her niece and nephew ( Donovan 18, Danielle 10), also attendees of the OKC school system, so not only does she understand the problems firsthand, she has the passion to make it better. She shares ~vith the Metro Star: Victor: Angela, you must know what you are taldng on. What made you decide to xvant to run for tiffs office? Angela: I did it for our children. That really is what prompted me. These last 3 years I have been working really intensely witl~ students from the OKC public schools. What I have seen has really concerned me greatly. We should be embarrassed at the quality of education our children are receiving. I want to change the priorities, to make a difference as to the quality of education all of our children receive. Victor: What are the worst problems ~ve are facing there? Continued See MONSON Page-9 RAIN Oklahoma Begins New HIV Testing Outreach on OKC’s 39th Street Strip By Victor Gorin Tulsa-Area LGBTS Church Celebrates New Pastor TULSA, OK (PR) __ MCC United(MCCU) is a thirty yea>old, Tulsa-area church that is part of the worldwide Universal Fellowship of Metropolirtan CommunitT Churches which invite Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Straight people to full inclusion and total participation in all aspects of church and ministry life. On Sunday, February 1st, 2009, the Reverend Ed Paul*will preach his first sermon as Pastor ofMCC United. Pastor Ed is well known among the LGBTS community in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and has preached often at MCCU. Photo: [@ndell Powers, counselor, I~i Dameron, CTR Outreach Coordinator OKLAHOMA CITy, OK __ Regional AIDS Interfaith Network ( better known as R.A.I.N.) has begun an HIV testing outreach on OKC’s 39th Street Strip. Beginning on Saturday Jannary 24, and followed on the 1st Saturday of each month, free anonymous HIV testing will be provided fi’om 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. at the Brief Connection, a popular undergear/novelty shop located at 2!35 N.XgZ 39th Street. This Will help fulfill a need for those who had been getting testing and other assistance at the Red Rock Clinic located on the Strip that had closed at the end of 2008. As Kendall Powers points out, "Many people in tl~at area are transient, people may not know where help is available, and may not have transportation." Testing is also done at the R.A.I.N. Clinic located at 600 N.W. 23rd Street, hours Monday thru Thursday 9:30 a.m. until 3:30 p.m., when rapid testing is offered, which can show results in around 20 minutes. Testing like,vise here is free and anonymons. The clinic also is open on Friday with the same hours, but the rapid test is not available. Pastoral Search Team Leader Nathan Black said, "I believe this is exactly ~vhat God has for this church. Pastor Ed’S heart for people and his powerfu! leadership will be a tremendous gift to our church and our community. I believe God is calling MCCU to grow and expand its vision and mission, reaching all of northeastern Oldahoma with a message of God’s inclusive and transformative love, and I believe Pastor Ed is the man to lead us on that journey." The church is inviting community members and friends to attend worship at MCCU on Sunday morning, February 1st at 11:00 AM and to share a Celebration Potluck Dinner that ,;viii follow the service. For those who may be unable to attend worship, but want to come to the Dinnm; it should begin around 12:30pm. The church is located at 1623 N. Maplewood, just offofN. Pine and Reading. You can learn more about MCCU by visiting their website at www.mcctulsa.org, sending an email to iworship@mcctulsa.org or calling 9!8-838-1715. ...........More Oklalaoma News Page 6 With tlais outreach and other plans for testing and education, R.A.I.N. wants the GLBT community as well as Oldahomans in general to knmv that they are still around working to prevent the spread of HIV and helping those living witla it. Speakers are available upon request for groups interested in learning about HIV. For more information, please call (405) 232 2437. email: kdanersib@ rainoklahoma,org "uptc¥ * ~i~iI Rights -Criminal 4 ~(~t~°oSTAR February 2009 w:~.metrostarnews.com t~et~ oSTAR 5 of the parade over 20 years ago. OKC Pride’s Male co-chair Paul Thompson dispelled turnouts that city government was behind the proposed change, stating that the City had been totally cooperative for raany years. Communication was stressed as ~vell, with many people at the Ineeting stating tbat they had never been asked for their input or support, and had not been informed of OKC Pride activities. Feraale co-chair Latricia Ohnstead stated that" It’s great that you guys have come out saying xvhat you want us to do differently, but you need to come up with some solutions and possibilities to help us make it better." Monty Milburn, President of the Diversity- Business Association, suggested that the Parade be held on Saturday, so that those fi’om out of town could arrive on Friday night, enjoy the festival and parade, and return to their homes Sunday without being rushed, and while he commended the current board members and volumeers, he did stress the need for" new blood" and new ideas. Following this public discussion, the OKC Pride Board voted unanimously to keep the parade on the same route it has always been, and announced that the next meeting would be January 26, where it would be decided, after considering all options, where and when the festival would be and when the parade would take place. At press time the outcome was not available so to find out more inforraation after that date call (405 410- 8102 to reach Paul Thompson or check OKC Pride’s website at www.okcpride.org. Obviously- more community involvement is needed, along with better communication. But as Paul 2Pnompson puts it, ’We hope that the parade and festival wil! continue to grow, and that those who feel there needs to be new blood, ideas and people will come out to be part of that and make it happen" EQUAL RIGHTS IN EVERY STATE TEACH IN OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) On February 14, 2009, on the South Steps of the Oklahoma State Capitol at noon, there will be a "Teach Iff’ supporting equal rights in every state. While this is largely a gay event, members of the faith community are attending and wilt be speaking to the issues of"Family Values", which has become a code word for homophobia. We intend to expose, through the use of faith based communities, that "Family Values" are toxic to gay people and to society as a whole. Our Teach In is not a protest, it is not a rally, it is a positive message that we as gay people already have equality spelled out in the Constitution, and we are going to call upon our elected officials to enforce the la~v of the land with a positive message post card campaign to our elected representatives in Oldahoma and Congress. Unless and until we ask for enforcement of our rights in every state we will not have them simply granted to us. Until we can TEACH the greater community that gay people are just regular people, doctors, laxwers, teachers, postal workers, business owners and laborers, the pervasive view of "Family Values" will persist. Now is the time, change happens. Please participate in some ~vay. You can attend the Teach In starting at noon on the South Capitol Plaza on February 14, or you can request a pack of 8 post cards for a $10 donation (we’ll pay the postage) to send to your elected representatives along with hundreds of other people, gay and straight. You can contact the coordinator. Peter Myers at hpkanyersmd@yahoo.com, you may mail your request to Peter Myers, 2512 NW41st Street, OKC, OK 73112, or call at 405- 815-4059. We look forward to everyone participating. Please get involved to end all discrimination against gay people. Eq~ality- It’s Already t’ot¢r C’onstit~¢tional R{ght. adopdom so Chance also xvet- Coweta 918-486 2137 are fully tax deductible, Siloam Springs 479 524 6535 Claremore 918 341 1260 Following a screening process, the $70 adop- Sand Springs 918 246 2543 tion fee includes spa~ing/neuteringpius all Jenks 918 299 63111 vaccinations appropriate fbr the adi~aal~ age. Owasso 9t8-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 To get involved or to adopt a cat or dog call Norman 405 321 6725 (405) 321q915 or e-mail " Collinsville 918 371 I000 secondchancenorm@aol.com Courtesy ofwv~-w.labrescue.net 6 5Zt~,troSTAR February 2009 Wockner News Service Gay bishop Robinson a so selected for inaugura @Je RI; Rev. H Gene Robinsom the open,gay and?artnered bishop (fd~e Episcopal Church~ ~wHamuhire diocese, a~livered @e invocation at ganzck Obama~ inaugmnd concert at the Lincoln Memorkd on.~¢n. ~ 8. GL~Dphoto Amid the controversy over Barack Obama’s selection of anti-gay preacher Rick g~rren to ddiver the invocation at his inaugural, Obama announced Jan. 12 that the Rt. Re~: V[ Gene Robinson, the openly gay and partnered bishop of the Episcopal Church’s New- Hampshire diocese, would deliver the invocatmn at the inaugur~d concert at @e Lincoln Memorial on Jan. 18. Obama attended the concert. Because Robinson is gay and partnered, his selection as bishop in 2003 has led to an evolving schism in the Episcopal Church and a near-schism in the worldwide Anglican Communion, of which the Episcopal Church is the U.S. branch. "President-elect Obama has made a stellar choice in selecting Bishop Gene Robinson to offer the prayer at the Lincoln Memorial to kick offthe inaugural festivities," Rea Care); executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, said after the announcement. "For the first time in history, an out gay man will lead the nation in opening the transfer of power from one administration to another." Log Cabin Republicans are broke ~ne gay group Log Cabin Republicans is broke and $100,000 in debt, according to the Washington Blade. LCR President Patrick Sammon said the troubled U.S. economy has impacted donations to the organization. The ~roup currently has vwo flail,time employees and one part-time employee, three fewer than a year ago. in at least 77 nations and punishable by death in at least seven. The statement was signed by Albania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finlaaad, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel~ Ital); Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norwa}( Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tom4 and Prfncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia, Timor- Leste, United Kingdom, Uruguay and Venezuela. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, daat said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights of certain persons" because "the notion of orientation spans a xvide range of personal choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization of many deplorable acts." The U.S. did not sign either statement. ACLU sues over new Arkansas adoption ban ¯ne American Civil Liberties Union filed a lawsuit Dec. 30 seeking to strike down a new voter-passed laxv that bans any unmarried person ~vho lives with a partner from serving as an adoptive or foster parent in At’kansas. ~-he suit, filed in Pulaski County Circuit Court, argues that the ban violates federal and state constitutional rights to equal protection and due process. Twenty-nine people from a dozen families are participating in the case as plaintiffs, including a grandmother who lives with her same-sex partner and is the only relative willing to adopt her grandchild, who is in At’kansas state care. Several married heterosexual couples also are plaintiffs. They previously had chosen friends or relatives who are coupled but not married to adopt their children in the event 0fthe parents’ deaths. "We’ve been hearing from all corners of the state from dozens of families who are panicking about how Act 1 impacts them," said Rita Sldar, executive director of the ACLU of Arkansas. "~ais kiw ... takes away parents’ right to decide fbr themselves xvho will adopt their children if they die, it denies the many children in Arkansas state care a chance at the largest possible pool of potential foster and adoptive homes, and (it) denies couples who are living together but unmarried the chance to provide loving homes to children who desperately need them." Four arrested in California lesbian rape case After receiving tips from residents, police in the San Francisco Bay Area city of Richmond arrested two men and two teens Jan. 1 for allegedly raping a lesbian while making antigay slurs. Humberto Hernandez Salvador, 31, Josue Gonzalez, 21, and Darrell Hodges, 16, were arraigned in Contra Costa County Superior Court Jan. 5 and 6 on charges that included carjacking, kidnapping, gang rape and hate crime. The fourth suspect, a 15-year-old, will be tried as a minor. Bail was set at $2.2 million for Hernandez and $1.85 million for Gonzalez. They could face up to life in prison if found guilty. Barney Frank details congressional gay agenda Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank said Jan. 12 that three long-delayed pieces of gay-related legislation likely will pass and become law now that Congress has a Democratic majority and the incoming president is gay-friendly. "We’re going to do three things in Congress," Frank, D-Mass., told The New Yorker. "First, a hate-crimes bill -- that shouldn’t be too hard. Next, employment discrimination. We almost got that through before, but nmv we can ~vin even ifwe add transgender protections, which we are going to do. And finally, after the troops get home from Iraq, gays in the military. 7he time has come." San Francisco Catholic church vandalized with swastika The Dec. 13 attack began after the woman got out of her car, which had a rainbow sticker on it. One of the men hit her with an object, ordered her to strip and raped her on the spot, with assistance from the other men, police said. Nxe woman ~vas then forced into her car and driven to a more remote location, where she was raped inside and outside the car. After about 45 minutes, the assailants left in the victim’s vehicle with her wallet, leaving her naked at the scene. Police had offered an $11,000 reward for information leading to the arrest and conviction of the alleged attackers. Gay mayor takes once in Portland, Ore. Sam Adams took the oath of office as mayor of Portland, Ore., Jan. 1 at 12:01 a.m., making the city the largest in the country with aft openly gay mayor. Adams, 45, captured more than 50 percent of the vote in a May 20 primary election that had 13 candidates, thereby avoiding a general-election runoff. He has promised to make Pordand "cleaner, greener, more sustainable, smarter, more equal, better educated." San Diego is the largest city in ATmerica ever to haace had an openly gay mayor. Toni Atkins held the jok for five months in 2005. She was appointed by the Civ Cguncil after both the mayor and the deputy, maygr quit in the wake of a pensionfunding debacle. SMq FRANCISCO, CA __ Someone spray-painted a Roman Catholic church in San Francisco’s Castro neighborhood with a swastika Jan. 4 in apparent protest of San Francisco Archbishop George Niederauer’s support for Proposition 8, the Nov. 4 ballot initiative ~vith which voters amended the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage. Accompanying red-and-black text sprayed on Most Holy Redeemer Catholic Church said: "Prop H8 - Niederauer Ratzinger - Where is the love?" Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger is Pope Benedict XVI. Most Holy Redeemer is considered to be liberal and gay-friendly, as Catholic churches go. MORTUARY SERVICE,~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 23(}- 131~) or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plan CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED 2415-C North Walnut Avenue, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma www.rnetrostarnews.com 5,~®@’oSTAR 7 OMING ELECTS FIRST OPENLY GAY PERSON TO THEIR STATE LEGISLATUIBy Victor Gorin Photo: State Representative Cathy Connol& When Cathy Connolly got elected to the Wyoming Legislature as a Democratic representative for House District 13, she made history as the Cowboy State’s first openly gay legislator. All things being relative, it is one of the more progressive districts ofWyoming, inside one of only two counties in the state that went blue this last election. Born in Troy, New York, she came to Wyoming in 1992. Holding both a PhD in Sociology, and a law degree earned at the State University ofNew York in Buffalo, she is now a professor of women’s studies at the UniversitT ofWyoming in Laramie. Public policy has been an area of keen interest for her. Urged by her peers to run for this office, Ms. Connolly is active in the communit): She is a strong advocate for ~vorking people and one of her major objectives as a legislator will be to try to lessen the wage gap between men and women, which in ~’yoming is the highest in the nation. Connolly also wants to work to improve healthcare and education, and to create a better environment for all minorities, including Wyoming’s GLBT community. Obama spokesman: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel~ is history By \Vocl~ler Wire Sen*ice New White House Press Secretary Robert Gibbs says the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" ban on open gays in the military will be repealed. In a video posted in mid-January at change.gov, in which Gibbs answered some ofthe 72,000 questions Americans have submitted to the site, he said: "Thaddeus from Lansing, Mich., asks, ’Is the new administration going to get rid ofthe "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy ?’" Gibbs answered: "Thaddeus, you don’t hear a politician give a one-word answer much, but It S, Yes. "We should be embarrassed at the quality of education our children are receiving. I want to change the priorities, to make a difference in the quality o~ education all o~ our children receive." "The two candidates are Angela Monson and Kirk Humphreys. We know from Angela’s track record that Angela cares about minorities and the GLBT community, and will understand problems like school bullying, and we know that Kirk Humphreys clearly doesn’t get it." Paul Thompson, C0-Chair of the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Angela is far and away the best candidate for this position. It is imperative that we get out and vote for her. Margaret Cox, Activist To volunteer or For more information call www.Monson4ourchildren.org ® monsonforourchildren@yahoo.com 8 ~÷troSTAR February 2009 At 5:00 pm MY BIG EAT GAY \X;%DDING FAIR opens with vendors and merchants throughout the center. These local companies cater to same gender couples looking to plan their speciai da> Several honeymoon destinations will be participating iu a raffle fbr free prizes. Saturday, February 14th at 7:00 pm the dancing and partying begins with the 10th annual \Vild Hearts Ball. DJ Zeke Richardson will be playing the tunes to light up the dance floor. Raffles and prizes will be given away all evening. A cash bar and party foods will satisfy your palate. A photographer will be present for those special part), pics. Admission is free for members of OkEq, $10 admission f~e for non OkEq members. Your admission fee can be applied to your first installment of a $50.00 OkEq membership. Child care will be provided in the Wellness Room on the second level for children under 12 years of age. ~e will have games, crafts and special Valentine snacks for our young guests. Sunday, February 15th we celebrate FAITH with music and a wonderful brunch buffet. The second annual Brunch and Blessing will be in the Events Center. We will have a 9:00 am, 11:00 am and 1:00 pm seatings. Admission is $10.00 for the buffet and $2.00 for mimosas. John Sawyer will be our host extraordinaire and will be joined by Tulsa’s finest choirs, choruses, orchestras, bands and local musical artists like Rebecca Ungerman, Mindy Bardett, and Jarod Tyler. Ten years ago our community dreamed of a permanent home for the LGBT citizens of Oklahoma. Anniversary Weekend ,vill celebrate the progress towards full equality in the state we call home. You can join Oklahomans for Equality and become a full member t’or $50.00. Membership gives you discounts on special promotions in our Pride Store, discounts on special events, and supports the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please embrace our mission of serving our community and progressing towards equality. Angela: Dropout rates, which is indicative of the problems we are having. Some schools in our district have dropout rates over 60%. That~ terrible, they wind up in the street and too often in our prison system. On test scores, our students overall still are performing poorly. Too many students say ’I hate school!’ I want our students to be excited about the value of learning. Across America our students are not performing well enough in math and science, lagging behind other countries. don’t ~vant to become dependent on other countries for our technology, we need to educate our own to bring back our high skill/high tech .jobs. Victor: What abou.t teachers? Angela: Teacher pay is an issue, Oklahoma is 48th in the nation and I’ve heard complaints about it, but more often I’ve heard teachers express concerns about their facilities, about having to pay for school supplies with their own money. That ~hould never happen. Instead of raises for administrators, I’d like to see the money better spent on the classroom. There is a huge mistrust between the public and the administration of the school system. People don’t feel they have a voice, and as the board chair I can involve parents and the public, including groups such as the Parent-Teacher Association, faith based organizations and those groups and individuals who want to be involved. I’m a PTA president myself, I’ve worked after school programs, so I understand the problems and what needs to be done. Victor: A major issue for the GLBT community is school bullying. Currently in the Oklahoma City Public School Handbook, real or perceived sexual orientation is not listed as a category among groups not to be bullied, unlike other protected groups such as race and religion. We have tried for years to get that changed with no success. Remember what made a dream a reality for Dorothy? Click your heels and say "Tulsa.......... there is no place like home." Bathroom Bingo A Big Success TULSA, OK (PR) __ Free Bingo has caught on at Tulsa’s End Up Club. The Thursday 6:30pm event now in it’s 2nd month has attracted a large following of locals out for a fun time and the chance to ,vin great prizes. They play five games, 4 straight bingo for beer tabs, Walmart gift cards, and gas cards. The last game is blackout, and the winner gets a chance to choose one of five gift boxes. One holds the grand prize. The first grand prize was a very nice Swiss Army watch won by a Tulsa celebrity. The End up is Tulsa’s newest bar located at 5336 E. Admiral P1. Phone 918-836-0915 Angela: There is never any reason to bully anyone. We knmv that there is a problem, that people are bullied, discriminated against & treated differently,due to their real or perceived sexual orientation. \Vhy do we put our heads in the sand and pretend it’s not an issue? This gives tacit approval for this behavior, implying that it’s OK to be mean to people who are different. Not only should it be listed as a category, we should go further to show people how to trust and respect people who are different. As with human nature, sometimes there is friction. But like when you rub two sticks together, it creates heat and light, and used properly it can be beneficial. Addressing prejudice and dealing with it correctly can sometimes mal<e things better. ~is can be an opportunity to teach, empower and make a positive difference. Not only that, but kids would perform better academically when there are less of these kinds of conflicts and social pressures, Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM CC United 918-838-1715 A Metropolitan Community Church www.rncctulsa.org Victor: As~ything else special you’d like to add? A_ngela: An educated worl~orce and general population makes our whole society better for a lot of reasons, and I want to help make that happen here in Oklahoma City. Victor: Thank you Angela, and I hope you get your chance to go do that. To reach Angela; call 405 314 961"3, Email: Monsonforourchildren@ ~g,~rel°°,cOnl bsite: Monson4ourchildren. Org www.metrostarnews.com P~®t~’oSTAR 9 vi÷w oints road to Barack presidency paved by entertainment machine By Jerry Libonati FT LAUDEPd)ALE, FL __ ’11~e movie and television industry may have had a hand in shaping public opinion about electing a black president by depicting African-Americans in the role of Americas number one Seeing situations on screen allows viewers to get used to a new idea. As early as 1972 a movie about the first black president hit the silver screen. Based on a novel by Irving \Vgallace, The Man starred James Earl Jones. Ironically, the screenplay was written by Rod Sefling as if to suggest that such a scenario could only be seen on ~l~ne ~i\vilight Zone. More than two and a half decades lateI; Morgan Freeman played the lofty role in the 1998 comet-snaashing film, Deep h’npact. It appeared in theaters at a time, not that long ago, when no one in the real world seriously entertained the idea of a black president. Dennis Haysbert took the role on the Fox television series, 24 that premiered in 2001. In ~lct, Haysbert was voted "Favorite On-screen President" by a Blockbuster poll. "If auything, my portrayal of David Palmer; I think, may have helped open the eyes of the American people.., to prove the possibility* there could be an M~rican-American president, a female president, any type of president that puts the people first," Haysbert told reporters in a July 2008 teleconference. If Hollywood could change the way Americans thiuk about having a black president, could it also influence the way Americans took at gay and lesbian people? It already has. ~Ihe younger you are the less you will be aware that movies and "~ shows have dramaticall) changed. %efve evoNed over the years to include gay and lesbian characters. It wasn’t always like that. For most of the twentieth century, there were virtually no gay/Iesbian personalities on the big or the small scree~. Gay people were sometimes interviewed on edN, television documentaries hidden behind screens like seedy criminals. The first dine t personally saw a gay man interviewed out in the open was on the Virginia Graham talk show in the 1960s. ~his brave soul sat right their on her studio couch in front of a live audience. No screen, no mask, no garbled voice. It was revolutionary. Ellen DeGeneres’ sitcora premiered in 1994 as a lukewarm comedy show. It had a supporting cast member who was gay. But her character, Ellen Morgan, didfft turn up the heat with her coming-out episode until 1997. It was a historymaking event but not vdthout its pitfalls as some sponsors, like Wendy’s, dropped their support. The show was cancelled the next year. Since The Ellen Show, other entertainment venues made their stand. Will and Grace debuted in 1998 and became a romance-free staple. Rosie O’Donnell got off to a closeted start with her Daytime-Emmy-winning talk show in I996 but made her impact after coming out and later spoke proudly as a lesbian woman on The View. The popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy; that brought stereotypes to a new levet, popped up in 2003. A smattering of gay characters now populate mainstream sl~ows, not as devious villains, but as ordinary people. horns are still being removed from gay and lesbian heads but, who knows, when the process is done, maybe we’ll even see a gay or lesbian president. Times o£Harvey Responsibility £or Our Ft ture By James Nimmo Photo: Harvey Milk OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ I’m hoping you had a safe (in more ways than one) New Year’s celebration and are ready to commit to a political and social New Year of acquiring the legal recognition of our GLBT equality which is ours as a right of citizenship. This morning I watched the "The Times of Harvey Milk", a documentary of Harw2y Milk composed of interviews with people who knew and worked with him, combined with news clips illustrating the important events in Milk’s public life as a San Francisco City Commissioner. This is not to be confused with the new biopic starring Sean Penn titled simpl> "Milk". I was reminded that the defeat of’the Briggs Amendment that would have outlawed the employment of GLBT teachers in California was fiollowed by the rise of Anita Bryant, who got her inspirational juice from this setback to the fundie nuts and homo-haters agenda. She was the rolling crest of the wave of anti GLBT taws and reversals that followed across the country in the late 70s and early 80s. Think Wichita, Kansas; Dade County, Florida; and Oregon. Oklahoma had its own version of a Briggs Amendment argued before the United States Supreme Court in 1985. You can read the transcript and listen to the audio here: http:/Iwwvw:oyez.org/casesl1980- 1989/1984/!984_83_20301argument/or http://tinyurl. com/Sznzkp. ~e Supreme Court let stand a 10th Circuit Court ruling that invalidated an Oklahoma ban on pro-gay advocaW by teachers. ( http://v,~x,:lambdalegal.orglaboutus/ 35th anniversary/) ( http:/itinyurI.com/9qqvc8 ) ( http:// en.wikipedia.org/wild/Anita_Bryant It would seem this knee-jerk reaction to GLBT progress is genetic to the Bible-bumping believers of America as that’s what’s going on now with our marriage-equality movement: for every Massachusetts there’s an Arizona and an Arkansas. Listening to the confession clips of Dan White, the convicted killer of Milk and Mayor George Moscone, as well as the ravings of Sally> Kern of Otdahoma and her other Kern Krew members in Oklahoma where I live, they have a single uniting fear: fear of change, be it social, legal, enviromnental, or scientific. Michelle Goldberg, author of Kingdom Coming: The Rise of Christian Nationalism, has written, "Modernity is the enemy of fundamentalist religion, and gende>bending is the hallmark of modernity." ( ,a~v.religiondispatches.org ) We’re probably too familiar with the Santayana quote, "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." So, let’s get acquainted with a new one that’s explicitly forward looldng, by George Bernard Shaw: "We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our tq~tture." Times of Hawey Mill~’ available free online at http:// tinyurl.com/7qyaco. "No doubt ~hrren is on the ,vrong side on gay marriage and openly hostile to the gay community, but he isn’t the new" president," said Arkansas native Pippa Roc~’ord, 42, another inauguration spectator. ’%)~’re going to be much better off: then ever before with President Obama." Obama’s positions on GLBT issues are more liberal than either Bush’s or even former President Bill Clinton. Mthough not a supporter of gay marriage, he opposes legislation to ban it and h~s asserted flail support for civil unions with rights equal to marriage. According to the ~Thite House website, President Obama supports the repeal of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" pollW for service members and of the Defense of Marriage Act. The White House also cites Obama’s support for stronger hate crimes laws, for housing anti-discrimination laws inclusive of orientation language, for adoption equality and for a comprehensive national HIV/AIDS strateD: ABC News online reported just prior to the inauguration that Obama intends to nominate openly ga,v John Berry, director of the Smithsonian~ National Zoo, as Director of the O~ce of Personnel Management. Berry was Assistant SecretaW of the Interior during Bill Clinton’s administration. Obama has also nominated a lesbian, Nancy Sutley, as chairwoman of the Council on Environmental Qsiality. Pinning down president’s roles in GLBT issues has not been easy in recent administrations. Although considered generally amenable to the GLBT community, President Clinton,s record on gay rights includes his signature on both the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 and the 1993 Colin Powetl- led strateD, of"Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell." Bush was openly supportive of a federal ban on gay marriage and retained "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" under fire; but also was the first Republican president to appoint an openly gay man to serve in his administration, Scott Evertz as Director of the Office of National AIDS Policy: Bush’s nominee as ambassador to Romania, Michael E. Guest, became the first openly gay man to be confirmed by the Senate as a U.S. ambassador. ~e first openly gay ambassador, James Hormel, received a recess appointment from Clinton aAer the Senate failed to confirm the nomination. Obama’s Gay ghts Agenda By Greg Steele Within ~ninutes after President Obama took the oath of office on Jan 20, the official x~q~ite House webpage ( http:/Aw,-w. whitehouse.govlagenda/civil_rightsl ) was updated under the heading of"~]~e Agenda, Civil Rights" to detail Obamgs support fbr tbe LGBT community. His stated agenda include the following: ÷ Expand Hate Crimes Statutes: In 2004, crimes against LGBT Americans constituted the third-highest categoU of hate crime reported and made up more than 15 percent of such crimes. Why else do they suck like leeches so tenaciously to a way Ger~dd kibana~ ~s d*e autkor (ft~,e new novd ]’etcr ~" a.fi~mousg~3’ rock, tar of living now 5,000 thousand years old with its treatment who go~s ~nco~a~m to.find £we. (W~Tn&wrmctvaaw’.~)m) L~bonati is an awan’£ of people as property~ a destructive dominance over the winningjournalist in Soud* E/orie& worki*ag/ar d~e &n-&**tind environment, the elevation of a small, "pure" minoriW to rule news~,~pe~: He kas also written~r 7~)eMiamiHe~z,~{ ~e A&ocam and over all that~ considered different, and like leeches, drain the jlvea~ncesJ~r~qesbi,~n new~&ers around the count*7. vigor of human imagination from our society? ........Continued See GkSK AGENDA Page 15 10 Met~~oSTAR Februaw 2009 @ Fight Wbrkplace Discrimination: President Obama supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, and Oldahomans for Equality art gallery opens Maegan Kauffman ’Zetting Go" @ Maegan KauflCman The exhibit will remain up through the month of February, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. ~Ilne Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality- (OkEq). OkEq seel~s equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocac){, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. TULSA, OK (PR) __ Nae Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-gpm, Nmrsday, February 5th, 2009, for the opening of its new exhibit, featuring the charcoal drawings of artist Maegan Kauffman. Maegan Kauffman is an artist from Tulsa, OK. She graduated from Skiatook High School in May of 2005. Currently, Maegan is attending the Fred Jones Jr. School ofArt at the University of Oldahoma where she works as a Teacher’s Assistant for Assistant Director of Undergraduate Studies, Professor Robert Dohrmann. She is a member of The Red Clay Faction Ceramics Club and will graduate with her Bachelor’s of Fine Arts degree in May of 2010. "As an artist, I draw my inspiration fiom life and the human body as it differs from individual to individual," states Ms. Kauff)nan. "I am inspired by the human condition and the way that we not only deal with the challenges we face out in the world, but also with the inner battles we have within ourselves. The way that a person feels on the inside is expressed through that person~ demeanor, the way they hold their body, and the way they force a smile. By capturing people’s expressions and their body language, I capture their inner emotional state. I consider my artwork realistic expressionism, in which I portray my subjects in a photo realistic manner. Although I put much emphasis on realistic rendering, I use techniques like contrast and composition to express sentiments of the individual portrayed." Maegan continues, "I enjoy all of the different aspects of figurative drawing, including the challenge of proportions and morphing mere shapes and shadows into recognizable form. When I approach a new piece, I don’t necessarily look at my subject as a whole, but as a million different forms. I concentrate on rendering each individual form accurately and in the end the forms melt together into one cohesive image. Charcoal is nay medium of choice for rendering these images. I have learned to manipulate the charcoal, by shading, blending, and crisping edges, to achieve the image desired. The high distinction between tones of dark, medium, and light give the subject matter a tangible quality." Qffe-Broadway’spopular musical corn@ Alter Boyz is set to rock the masses at Tulsa’s PAC. TULSA, OK (PR) __ ALTAR BOYZ is the hilarious account of a struggling Christian boy band from Greenville, Ohio. The Boyz - intent on saving souls and raising spirits - are on the last night of their "Raise the Praise" U.S. tour and determined to make the big time. There’s Matthew, the hunky leadm; who holds the group together; Mark, the sweet and sensitive one, who choreographs all the band’s signature moves; Luke, the bad boy with an interest in communion wine and driver of the Altar Boyz van; Juan, the Latin lover who’s popular with the ladies; and Abraham, a nice Je,vish boy who’s not sure how he ended up in the group. Spectacular music...sinfully sensational dancing...faith that’s stronger than their hair gel .... The ALTAR BOYZ get ready to rock the masses of all denominations by spreading the good news and soothing the troubled souls ofTulsa through the glory of sweet pop music. Produced by Grace Man Productions, ALTAR BOYZ makes its Tulsa debut March 6- 15, 2009 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. Tickets for ALTAR BOYZ, priced $25 to $35 with special 2-top cabaret table seating at $90 are on sale nox~; at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Box Office, by phone call (918) 596- 7111 or purchase on-line at www.myticketoffice.com. Kansas City’s Gay Chorus Makes Oklahoma Debut ICANSAS CITY, MO (PR) __ Heartland Men’s Chorus, Kansas Ci@ gay men’s chorus, will present a flee concert performance of And Justice for All at the Village Christian Church (9401 Ridgeview Drive) at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesday, March 3, 2009. Singing out in Kansas City for more than 23 years, the concert will mark the Oklahoma City debut of this renowned group of singers. A fi’ee-will offering will benefit the BritVil Food Pantry. Among the largest gay meffs choruses in the nation, Heartland Men’s Chorus has won acclaim for its daring programming and unique choral sound. More than 100 singers are expected to travel to Oldahoma City for this special benefit performance ofAnd Justice for Al!. "llae concert combines lnusic, narration and multi-media in a unique "musicaI documentary" format, that has become a halhnark of HMC. The performance will trace the struggles of Afiican Americans, women, gays and lesbians in their quest for civil rights. Audience members can expect to hear inusic spawned fiom the various civil rights movements ("We Shall Overcome"), music inspired by iconic historical events ("Elegy for Matthew") and songs that resonate on the theme of social justice ("You’ve Got to be Carefully Taught"). This concert marks the first regional tour for HMC. In addition to the performance at Village Christian Church, the men will perform at the American Choral Directors Association annual conference (to be held in Oklahoma City) and present a special weekday matinee for middle and highschool students in Kansas City. "Reaching out to diverse audiences is an integral part of our mission," says artistic director Dr. Joe Nadeau. "This particular concert, combining our music with an important social justice message, was the perfect vehicle to bring ’the HMC experience’ to those who may not have had a chance to hear us perform before." www.metrostarnews.com ~!~ ~"<~STAR 11 OKC Community Center Planning Committee Meets By Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The steering committee for the OKC LGBT Community Center met January 21 at Church of the Open Arms, 3131 N. Pennsylvania. The meeting was attended by 10 people, some representing organizations and some attending as individuals. The goal is to have a building to house a communitT center. Several have volunteered to take responsibilities for aspects of planning for the center, and some want to be identified by first name only, for privacy concerns. Facilitator/Chair of the steering committee is Henry, Building committee chair is Ginger, Finance committee chair is Margaret, Program committee is Larry Schockley, PR/Outreach committee is Eric, and Governance committee is Saul Olivarez. "I]~e cormnittee will begin the process of forming a non-profit 501 C3 organization by reviewing the mission statements of other organizations, selecting a temporary name for the center, forming a board, and writing bylaws. The committee invites anyone interested to make suggestions for a name, attend raeetings, and help advance the process. ~ne PR/Outreach committee will establish a website eventually, but for no,v people can communicate to the committee at okcglbtcenter@ gmail.com. The next meeting will be on February 19, at 6 pro, at Church of the Open Arms. K~ns~s City’s w~rld renowned g~I/men s chorus comes ~ Okl~h~rn~ City ~nd mm,ing ~ne-night-~nly performance. Mickey Coalwell, The Kansas City Star 12 %~A oSTAR February 2009 Health Departments React with A arm to New CDC Surveillance Data STD Rates Higher Than Ever While Funding For Prevention Declines (PRWEB) January 15, 2009 -- Today, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released national sexually transmitted disease (STD) surveillance data for 2007. The report shows persistent and staggeringly high rates of STDs as welt as a disproportionate burden of infections on youth, minorities, and women. Upon the release of this information, the National Coalition ofSTD Directors called for a renewed commitment ftom Congress and President Obama to fight the STD epidemic in the U.S. In 2007, more than 1.1 million Chlamydia cases were reported, which is the largest number of cases ever reported to CDC for any condition. Rates of primary and secondary (P & S) syphilis increased by 15% from 2006, and 65% of all P & S syphilis cases were among men who since Fiscal Year 2003. This has significandy hampered the ability ofSTD programs in state and local health departments to deliver critical prevention and treatment services, as well as conduct surveillance. "State and local health departments are responsible for controlling this epidemic and often are the medical providers of last resort for persons with STDs. There needs to be a systematic reinvestment in the public health infrastructure to provide the necessaiT clinical services to diagnose and treat STDs and contact exposed partners to insure that they are treated and further spread is prevented," stated Dr. Peter Kerndt, NCSD Board Chair and STD Program Director from Los Angeles County. "In addition to the need for a greater investment of resources for CDC’s Division of STD Prevention, NCSD strongly urges Congress and President Obama to support :evidence-based "This report should serve as a wake up call to policymakers and the public that STDs remain a significant public health threat in the U.S., and a scaled up investment of funds are desperately needed for prevention and treatment." prevention programs to prevent STDs, particularly for young people," stated Don Clark. More than $1.6 billion in federal funds have been spent on abstinenceonly- until-marriage programs, which have been unable effectiveness at have sex with men (MSM). In addition, the delaying sexual activity, or reducing rates of report shows persistent and growing racial STDs, including HIV/AIDS, or unintended d!sparities in Chlamydia, Syphilis, and pregnancy. Clark continued, "It is time to end Gonorrhea infections. In 2007, Blacks were these ineffective and harmful programs, and 19 times more likely to become infected with invest ifi sciefice based ~ipproaches to STD Gonorrhea than whites, prevention, including comprehensive sex education." CDC estimates that approximately I~ million STD infections occur each year, and nearly half are among those aged 15:24. African American women between 15 and 19 are particularly hard hit, accounting for the highest rates of Chlan~ydia and Gonorrhea of any group. The consequences of untreated STDs include infertility, pregnancy complications, cervical cancer, pelvic inflammatory disease, birth defects and an increased risk of HIV transmission. While rates of STDs have continued to increase, federal funding for CDC’s Division of STD Prevention has steadily declined The National Coalition of STD Directors is a nonprofit, nonpartisan association of public health sexually transmitted disease (STD) program directors in the 65 CDC directly funded project areas, which includes all 50 states, 7 cities, and 8 U.S. territories. As the only national organization with a constituency that provides frontline STD services, NCSD is the leading national voice for strengthening STD prevention, research and treatment. These efforts include advocating for effective policies, strategies, and sufficient resources, as xvell as increasing awareness of the medical and social impact of STDs. ’~ place wherey’~t c~ be who God c-mated you to be ips becomefamit~v" 5:30 p,m. 761-[878 www.metrostarnews.com ~&~t~°oSTAR 13 Wockner News Service een to Might British AIDS activist Queen Elizabeth II ~mnounced on New i%r’s Eve */ant she will ~ni£ht leadin£AIDS activist Ni~ Partdd£e, chi~executiw" ofthe AIDS o,gmdzation ~n’ence Hi,,ins ~’ust. THT Queen Elizabefl~ II announced on New Year’s Eve that she will knight leading MDS activist Nick Partridge, chief executive of the MDS organization Terrence Higgins Trust. Partridge told the BBC he was "absolutely delighted" by the honor. He will be "invested" later this year when Elizabeth lays a sword on his shoulders. Aussie gay partners gain access to military pensions Australian gays and lesbians will have access to their deceased partners’ military pensions starting in July. The move follows a 2003 ruling by the ofiqce of the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, which found Australia’s refusal to grant the pensions in violation of the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. Sweden will not recognize Canadian Two S~vedish Lutheran ministers, Lars Gfirdfeldt and Lars Arnell, have lost their fin!l appeal in a case seeking recognition of their Canadian same-sex marriage. The Supreine Administrative Court agreed with lower courts Dec. 16 that foreign samesex marriages can be recognized in Sweden only as registered partnerships. ~e case targeted Sweden’s taxation authority for allegedly mislabeling the couple’s union. "Ihe ruling, however, may have a limited lifespan. Sweden’s government favors granting same-sex couples full access to marriage, and a new law is expected to be in place by the middle of 2009. Senegal }ails nine men for having gay sex Nine gay men in Dakar, Senegal, were jailed for eight years Jan. 6 for the crimes of having gay sex and belonging to a "criminal association," an HIV-services group. On Dec. 19, police raided the apartment of gay leader Diadji Diouf, arrested him and the other men, and confiscated Condoms arid lubricants..... The men were taken to a police station and held until Dec. 24, then transferred to a detention center, where they were held until trial. Human Rights \Vc’atch said the men were beaten while in custody. According to the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, the men’s lawyers had only limited access to case files and little time to prepare for the hearing. At the trial, prosecutors reportedly used the confiscated condoms and lube as evidence tha~ the men had engaged in gay sex. The men received the maximum five-year sentence for engaging in what the Penal Code calls "an improper or unnatural act with a person of the same sex" and three additional years for being members of the HIV-services organization AIDES Sdndgal, the "cril~ninal associatiom" HRgZ said the sentences have "produced widespread panic among organizations addressing HIV and MDS, particularly those working with men who have sex with men." Tl~e arrests occurred several days after Senegal hosted the 15th International Conference on AIDS and STIs (sexually transmitted infections) in Africa. Presentations at the conference highlighted the contradictions in countries such as Senegal that aim HIVprevention efforts at men who have sex with men but continue to criminalize same-sex relations. Last February, 10 men and a woman were arrested in Dakar, the capital city, after a popular magazine published photographs of a purported marriage ceremony between two Senegalese men. Although the individuals were later released, "the publicity and arrests created tremendous public animosity toward LGBT people in Senegal," IGLHRC said. "MaW gay men and lesbians were attacked by mobs or driven fi’om their homes," the organization said. Ugandan gay activists win awsuit In a landmark victory, the High Court of Uganda ruled Dec. 22 that constitutional rights apply to GLBT people.......... .... Activists Victor Mukasa and Yvonne Oyoo had sued the attorney general following a 2005 raid at Mukasa’s home in which documents were seized and Oyoo was arrested, assaulted and sexually harassed. Mukasa was not present at the time of the raid. Justice Stella Arach Amoko found that the raid violated the activists’ rights to, among other things, liberty; privacy, dignity, and protection from unlawful entry, unlawful search, unauthorized seizure and inhuman treatment. "The actions of the officials that molested Victor Mukasa and Oyoo were unconstitutional, inhuman, and should be condemned," Arach Amoko said. AIDS societies call for release ofimprisoned Senegalese gays "ihe International AIDS Society and the Society for AIDS in Afi’ica have demanded that Senegal release nine men who were sent to prison for eight years on Jan. 6 for the crimes of engaging in gay sex and belonging to a "criminal association," the HIV-services group AIDES Sdndgal. "The arrest of these men based purely on their sexual orientation represents a major setback for the Senegalese response to HIV, which is widely viewed as a model in Africa," SAA President Joanna Mangueira said Jan. 12. The nine men were sentenced in Dakar, the capital, after being arrested and jailed Dec. 19 following a raid on the apartment of gay leader Diadji Diouf. At the trial, prosecutors used condoms and lube confiscated during the raid to prove that the men had engaged in gay sex. The men received the maximum five-year sentence for doing what the Penal Code calls "an improper or unnatural act with a person of the same sex" and three additional years for being members of the "criminal" HIV organization. ...............More XXrorld News Page 18 ~Ihe case was brought by Edward Young of Sydney, whose partner of 38 years died 10 years ago. "What I wanted was to take on the little man, (former Prime Minister John) Howard, and fight," Young told Nae Sydney Morning Herald. "What I wanted was something that would apply right across the board." After the 2003 ruling, the former Howard government procrastinated in reviewing its policy, Howard was replaced by Kevin Rudd in December. "IGLHRC is deeply concerned by what appears to be a violation of the right to a flee and fair trial, the right to privacy and the right to freedom from discrimination," the group said. "These charges will have a chilling effect on AIDS programs," added Scott Long, director of Human Rights \Vatch’s LGBT Rights Division. "Outreach workers and people seeking HIV prevention or treatment should not have to worry about police persecution. Senegal should drop these charges and repeal its sodomy law (which) invades privacy, criminalizes health work, justifies brutality and feeds fear." "It was my dream that justice would come and it has come," Mukasa said after the ruling. "And it is my bigger dream that justice will come to every human being in Uganda who is oppressed. This does not mark the end. ~Ihe struggle continues until every human being is free." 14 ~i?et ’oSTAR February 2009 @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City- @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ The End Up, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City believes that our anti-discrimination employment laws should be expanded to include sexual orientation and gender identitT. @ Support Ftfll Civil Unions and Federa! Rights fbr LGBT Couples: President Obama supports full civil unions that give same-sex couples legal rights and privileges equal to those of married couples. Obama also believes we need to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act and enact legislation that would ensure that the 1,100+ federal legal rights and benefits currently provided on the basis of marital status are extended to same-sex couples in civil unions and other legally-recognized unions. @ Oppose a Constitutional Ban on Same-Sex Marriage: President Obama voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006 which would have defined marriage as between a man and a woman and prevented judicial extension of marriage-like rights to same-sex or other umnarried couples. @ Repeal Don’t Ask-Dofft Tell: President Obama agrees w’ith former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff John Shalikashvili and other military experts that we need to repeal the "don’t ask, don’t tell" polic?: @ Expaald Adoption Rights: President Obama believes that we must enstire adoption rights for all couples and individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation. He thinks that a child will benefit from a healthy and loving home, whether the parents are gay or not. @ Promote AIDS Prevention: In the first year of his presidency. @ Empower’Women to Prevent HIV/AIDS: In the United States, the percentage ofwomen diagnosed with AIDS has quadrupled over the last 20 years. Today, women account for more than one quarter of all new HtV/AIDS diagnoses, President Obama introduced the Microbicide Development Act, which will accelerate the development Of products that empower women in the battle against AIDS. National Gay and Lesbian Task Force responds to President Obama inauguration speec xWASHINGTON, DC (PR) __ ~Ihe National Gay and l~sbian Task Force responded today to President Barack Obama’s inauguration speech. "America made history today ~vith the swearing-in of Barack Obama as its 44th president. It is our hope this truly marl~ the dawn of a new political era ofengagement in the life of this country. In his gpeech, the president spoke of our nation’s need to reat~rm its enduring spirit and ’carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea ... [the] promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.’ "Our country has made significant strides in advancing this ’noble ideg toward ful!-fledged realitT, but we’re not there yet. Too many people continue to face discrimination and hardship. As President Obama assumes the role ofAmeric~s ~’oremost leader, we call upon him to fulfill the promise of a nation where lesbian, ga~, bisexual and transgender people are recognized and valued as part of this country’s strength, spirit and solution. ~e fact tl~at the ot~cial White House Web site was updated just this afternoon with a list of commitments to LGBT rights is already enormous positive change." www.metrostarnews.com ~®troSTAR 15 Loo ng for some new exciting wines ? You may wanna check these’ out. "We Just got back fi’om a California road trip. Vie were lieading south on ~iuT 101/a road trip fi’om Napa to Paso R0bles2 My partner & I did one of our famous annual ~vhifl wind holiday road tours through northern California There are a lot ofwineries between Napa & Paso Robles. Grape growing regions are expanding every year and we never have time to see as much as ~ve want to. California has so many wineries to experience and they’re all zip and dmvn the coast. We visited quite a few tasting rooms in 3 days and tried out some really good ~vines. If the wines are listed here, it’s because we fonnd them and the service to be quite exceptional. Not all we sampled will be listed here and although many are not available here in Oklahoma, you may be surprised to find out which ones are. Here are some highlights from our trip: Napa Silver Oak/Alexander Valley Cabernet "04 Miner Oracle Red ’05 and the ~qld Yeast Chardonnay ’07 Saddleback Scouts Honor named after wine maker Niels Venge’s late dog. This wine is naostly Zin with Petite Sirah and Charbono. Cult Wine Central is a good place to go and check out some ofNapa’s more serious wines all under one rooflike Ghost Block Cabernet and many, many more. Monterey Ventana Chardonnay Arroyo Seco ’06 Paso Robles Rotta Cabernet ’05 & the Heritage Zin ’06, Opolo Summit Creek Zin ’06 Cambria Viognier 07. Bench Break Pinot Noir ’06, Julia’s Pinot Noir ’06 anSthc Tepu-- quet Vineyard Syrah ’05 Dierberg Santa Maria Valley Pinot Noir & Chardonnay both are ’06 and estate grmvn. Fess ~Parker Santa Barbara County Viognier ’07 & Melange Blanc ’06 (Marsanne, Ro)~fi & Granache Blanc). Zaca Mesa Estate Rousanne ’06 Firestone Cabernet Franc Rose ’07 These wines are than describe the invite you to go questions and purchase a bottle some food & wine with out for yourself. Photo: M~ D in California wine country This writer is one ofthe managers at the Grand Vin ~vine shop. He also bar tends and hosts ,vine & food events known in town as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. ~References include: ww. ~neSpectator.com w.lffqneCount~7-his~ek.com ~w.CultI~neCentral.com This months recipe courtesy of: 1 cup Green onion 2 ts Oregano 2 drops Red hot sauce (optional) Cajun spices (blackened or Cajun king herbed spice excellent) to taste Salt to taste 2 cups Raw white rice ~AlligatorJambalaya Ingredients: lb Marinated alligator fillet cut into small pieces 1 lb Hot sausage (Italian) cur into chunks 3 tbs Oil 213 cup Bell peppers chopped 2 cloves Garlic crushed 3/4 cup Parsley 1 cup Chopped fi-esh parsley 1 cup Ch@i3ed celery 2 can Tomatoes ~16 oz each) 2 cups Chicken stock (2 pkg chicken cube mix + water also works) To prepare: In deep frying pan (cast iron preferably) sautd the bell pepper, garlic, parsley and celery. While this is c~oking, adT:l tomatoes & their liquid, the chicken stock &, green onion to a pot that can cook on the stove and in the oven (Corningware) Stir in spices, sautded vegetables raw rice, sausage and alligator fillet pieces. Cook on medium-high heat until liquid is absorbed (stir occasionally to make sure rice doesn’t burn on bottom) and then bake covered in the oven for 25 minutes. NOTE: Alligator meat may not be available in your area, try chicken breast fillet as a substitute: 16 ~’>~ roSTAR February 2009 At ~e BOK Center Tulsa L~"W ~e Cable Guy Feb 13, 2009 at BOK Center ’Eat, Drink, and Be Larry" Tickets On Sate Nov 21 @ 10am Prices: $I0, $25.75, $43.75 The man who added the catchphrase "Git-R-Done" to the Banerican lexicon is coming to Tulsa! Dan Whitney, known better as Larry The Cable Gu> has proven to be one of the most successful comics. Larry has received a Billboard Top Comedy Tour Award. For a limited time, we are offering an ’Economic Recovery Package’ where select tickets are buy one get one free. N~is off)r on select seats is valid Friday, November 2tst at 10am until Monday, November 24tb at 6pm gq-tlLE SUPPLIES ~ST! Smucker~ Stars on Ice Feb 15, 2009 at BOK Center "On The Edge" "Tour Sunday, Feb 15th @ 3pm Tickets: $25, $40, $70, $115 Group Discounts: Receive $5 off groups of 10+, Additional incentives for groups of 25+!!! Please call 918-894-4252 to purchase yonr group tickets today and find out more information! In the year leading up to the 2010 Winter Games, skating fans will not find a better preview of America’s favorite Olympic sport. This year Tulsa skating fans are in for a real treat; Smucker’s Stars on Ice is proud to welcome Evan ~vsacek, Two-time U.S. Champion as a very specia! guest for this performance. Trace Adkdns NEW DATE: FEBRUARY 19, 2009 with special guest: Craig Morgan. Ticket Prices: $52 and $42 Due to illness, the Trace Adkins concert for Frida?,; December 5th was postponed until Timrsday, February 19, 2009. A series of dates on the tour have been rescheduled after management reported that he had the intestinal flu and needed rime off to recover. M1 tickets previously purchased will be honored. Refunds will be available at point of The V¢-or|d-Famous Lipizzaner Stallions Mar 1, 2009 at BOK Center Tt~e World-Famous Lipizzaner Stallions Sunday; March 1, 2009 Showtimes: 2pm & 6pm Ticket Prices: $34.50, $29.50, & $24.50 Group Discount: 15 or more people get $5 discount on $24.50 tickets and $29.50 tickets. Call 918-894-4252 for more information Photo: Helen Mirren Mirren, Gershon, Jordan Saddle Up for Love Rmach Do you want to see Helen Mirren as the madam of Nevada’s first legal brothel? Ofcourse you do, and now you can. She and Joe Pesci will play reaMife married entrepreneurs Grace and Charlie Botempo in Love Ranch, directed by Taylor Ha&ford (who~ also Mirren’s husband). The cast of gay-adjacent favorites also includes Gina Gershon and Bai Ling - playing, one would assume, "rancla hands" - as well as the hilarious Leslie Jordan (Sordid Lives, Wil! & Grace). Between Mirren and Gershon alone, there~ enough caree>spanning cinematic Sapphic scenarios to Photo: LeslieJordan melt your Caligula and Bound DVDs into liquid plastic, and that’s not even counting the cast members who are actually homosexual. Add Ling and Jordan - one brazen bisexual and one screaming queen, respectively - and it sounds like Love Ranch will offer lots of queer pleasure when it hits theaters later this year. Tomlin Swaddles Sweet Baby Jesus pro Steve Bendelack (M~: Bean’s Holiday), the film offers an interestingly, eclectic cast, including lesbian goddess Lily Tomlin, Christopher Guest regular Michael McKean, Freddy Got Fingered creator Torn Green, the eve>unpredictable Melanie Griflith, and bear pin-up Hagrid himself, Robbie Coltrane. With any luck, Sweet Baby Jesus will be a blessed theatrical event this December. Romeo loves a good Christmas movie - and if it’s got a whiff of sacrilege, so much the better. Sweet Baby Jesus certainly sounds promising; its about pregnant teenager Mary (Alison Pill of Milk), who returns to her hometown of Bethlehem, Md., at Christmastime. Mary’s got an older boyfriend named Joe - but he’s not the baby’s father, leading rumors to s~virl among the locals that Mary is about to give birth to Jesus in his second coming. Directed by British comedy Can Shankanan Make Bil:die Fly? Kathy Griffin Mouths Off for 50 Years What do you get when you cross Finding Nemo ~vith An Inconvenient Truth? Presumably Around the World in 50 Years 3D, an upcoming animated feature about a sea turtle who hatches in !959 and spends the next five decades traveling all over the Earth and observing what global warming and climate change are doing to the planet. You can’t make a cartoon without an all-star voice cast these days, and Around the World_features gay icon ICathy Gril~n. (Can you really stil! be on the "D List" after you’ve won two Emmys and been nominated for a Grammy? Discuss.) Also piping up for the film are Tim Curry, Jenny McCarthy, Anthony Anderson, and the exceedingly ecology-minded Ed Begley Jr. This 3D animated feature is set to turn your kids’ consciences green later this year or in early 2010. For years, Columbia Pictures has tried to launch a remake of its 1960s hit musical Bye Bye Birdie, about teenage hysteria over an Elvis-like rock icon going into the army: Tina Fey took a crack at a new script, and John Chu (Step Up 2 the Streets) was hired fresh out of film school to make a youthoriented hip-hop version of the property. After those efforts failed to soar, the studio is now turning to one of the few people responsible for making screen musicals viable again - gay Hairspray director Adam Shankrnan. He’ll develop and produce a new version of Birdie, but he probably won’t direct; he’s already got _Bob: The Musical_ and a new Sinbad adventure on his plate. Will Shankman be the wind beneath Birdies wings? Watch this space for flight information. Romeo San Vicente has triedforyears to recycle ex-boyj%iends. It doesn’t really work. He can be reached care ofthispublication or at DeepInsideHollywood@qsyndicate.com. www.metrostarnews.com NetroSTAR 17 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams ATLANTA, GA "He& Bed and BreakfastAdanm, GA We finally have got to visit the beautiful city of Atlanta. We usually just drive thru Atlanta on our way down m Ft. Lauderdale. However this year we decided to stop and "smell the Atlanta roses" for a few days and are we glad that we did! X)ge first checked into the Hello Bed and Breakfast. Mike, the owner is extremely friendly and hospitable. He lmows the city well and can direct you to anyplace you want to go. Atlanta of course is a very huge city and there are enough "Peachtree" streets, avenues, circles, etc. to get even the best driver lost. His B and B is tucked away in a nice, quiet neighborhood in the heart ofAtlanta and is located in the lush Morningside neighborhood just north of Midtown and very close to Bucld~ead, Virginia Highlands, EmorT¢; downtown, Lennox Mall and Chinatown. You can walk to many restaurants & nearby shops. They are just a mile from the Lindbergh Marta Station. ~e railway goes directly to the Airport, Downtown, and Chinatown. Visit the CNN Center, Underground Atlanta, Coca-Cola Museum, MLK & President Carter Centers, Centennial Olympic & Piedmont Park. Enjoy their courtyard & small stream through the property plus a wonderful hot tub. They are a pet & smoke free home. They have free Wifi access. You can check out their website at ~.~v.hellobnb.com. Call him at: 404.892.8111. Email at hellobnb@aol.com and it is located at 1865 Windermere Drive. Atlanta is full of gay bars an.d we do mean FULL of gay bars! ~ere is indeed something here for everybody! Lots of disco/dancing bars, leather, cowboy, piano, stripper as well as wonderful neighborhood bars to enjo): The bars are packed neatly all the time in Atlanta. ~is is a Major pa~ty town! And everyone loves to party! The very first bar you need to visit is BURKHART’S PUB which is located at 1492 -F in a strip mall and is the friendliest bar in the entire South! The owners, Mary and Palmer have set the standard attitude level for everyone and the rest of the bar patrons follows. In all of our travels from coast to coast we have never been to a friendlier bar. It is a rather large club with an outdoor patio, several different bars and offers food services everyday including salads, appetizers, sandwiches, entrees and desserts. The), have a live DJ every night as well. They have two stories and you can look down onto the large crowd belmv. Very simply put, if you can’t have fun at this bar, you won’t be able to have fun anyplace! Check out their ~vebsite: http://www.burkharts.com/ It is NOT one of Atlanta’s favorite bars, it IS Atlanta’s favorite bar! Tt~e number one person to meet in Atlanta is a gendeman by the name of Marko. He can found at Burkhart’s on most days. He was from New York and moved to Atlanta a fev¢ years ago and knows more about hospitality than anyone we have met. He introduced us to dozens of people. ~lhe only major drawback to partying in Atlanta is that it is NOT smoke-free! Hopefully sometime soon, they will catch up with the rest of the cities in the country and have no smoldng! We dined at Einstein’s Restaurant which is near midtown at 1077 Juniper Street (12th & Juniper Streets), website: einsteinsadanta. com. They have a great atmosphere, tremendous service and ~bod to die for! Everything we had was prepared to perfection. ThiS is THE place to "see and be seeff’ in gay Atlanta! They serve lunch and dinner and are open until 11 PM during the week and Midnight on weekends. On Saturday and Sundays they open at 10:00 AM offering their famous brunches. Be sure and stop by for a meal there. Among the dozens of dozens of attractions to see in Atlanta are the APEX Museum, Atlanta Botanical Garden, Atlanta Cyclorama & Civil War Museum, CNN Center, Carter Presidential Library and Museum, Georgia Aquarium, Margaret Mitchell House, World of Coca- Cola, and the WoodruffArt Center to name a few. Since Proposition 8, just ALWAYS remember to check out businesses before you give them any of your gay dollars. ~ere are numerous lists on the internet saying which major companies financially supported Proposition 8. Never, ever give them a dime of your money. There are a lot of major companies who have worked extremely hard with the gay 5ommunity and they are the ones we need to give our business to. Before going to aW major city, always check out: funmaps.com which is the leading gay site for traveling in the entire country. The local gay publication is v,~*av.southernvoice. com and from their xvebsite you can find listings for gay churches, organizations, gay community center and most anything else you need to know about "Ga,v Atlanta: http:/! www.atlantaga.gov/Visitors/Attractions. aspxt anything you need to know about "Gay Atlanta. Also check out: wwvc.atlanta. net and http:llwww.atlantaga.govlVisitorsl Attractions.aspx. Photo: Ray ~lliams, Marko &Donald Pile Ofcourse we just clm’t stress enough to remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! In Atlanta, we want to give a big thanlcs to Marko and Jasen who are two wonderfu! guys! Thanks to the owners of Burk~art’s Pub for having such a wonderful bar! Bar owners around the country should fly down to Atlanta and see for themselves what a great bar. internationa Euro Parliament pushes for gay equality The European Parliament is pushing the 27 member states of the European Union to do better in treating gay people equally. The parliament adopted a report Jan. 14 that urged member nations to recognize each other’s same-sex partnerships and marriages, and condemned homophobic hate speech by political and religious leaders. The report also calls on the European Commission to propose legislation to criminalize anti-gay hate crimes, guarantee the right of free movement ~vithin the EU for same-sex couples, and assure that gay people seeking asylum from anti-gay nations receive it. The parliament further requested that a study be done to gauge the level of harassment and violence experienced by transsexuals in the 27 nations. ~lhe European Union is composed of Austria, Belgium, Bulgaria, Cyprus, the Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Italy, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, the Netherlands, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Slovalda, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden and the United Kingdom. At least 14 of the nations allow same-sex marriage or have civil-union or registeredpartnership laws that grant some, most or all of the rights and obligations of marriage to same-sex couples. In related nevcs, Thomas Hammarberg, the human rights commissioner for the 47-nation Council of Europe, recently denounced the mistreatment of transgender people in member nations. "Some people seem to have a problem with the mere existence of human beings whose outer expression of their inner gender identity is not the same as their gender determined at birth," Hammarberg said. "Aggression against transgender persons cannot however be excused as resulting from ignorance or lack of education. These attitudes cause serious harm to innocent and vulnerable people and must therefore be countered.... There is no excuse for not immediately granting this community their full and unconditional human rights." The Council of Europe is composed of Albania, Andorra, Armenia, Austria, Azerbaijan, Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Bulgaria, Croatia, Cyprus, the Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Lt~xembourg, Malta, Moldova, Monaco, Montenegro, the Netherlands, Norway; Poland, Portugal, Romania, the Russian Federation, San Marino, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, "The former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia," Turkey, Ukraine and the United Kingdom. 18 February 2009 resort hotels, ; Arts and www.metrostarnews.com {~{®t~’oSTAR 19 OKC Civic Center d & by Greg Fox sic Hall Febmmry Events Feb Ray’s 83rd Birthday Show Feb. 3 - Feb. 5 Tyler I errys The Marrmge Counselor Feb. 6 .- Mar. 1 LOOK BACK IN ANGER Feb. 7 Feb. 8 Feb. 13 Feb. I3 Feb. t3 Feb. 18 Feb. 20 P~INVENTtNG THE PAST: PAPJF II presented by the Okiahoma Cio~ Philharmonic Brian Rcgan - Mar. 1 H~{Y FE~,nER by Noel Coward - Mar. 7 ~MOST, MAINE a romantic comedy by John Cariani - Feb. 14 P~S ROUGE - OKC Ballet Company Menopause the Musical - Feb. 21 POP GOES ~GAS! presented by the ONahoma Ci~, Philharmonic Rose State College Performing Arts Center Feb 18, 2009 Menopause the Musical Mar 26, 2009 Dirty Rotten Scoundrels February At ~e P.A.C. Feb 4 David Finckel and Wu Han @ John H. Williams Theatre Feb 6-31 FP,]~E Highway 412 PAC Gallery Feb 17 ,~ infinite Ache @ Liddy Doenges ~eatre Feb 20-25 Oprah ~gZinfrey Presents: 7he Color Purple @ Chapman Music Hall Feb 23 The Tannahill Weavers @ John H. ~’Xqlliams Theatre Feb 24 P~atph’s World @ John H. Williams ~aeatre Feb 27 Ethel Cabaret @ Lid@ Doenges ~aeatre Feb 28 Ethel Concert @ John H. Williams "Theatre Metro Star Classfieds 2" square for as litde as $39 per issue. Emaih starnews@sbcglobaLnet SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY 20 ~%troSTAR E-Mail- KylesBnR@aol.com ema I b tterg rl@q>]ndicate corn www,joanhiity,net _.~-~,0~ February 2009 by Jack Fertig February 2009 "Accept flattery, Capricorn!" With Venus going into Aries and Mars going into Aquarius, latch on to bold, creative impulses. Take the flirtatious chances that you normally wouldn’t dare to. Think of new approaches to artistic projects you’ve been considering, and get started! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Trust those inspirational sparks that seem to come out of nowhere, even though they do need the guidance of a practiced expert - and some improvements you won’t think of - to help you bring them to successful fruition. TAURUS (ArR 20 - May 20): Wellmeaning friends offering "helpful suggestions" can unwittingly hit a nerve. Try to take it all in good humor, or just thank them for sharing. Political or philosophical arguments can be less personal and more enlightening. Speak up and state your opinions! GEM~N~ (May 21 - June 20): Someone in charge is taking an interest in you. It could be professional or sexual. This could be great for your career or just a lot of drama at work. Keep your eyes open and think ahead, and you’ll be fine. CANCER (June 21 o Ju~y 22): The stars offer a new romantic adventure! ~f you’re partnered, that could alleviate boredom, but include your mate in the fuu! Anything sporty and sweaty’ is good, perhaps ro!!#r skating in the park or exploring some kink. LEO (July 23 -August 22): "(’our eagerness to try new sexual techniques could leave you open to catching something very nasty. Think ahead on prophylaxis whenever you try anything (or anyone) new! And when was your last check-up? You’re probably fine, but make sure to get yourself tested. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Even if you’re long-partnered, this is a great time for innovative romantic fun and games. With the love of your life or an _amour du jour_, treat love as an art and explore new techniques. HERA (September 23 - October 22): You’ll get a better or more frequent workout if you figure out how to make it more fun. Exercising at home or with a group of friends you regard as family can help. At least shake it up with some variety. SCORHO (October 23 - November 21): Playful banter can lead you into revealing more of yourself than you intended. This can be good, prompting more intimacy and openness in your friendships. Spats along the way should be easily reconciled. Just don’t take yourself so seriously! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Rather than acting on shopaholic impulses, use them as clues to think about what you want, what you really need, and how to practice more efficient economy. A household inventory can also spur a smarter approach to finances. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Accept flattery and flirtations with good grace, enjoying them as passing pleasantries. Try practicing the art of compliments and flirtation yourself. It can be done without compromising your integrity! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): "Retail therapy" is not therapy at all, but a symptom of deeper needs. When you get that expensive impulse, stop and ask what you really want. Deal with the deeper disappointments provoking a yen for compensation, and you’ll be stronger and richer! PISCES (February t9 - March 19): Wear more of the clothing or jewelry you’ve received as gifts. The m~rror of your friends’ eyes can show not only sides of yourself that you rarely consider, but also more of your potential. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Feb. 1, 2009 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Chaz Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Jeanne Flanigan Rex Wockne Susan A. Muscari Gerald Libonati Michael W. 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By Victor Gorin q’he 66 countries affirmed "the principle of non-discrimination, which requires that human rights apply equally to every hmman being regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity; and denounced "violence, harassment, discrimination, exclusion, stigmatization and prejudice ... because of sexual orientation or gender identity:’ statement also called for the decriminalization of gay sex, 77 Saudi Arabia SLxty-sLx nations at the UN General Assembly supported a groundbrealdng statement Dec. 18 confirming that international human rights protections include sexual orientation and gender identit): It was the first time a statement condemning rights abuses against GLBT people was presented in the General Assembly. gay Americans support Woclmer News Wire A Harris Interactive poll released Dec. 3 found that Americans support a range of policies and protections for gay people. The Pulse of Equality survey, cmmnissioned by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, found that majorities of Americans favor either marriage or civil unions for gay couples, hate-crime laws to protect gay and transgender people, letting gays in the military serve openly, and allowing gays and lesbians to adopt children. "To love is not a crime;’ said Louis-Georges Tin, president of the International Day Against Homophobia Committee, which initiated the process that led to the statement. "To decriminalize homosexuality world,vide is a batde t’or human rights .... This (statement) is a great achievement (but) I also want to remind everyone that ending the criminalization of same-sex love wilt be a long, hard battle:’ Leading British activist Peter Tatchell called the statement "history in the making." "The UN statement goes much further than see’king the decriminalization of same-sex acts;’ Tatchell said. "k ondemns all human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity, urges countries to protect the human rights of LGBT people and to bring to justice those who violate these rights, and calls for human rights defenders who oppose homophobic and transphobic victimization to be allowed to carry out their advocacy and humanitarian work unimpeded." ........... Continued See UN Page-14 Photo: ~adr. OGRA 2009 Larry Bour~ze By Victor Gorin The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ( better known as OGRA) has a proud history of not only promoting the country lifestyle in the GLBT community, but also to the straight community as well. Letting gay cowboys knmv they can truly be themselves is a cause they promote proudly, but they do more. OGRA also has a proud history of helping wordBvhile charities such as Other Options, Infant Crisis Services, Young Gay Lesbian Alliance, and R.A.I.N. Also a proud tradition are the OGRA Royalty, which features a Mr. OGRA, a Ms. OGRA" Brooklyn" and Miss OGRA Anita Ryder.. The new Mr. OGRA is Larry Bourne, who’s made many cowboys happy bartending at the Finishline the past 5 years. Sharing his life and his thoughts with the Metro Star, he gives us his perspective on our community and OGRA. ................ Continued See OGP,A page- 15 ~ae telephone survey questioned 2,000 adults beBveen Nov. 13 and 17 and had a margin of error of plus or minus 2 percentage points. Among the specific findings: * Seventy-five percent of U.S. adults favor either marriage or domestic partnerships/civil unions for gay and lesbian couples. Only 22 percent oppose any legal recognition of gay couples. ........... Continued See POLL Page-8 comes out ....Page-7 �Janua~ 2009 2 �$8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 D~ER E~TREES AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad width you to receive this special often Not valid with any other coupon, discount or offers. 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In Oklahoma there are around 4500 known cases of people infected with HIV, including around 1700 in Oklahoma County alone. Currently the fastest growing rate of infection among demographic groups tragically is young people aged 15-24, disproportionately gay and male. Although medical science is far ahead of where it was over 20 years ago when AIDS first became an issue, safe sex is still important. As Chuck Longacre of Red Rock North, an HIV testing/counseling facility pointed out, "R’s still a deadly disease. The disease can still be fatal. However, often one can be helped if the virus is detected early, so we encourage those who are sexually active to be tested every 3 months." 4 Givens e3~ Danielle Gaddis by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Angela Monson, on the last day of filing, got into the race for Oklahoma City School Board chair. She challenges incumbent Kirk Humphreys, and the election will be February 10. As a Democrat, she was elected to the Oklahoma State House of R~epresentatives in 1990-District 99, and was later elected to the Oklahoma State Senate in 1993 -District 48. She Served as a State Senator until forced out by term limits in 2005. She is currently Associate Provost with the Oklahoma University Health Sciences Center, and is a longtime ally of not only the GLBT commtmity but numerous progressive Causes. Kirk Humphreys was appointed as Chair by the OKC School Board when the position was vacated by CliffHudson, and is a former mayor of Oklahoma City, and an ally of many conservative causes. Learn more about this key race with our next issuel Metro Star Classfieds 2" square for as litde as $43 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.~ 918.1 Tulsa CARES Celebrates Life TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Tuesday, three Tulsa CARES employees were recognized by the AIDS Coalition of Tulsa at the 19th annual Evergreen Spirit Awards Luncheon, which recognizes the work of colleagues and volunteers who have gone the extra mile in the fight against AIDS in our community: Jamie Baker, care coordinator; Bruce Lewis, ofrice manager/executive assistant; and Marianne X~etherill, registered dietician were among those recognized with the Evergreen Spirit Award, which symbolizes strength, courage, commitment and resilience. "It is so important to recognize ’the unsung heroes’ in Tulsa’s effort to stop AIDS," said Janice Nicklas, director of Tnlsa Community AIDS Partnership and senior planner for the Community Service Council. ~Our colleagues still work long hours, to the point of exhaustion, and many have vowed to stay at it until we get the epidemic under control. Sadly, the numbers of HIV positive Americans are growing larger each year and many Tulsans are getting infected who are unaware that that they are at risk," Following the Mayflower UCC ~:orld AIDS Day Service, Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards places a card on a o’oss honod~ her siste,; Lavonn Newton who passd ~tv~yfivm AIDS related illness. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 1, the 20th World Aids Day Service was held at Mayflower Congregational Church, along with countless others worldwide. Along with music, preaching and praise was not only remembrance of those xvho have passed on because of HIV, bur also hope for the future. The service concluded with the opportunity to fill out a card of a loved one lost to HIV and attach it to one of a group of crosses in the courtyard. For Rev. Loyce Newton-Edwards the service had special meaning, as she had lost a transgen&red sister, Lavonne Newton to AIDS related illness. As she put it, "The service was deeply moving and a wonderful way to honor the precious lives that have been lost to AIDS, and to offer comfort to their devastated families. My prayers continue for more community compassion, HIV prevention advocacy, as well as more effective HIV/AIDS related medications." ’Unsung Heroes’ Honored for AIDS Awareness Advocacy Other Evergreen Spirit Award winners are: Gary Meadows, Community of HOPE; Terry Klein, St. Joseph~s Residence; Chaz Gaut, Hospice of Green Country; David Odle, Oklahoma Department of Human Services; Barbara Saunders, community volunteer with the HIV Prevention Program for Incarcerated Women’s Program; and Stan Smalts, Oklahoma Department of Human Services. Two top awards were also given at the annual luncheon: the Truman Geren Memorial Award for HIV Prevention was awarded to Heather Nash, American Red Cross, and the Richard Shackelford Award for HIV Care honored Shana Cozad, Oklahoma State Department of Health. "Our award winners are constantly reminding Tulsa area.residents to take the HIV test - it is quick, free and painless," Nicldas said. "Everyone should know their HIV status." Founded in t991, Tulsa CARES, a United Way organization, delivers services to low-income people living with HIV/AIDS in northeastern Oklahoma. Services include: case management by professional social workers, access to physicians and prescription medication, counseling services, housing assistance, access to nutrition information at its on-site food pantry, as well as other forms of support. Tulsa CARES’ mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/AIDS: For more information about Tulsa CARES, visit www. tulsacares.org. 34icah Hartwdl, Nutrition Services Directo~ begins digging~r the Tulsa CARES’ Celebration ofLife tree-planting co’emony. TULSA, OK (PR) __ In observance of World AIDS Day, Tulsa CARES hosted a "Celebration of Life" reception for its clients. On Monday, December 1, Tulsa CARES clients, staffmembers, and friends came together to celebrate the lives 0f those still living xvith HIV/AIDS and to rmnember the lives of those who have died from this disease. The "Celebration of Life" was replete with food, crafts and a tree planting ceremony that symbolizes hope for a cure. Tulsa CARES’ Celebration of Life in-kind sponsors ,sere Starbucks, Q~eenies and QEikTrip. Five Crepe Myrtle trees were donated by Up with Trees. Tulsa CARES’ mission is ddivering social services to people affected by HIWAIDS. Tulsa CARES is a United W’ay Agency. For more information, visit vcww.tulsacares.org. SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY January 2009 �Dear Editor: in the spirit of Christmas, the 18th annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner Show was held at the Copa OKC, raising over $6956. Featuring entertainers (Photo) Ben Williams, Kitty Bob Aimes, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe and Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, the show was held on both December 8 and 9, with proceeds going to help the Winds House, a home & hospice for those living with HIV. My name is Robaire ~atson and I’m a gay military veteran who’s been living in the San Francisco Bay Area for 18 years. I spent 6 years in the military as an openly gay, man. At age 23 I joined the Navy in search of adventure. Being a gay man, I was determined that I wasn’t going to allow the military to change my true identity. My story isn’t about the latest trend or the latest hot actor, or the latest hot "trick~ it’s about the importance of"being who you want to be"! Who needs to serve in silence ? I just want to bring a positive ground breaking story to the fbrefront. I grexv up in a primarily white small Texas town and the middle child of a Southern Baptist family. I was in the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, played high school football for a brief time. I always knew I was gay. After high school, I earned money t’or college by working in the oil fields. I studied design and fashion merchandising in Dallas at ~ades School of Design. I joined the US NaW in 1989 and served six years through two enlistments until 1995. Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth with OGLPC Co-Chair Paul ~nompson at the ,amnual NAACP Banquet in Oklahoma City. Being openly gay in the military and not receiving threats to my life, allowed me to keep my integrity: I never felt the need to tell anyone on my command that I was gay or introduce them to my boyfriend. I always felt that people knew I was different, just by the way I conducted myself. When you sho~v others respect, they show you respect in return. I was a US Navy Ship’s barber who served aboard the USS Kansas City as it traveled the seas promoting freedom during the Gulf’~Y~ar and Operation Southern XWatch offthe coast of Somalia in 1993, traveling to Singapore, Thailand, Hong Kong, Dubai, Jebel All, UAE, British Columbia, Mexico, and the Philippines during my two enlistments. I’m black and openly gay and never encountered the slightest discrimination aboard this xvarship. I have never forced my sexual preference on anyone. I don’t ~vant someone who’s straight doing that to me. gqaen the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" law xvas passed, my shipmates told me, "\X[atso!~, we don’t have to ask and we don’t have to tell." Peggy Johnson and ReVerend Dl: Kathy McCallie at Church of the Open Arms Fundaraiser .... Scotty Mandell, Robin D0rner and Loring Wagner strike a pose at the Diversity Bttsiness Association’s Christmas Party. I had a group of gay friends on the USS Kansas City. We were the gay version of"Sex and the City" onboard the ship. XXre were known as the Fierce-Four. Our personal lives were better than any episode of Q~.eer as Folk. My friends said, because of me, they were able to be themselves without prejudice. I took several of my shipmates to gay bars & dance clubs, not because it was my idea, but because they asked me too! I dated an Ensign and a Lieutenant while in the military. I ,also dated a Major in the United States Army and a Marine. All the following military men who came across my, life had to keep their personal life a secret. It’s not about being an officer in the military or subjecting yourself to starring in a skin flick to get your point across, about "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’: It’s knowing that you have a job to do and a mission to accomplish. ~bu can’t allow your sexual preference to interfere. Ken Sims, Jennifer Lancaster, Rebecca Hurst and Blaze Bush at the Marriage Equality Rally in downtown Oklahoma City December 20. The government needs to worry about the individuals who they allow to enter the military that haven’t been outside the county line, and refuse to accept someone who is different. Sometimes, these type of people want to judge you, based on their religious beliefs. If you can’t accept me for my race or sexual preference, will you be there for me in a time of war ? I’m very fortunate that I was able to be openly gay and live my life accordingly during active duty. I want other men and women who enter the armed forces who are gay to be able to live their lives just as openly as their straight counterparts and when they become veterans to be treated ~vith dignity and respect. I’m very proud to have done my duty serving my country: Thank you, Robaire Watson San Francisco, CA Santa ( Pam Norton) and Mrs. Santa (Victorola) at the Church of the Open Arms Christmas Party wv,~v.metrostamews.com ~ot~oSTAR 5 �A NEW PLACE TO ENDUP By Victor Gorin SUPPORTERS OF IT¥ LIGHT UP DOWNTOWN OKC By Victor Gorin Photo: End ~o owner Blake (Center) wit,§ the End [J)) dancers TULSA, OK__ When the first Endup club on Memorial closed a few years ago, it left a gap that Blake Alterman knew needed to be filled. While not for everybody, there are truly gay men that love to watch the hot boys dance. Not far from some of Tulsgs other gay clubs, it’s located at 5336 E. Admiral Place, a site vacant for over a year last occupied by a straight biker club called The Luclo! Shamrock. Dancers will be featured 7 nights a xveek, taking up where the old Endup left off, but with more than twice the space and ample parking. While it is planned and destined to be a swinging spot for those wanting to watch male dancers, it has more to offer as well. A section of the bat" ,vi!l be like a regular bar, with pool tables, cruising and conversation. Other fun endeavors are planned also with Bathroom Bingo Nights starting in January, hosted by emcee Earnest from the ladle’s bathroom, rewarding winning participants with cash and prizes. Hours are from noon tmtil 2 a.m. 7 days a week, so stop by and check it out, especially during Happy Hour with $1 offall liquor drinks from noon until 8 p.m. 7 days a week. As Blake puts it, "xg&’re just looking to have a good time with a bar that everybody’s gonna love coming to." Sounds like a great beginning. Photo: Organizer Trey Hill with activistJames Nimmo by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Around 30 determined souls braved the icy chill December 20 in OKC’s Bricktown near the entrance of the Southwestern Bell Bricktown Ballpark, holding a candlelight vigil supporting marriage equality for all Americans, including the GLBT community. Surprising, there were no negative epithets, fisticuffs or even threats thereof made by Bricktown partygoers, only some interested glances. The event did get media coverage by KOKH Channel 25, and participants got a free "Oklahoman for Marriage Equality T-Shirt;’ made possible thru the generosity ofJames Nimmo, his partner Don Chabot and Brittany Novotny. The event came together through the organization of Trey Dill & Chuck Longacre, activists also largely responsible for a previous rally at the Oklahoma City Hall November 15 xvhich brought out over 200 people protesting the passage of Proposition 8, Which took away the right of same sex marriage in California. As Ms. Novotny praised the marchers, "As we keep getting people out for events like this, people won’t feel they have to be scared to be who they are, and straight people won’t be as scared to support us. We’ll keep doing this until all of Oklahoma says Yes, You all are part of us and we’re all equal: January 2009 �N Wockner News Service Reports: No quick action against DADT Florida’s ban on gay adoption struck down President-elect Barack Obama rnay not move quickly to repeal the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays, according to published reports. A Florida circuit court in Miami struck down a state law that barred lesbians and gay men from adopting Nov. 25. The court granted adoptions to a gay man, represented by the American Civil Liberties Union, who has been raising two foster children since 2004. "Our family just got a lot more to be thankful for this Naanksgiving;’ said Martin Gill, a North Miami resident who is raising two brothers, ages 4 and 8, with his partner. are extremely relieved that the court has recognized that it is wrong to deny our boys the legal protections and security that only" come with adoption." A Nov. 24 report in The Atlanta Journal-Constitution said: "Very quietly, the Obama team has let it be known that the new administration will not immediately reassess the U.S. military’s policy of’don’t ask, don’t tell: ... Raising the topic of gays in the military was considered by many to be the second of two out-of-the-box decisions that ended badly for a newly elected President Bill Clinton (in 1993)’.’ Nae committee’s Web site lists more than 40 such participating contingents, including several high-school and university bands. Comedian xYC:anda Sykes came out publicly Nov. 15 at a Las Vegas rally against California’s Proposition 8. Meanwhile, Obama came under fire from gay activists on Dec. 17 for selecting influential evangelical preacher Rick xWarren to deliver the invocation at the inauguration. "When California passed Prop 8 ... I felt like I was being attacked, personally attacked, our community was attacked," Sykes said. "I got married Oct. 25. You know, I don’t really talk about nay sexual orientation, I didn’t feel like I had to, I was just living my life and, not necessarily in tile closet, but I was just living my life. Everybody that knows me personally, they know I’m gay. And that’s the way people should be able to live their lives, xgre shouldn’t The Florida law barring gays and lesbians from adopting was the most expansive anti-gay parenting law in the country. It was passed in 1977 in response to an anti-gay crusade led by Miss Oklalloma 1958, and orange-juice spokeswoman Anita Bryant. The poll found that even Republicans (64 percent) and white evangelical Christians (57 percent) supported scrapping the ban. The random survey of 1,119 Aanerican adults had a margin oferror of plus or minus 3 percentage points. www.metrostarnews.corn ~ihe gay contingent will include t77 musicians in the parade down Pennsylvania Avenue a~er Obama is sworn in on the steps of the U.S. Capitol. The court also found that the ban denied children the right to permanency provided by federal and state law under the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997. "An Obama transition team spokesperson, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said the decision on how to approach repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ ... would be ma& after more experts have joined the Obama administration;’ the paper said. A July poll by The \Vashington Post and ABC News found that 75 percent of Americans said "yes" when ~isked, "Do you think that homosexuals who do publicly disclose their sexual orientation should be allowed to serve in the military or not ?" Although LGBA concert bands performed at inaugural celebratious t’or Bill Clinton in 1993 and 1997, this will be the first time a gay band has marched in a presidential inaugural parade. In making their selections, the Presidential Inaugural Committee and military musicians assessed the applications of 1,400 marching bands, drill teams and musical groups. However, the gay newspaper ~Tashington Blade reported Nov. 25 that an unnamed Obama spokesperson said the mainstream-media reports were premature. "Tnese decisions will not be made before the full national security team is in place;’ the Blade quoted the spokesperson as saying. The Lesbian and Gay Band Association, which is composed of 34 marching and concert bands fi’om the U.S., Canada and Australia, will march in President-elect Barack Obama’s inaugural parade Jan. 20. The court ruled that tile ban violated the equalprotection guarantees of the state constitution because it irrationally singled out gay people and their children for different treatment. "Reports and studies find that there are no differences in the parenting of homosexuals or the adjustment of their children;’ the court said. "TheSe conclusions have been accepted, adopted and ratified by the American psychological Association, the American Psychiatry Association, the American PediatriCAssociation, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the Child Welfare League of America and the National Association of Social Workers. Based on the robust nature of the evidence available in the field, this Court is satisfied that the issue is so far beyond dispute that it would be irrational to hold otherwise; the best~interests of children are not preserved by prohibiting homosexual adoption." The National Journal and The Washington Tunes said Obama might wait until 2010 to ’tackle the ban. Wanda Sykes comes out, Gay band, anti-gay preacher to participate in blasts Prop 8 inauguration Admirals, Generals urge DADT repeal A former Army secretary and 103 retired admirals and generals issued a call Nov. 17 for repeal of the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays. Among the document’s signers were a former Naval Academy superintendent, retired four-star Adm. Chades Larson, and former President Jimmy Carter’s Army secretary, Clifford Mexander. It is believed that there are about 65,000 gay people serving in the military, not counting the 627 who were kicked out last year for failing to stay sufficiently closeted. Human Rights Caxnpaign President Joe Solmonese calAed the move ’h genuine bl0w to LGBT Americans." "We feel a deep level of disrespect when one of the architects and promoters of an anti-gay agenda is given the prominence and the pulpit of your historic nomination; Solmonese said. "Vge urge you to reconsider this announcement." The National Gay arid Lesbian Task Force said, "We urge President-elect Obama to withdraw his invitation to Rick Warren and instead select a faith leader who embraces fairness, equality and the ideals the president-elect himself has called the nation to uphold: Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation President Nell Giuliano said, "It is ... deeply troubling that the President-elect has selected have to be standing out here demanding something that we automatically should have as citizens of this country. And I got pissed off. They pissed me off. I said, You know what, now I gotta get in your face. And that’s what we all have to do now." Sykes said, as others have, that the passage of Prop 8 did have an upside. "They pissed offthe ~vrong group of people," she said. "They have galvanized a community: XWe are so together now and we all want the same tiling and we are not going to settle for less." The Las Vegas rally was part of a national day of protest against Prop 8 that saw demonstrations in 300 U.S. cities and towns, including such unlikely places Direct Cremation From $595 as Allentown, Fargo, Fayetteville, La Crosse, Macon, Shreveport and Missoula. ..... Continued See Inauguration Page-11 ’ T ON MORTUARY SERVICE,~e Tradition!! Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 In California, there were protests Nov. 15 in 58 separate towns and cities. Pre-Need Plaa CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED N~÷troSTAR 7 �Same-sex marriage bill to be introduced in New Hampshire * U.S. adults are evenly divided on xvhether gay couples should have access to marriage -- 47 percent say yes and 49 percent say no. New Hampshire State Rep. Jim Splaine plans to introduce a bill next year to legalize same-sex marriage. * Sixty-four percent think gays in the military should not have to stay closeted, as required by the =don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. New Hampshire already has a comprehensive same-sex civil-union law, and nearby Connecticut and Massachusetts allow gay couples to marry~ Splaine told the Concord Monitor newspaper that the civil-union law bestows only about 90 percent of the state-level benefits and obligations of marriage, xvhich leaves same-sex couples without full equality under the law. Some 600 same-sex couples have entered into a civil union in New Hampshire. Elton John does not support same-sex marriage Elton John says gays are wrong to want to get married and should settle for civil unions. "We’re (David Furnish and I) not married. Let’s get that right;’ John told USA Today on Nov. 12. "We have a civil partnership. What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that mey went for marriage. Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the,vord marriage. "I don’t want to be married;’ John said. very happy with a civil partnership. If gay people want to get mar}led, Or get together, they should have a civil partnership .... You ~et the same e~ual rights .... Heterosexual peopm get married: John’s assertion about ~equal rights" is essentially true in the United Kingdom, where John and Furnish entered their civil partnership. ~Ihe UK civil-partnership law is national in scope. In the U.S., on the other hand, civil-union and domestic-parmership laws are state laws that grant equal rights only on the state level, leaving civilly united gay couples without access to-more than 1,000 federal rights, benefits and obligations of marriage. But, at the same time, the U.S. government also does not recognize the same-sex marriages that have taken place in California, Connecticut, Massachusetts or abroad. However, it would require less of an overhaul of federal policy to start recognizing married same-sex couples than it would to create some kind of national recognition of states’ hod gepodge of civilunion and domestic-partnership laws, some of which grant all state-level rights of marriage and others of which do not. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama has said repeatedly that he supports extending federal recognition to same-sex unions, though he does not favor opening marriage itseltto samesex couples, citing religious objections. Obama nonetheless opposed California’s Proposition 8, in which voters amended the state constitution on Nov. 4 to re-ban same-sex marriage. ha a nutshell, Obama does not think gay couples should have access to marriage but also does not think any laws should be passed to prevent gay couples from accessing marriage. 8 ~÷~roSTAR * Sixty-three percent support expanding hate-crime la~vs to cover gay and transgender people. At present, 31 states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 12 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Fifty-one percent favor protecting gay and transgender people under existing laws that ban discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations. Twenty states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 13 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Sixty-nine percent oppose bans on gay adoption. =We observed a positive relationship between knowing a gay or transgender person and one’s attitudes toward them and the policy issues that affect their lives," said Laura Light, Harris Interactive’s vice president of public-relations research. "Based on other surveys we have conducted on attitudes toward LGBT people and issues, the results of this survey suggest that public sentiment in the U.S. is trending toward greater acceptanF~ of gay- and transgender-related policy issues:’ Iowa Supreme Court hears marriage case The Iowa Supreme Court heard oral arguments Dec. 9 in Lan~bda Legal’s case on behalf of same-sex couples who want to marry. "XTge put our best case forward, and hope that the court breathes life into the Iowa Constitution’s promise of equality," said Senior Staff Attorney Camilla Taylor. The couples’ case was argued by former Iowa Solicitor General Dennis Johnson of Dorsey & Whimey. "The government has no business standing in the way of a loving same-sex couple who wants to take responsibility for each other and their fancily," Johnson said. Lambda filed suit in Polk County District Court in 2005 on behalf of six same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses, arguing that the denials violated the liberty and equality guarantees in the Iowa Constitution. In 2007, the court agreed that banning same-sex couples from marrying was unc0nstitutional, and the county recorder and registrar appealed to the state Supreme Court. One gay couple -- Sean and Tim McQ,u)llan of Ames -- got married before Judge Robert Hanson quickly suspended his ruling when it was appealed. The survey found that people under 65, and especially those 18-34, are more gay-friendly than people over 65. Women are generally more supportive than men. Latinos are more supportive than whites and blacks when it comes to gays in the military. Blacks are more supportive than whites and Latinos on hate-crime laws. And Catholics and "mainline" Christians (Protestant, Mormon or %ther Christian") are more supportive than "born-again" Protestants, Mormons or other Christians. Nineteen percent of those questioned said their feelings toward gay people have become more favorable over the past five years. They attributed the change to such things as knmving someone who is gay, seeing gay people on TV and in movies, passage of gay-friendly laws, news coverage of gay issues, and learning of the gay-friendly positions of friends, family members and religious leaders. "Knowing someone who is gay or lesbian" ,vas the most significant factor, cited by 79 percent of those whose feelings had evolved. Seventy-three percent of those qu{stioned know or work with a gay or transgender person and half of that 73 percent know or work with five or more gay or traaasgender people, the survey found. Full poll results: tinyurl.com/6nojlq. January 2009 �DVD" ’re Obituary of Mary Lorene Marlett, mother of Demo Candidate Ron Marlett Angels" Ron Marlett was the Democratic candidate runmng against Mrs. Kern in HD 84. with the release of their album. The following is from Ron: My mother. Mary Lorene Marlett, passed from this world December 17. She has suffered from Alzeheimers Disease the past two years, From my earliest years. I can remember her involvement in the Canadian County Democratic Party. She described herself as a Yellow Dog Democrat, someone who would vote for a yellow dog before voting for a Republican. Jason and &Marco have recently taken a&antage of C~l~ornlas Troy Don Wheat 34ar 19, 1966 - Dec 6, 2008 TULSA, OK (OkEq) __ Troy Wheat, son of Betty and Paul Wheat was born on March 19, 1966 in Alva, Oklahoma. He died on the 6th of December, at his home in Tulsa, at the age of 42 years, 8 months and 18 days. Troy is survived by his parents Paul and Betty; a sister and her husband, Paula and Bill Miller of Woodward; his significant other, Christopher Roberts of Tulsa; two nieces and their spouses, Shannon and Craig Chestnut and thei} children Jace and Jayden of Mustang, Karrie and Kendel Kay and their children Sloan, Reece, Braton and Kinley of Ashland, Kansas; a number of other relatives and many friends. He graduated from Alva High School in 1984. After moving to Tulsa, Troy attended and graduated cosmetology school in Jenks. He became a successful stylist in Tulsa. He was very involved in the Miss Cinderella, Miss Oklahoma and Miss America Pageants. One of the highlights of his life was when his client won Miss America in 2006. A family and friends visitation reception was held Thursday December 1 lth at Ninde Brookside Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Tul’sa, Oklahoma 74105. However. she loved her Republican friends. In a community where racial epithets were socially acceptable, she taught that those words wouldn’t be tolerated in our household. When I hear politicians talk of"family values", I wonder if they were taught that racism wasn’t a family value. I attended precinct meetings with her and accompanied her to a state convention. She raised my brother and me with values of equality, fairness and the value of hard work. When I was younger she saw that I got to Little League baseball games when my dad was tied up responding to an electric outage in the rural electric cooperative, xXihen I left home, she became involved in my brother’s scouting as was extremely proud of his attaining his Eagle Scout Award. When my father became disabled, she ;,cent to work at XXrestern Hectric, later AT&T. She continued there until being offered an early retirement. She continued to live in Union City after my father’s death in 1987. She began having health problems that probably signalled the onset of Alzheirmers, but I was too close to the situation to recognize it. About two years ago a doctor diagnosed it and told me she had two years left. She celebrated her 75th birthday and received letters from Oklahoma politicians praising her for her ~vork for the party. Her long time Democratic friend, Oberta Bergdall attended that party. She was particularly proud of having attended President Carter’s inaugural ball. Toward the end of her life, no one in the Democratic Party could really remember her. When I attended the C:anadian County Democratic Bean Supper, I felt I represented her. She died surrounded by people who loved her and was very peaceful mad free of pain. I am struck by the reliefI feel that she no longer suffers and the realization that I will not see her again. She was a blessing to those she cared for and to the Democratic Party she loved. United Metropolitan Community Church www.metrostarnews.com Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. l~laplewood Tulsa, OK Ron Marlett 918-838-1715 w.mcctuisa.org ~Oet~oSTAR 9 �Close, but no cigar. perform same-gender marriages yet their religious freedom is being abridged by the passage of Prop 8. ByJan~es Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ q-he recent release of the biopic "Milk" about the life and death of San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk revivified interest in Milk’s most famous phrases such as "Come out, come out, wherever you are;’ and "Don’t blend in:’ Another openly gay activist to have his speeches and writings dusted offis Bayard Rustin, an openly gay African-American who was a colleague of Dr. M.L. King and who was given behind-the-scenes credit for organizing the March on Washington in August, 1963 where Dr... King made his iconic and forward lookAng"I Have a Dream" speech. Mr. Rustin was forced to take a back-seat due to fears that his orientation and arrest record would undoubtedly be used against the civil tights movement. From the book Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin by Bayard Rustin (Cleis Press, Carbado and Weise, editors) we get the succinct gay agenda, if there ever was one, that I think most of us gay/lesbian activists can agree on "the job of the gay comnaunity is not to deal with extremists who would castrate us or put us on an island and drop an Hbomb on us." The fact of the matter is that there is a small percentage of people in America who understand the true nature of the homosexual cornmunity. There is another small percentage who will never understand us. Our job is not to get those people who dislike us to love us. Nor was our aim in the civil rights movement to get prejudiced white people to love us. Our aim was to try to create the Idnd of America, legislatively, morally, and psychologically, such that even though some whites continued to hate us, they could not openly manifest that hate. That’s our job today: to control the extent to which people can publicly manifest anti-gay sentiment." (http://tiwurl.com/5w77yr) What we should continue to be doing is proving our gay/lesbian equality of citizenship to the broad range of the valuable demographic ~mown as the undecided, who politicians always court. For our purposes it’s those people who all have gay and lesbian family members or friends, xvho wouldn’t think of hurting them but somehow aren’t connecting the dots that if some of us gays and lesbians are getting hurt, all of us get hurt. Dr. King said it in a more engraved style: "It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important." Laws don’t prevent crime or change the minds of the incorrigible, but laws do provide a way to legally make it uncomfortable for prejudice and violence to be acted out against minorities. ~is is one reason our enemies are very anxious that hate crimes bills that include language for the protection of sexual orientation and gender presentation are not passed either at the Federal or state level. Our opponents claim such laws would limit speech and hamper the free exercise of religion. But as Rep Barhey Dank (Mass.) said earlier in December, 2008 at a Victory Fund luncheon, these laws are directed at actions of violence not at xvords; expression is not the target of hate crimes laws, but physica! behavior is. (http://tinyurl.com/5963au) Yes, we truly live in the age ofOrwell xvhere words can be wolves in sheep’s clothing. We read of Mormon and Catholic spokespeople offended by the peaceful protests ofgay/lesbian supporters in reaction to losing the November Prop. 8 vote in California. And just why does prejudice and discrimination seem to originate with bible-trumpeting homo-haters ? Could it be because they already live in a ddusional world of superstition and make-believe, of fairy stories about sky-based good things, and dark-and-dirty ground-based bad things ? Could it be because they still live in the world of Bronze Age nomads ~vho had no science and no concept of a world beyond the horizon they could walk toward in a day? The current (I hesitate to call them "modern day") generation of ftmdies lives in a world of technology and communication that would seem like godly magic to their Abrahamic ancestors. They use this science to disperse their simplistic balderdash that’s rooted in desert-wandering myths and witch-doctoring and think nothing of the plain evidence and contradictions that shows them to be deeply deluded and ignorant. "Ihe last hundred years have passed them by and disproved the ancient runes and cabals they so desperately need to explain their conflicting childhood dreams of omnipotent, omniscient super heroes rescuing them from death and oblivion. Personally I don’t care what they do as consenting adults in the privacy of their religious establishments or even on the public street corner. However, no group has the legal prover to impose religious dogma in the law books of any state or Federa! code. There continues to be a principle of separation of church and state, equality and liberty for all, that is paramount to the continuation of this country as it was founded. African-Americans, Native Americans, and women have gained their civil equality in spite of the restrictions originally written in the Constitution and later remedied by Amendments. So far, 30 states have amendments or laws forbidding same-gender marriage in addition to the alleged "Defense of Marriage Act" (DOMA). Two states have understood the rights of gays and lesbians to have civil marriage, Massachusetts and Connecticut, with a handful of states having various marriage-like rights available but not the real thing. Close, but no cigar! We need to think of ourselves in a way that reflects the goodness and quality that exists within our ranks, g[e are terrific people and we may as well acknowledge that in our language. Another word that completely escaped our gaydar is the term homophobia. We use it to define prejudice against gay and lesbian people. But it just doesn’t seem to be up to the job. It’s weak and ambiguous. When we talk about someone who dislikes others based on their skin color we call them racist. Much stronger word. Phobic people, in general, tend to be fearful but polite. People who openly disapprove of gay/lesbian folks are neither. Are we too nice when ~ve describe our critics in such an affable way? Homophobic! Doesn’t sound so bad. Surely, the terms they have for us are more forthright. Who thought of calling hatred a phobia, anyway? Ac,t,t}ally, it was psychologist George Weinberg in his 1972book Society and the Healthy Honaosexual:’ He was tapping into the theory that violence toward gay people came about because of a fear of homosexuality, especially by those repressing their own same-sex urges. But what about all the other gay bashers who aren’t reacting to their inner homo ? The rest of the world has already learned that words define us to others and molds our selfqmage. That’swhy secretaries are executive assistants and garbage men are sanitation engineers. GeraM Libonati is the author afthe neu, novel Pete*" [’Vo~7 the storr af:a fiam°uv. ~Ta ro& star who ~oes incognito mfind love. He ~s an award-winningjournalist in &uth £1orig, workingfir the Sun-SentineL He has also wri~enJbr ~e .~iiami He,ald, ~e dd~ocam andfi’egznce~jbr gaT/tesbian newspapers around t,~e munW. Although Frederick Douglass was disappointed by the 1857 Dredd Scott decision that refused full citizenship to free blacks as well as slaves, he found a reason to look forward, saying, "My hopes were never brighter than now." Slavery was brought to forefront of the country and the unsavory ownership of people could no longer be ignored. Though we gay citizens are not owued physically, our social and economic prospects are curtailed. Thanks to our enemies, our own equality prospects been brought to the forefront and our equality will be won. Straights and Homophobes: lae Words hat Bind Us. By Gerald Libonati Language shapes our self-image and some of the words we use are misleading, inadequate or just plain wrong. Take the word straig!at, for instance. "We use it to describe heteros; men and women who are not gay or lesbian. And every time we use the term we indirectly insult ourselves. What does the word mean in our society? To me, it looks as if the First Amendment establishment clause is being ignored because there are some denominations that ~vill Straight means proper, upstanding, law-abiding and decent. Are ~,~÷t~oSTAR So ifheteros are straight what does that make us - crooked, dishonest, drugged and apparently indecent ? Just as Plessy ~: Ferguson was overturned by Brown v. Board of Education ending educational segregation; just as Bowers v. Hardwick was overturned by Lawrence and Garner v. Texas removing sodomy laws from enforcement, just as Colorado’s Amendment 2 was overturned with Romer v. Evans, we can look forward to our day in a courtroom as well as the court of public opinion. It seems these t~vo denominations that gave much of the money fueling the thei~ of a civil right in California were surprised by the bacHash to the imposition of their religious dogma on the non-member citizens of California ( http:/itinyurl.com/6qp2xz ), (http://tinyurl.com/6215gd). 10 ~ou being straight with me, refers to honest): When you’re off rugs, you’re straight. If you’re good, you travel the straight-andnarrow. ’Damn straight’ means emphatically right, unequiv0cally correct. January 2009 �nationa ROBERT MATSON’S LATEST EPIC "A GATHERING" AND HIS NEW NTURES UPCOMING anti-gay and anti-Latino slurs jumped from an SUV and broke a beer bottle over Sucuzhafiay’s head, beat him with a bat and kicked him. someone whose defamatory and damaging anti-gay statements and vie~vs ... clearly divide rather than unite Americans." Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., called Obama’s move very disappointing. The brother, Romel, escaped down the street, then returned to the scene and scared offthe attackers by telling them he’d phoned police on his cell phone. By Victor Gorin ~Religious leaders obviously have every right to speak out in opposition to anti-discrimination measures, even in the degrading terms that Rev. Warren has used with regard to same-sex marriage;’ Frank said. "But that does not confer upon them the right to a place of honor in the inauguration ceremony of a president whose stated commitment to LGBT rights won him the strong support of the great majority of those who support that cause:’ Police are investigating the killing as a hate crime and are offering a $27,000 award for information leading to apprehension of the assailants. On Dec. 13, hundreds of protesters marched from a Bushwick park to the site of the attack. GeoffKors, executive director of Equality California, said he is so annoyed by Warren’s participation that he will boycott the inauguration. "I have decided to decline the invitation to attend the inauguration as I cannot be part of a celebration that highlights and gives voice to someone who advocated repealing rights from me and millions of other Californians;’ Kors said. "Rick Warren ... actively works to dMde Americans based on who we are and has been an ardent supporter of efforts to ostracize LGBT Americans:’ Photo: Robert Matson by Victor Go,qn OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Lyric’s Plaza Theater hosted a unique play with A Gathering, but Robert is a playwright where one can count on non-convention. After all he brought us Tails of the Closet and Drama Q~eens, and even a masculine answer to the Vagina Monologues entitled Beneath the Zipper, which celebrated the penis. But who ~v0~ld have expdcted agay thriller on stage, with seat edging suspense that would have awed Agatha Christie herself? But there it was, entitled A Gathering, where 9 gay men are trapped on an isolated island, cut offffom the outside world, and there is a killer or killers among them. With a scenario almost identical to Agatha Christie’s novel, "And then there were None," it starts offfun and campy with the wisecracking antics of ToW "Toneisha" Hayes ( portrayed by Chris Castleberry) who was supposed to be drag entertainment but instead was the first to go. Then there was the hard drinking Dr. James Armstrong ( portrayed by Timothy Stewart), a self proclaimed bisexual who was enamored with Toneisha ~vhile she lasted. The play ends in surprise as character Neil Lawrence ( portrayed by Jerome Stevenson) turns out to be the killer, and concludes with his suicide and that of the last left one left alive, the handsome resort employee Courmey Claythorne( portrayed by Scott Hynes), who xvas left xvith the bitter choice of self destruction or being accused of murdering all the others when the authorities eventually arrived. What inspired this wild tale ? W’ell, besides Agatha Christie, Mr. Matson added that "I love murder mysteries. I wanted to give Agatha’s story a different twist. This xvould be a great piece to work with, and how to make it xvork with 9 gay men. I worked on it for about 2 years." Although he has done past work with maW theater companies including Jewel Box, CityRep, Guthrie’s Pollard Theater & Carpenter Square, he is currently the Academy Administrator for Lyric Academy, which involves registration for acting classes taught there and he teaches adult acting classes as well. As for the fnture, he is working on" a couple things, including a loud gay comedy with Oklahoma ties to it." But that’s all he’ll say right now, so we can all be breathless with anticipation. www.metrostarnews.com Speaking in support of California’s Proposition 8 before the November election, Warren said, "We should not let 2 percent of the population change a definition of marriage that has been supported by every single culture and every single religion for 5,000 years. In reality, many cultures over the past 5,000 years have embraced polygamy. Hundreds ofprotesters marched in Brooklyn Dec. 13 after an Ecuadorean man who was walking a~n in arm with h# brother was attacked with a baseball bat and later died. 2he assailants shouted ann’-gay slurs. Photo byJoeJervis. More recently, Warren told Beliefnet.com that same-sex marriage is equivalent to "having a broth& anff Sist& b~ together ... an 01der ~ " and calling that a marriage... one gw having multiple wives and calling that marriage." (Warren: ’Tin opposed to the redefinition of a 5,000-year definition of marriage. I’m opposed to having a brother and sister be together and call that marriage. I’m opposed to an older gny marrying a child and calling that a marriage. I’m opposed to one guy having multiple wives and calling that marriage:’ Interviewer: "You think those are equivalent to gays getting married?" Warren: "Oh, I do:’) Brooklyn man dies after probable ha e attack A Brooklyn man who was attacked with a baseball bat Dec. 7 as he walked arm in arm with his brother died on Dec. 12. Josd Sucuzhafia); a 31-year-old Ecuadorean immigrant, and his brother were walking together in Brooklyn’s Bushwick neighborhood after a night out when three black men shouting [~Ie~°oSTAR 11 �@ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ ~e Second Chance Animal Sanctuary @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City �CLUB 209 HOSTS PHOTOGPHER VINCENT SCOTT Ok ahomans for Equality art gallery opens Josh New photo e libit California Constitution. Ordinarily, it is the attorney geqeral’s job to defend the state’s laws, not attack them. By Judy Gabbard "Proposition 8 must be invalidated because the amendment process cannot be used to extinguish fundamental constitutional rights without compelling justification;’ Brown said in a statement. "There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundaanental rights;’ he added in an interview xvith the San Jose Mercury News. "If every fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty:’ Rejecting recent arguments submitted to the state Supreme Court by gay-rights lawyers, Brown concluded that existing case-law precedents of the court do not invalidate Proposition 8 either as an improper revision of the state constitution or as a violation of the separation-of-provers doctrine. But that does not resolve the matter; he said. Photography Art by Josh New TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery starts a new year of it’s monthly First Thursday meetthe-artist receptions featuring photographs from native Tulsa resident Josh New. The reception will be held Thursday, January 1st, 2009, from 6-9pm. Josh New, a teacher ofJapanese at Booker T Washington High School, is currently a graduate student at the University of Tulsa in photography. Arches by Photographer Hncent Scott TULSA, OK__ Dennis Olson, owner of DoArt Worlds, sponsored the opening of "Pioneering Seas6n" featuring the photography of Vincent Scott at Club 209, Tulsds Arts Bar in the historical Brady District. Club 209 features various artists throughout the year. The Club is also a great place to enjoy local entertainment on weekends, such as Vallerie Star Light Rock + Acoustic, Rebecca Ungerma~i with the Frank Brown Trio and the Three Penny Upright, A Little Bluegrass. Visit Club 209 on the web at www.club209tulsa.com for monthly updates on art exhibits and entdrtainment. Vincent Scott is a world traveled photographer whose eye for the beauty in our world, has thrilled many onlookers coast to coast. Dennis Olson, an artist in his own right, chose to sponsor these photographs because of Mr. Scott’s photographic eye and production techniques. To contact Dennis Olson emaih do@ doart~vorld.org. The opening night was an exciting experience of fine art, flowing wine and the admiration’ of hundreds of guest. After graduating from Oklahoma State, Mr. New worked in Japan for three years, where he developed a love of travel and the exotic. Since then he has traveled to many countries and discovered a talent in photography. That love and talent has brought Inm to TU to ~rther hone his s-kill aa~d allow hu~ the freedom to experiment aa~d take his photographs further than just glorified vacation photos. "My photographs have been, more than anything, my attempt to control and catalog the world around me’; states New. "I’m moving in a direction where I am starting to manipulate my images to illuminate my thoughts and ideas, but they primarily remain shots of the patterns and vibrant colors I see around me. This exhibit is a sampling of both photos I have taken on my journeys and the first steps in my attempt to, essentially, photograph my thoughts, which also seem to be constructed in colors and patterns" The exhibit will remain up through the month ofJanuary, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. Calif. Attorney General Brown: Prop 8 is invalid Community Fellowship by Rex g¢ockne~ "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfriendghips become family" ors ip Experience Sund s 5:30 p.m. Pastor Neill @urgin Pasto ressionsOKC, corn (~05) 761-1878 "~w.ExpressionsOKC.com Meeting at Lansbrook ~¢ent Center 6009 NW E~pressway Oklahoma Cio~, OK In a stunninglegal move, California Attorney General Jerry Brown formally urged the California Supreme Court to invalidate Proposition 8 on Dec. 19 because, in re-banning sanaesex couples from marrying, the voter-approved constitutional amendment deprived people of an aspect of liberty that the Supreme Court previously had concluded is guaranteed by the In its May 15 decision legalizing same-sex marriage, the state Supreme Court "held that article I, section 1 of the California Constitution provides a right to marry that cannot be denied to same-sex couples;’ Brown’s office said. "In order to invalidate such a fundamental right, the court must determine that there is a compelling justification to do so. But in (its decision), the court found that no such compelling justification exists. Accordingly, Proposition 8 must be stricken." "~ae use of the (ballot) initiative power to take avcay a legal right deemed by this Court to be fundamental and from a group defined by a suspect classification is a matter of grave concern;’ Brown said in his brief to the court. "Proposition 8 should be invalidated as violating the inalienable right of liberty found in article I, section 1 of our Constitution." In its May decision, the state Supreme Court struck dmwa the state’s opposite-sex definition of marriage as unconstitutional, citing a fundamental right to marry under the state constitution and the constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the lav,r, The court further determined -- in a move that legal analysts said was unprecedented for a supreme court -- that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level of scrutiny by courts, which made it dramatically harder for any level of government in California to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. This was accomplished by the court’s declaring sexual orientation to be, like race and religion, a so-called "suspect classification" -- a categorization that forces any government in California that treats GLB people differently in any way to prove it has a specific compelling interest, rather than a mere rational basis, for doing so. While Prop 8 wiped out the part of the court’s decision that legalized same-sex marriage, it did not alter the more ground,b, reaking part of the ruling that found sexual orientatiT~n to be a suspect classification. Gay rights lawyers said back in May that the suspect-classification determination would prove to be even more of a game-changer for California gays in the long run than xvas the decision to legalize same-sex marriage. If Brown’s argument passes muster with the state Supreme Court, that prediction will have been borne out. Equality California Executive Director GeoffKors praised Brown’s court brief and its novel argument. "He just demonstrated the ldnd of leadership that isn’t motivated byp olitical exp edienc y but by what is right," said the head of the state’s leading gay lobby group. �Wockner News Service Sweden to strike six sexu- Burundi’s parliament HIV diagnoses among votes to ban gay sex European gay men nearly al diagnoses from list double since 2000 The parliament of the Central African nation Sweden’s National Board of Health and WelHIV diagnoses among men who have sex with men (MSM) increased 86 percent in 23 European countries between 2000 and 2006 -- from 3,003 cases to 5,571 cases -- according tO a report in the journal Sexually Transmitted Infections. Researchers from the EuroHIV program analyzed data from 24 of the 27 member nations of the European Union along with data from Iceland, Norway and Switzerland, and compared those figures with similar year-2000 data gathered from 23 nations. There were 7,693 ne,v HIV cases reported overall among MSM in 2006, of which 2,597 occurred in the United Kingdom. Other nations with high diagnosis rates included the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Portugal and Switzerland. Much lower rates of MSM diagnoses were found in Hungary, Lithuania and Slovenia, even though Hungary saw a 118 percent increase over 2000 and Slovenia saw a 257 percent increase. Four nations saw a decline in new HIV diagnoses among MSM over the six-year period: Cyprus, Iceland, Lithuania and Luxembourg (though Luxembourg’s rate is still high). The researchers said stepped-up HIV testing may have affected the statistics to some degree, meaning an increase in diagnoses may not correlate precisely ~vith an increase in actual infections. They also suggested that infections may be increasing as HIV-positive men who have sex with men live longer and remain sexually active and presumably able to pass on the virus. Other findings included: * In 20 countries, the percentage of MSM who had full-blown AIDS at the time of their HIV diagnosis decreased from 25 percent in 2000 to t0 percent in 2006. * In 30 countries, full-blown AIDS diagnoses decreased from 2,422 in 2000 to 1,445 in 2006. * In those same countries, HIV-related deaths decreased 57 percent over the period, from 876 in 2000 to 373 in 2006. "’qge have reported a recent increase in the number of HIV diagnoses among MSM in nearly all (European) countries, and in some countries this probably" represents a true increase in incidence;’ the researchers said. "This, combined with the high prevalence of HIV reported in many gay community settings, the high prevalence of HIV among MSM diagnosed with STI (sexually transmitted infection) and the high sexual mobility of this population, highlight the need for a Europewide HIV prevention strategy:’ 14 fare will strike six sexual diagnoses from the nation’s official list of medical diagnoses on Jan. 1, Stocldaolm’s ~ae Local newspaper reported. The agency will remove transvestism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sadomasochism, gender-identity disorder in youth and multiple disorders of sexual preferences from the list. "W’e don’t want to contribute to certain sexual behaviors being thought of as diseases," said board director Lars-Erik Holm. "These diagnoses are rooted in a time when everything other th~ the heterosexual missionary position was seen as sexual perversions." Homosexuality was removed from the list 30 years ago. Australian Parliament gives gay couples equal rights Australia’s Senate and House of Representatives passed legislation in late November that changes some 100 laws to give gay couples equal rights. The measure now goes to the Governor-General for formal approval. The changes, introduced by the federal government, extend spousal rights to same-sex de facto couples in areas such as health care, ’ taxation, pensions, parenting, public benefits, workplace benefits, workers’ compensation, veterans’ affairs, elder care and educational assistance. "At long last we have removed discrimination against same-sex couples from commonwealth law;’ said Attorney-General Robert McClelland. Gay campaigners cheered the.move but said gay couples will not have complete equality until they can get married. Chinese gay HIV cases increase The percentage of gay men in China ~vho are HIV-positive increased from 0.4 percent in 2005 to 4.9 percent this year, the Ministry of Health said Nov. 28. But straight sex remains the predominant way HIV is transmitted in China, accounting for 40 percent of new infections, compared with 28 percent from IV drug use and 5 percent from gay sex. The gay statistics were based on data collected from 18,000 gay men in more than 60 cities. of Burundi voted to specifically criminalize gay sex Nov. 22 as part of a package of more than 600 legal changes that included abolition of the death penalty, news reports said. According to Amnesty International, male, male sex previously was banned and,ptmished under laxvs governing "immoral acts. The vote on the changes was 90 to 0 with 10 abstentions. The measure now moves to the Senate, then to President Pierre Nkurunziza. Neither is expected to oppose it. The small, landlocked nation has a population of 8.7 million, a life expectancy of less than 52 years, and a per capita gross domestic product at purchasing-power parity of $300. ~l-he comparable figure for the U.S. is $45,800. Norway’s is $ 53,300, Mexico’s is $12,400 and Vietnam’s is $2,600. 80% of South A ricans thimk gay sex is wrong Despite a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation and its being one of only six nations where same-sex couples can marry, South Africa remains deeply homophobic, a new survey has found. The Human Sciences Research Council’s annual South African Social Attitudes Survey, released Nov. 24, found that 80 percent of respondents think gay sex is wrong. Whites, city dwellers and highly educated people polled less anti-gay than blacks, "coloureds" (mixed-race people), people with less education and those living in rural areas, the Sunday Times reported. Britain to count gay populafion Britain’s Office for National Statistics is going to count the gay population. Starting in January, a sexual-orientation question will be included in several of the office’s routine surveys, leading to an eventual estimate of the size of the nation’s gay community. Respondents will choose from heterosexual/ straight, gay/lesbian, bisexual or "other" -- or can opt not to answer. Officials say the results will be useful for gauging levels of discrimination and unequal treatment and addressing those problems. The signatories overcame strong opposition from a group of governments that routinely try to block UN attention to issues of sexual orientation and gender identity. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, that affirmed the "principles of non-discrimination and equality," but said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights of certain persons" because "the notion of orientation spans a wide range of persona] choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization of many deplorable acts: ~ae countries that signed the pro-gay statement are Mbania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finland, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Italy, Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tomd and Prlncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia, Timor-Leste, unite~Kingd0m, Uruguay ~Venezueta~ ..... The United States refused to sign the statement, saying its broad language could reach into areas that fall outside of federal jurisdiction, such as the right of each U.S. state to define marriage. qt is altogether shameful that on this 60th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Bush administration should take one final swipe at the universal application of human rights for all;’ said Julie Dorf of the Council for Global Equality. "The shoe incident in Iraq last week painfully shows us how low this country has sunk in the world’s view." Gays march in Hong Kong £or first time Hong Kong saw its first gay pride parade Dec. 13. About 1,000 people marched, including many who came from Taiwan and mainland China. ~he two-mile procession traversed Hennessy Road in the city center. Attendance may have been positively, influenced by news reports before the parade, when Hong Kong’s biggest bus company refused to rent a double-decker bus to pride organizers. China has recorded a total of 260,000 HIV cases, 77,000 AIDS cases and 34,000 AIDSrelated deaths. Janua~ 2009 �Larry: I see it as being a representative, not just for OGRA or the gay community but also the State of Oklahoma. We go to other states and other rodeos and meet a lot of people. Also important is our fund-raising, which is one of the reasons I went for this title. Victor: This fund-raising not only helps the charities themselves, but I’m sure you also see it as promoting the positive image of the GLBT people in the cowboy lifestyle. Larry: It think it has, and I think a lot of young people have gotten interested in it because of the fund-raising, shows and related activity. Also people see you don’t have to be a full fledged cmvboy, just interested in die country lifestyle and having fun. Victor: Although the world is changing, OGRA still defies sonle stereotypica! beliefs.. Victor: But the shining star of OGRA is the Great Plains Rodeo, which has been held at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds for many years as a Memorial Day weekend celebration. Larry: More and more people are coming to that and really having fun. Some people are surprised that our rodeos are truly the same "kind of rodeos, although we do feature goat dressing and sometimes other campy events thrown in. Victor: What impact do you think t~he movie Brokeback Mountain had on the gay community, society in general, and in particular gay cowboys ? Larry: Really it brought the gay community into the mainstream, that there was more to the gay community than an urbaaa community of drag queens & flamboyant individuals, to see them as regular people with difficulties we all face in real life. It made the gay cowboys feel more accepted, to let them kalow they can be themselves. It also educated the urban gay community of the problems rural gays face. Victor: ~¢¢’here do you see die future of OGRA? Larry: When OGRA began we were teaming up witl~ other states, and now we’re doing one the largest rodeos on our own. Of course we’d like to see more people volunteer, but to put tllis on with the resources we have shows a true hardworking spirit of Oklahomans. Victor: How long have you been in Oklahoma City ? Larry: Seven years, and I have felt good seeing the increased interest in OGRA and the friends I have made there. I have been glad to hear from out oftowners how impressed they are that the various parts of the gay communit); the disco crowd, drag queens, the cowboys, the lesbians, get along so well together compared to other places. Victor: So how do people learu more about OGRA? Larry: ~lere~ our website ~a-,wv.ogra.net, to learn what we’re doing, about our events, and other related organizations & chatrooms where one can talk with other cowboys and learn even more. There’s room for all types of people and talent, lesbians, gay" men and we also have some straight members. Photo by Chaz competition is as greatfor the Cowgirls and Cowboys at OGR~4’~; Great PLains Rodeo as an), other rodeo. Larry: Strangely enough, there are still people we encounter who are shod~ed that there are gay cowboys, that they even exist. They have interesting questions, such as "Are the rodeos really rodeos ? .... Do you really ride horses ?" Victor: Have you ever really roped a cow ? Larry: Yes I have, nay parents have owned ranches and I have roped cows, branded cattle, pulled calves, done all diat. Victor: You grew up in a small town? Larry: Ha}wcorth, a small town not far from Idabel. g[e lived on a f~trm there, went to school, did our chores, slopped the hogs, fed the chickens, took care of the horses. We even rode our horses to school when the buses couldn’t get through. Victor: So you had a typical growing up there ? Larry: Yes, but my family moved around a lot, and I experienced city life as well. I got involved ~vitll the gay community after I graduated from O!dahonia Christian University of Edmond witli a degree of Marketing & Business. After moving back to IdabeI, my first gay bar experience was the Roundup in Dallas. I soon began working with HIV organizations including the Mariah Foundation, Carepoint, and with the OHahoma State Health Department. www.metrostarnews.com There you have it, a proud tradition now 23 years young derived from the frontier spirit of Oklahoma. The GLBT community of Oklahoma can look forward to ~vhat OGRA can do for our future. Connecticut unlikely to amend constitution on marriage Connecticut voters strong!y oppose anaending the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage, according to a QEinnipiac University poll released Dec. 17. The poll of 1,445 registered voters found that 61 percent oppose an anlendment and only 33 percent support it. Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after the state Supreme Court ruled that offering gay couples onbi civil unions violated the state constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. The poll found dlat 52 percent of voters agreed with the Supreme Court’s decision, 39 percent did not and 9 percent had no opinion. MERI Day of Service to Provide for Foster Children in Rhode Island & Arkansas RHODE ISLAND (PR) Dec 8 __ As Marriage Equality Rh6de Island (MERI) made a commitment to community service this holiday season it couldn’t help but acknovdedge sorrow at the passage of Act 1 in Arkansas, a thinly veiled attack on the gay community that bans unmarried couples from adopting children or serving as foster parents. Although the Arkansas state motto calls for both "Mercy and Justice; neither was demonstrated by proponents of this legislation which harms families and children. MERI fights for the rights and protection of all families in seeking marriage equality for Rhode Island’s GLBT residents. On \Vednesday, December 10 MERI xvas at the State House to collect items for not only" the RI Food Bank, Crossroads, Amos House mid the IRIE Transitional Home for women and children, but also the foster children of Arkansas xvhose wishes for new families have been curtailed. Mayor Dani Joy of Eureka Springs, Arkansas accepted and distributed RI donations. File Photo Eureka Springs Birayor DaniJoy In her letter to MERI, Joy stated, "I am greatly honored that your organization would focus your energy and compassion on our many children that receive foster care throughout our state. With the passage of Act I our state is left with a large number of children that are either in need of foster care, or currently in foster care... Again, let me say that I am in axve of your compassion during this holiday, season. We are truly grateful," Food bank requests included boxed and canned goods, pmvered and evaporated milk, potato flakes, cereal, oatmeal, pasta, rice, soup, condiments, crackers, tuna, peanut butter, jelly/jam and juice. Amos House needs coffee and personal hygiene items. Crossroads could use slippers, hats, mittens, gloves and scarves for men, women and children (4 mos - 18). The young women and their children living at the IRIE Transitional Program, under the auspices of the RI Foster Parent Association (RIFPA) learn skills to improve their lives mid break the cycle of poverty. Ten teens ages 16-20 and their 7 children, ages 4 months - 6 years, live in the facility. Contact MERI for items noted on the IRIE wish list. MERI Day of Service partners include RI Pride, inFOCUS and the Gay Straight Alliance of Warwick Veteran’s Memorial High School. For raore information, contact Susan MacNeil at smacneil@marriageequalityri.org or by calling 401-463-5368 The poll’s margin of error was plus or minus 2.6 percentage points. ~÷t~oSTAR 15 .... �~.. Happy New The method of making "mousse" (another name fbr bubbles) in a bottle was invented by the efforts ofD~reJean Oudart (1654 - 1742) and Dora Pierre Pdrignon (1639 - 1715), Benedictine monks and cellarmasters at the respective abbeys of Saint-Pierre aux Monts de Chalons and Saint-Pierre d’Hautvillers, We have a lot to celebrate including the January 20th date for President elect Obama. This year may be the start of something big for each of us and our personal endeavors. This is truly a time to click our glasses together. Here is a litde about sparkling wines from France and Spain Champagne French monks were the first to bottle a sparkling forra of wine called Champagne, named after the Champagne region of France. The region of Champagne has a colder and shorter growing season. Champagne grapes had to be picked late in the year, with less time available for fermentation. During fermentation yeasts are used to convert the sugars of the grape juice into alcohol and cold winter temperatures stopped the process. The monks developed a method of making Champagne wine by using a second fermentation process that took place in the bottle during the following spring. The second fermentation created carbon-dioxide bubbles that are the sparkle of Champagne. Cava A Spanish sparkling wine is called Cava and was first made as early as 1851, although the true roots of the Cava wine industry can be traced back to Josd Raventos’ travels through Europe in the 1860s, where he was promoting the still wines of his Codorniu winery. His visits to the Champagne region sparked an interest in the potential of a Spanish version " Don~ Perlgnon. Rose 96/Sn-nply_ _put;although. fmay noF fi~ ~yeryqne s budget, and its super h~rd to fifid~ thi~ wifie is ~ller~ of the sparHing wine, usifig th~ same~ , p.roduction methods. ~e local Maekbeo, P~retlada and Xareldo grapes were well smtqd t~h~s wine st de and whereas earl Y versions W~e called champ~n or xampany after Champa~~ Catalan winemakers wadted ~o dis{ingui-sh 5~< [: Inmerial Nectar/This one is more in~er~sting than {he Wliite Star. It~ fruit ...... - ¯ forward & 9ffdry- dehclous. . Piper,Hela ieck B~Ut from the Vr nc 0un par , adopted the name Cava aAer the Cat’an qV6?a ~r cave, where ~e wines were tradi{~on~lly stored. ...... Toad H611ow Amplexus Brnt/~is one is ported to Califbrnia from the Cremant region ~:: of F{auce. Accordin ~ to Spanish wine laws, Cava cache .... C0dorniu Cava Brut / Sp arHin g wine s from " ~pain can be among the most interesting in taste. ~ey’re usually fi-uit forward & quite affbrdable; produced m s:x wine [eg~ous ~such as A~:md} de Duero, Navarra and ~oja)but 95% ~f Spanish Cava production takes Pene&s region. In order for the wines called "Card’ they must be made in tional m&hode champenoise. Wines the lmv-cost "Charmat process" may called "Spanish sparkling wine". Food Champagne tends to ers or opening courses in a well with gegura Viudas Cava Brut Reserva This writer is one of the manager~ at the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as dae Enthusiasts of Tulsa. 9fwine by James Laube/ shellfish like of course This months recipe courtesy of: To prepare: Boil water in large pot with splash of salt and drop of oil to keep pasta from.sticking -pasta as directed on package making sure not to overcook, drain, set aside like s Sautd olive oil, gatlic and spinach about 5-10 minutes, add fresh or defrosted shrimp and sautd in mixture until pink!orange in color. Add thatsanice! "VERDE" and mix together, pour entire mLxture over pasta and toss making sure pasta is evenly coated. Shrimp Verde Ingredients: If desired, top with some grated Parmesan cheese (although strict old school Italians frmvn on putting cheese over seafood but it tastes good !) ] pound thin linguine, cappelini or PRIMI Serving ideas: PI?~TTI Serve as a first course with a fish entrde like 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil halibut or swordfish I Bag Spinach 1 Pound Shrimp-fresh ot fi’ozen- shelled and &veined 2 Cloves Garlic 8 tablespoons thatsanice "VERDE" basil pesto crema sauce )ver [en& modern traditional flavors. If you y from them and they offer f~atured on many television shows including the Food Network and have been featured in �nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa INSIDE HOLLYWOOD Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on a new project for Margaret Cho and Kal Penn By Romeo San Vicente Brad Paisley Jan 24, 2009 at BOK Center With special guests! Dierks Bentley Darius Rucker Ticket Prices: $39.75 & $46.75 Tickets On Sale Now No, Really: Lesbian Vaanpire Killers Cho and Penn Unite for Sisters Cdine Dion Feb 2, 2009 at BOK Center RESCHEDULED DATE! MONDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2009 All tickets previously purchased for the original date will be honored. Refunds xvill be available at point of purchase. Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00, $49.50 ~hlsa is one of 45 cites and the only city in Oklahoma on this tour. 2q~roughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest-selling female artist of all time. Billy Joel & Elton John Q~eer-identified entertainer Margaret Cho is quite the Renaissance svoman- she’s a stand-up comic, author, actress, blogger, and activist. And now she can add "director" to her resume with Two Sisters, her feature debut. If you were expecting something racy from the potty-mouthed comedian, forget it; the movie is slated to premiere on ABC Family. Plot details are being kept under wraps, but Cho has assembled an impressive cast, including Kal Penn (from the Harold and Kumar movies, as xvell as The Namesake) and the gorgeous Tamlyn Tomita (who recently popped up on Heroes), plus Kathy Najimy (King of the Hill) and Elaine Hendrix (Tru Loved, The Parent Trap). As for the lady herself, Cho will also appear in a small role. Look for Two Sisters to make its premiere on ABC Family in 2009. Pee-wee Comes Back to the Playhouse Mar 17, 2009 at BOK Center Billy Joel & Elton John Face 2 Face Tour March 17, 2009 7:30pro Tickets On Sale Now There is no presale for this concert Ticket Prices: $179, $99, $53.50 Billy Joel and Elton John, the most successful and longest-running concert pairing in pop history! Billy and Elton open the concert with a series of duets, playing tvcin pianos and trading vocals. Each artist then performs a set with his own band. A grand finale brings the two superstars and their supporting musicians ba& together for a dosing encore. This includes some of both Billy and Elton’s greatest hits along with an unpredictable selection of rock and roll classics. w,~w.metrostarnews.com ~Pnere are a lot of unanswered questions floating around about Pee-wee’s Playhouse: Ti~e Movie, like "Is it really happening?" and "Is Johnny Depp playing Pee-wee ?" So far the only certainty is that Paul Reubens, ~vho, than!ffull); is still in charge of Peexvee Inc., is jump-starting this cash cow one more time and is working on the goal of a 2009 release date for the slow-moving production. Plot details are few and up for debate. Casting, too. (Who’ll replace the late Phil Hartanan? What happened to the guy who played the unambiguously gay Jambi ? Will S. Epatha Merkerson return as Reba the Mail Lady? Please?) But all will surely be answered eventually, possibly via ticker-tape readout from Conky the Robot’s torso. And ifJohnny Depp shows up, even as a Pee-wee doppelganger, that’s just fine, too. Now if the cameras would only hurry up and roll. Whether it’s Snakes on a Plane or ~Pne Incredibly Strange Creatures Who Stopped Living and Became Mixed-Up Zombies!!?, a movie’s title can sometimes tell you everything you need to knm,: And so it is with Lesbian Vampire Killers, a new British horror-comedy about a Welsh village whose xvomen have been cursed by the local Sapphic bloodsuckers. In aa~ attempt to improve matters, the tovcn sends txvo hapless visitors (played by James Corden and Mathew Home, the stars of the BBC sitcom Gavin & Stacey) into the woods as a sacrifice to the titular undead. The film also features Paul McGann (Withnail & I, Doctor Who) as one of the few remaining men in the village. Lesbian Vampire Killers ~vill put the bite on audiences in 2009. Next Christmas, Make the Yuletide Gay Romeo loves a good holiday dassic, and some gay filmmakers obviously feel the same way about the genre, with Make the Yuletide Gay now going into production. O.Eueer actor Adamo Ruggiero (who played out-and-eventually-proud Marco on Degrassi: ~e Next Generation) and Allison Arngrim (best known as frontier mean girl Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie) will don their gay apparel for this coraedy about what happens when a guy who’s not out to his faanily goes home for the holidays and then has to explain the sudden appearance of his boyfriend. Yuletide also features Ian Buchanan (Twin Peaks) and gay" indie-fihn vets Derek Long (Socket) and Steve Callahan (East Side Story). Look for Make the Yuletide Gay to pop up at around the same time as 2009 Advent calendars. ~etroSTAR 17 �internationa (White Shadows). A new friend who ~ve are in contact with but haven’t actually met yet, author Louise Penny in Canada. Boy George could face jail for ’imprisoning’ escort by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "T VELING AND MEETING PEOPLE" Photo: Donald Pile & Ray Williams Since we are always telling our readers to "Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone" we decided to devote this travel column to the fabulous and interesting people that we have met and dealt with, in our travels. These, ~ve will list in no particular order and they live from coast to coast. Hizabeth Taylor has always been so gracious to remember our anniversaries and holidays. We have so many to list in Palm Springs. There is Jim Doyle &Jerry Efron, Tyke, Wayne, Millie, Shirley, Jim LaMarrina, Ken & Grant, Tom & Doug at the Terrazzo, Burt XWahquist, artists Robert Sharer & Giorgio and restaurateurs, Sol and Chris ~vho we first met when they owned a B & B in San Francisco and now mvn a restaurant in Puerto Vallarta and also own a home in Pahn Springs. In Florida, the famous portrait photographer Jack Mitchell & Bob Pavlik, entertainers Auntie Marne, ToW & Gloria, the best jazz duo and Miguel Reyna, who without a doubt is the finest piano entertainer/singer that we have ever met! and the lovely and extremely talented Faye Harrod and her friend Gloria Delro); Casey Koslowki, owner; Herb Pianin, General Manager; Peter Mehas, Guest Services Manager and the entire staff at the Grand Resort and Spa in Ft. Lauderdale who operates the finest gay resort in the country, Chuck Smith and Chef Carlos at the Hi-Lit~ Care, Alan Beck & Nick and Norma. Also in Ft. Lauderdale, Al & Tom and Steve & Ells~vorth and the deceased fabulous pianist/entertainer, Houston, and then dear, dears friends, Ed Hayes &John Dunne in St. Petersburg who are truly delightful. And there are the people that we have met quite by accident who have become dear friends such as Ginny & Willy in Florida, Kala & Frank, the absolutely ~beyond Fabulous" owners of the Luna Vista B and B in Rimrock, Arizona, Michael McFall & Luis Gonzalez in Phoenix, ChefMarcdlino and his fabulous wife Sima, owners ofMarcellino Ristorante in Phoenix, Gordon & Kin at the Inn of the 410 in Flagstaff who are super special guys and Charlotte Welch and her daughter Katie in Flagstaff. In Billings, Montana we met Barbara Hill, a wonderful entertainer who has "come OUt~ In New ~%rk City, JeanClaude Baker, the exciting owner of Chez Josephine’s Restaurant, author Tom Monsell, play~vright Matthew LomPhoto: Chq~G~r!os at the Hi-Life bardo C,~e in Ft. Lauderdale (Tea at Five and Looped) and movie director/producer Rick McKay. His movie "Broadway: The Golden Age" is a terrific movie. 18 #~troSTAR no not lesbian, but "just simply came out to life" and has found true happi,ness at Photo: Actor LeslieJordan last. We just wish that everybody could find themselves like she did. In St. Louis, Michael Lance &JeffArchuleta, owners of Napoleons’ Retreat B & B where we first met the "fun couple; Smitty and Eddy in Mississippi who we will be seeing again on our way driving to Florida in January. They can’t help it because they were born straight! And then there is actor, Leslie Jordan, authors Christopher Rice and Robert Hofmann, filmmaker Craig Highberger, (Superstar In A Housedress) and filmmaker Mialyn Hanna Singer Boy George may land in jail after being convicted Dec. 5 of falsely in~prisoning male escort Audun Carlsen in London. Photo: Countess Alexis & Ray ~qlliams Also wonderful people like the Countess Mexis, the QEeen Diva who now" lives in Hollywood. She certainly epitomizes elegance and "old Hollywood", plaDvright Gene Danklin Smith and Steve Nycklemore, director of the Hollywood Museum, our good friend, Attorney Andrew Lee who now resides in Mexico, Dean Perkins (Crystal Chandelier) in New Hampshire, Rodger & J.T. in the Q.~ad cities, Chris X~alsh in San Francisco as wel! as gZalter Edgar, owner of the 24 Henry B&B and the Village House B&B in San Francisco. In Seatrle, Stephen Bennett, owner of the Gaslight Inn B and B and visiting there,ave met Tom & Doris Friedman from the Hamton’s in New York who ,are will visit When we are in New England next year. In Santa Fe, New Mexico, Ralph Bolton and Robert Frost, owners of the Inn of the Turquoise Inn. Four o~tstanding people are the late Dalee Henderson who was and is an inspiration to thousands of people and to Raymond Bilbool, former owner of the Secret Garden B&B in West Hollywood and our dear friend Stefan Hemming, owner of the Liberace Estate in Palm Springs who hosted our 35th Anniversary two years ago and to Mel Haber, owner of Melvyn’s Restaurant and the Ingleside Inn in Palm Springs. Their lives have reached many. So here we are, two guys who live in the middle of the country who are fortunate in that we get to travel a lot and meet so many people. In our travels, we really have been so fortunate to meet so many fun, interesting and exciting individuals. q-his column is warmly dedicated to all of daese people that we have met in our travels and we are looking forward to meeting many more in our future. Remember, in the words of the late Dalee Henderson, "When you wake up in the morning, it is a miracle! The rest of the day is up to you!" Truly, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you are not happy with your life it is no one’s ffmlt but your own. We want to thank our dear friend Chaz XWard, Publisher-Editor of the Metro Star for his support. Last April, George handcuffed Carlsen to a book on the wall of George’s bedroom fbr about an hour, saying he suspected Carlsen had hacked into his coruputer following a previous photo session between the two men. Car!sen claims George also attacked him with a metal chain af, er he broke free and began his escape from the apartment. Car!sen told the court the computer story was made up and that George probably was upset because Car!sen refused to have sex ~vith him the previous time they met. City apologizes for past anti-gay actions 1he City Council of Hobart, Tasmania, in Australia, apologized Dec. 10 for banning a booth promoting gay law reform from the city’s weekly Salamanca Market in 1988. In the weeks that followed, more than 100 people were arrested for refusing to vacate the site, marking Australia’s largest-ever act of gay civil disobedience. The apology, delivered by Lord Mayor Rob Valentine before more than 200 former arrestees, GLBT community members and civil leaders, including state Premier David Bartlett, coincided with the 20th anniversary of the crackdown and the 60th anniversary of the signing of the Universa! Declaration of Human Rights. "The Hobart City Cotmcil apologizes for prohibiting the gay law reform stall at Salamanca Market in 1988 and for the resulting arrests aud bans," Valentine said. "We are sorry for the pain and trauma caused to all involved, including GLBTI people; their family members, friends and supporters; and those council officers who were required to carry out the council decision. We are also sorry that the actions we took may have encouraged ill-will and discrimination towards GLBTI people in the broader community. We resolve that actions such as these will never happen again." The apology was formally accepted by Rodney Croome of the Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group, which has operated the booth continuously at the Saturday outdoor street market since 1988. "Twenty years ago, as we sat in police cells for the crime of being ourselves, we could not possibly have imagined something like this," Croome said. "People everDvhere who suffer human rights abuses should take this apology as a sign that no matter how bad things seem there is ~lways hope of a better future: Prior to the apology, a City Council-sponsored photo exhibit of the arrests was unveiled at the Salamanca Arts Centre. The council also is sponsoring a ublic art work at Salamanca Place commemorating e arrests. ~ January 2009 �and instruc- , and two ~.metrostarnews.com �OKC Civic Center Music Ha~1 January Events Jan. 5 SWEENY TODD presented by Broadway Tonight Jan. 9 -Jan. 31 ORPHANS a comedy-drama by Lyle Kessler Jan. 9-Jan. 31 Orphans Jan. 10 INTERNATIONAL FLAVORS presented by the Oldahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 22-Jan. 25 Julius Caesar Jan. 23 -Jan. 24 CHRIS BOTTI presented by Oklahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 25 HOLD THE CANNONS! ~e Story and Glory of Tchaikovsky and the 1812 Overture Jan. 27- Feb. 1 OPRAH WINFREY’S THE COLOR PURPLE Jammry At The Ford Center OKC Jan. 21 st - Jan. 25th ~;,hlking With Dinosaurs Jan. 30th -Jan. 31st ~l!ie Revolve Tour January At The P.A.C. Tulsa Jan 4 David Finckel and "Wu Hart John H. Williams Theatre 6-31 FP~EE Highway412 PAC Gallery Jan 10 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 17 An Infinite Ache Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 20-25 Oprah Winfrey Presents: Wue Color Purple Chapman Music Hall Jan 23 The Tannahill Vgeavers John H. xg/illiams Tneatre FOR Webs#e- www.kylecomics.com bitter girl Jan 24 Ralph’s World John H. Williams Theatre Jan 27 Ethel Cabaret Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 28 Ethel Concert John H. Williams Theatre Jan 30-31 OMEA All-State Music Festival Chapman Music Hall en~il: bittergifl@qsyndtcate.com 20 #4etroSTAR w~wcjoanhilty.net January 2009 �by Jack Fertig January 2009 "Toot your horn, Taurus!" Jupiter is starting his yearlong passage through Aquarius, where he inspires new visions of freedom aa~d scientific exp,,loration. This mini "age of Aquarius is a year of great luck to anyone with that Sun sign or Ascendant, but check with your astrologer to see when that lucky year actually starts! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): You’ll be amazed to see what your friends would do for you. Take the opportunity to advance yourself politically and socially, and to promote whatever goals and ideals you see improving the world. TAURUS (April 20 o May 20): Don’t be shy! Toot your horn and let everyone know what you’re worth. This is your chance to rise to any position you’re qualified for. You have a bigger career peak in 12 years, but promotions now can boost your trajectory. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): .At least give a listen to the Wackiest, most far-out ideas coming your way. Take classes that challenge everything you believe in. Ask yourself and the world all the hard questions, and be ready for whole new worlds of answers. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Could you be any more loquacious? Keep your mouth out of trouble by harnessing the brain behind it. Learn a new skill or language, or sign up for any class that offers you a different direction. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): This should be your lucky year for money, but it comes with some deceptive lures. Still, odd chances that shouldn’t work might prove very lucrative. Think ahead, but be ready to take advantage of sudden opportunities. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In a 12-year cycle, this is your lucky year. Buy a few lottery tickets now and then, travel, or take some classes. You can expand yourself educationally, economically, and/or otherwise. But watch your diet! PISCES (February 19 -March 19): The worst things that happen to you could turn out for the best, although it may take a while to see that. By next year, you’ll be very glad for the experience and insights. LEO (Ju~y 23 o August 22): This is your lucky year for relationships. That could include becoming very happy with being single. Join in political or community groups; do things that fulfill you, get you out among others, and accomplish some good. Love will come when it is ready. LIBFL~k (September 23 - October 22): If you wants kids, now’s the time! If you prefer having time for fun, explore new pleasures, hobbies, and creative directions. Try something you’ve only considered at the edges of your wildest dreams. The more "out there" and daring, the better! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Whether it involves moving or decorating, embark on the big domestic changes that will make your home what you really want it to be. Do what you can to heal family problems. You can hardly go wrong. ww~.metrostarnews.com 54 55 56 ~ 65 Across 1 Gay horror writer Perry 6 Release from bondage’ 11 Be in the hole 14 writer X~stan ~ugh 15 Lincoln Center s Walter 16 Brownb Dirt 1’ CANCER (June 21 - July 22): New sexual adventures beckon - and celibacy and monogamy may count as "adventures," if they’re new to you. You can get your sex life where it should be or wherever you want it. Are they the same? Be careful what you wish for! 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document "WWW.METROSTA~qEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" UN Ge era Assembly hears pro-gay presentation "9gockner News ~/ire It was read into the record by Argentine AmbassadorJorge Argtiello. q’he 66 countries affirmed "the principle of non-discrimination, which requires that human rights apply equally to every hmman being regardless ofsexual orientation or gender identity; and denounced "violence, harassment, discrimination, exclusion, stigmatization and prejudice ... because of sexual orientation or gender identity:’ statement also called for the decriminalization ofgay sex, 77 SLxty-sLx nations at the UN General Assembly supported a groundbrealdng statement Dec. 18 confirming that international human rights protections include sexual orientation and gender identit): It was the first time a statement condemning rights abuses against GLBT people was presented in the General Assembly. gay Americans support Woclmer News Wire A Harris Interactive poll released Dec. 3 found that Americans support a range ofpolicies and protections for gay people. The Pulse ofEquality survey, cmmnissioned by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, found that majorities of Americans favor either marriage or civil unions for gay couples, hate-crime laws to protect gay and transgender people, letting gays in the military serve openly, and allowing gays and lesbians to adopt children. ~ae telephone survey questioned 2,000 adults beBveen Nov. 13 and 17 and had a margin oferror ofplus or minus 2 percentage points. Among the specific findings: * Seventy-five percent of U.S. adults favor either marriage or domestic partnerships/civil unions for gay and lesbian couples. Only 22 percent oppose any legal recognition ofgay couples. ........... Continued See POLL Page-8 Saudi Arabia "To love is not a crime;’ said Louis-Georges Tin, president of the International Day Against Homophobia Committee, which initiated the process that led to the statement. "To decriminalize homosexuality world,vide is a batde t’or human rights.... This (statement) is a great achievement (but) I also want to remind everyone that ending the criminalization ofsame-sex love wilt be a long, hard battle:’ Leading British activist Peter Tatchell called the statement "history in the making." "The UN statement goes much further than see’king the decriminalization ofsame-sex acts;’ Tatchell said. "k €ondemns all human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity, urges countries to protect the human rights ofLGBT people and to bring to justice those who violate these rights, and calls for human rights defenders who oppose homophobic and transphobic victimization to be allowed to carry out their advocacy and humanitarian work unimpeded." ........... Continued See UN Page-14 JANUARY 1, 2009 Oklahoma’s 2009 Mr. O.G.R.A. Larry Bourne chats with the Metro Star. By Victor Gorin Photo: ~adr. OGRA 2009 Larry Bour~ze By Victor Gorin The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ( better known as OGRA) has a proud history ofnot only promoting the country lifestyle in the GLBT community, but also to the straight community as well. Letting gay cowboys knmv they can truly be themselves is a cause they promote proudly, but they do more. OGRA also has a proud history ofhelping wordBvhile charities such as Other Options, Infant Crisis Services, Young Gay Lesbian Alliance, and R.A.I.N. Also a proud tradition are the OGRA Royalty, which features a Mr. OGRA, a Ms. OGRA" Brooklyn" and Miss OGRA Anita Ryder.. The new Mr. OGRA is Larry Bourne, who’s made many cowboys happy bartending at the Finishline the past 5 years. Sharing his life and his thoughts with the Metro Star, he gives us his perspective on our community and OGRA. ................Continued See OGP,A page- 15 comes out ....Page-7 Janua~ 2009 2 $8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 D~ER E~TREES AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad width you to receive this special often Not valid with any other coupon, discount or offers. COMEORT FOOD & DALLY SPECIALS ALL PREPAI~D IN AN AMBIANCE THAT WILL TEMPT YOUR SENSES. Let us ~ro~ot~ your business in 8TAR A~VERTJSJNG ~.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 3 World Aids Day December 1, Remembering the Past-Facing Future- The Crisis is not over. By Victor Gorin Following the Mayflower UCC ~:orldAIDS Day Service, Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards places a card on a o’oss honod~ her siste,; Lavonn Newton whopassd ~tv~yfivm AIDS related illness. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 1, the 20th World Aids Day Service was held at Mayflower Congregational Church, along with countless others worldwide. Along with music, preaching and praise was not only remembrance of those xvho have passed on because of HIV, bur also hope for the future. The service concluded with the opportunity to fill out a card of a loved one lost to HIV and attach it to one ofa group of crosses in the courtyard. For Rev. Loyce Newton-Edwards the service had special meaning, as she had lost a transgen- &red sister, Lavonne Newton to AIDS related illness. As she put it, "The service was deeply moving and a wonderful way to honor the precious lives that have been lost to AIDS, and to offer comfort to their devastated families. My prayers continue for more community compassion, HIV prevention advocacy, as well as more effective HIV/AIDS related medications." Being that World AIDS Day is now in it’s 20th year, this reminds us that although advances have been made in the treatment of HIV, there is no reason for complacency. In Oklahoma there are around 4500 known cases ofpeople infected with HIV, including around 1700 in Oklahoma County alone. Currently the fastest growing rate of infection among demographic groups tragically is young people aged 15-24, disproportionately gay and male. Although medical science is far ahead ofwhere it was over 20 years ago when AIDS first became an issue, safe sex is still important. As Chuck Longacre ofRed Rock North, an HIV testing/counseling facility pointed out, "R’s still a deadly disease. The disease can still be fatal. However, often one can be helped ifthe virus is detected early, so we encourage those who are sexually active to be tested every 3 months." Testing is still available at Red Rock North, 4400 N. Lincoln Botdevard (OKC), telephone (405 424 7711. It’s a free test, and in most cases can be completed in around 20 minutes. This, coupled with educational efforts is also part ofthe reason for the day, and that is the hope for a better future. Angda Monson Runs For O dahoma City School Board Chair By Victor Gorin Photo: Angela Monson, State Representative Anastasia Pittman-District 99 (Center)Jesus Gasper Lovie Givens e3~ Danielle Gaddis by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Angela Monson, on the last day offiling, got into the race for Oklahoma City School Board chair. She challenges incumbent Kirk Humphreys, and the election will be February 10. As a Democrat, she was elected to the Oklahoma State House ofR~epresentatives in 1990-District 99, and was later elected to the Oklahoma State Senate in 1993 -District 48. She Served as a State Senator until forced out by term limits in 2005. She is currently Associate Provost with the Oklahoma University Health Sciences Center, and is a longtime ally ofnot only the GLBT commtmity but numerous progressive Causes. Kirk Humphreys was appointed as Chair by the OKC School Board when the position was vacated by CliffHudson, and is a former mayor ofOklahoma City, and an ally ofmany conservative causes. Learn more about this key race with our next issuel Metro Star Classfieds 2" square for as litde as $43 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.~ 918.1 ’Unsung Heroes’ Honored for AIDS Awareness Advocacy TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Tuesday, three Tulsa CARES employees were recognized by the AIDS Coalition ofTulsa at the 19th annual Evergreen Spirit Awards Luncheon, which recognizes the work ofcolleagues and volunteers who have gone the extra mile in the fight against AIDS in our community: Jamie Baker, care coordinator; Bruce Lewis, ofrice manager/executive assistant; and Marianne X~etherill, registered dietician were among those recognized with the Evergreen Spirit Award, which symbolizes strength, courage, commitment and resilience. "It is so important to recognize ’the unsung heroes’ in Tulsa’s effort to stop AIDS," said Janice Nicklas, director ofTnlsa Community AIDS Partnership and senior planner for the Community Service Council. ~Our colleagues still work long hours, to the point ofexhaustion, and many have vowed to stay at it until we get the epidemic under control. Sadly, the numbers ofHIV positive Americans are growing larger each year and many Tulsans are getting infected who are unaware that that they are at risk," Other Evergreen Spirit Award winners are: Gary Meadows, Community ofHOPE; Terry Klein, St. Joseph~s Residence; Chaz Gaut, Hospice of Green Country; David Odle, Oklahoma Department ofHuman Services; Barbara Saunders, community volunteer with the HIV Prevention Program for Incarcerated Women’s Program; and Stan Smalts, Oklahoma Department ofHuman Services. Two top awards were also given at the annual luncheon: the Truman Geren Memorial Award for HIV Prevention was awarded to Heather Nash, American Red Cross, and the Richard Shackelford Award for HIV Care honored Shana Cozad, Oklahoma State Department of Health. "Our award winners are constantly reminding Tulsa area.residents to take the HIV test - it is quick, free and painless," Nicldas said. "Everyone should know their HIV status." Founded in t991, Tulsa CARES, a United Way organization, delivers services to low-income people living with HIV/AIDS in northeastern Oklahoma. Services include: case management by professional social workers, access to physicians and prescription medication, counseling services, housing assistance, access to nutrition information at its on-site food pantry, as well as other forms of support. Tulsa CARES’ mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/AIDS: For more information about Tulsa CARES, visit www. tulsacares.org. Tulsa CARES Celebrates Life 34icah Hartwdl, Nutrition Services Directo~ begins digging~r the Tulsa CARES’ Celebration ofLife tree-planting co’emony. TULSA, OK (PR) __ In observance ofWorld AIDS Day, Tulsa CARES hosted a "Celebration of Life" reception for its clients. On Monday, December 1, Tulsa CARES clients, staffmembers, and friends came together to celebrate the lives 0f those still living xvith HIV/AIDS and to rmnember the lives ofthose who have died from this disease. The "Celebration ofLife" was replete with food, crafts and a tree planting ceremony that symbolizes hope for a cure. Tulsa CARES’ Celebration of Life in-kind sponsors ,sere Starbucks, Q~eenies and QEikTrip. Five Crepe Myrtle trees were donated by Up with Trees. Tulsa CARES’ mission is ddivering social services to people affected by HIWAIDS. Tulsa CARES is a United W’ay Agency. For more information, visit vcww.tulsacares.org. SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY 4 January 2009 in the spirit of Christmas, the 18th annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner Show was held at the Copa OKC, raising over $6956. Featuring entertainers (Photo) Ben Williams, Kitty Bob Aimes, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe and Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, the show was held on both December 8 and 9, with proceeds going to help the Winds House, a home & hospice for those living with HIV. PeggyJohnson and ReVerend Dl: Kathy McCallie at Church of the Open Arms Fundaraiser Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth with OGLPC Co-Chair Paul ~nompson at the ,amnual NAACP Banquet in Oklahoma City. .... Scotty Mandell, Robin D0rner and Loring Wagner strike a pose at the Diversity Bttsiness Association’s Christmas Party. Ken Sims, Jennifer Lancaster, Rebecca Hurst and Blaze Bush at the Marriage Equality Rally in downtown Oklahoma City December 20. Santa ( Pam Norton) and Mrs. Santa (Victorola) at the Church ofthe Open Arms Christmas Party Dear Editor: My name is Robaire ~atson and I’m a gay military veteran who’s been living in the San Francisco Bay Area for 18 years. I spent 6 years in the military as an openly gay, man. At age 23 I joined the Navy in search of adventure. Being a gay man, I was determined that I wasn’t going to allow the military to change my true identity. My story isn’t about the latest trend or the latest hot actor, or the latest hot "trick~ it’s about the importance of"being who you want to be"! Who needs to serve in silence ? I just want to bring a positive ground breaking story to the fbrefront. I grexv up in a primarily white small Texas town and the middle child of a Southern Baptist family. I was in the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, played high school football for a brief time. I always knew I was gay. After high school, I earned money t’or college by working in the oil fields. I studied design and fashion merchandising in Dallas at ~ades School of Design. I joined the US NaW in 1989 and served six years through two enlistments until 1995. Being openly gay in the military and not receiving threats to my life, allowed me to keep my integrity: I never felt the need to tell anyone on my command that I was gay or introduce them to my boyfriend. I always felt that people knew I was different, just by the way I conducted myself. When you sho~v others respect, they show you respect in return. I was a US Navy Ship’s barber who served aboard the USS Kansas City as it traveled the seas promoting freedom during the Gulf’~Y~ar and Operation Southern XWatch offthe coast of Somalia in 1993, traveling to Singapore, Thailand, Hong Kong, Dubai, Jebel All, UAE, British Columbia, Mexico, and the Philippines during my two enlistments. I’m black and openly gay and never encountered the slightest discrimination aboard this xvarship. I have never forced my sexual preference on anyone. I don’t ~vant someone who’s straight doing that to me. gqaen the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" law xvas passed, my shipmates told me, "\X[atso!~, we don’t have to ask and we don’t have to tell." I had a group ofgay friends on the USS Kansas City. We were the gay version of"Sex and the City" onboard the ship. XXre were known as the Fierce-Four. Our personal lives were better than any episode of Q~.eer as Folk. My friends said, because of me, they were able to be themselves without prejudice. I took several ofmy shipmates to gay bars & dance clubs, not because it was my idea, but because they asked me too! I dated an Ensign and a Lieutenant while in the military. I ,also dated a Major in the United States Army and a Marine. All the following military men who came across my, life had to keep their personal life a secret. It’s not about being an officer in the military or subjecting yourselfto starring in a skin flick to get your point across, about "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’: It’s knowing that you have a job to do and a mission to accomplish. ~bu can’t allow your sexual preference to interfere. The government needs to worry about the individuals who they allow to enter the military that haven’t been outside the county line, and refuse to accept someone who is different. Sometimes, these type ofpeople want to judge you, based on their religious beliefs. Ifyou can’t accept me for my race or sexual preference, will you be there for me in a time ofwar ? I’m very fortunate that I was able to be openly gay and live my life accordingly during active duty. I want other men and women who enter the armed forces who are gay to be able to live their lives just as openly as their straight counterparts and when they become veterans to be treated ~vith dignity and respect. I’m very proud to have done my duty serving my country: Thank you, Robaire Watson San Francisco, CA wv,~v.metrostamews.com ~ot~oSTAR 5 A NEW PLACE TO ENDUP By Victor Gorin Photo: End ~o owner Blake (Center) wit,§ the End [J)) dancers TULSA, OK__ When the first Endup club on Memorial closed a few years ago, it left a gap that Blake Alterman knew needed to be filled. While not for everybody, there are truly gay men that love to watch the hot boys dance. Not far from some ofTulsgs other gay clubs, it’s located at 5336 E. Admiral Place, a site vacant for over a year last occupied by a straight biker club called The Luclo! Shamrock. Dancers will be featured 7 nights a xveek, taking up where the old Endup left off, but with more than twice the space and ample parking. While it is planned and destined to be a swinging spot for those wanting to watch male dancers, it has more to offer as well. A section ofthe bat" ,vi!l be like a regular bar, with pool tables, cruising and conversation. Other fun endeavors are planned also with Bathroom Bingo Nights starting in January, hosted by emcee Earnest from the ladle’s bathroom, rewarding winning participants with cash and prizes. Hours are from noon tmtil 2 a.m. 7 days a week, so stop by and check it out, especially during Happy Hour with $1 offall liquor drinks from noon until 8 p.m. 7 days a week. As Blake puts it, "xg&’re just looking to have a good time with a bar that everybody’s gonna love coming to." Sounds like a great beginning. SUPPORTERS OF IT¥ LIGHT UP DOWNTOWN OKC By Victor Gorin Photo: Organizer Trey Hill with activistJames Nimmo by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Around 30 determined souls braved the icy chill December 20 in OKC’s Bricktown near the entrance of the Southwestern Bell Bricktown Ballpark, holding a candlelight vigil supporting marriage equality for all Americans, including the GLBT community. Surprising, there were no negative epithets, fisticuffs or even threats thereofmade by Bricktown partygoers, only some interested glances. The event did get media coverage by KOKH Channel 25, and participants got a free "Oklahoman for Marriage Equality T-Shirt;’ made possible thru the generosity ofJames Nimmo, his partner Don Chabot and Brittany Novotny. The event came together through the organization ofTrey Dill & Chuck Longacre, activists also largely responsible for a previous rally at the Oklahoma City Hall November 15 xvhich brought out over 200 people protesting the passage of Proposition 8, Which took away the right ofsame sex marriage in California. As Ms. Novotny praised the marchers, "As we keep getting people out for events like this, people won’t feel they have to be scared to be who they are, and straight people won’t be as scared to support us. We’ll keep doing this until all ofOklahoma says Yes, You all are part ofus and we’re all equal: January 2009 N Wockner News Service Reports: No quick action against DADT President-elect Barack Obama rnay not move quickly to repeal the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays, according to published reports. A Nov. 24 report in The AtlantaJournal-Constitution said: "Very quietly, the Obama team has let it be known that the new administration will not immediately reassess the U.S. military’s policy of’don’t ask, don’t tell: ... Raising the topic ofgays in the military was considered by many to be the second oftwo out-of-the-box decisions that ended badly for a newly elected President Bill Clinton (in 1993)’.’ The National Journal and The Washington Tunes said Obama might wait until 2010 to ’tackle the ban. However, the gay newspaper ~Tashington Blade reported Nov. 25 that an unnamed Obama spokesperson said the mainstream-media reports were premature. "An Obama transition team spokesperson, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said the decision on how to approach repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ ... would be ma& after more experts have joined the Obama administration;’ the paper said. "Tnese decisions will not be made before the full national security team is in place;’ the Blade quoted the spokesperson as saying. AJuly poll by The \Vashington Post and ABC News found that 75 percent ofAmericans said "yes" when ~isked, "Do you think that homosexuals who do publicly disclose their sexual orientation should be allowed to serve in the military or not ?" The poll found that even Republicans (64 percent) and white evangelical Christians (57 percent) supported scrapping the ban. The random survey of 1,119 Aanerican adults had a margin oferror ofplus or minus 3 percentage points. Florida’s ban on gay adoption struck down A Florida circuit court in Miami struck down a state law that barred lesbians and gay men from adopting Nov. 25. The court granted adoptions to a gay man, represented by the American Civil Liberties Union, who has been raising two foster children since 2004. "Our family just got a lot more to be thankful for this Naanksgiving;’ said Martin Gill, a North Miami resident who is raising two brothers, ages 4 and 8, with his partner. are extremely relieved that the court has recognized that it is wrong to deny our boys the legal protections and security that only" come with adoption." The court ruled that tile ban violated the equalprotection guarantees of the state constitution because it irrationally singled out gay people and their children for different treatment. The court also found that the ban denied children the right to permanency provided by federal and state law under the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997. "Reports and studies find that there are no differences in the parenting ofhomosexuals or the adjustment oftheir children;’ the court said. "TheSe conclusions have been accepted, adopted and ratified by the American psychological Association, the American Psychiatry Association, the American PediatriCAssociation, the American Academy ofPediatrics, the Child Welfare League ofAmerica and the National Association ofSocial Workers. Based on the robust nature ofthe evidence available in the field, this Court is satisfied that the issue is so far beyond dispute that it would be irrational to hold otherwise; the best~interests ofchildren are not preserved by prohibiting homosexual adoption." The Florida law barring gays and lesbians from adopting was the most expansive anti-gay parenting law in the country. It was passed in 1977 in response to an anti-gay crusade led by Miss Oklalloma 1958, and orange-juice spokeswoman Anita Bryant. Admirals, Generals urge DADT repeal A former Army secretary and 103 retired admirals and generals issued a call Nov. 17 for repeal ofthe military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays. Among the document’s signers were a former Naval Academy superintendent, retired four-star Adm. Chades Larson, and former PresidentJimmy Carter’s Army secretary, Clifford Mexander. It is believed that there are about 65,000 gay people serving in the military, not counting the 627 who were kicked out last year for failing to stay sufficiently closeted. Gay band, anti-gay preacher to participate in inauguration Wanda Sykes comes out, blasts Prop 8 The Lesbian and Gay Band Association, which is composed of 34 marching and concert bands fi’om the U.S., Canada and Australia, will march in President-elect Barack Obama’s inaugural parade Jan. 20. Although LGBA concert bands performed at inaugural celebratious t’or Bill Clinton in 1993 and 1997, this will be the first time a gay band has marched in a presidential inaugural parade. ~ihe gay contingent will include t77 musicians in the parade down Pennsylvania Avenue a~er Obama is sworn in on the steps ofthe U.S. Capitol. In making their selections, the Presidential Inaugural Committee and military musicians assessed the applications of 1,400 marching bands, drill teams and musical groups. Nae committee’s Web site lists more than 40 such participating contingents, including several high-school and university bands. Meanwhile, Obama came under fire from gay activists on Dec. 17 for selecting influential evangelical preacher Rick xWarren to deliver the invocation at the inauguration. Human Rights Caxnpaign President Joe Solmonese calAed the move ’h genuine bl0w to LGBT Americans." "We feel a deep level ofdisrespect when one ofthe architects and promoters of an anti-gay agenda is given the prominence and the pulpit ofyour historic nomination; Solmonese said. "Vge urge you to reconsider this announcement." The National Gay arid Lesbian Task Force said, "We urge President-elect Obama to withdraw his invitation to Rick Warren and instead select a faith leader who embraces fairness, equality and the ideals the president-elect himselfhas called the nation to uphold: Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation President Nell Giuliano said, "It is ... deeply troubling that the President-elect has selected .....Continued See Inauguration Page-11 ’ Comedian xYC:anda Sykes came out publicly Nov. 15 at a Las Vegas rally against California’s Proposition 8. "When California passed Prop 8 ... I felt like I was being attacked, personally attacked, our community was attacked," Sykes said. "I got married Oct. 25. You know, I don’t really talk about nay sexual orientation, I didn’t feel like I had to, I was just living my life and, not necessarily in tile closet, but I was just living my life. Everybody that knows me personally, they know I’m gay. And that’s the way people should be able to live their lives, xgre shouldn’t have to be standing out here demanding something that we automatically should have as citizens ofthis country. And I got pissed off. They pissed me off. I said, You know what, now I gotta get in your face. And that’s what we all have to do now." Sykes said, as others have, that the passage of Prop 8 did have an upside. "They pissed offthe ~vrong group ofpeople," she said. "They have galvanized a community: XWe are so together now and we all want the same tiling and we are not going to settle for less." Direct Cremation From $595 T ON MORTUARY SERVICE,~e Tradition!! Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plaa CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED The Las Vegas rally was part of a national day ofprotest against Prop 8 that saw demonstrations in 300 U.S. cities and towns, including such unlikely places as Allentown, Fargo, Fayetteville, La Crosse, Macon, Shreveport and Missoula. In California, there were protests Nov. 15 in 58 separate towns and cities. www.metrostarnews.corn N~÷troSTAR 7 Same-sex marriage bill to be introduced in New Hampshire New Hampshire State Rep. Jim Splaine plans to introduce a bill next year to legalize same-sex marriage. New Hampshire already has a comprehensive same-sex civil-union law, and nearby Connecticut and Massachusetts allow gay couples to marry~ Splaine told the Concord Monitor newspaper that the civil-union law bestows only about 90 percent of the state-level benefits and obligations of marriage, xvhich leaves same-sex couples without full equality under the law. Some 600 same-sex couples have entered into a civil union in New Hampshire. EltonJohn does not support same-sex marriage Elton John says gays are wrong to want to get married and should settle for civil unions. "We’re (David Furnish and I) not married. Let’s get that right;’ John told USA Today on Nov. 12. "We have a civil partnership. What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that mey went for marriage. Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the,vord marriage. "I don’t want to be married;’ John said. very happy with a civil partnership. If gay people want to get mar}led, Or get together, they should have a civil partnership.... You ~et the same e~ual rights.... Heterosexual peopm get married: John’s assertion about ~equal rights" is essentially true in the United Kingdom, where John and Furnish entered their civil partnership. ~Ihe UK civil-partnership law is national in scope. In the U.S., on the other hand, civil-union and domestic-parmership laws are state laws that grant equal rights only on the state level, leaving civilly united gay couples without access to-more than 1,000 federal rights, benefits and obligations ofmarriage. But, at the same time, the U.S. government also does not recognize the same-sex marriages that have taken place in California, Connecticut, Massachusetts or abroad. However, it would require less ofan overhaul of federal policy to start recognizing married same-sex couples than it would to create some kind ofnational recognition of states’ hodgepodge ofcivilunion and domestic-partnership laws, some of which grant all state-level rights of marriage and others ofwhich do not. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama has said repeatedly that he supports extending federal recognition to same-sex unions, though he does not favor opening marriage itseltto samesex couples, citing religious objections. Obama nonetheless opposed California’s Proposition 8, in which voters amended the state constitution on Nov. 4 to re-ban same-sex marriage. ha a nutshell, Obama does not think gay couples should have access to marriage but also does not think any laws should be passed to prevent gay couples from accessing marriage. * U.S. adults are evenly divided on xvhether gay couples should have access to marriage -- 47 percent say yes and 49 percent say no. * Sixty-four percent think gays in the military should not have to stay closeted, as required by the =don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. * Sixty-three percent support expanding hate-crime la~vs to cover gay and transgender people. At present, 31 states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 12 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Fifty-one percent favor protecting gay and transgender people under existing laws that ban discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations. Twenty states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 13 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Sixty-nine percent oppose bans on gay adoption. =We observed a positive relationship between knowing a gay or transgender person and one’s attitudes toward them and the policy issues that affect their lives," said Laura Light, Harris Interactive’s vice president ofpublic-relations research. "Based on other surveys we have conducted on attitudes toward LGBT people and issues, the results ofthis survey suggest that public sentiment in the U.S. is trending toward greater acceptanF~ ofgay- and transgender-related policy issues:’ The survey found that people under 65, and especially those 18-34, are more gay-friendly than people over 65. Women are generally more supportive than men. Latinos are more supportive than whites and blacks when it comes to gays in the military. Blacks are more supportive than whites and Latinos on hate-crime laws. And Catholics and "mainline" Christians (Protestant, Mormon or %ther Christian") are more supportive than "born-again" Protestants, Mormons or other Christians. Nineteen percent ofthose questioned said their feelings toward gay people have become more favorable over the past five years. They attributed the change to such things as knmving someone who is gay, seeing gay people on TV and in movies, passage ofgay-friendly laws, news coverage ofgay issues, and learning of the gay-friendly positions offriends, family members and religious leaders. "Knowing someone who is gay or lesbian" ,vas the most significant factor, cited by 79 percent ofthose whose feelings had evolved. Seventy-three percent ofthose qu{stioned know or work with a gay or transgender person and halfof that 73 percent know or work with five or more gay or traaasgender people, the survey found. Full poll results: tinyurl.com/6nojlq. Iowa Supreme Court hears marriage case The Iowa Supreme Court heard oral arguments Dec. 9 in Lan~bda Legal’s case on behalfof same-sex couples who want to marry. "XTge put our best case forward, and hope that the court breathes life into the Iowa Constitution’s promise of equality," said Senior Staff Attorney Camilla Taylor. The couples’ case was argued by former Iowa Solicitor General Dennis Johnson of Dorsey & Whimey. "The government has no business standing in the way ofa loving same-sex couple who wants to take responsibility for each other and their fancily," Johnson said. Lambda filed suit in Polk County District Court in 2005 on behalfofsix same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses, arguing that the denials violated the liberty and equality guarantees in the Iowa Constitution. In 2007, the court agreed that banning same-sex couples from marrying was unc0nstitutional, and the county recorder and registrar appealed to the state Supreme Court. One gay couple -- Sean and Tim McQ,u)llan ofAmes -- got married before Judge Robert Hanson quickly suspended his ruling when it was appealed. 8 ~÷~roSTAR January 2009 DVD" ’re Angels" with the release oftheir album. Jason and &Marco have recently taken a&antage of C~l~ornlas United Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. l~laplewood Tulsa, OK 918-838-1715 w.mcctuisa.org Troy Don Wheat34ar 19, 1966 - Dec 6, 2008 TULSA, OK (OkEq) __ Troy Wheat, son of Betty and Paul Wheat was born on March 19, 1966 in Alva, Oklahoma. He died on the 6th of December, at his home in Tulsa, at the age of42 years, 8 months and 18 days. Troy is survived by his parents Paul and Betty; a sister and her husband, Paula and Bill Miller ofWoodward; his significant other, Christopher Roberts ofTulsa; two nieces and their spouses, Shannon and Craig Chestnut and thei} children Jace and Jayden ofMustang, Karrie and Kendel Kay and their children Sloan, Reece, Braton and Kinley ofAshland, Kansas; a number ofother relatives and many friends. He graduated from Alva High School in 1984. After moving to Tulsa, Troy attended and graduated cosmetology school in Jenks. He became a successful stylist in Tulsa. He was very involved in the Miss Cinderella, Miss Oklahoma and Miss America Pageants. One of the highlights ofhis life was when his client won Miss America in 2006. A family and friends visitation reception was held Thursday December 1 lth at Ninde Brookside Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Tul’sa, Oklahoma 74105. Obituary ofMary Lorene Marlett, mother ofDemo Candidate Ron Marlett Ron Marlett was the Democratic candidate runmng against Mrs. Kern in HD 84. The following is from Ron: My mother. Mary Lorene Marlett, passed from this world December 17. She has suffered from Alzeheimers Disease the past two years, From my earliest years. I can remember her involvement in the Canadian County Democratic Party. She described herself as a Yellow Dog Democrat, someone who would vote for a yellow dog before voting for a Republican. However. she loved her Republican friends. In a community where racial epithets were socially acceptable, she taught that those words wouldn’t be tolerated in our household. When I hear politicians talk of"family values", I wonder if they were taught that racism wasn’t a family value. I attended precinct meetings with her and accompanied her to a state convention. She raised my brother and me with values of equality, fairness and the value ofhard work. When I was younger she saw that I got to Little League baseball games when my dad was tied up responding to an electric outage in the rural electric cooperative, xXihen I left home, she became involved in my brother’s scouting as was extremely proud ofhis attaining his Eagle Scout Award. When my father became disabled, she ;,cent to work at XXrestern Hectric, later AT&T. She continued there until being offered an early retirement. She continued to live in Union City after my father’s death in 1987. She began having health problems that probably signalled the onset ofAlzheirmers, but I was too close to the situation to recognize it. About two years ago a doctor diagnosed it and told me she had two years left. She celebrated her 75th birthday and received letters from Oklahoma politicians praising her for her ~vork for the party. Her long time Democratic friend, Oberta Bergdall attended that party. She was particularly proud of having attended President Carter’s inaugural ball. Toward the end ofher life, no one in the Democratic Party could really remember her. When I attended the C:anadian County Democratic Bean Supper, I felt I represented her. She died surrounded by people who loved her and was very peaceful mad free ofpain. I am struck by the reliefI feel that she no longer suffers and the realization that I will not see her again. She was a blessing to those she cared for and to the Democratic Party she loved. Ron Marlett www.metrostarnews.com ~Oet~oSTAR 9 Close, but no cigar. ByJan~es Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ q-he recent release of the biopic "Milk" about the life and death ofSan Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk revivified interest in Milk’s most famous phrases such as "Come out, come out, wherever you are;’ and "Don’t blend in:’ Another openly gay activist to have his speeches and writings dusted offis Bayard Rustin, an openly gay African-American who was a colleague ofDr. M.L. King and who was given behind- the-scenes credit for organizing the March on Washington in August, 1963 where Dr... King made his iconic and forward lookAng"I Have a Dream" speech. Mr. Rustin was forced to take a back-seat due to fears that his orientation and arrest record would undoubtedly be used against the civil tights movement. From the book Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin by Bayard Rustin (Cleis Press, Carbado and Weise, editors) we get the succinct gay agenda, if there ever was one, that I think most ofus gay/lesbian activists can agree on "the job ofthe gay comnaunity is not to deal with extremists who would castrate us or put us on an island and drop an Hbomb on us." The fact ofthe matter is that there is a small percentage of people in America who understand the true nature of the homosexual cornmunity. There is another small percentage who will never understand us. Our job is not to get those people who dislike us to love us. Nor was our aim in the civil rights movement to get prejudiced white people to love us. Our aim was to try to create the Idnd ofAmerica, legislatively, morally, and psychologically, such that even though some whites continued to hate us, they could not openly manifest that hate. That’s our job today: to control the extent to which people can publicly manifest anti-gay sentiment." (http://tiwurl.com/5w77yr) What we should continue to be doing is proving our gay/lesbian equality ofcitizenship to the broad range of the valuable demographic ~mown as the undecided, who politicians always court. For our purposes it’s those people who all have gay and lesbian family members or friends, xvho wouldn’t think ofhurting them but somehow aren’t connecting the dots that ifsome of us gays and lesbians are getting hurt, all ofus get hurt. Dr. King said it in a more engraved style: "It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important." Laws don’t prevent crime or change the minds of the incorrigible, but laws do provide a way to legally make it uncomfortable for prejudice and violence to be acted out against minorities. ~is is one reason our enemies are very anxious that hate crimes bills that include language for the protection ofsexual orientation and gender presentation are not passed either at the Federal or state level. Our opponents claim such laws would limit speech and hamper the free exercise of religion. But as Rep Barhey Dank (Mass.) said earlier in December, 2008 at a Victory Fund luncheon, these laws are directed at actions ofviolence not at xvords; expression is not the target ofhate crimes laws, but physica! behavior is. (http://tinyurl.com/5963au) Yes, we truly live in the age ofOrwell xvhere words can be wolves in sheep’s clothing. We read ofMormon and Catholic spokespeople offended by the peaceful protests ofgay/lesbian supporters in reaction to losing the November Prop. 8 vote in California. It seems these t~vo denominations that gave much of the money fueling the thei~ ofa civil right in California were surprised by the bacHash to the imposition of their religious dogma on the non-member citizens of California ( http:/itinyurl.com/6qp2xz ), (http://tinyurl.com/6215gd). To me, it looks as ifthe First Amendment establishment clause is being ignored because there are some denominations that ~vill perform same-gender marriages yet their religious freedom is being abridged by the passage ofProp 8. And just why does prejudice and discrimination seem to originate with bible-trumpeting homo-haters ? Could it be because they already live in a ddusional world of superstition and make-believe, offairy stories about sky-based good things, and dark-and-dirty ground-based bad things ? Could it be because they still live in the world ofBronze Age nomads ~vho had no science and no concept ofa world beyond the horizon they could walk toward in a day? The current (I hesitate to call them "modern day") generation offtmdies lives in a world of technology and communication that would seem like godly magic to their Abrahamic ancestors. They use this science to disperse their simplistic balderdash that’s rooted in desert-wandering myths and witch-doctoring and think nothing ofthe plain evidence and contradictions that shows them to be deeply deluded and ignorant. "Ihe last hundred years have passed them by and disproved the ancient runes and cabals they so desperately need to explain their conflicting childhood dreams ofomnipotent, omniscient super heroes rescuing them from death and oblivion. Personally I don’t care what they do as consenting adults in the privacy of their religious establishments or even on the public street corner. However, no group has the legal prover to impose religious dogma in the law books ofany state or Federa! code. There continues to be a principle ofseparation ofchurch and state, equality and liberty for all, that is paramount to the continuation of this country as it was founded. African-Americans, Native Americans, and women have gained their civil equality in spite of the restrictions originally written in the Constitution and later remedied by Amendments. So far, 30 states have amendments or laws forbidding same-gender marriage in addition to the alleged "Defense ofMarriage Act" (DOMA). Two states have understood the rights ofgays and lesbians to have civil marriage, Massachusetts and Connecticut, with a handful ofstates having various marriage-like rights available but not the real thing. Close, but no cigar! Just as Plessy ~: Ferguson was overturned by Brown v. Board ofEducation ending educational segregation; just as Bowers v. Hardwick was overturned by Lawrence and Garner v. Texas removing sodomy laws from enforcement, just as Colorado’s Amendment 2 was overturned with Romer v. Evans, we can look forward to our day in a courtroom as well as the court of public opinion. Although Frederick Douglass was disappointed by the 1857 Dredd Scott decision that refused full citizenship to free blacks as well as slaves, he found a reason to look forward, saying, "My hopes were never brighter than now." Slavery was brought to forefront ofthe country and the unsavory ownership ofpeople could no longer be ignored. Though we gay citizens are not owued physically, our social and economic prospects are curtailed. Thanks to our enemies, our own equality prospects been brought to the forefront and our equality will be won. Straights and Homophobes: lae Words hat Bind Us. By Gerald Libonati Language shapes our self-image and some of the words we use are misleading, inadequate or just plain wrong. Take the word straig!at, for instance. "We use it to describe heteros; men and women who are not gay or lesbian. And every time we use the term we indirectly insult ourselves. What does the word mean in our society? Straight means proper, upstanding, law-abiding and decent. Are ~oruugbs,eiynogu’srterasitgrahitgwhti.thIfmyoeu, ’rreefegrosotdo,hyoonuetsrta)v:eWl thheenstyroaiug’rhet-oafnfdnarrow. ’Damn straight’ means emphatically right, unequiv0- cally correct. So ifheteros are straight what does that make us - crooked, dishonest, drugged and apparently indecent ? We need to think ofourselves in a way that reflects the goodness and quality that exists within our ranks, g[e are terrific people and we may as well acknowledge that in our language. Another word that completely escaped our gaydar is the term homophobia. We use it to define prejudice against gay and lesbian people. But it just doesn’t seem to be up to the job. It’s weak and ambiguous. When we talk about someone who dislikes others based on their skin color we call them racist. Much stronger word. Phobic people, in general, tend to be fearful but polite. People who openly disapprove ofgay/lesbian folks are neither. Are we too nice when ~ve describe our critics in such an affable way? Homophobic! Doesn’t sound so bad. Surely, the terms they have for us are more forthright. Who thought of calling hatred a phobia, anyway? Ac,t,t}ally, it was psychologist George Weinberg in his 1972book Society and the Healthy Honaosexual:’ He was tapping into the theory that violence toward gay people came about because of a fear of homosexuality, especially by those repressing their own same-sex urges. But what about all the other gay bashers who aren’t reacting to their inner homo ? The rest ofthe world has already learned that words define us to others and molds our selfqmage. That’swhy secretaries are executive assistants and garbage men are sanitation engineers. GeraM Libonati is the author afthe neu, novel Pete*" [’Vo~7 the storr af:a fiam°uv.~Ta ro& star who ~oes incognito mfind love. He ~s an award-winningjournalist in &uth £1orig, workingfir the Sun-SentineL He has also wri~enJbr ~e .~iiami He,ald, ~e dd~ocam andfi’egznce~jbrgaT/tesbian newspapers around t,~e munW. 10 ~,~÷t~oSTAR January 2009 ROBERT MATSON’S LATEST EPIC "A GATHERING" AND HIS NEW NTURES UPCOMING By Victor Gorin Photo: RobertMatson by Victor Go,qn OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Lyric’s Plaza Theater hosted a unique play with A Gathering, but Robert is a playwright where one can count on non-convention. After all he brought us Tails of the Closet and Drama Q~eens, and even a masculine answer to the Vagina Monologues entitled Beneath the Zipper, which celebrated the penis. But who ~v0~ld have expdcted agay thriller on stage, with seat edging suspense that would have awed Agatha Christie herself? But there it was, entitled A Gathering, where 9 gay men are trapped on an isolated island, cut offffom the outside world, and there is a killer or killers among them. With a scenario almost identical to Agatha Christie’s novel, "And then there were None," it starts offfun and campy with the wisecracking antics ofToW "Toneisha" Hayes ( portrayed by Chris Castleberry) who was supposed to be drag entertainment but instead was the first to go. Then there was the hard drinking Dr. James Armstrong ( portrayed by Timothy Stewart), a self proclaimed bisexual who was enamored with Toneisha ~vhile she lasted. The play ends in surprise as character Neil Lawrence ( portrayed by Jerome Stevenson) turns out to be the killer, and concludes with his suicide and that of the last left one left alive, the handsome resort employee Courmey Claythorne( portrayed by Scott Hynes), who xvas left xvith the bitter choice ofself destruction or being accused of murdering all the others when the authorities eventually arrived. What inspired this wild tale ? W’ell, besides Agatha Christie, Mr. Matson added that "I love murder mysteries. I wanted to give Agatha’s story a different twist. This xvould be a great piece to work with, and how to make it xvork with 9 gay men. I worked on it for about 2 years." Although he has done past work with maW theater companies includingJewel Box, CityRep, Guthrie’s Pollard Theater & Carpenter Square, he is currently the Academy Administrator for Lyric Academy, which involves registration for acting classes taught there and he teaches adult acting classes as well. As for the fnture, he is working on" a couple things, including a loud gay comedy with Oklahoma ties to it." But that’s all he’ll say right now, so we can all be breathless with anticipation. someone whose defamatory and damaging anti-gay statements and vie~vs ... clearly divide rather than unite Americans." Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., called Obama’s move very disappointing. ~Religious leaders obviously have every right to speak out in opposition to anti-discrimination measures, even in the degrading terms that Rev. Warren has used with regard to same-sex marriage;’ Frank said. "But that does not confer upon them the right to a place ofhonor in the inauguration ceremony of a president whose stated commitment to LGBT rights won him the strong support ofthe great majority ofthose who support that cause:’ GeoffKors, executive director of Equality California, said he is so annoyed by Warren’s participation that he will boycott the inauguration. "I have decided to decline the invitation to attend the inauguration as I cannot be part ofa celebration that highlights and gives voice to someone who advocated repealing rights from me and millions ofother Californians;’ Kors said. "Rick Warren ... actively works to dMde Americans based on who we are and has been an ardent supporter of efforts to ostracize LGBT Americans:’ Speaking in support of California’s Proposition 8 before the November election, Warren said, "We should not let 2 percent of the population change a definition ofmarriage that has been supported by every single culture and every single religion for 5,000 years. In reality, many cultures over the past 5,000 years have embraced polygamy. More recently, Warren told Beliefnet.com that same-sex marriage is equivalent to "having a broth& anff Sist& b~ together ... an 01der ~ " and calling that a marriage... one gw having multiple wives and calling that marriage." (Warren: ’Tin opposed to the redefinition ofa 5,000-year definition ofmarriage. I’m opposed to having a brother and sister be together and call that marriage. I’m opposed to an older gny marrying a child and calling that a marriage. I’m opposed to one guy having multiple wives and calling that marriage:’ Interviewer: "You think those are equivalent to gays getting married?" Warren: "Oh, I do:’) Brooklyn man dies after probable ha e attack A Brooklyn man who was attacked with a baseball bat Dec. 7 as he walked arm in arm with his brother died on Dec. 12. Josd Sucuzhafia); a 31-year-old Ecuadorean immigrant, and his brother were walking together in Brooklyn’s Bushwick neighborhood after a night out when three black men shouting nationa anti-gay and anti-Latino slurs jumped from an SUV and broke a beer bottle over Sucuzhafiay’s head, beat him with a bat and kicked him. The brother, Romel, escaped down the street, then returned to the scene and scared offthe attackers by telling them he’d phoned police on his cell phone. Police are investigating the killing as a hate crime and are offering a $27,000 award for information leading to apprehension of the assailants. On Dec. 13, hundreds ofprotesters marched from a Bushwick park to the site of the attack. Hundreds ofprotesters marched in Brooklyn Dec. 13 after an Ecuadorean man who was walkinga~n in arm with h# brother was attacked with a baseball bat and later died. 2he assailants shouted ann’-gay slurs. Photo byJoeJervis. www.metrostarnews.com [~Ie~°oSTAR 11 @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @ ~e Second Chance Animal Sanctuary @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City CLUB 209 HOSTS PHOTOGPHERVINCENT SCOTT Ok ahomans for Equality art gallery opens Josh New photo e libit By Judy Gabbard Arches by Photographer Hncent Scott Photography Art byJosh New TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery starts a new year ofit’s monthly First Thursday meetthe- artist receptions featuring photographs from native Tulsa resident Josh New. The reception will be held Thursday, January 1st, 2009, from 6-9pm. Josh New, a teacher ofJapanese at Booker T Washington High School, is currently a graduate student at the University of Tulsa in photography. TULSA, OK__ Dennis Olson, owner ofDoArt Worlds, sponsored the opening of "Pioneering Seas6n" featuring the photography ofVincent Scott at Club 209, Tulsds Arts Bar in the historical Brady District. Club 209 features various artists throughout the year. The Club is also a great place to enjoy local entertainment on weekends, such as Vallerie Star Light Rock + Acoustic, Rebecca Ungerma~i with the Frank Brown Trio and the Three Penny Upright, A Little Bluegrass. Visit Club 209 on the web at www.club209tulsa.com for monthly updates on art exhibits and entdrtainment. Vincent Scott is a world traveled photographer whose eye for the beauty in our world, has thrilled many onlookers coast to coast. Dennis Olson, an artist in his own right, chose to sponsor these photographs because ofMr. Scott’s photographic eye and production techniques. To contact Dennis Olson emaih do@ doart~vorld.org. The opening night was an exciting experience of fine art, flowing wine and the admiration’ ofhundreds ofguest. After graduating from Oklahoma State, Mr. New worked in Japan for three years, where he developed a love oftravel and the exotic. Since then he has traveled to many countries and discovered a talent in photography. That love and talent has brought Inm to TU to ~rther hone his s-kill aa~d allow hu~ the freedom to experiment aa~d take his photographs further than just glorified vacation photos. "My photographs have been, more than anything, my attempt to control and catalog the world around me’; states New. "I’m moving in a direction where I am starting to manipulate my images to illuminate my thoughts and ideas, but they primarily remain shots ofthe patterns and vibrant colors I see around me. This exhibit is a sampling ofboth photos I have taken on my journeys and the first steps in my attempt to, essentially, photograph my thoughts, which also seem to be constructed in colors and patterns" The exhibit will remain up through the month ofJanuary, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. Community Fellowship "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfriendghips becomefamily" ors ip Experience Sund s 5:30 p.m. Pastor Neill @urgin Pasto ressionsOKC, corn (~05) 761-1878 "~w.ExpressionsOKC.com Meeting at Lansbrook ~¢ent Center 6009 NWE~pressway Oklahoma Cio~, OK Calif. Attorney General Brown: Prop 8 is invalid by Rex g¢ockne~ In a stunninglegal move, California Attorney General Jerry Brown formally urged the California Supreme Court to invalidate Proposition 8 on Dec. 19 because, in re-banning sanaesex couples from marrying, the voter-approved constitutional amendment deprived people of an aspect ofliberty that the Supreme Court previously had concluded is guaranteed by the California Constitution. Ordinarily, it is the attorney geqeral’s job to defend the state’s laws, not attack them. "Proposition 8 must be invalidated because the amendment process cannot be used to extinguish fundamental constitutional rights without compelling justification;’ Brown said in a statement. "There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundaanental rights;’ he added in an interview xvith the San Jose Mercury News. "Ifevery fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty:’ Rejecting recent arguments submitted to the state Supreme Court by gay-rights lawyers, Brown concluded that existing case-law precedents ofthe court do not invalidate Proposition 8 either as an improper revision of the state constitution or as a violation ofthe separation-of-provers doctrine. But that does not resolve the matter; he said. In its May 15 decision legalizing same-sex marriage, the state Supreme Court "held that article I, section 1 ofthe California Constitution provides a right to marry that cannot be denied to same-sex couples;’ Brown’s office said. "In order to invalidate such a fundamental right, the court must determine that there is a compelling justification to do so. But in (its decision), the court found that no such compelling justification exists. Accordingly, Proposition 8 must be stricken." "~ae use ofthe (ballot) initiative power to take avcay a legal right deemed by this Court to be fundamental and from a group defined by a suspect classification is a matter ofgrave concern;’ Brown said in his brief to the court. "Proposition 8 should be invalidated as violating the inalienable right ofliberty found in article I, section 1 ofour Constitution." In its May decision, the state Supreme Court struck dmwa the state’s opposite-sex definition ofmarriage as unconstitutional, citing a fundamental right to marry under the state constitution and the constitution’s guarantee ofequal protection under the lav,r, The court further determined -- in a move that legal analysts said was unprecedented for a supreme court -- that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiny by courts, which made it dramatically harder for any level ofgovernment in California to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. This was accomplished by the court’s declaring sexual orientation to be, like race and religion, a so-called "suspect classification" -- a categorization that forces any government in California that treats GLB people differently in any way to prove it has a specific compelling interest, rather than a mere rational basis, for doing so. While Prop 8 wiped out the part of the court’s decision that legalized same-sex marriage, it did not alter the more ground- ,b,reaking part of the ruling that found sexual orientatiT~n to be a suspect classification. Gay rights lawyers said back in May that the suspect-classification determination would prove to be even more ofa game-changer for California gays in the long run than xvas the decision to legalize same-sex marriage. IfBrown’s argument passes muster with the state Supreme Court, that prediction will have been borne out. Equality California Executive Director GeoffKors praised Brown’s court brief and its novel argument. "He just demonstrated the ldnd ofleadership that isn’t motivated bypolitical expediency but by what is right," said the head of the state’s leading gay lobby group. HIV diagnoses among European gay men nearly double since 2000 HIV diagnoses among men who have sex with men (MSM) increased 86 percent in 23 European countries between 2000 and 2006 -- from 3,003 cases to 5,571 cases -- according tO a report in the journal Sexually Transmitted Infections. Researchers from the EuroHIV program analyzed data from 24 of the 27 member nations of the European Union along with data from Iceland, Norway and Switzerland, and compared those figures with similar year-2000 data gathered from 23 nations. There were 7,693 ne,v HIV cases reported overall among MSM in 2006, ofwhich 2,597 occurred in the United Kingdom. Other nations with high diagnosis rates included the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Portugal and Switzerland. Much lower rates ofMSM diagnoses were found in Hungary, Lithuania and Slovenia, even though Hungary saw a 118 percent increase over 2000 and Slovenia saw a 257 percent increase. Four nations saw a decline in new HIV diagnoses among MSM over the six-year period: Cyprus, Iceland, Lithuania and Luxembourg (though Luxembourg’s rate is still high). The researchers said stepped-up HIV testing may have affected the statistics to some degree, meaning an increase in diagnoses may not correlate precisely ~vith an increase in actual infections. They also suggested that infections may be increasing as HIV-positive men who have sex with men live longer and remain sexually active and presumably able to pass on the virus. Other findings included: * In 20 countries, the percentage ofMSM who had full-blown AIDS at the time oftheir HIV diagnosis decreased from 25 percent in 2000 to t0 percent in 2006. * In 30 countries, full-blown AIDS diagnoses decreased from 2,422 in 2000 to 1,445 in 2006. * In those same countries, HIV-related deaths decreased 57 percent over the period, from 876 in 2000 to 373 in 2006. "’qge have reported a recent increase in the number ofHIV diagnoses among MSM in nearly all (European) countries, and in some countries this probably" represents a true increase in incidence;’ the researchers said. "This, combined with the high prevalence ofHIV reported in many gay community settings, the high prevalence ofHIV among MSM diagnosed with STI (sexually transmitted infection) and the high sexual mobility of this population, highlight the need for a Europewide HIV prevention strategy:’ Wockner News Service Sweden to strike six sexual diagnoses from list Sweden’s National Board ofHealth and Welfare will strike six sexual diagnoses from the nation’s official list ofmedical diagnoses onJan. 1, Stocldaolm’s ~ae Local newspaper reported. The agency will remove transvestism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sadomasochism, gender-identity disorder in youth and multiple disorders ofsexual preferences from the list. "W’e don’t want to contribute to certain sexual behaviors being thought ofas diseases," said board director Lars-Erik Holm. "These diagnoses are rooted in a time when everything other th~ the heterosexual missionary position was seen as sexual perversions." Homosexuality was removed from the list 30 years ago. Australian Parliament gives gay couples equal rights Australia’s Senate and House of Representatives passed legislation in late November that changes some 100 laws to give gay couples equal rights. The measure now goes to the Governor-General for formal approval. The changes, introduced by the federal government, extend spousal rights to same-sex de facto couples in areas such as health care, ’ taxation, pensions, parenting, public benefits, workplace benefits, workers’ compensation, veterans’ affairs, elder care and educational assistance. "At long last we have removed discrimination against same-sex couples from commonwealth law;’ said Attorney-General Robert McClelland. Gay campaigners cheered the.move but said gay couples will not have complete equality until they can get married. Chinese gay HIV cases increase The percentage ofgay men in China ~vho are HIV-positive increased from 0.4 percent in 2005 to 4.9 percent this year, the Ministry of Health said Nov. 28. But straight sex remains the predominant way HIV is transmitted in China, accounting for 40 percent ofnew infections, compared with 28 percent from IV drug use and 5 percent from gay sex. The gay statistics were based on data collected from 18,000 gay men in more than 60 cities. China has recorded a total of260,000 HIV cases, 77,000 AIDS cases and 34,000 AIDSrelated deaths. Burundi’s parliament votes to ban gay sex The parliament of the Central African nation ofBurundi voted to specifically criminalize gay sex Nov. 22 as part ofa package ofmore than 600 legal changes that included abolition ofthe death penalty, news reports said. According to Amnesty International, male, male sex previously was banned and,ptmished under laxvs governing "immoral acts. The vote on the changes was 90 to 0 with 10 abstentions. The measure now moves to the Senate, then to President Pierre Nkurunziza. Neither is expected to oppose it. The small, landlocked nation has a population of 8.7 million, a life expectancy ofless than 52 years, and a per capita gross domestic product at purchasing-power parity of $300. ~l-he comparable figure for the U.S. is $45,800. Norway’s is $ 53,300, Mexico’s is $12,400 and Vietnam’s is $2,600. 80% ofSouth A ricans thimk gay sex is wrong Despite a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation and its being one of only six nations where same-sex couples can marry, South Africa remains deeply homophobic, a new survey has found. The Human Sciences Research Council’s annual South African Social Attitudes Survey, released Nov. 24, found that 80 percent of respondents think gay sex is wrong. Whites, city dwellers and highly educated people polled less anti-gay than blacks, "coloureds" (mixed-race people), people with less education and those living in rural areas, the Sunday Times reported. Britain to count gay populafion Britain’s Office for National Statistics is going to count the gay population. Starting in January, a sexual-orientation question will be included in several of the office’s routine surveys, leading to an eventual estimate of the size of the nation’s gay community. Respondents will choose from heterosexual/ straight, gay/lesbian, bisexual or "other" -- or can opt not to answer. Officials say the results will be useful for gauging levels of discrimination and unequal treatment and addressing those problems. The signatories overcame strong opposition from a group ofgovernments that routinely try to block UN attention to issues ofsexual orientation and gender identity. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, that affirmed the "principles of non-discrimination and equality," but said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights ofcertain persons" because "the notion oforientation spans a wide range of persona] choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization ofmany deplorable acts: ~ae countries that signed the pro-gay statement are Mbania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finland, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Italy, Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tomd and Prlncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic ofMacedonia, Timor-Leste, unite~Kingd0m, Uruguay ~Venezueta~ ..... The United States refused to sign the statement, saying its broad language could reach into areas that fall outside of federal jurisdiction, such as the right of each U.S. state to define marriage. qt is altogether shameful that on this 60th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Bush administration should take one final swipe at the universal application ofhuman rights for all;’ said Julie Dorfof the Council for Global Equality. "The shoe incident in Iraq last week painfully shows us how low this country has sunk in the world’s view." Gays march in Hong Kong £or first time Hong Kong saw its first gay pride parade Dec. 13. About 1,000 people marched, including many who came from Taiwan and mainland China. ~he two-mile procession traversed Hennessy Road in the city center. Attendance may have been positively, influenced by news reports before the parade, when Hong Kong’s biggest bus company refused to rent a double-decker bus to pride organizers. 14 Janua~ 2009 Larry: I see it as being a representative, not just for OGRA or the gay community but also the State of Oklahoma. We go to other states and other rodeos and meet a lot ofpeople. Also important is our fund-raising, which is one ofthe reasons I went for this title. Victor: This fund-raising not only helps the charities themselves, but I’m sure you also see it as promoting the positive image ofthe GLBT people in the cowboy lifestyle. Larry: It think it has, and I think a lot ofyoung people have gotten interested in it because ofthe fund-raising, shows and related activity. Also people see you don’t have to be a full fledged cmvboy, just interested in die country lifestyle and having fun. Victor: Although the world is changing, OGRA still defies sonle stereotypica! beliefs.. Photo by Chaz competition is asgreatfor the Cowgirls and Cowboys at OGR~4’~; Great PLains Rodeo as an), other rodeo. Larry: Strangely enough, there are still people we encounter who are shod~ed that there are gay cowboys, that they even exist. They have interesting questions, such as "Are the rodeos really rodeos ? .... Do you really ride horses ?" Victor: Have you ever really roped a cow ? Larry: Yes I have, nay parents have owned ranches and I have roped cows, branded cattle, pulled calves, done all diat. Victor: You grew up in a small town? Larry: Ha}wcorth, a small town not far from Idabel. g[e lived on a f~trm there, went to school, did our chores, slopped the hogs, fed the chickens, took care ofthe horses. We even rode our horses to school when the buses couldn’t get through. Victor: So you had a typical growing up there ? Larry: Yes, but my family moved around a lot, and I experienced city life as well. I got involved ~vitll the gay community after I graduated from O!dahonia Christian University ofEdmond witli a degree of Marketing & Business. After moving back to IdabeI, my first gay bar experience was the Roundup in Dallas. I soon began working with HIV organizations including the Mariah Foundation, Carepoint, and with the OHahoma State Health Department. Victor: But the shining star ofOGRA is the Great Plains Rodeo, which has been held at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds for many years as a Memorial Day weekend celebration. Larry: More and more people are coming to that and really having fun. Some people are surprised that our rodeos are truly the same "kind ofrodeos, although we do feature goat dressing and sometimes other campy events thrown in. Victor: What impact do you think t~he movie Brokeback Mountain had on the gay community, society in general, and in particular gay cowboys ? Larry: Really it brought the gay community into the mainstream, that there was more to the gay community than an urbaaa community ofdrag queens & flamboyant individuals, to see them as regular people with difficulties we all face in real life. It made the gay cowboys feel more accepted, to let them kalow they can be themselves. It also educated the urban gay community of the problems rural gays face. Victor: ~¢¢’here do you see die future ofOGRA? Larry: When OGRA began we were teaming up witl~ other states, and now we’re doing one the largest rodeos on our own. Ofcourse we’d like to see more people volunteer, but to put tllis on with the resources we have shows a true hardworking spirit of Oklahomans. Victor: How long have you been in Oklahoma City ? Larry: Seven years, and I have felt good seeing the increased interest in OGRA and the friends I have made there. I have been glad to hear from out oftowners how impressed they are that the various parts ofthe gay communit); the disco crowd, drag queens, the cowboys, the lesbians, get along so well together compared to other places. Victor: So how do people learu more about OGRA? Larry: ~lere~ our website ~a-,wv.ogra.net, to learn what we’re doing, about our events, and other related organizations & chatrooms where one can talk with other cowboys and learn even more. There’s room for all types ofpeople and talent, lesbians, gay" men and we also have some straight members. There you have it, a proud tradition now 23 years young derived from the frontier spirit ofOklahoma. The GLBT community ofOklahoma can look forward to ~vhat OGRA can do for our future. Connecticut unlikely to amend constitution on marriage Connecticut voters strong!y oppose anaending the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage, according to a QEinnipiac University poll released Dec. 17. The poll of 1,445 registered voters found that 61 percent oppose an anlendment and only 33 percent support it. Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after the state Supreme Court ruled that offering gay couples onbi civil unions violated the state constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. The poll found dlat 52 percent ofvoters agreed with the Supreme Court’s decision, 39 percent did not and 9 percent had no opinion. The poll’s margin oferror was plus or minus 2.6 percentage points. MERI Day ofService to Provide for Foster Children in Rhode Island & Arkansas RHODE ISLAND (PR) Dec 8 __ As Marriage Equality Rh6de Island (MERI) made a commitment to community service this holiday season it couldn’t help but acknovdedge sorrow at the passage ofAct 1 in Arkansas, a thinly veiled attack on the gay community that bans unmarried couples from adopting children or serving as foster parents. Although the Arkansas state motto calls for both "Mercy andJustice; neither was demonstrated by proponents ofthis legislation which harms families and children. MERI fights for the rights and protection ofall families in seeking marriage equality for Rhode Island’s GLBT residents. On \Vednesday, December 10 MERI xvas at the State House to collect items for not only" the RI Food Bank, Crossroads, Amos House mid the IRIE Transitional Home for women and children, but also the foster children ofArkansas xvhose wishes for new families have been curtailed. Mayor Dani Joy ofEureka .... Springs, Arkansas accepted and distributed RI donations. In her letter to MERI, Joy stated, "I am greatly honored that your organization would focus your energy and compassion on our many children that receive foster care throughout our state. With the passage ofAct I our state is left with a large number ofchildren that are either in need offoster care, or currently in foster care... Again, let me say that I am in axve ofyour compassion during this holiday, season. We are truly grateful," File Photo Eureka Springs Birayor DaniJoy Food bank requests included boxed and canned goods, pmvered and evaporated milk, potato flakes, cereal, oatmeal, pasta, rice, soup, condiments, crackers, tuna, peanut butter, jelly/jam and juice. Amos House needs coffee and personal hygiene items. Crossroads could use slippers, hats, mittens, gloves and scarves for men, women and children (4 mos - 18). The young women and their children living at the IRIE Transitional Program, under the auspices of the RI Foster Parent Association (RIFPA) learn skills to improve their lives mid break the cycle ofpoverty. Ten teens ages 16-20 and their 7 children, ages 4 months - 6 years, live in the facility. Contact MERI for items noted on the IRIE wish list. MERI Day ofService partners include RI Pride, inFOCUS and the Gay Straight Alliance ofWarwick Veteran’s Memorial High School. For raore information, contact Susan MacNeil at smacneil@ marriageequalityri.org or by calling 401-463-5368 www.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 15 We have a lot to celebrate including the January 20th date for President elect Obama. This year may be the start of something big for each of us and our personal endeavors. This is truly a time to click our glasses together. Here is a litde about sparkling wines from France and Spain Champagne French monks were the first to bottle a sparkling forra ofwine called Champagne, named after the Champagne region ofFrance. The method of making "mousse" (another name fbr bubbles) in a bottle was invented by the efforts ofD~reJean Oudart (1654 - 1742) and Dora Pierre Pdrignon (1639 - 1715), Benedictine monks and cellarmasters at the respective abbeys of Saint-Pierre aux Monts de Chalons and Saint-Pierre d’Hautvillers, The region ofChampagne has a colder and shorter growing season. Champagne grapes had to be picked late in the year, with less time available for fermentation. During fermentation yeasts are used to convert the sugars of the grape juice into alcohol and cold winter temperatures stopped the process. The monks developed a method of making Champagne wine by using a second fermentation process that took place in the bottle during the following spring. The second fermentation created carbon-dioxide bubbles that are the sparkle of Champagne. Cava A Spanish sparkling wine is called Cava and was first made as early as 1851, although the true roots ofthe Cava wine industry can be traced back to Josd Raventos’ travels through Europe in the 1860s, where he was promoting the still wines ofhis Codorniu winery. His visits to the Champagne region sparked an interest in the potential of a Spanish version Happy fmay noF fi~ ~yeryqne s budget, and its super New ~.... " DPoenr~lgnon. Rose 96/Sn-nply_ _puta; lthough. h~rd to fifid~ thi~ wifie is ~ller~ of the sparHing wine, usifig th~ same~ , p.roduction methods. ~e local Maekbeo, P~retlada Inmerial Nectar/This one is and Xareldo grapes were well smtqd t~h~s more in~er~sting than {he Wliite Star. It~ fruit wine st de and whereas earlY versions W~e f.o.rw.a.rd..& 9ffdry- deh-cl¯ous. called champ~n or xampany after Champa~~ . Catalan winemakers wadted ~o dis{ingui-sh 5~< [: Piper,Hela ieck B~Ut from the Vr nc €0un par , adopted the name Cava aAer the Cat’an qV6?a Toad H611ow Amplexus Brnt/~is one is ~r cave, where ~e wines were tradi{~on~lly ported to Califbrnia from the Cremant region ~:: stored. ...... of F{auce. Accordin~ t.o S.pan.ish.wine laws, Cava cache C0dorniu Cava Brut/ SparHing wines f"rom produced m s:x wine [eg~ous ~such as A~:md} ~pain can be among the most interesting in de Duero, Navarra and ~oja)but 95% ~f taste. ~ey’re usually fi-uit forward & quite Spanish Cava production takes affbrdable; Pene&s region. In order for the wines called "Card’ they must be made in tional m&hode champenoise. Wines the lmv-cost "Charmat process" may called "Spanish sparkling wine". Food Champagne tends to ers or opening courses in a well with shellfish like ofcourse gegura Viudas Cava Brut Reserva This writer is one ofthe manager~ at the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as dae Enthusiasts ofTulsa. 9fwine byJames Laube/ This months recipe courtesy of: Shrimp Verde Ingredients: ] pound thin linguine, cappelini or PRIMI PI?~TTI 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil I Bag Spinach 1 Pound Shrimp-fresh ot fi’ozen- shelled and &veined 2 Cloves Garlic 8 tablespoons thatsanice "VERDE" basil pesto crema sauce To prepare: Boil water in large pot with splash ofsalt and drop of oil to keep pasta from.sticking -pasta as directed on package making sure not to overcook, drain, set aside Sautd olive oil, gatlic and spinach about 5-10 minutes, add fresh or defrosted shrimp and sautd in mixture until pink!orange in color. Add thatsanice! "VERDE" and mix together, pour entire mLxture over pasta and toss making sure pasta is evenly coated. If desired, top with some grated Parmesan cheese (although strict old school Italians frmvn on putting cheese over seafood but it tastes good !) Serving ideas: Serve as a first course with a fish entrde like halibut or swordfish like s )ver [en& modern traditional flavors. Ifyou y from them and they offer f~atured on many television shows including the Food Network and have been featured in nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa Brad Paisley Jan 24, 2009 at BOK Center With special guests! Dierks Bentley Darius Rucker Ticket Prices: $39.75 & $46.75 Tickets On Sale Now Cdine Dion Feb 2, 2009 at BOK Center RESCHEDULED DATE! MONDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2009 All tickets previously purchased for the original date will be honored. Refunds xvill be available at point ofpurchase. Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00, $49.50 ~hlsa is one of45 cites and the only city in Oklahoma on this tour. 2q~roughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest-selling female artist ofall time. Billy Joel & Elton John Mar 17, 2009 at BOK Center Billy Joel & Elton John Face 2 Face Tour March 17, 2009 7:30pro Tickets On Sale Now There is no presale for this concert Ticket Prices: $179, $99, $53.50 Billy Joel and Elton John, the most successful and longest-running concert pairing in pop history! Billy and Elton open the concert with a series ofduets, playing tvcin pianos and trading vocals. Each artist then performs a set with his own band. A grand finale brings the two superstars and their supporting musicians ba& together for a dosing encore. This includes some of both Billy and Elton’s greatest hits along with an unpredictable selection ofrock and roll classics. INSIDE HOLLYWOOD By Romeo San Vicente Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on a new project for Margaret Cho and Kal Penn Cho and Penn Unite for Sisters Q~eer-identified entertainer Margaret Cho is quite the Renaissance svoman- she’s a stand-up comic, author, actress, blogger, and activist. And now she can add "director" to her resume with Two Sisters, her feature debut. Ifyou were expecting something racy from the potty-mouthed comedian, forget it; the movie is slated to premiere on ABC Family. Plot details are being kept under wraps, but Cho has assembled an impressive cast, including Kal Penn (from the Harold and Kumar movies, as xvell as The Namesake) and the gorgeous Tamlyn Tomita (who recently popped up on Heroes), plus Kathy Najimy (King of the Hill) and Elaine Hendrix (Tru Loved, The Parent Trap). As for the lady herself, Cho will also appear in a small role. Look for Two Sisters to make its premiere on ABC Family in 2009. Pee-wee Comes Back to the Playhouse ~Pnere are a lot ofunanswered questions floating around about Pee-wee’s Playhouse: Ti~e Movie, like "Is it really happening?" and "Is Johnny Depp playing Pee-wee ?" So far the only certainty is that Paul Reubens, ~vho, than!ffull); is still in charge ofPeexvee Inc., is jump-starting this cash cow one more time and is working on the goal ofa 2009 release date for the slow-moving production. Plot details are few and up for debate. Casting, too. (Who’ll replace the late Phil Hartanan? What happened to the guy who played the unambiguously gayJambi ? Will S. Epatha Merkerson return as Reba the Mail Lady? Please?) But all will surely be answered eventually, possibly via ticker-tape readout from Conky the Robot’s torso. And ifJohnny Depp shows up, even as a Pee-wee doppelganger, that’s just fine, too. Now ifthe cameras would only hurry up and roll. No, Really: Lesbian Vaanpire Killers Whether it’s Snakes on a Plane or ~Pne Incredibly Strange Creatures Who Stopped Living and Became Mixed-Up Zombies!!?, a movie’s title can sometimes tell you everything you need to knm,: And so it is with Lesbian Vampire Killers, a new British horror-comedy about a Welsh village whose xvomen have been cursed by the local Sapphic bloodsuckers. In aa~ attempt to improve matters, the tovcn sends txvo hapless visitors (played by James Corden and Mathew Home, the stars ofthe BBC sitcom Gavin & Stacey) into the woods as a sacrifice to the titular undead. The film also features Paul McGann (Withnail & I, Doctor Who) as one of the few remaining men in the village. Lesbian Vampire Killers ~vill put the bite on audiences in 2009. Next Christmas, Make the Yuletide Gay Romeo loves a good holiday dassic, and some gay filmmakers obviously feel the same way about the genre, with Make the Yuletide Gay now going into production. O.Eueer actor Adamo Ruggiero (who played out-and-eventually-proud Marco on Degrassi: ~e Next Generation) and Allison Arngrim (best known as frontier mean girl Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie) will don their gay apparel for this coraedy about what happens when a guy who’s not out to his faanily goes home for the holidays and then has to explain the sudden appearance of his boyfriend. Yuletide also features Ian Buchanan (Twin Peaks) and gay" indie-fihn vets Derek Long (Socket) and Steve Callahan (East Side Story). Look for Make the Yuletide Gay to pop up at around the same time as 2009 Advent calendars. w,~w.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 17 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "T VELING AND MEETING PEOPLE" Photo: Donald Pile & Ray Williams Since we are always telling our readers to "Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone" we decided to devote this travel column to the fabulous and interesting people that we have met and dealt with, in our travels. These, ~ve will list in no particular order and they live from coast to coast. Hizabeth Taylor has always been so gracious to remember our anniversaries and holidays. We have so many to list in Palm Springs. There is Jim Doyle &Jerry Efron, Tyke, Wayne, Millie, Shirley, Jim LaMarrina, Ken & Grant, Tom & Doug at the Terrazzo, Burt XWahquist, artists Robert Sharer & Giorgio and restaurateurs, Sol and Chris ~vho we first met when they owned a B & B in San Francisco and now mvn a restaurant in Puerto Vallarta and also own a home in Pahn Springs. In New ~%rk City, Jean- Claude Baker, the exciting owner ofChez Josephine’s Restaurant, author Tom Monsell, play- ~vright Matthew Lom- Photo: Chq~G~r!os at the Hi-Life bardo C,~e in Ft. Lauderdale (Tea at Five and Looped) and movie director/producer Rick McKay. His movie "Broadway: The Golden Age" is a terrific movie. In Florida, the famous portrait photographer Jack Mitchell & Bob Pavlik, entertainers Auntie Marne, ToW & Gloria, the best jazz duo and Miguel Reyna, who without a doubt is the finest piano entertainer/singer that we have ever met! and the lovely and extremely talented Faye Harrod and her friend Gloria Delro); Casey Koslowki, owner; Herb Pianin, General Manager; Peter Mehas, Guest Services Manager and the entire staff at the Grand Resort and Spa in Ft. Lauderdale who operates the finest gay resort in the country, Chuck Smith and ChefCarlos at the Hi-Lit~ Care, Alan Beck & Nick and Norma. Also in Ft. Lauderdale, Al & Tom and Steve & Ells~vorth and the deceased fabulous pianist/entertainer, Houston, and then dear, dears friends, Ed Hayes &John Dunne in St. Petersburg who are truly delightful. And there are the people that we have met quite by accident who have become dear friends such as Ginny & Willy in Florida, Kala & Frank, the absolutely ~beyond Fabulous" owners of the Luna Vista B and B in Rimrock, Arizona, Michael McFall & Luis Gonzalez in Phoenix, ChefMarcdlino and his fabulous wife Sima, owners ofMarcellino Ristorante in Phoenix, Gordon & Kin at the Inn of the 410 in Flagstaff who are super special guys and Charlotte Welch and her daughter Katie in Flagstaff. In Billings, Montana we met Barbara Hill, a wonderful entertainer who has "come OUt~ no not lesbian, but "just simply came out to life" and has found true happi- ,- ness at last. We Photo: Actor LeslieJordan just wish that everybody could find themselves like she did. In St. Louis, Michael Lance &JeffArchuleta, owners ofNapoleons’ Retreat B & B where we first met the "fun couple; Smitty and Eddy in Mississippi who we will be seeing again on our way driving to Florida in January. They can’t help it because they were born straight! And then there is actor, Leslie Jordan, authors Christopher Rice and Robert Hofmann, filmmaker Craig Highberger, (Superstar In A Housedress) and filmmaker Mialyn Hanna (White Shadows). A new friend who ~ve are in contact with but haven’t actually met yet, author Louise Penny in Canada. Photo: Countess Alexis &Ray ~qlliams Also wonderful people like the Countess Mexis, the QEeen Diva who now" lives in Hollywood. She certainly epitomizes elegance and "old Hollywood", plaDvright Gene Danklin Smith and Steve Nycklemore, director of the Hollywood Museum, our good friend, Attorney Andrew Lee who now resides in Mexico, Dean Perkins (Crystal Chandelier) in New Hampshire, Rodger & J.T. in the Q.~ad cities, Chris X~alsh in San Francisco as wel! as gZalter Edgar, owner ofthe 24 Henry B&B and the Village House B&B in San Francisco. In Seatrle, Stephen Bennett, owner of the Gaslight Inn B and B and visiting there,ave met Tom & Doris Friedman from the Hamton’s in New York who ,are will visit When we are in New England next year. In Santa Fe, New Mexico, Ralph Bolton and Robert Frost, owners ofthe Inn ofthe Turquoise Inn. Four o~tstanding people are the late Dalee Henderson who was and is an inspiration to thousands ofpeople and to Raymond Bilbool, former owner ofthe Secret Garden B&B in West Hollywood and our dear friend Stefan Hemming, owner ofthe Liberace Estate in Palm Springs who hosted our 35th Anniversary two years ago and to Mel Haber, owner of Melvyn’s Restaurant and the Ingleside Inn in Palm Springs. Their lives have reached many. So here we are, two guys who live in the middle ofthe country who are fortunate in that we get to travel a lot and meet so many people. In our travels, we really have been so fortunate to meet so many fun, interesting and exciting individuals. q-his column is warmly dedicated to all of daese people that we have met in our travels and we are looking forward to meeting many more in our future. Remember, in the words of the late Dalee Henderson, "When you wake up in the morning, it is a miracle! The rest ofthe day is up to you!" Truly, today is the first day of the rest ofyour life. Ifyou are not happy with your life it is no one’s ffmlt but your own. We want to thank our dear friend Chaz XWard, Publisher-Editor ofthe Metro Star for his support. internationa Boy George could face jail for ’imprisoning’ escort Singer Boy George may land in jail after being convicted Dec. 5 of falsely in~prisoning male escort Audun Carlsen in London. Last April, George handcuffed Carlsen to a book on the wall of George’s bedroom fbr about an hour, saying he suspected Carlsen had hacked into his coruputer following a previous photo session between the two men. Car!sen claims George also attacked him with a metal chain af,er he broke free and began his escape from the apartment. Car!sen told the court the computer story was made up and that George probably was upset because Car!sen refused to have sex ~vith him the previous time they met. City apologizes for past anti-gay actions 1he City Council ofHobart, Tasmania, in Australia, apologized Dec. 10 for banning a booth promoting gay law reform from the city’s weekly Salamanca Market in 1988. In the weeks that followed, more than 100 people were arrested for refusing to vacate the site, marking Australia’s largest-ever act ofgay civil disobedience. The apology, delivered by Lord Mayor Rob Valentine before more than 200 former arrestees, GLBT community members and civil leaders, including state Premier David Bartlett, coincided with the 20th anniversary ofthe crackdown and the 60th anniversary ofthe signing ofthe Universa! Declaration ofHuman Rights. "The Hobart City Cotmcil apologizes for prohibiting the gay law reform stall at Salamanca Market in 1988 and for the resulting arrests aud bans," Valentine said. "We are sorry for the pain and trauma caused to all involved, including GLBTI people; their family members, friends and supporters; and those council officers who were required to carry out the council decision. We are also sorry that the actions we took may have encouraged ill-will and discrimination towards GLBTI people in the broader community. We resolve that actions such as these will never happen again." The apology was formally accepted by Rodney Croome ofthe Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group, which has operated the booth continuously at the Saturday outdoor street market since 1988. "Twenty years ago, as we sat in police cells for the crime of being ourselves, we could not possibly have imagined something like this," Croome said. "People everDvhere who suffer human rights abuses should take this apology as a sign that no matter how bad things seem there is ~lways hope ofa better future: Prior to the apology, a City Council-sponsored photo exhibit ofthe arrests was unveiled at the Salamanca Arts Centre. The council also is sponsoring a ~ublic art work at Salamanca Place commemorating e arrests. 18 #~troSTAR January 2009 , and two and instruc- ~.metrostarnews.com OKC Civic Center Music Ha~1 January Events Jan. 5 SWEENY TODD presented by Broadway Tonight Jan. 9 -Jan. 31 ORPHANS a comedy-drama by Lyle Kessler Jan. 9-Jan. 31 Orphans Jan. 10 INTERNATIONAL FLAVORS presented by the Oldahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 22-Jan. 25 Julius Caesar Jan. 23 -Jan. 24 CHRIS BOTTI presented by Oklahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 25 HOLD THE CANNONS! ~e Story and Glory ofTchaikovsky and the 1812 Overture Jan. 27- Feb. 1 OPRAH WINFREY’S THE COLOR PURPLE Jammry At The Ford Center OKC Jan. 21 st - Jan. 25th ~;,hlking With Dinosaurs Jan. 30th -Jan. 31st ~l!ie Revolve Tour January At The P.A.C. Tulsa Jan 4 David Finckel and "Wu Hart John H. Williams Theatre 6-31 FP~EE Highway412 PAC Gallery Jan 10 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 17 An Infinite Ache Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 20-25 Oprah Winfrey Presents: Wue Color Purple Chapman Music Hall Jan 23 The Tannahill Vgeavers John H. xg/illiams Tneatre Jan 24 Ralph’s World John H. Williams Theatre Jan 27 Ethel Cabaret Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 28 Ethel Concert John H. Williams Theatre Jan 30-31 OMEAAll-State Music Festival Chapman Music Hall bitter girl FOR Webs#e- www.kylecomics.com en~il: bittergifl@qsyndtcate.com w~wcjoanhilty.net 20 #4etroSTAR January 2009 by Jack Fertig January 2009 "Toot your horn, Taurus!" Jupiter is starting his yearlong passage through Aquarius, where he inspires new visions offreedom aa~d scientific exp,,loration. This mini "age ofAquarius is a year ofgreat luck to anyone with that Sun sign or Ascendant, but check with your astrologer to see when that lucky year actually starts! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): You’ll be amazed to see what your friends would do for you. Take the opportunity to advance yourself politically and socially, and to promote whatever goals and ideals you see improving the world. TAURUS (April 20 o May 20): Don’t be shy! Toot your horn and let everyone know what you’re worth. This is your chance to rise to any position you’re qualified for. You have a bigger career peak in 12 years, but promotions now can boost your trajectory. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): .At least give a listen to the Wackiest, most far-out ideas coming your way. Take classes that challenge everything you believe in. Ask yourself and the world all the hard questions, and be ready for whole new worlds of answers. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): New sexual adventures beckon - and celibacy and monogamy may count as "adventures," if they’re new to you. You can get your sex life where it should be or wherever you want it. Are they the same? Be careful what you wish for! LEO (Ju~y 23 o August 22): This is your lucky year for relationships. That could include becoming very happy with being single. Join in political or community groups; do things that fulfill you, get you out among others, and accomplish some good. Love will come when it is ready. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Health-wise, this is generally a good year, but be careful of your liver. You can get almost any job you want, if you’re suited for it. Make sure to have the education you need for the post you want. LIBFL~k (September 23 - October 22): If you wants kids, now’s the time! If you prefer having time for fun, explore new pleasures, hobbies, and creative directions. Try something you’ve only considered at the edges of your wildest dreams. The more "out there" and daring, the better! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Whether it involves moving or decorating, embark on the big domestic changes that will make your home what you really want it to be. Do what you can to heal family problems. You can hardly go wrong. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Could you be any more loquacious? Keep your mouth out of trouble by harnessing the brain behind it. Learn a new skill or language, or sign up for any class that offers you a different direction. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): This should be your lucky year for money, but it comes with some deceptive lures. Still, odd chances that shouldn’t work might prove very lucrative. Think ahead, but be ready to take advantage of sudden opportunities. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In a 12-year cycle, this is your lucky year. Buy a few lottery tickets now and then, travel, or take some classes. You can expand yourself educationally, economically, and/or otherwise. But watch your diet! PISCES (February 19 -March 19): The worst things that happen to you could turn out for the best, although it may take a while to see that. 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This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 1, 2009 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Chaz Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Rex Wockner Susan A. Muscari Gerald Libonati Vernon Britt Romeo San Vicente Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Judy G. 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She not only brings her talent and enthusiasm, but also expertise gained from overall life experience and reporting. Seepage 5 3.corn THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA TSUNAMI SLAMS OBAMA JULY 1,2009 T lsa Pride Se s New by Rex Wockmer not health coverage, which he said june 17 is not within his power. That’s the good news -- all of it. What hasn’t he done? Anything about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, anything about the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), anything about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. He’s done nothing about any of the stuff he promised the gays before they rushed to the polls en masse last November to make sure he won that election. And, then, Mr. Obama’s Justice Deparmxent filed a brief June 1 ! in a federal same-sex marriage case that used nearly eveW nasty homophobic argument in the book to argue against letting gays get married. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back and unleashed a flood of harsh criticism from gay VIPs. "I hold this administration to a higher standard than this brief," Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese wrote to Obama. "In the course of your campaign, I became convinced -- and I still want to believe -- that you do, too .... This brief should not be good enough for you, The question is;Mr. President-- do you bdieve that it’s )bama. dec~des 22 which ~ not necessary ~i , ~ . to file a brief. It’s a horrific and hideous attack on LGBT [one thats good. He ~ssued :. ....... Americans." and he extended a few National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director spousal benefits ~ ~d~ employees’ Same’sex partners -Kate Kendell on her Facebook page: "The filing by the sick leave and long-term care insur~ce; for example, but ............ Continued See GAY TSUNAMI Page-24 Pro ect Pride Foundation Director Under Investigation For Fraud By Victor Gorin OKLAMOMA CIT~; OK__ On May 16, Robert Jordan Chiles was dected to a position on the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s Central Committee as part of the Affirmative Action Committee. Ivan Holmes, previous chair of the Oklahoma State Democratic Party stated to the Metro Star, "Robert ovces the party for tickets he purchased for the luncheon at the State Convention along with advertising in the program. He said he would pay that immediately and he hasn’t as of yet, so vce will pursue this issue." If he doesn’t resign his position, party officials are ready to begin impeachment proceedings. In May Mr. Chiles placed an advertisement in the Metro Star which ran in the June 2009 isme; soliciting funds for his Project Pride Foundation, presented as an organization working to advance GLBT rights and hdp people living with HIV. This advertisement was paid for with a check that was returned unpaid by his bank. Mr. Chiles was given numerous opportunities by phone and email to cover the check with no results. It has since been turned over to the Oldahoma County District Attorney for collection and possible prosecution. ........... Continued See PROJECT PRIDE Page-17 By Michael \~ Sasser TULSA, OK__ Tt~a Pride’s Diversity Festival and Pride Parade engaged a record number of participants on June 6th, both in terms of spectators and participants. "I think it exceeded expectations," said Oldahomans for Equality President Toby Jenkins. "We were worried whether the format and schedule might scare people or would be comfortable for people to participate in. Our Pioneer Breakfast far, far exceeded expectations. N~e police tell us there were 23,000 people at the festival which is the largest single-day attendance for an event we have ever had." Jenkins said the festival also included over 70 vendors and booths, twice the number as last year; and there vcere three times the number of parade entries as last year. "The parade yeas larger, there were more floats and more groups," If there was a down side, it ~vas that in the nev¢ event format debuting this year, there were fewer spectators along the parade route. ........... Continued See TULSA PRIDE Page-6 LOCAL>> 9 YO GRAND MARSHALL I NATIONAL >> NO SUPPONF FOR DADT I WORLD >> 50,000 2gF EURO PRIDE I PLUS >> LIFESTYLE TRAVEL I ~’FS I WINE I DINING �July 2009 2 �A good time By Robin Domer-Townsend Next year is a very big year for the OGRA as they will celebrate their 25th anniversary. "Even more is in store for next year’s event," furthers Wieden. "We will have a special limited edition designer ’trophy buckle’ made. Each of the 25 buckles will be numbered and sold to raise even more money for the charities ,are help." Wieden and the board of the OGRA wish to thank all of their sponsors and volunteers, but offer a special thanks to Premium Beers of Oklahoma and the Copa/Finish Line which each contributed more than $10,000 this ),ear. For more information about OGRA please visit www.ogra.net. Impressive Youth Leads Tulsa’s Gay Pride Parade By Judy Gabbard Diversity Business Assodates; proud to do in OKC By Robin Dorner-Townsend OGRA [)~ddent RTint Wied}n, Robin Dorner photo OKLk(HOMA CI~/, OK Every ),ear as Memorial Day weekend rolls around, the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo is held in Oklahoma City. Their goal as a social organizarion is to host an annual-gay rodeo in Oklahoma City, assist in western related events and contribute to charitable organizations. This year~ motto is. ’~A Bucking Good Time." The mission of OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) is to act as a non-profit organization, to perform charitable duties for the surrounding area through fundraisers, rodeo performances, etc., for any particular charitable organization the general membership of the association shall choose. "Xhat is the main goal of]OGRA; to raise money for charity," said Klint Wieden, OGRA President. "Each year we give primarily to two different charities ~vhich provide services to those living with HIV or AIDS." This year’s beneficiaries of the event are Other Options/Friends Food Pantry and RAIN Oklahoma. Each of these organizations will receive a charitable contribution from OGRA once the dollar amount for donation has been calculated. "Usually it is around $3,500 for each organization," adds Wieden. "Wieden grew up on a big ranch in north~vest Oklahoma on thousands of acres. His family raised cattle, ran horses and performed all general ranching duties and his family was always involved in the rodeo. "I also love doing charity work. It is a necessary thing," he adds. "I enjoy the causes xve stand for at OGRA and bringing the two together; rodeo and chariw, well, it’s a great thing for me." OGP,A is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay ;Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. The purpose for organizing OGRA was to prov;ide a harmonious enviromnent for those interested in the western lifestyle to express themselves through rodeo, dance and other £~mity social activities barring al! prejudices related to sex, nation~ origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudices. Overall, the IGRA has raised millions ofdoltars ~br charities across the country. www.rnetrostarnews.com OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 2004, the Diversity Business Association (DBA) has been a "proud’ organization representing many businesses and prot)ssions in the Oklahoma City metro area. As an organization primarily for gay and gay-friendly businesses, DBA is a diverse group; thus the name "Diversity Business Association." DBA is not an organization iust for the gay, lesbian. bisexual or transgender (GLBT} community. It is an open minded, diverse group of individuals from all walks of life. "Why not do business with people who want to do business with you?", is their organizational motto. With nearly 150 members, the Diversity Business Association does mean business. "DBA has become Oklahoma City’s fastest growing GLBT organization and with good reason," says Monty Milburm President of DBA. "We offer a casual yet business oriented environment for our members to connect with and do business with people that want to do business with them. It is these connections that help all of us succeed in good and bad times." Each month, usually two business connection meetings are held where members meet to network and exchange business cards, ideas, and get together for fun events also. There are luncheons, educational meetings and after hour mixers which bring the group together for people ~vho want t6 do business with like-minded people. Membership fees for DBA are some of the best in this area for an organization of its ~nd. An individual business membership is $49 per year and corporate memberships (for up to 10 people) are $450. Unlike most organizations, DBA has a student or ’social’ membership f)e for $25 per year. N~is allows the businesses in the area who are gay or gay-friendly to benefit from like-minded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. The goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the GLBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. DBA will have a booth at the upcoming Gay Pride events to be held at Memorial Park in Oklahoma City on June 27th & 28th and invites everyone to come and visit to see what they are all about. "I would like to encourage you to visit often, check out our calendar and consider joining. We encourage positive competition and celebrate each member’s success," adds Milburn. "t am proud to serve as President of such a fine organization. We really do mean business." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit vvw~.dbametro.org. It is best to use Internet Explorer when visiting this site. Noah Blatt Grand Marshall ~dsa Pride Parade. Judy G. photo TULSA, OK The Grand Marshal! of Tulsds Annual Pride Parade xvas not a celebrity or an individual with a crown of jewels: this Grand Marshall was a nine year old young man named Noah Blatt. Noah Blatt is a perfect example of what the words "Diversity" and "Acceptance" represent in the contin~l struggle of gay rights. Told to me by a representative of Oldahomans [br Equality, Noah Blatt first came m the attention of the committee members at Tulsa’s Equality Center, when he hand delivered a letter and a donation. In the letter, Noah explained that as an assignment he was to chose an organization that he rahought was making a difference, His mission was to acknowledge that organization and donate to its support. Noah has continued to contribute part of his weekly allowance in support of Tulsa’s Equality Center. Toby Jenkins, Tulsa’s Equality committee President, said, that when it came time to select the Grand Marshall for the Pride Parade, no other individual was as deserving as Noah Blatt. Noah’s revelation, revealed in his letter, that xvhen same sex couples love each other and want to marry, there shotdd be no one allowed to stand in their way. Simple truth uttered from one so young shows that the continuing struggle for gay rights is making an impact on public opinion. In a short interview with Noah Blatt, I met a gentle young man with a view of the world that maW lose when they grow up. Noah is determined to hang on to his beliefs and make his opinions known. Noah’s room and dad are hard working, well educated parents who have a!lo~ved their child to develop his own views of human behavior. Mr and Mrs Blatt support their young son’s ideas and know that it takes only one person to start a movement towards human rights. Noah was introduced to the public at the Pride Festival held at Centennial Park, located at 6th and Peoria, and severalo awards were bestowed upon him. The greatest prize was a view into the future possibilities of our youth. The importance of bestowing understanding, love, guidance and attention to our younger population was made evident in such a small package, Noah Blatt. ~®troSTAR 3 �UDGE RULES IN KEITH KIMMEL’S FAVOR ON HIS I’M GAY LICENSE P LATE Billy who is running for Mr. O.G.R~k. next year. Tney are setding down together on the outskirts of Noble where Michael, as a member of the Orchid Society, will be able to pursue his hobby. The Holy Union was offidated by Pastor Neill Spurgin of Exp~:essions Community Fellowship, where both Billy and Michael are members. Let’s wish them a wonderful life together. Giving back: MAC Cosmetics ’Viva Glam’ line supports HIV! AIDS organizations By Robin Dorner-Townsend By Victor Gotin Annual Hot Young Hollywood Party to benefit R.A.I.N. Oklahoma August 7 Angles to host annual Hot Young Hollywood PaW to benefit RAIN Oklahoma. Oklahoma CiF’ HIV Non-profit agent/. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ August 7 2009 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On April 6 Keith KimmeL like maW other Ol-dahomans since 1967, applied for a personalized license plate for his !992 Dodge pickup truck. However. he ran into an obstacle because his message was ’TM GAY". His request was denied. Kathy Green, a supervisor in the Motor Vehicle Division, stated that his request was denied due to a Oklahoma Tax Commission Rule 710:60-3-150 (d) which states "No license plate will be issued -which may be offensive to the general public." However, she did not state why she deemed that his message fit into that category. Mr. Kimmel appealed this decision, and his case was heard by Administrative Law Judge Jay Harrington in Oklahoma City on May 7. A favorable ruling, in which Judge Harrington recommended that Keith be allowed his I’M GAY plate, was released on June 18, jttst a week before Gay" Pride celebrations ldcked off in Oklahoma City. Attorney Brittany M. Novomy, who represented him on this case had this statement, "This decision is an indication that we do still live in a society that respects the rule of law, and when we feel our civil rights have been violated we know we can turn to our legal system to remedy the situation. I believe it is also a signal that despite its national reputation, Oldahoma has outstanding women and men in the legal profession who put the law ahead of old prejudices." The Oklahoma Tax Commission may accept or reject this recommendation. Talking with Mr.Kimmel he stated, "I think the judge reviewed the case carefully,, made a good decision and I hope the commission will do the right thing and let me have nay plate." If the Oklahoma Tax Commission doesfft fol!ow- through and allow his plate he plans to pursue additional legal action. Billy Jackson and Michael[ Friday ioined their lives together By Victor Gorin N~e Hot Young Holly~vood Party is an annual fundraiser for RAIN Oklahoma, acting as a spotlight for local GLBT owned & friendly businesses. RAIN Oklahoma will be honoring four Oklahomans for their outstanding leadership and activism. The event will be a fun filled evening with fashion shmvs from well-known designers such as Cadillac Cowboy; Nicole Moan, GLAMNERD, Riot Rockett and Debauchery Clothing, plus live performances from Oklahoma City;s own Eric Bramble and others. Definitely an event not to be missed! Rafiqe ticket sales provided much of the $2500 raised at last year’s party. I~mt year sponsor donated items included a necklace donated by Mitchener & Farrand Jewelers, a "makeover" prize package .from Velvet Monkey Inc., dinner for two at 1492, and a Marc-by-Marc Jacobs bag among many other items. For the RAIN Leadership Award, campus GLBT groups made nominations from OCU, UCO, OU, OSU OKC AND UT as well as the GLBT group of DELL and the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The goal of our nominees is to increase the quality of life for all Oklahomans. RAIN Oklahoma is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit agency, depending on private donations and the support of the community to continue providing high quality of services. RAIN Oklahoma offers a wide array of services from free HIV testing and counseling, community outreach projects, Ryan White Case Management, ADVANTAGE Medicaid waiver services & Transitional Housing. RAIN Oklahoma’s mission is to compassionately serve indMduals and communities impacted by HIV/AIDS through education, volunteerism and coordinated access to healthcare & support services. We accept all donations; Gift Certificates, Checlcs, Merchandise and/or services. Donors will be recognized in the program. For additional information on The Hot Young Holbavood Party, please contact the Hot Young In f!’ont of the Iguana Lounge in Automobile Alley in downtown Oklahoma Ci~, the 3¢IAC cosmetics staffin Oklahoma City show their support in the form of"a big check"for Other Options and Friends Food Pantry. The fundraising event "51 Toast to Life" was heldfor the non-profit organization at The Iguana Lounge in April The Iguana showed its support ofthe Other Options organization by undenvHting the charitable event. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 1989, Other Options has been on the forefront of prevention, education, and assistance of those in need who are living ~vith HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) and AIDS (Autoimmune Deficiency Syndrome). The organization was Formed as anonprofit whose missi6n" included al! services which hdp persons living with the disease but currently their primary focus is that of food services, nutrition and education. Mary Arbuckle, Director of Other Options works to assist the clients they serve, organizes donations and among many other taslcs, she also writes grant applications for the organization. "It’s a ..... Continued see MAC page 24 Holl)wcood Committee: Contact: Kendet R. Powers, CTR Agent RAIN Oklahoma 405/204/7767 kpowers@rainoklahom.org Vicld Banta Vicki Banta the Partyoligist 405/850/6817 Xfbanta@aol.com Bil{r Jackson &Michael Friday at their Holy[ Union wid~ t/.,eir .iF[ends Luq and Midn@t. Godn photo Kai R. Dameron Rain Oldahoma, CTR Coordinator 405/232/2437 xt 123 KaiDameron@hotmail.com OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Billy Jackson and Michael Friday joined their lives together Sunday, June 14 in Norman at Thunderbird Chapel. Lovers of the country lifestyle, both are active in OGRA, Michael as the mernbership chair and July 2009 4 �Robin Dorner Joins Robin Dorner-Tmvnsend. Staff photo OKLAI-IOMA CITY. OK Already well kmown in Oklahoma City and beyond as a fun loving reporter and activist. Ms. Dorner has just joined the Metro Star team. She will be repo~ting local news and ~ents and wil! handle OK~’~C ad sales al6nFwithRikGOdbev and Victor Gorin. She is also an accomplished ~h0togr~pher. She n0{ 0hly brings 1{~} taleh{ ~nd enthusiasm, but alSO ~ert~e gained f om oCe llife ep0mng Metro Star Staff Born in Wichita, she graduated from Kansas Newman College in that same city to become a Registered Nurse. She moved to Oklahoma City in 1983 when jobs for RNs were plentiful. She worked in various positions as a dialysis nurse, in home health and hospice settings, and case management. She is a happily married heterosexual, celebrating 15 years together with Ken Townsend, her soulmate who is in the oil & gas business. In 2004 she earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Health administration, followed by a Master’s Degree in Business Administration in 2006. After this milestone, seeking a different direction, she branched out into journalism with the City" Sentinel. broadening their horizons when she covered many events of the GLBT community. She first became involved with our community during the !990s when she volunteered as a nurse for the Triangle Association vdth D~:Larry Prater. who operated a free AIDS clinic. Relating ~o that experience she stated that "I loved it, not only as a nurse but also from the love, camaraderie and acceptance I found in the gay community." Her involvement in the community grew, and she later became a boai~d member of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. She is a former board member and current member of Diversity Bttsiness Association of Oklahoma City, and is her husband Ken. She does vohmteer work for Other OptiOns, and looks forward to working with the Metro Star. We welcome her a oard . the City Sentinel ( fbrmeriy the Mid City Advocate). Leather Camp V will be running in Wichita gg~IICHITA, KS (PR) __ August 14 - 16, 2009. Early bird registration is active until July" 21st at a rate of $75.00. After July 21st, the package cost xvill be $85.00. The Clarion Hotel will hots the event with a room rate of $79.00 per night. Rooms need to be booked directly through the hotel. Ask for the WOOLF rate to get the discount. ~qere are lots of great classes for this years event. Presenters include ~qaipmaster Bob and Bootpig, Graydancer, Sir Olivier and pup sparlg~, Mason and Michelle. In addition, we will be having our Central Hains Regional contests for Central Plains LeatherSirlboy and CommunivA Bootblack as well as our loc~ www:metrostarnews.com WOOLF contests for Mr. and Ms. WOOLF and Kansas boy/girl. All of the contests will be judged by International LeatherSir 2009, Sir Raul, International Leatherboy 2009, boy bill, Central Plains LeatherSir 2009, Master Sam Sampson, Central Plains Leatherboy 2009, pup sparkle, Central Plains Community Bootblack 2009, boy blu, Great Plains Leatherboy 2008, boy mike and Rev. Jackie Carter of the Metropolitan Community Church of Wichita. The weekend ~vill be emceed by Tom Stice. For more information and to register for the weekend and book your hotel room, please visit www.wichitaleatherpride.com. &~et~’oSTAR 5 �By Michael ~{~. Sasser "I was straight most of my life," said the Tulsa CountT Courthouse clerk. "I was always open with sexuality and thought that if it felt good, do it. I’ve only had t-wo girlfriends in nay life. My first girlfriend was the one who said "you should try this’ and I said ’sure, let’s give ir a try.’ It was tumultuous except for the sex tbr the next two years. I have been with nay current partner for 13 years." Nipper had been "spiritually" a writer her entire life, from the time she xvrote a short story in grade school that a teacher insisted on turning into a slide show. "The best advice I ever got was to write one page a day and after a year, you ~voutd have 365 pages," Nipper said. "qhe road to publishing has been rocky, but my publisher now is terrific. They do so much to support authors and offer opportunities and guidance." Femme Noir’s sequel, I4dss of Noir, is already under contract. It’s set in New Orleans and will continue to stretch the parameters ofsexuat representation. "I’ve already shocke,~,! and appalled some lesbmns, N~pper stud. I th~nk that means am on the right track." Tulsa author Clara Nipper. Press photo TULSA, OK __ Tulsa author Clara Nipper never read mysteries, thrillers or true crime books, so when - on a dare from her partner - she set out to write in the genre, they set the mood and picked up the stylized approach by camping out in their home. lowering the air conditioning and watching classic noir films such as Double Indemnity, Laura and the more-modern Body Heat. "They were terrific," said Nipper. "I took some inspiration from them." Nine months in the writing, Nipper completed her first novel, the stylish Femme Noi~; a tide that aptly describes both the book and the innovative genre of lesbian literature. "I was writing "chick stories’ and my partner told me that since that wasn’t ,going an?~vhere I should try something new, Nipper said. So, Nipper crafted a character that was the "total opposite" of her. "She is tall and lean, black and bald, and a total womanizer - a slut. I wondered if I could wrire an entire book about her. And, I thought, yes I could." The rest is now history. Femme Noir is being published by Bold Stroke Books. In the book, Nora Delaney is Nipper’s protagonist. The hard-boiled, hypersexualized womanizing college basketball coach chases the case of her murdered exlover from LA to Tulsa only to be waylayed by a gorgeous, gin-swilling skirt who has information as well as an appetite for women like Nora. The book contains classic noir elements and Nora is cut from the same cloth as many classic, troubled genre protagonists - except that she is a woman. Hailed by maw for its unique and interesting voice, the book is also sexually graphic and unapologetic. "’gq~en my father got a copy of the book. I wrote in it ’please don’t read this’." Nipper said. "I hope he hasn’t. Tulsa native Nipper is veU much unlike her lead character. For more information on Nipper and Femme Noir, visit www.claranipper.com. Dont Shop - Adop "Most people waited for the parade at [Centennial Park], and it was packed there". A shuttle system taking parade-path spectators to the park might be one thing added for future Pride festivals. For the most part, though, the new event structure was very much a success. "The fireworks, the ferris wheel and the concert were all huge successes." Jenkins said. Jenkins noticed a few things in particular this year. Employees of Spaghetti Warehouse on Brady Street came out to cheer ~or the parade. At Centennial Park. the crowd included a notable number of straight couples and individuals, including maW attending their first-ever Pride event with or without a GBLT relative or friend. "I thought, ’Wo~v. ~vhen did it become cool to go to Pride?" "-We also had a tot of seniors there. One mother said she was impressed at how family-friendly the environment was. I wish I could say that was something we tried to do. but it’s just a sign of the evolution of the community." Police commented on how busy the Kid Zone was with approximately 700 children of GLBT families and straight participants. This year’s n~w policy against ice chests and bringing in outside food and beverages also worked out. Jenkins said no one had to go to the hospital and police told him that for the first time there was no one who they considered acting publicly drunk to the point of being a nuisance. Vendors also told Jenkins they had done well at the event. Jenkins hopes that means it will be possible to continue expansion of the event in the future with more participants. Although the parade route saw the typical number of protestors, there was only one notable at the festival itself. Annie Bryce drove an hour to attend her first Tulsa Pride event. "I was very impressed at how nice it was and, really, how nice the people were - men, women, gay and straight even," she said. Cashen" Stewart attended the Pride Festival, largely for the parade, He thinks the eve,n,t could still be improved. I think there should be a bit more things to do at Pnde that are more mteracuve, he said. lenkins said that other smaller cities aro{md Oldahoma also having Pride events, such as Enid for the first time ever in July, is evidence of empowerment. "People are feeling safe enough to have festivals - that’s a good sign." Meet Woodstock. He’s a 9 yr old yellow labbie who was Surrendered to Lab Rescue so ~ve could find him a new home. His owners love ~ctive for him, but h~ is a them. D0n:t le~ iS young at hem o1~1 labl;ie. H6 loved on: ~’g0odi I stcd No matter who you are o are on life’s iourney, -Reverend ~r. K~hy Sapulpa Norman Collinsville )18 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6,"~2 5 918 371 1000 Courtesy of v:xvw.labrescue.net L 3131 & Pennsylvanio, Oklah0m= Q>~, 405.525.9555 July 2009 6 �So, ust What is the True Politics M es for Definition-of Marriage ? Strange Bedfellows by James Nimmo by James Nimmo OY._LM-IOMA CITY. OK As a semiprofessional musician I provided music at the same-gender marriage recently of two friends of mine, the latest ceremony of uncountable services I’ve played, t’rn also a committed atheist and rather hard-boiled when it comes to asking [or divine intervention, as well as the invention of skT-oriented deities for whatever reason. I support everyone’s private pursuit of their interests in accordance with the First Amendment as long as infringement of my own legally supported rights isn’t involved. There was no doubt of the sincerity of the participants in this religious ceremony. There were prayers, vestments, and liturgy common to any other Christian denomination marriage ceremony. Had you been blindfolded and dropped into this touchingly simple outdoor service, uncoached and uninformed, you would not have been able to distinguish this wedding from the thousands being conducted in the rest of the country on any Saturday afternoon. Jaded as I am about religion, I did get a little misty-eyed when the minister spoke-of the hands being held by the two grooms. As these ceremonies of commitment go the hope is always for a devoted and determined future of mutual and exclusive support through a lifetime of as many years o?iife as our genetic desdny wil1 give us. He described these hands as they are now. young and strong brushing away ~ears of joy and sorrow, touching in moments of intimacy, and when old and wrinkled they’ will sti!l be the hands we want touching us in times of need. ~ view myself as a married man wittl a partner of 32 years, and 1 can identi~! with the sentiments and intentions the minister outlined in his .;ermon. By what fiat of bigoted ignorance can anyone deny me and millions of other gay and Lesbian Americans this legaI right of marriage just because the gender of the two people is the same, choosing to share their bounty and their concerns for as long as they’re able, be it one year or hopefully- a long lifetime? How is that any different from what opposite-gendered people choose to do? To answer my own title, I think marriage is the ability of two responsible people committed to each othm; with a seriousness of purpose, for as long as they are able to hones@ maintain the relationship, with or without the imprimatur of religion. At one time I was a proponent of going nicker the recognition of our gay/ Iesbian equality one right at a time. But at approximately 1,400 indMdual rights bestowed with a completed marriage license, there arefft enough years for even Methuselah to see the success of the movement. I now see that only a dedicated Federal lawsuit, such as the one being brought by Ted Olson and David Boles ( http://tiwurl.com/q6hvip ), will give us the trne definition of marriage we gay and Lesbian citizens need to live our lives with the choice so casually enjoyed by straights. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s pretty exciting to be a gay/lesbian activist these days. Our civil rights movement has been focused on California which has been performing a line dance with basically the lovers of romance and civil rights in one line and the haters of diversity and inclusion in another. With the survival of Prop-Hate in California in late May there are now thirty states that prohibit same-gender marriage by constitutional amendment; thirty-seven prohibit it by statute. Some states even went double-dipping in their vehemence against gays and lesbians with both. But on the sunny side, as of this writing, there are five states that allow same-sex marriage with three states promoting samegender unions. ( http:lhinyurt.comlmq8fev ) I’m not too hot with arithmetic but even I can tell there is some overlapping of statutes and amendments with a minority of states still sitting on the sidelines, waiting and waiting. Waiting for what? Maybe the same thing I’ve been waiting for. A team of lawyers, financial supporters, and plaintiffs willing to put this momentous issue into it’s proper frame: Shall the United States continue with this jurisprudence crazy, quilt of rich progressive action and tawdry, shortsighted discrimination or blanket the country with one legal rtding that allows all adults to make their own decisions for their future regardless of gender, religion, or geographic location? That’s where the odd bedfellows Ted Olson and David Boles come in. These two lawyers, fmnous for being on opposing sides of the Bush v. Gore Supreme Court case that by a one-vote margin put the Bush/Cheney ticket in the White House have filed a Federal lawsuit to place an injunction on the California Supreme Court decision upholding the anti-marriage equality amendment lmown as Proposition 8.7heir plan is to carry this lawsuit up the chain of Federal courts to the US Supreme Court if necessary in order to have a definitive ruling as to whether or not same-gendered people are covered under the 14th Amendment of the Federal Constitution, specifically the clause that all citizens are entided to the full protection of the laws. ( http://tinyurt.com/dypxfp ) Many of the main stream civil rights and gay/lesbian advocacy organizations ( The American Civi! Liberties Union, Lambda Legal, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the Equality Federation, and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation are aghast at the audacity of this plan sponsored by the American Foundation for Equal Rights. ( http:/Itinyurl.comlld6a2w ) I’m no legal eagle but I’m literate, folio~w the news, and can reason, tn addition, my partner and I were among 12 other plaintiffs in the attempt by Oklahoma’s chapter of the ACLU to derail the 2004 Okie version of Prop. 8, known as State Question 71 ! that passed with a 70+% majority vote. The legal strategy being used by the ~.metrostamews.com As t see it, ~here are two important precedents (an important aspect of jurisprudence? from the Supremes that recognize our gay/lesbian citizenship. They are: Lawrence v. Texas ( http://tinyurl. com/br2tj t that eliminated sodomy laws by overturning Bowers v. Hardwick (http:// tinyurl.com/jus3e ), and the Romer v. Evans decision overturning Colorado’s infamous Amendment 2 dewing gay/lesbian citizens protection of state laws( http://tinyurl. com/49m9er ) wherein Justice Kennedy famously wrote that "[Amendment 2] is at once too narrow and too broad. It identifies persons by a single trait and then denies them protection across the board. The resulting disqualification of a class of persons from die right to seek specific protection from the law is unprecedented in our iurisprudence." Let me add that Justice Kennedy is the famous "swing vote" on many Court decisions that are decided by a single vote. Though there have been changes in the names of the j ustices over the years, the legal balance of the Court is still the same: four living in the 18th century, four in the 21st century, with one bridge between them. If politics makes for strange bedfellows and change is die buzz word for this political season, then I think it’s time to change the sheets. As these two well experienced attorneys have wedded dlemselves to marriage equality, I wish them a happy honeymoon. Live long and prosper, Olson and Boles! Joplin First Pride in over ten years JOPHN. MO (PR) In January of this year Rev. Steve Urie of Spirit of Christ MCC asked for volunteers to h~ad up a committee commissioned with the task of planning and bringing together Joplin’s first Pride Event in over ten years. Out of that was born Joplin: Out & About, a collaborative committee made up of people from Spirit of Christ MCC, AT&T and other GLBT groups and members from the community. A target date was set and the planning began. ¯homas, Joanna, Darrell, Jeff, Heath, Shauna and Shea with the intermittent help of others handled the tough iob of keeping it all together. Tne final result was several events through the week including a Karaoke Night, Movie Night and finally Joplin’s Out & About Event in the park. Just ten years ago you would find law enforcement setting traps to catch men in the park cruising. This year with la~v enforcement patrols protecting the event; the community celebrated with groups from Springfield, Galena, Tulsa, the greater Joplin area and as far away as NW Arkansa~s, Weir and Topetca, Kansas taking pride and respect to a new high level for the community. Private and non-profit vendors started signing on as did other local groups including UCC Family Fellowship, Joplin Gays Yahoo Group, Joplin’s GLBT Corporate Center, the support group fi-om AT&T, Planned Parenthood, PROMO, the Pla-Mor Lounge and APO’s local and Springfield’s offices. The Metro Star played an important part in providing sponsorship and coverage of the event. The Topet~ Transgendered Alliance was represented by Steve/Lila & spouse Joy also members of MCC Topeka. Entertainment was provided by a band as well drag queens from Joplin and Springfield. The Gto Center from Springfield, MO showed up in support of the Event, helped with Sponsorship and provided information about their services. We thank everyone who sponsored, supported, participated and just plain attended this event. Rev. Steve Urie & long time partner Heath with festival voluntee~ Staffphoto Held in Joplin’s McClellan Park June 13th and with over 250 people from the GLBTQ community this was a success for our community. Friends, family supporters and the straight community including children and some well behaved canines came together to show that we can be one community that we can work together, play together and respect each other. From Gay Bingo to the sale of Pride Jewelry, entertainment ro fbod. free HIV testing to information, and with MC Brandon everyone had a great time. In addition several boxes of food were donated t~br APO clients through the Angel Food Ministries program. Lots ofentertainment, & good looking guys and gab at joplin Pide Yestiva~ Staffphoto We would like to thank Naomas for his dedication and tenacity in keeping it together; Joanna for gathering equipment, supplies, support mad being one foot soldier you couldn’t top, Darrell for writing the first GLBT Joplin History Booklet, Jeff for putting the boolde.t togethm; Heath for cooking his heart out and all the volunteers that brought it together. With the encouragement of the community at large already pouring in this may have been Joplin’s first Pride event in recent history but clearly won’t be its last. �Wockner News Service New Hampshire legalizes same-sex marriage New Hampshire legalized same-sex marriage June 3 when Gov. John Lynch signed three bills, including one that had cleared the Legislature just an hour eadier. 3-he bills open marriage to same-sex couples starting Jan. 1 and protect certain rights of religious organizations, associations and societies that oppose gay marriage. "Today is a historic day for all Granite Staters," said Mo B~ley, executive director of the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "We applaud Gov. Lynch, (House) Speaker (Terie) Norelli, (Senate) President (Sylvia) Larsen and the leadership of the General Court (legislature) for making sure that all loving, committed couples have the freedom to marry. Today, our shared values of individual liberty, freedom and fairness have been upheld:" The final bill, tsveaking religious protections, passed the Senate 14-10 and th.e House 198-I76. Lynch had required tile additional language as a condition of his agreeing to let gays marry. In announcing his support for same-sex marriage on May 14, Lynch said: "At its core, (this bill) simply changes the term ’civil union’ to ’civil marriage.’ Given the cultural, historical and religious significance of the word marriage, this is a rneaningfu! change. I have heard, and I understand, the very real feelings of same-sex couples that a separate system is not an equal system. That a civiI law that differentiates between their committed relationships and those of heterosexual couples undermines both their dignity and the legitimacy of their families." Tl~e measures signed into law will repea! the state’s civil-union law effective Jan. 1, 2011, and prohibit any new civil unions after Jan. 1, 2010. Same-sex marriage is legal in five other U.S. states: Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (starting in September) and Maine (starting in Septembe0. Nlere also are 18,000 same-sex couples legally married nnder California law, though no more will be allowed to marry until voters repeal Proposition 8, the state constitutional amendment passed last November, or until the U.S. Supreme Court strikes it down Or it is blocked by comx injunction. Gay groups are planning a ballot initiative to delete Prop 8, and a federal lawsuit has been filed charging that Prop 8 violates the due-process and equal-protection clauses of the U.S. Constitution. The lawsuit also says Prop 8 relegates gays and lesbians to second-class citizenship and discriminates based on gender and sexual orientation. It further seeks an injunction allowing same-sex marriage to resttme in California pending resolution of the case. Hi ary Clinton issues pride month statement Secretary of State Hillary Clinton issued a Gay Pride month statement June 1. She wrote: "Forty years ago this month, the gay rights movement began with the Stonewall riots in New York City; as gays and lesbians demanded an end to the persecution they had long endured. Now, after decades of hard work, the fight has grown into a global movement to achieve a world in which al! people live free from violence and fear, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. "In honor of Gay and Lesbian Pride Month and on behalf of the State Department, I extend our appreciation to the global LGBT community for its coui’age and determination during the past 40 years, and I offer our support for the significant work that still lies ahead. "At the State Department and throughout the Administration, we are grateflal for our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender employees in Washington and around the world. They and their families make many sacrifices to serve our nation. Wneir contributions are vital to our efforts to establish stability, prosperity and peace worldwide. "Human rights arc_- at the heart of those efforts. Gays and lesbians in many parts of the world live under constant threat of arrest, violence, even torture. The persecution of gays and lesbians is a violation of human rights and an affront to human decency, and it must end. As Secretary of State, I will advance a comprehensive human rights agenda that includes the elimination of violence and discrimination against people based on sexual orientation or gender identity. "N~ough the road to full equality ibr LGBT Aalaericans is long, the example set by those fighting for equal rights in the United States gives hope to men and women around the world who yearn for a better future for themselves and their loved ones[ "This June, let us recommit ourselves to achieving a world in ~vhich all people can live in safety and freedom, no matter who they are or ~vhom they love." Clinton also is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign ~aqZairs Agencies. The pack,age will include medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment of household effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, isstlance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and language training. Not included are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. Nevada Legislat e overrides governor’s veto of partnership bill Nevada’s Senate and Assembly on May 30 and 31 overrode Gov. Jim Gibbons’ May 25 veto of a domestic-partnership bill. Tne new la~¢ extends to same- and opposite-sex registered domestic parmers nearly all state-level rights and obligations of marriage. The override came without a vote to spare in both the Senate (14-7) and the Assembly (28-!4). In the Senate, 10 Democrats and four Republicans voted for tile override, and five Republicans and two Democrats voted against it. Gibbons had claimed the bill ran afoul of a 2002 state constitutional amendment that defines marriage as between a man and a woman. He also argued that gay couples could go sign private contracts if they desired the protections of marriage for their relationship. "The significance here is it literally equates ’domestic partner’ with ’spouse’ under Nevada state la**;" Michael Ginsburg of the Progressive Leadership Alliance of Nevada told Las Vegas correspondent Steve Friess. "You have the flail force of the law behind you nox~: When you’re in the hospital, forced to ma~e decisions for your partner, all you have to say is, ’This is nay spouse,’ and that carries tremendous weight." .am Lambert Photo: American Idol runner up Adam Lambert Who kalew? American Idol sensation and first runner-up Adam Lambert is a homosexual. "I don’t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I’m gay," Lambert told Rolling Stone June 9. "I’ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I’ve been at clubs drunk malting out with somebody in the corner." "Right after the finale, I almost started talldng about it to the reporters, but I thought, ’I’m going to wait for Rolling Stone, that wil! be cooler,’" he said. "I didfft want tile Clay ’ Aiken thing and the celebrity-magazine bullshit. I need to be able to explain myself in context. ’Tin proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me." Lambert noted, however: "I’m trying to be a singer, not a civil rights leader." July 2009 �State Dept. to give gay couples spousal benefits U.S. Secreta,y of&am HillaO, Clinton is prepari,g to grant spousal ben~ts and protections m diglomau’gay gartne,s. Photo by Rex l)~ckner U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign M~airs Agencies. "Like all families, our Foreign Service t~milies come in different configurations; all are part of the common fiabric of our post communities abroad," Clinton wrote. "The department will provide these benefits for both opposite-sex and same-sex partners because it is the righ~ thing to do’ ~Ihe benefits will indude medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment ofhousehoid effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, issuance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and ,language training. NOt induded in the package are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. "This is a remedy that is long overdue," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese, "For too many years, LGBT Foreign Service officers have been forced to choose between serving their country and protecting their families." Dick Cheney endorses same-sex marriage Former Vice President Dick Cheney came out in support of same-sex marriage June 1 more clearly than he has in the past. Asked about the issue at the National Press Club, Cheney responded: "I think freedom means freedom for everyone. And, as many of you know, one of my daughters is gay, and it’s something that we’ve lived with for a long time in our family. I think people ought to be free to enter into any kind of union they wish, any kind of arrangement they wish. The question of~vhether or not there ought to be a federal statute that governs this, I don’t support. I do believe that historically the way marriage has been regulated is at the state level -- ~his has always been a state issue -- and ~ think that’s the way ff ough~ to be handled ~oday, that is. on a state-by-aa~c basis. D~ffbrem ;tares make d~ff~t’ren~ decision But [ don’t haw prob{cm with that ~ think people ought to get a shot at d~at. And they do a~ present." v#,,w.metrostarnews.com Cheney has made very similar comments before, but they did not go quite as far. In 2004, for example, he said: "I believe today that freedom does mean freedom for everybody. People ought to be free to choose any arrangement they want. It’s really no one else’s business. ~nat’s a separate question from the issue of whether or not government should sanction or approve or give some sort of authorization, if you will, to these relationships. Traditionally, that’s been an issue for the states. States have regulated marriage, if you will. That would be my preference. In effect, what’s happened is that in recent months, especially in Massachusetts, but also in California, but in Massachusetts we had the Massachusetts Supreme Court direct the state of-- the legislature of Massachusetts to modify their constitution to allow gay marriage. And the fact is that the president felt that it was important to make it clear that that’s the wrong ~vay to go, as far as he’s concerned. Now, he sets the policy for this administration, and I support the president." Americans do not support ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Americans overwhelmingly want to see the military’s "Don’t Ask, Do~t Tell" ban on open gays repealed, a new Gallup poll has found. Sixty-nine percent told pollsters it’s time for the ban to go -- including 58 percent of Republicans, 58 percent of self-described co~iservatives and 60 percent 0fwee~y churchgoers. Eighty-sLx percent of liberals oppose the DADT policy, along with 82 percent of Democrats and 78 percent of people between age 18 and 29. Even people over age 65 (60 percent), Southerners (57 percent) and people who didn’t finish high school (57 percent) said it’s time to dump the ban. Said Gallup: "President Barack Obama will be well-positioned to forge ahead with his campaign promise to end the military ban on openly gay service members." Gallup polled 1,105 adults nationwide between May 7 and 10. The organization said it was 95 percent confident that the maximum margin of sampling error was plus or minus 3 percentage points. CALIFORNIA HIV EMERGENCY Schwarzenegger, Legislature may slash HIV funding Gay and HIV advocates rallied at *~e state Capitol in Sacramento, Calif., on time i 0 against draconian cuts in HIVfi~nding proposed by Gov. Arnold Schwar~enegger and under consideration by the Legislature. Wockner News photo by Charlie Peer/Ou~vord Magazine California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has proposed, and the California Legislature is considering, draconian cuts to all types of HIV-related funding in the nea>bankrupt state. In the worst-case scenario, which is still not off the table, slashes to the AIDS Drug Assistance Program could result in thousands of Californians who make less than $41,600 per year losing access to the statelprovided drugs that suppress HIV and keep them dive. In the apparent best,case scenario, not all HIV drugs would be available via ADAP and patients would have to pay part of the cost 0f the ones they could geta That is problematic because some HIVvposirive people have developed resistance to some HIV drugs, and need access to the full arsenal of therapies to stay alive. Further, the current plan apparendy completely eliminates state funding for the tests that determine if a patient is responding to treatment -- such tests as CD4 counts, viral-load measurement and drug-resistance monitoring. Lesbian couple marries it just now took effect. Kitzen Branting, 26, and Jeni Branting, 28, tied the knot in the tribe’s meeting hall. Their marriage will not be recognized by the state of Oregon, but will be legal on the property of the tribe, which is a sovereign ~ nation. on Indian reservation A lesbian couple married on the Coquille Indian reservation in Coos Bay, Ore., May 24. It was believed to be the first such marriage in the U.S. ~ae Coqui!te tribe passed a la~v legalizing same-sex marriage more than a year ago, but These tests are essentially mandatory in HIV treatmm~t. Doctors use them so they can change a nonresponsive patient’s drug combination to another combo that works in that patient -- before the patient’s immune system breaks down further and the patient develops a life-threatening opportunistic infection ............ The current plan apparently also dramatically ~lashes handing for education, prevention, counseling and testing programs. Some 35,000 working- and middleclass Californians who don’t make enough money to pay for their own treatment could be adversely or dangerously affected by the possible cuts to ADAP and elimination of monitoring testing. Gay and HIV advocates have strongly denounced the budget proposals, and a large rally was held at the state Capitol in Sacramento on June 10. Direct Cremation From $595 AI McAffrey Owner / Funeral Director Ban "uptcy o Civil Rights oCriminalEmpl ~ment o Family Law - Litigation MORTUARY SERVICE.,,~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405} 230- 13~0 or ~o800-913q310 625 N.W. 13th Street klahoma City, OK 73103 Pre-Need Plan CReDiT CARDS ACC~PT~E 2415-C North Walnut Avenue. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma STAR 9 �N Wockner News Service 50,000 at EuroPride Some 50,000people ~rned outfor the EuroPride parade, hem in Zurich this year on June ~ Photo by Nikolai Alekseev, GayRussta.ru Some 50,000 people turned out for the EuroPrkle parade, hdd in Zurich this year on June 6. Openly lesbian Zurich Mayor Corine Mauch joined in. Next year, the parade ventures behind the former Iron Curtain to Warsaw -- a city that as recently- as 2005 tried to ban pride, only to be later rebuffed by the European Court of Human Pdghts. Meanwhile, Rom& gay pride parade dr~ more than 100,000 participants June 13~ with a demand fbr legalization of 20,000 march Tel Av v Around 20,000 people joined Tel Aviv’s ! lth gay pride parade June 12. The march ended with a beach ’~edding" of five gay" couples. Same-sex marriage is not legal in Israel. Some top rabbis had urged Prime Minister Beniamin Netanydau m try to ban the parade. They called it an abomination. A few religious right-wingers picketed the march, which was paid for by the city government. ’Tel Aviv is more secular than Jerusalem, where the pride parade routinely leads large numbers of religious folks ~o wail and gnash. Last year’s parade in Jerusalem featured 3,000 naarchers and 2,000 cops to protect them. They walked al! of @ur blocks. ~n 2007, the Jerusalem parade traveled about 500 meters before ultra-Orthodox protesters shut it down, despite the presence orS,000 police o@cers. Prior to the parade, police arrested a man with a bomb. The postparade rally was canceled because striking firefighters refused to provide a required firetruck. In 2005, a counterdemontrator stabbed three marchers at Jerusalem’s marcia and later was convicted of attempted murder. ~ae victims’ iniuries were not serious. same-sex marriage and equa! rights for gay couples. Some 1,500 people marched in Warsaw on June 13, also demanding legalization of same-sex partnerships. "l-he parade, on central Marszalkowska Street, attracted fewer than !00 counterprotesters, who shouted anti-gay vitriol. Five hundred people marched in Zagreb, Croatia, on June t3. Police kept about 50 snarling anti-gays from disrupting the parade. Moscow gays want to picket Obama Moscow Pride founder Nikolai Mekseev says members of his group will attempt to stage a picket in favor of same-sex marriage at the U.S. Embassy on July 7 during President Bara& Obama’s visit. It is unlikely the activists will receive city permission to do so. Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has banned pride parades for the past four years and sent riot police to aggressively arrest those who ignored the bans. Luzl~ov has called gay parades "demonic," "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction." He also has said the bans are for gays own good so that "radical Christians" don’t have a chance to "kill them." Mekseev is hopet~fl that he’ll be able to pull off the picket regardless because "the presidential media pack wilt be in town." Mayor Luz ov lashes out at gays Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has again lashed out at gays, calling them "homos" and calling gay pride parades "demonic." Appearing on a TV program June 2, Luzhkov reportedly said: "Niere are two reasons gay pride parades are unacceptable in Moscow: First and foremost, public morality .does not accept such parades, public morality does nor accept those homos." Secondly, he said: "If they gather together, assuming they are allowed to hold a parade, other people will simply kill them. ~here are radical Christians in Moscow who stand strongly against such demonic manifestations, as they say. "There were attempts made (in May’) to hold the gay parade during the Eurovision Song Contest in Moscova We had to isolate about 19 radical Christians who intended to attack those homos.’ On May, 16, riot police broke up an attempt to stage the fourth annual gay pride parade in Moscov~; arresting up to 80 participants, including gay leader N@olai Ale~eev, British gay leader Peter %tchell and Chicago gay activist Andy Thayen Luzhkov previously has called gay pride parades "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction," and has o@cially banned them each ),ear. Lithuanian Parliament votes ’no promo homo’ law Lithuania’s parliament, the Seimas, approved a measure on first reading June 4 that bans references to homosexuality in schools and in public information that can be visible to children. Tne bill still has to dear a final vote. The tally was 57-2 with 8 abstentions. Many MPs missed the vote. Amnesty International said the "Law on the Protection of Minors Against the Detrimental Effect of Public Information’~ would classify "homosexuality alongside issues such as ... the display of a dead or cruelly mutilated body of a person, and information that arouses fear or horror, or encourages self-mutilatisn or suicide." Nicola Duckworth, Amnesty’s Europe and Central Asia program director, said the proposed law "denies the right to freedom of expression and deprives students’ access to the support and protection they may need." Northern Irish LGBs report high level of hate Twenty-one percent of gay and bisexual men and I8 percent of lesbian and bisexual women iri Northern Ireland say they\,e been the victim of a homophobic hate crime or incident in the past three years. The figure comes fi’om a survey of I,t43 LGB people catrried out by the Rainbow Project with funding from the Police Service of Northern Ireland. Tne study found that 64 percent of such incidents were not reported to police and 30 percent resulted in physical injui3: ebec to 1attach strategy against homophobia Quebec Justice Minister Kathleen Well has announced the Canadian province will implement a comprehensive strategy against homophobia before the end of the year. She broke the news at a May I7 rally marking the International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO). "We see it as a major step forward here since doing so, Quebec will ackmowledge officially that homophobia -- and not homosexuality -- is a social problem and take action, instead of passively banning discrimination, said Magazine ]~tre Editor Andrd Gagnon. "As far as I know, it will be the first government in the world to adopt such a strategy that will cover all its spheres of intervention," he said. China sees its first gay pride week China saw" its first-ever gay pride week June 7-14 in Shanghai. Events included movies, plays, art exhibits, panel discussions, swimming and badminton competitions, and a big party, thouglx at least one play" and one film were ordered canceled by authorities. Some 500 people attended a barbecue/ drag shiny/fashion show/hot-body contest on June 13. Organizers decided against holding a parade, saying it iust didn’t seem to be legally possible, according to China Daily: "Shanghai Pride is a community-building exercise," co-organizer Tiffany Lemay told the English-lang~aage paper. "We hope to raise awareness of issues surrounding homosexuality, raise the visibility of the gay community, help people within our community to come out, and build bridges between the gay and straight communities." 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) O lahoma’s NV/S ’# l otlin PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) @O,P,E, Testing Clinic ~ens O@reach In Tulsa at (9’~8) July 2009 �i t÷matie Ruling: English adoption agencies .Gay marriage campaign launched cannot discriminate m Portugal The Charities Commission of England and Wales ruled June 2 that adoption agencies cannot discriminate against gay couples. The commission cited the Equality Act (Sexual Orientationl Regulations 2007, which ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. Violation of the law would lead to a loss of charity status and public funding. The ruling came in a case involving the Catholic Care charity in Leeds, which wanted to amend its official statement of objectives with the commission to exclude consideration of gay couples. Denmark is not gay nirvana Denmarlq the first nation in the world to legalize gay partnerships, in 1989, still has a problem with homophobia. Eighteen percent of GLBT people in Copenhagen and 8 percent in other parts of the country say they’ve been discriminated against based on their sexual orientation in the past year, according to a report from the Center for Alternative Social Analysis. GLBT people between ages 16 and 29 reported more problems than older people. A total of 3,400 homophobic incidents were reported to police in 2008, the study said. A report in the Politiken newspaper said gay businesses also have been targeted. Copenhageds oldest gay ba~; Centralhiornet. had rocks thrown through its windows six times in 2008. Patrons also have been bombed with eggs through the bar’s open door. Australian prison OKs gay con}ugal visits Xhe Alexander Maconochie prison in Australia’s Capital Territory has decided to let gay inmates receive conjugal visits six times a year. The policy applies to prisoners who are ~vell-behaved and whose partner is not also incarcerated at the facility. Reports said that the state of Victoria. where Melbourne is located, is the only other place in Australia where gay inmates can have sex dates with their partners. Bosnian churches oppose anti- discrimination bill Bosnia and Herzegovina’s Interreligious Council is opposing a.bill to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation, claiming it will lead to legalization of same-sex marriage. The measure has passed first reading in the House of Representatives. A national law banning discrimination based on sexual orientation is a requirement for any nation that wants its citizens to be able to travel within the European Union without obtaining a visa. Nae Interreligious Council is composed of representatives of the nation’s Roman Catholics, Muslims, Jews and Orthodox Christians. Balkanlnsight.com said it is unttsual for the council "to agree on any concrete actions and (it) often has been blocked by internal boycotts." w,,~w.rnetrostarnews.com The Movement for Equality in Access to Civil Marriage launched on May 31 in Lisbon, Portugal. More than 1,000 people signed onto the campaign, including politicians, well-known actors, pop singers and businesspeople, and Nobel Prize winner Josd Saramago, who was honored for literature in 1998. The campaign’s manifesto, which nmv can be signed by anyone in Portugal, states, in part: "Equal access to civil marriage is a matter of justice that deserves the support of all people who oppose homophobia and discrimination .... We citizens who believe in equal rights, dignity and recognition for all of us -- for our families, friends and colleagues -- join our voices to express our support for equality. "We call this change necessary, fair and urgent because we know that the current situation of inequality divides society between those who are included and those who are excluded, between persons who are inside and marginalized persons .... We now have an opportunity to end one of the last unjustified (instances of) discrimination written in our law." Peru gay police ban less stringent than reported Peruvian Interior Minister Mercedes Cabanillas says recent news reports that gays have been banned from being police officers were not quite right. Mid-May reports said cops who have sex with people of the same sex would be banned because they cause scandal and denigrate the police’s image. But Cabanillas says the new law, which took effect May 12, will only ban gay cops if their gay-related public behavior is scandalous or damages the image of the institution. She said the ministry has no desire to "get in anyone’s bed" and that officials only wish to target unseemly, embarrassing or scandalous occurrences or attitudes related to sexual orientation that happen in the public sphere. Gay groups said the taw is problematic and discriminatory either way because ir seems to suggest that certain public expressions of homosexuality are more likely ro run afoul of the law than similar public expressions of heterosexuality. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission and Movimiento Homosexual de Lima have launched a letter-~vriting campaign to Peru’s public defender, =’asldng her to file an Action of Unconstitutionality with the Constitutional Court to cl!allenge the so-called ’offense’ of same-sex relations and its associated penalty." "We write to express our concern over Law 29356, vchich establishes a new disciplinary code for the Peruvian police, and stipulates in Article 34 that it is a serious offense to ’have sex with people of the same gender that causes scandal or undermines corporate image,’" a sample letter says in part. "This law is a clear violation of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the Covenant on Civil and Political Rights -- both of which have been signed by Peru. This regressive law also violates the Andean Charter, a regional treaty ratified by Peru in 2002 .... Finally, Law 29356 is inconsistent with human rights principles that are already, codified in Peruvian law. On December 1, 2004, a new Constitutional Procedures Code, approved by Parliament, modified constitutional procedures to recognize discrimination based on sexual orientation." Centrelink assistance encompasses such things as health care, prescription drugs., unemployment payments, disaster aid,,rent subsidies, aid to single parents and a wide range of other benefits and welfare programs. "From 1 July 2009 changes to legislation wilt mean that customers who are in a same-sex de facto relationship will be recognised as partnered for Centrelink and Family Assistance Office purposes," says the agenc)?s Web site. "All customers who are assessed as being a member of a couple will have their rate of payment calculated iri the same way." Colombian policeman added to partner’s health insurance The Board of Health of Colombia’s National Police granted health-insurance benefits to the partner of a gay officer May 14. The extension of coverage to Fabifin Mauricio Chibcha Romero followed a January ruling by the nation’s Constitutional Court that granted marital rights to commonlaw same-sex couples in areas that indude civil service, contracts ~vith the government, housing protection and assistance, immigration, social security, death indemnification, and criminal noninctimination. ~Pne activist group Colombia Diversa said the ruling encompassed all the "civil, political, social, economic, criminal and immigration rights ... of a common-law union, minus adoption." Chibcha also gained access to police housing subsidies and vacation dubs. METRO P O L!TAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve ~. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM WWg~¢. S 0 cmcc. Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! Australian benefits agency recognizes gay de facto couples Centrelink, the Australian government’s social-benefits agency, will treat gay de facto couples as married for benefits purposes starting July 1. While the move increases equality, it also will result in a loss of benefits for some coupled gays, who previously qualified based on their individual income. ~,tr®STAR 11 �Looking some good summerwtt te wines. monm, we are art a ou- Viognier [vee-oh-nay] For those who haven’t experienced Viognier, the first glass is quite a revelation. This wine will embody al! Or some of the following: honeysuckle, citrus blossoms, t~,chee, ripe melon, freshly picked.peaches 6r apricots and ripe pear. Winemaker Craig Williams, from Josep~ ~nhe~s Vin~;a,~s, s~s Viognier contains floral compounds called ~Terpens. Tl~ey are also found in Muscat and Pdesling. So, think of the most aromatic Muscat or Riesling you’ve ever encountered, then concentrate it and you have Viognier. The majoriV of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Rl~one wine region, the grape is o~en blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. In the Northern part of Rhone, the grape is sometimes blended with Chardonnay. Since the late 1980s, plantings of Viognier in the United States and Cagada have increased dramat, ically. The Rhone R~angers of the mid 1980 s help spark the increased interest in Viognier in California and now Californigs Central Coast is the leading producer. months recipe courtesy of: Crab Ingredients 1 Cup Mayonnaise 4 Eggs 1 V2 Cup Japanese Breadcrumbs 2 T Granulated Garlic 2 T Onion Powder 2 - I lb Cans Jumbo Lump Crab Meat (Indonesian or Philippine) 2 - 1 lb Cans Bacldin Crab Meat (indonesian or Philippine) 12 most widet l~ted white , ..... ?~ P ~ , [, wine grape, veraemo is cl~slHeo as a noble or classic grape. On the PortuDtese mainland, it is recommended in the DAO region and with the production of white port. Some Portuguese locales call this Gouveio. The Godello grape grown in northwest Spain is believed to be the same variety as Verdelho. %e grape has been successful in the vineyards of Australia, particularly the Hunter \~lley region, Langhorne Creek and the Swan Xga!le?: Australian versions of Verdelho are noted for their intense flavors vdth hints of lime and honeysuclde. California is producing more of this varietal as ,sell. St. Amant 2006 California Marquis Philips 2007 Australia Verdejo [ver-day-ho] This is a variety of wine grape that has long been grown in the Rueda winegrowing region of Spain. The grape originated in North Africa, and was spread to Rueda in about the 1 lth Century. For most of this time Verdejo was generally used to make a strongly oxidized, Sherry-like wine, In the 1970s the > ~ Marcheregiono~:~yand~ < fthe}lord to wpicNly Sauvignon blanc ~ Macab~o. Xg ,~. Mar&etti~07 it~~ ~" *~ >::~ Fazi,B; t~gli~ ~007 Italy desiunated "Rueda V?rdejo must contaifi o .. * .......... 85% Verdejo, and are oAen 100% Verde’o ....... ~d[as ~wws, Isay go to your favorite wing/~ Verdejo winm are aromatic, often ~oA . ~k questions ~d purchase a bottle or and Rdl-bodied. %ey can be somewhat : Share some food& wine with friendd reminiscent of Sauvignon blanc a~d ehe~k this out for yourself. warm climate. Gar~i Grande 2007 Spain Marquis de Riscal 2007 Spain ,Vouv~ay[vooh-~ay] ’,Wines fi’om the French to the east of Tours are made in range of styles fi-om the Chenin Vintages in the Loire are variable, best years Vouvray can produce very long-lived white wines. It turns out that most chenin blanc 1970s what most generic, alcoholic" " by corporations consumed in rather than wine chenin blanc is exhibiting a nutty, Pichot 2007 Nais writer is one of the managers at the Grand Vin wine shop at Utica Square. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events around town known as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. indude: / www. la~neSpecta- Verdicchio Preparation: Mix first 5 ingredients together by hand. Drain Crab meat cans of water. Fold in Baclcfin crab meat first and then gently fold in jumbo lump crab meat being careful not to break up the lumps. If mixrure is too wet. add 1A cup more of Japanese Breadcrumbs. Mixture should barely hold together. DO NOT PU/T .~NY ADDITIONAL SEASONINGS OR TOO MUCH BRREADCRUMBS IN! The drizzle on top of the crab cakes will give ir all of the seasoning it will need. Preheat a skillet over medium-high heat with half an 20 inch of corn oil. Once the mixture is made, take a 4 ounce scoop and pack in the crab cake mixture. Carefully place the flat side of the crab cake down in the oil for approximately ! - 2 minutes until golden brmvn. Place the crab cake on a pre-greased baking sheet, fried side up. These can now be held for up to 5 days in the refrigerator or finished offin the oven immediately; the ba~ DRIZZLE INGREDIENTS (BAY MAYO) 1 Cup Mayonnaise 2 T Old Bay Dash of Granulated Garlic % Cup Heavy Cream July 2009 �Big-screen beckons Nell Patrick Harris xYvq~ite hosting this year’s Tony Axvards, Nell Patrick Harris joked about his second-class status as a "TV guy." But he’s atready proven he’s hilarious on the big screen in the Harold & Kumar movies, so now that second-tier status is about to change with two new film projects on the horizon. Harris has joined the cast of Beastly, the new film from gay director Daniel Barnz (Phoebe in Wonderland) that Romeo’s already reported on here, but the How I Met Your Mother star wilt also be playing a lead role in The Best and the Brightest. Harris plays a husband - way to break that gay-actor-curse NPH - from Ddaware whose wife goes bananas about social status when they move to New York City and try to get their kid into an elite kindergarten. Amy Sedaris, John ~ and Kate Mulgrew al~0 star in ~he latter; hit theaters before the end of 20!0. ~LSA, 0g (PR). Continuing the m0fithl9 ShOwcase of local artists a the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa ~ right next to Living Arts (Ok ) How to make a monster musicaJ Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway Focus Features photo More and more movies are being made from poptflar Brokeback spouses reunite childhood toys, from dolls (Kit Kittredge: An American Girl) to action figures (Transformers) tO even board games Granted, the romance between Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway in (Clue). But now we’re getting a movie musical based on a toy Brokeback Mountain was a tragic one involving the closet and deception and that doesn’t even exist yet and will presumably be marketed death, but these actors are determined to give it another go in a movie where he alongside the film itself. Gay super-producers Craig Zadan won’t be playing a gay cowboy. Love and Other Drugs will feature Gyllenhaal and Nell Meron are reuniting with Hairspray composeras a pharmaceutical sales rep for Pfizer during the time when a revolutionary lyricist Marc Shaiman and lyricist Scott gc’ittman to make litde blue pill was hitting the market (the film is based on the book Hard Sell: an original screen musical around an as-yet-unnamed Mattel Tne Evolution ofa Viagra Salesman) while Hathaway will play a woman with monster toy. Every~daing’s being kept very much on the Parldnson’s with whom he begins a relationship after they meet on a sales hush-hush, but the one thing that’s been revealed is that the call. Ed Zwick (Glor~ Defiance) is set to direct, with Shooting set to happen property will "add a fresh twist to monster lore." No word possibly as early as this fall. A movie about Viagra may make audiences stand at yet on when this new musical will go into production, but attention, but if the film lasts more than four hours, please, call your doctor. Romeo bets five bucks that if the movie and the toy do well, an eventual Broadway adaptation is inevitable. And TV Romeo San PTcente hopes the monster-toy musical will be like the Dra~da puppet rock operaj~om _Forgetting Sarah Marshall_, complete withfull-fl’ontal male nudity. He can be reached care of show. And more toys. And sequels. And ... will feature Tulsa Artist Michael Cooper with an opening show and reception on Thursday, July 2nd from 6-gpm and continuing throughout the month of July. Michael Cooper is an emerging artist in the Oldahoma scene, specializing in journalistic art, music, and portrait photography. In 2008 he joined Urban Tulsa Weekly as a staff photographer and has seen his work published in notable other Okie publications, induding Oklahoma Gazzette and Oklahoma Today Magazine. In his own words, "I have two eyes and one lens, and they battle each other for experiences daily. The way I see it - few people get to live their passion, and being an artist is mine. I’m just trying this road of exploration out, and I hope you’re there along for the ride". this publication or at DeeplnsideHollywOod@qsyndicate.com. www.metrostarnews.corn gg{<~{:a~oSTA, R 13 �MCC United ~°~"-~~o’~°" 918-838-171~ Metropolitan Community Chu~h put tb Chr° y Church 14 ;~÷troSTAR July 2009 �www.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 15 ��PHILADELPHIA, PA "As in one of the most beautiful and interesting cities in the country" Wayne Fuller reported on gossipboy.com, an by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Oklahoma internet news service focused on You could easily spend a whole ~veek in this beautiful city and still not see everything. The architecture is unbelievably tremendous. On weekends, the Penn Landing downtown is full of vendors and local artists. Philadelphia is certainly a city that is welcoming gay travelers with open arms. There are just a handful of cities that you must visit in the country and Philadelphia is certainly" on our short list. Most cities you still need a car to travel around however not in this city. They have such a great public transportation system and is extremely safe and clean. Why can’t all cities do this? For more information on Philadelphia, visit: www.gablesbb.com and they are located at 4520 Chester Avenue. Phone: 215.662. ! 918. ?dso visit w~v<ka~ockphilly. the GLBT community, that Mr. Chiles had been convicted of Obtaining Money by False Pretenses in McClain County in 2006, for which he received a 2 year deferred sentence now completed. Since then a warrant for his arrest was issued for the same offense in Pontotoc County, which was in effect when he was elected to his Democratic Party position. COLT1 [)how: Gables Bed and Breakfizst Visiting Philadelphia for the first time -was certainly, a very exciting and interesting time for us. We knew ahead of time al! about the historical things to see and do but had no idea what else to expect. We first checked into The Gables Bed and Break~st which has been owned for the past 16 years by ~rren Cederholm and Don Caskey. Located in the University part of the city, it is a grand old Victoria home full of wonderful antiques from top to bottom. ~e house has a "wrap around" porch for guests to sit and have drinlcs and snacks or just to view the sights and sounds of the area. Each room is beautifully decorated in antiques. A full, and we do mean FULL sit down breakfast in the ~orma! dining room is served each morning. XYge are not talking doughnuts and coflree but a fail sit down brealNast. This was a perfect way to talk with the other guests to find out what others did the day" be~bre or were going to do that day. "While there we met guests from California, Alabama and all over. Many of the guests alwws stay there when visiting Philadelphia. Warren and Don are graciotts hosts and. al%r 16 years of taking guests into their lovely home, they seem to have been able to do it the right way< Another great thing about staying at The Gables is that the trolley system runs right in front of their house and you can take it downtown in just minutes, and it runs about every 20 minutes a!l day 10ng. The), have ample off-street parking behind their house which is a big plus. To begin your day, take the trolley downtown. From that point you can take another bus or ,valk south to the famous historical district of Philadelphia and visit all the places there. No trip to Philadelphia would be complete without visiting the Liberty Bell and the other historical places that are located within a few blocks of there. Philadelphia is proud of their art museums as well they, should be. ~-he Philadelphia www.metrostamews.com Museum of Art is a first class museum and is a MUST for anyon& visit to the cits: A few blocks away is the Rodin Museum which houses more Rodin sculptors any~vhere except for Paris. There are maW other museums to visit also. Of course every visitor to Philadelphia must try one of their famous Philly Cheesesteak sandwiches for lunch. There are a lot of gay bars in the ’~gayborhood" area of the city which is iust a few blocks west of downtmvn and easily ~vithin ~valking distance from the public transportation. Knock was our very favorite bar there. It is what a gay bar should be all about ....... A clean bar where the owner/management/staff is super friendly; wl~ere the customers are super friendl> where you can walk in and really enioy yourself, located righ~ on the corner of Locust St. and I2th Street. They also have an excellent res~urant located in the bar. ~Pnis is one of the finest restaurants in the city ~vith fine white linen tablecloths and napkins on every table. Jim the Maitre ’d is extremely professional. The servers are very professional. They have a huge menu offering the very finest of cuisine. Owned by Bill Wood, this bar/restaurant is extremely popular with both people ~vho live in the city as ~vell as travelers. We were fortunate during our stay to see the Broadway pla}~ Grey Gardens which is about the life of the aunt and cousin of Jackie Kennedy- Onassis. They lived in a 24 room house in the Hamptons on Long Island but were extremely poor and let their house run down something horrible. Mother and daughter loved (and hated) each other but were bound to live with each other until the mother finally died. There was a movie made about their lives and HBO came out with another movie a couple of months ago. Both live theatre as well as the visua! arts are a huge makeup in Philadelphia. Another great website to visit is: http://www.gophita.com/c/your_ philadelphia/14/diverse_philadelphia/287/ gay~friendly_philadelphia/4.html and wwcw. gayphiladelphia.com On a personal note, we want to thank Bruce Yelk, Director of Human Resources & Gay Marketing, Greater Philadelphia Tourism marketing Corportation and to our friend Buster Stevens who hosted a wonderful dinner for us xvhile we were visiting. Photo: Famous Liber~_y Bell Philadelphia, PA Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Robert Chiles, Director & Founder ofPrject Pride Foundation of Oklahoma. Gorin photo On June 8, represented by attorney Gordon Melson, he appeared in court in Pontotoc Count-5: An agreement was reached ~vith the warrant withdrawn, and Robert ~vould have until August 27 to make restitution to the parties involved. On June 3, when cast members from the national tour of "The Drowsy Chaperone" did a benefit at Tulsa’s Renegades Club for Until There’s a Cure, an organization helping those with HIV. Mr. Chiles presented them with a large check payable to that organization. It likewise would not clear his bank. Mr. Chiles had been contacted by that organization and he promised them a cashier~ check which was not received as of press time. Following this, Mr. Chiles had asked the Red Ribbon Revue, a monthly benefit show performed at Renegades, to do a benefit for his Foundation. In a statement to gossipboy. corn Renegades entertainer Tabitha Taylor stated, "I’m glad this was caught before we did a fundraiser with the name attached." ~÷{~oSTAR 17 �18 July 2009 �,~.metrostarnews.com ~®~°~STAR t9 �By Camper English Crafting the Cosmopolitan ~he Cosmopolitan is one tasty cocktail and probably most popular drink created in the last 30 years, but it is not magically original. The recipe calls for lemon vodka, lime iuice, orange liqueur, and a splash of cranberry for color. Minus the cranberry, the drink follows the formula of spirit plus lime plus orange liqueur. If that spirit is tequila, that’s a Margarita. If it’s unflavored vodka, that’s a Kamikaze. In fact. the prevailing theory on the creation of the Cosmopolitan is that it ,vas a spin-offofthe Kamikaze created by a Miami bartender named Cheryl Cook in 1985 or !986. She said the Cosmo is. ~ ~ "Merely a Kamikaze with Absolut Citron and a splash of cranberry juice." But her version called for Rose’s lime juice, a bottled lime juice that’s a poor substimte for freshsqueezed, and triple sec, which usually refers to the low-end orange liqueurs that are poor substitutes for Cointreau. These items are often served at high-volume bars that want to save money on (admittedly pricey) orange liqueur and don’t want their bartenders taldng the time to squeeze limes for each drink. But I find the Cosmo-to be intolerable ~vithout them. So too did Toby Cecchini, a New York bartender credited with finessing the drink into its best form. Someone told Cecchini about the drink, but in their version it was made with unflavored vodka, Rose’s lime, and the red-colored syrup grenadine. He liked the look of the drink - soft pink and served in a Martini glass - and experinaented ~vith ingredients to make the flavor match the fashion. In the end, his version came out just like Cheryl Cook’s version, but with better ingredients. This version caught on like wildfire in New York. causing Cecchini and other bartenders to make them by the thousands. In the era of bottled sour mix and vermouthflee Martinis. this drink seerned highmaintenance enough for Cecchini to call them "labor-intensive pink monstrosities." ~e trick to making a good pink monstrosity; even if you have the proper ingredients, is getting the ratio of them. right. Apparently this is a problem for bartenders ~oo - i’ve had Cosmopolitans i~ every shade from c!¢ar to deep red. When I make them at borne, I’m ~o~- laz/to Ioot up ~[~e recipe so I }ust ake ir ,,~ ingredient ar a vitae: ~ couo~e ounces of Charon a smat~ splash of Cointreau. and a large quantity of’lime. 2O ~:mSTAR (I like them tart.) I make mine in keeping ,vith Cheryl Cook’s original instructions of ~jttst enough cranberry to make it oh so pretty in pink." That’s my starting point, anyway. One thing I’ve learned making this drink is that cranberry juice, like slimming black clothing, hides many sins. Even if you get the initial ratios of liquor and juice all wrong, or have to resort to bottled lime )uice and bottom-shelf triple sec, you can always make a drinkable version of this drink. Just keep adding cranberry until it’s good. The trick is finding the right fit for each gin fqr your mouth. I prefer the old-style gins in a Martini, Aviation, Pink Gin, and Negroni. With the more-floral, less-juniper gins I like the Salty Dog, Gimlet, White Lady, and Vesper. But I find that no matter what kind of gin you have in the house you can always add it to tonic water and it will taste just fine. Tonic is the mixer that swings both ways. Vodka, Now Available in Juniper Flavor Miss Gay Oklahoma 2009 Crowned in O KC I like to think of"bathtub gift" as "Martinis by the poo!." but that’s not where the expression originated. It came about during Prohibition xvhen people would "make" their own gin by adding mail-order juniper flavoring to lowquality alcohol to help mask its awfulness. 2the weird tiring is, gin cocktails were awfully popular back then. Today it is still legal to make gin this way- not in the bathtub. but by adding juniper oil and other flavors to a neutral spirit like vodka. Thankftdly, most of the gins with which we’re familiar don’t do it like that. Gin usually starts with high-proof neutral spirit made from grains like corn, wheat, and rye. The gin distiller then selects a range of botanicals or botanical oils to infuse into the spirit, then redistills everything together. There are many different distilling methods gin makers employ, but this is probably only interesting to folks like me ~vho spend our spare time hanging out in distilleries on vacation. More interesting are the types of botanicals that go in to gin. Traditional brands like Beefeater, Plymouth, and Tanqueray contain many ingredients like citrus peels, coriander, cinnamon, and cassia bark. Newer gins on the market like Bombay Sapphire, Hendrick’s, and Martin Miller’s also include things like lavender, ginseng, rose, and green tea. All gins, by definition, must contain jtmiper (berries that smell like pine trees) as a dominant flavor, but the newer ones tend to put less of it in. While vodka lovers and gin lovers are usually different sorts of people (though I find versatility provides more options in the bedroom and the liquor cabinet)~ when it comes right down to it gin is really just juniper-flavored vodka. If you’ve got vodka drinkers over for cocktails and you only have gin left, just tell them their drinks are made with "botanical vodka." If you’re in the opposite situation, tell them the vodka is "diet gin." Lying to your guests is the most entertaining part of entertaining them. The combination and concentration of the juniper, spices, citrus, and other botanicals is what gives each gin its unique flavor and makes it a better or worse fit for different cocktails. Some modern gins are so very citrusy and floral that they can be too perfumey for a Martini. (Hey, this drink smells like grandma!} On the other hand. when you add an intensely juniper-heaW gin ro a Gimlet or other mild cockt ills. s~metimes all you ~aste b rhe juniper. (Hey, this drink smells like where ~ ~andma is buried!~ Camper English is a cocktails and spirits writer andpublisher ofAlcademics.com. By Victor Gorin worked their hearts out, hoping to be the next Miss Gay Oklahoma. Emceed by former Miss Gay America 2006 Nicole Dubois & former Miss Gay Oklahoma 2005 Pure Chocolate (as Steven), it got wild Saturday night as it wound down to 5 finalists with their friends cheering on their favorites. That fun fabulous contest came to a conclusion on Saturday night June 13 when Shantel Mandalay finally won the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma America after many years of pursuing that dream. A proud 3rd grade teacher who also coaches Special Olympics, Miss Mandalay and her entourage wowed the audience with a fast stepping dance routine to the C&W classic "The Devi! went down to Georgia" that brought the house down. It was also an emotional time for the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer when she passed on her tide, joining many other former Miss Gay Oklahomas who were there for the occasion. Together with 1st alternate Samantha \Vest. Shantel will be eligible to compete in the national Miss Gay America competition to be held this year in St.Louis October 28.November 1. Left: 2008 Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer, 1st altetmam Samantha West, Shantd l~£andalay &Miss Gay America Victoria DePaula. Gorin Photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It was a festive weekend June 11-13 at Angles in Oklahoma City when once again the girls lIGHT BILENT AUCTION- AND RAFFLES Dd. IKEY TURNS UP THE WITH OlSDg ALL NIGHT July 2009 �~’#~W. metrostam ews.com �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ OGRA Pool Party, OKC @ The Copa Oklahoma City @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Finishlinel Oklahoma City @ OGRA Rodeo, OKC Tulsa Pride 09 Parade @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Tulsa Pride 09 Parade �www.metrostarnews.com , <,STAR 23 �Oban~a administration defending DOMA is shocking and unsetding. Clearly, our selfdescribed ’fierce advocate’ needs significant additional pushing and pressure from all of US." Popular blogger John Aravosis: "A Democratic president of the United States of i~erica, in the year 2009. and an AfricanB~nerican child of inter-racial parents no less, gave his la~wers the go ahead ro compare our marriages to incest on the same day that 42 years ago the Supreme Court ruled in [ais parents’ favor in Loving v. Virginia .... We demand our rights, and we expect this president, who promised them in exchange [or millions of our votes and millions of our donations, to deliver. And so help me God, we will continue to hold this president accountable for his broken promises and his betrayals]" Lambda Lega!’s Legal Director Jon Davidson: "X~at they need to be asked is why they gratuitously went out of their -way ~o make the outrageous arguments they unnecessarily included such as that DOM2~ does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or that the right ar issue is not marriage but an unestablished rigi~t ~o ’same-sex marriage or that DOMA is somehow iustified in order to protect taxpayers ~;ho don’t want their tax do!lars used ro suppor~ lesbian and gay couples iwhile it~ apparently fine to make lesbians and gay men pay the same rm,:es but be &nied the benefits provided heterosexual couples) .... I am seething mad." Top Clinton aide R5chard Socarides: "It had such a buckshot approach ro it, a veritable kitchen sink of anti-gay legal theories, that it seemed expressly designed to inflict maximal damage ro our rights. Instead of malting nuanced arguments which took into account the president’s oi?-stated support for repealing DO1VLA -- a law he has called ’abhorrent’ -the brief seemed to embrace DOMA and all its horrific consequences," Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors: "We ... call on President Obama m order the Justice Department ro file a supplemental brief reversing its position and instead urging the repeal of DOMA." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey: "The malicious and outrageous arguments and language used in the Department of Justice’s marriage brief is only serving to inflame and malign the humanity of same-sex couples and our families." Gay writer Dan Savage: "If this shit is ’fierce advocacy,’ Mr. President, we’ll take benign neglect.7 CBS News: "The anger from gay rights advocates toward President Obama is starting to boil over." ~!~e Wall Street Journal called Sotmonese’s letter to Obama "scathing." The New York Times editorialized: "The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has nor done much, actually struck a blow" for the other side last week.... If the administration does feel compelled to defend (DOMA), it should do so in a less hurtful wa~: ... There was no need to resort to specious arguments and inflammatory language to impugn samesex marriage as an institution." Plans apparently are shaping up for a gay March on Washington in October, spearheaded, it appears, by veteran activist Cleve Jones, the man who created the NAMES Proiect AIDS Memorial O~ilt."The President is in serious danger of motivating a huge mass of gay people to stream into \Ygashington for the simple ioy of standing in front of the White House and giving him a piece of their minds," wrote syndicated gay columnist \gayne Besen. "For what seemed Iike forever, Democrats told us that when the big bad Republicans went away, our lives would improve," Besen said. "XN~ell, the Republican nightmare is over, so why do I still feel like I’m in the middle of a political Friday the 13th movie? ... As far as I’m concerned, if the donkeys can’t detiv(r now, they can Idss my ass." On June 17, when Obama "delivered" to federal employees a smattering of spousal benefits, via issuance of a "memorandum," he did again denounce DOblA. "I think we all have to acknowledge this is only one step," the president said. the steps we have not yet t~en is to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. I believe it’s discriminatory, I think it interferes ,vith states’ rights, and we will work with Congress ro overturn it. \rUe’re gor more work to do to ensure that government treats all its citizens equally, to figh~ iniustice and intolerance in all its forms, and to bring about that more perfect union. I’m committed to these efforts, and I pledge to work tirelessly on behalf of these issues in the months and years to come.Obama also expressed support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act. "Under current law, we cannot provide same-sex couples with the full range of benefits enjoyed by heterosexual married couples," he said. "That’s why I’m proud to announce rny support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act, crucial legislation that will guarantee these rights for all federal employees. I want to thank Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who is behind me somewhere -- there she is, right there -- for her tireless leadership on this bill and in the broader struggle for equality. I want to thank Sen. Joe Lieberman -- Joe is here -- as well as Susan Collins for championing this bill in the Senate, and Rep. Barney Frank for his leadership on this and so many other issues." Sounds good, but gay activists ~veren’t impressed. They want action. "We commend President Obama ana his administration for taking this beginning step to level the playing field but we look forward to working with him to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, overturn ’Dofft Ask, Don’t Tell’ and guarantee the entire American worl6brce is free from discrimination," said HRC’s Solmonese. The Associated Press said, "His (Obama’s) critics -- and there were many -- saw Wednesday’s incremental move to expand gay rights as litde more than pandering to a writer Dan / Savage: "If ’\ dais shit is ’fierce advocacy; Mr. President, we’ll take benign \... neglect." / reliably Democratic voting bloc." Lamb& Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart: "While ending any of the discrimination against gay and lesbian federal employees is a welcome step, today’s ... announcement falls far short of our hopes and expectations. President Obama dearly understands how important it is for people to have health insurance coverage ro protect their loved ones and this plan does not provide that. Lambda Legal is representing Karen Golinsldi, a federal employee who works for the judicial branch and who is seeking health insurance coverage for her same-sex spouse. A federal judge has already issued an administrative decision in that matter, concluding that, within the existing roles, the federal government can choose to provide health insurance for same-sex partners. Vie think they should.... The day is long past for incomplete, piecemeal fixes that leave hard-worldng families uninsured and struggling." People For the American W’ay President Michael B. Keegan: "Today’s presidential memorandum is a very small step in the right direction, but it’s a token, and tokens are no longer enough. DOMA stands in the way of real progress for same-sex couples nmv denied federal recognition and protection, and its repeal is tong overdue. President Obama has a unique ability to provide the moral leadership to ensure that all Americans are treated equally under the law. but so far he has failed to exercise it. We urge the president to live up to his own rhetoric about being a ’fierce advocate’ fbr gay and lesbian Americans. Taking action on his pledge to repeal DOMA would be ~vorthy of the vision that he held out to Americans during his campaign NGLTF’s Carey: "This presidential memorandum today will extend some selected protections to the same-sex partners and families of federal employees .... This memo is one building block toward full equality, and much more remains to be done in order for the administration to live up to the promises of equality the president made as a candidate on the campaign trail .... We also call on the president to take additional steps that will have a positive impact on our health, our livelihoods and our families’ safety that do not require legislative action. These include reversing the standing policy of the U.S. Census Bureau to manually un-marry any same-sex couple who lawfully states they are married on the 2010 census, extending employment protections to federal employees based on gender identity, and reversing the regulations that continue to throw roadblocks in the way of HIV-positive individuals who want to travel to this country." NCLR’s Kendell: "The policy announced today by the president committing to a federal ~vorkplace free from discrimination is a step in the right direction but inadequate and long overdue. It leaves out millions of Amerieans who do not work for the federal government and fails to include key benefits including health insurance. When running for office, then candidate Obama called equality for LGBT people a ’moral imperative.’ We will continue to demand this administration live up to the president’s promise of achieving ’full equality for the millions of LGBT people in this country.’" The language is strong and the front is unified. Nae White House clearly is listening, but when will our "fierce advocate" act? Writing on his house.gov Web site June 16, gay U.S. Rep. Jared Polls, D-Colo., said: "I am a proud Democrat, as are many in the LGBT community, and I believe we must hold our leaders accountable. The Obama Administration made a HUGE mistalte in the DOMA brief. If they keep malting mistakes like this. they risktosing the support of the GLBT community forever, although I do not believe we are at that point yet. President Obama needs to honor his promise ro repeal this ... hateful and divisive law. As the New York Times editorialized yesterday, ’busy calendars and political expediency are no excuse for malting one group of Americans wait any longer for equal rights.’" labor of love really," said Arbuckle. "We ate like a family here." The organization serves men, women and children. "XWe have about 30-40 children who may be infected or have parents who are," adds Arbuclde. Recently, Arbuckle submitted a grant application to the }v’La,C-AIDS Fund which is an organization established in 1994 that globally supports all persons lMng with HIV/AIDS. "It is a passion for our company and our staff," said Armando Ortiz, MAC Retail Manager at Penn Square Mall. "We refer to this as the heart and soul of MAC Cosmetics. MAC stands for Make-up, Art and Cosmetics. "Our Viva-Glam program is where the monies come from," adds Ortiz. "We give back 100% of the selling price back to the community. This program is really something we embrace in our company." MAC Cosmetics has been in business since I984 and has donated over $t35 million dollars to date through the MAC-AIDS Fund. Other Options has changed some over the years and now focuses primarily on their Friends Food Pantry. "The other services are provided so well by other organizations in the city that we focus on the nutritional program now," said Mary Arbuckle, Director of the Other Options organization. "\ge work well together with RAIN Oklahoma, the OU Infectious Disease Clinic, and other local organizations so our clients can ger all the hdp they need and so there is less duplication of services." Friends Food Pantry is exclusive to the HIV and MDS community. Clients come to the srore to shop each week. "We give them a shopping cart and let them select their own items, which is different than most food banks," adds Arbuckle. "We want to empower their mind; we don’t want them to feel like it’s a charity." Arbuckle says they plan ro spend the majority of the MAC-AIDS grant on their Boost program, which provides the high-prorein Boost drink to those in most need of the nutritional supplement. Donations to Other Options are always ~velcomed and appreciated. For more information about Other Options or the Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 9468577. �by Jack Fertig July 2009 "Pay attention, Cancer!" Saturn square Mercury would normally bring out everyone’s inner critic, but with Saturn in Virgo and Mercury in Gemini, bitchy outbursts are to be expected. If you’re feeling brilliant, write it down and think twice before saying it aloud. Take a long view and look for opportunities for self-improvement, ARIES (March 20 - Apri~ 19): Stay focused on work. Any personal remarks, especially about colleagues, are sure to get you into trouble. Your critical analyses and recommendations for improvement are probably a bit off the mark, but at least they show you’re paying attention. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Avoid gambling and investments in any game play strictly for funsies. Focus on developing skill at your sport or hobby. That’s an uphill slog, too, but something that’s just fun now can have practical value down the road. GEMiNi {May 21- June 20): If you get any criticism from family or roommates, thank them for sharing and think about what they say. There may be something to it. Responding in kind will only start an a~ui argument. SAG!TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You will get into arguments. Stay focused, principled and respectful. The way you press your point can earn you a great deal of respect. Stay clear on details and graciously accept correction when it’s appropriate. 112 14 3 4 ~5 6 7 ~ 9 ~10111213 19 18 17 8 15 CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Take it slow and easy. Pay attention to details and you’ll have fewer accidents and arguments at work. Sex seems a great release for stress, but is it really? Focus on what’s important at work and at play. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be losing yourself helping others, and fun may feel more like work. An analytic approach to techniques of craft, sport and/or pleasure reconciles the latter. Being ruthless and selfish for a bit is now good for you. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Domestic criticisms are nearly inevitable. Being self-critical will help keep you out of arguments, but give yourself credit as well as blame. Your partner’s shortcomings on that score are highlighted because of your focus. If you must say something, be kind and gentle! 66 67 68 69 70 7I CANCER (June 21~- July 22): Pay attention where you’re walking or driving. Distractions inside your own head can cause awful accidents. Be aware of your surroundings, and you can find better ways to bang up against someone. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You’re inclined to be very critical of someone’s political values, so why not focus on your own? In this era of diminishing resources, we all need to step back and re-think things. Brainstorming with friends will help you update your perspective. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22) The sharp edge of your wit is very much in evidence. Keep it focused on practical matters and attention to your own health and well-being. When tempted to speak of others, make extra effort to keep it kind and constructive. L~B~ (September 23 - October 22): There’s always room for selfimprovement, but don’t beat yourself up with your faults, which you’re now likely to exaggerate anyway. A creative focus for your inner critic could help you to be more realistic. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): As your brain races around sex, you may want to look beyond simple gratification. 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She not only brings her talent and enthusiasm, but also expertise gained from overall life experience and reporting. Seepage 5 3.corn THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA JULY 1,2009 TSUNAMI SLAMS OBAMA by Rex Wockmer not health coverage, which he said june 17 is not within his power. That’s the good news -- all of it. What hasn’t he done? Anything about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, anything about the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), anything about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. He’s done nothing about any of the stuff he promised the gays before they rushed to the polls en masse last November to make sure he won that election. And, then, Mr. Obama’s Justice Deparmxent filed a briefJune 1 ! in a federal same-sex marriage case that used nearly eveW nasty homophobic argument in the book to argue against letting gays get married. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back and unleashed a flood of harsh criticism from gay VIPs. "I hold this administration to a higher standard than this brief," Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese wrote to Obama. "In the course of your campaign, I became convinced -- and I still want to believe -- that you do, too.... This brief should not be good enough for you, The question is;Mr. President-- do you bdieve that it’s )bama. dec~des 22 which~not necessary ~ i , ~ . to file a brief. It’s a horrific and hideous attack on LGBT :. ....... [one thats good. He ~ssued Americans." and he extended a few spousal benefits ~ ~d~ employees’ Same’sex partners -- National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director sick leave and long-term care insur~ce; for example, but Kate Kendell on her Facebook page: "The filing by the ............ Continued See GAY TSUNAMI Page-24 Pro ect Pride Foundation Director Under Investigation For Fraud By Victor Gorin OKLAMOMA CIT~; OK__ On May 16, Robert Jordan Chiles was dected to a position on the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s Central Committee as part of the Affirmative Action Committee. Ivan Holmes, previous chair of the Oklahoma State Democratic Party stated to the Metro Star, "Robert ovces the party for tickets he purchased for the luncheon at the State Convention along with advertising in the program. He said he would pay that immediately and he hasn’t as ofyet, so vce will pursue this issue." If he doesn’t resign his position, party officials are ready to begin impeachment proceedings. In May Mr. Chiles placed an advertisement in the Metro Star which ran in the June 2009 isme; soliciting funds for his Project Pride Foundation, presented as an organization working to advance GLBT rights and hdp people living with HIV. This advertisement was paid for with a check that was returned unpaid by his bank. Mr. Chiles was given numerous opportunities by phone and email to cover the check with no results. It has since been turned over to the Oldahoma County District Attorney for collection and possible prosecution. ........... Continued See PROJECT PRIDE Page-17 T lsa Pride Se s New By Michael \~ Sasser TULSA, OK__Tt~a Pride’s Diversity Festival and Pride Parade engaged a record number of participants on June 6th, both in terms of spectators and participants. "I think it exceeded expectations," said Oldahomans for Equality President Toby Jenkins. "We were worried whether the format and schedule might scare people or would be comfortable for people to participate in. Our Pioneer Breakfast far, far exceeded expectations. N~e police tell us there were 23,000 people at the festival which is the largest single-day attendance for an event we have ever had." Jenkins said the festival also included over 70 vendors and booths, twice the number as last year; and there vcere three times the number of parade entries as last year. "The parade yeas larger, there were more floats and more groups," If there was a down side, it ~vas that in the nev¢ event format debuting this year, there were fewer spectators along the parade route. ........... Continued See TULSA PRIDE Page-6 LOCAL>> 9 YO GRAND MARSHALL I NATIONAL >> NO SUPPONF FOR DADT I WORLD >> 50,000 2gF EURO PRIDE I PLUS >> LIFESTYLE TRAVEL I ~’FS I WINE I DINING July 2009 2 A good time By Robin Domer-Townsend OGRA [)~ddent RTint Wied}n, Robin Dornerphoto OKLk(HOMA CI~/, OK Every ),ear as Memorial Day weekend rolls around, the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo is held in Oklahoma City. Their goal as a social organizarion is to host an annual-gay rodeo in Oklahoma City, assist in western related events and contribute to charitable organizations. This year~ motto is. ’~A Bucking Good Time." The mission ofOGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) is to act as a non-profit organization, to perform charitable duties for the surrounding area through fundraisers, rodeo performances, etc., for any particular charitable organization the general membership of the association shall choose. "Xhat is the main goal of]OGRA; to raise money for charity," said Klint Wieden, OGRA President. "Each year we give primarily to two different charities ~vhich provide services to those living with HIV or AIDS." This year’s beneficiaries of the event are Other Options/Friends Food Pantry and RAIN Oklahoma. Each of these organizations will receive a charitable contribution from OGRA once the dollar amount for donation has been calculated. "Usually it is around $3,500 for each organization," adds Wieden. "Wieden grew up on a big ranch in north~vest Oklahoma on thousands of acres. His family raised cattle, ran horses and performed all general ranching duties and his family was always involved in the rodeo. "I also love doing charity work. It is a necessary thing," he adds. "I enjoy the causes xve stand for at OGRA and bringing the two together; rodeo and chariw, well, it’s a great thing for me." OGP,A is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay ;Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. The purpose for organizing OGRA was to prov;ide a harmonious enviromnent for those interested in the western lifestyle to express themselves through rodeo, dance and other £~mity social activities barring al! prejudices related to sex, nation~ origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudices. Overall, the IGRA has raised millions ofdoltars ~br charities across the country. Next year is a very big year for the OGRA as they will celebrate their 25th anniversary. "Even more is in store for next year’s event," furthers Wieden. "We will have a special limited edition designer ’trophy buckle’ made. Each of the 25 buckles will be numbered and sold to raise even more money for the charities ,are help." Wieden and the board of the OGRA wish to thank all of their sponsors and volunteers, but offer a special thanks to Premium Beers of Oklahoma and the Copa/Finish Line which each contributed more than $10,000 this ),ear. For more information about OGRA please visit www.ogra.net. Diversity Business Assodates; proud to do in OKC By Robin Dorner-Townsend OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 2004, the Diversity Business Association (DBA) has been a "proud’ organization representing many businesses and prot)ssions in the Oklahoma City metro area. As an organization primarily for gay and gay-friendly businesses, DBA is a diverse group; thus the name "Diversity Business Association." DBA is not an organization iust for the gay, lesbian. bisexual or transgender (GLBT} community. It is an open minded, diverse group of individuals from all walks of life. "Why not do business with people who want to do business with you?", is their organizational motto. With nearly 150 members, the Diversity Business Association does mean business. "DBA has become Oklahoma City’s fastest growing GLBT organization and with good reason," says Monty Milburm President ofDBA. "We offer a casual yet business oriented environment for our members to connect with and do business with people that want to do business with them. It is these connections that help all of us succeed in good and bad times." Each month, usually two business connection meetings are held where members meet to network and exchange business cards, ideas, and get together for fun events also. There are luncheons, educational meetings and after hour mixers which bring the group together for people ~vho want t6 do business with like-minded people. Membership fees for DBA are some of the best in this area for an organization of its ~nd. An individual business membership is $49 per year and corporate memberships (for up to 10 people) are $450. Unlike most organizations, DBA has a student or ’social’ membership f)e for $25 per year. N~is allows the businesses in the area who are gay or gay-friendly to benefit from like-minded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. The goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the GLBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. DBA will have a booth at the upcoming Gay Pride events to be held at Memorial Park in Oklahoma City on June 27th & 28th and invites everyone to come and visit to see what they are all about. "I would like to encourage you to visit often, check out our calendar and consider joining. We encourage positive competition and celebrate each member’s success," adds Milburn. "t am proud to serve as President of such a fine organization. We really do mean business." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit vvw~.dbametro.org. It is best to use Internet Explorer when visiting this site. Impressive Youth Leads Tulsa’s Gay Pride Parade By Judy Gabbard Noah Blatt GrandMarshall ~dsa Pride Parade. Judy G. photo TULSA, OK The Grand Marshal! ofTulsds Annual Pride Parade xvas not a celebrity or an individual with a crown of jewels: this Grand Marshall was a nine year old young man named Noah Blatt. Noah Blatt is a perfect example ofwhat the words "Diversity" and "Acceptance" represent in the contin~l struggle of gay rights. Told to me by a representative of Oldahomans [br Equality, Noah Blatt first came m the attention of the committee members at Tulsa’s Equality Center, when he hand delivered a letter and a donation. In the letter, Noah explained that as an assignment he was to chose an organization that he rahought was making a difference, His mission was to acknowledge that organization and donate to its support. Noah has continued to contribute part of his weekly allowance in support ofTulsa’s Equality Center. Toby Jenkins, Tulsa’s Equality committee President, said, that when it came time to select the Grand Marshall for the Pride Parade, no other individual was as deserving as Noah Blatt. Noah’s revelation, revealed in his letter, that xvhen same sex couples love each other and want to marry, there shotdd be no one allowed to stand in their way. Simple truth uttered from one so young shows that the continuing struggle for gay rights is making an impact on public opinion. In a short interview with Noah Blatt, I met a gentle young man with a view of the world that maW lose when they grow up. Noah is determined to hang on to his beliefs and make his opinions known. Noah’s room and dad are hard working, well educated parents who have a!lo~ved their child to develop his own views of human behavior. Mr and Mrs Blatt support their young son’s ideas and know that it takes only one person to start a movement towards human rights. Noah was introduced to the public at the Pride Festival held at Centennial Park, located at 6th and Peoria, and severalo awards were bestowed upon him. The greatest prize was a view into the future possibilities of our youth. The importance of bestowing understanding, love, guidance and attention to our younger population was made evident in such a small package, Noah Blatt. www.rnetrostarnews.com ~®troSTAR 3 UDGE RULES IN KEITH KIMMEL’S FAVOR ON HIS I’M GAY LICENSE PLATE By Victor Gotin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On April 6 Keith KimmeL like maW other Ol-dahomans since 1967, applied for a personalized license plate for his !992 Dodge pickup truck. However. he ran into an obstacle because his message was ’TM GAY". His request was denied. Kathy Green, a supervisor in the Motor Vehicle Division, stated that his request was denied due to a Oklahoma Tax Commission Rule 710:60-3-150 (d) which states "No license plate will be issued -which may be offensive to the general public." However, she did not state why she deemed that his message fit into that category. Mr. Kimmel appealed this decision, and his case was heard by Administrative Law Judge Jay Harrington in Oklahoma City on May 7. A favorable ruling, in which Judge Harrington recommended that Keith be allowed his I’M GAY plate, was released on June 18, jttst a week before Gay" Pride celebrations ldcked off in Oklahoma City. Attorney Brittany M. Novomy, who represented him on this case had this statement, "This decision is an indication that we do still live in a society that respects the rule of law, and when we feel our civil rights have been violated we know we can turn to our legal system to remedy the situation. I believe it is also a signal that despite its national reputation, Oldahoma has outstanding women and men in the legal profession who put the law ahead of old prejudices." The Oklahoma Tax Commission may accept or reject this recommendation. Talking with Mr.Kimmel he stated, "I think the judge reviewed the case carefully,, made a good decision and I hope the commission will do the right thing and let me have nay plate." If the Oklahoma Tax Commission doesfft fol!ow- through and allow his plate he plans to pursue additional legal action. BillyJackson and Michael[ Friday ioined their lives together By Victor Gorin Bil{rJackson &Michael Friday at their Holy[ Union wid~ t/.,eir .iF[ends Luq andMidn@t. Godn photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Billy Jackson and Michael Friday joined their lives together Sunday, June 14 in Norman at Thunderbird Chapel. Lovers of the country lifestyle, both are active in OGRA, Michael as the mernbership chair and Billy who is running for Mr. O.G.R~k. next year. Tney are setding down together on the outskirts of Noble where Michael, as a member of the Orchid Society, will be able to pursue his hobby. The Holy Union was offidated by Pastor Neill Spurgin of Exp~:essions Community Fellowship, where both Billy and Michael are members. Let’s wish them a wonderful life together. Annual Hot Young Hollywood Party to benefit R.A.I.N. Oklahoma August 7 Angles to host annual Hot Young Hollywood PaW to benefit RAIN Oklahoma. Oklahoma CiF’ HIVNon-profit agent/. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ August 7 2009 N~e Hot Young Holly~vood Party is an annual fundraiser for RAIN Oklahoma, acting as a spotlight for local GLBT owned & friendly businesses. RAIN Oklahoma will be honoring four Oklahomans for their outstanding leadership and activism. The event will be a fun filled evening with fashion shmvs from well-known designers such as Cadillac Cowboy; Nicole Moan, GLAMNERD, Riot Rockett and Debauchery Clothing, plus live performances from Oklahoma City;s own Eric Bramble and others. Definitely an event not to be missed! Rafiqe ticket sales provided much of the $2500 raised at last year’s party. I~mt year sponsor donated items included a necklace donated by Mitchener & Farrand Jewelers, a "makeover" prize package .from Velvet Monkey Inc., dinner for two at 1492, and a Marc-by-Marc Jacobs bag among many other items. For the RAIN Leadership Award, campus GLBT groups made nominations from OCU, UCO, OU, OSU OKC AND UT as well as the GLBT group of DELL and the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The goal of our nominees is to increase the quality of life for all Oklahomans. RAIN Oklahoma is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit agency, depending on private donations and the support of the community to continue providing high quality of services. RAIN Oklahoma offers a wide array of services from free HIV testing and counseling, community outreach projects, Ryan White Case Management, ADVANTAGE Medicaid waiver services & Transitional Housing. RAIN Oklahoma’s mission is to compassionately serve indMduals and communities impacted by HIV/AIDS through education, volunteerism and coordinated access to healthcare & support services. We accept all donations; Gift Certificates, Checlcs, Merchandise and/or services. Donors will be recognized in the program. For additional information on The Hot Young Holbavood Party, please contact the Hot Young Holl)wcood Committee: Contact: Kendet R. Powers, CTR Agent RAIN Oklahoma 405/204/7767 kpowers@rainoklahom.org Vicld Banta Vicki Banta the Partyoligist 405/850/6817 Xfbanta@aol.com Kai R. Dameron Rain Oldahoma, CTR Coordinator 405/232/2437 xt 123 KaiDameron@hotmail.com Giving back: MAC Cosmetics ’Viva Glam’ line supports HIV! AIDS organizations By Robin Dorner-Townsend Inf!’ont ofthe Iguana Lounge in Automobile Alley in downtown Oklahoma Ci~, the 3¢IAC cosmetics staffin Oklahoma City show their support in theform of"a big check"for Other Options and Friends Food Pantry. Thefundraising event "51 Toast to Life" was heldfor the non-profit organization at The Iguana Lounge in April The Iguana showed its support ofthe Other Options organization by undenvHting the charitable event. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 1989, Other Options has been on the forefront of prevention, education, and assistance of those in need who are living ~vith HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) and AIDS (Autoimmune Deficiency Syndrome). The organization was Formed as anonprofit whose missi6n" included al! services which hdp persons living with the disease but currently their primary focus is that of food services, nutrition and education. Mary Arbuckle, Director of Other Options works to assist the clients they serve, organizes donations and among many other taslcs, she also writes grant applications for the organization. "It’s a .....Continued see MAC page 24 July 2009 4 Leather Camp Vwill be running in Wichita gg~IICHITA, KS (PR) __ August 14 - 16, 2009. Early bird registration is active until July" 21st at a rate of $75.00. After July 21st, the package cost xvill be $85.00. The Clarion Hotel will hots the event with a room rate of $79.00 per night. Rooms need to be booked directly through the hotel. Ask for the WOOLF rate to get the discount. ~qere are lots of great classes for this years event. Presenters include ~qaipmaster Bob and Bootpig, Graydancer, Sir Olivier and pup sparlg~, Mason and Michelle. In addition, we will be having our Central Hains Regional contests for Central Plains LeatherSirlboy and CommunivA Bootblack as well as our loc~ WOOLF contests for Mr. and Ms. WOOLF and Kansas boy/girl. All of the contests will be judged by International LeatherSir 2009, Sir Raul, International Leatherboy 2009, boy bill, Central Plains LeatherSir 2009, Master Sam Sampson, Central Plains Leatherboy 2009, pup sparkle, Central Plains Community Bootblack 2009, boy blu, Great Plains Leatherboy 2008, boy mike and Rev. Jackie Carter of the Metropolitan Community Church ofWichita. The weekend ~vill be emceed by Tom Stice. For more information and to register for the weekend and book your hotel room, please visit www.wichitaleatherpride.com. Robin DornerJoins Metro Star Staff Robin Dorner-Tmvnsend. Staff photo OKLAI-IOMA CITY. OK Already well kmown in Oklahoma City and beyond as a fun loving reporter and activist. Ms. Dorner Born in Wichita, she graduated from Kansas Newman College in that same city to become a Registered Nurse. She moved to Oklahoma City in 1983 when jobs for RNs were plentiful. She worked in various positions as a dialysis nurse, in home health and hospice settings, and case management. She is a happily married heterosexual, celebrating 15 years together with Ken Townsend, her soulmate who is in the oil & gas business. In 2004 she earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Health administration, followed by a Master’s Degree in Business Administration in 2006. After this milestone, seeking a different direction, she branched out into journalism with the City" Sentinel. broadening their horizons when she covered many events of the GLBT community. She first became involved with our community during the !990s when she volunteered as a nurse for the Triangle Association vdth D~:Larry Prater. who operated a free AIDS clinic. Relating ~o that experience she stated that "I loved it, not only as a nurse but also from the love, camaraderie and acceptance I found in the gay community." Her involvement in the community grew, and she later became a boai~d member of has just joined the Metro Star team. She will the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. She is a be repo~ting local news and ~ents and wil! former board member and current member of handle OK~’~C ad sales al6nFwithRikGOdbev Diversity Bttsiness Association of Oklahoma and Victor Gorin. She is also an accomplished City, and is her husband Ken. She does ~h0togr~pher. She n0{ 0hly brings 1{~} taleh{ vohmteer work for Other OptiOns, and looks ~nd enthusiasm, but alSO ~ert~e gained forward to working with the Metro Star. We f om oCe llife ep0mng welcome her a oard . the City Sentinel ( fbrmeriy the Mid City Advocate). www:metrostarnews.com &~et~’oSTAR 5 Dont Shop - Adop By Michael ~{~. Sasser Tulsa author Clara Nipper. Press photo TULSA, OK __ Tulsa author Clara Nipper never read mysteries, thrillers or true crime books, so when - on a dare from her partner - she set out to write in the genre, they set the mood and picked up the stylized approach by camping out in their home. lowering the air conditioning and watching classic noir films such as Double Indemnity, Laura and the more-modern Body Heat. "They were terrific," said Nipper. "I took some inspiration from them." Nine months in the writing, Nipper completed her first novel, the stylish Femme Noi~; a tide that aptly describes both the book and the innovative genre of lesbian literature. "I was writing "chick stories’ and my partner told me that since that wasn’t ,going an?~vhere I should try something new, Nipper said. So, Nipper crafted a character that was the "total opposite" of her. "She is tall and lean, black and bald, and a total womanizer - a slut. I wondered if I could wrire an entire book about her. And, I thought, yes I could." The rest is now history. Femme Noir is being published by Bold Stroke Books. In the book, Nora Delaney is Nipper’s protagonist. The hard-boiled, hypersexualized womanizing college basketball coach chases the case of her murdered exlover from LA to Tulsa only to be waylayed by a gorgeous, gin-swilling skirt who has information as well as an appetite for women like Nora. The book contains classic noir elements and Nora is cut from the same cloth as many classic, troubled genre protagonists - except that she is a woman. Hailed by maw for its unique and interesting voice, the book is also sexually graphic and unapologetic. "’gq~en my father got a copy of the book. I wrote in it ’please don’t read this’." Nipper said. "I hope he hasn’t. Tulsa native Nipper is veU much unlike her lead character. "I was straight most of my life," said the Tulsa CountT Courthouse clerk. "I was always open with sexuality and thought that if it felt good, do it. I’ve only had t-wo girlfriends in nay life. My first girlfriend was the one who said "you should try this’ and I said ’sure, let’s give ir a try.’ It was tumultuous except for the sex tbr the next two years. I have been with nay current partner for 13 years." Nipper had been "spiritually" a writer her entire life, from the time she xvrote a short story in grade school that a teacher insisted on turning into a slide show. "The best advice I ever got was to write one page a day and after a year, you ~voutd have 365 pages," Nipper said. "qhe road to publishing has been rocky, but my publisher now is terrific. They do so much to support authors and offer opportunities and guidance." Femme Noir’s sequel, I4dss of Noir, is already under contract. It’s set in New Orleans and will continue to stretch the parameters ofsexuat representation. "I’ve already shocke,~,! and appalled some lesbmns, N~pper stud. I th~nk that means am on the right track." For more information on Nipper and Femme Noir, visit www.claranipper.com. "Most people waited for the parade at [Centennial Park], and it was packed there". A shuttle system taking parade-path spectators to the park might be one thing added for future Pride festivals. For the most part, though, the new event structure was very much a success. "The fireworks, the ferris wheel and the concert were all huge successes." Jenkins said. Jenkins noticed a few things in particular this year. Employees of Spaghetti Warehouse on Brady Street came out to cheer ~or the parade. At Centennial Park. the crowd included a notable number of straight couples and individuals, including maW attending their first-ever Pride event with or without a GBLT relative or friend. "I thought, ’Wo~v. ~vhen did it become cool to go to Pride?" "-We also had a tot of seniors there. One mother said she was impressed at how family-friendly the environment was. I wish I could say that was something we tried to do. but it’s just a sign of the evolution of the community." Police commented on how busy the Kid Zone was with approximately 700 children of GLBT families and straight participants. This year’s n~w policy against ice chests and bringing in outside food and beverages also worked out. Jenkins said no one had to go to the hospital and police told him that for the first time there was no one who they considered acting publicly drunk to the point of being a nuisance. Vendors also told Jenkins they had done well at the event. Jenkins hopes that means it will be possible to continue expansion of the event in the future with more participants. Although the parade route saw the typical number of protestors, there was only one notable at the festival itself. Annie Bryce drove an hour to attend her first Tulsa Pride event. "I was very impressed at how nice it was and, really, how nice the people were - men, women, gay and straight even," she said. Cashen" Stewart attended the Pride Festival, largely for the parade, He thinks the eve,n,t could still be improved. I think there should be a bit more things to do at Pnde that are more mteracuve, he said. lenkins said that other smaller cities aro{md Oldahoma also having Pride events, such as Enid for the first time ever in July, is evidence of empowerment. "People are feeling safe enough to have festivals - that’s a good sign." No matter who you are o are on life’s iourney, -Reverend ~r. K~hy Meet Woodstock. He’s a 9 yr old yellow labbie who was Surrendered to Lab Rescue so ~ve could find him a new home. His owners love him, but h~ is a ~ctive for them. D0n:t le~ iS young at hem o1~1 labl;ie. H6 loved on: ~’g0odi I stcd )18 299 6311 918-272-4965 Sapulpa 918 227 2722 Norman 405 321 6,"~25 Collinsville 918 371 1000 Courtesy ofv:xvw.labrescue.net L 3131 & Pennsylvanio,Oklah0m= Q>~, 405.525.9555 July 2009 6 So, ust What is the True Definition-ofMarriage ? by James Nimmo OY._LM-IOMA CITY. OK As a semiprofessional musician I provided music at the same-gender marriage recently of two friends of mine, the latest ceremony of uncountable services I’ve played, t’rn also a committed atheist and rather hard-boiled when it comes to asking [or divine intervention, as well as the invention of skT-oriented deities for whatever reason. I support everyone’s private pursuit of their interests in accordance with the First Amendment as long as infringement of my own legally supported rights isn’t involved. There was no doubt of the sincerity of the participants in this religious ceremony. There were prayers, vestments, and liturgy common to any other Christian denomination marriage ceremony. Had you been blindfolded and dropped into this touchingly simple outdoor service, uncoached and uninformed, you would not have been able to distinguish this wedding from the thousands being conducted in the rest of the country on any Saturday afternoon. Jaded as I am about religion, I did get a little misty-eyed when the minister spoke-of the hands being held by the two grooms. As these ceremonies of commitment go the hope is always for a devoted and determined future of mutual and exclusive support through a lifetime of as many years o?iife as our genetic desdny wil1 give us. He described these hands as they are now. young and strong brushing away ~ears of joy and sorrow, touching in moments of intimacy, and when old and wrinkled they’ will sti!l be the hands we want touching us in times of need. ~ view myself as a married man wittl a partner of 32 years, and 1 can identi~! with the sentiments and intentions the minister outlined in his .;ermon. By what fiat of bigoted ignorance can anyone deny me and millions of other gay and Lesbian Americans this legaI right of marriage just because the gender of the two people is the same, choosing to share their bounty and their concerns for as long as they’re able, be it one year or hopefully- a long lifetime? How is that any different from what opposite-gendered people choose to do? To answer my own title, I think marriage is the ability of two responsible people committed to each othm; with a seriousness of purpose, for as long as they are able to hones@ maintain the relationship, with or without the imprimatur of religion. At one time I was a proponent of going nicker the recognition of our gay/ Iesbian equality one right at a time. But at approximately 1,400 indMdual rights bestowed with a completed marriage license, there arefft enough years for even Methuselah to see the success of the movement. I now see that only a dedicated Federal lawsuit, such as the one being brought by Ted Olson and David Boles ( http://tiwurl.com/q6hvip ), will give us the trne definition of marriage we gay and Lesbian citizens need to live our lives with the choice so casually enjoyed by straights. ~.metrostamews.com Politics M es for Strange Bedfellows by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s pretty exciting to be a gay/lesbian activist these days. Our civil rights movement has been focused on California which has been performing a line dance with basically the lovers of romance and civil rights in one line and the haters of diversity and inclusion in another. With the survival of Prop-Hate in California in late May there are now thirty states that prohibit same-gender marriage by constitutional amendment; thirty-seven prohibit it by statute. Some states even went double-dipping in their vehemence against gays and lesbians with both. But on the sunny side, as of this writing, there are five states that allow same-sex marriage with three states promoting samegender unions. ( http:lhinyurt.comlmq8fev ) I’m not too hot with arithmetic but even I can tell there is some overlapping of statutes and amendments with a minority of states still sitting on the sidelines, waiting and waiting. Waiting for what? Maybe the same thing I’ve been waiting for. A team of lawyers, financial supporters, and plaintiffs willing to put this momentous issue into it’s proper frame: Shall the United States continue with this jurisprudence crazy, quilt of rich progressive action and tawdry, shortsighted discrimination or blanket the country with one legal rtding that allows all adults to make their own decisions for their future regardless of gender, religion, or geographic location? That’s where the odd bedfellows Ted Olson and David Boles come in. These two lawyers, fmnous for being on opposing sides of the Bush v. Gore Supreme Court case that by a one-vote margin put the Bush/Cheney ticket in the White House have filed a Federal lawsuit to place an injunction on the California Supreme Court decision upholding the anti-marriage equality amendment lmown as Proposition 8.7heir plan is to carry this lawsuit up the chain of Federal courts to the US Supreme Court if necessary in order to have a definitive ruling as to whether or not same-gendered people are covered under the 14th Amendment of the Federal Constitution, specifically the clause that all citizens are entided to the full protection of the laws. ( http://tinyurt.com/dypxfp ) Many of the main stream civil rights and gay/lesbian advocacy organizations ( The American Civi! Liberties Union, Lambda Legal, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the Equality Federation, and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation are aghast at the audacity of this plan sponsored by the American Foundation for Equal Rights. ( http:/Itinyurl.comlld6a2w ) I’m no legal eagle but I’m literate, folio~w the news, and can reason, tn addition, my partner and I were among 12 other plaintiffs in the attempt by Oklahoma’s chapter of the ACLU to derail the 2004 Okie version of Prop. 8, known as State Question 71 ! that passed with a 70+% majority vote. The legal strategy being used by the As t see it, ~here are two important precedents (an important aspect of jurisprudence? from the Supremes that recognize our gay/lesbian citizenship. They are: Lawrence v. Texas ( http://tinyurl. com/br2tj t that eliminated sodomy laws by overturning Bowers v. Hardwick (http:// tinyurl.com/jus3e ), and the Romer v. Evans decision overturning Colorado’s infamous Amendment 2 dewing gay/lesbian citizens protection of state laws( http://tinyurl. com/49m9er ) wherein Justice Kennedy famously wrote that "[Amendment 2] is at once too narrow and too broad. It identifies persons by a single trait and then denies them protection across the board. The resulting disqualification of a class of persons from die right to seek specific protection from the law is unprecedented in our iurisprudence." Let me add that Justice Kennedy is the famous "swing vote" on many Court decisions that are decided by a single vote. Though there have been changes in the names of the j ustices over the years, the legal balance of the Court is still the same: four living in the 18th century, four in the 21st century, with one bridge between them. If politics makes for strange bedfellows and change is die buzz word for this political season, then I think it’s time to change the sheets. As these two well experienced attorneys have wedded dlemselves to marriage equality, I wish them a happy honeymoon. Live long and prosper, Olson and Boles! Joplin First Pride in over ten years JOPHN. MO (PR) In January of this year Rev. Steve Urie of Spirit of Christ MCC asked for volunteers to h~ad up a committee commissioned with the task of planning and bringing together Joplin’s first Pride Event in over ten years. Out of that was born Joplin: Out & About, a collaborative committee made up of people from Spirit of Christ MCC, AT&T and other GLBT groups and members from the community. A target date was set and the planning began. ¯homas, Joanna, Darrell, Jeff, Heath, Shauna and Shea with the intermittent help of others handled the tough iob of keeping it all together. Tne final result was several events through the week including a Karaoke Night, Movie Night and finally Joplin’s Out & About Event in the park. Just ten years ago you would find law enforcement setting traps to catch men in the park cruising. This year with la~v enforcement patrols protecting the event; the community celebrated with groups from Springfield, Galena, Tulsa, the greater Joplin area and as far away as NWArkansa~s, Weir and Topetca, Kansas taking pride and respect to a new high level for the community. Private and non-profit vendors started signing on as did other local groups including UCC Family Fellowship, Joplin Gays Yahoo Group, Joplin’s GLBT Corporate Center, the support group fi-om AT&T, Planned Parenthood, PROMO, the Pla-Mor Lounge and APO’s local and Springfield’s offices. The Metro Star played an important part in providing sponsorship and coverage of the event. The Topet~ Transgendered Alliance was represented by Steve/Lila & spouse Joy also members of MCC Topeka. Entertainment was provided by a band as well drag queens from Joplin and Springfield. The Gto Center from Springfield, MO showed up in support of the Event, helped with Sponsorship and provided information about their services. We thank everyone who sponsored, supported, participated and just plain attended this event. Rev. Steve Urie &long time partner Heath with festival voluntee~ Staffphoto Held in Joplin’s McClellan Park June 13th and with over 250 people from the GLBTQ community this was a success for our community. Friends, family supporters and the straight community including children and some well behaved canines came together to show that we can be one community that we can work together, play together and respect each other. From Gay Bingo to the sale of Pride Jewelry, entertainment ro fbod. free HIV testing to information, and with MC Brandon everyone had a great time. In addition several boxes of food were donated t~br APO clients through the Angel Food Ministries program. Lots ofentertainment, & good lookingguys and gab atjoplin Pide Yestiva~ Staffphoto We would like to thank Naomas for his dedication and tenacity in keeping it together; Joanna for gathering equipment, supplies, support mad being one foot soldier you couldn’t top, Darrell for writing the first GLBT Joplin History Booklet, Jeff for putting the boolde.t togethm; Heath for cooking his heart out and all the volunteers that brought it together. With the encouragement of the community at large already pouring in this may have been Joplin’s first Pride event in recent history but clearly won’t be its last. Wockner News Service New Hampshire legalizes same-sex marriage New Hampshire legalized same-sex marriage June 3 when Gov. John Lynch signed three bills, including one that had cleared the Legislature just an hour eadier. 3-he bills open marriage to same-sex couples starting Jan. 1 and protect certain rights of religious organizations, associations and societies that oppose gay marriage. "Today is a historic day for all Granite Staters," said Mo B~ley, executive director of the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "We applaud Gov. Lynch, (House) Speaker (Terie) Norelli, (Senate) President (Sylvia) Larsen and the leadership of the General Court (legislature) for making sure that all loving, committed couples have the freedom to marry. Today, our shared values of individual liberty, freedom and fairness have been upheld:" The final bill, tsveaking religious protections, passed the Senate 14-10 and th.e House 198-I76. Lynch had required tile additional language as a condition of his agreeing to let gays marry. In announcing his support for same-sex marriage on May 14, Lynch said: "At its core, (this bill) simply changes the term ’civil union’ to ’civil marriage.’ Given the cultural, historical and religious significance of the word marriage, this is a rneaningfu! change. I have heard, and I understand, the very real feelings of same-sex couples that a separate system is not an equal system. That a civiI law that differentiates between their committed relationships and those of heterosexual couples undermines both their dignity and the legitimacy of their families." Tl~e measures signed into law will repea! the state’s civil-union law effective Jan. 1, 2011, and prohibit any new civil unions after Jan. 1, 2010. Same-sex marriage is legal in five other U.S. states: Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (starting in September) and Maine (starting in Septembe0. Nlere also are 18,000 same-sex couples legally married nnder California law, though no more will be allowed to marry until voters repeal Proposition 8, the state constitutional amendment passed last November, or until the U.S. Supreme Court strikes it down Or it is blocked by comx injunction. Gay groups are planning a ballot initiative to delete Prop 8, and a federal lawsuit has been filed charging that Prop 8 violates the due-process and equal-protection clauses of the U.S. Constitution. The lawsuit also says Prop 8 relegates gays and lesbians to second-class citizenship and discriminates based on gender and sexual orientation. It further seeks an injunction allowing same-sex marriage to resttme in California pending resolution of the case. Hi ary Clinton issues pride month statement Secretary of State Hillary Clinton issued a Gay Pride month statement June 1. She wrote: "Forty years ago this month, the gay rights movement began with the Stonewall riots in New York City; as gays and lesbians demanded an end to the persecution they had long endured. Now, after decades of hard work, the fight has grown into a global movement to achieve a world in which al! people live free from violence and fear, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. "In honor of Gay and Lesbian Pride Month and on behalf of the State Department, I extend our appreciation to the global LGBT community for its coui’age and determination during the past 40 years, and I offer our support for the significant work that still lies ahead. "At the State Department and throughout the Administration, we are grateflal for our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender employees in Washington and around the world. They and their families make many sacrifices to serve our nation. Wneir contributions are vital to our efforts to establish stability, prosperity and peace worldwide. "Human rights arc_- at the heart of those efforts. Gays and lesbians in many parts of the world live under constant threat of arrest, violence, even torture. The persecution of gays and lesbians is a violation ofhuman rights and an affront to human decency, and it must end. As Secretary of State, I will advance a comprehensive human rights agenda that includes the elimination of violence and discrimination against people based on sexual orientation or gender identity. "N~ough the road to full equality ibr LGBT Aalaericans is long, the example set by those fighting for equal rights in the United States gives hope to men and women around the world who yearn for a better future for themselves and their loved ones[ "This June, let us recommit ourselves to achieving a world in ~vhich all people can live in safety and freedom, no matter who they are or ~vhom they love." Clinton also is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign ~aqZairs Agencies. The pack,age will include medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment of household effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, isstlance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and language training. Not included are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. Nevada Legislat e overrides governor’s veto ofpartnership bill Nevada’s Senate and Assembly on May 30 and 31 overrode Gov. Jim Gibbons’ May 25 veto of a domestic-partnership bill. Tne new la~¢ extends to same- and opposite-sex registered domestic parmers nearly all state-level rights and obligations of marriage. The override came without a vote to spare in both the Senate (14-7) and the Assembly (28-!4). In the Senate, 10 Democrats and four Republicans voted for tile override, and five Republicans and two Democrats voted against it. Gibbons had claimed the bill ran afoul of a 2002 state constitutional amendment that defines marriage as between a man and a woman. He also argued that gay couples could go sign private contracts if they desired the protections of marriage for their relationship. "The significance here is it literally equates ’domestic partner’ with ’spouse’ under Nevada state la**;" Michael Ginsburg of the Progressive Leadership Alliance of Nevada told Las Vegas correspondent Steve Friess. "You have the flail force of the law behind you nox~: When you’re in the hospital, forced to ma~e decisions for your partner, all you have to say is, ’This is nay spouse,’ and that carries tremendous weight." .am Lambert Photo: American Idol runner up Adam Lambert Who kalew? American Idol sensation and first runner-up Adam Lambert is a homosexual. "I don’t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I’m gay," Lambert told Rolling Stone June 9. "I’ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I’ve been at clubs drunk malting out with somebody in the corner." "Right after the finale, I almost started talldng about it to the reporters, but I thought, ’I’m going to wait for Rolling Stone, that wil! be cooler,’" he said. "I didfft want tile Clay ’ Aiken thing and the celebrity-magazine bullshit. I need to be able to explain myself in context. ’Tin proud ofmy sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me." Lambert noted, however: "I’m trying to be a singer, not a civil rights leader." July 2009 State Dept. to give gay couples spousal benefits U.S. Secreta,y of&am HillaO, Clinton is prepari,g to grant spousal ben~ts and protections m diglomau’gay gartne,s. Photo by Rex l)~ckner U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign M~airs Agencies. "Like all families, our Foreign Service t~milies come in different configurations; all are part of the common fiabric of our post communities abroad," Clinton wrote. "The department will provide these benefits for both opposite-sex and same-sex partners because it is the righ~ thing to do’ ~Ihe benefits will indude medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment ofhousehoid effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, issuance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and ,language training. NOt induded in the package are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. "This is a remedy that is long overdue," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese, "For too many years, LGBT Foreign Service officers have been forced to choose between serving their country and protecting their families." Dick Cheney endorses same-sex marriage Former Vice President Dick Cheney came out in support of same-sex marriage June 1 more clearly than he has in the past. Asked about the issue at the National Press Club, Cheney responded: "I think freedom means freedom for everyone. And, as many ofyou know, one ofmy daughters is gay, and it’s something that we’ve lived with for a long time in our family. I think people ought to be free to enter into any kind of union they wish, any kind of arrangement they wish. The question of~vhether or not there ought to be a federal statute that governs this, I don’t support. I do believe that historically the way marriage has been regulated is at the state level -- ~his has always been a state issue -- and ~ think that’s the way ff ough~ to be handled ~oday, that is. on a state-by-aa~c basis. D~ffbrem ;tares make d~ff~t’ren~ decision But [ don’t haw prob{cm with that ~ think people ought to get a shot at d~at. And they do a~ present." Cheney has made very similar comments before, but they did not go quite as far. In 2004, for example, he said: "I believe today that freedom does mean freedom for everybody. People ought to be free to choose any arrangement they want. It’s really no one else’s business. ~nat’s a separate question from the issue of whether or not government should sanction or approve or give some sort of authorization, if you will, to these relationships. Traditionally, that’s been an issue for the states. States have regulated marriage, ifyou will. That would be my preference. In effect, what’s happened is that in recent months, especially in Massachusetts, but also in California, but in Massachusetts we had the Massachusetts Supreme Court direct the state of-- the legislature of Massachusetts to modify their constitution to allow gay marriage. And the fact is that the president felt that it was important to make it clear that that’s the wrong ~vay to go, as far as he’s concerned. Now, he sets the policy for this administration, and I support the president." Americans do not support ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Americans overwhelmingly want to see the military’s "Don’t Ask, Do~t Tell" ban on open gays repealed, a new Gallup poll has found. Sixty-nine percent told pollsters it’s time for the ban to go -- including 58 percent of Republicans, 58 percent of self-described co~iservatives and 60 percent 0fwee~y churchgoers. Eighty-sLx percent of liberals oppose the DADT policy, along with 82 percent of Democrats and 78 percent of people between age 18 and 29. Even people over age 65 (60 percent), Southerners (57 percent) and people who didn’t finish high school (57 percent) said it’s time to dump the ban. Said Gallup: "President Barack Obama will be well-positioned to forge ahead with his campaign promise to end the military ban on openly gay service members." Gallup polled 1,105 adults nationwide between May 7 and 10. The organization said it was 95 percent confident that the maximum margin of sampling error was plus or minus 3 percentage points. CALIFORNIA HIV EMERGENCY Schwarzenegger, Legislature may slash HIV funding Gay and HIVadvocates rallied at *~e state Capitol in Sacramento, Calif., on time i 0 against draconian cuts in HIVfi~ndingproposed by Gov. Arnold Schwar~enegger and under consideration by the Legislature. Wockner Newsphoto by Charlie Peer/Ou~vord Magazine California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has proposed, and the California Legislature is considering, draconian cuts to all types of HIV-related funding in the nea>bankrupt state. In the worst-case scenario, which is still not off the table, slashes to the AIDS Drug Assistance Program could result in thousands of Californians who make less than $41,600 per year losing access to the statelprovided drugs that suppress HIV and keep them dive. In the apparent best,case scenario, not all HIV drugs would be available via ADAP and patients would have to pay part of the cost 0f the ones they could geta That is problematic because some HIVvposirive people have developed resistance to some HIV drugs, and need access to the full arsenal of therapies to stay alive. Further, the current plan apparendy completely eliminates state funding for the tests that determine if a patient is responding to treatment -- such tests as CD4 counts, viral-load measurement and drug-resistance monitoring. These tests are essentially mandatory in - HIV treatmm~t. Doctors use them so they can change a nonresponsive patient’s drug combination to another combo that works in that patient -- before the patient’s immune system breaks down further and the patient develops a life-threatening opportunistic infection............ The current plan apparently also dramatically ~lashes handing for education, prevention, counseling and testing programs. Some 35,000 working- and middleclass Californians who don’t make enough money to pay for their own treatment could be adversely or dangerously affected by the possible cuts to ADAP and elimination of monitoring testing. Gay and HIV advocates have strongly denounced the budget proposals, and a large rally was held at the state Capitol in Sacramento on June 10. Lesbian couple marries on Indian reservation A lesbian couple married on the Coquille Indian reservation in Coos Bay, Ore., May 24. 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Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Ban Empl "uptcy o Civil Rights oCriminal- ~ment o Family Law - Litigation 625 N.W. 13th Street klahoma City, OK 73103 v#,,w.metrostarnews.com STAR 9 N Wockner News Service 50,000 at EuroPride Some 50,000people ~rned outfor the EuroPrideparade, hem in Zurich this year on June ~ Photo by Nikolai Alekseev, GayRussta.ru Some 50,000 people turned out for the EuroPrkle parade, hdd in Zurich this year on June 6. Openly lesbian Zurich Mayor Corine Mauch joined in. Next year, the parade ventures behind the former Iron Curtain to Warsaw -- a city that as recently- as 2005 tried to ban pride, only to be later rebuffed by the European Court of Human Pdghts. Meanwhile, Rom& gay pride parade dr~ more than 100,000 participants June 13~ with a demand fbr legalization of same-sex marriage and equa! rights for gay couples. Some 1,500 people marched in Warsaw on June 13, also demanding legalization of same-sex partnerships. "l-he parade, on central Marszalkowska Street, attracted fewer than !00 counterprotesters, who shouted anti-gay vitriol. Five hundred people marched in Zagreb, Croatia, on June t3. Police kept about 50 snarling anti-gays from disrupting the parade. 20,000 march Tel Av v Around 20,000 people joined Tel Aviv’s ! lth gay pride parade June 12. The march ended with a beach ’~edding" of five gay" couples. Same-sex marriage is not legal in Israel. Some top rabbis had urged Prime Minister Beniamin Netanydau m try to ban the parade. They called it an abomination. A few religious right-wingers picketed the march, which was paid for by the city government. ’Tel Aviv is more secular than Jerusalem, where the pride parade routinely leads large numbers of religious folks ~o wail and gnash. Last year’s parade in Jerusalem featured 3,000 naarchers and 2,000 cops to protect them. They walked al! of @ur blocks. ~n 2007, the Jerusalem parade traveled about 500 meters before ultra-Orthodox protesters shut it down, despite the presence orS,000 police o@cers. Prior to the parade, police arrested a man with a bomb. The postparade rally was canceled because striking firefighters refused to provide a required firetruck. In 2005, a counterdemontrator stabbed three marchers at Jerusalem’s marcia and later was convicted of attempted murder. ~ae victims’ iniuries were not serious. Moscow gays want to picket Obama Moscow Pride founder Nikolai Mekseev says members of his group will attempt to stage a picket in favor of same-sex marriage at the U.S. Embassy on July 7 during President Bara& Obama’s visit. It is unlikely the activists will receive city permission to do so. Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has banned pride parades for the past four years and sent riot police to aggressively arrest those who ignored the bans. Luzl~ov has called gay parades "demonic," "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction." He also has said the bans are for gays own good so that "radical Christians" don’t have a chance to "kill them." Mekseev is hopet~fl that he’ll be able to pull off the picket regardless because "the presidential media pack wilt be in town." Mayor Luz ov lashes out at gays Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has again lashed out at gays, calling them "homos" and calling gay pride parades "demonic." Appearing on a TV program June 2, Luzhkov reportedly said: "Niere are two reasons gay pride parades are unacceptable in Moscow: First and foremost, public morality .does not accept such parades, public morality does nor accept those homos." Secondly, he said: "If they gather together, assuming they are allowed to hold a parade, other people will simply kill them. ~here are radical Christians in Moscow who stand strongly against such demonic manifestations, as they say. "There were attempts made (in May’) to hold the gay parade during the Eurovision Song Contest in Moscova We had to isolate about 19 radical Christians who intended to attack those homos.’ On May, 16, riot police broke up an attempt to stage the fourth annual gay pride parade in Moscov~; arresting up to 80 participants, including gay leader N@olai Ale~eev, British gay leader Peter %tchell and Chicago gay activist Andy Thayen Luzhkov previously has called gay pride parades "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction," and has o@cially banned them each ),ear. Lithuanian Parliament votes ’no promo homo’ law Lithuania’s parliament, the Seimas, approved a measure on first reading June 4 that bans references to homosexuality in schools and in public information that can be visible to children. Tne bill still has to dear a final vote. The tally was 57-2 with 8 abstentions. Many MPs missed the vote. Amnesty International said the "Law on the Protection of Minors Against the Detrimental Effect of Public Information’~ would classify "homosexuality alongside issues such as ... the display of a dead or cruelly mutilated body of a person, and information that arouses fear or horror, or encourages self-mutilatisn or suicide." Nicola Duckworth, Amnesty’s Europe and Central Asia program director, said the proposed law "denies the right to freedom of expression and deprives students’ access to the support and protection they may need." China sees its first gay pride week China saw" its first-ever gay pride week June 7-14 in Shanghai. Events included movies, plays, art exhibits, panel discussions, swimming and badminton competitions, and a big party, thouglx at least one play" and one film were ordered canceled by authorities. Some 500 people attended a barbecue/ drag shiny/fashion show/hot-body contest on June 13. Organizers decided against holding a parade, saying it iust didn’t seem to be legally possible, according to China Daily: "Shanghai Pride is a community-building exercise," co-organizer Tiffany Lemay told the English-lang~aage paper. "We hope to raise awareness of issues surrounding homosexuality, raise the visibility of the gay community, help people within our community to come out, and build bridges between the gay and straight communities." Northern Irish LGBs report high level ofhate Twenty-one percent of gay and bisexual men and I8 percent of lesbian and bisexual women iri Northern Ireland say they\,e been the victim of a homophobic hate crime or incident in the past three years. The figure comes fi’om a survey of I,t43 LGB people catrried out by the Rainbow Project with funding from the Police Service of Northern Ireland. Tne study found that 64 percent of such incidents were not reported to police and 30 percent resulted in physical injui3: ebec to 1attach strategy against homophobia Quebec Justice Minister Kathleen Well has announced the Canadian province will implement a comprehensive strategy against homophobia before the end of the year. She broke the news at a May I7 rally marking the International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO). "We see it as a major step forward here since doing so, Quebec will ackmowledge officially that homophobia -- and not homosexuality -- is a social problem and take action, instead of passively banning discrimination, said Magazine ]~tre Editor Andrd Gagnon. "As far as I know, it will be the first government in the world to adopt such a strategy that will cover all its spheres of intervention," he said. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) O lahoma’s NV/S ’# l otlin PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) @O,P,E, Testing Clinic ~ens O@reach In Tulsa at (9’~8) July 2009 i t÷matie Ruling: English adoption agencies cannot discriminate The Charities Commission of England and Wales ruled June 2 that adoption agencies cannot discriminate against gay couples. The commission cited the Equality Act (Sexual Orientationl Regulations 2007, which ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. Violation of the law would lead to a loss of charity status and public funding. The ruling came in a case involving the Catholic Care charity in Leeds, which wanted to amend its official statement of objectives with the commission to exclude consideration of gay couples. Denmark is not gay nirvana Denmarlq the first nation in the world to legalize gay partnerships, in 1989, still has a problem with homophobia. Eighteen percent of GLBT people in Copenhagen and 8 percent in other parts of the country say they’ve been discriminated against based on their sexual orientation in the past year, according to a report from the Center for Alternative Social Analysis. GLBT people between ages 16 and 29 reported more problems than older people. A total of 3,400 homophobic incidents were reported to police in 2008, the study said. A report in the Politiken newspaper said gay businesses also have been targeted. Copenhageds oldest gay ba~; Centralhiornet. had rocks thrown through its windows six times in 2008. Patrons also have been bombed with eggs through the bar’s open door. Australian prison OKs gay con}ugal visits Xhe Alexander Maconochie prison in Australia’s Capital Territory has decided to let gay inmates receive conjugal visits six times a year. The policy applies to prisoners who are ~vell-behaved and whose partner is not also incarcerated at the facility. Reports said that the state of Victoria. where Melbourne is located, is the only other place in Australia where gay inmates can have sex dates with their partners. Bosnian churches oppose antidiscrimination bill Bosnia and Herzegovina’s Interreligious Council is opposing a.bill to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation, claiming it will lead to legalization of same-sex marriage. The measure has passed first reading in the House of Representatives. A national law banning discrimination based on sexual orientation is a requirement for any nation that wants its citizens to be able to travel within the European Union without obtaining a visa. Nae Interreligious Council is composed of representatives of the nation’s Roman Catholics, Muslims, Jews and Orthodox Christians. Balkanlnsight.com said it is unttsual for the council "to agree on any concrete actions and (it) often has been blocked by internal boycotts." .Gay marriage campaign launched m Portugal The Movement for Equality in Access to Civil Marriage launched on May 31 in Lisbon, Portugal. More than 1,000 people signed onto the campaign, including politicians, well-known actors, pop singers and businesspeople, and Nobel Prize winner Josd Saramago, who was honored for literature in 1998. The campaign’s manifesto, which nmv can be signed by anyone in Portugal, states, in part: "Equal access to civil marriage is a matter of justice that deserves the support of all people who oppose homophobia and discrimination.... We citizens who believe in equal rights, dignity and recognition for all of us -- for our families, friends and colleagues -- join our voices to express our support for equality. "We call this change necessary, fair and urgent because we know that the current situation of inequality divides society between those who are included and those who are excluded, between persons who are inside and marginalized persons.... We now have an opportunity to end one of the last unjustified (instances of) discrimination written in our law." Peru gay police ban less stringent than reported Peruvian Interior Minister Mercedes Cabanillas says recent news reports that gays have been banned from being police officers were not quite right. Mid-May reports said cops who have sex with people of the same sex would be banned because they cause scandal and denigrate the police’s image. But Cabanillas says the new law, which took effect May 12, will only ban gay cops if their gay-related public behavior is scandalous or damages the image of the institution. She said the ministry has no desire to "get in anyone’s bed" and that officials only wish to target unseemly, embarrassing or scandalous occurrences or attitudes related to sexual orientation that happen in the public sphere. Gay groups said the taw is problematic and discriminatory either way because ir seems to suggest that certain public expressions of homosexuality are more likely ro run afoul of the law than similar public expressions of heterosexuality. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission and Movimiento Homosexual de Lima have launched a letter-~vriting campaign to Peru’s public defender, =’asldng her to file an Action of Unconstitutionality with the Constitutional Court to cl!allenge the so-called ’offense’ of same-sex relations and its associated penalty." "We write to express our concern over Law 29356, vchich establishes a new disciplinary code for the Peruvian police, and stipulates in Article 34 that it is a serious offense to ’have sex with people of the same gender that causes scandal or undermines corporate image,’" a sample letter says in part. "This law is a clear violation of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the Covenant on Civil and Political Rights -- both of which have been signed by Peru. This regressive law also violates the Andean Charter, a regional treaty ratified by Peru in 2002.... Finally, Law 29356 is inconsistent with human rights principles that are already, codified in Peruvian law. On December 1, 2004, a new Constitutional Procedures Code, approved by Parliament, modified constitutional procedures to recognize discrimination based on sexual orientation." Australian benefits agency recognizes gay de facto couples Centrelink, the Australian government’s social-benefits agency, will treat gay de facto couples as married for benefits purposes starting July 1. While the move increases equality, it also will result in a loss of benefits for some coupled gays, who previously qualified based on their individual income. Centrelink assistance encompasses such things as health care, prescription drugs., unemployment payments, disaster aid,,rent subsidies, aid to single parents and a wide range of other benefits and welfare programs. "From 1 July 2009 changes to legislation wilt mean that customers who are in a same-sex de facto relationship will be recognised as partnered for Centrelink and Family Assistance Office purposes," says the agenc)?s Web site. "All customers who are assessed as being a member of a couple will have their rate of payment calculated iri the same way." Colombian policeman added to partner’s health insurance The Board of Health of Colombia’s National Police granted health-insurance benefits to the partner of a gay officer May 14. The extension of coverage to Fabifin Mauricio Chibcha Romero followed a January ruling by the nation’s Constitutional Court that granted marital rights to commonlaw same-sex couples in areas that indude civil service, contracts ~vith the government, housing protection and assistance, immigration, social security, death indemnification, and criminal noninctimination. ~Pne activist group Colombia Diversa said the ruling encompassed all the "civil, political, social, economic, criminal and immigration rights ... of a common-law union, minus adoption." Chibcha also gained access to police housing subsidies and vacation dubs. METROPOL!TAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve ~. 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The grape originated in North Africa, and was spread to Rueda in about the 1 lth Century. For most of this time Verdejo was generally used to make a strongly oxidized, Sherry-like wine, In the 1970s the reminiscent of Sauvignon blanc warm climate. Gar~i Grande 2007 Spain Marquis de Riscal 2007 Spain : Share some food& wine with friendd a~d ehe~k this out for yourself. ,Vouv~ay[vooh-~ay] ’,Wines fi’om the French to the east ofTours are made in range of styles fi-om the Chenin Vintages in the Loire are variable, best years Vouvray can produce very long-lived white wines. It turns out that most chenin blanc 1970s what most generic, alcoholic" " by corporations consumed in rather than wine chenin blanc is exhibiting a nutty, Pichot 2007 Nais writer is one ofthe managers at the Grand Vin wine shop at Utica Square. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events around town known as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. indude: / www. la~neSpecta- Verdicchio months recipe courtesy of: Crab Ingredients 1 Cup Mayonnaise 4 Eggs 1 V2 Cup Japanese Breadcrumbs 2 T Granulated Garlic 2 T Onion Powder 2 - I lb Cans Jumbo Lump Crab Meat (Indonesian or Philippine) 2 - 1 lb Cans Bacldin Crab Meat (indonesian or Philippine) Preparation: Mix first 5 ingredients together by hand. Drain Crab meat cans ofwater. Fold in Baclcfin crab meat first and then gently fold in jumbo lump crab meat being careful not to break up the lumps. If mixrure is too wet. add 1A cup more ofJapanese Breadcrumbs. Mixture should barely hold together. DO NOT PU/T .~NY ADDITIONAL SEASONINGS OR TOO MUCH BRREADCRUMBS IN! The drizzle on top of the crab cakes will give ir all of the seasoning it will need. Preheat a skillet over medium-high heat with half an 20 inch of corn oil. Once the mixture is made, take a 4 ounce scoop and pack in the crab cake mixture. Carefully place the flat side of the crab cake down in the oil for approximately ! - 2 minutes until golden brmvn. Place the crab cake on a pre-greased baking sheet, fried side up. These can now be held for up to 5 days in the refrigerator or finished offin the oven immediately; DRIZZLE INGREDIENTS (BAY MAYO) 1 Cup Mayonnaise 2 T Old Bay Dash ofGranulated Garlic % Cup Heavy Cream the ba~ 12 July 2009 Big-screen beckons Nell Patrick Harris xYvq~ite hosting this year’s Tony Axvards, Nell Patrick Harris joked about his second-class status as a "TV guy." But he’s atready proven he’s hilarious on the big screen in the Harold & Kumar movies, so now that second-tier status is about to change with two new film projects on the horizon. Harris has joined the cast of Beastly, the new film from gay director Daniel Barnz (Phoebe in Wonderland) that Romeo’s already reported on here, but the How I Met Your Mother star wilt also be playing a lead role in The Best and the Brightest. Harris plays a husband - way to break that gay-actor-curse NPH - from Ddaware whose wife goes bananas about social status when they move to New York City and try to get their kid into an elite kindergarten. Amy Sedaris, John ~ and Kate Mulgrew al~0 star in ~he latter; hit theaters before the end of 20!0. How to make a monster musicaJ More and more movies are being made from poptflar childhood toys, from dolls (Kit Kittredge: An American Girl) to action figures (Transformers) tO even board games (Clue). But now we’re getting a movie musical based on a toy that doesn’t even exist yet and will presumably be marketed alongside the film itself. Gay super-producers Craig Zadan and Nell Meron are reuniting with Hairspray composerlyricist Marc Shaiman and lyricist Scott gc’ittman to make an original screen musical around an as-yet-unnamed Mattel monster toy. Every~daing’s being kept very much on the hush-hush, but the one thing that’s been revealed is that the property will "add a fresh twist to monster lore." No word yet on when this new musical will go into production, but Romeo bets five bucks that if the movie and the toy do well, an eventual Broadway adaptation is inevitable. And TV show. And more toys. And sequels. And ... Jake Gyllenhaal andAnne Hathaway Focus Features photo Brokeback spouses reunite Granted, the romance between Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway in Brokeback Mountain was a tragic one involving the closet and deception and death, but these actors are determined to give it another go in a movie where he won’t be playing a gay cowboy. Love and Other Drugs will feature Gyllenhaal as a pharmaceutical sales rep for Pfizer during the time when a revolutionary litde blue pill was hitting the market (the film is based on the book Hard Sell: Tne Evolution ofa Viagra Salesman) while Hathaway will play a woman with Parldnson’s with whom he begins a relationship after they meet on a sales call. Ed Zwick (Glor~ Defiance) is set to direct, with Shooting set to happen possibly as early as this fall. A movie about Viagra may make audiences stand at attention, but if the film lasts more than four hours, please, call your doctor. Romeo San PTcente hopes the monster-toy musical will be like the Dra~dapuppet rock operaj~om _ForgettingSarah Marshall_, complete withfull-fl’ontal male nudity. He can be reached care of thispublication or at DeeplnsideHollywOod@qsyndicate.com. ~LSA, 0g (PR). Continuing the m0fithl9 ShOwcase of local artists a the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa ~ right next to Living Arts (Ok ) will feature Tulsa Artist Michael Cooper with an opening show and reception on Thursday, July 2nd from 6-gpm and continuing throughout the month ofJuly. Michael Cooper is an emerging artist in the Oldahoma scene, specializing in journalistic art, music, and portrait photography. In 2008 he joined Urban Tulsa Weekly as a staff photographer and has seen his work published in notable other Okie publications, induding Oklahoma Gazzette and Oklahoma Today Magazine. In his own words, "I have two eyes and one lens, and they battle each other for experiences daily. The way I see it - few people get to live their passion, and being an artist is mine. I’m just trying this road of exploration out, and I hope you’re there along for the ride". www.metrostarnews.corn gg{<~{:a~oSTA,R 13 MCC United ~°~"-~~o’~°" 918-838-171~ Metropolitan Community Chu~h put tb Chr° y Church 14 ;~÷troSTAR July 2009 www.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 15 PHILADELPHIA, PA "As in one of the most beautiful and interesting cities in the country" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams [)how: Gables Bed andBreakfizst Visiting Philadelphia for the first time -was certainly, a very exciting and interesting time for us. We knew ahead of time al! about the historical things to see and do but had no idea what else to expect. We first checked into The Gables Bed and Break~st which has been owned for the past 16 years by ~rren Cederholm and Don Caskey. Located in the University part of the city, it is a grand old Victoria home full of wonderful antiques from top to bottom. ~e house has a "wrap around" porch for guests to sit and have drinlcs and snacks or just to view the sights and sounds of the area. Each room is beautifully decorated in antiques. A full, and we do mean FULL sit down breakfast in the ~orma! dining room is served each morning. XYge are not talking doughnuts and coflree but a fail sit down brealNast. This was a perfect way to talk with the other guests to find out what others did the day" be~bre or were going to do that day. "While there we met guests from California, Alabama and all over. Many of the guests alwws stay there when visiting Philadelphia. Warren and Don are graciotts hosts and. al%r 16 years of taking guests into their lovely home, they seem to have been able to do it the right way< Another great thing about staying at The Gables is that the trolley system runs right in front of their house and you can take it downtown in just minutes, and it runs about every 20 minutes a!l day 10ng. The), have ample off-street parking behind their house which is a big plus. To begin your day, take the trolley downtown. From that point you can take another bus or ,valk south to the famous historical district of Philadelphia and visit all the places there. No trip to Philadelphia would be complete without visiting the Liberty Bell and the other historical places that are located within a few blocks of there. Philadelphia is proud of their art museums as well they, should be. ~-he Philadelphia Museum of Art is a first class museum and is a MUST for anyon& visit to the cits: A few blocks away is the Rodin Museum which houses more Rodin sculptors any~vhere except for Paris. There are maW other museums to visit also. Ofcourse every visitor to Philadelphia must try one of their famous Philly Cheesesteak sandwiches for lunch. There are a lot of gay bars in the ’~gayborhood" area of the city which is iust a few blocks west of downtmvn and easily ~vithin ~valking distance from the public transportation. Knock was our very favorite bar there. It is what a gay bar should be all about....... A clean bar where the owner/management/staff is super friendly; wl~ere the customers are super friendl> where you can walk in and really enioy yourself, located righ~ on the corner of Locust St. and I2th Street. They also have an excellent res~urant located in the bar. ~Pnis is one of the finest restaurants in the city ~vith fine white linen tablecloths and napkins on every table. Jim the Maitre ’d is extremely professional. The servers are very professional. They have a huge menu offering the very finest of cuisine. Owned by Bill Wood, this bar/restaurant is extremely popular with both people ~vho live in the city as ~vell as travelers. We were fortunate during our stay to see the Broadway pla}~ Grey Gardens which is about the life of the aunt and cousin of Jackie Kennedy- Onassis. They lived in a 24 room house in the Hamptons on Long Island but were extremely poor and let their house run down something horrible. Mother and daughter loved (and hated) each other but were bound to live with each other until the mother finally died. There was a movie made about their lives and HBO came out with another movie a couple of months ago. Both live theatre as well as the visua! arts are a huge makeup in Philadelphia. You could easily spend a whole ~veek in this beautiful city and still not see everything. The architecture is unbelievably tremendous. On weekends, the Penn Landing downtown is full of vendors and local artists. Philadelphia is certainly a city that is welcoming gay travelers with open arms. There are just a handful of cities that you must visit in the country and Philadelphia is certainly" on our short list. Most cities you still need a car to travel around however not in this city. They have such a great public transportation system and is extremely safe and clean. Why can’t all cities do this? For more information on Philadelphia, visit: www.gablesbb.com and they are located at 4520 Chester Avenue. Phone: 215.662. ! 918. ?dso visit w~v<ka~ockphilly. COLT1 Another great website to visit is: http://www.gophita.com/c/your_ philadelphia/14/diverse_philadelphia/287/ gay~friendly_philadelphia/4.html and wwcw. gayphiladelphia.com On a personal note, we want to thank Bruce Yelk, Director of Human Resources & Gay Marketing, Greater Philadelphia Tourism marketing Corportation and to our friend Buster Stevens who hosted a wonderful dinner for us xvhile we were visiting. Photo: Famous Liber~_y Bell Philadelphia, PA Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Wayne Fuller reported on gossipboy.com, an Oklahoma internet news service focused on the GLBT community, that Mr. Chiles had been convicted of Obtaining Money by False Pretenses in McClain County in 2006, for which he received a 2 year deferred sentence now completed. Since then a warrant for his arrest was issued for the same offense in Pontotoc County, which was in effect when he was elected to his Democratic Party position. Robert Chiles, Director &Founder ofPrject Pride Foundation ofOklahoma. Gorin photo On June 8, represented by attorney Gordon Melson, he appeared in court in Pontotoc Count-5: An agreement was reached ~vith the warrant withdrawn, and Robert ~vould have until August 27 to make restitution to the parties involved. On June 3, when cast members from the national tour of "The Drowsy Chaperone" did a benefit at Tulsa’s Renegades Club for Until There’s a Cure, an organization helping those with HIV. Mr. Chiles presented them with a large check payable to that organization. It likewise would not clear his bank. Mr. Chiles had been contacted by that organization and he promised them a cashier~ check which was not received as of press time. Following this, Mr. Chiles had asked the Red Ribbon Revue, a monthly benefit show performed at Renegades, to do a benefit for his Foundation. In a statement to gossipboy. corn Renegades entertainer Tabitha Taylor stated, "I’m glad this was caught before we did a fundraiser with the name attached." www.metrostamews.com ~÷{~oSTAR 17 18 July 2009 ,~.metrostarnews.com ~®~°~STAR t9 By Camper English Crafting the Cosmopolitan ~he Cosmopolitan is one tasty cocktail and probably most popular drink created in the last 30 years, but it is not magically original. The recipe calls for lemon vodka, lime iuice, orange liqueur, and a splash of cranberry for color. Minus the cranberry, the drink follows the formula of spirit plus lime plus orange liqueur. If that spirit is tequila, that’s a Margarita. If it’s unflavored vodka, that’s a Kamikaze. In fact. the prevailing theory on the creation of the Cosmopolitan is that it ,vas a spin-offofthe Kamikaze created by a Miami bartender named Cheryl Cook in 1985 or !986. She said the Cosmo is. ~ "Merely a ~ Kamikaze with Absolut Citron and a splash of cranberry juice." But her version called for Rose’s lime juice, a bottled lime juice that’s a poor substimte for freshsqueezed, and triple sec, which usually refers to the low-end orange liqueurs that are poor substitutes for Cointreau. These items are often served at high-volume bars that want to save money on (admittedly pricey) orange liqueur and don’t want their bartenders taldng the time to squeeze limes for each drink. But I find the Cosmo-to be intolerable ~vithout them. So too did Toby Cecchini, a New York bartender credited with finessing the drink into its best form. Someone told Cecchini about the drink, but in their version it was made with unflavored vodka, Rose’s lime, and the red-colored syrup grenadine. He liked the look of the drink - soft pink and served in a Martini glass - and experinaented ~vith ingredients to make the flavor match the fashion. In the end, his version came out just like Cheryl Cook’s version, but with better ingredients. This version caught on like wildfire in New York. causing Cecchini and other bartenders to make them by the thousands. In the era of bottled sour mix and vermouthflee Martinis. this drink seerned highmaintenance enough for Cecchini to call them "labor-intensive pink monstrosities." ~e trick to making a good pink monstrosity; even if you have the proper ingredients, is getting the ratio of them. right. Apparently this is a problem for bartenders ~oo - i’ve had Cosmopolitans i~ every shade from c!¢ar to deep red. When I make them at borne, I’m ~o~- laz/to Ioot up ~[~e recipe so I }ust ake ir ,,~ ingredient ar a vitae: ~ couo~e ounces of Charon a smat~ splash of Cointreau. and a large quantity of’lime. (I like them tart.) I make mine in keeping ,vith Cheryl Cook’s original instructions of ~jttst enough cranberry to make it oh so pretty in pink." That’s my starting point, anyway. One thing I’ve learned making this drink is that cranberry juice, like slimming black clothing, hides many sins. Even if you get the initial ratios of liquor and juice all wrong, or have to resort to bottled lime )uice and bottom-shelf triple sec, you can always make a drinkable version of this drink. Just keep adding cranberry until it’s good. Vodka, Now Available in Juniper Flavor I like to think of"bathtub gift" as "Martinis by the poo!." but that’s not where the expression originated. It came about during Prohibition xvhen people would "make" their own gin by adding mail-order juniper flavoring to lowquality alcohol to help mask its awfulness. 2the weird tiring is, gin cocktails were awfully popular back then. Today it is still legal to make gin this way- not in the bathtub. but by adding juniper oil and other flavors to a neutral spirit like vodka. Thankftdly, most of the gins with which we’re familiar don’t do it like that. Gin usually starts with high-proof neutral spirit made from grains like corn, wheat, and rye. The gin distiller then selects a range of botanicals or botanical oils to infuse into the spirit, then redistills everything together. There are many different distilling methods gin makers employ, but this is probably only interesting to folks like me ~vho spend our spare time hanging out in distilleries on vacation. More interesting are the types of botanicals that go in to gin. Traditional brands like Beefeater, Plymouth, and Tanqueray contain many ingredients like citrus peels, coriander, cinnamon, and cassia bark. Newer gins on the market like Bombay Sapphire, Hendrick’s, and Martin Miller’s also include things like lavender, ginseng, rose, and green tea. All gins, by definition, must contain jtmiper (berries that smell like pine trees) as a dominant flavor, but the newer ones tend to put less of it in. While vodka lovers and gin lovers are usually different sorts of people (though I find versatility provides more options in the bedroom and the liquor cabinet)~ when it comes right down to it gin is really just juniper-flavored vodka. Ifyou’ve got vodka drinkers over for cocktails and you only have gin left, just tell them their drinks are made with "botanical vodka." If you’re in the opposite situation, tell them the vodka is "diet gin." Lying to your guests is the most entertaining part of entertaining them. The combination and concentration of the juniper, spices, citrus, and other botanicals is what gives each gin its unique flavor and makes it a better or worse fit for different cocktails. Some modern gins are so very citrusy and floral that they can be too perfumey for a Martini. (Hey, this drink smells like grandma!} On the other hand. when you add an intensely juniper-heaW gin ro a Gimlet or other mild cockt ills. s~metimes all you ~aste b rhe juniper. (Hey, this drink smells like where ~ ~andma is buried!~ 2O The trick is finding the right fit for each gin fqr your mouth. I prefer the old-style gins in a Martini, Aviation, Pink Gin, and Negroni. With the more-floral, less-juniper gins I like the Salty Dog, Gimlet, White Lady, and Vesper. But I find that no matter what kind of gin you have in the house you can always add it to tonic water and it will taste just fine. Tonic is the mixer that swings both ways. Camper English is a cocktails andspirits writer andpublisher ofAlcademics.com. Miss Gay Oklahoma 2009 Crowned in OKC By Victor Gorin Left: 2008 Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer, 1st altetmam Samantha West, Shantd l~£andalay &Miss Gay America Victoria DePaula. Gorin Photo worked their hearts out, hoping to be the next Miss Gay Oklahoma. Emceed by former Miss Gay America 2006 Nicole Dubois & former Miss Gay Oklahoma 2005 Pure Chocolate (as Steven), it got wild Saturday night as it wound down to 5 finalists with their friends cheering on their favorites. That fun fabulous contest came to a conclusion on Saturday night June 13 when Shantel Mandalay finally won the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma America after many years of pursuing that dream. A proud 3rd grade teacher who also coaches Special Olympics, Miss Mandalay and her entourage wowed the audience with a fast stepping dance routine to the C&W classic "The Devi! went down to Georgia" that brought the house down. It was also an emotional time for the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer when she passed on her tide, joining many other former Miss Gay Oklahomas who were there for the occasion. Together with 1st alternate Samantha \Vest. Shantel will be eligible to compete in the national Miss Gay America competition to be held this year in St.Louis October 28.- November 1. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It was a festive weekend June 11-13 at Angles in Oklahoma City when once again the girls lIGHT BILENT AUCTION- AND RAFFLES Dd. IKEY TURNS UP THE WITH OlSDg ALL NIGHT ~:mSTAR July 2009 ~’#~W.metrostamews.com @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ OGRA Pool Party, OKC @Club Majestic, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa Oklahoma City @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Finishlinel Oklahoma City @ OGRA Rodeo, OKC Tulsa Pride 09 Parade @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Tulsa Pride 09 Parade www.metrostarnews.com , <,STAR 23 Oban~a administration defending DOMA is shocking and unsetding. Clearly, our selfdescribed ’fierce advocate’ needs significant additional pushing and pressure from all of US." Popular blogger John Aravosis: "A Democratic president of the United States of i~erica, in the year 2009. and an African- B~nerican child of inter-racial parents no less, gave his la~wers the go ahead ro compare our marriages to incest on the same day that 42 years ago the Supreme Court ruled in [ais parents’ favor in Loving v. Virginia.... We demand our rights, and we expect this president, who promised them in exchange [or millions of our votes and millions of our donations, to deliver. And so help me God, we will continue to hold this president accountable for his broken promises and his betrayals]" Lambda Lega!’s Legal Director Jon Davidson: "X~at they need to be asked is why they gratuitously went out of their -way ~o make the outrageous arguments they unnecessarily included such as that DOM2~ does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or that the right ar issue is not marriage but an unestablished rigi~t ~o ’same-sex marriage or that DOMA is somehow iustified in order to protect taxpayers ~;ho don’t want their tax do!lars used ro suppor~ lesbian and gay couples iwhile it~ apparently fine to make lesbians and gay men pay the same rm,:es but be &nied the benefits provided heterosexual couples) .... I am seething mad." Top Clinton aide R5chard Socarides: "It had such a buckshot approach ro it, a veritable kitchen sink of anti-gay legal theories, that it seemed expressly designed to inflict maximal damage ro our rights. Instead of malting nuanced arguments which took into account the president’s oi?-stated support for repealing DO1VLA -- a law he has called ’abhorrent’ -- the brief seemed to embrace DOMA and all its horrific consequences," Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors: "We ... call on President Obama m order the Justice Department ro file a supplemental brief reversing its position and instead urging the repeal of DOMA." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey: "The malicious and outrageous arguments and language used in the Department ofJustice’s marriage brief is only serving to inflame and malign the humanity of same-sex couples and our families." Gay writer Dan Savage: "If this shit is ’fierce advocacy,’ Mr. President, we’ll take benign neglect.7 CBS News: "The anger from gay rights advocates toward President Obama is starting to boil over." ~!~e Wall Street Journal called Sotmonese’s letter to Obama "scathing." The New York Times editorialized: "The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has nor done much, actually struck a blow" for the other side last week.... If the administration does feel compelled to defend (DOMA), it should do so in a less hurtful wa~: ... There writer Dan / Savage: "If ’\ dais shit is ’fierce advocacy; Mr. President, we’ll take benign / \... neglect." was no need to resort to specious arguments and inflammatory language to impugn samesex marriage as an institution." Plans apparently are shaping up for a gay March on Washington in October, spearheaded, it appears, by veteran activist Cleve Jones, the man who created the NAMES Proiect AIDS Memorial O~ilt."The President is in serious danger of motivating a huge mass of gay people to stream into \Ygashington for the simple ioy of standing in front of the White House and giving him a piece of their minds," wrote syndicated gay columnist \gayne Besen. "For what seemed Iike forever, Democrats told us that when the big bad Republicans went away, our lives would improve," Besen said. "XN~ell, the Republican nightmare is over, so why do I still feel like I’m in the middle of a political Friday the 13th movie? ... As far as I’m concerned, if the donkeys can’t detiv(r now, they can Idss my ass." On June 17, when Obama "delivered" to federal employees a smattering of spousal benefits, via issuance of a "memorandum," he did again denounce DOblA. "I think we all have to acknowledge this is only one step," the president said. the steps we have not yet t~en is to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. I believe it’s discriminatory, I think it interferes ,vith states’ rights, and we will work with Congress ro overturn it. \rUe’re gor more work to do to ensure that government treats all its citizens equally, to figh~ iniustice and intolerance in all its forms, and to bring about that more perfect union. I’m committed to these efforts, and I pledge to work tirelessly on behalf of these issues in the months and years to come.- Obama also expressed support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act. "Under current law, we cannot provide same-sex couples with the full range of benefits enjoyed by heterosexual married couples," he said. "That’s why I’m proud to announce rny support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act, crucial legislation that will guarantee these rights for all federal employees. I want to thank Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who is behind me somewhere -- there she is, right there -- for her tireless leadership on this bill and in the broader struggle for equality. I want to thank Sen. Joe Lieberman -- Joe is here -- as well as Susan Collins for championing this bill in the Senate, and Rep. Barney Frank for his leadership on this and so many other issues." Sounds good, but gay activists ~veren’t impressed. They want action. "We commend President Obama ana his administration for taking this beginning step to level the playing field but we look forward to working with him to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, overturn ’Dofft Ask, Don’t Tell’ and guarantee the entire American worl6brce is free from discrimination," said HRC’s Solmonese. The Associated Press said, "His (Obama’s) critics -- and there were many -- saw Wednesday’s incremental move to expand gay rights as litde more than pandering to a reliably Democratic voting bloc." Lamb& Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart: "While ending any of the discrimination against gay and lesbian federal employees is a welcome step, today’s ... announcement falls far short of our hopes and expectations. President Obama dearly understands how important it is for people to have health insurance coverage ro protect their loved ones and this plan does not provide that. Lambda Legal is representing Karen Golinsldi, a federal employee who works for the judicial branch and who is seeking health insurance coverage for her same-sex spouse. A federal judge has already issued an administrative decision in that matter, concluding that, within the existing roles, the federal government can choose to provide health insurance for same-sex partners. Vie think they should.... The day is long past for incomplete, piecemeal fixes that leave hard-worldng families uninsured and struggling." People For the American W’ay President Michael B. Keegan: "Today’s presidential memorandum is a very small step in the right direction, but it’s a token, and tokens are no longer enough. DOMA stands in the way of real progress for same-sex couples nmv denied federal recognition and protection, and its repeal is tong overdue. President Obama has a unique ability to provide the moral leadership to ensure that all Americans are treated equally under the law. but so far he has failed to exercise it. We urge the president to live up to his own rhetoric about being a ’fierce advocate’ fbr gay and lesbian Americans. Taking action on his pledge to repeal DOMA would be ~vorthy of the vision that he held out to Americans during his campaign NGLTF’s Carey: "This presidential memorandum today will extend some selected protections to the same-sex partners and families of federal employees.... This memo is one building block toward full equality, and much more remains to be done in order for the administration to live up to the promises of equality the president made as a candidate on the campaign trail.... We also call on the president to take additional steps that will have a positive impact on our health, our livelihoods and our families’ safety that do not require legislative action. These include reversing the standing policy of the U.S. Census Bureau to manually un-marry any same-sex couple who lawfully states they are married on the 2010 census, extending employment protections to federal employees based on gender identity, and reversing the regulations that continue to throw roadblocks in the way of HIV-positive individuals who want to travel to this country." NCLR’s Kendell: "The policy announced today by the president committing to a federal ~vorkplace free from discrimination is a step in the right direction but inadequate and long overdue. It leaves out millions ofAmerieans who do not work for the federal government and fails to include key benefits including health insurance. When running for office, then candidate Obama called equality for LGBT people a ’moral imperative.’ We will continue to demand this administration live up to the president’s promise of achieving ’full equality for the millions ofLGBT people in this country.’" The language is strong and the front is unified. Nae White House clearly is listening, but when will our "fierce advocate" act? Writing on his house.gov Web site June 16, gay U.S. Rep. Jared Polls, D-Colo., said: "I am a proud Democrat, as are many in the LGBT community, and I believe we must hold our leaders accountable. The Obama Administration made a HUGE mistalte in the DOMA brief. If they keep malting mistakes like this. they risktosing the support of the GLBT community forever, although I do not believe we are at that point yet. President Obama needs to honor his promise ro repeal this ... hateful and divisive law. As the New York Times editorialized yesterday, ’busy calendars and political expediency are no excuse for malting one group of Americans wait any longer for equal rights.’" labor of love really," said Arbuckle. "We ate like a family here." The organization serves men, women and children. "XWe have about 30-40 children who may be infected or have parents who are," adds Arbuclde. Recently, Arbuckle submitted a grant application to the }v’La,C-AIDS Fund which is an organization established in 1994 that globally supports all persons lMng with HIV/AIDS. "It is a passion for our company and our staff," said Armando Ortiz, MAC Retail Manager at Penn Square Mall. "We refer to this as the heart and soul ofMAC Cosmetics. MAC stands for Make-up, Art and Cosmetics. "Our Viva-Glam program is where the monies come from," adds Ortiz. "We give back 100% of the selling price back to the community. This program is really something we embrace in our company." MAC Cosmetics has been in business since I984 and has donated over $t35 million dollars to date through the MAC-AIDS Fund. Other Options has changed some over the years and now focuses primarily on their Friends Food Pantry. "The other services are provided so well by other organizations in the city that we focus on the nutritional program now," said Mary Arbuckle, Director of the Other Options organization. "\ge work well together with RAIN Oklahoma, the OU Infectious Disease Clinic, and other local organizations so our clients can ger all the hdp they need and so there is less duplication of services." Friends Food Pantry is exclusive to the HIV and MDS community. Clients come to the srore to shop each week. "We give them a shopping cart and let them select their own items, which is different than most food banks," adds Arbuckle. "We want to empower their mind; we don’t want them to feel like it’s a charity." Arbuckle says they plan ro spend the majority of the MAC-AIDS grant on their Boost program, which provides the high-prorein Boost drink to those in most need of the nutritional supplement. Donations to Other Options are always ~velcomed and appreciated. For more information about Other Options or the Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 946- 8577. by Jack Fertig July 2009 "Pay attention, Cancer!" Saturn square Mercury would normally bring out everyone’s inner critic, but with Saturn in Virgo and Mercury in Gemini, bitchy outbursts are to be expected. If you’re feeling brilliant, write it down and think twice before saying it aloud. Take a long view and look for opportunities for self-improvement, ARIES (March 20 - Apri~ 19): Stay focused on work. Any personal remarks, especially about colleagues, are sure to get you into trouble. Your critical analyses and recommendations for improvement are probably a bit off the mark, but at least they show you’re paying attention. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Avoid gambling and investments in any game play strictly for funsies. Focus on developing skill at your sport or hobby. That’s an uphill slog, too, but something that’s just fun now can have practical value down the road. GEMiNi {May 21- June 20): If you get any criticism from family or roommates, thank them for sharing and think about what they say. There may be something to it. Responding in kind will only start an a~ui argument. CANCER (June 21~- July 22): Pay attention where you’re walking or driving. Distractions inside your own head can cause awful accidents. Be aware of your surroundings, and you can find better ways to bang up against someone. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You’re inclined to be very critical of someone’s political values, so why not focus on your own? In this era of diminishing resources, we all need to step back and re-think things. Brainstorming with friends will help you update your perspective. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22) The sharp edge of your wit is very much in evidence. Keep it focused on practical matters and attention to your own health and well-being. When tempted to speak of others, make extra effort to keep it kind and constructive. L~B~ (September 23 - October 22): There’s always room for selfimprovement, but don’t beat yourself up with your faults, which you’re now likely to exaggerate anyway. A creative focus for your inner critic could help you to be more realistic. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): As your brain races around sex, you may want to look beyond simple gratification. That has its time and place, but think seriously about your relationships and what you’d want to be doing - and with whom - in 20 years. SAG!TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You will get into arguments. Stay focused, principled and respectful. The way you press your point can earn you a great deal of respect. Stay clear on details and graciously accept correction when it’s appropriate. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Take it slow and easy. Pay attention to details and you’ll have fewer accidents and arguments at work. Sex seems a great release for stress, but is it really? Focus on what’s important at work and at play. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be losing yourself helping others, and fun may feel more like work. An analytic approach to techniques of craft, sport and/or pleasure reconciles the latter. Being ruthless and selfish for a bit is now good for you. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Domestic criticisms are nearly inevitable. Being self-critical will help keep you out of arguments, but give yourself credit as well as blame. Your partner’s shortcomings on that score are highlighted because of your focus. If you must say something, be kind and gentle! Community for People iving with H R/!A DS A 50’f c (3) Non t rofit Or~nizadon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyda~: We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobat.net 112 3 4 ~5 6 7 8 9 ~10111213 14 ~ 15 17 18 19 66 67 68 69 70 7I 43 Ausmas capital( to Aust ~ans ~ ’Watcha~Liberg~ game h~re 18 Irritating : , 50 of Seventeefi : 52 :l~i~---~"s home Stat~ (abgr:}; ~3 cone Out ~nthe b~a~h 5~ ~Evbr~tt S Monkey Zetterland 58 E~d of the a~eadline ~ 52 Adult filly 69 %v0some 70 Second name in cross-dressing 7! 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And as if that’s not enough, he falls in love with his most recent "rent boy" and wants to announce it to the world. Helping him navigate Holl.~;~vood’s choppy waters, his shark of an agent Diane does everything she can to keep him away ~?om the rent boy and the rent boy’s girlfriend (wait, the rent boy has a girlfriend?), but it’s not smooth sailing. Ticket sales are limited to 200, so buy )!our rickets early! Jamie Fo~ Jul 9, 2009 at BOK Center Ticket Prices: $69.75 and $59.75 "l~is summer heats tip with a tour from one of the Imrtest artists to move fi:om the big screen to the stage. Jamie Foxx begins a summer tour in July and makes Tulsa one of the first stops. eridm Idols Live Jul 24, 2009 at BOK Center Tulsa Tickets Prices: $69.50, $55.50, $40.50 Fans ofAmerica’s #1 show will once again have the chance to catch their favorite "Idols" performing live in concert, as the top 10 contestants from American Idol season 8 hit the road in the highly anticipated summer tour. 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BOULDER %lsa, OK 918-584-9944 CLUB MAJESTIC !24 N. BOSTON Tulsa, OK 9!8-584-9494 FINISHLINE ~oo NW 59TH EXPreSSWaY Oklahoma Civ, OK 405-525-2900 ~l=,v.habanainn.cona THE COPA 2200 NW 39TH E~SSWAY O~om~ Cit~ OK 405-525-0730 x~m,w.habanainn.com Start building a business today to supplement your" income in case of layoff. High potential commissions. Excellent instruction. Set your own hours. Call NATHAN BLACK Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. www.metrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 27 28 July 2009 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Metro Star Magazine, July 1, 2009; Volume 6, Issue 7 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Metro Star’s first issue began in August of 2008. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Newspaper article Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Over the Rainbow: Tulsa Pride has evolved during the last 30 years, receiving much local support Subject The topic of the resource Pride 2009 Description An account of the resource Article covering Pride 2009. Discussion about the growing acceptance of LGBT rights in the United States. Focus is on resistance from within the state and support from Tulsa. Noah Blatt, 9 years old, was grand marshal of the parade after donating $11 to OKEQ. Includes picture of performer Mindy Bartlett. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Erin Fore Urban Tulsa Weekly Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Urban Tulsa Weekly Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Urban Tulsa Weekly Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 2009 June 2009 June 4-10, 2009 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Erin Fore Urban Tulsa Weekly Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource News clipping 6x13' Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource Newspaper article Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context Urban Tulsa Weekly, June 4-10, 2009 pg. 24 Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Pride, Tulsa Pride 2009, Oklahomans for Equality, Sally Kern, Toby Jenkins, Mindy Bartlett, Eric Himan and the Adams https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ad20efeb17a26adcb09dc5c8e4173cbb.pdf f114a930b5b0ca5eb8a15548a7f7df81 PDF Text Text June 6th 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM www.tulsapride.org Centennial Park - 6th and Peoria Festival Events: Pioneer Pancake Breakfast From 7:00 AM to 10:00 AM Centennial Park Community Building Presents Golden Girls 2:00 PM and 3:30 PM Centennial Park Community Building Orasi Productions Presents BBQ ANGEL 12:00 PM and 5:00 PM Centennial Park Community Building Pride Parade at 7:30 PM Begins at Boulder and Brady ends at Centennial Park Equality Fire Works Show Centennial Park Lake at Dark Centennial Park Under the Stars Experience all of OZ after the festival! 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Pride Photos Subject The topic of the resource Photos from the 2009 Tulsa Pride Festival and Pride activities Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 2009 Description An account of the resource 27 Photos from the 2009 Tulsa Pride Festival of the park landscape and riders on the Ferris wheel. 2009 2009 Pride Ferris wheel Pride Pride 2009 pride festival Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2009 Tulsa Pride Events Tulsa Pride Festival https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b609d1081173d91c5fa26a601332d2b8.pdf f82144a330a82ae9441df54bac8e467f PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality 2009 Review Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBT Oklahomans and their allies since 1980, it is the oldest continuously operating LGBT advocacy organization in America’s heartland. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, our headquarters is located at the corner of 4th and Kenosha in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the vibrant east village and actively involved in the revitalization of the urban core of Tulsa County. The Equality Center has been recognized by the National Preservation Historic Trust as an excellent example of repurposing a historic structure. Originally a 1920’s oil refinery office with 18,000 square feet was purchased and renovated in 2005. It now serves as the epicenter of the vibrant LGBT community in Northeastern Oklahoma. In June 2009 the Equality Center was featured on the Preservation Trust website “This Place Matters”. From the earliest days of the founding of our organization, advocacy on behalf of the gay community has been front and center. We have found that speaking up for ourselves is the most effective route in addressing discrimination. Working closely with local and state legislative bodies and familiarizing elected officials about our issues is a continuous effort. Small businesses and larger companies and corporations can benefit from our diversity in the work place workshops. Occasionally, a confrontational response is required when an individual targets our community with hate speech. Our opponents have learned we will not be silent when persecuted. Most of the time, when insensitive comments are made towards a certain segment of a community it comes from a lack of education. We offer a speaker’s bureau that in 2009 spoke on 9 college campuses and 3 high schools and even a federal agency. We maintain an exhaustive lending library that is heavily utilized by our members and visitors to the Equality Center. Archiving our story in Oklahoma is critically important so we established the history project where hundreds of memorabilia, stories, and documented events are cataloged and added monthly to the substantial collection. Throughout the calendar year we have lectures that feature some of the top experts in LGBTQ studies. Our goal for our membership is to equip them to be the best citizens in our community. Oklahomans for Equality has created 38 different weekly programs that serve the needs of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community. Grief recovery, mental health support, legal clinics, children’s events for those raising a family, health and fitness activities to help us comply with Oklahoma’s new vision for a healthier state are just few of those programs. Each program is volunteer led by trained and certified professionals. In 2009 Oklahomans for Equality partnered with 13 area non profits in special events or projects that served Tulsans. We have turned into the anchor city for the heartland region �in LGBTQ advocacy work. Visitors from bordering states come to study how we have created an effective outreach in one of the most conservative sections of the country. In 2009 14 cities sent teams to visit the Equality Center � Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Review of Oklahomans for Equality Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Oklahomans for Equality Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 1980-2009 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Oklahomans for Equality 2009 2009 Review History OkEq Review https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/72587474f1b86d2d6ce9eb0f776ca5d4.pdf f82144a330a82ae9441df54bac8e467f PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality 2009 Review Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBT Oklahomans and their allies since 1980, it is the oldest continuously operating LGBT advocacy organization in America’s heartland. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, our headquarters is located at the corner of 4th and Kenosha in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the vibrant east village and actively involved in the revitalization of the urban core of Tulsa County. The Equality Center has been recognized by the National Preservation Historic Trust as an excellent example of repurposing a historic structure. Originally a 1920’s oil refinery office with 18,000 square feet was purchased and renovated in 2005. It now serves as the epicenter of the vibrant LGBT community in Northeastern Oklahoma. In June 2009 the Equality Center was featured on the Preservation Trust website “This Place Matters”. From the earliest days of the founding of our organization, advocacy on behalf of the gay community has been front and center. We have found that speaking up for ourselves is the most effective route in addressing discrimination. Working closely with local and state legislative bodies and familiarizing elected officials about our issues is a continuous effort. Small businesses and larger companies and corporations can benefit from our diversity in the work place workshops. Occasionally, a confrontational response is required when an individual targets our community with hate speech. Our opponents have learned we will not be silent when persecuted. Most of the time, when insensitive comments are made towards a certain segment of a community it comes from a lack of education. We offer a speaker’s bureau that in 2009 spoke on 9 college campuses and 3 high schools and even a federal agency. We maintain an exhaustive lending library that is heavily utilized by our members and visitors to the Equality Center. Archiving our story in Oklahoma is critically important so we established the history project where hundreds of memorabilia, stories, and documented events are cataloged and added monthly to the substantial collection. Throughout the calendar year we have lectures that feature some of the top experts in LGBTQ studies. Our goal for our membership is to equip them to be the best citizens in our community. Oklahomans for Equality has created 38 different weekly programs that serve the needs of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community. Grief recovery, mental health support, legal clinics, children’s events for those raising a family, health and fitness activities to help us comply with Oklahoma’s new vision for a healthier state are just few of those programs. Each program is volunteer led by trained and certified professionals. In 2009 Oklahomans for Equality partnered with 13 area non profits in special events or projects that served Tulsans. We have turned into the anchor city for the heartland region �in LGBTQ advocacy work. Visitors from bordering states come to study how we have created an effective outreach in one of the most conservative sections of the country. In 2009 14 cities sent teams to visit the Equality Center � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality 2009 Review Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBT Oklahomans and their allies since 1980, it is the oldest continuously operating LGBT advocacy organization in America’s heartland. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, our headquarters is located at the corner of 4th and Kenosha in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma in the vibrant east village and actively involved in the revitalization of the urban core of Tulsa County. The Equality Center has been recognized by the National Preservation Historic Trust as an excellent example of repurposing a historic structure. Originally a 1920’s oil refinery office with 18,000 square feet was purchased and renovated in 2005. It now serves as the epicenter of the vibrant LGBT community in Northeastern Oklahoma. In June 2009 the Equality Center was featured on the Preservation Trust website “This Place Matters”. From the earliest days of the founding of our organization, advocacy on behalf of the gay community has been front and center. We have found that speaking up for ourselves is the most effective route in addressing discrimination. Working closely with local and state legislative bodies and familiarizing elected officials about our issues is a continuous effort. Small businesses and larger companies and corporations can benefit from our diversity in the work place workshops. Occasionally, a confrontational response is required when an individual targets our community with hate speech. Our opponents have learned we will not be silent when persecuted. Most of the time, when insensitive comments are made towards a certain segment of a community it comes from a lack of education. We offer a speaker’s bureau that in 2009 spoke on 9 college campuses and 3 high schools and even a federal agency. We maintain an exhaustive lending library that is heavily utilized by our members and visitors to the Equality Center. Archiving our story in Oklahoma is critically important so we established the history project where hundreds of memorabilia, stories, and documented events are cataloged and added monthly to the substantial collection. Throughout the calendar year we have lectures that feature some of the top experts in LGBTQ studies. Our goal for our membership is to equip them to be the best citizens in our community. Oklahomans for Equality has created 38 different weekly programs that serve the needs of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community. Grief recovery, mental health support, legal clinics, children’s events for those raising a family, health and fitness activities to help us comply with Oklahoma’s new vision for a healthier state are just few of those programs. Each program is volunteer led by trained and certified professionals. In 2009 Oklahomans for Equality partnered with 13 area non profits in special events or projects that served Tulsans. We have turned into the anchor city for the heartland region in LGBTQ advocacy work. Visitors from bordering states come to study how we have created an effective outreach in one of the most conservative sections of the country. In 2009 14 cities sent teams to visit the Equality Center Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oklahoma LGBT+ History > In Memoriam Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br /><br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Person An individual. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009] Yaniv Katz and Liz Tarbishi Memorial Subject The topic of the resource Yaniv Katz and Liz Tarbishi Memorial and Announcement Description An account of the resource 2 documents regarding a memorial for the passing of Yaniv Katz and Liz Tarbishi, who died in Tel Aviv, Israel on August 1, 2009, hosted by Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ).<br /><br /><strong>Document 1:</strong> A pamphlet for the memorial vigil at the OKEQ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on August 13, 2009, 2 pages total.<br /><br /><strong>Document 2:</strong> An announcement by OKEQ President Toby Jenkins that the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will have their rainbow flag flown at half mast to honor Katz and Tarbishi, 1 page. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 13, 2009 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Toby Jenkins 2009 Anna Berroll Bar Noar Bar-Noar Bar-Noar LGBT Youth Center Barry Abels Congregation B'nai Emunah Eric Himan hate crime hate crimes in memoriam Israeli Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Aguda Israeli Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Association Jewish Federation of Tulsa Liz Tarbishi Marc Boone Fitzerman memoriam Michael Merryman Nancy Eggen Nancy McDonald OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Board President OKEQ Board President Toby Jenkins Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Open Arms Open Arms Youth Project Open Arms Youth Project (OYP) OpenArms OpenArms Project Openarms Youth Project Openarms Youth Project (OYP) OYP Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) PFLAG Rabbi Anna Beroll Rabbi Marc Boone Fitzerman rainbow flag Rebecca Ungerman Rev. 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