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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document PR Y S RV N H ■ TA OMMUN TY ···· 1~ ~r; <t Page 2 .i I I i ! j Miss Peggy Lee A Career Chronicle Robert Strom Foreword by Keely Smith Available Spring/Summer 2005 Peggy Lee holds a speciai place in the history of American and jazz music. From her bit n May 26, 1920, to her final recording on August 26, 1995, to the New Yorker's obituary from February of 2002, these chronological entries cover every moment of her professiOnal life. Detailed entries 'describe recordings (both albums and songs), radio and television appearances, her work in films, and her songwriting efforts, draw from interviews ·with Lee and others, nightclub and concert reviews, and a wealth of other sources. Appendices list songs that Lee performed and recorded and a selective list of her CDs. The work concludes with a bibliography and is illustrated with many rare photographs. About the Author Author Robert Strom lives in San Leandro, Caiifornia. www.mcfarlandpub.com HOW DARE YOU ... ? Are there not times you would just like to ask exactly that? How dare you? How dare you drag me into that argument? How dare you refer to me in that manner? How dare you wear that? How dare you color your hair chartreuse? · More importantly how da::e you show any one in our community disrespect because you can't accept who you are? Am I upset, YES! Overwhelmingly so! You see when I arrived back in j oplin in 1996. there existed a J opjn Pride organization and ;:he first letter I read in tnei r newsletter was from a young man ,vho ·.,:a~ tired cf ~he "prideiessne,s" of Jopl:n's Queer Community Anci this vcung man was moving away to where he hoped he could find a community with some pride. This last t\vo \vceks has sh(nvn those of us at the C)zark Star just ho-..v kY\V people can reaHy be and the inability of our con11nunit\~ to take pride in itself. .r\ friend \vho i5 a mas~age therapist, a legai, gcrvernn1cnt regulated, therapeutic professional \V3S a~J~ to offer 1nore than a massage. Sexual favors were requested with a flippant "your family, aren't you?" Another friend whose job is to work closely with people living with HIV, providing support in financial, medical and social services was ask the same thing ... "after all your gay!" Then I received a phone call from someone asking if we could get together? "Your writing for a gay paper and don't you preach at a gay church" so after all you must be a homosexual and I have this fantasv." Well fantasize this! I am a gay male not turned off by being called gay, homosexual or faggot and am strong being confident in myself and who I am. I am in a loving relationship and don't need fantasies from myself or yours. I am a professional having spent over thirty years in health care, having written for two other gay oriented magazines, having belonged to gay support organizations, marched in numerous protest, have won a battle to get my job back after being fired for no other reason but that I was gay. And yes as a professional I am also the pastor of the longest surviving gay organization in Joplin, Missouri. I love my congregation, my community and wouid do anything for them. Do I respect myself and am I happy with whom I am. Absolutely! Well fantasize this! My friend the massage therapist is a professional caring for her clients, maintaining the highest standards of practice and caring about her community. She respects herselE, knows who she is and is willing :o help anyone, anywhere she is. Does she respect herself and is she happy witl: whom she is, Absolutely! Well fantasize this! My friend who provides for the HIV communiry is a professional :hat ioving cares for and provides for her dien~s, their families and makes every attempt co keep the community safe. Does she respect herself and :s she happy with whom she is? l\bsoluteiv! \X:eil fantasize this! A community . ..continued-pg 15 Page 6 Dear Editor: We received the Ozark's Star today and CONGRATULATIONS on your 1st year anniversary! That is quite an accomplishment and we are very proud of you. Besides writing the travel column for you we have also got ro know you and how truly a nice and generous person you are. We know that only the very best in life will prevail for you. Again, congratulations on your 1st anniversary. We are only glad that in some small way we could have been a part of it. "Love, live, laugh ............. " Donald Pile Ray Williams The Gay Travelers Dear Editor: Congratulations on the 1st anniversary of the Ozarks Star. We here in Northwest Arkansas truly appreciate your publication. You have made a tremendous difference here in our area. Keep up the good work. Kelly Crissman Studio 716 Dear Editor: The owners and staff at REE'S Joplin send our congratulations and appreciations on your first year of publication. The Ozarks Star is truly a community asset. Thank You! Richard, Dave, Terry, Kara, Gabe, Austin, Robby and S.A. REE's Nightciub, Joplin 'Denying these soldiers the right to serve is wrong,' said HRC Political Director Winnie Stachelberg. WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign lauded 12 soldiers and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network who filed suit today for the soldiers' right to be reinstat~d in the U.S. Armed Forces. All were forced to leave t-he service under the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, which bans service by openly gay, lesbian and bisexual soldiers. "Denying these soldiers the right to serve is wrong," said HRC Political Director Winnie Stachelberg. "All have served during the war on terror. All have had their careers cut short because of a discriminawry policy." Stachelberg continued, "Our nation needs qualified and experienced soldiers. But under 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell,' nearly 10,000 soldiers including docwrs, pilots, linguists and other highly skilled soldiers - have been discharged. We laud these 12 soldiers and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network for bringing this important case forward." The suit, Cook v. Rumsfeld, was filed Dec. 6 in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts and challenges the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" ban's constitutionality on privacy, due process, equal protection and free speech grounds. According to SLDN's press release, the plaintiffs together have served more than 65 years in the armed forces, including operations in the Middle East, and have earned more than five dozen awards, medals and commendations. "American soldiers are risking their lives for the freedoms of others while being denied their own," added Stacheiberg. "It's time for every soldier to be treated equally." The Human Rights Campaign is proud to work w°lth SLDN and other groups on behalf of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans in the military. Visit: www.hrc.org. Page 7 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com "BROADWAY: The Golden Age" There are dozens and dozens of reasons for ,__ _____________ _, traveling. Seeing new sights and sounds of a new area that vou have never been to before is fun but for us one of the finest rewards about traveli~g is meeting new and exciting people. On our recent trip to West Hollywood we stayed at the Secret Garden Bed and Breakfast, www.secrecgardenbnb.com where we always stay. The owner, Raymond Bilbool is a fabulous host and that is why guests return all the time. And because Raymond is so fabulous he gets a very eclectic group of guests that stay with them. \)'./bile there we met Rick McKay, the New York City film maker. His new movie, BROADWAY: The Golden Age recently came out and it is a truly outstanding work of art. It is the most important, ambitious and comprehensive film ever made about America's most celebrated indigenous art form. It is award-winning filmmaker Rick McKay's journey over 4 continents and 5 years to find out whether there had been a golden age of theatre and why it had never been documented. He soon learned that great films can be restored, fine literature can be kept in print but historic Broadway performances of the past are the most endangered. In their own words and not a moment too soon "Broadway: The Golden Age tells the stories of our theatrical legends, how they came to New York, and how they created this legendary century in American theatre. This may be the last chance that these stories may be documented, for unlike film and television, live theatre exists only in the memories of those who were there watching, or more importantly, creating this magic. The movie tells the stories of these legendary stars while illustrating their tales with amazing, rare, archival performance footage and their own home· movies and photos. It is truly unbelievable how Rick McKay got interviews with all of these outstanding talents. A few of rhe many, many theatre entertainers that he interviewed are: Carol Channing, Angela Lansbury, Harold Prince, Stephen Sondheim, Carol Burnett, Julie Harris, Carol Lawrence, Gwen Verdon, Nanette Fabray, Elaine Srritch (who is our favorite), Marian Seldes (another big favorite of·ours), Uta Hagen, Ben Gazzara, Robert Morse, Chita Rivera, Jerry Orbach plus dozens of others. Rick has a very '.!!lcanny ability to bring om the best of these people while he interviewed them and they all teli about their past experiences on the Broadway stage. The movie is completely mesmerizing. The movie has won ciozens of aw:uds induding: Audience Award at the Palm Beach International Film Festival and Best Documentary at the San Diego Film Festival. Some o~ the critical reviews on the moYie are: "An essential record of Broadway history that every theatre-goer MUST see .... " Qeffrey Lyons, NBC), "Do not miss this absolute stunner of a film. TI1ere is magic in it:'' (Pete: Travers - RolJing Stone Magazice), "A rip-roari:1g good time! iike 111 minutes of paradise\" (Robert Osborne-The Hollywood Reporter), "Magic. .. McKay pusned his stars to remember things in astonishing detail. Sandwiched becween archival stills and rare stage footage, these stars reveal themselves, ............ continued page-26 Page 8 Tulsa OkJabomaC THE GAY KINGDOM OF THE CORAL SEA ISLANDS Scattered over some 1 million square kilometres of ocean, the Gay & Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands were declared independent from Australia in 2004. The Patliitnieot of the Gay Kingdom presumes that the Coral Sea Islands are not holdings of the Australian Government or the Commonwealth, as the Islands have never bef().(e been peopled until the gay migration in 2004. The ceding of the holdings of the Coral Sea Islands from the British Crown to the Australian Government and the Commonwealths Coral Sea Islands Act of 1969 is dubious as:'no British or Australian flag bas ever been raised in the territory, nor has there ever: .~en any recording of anyone formally proclaiming the Coral Sea Islands as part ,;,J .the British/ Australian Crown. In fact historically the only flag to ever fly in the tt;m,tory is the gay rainbow flag which was formally raised on Cato Island (the highest;'poilit in the 1 million square km territory) a plaque commemorating this historic ·event reads On the 14th day of June 2004. at this the highest point in the Co . Parker Anderson raised the gay rainbow flag and claimed the .;@laiitls,sof the Co~ Sea in his name as homeland for the gay and lesbian peoples of tlie \v6tld. God Save our King!" C~: The Island of Heaven, formally known as Cato Island, Queensland, Australia. The Gay and Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands offers a policy of automatic citizenship to gays and lesbians, similar to Israel's right of return. For more information go to the official website: www.gaykingdom.org. Page 9 LL PAGE COLOR ADVERTISING NO A BLE IN THE CONTACT US: 417·437·2275 OZARKSSTAR@SBCGLOBAL,NET > SE SEEN WITH ,.-JwtE ST~-AR; AD~RTISE W ' ~,... .. .. '' Page 10 Joplin Couple Host Fifth Annual Christmas Open House by Star writer Greg Steele Dec 5th, 2004 ]oplin,MO. Tom Walton and Tim Baker held their 5th open house Christmas . .. .. . .. :;. . . . : Charity for "Aids Project of the Ozark'~!' (M~P>) on Sunday December 5th. A crowd of more that 75 friends, neighbors and family~m~inbers filled Tom and Tim's recently purchased home. Each guest donated riori perishable household items such as laundry soap, bleach, toiletries, dish soap,. paper t0wels and many other daily living essentials. All donations will be distributed to A.PO members who depend .on APO and other organizations to survive. Many memb.ers only source of income ,is Social Security monthly payments and a meager amonnt of food stamps. The state food stamp program allows recipients to purchase only food items, all other items that are necessary to function day to day are out of poclcet expense. . We who think nothing of buying a pack of bar soap don't realize people who p;y rent and utilities. on $600 per month or less go without many of these goods. Tim and Tom work very hard each year on their project, providing food and beverage for the guest .to enjoy this once a year worthy event. Over 100 items were collected this year. A great showing of Christmas Spirit by the Joplin GLBTA .community. It's a party everyone looks forward too each holiday season, a time to see old friends, make new acquaintances and to have a great time. More important to exercise our giving spirit. Congratulations to Tim and Tom on another successfui open house. You are truly appreciated by your community. You may contact "Aids Project of the Ozarks" at 417-624-5788 or Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin at 417-206-6179 to contribute. · Rodney Burgamy 405.840.2106 Joe Brennan www .c21-goldc::astle~mm Page 11 a I t e The Ozarks Star V e 716 w. sycamore Fayetteville, AR 479-571-1300 www.studio716.net OPEN wed-sun 9pm - 2am c I u b WEDNESDAYS: Cruisn' for rhe Hook-up on HUMP-DAYl Happy Hour $5 Beer Bust THURSDAYS: Karaoke rill' 12 then it's the Piastic Thursday Dance Party with DJ "COLT" FRIDAYS: Friday Night get WILD wid: DJ "JUX" & the Best Mix of HipHop, Tech & YOUR requests all night long! SATURDAYS: It's the 716 EXTREME DANCE PARTY with DJ "BRANDON]" SUNDAYS: The Queens of NWA@ 11:30 Every Sunday & DJ "IRISH" Spinning all night long!! Page 12 4815 South Harvard Ave., Suite 424 Tulsa, OK 74135-3068 Phone: (918) 747-5466 Email: KellyKirbyCPA@sbcgiobal.net or. King Size Bads. akrast. Serving the tax and accounting needs of the GLBT Community since 1982 Page 13 1s1as. Gien$t6ne · (417)881-8444 Office Licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado www.shelterinsurance.com This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax: (636) 938-3539 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com t Page 15 The Ozarli:s Star taking pride in itself, knowing that it can and ·will rise above all things to make this a community that includes everyone, vou see it's not the "straight folk" that ~et us apart. It is our own inability to take pride in ourselves, to respect ourselves and to love ourselves. It is the inability to have enough pride, love and respect to support our own community. It is the inability for G/L/B/T owned or managed businesses to offer support to the community they expect to support them by using their products or services. On a recent trip, I found that the local MCC never has to buy flowers for their Sunday events. The local florist ( of course we know that none of the florist in town are family ) take flowers that they know will not remain fresh enough to sell and make arrangements for the sanctuary for Sunday and then has someone from the church pick them up on Saturday. One of the local motels always discounts the cost of rooms for the church to have guest speakers and performers coming to town. The amazing thing here is that thev are not members of the church but see. the importance of supporting the community. No one has the right to ask you for sexual favors or knock on your door and offer money for sex because they think that is what all of us do. We do not live in a "Queer As Folks" world but in a real world that won't respect us till we respect ourselves. And while we are on it! Taking pride, respect ·and loving ourselves includes supporting our community. I have lived from the tip of Florida to the northern parts of California and have for this magazine to continue it must rely on support from businesses advertising in it. Advertising in the Star does not mean you are gay or lesbian or in distinct variation of the sexual family. Real Estate Agents, Hotels, Accountants, Insurance Agents and others have advertised here and the distribution list has grown to 3,300 with a goal of 5 000 next month but will we still be h~re? If you do have a business and are a member of this community you should be advertising in the Star. There is no reason not to. There is every reason to. Take pride, respect and love in yourself and do the right thing. Till Next Month. G?99unte Steve Urie is the pastor of Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin ,md is ii professional in the health care industry. Dedicatd to helping others and building community pride. Steve can be contacted by email at: steve@ozarksstar.com Quotable Quotes . "Barbra Streisand is not the only 'Babs' to have commanded the attention of gay men. Barbara Bush the Younger, 22-year-old daughter of George W. Bush ... is fast developing a reputation as a 'fag hag' extraordinaire." - The lead on a Nov. 4 article in the New Haven (Conn.) Advocate. never seen a community magazine the quality of the Ozark Star. Our editor is doing a CDoy CO~eOM8 8- t ffiUtgs <:Bouttque wonderful job of putting this magazine out there for you and it is distributed FREE. But 4f7..659-991S ...... , .... ,.-ca...-,s..s 719 NII• --•• & W...'1 L..,_ .ilpli1, MO 64t0t Nu Sins 0,.. J--,, ,,..., 1~#1pm ~t IO#'it>l'II P~ 16 2004's ~xiest Star Scene I Page 18 ceTea.ms Win EUREKA SPRINGS, ARK. - Diversity Pride Events awarded $1000 each to the top three 'GOLDEN OLDIES' dance teams during the annual Fall Diversity Weekend on Saturday, November 6, 2004. Judges chose the best teams in three categories: (MaleFemale) Don McClung and Sandy Miller, (Male-Male) Mark Short & Christopher Jones and (Female-Female) Evelyn Chronister and Trini Kaukver. . The Contest w-as the highlight of the GOLDEN OLDIES Dance that featured music from the 1940's to the present, as spun by DJ Jason Watts. The event was produced to provide a venue. for the GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender) /PFLAG (Parents, Friends; & Families of Lesbians and Gays) communities, to promote parity for all-gcn~er dancing and to inspire dancers to think 'out of the box' when they dance. "It's a great opportunity to explore fresh new dynamics in couple dancing, says Producer Deborah Rose, "regardless of gender combinations or sexual orientation." For a second and more CONTEMPORARY dance, Diversity Pride Events brought in big city circuit DJ, Lydia Prim, who delighted men and women dancers with her own special blend of tribal, trance and house music. Prim spins at top name events from 'Provincetown's 4th of July, NewYork Pride to Jeffrey Sanker's internationally renowned White Parties in Miami and Palm Springs, and is resident DJ in many famous' clubs all. over the world. Prim expressed her appreciation of the friendliness and generosity of the people of Eureka Springs and the high level of professionalism of the producers and crew. Prim made it clear she wants to perform in Eureka again. Diversity Pride Events will next feature a special Valentine's Dinner and Dance for the GLBT/PFLAG community on Saturday, February 19, 2005. To please dancers of all ages, DJ Jason Watts will play favorite dance hits from the 1940's to 2005, with a little bit of country mixed in! For more details, log on to http:/ /www.diversitypride.com or call 479-253-2555 Based in the heart of the Ozarks, Diversitv Pride Events invites vou to visit our little town of Eureka Springs, Arkansas, for Fall & Spring Diversity Weekends, romantic Valentines Geciways, special Concerts & other Pride Events. Diversity Pride .Events is committed to producing quality events for Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transgender (GLBTs) and Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gavs (PFLAGs). . Page 19 Gay Anti-Violence Programs Decry ABC News Segment on Shepard Murder Sa' 20/20 Segments Intent is To M Victim and Cause Pain for mily and Community New York • November 26, 2004 · Responding to the airing of an ABC News 20/20 segment on the murder of Matthew Shepard, representatives of the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCA VP) called the segment irresponsible, biased, shameful, and destructive. The gist of the segment, which purports to uncover evidence and details not raised or discussed in the 1999 trial of Aaron McKinney, one of the two men accused of murdering Shepard, is diat the mu:der was not hate-moti,ared, but instead motivated by drug use. "The fact is rhat ciiere 1s nothing significant in che 20/20 progr201 tnat wasn't raised during the trial," s:iid Clarence Plltton, NCA VPs Acting Excn:tive Director. "One has ;:o question th:c motivation of the show's producer~ in no! only attempting :o engage in revisionist h:story, but in doing so at this pcint in time, as our nation's lesbian anci gay community is fighring for its iife to :m extent not seen in years.'~ According to data gathered by NC'\ VP, anti-iesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender violence increased 26% nationaliy at the end of 2003, and has continued to rise throughout 2004. I ",vas in Laramie after i\ifattbe\v~s murder, and at the trial his murderers acknowledged that they killed him because of his sexual orientation, and they in fact offered a homosexual panic defense," said Jeff Montgomery, NCA VPs Board CoChair. The 20/20 segment focus is on the role the methamphetamine "Crystal Meth" played in the behllvior of McKinney and Russell Henderson, Shepard's killers. "That drugs may have played a role in a violent crime and in this murder is not news," said Patton. He continued, "Everyone knows that drugs and alcohol often play a part in hate crimes llnd bias-related incidents, as they do with most forms of violent crime from domestic violence to rape and sexual assault to murder. Drug llnd alcohol use by perpetrators can fuel the intensity of the violence in an any one incident, increase the willingness of perpetrators to act out hateful impulses, or be used as a intentionil motivator to carry out a planned attack." "However, such brutal and severe violence and leaving someone to die tied to a fence is not a marker of drug-fueled violence; it is a marker of hate violence," added Montgomery. "Had 20/20 actually wanted w do a fair and balanced story on this or any other antigay hate murder, they would have reached out to experts on anti-gay hate violence • they didnt; had they wanted to examine the impact or prevalence of drug use in violent crime or hate crimes, they would have reached out to criminlll justice officials or hate vioience victim advocates _.,jth expertise :n those areas they didn't; rod those are oniy two among many factors in determining that the rea: goal of this story wasn't to urrcar:h new informlltion or even report adciitional context, but to malign the vicrim, mortify his family and inflict pain on the larger LGBT community that came to icientify with Matthew, his life, and the fear that we all :ive with as a comm..:nity under attack," conciuded Patton. http:/ /www.ncavp.org. Page 20 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! January 2005 Hello Kittens-another New Year is here. Out with the old and in with the new, as it were. As a community, Uncle encourages all you young and old queens and twinks alike to make this, year of the queer. Strive for better things while displaying our pride all year long. Uncle has made his new years resolutions while pondering years gone by. i.;._·..:::1.:...c. . _____ __:;=:....i Dear Uncle: I am in a relationship that I do not know how to get out 0£ I have been with her now for six years, and she does not know 1 have fallen out of love with her. She is a fragile person, with a very bad self-image. When I think of telling her I begin to feel guilty and chicken out of telling her, that there is someone else in which my heart truly belongs too. I do not want to lose the friendship, and would never want to hurt her, but I do not know what to do. Any suggestions? Lost interest Dear Lost: Kitten-First you must be true to ypurself, if you ever truly ·wish to love another. In reality the worst drama have been developed by the best of intentions. You arc prolonging the hurt, and increasing the amount she will feel. You are hurting her by staying with her when you know inside that you do not love her. Allow her to find love and yourself. As for the friendship, you better watch your back to begin with and hope once she has calmed down, that she will be able to forgi:ve you. While preparing for the fact, that she may never be able to do so. No matter what the outcome you must be true "'-ith feelings of the heart, or risk dealing with the bitter fruit of false affections. As a lesbian goes, Cncle wouldn't cross one, if they paid me too. Telling someone that you love them no matter who you are, is a bad thing. To tell a lesbian that you love her when you do not, well, that is asking for it. The only one you are truly hurting is yourself, as you will reap what you sew. Right now Lesbians everywhere reading this are thinking to themselves, "It better not be you missy!" Dear Uncle: I am passive person by nature, and therefore in most of my relationships, find myself in the passive role. This is perfectly all right with me, as it makes me happy. My friends though have been riding me telling me I am a big queen. I am so over this in my life, and frustrated with everyone sticking a label on me. I am who I am. flow can I make everybody understand this is reaily who I am and am not trying to be some stereotype? My one friend has a habit of saying look its just Jack, which annoys me to no end. I most times <lo not say anything to him, but I am just on:r everybody acting like there is something wrong with me. · Quite Queenly Dearest Queenly, Oh, gurrl- work it as if you own it. There is nothing wrong with being Flambeyant. Uncle has had to deal with this very issue throughout his life. Some days I am queenly and fabulous and others J am a bit butch. Mind you, Butch for Uncle is getting the nail polish bottle opened. However, be who you are young queen, and allow the light of your soul to shine bright. Allow these others to continue being a negative Nancy. It is so discouraging to hear of Gay men judging another like this. This is what the straight worid does to us, and that is tiresome in itself. However, do nor try to live by labels, and stereotypes . ............. continued nex page Page 21 7 1 6 S MAIN STREET, JOPLIN, MISSOURI (41 7) 627-9035 • J □ PLINIS ALTERNATIVE NIGHTCLUB Remember fairies are what makes the worid bright. Hollywood smooches to you darlingTwo snaps and a wink Uncle encourages even the most of Butch men out there w get in touch with their queenly side. It is that balance which aliows us to be the fabulous people we arc. You never know until you try. \'{'ell, Kitrens, it is almost that time again. Therefore, Uncle wishes you aU a ,cry Happy New year this 2005! Remember Kittens: Holiday cheer rnay con1e once a year, but the happy <jueer comes all year. L'nti! we meet again-Holiday smocchcs from Uncle I\Iikcy and Tiddles !<Vi. Unclemlkey4you@aol.com i)ndc ;\{ikcy i~ ~l ,::ht.r<Kt:,:,; from l1rcd:i;ic;;; "',Yrirt:r ~fo . .:hac! Hinziniln- ;,.fich~d h:..5 been wzitinp; for ten ycazs. Ucifo:int; bis 3-tud;e$, and life expnie11<:i:: to hdp od,~n; in his cnmmuni;;:y~ through humor an<l ~oun<l 21,h-"ice. .:.\lich~,d ~pplied hi~ study of p~ychology and crt~tivt" -..n:iring, ;.~ wcH h1$- c:,:t<'nsivc background in m{;ni1?l he?,ich Din:ct care 10 hr:in~t .:. m.:1.v :•tyk and :--ppro-adl w hdpm.g athcrs, :\lkh.-d'$ other \Vorks cnn be ":icwe.<l M ~liu~(!nlUlL..1:.lli.L. Page 22 Message from Dr. Troy D. Perry Founder and Moderator of Metropolitan Community Churches New LGBT Marriage and Partner Victories Around The World! December 9, 2004 Around the world, the cause of LGBT partner and marriage rights is moving forward! LGBT people, along with our friends and families, are celebrating four significant victories this week for same-sex marriage. Look at what has been achieved this week alone: CANADA We actually experienced two ·victories in Canada this week! Canada's Supreme Court has ruled that the federal government can broaden the definition of marriage to include same-sex couples and that it can be applied across the nation. In a related decision, the Court ruf ed that churches and religious officials cannot be forced to perform same-gender marriages against their belief. MCC wholly supports this riiling, believing that all religious groups should have the freedom to practice the tenets of their faith. . At this point, six provinces and one territory have made same-sex marnage legal - and this ruling paves the way for same-sex marriage to be instituted across all of Canada. A final vote in Parliament is set for early next year. Once again, I salute the pioneering work of the Reverend Dr. Brent Hawkes and the congregation of Metropolitan Community Church of Toronto. This church, under Rev. Hawkes' leadership, won the first-ever legal case for same-sex marriage in Ontario's Supreme Court, paving the way for nationwide LGBT marriage rights in all of Canada. 1bis week's legal decision opens new possibilities for MCCers as we prepare to gather in Calgary, Alberta, Canada in July 2005 for MCC's General Conference & World Jubilee. Originally, MCC was prepared to exercise our prophetic voice hr carrying our struggle for marriage equality to the holdout province of Alberta; it now appe.ars that same-sex marriage may be fully legal in Alberta by the time our MCC conference begins next year in Calgary! Praise God! NEW ZEALAND 1bis week, New Zealand passed a national law giving LGBT couples the same legal rights as married heterosexual couples. The new Civil Union Bill allows same-sex couples to register their relationships with the government, and grants legal equality. In many places, Civil Union Bills are an important st~p on the way to foil marriage equality. Earlier this year, in my role as Moderator of Metropolitan Community Churches, I wrote personal letters to every member of the New Zealand Parliament. I asked that they act to protect the legal rights of their same-sex citizens by adopting the proposed Civil Union Bill. I am gratified that those requests have been honored. I want to salute the important and tireless work done by MCC leaders Neil Hellewell and Tony Maskill of All Saints MCC in Christchurch, New Zealand. We owe them a debt of gratitude for the incredible amount of work they put into this effort, along with Rev. Doug McGee and the congregation of MCC Auckland, and Rev. Leigh Neighbor and the members of Ecclesia MCC Manukau. Their hard work will make a real and profound difference in the lives of thousands upon thousands of LGBT New Zealanders, and sets a noble example for countries around the world . ........... continued page 25 Page 23 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac Ja.nuary 2005 Blunt-Force Trauma I'm not employed in a factory, office building, or school; to start work every morning, all I do is mosey upstairs to my home office and turn on the computer - an enviable set-up, considering many people's. way-less-than-ideal working conditions. Still, I face a grave occupational hazard, and it's bigger than carpal tunnel syndrome: I ,am a lesbian journalist at a time when the news- from the gay front has been brutally devastating. Indeed, for those of us who work in lesbian and gay media or activism and must read the headlines every day, the onslaught of "toxic news" is one of the perils of our jobs. · · Psychotherapists say that the accumulation of negative everi,ts has a particularly harmful impact on mental health. For example, if you --------------- have one love affair tum sour, it will hurt; but Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." if several relationships tank in a row, that can be injurious to your long-term emotional health. In a similar way, I've been feeling the snowballing effect of a number of terrible gay-related news reports. No, not simply terrible, like the passage of 11 antigay amendments in one day; the reports I'm referring to are more _Twilight Zone_-esque. In fact, three recent stories made me feel like I had entered an alternate reality - or maybe was living in a quasi-fascist state. Not coincidentally, all three of the stories have to do with religion. Story No. 1: "Methodist Jury Convicts Lesbian Minister." Of child abuse? Embezzling church funds? No, Beth Stroud, a United Methodist Church minister, was found "guilty" of living openly in a committed relationship with another woman. Shocking! This decision was handed down by a church whose marketing slogan is, hypocritically, "Open Hearts, Open Minds, and Open Doors." Story No. 2: "Gay Civil Unions 'Grave Sign of Dehumanization,' Says Vatican Cardinal." By that statement, Cardinal Lopez Trujillo, one of the Roman Catholic Church's highest-ranking representatives, didn't mean that civil unions "dehumanize" gay couples because they reduce them to second-class status something a civil-rights lawyer might, in fact, argue. He meant that any form of legal recognition of same-sex relationships - even if it isn't called marriage "dehumanizes" heterosexuals by "inventing new, unacceptable notions of marriage," God's plan for the world. (I'm guessing that Trujillo chose the word "dehumanizing" because he sees our next step as trying to marry our pets.) Story No. 3 (and this is the clearest "we live in a fascist state" example): "Two Networks Reject Church Ad as Too 'Controversial."' Because it dishonored Judaism or Islam or some other non-Christian religion? Because it avowed that "God Hates Fags"? No and no again. The advertising message the United Church of Christ (UCC) wanted to offer American television viewers, including lesbian and gay couples, was "You're welcome here." CBS had an eerily _Pravda_-like explanation for its decision not to accept the UCC spot: "The Executive Branch has recently proposed a Constitutional Amendment to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman, [so] this spot is unacceptable for broadcast." These stories nir me with unusual force, .......... co:itinued pagc-26 Page24 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo Sao Vicente January 2005 Mischa Barton Meets Bf..l~caccio It's probably just the tbing that Mischa Barton wanted for Chrismukkah: a chance to stretch her acting wings with a movie role that has nothing to do with her media-frenzied life as a star of _The O.C._ And if negotiations continue to go her way, audiences will get a chance to see the teenage actor starring in a new film adaptation of _The Dccamcron_ (the first since legendary gay director Pier Paolo Pasolini's 1971 version). One of the classics of world literatute, Giovanni Boccaccio's story of a group of 10 young Florentines escaping the Black Plague in the 1300s and telling each other 100 stories to pass the time remains as entertaining and bawdy - and often pretty queer - today as it did then. And with nine more young, pretty actors needed to fill in the cast, it could all tum out to be more like a 14th-century _O.C._ than anyone could have imagined. Sarsgaard's Active Duty Good thing military-themed movies aren't playing the "don't ask, don't tell" game, or _Jarhead_, the upcoming Desert Storm drama from director Sam Mendes (_American Beauty_j, would be short a couple of key cast members. The newest recruit to enlist in the cast is Peter Sarsgaard, a young actor whose career so far has been steeped in queer-themed indie films like _Boys Don't Cry_, _Kinsey_ - in which his bisexual character beds both Liam Neeson and Laura Linney - and the upcoming Craig Lucas film, _The Dying Gaul_, in which he plays gay. And Jake Gylleohaal, who just learned what it's like to make out with Heath Ledger onscreen io the upcoming _Brokeback Mountain_, costars. Who says military life and queerness don't mix? Ruffalo Yells for Stella Audiences can't seem to get enough of that troubled gay playwright Tennessee Williams. His plays are constantly in production somewhere, and every actor, male and female, wants a chance to play the roles the man wrote. So it's oo surprise that yet another revival of _A Streetcar Named Desire_ is in the works. This time out, Mark Ruffalo will play the brutish Stanley Kowalski and Natasha Richardson will take on Blanche Dubois. Previews begin in New York in March, running through June 19. And it's all going to 1:llke place at Studio 54, former home of the _Cabaret_ revival, which seems appropriate in some discreetly old-school gay way. From Small Sentence to Big Screen When former _Sex and the City_ writers Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo wrote the sentence, "He's just not that into you," little did they know how it would all tum out. That one line, which became an episode plot and then a bestselling tongue-in-cheek dating guide titled, yes, _He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys_, is now on its way to the big screen. New Line can take the credit for seeing the box-office potentiai in this comic premise, and the · authors were forward-thinking enough to develop a plot line for a film before selling the book rights, one in which a female talk-show host becomes "sort of' involved with a man who guests on her show. No cast is set yet, but any number of fresh-faced Hollywood ladies would shine in something like this. Romeo thinks the easily typecastable Kate Hudson could use a hit right about now. Just a thought. ------ Page 25 Rev. Troy Perry from page-22 SOUTH AFRICA A South African court has ruled this week that same sex marriages must be recognized in the same way as heterosexual marriages, under the nation's constitution. South Africa, as you may know, was the first nation in the world to provide legal p):otections for gays and lesbians in its country's constitutio.n. ~'J:,ile the Supreme Court has ruled in favor of LGBT equality, the Parliament of South African must now act to reform the nation's Marriage Act to include same-sex couples. I thank God for the many South African MCCers who continue to do important work on behalf of social justice as an expression of their Christian faith. In many ways, South Africa is a beacon for all of us. ISRAEL And our LGBT brothers and sisters in Israel have achieved another victory for etjuality and justice as a district court has ruled that same-sex couples must have the same rights as common law couples when it comes to matters of property, taxation and inheritance. Israel's attorney general, Menachem Mazuz, will not appeal the ruling. Th.is is another significant ruling that moves our community closer to equality under the law. According to this decision, same-sex partners will be recognized in matters of taxation and real estate, and will also be able to transfer gifts between themselves without paying taxes. The prayers of the ancient prophet who prayed that "justice might roll down as waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream"' are being answered in this birthplace of our faith. IN CONCLUSION While much of the media have focused on the recent election losses in the United States, we must look at the bigger picture. Around the globe, many nations are advancing the cause of equality for gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgender persons. With all the talk today about moral values in the aftermath of the U.S. elections, the reality is that the most noble moral values of tolerance, acceptance, etJUality and justice are being advanced in many places around the globe. My own country of the United States must learn from the example of other countries where equality is being achieved for LGBT people. I have. said many times that the struggle of social justice work is that of many steps forward, and some steps backward. This is the journey towards equality. I take heart this week that our brothers and sisters .around the globe are making giaht strides for us to follow. During. this season of hope, we are heartened by these international advances, and reaffirm our faithful work and prayers on. behalf of peace and justice in all places. FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which docs not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidcntiaiity. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "&roing A Healthier Community" Page 26 Gay Travelers from page 7 their art and their lives, all with so much love and appreciation that, for a while you wish you could have been a part of something as bonding, fulfilling and special· as Broadway's theater community ..... Broadway: The Golden Age finally evolves into an indispensable history of the hopes, fears, trials, defeats and victories of those brave enough to step into the limelight of a Broadway stage and make it their home." (Dano Gire, Chicago Daily Herald). Rex Reed wrote "riveting, Heart-skipping, exhilarating.. the most enchanting movie I have seen this year" and Leonard Maltin wrote "you must see the wonderful film ... The result is almost indescribably powerful and moving". And to add to what these critics have already said, we urge all of our readers to purchase this movie on DVD. It will be something that you will cherish for years to come. • We have seen the movie 4 times and can't wait to see it again and again. Anyone and everyone who is into Broadway simply MUST see this movie. And it is now out on DVD. The movie is great however the DVD is even better since there are several hours more in the Director's Commentary, deleted scenes and a sneak preview of his next movie, BROADWAY: The Next Generation. The movie is playing all over the United States so be sure and check your local theatre listings to find it. And by going to: www.broadwaythemovie.com you can read more about the movie and Rick McKay. You can also purchase a copy of the DVD by going to that website. · Besides Rick McKay being a brilliant filmmaker he is also a wonderful person who is witty, charming, intelligent and extremely fun and fuonv to be around. So, when you are traveling talk to everybody as you never know just who you might meet. For any questions about traveling in the gay friendly world, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: www .hometown.aol.com/ gaytravelers Lesbian Notions from pg-23 because as a queer editor and writer I have tried not to trample on people's religious beliefs, especially those chat diverge sharply from my own. Indeed, I have written that I think our community has failed to respect the strong religious ideas many people of faith hold about the "sanctity" of marriage, and that has subsequently hindered our struggle for equality. Now here come three reports that clearly illustrate the difficulty of addressing people's religious beliefs headon, given entrenched, institutionalized homophobia. Io the first two stories, prominent religious institutions chose to debase gay people by equating our relationships with crimes - either against selectively applied church law, or (as in Trujillo's case) against nature itself. If that's not "spiritual violence" - as the Rev. Mel White's Soulforce calls "the misuse of religion to sanction the condemnation and rejection of any of God's children" I don't know what is. The third story, though, is the real eye-opener. In that instance, when a religious sect sought to interpret Christ's teachings with the simple, all-embracing message of "You're welcome here," corporate America put a lid on the attempt, deciding that the message was just too contentious. (Read: Our . president, who was helped into power by right-wing, aotigay fundamentalists, wouldn't like it.) This is a good example of what screenwriting guru Robert McKee calls "the negation of the negation" - when someone sees injustice and tries to right it, only to· discover to his or her horror that the powers-that-be are themselves corrupt. I'm not sure how to deflect the devastating blows that this kind of news delivers, although getting angry is probably a pretty good start. Remember that popular saying, "Don't mourn, organize"? I, for one, will keep climbing to my third-story office and writing, and my readers, hopefully, will find themselves with no choice but to act. _Paula Martinac is a Lambcia Literary Awardwinning author of eight books and editor in chief of Q Syndicate. She can be reached care of this publication or at LesbianNotions@qsyndicate.com_. Page27 Seo by Jack Fertig January 2005 es "Bring rubber gloves, Virgo!" Mars in Sagittarius square to Uranus in Pisces makes for an explosive New Year's Eve! Anything can happen, from kissing Ms. or 1'.fr. Right, to traffic disasters. Keep a dear head and your eyes forward! ARIES (March 21 to April 20): Gathering all your "friends with benefits" to "wring in the nude" may be illegal in certain U.S. states and Tasmania, but Murphy's Law is more relevant. However you celebrate, make sure to play with clear heads and clean latex! TAURUS (April 21 to Mii.y 20): Career goals are kind of fi.\zzy these days, and "helpful" suggestions from your partner or colleagues aren't helping - in fact, too iμany suggestions can be dizzying. Better they · should lend an ear while you talk through it. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Be careful whom you kiss at midnight! Whatever's going around has your name on it. Pressure at work can also undermine your health. Stress and snafus feed inro each other. Stop, meditate, and then return to work calm and effident. CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): Sexual adventure is way too tempting. Adventure is good, but for heaven's sake, be careful! Anything could go wrong now, from sprained backs to torn latex to ... well, anything! Be as creative and thoughtful about safety as you are about sex. LEO 0uly 23 to August 22): Host a party only if you can dean up in a hazmat suit - and if you know where to hide the bodies! A wild ceiebrarion for two at home is great. If you want to socialize more than that, go out. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): No, darling, you can only make New Year's resolutions for yourself! I know you want to be hdpful, but most people find such suggestions insulting. If a Leo invites you to a party, bring rubber gioves. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): This is an expensive season, and some holiday surprises are likely to hit your wallet pretty rudely. Resolving to economize is good, of course, but some of your ideas on how to do that may be unrealistic. Think it through! SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Be very selective about your guests now. Domestic disturbances - or plumbing disasters - are brewing. Extra company will only make things tougher. Also, pay attention to your own role in fixing things. Your efforts can too easily backfire. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Everybody has doubts, disappointments, and worries this time of year; some are just better at covering them up. Yours come tumbling out all too easily. Focus on spiritual gifts as they occur. The rest doesn't really matter. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Working the social scene is carrying some extra expenses. Brace yourself for "sticker shock." Make innovative use of your resources, but don't go too far out on a limb! You can save a bundle and impress others with your brilliance of economy. AQUARIUS 0anuary 20 to February 18): Whatever goes wrong, you're sure to be blamed for it. You're used to that, but now it offers a bit of freedom. Trust your instincts for inspiration to stir things up, and trust in your own audacity to avoid the worst of it. PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Your emotional roller coaster gets a few extra dips and twists now. A vacation is a tempting escape, but travel at this time is fraught with rude surprises. Religious or spirituai exploration offers more surprises, but of a gentler and more reveiatory nature. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864- 8302, through his website ai hup:l lwww.stJlrjack.com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Lodging- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 716- -716 W. S::camore- - 479-571-130 Ron's Place- 523 W. Poplar- - - 479-442-3052 Wild-On - - -3570 \'C 6th- - . 479-521-9453 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 l /2 Garrison Ave- -479-783-9988 Club 1022 -1022Dodson;\ve. - -479-782-1843 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Club One Eleven- - 111 Garden St- - - - -620-4111 Our House Lounge 660 E. Grand Ave- -624-6868 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Smet -1021 Jessie Rd- --501-664-2744 Discovery- - • - 1021 Jessie Rd- -- - - - 501-666-6900 The Factory - -412 Louisiana St.- -501-372-3070 Missouri, Joplin (417) Ree's- - - - 716 S. 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BOT BEFOaE I GO, l'D JOST LIKE TO MEN"TION THAT, FOR THE LIFE or: ME, l CANNOi UNDERSTAND WHY CONGRESS HASN'T TRIED TO CRIMINALIZE UNMARRIED «J>ARENTS11AS .. ORRf®IRE IN EX-GAY WAR ON CANADA.,, . ...,,, __ Page 30 Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Wichita Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. Work in the LGBTA business community. Mail qualifications to: Oz~rks Star 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Carl Junction, Missouri Nearly new 3 bedroom, 2 bath home in golf community. Open floor plan, whirlpool tub, deck, and maintenance free exterior are just a few of the virtues that will make this the perfect house to begin the new year in. Medium Priced. 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Title A name given to the resource [2005] The Ozark Star Magazine, January 1, 2005; Volume 2, Issue 1 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Ozark Star’s first issue began in August of 2004. Before this Issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) then follows The Star (2005) and The Metro Star (2008) This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 1, 2005 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Greg Steele Lady Bunny Paula Martinec Romeo San Vincente Steve T. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document PROUDLY SERVING THE GLBTA COMMUNITY sa's Event of the Year 3rd ~ualMiss Batn),oo"·Pageant! . Inside Page 16 Page 2 Joplin,Mo Our. first issue distributed on New Years Eve 2003 was just eigh/'. ··., half were color and half no color; copies where banded 01,1t at Ree's Bar ln:Joplin and several bars in Springfield. Ree's was the first paid advertisement. We were so excited, SW Missouri_ at last bad a gay paper. Chaz Jr., T. J Kelly and myself came up with the idea one night in Ree's whil~ planning a beiiefit for the Community Free Clinic. We needed to advertise the event, but the only GI.BT publications \Vb.ere . from Kansas City, Wichita, and The; !3-ayly. We couldn't afford the ad's arid we_w~nted more than just a printed piece of paper;_We had often discussed the fact that the hi:ige GLBT population in the region ha<L!?-9 representation or community voice_:/);'h:g~, what you know today as the "Ozarks; Star" was born. Through the efforts of many people in the past year, the Ozarks Star has become a viable source 0£ community information and news, not only locally, but from ;around the world. The SW Missouri, NW Arkansas, Oklahoma, SE Kansas •GLBT communities have become closer and_ people . :tre traveling the region to places that \Vete unknown a year ago. I have personally made many wonderful new friendships and acquaintances this year because of the · magazine. You are all sincerely appreciated. May your heart be fifkd with h.ppiness and low this holiday season and throu?}out the coming year ................... C.D. Ward ' J I I A call for Action ... We have just fought a tough and difficult campaign to loose. And now there is no time to stop, rest or even take time to evaluate what just happed because now we face a new challenge here in little Joplin, Missouri or rather Webb City, Missouri. A Webb City High School student wore his pride shirt to school. It seems that they have a dress code that excludes clothing that promotes or advertises products, causes or anything that may cause a commotion. Yet students were allowed to use bumper stickers on clipboards, notebooks and cars that promoted hate issue such as gay marriage. It seems as though this dress code is being enforced only when it is convenient. One teacher asks what the pride emblem meant, it was explained and that teacher responded with, "cool". Then one teacher decided to make it a "commotion" by asking him if he thought it was appropriate for school. When he said there was nothing wrong with the T-shirt he was sent to the school office. He was given the option of turning the shirt inside out or going home. He was in the process of leaving when a friend offered to exchange shirts with him and they did. The friend stayed the remainder of the day without being challenged. Imagine that... consistency between teachers and enforcement of rules. This has now gone to the ACLU for review and at iast resort they will be pursuing this through legal means. But the ACLU has a nasty shirt tail they can't shake and so does our community. The Rev ( title used with reservation )Fred Phelps of Kansas has decided to protest all sinners at the Webb City High School and surrounding churches that allow God's love to seep in. Fred Phelps has protested churches around the country and is well known for his hateful, almost Nazi approach in dealing with anyone who does not agree with his and only his view. At the funeral of Matthew Shepherd he had a sign that read, "God Hates Fags, Just Ask Matthew, and he will answer from hell." I am getting a lot of calls about this and what stand the church is taking. I t.hink the more we react to this man the more fuel it gives him and by staying away we steal his thunder. Some Queer business leaders are hoping this will just go away, The B-GLAD organization from MSSU and the Young Democrats are planning a "peaceful" counter protest. I believe where we go from here is being the best we can be. That means showing all people that we are families in the best since of the word. Now let's put this in perspective and let's keep it in HOPE! We must understand the system and we need to remember that our Government is not a democracy but a republic ... basic Government 101. We need then to take hope in our system and know that even though it won't be an easy four years there is hope. As Rev. Troy Perry stated, "the hard work of human rights has always been that of many steps forward and some steps backward." We have all heard the verbiage; we lost the battle, not the war." This is a set-back but it only means NOW IS THE TIME FOR ACTION. We need to start with a definition of family, morale values and put church were it belongs while that doesn't mean in war. I am sickened by the righteous conservatives and those that oppose human rights even in this country and use God instead of serving God! We need to a definition of family that promotes varues that we can all share . .. cont-pg 15 Page 6 NGLTF_ Media Release -Older Gays Involved in Caregiving For Family Member At Rates Equal To Or Exceeding Those in the General Population ~FAMILIES OFTEN EXPECT MORE CAREGIVING FROM GAY SIBLINGS -But U.S. Policies on Aging Do Not Reflect Needs of Older Gav Caregivers, Study Finds · NEW YORK - Nearly half of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGB1) individuals over 50 are heavily involved in caregiving, both for members of the families they grew up in and for same-sex partners and close friends, according to a new study released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute, Pride Senior Network, and the Fordham University Graduate School of Social Service. In fact, gay people over 50 may actually be caregivers at a higher- rate than their counterparts in the general population. The largest-ever study of older gay people's caregiving experiences, "Caregiving Among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender New Yorkers" was released' by the Task Force Policy Instirute at the SAGE National Conference on Aging in the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trarisgender Communities, held at New York University, today, June 18. (Caregiving is the extensive, hands-on help with the tllSks of daily living for the very sick or frail.) "Far from shying away from family responsibilities, this study shows that gay people are equally if not more devoted to &mily members and loved ones in need," said Matt Foreman, Task Force executive director. Forty-six percent of the 341 LGBT New Yorkers surveyed had been caregivers at the rime of the survey or in the previous five years, greater than the 44% rate among people over 50 in the general population, as estimated by the AARP. The average length of a caregiving episode among survey respondents was eight years: among the. general population in the United States, the average length of a caregiving episode is only 4.3 years. "We are very appreciative of the Task Force's effons in this study. The findings underscore what we have learned from both caregivers and care recipients in the LGBT community," said Terry Kaelber, executive director of SAGE, _Services & Advocacy for LGBT Elders. "Ours is a community with a strong history of caregiving to both our biological and our chosen families. To provide care on a regular basis can be an overwhelming responsibility and there simply ate not enough support mechanisms in place for those people in a caregiving role. More than one-third of the caregiving respondents said that their non-gay siblings expected more of them when it came to providing care for older relatives precisely because they were gay. Nearly one-quarter (22%) of respondents provided assistance to a blood relation for reasons ranging from Alzheimer's to the frailty that comes with old age. More than two-thirds of those providing such cate were primary caregivers for that family member. Half provided assistance daily, and anotber 24% several times a week. Another quarter (24%) had been caregiv:ers for same-sex partners or close friends. Fiftyeight percent of those had provided assistllnce on a daily basis; 23% provided care several times per week. (Other key findings appear at the end of this release.) In spite of this, some respondents were unable to be open about their own sexual orientation with other family members. Not surprisingly, nearly three-quarters of the caregivers in this srudy reported high levels of emotional stress related to caregiving, and respondents were six times more likely to report feeling depressed than the population as a whole. Worse, key poiicy frameworks that support caregivers such as the federal Family and Medical Leave Act, Social Security, and Medicaid, as well as most state family leave programs - discriminate against same-sex partners who need to care for their loved ones. Continued page-25 ........... .. ij :1 1 l i I Page 7 our ON VN:ATION "Trav~ ill .. ., ~y frie■4ly werlj" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com OUR SEPTEMBER WEST COAST TRIP 2nd /,zstal/ment (Photo: Donald and Ray with Claude, the famous Swiss skier and his life pdrtner, Prince Fabien) After a fun time in West Hollywood it was time to travel to Palm Springs for more fun, excitement, parties and ? We AL WAYS have a grand time in Palm Springs. Our very special favorite place to stay is the Fabulous TERRAZZO Resort, 1600 East Palm Canyon Drive. Tom and Doug have done a remarkable job with their resort. That is why they have so many repeat guests there all the time. They simply "DO THINGS RIGHT"! We gave a party at the Terrazzo our second night there and it was attended by the guests at the Terrazzo as well as dear friends who live in Palm Springs. When you can give a party under the stars in Palm Springs and have so many wonderful and exciting people there you have to have a grand time. Two wonderful artists were at our party .... Robert Shafer and Giorgos Dimakis are extremely professional artists who have a thriving business in Palm Springs. Their still life oil paintings are the best that we have ever seen by a living artist. They both are tremendous. Their studio/ gallery is downtown. Palm Springs. Also attending our party were Denise, Joanna and the fabulous Doreen, all from the Casitas La.quite Resort in Palm Springs. The following day we hosted Tom and Doug to lunch at Melvyn's which is our very favorite restaurant in Palm Springs. Melvyn of course is a real gem. Brian, the Maitre 'd and Miguel our waiter KNOW how to do things the right way. It is always such a treat to experience such a fabulous dining experience as we always do when we dine at Melvyn's. People have been coming to this restaurant for many years simply because it is the "best of the best". Later that evening our dear friend, Stefan Hemming hosted a party at his estll.te which is the former estate of the late Liberace. A grand time was had by all and we got to meet new and exciting people. Bradley who is one of the finest singers in the business graciously sang a few songs. The next day two Swiss gentlemen checked into the Terrazzo Resort from Zurich, Switzerland. One was the noted skier, Qaude and his life partner, Prince Fabien. They had flown in to California and were touring several cities. They were very interesting, good looking and extremely intelligent. We took them shopping at all the fun places in Palm Springs and then we dined at the Cedar Creek Inn in the evening. We ordered their very special Pasta dishes. What is money for if you don't spend it? Another very interesting gentleman, Alf, originally from Germany also was staying at the Terrazzo Reson. He now is living in the Northwest pan of the United States. He is good looking, educated with a brilliant mind. He was very interesting to talk with. The next night, our dear friend Burt hosted a dinner party at LcValarise Restaurant. Dining under the stars, we WERE the stars, and why not? Jim and Stefan even performed a duet at the piano. Burt is one of the most energetic and interesting men we have met . .................................... continued page-26 Page 8 me a th Dame Edna Storms back to Broadway in her newly minted extravaganza. Following the national success of her previous lifeenhancing and much loved shows which hllve been buried beneath an avalanche of international awards, Dame Edna returned to her private estate in her native Australia to review the state of the world from her unique point of view. During that time she crafted her latest offering, which is set in an all-new theatrical infrastructure. "Edna will glow from the stage in a series of never-before-seen gowns. She will sing, dance, give psychic readings to astonished audience members, offer marriage counseling and perhaps even heal," promises Tony Award-winning production designer Brian Thomson. "I'm glad you didn't ring a minute earlier because I was. with my gynecologist," declares Dame Edna Everage in lieu of hello, "and he said thli.t I was fit for Broadway. He said, 'Edna, you've still got your drives and juices, and you're all ready for The Great White Way.' Mind you, it wasn't The Great White Way he was looking at." Dame Edna's Coffee Table Book, Dame Edna's Bedside Companion and her seminal autobiography, My Gorgeous Life, which is currently being adapting for the stage and screen. Possibly Jewish, Dame Edna is a widow, with three grown children.She spends her time visiting world leaders and jet-setting between her homes in Los Angeles, London, Sydney, Switzerland and Martha's Vineyard.She is the Founder and Governor of Friends of the Prostate and the creator of The World Prostate Olympics. Date of Birth: February 17 Place of Birth: Kew, Melbourne, Victoria, Australill Sign: Aquarius Occupation: Actor, Comedian, Writer, Composer, Painter Education: Melbourne University, Griffith University (Honorary Doctorate) Relations: Father: (construction manager), wife: Lizzie Sepnder, father-in-law: Stephen Spender (poet), daughters: Emily Humphries (artist) and Tessa Humphries (actress), son: Oscar Humphries Qournalist) Broadway Debut: 1963 (Oli'Oerl) Barry Humphries as Dame Edna Everage Out of drag (at right), Humphries made his Broadway debut as understudy to Fagin in the original 1963 production of OlifJer!. As his drag alter ego, he's become a superstar, earnitig a 2000 Tony Award for Dame Edna: The Royal Tour. Humphries is best known as his drag persona - the purple haired, Melbourne housewife named Dame Edna - that he created in connection with the Olympic Games in 1956. Page 9 Spirit of Christ Metropolitan_ Community Church -¥ Presents In Concert ¥ Shawn Thomas ¥ A breath of fresh air in Christian music, an energetic and dynamic witnei::f:; in music for all affirming • )t- communities. • .- * iC * .... uecember 18, 2004 6PM --¥ 2902 E 20th Street Unity of Joplin building Page 10 MCC Comm,miutions Dq,artmmt. Prtss R~ Nowmber 4, 2004 MCC Leader Lupe V~ld--.z Elected Sheriff of Dallas County, Texas ( ~ Tq11s ~ On November 2, Lupe Valdez, a longtime ~ember and lay leader of Mcffi?politan Community Churches, was elected as the new Sheriff of Dallas County in Texas. The Dallas Morning News describes Lupe's election as a "breakthrough victory." An article under the headline "Vi,ldez scores historic victory" notes that Lupe is the first woman and the first Hispanic to be elected Dallas County Sheriff in this heavily Republican county. As the Democratic candidate, Lupe defeated the Republican candidate, who was a three-decade veteran of the sherifrs department. Prior to the election, political observers favored her opponent to win the election. A major factor in Lupe's campaign success was her more than 30 yean in professional law enforcqgient. Lupe has served as a corrections officer at both county_ and federal levels, and has many years experience as a US Special Agent. Most recently she was a Senior Special Agent with the US Department of Homeland Security. Lupe retired from fedeml law enforcement in January 2004 to run for the office of sheriff in Dallas County. Toward the end of the campaign, her opponent raised Lupe's sexual orientation as an issue. Cotnplaioing that she had received an endorsement and contribution from the Victory Fund, an organization that supports openly gay or lesbian candidates, Lupe's opponent suggested that she would use the office of sheriff as a platform to advance issues such as gay/ lesbian rights and same-sex marriage. Lupe asserted that sexual orientittion should have no bearing on the race, and would play no role in how she ran the department. In a profile on the candidates three days before the election, the Dallas Morning News reported that Lope is "openly gay" and stated that "She is a member of the Metropolitan Community Churches, a worldwide fellowship of Christian churches with a special outreach to gay and lesbian communities." In her victory statement to supporters and the media on Tuesday night, Lupe Valdez said, "We are an intcmational county with people of all ethnic groups, rich and poor, gay and straight, and this is what I want to represent." For more than 25 years, Lupe Valdez has been an active lay leader in Metropolitan Community Churches, serving MCC in Dallas as a deacon and boa.rd member and serving the denomination as Director of Security for General Conferences from 1989 to 2003. She currently serves as a member of the Moderators Nominating Committee and is an active member of Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Dallas. Page 11 The Ozarks Star alternatlve nightcli.ib 716 w. sycamore Fayetteville, AR 479-571-1300 www.studio716.net OPEN wed-sun 9pm - 2am WEDNESDAYS: Cruisn' for the Hook-up on HUMP-DAY! Happy Hour $5 Beer Bust THURSDAYS: Karaoke till' 12 then it's the Plastic Thursday Dance Party with DJ "COLT" FRIDAYS: Friday Night get WILD with DJ "JUX" & the Best Mix of HipHop, Tech & YOUR requests all night long! SATURDAYS: It's the 716 EXTREME DANCE PAR1Y with DJ "BRANDON J" SUNDAYS: The Queens of NWA@ 11:30 Every Sunday & DJ "IRISH" Spinning all night long!! Office lic~osed in Missouri, Arhutsa.a,.Illinois & Cblorado This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this com:m.unity and our customers. Call today and ask about ou:i: services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-B:im-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka; Missouri 63025 i",1:·.ci'aa)~3a:.ssoo fa# (636) 938-3539 -· .• .:·• :v:~-- ".\. .com Scifi novel joi1:1s gay marriage dibate. •Lubbock:, Texas: . When D:uatif Simo~J: · < . Degraooo: A Science . . . trite ih June 2004, he made thrc~'oftlie central characters gay, and used them ·to·further delve into contemporary issues, . .ipcludiog . gay marriage. While th«:~•fir!lt e.<litlon · (published J aowu:y 200.?f show~d gay · marriage as legal and:a tioO:.J~sue, the :Second edition further iii,'.i::9rporates. . allels to anti-gay cr,us~des in real life. . or example, one .o{tlie passages explains a series of coostituiiofuu amendments tp.at supposedly protei::~ed society on the planet V alchondp~ bu:(~ctuilly led to :discrimination at:td, of human rights. .·. . . invading worl fanatical and divisive as in the otigirWl, with characters using . . . justify violence and oppression against each other and everyont else .. A review appearing in the October 1, 2004 issue of X-Factor www.xfactor.com explains how Degranoo's second edition explores gay man:iJtgc and other contemporary issues, s~og that "Duane Simolke establishes his voice in gay genre writing" with those explorations. Though best known for his books, Simolke also writes for This Week In Texas . His Web site http://duanesimoike.com includes Rainbow: Lubbock, an onlioe newsletter for his fellow gays in Lubbock, Tens. With that location, he sees much of the antigay debate, usually framed in religious or family arguments. Page 15 The Ozarks Star Steve Urie from pg-5 My family doesn't fit that box. My family is the man I call my husband, Heath and we have family values that we can share and be proud of. We are in a relationship, love each other, both work and are dedicated to our jobs but take time for each other. It is always a struggle but we are attempting to be a family role-model for your homosexual people to follow. Morale values are new to a lot of the GLBT community and it is time to bring them out of the closet and begin discussions. We have been children far too long and it is time to bring into the light the ability to be honest with ourselves to make a change. Mature enough to recognize that the "Queer As Folks" mentality is destroying our community with alcohol, drugs and a disease that we are still sharing with one another. .. you know the one, "I'll never catch." Let's name it while we here... the HIV virus and the disease AIDS. And let's include that low self-esteem that we just love to poor me with. How long do we have to be down on ourselves? And where does church belong? Well, I don't believe it is in the signs I hear about across this country. The signs posted outside of churches with pictures of our military and the caption, "Our troops doing God's work." This is religion at its very worse. God doesn't need us assigning God duties. It actually works in reverse. Jesus stood with those that no one would associate with and showed them the way. I believe that if our churches were paying attention to God's will; they would be serving their communities, feeding the hungry, clothing people and providing shelter for those without homes. The church has a place and it is one of service. It must be there for everyone and that is when it is doing what it is suppose to do. Not when it is being pushed and pulled into action to destroy lives, Not when it joins in a union with the government. As a church we are to exist for people, life, justice, community, love and the true conscious of the government. The church needs to bring itself to a higher level, to share its God given responsibilities and to let the world sec how God's spirit is there for all people. The church is a beacon of light for al) people and we are to be those beacons leading others to this great hope. This is what Jesus would do and NO ONE WOULD BE TURNED AWAY. Had the Democrats been just as verbal and strong with our beliefs then we quit possibly could have pulled it off. It isn't that we have a weak faith, a lack of commitment to God; it's that we don't stand on the rock and say this is why we support programs helping people and not just the rich. What a schism. the Republican Party has put into this great country by telling churches they need to fear us. Let them be put on notice .tfu.t 51% is not a landslide. Let them be put on notice that we will not be used as a wedge to divide this country. Let them be put on notice that we arc who we are, we are not going to be silenced and we are going to be bold in not only our faith but in our citizenry. It is a great time of hope, a great time of boldness and strength. I am going to quote from an article by the Rev. Dr. Peony Nixon (MCC Clergy). Do not underestimate how difficult times might be in the next few years. There will be tactics, overt and covert, to squeeze us out and shut us down. This is all the more reason to be bold with whom we are. During the Viet Nam war a lone protester stood outside the White House gates with a smgle candle. He was ask, "Do you think you are going to change the government with one candle?" and his reply was, "No, but it will keep them from changing me." I challenge you to take part supporting B-GLAD and the Young Democrats in their peaceful and silent protest. Don't let the light go out! Until 2005 The Ozarks Star Toe ~ia Annual Miss Bamboo Pageant, Wwsa's Social Event of the Year. Bamboo 2005, NeiJyAnnMan}y) Tulsa, OK November 13,2004 by Star Writer Greg Steele The House was packed and the beauties filled the Bamboo Lounge vying for the title of Miss Bamboo 2005. As the winner was about to be announced the crowd was silent, eyes were tearing in anticipation. The nine contestants held their breath with hands clasped. Dickie Tucker fainted from the pressure. The crown had arrived by Brinks armored vehicle just in time. Now for the big moment, Bamboo Co-owner Terry asked for silence, and the winner is, Miss Nelly Ann Manly. The crowd roared, as the press photographers flashed their camera's. It had been a great show. (left photo: Terry and Miss The winner was deteonined by the amount of tips each collected. In t1.U'? was donated to the nonprofit organization R.A.I.N ., a Tulsa group dedicated to assisting people with H.I.V. and A.I.D.S. The event raised $500.00. This was the third year the charity pageant has donated to the group. Terry and Stan, owners of the Bamboo Lounge said " It's a worthy organization that out reaches to the community. They provide food, rent and utility assistance, transportation for medical treatment and we have. a ball doing it." From a reporter's prospec- . · tive, Stan (Photo at right) · llad a damn good time himself, we know how he loves the spotlight! Everyone enjoyed his performance as well. The MC for the night (Photo at left) did a fantastic job _also keeping all those Pretty's in line. In addition to the nights festivities, the H.O.P.E. organiza- . contributed their time and effort with free H.I.V. · g and handing out condom's to all who wanted. The Ozarks Star congratulates Terry and Stan, job well done. Page 18 . The Night Larry Kra11,1er Dissed M&---And All the Rest of You! A Politidu Commentary: November 15; :2004 New York City A week ago Sunday we had the most gorgeous weather ever. I sti:cilled·down to the piers, and as the sun shone down. and th~ fall breeze tickled the trees playfully, I thoug!it to myself; "See, there are still some things in · fife worth fi#ig' for after Bush's victory. Before I got caught up";'tnCatf election frenzy of emails and CNN I • could tllke _the time· to enjoy a beautiful day-and I still · ~n." But-9ot,-:for long. Not with Larry Kramer's speech 'The Tragedy Of Today's Gays" beckoning to me from ~ooper Union. I longed to escape the sunshine and · nook into someone who could voice mv bitterness more eloquently than I. Larry did not disappoint. I urge you all to read his cntitc speech onlinc at ~.rodneycroome.id.au/other/0/, but here is my attempt to sum up the major points of a long speech in a short article. I wasn't involved in ACT UP so I wasn't too familiar with Mr. Kramer. I knew he'd kissed David Drake* · but who hasn't? I'd been warned that he was very~ and extreme. I must be too, since I agreed with every bitter, truthful word he had to say. His basic message to gays? You arc just too f--lc:ed by this election,. and you're just too f--kcd UP with crystal, barebacking and apathy to confront your attackers, the conservative right. A "vast right-wing conspiracy" was hatched in 1971 bv Lewis Powell and financed by 9 rich families who ~ere scared of hippies, war protesters, and civil rights activists. The right saw their safe, conservative world crumbling and began to implement a highly organized plan to reinstate it. On November 3rd, after 35 vea.rs the plan was successful and the conservative pre;iden~ co~grcss and supreme court are now poised to turn back the clock on civil rights to defeat any gains. ~sys, women, blacks or ~en dissenters have made. ''The people (this plan) was written for diet not then go off to a. ~sco o~ to the Pines, or into therapy or into drugs. They took the P~ and th~y. have executed tt religiously every day and night for the IAst 35 years, initially with 400 million dollars ... and some back-breaking, grinding, unglamorous work ·of civic engagements c<>unty by county ... '.lley took the richest and most liberal nation in the world" an~ ~ansfonned it so that no': 30% of li.mericans self-identify as conservatives, as opposed to 10¼ m 1971. And make no mistake; They hate us and they arc in a position of complete power. An~ whcr,e is our plan to c~mbat them? In a shambles, as arc we. "Our org:tnizations stink" ana are either powerless and or on the verge of financial collapse. When will the rich and powerful gays step up to help? We. can't count on the government because they hate us and arc gl~d that we're doing ourselves _in with AIDS and crystal. We're murdering each other by not u5:1g condoms. 'W_c know that un~rotectcd sex causes AIDS and yet new infections are up 401/o. If we know n~ _to prevent tt and we aren't, then we arc bringing the .AIDS cri&is onto o~rselves and are. refusing to accept responsibility for it. "Has it never occurred to you that not usmg a condom ts tantamount to murder? ....... continued next page-19 p~ 19 It is in.credibly selfish not to at least have thought that question ... make whatever excuses you = to carry on in your state of denial, but this is the fact of the matter." In an extremely poignant moment Larry pondered "Was it my sperm that killed them, th9.t aid the trick? .It.is no longer possible for m'e to avo'id the que';tion of myself. Hav~ you ever wondered how many men you have killed?" Instead of considering this crucial question, we deny each other's hum_anity :1:nd define each other as. sex objects, shallow whores who are only looking for _the neit piece of nieat, We're bright and talented but our. efforts are focused primarily on partyu?.g arid sex. "I have recently come to believe that gay men and women arc tragic people. W c arc. so wonderful, b_ut we are so fucked up." Our brightness isn't being put to use. "How much public service on behalf of your brothers and sisters have you performed recently? Don't tell me you ~on't know what to do ... if you can find another ass to hump." We've lost the war against AIDS with over 70 million expected to die worldwide. But gay youth are in a stll.tc of denial and don't want to lcun the lessons of their eiders. Larry lashed out at the notion that protease inhibitors are any sort of cure. "We like to call it 'the cocktail'." But it's chemotherapy, which either kills the disease or you, and is very difficult to tll.ke, with many side effects. "And you say, 'Can't I get stoned and try barcbacking one last time?' ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR F--KING MIND? You kida want to die ... wcll, then die." Hell, youth won't even acknowledge their elders, and how can they have any sense of community without any sense of their past? "Every moral code I know of requires respect for the dead. You disdain anyone older who was there ... but you do not seem al:!le to fashion your future. To distove~ what ybu want. You don't even ask what you want. How can you not have curiosity about your future as a gay person? .. .! had people to follow and many of you have not. No baton was passed to you ... A large, congealed mass of potentially superior beings doc ,n't even know what to do with thcn,selvcs or bother to learn their history. So they dance. So they drug. So they go to the internet to find more scx ... You don't seem to be able to connect with anyone beyond the basest way ... I'm not so proud of us right now." In a Q & A afterwards (which demonstrated quite clearly how clueless some gay youth are) someone mentioned the low current attendance at ACT UP meetings. I had a thought on how to get ACT UP and activism going agsun-free crystal at the meetings! And maybe barebacking how-to demonscrationsKIDDING! Larry iaid out his bleak diagnosis and ended with more questions than answers. Milybc it's time for us to start thinking for ourselves ... That baton's been passed now, kids. You gonna drop fr? Or come out swinging? Or go to the gym and cruise the steam room? Or shop for your next circuit party outfit? Or do another bump? Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! December 2004 ·~ December is here.again Kittens. It is such a special time of ycllf, where hope spritigli ·in winter bottoms, Err, I mean · blossoms. A time for hope of the New Y car and all it shall bring us. Uncle Mikey truly l~vcs December best. It is also the time of .year for Uncle Mikeya™s.annual Wet Jock contest, which is · always a smash. The.winter fest that is Uncle MikcyaTMs life, will surely spring forth new idvcnturcs hopefully filled with I Tw:inkies - as I can not get enough of that cream filling. Is it ·I Uncle Mikcv, or dd tl:tosc commercials with that Twinkie in cowboy ~ do anything for anyone besides me? ffuuna something to ponder I guess. V' ,'•, , ' ' ' Uncle hfttd a new house bov as I will of course have endless wk for the young man this year. He attii.cs.triday. J'li?,d·him,1hippcd express mail. His name is Mr. Delight and I am hopeful. Uncl~)fi¥§:;will keeR you posted on.how he works out:.All of my staff is lucky to have me. I includ~ a. uitlform <:Httilig with matching rhincs.tonc collar. With all of these things springing forth, let's sec what,sonic read.ca hitvc on their minds this holiday season. Dear Uncle, I am at.a crossroads with a new relationship. We have been together for three months now,. the longest l hlNc been trne · to someone. However, he is always acting like he has something to hide. T do. not want to get crazy jealous, but I followed him one night where, I saw him go into solllC,,guf! li..ousc ,!lld WIIS in . . · tw;o hours. I didn't tell him I saw him, as I didn't·w'lUlt hirii to, get n:iAd. What should I JS{ I confront him, or do I just kceg quiet? Monogamously confused.· Dearest MC, Kitten, where do you buy your stalker equipment at? Is the reason you have not been with anyone loogtt than three months possibly due to the &ct that you are out there reenacting mission impossible? Dllfling, does the word stalker mean anything to you? How do you even pretend to give someone ti:ust when you 11.fe following the poor dear around like that? If you ate ever ro have a hc:;i.!thy lasting relationship some serious self evaluation is needed to figure out why you are so insecure. You obviciudy have some issues with intimacy and need to figure those: out .fir4t. Hop~ this man does not find out al:iout your private eye act, and work on you fusi. .If someone is cheating it shall show itself in tinie. At least give him a chance before you decide he is unfaithful .. Acting like a guest of the Jerry show will quench love beforc.it,.eveμ has a.chance. Kitten, sort these matters out in hopes that you will become a more trusting soul. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle sees this lrind of mistrust as. a factoring reason for infidelity in relationships. If you make someone feel distrusted ou will encourage their straying ways; as they' already have been. accu1ed. Leaving but .. .. · r.o be done. Trust is important to any relationship. If trust is not there, it is but 11. tttnc bbioh: of drama just waiting fur the fuse to be lit. Dear Uncle Mikey, I ·used to _have a. circle of friends that were pretty right. Now, they have all settled into long-tcim (elationships leaving me arid the other guy out. Now, I £ind myself lonely as I just do not think it is what I am looking for. They all tdl me it is the very thing I need in my life is someone stable and act like there is something wrong with me, as I don't want to settle down. Family life makes me nauseous. Am I wrong for wanting to remain single? Pia.yet at heart .................................... continucd next page-21 Page 21 MAIN STREET, JOPLIN, MISSOURI (41 7) 627-9035 Dear Player heart: There is something to be said for both lifestyles. Uncle has enjoyed both sides of the fence, and though Uncle has decided that I have had my share of love, leaving me now to enjoy a life of sampling the delicacies of Gaydom, I. assure you nothing is wrong with you. However, you do come off a bit judgmental on their lifestyle of choice. If they are happy with family life, wish them well. Understand that it will most likely bring a dividing barrier into the friendship as they 11.fC moving .on with life. If you arc lonely for your pals make some new ones. And one last question here, have you and the other guy thought fate may have left you two alone for a reason? That's something to think: on. Yau never know where love will come from, keeping your options open 1md the ability to see opportunity is important even to players. Smooches Uncle Mikey Kittens never close your mind to the possibilities that fate may offer us. Live life under one rule and that is simpiy - be all you can be; young queer. Play by the rules of love and life, while being rruc to yourself. Do not try to live life by others standards. Make your own happiness. It is as I was just telling a very dear friend of mine, Sir Comesalot, you have to seize the moment. Believe me he did and it was a night we won't soon forget. Life is but several moments of possibilities. It is the Player that keeps his eyes wide open that will find those winning moments that makes life worth while. It seems my time has &dcd faster than a trick at sunrise. Until we meet again. Remember Kittens: When someone asks you this season to help stuff their turkey. They 11.fe of course referring to cooking darling, not sympathy sex. Oh, was I embarrassed. Merry Cht-istmas Kittens! Smooches Uncle Mikey (and Tiddles too). U nclclnikey4you@Aol.com, Uncle Milcey is " character &om Freelance writer Michael Hln:mum. Michael h2s been writing for ten yon. Utili,cing his 1todle1, and life cxpctiencc to help others in his community, through humor and sound advice. Michael applied his study of p,ychology and creative writing, u well his extensive background in mcn12l health Direct cue to bring a n= s:ylc and approsch to helping othcn. Mlch..,l's other worb cJU1 be viewed at wn p71iorcon,cnt om. Page 22 11 States Approve Gay Marriage Ban StaJe.m~!'}t fr_o.rn the. Reverend Dr. Troy D~ Perry Foundeir and Mor::terator of ' , ""<",/.",,,~;./ Ji':'• sap . . . . . . approved ballot measures to limit the rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons to equal protection under the marriage laws. In the midst of today's disappoint, we take hope. The hard work of human rights has always been that of many steps· forward; · arid some steps backward. The outcome of these ballot measures is a setback:; but only a temporary setback, in the forward march of justice and equality for all people. These votes are powerful reminders that it is always wrong to put human rights and equality to a public vote. Equality under the law, by its very · t be afforded to all people, LGBT people, and must nctict be based on public popularity. History is a powerful teacher, and gives us hope. Had African-Americans in the U.S. had ro wait for a public vote, their wait for equality undet the law would have been even longer. Thank God for the court system in the United States. Just as the courts righted injustices against our African-American brothers . and sisters, we, too, take hope that the · courts will ultimately rule that America must live out the promise of its .founding documents, of liberty and justice for .all. We Jalute the many LGBT people in thos~ 11 sates who, along with our family and friends,. turned out to vote no, on thes:OC laws and who boldly supi:iorted equality under the law. Thanks to so many in our community for. being willing, · yet again, to talk · abou.t our filmilies and our lives. This public conversation changes public atti°:1-des and will change laws. · Already today groups across the U.S. are mobilizing to challenge the con~titutionality of these ballot measures in the courts. I strongly .support these efforts, and encourage all · ,peoele of goodwill to support these challenges with your prayers, cominitlnent and finances. ·N0TE: the Reverend Dr. Troy D. Perry performed the first-ever public same-sex wedding ceremony in the U.S. in 1969, and in 1970 fil,ed the first-ever lawsuit in the US. seeking legal recognition of samegender marriages. He was. rrwrried under Canadian law to bis partner of 20 years, Phillip Ray DeBlieck, in July 2003. Quotable Quotes "That [getting married] was better, deeper, more meaningful than I thought it would be. I never really invested in marriage. I come from the g-cneration of gays that were like; that's the straight thing to do, that's not a part of my life. So it wds a long journey to doing that and, once I did it, it's huge, and it's really more than I ever imagined." Singer Mclissa·Etheridge on her marriage to actress Tammy Lynn Michads, to the Memphis gay magazine Family & Friends, August issue. 1 1 l J j ·I• i j I 1 Page 23 Creator: Paula Maitinac _has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." by Paula Marti.nae December, 2004 Overcoming the Red-State Blues ... "Why Kerry Lost." "Kerry Really Won." "23 Percent of Gays Voted for Bush." "How to Immigrate to Canada." E-mail messages with tormenting subject lines like these, sent by various progressive groups and individuals, have been landmg in my mailbox at a .&st and furious pace. Despair on the left is widespread, because so mariy of u~ considered this election to be the most important one of our lives, and now we're rushing .to analyze what the results mean for our future. Much of the spin from the 'left seems to follow one of two sttancfs: citlicr-Ji.mcrieans are too stupid to up.~ef~i . . . . . . . is sliding into fascism, or clsi .... . .. failed to give voters _a v#Hl~,~teipaf.ivc.fo Bush. That "--------------~ st:.i.rk dichotomy iep,indi aie of those funny "critical issues" books we read in high school history disses, .'the ones with titles like "Napoleon: Revolutionary or Despot?" that never allowed for a gtay area in between the two choices. · · Now, in our despondency over Kerry's loss and the passage of all those anti-gaymarriage amendments, we may not be able to see any bright spots amid the gloom - and believe it or not, there iire a few. And no, I haven't changed my name from Paula to Pollyant1J1.; I went trawling for positive things to cling to so that I wouldn't go insane, and I offer them here for you to cling to, too. 1. A number of openly lesbian and gay Democratic candidates either won historic victories or made impressive ·showings in local nces in areas of the country where they should have lost big - the red S1:ll.tes. Consider, in particular, three courageous lesbian candidates. Nicole LeFavour won a seat in the Idaho House of Represent:.i.tives, becoming the first out gay official in that conservative state. Julia Boseman garnered a place _in the Stll.te .Senate of North Carolina and will .be its first LGBT legislator. On Bush's home turf, Lupe Valdez becomes the o~t lesbwi Latina sheriff of Dallas County, its higliest-nnking law-enforcement official. Keep in mind that these states aren't just red;· they're deep criinson. The courage of these women is precisely what we'll need to see more of in coming months and years, since a big Republican win calls for a big progressive response. That includes many more gay people running for office. Local nices matter greatly, sini;:e laws that affect our daily lives ?ZC Im.de in · the atatc legislatures. But also, aa we saw this year with the amAZing Batack Obama Jn Illiriois, local political bodies can become steppingstones to natiomi office. 2. Another ray of hope is that there was no antigay backlash at the polls in Massachusetts, the state that sparked same-sex marmge furor across the country. Every Massachusetts state legislator who upheld gay marriage rights won. re-dection, and the antigay House Speaker h11.s been replaced by one who supports gay rights. The state's proposed constitutional amendment to ban same-aex marriage may be scrapped. Could it be Bay Smters have realized that living next to married same~sex couples is not very different from living next to unmarried ones? ... cont.-page-26 Page24 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente December 2004 Carson Comes Down It's going to be a very Carson Kres~ley Christmas over at Bravo. The favonte gay fashiooista of hetero · makeover candidates .everywhere is hosting .his very first holiday special for the network that made him a stiu-. It's called _The . Christmas Special Christmas Special_, and no,i you djdn•t read .that incorrectly. This will pay tribute. to all specials that came way _I Love the 1:'h~ A-Team_. the Night Visitors_ are in this party mix, with the quippy Carson n~~g ~. and most .likely jmgling -: all. the !it ~e wx:app.μig · co~es off Dl=cem_,. t, with f what Js sure o repeats until the Star Coob Up _Kitchen Confidential_ His _Se:t and the.City_ la,;liel! ~P-~~.t t:4eir time hanging out in .~nc · • · · · . after another, but now. _Sex_ Stat is going . ~ . . - his new project. A hebwd-the-scenes comedy about life oit the other end of the entree, _Kitchen Confidential_ - a half-hour series based on the memoir of the same name by Anthony Bourdain executive chef at New York's Les Hall;s · restaurant - will move straight past the la.dies who lunch and into the fast-paced kitchens where those $99 truffle-laden hamburgers get made. The project is now in the hands of writers, who'll translate Bourdain•s book for the small screen; Stat himsdf will be supervising the pil~t ~pth_ 20th Century Fox Television and New line TV are on board to produce, and Romeo's mouth is already watering in anticipation. Set It Off Again The very c~l 1996 women-robbingbanks drama _Set It Off_ ended in a hail of bullets, with three of its four main characters on ice. So ... sequel? Why not? And that's exactly the plan that's in the works over at New line, with producer Darryl Taja setting up the ~~xt chapter in that crime spree. The onginal film staned Jada Pinkett Smith, Vivica Fox, Kimberly Elise, and Queen Latifah (playing a butch lesbian with nothing to lose) as an all-female, gun-toting gang of desperate women in need of qttlck cash. But since Pinkett,-Smith's character was the lone survivor when that movie's credits rolled, it's unclear at this point if the sequd will involve any of the original felons. Hey, it worked in _Teen Wolf, Too._ Sort 0£ Kathy Griffin•• Cup Runs Over Comedian Kathy Griffin's legion, of gay followem - tμe woman seems to have an a.Im.oat rdigiou1 preference for her queer &n1 - will be happy to know that after her new concert film, _Allegedly_, drops thi1 month on DVD, their favorite funny lady baa a multiplex'• worth of movies heading down the pike. In the forthcoming_ Vegas Baby_, Griffin plays 1omcthing called a "Shc-EJvis" (really, don't aalt); in the Cinderella story _Dirty Love .... she stars opposite Jenny McCarthy and Csumcn Electra; the _Blue Lagoon_-ish _Lovcwrccked_ secs her joining cut memben Amanda Bynes and Lance Ba11; and in the Charle• Matthau-directed _Her Minor Thing_, Griffin will worlt opposite _Saturday Night Live_'1 Rachel Dratch and former _SNL_-er Victoria Jaclt,on. Meanwhile, if you're too lazy to commit all that to memory, you could juat catch her on _Hollywood Squucs_. Page 25 G,y C.rtgiversfrom jMge-6 . "Government agencies serv10g elders should target funding to the gay . community, just as th~y mr,~et .~thruc minority elder populations, SIU~ Marjorie Cantor, professor ementus at Fordham University Graduate School of Social Service and a principal .. investigator of the study. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute is a think ~ dedicated to research, policy analysts and strategy development. to ~ance greater uncferstanding and equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgcnder people. SAGE, Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgcnder Elders, is the nation's oldest and ~~st social service and advocacy orgaruzation dedicated to gay, bisexual and transgcnder seniors. Some Additional Findings in Caregiving Among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender New Yorkers: _ One in five caregivers surveyed relied on a member of the clergy for emotional support around issues rdatcd to caregiving. In contraSt, less than 1 % of family of origin caregiv~s, and . approximately 15% of family of ch~tce caregivers, relied on a gay commuruty organization for support. - At least one-third of caregivers said that the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgcnder (LGBT) community had. a key role to play in providing support to LGBT caregivers. When a.sk~d why_ the gay community should help its_ seruor members, most respondents s~d that . the community was best a~ ~ fo~ tts own, reflecting an underlying belief tn the persistence of discrimination. _ The LGBT community-based services in which the respondents were mo~t interested themselves were counsding (26%), retirement, or a_s~i~tcd ~ communities (19%), VlStttng setv1ces (19%), and assistance with thy-to-day tasks (14%). _ One in five respondents had children of their own, and 7% were grandparents. Fortysix percent of the respondents were between 50 and 59; 35¾ were between '60 and 69; 19% were 70 and older. Fifty-two percent of the respondents were single; 40% were partnered. - Tolhy, the population of gay ~e~ors in America. is just under three million. By 2030, as gay baby ~oon:iers head into their sixties . and seventies, tt could be nearly twice that. The foil report can be found in the Task Force publications library at www.TheTaskForce.org/library Quotable Quotes "Sexual orgies eliminate social tensions b aged ,, and ought to e encour . _ U.S. Supreme Court Justice_ Ant?nio Scalia speaking at Harvard Uruvers1ty Sept. 28, according to The Harvard Crimson. Page 26 Gay Tramers from pdge 7 Another dear friend, Tyke gave a brunch for us at his condo which is decorated beautifully. Tyke also is an artist and we got to see some of his lovely oil. pain~. We love Tyke for many reasons and one of them is that he loves giving wi shirts! In the photo above at Millie's party, we ate wearing two of the shirts that he gave us. The iast night we were in Palm Springs Millie Bollin, the Grande Dame of Palm Springs ll~ciety, gave us a party at her estate attended by exceptionally enjoyable people in Palm Springs. She is a rare jewel. Fun, funny, educated, intelligent, witty, great party hostess and just a truly NlCE person. Her neighbor, Princess Rcg4ia. attended as well as lots of other interesting guests. Millie has a won9erful dog and bird to keep her company. People! That is what it is all about. Meeting new, fun, cxcitlng and interesting people. Our special THANKS for our wonderful time in Palm Springs goes to Tom and Doug, o~ers of the TERRAZZO Resort. They ~ super guys and once you stay with them .yo_u wili :w~i: tt> return forcrer: Th6re ii onlyon~ bad tbfug about.the.; · however. And that •; You simply never. And" BlG t#~'.Y.0'11.,to Jim Poyle ~s~~~~lt:\~::::~ in QUt tt'lfVe!s: Jinfcap.Ao an~g, and WC do.mean ~G I :.He plays the piatto SQ b~utifally anais'.onc of the best.bartenders in'thc cc4ritry. He is a gr~ businessman ~d all irourid super nice guy. Th~s Jlgi fo.t: all you have done. So, next time yotit bored, whynot fly out to Palm Springs, check ·illti:i· the TERRAZZO Resort ahdhiive yourself a wonderful and exciting time. usbian Notions from pg-23 3. Although the mainstream media only reported on the gay movement's crushing defeats in 11 states, exit polls conducted by the National Election Pool (NEP) found that an astounding 60 percent of Americans support some sort of legal protection for same-sex couples. While only 25 percent said that protection should take the fonn of marriage, another 35 percent favored civil unions. Of course, "marriage lite" is not what we want or deserve. Still, the NEP poll numbers are encouraging because they point to Americans' fundamental belief in basic civil rights. And that belief is what we must hang on to as we continue the struggle for full equality under the law. 4. In Ohio, four major public universities whose domestic-partner benefits have been jeopardized by that state's anti-gaymarriage amendment have vowed to preserve those benefits until forced to do otherwise. Gov. Robert Taft (R.) has also opposed the antigay measure, fearing that it "will make it more difficult for us to retain and attract the young. talented knowledge workers we need to advance Ohio's prosperity." When straight people begin to sec g,a.y rights as being in their own· self-interest, it's .a sign that we're making progtcss - even when it looks like we've lost. These few glimmers of hope may not seem like much after such a huge blow; but remember that. the path of social change proceeds like a glacier - slow and steac;ly. Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton wo.rke.d their entire lives for women's suffrage, but didn't live to see it. Similarly, most of us who work for equal marriage rights may never enjoy ·them ourselves, but we will, in fact, have helped to change the world. Paula M,.rti,n4c is a Lambd4 Liter11rv - · ~and unbe tit LesbianNoti<insf//xpyndite.com . 1 I Page27 Seo es by Jack Fertig December 2004 "Cover yourself, Libra!" Mercury turns retrograde this week, while in quincunx to Saturn. New ideas require testing, and most will fail - . but don't let that deter you! The biggest challenge is to be pragmatic, sensitive, and above all, adaptable. ARIES (Much 21 to April 20): Arguments are hard to avoid! Religion and politics always make discussions more interesting than polite. This is especially so now at home and with family. Staying open-minded takes special effort, but if you can manage that, you'll be ahead. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Expressing . grief and frustration is hard, but worth the effort. Those feelings will get worse before they dear away, but opening channels no:w will help. Confide in a dose friend, preferably someone grandmotherly. GEMINI ~ 21 to June 21): Money problems can strain any relationship; Now the stress is pretty rough. It is very important to discuss these issues. Solutions won't come this month, but communication. shows awareness and willingness to work on things, and that's enough for now. CANCER (June 22 to July 22): You're especially vulnerable now to contagious respiratory problems. Stay warm and dry, and choose your company carefully. Whether or not you deserve blame for miscommunications at work, take responsibility for. fixing them. LEO (July 23 to Augnst 22): Creative blocks will pass, but never quickly enough. Dreams, fears, and old f.unily disasteu can be sources of inspiration, or can at leut help you to undentand the bloc~. Face the grim and dark. - better to appreciate the merry and bright. VIRGO (August 23 to Septcinb~ 22): . In our communities, how we redefine "family" among our friend~ has little in the way of · rules or precedent. Either category has its assumed obligations - but what are they? You need to adjust expectations there; look for a little turbulence, but nothing serious. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Anything you say can and will be held against you! Cover yourself by consulting with authorities; and double check all references. Things will still go wrong, but make sure where responsibility lies and be prepared to take responsibility as is appropriate. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Financial problems will pop up over the next few weeks. Think carefully about them. Take a long view to what can be done now to ease the cuts. Education and travel plans may have to be reconsidered. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Who are you as a sexual being? That question gets opened up to profound exploration. Reconsider your integrity, limits, and desires. You may back away from some situations, but you will ultimately find something better. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Problems with your partner are largely in your own head, but whatever worries and doubts you have should be discussed. Yeah, it can get pretty messy over the next few weeks, but in the long run it will work out for the better. AQUARIUS (January 20 to February 18): Remember that friends and colleagues are all fallibly human. Now they are quite frustrating, pushing you to reconsider social commitments and long-term goals. Think slowly and carefully. It's time· for adjustments, not radical breaks. PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Your reputation is 'about to take some knocks. Accept the challellge to adapt. With a bii of creative hard· work,· you can figure out a way to establish .whatever connections and bona £ides you need to get through this. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 19 77 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Nef!Working. He can be,~~ for consultations at 415-864- 8302, throtJgh his uiebrite at http://f flf11'flJ.St4rjackcom Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Lodging- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- - - - 479-571-130 Ron's Pl11ce- - 523 W. Poplar- - - - 479-442-3052 Wild-On - - - - - -3570 W. 6th- - - - - - 479-521-9453 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkellds-10041/2 Garrison Ave- - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - -479-782-1845 Arkuau, Hot Springs (501) Club One Eleven- - - 111 Gllrden St- - - - -620-4111 Our House Lounge - 660 E. Gnnd Ave- -624-6868 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street - - - -1021 Jessie Rd- -501-664-2744 Discovery- - - -1021 Jessie Rd- - - - - - 501-666-6900 The Factory - -412 LoUWllllll St- - - -501-372-3070 Miao11rl, JopHa (417) Ree's-••• 716 S. Main•• - -.. -417-627-9035 Mlssoarl, Kansas City (816) Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 Main St - - - - 816-561-2600 Belle Sw's- - - - 1321 Gr11nd Ave- -816-421-1288 DB Wll!ehouse- -- 1915 Milin St- - - -816-471-1575 Misr.ie B's- - -805 W. 39th St- - - - -- - 816-561-0625 Sidestreet Bu - - - -413 E. 3rd- - - - - 816-531-1775 Sidelcicb Sllloon - 3707 Milin St- - 816- 931-1430 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boo~ville Ave- - - - - --417-831-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar• 50-4 E. Commercial• - • • • -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821. College- - - - - - -417-864-0036 Rumon • -1109 E. Commercial- - -417-873-2225 Okluoma,•Oldakoma City (405) Boom Rocim- 2807 NW 36th St- -- - - - -405.:.601-7200 Club Rox- - - -3535 NW 39th Expwy- 405-947-2351 Copa- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- -405-525-0730 Finish Line - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- - 405-525--0730 Hi-Lo Quh - - 1221 NW 50th- - - -405-843-1722 Lido- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th_ Expwy- 4()5-5~~0730 Partners- - - - -2805 NW 36th St - - - - - 40.S.:942-2199 Sisters- - - - - - 2120 NW 39th s;. -----405!521-9533 The Rockies- - -3201 N. Ml!.Y Ave.- - - - 405-~7-9361 Topanga Grill&: Bar- 3535 NW 39th:-4()5-947-2351 . Oklaboma, Tuia (918) Bamboo Lounp 720-4 E. Pine - • _..918-836-8700 Clnb Maverick-· 822 s. Sheridan - 918:835-3301 End Up Oub- - - 424 S. Memodal- - - 9111c-836-2480 Heads &"Tails- - 7944 E. 21st - • - - - - 9i8'660-7878 Club'~jestic- - 124 N. Botton - - - • -918'584-9494 Rencgadea- - - -1649 S, Main-• - - - -91if:5135.3405 Play-Mor-Oub- - 1737 S. Memorial - -918-838-9792 Silver Star- -1565 S. 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Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417-434-0077 1010 E. 20th Joplin M064804 800-782-7822 I ' 1 I I Page 31 I l I I I 1 l J • I t e r n • t ! v e n l g h t ·c I u b 716 w,, sycamore Fayetteville, AR 479-571-1300 wwwatulllrRililwt ~PEN w4td-sun 9pm - ·2am Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] The Ozark Star Magazine, December 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 12 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Ozark Star’s first issue began in August of 2004. Before this Issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) then follows The Star (2005) and The Metro Star (2008) This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 1, 2004 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Greg Steele Paula Martinac Lady Bunny Romeo San Vincente Steve T. 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Perry family gay marriage ban Lady Bunny Larry Kramer Lesbian Notions Lupe Valdez Miss Bamboo Pageant Qscopes Quotble Quotes The Star Scene travel Uncle Mikey https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51f03a48b0711d7510078aa4281690a6.jpg d9b2a32dc5df0666b15c9ae7eb0c513d https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/71a5cab079f5c735172b79b629c3d926.pdf 8631c536a6c8444947bc6811e7696587 PDF Text Text ����������������� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document MONTHLY MAGAZINE INSIDE TIDS MONTH Book Review "American Evita" It's Time to RODEO Out on Vacation "Saugatuck" Male Dancer's of the 4 States "Q TV Network" FREE Volume 1 Issue 8 "A STAR IS BORN" The Ozarks Pride Magazine name change to "The Ozarks Star" is now official. We felt Ozarks Pride conflicted with gay pride organization's magazine and the name change more reflects a regional ne.vs publication although our distribution base goes beyond the Ozark Mountain region, S\x/ Missouri, \'vestern Arkansas, SE Kansas and Eastern Oklahoma is our main base of operations with an estimated 15,000 potential readership. With the name and the masthead design change done, many more improvements and features are in the grand plan for The Ozarks Star. Our goal is to continue to be a --.-iable source of information to the GLBT community. To be your voice in a community that in the past has had very little representation or acknowledgment from the straight community. \X'e are an educated, talented, successful and absolutely fantastic people who contributes to our community economically, spiritually and physically each and everyday. The recently organized "Gay Pride" e\·ents in Springfield, Fayetteville, Fort Smith and hopefully next year Joplin, shows we are here, we are out of the closet and we are not going away. Since our first publication in December 2003 there have been three other GLBT publications start up in this region and we \vclcome them and congratulate the editor's and publishers for their courage. There is a lot of hard work, learning and frustration with beginning a new \·enture such as a Gay/ Lesbian news publication. We support their efforts and applaud their tenacity. C.D. Ward /Editor { I The Ozarks Star ON CONS~ITUTIONAL DISCRIMINATION The Ozarkd Star Page 5 August 1, 2004 WHOW! DO YOU FEEL THE I did my part ... did you? As the debate concerning the Federal Marriage Amendment started to heat up in the U.S. Senate we were ask to get involved on the side of social justice to fight this very discriminate bill. As The Rev. Dr. Troy Perry Founder and Moderator of the ·unive~;al Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches is quoted, "They presented their amendment as a high-minded attempt to protect 'traditional' marriage, when in reality it was a cynical attempt to influence future elections and win power ... a sad reminder of the hostility and political oppression still faced by LGBT people" I \Yrote Senator Kit Bond and Senator Jim Talent, Missouri with my concern about this Senate Bill and what it stood for. As a person of faith, a parent, a constituent and yes a Gay person I encouraged both to oppose this bill. Some say an act of radical optimism considering that our own Missouri Senator Jim Talent co-sponsored the bill. Senator Kit Bond didn't even bother to respond to my email and Senator Jim Talent planted his feet and defended his stand. After receiving his seething and radical right response, a copy of his response was sent to every church belonging to the UFMCC denomination and gay organization that could be reached with encouragement for all others in our community, family, friends, GLBT and straight to right him as well. We have won this round but things will heat ·up as the U.S. House of Representatives takes up the debate next. Let us enjoy this win but be ever vigil that it is not over. After all, we pay more taxes with less representation then our straight friends that are married. Even as it was defeated Republican Senators and analyst \Vere stating that it is the only way to protect the integrity of marriage. Let's think on that one for a split second. I have every respect for the institution of marriage ... my parents have been married for over 50 years however I don't see the integrity of marriage being bolstered by the current divorce rate or by the straight males that abuse our gay brothers for their own release and then run home to their wives. They don't need to use us as their scapegoats fo; the failure of marriage in this country today. I included Senator Jim Talent's reply letter so you can see for yourself that he has no intention to represent all of the constituents that elected him. Let's us remember him when he runs for reelection! I for one will not even vote for him as the lesser of evils but ,vill remind you again of his "caring for you." Dear The Rev. Urie: Thank you for contacting me regarding your thoughts about same-sex marriages. I appreciate the time you have taken to share your views with me, and I welcome the opportunity to respond. I believe in the traditional definition of marriage as the union of a man and a woman and believe our legal institutions should reflect that understanding. The issue has serious implications for our families and our society and I believe that action sooner, rather than later, will be necessary and most effective. Certainly people have the freedom to live as they choose and to attempt to influence the direction of our culture. But just as certainly, the courts should not force Continued, see Senator's reply page-25 Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 6 MEN'S UNDERWEA~ STOBE . . . OPEN! 825 E 311n ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL: 877-7-.BOXERS fOR INFO! UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE . BO SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDIJ '"'Traveling in the gay friendly world'' by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Saugatuck/Douglas, Michigan Tired of the hot, muggy and rainy weather? Then head up North to Saugatuck/Doulgas, Michigan. Located on the Lake Michigan side of the State it is nestled right on the coast. It is a little over a two hour drive from Chicago. Saugatuck and Douglas are actually two separate villages divided only by a waterway. Both villages are extremely gay-friendly Besides having a huge all-gay resort, The DUNES, www.dunesresort.com, there are also several gay Bed and Breakfasts and a fabulous CAMPIT campgrounds located just 10 minutes away. They have camping facilities for tents, RV'ers plus a Bed and Breakfast and you can even rent a log cabin for your stay. Michael, a hot gay man and Sally, an equally hot lesbian own the campground. It is extremely well tended. Plenty of wooded areas for camping, bonfires, hiking and for just enjoying the out of doors. This is the finest campground we have ever seen and what makes it extra special is that it is all gay! Their web site is: www.saugatuckweekends.com Try this for a wonderful alternative to what you usually do when traveling. They have a great community room/ shelter house adjacent to their swimming pool. :ivlichael and Sally are extremely hospitable to all their guests. They have guests that keep coming back year after year in addition to several who come EVERY weekend. At the Dunes Resort you will find plenty of action whether at the pool or at one of their 4 bars. They have a Cabaret ·which features strippers, drag queens and lots of other talented performers. On weekends all the bars are packed solid and they are famous for their Sunday afternoon and evening Tea Dances. But there is much more about the Saugatuck/Dunes area than just gay accommodations and bars.Dozens of the shops are gay mvned and what are not gay owned are very gay-friendly. Some of our favorties was the BACK ALLEY PIZZA JOINT where they make some of the best Pizza that we have ever tasted. Judy, the owner is extremely friendly. You can either dine in, take out or have it delivered to your room. The GLENN RESTAURANT ir1 Glenn, about 8 miles South is a delightful old cafe that has been there for years and years. Nothing fancy but the food is wonderful. Also in Glenn be sure and check out the YELLOW DOG },NTIQUE SHOP. If you get thirsty for coffee, the ONLY place in the area is the UNCOMMON GROUNDS in downtown Saugatuck. It is a Java and Juice Cafe. The owner, Stephen is extremely personable and the coffee is great. They always have a line of customers. Continued page 22 ...... . Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 8 "They were terrified of her" Compiled by: Star writer Greg Steele An Eva Paron in American! Most of us have seen the movie "Evita", the Faye Dunway version and the Maddona musical version, and admired Paron's rise to power. The glamour and the passion that was Eva, does suggest similar traits of Hillary Clinton, now that it has been written. Has Senator Clinton's rise to power put her in the position of number one candidate for the first women to become President of the United States? It certainly is a possibility. "There are many striking similarities to Eva Peron and Hillary'' Andersen claims. "Here we have two very strong-willed women who engineered their husbands' rise to the presidencr Then they used their power as first lady----some would say abused their August 1, 2004 power as first lady - and in the process became two of the most loved, .). hated, revered, feared women in the world. Sex, money, power, betrayal, tragedy, charges of corruption, all these things really characterized the lives of both Evitas." "When you look at Hillary, you realize that she is in fact not only the most powerful Democratic woman in the country, she is the most recognizable Democrat in the country. And she really is the first woman' with a serious chance of being elected president." Andersen was quoted. Anderson believes Clinton has a more than a good chance of going back to the White House, but this time as the head honcho. Author Clu:fstopher Andersen says Hillary Clinton influenced many of her husband Bill's decisions. The Book American Evita: Hillary Clinton's Path to Power is now in bookstores across the country. Volume l Issue 8 Page 10 MAIN ST. J □ PLIN, M □ MON: Request Dance Party w /Tercy. TUES: queer as folks 4th Season - Tuesdar, w /Tercy @9pm WED: Dancing with DJ Lil'Ken THUR: Brandon Bravado & The Justice Janelle Moore Show. Karaoke with DJ Robbie FRI: The Robbie Walker Showcase and DJ Lll'Ken SAT: Dance Party with DJ Lil'Ken OPEN MON-SAT FROM4PM TO1:3OAM. HAPPY HOUR 4-7PM EACH DAY WITH AUS~IM., Advertisement ., cactus Canyon Campground And Resort For Men In The Ozarks The L.ar9e$t Men's C.amp9round in the U'51\ Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clothing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website It's Rodeo Time! Press Release MGRA Shawnee, KS July 20, 2004 The Missouri Gay Rodeo Association (1vfGRA) is proud to announce its twelfth annual Show-Me State Rodeo this Labor Day Weekend, September 3-5, at the WyandotteCounty Fairgrounds, 1405 N. 98'\ Kansas City, Kansas. MGRA is one of 24 gay rodeo associations across the United States and Canada that make up the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA). There are 13 events in the Show-Me State Rodeo, including rough stock, speed, roping, and camp events. One of the few differences between gay rodeos and other rodeos is that men and women compete with and against each other for buckles, ribbons, and cash prizes. With the support of its Grand Sponsor Bud Light, MGRA is able to produce a first-class rodeo and give all profits from the event to its chosen charities: Hope Care Center (Kansas City), Southwest Boulevard Health Clinic (Kansas City), and the AIDS Project of the Ozarks (Southwest Missouri). Other international sponsors include American Airlines, Instinct Magazine, and Bacardi Silver. On board as a full sponsor this year August 1, 2004 is Sidekicks Saloon in Kansas City. Established in 1986 as a non-profit organization, MGRA has given hundreds of thousands of dollars to AIDS-related charities across l\fissouri. \vith chapters in Kansas City and Joplin, MGRA has a broad membership base filled with volunteers who make each years rodeo a success. \velcoming contestants and rodeo fans from across the country, MGR,'\ draws some of the finest competitors in the gay rodeo circuit. It is not uncommon to see a top barrel racer also compete in the wild drag race. The wild drag race is one of three camp events that always entertain the rodeo spectators. Besides the rodeo events, there is a great deal of entertainment at the rodeo grounds all weekend. International and Association Royalty all join forces to entertain in the evenings. Also appearing will be Cheer, Dorothy, Cheer! ... a group of high camp and high energy cheerleaders from 1'v1inneapolis. Tickets for the rodeo will be available at the gate for $12 per day. All evening events, dances, and parties are free to the public, and will be held at the Wyandotte County Fairgrounds. The Awards Ceremony will be held on Sunday, September 5, at 8:30 p.m. at the Fairgrounds. For more information about the Show-Me State Rodeo, visit their website: '£'l\v:w;mgra,us. An Ozarks Star Community Service FREE HIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES ! 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The Ozarks Star Centerfold-A August 1, 2004 December 16, 1928 ;._ June 23, 2004 Volume 1 Issue 8 Centerfold Direct from Hollywood Squares For 2 shows only: ~ T opanga Bar and Grill-9:30pm ~ Club Rox-9:30pm With special appearances by: Sistagirl and Not So Holy Nun $10 in advance/$13 at the door August 1, 2004 •• lnl1A l }} For more information call or email: 405-947-2351 / info@hollywoodhotelokc.com Ozarks Star Centerfold August 1, 2004 c Night Special-$55 I Night-$35 Tax Included www.hollywoodhotelokc.com Saturday Sept 4th Girls Nite Out Starring the ONE and ONLY GINGER LAMAR With Special Guests Showtime 11:00pm Sunday Sept 5th Barbeque by the Pool Catered by HEAD COUNTRY BBQ Party starts at 7:00pm and ends ? Volume l Issu!'l 8 Centerfold-D Volume I Issue 8 Page 16 August 1, 2004 Town dbits by Randy Vineyard Introducing "T-Town Tidbits" by Star writer Randy . Vineyard, An Ozarks Star exclusive. Randy lives in Tulsa and will be covering the Star Scene in and around the T-Town area. Randy has lived in Tulsa since the age of two and wouldn't consider living anywhere else and loves the Tulsa GLBT scene. So stay tuned for some exciting Tidbits from T-Town. Randy is also The Ozarks Star advertising contact for Tulsa. I want to help those of you who are not from Tulsa understand a little bit of what we do here, along with where to ·go. Before I fill you in on the clubs and what they offer, I'd like to put the career of one of Tulsa's most loved entertainers in a nut shell for you. I was working at Club Renegades in downtown Tulsa, in the late 80's. The club had never done shows of any kind, I talked the owner into letting us try it out to see if it would fly. We slid the pool table against the wall put a piece of plywood on it and made steps out of empty bottle beer cases and duct tape. This was our stage, tiny but suitable. The young man I worked with the most was Ron - 'Mr Zeigfield' we called him. He was a very colorful and amazingly talented person. Around that same time the Tulsa Community was in need of financial help for persons living with HIV/ AJDS. Ron came up with the a benefit for this purpose. Many of the local' entertainers came forth to help and donate their time and energy to the cause. One of those people was Paul Sbuyler, a regular club patron, he decided it would be fun and a way to give something back to his community. This is a short storv about 'HELGA'. Paul first created Belg; at a benefit performance in the early 90's at the club Renegades. In an effort to raise help money, be donned a dress, the name 'HELGA', and proceeded to create who is now THE most recognizable personality for fund-raising in the state of Oklahoma. Paul and the host of entertainers from across Tulsa crawled up those beer crates and performed for standing room only audiences each month. This evenfwas so successful that it became THE RED RJBBON REVUE'. Through the years Ron pasted from us to a better place, but still has. dire~tor status in qur hearts. Paul went on to tum the fund-raiser into . . . . . 'HELGA'.S RED RIBBON REVUE'. She has hosted the first Saturday of every month now for 10+ years, . that comes to 150 consecutive shows. After many successfui years with the Renegades team, it was time for Helga to find another home for her benefit. At the ;equest of a dear friend, Kris Kohl continued .. page21 The Ozarks Star Page 17 Q Television Network. Delivers; Sample Broadcast Viewers Embrace the Nation's Premiere 24/7 Gay and Lesbian Television Network Press Release: NEW ORLEANS, May 18, 2004 Q Television Network announced today the successful completion of its five-hour test broadcast on Saturday, May 15th. The sample broadcast signal was available throughout all of North America, beginning at 10:00 a.m. PST. In addition, Cox Cable in New Orleans and Comcast in Seattle, Tacoma, Olympia and Everett, Washington, offered the broadcast to their viewers. Viewers were presented highlights from the network, which included a first look at "I Will, I Do, We Did," an original documentary about gay marriage. The sample broadcast also ran several sneak previews of motion pictures, as well as specials and documentaries. "The public has finally gotten a chance to see firsthand the unique programming Q Television Network will deliver for our third quarter launch," notes President of Programming and Acquisitions Steven Grunberg. "We encourage everyone to call their cable network or digital satellite provider and request Q Television Network." Company Overview This television network was organized to create and develop a network devoted to providing television programming for the gay and lesbian community. While the company expects much of its subscriber base t0 be comprised of members of the August 1, 2004 gay and lesbian population, management also believes that quality programming about the gay and lesbian experience, designed to entertain, educate and inform, will attract many other segments of the viewing public. The company's programming will be available on a subscription basis to those desiring its programming. The network will broadcast 24 hours per day, 7 days per week. Providing distribution via satellite ensures availability of the network across the United States, including Alaska, Hawaii and Puerto Rico. Safe Harbor Statement. For more information on the Q Television Network ~ , call the toll-free hotline: (888) 594-77 66, or the corporate headquarters: (760) 323-4455. SOURCE: Q Television Network MARY KAY the st s? Then bd<tol,lay Kay. Yoo'I find the- lolel!lt on-ll'l!lnd o:,kn coadlrdad for you with eor,y-to~ tiPf- Ade Me- haw 'fO!J oon get ihe holt9s:t loob of ilia taOl!a'I ___ or-.:1 (:I~ be 1n st)ilel Joan~ lndep!!ltld!t!I Beauty Ca-i!'JJbnl 417-673-1181 1¥"1f11J.muybf .eom/iazymanaki1 Advertisment Ozarks Star Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own \X!rite." You'd think there'd be nothing left to say about outing, some 15 years of debate about it in our community. But sure enough, outing has once again reared its controversial head. And to be honest, the political tactic that once looked bold has gone awry. The latest outing spree began in response to attempts by radical right-wingers in Congress, fueled by the support of our "compassionate" president, to pass the heinous Federal l\ll~trnage Amendment (FMA). Gay activists John Aravosis and :Michael Rogers launched a no-holdsbarred crusade to out high-level, closeted staffers of rabidly antigay congressmembers. Aravosis defended his much-publicized actions in the_ Washington Blade_, stating that "such staffers are, at best, enemy combatants; and, at worst, war criminals." that a gay activist would use the of Bush's so-called "war on terrorism" to justify a of action on behalf of our community. One of the major forces behind the FTvfA, the odious Rick Santorum of Pennsylvania, used eerie rhetoric to bolster the supposed need for the efforts to "defend" heterosexual mani:age "the ultimate homeland who held "outing" (thoug " osure of their m old \Vitch hunts like the blur. Decades ago, it was over the heads of average gay people, their jobs or their families or even their freedom. ruined many innocent gay people's lives. fonvard to the present, and as a tool of the gay mm·ement is very different, with gay and activists cA1-,v,,,u,.,. public who work the gay movement while "'""Aw,nn 1w,,t,.rt1nn of the closet. Sometimes the effort pays off: Jim Kolbe went public ho:mo,seirnal1ty when he faced with the likelihood of being outed by several gay b!J,:at:1011:s because he had voted for the notorious Defense of ,na,a,,,14-. Act in 1996. Kolbe then felt to vote his conscience, crn~Nwi'",ncY more pro-gay !CC)c;lO!CllJU'H than he did before his Volume l Issue 8 Page 20 August 1, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente August 2004 Been missingJodie lately? Of course, you have. We all have. But she's had kids to raise and, presumably, other things to do besides jumping into every movie that comes along. (fhat's Charlize Theron's job, anyway.) A while back Romeo reported on Foster's small role in the upcoming French film _A Very Long Engagement_, but now she's back in a big leading role in a big Hollywood film. _Flight Plan_, which also marks Hollywood's return to scary airplane mo,ies, will star Foster as a woman whose daughter mysteriously disappears during a flight. To complicate matters, no one remembers seeing the child on the plane in the first place. Earlier casting news placed Sean Penn in the role of a helpful fellow passenger, but now it seems that _Boys Don't Cry_ star Peter Sarsgaard will move from the indies to the majors with this co-starring project. Stone's New, Improved Ice Pick It's happening. It's not happening. And now it's happening again. That would be _Basic Instinct 2_, the beleaguered, long-:rwaited sequel to the smash 1992 Paul Verhoeven film about a murderous, ice-pick-wielding lesbian. Sharon Stone is finaliy ready to reprise her role as Killer Katherine now that director D;,.vid Cronenberg (_The Fly_) and acto: Rupert Everett have come and gone, and the multi-million doliar lawsuit Stone brought against the film's producers has been settled. With ali that behind them, the project can finally move forward. Don't expect Michael Douglas on board this time around Romeo assumes it has something to do with that spare pick Katherine had under the bed - but do expect a reprise of the first film's flashes of nudity. Bailey and Barbato Give _ Deep Throat One of the most culturally significant and successful films of all time, 1972's _Deep Throat_, is now the subject of a what else? sexually graphic documentary feature. _Inside Deep Throat_ , directed by _Party Monster_'s Fenton Bailey and Randy Barbato and produced by _A Beautiful Mind_'s Brian Grazer, will explore how a little porn film with a provocative title ended up being a big, big touchstone of '70s cinema. Universal Pictures is releasing the doc, which features interviews with playboys of the era like Jack Nicholson, Norman Mailer, \varren Beatty, and Hugh Hefner, as well as gay cultural icons John \i:laters and Gore Vidal. Romeo hopes that some of that era's feminists get to weigh in as well. After all, without Linda Lovelace's parlor trick, there'd ha,-e been no movie. Look for the unrated film to hit theaters in 2005. He's _Desperate_ Marc Cherry is probably no one you know, but his new TV series might become one you can't stop talking about. _Desperate Housewives_, debuting on ABC's fall schedule, begins ,vith a suicide in an otherwise perfect suburban neighborhood, and then proceeds to ,valk the line between _Knots Landing_-style nighttime soap and dark, mysterious comedy as the housewife who took her own life provides commentary from beyond the grave. Cherry, the show's gay creator and executive producer, has an over-the-top hit on his hands, provided an audience shows up to enjoy actresses like Teri Hatcher, Felicity Huffman, Marcia Cross, and Nicolette Sheridan (speaking of _Knots Landing_j do that Stepford 2.0 thing. Romeo San V:cente has never been, ;,.nd will never be, desperate. The Ozarks Star PEOPLE HAVE BE ASKING M A.GAY THE st OF THE B HOMOPH THE O.S. T-Townfrom page -16 &UT THE. WAY 1 SEE IT. BEING GAY IS ONLY A PAR:T OF WHO 1AM. August 1, 2004 and the crew at the PlayMor, her show found a new loving home. \'(/ith tl1e change in venue and location came a name change too. HELGA'S RED RIBBON REVUE became what is fondly known as HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART. Although the Red Ribbon Revue does continue at Renegades to this day, doing great things for the community, currently directed by Miss Tabitha Taylor, a fantastic oerformer herself. HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART still has the distinction of having the same hostess ~ith the longest running consecutive performance record, raising countless dollars for local charities. Along the way Helga is still assisted by Johnnie Cronin, a extremely talented young man who stepped up to help fill the shoes of 'Mr Ziegfield', and Kris Kohl, who has been there since the very beginning of Red Ribbon Revue. Lately Kris has been on hiatus, after lea,-ing the staff at the PlayMor, she has been pursuing her performance career and her life. She returns from time to time to perform and share in the joy of being part of the great shows at the PlayMor. Striving to grow the entertainment side of 'DR.AG,' Paul began drawing on more theatrical aspects and costuming to amplify the persona of Helga. After meeting his life partner, Tim, Paul transformed Helga beyond an individual persona, he formed HELGA:S HORRIBBLES. He established her own corner of cyberspace at _ · · which has become THE drag 'megasite', consisting of not only Helga's and her travels and numerous wonderful awards and shows, but also secrions devoted to other Tulsa performers. Perusing the ,veb page you can see the fun side of Helga, Heart 2 Heart, the fabulous shows at the PlayMor along with the show stopping productions the group has created through the years. These in~lude: CABARET, ROCKY HORIBBLE(a yearly tradition), UTILE SHOP OF HORRORS< and the annual 1WISTED TV. TWISTED TV is coming up again this summer on AUGUST 6th, 7th, and 8th at the PlayMor. As long as there is The PlayMor, Helga, and the circle of friends that are all willing to work so hard for the community, and the constant need for fund-raising, there will be HELGA and HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART. My hat is off to HELGA and her life partner TIM for making Tulsa a better p!ace through their efforts and wonderful talents . .,., ......................................... . You may contact Randy at: randy@ozarksstar.com Have a great month in T-Town. Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 22 August 1, 2004 Gay Tt-avelers from pagt! 7 BENTLEY'S Antiques and Fine Art is a great place to start your day for shopping for that special purchase to bring back home. The shop is loaded with fine quality antiques and art work including posters. HOOPDEE SCOOTEE which just celebrated it's 21st year under the same ownership is a Fabulous place to find that special gift to bring back home. Neil, the owner is the perfect owner for such a business. Selling lots of interesting collectibles, I Love Lucy items, pink flamingos, etc. You KNOW your in gay heaven when you enter the shop. MADISONS in downtown Saugatuck has lots of unique gifts, a gourmet pantry and lots of home decor items. The owners Tera and Lynn have just refurbished part of the shop and extended it to included more items. They are super businesswomen. Rob and Steve own severai businesses in Douglas including the PINES Motor Lodge, circa Antiques, Glitter & Garden Shop and Groovy! Groovy! Retro Gift Shop. For fun entertainment be sure and check out the MASON STREET WAREHOUSE. Tom and Kurt give outstanding Broadway perfonnances during the summer. Last summer they performed, "I Love you, your're perfect now change", "Dirty Blonde" and "Our Sinatra". Dirty Blonde which is a take off on Mae West was showing when we were there and they did an outstanding job. The audience loved it. The Pump House Gym of course is a favorite with the body builders. There are so many gay owned businesses in the area that one forgets to visit the "breeders" who own some of the shops also. Karen who manages the ArnericINN Lodge and Suites is fabulous even if she was born straight and Gene and Dee at the Olde House Antiques are delightful people too. The Fenn Valley Winery just down the road gives wine tours daily. Don't forget when traveling that straight people can be fun and exciting also. When in Saugatuck/Douglas don't foroet to check out the Oval Beach area "' which is full of gays during the day. There is a special area for nudists. Just ask around. Need to unwind? Then go to the Running Rivers Kayak Rentals. They offer one to 8 hour trips offering wilderness and wetlands. The Saugatuck/Douglas villages are a place where you can be yourself, walking hand in hand to all the shops and restaurants. Straights and gays get along beautifully here. Such a tranquil, serene way of life. For more information about Saugatuck/Doulgas go to either: W\Vw.dunesresort.com or www.saugatuck.com. Have fun traveling and always meet new people. And always remember, "Live, love, laugh ......... " Donald Pile and Ray Williams gayb]lvelers@ao 1. com The Ozarks Star Page 23 'Marriage Protection Act' Passes House, Task Force Calls Vote 'Disgusting' -Statement from Matt Foreman, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director: July 22, 2004 "This is a sad dav for all Americans, not just because the U.S. House of Representatives passed a bill that seeks to deprive gay and lesbian Americans access to federal courts to challenge the ugly Defense of Marriage Act. It is particularly sad because 233 members of Congress ignored their oath to protect and defend the Constitution of the United States by voting in favor of a measure that is .. blatantly unconstitutional. On the pos1t1ve side, 194 Members of Congress rejected this mean-spirited, divisive, disgusting and clearlv unlawful bill. And, it is now clear that , as in the U.S. Senate - the "Federal Marriage Amendment" is far short of the two-thirds majority (290 votes) it ,vould need to pass." BACKGROUND: The Marriage Protection Act (MPA) seeks to strip power from all federal courts - including the U.S. Supreme Court - from hearing cases challenging the Defense of Marriage Act (DOI\fA). Most legal scholars agree this act is unconstitutional for several reasons. This "court stripping" would interfere with the a primary purpose of the federal courts, to interpret and decide on questions of federal law, such as DOMA. The act would interfere with our system of checks and balances which is put in place to co~mteract instances in which orre branch of the government August 1, 2004 oversteps its bounds. This act would severely impede the independence of the court system, undermining the role of the federal courts and Supreme Court. \'Vhile the Constitution gives authority to Congress to establish lower federal courts and their jurisdictions (e.g., the Circuit Courts of Appeal, Bankruptcy Courts, etc.), Congress has never passed a law deprhing the federal courts of jurisdiction to hear cases involving constitutional matters. l'Jl sides agree that the challenges to the Defense of Marriage Act will be based on Constitutional issues, including its Full Faith and Credit and Equal Protection clauses. Martha's Vine.1ard 19 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volume l Issue 8 co y Jack Fertig August 2004 tay real, Virgo!" Page 24 es This month, an opposition bet\veen the Sun and Neptune opens up creative visionary inspiration but triple-check all logic, facts, and ~1ath. ' Sensitivity runs high, but with tendencies to be selfish and co-dependent. Stick with ,varm, fuzzy, and creative; and be honest - at least with yourself - about ulterior motives! ARIES (tvfarch 21 to April 20): Your creative juices are running high; input from friends will be confusing at first, but can prove very helpful. Team ,vork isn't usually your forte, but this is a good time to work on your rapport with groups. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Nebulous work demands may scare you back to safe, predictable domesticity. Better to use your domestic security as an inspiration to clear up the confusion at work. Give up on turf battles now to win the war later. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Philosophical poetry (Milton? Blake?) or magical-realist prose holds special fascination nov., In any arguments, your heart is strong, but not your logic. Here's a good challenge: see how well you can do without logic for a few days! · CANCER Gune 22 to July 22): Resist temptation to get clever with money. It just won't work! To give in on some impulse-spending (probably something nasty and lurid), set aside some fun bucks for your secret passion. LEO Guly 23 to August 22): The indulgence of a birthday glow only goes so far. Those who get lost in your radiance can resent being overshadowed. Be appreciative and generous (usually you're much better at that!), but - here's the catch don't overdo it. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): You could now worry yourself 5ick or meditate yourself into serene health. Real problems tempt vou to worrv but remember your problem-solving skills and ·' focus on solutions. Stay real, solve the deal, then bask and heal! August 1, 2004 LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Your teamwork instincts are especially sharp now; Go out on a creative limb with a playful approach. It works both ways, of course: listening to others will hone your creativity. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): \'vork demands are complicating your home life, but you're probably making the hardest demands yourself. Discuss the problems with your housemate. S /he will likely agree that you're doing too much and ,vill be glad to help. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Your love of a good argument is stronger than usual, but your sense of logic is weakened by emotion. Argue from your heart, but don't try to pass emotion off as anything else. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): You're especially sexy, but susceptible to expensive flattery. Think first about what you really value in your sexuality. Avoid important financial decisions and be careful not to let sticky fingers into your home. AQUARIUS Ganuary 20 to February 18): You're unusually vague about relationships now. Let your partner (even if it's just a date, a trick, or your pet Chihuahua) make the decisions for the present. You're such a control queen that giving it up for a few days makes a great exer_cise! PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Health problems seem worse than thev reallv are but check them out. Work is fu.ntic, but ~an be resolved by cleaning up and organizing. And meditate! You really need that now. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864-8302, through his website at http://www.starfack.com Volume l Issue 8 Page 25 Senator's reply from page-5 on the American people changes in their cultural institutions. The time has come for a Constitutional amendment to protect traditional marriage and the right of the people to decide the direction of their culture for themselves. That's why I am a cosponsor of SJR 30, the Federal Marriage Amendment introduced by Senator Allard that defines marriage as the union of a man and a woman. I was a cosponsor of the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 (DOIVfA), which established a federal definition of "marriage" as only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife; and "spouse" as only a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or wife. Additionally, it ensured that no state is obligated to accept another state's nontraditional marriages (or civil unions) bv operation of the constitution's full faitl; and credit clause. It passed the House 342-67 and then in the Senate 85-14 including the "yes" votes of 61 curr~nt senators. Thirty-seven states, including :'vfissouri, have passed constitutional amendments or statutes commonlv known as "state DOJ\:1As" that fu;ther protect traditional, heterosexual marriage. The first political right of people is the right to govern themselves. Taking away this right saps the legitimacy and vitality of any democracy. One of the reasons America is so divided is iliat over the years courts have denied Americans the right to work out cultural divisions in the forums where healthv debate is possible-in the state legislatures or, · on national issues, in the Congress. We can protect our cultural institutions and our right to govern ourselves by amending the Constitution. Again, thank you for contacting me. If I can be of further assistance, please don't hesitate to call or v.-rite. Sincerely, Senator Jim Taiem August 1, 2004 Lesbian Notions from page-19 Granted, it's hard for the majority of us to understand someone like the head of the Hawaii Log Cabin Republicans, Jeffrey Bingham Mead, who told a reporter that, in his chapter, "1\ll of us, including me, believe that marriage is between one man and one woman." The likelihood that many gay people will vote for Bush this year boggles my mind. In a similar vein, it's hard to understand how Clarence Thomas could rule against affirmative action, or how women could be ardent anti-choice activists, working to eliminate their own reproductive freedom. Still, it seems that bullying gay people on the other side of ilie political fence to agree with the rest of us and to take up the activism we want them to do is pretty naive. That's really what this new round of outing amounts to: if you don't see things our way, we'll hunt you down, hound you, and tell everyone that you're gay. (But, oh yeah, being gay is good.) It's no coincidence that Aravosis is the activist who gave us t\vo other similarly rigid campaigns: StopDrLaura.com, an attempt to prevent the radio doctor's TV show from airing because she might use it to spout her antigay views; and DearMary.corn, an outpouring of messages to Mary Cheney trying to coerce her to use her sixfigure job in the Bush-Cheney campaign to wield influence with her powerful pop and his boss on the issue of marriage equality. (Personally, I'm skeptical that all those "Dear Mary" postcards have made her lose sleep - especially if she takes after her conscience-free Dad. I've read that there's a new verb corning into popular usage: "to Cheney" means to go from one cushy job to the next ilirough personal contacts.) I'm not suggesting that it's impossible for people to change their political opinions; Republicans and Democrats alike alter their political thinking all the time. In particular, there are ample instances of gay people who worked for homo-vicious rightwingers and later decided it was against their conscience to do so. But I am pretty certain the process comes about through personal reflection and political soul-searching, and not bec2use they're badgered into it. Volumn 1 Issue 8 Place you:r classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . GooiLookingguy gm;youμeasure, ')00~ Call Hector @ 816-305-3988 In & Out Calls The Ozarks Star On-Line. Checkout our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarksstar.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse, Joplin, MO. Private bath w/queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. required. ( 417) 621-9915 Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. \\'lork in the LGBTS business community. Mail qualifications to: Ozarks Star 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Business Opportunity: Ever dreamed of owning your own B&B? Beautiful 4 bed 4 bath 3200sqft fully furnished in Joplin, MO For Sale. Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417-4 34-0077 1010 E. 20th Joplin MO64804 800-782-7822 The Ozarks Star Page 27 August 1, 2004 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Organizations- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Ron's Place- 523 W. Poplar- - - - - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 W Sycamore- 479-571-1300 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Burnzee's- -2301 Towson Ave #C- --479-494-7300 J(inkeads- -10041/2 Garrison Aw- - - - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 • -1022 Dodson Aw. - - - -479-782-1845 Missouri, Joplin (417) Ree's-··· 716 S. Main - - - - - --417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City (816) Bell Star's - - 1321 Grand A,·e- - - -816-421-1288 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - -816-561-0625 Sidestrcet Bar - - - -413 E. 3rd- - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- 816- 931-1430 Missouri, Springfield ( 417) The Edge- -424 Boom·ille A,·e- --417-831-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive- - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar - 504 E. Commercial - - - - - -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - -417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW SOth- - -405-843-1722 Finish Line -2200 NW 39th Expwy- 405-525-0730 Club Rox- -3535 NW 39th Expwy -405-947-2351 Top:mga Grill & Bar-3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine• - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick-• 822 S. Sheridan• 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- - 7944 E. 21st - - - - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- 124 N. Boston - -918-584-9494 New 1\ge Renegades- -1649 S. Maio - -918-585-3405 Play-Mor-Club- - 1737 S. Memorial - -918-838-9792 Silver Star Saloon- -1565 S. Sheridan -918-834-4234 TNT's- 2114 S. Memorial- - -918-660-0856 Tool Box- 1338 E. 3rd- - 918-584-1308 Yellow Brick Road- - 2630 E. 15th - - -918-293-0304 -LodgingMissouri, Joplin (417) Faces Guesthouse B&B -417-621-9915 Fairfield Inn by Marriott- - - - -417-624-7800 Missouri, Ava Catus Canyon Campground 417-683-919') Missouri, Lampe KOKOMO Campground- - - - 417-779-5084 Arkansas, Eureka Springs MCC Living Spring- - - - - - - - - - - -870-253-9337 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) River of Life 1709 N Walnut - - - - - - 11AM PSU-QS/\ .... 1701 S. Broadway ... 620-231-0938 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, - - - • -7PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson A,·e, - 10:301\i\f Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- - 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield (417) Rainbow Christian Ch-837 W. Madison-417-866-6206 Unitarian Universalist Church - - - - - 417-833-2723 APO- - - - - 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - 417-864-4459 GLO Community Ctr- 518 E. Commerical-869-3978 PFLAG-Springficld- - - - - - - -417-889-1059 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 -Business ServicesKansas, Pittsburg Mystic Creations- - - - - - - - - (620)231-6790 Missouri, Joplin (417) Penny Smart,Hair Salon -509 Maio- 417-623-3500 Massage By Rachael- - - - - - - - - - - - 417-438-3664 Body Swim Massage Therapy- - - - 417-825-5800 Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-417-434-0077 RE/MAX - - -Cathe Letts- - - 417-483-5313 Office Max- -440 Rangeline Rd- - - -417-623-1007 The Lions Den - - - -Austin Letts - - 417-623-876_7 Joan Szymanski- Beauty Consultant- 417-673-1181 Night Things Boutique-719 MainSt- 417-659-9913 Missouri, Springfield (417) Priscilla's·· - -1918 S. Glenstorn• • 417-881-8444 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Century21 · -4301 NW 63rd #100 - - 405-840-2106 Hollywood Hotel- 3535 NW 39th Ex-405-947-2351 Priscilla's- 615 E. Memorial 405-755-8600 Oklahoma, Tulsa Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Han-ard -918-,47-5466 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd - - - -877-7-BOXERS Priscilla's - - 7925 E. 4ht 918-627-4884 Priscilia's - - - - 5634 \v. Skdly - - - - - 918-446-6336 Priscilla's - - - -11344 E. 11th - - - - -- -918-438-4224 Priscilla's - - - - 2333 E. 71st- - - - - -- -918-499-1661 Volume 1 Issue 8 Page28 August 1, 2004 -!lllern.eit V e nightclub 716 W. Sycamore St., Fayetteville, AR. (479) 571-1300 www.smdio716.net Arkansas LeatherSIR/Leatherboy 2005 September 12t1, Doors open at 8pm Open to residents of Arkansas, Oklahoma and Texas Visit www.studio716.net to download application Or come in and vist us! Member $3 Guest $5 Daily Spccws &: Events - Drag Shows Every Sunday-Mcmbcn Frc,c.. Guest $5 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document A LGBT COMMUNITY VOICE M A G A z I N E Volume 1 Issue 5 "It's A Life, Not A Lifestyle" May 1, 2004 NOW OPEN WED THRU SUN 9PM TO 2AM Daily Specials & Events - Shows Every Other Sunday - queer as folk Sun 9pm Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 2 May 1, 2004 Publisher: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, Missouri 64804-3128 www:ozarkspride.com Editor: G.D. Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Sieve T. Urie Donald Pile Ray Williams Contents: Steve T. Urie - page 2 Editor's Page -page 3 Gabby Dearest- page 3 Identity Theft - Page 4 Book Review Oklahoman -page 5 Donald & Ray, Out on Vacation- ~age 7 Ozarks Pride Out Cruzin- page 1 O Thank Your Legislators- page 15 Classifieds-page 18 Community Directory- page 19 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $12.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $16.00 (6 months) Classifieds- $6.00 first 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for all advertising, articles and payment is the 20th of each month for the next months issue. Ozarks Pride Magazine it publi,hed & distributed monthly as a community service by Ozarl:s Pride Group of Joplin, MissourL Public•tion of the name, photogr•ph or likeness of •ny person, business or orgoniZllHon in this publication is oot to be construad as any indication of sexual orientation or preferences of such person, bu.sine.11 or organiutkin. Opinions expressed by columnist,, advertisers or L•ttar,; to th• Editor ara not neceisarily the opinion of Ozsrlc• Pride 1,/agazi,,., irs st•tr. th• publish•r or it's •<lwirtiseTJ. Conlan! of odvartiserr.enls and articles are the sole resp:,nsibility of tne adv1rtiaer and /or outhor. The Publisher of Oz•rb Pri~• IJ•g•rin• reserves the iight to refltSe adverti1ing material ior any re!ion wtu1t so e,er. OZ11rlcs Priui end 111 likanesS<ts there of are so:e properties of Oz•rl-• Pricffl Group. Ail material () copvr.ght 2004 Ozarlcs Pride DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO OUT ... DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO Due to a serious health problem resulting in surgery, Steve was unable to submit his column for this issue. We all wish him a speedy recovery and anxiously await his next contribution. Our prayers are with you, Steve. -------- Apr i I 21, 2004 HRC APPLAUDS CALIFORNIA LEGISLATURE'S VOTE IN FAVOR OF MARRIAGE EQUALITY 'With one ordinary committee vote, California sent an extraordinary message across the nation that only marriage provides full rights, responsibilities and benefits for same-sex couples and their families,' sai.d HRC President Cheryl Jacques. Jf7ASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign praised a California state committee for passing the first legislative ,-ote in the United States in favor of marriage equality. The California State Assembly Judiciary Committee voted 8 to 3 on Tuesday, April 20, to pass the Marriage License Non-Discrimination Act (AB 1967). Sponsored by Equality California - the statewide gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender group - and introduced by Assemblyman Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, the measure would allow California to marry same-sex couples. "With one ordinary committee Yote, California sent an extraordinary message across the nation that only marriage provides full rights, responsibilities and benefits for same-sex couples and their families," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. Read Ehfuii story on wHw.hrc.01z Ozarks Pride GAY PRIDE IS COMING! Just in case some of you may have , forgotten, June is national Gay Pride • month. Gay America will decorate from head to toe and celebrate the privilege's we've gained in the last 48 years. Yes, almost 50 years the Gay and Lesbian community has struggled, fought, protested, screamed, lobbied, gone to jail and died to bring us to this point in history that is year 2004. From what I recall, of course I was very young, just a mere infant in 1956. The Gay rebellion was just beginning. Totally gay bars were popping up across the country. Gay bathhouses, cruising area's, drag shows where open to the public. My Oh My in New Orleans, The Jewel Box in Kansas City, Pinocchio's in San Francisco, what a scandalous site, drag queens performing in front of straight people. Gay's and Lesbian's were defying the old order of society and bringing homosexuality to the front of the class. We were congregating in large numbers in public and openly declaring our sexuality. Gay Pride was born! Yes, gay people of the 50's and 60's were the pioneers of the gay rights movement that has resulted in the freedoms and rights we take for granted today. But, the long hard journey is not over. The generations that followed have accomplished the unthinkable, accomplishments my generation thought unattainable. We have come along way baby! Now it is the younger generation's turn to take us where we belong. To that equal place in society that even today eludes us. We will work hard and celebrate our Gay Pride. C.D. WardiEditor Dear Gabby Dearest, I have just recently gotten out of a short relationship with someone I had a deep connection with. When we broke up I felt like my life was over and I didn't think I could ever find someone as great or as caring as him, and I still don't. Do you have any advice for those of us who are trying to get over someone we truly cared about and can't seem to forget about? From: Can't Move On Dear Can't Move On: I know how hard it is to get over someone you truly care for, truth is, you can't make someone love you or want you back by smothering them with affection. Most people like that want space, control, and time to focus on their problems and feel like they are alone and aren't ready for any kind of commitment These are the kind of people that we, the Long Term Relationship types, need to stay away from. It isn't easy to get over them, but at the same time, it isn't healthy for you to keep hoping that they will change their ways. If you feel like you want to call them, don't, find something to keep you busy. Don't do the things the two of you used to do, find a new hobby, basically keep your mind off of them and one day, you will find that friendship with that person may be possible, but don't rush it. Focus on what is happening in your life and the goals you have for yourself. You can't make someone happy unless you are happy. Gabby Dearest is not a professional therapist. She is just a wise old lady that has been around the block many times. Replies to submitted request for advise should not be construed as absolute resolutions, just friendly advise from dear old sweet lady. You may contact Gabby Dearest by email .... ~ or by addressing Gabby Dearest , Ozarks Pride, 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin,MO 64804 Volume l Issue 5 Page4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice concerns. This region has a huge GLBT population without represenJation. Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 South Rangeline Road Joplin, MO 64840 Reservation (417) 624-7800 Email: ffijpln@aol.com Advertisl!J11tnf Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nail Salon Penny Smart 509 Main * Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments (417) 623-3500 May 1, 2004 Identity Theft, Could It Happen To You? Compiled by: Greg Steel OP Contributing writer. ....... . We have all seen the commercials on TV. Some are very humorous, but contain a very serious message. Identity Theft is fast becoming a very lucrative international crime. Individuals and entire families can be financially destroyed, and it could be avoided by taking a few precautions to safe guard your personal information. The following is a memo sent out to company employees by a Corporate Attorney. Maybe we should all take some of his advise. 1. The next time you order checks have only your initials (instead of first name) and last name put on them. If someone takes your checkbook, they will not know if you sign your checks with just your initials or your first name, but your bank will know how you sign your checks. 2. When you are writing checks to pay on your credit card accounts, DO NOT put the complete account number on the "For" line. Instead, just put the ~1ast four numbers. The credit card company knows the rest of the number, and anyone who might be handling your check as it passes through all the check processing channels won't have access to it. 3. Put your work phone # on your checks instead of your home phone. If you have a PO Box use that instead of your home address. If you do not have a PO Box, use your work address. Never have your SS# printed on your checks. (DUH!) You can add it if it is necessary. But if you have it printed, anyone can get it Contim,ed page-13 Idmtity Ozarks Pride Page 5 May 1,2004 OKLAHOMA MAN PUBLISHES BOOK ENTITLED "FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE." By Donald Pile and Ray Williams The International acclaimed interior designer, Charles Faudree has just published his new book, FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE. Charles Faudree is a delightful chap from Tulsa, Oklahoma. His new book features dozens of beautiful color photos of different rooms that be has so meticulously designed. Charles is a very interesting and enjoyable person to talk with. His world wide travels have enabled him to self-educate himself on the finer things in life. He is very educated, fun, funny, delightful and we could spend hours and hours with him. Celebrated for creating French-style interiors, Charles's work has been featured in leading home magazines, including Traditional Home, Renovation Style, House Beautiful, Southern Accents and Veranda which happens to be one of our very favorite magazines. Seven homes designed by Charles including his own, have been featured on the Home & Garden television network. In 2003, be was chosen one of the top 100 designers in America by Home Beautiful. Charles Faudree Antiques and Interiors, established in 1980 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is the base from which he travels worldwide to an International clientele. Charles's clients are found throughout America as well as in Spain, where he continues his work on the historic Finca la Caprichosa in Pro de Savilla. He assisted Oklahoma's former first lady, Kathy Keating in the 1995 restoration and refurbishing of the Governor's Mansion. Five individual homes including his own have been featured in Home & Garden TV. During his 25 year career as an Interior designer, Charles's work has appeared in many design magazines and design and decorating books. Six of his own homes have been featured in Traditional Home magazine, where he was a Design Award Winner in 1995. He was a featured designer to Signature Style, a book published by Traditional Home that spotlighted eight of America's leading interior designers. "Too much is NEVER enough", says Charles, who has achieved an international reputation for creating settings that have all the elegant accoutrements of a French Country estate. It is Charles's union of the rustic with the refined that creates his distinctive style of casual, understated elegance. With creations that are always artful, eclectic and inspiring, Charles is a master at one of the main tenets of French Country design~ombining traditional prints, patterns, colors and textures with just the right furnishings and collection. Continued-see book on page-16 MEN'S UNDEHWEAH STOHE NOW OPEN! 825 E 31111 ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS FOR INFO! MON- 11-3AM! ONLINE!' SIZED! BOXERS UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE HOTT.EST BRANDS, 00 SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OW BENZ Ozarks Pride Page7 May 1, 2004 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com TULSA, OKLAHOMA We just returned from a wonderful weekend in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oklahoma is fortunate to have not just one major city, but tl-vo! We have in the past told our readers how much fun Oklahoma City can be and now we can say the same thing about their sister city, Tulsa. Being antiques dealers we have been to Tulsa many times doing antiques shows in the past, however have not gotten back in about 10 years. Many of the owners of the fine restaurants, antiques shops, interior design shops and other upscale shops are gay owned. They have been around for many years and have a wonderful reputation. Tulsa is such a beautiful city with lots of shopping, museums, art galleries, antiques shops, etc. You won't get bored at all. Actually we really believe that Tulsa is the cleanest and most beautiful city in the Midwest and in the springtime when all the flowers and trees are coming out it is especially beautiful. The first day we toured the Philbrook Museum (www.philbrook.org). It is grand! They are in the process of putting in more gardens. Their artwork is fabulous. And their restaurant has delicious and exciting food. The next day we went to the Gilcrease Museum (www.gilcrease.org), "where the American West unfolds" This is one of the finest musuems for western art in the United States. Their galleries are full of absolutely fabulous artwork. From oil paintings, watercolors, sculptures, to the new American Indian artifact collection on the lower level it could take hours to see everything. Their museum gift shop has authentic American Indian handmade items for sale. Other interesting area places to visit are: Greenwood Cultural Center, J.M. Davis Arms and Historical Museum, Oklahoma Aquarium, Oklahoma Hall of Jazz, Tulsa Air and Space Museum, Tulsa Garden Center and the Tulsa Zoo. The Will Rogers Memorial and Museum is just a short drive from Tulsa. The Gay Community Center recently moved into a new location with much more room. This is a great place to find anything your looking for in Tulsa. They are located at 5545 E. 41st Street and their phone number is: 743-4297. A.J. gave us a guided tour of the Center and answered all of our questions. They offer all kinds of support for the community. And if you have extra furniture or anything, this is a great place to donate items. The MCC United of Tulsa is located at 1623 N. Maplewood. Their phone number is: 838-1715. There are all kinds of groups and organizations in the Tulsa area and the Gay Community Center is more than happy to direct you to any that you might be interested in. A GREAT website for anyone going to Tulsa is: www.timscottonline.com/ tulsa.htm. All cities should have a website like this one. Continued page- 14 Gay Traveiers ..... . Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 8 May 1, 2004 Advertisment April 23, 2004 Gaywire release MICHIGAN HOUSE PASSES BILL ALLOWING DOCTORS TO REFUSE TREATMENT OF GAYS The Republican-controlled Michigan House of Representatives passed a measure today that would allow doctors to refuse to treat gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender patients. The Conscientious Objector Policy Act pro\'ides that health care workers can refuse service to anyone for moral, ethical, or religious reasons, although the measure would prohibit the refusal of emergency care. The bill was strongly supported by the Michigan Catholic Conference, a conservative religious organization that also hosted a legislative day for Catholics at the state Capitol today. The bill now goes to the Republican- controlled Senate. according to 36Sgay.com. In addition, three other bills that mav affect health care for LGBT patients were ;pproved bv the House today. · Tulsa One would exempt a health insurer or health facility from providing or covering a health care procedure that violated ethical, moral or religious principles reflected in their bylaws or mission statement. Vocal opponents of the measure included Rep. Chris Kolb, the first openly gay legisbtor in Michigan. ''.Are you telling me that a health care provider can deny me"medical treatment because of my sexual orientation? I hope not," he asked the House. "This bill allows health care providers to deny needed health care services to any individual not currently protected from discrimination under the state's Elliot-Larsen civil rights act. Thus, a health provider could refuse health care to an individual based upon a patient's actual or perceived seimal orientation. I adamantlv oppose this legislation and believe that ;his is a very dangerous path for Michigan to travel down" , said Rep Kolb. Ozarks Pride Volume 1 Issue 5 May 1, 2004 MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Cc Metropolitan Community Church · • Sunday Service 7PM Community Meal served Wednesday's at 6:00pm, cost $3.00. No one is turned away. Our meal is always nutritionally balanced. Dinners include d.esert, drink and good fellowship. Take out meals are also available. Bring your friends and family. Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 6480.3 'NW'II. mccjoplin .com Advertisment P'hone,; (-/1. "17} 623-'J007 ~ {417) 023-'1 '1 l59 EKAa■; cm,xO&S,4 0,;x:,pymax.oom PYints and Oopie3 Bi:odtng Lami,-.almg Faxing au•in~• Cards Ozarks Pride Page 13 May 1, 2004 Continued from page4 Identity.. 4. Place the contents of your wallet on a photocopy machine. Do both sides of each license, credit card, etc. You will know what you had in your wallet and all of the account numbers and phone numbers to call and cancel. Keep the photocopy in a safe place. I also carry a photocopy of my passport when I travel either here or abroad. We've all heard horror stories about fraud that's committed on us in stealing a name, address, Social Security number, credit cards. Unfortunately, I, an attorney, have firsthand knowledge because my wallet was stolen last month. Within a week, the thieve(s) ordered an expensive monthly cell phone package, applied for a VISA credit card, had a credit line approved to buy a Gateway computer, received a PIN number from OMV to change my driving record information on-line, and more. But here's some critical information to limit the damage in case this happens to you or someone you know: 1. We have been told we should cancel our credit cards immediately. But the key is having the toll free numbers and your card numbers handy so you know whom to call. Keep those where you can find them. 2. File a police report immediately in the jurisdiction where your credit cards, etc. were stolen. This proves to credit providers you were diligent, and this is a first step toward an investigation (if there ever is one). Here's what is perhaps most importani of all: (Have you even thought to do this.) Continued next column: 3. Call the 3 national credit reporting organizations immediately to place a fraud alert on your name and Social Security number. I had never heard of doing that until advised by a bank that called to tell me an application for credit was made over the Internet in my name. The alert means any company that checks your credit knows your information was stolen, and they have to contact you by phone to authorize new credit. By the time I was advised to do this, almost two weeks after the theft, all the damage had been done. There are records of all the credit checks initiated by the thieves' purchases, none of which I knew about before placing the alert. Since then, no additional damage has been done, and the thieves threw my wallet away. This weekend someone turned it in. It seems to have stopped them dead in their tracks. Here are the numbers you need to contact if your wallet, etc. has been stolen. 1. Equifax: 1-800-525-6285 2. Experian (formerly TRW): 1-888- 397-3742 3. Trans Union: 1-800-680-7289 4. Social Security Administration (fraud line): 1-800-269-0271 Atfvertislllel/1 ~~ o97aki Austin Letts For Appointments 417.659.9466 "Walk In's Welcome" 610 S. Main Street Joplin, MO 6480 I Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 14 May 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 By going to this one website you can find listings for most all of the gay and lesbian organizations, clubs, meetings as well as the bars locations and hours and it will even take you directly to their websites. This website also directs you to area attractions, musuems, galleries and places of interest. We visited several bars while we were in Tulsa and among the ones we enjoyed was the BAMBOO LOUNGE at 7204 E. Pine. Brian, the bartender is fun, wonderful, personable and very handsome. This bar has been around a long, long time in Tulsa ind has recently had some renovations. Be sure to check them out. Another bar is the CLUB MAJESTIC at 124 No. Boston which is in the Brady Arts District just to the North of downtown. They are open Thursday thru Sunday from 9pm till 2am. They have hot music, great lights and an :1wesome sound. Their website is: Nww.clubmajestictulsa.com. The SILVER STAR AT 1565 So. Sheridan has new DJ's, a new Sound System, a new Light Show and opens at !pm. Their website is: .vww.silverstarclub.com. We attended the 3rand Opening Party for the new CLUB \t1AVERICK at 822 So. Sheridan. Their Nebsite is: wvvw.tulsamaverick.com They 1re open daily from 4pm to 2am. This is the 1ewest bar in Tulsa and the owners are ioing it "the right way". We know that this )ar is going to be packed every night. The )wners, bartenders and staff are all :xtremely friendly and hospitable. There are no gay accommodations in rulsa. Perhaps in the near future one or two night open. Gay owned Bed and Breakfasts Lre quickly becoming popular throughout he United States. There are plenty of hotels md motels in every price range. ,ext coiumn ............... . For a weekend get a way, try Tulsa. There is so much to see and do and everyone at the bars are so friendly. You won't be a stranger in Tulsa for long. We want to give a big THANK YOU for the hospitality of our dear friend, Mark Wiedemnann while we were in Tulsa and to Andrew Hicks for helping us with all the preliminary work. He is a great writer. Quotable Quotes "Gay people are chasing after all the things that straight people hate. We want to get married, we want to be in the military, we want to have children, and these are all things that straight people are running from in droves." - Comedy writer and Hollywood Square Bruce Vilanch to St. Louis' Vital Voice, Feb. 27. Joe Brennan and-Rodney Burgamy 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100-Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405-840-2106-w,vw.c21-goldcastle.com Advertising with Ozarks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising as low as $12.00 per issue. See advertising rates on page 2. Ozarks Pride Page 15 PLEASE THANK THESE MISSOURI LEGISLATORS! Jejfmo11 City, MO March 31, 2004 The Missouri House of Representatives today voted to pass HJR 39 to amend the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage. The vote was 128-23 to amend our state constitution to ban same-sex marriage. If your legislator is on the following list, please call and thank him/her for voting against this horrible legislation and in favor of equality! John Burnett (43) 573-751-3310 Marsha Campbell (39) 573-751-4485 Russ Carnahan (59) 573-751-4567 Michael Corcoran (77) 573-751-0855 Melba Curls (41) 573-751-3158 Michael Daus (67) 573-751-6736 Margaret Donnelly (73) 573-751-0100 Curt Dougherty (53) 573-751-6535 Barbara Fraser (83) 573-751-4163 Chuck Graham (24) 573-751-2162 Jeff Harris (23) 573-751-9753 Bob Hilgemann (64) 573-751-1400 Ted Hoskins (80) 573-751-0169 Rodney Hubbard (58) 573-751-2383 Connie Johnson (61) 573-751-7605 Robin Wright Jones (63) 573-751-6800 Jenee Lowe (44) 573-751-2437 Mike Sager (48) 573-751-7335 Tom Villa (108) 573-751-0438 Michael Vogt (66) 573-751-9472 Vicki Walker (50) 573-751-7639 Vicky Riback Wilson (25) 573-751-1169 Yvonne Wilson (42) 573-751-9758 Quotable Quotes "They [gays] kept me alive when I got into trouble v:ith the Johnson administration. As long as they kept looking for my records and imitating me, then of course my name was always alive, so I'm very grateful to them." Eartha Kitt to the rvliami gay newspaper The Weekly News, Feb. 12. May 1, 2004 Disparities in Wide Range of Areas Including Income Tax, Survivor Benefits, and Estate Taxes POR]L-41\JD, OR April 14, 2004 - As millions of married couples are signing and sending off their tax returns prior to the April 15 tax day deadline, a groundbreaking report released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute reveals that same-sex couples face widespread economic disparities and hardships because they are denied equal marriage rights. The report takes real-life situations commonly faced by Oregon couples and compares the economic benefits afforded to married couples to those given to same sex couples. A same-sex couple residing in Oregon is profiled to illustrate the real-life cost to them of not being able to marry. The report, entitled "'Economic Benefits of Marriage under Federal and Oregon Law," is the second in a series that documents the disparities gay couples face under federal and state income tax, Social Security benefits, gift tax, estate tax, worker's compensation, and line of duty death benefits. It was authored by Terence R. Dougherty, an attorney with Patterson, Belknap, Webb & Tyler LLP. "'Same-sex couples pay more in taxes and get fewer protections and benefits in return," said Matt Foreman, the Task Force's executive director. "These injustices arcn 't hypothetical instead, they arc being inflicted right now on hard-working, tax paying Oregon couples, often at times of family tragedy and loss. This report quantifies the cost to one gay Oregon family." The report was authored by Terence R. Dougherty, an attorney with Patterson, Belknap, Webb & Tyler LLP, a prestigious 168-lawyer firm based in New York City. The firm was ranked #I in the nation for the pro bono comributions of lawyers in 2002. Source: ~ Volume I Issue 5 Press Release 2004 AMENDMENT TO OKLAHOMA CONSTITUTION "Oklahoma legislators are trying to use the state constitution to discriminate against thousands of its families," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. WASHINGTON - The Oklahoma House passed an amendment today to the state constitution that would deny marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships to same-sex couples, sending it to the ballot this November. Nine similar anti-marriage measures - including six constitutional amendments died in the Legislature earlier this month. However, this amendment was added to another bill, dodging the regular legislative process. "Oklahoma legislators are trying to use the state constitution as a weapon against thousands of its citizens," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. "According to the Census, more than 5,700 same-sex couples and their families live in Oklahoma. The Constitution should protect them just as it protects their neighbors." fhe amendment was offered by Sen. fames Williamson, R-Tulsa. The Senate :iassed it April 15 by a 38 to 7 vote. It Jassed today in the House by a 94 to 4 vote. 'It is a sad day for Oklahoma when our Legislature votes to mandate :liscrimination in our state constitution," ,aid Kevin Smith, lobbyist for the i\merican Civil Liberties Union of :Jklahoma. fhe Human Rights Campaign is the argest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and .ransgender political organization with nembers throughout the country. It :ffectively lobbies Congress, provides :ampaign support and educates the public .o ensure that LGBT Americans can be )pen, honest and safe at home, at work md in the community. 16 1, 2004 5 With a look at old and new collections, blue and white Chinese painted furniture, Napoleonic figures, antique furnishings, unusual fabrics, accessories and architectural adornments, his book, FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE is an inviting and exhilarating look into Charles's innate sense of balance in the way he juxtaposes fabrics, furnishings, color and accessories to create a cohesive portrait. Charles also has a beautiful Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Nicholas who has appeared on the cover of Traditional Home and 15 times within it's pages and he has "starred" in two Home and Garden television presentations. Charles Faudree's FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE is published by Gibbs Smith Publishers and can be purchased on line or from your favorite book store. Martha's Vine~ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volumn 1 Issue 5 Page 17 PrideRide Inc . . hosts annual fund-raising PrideRide 2004 bicycle ride KansasCity April 6,2004 Plans are now underway for the fourthannual PrideRide 2004 to be held on Saturday, June 12, 2004. Registration begins at 8 a.m. and the ride begins at 9 a.m. Proceeds from PrideRide, Inc. go toward organizations that benefit and serve the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered (LGBT) communities in greater Kansas City. Beneficiaries of PrideRide 2004 are SAVE, Inc. and The Lesbian and Gay Community Center of Kansas City. SAVE, Inc. provides housing and housing assistance for HIV/ AIDS challenged individuals and families. The Lesbian and Gay Community Center of Kansas City creates, supports and provides vital and timely resources and services for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and straight-allied (LGBTS) communities of Greater Kansas City. PrideRide, Inc. has raised a net total of over $10,000 in the first three years of the bicycle rides and has goals of increasing ridership and pledges for PrideRide 2004. Early Bird registration for PrideRide 2004 is a discounted $15 before May 21, 2004 and $25 after that date. A minimum pledge of $50 is required to ride. All riders receive a PrideRide T-Shirt, and there will be awards and gifts for levels above the minimum pledge. Pledge forms will soon be available at many local establishments and bicycle stores. Riders can register online and a pledge form can also be downloaded at the PrideRide web site. Details on times and ride routes are available on the pledge forms, posters and at the web site, ~- May I, 2004 An OP Cotmmmity Service FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC]oplin "Serving A Healthier Community" Quotable Quotes "I believe in domestic partnership. If the people change their minds and they want to overrule that [in favor of same-sex marriage], that's fine with me. But right now, that's the law, and I think every mayor and everyone should abide by the law .... We have a state law, and I think those issues should be left to the state, so I have no use for a constitutional amendment or change in that at all, no." - California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger on NBC's The Tonight Show With Jay Leno, March 1. River Of Life Church PO Box 1578, Pittsburg, KS. 66762 astor: George David Phone: (316) 461-2668 Services: Sunday's 11am Email: geo592k@sbcglobal.net Timmons Chapel PSU Full GOSPEL all affirmin . Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse, Joplin, MO. Private bath w / queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. required. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document V olume-1 Issue-3 "It's A Ilfe, Not A Lifestyle" March 2004 Advertisement A Comm11nity Voice Magazine Volume-1 Issue-3 "It's A Life, Not A Lifestyle" March 2004 Advertisement Volume 11'81.le 3 Publisher: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, Missouri 64804-3128 www.ozarlcspridc.com Editor: C.D. Ward (edltor@ozarksprlde.com) Mllmber: N1tional ~sblan G,y Jot1111l/tt AS$X/alk:irl Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Steve T. Urie Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Editor's Page .page 3 Stave T. 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The precinct workers arranged for the kids to get to use practice ballots and taught them how it all works. To the surprise of many, even these second graders could use the ballots without experiencing the "dangling chards." I am always amazed at the number of people who complain about something, anything and then won't do anything about it Nag, nag, and nag! Bitch, bitch, bitch! But oh me, I don't have time to do anything about it. But back to the point or is that the point? Where is your excitement? Where is your enthusiasm? Where is the expectation of change and being a part of that change? Yes! Yes! Yes! Your voice and your vote counts ... every vote counts and it is your responsibility to get out and vote. Maybe even to help get others to the precincts to do the same. Continued Steve T. Urie page-5 Volume-1 Issue-3 Page 3 There Is No Middle. Marriage or Nothing!!! Joplin, MO February certainly was a month of national debate on the issue of Marriage rights for American Gays and Lesbians. It has been discussed by the national, local, and foreign media, political parties, religious organizations, your parents, your neighbors, your friends, you name it. It is one of the hottest social issue's in decades and this country is very divided on the solution. Yes, the People of these United States of America are divided on, to give or not to give, an estimated 16 million citizens their constitutional right to legally marry the one they love. Whoa!!! We absolutely can not settle for a compromise of legalizing only "Same Sex Unions". We can not allow our constitution to be changed to discriminate against us. We are all aware of the San Francisco Mayor's decision to challenge the California State Constitution and issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Over 4,000 couple's have been issued marriage licenses and taken their vow's. In addition here are other events and headline briefs from around the world. From New York Times This paper fully supports the right of gay men and lesbians to marry, and we believe that in time they will have this right across the nation. Cambodian King Backs Same-Sex Marriage. King Norodom Sihandouk is an advocate of Lesbian and Gay rights, and has expressed his wishes for his country to accept and ''Legalize'' marriage for same-sex couples. March 2004 Lesbian and Gay couples wed in New Mexico. On Feb. 20th Same-sex couples began to marry in Sandoval County, N.M. The Collllty Clerk had determined State law did not prohibit it. Later that afternoon New Mexico stopped granting licenses. Canada: Gay marriage survives challenge. Canadian government officials drafted a same-sex marriage law that is now under consideration by the country's Supreme Court. In the meantime, the provinces of Ontario and British Columbia have begun issuing marriage licenses for same-sex couples. Massachusetts Court Stands by Roling On Feb. 4th the Massachusetts High Court stuck to their guns and stated " civil unions for same-sex couples are not a viable alternative to full marriage in the eyes of the State constitution". Freedom to Marry Week (Feb 9-15) Same-sex marriage activists across the country held rallies and demanded marriage licenses from county bureaus. Is Chicago Next ? In a news conference, Wed. Feb. 19 Chicago Mayor Richard Daley said he would have "no problem" with the city clerks office following the lead of San Francisco and issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Bush Declares War on Gay's and Lesbian's Feb. 24, 2004 Bush finall ts off the fence and comes out e the constitution to discriminate against Gay's and Lesbian's by calling on congress to enact the Federal Mamage Amendment FMA defines Marriage as only a man and a women. Editor continued -Daf!.e 5 Volume l Issue 3 Page 4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion, commentary, and your input. Tius publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak Out/ Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW ]\,fissouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice op.ion's. Tius region has a huge GLBT population who is silent. Adimtir,mmt Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 S Range Line, Joplin, MO 64804 Reservation (417) 624-7800 Email: ffijpln@aol.com AdJJtrti.Jtmmt Woody's Manhattan Hai.t: & Nail Salon Penny Smart 509 Main• Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments ( 417) 623-3500 March ?004 KNOW YOUR RIGHTS! IF YOU ARE STOPPED BY THE POLICE OR ARRESTED From ACLU Ozarks Chapter: When you are stopped by the police or arrested, you have certain rights under the law. These rights are the same whether or not you have done anything wrong. Know these rights and use them during your encounter with the police. Above all, do not do or say anything that would make your situation worse. What you say to the police is always important. What you say can be used against you, and it can give the police a chance to arrest you, especially if you badmouth a police officer. Remember that you have the right to remain silent. Use that right! Do not resist or try to run away. Keep your hands where the police can see them. Never touch a police officer. Stay calm and speak politely. Insist on knowing why you have been stopped. Ask, "Officer, why did you stop me?" (Note: Your race, ethnic background, gender, sexual orientation, disability, age or appearance alone are not valid reasons for the officer to stop you). If you are stopped while you are driving, give the officer your driver's license, registration and proqf of insurance if he or she asks for them. If you're given a ticket, you should sign it; otherwise you can be arrested. You can always fight the case later in court. If you're suspected of drunk driving (DWI) and refuse to take a blood, urine or breath test, your driver's license may be suspended. Continued page 14 ........ . Volume-1 lssue-3 Page 5 March 2004 From }t1/,6 2-Steve T. Urie Think about the issues, this isn't just a time for gay marriage but a time to think about jobs, the economy, justification of war, and the direction of where our com1try is headed. Our president has said it is OK for companies to send jobs out of the country if it is cost effective but at whose cost? Our president has told us that the war in Iraq was and is justified because of weapons of mass destruction but where are those weapons? Our president has said the economy is rock solid but it is so rock solid that people all across our state and even the country have gone years without raises and the cost of living raises don't match the cost of living, so ,vhere is our rock solid economy? Then yes there is the issue of gay marriage and everyone's right to be married. So far I have been disappointed in the Democratic leaderships lack of picking up this issue. We have not taken a true stand on this issue and we must. The candidates are tiptoeing around the issue but there is a storm brewing that could be the equivalent of the civil rights movements of the 1960's. The headlines this week have all been overshadowed by the events in San Francisco and today a county clerk in the state ofNew Mexico followed suit in issuing marriage licenses to same sex couples. Yes it is headed to the courts but it is also very likely to be headed toward a Constitutional Amendment against it. An open act of discrimination against a single group of people and this must not be allowed. The issue is there for all to see and yet. .. where will you be Election Day? You have a chance to change our country by removing Mr. Bush :from the Presidency but maybe just as important is the fact that you get out to vote at all. Take yourself, your responsibility seriously and VOTE! Have a great month ... Steve ............... .. Editors page fi·om page-3 A spokesman :from the Log Cabin Republicans, a predominately gay and lesbian political group, have abandoned the Bush for re-election campaign and stated " President Bush has declared war on Gay's and Lesbian's". Although Democratic Presidential hopeful' s Kerry and Edwards are against legalizing marriage for Gay's and Lesbian's, they both support civil union's and have spoken out against the Bush proposed constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. Civil Union's are not separate and equal, but separate and unequal, but the Democratic candidate's position on issue's critical to our community are so much better than those of President Bush. Our biggest battle now is not the battle to legalize marriage for same-sex couples, but to fight against a constitutional amendment that would shut down the right altogether. Yes, February 2004 was very exciting, but now we must face reality and go to work. I urge all of you to contact your congressional representatives and voice your opinion. C. D. Ward Editor, Oz.arks Pride Joplin, MO KOAM TV Poll Results Question: What do you think of Gay Marriage? www.koamtv.com I approve of Gay Marriage.=68% ! do not approve of Gay Marriage=30% I have no opinion on Gay Marriage= 2% W11at is ''Gay Marriage"? We would point out to KO.\.M, there is no such thing as" Gay Marriage". The correct term is "Marriage for Gay's and Lesbian's". Volume 1 Issue 3 About M-.lte Trnh At R.E E'S Joplin ril 1st, 7pm FREE A hilar•~l'f funn1 c.ult ft\m!U m +·'· .... rinq -..r Miss Universe Allows Transsexual Entry. Page 6 Chinese Transsexual Chen Lili received the OK to enter the Miss Universe Pageant to be held in Ecuador June 1, 2004. First she must win the contest in her southeast Chinese Province of Sichuan. " I hope to clinch the crown" said the successful model Chen Lili. Chen Lili was allowed to change her gender identity by the Chinese government in January. She will be the first Transsexual allowed to compete for the coveted Miss Universe crown. March 2004 J e an,d The Gay Travelers ,\dvertisemeut Faces Guesthouse A Bed & Breakfast 327 N Jackson Ave. Joplin, Missouri 64801 Reservations Required (417) 621-9915 Take our virtual tour on the web: www.facesguesthouse.com Aunt Bea's Infamous Recipes! Sock it Too Me, Beef.G,mlmb ! 4 tablespoons virgin olive oil 1 1 /2 pounds ground sirloin 1 large onion and 1 med bell pepper 2 cloves of garlic (minced) 1 teaspoon sweet basil 1(1Soz can stewed tomato's) 1 (8oz can tomato paste) 1 (15 oz cru1 mixed vegetables or your favorite) 3 cups cooked pasta 2 teaspoons Tony Chacherc's Creole Seasoning 1/2 cup red wine ( drink the remaining bottle) Cook the Sirloin, onions apd beli pepper in large skillet to medium well, add remaining ingredients except pasta, simmer for 20 min, add pasta and simmer for 10 min. Volumt-1 lssuc-3 Page 7 March 2004 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" By Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com THE NEW AND IMPROVED JOPLIN, MISSOURI It has been a few years since we visited Joplin, i Missouri and what a change just a few years can '------------~ make. If you can't afford the time or money right now to go to Florida, Arizona or California then why not try Joplin. Yes! Joplin, Missouri! Charles Ward, formerly of Oklahoma City has opened a wonderful new B&B in Joplin. FACES GUEST HOUSE (www.facesguesthouse.com) is located at 327 No. Jackson, just a few blocks north of downtown. It is a beautifully furnished Dutch Colonial Cottage, circa 1898. Charles has completely refurbished all the rooms. The large Garden Suite with private bath and adjoining sun room filled with tropical plants overlooks a garden with fountains. They also have the Romeo Room and the Burgundy Room. Each room is decorated beautifully. A continental breakfast buffet is served in the formal dining room each morning. There is a large formal living room with fireplace for meeting other guests. This is one of the loveliest B&B's that we have found in the Midwest. As for the name, FACES? One of the former owners many years ago began putting different faces in the cement on the outside of the house itself and on the cement walls around the house. There are 19 total. This is VERY interesting. Charles has done an absolutely outstanding job. It is worth staying there JUST to have one of his very famous and delicious Faces Martinis! They are the best that we have ever drank. Be sure and stay there when you visit Joplin. Their toll free number for reservations is :l-866-238-6721. Now, for the wonderful food part of this column. Larry Black recently opened one of the most exciting, romantic and delicious restaurants in the four State area. THE CONNER HOUSE is located downtown Joplin at 612 South Main St. It is an extremely elegant restaurant with crystal chandeliers, beautiful oil paintings and of ~ course live dinner music at the piano. The ambiance, the service, the food, EVERYTHING is done right here. Our server was Trinity who knows how to treat guests .... overly attentive without being obtrusive. When making a reservation do ask for one of his tables. They have a wide range menu including appetizers ... escargot, shrimp cocktail, Italian Bake and Conner Crab Dip. We had the French onion soup and it was marvelous. For entrees you have a wide range of choices from Fillet, New York Strip, Rib Eye, Beef Tip Bourguignon to Chicken Parmesan, Chicken Piccata and Chicken Alfredo. If Veal Oscar is your favorite they offer that too. We love seafood and they have Norwegian Salmon, the BIGGEST golden fried shrimp we have ever had, Shrimp Scampi and Conner Red Snapper. Be sure and save room for dessert. Their Bananas Foster and Cherries Jubilee which is prepared tableside is to die for! They have a full bar and wine selection. Besides all this wonderfulness the real treat is that it is not expensive. It is extremely reasonably priced. You can't dine at the chain restaurants for this price. Continued page- IO new Joplin Volume l Issue 3 I Ozarks Pride Page 9 March 2004 Destination New Orleans " Gay Mecca " " Big Easy" By OP rontribnti11g 1JJriter T. J. Kel/y New Orleans is a city steeped in tradition, history and mystery. From it's past as a haven for voodoo practitioners and French traders to the present day ) city of culture and technology there is a little something for everyone in the Big } Easy. In this two-part story, I will cover many tings to see and do in New Orleans. New Orleans has been influenced by many different cultures starting with the Spanish who settled what was then Lousianne; to the French, under whom the city ofNew Orleans flourished. As the provincial government seat of the Louisiana territory and major gulf port, New Orleans grew rapidly. These influences can still be seen in the city, especially in the old French Quarter (taken from the French term for neighborhood "quartier"). The French Quarter is probably the most talked about and recognizable feature of the city except for the Mississippi river. The Quarter is full of old bars, taverns, restaurants, shops, cafes ect. Blocks from the shores of the Mississippi, tourists and locals alike patronize the many establishments there and take ) in the beautiful Jackson square (off ~ which the famous Cafe du Monde is ) located). Because the bars have no closing time in New Orleans, the Quarter is a great place to party whether it's 5pm or 5am. In the Quarter you can go shopping for groceries at the Quartermaster A&P and Nelly Deli in the Gay District on Bourbon St., Central Grocery on Decatur St. or any of the many tiny A&P's located in the area. You can shop for gay pride items, fine art, fresh fish and seafood and everything in-between. Probably the most well knovro facet of the Quarter is Bourbon Street. Bourbon St. is lined, mostly, with bars restaurants and tourist shops. Old French colonial buildings line the street with balconies overlooking the street from the second stories. During the peak tourist seasons (February-April and July-September) Bourbon St. is packed full of people bar hopping, dancing and "working" for beads. One of the more famous establishments on Bourbon St. is Pat O'Brien's. Pat O's (as it is known) is the "home of the Hurricane". Pat O's also has an extensive Cajun and creative drink menu. When you order a Hurricane at Pat O's, it comes in a souvenir Hurricane glass. If you don't want to keep the glass, it is returnable at the bar for a $3 refund. Another great place on Bourbon is Razzoo's. Razzoo's is a live venue bar with a house blues band. The house band plays every day during happy hour. With 3 for I drink specials, no cover and great music, Razzoo's is hard to beat. When it comes to restaurants, New Orleans is top of the list. Whether you are looking for classic Cajun in a Mom-and-Pop, AllAmerican in a chain restaurant, or coat and tie in an elegant French restaurant; New Orleans has it all. Some of the better places to eat in the Quarter are along Decatur and Chartres Streets and just outside the Quarter on Frenchman Street. Some of the commercialized restaurants in the Quarter are Bubba Gump's, Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville, Hard Rock Cafe and TGI Fridays. Gump's and Margaritaville are great places to go for drinks and appetizers. A couple of the established restaurants in the Quarter are Dicky Brennan's Steak house and K-Paul's Kitchen. Both are casual during lunch and coat and tie for dinner. One of the better low cost, casual places to eat in the Quarter is Angel Li's gourmet pizza. Toppings at Angel Li's include the classics to artichokes, tuna, crawfish, asparagus, feta cheese and many other choice toppings. New Orleans continued page-] I Volume-1 Issue- 3 Page 10 Mru:ch2004 New Jop/il}-jrom page 7 They are open for lunch Tuesday thru Saturday 11 to 2:30 and for dinner 5 to 9:30. Their phone number is ( 417) 623- 2833. Now it is "party time" and off to REE'S Nightclub at 716 South Main just a couple blocks south of the Conner House Restaurant. They are open Monday thru Saturday from 4 pm to 1 :30 am with Happy Hour everyday from 4 to 7. They are closed on Sundays. Terry, who is "hot and VERY available" is a great bartender. Richard, the owner and all of the staff are extremely friendly and so are all the people in the bar! Everyone makes you feel right at home here. Something is always happening at Ree's nightclub. They have a great disco dance floor, D.J, Combo nights, stage shows, and their Saturday dance parties. Their phone number is (417) 627-9035. We promise you that you will have lots of fun at this nightclub. One note for out of Towner's coming to Joplin is about parking at both the restaurant and the bar. Both face Main Street however their entrances are in the back and they have huge lighted parking lots. Steve T. Urie is the Pastor of the MCC Joplin-Spirit Christ Metropolitan Community Church, located at 2902 E. 20th Street. Services are 7 PM on Sundays. Joplin has a lot of tourist attractions including the Grand Falls, which is the only continuously running waterfall in the State, The Joplin Museum Complex and The Spiva Center for the Arts One of the most overlooked things to see in Joplin is their wonderful Architecture. They have one of the most interesting and complex array of architectural styles in the Midwest, ranging from Victorian, Queen Anne, Italianate, Gothic Revival, Romanesque, Neoclassic, Next column ,, Greek Revival, Dutch Colonial, Arts & Craft Movement including Bungalow and Prairie and Chicago Style. Stop by the Joplin Convention & Visitors Bureau at 222 West 3rd and pick up some of the brochures. If FACES Guesthouse is booked up when you plan to go to Joplin, then we suggest the gay friendly Fairfield Inn at 3301 South Range Line Road. Their toll free number is: 1-800-228-2800 Always remember, "live, love and laugh" and enjoy your traveling. For questions about traveling contact Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Adm-tismunt Joe Brennan and Rodney Burgomy 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100-Oldahoma City, OK 73116 -405-8-40-21~-v.c21-~ldciude.com Advertising with Ozarks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising llS low llS $12.00 per issue. See advertising rates on page 2. I Q72rks Pride Page 11 Turnabout Fundraiser A Success! Joplin, MO by T.J. Kelly On Friday February 6th 2004, Ree's of Joplin held it's annual turnabout fundraiser show for the Joplin Community Clinic. The free clinic allows the customers of Ree's to use their parking lot free of charge without risk of being towed. Beyond that, many patrons utilize the clinic's free services. The clinic relies on contributions to stay open, not accepting government contributions which would stipulate how it is run to include who uses the parking lot. It is known that the clinic turned down a large contribution contingent on the fencing off of the parking lot so as not to be used by the gay establishment The grant was turned down in support of the gay community as a matter of principle. In appreciation, the owner of the club wanted to give back, with a turnabout fundraiser show. This year, Karaoke Jockey Robbie and bartender Terry were the guest performers, along with a special appearance by Miss Dolly. The show also included a rare appearance by the Grand Dame of Joplin, Miss Lilly. To finish out the line up were regulars from the Robbie Walker Friday Night Showcase including Robbie Walker, Latina Carlisle, Justice Janelle Moore and a farewell appearance by Alexis De Ville. All proceeds from the show went to the Joplin Community Clinic which included all performer tips and a portion of the cover charge. The show raised over $560 for the clinic . . ., .. , ........ Mar"h 2004 New Orleans cont.from page -9 If you're looking for culture, the Quarter is a great starting place. For those who have never been to the Big Easy, I would recommend a guided tour, perhaps by horse drawn carriage that you can find parked at Jackson square. These tours will take you by the major sites including St. Louis Cemetery 1, where the voodoo priestess Marie Louveau and stop frequently to let you visit the sites before moving on. Just outside the Quarter off Camp and N. St. Peter's Streets is the DDay museum for military buffs. It is a beautiful building with a wonderful tribute to those who fought in the invasion of Normandy on D-day during WWII. Another fun tour would be one of many "Haunted New Orleans" tours which you can sign up for at many tourist shops and information centers. Many of the tours start at a designated place (like the statue in Jackson square, for example) at dusk. These are all walking tours, covering a very large area including Mansions, cemeteries and buildings ... so wear your tennis. In the same line as the Haunted tours is the Anne Rice tour, for fans of the author ( or her gorgeom son who happens to be a gay author and poet). This tour hits places mentioned in her novels mostly from the Vampire Chronicles and Witching hour series and takes you by her mansion in the Garden district. Along Decatur Street is a little bit of culture and shopping in the French Market where fanners market meets flea market. Everything from fresh grown fruits and veggies to tourist trinkets and homemade fudge and candy stores line the French Market. In the next issue, I will cover things to see and do in the New Orleans Metro area outside the Quarter including the Garden District, Plantation Tours and the New Orleans Gay scene. To be continued in OP April issue. Volwnt-1 Issue- 3 Page 12 March2004 Advertimmnt Local Talent Paula-Jo David Releaaes First CD Jesus: My Faith Addiction 11irouqh It All The flrat recording by Southern· Contemporary Christian Singer Paule-Jo David, a native of Wichita, Kansas, released her first CD in December of 2003. Paula-Jo and her husband George were :ommi98ionecl as evangelist "Ambassadors Of Christ" by I Love The Lord Christian FellOWllhip Church o Mchita, Kansas and aent forth to the greater Southemt Kansas region to start a new spiritual work there. The Husband-Wife team aettled here in Joplin, and currently established the River Of Life Church in Pittsburg Kansas. Paula-Jo is a Pride Christian Music Artist and sound bites of her music may be heard by logging onto h :/ And selecting the woodstockcd link. You also may purchase her new CD at Great Expectations 920 E. 15111 St. Joplin or online @ w-ww .woodstockcd.com. The Fourteen song selection featured in Paula-Jo's debut album are a road map ofher journey thru her life's trials and tribulations with physical abuse; divorce; and drug addiction. In this album Paula-Jo's life transformation is reflected and poured out into her music, to the Lord. 1 1ver Piasburg. KS. 66762 Pastor: George David Phone (316)461-2668 Services Saaday'11 atl 1 :00am Timmons Chapel PSU Full GO ,PEL all affinning fellowship I Love The Lord Christian Ministries George & Paula-Jo David ,l111bi1,sadors of Cirri st 1509 Missouri Jopiin Mo.648fU (417) 781--1912 Email: paulajo.evans@sbcglobal.net LOzarks Pride Page 13 Advertism1mt March 2004 Selah Ministries International, Inc. Hosted By: SPIRIT OF CHRIST METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH JOPLIN MO. -and- RIVER OF LIFE CHURCH PITTSBURG KS. *PRESENTS LIVE IN CONCERT* Sun Terry Lee Ousley Terry Lee Ousley bases his ministry in Farmington, Michigan. But really he and his partner, Rev. Jim Lynch, travel full-time as Selah Ministries International to bring God's Word to the glbt community. Terry Lee sings and writes most of his own music. He also manages an omnibus website for glbt Christian artists, called "Pride Christian Music" on the web , 2004 11 :00 a.m. @ Timmons Chapel (PSU Campus) Hosted by: River Of Life Church Pittsburg, KS./ Contact Pastor George David for details@ 316-461-2668 or Email: ~ ~ 1 Volume I Issue 3 Page 14 March 2004 Know your rights continued: If you are not driving (for example, if you are walking), you are not required to carry any type of identification. If you are asked for identification, you may give it to the officer if you want to, but you do not have to do this. You can't be arrested merely for refusing to identify yourself on the street. Never give false information to a police officer. Police may "pat down" your clothing if they suspect a concealed weapon. Don't physically resist, but make it dear that you don't consent to any further search. Ask the officer, "Am I free to leave?" If the officer says "No," assume that you are under arrest. If the officer says 'Yes," you can leave. Remember that you have the right to remain silent. In most situations, do not say anything except to identify yourself or ask the officer why you have been stopped. Don't bad-mouth a police officer, even if you believe that what is happening is unreasonable. That could lead to your arrest. Police may ask to search you, your car, or your home. Do not agree to such a search. Be polite, but make it clear that you are not consenting to a search. IMPORTANT: The police may have a right to search you anyhow, and they can do it without your consent. BUT if you give them consent, you may not be able to challenge an illegal search later in court. It is not lawful for police to arrest you simply for refusing to consent to a search. If the police say they have a search warrant, ask to see it. NOTE: More to come, Know Your Rights from the ACLU Ozarks Chapter will be continued in the April issue of Ozarks Pride. Ozarks Pride Classifieds $6.00 first 15 words, 25cents each additional Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word .................... . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our web site for daley breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Faces Guesthouse B&B Take the virtual tour of Joplin's only Gay Friendly Bed and Breakfast. www.facesguesthouse.com Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse,Joplin, MO. Private bath w/queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. requited. 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Massachusetts became the first state in the US to legally allow same-sex couples to marry, bringing jubilation to Gay Rights Activists and millions of our citizens nation wide. The US joins an elite group of nations who's people have said to the world, Gay's and Lesbian's have equal rights. The era of the broom dance to declare your partner, has come to an end. The United States along with the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada's three largest provinces have set the stage for the world to act. As we celebrate Gay Pride this month and bathe in our victory, we must be reminded our new freedom could be short lived, as many State's are poised to vote us back into the 19th ·centmy. Voter's in Georgia, Kentucky, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Missouri , Utah and more to come, will vote later this year, to say HELL NO!, you are not equal. You do not have the same rights as the majority, or vote to follow the path of Massachusetts and our great neighbors to the north. In 2006 Massachusetts voter's will also decide if they will allow the State Supreme Court's ruling to stand. News media across the nation and around the world broadcast the events of the day. continued page-3 Editor Ozarks Pride Page 3 · June I, 2004 editor from page-2 A last minute appeal to the US Supreme Court by opponents failed and the rush was on to complete the paper work required by the State of Massachusetts. CONGRATULATIONS NEWLY WEDS! Thousands of same-sex couples lined up across the State among the cheers and applauds of hundreds of well wishers. We want to congratulate all the New Legally Wed couples and a huge congratulations and thank you to (GLAD) GAY LESBIAN ADVOCATES & DEFENDERS. The gay rights group who initiated and fought for this day in Massachusetts. It is so very important to support these human rights groups who depend on contributions from us to defend and fight for equality and our constitutional rights. Join together in pride and celebrate our sexuality. Have a great month. Yfl. ~- 0/,f/a,,xd /Editor Dear Gabby Dearest, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years now, and although the sex has been great, he brought up the idea of having threesomes. We sat and talked about who we would be interested in doing this with, but now I'm having second thoughts. I really love my bf but am afraid of him cheating on me if I don't do this with him. Confused Dear Confused: I would say to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you are not comfortable with the idea of inviting someone else into your bedroom. In my opinion, it is never a good idea to share that intimacy with a stranger. 9 times out of 10, it causes problems in your relationship and helps to escalate the old problems you've had in the past. If you and your bf have a great relationship and are in love, he will respect your opinion. Could be he is checking you out to see if you are longing for something new. If not and he does what you think he's gonna do, then he isn't the one for you. Love Gabby!!! Gabby Dearest is not a professional therapist. She is just a wise old lady that has been around the block many times. Replies to submitted request for advise should not be construed as absolute resolutions, just friendly advise from dear old sweet lady. You may contact Gabby Dearest by email .... kargabbf1l O@no,maiLcom or by addre5sing Gabby Dearest , Ozarks Pride, 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin,MO 64804 Volume I Issue 6 Page 4 June 1, 2004 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, ar1d you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice concerns. This region has a huge GLBT population without representation. 4 States Area Pride Events! St. Louis Pride The St. Louis Pridefest culminates in a parade on June 24. For more info, go to www.pridesaintlouis.com or email pride@pridesaintlouis.com. Springfield, Show Me MO Pride: 6/11- 6/13. Festival at Phelps Grove Park June 13, 12noon to 6:30pm. Kansas City Pride Dates: 6/6 - 6/13 Location: Kansas City, MO For more information got to www.heartlandpride.org/ planner/ festival.html Oklahoma City Pride Dates: 6/21 - 6/28 Location: Oklahoma City, OK For more information, go to www.okcpride.com. Tulsa Pride Dates: 6/6 - 6/13 Location: Tulsa, OK For more information, please email: ohrl O@hotmail.com. Topeka Pride Dates: 6/13 6/19 Location; Topeka, KS For more information, go to kansaspride.org. Northwest Arkansas Pride Weekend Fort Smith and Favetteville Starts 6/25 in Fort Smith to 6/27 Fayetteville. Pride Parade 6/26 AM in F;yetteville. All festivals aim~ are to educate the community by invoking, promoting, and celebrating Gay /Lesbian/Bisexual/ Transgender pride. Adverlismm1t Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nall Salon Penny Smart 509 Main ,. Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments ( 417) 623-3500 Ozarks Pride Page5 PRIDE PRIDE PRIDE In 2002, I had the distinct honor of attending the 2002 Intensives of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches. I say honor because this is the program that begins the final step of ordination and licensure with the MCC churches. I was there for continuing education because I don't have the educational qualifications to be ordained or licensed in our denomination. Some may ask what does this have to do with pride ... guess what? Everything because everything we do has to deal with us on a personal level, everything that we think about ourselves has to deal with us on a personal level and yes, everything that other see in us, hear from us and observe from us has to do with our concept of pride for ourselves and our community. There are others in the same situation I am in and they face the same ,-i,ill of God saying man doesn't lead you. I AM is the one that leads you. This same I AM of the Bible confirms on us the choice of will. The will to be who we are, where we are and whenever we are. Yes, things happen along the way but the Almighty One, or whatever name you choose to call the one found on the mountaintop in your heart. June 1, 2004 Now how do we choose to show our pride? Is it our behavior, our language, our reaching out to others or is it simply living the life that God gave us and living it to our fullest. I was recently told, "I'm tired of all this pride stuff, why can't we just be who we are." Well DUH! Ask yourself the question and answer it in the same question. While on my trip to San Francisco we attended the MCC church there and the first thing that struck me was the rainbow flags lining the ceiling. For me it was a startling vision of wow this is who we are. \Vhen we got back to dorms that night one of the young ministers in the group from England said it reminded him of fascism. Rainbow flags reminding someone of fascism, how dare he attack our freedom to fly our flag proudly. After discussion the flag was indeed brought up. How do we project who we are? Rainbow flags here remind me it's safe to be here, it's safe to shop here, and it's ok to be who you are. You see it's a difference of culture. In Europe the use of flags reminds people still today of the fascism in Germany. In England where there is a church of state, the Union Jack doesn't fly within its sanctuaries. They find it strange that in the country where we promote a difference of church and state that almost every sanctuary flies the United States flag. Europe uses the pink triangle to represent our community because of its use to tag gays in Nazi Germany. They say it reflects with more spirit the meaning of who we are and how we have suffered. Rather than a symbol, I say let's show our pride by portraying who we are all the time. Co11ti1111ed page-15 Steve MEN.'S UN.DERWEAR STORE NOW OPEN! 825 E 3111l ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS FOR INFO! UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE ~OTTEST BRANDS, 80 SOFlWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OLAF BENZ Ozarks Pride Photo by: Ray Williams Page 7 June 1, 2004 OUT ON Vi\l.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com PHOENIX, ARIZONA We usually don't get really, REALLY excited when a new gay/lesbian accommodation opens. However we just returned from Phoenix, Arizona where the CALAMUS RESORT ( calamusresort.com) recently opened. It is located at 401 Clarendon Avenue in the heart of midtown Phoenix. It has 110 units, 45 hotel rooms, 40 residential and the remaining retail office space, new salon and spa opening in the next couple of months. Calamus is an Asian aquatic plant that is growing around the pool, but more important, a series of Walt Whitman poems with veiled references to manly love! Check them out, very homo -erotic. In the 1920's to be a friend of Calamus was to be GAY! Vern Johnson, Phoenix entrepreneur, the CEO has bought and developed this property and it will soon become a major gay/lesbian destination. Jim McAvoy, the general manager of the hotel has done a remarkable job. All of the staff is extremely friendly and courteous. Ken, the front desk manager is the PERFECT person to greet you when you enter the hotel. He is fun, funny and very attentive. The Calamus Resort was built originally by the late actor, Cary Grant in the early 1970's and was named the Clarendon Hotel. It later became a Radisson Hotel and thru a few other changes of ownership it is now being brought back to it's original splendor. The rooms are spacious, clean and bright. The prices are moderate and affordable. Amenities includes private bathrooms, daily maid service, color TV with HBO, CD/Alarm Radios and complimentary local phone calls. There is plenty of free parking. They have a lovely tropical courtyard with a large heated swimming pool and Spa. Plans call for a hair salon, massage studio as well as retail outlet stores. There is a gift shop on the premise and newspapers. The front desk is open 24 hours a day. As you first enter the lobby you will be surprised by the spaciousness and interior decorating that they have done. The front desk staffis very attentive. You will certainly be welcomed here. Besides being a fine hotel they also have a restaurant and what a restaurant it is! Johnson's Restaurant serves a wide variety of delicious gourmet foods. Served in a beautiful setting with exquisite service. . ...... continued page-i 8 Volume 1 Issue 6 Page 10 June 1, 2004 Gi'OW~b.-..a%fderby ha\ingancnline ..--.. .&DoitM Call Today! 417-613-7809 Creatlvel>H.el>elJgn.eom Ca.the- Letta. always available to help you with your .real estate tranaactiomi 'Whether you are • o:r ael&ng property I can youtt Webb Oty. Carl ' lt. Ou- thage bi Mmouri. CaD Today For H:E.LPt 41 7,-48$-,61li $ or f;Mi-7076 Cathe: Letts, ABRi GRI Im/MAX New Diredian www.catheJetts.com 71 6 S. MAIN ST. JOPLIN, MCI MON: Request Dance Party w /Terry. TUES: queer as folks 4th Season - Tuesday w /Terry @gpm W'.ED: Dancing with DJ Lil'Ken THUR: Brandon Bravado & The Justice Janelle Moore Show. Karaoke with DJ Robbie FRI: The Robbie Walker Showcase and DJ Lil'Ken SAT: Dance Party with DJ Lil'Ken OPEN MOH-SAT F HAPPY HOUR 4-7PM Ozarks Pride Pride Supplement Page A June I, 2004 ----------'----- Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." A Lambda Literary Award winner for her first novel, Out of Time, Martinac has also authored several nonfiction books, including The Lesbian and Gt!)' Book of Love and Marriage and The Quemsl Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites. Her screenplay, ForognA.ffairr, co-written with her life partner, Katie Hogan, won second place in the 2003 PO\VER UP Screenplay Competition. Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac May 24, 2004 The Not-So-Golden Years It was only a small story, easily overshadowed by news of the horrific abuse of prisoners in Iraq. And the fact that it _was_ such a small story, receiving so little media attention, made it even more frightening: in a recent speech, Federal Reserve Chairman Alan Greenspan once again voiced grave concern about the effects of the "yawning fiscal deficit" on the future of the Social Security and Medicare systems. At about the same time as Greenspan's warning, the president requested a whopping S25 billion from Congress to continue the U.S. occupation of Iraq. Chairman Greenspan says he sees no escape from the country's fiscal crisis unless there are cuts made to public benefits for retirees an option that both President Bush and Sen. John Kerry are well aware of but obviously don't want to talk about. But as more and more gay people live longer and approach the time when we should be able to retire, the issue of aging becomes one that our community desperately needs to talk about - with an eye to arriving at concrete plans. I say "should be able to retire," because there's no question in my mind that a lot of gay people simply won't be able to stop working - ever. There are those, for example, who are self-employed, who work in low-paying jobs, or whose employers don't offer pension plans. Many, too, started saving for retirement only in middle age, because, like our straight counterparts, we had other obligations earlier in our lives - educations to finance, children to raise, mortgage payments to meet, parents to care for. Sadly, it's the middle and working classes, gay and straight, who will be deeply affected by the probable collapse of Social Security, the cushion that saw a lot of our parents through old age. Lesbian5 may be particularly hard hit, since ,vomen still earn considerably less than men. Because there are so many challenges and hurdles, it's no wonder that few of us can summon the courage to discuss growing old in the 21st century. When we do get around to searching for information, it's relatively easy to learn what the question5 are, but pretty hard to find answers. Too much of the focus is still on gay retirement communities, as if condos in warm climates were ll panacea and not just places where a seiect few of us wili spend our golden years. Consider that Joy Silver, the president of RainbowVision Properties, which is building a i46-unit gay retirement viliage in Santa Fe, N.M., says she err,isions a community where people wili chitchat in a rooftop cafe, enjoy art and cooking classes, and take part in cross-dressing bingo (no joke). Con!in:!l!li page S;tpple111net -III Volume 1 Issue 6 Supplement Page B June 1, 2004 OUT ON VN:.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Entertainers One great thing about traveling is that besides meeting interesting people and visitng interesting places sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few years we were fortunate to be able to see these several entertainers in action. They embody all that is good in a true entertainer ....... fun, funny, elegant and they all put on a great show. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at the Alcazar Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKA! THE BOXED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Connie Francis, Libby Morris, Dorothy Squires and the 50's muscial icon Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations wherever he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaining this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike many perfomers like this he stretches the boundaries. The Hollywood Reporter says "Lypsinka is like nothing you've seen before! Theatrical artistry that never seems to slow down" The New York Times says "Lypsinka is a fascinating, funny and distrubing spectacle." From the opening scene to the finale this performer never lets down the audience. Re is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else John just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to: www.lypsinka.com. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riveria Hotel in Las yegas is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "Joan River's" routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in las Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crew put on a class act show. He emcees the show and introduces the different performers who do Cher, Shirley Maclaine, Tina, etc. Their show is sold out ahnost all of the time. It is basically a musical/ , comedy review with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes costumes between every performer which gives a greaet dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is: www.frankmarino.com THE LADY CHABLIS who made Savannah, Georgia her home for many years is indeed THE LADY We caught her show at CLUB ONE in Savannah when we were there. continued page - C Ozarks Pride Page 11 - Artist Gilbert Baker Creator of the Rainbow Flag The Rainbow Flag as we know it today was developed by San Francisco artist Gilbert Baker in 1978. At the time, there was a need for a gay symbol which could be used year after year for the San Francisco Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade. Baker took inspiration from many sources, from the hippies movement to the black civil rights movement, and came up with a flag with eight stripes. Color has always played an important power in the gay right movement- Victorian England symbolized homosexuality with the color green, lavender became popular in the 1960s, and and pink from the pink triangle has caught on as well- and the colors of the gay flag were no different. Baker explained that his colors each stood for a different aspect of gay and lesbian life: • Hot pink for sexuality, • Red for life, • Orange for healing, Iii Yellow for the sun, • Green for nature, • Blue for art, • Indigo for harmony, • Violet for spirit. Baker himself and thirty other volunteers hand-stitched and hand- June l, 2004 pink stripe. Baker had hand-dyed the color, and unfortunately pink was not a commercially available color. The flag caught on quickly in cities across the country. It was even officially recognized by the International Congress of Flag Makers. In 1989 the flag was given international recognition when West Hollywood resident John Stout successfully sued his landlords after they tried to prohibit him from hanging the flag from his apartment balcony. At New York's Stonewall 25 Parade in 1994, a gigantic 30-foot wide, one mile long rainbow flag was carried through the parade route by over 10,000 volunteers. Quotable Quotes "I think it's entirely who you are from birth, personally. Some people might choose, but I think that it's who you are. I think people need to be able to be who they are. I have a friend who was married for many years and then the marriage dissolved and he came out ... and he lived this life of tension and of great difficulty. ... It's in your system. It's in your genes .... I think that people have a right in America to be who they are, who they are born as, and we are all God's children." - Presidential candidate John Kerry in a March 26 MIV interview. dyed to large prototype flags for the 1978 parade. It was an immediate hit. However, when Baker took his design to the San Francisco Flag Co. to have it mass-produced for the 1979 parade, he had to remove the hot cactus Canyon Campground And Resort For Men In The Ozarks 1hr. Lar9r.1t Mr.n'& l.amp9round in thr. U~t\ Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clothing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website www.cactuscanyon und.com Volume I Issue 6 June I, 2004 And Show Me 1:4:o Pride . Frid~y June 11 · ·. · · Happy Hour Kit:IFQff 6pm · ·Candlelight M~ri:~~:i:·~:gfu~t>t~i:~~nd.Cliastnut Expwy ·s 12 pm, The Oz Bar . · "'1a·.:u,a•s\fineyard 's Vine~ard rove Park P()St Pride . . . 6:$QJJ,rn Vioeyard Corne celebrate Pritte in "ffte Ozarks ~m. ab.i wn.: ..i o1.co~~~o~p.fflti«eW-PmNyi·f.icioimm• p.a 1ililpi:i:il'lle.blml wvrw.Mltthnconspfex.i:om .j Ozarks Pride Supplement Page C June l, 2004 Entertainers conli1111ed from page -B Besides being a fabulous peiformer on stage she also starred in Clint Eastwood's movie, MIDNIGHT IN THE GARDEN OF ;.:.·•>.;:c-:c: .. ; GOOD AND EVIL. When the showroom lights go down then you hear the announcer saying, ladies and gentlemen, the Lady Chablis, you KNOW you are in for a big treat for the evening. The Lady Chablis wears beautiful gowns. He E performs and also talks directly with the ; audience. Even thou Club One is a gay bar and nightclub, dozens of straights line up to see his performance. The night we were there our table companion was Oscar de la Renta and his guests. He only performs at the Club One in Savannah once a month now but does perform all over. To get his schedule go to his web site at:www.theladychablis.com. AUNTIE MAME is a mavelous entertainer in the Ft.Lauderdale, Florida area. Her campy acts are welcomed by a wide variety of gays and lesbians in the area. She gives of herself and is one of the most dedicated entertainers around. His web site is: www.auntiemame .. biz. SIEGFRIED AND ROY at the MIRAGE in Las Vegs delighted audiences for years and years. We first met them way back in 1973 when they were peiforming at the old MGM GRAND in Las Vegas. They have certainly came a long way since then. They are the highest paid entertainers in the history of Las Vegas. Their shows were sold out EVERY NIGHT ! They are the only peiformers in Las Vegas who have ever accomplished this feat. Their exceptional show was extremely high tee and they just kept adding new dimensions to their shows all the time. Due to the unfortunate accident that Roy had on stage, their show has been cancelled. Our thoughts are with both Siegfried and Roy. "This column is fondly dedicated to the late LIBERACE." who being Mr. Showmanship, was the ultimate entertainer. His shows were a MUST for everyone to see. His foundation web page is: www.liberace.com For more information on traveling, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit theire web page at: www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Volume I Issue 6 Supplement Page D June I, 2004 ... Lesbian Notions from page - A OK, she's a businesswofuan, and bingo in drag could be fun. But it's time to raise the quality of the dialogue and address issues that will affect a much larger number of gay people. The Humm Rights Campaign, for ex,i.mple, has made lobbying for Social Security survivor benefits for same-sex couples a major issue on its plate. However, given tbllt the public retirement system's future is shakier every day, our organizations may need to rethink and broaden their efforts. Coincidentally, Greensp:rn's warning arrived just weeks before an important national conference on LGBT aging called "Aging on Our Own Terms," which is being held in mid-June in New York: City, sponsored by our premier senior advocacy group, SAGE. (For more info, visit www.sageusa.org.) The conference promises to address such vital questions as what gay community in~structures are already in place that can be made to worlc for old gay people and what new institutions will be needed to care for our elders in the future. A wide range of registration and housing fees makes the conference affordable to ,i.ll. Interestingly, SAGE provides an excellent example of how national gay organizations can transform themselves to meet the needs of a changing, aging community. Founded in 1977, SAGE's acronym originally stood for Senior Action in a Gay Environment, a title that primarily spoke to the social needs of older gay people - for example, having activities and friends in order to avoid isolation and loneliness. Although social activities ,vill always be an important function of gay senior groups, more and more they're only part of the equation. The fact is, many of us will need a lot more than some good gay company in our golden ye,i.rs. In light of changing times, SAGE's initials ,i.re now shorthand for Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders. The new name not only ·recognizes the breadth of our community, but also suggests that the organization is talcing a more pro-active role on gay senior issues - now, while there's time to make a difference. Ozarks Pride Page 1-5 June 1, 2004 TOOLS \"OU MUD to TtE ........... 1 n"VTOOi\Y &Et LSaT~• · A once-in-a-lifetime chance to make change At the end of June 2003, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a Texas law which made most kinds of sexual intimacy a crime for same sex couples. That means that the relationships that are at the heart of our lives can't be made a crime anymore. But it means more than that. The Court didn't just strike the Texas law down. It ruled that gay people have the same right to form intimate relationships with others that heterosexuals have. Laws which deny that, the court said, "demean" the lives of gay people and deny us the dignity that is our right "as free persons." This is most important Court decision involving gay people ever. And it is also a powerful political statement. One of the primary justifications for treating gay people as second class citizens has been the claim that our relationships are wrong, and that we are therefore supposedly not entitled to equal respect. One of the primary ways people have tried to clinch the argument that our relationships are wrong is by pointing to so-called "sodomy" laws (some of which are aimed at same-sex relationships, and some of which technically are not). After the Supreme Court decision in the Texas case, that argument is just a dead letter. Our relationships aren't a crime. And the constitution gives us the same right to be intimate, to form relationships, to live our lives, that it gives to heterosexuals. hThat does not necessarily mean that businesses, schools and other institutions have to indude LGBT people in equal rontins,ed next column ... opportunity policies or treat LGBT relationships equally. But it does mean that the law no longer gives them an excuse to refuse. \X/e now have the best opportunity we have ever had to insist that governments, business and schools treat us with dignity and respect, and give us equal treatment in day to day life. No one who cares about equality and dignity for LGBT people should let the opportunity this Supreme Court decision has given us pass v.i.thout doing something to bring us a step closer to equality. Equality is up to us. Visit the ACLU web site to find the tools. www.aclu.org/ getequal/ campaign.html Steve from page-5 Be upfront, be truthful but always be true to who God has made you to be. It won't always be easy but each one of us adds to the group and then there is one more, and one more, and one more. My mother goes to Forest Park Baptist Church and one of her people saw the article this past summer about our church and told my mother, ''We don't know about how much good they do. "Think about that, they see us act up in parades, they see us act up yelling "Hey Girl!' Down the street ... but they "don't see how much good we do." This year, let's show them by example. Adopt a street, if you see brothers or sisters being inappropriate in front of others ... s,i.y something. We would if we didn't like what they were doing. Include your spouses name when you talk at work .. It becomes natural. No one has the authority over you to make you less than what God h:i.s created. Be proud of who you are and let it shine. Have a fun, safe summer. Steve ~-; {•"17} Q2S-"f007 ""- (417} eza..-t'"I&~ Advertisment Su-nail; ~ Ooopyi:nll'llX.oom June I, 2004 P..-tn1:1;1 aocl Copies Bloding t..aminaDng ,-axing Bu&in-e C.rds 4'IO Aange'8,..,_ Ad .. Joplin. MO &4801 Joplin,MO I!] T.J Kel!J Midwest Entertainer of the Year Regional Pageant . A Las Vegas Show Girl in Joplin:No, it's the fabulous a Ranged, winner of the Midwest Entertainer of the Year Pageant (BOY). The Pageant was held at REE'S Joplin May 14th. Ms.a Ranged was one of eight contestants. He with two alternates will proceed to the finals in Kentucky. Special performers included former Miss Oklahoma USA, Robbie Walker arid the current reigning Miss BOY, Nina L\ngdo. This year marks the 14th year of the BOY pageant system with pageants still to be held in Kentucky, Tennessee and Ohio. Ozarks Pride Page lJ -That's What Friends Are For -Where are Democrats on the Federal Marriage Amendment? by 1\r!att Foreman, ExeC11tive Director, National Gqy and Lesbian Task Force: You've got to hand it to the Bush Administration: they take care of their own. Wealthy folks have received tax breaks; Star Wars defense contractors are reaping billions; pollution controls on business are being eased; national forests have been opened to logging. Perhaps nothing is more glaring, however, than what has been done to cater to the demands of the religious right. For them, the constitutionally-mandated separation between church and state has been breached by the President's "Faith Based Initiative." Federal law now bans "late term abortion" at home and the administration has relentlessly attacked family planning programs abroad. With barely a shred of empirical evidence to show they work, "abstinence only" programs that actually ban access to real sex education or HIV prevention information - are being lavishly funded. Even with all of these giveaways, the religious right demanded more and they got it: the President's active support of an amendment to the U.S. Constitution prohibiting the recognition of same-sex marriage and enshrining the second class citizenship of gay and lesbian couples in our nation's most sacred document. We can moan and groan, but the President is delivering money and issue red meat to a part of the electorate tl1at was responsible for 40% of his votes in 2000 . In return, they are energized, grateful, and will turn out en masse in November - an essential ingredient if Mr. Bush is to be re-elected. Old fashioned, smart politics. Continued next coiumn: June l, 2004 So what are the Democrats doing to protect and energize a critical part of their base, namely the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community? After all, our people consistently and overwhelmingly vote Democratic. (In light of the GOP's lousy positions on so many key gay issues, it's not hard to understand why.) In fact, we are the party's third most loyal bloc of support just behind the African American and Jewish communities. We've remained loyal in spite of slaps like "Don't Ask/Don't Tell," the federal Defense of Marriage Act, and the lack of a single federal law acknowledging our existence, even when the Democrats controlled the \'vhite House and one or both houses of Congress. Just as important in this day and age, our community raises a ton of money for the party - far outstripping our proportion of the vote. Given all of this, one would think the party would be willing - rhetorically and legislatively - to stand up for us. Let me be specific. I don't understand why our community should have to spend one more hour, one more dime, make one more phone call or write one more letter to make sure an anti-gay, anti-marriage constitutional amendment is dead on arrival in the U.S. Senate. Last July 17, Senate Minority Leader Tom Daschle pledged that Senate Democrats would kill the federal marriage amendment if it ever came to a vote. We were all grateful and relieved to hear that pledge. But, it didn't feel like such a big lift to me because killing the amendment requires only 34 votes, and there are 48 Democrats, five of whom are retiring at the end of this year. In other words, every single Democratic Senator considered "at risk" this fall could be "let off the hook" on this vote, if necessary, and the amendment would still be defeated. In a classic display of Washington legalese - we've since discovered that last July's pledge is in question. You see, it apparently applied only to "the" Federal Marriage Amendmenr as written lasr year. Continued page-21 ,Walt Fore111at1 I 1 I Volume l Issue 6 Page 18 June 1, 2004 Gay Traveler., from page 7 They have a wide choice of dinner en trees including Ribeyes, Shrimp, Salmon and a large selection of desserts. A full wine list and plenty of drinks. We have dined at several restaurants in Phoenix over the years and this is by far the finest dining experience that we have ever had in the city. They also have Johnson's Lounge which has a piano bar right next to the restaurant. This is a perfect place to meet other guests at the Resort. On weekends, the Sky Deck Bar is open on the 5th floor and is all outside. There is always a lot happening at the restaurant and bars. Check out their full listings of drink specials, events and entertainment at: www.johnsonsbar.com This is one of those rare places where you can check in to the hotel and stay right there and never want to leave. They are close to several other i;estaurants and gay/ lesbian bars if you wish to go however with what the Calamus Resort has to offer, many guests just stay right there to enjoy themselves. They are located about 8 miles from the airport and just minutes to several gay bars. Actually Phoenix has more gay bars than any other major city including San Francisco and New York City. Most are very nice and everyone is extremely friendly. Art Galleries, Museums and wonderful shopping are located nearby. Be sure to check out the new GRAND hotels in Phoenix, the Biltmore and the Phoenician. Both are.world class hotels with room prices to go with it. We enjoyed shopping at the YOUR COMPLETE PRIDE STORE at 4700 North Central. They carry a great line of jewelry, clubwear, sportswear, underwear, cards, gifts, books, magazines and swimwear. For first time travelers to Phoenix a few things to ·see and do are: Scenic drive from Camp Verde to Flagstaff, next column ... Papago Park Area, Northern Arizona and I the Navajo Nation, La Posada Resort, · Kartchner Caverns State Park, Heard Museum, Grand Canyon and the ArizonaSonora Desert Museum. The late great Senator Barry Goldwater , from Arizona summed it up best when he I said, "The big thing is to make this country,j along with every other country in the l world ... quit discriminating against people i just because they're gay .. You don't have toj agree with it, but they have a constitutional] right to be gay." Truer words were never l :j spoken. • I If you are wanting to get away for a few1 days, we certainly recommend the J CALAMUS RESORT in Phoenix. They f have come up with a really great gay/lesbia.d resort. Vern and James and their staff will l certainly make you feel right at home and :4 you will have a great time. I .J For more information on the Calamus j Resort, check out their web site at: j www.calamusresort.com or give them a call! at: l-877-4CALAMUS. Their email is: ·1 jamesmcavoy7 l 6@hotmail.com For other 1 information on Gay Phoenix and Gay I Arizona, go to: • I www.visitgayarizona.com. They will be I happy to send you at no charge one of theirj colorful pamphlets on GAY ARIZONA! Iti lists many activities of gay and lesbian interest for travelers. Their toll free telephone number is l-800-GAYAZ4U. For more information about gay travel, 1 l email Donald and Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/ I gaytravelers. f I l Ozarks Pride Page 19 KANSAS REJECTS ANTI-GAY BIGOTRY IN STATE CONSTITUTION Gaywire Release: WASHINGTON - The Kansas Legislature adjourned May 8, effectively killing a proposed anti-gay amendment to the state Constitution that would have denied marriage to same-sex couples in the state. The measure, which failed in Senate and House votes, would have also denied the legal protections of marriage to same-sex couples in civil unions or domestic partnerships. "Legislators recognized that resurrecting an anti-gay amendment to the Kansas Constitution was a bad idea and waste of time," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. "This amendment was twice rejected - first by the Senate and then by the House. But some lawmakers just couldn't take no for an answer. It's heartening to see fairness won out." Following a successful House vote, the Senate, lead in part by Republican State Sen. David Adkins, rejected the measure on March 26. Lawmakers then brought the measure up for another vote. The Senate passed it, however, on May 4, the House rejected it the second time around. The Human Rights Campaign is the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender political organization with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that LGBT Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. June 1, 2004 Quotable Quotes "I am going to be tonight very strongly on the side of those who are fighting for a legal frame in which they can develop their relationship normally in their lives. In other words, gay marriage - yes, please! Absolutely yes!" -Actor Antonio Banderas at the GLAAD Media Awards, March 27 in Los Angeles. Martha's Vin ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com l ! Volume I Issue 6 Page 20 June I, 2004 June l, 2004 I Volumn 1 Issue 6 Page 2_1 ----::=---------------=---------------~---J----------------------;:============================-.-Mall Formran from page-17 Q Scopes by Jill Dearman 'Work off steam, Aries!" ARIES (lvfarch 21 to April 20): On June 3, the moon close to volatile Pluto in your house of adventure could put a confrontational bee in your bonnet. Just make sure you count to 10 before exploding. A little physical exercise helps you work off steam and banish all your inner demons. A Pisces makes a good workout buddy - and I don't mean at the gym. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): You may have to pull back and stay out of trouble when it comes to a tricky new relationship. Not everyone is as straightforward as you are, baby. If you sense you are being manipulated, you are! An Aries, however, would never pull a fast one on you GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): The Sun moves close to Venus in your sign this week, so get ready for a Libra to move closer to you. You are an ace at reading the romantic signs, my dear. Keep your eyes open and your lips ready. CANCER (June 22 to July 22): You need to channel your rage, dear Cancer. Mars is stirring up your blood, but Saturn is insisting that you find a constructive outlet for those feelings. It doesn't matter whether you choose kickboxing or karate; just do something to release your anger. And then release your passion all over an Aries. LEO (July 23 to August 22): Anxiety peaks around the full moon on June 3, and then chill-out season officially begins for you. Make sure that you plan lots of time with a Libra during these late spring weeks. You need to be around someone who reminds you of your dreams. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): You may not get a chance to work on something that's important to you this week, but don't beat vourself up about it. Turn to a Cancer for encour:1g~ment. Early June is your spring-cleaning time. Organize and reorganize your environment, your workload, your social calendar ... everything. You'll make up for lost time soon enough. LIBRA (September 23 to October 22): The Sun hooks up with your ruler Venus in your I house of adventure, so this is a great week to 1 1 make a major play for someone you would like to play with. A Cancer is open to whatever ·1 you've got to offer. Be sure you are offering a lot. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): The full moon on June 3 falls in your house ! of money, which means that you will need to pay special attention to this sensitive area of your life. Pay off a debt tl1at you've been carrying around for way too long. Another Scorpio wants to carry you around for a while. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to i December 21): The full moon in your sign on :J June 3 pulls you closer to a Jover you've been ·j pulling away from. What are you afraid of? ~ This is the week to face that fear. A Gemini is -, just as nervous as you are. It's time to jump :l deeper into the relationship, not out of it. i J CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19): I Your body is your best friend this week, my 1 darling, so listen to it. As the Sun and Venus 1 transi. t your h ouse o f health, try to tune in to .lt what your body is telling you. Do you need to j slow down your pace or speed it up? A 'j Gemini v;,ill give you the hands-on help you 1 need. 1 AQUARIUS Oapuary 20 to February 18): Don't rush to judgment about a friendship, sweetie. More information is coming down the pike. Take this week to express what you need to a Pisces, a,,d then wait. Patience pays off. Spend a little extra time with yourself. You've been way too harried lately. PISCES (February 19 to March 20): On June 2, the full moon in your house of friends ] j ! could make vou fall into the arms of a soulful j and affectio~ate Taurus pal. Don't try to plan j tomorrow. Just revel in this unexpected treat. .,• You need more surprises like this in vour life . ._ - , I I I 1 If the amendment is re-worded so it still outlaws same-sex marriage anywhere in the country but leaves the door open to state-based domestic partnerships or civil unions, all bets are off. As a result, LGBT organizations including my own -are making desperate appeals to their members asking them to press their representatives in Washington to oppose the amendment. Our allies at the Human Rights Campaign, for example, have raised S6 million to fight it. Log Cabin Republicans and their principled new leader Patrick Guerriero are spending Sl million on anti-amendment advertising. Ironically, even the Democratic Party has jumped on the bandwagon, seeking 500,000 signatures on petitions opposing the amendment to be circulated during gay pride events this summer. For me, it's appalling - indeed, sickening - that scarce resources are being sucked into this work. Every resource we have should instead be funneled to our allies in the ten or more states facing ugly and divisive campaigns to ratify antimarriage state constitutional amendments this November. Sadly, it looks as though our allies will be left nearly high and dry, again. We thought we could help head this off and give some cover to those now getting squishy on us by getting a few senators from safe Qet me say SAFE) seats not up for election this year to say unambiguously that they would oppose any amendment seeking to restrict marriage rights. (There's no shortage of ways to say this ,..-ithout god forbid - having to endorse marriage equality.) Turns out not even THEY would come through. One response I got from a SAFE seat was, "You can't ask us to say we'll oppose any amendment ... what if the amendment is reworded to specifically authorize civil unions?" Like that could happen -when hell freezes over. Sorry, I can't buy this. \Y/e're not even asking Senate Democrats to take a stand for full equality or asking them to vote against a popular measure. (ln fact, no poll shows majority support for the amendment.) Next ,o/J,mn ...... lie Lion's en A!!<lll.lJiR Cura • Sm.Es • Ps:!Mie Sert. ~ • Nil:9 T lllllaliii • 'W,.lllllQ Complete f 2mily Ha.- Care 4J7 .. 6ZB--f?67 3816 E. 7th St Joplin, MO 64801 No, this is about amending the U.S. Constitution to take away rights from a minority, something that has never occurred in the history of our nation. If Bob Barr, the anti-gay author of the 1996 Defense of Mii.rriage Act, is against amending the constitution this ,vay, how hard should this be for our "friends?" The religious right knows how to play adult politics: they insist on getting something in exchange for their support. It's time we did the same. Our community is owed a renewed pledge - now that any anti-marriage amendment is dead on arrival in the Senate. If we can't get something this simple and this just and this easy, then ... Founded in 1973, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force was the first national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) civil rights and advocacy organization and remains the movement's leading voice for freedom, justice, and equality. Volumn l Issue 6 River Of Life Church PO Box 1578, Pittsburg,KS. 66762 astor: George David Phone: (316) 461-2668 Services: Sunday's 11am Email: geo592k@sbcglobal.net Timmons Chapel PSU Full GOSPEL all affinnin . Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Volume 1 Issue 7 M A G E A LGBT COMMUNITY VOICE THE OZARKS STAR IS COMING! July 1, 2004 Issue 7 Ozarks Pride (The Ozarks Star) 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, 1-fissouri 64804-3128 wwv;.ozarkspride.com Editor: C.D. Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Steve T. Urie Donald Pile Ray Williams Contents: Editor's Page -page 2 Voters Decision Page 4 Steve T. Urie - page 5 Donald & Ray, Ou! on Vacation- Page 7 Ozarks Pride Ou! Cruzin- page 12-13 That's Entertainment page-14 Lesbian Notions- page • 15 Deep Inside Hollywood-page-16 Q Scopes- page 20 Classifieds-page 22 Communiiy Directory- page 23 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $17.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $16.00 (6 months) Classifieds- $6.00 first 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for all advertising, articles and payment is the 20th of each month for the next months issue. Ozarb Pridt Magazine is published & diltribuled monthly as a community a.vie» by Ozarlcs Pride Groop of Joplin, Missouri. Publication of lhe name. photograph or lkeness of any person. business or organization in thla publication is not to be construed •• any ind•ca!lon of 11xual ori1nl11ion or prelerencaa of auch person. bu,inesa or organization. O~niona expreo,ed by co!umnista, ldY!lr1i,ers or L•N•ri to tho Ec/J1or are not neca1S1rily the opinion oi Ozarb Prldt IM>gezine, ii• s/1/f. tho publiahor or J'a 1dver1;..,._ Content of ldver11•ments 1nd articles are the tole responsibility of the advettieer and /or au'l!or. Tha Publisher r, Oz•ri« Pr~ Msgazioo re1trves tho right lo refuse edvtrtil:ng material for any reason what so ever. o~ Prid& and 111 likenesses there of are sole properties of Ozarks Pride Group. All material O ~yrignt 200( Ozorh Pride We Made It! Yes, Ozarks Pride Magazine made it past the half year mark. We are in our 7th month and have met every distribution date. We are now the oldest continu- .,, ous running LGBT news publication in j Southwest Missouri. :i As some of you may remember, our first issue, January was eight pages. June, the Gay Pride 2004 issue was our largest issue with 28 pages and we are growing monthly. The community response has been tremendous and contributors such as Steve Urie, Ray Williams, Donald Pile, T J Kelly and Gabe Norman deserve huge hugs. Our loyal advertisers have come through month after month. REE's , Fairfield Inn, Faces Guesthouse, Century 21 Goldcastle OKC, Penny Smart with Woody's Manhattan, Vickie Bronson of Charles Burt Realtors, Studio 716 and Bamboo Lounge have kept the paper alive. You are greatly appreciated as are all the newer business community customers. With this half year milestone under our belt, I want to say, although we have continued to operate in the red to date, I am optimistic about the future of this magazine. There have been too many kudos from the LGBT community to think otherwise. In June issue we added the syndicated column "Lesbian Notions" and Q Scopes. For the July issue another syndication "Deep Inside Hollywood" a very popular national column. "Out on Vacation" by Ray Williams and Donald Pile is now in syndication. continued page-3 I I 1 :tf -~~, i t :~z} page-2 Of course our goal is to become a profit oriented company, and with circulation increasing each month our advertising rates have to increase. Our current rates are very reasonable and you the business community should take advantage of this opportunity to increase your sales. Our advertisers are all telling us they have new business from their Ozarks Pride ad's. Now, an important announcement.. .... Because our name " Ozarks Pride Magazine" is sometimes associated with Gay Pride Organizations, we have decided to rename the magazine beginning with the August issue. The new name will be " The Ozarks Star " The format will not change and we hope to continue to print the front and back cover in full color, although this is our most costly feature. In addition other enhancements are in the works for the future. Yes, we have come a long way in six months and I have met many new and wonderful people who have generously helped get us here. December will be our 12th issue and we are going to have a party baby! So get ready and have that old Tux cleaned and let out, that includes the ladies too! Have a great 4th of July. C.D. ward Editor/Publisher 3 Creator: Romeo San Vicente has extensive experience in Hollywood as a writer, producer, and homosexual. His friends have the ability to make or break your budding career, so be nice to him. About the column: Deep Inside Hollywood is an entertainment insider column covering celebrities, movies, TV shows, and other Hollywood subjects of interest to gays and lesbians. Lots of previews of upcoming gay-related projects, along with inside information about Tinseltown goings-on - with just a touch of gossip. This is Q Syndicate's most popular column. Ozarks Pride Magazine, soon to be "The Ozarks Star" will be publishing this column each month beginning with this issue. See page 16 for the first installment. Volume 1 Issue 7 Page4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401E. 32nd St, Suite !1-243, Joplin, MO ~84-328 Email: editor@arkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW l'vfissouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to inform and report news of interest to our communtiy. Missouri Gay Marriage Vote August 3rd. Constitution Defense Leag11e 11datt: Tuesday, August 3 is fast approaching, and the campaign against Amendment 2 is picking up steam:"Aniendment 2 is the official ballot name.of the proposal to ban gay and lesbian marriage in the Missouri Constitution. With offices and staff in St. Louis and &nsas City, and staff in Columbia and soon to follow in Springfield, no.t to mention.active volunteer teanis in all 6£ these communities, the. &nstitution Defense League is positioning itself to defeat Amendment 2 on. Augμst 3! Missouri will be the first state in the country to vote on this kind qf constitutional amendn:ient since the victory in Massachusetts. At least four other states will face the same vote in November, and they, along with the rest of the country, are looking to .l\fissouri to see how we face up to the challenge. Ad11ertlsemi11i Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nall Salon Penny Smart 509 Main ~ Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments (417) 623-3500 Page 5 Community Spirit Keeps Climbing! I want to start this month thanking a number of business and church leaders for there thought&, suggestions and their help in building our GLBTS Community. Penny Smart (Woody's of Manhattan), Rachael Martinez (1\fassage by Rachael), Chaz Ward (Faces Guesthouse and Ozarks Pride Magazine), Rev. George and Rev Paula Jo David (Pastors at River of Life Church in Pittsburg, KS) as well as Connie Gilpin (MCC of the Living Spring in Eureka Springs, AR) have all been instrumental in building the great area community and teaching what "Unity in Christ" is all about. Exchanging business cards, spreading ,vord of businesses, traveling untold miles this group of people have been a positive force in not only Joplin, but Eureka Springs, Pittsburg and around the world through the UFMCC news and web news. The churches in this three state area are sponsoring and cosponsoring special events on regular bases for the good of the people here. The GLBTS Community is more than going to the bar. (Don't be offended, I not telling not to go there.) But } am telling you that there are other social events and programs for you to be 'involved in. Speaking of ev-ems, I understand that Pride in Springfield was a great success, so to in Kansas City, St Louis, Dallas, San Francisco ... and next year we are adding Joplin to the calendar. A committee is being developed July l, 2004 for Joplin Pride 2005 and it's time to start working on this nmv. If you are interested, please call 417-206-6179 and leave your name and number or email ~. This-will not be a church event but a community event to celebrate who we are. \Ve are dads, mothers, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. We are neighbors, co-workers, peers and friends. And we don't need to go out of town to celebrate that. The committee is making arrangements to have games, art works, crafts and food/ drink booths at this first ANNUAL JOPLIN PRIDE 2005. Watch for exciting announcements and be involved. Hopefully before our pride event we will have a new president, one that cares about all the people. REMEMBER VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! Your vote counts, each one makes differences. When you don't vote ... you make a difference too! You choose. There is a story of an old man watching as a young boy is picking up starfish on the beach. The boy picks up a starfish and throws it as far into the ocean as he can, walks along, picks up another and another and another. The old man finally catches up -with the young boy and tells him, "You're not going to make a difference, look at all of them." The young boy picked up another starfish and threw it just as high and far as he could, looked up to the old man and said, "it makes a difference to that one." Yes each one of your votes count ... be ready and let's make a bold stand and get the GLBTS community out to vote at our local elections in August and the Presidential Election in November. Have a great month! Steve Volume 1 Issue 7 ' MEN'S UNDERWEAR STORE NOW OPEN! 825 E 3.., ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS ~OR INFO! UNDmWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE HOTTEST BRANDS, 80 SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OLAF BENZ r t! Ozarks Pride Page 7 July 1, 2004 Photo by: Ray Williams -OUT ON VAl.ATION .. Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com THE GRAND RESORT "The Largest, exclusively Gay Resort on fl Ft. Lauderdale Beach, Florida" .t!. Ever wanted to go to a gay resort and be pampered to death? Fly down to Ft ,~,, Lauderdale and check out The GRAND Resort (www.grandresortnet), located just 'e'l steps from the Atlantic Ocean. Their friendly and accommodating staff will }!] pamper to your every whim. Service is what this resort is all about. From a 'fl delicious continental breakfast poolside each morning to guest "get-togethers" on !:I weekends and luxurious accommodations - you will be won over very quickly. ,~ii Their rooms and suites are spotlessly clean and decorated marvelously. The , '.1! moment you enter the front gates you realize that you aren't in Kansas anymore. fij Many guests don't leave this secluded resort because there is so much to see and •• r do in the resort. The owner of the Grand Resort is Casey Koslowski. Herbert Pianin ,,i is the general manager. With assistance from their staff of nine they go out of their J way to make your stay extremely enjoyable. A variety of accommodations are available including standard guest rooms, deluxe guest rooms, one and two bedroom suites, and a one or two bedroom penthouse. All rooms and suites feature cable TV, VCR's, a Sony HI-FI CID music system, private voice mail, iron and ironing board, hair dryer, refrigerator, gourmet pantry, microwave, and coffee maker with Godiva Coffee. Bathrooms are stocked with a great selection of Caswell Massey soaps, bath amenities, and plush robes for lounging. Most rooms have access to high speed Internet lines. For the comfort of guests all accommodations are non-smoking. A complete continental breakfast is served each morning in the Grand Cafe, or poolside, offering morning breads, fresh muffins, fresh brewed coffee or tea and assorted juices. There is a "community" computer where you can check your email account. They offer scuba diving lessons and can make arrangements for just - about any type of water sports you are interested in. A huge swimming pool dominates the front courtyard and a Jacuzzi is available in the tropical garden at the back of the resort. This is a paradise unto it's own. One would assume you're in the Tropics with palm trees and lush plants of all kinds eveywhere. A fully equipped fitness center, to keep your body in shape, is part of the amenities. Every Friday a guest "get together" is scheduled featuring sangrias, Volume 1 Issue 7 Page 8 SPRINGFIELD'S PRIDE 04 RQARING SUCCESS ! The Crowd enjoyed Live Eritertainment all day. Springfield, MO -]1me 13, 2004 l?J G"f. S teek Beginning on Friday, June 11th with a Candle Light Walk from Chestnut Expressway to-l'vfill Street with a party and food at The Edge. Royalty Pageant's were held Saturday night at The OZ and Martha's Vineyard. Ending with Pride In The Park on Sunday, June 13th "Show Me MO Priae" committee staged a fantastic event. Hundreds packed the nightclubs and an estimated 1600 were entertained at Phelps Grove Park on Sunday. The Festival wound down with a Barbecue at July 1, 2004 Saturday Night Pageant Results. Miss ShowMe MO Pride - Misty Falls 1st Alternate - Jayden LaRue Mr. ShowMe MO Pride-Michael Anthony 1st Alternate Cody Kane MR PRIDE - Justin Kastning 1st Alternate Zachary Isaacs Great Bartenders kept the liquid flowing at Ozarks Pride Volume 7 Page 10 July 1, 2004 Advertisement Ozarks Pride Page 11 03.29.04 DALLAS, TEXAS - R Family au,uu,11~. the first travel company devoted to gay and lesbian family vacations, has teamed up with Metropolitan Community Churches (MCC), the world's largest and oldest church group with an affirming ministry to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) communities. MCC will perform wedding ceremonies and offer worship services aboard R Family Vacations' historic inaugural cruise in July. "\Xle are honored to partner with MCC - their support of gay and lesbian families is truly 1m;p11rm12:," said Kelli O'Donnell and -..a1u11.1~"-Y, cofounders of R Family Vacations. "We are thrilled to be able to offer guests the to attend worship services or to marry on the cruise while surrounded and friends." cruise from on July 11, 2004. Ports of call will include Port \..-ana·ve1:a1. and Baham· · In addition to July 1, 2004 . Church of Greater Dallas, will serve as Pastor in Residence on the cruise. "\Xle are proud to support R Vacations and applaud their commitment to GLBT families not a vacation, but a support network of other parents and children just like their own," said Love. "\Xle are looking forward tojoining the hundreds of GLBT families from around the U.S. on the cruise in a celebration of love, faith and a couple's decision to step forward in both." Metropolitan Community Churches is the largest international vehicle for public education about homosexuality and Christianity. At the vanguard of civil and human rights movements for over 30 years, MCC addresses the important issues of sexism, homophobia, ageism, and other forms of oppression. Founded in MCC has an inclusive membership of over 43,000 members in 300 churches worldwide. R Family Vacations creates vacations for gay and lesbian travelers and their families of an instant community where everyone is R Vacations confirms you don't haYe to co1:np,ro:m1:se your to go on a vacation. For more information about R Brad is currently playing at The Ledo Lounge in Okfa.homa City, from 6 pm tq 10 pm on Fridays. His unique vocal style lends a romantic dimension to many classic favorites. Other than nightclub performances he is :tlso available for weddings, funer:tl's or private party's. " Since I play by ear, I play the music that I have recordings of or have heard enough times to be able to rec:tll. I tend toward musicians that play piano, like Elton John." Brad told OP writer Greg Steele. Brad was raised in St Louis, MO and moved to Oklahoma at age 22 to attend University at OU where he graduated and then completed two years of Medical School in Tulsa. Brad and his partner Rod live in Pink, Oklahoma where they plan to open a B&B this September. For booking information contact Brad at (405) 509-8506, or email outinpink@hotmail.com J ■ Urban Pop Solo Artist performed at the Silver Star Club June 6th to kick of Tulsa's Gay Pride Week. HOT! HOT! HOT! J's energy electrified the packed crowd at the Silver Star. He sang and danced to a ,rariety of songs including music from his latest album "\vithout My One And Only " and contains the Bonus R&B track, Run Like Hell, for all of you urban jocks! . This is J's second album release. "So High" was his first and a new single "Rise and Fall" will soon hit the music stores. If your going to be in the New York, NY area catch his show at THE ROXY on September 23, 2004. For other future performances and information,J.'s website. http://tuneengine.org/Jfansite.html Adverlisment ~' (◄ 117), 823-11007 F'eox:I (4'17) 023--S1159 En'ltaN; -cwn~ Oeopyma.x..c:om Pri,nu, and CopS! lntdli,n,g Lamilnllltfng Faxing Business Ca.-dla I Ozarks Pride Page 15 July 1, 2004 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for tl;iree years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own \Vrite." A Lambda Literary Award winner for her first novel, 011t of Time, Martinac has also authored several nonfiction books, including The Lesbian and Gqy Book of Love and Marriagt and The Q11urut Places: A G11ide to Gtry and Lesbian Historic Sites. Her screenplay, Fonign Affairs, co-written with her life partner, Katie Hogan, won second place in the 2003 PO\'v"ER UP Screenplay Competition. Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac July, 2004 Our Love Is Here To Stay A recent newspaper report on the 2002 marriage and divorce rates in Vermont showed that straight couples have a higher divorce rate than same-sex couples, and that the heterosexual rate has remained pretty constant since the advent of civil unions in 2000. Or, to phrase it in a way guaranteed to make the religious right squirm: if you're the child of a mommy-daddy family in Vermont, your parents are more likely to divorce than are Heather's two mommies. These are the first stats we've had on legalized gay relationships, and the temptation for the lesbian and gay community to jump to wild conclusions is pretty great, given how demonized our unions are. I wouldn't be surprised to hear some gay activists and commentators boasting that our relationships are "better" than heterosexual ones. But, in fact, they're simply different in their gender-role makeup and in a way that could help straight couples, too. It will be highly ironic if, in the long run, heterosexual marriages - which receive enormous societal and institutional support - prove to be shakier than same-sex ones. But then, there's so much hype and myth about heterosexual romance in popular culture, particularly aimed at women, making straight marriage look like a piece of wedding cake. A recent episode of the cheesy daytime talk show _Dr. Phil_ showed the extreme of this, interviewing young, single women with highly romanticized views of marriage. In fact, several had already planned their weddings, even though they didn't haYe boyfriends. On the other hand, there are far fewer romantic illusions for lesbian and gay couples, most of whom have nothing to hold them together but sheer willpower. Indeed, there has been some concern among queers on the far left that legalized marriage for same-sex couples ·will ultimately destroy one of good things we have going for us - the ability many gay couples have to stay mgether over the long haul, even though society doesn't recognize our unions. But then, there's more to the marriage game than simply sticking it out. Looking at marriage from a feminist perspective, one of the biggest hurdles facing hi:terosexuai unions is the strangieholci that gender roles continue to wield over most of the men and women who enter into them. And it's in the area of gender nonconformity that many iesbian and gay couples hold a powerful advantage. Contin11•d page Sr,pplwmet -21 Volume I Issue 7 Page 16 July 1, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente . July 2004 John Cusackls Ex-Gay Forget what you've heard about gay characters in films being no big deal in -Hollywood anymore. Apparently, sometimes they're still a _ ,·ery _ big deal. It's bad enough that Ang Lee's _Brokeback ,Mountain_ might have its gay romance neutered, but now director Nick Cassavetes and actor John Cusack are part of Hollywood's de-gaying process, too. Cassavetes will direct and Cusack will star in the film adaptation - penned by gay screenwriter Jonathan Tolins (_Twilight of the Golds_) and Seth Bass - of gay author David Gerrold's book The Martian Child_. When Romeo first reported :n this story, it looked like the plot would follow that of the original book, in which a gay man adopts a 6-year-old boy, only to discover that the child believes himself to be from Mars. In the film, however, Cusack's character ,,ill be straight. So far, no one is saying why the gay character was declared an unfit parent and why that change was so vital to the movie's development, but it's a safe bet to say it has a lot to do with the continued triumph of commerce over art. The film begins shooting this fall. Brendan Fraser's Queer _Secret_ Wtli he look as good in a James Bond-style ~xedo as he did in-his _George of the Jungle_ oincloth? That's the real question to be answered when Brendan Fraser steps into the role of _Gay Secret Agent_. Currently in negotiations to star, Fraser may well be the next _Austin Powers_, one ,,ith a distinct nvist in the "shao-ging" department. And speaking of Powers, that franchise's producers, Suzanne and Jennifer Todd, are also the ones behind this espionage spoof written by _Saturday Night Llve_ alum Brad Hall and Andrew Gottlieb. Translation: Expect lots of broad, silly riffing on gay stereotypes, so keep your sense of humor tu~ed to Lowest Common Denominator. Meanwhile, Romeo ,vants to know how much male eye-candy of the Bond Girl variety \\111 make it to the final cut. Jamie Babbitt Connects to Dot Lesbian filmmaker Jamie Babbitt (_B~ I'm -A Cheerleader_) is about to take a break from her busy career directing episodes of shows like Malcolm in the Middle_, _The Bernie Mac-Sho,v_, _Nip/Tuck_, and _Gilmore Girls to return to the world of feature films. Babbitt \,ill direct the thriller _Dot_, from writers Micah Schraft and Abdi Nazemian (ABC Familv's Beautiful Girl_). _Dot_ concerns a deaf ;ee;age orphan and the dark goings-on that arise when she moves in ,vith a "typical" family one that turns out to be anything but. Uniq~e to this project is the support of the Universitt of Texas in Austin, whose film school sponsor/a program that gives its students . hands-on experience making low-budget mov1es. In other words, they're donating a lot of free labor, and there's not a producer in the world who'd say no to that kind of deal. _South Park_ Guys String Up Team America __ South Park_ creators Trey Parker and Matt Stone are taking a break from their animated world of profanity-spewing children to enter the world of marionette superheroes. _Team America_, the first allmarionette feature film since_ Thunderbirds Are Go!_ hit big screens in 1966, is currently shooting in collaboration with gay superproducer Scott Rudin, featuring music by Marc Shaiman. Team America_'s plot involves strmgcontrolled puppets fighting ~vii forces and rontinNtd on page 17 Page 17 CC. MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Service 7PM Community Meal served Wednesday's at 6:~0pm, cost . 0 meal is always nutritionally balanced. Dinners i$n3c.l0u0d.e N doe soenrte, disn _ntukr naend d agwoaoyd . f e l~r wship Take out meals are also available. Bring your O · friends and family. Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 64803 www.mccjoplin.com Inside Ho/fr111ood frr:J111 p,i.g, t 6 annoyi;g celebrities, and, given the overwhelming amount of absurdly silly gay content to be found in every project these guys have ever taken ?n, there's an almost 100 percent certru~ty that Parker and Stone's obsession with homosexuality will rear its head yet again. Look f~r an autumn rel~ase ~ just in time to skewer the pres1dent1al election. Romeo San Vicente usually keeps ;everal men on a string at the same time himself. Quotable Quotes "Bush is an incompetent leader. In fact, he's not a leader. He's a person who has no judgment, no experience and no knowledge of the subjects that he has to decide upon .... The shallowness that he has brought to the office has not changed since he got there . ... The president's capacity to lead has never been there. In order to lead, you have to have judgment. In order to have judgment, you have to have k~owledge and experience. He has none. - . House of Representatives ~em?crattc leader Nancv Pelosi of Calirorma, to the S;n Fra~cisco Chronicle, May 20. Volume I Issue 7 Page 18 July 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 chips, and salsa. On Saturday "get togethers" wine and cheese are featured. What a wonderful way to meet the other guests! We NEVER settle for second best and promise that you won't be disappointed in your stay here. This is a first-class resort. For beach lovers, simply walk a few yards and you're there. Another five blocks and you find yourself on Ft. Lauderdale's GAY beach where you will be one of hundreds of gay men basking in the Florida sun. The Grand Resort is centrally located and very close to downtown Ft. Lauderdale and the famous Las Olas Blvd. shopping area. A wide variety of wonderful restaurants and shops are found there. We particularly enjoy shopping atAudace, 813 East Las Olas Blvd. which is a gay clothing store highlighting swimwear and underwear. One particularly exciting bar on Las Olas is the Cathode Ray Club (1307 East Las Olas Blvd). This is an upscale bar "complex" with several bars in one. They are busy all the time and draw a great cocktail hour crowd. Their "theme" nights and special event nights are the norm - Monday is Comedy night, Tuesday is "2 for Tuesday" with the Sandy Lynn Duo live at the Baby Grand. Wednesday is "gaymetime Over Wednesday'' with a live show at 9pm. Thursday is mixer night and Friday happy hour lasts from 2pm until 9pm. Saturday is "two for one" from 2 till 9, and the Retro Dance Party with Liquid Rainbow is a Must event. There is always something special happening at the Cathode Ray (~). Next door is Bar Amici Restaurant (1301 East Las Olas Blvd) owned by the same proprietor as Cathode Ray. Again, it is upscale but with very reasonable prices. Their food is outstanding! Ft. Lauderdale abounds with gay bars and restaurants. Travelers will be able to quickly find just the right bar that suits them. Bars run the gamut from Disco, Leather, Drag, Strippers, neighborhood bars and high end cocktail bars. One of the great drag performers, AUNTIE MAME performs at several different bars and clubs in the city. Check out her website at: ~ and be sure to catch her act. Ft. Lauderdale is a great getaway for Midwesterners in winter and can also be fun year round. With over two dozen gay bars, over a dozen gay restaurants, two bath houses and dozens of gay-owned businesses, this is a gay Mecca every day of the year. A short day trip from Ft. Lauderdale would be to Palm Beach just a few miles up the highway. South Beach and Miami are just 25 miles south of Ft. Lauderdale. AVIS auto rentals (www.avis.com/prouder) are very reasonably priced and AVIS is the ONLY auto rental company that is gay-friendly. They do not charge extra for your partner driving like the other auto rental companies do. For more information about the GRAND RESORT, visit their web site at: www.grandresort.net. Their toll free number is: l-800-818-1211 with an email address of info@grandresort.net Their address is 539 North Birch Rd. Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33304. Other good websites if planning a visit to Ft. Laurderdale are: ~ (information about gay Ft. Lauderdale), ~(the local gay publication), and www.audace.com (the gay clothing store we visited). As always, if you have any travel questions, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/ gaytraveiers ks Pride Page 19 O'Donnell plans gay parenting magazine 31/05/2004- 12:48:15 Ireland Online Dublin,lreland American comclienne Rosie O'Donnell is planning a new magazine aimed at gay and lesbian parents. R Family Magazine, due out in 2005, is O'Donnell's second attempt at launching a publication. The first, Rosie, died an acrimonious death in 2003 after clashes between her and publishers Gruner And Jahr. O'Donnell's spokeswoman Cindi Berger says: "Rosie d~es hope to launch a magazine in the new year." The former actress ,,·ants a platform to address gay family issues. O'Donnell recently wed her long-term partner Kelli Carpenter in San Francisco. Quotable Quotes "It's not something I would want to do. I think it's more an attempt to assimilate. I don't know why \Ve have to marry in order to get equality. To me it is a human-rights issue. I believe people should be able to bless their relationships any way they choose. This idea that if we can just achieve marital rights then we're gonna be free is a delusion. Because I can assure you right now, we will never be like straight peopie'" Bov George to the Houston Voice, April 30. July 1, 2004 GAY DEMOCRATS ENDORSE SENATOR JOHN F. KERRY FOR PRESIDENT National Stonewall Democrats to Mobilize thousands in Community to Elect Kerry: National Stonewall Democrats is the only national organization of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Democrats, with more than 90 local chapters across the nation. NSD is committed to working through the Democratic Party to advance the rights of all people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. artha' s Vine'f ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volume l Issue 7 Seo y Jill Dearman July 2004 "Push the envelope, Libra!" Page20 es ARIES (March 21 to April 20): Mars, your oh-sobutch planetary ruler, hooks up with communicative Mercury in your house of passionate love. If the idea of your lover sleeping with someone else makes you see red, perhaps you'd better pugh for the kind of commitment you know you really want. A Leo is waiting for a proposal. Get thee to New Paltz. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): If you're struggling with what to do about a troublesome friendship, err on the side of love. Stop being so stubborn, and let an important ally know that you just aced reassurance. Try giving some. A Scorpio can't quite figure you out (and loves it that way). GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Your world is beginning to seriously change, Gemini. lt's up to you to move into the future :md stop holding fast to the past. You can create tbe'!'kiod of life you've always wanted. But yes, dear, you must be braYe. Get off the fence. Another Gemini gives you courage CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): Don't overpower business associates during thi~ cycle. Instead, wow them with your know-how, and stand firm on your deal points. You don't need any drama in your work life. Save that for when you come home to a roleplaying Gemini who wears many masks. LEO Quly 23 to August 22): Your career is about to take off, thanks to one part good fortune (Jupiter) and one part hard work {Saturn), which you've already done plenty 0£ Push forward now, while the planets are with you. Whatever you pitch, people want to buy. A Sagittarius wants to hear your ~piel. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Jupiter's &.bulous trek throngh your ~ign puts you more in charge of your own destiny than eYer before. Start making some moves, doll. Don't just sit there looking sultry. A Pisces is waiting, but is getting restless. Ju;y 1, 2004 LIBRA (September 23 to October 22): Mars and Mercury hook up in your house of group efforts this week. If you push the envelope, you could really start working for a cause you believe in, with friends you adore. An 1\ries finds your altruism awfully appealing. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Stop acting older than you arc, sweetie. This is your time to regress and be as childlike (but not childish) as you wanna be. Get back in touch with your dreams and sense of wonder. A Leo wants to slip under the covers with you. SAGITTARIUS (NoYember 22 to December 21): You have the ability to change lives with your words, so maybe you should pick up a pen and start jotting down some ideas. A new career is imminent, but don'r pin yourself down just yet. Let your mind wander. And let your eyes wander over to a very seli:y Scorpio. CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19): This is a fab rime for vour romantic affairs, dear Capric~rn, if yo~ are willing ro let someone else (like a strong and sexy Taurus) do all the work. Your job? To learn to receive bctrer. Wipe that smutty look off your face, you slut. AQUARlUS 0anuary 20 to February 18): Get all of the tedious tasks out of the way as quickly as possible, h~mey. Io a few shorr weeks, your love life ,vill become your number-one priority, so make sure your slate is clean. A Sagittarius wants to be able to slide into your life gracefully. PISCES (February 19 to March 20): The subtext in your relationships is a lot more fascinating than what's on the surface. Innuendoes abound. Try to probe your parmers about what they really want from you. Or when in doubt, just probe. But bear in mind, a restrained Capricorn is holding out for all your iove. Volume l Issue 7 Page 21 July 1, 2004 Advertis."1?7ent Sam Sampson in Concert Come and Listen to this MultiTalented Musician Produced by God's Child Records Saturday, July 31st , 2004 7:00PM Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street www.samsampson,net River of Life Church 1709 North Walnut Pittsburg, KS Lesbian Notio11s from pagt-15 All of us get indoctrinated into our "proper" gender roles early in life, from the time we're brought home from the hospital in the requisite pink or blue blanket. But somehow queer kids often manage to subvert those roles, by being boy-girls or girl-boys who won't - or can't act exactly as society dictates. And many of us take that with us into our adult relationships. \Vhile it's true that some straight relationships today do shake up gender roles - a female friend of mine mows the lawn, while her male partner washes the dishes - the norm is that wife Jane is burdened because husband Jim rarely "helps" around the house and doesn't bear primary responsibility for the kids. At the same time, their lesbian neighbors Judy and Jo don't have prescribed gender rules to rely on, so they set up a cop acetic arrangement in which each performs the tasks she likes and is good at, rather than those society assigns to women at birth. The disregard of traditional gender roles by same-sex couples is borne out, too, in a few studies about the grown children of lesbian parents (here isn't enough data yet on those of gay male parents) Girls and boys :raised to adult hood by two lesbian moms seem to be much less likely to feel hemmed in by gender expectations than kids raised in mom-and-dad families. \X-'hich makes sense - after all, they've grown up around women who do everything from cooking to repairing leak.-y faucets. Of course, gender nonconformity turns out to • be one of the religious right's biggest fears about lesbians and gay men having children that we'll raise a generation of manly women and womanly men. Jn its tract, "'\)\;'hat's Wrong with Letting Same-Sex Couples Marry'!' the iinily Research Council points with horror to a research study showing that "children of lesbians are less likely to conform to traditional gender norms," seeing that as one of the many things that's "wrong" with our unions. But queer families' gender freedom is something that's very _right_ about them and that may actually help hold our relationships togethec The real nightmare for religious conservatives is that straight wives and husbands might look at same-sex marriages more closely and figure that out, too ......... . Vohnnn 1 Issue 7 Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the fust.15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional wo:rd ... ..... . Good Lookingg,[I give yo11 pkasllf'e, .)'OU desm;e Call Hector@ 816-305-3988 In & Out Cans Night Rates Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse,Joplin, MO. Private bath w / queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv: required. (417) 621-9915 Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. Work in the LGBTS business community. Mail qualifications to: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Business Opportunity: Ever dreamed of owning your own .B&B? Beautiful 4 bed 4 bath 3200sqft fully furnished inJoplin, MO For Sale. Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417-434-0077 1010 E. 20th Joplin MO64804 800-782-7822 Vicki Bronson 417-434-0077 www.vickibronson.com Congratulate that special person with a H 13est Wlsh814.d" in Ozarks Pride Magazine. Only $10.00 for 1/Sth Page unit. Birthdays, I Love You, Anniversaries, Thank You's Mail to:: Oz~rks Pride Magazine, 2401 E. 32nd St, Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804 Ozarks Pride Page 23 July 1, 2004 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Organizations- Arkansas, Fayetteville Ron's Place- - - 523 W. Poplar- - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 \v. Sycamore- 479-571-1300 Arkansas, Fort Smith Burnzee's- -2301 Towson Ave #C- --479-494-7300 j(jnkeads- 10041/2 &.irrison Ave- - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - - -479-782-1845 Missouri, Joplin Ree's- - - - 716 S. Main - - - - ·-417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City Bell Star's - - - 1321 Grand Ave- 816-421-1288 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - -816-561-0625 Sidestreet Bar - - - -413 E. 3rd- - - Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- Buddies - - 3715 Main St 816-531-1775 816- 931-1430 -816-561-2600 Missouri, Springfield The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - --417-831-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive -417-864-4572 Arkansas, Eureka Springs MCC Living Spring- - - - - - - - - -870-253-9337 Kansas, Pittsburg River of Life 1709 N Walnut - - - - - 11AM Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, - - - - -7PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson Ave, - - - 10:30AM Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield (417) Rainbow Christian Cb-837 \YI. Madison-417-866-6206 Unitarian Universalist Church - - - 417-833-2723 APO- 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - - - - 417-864-4459 GLO Community Ctr- 518 E. Commerical-869-3978 Oz Bar - 504 E. Commercial - - - - - -417-831-9001 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - -417-864-0036 MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW SOth- - -405-843-1722 Finish IJne - -2200 NW 39th Expvy- - - 405-525-0730 Club Rox- - - -3535 N\v' 39th Expwy- -405-947-2351 Tnpanga Grill & Bar- 3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick- - 822 S. Sheridan - 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- 7944 E. 21st - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- 124 N. Boston - - - -918-584-9494 New Age Renegades- -1649 S. Main -918-585-3405 Play-Mor-Club- - 1737 S. Memorial- -918-838-9792 Silver Star Saloon- -1565 S. Sheridan -918-834-4234 TNT's- - 2114 S. Memorial- -- - - - -918-660-0856 Tool Box- 1338 E. 3rd- - - - - - 918-584-1308 Yellow Brick Road- - 2630 E. 15th -918-293-0304 -Lodging- Missouri, Joplin -Business Services- Kansas, Pitt~burg Mystic Creations- - - (620)231-6790 Missouri, Joplin Penny Smart,Hair Salon -509 Main- 417-623-3500 Massage By Rachael- - - - - - 417-438-3664 Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-417-434-0077 RE/l\.iAX - - - - -Cathe Letts- - -417-483-5313 Office Max- -440 Rangeline Rd- - - 417-623-1007 CreativeDazeDesign.com- - - - - - - 41 7-623-7809 The Lions Den - - -Austin Letts - 417-623-87 67 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Century21- -4301 NW 63rd #100 - 405- 840-2106 Hollywood Hotel- 3535 NW 39th Ex-405-947-2351 Faces Guesthouse B&B - -417-621-9915 Oklahoma, Tulsa Fairfield Inn by Marriott- - -417-624-7800 Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Harvard - -918-747-5466 Missouri, Ava Catus Canyon Campground - 417-683-9199 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd -877 -7-BOXERS Volume 1 Issue 7 Page 24 OZARKS PRIDE MAGAZINE HAS A NAME CHANGE. Beginning with the August 2004 issue. Serving the 4 States Region of Missouri, Oklahoma, Arkansas and Kansas. We are just getting bigger and better! For AdYertising Information Call (417) 437-2275 The Ozarks Star 2401 E. 32nd Street, Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804-3128 July 1, 2004 It's been seYeral months since George Bush announced he is trying to lead this country by endorsing a discriminatory, unnecessary and undermining amendment to the U.S. Constitution. \'<1e just learned that an actual vote on this proposal has been scheduled in the United States Senate just three weeks from nm.v. You and so many others have been great. We must win this vote and win it big. Members of Congress tell us they're hearing from the other side by a 10 to 1 margin right now. That's why your action today is so critical. During the next few weeks, we intend to get 250,000 people to oppose the Constitutional amendment. That's right: 250,000. We need new people but we also need you to repeat your opposition, even if you ha\·e done so dozens of times already. Even if your legislator already opposes the Amendment. Pcrsisrence makes a difference. It tells our leaders that we will not stop, no matter ·what. Learn what you can do. \,·ww.hrcactioncenter.org Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Ozarks Pride Magazine, July 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 7 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource Ozarks Pride's first issue began in January of 2004. Then follows Ozarks Pride (2004), The Star (2005), and The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Ozarks Pride Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Ozarks Pride Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 1, 2004 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Steve T. 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Kerry Lesbian Notions marriage amendment Out Cruzzin Pride celebration Qscopes Rosie O'Donnell Sam Sampson Springfield Pride The Ozarks Star travel vacation wedding https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bc3ebbac4883448b09f53e49df84e5d0.jpg 383d62c0e5fb1665e2940f9c6d326a87 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c851c5f80290ad0f417c93eb0b34c12c.pdf 4e53b3823f23b4b3979886aaa3d4c493 PDF Text Text ����� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving: SW l'vfissouri SE Kansas NE Oklahoma NW Arkansas Volume-1 Issue-1 "Community " Juplin Missouri: "Community?" ... Just what can be said about it, for it, or to support it? I believe that we have to understand what community is before we can progress to developing that which we have not had ..... . See editorial !Xll/-2 ...... ... . Ozarks Pride Magazine is published monthly and distributed to area business and other outlets free of charge the first week of each month. Subscription service will be available soon. Community Unity Letters To The Editor:--- A Diverse Community Voice Joplin, :rvfissouri January 2004 Gay and sbian Military '~ Gay Man Serving" I am writing this column as a service member, just as many in the GLBT community are or have been. It is a perspective of my views as a military member, having served for over si.-..: years. It is a common misconception among the general public that gay service members are a fluke. People, especially in tb.e sheltered straight world, assume that the only gays in the military are lesbians. I am very happy to burst these misconceptions by saying that the gay community is alive and well in the US military. The military is almost a subculture of homosexuals. Although, in the 'don't ask, don't tell' era, enlistees are told to sign a contract stating that he/ she will not pursue or engage in homosexual sex or marry, attempt to marry anyone of the same sex upon enlistment. This is the major loop hole that commanders take advantage of to conduct "witch hwits" within their units. Even in light of this, I have come to realize that many (I would almost say most) of the personnel in the military are accepting of gays. Ontti1111td Gay l&!ikiry-/XI§ 3 Volume 1 Issue I Publisher: Ozarks Pride Magazine 2401 E. 32nd St. Suite 10 Box 10-243 Joplin, :M:issouri 64804-3128 www.ozarkspride.com Editor: C.D. Ward Managing Editor: T.J. Kelly Advertising Director: Chaz Stonn Staff Reporters: Marion Wilson Gf'81J Steele Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Editorial- page 2 Letters to Editor- pagef The Guide- page 7 Aunt Bea's Recipe's- page 7 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $6.00 par issue Inside Half Page- 15.00 Inside Full Page- $25.00 per issue Inside Third Pags- $10.00 Ozm Pride Maga:d1111t publishi!d & cls-1bied roontly • a amnunllr ww:e by Ozsb Pride Gn:q, rl. Jcpin, Muolli. Pooliclllon rl. tile name, pboklgr,ph oc aar- rl. any p«QI, business ocorganlzallon in this publem! la notio beCOIIA'Ulld as 1111y in<bllon rl. sexual cninllllon a,- prelsences of IWI penoo, b~ oc organiz• lion. Opinions e,:presMd by collmllsls, 11M111Mn a,- L.«ti, to ths 5:ltor 1,e not~ fl8 opinion rl. Ozrit Prldt MIQazhe. b mi!; fie pui.h"' or l's 1CMl!llsin. eoo•nt rl. lCMll1lemen11 Ind n:le5 n the so.It responlliblly of hi idwl11ler and I« uhor. The Publsher rl. Ozm Prldt M!Qszitt re-lhe right io reluee ~i l!lllillNj b' ,ny Rl8IOn ,rlllt so -· Oz,lb Prldl! and,. lbne-11-el'I rl. n sole propertesof Oz1rb Prldt G,a;ip. All mnwlal C cop)'right 2004 Olllb Prldt Deadline for all ads, articles and payment is the 20th of each month at 4pm for the next months issue. Page 2 January 2004 j Guest Editorial: ByStevc Uric: When I heard that people in the community where wanting to publish a newspaper; the news was received \11/lth quite expectation then I was ask to write an article. This brought to heart agonizing memories of newsletters and newspapers of bygone days but triggered the "Oh, I have a forum to visit with." The topic being one of great interest for me for a number of years \11/lth more questions than there are answers for. "Community?" ... Just what can be said about it, for it, or to support it? I believe · that we have to understand what community is before we can progress to developing that which we have not had. Community has multiple definitions. First, it can be a noun, meaning simply a group of people ( or for that fact gorillas who seem to do a better job of it than people ) with like relationships, culture, socioeconomic standards and even possibly belief structures. Then more importantly, it can be a verb. It is an art, an action, and an opportunity for people with common threads to bond together to support and nurture each other in every way possible. This of course brings;backmemories of my return to Joplin in.1996: 0Jntin11ed on pa;ge 4 Ozarks Pritle Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to·unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for thie:r rights and to;voicc opioos. This region has ll. huge GLBT population who is silent. Volume-1 Issue-1 Page 3 Gay Military .. ···"'•li•11,dfrr,,,,fa1t! t Especially with the military today training and working with multinational task forces and on international deployments. People are seeing how easy it is to be accepting of homosexuals as many of our closest allies are. A couple of examples are that the French military camp in Sarajevo has a gay bar and the Scandinavians are very accustom to having requests from gays to be roommates so to carry on a relationship. The US and British seem to be the only militaries in the industrialized free world that seem to think gays aren't worth serving. Not all are as accepting, but not as forbidding as we are either. Although, with the bureaucracy of today's military, I feel that commanders and supervisors are happy when you show up, do your job and stay out of trouble. The latter being the most important. . ... ,.,,, .• ~-.;1 "'"""• CommWlity Senice MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Service 7PM Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 64803 January 2004 _\dverti,ement Faces Guesthouse A Bed & Breakfast 327 N Jackson Ave. Joplin, Missouri 64801 Reservations Required (417) 621-9915 Take our virtual tour on the web: www.facesguesthouse.com Gay Miliauy ..... I think that if the US went to a conscript army, as most European armies are, homosexuals would be expected to serve. (Not that I nor most in the military would endorse a military where one is forced to serve.) Most people in my unit knew I was gay, including my commander and her commander. No one ever gave me grief over it, although I was expected to redesign the interior of our headquarters building. I found that the men in my unit became very protective of me, especially when someone wanted to tell a gay joke. None of them had a problem living in close quarters with me on deployments or Field exercises. All of the talk of gays hurting morale and esprit-de-corps had no leg to stand on in my experience. But, there are times when homosexuals need help. That is why we have the Legal Defense Network, a group of pro bono lawyers (many former military) that give le~ assistance to homosexuals in the military. One day, I am sure, there will be no need for the Legal Defense Network or for people like me to say that serving your country is okay even if you arc a homoscxwtl. But until then it is up to the GLBT and PH .. AG communities to open the eyes of the law makers and the general public to the fact that we arc here to stay and we arc willing to serve ...... . Community: ro11ti1111ed jn,,,, Pfll! 2 Page4 A local pride organization was publishing a newsletter back then and a young man having resigned from the organization was published raking the community up one side and down the other for it's lack of accomplishment and support of itself. Every word was a point of frustration, pain and anguish. Tbrough lack of leadership or community support the organization diminished and died. Thus making his very prophetic words truth. Now what can we do about this, how can we create what is or has been missing and how can we allow for leadership to take hold and carry a standard forward. Spirit of Christ MCC is a church with a mission and that is to carry the standard of Christ to any and all that have been literally thrown away by every other church· or discarded by society. The church is the longest surviving organization in Joplin that reaches out to a special community and that is a community of ALL people without restriction. For six years the church has worked on developing community and finally this year the fruits of that effort started to be seen in the greater community ... yes Conti1111ed next robimn: ............... .. AdP,rfilm,1111 KOLORZ &giAmos Located Inside •REES l.a1Dtgt Fri-Sat 10p-111 716 1. main Joplin,MO -417-48371 J7 i!vyrc@yahoo.com worlc for pea.:e w.alk wi:b pride January 2004 community ... we started to see it coming together. People of different backgrounds.joining together to create a good for everyone by: sharing information, developing interpersonal relationships and business partnerships. Businesses are exchanging flyers and business cards, when someone chal:. le:nges thelegitimacy of a business; the ,."oQier business leaders step up and · support them. There is no king or queen of the hill but businesses and individuals with a common goal to devdop a long standing community that doesn't just benefit one person or another but everyone. Now that is community. Those businesses along with the church are reaching out and helping not just each other but people in the area as well. Monies, equipment and supplies are being distributed to help others. Now that is community. Can we have community in Joplin? Yes! The example is being set and you can be a part of it. Support the efforts of this newspaper, the businesses and organizations that stand together in the belief that we can do it. It's not competition; it's good sense! Steve T. Urie Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC On"Line: Tickle Your Brain: Take the most accurate IQ test on the web. http:/ /web.tickle.com/tests/uiq/ I Ozarks Pride Page 5 Fourth Annual Christmas Open House /y Jtajf rrpomr Grrg Skelt Joplin, MO- Tim Baker and Tom Walton's 4th year to host the Christmas open house charity for "Aids Project of the Ozarks" APO, to provide non perishable goods for members of APO. Tom and Tim opened their home to all who could and those who could not give to this worthy cause. APO members who are drflendant on food stimps and a small·social security disability income rely <?n . APO and other organizations to get them:through eac_h m?ntli. Since Food stamps will only'buy food , C:?"eryclay items such as laundry soap,. bleach, toilet paper, paper towds, pet food, furniture polish, dish soap, as we 'all know are necessities to fonction day to day, are out of pocket expenses for.those on foqd stamps. We who think nothing of buying a pack of bar soap do not realize people who pay rent ¢d utilities 6n;$600.00 per month Social Security,:go without these non luxury items. · · · Your Support co~tact APO (417) 881-1900 or MCC Spirit of Christ,Joplin (417) 206-6179 to make your contribution.--------- Advertlsem911t Cellular Mobile System AT&T Authorized Dealer January 2004 Admtismfent Call Travis (417) 825-0774 Free Ph~ne Car Charger , From $600.00 , no license, L.::==========================1 I tag, insurance, or drivers " Kwanzaa " Kwanzaa comes from Swahili meaning "first fruit". Based on ancient African traditions, embraces seven principles: unity, selfdetermination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity, and faith. Kwanzaa is a holiday created by Maulana Karenga in 1966 an"d is observed by more than 28 million people from Dec 26 to Jan L. ............. .. license required. On Sale Nowl 716 S. Main, Joplin Mo after4pm 417-627-9035 or Contact David At cell phone 816-651-4425 V olume-1 Issue-1 Page 6 qt~hid.Pres~~~ Ri~h ~aeash . , . . . Ef :t ' BRAS~ Brazil (Reuters) - The heil.d of tho' . W o · · · · on Suri.day qrgeit' ·· . · to:figllf . devastating AfricJUl nations .. ,' WHO.D.irector General Jong-Woo~ on Britain, ifapan and Scandinavian~ . . parti§ular to donate more money to.~e bijafa;· zation's.global push against the disease, csti~ mat~J,o be killing 8,0Gqtp~o;ple !\)fay. s.lc~ "The tr~nd is more mQQ.ey is b . . able, WC have to put in more re gestions and pressure to.the Lee, in Brazil for a globlil h · He said "very urgent action and•:irilf1he .busi- . ness-~-usual approach" was needed, · · Funding to battle HIV/ AIDS has increased from $3.2 billion in 2002 to $4.7 still less than half the yearly total Nations has called for to fight the epidemic . and provide drugs to treat people infected by HIV. The WHO earlier this month unveiled plans to rush life-saving antiretroviral (ARV) AIDS > drugs to 3 million of the world'spoortiy 2Q05: and train 10,000 health workers. · ·• .\~~~. Lee said HIV had now infected.'riearly 40 per~.•·. cent of people in Botswana and half the population would die of AIDS unless urgent action was taken. Life expectancy inMozambique is expected to fall to 27 years due to the disease. In 2002 around $1 billion was spent on fighting HIV and AIDS in Africa, which is thought to have nearly 30 million of the 40 million people infected by the disease. The United States has promised $15 billion over five years to combat AIDS, especially in Africa It has come under fire for only earmarking $2 billion for the program next year. Earlier this year, Britain said. it would give a global AIDS fund $280 million through to 2008 after initially pledging $200 million for five years in 2001. --------------- January 2004 Adl'lrlis,mmt Join Chaz andJasonNewYears Eve After Hours Party! 205 Highland,Joplin Call 623-3412 For Details. Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome. your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401E 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Emaii: editor@ozarkspride.com I Ozarks Pride Page 7 Aunt Bea's Infamous Recipes! Sock it Too Me, Whitt Btan and S altSdf,t S o,p: 4 tablespoons virgin olive oil 1 1/2 pounds of Italian sausage in casing 2 medium carrots 2 medium onions 2 doves of garlic (minced) 2 stalks of celery 1 teaspoon dried thyme 1 teaspoon thyme leaves 3 (15oz cans white beans) 1 quart chicken broth 2 teaspoons Tony Chachere's Creole Seasoning 1 cup white wine ( I drank the rest of the Bottle!) Heat oil in large, deep pan. Brown whole sausages; remove to cool for about five minutes. Cut celery, onions, and carrots into small dice. Brown vegetables in same pan . with garlic for about 10 minutes. Puree one can of white beans; add to vegetables. Cut sausage into small slices and add to vegetables, along with broth, wine and remaining beans. Simmer 30 minutes. Then let it cool for 10 minutes girls or it will bum your business. SAM HARRIS MAKES KANSAS CITY DEBUT Kau,1 a1y, MO/,_ MM ... 11 r;,.,, On Saturday, March 13, 2004 Kansas Citv will have the opp~rtunity to hear on of the most exciting Broadway performers of the last two decades. Sam Harris, in concert at Folly Theater. In a .benefit for I !ARC (Heartland AIDS Resource Council), Sam Harris will make his debut in Kansas City. Tickets fro this benefit concert are $30 and $40 and can be purchased through the Folly Box office on January 5, 2004. For more information you can email : harcbenefit@sbcglobal.net Midwest Times is the proud media sponsor for this event. January 2004 ~our States Community Directory -Bars-:-Nightclubs- Ron's:----Fayetteville, AR--( 479)442-3052 Wtld-On---Fayettcville, AR--( 479)521-9453 Ree's----Joplin, MO--(417)627-9035 Edge>------Springfield, M0-(417)831-4700 Martha's Vineyard-Springfield, MO-(417)831-6144 Oz:------Springfield, MO-(417)866-3876 Rov.isuz Place---Springfield, M0-(417)864-0036 Bamboo Lounge--Tulsa, OK--(918)836-8700 The End Up-----Tulsa, OK--(918)282-6503 Heads & Tails---Tulsa, OK--(918)6607878 Club Majestic---Tulsa, OK--(918)584-9494 Renegade:s----Tulsa, OK--(918)585-3405 Play-Mor-Club---Tulsa, OK---(918)838-9792 Si!Yer Star Saloon--Tulsa, OK---(918)838-4234 1NT's-----Tulsa, OK---(918)660-0856 Tool Box----Tulsa, OK--(918)584-1308 -Lodging- Faces Guesthouse B&B Joplin, MO(417)621-9915 -Restaw:ants- --Organizations- MCC Spirit of Christ--2902 E 20th, Joplin, MO-7PM MCC United Tulsa-1623 N. Maplewood-918-838-1715 MCC Living Spring-Eureka Springs, AR-870-253-9337 Rrunbow Christian Church-Springfield, MO---- Aids Project of the Ozarks- 513 Kentuclq,, Joplin, Ml J----417-624-5788 -Business ScrviccsKolon----- Joplin, MO--(417)483-7117 Cellular Mobil Sya--Joplin, MO-(417)825-0774 Penny Smart, Hair Salon-Joplin, M0-(417)623-3500 Massage By Rachacl-:loplin, MO--(417)438-3664 Mystic Cn::1.rions--Pinsburg, KA--{620)231-6790 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC-Tulsa, OK---(918)747-5466 dVoi:alie !J(nJyhi Miss Merry Christmas 2004 Ree's of Joplin ~lffi: MONDAYTUESDAYWEDNESDAYTHURSDAYFRIDAY - SATURDAYAdvertisement I 716 S, MAIN ST. JOPLIN, M □ (417) 627·9 □ :35 I MOMDAY Ntelff roontAll Wini mar, DJ lR' UN TY nlltDAY Wffll TlnY DANf!INe Wffll DJ LR.' UN mMIO Ntelff-ffACI ftlOW AND uuon wrn1 DJ ltOftll Tiil lOftll WAlDR ftlOWOft AND DJ Ill' ON !AflllDAY DAMCI PlltTY Wffll DJ U' ftlftl Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Ozarks Pride Magazine, January 1. 2004; Volume 1, Issue 1 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource Ozarks Pride's first issue began in January of 2004. Then follows Ozarks Pride (2004), The Star (2005), and The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document A Community Voice Magazine Volume-1 Issue-2 "It's A Life, Not A Lifestyle" February 2004 Volume I Issue 2 Publisher: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, 11issouri 64804-3128 w-Vlw.ozarkspride.com Editor: C.D. Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Managing Editor: T.J. Kelly Advertising Director: Chaz Storm Staff Reporters: Marion Wilson Greg Steele Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Editorial-page 2 Guest Editorial-- page 2 Letters to Editor- page 3 Kansas CivU Union-page 7 Gay Travelers-10 Community Directory- page 15 Chef Greg - page 15 Advertising Rates: Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Card Size Ad- $10.00 per issue (3 Mooth Minimum) Inside Half Page - $35.00 Inside Full Page - $55.00 per issue Inside Third Page - $20.00 Deadline for all ads, articles and payment is the 20th of each month at 4pm for the next months issne. Ozm Pridll Magazine is published & di1~tued rnontiy as a cornronlty se;vk:e by Ozm Pridll Gloup oi Joplln, !.111011ri. Publlcallon of ti& neme, pl'ooqillll)h or il:eoffl <I ,r,y pnon. bllli.or org!Nllzalion in this publcallon is not i> be consiUld 11111y intblon of sexull olientlllon or preiefel'ICN d 1ld1 pel»\, bu~ or orgnza. lion. Oplnioias expressed by coh.mra11, ad......_. or f..elf111 b fl!e EdlCY e,e oot ~ Ila opmn <I Ozm PriJe M8',llzi1e, fr rllif, Ille ~b/ithtrortfllNfdlrfl, ,a Coniut<I act.wtsemeoll .-.cl d:lel are ti& so,lt responlibay o<the adv8'tllN' IOd /or IUlllor. Tl-e Publilhllrd Ozris PriJe Mrguhe - !he rlghti> rsJSe adllsfling maria! b' a,y ,easoo wl>et IO -· Ozert: PriJe INld .. lb-lt,are<I11181019 ~ <I OZirb PriJe Group. ~ malllllll C cop)liglt 200( Ozm ,,,.., Page 2 February 2004 Gay /Lesbian Discrimination Measure Approved ! Jefferson City, MO Ozarks Pride Editorial: An anti-gay marriage proposal has passed a house committee. The Children and Families Committee has approved a measure that will go to the full Missouri House for consideration. The proposal defines marriage as a "union between a man and a woman" and if passed by both entities of the State Legislature and signed by the Governor, will be on the November ballot for a vote of the people. Continued page - 8 Guest Editorial: By Steve T. Urie: Holy State of Matrimony .. . Holy Union ... Holy Smoke ... ! Wow! another month has passed and I am reading through stacks of articles, legal advisories, computer downloads and watching the Democratic hopefuls playing at being politically correct in dealing with one of the hottest potatoes in generations. Just what is that hot potato ... allowing same sex marriage! The Boston Globe carried an article, "AT A CROSSROADS ON GAY UNIONS", the Washington Post, "SAME-SEX UNIONS MOVE CENTER STAGE, Key Black Leaders such as Carol Moseley Braun, recent Democratic Presidential candidate, The Hon. Willie Brown, Mayor of San Francisco, Whoopi Goldberg, Actor/Producer, Coretta Scott King, Civil Rights Activi5,tat1d to many to name here are supporting our dream. A dream of equal rights and the end to the last bastion of civil discrimination-'- the right to have our committed relationship recognized, legalized and the granting ofoenefits currently given to only heterosexual marriages. Conli11Ntd 011 Ptlfl 5 .. ... . Volume-1 Issue-2 Page 3 8"''1<""""'~ """"=0"' = """' JJ=':0 'I'.-,;;,======-= ~ ~"" ""''" p:~ ~tt&c ~ '#KJ 11/ll~tt: . ~ « J ~5fa:;;,_Y0!!0&="+@ «p '"00=.,,J:0%="'~~~ db;;;t,"'KP~~«,,;,~ ""$!, 'G"" ,s/t~ Y~ Angry Citizen Speaks Out! "The Presid.ents American Values" Bear Editor: The Bush administration wants to have a debate about values in America. Well, let's give him one. In George Bush's America, 35 million people live in poverty while the wealthiest Americans got a 1.5 trillion dollar tax cut. Let me repeat that: 1.5 trillion dollars. What kind of values does that represent, Mr. Bush? Corporate profits are up 46%, but 12 million children don't have any health care. Are those the values Bush wantsto defend? His policies value wealth over work, special interests over our interests and the rights of the privileged few over the rights of the rest ofus. These are not American values. In George Bush's America, our patriotism is questioned when we disagree with his war in Iraq. I question the patriotism of a leader who sends his troops to fight and die based on unproven assertions, sketchy intelligence reports and an imminent threat that never materialized. February 2004 ~\dvertisement Faces Guesthouse A Bed & Breakfast 327 N Jackson Ave. Joplin, Missouri 64801 Reservations Required (417) 621-9915 Take our virtual tour on the web: www.facesguesthouse.com No weapons of mass destruction have been found and I do not believe Iraq is responsible for 9-11. I question the patriotism of a leader who gives billions of dollars of no-bid contracts in Iraq to politically connected corporations, while drastically cutting Veteran's benefits here at home. I question the patriotism of a leader who promises us security from terrorists, yet police and fire fighters are still desperately under funded. Of the millions of containers entering our nations ports every day, only 3% are screened for dangerous materials. I question the patriotism of a leader who turns his back 011 the rest of the world to pursue preemptive war, ruining America's reputation among the community of nations. Instead of America standing as a shining light of freedom for the world to see, America is seen as an arrogant bully who will bomb anyone who gets in our way. Are these your values, Mr. Bush? In George Bush's America, companies are allowed to move their offices offshore to avoid taxes. Americans are losing their jobs because corporations are moving manufacturing plants to foreign countries. all in the name of increasing profits . .. See page 13 I Volume I Issue 2 Page4 Want a VOICE in your community? We wdcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. Tiiis publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We w.mt you to speak OUf / Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles subniitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW .Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW .-\rkansas. Our niission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice opion's. This region has a huge GLBT population who is silent. Adwrtist111111t Adwrtmmmt KOLORZ &giA/nos Located Inside •REE'S l.ol<llf:II Fri-Sat 10p-1R 716 ,. main Joplin,MO -417-4837117 ilvyr(@yaboo.('Om work for peace wia!lc with pride February 2004 Lesbian daughter promises to lobby. Before Gephardt 4th place finish in Iowa, Crissy Gephardt, the lesbian daughter of Dick Gephardt, said that if her father is elected, she would be able to advocate for gay rights inside the white house. Gephardt strongly opposes a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriages. He has also said "We ought to lift the ban completely on gay's in the military. Don't Ask, Don't Tell doesn't work." Possible Dick will consider the·democratic nomination for VicePresid.entl ·.· · • . • ·;, ·.;f~ Good.News From Joplin Regional Press release Joplin, MO ..... Trans States Airlines announced a third flight will be added at Joplin Re- . gional Airport. Trans StaJes operates the American Connection co.mmuter carrier between Joplin and St Louis. This new flight will.take effect March 2, 2004. Leaving Joplil) at 11: 14am, arriving in St Louis 12:30. pm. The revised weekday schedule leaving Joplin is 6:25 am, 11 :14am and 4:14pm. Leaving St Louis for Joplin at 9:29 am, 2:02 pm and 6:39pm. A big boost for Joplin Regional, this additional flight will make connections in ST Louis to other destinations much more flexible for travelers. Volume-1 Issue-2 Page 5 M.trimony ... .. ronlimted frwn page 2 Rev. Troy Perry of Metropolitan Community Churches says, 'The reality is that many nations of the world- including Canada, Denmark, Sweden, Germany, France and the Netherlands - have moved far beyond the United States by providing legal marriage benefits to same-sex couples. Vermont made headlines across the country when it approved Civil Unions for same sex couples and now the Massachusetts Supreme Court has ruled in favor of same-sex marriage in that state. Yes it is now time! We have reached the crossroads and.dared to cross over, we have open one mote :closet ·door we cannot and must not let it close again. The dream that many ofus have is now wide open to those around us and we must make a decision. That decision is to take a stand, let our families know, our friends know, our coworkers know and to let our government leaders know we are here, we are not going away and we expect them to listen to us. We want our rights. We have too long been silent and that has only lead to bashing and the denial of those rights. I have found that there are always risk involved in speaking out but have found a greater good in people when I have ex- . pected that in them. I have ~iscussed this topic with family, coworkers and others the past three weeks and the majority have been supportive of an end to this discrimination. Oh yes, there were those that said why do you have to bring it up, parade it around us and make such a big deal. I can only look at them and say, "Because it is a big deal!" Equality in marriage has been addressed since 1948, the year before my birth ... isn't it time to put it to rest? .... ront-nex·t co/Jm,,; Febru:iry 2004 We can look at marriage/civil unions and wonder why that piece of paper appears so important. It is because society has made that piece of paper important: l. It offers benefits that we have been denied; 2. It shows a commitment of two people who care and love each other; 3. It offers a change in our lives and the way we are treated; 4. It calls for a maturity so often lacking in our relationships; and 5. It takes us to a new level of responsibility. Are you up to the challenge? It is the right thing to expect and to do! Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, Missouri , An OP community service announcement 11 : 1 Will You Be My Valentine? ! I UCCFF is hosting a Valentine's Dinner & Dance 011 Saturday, February 14th starting at 7pm. Yes, that's actuallv on Valentine's Day! The evening in~ludes a buffet dinner, beverages, and dancing. Come one. Come all. It is free & open to the public. Let's I support our community, bring our I partners & friends, and maybe even I : meet that someone special. How roi I mantic! United Church of Christ I Faniil}' F~llo:,v:rup,. 204 N. Jackson 1 Ave, Joplin. \j; eb s1te: ! (,vww.uccff.com) Volume l Issue 2 Page 6 February 2004 Published Sunday, January 25, 2004 Same-Sex Couples Prepare for Registry By CONNIE MABIN Associated Press Writer CLEVELAND HEIGHTS, Ohio Doug Braun and his partner of 14 years couldn't wait for Monday morning, the first day they could go to City Hall to place their names in a registry recognizing them as domestic partners. They will walk away with a notarized piece of paper that legally means nothing, but to Braun, 42, and his partner, Brian DeWitt, 48, it will be tlie most important day of their lives. "It's not a marriage, 11 Braun said. "For us, it's a show of our commitment to each . other, it's sometlimg concrete that we can hold on to and show all of the thousands of hours we put in to work on this." The domestic registry for gay and straight unmarried partners was approved in November by voters in Cleveland Hei an upscale Cfeveland suburb of 50,000 residents. It passed with 55 percent of vote. Domestic registries have been created by councils and state legislatures elsewhere - the Vermont Legislature created the nation's first law recognizmg the relationships of same-sex couples, and California created a statewide stry for same-sex coupfes and gave them some of the legal standing of married ses - but this was the first through a ballot issue, accordmg to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. The Ohio g of the Cleveland · fature passed one o also comes less than a week after the ost-far reaching bans on gay iparriage. The registry is not marriage and it's not binding on courts, governments or coI_DPanies. But hope it will make it easier for couples to eventually share employment · perty or get hospital visiting nghts. Opponents, including the Cleveland Heights Familv First Initiative, -say it's.wrong for a city to legitimize a lifestyle many disagree with. A statement from tlie group said the registry attempts to "redefine marriage" and that "will have very serious negative effects on our society as a whole." Keli Zehnder, 3 7, and her partner, Deborah Smith, 44 a couple for seven years alrea! fy have powers of attorney and wills spelling out their wishes regarding each other and their two young daughters. • But Zehnder said it was important that they register on the first day as a payoff for the intense campaigning that led to the successful vote. "This piece of stuff is more va she said. feels more meaningful than the other stuff even though the other in some ways. This is something that I worked on for l] months," Cleveland Heights, about 10 miles southeast of Cleveland, is home largely to middleand upper-class professionals and has funky clothing shops, artsy cafes, familyowned restaurants and historical homes. Conti11ued wme-sexpage-12 Volume-1 lssue-2 '-------------~ Page7 February 2004 CIVIL UNION PRESS RELEASE "First Gay Couple in Kansas gets Civil Union in Vermont" Donald Pile and Ray Wi11iams of Shawnee Mission, Kansas became the first gay couple in Kansas history to get a legal Civil Union in America. . They write the travel column OUT ON VACATION in several gay newspapers and magazines including OZARK'S PRIDE . They have been Antiques dealers for over 25 years. They were staying at the von Trapp Family Lodge/Resort in Stowe, Vermont during the holidays and on the first day of Winter, Dec. 22nd Pete Hartt, Justice of the Peace and Editor of the Stowe Register performed the ceremony outside under the Gazebo in the Town Square. at 5 PM. A blanket of36 inches of snow surrounded them. The couple have been together for nearly 33 years and they just felt that it was time to "make it legal" at least in Vermont. Now as other States recognizes same-sex unions their license and certificate will be good in those States as well. On their 25th Anniversary, Candice Gingrich of the Human Rights Campaign \¥rote "Your enduring relationship is another shining example of what "family values" is and should be about - trust, security, love, commitment." Elizabeth Taylor wrote a hand written letter "You have certainly reached an important milestone in your lives together and I send you my best wishes. May the next 25 years be every bit as special." Here is the vows that Pete Hartt, Justice of the Peace and Editor of the Stowe, Vermont newspaper read: "Do you Donald, invite you Ray into this union with love and passion and respect. Will you protect him as he needs protection, support him as he needs support and free him as he needs freedom and love him every day? Do you Ray, invite you Donald into this union with love and passion and respect. Will you protect him as he needs protection, support him as he needs support, and free him as he needs freedom, and love him every day? I Donald, take you Ray, to be my partner, to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer from this day forward I Ray, take you Donald, to be my partner, to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer from this day forward. "By the power vested in me by the State ofVennont, I now pronounce you partners in Civil Union" Pete Hartt, Justice of the Peace Stowe, Vermont Volume l Issue 2 Page 8 Discrimination from page-2 Rep. Kevin Engler, Republican-Farmington is the sponsor of the measure and expects it to pass the full House. If passed by the voters in November, the State Constitution would be amended preventing judicial intervention. Ozarks Pride animatedly opposes this blatant move to write discrimination against the GLBT community into the state constitution. This is just another attempt by state Legislators who fear same-sex couples and the general Gay/Lesbian community threaten family values. With Missouri leading the nation in Meth production, our elected Legislators seem to think WE ARE THE BIGGER THREAT! Will we soon be expected to give up our right to vote or to be' seen in public without a pink triangle sewn on our clothing? We as a community have the power to make a difference, if we get off the bar stool and defend those rights we've gained and fight for what is our God given right to legally choose a life partner recognized by the world community as legitimate. We are not second class citizens of these United States of America. In 1968 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. gave a powerful speech in Memphis: He told his audience" to give (themselves) to this struggle (for equality) until the end. We go up together or we go down together" This applies to gay and lesbians today as it did to African Americans during their civil rights struggle of the 60's. Our vote still counts! If you are not a registered voter, you can not vote and voting this election year is crucial. We encourage you to get registered if your not, and vote in every local, state and national election. We can make a difference. C.D. Ward, Editor Ozarks Pride February 2004 Adurlinmmt Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 S Range Line, Joplin, MO 64804 Reservation {417) 624-7800 1010 E. 20th St. Joplin, MO 64804 i-800-231-782-7822 Vicki Bronson www.vickbronson.com 417--434-0077 Joe Bannan tn.d Rodney Burgamy 4301 NW' 63rd, Suite 100-Oklahom~ City, OK 73116 <IOS-840-2106-->www.c21-goldcasde.com AdPtrlim111nt Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nail Salon 'Penny Smart 509 Main* Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments ( 417) 623-3500 ) February 2004 Local Talent Charlie Smith Releases First CD By Greg Steele Staff Reporter Joplin, MO .... Iola Kansas native Charlie Smith, a 38 year old gifted artist released his first CD "Always For You" in November 2003. Charlie won his first talent contest at age seven. "The honors and accolades since, have been a tremendous blessing," Charlie said . Perhaps one of his favorite honors came in 2000, when Sam Butcher, the founder of Precious Moments created an 18-inch "Charlie" doll. The first blackPrecious Moments figurine was created in Smith's honor. Smith, a resident of SW Missouri for 5 years, now lives in Neosho and works in Joplin. He attends Spirit of Christ MCC church in Joplin where he is the Music Director. In addition to working and his church responsibilities, Charlie is a regular performer with the Branson Gospel Music Association. With performances in Branson and around the four states area. For bookings call Charlie at (417) 451-3924 or email smitchck6@4state.com. "Always For You" CD is available locally at Eccentrics, Bookbarn, Hastings, Great Expectations, and For AU Bible in Northparlc Mall. The album will also soon be sold on the internet site http://www.mccjoplin.com. The music style of the album range from a little bit of Gospel, a little bit of Spiritual Jazz and I detect just a little bit of Country. The song titles include pop and soul influence and the Jazz inspired title song "Always For You" ,,\n Ozarks Pride Community Service .Announcemmt MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Service 7PM Community Meal served Wednesday's at 6:00pm, cost $3.00. No one is turned away. Our meal is always nutritionally balanced. Dinners include desert, drink and good fellowship. Take out meals are also available. Bring your friends and family. Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 64803 Www.mccjoplin.com Volume-1 lssuL~ 2 Page 10 PALM SPRINGS, CALIFORNIA by Donald Pile & Ray Williams gaytravclers@aol.com We have found a most exciting and wonderful new gay resort in this city where gay resorts are plentiful. TERRAZZO, located at 1600 East Palm Canyon Dr. is conveniently located close to downtown, shopping and the gay bars. The owners/hosts are Tom and Doug, formerly from Denver. The TERRAZZO is a wonderful 12 room resort surrounding . a heated swimming pool, ( clothing optional), Jacuzzi, on-site gym and luscious tropical gardens. The resort has both suites .. · and rooms that includes the finest of linens, direct dial phones, 27"1V, DVD, VCR & CD player, individual climate ~----------~ control, high speed Internet access, premium Judith Jackson bath amenities and wonderful soft waffle piquet robes for their guests. All rooms come with a microwave, refrigerator wet bar, hair dryer, iron and ironing board. They have four balcony queen rooms upstairs, 5 queen rooms downstairs and 3 king suites including the Deluxe King Suite. The King size suite has French doors opening to the pool and courtyard. All rooms and suites have saltillo tile floors. Complimentary breakfast is served each morning at poolside or if you wish, breakfast will be brought directly to your room. A complimentary gourmet lunch is served daily poolside. Complimentary beverages and. snacks are available throughout the day. This is truly a fabulous resort for the gay traveler. Whether coming to Palm Springs to take advantage of the city or just to relax in this beautiful resort, we promise that you will enjoy it. The owners/hosts Tom and Doug are extremely hospitable in addition to being an extremely handsome couple. They have been together for over 8 years and enjoy being around people and it certainly shows. They love to assist their guests in whatever they need to while visiting Palm Springs. They are the PERFECT hosts. As we travel throughout the United States, we have noticed that many owners hire managers and that in itself can be a major problem. Tom and Doug are the owners AND managers and they control everything themselves to insure that each guest gets full attention. And full attention to EVERY detail is what you get here. They have won the prestigious Editor's Choice Award from Out and About magazine and is rated "Four Palms". It is just a short drive to downtown. major shopping, museums and art galleries. Right across the street is a grocery store, drug store, post office and other stores and restaurants. But once inside, the TERRAZZO is a world of it's own. And THAT is what is important. So many times we check into a resort and want to get out to have fun and relax. Here you stay IN, to have fun and relax. While we were there last time we met a lot of interesting single guys and couples who were enjoying TERRAZZO. Their web site is: www.terrazzo-ps.com and their email address is: reservations@terrazzops. com and their toll free phone number is: 1-866-837-7996. This is one of the finest gay resorts that we have ever been to. We KNOW that you will enjoy it too! We always meet so many new people everytime we go to Palm Springs. On our first trip there we met Stefen Hemming who owns the estate of the late Liberace. He purchased it with all the furniture, pianos and crystal candelabras. The "Casa de Liberace" is absolutely FABULOUS! Continued page- Page 11 February 2004 Gay Travelers- Palm Springs continued: And while in Palm Springs be sure to check out some of our other favorite places including TOUCAN'S TIKI LOUNGE, 2100 N. Palm Canyon Drive. It is a wonderful bar full of dancing, live shows and FUN! The owners and staff are extremely friendly and KNOW how to treat their customers. There are about a dozen gay bars in Palm Springs . . One fabulous performer that you MUST SEE is Rudy de la Mor. He is the most fantastic performer. He sings, he plays the piano, he really knows how to keep his audience in the palm of his hand. He plays weekly at the Rainbow Cactus Bar in downtown Palm Springs. Another must on your things to see and do in Palm Springs is the FABULOUS PALM SPRINGS FOLLIES, located downtown at 128 So. Palm Canyon Drive. It is a Las Vegas style show with feathers, headdresses, costumes and much better than what you see in Las Vegas. Singing, dancing and plenty oflaughter is their entertainment. What makes this show so fabulous is that all of the performers are between 60 and 85! Do not miss this show. Our two favorite restaurants in Palm Springs are MELVYN'S in the Ingleside Inn located at 200 West Ramon Rd. just two blocks west of downtown. It is like stepping into "Old Hollywood". Theiood, the service and the atmosphere is PERFECT! Mel Haber, the owner knows how to keep his guests coming back year after year. According to Life Styles of the Rich and Famous it is rated one of the 10 best, and we agree! The Left Bank restaurant and Lounge, not too far from Toucan's is located at 150 E. Vista Chino Drive. The food, the atmosphere, the service and the wonderful live piano music makes for a perfect evening. Palm Springs is always a fun getaway for Midwesterners. Anytime of the year is a great time to go. Other options of things to do while in Palm Springs includes, hiking, tennis, or sightseeing in the Joshua National Park, the Living Desert or visiting the local Indian grounds. There are a lot of Art Galleries and Museums to visit. For a day trip, drive to Los Angeles, West Hollywood or San Diego. It is only about 120 miles to any of these cities. But the real reason to go to Palm Springs is to bask in the sun, meet new people and enjoy yourself. The local gay population is extremely friendly. We have met so many people there, many of who were originally from the Midwest and have moved out there to live. For more information write to Donald ~d Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web pageat:http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers An O:atrks ~ community Sffrvice 11nnouncef11"nt. AIDS Project of the Ozarks presents: 'THE V!C1VRY SHALL BE OURS"' In recognition of: National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness day on February 6, 2004, 7-9pm at Washington Avenue Baptist Church, 1722 N. National, Springfield, Missouri. Featuring: Nedra Culp, Branson's Femail Vocalist of the Year and Lost in the 50's. Branson's Betty Lewis, Diane Ellioit and Master of Ceremonies Washington Ave. Baptist Youth Dancers. Volumt-1 Issue- 2 Page 12 Ftbruru:y 2004 Sa--sex couples from page-6 According to the Census, only 970 people, or 1.9 percent ofresidents, reported living with an unmarried partner. Mayor Edward Kelley said even though the registry issue was fought passionately on both sides it hasn't divided the city, which weathered a similar controversy two years ago when it adopted Ohio's first ordinance giving health benefits to same-sex partners of city employees. "In Cleveland Heights not only do we have racial diversity, we have religious diversity, we have this diversity. I'm very proud of that," Kelley said. The registration costs $50 for residents and $65 for nonresidents. Kelley said he's gotten calls from both gay and straight couples from other states who are interested in registering-. Eventually, the city will offer the registration online and by mail, he said. Community services director Susanna Niermann O'Neil said the process would take about 10 minutes for each couple, many of whom planned to take photos or have family attend. "We just want it to be nice," O'Neil said. The city even arranged rooms in City Hall where couples can wait. "We're not going to make people stand in line like they're in a post office waiting to buy stamps," the mayor said. "We want to make sure that they be treated in a fair and just manner." --- New Joplin Gay Discussion Group Prw reftast Jvplitt, Mo \Vant to know when the next drag show is? What time the gay church service is? \Vant to know when the gay student group meets at Southern? Now, you can find all that information and more at a single site: the Joplin Gays group on yahoo. This group is a clearing house for gay & lesbian. events in the Joplin, MO metro area. It is open to everyone but focuses on issues important to or geared to the LGBT community & its allies. Anyone can access the group's calendar and messages, post an event or activity, or find links to other groups, organizations, or items of interest. A popular feature is the online polls section: post your answer to questions such as "Should there be a community center in Joplin?" or "Would you go to a gay and lesbian prom in Joplin?" Then, view the results and see how others voted. There is also a photo section where you can add photos of your friends, shows, and other events. Membership is free and a yahoo account isn't required. For more info or to join, simply go the website at WWW-·l,,l!,Ll¼l,~J!LC.Ll.lL!,l,l,lll.L~!.l¼J,!:J...J.!,.!J,,!j,~~~ or email~ Advertising with Oz.arks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising as low ~ $10.00 per issue. L Ozarks Pride Page 13 Angry continued: ... .... Bush values lining the pockets of his CEO friends above helping ordinary Americans earn a basic living. These are not American values. In George Bush's America, there are two school systems, one for the affluent, one for the poor. That is not American values. Clean air, clean water, wildlife and wetlands have taken a back seat to oil and gas companies. These are not American values. While George Bush is defending the "sanctity of marriage" from the dreaded homosexual menace, millions of people worldwide are dying of AIDS. Mr. Bush does not represent the values of ordinary people, rather he values the elite and the powerful, leaving the rest ofus to fend for ourselves. Americans are angry, and justifiably so, but we know that anger alone will not change America: our actions will. Together, we can take our anger and frustration to the voting booth in November. Together, we can vote to remove George Bush from office. Together, we can elect a leader who upholds the values of ordinary, working people. Together, with one vote, we can put an end to George Bush's America. Greg Stacy Joplin, Missouri Surfing On-Line: Access New Age: All things esoteric and spiritual http://www.accessnewage.com Tickle Your Brain: Tike the most accurate IQ test on the web. http:/ /web.tic.kle.com/tests/uiq/ February 2004 Ad!Jertise11m1t From $600.00 , no license, tag, insurance, or drivers license required. On Sale Now! 716 S. Main, Joplin Mo after4pm 417-627-9035 or Contact David At cell phone 816-651-4425 *-¥ February 21, 2004 2902 E 20th Street, Joplin Missouri 6pm to 7Pm Non-Alcoholic Mixer 7,Pm to 8pm Dinner 8pm to 11pm Dance Silent Auction will be Held! $12.50 Per Person $20.00 Per Couple Dinner & Dance Must Pre-pay by February 10th Dance Only $7.00 (Pay at Door) Purchase your ticket ahead by sending check or money order made out To: Spirit of Christ MCC PO Box 4711 Joplin, MO 64804 Recipe From Chef Greg! 'Texas Caviar" (Black Eye Pea Salsa) P e 15 f 2 cans black eye peas, rinsed and drained. 1 1 small diced onion J 1 can Rote! tomato and peppers j 1 cup chopped ja1apenos j• 1/4 cup cilantro chopped I 1 teaspoon garlic powder i 1-1/2 cup Zesty Italian Dressing Iv[i.,;; all ingredients, chill and serve with Tortilla Chips. Chef Greg of Oklahoma City, OK is a graduate of The New York Culinary Academy. He manages a Catering service in Oklahoma City that specializes in corporate banquets and luncheons. 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Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Steve T. Urie Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Steve T. Urie - page 2 Editor's Page -page 3 Know Your Rights- Page 4 Gay Travelers- Page 7 Gay Military Discharges Plummet- page9 Ozarks Pride Out Cruzin- page 10 Destination New Orleans- page 13 Classifieds-page 18 Community Directory- page 19 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $12.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $10.00 (3 months) Classifieds- $6.00 first 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for a!! advertising, articles and payment is tile 20th of each month for the next months issue. Ozarks Pride Magazine ia publiahed & diatributed monthly as a community service by Ozarh Pride Group of Joplin, Missouri. Publicalion of the name, phologniph or likeoeas oi any person, business or organization in this publication is not to be con1truod as any indicaUon of sexual orientation or preference• of auch ptrson. business or organization. Opinions expressed by columnists. advertisers or Leflory to th& Editor ore oot nece5larily tho opinion of Ozarli• Pridt IJ!genno, ,1, 1/0/f, tho publlsher or it'l sdvorlisors. Content of ldve1ti,ements and arUcies are the to.lo re1ponaibl:lty of the advertiser ar.d /or aathor. The Publisher oi Ozaits Prid• l.lagozine mservei the right to refu6e advertising malerial for any re.1son what so ever. Ozs~3 Pride and all likenesses thera of are sole propertioa o: DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO OUT ... DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO OUT! I was reminded recently that many people throughout history have had to fight for their freedoms and we MUST TAKE A STAND just as they did. Taking a stand to protect our rights as people that God has blessed. I would like to think that our Creator has not put us on the back burner but has indeed saved the best for last. A group of people that within it's very core is made up of all the tribes on earth. A group of people that is made up from every minority group around the world but living right next door to you! Yes fromBiblical times to today, humankind has been the cause of putting people down, taking advantage of those they felt didn't fit in and allowing themselves to allude that it is God's will. They have taken up the God battle flag to take slaves, to put down women, to put down people of color and now to put down our community. Peter, Paul and Mary sing a song about a Jewish group that suffered greatly for their freedoms but set God's light into action for all people. In that song they ask that we not let the "light go out" and this song was part ofthemusic during the Civil Rights Movement during the 60's. I believe that we must take up that banner today, that our response to the world should be that we are not, will not let the light go out until all people everywhere are allowed to exercise their rights. Cominued Steve T. Urie page-16 Ozarks Pride "Gay By God" The following is a true story that depicts the struggle so many of us have, or have had with the subject of being openly Gay and our spiritual beliefs. Many believe God made us Gay purposely, as he made every living creature. As my pastor said, " Who in this community would ever choose to be Gay? Who would ever choose the prejudice, the discrimination and abuse we've all experienced?" C. D. Ward Editor "Just As I Am" By Gabe Norman These words may be familiar to many of you. But if you are like me and were raised in a traditional fundamentalist small town church, they can have a ring ofHypocreaceae. Every Sunday at the end of the service my Grandmother's pastor would ask anyone who wanted to have a closer walk with God to come forward while the choir sang " Just As I Am". One Sunday morning when I was about thirteen, I decided to accept the pastor's invitation and started my walk up to the alter to begin my closer walk with God. I was nervous, scared, and very emotional. I knelt down and asked God to come into my heart and life, and to take me just as I was, and I did feel a peace and joy come over me at the time, however my joy was short lived because my Grandmother's pastor who I thought was my pastor too, would soon inform me that ifl wanted to be a Christian I would have to do some changing. So what happened too "Just As I Am". Continued editors page -5 "Sense of Family" I was shocked and saddened today when I read the article on gay marriage ("Proposal on gay marriage advances," Globe, Jan. 28). Rep. Kevin Wilson, who is a Republican from the city I live in, who worked with my father before he was elected, said, "Families are breaking down." My interpretation of this is not a good one. Gays and lesbians are not the reason families are breaking down. We have a strong sense of family, love and commitment. I wonder if any of these representatives have any gay people in their families, or know of any gay people. They seem to be afraid of what they don't know and understand. Once we let fear run our lives and our country, we are no better than those who lived in Iraq under Saddam Hussein. It seems like everything that goes wrong in the world, there has to be something or someone to blame. It seems to me that Mr. Wilson would like to blame us for the breaking down of family values. Family is just a word, but the feeling the word means is what is important. Love is just a word, but the connection it makes is powerful. Marriage is just a union between two people; it is just a word. The connection that those two people have with the words "marriage," "love," and "family" is what really matters. Austin Letts Neosho, MO Volume 1 Issue 4 Page4 April 1, 2004 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW 1:fissouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice concerns. This region has a huge GLBT population without representation. Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 South Rangeline Road Joplin, MO 64840 Reservation (417) 624-7800 Email: ffijpln@aol.com Ad11,rti.rmm1t Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nail Salon Smart 509 Main* Joplin, MO 64801 :\.ppointments (417) 623-3500 KNOW YOUR RIGHTS! IF YOU ARE STOPPED BY THE POLICE OR ARRESTED From ACLU Ozarks Chapter: Continue from OP March issue: Do not resist arrest or try to run away. Keep your hands where the police can see them. Never touch a police officer. Stay calm and speak politely. Ask for a lawyer immediately. Do not talk to the police without your lawyer. Never lie to the police. Exercise your right to remain silent Do not make any statements or answer any questions except to give your name and address and to ask why you have been arrested. Also, do not sign anything and do not agree to talk to the police. You have the right to contact a lawyer, or to contact someone in your family who can ask for a lawyer for you. Tell the police that you do not wish to speak to anyone until you have a lawyer. In Missouri, the police cannot hold a person for more than 20 hours without a judge setting bail. A judge will set bail at your first court appearance. The judge will also appoint an attorney to represent you if you cannot afford to hire an attorney. The police may keep you in a jail cell. Do not talk with anyone about your case. This includes people who are in the cell with you. Talk about your·case only with your lawyer. If the police knock and ask to enter your home, you don't have to admit them unless they have a warrant signed by a judge. However, in some emergency situations (like when a person is screaming for help inside, or when the police are chasing someone) officers are allowed to enter and search your home without a warrant. If you are arrested, the police can search you and the area close by. If you are in a building, "close by" usually means just the room you are in. More on ACLU Ozarks Chapter website: www.acluozarks.org Ozarks Pride Page 5 April 1, 2004 Editors page ji-om page-3 Well, I gave it a try I poured myself into church, going at least four times a week, praying, reading my bible and trying my best not to fantasize about my next door neighbor Eddie or Michel J. Fox on TV, but try as I might I gave into temptation more often than not. Each time I fell into temptation I felt guilt and would pray for God to take away the evil desires that I had. At about seventeen I decided to confide in my pastor's wife about my feeling's for other boy's. The next Sunday I was in for a shock the pastors sermon was on Sodom and Gomorrah and at the end of the service their was no singing of "Just As I Am". This time it was the pastor asking anyone who might be struggling with homosexual tendencies to come forward, I was so hurt . I knew that this sermon had been preached for me. I left church that day and never went back. When my Grandmother asked what had happened I told her I didn't want to talk about It. I was so hurt and confused, and I felt like God had abandoned me because I couldn't change. So church was out and sinning was in. I started partying. My parents were both alcoholics so they didn't care. As long as I made it to school every day and kept my grades up, I was given full reign of my own life. I started drinking, smoking pot and running with my wild cousin's. I had gone from a Jesus freak to just plain freak. I left Christianity and all it's false promises behind. Over the years I tried many different spiritual paths from Buddhist, Hindu, and even Wica, which by the way is a real positive spiritual path. I eventually ended up at Unity which is a church but not a hell fire and damnation church. They teach that Jesus is a role model for all of us and that we should try to be more like him and love one another. They also teach that God loves all his created people and that he loves them just the way they are and so should we. After many years at Unity, with three years on the board of director's, serving as church treasure and leading the song service, the head of prejudice raised it's ugly head in the bastion of what I thought was the most tolerant of all Christian churches, yes Unity. The board received a letter of concern at one of our monthly meeting's. Not knowing what it was about, I opened and read it to the other's. It was a letter of concern about the growing number of homosexual's in our church. I was once again shocked and hurt and found it hard to continue participating in the services. Although I have put this one negative experience behind me and I do believe in the positive teaching's of Unity principles, but also feel that not all of there member's practice what they preach .. So where to now? About si..'l: years ago a group started meeting on Sunday night's at the Unity building. It was a Christian group that mainly ministered to the gay and lesbian community. While still at Unity I visited their services and it was always nice. I did feel a little uncomfortable, because even though I had found a place where I could worship my creator and take time to give thanks for all the good in my life, I felt there were area's I would have to change in order to become a active member of this group. For you see over the years since I left my grandmother's church I have come to believe that God does love me just as I am. It doesn't matter if I'm Gay, Straight or any other way. If I want to go out to the bar and have drink's and da,,ce then that shouldn't be a problem either, and you know what, it isn't! My grandmother's church may have called some areas of my life heathenish, and grandmother felt going to a bar on Saturday night and then going to church on Sunday was just plain wrong . Well I'm not living in my grandmother's narrow world anymore. It took me several years to let go of all my excess baggage and I wouldn't allow myself to participate in any Sunday night church services, I do try and live my life by the Golden Rule. I enjoy going to the bar and having fun with my friend's and I also enjoy going to church on Sunday. I have finally found a place where I rnn do this , although I do have my fault's. I have been assured by Pastor Steve Urie that I am welcome at any time and that he understands what a large role in the community the bar play's for many of us and that if I want to go have drink's and fun with my friend's on Saturday night I would still be welcome to particip:i.te in the Sunday service. As God accepted people, Spirit of Christ MCC welcomed ME JUST AS I AM. Miss Universe Transsexual Entry Update. As reported in OP March issue Chen Lili received the OK to enter the Miss Universe Pageant to be held in Ecuador June 1, 2004. First she must win the contest in her southeast Chinese Province ofSichuan. Miss Universe pageant official now have reversed their decision and refused Transsexual Chen Lili's entry. Although Miss Lili's was allowed by the Chinese Government to change gender registration, Chen Lili will not be allowed to compete for the Miss Universe crown. Aunt Bea's Infamous Recipes! Sock it Too l\l[e, Pea1111t B11tter Cheesecake! 16 ounces cream cheese 1 tablespoon lemon juice 1 cup plain yogurt 1 teaspoon real vanilla 1 /2 cup peanut butter 2 tablespoons chopped peanuts 1 I 4 cup honey 1 graham cracker crust In a missing bowl, combine all ingredients e:xccpt crust and chopped peanuts. Blend until very smooth. Pour into crust and top with chopped peanuts. Chill three hours before serving. S ottrre: IP1Jllll. dofo. com · Your allowed to drink 1 / 2 bottle of wine while preparing. Ozarks Pride 7 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" By Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com 2004 "A REAL HOLLYWOOD ADVENTURE" Of course we ALL love the movies and the older they are the more we seem to like them. On our trips to California we get to bask in the glory of old time Hollywood when we stayed at the SECRET GARDEN Bed and Breakfast (www.secretgardenbnb.com) nestled at the base of the famous Hollywood Hills just steps off Laurel Canyon up from Sunset Boulevard. Raymond Bilbool, the owner was the maitre d' at the famous Chassen's Restaurant for many years before it closed. The Secret Garden is an absolutely wonderful Bed and Breakfast located in a 1923 opulent Spanish-Moorish style, pink mansionette. What more could you ask for? Push the code numbers and the iron gates open for you to drive your auto onto the grounds. As you climb the steps to the front door you are first taken aback by the huge front foyer of the house. The common rooms comprise of a lovely restful music/reading room complete with a Grand piano with a magnificent Sevres urn sitting on it. There is a stately and charming living room , bright and airy dining room and a sunny intimate breakfast room. Lined down the hallway is black and white autographed photos of the stars of yesteryear. The back yard/patio is filled with tropical plants and cacti and a perfect place for some solitude or to read a book. The backyard also has a huge aviary filled with beautiful birds. When all the rest of the world is in a mad frenzy, here you are in this "secret garden" and it is FABULOUS! The Secret Garden has 5 individual guest rooms, each with their own private bath and there is a bungalow guest house in the back yard complete with an old fashioned sleigh bed, slated tile floors and a Jacuzzi inside. A full sit-down gourmet breakfast is served each morning. A leisurely walk around the neighborhood gives you a sense that you really are living in the golden age of Hollywood with the many splendid houses with their private gardens. And then there is the owner, RAYMOND! who is one of the most FABULOUS people that we have ever met! Raymond being at Chassen 's Restaurant for so many years is full of ''Hollywood stories" and is really a perfect host. He is fun, funny, witty, interesting and really knows how to make his guests feel right at home. His four footed companions, Veronica, Lucy and Ethel "purrs" around the house checking on the guests. His guests return year after year after year. On our first visit, there was a very eclectic group of guests including some from Manchester, England, Ohio, Florida and New York City. Raymond, the owner Jet us have our dear friend, the Countess Alexis for wine and cheese one evening while we were there and then insisted that we have her back Sunday morning for breakfast with the other guests. And what a grand breakfast it was, complete with jumbo Beluga Caviar! The Countess Alexis "held court'' at the breakfast table in only the way that a true lady can. She was naturally dressed proper for the occasion in a huge hat and large rimmed sun glasses and wearing lots of jewelry. All the guests, both straight and gay loved her. We first met the Countess two years ago when we were in Hollywood and enjoyed her company immediately. She owns an antique shop at 8246 Santa Monica Boulevard called THE SCARLET EMPRESS, named after the 1934 Marlene Dietrich movie. TV and movie stars are among her many clients. We purchased a fabulous set of 8 Cut glass stems, signed Hawkes at her shop . .... Continued page- /4 gay travelers Volume 1 Issue 4 Page 8 April l, 2004 504 E. Commercial, S , MO (417) 831-9001 Open Mon t to 1 :30 AM What's Hot @ The OZ in April ! April 10- Blackout Party w/DJ Rob April 17 -The OZ Turnabout Show Men On Drag- Comedy Drag Show Beards and .Moustaches, Pumps & Wigs ... April 24- White Party w/DJ Rob · Daily Happy Hours 4 to 8PM. .25 Well & Longnecks Happy Hour All Night. You Can Drink Wells. Every FRI and SAT HOT MALE DANCERS! Only $3.00 Cover. Drink Specials on Sat. "Disappointed Expectations" The advertisement of Paul Jo David's New CD release in the March issue of OP stated the CD could be purchased at Great flm.Ja,~ f/Ja,titf Expectations on 15th Street, Joplin, MO. Due to personal reasons, Mr. Mike Curry, owner decided not to carry the release. According to Paula-Jo, Mr. Curry objected to the record label "Pride Christian Music". Pride Christian Music is a Homosexual based record label. The CD "Jesus My Faith Addiction Through It All" can be purchased by calling (417) 781-4912 or email paulajo.evans@sbcglobar.net. On-line at www.woodstocked.com and will be available soon from MCC Joplin at www.mccjoplin.com. CIVIL RIGHTS LEADER JOHN LEWIS WASHlNGTON - Rep. John Lewis, D-Ga., delivered "powerful" testimony today against a discriminatory change to the Constitution, according to the Human Rights Campaign. In testifying before the full Senate Judiciary Committee, Rep. Le"'is joined Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., constitutional scholar Cass R. Sunsteu1 and Phyllis Bossin, chair of the Family Law Section of the American Bar ,,\ssociation in opposition to changing the Constitution to be a tool for discrimination. "I am opposed to any amendment that seeks to write discrimination into the Constitution," Lewis testified. "I believe amending the Constitution 011 this issue is an irrational and radical step that seeks to undermine the civil rights of our citizens." "No matter how it's worded, it's wrong to change the Constitution to discriminate against millions of Americans," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. Joh11 Le1tis co11ti11Md page-15 As War Continues, Gay Discharges Plummet To Lowest Level Since 1995 Gaywire Release March 24, 2004 New Report Details Experiences of Gay Soldiers in Middle East & Analyzes Decade-Long Movement to Repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Washington, DC -As the United States military continues to wage war in Iraq and Afghanistan, discharges of lesbian and gay military personnel plummeted 17% in FY2003, according to a new report from Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN). Conduct Unbecoming, an annual review of the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" law, finds that gay-related discharges fell to 787 last year, down from 906 in 2002. The 2003 figures mark a 39% decrease in discharges since 2001, the year before current conflicts in the Middle East began. The number also represents the fewest gay discharges since 1995. "Gay discharge numbers have dropped every time America has entered a war," the report says, "from Korea to Vietnam to the Persian Gulf to present conflicts." It goes on to note that "more of our allies have dropped their bans, and our American troops are fighting alongside openly lesbian, gay and bisexual allied personnel in the war on terrorism." In the end, however, the report finds that "there is ... no fair way to . implement 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' or any policy of discrimination. The truth is evident and overwhelming: there is no evidence to support the gay ban.• "Repealing this law is in the best interest of our military, our service members and all Americans•, said SNDL Exec. Osburn. Volume l Issue 4 Page 12 April l, 2004 Ozarks Pride Page 13 April l, 2004 Destination New Orleans " Gay Mecca , Big Easy" By OP contributing writer T. J. Kelly Conclusion frotJJ March OP: To pick up where I left off in last month's issue, I will begin telling you about the Garden District in New Orleans proper. Running from Magazine Street to St. Charles Avenue and Jackson Avenue to Louisiana Avenue, the Garden District is brimming of new and old world shopping, dining and architecture. It began as a large plantation owned by the Livaudais family, which was flooded in the early 1800's by a break in the Mississippi river levy. The flood laid several feet of alluvial silt from the river across the entire plantation enriching the soil causing lush foliage and flora to grow. In the mid 1820's the plantation was sold to New Orleans entrepreneurs and divided into modest land lots. Most homes in the district date from the 1840's to the 1870's. It became a haven for new world, pre-Civil War aristocracy. Most homes are of the Greek revival or Italianate styles of architecture incorporating Corinthian style columns and rod iron balconies, with beautiful flower gardens and foliage surrounding the property. The entire area flourished as a well-to-do neighborhood until early 1900. Through restoration most of the Garden District looks as it did in 1900. Many celebrities, including author Anne Rice and musician Trent Reznor, own homes in the Garden District neighboring everyday people who purchase the homes as restoration projects. Walking tours of the garden district are abundant, but picking up a free guide to the streets and homes at and tourist kiosk and touring yourself is less restrictive and puts you on your own schedule. Magazine Street is also full of shopping, cafes, restaurants, galleries and bars. Continued next column: At 6 miles long and consisting of (literally) l 00's of establishments, there is a little something for everyone. For great New Orleans-style seafood and a cozy atmosphere Casamentos is a great place to eat or for a Mediterranean meal (including Italian wood fire pizza) Mystic Cafe is a great stop for food or a coffee and dessert. If you are looking for a bar, and are a beer drinker, The Bulldog (reminiscent of the great Bulldog cafe in Amsterdam) is a great stop. Boasting 200 beers on tap and 250 in a bottle, the Bulldog is probably New Orleans premiere Beer Pub. If you need to do some everyday shopping, you can hit an A&P for groceries, get your dry cleaning done, pickup some personalized stationary and grab a latte all in the same couple of blocks. Another interesting facet of New Orleans is the close proximity of intact plantations. Tours for these magnificent homes can be relatively inexpensive and very convenient. You can choose to be picked up in the city or drive yourself. An abundance of information can be found in the larger hotel lobbies and at tourist kiosks across the city. Times and dates of tours can vary greatly from plantation to plantation, but can be very accommodating to a busy schedule. The Gay scene in New Orleans is nothing to be missed either. New Orleans is probably best known to the gay community for its "Southern Decadence" celebration, described by Rust LaRoux as "Gay Mardi Gras with a little Rio Latin flare". Southern Decadence is a week long party with the climax event, the Southern Decadence Parade, the Sunday before Labor Day. The most gay fun to be had is probably in an area known as the "Fruit Loop" from the 700-800 block of Bourbon Street to St Anne Street. Here you can find many clubs, bars, cafes, grocers, delis. pride stores and much more all catering to the GLBT community. Continued page 15 Volume 1 Issue 4 Page 14 April 1, 2004 Gay Travelers-from page 7 The Countess Alexis has a most colorful history in several foreign countries including South America, France and Germany and has certainly made a name for herself in the United States. HE was one of the original stars of La Cage in Paris. She lives in the penthouse suite in one of the stately apartments just off Sunset Boulevard where a former movie star lived many years ago. It is just a delight to listen to her relate the old days of Hollywood when things were marvelous and grand. One NEVER knows who one will meet as guests come from all over the world to stay at the Secret Garden. On our next visit there Raymond had yet another dinner party for us and invited the Countess. A GRAND time was had by all with LOTS of"bitchiness" all evening around the dining room table. It was FABULOUS! You simply HAD to be there to take in all the "bitchiness"! On our last visit there, the Princess Sophia and her gentleman friend, Nathan from Germany were guests and they both were just FABULOUS! Again, Raymond the owner had a lovely sit down dinner party for us in his tropical garden. The guests were a very eclectic group of Hollywood "fun" people. One of our favorites was Marcia, or was it Madge?. Anyway, she was delightful. We can't wait to see her again. Also in attendance was one of the most charming young ladies that we have EVER met.... Kelly, who was a real treat! The Countess Alexis also had a special party for us at her antique shop one evening. The elite of Hollywood turned out for that party. It is FABULOUS! We always enjoy visiting West Hollywood. Of course while in Hollywood, you do need to visit some of the sights and sounds including the famous cemeteries of the stars, the Hollywood Sign up in the hills, Paramount Picture Studios, Hollywood Walk of Fame, Hollywood Wax Museum, Hollywood History Museum. Mann's Chinese Theatre, Hollywood Entertai~rnent Museum. Also be sure to take a tour of the Hollywood Bowl and take a walk down Sunset Boulevard. You may just see Norma Desmond lurking around some comer. Nex; column . Another major museum to visit is the MUSEUM OF TOLERANCE at 9786 W. Pico Blvd. This is a must sec visit for any gay traveler to the Los Angeles area. It is located next door to the Simon Wiesenthal Center. Behind the museum is the Memorial Plaza which is dedicated to the many victims of prejudice over the years. There is a special walkway remembering gays and lesbians. If you are really into old movies as we are, then plan a trip to West Hollywood and see for yourself this glorious and grand mecca of yesteryear. West Hollywood is SO gay. Their zip code is 90069! We have returned to the Secret Garden many times. The owner, Raymond is so wonderfully fabulous. Too bad more people cannot be as generous and caring as he. He is truly a REAL GEM! For more information on the SECRET GARDEN go to: www.secretgardenBnB.com or email them at sgbnb@aol.com or email Donald and Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Joe Brennan a~d Rodney Burgamy 4301 NW 63rd, Suite JOO-Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405-840-2106--www.c21-goldcast1e.com Advertising with Ozarks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising as low as $12.00 per issue. Sec advertising rates on page 2. Ozarks Pride Page 15 New Orleans continued from page 13: A local hang out is the Quartermaster grocer and Nelly Deli just 2 blocks from the beg-inning of the "Fruit Loop" 011 Bourbon Street. On Bourbon Street at the comer of the 800 block is the Bourbon Street Bar and Parade Disco for a bar atmosphere or clubbing through the doors to the disco side of the establishment. A fair warning ... most of the gay establishments enforce a strict dress code (depending on the place) and many have a 2-drink minimum. With this in mind you know that the vagrants and drink-beggars are not welcome and can make for a more pleasing time. If you are looking for a little off-Bourbon Street fun, North Rampart and Elysian fields are the best places to bar hop and have a wide variety of clubs. With such wide variety of things to see and do in the New Orleans Gay Scene, I would recommend the following website for more detailed infonnation; www. a '11 worleans >uide.corn. This website includes everything from airfare and hotel accommodations to bar information and phone numbers. As with any major city, traveling can be a great learning experience and tons of fun, but can also be dangerous. People in touristy cities prey on tourists and can usually spot one a mile away. If you decide to travel to New Orleans try to keep your wits about you, never carry a lot of cash, keep emergency credit card and bank card phone numbers in your hotel room, keep an emergency stash of travelers cheques and spare ID, always travel with a companion and "play" safe. But most of all have fun. April 1, 2004 John Lewis from page-8 "\Vith years of experience fighting for the values ~f equality, Congressman Lewis is an extraordinarily powerful voice against writing discrimination into the Constitution." Lewis went on to say that "restricting rights of certain individuals would set a dangerous and historical precedent." Frank also spoke eloquently about how the amendment would limit the ability of a state and its citizens from making their own marriage policy. There is broad opposition to this effort, including Republicans Bob Barr and Alan Simpson, the NAACP, the Mexican American Legal Defense and Educational Fund, the National Women's Law Center and the American Bar Association. "We thank Senators [Dianne] Feinstein, [Richard] Durbin, [Edward M.] Kennedy and [Russ] Feingold -who also spoke at today's hearing for their unwavering opposition to changing the Constitution on this issue," added Jacques. The Human Rights Campaign is the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgcnder political organization with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that LGBT Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. Quotable Quotes "I have only this advice to offer those of you who oppose gay marriage: Don't marry a homosexual! If your a man and don't want to marry another man, then for crying out loud, stick to your guns. That would be a terrible idea. You would be miserable. Same for women. Marry someone of the opposite sex if that's your preference''. Beth Quinn Times Hearld-Record NY Volume 1 Issue 4 Page 16 April 1, 2004 Steve Urie from page-2 . A recent editorial in the Joplin Globe h1t the nail on the head. A Webb City citizen told the world who she was, who her partner was, how long they had been in a committed relationship and the example she sets in the community at large. She did not out anyone, she did not accuse anyone, and she did not attack anyone. She simply said here we are. We are the people who take care of you, who clean for you, who provide services for you, ·who work, live and play right next door to you and we have rights also. . What an excellent article. I want to encourage all of you to accept and follow this example. We can stand up for ourselves by letting them know who we are. We don't have to attack back just because someone with less intellect or under some misguided teaching attacks us. That puts us in a no win situation. By setting the positive example it is a win, win situation. But you and I have to be willing to do it. It's just like voting ... it is just the right thing to do. To be at peace with yourself and set a positive example. We talk about the straight community and they talk about us. We need to talk to the straight community. When I acknowledged that I was the pastor of a church serving the GLBT community, I put myself up for ridicule and possible harm. What happened instead was an open awareness with my family, friends and co-workers that I am still just one of them. Even my physician said he was proud of me. I have been teased a lot at work but it has been a good tease and it has increased the awareness of what happens to us when we do just stand up to be counted. Do it! It is the right thing to do! Truth is difficult to fight as long as you use it Don't let the light go out. .. we didn't in the 60's and we can't in the new millennium. Have a great month ... Steve Trial Begins in ACLU Lawsuit Challenging Arkansas Policy Preventing Gay People from Foster Parenting March 23, 2004 LITTLE ROCK Trial opens today in the American Civil Liberties Union's challenge to an Arkansas policy that prevents gay people and anyone living in a household with a gay adult from being foster parents in the state. The trial will be held in the Circuit Court of Pulaski County. "By enacting a policy that bars gay people from being foster parents, the Child Welfare Agency Review Board has sacrificed the interests of foster children in order to make a misguided political statement against gay people," said Rita Sklar, Executive Director of the ACLU of Arkansas. "This trial will expose that hypocrisy for exactly what it is." "Policy affecting the lives of Arkansas' foster children should be based on what's best for the children, not baseless myths," said Leslie Cooper, a staff attorney with the ACLU's Lesbian and Gay Rights Project. "This ban flies in the face of years of sound research on the children of gay parents and the positions of every national child welfare organization." The trial is expected to last two days. Cooper and James Esseks of the ACLU's LGBT Rights Project, Grif Stockley of the ACLU of Arkansas, and cooperating attorneys David Ivers and Emily Sneddon represent the plaintiffs. For the entire story and updates, go to: www.aclu.org Volumn 1 Issue 4 Pozitive Force Page 17 Springfield, MO There's a new group in town - Pozitive Force and they want to make a dent in the number of gay and bisexual men getting infected with HIV in this area.The group started aboutyearat the suggestion of some clientsAIDS Project of the Ozarks (APO).They wanted to know what they could do to help with prevention. Prevention efforts include putting up HIVposters at gay bars in Springfield and Joplin to create awareness for bar patrons& condom distribution at those same bars.Pozitive Force also sets up information tables at community events. Public speakingliving with HIVis presented at area schools, meetings and churches. Pozitive Forceonly encourages but also helpsto get tested at.In Joplin free, confidential HIVis available not only at theHealth Department but alsoappointment at the Spirit of Christ M.C.C. church. Pozitive Force is leading the nation in prevention outreach by tapping into cyberspace.Internet interventions through various chat rooms used by men who have sex with men has been a successful venue.Pozitive Force's success is being closely monitored by other groups aroundcountry who are modeling there prevention efforts after those of Positive Force. Positive Force is comprised of personswith the HIV virus, health care professionals and concerned individuals from all walks of life who want to make a difference.A Joplin chapter is forming.In Joplin contact Gary at (417)623-4687. If you'd lik~ to be a part of this group, in Springfield call Jim House at APO (417)881-1900 or Caryn Burk at the Springfield/Greene County Health Dept. (417)864-2044 for information on the next meeting. April 1, 2004 An 01' Co1m111111ilv Sm-ice .,FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES I SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For vour convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentialitv. You may also request Booklets on ;\IDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "Serving A Healthier Community" Quotable, Quotes "Ifwe are to prevent the meaning of marriage from being changed forever, our nation must enact a constitutional amendment to protect marriage in America. Decisive and democratic action is needed, because attempts to redefme marriage in a single state or city could have serious consequences throughout the country. The Constitution says that full faith and credit shall be given in each state to the public acts and records and judicial proceedings o every other state. Those who want to change the meaning of marriage will claim that this provision requires all states and cities to recognize same-sex marriages performed anywhere in America." President George W. Bush, Feb. 24. Volumn 1 Issue 4 River Of Life Church PO Box 1578, .v .. Pittsburg, KS. 66762 ' · astor: George David Phone: (316) 461-2668 Services: Sunday's 11am Email: geo592k@sbcglobal.net Timmo11s Chapel PSU Full GO :PEL all affinnin . Advertising In Gay Media By Greg Steele Gay's and Lesbian's tend to buy from those who advertise in the gay media. Major companies from around the world are jumping on the advertising bandwagon of GLBT directed print and internet. All of a sudden our buying power has been discovered and here are a few reasons why. How large is the U.S. gay market? Kinsey says about 18. 7 5 million Simmons says about 21 million NORC says about 15 million. These three sources averaged out equal 18. 25 million. Greenfield Online's research of the gay market reports that: 78 percent of gay online users prefer to buy from companies that advertise to the gay market. 71 percent of gay online users have made credit card purchases online 43 percent of gay online users identify Gay.com as their favorite website. Average household income for gays & lesbians $57,000. Simmons' research reports: 71 percent male/29 percent female 77 percent "believe in indulging in themselves. 59 percent buy themselves whatever they want. 65 percent identify themselves as having to have the "latest". The US Gay community has a buying power of over 800 billion. Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word .................... . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. WW\V.ozarkspride.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse, Joplin, MO. Private bath w/queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. required. (417) 621-9915 Congratulate that special person with a " Eed Wlshes4.d" in Ozarks Pride Magazine. Only $10.00 for 1/Sth Page unit. Birthdays, I Love You, Anniversaries, Thank You's Mail to:: Ozarks Pride Magazine, 2401 E. 32nd St, Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804 Ozarks Pride Page 19 April 1, 2004 Volunteers Needed: What's going on in the communities of Springfield, Eureka Springs, Fayetteville, Rogers, Fort Smith, Tulsa, Miami, Pittsburg? Send us your scoop. Solicit your business owners to advertise in Ozarks Pride Magazine. Mail address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin, MO 64804. Deadline for all inclusion is the 20th of each month for next months issue. House For Sale: List your property for sale in Ozarks Pride Classifieds. 1010 E. 20th Joplin MO64804 1-800-782-7822 Vicki Bonnson 417-434-0077 www.vickibronson.com Four States Community Directory -Bars-NightclubsRo~' s----Fayetteville, AR--(479)442-3052 Studio 716--Fayecteville, AR--(479)571-1300 Ree's:----:Joplin, MO---(417)627-9035 Edge-----Springfield, MO--(417)831-4700 Martha's Vinerard--Springficld, MO--(417)831-6144 Oz------Springfield, MO-(417)83\.9001 Ronisuz Place--Springfield, MO-.(417)864-0036 Bamboo Lounge--Tulsa, OK--(918)836-8700 The End lJP----Tulsa, OK--(918)282-6503 Heads & Tails--Tulsa, OK--(918)6607878 Club Majcstic---Tulsa, OK--(918)584•9494 Renegades;---- Tulsa, OK--(918)585,3405 Play-Mor•Club--Tulsa, OK--(918)838•9792 Silver Star Saloon--Tulsa, OK--(918)838-4234 TNT's-----Tulsa, OK--(918)660-0856 Tool Box----Tulsa, OK--(918)584-1308 -Lodging- Faces Guesthouse B&B Joplin, i\1O(417)621-9915 Fairfield Inn by Marriott-Joplin, MO(417)624-7800 -Restaurants- -Organizations- MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, Joplin, MO-7PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson Ave, Joplin, MO-10:30AM River of Life Church-Timmons Chapel PSU-Pittsburg, KS MCC United Tulsa• 1623 N. i\faplewood-918-838-1715 MCC Living Spring•Eureka Springs, AR-870-253-9337 Rainbow Christian Church-Springfield, MO-417-866-6206 -Aids Project of the Ozarks- 513 Kenrnckr,Joplin, 1110 'l 7-624-5788 1901 E. Bennett, suite D, Springfield, MO 417-881-1900 -Business Services- Penny Smart, Hair Salon-Joplin, MO--(417)623-3500 Mas5agc By Rachael-Joplin, MO---(417)438-3664 Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-(417)434-0077 Mystic Creatiom--Pittsburg, KA-- (620)231•6790 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC-Tulsa, OK--(918)747-5466 Century21-Oklahoma City, OK--(405) 840-2106 Volume 1 Issue 4 Page 20 71 6 S. MAIN ST. JOPLIN, M □ {41 7) 627-9035 April I, 2004 AN ALTERNATIVE NIGHTCLUB Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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She not only brings her talent and enthusiasm, but also expertise gained from overall life experience and reporting. Seepage 5 3.corn THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA TSUNAMI SLAMS OBAMA JULY 1,2009 T lsa Pride Se s New by Rex Wockmer not health coverage, which he said june 17 is not within his power. That’s the good news -- all of it. What hasn’t he done? Anything about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, anything about the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), anything about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. He’s done nothing about any of the stuff he promised the gays before they rushed to the polls en masse last November to make sure he won that election. And, then, Mr. Obama’s Justice Deparmxent filed a brief June 1 ! in a federal same-sex marriage case that used nearly eveW nasty homophobic argument in the book to argue against letting gays get married. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back and unleashed a flood of harsh criticism from gay VIPs. "I hold this administration to a higher standard than this brief," Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese wrote to Obama. "In the course of your campaign, I became convinced -- and I still want to believe -- that you do, too .... This brief should not be good enough for you, The question is;Mr. President-- do you bdieve that it’s )bama. dec~des 22 which ~ not necessary ~i , ~ . to file a brief. It’s a horrific and hideous attack on LGBT [one thats good. He ~ssued :. ....... Americans." and he extended a few National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director spousal benefits ~ ~d~ employees’ Same’sex partners -Kate Kendell on her Facebook page: "The filing by the sick leave and long-term care insur~ce; for example, but ............ Continued See GAY TSUNAMI Page-24 Pro ect Pride Foundation Director Under Investigation For Fraud By Victor Gorin OKLAMOMA CIT~; OK__ On May 16, Robert Jordan Chiles was dected to a position on the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s Central Committee as part of the Affirmative Action Committee. Ivan Holmes, previous chair of the Oklahoma State Democratic Party stated to the Metro Star, "Robert ovces the party for tickets he purchased for the luncheon at the State Convention along with advertising in the program. He said he would pay that immediately and he hasn’t as of yet, so vce will pursue this issue." If he doesn’t resign his position, party officials are ready to begin impeachment proceedings. In May Mr. Chiles placed an advertisement in the Metro Star which ran in the June 2009 isme; soliciting funds for his Project Pride Foundation, presented as an organization working to advance GLBT rights and hdp people living with HIV. This advertisement was paid for with a check that was returned unpaid by his bank. Mr. Chiles was given numerous opportunities by phone and email to cover the check with no results. It has since been turned over to the Oldahoma County District Attorney for collection and possible prosecution. ........... Continued See PROJECT PRIDE Page-17 By Michael \~ Sasser TULSA, OK__ Tt~a Pride’s Diversity Festival and Pride Parade engaged a record number of participants on June 6th, both in terms of spectators and participants. "I think it exceeded expectations," said Oldahomans for Equality President Toby Jenkins. "We were worried whether the format and schedule might scare people or would be comfortable for people to participate in. Our Pioneer Breakfast far, far exceeded expectations. N~e police tell us there were 23,000 people at the festival which is the largest single-day attendance for an event we have ever had." Jenkins said the festival also included over 70 vendors and booths, twice the number as last year; and there vcere three times the number of parade entries as last year. "The parade yeas larger, there were more floats and more groups," If there was a down side, it ~vas that in the nev¢ event format debuting this year, there were fewer spectators along the parade route. ........... Continued See TULSA PRIDE Page-6 LOCAL>> 9 YO GRAND MARSHALL I NATIONAL >> NO SUPPONF FOR DADT I WORLD >> 50,000 2gF EURO PRIDE I PLUS >> LIFESTYLE TRAVEL I ~’FS I WINE I DINING �July 2009 2 �A good time By Robin Domer-Townsend Next year is a very big year for the OGRA as they will celebrate their 25th anniversary. "Even more is in store for next year’s event," furthers Wieden. "We will have a special limited edition designer ’trophy buckle’ made. Each of the 25 buckles will be numbered and sold to raise even more money for the charities ,are help." Wieden and the board of the OGRA wish to thank all of their sponsors and volunteers, but offer a special thanks to Premium Beers of Oklahoma and the Copa/Finish Line which each contributed more than $10,000 this ),ear. For more information about OGRA please visit www.ogra.net. Impressive Youth Leads Tulsa’s Gay Pride Parade By Judy Gabbard Diversity Business Assodates; proud to do in OKC By Robin Dorner-Townsend OGRA [)~ddent RTint Wied}n, Robin Dorner photo OKLk(HOMA CI~/, OK Every ),ear as Memorial Day weekend rolls around, the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo is held in Oklahoma City. Their goal as a social organizarion is to host an annual-gay rodeo in Oklahoma City, assist in western related events and contribute to charitable organizations. This year~ motto is. ’~A Bucking Good Time." The mission of OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) is to act as a non-profit organization, to perform charitable duties for the surrounding area through fundraisers, rodeo performances, etc., for any particular charitable organization the general membership of the association shall choose. "Xhat is the main goal of]OGRA; to raise money for charity," said Klint Wieden, OGRA President. "Each year we give primarily to two different charities ~vhich provide services to those living with HIV or AIDS." This year’s beneficiaries of the event are Other Options/Friends Food Pantry and RAIN Oklahoma. Each of these organizations will receive a charitable contribution from OGRA once the dollar amount for donation has been calculated. "Usually it is around $3,500 for each organization," adds Wieden. "Wieden grew up on a big ranch in north~vest Oklahoma on thousands of acres. His family raised cattle, ran horses and performed all general ranching duties and his family was always involved in the rodeo. "I also love doing charity work. It is a necessary thing," he adds. "I enjoy the causes xve stand for at OGRA and bringing the two together; rodeo and chariw, well, it’s a great thing for me." OGP,A is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay ;Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. The purpose for organizing OGRA was to prov;ide a harmonious enviromnent for those interested in the western lifestyle to express themselves through rodeo, dance and other £~mity social activities barring al! prejudices related to sex, nation~ origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudices. Overall, the IGRA has raised millions ofdoltars ~br charities across the country. www.rnetrostarnews.com OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 2004, the Diversity Business Association (DBA) has been a "proud’ organization representing many businesses and prot)ssions in the Oklahoma City metro area. As an organization primarily for gay and gay-friendly businesses, DBA is a diverse group; thus the name "Diversity Business Association." DBA is not an organization iust for the gay, lesbian. bisexual or transgender (GLBT} community. It is an open minded, diverse group of individuals from all walks of life. "Why not do business with people who want to do business with you?", is their organizational motto. With nearly 150 members, the Diversity Business Association does mean business. "DBA has become Oklahoma City’s fastest growing GLBT organization and with good reason," says Monty Milburm President of DBA. "We offer a casual yet business oriented environment for our members to connect with and do business with people that want to do business with them. It is these connections that help all of us succeed in good and bad times." Each month, usually two business connection meetings are held where members meet to network and exchange business cards, ideas, and get together for fun events also. There are luncheons, educational meetings and after hour mixers which bring the group together for people ~vho want t6 do business with like-minded people. Membership fees for DBA are some of the best in this area for an organization of its ~nd. An individual business membership is $49 per year and corporate memberships (for up to 10 people) are $450. Unlike most organizations, DBA has a student or ’social’ membership f)e for $25 per year. N~is allows the businesses in the area who are gay or gay-friendly to benefit from like-minded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. The goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the GLBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. DBA will have a booth at the upcoming Gay Pride events to be held at Memorial Park in Oklahoma City on June 27th & 28th and invites everyone to come and visit to see what they are all about. "I would like to encourage you to visit often, check out our calendar and consider joining. We encourage positive competition and celebrate each member’s success," adds Milburn. "t am proud to serve as President of such a fine organization. We really do mean business." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit vvw~.dbametro.org. It is best to use Internet Explorer when visiting this site. Noah Blatt Grand Marshall ~dsa Pride Parade. Judy G. photo TULSA, OK The Grand Marshal! of Tulsds Annual Pride Parade xvas not a celebrity or an individual with a crown of jewels: this Grand Marshall was a nine year old young man named Noah Blatt. Noah Blatt is a perfect example of what the words "Diversity" and "Acceptance" represent in the contin~l struggle of gay rights. Told to me by a representative of Oldahomans [br Equality, Noah Blatt first came m the attention of the committee members at Tulsa’s Equality Center, when he hand delivered a letter and a donation. In the letter, Noah explained that as an assignment he was to chose an organization that he rahought was making a difference, His mission was to acknowledge that organization and donate to its support. Noah has continued to contribute part of his weekly allowance in support of Tulsa’s Equality Center. Toby Jenkins, Tulsa’s Equality committee President, said, that when it came time to select the Grand Marshall for the Pride Parade, no other individual was as deserving as Noah Blatt. Noah’s revelation, revealed in his letter, that xvhen same sex couples love each other and want to marry, there shotdd be no one allowed to stand in their way. Simple truth uttered from one so young shows that the continuing struggle for gay rights is making an impact on public opinion. In a short interview with Noah Blatt, I met a gentle young man with a view of the world that maW lose when they grow up. Noah is determined to hang on to his beliefs and make his opinions known. Noah’s room and dad are hard working, well educated parents who have a!lo~ved their child to develop his own views of human behavior. Mr and Mrs Blatt support their young son’s ideas and know that it takes only one person to start a movement towards human rights. Noah was introduced to the public at the Pride Festival held at Centennial Park, located at 6th and Peoria, and severalo awards were bestowed upon him. The greatest prize was a view into the future possibilities of our youth. The importance of bestowing understanding, love, guidance and attention to our younger population was made evident in such a small package, Noah Blatt. ~®troSTAR 3 �UDGE RULES IN KEITH KIMMEL’S FAVOR ON HIS I’M GAY LICENSE P LATE Billy who is running for Mr. O.G.R~k. next year. Tney are setding down together on the outskirts of Noble where Michael, as a member of the Orchid Society, will be able to pursue his hobby. The Holy Union was offidated by Pastor Neill Spurgin of Exp~:essions Community Fellowship, where both Billy and Michael are members. Let’s wish them a wonderful life together. Giving back: MAC Cosmetics ’Viva Glam’ line supports HIV! AIDS organizations By Robin Dorner-Townsend By Victor Gotin Annual Hot Young Hollywood Party to benefit R.A.I.N. Oklahoma August 7 Angles to host annual Hot Young Hollywood PaW to benefit RAIN Oklahoma. Oklahoma CiF’ HIV Non-profit agent/. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ August 7 2009 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On April 6 Keith KimmeL like maW other Ol-dahomans since 1967, applied for a personalized license plate for his !992 Dodge pickup truck. However. he ran into an obstacle because his message was ’TM GAY". His request was denied. Kathy Green, a supervisor in the Motor Vehicle Division, stated that his request was denied due to a Oklahoma Tax Commission Rule 710:60-3-150 (d) which states "No license plate will be issued -which may be offensive to the general public." However, she did not state why she deemed that his message fit into that category. Mr. Kimmel appealed this decision, and his case was heard by Administrative Law Judge Jay Harrington in Oklahoma City on May 7. A favorable ruling, in which Judge Harrington recommended that Keith be allowed his I’M GAY plate, was released on June 18, jttst a week before Gay" Pride celebrations ldcked off in Oklahoma City. Attorney Brittany M. Novomy, who represented him on this case had this statement, "This decision is an indication that we do still live in a society that respects the rule of law, and when we feel our civil rights have been violated we know we can turn to our legal system to remedy the situation. I believe it is also a signal that despite its national reputation, Oldahoma has outstanding women and men in the legal profession who put the law ahead of old prejudices." The Oklahoma Tax Commission may accept or reject this recommendation. Talking with Mr.Kimmel he stated, "I think the judge reviewed the case carefully,, made a good decision and I hope the commission will do the right thing and let me have nay plate." If the Oklahoma Tax Commission doesfft fol!ow- through and allow his plate he plans to pursue additional legal action. Billy Jackson and Michael[ Friday ioined their lives together By Victor Gorin N~e Hot Young Holly~vood Party is an annual fundraiser for RAIN Oklahoma, acting as a spotlight for local GLBT owned & friendly businesses. RAIN Oklahoma will be honoring four Oklahomans for their outstanding leadership and activism. The event will be a fun filled evening with fashion shmvs from well-known designers such as Cadillac Cowboy; Nicole Moan, GLAMNERD, Riot Rockett and Debauchery Clothing, plus live performances from Oklahoma City;s own Eric Bramble and others. Definitely an event not to be missed! Rafiqe ticket sales provided much of the $2500 raised at last year’s party. I~mt year sponsor donated items included a necklace donated by Mitchener & Farrand Jewelers, a "makeover" prize package .from Velvet Monkey Inc., dinner for two at 1492, and a Marc-by-Marc Jacobs bag among many other items. For the RAIN Leadership Award, campus GLBT groups made nominations from OCU, UCO, OU, OSU OKC AND UT as well as the GLBT group of DELL and the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The goal of our nominees is to increase the quality of life for all Oklahomans. RAIN Oklahoma is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit agency, depending on private donations and the support of the community to continue providing high quality of services. RAIN Oklahoma offers a wide array of services from free HIV testing and counseling, community outreach projects, Ryan White Case Management, ADVANTAGE Medicaid waiver services & Transitional Housing. RAIN Oklahoma’s mission is to compassionately serve indMduals and communities impacted by HIV/AIDS through education, volunteerism and coordinated access to healthcare & support services. We accept all donations; Gift Certificates, Checlcs, Merchandise and/or services. Donors will be recognized in the program. For additional information on The Hot Young Holbavood Party, please contact the Hot Young In f!’ont of the Iguana Lounge in Automobile Alley in downtown Oklahoma Ci~, the 3¢IAC cosmetics staffin Oklahoma City show their support in the form of"a big check"for Other Options and Friends Food Pantry. The fundraising event "51 Toast to Life" was heldfor the non-profit organization at The Iguana Lounge in April The Iguana showed its support ofthe Other Options organization by undenvHting the charitable event. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 1989, Other Options has been on the forefront of prevention, education, and assistance of those in need who are living ~vith HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) and AIDS (Autoimmune Deficiency Syndrome). The organization was Formed as anonprofit whose missi6n" included al! services which hdp persons living with the disease but currently their primary focus is that of food services, nutrition and education. Mary Arbuckle, Director of Other Options works to assist the clients they serve, organizes donations and among many other taslcs, she also writes grant applications for the organization. "It’s a ..... Continued see MAC page 24 Holl)wcood Committee: Contact: Kendet R. Powers, CTR Agent RAIN Oklahoma 405/204/7767 kpowers@rainoklahom.org Vicld Banta Vicki Banta the Partyoligist 405/850/6817 Xfbanta@aol.com Bil{r Jackson &Michael Friday at their Holy[ Union wid~ t/.,eir .iF[ends Luq and Midn@t. Godn photo Kai R. Dameron Rain Oldahoma, CTR Coordinator 405/232/2437 xt 123 KaiDameron@hotmail.com OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Billy Jackson and Michael Friday joined their lives together Sunday, June 14 in Norman at Thunderbird Chapel. Lovers of the country lifestyle, both are active in OGRA, Michael as the mernbership chair and July 2009 4 �Robin Dorner Joins Robin Dorner-Tmvnsend. Staff photo OKLAI-IOMA CITY. OK Already well kmown in Oklahoma City and beyond as a fun loving reporter and activist. Ms. Dorner has just joined the Metro Star team. She will be repo~ting local news and ~ents and wil! handle OK~’~C ad sales al6nFwithRikGOdbev and Victor Gorin. She is also an accomplished ~h0togr~pher. She n0{ 0hly brings 1{~} taleh{ ~nd enthusiasm, but alSO ~ert~e gained f om oCe llife ep0mng Metro Star Staff Born in Wichita, she graduated from Kansas Newman College in that same city to become a Registered Nurse. She moved to Oklahoma City in 1983 when jobs for RNs were plentiful. She worked in various positions as a dialysis nurse, in home health and hospice settings, and case management. She is a happily married heterosexual, celebrating 15 years together with Ken Townsend, her soulmate who is in the oil & gas business. In 2004 she earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Health administration, followed by a Master’s Degree in Business Administration in 2006. After this milestone, seeking a different direction, she branched out into journalism with the City" Sentinel. broadening their horizons when she covered many events of the GLBT community. She first became involved with our community during the !990s when she volunteered as a nurse for the Triangle Association vdth D~:Larry Prater. who operated a free AIDS clinic. Relating ~o that experience she stated that "I loved it, not only as a nurse but also from the love, camaraderie and acceptance I found in the gay community." Her involvement in the community grew, and she later became a boai~d member of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. She is a former board member and current member of Diversity Bttsiness Association of Oklahoma City, and is her husband Ken. She does vohmteer work for Other OptiOns, and looks forward to working with the Metro Star. We welcome her a oard . the City Sentinel ( fbrmeriy the Mid City Advocate). Leather Camp V will be running in Wichita gg~IICHITA, KS (PR) __ August 14 - 16, 2009. Early bird registration is active until July" 21st at a rate of $75.00. After July 21st, the package cost xvill be $85.00. The Clarion Hotel will hots the event with a room rate of $79.00 per night. Rooms need to be booked directly through the hotel. Ask for the WOOLF rate to get the discount. ~qere are lots of great classes for this years event. Presenters include ~qaipmaster Bob and Bootpig, Graydancer, Sir Olivier and pup sparlg~, Mason and Michelle. In addition, we will be having our Central Hains Regional contests for Central Plains LeatherSirlboy and CommunivA Bootblack as well as our loc~ www:metrostarnews.com WOOLF contests for Mr. and Ms. WOOLF and Kansas boy/girl. All of the contests will be judged by International LeatherSir 2009, Sir Raul, International Leatherboy 2009, boy bill, Central Plains LeatherSir 2009, Master Sam Sampson, Central Plains Leatherboy 2009, pup sparkle, Central Plains Community Bootblack 2009, boy blu, Great Plains Leatherboy 2008, boy mike and Rev. Jackie Carter of the Metropolitan Community Church of Wichita. The weekend ~vill be emceed by Tom Stice. For more information and to register for the weekend and book your hotel room, please visit www.wichitaleatherpride.com. &~et~’oSTAR 5 �By Michael ~{~. Sasser "I was straight most of my life," said the Tulsa CountT Courthouse clerk. "I was always open with sexuality and thought that if it felt good, do it. I’ve only had t-wo girlfriends in nay life. My first girlfriend was the one who said "you should try this’ and I said ’sure, let’s give ir a try.’ It was tumultuous except for the sex tbr the next two years. I have been with nay current partner for 13 years." Nipper had been "spiritually" a writer her entire life, from the time she xvrote a short story in grade school that a teacher insisted on turning into a slide show. "The best advice I ever got was to write one page a day and after a year, you ~voutd have 365 pages," Nipper said. "qhe road to publishing has been rocky, but my publisher now is terrific. They do so much to support authors and offer opportunities and guidance." Femme Noir’s sequel, I4dss of Noir, is already under contract. It’s set in New Orleans and will continue to stretch the parameters ofsexuat representation. "I’ve already shocke,~,! and appalled some lesbmns, N~pper stud. I th~nk that means am on the right track." Tulsa author Clara Nipper. Press photo TULSA, OK __ Tulsa author Clara Nipper never read mysteries, thrillers or true crime books, so when - on a dare from her partner - she set out to write in the genre, they set the mood and picked up the stylized approach by camping out in their home. lowering the air conditioning and watching classic noir films such as Double Indemnity, Laura and the more-modern Body Heat. "They were terrific," said Nipper. "I took some inspiration from them." Nine months in the writing, Nipper completed her first novel, the stylish Femme Noi~; a tide that aptly describes both the book and the innovative genre of lesbian literature. "I was writing "chick stories’ and my partner told me that since that wasn’t ,going an?~vhere I should try something new, Nipper said. So, Nipper crafted a character that was the "total opposite" of her. "She is tall and lean, black and bald, and a total womanizer - a slut. I wondered if I could wrire an entire book about her. And, I thought, yes I could." The rest is now history. Femme Noir is being published by Bold Stroke Books. In the book, Nora Delaney is Nipper’s protagonist. The hard-boiled, hypersexualized womanizing college basketball coach chases the case of her murdered exlover from LA to Tulsa only to be waylayed by a gorgeous, gin-swilling skirt who has information as well as an appetite for women like Nora. The book contains classic noir elements and Nora is cut from the same cloth as many classic, troubled genre protagonists - except that she is a woman. Hailed by maw for its unique and interesting voice, the book is also sexually graphic and unapologetic. "’gq~en my father got a copy of the book. I wrote in it ’please don’t read this’." Nipper said. "I hope he hasn’t. Tulsa native Nipper is veU much unlike her lead character. For more information on Nipper and Femme Noir, visit www.claranipper.com. Dont Shop - Adop "Most people waited for the parade at [Centennial Park], and it was packed there". A shuttle system taking parade-path spectators to the park might be one thing added for future Pride festivals. For the most part, though, the new event structure was very much a success. "The fireworks, the ferris wheel and the concert were all huge successes." Jenkins said. Jenkins noticed a few things in particular this year. Employees of Spaghetti Warehouse on Brady Street came out to cheer ~or the parade. At Centennial Park. the crowd included a notable number of straight couples and individuals, including maW attending their first-ever Pride event with or without a GBLT relative or friend. "I thought, ’Wo~v. ~vhen did it become cool to go to Pride?" "-We also had a tot of seniors there. One mother said she was impressed at how family-friendly the environment was. I wish I could say that was something we tried to do. but it’s just a sign of the evolution of the community." Police commented on how busy the Kid Zone was with approximately 700 children of GLBT families and straight participants. This year’s n~w policy against ice chests and bringing in outside food and beverages also worked out. Jenkins said no one had to go to the hospital and police told him that for the first time there was no one who they considered acting publicly drunk to the point of being a nuisance. Vendors also told Jenkins they had done well at the event. Jenkins hopes that means it will be possible to continue expansion of the event in the future with more participants. Although the parade route saw the typical number of protestors, there was only one notable at the festival itself. Annie Bryce drove an hour to attend her first Tulsa Pride event. "I was very impressed at how nice it was and, really, how nice the people were - men, women, gay and straight even," she said. Cashen" Stewart attended the Pride Festival, largely for the parade, He thinks the eve,n,t could still be improved. I think there should be a bit more things to do at Pnde that are more mteracuve, he said. lenkins said that other smaller cities aro{md Oldahoma also having Pride events, such as Enid for the first time ever in July, is evidence of empowerment. "People are feeling safe enough to have festivals - that’s a good sign." Meet Woodstock. He’s a 9 yr old yellow labbie who was Surrendered to Lab Rescue so ~ve could find him a new home. His owners love ~ctive for him, but h~ is a them. D0n:t le~ iS young at hem o1~1 labl;ie. H6 loved on: ~’g0odi I stcd No matter who you are o are on life’s iourney, -Reverend ~r. K~hy Sapulpa Norman Collinsville )18 299 6311 918-272-4965 918 227 2722 405 321 6,"~2 5 918 371 1000 Courtesy of v:xvw.labrescue.net L 3131 & Pennsylvanio, Oklah0m= Q>~, 405.525.9555 July 2009 6 �So, ust What is the True Politics M es for Definition-of Marriage ? Strange Bedfellows by James Nimmo by James Nimmo OY._LM-IOMA CITY. OK As a semiprofessional musician I provided music at the same-gender marriage recently of two friends of mine, the latest ceremony of uncountable services I’ve played, t’rn also a committed atheist and rather hard-boiled when it comes to asking [or divine intervention, as well as the invention of skT-oriented deities for whatever reason. I support everyone’s private pursuit of their interests in accordance with the First Amendment as long as infringement of my own legally supported rights isn’t involved. There was no doubt of the sincerity of the participants in this religious ceremony. There were prayers, vestments, and liturgy common to any other Christian denomination marriage ceremony. Had you been blindfolded and dropped into this touchingly simple outdoor service, uncoached and uninformed, you would not have been able to distinguish this wedding from the thousands being conducted in the rest of the country on any Saturday afternoon. Jaded as I am about religion, I did get a little misty-eyed when the minister spoke-of the hands being held by the two grooms. As these ceremonies of commitment go the hope is always for a devoted and determined future of mutual and exclusive support through a lifetime of as many years o?iife as our genetic desdny wil1 give us. He described these hands as they are now. young and strong brushing away ~ears of joy and sorrow, touching in moments of intimacy, and when old and wrinkled they’ will sti!l be the hands we want touching us in times of need. ~ view myself as a married man wittl a partner of 32 years, and 1 can identi~! with the sentiments and intentions the minister outlined in his .;ermon. By what fiat of bigoted ignorance can anyone deny me and millions of other gay and Lesbian Americans this legaI right of marriage just because the gender of the two people is the same, choosing to share their bounty and their concerns for as long as they’re able, be it one year or hopefully- a long lifetime? How is that any different from what opposite-gendered people choose to do? To answer my own title, I think marriage is the ability of two responsible people committed to each othm; with a seriousness of purpose, for as long as they are able to hones@ maintain the relationship, with or without the imprimatur of religion. At one time I was a proponent of going nicker the recognition of our gay/ Iesbian equality one right at a time. But at approximately 1,400 indMdual rights bestowed with a completed marriage license, there arefft enough years for even Methuselah to see the success of the movement. I now see that only a dedicated Federal lawsuit, such as the one being brought by Ted Olson and David Boles ( http://tiwurl.com/q6hvip ), will give us the trne definition of marriage we gay and Lesbian citizens need to live our lives with the choice so casually enjoyed by straights. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s pretty exciting to be a gay/lesbian activist these days. Our civil rights movement has been focused on California which has been performing a line dance with basically the lovers of romance and civil rights in one line and the haters of diversity and inclusion in another. With the survival of Prop-Hate in California in late May there are now thirty states that prohibit same-gender marriage by constitutional amendment; thirty-seven prohibit it by statute. Some states even went double-dipping in their vehemence against gays and lesbians with both. But on the sunny side, as of this writing, there are five states that allow same-sex marriage with three states promoting samegender unions. ( http:lhinyurt.comlmq8fev ) I’m not too hot with arithmetic but even I can tell there is some overlapping of statutes and amendments with a minority of states still sitting on the sidelines, waiting and waiting. Waiting for what? Maybe the same thing I’ve been waiting for. A team of lawyers, financial supporters, and plaintiffs willing to put this momentous issue into it’s proper frame: Shall the United States continue with this jurisprudence crazy, quilt of rich progressive action and tawdry, shortsighted discrimination or blanket the country with one legal rtding that allows all adults to make their own decisions for their future regardless of gender, religion, or geographic location? That’s where the odd bedfellows Ted Olson and David Boles come in. These two lawyers, fmnous for being on opposing sides of the Bush v. Gore Supreme Court case that by a one-vote margin put the Bush/Cheney ticket in the White House have filed a Federal lawsuit to place an injunction on the California Supreme Court decision upholding the anti-marriage equality amendment lmown as Proposition 8.7heir plan is to carry this lawsuit up the chain of Federal courts to the US Supreme Court if necessary in order to have a definitive ruling as to whether or not same-gendered people are covered under the 14th Amendment of the Federal Constitution, specifically the clause that all citizens are entided to the full protection of the laws. ( http://tinyurt.com/dypxfp ) Many of the main stream civil rights and gay/lesbian advocacy organizations ( The American Civi! Liberties Union, Lambda Legal, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the Equality Federation, and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation are aghast at the audacity of this plan sponsored by the American Foundation for Equal Rights. ( http:/Itinyurl.comlld6a2w ) I’m no legal eagle but I’m literate, folio~w the news, and can reason, tn addition, my partner and I were among 12 other plaintiffs in the attempt by Oklahoma’s chapter of the ACLU to derail the 2004 Okie version of Prop. 8, known as State Question 71 ! that passed with a 70+% majority vote. The legal strategy being used by the ~.metrostamews.com As t see it, ~here are two important precedents (an important aspect of jurisprudence? from the Supremes that recognize our gay/lesbian citizenship. They are: Lawrence v. Texas ( http://tinyurl. com/br2tj t that eliminated sodomy laws by overturning Bowers v. Hardwick (http:// tinyurl.com/jus3e ), and the Romer v. Evans decision overturning Colorado’s infamous Amendment 2 dewing gay/lesbian citizens protection of state laws( http://tinyurl. com/49m9er ) wherein Justice Kennedy famously wrote that "[Amendment 2] is at once too narrow and too broad. It identifies persons by a single trait and then denies them protection across the board. The resulting disqualification of a class of persons from die right to seek specific protection from the law is unprecedented in our iurisprudence." Let me add that Justice Kennedy is the famous "swing vote" on many Court decisions that are decided by a single vote. Though there have been changes in the names of the j ustices over the years, the legal balance of the Court is still the same: four living in the 18th century, four in the 21st century, with one bridge between them. If politics makes for strange bedfellows and change is die buzz word for this political season, then I think it’s time to change the sheets. As these two well experienced attorneys have wedded dlemselves to marriage equality, I wish them a happy honeymoon. Live long and prosper, Olson and Boles! Joplin First Pride in over ten years JOPHN. MO (PR) In January of this year Rev. Steve Urie of Spirit of Christ MCC asked for volunteers to h~ad up a committee commissioned with the task of planning and bringing together Joplin’s first Pride Event in over ten years. Out of that was born Joplin: Out & About, a collaborative committee made up of people from Spirit of Christ MCC, AT&T and other GLBT groups and members from the community. A target date was set and the planning began. ¯homas, Joanna, Darrell, Jeff, Heath, Shauna and Shea with the intermittent help of others handled the tough iob of keeping it all together. Tne final result was several events through the week including a Karaoke Night, Movie Night and finally Joplin’s Out & About Event in the park. Just ten years ago you would find law enforcement setting traps to catch men in the park cruising. This year with la~v enforcement patrols protecting the event; the community celebrated with groups from Springfield, Galena, Tulsa, the greater Joplin area and as far away as NW Arkansa~s, Weir and Topetca, Kansas taking pride and respect to a new high level for the community. Private and non-profit vendors started signing on as did other local groups including UCC Family Fellowship, Joplin Gays Yahoo Group, Joplin’s GLBT Corporate Center, the support group fi-om AT&T, Planned Parenthood, PROMO, the Pla-Mor Lounge and APO’s local and Springfield’s offices. The Metro Star played an important part in providing sponsorship and coverage of the event. The Topet~ Transgendered Alliance was represented by Steve/Lila & spouse Joy also members of MCC Topeka. Entertainment was provided by a band as well drag queens from Joplin and Springfield. The Gto Center from Springfield, MO showed up in support of the Event, helped with Sponsorship and provided information about their services. We thank everyone who sponsored, supported, participated and just plain attended this event. Rev. Steve Urie & long time partner Heath with festival voluntee~ Staffphoto Held in Joplin’s McClellan Park June 13th and with over 250 people from the GLBTQ community this was a success for our community. Friends, family supporters and the straight community including children and some well behaved canines came together to show that we can be one community that we can work together, play together and respect each other. From Gay Bingo to the sale of Pride Jewelry, entertainment ro fbod. free HIV testing to information, and with MC Brandon everyone had a great time. In addition several boxes of food were donated t~br APO clients through the Angel Food Ministries program. Lots ofentertainment, & good looking guys and gab at joplin Pide Yestiva~ Staffphoto We would like to thank Naomas for his dedication and tenacity in keeping it together; Joanna for gathering equipment, supplies, support mad being one foot soldier you couldn’t top, Darrell for writing the first GLBT Joplin History Booklet, Jeff for putting the boolde.t togethm; Heath for cooking his heart out and all the volunteers that brought it together. With the encouragement of the community at large already pouring in this may have been Joplin’s first Pride event in recent history but clearly won’t be its last. �Wockner News Service New Hampshire legalizes same-sex marriage New Hampshire legalized same-sex marriage June 3 when Gov. John Lynch signed three bills, including one that had cleared the Legislature just an hour eadier. 3-he bills open marriage to same-sex couples starting Jan. 1 and protect certain rights of religious organizations, associations and societies that oppose gay marriage. "Today is a historic day for all Granite Staters," said Mo B~ley, executive director of the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "We applaud Gov. Lynch, (House) Speaker (Terie) Norelli, (Senate) President (Sylvia) Larsen and the leadership of the General Court (legislature) for making sure that all loving, committed couples have the freedom to marry. Today, our shared values of individual liberty, freedom and fairness have been upheld:" The final bill, tsveaking religious protections, passed the Senate 14-10 and th.e House 198-I76. Lynch had required tile additional language as a condition of his agreeing to let gays marry. In announcing his support for same-sex marriage on May 14, Lynch said: "At its core, (this bill) simply changes the term ’civil union’ to ’civil marriage.’ Given the cultural, historical and religious significance of the word marriage, this is a rneaningfu! change. I have heard, and I understand, the very real feelings of same-sex couples that a separate system is not an equal system. That a civiI law that differentiates between their committed relationships and those of heterosexual couples undermines both their dignity and the legitimacy of their families." Tl~e measures signed into law will repea! the state’s civil-union law effective Jan. 1, 2011, and prohibit any new civil unions after Jan. 1, 2010. Same-sex marriage is legal in five other U.S. states: Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (starting in September) and Maine (starting in Septembe0. Nlere also are 18,000 same-sex couples legally married nnder California law, though no more will be allowed to marry until voters repeal Proposition 8, the state constitutional amendment passed last November, or until the U.S. Supreme Court strikes it down Or it is blocked by comx injunction. Gay groups are planning a ballot initiative to delete Prop 8, and a federal lawsuit has been filed charging that Prop 8 violates the due-process and equal-protection clauses of the U.S. Constitution. The lawsuit also says Prop 8 relegates gays and lesbians to second-class citizenship and discriminates based on gender and sexual orientation. It further seeks an injunction allowing same-sex marriage to resttme in California pending resolution of the case. Hi ary Clinton issues pride month statement Secretary of State Hillary Clinton issued a Gay Pride month statement June 1. She wrote: "Forty years ago this month, the gay rights movement began with the Stonewall riots in New York City; as gays and lesbians demanded an end to the persecution they had long endured. Now, after decades of hard work, the fight has grown into a global movement to achieve a world in which al! people live free from violence and fear, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. "In honor of Gay and Lesbian Pride Month and on behalf of the State Department, I extend our appreciation to the global LGBT community for its coui’age and determination during the past 40 years, and I offer our support for the significant work that still lies ahead. "At the State Department and throughout the Administration, we are grateflal for our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender employees in Washington and around the world. They and their families make many sacrifices to serve our nation. Wneir contributions are vital to our efforts to establish stability, prosperity and peace worldwide. "Human rights arc_- at the heart of those efforts. Gays and lesbians in many parts of the world live under constant threat of arrest, violence, even torture. The persecution of gays and lesbians is a violation of human rights and an affront to human decency, and it must end. As Secretary of State, I will advance a comprehensive human rights agenda that includes the elimination of violence and discrimination against people based on sexual orientation or gender identity. "N~ough the road to full equality ibr LGBT Aalaericans is long, the example set by those fighting for equal rights in the United States gives hope to men and women around the world who yearn for a better future for themselves and their loved ones[ "This June, let us recommit ourselves to achieving a world in ~vhich all people can live in safety and freedom, no matter who they are or ~vhom they love." Clinton also is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign ~aqZairs Agencies. The pack,age will include medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment of household effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, isstlance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and language training. Not included are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. Nevada Legislat e overrides governor’s veto of partnership bill Nevada’s Senate and Assembly on May 30 and 31 overrode Gov. Jim Gibbons’ May 25 veto of a domestic-partnership bill. Tne new la~¢ extends to same- and opposite-sex registered domestic parmers nearly all state-level rights and obligations of marriage. The override came without a vote to spare in both the Senate (14-7) and the Assembly (28-!4). In the Senate, 10 Democrats and four Republicans voted for tile override, and five Republicans and two Democrats voted against it. Gibbons had claimed the bill ran afoul of a 2002 state constitutional amendment that defines marriage as between a man and a woman. He also argued that gay couples could go sign private contracts if they desired the protections of marriage for their relationship. "The significance here is it literally equates ’domestic partner’ with ’spouse’ under Nevada state la**;" Michael Ginsburg of the Progressive Leadership Alliance of Nevada told Las Vegas correspondent Steve Friess. "You have the flail force of the law behind you nox~: When you’re in the hospital, forced to ma~e decisions for your partner, all you have to say is, ’This is nay spouse,’ and that carries tremendous weight." .am Lambert Photo: American Idol runner up Adam Lambert Who kalew? American Idol sensation and first runner-up Adam Lambert is a homosexual. "I don’t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I’m gay," Lambert told Rolling Stone June 9. "I’ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I’ve been at clubs drunk malting out with somebody in the corner." "Right after the finale, I almost started talldng about it to the reporters, but I thought, ’I’m going to wait for Rolling Stone, that wil! be cooler,’" he said. "I didfft want tile Clay ’ Aiken thing and the celebrity-magazine bullshit. I need to be able to explain myself in context. ’Tin proud of my sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me." Lambert noted, however: "I’m trying to be a singer, not a civil rights leader." July 2009 �State Dept. to give gay couples spousal benefits U.S. Secreta,y of&am HillaO, Clinton is prepari,g to grant spousal ben~ts and protections m diglomau’gay gartne,s. Photo by Rex l)~ckner U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign M~airs Agencies. "Like all families, our Foreign Service t~milies come in different configurations; all are part of the common fiabric of our post communities abroad," Clinton wrote. "The department will provide these benefits for both opposite-sex and same-sex partners because it is the righ~ thing to do’ ~Ihe benefits will indude medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment ofhousehoid effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, issuance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and ,language training. NOt induded in the package are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. "This is a remedy that is long overdue," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese, "For too many years, LGBT Foreign Service officers have been forced to choose between serving their country and protecting their families." Dick Cheney endorses same-sex marriage Former Vice President Dick Cheney came out in support of same-sex marriage June 1 more clearly than he has in the past. Asked about the issue at the National Press Club, Cheney responded: "I think freedom means freedom for everyone. And, as many of you know, one of my daughters is gay, and it’s something that we’ve lived with for a long time in our family. I think people ought to be free to enter into any kind of union they wish, any kind of arrangement they wish. The question of~vhether or not there ought to be a federal statute that governs this, I don’t support. I do believe that historically the way marriage has been regulated is at the state level -- ~his has always been a state issue -- and ~ think that’s the way ff ough~ to be handled ~oday, that is. on a state-by-aa~c basis. D~ffbrem ;tares make d~ff~t’ren~ decision But [ don’t haw prob{cm with that ~ think people ought to get a shot at d~at. And they do a~ present." v#,,w.metrostarnews.com Cheney has made very similar comments before, but they did not go quite as far. In 2004, for example, he said: "I believe today that freedom does mean freedom for everybody. People ought to be free to choose any arrangement they want. It’s really no one else’s business. ~nat’s a separate question from the issue of whether or not government should sanction or approve or give some sort of authorization, if you will, to these relationships. Traditionally, that’s been an issue for the states. States have regulated marriage, if you will. That would be my preference. In effect, what’s happened is that in recent months, especially in Massachusetts, but also in California, but in Massachusetts we had the Massachusetts Supreme Court direct the state of-- the legislature of Massachusetts to modify their constitution to allow gay marriage. And the fact is that the president felt that it was important to make it clear that that’s the wrong ~vay to go, as far as he’s concerned. Now, he sets the policy for this administration, and I support the president." Americans do not support ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Americans overwhelmingly want to see the military’s "Don’t Ask, Do~t Tell" ban on open gays repealed, a new Gallup poll has found. Sixty-nine percent told pollsters it’s time for the ban to go -- including 58 percent of Republicans, 58 percent of self-described co~iservatives and 60 percent 0fwee~y churchgoers. Eighty-sLx percent of liberals oppose the DADT policy, along with 82 percent of Democrats and 78 percent of people between age 18 and 29. Even people over age 65 (60 percent), Southerners (57 percent) and people who didn’t finish high school (57 percent) said it’s time to dump the ban. Said Gallup: "President Barack Obama will be well-positioned to forge ahead with his campaign promise to end the military ban on openly gay service members." Gallup polled 1,105 adults nationwide between May 7 and 10. The organization said it was 95 percent confident that the maximum margin of sampling error was plus or minus 3 percentage points. CALIFORNIA HIV EMERGENCY Schwarzenegger, Legislature may slash HIV funding Gay and HIV advocates rallied at *~e state Capitol in Sacramento, Calif., on time i 0 against draconian cuts in HIVfi~nding proposed by Gov. Arnold Schwar~enegger and under consideration by the Legislature. Wockner News photo by Charlie Peer/Ou~vord Magazine California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has proposed, and the California Legislature is considering, draconian cuts to all types of HIV-related funding in the nea>bankrupt state. In the worst-case scenario, which is still not off the table, slashes to the AIDS Drug Assistance Program could result in thousands of Californians who make less than $41,600 per year losing access to the statelprovided drugs that suppress HIV and keep them dive. In the apparent best,case scenario, not all HIV drugs would be available via ADAP and patients would have to pay part of the cost 0f the ones they could geta That is problematic because some HIVvposirive people have developed resistance to some HIV drugs, and need access to the full arsenal of therapies to stay alive. Further, the current plan apparendy completely eliminates state funding for the tests that determine if a patient is responding to treatment -- such tests as CD4 counts, viral-load measurement and drug-resistance monitoring. Lesbian couple marries it just now took effect. Kitzen Branting, 26, and Jeni Branting, 28, tied the knot in the tribe’s meeting hall. Their marriage will not be recognized by the state of Oregon, but will be legal on the property of the tribe, which is a sovereign ~ nation. on Indian reservation A lesbian couple married on the Coquille Indian reservation in Coos Bay, Ore., May 24. It was believed to be the first such marriage in the U.S. ~ae Coqui!te tribe passed a la~v legalizing same-sex marriage more than a year ago, but These tests are essentially mandatory in HIV treatmm~t. Doctors use them so they can change a nonresponsive patient’s drug combination to another combo that works in that patient -- before the patient’s immune system breaks down further and the patient develops a life-threatening opportunistic infection ............ The current plan apparently also dramatically ~lashes handing for education, prevention, counseling and testing programs. Some 35,000 working- and middleclass Californians who don’t make enough money to pay for their own treatment could be adversely or dangerously affected by the possible cuts to ADAP and elimination of monitoring testing. Gay and HIV advocates have strongly denounced the budget proposals, and a large rally was held at the state Capitol in Sacramento on June 10. Direct Cremation From $595 AI McAffrey Owner / Funeral Director Ban "uptcy o Civil Rights oCriminalEmpl ~ment o Family Law - Litigation MORTUARY SERVICE.,,~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405} 230- 13~0 or ~o800-913q310 625 N.W. 13th Street klahoma City, OK 73103 Pre-Need Plan CReDiT CARDS ACC~PT~E 2415-C North Walnut Avenue. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma STAR 9 �N Wockner News Service 50,000 at EuroPride Some 50,000people ~rned outfor the EuroPride parade, hem in Zurich this year on June ~ Photo by Nikolai Alekseev, GayRussta.ru Some 50,000 people turned out for the EuroPrkle parade, hdd in Zurich this year on June 6. Openly lesbian Zurich Mayor Corine Mauch joined in. Next year, the parade ventures behind the former Iron Curtain to Warsaw -- a city that as recently- as 2005 tried to ban pride, only to be later rebuffed by the European Court of Human Pdghts. Meanwhile, Rom& gay pride parade dr~ more than 100,000 participants June 13~ with a demand fbr legalization of 20,000 march Tel Av v Around 20,000 people joined Tel Aviv’s ! lth gay pride parade June 12. The march ended with a beach ’~edding" of five gay" couples. Same-sex marriage is not legal in Israel. Some top rabbis had urged Prime Minister Beniamin Netanydau m try to ban the parade. They called it an abomination. A few religious right-wingers picketed the march, which was paid for by the city government. ’Tel Aviv is more secular than Jerusalem, where the pride parade routinely leads large numbers of religious folks ~o wail and gnash. Last year’s parade in Jerusalem featured 3,000 naarchers and 2,000 cops to protect them. They walked al! of @ur blocks. ~n 2007, the Jerusalem parade traveled about 500 meters before ultra-Orthodox protesters shut it down, despite the presence orS,000 police o@cers. Prior to the parade, police arrested a man with a bomb. The postparade rally was canceled because striking firefighters refused to provide a required firetruck. In 2005, a counterdemontrator stabbed three marchers at Jerusalem’s marcia and later was convicted of attempted murder. ~ae victims’ iniuries were not serious. same-sex marriage and equa! rights for gay couples. Some 1,500 people marched in Warsaw on June 13, also demanding legalization of same-sex partnerships. "l-he parade, on central Marszalkowska Street, attracted fewer than !00 counterprotesters, who shouted anti-gay vitriol. Five hundred people marched in Zagreb, Croatia, on June t3. Police kept about 50 snarling anti-gays from disrupting the parade. Moscow gays want to picket Obama Moscow Pride founder Nikolai Mekseev says members of his group will attempt to stage a picket in favor of same-sex marriage at the U.S. Embassy on July 7 during President Bara& Obama’s visit. It is unlikely the activists will receive city permission to do so. Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has banned pride parades for the past four years and sent riot police to aggressively arrest those who ignored the bans. Luzl~ov has called gay parades "demonic," "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction." He also has said the bans are for gays own good so that "radical Christians" don’t have a chance to "kill them." Mekseev is hopet~fl that he’ll be able to pull off the picket regardless because "the presidential media pack wilt be in town." Mayor Luz ov lashes out at gays Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has again lashed out at gays, calling them "homos" and calling gay pride parades "demonic." Appearing on a TV program June 2, Luzhkov reportedly said: "Niere are two reasons gay pride parades are unacceptable in Moscow: First and foremost, public morality .does not accept such parades, public morality does nor accept those homos." Secondly, he said: "If they gather together, assuming they are allowed to hold a parade, other people will simply kill them. ~here are radical Christians in Moscow who stand strongly against such demonic manifestations, as they say. "There were attempts made (in May’) to hold the gay parade during the Eurovision Song Contest in Moscova We had to isolate about 19 radical Christians who intended to attack those homos.’ On May, 16, riot police broke up an attempt to stage the fourth annual gay pride parade in Moscov~; arresting up to 80 participants, including gay leader N@olai Ale~eev, British gay leader Peter %tchell and Chicago gay activist Andy Thayen Luzhkov previously has called gay pride parades "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction," and has o@cially banned them each ),ear. Lithuanian Parliament votes ’no promo homo’ law Lithuania’s parliament, the Seimas, approved a measure on first reading June 4 that bans references to homosexuality in schools and in public information that can be visible to children. Tne bill still has to dear a final vote. The tally was 57-2 with 8 abstentions. Many MPs missed the vote. Amnesty International said the "Law on the Protection of Minors Against the Detrimental Effect of Public Information’~ would classify "homosexuality alongside issues such as ... the display of a dead or cruelly mutilated body of a person, and information that arouses fear or horror, or encourages self-mutilatisn or suicide." Nicola Duckworth, Amnesty’s Europe and Central Asia program director, said the proposed law "denies the right to freedom of expression and deprives students’ access to the support and protection they may need." Northern Irish LGBs report high level of hate Twenty-one percent of gay and bisexual men and I8 percent of lesbian and bisexual women iri Northern Ireland say they\,e been the victim of a homophobic hate crime or incident in the past three years. The figure comes fi’om a survey of I,t43 LGB people catrried out by the Rainbow Project with funding from the Police Service of Northern Ireland. Tne study found that 64 percent of such incidents were not reported to police and 30 percent resulted in physical injui3: ebec to 1attach strategy against homophobia Quebec Justice Minister Kathleen Well has announced the Canadian province will implement a comprehensive strategy against homophobia before the end of the year. She broke the news at a May I7 rally marking the International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO). "We see it as a major step forward here since doing so, Quebec will ackmowledge officially that homophobia -- and not homosexuality -- is a social problem and take action, instead of passively banning discrimination, said Magazine ]~tre Editor Andrd Gagnon. "As far as I know, it will be the first government in the world to adopt such a strategy that will cover all its spheres of intervention," he said. China sees its first gay pride week China saw" its first-ever gay pride week June 7-14 in Shanghai. Events included movies, plays, art exhibits, panel discussions, swimming and badminton competitions, and a big party, thouglx at least one play" and one film were ordered canceled by authorities. Some 500 people attended a barbecue/ drag shiny/fashion show/hot-body contest on June 13. Organizers decided against holding a parade, saying it iust didn’t seem to be legally possible, according to China Daily: "Shanghai Pride is a community-building exercise," co-organizer Tiffany Lemay told the English-lang~aage paper. "We hope to raise awareness of issues surrounding homosexuality, raise the visibility of the gay community, help people within our community to come out, and build bridges between the gay and straight communities." 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) O lahoma’s NV/S ’# l otlin PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) @O,P,E, Testing Clinic ~ens O@reach In Tulsa at (9’~8) July 2009 �i t÷matie Ruling: English adoption agencies .Gay marriage campaign launched cannot discriminate m Portugal The Charities Commission of England and Wales ruled June 2 that adoption agencies cannot discriminate against gay couples. The commission cited the Equality Act (Sexual Orientationl Regulations 2007, which ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. Violation of the law would lead to a loss of charity status and public funding. The ruling came in a case involving the Catholic Care charity in Leeds, which wanted to amend its official statement of objectives with the commission to exclude consideration of gay couples. Denmark is not gay nirvana Denmarlq the first nation in the world to legalize gay partnerships, in 1989, still has a problem with homophobia. Eighteen percent of GLBT people in Copenhagen and 8 percent in other parts of the country say they’ve been discriminated against based on their sexual orientation in the past year, according to a report from the Center for Alternative Social Analysis. GLBT people between ages 16 and 29 reported more problems than older people. A total of 3,400 homophobic incidents were reported to police in 2008, the study said. A report in the Politiken newspaper said gay businesses also have been targeted. Copenhageds oldest gay ba~; Centralhiornet. had rocks thrown through its windows six times in 2008. Patrons also have been bombed with eggs through the bar’s open door. Australian prison OKs gay con}ugal visits Xhe Alexander Maconochie prison in Australia’s Capital Territory has decided to let gay inmates receive conjugal visits six times a year. The policy applies to prisoners who are ~vell-behaved and whose partner is not also incarcerated at the facility. Reports said that the state of Victoria. where Melbourne is located, is the only other place in Australia where gay inmates can have sex dates with their partners. Bosnian churches oppose anti- discrimination bill Bosnia and Herzegovina’s Interreligious Council is opposing a.bill to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation, claiming it will lead to legalization of same-sex marriage. The measure has passed first reading in the House of Representatives. A national law banning discrimination based on sexual orientation is a requirement for any nation that wants its citizens to be able to travel within the European Union without obtaining a visa. Nae Interreligious Council is composed of representatives of the nation’s Roman Catholics, Muslims, Jews and Orthodox Christians. Balkanlnsight.com said it is unttsual for the council "to agree on any concrete actions and (it) often has been blocked by internal boycotts." w,,~w.rnetrostarnews.com The Movement for Equality in Access to Civil Marriage launched on May 31 in Lisbon, Portugal. More than 1,000 people signed onto the campaign, including politicians, well-known actors, pop singers and businesspeople, and Nobel Prize winner Josd Saramago, who was honored for literature in 1998. The campaign’s manifesto, which nmv can be signed by anyone in Portugal, states, in part: "Equal access to civil marriage is a matter of justice that deserves the support of all people who oppose homophobia and discrimination .... We citizens who believe in equal rights, dignity and recognition for all of us -- for our families, friends and colleagues -- join our voices to express our support for equality. "We call this change necessary, fair and urgent because we know that the current situation of inequality divides society between those who are included and those who are excluded, between persons who are inside and marginalized persons .... We now have an opportunity to end one of the last unjustified (instances of) discrimination written in our law." Peru gay police ban less stringent than reported Peruvian Interior Minister Mercedes Cabanillas says recent news reports that gays have been banned from being police officers were not quite right. Mid-May reports said cops who have sex with people of the same sex would be banned because they cause scandal and denigrate the police’s image. But Cabanillas says the new law, which took effect May 12, will only ban gay cops if their gay-related public behavior is scandalous or damages the image of the institution. She said the ministry has no desire to "get in anyone’s bed" and that officials only wish to target unseemly, embarrassing or scandalous occurrences or attitudes related to sexual orientation that happen in the public sphere. Gay groups said the taw is problematic and discriminatory either way because ir seems to suggest that certain public expressions of homosexuality are more likely ro run afoul of the law than similar public expressions of heterosexuality. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission and Movimiento Homosexual de Lima have launched a letter-~vriting campaign to Peru’s public defender, =’asldng her to file an Action of Unconstitutionality with the Constitutional Court to cl!allenge the so-called ’offense’ of same-sex relations and its associated penalty." "We write to express our concern over Law 29356, vchich establishes a new disciplinary code for the Peruvian police, and stipulates in Article 34 that it is a serious offense to ’have sex with people of the same gender that causes scandal or undermines corporate image,’" a sample letter says in part. "This law is a clear violation of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the Covenant on Civil and Political Rights -- both of which have been signed by Peru. This regressive law also violates the Andean Charter, a regional treaty ratified by Peru in 2002 .... Finally, Law 29356 is inconsistent with human rights principles that are already, codified in Peruvian law. On December 1, 2004, a new Constitutional Procedures Code, approved by Parliament, modified constitutional procedures to recognize discrimination based on sexual orientation." Centrelink assistance encompasses such things as health care, prescription drugs., unemployment payments, disaster aid,,rent subsidies, aid to single parents and a wide range of other benefits and welfare programs. "From 1 July 2009 changes to legislation wilt mean that customers who are in a same-sex de facto relationship will be recognised as partnered for Centrelink and Family Assistance Office purposes," says the agenc)?s Web site. "All customers who are assessed as being a member of a couple will have their rate of payment calculated iri the same way." Colombian policeman added to partner’s health insurance The Board of Health of Colombia’s National Police granted health-insurance benefits to the partner of a gay officer May 14. The extension of coverage to Fabifin Mauricio Chibcha Romero followed a January ruling by the nation’s Constitutional Court that granted marital rights to commonlaw same-sex couples in areas that indude civil service, contracts ~vith the government, housing protection and assistance, immigration, social security, death indemnification, and criminal noninctimination. ~Pne activist group Colombia Diversa said the ruling encompassed all the "civil, political, social, economic, criminal and immigration rights ... of a common-law union, minus adoption." Chibcha also gained access to police housing subsidies and vacation dubs. METRO P O L!TAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve ~. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM WWg~¢. S 0 cmcc. Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! Australian benefits agency recognizes gay de facto couples Centrelink, the Australian government’s social-benefits agency, will treat gay de facto couples as married for benefits purposes starting July 1. While the move increases equality, it also will result in a loss of benefits for some coupled gays, who previously qualified based on their individual income. ~,tr®STAR 11 �Looking some good summerwtt te wines. monm, we are art a ou- Viognier [vee-oh-nay] For those who haven’t experienced Viognier, the first glass is quite a revelation. This wine will embody al! Or some of the following: honeysuckle, citrus blossoms, t~,chee, ripe melon, freshly picked.peaches 6r apricots and ripe pear. Winemaker Craig Williams, from Josep~ ~nhe~s Vin~;a,~s, s~s Viognier contains floral compounds called ~Terpens. Tl~ey are also found in Muscat and Pdesling. So, think of the most aromatic Muscat or Riesling you’ve ever encountered, then concentrate it and you have Viognier. The majoriV of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Rl~one wine region, the grape is o~en blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. In the Northern part of Rhone, the grape is sometimes blended with Chardonnay. Since the late 1980s, plantings of Viognier in the United States and Cagada have increased dramat, ically. The Rhone R~angers of the mid 1980 s help spark the increased interest in Viognier in California and now Californigs Central Coast is the leading producer. months recipe courtesy of: Crab Ingredients 1 Cup Mayonnaise 4 Eggs 1 V2 Cup Japanese Breadcrumbs 2 T Granulated Garlic 2 T Onion Powder 2 - I lb Cans Jumbo Lump Crab Meat (Indonesian or Philippine) 2 - 1 lb Cans Bacldin Crab Meat (indonesian or Philippine) 12 most widet l~ted white , ..... ?~ P ~ , [, wine grape, veraemo is cl~slHeo as a noble or classic grape. On the PortuDtese mainland, it is recommended in the DAO region and with the production of white port. Some Portuguese locales call this Gouveio. The Godello grape grown in northwest Spain is believed to be the same variety as Verdelho. %e grape has been successful in the vineyards of Australia, particularly the Hunter \~lley region, Langhorne Creek and the Swan Xga!le?: Australian versions of Verdelho are noted for their intense flavors vdth hints of lime and honeysuclde. California is producing more of this varietal as ,sell. St. Amant 2006 California Marquis Philips 2007 Australia Verdejo [ver-day-ho] This is a variety of wine grape that has long been grown in the Rueda winegrowing region of Spain. The grape originated in North Africa, and was spread to Rueda in about the 1 lth Century. For most of this time Verdejo was generally used to make a strongly oxidized, Sherry-like wine, In the 1970s the > ~ Marcheregiono~:~yand~ < fthe}lord to wpicNly Sauvignon blanc ~ Macab~o. Xg ,~. 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He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events around town known as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. indude: / www. la~neSpecta- Verdicchio Preparation: Mix first 5 ingredients together by hand. Drain Crab meat cans of water. Fold in Baclcfin crab meat first and then gently fold in jumbo lump crab meat being careful not to break up the lumps. If mixrure is too wet. add 1A cup more of Japanese Breadcrumbs. Mixture should barely hold together. DO NOT PU/T .~NY ADDITIONAL SEASONINGS OR TOO MUCH BRREADCRUMBS IN! The drizzle on top of the crab cakes will give ir all of the seasoning it will need. Preheat a skillet over medium-high heat with half an 20 inch of corn oil. Once the mixture is made, take a 4 ounce scoop and pack in the crab cake mixture. Carefully place the flat side of the crab cake down in the oil for approximately ! - 2 minutes until golden brmvn. Place the crab cake on a pre-greased baking sheet, fried side up. These can now be held for up to 5 days in the refrigerator or finished offin the oven immediately; the ba~ DRIZZLE INGREDIENTS (BAY MAYO) 1 Cup Mayonnaise 2 T Old Bay Dash of Granulated Garlic % Cup Heavy Cream July 2009 �Big-screen beckons Nell Patrick Harris xYvq~ite hosting this year’s Tony Axvards, Nell Patrick Harris joked about his second-class status as a "TV guy." But he’s atready proven he’s hilarious on the big screen in the Harold & Kumar movies, so now that second-tier status is about to change with two new film projects on the horizon. Harris has joined the cast of Beastly, the new film from gay director Daniel Barnz (Phoebe in Wonderland) that Romeo’s already reported on here, but the How I Met Your Mother star wilt also be playing a lead role in The Best and the Brightest. Harris plays a husband - way to break that gay-actor-curse NPH - from Ddaware whose wife goes bananas about social status when they move to New York City and try to get their kid into an elite kindergarten. Amy Sedaris, John ~ and Kate Mulgrew al~0 star in ~he latter; hit theaters before the end of 20!0. ~LSA, 0g (PR). Continuing the m0fithl9 ShOwcase of local artists a the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa ~ right next to Living Arts (Ok ) How to make a monster musicaJ Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway Focus Features photo More and more movies are being made from poptflar Brokeback spouses reunite childhood toys, from dolls (Kit Kittredge: An American Girl) to action figures (Transformers) tO even board games Granted, the romance between Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway in (Clue). But now we’re getting a movie musical based on a toy Brokeback Mountain was a tragic one involving the closet and deception and that doesn’t even exist yet and will presumably be marketed death, but these actors are determined to give it another go in a movie where he alongside the film itself. Gay super-producers Craig Zadan won’t be playing a gay cowboy. Love and Other Drugs will feature Gyllenhaal and Nell Meron are reuniting with Hairspray composeras a pharmaceutical sales rep for Pfizer during the time when a revolutionary lyricist Marc Shaiman and lyricist Scott gc’ittman to make litde blue pill was hitting the market (the film is based on the book Hard Sell: an original screen musical around an as-yet-unnamed Mattel Tne Evolution ofa Viagra Salesman) while Hathaway will play a woman with monster toy. Every~daing’s being kept very much on the Parldnson’s with whom he begins a relationship after they meet on a sales hush-hush, but the one thing that’s been revealed is that the call. Ed Zwick (Glor~ Defiance) is set to direct, with Shooting set to happen property will "add a fresh twist to monster lore." No word possibly as early as this fall. A movie about Viagra may make audiences stand at yet on when this new musical will go into production, but attention, but if the film lasts more than four hours, please, call your doctor. Romeo bets five bucks that if the movie and the toy do well, an eventual Broadway adaptation is inevitable. And TV Romeo San PTcente hopes the monster-toy musical will be like the Dra~da puppet rock operaj~om _Forgetting Sarah Marshall_, complete withfull-fl’ontal male nudity. He can be reached care of show. And more toys. And sequels. And ... will feature Tulsa Artist Michael Cooper with an opening show and reception on Thursday, July 2nd from 6-gpm and continuing throughout the month of July. Michael Cooper is an emerging artist in the Oldahoma scene, specializing in journalistic art, music, and portrait photography. In 2008 he joined Urban Tulsa Weekly as a staff photographer and has seen his work published in notable other Okie publications, induding Oklahoma Gazzette and Oklahoma Today Magazine. In his own words, "I have two eyes and one lens, and they battle each other for experiences daily. The way I see it - few people get to live their passion, and being an artist is mine. I’m just trying this road of exploration out, and I hope you’re there along for the ride". this publication or at DeeplnsideHollywOod@qsyndicate.com. www.metrostarnews.corn gg{<~{:a~oSTA, R 13 �MCC United ~°~"-~~o’~°" 918-838-171~ Metropolitan Community Chu~h put tb Chr° y Church 14 ;~÷troSTAR July 2009 �www.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 15 ��PHILADELPHIA, PA "As in one of the most beautiful and interesting cities in the country" Wayne Fuller reported on gossipboy.com, an by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Oklahoma internet news service focused on You could easily spend a whole ~veek in this beautiful city and still not see everything. The architecture is unbelievably tremendous. On weekends, the Penn Landing downtown is full of vendors and local artists. Philadelphia is certainly a city that is welcoming gay travelers with open arms. There are just a handful of cities that you must visit in the country and Philadelphia is certainly" on our short list. Most cities you still need a car to travel around however not in this city. They have such a great public transportation system and is extremely safe and clean. Why can’t all cities do this? For more information on Philadelphia, visit: www.gablesbb.com and they are located at 4520 Chester Avenue. Phone: 215.662. ! 918. ?dso visit w~v<ka~ockphilly. the GLBT community, that Mr. Chiles had been convicted of Obtaining Money by False Pretenses in McClain County in 2006, for which he received a 2 year deferred sentence now completed. Since then a warrant for his arrest was issued for the same offense in Pontotoc County, which was in effect when he was elected to his Democratic Party position. COLT1 [)how: Gables Bed and Breakfizst Visiting Philadelphia for the first time -was certainly, a very exciting and interesting time for us. We knew ahead of time al! about the historical things to see and do but had no idea what else to expect. We first checked into The Gables Bed and Break~st which has been owned for the past 16 years by ~rren Cederholm and Don Caskey. Located in the University part of the city, it is a grand old Victoria home full of wonderful antiques from top to bottom. ~e house has a "wrap around" porch for guests to sit and have drinlcs and snacks or just to view the sights and sounds of the area. Each room is beautifully decorated in antiques. A full, and we do mean FULL sit down breakfast in the ~orma! dining room is served each morning. XYge are not talking doughnuts and coflree but a fail sit down brealNast. This was a perfect way to talk with the other guests to find out what others did the day" be~bre or were going to do that day. "While there we met guests from California, Alabama and all over. Many of the guests alwws stay there when visiting Philadelphia. Warren and Don are graciotts hosts and. al%r 16 years of taking guests into their lovely home, they seem to have been able to do it the right way< Another great thing about staying at The Gables is that the trolley system runs right in front of their house and you can take it downtown in just minutes, and it runs about every 20 minutes a!l day 10ng. The), have ample off-street parking behind their house which is a big plus. To begin your day, take the trolley downtown. From that point you can take another bus or ,valk south to the famous historical district of Philadelphia and visit all the places there. No trip to Philadelphia would be complete without visiting the Liberty Bell and the other historical places that are located within a few blocks of there. Philadelphia is proud of their art museums as well they, should be. ~-he Philadelphia www.metrostamews.com Museum of Art is a first class museum and is a MUST for anyon& visit to the cits: A few blocks away is the Rodin Museum which houses more Rodin sculptors any~vhere except for Paris. There are maW other museums to visit also. Of course every visitor to Philadelphia must try one of their famous Philly Cheesesteak sandwiches for lunch. There are a lot of gay bars in the ’~gayborhood" area of the city which is iust a few blocks west of downtmvn and easily ~vithin ~valking distance from the public transportation. Knock was our very favorite bar there. It is what a gay bar should be all about ....... A clean bar where the owner/management/staff is super friendly; wl~ere the customers are super friendl> where you can walk in and really enioy yourself, located righ~ on the corner of Locust St. and I2th Street. They also have an excellent res~urant located in the bar. ~Pnis is one of the finest restaurants in the city ~vith fine white linen tablecloths and napkins on every table. Jim the Maitre ’d is extremely professional. The servers are very professional. They have a huge menu offering the very finest of cuisine. Owned by Bill Wood, this bar/restaurant is extremely popular with both people ~vho live in the city as ~vell as travelers. We were fortunate during our stay to see the Broadway pla}~ Grey Gardens which is about the life of the aunt and cousin of Jackie Kennedy- Onassis. They lived in a 24 room house in the Hamptons on Long Island but were extremely poor and let their house run down something horrible. Mother and daughter loved (and hated) each other but were bound to live with each other until the mother finally died. There was a movie made about their lives and HBO came out with another movie a couple of months ago. Both live theatre as well as the visua! arts are a huge makeup in Philadelphia. Another great website to visit is: http://www.gophita.com/c/your_ philadelphia/14/diverse_philadelphia/287/ gay~friendly_philadelphia/4.html and wwcw. gayphiladelphia.com On a personal note, we want to thank Bruce Yelk, Director of Human Resources & Gay Marketing, Greater Philadelphia Tourism marketing Corportation and to our friend Buster Stevens who hosted a wonderful dinner for us xvhile we were visiting. Photo: Famous Liber~_y Bell Philadelphia, PA Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Robert Chiles, Director & Founder ofPrject Pride Foundation of Oklahoma. Gorin photo On June 8, represented by attorney Gordon Melson, he appeared in court in Pontotoc Count-5: An agreement was reached ~vith the warrant withdrawn, and Robert ~vould have until August 27 to make restitution to the parties involved. On June 3, when cast members from the national tour of "The Drowsy Chaperone" did a benefit at Tulsa’s Renegades Club for Until There’s a Cure, an organization helping those with HIV. Mr. Chiles presented them with a large check payable to that organization. It likewise would not clear his bank. Mr. Chiles had been contacted by that organization and he promised them a cashier~ check which was not received as of press time. Following this, Mr. Chiles had asked the Red Ribbon Revue, a monthly benefit show performed at Renegades, to do a benefit for his Foundation. In a statement to gossipboy. corn Renegades entertainer Tabitha Taylor stated, "I’m glad this was caught before we did a fundraiser with the name attached." ~÷{~oSTAR 17 �18 July 2009 �,~.metrostarnews.com ~®~°~STAR t9 �By Camper English Crafting the Cosmopolitan ~he Cosmopolitan is one tasty cocktail and probably most popular drink created in the last 30 years, but it is not magically original. The recipe calls for lemon vodka, lime iuice, orange liqueur, and a splash of cranberry for color. Minus the cranberry, the drink follows the formula of spirit plus lime plus orange liqueur. If that spirit is tequila, that’s a Margarita. If it’s unflavored vodka, that’s a Kamikaze. In fact. the prevailing theory on the creation of the Cosmopolitan is that it ,vas a spin-offofthe Kamikaze created by a Miami bartender named Cheryl Cook in 1985 or !986. She said the Cosmo is. ~ ~ "Merely a Kamikaze with Absolut Citron and a splash of cranberry juice." But her version called for Rose’s lime juice, a bottled lime juice that’s a poor substimte for freshsqueezed, and triple sec, which usually refers to the low-end orange liqueurs that are poor substitutes for Cointreau. These items are often served at high-volume bars that want to save money on (admittedly pricey) orange liqueur and don’t want their bartenders taldng the time to squeeze limes for each drink. But I find the Cosmo-to be intolerable ~vithout them. So too did Toby Cecchini, a New York bartender credited with finessing the drink into its best form. Someone told Cecchini about the drink, but in their version it was made with unflavored vodka, Rose’s lime, and the red-colored syrup grenadine. He liked the look of the drink - soft pink and served in a Martini glass - and experinaented ~vith ingredients to make the flavor match the fashion. In the end, his version came out just like Cheryl Cook’s version, but with better ingredients. This version caught on like wildfire in New York. causing Cecchini and other bartenders to make them by the thousands. In the era of bottled sour mix and vermouthflee Martinis. this drink seerned highmaintenance enough for Cecchini to call them "labor-intensive pink monstrosities." ~e trick to making a good pink monstrosity; even if you have the proper ingredients, is getting the ratio of them. right. Apparently this is a problem for bartenders ~oo - i’ve had Cosmopolitans i~ every shade from c!¢ar to deep red. When I make them at borne, I’m ~o~- laz/to Ioot up ~[~e recipe so I }ust ake ir ,,~ ingredient ar a vitae: ~ couo~e ounces of Charon a smat~ splash of Cointreau. and a large quantity of’lime. 2O ~:mSTAR (I like them tart.) I make mine in keeping ,vith Cheryl Cook’s original instructions of ~jttst enough cranberry to make it oh so pretty in pink." That’s my starting point, anyway. One thing I’ve learned making this drink is that cranberry juice, like slimming black clothing, hides many sins. Even if you get the initial ratios of liquor and juice all wrong, or have to resort to bottled lime )uice and bottom-shelf triple sec, you can always make a drinkable version of this drink. Just keep adding cranberry until it’s good. The trick is finding the right fit for each gin fqr your mouth. I prefer the old-style gins in a Martini, Aviation, Pink Gin, and Negroni. With the more-floral, less-juniper gins I like the Salty Dog, Gimlet, White Lady, and Vesper. But I find that no matter what kind of gin you have in the house you can always add it to tonic water and it will taste just fine. Tonic is the mixer that swings both ways. Vodka, Now Available in Juniper Flavor Miss Gay Oklahoma 2009 Crowned in O KC I like to think of"bathtub gift" as "Martinis by the poo!." but that’s not where the expression originated. It came about during Prohibition xvhen people would "make" their own gin by adding mail-order juniper flavoring to lowquality alcohol to help mask its awfulness. 2the weird tiring is, gin cocktails were awfully popular back then. Today it is still legal to make gin this way- not in the bathtub. but by adding juniper oil and other flavors to a neutral spirit like vodka. Thankftdly, most of the gins with which we’re familiar don’t do it like that. Gin usually starts with high-proof neutral spirit made from grains like corn, wheat, and rye. The gin distiller then selects a range of botanicals or botanical oils to infuse into the spirit, then redistills everything together. There are many different distilling methods gin makers employ, but this is probably only interesting to folks like me ~vho spend our spare time hanging out in distilleries on vacation. More interesting are the types of botanicals that go in to gin. Traditional brands like Beefeater, Plymouth, and Tanqueray contain many ingredients like citrus peels, coriander, cinnamon, and cassia bark. Newer gins on the market like Bombay Sapphire, Hendrick’s, and Martin Miller’s also include things like lavender, ginseng, rose, and green tea. All gins, by definition, must contain jtmiper (berries that smell like pine trees) as a dominant flavor, but the newer ones tend to put less of it in. While vodka lovers and gin lovers are usually different sorts of people (though I find versatility provides more options in the bedroom and the liquor cabinet)~ when it comes right down to it gin is really just juniper-flavored vodka. If you’ve got vodka drinkers over for cocktails and you only have gin left, just tell them their drinks are made with "botanical vodka." If you’re in the opposite situation, tell them the vodka is "diet gin." Lying to your guests is the most entertaining part of entertaining them. The combination and concentration of the juniper, spices, citrus, and other botanicals is what gives each gin its unique flavor and makes it a better or worse fit for different cocktails. Some modern gins are so very citrusy and floral that they can be too perfumey for a Martini. (Hey, this drink smells like grandma!} On the other hand. when you add an intensely juniper-heaW gin ro a Gimlet or other mild cockt ills. s~metimes all you ~aste b rhe juniper. (Hey, this drink smells like where ~ ~andma is buried!~ Camper English is a cocktails and spirits writer andpublisher ofAlcademics.com. By Victor Gorin worked their hearts out, hoping to be the next Miss Gay Oklahoma. Emceed by former Miss Gay America 2006 Nicole Dubois & former Miss Gay Oklahoma 2005 Pure Chocolate (as Steven), it got wild Saturday night as it wound down to 5 finalists with their friends cheering on their favorites. That fun fabulous contest came to a conclusion on Saturday night June 13 when Shantel Mandalay finally won the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma America after many years of pursuing that dream. A proud 3rd grade teacher who also coaches Special Olympics, Miss Mandalay and her entourage wowed the audience with a fast stepping dance routine to the C&W classic "The Devi! went down to Georgia" that brought the house down. It was also an emotional time for the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer when she passed on her tide, joining many other former Miss Gay Oklahomas who were there for the occasion. Together with 1st alternate Samantha \Vest. Shantel will be eligible to compete in the national Miss Gay America competition to be held this year in St.Louis October 28.November 1. Left: 2008 Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer, 1st altetmam Samantha West, Shantd l~£andalay &Miss Gay America Victoria DePaula. Gorin Photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It was a festive weekend June 11-13 at Angles in Oklahoma City when once again the girls lIGHT BILENT AUCTION- AND RAFFLES Dd. IKEY TURNS UP THE WITH OlSDg ALL NIGHT July 2009 �~’#~W. metrostam ews.com �Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ OGRA Pool Party, OKC @ The Copa Oklahoma City @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Finishlinel Oklahoma City @ OGRA Rodeo, OKC Tulsa Pride 09 Parade @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Tulsa Pride 09 Parade �www.metrostarnews.com , <,STAR 23 �Oban~a administration defending DOMA is shocking and unsetding. Clearly, our selfdescribed ’fierce advocate’ needs significant additional pushing and pressure from all of US." Popular blogger John Aravosis: "A Democratic president of the United States of i~erica, in the year 2009. and an AfricanB~nerican child of inter-racial parents no less, gave his la~wers the go ahead ro compare our marriages to incest on the same day that 42 years ago the Supreme Court ruled in [ais parents’ favor in Loving v. Virginia .... We demand our rights, and we expect this president, who promised them in exchange [or millions of our votes and millions of our donations, to deliver. And so help me God, we will continue to hold this president accountable for his broken promises and his betrayals]" Lambda Lega!’s Legal Director Jon Davidson: "X~at they need to be asked is why they gratuitously went out of their -way ~o make the outrageous arguments they unnecessarily included such as that DOM2~ does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or that the right ar issue is not marriage but an unestablished rigi~t ~o ’same-sex marriage or that DOMA is somehow iustified in order to protect taxpayers ~;ho don’t want their tax do!lars used ro suppor~ lesbian and gay couples iwhile it~ apparently fine to make lesbians and gay men pay the same rm,:es but be &nied the benefits provided heterosexual couples) .... I am seething mad." Top Clinton aide R5chard Socarides: "It had such a buckshot approach ro it, a veritable kitchen sink of anti-gay legal theories, that it seemed expressly designed to inflict maximal damage ro our rights. Instead of malting nuanced arguments which took into account the president’s oi?-stated support for repealing DO1VLA -- a law he has called ’abhorrent’ -the brief seemed to embrace DOMA and all its horrific consequences," Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors: "We ... call on President Obama m order the Justice Department ro file a supplemental brief reversing its position and instead urging the repeal of DOMA." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey: "The malicious and outrageous arguments and language used in the Department of Justice’s marriage brief is only serving to inflame and malign the humanity of same-sex couples and our families." Gay writer Dan Savage: "If this shit is ’fierce advocacy,’ Mr. President, we’ll take benign neglect.7 CBS News: "The anger from gay rights advocates toward President Obama is starting to boil over." ~!~e Wall Street Journal called Sotmonese’s letter to Obama "scathing." The New York Times editorialized: "The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has nor done much, actually struck a blow" for the other side last week.... If the administration does feel compelled to defend (DOMA), it should do so in a less hurtful wa~: ... There was no need to resort to specious arguments and inflammatory language to impugn samesex marriage as an institution." Plans apparently are shaping up for a gay March on Washington in October, spearheaded, it appears, by veteran activist Cleve Jones, the man who created the NAMES Proiect AIDS Memorial O~ilt."The President is in serious danger of motivating a huge mass of gay people to stream into \Ygashington for the simple ioy of standing in front of the White House and giving him a piece of their minds," wrote syndicated gay columnist \gayne Besen. "For what seemed Iike forever, Democrats told us that when the big bad Republicans went away, our lives would improve," Besen said. "XN~ell, the Republican nightmare is over, so why do I still feel like I’m in the middle of a political Friday the 13th movie? ... As far as I’m concerned, if the donkeys can’t detiv(r now, they can Idss my ass." On June 17, when Obama "delivered" to federal employees a smattering of spousal benefits, via issuance of a "memorandum," he did again denounce DOblA. "I think we all have to acknowledge this is only one step," the president said. the steps we have not yet t~en is to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. I believe it’s discriminatory, I think it interferes ,vith states’ rights, and we will work with Congress ro overturn it. \rUe’re gor more work to do to ensure that government treats all its citizens equally, to figh~ iniustice and intolerance in all its forms, and to bring about that more perfect union. I’m committed to these efforts, and I pledge to work tirelessly on behalf of these issues in the months and years to come.Obama also expressed support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act. "Under current law, we cannot provide same-sex couples with the full range of benefits enjoyed by heterosexual married couples," he said. "That’s why I’m proud to announce rny support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act, crucial legislation that will guarantee these rights for all federal employees. I want to thank Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who is behind me somewhere -- there she is, right there -- for her tireless leadership on this bill and in the broader struggle for equality. I want to thank Sen. Joe Lieberman -- Joe is here -- as well as Susan Collins for championing this bill in the Senate, and Rep. Barney Frank for his leadership on this and so many other issues." Sounds good, but gay activists ~veren’t impressed. They want action. "We commend President Obama ana his administration for taking this beginning step to level the playing field but we look forward to working with him to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, overturn ’Dofft Ask, Don’t Tell’ and guarantee the entire American worl6brce is free from discrimination," said HRC’s Solmonese. The Associated Press said, "His (Obama’s) critics -- and there were many -- saw Wednesday’s incremental move to expand gay rights as litde more than pandering to a writer Dan / Savage: "If ’\ dais shit is ’fierce advocacy; Mr. President, we’ll take benign \... neglect." / reliably Democratic voting bloc." Lamb& Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart: "While ending any of the discrimination against gay and lesbian federal employees is a welcome step, today’s ... announcement falls far short of our hopes and expectations. President Obama dearly understands how important it is for people to have health insurance coverage ro protect their loved ones and this plan does not provide that. Lambda Legal is representing Karen Golinsldi, a federal employee who works for the judicial branch and who is seeking health insurance coverage for her same-sex spouse. A federal judge has already issued an administrative decision in that matter, concluding that, within the existing roles, the federal government can choose to provide health insurance for same-sex partners. Vie think they should.... The day is long past for incomplete, piecemeal fixes that leave hard-worldng families uninsured and struggling." People For the American W’ay President Michael B. Keegan: "Today’s presidential memorandum is a very small step in the right direction, but it’s a token, and tokens are no longer enough. DOMA stands in the way of real progress for same-sex couples nmv denied federal recognition and protection, and its repeal is tong overdue. President Obama has a unique ability to provide the moral leadership to ensure that all Americans are treated equally under the law. but so far he has failed to exercise it. We urge the president to live up to his own rhetoric about being a ’fierce advocate’ fbr gay and lesbian Americans. Taking action on his pledge to repeal DOMA would be ~vorthy of the vision that he held out to Americans during his campaign NGLTF’s Carey: "This presidential memorandum today will extend some selected protections to the same-sex partners and families of federal employees .... This memo is one building block toward full equality, and much more remains to be done in order for the administration to live up to the promises of equality the president made as a candidate on the campaign trail .... We also call on the president to take additional steps that will have a positive impact on our health, our livelihoods and our families’ safety that do not require legislative action. These include reversing the standing policy of the U.S. Census Bureau to manually un-marry any same-sex couple who lawfully states they are married on the 2010 census, extending employment protections to federal employees based on gender identity, and reversing the regulations that continue to throw roadblocks in the way of HIV-positive individuals who want to travel to this country." NCLR’s Kendell: "The policy announced today by the president committing to a federal ~vorkplace free from discrimination is a step in the right direction but inadequate and long overdue. It leaves out millions of Amerieans who do not work for the federal government and fails to include key benefits including health insurance. When running for office, then candidate Obama called equality for LGBT people a ’moral imperative.’ We will continue to demand this administration live up to the president’s promise of achieving ’full equality for the millions of LGBT people in this country.’" The language is strong and the front is unified. Nae White House clearly is listening, but when will our "fierce advocate" act? Writing on his house.gov Web site June 16, gay U.S. Rep. Jared Polls, D-Colo., said: "I am a proud Democrat, as are many in the LGBT community, and I believe we must hold our leaders accountable. The Obama Administration made a HUGE mistalte in the DOMA brief. If they keep malting mistakes like this. they risktosing the support of the GLBT community forever, although I do not believe we are at that point yet. President Obama needs to honor his promise ro repeal this ... hateful and divisive law. As the New York Times editorialized yesterday, ’busy calendars and political expediency are no excuse for malting one group of Americans wait any longer for equal rights.’" labor of love really," said Arbuckle. "We ate like a family here." The organization serves men, women and children. "XWe have about 30-40 children who may be infected or have parents who are," adds Arbuclde. Recently, Arbuckle submitted a grant application to the }v’La,C-AIDS Fund which is an organization established in 1994 that globally supports all persons lMng with HIV/AIDS. "It is a passion for our company and our staff," said Armando Ortiz, MAC Retail Manager at Penn Square Mall. "We refer to this as the heart and soul of MAC Cosmetics. MAC stands for Make-up, Art and Cosmetics. "Our Viva-Glam program is where the monies come from," adds Ortiz. "We give back 100% of the selling price back to the community. This program is really something we embrace in our company." MAC Cosmetics has been in business since I984 and has donated over $t35 million dollars to date through the MAC-AIDS Fund. Other Options has changed some over the years and now focuses primarily on their Friends Food Pantry. "The other services are provided so well by other organizations in the city that we focus on the nutritional program now," said Mary Arbuckle, Director of the Other Options organization. "\ge work well together with RAIN Oklahoma, the OU Infectious Disease Clinic, and other local organizations so our clients can ger all the hdp they need and so there is less duplication of services." Friends Food Pantry is exclusive to the HIV and MDS community. Clients come to the srore to shop each week. "We give them a shopping cart and let them select their own items, which is different than most food banks," adds Arbuckle. "We want to empower their mind; we don’t want them to feel like it’s a charity." Arbuckle says they plan ro spend the majority of the MAC-AIDS grant on their Boost program, which provides the high-prorein Boost drink to those in most need of the nutritional supplement. Donations to Other Options are always ~velcomed and appreciated. For more information about Other Options or the Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 9468577. �by Jack Fertig July 2009 "Pay attention, Cancer!" Saturn square Mercury would normally bring out everyone’s inner critic, but with Saturn in Virgo and Mercury in Gemini, bitchy outbursts are to be expected. If you’re feeling brilliant, write it down and think twice before saying it aloud. Take a long view and look for opportunities for self-improvement, ARIES (March 20 - Apri~ 19): Stay focused on work. Any personal remarks, especially about colleagues, are sure to get you into trouble. Your critical analyses and recommendations for improvement are probably a bit off the mark, but at least they show you’re paying attention. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Avoid gambling and investments in any game play strictly for funsies. Focus on developing skill at your sport or hobby. That’s an uphill slog, too, but something that’s just fun now can have practical value down the road. GEMiNi {May 21- June 20): If you get any criticism from family or roommates, thank them for sharing and think about what they say. There may be something to it. Responding in kind will only start an a~ui argument. SAG!TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You will get into arguments. Stay focused, principled and respectful. The way you press your point can earn you a great deal of respect. Stay clear on details and graciously accept correction when it’s appropriate. 112 14 3 4 ~5 6 7 ~ 9 ~10111213 19 18 17 8 15 CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Take it slow and easy. Pay attention to details and you’ll have fewer accidents and arguments at work. Sex seems a great release for stress, but is it really? Focus on what’s important at work and at play. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be losing yourself helping others, and fun may feel more like work. An analytic approach to techniques of craft, sport and/or pleasure reconciles the latter. Being ruthless and selfish for a bit is now good for you. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Domestic criticisms are nearly inevitable. Being self-critical will help keep you out of arguments, but give yourself credit as well as blame. Your partner’s shortcomings on that score are highlighted because of your focus. If you must say something, be kind and gentle! 66 67 68 69 70 7I CANCER (June 21~- July 22): Pay attention where you’re walking or driving. Distractions inside your own head can cause awful accidents. Be aware of your surroundings, and you can find better ways to bang up against someone. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You’re inclined to be very critical of someone’s political values, so why not focus on your own? In this era of diminishing resources, we all need to step back and re-think things. Brainstorming with friends will help you update your perspective. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22) The sharp edge of your wit is very much in evidence. Keep it focused on practical matters and attention to your own health and well-being. When tempted to speak of others, make extra effort to keep it kind and constructive. L~B~ (September 23 - October 22): There’s always room for selfimprovement, but don’t beat yourself up with your faults, which you’re now likely to exaggerate anyway. A creative focus for your inner critic could help you to be more realistic. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): As your brain races around sex, you may want to look beyond simple gratification. That has its time and place, but think seriously about your relationships and what you’d want to be doing - and with whom - in 20 years. ~wcw.metrostarnews.com 43 Ausmas capital( to Aust ~ans ~ ’Watch a~ Liberg~ game h~re 18 Irritating : , 50 of Seventeefi : 52 :l~i~---~"s home Stat~ (abgr:}; ~3 cone Out ~nthe b~a~h Community for Monkey Zetterland 5~ ~Evbr~tt S 58 E~d of the a~eadline ~ 52 Adult filly People iving with H R/!A D S A 50’f c (3) Non t rofit Or~nizadon Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyda~: We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobat.net 31 33 Prefix with 35 In the sack 38 "Lead into temptation" 39 Casey J0n~s, e.g. 40 GOt excited , 41 Hollinghurst s 7~e Swimming~Pool 42 Edmontons province 45 Many a place near Aspen 46 Ball {vh£ckers, in Ping-Pong 47 U-turn from SSW 9 Gate design, 1 C. Marlowes tongue 55 Golfer Sam 57 Overhand stroke, for Mauresmo 59 It gets spilled at wild parties 60 Beat it 61 Peruvian native 65 Quit, with "out" ~ 69 %v0some 70 Second name in cross-dressing 7! Doest" own Solution page 26 We :welcome ~[etters fro ers. Shorter letters are more likely to be printed, as are those that addreks ohly a Singte topiC, Letters are subject to editing for lefigt|i and clarity. InClYde your hO~ addr~s} an~ ~,~time phone fiumber fo~-~;efifidatiDm Send l{~rs to the 4ditor~ pFe ly:~ ii (~iam£ws@sl;cglobal.ndt)~ Le{ters als~ may be mailed (Metro Stem P~ Box 5~i 7’18, TulSa, IOK 7~ 158) ;~8÷troSTAR 25 �Stage Performance To Benefit C arron Alliance OK~AI-IOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ lheatre lovers are invited to attend an upcoming performance of a Carpenter Square Theatre production with proceeds benefiting the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. Carpenter Square’s Thursday, July 2, production of"The Little Dog Laughed" will benefit Cimarron and cimarronAP,TS! The show begins at 7:30 p.m. Tickets, at a discount, are $15 and can be purchased £nline at: CAF Carpenter Square provides the following synopsis of tl~e show: Mitchell Green is a handsome young movie actor who is on the verge of major stardom. His agent can’t seem to keep him in the closet due to his "slight recurring case of homosexuality." And as if that’s not enough, he falls in love with his most recent "rent boy" and wants to announce it to the world. Helping him navigate Holl.~;~vood’s choppy waters, his shark of an agent Diane does everything she can to keep him away ~?om the rent boy and the rent boy’s girlfriend (wait, the rent boy has a girlfriend?), but it’s not smooth sailing. Ticket sales are limited to 200, so buy )!our rickets early! Jamie Fo~ Jul 9, 2009 at BOK Center Ticket Prices: $69.75 and $59.75 "l~is summer heats tip with a tour from one of the Imrtest artists to move fi:om the big screen to the stage. Jamie Foxx begins a summer tour in July and makes Tulsa one of the first stops. eridm Idols Live Jul 24, 2009 at BOK Center Tulsa Tickets Prices: $69.50, $55.50, $40.50 Fans of America’s #1 show will once again have the chance to catch their favorite "Idols" performing live in concert, as the top 10 contestants from American Idol season 8 hit the road in the highly anticipated summer tour. 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She not only brings her talent and enthusiasm, but also expertise gained from overall life experience and reporting. Seepage 5 3.corn THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA JULY 1,2009 TSUNAMI SLAMS OBAMA by Rex Wockmer not health coverage, which he said june 17 is not within his power. That’s the good news -- all of it. What hasn’t he done? Anything about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, anything about the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), anything about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. He’s done nothing about any of the stuff he promised the gays before they rushed to the polls en masse last November to make sure he won that election. And, then, Mr. Obama’s Justice Deparmxent filed a briefJune 1 ! in a federal same-sex marriage case that used nearly eveW nasty homophobic argument in the book to argue against letting gays get married. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back and unleashed a flood of harsh criticism from gay VIPs. "I hold this administration to a higher standard than this brief," Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese wrote to Obama. "In the course of your campaign, I became convinced -- and I still want to believe -- that you do, too.... This brief should not be good enough for you, The question is;Mr. President-- do you bdieve that it’s )bama. dec~des 22 which~not necessary ~ i , ~ . to file a brief. It’s a horrific and hideous attack on LGBT :. ....... [one thats good. He ~ssued Americans." and he extended a few spousal benefits ~ ~d~ employees’ Same’sex partners -- National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director sick leave and long-term care insur~ce; for example, but Kate Kendell on her Facebook page: "The filing by the ............ Continued See GAY TSUNAMI Page-24 Pro ect Pride Foundation Director Under Investigation For Fraud By Victor Gorin OKLAMOMA CIT~; OK__ On May 16, Robert Jordan Chiles was dected to a position on the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s Central Committee as part of the Affirmative Action Committee. Ivan Holmes, previous chair of the Oklahoma State Democratic Party stated to the Metro Star, "Robert ovces the party for tickets he purchased for the luncheon at the State Convention along with advertising in the program. He said he would pay that immediately and he hasn’t as ofyet, so vce will pursue this issue." If he doesn’t resign his position, party officials are ready to begin impeachment proceedings. In May Mr. Chiles placed an advertisement in the Metro Star which ran in the June 2009 isme; soliciting funds for his Project Pride Foundation, presented as an organization working to advance GLBT rights and hdp people living with HIV. This advertisement was paid for with a check that was returned unpaid by his bank. Mr. Chiles was given numerous opportunities by phone and email to cover the check with no results. It has since been turned over to the Oldahoma County District Attorney for collection and possible prosecution. ........... Continued See PROJECT PRIDE Page-17 T lsa Pride Se s New By Michael \~ Sasser TULSA, OK__Tt~a Pride’s Diversity Festival and Pride Parade engaged a record number of participants on June 6th, both in terms of spectators and participants. "I think it exceeded expectations," said Oldahomans for Equality President Toby Jenkins. "We were worried whether the format and schedule might scare people or would be comfortable for people to participate in. Our Pioneer Breakfast far, far exceeded expectations. N~e police tell us there were 23,000 people at the festival which is the largest single-day attendance for an event we have ever had." Jenkins said the festival also included over 70 vendors and booths, twice the number as last year; and there vcere three times the number of parade entries as last year. "The parade yeas larger, there were more floats and more groups," If there was a down side, it ~vas that in the nev¢ event format debuting this year, there were fewer spectators along the parade route. ........... Continued See TULSA PRIDE Page-6 LOCAL>> 9 YO GRAND MARSHALL I NATIONAL >> NO SUPPONF FOR DADT I WORLD >> 50,000 2gF EURO PRIDE I PLUS >> LIFESTYLE TRAVEL I ~’FS I WINE I DINING July 2009 2 A good time By Robin Domer-Townsend OGRA [)~ddent RTint Wied}n, Robin Dornerphoto OKLk(HOMA CI~/, OK Every ),ear as Memorial Day weekend rolls around, the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo is held in Oklahoma City. Their goal as a social organizarion is to host an annual-gay rodeo in Oklahoma City, assist in western related events and contribute to charitable organizations. This year~ motto is. ’~A Bucking Good Time." The mission ofOGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) is to act as a non-profit organization, to perform charitable duties for the surrounding area through fundraisers, rodeo performances, etc., for any particular charitable organization the general membership of the association shall choose. "Xhat is the main goal of]OGRA; to raise money for charity," said Klint Wieden, OGRA President. "Each year we give primarily to two different charities ~vhich provide services to those living with HIV or AIDS." This year’s beneficiaries of the event are Other Options/Friends Food Pantry and RAIN Oklahoma. Each of these organizations will receive a charitable contribution from OGRA once the dollar amount for donation has been calculated. "Usually it is around $3,500 for each organization," adds Wieden. "Wieden grew up on a big ranch in north~vest Oklahoma on thousands of acres. His family raised cattle, ran horses and performed all general ranching duties and his family was always involved in the rodeo. "I also love doing charity work. It is a necessary thing," he adds. "I enjoy the causes xve stand for at OGRA and bringing the two together; rodeo and chariw, well, it’s a great thing for me." OGP,A is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay ;Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. The purpose for organizing OGRA was to prov;ide a harmonious enviromnent for those interested in the western lifestyle to express themselves through rodeo, dance and other £~mity social activities barring al! prejudices related to sex, nation~ origin, sexual orientation, religion, race or any other prejudices. Overall, the IGRA has raised millions ofdoltars ~br charities across the country. Next year is a very big year for the OGRA as they will celebrate their 25th anniversary. "Even more is in store for next year’s event," furthers Wieden. "We will have a special limited edition designer ’trophy buckle’ made. Each of the 25 buckles will be numbered and sold to raise even more money for the charities ,are help." Wieden and the board of the OGRA wish to thank all of their sponsors and volunteers, but offer a special thanks to Premium Beers of Oklahoma and the Copa/Finish Line which each contributed more than $10,000 this ),ear. For more information about OGRA please visit www.ogra.net. Diversity Business Assodates; proud to do in OKC By Robin Dorner-Townsend OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 2004, the Diversity Business Association (DBA) has been a "proud’ organization representing many businesses and prot)ssions in the Oklahoma City metro area. As an organization primarily for gay and gay-friendly businesses, DBA is a diverse group; thus the name "Diversity Business Association." DBA is not an organization iust for the gay, lesbian. bisexual or transgender (GLBT} community. It is an open minded, diverse group of individuals from all walks of life. "Why not do business with people who want to do business with you?", is their organizational motto. With nearly 150 members, the Diversity Business Association does mean business. "DBA has become Oklahoma City’s fastest growing GLBT organization and with good reason," says Monty Milburm President ofDBA. "We offer a casual yet business oriented environment for our members to connect with and do business with people that want to do business with them. It is these connections that help all of us succeed in good and bad times." Each month, usually two business connection meetings are held where members meet to network and exchange business cards, ideas, and get together for fun events also. There are luncheons, educational meetings and after hour mixers which bring the group together for people ~vho want t6 do business with like-minded people. Membership fees for DBA are some of the best in this area for an organization of its ~nd. An individual business membership is $49 per year and corporate memberships (for up to 10 people) are $450. Unlike most organizations, DBA has a student or ’social’ membership f)e for $25 per year. N~is allows the businesses in the area who are gay or gay-friendly to benefit from like-minded people seeking to do business with this diverse group. The goal of DBA is to be a positive organization in the GLBT community and the Oklahoma City community as a whole. DBA will have a booth at the upcoming Gay Pride events to be held at Memorial Park in Oklahoma City on June 27th & 28th and invites everyone to come and visit to see what they are all about. "I would like to encourage you to visit often, check out our calendar and consider joining. We encourage positive competition and celebrate each member’s success," adds Milburn. "t am proud to serve as President of such a fine organization. We really do mean business." For more information about DBA, please email them at contact@dbametro.org or visit vvw~.dbametro.org. It is best to use Internet Explorer when visiting this site. Impressive Youth Leads Tulsa’s Gay Pride Parade By Judy Gabbard Noah Blatt GrandMarshall ~dsa Pride Parade. Judy G. photo TULSA, OK The Grand Marshal! ofTulsds Annual Pride Parade xvas not a celebrity or an individual with a crown of jewels: this Grand Marshall was a nine year old young man named Noah Blatt. Noah Blatt is a perfect example ofwhat the words "Diversity" and "Acceptance" represent in the contin~l struggle of gay rights. Told to me by a representative of Oldahomans [br Equality, Noah Blatt first came m the attention of the committee members at Tulsa’s Equality Center, when he hand delivered a letter and a donation. In the letter, Noah explained that as an assignment he was to chose an organization that he rahought was making a difference, His mission was to acknowledge that organization and donate to its support. Noah has continued to contribute part of his weekly allowance in support ofTulsa’s Equality Center. Toby Jenkins, Tulsa’s Equality committee President, said, that when it came time to select the Grand Marshall for the Pride Parade, no other individual was as deserving as Noah Blatt. Noah’s revelation, revealed in his letter, that xvhen same sex couples love each other and want to marry, there shotdd be no one allowed to stand in their way. Simple truth uttered from one so young shows that the continuing struggle for gay rights is making an impact on public opinion. In a short interview with Noah Blatt, I met a gentle young man with a view of the world that maW lose when they grow up. Noah is determined to hang on to his beliefs and make his opinions known. Noah’s room and dad are hard working, well educated parents who have a!lo~ved their child to develop his own views of human behavior. Mr and Mrs Blatt support their young son’s ideas and know that it takes only one person to start a movement towards human rights. Noah was introduced to the public at the Pride Festival held at Centennial Park, located at 6th and Peoria, and severalo awards were bestowed upon him. The greatest prize was a view into the future possibilities of our youth. The importance of bestowing understanding, love, guidance and attention to our younger population was made evident in such a small package, Noah Blatt. www.rnetrostarnews.com ~®troSTAR 3 UDGE RULES IN KEITH KIMMEL’S FAVOR ON HIS I’M GAY LICENSE PLATE By Victor Gotin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK On April 6 Keith KimmeL like maW other Ol-dahomans since 1967, applied for a personalized license plate for his !992 Dodge pickup truck. However. he ran into an obstacle because his message was ’TM GAY". His request was denied. Kathy Green, a supervisor in the Motor Vehicle Division, stated that his request was denied due to a Oklahoma Tax Commission Rule 710:60-3-150 (d) which states "No license plate will be issued -which may be offensive to the general public." However, she did not state why she deemed that his message fit into that category. Mr. Kimmel appealed this decision, and his case was heard by Administrative Law Judge Jay Harrington in Oklahoma City on May 7. A favorable ruling, in which Judge Harrington recommended that Keith be allowed his I’M GAY plate, was released on June 18, jttst a week before Gay" Pride celebrations ldcked off in Oklahoma City. Attorney Brittany M. Novomy, who represented him on this case had this statement, "This decision is an indication that we do still live in a society that respects the rule of law, and when we feel our civil rights have been violated we know we can turn to our legal system to remedy the situation. I believe it is also a signal that despite its national reputation, Oldahoma has outstanding women and men in the legal profession who put the law ahead of old prejudices." The Oklahoma Tax Commission may accept or reject this recommendation. Talking with Mr.Kimmel he stated, "I think the judge reviewed the case carefully,, made a good decision and I hope the commission will do the right thing and let me have nay plate." If the Oklahoma Tax Commission doesfft fol!ow- through and allow his plate he plans to pursue additional legal action. BillyJackson and Michael[ Friday ioined their lives together By Victor Gorin Bil{rJackson &Michael Friday at their Holy[ Union wid~ t/.,eir .iF[ends Luq andMidn@t. Godn photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Billy Jackson and Michael Friday joined their lives together Sunday, June 14 in Norman at Thunderbird Chapel. Lovers of the country lifestyle, both are active in OGRA, Michael as the mernbership chair and Billy who is running for Mr. O.G.R~k. next year. Tney are setding down together on the outskirts of Noble where Michael, as a member of the Orchid Society, will be able to pursue his hobby. The Holy Union was offidated by Pastor Neill Spurgin of Exp~:essions Community Fellowship, where both Billy and Michael are members. Let’s wish them a wonderful life together. Annual Hot Young Hollywood Party to benefit R.A.I.N. Oklahoma August 7 Angles to host annual Hot Young Hollywood PaW to benefit RAIN Oklahoma. Oklahoma CiF’ HIVNon-profit agent/. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ August 7 2009 N~e Hot Young Holly~vood Party is an annual fundraiser for RAIN Oklahoma, acting as a spotlight for local GLBT owned & friendly businesses. RAIN Oklahoma will be honoring four Oklahomans for their outstanding leadership and activism. The event will be a fun filled evening with fashion shmvs from well-known designers such as Cadillac Cowboy; Nicole Moan, GLAMNERD, Riot Rockett and Debauchery Clothing, plus live performances from Oklahoma City;s own Eric Bramble and others. Definitely an event not to be missed! Rafiqe ticket sales provided much of the $2500 raised at last year’s party. I~mt year sponsor donated items included a necklace donated by Mitchener & Farrand Jewelers, a "makeover" prize package .from Velvet Monkey Inc., dinner for two at 1492, and a Marc-by-Marc Jacobs bag among many other items. For the RAIN Leadership Award, campus GLBT groups made nominations from OCU, UCO, OU, OSU OKC AND UT as well as the GLBT group of DELL and the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The goal of our nominees is to increase the quality of life for all Oklahomans. RAIN Oklahoma is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit agency, depending on private donations and the support of the community to continue providing high quality of services. RAIN Oklahoma offers a wide array of services from free HIV testing and counseling, community outreach projects, Ryan White Case Management, ADVANTAGE Medicaid waiver services & Transitional Housing. RAIN Oklahoma’s mission is to compassionately serve indMduals and communities impacted by HIV/AIDS through education, volunteerism and coordinated access to healthcare & support services. We accept all donations; Gift Certificates, Checlcs, Merchandise and/or services. Donors will be recognized in the program. For additional information on The Hot Young Holbavood Party, please contact the Hot Young Holl)wcood Committee: Contact: Kendet R. Powers, CTR Agent RAIN Oklahoma 405/204/7767 kpowers@rainoklahom.org Vicld Banta Vicki Banta the Partyoligist 405/850/6817 Xfbanta@aol.com Kai R. Dameron Rain Oldahoma, CTR Coordinator 405/232/2437 xt 123 KaiDameron@hotmail.com Giving back: MAC Cosmetics ’Viva Glam’ line supports HIV! AIDS organizations By Robin Dorner-Townsend Inf!’ont ofthe Iguana Lounge in Automobile Alley in downtown Oklahoma Ci~, the 3¢IAC cosmetics staffin Oklahoma City show their support in theform of"a big check"for Other Options and Friends Food Pantry. Thefundraising event "51 Toast to Life" was heldfor the non-profit organization at The Iguana Lounge in April The Iguana showed its support ofthe Other Options organization by undenvHting the charitable event. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Since 1989, Other Options has been on the forefront of prevention, education, and assistance of those in need who are living ~vith HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) and AIDS (Autoimmune Deficiency Syndrome). The organization was Formed as anonprofit whose missi6n" included al! services which hdp persons living with the disease but currently their primary focus is that of food services, nutrition and education. Mary Arbuckle, Director of Other Options works to assist the clients they serve, organizes donations and among many other taslcs, she also writes grant applications for the organization. "It’s a .....Continued see MAC page 24 July 2009 4 Leather Camp Vwill be running in Wichita gg~IICHITA, KS (PR) __ August 14 - 16, 2009. Early bird registration is active until July" 21st at a rate of $75.00. After July 21st, the package cost xvill be $85.00. The Clarion Hotel will hots the event with a room rate of $79.00 per night. Rooms need to be booked directly through the hotel. Ask for the WOOLF rate to get the discount. ~qere are lots of great classes for this years event. Presenters include ~qaipmaster Bob and Bootpig, Graydancer, Sir Olivier and pup sparlg~, Mason and Michelle. In addition, we will be having our Central Hains Regional contests for Central Plains LeatherSirlboy and CommunivA Bootblack as well as our loc~ WOOLF contests for Mr. and Ms. WOOLF and Kansas boy/girl. All of the contests will be judged by International LeatherSir 2009, Sir Raul, International Leatherboy 2009, boy bill, Central Plains LeatherSir 2009, Master Sam Sampson, Central Plains Leatherboy 2009, pup sparkle, Central Plains Community Bootblack 2009, boy blu, Great Plains Leatherboy 2008, boy mike and Rev. Jackie Carter of the Metropolitan Community Church ofWichita. The weekend ~vill be emceed by Tom Stice. For more information and to register for the weekend and book your hotel room, please visit www.wichitaleatherpride.com. Robin DornerJoins Metro Star Staff Robin Dorner-Tmvnsend. Staff photo OKLAI-IOMA CITY. OK Already well kmown in Oklahoma City and beyond as a fun loving reporter and activist. Ms. Dorner Born in Wichita, she graduated from Kansas Newman College in that same city to become a Registered Nurse. She moved to Oklahoma City in 1983 when jobs for RNs were plentiful. She worked in various positions as a dialysis nurse, in home health and hospice settings, and case management. She is a happily married heterosexual, celebrating 15 years together with Ken Townsend, her soulmate who is in the oil & gas business. In 2004 she earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Health administration, followed by a Master’s Degree in Business Administration in 2006. After this milestone, seeking a different direction, she branched out into journalism with the City" Sentinel. broadening their horizons when she covered many events of the GLBT community. She first became involved with our community during the !990s when she volunteered as a nurse for the Triangle Association vdth D~:Larry Prater. who operated a free AIDS clinic. Relating ~o that experience she stated that "I loved it, not only as a nurse but also from the love, camaraderie and acceptance I found in the gay community." Her involvement in the community grew, and she later became a boai~d member of has just joined the Metro Star team. She will the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. She is a be repo~ting local news and ~ents and wil! former board member and current member of handle OK~’~C ad sales al6nFwithRikGOdbev Diversity Bttsiness Association of Oklahoma and Victor Gorin. She is also an accomplished City, and is her husband Ken. She does ~h0togr~pher. She n0{ 0hly brings 1{~} taleh{ vohmteer work for Other OptiOns, and looks ~nd enthusiasm, but alSO ~ert~e gained forward to working with the Metro Star. We f om oCe llife ep0mng welcome her a oard . the City Sentinel ( fbrmeriy the Mid City Advocate). www:metrostarnews.com &~et~’oSTAR 5 Dont Shop - Adop By Michael ~{~. Sasser Tulsa author Clara Nipper. Press photo TULSA, OK __ Tulsa author Clara Nipper never read mysteries, thrillers or true crime books, so when - on a dare from her partner - she set out to write in the genre, they set the mood and picked up the stylized approach by camping out in their home. lowering the air conditioning and watching classic noir films such as Double Indemnity, Laura and the more-modern Body Heat. "They were terrific," said Nipper. "I took some inspiration from them." Nine months in the writing, Nipper completed her first novel, the stylish Femme Noi~; a tide that aptly describes both the book and the innovative genre of lesbian literature. "I was writing "chick stories’ and my partner told me that since that wasn’t ,going an?~vhere I should try something new, Nipper said. So, Nipper crafted a character that was the "total opposite" of her. "She is tall and lean, black and bald, and a total womanizer - a slut. I wondered if I could wrire an entire book about her. And, I thought, yes I could." The rest is now history. Femme Noir is being published by Bold Stroke Books. In the book, Nora Delaney is Nipper’s protagonist. The hard-boiled, hypersexualized womanizing college basketball coach chases the case of her murdered exlover from LA to Tulsa only to be waylayed by a gorgeous, gin-swilling skirt who has information as well as an appetite for women like Nora. The book contains classic noir elements and Nora is cut from the same cloth as many classic, troubled genre protagonists - except that she is a woman. Hailed by maw for its unique and interesting voice, the book is also sexually graphic and unapologetic. "’gq~en my father got a copy of the book. I wrote in it ’please don’t read this’." Nipper said. "I hope he hasn’t. Tulsa native Nipper is veU much unlike her lead character. "I was straight most of my life," said the Tulsa CountT Courthouse clerk. "I was always open with sexuality and thought that if it felt good, do it. I’ve only had t-wo girlfriends in nay life. My first girlfriend was the one who said "you should try this’ and I said ’sure, let’s give ir a try.’ It was tumultuous except for the sex tbr the next two years. I have been with nay current partner for 13 years." Nipper had been "spiritually" a writer her entire life, from the time she xvrote a short story in grade school that a teacher insisted on turning into a slide show. "The best advice I ever got was to write one page a day and after a year, you ~voutd have 365 pages," Nipper said. "qhe road to publishing has been rocky, but my publisher now is terrific. They do so much to support authors and offer opportunities and guidance." Femme Noir’s sequel, I4dss of Noir, is already under contract. It’s set in New Orleans and will continue to stretch the parameters ofsexuat representation. "I’ve already shocke,~,! and appalled some lesbmns, N~pper stud. I th~nk that means am on the right track." For more information on Nipper and Femme Noir, visit www.claranipper.com. "Most people waited for the parade at [Centennial Park], and it was packed there". A shuttle system taking parade-path spectators to the park might be one thing added for future Pride festivals. For the most part, though, the new event structure was very much a success. "The fireworks, the ferris wheel and the concert were all huge successes." Jenkins said. Jenkins noticed a few things in particular this year. Employees of Spaghetti Warehouse on Brady Street came out to cheer ~or the parade. At Centennial Park. the crowd included a notable number of straight couples and individuals, including maW attending their first-ever Pride event with or without a GBLT relative or friend. "I thought, ’Wo~v. ~vhen did it become cool to go to Pride?" "-We also had a tot of seniors there. One mother said she was impressed at how family-friendly the environment was. I wish I could say that was something we tried to do. but it’s just a sign of the evolution of the community." Police commented on how busy the Kid Zone was with approximately 700 children of GLBT families and straight participants. This year’s n~w policy against ice chests and bringing in outside food and beverages also worked out. Jenkins said no one had to go to the hospital and police told him that for the first time there was no one who they considered acting publicly drunk to the point of being a nuisance. Vendors also told Jenkins they had done well at the event. Jenkins hopes that means it will be possible to continue expansion of the event in the future with more participants. Although the parade route saw the typical number of protestors, there was only one notable at the festival itself. Annie Bryce drove an hour to attend her first Tulsa Pride event. "I was very impressed at how nice it was and, really, how nice the people were - men, women, gay and straight even," she said. Cashen" Stewart attended the Pride Festival, largely for the parade, He thinks the eve,n,t could still be improved. I think there should be a bit more things to do at Pnde that are more mteracuve, he said. lenkins said that other smaller cities aro{md Oldahoma also having Pride events, such as Enid for the first time ever in July, is evidence of empowerment. "People are feeling safe enough to have festivals - that’s a good sign." No matter who you are o are on life’s iourney, -Reverend ~r. K~hy Meet Woodstock. He’s a 9 yr old yellow labbie who was Surrendered to Lab Rescue so ~ve could find him a new home. His owners love him, but h~ is a ~ctive for them. D0n:t le~ iS young at hem o1~1 labl;ie. 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Had you been blindfolded and dropped into this touchingly simple outdoor service, uncoached and uninformed, you would not have been able to distinguish this wedding from the thousands being conducted in the rest of the country on any Saturday afternoon. Jaded as I am about religion, I did get a little misty-eyed when the minister spoke-of the hands being held by the two grooms. As these ceremonies of commitment go the hope is always for a devoted and determined future of mutual and exclusive support through a lifetime of as many years o?iife as our genetic desdny wil1 give us. He described these hands as they are now. young and strong brushing away ~ears of joy and sorrow, touching in moments of intimacy, and when old and wrinkled they’ will sti!l be the hands we want touching us in times of need. ~ view myself as a married man wittl a partner of 32 years, and 1 can identi~! with the sentiments and intentions the minister outlined in his .;ermon. By what fiat of bigoted ignorance can anyone deny me and millions of other gay and Lesbian Americans this legaI right of marriage just because the gender of the two people is the same, choosing to share their bounty and their concerns for as long as they’re able, be it one year or hopefully- a long lifetime? How is that any different from what opposite-gendered people choose to do? To answer my own title, I think marriage is the ability of two responsible people committed to each othm; with a seriousness of purpose, for as long as they are able to hones@ maintain the relationship, with or without the imprimatur of religion. At one time I was a proponent of going nicker the recognition of our gay/ Iesbian equality one right at a time. But at approximately 1,400 indMdual rights bestowed with a completed marriage license, there arefft enough years for even Methuselah to see the success of the movement. I now see that only a dedicated Federal lawsuit, such as the one being brought by Ted Olson and David Boles ( http://tiwurl.com/q6hvip ), will give us the trne definition of marriage we gay and Lesbian citizens need to live our lives with the choice so casually enjoyed by straights. ~.metrostamews.com Politics M es for Strange Bedfellows by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s pretty exciting to be a gay/lesbian activist these days. Our civil rights movement has been focused on California which has been performing a line dance with basically the lovers of romance and civil rights in one line and the haters of diversity and inclusion in another. With the survival of Prop-Hate in California in late May there are now thirty states that prohibit same-gender marriage by constitutional amendment; thirty-seven prohibit it by statute. Some states even went double-dipping in their vehemence against gays and lesbians with both. But on the sunny side, as of this writing, there are five states that allow same-sex marriage with three states promoting samegender unions. ( http:lhinyurt.comlmq8fev ) I’m not too hot with arithmetic but even I can tell there is some overlapping of statutes and amendments with a minority of states still sitting on the sidelines, waiting and waiting. Waiting for what? Maybe the same thing I’ve been waiting for. A team of lawyers, financial supporters, and plaintiffs willing to put this momentous issue into it’s proper frame: Shall the United States continue with this jurisprudence crazy, quilt of rich progressive action and tawdry, shortsighted discrimination or blanket the country with one legal rtding that allows all adults to make their own decisions for their future regardless of gender, religion, or geographic location? That’s where the odd bedfellows Ted Olson and David Boles come in. These two lawyers, fmnous for being on opposing sides of the Bush v. Gore Supreme Court case that by a one-vote margin put the Bush/Cheney ticket in the White House have filed a Federal lawsuit to place an injunction on the California Supreme Court decision upholding the anti-marriage equality amendment lmown as Proposition 8.7heir plan is to carry this lawsuit up the chain of Federal courts to the US Supreme Court if necessary in order to have a definitive ruling as to whether or not same-gendered people are covered under the 14th Amendment of the Federal Constitution, specifically the clause that all citizens are entided to the full protection of the laws. ( http://tinyurt.com/dypxfp ) Many of the main stream civil rights and gay/lesbian advocacy organizations ( The American Civi! Liberties Union, Lambda Legal, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Freedom to Marry, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the Equality Federation, and the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation are aghast at the audacity of this plan sponsored by the American Foundation for Equal Rights. ( http:/Itinyurl.comlld6a2w ) I’m no legal eagle but I’m literate, folio~w the news, and can reason, tn addition, my partner and I were among 12 other plaintiffs in the attempt by Oklahoma’s chapter of the ACLU to derail the 2004 Okie version of Prop. 8, known as State Question 71 ! that passed with a 70+% majority vote. The legal strategy being used by the As t see it, ~here are two important precedents (an important aspect of jurisprudence? from the Supremes that recognize our gay/lesbian citizenship. They are: Lawrence v. Texas ( http://tinyurl. com/br2tj t that eliminated sodomy laws by overturning Bowers v. Hardwick (http:// tinyurl.com/jus3e ), and the Romer v. Evans decision overturning Colorado’s infamous Amendment 2 dewing gay/lesbian citizens protection of state laws( http://tinyurl. com/49m9er ) wherein Justice Kennedy famously wrote that "[Amendment 2] is at once too narrow and too broad. It identifies persons by a single trait and then denies them protection across the board. The resulting disqualification of a class of persons from die right to seek specific protection from the law is unprecedented in our iurisprudence." Let me add that Justice Kennedy is the famous "swing vote" on many Court decisions that are decided by a single vote. Though there have been changes in the names of the j ustices over the years, the legal balance of the Court is still the same: four living in the 18th century, four in the 21st century, with one bridge between them. If politics makes for strange bedfellows and change is die buzz word for this political season, then I think it’s time to change the sheets. As these two well experienced attorneys have wedded dlemselves to marriage equality, I wish them a happy honeymoon. Live long and prosper, Olson and Boles! Joplin First Pride in over ten years JOPHN. MO (PR) In January of this year Rev. Steve Urie of Spirit of Christ MCC asked for volunteers to h~ad up a committee commissioned with the task of planning and bringing together Joplin’s first Pride Event in over ten years. Out of that was born Joplin: Out & About, a collaborative committee made up of people from Spirit of Christ MCC, AT&T and other GLBT groups and members from the community. A target date was set and the planning began. ¯homas, Joanna, Darrell, Jeff, Heath, Shauna and Shea with the intermittent help of others handled the tough iob of keeping it all together. Tne final result was several events through the week including a Karaoke Night, Movie Night and finally Joplin’s Out & About Event in the park. Just ten years ago you would find law enforcement setting traps to catch men in the park cruising. This year with la~v enforcement patrols protecting the event; the community celebrated with groups from Springfield, Galena, Tulsa, the greater Joplin area and as far away as NWArkansa~s, Weir and Topetca, Kansas taking pride and respect to a new high level for the community. Private and non-profit vendors started signing on as did other local groups including UCC Family Fellowship, Joplin Gays Yahoo Group, Joplin’s GLBT Corporate Center, the support group fi-om AT&T, Planned Parenthood, PROMO, the Pla-Mor Lounge and APO’s local and Springfield’s offices. The Metro Star played an important part in providing sponsorship and coverage of the event. The Topet~ Transgendered Alliance was represented by Steve/Lila & spouse Joy also members of MCC Topeka. Entertainment was provided by a band as well drag queens from Joplin and Springfield. The Gto Center from Springfield, MO showed up in support of the Event, helped with Sponsorship and provided information about their services. We thank everyone who sponsored, supported, participated and just plain attended this event. Rev. Steve Urie &long time partner Heath with festival voluntee~ Staffphoto Held in Joplin’s McClellan Park June 13th and with over 250 people from the GLBTQ community this was a success for our community. Friends, family supporters and the straight community including children and some well behaved canines came together to show that we can be one community that we can work together, play together and respect each other. From Gay Bingo to the sale of Pride Jewelry, entertainment ro fbod. free HIV testing to information, and with MC Brandon everyone had a great time. In addition several boxes of food were donated t~br APO clients through the Angel Food Ministries program. Lots ofentertainment, & good lookingguys and gab atjoplin Pide Yestiva~ Staffphoto We would like to thank Naomas for his dedication and tenacity in keeping it together; Joanna for gathering equipment, supplies, support mad being one foot soldier you couldn’t top, Darrell for writing the first GLBT Joplin History Booklet, Jeff for putting the boolde.t togethm; Heath for cooking his heart out and all the volunteers that brought it together. With the encouragement of the community at large already pouring in this may have been Joplin’s first Pride event in recent history but clearly won’t be its last. Wockner News Service New Hampshire legalizes same-sex marriage New Hampshire legalized same-sex marriage June 3 when Gov. John Lynch signed three bills, including one that had cleared the Legislature just an hour eadier. 3-he bills open marriage to same-sex couples starting Jan. 1 and protect certain rights of religious organizations, associations and societies that oppose gay marriage. "Today is a historic day for all Granite Staters," said Mo B~ley, executive director of the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "We applaud Gov. Lynch, (House) Speaker (Terie) Norelli, (Senate) President (Sylvia) Larsen and the leadership of the General Court (legislature) for making sure that all loving, committed couples have the freedom to marry. Today, our shared values of individual liberty, freedom and fairness have been upheld:" The final bill, tsveaking religious protections, passed the Senate 14-10 and th.e House 198-I76. Lynch had required tile additional language as a condition of his agreeing to let gays marry. In announcing his support for same-sex marriage on May 14, Lynch said: "At its core, (this bill) simply changes the term ’civil union’ to ’civil marriage.’ Given the cultural, historical and religious significance of the word marriage, this is a rneaningfu! change. I have heard, and I understand, the very real feelings of same-sex couples that a separate system is not an equal system. That a civiI law that differentiates between their committed relationships and those of heterosexual couples undermines both their dignity and the legitimacy of their families." Tl~e measures signed into law will repea! the state’s civil-union law effective Jan. 1, 2011, and prohibit any new civil unions after Jan. 1, 2010. Same-sex marriage is legal in five other U.S. states: Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (starting in September) and Maine (starting in Septembe0. Nlere also are 18,000 same-sex couples legally married nnder California law, though no more will be allowed to marry until voters repeal Proposition 8, the state constitutional amendment passed last November, or until the U.S. Supreme Court strikes it down Or it is blocked by comx injunction. Gay groups are planning a ballot initiative to delete Prop 8, and a federal lawsuit has been filed charging that Prop 8 violates the due-process and equal-protection clauses of the U.S. Constitution. The lawsuit also says Prop 8 relegates gays and lesbians to second-class citizenship and discriminates based on gender and sexual orientation. It further seeks an injunction allowing same-sex marriage to resttme in California pending resolution of the case. Hi ary Clinton issues pride month statement Secretary of State Hillary Clinton issued a Gay Pride month statement June 1. She wrote: "Forty years ago this month, the gay rights movement began with the Stonewall riots in New York City; as gays and lesbians demanded an end to the persecution they had long endured. Now, after decades of hard work, the fight has grown into a global movement to achieve a world in which al! people live free from violence and fear, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. "In honor of Gay and Lesbian Pride Month and on behalf of the State Department, I extend our appreciation to the global LGBT community for its coui’age and determination during the past 40 years, and I offer our support for the significant work that still lies ahead. "At the State Department and throughout the Administration, we are grateflal for our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender employees in Washington and around the world. They and their families make many sacrifices to serve our nation. Wneir contributions are vital to our efforts to establish stability, prosperity and peace worldwide. "Human rights arc_- at the heart of those efforts. Gays and lesbians in many parts of the world live under constant threat of arrest, violence, even torture. The persecution of gays and lesbians is a violation ofhuman rights and an affront to human decency, and it must end. As Secretary of State, I will advance a comprehensive human rights agenda that includes the elimination of violence and discrimination against people based on sexual orientation or gender identity. "N~ough the road to full equality ibr LGBT Aalaericans is long, the example set by those fighting for equal rights in the United States gives hope to men and women around the world who yearn for a better future for themselves and their loved ones[ "This June, let us recommit ourselves to achieving a world in ~vhich all people can live in safety and freedom, no matter who they are or ~vhom they love." Clinton also is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign ~aqZairs Agencies. The pack,age will include medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment of household effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, isstlance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and language training. Not included are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. Nevada Legislat e overrides governor’s veto ofpartnership bill Nevada’s Senate and Assembly on May 30 and 31 overrode Gov. Jim Gibbons’ May 25 veto of a domestic-partnership bill. Tne new la~¢ extends to same- and opposite-sex registered domestic parmers nearly all state-level rights and obligations of marriage. The override came without a vote to spare in both the Senate (14-7) and the Assembly (28-!4). In the Senate, 10 Democrats and four Republicans voted for tile override, and five Republicans and two Democrats voted against it. Gibbons had claimed the bill ran afoul of a 2002 state constitutional amendment that defines marriage as between a man and a woman. He also argued that gay couples could go sign private contracts if they desired the protections of marriage for their relationship. "The significance here is it literally equates ’domestic partner’ with ’spouse’ under Nevada state la**;" Michael Ginsburg of the Progressive Leadership Alliance of Nevada told Las Vegas correspondent Steve Friess. "You have the flail force of the law behind you nox~: When you’re in the hospital, forced to ma~e decisions for your partner, all you have to say is, ’This is nay spouse,’ and that carries tremendous weight." .am Lambert Photo: American Idol runner up Adam Lambert Who kalew? American Idol sensation and first runner-up Adam Lambert is a homosexual. "I don’t think it should be a surprise for anyone to hear that I’m gay," Lambert told Rolling Stone June 9. "I’ve been living in Los Angeles for eight years as a gay man. I’ve been at clubs drunk malting out with somebody in the corner." "Right after the finale, I almost started talldng about it to the reporters, but I thought, ’I’m going to wait for Rolling Stone, that wil! be cooler,’" he said. "I didfft want tile Clay ’ Aiken thing and the celebrity-magazine bullshit. I need to be able to explain myself in context. ’Tin proud ofmy sexuality. I embrace it. It’s just another part of me." Lambert noted, however: "I’m trying to be a singer, not a civil rights leader." July 2009 State Dept. to give gay couples spousal benefits U.S. Secreta,y of&am HillaO, Clinton is prepari,g to grant spousal ben~ts and protections m diglomau’gay gartne,s. Photo by Rex l)~ckner U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton is preparing to grant spousal benefits and protections to diplomats’ gay partners, she said in a recent letter to the group Gays and Lesbians in Foreign M~airs Agencies. "Like all families, our Foreign Service t~milies come in different configurations; all are part of the common fiabric of our post communities abroad," Clinton wrote. "The department will provide these benefits for both opposite-sex and same-sex partners because it is the righ~ thing to do’ ~Ihe benefits will indude medical and emergency evacuation, travel reimbursement, shipment ofhousehoid effects, use of U.S. government medical facilities abroad, issuance of diplomatic passports, visa assistance, and security and ,language training. NOt induded in the package are health insurance, retirement benefits and certain other perks. "This is a remedy that is long overdue," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese, "For too many years, LGBT Foreign Service officers have been forced to choose between serving their country and protecting their families." Dick Cheney endorses same-sex marriage Former Vice President Dick Cheney came out in support of same-sex marriage June 1 more clearly than he has in the past. Asked about the issue at the National Press Club, Cheney responded: "I think freedom means freedom for everyone. And, as many ofyou know, one ofmy daughters is gay, and it’s something that we’ve lived with for a long time in our family. I think people ought to be free to enter into any kind of union they wish, any kind of arrangement they wish. The question of~vhether or not there ought to be a federal statute that governs this, I don’t support. I do believe that historically the way marriage has been regulated is at the state level -- ~his has always been a state issue -- and ~ think that’s the way ff ough~ to be handled ~oday, that is. on a state-by-aa~c basis. D~ffbrem ;tares make d~ff~t’ren~ decision But [ don’t haw prob{cm with that ~ think people ought to get a shot at d~at. And they do a~ present." Cheney has made very similar comments before, but they did not go quite as far. In 2004, for example, he said: "I believe today that freedom does mean freedom for everybody. People ought to be free to choose any arrangement they want. It’s really no one else’s business. ~nat’s a separate question from the issue of whether or not government should sanction or approve or give some sort of authorization, if you will, to these relationships. Traditionally, that’s been an issue for the states. States have regulated marriage, ifyou will. That would be my preference. In effect, what’s happened is that in recent months, especially in Massachusetts, but also in California, but in Massachusetts we had the Massachusetts Supreme Court direct the state of-- the legislature of Massachusetts to modify their constitution to allow gay marriage. And the fact is that the president felt that it was important to make it clear that that’s the wrong ~vay to go, as far as he’s concerned. Now, he sets the policy for this administration, and I support the president." Americans do not support ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Americans overwhelmingly want to see the military’s "Don’t Ask, Do~t Tell" ban on open gays repealed, a new Gallup poll has found. Sixty-nine percent told pollsters it’s time for the ban to go -- including 58 percent of Republicans, 58 percent of self-described co~iservatives and 60 percent 0fwee~y churchgoers. Eighty-sLx percent of liberals oppose the DADT policy, along with 82 percent of Democrats and 78 percent of people between age 18 and 29. Even people over age 65 (60 percent), Southerners (57 percent) and people who didn’t finish high school (57 percent) said it’s time to dump the ban. Said Gallup: "President Barack Obama will be well-positioned to forge ahead with his campaign promise to end the military ban on openly gay service members." Gallup polled 1,105 adults nationwide between May 7 and 10. The organization said it was 95 percent confident that the maximum margin of sampling error was plus or minus 3 percentage points. CALIFORNIA HIV EMERGENCY Schwarzenegger, Legislature may slash HIV funding Gay and HIVadvocates rallied at *~e state Capitol in Sacramento, Calif., on time i 0 against draconian cuts in HIVfi~ndingproposed by Gov. Arnold Schwar~enegger and under consideration by the Legislature. Wockner Newsphoto by Charlie Peer/Ou~vord Magazine California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has proposed, and the California Legislature is considering, draconian cuts to all types of HIV-related funding in the nea>bankrupt state. In the worst-case scenario, which is still not off the table, slashes to the AIDS Drug Assistance Program could result in thousands of Californians who make less than $41,600 per year losing access to the statelprovided drugs that suppress HIV and keep them dive. In the apparent best,case scenario, not all HIV drugs would be available via ADAP and patients would have to pay part of the cost 0f the ones they could geta That is problematic because some HIVvposirive people have developed resistance to some HIV drugs, and need access to the full arsenal of therapies to stay alive. Further, the current plan apparendy completely eliminates state funding for the tests that determine if a patient is responding to treatment -- such tests as CD4 counts, viral-load measurement and drug-resistance monitoring. These tests are essentially mandatory in - HIV treatmm~t. Doctors use them so they can change a nonresponsive patient’s drug combination to another combo that works in that patient -- before the patient’s immune system breaks down further and the patient develops a life-threatening opportunistic infection............ The current plan apparently also dramatically ~lashes handing for education, prevention, counseling and testing programs. Some 35,000 working- and middleclass Californians who don’t make enough money to pay for their own treatment could be adversely or dangerously affected by the possible cuts to ADAP and elimination of monitoring testing. Gay and HIV advocates have strongly denounced the budget proposals, and a large rally was held at the state Capitol in Sacramento on June 10. Lesbian couple marries on Indian reservation A lesbian couple married on the Coquille Indian reservation in Coos Bay, Ore., May 24. It was believed to be the first such marriage in the U.S. ~ae Coqui!te tribe passed a la~v legalizing same-sex marriage more than a year ago, but it just now took effect. Kitzen Branting, 26, and Jeni Branting, 28, tied the knot in the tribe’s meeting hall. Their marriage will not be recognized by the state of Oregon, but will be legal on the property of the tribe, which is a sovereign ~ nation. Direct Cremation From $595 AI McAffrey Owner / Funeral Director MORTUARY SERVICE.,,~ Traditional Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405} 230- 13~0 or ~o800-913q310 Pre-Need Plan CReDiT CARDS ACC~PT~E 2415-C North Walnut Avenue. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Ban Empl "uptcy o Civil Rights oCriminal- ~ment o Family Law - Litigation 625 N.W. 13th Street klahoma City, OK 73103 v#,,w.metrostarnews.com STAR 9 N Wockner News Service 50,000 at EuroPride Some 50,000people ~rned outfor the EuroPrideparade, hem in Zurich this year on June ~ Photo by Nikolai Alekseev, GayRussta.ru Some 50,000 people turned out for the EuroPrkle parade, hdd in Zurich this year on June 6. Openly lesbian Zurich Mayor Corine Mauch joined in. Next year, the parade ventures behind the former Iron Curtain to Warsaw -- a city that as recently- as 2005 tried to ban pride, only to be later rebuffed by the European Court of Human Pdghts. Meanwhile, Rom& gay pride parade dr~ more than 100,000 participants June 13~ with a demand fbr legalization of same-sex marriage and equa! rights for gay couples. Some 1,500 people marched in Warsaw on June 13, also demanding legalization of same-sex partnerships. "l-he parade, on central Marszalkowska Street, attracted fewer than !00 counterprotesters, who shouted anti-gay vitriol. Five hundred people marched in Zagreb, Croatia, on June t3. Police kept about 50 snarling anti-gays from disrupting the parade. 20,000 march Tel Av v Around 20,000 people joined Tel Aviv’s ! lth gay pride parade June 12. The march ended with a beach ’~edding" of five gay" couples. Same-sex marriage is not legal in Israel. Some top rabbis had urged Prime Minister Beniamin Netanydau m try to ban the parade. They called it an abomination. A few religious right-wingers picketed the march, which was paid for by the city government. ’Tel Aviv is more secular than Jerusalem, where the pride parade routinely leads large numbers of religious folks ~o wail and gnash. Last year’s parade in Jerusalem featured 3,000 naarchers and 2,000 cops to protect them. They walked al! of @ur blocks. ~n 2007, the Jerusalem parade traveled about 500 meters before ultra-Orthodox protesters shut it down, despite the presence orS,000 police o@cers. Prior to the parade, police arrested a man with a bomb. The postparade rally was canceled because striking firefighters refused to provide a required firetruck. In 2005, a counterdemontrator stabbed three marchers at Jerusalem’s marcia and later was convicted of attempted murder. ~ae victims’ iniuries were not serious. Moscow gays want to picket Obama Moscow Pride founder Nikolai Mekseev says members of his group will attempt to stage a picket in favor of same-sex marriage at the U.S. Embassy on July 7 during President Bara& Obama’s visit. It is unlikely the activists will receive city permission to do so. Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has banned pride parades for the past four years and sent riot police to aggressively arrest those who ignored the bans. Luzl~ov has called gay parades "demonic," "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction." He also has said the bans are for gays own good so that "radical Christians" don’t have a chance to "kill them." Mekseev is hopet~fl that he’ll be able to pull off the picket regardless because "the presidential media pack wilt be in town." Mayor Luz ov lashes out at gays Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov has again lashed out at gays, calling them "homos" and calling gay pride parades "demonic." Appearing on a TV program June 2, Luzhkov reportedly said: "Niere are two reasons gay pride parades are unacceptable in Moscow: First and foremost, public morality .does not accept such parades, public morality does nor accept those homos." Secondly, he said: "If they gather together, assuming they are allowed to hold a parade, other people will simply kill them. ~here are radical Christians in Moscow who stand strongly against such demonic manifestations, as they say. "There were attempts made (in May’) to hold the gay parade during the Eurovision Song Contest in Moscova We had to isolate about 19 radical Christians who intended to attack those homos.’ On May, 16, riot police broke up an attempt to stage the fourth annual gay pride parade in Moscov~; arresting up to 80 participants, including gay leader N@olai Ale~eev, British gay leader Peter %tchell and Chicago gay activist Andy Thayen Luzhkov previously has called gay pride parades "satanic" and "weapons of mass destruction," and has o@cially banned them each ),ear. Lithuanian Parliament votes ’no promo homo’ law Lithuania’s parliament, the Seimas, approved a measure on first reading June 4 that bans references to homosexuality in schools and in public information that can be visible to children. Tne bill still has to dear a final vote. The tally was 57-2 with 8 abstentions. Many MPs missed the vote. Amnesty International said the "Law on the Protection of Minors Against the Detrimental Effect of Public Information’~ would classify "homosexuality alongside issues such as ... the display of a dead or cruelly mutilated body of a person, and information that arouses fear or horror, or encourages self-mutilatisn or suicide." Nicola Duckworth, Amnesty’s Europe and Central Asia program director, said the proposed law "denies the right to freedom of expression and deprives students’ access to the support and protection they may need." China sees its first gay pride week China saw" its first-ever gay pride week June 7-14 in Shanghai. Events included movies, plays, art exhibits, panel discussions, swimming and badminton competitions, and a big party, thouglx at least one play" and one film were ordered canceled by authorities. Some 500 people attended a barbecue/ drag shiny/fashion show/hot-body contest on June 13. Organizers decided against holding a parade, saying it iust didn’t seem to be legally possible, according to China Daily: "Shanghai Pride is a community-building exercise," co-organizer Tiffany Lemay told the English-lang~aage paper. "We hope to raise awareness of issues surrounding homosexuality, raise the visibility of the gay community, help people within our community to come out, and build bridges between the gay and straight communities." Northern Irish LGBs report high level ofhate Twenty-one percent of gay and bisexual men and I8 percent of lesbian and bisexual women iri Northern Ireland say they\,e been the victim of a homophobic hate crime or incident in the past three years. The figure comes fi’om a survey of I,t43 LGB people catrried out by the Rainbow Project with funding from the Police Service of Northern Ireland. Tne study found that 64 percent of such incidents were not reported to police and 30 percent resulted in physical injui3: ebec to 1attach strategy against homophobia Quebec Justice Minister Kathleen Well has announced the Canadian province will implement a comprehensive strategy against homophobia before the end of the year. She broke the news at a May I7 rally marking the International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO). "We see it as a major step forward here since doing so, Quebec will ackmowledge officially that homophobia -- and not homosexuality -- is a social problem and take action, instead of passively banning discrimination, said Magazine ]~tre Editor Andrd Gagnon. "As far as I know, it will be the first government in the world to adopt such a strategy that will cover all its spheres of intervention," he said. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) O lahoma’s NV/S ’# l otlin PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) @O,P,E, Testing Clinic ~ens O@reach In Tulsa at (9’~8) July 2009 i t÷matie Ruling: English adoption agencies cannot discriminate The Charities Commission of England and Wales ruled June 2 that adoption agencies cannot discriminate against gay couples. The commission cited the Equality Act (Sexual Orientationl Regulations 2007, which ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. Violation of the law would lead to a loss of charity status and public funding. The ruling came in a case involving the Catholic Care charity in Leeds, which wanted to amend its official statement of objectives with the commission to exclude consideration of gay couples. Denmark is not gay nirvana Denmarlq the first nation in the world to legalize gay partnerships, in 1989, still has a problem with homophobia. Eighteen percent of GLBT people in Copenhagen and 8 percent in other parts of the country say they’ve been discriminated against based on their sexual orientation in the past year, according to a report from the Center for Alternative Social Analysis. GLBT people between ages 16 and 29 reported more problems than older people. A total of 3,400 homophobic incidents were reported to police in 2008, the study said. A report in the Politiken newspaper said gay businesses also have been targeted. Copenhageds oldest gay ba~; Centralhiornet. had rocks thrown through its windows six times in 2008. Patrons also have been bombed with eggs through the bar’s open door. Australian prison OKs gay con}ugal visits Xhe Alexander Maconochie prison in Australia’s Capital Territory has decided to let gay inmates receive conjugal visits six times a year. The policy applies to prisoners who are ~vell-behaved and whose partner is not also incarcerated at the facility. Reports said that the state of Victoria. where Melbourne is located, is the only other place in Australia where gay inmates can have sex dates with their partners. Bosnian churches oppose antidiscrimination bill Bosnia and Herzegovina’s Interreligious Council is opposing a.bill to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation, claiming it will lead to legalization of same-sex marriage. The measure has passed first reading in the House of Representatives. A national law banning discrimination based on sexual orientation is a requirement for any nation that wants its citizens to be able to travel within the European Union without obtaining a visa. Nae Interreligious Council is composed of representatives of the nation’s Roman Catholics, Muslims, Jews and Orthodox Christians. Balkanlnsight.com said it is unttsual for the council "to agree on any concrete actions and (it) often has been blocked by internal boycotts." .Gay marriage campaign launched m Portugal The Movement for Equality in Access to Civil Marriage launched on May 31 in Lisbon, Portugal. More than 1,000 people signed onto the campaign, including politicians, well-known actors, pop singers and businesspeople, and Nobel Prize winner Josd Saramago, who was honored for literature in 1998. The campaign’s manifesto, which nmv can be signed by anyone in Portugal, states, in part: "Equal access to civil marriage is a matter of justice that deserves the support of all people who oppose homophobia and discrimination.... We citizens who believe in equal rights, dignity and recognition for all of us -- for our families, friends and colleagues -- join our voices to express our support for equality. "We call this change necessary, fair and urgent because we know that the current situation of inequality divides society between those who are included and those who are excluded, between persons who are inside and marginalized persons.... We now have an opportunity to end one of the last unjustified (instances of) discrimination written in our law." Peru gay police ban less stringent than reported Peruvian Interior Minister Mercedes Cabanillas says recent news reports that gays have been banned from being police officers were not quite right. Mid-May reports said cops who have sex with people of the same sex would be banned because they cause scandal and denigrate the police’s image. But Cabanillas says the new law, which took effect May 12, will only ban gay cops if their gay-related public behavior is scandalous or damages the image of the institution. She said the ministry has no desire to "get in anyone’s bed" and that officials only wish to target unseemly, embarrassing or scandalous occurrences or attitudes related to sexual orientation that happen in the public sphere. Gay groups said the taw is problematic and discriminatory either way because ir seems to suggest that certain public expressions of homosexuality are more likely ro run afoul of the law than similar public expressions of heterosexuality. The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission and Movimiento Homosexual de Lima have launched a letter-~vriting campaign to Peru’s public defender, =’asldng her to file an Action of Unconstitutionality with the Constitutional Court to cl!allenge the so-called ’offense’ of same-sex relations and its associated penalty." "We write to express our concern over Law 29356, vchich establishes a new disciplinary code for the Peruvian police, and stipulates in Article 34 that it is a serious offense to ’have sex with people of the same gender that causes scandal or undermines corporate image,’" a sample letter says in part. "This law is a clear violation of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and the Covenant on Civil and Political Rights -- both of which have been signed by Peru. This regressive law also violates the Andean Charter, a regional treaty ratified by Peru in 2002.... Finally, Law 29356 is inconsistent with human rights principles that are already, codified in Peruvian law. On December 1, 2004, a new Constitutional Procedures Code, approved by Parliament, modified constitutional procedures to recognize discrimination based on sexual orientation." Australian benefits agency recognizes gay de facto couples Centrelink, the Australian government’s social-benefits agency, will treat gay de facto couples as married for benefits purposes starting July 1. While the move increases equality, it also will result in a loss of benefits for some coupled gays, who previously qualified based on their individual income. Centrelink assistance encompasses such things as health care, prescription drugs., unemployment payments, disaster aid,,rent subsidies, aid to single parents and a wide range of other benefits and welfare programs. "From 1 July 2009 changes to legislation wilt mean that customers who are in a same-sex de facto relationship will be recognised as partnered for Centrelink and Family Assistance Office purposes," says the agenc)?s Web site. "All customers who are assessed as being a member of a couple will have their rate of payment calculated iri the same way." Colombian policeman added to partner’s health insurance The Board of Health of Colombia’s National Police granted health-insurance benefits to the partner of a gay officer May 14. The extension of coverage to Fabifin Mauricio Chibcha Romero followed a January ruling by the nation’s Constitutional Court that granted marital rights to commonlaw same-sex couples in areas that indude civil service, contracts ~vith the government, housing protection and assistance, immigration, social security, death indemnification, and criminal noninctimination. ~Pne activist group Colombia Diversa said the ruling encompassed all the "civil, political, social, economic, criminal and immigration rights ... of a common-law union, minus adoption." Chibcha also gained access to police housing subsidies and vacation dubs. METROPOL!TAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve ~. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM WWg~¢.S0cmcc. Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! w,,~w.rnetrostarnews.com ~,tr®STAR 11 Viognier [vee-oh-nay] For those who haven’t experienced Viognier, the first glass is quite a revelation. This wine will embody al! Or some of the following: honeysuckle, citrus blossoms, t~,chee, ripe melon, freshly picked.peaches 6r apricots and ripe pear. Winemaker Craig Williams, from Josep~ ~nhe~s Vin~;a,~s, s~s Viognier contains floral compounds called ~Terpens. Tl~ey are also found in Muscat and Pdesling. So, think of the most aromatic Muscat or Riesling you’ve ever encountered, then concentrate it and you have Viognier. The majoriV of French Viogniers are sold as Vin de Pays in the Languedoc. In the Rl~one wine region, the grape is o~en blended with Roussanne, Marsanne and Grenache blanc. In the Northern part of Rhone, the grape is sometimes blended with Chardonnay. Since the late 1980s, plantings ofViognier in the United States and Cagada have increased dramat,ically. The Rhone R~angers of the mid 1980 s help spark the increased interest in Viognier in California and now Californigs Central Coast is the leading producer. Looking some good summerwtt te wines. > ~ Marcheregiono~:~yand~ to monm, we are art a ou- < fthe}lord most widet l~ted white wpicNly Sauvignon blanc ~ Macab~o. Xg Mar&etti~07 it~~ ~" *~ ,~. ,..... ?~ P ~ , [, desiunated "Rueda V?rdejo must contaifi Fazi,B; t~gli~ ~007 Italy >::~ wine grape, veraemo is cl~slHeo as a noble o - .... or classic grape. On the PortuDtese mainland, 85% Verdejo, and are oAen 100% Verde’o....... *.......... it is recommended in the DAO region and Verdejo winm are aromatic, often ~oA . ~d[as ~wws, Isay go to your favorite wing/~ and Rdl-bodied. %ey can be somewhat ~k questions ~d purchase a bottle or with the production of white port. Some Portuguese locales call this Gouveio. The Godello grape grown in northwest Spain is believed to be the same variety as Verdelho. %e grape has been successful in the vineyards ofAustralia, particularly the Hunter \~lley region, Langhorne Creek and the Swan Xga!le?: Australian versions of Verdelho are noted for their intense flavors vdth hints of lime and honeysuclde. California is producing more of this varietal as ,sell. St. Amant 2006 California Marquis Philips 2007 Australia Verdejo [ver-day-ho] This is a variety of wine grape that has long been grown in the Rueda winegrowing region of Spain. The grape originated in North Africa, and was spread to Rueda in about the 1 lth Century. For most of this time Verdejo was generally used to make a strongly oxidized, Sherry-like wine, In the 1970s the reminiscent of Sauvignon blanc warm climate. Gar~i Grande 2007 Spain Marquis de Riscal 2007 Spain : Share some food& wine with friendd a~d ehe~k this out for yourself. ,Vouv~ay[vooh-~ay] ’,Wines fi’om the French to the east ofTours are made in range of styles fi-om the Chenin Vintages in the Loire are variable, best years Vouvray can produce very long-lived white wines. It turns out that most chenin blanc 1970s what most generic, alcoholic" " by corporations consumed in rather than wine chenin blanc is exhibiting a nutty, Pichot 2007 Nais writer is one ofthe managers at the Grand Vin wine shop at Utica Square. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events around town known as the Wine Enthusiasts ofTulsa. indude: / www. la~neSpecta- Verdicchio months recipe courtesy of: Crab Ingredients 1 Cup Mayonnaise 4 Eggs 1 V2 Cup Japanese Breadcrumbs 2 T Granulated Garlic 2 T Onion Powder 2 - I lb Cans Jumbo Lump Crab Meat (Indonesian or Philippine) 2 - 1 lb Cans Bacldin Crab Meat (indonesian or Philippine) Preparation: Mix first 5 ingredients together by hand. Drain Crab meat cans ofwater. Fold in Baclcfin crab meat first and then gently fold in jumbo lump crab meat being careful not to break up the lumps. If mixrure is too wet. add 1A cup more ofJapanese Breadcrumbs. Mixture should barely hold together. DO NOT PU/T .~NY ADDITIONAL SEASONINGS OR TOO MUCH BRREADCRUMBS IN! The drizzle on top of the crab cakes will give ir all of the seasoning it will need. Preheat a skillet over medium-high heat with half an 20 inch of corn oil. Once the mixture is made, take a 4 ounce scoop and pack in the crab cake mixture. Carefully place the flat side of the crab cake down in the oil for approximately ! - 2 minutes until golden brmvn. Place the crab cake on a pre-greased baking sheet, fried side up. These can now be held for up to 5 days in the refrigerator or finished offin the oven immediately; DRIZZLE INGREDIENTS (BAY MAYO) 1 Cup Mayonnaise 2 T Old Bay Dash ofGranulated Garlic % Cup Heavy Cream the ba~ 12 July 2009 Big-screen beckons Nell Patrick Harris xYvq~ite hosting this year’s Tony Axvards, Nell Patrick Harris joked about his second-class status as a "TV guy." But he’s atready proven he’s hilarious on the big screen in the Harold & Kumar movies, so now that second-tier status is about to change with two new film projects on the horizon. Harris has joined the cast of Beastly, the new film from gay director Daniel Barnz (Phoebe in Wonderland) that Romeo’s already reported on here, but the How I Met Your Mother star wilt also be playing a lead role in The Best and the Brightest. Harris plays a husband - way to break that gay-actor-curse NPH - from Ddaware whose wife goes bananas about social status when they move to New York City and try to get their kid into an elite kindergarten. Amy Sedaris, John ~ and Kate Mulgrew al~0 star in ~he latter; hit theaters before the end of 20!0. How to make a monster musicaJ More and more movies are being made from poptflar childhood toys, from dolls (Kit Kittredge: An American Girl) to action figures (Transformers) tO even board games (Clue). But now we’re getting a movie musical based on a toy that doesn’t even exist yet and will presumably be marketed alongside the film itself. Gay super-producers Craig Zadan and Nell Meron are reuniting with Hairspray composerlyricist Marc Shaiman and lyricist Scott gc’ittman to make an original screen musical around an as-yet-unnamed Mattel monster toy. Every~daing’s being kept very much on the hush-hush, but the one thing that’s been revealed is that the property will "add a fresh twist to monster lore." No word yet on when this new musical will go into production, but Romeo bets five bucks that if the movie and the toy do well, an eventual Broadway adaptation is inevitable. And TV show. And more toys. And sequels. And ... Jake Gyllenhaal andAnne Hathaway Focus Features photo Brokeback spouses reunite Granted, the romance between Jake Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway in Brokeback Mountain was a tragic one involving the closet and deception and death, but these actors are determined to give it another go in a movie where he won’t be playing a gay cowboy. Love and Other Drugs will feature Gyllenhaal as a pharmaceutical sales rep for Pfizer during the time when a revolutionary litde blue pill was hitting the market (the film is based on the book Hard Sell: Tne Evolution ofa Viagra Salesman) while Hathaway will play a woman with Parldnson’s with whom he begins a relationship after they meet on a sales call. Ed Zwick (Glor~ Defiance) is set to direct, with Shooting set to happen possibly as early as this fall. A movie about Viagra may make audiences stand at attention, but if the film lasts more than four hours, please, call your doctor. Romeo San PTcente hopes the monster-toy musical will be like the Dra~dapuppet rock operaj~om _ForgettingSarah Marshall_, complete withfull-fl’ontal male nudity. He can be reached care of thispublication or at DeeplnsideHollywOod@qsyndicate.com. ~LSA, 0g (PR). Continuing the m0fithl9 ShOwcase of local artists a the Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa ~ right next to Living Arts (Ok ) will feature Tulsa Artist Michael Cooper with an opening show and reception on Thursday, July 2nd from 6-gpm and continuing throughout the month ofJuly. Michael Cooper is an emerging artist in the Oldahoma scene, specializing in journalistic art, music, and portrait photography. In 2008 he joined Urban Tulsa Weekly as a staff photographer and has seen his work published in notable other Okie publications, induding Oklahoma Gazzette and Oklahoma Today Magazine. In his own words, "I have two eyes and one lens, and they battle each other for experiences daily. The way I see it - few people get to live their passion, and being an artist is mine. I’m just trying this road of exploration out, and I hope you’re there along for the ride". www.metrostarnews.corn gg{<~{:a~oSTA,R 13 MCC United ~°~"-~~o’~°" 918-838-171~ Metropolitan Community Chu~h put tb Chr° y Church 14 ;~÷troSTAR July 2009 www.metrostamews.com ~÷troSTAR 15 PHILADELPHIA, PA "As in one of the most beautiful and interesting cities in the country" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams [)how: Gables Bed andBreakfizst Visiting Philadelphia for the first time -was certainly, a very exciting and interesting time for us. We knew ahead of time al! about the historical things to see and do but had no idea what else to expect. We first checked into The Gables Bed and Break~st which has been owned for the past 16 years by ~rren Cederholm and Don Caskey. Located in the University part of the city, it is a grand old Victoria home full of wonderful antiques from top to bottom. ~e house has a "wrap around" porch for guests to sit and have drinlcs and snacks or just to view the sights and sounds of the area. Each room is beautifully decorated in antiques. A full, and we do mean FULL sit down breakfast in the ~orma! dining room is served each morning. XYge are not talking doughnuts and coflree but a fail sit down brealNast. This was a perfect way to talk with the other guests to find out what others did the day" be~bre or were going to do that day. "While there we met guests from California, Alabama and all over. Many of the guests alwws stay there when visiting Philadelphia. Warren and Don are graciotts hosts and. al%r 16 years of taking guests into their lovely home, they seem to have been able to do it the right way< Another great thing about staying at The Gables is that the trolley system runs right in front of their house and you can take it downtown in just minutes, and it runs about every 20 minutes a!l day 10ng. The), have ample off-street parking behind their house which is a big plus. To begin your day, take the trolley downtown. From that point you can take another bus or ,valk south to the famous historical district of Philadelphia and visit all the places there. No trip to Philadelphia would be complete without visiting the Liberty Bell and the other historical places that are located within a few blocks of there. Philadelphia is proud of their art museums as well they, should be. ~-he Philadelphia Museum of Art is a first class museum and is a MUST for anyon& visit to the cits: A few blocks away is the Rodin Museum which houses more Rodin sculptors any~vhere except for Paris. There are maW other museums to visit also. Ofcourse every visitor to Philadelphia must try one of their famous Philly Cheesesteak sandwiches for lunch. There are a lot of gay bars in the ’~gayborhood" area of the city which is iust a few blocks west of downtmvn and easily ~vithin ~valking distance from the public transportation. Knock was our very favorite bar there. It is what a gay bar should be all about....... A clean bar where the owner/management/staff is super friendly; wl~ere the customers are super friendl> where you can walk in and really enioy yourself, located righ~ on the corner of Locust St. and I2th Street. They also have an excellent res~urant located in the bar. ~Pnis is one of the finest restaurants in the city ~vith fine white linen tablecloths and napkins on every table. Jim the Maitre ’d is extremely professional. The servers are very professional. They have a huge menu offering the very finest of cuisine. Owned by Bill Wood, this bar/restaurant is extremely popular with both people ~vho live in the city as ~vell as travelers. We were fortunate during our stay to see the Broadway pla}~ Grey Gardens which is about the life of the aunt and cousin of Jackie Kennedy- Onassis. They lived in a 24 room house in the Hamptons on Long Island but were extremely poor and let their house run down something horrible. Mother and daughter loved (and hated) each other but were bound to live with each other until the mother finally died. There was a movie made about their lives and HBO came out with another movie a couple of months ago. Both live theatre as well as the visua! arts are a huge makeup in Philadelphia. You could easily spend a whole ~veek in this beautiful city and still not see everything. The architecture is unbelievably tremendous. On weekends, the Penn Landing downtown is full of vendors and local artists. Philadelphia is certainly a city that is welcoming gay travelers with open arms. There are just a handful of cities that you must visit in the country and Philadelphia is certainly" on our short list. Most cities you still need a car to travel around however not in this city. They have such a great public transportation system and is extremely safe and clean. Why can’t all cities do this? For more information on Philadelphia, visit: www.gablesbb.com and they are located at 4520 Chester Avenue. Phone: 215.662. ! 918. ?dso visit w~v<ka~ockphilly. COLT1 Another great website to visit is: http://www.gophita.com/c/your_ philadelphia/14/diverse_philadelphia/287/ gay~friendly_philadelphia/4.html and wwcw. gayphiladelphia.com On a personal note, we want to thank Bruce Yelk, Director of Human Resources & Gay Marketing, Greater Philadelphia Tourism marketing Corportation and to our friend Buster Stevens who hosted a wonderful dinner for us xvhile we were visiting. Photo: Famous Liber~_y Bell Philadelphia, PA Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! Wayne Fuller reported on gossipboy.com, an Oklahoma internet news service focused on the GLBT community, that Mr. Chiles had been convicted of Obtaining Money by False Pretenses in McClain County in 2006, for which he received a 2 year deferred sentence now completed. Since then a warrant for his arrest was issued for the same offense in Pontotoc County, which was in effect when he was elected to his Democratic Party position. Robert Chiles, Director &Founder ofPrject Pride Foundation ofOklahoma. Gorin photo On June 8, represented by attorney Gordon Melson, he appeared in court in Pontotoc Count-5: An agreement was reached ~vith the warrant withdrawn, and Robert ~vould have until August 27 to make restitution to the parties involved. On June 3, when cast members from the national tour of "The Drowsy Chaperone" did a benefit at Tulsa’s Renegades Club for Until There’s a Cure, an organization helping those with HIV. Mr. Chiles presented them with a large check payable to that organization. It likewise would not clear his bank. Mr. Chiles had been contacted by that organization and he promised them a cashier~ check which was not received as of press time. Following this, Mr. Chiles had asked the Red Ribbon Revue, a monthly benefit show performed at Renegades, to do a benefit for his Foundation. In a statement to gossipboy. corn Renegades entertainer Tabitha Taylor stated, "I’m glad this was caught before we did a fundraiser with the name attached." www.metrostamews.com ~÷{~oSTAR 17 18 July 2009 ,~.metrostarnews.com ~®~°~STAR t9 By Camper English Crafting the Cosmopolitan ~he Cosmopolitan is one tasty cocktail and probably most popular drink created in the last 30 years, but it is not magically original. The recipe calls for lemon vodka, lime iuice, orange liqueur, and a splash of cranberry for color. Minus the cranberry, the drink follows the formula of spirit plus lime plus orange liqueur. If that spirit is tequila, that’s a Margarita. If it’s unflavored vodka, that’s a Kamikaze. In fact. the prevailing theory on the creation of the Cosmopolitan is that it ,vas a spin-offofthe Kamikaze created by a Miami bartender named Cheryl Cook in 1985 or !986. She said the Cosmo is. ~ "Merely a ~ Kamikaze with Absolut Citron and a splash of cranberry juice." But her version called for Rose’s lime juice, a bottled lime juice that’s a poor substimte for freshsqueezed, and triple sec, which usually refers to the low-end orange liqueurs that are poor substitutes for Cointreau. These items are often served at high-volume bars that want to save money on (admittedly pricey) orange liqueur and don’t want their bartenders taldng the time to squeeze limes for each drink. But I find the Cosmo-to be intolerable ~vithout them. So too did Toby Cecchini, a New York bartender credited with finessing the drink into its best form. Someone told Cecchini about the drink, but in their version it was made with unflavored vodka, Rose’s lime, and the red-colored syrup grenadine. He liked the look of the drink - soft pink and served in a Martini glass - and experinaented ~vith ingredients to make the flavor match the fashion. In the end, his version came out just like Cheryl Cook’s version, but with better ingredients. This version caught on like wildfire in New York. causing Cecchini and other bartenders to make them by the thousands. In the era of bottled sour mix and vermouthflee Martinis. this drink seerned highmaintenance enough for Cecchini to call them "labor-intensive pink monstrosities." ~e trick to making a good pink monstrosity; even if you have the proper ingredients, is getting the ratio of them. right. Apparently this is a problem for bartenders ~oo - i’ve had Cosmopolitans i~ every shade from c!¢ar to deep red. When I make them at borne, I’m ~o~- laz/to Ioot up ~[~e recipe so I }ust ake ir ,,~ ingredient ar a vitae: ~ couo~e ounces of Charon a smat~ splash of Cointreau. and a large quantity of’lime. (I like them tart.) I make mine in keeping ,vith Cheryl Cook’s original instructions of ~jttst enough cranberry to make it oh so pretty in pink." That’s my starting point, anyway. One thing I’ve learned making this drink is that cranberry juice, like slimming black clothing, hides many sins. Even if you get the initial ratios of liquor and juice all wrong, or have to resort to bottled lime )uice and bottom-shelf triple sec, you can always make a drinkable version of this drink. Just keep adding cranberry until it’s good. Vodka, Now Available in Juniper Flavor I like to think of"bathtub gift" as "Martinis by the poo!." but that’s not where the expression originated. It came about during Prohibition xvhen people would "make" their own gin by adding mail-order juniper flavoring to lowquality alcohol to help mask its awfulness. 2the weird tiring is, gin cocktails were awfully popular back then. Today it is still legal to make gin this way- not in the bathtub. but by adding juniper oil and other flavors to a neutral spirit like vodka. Thankftdly, most of the gins with which we’re familiar don’t do it like that. Gin usually starts with high-proof neutral spirit made from grains like corn, wheat, and rye. The gin distiller then selects a range of botanicals or botanical oils to infuse into the spirit, then redistills everything together. There are many different distilling methods gin makers employ, but this is probably only interesting to folks like me ~vho spend our spare time hanging out in distilleries on vacation. More interesting are the types of botanicals that go in to gin. Traditional brands like Beefeater, Plymouth, and Tanqueray contain many ingredients like citrus peels, coriander, cinnamon, and cassia bark. Newer gins on the market like Bombay Sapphire, Hendrick’s, and Martin Miller’s also include things like lavender, ginseng, rose, and green tea. All gins, by definition, must contain jtmiper (berries that smell like pine trees) as a dominant flavor, but the newer ones tend to put less of it in. While vodka lovers and gin lovers are usually different sorts of people (though I find versatility provides more options in the bedroom and the liquor cabinet)~ when it comes right down to it gin is really just juniper-flavored vodka. Ifyou’ve got vodka drinkers over for cocktails and you only have gin left, just tell them their drinks are made with "botanical vodka." If you’re in the opposite situation, tell them the vodka is "diet gin." Lying to your guests is the most entertaining part of entertaining them. The combination and concentration of the juniper, spices, citrus, and other botanicals is what gives each gin its unique flavor and makes it a better or worse fit for different cocktails. Some modern gins are so very citrusy and floral that they can be too perfumey for a Martini. (Hey, this drink smells like grandma!} On the other hand. when you add an intensely juniper-heaW gin ro a Gimlet or other mild cockt ills. s~metimes all you ~aste b rhe juniper. (Hey, this drink smells like where ~ ~andma is buried!~ 2O The trick is finding the right fit for each gin fqr your mouth. I prefer the old-style gins in a Martini, Aviation, Pink Gin, and Negroni. With the more-floral, less-juniper gins I like the Salty Dog, Gimlet, White Lady, and Vesper. But I find that no matter what kind of gin you have in the house you can always add it to tonic water and it will taste just fine. Tonic is the mixer that swings both ways. Camper English is a cocktails andspirits writer andpublisher ofAlcademics.com. Miss Gay Oklahoma 2009 Crowned in OKC By Victor Gorin Left: 2008 Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer, 1st altetmam Samantha West, Shantd l~£andalay &Miss Gay America Victoria DePaula. Gorin Photo worked their hearts out, hoping to be the next Miss Gay Oklahoma. Emceed by former Miss Gay America 2006 Nicole Dubois & former Miss Gay Oklahoma 2005 Pure Chocolate (as Steven), it got wild Saturday night as it wound down to 5 finalists with their friends cheering on their favorites. That fun fabulous contest came to a conclusion on Saturday night June 13 when Shantel Mandalay finally won the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma America after many years of pursuing that dream. A proud 3rd grade teacher who also coaches Special Olympics, Miss Mandalay and her entourage wowed the audience with a fast stepping dance routine to the C&W classic "The Devi! went down to Georgia" that brought the house down. It was also an emotional time for the current reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma Adrienne Fischer when she passed on her tide, joining many other former Miss Gay Oklahomas who were there for the occasion. Together with 1st alternate Samantha \Vest. Shantel will be eligible to compete in the national Miss Gay America competition to be held this year in St.Louis October 28.- November 1. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It was a festive weekend June 11-13 at Angles in Oklahoma City when once again the girls lIGHT BILENT AUCTION- AND RAFFLES Dd. IKEY TURNS UP THE WITH OlSDg ALL NIGHT ~:mSTAR July 2009 ~’#~W.metrostamews.com @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ OGRA Pool Party, OKC @Club Majestic, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa Oklahoma City @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Finishlinel Oklahoma City @ OGRA Rodeo, OKC Tulsa Pride 09 Parade @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @ Tulsa Pride 09 Parade www.metrostarnews.com , <,STAR 23 Oban~a administration defending DOMA is shocking and unsetding. Clearly, our selfdescribed ’fierce advocate’ needs significant additional pushing and pressure from all of US." Popular blogger John Aravosis: "A Democratic president of the United States of i~erica, in the year 2009. and an African- B~nerican child of inter-racial parents no less, gave his la~wers the go ahead ro compare our marriages to incest on the same day that 42 years ago the Supreme Court ruled in [ais parents’ favor in Loving v. Virginia.... We demand our rights, and we expect this president, who promised them in exchange [or millions of our votes and millions of our donations, to deliver. And so help me God, we will continue to hold this president accountable for his broken promises and his betrayals]" Lambda Lega!’s Legal Director Jon Davidson: "X~at they need to be asked is why they gratuitously went out of their -way ~o make the outrageous arguments they unnecessarily included such as that DOM2~ does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or that the right ar issue is not marriage but an unestablished rigi~t ~o ’same-sex marriage or that DOMA is somehow iustified in order to protect taxpayers ~;ho don’t want their tax do!lars used ro suppor~ lesbian and gay couples iwhile it~ apparently fine to make lesbians and gay men pay the same rm,:es but be &nied the benefits provided heterosexual couples) .... I am seething mad." Top Clinton aide R5chard Socarides: "It had such a buckshot approach ro it, a veritable kitchen sink of anti-gay legal theories, that it seemed expressly designed to inflict maximal damage ro our rights. Instead of malting nuanced arguments which took into account the president’s oi?-stated support for repealing DO1VLA -- a law he has called ’abhorrent’ -- the brief seemed to embrace DOMA and all its horrific consequences," Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors: "We ... call on President Obama m order the Justice Department ro file a supplemental brief reversing its position and instead urging the repeal of DOMA." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey: "The malicious and outrageous arguments and language used in the Department ofJustice’s marriage brief is only serving to inflame and malign the humanity of same-sex couples and our families." Gay writer Dan Savage: "If this shit is ’fierce advocacy,’ Mr. President, we’ll take benign neglect.7 CBS News: "The anger from gay rights advocates toward President Obama is starting to boil over." ~!~e Wall Street Journal called Sotmonese’s letter to Obama "scathing." The New York Times editorialized: "The Obama administration, which came to office promising to protect gay rights but so far has nor done much, actually struck a blow" for the other side last week.... If the administration does feel compelled to defend (DOMA), it should do so in a less hurtful wa~: ... There writer Dan / Savage: "If ’\ dais shit is ’fierce advocacy; Mr. President, we’ll take benign / \... neglect." was no need to resort to specious arguments and inflammatory language to impugn samesex marriage as an institution." Plans apparently are shaping up for a gay March on Washington in October, spearheaded, it appears, by veteran activist Cleve Jones, the man who created the NAMES Proiect AIDS Memorial O~ilt."The President is in serious danger of motivating a huge mass of gay people to stream into \Ygashington for the simple ioy of standing in front of the White House and giving him a piece of their minds," wrote syndicated gay columnist \gayne Besen. "For what seemed Iike forever, Democrats told us that when the big bad Republicans went away, our lives would improve," Besen said. "XN~ell, the Republican nightmare is over, so why do I still feel like I’m in the middle of a political Friday the 13th movie? ... As far as I’m concerned, if the donkeys can’t detiv(r now, they can Idss my ass." On June 17, when Obama "delivered" to federal employees a smattering of spousal benefits, via issuance of a "memorandum," he did again denounce DOblA. "I think we all have to acknowledge this is only one step," the president said. the steps we have not yet t~en is to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act. I believe it’s discriminatory, I think it interferes ,vith states’ rights, and we will work with Congress ro overturn it. \rUe’re gor more work to do to ensure that government treats all its citizens equally, to figh~ iniustice and intolerance in all its forms, and to bring about that more perfect union. I’m committed to these efforts, and I pledge to work tirelessly on behalf of these issues in the months and years to come.- Obama also expressed support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act. "Under current law, we cannot provide same-sex couples with the full range of benefits enjoyed by heterosexual married couples," he said. "That’s why I’m proud to announce rny support for the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act, crucial legislation that will guarantee these rights for all federal employees. I want to thank Rep. Tammy Baldwin, who is behind me somewhere -- there she is, right there -- for her tireless leadership on this bill and in the broader struggle for equality. I want to thank Sen. Joe Lieberman -- Joe is here -- as well as Susan Collins for championing this bill in the Senate, and Rep. Barney Frank for his leadership on this and so many other issues." Sounds good, but gay activists ~veren’t impressed. They want action. "We commend President Obama ana his administration for taking this beginning step to level the playing field but we look forward to working with him to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, overturn ’Dofft Ask, Don’t Tell’ and guarantee the entire American worl6brce is free from discrimination," said HRC’s Solmonese. The Associated Press said, "His (Obama’s) critics -- and there were many -- saw Wednesday’s incremental move to expand gay rights as litde more than pandering to a reliably Democratic voting bloc." Lamb& Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart: "While ending any of the discrimination against gay and lesbian federal employees is a welcome step, today’s ... announcement falls far short of our hopes and expectations. President Obama dearly understands how important it is for people to have health insurance coverage ro protect their loved ones and this plan does not provide that. Lambda Legal is representing Karen Golinsldi, a federal employee who works for the judicial branch and who is seeking health insurance coverage for her same-sex spouse. A federal judge has already issued an administrative decision in that matter, concluding that, within the existing roles, the federal government can choose to provide health insurance for same-sex partners. Vie think they should.... The day is long past for incomplete, piecemeal fixes that leave hard-worldng families uninsured and struggling." People For the American W’ay President Michael B. Keegan: "Today’s presidential memorandum is a very small step in the right direction, but it’s a token, and tokens are no longer enough. DOMA stands in the way of real progress for same-sex couples nmv denied federal recognition and protection, and its repeal is tong overdue. President Obama has a unique ability to provide the moral leadership to ensure that all Americans are treated equally under the law. but so far he has failed to exercise it. We urge the president to live up to his own rhetoric about being a ’fierce advocate’ fbr gay and lesbian Americans. Taking action on his pledge to repeal DOMA would be ~vorthy of the vision that he held out to Americans during his campaign NGLTF’s Carey: "This presidential memorandum today will extend some selected protections to the same-sex partners and families of federal employees.... This memo is one building block toward full equality, and much more remains to be done in order for the administration to live up to the promises of equality the president made as a candidate on the campaign trail.... We also call on the president to take additional steps that will have a positive impact on our health, our livelihoods and our families’ safety that do not require legislative action. These include reversing the standing policy of the U.S. Census Bureau to manually un-marry any same-sex couple who lawfully states they are married on the 2010 census, extending employment protections to federal employees based on gender identity, and reversing the regulations that continue to throw roadblocks in the way of HIV-positive individuals who want to travel to this country." NCLR’s Kendell: "The policy announced today by the president committing to a federal ~vorkplace free from discrimination is a step in the right direction but inadequate and long overdue. It leaves out millions ofAmerieans who do not work for the federal government and fails to include key benefits including health insurance. When running for office, then candidate Obama called equality for LGBT people a ’moral imperative.’ We will continue to demand this administration live up to the president’s promise of achieving ’full equality for the millions ofLGBT people in this country.’" The language is strong and the front is unified. Nae White House clearly is listening, but when will our "fierce advocate" act? Writing on his house.gov Web site June 16, gay U.S. Rep. Jared Polls, D-Colo., said: "I am a proud Democrat, as are many in the LGBT community, and I believe we must hold our leaders accountable. The Obama Administration made a HUGE mistalte in the DOMA brief. If they keep malting mistakes like this. they risktosing the support of the GLBT community forever, although I do not believe we are at that point yet. President Obama needs to honor his promise ro repeal this ... hateful and divisive law. As the New York Times editorialized yesterday, ’busy calendars and political expediency are no excuse for malting one group of Americans wait any longer for equal rights.’" labor of love really," said Arbuckle. "We ate like a family here." The organization serves men, women and children. "XWe have about 30-40 children who may be infected or have parents who are," adds Arbuclde. Recently, Arbuckle submitted a grant application to the }v’La,C-AIDS Fund which is an organization established in 1994 that globally supports all persons lMng with HIV/AIDS. "It is a passion for our company and our staff," said Armando Ortiz, MAC Retail Manager at Penn Square Mall. "We refer to this as the heart and soul ofMAC Cosmetics. MAC stands for Make-up, Art and Cosmetics. "Our Viva-Glam program is where the monies come from," adds Ortiz. "We give back 100% of the selling price back to the community. This program is really something we embrace in our company." MAC Cosmetics has been in business since I984 and has donated over $t35 million dollars to date through the MAC-AIDS Fund. Other Options has changed some over the years and now focuses primarily on their Friends Food Pantry. "The other services are provided so well by other organizations in the city that we focus on the nutritional program now," said Mary Arbuckle, Director of the Other Options organization. "\ge work well together with RAIN Oklahoma, the OU Infectious Disease Clinic, and other local organizations so our clients can ger all the hdp they need and so there is less duplication of services." Friends Food Pantry is exclusive to the HIV and MDS community. Clients come to the srore to shop each week. "We give them a shopping cart and let them select their own items, which is different than most food banks," adds Arbuckle. "We want to empower their mind; we don’t want them to feel like it’s a charity." Arbuckle says they plan ro spend the majority of the MAC-AIDS grant on their Boost program, which provides the high-prorein Boost drink to those in most need of the nutritional supplement. Donations to Other Options are always ~velcomed and appreciated. For more information about Other Options or the Friends Food Pantry, please call (405) 946- 8577. by Jack Fertig July 2009 "Pay attention, Cancer!" Saturn square Mercury would normally bring out everyone’s inner critic, but with Saturn in Virgo and Mercury in Gemini, bitchy outbursts are to be expected. If you’re feeling brilliant, write it down and think twice before saying it aloud. Take a long view and look for opportunities for self-improvement, ARIES (March 20 - Apri~ 19): Stay focused on work. Any personal remarks, especially about colleagues, are sure to get you into trouble. Your critical analyses and recommendations for improvement are probably a bit off the mark, but at least they show you’re paying attention. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Avoid gambling and investments in any game play strictly for funsies. Focus on developing skill at your sport or hobby. That’s an uphill slog, too, but something that’s just fun now can have practical value down the road. GEMiNi {May 21- June 20): If you get any criticism from family or roommates, thank them for sharing and think about what they say. There may be something to it. Responding in kind will only start an a~ui argument. CANCER (June 21~- July 22): Pay attention where you’re walking or driving. Distractions inside your own head can cause awful accidents. Be aware of your surroundings, and you can find better ways to bang up against someone. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You’re inclined to be very critical of someone’s political values, so why not focus on your own? In this era of diminishing resources, we all need to step back and re-think things. Brainstorming with friends will help you update your perspective. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22) The sharp edge of your wit is very much in evidence. Keep it focused on practical matters and attention to your own health and well-being. When tempted to speak of others, make extra effort to keep it kind and constructive. L~B~ (September 23 - October 22): There’s always room for selfimprovement, but don’t beat yourself up with your faults, which you’re now likely to exaggerate anyway. A creative focus for your inner critic could help you to be more realistic. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): As your brain races around sex, you may want to look beyond simple gratification. That has its time and place, but think seriously about your relationships and what you’d want to be doing - and with whom - in 20 years. SAG!TTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You will get into arguments. Stay focused, principled and respectful. The way you press your point can earn you a great deal of respect. Stay clear on details and graciously accept correction when it’s appropriate. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Take it slow and easy. Pay attention to details and you’ll have fewer accidents and arguments at work. Sex seems a great release for stress, but is it really? Focus on what’s important at work and at play. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You may be losing yourself helping others, and fun may feel more like work. An analytic approach to techniques of craft, sport and/or pleasure reconciles the latter. Being ruthless and selfish for a bit is now good for you. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Domestic criticisms are nearly inevitable. Being self-critical will help keep you out of arguments, but give yourself credit as well as blame. Your partner’s shortcomings on that score are highlighted because of your focus. If you must say something, be kind and gentle! 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Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004), The Ozark’s Star (2004), and The Star (2005). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Robin Dorner snap shots spousal benefits and protection stage Star Scene The Metro Star travel Tulsa Tulsa Pride's Diversity Festival https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51794f50820e6f610ddbaca277f5f06f.jpg fabb4187d66be371fff872f5d9578476 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/857717084d696fa751b866247e1bb6c9.pdf eb58751b326810ffb526bcb2aadb751b PDF Text Text "WWW.METROSTA~qEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" UN Ge era Assembly hears pro-gay presentation "9gockner News ~/ire It was read into the record by Argentine Ambassador Jorge Argtiello. JANUARY 1, 2009 Oklahoma’s 2009 Mr. O.G.R.A. Larry Bourne chats with the Metro Star. By Victor Gorin q’he 66 countries affirmed "the principle of non-discrimination, which requires that human rights apply equally to every hmman being regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity; and denounced "violence, harassment, discrimination, exclusion, stigmatization and prejudice ... because of sexual orientation or gender identity:’ statement also called for the decriminalization of gay sex, 77 Saudi Arabia SLxty-sLx nations at the UN General Assembly supported a groundbrealdng statement Dec. 18 confirming that international human rights protections include sexual orientation and gender identit): It was the first time a statement condemning rights abuses against GLBT people was presented in the General Assembly. gay Americans support Woclmer News Wire A Harris Interactive poll released Dec. 3 found that Americans support a range of policies and protections for gay people. The Pulse of Equality survey, cmmnissioned by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, found that majorities of Americans favor either marriage or civil unions for gay couples, hate-crime laws to protect gay and transgender people, letting gays in the military serve openly, and allowing gays and lesbians to adopt children. "To love is not a crime;’ said Louis-Georges Tin, president of the International Day Against Homophobia Committee, which initiated the process that led to the statement. "To decriminalize homosexuality world,vide is a batde t’or human rights .... This (statement) is a great achievement (but) I also want to remind everyone that ending the criminalization of same-sex love wilt be a long, hard battle:’ Leading British activist Peter Tatchell called the statement "history in the making." "The UN statement goes much further than see’king the decriminalization of same-sex acts;’ Tatchell said. "k ondemns all human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity, urges countries to protect the human rights of LGBT people and to bring to justice those who violate these rights, and calls for human rights defenders who oppose homophobic and transphobic victimization to be allowed to carry out their advocacy and humanitarian work unimpeded." ........... Continued See UN Page-14 Photo: ~adr. OGRA 2009 Larry Bour~ze By Victor Gorin The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ( better known as OGRA) has a proud history of not only promoting the country lifestyle in the GLBT community, but also to the straight community as well. Letting gay cowboys knmv they can truly be themselves is a cause they promote proudly, but they do more. OGRA also has a proud history of helping wordBvhile charities such as Other Options, Infant Crisis Services, Young Gay Lesbian Alliance, and R.A.I.N. Also a proud tradition are the OGRA Royalty, which features a Mr. OGRA, a Ms. OGRA" Brooklyn" and Miss OGRA Anita Ryder.. The new Mr. OGRA is Larry Bourne, who’s made many cowboys happy bartending at the Finishline the past 5 years. Sharing his life and his thoughts with the Metro Star, he gives us his perspective on our community and OGRA. ................ Continued See OGP,A page- 15 ~ae telephone survey questioned 2,000 adults beBveen Nov. 13 and 17 and had a margin of error of plus or minus 2 percentage points. Among the specific findings: * Seventy-five percent of U.S. adults favor either marriage or domestic partnerships/civil unions for gay and lesbian couples. Only 22 percent oppose any legal recognition of gay couples. ........... Continued See POLL Page-8 comes out ....Page-7 �Janua~ 2009 2 �$8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 D~ER E~TREES AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad width you to receive this special often Not valid with any other coupon, discount or offers. COMEORT FOOD & DALLY SPECIALS ALL PREPAI~D IN AN AMBIANCE THAT WILL TEMPT YOUR SENSES. Let us ~ro~ot~ your business in 8TAR A~VERTJSJNG ~.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 3 �World Aids Day December 1, Remembering the Past-Facing FutureThe Crisis is not over. Testing is still available at Red Rock North, 4400 N. Lincoln Botdevard (OKC), telephone (405 424 7711. It’s a free test, and in most cases can be completed in around 20 minutes. This, coupled with educational efforts is also part of the reason for the day, and that is the hope for a better future. By Victor Gorin Angda Monson Runs For O dahoma City School Board Chair By Victor Gorin Photo: Angela Monson, State Representative Anastasia Pittman-District 99 (Center)Jesus Gasper Lovie Being that World AIDS Day is now in it’s 20th year, this reminds us that although advances have been made in the treatment of HIV, there is no reason for complacency. In Oklahoma there are around 4500 known cases of people infected with HIV, including around 1700 in Oklahoma County alone. Currently the fastest growing rate of infection among demographic groups tragically is young people aged 15-24, disproportionately gay and male. Although medical science is far ahead of where it was over 20 years ago when AIDS first became an issue, safe sex is still important. As Chuck Longacre of Red Rock North, an HIV testing/counseling facility pointed out, "R’s still a deadly disease. The disease can still be fatal. However, often one can be helped if the virus is detected early, so we encourage those who are sexually active to be tested every 3 months." 4 Givens e3~ Danielle Gaddis by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Angela Monson, on the last day of filing, got into the race for Oklahoma City School Board chair. She challenges incumbent Kirk Humphreys, and the election will be February 10. As a Democrat, she was elected to the Oklahoma State House of R~epresentatives in 1990-District 99, and was later elected to the Oklahoma State Senate in 1993 -District 48. She Served as a State Senator until forced out by term limits in 2005. She is currently Associate Provost with the Oklahoma University Health Sciences Center, and is a longtime ally of not only the GLBT commtmity but numerous progressive Causes. Kirk Humphreys was appointed as Chair by the OKC School Board when the position was vacated by CliffHudson, and is a former mayor of Oklahoma City, and an ally of many conservative causes. Learn more about this key race with our next issuel Metro Star Classfieds 2" square for as litde as $43 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.~ 918.1 Tulsa CARES Celebrates Life TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Tuesday, three Tulsa CARES employees were recognized by the AIDS Coalition of Tulsa at the 19th annual Evergreen Spirit Awards Luncheon, which recognizes the work of colleagues and volunteers who have gone the extra mile in the fight against AIDS in our community: Jamie Baker, care coordinator; Bruce Lewis, ofrice manager/executive assistant; and Marianne X~etherill, registered dietician were among those recognized with the Evergreen Spirit Award, which symbolizes strength, courage, commitment and resilience. "It is so important to recognize ’the unsung heroes’ in Tulsa’s effort to stop AIDS," said Janice Nicklas, director of Tnlsa Community AIDS Partnership and senior planner for the Community Service Council. ~Our colleagues still work long hours, to the point of exhaustion, and many have vowed to stay at it until we get the epidemic under control. Sadly, the numbers of HIV positive Americans are growing larger each year and many Tulsans are getting infected who are unaware that that they are at risk," Following the Mayflower UCC ~:orld AIDS Day Service, Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards places a card on a o’oss honod~ her siste,; Lavonn Newton who passd ~tv~yfivm AIDS related illness. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 1, the 20th World Aids Day Service was held at Mayflower Congregational Church, along with countless others worldwide. Along with music, preaching and praise was not only remembrance of those xvho have passed on because of HIV, bur also hope for the future. The service concluded with the opportunity to fill out a card of a loved one lost to HIV and attach it to one of a group of crosses in the courtyard. For Rev. Loyce Newton-Edwards the service had special meaning, as she had lost a transgen&red sister, Lavonne Newton to AIDS related illness. As she put it, "The service was deeply moving and a wonderful way to honor the precious lives that have been lost to AIDS, and to offer comfort to their devastated families. My prayers continue for more community compassion, HIV prevention advocacy, as well as more effective HIV/AIDS related medications." ’Unsung Heroes’ Honored for AIDS Awareness Advocacy Other Evergreen Spirit Award winners are: Gary Meadows, Community of HOPE; Terry Klein, St. Joseph~s Residence; Chaz Gaut, Hospice of Green Country; David Odle, Oklahoma Department of Human Services; Barbara Saunders, community volunteer with the HIV Prevention Program for Incarcerated Women’s Program; and Stan Smalts, Oklahoma Department of Human Services. Two top awards were also given at the annual luncheon: the Truman Geren Memorial Award for HIV Prevention was awarded to Heather Nash, American Red Cross, and the Richard Shackelford Award for HIV Care honored Shana Cozad, Oklahoma State Department of Health. "Our award winners are constantly reminding Tulsa area.residents to take the HIV test - it is quick, free and painless," Nicldas said. "Everyone should know their HIV status." Founded in t991, Tulsa CARES, a United Way organization, delivers services to low-income people living with HIV/AIDS in northeastern Oklahoma. Services include: case management by professional social workers, access to physicians and prescription medication, counseling services, housing assistance, access to nutrition information at its on-site food pantry, as well as other forms of support. Tulsa CARES’ mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/AIDS: For more information about Tulsa CARES, visit www. tulsacares.org. 34icah Hartwdl, Nutrition Services Directo~ begins digging~r the Tulsa CARES’ Celebration ofLife tree-planting co’emony. TULSA, OK (PR) __ In observance of World AIDS Day, Tulsa CARES hosted a "Celebration of Life" reception for its clients. On Monday, December 1, Tulsa CARES clients, staffmembers, and friends came together to celebrate the lives 0f those still living xvith HIV/AIDS and to rmnember the lives of those who have died from this disease. The "Celebration of Life" was replete with food, crafts and a tree planting ceremony that symbolizes hope for a cure. Tulsa CARES’ Celebration of Life in-kind sponsors ,sere Starbucks, Q~eenies and QEikTrip. Five Crepe Myrtle trees were donated by Up with Trees. Tulsa CARES’ mission is ddivering social services to people affected by HIWAIDS. Tulsa CARES is a United W’ay Agency. For more information, visit vcww.tulsacares.org. SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY January 2009 �Dear Editor: in the spirit of Christmas, the 18th annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner Show was held at the Copa OKC, raising over $6956. Featuring entertainers (Photo) Ben Williams, Kitty Bob Aimes, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe and Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, the show was held on both December 8 and 9, with proceeds going to help the Winds House, a home & hospice for those living with HIV. My name is Robaire ~atson and I’m a gay military veteran who’s been living in the San Francisco Bay Area for 18 years. I spent 6 years in the military as an openly gay, man. At age 23 I joined the Navy in search of adventure. Being a gay man, I was determined that I wasn’t going to allow the military to change my true identity. My story isn’t about the latest trend or the latest hot actor, or the latest hot "trick~ it’s about the importance of"being who you want to be"! Who needs to serve in silence ? I just want to bring a positive ground breaking story to the fbrefront. I grexv up in a primarily white small Texas town and the middle child of a Southern Baptist family. I was in the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, played high school football for a brief time. I always knew I was gay. After high school, I earned money t’or college by working in the oil fields. I studied design and fashion merchandising in Dallas at ~ades School of Design. I joined the US NaW in 1989 and served six years through two enlistments until 1995. Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth with OGLPC Co-Chair Paul ~nompson at the ,amnual NAACP Banquet in Oklahoma City. Being openly gay in the military and not receiving threats to my life, allowed me to keep my integrity: I never felt the need to tell anyone on my command that I was gay or introduce them to my boyfriend. I always felt that people knew I was different, just by the way I conducted myself. When you sho~v others respect, they show you respect in return. I was a US Navy Ship’s barber who served aboard the USS Kansas City as it traveled the seas promoting freedom during the Gulf’~Y~ar and Operation Southern XWatch offthe coast of Somalia in 1993, traveling to Singapore, Thailand, Hong Kong, Dubai, Jebel All, UAE, British Columbia, Mexico, and the Philippines during my two enlistments. I’m black and openly gay and never encountered the slightest discrimination aboard this xvarship. I have never forced my sexual preference on anyone. I don’t ~vant someone who’s straight doing that to me. gqaen the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" law xvas passed, my shipmates told me, "\X[atso!~, we don’t have to ask and we don’t have to tell." Peggy Johnson and ReVerend Dl: Kathy McCallie at Church of the Open Arms Fundaraiser .... Scotty Mandell, Robin D0rner and Loring Wagner strike a pose at the Diversity Bttsiness Association’s Christmas Party. I had a group of gay friends on the USS Kansas City. We were the gay version of"Sex and the City" onboard the ship. XXre were known as the Fierce-Four. Our personal lives were better than any episode of Q~.eer as Folk. My friends said, because of me, they were able to be themselves without prejudice. I took several of my shipmates to gay bars & dance clubs, not because it was my idea, but because they asked me too! I dated an Ensign and a Lieutenant while in the military. I ,also dated a Major in the United States Army and a Marine. All the following military men who came across my, life had to keep their personal life a secret. It’s not about being an officer in the military or subjecting yourself to starring in a skin flick to get your point across, about "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’: It’s knowing that you have a job to do and a mission to accomplish. ~bu can’t allow your sexual preference to interfere. Ken Sims, Jennifer Lancaster, Rebecca Hurst and Blaze Bush at the Marriage Equality Rally in downtown Oklahoma City December 20. The government needs to worry about the individuals who they allow to enter the military that haven’t been outside the county line, and refuse to accept someone who is different. Sometimes, these type of people want to judge you, based on their religious beliefs. If you can’t accept me for my race or sexual preference, will you be there for me in a time of war ? I’m very fortunate that I was able to be openly gay and live my life accordingly during active duty. I want other men and women who enter the armed forces who are gay to be able to live their lives just as openly as their straight counterparts and when they become veterans to be treated ~vith dignity and respect. I’m very proud to have done my duty serving my country: Thank you, Robaire Watson San Francisco, CA Santa ( Pam Norton) and Mrs. Santa (Victorola) at the Church of the Open Arms Christmas Party wv,~v.metrostamews.com ~ot~oSTAR 5 �A NEW PLACE TO ENDUP By Victor Gorin SUPPORTERS OF IT¥ LIGHT UP DOWNTOWN OKC By Victor Gorin Photo: End ~o owner Blake (Center) wit,§ the End [J)) dancers TULSA, OK__ When the first Endup club on Memorial closed a few years ago, it left a gap that Blake Alterman knew needed to be filled. While not for everybody, there are truly gay men that love to watch the hot boys dance. Not far from some of Tulsgs other gay clubs, it’s located at 5336 E. Admiral Place, a site vacant for over a year last occupied by a straight biker club called The Luclo! Shamrock. Dancers will be featured 7 nights a xveek, taking up where the old Endup left off, but with more than twice the space and ample parking. While it is planned and destined to be a swinging spot for those wanting to watch male dancers, it has more to offer as well. A section of the bat" ,vi!l be like a regular bar, with pool tables, cruising and conversation. Other fun endeavors are planned also with Bathroom Bingo Nights starting in January, hosted by emcee Earnest from the ladle’s bathroom, rewarding winning participants with cash and prizes. Hours are from noon tmtil 2 a.m. 7 days a week, so stop by and check it out, especially during Happy Hour with $1 offall liquor drinks from noon until 8 p.m. 7 days a week. As Blake puts it, "xg&’re just looking to have a good time with a bar that everybody’s gonna love coming to." Sounds like a great beginning. Photo: Organizer Trey Hill with activistJames Nimmo by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Around 30 determined souls braved the icy chill December 20 in OKC’s Bricktown near the entrance of the Southwestern Bell Bricktown Ballpark, holding a candlelight vigil supporting marriage equality for all Americans, including the GLBT community. Surprising, there were no negative epithets, fisticuffs or even threats thereof made by Bricktown partygoers, only some interested glances. The event did get media coverage by KOKH Channel 25, and participants got a free "Oklahoman for Marriage Equality T-Shirt;’ made possible thru the generosity ofJames Nimmo, his partner Don Chabot and Brittany Novotny. The event came together through the organization of Trey Dill & Chuck Longacre, activists also largely responsible for a previous rally at the Oklahoma City Hall November 15 xvhich brought out over 200 people protesting the passage of Proposition 8, Which took away the right of same sex marriage in California. As Ms. Novotny praised the marchers, "As we keep getting people out for events like this, people won’t feel they have to be scared to be who they are, and straight people won’t be as scared to support us. We’ll keep doing this until all of Oklahoma says Yes, You all are part of us and we’re all equal: January 2009 �N Wockner News Service Reports: No quick action against DADT Florida’s ban on gay adoption struck down President-elect Barack Obama rnay not move quickly to repeal the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays, according to published reports. A Florida circuit court in Miami struck down a state law that barred lesbians and gay men from adopting Nov. 25. The court granted adoptions to a gay man, represented by the American Civil Liberties Union, who has been raising two foster children since 2004. "Our family just got a lot more to be thankful for this Naanksgiving;’ said Martin Gill, a North Miami resident who is raising two brothers, ages 4 and 8, with his partner. are extremely relieved that the court has recognized that it is wrong to deny our boys the legal protections and security that only" come with adoption." A Nov. 24 report in The Atlanta Journal-Constitution said: "Very quietly, the Obama team has let it be known that the new administration will not immediately reassess the U.S. military’s policy of’don’t ask, don’t tell: ... Raising the topic of gays in the military was considered by many to be the second of two out-of-the-box decisions that ended badly for a newly elected President Bill Clinton (in 1993)’.’ Nae committee’s Web site lists more than 40 such participating contingents, including several high-school and university bands. Comedian xYC:anda Sykes came out publicly Nov. 15 at a Las Vegas rally against California’s Proposition 8. Meanwhile, Obama came under fire from gay activists on Dec. 17 for selecting influential evangelical preacher Rick xWarren to deliver the invocation at the inauguration. "When California passed Prop 8 ... I felt like I was being attacked, personally attacked, our community was attacked," Sykes said. "I got married Oct. 25. You know, I don’t really talk about nay sexual orientation, I didn’t feel like I had to, I was just living my life and, not necessarily in tile closet, but I was just living my life. Everybody that knows me personally, they know I’m gay. And that’s the way people should be able to live their lives, xgre shouldn’t The Florida law barring gays and lesbians from adopting was the most expansive anti-gay parenting law in the country. It was passed in 1977 in response to an anti-gay crusade led by Miss Oklalloma 1958, and orange-juice spokeswoman Anita Bryant. The poll found that even Republicans (64 percent) and white evangelical Christians (57 percent) supported scrapping the ban. The random survey of 1,119 Aanerican adults had a margin oferror of plus or minus 3 percentage points. www.metrostarnews.corn ~ihe gay contingent will include t77 musicians in the parade down Pennsylvania Avenue a~er Obama is sworn in on the steps of the U.S. Capitol. The court also found that the ban denied children the right to permanency provided by federal and state law under the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997. "An Obama transition team spokesperson, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said the decision on how to approach repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ ... would be ma& after more experts have joined the Obama administration;’ the paper said. A July poll by The \Vashington Post and ABC News found that 75 percent of Americans said "yes" when ~isked, "Do you think that homosexuals who do publicly disclose their sexual orientation should be allowed to serve in the military or not ?" Although LGBA concert bands performed at inaugural celebratious t’or Bill Clinton in 1993 and 1997, this will be the first time a gay band has marched in a presidential inaugural parade. In making their selections, the Presidential Inaugural Committee and military musicians assessed the applications of 1,400 marching bands, drill teams and musical groups. However, the gay newspaper ~Tashington Blade reported Nov. 25 that an unnamed Obama spokesperson said the mainstream-media reports were premature. "Tnese decisions will not be made before the full national security team is in place;’ the Blade quoted the spokesperson as saying. The Lesbian and Gay Band Association, which is composed of 34 marching and concert bands fi’om the U.S., Canada and Australia, will march in President-elect Barack Obama’s inaugural parade Jan. 20. The court ruled that tile ban violated the equalprotection guarantees of the state constitution because it irrationally singled out gay people and their children for different treatment. "Reports and studies find that there are no differences in the parenting of homosexuals or the adjustment of their children;’ the court said. "TheSe conclusions have been accepted, adopted and ratified by the American psychological Association, the American Psychiatry Association, the American PediatriCAssociation, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the Child Welfare League of America and the National Association of Social Workers. Based on the robust nature of the evidence available in the field, this Court is satisfied that the issue is so far beyond dispute that it would be irrational to hold otherwise; the best~interests of children are not preserved by prohibiting homosexual adoption." The National Journal and The Washington Tunes said Obama might wait until 2010 to ’tackle the ban. Wanda Sykes comes out, Gay band, anti-gay preacher to participate in blasts Prop 8 inauguration Admirals, Generals urge DADT repeal A former Army secretary and 103 retired admirals and generals issued a call Nov. 17 for repeal of the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays. Among the document’s signers were a former Naval Academy superintendent, retired four-star Adm. Chades Larson, and former President Jimmy Carter’s Army secretary, Clifford Mexander. It is believed that there are about 65,000 gay people serving in the military, not counting the 627 who were kicked out last year for failing to stay sufficiently closeted. Human Rights Caxnpaign President Joe Solmonese calAed the move ’h genuine bl0w to LGBT Americans." "We feel a deep level of disrespect when one of the architects and promoters of an anti-gay agenda is given the prominence and the pulpit of your historic nomination; Solmonese said. "Vge urge you to reconsider this announcement." The National Gay arid Lesbian Task Force said, "We urge President-elect Obama to withdraw his invitation to Rick Warren and instead select a faith leader who embraces fairness, equality and the ideals the president-elect himself has called the nation to uphold: Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation President Nell Giuliano said, "It is ... deeply troubling that the President-elect has selected have to be standing out here demanding something that we automatically should have as citizens of this country. And I got pissed off. They pissed me off. I said, You know what, now I gotta get in your face. And that’s what we all have to do now." Sykes said, as others have, that the passage of Prop 8 did have an upside. "They pissed offthe ~vrong group of people," she said. "They have galvanized a community: XWe are so together now and we all want the same tiling and we are not going to settle for less." The Las Vegas rally was part of a national day of protest against Prop 8 that saw demonstrations in 300 U.S. cities and towns, including such unlikely places Direct Cremation From $595 as Allentown, Fargo, Fayetteville, La Crosse, Macon, Shreveport and Missoula. ..... Continued See Inauguration Page-11 ’ T ON MORTUARY SERVICE,~e Tradition!! Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 In California, there were protests Nov. 15 in 58 separate towns and cities. Pre-Need Plaa CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED N~÷troSTAR 7 �Same-sex marriage bill to be introduced in New Hampshire * U.S. adults are evenly divided on xvhether gay couples should have access to marriage -- 47 percent say yes and 49 percent say no. New Hampshire State Rep. Jim Splaine plans to introduce a bill next year to legalize same-sex marriage. * Sixty-four percent think gays in the military should not have to stay closeted, as required by the =don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. New Hampshire already has a comprehensive same-sex civil-union law, and nearby Connecticut and Massachusetts allow gay couples to marry~ Splaine told the Concord Monitor newspaper that the civil-union law bestows only about 90 percent of the state-level benefits and obligations of marriage, xvhich leaves same-sex couples without full equality under the law. Some 600 same-sex couples have entered into a civil union in New Hampshire. Elton John does not support same-sex marriage Elton John says gays are wrong to want to get married and should settle for civil unions. "We’re (David Furnish and I) not married. Let’s get that right;’ John told USA Today on Nov. 12. "We have a civil partnership. What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that mey went for marriage. Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the,vord marriage. "I don’t want to be married;’ John said. very happy with a civil partnership. If gay people want to get mar}led, Or get together, they should have a civil partnership .... You ~et the same e~ual rights .... Heterosexual peopm get married: John’s assertion about ~equal rights" is essentially true in the United Kingdom, where John and Furnish entered their civil partnership. ~Ihe UK civil-partnership law is national in scope. In the U.S., on the other hand, civil-union and domestic-parmership laws are state laws that grant equal rights only on the state level, leaving civilly united gay couples without access to-more than 1,000 federal rights, benefits and obligations of marriage. But, at the same time, the U.S. government also does not recognize the same-sex marriages that have taken place in California, Connecticut, Massachusetts or abroad. However, it would require less of an overhaul of federal policy to start recognizing married same-sex couples than it would to create some kind of national recognition of states’ hod gepodge of civilunion and domestic-partnership laws, some of which grant all state-level rights of marriage and others of which do not. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama has said repeatedly that he supports extending federal recognition to same-sex unions, though he does not favor opening marriage itseltto samesex couples, citing religious objections. Obama nonetheless opposed California’s Proposition 8, in which voters amended the state constitution on Nov. 4 to re-ban same-sex marriage. ha a nutshell, Obama does not think gay couples should have access to marriage but also does not think any laws should be passed to prevent gay couples from accessing marriage. 8 ~÷~roSTAR * Sixty-three percent support expanding hate-crime la~vs to cover gay and transgender people. At present, 31 states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 12 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Fifty-one percent favor protecting gay and transgender people under existing laws that ban discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations. Twenty states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 13 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Sixty-nine percent oppose bans on gay adoption. =We observed a positive relationship between knowing a gay or transgender person and one’s attitudes toward them and the policy issues that affect their lives," said Laura Light, Harris Interactive’s vice president of public-relations research. "Based on other surveys we have conducted on attitudes toward LGBT people and issues, the results of this survey suggest that public sentiment in the U.S. is trending toward greater acceptanF~ of gay- and transgender-related policy issues:’ Iowa Supreme Court hears marriage case The Iowa Supreme Court heard oral arguments Dec. 9 in Lan~bda Legal’s case on behalf of same-sex couples who want to marry. "XTge put our best case forward, and hope that the court breathes life into the Iowa Constitution’s promise of equality," said Senior Staff Attorney Camilla Taylor. The couples’ case was argued by former Iowa Solicitor General Dennis Johnson of Dorsey & Whimey. "The government has no business standing in the way of a loving same-sex couple who wants to take responsibility for each other and their fancily," Johnson said. Lambda filed suit in Polk County District Court in 2005 on behalf of six same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses, arguing that the denials violated the liberty and equality guarantees in the Iowa Constitution. In 2007, the court agreed that banning same-sex couples from marrying was unc0nstitutional, and the county recorder and registrar appealed to the state Supreme Court. One gay couple -- Sean and Tim McQ,u)llan of Ames -- got married before Judge Robert Hanson quickly suspended his ruling when it was appealed. The survey found that people under 65, and especially those 18-34, are more gay-friendly than people over 65. Women are generally more supportive than men. Latinos are more supportive than whites and blacks when it comes to gays in the military. Blacks are more supportive than whites and Latinos on hate-crime laws. And Catholics and "mainline" Christians (Protestant, Mormon or %ther Christian") are more supportive than "born-again" Protestants, Mormons or other Christians. Nineteen percent of those questioned said their feelings toward gay people have become more favorable over the past five years. They attributed the change to such things as knmving someone who is gay, seeing gay people on TV and in movies, passage of gay-friendly laws, news coverage of gay issues, and learning of the gay-friendly positions of friends, family members and religious leaders. "Knowing someone who is gay or lesbian" ,vas the most significant factor, cited by 79 percent of those whose feelings had evolved. Seventy-three percent of those qu{stioned know or work with a gay or transgender person and half of that 73 percent know or work with five or more gay or traaasgender people, the survey found. Full poll results: tinyurl.com/6nojlq. January 2009 �DVD" ’re Obituary of Mary Lorene Marlett, mother of Demo Candidate Ron Marlett Angels" Ron Marlett was the Democratic candidate runmng against Mrs. Kern in HD 84. with the release of their album. The following is from Ron: My mother. Mary Lorene Marlett, passed from this world December 17. She has suffered from Alzeheimers Disease the past two years, From my earliest years. I can remember her involvement in the Canadian County Democratic Party. She described herself as a Yellow Dog Democrat, someone who would vote for a yellow dog before voting for a Republican. Jason and &Marco have recently taken a&antage of C~l~ornlas Troy Don Wheat 34ar 19, 1966 - Dec 6, 2008 TULSA, OK (OkEq) __ Troy Wheat, son of Betty and Paul Wheat was born on March 19, 1966 in Alva, Oklahoma. He died on the 6th of December, at his home in Tulsa, at the age of 42 years, 8 months and 18 days. Troy is survived by his parents Paul and Betty; a sister and her husband, Paula and Bill Miller of Woodward; his significant other, Christopher Roberts of Tulsa; two nieces and their spouses, Shannon and Craig Chestnut and thei} children Jace and Jayden of Mustang, Karrie and Kendel Kay and their children Sloan, Reece, Braton and Kinley of Ashland, Kansas; a number of other relatives and many friends. He graduated from Alva High School in 1984. After moving to Tulsa, Troy attended and graduated cosmetology school in Jenks. He became a successful stylist in Tulsa. He was very involved in the Miss Cinderella, Miss Oklahoma and Miss America Pageants. One of the highlights of his life was when his client won Miss America in 2006. A family and friends visitation reception was held Thursday December 1 lth at Ninde Brookside Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Tul’sa, Oklahoma 74105. However. she loved her Republican friends. In a community where racial epithets were socially acceptable, she taught that those words wouldn’t be tolerated in our household. When I hear politicians talk of"family values", I wonder if they were taught that racism wasn’t a family value. I attended precinct meetings with her and accompanied her to a state convention. She raised my brother and me with values of equality, fairness and the value of hard work. When I was younger she saw that I got to Little League baseball games when my dad was tied up responding to an electric outage in the rural electric cooperative, xXihen I left home, she became involved in my brother’s scouting as was extremely proud of his attaining his Eagle Scout Award. When my father became disabled, she ;,cent to work at XXrestern Hectric, later AT&T. She continued there until being offered an early retirement. She continued to live in Union City after my father’s death in 1987. She began having health problems that probably signalled the onset of Alzheirmers, but I was too close to the situation to recognize it. About two years ago a doctor diagnosed it and told me she had two years left. She celebrated her 75th birthday and received letters from Oklahoma politicians praising her for her ~vork for the party. Her long time Democratic friend, Oberta Bergdall attended that party. She was particularly proud of having attended President Carter’s inaugural ball. Toward the end of her life, no one in the Democratic Party could really remember her. When I attended the C:anadian County Democratic Bean Supper, I felt I represented her. She died surrounded by people who loved her and was very peaceful mad free of pain. I am struck by the reliefI feel that she no longer suffers and the realization that I will not see her again. She was a blessing to those she cared for and to the Democratic Party she loved. United Metropolitan Community Church www.metrostarnews.com Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. l~laplewood Tulsa, OK Ron Marlett 918-838-1715 w.mcctuisa.org ~Oet~oSTAR 9 �Close, but no cigar. perform same-gender marriages yet their religious freedom is being abridged by the passage of Prop 8. ByJan~es Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ q-he recent release of the biopic "Milk" about the life and death of San Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk revivified interest in Milk’s most famous phrases such as "Come out, come out, wherever you are;’ and "Don’t blend in:’ Another openly gay activist to have his speeches and writings dusted offis Bayard Rustin, an openly gay African-American who was a colleague of Dr. M.L. King and who was given behind-the-scenes credit for organizing the March on Washington in August, 1963 where Dr... King made his iconic and forward lookAng"I Have a Dream" speech. Mr. Rustin was forced to take a back-seat due to fears that his orientation and arrest record would undoubtedly be used against the civil tights movement. From the book Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin by Bayard Rustin (Cleis Press, Carbado and Weise, editors) we get the succinct gay agenda, if there ever was one, that I think most of us gay/lesbian activists can agree on "the job of the gay comnaunity is not to deal with extremists who would castrate us or put us on an island and drop an Hbomb on us." The fact of the matter is that there is a small percentage of people in America who understand the true nature of the homosexual cornmunity. There is another small percentage who will never understand us. Our job is not to get those people who dislike us to love us. Nor was our aim in the civil rights movement to get prejudiced white people to love us. Our aim was to try to create the Idnd of America, legislatively, morally, and psychologically, such that even though some whites continued to hate us, they could not openly manifest that hate. That’s our job today: to control the extent to which people can publicly manifest anti-gay sentiment." (http://tiwurl.com/5w77yr) What we should continue to be doing is proving our gay/lesbian equality of citizenship to the broad range of the valuable demographic ~mown as the undecided, who politicians always court. For our purposes it’s those people who all have gay and lesbian family members or friends, xvho wouldn’t think of hurting them but somehow aren’t connecting the dots that if some of us gays and lesbians are getting hurt, all of us get hurt. Dr. King said it in a more engraved style: "It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important." Laws don’t prevent crime or change the minds of the incorrigible, but laws do provide a way to legally make it uncomfortable for prejudice and violence to be acted out against minorities. ~is is one reason our enemies are very anxious that hate crimes bills that include language for the protection of sexual orientation and gender presentation are not passed either at the Federal or state level. Our opponents claim such laws would limit speech and hamper the free exercise of religion. But as Rep Barhey Dank (Mass.) said earlier in December, 2008 at a Victory Fund luncheon, these laws are directed at actions of violence not at xvords; expression is not the target of hate crimes laws, but physica! behavior is. (http://tinyurl.com/5963au) Yes, we truly live in the age ofOrwell xvhere words can be wolves in sheep’s clothing. We read of Mormon and Catholic spokespeople offended by the peaceful protests ofgay/lesbian supporters in reaction to losing the November Prop. 8 vote in California. And just why does prejudice and discrimination seem to originate with bible-trumpeting homo-haters ? Could it be because they already live in a ddusional world of superstition and make-believe, of fairy stories about sky-based good things, and dark-and-dirty ground-based bad things ? Could it be because they still live in the world of Bronze Age nomads ~vho had no science and no concept of a world beyond the horizon they could walk toward in a day? The current (I hesitate to call them "modern day") generation of ftmdies lives in a world of technology and communication that would seem like godly magic to their Abrahamic ancestors. They use this science to disperse their simplistic balderdash that’s rooted in desert-wandering myths and witch-doctoring and think nothing of the plain evidence and contradictions that shows them to be deeply deluded and ignorant. "Ihe last hundred years have passed them by and disproved the ancient runes and cabals they so desperately need to explain their conflicting childhood dreams of omnipotent, omniscient super heroes rescuing them from death and oblivion. Personally I don’t care what they do as consenting adults in the privacy of their religious establishments or even on the public street corner. However, no group has the legal prover to impose religious dogma in the law books of any state or Federa! code. There continues to be a principle of separation of church and state, equality and liberty for all, that is paramount to the continuation of this country as it was founded. African-Americans, Native Americans, and women have gained their civil equality in spite of the restrictions originally written in the Constitution and later remedied by Amendments. So far, 30 states have amendments or laws forbidding same-gender marriage in addition to the alleged "Defense of Marriage Act" (DOMA). Two states have understood the rights of gays and lesbians to have civil marriage, Massachusetts and Connecticut, with a handful of states having various marriage-like rights available but not the real thing. Close, but no cigar! We need to think of ourselves in a way that reflects the goodness and quality that exists within our ranks, g[e are terrific people and we may as well acknowledge that in our language. Another word that completely escaped our gaydar is the term homophobia. We use it to define prejudice against gay and lesbian people. But it just doesn’t seem to be up to the job. It’s weak and ambiguous. When we talk about someone who dislikes others based on their skin color we call them racist. Much stronger word. Phobic people, in general, tend to be fearful but polite. People who openly disapprove of gay/lesbian folks are neither. Are we too nice when ~ve describe our critics in such an affable way? Homophobic! Doesn’t sound so bad. Surely, the terms they have for us are more forthright. Who thought of calling hatred a phobia, anyway? Ac,t,t}ally, it was psychologist George Weinberg in his 1972book Society and the Healthy Honaosexual:’ He was tapping into the theory that violence toward gay people came about because of a fear of homosexuality, especially by those repressing their own same-sex urges. But what about all the other gay bashers who aren’t reacting to their inner homo ? The rest of the world has already learned that words define us to others and molds our selfqmage. That’swhy secretaries are executive assistants and garbage men are sanitation engineers. GeraM Libonati is the author afthe neu, novel Pete*" [’Vo~7 the storr af:a fiam°uv. ~Ta ro& star who ~oes incognito mfind love. He ~s an award-winningjournalist in &uth £1orig, workingfir the Sun-SentineL He has also wri~enJbr ~e .~iiami He,ald, ~e dd~ocam andfi’egznce~jbr gaT/tesbian newspapers around t,~e munW. Although Frederick Douglass was disappointed by the 1857 Dredd Scott decision that refused full citizenship to free blacks as well as slaves, he found a reason to look forward, saying, "My hopes were never brighter than now." Slavery was brought to forefront of the country and the unsavory ownership of people could no longer be ignored. Though we gay citizens are not owued physically, our social and economic prospects are curtailed. Thanks to our enemies, our own equality prospects been brought to the forefront and our equality will be won. Straights and Homophobes: lae Words hat Bind Us. By Gerald Libonati Language shapes our self-image and some of the words we use are misleading, inadequate or just plain wrong. Take the word straig!at, for instance. "We use it to describe heteros; men and women who are not gay or lesbian. And every time we use the term we indirectly insult ourselves. What does the word mean in our society? To me, it looks as if the First Amendment establishment clause is being ignored because there are some denominations that ~vill Straight means proper, upstanding, law-abiding and decent. Are ~,~÷t~oSTAR So ifheteros are straight what does that make us - crooked, dishonest, drugged and apparently indecent ? Just as Plessy ~: Ferguson was overturned by Brown v. Board of Education ending educational segregation; just as Bowers v. Hardwick was overturned by Lawrence and Garner v. Texas removing sodomy laws from enforcement, just as Colorado’s Amendment 2 was overturned with Romer v. Evans, we can look forward to our day in a courtroom as well as the court of public opinion. It seems these t~vo denominations that gave much of the money fueling the thei~ of a civil right in California were surprised by the bacHash to the imposition of their religious dogma on the non-member citizens of California ( http:/itinyurl.com/6qp2xz ), (http://tinyurl.com/6215gd). 10 ~ou being straight with me, refers to honest): When you’re off rugs, you’re straight. If you’re good, you travel the straight-andnarrow. ’Damn straight’ means emphatically right, unequiv0cally correct. January 2009 �nationa ROBERT MATSON’S LATEST EPIC "A GATHERING" AND HIS NEW NTURES UPCOMING anti-gay and anti-Latino slurs jumped from an SUV and broke a beer bottle over Sucuzhafiay’s head, beat him with a bat and kicked him. someone whose defamatory and damaging anti-gay statements and vie~vs ... clearly divide rather than unite Americans." Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., called Obama’s move very disappointing. The brother, Romel, escaped down the street, then returned to the scene and scared offthe attackers by telling them he’d phoned police on his cell phone. By Victor Gorin ~Religious leaders obviously have every right to speak out in opposition to anti-discrimination measures, even in the degrading terms that Rev. Warren has used with regard to same-sex marriage;’ Frank said. "But that does not confer upon them the right to a place of honor in the inauguration ceremony of a president whose stated commitment to LGBT rights won him the strong support of the great majority of those who support that cause:’ Police are investigating the killing as a hate crime and are offering a $27,000 award for information leading to apprehension of the assailants. On Dec. 13, hundreds of protesters marched from a Bushwick park to the site of the attack. GeoffKors, executive director of Equality California, said he is so annoyed by Warren’s participation that he will boycott the inauguration. "I have decided to decline the invitation to attend the inauguration as I cannot be part of a celebration that highlights and gives voice to someone who advocated repealing rights from me and millions of other Californians;’ Kors said. "Rick Warren ... actively works to dMde Americans based on who we are and has been an ardent supporter of efforts to ostracize LGBT Americans:’ Photo: Robert Matson by Victor Go,qn OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Lyric’s Plaza Theater hosted a unique play with A Gathering, but Robert is a playwright where one can count on non-convention. After all he brought us Tails of the Closet and Drama Q~eens, and even a masculine answer to the Vagina Monologues entitled Beneath the Zipper, which celebrated the penis. But who ~v0~ld have expdcted agay thriller on stage, with seat edging suspense that would have awed Agatha Christie herself? But there it was, entitled A Gathering, where 9 gay men are trapped on an isolated island, cut offffom the outside world, and there is a killer or killers among them. With a scenario almost identical to Agatha Christie’s novel, "And then there were None," it starts offfun and campy with the wisecracking antics of ToW "Toneisha" Hayes ( portrayed by Chris Castleberry) who was supposed to be drag entertainment but instead was the first to go. Then there was the hard drinking Dr. James Armstrong ( portrayed by Timothy Stewart), a self proclaimed bisexual who was enamored with Toneisha ~vhile she lasted. The play ends in surprise as character Neil Lawrence ( portrayed by Jerome Stevenson) turns out to be the killer, and concludes with his suicide and that of the last left one left alive, the handsome resort employee Courmey Claythorne( portrayed by Scott Hynes), who xvas left xvith the bitter choice of self destruction or being accused of murdering all the others when the authorities eventually arrived. What inspired this wild tale ? W’ell, besides Agatha Christie, Mr. Matson added that "I love murder mysteries. I wanted to give Agatha’s story a different twist. This xvould be a great piece to work with, and how to make it xvork with 9 gay men. I worked on it for about 2 years." Although he has done past work with maW theater companies including Jewel Box, CityRep, Guthrie’s Pollard Theater & Carpenter Square, he is currently the Academy Administrator for Lyric Academy, which involves registration for acting classes taught there and he teaches adult acting classes as well. As for the fnture, he is working on" a couple things, including a loud gay comedy with Oklahoma ties to it." But that’s all he’ll say right now, so we can all be breathless with anticipation. www.metrostarnews.com Speaking in support of California’s Proposition 8 before the November election, Warren said, "We should not let 2 percent of the population change a definition of marriage that has been supported by every single culture and every single religion for 5,000 years. In reality, many cultures over the past 5,000 years have embraced polygamy. Hundreds ofprotesters marched in Brooklyn Dec. 13 after an Ecuadorean man who was walking a~n in arm with h# brother was attacked with a baseball bat and later died. 2he assailants shouted ann’-gay slurs. Photo byJoeJervis. More recently, Warren told Beliefnet.com that same-sex marriage is equivalent to "having a broth& anff Sist& b~ together ... an 01der ~ " and calling that a marriage... one gw having multiple wives and calling that marriage." (Warren: ’Tin opposed to the redefinition of a 5,000-year definition of marriage. I’m opposed to having a brother and sister be together and call that marriage. I’m opposed to an older gny marrying a child and calling that a marriage. I’m opposed to one guy having multiple wives and calling that marriage:’ Interviewer: "You think those are equivalent to gays getting married?" Warren: "Oh, I do:’) Brooklyn man dies after probable ha e attack A Brooklyn man who was attacked with a baseball bat Dec. 7 as he walked arm in arm with his brother died on Dec. 12. Josd Sucuzhafia); a 31-year-old Ecuadorean immigrant, and his brother were walking together in Brooklyn’s Bushwick neighborhood after a night out when three black men shouting [~Ie~°oSTAR 11 �@ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ ~e Second Chance Animal Sanctuary @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City �CLUB 209 HOSTS PHOTOGPHER VINCENT SCOTT Ok ahomans for Equality art gallery opens Josh New photo e libit California Constitution. Ordinarily, it is the attorney geqeral’s job to defend the state’s laws, not attack them. By Judy Gabbard "Proposition 8 must be invalidated because the amendment process cannot be used to extinguish fundamental constitutional rights without compelling justification;’ Brown said in a statement. "There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundaanental rights;’ he added in an interview xvith the San Jose Mercury News. "If every fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty:’ Rejecting recent arguments submitted to the state Supreme Court by gay-rights lawyers, Brown concluded that existing case-law precedents of the court do not invalidate Proposition 8 either as an improper revision of the state constitution or as a violation of the separation-of-provers doctrine. But that does not resolve the matter; he said. Photography Art by Josh New TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery starts a new year of it’s monthly First Thursday meetthe-artist receptions featuring photographs from native Tulsa resident Josh New. The reception will be held Thursday, January 1st, 2009, from 6-9pm. Josh New, a teacher ofJapanese at Booker T Washington High School, is currently a graduate student at the University of Tulsa in photography. Arches by Photographer Hncent Scott TULSA, OK__ Dennis Olson, owner of DoArt Worlds, sponsored the opening of "Pioneering Seas6n" featuring the photography of Vincent Scott at Club 209, Tulsds Arts Bar in the historical Brady District. Club 209 features various artists throughout the year. The Club is also a great place to enjoy local entertainment on weekends, such as Vallerie Star Light Rock + Acoustic, Rebecca Ungerma~i with the Frank Brown Trio and the Three Penny Upright, A Little Bluegrass. Visit Club 209 on the web at www.club209tulsa.com for monthly updates on art exhibits and entdrtainment. Vincent Scott is a world traveled photographer whose eye for the beauty in our world, has thrilled many onlookers coast to coast. Dennis Olson, an artist in his own right, chose to sponsor these photographs because of Mr. Scott’s photographic eye and production techniques. To contact Dennis Olson emaih do@ doart~vorld.org. The opening night was an exciting experience of fine art, flowing wine and the admiration’ of hundreds of guest. After graduating from Oklahoma State, Mr. New worked in Japan for three years, where he developed a love of travel and the exotic. Since then he has traveled to many countries and discovered a talent in photography. That love and talent has brought Inm to TU to ~rther hone his s-kill aa~d allow hu~ the freedom to experiment aa~d take his photographs further than just glorified vacation photos. "My photographs have been, more than anything, my attempt to control and catalog the world around me’; states New. "I’m moving in a direction where I am starting to manipulate my images to illuminate my thoughts and ideas, but they primarily remain shots of the patterns and vibrant colors I see around me. This exhibit is a sampling of both photos I have taken on my journeys and the first steps in my attempt to, essentially, photograph my thoughts, which also seem to be constructed in colors and patterns" The exhibit will remain up through the month ofJanuary, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. Calif. Attorney General Brown: Prop 8 is invalid Community Fellowship by Rex g¢ockne~ "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfriendghips become family" ors ip Experience Sund s 5:30 p.m. Pastor Neill @urgin Pasto ressionsOKC, corn (~05) 761-1878 "~w.ExpressionsOKC.com Meeting at Lansbrook ~¢ent Center 6009 NW E~pressway Oklahoma Cio~, OK In a stunninglegal move, California Attorney General Jerry Brown formally urged the California Supreme Court to invalidate Proposition 8 on Dec. 19 because, in re-banning sanaesex couples from marrying, the voter-approved constitutional amendment deprived people of an aspect of liberty that the Supreme Court previously had concluded is guaranteed by the In its May 15 decision legalizing same-sex marriage, the state Supreme Court "held that article I, section 1 of the California Constitution provides a right to marry that cannot be denied to same-sex couples;’ Brown’s office said. "In order to invalidate such a fundamental right, the court must determine that there is a compelling justification to do so. But in (its decision), the court found that no such compelling justification exists. Accordingly, Proposition 8 must be stricken." "~ae use of the (ballot) initiative power to take avcay a legal right deemed by this Court to be fundamental and from a group defined by a suspect classification is a matter of grave concern;’ Brown said in his brief to the court. "Proposition 8 should be invalidated as violating the inalienable right of liberty found in article I, section 1 of our Constitution." In its May decision, the state Supreme Court struck dmwa the state’s opposite-sex definition of marriage as unconstitutional, citing a fundamental right to marry under the state constitution and the constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the lav,r, The court further determined -- in a move that legal analysts said was unprecedented for a supreme court -- that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level of scrutiny by courts, which made it dramatically harder for any level of government in California to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. This was accomplished by the court’s declaring sexual orientation to be, like race and religion, a so-called "suspect classification" -- a categorization that forces any government in California that treats GLB people differently in any way to prove it has a specific compelling interest, rather than a mere rational basis, for doing so. While Prop 8 wiped out the part of the court’s decision that legalized same-sex marriage, it did not alter the more ground,b, reaking part of the ruling that found sexual orientatiT~n to be a suspect classification. Gay rights lawyers said back in May that the suspect-classification determination would prove to be even more of a game-changer for California gays in the long run than xvas the decision to legalize same-sex marriage. If Brown’s argument passes muster with the state Supreme Court, that prediction will have been borne out. Equality California Executive Director GeoffKors praised Brown’s court brief and its novel argument. "He just demonstrated the ldnd of leadership that isn’t motivated byp olitical exp edienc y but by what is right," said the head of the state’s leading gay lobby group. �Wockner News Service Sweden to strike six sexu- Burundi’s parliament HIV diagnoses among votes to ban gay sex European gay men nearly al diagnoses from list double since 2000 The parliament of the Central African nation Sweden’s National Board of Health and WelHIV diagnoses among men who have sex with men (MSM) increased 86 percent in 23 European countries between 2000 and 2006 -- from 3,003 cases to 5,571 cases -- according tO a report in the journal Sexually Transmitted Infections. Researchers from the EuroHIV program analyzed data from 24 of the 27 member nations of the European Union along with data from Iceland, Norway and Switzerland, and compared those figures with similar year-2000 data gathered from 23 nations. There were 7,693 ne,v HIV cases reported overall among MSM in 2006, of which 2,597 occurred in the United Kingdom. Other nations with high diagnosis rates included the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Portugal and Switzerland. Much lower rates of MSM diagnoses were found in Hungary, Lithuania and Slovenia, even though Hungary saw a 118 percent increase over 2000 and Slovenia saw a 257 percent increase. Four nations saw a decline in new HIV diagnoses among MSM over the six-year period: Cyprus, Iceland, Lithuania and Luxembourg (though Luxembourg’s rate is still high). The researchers said stepped-up HIV testing may have affected the statistics to some degree, meaning an increase in diagnoses may not correlate precisely ~vith an increase in actual infections. They also suggested that infections may be increasing as HIV-positive men who have sex with men live longer and remain sexually active and presumably able to pass on the virus. Other findings included: * In 20 countries, the percentage of MSM who had full-blown AIDS at the time of their HIV diagnosis decreased from 25 percent in 2000 to t0 percent in 2006. * In 30 countries, full-blown AIDS diagnoses decreased from 2,422 in 2000 to 1,445 in 2006. * In those same countries, HIV-related deaths decreased 57 percent over the period, from 876 in 2000 to 373 in 2006. "’qge have reported a recent increase in the number of HIV diagnoses among MSM in nearly all (European) countries, and in some countries this probably" represents a true increase in incidence;’ the researchers said. "This, combined with the high prevalence of HIV reported in many gay community settings, the high prevalence of HIV among MSM diagnosed with STI (sexually transmitted infection) and the high sexual mobility of this population, highlight the need for a Europewide HIV prevention strategy:’ 14 fare will strike six sexual diagnoses from the nation’s official list of medical diagnoses on Jan. 1, Stocldaolm’s ~ae Local newspaper reported. The agency will remove transvestism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sadomasochism, gender-identity disorder in youth and multiple disorders of sexual preferences from the list. "W’e don’t want to contribute to certain sexual behaviors being thought of as diseases," said board director Lars-Erik Holm. "These diagnoses are rooted in a time when everything other th~ the heterosexual missionary position was seen as sexual perversions." Homosexuality was removed from the list 30 years ago. Australian Parliament gives gay couples equal rights Australia’s Senate and House of Representatives passed legislation in late November that changes some 100 laws to give gay couples equal rights. The measure now goes to the Governor-General for formal approval. The changes, introduced by the federal government, extend spousal rights to same-sex de facto couples in areas such as health care, ’ taxation, pensions, parenting, public benefits, workplace benefits, workers’ compensation, veterans’ affairs, elder care and educational assistance. "At long last we have removed discrimination against same-sex couples from commonwealth law;’ said Attorney-General Robert McClelland. Gay campaigners cheered the.move but said gay couples will not have complete equality until they can get married. Chinese gay HIV cases increase The percentage of gay men in China ~vho are HIV-positive increased from 0.4 percent in 2005 to 4.9 percent this year, the Ministry of Health said Nov. 28. But straight sex remains the predominant way HIV is transmitted in China, accounting for 40 percent of new infections, compared with 28 percent from IV drug use and 5 percent from gay sex. The gay statistics were based on data collected from 18,000 gay men in more than 60 cities. of Burundi voted to specifically criminalize gay sex Nov. 22 as part of a package of more than 600 legal changes that included abolition of the death penalty, news reports said. According to Amnesty International, male, male sex previously was banned and,ptmished under laxvs governing "immoral acts. The vote on the changes was 90 to 0 with 10 abstentions. The measure now moves to the Senate, then to President Pierre Nkurunziza. Neither is expected to oppose it. The small, landlocked nation has a population of 8.7 million, a life expectancy of less than 52 years, and a per capita gross domestic product at purchasing-power parity of $300. ~l-he comparable figure for the U.S. is $45,800. Norway’s is $ 53,300, Mexico’s is $12,400 and Vietnam’s is $2,600. 80% of South A ricans thimk gay sex is wrong Despite a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation and its being one of only six nations where same-sex couples can marry, South Africa remains deeply homophobic, a new survey has found. The Human Sciences Research Council’s annual South African Social Attitudes Survey, released Nov. 24, found that 80 percent of respondents think gay sex is wrong. Whites, city dwellers and highly educated people polled less anti-gay than blacks, "coloureds" (mixed-race people), people with less education and those living in rural areas, the Sunday Times reported. Britain to count gay populafion Britain’s Office for National Statistics is going to count the gay population. Starting in January, a sexual-orientation question will be included in several of the office’s routine surveys, leading to an eventual estimate of the size of the nation’s gay community. Respondents will choose from heterosexual/ straight, gay/lesbian, bisexual or "other" -- or can opt not to answer. Officials say the results will be useful for gauging levels of discrimination and unequal treatment and addressing those problems. The signatories overcame strong opposition from a group of governments that routinely try to block UN attention to issues of sexual orientation and gender identity. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, that affirmed the "principles of non-discrimination and equality," but said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights of certain persons" because "the notion of orientation spans a wide range of persona] choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization of many deplorable acts: ~ae countries that signed the pro-gay statement are Mbania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finland, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Italy, Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tomd and Prlncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia, Timor-Leste, unite~Kingd0m, Uruguay ~Venezueta~ ..... The United States refused to sign the statement, saying its broad language could reach into areas that fall outside of federal jurisdiction, such as the right of each U.S. state to define marriage. qt is altogether shameful that on this 60th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Bush administration should take one final swipe at the universal application of human rights for all;’ said Julie Dorf of the Council for Global Equality. "The shoe incident in Iraq last week painfully shows us how low this country has sunk in the world’s view." Gays march in Hong Kong £or first time Hong Kong saw its first gay pride parade Dec. 13. About 1,000 people marched, including many who came from Taiwan and mainland China. ~he two-mile procession traversed Hennessy Road in the city center. Attendance may have been positively, influenced by news reports before the parade, when Hong Kong’s biggest bus company refused to rent a double-decker bus to pride organizers. China has recorded a total of 260,000 HIV cases, 77,000 AIDS cases and 34,000 AIDSrelated deaths. Janua~ 2009 �Larry: I see it as being a representative, not just for OGRA or the gay community but also the State of Oklahoma. We go to other states and other rodeos and meet a lot of people. Also important is our fund-raising, which is one of the reasons I went for this title. Victor: This fund-raising not only helps the charities themselves, but I’m sure you also see it as promoting the positive image of the GLBT people in the cowboy lifestyle. Larry: It think it has, and I think a lot of young people have gotten interested in it because of the fund-raising, shows and related activity. Also people see you don’t have to be a full fledged cmvboy, just interested in die country lifestyle and having fun. Victor: Although the world is changing, OGRA still defies sonle stereotypica! beliefs.. Victor: But the shining star of OGRA is the Great Plains Rodeo, which has been held at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds for many years as a Memorial Day weekend celebration. Larry: More and more people are coming to that and really having fun. Some people are surprised that our rodeos are truly the same "kind of rodeos, although we do feature goat dressing and sometimes other campy events thrown in. Victor: What impact do you think t~he movie Brokeback Mountain had on the gay community, society in general, and in particular gay cowboys ? Larry: Really it brought the gay community into the mainstream, that there was more to the gay community than an urbaaa community of drag queens & flamboyant individuals, to see them as regular people with difficulties we all face in real life. It made the gay cowboys feel more accepted, to let them kalow they can be themselves. It also educated the urban gay community of the problems rural gays face. Victor: ~¢¢’here do you see die future of OGRA? Larry: When OGRA began we were teaming up witl~ other states, and now we’re doing one the largest rodeos on our own. Of course we’d like to see more people volunteer, but to put tllis on with the resources we have shows a true hardworking spirit of Oklahomans. Victor: How long have you been in Oklahoma City ? Larry: Seven years, and I have felt good seeing the increased interest in OGRA and the friends I have made there. I have been glad to hear from out oftowners how impressed they are that the various parts of the gay communit); the disco crowd, drag queens, the cowboys, the lesbians, get along so well together compared to other places. Victor: So how do people learu more about OGRA? Larry: ~lere~ our website ~a-,wv.ogra.net, to learn what we’re doing, about our events, and other related organizations & chatrooms where one can talk with other cowboys and learn even more. There’s room for all types of people and talent, lesbians, gay" men and we also have some straight members. Photo by Chaz competition is as greatfor the Cowgirls and Cowboys at OGR~4’~; Great PLains Rodeo as an), other rodeo. Larry: Strangely enough, there are still people we encounter who are shod~ed that there are gay cowboys, that they even exist. They have interesting questions, such as "Are the rodeos really rodeos ? .... Do you really ride horses ?" Victor: Have you ever really roped a cow ? Larry: Yes I have, nay parents have owned ranches and I have roped cows, branded cattle, pulled calves, done all diat. Victor: You grew up in a small town? Larry: Ha}wcorth, a small town not far from Idabel. g[e lived on a f~trm there, went to school, did our chores, slopped the hogs, fed the chickens, took care of the horses. We even rode our horses to school when the buses couldn’t get through. Victor: So you had a typical growing up there ? Larry: Yes, but my family moved around a lot, and I experienced city life as well. I got involved ~vitll the gay community after I graduated from O!dahonia Christian University of Edmond witli a degree of Marketing & Business. After moving back to IdabeI, my first gay bar experience was the Roundup in Dallas. I soon began working with HIV organizations including the Mariah Foundation, Carepoint, and with the OHahoma State Health Department. www.metrostarnews.com There you have it, a proud tradition now 23 years young derived from the frontier spirit of Oklahoma. The GLBT community of Oklahoma can look forward to ~vhat OGRA can do for our future. Connecticut unlikely to amend constitution on marriage Connecticut voters strong!y oppose anaending the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage, according to a QEinnipiac University poll released Dec. 17. The poll of 1,445 registered voters found that 61 percent oppose an anlendment and only 33 percent support it. Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after the state Supreme Court ruled that offering gay couples onbi civil unions violated the state constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. The poll found dlat 52 percent of voters agreed with the Supreme Court’s decision, 39 percent did not and 9 percent had no opinion. MERI Day of Service to Provide for Foster Children in Rhode Island & Arkansas RHODE ISLAND (PR) Dec 8 __ As Marriage Equality Rh6de Island (MERI) made a commitment to community service this holiday season it couldn’t help but acknovdedge sorrow at the passage of Act 1 in Arkansas, a thinly veiled attack on the gay community that bans unmarried couples from adopting children or serving as foster parents. Although the Arkansas state motto calls for both "Mercy and Justice; neither was demonstrated by proponents of this legislation which harms families and children. MERI fights for the rights and protection of all families in seeking marriage equality for Rhode Island’s GLBT residents. On \Vednesday, December 10 MERI xvas at the State House to collect items for not only" the RI Food Bank, Crossroads, Amos House mid the IRIE Transitional Home for women and children, but also the foster children of Arkansas xvhose wishes for new families have been curtailed. Mayor Dani Joy of Eureka Springs, Arkansas accepted and distributed RI donations. File Photo Eureka Springs Birayor DaniJoy In her letter to MERI, Joy stated, "I am greatly honored that your organization would focus your energy and compassion on our many children that receive foster care throughout our state. With the passage of Act I our state is left with a large number of children that are either in need of foster care, or currently in foster care... Again, let me say that I am in axve of your compassion during this holiday, season. We are truly grateful," Food bank requests included boxed and canned goods, pmvered and evaporated milk, potato flakes, cereal, oatmeal, pasta, rice, soup, condiments, crackers, tuna, peanut butter, jelly/jam and juice. Amos House needs coffee and personal hygiene items. Crossroads could use slippers, hats, mittens, gloves and scarves for men, women and children (4 mos - 18). The young women and their children living at the IRIE Transitional Program, under the auspices of the RI Foster Parent Association (RIFPA) learn skills to improve their lives mid break the cycle of poverty. Ten teens ages 16-20 and their 7 children, ages 4 months - 6 years, live in the facility. Contact MERI for items noted on the IRIE wish list. MERI Day of Service partners include RI Pride, inFOCUS and the Gay Straight Alliance of Warwick Veteran’s Memorial High School. For raore information, contact Susan MacNeil at smacneil@marriageequalityri.org or by calling 401-463-5368 The poll’s margin of error was plus or minus 2.6 percentage points. ~÷t~oSTAR 15 .... �~.. Happy New The method of making "mousse" (another name fbr bubbles) in a bottle was invented by the efforts ofD~reJean Oudart (1654 - 1742) and Dora Pierre Pdrignon (1639 - 1715), Benedictine monks and cellarmasters at the respective abbeys of Saint-Pierre aux Monts de Chalons and Saint-Pierre d’Hautvillers, We have a lot to celebrate including the January 20th date for President elect Obama. This year may be the start of something big for each of us and our personal endeavors. This is truly a time to click our glasses together. Here is a litde about sparkling wines from France and Spain Champagne French monks were the first to bottle a sparkling forra of wine called Champagne, named after the Champagne region of France. The region of Champagne has a colder and shorter growing season. Champagne grapes had to be picked late in the year, with less time available for fermentation. During fermentation yeasts are used to convert the sugars of the grape juice into alcohol and cold winter temperatures stopped the process. The monks developed a method of making Champagne wine by using a second fermentation process that took place in the bottle during the following spring. The second fermentation created carbon-dioxide bubbles that are the sparkle of Champagne. Cava A Spanish sparkling wine is called Cava and was first made as early as 1851, although the true roots of the Cava wine industry can be traced back to Josd Raventos’ travels through Europe in the 1860s, where he was promoting the still wines of his Codorniu winery. His visits to the Champagne region sparked an interest in the potential of a Spanish version " Don~ Perlgnon. Rose 96/Sn-nply_ _put;although. fmay noF fi~ ~yeryqne s budget, and its super h~rd to fifid~ thi~ wifie is ~ller~ of the sparHing wine, usifig th~ same~ , p.roduction methods. ~e local Maekbeo, P~retlada and Xareldo grapes were well smtqd t~h~s wine st de and whereas earl Y versions W~e called champ~n or xampany after Champa~~ Catalan winemakers wadted ~o dis{ingui-sh 5~< [: Inmerial Nectar/This one is more in~er~sting than {he Wliite Star. It~ fruit ...... - ¯ forward & 9ffdry- dehclous. . Piper,Hela ieck B~Ut from the Vr nc 0un par , adopted the name Cava aAer the Cat’an qV6?a ~r cave, where ~e wines were tradi{~on~lly stored. ...... Toad H611ow Amplexus Brnt/~is one is ported to Califbrnia from the Cremant region ~:: of F{auce. Accordin ~ to Spanish wine laws, Cava cache .... C0dorniu Cava Brut / Sp arHin g wine s from " ~pain can be among the most interesting in taste. ~ey’re usually fi-uit forward & quite affbrdable; produced m s:x wine [eg~ous ~such as A~:md} de Duero, Navarra and ~oja)but 95% ~f Spanish Cava production takes Pene&s region. In order for the wines called "Card’ they must be made in tional m&hode champenoise. Wines the lmv-cost "Charmat process" may called "Spanish sparkling wine". Food Champagne tends to ers or opening courses in a well with gegura Viudas Cava Brut Reserva This writer is one of the manager~ at the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as dae Enthusiasts of Tulsa. 9fwine by James Laube/ shellfish like of course This months recipe courtesy of: To prepare: Boil water in large pot with splash of salt and drop of oil to keep pasta from.sticking -pasta as directed on package making sure not to overcook, drain, set aside like s Sautd olive oil, gatlic and spinach about 5-10 minutes, add fresh or defrosted shrimp and sautd in mixture until pink!orange in color. Add thatsanice! "VERDE" and mix together, pour entire mLxture over pasta and toss making sure pasta is evenly coated. Shrimp Verde Ingredients: If desired, top with some grated Parmesan cheese (although strict old school Italians frmvn on putting cheese over seafood but it tastes good !) ] pound thin linguine, cappelini or PRIMI Serving ideas: PI?~TTI Serve as a first course with a fish entrde like 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil halibut or swordfish I Bag Spinach 1 Pound Shrimp-fresh ot fi’ozen- shelled and &veined 2 Cloves Garlic 8 tablespoons thatsanice "VERDE" basil pesto crema sauce )ver [en& modern traditional flavors. If you y from them and they offer f~atured on many television shows including the Food Network and have been featured in �nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa INSIDE HOLLYWOOD Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on a new project for Margaret Cho and Kal Penn By Romeo San Vicente Brad Paisley Jan 24, 2009 at BOK Center With special guests! Dierks Bentley Darius Rucker Ticket Prices: $39.75 & $46.75 Tickets On Sale Now No, Really: Lesbian Vaanpire Killers Cho and Penn Unite for Sisters Cdine Dion Feb 2, 2009 at BOK Center RESCHEDULED DATE! MONDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2009 All tickets previously purchased for the original date will be honored. Refunds xvill be available at point of purchase. Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00, $49.50 ~hlsa is one of 45 cites and the only city in Oklahoma on this tour. 2q~roughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest-selling female artist of all time. Billy Joel & Elton John Q~eer-identified entertainer Margaret Cho is quite the Renaissance svoman- she’s a stand-up comic, author, actress, blogger, and activist. And now she can add "director" to her resume with Two Sisters, her feature debut. If you were expecting something racy from the potty-mouthed comedian, forget it; the movie is slated to premiere on ABC Family. Plot details are being kept under wraps, but Cho has assembled an impressive cast, including Kal Penn (from the Harold and Kumar movies, as xvell as The Namesake) and the gorgeous Tamlyn Tomita (who recently popped up on Heroes), plus Kathy Najimy (King of the Hill) and Elaine Hendrix (Tru Loved, The Parent Trap). As for the lady herself, Cho will also appear in a small role. Look for Two Sisters to make its premiere on ABC Family in 2009. Pee-wee Comes Back to the Playhouse Mar 17, 2009 at BOK Center Billy Joel & Elton John Face 2 Face Tour March 17, 2009 7:30pro Tickets On Sale Now There is no presale for this concert Ticket Prices: $179, $99, $53.50 Billy Joel and Elton John, the most successful and longest-running concert pairing in pop history! Billy and Elton open the concert with a series of duets, playing tvcin pianos and trading vocals. Each artist then performs a set with his own band. A grand finale brings the two superstars and their supporting musicians ba& together for a dosing encore. This includes some of both Billy and Elton’s greatest hits along with an unpredictable selection of rock and roll classics. w,~w.metrostarnews.com ~Pnere are a lot of unanswered questions floating around about Pee-wee’s Playhouse: Ti~e Movie, like "Is it really happening?" and "Is Johnny Depp playing Pee-wee ?" So far the only certainty is that Paul Reubens, ~vho, than!ffull); is still in charge of Peexvee Inc., is jump-starting this cash cow one more time and is working on the goal of a 2009 release date for the slow-moving production. Plot details are few and up for debate. Casting, too. (Who’ll replace the late Phil Hartanan? What happened to the guy who played the unambiguously gay Jambi ? Will S. Epatha Merkerson return as Reba the Mail Lady? Please?) But all will surely be answered eventually, possibly via ticker-tape readout from Conky the Robot’s torso. And ifJohnny Depp shows up, even as a Pee-wee doppelganger, that’s just fine, too. Now if the cameras would only hurry up and roll. Whether it’s Snakes on a Plane or ~Pne Incredibly Strange Creatures Who Stopped Living and Became Mixed-Up Zombies!!?, a movie’s title can sometimes tell you everything you need to knm,: And so it is with Lesbian Vampire Killers, a new British horror-comedy about a Welsh village whose xvomen have been cursed by the local Sapphic bloodsuckers. In aa~ attempt to improve matters, the tovcn sends txvo hapless visitors (played by James Corden and Mathew Home, the stars of the BBC sitcom Gavin & Stacey) into the woods as a sacrifice to the titular undead. The film also features Paul McGann (Withnail & I, Doctor Who) as one of the few remaining men in the village. Lesbian Vampire Killers ~vill put the bite on audiences in 2009. Next Christmas, Make the Yuletide Gay Romeo loves a good holiday dassic, and some gay filmmakers obviously feel the same way about the genre, with Make the Yuletide Gay now going into production. O.Eueer actor Adamo Ruggiero (who played out-and-eventually-proud Marco on Degrassi: ~e Next Generation) and Allison Arngrim (best known as frontier mean girl Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie) will don their gay apparel for this coraedy about what happens when a guy who’s not out to his faanily goes home for the holidays and then has to explain the sudden appearance of his boyfriend. Yuletide also features Ian Buchanan (Twin Peaks) and gay" indie-fihn vets Derek Long (Socket) and Steve Callahan (East Side Story). Look for Make the Yuletide Gay to pop up at around the same time as 2009 Advent calendars. ~etroSTAR 17 �internationa (White Shadows). A new friend who ~ve are in contact with but haven’t actually met yet, author Louise Penny in Canada. Boy George could face jail for ’imprisoning’ escort by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "T VELING AND MEETING PEOPLE" Photo: Donald Pile & Ray Williams Since we are always telling our readers to "Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone" we decided to devote this travel column to the fabulous and interesting people that we have met and dealt with, in our travels. These, ~ve will list in no particular order and they live from coast to coast. Hizabeth Taylor has always been so gracious to remember our anniversaries and holidays. We have so many to list in Palm Springs. There is Jim Doyle &Jerry Efron, Tyke, Wayne, Millie, Shirley, Jim LaMarrina, Ken & Grant, Tom & Doug at the Terrazzo, Burt XWahquist, artists Robert Sharer & Giorgio and restaurateurs, Sol and Chris ~vho we first met when they owned a B & B in San Francisco and now mvn a restaurant in Puerto Vallarta and also own a home in Pahn Springs. In Florida, the famous portrait photographer Jack Mitchell & Bob Pavlik, entertainers Auntie Marne, ToW & Gloria, the best jazz duo and Miguel Reyna, who without a doubt is the finest piano entertainer/singer that we have ever met! and the lovely and extremely talented Faye Harrod and her friend Gloria Delro); Casey Koslowki, owner; Herb Pianin, General Manager; Peter Mehas, Guest Services Manager and the entire staff at the Grand Resort and Spa in Ft. Lauderdale who operates the finest gay resort in the country, Chuck Smith and Chef Carlos at the Hi-Lit~ Care, Alan Beck & Nick and Norma. Also in Ft. Lauderdale, Al & Tom and Steve & Ells~vorth and the deceased fabulous pianist/entertainer, Houston, and then dear, dears friends, Ed Hayes &John Dunne in St. Petersburg who are truly delightful. And there are the people that we have met quite by accident who have become dear friends such as Ginny & Willy in Florida, Kala & Frank, the absolutely ~beyond Fabulous" owners of the Luna Vista B and B in Rimrock, Arizona, Michael McFall & Luis Gonzalez in Phoenix, ChefMarcdlino and his fabulous wife Sima, owners ofMarcellino Ristorante in Phoenix, Gordon & Kin at the Inn of the 410 in Flagstaff who are super special guys and Charlotte Welch and her daughter Katie in Flagstaff. In Billings, Montana we met Barbara Hill, a wonderful entertainer who has "come OUt~ In New ~%rk City, JeanClaude Baker, the exciting owner of Chez Josephine’s Restaurant, author Tom Monsell, play~vright Matthew LomPhoto: Chq~G~r!os at the Hi-Life bardo C,~e in Ft. Lauderdale (Tea at Five and Looped) and movie director/producer Rick McKay. His movie "Broadway: The Golden Age" is a terrific movie. 18 #~troSTAR no not lesbian, but "just simply came out to life" and has found true happi,ness at Photo: Actor LeslieJordan last. We just wish that everybody could find themselves like she did. In St. Louis, Michael Lance &JeffArchuleta, owners of Napoleons’ Retreat B & B where we first met the "fun couple; Smitty and Eddy in Mississippi who we will be seeing again on our way driving to Florida in January. They can’t help it because they were born straight! And then there is actor, Leslie Jordan, authors Christopher Rice and Robert Hofmann, filmmaker Craig Highberger, (Superstar In A Housedress) and filmmaker Mialyn Hanna Singer Boy George may land in jail after being convicted Dec. 5 of falsely in~prisoning male escort Audun Carlsen in London. Photo: Countess Alexis & Ray ~qlliams Also wonderful people like the Countess Mexis, the QEeen Diva who now" lives in Hollywood. She certainly epitomizes elegance and "old Hollywood", plaDvright Gene Danklin Smith and Steve Nycklemore, director of the Hollywood Museum, our good friend, Attorney Andrew Lee who now resides in Mexico, Dean Perkins (Crystal Chandelier) in New Hampshire, Rodger & J.T. in the Q.~ad cities, Chris X~alsh in San Francisco as wel! as gZalter Edgar, owner of the 24 Henry B&B and the Village House B&B in San Francisco. In Seatrle, Stephen Bennett, owner of the Gaslight Inn B and B and visiting there,ave met Tom & Doris Friedman from the Hamton’s in New York who ,are will visit When we are in New England next year. In Santa Fe, New Mexico, Ralph Bolton and Robert Frost, owners of the Inn of the Turquoise Inn. Four o~tstanding people are the late Dalee Henderson who was and is an inspiration to thousands of people and to Raymond Bilbool, former owner of the Secret Garden B&B in West Hollywood and our dear friend Stefan Hemming, owner of the Liberace Estate in Palm Springs who hosted our 35th Anniversary two years ago and to Mel Haber, owner of Melvyn’s Restaurant and the Ingleside Inn in Palm Springs. Their lives have reached many. So here we are, two guys who live in the middle of the country who are fortunate in that we get to travel a lot and meet so many people. In our travels, we really have been so fortunate to meet so many fun, interesting and exciting individuals. q-his column is warmly dedicated to all of daese people that we have met in our travels and we are looking forward to meeting many more in our future. Remember, in the words of the late Dalee Henderson, "When you wake up in the morning, it is a miracle! The rest of the day is up to you!" Truly, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you are not happy with your life it is no one’s ffmlt but your own. We want to thank our dear friend Chaz XWard, Publisher-Editor of the Metro Star for his support. Last April, George handcuffed Carlsen to a book on the wall of George’s bedroom fbr about an hour, saying he suspected Carlsen had hacked into his coruputer following a previous photo session between the two men. Car!sen claims George also attacked him with a metal chain af, er he broke free and began his escape from the apartment. Car!sen told the court the computer story was made up and that George probably was upset because Car!sen refused to have sex ~vith him the previous time they met. City apologizes for past anti-gay actions 1he City Council of Hobart, Tasmania, in Australia, apologized Dec. 10 for banning a booth promoting gay law reform from the city’s weekly Salamanca Market in 1988. In the weeks that followed, more than 100 people were arrested for refusing to vacate the site, marking Australia’s largest-ever act of gay civil disobedience. The apology, delivered by Lord Mayor Rob Valentine before more than 200 former arrestees, GLBT community members and civil leaders, including state Premier David Bartlett, coincided with the 20th anniversary of the crackdown and the 60th anniversary of the signing of the Universa! Declaration of Human Rights. "The Hobart City Cotmcil apologizes for prohibiting the gay law reform stall at Salamanca Market in 1988 and for the resulting arrests aud bans," Valentine said. "We are sorry for the pain and trauma caused to all involved, including GLBTI people; their family members, friends and supporters; and those council officers who were required to carry out the council decision. We are also sorry that the actions we took may have encouraged ill-will and discrimination towards GLBTI people in the broader community. We resolve that actions such as these will never happen again." The apology was formally accepted by Rodney Croome of the Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group, which has operated the booth continuously at the Saturday outdoor street market since 1988. "Twenty years ago, as we sat in police cells for the crime of being ourselves, we could not possibly have imagined something like this," Croome said. "People everDvhere who suffer human rights abuses should take this apology as a sign that no matter how bad things seem there is ~lways hope of a better future: Prior to the apology, a City Council-sponsored photo exhibit of the arrests was unveiled at the Salamanca Arts Centre. The council also is sponsoring a ublic art work at Salamanca Place commemorating e arrests. ~ January 2009 �and instruc- , and two ~.metrostarnews.com �OKC Civic Center Music Ha~1 January Events Jan. 5 SWEENY TODD presented by Broadway Tonight Jan. 9 -Jan. 31 ORPHANS a comedy-drama by Lyle Kessler Jan. 9-Jan. 31 Orphans Jan. 10 INTERNATIONAL FLAVORS presented by the Oldahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 22-Jan. 25 Julius Caesar Jan. 23 -Jan. 24 CHRIS BOTTI presented by Oklahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 25 HOLD THE CANNONS! ~e Story and Glory of Tchaikovsky and the 1812 Overture Jan. 27- Feb. 1 OPRAH WINFREY’S THE COLOR PURPLE Jammry At The Ford Center OKC Jan. 21 st - Jan. 25th ~;,hlking With Dinosaurs Jan. 30th -Jan. 31st ~l!ie Revolve Tour January At The P.A.C. Tulsa Jan 4 David Finckel and "Wu Hart John H. Williams Theatre 6-31 FP~EE Highway412 PAC Gallery Jan 10 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 17 An Infinite Ache Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 20-25 Oprah Winfrey Presents: Wue Color Purple Chapman Music Hall Jan 23 The Tannahill Vgeavers John H. xg/illiams Tneatre FOR Webs#e- www.kylecomics.com bitter girl Jan 24 Ralph’s World John H. Williams Theatre Jan 27 Ethel Cabaret Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 28 Ethel Concert John H. Williams Theatre Jan 30-31 OMEA All-State Music Festival Chapman Music Hall en~il: bittergifl@qsyndtcate.com 20 #4etroSTAR w~wcjoanhilty.net January 2009 �by Jack Fertig January 2009 "Toot your horn, Taurus!" Jupiter is starting his yearlong passage through Aquarius, where he inspires new visions of freedom aa~d scientific exp,,loration. This mini "age of Aquarius is a year of great luck to anyone with that Sun sign or Ascendant, but check with your astrologer to see when that lucky year actually starts! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): You’ll be amazed to see what your friends would do for you. Take the opportunity to advance yourself politically and socially, and to promote whatever goals and ideals you see improving the world. TAURUS (April 20 o May 20): Don’t be shy! Toot your horn and let everyone know what you’re worth. This is your chance to rise to any position you’re qualified for. You have a bigger career peak in 12 years, but promotions now can boost your trajectory. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): .At least give a listen to the Wackiest, most far-out ideas coming your way. Take classes that challenge everything you believe in. Ask yourself and the world all the hard questions, and be ready for whole new worlds of answers. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Could you be any more loquacious? Keep your mouth out of trouble by harnessing the brain behind it. Learn a new skill or language, or sign up for any class that offers you a different direction. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): This should be your lucky year for money, but it comes with some deceptive lures. Still, odd chances that shouldn’t work might prove very lucrative. Think ahead, but be ready to take advantage of sudden opportunities. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In a 12-year cycle, this is your lucky year. Buy a few lottery tickets now and then, travel, or take some classes. You can expand yourself educationally, economically, and/or otherwise. But watch your diet! PISCES (February 19 -March 19): The worst things that happen to you could turn out for the best, although it may take a while to see that. By next year, you’ll be very glad for the experience and insights. LEO (Ju~y 23 o August 22): This is your lucky year for relationships. That could include becoming very happy with being single. Join in political or community groups; do things that fulfill you, get you out among others, and accomplish some good. Love will come when it is ready. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document "WWW.METROSTA~qEWS.COM "WE DELIVER DIVERSITY" UN Ge era Assembly hears pro-gay presentation "9gockner News ~/ire It was read into the record by Argentine AmbassadorJorge Argtiello. q’he 66 countries affirmed "the principle of non-discrimination, which requires that human rights apply equally to every hmman being regardless ofsexual orientation or gender identity; and denounced "violence, harassment, discrimination, exclusion, stigmatization and prejudice ... because of sexual orientation or gender identity:’ statement also called for the decriminalization ofgay sex, 77 SLxty-sLx nations at the UN General Assembly supported a groundbrealdng statement Dec. 18 confirming that international human rights protections include sexual orientation and gender identit): It was the first time a statement condemning rights abuses against GLBT people was presented in the General Assembly. gay Americans support Woclmer News Wire A Harris Interactive poll released Dec. 3 found that Americans support a range ofpolicies and protections for gay people. The Pulse ofEquality survey, cmmnissioned by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, found that majorities of Americans favor either marriage or civil unions for gay couples, hate-crime laws to protect gay and transgender people, letting gays in the military serve openly, and allowing gays and lesbians to adopt children. ~ae telephone survey questioned 2,000 adults beBveen Nov. 13 and 17 and had a margin oferror ofplus or minus 2 percentage points. Among the specific findings: * Seventy-five percent of U.S. adults favor either marriage or domestic partnerships/civil unions for gay and lesbian couples. Only 22 percent oppose any legal recognition ofgay couples. ........... Continued See POLL Page-8 Saudi Arabia "To love is not a crime;’ said Louis-Georges Tin, president of the International Day Against Homophobia Committee, which initiated the process that led to the statement. "To decriminalize homosexuality world,vide is a batde t’or human rights.... This (statement) is a great achievement (but) I also want to remind everyone that ending the criminalization ofsame-sex love wilt be a long, hard battle:’ Leading British activist Peter Tatchell called the statement "history in the making." "The UN statement goes much further than see’king the decriminalization ofsame-sex acts;’ Tatchell said. "k €ondemns all human rights violations based on sexual orientation and gender identity, urges countries to protect the human rights ofLGBT people and to bring to justice those who violate these rights, and calls for human rights defenders who oppose homophobic and transphobic victimization to be allowed to carry out their advocacy and humanitarian work unimpeded." ........... Continued See UN Page-14 JANUARY 1, 2009 Oklahoma’s 2009 Mr. O.G.R.A. Larry Bourne chats with the Metro Star. By Victor Gorin Photo: ~adr. OGRA 2009 Larry Bour~ze By Victor Gorin The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ( better known as OGRA) has a proud history ofnot only promoting the country lifestyle in the GLBT community, but also to the straight community as well. Letting gay cowboys knmv they can truly be themselves is a cause they promote proudly, but they do more. OGRA also has a proud history ofhelping wordBvhile charities such as Other Options, Infant Crisis Services, Young Gay Lesbian Alliance, and R.A.I.N. Also a proud tradition are the OGRA Royalty, which features a Mr. OGRA, a Ms. OGRA" Brooklyn" and Miss OGRA Anita Ryder.. The new Mr. OGRA is Larry Bourne, who’s made many cowboys happy bartending at the Finishline the past 5 years. Sharing his life and his thoughts with the Metro Star, he gives us his perspective on our community and OGRA. ................Continued See OGP,A page- 15 comes out ....Page-7 Janua~ 2009 2 $8 VALUE WITH PURCHASE OF 2 D~ER E~TREES AT REGULAR PRICE Bring this ad width you to receive this special often Not valid with any other coupon, discount or offers. COMEORT FOOD & DALLY SPECIALS ALL PREPAI~D IN AN AMBIANCE THAT WILL TEMPT YOUR SENSES. Let us ~ro~ot~ your business in 8TAR A~VERTJSJNG ~.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 3 World Aids Day December 1, Remembering the Past-Facing Future- The Crisis is not over. By Victor Gorin Following the Mayflower UCC ~:orldAIDS Day Service, Reverend Loyce Newton Edwards places a card on a o’oss honod~ her siste,; Lavonn Newton whopassd ~tv~yfivm AIDS related illness. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ On December 1, the 20th World Aids Day Service was held at Mayflower Congregational Church, along with countless others worldwide. Along with music, preaching and praise was not only remembrance of those xvho have passed on because of HIV, bur also hope for the future. The service concluded with the opportunity to fill out a card of a loved one lost to HIV and attach it to one ofa group of crosses in the courtyard. For Rev. Loyce Newton-Edwards the service had special meaning, as she had lost a transgen- &red sister, Lavonne Newton to AIDS related illness. As she put it, "The service was deeply moving and a wonderful way to honor the precious lives that have been lost to AIDS, and to offer comfort to their devastated families. My prayers continue for more community compassion, HIV prevention advocacy, as well as more effective HIV/AIDS related medications." Being that World AIDS Day is now in it’s 20th year, this reminds us that although advances have been made in the treatment of HIV, there is no reason for complacency. In Oklahoma there are around 4500 known cases ofpeople infected with HIV, including around 1700 in Oklahoma County alone. Currently the fastest growing rate of infection among demographic groups tragically is young people aged 15-24, disproportionately gay and male. Although medical science is far ahead ofwhere it was over 20 years ago when AIDS first became an issue, safe sex is still important. As Chuck Longacre ofRed Rock North, an HIV testing/counseling facility pointed out, "R’s still a deadly disease. The disease can still be fatal. However, often one can be helped ifthe virus is detected early, so we encourage those who are sexually active to be tested every 3 months." Testing is still available at Red Rock North, 4400 N. Lincoln Botdevard (OKC), telephone (405 424 7711. It’s a free test, and in most cases can be completed in around 20 minutes. This, coupled with educational efforts is also part ofthe reason for the day, and that is the hope for a better future. Angda Monson Runs For O dahoma City School Board Chair By Victor Gorin Photo: Angela Monson, State Representative Anastasia Pittman-District 99 (Center)Jesus Gasper Lovie Givens e3~ Danielle Gaddis by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Angela Monson, on the last day offiling, got into the race for Oklahoma City School Board chair. She challenges incumbent Kirk Humphreys, and the election will be February 10. As a Democrat, she was elected to the Oklahoma State House ofR~epresentatives in 1990-District 99, and was later elected to the Oklahoma State Senate in 1993 -District 48. She Served as a State Senator until forced out by term limits in 2005. She is currently Associate Provost with the Oklahoma University Health Sciences Center, and is a longtime ally ofnot only the GLBT commtmity but numerous progressive Causes. Kirk Humphreys was appointed as Chair by the OKC School Board when the position was vacated by CliffHudson, and is a former mayor ofOklahoma City, and an ally ofmany conservative causes. Learn more about this key race with our next issuel Metro Star Classfieds 2" square for as litde as $43 per issue. Email: starnews@sbcglobal.~ 918.1 ’Unsung Heroes’ Honored for AIDS Awareness Advocacy TULSA, OK (PR) __ On Tuesday, three Tulsa CARES employees were recognized by the AIDS Coalition ofTulsa at the 19th annual Evergreen Spirit Awards Luncheon, which recognizes the work ofcolleagues and volunteers who have gone the extra mile in the fight against AIDS in our community: Jamie Baker, care coordinator; Bruce Lewis, ofrice manager/executive assistant; and Marianne X~etherill, registered dietician were among those recognized with the Evergreen Spirit Award, which symbolizes strength, courage, commitment and resilience. "It is so important to recognize ’the unsung heroes’ in Tulsa’s effort to stop AIDS," said Janice Nicklas, director ofTnlsa Community AIDS Partnership and senior planner for the Community Service Council. ~Our colleagues still work long hours, to the point ofexhaustion, and many have vowed to stay at it until we get the epidemic under control. Sadly, the numbers ofHIV positive Americans are growing larger each year and many Tulsans are getting infected who are unaware that that they are at risk," Other Evergreen Spirit Award winners are: Gary Meadows, Community ofHOPE; Terry Klein, St. Joseph~s Residence; Chaz Gaut, Hospice of Green Country; David Odle, Oklahoma Department ofHuman Services; Barbara Saunders, community volunteer with the HIV Prevention Program for Incarcerated Women’s Program; and Stan Smalts, Oklahoma Department ofHuman Services. Two top awards were also given at the annual luncheon: the Truman Geren Memorial Award for HIV Prevention was awarded to Heather Nash, American Red Cross, and the Richard Shackelford Award for HIV Care honored Shana Cozad, Oklahoma State Department of Health. "Our award winners are constantly reminding Tulsa area.residents to take the HIV test - it is quick, free and painless," Nicldas said. "Everyone should know their HIV status." Founded in t991, Tulsa CARES, a United Way organization, delivers services to low-income people living with HIV/AIDS in northeastern Oklahoma. Services include: case management by professional social workers, access to physicians and prescription medication, counseling services, housing assistance, access to nutrition information at its on-site food pantry, as well as other forms of support. Tulsa CARES’ mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/AIDS: For more information about Tulsa CARES, visit www. tulsacares.org. Tulsa CARES Celebrates Life 34icah Hartwdl, Nutrition Services Directo~ begins digging~r the Tulsa CARES’ Celebration ofLife tree-planting co’emony. TULSA, OK (PR) __ In observance ofWorld AIDS Day, Tulsa CARES hosted a "Celebration of Life" reception for its clients. On Monday, December 1, Tulsa CARES clients, staffmembers, and friends came together to celebrate the lives 0f those still living xvith HIV/AIDS and to rmnember the lives ofthose who have died from this disease. The "Celebration ofLife" was replete with food, crafts and a tree planting ceremony that symbolizes hope for a cure. Tulsa CARES’ Celebration of Life in-kind sponsors ,sere Starbucks, Q~eenies and QEikTrip. Five Crepe Myrtle trees were donated by Up with Trees. Tulsa CARES’ mission is ddivering social services to people affected by HIWAIDS. Tulsa CARES is a United W’ay Agency. For more information, visit vcww.tulsacares.org. SAVE & FILL YOUR PIGGY 4 January 2009 in the spirit of Christmas, the 18th annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner Show was held at the Copa OKC, raising over $6956. Featuring entertainers (Photo) Ben Williams, Kitty Bob Aimes, Sonja Martinez, John Beebe and Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, the show was held on both December 8 and 9, with proceeds going to help the Winds House, a home & hospice for those living with HIV. PeggyJohnson and ReVerend Dl: Kathy McCallie at Church of the Open Arms Fundaraiser Oldahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth with OGLPC Co-Chair Paul ~nompson at the ,amnual NAACP Banquet in Oklahoma City. .... Scotty Mandell, Robin D0rner and Loring Wagner strike a pose at the Diversity Bttsiness Association’s Christmas Party. Ken Sims, Jennifer Lancaster, Rebecca Hurst and Blaze Bush at the Marriage Equality Rally in downtown Oklahoma City December 20. Santa ( Pam Norton) and Mrs. Santa (Victorola) at the Church ofthe Open Arms Christmas Party Dear Editor: My name is Robaire ~atson and I’m a gay military veteran who’s been living in the San Francisco Bay Area for 18 years. I spent 6 years in the military as an openly gay, man. At age 23 I joined the Navy in search of adventure. Being a gay man, I was determined that I wasn’t going to allow the military to change my true identity. My story isn’t about the latest trend or the latest hot actor, or the latest hot "trick~ it’s about the importance of"being who you want to be"! Who needs to serve in silence ? I just want to bring a positive ground breaking story to the fbrefront. I grexv up in a primarily white small Texas town and the middle child of a Southern Baptist family. I was in the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, played high school football for a brief time. I always knew I was gay. After high school, I earned money t’or college by working in the oil fields. I studied design and fashion merchandising in Dallas at ~ades School of Design. I joined the US NaW in 1989 and served six years through two enlistments until 1995. Being openly gay in the military and not receiving threats to my life, allowed me to keep my integrity: I never felt the need to tell anyone on my command that I was gay or introduce them to my boyfriend. I always felt that people knew I was different, just by the way I conducted myself. When you sho~v others respect, they show you respect in return. I was a US Navy Ship’s barber who served aboard the USS Kansas City as it traveled the seas promoting freedom during the Gulf’~Y~ar and Operation Southern XWatch offthe coast of Somalia in 1993, traveling to Singapore, Thailand, Hong Kong, Dubai, Jebel All, UAE, British Columbia, Mexico, and the Philippines during my two enlistments. I’m black and openly gay and never encountered the slightest discrimination aboard this xvarship. I have never forced my sexual preference on anyone. I don’t ~vant someone who’s straight doing that to me. gqaen the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" law xvas passed, my shipmates told me, "\X[atso!~, we don’t have to ask and we don’t have to tell." I had a group ofgay friends on the USS Kansas City. We were the gay version of"Sex and the City" onboard the ship. XXre were known as the Fierce-Four. Our personal lives were better than any episode of Q~.eer as Folk. My friends said, because of me, they were able to be themselves without prejudice. I took several ofmy shipmates to gay bars & dance clubs, not because it was my idea, but because they asked me too! I dated an Ensign and a Lieutenant while in the military. I ,also dated a Major in the United States Army and a Marine. All the following military men who came across my, life had to keep their personal life a secret. It’s not about being an officer in the military or subjecting yourselfto starring in a skin flick to get your point across, about "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’: It’s knowing that you have a job to do and a mission to accomplish. ~bu can’t allow your sexual preference to interfere. The government needs to worry about the individuals who they allow to enter the military that haven’t been outside the county line, and refuse to accept someone who is different. Sometimes, these type ofpeople want to judge you, based on their religious beliefs. Ifyou can’t accept me for my race or sexual preference, will you be there for me in a time ofwar ? I’m very fortunate that I was able to be openly gay and live my life accordingly during active duty. I want other men and women who enter the armed forces who are gay to be able to live their lives just as openly as their straight counterparts and when they become veterans to be treated ~vith dignity and respect. I’m very proud to have done my duty serving my country: Thank you, Robaire Watson San Francisco, CA wv,~v.metrostamews.com ~ot~oSTAR 5 A NEW PLACE TO ENDUP By Victor Gorin Photo: End ~o owner Blake (Center) wit,§ the End [J)) dancers TULSA, OK__ When the first Endup club on Memorial closed a few years ago, it left a gap that Blake Alterman knew needed to be filled. While not for everybody, there are truly gay men that love to watch the hot boys dance. Not far from some ofTulsgs other gay clubs, it’s located at 5336 E. Admiral Place, a site vacant for over a year last occupied by a straight biker club called The Luclo! Shamrock. Dancers will be featured 7 nights a xveek, taking up where the old Endup left off, but with more than twice the space and ample parking. While it is planned and destined to be a swinging spot for those wanting to watch male dancers, it has more to offer as well. A section ofthe bat" ,vi!l be like a regular bar, with pool tables, cruising and conversation. Other fun endeavors are planned also with Bathroom Bingo Nights starting in January, hosted by emcee Earnest from the ladle’s bathroom, rewarding winning participants with cash and prizes. Hours are from noon tmtil 2 a.m. 7 days a week, so stop by and check it out, especially during Happy Hour with $1 offall liquor drinks from noon until 8 p.m. 7 days a week. As Blake puts it, "xg&’re just looking to have a good time with a bar that everybody’s gonna love coming to." Sounds like a great beginning. SUPPORTERS OF IT¥ LIGHT UP DOWNTOWN OKC By Victor Gorin Photo: Organizer Trey Hill with activistJames Nimmo by Hctor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Around 30 determined souls braved the icy chill December 20 in OKC’s Bricktown near the entrance of the Southwestern Bell Bricktown Ballpark, holding a candlelight vigil supporting marriage equality for all Americans, including the GLBT community. Surprising, there were no negative epithets, fisticuffs or even threats thereofmade by Bricktown partygoers, only some interested glances. The event did get media coverage by KOKH Channel 25, and participants got a free "Oklahoman for Marriage Equality T-Shirt;’ made possible thru the generosity ofJames Nimmo, his partner Don Chabot and Brittany Novotny. The event came together through the organization ofTrey Dill & Chuck Longacre, activists also largely responsible for a previous rally at the Oklahoma City Hall November 15 xvhich brought out over 200 people protesting the passage of Proposition 8, Which took away the right ofsame sex marriage in California. As Ms. Novotny praised the marchers, "As we keep getting people out for events like this, people won’t feel they have to be scared to be who they are, and straight people won’t be as scared to support us. We’ll keep doing this until all ofOklahoma says Yes, You all are part ofus and we’re all equal: January 2009 N Wockner News Service Reports: No quick action against DADT President-elect Barack Obama rnay not move quickly to repeal the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays, according to published reports. A Nov. 24 report in The AtlantaJournal-Constitution said: "Very quietly, the Obama team has let it be known that the new administration will not immediately reassess the U.S. military’s policy of’don’t ask, don’t tell: ... Raising the topic ofgays in the military was considered by many to be the second oftwo out-of-the-box decisions that ended badly for a newly elected President Bill Clinton (in 1993)’.’ The National Journal and The Washington Tunes said Obama might wait until 2010 to ’tackle the ban. However, the gay newspaper ~Tashington Blade reported Nov. 25 that an unnamed Obama spokesperson said the mainstream-media reports were premature. "An Obama transition team spokesperson, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said the decision on how to approach repealing ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ ... would be ma& after more experts have joined the Obama administration;’ the paper said. "Tnese decisions will not be made before the full national security team is in place;’ the Blade quoted the spokesperson as saying. AJuly poll by The \Vashington Post and ABC News found that 75 percent ofAmericans said "yes" when ~isked, "Do you think that homosexuals who do publicly disclose their sexual orientation should be allowed to serve in the military or not ?" The poll found that even Republicans (64 percent) and white evangelical Christians (57 percent) supported scrapping the ban. The random survey of 1,119 Aanerican adults had a margin oferror ofplus or minus 3 percentage points. Florida’s ban on gay adoption struck down A Florida circuit court in Miami struck down a state law that barred lesbians and gay men from adopting Nov. 25. The court granted adoptions to a gay man, represented by the American Civil Liberties Union, who has been raising two foster children since 2004. "Our family just got a lot more to be thankful for this Naanksgiving;’ said Martin Gill, a North Miami resident who is raising two brothers, ages 4 and 8, with his partner. are extremely relieved that the court has recognized that it is wrong to deny our boys the legal protections and security that only" come with adoption." The court ruled that tile ban violated the equalprotection guarantees of the state constitution because it irrationally singled out gay people and their children for different treatment. The court also found that the ban denied children the right to permanency provided by federal and state law under the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997. "Reports and studies find that there are no differences in the parenting ofhomosexuals or the adjustment oftheir children;’ the court said. "TheSe conclusions have been accepted, adopted and ratified by the American psychological Association, the American Psychiatry Association, the American PediatriCAssociation, the American Academy ofPediatrics, the Child Welfare League ofAmerica and the National Association ofSocial Workers. Based on the robust nature ofthe evidence available in the field, this Court is satisfied that the issue is so far beyond dispute that it would be irrational to hold otherwise; the best~interests ofchildren are not preserved by prohibiting homosexual adoption." The Florida law barring gays and lesbians from adopting was the most expansive anti-gay parenting law in the country. It was passed in 1977 in response to an anti-gay crusade led by Miss Oklalloma 1958, and orange-juice spokeswoman Anita Bryant. Admirals, Generals urge DADT repeal A former Army secretary and 103 retired admirals and generals issued a call Nov. 17 for repeal ofthe military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" ban on open gays. Among the document’s signers were a former Naval Academy superintendent, retired four-star Adm. Chades Larson, and former PresidentJimmy Carter’s Army secretary, Clifford Mexander. It is believed that there are about 65,000 gay people serving in the military, not counting the 627 who were kicked out last year for failing to stay sufficiently closeted. Gay band, anti-gay preacher to participate in inauguration Wanda Sykes comes out, blasts Prop 8 The Lesbian and Gay Band Association, which is composed of 34 marching and concert bands fi’om the U.S., Canada and Australia, will march in President-elect Barack Obama’s inaugural parade Jan. 20. Although LGBA concert bands performed at inaugural celebratious t’or Bill Clinton in 1993 and 1997, this will be the first time a gay band has marched in a presidential inaugural parade. ~ihe gay contingent will include t77 musicians in the parade down Pennsylvania Avenue a~er Obama is sworn in on the steps ofthe U.S. Capitol. In making their selections, the Presidential Inaugural Committee and military musicians assessed the applications of 1,400 marching bands, drill teams and musical groups. Nae committee’s Web site lists more than 40 such participating contingents, including several high-school and university bands. Meanwhile, Obama came under fire from gay activists on Dec. 17 for selecting influential evangelical preacher Rick xWarren to deliver the invocation at the inauguration. Human Rights Caxnpaign President Joe Solmonese calAed the move ’h genuine bl0w to LGBT Americans." "We feel a deep level ofdisrespect when one ofthe architects and promoters of an anti-gay agenda is given the prominence and the pulpit ofyour historic nomination; Solmonese said. "Vge urge you to reconsider this announcement." The National Gay arid Lesbian Task Force said, "We urge President-elect Obama to withdraw his invitation to Rick Warren and instead select a faith leader who embraces fairness, equality and the ideals the president-elect himselfhas called the nation to uphold: Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation President Nell Giuliano said, "It is ... deeply troubling that the President-elect has selected .....Continued See Inauguration Page-11 ’ Comedian xYC:anda Sykes came out publicly Nov. 15 at a Las Vegas rally against California’s Proposition 8. "When California passed Prop 8 ... I felt like I was being attacked, personally attacked, our community was attacked," Sykes said. "I got married Oct. 25. You know, I don’t really talk about nay sexual orientation, I didn’t feel like I had to, I was just living my life and, not necessarily in tile closet, but I was just living my life. Everybody that knows me personally, they know I’m gay. And that’s the way people should be able to live their lives, xgre shouldn’t have to be standing out here demanding something that we automatically should have as citizens ofthis country. And I got pissed off. They pissed me off. I said, You know what, now I gotta get in your face. And that’s what we all have to do now." Sykes said, as others have, that the passage of Prop 8 did have an upside. "They pissed offthe ~vrong group ofpeople," she said. "They have galvanized a community: XWe are so together now and we all want the same tiling and we are not going to settle for less." Direct Cremation From $595 T ON MORTUARY SERVICE,~e Tradition!! Funeral Services at Affordable Prices (405) 230- 1310 or !-800-913-1310 Pre-Need Plaa CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED The Las Vegas rally was part of a national day ofprotest against Prop 8 that saw demonstrations in 300 U.S. cities and towns, including such unlikely places as Allentown, Fargo, Fayetteville, La Crosse, Macon, Shreveport and Missoula. In California, there were protests Nov. 15 in 58 separate towns and cities. www.metrostarnews.corn N~÷troSTAR 7 Same-sex marriage bill to be introduced in New Hampshire New Hampshire State Rep. Jim Splaine plans to introduce a bill next year to legalize same-sex marriage. New Hampshire already has a comprehensive same-sex civil-union law, and nearby Connecticut and Massachusetts allow gay couples to marry~ Splaine told the Concord Monitor newspaper that the civil-union law bestows only about 90 percent of the state-level benefits and obligations of marriage, xvhich leaves same-sex couples without full equality under the law. Some 600 same-sex couples have entered into a civil union in New Hampshire. EltonJohn does not support same-sex marriage Elton John says gays are wrong to want to get married and should settle for civil unions. "We’re (David Furnish and I) not married. Let’s get that right;’ John told USA Today on Nov. 12. "We have a civil partnership. What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that mey went for marriage. Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the,vord marriage. "I don’t want to be married;’ John said. very happy with a civil partnership. If gay people want to get mar}led, Or get together, they should have a civil partnership.... You ~et the same e~ual rights.... Heterosexual peopm get married: John’s assertion about ~equal rights" is essentially true in the United Kingdom, where John and Furnish entered their civil partnership. ~Ihe UK civil-partnership law is national in scope. In the U.S., on the other hand, civil-union and domestic-parmership laws are state laws that grant equal rights only on the state level, leaving civilly united gay couples without access to-more than 1,000 federal rights, benefits and obligations ofmarriage. But, at the same time, the U.S. government also does not recognize the same-sex marriages that have taken place in California, Connecticut, Massachusetts or abroad. However, it would require less ofan overhaul of federal policy to start recognizing married same-sex couples than it would to create some kind ofnational recognition of states’ hodgepodge ofcivilunion and domestic-partnership laws, some of which grant all state-level rights of marriage and others ofwhich do not. U.S. President-elect Barack Obama has said repeatedly that he supports extending federal recognition to same-sex unions, though he does not favor opening marriage itseltto samesex couples, citing religious objections. Obama nonetheless opposed California’s Proposition 8, in which voters amended the state constitution on Nov. 4 to re-ban same-sex marriage. ha a nutshell, Obama does not think gay couples should have access to marriage but also does not think any laws should be passed to prevent gay couples from accessing marriage. * U.S. adults are evenly divided on xvhether gay couples should have access to marriage -- 47 percent say yes and 49 percent say no. * Sixty-four percent think gays in the military should not have to stay closeted, as required by the =don’t ask, don’t tell" policy. * Sixty-three percent support expanding hate-crime la~vs to cover gay and transgender people. At present, 31 states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 12 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Fifty-one percent favor protecting gay and transgender people under existing laws that ban discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations. Twenty states and the District of Columbia have such laws that cover sexual orientation and 13 of those laws also encompass gender identity. * Sixty-nine percent oppose bans on gay adoption. =We observed a positive relationship between knowing a gay or transgender person and one’s attitudes toward them and the policy issues that affect their lives," said Laura Light, Harris Interactive’s vice president ofpublic-relations research. "Based on other surveys we have conducted on attitudes toward LGBT people and issues, the results ofthis survey suggest that public sentiment in the U.S. is trending toward greater acceptanF~ ofgay- and transgender-related policy issues:’ The survey found that people under 65, and especially those 18-34, are more gay-friendly than people over 65. Women are generally more supportive than men. Latinos are more supportive than whites and blacks when it comes to gays in the military. Blacks are more supportive than whites and Latinos on hate-crime laws. And Catholics and "mainline" Christians (Protestant, Mormon or %ther Christian") are more supportive than "born-again" Protestants, Mormons or other Christians. Nineteen percent ofthose questioned said their feelings toward gay people have become more favorable over the past five years. They attributed the change to such things as knmving someone who is gay, seeing gay people on TV and in movies, passage ofgay-friendly laws, news coverage ofgay issues, and learning of the gay-friendly positions offriends, family members and religious leaders. "Knowing someone who is gay or lesbian" ,vas the most significant factor, cited by 79 percent ofthose whose feelings had evolved. Seventy-three percent ofthose qu{stioned know or work with a gay or transgender person and halfof that 73 percent know or work with five or more gay or traaasgender people, the survey found. Full poll results: tinyurl.com/6nojlq. Iowa Supreme Court hears marriage case The Iowa Supreme Court heard oral arguments Dec. 9 in Lan~bda Legal’s case on behalfof same-sex couples who want to marry. "XTge put our best case forward, and hope that the court breathes life into the Iowa Constitution’s promise of equality," said Senior Staff Attorney Camilla Taylor. The couples’ case was argued by former Iowa Solicitor General Dennis Johnson of Dorsey & Whimey. "The government has no business standing in the way ofa loving same-sex couple who wants to take responsibility for each other and their fancily," Johnson said. Lambda filed suit in Polk County District Court in 2005 on behalfofsix same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses, arguing that the denials violated the liberty and equality guarantees in the Iowa Constitution. In 2007, the court agreed that banning same-sex couples from marrying was unc0nstitutional, and the county recorder and registrar appealed to the state Supreme Court. One gay couple -- Sean and Tim McQ,u)llan ofAmes -- got married before Judge Robert Hanson quickly suspended his ruling when it was appealed. 8 ~÷~roSTAR January 2009 DVD" ’re Angels" with the release oftheir album. Jason and &Marco have recently taken a&antage of C~l~ornlas United Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Services @ 11:00 AM 1623 N. l~laplewood Tulsa, OK 918-838-1715 w.mcctuisa.org Troy Don Wheat34ar 19, 1966 - Dec 6, 2008 TULSA, OK (OkEq) __ Troy Wheat, son of Betty and Paul Wheat was born on March 19, 1966 in Alva, Oklahoma. He died on the 6th of December, at his home in Tulsa, at the age of42 years, 8 months and 18 days. Troy is survived by his parents Paul and Betty; a sister and her husband, Paula and Bill Miller ofWoodward; his significant other, Christopher Roberts ofTulsa; two nieces and their spouses, Shannon and Craig Chestnut and thei} children Jace and Jayden ofMustang, Karrie and Kendel Kay and their children Sloan, Reece, Braton and Kinley ofAshland, Kansas; a number ofother relatives and many friends. He graduated from Alva High School in 1984. After moving to Tulsa, Troy attended and graduated cosmetology school in Jenks. He became a successful stylist in Tulsa. He was very involved in the Miss Cinderella, Miss Oklahoma and Miss America Pageants. One of the highlights ofhis life was when his client won Miss America in 2006. A family and friends visitation reception was held Thursday December 1 lth at Ninde Brookside Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Tul’sa, Oklahoma 74105. Obituary ofMary Lorene Marlett, mother ofDemo Candidate Ron Marlett Ron Marlett was the Democratic candidate runmng against Mrs. Kern in HD 84. The following is from Ron: My mother. Mary Lorene Marlett, passed from this world December 17. She has suffered from Alzeheimers Disease the past two years, From my earliest years. I can remember her involvement in the Canadian County Democratic Party. She described herself as a Yellow Dog Democrat, someone who would vote for a yellow dog before voting for a Republican. However. she loved her Republican friends. In a community where racial epithets were socially acceptable, she taught that those words wouldn’t be tolerated in our household. When I hear politicians talk of"family values", I wonder if they were taught that racism wasn’t a family value. I attended precinct meetings with her and accompanied her to a state convention. She raised my brother and me with values of equality, fairness and the value ofhard work. When I was younger she saw that I got to Little League baseball games when my dad was tied up responding to an electric outage in the rural electric cooperative, xXihen I left home, she became involved in my brother’s scouting as was extremely proud ofhis attaining his Eagle Scout Award. When my father became disabled, she ;,cent to work at XXrestern Hectric, later AT&T. She continued there until being offered an early retirement. She continued to live in Union City after my father’s death in 1987. She began having health problems that probably signalled the onset ofAlzheirmers, but I was too close to the situation to recognize it. About two years ago a doctor diagnosed it and told me she had two years left. She celebrated her 75th birthday and received letters from Oklahoma politicians praising her for her ~vork for the party. Her long time Democratic friend, Oberta Bergdall attended that party. She was particularly proud of having attended President Carter’s inaugural ball. Toward the end ofher life, no one in the Democratic Party could really remember her. When I attended the C:anadian County Democratic Bean Supper, I felt I represented her. She died surrounded by people who loved her and was very peaceful mad free ofpain. I am struck by the reliefI feel that she no longer suffers and the realization that I will not see her again. She was a blessing to those she cared for and to the Democratic Party she loved. Ron Marlett www.metrostarnews.com ~Oet~oSTAR 9 Close, but no cigar. ByJan~es Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ q-he recent release of the biopic "Milk" about the life and death ofSan Francisco Supervisor Harvey Milk revivified interest in Milk’s most famous phrases such as "Come out, come out, wherever you are;’ and "Don’t blend in:’ Another openly gay activist to have his speeches and writings dusted offis Bayard Rustin, an openly gay African-American who was a colleague ofDr. M.L. King and who was given behind- the-scenes credit for organizing the March on Washington in August, 1963 where Dr... King made his iconic and forward lookAng"I Have a Dream" speech. Mr. Rustin was forced to take a back-seat due to fears that his orientation and arrest record would undoubtedly be used against the civil tights movement. From the book Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin by Bayard Rustin (Cleis Press, Carbado and Weise, editors) we get the succinct gay agenda, if there ever was one, that I think most ofus gay/lesbian activists can agree on "the job ofthe gay comnaunity is not to deal with extremists who would castrate us or put us on an island and drop an Hbomb on us." The fact ofthe matter is that there is a small percentage of people in America who understand the true nature of the homosexual cornmunity. There is another small percentage who will never understand us. Our job is not to get those people who dislike us to love us. Nor was our aim in the civil rights movement to get prejudiced white people to love us. Our aim was to try to create the Idnd ofAmerica, legislatively, morally, and psychologically, such that even though some whites continued to hate us, they could not openly manifest that hate. That’s our job today: to control the extent to which people can publicly manifest anti-gay sentiment." (http://tiwurl.com/5w77yr) What we should continue to be doing is proving our gay/lesbian equality ofcitizenship to the broad range of the valuable demographic ~mown as the undecided, who politicians always court. For our purposes it’s those people who all have gay and lesbian family members or friends, xvho wouldn’t think ofhurting them but somehow aren’t connecting the dots that ifsome of us gays and lesbians are getting hurt, all ofus get hurt. Dr. King said it in a more engraved style: "It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important." Laws don’t prevent crime or change the minds of the incorrigible, but laws do provide a way to legally make it uncomfortable for prejudice and violence to be acted out against minorities. ~is is one reason our enemies are very anxious that hate crimes bills that include language for the protection ofsexual orientation and gender presentation are not passed either at the Federal or state level. Our opponents claim such laws would limit speech and hamper the free exercise of religion. But as Rep Barhey Dank (Mass.) said earlier in December, 2008 at a Victory Fund luncheon, these laws are directed at actions ofviolence not at xvords; expression is not the target ofhate crimes laws, but physica! behavior is. (http://tinyurl.com/5963au) Yes, we truly live in the age ofOrwell xvhere words can be wolves in sheep’s clothing. We read ofMormon and Catholic spokespeople offended by the peaceful protests ofgay/lesbian supporters in reaction to losing the November Prop. 8 vote in California. It seems these t~vo denominations that gave much of the money fueling the thei~ ofa civil right in California were surprised by the bacHash to the imposition of their religious dogma on the non-member citizens of California ( http:/itinyurl.com/6qp2xz ), (http://tinyurl.com/6215gd). To me, it looks as ifthe First Amendment establishment clause is being ignored because there are some denominations that ~vill perform same-gender marriages yet their religious freedom is being abridged by the passage ofProp 8. And just why does prejudice and discrimination seem to originate with bible-trumpeting homo-haters ? Could it be because they already live in a ddusional world of superstition and make-believe, offairy stories about sky-based good things, and dark-and-dirty ground-based bad things ? Could it be because they still live in the world ofBronze Age nomads ~vho had no science and no concept ofa world beyond the horizon they could walk toward in a day? The current (I hesitate to call them "modern day") generation offtmdies lives in a world of technology and communication that would seem like godly magic to their Abrahamic ancestors. They use this science to disperse their simplistic balderdash that’s rooted in desert-wandering myths and witch-doctoring and think nothing ofthe plain evidence and contradictions that shows them to be deeply deluded and ignorant. "Ihe last hundred years have passed them by and disproved the ancient runes and cabals they so desperately need to explain their conflicting childhood dreams ofomnipotent, omniscient super heroes rescuing them from death and oblivion. Personally I don’t care what they do as consenting adults in the privacy of their religious establishments or even on the public street corner. However, no group has the legal prover to impose religious dogma in the law books ofany state or Federa! code. There continues to be a principle ofseparation ofchurch and state, equality and liberty for all, that is paramount to the continuation of this country as it was founded. African-Americans, Native Americans, and women have gained their civil equality in spite of the restrictions originally written in the Constitution and later remedied by Amendments. So far, 30 states have amendments or laws forbidding same-gender marriage in addition to the alleged "Defense ofMarriage Act" (DOMA). Two states have understood the rights ofgays and lesbians to have civil marriage, Massachusetts and Connecticut, with a handful ofstates having various marriage-like rights available but not the real thing. Close, but no cigar! Just as Plessy ~: Ferguson was overturned by Brown v. Board ofEducation ending educational segregation; just as Bowers v. Hardwick was overturned by Lawrence and Garner v. Texas removing sodomy laws from enforcement, just as Colorado’s Amendment 2 was overturned with Romer v. Evans, we can look forward to our day in a courtroom as well as the court of public opinion. Although Frederick Douglass was disappointed by the 1857 Dredd Scott decision that refused full citizenship to free blacks as well as slaves, he found a reason to look forward, saying, "My hopes were never brighter than now." Slavery was brought to forefront ofthe country and the unsavory ownership ofpeople could no longer be ignored. Though we gay citizens are not owued physically, our social and economic prospects are curtailed. Thanks to our enemies, our own equality prospects been brought to the forefront and our equality will be won. Straights and Homophobes: lae Words hat Bind Us. By Gerald Libonati Language shapes our self-image and some of the words we use are misleading, inadequate or just plain wrong. Take the word straig!at, for instance. "We use it to describe heteros; men and women who are not gay or lesbian. And every time we use the term we indirectly insult ourselves. What does the word mean in our society? Straight means proper, upstanding, law-abiding and decent. Are ~oruugbs,eiynogu’srterasitgrahitgwhti.thIfmyoeu, ’rreefegrosotdo,hyoonuetsrta)v:eWl thheenstyroaiug’rhet-oafnfdnarrow. ’Damn straight’ means emphatically right, unequiv0- cally correct. So ifheteros are straight what does that make us - crooked, dishonest, drugged and apparently indecent ? We need to think ofourselves in a way that reflects the goodness and quality that exists within our ranks, g[e are terrific people and we may as well acknowledge that in our language. Another word that completely escaped our gaydar is the term homophobia. We use it to define prejudice against gay and lesbian people. But it just doesn’t seem to be up to the job. It’s weak and ambiguous. When we talk about someone who dislikes others based on their skin color we call them racist. Much stronger word. Phobic people, in general, tend to be fearful but polite. People who openly disapprove ofgay/lesbian folks are neither. Are we too nice when ~ve describe our critics in such an affable way? Homophobic! Doesn’t sound so bad. Surely, the terms they have for us are more forthright. Who thought of calling hatred a phobia, anyway? Ac,t,t}ally, it was psychologist George Weinberg in his 1972book Society and the Healthy Honaosexual:’ He was tapping into the theory that violence toward gay people came about because of a fear of homosexuality, especially by those repressing their own same-sex urges. But what about all the other gay bashers who aren’t reacting to their inner homo ? The rest ofthe world has already learned that words define us to others and molds our selfqmage. That’swhy secretaries are executive assistants and garbage men are sanitation engineers. GeraM Libonati is the author afthe neu, novel Pete*" [’Vo~7 the storr af:a fiam°uv.~Ta ro& star who ~oes incognito mfind love. He ~s an award-winningjournalist in &uth £1orig, workingfir the Sun-SentineL He has also wri~enJbr ~e .~iiami He,ald, ~e dd~ocam andfi’egznce~jbrgaT/tesbian newspapers around t,~e munW. 10 ~,~÷t~oSTAR January 2009 ROBERT MATSON’S LATEST EPIC "A GATHERING" AND HIS NEW NTURES UPCOMING By Victor Gorin Photo: RobertMatson by Victor Go,qn OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Lyric’s Plaza Theater hosted a unique play with A Gathering, but Robert is a playwright where one can count on non-convention. After all he brought us Tails of the Closet and Drama Q~eens, and even a masculine answer to the Vagina Monologues entitled Beneath the Zipper, which celebrated the penis. But who ~v0~ld have expdcted agay thriller on stage, with seat edging suspense that would have awed Agatha Christie herself? But there it was, entitled A Gathering, where 9 gay men are trapped on an isolated island, cut offffom the outside world, and there is a killer or killers among them. With a scenario almost identical to Agatha Christie’s novel, "And then there were None," it starts offfun and campy with the wisecracking antics ofToW "Toneisha" Hayes ( portrayed by Chris Castleberry) who was supposed to be drag entertainment but instead was the first to go. Then there was the hard drinking Dr. James Armstrong ( portrayed by Timothy Stewart), a self proclaimed bisexual who was enamored with Toneisha ~vhile she lasted. The play ends in surprise as character Neil Lawrence ( portrayed by Jerome Stevenson) turns out to be the killer, and concludes with his suicide and that of the last left one left alive, the handsome resort employee Courmey Claythorne( portrayed by Scott Hynes), who xvas left xvith the bitter choice ofself destruction or being accused of murdering all the others when the authorities eventually arrived. What inspired this wild tale ? W’ell, besides Agatha Christie, Mr. Matson added that "I love murder mysteries. I wanted to give Agatha’s story a different twist. This xvould be a great piece to work with, and how to make it xvork with 9 gay men. I worked on it for about 2 years." Although he has done past work with maW theater companies includingJewel Box, CityRep, Guthrie’s Pollard Theater & Carpenter Square, he is currently the Academy Administrator for Lyric Academy, which involves registration for acting classes taught there and he teaches adult acting classes as well. As for the fnture, he is working on" a couple things, including a loud gay comedy with Oklahoma ties to it." But that’s all he’ll say right now, so we can all be breathless with anticipation. someone whose defamatory and damaging anti-gay statements and vie~vs ... clearly divide rather than unite Americans." Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., called Obama’s move very disappointing. ~Religious leaders obviously have every right to speak out in opposition to anti-discrimination measures, even in the degrading terms that Rev. Warren has used with regard to same-sex marriage;’ Frank said. "But that does not confer upon them the right to a place ofhonor in the inauguration ceremony of a president whose stated commitment to LGBT rights won him the strong support ofthe great majority ofthose who support that cause:’ GeoffKors, executive director of Equality California, said he is so annoyed by Warren’s participation that he will boycott the inauguration. "I have decided to decline the invitation to attend the inauguration as I cannot be part ofa celebration that highlights and gives voice to someone who advocated repealing rights from me and millions ofother Californians;’ Kors said. "Rick Warren ... actively works to dMde Americans based on who we are and has been an ardent supporter of efforts to ostracize LGBT Americans:’ Speaking in support of California’s Proposition 8 before the November election, Warren said, "We should not let 2 percent of the population change a definition ofmarriage that has been supported by every single culture and every single religion for 5,000 years. In reality, many cultures over the past 5,000 years have embraced polygamy. More recently, Warren told Beliefnet.com that same-sex marriage is equivalent to "having a broth& anff Sist& b~ together ... an 01der ~ " and calling that a marriage... one gw having multiple wives and calling that marriage." (Warren: ’Tin opposed to the redefinition ofa 5,000-year definition ofmarriage. I’m opposed to having a brother and sister be together and call that marriage. I’m opposed to an older gny marrying a child and calling that a marriage. I’m opposed to one guy having multiple wives and calling that marriage:’ Interviewer: "You think those are equivalent to gays getting married?" Warren: "Oh, I do:’) Brooklyn man dies after probable ha e attack A Brooklyn man who was attacked with a baseball bat Dec. 7 as he walked arm in arm with his brother died on Dec. 12. Josd Sucuzhafia); a 31-year-old Ecuadorean immigrant, and his brother were walking together in Brooklyn’s Bushwick neighborhood after a night out when three black men shouting nationa anti-gay and anti-Latino slurs jumped from an SUV and broke a beer bottle over Sucuzhafiay’s head, beat him with a bat and kicked him. The brother, Romel, escaped down the street, then returned to the scene and scared offthe attackers by telling them he’d phoned police on his cell phone. Police are investigating the killing as a hate crime and are offering a $27,000 award for information leading to apprehension of the assailants. On Dec. 13, hundreds ofprotesters marched from a Bushwick park to the site of the attack. Hundreds ofprotesters marched in Brooklyn Dec. 13 after an Ecuadorean man who was walkinga~n in arm with h# brother was attacked with a baseball bat and later died. 2he assailants shouted ann’-gay slurs. Photo byJoeJervis. www.metrostarnews.com [~Ie~°oSTAR 11 @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Steve’s Hideaway, Tulsa @Club 209, Tulsa @ ~e Second Chance Animal Sanctuary @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa @Angles, Oklahoma City @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ The Ledo, Oklahoma City CLUB 209 HOSTS PHOTOGPHERVINCENT SCOTT Ok ahomans for Equality art gallery opens Josh New photo e libit By Judy Gabbard Arches by Photographer Hncent Scott Photography Art byJosh New TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center art gallery starts a new year ofit’s monthly First Thursday meetthe- artist receptions featuring photographs from native Tulsa resident Josh New. The reception will be held Thursday, January 1st, 2009, from 6-9pm. Josh New, a teacher ofJapanese at Booker T Washington High School, is currently a graduate student at the University of Tulsa in photography. TULSA, OK__ Dennis Olson, owner ofDoArt Worlds, sponsored the opening of "Pioneering Seas6n" featuring the photography ofVincent Scott at Club 209, Tulsds Arts Bar in the historical Brady District. Club 209 features various artists throughout the year. The Club is also a great place to enjoy local entertainment on weekends, such as Vallerie Star Light Rock + Acoustic, Rebecca Ungerma~i with the Frank Brown Trio and the Three Penny Upright, A Little Bluegrass. Visit Club 209 on the web at www.club209tulsa.com for monthly updates on art exhibits and entdrtainment. Vincent Scott is a world traveled photographer whose eye for the beauty in our world, has thrilled many onlookers coast to coast. Dennis Olson, an artist in his own right, chose to sponsor these photographs because ofMr. Scott’s photographic eye and production techniques. To contact Dennis Olson emaih do@ doart~vorld.org. The opening night was an exciting experience of fine art, flowing wine and the admiration’ ofhundreds ofguest. After graduating from Oklahoma State, Mr. New worked in Japan for three years, where he developed a love oftravel and the exotic. Since then he has traveled to many countries and discovered a talent in photography. That love and talent has brought Inm to TU to ~rther hone his s-kill aa~d allow hu~ the freedom to experiment aa~d take his photographs further than just glorified vacation photos. "My photographs have been, more than anything, my attempt to control and catalog the world around me’; states New. "I’m moving in a direction where I am starting to manipulate my images to illuminate my thoughts and ideas, but they primarily remain shots ofthe patterns and vibrant colors I see around me. This exhibit is a sampling ofboth photos I have taken on my journeys and the first steps in my attempt to, essentially, photograph my thoughts, which also seem to be constructed in colors and patterns" The exhibit will remain up through the month ofJanuary, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. Community Fellowship "A place where you can be who God created you to be andfriendghips becomefamily" ors ip Experience Sund s 5:30 p.m. Pastor Neill @urgin Pasto ressionsOKC, corn (~05) 761-1878 "~w.ExpressionsOKC.com Meeting at Lansbrook ~¢ent Center 6009 NWE~pressway Oklahoma Cio~, OK Calif. Attorney General Brown: Prop 8 is invalid by Rex g¢ockne~ In a stunninglegal move, California Attorney General Jerry Brown formally urged the California Supreme Court to invalidate Proposition 8 on Dec. 19 because, in re-banning sanaesex couples from marrying, the voter-approved constitutional amendment deprived people of an aspect ofliberty that the Supreme Court previously had concluded is guaranteed by the California Constitution. Ordinarily, it is the attorney geqeral’s job to defend the state’s laws, not attack them. "Proposition 8 must be invalidated because the amendment process cannot be used to extinguish fundamental constitutional rights without compelling justification;’ Brown said in a statement. "There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundaanental rights;’ he added in an interview xvith the San Jose Mercury News. "Ifevery fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty:’ Rejecting recent arguments submitted to the state Supreme Court by gay-rights lawyers, Brown concluded that existing case-law precedents ofthe court do not invalidate Proposition 8 either as an improper revision of the state constitution or as a violation ofthe separation-of-provers doctrine. But that does not resolve the matter; he said. In its May 15 decision legalizing same-sex marriage, the state Supreme Court "held that article I, section 1 ofthe California Constitution provides a right to marry that cannot be denied to same-sex couples;’ Brown’s office said. "In order to invalidate such a fundamental right, the court must determine that there is a compelling justification to do so. But in (its decision), the court found that no such compelling justification exists. Accordingly, Proposition 8 must be stricken." "~ae use ofthe (ballot) initiative power to take avcay a legal right deemed by this Court to be fundamental and from a group defined by a suspect classification is a matter ofgrave concern;’ Brown said in his brief to the court. "Proposition 8 should be invalidated as violating the inalienable right ofliberty found in article I, section 1 ofour Constitution." In its May decision, the state Supreme Court struck dmwa the state’s opposite-sex definition ofmarriage as unconstitutional, citing a fundamental right to marry under the state constitution and the constitution’s guarantee ofequal protection under the lav,r, The court further determined -- in a move that legal analysts said was unprecedented for a supreme court -- that any discrimination based on sexual orientation is constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiny by courts, which made it dramatically harder for any level ofgovernment in California to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. This was accomplished by the court’s declaring sexual orientation to be, like race and religion, a so-called "suspect classification" -- a categorization that forces any government in California that treats GLB people differently in any way to prove it has a specific compelling interest, rather than a mere rational basis, for doing so. While Prop 8 wiped out the part of the court’s decision that legalized same-sex marriage, it did not alter the more ground- ,b,reaking part of the ruling that found sexual orientatiT~n to be a suspect classification. Gay rights lawyers said back in May that the suspect-classification determination would prove to be even more ofa game-changer for California gays in the long run than xvas the decision to legalize same-sex marriage. IfBrown’s argument passes muster with the state Supreme Court, that prediction will have been borne out. Equality California Executive Director GeoffKors praised Brown’s court brief and its novel argument. "He just demonstrated the ldnd ofleadership that isn’t motivated bypolitical expediency but by what is right," said the head of the state’s leading gay lobby group. HIV diagnoses among European gay men nearly double since 2000 HIV diagnoses among men who have sex with men (MSM) increased 86 percent in 23 European countries between 2000 and 2006 -- from 3,003 cases to 5,571 cases -- according tO a report in the journal Sexually Transmitted Infections. Researchers from the EuroHIV program analyzed data from 24 of the 27 member nations of the European Union along with data from Iceland, Norway and Switzerland, and compared those figures with similar year-2000 data gathered from 23 nations. There were 7,693 ne,v HIV cases reported overall among MSM in 2006, ofwhich 2,597 occurred in the United Kingdom. Other nations with high diagnosis rates included the Netherlands, Luxembourg, Portugal and Switzerland. Much lower rates ofMSM diagnoses were found in Hungary, Lithuania and Slovenia, even though Hungary saw a 118 percent increase over 2000 and Slovenia saw a 257 percent increase. Four nations saw a decline in new HIV diagnoses among MSM over the six-year period: Cyprus, Iceland, Lithuania and Luxembourg (though Luxembourg’s rate is still high). The researchers said stepped-up HIV testing may have affected the statistics to some degree, meaning an increase in diagnoses may not correlate precisely ~vith an increase in actual infections. They also suggested that infections may be increasing as HIV-positive men who have sex with men live longer and remain sexually active and presumably able to pass on the virus. Other findings included: * In 20 countries, the percentage ofMSM who had full-blown AIDS at the time oftheir HIV diagnosis decreased from 25 percent in 2000 to t0 percent in 2006. * In 30 countries, full-blown AIDS diagnoses decreased from 2,422 in 2000 to 1,445 in 2006. * In those same countries, HIV-related deaths decreased 57 percent over the period, from 876 in 2000 to 373 in 2006. "’qge have reported a recent increase in the number ofHIV diagnoses among MSM in nearly all (European) countries, and in some countries this probably" represents a true increase in incidence;’ the researchers said. "This, combined with the high prevalence ofHIV reported in many gay community settings, the high prevalence ofHIV among MSM diagnosed with STI (sexually transmitted infection) and the high sexual mobility of this population, highlight the need for a Europewide HIV prevention strategy:’ Wockner News Service Sweden to strike six sexual diagnoses from list Sweden’s National Board ofHealth and Welfare will strike six sexual diagnoses from the nation’s official list ofmedical diagnoses onJan. 1, Stocldaolm’s ~ae Local newspaper reported. The agency will remove transvestism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sadomasochism, gender-identity disorder in youth and multiple disorders ofsexual preferences from the list. "W’e don’t want to contribute to certain sexual behaviors being thought ofas diseases," said board director Lars-Erik Holm. "These diagnoses are rooted in a time when everything other th~ the heterosexual missionary position was seen as sexual perversions." Homosexuality was removed from the list 30 years ago. Australian Parliament gives gay couples equal rights Australia’s Senate and House of Representatives passed legislation in late November that changes some 100 laws to give gay couples equal rights. The measure now goes to the Governor-General for formal approval. The changes, introduced by the federal government, extend spousal rights to same-sex de facto couples in areas such as health care, ’ taxation, pensions, parenting, public benefits, workplace benefits, workers’ compensation, veterans’ affairs, elder care and educational assistance. "At long last we have removed discrimination against same-sex couples from commonwealth law;’ said Attorney-General Robert McClelland. Gay campaigners cheered the.move but said gay couples will not have complete equality until they can get married. Chinese gay HIV cases increase The percentage ofgay men in China ~vho are HIV-positive increased from 0.4 percent in 2005 to 4.9 percent this year, the Ministry of Health said Nov. 28. But straight sex remains the predominant way HIV is transmitted in China, accounting for 40 percent ofnew infections, compared with 28 percent from IV drug use and 5 percent from gay sex. The gay statistics were based on data collected from 18,000 gay men in more than 60 cities. China has recorded a total of260,000 HIV cases, 77,000 AIDS cases and 34,000 AIDSrelated deaths. Burundi’s parliament votes to ban gay sex The parliament of the Central African nation ofBurundi voted to specifically criminalize gay sex Nov. 22 as part ofa package ofmore than 600 legal changes that included abolition ofthe death penalty, news reports said. According to Amnesty International, male, male sex previously was banned and,ptmished under laxvs governing "immoral acts. The vote on the changes was 90 to 0 with 10 abstentions. The measure now moves to the Senate, then to President Pierre Nkurunziza. Neither is expected to oppose it. The small, landlocked nation has a population of 8.7 million, a life expectancy ofless than 52 years, and a per capita gross domestic product at purchasing-power parity of $300. ~l-he comparable figure for the U.S. is $45,800. Norway’s is $ 53,300, Mexico’s is $12,400 and Vietnam’s is $2,600. 80% ofSouth A ricans thimk gay sex is wrong Despite a constitutional ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation and its being one of only six nations where same-sex couples can marry, South Africa remains deeply homophobic, a new survey has found. The Human Sciences Research Council’s annual South African Social Attitudes Survey, released Nov. 24, found that 80 percent of respondents think gay sex is wrong. Whites, city dwellers and highly educated people polled less anti-gay than blacks, "coloureds" (mixed-race people), people with less education and those living in rural areas, the Sunday Times reported. Britain to count gay populafion Britain’s Office for National Statistics is going to count the gay population. Starting in January, a sexual-orientation question will be included in several of the office’s routine surveys, leading to an eventual estimate of the size of the nation’s gay community. Respondents will choose from heterosexual/ straight, gay/lesbian, bisexual or "other" -- or can opt not to answer. Officials say the results will be useful for gauging levels of discrimination and unequal treatment and addressing those problems. The signatories overcame strong opposition from a group ofgovernments that routinely try to block UN attention to issues ofsexual orientation and gender identity. Fifty-seven nations signed an alternative statement, promoted by the Organization of the Islamic Conference, that affirmed the "principles of non-discrimination and equality," but said universal human rights do not include "the attempt to focus on the rights ofcertain persons" because "the notion oforientation spans a wide range of persona] choices that expand way beyond the individual’s sexual interest in copulatory behavior with normal consenting adult human beings, thereby ushering in the social normalization, and possibly legitimization ofmany deplorable acts: ~ae countries that signed the pro-gay statement are Mbania, Andorra, Argentina, Armenia, Australia, Austria, Belgium, Bolivia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Canada, Cape Verde, Central African Republic, Chile, Colombia, Croatia, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Ecuador, Estonia, Finland, France, Gabon, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guinea-Bissau, Hungary, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Italy, Japan, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Montenegro, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Nicaragua, Norway, Paraguay, Poland, Portugal, Romania, San Marino, S~o Tomd and Prlncipe, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, The Former Yugoslav Republic ofMacedonia, Timor-Leste, unite~Kingd0m, Uruguay ~Venezueta~ ..... The United States refused to sign the statement, saying its broad language could reach into areas that fall outside of federal jurisdiction, such as the right of each U.S. state to define marriage. qt is altogether shameful that on this 60th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the Bush administration should take one final swipe at the universal application ofhuman rights for all;’ said Julie Dorfof the Council for Global Equality. "The shoe incident in Iraq last week painfully shows us how low this country has sunk in the world’s view." Gays march in Hong Kong £or first time Hong Kong saw its first gay pride parade Dec. 13. About 1,000 people marched, including many who came from Taiwan and mainland China. ~he two-mile procession traversed Hennessy Road in the city center. Attendance may have been positively, influenced by news reports before the parade, when Hong Kong’s biggest bus company refused to rent a double-decker bus to pride organizers. 14 Janua~ 2009 Larry: I see it as being a representative, not just for OGRA or the gay community but also the State of Oklahoma. We go to other states and other rodeos and meet a lot ofpeople. Also important is our fund-raising, which is one ofthe reasons I went for this title. Victor: This fund-raising not only helps the charities themselves, but I’m sure you also see it as promoting the positive image ofthe GLBT people in the cowboy lifestyle. Larry: It think it has, and I think a lot ofyoung people have gotten interested in it because ofthe fund-raising, shows and related activity. Also people see you don’t have to be a full fledged cmvboy, just interested in die country lifestyle and having fun. Victor: Although the world is changing, OGRA still defies sonle stereotypica! beliefs.. Photo by Chaz competition is asgreatfor the Cowgirls and Cowboys at OGR~4’~; Great PLains Rodeo as an), other rodeo. Larry: Strangely enough, there are still people we encounter who are shod~ed that there are gay cowboys, that they even exist. They have interesting questions, such as "Are the rodeos really rodeos ? .... Do you really ride horses ?" Victor: Have you ever really roped a cow ? Larry: Yes I have, nay parents have owned ranches and I have roped cows, branded cattle, pulled calves, done all diat. Victor: You grew up in a small town? Larry: Ha}wcorth, a small town not far from Idabel. g[e lived on a f~trm there, went to school, did our chores, slopped the hogs, fed the chickens, took care ofthe horses. We even rode our horses to school when the buses couldn’t get through. Victor: So you had a typical growing up there ? Larry: Yes, but my family moved around a lot, and I experienced city life as well. I got involved ~vitll the gay community after I graduated from O!dahonia Christian University ofEdmond witli a degree of Marketing & Business. After moving back to IdabeI, my first gay bar experience was the Roundup in Dallas. I soon began working with HIV organizations including the Mariah Foundation, Carepoint, and with the OHahoma State Health Department. Victor: But the shining star ofOGRA is the Great Plains Rodeo, which has been held at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds for many years as a Memorial Day weekend celebration. Larry: More and more people are coming to that and really having fun. Some people are surprised that our rodeos are truly the same "kind ofrodeos, although we do feature goat dressing and sometimes other campy events thrown in. Victor: What impact do you think t~he movie Brokeback Mountain had on the gay community, society in general, and in particular gay cowboys ? Larry: Really it brought the gay community into the mainstream, that there was more to the gay community than an urbaaa community ofdrag queens & flamboyant individuals, to see them as regular people with difficulties we all face in real life. It made the gay cowboys feel more accepted, to let them kalow they can be themselves. It also educated the urban gay community of the problems rural gays face. Victor: ~¢¢’here do you see die future ofOGRA? Larry: When OGRA began we were teaming up witl~ other states, and now we’re doing one the largest rodeos on our own. Ofcourse we’d like to see more people volunteer, but to put tllis on with the resources we have shows a true hardworking spirit of Oklahomans. Victor: How long have you been in Oklahoma City ? Larry: Seven years, and I have felt good seeing the increased interest in OGRA and the friends I have made there. I have been glad to hear from out oftowners how impressed they are that the various parts ofthe gay communit); the disco crowd, drag queens, the cowboys, the lesbians, get along so well together compared to other places. Victor: So how do people learu more about OGRA? Larry: ~lere~ our website ~a-,wv.ogra.net, to learn what we’re doing, about our events, and other related organizations & chatrooms where one can talk with other cowboys and learn even more. There’s room for all types ofpeople and talent, lesbians, gay" men and we also have some straight members. There you have it, a proud tradition now 23 years young derived from the frontier spirit ofOklahoma. The GLBT community ofOklahoma can look forward to ~vhat OGRA can do for our future. Connecticut unlikely to amend constitution on marriage Connecticut voters strong!y oppose anaending the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage, according to a QEinnipiac University poll released Dec. 17. The poll of 1,445 registered voters found that 61 percent oppose an anlendment and only 33 percent support it. Same-sex couples began marrying in Connecticut on Nov. 12 after the state Supreme Court ruled that offering gay couples onbi civil unions violated the state constitution’s guarantee of equal protection under the law. The poll found dlat 52 percent ofvoters agreed with the Supreme Court’s decision, 39 percent did not and 9 percent had no opinion. The poll’s margin oferror was plus or minus 2.6 percentage points. MERI Day ofService to Provide for Foster Children in Rhode Island & Arkansas RHODE ISLAND (PR) Dec 8 __ As Marriage Equality Rh6de Island (MERI) made a commitment to community service this holiday season it couldn’t help but acknovdedge sorrow at the passage ofAct 1 in Arkansas, a thinly veiled attack on the gay community that bans unmarried couples from adopting children or serving as foster parents. Although the Arkansas state motto calls for both "Mercy andJustice; neither was demonstrated by proponents ofthis legislation which harms families and children. MERI fights for the rights and protection ofall families in seeking marriage equality for Rhode Island’s GLBT residents. On \Vednesday, December 10 MERI xvas at the State House to collect items for not only" the RI Food Bank, Crossroads, Amos House mid the IRIE Transitional Home for women and children, but also the foster children ofArkansas xvhose wishes for new families have been curtailed. Mayor Dani Joy ofEureka .... Springs, Arkansas accepted and distributed RI donations. In her letter to MERI, Joy stated, "I am greatly honored that your organization would focus your energy and compassion on our many children that receive foster care throughout our state. With the passage ofAct I our state is left with a large number ofchildren that are either in need offoster care, or currently in foster care... Again, let me say that I am in axve ofyour compassion during this holiday, season. We are truly grateful," File Photo Eureka Springs Birayor DaniJoy Food bank requests included boxed and canned goods, pmvered and evaporated milk, potato flakes, cereal, oatmeal, pasta, rice, soup, condiments, crackers, tuna, peanut butter, jelly/jam and juice. Amos House needs coffee and personal hygiene items. Crossroads could use slippers, hats, mittens, gloves and scarves for men, women and children (4 mos - 18). The young women and their children living at the IRIE Transitional Program, under the auspices of the RI Foster Parent Association (RIFPA) learn skills to improve their lives mid break the cycle ofpoverty. Ten teens ages 16-20 and their 7 children, ages 4 months - 6 years, live in the facility. Contact MERI for items noted on the IRIE wish list. MERI Day ofService partners include RI Pride, inFOCUS and the Gay Straight Alliance ofWarwick Veteran’s Memorial High School. For raore information, contact Susan MacNeil at smacneil@ marriageequalityri.org or by calling 401-463-5368 www.metrostarnews.com ~÷t~oSTAR 15 We have a lot to celebrate including the January 20th date for President elect Obama. This year may be the start of something big for each of us and our personal endeavors. This is truly a time to click our glasses together. Here is a litde about sparkling wines from France and Spain Champagne French monks were the first to bottle a sparkling forra ofwine called Champagne, named after the Champagne region ofFrance. The method of making "mousse" (another name fbr bubbles) in a bottle was invented by the efforts ofD~reJean Oudart (1654 - 1742) and Dora Pierre Pdrignon (1639 - 1715), Benedictine monks and cellarmasters at the respective abbeys of Saint-Pierre aux Monts de Chalons and Saint-Pierre d’Hautvillers, The region ofChampagne has a colder and shorter growing season. Champagne grapes had to be picked late in the year, with less time available for fermentation. During fermentation yeasts are used to convert the sugars of the grape juice into alcohol and cold winter temperatures stopped the process. The monks developed a method of making Champagne wine by using a second fermentation process that took place in the bottle during the following spring. The second fermentation created carbon-dioxide bubbles that are the sparkle of Champagne. Cava A Spanish sparkling wine is called Cava and was first made as early as 1851, although the true roots ofthe Cava wine industry can be traced back to Josd Raventos’ travels through Europe in the 1860s, where he was promoting the still wines ofhis Codorniu winery. His visits to the Champagne region sparked an interest in the potential of a Spanish version Happy fmay noF fi~ ~yeryqne s budget, and its super New ~.... " DPoenr~lgnon. 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Accordin~ t.o S.pan.ish.wine laws, Cava cache C0dorniu Cava Brut/ SparHing wines f"rom produced m s:x wine [eg~ous ~such as A~:md} ~pain can be among the most interesting in de Duero, Navarra and ~oja)but 95% ~f taste. ~ey’re usually fi-uit forward & quite Spanish Cava production takes affbrdable; Pene&s region. In order for the wines called "Card’ they must be made in tional m&hode champenoise. Wines the lmv-cost "Charmat process" may called "Spanish sparkling wine". Food Champagne tends to ers or opening courses in a well with shellfish like ofcourse gegura Viudas Cava Brut Reserva This writer is one ofthe manager~ at the Grand Vin wine shop. He also bar tends and hosts wine & food events known in town as dae Enthusiasts ofTulsa. 9fwine byJames Laube/ This months recipe courtesy of: Shrimp Verde Ingredients: ] pound thin linguine, cappelini or PRIMI PI?~TTI 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil I Bag Spinach 1 Pound Shrimp-fresh ot fi’ozen- shelled and &veined 2 Cloves Garlic 8 tablespoons thatsanice "VERDE" basil pesto crema sauce To prepare: Boil water in large pot with splash ofsalt and drop of oil to keep pasta from.sticking -pasta as directed on package making sure not to overcook, drain, set aside Sautd olive oil, gatlic and spinach about 5-10 minutes, add fresh or defrosted shrimp and sautd in mixture until pink!orange in color. Add thatsanice! "VERDE" and mix together, pour entire mLxture over pasta and toss making sure pasta is evenly coated. If desired, top with some grated Parmesan cheese (although strict old school Italians frmvn on putting cheese over seafood but it tastes good !) Serving ideas: Serve as a first course with a fish entrde like halibut or swordfish like s )ver [en& modern traditional flavors. Ifyou y from them and they offer f~atured on many television shows including the Food Network and have been featured in nmen At The BOK Center Tulsa Brad Paisley Jan 24, 2009 at BOK Center With special guests! Dierks Bentley Darius Rucker Ticket Prices: $39.75 & $46.75 Tickets On Sale Now Cdine Dion Feb 2, 2009 at BOK Center RESCHEDULED DATE! MONDAY, FEBRUARY 2, 2009 All tickets previously purchased for the original date will be honored. Refunds xvill be available at point ofpurchase. Time: 8:00pm Doors: 7:00pm Ticket Prices: $167.00, $127.00, $77.00, $49.50 ~hlsa is one of45 cites and the only city in Oklahoma on this tour. 2q~roughout her career, Celine has been honored with over 1000 Awards, including Grammys, Oscars, Golden Globes, World Music, Juno and Felix Awards. She is the biggest-selling female artist ofall time. Billy Joel & Elton John Mar 17, 2009 at BOK Center Billy Joel & Elton John Face 2 Face Tour March 17, 2009 7:30pro Tickets On Sale Now There is no presale for this concert Ticket Prices: $179, $99, $53.50 Billy Joel and Elton John, the most successful and longest-running concert pairing in pop history! Billy and Elton open the concert with a series ofduets, playing tvcin pianos and trading vocals. Each artist then performs a set with his own band. A grand finale brings the two superstars and their supporting musicians ba& together for a dosing encore. This includes some of both Billy and Elton’s greatest hits along with an unpredictable selection ofrock and roll classics. INSIDE HOLLYWOOD By Romeo San Vicente Deep Inside Hollywood, which reports on a new project for Margaret Cho and Kal Penn Cho and Penn Unite for Sisters Q~eer-identified entertainer Margaret Cho is quite the Renaissance svoman- she’s a stand-up comic, author, actress, blogger, and activist. And now she can add "director" to her resume with Two Sisters, her feature debut. Ifyou were expecting something racy from the potty-mouthed comedian, forget it; the movie is slated to premiere on ABC Family. Plot details are being kept under wraps, but Cho has assembled an impressive cast, including Kal Penn (from the Harold and Kumar movies, as xvell as The Namesake) and the gorgeous Tamlyn Tomita (who recently popped up on Heroes), plus Kathy Najimy (King of the Hill) and Elaine Hendrix (Tru Loved, The Parent Trap). As for the lady herself, Cho will also appear in a small role. Look for Two Sisters to make its premiere on ABC Family in 2009. Pee-wee Comes Back to the Playhouse ~Pnere are a lot ofunanswered questions floating around about Pee-wee’s Playhouse: Ti~e Movie, like "Is it really happening?" and "Is Johnny Depp playing Pee-wee ?" So far the only certainty is that Paul Reubens, ~vho, than!ffull); is still in charge ofPeexvee Inc., is jump-starting this cash cow one more time and is working on the goal ofa 2009 release date for the slow-moving production. Plot details are few and up for debate. Casting, too. (Who’ll replace the late Phil Hartanan? What happened to the guy who played the unambiguously gayJambi ? Will S. Epatha Merkerson return as Reba the Mail Lady? Please?) But all will surely be answered eventually, possibly via ticker-tape readout from Conky the Robot’s torso. And ifJohnny Depp shows up, even as a Pee-wee doppelganger, that’s just fine, too. Now ifthe cameras would only hurry up and roll. No, Really: Lesbian Vaanpire Killers Whether it’s Snakes on a Plane or ~Pne Incredibly Strange Creatures Who Stopped Living and Became Mixed-Up Zombies!!?, a movie’s title can sometimes tell you everything you need to knm,: And so it is with Lesbian Vampire Killers, a new British horror-comedy about a Welsh village whose xvomen have been cursed by the local Sapphic bloodsuckers. In aa~ attempt to improve matters, the tovcn sends txvo hapless visitors (played by James Corden and Mathew Home, the stars ofthe BBC sitcom Gavin & Stacey) into the woods as a sacrifice to the titular undead. The film also features Paul McGann (Withnail & I, Doctor Who) as one of the few remaining men in the village. Lesbian Vampire Killers ~vill put the bite on audiences in 2009. Next Christmas, Make the Yuletide Gay Romeo loves a good holiday dassic, and some gay filmmakers obviously feel the same way about the genre, with Make the Yuletide Gay now going into production. O.Eueer actor Adamo Ruggiero (who played out-and-eventually-proud Marco on Degrassi: ~e Next Generation) and Allison Arngrim (best known as frontier mean girl Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie) will don their gay apparel for this coraedy about what happens when a guy who’s not out to his faanily goes home for the holidays and then has to explain the sudden appearance of his boyfriend. Yuletide also features Ian Buchanan (Twin Peaks) and gay" indie-fihn vets Derek Long (Socket) and Steve Callahan (East Side Story). Look for Make the Yuletide Gay to pop up at around the same time as 2009 Advent calendars. w,~w.metrostarnews.com ~etroSTAR 17 by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "T VELING AND MEETING PEOPLE" Photo: Donald Pile & Ray Williams Since we are always telling our readers to "Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone" we decided to devote this travel column to the fabulous and interesting people that we have met and dealt with, in our travels. These, ~ve will list in no particular order and they live from coast to coast. Hizabeth Taylor has always been so gracious to remember our anniversaries and holidays. We have so many to list in Palm Springs. There is Jim Doyle &Jerry Efron, Tyke, Wayne, Millie, Shirley, Jim LaMarrina, Ken & Grant, Tom & Doug at the Terrazzo, Burt XWahquist, artists Robert Sharer & Giorgio and restaurateurs, Sol and Chris ~vho we first met when they owned a B & B in San Francisco and now mvn a restaurant in Puerto Vallarta and also own a home in Pahn Springs. In New ~%rk City, Jean- Claude Baker, the exciting owner ofChez Josephine’s Restaurant, author Tom Monsell, play- ~vright Matthew Lom- Photo: Chq~G~r!os at the Hi-Life bardo C,~e in Ft. Lauderdale (Tea at Five and Looped) and movie director/producer Rick McKay. His movie "Broadway: The Golden Age" is a terrific movie. In Florida, the famous portrait photographer Jack Mitchell & Bob Pavlik, entertainers Auntie Marne, ToW & Gloria, the best jazz duo and Miguel Reyna, who without a doubt is the finest piano entertainer/singer that we have ever met! and the lovely and extremely talented Faye Harrod and her friend Gloria Delro); Casey Koslowki, owner; Herb Pianin, General Manager; Peter Mehas, Guest Services Manager and the entire staff at the Grand Resort and Spa in Ft. Lauderdale who operates the finest gay resort in the country, Chuck Smith and ChefCarlos at the Hi-Lit~ Care, Alan Beck & Nick and Norma. Also in Ft. Lauderdale, Al & Tom and Steve & Ells~vorth and the deceased fabulous pianist/entertainer, Houston, and then dear, dears friends, Ed Hayes &John Dunne in St. Petersburg who are truly delightful. And there are the people that we have met quite by accident who have become dear friends such as Ginny & Willy in Florida, Kala & Frank, the absolutely ~beyond Fabulous" owners of the Luna Vista B and B in Rimrock, Arizona, Michael McFall & Luis Gonzalez in Phoenix, ChefMarcdlino and his fabulous wife Sima, owners ofMarcellino Ristorante in Phoenix, Gordon & Kin at the Inn of the 410 in Flagstaff who are super special guys and Charlotte Welch and her daughter Katie in Flagstaff. In Billings, Montana we met Barbara Hill, a wonderful entertainer who has "come OUt~ no not lesbian, but "just simply came out to life" and has found true happi- ,- ness at last. We Photo: Actor LeslieJordan just wish that everybody could find themselves like she did. In St. Louis, Michael Lance &JeffArchuleta, owners ofNapoleons’ Retreat B & B where we first met the "fun couple; Smitty and Eddy in Mississippi who we will be seeing again on our way driving to Florida in January. They can’t help it because they were born straight! And then there is actor, Leslie Jordan, authors Christopher Rice and Robert Hofmann, filmmaker Craig Highberger, (Superstar In A Housedress) and filmmaker Mialyn Hanna (White Shadows). A new friend who ~ve are in contact with but haven’t actually met yet, author Louise Penny in Canada. Photo: Countess Alexis &Ray ~qlliams Also wonderful people like the Countess Mexis, the QEeen Diva who now" lives in Hollywood. She certainly epitomizes elegance and "old Hollywood", plaDvright Gene Danklin Smith and Steve Nycklemore, director of the Hollywood Museum, our good friend, Attorney Andrew Lee who now resides in Mexico, Dean Perkins (Crystal Chandelier) in New Hampshire, Rodger & J.T. in the Q.~ad cities, Chris X~alsh in San Francisco as wel! as gZalter Edgar, owner ofthe 24 Henry B&B and the Village House B&B in San Francisco. In Seatrle, Stephen Bennett, owner of the Gaslight Inn B and B and visiting there,ave met Tom & Doris Friedman from the Hamton’s in New York who ,are will visit When we are in New England next year. In Santa Fe, New Mexico, Ralph Bolton and Robert Frost, owners ofthe Inn ofthe Turquoise Inn. Four o~tstanding people are the late Dalee Henderson who was and is an inspiration to thousands ofpeople and to Raymond Bilbool, former owner ofthe Secret Garden B&B in West Hollywood and our dear friend Stefan Hemming, owner ofthe Liberace Estate in Palm Springs who hosted our 35th Anniversary two years ago and to Mel Haber, owner of Melvyn’s Restaurant and the Ingleside Inn in Palm Springs. Their lives have reached many. So here we are, two guys who live in the middle ofthe country who are fortunate in that we get to travel a lot and meet so many people. In our travels, we really have been so fortunate to meet so many fun, interesting and exciting individuals. q-his column is warmly dedicated to all of daese people that we have met in our travels and we are looking forward to meeting many more in our future. Remember, in the words of the late Dalee Henderson, "When you wake up in the morning, it is a miracle! The rest ofthe day is up to you!" Truly, today is the first day of the rest ofyour life. Ifyou are not happy with your life it is no one’s ffmlt but your own. We want to thank our dear friend Chaz XWard, Publisher-Editor ofthe Metro Star for his support. internationa Boy George could face jail for ’imprisoning’ escort Singer Boy George may land in jail after being convicted Dec. 5 of falsely in~prisoning male escort Audun Carlsen in London. Last April, George handcuffed Carlsen to a book on the wall of George’s bedroom fbr about an hour, saying he suspected Carlsen had hacked into his coruputer following a previous photo session between the two men. Car!sen claims George also attacked him with a metal chain af,er he broke free and began his escape from the apartment. Car!sen told the court the computer story was made up and that George probably was upset because Car!sen refused to have sex ~vith him the previous time they met. City apologizes for past anti-gay actions 1he City Council ofHobart, Tasmania, in Australia, apologized Dec. 10 for banning a booth promoting gay law reform from the city’s weekly Salamanca Market in 1988. In the weeks that followed, more than 100 people were arrested for refusing to vacate the site, marking Australia’s largest-ever act ofgay civil disobedience. The apology, delivered by Lord Mayor Rob Valentine before more than 200 former arrestees, GLBT community members and civil leaders, including state Premier David Bartlett, coincided with the 20th anniversary ofthe crackdown and the 60th anniversary ofthe signing ofthe Universa! Declaration ofHuman Rights. "The Hobart City Cotmcil apologizes for prohibiting the gay law reform stall at Salamanca Market in 1988 and for the resulting arrests aud bans," Valentine said. "We are sorry for the pain and trauma caused to all involved, including GLBTI people; their family members, friends and supporters; and those council officers who were required to carry out the council decision. We are also sorry that the actions we took may have encouraged ill-will and discrimination towards GLBTI people in the broader community. We resolve that actions such as these will never happen again." The apology was formally accepted by Rodney Croome ofthe Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group, which has operated the booth continuously at the Saturday outdoor street market since 1988. "Twenty years ago, as we sat in police cells for the crime of being ourselves, we could not possibly have imagined something like this," Croome said. "People everDvhere who suffer human rights abuses should take this apology as a sign that no matter how bad things seem there is ~lways hope ofa better future: Prior to the apology, a City Council-sponsored photo exhibit ofthe arrests was unveiled at the Salamanca Arts Centre. The council also is sponsoring a ~ublic art work at Salamanca Place commemorating e arrests. 18 #~troSTAR January 2009 , and two and instruc- ~.metrostarnews.com OKC Civic Center Music Ha~1 January Events Jan. 5 SWEENY TODD presented by Broadway Tonight Jan. 9 -Jan. 31 ORPHANS a comedy-drama by Lyle Kessler Jan. 9-Jan. 31 Orphans Jan. 10 INTERNATIONAL FLAVORS presented by the Oldahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 22-Jan. 25 Julius Caesar Jan. 23 -Jan. 24 CHRIS BOTTI presented by Oklahoma City Philharmonic Jan. 25 HOLD THE CANNONS! ~e Story and Glory ofTchaikovsky and the 1812 Overture Jan. 27- Feb. 1 OPRAH WINFREY’S THE COLOR PURPLE Jammry At The Ford Center OKC Jan. 21 st - Jan. 25th ~;,hlking With Dinosaurs Jan. 30th -Jan. 31st ~l!ie Revolve Tour January At The P.A.C. Tulsa Jan 4 David Finckel and "Wu Hart John H. Williams Theatre 6-31 FP~EE Highway412 PAC Gallery Jan 10 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 17 An Infinite Ache Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 20-25 Oprah Winfrey Presents: Wue Color Purple Chapman Music Hall Jan 23 The Tannahill Vgeavers John H. xg/illiams Tneatre Jan 24 Ralph’s World John H. Williams Theatre Jan 27 Ethel Cabaret Liddy Doenges Theatre Jan 28 Ethel Concert John H. Williams Theatre Jan 30-31 OMEAAll-State Music Festival Chapman Music Hall bitter girl FOR Webs#e- www.kylecomics.com en~il: bittergifl@qsyndtcate.com w~wcjoanhilty.net 20 #4etroSTAR January 2009 by Jack Fertig January 2009 "Toot your horn, Taurus!" Jupiter is starting his yearlong passage through Aquarius, where he inspires new visions offreedom aa~d scientific exp,,loration. This mini "age ofAquarius is a year ofgreat luck to anyone with that Sun sign or Ascendant, but check with your astrologer to see when that lucky year actually starts! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): You’ll be amazed to see what your friends would do for you. Take the opportunity to advance yourself politically and socially, and to promote whatever goals and ideals you see improving the world. TAURUS (April 20 o May 20): Don’t be shy! Toot your horn and let everyone know what you’re worth. This is your chance to rise to any position you’re qualified for. You have a bigger career peak in 12 years, but promotions now can boost your trajectory. GEMINi (May 21 - June 20): .At least give a listen to the Wackiest, most far-out ideas coming your way. Take classes that challenge everything you believe in. Ask yourself and the world all the hard questions, and be ready for whole new worlds of answers. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): New sexual adventures beckon - and celibacy and monogamy may count as "adventures," if they’re new to you. You can get your sex life where it should be or wherever you want it. Are they the same? Be careful what you wish for! LEO (Ju~y 23 o August 22): This is your lucky year for relationships. That could include becoming very happy with being single. Join in political or community groups; do things that fulfill you, get you out among others, and accomplish some good. Love will come when it is ready. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Health-wise, this is generally a good year, but be careful of your liver. You can get almost any job you want, if you’re suited for it. Make sure to have the education you need for the post you want. LIBFL~k (September 23 - October 22): If you wants kids, now’s the time! If you prefer having time for fun, explore new pleasures, hobbies, and creative directions. Try something you’ve only considered at the edges of your wildest dreams. The more "out there" and daring, the better! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Whether it involves moving or decorating, embark on the big domestic changes that will make your home what you really want it to be. Do what you can to heal family problems. You can hardly go wrong. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Could you be any more loquacious? Keep your mouth out of trouble by harnessing the brain behind it. Learn a new skill or language, or sign up for any class that offers you a different direction. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): This should be your lucky year for money, but it comes with some deceptive lures. Still, odd chances that shouldn’t work might prove very lucrative. Think ahead, but be ready to take advantage of sudden opportunities. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): In a 12-year cycle, this is your lucky year. Buy a few lottery tickets now and then, travel, or take some classes. You can expand yourself educationally, economically, and/or otherwise. But watch your diet! PISCES (February 19 -March 19): The worst things that happen to you could turn out for the best, although it may take a while to see that. 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This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 1, 2009 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Chaz Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele James Nimmo Joey D. Rex Wockner Susan A. 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