6 20 643 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/10f1b5999791efbbfb496d3dd7a04056.pdf 3a0b80d556c0a920500462cc4a65f09a PDF Text Text �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] NGLTF - Barney Frank and June Jordan at Creating Change Conference Description An account of the resource Two pages of a press release from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) on June 27, 1996, detailing featured speakers for their Ninth Annual Creating Change Conference. 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ROTC Re-Heats i April 15 - May 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue 5 ¯ Run for YourLives, Part3 i LegislativeUpdate ¯¯ Anti-Gay Amendments Die WASHINGTON - Little noticed in Feb- : OK Senate staff confirm that. HB 2554 ruary was congressional passage of a bill, : ¯ is "dead" for this session. HB 2554 adnow signed into law by PresidentCfiiiion ¯ ¯ dressed divorce law changes but was the "Campus Access Act" that prohibits : ~ amended to ban same-gender marriage all Defense Department funds to colleges : _" even if those were legal elsewhere. and .um’versities which the ,,Secretary of ¯ ¯ ~ An amendment to the"Ryan Luke" bill, DefenSe :judges., have, an,.~ anti~ROTC : ¯ HB 2053, would ban child custody by a poii~y?’ "~lae legi~latiisn b,bfild have the ." : "known homosexual,lesbian or bisexual." impact of barring Defense Department ¯ ." Rep. Laura Boyd, author of HB 2053, told funds from going to any campus where : ¯ TFN that the anti-Gay amendment was anti-discrimination policies barfing bias : ." "out for good." It appears that this session based on sexual orientation limit or re- ¯ will draw to a close in May without thc strict Reserve Officer Training Corps pro- ¯ The Reverend Leslie Penrose, AIDS acPFLAG at Central-Library ~." passage of any anti-Gay bibs or amend-. grams. No exact figures are available on : tivist Mary Fisher and a young friend at ments, only the anti-Gay but merely svm. Editorial: Kudos to Tulsa Org. the amount of money the Defense Depart- ¯ Community of Hope United~thodist. " ment spends annually at U.S. colleges, The members & officers of TnlsaChap- ! bolic resolution #1045. but at larger schools, such as Stanford, the ter of Parents, Families & Friends of LesUniversity of Pennsylvania, or the Unibians & Gays deserve high praise for their versity of California at Los Angeles, it exhibit currentlyat theTulsaCity,County On May 23, the Tulsa Ice Arena will might easily amount to tens of millions of Library, as does the libraD’ staff. The : dollars each year. The term "anti-ROTC exhibit is good but you will appreciate it ." host at 7:30pro the first Red Ribbon lc~ policy" is defined in the Act as prohibit- ¯" even more when you know that PFLAG ." Revue. ’l’he evening will feature profes. When Janice Nicklas and her co-orgaing either the Defense Department from ¯ nizerbegan planning for the first regional had only a little more than a week to ¯ sional skaters from Kansas City, OK(" see ROTC, page 3 ." conference on Women and AIDS, they prepare it. The exhibit, up-through April is : andTulsa All tickel proceeds will benefit a snapshot of what PFL~G’s about & of : Our House which provides support for ." hoped tohave about 100 or so attend. On Lesbian & Gay life. Tulsa Family News ¯ those challenged by HI\," AIDS. Tickets ¯ April 2, more than 400 people were regisstrongly encourages you to see the’exhibit ¯¯ are $8, balcon.v seats and S12.50 for ontered for the one day conference of workice seats at the .Arena at 71st & .~.hugo before it doses. : shops at the-University of Tulsa’s ¯ (behind the 1 2 Price Store). For~more ¯ Chapman Center. ¯ info. ".call Shane Douglas at 254--7272. Dallas Bd. Includes Protections : The workshops ranged from AIDS 101 ¯ DALLAS - Under pressure from local ¯ to HIV and Incarcerated Women or HIV Follies Revue, Inc. have announced tha! ¯ rights activists, the Dallas school board this \ear’s eveut. Follies Salute the .\hn’. decided at the I ast minute to include sexual ies, Will be on Juue 21 & 22at the \Varrcn ¯ Place Doubletree Hotel. The Follies will orientation in the anti-harassment policy it adopted at its March 28 meeting. The : showcase suchartists as Alexandr"Sacha’" ¯ Luiiev of the Tulsa Ballet Theatre, singers policy, which had not initially included ¯ tators were both local educators and exsexual orientation as a category, was added ¯ perts & those from around the US. The ¯ StillwaterandendinginTulsaon Sunday, ¯¯ Deb Roberts and Steve Wright: For more May 19 at College Hill Presbyterian, 712 after members of the Dallas Gay & Les- ¯" conference l~gan with a panel of those info. call 437-0201. ! S. Columbia. College"Hill will host a : bian Alliance and other community mem- : infected or affected by HIV. Local HI\" AIDS support org~iniza~ion, : dinner and dialogue at 5pro, followed by ¯ ILMN, the Regional AIDS Interfaith Netbers complained that not including sexual keynote address was ~ven at lunch ." worshipat 7pro. Her visit is sponsored by " work is holding its volunteer training on orientation in the newpolicy could actu- ! byThe AIDS activist, Mary. Fisher, founder of ally encourage anti-gay and -lesbian ha- : the Family AIDS Network, Inc. which ¯ College Hill and Presbyterians for Les- : April 27 and May 4 at Community of rassment in the city’s schools. The new : works to heighten commumty and ha- ." bian,’Gay Concerns. , Hope from 10-Spin. And Debbie Waters, Spahr is an evangelist with the special : MSW announces a support group, Phoepolicy bars "oral, written, psychological, ¯ tional awareness and compassion in the : physical and other demonstrative actions : fight against HIV/AIDS. Ms. Fisher, a ¯ ministry ’q’hat .MI May Freely Sen’e’" of ¯ nix Group, for families & friends living see School, page 3 ~ person/iving with HIViAIDS, came to : the Downtown United Presbyterian : with AIDS. The group meets on the Ist & ¯ national attention when she spoke about -" Church (DUPC) of Rochester, NeW York, : 3rd Thurs. each month: Call 584-6460. ~ AIDS to, the:Republican-National Con- : in parmership with Westminster Presby¯ terianofTiburon, CA.In 1991,Spahrwas ; vention’in.Houston in-1992.. Colorado Gov. Roy Romer has vetoed ~ Fisher’s Tulsa speech was a call to : by DUPC to serve as Co-pastor but was a measure :that would have explicitly : political arms. She began with quote from ¯ denied that position in an unprecedented move by the ruling body of the-pre~bvte- : banned recognizing same-sex marriages ¯ a US Senate chaplin who, when asked if This May, Interfaith AIDS Ministries rian Church (USA), the.General Ass~min the state, even if they were legally "- he prayed for the Senate;~said, no, after ¯ (IAM) will celebrate its lOth-auniversarv ¯ performedinother states, however, Romer see Spahr, page 10 ! of:providing education about HIV;AIDg i looking at the Senate, he prayed for the said he would sign a bill that declared ¯ people. FishersaidthatwithWashington’s ¯ and of providing support to persons living ¯ opposite-sex mamages as the "strong ¯ and America’s response to AIDS, prayer with HIV,,AIDS (PLWA’~s)~ S_t,.Peter’s public policy of the state" while at the : probably was_a good’idea. ~ ................... ". Episcopal Church at 9100 East 21 st Street same time authorizing a study of possible ¯ Fisher stated that-America.iacks -the. 3 ¯ Will host a sen’ice commemorating !0 ways same-sex couples could be given ; basicingredients to win a fight withAIDS: : The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association " years of work on Sunday, May 19 at 3pm. legal recognition of their relationships ¯ no national plan for researeh~ .car~e or pre- ¯ (OGRA) will hold its tt.th-annual rodeo ," !AM will also be featured at the May 14th without violating that policy. He called : vention, nor visible, competent, or trusted : on Memorial Day Weekend, May 24-26. meeting of the AIDS Coalition. the legislation he vetoed, a "mean-spir- ." leadership, nor sufficient funding. : It features 2 days of rodeo at the OKC The oriDns of the organization were in ited and unnecessary" attack. ¯ Fisher said we also must look for lead- ¯ State Fairgrounds and 3 nights of parties the 1986 Task Force on AIDS ol the Idaho became the 3rdstate in the U.S., ership from the uninfected, ,We. are like : and exhibits at the Hilton Inn. N\V~ see I~-1, page 10 joining Utah and South Dakota, to bar ; .’ .ca fl nghtsmovement whose leaders die : OGRA beganin 1984. TheGreat Plaius recognizing same-gender marriageS. The ; ev~t~"year. : Regional Rodeo was formed through the Kentucky state Senate is now considering : Inaninterviewwith.TFN, Fishernoted ¯ efforts of Kansas, Missouri and Oklaa measure banning same,sex mamages ¯ that she would have said we’re making : homa and held its first rodeo in 1986 In EDITORIAL/LETrERS/DIRECTORY p. 2 and activists believe the anti-gay bill has ¯ progress in the AIDS fight prior to the : 1993, Arkansas formed theDiamond State : NEWS BRIEFS .......... P. 4 a good chance of passing there. Illinois ¯" 1994 Republican sweep. But now she : Rodeo Association and joined the Great HEALTH BRIEFS : P. 6 . has also now received a similar ban, ¯ says we haven’t followed who’s coming ~ Hains organization. OG1L~t’s volunteers ¯ P. 9 spurred on by leaders of the state’s anti- : up in that party and we must hold our ¯ are dedicated providing rodeo ~vents for ¯ CALENDAR EUREKA SPRINGS .,~ " ~ "P. 11 gay Christian Coalitiou and Christian ~ leaders feet to the fire. "We must commu- _" Lesbians and Ga)’~menand als0 to sup; READ ALL ABOUT IT P. 12 Action Network. In Kansas, a bill that was ¯ nicate that tiffs fightis about human rights, " porting AIDS charities. Membership is already on the floor of the state tlouse of ¯ not about moraljudgements....women, ¯ noflimited to rodeo .compet.it0fs Formore :¯ RESTAURANT/ENTERTAINMENT- p. 13 -OUT + ABOUT WITH JD ........... ~ ’’~-~_-~: 14 ¯ see Marriage, page 3 ¯ especially, need to say I matter.’" info. "call 405-842-0849. i Wo-men &AIDS i Coming Soon! i 400.÷ HearActivist i Mom,,Mary Fisher High School Gays. Win & Lose Some LESBITERIAN & .Marriage, Update ilnterfaith AIDS Ministries Hits 10 i G reatPlains Rodeo "In OKC, May 24.26 Ii. N S n. El �918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 -0140 TulsaNews@aol.com Publisher/Editor Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of Tom Neal . this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family Assistant Editor News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or James Christjohn Writers/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barr¢ Hensley noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each Pat ~orehead Staff Photographer reader is entitled to one free Copy of each edition at distribution JD JametL - points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. COMMUNITY EVENTS Newly ordatned deacon oJ St. Jerome Gaylapalooza brought these FUSO’s Derrick Davis with Ecun’wnical Catholic Church, the Rev. four,fabulouscomics to Tulsa’s Mark Knight, Chip Haines of Deborah Starnes with her Archbishop. Performing Arts Center,for a OKC & FUSO’s RF Renfro at Bishop. community clergy and other ~how benefitting Black & White the Nat’l. Black Gay & Lesbian ./rtends. [’hoto: T. Neal Charities. Photo: T. Neal Leadership Forun~ in Dallas. by lom Neal. publisher/editor Reccntl v. I received a message on my machine that said. =tli Tom, t~s is Keit~ S~ from the A(’I ,V offi~ in OMahoma City....’" Smith. who’s a rc~dtor and ad s~esm~ for OKC paper The Perspec’t~ve, was m~appy about ~ ~ficle that we wrote. The article stated that he’d helped OMa. I louse M~0ont~ Leader Benson rewrite Benson’s vcrx ant~-Gav resolution. #1~5. Sxmth clmms he heisted chm~e the anti-gay lang~ge of the ongin~ version to l~guage that ~ght be ~i~- slightly less ami:Gay. We ~so wrote that some OKC folks had accused Smith of passing ~mself off~ spokesperson for the OM~oma LGBT ~umties. I promised Smith that I’d address ~s c0n~ms. At one meeting with Benson, S~th says he was with Jo Ann Bell of the ACLU. Ms. Bell swe~s that Smith only represented ~mself. Smi~ says that at a later meeting (where Bell w~ not present), he helped Beuson m~e specific ch~ges in l~g~ge of # 1 045: but that he told Benson &at he nevertheless opposed the fin~ drMt (which hehelped write). Seem confusing? Smith appears to have b~n view~ by Benson, by Rcp. I ~ura Boyd. by other legislators, and by State l)emocratic P~tv Ex~ufive ~r~tor Pat Ihdl. as an anthofized ~pokesperson for Gay ~d I ~sbian counnunitv. As a result, some le~slators votedagainst us, thinking ~at they had our blessrag. Through mepmess or nmvete on ~s p~t ~d possibly opportmfism on the p~t of some le~slators, what hc clmms w~ ~ effort to m~e 100% bad rcsolution into one that would ~ ody ~% bad wound up being used against him and us. And while Smith may feel he’s been beat up, actually there’s enough blame to spread around. Tulsan~ should strongly object to the failure of OKC groups, who were having meeungs about #1045, to commumeate regularly with any Tulsa activists or groups. If it wasn’t Smith singlehandedly representxng the entire state, it was the OKC organizations acting as though they did. The ACLU. which is a statewide organization, made no effort to communicate, even with its Tulsa board members. OGLPC’s Paul Thompson did commumcate with TOHR when #1045 was first introduced, but apparently not when this meeting was .happening. Tulsa groups who were working on this ~ssue might also have called OKC groups. However. it seems that the greater obligation falls on those who have the advantage of proximity to the Capitol and know better when action’s happening. After stories like this, I sometimes think we are our own worst enemy.-Smith has substantial experience with the legislature, and we’d be foolish not to take advantage of it. But it also appears that we need to make sure that those who represent us at the Capitol really represent all of us - in Tulsa, and wherever else there’s an organized community in the state, as well as in Oklahoma City. Just one last thing about representation: Smith is neither an officer nor an employee of the ACLU. He volunteers but according to ACLU board president, Mark Hendricksen, Smith should not identify himself as though he’s staff or an officer. Does make you kind-of wonder, doesn’t it.’? Ilello, you don’t know me, but I certainly know you. I live with you. I work with you. I may even be involved with you. And yes, I’ve often masqueraded ,as v0u. I’ve had to: I’m practically invisible, you see.’Or maybe you don’t .... I am a transsexual. But being a transie i~ this town doesn’t add up to a great deal of visibility. That’s funny, considering that scarcely a day goes by when I DON’T hear somebody whispering b~hind my back,"I s that a boy or a girl ! No it’s gotta be a faggot! Well...maybe it’s a Dyke after all..." Manya ume, I, and other transsexuals/transgender persons, have taken the homophobic backlash for our gay ,and lesbian brothers and sisters, stmply because we are usually more visible than most. Nobody loves a hermaphrodite. Androgyny makes : most people really edgy. But I expect that from most people (sadly enough). What hurts though, is how Gays and Lesbians have taken little notice of : us, in their silence, colluding to collapse our distinct identities into theirs. : Let’ s face it... how many of you gays and lesbians ¯ out there, in yourpersonal and political lives, focus ¯ on gender issues just as much as you focus on sex and sexuality? In this society, gender is taken for : granted. Gender deviance ~s taken as a personal insult, see Letters, page 13 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *B,’unboo Lounge, 7204 E. Piue 832 - 1269 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th 621-9376 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 *Reuegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 *Intenu’ban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Derails C. 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Mike Leavitt has vetoed a measure, SB246, that would have barred teachers 111 public sdaools from encouragtng or condoning any act that is illegal under state law. The measure-wasspecifiCallyaimed at~pre~ venting teachers from serving as sponsors fo~gay and lesbian clubs in public schools, anassue that exploded earlier this year in the state.: Even though Lea~iRt vet0ed;the measure, he nevertheless said, "I support the statement that was made in SB246, but we cannot infringe on free speech." The Utah Education Assn. had opposed the measure and said the governor "absolutely did the right tiring." Rights Project, said the policy "’was a thinly-veiled attempt ,:o silence gay youths." "’Rather than making it more difficult for iesbi,an and gay teenagers to come out. the school board should be meeting to discuss ways to create a friendlier environment for gay youths," Elovitz said. School Board Facing Backlash ROCKVILLE, Md. - The Montgomery County (Md.) school board’s decision to include sexual~_orientation in its list of an~i-bias~prOtections passed by a 6-0 vote on Mar. 25, but it has also sparked a threat by an ad-hoc group of Hispanic parents to remove their children from the district’s p’~blic sctiools: Som~’400 pa~eh~s qUidld~, formed the ’Hispanic Paren~ of M~mgomery Coamty in an effort to convince the trustees to change their minds about the newly adopted policy. Many of the parents expressed concerns the new policy would actually lead to homosexual activities in the schools and expose their children to HIV. But so far school officials are not backing away from the policy, which is simply a parallel to one already on the books for the entire county, and Paul Vance, the county’s superintendent of schools, said the new policy doesn’t "promote, encourage or approve of sexual activity of any kind." ~ with the umversiw’s, own anti-bias poll ,:;ies. The }ssue of ROTC at colle2es and ~mversiues tth~oughout the conntrv has t:.cen more or less on the back buruer fin the past few years, following President (i!inton’s initial promise to end the ban. But with the so-called "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy increasingly seen by manv rights activists as no improvement over the previous policy, ROTC programs are again coming under fire.~ MIT Not Im pressed With-ROTC {f you take an honest look ai ga lesbian attitudes towardsgcndet-bending queers in the commuiuty youwill find a good deal of resentment. The drag queens, the fem-fairy boys, the bulld~’kes are routinelv scorned (just take a look at queer personals ad). Gays mad, Dzsbians also are at great pmns to accept bisexuals. who "fide the fence," unable to linut their partners,.to asingle gender. And transies? CAMBRIDGE. M~ss: ’- ~’At the M’assakiddin,g, themselves too, because chusetts Institute of Technology, the final -:;" They’re ~h~y.’ll always’really" b~,whatever sex report presented of a speciMtask force they were born & nothing more. study group on Reserve Office Training :i ~ Cbi~s uifit~ ai ~e!s’d~601 ~t with a Chilly It’~s this disregard for gender isshes that : reception byMIT faculty Wh6 in April ¯ worries me the most. As queers we-all will decide what to do about the experience gender-based discrimination ¯ reawakened controversy. Several faculty Yet, for all the similarities we share, there ~ leaders complained thal the report was is a great deal of ignorance and apath3 tittle more than a compromise that reabout the differences, & that’s dangerous. solved nothing, while others said the reI’m talking about the kind of ~gnorance Calif. Trustees Wiggle Around port recommendations, if adopted, would that separates transpersons from the res~ themselves amount to a violation of M1T’s Outright Gay Club Ban of the crowd, threatens us, distorts us, and anti-bias protections. GLENDALE, Calif. - Trustees for the claims our accomplishments and experiGlendale, Calif., school district have deences. It’s about reading the "Crying cided under pressure from civil rights Game" as a gay flick rather than a film groups not to adopt a policy that would about a transgendered person. It’s abou! require students to get parental perufisclaiming Joan of.Arc solely as an histonc Representatives was amended without sion in order toj otn gay and lesbian school Lesbian, not a transgend~r pioneer. It’s notice or hearings to protfibit same-sex clubs specifically, and instead modified about the Murder of Mr. Brandon Teena marriages and passed by a4-to- 1 margin. the policy to make it apply to any "’controand his girlfriend, for being "’lesbians," By a 16-3 vote. the Alaska state Senate versial" non-curricular clubs at the city’s reducing Teena’s life and commitment to has also approved a bill that would restrict public schools. The school board had iniliving as a man. to a "lesbian’s" pathetic man’iage in the state to male-female. tially intended to make the policy apply.,,.’ setting up or keeping an ROTC unit at the attempt to "’pass" for a straight matt. The Central Conference of American only to the gay and lesbian club that school, or preventing any student from Well. I’m here to try and shed a little Rabbis, representing rabbis in the Reform students at Hoover High School had asked enrolling in an ROTC program. light on the differences and similarities movement, has voted to support the fight to form, but decided to make the policy Univ. of Penn. Drops ROTC among the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and of gays and lesbians to civil marriages in apply generally to any "’controversial" trans colnmunities. M\ (trans)mission PHILADELPHIA - Univ. of Penn. Prothe U.S. The resolution, which cites "’our dubs so it wouldn’t appear to be discrimiclear. I have to let you "know I’m here. And vost Stanley Chodorow has announced Jewish commitment to the fundamental natory. Civil fights advocates were not I’m listening .... Are you? - June Polk that the school is dropping its Armv and" pnnciple that we are all created in the satisfied with the broader parental perNaval Reserve Officer Training ~orps divine image," endorses "’the fight of gay mission requirement and argue that the programs on campus because of the Deand lesbian couples to share fullx and adopted policy simply covers up the origifense Department" s continued ban against equally in the fights of civil marriage," nal intention of the board to make it nearly Gavs and Lesbians in the I’.S. military and opposes "’govermnental efforts to ban impossible for gay and lesbian students to The decision ends a 5-year conflict begay and lesbian marriage." join the proposed club. Marc Elovitz, s taff tween the military and the school over the attorney for the ACLU’s Lesbian mad Gay anti-gay protfibit]on, wtuch is in conflict ELVI Seen to LYN Philbrook Don Thornton F~rd, 83~-7.101 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Attacks Drop Slightly significant increases included: but More Violent Phoenix, a 22 % increase; Columbus, Ohio, with a 21% rise in reported incidents; and Minneapolis/St. Paul, up by 15 % last year. Hate Crimes Data Measure Before Senate WASHINGTON, D.C. - The Senate has begun its first round of hearings on reauthorizing the federal Hate Crimes Statistics Act, the 1990 le~slation that requires the Justice Department to compile and analyze hatebased crimes, including an tigay attacks. Activists have expressed some concerns the measure may have more trouble in Congress than it did 6 )’ears ago because of the increasingly conservative make-up of both houses. Anti-Violence March at Kentucky School MOREH~D, Ky. - Nearly 200 students, faculty and staff members marched through the Morehead State Umverszty campus ~n a "Take Back the Night" campaign aimed atraising awareness of anti-gay and lesbian violence at the school. The march, the first of its kind at the school, was sparked by the Feb. 5 attack of Carrie O’Cohnor, a lesbian enrolled at MSU. According to MSU campus police, 3 masked men grabbed O’Connor as she was walking back to her dormitory and repeated ly punched and ~.icked her. Officials say they still have no suspects in that attack, but it was reported to state police as an anti-gay hate crime - the first such official report filed by the school. Georgia Sodomy Law ATLANTA- In a legal challenge to Georgia’s anti-sodomy law - brought by L. Chris Chrisuansen, SAN FRANCISCO - Attacks against gays and lesbians in 11 of the country’s larger cities decreased slightly overall last year according to a report compiled by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs. But while some cities showed dramatic declines in antigay violence, ,an equal number 0f cities she.wed equally dramatic increases m attacks aimed at lesbians and gay men, according to the report’s statistics. More disturbing, anti-violence activists say, even with the small overall decline in attacks, the offenses themselves are becoming increamngly more savage. Even though the total number of all incidents reported in the 11 cities dropped to 2212 las! year from the 1994 total of 240 [, about a quarter of those incidents were assaults mid more than a third of all the victilns of these attacks suffered serious iujnrics or died as a result of the attacks in Portland. Ore.. reported anu-gay incidents dropped 56 percent last 3"ear frotn 106 in 1994 to just 47 in 1995 - the largest decrease logged nauonal report. Clficago wasn’t much behind and showed a decrease of 53 percent last year with reported incidents falling Item 177 to 83. Boston and Los :\ngeles both showed comparable decreases ~n reported attacks last year (26 percent and 23 percent respectively). Most of these decreases were offset by cities that reported dramatl~ increases in anti-gay attacks. E1 P.aso. Texas. reported the largest nsc with a42 percent increase in mm-ga3 attacks, a jump from 92 incidents in 1994to 131 last year. Other cities that showed " thestateSupremeCourthasagain . serviccsifhersexualorientation of energy for the day, mid you ruled that the statute does not ¯ violate the Georgia constitution’s ¯ privacy protections. Instead, the ¯ court ruling says the law furthers ¯ "’the moral welfare of the public." Christiansen was convicted on ¯ misdemeanor charges of ¯¯ violating the sodomy law after he propositioned an undercover ¯ ¯ sheriff’s deputy. Montana’s Sodomy Law ¯¯ HELENA, Mont. - Montana ¯ Attorney General Joe Mazurek has appealed a state court ruling ¯ that declared the state’s anti-gay ¯ sodomy law unconstitutional as a violation of privacy. The case automatically goes.to the ~state " supreme court. Mazurek" s office ¯ said he had decided to appeal the ¯ Feb. 16 ruling because courts, especially lower courts, should ¯ be Vex3, cautious about striking ¯ down laws made by the state ¯ legislature. Gay rights activists ¯ in Montana said they weren’t ¯ surprised by the appeal and ¯ expected the case to go before the state supreme court. ¯ Lesbian Tells Parliament ¯ ¯ of Rape in Royal Navy ¯ LONDON" - Parliament heard a stunning admission from Karen " Greig, who described to a select conmaittee on the armed forces ¯ how she was raped by a male ¯ sailor she served with in the Royal Navy who threatened to reveal her lesbianism to naval officers ifshe protested. Greig, 33, said she arranged to be ¯ transferred to a naval station in Scotland to escape the man’s sexual attacks, but that he later ¯ tracked her down and raped her ¯ with another male sailor. She told the select committee members that she had not reported the attacks for years ¯ because she was worried she ¯ would be discharged from the crone to light. Greig said tlmt wheu she finally reported die attacks, a superior officer suggested that perhaps the reason she wasu’t dealing with the situation very ~vell ~vas"because you’re a lcsrian." She ",also said ~hat as soon as she reported the attacks she was se nt to a psyclfiatric hospital for 3 days and that the mcu she says raped her were uever puuished. have secrets, they nfight take up 10 milts of that energy. After a time you ufight not even be aware of it anymore, but you have that much less cuergy to apply in your life. And that’ suuliealthy." Vickie Fergon, LPGA president, mid Jim Ritts, the conunissioner, both told Sports Illustrated they support Spencer-Devlin’s decision to come out. "’I applaud Muffin," Said Fergon. ’Tm not saying every player will be thrilled about it, but we’re a family and we respect each other." Ritts is quoted as saying, "I know there are still individuals who have problems with diversity, but we’ve come so far as a society that I don’t see this as a topic that really moves people." Brit Defense Minister Vows to Keep Ban LONDON - Nicholas Soames, Britain’s defense minister, told Parli,’uneut during a questionm~swer period that 309 service members had been discharged between 1990and 1994because they were homosexual. Somnes was answering questions about a miuistry report that showed members of the uation’s armed forces are strongly opposed to ending the ban on gay midlesbian soldiers, sailors ~md marines. So,’unes said lie was p~epared to "’fight every inch of the way:" to keep the anti-gay ban in place. Golf Champ Comes Out NEW YORK- Muffin SpencerDevlin, an 18-yearveteranofthe LPGA Tour, has told Sports Illustrated in an exclusive interview that she is a lesbian. "Confiug outis like an incredibly huge ~veight being lifted from my shoulders," Spencer-Devlin told the magazine. "’No more living iu the shadows. No more lies.’" The 42-year-old pro golfer has won 3 tournament titles mad last year had 3 fiuishes in the top-10, winning more than $100,000 from tournament play. "I truly believe that keeping a secret is an energy-consurmng act," Speficer-Devlin says in the iuterview. "If every day when you wake up you have 100 units Gay Clubs in Russia ST. PEI’ERSBURG, Russia The Tchaikovsky Fuud, one of the few gay rights organizations in Rus sia, has broken new ground with the opeuing late last year of a new club, know as "’Victor i Ya" ("Victor and I"), in the former czarist .capital. Yuri Yereyev, who heads the Tchaikovsky Fun& said the club offers not only social facilities, like a cafe mid place where people can dance, but also will be holding seminars to educate the Russian people about gays and lesbians. Another major feature of the club, Yereyev says, is an extensive AIDS education and prevention prograni. The club hands out free HIV literature as well as condoms, both of Milch are in short supply in Russia. Yereyev also said another barrier was broken in February when a lesbian club, "Safe" ("Sappho") officially opened in St. Petersburg as well, not far from the "Victor i Ya." Canadian Rights Report OTI’AWA - Max Yalden, the 1635 E. 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 599-8070 Serving Our Community with Pride! BROOKSIDE JEWELRY cumenicaIC tho c Church 4649 South Peoria meetm,O at Tile Gardbn Cfiqpe( 743-5272 ~S.4t 3 J’eorta ~ T~o, .’Mas.~ Saturday event.s at 6:00 P.~ "lfie 7~ev. .7~ther 7~ck .7(o~rt~swortti. 7"astor ]’,hh’/ o/S) 040-711(; J~t’std~/lcc ’(918) 742-7iz’2 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Canadian human rights commissioner has sharply criticized the Liberal government of Prime ¯ Minister Jean Chretienin a report for not protecting the rights of gays. In a parting shot, after 9 years heading the commission, Max Yalden said the failure to bar discrimination based on sexual orientation in the country ¯ is "little better than acquiescence ¯ in intolerance." Yalden’ s annual ¯ reportcalledit"afailureinmoral ¯ logic and a near-public ¯ repudiatioff’ of the rightsof law- ¯ abiding citizens mad sl~mmed the Chretien government for ¯ failing to amend the Canadian ¯ Human Rights Act during the ¯ past 2 years it has been in power despite promises to extend full civil rights to Canadian gays and ¯ lesbians. The report generated ¯ an immediate political storm in ¯ the country and Chretien told ¯ Parliament the government had ¯ already enacted legislation increasing legal penalties for anti-gay attacks and other hate ¯ crimes. He also promised that a : bill anending the federal human : rights laws "will be presented before this House before we ¯ move to an election." But Allan ¯ Rock, the justice minister, said it would be "politically difficult" ¯ to enact such an anendment before the election because of disagreements within the Liberal Party. Liberal MP Grit Dan ¯ McTeague of Ontario called ¯ Yalden a "nut bar," and sever al Conservative and Reform Party ¯ members also attacked the proposal to include gays and ¯ lesbians under federal human rights protections. : Canadian Commons Gives Partners Benefits ¯ OTFAWA - .Canada’s highlysecretive Commons Board of ¯ Internal Economy, which oversees internal spending for San Francisco Library’s the House of Commons itself, has approved limited benefits for same-sex partners of Commons employees. The board agreed to extend bereavement and familyrelated leave to the same-sex partners of Commons employees. The decision followed a move by the country’s Treasury Board last year to extend the same benefits to same-sex partners of employees in all fe deral government departments. That measure followed a court ro!ing that. same-sex, partners h’a~,E a righi :to ihose benefits. Gay & Lesbian Wing SAN FRANCISCO - A new wing of the yet-to-be opened San Francisco Main Library is being called one of a kind. On March 23, hundreds of city officials, community leaders and residents gathered to preview the James C. Hormel Gay and Lesbian Cen: ter inside the newly constructed library. The Hormel Center will serve as a research center for gay and lesbian literature, culture, - hisidry hnd’ ~r:~search. The research ~center is the first of its kind in a public institution anywhere in the country. "It’s principal benefactor, James Hormel, said the center will change the way everyone gay and straight- looks athistory. "’It is time for us to receive the recognition we deserve and to take our place as equal members of the community at large," Gay Retires from Navy SAN DIEGO, Calif, - In ,an exclusive interview in the Gay + Lesbian Times, Keith Meinhold, the openly gay sailor who successfully battled with the Na~vy’s attempt to discharge him after he came out on a national TV news broadcast, announced he is retiring from the military. Meinhold, 33, w,as stationed at the Moffett Field Naval Air Station where he was a well-liked sonar instructor when he told Ted Koppel of ABC News in 1992 that he was gay. After he fought discharge attempts for 2 years, the 9th Circuit Court of Appe~.s finally ordered the Navy not to discharge the 15-year veteran. Anti-Bias Albany ALBANY, N.Y. - Lawmakers have adopted an anti-bias ordinance prohibiting discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations based on race, religion, national origin, sex, age, disability and marital status, as well as sexual orientation. The countywide measure was approved 24-13. Albany Mayor Jerry Jennings has signed a measure setting up a city domestic partners registration that will allow unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex couples to register their relationship with city hall. The measure, approved by the city’s common council earlier the same week, extends no specific benefits, but does extend official recognition to the domestic partnership. 1st Annual Pride Paradein CapeTown CAPE TOWN, South Africa An estimated 1,000 gays and lesbians turned out Saturday night, March 24, to march in the first annual Gay & Lesbian Festival parade. Two lone and-. gay protesters showed up along the parade route, holding si~s with biblical quotations denouncing sodomy, but they were hardly noticed among the thousands who lined the streets to watch the landmark event. Gay Cops Sue NYPD NE\V YORK - The David A. Paddock, MT, CPA Gay Officers’ Action League (GOAL) has filed a lawsuit in Federal District Court charging that the New York Police Dept¯ denies the gay and lesbian police officers orgamzation rights and privileges that it routinely extend s to other police fraternal groups. Although GOAL is officially recognized by the NYP1) as a fratcr,nal o~ganization, the suit charges that it has been refused permission to set up displays at police headquarters COlnmemorating gay and lesbian cops, has not beenallowed to use NYPD vehicles ~n the city" s annual Gay Pride Parade, and has been denied permission to have the force’s marching band participate in the giant parade as well The suit charges that Black, Irish and Hispamc officers" fraternal groups are routinely extended such privileges while the department continues to refuse such requests by GOAL, which has about 500 NYPD members. NYPD officials declined to coimnent on the lawsuit. Notre.Dame’s Gay Org. SOUTH BEND, Ind. - Responding to recommendations by an ad hoc Committee on Gay & Lesbian Student Needs, Patricia O’Hara, Notre Dame’s vice president for student affairs, has announced that the Catholic aniversity will allow Notre Dame Gay & Lesbian Students official recognition at the school, although it will be set up differently from other student groups on campus. The school will not, however, recognize an already existing gay and lesbian group that it rejected last .’,ear. According to O’Hara’s office, NDGLS ~vill "stand in special relationship to the Office of Student Affairs (to) assist gay and lesbian students in coufing together to lind muttml support and in exploring connnon issues within the context of this commumty and the teachmgs of the Catholic Church." NI)G I ^S" s advisors will also bc appointed by O’ ttara, uulikc other stndcnl groups on c~m~pns ~vhich sclccl their own advi.sors. The univcrsit~ will contlnnc. however, to refuse to recognize a~ unofficial student gronp, (]a\s & Lesbians of Notre l)anc and St. Mary’s College which ~vas kicked off cmnpus last year even though ~t continues to fraction as a non-canpus orgali/21tlon More Amer!eans Approve of Gays ATLANTA - Accordiug to a CNN:’[’SA Today poll conducted by the G~llnp organization, 44"% of those interviewed said they thought homoscxualit.~ acceptable, a dranatic incrcasc over a similar Gallup poll done in 1982 which fom~d only 34% said they thought being gay was OK. This year’s poll also fotmd that on13 27% said saint-sex mamages should be legal, while 68% said gay and lesbian maniages should not be legalized in this country. Earlier polls had not included questions abont legalizing sane-sex marfiagcs. Holocaust Museum’s Gay & Lesbian Campaign SAN FIL’-kNCISCO -A stellar showing on the eve of a revival production of Leonard Bemstein’s "On the Town" here raised some S150,000 for the [’.S. 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Because large-scale production of the drag isnh expected to get going nnti! late this year. Merck says it decided to distribute ~rixivan exciusiveix through the Pittsburgh, Pa.-based mail-order Stadtlm~der’s Pharmac~ Merck says n ?bled for the initiai single-source 4isvibvt~.o;7 because the d~m must bc con_m~o .... x :)n, cse tremmem is supplier. Ed Bubar, who runs FAdie’s Pharmacy in West Hollywood and a staunch opponen! of Merck’s decision, called the move "’totally unfair" to independent pharmacists in the country. "’Everybody wants to get their hands on tiffs drug,"’ he said. "If between now mad October half of nay patients are slfifted to mail-order for Crixivan, I can end tip losing half of my patient base." Merck says that when supplies of the dm~o increase it will broaden its distribution to include independent m~d chain pharmacies as well. SOt. Perry Watkins Dies TACOMA, Wash. - Sgt. Perry’ Watkins, who entered the U.S. Army as an openly gay mm: and remained despite tfi s sexual onemauon, has died of AIDS. Wmkins was 47. I :nlike other gay service members. Watkins. checked "yes" on an enlistment form in 1967 that asked about homosexuali{y and was enrolled in the Ann,, even so. Only when the Pentagon adopted forma~ reg:,flations in 1981 barring homosexuals did the Army begin disct:arge proceedings which the 14- veto: veteran challenged in federal court. [n 1989. the U.S. 9th Circmt Court of m{ed timt the Army could not dischm’ge \Vat kins for bei ng g’ay since it had i ni ti accepted him :rod aJ Jowed him to re-e::list 3 times, Ti:u ::.S. Supreme Court :_,q !990 :.hat ~c ~CF COl.trt F \ \ TULSA ICE ARENA. tag]l) ~. ll)IST E. AVE 71ST A?<D MING{) BEHL’<I) THE L ~ PRIUE ALL TICKET PROCEEDS (.r’O "OUR HOUSE" TICKETS: $ 8.01) BL,EACHER,5 $12.50 t;,N I...E TICKETS AVAL:[ABLE TLTLSA ICE ARE:’<A 254-7272 RENEGADES ,117TH Sponsored by Miller Lite Memorial Day Weekend May 24-26 Oklahoma City State Fairgrounds Advance Ticket Package only $25 Includes both rodeo performances & both parties. Send check or money order to OGRA, POB 12485, OKE 73157 Orders ~eceived after 5/17 will be held for pickup at the Fri. night party. �L TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY .CA EN’r R SUNDAYS MONDAYS TUESDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Worship Service, 10:30 am. Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 HIV Testing TOHR Clinic Free & anonymous testing using fingerstick method. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Results hours: 7-9 pm Info: 742-2927 HIV+ Support Group HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste H-1 Info: Wanda ~ 749-4194 Bless the Lord At, All Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service. ! 1 am 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 Community of Hope (United Methodist) Worship Service. 6 pm !703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Lambda Bowling League Sheridan Lanes 8:45 pm 312i S. Sheridan PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2rid Monday of month. 6:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard info: 749-4901 Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sundav School, 9:’15 Worship Service, 11 am 5451-E South Mingo. hffo: 622- t~-i OTHER GROUPS Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HW/AIDS Support Group & Friends & Famii y HIV,AIDS Support Group 7 pm, call for location: 749 -7898 WEDNESDAYS Authority Of The Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maptewood In/o: 838-!71~ Bless The Lord At All T~mes Christian Center Prayer & Bible Stud), 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth Call 593-78!5 for info. Community of Hope Grief Group, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family Of Faith MCC Praase & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Pracuce 7:30 pm 5451 -E South Mingo Call 622-1441 for info. Grief Group ButleriStumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 Commnnky of Hope ~ United Methodist) Service for Peace. 6:30 om Bible Stud)’. 7 pm 1703 i! 2nd, 585-1800 The Technicians. Leather org. info cio 621-5597 7.U.LoS.A, Tulsa Uniform Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Right~’ 7 pm. Chouteau Rin_ Chapmm~ Ctr. In/o: 743-GAYS (4297) SATURDAY, MAY 11 Dignity/Integrity Mass 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s, 5635 E. 71st In/o: 745-2363 THURSDAY, APRIL 18 Planning Meeting for Gay & Lesbian Action Alert Phone Tree 6 pm, TOHR office, 40th & Harvard, 2nd ft. All welcome. In/o: 582-7548 APRIL 26-28 HIVIAIDS & SpiritualitylWholeness Retreat for Men, In/o: 488-9215 SATURDAY, APRIL 27 Rainbow Business Guild Spring Picnic 4 pro, Zink Park, In/o: 665-5174 Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Volunteer Training (1 of 2 sessions) 10-5 pm, Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd Info: 749-4213 /WEDNESDAY, MAY 1 Womens Supper Club .... i6f30pm, Olive Garden, Utica Square iInfo: 584-2978 ~.. MONDAY, MAY 13 Parents Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays Family AIDS Support Group. 6:30 pm Social and Refreshntents, 7 pm General Meeting, 7:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Info: 7494901 MAY 17-19 Herland Sister Resources Retreat Roman Nose State Park Registration deadline: 5/15 Info: 2312 NW 39th, OKC 73112 HIV/AIDS & Spirituality/Wholeness Retreatfor Women, hffo: 488-9215 TUESDAY, JUNE 4 Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, PFLAG & Rainbow B,tsiness GUIM present Cece Cox, pres. of the ’ Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance 7 pm, ChouteaU Rm, Chapman Ctr, TU In/o: 743-GAYS (4297) MAY 3-5 Texas Lesbian Conference Dallas Grand Hotel Info: Naomi @ 214-520-8108 = ~ Tulsa Family Chorale Wee "kly practice. 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AdDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4h-~ S. Harvard. 74924901 NAMES Project AIDS MemoHa~ Qui~ Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each inonth Info: 7dg-3 t i OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sn~dem Assoc~o~’: hio: (£;? 762 ’ 7].3-(].- "- /)re.senz the : 2rid Annual World Cinema Festivat [] Gay & Lesbian Cinema : ¯ ¯ [] Friday, April 19 ¯ []~ Gav & Lesbian History [] The Homosexuals. 7 pm [] ¯ Before Stonewalh The Making of a Gay and Lesbian Comtnunirv, 8pm ¯ Last Call at Maud’s, 9:30 pm [] ¯ ¯ [] [] ¯ [] ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ -" ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ TOHR Ci~wide Pride Prom Location to be announced. Info: 743-GAYS (4297) ¯ SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 6pm. Location to be ammunced. In/o: 743-GAYS (4297) Narcotics Anonymous Meets weeld y at ! I pm Confidential gnpport for recovering addicts. Cormnunitv of ! lcpc 1703 E. 2nd, Ir~fo: 585-1800 The University of [ulsa StudentA.*:..,.),,~,,~,v,.’ ’-’ ’" ’~’ ",r" ~is~’:<t:al. Lesbian and ~av ~t.[ance _,..c ~_n:,vc;-sitx 1)_ [] SATURDAY, JUNE 8 SATURDAY, MAY 4 Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Volunteer Training (2 of 2 sessions) 10 - 5 pm, Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd hffo: 749-4213 HIV Testing TOHR C linic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: "~ - 9 pm In/o: 742-2927 [] WEDNESDAY, APRIL 17 Pride Picnic Planning Meeting 7 pro. Central Library. Preview Room, 4fl~ & Denver. In/o: 583-1248 Co-Dependency Snpport Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo. 622-1441 Substance Ab>sv Support Grou,_ for ~ersons wifi~ H!’,415A-S. Harvard Sic 3-4:30 pro, I~o: 749-4!%4 >racuc.: week!v in OKC in b S38-212~ Womens Supper Club 6:30pro, r-Fippin’s Pie P~mtry, 7828 E. -1 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church Mass, 6 pill Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria In/o: Father Rick at 742-7122 Alternatives V,’eekiv social events for LGBT’men & women, 7 Dm info: 646-5503 ~ L.~adbr Seekers" A~’soc, 6:5’0 ou,. at Canterbury THURSDAYS ]6-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, In/o: 585-1800 ¯ ¯ ¯ Saturday,., April 20 American Gay & Lesbian Experience Postcards From America, lpm A Comedy in Six Unnatural Acts, 2:30pm Homoteens, 3pm The Blankpoint: What is Transexualism, 4pm Break for Dinner Super 8 112, 7pm Sunday, April 21 Gay & Lesbian International Film Wild Reeds, lpm Khltsh, 3pm El Diputado, 3:30pm Break for Dinner Boys Shorts: The New Queer Cinema, 7pm Urinal, 9pm Screenings are free and in Lorton Hall//207 (enter from 8th & [][] ¯" [] ¯ , ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ . -" ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Evanston. Lorton faces the Oval & is north of Twin Towers Dorm) ¯ ¯ Sponsored by the TU Student Assoc~atton, " " BLGA, Office of the¯ "Provosl, School of Art, Hen~. Kendall College Division of Fine & ¯ ~-Performing Arts, Office of the President .and Tulsa Family News.~I I i I I I I I I i I I I I I I I I I i I lilillll Illil I I.iil i i ii ’ �IAM current boardis Richard Reeder, o,t’d om p. 1 ¯ PhilIAM’s Wiley, Joe Myles, Lauren Green, ¯ Episcopal Diocese of Oklahoma. Both Steven Fendt, Bill Green and Nancy TiOKC and Tulsa members of the Task ¯ ger. Their vision for the future hopes to Force felt the ne2xl to provide services to add ameditation series, and various workPLWA’s, such as hospital visits, memo- .- shops to their current services of providrial services and education. ¯ ing spiritual, emotional and practical supOut of this, grew IAM which incorpo- " port for people. rated and applied for its IRS tax-exempt ¯ IAM is a membership/volunteer supstatus in 1990. IAM was begun by Doreen " ported organization. Membership is only Wood;Phil Wiley, Don Satterthwaite and ¯" $5/year/individualor$10/year/household Chaplin Diane Zike, who serves as execu¯ and $1/year/student/low income. Voluntive director. teers are especially needed for the 24 hour Although IAM is an interfaith orgam- ¯ hofline which is staffed in 4 hour blocks at zation, its origin with the Episcopal Church ¯ the volunteer’s home. One day training is resulted in a grant in 1990 to run a 24 hour ¯ provided in HIV!AIDS information and ¯ volunteer HIV/AIDS hotline. This line in "active listening". For more info. or to was for several years the only source of 24 "- volunteer, call 438-AIDS (2437). hour information in the state. Calls to the hotline range from basic HIV information ~on,’d~om p. 1 and referrals, such as to testing sites, to providing "real" listening to those who ¯ bly because Spahr is Lesbian. Following want to know if their actions may have put ¯¯ that ruling, DUPC and Westminister, 2 them at risk for HIV infection. IAM’s More Light (welcoming of Lesbian and state certified volunteers and staff also ¯ Gay persons) congregations, set up the provide education seminars for churches, ¯ special ministry so that she could travel and organizations such as the US Army ¯ the US educating and informing Presbvterians and others on behalf of greater Corp of Engineers, Kimberly-Clark, and booths at health fairs, conferences and ¯ inclusiveness in the Church. conventions. Spahr also will be the featured speaker IAM’s goal is to provide HIV.AIDS ¯¯ at a workshop entitled "Claiming God’s information from a spiritual dimension, Grace" in OKC on Sat.:May 18th. The especially for young people. According ~vorkshop is beiug called "a day of healto Diane Zike, "IAM is about saving ing, learning and community as we work lives...w e believe in abstinence but also in toward wholeness in our lives as children Of God & as Gay, Lesbian, Bi & giving good information so people can Transgendered peoples’" 9am to 4pm at make good choices." Zike has recently finished a couf~e in St. Andrew’s. 2712 NW 23. Preregistraclinical pastoral care which will allow tion encouraged, although walk-ins are welcome. Fee: S15, with scholarships IAM to add a new dimension to its services. IAM also offers "’trained visitors" available. For more izffo, call 745-9922 in who are available to see folks who are Tulsa, 377-9174, Stilhvater or 840-4849 max be too ill to get out or x~l~o are lonely. in OKC. i Spahr Play cont’dfromp. 13 John Weller for their incredible performances in the production I "directed" HIVariations, consisting of Cater Waiter & Andre’s Mother. Special thanks to Vivica, & the rest of the cast - your suggestions & insights were extremely helpful & appreciated. I am very proud of them. They performed perfectly, & the technical aspects of the show went off without a hitch - there wasn’t a dry eye in the house when they were done. Thank you for the many hours of work you all put in, & for putting up with a sometimes temperamental director. Special thanks to Aaron Mooney, who worked the lights with almost no preparation, no rehearsal, & did a stellar job. A special thanks to Professor Cook, for his belief in this project, & his conviction that everyone should have a voice in theatre. I hope you’ll support the 2nd Annual World Cinema Festival of Gay" & Lesbian Cinema at the TU, which occurs Friday, April 19 - Sunday, April 21. All films will be screened in Lorton Hall, room #207, on the TU campus. For the complete schedule see the ad on page 9. See you there? On the local front, BA Cornn{lmi’(~Playhouse was named "Oklahoma Theatre of the Year" by the OK Community Theatre Association. According to Don Tabberer, "For a community theatre, this is equivalent to receiving the Best Picture Oscar; it is very gratifying to be recognized for the work we do here.’" BACP also received an award for "’Excellence in Marketing". Congratulations, BACP! Their production of "’The Cemeterx: Club", a story about friendship, loss, healiug & facing life with humor, opens April 26. $ondheim’s "Company" opens June 14. BACP is also looking for directors for the upcoming season. For more info., call the BACP at 258-0077. Elvis is alive, & will probably be incognito at the Philbrook. The Philbrook Museum of Art will play host to a traveling exhibit, "Elvis + Marilyn: 2x Immortal". The exhibit examines Presley’s & Monroe’s enduring effect on American culture, & will be showing April 14- June 2, 1996. Keith Haring is one oftbe artists featured. A special event on April 28 at 2 & 4 pm, will be a concert given by J.D. Sumner & the Stamps Quartet, who performed regularly with Elvis during the height of his success. Tickets for the concert are $15, & include admission to the exhibit. Tix are available at the museum, or call 748-5307. see Play, page 15 Rainbow cont’dfromp. 11 tain state, particularly in Colorado Springs. Colorado Springs’ loss is our gain. The Emerald Rainbow has always been a tremendous resource for g/l/b/tg folk, and the beat goes on. The place has a little different look, new & different siddines, and most of the familiar remains as wall. Come and see for yourself. You can meet M.C. & Linda, maybe swap or create some God stories of your own. You might pick up some incense, buy a Rainbow flag, some Freedom Rings, a gay or lesbian novel, ~nake a statement with a button or bumper sticker, mid you will deftnitely enjoy your time in the place we call paradise - Enreka Springs. 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Your asset all ocatlon may need to change over tlllle in orderto ~’it your changing financial needs mad goals Butfer-Sturnpff ¯ READ ALL ABOUT IT cluding poor self esteem, intemalized Reviewed by Barry Hensley ¯ homophobia, lack of fidelity and the idea Tulsa City/County Public Library that the other guy is just plain nuts! The . Twenty-six years after Stonewall and bottom line seems to be lack of communi¯ s~xteen years into the AIDS crisis, gay cation. Everyone has quirks, so dream on ¯ men are just now starting to figure out if you’re looking only for Mr. Perfect, or how to make long-term relationships work, ¯ if you think that you are Mr. Perfect! All and, more importantly, why they are sig- ¯ .relationships are based on communicatnificant. Author Craig Nelson takes us on ¯ mg needs and desires. a stage by sta’ge journey ~b0ut how to get, ¯ " ’There is an interesting chapter, "Fideland keep, a man. ; ity, What’s Fidelity?," dealing with the In eleven readable and entertaining apparent difficulties that many gay men chapters, Nelson explores "Modem Love," ¯ have being faithful to their partner. AIDS "Where to Meet Men," is the obvious reason "Date Tips for Guys" that this may be the many factors...sabotage and "Keeping it Tomost important chapgether," among other long-term relationter in the book. It’s time topics. Since some guys gay men realize that the ships...poor self-esteem, seem to find romantic 1970s are long gone, success via personal internalized homophoand now is the time to ads and dating services, create a new standard Nelson supplies lists of bia, lack of fidelity and for gay relationships. ques tions that help both After spending the the idea that the other you and )’our potential entxre first ten chapters mate understand who guy is just plain nuts[ trying to get couples you are and what you together for the long want. Also, under’standing that a very haul, Nelson’s final chapter is titled "When small percentage of people are extremelY, It Falls Apart." Some relationships are physically attractive, Nelson reminds th~ simply not going to work and this chapter reader to loosen up, don’t beat up on g~ves advice on making a breakup as yourself, or a potential mate, for not lookpainless as possible. If there was ever a ing like Rod Jacksou-Paris. 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IGTA member. $329 $294 $178 $334 $294 �Polo Grill: cute waiters decent food by Jean-Pierre, TFN Food Critic Sometimes one has to consider the artistic aspects of fine dining from a more hedonistic aspect, somewhat removed from a strict analysis of the preparation and presentation of the food itself. There are restaurants which decorate with fine art or with collections of sports memorabilia, but one Tulsa establishment decorates with its wait staff. The Polo Grill, hidden away on the far east side of Utica Square but still a long time and well-known favorite of Tulsa’s social elite, has by far the most gorgeous and handsome waiters of any restaurant in town. In fact, at least three of the waiters are positively stunning (and they know it!) and could grace the pages of most any catalog or print ad. Unfortunately, we don’t have first hand information on whether or not they would qualify for International Male. And, believe it or not, these attractive waiters are very capable at doing their jobs. If one is able to get one’s mind back on the menu, one will find a good variety of tasty, well prepared items at this popular restaurant. The decor here is very clubby, including a welcoming fireplace near the bar, and the menu reflects a man’s tastes by the emphasis on heartier entrees and the lack of trendy items. Our major complaint with the establishment is that the smoking and non-smoking sections are not fully separated, and on a busy night, no area of the restaurant is trul y free from obnoxious mid unhealthy smoke. The food here is basic; straight forward ,and no-nonsense in preparation, .you can dine on haute cuisine entrees or the ever popular $7 Polo burger. Appetizers include fried calamari (squid), shrimp cocktail, some tasty crab cakes, escargot (snails) served in mushroom caps, a tomato vegetable soup, and an assortment of soups dujour. Several big entree salads, such as a traditional Cobb, appear on the menu, and the dressings include an excellent fruit flavored poppyseed vinaigrette, one of our favorites. Caesar salads, both with Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square. Prices: expensive. Service: formal, bistro atmosphere. Hours: 11-10 pro; ’tll 11 pm on Fri. & Sat.; closed Sun. Pay- ment: Visa, ]~laster-card, American Express, Diner’s Club, Carte Blanche; no eheel~s. Non-smol~n~ seeGon: Yes. Alcohol: Full bar. Opinion: A List. and without grilled chicken or shrimp, are also popular items. Main courses include beef, veal, lamb, duck, chicken, shrimp, and fish, with prices ranging from S 14.95 for the roast split of duckling to S 19.95 for grilled lamb chops to S22.95 or so for the fresh fish of the day. Steaks are popular with the sometimes older crowd, and the tenderloin fillet costs S16.95 for the six ounce and S18.95 for the eight ounce size, with the strip sirloin going for S 18.95 We ate the excellent veal osso bucco and our companion ordered the fish of the " day, which was a baked halibut served in ¯ a champagne cream sauce. The halibut ¯ was very fresh with no hint of fishy taste, and the sauce was a light and pleasant ¯ accompaniment. The halibut was pre¯ sented along side angel hair pasta, which ¯ we thought was cooked a touch beyond al ~ dente. Our osso bucco was delicious and ¯ fork tender. A traditional Italian stewing ¯ of the veal leg served with cross sections ¯ of bone and attached meat, osso bucco is ¯ beloved not so much for the meat, but for ¯ the wonderful marrow inside the bone. ¯ Therefore, we were shocked and appalled : when our osso bucco was presented, not ¯ with a marrow scoop, but with a totally useless seafood fork! We hate to admit it in public, but we were forced to extract the marrow witha...butter spreader. Mon dieu.t Desserts are substantial._ The creme brulee and Key lime pie, both $3.50, are typical of Tulsa restaurants. Even better are the baked fudge and the cinnamon raisin, bread pudding, both $3.95. On the evemng we dined, a Grand Marnier souffle, $4.95, was apleasant finale to our meal. While the souffle was not quite as tender as what we make at home, we could hardly complain in view of the very reasonable price of this often-difficult dessert. After dinner coffees, demitasse, and drinks are available from the full bar. A fairly small wine list contains both nice drink’able wines and a few embarrassing selections that are so sadly all too popular in Tulsa. Several of the better wines are available by the glass. The Polo Grill has always been one of the consistently go~d restaurants in Tulsa. Formal and gourmet it is not, bnt management and the kitchen are very ~vell grounded in their concept of ident’itv and do a fantastic job of serving their ~iclle with well trained staff and excellent food. Marilyn Monroe,.at Philbrook’s l~vis + Marilyn: 2 x Immortal,photo: Sam Shaw by James Christjohn The University of Tulsa’s Weekend of One .Acts has come & gone. Many ontstanding productions were perfonncd, & almost everyone in the directing class is now dealin~ with a great deal of strcss reduction. However, there are three productions upcoming. Diaries, writtcn by TU students about college life from a gay perspective, will go up 4.: 29, at 7pro in Theatre 2 in Kendall Hall. On 4 30, at 7pro, Laundry & Bourbon & The lx,sson (directed by Vivica \Valkenbach) will bc performed in Theatre 2. Lisa \Vilson’s version of Bus Stop opens 4 24. I would like to take tiffs opportunity to express my th,’ulks to Michael Kippcr, Karin Sandmel, Vivica \Valcbeubach, & see Play, page lO Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 South Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiality and comfort that enhances teh therapeutic process. For further information, call 743-4117 Leah Hunt, MSW Della Blackburn, CADC Judy Seymour-Taylor, CADC Ric.hard Reeder, MS Serving a Diverse Community Worship Service, 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H, 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 where pets are treated like people * Bakery Treats * Bed 8: Breakfast (boarding) " Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS. Nutro Dog Food THE DOG HOUSE BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria. 744-5556 [D[CC TO DISCO Wed,-Sat, 10-5 Sun, 1 �The fabulous T-Town Dreamers. Photos: JD Jamett OUT & ABOUT " by, J.D. Jame~t It’s spring and boy, are there a lot of tlfings to do out and about. This next month holds a broad spectrum of events from a turn-about show at the Silver Star (April 19), followed by the 4th annual Miss Silver Star Pageant (April 21). You’ll be sorry if you missed Robbie Walker’s 2rid am~tm] Birthday Show wtfich was April. 7th at Concessions. Don’t nfiss the Miss Gay C)klahoma America Pagent (April 20) at the Peffornfing Arts Center or the Bear Bash (April 27). Contact Steve or Dick at 918663-5372 for more *larch came in like a lamb but went out like a drag queen with bad hair and broken heels (just-kidding). There was a lot of excellent entertaimnent last month, from .a spectacular arfiversarv show at I~ola’s which featured a new°entertainment group, The T-Town Dreamers, to the first mmual Gay South USofA pageant at the Sih’~r Star. This month’s featured establishment of At the Silver Star, Fallon Scott new Miss Gay South USofA " - int~rest ~,s known as a great neighborhood bar (or two bars) - that’s right, New Age Renegades and the Rainbow Room. These bars offer a little bit for everyone, a from a sit-down cruise bar to a show bar to a nice big patio with fireplace. This bar is trnly a familv affair. Dermis and lfis other half. i~arry, not only are the owners but regular bartenders. And who could ever forget Derails’ sister, Veronica, the v~vacious and light-hearted bartender in the Rainbow Room? Some of their ~nonthly events are Leather Night (Ist Friday of the month in the Rainbow Roon~), Girls Nite Out (the date varies each month but the date is always posted). May will be a particularly busy month for th’em starting with the Red Ribbon Revue (May 4) which will benefit Our House. followed by Miss Renegades ’96 (May 17), Girls Nit’e Out with a wet jockey shorts contest (May 18) mad ending with one of the rites of spring, the GAYFEST CARNIVAL & carwash featuring Dark Shadows II, see JD, next page Coming Soon! Don’t Miss It! Special entertainers: Amanda Love Anita Richards Helen Holliday Scott Pendergrass, from Nashville An event you won’t want to miss. The most prestigious preliminary to Miss.. GaY OMahoma America Tickets on sale at the P.A.C.or at most Carson Attractions outlets. $5.00 ~er person or $6°00 per couple= Phone orders ~y credit cards accepted. Liddy D.oenges Theater - use the 2rid St. entrance 1~r this event.‘ Don’t ~it~’t0 pur~h~se tickets; seating is limiteci. Thanks to the P.A.C. ~’or helping to make ~his ever~t one Tulsans of all walks of life will be proud of. For more information, call: 918.428.5330 Portions of proceeds to benefit Shanti, Inc. & Our House �JD, continued from page 14 also benefiting Our House (May 19). PS, speaking of drag queens, to keep all the fabulous drag divas of Tulsa happy (and so they stop pestering me about getting their names mentioned in the column), I’m now starting our Queen of the Month dub. This month’s winner is Katherine - ’cause she begs so sweetly. Queen of the Month dub rules Vary according to my whim, so be patient, sooner or later, everyone wins. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad Count the number of words. (A word for our purposes is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space.) Play, continued from page 14 Gilcrease museum is offering an intriguing program during this month called Art With A Tart: No, I’m not making this up; that’s the name of the event, honest! A speaker will give a tour about bits of the Gilcrease collection, & the museum restaurant makes up a box lunch comprised of a tart & a salad. I don’t think they mean the tart serves the salad, it seems a pastry tart is included in the lunch: Pity. 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(Jones~ro) =3447’0 �A final resting place in. peace, unity and pride... located in Washington Memorial.~Gardens Cemetery 4300 E. 91st Street South On 91st Street between Yale & Harvard Gardens has been Gay and Les those si 2 lS no or re, A~ to We off i! will al!ow co grazing nizin is noplace as a o ?n as an in~ Lividual? the will, the first ce: in the United States section of our cemetery just for & Lesbians, and their family and friends. burial_spaces, columbarium for cremated remains, ¯ ~.g:gardens with a :memorial wall, newly expanded and renovated section of ngton. Memorial Gardens~ Cemetery. The Pride flag will proudly fly in the center of Unity Gardens to always remind us of our struggle in life for unity and pride. If you have purchased a plot elsewhere, you may be able to transfer or trade your burial plots. For more information, please call Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-587-7000. ***Owned and operated by Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home*** � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay Fight to Ban. ROTC Re-Heats i WASHINGTON - Little noticed in Feb- : ruary was congressional passage of a bill, : now signed into law by PresidentCfiiiion ¯ the "Campus Access Act" that prohibits : all Defense Department funds to colleges : and .um’versities which the ,,Secretary of ¯ DefenSe :judges., have, an,.~ anti~ROTC : poii~y?’ "~lae legi~latiisn b,bfild have the ." impact of barring Defense Department ¯ funds from going to any campus where : anti-discrimination policies barfing bias : based on sexual orientation limit or re- ¯ strict Reserve OfficerTraining Corps programs. No exact figures are available on the amount ofmoney the Defense Department spends annually at U.S. colleges, but at larger schools, such as Stanford, the University of Pennsylvania, or the University of California at Los Angeles, it might easily amount to tens ofmillions of dollars each year. The term "anti-ROTC policy" is defined in the Act as prohibiting either the Defense Department from see ROTC, page 3 High School Gays. Win & Lose Some Dallas Bd. Includes Protections DALLAS - Under pressure from local rights activists, the Dallas school board decided at theIastminute toinclude sexual orientation in the anti-harassment policy it adopted at its March 28 meeting. The policy, which had not initially included sexual orientationas a category, wasadded after members of the Dallas Gay & Lesbian Allianceand other communitymembers complained that not including sexual orientation in the newpolicy could actually encourage anti-gay and -lesbian harassment in the city’s schools. The new policy bars "oral, written, psychological, physical and other demonstrative actions see School, page 3 .Marriage, Update Colorado Gov. Roy Romer has vetoed a measure :that would have explicitly banned recognizing same-sex marriages in the state, even if they were legally performedinother states, however, Romer said he would sign a bill that declared opposite-sex mamages as the "strong public policy of the state" while at the same time authorizing a study of possible ways same-sex couples could be given legal recognition of their relationships without violating that policy. He called the legislation he vetoed, a "mean-spirited and unnecessary" attack. Idaho became the 3rdstate in the U.S., joining Utah and South Dakota, to bar recognizing same-gender marriageS. The Kentucky state Senate is now considering a measure banning same,sex mamages and activists believe the anti-gay bill has a good chance of passing there. Illinois has also now received a similar ban, spurred on by leaders of the state’s antigay Christian Coalitiou and Christian Action Network. In Kansas, a bill that was already on the floor of the state tlouse of see Marriage, page 3 & Bisexual Communities-,Our Families of the Heart ¯ The Reverend Leslie Penrose, AIDS ac- : tivist Mary Fisher and a youngfriend at ¯ Community ofHope United~thodist. i Wo-men &AIDS i 400.÷HearActivist i Mom,,Mary Fisher ¯" When Janice Nicklas and her co-orga- ¯ nizerbegan planning for the first regional ." conference on Women and AIDS, they ." hoped tohave about 100 or so attend. On ¯ April 2, more than 400 people were registered for the one day conference of work- : shops at the-University of Tulsa’s ¯ Chapman Center. : The workshops ranged from AIDS 101 ¯ to HIV and Incarcerated Women or HIV ¯ tators were both local educators and ex- ¯ perts & those from around the US. The ¯" conference l~gan with a panel of those : infected or affected by HIV. ! The keynote address was ~ven at lunch byAIDS activist, Mary. Fisher, founder of : the Family AIDS Network, Inc. which : works to heighten commumty and ha- ¯ tional awareness and compassion in the : fight against HIV/AIDS. Ms. Fisher, a ~ person/iving with HIViAIDS, came to ¯ national attention when she spoke about ~ AIDS to, the:Republican-National Con- ; vention’in.Houston in-1992.. ~ Fisher’s Tulsa speech was a call to : political arms. She began with quote from ¯ a US Senate chaplin who, when asked if "- he prayed for the Senate;~said, no, after i looking at the Senate, he prayed for the ¯ people. FishersaidthatwithWashington’s ¯ and America’s response to AIDS, prayer : probably was_a good’idea. ~ ................... ¯ Fisher stated that-America.iacks -the. 3 ; basicingredients to wina fight withAIDS: ¯ no national plan for researeh~ .car~e or pre- : vention, nor visible, competent, or trusted ." leadership, nor sufficient funding. ¯ Fisher said we also must look for leadership from the uninfected, ,We. are like ; .’ .ca fl nghtsmovement whose leaders die ; ev~t~"year. : Inaninterviewwith.TFN, Fishernoted ¯ that she would have said we’re making ¯ progress in the AIDS fight prior to the ¯" 1994 Republican sweep. But now she ¯ says we haven’t followed who’s coming : up in that party and we must hold our ~ leaders feet to the fire. "We must commu- ¯ nicate that tiffs fightis about human rights, ¯¯ not about moraljudgements....women, especially, need to say I matter.’" PFLAG at Central-Library Editorial: Kudos to Tulsa Org. Themembers&officers ofTnlsaChapter of Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians &Gays deserve high praise for their exhibit currentlyat theTulsaCity,County Library, as does the libraD’ staff. The exhibit is good but you will appreciate it even more when you know that PFLAG had only a little more than a week to prepare it. The exhibit, up-through April is a snapshot of what PFL~G’s about & of Lesbian & Gay life. Tulsa Family News strongly encourages you to see the’exhibit before it doses. LESBITERIAN & ¯ StillwaterandendinginTulsaon Sunday, May 19 at College Hill Presbyterian, 712 ! S. Columbia. College"Hill will host a : dinner and dialogue at 5pro, followed by ." worshipat 7pro. Her visit is sponsored by ¯ College Hill and Presbyterians for Les- ." bian,’Gay Concerns. : Spahr is an evangelist with the special ¯ ministry ’q’hat .MI May Freely Sen’e’" of : the Downtown United Presbyterian -" Church (DUPC) ofRochester,NeW York, : in parmership with Westminster Presby- ¯ terianofTiburon, CA.In 1991,Spahrwas : by DUPC to serve as Co-pastor but was ¯ denied that position in an unprecedented i move by the ruling body of the-pre~bvterian Church (USA), the.General Ass~m- ¯ see Spahr, page 10 G reatPlains Rodeo "In OKC, May 24.26 : The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ¯ (OGRA) will hold its tt.th-annual rodeo : on Memorial Day Weekend, May 24-26. : It features 2 days of rodeo at the OKC ¯ State Fairgrounds and 3 nights of parties : and exhibits at the Hilton Inn. N\V~ : OGRA beganin 1984. TheGreat Plaius : Regional Rodeo was formed through the ¯ efforts of Kansas, Missouri and Okla- : homa and held its first rodeo in 1986 In : 1993, Arkansas formed theDiamond State : Rodeo Association and joined the Great ~ Hains organization. OG1L~t’s volunteers ¯ are dedicated providing rodeo ~vents for _" Lesbians and Ga)’~menand als0 to sup- " porting AIDS charities. Membership is ¯ noflimited to rodeo .compet.it0fs Formore ¯ info. "call 405-842-0849. April 15 - May 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue 5 ¯ Run for YourLives, Part3 i LegislativeUpdate ¯ Anti-Gay Amendments Die ¯ OK Senate staff confirm that. HB 2554 ¯ is "dead" for this session. HB 2554 ad- ¯ dressed divorce law changes but was ~ amended to ban same-gender marriage _" even if those were legal elsewhere. ¯ ~ Anamendment to the"Ryan Luke" bill, ¯ HB 2053, would ban child custody by a : "known homosexual,lesbian or bisexual." ." Rep. Laura Boyd, author ofHB 2053, told ¯ TFN that the anti-Gay amendment was ." "out for good." It appears that this session ~ will draw to a close in May without thc ." passage of any anti-Gay bibs or amend-. ments, only the anti-Gay but merely svm. ! bolic resolution #1045. " i Coming Soon! : On May 23, the Tulsa Ice Arena will ." host at 7:30pro the first Red Ribbon lc~ ." Revue. ’l’he evening will feature profes. ¯ sional skaters from Kansas City, OK(" : andTulsa All tickel proceeds will benefit : Our House which provides support for ¯ those challenged by HI\," AIDS. Tickets ¯ are $8, balcon.v seats and S12.50 for on- ¯ ice seats at the .Arena at 71st & .~.hugo ¯ (behind the 1 2 Price Store). For~more ¯ info. ".call Shane Douglas at 254--7272. ¯ ¯ Follies Revue, Inc. have announced tha! this \ear’s eveut. Follies Salute the .\hn’. ies, Will be on Juue 21 & 22at the \Varrcn ¯ Place Doubletree Hotel. The Follies will : showcase suchartists as Alexandr"Sacha’" ¯ Luiiev of the Tulsa Ballet Theatre, singers ¯ Deb Roberts and Steve Wright: For more ¯ info. call 437-0201. - : Local HI\" AIDS support org~iniza~ion, ¯ ILMN, the Regional AIDS Interfaith Net- " work is holding its volunteer training on : April 27 and May 4 at Community of , Hope from 10-Spin. And Debbie Waters, : MSW announces a support group, Phoe- ¯ nix Group, for families & friends living : with AIDS. The group meets on the Ist & : 3rd Thurs. each month: Call 584-6460. ilnterfaith AIDS Ministries Hits 10 : This May, Interfaith AIDS Ministries ¯ (IAM) will celebrate its lOth-auniversarv ! of:providing education about HIV;AIDg ¯ and ofproviding support to persons living ¯ with HIV,,AIDS (PLWA’~s)~ S_t,.Peter’s ". Episcopal Church at 9100 East 21 st Street ¯ Will host a sen’ice commemorating !0 " years of work on Sunday, May 19 at 3pm. ," !AM will also be featured at the May 14th meeting of the AIDS Coalition. 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I received a message on my machine that said. =tli Tom, t~s is Keit~ S~ from the A(’I ,V offi~ in OMahoma City....’" Smith. who’s a rc~dtor and ad s~esm~ for OKC paper The Perspec’t~ ve, was m~appy about ~ ~ficle that we wrote. The article stated that he’d helped OMa. I louse M~0ont~ Leader Benson rewrite Benson’s vcrx ant~-Gav resolution. #1~5. Sxmth clmms he heisted chm~e the anti-gay lang~ge of the ongin~ version to l~guage that ~ght be ~i~- slightly less ami:Gay. We ~so wrote that some OKC folks had accused Smith of passing ~mselfoff~ spokesperson for the OM~oma LGBT ~umties. I promised Smith that I’d address ~s c0n~ms. At one meeting with Benson, S~th says he was with Jo Ann Bell of the ACLU. Ms. Bell swe~s that Smith only represented ~mself. Smi~ says that at a later meeting (where Bell w~ not present), he helped Beuson m~e specific ch~ges in l~g~ge of # 1 045: but that he told Benson &at he nevertheless opposed the fin~ drMt (which hehelped write). Seem confusing? Smith appears to have b~n view~ by Benson, by Rcp. I ~ura Boyd. by other legislators, and by State l)emocratic P~tv Ex~ufive ~r~tor Pat Ihdl. as an anthofized ~pokesperson for Gay ~d I ~sbian counnunitv. As a result, some le~slators votedagainst us, thinking ~at they had our blessrag. Through mepmess or nmvete on ~s p~t ~d possibly opportmfism on the p~t of some le~slators, what hc clmms w~ ~ effort to m~e 100% bad rcsolution into one that would~ ody~%bad wound up being used against him and us. And while Smith may feel he’s been beat up, actually there’s enough blame to spread around. Tulsan~ should strongly object to the failure of OKC groups, who were having meeungs about #1045, to commumeate regularly with any Tulsa activists or groups. If it wasn’t Smith singlehandedly representxng the entire state, it was the OKC organizations acting as though they did. The ACLU. which is a statewide organization, made no effort to communicate, even with its Tulsa board members. OGLPC’s Paul Thompson did commumcate with TOHR when #1045 was first introduced, but apparently not when this meeting was .happening. Tulsa groups who were working on this ~ssue might also have called OKC groups. However. it seems that the greater obligation falls on those who have the advantage of proximity to the Capitol and know better when action’s happening. After stories like this, I sometimes think we are our own worst enemy.-Smith has substantial experience with the legislature, and we’d be foolish not to take advantage of it. But it also appears that we need to make sure that those who represent us at the Capitol really represent all of us - in Tulsa, and wherever else there’s an organized community in the state, as well as in Oklahoma City. Just one last thing about representation: Smith is neither an officer nor an employee of the ACLU. He volunteers but according to ACLU board president, Mark Hendricksen, Smith should not identify himself as though he’s staff or an officer. Does make you kind-of wonder, doesn’t it.’? Ilello, you don’t know me, but I certainly know you. I live with you. I work with you. I may even be involved with you. And yes, I’ve often masqueraded ,as v0u. I’ve had to: I’m practically invisible, you see.’Or maybe you don’t.... I am a transsexual. But being a transie i~ this town doesn’t add up to a great deal of visibility. That’s funny, considering that scarcely a day goes by when I DON’T hear somebody whispering b~hindmy back,"Is that a boy or a girl ! Noit’s gotta be a faggot! Well...maybe it’s a Dyke after all..." Manya ume, I, and other transsexuals/transgender persons, have taken the homophobic backlash for our gay ,and lesbian brothers and sisters, stmply because we are usually more visible than most. Nobody loves a hermaphrodite. Androgyny makes : most people really edgy. But I expect that from most people (sadly enough). What hurts though, is how Gays and Lesbians have taken little notice of : us, in their silence, colluding to collapse our distinct identities into theirs. : Let’ s face it... how many of you gays andlesbians ¯ out there, in yourpersonal and political lives, focus ¯ on gender issues just as much as you focus on sex and sexuality? In this society, gender is taken for : granted. Gender deviance ~s taken as a personal insult, see Letters, page 13 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *B,’unboo Lounge, 7204 E. Piue *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Reuegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Intenu’ban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 832- 1269 744-0896 621-9376 749-1563 745-9998 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Derails C. 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Mike Leavitt has vetoed a measure, SB246, that would have barred teachers 111 public sdaools from encouragtng or condoning any act that is illegal under state law. The measure-wasspecifiCallyaimed at~pre~ venting teachers from serving as sponsors fo~gay and lesbian clubs in public schools, anassue that exploded earlier this year in the state.: Even though Lea~iRt vet0ed;the measure, he nevertheless said, "I support the statement that was made in SB246, but we cannot infringe on free speech." The Utah Education Assn. had opposed the measure and said the governor "absolutely did the right tiring." Calif. Trustees Wiggle Around Outright Gay Club Ban GLENDALE, Calif. - Trustees for the Glendale, Calif., school district have decided under pressure from civil rights groups not to adopt a policy that would require students to get parental perufission in order tojotn gay and lesbian school clubs specifically, and instead modified the policy to make it apply to any "’controversial" non-curricular clubs at the city’s public schools. The school board had initially intended to make the policy apply.,,.’ only to the gay and lesbian club that students at Hoover High School had asked to form, but decided to make the policy apply generally to any "’controversial" dubs so it wouldn’t appear to be discriminatory. Civil fights advocates were not satisfied with the broader parental permission requirement and argue that the adopted policy simply covers up the original intention of the board to make it nearly impossible for gay and lesbian students to join the proposed club. Marc Elovitz, s taff attorney for the ACLU’s Lesbian mad Gay Rights Project, said the policy "’was a thinly-veiled attempt ,:o silence gay youths." "’Rather than making it more difficult for iesbi,an and gay teenagers to come out. the school board should be meeting to discuss ways to create a friendlier environment for gay youths," Elovitz said. School Board Facing Backlash ROCKVILLE, Md. - The Montgomery County (Md.) school board’s decision to include sexual~_orientation in its list of an~i-bias~prOtections passed by a 6-0 vote on Mar. 25, but it has also sparked a threat by an ad-hoc group of Hispanic parents to remove their children from the district’s p’~blic sctiools: Som~’400 pa~eh~s qUidld~, formed the ’Hispanic Paren~ of M~mgomery Coamty in an effort to convince the trustees to change their minds about ELVI Seen to with the umversiw’s, own anti-bias poll ~ ,:;ies. The }ssue of ROTC at colle2es and ~mversiues tth~oughout the conntrv has t:.cen more or less on the back buruer fin the past few years, following President (i!inton’s initial promise to end the ban. But with the so-called "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy increasingly seen by manv rights activists as no improvement over the previous policy, ROTC programs are again coming under fire.~ MIT Not Im pressed With-ROTC CAMBRIDGE. M~ss: ’- ~’At the M’assachusetts Institute of Technology, the final report presented of a speciMtask force study group on Reserve Office Training :i ~ Cbi~s uifit~ ai ~e!s’d~601~t with a Chilly : reception byMIT faculty Wh6 in April ¯ will decide what to do about the ¯ reawakened controversy. Several faculty the newly adopted policy. Many of the ~ leaders complained thal the report was tittle more than a compromise that resolved nothing, while others said the report recommendations, if adopted, would themselves amount to a violation of M1T’s anti-bias protections. parents expressed concerns the new policy would actually lead to homosexual activities in the schools and expose their children to HIV. But so far school officials are not backing away from the policy, which is simply a parallel to one already on the books for the entire county, and Paul Vance, the county’s superintendent of schools, said the new policy doesn’t "promote, encourage or approve of sexual activity of any kind." setting up or keeping an ROTC unit at the school, or preventing any student from enrolling in an ROTC program. Univ. of Penn. Drops ROTC PHILADELPHIA - Univ. of Penn. Provost Stanley Chodorow has announced that the school is dropping its Armv and" Naval Reserve Officer Training ~orps programs on campus because of the Defense Department" s continued ban against Gavs and Lesbians in the I’.S. military The decision ends a 5-year conflict between the military and the school over the anti-gay protfibit]on, wtuch is in conflict LYN Philbrook Representatives was amended without notice or hearings to protfibit same-sex marriages and passed by a4-to- 1 margin. By a 16-3 vote. the Alaska state Senate has also approved a bill that would restrict man’iage in the state to male-female. The Central Conference of American Rabbis, representing rabbis in the Reform movement, has voted to support the fight of gays and lesbians to civil marriages in the U.S. The resolution, which cites "’our Jewish commitment to the fundamental pnnciple that we are all created in the divine image," endorses "’the fight of gay and lesbian couples to share fullx and equally in the fights of civil marriage," and opposes "’govermnental efforts to ban gay and lesbian marriage." Don Thornton F~rd, 83~-7.101 {f you take an honest look ai ga lesbian attitudes towardsgcndet-bending queers in the commuiuty youwill find a good deal of resentment. The drag queens, the fem-fairy boys, the bulld~’kes are routinelv scorned (just take a look at queer personals ad). Gays mad, Dzsbians also are at great pmns to accept bisexuals. who "fide the fence," unable to linut their partners,.to asingle gender. And transies? -:;" T~hh~eyy.’l’rl eaklwiddaiyn,sg’r, ethaelmlys"elbv~es,wtohoat,ebveecrausesxe they were born & nothing more. It’~s this disregard for gender isshes that worries me the most. As queers we-all experience gender-based discrimination Yet, for all the similarities we share, there is a great deal of ignorance and apath3 about the differences, & that’s dangerous. I’m talking about the kind of ~gnorance that separates transpersons from the res~ of the crowd, threatens us, distorts us, and claims our accomplishments and experiences. It’s about reading the "Crying Game" as a gay flick rather than a film about a transgendered person. It’s abou! claiming Joan of.Arc solely as an histonc Lesbian, not a transgend~r pioneer. It’s about the Murder of Mr. Brandon Teena and his girlfriend, for being "’lesbians," reducing Teena’s life and commitment to living as a man. to a "lesbian’s" pathetic attempt to "’pass" for a straight matt. Well. I’m here to try and shed a little light on the differences and similarities among the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and trans colnmunities. M\ (trans)mission clear. I have to let you "know I’m here. And I’m listening .... Are you? - June Polk News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Attacks Drop Slightly significant increases included: " thestateSupremeCourthasagain . serviccsifhersexualorientation of energy for the day, mid you but More Violent SAN FRANCISCO - Attacks against gays and lesbians in 11 of the country’s larger cities decreased slightly overall last year according to a report compiled by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs. But while some cities showeddramatic declines in antigay violence, ,an equal number 0fcities she.wed equally dramatic increases m attacks aimed at lesbians and gay men, according to the report’s statistics. More disturbing, anti-violence activists say, even with the small overall decline in attacks, the offenses themselves are becoming increamngly more savage. Even though the total number of all incidents reported in the 11 cities dropped to 2212 las! year from the 1994 total of 240 [, about a quarter of those incidents were assaults mid more than a third of all the victilns of these attacks suffered serious iujnrics or died as a result of the attacks in Portland. Ore.. reported anu-gay incidents dropped 56 percent last 3"ear frotn 106 in 1994 to just 47 in 1995 - the largest decrease logged nauonal report. Clficago wasn’t much behind and showed a decrease of 53 percent last year with reported incidents falling Item 177 to 83. Boston and Los :\ngeles both showed comparable decreases ~n reported attacks last year (26 percent and 23 percent respectively). Most of these decreases were offset by cities that reported dramatl~ increases in anti-gay attacks. E1 P.aso. Texas. reported the largest nsc with a42 percent increase in mm-ga3 attacks, ajump from 92 incidents in 1994to 131 last year. Other cities that showed Phoenix, a 22 % increase; Columbus, Ohio, with a 21% rise in reported incidents; and Minneapolis/St. Paul, up by 15 % last year. Hate Crimes Data Measure Before Senate WASHINGTON, D.C. - The Senate has begun its first round of hearings on reauthorizing the federal Hate Crimes Statistics Act, the 1990 le~slation that requires the Justice Department to compile and analyze hatebased crimes, including an tigay attacks. Activists have expressed some concerns the measure may have more trouble in Congress than it did 6 )’ears ago because of the increasingly conservative make-up of both houses. Anti-Violence March at Kentucky School MOREH~D, Ky. -Nearly 200 students, faculty and staff members marched through the Morehead State Umverszty campus ~n a "Take Back the Night" campaign aimed atraising awareness of anti-gay and - lesbian violence at the school. The march, the first of its kind at the school, was sparked by the Feb. 5 attack of Carrie O’Cohnor, a lesbian enrolled at MSU. According to MSU campus police, 3 masked men grabbed O’Connor as she was walking back to her dormitory and repeated ly punched and ~.icked her. Officials say they still have no suspects in that attack, but it was reported to state police as an anti-gay hate crime - the first such official report filed by the school. Georgia Sodomy Law ATLANTA-In a legal challenge to Georgia’s anti-sodomy law - broughtby L. Chris Chrisuansen, ruled that the statute does not violate the Georgia constitution’s privacy protections. Instead, the court ruling says the law furthers "’the moral welfare of the public." Christiansen was convicted on misdemeanor charges of violating the sodomy law after he propositioned an undercover sheriff’s deputy. Montana’s Sodomy Law HELENA, Mont. - Montana Attorney General Joe Mazurek has appealed a state court ruling that declared the state’s anti-gay sodomy law unconstitutional as a violation of privacy. The case automatically goes.to the ~state supreme court. Mazurek" s office said he had decided to appeal the Feb. 16 ruling because courts, especially lower courts, should be Vex3, cautious about striking down laws made by the state legislature. Gay rights activists in Montana said they weren’t surprised by the appeal and expected the case to go before the state supreme court. Lesbian Tells Parliament of Rape in Royal Navy LONDON" - Parliament heard a stunning admission from Karen Greig, who described to a select conmaittee on the armed forces how she was raped by a male sailor she served with in the Royal Navy who threatened to reveal her lesbianism to naval officers ifshe protested. Greig, 33, said she arranged to be transferred to a naval station in Scotland to escape the man’s sexual attacks, but that he later tracked her down and raped her with another male sailor. She told the select committee members that she had not reported the attacks for years because she was worried she would be discharged from the ¯ crone to light. Greig said tlmt ¯ wheu she finally reported die ¯ attacks, a superior officer ¯ suggested that perhaps the reason she wasu’t dealing with the ¯ situation very ~vell ~vas"because ¯ you’re a lcsrian." She ",also said ¯ ~hat as soon as she reported the ¯ attacks she was se nt to a ¯ psyclfiatric hospital for 3 days ¯ and that the mcu she says raped ¯ her were uever puuished. ¯ Brit Defense Minister ¯ Vows to Keep Ban ¯ LONDON - Nicholas Soames, Britain’s defense minister, told Parli,’uneut during a question- " m~swer period that 309 service ¯ members had been discharged ¯ between 1990and 1994because they were homosexual. Somnes ¯ was answering questions about ¯ a miuistry report that showed ¯¯ members of the uation’s armed forces are strongly opposed to ¯ ending the ban on gay midlesbian ¯ soldiers, sailors ~md marines. So,’unes said lie was p~epared to ¯ "’fight every inch of the way:" to ¯ keep the anti-gay ban in place. ¯ Golf Champ Comes Out ¯ NEW YORK- Muffin Spencer- " Devlin, an 18-yearveteranofthe LPGA Tour, has told Sports Illustrated in an exclusive ¯ interview that she is a lesbian. ¯ "Confiug outis like an incredibly huge ~veight being lifted from my shoulders," Spencer-Devlin told the magazine. "’No more ¯ living iu the shadows. No more lies.’" The 42-year-old pro golfer has won 3 tournament titles mad ¯ last year had 3 fiuishes in the ¯ top-10, winning more than $100,000 from tournament play. "I truly believe that keeping a secret is an energy-consurmng ¯ act," Speficer-Devlin says in the iuterview. "If every day when ¯ you wake up you have 100 units have secrets, they nfight take up 10 milts of that energy. After a time you ufightnot even be aware of it anymore, but you have that much less cuergy to apply in your life. And that’ suuliealthy." Vickie Fergon, LPGA president, mid Jim Ritts, the conunissioner, both told Sports Illustrated they support Spencer-Devlin’s decision to come out. "’I applaud Muffin," Said Fergon. ’Tm not saying every player will be thrilled about it, but we’re a family and we respect each other." Ritts is quoted as saying, "I know there are still individuals who have problems with diversity, but we’ve come so far as a society that I don’t see this as a topic that really moves people." Gay Clubs in Russia ST. PEI’ERSBURG, Russia - The Tchaikovsky Fuud, one of the few gay rights organizations in Russia, has brokennew ground with the opeuing late last year of a new club, know as "’Victor i Ya" ("Victor and I"), in the former czarist .capital. Yuri Yereyev, who heads the Tchaikovsky Fun& said the club offers not only social facilities, like a cafe mid place where people can dance, but also will be holding seminars to educate the Russian people about gays and lesbians. Another major feature of the club, Yereyev says, is an extensive AIDS education and prevention prograni. The club hands out free HIV literature as well as condoms, both of Milch are in short supply in Russia. Yereyev also said another barrier was broken in February when a lesbian club, "Safe" ("Sappho") officially opened in St. Petersburg as well, not far from the "Victor i Ya." Canadian Rights Report OTI’AWA - Max Yalden, the 1635 E. 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 599-8070 Serving Our Community with Pride! cumenicaIC tho c Church meetm,O at Tile Gardbn Cfiqpe( ~S.4t 3 J’eorta ~ T~o, .’Mas.~ Saturday event.s at 6:00 P.~ "lfie 7~ev. .7~ther 7~ck .7(o~rt~swortti. 7"astor ]’,hh’/ o/S) 040-711(; J~t’std~/lcc ’(918) 742-7iz’2 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Canadian human rights commissioner has sharply criticized the Liberal government of Prime MinisterJean Chretienin a report for not protecting the rights of gays. In a parting shot, after 9 years heading the commission, Max Yalden said the failure to bar discrimination based on sexual orientation in the country is "little better than acquiescence in intolerance." Yalden’ s annual reportcalledit"afailureinmoral logic and a near-public repudiatioff’ of the rightsoflawabiding citizens mad sl~mmed the Chretien government for failing to amend the Canadian Human Rights Act during the past 2 years it has been in power despite promises to extend full civil rights to Canadian gays and lesbians. The report generated an immediate political storm in the country and Chretien told Parliament the government had already enacted legislation increasing legal penalties for anti-gay attacks and other hate crimes. He also promised that a bill anending the federal human rights laws "will be presented before this House before we move to an election." But Allan Rock, thejustice minister, said it would be "politically difficult" to enact such an anendment before the election because of disagreements within the Liberal Party. Liberal MP Grit Dan McTeague of Ontario called Yalden a "nut bar," and sever al Conservative and Reform Party members also attacked the proposal to include gays and lesbians under federal human rights protections. Canadian Commons Gives Partners Benefits OTFAWA - .Canada’s highlysecretive Commons Board of Internal Economy, which oversees internal spending for the House of Commons itself, has approved limited benefits for same-sex partners of Commons ¯ employees. The board agreed to extend bereavement and familyrelated leave to the same-sex partners of Commons employees. The decision followed a move by the country’s Treasury ¯ Board last year to extend the ¯ same benefits to same-sex ¯ partners of employees in all fe ¯ deral government departments. ¯ That measure followed a court ¯ ro!ing that. same-sex, partners h’a~,E a righi :to ihose benefits. ¯ Gay Retires from Navy ¯ SAN DIEGO, Calif, - In ,an ¯ exclusive interview in the Gay + Lesbian Times, Keith Meinhold, the openly gay sailor who ¯ successfully battled with the ¯ Na~vy’s attempt to discharge him ¯ after he came out on a national ¯¯ TV news broadcast, announced he is retiring from the military. Meinhold, 33, w,as stationed at the Moffett Field Naval Air Sta- ¯ tion where he was a well-liked : sonar instructor when he told : Ted Koppel of ABC News in ¯ 1992 that he was gay. After he fought discharge attempts for 2 ¯ years, the 9th Circuit Court of ¯ Appe~.s finally ordered the Navy not to discharge the 15-year veteran. 1st Annual Pride ¯ Paradein CapeTown ¯ CAPE TOWN, South Africa - An estimated 1,000 gays and ¯ lesbians turned out Saturday night, March 24, to march in the ¯ first annual Gay & Lesbian Festival parade. Two lone and-. gay protesters showed up along : the parade route, holding si~s with biblical quotations ¯ denouncing sodomy, but they ¯ were hardly noticed among the thousands who lined the streets to watch the landmark event. San Francisco Library’s Gay & Lesbian Wing SAN FRANCISCO - A new wing ofthe yet-to-be opened San Francisco Main Library is being called one of a kind. On March 23, hundreds of city officials, community leaders and residents gathered to preview the James C. Hormel Gay and Lesbian Cen- : ter inside the newly constructed library. The Hormel Center will serve as a research center for gay and lesbian literature, culture, - hisidry hnd’ ~r:~search. The research ~center is the first of its kind in a public institution anywhere in the country. "It’s principal benefactor, James Hormel, said the center will change the way everyone - gay and straight- looks athistory. "’It is time for us to receive the recognition we deserve and to take our place as equal members of the community at large," Anti-Bias Albany ALBANY, N.Y. - Lawmakers have adopted an anti-bias ordinance prohibiting discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations based on race, religion, national origin, sex, age, disability and marital status, as well as sexual orientation. The countywide measure was approved 24-13. Albany Mayor Jerry Jennings has signed a measure setting up a city domestic partners registration that will allow unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex couples to register their relationship with city hall. The measure, approved by the city’s commoncouncil earlier the same week, extends no specific benefits, but does extend official recognition to the domestic partnership. Gay Cops Sue NYPD NE\V YORK - The Gay Officers’ Action League (GOAL) has filed a lawsuit in Federal District Court charging that the New York Police Dept¯ denies the gay and lesbian police officers orgamzation rights and privileges that it routinely extend s to other police fraternal groups. Although GOAL is officially recognized by the NYP1) as a fratcr,nal o~ganization, the suit charges that it has been refused permission to set up displays at police headquarters COlnmemorating gay and lesbian cops, has not beenallowed to use NYPD vehicles ~n the city" s annual Gay Pride Parade, and has been denied permission to have the force’s marching band participate in the giant parade as well The suit charges that Black, Irish and Hispamc officers" fraternal groups are routinely extended such privileges while the department continues to refuse such requests by GOAL, which has about 500 NYPD members. NYPD officials declined to coimnent on the lawsuit. Notre.Dame’s Gay Org. SOUTH BEND, Ind. - Responding to recommendations by an ad hoc Committee on Gay & Lesbian Student Needs, Patricia O’Hara, Notre Dame’s vice president for student affairs, has announced that the Catholic aniversity will allow Notre Dame Gay & Lesbian Students official recognition at the school, although it will be set up differently from other student groups on campus. The school will not, however, recognize an already existing gay and lesbian group that it rejected last .’,ear. According to O’Hara’s office, NDGLS ~vill "stand in special relationship to the Office of Student Affairs (to) assist gay and lesbian students in coufing together to lind muttml support and in exploring connnon issues within the context of this commumty and the teachmgs of the Catholic Church." NI)GI ^S" s advisors will also bc appointed by O’ ttara, uulikc other stndcnl groups on c~m~pns ~vhich sclccl their own advi.sors. The univcrsit~ will contlnnc. however, to refuse to recognize a~ unofficial student gronp, (]a\s & Lesbians of Notre l)anc and St. Mary’s College which ~vas kicked off cmnpus last year even though ~t continues to fraction as a non-canpus orgali/21tlon More Amer!eans Approve of Gays ATLANTA - Accordiug to a CNN:’[’SA Today poll conducted by the G~llnp organization, 44"% of those interviewed said they thought homoscxualit.~ acceptable, a dranatic incrcasc over a similar Gallup poll done in 1982 which fom~d only 34% said they thought being gay was OK. This year’s poll also fotmd that on13 27% said saint-sex mamages should be legal, while 68% said gay and lesbian maniages should not be legalized in this country. Earlier polls had not included questions abont legalizing sane-sex marfiagcs. Holocaust Museum’s Gay & Lesbian Campaign SAN FIL’-kNCISCO -A stellar showing on the eve of a revival production of Leonard Bemstein’s "On theTown" here raised some S150,000 for the [’.S. Holocaust Memorial Muscum" s Gay & Lesbian Canpaign. The S 1,500-a-head event drew such luminaries as conductor Michael Tilson Thonms, librettists Betty Comden and Adolph Grcf~{, soprano Frederica yon Stadc, baritone Kurt Olhuann, and "Mod Squad" star Clarence \\’illians IlI. David A. Paddock, MT, "Utmost Cot{fi~len ce Assured" CPA 4308 S. Peoria, S~tite 633 Tulsa, OK 74105 WE OFFER ~~,E~LT£ACXTFRILOINNGIC (9183 ~4,-,6,2 Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 an~ Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 A PERMANENT SOLUTION Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla. St. Med. Bd. 488-0786 Near 71st & Lewis, Call for info. or an appt. with free consultation. P IAlrERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ~ Suite ! 70 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 ¯ Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 KELLY KIRBY Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466 POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Poll: Teach Kids About AIDS WASHINGTON - The Kaiser Family Foundation hasjust released a major public opinion survey that indicates the overwhelming majority of Americans - 95% in fact - think public schools should teach kids about HIV and AIDS, and that nearly two-thirds think students should start learning about the disease by the time they are 12 years old. The survey also found tl{at some 66% of the 1,500 adults polled think IV drug users should be given clean needles to help prevent the spread of HIV and that some 70% think television networks should air condom ads. Mollyann Brodie, who conducted the survey, said Americans are actually faidy wall informed about the epidemic, but also noted that there are still some . significant misconceptions. About half those surveyed said people can get HIV by donating blood, which, they cannot. About half those polled also said people who become infected begin to show symptoms within 5 3"ears, although it is usually more than 5 years before s3anptoms become apparent. About 18% also said they believed there was "’some truth" in the idea that the virus was originally produced as part of a govethment germwarfare expemnent, while 12% said they thought-. AIDS was "’God’s punishinent’" of homosexuals. AIDS Rate High in U.S. Prisons ATLANTA - According to a report iu Baltimore Sun. the federal Ceuters for Disease Control & Prevention reports that ~inmates in the country’s largest correctional institutions are nearlv 6 times as likely as the general populatio~ to have AIDS. The paper reports that according to the CDC, the U.S. prison population has an infection rate of 5.2 cases per 1,000 prisoners, while the general U.S. population has less than 1 case (0.9) case per 1,000. CDCofficials said most inmates are already infected with HIV when they. enter the prison system, but that ,they also spread the virus ~ough shared IX, n~edles and sexual acti~;’~ties 0rice behind bars)..... Calif. Medical Assn. Drops HI~ Reporting Recommendation ~i! ANAHEIM, Calif. ~ The, Chli.forn~ Medical Associatiort ~M~lhag-cl~angffd its mind about a policy it adopted ouly last who are treated by doctors with a great deal of experience with the disease generally live significantly longer than those who go to physicians with less experience treating AIDS. AIDS experts agree that keeping up with current treatment modes is difficult for health care professionals who don’t regularly treat AIDS patients. Study:i!iFederal AIDS Funding i~ !! n~ppro~iately’ Spent ~¥~IN~T.~~L Tens of millions of dollars allr~’~d by Confess for AIDS research ..... i.n 1994 was spent "’inappr0priatdt~"’ - either on stndies that have ~ittl~ rele...~’ance to the disease or on adm~ist~tH~~ costs that are almost impossible to pin down - according to a vear~Lhat enOor.sed mandatory reporting .~ -~el~drt~o~ssion.,~~ by the \Vhite House ~f individual:s who test positive for H,I~’ io ~.. ~ffied~fA~S. Thdrepo~headed bv Dr. local health: officials. In March 1995 the ? ~krnold Le¢~ne of Yale}’iJniversity," was CMA adopted a resolution that called for put together by some 114 scientists, the state legislature to enact measures that would require health-care workers in California to report anyone testang positive for the virus "for the purpose of partner notification and disease control:only." Last year" s decision drew stron~ criticism from AIDS activists and many health care professionals. Now the CMA says it was wrong and that the possibility of people at high risk for infection not getting tested out of fears they will be reported to health authorities outweighs other tracking and notification considerations. Some 24states in the U.S. require reporting of people infected with HIV Better Doctors = Better Patients BOSTON" - To the surprise of almost no one. researchers from the University of Washington report Ul the New England Journal @.ledicine that people with AIDS scholars, activists, conmaumty leaders and drug industry officials. Thereport is critical of the National Institutes of Health’s $1.3 billion budget, and says some of the money was used administratively to help keep the individual health ~nstitutes,,,under the NIH umbrella going, and some was used to cover basic research that was related to fighting AIDS. While the report focuses on the 1994 budget, the most recent available, many AIDS activists agree that it reflects tren~ls that have been ongoing for years. Derek Link of the Manhattanbased Gay Men’s Health Crisis, the nation’s largest AIDS advocacy group, said he believes that funds for .-’kIDS research, which have steadily increased since the epidemic began, h~ve become "the NCI’s cash cow. ....There’s all this money that i s completely untracked3 smd Link, who authored a little-noticed report last year that was also highly critical of federal AIDS research spending. The report says, among other things, that the accounting methods nsed by federal health agencies connected to NIH are vague and archaic, making it difficult or impossible to also tell precisely what funds are actually being spent on. "The different [committee] panels and the working group were unanimous that the NCI [National Cancer Institute], and other institutes as well ... presently support research classified as AIDS-related that is not appropriately classified This problem potentially an~ounts to a very large level of funding," the report says. Nat’l AIDS Update Conference SAN FRANCISCO - The 8th annual National AIDS Update Conference, the largest in the country, opened with a warmng by Republican AIDS activist Mary Fisher that HMO-type managed care is consigning millions of people infected with HIV "to the least possible care, at the least possible cost." Fisher electrified the nation during a speech at the 1990 Republican convention in Houston about how she contracted the virus from her former husband. "I ampampered bymyinsurance company because I made a 13-minute speech to a bunch of politicians in Houston," Fisher told the opening session here. 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But Fisher and others urged activists and public policy officials to find ways to work with managed-care facilities in responding to treating people with HW and ,AIDS. Others addres sing the conference include Dr. Sandra Hernandez, director of the San Francisco Health Department: Patsy Fleming, director of the White House Office of National AIDS Policy, and researcher Dr. Max Essex. chmrman of the Harvard AIDS Institute. D~g Distribution Comroversy LOS ANGELES - A battle is erupting ove_r the distribntion of Crixlvan, the protease ialtibitor deve!oped by Merck & Co. ihat nlmlx consider the n:ost promising therapy’ in fighdng tim infection to date. Because large-scale production of the drag isnh expected to get going nnti! late this year. Merck says it decided to distribute ~rixivan exciusiveix through the Pittsburgh, Pa.-based mail-order Stadtlm~der’s Pharmac~ Merck says n ?bled for the initiai single-source 4isvibvt~.o;7 because the d~m must bc con_m~o.... x :)n, cse tremmem is supplier. Ed Bubar, who runs FAdie’s Pharmacy in West Hollywood and a staunch opponen! of Merck’s decision, called the move "’totally unfair" to independent pharmacists in the country. "’Everybody wants to get their hands on tiffs drug,"’ he said. "If between now mad October half of nay patients are slfifted to mail-order for Crixivan, I can end tip losing half of my patient base." Merck says that when supplies of the dm~o increase it will broaden its distribution to include independent m~d chain pharmacies as well. SOt. Perry Watkins Dies TACOMA, Wash. - Sgt. Perry’ Watkins, who entered the U.S. Army as an openly gay mm: and remained despite tfi s sexual onemauon, has died of AIDS. Wmkins was 47. I :nlike other gay service members. Watkins. checked "yes" on an enlistment form in 1967 that asked about homosexuali{ y and was enrolled in the Ann,, even so. Only when the Pentagon adopted forma~ reg:,flations in 1981 barring homosexuals did the Army begin disct:arge proceedings which the 14- veto: veteran challenged in federal court. [n 1989. the U.S. 9th Circmt Court of m{ed timt the Army could not dischm’ge \Vat kins for being g’ay since it had i ni ti accepted him :rod aJ Jowed him to re-e::list 3 times, Ti:u ::.S. Supreme Court :_,q !990 :.hat ~c ~CF COl.trt F \ \ TULSA ICE ARENA. tag]l) ~. ll)IST E. AVE 71ST A?<D MING{) BEHL’<I) THE L ~ PRIUE ALL TICKET PROCEEDS (.r’O "OUR HOUSE" TICKETS: $ 8.01) BL,EACHER,5 $12.50 t;,N I...E TICKETS AVAL:[ABLE TLTLSA ICE ARE:’<A 254-7272 RENEGADES ,117TH Sponsored by Miller Lite Memorial Day Weekend May 24-26 Oklahoma City State Fairgrounds Advance Ticket Package only $25 Includes both rodeo performances & both parties. 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Leather org. info cio 621-5597 7.U.LoS.A, Tulsa Uniform ~ L.~adbr Seekers" A~’soc, >racuc.: week!v in OKC in b S38-212~ TUESDAYS HIV+ Support Group HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste H-1 Info: Wanda ~ 749-4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HW/AIDS Support Group & Friends & Famii y HIV,AIDS Support Group 7 pm, call for location: 749-7898 Community of Hope Grief Group, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Grief Group ButleriStumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 WEDNESDAYS Authority OfThe Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maptewood In/o: 838-!71~ Bless The Lord At All T~mes Christian Center Prayer & Bible Stud), 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth Call 593-78!5 for info. Family Of Faith MCC Praase & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Pracuce 7:30 pm 5451 -E South Mingo Call 622-1441 for info. 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Cormnunitv of ! lcpc 1703 E. 2nd, Ir~fo: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS MemoHa~ Qui~ Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each inonth Info: 7dg-3 t i OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sn~dem Assoc~o~’: hio: (£;? 762 ’ 7].3-(].- "- Womens Supper Club 6:30pro, r-Fippin’s Pie P~mtry, 7828 E. -1 WEDNESDAY, APRIL 17 Pride Picnic Planning Meeting 7 pro. Central Library. Preview Room, 4fl~ & Denver. In/o: 583-1248 THURSDAY, APRIL 18 Planning Meetingfor Gay & Lesbian Action AlertPhone Tree 6 pm, TOHR office, 40th & Harvard, 2nd ft. All welcome. In/o: 582-7548 APRIL 26-28 HIVIAIDS & SpiritualitylWholeness Retreatfor Men, In/o: 488-9215 SATURDAY, APRIL 27 Rainbow Business Guild Spring Picnic 4 pro, Zink Park, In/o: 665-5174 Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Volunteer Training (1 of2 sessions) 10-5 pm, Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd Info: 749-4213 /WEDNESDAY, MAY 1 Womens Supper Club .... i6f30pm, Olive Garden, Utica Square iInfo: 584-2978 ~.. 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Harvard, Info: 7494901 MAY 17-19 Herland Sister Resources Retreat Roman Nose State Park Registration deadline: 5/15 Info: 2312 NW 39th, OKC 73112 HIV/AIDS & Spirituality/Wholeness Retreatfor Women, hffo: 488-9215 TUESDAY, JUNE 4 Tulsa Oklahomansfor Human Rights, PFLAG & Rainbow B,tsiness GUIM present Cece Cox, pres. ofthe ’ Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance 7 pm, ChouteaU Rm, Chapman Ctr, TU In/o: 743-GAYS (4297) SATURDAY, JUNE 8 TOHR Ci~wide Pride Prom Location to be announced. Info: 743-GAYS (4297) SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 6pm. Location to be ammunced. In/o: 743-GAYS (4297) = The University of [ulsa StudentA.*:..’,-.)’,,~’",,’~~,’v",.,r’" ~ ~is~’:<t:al. Lesbian and ~av ~t.[ance _,..c ~_n:,vc;-sitx 1)_ [] /)re.senz the [] : 2rid Annual World Cinema Festivat [] Gay & Lesbian Cinema : ¯¯ Friday, April 19 [] ¯ []~ Gav & Lesbian History [][] [] The Homosexuals. 7 pm [] Before Stonewalh The Making of a Gay and ¯ Lesbian Comtnunirv, 8pm ¯ ¯ Last Call at Maud’s, 9:30 pm [] ¯ Saturday,., April 20 [] American Gay & Lesbian Experience ¯" ¯ [] [] Postcards From America, lpm ¯ A Comedy in Six Unnatural Acts, 2:30pm ¯ ¯ Homoteens, 3pm , ¯ The Blankpoint: What is Transexualism, 4pm ¯ ¯ ¯ Break for Dinner ¯ ¯ Super 8 112, 7pm ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Sunday, April 21 . -" Gay & Lesbian International Film -" ¯ Wild Reeds, lpm ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Khltsh, 3pm ¯" El Diputado, 3:30pm ¯ Break for Dinner " ¯ ¯ ¯ Boys Shorts: The New Queer Cinema, 7pm ¯ ¯ Urinal, 9pm ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Screenings are free and in Lorton Hall//207 (enter from 8th & ¯ Evanston. Lorton faces the Oval & is north of Twin Towers Dorm) ¯ ¯ Sponsored by the TU Student Assoc~"att"on, BLGA, Office of the¯ "Provosl, School of Art, Hen~. Kendall College Division of Fine & ¯ ~-Performing Arts, Office of the President .and Tulsa Family News.~- I I i I I I I I I i I I I I I I I I I i I lilillll Illil I I.iil i i ii ’ IAM o,t’d om p. 1 Episcopal Diocese of Oklahoma. Both OKC and Tulsa members of the Task Force felt the ne2xl to provide services to PLWA’s, such as hospital visits, memorial services and education. Out of this, grew IAM which incorporated and applied for its IRS tax-exempt status in 1990. IAM was begunby Doreen Wood;Phil Wiley, Don Satterthwaite and Chaplin Diane Zike, who serves as executive director. Although IAM is an interfaith orgamzation, its origin with the Episcopal Church resulted in a grant in 1990 to run a 24hour volunteer HIV/AIDS hotline. This line was for several years the only source of24 hour information in the state. Calls to the hotline range frombasic HIV information and referrals, such as to testing sites, to providing "real" listening to those who want toknow if their actions may have put them at risk for HIV infection. IAM’s state certified volunteers and staff also provide education seminars for churches, and organizations such as the US Army Corp of Engineers, Kimberly-Clark, and booths at health fairs, conferences and conventions. IAM’s goal is to provide HIV.AIDS information from a spiritual dimension, especially for young people. According to Diane Zike, "IAM is about saving lives...w e believe in abstinence but also in giving good information so people can make good choices." Zike has recently finished a couf~e in clinical pastoral care which will allow IAM to add a new dimension to its services. IAM also offers "’trained visitors" who are available to see folks who are max be too ill to get out or x~l~o are lonely. ¯ IAM’s currentboardis Richard Reeder, ¯ Phil Wiley, Joe Myles, Lauren Green, ¯ Steven Fendt, Bill Green and Nancy Tiger. Their vision for the future hopes to add ameditation series, and various work- .- shops to their current services of provid- ¯ ing spiritual, emotional and practical sup- " port for people. ¯ IAM is a membership/volunteer sup- " ported organization. Membership is only ¯" $5/year/individualor$10/year/household ¯ and $1/year/student/low income. Volun¯ teers are especially needed for the 24 hour hofline whichis staffed in4hour blocks at ¯ the volunteer’s home. One day training is ¯ provided in HIV!AIDS information and ¯ in "active listening". For more info. or to "- volunteer, call 438-AIDS (2437). i Spahr ~on,’d~om p. 1 ¯ bly because Spahr is Lesbian. Following ¯ that ruling, DUPC and Westminister, 2 ¯ More Light (welcoming of Lesbian and ¯ Gay persons) congregations, set up the ¯ special ministry so that she could travel ¯ the US educating and informing Presbvterians and others on behalf of greater ¯ inclusiveness in the Church. Spahr also will be the featured speaker ¯ at a workshop entitled "Claiming God’s ¯ Grace" in OKC on Sat.:May 18th. The ~vorkshop is beiug called "a day of healing, learning and community as we work toward wholeness in our lives as children Of God & as Gay, Lesbian, Bi & Transgendered peoples’" 9am to 4pm at St. Andrew’s. 2712 NW 23. Preregistration encouraged, although walk-ins are welcome. Fee: S15, with scholarships available. For more izffo, call 745-9922 in Tulsa, 377-9174, Stilhvater or 840-4849 in OKC. FUNERALS JUST NEVER SEEMED RIGHT FOR MY FAMILY... THE CREMATION SOCIETY WAS CREATED FOR PEOPLE LIKE ME. enjo)" being ourselves. A funeral seems ostentatious and can cost a lot of money. A simple, ~lign~ed cremation just seems to fit our lifestyle. Cremation Society® of Oklahoma 2103 East Third, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104-1842 918-599-7337 or toll-free, 800-994-7337 or vas~t us on the Internet at hrtp ://www. cremation, org/oklahoma!oklahoma, html For Free Literature, Withou| Cost or Obligafion, Mail this coupon today! Please contact me. I would like to learn more about your special final expense program. Name: Age: Address: City, St. &.Zip: Telephone: Play cont’dfromp. 13 John Weller for their incredible performances in the production I "directed" - HIVariations, consisting of Cater Waiter & Andre’s Mother. Special thanks to Vivica, & the rest of the cast - your suggestions & insights were extremely helpful & appreciated. I am very proud of them. They performed perfectly, & the technical aspects of the show went off without a hitch - there wasn’t a dry eye in the house when they were done. Thank you for the many hours ofwork youall put in, & for putting up with a sometimes temperamental director. Special thanks to Aaron Mooney, who worked the lights with almost no preparation, no rehearsal, & did a stellar job. A special thanks to Professor Cook, for his belief in this project, & his conviction that everyone should have a voice in theatre. I hope you’ll support the 2nd Annual World Cinema Festival of Gay" & Lesbian Cinema at the TU, which occurs Friday, April 19 - Sunday, April 21. All films will be screened in Lorton Hall, room #207, on the TU campus. For the complete schedule see the ad on page 9. See you there? Onthe local front, BA Cornn{lmi’(~Playhouse was named "Oklahoma Theatre of the Year" by the OK Community Theatre Association. According to Don Tabberer, "For a community theatre, this is equivalent to receiving the Best Picture Oscar; it is very gratifying to be recognized for the work we do here.’" BACPalso received an award for "’Excellence in Marketing". Congratulations, BACP! Their production of "’The Cemeterx: Club", a story about friendship, loss, healiug & facing life with humor, opens April 26. $ondheim’s "Company" opens June 14. BACPis also looking for directors for the upcoming season. For more info., call the BACP at 258-0077. Elvis is alive, &will probably be incognito at the Philbrook. The Philbrook Museum of Art will play host to a traveling exhibit, "Elvis + Marilyn: 2x Immortal". The exhibit examines Presley’s & Monroe’s enduring effect on American culture, & will be showing April 14- June 2, 1996. Keith Haring is one oftbe artists featured. A special event on April 28 at 2 & 4 pm, will be a concert given by J.D. Sumner & the Stamps Quartet, who performed regularly with Elvis during the height of his success. Tickets for the concert are $15, & include admission to the exhibit. Tix are available at the museum, or call 748-5307. see Play, page 15 Rainbow cont’dfromp. 11 tain state, particularly inColorado Springs. Colorado Springs’ loss is our gain. The Emerald Rainbow has always been a tremendous resource for g/l/b/tg folk, and the beat goes on. The place has a little different look, new & different siddines, and most of the familiar remains as wall. Come and see for yourself. You can meet M.C. &Linda, maybe swap or create some God stories of your own. You might pick up some incense, buy a Rainbow flag, some Freedom Rings, a gay or lesbian novel, ~nake a statement with a button or bumper sticker, mid you will deftnitely enjoy your time in the place we call paradise - Enreka Springs. (NOTE: The Fanerald Rainbow can be reached at emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com, or visit their home page on the WorldWide Web:http: www pimps.conreurekaibizi emraiu.html) ’96 ECLIPSE SPYDER CONVERTIBLE GS $22,835 Tales of The Emerald Rainbow by Phil Boler-Schmidt Linda Williams and M.C Delahanty are not unlike many visitors to pass this way. They read that Eureka Springs hoots-a large lesbigay population in a guide about great gay places to : live,~and tiring of thebigotryand : ~hatred-erRlemi&in Springs, they decided tO ch~ckI us out.....hehe. The now proud owners ofThe Emerald Rainbow (45-1/2 Spring Street in Eureka Springs, 501-253-5445) left Colorado on a whim in early Febnmry. They had plane reservations and were planning to vacation here in March, but they decided to get a ¯ sneak preview. They knew they ¯ could stay less than two days ¯ before making the trek back to ¯ theirjobs at casinos in the Cripple ¯ Creek resort area. So sure were they that this was a quick trip, just to give us the once over, that the couple of five years did not bother to bring their checkbook along for the ride.. - .. trieve parts of herself from along some highway in Oklahoma. Jan & Kim Ridenour, the founders, and now former owners of The Emerald Rainbow, referred to this particular event as just an- Other good laugh at the Angel Bar, where some macho dyke angel said, "Hey look, we need a couplemore in Eureka Springs," In less than half a day;.~M.C..&~: ]....then, with a swift puff of air into warmth, and humor to their new venture, and the place didn’ t skip a beat. By the nme we go to press, their Grand Opemng will be past, and the official passing of the torch will be a memory. These ladies are ready to settle in for the long haul. This move was fraught with ironies for Linda & M.C. They only lived in Colorado for three Linda.~ contraeted~ to::pufeh’a!se’; .::;:hef~.blow gun, she landed the".; ye,hrsTThree years exactly to the their n~w~bfisiri~s~ an@le~e ~an~,:~" d~d,dub right on’target: ¯ apartments- all without benefit-::: All joking aside, this has been ofaLnythingothertharithemagic : quiteaseries0feventstowimess. .. money machine at alo,..~cal_~bank. .- Like most folks in our little ~’ Oh ye~;Eu’:r~k~iSpri~s~be’ ~; " t~t6pi;a;,t ,wear a, number.of katsa downrightdangerous place: r0 ! arrund town. One I have filways visitifyouhavenotalreadygiven : enjoyed is the-one I don when thought to an abbot move. We..... work-in,g, part-time at The have several- names,’~,l~or,~tli~se F Eme-rald~Rai.nbow. I feel like I kinds of occurrences ~n Eureka ; get pMd to play, and that role Springs. At MCC of the Living : continues forme as l get to know Spring, we called it another God the new Emerald Rainbow Story. Linda& M.C. consistentl~ : "morns." refer to It as a whirlwind, and each feels like she needs to reday. Both are nanve to the Baltimore, MD area. Though they moved toColorado Springs m the aftermathof the Amendment Two vote. th’e~; initially felt good about that mo~’e. They wanted a sabbatical from-the hustle and bustle of life-in th~ big city, ,’rod they weren:~t rs~ly,prepared lbr the overt:nile that ~vangelicals exert in the-once liberal uloullshe Rombow. page 10 A dull Accommodations In Eureka Springs, Arl~nsas M.C. & Linda are delightful people. They bring enthusiasm, Craftsman-style cottages with beautiful .views of the woods and wildlife -.Tucked on top of the Ozark Mountains, just a few minutes .walk to the Historic Village ofEureka Springs. 501/253-8281 Frank Green Jr.. Hosl - 50 Wall $treet - Eureka Springs. 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With asset allocation, you mix both conservative & growth-oriented investments and arrive at a blended portfolio which is not as risky as it Would be if you were to put all your money into gro~,th instruments. This strategy offers youmore upside potential than if you were to go totally conservative. It’also offers the poter~tial advantage of.~ving you something positive to work with in nearl v every kind of market scenario. Whild one ~nvestment is performing poorly, another may be doing well. How you allocate of diversify your personal portfolio is determined I~v" your individual Investment profile - v~tir goals, your risk temperament, 3our t~.x situation and your time horizon. Your asset all ocatlon may need to change over tlllle in orderto ~’it your changing financial needs mad goals READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City/County Public Library . Twenty-six years after Stonewall and s~xteen years into the AIDS crisis, gay men are just now starting to figure out how tomakelong-term relationships work, and, more importantly, why they are significant. Author Craig Nelson takes us on a stage by sta’ge journey ~b0ut how to get, and keep, a man. In eleven readable and entertaining chapters, Nelson explores "Modem Love," "Where to Meet Men," "Date Tips for Guys" and "Keeping it Together," among other topics. Since some guys seem to find romantic success via personal ads and dating services, Nelson supplies lists of questions that help both you and )’our potential mate understand who you are and what you want. Also, under’standing that a very small percentage of people are extremelY, physically attractive, Nelson reminds th~ reader to loosen up, don’t beat up on yourself, or a potential mate, for not looking like Rod Jacksou-Paris. There is much more to life & relationships than just ha~.mg a pretty face. Nelson cites many factors that combine to sabotage long-term relationships, in- ¯ cluding poor self esteem, intemalized ¯ homophobia, lack of fidelity and the idea that the other guy is just plain nuts! The ¯ bottomline seems to be lack of communication. Everyone has quirks, so dream on ¯ if you’re looking only for Mr. Perfect, or ¯ if you think that you are Mr. Perfect! All ¯ .relationships are based on communicat- ¯ mg needs and desires. ¯ " ’There is an interesting chapter, "Fidel- ; ity, What’s Fidelity?," dealing with the apparent difficulties that many gay men ¯ have being faithful to their partner. AIDS many factors...sabotage long-term relationships... poor self-esteem, internalized homophobia, lack of fidelity and the idea that the other guy is just plain nuts[ is the obvious reason that this may be the most important chapter in the book. It’s time gay men realize that the 1970s are long gone, and now is the time to create a new standard for gay relationships. After spending the entxre first ten chapters trying to get couples together for the long haul, Nelson’s final chapter is titled "When It Falls Apart." Some relationships are simply not going to work and this chapter g~ves advice on making a breakup as painless as possible. If there was ever a time for a book like this, this is it! Please contact your local branch library, or call the Readers Services department at the Centr,’d Library at 596-7966, for dfis book & others on si]nilar subjects. Butfer-Sturnpff Funeral Home Cemetery - Funeral Home - Crematory At Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home, you and your family will be treated with dignity, compassxon, and pride. Whether it is your given or chosen family who needs our ser’vices, ’;ou can be who and what youare and you will noi be discriminated against. Weoffer our exclusive$2820 complete funeral plan, no added costs. 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In fact, at least three of the waiters are positively stunning (and they know it!) and could grace the pages of most any catalog or print ad. Unfortunately, we don’t have first hand information on whether or not they would qualify for International Male. And, believe it or not, these attractive waiters are very capable at doing their jobs. If one is able to get one’s mind back on the menu, one will find a good variety of tasty, well prepared items at this popular restaurant. The decor here is very clubby, including a welcoming fireplace near the bar, and the menu reflects a man’s tastes by the emphasis on heartier entrees and the lack of trendy items. Our major complaint with the establishment is that the smoking and non-smoking sections are not fully separated, and on a busy night, no area of the restaurant is trul y free from obnoxious mid unhealthy smoke. The food here is basic; straight forward ,and no-nonsense in preparation, .you can dine on haute cuisine entrees or the ever popular $7 Polo burger. Appetizers include fried calamari (squid), shrimp cocktail, some tasty crab cakes, escargot (snails) served in mushroom caps, a tomato vegetable soup, and an assortment of soups dujour. Several big entree salads, such as a traditional Cobb, appear on the menu, and the dressings include an excellent fruit flavored poppyseed vinaigrette, one of our favorites. Caesar salads, both with Polo Grill, 2038 Utica Square. Prices: expensive. Service: formal, bistro atmosphere. Hours: 11-10 pro; ’tll 11 pm on Fri. & Sat.; closed Sun. Payment: Visa, ]~laster-card, American Express, Diner’s Club, Carte Blanche; no eheel~s. Non-smol~n~ seeGon: Yes. Alcohol: Full bar. Opinion: A List. and without grilled chicken or shrimp, are also popular items. Main courses include beef, veal, lamb, duck, chicken, shrimp, and fish, with prices ranging from S 14.95 for the roast split of duckling to S 19.95 for grilled lamb chops to S22.95 or so for the fresh fish of the day. Steaks are popular with the sometimes older crowd, and the tenderloin fillet costs S16.95 for the six ounce and S18.95 for the eight ounce size, with the strip sirloin going for S 18.95 We ate the excellent veal osso bucco and our companion ordered the fish of the " day, which was a baked halibut served in Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 South Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiality and comfort that enhances teh therapeutic process. For further information, call 743-4117 Leah Hunt, MSW Judy Seymour-Taylor, CADC Della Blackburn, CADC Ric.hard Reeder, MS Serving a Diverse Community ¯ a champagne cream sauce. The halibut ¯ was very fresh with no hint of fishy taste, and the sauce was a light and pleasant ¯ accompaniment. The halibut was pre- ¯¯ sented along side angel hair pasta, which we thought was cooked a touch beyond al ~ dente. Our osso bucco was delicious and ¯ fork tender. A traditional Italian stewing ¯ of the veal leg served with cross sections ¯ of bone and attached meat, osso bucco is ¯ beloved not so much for the meat, but for ¯ the wonderful marrow inside the bone. ¯ Therefore, we were shocked and appalled : when our osso bucco was presented, not ¯ with a marrow scoop, but with a totally useless seafood fork! We hate to admit it in public, but we were forced to extract the marrow witha...butter spreader. Mon dieu.t Desserts are substantial._ The creme brulee and Key lime pie, both $3.50, are typical of Tulsa restaurants. Even better are the baked fudge and the cinnamon raisin, bread pudding, both $3.95. On the evemng we dined, a Grand Marnier souffle, $4.95, was apleasant finale to our meal. While the souffle was not quite as tender as what we make at home, we could hardly complain in view of the very reasonable price of this often-difficult dessert. After dinner coffees, demitasse, and drinks are available from the full bar. A fairly small wine list contains both nice drink’able wines and a few embarrassing selections that are so sadly all too popular in Tulsa. Several of the better wines are available by the glass. The Polo Grill has always been one of the consistently go~d restaurants in Tulsa. Formal and gourmet it is not, bnt management and the kitchen are very ~vell grounded in their concept of ident’itv and do a fantastic job of serving their ~iclle with well trained staff and excellent food. Marilyn Monroe,.at Philbrook’s l~vis + Marilyn: 2 x Immortal,photo: Sam Shaw by James Christjohn The University of Tulsa’s Weekend of One .Acts has come & gone. Many ontstanding productions were perfonncd, & almost everyone in the directing class is now dealin~ with a great deal of strcss reduction. However, there are three productions upcoming. Diaries, writtcn by TU students about college life from a gay perspective, will go up 4.: 29, at 7pro in Theatre 2 in Kendall Hall. On 4 30, at 7pro, Laundry & Bourbon & The lx,sson (directed by Vivica \Valkenbach) will bc performed in Theatre 2. Lisa \Vilson’s version of Bus Stop opens 4 24. I would like to take tiffs opportunity to express my th,’ulks to Michael Kippcr, Karin Sandmel, Vivica \Valcbeubach, & see Play, page lO Worship Service, 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H, 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 where pets are treated like people * Bakery Treats * Bed 8: Breakfast (boarding) " Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS. Nutro Dog Food THE DOG HOUSE BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria. 744-5556 [D[CC TO DISCO Wed,-Sat, 10-5 Sun, 1 The fabulous T-Town Dreamers. Photos: JD Jamett OUT & ABOUT by, J.D. Jame~t " " - int~rest ~,s known as a great neighborhood It’s spring and boy, are there a lot of bar (or two bars) - that’s right, New Age Atthe Silver Star, Fallon Scott new Miss Gay South USofA tlfings to do out and about. This next month holds a broad spectrum of events from a turn-about show at the Silver Star (April 19), followed by the 4th annual Miss Silver Star Pageant (April 21). You’ll be sorry if you missed Robbie Walker’s 2rid am~tm] Birthday Show wtfich was April. 7th at Concessions. Don’t nfiss the Miss Gay C)klahoma America Pagent (April 20) at the Peffornfing Arts Center or the Bear Bash (April 27). Contact Steve or Dick at 918- 663-5372 for more *larch came in like a lamb but went out like a drag queen with bad hair and broken heels (just-kidding). There was a lot of excellent entertaimnent last month, from .a spectacular arfiversarv show at I~ola’s which featured a new°entertainment group, The T-Town Dreamers, to the first mmual Gay South USofA pageant at the Sih’~r Star. This month’s featured establishment of Renegades and the Rainbow Room. These bars offer a little bit for everyone, a from a sit-down cruise bar to a show bar to a nice big patio with fireplace. This bar is trnly a familv affair. Dermis and lfis other half. i~arry, not only are the owners but regular bartenders. And who could ever forget Derails’ sister, Veronica, the v~vacious and light-hearted bartender in the Rainbow Room? Some of their ~nonthly events are Leather Night (Ist Friday of the month in the Rainbow Roon~), Girls Nite Out (the date varies each month but the date is always posted). May will be a particularly busy month for th’em starting with the Red Ribbon Revue (May 4) which will benefit Our House. followed by Miss Renegades ’96 (May 17), Girls Nit’e Outwith a wetjockey shorts contest (May 18) mad ending with one of the rites of spring, the GAYFEST CARNIVAL & carwash featuring Dark Shadows II, see JD, next page Coming Soon! Don’t Miss It! Special entertainers: Amanda Love Anita Richards Helen Holliday Scott Pendergrass, from Nashville An event you won’t want to miss. The most prestigious preliminary to Miss..GaY OMahoma America Tickets on sale at the P.A.C.or at most Carson Attractions outlets. $5.00 ~er person or $6°00 per couple= Phone orders ~y credit cards accepted. Liddy D.oenges Theater - use the 2rid St. entrance 1~r this event.‘ Don’t ~it~’t0 pur~h~se tickets; seating is limiteci. Thanks to the P.A.C. ~’or helping to make ~his ever~t one Tulsans of all walks of life will be proud of. For more information, call: 918.428.5330 Portions of proceeds to benefit Shanti, Inc. & Our House JD, continuedfrom page 14 also benefiting Our House (May 19). PS, speaking of drag queens, to keep all the fabulous drag divas of Tulsa happy (and so they stop pestering me about getting their names mentioned in the column), I’m now starting our Queen ofthe Month dub. This month’s winner is Katherine - ’cause she begs so sweetly. Queen ofthe Month dub rules Vary according to my whim, so be patient, sooner or later, everyone wins. Play, continuedfrom page 14 Gilcrease museum is offering an intriguing program during this month called Art WithA Tart: No, I’m not making this up; that’s the name of the event, honest! A speaker will give a tour about bits of the Gilcrease collection, & the museum restaurant makes up a box lunch comprised of a tart &a salad. I don’t think they mean the tart serves the salad, it seems a pastry tart is included in the lunch: Pity. 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Gardens has been Gay and Les those will al!ow co grazing nizin is noplace the lS no as a o si 2 ?n as an in~ Lividual? will, the first ce: in the United States section of our cemetery just for & Lesbians, and their family and friends. burial_spaces, columbarium for cremated remains, ¯ ~.g:gardens with a :memorial wall, newly expanded and renovated section of ngton. Memorial Gardens~ Cemetery. The Pride flag will proudly fly in the center of Unity Gardens to always remind us of our struggle in life for unity and pride. If you have purchased a plot elsewhere, you may be able to transfer or trade your burial plots. For more information, please call Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-587-7000. ***Owned and operated by Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home*** Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, April 15-May 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 5 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 15-May 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Pat Morehead JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/509 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, March 15-April 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 4 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV education AIDS/HIV reporting AIDS/HIV research anti-bias law arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars businesses churches Craig Nelson Dave Fleischer Don't Ask Dont Tell estate planning Eureka Springs gay bashing Great Plains Rodeo harassment hate crimes homophobia HOPE Testing Interfaith AIDS Ministries J.D. Jamett Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leslie Penrose marriage National AIDS Conference Out and About performing arts PFLAG rape Read All About It Red Ribbon Revue restaurants schools sexual assault sodomy laws Tom Neal Tulsa City County Library Tulsa Family News viatication Women and AIDS Regional Conference https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/743c99ca76ab7076906a7b2a8022d2c5.jpg 482ad55dab9e2a6faf492af7491e5336 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3386204457bb1ef03081b4f817c8635c.pdf e8f28d091a9c4b5d1cdf93c31c5d6a5c PDF Text Text LACK & WHITE PRESENT TOP US GAY LEADER Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), will give the keynote address for this year’s Black & White Charities, Inc. Gala dinner fundraiser. Birch leads the Human Rights Campaign which is the largest Lesbian and Gay political organization in the US. Birch formerly was legal counsel for Apple Computer, Inc. and also for Claris Corporation. Prior to joining Human Rights Campaign, Birch served as co-chair of the Board of Directors of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF). . Over 260 patrons attended last year’s Gala at Philbrook Museum and a comparable number is expected to attend the S ept. 7 event at the Downtown DoubleTree Hgtel. Over the years, Black & White Charities, Inc. have raised and donated over $31,000 in grants to other local charities. The HIV Resource Consortium will be the major recipient of this year’s grant. The HIV RC helps to provide services to "approximately 200 clients" with case management, transportation, Another part of the program will be the presentation of the first annual SWAN awards, a joint program of PFLAG, parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays and Black & White Charities, Inc. The awards will recognize individuals "who through action and ¯ Elizabeth Birch, former counsel for Apple, example, are helping to create a society see B & W, page 3 now leads DC’s Human Rights Campaign. Aug. 15-sept. 14,1996, vol. 3, no. 9 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Congressman Comes Out WASHINGTON - Rep. Jim Kolbe, an Arizona Republican and influential member of the House Banking Committee has acknowledged that he is Gay. Confronted with the prospect of an upcoming report in The Advocate about his sexual orientation, Kolbe beat the news magazine to the punch by coming out. Kolbe, who has been a representative to C6ngress since 1984 and has been a frequent GOP point-person on the North American Free Trade Act and critic of White House budget proposals, told the Arizona Daily Star, "I think it’s unfortunate for our society that things have to happen this way." But the 54-year-old Kolbe added, "I’m the same p~rson I was yesterday, and I’ll legislate just the same way. This should b,e. as irrelevant as the fact that I am bloe-eyed, right-handed & balding." The upcoming Advocate story reportedly was spurred at least partly by Kolbe’s vote in July for the so-called Defense of.Marriage Act (DOMA), which rights activists had adamantly opposed. In late July, a collection.of activists also took out a full-page ad in the Washington Coming Soon! HOPE A New Name for HIV Programs Womens Supper Club RBG Business Fair Gay Comedy Jam Feast With Friends IAM Street Carnival HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education is the new name for an health program that began in the Gay community more than 14 years ago. Claudette Peterson, director of what was known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) HIV Testing Programs, announced the new name along with program’s success in getting funding for several critical new outreach programs. Peterson noted that the program had received funding for a"rural" HIV education outreach to "MSM’s" (men who have sex with men, regardless if.they identify as Bi, Gay RBG Lake Retreat see Coming, page 11 see HOPE, page 3 Blade ur,gi,’ng "closeted gay and lesb!an members of Congress. to c0me out.. ,Headlined. ,~’A ,calL.to.. con~ ,. science," the ad didn’t threaten to out any closeted : members, butit was the first timein 5 years that closeted ¯ uommunity of Hope Speaks gays in Congress had become a national issue. ¯ Out In Sunday Tulsa World Kolbe is the fourth member of Congress to publicly admit tobeing Gay - along with Reps. Gerry Studds, DMA, Barney Frank,. D-MA & Steve Gunderson, R-WI. Although Kolbe voted for DOMA, he also supports benefits for same-sex partners, and last year voted to keep the District of Columbia’s Domestic Partnership Act that gives some benefits to the partners of district employees. For Kolbe’s comments, see Kolbe, page 3 Military HIV Discharge Provision Dropped WASHINGTON -.A joint House-Senate conference commi ttee has unceremoniously dropped a provision in the 1997 defense authorization bill that would have required the discharge of service personnel infected with HIV. The HIV discharge provision was included in the House version of the $265.6 billion defense spending measure by Rep. Bob Doman (R-Calif.), despite objections of Pentagon officials. The Senate version of the bill included no such amendment. "Congress spoke on.this issue already when it repealed Dornan’ s HIV discharge measure in April," said Winnie Stachelberg, HRC’s’ legislative deputy. "Spite and bigotry are th~ only conb,eivable rehsons why Bob Dornan would have reintroduced this; measure after seeing itresoundingly defeated." Thejoint conference committee also :dropped a orovzszon that would have topI~led the don t ask, don t tell" policy in favor of an outright ban on Gays and Lesbians in the armed forces. ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ : ¯ : ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ ! ¯ ¯ Community of Hope, a United Methodist congregation, took $1,650 advertisement in The Sunday Tulsa Woddto speak out as a Christian community of faith "to call all Christians to stop using hateful language" against Lesbians and Gay men (see ad to right). The ad specifically cites the language used by members" of Congress in recent debates on the"Defense of Marriage Act" which was co-sponsored by Tulsa Rep. Steve Largent and overwhelmingly supported by Oklahoma’s House merebers. Acc°rdmg to a statemen=t gee Ad, p. 11 : , WE CALL ALL CHRISTIANS TO STOP USING HATEFUL LANGUAGE! Sid Spenser Singer Dies Unexpectedly Many Gay Oklahomans were surprised and shocked by the news of the death in July of native singer, Sid Spencer, from complications from AIDS in Calgary, Canada. Spencer, who performed regularly in Tulsa at the Silver Star Saloon, was performing Ot the Alberta Gay Rodeo. He was,~tficken wi,lh pneumoma and died ~’n hospital, see Sp UNITED METHODIST COMMUNITY OF HOPE " 1 ¯ Follies ReVue Beneficiaries i ’ ’ " ~ Follies Revue, Inc. has announced,the.distrib~tti0n ,of net proceeds t.rom its annu,gl, fundrais~ng peffom!,ance. Thislyear s event raised 4 $14,000 to hel~ l~d agencies that p~ovide direr support t~ persons.,~ ¯ : ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ living over. with AIDS or HIV ipfe~tion. Fdllies Revoe~ Inc. has raised ¯ ... . -. . . ., . $115,000 m its ezght years of servzce. This year s event which was hdd at the Doubletree Hotel, Warre~ Place attracted the largest ever audience with,over 400 attending on, two nights~. , The largest grant ($3,500) went to,the HIV Resource consortium, the second largest ($2,500) to the Medication Fund Of the Visiting Nurse Association and grants of $1,500 went to Interfaith AIDS Ministries AIDS information line, Shanti=Tulsa Storehouse, Our House, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network, see Follies, page 11 ~AL~.Err~I~S/DIR~TO~Y :! . " ¯ ¯’ " " " " NEWS’BRIEFS ! HEAL’rI~ BRIEFS CALENDAR , i EUREKA SPRINGS ADS p. P. 4 P. fi P. 9 P. 11 BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT P. 12 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 13 CLASSIFIEDS P, 15 �Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal Assistant Editor, James Christjohn are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be POB 4140 reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Writers/contributors Tulsa, Oklahoma Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boier-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be 74159-0140 Barry Hensley signed & becomes the sole property_of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence Jean=Pierre Legraridbouche should be sent tO the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each Leanne Gross edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. TulsaNews@aol.com Gerald Miller Carbon Copy 918.583.1248 by G. Miller. M_4. People have kidded me for along-time about having an answer for every problem or situation. But it occurred to me lately that what I see as common sense answers are somehow often overlooked by other people. So the following is a beginning set of things for the reader to consider in terms of how to make your daily life less complex and run more smoothly. 1. Don’t go where you are not wanted! Sounds simple and it is. If there are places or people who go out of their way to make you to less than comfortabl~, DON’T GO THERE. DOn’t go to businesses which treat you or your friends badly. 2. Stay away from people who try to make your life miserablet That includes, parents, siblings, or any form of relative. This also includes associates of friends, or coworkers in your work place. That’s right, COWORKERS. You may have to be around them to work but otherwise steer dear whenever possible. 3. Don’t say you’ll do something when you reall~ don’t want to do it! I used to make myself see Life, page 3 by Phyl Boler-Schmidt Last December, I decided to take on an impossible project. I knew it was impossible from the outset, but I was determined to be a.voice of reason inthe midst of many voices of confusion. What, you ask, am i talking about? With the brutal murders of Roxanne and Michelle, two lesbian activists in Oregon, my sense of needing to do something to bring the warring parties over lesbigay civil rights to the same table was literally pushed over the edge. I just had to do something. So, I decided to begin a dialogue on an Internet’.newsgroup called alt.org.promisekeepers. What I wanted to accomplish was nothing different than lesbigay civil rights activists have been working toward since the beginning of our movement. I wanted Christian fundamentalists (and everyone else for that matter) to begin to see us as human beings, to stop villifying us insearch of political advancement, to STOP the violence. Knowing full well I am only one person, see Enemy, page 3 editors, The Tulsa Worm Why are we afraid .of same-sex marriage? Is it change? Without change, we can not grow. Why are we afraid of anyone or anything that is different from us or our views.’? what would the world be like if we were all the same? 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Tulsa Clu~)s & Restaurants i Wednesday 6:30 pm Midweek Service 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thursday 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group 5451-E S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa~ OK ¯ 74146 (918) 622-1441 �¯. [ am just as proud of my record in the ¯ area of human rights andindividual right.s. : I abhor and vigorously oppose discrinuThe following ts a press statement is- : nation in the workplace based on race, why I decided to take on the Promise : ¯ versity", Keepers is Something I really can’t ex- ¯ sued by Rep. Jim Kolbe (R-Ariz.) on his ¯ religion, gender, or sexual orientation - : The Black & White Charities, Inc. Gala . " any treatment that is not based on merit. I ". announcement that he is Gay: plain. I just needed to do something. : foug.h,t to repeal the pr.ovision in law which : will begin with a reception at 7pro fol: ’q’wenty years ago, when I first sought My experience pleasantly surprisedme. ¯ lowed by the dinner at 8pro. The highly And, I’d like to share this experience with ¯ public office, I made a decision that my ’. armed services an automauc memberdischarge whois HIV-posi-reqmres of any ~ regarded, Follies Revue Singers will pro: commitment to civic involvement would you because I think if it worked once, it : vide entertainment. Valet parking will be can work again.If more of us step out and : mean my public life would have to come : five. I support health benefits for domes: provided. For more info., call 587-7314. ". fie parmers. : ahead of my personal and private life. try to communicate with those we per¯ I also believe that if the citizens of I have, in the intervening 20 years, ceive as the enemy, perhaps we will make ¯ a difference, if not for our generation, at : sought to fulfill my publicresponsibilifies ~ Hawaii believe it to be in their public ¯ in a manner that benefits all those I have ." interest to permit same-sex mamages, least for those that follow. My original note posted was entitled :. represented in either the Arizona Legisla- ¯ they should be permitted to do so. By the : orheter0sexual) in smallOkl.ahomatowns ¯ same token, other states - as Arizona has Opinions on Hate Speech. In it, I asked ¯ ture or in Congress. I will continue that : done - should be allowed to define mar- : and rural areas. In particular, this effort : commitment as long as I am in public these simple questions, after outlining the ¯. will target Muskogee, Okmulgee, events that had transpired in Oregon: : Service. Ilookbackon whatlhaveaccom- : riage differently, and not be required to ¯ Tahlequah and Bartlesville. While it’s accept the.definition adopted by others. It "What are your feelings about this? Can .¯ is for this reason that I voted for the so- ". estimated that the majority of HIV transyou see why gays and lesbians are horri." called Defense of Marriage Act when it ~ mission/infection is these areas is still : proud of the record I have compiled. fied when those among you villify us, call ¯ -through male to male contact, a small ¯ was before the House a few weeks ago. us child molesters, say that God hates us, °. Now, however, there are some who : survey by the Oklahoma State Dept. of and use other extremely derogatory ter: have decided that their disagreement with : Health indicates that AIDS cases in rural minology to describe who we are? Isn’t : this particular vote warrants their making : Oklahomans is still rising but that men in : NAFTA was the capstone of this vision. I there some other way to disagree on the ¯ these areas may perceive themselves as at subject of civil rights legislation? Can you ¯. have fought to lower the crushing tax : public information about my privatelife - : lowerrisk. AndMSM’s who may be mar¯ information they may have heard second ¯ burden on our families by reducing taxes. see why some in your movement might be : ried to women may face challenges in : I have worked for six years as a member : or third-hand about my sexual onentaresp°nsiblealready unstablef°r incitingpeople ~loe~eC~l~l~’~ _" of the budget committee to achieve a ." tion. That I am a Gay person has never : incorporating safer sex practices into their ¯ affected the way that I legislate. The fact ¯ relationships, and even in just getting for someone to hurt anyway? Isn’t there ¯. balanced budget so we can relieve our ". that I am Gay has never, nor will it ever, "¯ condoms in a small town where anonym¯ children of the burden of a crushing naanother alternative?" : ity is not likely. The immediate response by o~er 20 : tional debt. I have worked to keep : change my commitment to represent all ¯ The program will work to provide sup: the people of Arizona’s 5th District. : Arizona’s reputation as the astronomy men who frequent the newsgroup was a . port groups, peer education and greater ¯ I am the same person, one who has defensive knee-jerk reaction. They acsee HOPE, page 11 ." access to HIV Otadvances intheassuringastronomy world by will gothat neWforward : spentmany yearsstruggling torelieve the ". cused me of trying to blame Christians for i capital : tax burden for families, balance the budeverything. They told me that a crime had : here. I have argued and won funds to ~ get for our children’ s future, andimprove ". been committed, and it didn’t matter if it : protect our natural heritage, including the was brought about by hatred of gays and ¯ "expansion of Saguaro National Park. And ¯ the quality of life we cherish in Southern : Arizona. I intendto continue that mission lesbians. They tried every conceivable : justthis weekweachievedthemostsweepway to convince me that it had nothing : ing, most important reform of welfare in :¯ if the voters of the 5th District, in their wisdom, decide that I should represent whatsoever to do with their faith. It was : decades. There is, of course, much more them in the 105th Congress.’" only one unstable man committing a crime ¯ but this is a record I believe I can point to : with justifi-able pride. see Enemy, page 7 WINDSOR MARKET ANTIQUES, ART & INTERIOR DES1GN DALLAS - TULSA GE:T READY TULSA THE ULTIMATE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE COMING OCTOBER 1996 IN THE VILLAGE OF WOODLAND HILLS 6808 SOUTH MEMORIAL, SUITE 300 !TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74133 PLEASE: CONTACT CINDY WATSON AT: (9t8) 254-9766 " NEW LEi SING VIGNETTES TO INTERIOR DESIGNERS, ANTIQUE.DEXLERS &. ARTISANS WITH QUALITY, INTEGRITY& CREATIVITY �Zimbabwe Gays ¯"¯ of Zimbabwe student group With close to the President Robert Mugabe told Harrassed by Govt ¯ ties the fair organizers that gays and lesbians HARARE, Zimbabwe (Aug. 2) - Gays ¯ that-show up at the event will "face public and lesbians won a legal battle over the ¯ genocide." government of Zimbabwean President In fact, a mob of between 60 and 100 Robert Mugabe in their on-again, off- ¯ angry students mostly from the Univer¯ sity of Zimbabwe showed up on the final again efforts to participate in the nation’s International Book Fair, the largest pub- ¯ two days of the fair. lishing showcase in sub-Saharan Africa. ¯ On the final day of the fair, a group of The country’s High Court overturned a students again showed up, and GLAZ government ban on the Gays and Lesbi- ¯ members quickly left the booth for safety. Unsatisfied with simply driving the GLAZ ans Association of Zimbabwe (GLAZ), saying the country’ s censorship law s were volunteers away, however, the student ¯ being improperly applied. The court said mob proceeded to thoroughly trash the the government had exceeded its author- ¯ booth and bum the pamphlets that had ity when it banned the organization with- ¯ been left behind. Although book fair staffers quickly put out even exzmi ning the literature the group ¯ intended to display at a booth at the fair. the fire out, many of the nearby The government promptly said, however, ¯ publishing booths" also felt threatened that it would examine whatever books, ¯ enough to pack up their own displays and pamphlets or other literature GLAZ brings ¯ leave the fair, complaining that they were ¯ to the fair and would press charges against losirig enormous amounts of money the group and its members if the material ¯ because of the continued disruptions. was believed to be "promoting homosexuality." For the 2rid year in a row, the government tried to block the only lesbian and gay group in the country from participating in the Fair. On July 22, Joyce Mujuru, the country’s information minister, said WASHINGTON (July 30) - Just how the government wouldn’ t intervene in the ¯ disliked by gays and lesbians is Rep. Bob fair to block GALZ from participating. ¯ Doman, the Orange County, Calif., ReBut the next day, government spokesman publican? Well, earlierin July Herb Moses, Bornwell Chakaodza said gays and lesbi- ¯ the longtime companion of Rep. Barney ¯ ans "have absolutely no right to publicly Frank (D-Mass.) told reporters in the capidisplay literature and material at a public ¯ tal that he has. been helping raise camand cultural event where.., children visit." " paign funds for Loretta Sanchez, the The Zimbabwean government, last year ¯ Democratwhois trying to unseat Dornan. faced intense international cfi ticism when ¯" Now Moses has now been joined by it banned the GALZ from the fair. Dean Hara, the partner of Rep. Gerry Organizers of the event managed to ," Studds (D-Mass.) and Rob Morris, the keep the event in Zimbabwe this year, ¯ companion of Rep. Steve Gunderson (Rafter making commitments that GALZ ¯ Wise.), in helping raise money for would be allowed to set up an exhibit : Sanchez’ campaign to oust Dornan, who stand at the fair to distribute literature. A ¯ has a fondness for referring to gay men as spokespersonfor GALZ has said the group ¯ "homos., Morris told reporters.that the 3 plans to go ahead with its plans to set up a ¯ openly gay members of Congress may booth at the fair, despite the government’ s _" attendanupcomingfundraiserforSanchez decision. ¯ but hadn’t been asked to be involved in Organizers of the fair said they were ¯ planning the event. "I think Herb and still concerned about the possibility of ¯ Dean and I want to keep Barney and Gerry violence because of the GLAZ booth. ¯ and Steve out of it," Morris told The Hill. Among other things, shortly before the ’q’his is our project." High Court ruling, a leader of Uniyersity : Congressmen’s i Spouses Gang Up ¯ -on Anti-Gay Rep. Scottish Gays Can Adopt County - which has more than twice the population - reported just 47 such crimes during that year. Some 69% of the reported incidents EDINBURGH, Scotland (July 29) - A included in the report were based on race Scottish gay man has won a court appeal or ethnic background; about 18% of the that will allow him tO adopt a 5-year-old hate crimes reported were based on sexual severely handicapped boy whose morn orientation; just over 12% were based on has told child welfare authorities she : religion. According to the state report, doesn’ t want the child. The unnamed man, identified only as a ¯ gay men were 4 times as likely as lesbians to be the target of attacks. 34-year-old nurse, had earlier this year been told by a lower court that he could not adopt the boy because he is gay, even though the man and his lover have cared for.the 5-year-old for the past 18 months. But a 3-judge Scottish appeals court reversed that ruling, saying there was no ¯ WASHINGTON (July 18)- According to the Washington Post, tennis superstar legal reason prohibiting gays and lesbians Martina Navratilova says she’ s head over from adopting children. : heals in love with model Hunter Reno, The court said that all the information ¯ who also happens to be a niece of U.S. gathered about the two men and their Attorney General Janet Reno. The Post lifestyle and relationship with the boy ¯ quoted Navratilova as saying she loves "’pointed strongly in favor of the proposed the blond L’Oreal model "in a way I adoption." The child, who was put up for haven’t loved before" and that Hunter adoption by his mother just weeks after he ¯ Reno said the tennis ace is a"very special was born, is both deaf and unable to talk, : person" to her. and can walk only with assistance. The younger Reno will be one of sev¯ eral noted women slated to address the ¯¯ Human Rights Campaign’s OutVote ’96 scheduled to be held in Chicago in Au¯ gust.-Along with Reno will be Chastity OAKLAND, Calif. (July 17) - California ¯¯ Bono, Candace Gingrich and U.S. golfer Muffin Spencer-Devlin. has just released its first full-year of data about hate crimes in the state, although authorities and anti-violence advocates agree it probably doesn’t reflect biasbased crimes very accurately. According to the state justice department summary, there were 1,754 hate crimesin California ¯¯ LONDON 0nlY 19) - A [emale-to-male transsexual who has been married to a in 1995, involving more than 2,600 vie- ¯ woman for 17 years is appealingaBritish rims. The only previous report for the ¯ court ruling that refuses him visitation state covered just the last half of 1994 and rights with the couple’ s children. reported only 672 such crimes. A court earlier this year declared the Justice department officials were quick ¯¯ marriage of the couple, who are not being ¯ to acknowledge "holes" in the report. named, annulled because of "a profound Among other things, only 215 of the state’ s 750 law enforcement agencies reported ¯ deception" on the part of the husband. During the divorce proceedings, the wife any information on hate crimes. Some ¯ in the case told the court that she"always cities reported disproportionately higher believed he was a man" and had undernumbers of hate crimes, possibly because gone artificial insemination in order to police there have been more sensitized to have their children. reporting such acts of violence. San Fran¯ But the husband, who is 50, has apcisco, for example, reported 290 biaspealed the court’s ruling that he has no ¯ based crimes for 1995, while Santa Clara ¯ visitation rights with the couplers chil- Lesbian Speakers at Political Conf. 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But, She told the : court, they never discussed it and that she never reMized the man was using an arti- ¯ ficial penis during sex. accidentally, killin~ Smith. But prosecuting attorney Lee Davis questioned Butler about why she had not tried to give any aid to the shot.woman or even call an ambulance. Davis also introduced forensic evidence that Smith had been shot by a pistol that had been held. only about an inch from her mouth at the time it was fired. Tennessee Murder Trial Winds Up Chaplain Booted for Bad Att,tudes ORLANDO, Fla. (July 24) - According CHATtANOOGA, Tenn. (July 19)-As to the Orlando (Fla.) Sentinel, John B. the-murder trial of Adriana Butler, 23, ¯ Book, ahighlyvisibleanti-gayministerin drew to a dose, the college honors gradu- ." central Florida, has been fired from his ate and mother of a 3-month-old infant, " post as a volunteer chaplain with the Ortestified ,,that she "never intended to kill ¯ ange County Sheriff’s Dept. after he pubanybody in the October 1994 shooting " licly criticized a deputy sheriff for attenddeath of Cathy Smith, even though she ing a gay pride parade earlier in June. wanted the woman to stop having a les- ¯ The Sheriff’s office declined to dabobian relationship with her mother, Donna rate on Book’s firing except to say that his Evans. ¯ "inability and unwillingness" to work with Butler said she was opposed to the " gays and lesbians in the department and in "’unnatural relationship" between Smith " the communi,ty at large made him unacand her mother, but socialized with the ceptable in the post. two women in order to maintain her faro- ¯ ily contacts. Under cross-examination, " Butleracknowledgedthat the three women " had in fact taken vaeatious in Atlanta and " Alabama together, and that they had also ° gone-to a local bar popular with lesbians " ASHBURN, Va. (July 19) - When Jeff and gay men. Bruton’s wife Melanie sued for divorce, She insisted, however, that her mother " among the evidence presented were accu’~gave in to, Cathy [Smith] in order to keep sations that her husband had appeared in the peace’ and told the court that Evans"-" a number of popular gay pornographic was ashamed of her relationship with " videos under the name Ty Fox. When Smith but was afraid of losing her job if " Bruton’s employers learned of the reason she broke it off. for the divorce proceedings, they launched According to Butler, the night of the ° thmeir own.inves.tigation and say that if the killing, Smith had shown up at her home, en are indeed one and the same, Brnton where Evans was staying, and an arguwill.have to resign as a physical education : ment hadbroken out during which Smith teacher and assistant coach for football, had punched Evans in the stomach and " baseball and wrestling at a Sterling, Va., knocked her glasses off. The woman tes- " high school - and possibly his Virginia lifted that she also was hit by Smith when " state teaching certification. she tried to break up the senffle outside Edgar Hatriek, superintendent of the house between the two women. ¯ schools for Loudoun County, told reportShe told the court that at this point she ers that teachers"are ChOSen " to be mstmc-" went and got a gun and returned to the tors as welJ as leaders of our young driveway where Smith and Evans were, " people...in their professional as wall as butbeganwalkingawayfrom Smithwhen ¯ edsonal He added, "What wethat have the woman grabbed her and twirled her e is anlives." allegation of a lifestyle is around suddenly and that the gun Went off " not in keeping with that." School offi- Gay Videos End Coach’s Career ~ cials, however, said they have been unanswer you want to hear but...". You will able to contact Bruton directly because of ¯ .save.yourself a lot of anxiety and grief by the summer vacation, and also said that ¯ just being truthful. This includes the sothe gym coach’s phone number has been " cial WHITE LIE. If this is too large a step disconnected. ¯ then begin with simply saying you prefer But Steve Thompson, who is Bruton’s not to answer, and stick to your guns. agent, confirmed for reporters that his ¯ 5. Quit worrying ~b~.ut what happened client is in fact Ty Fox and, in addition to yesterday. You can t fix what is already modding swimwear and athletic clothdone. Equally, don’t worry about future ing, Bruton also made gay pornographic ¯ situations over which youhaveno control videos. Thompson also said that Brnton ¯ anyhow. plans to resign his teaching post, which 6. Start living inside the moment you he’s held since 1993, "whether it’s fair or ¯ are in. If someone makes you angry, let not." ¯ them know it. If someone hurts your feel¯ ings, let them know it. If someone mis¯ treats you, don’t put up with it. Take action, even if that only means removing ¯ yourself from their presence. ¯ TAMPA, Fla. (July 15) - Festival V, . 7. Us.e some common sense about dealdescribed as the largest gay and lesbian . mg with everyday life. You are in control gala in the world, drew to a dose after of y.our, life far more than you ima "he n t let others take the ~mttattve of dicwhat organizers considered a highly successful 8 days of singing, singing, and still ¯ ta.ting your life. They will try to get away more singing. ¯ wjth as much as possible. Learn to recogThe Gay & Lesbian Association of m.ze what you, can effectively handle and what you can t. Choruses, which sponsors the annual ¯ Most importantly keep in mind that you showcase of choruses from around the world, said more than a hundred choruses ¯ don’t have to win every battle to win the participated in Festival V, drawing more ¯ war. Don’t let others sap your energies. than 5,000 lesbian, gay and bisexual singPick and chose the right time and right ¯ ers. ¯ place. Truly you are the Captain of your ship and the Master of your own fate. Poet Maya Angelou gave an openingWe make life far more difficult than it night address,..and al though there had been .* ,cgncerns that anti-gay protesters might ¯ really is and we usually fall into that trap disrupt the festivities, only a handful of by letting others set the situation and start prot,esters showed up at one of the earlier ¯ the game. Remember the famous "It’s my ball and I make the rules!"? Start thinking opemng day events. The festival also saw the premiere of several works commis- ¯ of your life as your"ball" and when others ¯ insiston making thegamemiserable, take sioned for Festival V. ¯ your ball and go home. You can always ¯ find someone else to play ball with. Keep in mind some people aren’t happy unless they are making someone else unhappy, and usually that will mean you. miserable going to social gatherings I Don’ t waste a scintilla of time or effort on .didn’t really want to attend because I felt those types. Move on and let them eat ~t was my duty. BS! Now I only go where themselves up. ff they have so little self I reall y want to be and I have a much better esteem that they have to tear someone time. This also includes favors for other down to feel important, @#$%^ them. people, just learn to say No in a polite Only you can start making your life fashion. easier and more rewarding. You have to 4. Don’t lie! Tell the truth when asked start today, because each day that passes a question, even if you know the quesbrings you closer to the great black nothtioner won’t like the answer. Just preface ingness which probably awaits us all. your reply with, "I know this isn’t the Copyright © 1996 Gerald Miller Choral Festival Concludes St. Jerome Attention Artists Anyone wishing to Donate Works for an Art Show & Sale for Our House 71ae 9L-,v. Deacon Debbie Srarnes (918) 742-6227 to be held on Sept. 28 & 29 Contact Delilah at 665-1339 Works must be received by Sept. 15. Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC "QUALITY WORK UNBELIEVABLE PRICE" Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation FOR APPOINTMENT Come See Our New Office ¯ QUICK SERVE ¯ PATIO BAR 743-7141 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 747-5466 Traci Huntsman Owner 3225 S. Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 �Clinton Pledges ¯ ally most commonly. They estimated that about 1% of the Caucasian populaMore for AIDS Care ¯ only lion has both defective genes. The team took blood samples from 1,800 SAN FRANCISCO (July 23) - Ending a : ¯ healthy U.S., European, African and Japa2-day campaign swing through California, President Clinton said during a $1,000- ¯ nesevolunteers.Theyexposedthe samples per-person fund-raising dinner that he has ~ to the most common strain of HIV in test asked Congress for an additional $65 mil- : tubes. Reporting in the journal Nature, the lion for the AIDS Drug Assistance Pro- ¯ researchers found that all the blood gram to help people with the disease pay : samples were infected after exposure ¯ except those from white people with two for expensive new and-HIV drugs. Nearly 70,000 people get assistance for : copies of the mutated gene. The second team of scientists, from the AIDS drugs through the program, which ¯ is largely paid for with federal funds. The : Aaron Diamond AIDS Research Center Clinton budget proposal would increase : in New York, found the same double federal spending - about two-thirds of the ; genetic mutations in the blood of two total program - from $115 million this ¯ white males who knowingly had unproyear to $195 million during the next fiscal : tected sex with infected partners, yet re: main uninfected themselves. year. As these researchers report in the jourTheomove comes in the wake of medi- ." cal reports at the international AIDS con- ¯¯ hal Cell, they could not infect blood samples from these two men - even with ference in Vancouv& earlier in July that ¯ 1,000 times the amount of HIV it usually indicate the new class of protease inhibitors, combined with already-approved : takes to trigger an infection. The researching findings suggest that anti-HIV drags, show enormous potential ¯ : drugs to do this would probably have no for completely suppressing the virus. Patients and AIDS advocates, however, ; side effects, since the lack of the protein have increasingly warned that despite the : target in the Caucasians appears to have heartening news about the new drugs, ¯ caused them no known negative healthmost people with AIDS in this country : problems. would not be able to afford the expensive new treatments. "While new drug treatments offer enormous hope to people living with HIV," Clinton said at the fundraiser, "it is also clear that our work is far : LONDON (Aug. 1)- A much more vimfrom complete." . lent strain of HIV, believed to be more : likely to spread by heterosexual contact, ." has ~pread from Thailand to Great Brit" ain, researchers report in the Britishinedi: cal journal New Scientist. ¯ The virus .subtype E is widespread throughout Asia, where most of those NEW YORK (July 21) - Although it got ¯¯ infected areheterosexual, not homosexual. little notice by the media, former ColoAs a result, researchers and epidemiolorado G0v. Richard Lamm, who has de- : gists believe the virus subtype is more clared his desire to be the 1996 presiden- : easily spread via heterosexual sex than tial nominee of the Reform Party, said on ¯ subtype B, which has mainly affected gay a television news program Sunday, July : and bisexual men in North America and 21, that the government should virtually ~ Europe. Since the first case of subtype E write off people who already have AIDS. ¯ infection in England was announced ear"I think in a world of limited resources lier this year~ British health officials have we should spendmoremoney onresearchsince identified 72 additional subtype E ing the cause of AIDS and how to prevent infections. it than we should treating the people that are going to die anyway," Lammsaid on ¯ the CBS-TV program "Face the Nation." : Mark Sturdevant, vice chairman of the Reform Party who has urged Lamm’s ¯ CHICAGO (July 30)- Two studies in the candidacy, later insisted the former Colo: healthmagaT.ineNatureMedicinestrongly rado governor wasn’t actually saying the country should "pull the plug" on people ¯ suggests that Jhe human herpes virus 8 ; (,I-IHV8) isthecauseofKaposi’s sarcoma, who are sick, but said that as the country,,, increasingly faced "limited resources ¯ a cancer that strikes many people with : AIDS. Using a recently devdoped blood Americans "need to start talking about ¯" test for HHVS, researchers say they most these issues." Lamm raised hackles in-1984 for simi- ." often found the virus in blood samples of lar remarks when he said the elderly "have ~: people with sexually transmitted diseases, ¯ a Strong implication the virusis also sexua duty to die and get out of the way." ." ally transmitted. : Heterosexual HIV : Showing Up in UK Reform Party’s Lamm Suggests Cut Care for PWA’s ¯ Report" Herpes : Virus Linked to KS Even if you test HIV negative, AIDS has touched your life. 4, What’s the pointof staying negative if your lover or your friends already have HIV? 4,, Will you have to use condoms for the rest of your life? 4, Do you sometimes take risk that you regret the morning_ after? -4, What about the issues of power and trust in a relationship? 4, How has homophobia affected your self esteem? Interested in attending a discussion group for HIV negative men ? Within the Tulsa area, call 742.2927 Outside Tulsa, call 1.800.282.8165 Brought to you by HIV Outreach Prevention Education (formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs), and Planned Parenthood of Eastern Oklahoma & Western Arkansas, and The HIV Resource Consortium SCOTT ROBISON’S. PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Gene Defect May Protect from AIDS 2nd HIV Home Test WASHINGTON (Aug. 8) -Two separate ¯ Approved; States teams of researchers have identified a genedc mutation that appears to protect some people against AIDS. The finding may-explain why some people infected with HIV remain healthy and virtually symptom-free of the disease for years. The teams of U.S., European and Japanese scientists have found that people with two copies of a certain defective gene - one each from their mother and father - appear to be resistant to the most common strain of HIV in Western countries, the one which is transmitted sexu- NEGATIVE ¯ Fight Availability "¯ : ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ CHICAGO (July 24) -~ A 2nd HIV hometesting kit has now gone on sale after being approved by the Food & Drug Administration. Like the already-approved Confide test by Johnson & JOhnson, the Home Access Express test, sold by Home Access Health, is available via a toll-free number. But in spite of federal approval now of 2 suchhome tests, themanufactur: ers s dll face batdes with healthofficials in ¯ some states who are s.harply critical of Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 582-7144 Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 �U LTll~ EDIA GROUP home-testing for HIV. North Carolinahealthofficials are fighting to block sales of the home tests there, and similar concerns about the ability of state health workers to track people possi: bly exposed to the virus have been raised by state officials in Missouri and South Carolina as well. The home tests are available at pharmacies only in Texas while in Florida, they are available only by mail order. Atlanta Braves to Hold AIDS Benefit / erry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 S. Lewis (918)-743-4117 \ ATLANTA (July 25) - The San Francisco Giants startedit in professional sports 2 years ago when it teamed up with the Until There’s a Cure Foundation to hold the first AIDS benefit pro game. This year the Atlanta Braves will become the 2nd pro baseball team to sponsor such an event when it hosts a "Stepping Up to the Hate Day" in Sept: at the Atlanta-Fulton Co. Stadium benefiting AIDS organizations in the Atlanta area. At the first Until There’s a Cure Day in 1994, opposing team Colorado Rockies wouldn’t even join the S.F. Giants on the field to form ahuman AIDS ribbon until they were brow-beaten into it by Giants’ team members and catcalls from the stands. of violence, not a s.ymbol of a larger societal problem that lS exascerbated by like-minded individuals who blindly follow the ramblings of the likes of Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell, Patrick Buchanon, etc. And of course, I was bombarded with Bibfieal quotations about the sinfulness of my ways. I knew this would happen, and since I had gone in with my eyes wide open, I knew I was not going to act defensively to protect my position. I wanted dialogue, not an argument. ,So, with each and every note from one of these men, I responded with the same basic premise: "Your premises may differ from mine, and that’s okay.We just need to put those on the table so we can actually : know what weare talking about. "Our premises on the Bible probably differ... I don’t know yours, but I win tell you mine. I read the Bible as a historical work. I try to read it in the context of the time it was written and to know which people were being addressed so that I have a context to base my reading upon. I also read other works of the time that have not been included in the Canon, and many of these I find just as much validity in. ¯ There are some more modern texts that I on as well. In other words, I don’t University Reports ¯¯ rely think God stopped talking when his book Condom Usage : went to print. I also know that, it is more Serving a Diverse Community than possible that the works included in the Canon have been misinterpreted through language interpretors and version editors, and there is a high probability that the men who chose which books were likely candidates to include in the Canon had their own prejudices and could have excluded some worthwhile works : and included a lot of repetition. ¯ "This does not mean that I negate the ¯ teachings of the Bible. I just feel that it, in and of itself, is an incomplete guide for my spiritual understanding." ¯ The responses I received after simply : laying my cards on the table about my : own interpretation of the Bible are what ~ surprised me the most. There were no SAN FRANCISCO (July 30) - The re- ¯ more Biblical quotations used to try to ¯ fnsal of San Francisco Giants pitcher Mark sway me. There was no more using of Dewey to join with the baseball team m i Chrisdan theology to justify the villifying support of an AIDS benefit being spon- ¯ of the homosexual lifestyle.What hapsored by.the team has outraged political ~ petted is that we settled into a reasoned leaders here and at least one AIDS activist : debate. No tempers flared.No hateful has called on the Giants to give Dew ey his ¯ names were ealled. I believe that, although walking papers or trade him to another : I did not think my one voice would make BOSTON (July 17) - According to a survey of Brown University students, 74% of the women who dropped in at the campus clinic in 1995 said their sexual partners used a condom"always or almost always’~ when having sex. A similar survey at the school 6 years earlier found that only 41% of the women visiting the clinic rel~rted such high usage of condoms by their sexual partners. ~ ¯ ¯" ¯ ." ¯ ¯ ¯ Pitcher’s Refusal to Join Game Benefit Causes Uproar Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Specialized in HIV Ca ’e Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - if you belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114 Monday- Friday, 9:30_-4:30 pm,.743-1000 teal!L ~ a difference, it did. With nearly 35,000 fans attending the "¯ And, I believe this is why: "I like being Giants-AtlantaBraves game, Dewey, who able to live my life to its fullest, and I is 3-2 with a4.10 earned-run average with ~ expect you to have that very same fight. It 36 strikeouts in 53 innings, refused to join ~ is a free country in which we live, and players from the two teams on field for a freedom of and from religion is one of our demonstration of support in fighting the hallmarks of liberty... AIDS epidemic. A fundamentalist Chris"Our ability to disagree on what God tian who is outspoken in calling homo- ~ thinks of my lifestyle is one of the ~eat sexuality a sin. He also turned his red ¯ things about this place we call America. AIDS ribbon sideways in imitation of the ¯" And, I want to keep that ability for both of ancient "fish" symbol of Christianity. us. I don’t want *anyone* to try to tell me Dewey said he decided to opt out of the :~ I can’t have my way of life, and I sure on-field display with teammates because ¯ would defend your choice as well.Wonld some of the funds raised for the "Until you do the same for meT’ I would like to propose to all of you that There’s a Cure" day event go to promote i safer-sex education and prevention pro- : reason really does work. I think it is high grams, which he says are contrary to his ¯ time we appeal to reason in our political religions beliefs. Jon Prevna, who works ¯" endeavors, not to high emotion. And, I with Project Open Hand in San Francisco, : thinkitis time we quit assuming we know later wrote to Giants president Peter : howtheothersidewillrespond.Thelouder Magowan saying, "I seriously hope you ". we get, themore the other sideresponds in will consider trading him [Dewey] or giv- ¯ kind. There are reasonablepeople on both ing him his unconditional release." The ¯ sides of the lesbigay civil fights debate, Giants management has so far declined to i and I,for one, wouldlike to see more of us comment on the incident. .... " step forward ,an~ take leadership roles. i �Black & White Charities, Inc. & PFLAG Look forward to the pleasure of your company for The 1996 Black & White Gala with keynote speaker Elizabeth Birch Executive Director, Human Rights Campaign, Washington, DC and Presentation of the first annual Swan Awards Saturday, September 7th Cocktails & Conversation at seven o’clock, Concourse Dinner at eight o’clock, International Ballroom Entertainment by The Follies Revue Singers $125 each, checks may be sent to POB 14001, Tulsa, 74159 Visa or MasterCard, call 587..7314 or 800.458.4682, or e-mail: blkwhtprty@aol.com The Downtown Do.ubleTree Hotel, 616 West Seventh Benefiting the 1996 Black & White Grant Recipient, The HIV Resource Consortium, Inc. �TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALEND R SUNDAYS MONDAYS TUESDAYS ¯ WEDNESDAYS Bless the Lord At All : THURSDAYS ¯ HIV+ Support Group HIV Testing Clinic SATURDAYS Agape’ Christian Times Christian Center ¯: Free & anonymous testing . 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He attended the University. of Oklahoma and built a career as a country western entertainer, touring the Southwest and working on the Gay A number of commtmity events are rodeo circuit. coming up. Check out the following: Friends of Spencer are holding a CelThe NAMES PROJECT wants you to ebration of Life on August 17, at the help by hosting a Feast with Friends on Bunkhouse in Oklahoma City, according Sat. Sept. 14. Call 748-3111 for info. to friend and organizer, Mike Busby. The ¯ Tulsa Womens Supper Club will meet event will feature Sonja Martinez, Deb ". 8/28 at 7 at the Spaghetti Warehouse. Roberts, Brad Riggins and videos of Spen- ." Info: 584-2978. The next AIDS Coalition cer performing. The event will include an ¯ meeting is Sept. 10th. Call 585-5551. auction of memorabilia to benefit HIV/ : Do not miss Interfaith AIDS MinisAIDS organizations. : tries Old Fashioned Street Carnival on The Gayly also noted that Spencer’s ¯ Sat. 9/21, 10-6 at Southminster Presbytefamily has requested that donations to ¯ dan, 3500 S. Peoria. HIV/AIDS organizations be made in lieu : Rainbow Business Guild is having a of flowers. Those who wish to honor the : business fair on 8/30 (see ad, p. 5) and-a: memory of Sid Spencer may do so to the : lake weekend on 9/21-22, call 665-5174. organization of their choice or may send a And do not miss the Gay Comedy Jam[ donation care of Spencer’s father, Sid i Spencer, Sr. (RR2, Box 69-G, Seminole, ¯ Booking for 74868-9614) who will donate those in his SOn’S naule. 800 253 Geek to GO! A UTHENTIC The PC Specialist, 501.253.2776 ITALIAN RAINBOW Phyl Boler-Schmidt CUSINE TROUT FRESH Systems & Software Specialist POB 429, Eureka Springs 72632 Books, Incense, Candles and.Rainbows! Plus lots more! 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For this state and city- for the right to live in information about booking Follies singdignity without fear of violence or perseers for corporate or private events, call cution, to have their committed relation437-020L ships respected, and to worship with integrity, the dialogue has become inereasingly hurtful and exclusive....we...have wondered where is the other voice of testing. Initially, events for the program Christianity?" The statement affd~, will be held in Tulsa because of the con"...when the church is silent in the face of terns individuals may have about attendinjustice...that silence becomes complicing a "Gay" event near their homes. ity in that injustice." Peterson added that attendance is not nec- ¯ Penrose told TFN that so far there has essary and that they would like to hear ¯ been little response to the ad but that she from individuals in rural eastern Okla- : expects that there will likely be letters to homa about what it is like in those areas and how best to get education and ser- : The Worldin response andpossible to the ¯ new Methodist bishop from more conser_ vices to the areas. HOPE has set up a : vative Methodist congregations. Commu_ telephone number, 800-282-8165, to al- : nity of Hope (Coil) has also organized low individuals to call anonymously. Lo- ¯ serveral companion efforts to this ad. ¯ cal callers may ring 742-2927. These include a letter and visiting camPeterson also announced that HOPE i Paigu to Don Nickles, Tom Coburn and has .been chosen as one of 75 HIV agen- ¯ Steve Largen.t, a speakers bureau to seek cies in the US to participate in a program, ¯ out other church groups that will listen "Parmers in Prevention", sponsored by ¯ and Coil is also planning aprayer vigil tothe Center for AIDS Intervention Re- ¯" be conducted when and if the Senate consearch, (CAIR) of the Medical College of siders the DOMA bill. Formoreinfo. orto Wisconsin. The program is funded by the ,¯ contribute to this effort, call 585-1800. OOO00000OO00. OOOO0®O A Friendly Place to Stay ~ ; KING’S HI-WAY ¯ ¯ O INN ¯ ¯ Living Sprtng ...a community of friends... ¯ 0 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson. owner ¯ We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 7 o’clock ¯ O ¯ ¯ ¯ @ 0 17 Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253-9337 �: and content. Should only films which READ ALL ABOUT IT ’ have lesbian relationships and characters reviewed by Barry Hensley beindudedin"lesbian cinema," or should Tulsa City-County Library : an"out" lesbian film maker also have her In "Immortal, Invisible," editor Tamsin Wilton has compiled a lengthy collection :¯ film included even though the subject matter or treatment is not lesbian-spa¯ of original essays and interviews analyz- ¯ eific?Thereis averyinterestinginterview i~ig the history and current state of the ¯ lesbian moving image, including f’rims ¯ with lesbian film maker Greta Schiller, whoserecent efforts haveinduded a wonand, to a lesser extent, television. From Marlene Deitrichin"Morocco" in 1930 to : derful documentary, "Maxine Sullivan: 1994’s "Woman of the Wolf," this vol- ¯ Love To Be in Love," about the hetero~ sexual jazz legend. ume explores the important differences Some wall known names are ignored or : between "gay films" and "le:s.bik.a~ film,s" ¯ marginalized in this volume. Barbara and why lesbian and gay male ,tim mar¯ Hammer, whose short films have raised .....~rs will probably never agree on a generic : more than one eyebrow as they challenge "queer cinema." " ". the "heterosexist authority system," ¯ is These are more than just simple movie mentioned only a couple of rimes and reviews. The contributors explore the.s.ogiven one short quote. cial, political, historical and, in some m¯ There are many unfamiliar but intrignstances, religious aspects of these films ~ ing films discussedhere. They are ones to and the text is not always light reading. ¯ keep in mind as you are traveling to other Obvious popular films, such as "Personal : cities where progressive theaters may be ~ Best" and the notorious "The Children’s : taking the opportunity to broa..den~ the h~oHour" are supplemented ,b,y true ~ hous,e, lesbian films, including Desert Hearts ~ rizons of their communities, veruaps me ¯ ThirdAmmalTulsaGay andLesbianFilm and "Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit.!’ ~ Festival organizers willincorporate some The seventeen contributors exhibit a wide variety of qualifications, frofi~film ".¯ of these rifles into their schedule next snring. "Immortal, Invisible" is one of the makers"and producers (Penny Florence ~ few books published that specifiand Susan Ardill) to a postgraduate stu: cally discuss lesbiancinema, but there are dent (Louise Allen) whose research is concerned with "lesbian readings of kd ¯ also many other books regarding gay/ lang, and the emergence of country and ¯ lesbian topics at your local branch library : orat the Readers Services department at westernlesbian culture."The authors end- : theCentralLibrarydowntown(596-7966). lessly debate what consritutes lesbian form James Christjohn ybYeal Gay comedy is coming back to:Fulsa on S~pt.’16th & 17th, at thePAC. The Gay Com~:ly Jam. Freedom Tour features acclaimed openly Gay comics,, Scott Kennedy and Kevin Maye, who ve been seen on HBO’s Comedy Channel and -written of in The Advocate. Their show, Gaylapalooza (last February with two other comics) played to a full house at th~ PAC’s Williams Theater and benefited Black & White Charities as does a portion of this appearance. Tickets are $12 in advance and $15 day of the show, and are available by calling 481-0558. Broken Arrow Community Playhouse announces that auditions for its Hallow- een producrion, two one-act plays, will be held Sund,a,,,,,y, August 18, at 6pro;, The pIays¯.are . Sorry, wrong Number , directed by Todd Murray, & "Black Comedy", directed by Jenny Jackson. The oneacts will be performed October 11 - 20. "Sorry Wrong Number" requires afemale character, and 3-4 addirioual actors who can perform a variety of character voices. It will be staged as a radio drama. "Black Comedy" requires 5 men & 3 women. Audj’rious will consist of cold readings from the scripts and someimprov. Audirious will be held at the playhouse, 1800 S. Main in the Main Place complex. 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The post-modem decor features a black and white checkerboard floor, a visible kitchen window, and popular music playing over the speakers. The other half, behind a wainscotted glass wall, is a formal dining room with pale purple walls, carpeted, formal tables and place settings, and more sedate, classical music playing in the background. There is .also another formal dinmgroom behind French doors for private par_ ties. The same food and menu is available on either side, and there is no official difference, IX/Ion. - Fr~., 11 to Dinner 3/][on. - Sat., 5 to 10:30 dosed Sundays Cuisine: New Amerlean Dress: Dressy Prices: Very Expensive Plastic: matoes, and diagonally sliced cucumbers, dressed in a pleasan~-balsamic vinaigrette & crumbled S til ton cheese dressing (Stilton is the English version of bleu cheese or roquefor0. After the salad course, we were mortified to see our waiter remove our salad knife from our salad plate and set it on our bread and butter plate. One expects that for a $4.50 salad, the kitchen can wash an additional knifet Our entree was a delicious, and large servl.n.g of sauteed, thinly sliced veal hver ($9.95) presented with caraSection: Yes melized onions and~r2~r_ kansas bacon, withpo_ tatoes Lyonnaise. Very w~ne though w e noticed mos t tasty and an excellent gendemen in our secvalue. Our companion tion wereinjackets and Ratln~: had a s triking plate that ties, while the diner Side looked pretty enough to be a woman’s hat-sually attired.. Even a bed of mashed potathough our visit was on toes surrounded by a a Monday night, both sections of the respanopoly of grilled taurant were nearly full. crowned witti i avegetaMes perfectly andmushrooms, grilled, thick, beef tenderloin patrons were more ca_ Non-Smoldn$ Alcohol: FMI bar and A l;st In addition to the small menu of regular items, a blackboard reminiscent of ¯ ($21.95), sauced with a red wine reducL Bodean’s announces the specials of the : tionhunter sauce, and withahuge sprig of evening. Several selections of fresh fish .. fresh rosemary stuck in like a feather. are available, plus offerings of beef, veal, dessert was more mundane: a large gratin dish of creme brulee which we pork,and duck. Entrees include a choice ; au¯His ¯ of Oklahoma see Flavors, page 15 2103 East Third, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104-1842 918-599-7337 or toll-free, 800-994-7337 or visit us on the Internet at http ://www- cremation, org/oklahoma/oklafioma, htrnl wnere* Bakery pets are treated like ~eople ".... "’~. Treats For Free Literature, Without Cost or Obligation, Mail this coupon today~ * Bed & Breakfast (boarding) * Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS, Nutro Dog Food Please contact me. I would like to learn more about your special final expense program. Address: City, St. &Zip:__ Telephone: THE _Age: DOG HOUSE ~ BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria, 744-5556 �HIV Positive?. New state-of-the-art investigational drug therapies arenow available in the Southwest for HIWAIDS and opportunistic infections. If you are interested in participating in one of the promising new investigational therapies, call us at (918) 743-1000 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs Jeffrey A. Beal, M.D. Associates in Medical at!.d Mental Health 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 ~ Do you live in a small town or rural area? Are you attracted to other men? Do you feel like you are the only one? And if you’d like to meet others, come to our rural mens discussion group ¯ ~. every 2nd & 4th-Saturday, 7-9 pm For more info,, contact Jeremy or Brian 742-2927 or 800-282-8165 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. �thought rather nondescript. We had a flourless chocolate cake that was filled with chocolate mousse, served on a mirror of raspberry puree, and decorated with fresh strawberries, fresh blueberries, mint leaves, and real, freshly whipped unsweetened cream. Good, but we couldn’t eat it all, and.the gateaux was everso slightly overcooked. Alas, there was no espresso machine on the premises, so after dinner, we walked across the parking lot to the Novel Idea cafe to linger over cappuccinos and leer at the cute clerks selling books. Flavors also features a full bar and the wine list is interesting, emphasizing less encountered small California wineries. The food at Flavors, as one might expect from a Michael Fusco venture, is excellent, though it tends toward tile expensive (a veal chop with polenta was $28.95--but it looked divine!). Fusco is one of those chefs who has mastered~ the art of doing new & creative things with food in combinations which work, rather than shock. One can expect a pleasant & memorable dining experience from this exciting, new establishment. Just be sure to make reservations on the weekends. For film buffs who happen to be computer literate, I just received notice, of a new website, called "Popcorn Q", billed as the ultimate online home for the queer moving image. The address is http://www.popeornq.com..According to my sources, it offers thousands of film & video descriptions (need help figuring out what movie to rent tonight?), sources for acquiring these films/videos, of course, graphics and photos, a directory of G/L film rests, a "Homo Home Film Fest", books to watch out for, Queer top tens, and lots o’ links. The programmer/author of the site is Jenni Olson, who also wrote the "Ultimate Guide toLesbian & Gay Film & Video", published in June. Not only an author, programmer, and Queer film archivist, she also produces for film and television. Hey Jenni ! Need a cheap actor/columnist-writer/ professional college student? Last but not least: if you saw the Academy Awards, you may have seen STOMP, an extraordinary dancing peicussion performance. They have come to Tulsa several times and make a point to see them if you have not done so. They will be at the PAC, Sept. 6-8 and tickets can be had from the PAC at 596-7111 or Carson Attractions at 584-2000. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1, Adin capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2, Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3, Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the no. of words. (A word is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space.) Sendyour ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 with your name, address, tel. numbers (for us only). Ads will run in the next issue after received. TFN reserves the right to edit 6r refuse any ad. No refunds. Back in Tulsa G.W.M. 41, Gldlkg, HIV Pos. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Aug. 15-sept. 14,1996, vol. 3, no. 9 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Congressman Comes Out WASHINGTON - Rep. Jim Kolbe, an Arizona Republican and influential member of the House Banking Committee has acknowledged that he is Gay. Confronted with the prospect of an upcoming report in The Advocate about his sexual orientation, Kolbe beat the news magazine to the punch by coming out. Kolbe, who has been a representative to C6ngress since 1984 and has been a frequent GOP point-person on the North American Free Trade Act and critic of White House budget proposals, told the Arizona Daily Star, "I think it’s unfortunate for our society that things have to happen this way." But the 54-year-old Kolbe added, "I’m the same p~rson I was yesterday, and I’ll legislatejust the same way. This should b,e. as irrelevant as the fact that Iambloe-eyed, right-handed &balding." Theupcoming Advocate story reportedly was spurred at least partly by Kolbe’s vote in July for the so-called Defense of.Marriage Act (DOMA), which rights activists had adamantly opposed. In late July, a collection.of activists also took out a full-page ad in the Washington LACK & WHITE PRESENT TOP US GAY LEADER Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), will give the keynote address for this year’s Black & White Charities, Inc. Gala dinner fundraiser. Birch leads the Human Rights Campaign which is the largest Lesbian and Gay political organization in the US. Birch formerly was legal counsel for Apple Computer, Inc. and also for Claris Corporation. Prior to joining Human Rights Campaign, Birch served as co-chair of the Board of Directors of the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF). . Over 260 patrons attended last year’s Gala at Philbrook Museum and a comparable numberis expected to attend the Sept. 7 event at the Downtown DoubleTree Hgtel. Over the years, Black & White Charities, Inc. have raised and donated over $31,000 in grants to other local charities. The HIV Resource Consortium will be the major recipient of this year’s grant. The HIV RC helps to provide services to "approximately 200 clients" with case management, transportation, Another part of the program will be the presentation of the first annual SWAN awards, ajoint program of PFLAG, parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays and Black & White Charities, Inc. The awards will recognize individuals "who through action and example, are helping to create a society see B & W, page 3 HOPE A New Namefor HIV Programs HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education is the new name for an health program that began in the Gay community more than 14 years ago. Claudette Peterson, director of what was known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) HIV Testing Programs, announced the new name along with program’s success in getting funding for several critical new outreach programs. Peterson noted that the program had received funding for a"rural" HIV education outreach to "MSM’s" (men who have sex with men, regardless if.they identify as Bi, Gay see HOPE, page 3 Blade ur,gi,’ng "closeted gay and lesb!an members of Congress. to c0me out.. ,Headlined. ,~’A ,calL.to.. con~ ,. science," the ad didn’t threaten to out any closeted : uommunity of Hope Speaks members, butitwas the first timein5 years that closeted ¯ gays in Congress had become a national issue. Kolbe is the fourth member of Congress to publicly admit tobeing Gay - along with Reps. Gerry Studds, DMA, Barney Frank,. D-MA & Steve Gunderson, R-WI. Although Kolbe voted for DOMA, he also supports benefits for same-sex partners, and last year voted to keep the District of Columbia’s Domestic Partnership Act that gives some benefits to the partners of district employees. For Kolbe’s comments, see Kolbe, page 3 Military HIV Discharge Provision Dropped WASHINGTON -.A joint House-Senate conference committeehas unceremoniously dropped a provision in the 1997 defense authorization bill that would have required the discharge of service personnel infected with HIV. The HIV discharge provision was included in the House version of the $265.6 billion defense spending measure by Rep. Bob Doman (R-Calif.), despite objections of Pentagon officials. The Senate version of the bill included no such amendment. "Congress spoke on.this issue already when it repealed Dornan’ s HIV discharge measure in April," said Winnie Stachelberg, HRC’s’ legislative deputy. "Spite and bigotry are th~ only conb,eivable rehsons why Bob Dornan would have reintroduced this; measure after seeing itresoundingly defeated." Thejoint conference committee also :dropped a orovzszon that would have topI~led the don t ask, don t tell" policy in favor of an outright ban on Gays and Lesbians in the armed forces. Out In Sunday Tulsa World ¯ Community of Hope, a : United Methodist congre- ¯¯ gation, took $1,650 advertisement in The Sunday ¯ Tulsa Woddto speak out ¯ as a Christian community ¯ of faith "to call all Chris- " tians to stop using hateful ¯ language" against Lesbi- : ans and Gay men (see ad to ¯ right). The ad specifically : cites the language used by ¯ members" of Congress in ¯ recent debates on the"De- : fense of Marriage Act" ¯ which was co-sponsored ¯ by Tulsa Rep. Steve Largent and overwhelm- " ingly supported by ¯ Oklahoma’s House mere- ¯ bers. ! Acc°rdmg to a statemen=t ¯ gee Ad, p. 11 ¯ Elizabeth Birch, former counsel for Apple, now leads DC’s Human Rights Campaign. Coming Soon! Womens Supper Club RBG Business Fair Gay Comedy Jam Feast With Friends IAM Street Carnival RBG Lake Retreat see Coming, page 11 WE CALL ALL CHRISTIANS TO STOP USING HATEFUL LANGUAGE! UNITED METHODIST COMMUNITY OF HOPE ¯ audience with,over 400 attending on, two nights~. , ¯ : The largest grant ($3,500) went to,the HIV Resource consortium, " ¯ the second largest ($2,500) to the Medication Fund Of the Visiting " ¯ Nurse Association and grants of $1,500 went to Interfaith AIDS ¯ Ministries AIDS information line, Shanti=Tulsa Storehouse, Our " ¯ House, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network, see Follies, page 11 " Sid Spenser Singer Dies Unexpectedly ¯ : , " 1 and died ~’n hospital, see Sp ¯ Follies ReVue Beneficiaries i ’ ’ " ~ Follies Revue, Inc. has announced,the.distrib~tti0n ,of net proceeds t.rom its annu,gl, fundrais~ng peffom!,ance. Thislyear s event raised 4 $14,000 to hel~ l~d agencies that p~ovide direr support t~ persons.,~ ~AL~.Err~I~S/DIR~TO~Y p. ¯ liviongwithAIDS orvHIV ipfe~tion. Fedllies Revoe~ Irnc. has rais.ed ¯ ... . -- . . . ., . :! NEWS’BRIEFS ! $115,000 m its ezght years of servzce. This year s event which was . , P. 4 : hdd at the Doubletree Hotel, Warre~ Place attracted the largest ever " HEAL’rI~ BRIEFS i P. fi ¯ ’ CALENDAR P. 9 Many Gay Oklahomans were surprised and shocked by the news of the death in July of native singer, Sid Spencer, from complications fromAIDS in Calgary, Canada. Spencer, who performed regularly in Tulsa at the Silver Star Saloon, was performing Ot the Alberta Gay Rodeo. He was,~tficken wi,lh pneumoma P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 P, 15 EUREKA SPRINGS ADS BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT RESTAURANT REVIEW CLASSIFIEDS 918.583.1248 Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal POB 4140 Assistant Editor, James Christjohn Writers/contributors Tulsa, Oklahoma Phyl Boier-Schmidt 74159-0140 Barry Hensley Jean=Pierre Legraridbouche Leanne Gross TulsaNews@aol.com Gerald Miller Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property_of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent tO the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. by Phyl Boler-Schmidt Last December, I decided to take on an impossible project. I knew it was impossible from the outset, but I was determined to be a.voice of reason inthe midst of many voices of confusion. What, you ask, am i talking about? With the brutal murders of Roxanne and Michelle, two lesbian activists in Oregon,my sense ofneeding to do something tobring the warring parties over lesbigay civil rights to the same tablewas literally pushed over the edge. I just had to do something. So, I decided to begin a dialogue on an Internet’.newsgroup called alt.org.promisekeepers. What I wanted to accomplish was nothing different than lesbigay civil rights activists have been working toward since the beginning of our movement. I wanted Christian fundamentalists (and everyone else for that matter) to begin to see us as human beings, to stop villifying us insearch of political advancement, to STOP the violence. Knowing full well I am only one person, see Enemy, page 3 by G. Miller. M_4. Peoplehavekiddedmefor along-time about having an answer for every problem or situation. But it occurred to me lately that what I see as common sense answers are somehow often overlooked by other people. So the following is a beginning set of things for the reader to consider in terms of how to make your daily life less complex and run more smoothly. 1. Don’t go where you are not wanted! Sounds simple and it is. If there are places or people who go out of their way to make you to less than comfortabl~, DON’T GO THERE. DOn’t go to businesses which treat you or your friends badly. 2. Stay away frompeoplewho try to make your life miserablet That includes, parents, siblings, or any form of relative. This also includes associates of friends, or coworkers in your work place. That’s right, COWORKERS. You may have to be around them to work but otherwise steer dear whenever possible. 3. Don’t say you’ll do something when you reall~ don’t want to do it! I used to make myself see Life, page 3 Tulsa Clu~)s & Restaurants *Concessious, 3340 S. Peoria *Lola’s, 263OE. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 832-1269 744-0896 749-1563 745-9998 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Med.& Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 250-5034 Brookside.Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria 743-5272 *Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 592-1521 Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 7434117 Tim Danid, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 749-3620 DOn. 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Mingo *Free SpiritWomens Center, call for location&info: 583-7314 628-0594 583-9780 585-1800 298-4648 622-1441 587-4669 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Friends in Unity Social Organization (African-Amer. men) POB 8542, 74101 4254905 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation 584-4983 : Interfaith AIDS Ministries - 438-2437, 800-284-2437 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 : *HIV Resource Consortium : 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 7494194 ; NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 748-3111 ," PFLAG , POB 52800 74152 7494901 ¯ Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 74104 i R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 7494195 _Rai~nbow B,usiness Guild, POB 4106, 74159. 665-5174 St. Jerome s~-C~tlirlic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 646-7116 ¯ *Shanti Hotline 749-7898 ¯ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 TOHR Gay HelpLine 0nfo.) 7434297 ¯ Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 : T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor : *University Center at Tulsa ¯ Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy 23 South 501-253-7734 ¯" Beaver Dam Store, 1/2 mi. N. ofDam Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 ". *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 ." DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 ¯ *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 ; Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 : Heart of the Hills Bed & Breakfast & Reservation Service ¯ 501-253-7468, 800-253-7468, x882 ! King’sHi-Way,96King.sHighway,Hwy.62W 800-231-1442 ¯ _M~C~Q~o.~[ the Living Spring 501-253-9337 : McClung Realtors 501-253-9682 ." Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-253-2401 ¯ Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 ¯" Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 ." The Woods, 50 Wall St. 501-253-828_1. : _: Carbon Copy editors, The Tulsa Worm Why are we afraid .of same-sex marriage? Is it change? Without change, we can not grow. Why are we afraid of anyone or anything that is differentfromus or our views.’? what would the world be like if we were all the same? Marriageis acommitmentbetweentwo people who love one another. Single-parent homes, illegitimate children, abusive spouses, alcoholism, joblessness and multiple marriages are aspects that are tearing the family and marriage apart. Please tell me where same-sex mamage will destroy the institutions of marriage and family. And is it wrong for a married see Eetters, page 3 Rev. Nancy J. Horvath M. Div., Pastor Sunday 9:15 am Christian Education 11:00 am Worship Service. Wednesday 6:30 pm Midweek Service 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thursday 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group 5451-E S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa~ OK ¯ 74146 (918) 622-1441 why I decided to take on the Promise Keepers is Something I really can’t explain. I just needed to do something. My experiencepleasantly surprisedme. And, I’d like to share this experience with you because I think if it worked once, it can work again.Ifmore of us step out and try to communicate with those we perceive as the enemy, perhaps we will make a difference, if not for our generation, at least for those that follow. My original note posted was entitled Opinions on Hate Speech. In it, I asked these simple questions, after outlining the events that had transpired in Oregon: "What are your feelings about this? Can you see why gays and lesbians are horrified when those among you villify us, call us child molesters, say that God hates us, and use other extremely derogatory terminology to describe who we are? Isn’t there some other way to disagree on the subject ofcivil rights legislation?Canyou see why somein yourmovementmightbe resp°nsiblealruenasdtyablef°r incitingpeople ~loe~eC~l~l~’~ for someone to hurt anyway? Isn’t there another alternative?" The immediate response by o~er 20 men who frequent the newsgroup was a defensive knee-jerk reaction. They accusedme of trying to blame Christians for everything. They toldme that a crime had been committed, and it didn’t matter if it was brought about by hatred of gays and lesbians. They tried every conceivable way to convince me that it had nothing whatsoever to do with their faith. It was only one unstablemancommitting a crime see Enemy, page 7 : ¯ sued by Rep. Jim Kolbe (R-Ariz.) on his ". announcement that he is Gay: : ’q’wenty years ago, when I first sought ¯ public office, I made a decision that my : commitment to civic involvement would : mean my public life would have to come : ahead of my personal and private life. ¯ I have, in the intervening 20 years, : sought to fulfillmypublicresponsibilifies ¯ in a manner that benefits all those I have :. represented in either the Arizona Legisla- ¯ ture or in Congress. I will continue that : commitment as long as I am in public : Service. Ilookbackon whatlhaveaccom- : proud of the record I have compiled. : NAFTA was the capstone of this vision. I ¯. have fought to lower the crushing tax ¯ burden on our families by reducing taxes. : I have worked for six years as a member _" of the budget committee to achieve a ¯. balanced budget so we can relieve our ¯ children of the burden of a crushing na- : tional debt. I have worked to keep : Arizona’s reputation as the astronomy i cOatapdivtaanlces intheawssourrlidngbaystrwonilolmgyotnheaWtforward : here. I have argued and won funds to : protect our natural heritage, including the ¯ "expansion of Saguaro National Park. And : justthis weekweachievedthemostsweep- : ing, most important reform of welfare in : decades. There is, of course, much more ¯ but this is a record I believe I can point to : with justifi-able pride. The following ts a press statement is- ¯. [ am just as proud of my record in the ¯ area ofhumanrights andindividual right.s. : I abhor and vigorously oppose discrinu- : nation in the workplace based on race, ¯ religion, gender, or sexual orientation - ." any treatment that is not based on merit. I : foug.h,t to repeal thepr.ovision inlaw which ’. armed seravnicaeus tmomemaubcerdwishcohiasrHge oIfVany-posi-reqmres : five. I support health benefits for domes- ". fie parmers. ¯ I also believe that if the citizens of ~ Hawaii believe it to be in their public ." interest to permit same-sex mamages, ¯ they should be permitted to do so. By the ¯ same token, other states - as Arizona has : done - should be allowed to define mar- : riage differently, and not be required to accept the.definition adopted by others. It .¯ is for this reason that I voted for the so- ." called Defense of Marriage Act when it ¯ was before the House a few weeks ago. °. Now, however, there are some who : have decided that theirdisagreement with : this particular vote warrants their making : public information aboutmy privatelife - ¯ information they may have heard second : or third-hand about my sexual onenta- ." tion. That I am a Gay person has never ¯ affected the way that I legislate. The fact ". that I am Gay has never, nor will it ever, : change my commitment to represent all : the people of Arizona’s 5th District. ¯ I am the same person, one who has : spentmany yearsstruggling torelieve the : tax burden for families, balance the bud- ~ get for our children’ s future, andimprove ¯ the quality of life we cherish in Southern : Arizona. I intendto continue that mission : if the voters of the 5th District, in their ¯ wisdom, decide that I should represent them in the 105th Congress.’" ¯ versity", : The Black&White Charities, Inc. Gala : will begin with a reception at 7pro fol- ¯ lowed by the dinner at 8pro. The highly ~ regarded, Follies Revue Singers will pro- : vide entertainment. Valet parking will be : provided. For more info., call 587-7314. : orheter0sexual) in smallOkl.ahomatowns : and rural areas. In particular, this effort ¯. will target Muskogee, Okmulgee, ¯ Tahlequah and Bartlesville. While it’s ". estimated that the majority of HIV trans- ~ mission/infection is these areas is still ¯ -through male to male contact, a small : survey by the Oklahoma State Dept. of : Health indicates that AIDS cases in rural : Oklahomans is still rising but that men in ¯ these areas may perceive themselves as at : lowerrisk. AndMSM’s whomay be mar- : ried to women may face challenges in : incorporating safersex practices into their ¯ relationships, and even in just getting "¯ condoms in a small town where anonym- : ity is not likely. ¯ The program will work to provide sup- . port groups, peer education and greater ." access to HIV see HOPE, page 11 ". ". WINDSOR MARKET ANTIQUES, ART & INTERIOR DES1GN DALLAS - TULSA GE:T READY TULSA THE ULTIMATE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE COMING OCTOBER 1996 IN THE VILLAGE OF WOODLAND HILLS 6808 SOUTH MEMORIAL, SUITE 300 !TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74133 PLEASE: CONTACT CINDY WATSON AT: (9t8) 254-9766 " NEW LEi SING VIGNETTES TO INTERIOR DESIGNERS, ANTIQUE.DEXLERS &. ARTISANS WITH QUALITY, INTEGRITY& CREATIVITY Zimbabwe Gays Harrassed by Govt HARARE, Zimbabwe (Aug. 2) - Gays and lesbians won a legal battle over the government of Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe in their on-again, offagain efforts to participate in the nation’s International Book Fair, the largest publishing showcase in sub-Saharan Africa. The country’s High Court overturned a government ban on the Gays and Lesbians Association of Zimbabwe (GLAZ), saying the country’ s censorship laws were being improperly applied. The court said the government had exceeded its authority when it banned the organization withouteven exzmining theliterature the group intended to display at a booth at the fair. The government promptly said, however, that it would examine whatever books, pamphlets or otherliteratureGLAZbrings to the fairand would press charges against the group and its members if the material was believed to be "promoting homosexuality." For the 2rid year in a row, the government tried to block the only lesbian and gay group in the country from participating in the Fair. OnJuly 22, Joyce Mujuru, the country’s information minister, said the government wouldn’ t intervene in the fair to block GALZ from participating. But the next day, government spokesman Bornwell Chakaodza said gays and lesbians "have absolutely no right to publicly display literature and material at a public and cultural event where..,children visit." The Zimbabwean government, last year faced intenseinternational cfiticismwhen it banned the GALZ from the fair. Organizers of the event managed to keep the event in Zimbabwe this year, after making commitments that GALZ would be allowed to set up an exhibit stand at the fair to distribute literature. A spokespersonforGALZhassaidthe group plans to go ahead with its plans to set up a booth at the fair, despite the government’s decision. Organizers of the fair said they were still concerned about the possibility of violence because of the GLAZ booth. Among other things, shortly before the High Court ruling, a leader of Uniyersity ¯" of Zimbabwe student group With close ¯ ties to the President Robert Mugabe told ¯ the fair organizers that gays and lesbians ¯ that-show up at the event will "face public ¯ genocide." In fact, a mob of between 60 and 100 ¯¯ angry students mostly from the University of Zimbabwe showed up on the final ¯ two days of the fair. ¯ On the final day of the fair, a group of students again showed up, and GLAZ ¯ members quickly left the booth for safety. Unsatisfied with simply driving theGLAZ volunteers away, however, the student ¯ mob proceeded to thoroughly trash the ¯ booth and bum the pamphlets that had ¯ been left behind. Although book fair staffers quickly put ¯ the fire out, many of the nearby ¯ publishing booths" also felt threatened ¯ enough to pack up their own displays and ¯ leave the fair, complaining that they were ¯ losirig enormous amounts of money ¯ because of the continued disruptions. : Congressmen’s i Spouses Gang Up ¯ -on Anti-Gay Rep. WASHINGTON (July 30) - Just how ¯ disliked by gays and lesbians is Rep. Bob ¯ Doman, the Orange County, Calif., Republican? Well, earlierin JulyHerbMoses, ¯ the longtime companion of Rep. Barney ¯ Frank (D-Mass.) toldreporters in thecapi- ¯ tal that he has. been helping raise cam- " paign funds for Loretta Sanchez, the ¯ Democratwhois trying to unseat Dornan. ¯" Now Moses has now been joined by Dean Hara, the partner of Rep. Gerry ," Studds (D-Mass.) and Rob Morris, the ¯ companion of Rep. Steve Gunderson (R- ¯ Wise.), in helping raise money for : Sanchez’ campaign to oust Dornan, who ¯ has a fondness for referring to gaymen as ¯ ¯ "homos.,Morris told reporters.that the 3 openly gay members of Congress may _" attendanupcomingfundraiserforSanchez ¯ but hadn’t been asked to be involved in ¯ planning the event. "I think Herb and ¯ Deanand I want to keepBarney and Gerry ¯ and Steve out of it," Morris told The Hill. ’q’his is our project." Scottish Gays Can Adopt EDINBURGH, Scotland (July 29) - A Scottish gay man has won a court appeal that will allow him tO adopt a 5-year-old severely handicapped boy whose morn has told child welfare authorities she doesn’ t want the child. The unnamed man, identified only as a 34-year-old nurse, had earlier this year been told by a lower court that he could not adopt the boy because he is gay, even though the man and his lover have cared for.the 5-year-old for the past 18 months. But a 3-judge Scottish appeals court reversed that ruling, saying there was no legal reason prohibiting gays andlesbians from adopting children. The court said that all the information gathered about the two men and their lifestyle and relationship with the boy "’pointed strongly in favor of the proposed adoption." The child, who was put up for adoptionby his motherjust weeks afterhe was born, is both deaf and unable to talk, and can walk only with assistance. California Hate Crimes OAKLAND, Calif. (July 17) - California has just released its first full-year of data about hate crimes in the state, although authorities and anti-violence advocates agree it probably doesn’t reflect biasbased crimes very accurately. According to the state justice department summary, there were 1,754 hate crimesin California in 1995, involving more than 2,600 vierims. The only previous report for the state coveredjust the last half of 1994 and reported only 672 such crimes. Justice department officials were quick to acknowledge "holes" in the report. Among other things, only 215ofthe state’ s 750 law enforcement agencies reported any information on hate crimes. Some cities reported disproportionately higher numbers of hate crimes, possibly because police there have been more sensitized to reporting such acts of violence. San Francisco, for example, reported 290 biasbased crimes for 1995, while Santa Clara P AlrERSON REALIORSx LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Stre~-t ¯ Suite 170 ,.Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374., Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday,Service, 10:45 am 1623 No. Maplewood 838-1715 Community Cleaning O A Residential and Commerical Cleaning Service Kerby Baker (918) 622-0700 Call for Free Estimate DISC0 TO DISCO 20TH BUY* SELL* CONSIGN COOL 3213 E. 15th St. O’rlll:E: Tulsa, Ok 74104 (918) 749-3620 ¯ County - which has more than twice the ¯ population - reported just 47 such crimes ¯ during that year. ¯ Some 69% of the reported incidents ¯ included in the report were based on race ¯ or ethnic background; about 18% of the ¯ hate crimes reportedwerebasedonsexual ¯ orientation; just over 12% were based on : religion. According to the state report, ¯ gay men were 4 times as likely as lesbians to be the target of attacks. Lesbian Speakers at Political Conf. WASHINGTON (July 18)- According ¯ to the Washington Post, tennis superstar Martina Navratilova says she’ s head over : heals in love with model Hunter Reno, ¯ who also happens to be a niece of U.S. Attorney General Janet Reno. The Post ¯ quoted Navratilova as saying she loves the blond L’Oreal model "in a way I haven’t loved before" and that Hunter ¯ Reno said the tennis ace is a"very special : person" to her. The younger Reno will be one of sev- ¯ eral noted women slated to address the ¯¯ Human Rights Campaign’s OutVote ’96 scheduled to be held in Chicago in Au- ¯ gust.-Along with Reno will be Chastity ¯ Bono, Candace Gingrich and U.S. golfer ¯ Muffin Spencer-Devlin. ¯ Trans Ex-Husband ¯ Seeks Child Visits ¯ LONDON 0nlY 19) - A [emale-to-male ¯ transsexual who has been married to a ¯ woman for 17 years is appealingaBritish ¯ court ruling that refuses him visitation rights with the couple’ s children. ¯ A court earlier this year declared the ¯ marriage of the couple, who are not being ¯ named, annulled because of "a profound deception" on the part of the husband. ¯ During the divorce proceedings, the wife ¯ in the case told the court that she"always believed he was a man" and had undergone artificial insemination in order to have their children. ¯ But the husband, who is 50, has ap- ¯ pealed the court’s ruling that he has no ¯ visitation rights with the couplers children because he had perjured himself in order to get married in the first place. During the divorce proceedings, the wife, whois 49 years oldnow,had told the court that when she and her husband had had sex, she believed he either had a very small or deformed penis. But, She told the court, they never discussed it and that she never reMized the man was using an artificial penis during sex. ¯¯ accidentally, killin~ Smith. But prosecuting attorney Lee Davis questioned Butler about why she had not : tried to give any aid to the shot.woman or even call an ambulance. Davis also intro- " duced forensic evidence that Smith had : been shot by a pistol that had been held. ¯ only about an inch fromhermouth at the time it was fired. Tennessee Murder Chaplain Booted Trial Winds Up for Bad Att,tudes ORLANDO, Fla. (July 24) - According CHATtANOOGA, Tenn. (July 19)-As to the Orlando (Fla.) Sentinel, John B. the-murder trial of Adriana Butler, 23, ¯ Book, ahighlyvisibleanti-gayministerin drew to a dose, the college honors gradu- ." ate and mother of a 3-month-old infant, " testified ,,that she "never intended to kill ¯ anybody in the October 1994 shooting " death of Cathy Smith, even though she wanted the woman to stop having a les- ¯ bian relationship with her mother, Donna Evans. ¯ Butler said she was opposed to the " "’unnatural relationship" between Smith " and her mother, but socialized with the two women in order to maintain her faro- ¯ ily contacts. Under cross-examination, " Butleracknowledgedthat the three women " had in fact taken vaeatious in Atlanta and " Alabama together, and that they had also ° gone-to a local bar popular with lesbians " and gay men. She insisted, however, that her mother " ’~gave in to, Cathy [Smith] in order to keep the peace’ and told the court that Evans"-" was ashamed of her relationship with " Smith but was afraid of losing her job if " she broke it off. According to Butler, the night of the ° killing, Smith had shown up at her home, where Evans was staying, and an argu- : ment hadbroken out during which Smith had punched Evans in the stomach and " knocked her glasses off. The woman tes- " lifted that she also was hit by Smith when " she tried to break up the senffle outside the house between the two women. ¯ She told the court that at this point she went and got a gun and returned to the driveway where Smith and Evans were, " butbeganwalkingawayfrom Smithwhen ¯ the woman grabbed her and twirled her around suddenly and that thegun Went off " central Florida, has been fired from his post as a volunteer chaplain with the Orange County Sheriff’s Dept. afterhe publicly criticized a deputy sherifffor attending a gay pride parade earlier in June. The Sheriff’s office declined to daborate on Book’s firing except to say that his "inabilityandunwillingness" to workwith gays andlesbians in the department and in the communi,ty at large made him unacceptable in the post. Gay Videos End Coach’s Career ASHBURN, Va. (July 19) - When Jeff Bruton’s wife Melanie sued for divorce, among the evidence presented were accusations that her husband had appeared in a number of popular gay pornographic videos under the name Ty Fox. When Bruton’s employers learned of the reason forthe divorceproceedings, they launched thmeir own.inves.tigation and say that if the enare indeedone and the same, Brnton will.have to resign as aphysical education teacher and assistant coach for football, baseball and wrestling at a Sterling, Va., high school - and possibly his Virginia state teaching certification. Edgar Hatriek, superintendent of schools for Loudoun County, told reporters that teachers"are C"hOSen to bemstmc-" tors as welJ as leaders of our young people...in their professional as wall as ~edesoinsaalnlivaellse.g"aHtieoandodfeda,l"iWfeshtaytlewethhaatvies not in keeping with that." School officials, however, said they have been unable to contact Bruton directly because of the summer vacation, and also said that the gym coach’s phone number has been disconnected. But Steve Thompson, who is Bruton’s agent, confirmed for reporters that his client is in fact Ty Fox and, in addition to modding swimwear and athletic clothing, Bruton also made gay pornographic videos. Thompson also said that Brnton plans to resign his teaching post, which he’s held since 1993, "whether it’s fair or not." Choral Festival Concludes TAMPA, Fla. (July 15) - Festival V, described as the largest gay and lesbian gala in the world, drew to a dose after what organizers considered a highly successful 8 days ofsinging, singing, and still more singing. The Gay & Lesbian Association of Choruses, which sponsors the annual showcase of choruses from around the world, said more than a hundred choruses participated in Festival V, drawing more than 5,000 lesbian, gay and bisexual singers. Poet Maya Angelou gave an openingnightaddress,.. and although therehadbeen ,cgncerns that anti-gay protesters might disrupt the festivities, only a handful of prot,esters showed up at one of the earlier opemng day events. The festival also saw the premiere of several works commissioned for Festival V. ¯ answer you want to hear but...". You will .save.yourself a lot of anxiety and grief by ¯ just being truthful. This includes the so- " cial WHITE LIE. If this is too large a step ¯ then begin with simply saying you prefer not to answer, and stick to your guns. ¯ 5. Quit worrying ~b~.ut what happened yesterday. You can t fix what is already ¯ done. Equally, don’t worry about future situations over which youhaveno control ¯ anyhow. ¯ 6. Start living inside the moment you are in. If someone makes you angry, let ¯ them know it. If someone hurts your feel- ¯ ings, let them know it. If someone mis- ¯ treats you, don’t put up with it. Take action, even if that only means removing ¯ yourself from their presence. ¯ . 7. Us.e some common sense about deal- . mg with everyday life. You are in control of y.our, life far more than you ima "he n t let others take the ~mttattve of dic- ¯ ta.ting your life. They will try to get away ¯ wjth as much as possible. Learn to recogm. ze what you, can effectively handle and what you can t. ¯ Most importantly keep inmind that you ¯ don’t have to win every battle to win the ¯ war. Don’t let others sap your energies. Pick and chose the right time and right ¯ place. Truly you are the Captain of your ¯ ship and the Master of your own fate. .* We make life far more difficult than it ¯ really is and we usually fall into that trap by letting others set the situation and start ¯ the game. Remember the famous "It’s my ball and I make the rules!"? Start thinking ¯ of your life as your"ball" and when others ¯ insiston making thegamemiserable, take ¯ your ball and go home. You can always ¯ find someone else to play ball with. Keep inmind some people aren’thappy unless they are making someone else unhappy, and usually that will mean you. Don’t waste a scintilla of time or effort on those types. Move on and let them eat themselves up. ff they have so little self esteem that they have to tear someone down to feel important, @#$%^ them. Only you can start making your life easier and morerewarding. You have to start today, because each day that passes brings you closer to the great black nothingness which probably awaits us all. Copyright © 1996 Gerald Miller miserable going to social gatherings I .didn’t really want to attend because I felt ~t was my duty. BS! Now I only go where I really want to beand Ihaveamuchbetter time. This also includes favors for other people, just learn to say No in a polite fashion. 4. Don’t lie! Tell the truth when asked a question, even if you know the questioner won’t like the answer. 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Nearly 70,000 people get assistance for AIDS drugs through the program, which is largely paid for with federal funds. The Clinton budget proposal would increase federal spending - about two-thirds of the total program - from $115 million this year to $195million during the next fiscal year. Theomove comes in the wake of medical reports at the international AIDS conference in Vancouv& earlier in July that indicate the new class of protease inhibitors, combined with already-approved anti-HIV drags, show enormous potential for completely suppressing the virus. Patients andAIDS advocates, however, have increasingly warned that despite the heartening news about the new drugs, most people with AIDS in this country would not be able to afford the expensive new treatments. "While new drug treatments offer enormous hope to people living with HIV," Clinton said at the fundraiser, "it is also clear that our work is far from complete." Reform Party’s Lamm Suggests Cut Care for PWA’s NEW YORK (July 21) - Although it got little notice by the media, former Colorado G0v. Richard Lamm, who has declared his desire to be the 1996 presidential nominee of the Reform Party, said on a television news program Sunday, July 21, that the government should virtually write off people who already have AIDS. "I think in a world of limited resources weshould spendmoremoney onresearching the cause ofAIDS and how to prevent it than we should treating the people that are going to die anyway," Lammsaid on the CBS-TV program "Face the Nation." Mark Sturdevant, vice chairman of the Reform Party who has urged Lamm’s candidacy, later insisted the former Colorado governor wasn’t actually saying the country should "pull the plug" on people who are sick, but said that as the country,,, increasingly faced "limited resources Americans "need to start talking about these issues." Lamm raised hackles in-1984 for similarremarks whenhe said the elderly "have a duty to die and get out of the way." Gene Defect May Protect from AIDS WASHINGTON (Aug. 8) -Two separate teams of researchers have identified a genedc mutation that appears to protect some people against AIDS. The finding may-explain why some people infected with HIV remain healthy and virtually symptom-free of the disease for years. The teams of U.S., European and Japanese scientists have found that people with two copies of a certain defective gene - one each from their mother and father - appear to be resistant to the most common strain of HIV in Western countries, the one which is transmitted sexually most commonly. They estimated that ¯¯ only about 1% of the Caucasian populalion has both defective genes. : Theteam tookblood samples from 1,800 ¯ healthy U.S., European, African andJapa- ¯ nesevolunteers.Theyexposedthe samples ~ to the most common strain of HIV in test : tubes. Reporting in thejournal Nature, the ¯ researchers found that all the blood : samples were infected after exposure - ¯ except those from white people with two : copies of the mutated gene. ¯ The second team of scientists, from the : Aaron Diamond AIDS Research Center : in New York, found the same double ; genetic mutations in the blood of two ¯ white males who knowingly had unpro- : tected sex with infected partners, yet re- : main uninfected themselves. ." As these researchers report in thejour- ¯ hal Cell, they could not infect blood ¯ samples from these two men - even with ¯ 1,000 times the amount of HIV it usually : takes to trigger an infection. ¯ The researching findings suggest that : drugs to do this would probably have no ; side effects, since the lack of the protein : target in the Caucasians appears to have ¯ caused them no known negative health- : problems. : Heterosexual HIV : Showing Up in UK : LONDON (Aug. 1)-A much more vim- . lent strain of HIV, believed to be more : likely to spread by heterosexual contact, ." has ~pread from Thailand to Great Brit- " ain, researchers reportin the Britishinedi- : cal journal New Scientist. ¯ The virus .subtype E is widespread throughout Asia, where most of those ¯ infectedareheterosexual,nothomosexual. ¯ As a result, researchers and epidemiolo- : gists believe the virus subtype is more : easily spread via heterosexual sex than ¯ subtype B, which has mainly affected gay : and bisexual men in North America and ~ Europe. Since the first case of subtype E ¯ infection in England was announced earlier this year~ British health officials have since identified 72 additional subtype E infections. ¯ Report" Herpes : ¯ : Virus Linked to KS ¯ CHICAGO (July 30)-Two studies in the : healthmagaT.ineNatureMedicinestrongly ¯ suggests that Jhe human herpes virus 8 ; (,I-IHV8) isthecauseofKaposi’s sarcoma, ¯ a cancer that strikes many people with : AIDS. Using a recently devdoped blood ¯" test for HHVS, researchers say they most ." often found the virus in blood samples of ~: people with sexually transmitted diseases, ¯ a Strong implication the virusis also sexu- ." ally transmitted. 2nd HIV Home Test ¯ Approved; States ¯ Fight Availability ¯" CHICAGO (July 24) -~A 2nd HIV home- : testing kit has now gone on sale after ¯ being approved by the Food & Drug Ad- ¯ ministration. 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This year the Atlanta Braves will become the 2nd pro baseball team to sponsor such an event when it hosts a "Stepping Up to the Hate Day" in Sept: at the Atlanta-Fulton Co. Stadium benefiting AIDS organizations in the Atlanta area. At the first Until There’s a Cure Day in 1994, opposing team Colorado Rockies wouldn’t even join the S.F. Giants on the field to form ahuman AIDS ribbon until they were brow-beaten into it by Giants’ teammembers andcatcalls from the stands. of violence, not a s.ymbol of a larger societal problem that lS exascerbated by like-minded individuals who blindly follow the ramblings of the likes of Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell, Patrick Buchanon, etc. And of course, I was bombarded with Bibfieal quotations about the sinfulness of my ways. I knew this would happen, and since I had gone in with my eyes wide open, I knew I was not going to act defensively to protect my position. I wanted dialogue, not an argument. ,So, with each and every note from one of these men, I responded with the same basic premise: "Yourpremisesmaydiffer from mine, and that’s okay.We just need ¯ There are some more modern texts that : to put those on the table sowecan actually know what weare talking about. "Our premises on the Bible probably differ... I don’t know yours, but I win tell you mine. I read the Bible as a historical work. I try to read it in the context of the time it was written and to know which people were being addressed so that I have a context to base my reading upon. I also read other works of the time thathave notbeenincluded in the Canon, and many of these I find just as much validity in. I University Reports ¯ Condom Usage BOSTON (July 17) - According to a survey ofBrownUniversity students,74% of the women who dropped in at the campus clinic in 1995 said their sexual partners used acondom"always or almost always’~ when having sex. A similar survey at the school 6 years earlier found that only41% of the women visiting the clinic rel~rted such high usage of condoms by their sexual partners. rely on as well. In other words, I don’t ¯ think God stopped talking when his book : went to print. I also know that, it is more ~ than possible that the works included in ¯ the Canon have been misinterpreted ¯" through language interpretors and ver- ¯ sion editors, and there is a high probabil- ." ity that the men who chose which books ¯¯ were likely candidates to include in the Canon had their own prejudices and could ¯ have excluded some worthwhile works : and included a lot of repetition. ¯ "This does not mean that I negate the ¯ teachings of the Bible. I just feel that it, in and of itself, is an incomplete guide for my spiritual understanding." ¯ The responses I received after simply : laying my cards on the table about my : own interpretation of the Bible are what ~ surprised me the most. There were no ¯ more Biblical quotations used to try to ¯ sway me. There was no more using of i Chrisdan theology tojustify the villifying ¯ of the homosexual lifestyle.What hap- ~ petted is that we settled into a reasoned : debate. No tempers flared.No hateful ¯ names wereealled. Ibelieve that, although : I did not think my one voice would make ~ a difference, it did. ¯" And, I believe this is why: "I like being able to live my life to its fullest, and I ~ expect you to have that very same fight. It ~ is a free country in which we live, and i freedom of and from religion is one of our hallmarks of liberty... "Our ability to disagree on what God ~ thinks of my lifestyle is one of the ~eat ¯ things about this place we call America. ¯" And, I want to keep that ability for both of us. I don’t want *anyone* to try to tell me :~ I can’t have my way of life, and I sure ¯ would defend your choice as well.Wonld you do the same for meT’ i I would like to propose to all ofyou that : reason really does work. I think it is high ¯ time we appeal to reason in our political ¯" endeavors, not to high emotion. And, I : thinkitis time we quit assuming weknow : howtheothersidewillrespond.Thelouder ". weget, themorethe other sideresponds in ¯ kind. There are reasonablepeople onboth ¯ sides of the lesbigay civil fights debate, i andI,for one, wouldlike to see more ofus .... " step forward ,an~ take leadership roles. Pitcher’s Refusal to Join Game Benefit Causes Uproar SAN FRANCISCO (July 30) - The refnsal ofSanFrancisco Giants pitcherMark Dewey to join with the baseball team m support of an AIDS benefit being sponsored by.the team has outraged political leaders here and at least oneAIDS activist has called on the Giants to giveDewey his walking papers or trade him to another teal!L With nearly 35,000 fans attending the Giants-AtlantaBraves game,Dewey,who is 3-2 with a4.10 earned-run average with 36 strikeouts in 53 innings, refused tojoin players from the two teams on field for a demonstration of support in fighting the AIDS epidemic.A fundamentalist Christian who is outspoken in calling homosexuality a sin. He also turned his red AIDS ribbon sideways in imitation of the ancient "fish" symbol of Christianity. Dewey said he decided to opt out of the on-field display with teammates because some of the funds raised for the "Until There’s a Cure" day event go to promote safer-sex education and prevention programs, which he says are contrary to his religions beliefs. Jon Prevna, who works withProject Open Handin San Francisco, later wrote to Giants president Peter Magowan saying, "I seriously hope you will consider trading him [Dewey] or giving him his unconditional release." The Giants managementhas so far declined to comment on the incident. Black & White Charities, Inc. & PFLAG Lookforward to the pleasure ofyour companyfor The 1996 Black & White Gala with keynote speaker Elizabeth Birch Executive Director, Human Rights Campaign, Washington, DC and Presentation of the first annual Swan Awards Saturday, September 7th Cocktails & Conversation at seven o’clock, Concourse Dinner at eight o’clock, International Ballroom Entertainment by The Follies Revue Singers $125 each, checks may be sent to POB 14001, Tulsa, 74159 Visa or MasterCard, call 587..7314 or 800.458.4682, or e-mail: blkwhtprty@aol.com The Downtown Do.ubleTree Hotel, 616 West Seventh Benefiting the 1996 Black & White Grant Recipient, The HIV Resource Consortium, Inc. TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALEND R SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am 2627b East llth 583-7815 Community ofHope (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2rid, 585-1800 Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Worship Service, 11 am 5451-E South Mingo. Info: 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 MONDAYS ¯ TUESDAYS HIV Testing Clinic ¯ ¯: Free & anonymous testing . HHIVIVR+esSouurpcpeoCrtonGsroorutipum ¯ using fingerstick method. ¯ 1:30 pm ¯ No appointment required. ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-I ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 Inn : Info: Wanda @ 749-419z : Results hours: 7-9 pm : ¯ lnfo: 742-2927 : Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Mixed Volleyball for Fun & Competition Hclmerich Park, 6:30 pm 71st & Riverside Info: 587-6557 WEDNESDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Service, 7 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H : 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 ¯ Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center ¯ Prayer & Bible Study ¯ 7~30pm 2627-B East llth Call 583-7815 for info. PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Mon. of month 6:30 pro, 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 : HIV/AIDS Support Group ¯ & Friends & Family ¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group ¯ 7 pro, call for location: " 749-7898 : Alternative Skating : 8:30 - 11 pro, 241-2282 ¯ $4, Sand Springs Skate ." OTHER GROUPS -. ¯ The Technicians, Leather " : org., Info c/o 621-5597 " ¯ T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform. : & Leather Seekers Assoc. ¯ ¯ Info: 838-1222 " . Gay & Lesbian Student " Association ¯ TJC Southeast Campus, " Iflfo: 631-7632 ¯ ¯ SWAN-Single Women’s ¯ ¯ Activity Network Grief Group Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 : Family Of Faith MCC : Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm ¯ Choir Practice 7:30 pm ¯ 545 I-E South Mingo. " Call 622-1441 for info. ¯ Community of Hope ¯ (United Methodist) Service for Peace, 6:30 pm : Bible Study, 7 pm ¯ 1703 E. 2rid, 585-1800 : THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment ¯ Group For Women ¯ Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E.2nd, Info: 585-1800 ¯ Co-Dependency ; Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC ¯ 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 ¯ HIVTestingTOHRClinic ¯ Walk in testing: 7- 8:30 pm ¯ Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 ¯ TNAAPP Alternatives ¯ ¯ Tulsa Native American " Weekly social events for" AIDS Prevention Project ¯ LGBT men & women, 7 pm ¯ Support group ¯ Info: 646-5503 ¯ for Gay & Bi Native : ¯ American Men, 6 pm Substance Abuse at ~Community of Hope Support Group " ¯ 1703 E. 2nd " for persons with HIV/AIDS ¯ SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at 11 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: ~/48-3111 Comedy Jam Freedom Tour MONDAY & TUESDAY SEPT. 16 & 17 8:00 PM Gay Stand-Up Comics Performing BACK BY POPULAR P EM,ANI) ! 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Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-747-3320 Home Office Dallas, Texas 800-559-4790 ¯ Booking for 800 253 Geek to GO! ThePC Specialist, 501.253.2776 Phyl Boler-Schmidt Systems & Software Specialist POB 429, Eureka Springs 72632 Books, Incense, Candles and.Rainbows! Plus lots more! (501) 253-5445 45&I/2 Spring Street Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com AUTHENTIC ITALIAN CUSINE FRESH RAINBOW TROUT ofEureka Springs Recommended by The New York Times (501) 253-6807, Closed Wednesday 5 Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 According to The Gayly Oklahoman, Spencer was born in Ada, and was raised in Tulsaand in Seminole. He attended the University. ofOklahoma and builta career as a country western entertainer, touring the Southwest and working on the Gay rodeo circuit. Friends of Spencer are holding a Celebration of Life on August 17, at the Bunkhouse in Oklahoma City, according to friend and organizer, Mike Busby. The event will feature Sonja Martinez, Deb Roberts,BradRiggins and videos ofSpencer performing. The event will include an auction of memorabilia to benefit HIV/ AIDS organizations. The Gayly also noted that Spencer’s family has requested that donations to HIV/AIDS organizations be made in lieu of flowers. Those who wish to honor the memory of Sid Spencer may do so to the organization of their choice or may send a donation care of Spencer’s father, Sid Spencer, Sr. (RR2, Box 69-G, Seminole, 74868-9614) who will donate those in his SOn’S naule. and two grants of $1,000 each to TOHR Testing Clinic (HOPE) and Catholic Charities’ St. Joseph’s House. On-September 28, Follies Revue performers will recreate this year’s show to benefit RAIN in Enid, Oklahoma. For information about booking Follies singers for corporate or private events, call 437-020L testing. Initially, events for the program will be held in Tulsa because of the conterns individuals may have about attending a "Gay" event near their homes. Petersonadded that attendance is not necessary and that they would like to hear from individuals in rural eastern Oklahoma about what it is like in those areas and how best to get education and services to the areas. HOPE has set up a telephone number, 800-282-8165, to allow individuals to call anonymously. Local callers may ring 742-2927. Peterson also announced that HOPE has .been chosen as one of 75 HIV agencies in the US to participate in a program, "Parmers in Prevention", sponsored by the Center for AIDS Intervention Research, (CAIR) of the Medical College of Wisconsin. The program is funded by the : National Institute of Mental Health andis ¯ intended to bridgeagapbetweenfront]i~" ¯ HIV/AIDS prevention organizations and : research into HIV prevention. OOO00000OO00. OOOO0®O ~ A Friendly Place to Stay ; KING’S HI-WAY ¯ INN ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W ¯ Eureka Springs, AR 72632 ¯ (501) 253-7311 ¯ 1-800-231-1442 ¯ Jerry A. Wilson. owner ¯ ¯ O ¯ 0 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ O ¯ ¯ ¯ @ 0 A number of commtmity events are coming up. Check out the following: The NAMES PROJECT wants you to help by hosting a Feast with Friends on Sat. Sept. 14. Call 748-3111 for info. ¯ Tulsa Womens Supper Club will meet ". 8/28 at 7 at the Spaghetti Warehouse. ." Info: 584-2978. Thenext AIDS Coalition ¯ meeting is Sept. 10th. Call 585-5551. : Do not miss Interfaith AIDS Minis- : tries Old Fashioned Street Carnival on ¯ Sat. 9/21, 10-6 at Southminster Presbyte- ¯ dan, 3500 S. Peoria. : Rainbow Business Guild is having a : business fair on 8/30 (see ad, p. 5) and-a: : lake weekend on 9/21-22, call 665-5174. i Anddo not miss the Gay Comedy Jam[ written by Pastor Leslie Penrose, the congregation struggled to make. sure the ad was "responsible, given that we are a Christian commlmity of faith and not a p.o.litical advocacy group" and"adequate" s~nce members of the congregation are affected by the hate language. The statement notes that "as gay and lesbian persons have struggled in this country - in this state and city- for the right to live in dignity without fear of violence or persecution, to have their committed relationships respected, and to worship with integrity, the dialogue has become inereasingly hurtful and exclusive....we...have wondered where is the other voice of Christianity?" The statement affd~, "...when the church is silent in the face of injustice...that silence becomes complic- ¯ ity in that injustice." Penrose told TFN that so far there has ¯ been little response to the ad but that she : expects that there will likely be letters to : The Worldin response andpossible to the ¯ new Methodist bishop from more conser_ : vative Methodistcongregations. Commu_ : nity of Hope (Coil) has also organized ¯ serveral companion efforts to this ad. ¯ These include a letter and visiting cami Paigu to Don Nickles, Tom Coburn and ¯ Steve Largen.t, a speakers bureau to seek ¯ out other church groups that will listen ¯ and Coil is also planning aprayer vigil to- ¯" be conducted when and if the Senate con- , siders theDOMAbill. Formoreinfo. orto ¯ contribute to this effort, call 585-1800. Living Sprtng ...a community of friends... We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 7 o’clock 17 Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253-9337 READ ALL ABOUT IT reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library In "Immortal, Invisible," editorTamsin Wilton has compiled a lengthy collection ¯ of original essays and interviews analyzi~ ig the history and current state of the lesbian moving image, including f’rims and, to a lesser extent, television. From Marlene Deitrichin"Morocco" in 1930to 1994’s "Woman of the Wolf," this volume explores the important differences between "gay films" and "le:s.bik.a~ film,s" and why lesbian and gay male ,tim mar- .....~rs will probably never agree on a generic "queer cinema." " These are more than just simple movie reviews. The contributors explore the.s.ocial, political, historical and, in some mstances, religious aspects of these films and the text is not always light reading. Obvious popular films, such as "Personal ~ Best" and the notorious "The Children’s Hour" are supplemented ,b,y true~hous,e, lesbian films, including Desert Hearts and "Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit.!’ The seventeen contributors exhibit a wide variety of qualifications, frofi~film makers"and producers (Penny Florence and Susan Ardill) to a postgraduate student (Louise Allen) whose research is concerned with "lesbian readings of kd lang, and the emergence of country and westernlesbian culture."The authors endlessly debatewhatconsritutes lesbianform : and content. Should only films which ’ have lesbian relationships and characters beindudedin"lesbian cinema," or should : an"out" lesbian film maker also have her : film included even though the subject ¯ matter or treatment is not lesbian-spa- ¯ eific?Thereis averyinterestinginterview ¯ with lesbian film maker Greta Schiller, ¯ whoserecent efforts haveindudedawon- : derful documentary, "Maxine Sullivan: ¯ Love To Be in Love," about the hetero- ~ sexual jazz legend. : Some wall knownnames are ignored or ¯ marginalized in this volume. Barbara ¯ Hammer, whose short films have raised : more than one eyebrow as they challenge ". the "heterosexist authority system," ¯ is mentioned only a couple of rimes and given one short quote. ¯ There are many unfamiliar but intrign- ~ ing films discussedhere. They are ones to ¯ keep in mind as you are traveling to other : cities where progressive theaters may be : taking the opportunity to broa..den~ the h~o- ~ rizons of their communities, veruaps me ¯ ThirdAmmalTulsaGay andLesbianFilm ~ Festival organizers willincorporate some ". of these rifles into their schedule next ¯ snring. "Immortal, Invisible" is one of the ~ few books published that specifi- : cally discuss lesbiancinema, but there are ¯ also many other books regarding gay/ ¯ lesbian topics at your local branch library : orat the Readers Services department at : theCentralLibrarydowntown(596-7966). James Christjohn ybYeal Gaycomedyis comingback to:Fulsa on S~pt.’16th& 17th, at thePAC. The Gay Com~:ly Jam. Freedom Tour features acclaimed openly Gay comics,, Scott Kennedy and Kevin Maye, who ve been seen on HBO’s Comedy Channel and -written of in The Advocate. Their show, Gaylapalooza (last February with two other comics) played to a full house at th~ PAC’s Williams Theater and benefited Black&White Charities as does aportion of this appearance. Tickets are $12 in advance and $15 day of the show, and are available by calling 481-0558. Broken Arrow Community Playhouse announces that auditions for its Halloween producrion, two one-act plays, will be held Sund,a,,,,,y, August 18, at 6pro;, The pIays¯.are . Sorry, wrong Number , directed by Todd Murray, & "Black Comedy", directedby Jenny Jackson. Theoneacts will be performed October 11 - 20. "Sorry Wrong Number" requires afemale character, and 3-4 addirioual actors who can perform a variety of character voices. It will be staged as a radio drama. "Black Comedy" requires 5 men &3 women. Audj’rious will consist ofcold readings from the scripts and someimprov. Audirious willbeheld at the playhouse, 1800 S. Main in the Main Place complex. 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Address: _Age: City, St. &Zip:__ ~ Telephone: bYAugustJean_Pierre,nightsTFNinOklahomaCFr°°itdiChave ." of a salad & side dish or a cup of soup. ~oaY~s’ ataba~nutt~o9 hot .a~.d Sticky to .reallal~ " We started with a shrimp and lobster nne cmsme, but a new res- .bisque that was rich and quite rusty, with ctauulirnaanrtyhsecerenei.nMTicuhlsaaelhas heated up the " el,noUtsn.Kofs wofholol.be,stsemr atallilsmhreiamt.pTahnedresewvaesraal Fusco’s new venture, definite bite from cay- Flavors, fills out the space in a strip mall M;ebael Fi15co ~ enne pepper, but it was alsohome to Novel Idea Bookstore & Mexicali Border Cafe, near 71st and Sheridan. The wellknown Fusco used to be chef at Bodean’s, and openedFlavors this summer as his own place. Halfofth~ restaurant is a section of dinerstyle booths with white tablecloth covered tables. The post-modem decor features a black and white checkerboard floor, a visible kitchen window, and popular music playing over the speakers. The other half, behind a wainscotted glass wall, is aformal dining room with pale purple walls, carpeted, formal tables and place settings, and more sedate, classical music playing in the background. There is .also anotherformal din- Hollr$: IX/Ion. - Fr~., 11 to Dinner 3/][on. - Sat., 5 to 10:30 dosed Sundays Cuisine: New Amerlean Dress: Dressy Prices: Very Expensive Plastic: Non-Smoldn$ Section: Yes Alcohol: FMI bar and w~ne mgroom behind French doors for private par_ ties. The samefood and menu is available on either side, and there is no official difference, though we noticedmost gendemen in our section wereinjackets and Ratln~: ties, while the diner Side patrons were more ca_ A l;st sually attired.. Even though our visit was on a Monday night, both sections of the restaurant were nearly full. In addition to the small menu ofregular items, a blackboard reminiscent of Bodean’s announces the specials of the evening. Several selections of fresh fish are available, plus offerings of beef, veal, pork,and duck. Entrees include a choice no.t what we would call spray. Our salads came FLAVORS on huge plates (larger ~a~a~n the service plate!) 6104 E~st 71st Street wedgceosnsisted of large of iceberg lettuce with a.scattering of .thinly sliced purple omon tings, cherry tomatoes, anddiagonally sliced cucumbers, dressed in a pleasan~-- balsamic vinaigrette& crumbled S til ton cheese dressing (Stilton is the English version of bleu cheese or roquefor0. After the salad course, we were mortified to see our waiter remove our salad knife from our salad plate and set it on our bread and butter plate. One expects that fora $4.50 salad, the kitchen can wash an additional knifet Our entree was a delicious, and large servl. n.g of sauteed, thinly sliced veal hver ($9.95) presented with caramelized onions and~r2~r_ kansas bacon, withpo_ tatoes Lyonnaise. Very tasty and an excellent value. Our companion had a strikingplate that looked pretty enough to be a woman’s hat-- a bed of mashed potatoes surrounded by a panopoly of grilled i avepgeertfaeMctelys agnrdilmleud,shthroicokm, sb,ecerfotwenndederwloiittni ¯ ($21.95), sauced with a red wine reducL : tionhunter sauce, and withahuge sprig of .. fresh rosemary stuck in like a feather. ; au¯Hgirsadtienssdeirsthwoafscmreomreembruunldeaenwe:hiaclharwgee ¯ see Flavors, page 15 wnere pets are treated like ~eople ".... "’~. * Bakery Treats * Bed & Breakfast (boarding) * Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS, Nutro Dog Food THE DOG HOUSE BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria, 744-5556 HIV Positive?. New state-of-the-art investigational drug therapies arenow available in the Southwest for HIWAIDS and opportunistic infections. If you are interested in participating in one of the promising new investigational therapies, call us at (918) 743-1000 Jeffrey A. Beal, M.D. Associates in Medical at!.d Mental Health 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. ~ Do you live in a small town or rural area? Are you attracted to other men? Do you feel like you are the only one? And if you’d like to meet others, come to our rural mens discussion group ¯ ~. every 2nd & 4th-Saturday, 7-9 pm For more info,, contact Jeremy or Brian 742-2927 or 800-282-8165 thought rather nondescript. We had a flourless chocolate cake that was filled with chocolate mousse, served on a mirror of raspberry puree, and decorated with fresh strawberries, fresh blueberries, mint leaves, and real, freshly whipped unsweetened cream. Good, but we couldn’t eat it all, and.the gateaux was everso slightly overcooked. Alas, there was no espresso machine on the premises, so after dinner, we walked across the parking lot to the Novel Idea cafe to linger over cappuccinos and leer at the cute clerks selling books. Flavors also features a full bar and the wine list is interesting, emphasizing less encountered small California wineries. The food at Flavors, as one might expect from a Michael Fusco venture, is excellent, though it tends toward tile expensive (a veal chop with polenta was $28.95--but it looked divine!). Fusco is one of those chefs who has mastered~ the art of doing new & creative things with food in combinations which work, rather than shock. One can expect a pleasant & memorable dining experience from this exciting, new establishment. Just be sure to make reservations on the weekends. For film buffs who happen to be computer literate, I just received notice,of anew website, called "Popcorn Q", billed as the ultimate onlinehomefor the queermovingimage. The address is http://www.popeornq.com..According to my sources, it offers thousands of film & video descriptions (need help figuring out whatmovie to rent tonight?), sources for acquiring these films/videos, of course, graphics and photos, a directory of G/L film rests, a "Homo Home Film Fest", books to watch out for, Queer top tens, and lots o’ links. The programmer/author ofthe site is Jenni Olson, who also wrote the "Ultimate Guide toLesbian & Gay Film & Video", published in June. Not only an author, programmer, and Queer film archivist, she also produces for film and television. Hey Jenni ! Need a cheap actor/columnist-writer/ professional college student? Last but not least: if you saw the Academy Awards, you may have seen STOMP, an extraordinary dancing peicussion performance. They have come to Tulsa several times and make a point to see them if you have not done so. They will be at the PAC, Sept. 6-8 and tickets can be had from the PAC at 596-7111 or Carson Attractions at 584-2000. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1, Adin capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2, Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3, Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the no. of words. (A word is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space.) Sendyour ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 with your name, address, tel. numbers (for us only). Ads will run in the next issue after received. TFN reserves the right to edit 6r refuse any ad. No refunds. Back in Tulsa G.W.M. 41, Gldlkg, HIV Pos. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, August 15-September 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 9 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 15-September 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 9 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leane Gross Gerald Miller Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, July 15-August 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 9 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/513 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 adoption AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV treatment arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars Bill Clinton Black and White Gala businesses churches comedy Community of Hope custody Dave Fleischer Entertainment Notes estate planning Follies Revue G. Miller gay politicians harassment hate crimes homophobia HOPE Testing Human Rights Campaign James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Jeffrey Beal Jim Kolbe Murder People Living With AIDS performing arts PFLAG Phyl Boler-Schmidt pornography Promise Keepers Read All About It restaurants Sid Spencer Tasmin Wilton Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights HIV Testing viatication https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/063f006b2ab3e7a11676f07c3b10c346.jpg a1af11cded7254e7f790934e9b42ce54 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d10b69d45bf668ce3f684b96be36b170.pdf c55257932959c53a0fc665dc468394c9 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities -Our Families of the Heart December 15, 1995- January 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue I i Rob Hill To Run For i School Bd. Seat 6 National News Oregon Lesbian Activists Murdered : "MEDFORD, Ore. - Police in Medford, Ore., report that they have located the bodies of Roxanne Ellis and Michelle Abdill; long-time lesbian activists who have been deeply involved in fighting off anti-gay ballot initiatives in the state for several years. The 2 women, who had been partners for 12 years, were found in the back of a pickup trnek belonging to Ellis. The couple were last seen on Dec. 4 see Murder, page 11 : ¯ "¯ Washington, DC By the end of Dec. 6th, the "Parents, Schools and Values," Congressional hearing revealed itself-to be precisely what youth advocates had feared: a taxpayer funded platform for anti-gay extremists. The two day hearing came to a close today before the House Economic and Employment Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations.. The hearings became the focus of a national outcry when Lou Sheldon, an anti-gay extremist and Chairman of the Traditional Values Coalition, claimed the hearings were scheduled at his request to discuss the "promotion of homosexuality in the public schools." see House, page 11 ¯ "" The Tulsa chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, in response ~ to the difficulties encountered in getting their Project Open Mind anti-hate commercials ~ on television inTulsa, have begun a campaign for a signature advertisement to run in The ¯ Tulsa World. The ad calls for Tulsans to stand against"hatred, hate speech and violence" ¯ against individuals based on their sexual orientation and "to recognize the strong link ~ between hate speech, teen suicide and violent physical attacks..." The Tulsa Worldis on ] record as having a policy banning the use of the words, Gay or Lesbian in advertising ¯ but apparently have chosen to allow an exception for this ad.The ad is scheduled to run ¯ sometime early this next year. ; Two Project Open Mind television commercials were to be tested in Tulsa, Houston : &Atlanta. InTulsa, ouly Ch. 2,KTULbriefly aired one of the pair but stopped. Attorneys ¯ for the Christian Broadcasting Network, who objected to the use of footage of evangelist ¯ Pat Robertson & Jerry Falwell, had threatened legal action against stations broadcasting ¯ the commercials. PFLAG is asking individuals and organizations, dubs, cong~:,e&atio~as, ¯ etc. to sign the anti-hate ad. There is no cost since funds that were to be iised ~6 buy TV ¯ air time will now oar for the-orint ad. For more information call the PFLAG at 749-4901. ~r / ’ i : : ¯ One of many organizations at the World : AIDS Day March at the Univ. of Tulsa, : see related stories this page and page 8. Bill Stoskopf & Mark Lackey of Black & White Charities present gifts to SharOn Thoele of the HIV Resource Consortium ($5000) & to Claudette Peterson ofTOHR ($2500) from this year’s fundraisers. PFLAG was also a beneficiary ($2500). Hearings Feature ¯ PFLAG, Thwarted In TV Effort, Turns To Anti-Gay Agenda Print Campaign For Anti-Hate Message Hawaii Commission Urges Gay Marriage World AIDS Day: HONOLULU- The Honolulu Advertiser " Tulsa & Elsewhere " NEW YORK - "Shared Rights, Shared , Responsibilities" was the theme of.World ¯ AIDS Day, as the United Nations an" nounced a massive global mobilization " program to deal with the epidemic. From UN Secretary-General Boutros BoutrosGhali to prominent Hollywood film per" sonalities, from the largest cities to smaller : communities, hundreds of thousands of ¯ people and some 7,.000 groups in 190 localities around the world marked the " day in a varxety of ways. ¯ In Tulsa, the event was marked by Interfaith AIDS Ministries annual march ¯ and memorial service held this year at the University of Tulsa. Over 300 igeople at" tended with many organizations carrying banners. The service featured speakers, Jason Smith of TOHR’s Testing Clinic and attorney and longtime community. activist., Bob Inglish. Choirs from Family of Faith MCC, Tulsa Family Chorale and FirSt Presbyterian Church performed. WASHINGTON- The U.S. Supreme " TU Provost Dr. Lewis Duncan, the Rev. Court has let stand; without comment, a ¯ Ken McIntosh, the Rev. Henry Knight Wisconsin statesupreme court ruling that ¯ provided welcome or prayers, and Dr. would let .the former parmer continue ; Doreen Wood read a World AIDS Day with her court battle to have visitation ¯ proclamation from Mayor M. Susan Savrights withher ex-lover’s biological son. ¯ age. After Etsbeth Knott, the biological mother- "The American Foundation for AIDS of the boy, and Sandra Lynn Holtzman, " Research (AmFAR), a prominent nonended their 10-year relationship, Knott ¯ profit U.S. group that has been headed by attempted to prevent Holtzman from see: ¯ actress Elizabeth Taylor announced that it ing the 6-year-old boy. The Wisconsin " is awarding.nearly a million dollars in Supreme Courtearlier tiffs year overturned ¯ research grants to 14 scientists working a state lower court ruling denying ¯ on the epidemic. The foundation also Holtzman any rights, and ordered the case named American actress Sharon Stone to 12 3 has reported that the state commission created to evaluate gay and lesbian marriages will urge the legislature to "change Hawaii law to allow gay couples to marry." The Commission on Sexual Orientation and Law was created after the Hawaii Supreme Court ordered alower court to review a suit bylesbian andgay couples to get mamage licenses, saying that in order to refuse thelicenses the state had to prove a "corn pelling interest" to deny licenses because of the gender of the 2 people involved. The commission has not yet released any actual recommendations, but the paper reported that the commission’s report will be distributed for public comsee Hawaii, page 12 Visitation Rights ¯ Case to Continue ¯ SayS-High Court 2 1/2M AIDS Cases WASHINGTON- So many young Americans - one of ever." 92 young men and one of every 33 young black men - are believed infected with HIV that it threatens to become a deadly "rite of passage" in this country, said Philip Rosenberg of the National Cancer Institute. Rosenberg’s comments in the journal Science, coincide with an announcement by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that the AIDS epidemic has now reached 501,310 cases in the U.S. since 1981 with 311,381 deaths. The sobering statistics illuminate the government’s warnings that AIDS is quickly turning into more of a threat to the nation’s youth, even as it tapers off among older people. Using CDC. data, Rosenberg also estimated that one in every 60 Hispanic men see AIDS, page 3 : Rob Hill, social services specialist with ¯ Helpline for 15 years, announces his candidancy for Tulsa Public Schools Dis" trict 6. Hill is a graduate of Will Rogers High Schogl and a 1968 graduate of North:: eastern.. State University in Tahlequah, ¯ with a Bachelors in Psychology. ; "I hope to bring my experience and ¯ knowledge of Tulsa’s community ser¯ vices and resources to Tulsa Public ¯ Schools," says Hill. "I have first hand : knowledge to help our schools deliver ¯ high quality services as efficiently as pos¯ sine. I’m committed to combining fiscal ¯ conservatism with the best quality education for our children." see Hill. p. 12 TOHR Votes for ¯ Community Center ¯ Tulsa moved a little closer to having a ¯ community meeting place when mem¯ bers of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human ¯ Rights (TOHR) voted at an emergency ~ meeting Nov. 21 to authorize TOHR of¯ ricers to put together an offer on a prop- erty. As of press time, the deal with the ¯ current owner is still in negotiation but ~t ¯ is hopeful that the issues can be resolved : so that renovation of the building might ¯ ..~ti~_,.~g~: ’,~ v ex, t y-eaL At tlaat time, tnere "’ a-n~.’d ~ "~"’ for’"co~ty " " ~’ ";" ~’W Wi~.I~e volunteers ¯ to provide painting, ci~-up, and light :,ocoi~structiOt~ work. Info: 743-GAYS, INSIDE EDITORIAL DIRECTORY NEWS BRIEFS HEALTH BRIEFS CALENDAR EUREKA PAGES P. 2 P. 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 10-11 New Pentecosta Church Welcomes Gays & Lesbians The Rev. Clay Cody and Agape’ Christian Fellowship, a new Pentecostal congregation, have announced that they will begin holding worship services at the Sheridan Center, Suite H, at 21st and Sheridan Road. The services will be held at 10:30 am beginning on December 31. Pastor Cody, formerly an Assembly of GodPastor Evangelist, believes that there are many Gay, Lesbian and Transgendered Pentecostal Christians in the Tulsa area who have had to worship in "mainstream’" WASHINGTON-"We can conquer this ," churches and who were unable to express said President Clinton in convening the fully themselves as Gay Christians. Agape’ first White House conference on AIDS in~ Christian Fellowship "extends the fight the 15 years of the epidemic’s history, hand of fellowship" to everyone regardbringing together teachers, doctors, reless of race, gender or sexual orientation. searchers, people withHIV and their famThe Pentecostal movement had its oriily. In Tulsa, local HIV activists and spegin in the widespread desire in the hearts cialists gathered to listen to the conferof men and women for greater closeness ence at the University Center at Tulsa. to God. It is a reaction to the formalism, After the broadcast, locals intended to coldness and .unbelief Pentecostal Chrisbegin planning for current efforts to retians perceive in modern churches. Pentespond to the epidemic. Outside the Excostal Christians profess a belief in their ecutive Office meeting in DC, however, experience of the supernatural power of protesters and AIDS activists demonGod in their lives and their faith in the strated, charging that the conference Bible which they consider the infallible, White House. AIDS Conf. 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We give our thanks to you, our readers & also to those who have-helped us; with stories& with criticism. Especially, we thank, our writers,our advertisers & our enormously patient printers who make bringing quality news reporting to Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender folk, families & friends possible. This is a labor of love, & sometimes, a little profit. So, when we’re fending off censorship or the flack that comes with having a viewpoint, it helps to remember the praise we’ve received. We were proud when distinguished former CBS News journalist, Ann Northrup, lauded Tulsa Family News, lamenting that she wished NYC had a paper like this. And we’ve heard similar praise from others. We promase you to continue bringing you the best local & national news coverage of any Oklahoma Gay paper. We have faith in Tulsa’s promise & with your hel p, Tul sa wil 1 get better and better for us & our families. Happy holidays - Tom Neal Suck & Blow Syndrome by Pat ,.~lorehead Merry Christmas andn~iLV the Ne~:Year bring you a better yearth~ 1995. 95.hasbeen a weird year. I’m not sure we ~3an view it as a "watershed" year, but it has certainly pointed out the absolute schizophrenia of our national culture. ~I learned a long time ago of a psychological phenomenon referred to as the "suck and blow" syndrome which is where I think America is currently trapped. The suck and blow ,syndrome in essence states that one can’t.simultaneously "suck andblow". In other words it is not possible, in a healthy mental State, to perform to conceptual opposites. Translation, you are not in a healthy mental state when you are obsessed with a "pro-life" crusade that sanctions killing physicians who perform abortions as the way to advance your cause.. But it is exactly this suck and blow syndrome which seems to be driving almost every cultural force in America today. It is schizophrenic tO foist Off a life view of 1950’s and 60’s television programming in an America where elementary students carry guns. Ozzie and Harriet never had to deal with that situation. Or for cable compames to promote a KIDS CLICKER remote control to protect children from accessing what the very same cable provider carries on ft’s other channels. It is suck and blow time when in order to improve life in America for the "next generation" politicians are prepared to unfnnd and dismantle Environmental Protection laws. Or for those same politicians to continually summon images of family life and cultural values of an agrarian America which no longer exists. And at the same time to sell off the National Parks of this country in order for businesses to rape and plunder those same park lands. As my uncle used to say, someone needs to just slap some sense into us. I have hopes that 1996 will be the year when that happens. The hate-mongers see UPC, page 3 - MCC~Grehte~-TiJIsa- Responds to TFN First, Rev. Alice Jones left voluntarily because she felt God’s calling in a new direction. Rev. Jones served as pastor of MCC of Greater Tulsa for over 16 years. She frequently defended the whole Tulsa Gay/Lesbian community in situations, such as the recent Human Rights Commission hearings. Anyone who leads any group for over 16 years will have detractors who disagree with some things. Rev. Jones accomplished many things, and the congregation of MCC of Greater Tulsa are proud to have had her as our pastor. Regarding implied problems with the District of UFMCC, it is true that we were changed from a chartered.church to a commissioned church. The demands on a chartered church have changed in recent years, and this change has some important advantages for MCC of Greater Tulsa as we seek a new pastor. The main change is in the pastor compensation package, giving the local church greater flexibility. To imply a conflict exists between MCC of [(]reater] Tulsa and District leaders is wrong and inaccurate. The Board of Directors are working closely with the District on the pastoral search. Although, like many churches from time to time, we are behind in our tithes to the District. -~ However, the Board of Directors and the congregation are taking steps to correct this, and we will become a Chartered Church again. Regarding perceived irregularities in our Financial Records, the finances of MCC of Greater Tulsa have always been open to any member or friend of the Church. Open Board meetings and Congregational meetings are held regularly, and anyone attending may ask questions. An Audit Committee, of church members, are currently reviewing the Church records to clarify any bookkeeping errors. Volunteers handling church records may sometimes make errors, but there is no question as to the honesty and integrity of those involved. As MCC of Greater Tulsa seeks anew pastor, the members and the Board of Directors look forward to many years ahead serving the needs of the local church and the entire Tulsa Gay/Lesbian Community. - The Board of Directors & Members Editor’s response: TFN would like to make this correction: Alice Jones did not preach on Sunday morning, Oct. 29 as we stated in .our last issue. We regret that error and apologize for our mistake. However, we stand by the accuracy of the rest of the artgcle. ¯ TFN also applauds MCC of Greater Tulsa for : resp~idihg publicdlly td f U~ article~ We agreew~th ~ several of their points. The concerns raised in our : article are not, however, the ones they addressed. ~ The question is: what’s going onfinancially? What makes this issue a matter ofpublic concern ¯ are the size of thefinancial irregularities and the ’ appearance of no management overstght. The ¯ amount unaccountedfor, possibly as much as $6,000 ¯ or more, is significant. This is about 10% of the ¯ annual income of this church. It is too much for ¯ members to dismiss with a comment, " volunteers ¯ make mistakes..." Also in the UFMCC, the pastor ¯ serves not only as staffbut also as moderator of the ¯ board of directors. And in that role, as "president" ¯ of the board, that person is resposibility for the ¯ proper functioning ofan organization, especially ¯ overseeingfinancial accountability, see MCC, p. 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 744-0896 *Concessions, 3340 S Peoria 585-5622 *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th 749-1563 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 834-4234 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 660-0856 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 664-8299 *Time’n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial 584-1308 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Wild Nights, 2405 E. Admiral 582-4340 742-0712 Wild Fork, Utica Square, 21st & Utica 5~5-3134 * Interurban, 717 S. Houston Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals 746-4620 Dennis C. 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Main 501-253-6807 DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-5445 *Emerald Rainbow, 45&1/2 Spring St. 800-231-1 442 King’s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W 501-253-9337 *MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9682 McClung Realtors Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 501-253-2204 Southern Rose Bed & Breakfast, 9 Benton 501-253-6001 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-8281 The Woods, 50 Wall St. �between the ages of 27 and 39 is infected with HIV; that women are 4 times less likely than men to become infected; and that although the epidemic in the U.S. has "officially" just passed the half-million mark, the actual number of people in this country infected with HIV is probably .between 630,000 and 897,000, representmg approximately 100,000 to almost 400,000 people whose infections have not been reported or who themselves are unaware they are already infected. "That’s a very. disturbing future," Rosenberg said. wasn’t about the disease at all, but was "election year rhetoric." Inside, Clinton underscored his administration’s commitment to battling the .epidemic, saying he had increased funding for AIDS research and treatment during his term in office, and promising to fight off efforts by the Republican-controlled Congress to cut AIDS spending next year. Clinton also announced that early next year Vice President AI Gore will host a conference of scientists and representatives from drug manufacturers to try to find ways to speed up the development of promising AIDS medications. "Our common goal must ultimately be a cure," Clinton told the some 300 people attending. "A cure for all those living with HIV, and a vaccine to protect the res t of us from the virus. A cure and a vaccine - that must be our first and top priority." Although those attending the conference generally applauded Clinton, it was also dear that pressure on ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~ the administration is far from easing up. Dr. Edward Morse, a research sociologist from Louisiana, also challenged the administration to make some tough decisions about the epidemic. "There is no point in beating around the bush," Morse ~aidin presenting Clinton with areport on IV drug abuse and HIV. "We must face the issue of needle exchange. A third of AIDS cases are based on substance abuse. That is a major key in the solution to this problem." When an activist shouted that Clinton hadfailed to keep his campaign promises about AIDS, Clinton vehemently rejected the charge. Clinton quickly replied, "We had a set of recommendations that. we received whe~n w~got’here, m~st of w.hieh. ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ have been i~mplemented. I am very sorry that thereis not a cure. I am very sorry that there is not a vaccine. I regret that everything I have asked for has not been approved by the Congress." ¯ ; ¯ ¯ have started stirring the pot and stuff is beginning to slop out over the edges. Things may well get worse before they get better. But I have faith that ultimately ¯ th~ basic decency and common sense of ordinary people will take command. As Mr. Lincoln said, you can fool some of the : people all of the time, and all of the people : some time, but you can’t fool all of the ¯ people all of the time. I guess those two things are my mes; sage of positive hope for all of us for the ¯ coming new year. I believe in the basic "- decency of ordinary peopl e and their com¯ mon sense to react when things get to ¯ weird. I suggest we all start practicing those virtues for the coming year on a daily basis. Drop in a little dol!op of simple courtesy and civility and see if things don’t begin to improve. Decency, common sense, courtesy and civility, that sounds like a pretty good recipe for anyone, wouldn’t you think? So from myself, my companion and our dog, the best wishes of the season, to you and all those in your life who make day to day life a little sweeter and more palatable. And one more suggestion for the new year: always keep your powder dry, otherwise it tends~to cake up when applied around the eyes. HO HO HO! Comments, responses and cheap shots can be E-mailed to TulsaNews@aol.com head a 3-year fundraising campaign. Hundreds of museums around the world marked the day by observing "A Day Without Art," an effort by art institutions to dramatize the effect of the epidemic on the creative community. Tulsa’s Philbrook Museum draped the Rodin statue that graces its entry to recognize the day. On the Internet, scores of World Wide Websites from Japan to Finland participated in their own version of the event, dubbed "A Day Without Graphics," by going blank, removing graphics and pho::r tos :for the ’day. Singers from the’Metro:- p01itan Opera in New York performed at the United Nations, while at the city’s St. Mark’s Church, Dancers Responding to We hope that there is a good explanaAIDS performed 24 hours nonstop, feation for the discrepancy between amount turing dancers from the Paul Taylor and presented in the year~endfinancial report Merce Cunningham dance companies. and the much lower amount reported to And at least 165 cable systems and local be in the church’s bank account(s) at the television stations had slated a variety of congregational meeting. However, even AIDS-related programming, including if there are explanations for every dime, broadcasts of "’Philadelphia," "And the or even if this is an accounting error Band Played On" and "Longtime Comrepeatedfor years, the existance ofsuch a pamon" on leading premium cable syslarge discrepancy in the financial report tems. speaks poorly ofAlice Jones’ performance, not as. pastor, but as moderator - the person ultimately responsible. When this discrepancy is combined with the issue of back tithes owed and other outstanding debts, some would say Alice Jones and her board failed ~o do their job well enough. Mismanagement is not dishonesty and mismanagement doesn’t negate the good Alice Jones has done but the church and our communities do have a right to expect accurate accounting. tomfoolery! even at our worst, better than~the rest Tulsa’s best Pride Store at Family of Faith MCC 5451-e So. Mingo, Sat. noon-6, 583-1248 New location coming in ’96 THEY’LL EAT IT UP! 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SAN FRANCISCO - The San Francisco Board of Supervisors ¯ has received a proposed mea¯ sure that would authorize the ¯ county clerk’s office to perform ¯ domestic partnership ceremonies similar to the marriage ceremonies it performs for couples who ¯ get married at city hall. The city has had a domestic partner regis¯ tration ordinance for seve_ral Mortgages’ in Australia " M EL’BOIJRNE,’~U~ tr~fi~ L~e " ~ years, l~tit the d~unly cl~rk’~ 6fAustralian gay paper Brother ¯ fice has no authority tO officiateSister News has reported that an ¯ at any civil ceremony connected with registration. The proposed announcement earlier in Novem¯ measure to authorize performber by Australian Mortgages that it would start offering discounted ¯ ing the ceremony, which would bank home loans to gay and les- ¯ convey no particular legal status, was introduced by Supervibian couples early next)’ear has ¯ sor Barbara Kaufman. brought the lending institution a ¯ number of hostile phone calls. ¯ Mugabe Rejects Critics including abomb threat. Despite ¯ AUCKLAND, New Zealand the negative reaction from some ¯ According to the New Zealand ¯ Aussies, however, a spokesperHerald, Zimbabwe President ¯ son for the firm said it had no Robert Mugabe said he was unintention of backing away from ¯ concerned about sharp criticism the reduced mortgage rate offer. ¯ he has received for his verbal ¯ "’We are not going to back off," attacks againsthomosexuals. On Australian Mortgages" Ron :,,,leaving the annual CommonGuthrie told the paper. "I’m just "¯ wealth Heads of Government saddened and very disappointed meeting, Mugabe brushed off at the attitude of some people.’" reporters questions about critiThe company said the reduced cism he has received from hurates for lesbian and gaY couples ¯ man rights activists, saying the topic was "abhorrent.’" Lesbian would probably be about 1.5% ¯ lower than standard market rates. and gay activists protested outAustralian Mortgage Saidit had " side the meeting of the Comdecided to offer the discounted ¯ monwealth Heads of Governhome loans partly because of the " ment, to draw attention to the history of antigay bias in the anti-gay attacks by Mugabe. mortgage .industry, but also beEarlier this year, Mugabe’s govcause same-sex couples repre- ¯ ernment barred the Gays & Les¯ sent an excellent market segbians of Zimbabwe from runment for the housing industry. ¯ ning a literature booth at an inGuthrie’said that many gay " ternational book fair in Harare, couples are fairy well-paid pro- ¯ the nation’s capital. 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But it does break dramatic new ground, activists said, and : (EY WEST, Fla. - Christmas most strongly against these statedoes allow govenmlent employ-. arrived in this south Florida rements as we.believe that you ees to take a leave of absence for sort community with a resoundhave seriously endangered the ,an ailing partner, permits working "bah, humbug" for gays and lives and good health of a sigers to have bereavement leave in esbians who make up a substannificant minority of your citithe event of file death of a parttial portion of the town’s popuzens." ner, and extends to a worker’s lation when the Lower Keys Federal Court OKs partner the s ame .flight and housMira sterial Associatton refused Anti-Bias Protections ing allowances g~ven to spouses to allow the local Metropolitan SAN FRANCISCO - The 9th . of govenunent employees on Co~nmunity Church in its anCircuit Court of Appeals’ govwork asst~m~ents around the nual Christmas parade, the first erning Judicial Council has voted cotmtry. Conservative le~slators time the predominantly, gay to include anti-bias protections quickly attacked the move, saychurch has asked to parttopate that include sexual orientation, ing die government had made in the event. The Rev. Gary ifi~’fir’si ~d~r’al coh~t di~tfiCi io the policy change "behind the Redwine, who heads up the celadopt such a policy. The newly back" of Parlimnent. The Canaebration, denied the association’s adopted regulations apply to all dian legislature recently rejected decision was anu-gay, but said circuit employees, as well as to a measure that would have given allowing MCC to join would be workers under the supervision legal reco~fition to stone-sex contrary to "the image of bibliof the federal courts in the large couples. The new benefits pro.cal morality and family that we 9th Circuit, including federal granl does not apply to semiwish to project." On the day of probation officers, marshals and autonomous government finns the event, several hundred propublic defenders. The new em(such as the Canadian Broadtesters clustered outside one of ployment policy was adopted casting Corp.), to the Royal Cathe largest churches along the after the federal Judicial Confernadian Mounted Police, to the parade route in silent protest and ence, which is headed by Sunation’s armed forces, or to Parwere joined by ministers from a preme Court Chief Justice Willliament itself, which all regulate number of local churches who ,am Relmquist, ordered all the their own employee policies and refused to participate because of federal circuit appeals courts to benefits. MCC’s exclusion. The number include anti-discrimination reguSo. Africa May End of people participating in the lations, although the Confparade this year was reportedly Military Ban erence’s recommendations only almost half what it usually is. CAPE TOWN, South Africa extended to race, gender, reliReporter’s Anti-Lesbian The defense committee of South gion, age and disability. An iniAfrica’s Parliament has apRemarks Confirmed tial recommendation to include proved a proposal that writes NEW YORK - In May, Valerie sexual orientation protections into the nation’s military policy Hehnbreck, a reporter with the was dropped by a Judicial Couna prohibition against discrimiWilmington (Del.) News-Jourcil committee earlier this year, nation based on sexual orienta- ¯ hal caused a major flap in the but when the Council reached tion in the country’s armed ". sports world when she quoted ¯ the point of a vote on new emforces. African National Con- ¯ CBS-TV golf commentator Ben ~ ployment protections xt put the gress representative Lindiwe : Wright in an interview as saying sexual orientation protections Sisulu said following the comthat women aren’t as good at go back in with the approval of all 9 mittee vote that the policy deci- : If as men becanse they are"handi¯ Council members. The 9th Cirsion wouldn’t be binding on the -" capped by having boobs" and cuit includes California, Washgovernment, but would never- ¯ that "lesbians in the sport hurt " ington, Oregon, Idaho, Montana, theless carry considerable po- : women’s golf"and were turning Nevada, Arizona, Hawaii, litical weight for any future ad- ¯ itinto a"butch game"that scared ". Alaska, Guam and the Northern ministration. ¯ away sponsors. Wright ada¯ Mariana Islands. ~ mantly denied saying any of the Military Recruiters Face : Canadian Gov’t. Adds Legal Challenge in CT ~ things Hdmbreck attributed to : Gay Couples Benefits : him. CBS accepted his denial NEW HAVEN, Conn. - The ¯ : OTYAWA - Canada’s governand shortly thereafter renewed Connecticut Supreme Court has ¯ ment has taken a giant step and Wright’s 4-year contract. But ¯ finished hearing arguments in a extended at least some of the ¯ now, in the Dec. 4 issue of the gay rights case that challenges ¯" benefits enjoyed by mamed fedsubscribers-only "Golf Plus" ] eral employees to gay and les- : the right of state-supported ~ edition, no less a source than schools to permit military re] bian partners of government ". Sports Illustratedhas confirmed crmters on their campuses. The ¯ workers as well. CanadianRights ~ that Wright did indeed make the case argues that the University ¯ activists lauded the Treasury .- remarks. The "Golf Plus" edi: Board’s decision, which affects : of Connecticut violated state tion quotes Dan Jenkins, a sports ¯ anti-bias laws by allowing mili: more than 200,000 government writer, who said he talked to : tary recruiters on campus beworkers, as a"great step forward ] Wright shortly after the flap : for equality" in the country. The : cause of the U.S armed forces’ ¯. erupted. "I asked him" Did you new policy hardly represents : policy of excluding lesbian and ¯ say it?’ And he said, "Of course _" putting same-sex couples on an : gay. service members. Discrimi- ¯ I said it. But I was granted comnauon based on sexual orienta¯ equal footing with mamed work.- plete anonymity.’" The article, tion is illegal under state law. ¯ entitled"Living With a Lie,"also ers, however, and does not in" dude such ~mportant traditional Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Where God Uplifts All People 4649 South Peoria 743-$272 Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2rid & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 Corner of 48th & Peori~ 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. Open Saturdays thru holidays! �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News quotes Ken Doig, a part-time CBS-TV stafferanda golf caddy, who told the magazine he listened to Wright being interviewed by Helmbreck and. confirmed the quotes. "I heard Ben say boobs (get in the way of women golfers’ swing). I heard ¯ ¯ him say lesbianism h,,urts in getting sponsorships, Doig is quoted as telling the magazine. "I’m a golfer and golf is a game of integrity. I believe in telling the truth." The "Golf Plus" edition is not sold on newsstands, but goes out to some half-million subscribers of the magazine. ¯ Bible to explain theirfears. There ." is no text on the lips of Jesus " Christ which condemns homo¯ sexuality." Vasey’s book was ¯ published as the church’s general synod was winding up its _" annual meeting. Activists also ¯ made their point ~to church lead¯ ers as members of the rights groupOutRage! nailed ademand for a "Queer Reformation" of " the Anglican Church entitled "Four Theses Against Church _. Homophobia" to the doors of . Westminster Abbey. "What’s needed is a new Reformation to eradicate homophobia from the ¯ Church of England," said Peter . Tatchdl of OutRage! "Anglican endorsement of anti-gay dis. crimination is a corruption of ° ° morality and a violation of the dignity of lesbian and gay people. We want the synod to overturn : church support for homophobic o policies." . ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Goes to Appeals Court RICHMOND, Va’. - In an unusual step, all 13 judges of the U.S. Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals heard the appeal of Lt. Paul Thomasson in his challenge to the Defense Department’s socalled "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy of excluding ho mosexuals from military service. Thomasson’s case is the first against the new policy to reach the federal appeals court level. Thomasson told his commanding officer he was gay just 5 days after the new policy went into effect. The former Navy lieutenant’s attorneys argued that Thomasson’s discharge violated his First Amendment rights of free speech. But Justice Department attorneys representing the Defense Department argued that .by acknowledging that he is gay, it was reasonable to assume he has a "propensity" to engage in homosexual acts, whichmilitary officials insist "undermines the morale of t he U.S. armed services." The appeals court is not expected to rule on the case until sometime next year, No Support in Bible for Anti-Gay Attitude LONDON - British gay rights activists found unusual supp6rt in their quest to reform the view of the Church of England on homosexuality with a prominent evangdical theologian’s book that argues there is no biblical support for church con demnation of homosexuality. The Rev. Michael Vasey, a lecturer at St. John’s theological college in Durham, expounded his views on the scriptures in a just-published book Strangers and Friends. His arguments have been made before, but not by Fred Welch L:C.S.W. Brookside Counseling Individual & Couple Family & Group 743-1733 such a respected theologian in the church’s evangelical wing, which generally opposes any acceptance of homosexuals ¯ within the church. "The Bible has been misinterpreted by ¯ evangelicals,"Vasey said. "They ¯ read anti-gay meanings into the Romanian Parliament Keeps Anti-Gay Laws BUCHAREST - The Romanian Chamber of Deputies has rejected a draft proposal modifying the country’s penal code to, among other things, at least partly decriminalize homosexuality among consenting adults. The proposed change would have made homosexual acts punishable only if they created a "public scandal" and was proposed in part to help ease Romania’s entry into the European Commuuity, which requires member nations to assure basic equality for all citizens, including protections for gays and lesbians. At least 2 EC nations have already indicated they will vote against admitting Romania to the continental union if the anti-gay laws are not repealed, Jenny Jones Won’t Testify in Murder ~ase DETROIT - A county court judge has ruled that television ¯ talk show host Jemay Jones won’t have to testify in the trial of Jonathan Schmitz, who is charged with killing Scott Amedure, a gay man, after he confessed to being a "secret admirer"of Schmitz on the nation- ally broadcast TV show. Attorneys for Schmitz had wanted Jones to testify during the trial, but the judge heating the unusual case ruled that Jones’ taped statements and a sworn deposition she is expected to give is all that would be required of her. Schmitz claims he was misled into thinking the "secret admirer" he would meet on the show was a woman and says he was humiliated when he discovered it was Amedure. Three days after the TV program, authorities say Schmitz shot Amedure to death in nearby Orion Township. Gay Book Ban Not Legal OLATHE, Kansas - A federal district court has ruled that the Olathe, Kansas, school board acted from its own anti-gay bias and not out of the best interests in the education ofstndents when it ordered the novel "Annie On My Mind"removed from school libraries. Itis unclearifthe school board will appeal the ruling. The book, which portrays a young girl’s growing awareness of her sexual orientation, has been highly commended by the American Library Association and other groups, but also has become a lightening rod for antigay activists throughout the country. UK Court Upholds Ban LONDON The British Court of Appeal has upheld a lower court ruling supporting the Defense Ministry’s prohibition against homosexuals in the country’s armed forces, ruling that the ban "’cannot ... be sagmatized as irrational at the time these appellants were discharged." Earlier this year a lower court had ruled against the 3 gay men and 1 lesbian who have sued because of their discharges based on their sexual orientation. The 4 ex-service members vowed to appeal their case to Britain’s House of Lords - the highest judicial body in the nation- and then to the European Court if they lose in the Lords. Detroit Plans for Domestic Partnership DETROIT- A Detroit task force is in the process of wor -king on a proposal that would, if approved by the city council, allow gay. and nongay couples to register as domestic partners. The proposal would also give live-in partners of city workers health Looking to put Yourself or Your Business on the INTERNET ? E-mail Gbizman@aol.com or Call: (918) 742 6569 and other benefits like those currently enjoyed by the married spouses of city employees. The partnership registration would give domestic partners the same visitation rights as spouses or parents at all city hospitals and jails. Domestic partners of a parent or legal guardians of children would also have access to their child’s school records. The task force expects to present its completed proposals to the city council by the end of this year. N.J. Judge Rules Against Gays-in Boy Scouts TRENTON, N.J. - N.J. Superior Court Judge Patrick McGann has ruled that a local chapter of the Boy Scouts of America didn’t violate state antl-bias laws when it kicked out John Dale, who is gay, in 1990. In his ruling, McGann cited the biblical story of Sodom and Gomorrah, saying that "all religions deem the act of sodomy a serious moral wrong,’" adding that it was "unthinkable" that the Boy Scouts would accept gay men in leadership roles. "The criminal law has changed," McGam~ wrote. "The moral law - as to the act of sodomy - has not." AI Gore - Not a "Beauty" WASHINGTON -An unnamed gqfite House aide has told gossip columnists that although AI & Tipper Gore showed up for a Halloween party dressed as "’Beauty and the Beast, "it.wasn’t exactly what the. "second family"had at first planned. According to the aide, the Vice President had iuitially wanted to go as "’Beauty" accompauied by Mrs. Gore as the "’Beast. "The reports indicated that the Gores were finally convinced to go in the more conventional costumes only after political advisors suggested the public might not quite be ready "for a vice president who is a cross dresser.’" Tasmanian Law Fight SYDNEY - Rights activists in Australia have filed a brief with the country’s High Court in an effort to formally have Tasmania’s sodomy laws declared unconstitutional and stricken from the books. After a Uuited Nations comnfission declared the Tasmmfian law a violation of interuational human rights, the Australian Parliament enacted legislation guaranteeing the right of privacy in an effort to nullify the laws, but the state of Tasmania has refused to repeal its local anti-gay legislation. Activists say they will use the federal privacy laws in their case, but say it is important to have the Tasmania law overturned officially to remove the stigma associated with the criminalization of gay men in the state. Baptists Slam Disney TAlVIPA, Fla. -The Horida State Baptist Convention, one of the denomination’s largest, has called on its 1 million members to stop supporting Walt Disney movies, products and theme parks because of the finn’s recent decision to extend insurance benefits to same-sex domestic partners of its employees. The, resolution, which was overwhelmingly adopted by the state delegates, says in part that "Disney’~ moral leadership has been eroded by that decision, as well as its practice of holding homosexual theme nights at its parks." A spokesperson for the Walt Disney Co. said the finn "’regrets" the Florida Baptists have taken the stand they have, but so far the entertainment giant has refused to back away from the new benefits. Some Baptists indicated they would call for a boycott. It’s Time to Play. You’ve broken away from the routine. Together you’re about to explore a delicious new realm of the sensuous. Kiss away edible Original Oil of Love’s spicy, warm glow...Feel edible Pleasure Balm sweep over you like a cool, minty wind... Bathe yourselves in the shivery tingle of Mint Tree or snap of Wild Clove Bathing Gels. Afterwards, tickle each others fancy with ~ sweet flick of edible Honey Dust. Let your imagination seize the moment & discover just how close you can be. 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The researchers say that if tests of IL-16 with animals prove encouraging, they may begin human testing of the substance in about a year - a strong indication of their excitement about the finding. Their hope is that if the treatment can be effectively used it could perhaps be effective in keeping HIV from overwhelming a patient’ s immune system indefinitely. Effective HIV Inhibitor Drug BOSTON - Two studies in the New England Journal of Medicine report that an experimental drug that dogs the operation of a key HIV protein seems to keep it at bay for at least a while. The drug ritonavir, formerly known as A~T-538 and developed by Abbott Laboratories, is one of a promising new class of AIDS medicines known as protease inhibitors. AIDS researchers are excited about these new drugs because they. appear to both reduce the level of the°virus and to boost the immune system’ s strength. Although the scientists from the Academic Medical Center in Amsterdam and New York University’ s school of medicine who conducted the studies concluded that ritonavir was quick and effective in fighting HIV, resistance to the drug did develop over time. Abbott Laboratories quickly announced that it will make supplies of the experimental drug available to some 2,000 people with late-stage AIDS diseases and CD4 cell counts of 513 or less around the world through a lottery. For inforuaation about the Abbott Laboratories lottery, call 1-800-414-2437. FDA Committee Recommends 3 New AIDS Drugs \VASHINGTON The Food & Drug Administration’s Antiviral Drug Advisory Committee has recon~nended that the agency approve 3TC for both initial tream~ent of AIDS as welt as for advanced cases of the disease. Studies have indicated that the experimental drug, when used with AZT, reduced the spread of HIV in patients’ systems and helped bolster their immune response. The drug can have serious side effects in children, including possible pancreatitis, but appears to produce no greater side effects among Mechanism of ’Long-Term adults than the AZT used alone does. The ¯ panel also recommended approv.ing the Su rvival’ Possibly Identified AIDS drug stavudine (whichis also known CHICAGO-; In a.small’-geale sm’dy pub- ¯ as d4T and Zerit), for people who are not lished in the Proceedings of the National responding to treatment with AZT. The Academy of Sciences, researchers report ¯ advisory committee also recommended that the’cellular response of a group of conditional approval of saquinavir, the ’long-term survivors of HIV appears to : first protease inhibitor the panel has rechelp delay the progression of the virus. ommended approving to fight AIDS. The team of researchers from the UniverUnlike other AIDS drugs, protease insity of California at San Francisco, led by " hibitors work by preventing HIV i/self Dr. Jay A. Levy, compared the immune ¯ from replicating in the body and are concells of people who had developed full- " sidered the most promising new class of blown AIDS or had seriously compro- ¯ drugs in the epidemic. The conditional mised immune systems with other people recommendation requires that saquinavir infected with HIV butwho remained othnot be used as a single-drug treatment, but erwise asvmptomatic for 10 years or more. ¯ be prescribed along with nucleoside anaThe CD~ immune cells of the long-term logs. survivors produced greater amounts of ¯ Non-Lethal HIV Identified proteins that help regulate "immune-system responses, the researchers report. This, : SYDNEY - A study based on a decadethe scientists say, helps keep the CD8 "¯ old sample of blood donations known as the Sydney Blood Bank Cohort has found ceils active in fending off HIV, thereby ¯ stavingoff most of the impact of the virus ¯ that the blood of one gay man infected longer. According tc the UC-SF research- ¯ with HIV and the 7 blood recipients who ers, the findings suggest that extra doses ¯ became infected with the virus is infected with an entirely new - and harmless of the naturally occurring proteins, known . strain of HIV. The finding, reported in the as cytoklnes, might hdp more infected people stay healthier longer. journal Science, raises hopes that an AIDS vaccine can be devcloped using the new, benign virus s train. The researchers found that the unidentified gay man’ s blood had been used in transfusions between 198184 before blood screening for HIV started in 1985. The gay man, however, never contracted AIDS. And when a Red Cross ,ocial worker began tracking people who should have been infected as a result of receiving the tainted blood, she found that after 10 years, none of the 7 recipients had become sick either although all are in fact HIV positive. The newly discovered strain has defects in its genetic elements, most notably a gene called "nef," which other studies have already shown is necessary for HIV to replicate itself.¢’~This allows the infected person’s immune system to deal with the virus - in other words, to stop it getung out of control," said Dr. Nicholas Deacon, who led the Australian research team. The discovery of the "neF" defect is especially important for possible vaccine development after studies on animals at the New Englaud Regional Primate Center showed that deleting "net" from the sirman (monkey) cousin of the virus, SIV, disarms the lethal microbe. HIV Infection Risks Among Lesbians, Bi Women CHICAGO Researchers with the San Francisco health department have reported in the American Journal of Public Health that lesbians and bisexual women are at small risk of HIV infection, a finding that contradicts the general idea thatthese women have no risk of contracting the virus. 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TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights¯ �ported that they found no indication of transmission from woman-to-woman sexual contact among any of the 6 who were infected, however. Four of the infected women were both IV drug users and also reported having had unprotected sex with gay or bisexual men or male IV drag users - all high-risk groups. The other 2 infected women had had sex with men of tmknown risk status, but had not had sex with any female partners who were infected. The researchers said that education and prevention programs should stop.indicating that lesbians and bisexual women were at low risk of infection and should instead emphasize the importance of avoiding specific, high-risk behaviors. AnOther AIDS Drug Approved WASHINGTON - The Food & Drug Administration has quickly approved the use of lamivudine, also known as 3TC, in combination with AZT. 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The researchers, led by Dr. Che-Chung Tsai of the Regional Primate Research Center at the University of Washington in Seattle - cautioned against jumping to any conclusions about preventing HIV-infection or treating individuals who are already infected with the human version of the virus, but they did say they were greatly encouraged by the findings. Publication of the findings of the research were in fact delayed a full year by the scientists because they were worried there might be some mistake in the results, which Tsai, describes as "almost too good to be true." Human studies, which are tentatively scheduled for next year, would be required to determine if PMPA is safe and effective in humans. Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1 51 5 South Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiafity and comfort that enhances the therapeutic process. For further information call 743-4117 Leah Hunt, .MSW. 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Lately, I’ve been watching "High Society", - Mondays, 8:30pm. If you haven’t seen it, .it is one of the most hilarious shows I’ve seen on American TV. So what if it’s a "knockoff of "Absolutely fabulous"? We can’t see that here, ’cause the local cable comp..any doesn’ t carry the comedy channel ~ a:t~e crime~:Anyway, I recognize a lot of myself in this show, which has a DEFINITE queer sensibility to it. Watch it, you’ll see what I mean. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Rating system: Four snaps: Don’t miss it, in fact, get going now! Three snaps: Ok, so put the paper down first. And drive safely. Two Snaps: Ithas enough redeeming qualities to be of interest, but see the matinee. One snap. Well, if you’re really bored and can’t find anything else to do... No snaps: You’ll be sorry.. Well, what a full season thus far: ¯ Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella, ¯ a wonderful concert with Marilyn Maye ¯ and theTulsa Philharmonic, & Toy Story, ¯ the new must-see movie from the’~gayfriendly folk at Disney. If you misse~ the : live shows, well,’I’ll tell you myopinion ¯ ~a~yway (like yisii’coulil’stOp me:~.) sb -that : If th~y’come through town again, you’ll ¯ know whether to ante up for a ticket, or ¯ stay home with the telly and a cup of hot : chocolate, see Notes, page 14 FRIDAY, JANUARY 19 BroaOen Your Perspective at a celtic Music Concert. Irish fiddle great Kevin Burke and his new world Celtic enseml01e bring fiery instrumentals, dazzling footwork and original songs. 8 p.m., John H. wilhams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center CALL: 596-7111 TICKETS: $12 46th & Memorial- 665-6595 Januaru 11 - 14 I yr. Anniversary/C6stomer Appreciation Extravaganza Weekend M~n of the Southv~est 9-2 NO COVER A~ll-Male RevUe 10 p.m. $2 Cover Dance & Party Mr. Robbie Walker & the Sunday Slam with your favorite Bar Staff (Ivana B, Real, Kris Kohl, Michelle ~ ~tey, Domo~ue Darnels) wiJh Special ~u~t To Be Announced Kirk, Tern/, Tommy, Scotty, Mike, Bill, Chrls & DJ Davld Oees $2 COVER Eve Sunday_ December: $howtime 11p.m. ~2 Cover Beer Bust 9p.m. ~ laom~ ~2COVE~ �K IN . COMMUNI CALEN R SUNDAYS MONDAYS TUESI WEDNESDAYS THURSDAYS ¯, SATURDAYS Bless the Lord At All ¯ : HIV Testing Minister’s Class ¯ Authority Of The Believer 16-Step Empowerment Narcotics Anonymous Times Christian Center ¯ TOHR Clinic Bless the Lord at All Bible Study, 7 pm Group For Women Meets weekly at 11 pm ¯ Sunday School, 9:45 am ¯ Free &.anonymous testing Times Christian Center MCC of Greater Tulsa ¯ Confidential support for Community of Hope ¯ Worship Service, 11 am ¯ using fingerstick 7:30 pm : 1623 N. Maplewood 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 recovering addicts. 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 method. ¯ 2627-B East 1 lth Info: 838-1715 : Community of Hope ¯ No appointment reqnired. Info: 583-7815 Co-Dependency ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Community of Hope, _ : Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Bless The Lord At All Support Group (United Methodist) Results hours: 7-9 pm HIV+ Support Group Times Christian Center 7:30, Family of Faith MCC : NAMES Project Worship Service, 6 pm Info: 742-2927 ¯ HIV Resource Consortium ¯ Choir Practice 7 pm ¯ AIDS Memorial Quilt 5451-E S. Mingo ~ 1703E. 2nd, 585d800, .,.,_ _: .~-~ ::-1,:30~pm~.,:J i . !~ " .~ : 2627-B East 1 lth Sewing Bees Call 622-1441 for Info. ¯ : Call 583-7815 for info. :~ii~am~la Bowling League :,, 4t~S. Harvard, Ste.-H-1 3rd Sat. of each month Family of Faith ¯ Sheridan Lanes Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 HIV Testing TOHR Clinic Info: 748-3111 Metro. Comm. Chureh8:45 pm Family Of Faith MCC Free & anonymous testing AdultSunday School, 9:15 " 3121 S. Sheridan Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm using fingerstick method. MORE GROUPS Worship Service, 11 am ." HIV/AIDS Support Group Choir Practice 7:30 pm No appointment reqnired. Gay & Lesbian Student 5451-E South Mingo. ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS & 5451-E South Mingo. Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Association Info: 622-1441 Support Group Friends & Family Call 622-1441 for info. Results hours: 7 - 9 pm TJC Southeast Campus, 2nd Monday of month, HIV/AIDS Support Group [nfo: 742-2927 Info: 631-7632 Metro. Comm. Church 6:30 pm 7 pm, call for location: Community of Hope ¯ SWAN-Single Women’s of Greater Tulsa 4154 S. Harvard 749-7898 (United Methodist) Prayer Time A ctivity Network Worship Service, 10:45am ¯ Info: 749-4901 Bible Study, 6:30 pm MCC - Greater Tulsa, 7 pm ¯ Call 832-2121 1623 N. Maplewood 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 1623 N. Maplewood TOHR Helplinc Info: 838-1715 ¯ (no class, Dec. 27) Info: 838-1715 Daily 8-10 pm ¯ Tulsa-Family Chorale ¯ Weekly practice, 9:30 pm ¯ Lola’s 2630 E. 15th The Banned, OK Gay Band " Practice weekly in OKC " ¯ Info: 838-2121 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston Info: 583-9780 " " ¯ " Thi ’N6w Year Drink Responsibly Have a Designated Driver or Take a Cab SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 31 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 Family of Faith MCC, "Let It Go" New Year’s Eve Service, 1 lain 5451-E S Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 Family of Faith MCC Christmas Concert & Silent Auction, 7:30pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 19 Grief Group Community of Hope United Methodist 6pro, held at Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home, 3rd St. west of Lewis (ongoing) Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24 Family of Faith MCC Christmas Eve Candlelight Service 10 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24 Community of Hope United Methodist Christmas Eve Peace Service, 6pm Christmas Eve CandlelightService, 1 lpm 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 26 Grief Group Community of Hope United Methodist 6pm, held at Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home, 3rd St. west of Lewis (ongoing) Info: 585-1800 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 29 Feed the Homeless Community of Hope United Methodist Meet at church, 1703 E. 2nd, 5:30 pm Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 7 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 7 Prime Timers Monthly Meeting Write for info: P.O. Box 52118, 74104 TUESDAY, JANUARY 9 Green Country Pride ~ Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights Community-wide Meeting, 7 pm Alan Chapman Activity Center University of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 SUNDAY, JANUARY 14 Family of Faith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: It’s Never Too Late to Have a Happy Childhood, 9 am - 3 pm 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 ¯ ¯ For info. or to volunteer: 743-GAYS Tool Box Technicians, Leather org., Info cio The Tool Box: 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Assdc. Info: 838-1222 Out & About With JD! ¯ the country. Starting in January onThursIt’s that time of the year when you yearn : day nights: chicks with d contests with for time spent with friends, and visions of ¯ cash prizes, and, as always, male dancers fairies dance in your head. This month’s ¯ every Friday and Saturday nights. Be sure featured establishment is a great place to : to join Steve and his wonderful manager find both. GROUND Mark on December 23 ZERO (formerly for a mini-Christmas Laffs-Underground) at party with Reghena and 7th & Elan, in the heart company. Also, New of downtown Tulsa, is Year’s will be rung in the place. with male dancers Steve Crow, a wellcounting down the minknown promoter of utes to midnight, and a Tulsa’s night life, has free champagne toast. renovated this classic. .Also Ladonna at Barlocation into something racudas sends a note of more than comfortable thanks to all the new and intriguing for that Raghenna & Steve Crow faces thathave stopped first date (a dimly lit in (see her ad about ¯ table for two), or to find that first date, ¯ some new faces). (billiard and dart area), or for meedng a : I would like take a moment to wish group of friends (a conversation area and ¯ everybody a joyful holiday season, and a well-lit bar). Watch for details about ¯ v.ery warm and happy new year. I appreTulsa’s first Intemet party, linking up via ¯ caate all the support throughout the last the info super hi-way to other bars across ¯ year. TUESDAY, JANUARY 30 Rainbow Business Guild, 7 pm Call for place and speaker. Dinner Meeting, Info: 665-5174 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17 Family of Faith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness, 9 am - 3pro 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 PFLAG national vice president, Nancy McDonald is joined by sevkral friends, including Prime Timer, Wesley Bauer. Community activists, Ken Draper, Lisa Pottorf& Tim Gillean braved the cold at TOHR Holiday Dinner & Silent Auction. �Eureka Springs Honors ¯ of the local newspaper, told his story. A World AIDS Day - Dec. 1 : by Phyl Boler-Schmidt Living in the heart of the Bible Belt, one ¯ would not expect to find an ecumenical ~ service dedicated to World AIDS Day m ¯ a small community. Yet, Eureka Springs ¯ held one of the most moving celebrations ¯ of unity in the fight against AIDS I have ¯ ¯ ever witnessed. ¯ On the evening of December 1, we gathered at the United Methodist Church, ¯ about 75 people in all, from all walks of ¯ life and all faithS. The theme of the service: ] was "Because God Cares," and the service was co-sponsored by the Regional ¯ AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN) and Ozark AIDS Resources and Services ¯ (OARS). A total of ten local and area " clergy were scheduled to participate in the : ev.ent, and five were called away at the last ¯ rmnute to attend to other events or emer- ¯ ¯ gencies. Those who did participate came from ¯ varying backgrounds, to be sure. Rev. ¯ Stan Adams came from the United Meth- ¯ odist Church, Rev. Jack Hammond is af- : filiated with the First Christian Church, ¯ ¯ and Rev. Mark Leuneville came from the ¯ First Presbyterian Church, all in nearby Berryville. Rev. Marilyn Webb partici- ¯ pated from the host church in Eureka ¯ ¯ Springs. And, the m~in speaker was Rev. Kermie Wohlenham~ Pastor of MCC of ¯ ¯ the Living Spring. It was a celebration of life and healing, ¯ love; hope, and stories of miracles. Sonny ¯ Mosley, the longest living AIDS survivor, who last week graced the front page ¯ dren are all afflicted. Each one of us." Grandmother read a letter of love, grace, She told moving stories of Ryan White, and about her own 17-year, same-sex rethe Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, lationship, a letter that had been written Randy Shilts, and A Day Without Art. that same day to her HIV+ grandson. We "The loss to the world is amazing! "This all shared, prayed, sang, hoped, and cried was Rev. Wohlenhaus’ assessment of the together. loss to the art world because of AIDS. Sonny’s admonition to us all was very But, "there is a healing part of this moving. "It is my hope, and I believe that disease." She talked of Joan Rivers and itis God’s hope that when you leave this the first AIDS benefit she put together. piace tonight, you will go to someone and Ms. Rivers could get no major stars to tell them you have seen a miracle. You participate in the benefit, and she received have seen a miracle standing before you hate mail and death threats. Yes, we truly tonight .... " Sonny have come a long has survived 14years way toward healing. Saglttarlus You also ]]ave and seven months And there living with AIDS. deep desires to....huy were stories of the One young man healing of families expenslve, pointless, e~otold the story of losand relationships, g g~rat’Lin" ~ar thln~s....you ing his partner of how Disney wentout eight years some two l~n~w that last, red sports on alimb for its emyears ago. He shared ployees,evemnspite ear won’t make you a better withus his partner’s of pressure from the last words to him: person. Don’t you? pro-familygroups. It "Never miss an opwas a moving talk pornmity to love.’" ¯ indeed. "’What has happened is we are It was a rare treat to experience an area- ¯ coming out as a nation. Weare healing wide service in which the official coming ¯ AIDSphobiaas well as homophobiaas we out of Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus to the : have to deal with this disease." religious community.was enacted through ¯ "The voices of people th~it are HIV+ aninvitation toher to give the main talk of ¯ and (have) AIDS have tremendous spirithe evening, a sermon if you will. Her ¯ tual messages for us. One of those mestime at the pulpit was preceded by a mu- ¯ sages is living one day at a’fime to the sical duet by two MCC regulars, a request fullest. They are our teachers, aren t they. made due to past performances by the ¯ This was an admonition to most of the MCC choir at World AIDS Day services. ¯ congregation. ¯ Pastor Wohlenhaus gave a message of And; to those who are HIVe- and living healing and-an admonition to the as- ¯ withAIDS,"Call upon your higher power sembled churchgoers that "This is - whatever that is. Ask those very imporeveryone’s disease. Men, women and chil- ¯ tant questions, and be open to hear the answers. One of the answers that you may hear is to be of service, ff you are HIV+ or living with AIDS, you have a tremendous gift that you can pass on to someone. You’ve gone through processes that someone else that just found out the other day needs to hear from you." ’q’he wounded healer is probably one of our most important healing persons. Avail yourself to those people." An offering was received to support RAIN and OARS, and we heard from Rev. Mark Leuneville that the Ryan White Care Act will not have any more funding until August of 1996 so, more than ever, local organizations need our support, financial as well as personal. We learned that Carroll Regional Medical Center in Berryville has donated a fulltime counselor to staff the AIDS clinic at the hospital’s expense. A doctor also donates medical services. Testing, quality care, education and counseling are all available. And this is the Bible Belt! This reporter will not soon forget December 1, 1995. 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EUREKA SPRINGS �House ,_ Activist Pharr Briefs Eureka Springs by Phil Boler-Schmidt DeVito" s res taurant in Eureka S prings was the si te of an annual meeting with Suzanne Pharr and activists f.rom the Eureka Springs co~nmunity on December 5th. The setting was appropriate as Jim andSusan DeVito had just been named Volunteers of the Year by The Women’s Project. ¯ Ms.. Pharr was accompanied by Linda Coyle of The Women’s Project, and it was Ms. Coyle who first spoke to the group aleut the activities of hate groups in northwest Arkansas. Various hate groups have been active in our part of the state for some time, and the most noticeable has been the Knights of the Ku Klux Klan. It was noted that this group has recently split due to somedifferences of opinion, and because of the split, the KKK has actually grown in size and strength. Also noted by Ms. Coyle were the militia groups that have formed in several areas of Arkansas and that activity has increased in southeast Oklahoma as well. Other groups, mostly of the white supremacist nature, to watch out for are: the Aryan Nations, the White Aryan Resistance, neo Nazi skinheads, the Identity Christian Church, the Holy Alamo Christian Church, the Populist Party, and none other than the Elna Smith Foundation, located right here in Eureka Springs. The Smith Foundation hosts The Great Passion Play and houses the Christ of the Ozarks statue. Both Ms. Coyle and Ms. Pharr expressed concern that many of the militia groups, which they noted are made up of mostly disgruntled wlfitemen, havebeen infiltrated by the KKK and other hate groups in an attempt to recruit new members to their cause. Ms. Pharr is well know for her work with Gay leaders in those states where anti-gay statues have been placed before the electorate, and her vast work with women’s issues is well documented. Her main thrust of the evening was to show those assembled what major movements have been presented in the U.S. Ms. Pharr is well ¯ know for her work w .th Gay leaders " in those states where anti-Gay statues have been " placed before the electorate... ¯ " " over the past 30 years and how . " ° ¯ : ° ¯ ¯ "" ¯ " " ° ¯ ¯ ° ¯ . " ° ° . " : those intermingle and confuse the people when issues are presented for a vote. She defined three major movements: the liberation movement (of which we are all a part), globalization of the economy, and the rise of the religious right wing fundamentalists. At issue in the liberation movement are reproductive rights, affirmative action, children’s rights, removal of sodomy laws-, and environmental action, among others. The issues for globalization of the economy are the anti-tax movement, .deregulation, NAFTA, privatization, and ahost of others. It is Ms. Pharr’s contention that the rise of the religious right came upon the heels of economic globalization, and due to this, many people do not .understand that they are responding to problems in the economy rather than moral issues. The religious right has done a tre- mendous job of demonizang entire segments of the economy and making them (us) villains when, in fact, it Is the globalization of the economy that has taken jobs away and decreased corporate investment in employees. Ms. Pharr strongly suggested that we all become versed in economic issues and use this knowledge in our discussions with people who feel that gays and lesbians, people of color., rand women ha~¢~ contributed to the moral decline of America. She aptly proved to those of us present at her talk that when people see that they are respondmg to economic issues and their own financial needs, not the need to demonize us, we have more of a chance of convincing them that we are not the enemy. The religious right has done its job well, for sure. After President Reagan began the move toward economic globalization, religious leaders jumped on the bandwagon and began to work at the grassroots level to convince average Americans that they should blame groups that the religious right saw as immoral for the decline in available jobs, the rise in the number of welfare recipients, the decrease in the average American’ s paycheck and company benefits, and the movement away from keeping jobs at home. Ms. Pharr suggested that nearly every ill the religious right seeks to use to its political advantage has its root in racism and sexism. For more information on Suzanne Pharr’s work, to receive membership information, or to find out more about how you can be involved, contact The Women’s Project at 2224 Main Street, Little Rock, AR 72206. ¯ ¯ ¯ Jerry A. Wilson ¯ (501) 253-7311 ¯¯ A Friendly Place to Stay¯ 1-800-231-1442 1-81 ¯ ¯ ¯ cont’dfromp. Opening the hearings, Chairman Peter Hoekstra (D-MI) said the ten witnesses would explore theroleofparentsinschoolsand values in the"big picture." Nevertheless, by the second day as witness after witness lashed out against sex education, HIV prevention and youth support programs in schools, the true nature of the hearings became apparent. Perhaps due to the national outcry, the subcommittee called on four of the ten witnesses to address the impact of violence and harassmer~t ag~i:~ youth grappling.withis.sues~:9.f sexual orientation. No gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender youth were called upon to testify at the hearing. "LouSheldon’sextremeviews came across loud and clear,"said Helen Gonzales, Public Policy Director- for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Even though the comm|ttee did not completelystackthedeckagainst us: intolerance of differing views and an anti-democratic approach to education were the themes of the day." During the first day of hearings, witnesses William Bennett and Patricia Ann Baltz spoke in general terms about the need to infuse values into public schools, Homosexuality was only mentioned briefly. During the second day, witnesses discussed school services and programs which address prevention of HIV, hate-violence in schools andthehighincidenceofsuicide among gay,lesbian,bisexual and transgender youth. Several witnesses misrepresented these community efforts as attempts to "recruit and promote homosexuality.’" At least one witness complained about schools "promotinghomosexual lifestyles as normal," while another witness claimed that "homosexuality is sinful.’" ¯ : ¯ ¯ ~ ; ¯ . ~ ° ." .’. Murder Govt. Asked to Supervise Washington, D.C - Citing the murders, and a tragic history of violence agmnst Gays in other states with anti-gay ballot initiatives, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) has asked U.S. Attorney General Janet Reno to lend federal assistance in investigating homicides. "’We are writing to inform you of a situation which unfortunately is becoming too commonplace in our country and to seek your assistance in helping protect the lives of, gay, lesbian, bisexual and-., transgender people," said the,three-page letter, firxedtoReno’sofficetoday. "Our concern is that however the facts in this case turn out, hate crimes against Gays, l_~sbians, Bisexuals and Transgender persons continue to be an epidemic in this country...In the atmosphereofhatredandgay-baiting which are expected to be waged by the Far Right during next year’s anti-gay ballot and legislative state initiatives, it is clear that such crimes will increase.’" The letter went on to detail the rise in anti-gay violence, especially in states with homophobic initiatives. BEAVER DAM STORE Fishing Headquarters for N.W. Arkansas ¯ ¯ ¯ ° Fly Tying * Fly Fishing * Equipment & Classes Open Year ’Round ¯ Located 1/2 mile N. of Beaver Dam on Hwy 187 Eureka Springs, AR * 501-253-6154 ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY HI ’" INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 ¯ TROUTS - "~ - US Groceries * Gas * Ice ~ B~er * Licenses * Lodging ¯ Hwy. 62 East EurekaSprings, Arkansas 501-253-6001 Your lnukeepem. COTTAGE DAVE HAGER RUTH GOODWIN-HAGER S.U.A.E. 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Lamont Kichie and A Bed & Breal~ast Inn Individual Cottages - Jacuzzi for Two Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 800/624-6646 501/253-8659 �Reviewed by Barry Hensley what Sullivan sees as the four political Tulsa City-County Library armies "on the homosexuality battlefield The gay rights debate will surely rise to ] of the culture war:" 1) Prohibitionists, a new level with the publication of this ¯ who refuse to discuss homosexual intebook. Sullivan, the gay editor of the New gration into society because of biblical Republic magazine, has written an impor- ; beliefs; 2) Liberationists (at the other end tant addition to the growof the political scale) ing number of books that which includes groups [t]aere ~s] "a new pol;t~cs argue, in a straightforsuch as Queer Nation and of ]aomosexualaty... ward, readable and eduACI’-UP; 3) Conserva[1,1e.d~] "l;1,eral cated way, that there is a tives, the authors of"don’t new politics of homo- e~ual;ty ~n t~e eyes of t]ae ask, don’t tell", and 4) state vc~t]a conservative sexuality. It blends "libLiberals, who are often eral equality in the eyes social stability" simply piggybacking the of the state with consergay rights movement on vative social stability in a program whose the back of the civil rights movement. twin tenets are open, un-impeded gay With the first two groups intractable, military service and legal gay marriage. Sullivan argues that a combination of the Sullivan begins by asking, "What Is a best of conservative and liberal beliefs Homosexual?" By describing his childcan create a new consensus on homosexuhood experiences that he now realizes ality. His idea "affirms a simple and limwere really gay oriented situations, ited principle: that all public (as opposed Sullivan makes a dear case for the incluto private) discrimination against homosion of gay themes throughout our culsexuals be ended and that every right and ture. Once, at the age of ten, he remembers responsibility that heterosexuals enjoy as being"...happily engagedinreading. Then, public citizens be extended to those who a girl sitting next to me looked at me with grow up and find themselves emotionally a rmxture of curiosity and disgust. "Why different." He means ALL rights and rearen’t you out with the boys playing footsponsibilities, including marriage and military service. ball’?" she asked. Because "I hate it," I replied. "’Are you sure you’re really not a Sullivan is remarkably eloquent, and it girl under there?" she asked, with the is hard to disagree with his logic, although suspicion of a sneer." With no mention of he is often accused of being too conservahomosexuality in his family, ]’i~ the newstive. He has presented the best book to paper, at school or on television, he, like date on how and why the gay rights debate must move from the base of emotion and most gays gr6_wing up, had no guidance, fear to fact~ and logic. Check for "Virtudiscussion Or role models to help explain ally Normal" on the Tulsa City-County the confusion he was gorng through. The main part of this book is focused on Library catalog, or call 596-7966. Timothy W. Daniel ment shortly and will probably then be voted on again by the commission in early December. The newspaper reported that the commission’s recommendations will also include an alternative proposal to create a statewide domestic partnership registration that would effectivdy extend to same-sex couples all the benefits under state control th at married opposite-sex couples enjoy. The Advertiser, the state’s largest-circulating daily, also editorially endorsed the commission’s anticipated action, sayang it was taking "a reasonable stand that should be adopted by the legislature" and that "gay couples should have the legal right to marry in Hawaii." Hill brings extensive experience as a trainer in suicide imervention and has served as a teacher of living skills -for legally blind citizens for the State Visual Services agency and has served on the Advisory Committee for the Assistive Technology Center. He is chair of the Para Transit Sub-committee of the Special Transportation Advisory Committee (STAC) to the Indian Nations Council of Governments (INCOG) and Tulsa Transit Hill also volunteers with Youth Services of Tulsa’s TYDD Program and is a life-long member of 1 st Lutheran Church of Tulsa where he is a member of the choir and has served twice as a member of the church board. He sings with the Tulsa Oratorio Chorus and also worships with Community of Hope congregation. reviewed, saying that the state could give visitation rights to an individual who had a"parent-like relationship"with the child, whether the individuals were heterosexual or a non-traditional couple. Knott appealed that state high court ruling to the U.S. Supreme Court. Court Rules For Gay Adoptions NEW YORK - New York’s Court of Appeals, the state’s highest court, has ruled that couples do not have to be married in order to adopt, a ruling that, while it also applies to unmarried heterosexuals, is strongly welcomed by same-sex couples. "There’s been a collective holding of our breath around the state," said Paula Ettelbrick of the Empire State Pride Agenda. Although the high court’s ruling does not mean that gay and lesbian couples will automatically be given adoption rights, it does mean that state courts can not use marital status in determining adoption applications. In late October, a New Jersey court ruled that a lesbian could adopt the son and daughter of her lover because i t was in the "best interests"of the 2 children. A lower state court had blocked the adoption, saying it was not allowed under state law. OK Lesbian & Gay Soccer A car pool is being sponsored by the OK Spoke Club to go from Tulsa to OKC for Sat. morning soccer practices of the OKC Wildcats team. The Wildcats team is seeking novice and advanced playo;~. Jerry, aTulsamember of the team hopes to form a Tulsa team if there is sufficient interest. For information, call 582-3212. People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan. Attorne3" at Law Leanne Gross Retirement planning Life, health & income insurance, & investment placing. 744-0102 Mention this ad to receive free initial consultation. Know Your Rights! Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury, Criminal Law, Bankruptcy &i.wdrkers Compensation 1-800 7 2-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. �$1 Haven tgone down lately. . - s~Chnao ~:-ver~os --.--- .,~ay Ground Zero The Cockpit of Tulsa Join us presents ! the hottest r~ale dancers in town - Body X-Press Inc.. 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It’s Karaoke Time 8pm-2am, We’ll include a wonderful buffet at lopm & free party favors! $5 cover Barraccuda says: Don’t forget our Jan. 28th 2nd Annual Super Bowl Party Free Keg at Kickoff- Free chili dogs $1 longnecks during game -.$2 cover The first Saturday of every ~ month is ’ Showlr Night .Saturday $3 cover Every Sunday is Beer Bust Tulsa’s First Internet Party Customer access to the Internet Open to close everyday We tap a Free Keg at 7:00 pro, then Showtime 10:30 Watch for details on " Choose your own time: 2 hours - $3/all day �Dec. 22, Featuring On Jail. 28, two of this country’s most prestigious entertainers Maya Douglas, Miss Gay USofA 1995 and Chelsea Pearl, Miss Gay USofA At-Large 1996, along with Cherry Monroe, Miss Gay Oklahoma U SofA 1995 will be in Tulsa for the 1996 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant at Concessions, 3340 So. Peoria. Doors open at 8pm with a $5 cover and the pageant begins at 9 sharp. Cherry Monroe will be crowning the winner of the 1996 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant and contestants will be competing for over $1500 in cash and prizes. Competition catagories are Personal Interview, Evening Gown and Talent. Special awards include the Amii Dyshea Talent award and Sasha Loren Most Beautiful Award honoring these two Sid Spencer N otes SALOON New Year’s Eve Parer at the Star Buffet~ Champagne T0ast, Party Favors, $5 cover Christmas Show Green Country Cloggers Wednesday Night Showcase Drag Rodeo hosted by Courtney Farrell Friday’Night Party Night Jan. 5th, Music Giv~awa~ 834-4234, 1565 S. Sheridan W-Sun. 7-2am continued from page 8 First off: R & H’s Cinderdla: Starting off as the only musical Rodgers and Hammerstein wrote specifically for television, and one of the first ever written for TV, 1! was pleasant enough to see on stage, but just didn’t quite make the leap all the way across the chasm. The show did have a gay sensibility to it as directed by John Ruocco, who was assistant to the director of Terrence McNally’s very gay play, "Love! Valor! Compassion!". The King, as portrayed by David Boughn, was definitely wed to the queen as a matter of convenience. He was definitely more interested in the manservants (who were quite beautiful as well) than his wife. Like many "old-fashioned" gay man/ 9.2,3340S, Peo Tulsa, 918-744-0896 very missed entertainers and former Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA’s. The winner and first runner-up will represent Oklahoma in the 1996 Miss Gay USofA Pageant in May. Miss Gay USofA Pageant is the largest pageant for female impersonators in the country. The Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant has been honored by the National Pageant with the Best New Preliminary Pageant.award and the Hospitality award and the Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant owner, David Bridgrnan, was given the Owners Award for Business Person of the Year in 1995. Interested contestants may pick up info. packets at dubs and businesses across the state or may contact the pageant promoter, David Bridgman at 918-838-3701. woman marriages, the queen is a"beard". Probably best friends, and fond of each other, but quite an interesting direction for the father of Prince Charming. And they worry quite frantically over finding a woman to make him happy! Throughout the play, he seemed much more comfortable with his manservants. Speaking of, he was quite a sight to behold. There were certain attributes, visible from a seat slightly towards the rear orchestra, that were quite breathtaking to behold. What a scepter! And visible even to my nearsighted, astgmafic eyes! Needless to say, the costumes were well executed, showing off the best of the actors. The singing was very beautiful - Matt Clemens, as see Notes, page 15 �Notes cont’d from p. 14 Prince C, had quite alovely tenor volce, and Miss Cindy was very well sung by Leslie Lorusso. However, this production was meant for a more intimate venue, no doubt about it. No splashy showtunes,just nice quite melodies. The stepmother and sisters were the high point of the show, being played like really mean drag queens havin~ a bad hair day. The "Stepsister’s Lament" really showcased their comedic "talents excellently, and the soundtrack (available in both Julie Andrews or Lesley Anne Warren versions) is worth having, and the show worth seeing for this song alone. It seems to be the only song R & H put any effort into. As for the rest of the show, I found it rather bland. The main problem was that the actors were "playing down" to the audience in the worst "children’s theater" manner making sure every joke was extremely over-the-top, so all the kiddies would get it. This, I’m sure, was not the intent of R & H when they wrote the piece. In order for the show to work, it has TALKING PERSONALS! HUNDREDS OF GUYS TO CH( ¯ " ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ to be treated as an adult show much of the humor is certainly meant for adults - while retaining the fairy-tale elements as well. Pacing was a crucial element as well, and unfortunately, in this aspect, the show did not succeed. Ithadmoments,butnot enough to fill two hours. Two snaps and a yawn for the show in general, four snaps for theprince and the stepsisters. Marilyn Maye, however, puts on a terrific show - everything from standards of the ’30’s to current songs. I’d not heard of herbeforeI was told I’dbegolng ¯ to the show, but I am now a ¯ dedicated fan. After the dedication of a song "To lovers every" where .... no matter who they love", and a wry look at to the ¯ audience- I realized this woman ¯ knew her audience included gay ¯ folk, andwas very inclusive. And ¯ what a stager/actres!! Some : people can sing prettily, but miss ¯ the wholemessage/emotionofa ¯ song. Not so, Ms. Maye. She can ¯ make you feel a song. When she ¯ comes back to Tulsa, I would ¯ urge you strongly tO see this gay. friendly performer. Her stage persona is delightful, and the laughs between the songs were plentiful. A lovely evening. Maybe my partner, the h,~rdest working man in Tulsa, c,~m actually take time to join me uext time! (He’d planned to, but type AAA personality that he is....) And if you haven’t seen Toy Story, don’t delay! You will be bowled over by the sheer technical genius. This is helped along by a very strong script that balances well between kiddie humor and adult guffaws. There were definitely some queer folk behind this one. It is a hoot from beginning to end. Four snaps. ,OM~ CALL NOW! Call The 900 number to respond to ads, browse unlisted ads, or retrieve messages. Only $1.99 per minute. 18+. C/S: 415-281-3183 Manford GOOD OLE’ BOY: GWM, 135, 5’5", blonde hair, hazel eyes, 35, varied interests, seek GWM’s, 18-40, For friendship and more. 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We’ll do what it takes to find the best solution for you. Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative POB 14011 Tulsa, OK 74159-1011 918-747-3320 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities -Our Families of the Heart December 15, 1995- January 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue I National News Oregon Lesbian Activists Murdered : "MEDFORD, Ore. - Police in Medford, : Ore., report that they have located the ¯ bodies of Roxanne Ellis and Michelle "- Abdill; long-time lesbian activists who ¯ have been deeply involved in fighting off anti-gay ballot initiatives in the state for i several years. The 2 women, who had : been partners for 12 years, were found in : the back of a pickup trnek belonging to ¯ Ellis. The couple were last seen on Dec. 4 : see Murder, page 11 : Hearings Feature Anti-Gay Agenda Washington, DC By the end of Dec. 6th, the "Parents, Schools and Values," Congressional hearing revealed itself-to be precisely what youth advocates had feared: a taxpayer funded platform for anti-gay extremists. The two day hearing came to a close today before the House Economic and Employment Subcommittee on Oversight and Investigations.. The hearings became the focus of a national outcry when Lou Sheldon, an anti-gay extremistandChairman of the Traditional Values Coalition, claimed the hearings were scheduled at his request to discuss the "promotion of homosexuality in the public schools." see House, page 11 Hawaii Commission Urges Gay Marriage HONOLULU-The Honolulu Advertiser " has reported that the state commission " created to evaluate gay and lesbian mar- , riages will urge the legislature to "change ¯ Hawaii law toallow gay couples to marry." " The Commission on Sexual Orientation " and Law was created after the Hawaii Supreme Court ordered alower court to review a suit bylesbian andgay couples to " get mamage licenses, saying that in order : to refuse thelicenses the state had to prove ¯ a "corn pelling interest" to deny licenses because of the gender of the 2 people " involved. The commission has not yet ¯ released any actual recommendations, but the paper reported that the commission’s ¯ report will be distributed for public comsee Hawaii, page 12 " Visitation Rights ¯ Case to Continue ¯ SayS-High Court 2 WASHINGTON- The U.S. Supreme " Court has let stand; without comment, a ¯ Wisconsin statesupreme court ruling that ¯ would let .the former parmer continue ; with her court battle to have visitation ¯ rights withher ex-lover’s biological son. ¯ After Etsbeth Knott, the biological mother- "- of the boy, and Sandra Lynn Holtzman, " ended their 10-year relationship, Knott ¯ attempted to prevent Holtzman from see: ¯ ing the 6-year-old boy. The Wisconsin " Supreme Courtearlier tiffs year overturned ¯ a state lower court ruling denying ¯ Holtzman any rights, and ordered the case 12 Bill Stoskopf& Mark Lackey of Black & White Charities present gifts to SharOn Thoele of the HIVResource Consortium One ofmany organizations at the World ($5000) &to Claudette Peterson ofTOHR AIDS Day March at the Univ. of Tulsa, ($2500) from this year’s fundraisers. see related stories this page and page 8. PFLAG was also a beneficiary ($2500). ¯ PFLAG, Thwarted In TV Effort, Turns To Print Campaign For Anti-Hate Message ¯"" The Tulsa chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, in response ~ to the difficulties encountered in getting their Project Open Mind anti-hate commercials ~ on television inTulsa, have begun a campaign for a signature advertisement to run in The ¯ Tulsa World. The ad calls for Tulsans to stand against"hatred, hate speech and violence" ¯ against individuals based on their sexual orientation and "to recognize the strong link ~ between hate speech, teen suicide and violent physical attacks..." The Tulsa Worldis on ] record as having a policy banning the use of the words, Gay or Lesbian in advertising ¯ but apparently have chosen to allow an exception for this ad.The ad is scheduled to run ¯ sometime early this next year. ; Two Project Open Mind television commercials were to be tested in Tulsa, Houston : &Atlanta. InTulsa, ouly Ch. 2,KTULbriefly aired one of the pair but stopped. Attorneys ¯ for the Christian Broadcasting Network, who objected to the use of footage of evangelist ¯¯ Pat Robertson &Jerry Falwell, had threatened legal action against stations broadcasting the commercials. PFLAG is asking individuals and organizations, dubs, cong~:,e&atio~as, ¯ etc. to sign the anti-hate ad. There is no cost since funds that were to be iised ~6 buy TV ¯ air time will now oar for the-orint ad. Formore information call the PFLAG at 749-4901. ~r / ’ AIDS Day: Tulsa & Elsewhere NEW YORK - "Shared Rights, Shared Responsibilities" was the theme of.World AIDS Day, as the United Nations announced a massive global mobilization program to deal with the epidemic. From UN Secretary-General Boutros Boutros- Ghali to prominent Hollywood film personalities, from the largest cities to smaller communities, hundreds of thousands of people and some 7,.000 groups in 190 localities around the world marked the day in a varxety of ways. In Tulsa, the event was marked by Interfaith AIDS Ministries annual march and memorial service held this year at the University of Tulsa. Over 300 igeople attended with many organizations carrying banners. The service featured speakers, Jason Smith of TOHR’s Testing Clinic and attorney and longtime community. activist., Bob Inglish. Choirs from Family of Faith MCC, Tulsa Family Chorale and FirSt Presbyterian Church performed. TU Provost Dr. Lewis Duncan, the Rev. Ken McIntosh, the Rev. Henry Knight provided welcome or prayers, and Dr. Doreen Wood read a World AIDS Day proclamation from Mayor M. Susan Savage. The American Foundation for AIDS Research (AmFAR), a prominent nonprofit U.S. group that has been headed by actress Elizabeth Taylorannounced that it is awarding.nearly a million dollars in research grants to 14 scientists working on the epidemic. The foundation also named American actress Sharon Stone to 3 World 1/2M AIDS Cases WASHINGTON-Somany young Americans - one of ever." 92 young men and one of every 33 young black men - are believed infected with HIV that it threatens to become a deadly "rite of passage" in this country, said Philip Rosenberg of the National Cancer Institute. Rosenberg’s comments in the journal Science, coincide with an announcement by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that the AIDS epidemic has now reached 501,310 cases in the U.S. since 1981 with 311,381 deaths. The sobering statistics illuminate the government’s warnings that AIDS is quickly turning into more of a threat to the nation’s youth, even as it tapers off among older people. Using CDC. data, Rosenberg also estimated that one in every 60 Hispanic men see AIDS, page 3 White House. AIDS Conf. Heard in Tulsa WASHINGTON-"Wecan conquer this ," said President Clinton in convening the first White House conference on AIDS in~ the 15 years of the epidemic’s history, bringing together teachers, doctors, researchers, people withHIV and their family. In Tulsa, local HIV activists and specialists gathered to listen to the conference at the University Center at Tulsa. After the broadcast, locals intended to begin planning for current efforts to respond to the epidemic. Outside the Executive Office meeting in DC, however, protesters and AIDS activists demonstrated, charging that the conference i Rob Hill To Run For i School Bd. Seat 6 : Rob Hill, social services specialist with ¯ Helpline for 15 years, announces his candidancy for Tulsa Public Schools Dis- " trict 6. Hill is a graduate of Will Rogers High Schogl and a 1968 graduate of North- :: eastern.. State University in Tahlequah, ¯ with a Bachelors in Psychology. ; "I hope to bring my experience and ¯ knowledge of Tulsa’s community ser- ¯ vices and resources to Tulsa Public ¯ Schools," says Hill. "I have first hand : knowledge to help our schools deliver ¯ high quality services as efficiently as pos- ¯ sine. I’m committed to combining fiscal ¯ conservatism with the best quality education for our children." see Hill. p. 12 TOHR Votes for ¯ Community Center ¯ Tulsa moved a little closer to having a ¯ community meeting place when mem- ¯ bers of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human ¯ Rights (TOHR) voted at an emergency ~ meeting Nov. 21 to authorize TOHR of- ¯ ricers to put together an offer on a prop- - erty. As of press time, the deal with the ¯ current owner is still in negotiation but ~t ¯ is hopeful that the issues can be resolved : so that renovation of the building might ¯ ..~ti~_,.~g~: ’,~ v ex,t y-eaL At tlaat time, tnere ~W’Wi~.I~"’e a~ -n"~~."’d’ for’"c"o~’ "~;" ty" volunteers ¯ to provide painting, ci~-up, and light :,ocoi~structiOt~ work. Info: 743-GAYS, INSIDE EDITORIAL P. 2 DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P. 6 CALENDAR P. 9 EUREKA PAGES P. 10-11 New Pentecosta Church Welcomes Gays & Lesbians The Rev. Clay Cody and Agape’ Christian Fellowship, a new Pentecostal congregation, have announced that they will begin holding worship services at the Sheridan Center, Suite H, at 21st and Sheridan Road. The services will be held at 10:30 am beginning on December 31. Pastor Cody, formerly an Assembly of GodPastor Evangelist, believes that there are many Gay, Lesbian andTransgendered Pentecostal Christians in the Tulsa area who have had to worship in "mainstream’" churches and who were unable to express fully themselves as GayChristians. Agape’ Christian Fellowship "extends the fight hand of fellowship" to everyone regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation. The Pentecostal movement had its origin in the widespread desire in the hearts of men and women for greater closeness to God. It is a reaction to the formalism, coldness and .unbelief Pentecostal Christians perceive in modern churches. Pentecostal Christians profess a belief in their experience of the supernatural power of God in their lives and their faith in the Bible which they consider the infallible, 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@aol.com Publisher/Editor Issued.on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of Tom Neal this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family Assistant Editor News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without James Christjohn written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or Writers/contributors photo does not indicate thal person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barry Hensley noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tutsa Family Pat Morehead News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each Staff, Photographer reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution JD Jamett points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. With this issue, Tulsa Family News begins our third year. We give our thanks to you, our readers & also to those who have-helped us; with stories& with criticism. Especially, we thank, our writers,- our advertisers & our enormously patient printers whomakebringing qualitynews reporting toTulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender folk, families & friends possible. This is a labor of love, & sometimes, a little profit. So, when we’re fending off censorship or the flack that comes with having a viewpoint, it helps to remember the praise we’ve received. We were proud when distinguished former CBS News journalist, Ann Northrup, lauded Tulsa Family News, lamenting that she wished NYC had a paper like this. And we’ve heard similar praise from others. We promase you to continue bringing you the best local & national news coverage of any Oklahoma Gay paper. We have faith in Tulsa’s promise &with your help, Tulsa wil1 get better and better for us & our families. Happy holidays - Tom Neal Suck & Blow Syndrome by Pat ,.~lorehead Merry Christmas andn~iLV the Ne~:Year bring you a better yearth~ 1995. 95.hasbeen a weird year. I’m not sure we ~3an view it as a "watershed" year, but it has certainly pointed out the absolute schizophrenia of our national culture. ~I learned a long time ago of a psychological phenomenon referred to as the "suck and blow" syndrome which is where I think America is currently trapped. The suck and blow ,syndrome in essence states that one can’t.simultaneously "suck andblow". In other words it is not possible, in a healthy mental State, to perform to conceptual opposites. Translation, you are not in a healthy mental state when you are obsessed with a "pro-life" crusade that sanctions killing physicians who perform abortions as the way to advance your cause.. But it is exactly this suck and blow syndrome which seems to be driving almost every cultural force in America today. It is schizophrenic tO foist Off a life view of 1950’s and 60’s television programming in an America where elementary students carry guns. Ozzie and Harriet never had to deal with that situation. Or for cable compames to promote a KIDS CLICKER remote control to protect children from accessing what the very same cable provider carries on ft’s other channels. It is suck and blow time when in order to improve life in America for the "next generation" politicians are prepared to unfnnd and dismantle Environmental Protection laws. Or for those same politicians to continually summon images of family life and cultural values of an agrarian America which no longer exists. And at the same time to sell off the National Parks of this country in order for businesses to rape and plunder those same park lands. As my uncle used to say, someone needs to just slap some sense into us. I have hopes that 1996 will be the year when that happens. The hate-mongers see UPC, page 3 - MCC~Grehte~-TiJIsa- Responds to TFN First, Rev. Alice Jones left voluntarily because she felt God’s calling in anew direction. Rev. Jones served as pastor of MCC of Greater Tulsa for over 16 years. She frequently defended the whole Tulsa Gay/Lesbian community in situations, such as the recent Human Rights Commission hearings. Anyone who leads any group for over 16 years will have detractors who disagree with some things. Rev. Jones accomplished many things, and the congregation of MCC of Greater Tulsa are proud to have had her as our pastor. Regarding implied problems with the District of UFMCC, it is true that we were changed from a chartered.church to a commissioned church. The demands on a chartered church have changed in recent years, and this change has some important advantages for MCC of Greater Tulsa as we seek a new pastor. The main change is in the pastor compensation package, giving the local church greater flexibility. To imply a conflict exists between MCC of [(]reater] Tulsa and District leaders is wrong and inaccurate. The Board of Directors are working closely with the District on the pastoral search. Although, like many churches from time to time, we are behind in our tithes to the District. -~ However, the Board of Directors and the congregation are taking steps to correct this, and we will become a Chartered Church again. Regarding perceived irregularities in our Financial Records, the finances ofMCC of Greater Tulsa have always been open to any member or friend of the Church. Open Board meetings and Congregational meetings are held regularly, and anyone attending may ask questions. AnAudit Committee, of church members, are currently reviewing the Church records to clarify any bookkeeping errors. Volunteers handling church records may sometimes make errors, but there is no question as to the honesty and integrity of those involved. As MCC of Greater Tulsa seeks anew pastor, the members and the Board of Directors look forward to many years ahead serving the needs of the local church and the entire Tulsa Gay/Lesbian Community. - The Board of Directors & Members Editor’s response: TFN would like to make this correction: Alice Jones did notpreach on Sunday morning, Oct. 29 as we stated in .our last issue. We regret that error and apologizefor our mistake. However, we stand by the accuracy of the rest of the artgcle. ¯ TFN also applauds MCC of Greater Tulsa for : resp~idihgpublicdlly tdfU~ article~ We agreew~th ~ several oftheir points. The concerns raised in our : article are not, however, the ones they addressed. ~ The question is: what’s going onfinancially? What makes this issue a matter ofpublic concern ¯ are the size of thefinancial irregularities and the ’ appearance of no management overstght. The ¯ amountunaccountedfor,possibly as much as $6,000 ¯ or more, is significant. This is about 10% of the ¯ annual income of this church. It is too much for ¯ members to dismiss with a comment, " volunteers ¯ make mistakes..." Also in the UFMCC, the pastor ¯ serves not only as staffbut also as moderator ofthe ¯ board ofdirectors. And in that role, as "president" ¯ of the board, that person is resposibility for the ¯ proper functioning ofan organization, especially ¯ overseeingfinancial accountability, see MCC, p. 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Concessions, 3340 S Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time’n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Wild Nights, 2405 E. 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"That’s a very. disturbing future," Rosenberg said. wasn’t about the disease at all, but was "election year rhetoric." Inside, Clinton underscored his administration’s commitment to battling the .epidemic, saying he had increased funding for AIDS research and treatment during his term in office, and promising to fight off efforts by the Republican-controlled Congress to cut AIDS spending next year. Clinton also announced that early next year Vice President AI Gore will host a conference of scientists and representatives from drug manufacturers to try to find ways to speed up the development of promising AIDS medications. "Our common goal must ultimately be a cure," Clinton told the some 300 people attending. "A cure for all those living with HIV, and a vaccine to protect the res t ofus from the virus. A cure and a vaccine - that must be our first and top priority." Although those attending the conference generally applauded Clinton, it was also dear that pressure on tomfoolery! even at our worst, better than~the rest Tulsa’s best Pride Store at Family of Faith MCC 5451-e So. Mingo, Sat. noon-6, 583-1248 New location coming in ’96 ¯ the administration is far from easing up. ¯ Dr. Edward Morse, a research sociologist ¯ from Louisiana, also challenged the ad- ¯ ministration to make some tough deci- ¯ sions about the epidemic. "There is no ¯¯ point in beating around the bush," Morse ~aidin presenting Clinton with areport on ¯ IV drug abuse and HIV. "We must face ¯ the issue of needle exchange. A third of ¯ AIDS cases are based on substance abuse. ¯ That is a major key in the solution to this ¯ problem." ¯ When an activist shouted that Clinton ¯ hadfailed to keep his campaign promises ¯ about AIDS, Clinton vehemently rejected ¯ the charge. Clinton quickly replied, "We ¯ had a set of recommendations that. we ~ received whe~n w~got’here, m~st of w.hieh. ¯ have been i~mplemented. I am very sorry ¯ that thereis not a cure. I amvery sorry that ¯ there is not a vaccine. I regret that every- " thing I have asked for has not been ap- ¯ proved by the Congress." ¯ have started stirring the pot and stuff is ; beginning to slop out over the edges. ¯ Things may well get worse before they ¯ get better. But I have faith that ultimately ¯ th~ basic decency and common sense of ordinary people will take command. As Mr. Lincoln said, you can fool some of the : people all of the time, and all of the people : some time, but you can’t fool all of the ¯ people all of the time. I guess those two things are my mes- ; sage of positive hope for all of us for the ¯ coming new year. I believe in the basic "- decency ofordinary people and their com- ¯ mon sense to react when things get to ¯ weird. I suggest we all start practicing THEY’LL EAT IT UP! 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And one more suggestion for the new year: always keep your powder dry, otherwise it tends~to cake up when applied around the eyes. HO HO HO! Comments, responses and cheap shots can be E-mailed to TulsaNews@aol.com We hope that there is a good explanation for the discrepancy between amount presented in theyear~endfinancial report and the much lower amount reported to be in the church’s bank account(s) at the congregational meeting. However, even if there are explanations for every dime, or even if this is an accounting error repeatedforyears, the existance ofsuch a large discrepancy in thefinancial report speakspoorly ofAliceJones’ performance, not as. pastor, but as moderator - the person ultimately responsible. When this discrepancy is combined with the issue of back tithes owed and other outstanding debts, some would say Alice Jones and her board failed ~o do their job well enough. Mismanagement is not dishonesty and mismanagement doesn’t negate the good Alice Jones has done but the church and our communities do have a right to expect accurate accounting. TO DISCO head a 3-year fundraising campaign. Hundreds of museums around the world marked the day by observing "A Day Without Art," an effort by art institutions to dramatize the effect of the epidemic on the creative community. Tulsa’s Philbrook Museum draped the Rodin statue that graces its entry to recognize the day. On the Internet, scores of World Wide Websites from Japan to Finland participated in their own version of the event, dubbed "A Day Without Graphics," by going blank, removing graphics and pho- ::r tos :for the ’day. Singers from the’Metro- :- p01itan Opera in New York performed at the United Nations, while at the city’s St. Mark’s Church, Dancers Responding to AIDS performed 24 hours nonstop, featuring dancers from the Paul Taylor and Merce Cunningham dance companies. And at least 165 cable systems and local television stations had slated a variety of AIDS-related programming, including broadcasts of "’Philadelphia," "And the Band Played On" and "Longtime Compamon" on leading premium cable systems. HIV/AIDS Education & Volunteer Training Class The HIV Resource Consortium will hold a comprehensive but non-technica] program on HIV & AIDS issues. The class will be held on a weekend and five weekday evenings beginning Jan. 13. Space ~s limited - call for more info: 749-4194. The Consortium serves as the center for s.ervices for persons affected or infected .@"...wi!~H:IV/.At.DS in northeast Oklahoma. pecialized sholo, actively buying, selling & consigning Deco, 50’s moderne furniture, kitchen kitsch, psychedelic collectables, 50"s lamps, -: costume jewelry + accessones, 3213 e, 15th 749-3620 Open Arms Open Minds open Hearts Saint Aidan’s 4045 NO. Cincinnati. 425-7882 Saint John’s 4200 So. Atlanla PI.. 742-7381 Trinity 5Ol so. C~ndnnatL 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Poet E. Hemphill Dead : ronym that stands for "double pigs." An open letter to Mugabe " areas as insurance and pension Key West MCC Excluded PHILADELPHIA-Poet, author, editor and rights activist Essex Hemphill has died of AIDS-related complications. Mr. Hemphill, author of highly acclaimed "Ceremonies: Prose and Poetry," also worked on the documentaries "Looking for Langston," "Tongues Untied" and "Black Is ... Black Ain’t." He was 38 years old at the time of his death. Nasty Reaction to ’Gay Mortgages’ in Australia " MEL’BOIJRNE,’~U~tr~fi~L~e Australian gay paper Brother Sister News has reported that an announcement earlier in November by Australian Mortgages that it would start offering discounted bank home loans to gay and lesbian couples early next)’ear has brought the lending institution a number of hostile phone calls. including abomb threat. Despite the negative reaction from some Aussies, however, a spokesperson for the firm said it had no intention of backing away from the reduced mortgage rate offer. "’We are not going to back off," Australian Mortgages" Ron Guthrie told the paper. "I’m just saddened and very disappointed at the attitude of some people.’" The company said the reduced rates for lesbian and gaY couples would probably be about 1.5% lower than standard marketrates. Australian Mortgage Saidit had decided to offer the discounted home loans partly because of the history of antigay bias in the mortgage .industry, but also because same-sex couples represent an excellent market segment for the housing industry. Guthrie’said that many gay couples are fairy well-paid professiohals with 2 incomes and no children. "They are true DINKS,’" he said, using the ac- ¯ income, no kids, single.’" ¯ Partnership Ceremony ¯ Proposal in S.F. ¯ SAN FRANCISCO - The San Francisco Board of Supervisors ¯ has received a proposed mea- ¯ sure that would authorize the ¯ county clerk’s office to perform ¯ domestic partnership ceremonies similar to the marriage ceremonies it performs for couples who ¯ get married at city hall. The city has had a domestic partner regis- ¯ tration ordinance for seve_ral " ~ years, l~tit the d~unly cl~rk’~ 6ffice has no authority tO officiate- ¯ at any civil ceremony connected ¯ with registration. The proposed ¯ measure to authorize performing the ceremony, which would ¯ convey no particular legal sta- ¯ tus, was introduced by Supervi- ¯ sor Barbara Kaufman. ¯ Mugabe Rejects Critics ¯ AUCKLAND, New Zealand - ¯¯ According to the New Zealand Herald, Zimbabwe President ¯ Robert Mugabe said he was un- ¯ concerned about sharp criticism ¯ he has received for his verbal ¯ attacks againsthomosexuals. On :,,,leaving the annual Common- "¯ wealth Heads of Government meeting, Mugabe brushed off reporters questions about criticism he has received from hu- ¯ man rights activists, saying the topic was "abhorrent.’" Lesbian ¯ and gay activists protested out- " side the meeting of the Com- ¯ monwealth Heads of Govern- " ment, to draw attention to the anti-gay attacks by Mugabe. Earlier this year, Mugabe’s gov- ¯ ernment barred the Gays & Les- ¯ bians of Zimbabwe from run- ¯ ning a literature booth at an in- " ternational book fair in Harare, ¯ the nation’s capital. In a speech ¯ he called gays "’sodomists and sexual perverts" and later said gays were "worse than dogs and Miracleglass Neil Ray Owner EXPRESS POOLS & SPAS (918) 743-9994 6310 S. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74136 from activists said, "We protest : moststrongly against these statements as we.believe that you have seriously endangered the lives and good health of a significant minority of your citizens." Federal Court OKs Anti-Bias Protections SAN FRANCISCO - The 9th . Circuit Court of Appeals’ governing Judicial Council has voted to include anti-bias protections that include sexual orientation, ifi~’fir’si ~d~r’al coh~t di~tfiCi io adopt such a policy. The newly adopted regulations apply to all circuit employees, as well as to workers under the supervision of the federal courts in the large 9th Circuit, including federal probation officers, marshals and public defenders. The new employment policy was adopted after the federal Judicial Conference, which is headed by Supreme Court Chief Justice Will- ,am Relmquist, ordered all the federal circuit appeals courts to include anti-discrimination regulations, although the Conference’s recommendations only extended to race, gender, religion, age and disability. An initial recommendation to include sexual orientation protections was dropped by a Judicial Council committee earlier this year, but when the Council reached ¯ the point of a vote on new em- ~ ployment protections xt put the sexual orientation protections back in with the approval of all 9 ¯ Council members. The 9th Circuit includes California, Wash- " ington, Oregon, Idaho, Montana, Nevada, Arizona, Hawaii, ". Alaska, Guam and the Northern ¯ Mariana Islands. : Canadian Gov’t. Adds : Gay Couples Benefits : OTYAWA - Canada’s govern- ¯ ment has taken a giant step and extended at least some of the ¯" benefits enjoyed by mamed fed- ] eral employees to gay and les- ] bian partners of government ¯ workers as well. CanadianRights ¯ activists lauded the Treasury : Board’s decision, which affects : more than 200,000 government workers, as a"great step forward : for equality" in the country. The new policy hardly represents _" putting same-sex couples on an ¯ equal footing withmamedworkers, however, and does not in- " dude such ~mportant traditional at all. But it does break dramatic new ground, activists said, and : does allow govenmlent employ-. ees to take a leave of absence for ,an ailing partner, permits workers to have bereavement leave in the event of file death of a partner, and extends to a worker’s partner the same .flight and housing allowances g~ven to spouses of govenunent employees on work asst~m~ents around the cotmtry. Conservative le~slators quickly attacked the move, saying die government had made the policy change "behind the back" of Parlimnent. The Canadian legislature recently rejected a measure that wouldhave given legal reco~fition to stone-sex couples. The new benefits pro.- granl does not apply to semiautonomous government finns (such as the Canadian Broadcasting Corp.), to the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, to the nation’s armed forces, or to Parliament itself, which all regulate their own employee policies and benefits. So. Africa May End Military Ban CAPE TOWN, South Africa - The defense committee of South Africa’s Parliament has approved a proposal that writes into the nation’s military policy a prohibition against discrimination based on sexual orientation in the country’s armed forces. African National Congress representative Lindiwe Sisulu said following the committee vote that the policy decision wouldn’t be binding on the government, but would nevertheless carry considerable political weight for any future administration. Military Recruiters Face Legal Challenge in CT NEW HAVEN, Conn. - The Connecticut Supreme Court has ¯ finished hearing arguments in a ¯ gay rights case that challenges : the right of state-supported schools to permit military recrmters on their campuses. The case argues that the University : of Connecticut violated state ¯ anti-bias laws by allowing mili- : tary recruiters on campus be- : cause of the U.S armed forces’ : policy of excluding lesbian and : gay. service members. Discriminauon based on sexual orientation is illegal under state law. From Christmas Parade (EY WEST, Fla. - Christmas arrived in this south Florida resort community with a resounding "bah, humbug" for gays and esbians who make up a substantial portion of the town’s population when the Lower Keys Mira sterial Associatton refused to allow the local Metropolitan Co~nmunity Church in its annual Christmas parade, the first time the predominantly, gay church has asked to parttopate in the event. The Rev. Gary Redwine, who heads up the celebration, denied the association’s decision was anu-gay, but said allowing MCC to join would be contrary to "the image of biblical morality and family that we wish to project." On the day of the event, several hundred protesters clustered outside one of the largest churches along the parade route in silent protest and were joined by ministers from a number of local churches who refused to participate because of MCC’s exclusion. The number of people participating in the parade this year was reportedly almost half what it usually is. Reporter’s Anti-Lesbian Remarks Confirmed NEW YORK - In May, Valerie Hehnbreck, a reporter with the Wilmington (Del.) News-Jour- ¯ hal caused a major flap in the ". sports world when she quoted ¯ CBS-TV golf commentator Ben : Wright in an interview as saying that women aren’t as good at go : Ifas men becanse they are"handi- -" capped by having boobs" and ¯ that "lesbians in the sport hurt : women’s golf"and were turning ¯ itinto a"butch game"that scared ¯ away sponsors. Wright ada- ~ mantly denied saying any of the ~ things Hdmbreck attributed to : him. CBS accepted his denial ¯ and shortly thereafter renewed Wright’s 4-year contract. But now, in the Dec. 4 issue of the subscribers-only "Golf Plus" ~ edition, no less a source than ". Sports Illustratedhas confirmed ~ that Wright did indeed make the .- remarks. The "Golf Plus" edition quotes DanJenkins, a sports writer, who said he talked to ] Wright shortly after the flap ¯. erupted. "I asked him" Did you ¯ say it?’ And he said, "Of course ¯ I said it. But I was granted com- .- plete anonymity.’" The article, ¯ entitled"Living With a Lie,"also LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ° Res: 918-582-7672 ° Fax: 918-747-1795 Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2rid & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-$272 Corner of 48th & Peori~ 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. Open Saturdays thru holidays! News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News quotes Ken Doig, a part-time CBS-TV stafferanda golfcaddy, who told the magazine he listened to Wright being interviewed by Helmbreck and. confirmed the quotes. "I heard Ben say boobs (get in the way of women golfers’ swing). I heard ¯ such a respected theologian in ¯ the church’s evangelical wing, which generally opposes any acceptance of homosexuals ¯ within the church. "The Bible has been misinterpreted by ¯ evangelicals,"Vasey said. "They ¯ read anti-gay meanings into the him say lesbianism h,,urts in get- ¯ Bible to explain theirfears. There ting sponsorships, Doig is ." is no text on the lips of Jesus quoted as telling the magazine. " Christ which condemns homo- "I’m a golfer and golf is a game ¯ of integrity. I believe in telling ¯ the truth." The "Golf Plus" edition is not sold on newsstands, _" but goes out to some half-mil- ¯ lion subscribers of the maga- ¯ zine. ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Goes to Appeals Court " RICHMOND, Va’. - In an un- _. usual step, all 13 judges of the . U.S. Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals heard the appeal of Lt. Paul Thomasson in his challenge ¯ to the Defense Department’s so- . called "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy ofexcluding homosexuals . from military service. ° Thomasson’s case is the first ° against the new policy to reach the federal appeals court level. : Thomasson told his command- o ing officer he was gayjust 5 days . after the new policy went into effect. The former Navy lieutenant’s attorneys argued that Thomasson’s discharge violated his First Amendment rights of free speech. But Justice Department attorneys representing the Defense Department argued that .by acknowledging that he is gay, it was reasonable to assume he has a "propensity" to engage in homosexual acts, whichmilitary officials insist "undermines the morale of t he U.S. armed services." The appeals court is not expected to rule on the case until sometime next year, No Support in Bible for Anti-Gay Attitude LONDON - British gay rights activists found unusual supp6rt in their quest to reform the view of the Church of England on homosexuality with a prominent evangdical theologian’s book that argues there is no biblical support for church con demnation of homosexuality. The Rev. Michael Vasey, a lecturer at St. John’s theological college in Durham, expounded his views on the scriptures in a just-published book Strangers andFriends. His arguments have been made before, but not by sexuality." Vasey’s book was published as the church’s general synod was winding up its annual meeting. Activists also made their point ~to church leaders as members of the rights groupOutRage! nailed ademand for a "Queer Reformation" of the Anglican Church entitled "Four Theses Against Church Homophobia" to the doors of Westminster Abbey. "What’s needed is a new Reformation to eradicate homophobia from the Church of England," said Peter Tatchdl of OutRage! "Anglican endorsement of anti-gay discrimination is a corruption of morality and a violation of the dignity oflesbian andgay people. We want the synod to overturn church support for homophobic policies." Romanian Parliament Keeps Anti-Gay Laws BUCHAREST - The Romanian Chamber of Deputies has rejected a draft proposal modifying the country’s penal code to, among other things, at least partly decriminalize homosexuality among consenting adults. The proposed change would have made homosexual acts punishable only if they created a "public scandal" and was proposed in part to help ease Romania’s entry into the European Commuuity, which requires member nations to assure basic equality for all citizens, including protections for gays and lesbians. At least 2 EC nations have already indicated they will vote against admitting Romania to the continental union if the anti-gay laws are not repealed, Jenny Jones Won’t Testify in Murder ~ase DETROIT - A county court judge has ruled that television ¯ talk show hostJemay Jones won’t have to testify in the trial of Jonathan Schmitz, who is charged with killing Scott Amedure, a gay man, after he confessed to being a "secret admirer" of Schmitz on the nationally broadcast TV show. Attorneys for Schmitz had wanted Jones to testify during the trial, but the judge heating the unusual case ruled thatJones’ taped statements and a sworn deposition she is expected to give is all that would be required of her. Schmitz claims he was misled into thinking the "secret admirer" he would meet on the show was a woman and says he was humiliated when he discovered it was Amedure. Three days after the TV program, authorities say Schmitz shot Amedure to death in nearby Orion Township. Gay Book Ban Not Legal OLATHE, Kansas - A federal district court has ruled that the Olathe, Kansas, school board acted from its own anti-gay bias and not out of the best interests in the education ofstndents when it ordered the novel "Annie On My Mind"removed from school libraries. Itis unclearifthe school board will appeal the ruling. The book, which portrays a young girl’s growing awareness of her sexual orientation, has been highly commended by the American Library Association and other groups, but also has become a lightening rod for antigay activists throughout the country. UK Court Upholds Ban LONDON The British Court of Appeal has upheld a lower court ruling supporting the Defense Ministry’s prohibition against homosexuals in the country’s armed forces, ruling that the ban "’cannot ... be sagmatized as irrational at the time these appellants were discharged." Earlier this year a lower court had ruled against the 3 gay men and 1 lesbian who have sued because of their discharges based on their sexual orientation. The 4 ex-service members vowed to appeal their case to Britain’s House of Lords - the highest judicial body in the nation- and then to the European Court if they lose in the Lords. Detroit Plans for Domestic Partnership DETROIT- A Detroit task force is in the process of wor-king on a proposal that would, ifapproved by the city council, allow gay. and nongay couples to register as domestic partners. The proposal would also give live-in partners of city workers health and other benefits like those currently enjoyed by the married spouses of city employees. The partnership registration would give domestic partners the same visitation rights as spouses or parents at all city hospitals and jails. Domestic partners of a parent or legal guardians of children would also have access to their child’s school records. The task force expects to present its completed proposals to the city council by the end of this year. N.J. Judge Rules Against Gays-in Boy Scouts TRENTON, N.J. - N.J. Superior CourtJudge Patrick McGannhas ruled that a local chapter of the Boy Scouts of America didn’t violate state antl-bias laws when it kicked out John Dale, who is gay, in 1990. In his ruling, McGann cited the biblical story ofSodom and Gomorrah, saying that "all religions deem the act of sodomy a serious moral wrong,’" adding that it was "unthinkable" that the Boy Scouts would accept gay men in leadership roles. "The criminal law has changed," McGam~ wrote. "The moral law - as to the act of sodomy - has not." AI Gore - Not a "Beauty" WASHINGTON -An unnamed gqfite House aide has told gossip columnists that although AI & Tipper Gore showed up for a Halloween party dressed as "’Beauty and the Beast, "it.wasn’t exactly what the. "second family" had at first planned. According to the aide, the Vice President had iuitially wanted to go as "’Beauty" accompauied by Mrs. Gore as the "’Beast. "The reports indicated that the Gores were finally convinced to go in the more conventional costumes only after political advisors suggested the public might not quite be ready "for a vice president who is a cross dresser.’" Tasmanian Law Fight SYDNEY - Rights activists in Australia have filed a brief with the country’s High Court in an effort to formally have Tasmania’s sodomy laws declared unconstitutional and stricken from the books. After a Uuited Nations comnfission declared the Tasmmfian law a violation of interuational human rights, the Australian Parliament enacted legislation guaranteeing the right of privacy in an effort to nullify the laws, but the state of Tasmania has refused to repeal its local anti-gay legislation. Activists say they will use the federal privacy laws in their case, but say it is important to have the Tasmania law overturned officially to remove the stigma associated with the criminalization of gay men in the state. Baptists Slam Disney TAlVIPA, Fla. -The Horida State Baptist Convention, one of the denomination’s largest, has called on its 1 million members to stop supporting Walt Disney movies, products and theme parks because of the finn’s recent decision to extend insurance benefits to same-sex domestic partners of its employees. The, resolution, which was overwhelmingly adopted by the state delegates, says in part that "Disney’~ moral leadership has been eroded by that decision, as well as its practice of holding homosexual theme nights at its parks." A spokesperson for the Walt Disney Co. said the finn "’regrets" the Florida Baptists have taken the stand they have, but so far the entertainment giant has refused to back away from the new benefits. Some Baptists indicated they would call for a boycott. It’s Time to Play. You’ve broken away from the routine. Together you’re about to explore a delicious new realm of the sensuous. 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We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 HIV Suppressor Found LONDON - Reporting in the prestigious British scientificjournal Nature, researchers with the Paul Erlick Institut in Germany say they have identified a naturally occurring substance in the immune system that acts as a natural defense ag ainst HIV by slowing the reproduction of the virus. While canuoning against seeing their finding as a breakthrough, the scientists said"they fOffr~d thaf i~nterleukifi:16 (IL- 16),which i’s producedby the body’ s T-cells known as CD8 cells, slowed reproduction ofHIV in laboratory tests. The researchers say that if tests of IL-16 with animals prove encouraging, they may begin human testing of the substance in about a year - a strong indication of their excitement about the finding. Their hope is that if the treatment can be effectively used it could perhaps be effective in keeping HIV from overwhelming a patient’ s immune system indefinitely. Effective HIV Inhibitor Drug BOSTON - Two studies in the New England Journal of Medicine report that an experimental drug that dogs the operation of a key HIV protein seems to keep it at bay for at least a while. The drug ritonavir, formerly known as A~T-538 and developed by Abbott Laboratories, is one of a promising new class of AIDS medicines known as protease inhibitors. AIDS researchers are excited about these new drugs because they. appear to both reduce the level of the°virus and to boost the immune system’ s strength. Although the scientists from the Academic Medical Center in Amsterdam and New York University’ s school ofmedicine who conducted the studies concluded that ritonavir was quick and effective in fighting HIV, resistance to the drug did develop over time. Abbott Laboratories quickly announced that it will make supplies of the experimental drug available to some 2,000 people with late-stage AIDS diseases and CD4 cell counts of 513 or less around the world through a lottery. For inforuaation about the Abbott Laboratories lottery, call 1-800-414-2437. Mechanism of ’Long-Term Su rvival’ Possibly Identified CHICAGO-; In a.small’-geale sm’dy published in the Proceedings ofthe National Academy of Sciences, researchers report that the’cellular response of a group of ’long-term survivors of HIV appears to help delay the progression of the virus. The team of researchers from the University of California at San Francisco, led by Dr. Jay A. Levy, compared the immune cells of people who had developed fullblown AIDS or had seriously compromised immune systems with other people infected with HIV butwho remained otherwise asvmptomatic for 10 years ormore. The CD~ immune cells of the long-term survivors produced greater amounts of proteins that help regulate "immune-system responses, the researchers report. This, the scientists say, helps keep the CD8 ceils active in fending off HIV, thereby stavingoff most of the impact of the virus longer. According tc the UC-SF researchers, the findings suggest that extra doses of the naturally occurring proteins,known as cytoklnes, might hdp more infected people stay healthier longer. FlPELITY Ho-t~AE HE6LTH CA-RE, INC. Tulsa Office 486-1174 800-999-3/!42 We provide comprehensive home health services 24 hours/day, seven dayslweek. The range ofservices include: Skilled nursing services (RN’s, LPN’s) Home health aides, Physical Therapy Speech Therapy, Occupational Therapy Medical Social Services, In-home psychiatric care Non-emergency transportation, Private duty nursing and Companion sitter services. This list is not all inclusive. Please contact our offices with specific treatment issues. FDA Committee Recommends 3 New AIDS Drugs \VASHINGTON The Food & Drug Administration’s Antiviral Drug Advisory Committee has recon~nended that the agency approve 3TC for both initial tream~ent of AIDS as welt as for advanced cases of the disease. Studies have indicated that the experimental drug, when used with AZT, reduced the spread of HIV in patients’ systems and helped bolster their immune response. The drug can have serious side effects in children, including possible pancreatitis, but appears to produce no greater side effects among adults than the AZT used alone does. The ¯ panel also recommended approv.ing the AIDS drug stavudine (whichis also known ¯ as d4T and Zerit), for people who are not responding to treatment with AZT. The ¯ advisory committee also recommended conditional approval of saquinavir, the : first protease inhibitor the panel has recommended approving to fight AIDS. Unlike other AIDS drugs, protease in- " hibitors work by preventing HIV i/self ¯ from replicating in the body and are con- " sidered the most promising new class of ¯ drugs in the epidemic. The conditional recommendation requires that saquinavir not be used as a single-drug treatment, but ¯ be prescribed along with nucleoside analogs. ¯ Non-Lethal HIV Identified : SYDNEY - A study based on a decade- " old sample of blood donations known as ¯ the Sydney Blood Bank Cohort has found ¯¯ that the blood of one gay man infected ¯ with HIV and the 7 blood recipients who became infected with the virus is infected ¯ with an entirely new - and harmless - . strain of HIV. The finding, reported in the journal Science, raises hopes that an AIDS vaccine can be devcloped using the new, benign virus s train. The researchers found that the unidentified gay man’ s blood had been used in transfusions between 1981- 84 before blood screening for HIV started in 1985. The gay man, however, never contracted AIDS. And when a Red Cross ,ocial worker began tracking people who should have been infected as a result of receiving the tainted blood, she found that after 10 years, none of the 7 recipients had become sick either although all are in fact HIV positive. The newly discovered strain has defects in its genetic elements, most notably a gene called "nef," which other studies have already shown is necessary for HIV to replicate itself.¢’~This allows the infected person’s immune system to deal with the virus - in other words, to stop it getung out of control," said Dr. Nicholas Deacon, who led the Australian research team. The discovery of the "neF" defect is especially important for possible vaccine development after studies on animals at the New Englaud Regional Primate Center showed that deleting "net" from the sirman (monkey) cousin of the virus, SIV, disarms the lethal microbe. HIV Infection Risks Among Lesbians, Bi Women CHICAGO Researchers with the San Francisco health department have reported in the American Journal ofPublic Health that lesbians and bisexual women are at small risk of HIV infection, a finding that contradicts the general idea thatthese women have no risk of contracting the virus. Researchers reported that 6 out of 498 bisexual women and lesbians tested in San Francisco and Berkdey during 1993 were infected with HIV, an infection rate of 1.2%. The researchers re- Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method ~ B~! &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings: 7-8:30 pm for testing, 7-9 pm for results. Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights¯ ported that they found no indication of transmission from woman-to-woman sexual contact among any of the 6 who were infected, however. Four of the infected women were both IV drug users and also reported having had unprotected sex with gay or bisexual men or male IV drag users - all high-risk groups. The other 2 infected women had had sex with men of tmknown risk status, but had not had sex with any female partners who were infected. The researchers said that educationand preventionprograms should stop.indicating that lesbians and bisexual women were at low risk of infection and should instead emphasize the importance of avoiding specific, high-risk behaviors. AnOther AIDS Drug Approved WASHINGTON - The Food & Drug Administration has quickly approved the use of lamivudine, also known as 3TC, in combination with AZT. The FDA move came just a few weeks after an advisory panel recommended approval of the combination treatment, and Glaxo, the manufacturer, said the drug would be available .quickly also - probably by the first week m December. According to Glaxo, the cost of3TC will be about the.same as that of AZT, which can Cost:several thousand dollars a year. A!DS-Type Vaccine 100% Effective in Monkeys WASHINGTON - Scientists have reported in the journal Science that an .experimental drug called PMPA suecgssfully prevented monkeys from becoming infected with the sinnan immunodeficiency virus (or SIV). In the study, none Of the 25 monkeys who were given Gilead Sciences’ experimental vaccine before or up to 24 hours after they were inoculated became infected with the simian version of the virus, while all 10 of the monkeys injected with salt water before inoculation with SIV as a control group contracted the disease. The researchers, led by Dr. Che-Chung Tsai of the Regional Primate Research Center at the University of Washington in Seattle - cautioned againstjumping to any conclusions about preventing HIV-infection or treating individuals who are already infected with the human version of the virus, but they did say they were greatly encouraged by the findings. Publication of the findings of the research were in fact delayed a full year by the scientists because they were worried there might be some mistake in the results, which Tsai, describes as "almost too good to be true." Human studies, which are tentatively scheduled for next year, would be required to determine if PMPA is safe and effective in humans. Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1 51 5 South Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiafity and comfort that enhances the therapeutic process. For further information call 743-4117 Leah Hunt, .MSW. Della Blackburn, CADC Judy Seymour-Taylor, CADC Richard Reeder, MS Serving a Diverse Commuliity [:1 FEELING SAFE ,I - !SN" T EASY. PRO|ECT ARIES PROJECT $ HERE TO ARIES HEL AIDS Risk IntErvention Series An Innovative Approach to Enhancing Your Lifestyle and Safeguarding Your Health all Today! . $84-4983 (In" Confidence) Weekly Gifts and Incentives ~for Attending a Closed Series of 12 Weekly Meetings Offered by TULSA NATIVE AMEP, rCAN AIDS PREVENTION PROJECT Endorsed by the Oklahoma State Department of Health 665-6595 ’96 ECLI PSE RS $14,728 46th & Memorial- Entertainment Notes by Jmnes Christjohn This is a new feature, dependent on whims, timing and whether or not this Assistant Editor had time/money to actually see anything new: Otherwise, I’ll be reviewing videos, revisiting (Read: inflicting!) music reviews and looks at old shows you just might like if you’d ever heard of them and other ramblings. Lately, I’ve been watching "High Society", - Mondays, 8:30pm. If you haven’t seen it, .it is one of the most hilarious shows I’ve seen on American TV. So what if it’s a "knockoff of "Absolutely fabulous"? We can’t see that here, ’cause the local cable comp..any doesn’ t carry the comedy channel ~ a:t~e crime~:Anyway, I recognize a lot of myself in this show, which has a DEFINITE queer sensibility to it. Watch it, you’ll see what I mean. ¯ Anyway, back to the subject at hand, the : new colunm: ¯ Rating system: Four snaps: Don’t miss it, ¯ in fact, get going now! Three snaps: Ok, ¯ so put the paper down first. And drive ¯ safely. Two Snaps: Ithas enough redeem- ¯¯ ing qualities to be of interest, but see the matinee. One snap. Well, if you’re really ¯ bored and can’t find anything else to do... ¯ No snaps: You’ll be sorry.. Well, what a full season thus far: ¯ Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella, ¯ a wonderful concert with Marilyn Maye ¯ and theTulsa Philharmonic, &Toy Story, ¯ the new must-see movie from the’~gayfriendly folk at Disney. If you misse~ the : live shows, well,’I’ll tell you myopinion ¯ ~a~yway (like yisii’coulil’stOp me:~.) sb -that : If th~y’come through town again, you’ll ¯ know whether to ante up for a ticket, or ¯ stay home with the telly and a cup of hot : chocolate, see Notes, page 14 FRIDAY, JANUARY 19 BroaOen Your Perspective at a celtic Music Concert. Irish fiddle great Kevin Burke and his new world Celtic enseml01e bring fiery instrumentals, dazzling footwork and original songs. 8 p.m., John H. wilhams Theatre, Tulsa Performing Arts Center CALL: 596-7111 TICKETS: $12 Eve Sunday_ December: $howtime 11p.m. €~2 Cover Beer Bust 9p.m. ~ laom~ Januaru 11 - 14 I yr. Anniversary/C6stomer Appreciation Extravaganza Weekend M~n of the Southv~est 9-2 NO COVER A~ll-Male RevUe 10 p.m. $2 Cover Dance & Party with your favorite Bar Staff Kirk, Tern/, Tommy, Scotty, Mike, Bill, Chrls & DJ Davld Oees $2 COVER Mr. Robbie Walker & the Sunday Slam (Ivana B, Real, Kris Kohl, Michelle ~~tey, Domo~ueDarnels) wiJh Special ~u~t To Be Announced ~2COVE~ K IN . COMMUNI CALEN R SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 Community of Hope, _ (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm ~ 1703E. 2nd, 585d800, Family of Faith ¯ Metro. Comm. Chureh- AdultSunday School, 9:15 " Worship Service, 11 am ." 5451-E South Mingo. ¯ Info: 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am ¯ 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 ¯ TheBanned, OKGay Band " Practice weekly in OKC " Info: 838-2121 ¯ Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay " Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa " 6:30 pm at Canterbury ¯ 5th & Evanston Info: 583-9780 " SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 MONDAYS : HIV Testing ¯ TOHR Clinic ¯ Free &.anonymous testing ¯ using fingerstick method. ¯ No appointment reqnired. : Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Results hours: 7-9 pm TUESI Minister’s Class Bless the Lord at All Times Christian Center 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth Info: 583-7815 HIV+ Support Group Info: 742-2927 ¯ HIV Resource Consortium ¯ :~ii~am~la : .,.,_ _: .~-~ ::-1,:30~pm~.,:J i . !~ " Bowling League :,, 4t~S. Harvard, Ste.-H-1 Sheridan Lanes 8:45 pm 3121 S. Sheridan PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Monday of month, 6:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HIV/AIDS Support Group & Friends & Family HIV/AIDS Support Group 7 pm, call for location: 749-7898 Thi ’N6w Year Drink Responsibly - Have a Designated Driver or Take a Cab WEDNESDAYS ¯ Authority OfThe Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa : 1623 N. Maplewood : Info: 838-1715 Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Choir Practice 7 pm .~ 2627-B East 1 lth : Call 583-7815 for info. Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. Community of Hope (United Methodist) Bible Study, 6:30 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 (no class, Dec. 27) SUNDAY, DECEMBER 31 THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 17 Family ofFaith MCC Christmas Concert & Silent Auction, 7:30pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 19 GriefGroup Community of Hope United Methodist 6pro, held at Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home, 3rd St. west of Lewis (ongoing) Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24 Family ofFaith MCC Christmas Eve Candlelight Service 10 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, DECEMBER 24 Community ofHope United Methodist Christmas Eve Peace Service, 6pm ChristmasEve CandlelightService, 1 lpm 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 TUESDAY, DECEMBER 26 GriefGroup Community of Hope United Methodist 6pm, held at Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home, 3rd St. west of Lewis (ongoing) Info: 585-1800 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 29 Feed the Homeless Community of Hope United Methodist Meet at church, 1703 E. 2nd, 5:30 pm Info: 585-1800 Family ofFaith MCC, "Let It Go" New Year’s Eve Service, 1 lain 5451-E S Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, JANUARY 7 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 7 Prime Timers Monthly Meeting Write for info: P.O. Box 52118, 74104 TUESDAY, JANUARY 9 Green Country Pride ~ Tulsa Oldahomansfor Human Rights Community-wide Meeting, 7 pm Alan Chapman Activity Center University of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 SUNDAY, JANUARY 14 Family ofFaith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: It’s Never Too Late to Have a Happy Childhood, 9 am - 3 pm 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 TUESDAY, JANUARY 30 Rainbow Business Guild, 7 pm Call for place and speaker. Dinner Meeting, Info: 665-5174 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17 Family ofFaith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness, 9 am - 3pro 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 Co-Dependency Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo Call 622-1441 for Info. HIVTestingTOHRClinic Free & anonymous testing using fingerstick method. No appointment reqnired. Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm [nfo: 742-2927 Prayer Time MCC - Greater Tulsa, 7 pm 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Tulsa-Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 Out & About With JD! It’s that time of the year when you yearn for time spent with friends, and visions of fairies dance in your head. This month’s featured establishment is a great place to find both. GROUND ZERO (formerly Laffs-Underground) at 7th&Elan, in the heart of downtown Tulsa, is the place. Steve Crow, a wellknown promoter of Tulsa’s night life, has renovated this classic. location into something more than comfortable and intriguing for that first date (a dimly lit table for two), or to find that first date, (billiard and dart area), or for meedng a group of friends (a conversation area and well-lit bar). Watch for details about Tulsa’s first Intemet party, linking up via the info super hi-way to other bars across PFLAG national vice president, Nancy McDonald is joined by sevkral friends, including Prime Timer, Wesley Bauer. ¯, SATURDAYS ¯ Narcotics Anonymous ¯ Meets weekly at 11 pm ¯ Confidential support for ¯ recovering addicts. ¯ Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 : NAMES Project ¯ AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees ¯ 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 MORE GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Student Association TJC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 ¯ SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network ¯ Call 832-2121 TOHR Helplinc Daily 8-10 pm ¯ For info. or to volunteer: ¯ 743-GAYS Tool Box Technicians, ¯ Leather org., Info cio The Tool Box: 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A. ¯ Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Assdc. ¯ Info: 838-1222 ¯ the country. Starting in January onThurs- : day nights: chicks with d contests with ¯ cash prizes, and, as always, male dancers ¯ every Friday and Saturday nights. Be sure : to join Steve and his wonderful manager Mark on December 23 for a mini-Christmas party with Reghenaand company. Also, New Year’s will be rung in with male dancers counting down the minutes to midnight, and a free champagne toast. .Also Ladonna at Barracudas sends a note of thanks to all the new Raghenna & Steve Crow faces thathave stopped ¯ in (see her ad about ¯ some new faces). : I would like take a moment to wish ¯ everybody a joyful holiday season, and a ¯ v.ery warm and happy new year. I appre- ¯ caate all the support throughout the last ¯ year. Community activists, Ken Draper, Lisa Pottorf& Tim Gillean braved the cold at TOHR Holiday Dinner & Silent Auction. Eureka Springs Honors World AIDS Day - Dec. 1 by Phyl Boler-Schmidt Living in the heart of the Bible Belt, one would not expect to find an ecumenical service dedicated to World AIDS Day m a small community. Yet, Eureka Springs held one of the most moving celebrations of unity in the fight against AIDS I have ever witnessed. On the evening of December 1, we gathered at the United Methodist Church, about 75 people in all, from all walks of lifeand all faithS. The theme of the service: was "Because God Cares," and the service was co-sponsored by the Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN) and Ozark AIDS Resources and Services (OARS). A total of ten local and area clergy were scheduled to participate in the ev.ent, andfive were calledaway at the last rmnute to attend to other events or emergencies. Those who did participate came from varying backgrounds, to be sure. Rev. Stan Adams came from the United Methodist Church, Rev. Jack Hammond is affiliated with the First Christian Church, and Rev. Mark Leuneville came from the First Presbyterian Church, all in nearby Berryville. Rev. Marilyn Webb participated from the host church in Eureka Springs. And, the m~in speaker was Rev. Kermie Wohlenham~ Pastor of MCC of the Living Spring. It was a celebration of life and healing, love; hope, and stories of miracles. Sonny Mosley, the longest living AIDS survivor, who last week graced the front page ¯ of the local newspaper, told his story. A Grandmother read a letter of love, grace, : and about her own 17-year, same-sex relationship, a letter that had been written ¯ that same day to her HIV+ grandson. We ~ all shared, prayed, sang, hoped, and cried ¯ together. ¯ Sonny’s admonition to us all was very ¯ moving. "It is my hope, and I believe that ¯¯ itis God’s hope that when you leave this piace tonight, you will go to someone and ¯ tell them you have seen a miracle. You ¯ have seen a miracle standing before you ¯ tonight.... " Sonny ] has survived 14years and seven months ¯ living with AIDS. ¯ One young man told the story of los- " ing his partner of : eight years some two ¯ years ago. He shared ¯ withus his partner’s ¯ last words to him: ¯ "Never miss an op- ¯ pornmity to love.’" ¯ It was a rare treat to experience an area- : wide service in which the official coming ¯ out of Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus to the ¯ religious community.was enacted through ¯ aninvitation toher to give the main talk of ¯ the evening, a sermon if you will. Her ¯ time at the pulpit was preceded by a mu- ¯ sical duet by twoMCC regulars, a request ¯ made due to past performances by the ¯ MCC choir at World AIDS Day services. ¯ Pastor Wohlenhaus gave a message of ¯ healing and-an admonition to the assembled churchgoers that "This is ¯ everyone’s disease. Men, women and children are all afflicted. Each one of us." She told moving stories of Ryan White, the Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, Randy Shilts, and A Day Without Art. "The loss to the world is amazing! "This was Rev. Wohlenhaus’ assessment of the loss to the art world because of AIDS. But, "there is a healing part of this disease." She talked of Joan Rivers and the first AIDS benefit she put together. Ms. Rivers could get no major stars to participate in the benefit, and she received hate mail and death threats. Yes, we truly have come a long Saglttarlus You also ]]ave way toward healing. And there deep desires to....huy were stories of the expenslve, pointless, e~o- healing of families gg~ra~t’aLr in" thln~s....you and relationships, how Disney wentout l~n~w that last, red sports on alimb for its emear won’t make you a better ployees,evemnspite of pressure from the person. Don’t you? pro-familygroups. It was a moving talk ¯ indeed. "’What has happened is we are ¯ coming out as a nation. Weare healing ¯ AIDSphobiaas well as homophobiaas we : have to deal with this disease." ¯ "The voices of people th~it are HIV+ ¯ and (have) AIDS have tremendous spiri- ¯ tual messages for us. One of those mes- ¯ sages is living one day at a’fime to the fullest. They are our teachers, aren t they. ¯ This was an admonition to most of the ¯ congregation. ¯ And; to those who are HIVe- and living ¯ withAIDS,"Call upon your higherpower - whatever that is. Ask those very impor- ¯ tant questions, and be open to hear the answers. One of the answers that you may hear is to be of service, ff you are HIV+ or living with AIDS, you have a tremendous gift that you can pass on to someone. You’ve gone throughprocesses that someone else that just found out the other day needs to hear from you." ’q’he wounded healer is probably one of our most important healing persons. Avail yourself to those people." An offering was received to support RAIN and OARS, and we heard from Rev. Mark Leuneville that the Ryan White Care Act will not have any more funding until August of 1996 so, more than ever, local organizations need our support, financial as well as personal. Welearned that Carroll Regional Medical Center in Berryville has donated a fulltime counselor to staff the AIDS clinic at the hospital’s expense. A doctor also donates medical services. Testing, quality care, education and counseling are all available. And this is the Bible Belt! This reporter will not soon forget December 1, 1995. This event had a profound effect onme, and it ismyfond hope, that the same effect was felt by the rest of the assembled people at the commemoration of World AIDS Day 1995 in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, "Relieving the ostracism-of gay Ameri- ¯ cans would strengthen family values, no ¯ matter what the prevailing political di- ~ mate may dictate." -- Robert MacNeil, tv : anchor & father of a Gay son, courtesy ¯ GLAAD, The Gay &Lesbian Alliance ~ Against Defamation & Seattle Gay News "’ Jim & Brent have opened the ultimate intimate local eatery. A special, eclectic dining exp.erience.:." Stop by our lqouse for a taste of local flavor. 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It was noted that this ¯ group has recently split due to somedifferences ofopinion, and " because of the split, the KKK " has actually grown in size and strength. . Also noted by Ms. Coyle were " the militia groups that have ° formed in several areas of Ar- ¯ kansas and that activity has in- : creased in southeast Oklahoma ° as well. Other groups, mostly of ¯ the white supremacist nature, to ¯ watch out for are: the Aryan "- Nations, the White Aryan Resis- " tance, neo Nazi skinheads, the ¯ Identity Christian Church, the " Holy Alamo Christian Church, " the Populist Party, and none other ° than the Elna Smith Foundation, ¯ located right here in Eureka ¯ Springs. The Smith Foundation hosts The Great Passion Play ° and houses the Christ of the ¯ Ozarks statue. . Both Ms. Coyle and Ms. Pharr " expressed concern that many of ° the militia groups, which they ° noted are made up of mostly . disgruntled wlfitemen, havebeen " infiltrated by theKKKand other : hate groups in an attempt to recruitnew members to their cause. Ms. Pharr is well know for her work with Gay leaders in those states where anti-gay statues have been placed before the electorate, and her vast work with women’s issues is well documented. Her main thrust of the evening was to show those assembled what majormovements have been presented in the U.S. Ms. Pharr is well know for her work w .th Gay leaders in those states where anti-Gay statues have been placed before the electorate... over the past 30 years and how those intermingle and confuse the people when issues are presented for a vote. She defined three majormovements: the liberation movement (of which we are all a part), globalization of the economy, and the rise of the religious right wing fundamentalists. At issue in the liberation movement are reproductive rights, affirmative action, children’s rights, removal of sodomy laws-, and environmental action, among others. The issues for globalization of the economy are the anti-tax movement, .deregulation, NAFTA,privatization, and ahost of others. It is Ms. Pharr’s contention that the rise of the religious right came upon the heels of economic globalization, and due to this, many people do not .understand that they areresponding to problems in the economy rather than moral issues. The religious right has done a tre- ,_ mendous job of demonizang entire segments of the economy and making them (us) villains when, in fact, it Is the globalization of the economy that has taken jobs away and decreased corporate investment in employees. Ms. Pharr strongly suggested that we all become versed in economic issues and use this knowledge in our discussions with people who feel that gays and lesbians, people of color., rand women ha~¢~ contributed to the moral decline of America. She aptly proved to those of us present at her talk that when people see that they are respondmg to economic issues and their ownfinancial needs, not the need to demonize us, we have more of a chance ofconvincing them that we are not the enemy. The religious right has done its job well, for sure. After President Reagan began the move toward economic globalization, religious leaders jumped on the bandwagon and began to work at the grassroots level to convince average Americans that they should blame groups that the religious right saw as immoral for the decline in available jobs, the rise in the number of welfare recipients, the decrease in the average American’ s paycheck and companybenefits, and the movement away from keeping jobs at home. 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Murder / Opening the hearings, Chair- ¯ and rights activists in Oregon man Peter Hoekstra (D-MI) said : have been concerned that their the ten witnesses would explore ¯ disappearance ~nay have been theroleofparentsinschoolsand ¯ because of the wo men’s high values in the"big picture." Nev- ~ activist visibility during the carnertheless, by the second day as ; palgns. Authoritiesdidn’trelease witness after witness lashed out ¯ any information about how the2 against sex education, HIV pre- women died, saying they ~vould vention and youth support pro- wait for the results of an angrams in schools, the true nature topsy, but police initially deof the hearings became appar- . scribed the killing as "brutal" ent. Perhaps due to the national ~ and "violent." Police said they outcry, the subcommittee called had no specific information to on four of the ten witnesses to ° connect the deaths of the 2 address the impact of violence ." women with their political acand harassmer~t ag~i:~ youth .’. ~vis.m, but said they would uot grappling.withis.sues~:9.f sexual "discount those fears. "’ At press orientation. No gay, lesbian, bi- time, The Associated Press resexual or transgender youth ported that an arrest had been were called upon to testify at the made in this case. hearing. Govt. Asked to Supervise "LouSheldon’sextremeviews Washington, D.C - Citing the came across loud and clear,"said murders, and a tragic history of Helen Gonzales, Public Policy violence agmnst Gays in other Director- for the National Gay states with anti-gay ballot initiaand Lesbian Task Force. "Even tives, the National Gay and Lesthough the comm|ttee did not bian Task Force (NGLTF) has completelystackthedeckagainst asked U.S. Attorney General us: intolerance ofdiffering views Janet Reno to lend federal assisand an anti-democratic approach tance in investigating homicides. to education were the themes of "’We are writing to inform you the day." of a situation which unfortu- During the first day of hear- nately is becoming too commonings, witnesses William Bennett place in our country and to seek and Patricia Ann Baltz spoke in your assistance in helping progeneral terms about the need to tect the lives of, gay, lesbian, infuse values into public schools, bisexual and-., transgender Homosexuality was only men- people," said the,three-page lettioned briefly. During the sec- ter, firxedtoReno’sofficetoday. ond day, witnesses discussed "Our concern is that however school services and programs the facts in this case turn out, which address prevention of hate crimes against Gays, l_~sbi- HIV, hate-violence in schools ans, Bisexuals and Transgender andthehighincidenceofsuicide persons continue to be an epiamong gay,lesbian,bisexual and demic in this country...In the attransgender youth. Several wit- mosphereofhatredandgay-baitnesses misrepresented these ing which are expected to be community efforts as attempts waged by the Far Right during to "recruit and promote homo- next year’s anti-gay ballot and sexuality.’" At least one witness legislative state initiatives, it is complained about schools "pro- clear that such crimes will inmotinghomosexual lifestyles as crease.’" The letter went on to normal," while another witness detail the rise in anti-gay vioclaimed that "homosexuality is lence, especially in states with sinful.’" homophobic initiatives. BEAVER DAM STORE Fishing Headquarters for N.W. Arkansas Fly Tying * Fly Fishing * Equipment & Classes Open Year ’Round TROUTS - "~ - US Located 1/2 mile N. of Beaver Dam on Hwy 187 Eureka Springs, AR * 501-253-6154 Groceries * Gas * Ice ~ B~er * Licenses * Lodging Your lnukeepem. 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[1,1e.d~] "l;1,eral e~ual;ty ~n t~e eyes of t]ae state vc~t]a conservative social stability" vative social stability in a program whose twin tenets are open, un-impeded gay military service and legal gay marriage. Sullivan begins by asking, "What Is a Homosexual?" By describing his childhood experiences that he now realizes were really gay oriented situations, Sullivan makes a dear case for the inclusion of gay themes throughout our culture. Once, at the age often, heremembers being"...happily engagedinreading. Then, a girl sitting next to me looked at me with a rmxture of curiosity and disgust. "Why aren’t you out with the boys playing football’?" she asked. Because "I hate it," I replied. "’Are you sure you’re really not a girl under there?" she asked, with the suspicion of a sneer." With no mention of homosexuality in his family, ]’i~ the newspaper, at school or on television, he, like most gays gr6_wing up, had no guidance, discussion Or role models to help explain the confusion he was gorng through. The main part of this book is focused on of the political scale) which includes groups such as Queer Nation and ACI’-UP; 3) Conservatives, the authors of"don’t ask, don’t tell", and 4) Liberals, who are often simply piggybacking the gay rights movement on the back of the civil rights movement. With the first two groups intractable, Sullivan argues that a combination of the best of conservative and liberal beliefs can create a new consensus on homosexuality. His idea "affirms a simple and limited principle: that all public (as opposed to private) discrimination against homosexuals be ended and that every right and responsibility that heterosexuals enjoy as public citizens be extended to those who grow up and find themselves emotionally different." He means ALL rights and responsibilities, including marriage and military service. Sullivan is remarkably eloquent, and it is hard to disagree with his logic, although he is often accused of being too conservative. He has presented the best book to date on how and why the gay rights debate must move from the base of emotion and fear to fact~ and logic. Check for "Virtually Normal" on the Tulsa City-County Library catalog, or call 596-7966. ment shortly and will probably then be voted onagain by the commission in early December. The newspaper reported that the commission’s recommendations will also include an alternative proposal to create a statewide domestic partnership registration that would effectivdy extend to same-sex couples all the benefits under state control th at married opposite-sex couples enjoy. The Advertiser, the state’s largest-circulating daily, also editorially endorsed the commission’s anticipated action, sayang it was taking "a reasonable stand that should be adopted by the legislature" and that "gay couples should have the legal right to marry in Hawaii." Hill brings extensive experience as a trainer in suicide imervention and has served as a teacher of living skills -for legally blind citizens for the State Visual Services agency and has served on the Advisory Committee for the Assistive Technology Center. He is chair of the Para Transit Sub-committee of the Special Transportation Advisory Committee (STAC) to the Indian Nations Council of Governments (INCOG) and Tulsa Transit Hill also volunteers with Youth Services of Tulsa’s TYDD Program and is a life-long member of 1 st Lutheran Church of Tulsa where he is a member of the choir and has served twice as a member of the church board. He sings with the Tulsa Oratorio Chorus and also worships with Community of Hope congregation. reviewed, saying that the state could give visitation rights to an individual who had a"parent-likerelationship"with the child, whether the individuals were heterosexual or a non-traditional couple. Knott appealed that state high court ruling to the U.S. Supreme Court. Court Rules For Gay Adoptions NEW YORK - New York’s Court of Appeals, the state’s highest court, has ruled that couples do not have to be married in order to adopt, a ruling that, while it also applies to unmarried heterosexuals, is strongly welcomed by same-sex couples. "There’s been a collective holding of our breath around the state," said Paula Ettelbrick of the Empire State Pride Agenda. Although the high court’s ruling does notmean that gay and lesbian couples will automatically be given adoption rights, it does mean that state courts can not use marital status in determining adoption applications. 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Doors open at 8pm with a $5 cover and the pageant begins at 9 sharp. Cherry Monroe will be crowning the winner of the 1996 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant and contestants will be competing for over $1500 in cash and prizes. Competition catagories are Personal Interview, Evening Gown and Talent. Special awards include the Amii Dyshea Talent award and Sasha Loren MostBeautiful Awardhonoring these two Notes continuedfrom page 8 First off: R & H’s Cinderdla: Starting off as the only musical Rodgers and Hammerstein wrote specifically for television, and one of the first ever written for TV, 1! was pleasant enough to see on stage, but just didn’t quite make the leap all the way across the chasm. The show did have a gay sensibility to it as directed by John Ruocco, who was assistant to the director of Terrence McNally’s very gay play, "Love! Valor! Compassion!". The King, as portrayed by David Boughn, was definitely wed to the queen as a matter of convenience. He was definitely more interested in the manservants (who were quite beautiful as well) than his wife. Like many "old-fashioned" gay man/ very missed entertainers and former Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA’s. The winner and first runner-up will represent Oklahoma in the 1996 Miss Gay USofA Pageant in May. Miss Gay USofA Pageant is the largest pageant for female impersonators in the country. The Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant has been honored by the National Pageant with the Best New Preliminary Pageant.award and the Hospitality award and the Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant owner, David Bridgrnan, was given the Owners Award for Business Person of the Year in 1995. Interested contestants may pick up info. packets at dubs and businesses across the state or may contact the pageant promoter, David Bridgman at 918-838-3701. woman marriages, the queen is a"beard". Probably best friends, and fond of each other, but quite an interesting direction for the father of Prince Charming. And they worry quite frantically over finding a woman to make him happy! Throughout the play, he seemed much more comfortable with his manservants. Speaking of, he was quite a sight to behold. There were certain attributes, visible from a seat slightly towards the rear orchestra, that were quite breathtaking to behold. What a scepter! And visible even to my nearsighted, astgmafic eyes! Needless to say, the costumes were well executed, showing off the best of the actors. The singing was very beautiful - Matt Clemens, as see Notes, page 15 9.2,3340S, Peo Tulsa, 918-744-0896 Notes cont’dfrom p. 14 Prince C, had quite alovely tenor volce, and Miss Cindy was very well sung by Leslie Lorusso. However, this production was meant for amoreintimate venue, no doubt about it. No splashy showtunes,just nice quite melodies. The stepmother and sisters were the high point of the show, being played like really mean drag queens havin~ a bad hair day. The "Stepsister’s Lament" really showcased their comedic "talents excellently, and the soundtrack (available in both Julie Andrews or Lesley Anne Warren versions) is worth having, and the show worth seeing for this song alone. It seems to be the only song R & H put any effort into. As for the rest of the show, I found it rather bland. The main problem was that the actors were "playing down" to the audience in the worst "children’s theater" manner - making sure every joke was extremely over-the-top, so all the kiddies would get it. This, I’m sure, was not the intent of R & H when they wrote the piece. In order for the show to work, it has ¯ to be treated as an adult show - much of the humor is certainly meant for adults - while retain- " ing the fairy-tale elements as ¯ well. Pacing was a crucial ele- ¯ ment as well, and unfortunately, in this aspect, the show did not ¯ succeed. Ithadmoments,butnot enough to fill two hours. Two : snaps and a yawn for the show in ¯ general, four snaps for theprince and the stepsisters. ¯ Marilyn Maye, however, puts on a terrific show - everything ¯ from standards of the ’30’s to ¯ current songs. I’d not heard of ¯ herbeforeI was told I’dbegolng ¯ to the show, but I am now a ¯ dedicated fan. After the dedication of a song "To lovers every- " where.... no matter who they love", and a wry look at to the ¯ audience- I realized this woman ¯ knew her audience included gay ¯ folk, andwas very inclusive. And ¯ what a stager/actres!! Some : people can sing prettily, but miss ¯ the wholemessage/emotionofa ¯ song. Not so, Ms. Maye. She can ¯ make you feel a song. When she ¯ comes back to Tulsa, I would ¯ urge you strongly tO see this gay- . friendly performer. Her stage persona is delightful, and the TALKING PERSONALS! HUNDREDS OF GUYS TO CH( Call The 900 number to respond to ads, browse unlisted ads, or retrieve messages. 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Please leave a message. ~11036 Tulsa GAY OR BI: AI, 32, very masc prof’l, GBM iso Gay or bi male, masc, race not Impt, into sports, outdoors, if u like Iv a message thanks[ ~ 7580 Tulsa LET’S PLAY: professional, 42 WM. iso other Gay or bi male, 30s- 40s, in the area, let’s play! ~ 7392 Tulsa SOMEONE TO LOVE: I’m 21 BM, kinda looking for someone to love, tired of b~ing by myself,- love to sing, read, like to go to the movies, have fun, love all types of music, if this interests you give me a call- ~" 7435 Tulsa SHARE SOME TIME: Dan, BIWM, mid 40s iso BIWM 30-40, ht/wt prop, very discreet, expect same, like share some time, if you are interested, g~ve me a call, I’ll returnall calls- ~ 7822 Tulsa NEW TO AREA: Mike, new to the area, 35, BIWM, bind/blue, work out alot, phys fit, Ikg fora strto BI BM 35-65 to have a good time with; go out with give me a call- ~ 7842 Eastern AR CUDDLE BY THE FIRE: Jack, GWM, 37, It. brn/brn, mustache, very masc, sir appearing/acting, iso friends poss rel in the area, like all music, dining, theater, silting by a fireplace, outdoors, animals, you name it- give me a call- n 7873 FOR YOUR FREE AD CALL 1-800-546-6366, THE SYSTEM WILL DO THE REST! laughs between the songs were plentiful. A lovely evening. Maybe my partner, the h,~rdest working man in Tulsa, c,~m actually take time to join me uext time! (He’d planned to, but type AAA personality that he is....) And if you haven’t seen Toy Story, don’t delay! You will be bowled over by the sheer technical genius. This is helped along by a very strong script that balances well between kiddie humor and adult guffaws. There were definitely some queer folk behind this one. It is a hoot from beginning to end. Four snaps. Tulsa HEY GIRLS: athletic attr. SWF early 30’s 5’4 1101bs brn/brn Ikg4 open minded women for discreet hot fun. call me! ~45795 great phone fun with. I love talking on the phone. Im 42 y/o and I hope you call me. n45492 Dallas AFRICAN QUEEN: I’m a 37 y/o African American Ikg4 the same 30-40.-t’m shy and I’m drug and disease free. I have Iwo dogs and I’m sincere and honest. If you are honest and sincere, call me. ~38212 BUTCH/FEM: I’m a 23 y/o female and I like poetry, cycling and music. I’m Ikg4 a friendship and a poss. relationship, rm a little butch and a little fern. all calls will be returned. ~47521 Dallas SPECIAL FRIENDS: I’m a single woman with no kids Ikg4 a special female friend to love and care for. ~all me. ~’1614 Arkodelphia, AR STAR GAZER: my name is Angeta, I’m a 21 y/o student interested in flying new things, star gazing and more. I would like to meet a nice woman for fun and friendship. call me! ~46392 900-370-2636 Q A TY A TERNATIVE WHAT IS VIATICATION? Viatication is the process through which a person living with an terminal illness can receive a cash payment from the face value of their insurance policy. WHO IS ELIGIBLE FOR A VIATICAL SETTLEMENT? Generally, to be eligible for a viatical settlement you must have a documentable terminal illness, and life insurance coverage in either aft’individual term, whole life, or a group policy. HOW MUCH IS MY POLICY WORTH? 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Southwest Viatical can discuss all of the factors with you and 3our family in person, in detail and can recommend an experienced Certified Financial Planner to assist you in planning the best outcome from your unique financial situation. HOW IS SOUTHWEST VIATICAL DIFFERENT? Today, many companies offer viatical settlements, doing business"only by bulk advertising and 1-800 numbers. They transfer your insurance and medical records. by mail, and do business from another state. At Southwest Viatical, we believe you should be assured of complete confidentiality and the best possible service by working with us in person, face-to-face. We are involved on a community level, and are responsible directly to our local community. By working with you in person, but at the same time having access to nationwide financial resources, we are able to deliver the best value on your policy available today. And because of our established resources, we can deliver a settlement in less than a third the time other companies take by mail, typically in fewer than 30 days. We’ll do what it takes to find the best solution for you. .Home Office Dallas, Texas 800-559-4790 Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative POB 14011 Tulsa, OK 74159-1011 918-747-3320 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, December 15, 1995-January 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 1 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 15, 1995-January 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Pat Morehead JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/505 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, November 15-December 14-1995; Volume 2, Issue 12 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV research Andrew Sullivan anti-bias policy anti-gay legislation arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars Bill Clinton Boy Scouts businesses censorship churches custody Dave Fleischer Disney Domestic Partnership Don't Ask Don't Tell Entertainment Notes Essex Hemphill estate planning Eureka Springs gay bashing HIV Resource Consortium (HIVRC) homophobia James Christjohn marriage Miss Gay Okay Oklahoma Murder Native Americans OK Spoke Club OKC Wildcats omophobia Out and About Partner Benefits Pat Morehead performing arts PFLAG Politically Un-Correct religion restaurants Robert Mugabe sodomy laws Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights viatication World AIDS day https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e4e3de336a4bbcf9382dafe22ffde84.jpg d8ca9e64f785eb8b997685cfeb9ac2ec https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ef5cfef0d3712cb5765afd9d1efee517.pdf c00e3b1e5e0f0613854186859c77a5c1 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart National News Clinton Slams HIV+ Military Discharges WASHINGTON - The Clinton administration has announced that it believes the HIV discharge provision in the $265 billion Defense Department’s 1996 authorization defense authorzafion bill is unconstitutional and has ordered the Justice Department not to defend the provision. That provision, written by arch-conservalave Rep. Bob Dornan, R-Calif., would discharge within sxx months, regardless see Clinton, page 3 Anti-Marriage Bills Explode Around US PIERRE, S.D.- Sparked by the likelihood that state courts in Hawaii will soon declare same-sex mamage legal there, a rapidly growing number of state legislatures throughout the country have started a rush to outlaw gay and lesbian marriages from being recognized locally, even if they should be legal elsewhere in the U.S. Legislatures in at least 18 states: AL, AK, CA, CO, GA, HI, ID, IL, IA, MO, N19I; RI, SC, SD, TN, VA, WA, WI - had various versions of"gay miscegenation" proposals before thein at press tame. In Virginia, where same-sex marriages are already forbidden by state law, under pressure from Radical Right Gov. George F. Allen, the Virginia Housing Development Authority has reversed a 1994 policy and now effectively prohibits mmaamed or gay and lesbian couples from getting see Marriage, page 3 Gay Morn Appeals Custody DecisiOn PENSACOLA, Fla. - Mary Ward has appealed an August ruling that ordered her 11-year-old daughter be given over to the custody of the child’s father, who was convicted of killing his first wife.The decision last year by state Circuit Court Judge JosephTarbuck stunned many when he ruled in favor of John Ward, the girl’s father, who served 9 years in prison for killing his first wife during an argument over custody of their daughter. In deciding against Mary Ward, Tarbuck ruled see Morn, page 3 Tennessee Sodomy Law Thrown Out KNOXVILLE, Tenn. ~ The Tennessee Court of Appeals has ruled unanimously that the state’s anti-gay sodomy statute is unconstitutional. In overturning the state law the court ruled that the right to privacy includes "the fight of the plaintiffs to engage in consensual, private, non-commercial sexual conduct" that were none of the state’s business because they involve "intimate questions of personal and family concern." State officials gave no immediate indication of whether they would appeal the ruling to the state supreme court or not, but most rights advocates expect an appeal. FUSO: Friends in Unity Social Organization Tulsa’s organization for African-American Gay men ~s expanding its efforts to meet both social and health needs of their immediate community, and the larger one. Over the past year they’ve established a RAIN team, which has its first client, and which may be the only all African-Amencan team in Oklahoma. Its leadership also is working on the non-profit’s tax-exempt status with the Internal Revenue Service so that they can actively seek grant funding to provide HIV education and care. Ultimately they would like to provide case management, peer education, information and referra! services, HIV testing and counseling, health and nutrition, and substance abuse counseling and a food bank in North Tulsa. Over this last year, FUSO has donated canned goods to Our House, made a gift to the victims of the OKC bombing They v e helped to represent Tulsa African-A~eri ¯ cans by sending representatives to Hoist ing the Bamwr. the state HIV AIDS con. ference in OKC addressing issnes of people of color and also participated in the statewide HIV/AIDS conference held last summer at the Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place. Its members marched in the "95 Tulsa AIDS Walk and the World AIDS Day March held at University of Tulsa. Derrick Davis, who is one of FUSO’s officers, has been nominated to be cochair of the Multi-Cultttral AIDS Coalition. FUSO also is participating in the planning of the Women and AIDS conference that will be tleld in April. Last Labor Day, FUSO held a successful Labor Day Weekend event with guests see FUSO, page 10 Vicious Pink, In the Red? OKC-owned Store Closes Vicious Pink, a Gay-oriented gift store owned by Anthony Klatt of Oklahoma City has closed after barely 6 months. The store located in Concessions at 3340 So. Peoria opened with ambitious plans and claims of being the largest such establishment in the state. Kirk Glines, one of the owners of Concessions, indicated that he and his partner Terry Kerns will reopen the shop themselves, possibly by March 1st. Klatt also opened a shop, Dusty Roads, in the Silver Star Saloon. Star owner, John Rothrock could not say whether Dusty Roads was still in business, noting that it was closed without explanation for a week recently and had not been dependably open. February 15 - March 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue 3 Tulsa Man Seeks Relief From Threats Saks 5th Avenue to Show AIDS Quilt A 31-year 01d Tulsa man’s been driven from one home, has had to send his children away for their safety, has had other members of his family threatened and may have to flee his new apartment, all because he’s living with AIDS. Roscoe Pilant, who goes by the nickname, JR,just wants to be left alone to hve, and to work when he can. However, despite having swastikas and death threats marked on his door and threats to murder him left on his answering machine, Tulsa Police initially were hardly cooperative. And as a result of his complaint, investigation by legalaid attorneys have discovered that the Oklahoma S tate Bureau of Investigations might have been violating the OK hate crimes statute by not keeping statistics on hate crimes directed toward any disabled persons, including those living with AIDS. Pilant says his troubles began when he had to take a HIV related medical absence from work. After he returned, he feels that his employer, a national finn, fired him becauseof his HIV status. After the finn was contacted by Oklahoma Legal Aid attorney Darlene Shadid and was informed that discrimination based on HIV’AIDS status is illegal under federal law, the Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA), he returned to work. And then the harassment began. see Threats, page 2 DKNY Fashion Fundraiser-2/29 Lesbian & Gay Domestic Violence Two police officers from Tulsa area police departments spoke to the members and guests of Tulsa Oklahomans for Hnman Rights (TOHR) about do~nestic violence issues, both within and out the LesbianGay con~nunities. Both officers who are 10 year plus veterans work pmnanly on domestic violence (hereafter abbreviated as DV). Each gave profoundly sobering statistics on the extent of DV. For example, they noted that 50% of US women ~vi!l be DV violence victims, that wom_en are at a 9 times higher risk of injury in their homes than they are on the street, and that every 15 seconds a women is beaten in her own home. The officers outlined some of the social psycholoNcal dynamics of DV noting the stages of the syndrome and gave details of legal opti’ons and other resources to help victims and to identify abusers. The officers who had dealt with Lesbian/Gay DV issues bemoaned the lack of research in this area but noted that the causes are similar to those of DV for heterosexuals. They suggested that 30% of Lesbian/Gay relationships have some DV problems but they suspected that these cases tended to be underreported because the criminal justice system rmnains homophobic. They also stated that Lesbian relationships appear to be more physically violent than those of Gay or Bi men. Also, Gay men may not report DV when it happens because the general perception is that DV ouly happens to women and often the agencies that deal with DV are not well equipped to help men. Tulsa’s Saks Fifth Avenue will display 10 sections of The NAMES PROJECT AIDS Memorial Quilt on February 21 to March 1st. Saks Fifth Avenue is the first corporation to spensor a multi-site display with 45 Saks Fifth Avenue stores and 60ff5th’s outlet centers showing memorial panels that are geographically specific to the store’s site. Later this year, the panels displayed in Tulsa will join the nearly 32,000 panels now in the Quilt. The Columbus Day weekend (Oct. 12-13) display on the Capitol Mall in Washington, DC will be the first time in four years that the Quilt has b~en seen in its entirety as it has grown so large. All fifty US states are represented as well as 39 other countries. Panels made by Saks Fifth Avenue associates from across the US will be exhibited in New York City in August before going to Washington. On February 29~ Saks Fifth Avenue, Tulsa will present a DKNY Fashion extravaganza, Give My Regards to Donna, to benefit the Hope Candlelight Tonr. A silent auction and fashion show, featuring local celebrities, will unveil DKNY’s spring collection and be Tulsa’ s exclusive launch of DKNYfor Men. A few models are Debbie Campbell, I.J. Gannam, Aleksandr Lunev, Beth Reng,’d, Kevin Steincross, Mike Jones and Sonya Colberg Nanc3 Renberg, Charles & Francie Faudree. Hope Candlelight Tour benefits St. Joseph Residence and RAIN, the Regional .-kIDS Interfaith Network INSIDE-] EDITORIAL DIRECTORY NEWS BRIEFS HEALTH BRIEFS CALENDAR EUREKA PAGE P. 2 P. 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 11 Music for Life John McCarthy and Beverly Stanley, chairing the Walk for Ltfe committee, have zumounced that a "Blues" Festival will kick off tiff s 3’ear’ s series of events for the fourth annual Walk for Life Campaign. Mark Snider, renowned Tulsa musician, has organized an outstanding evening of the "Blues" featuring local musicians. The event will be held at the Sunset Grill, 3410 South Peoria on Tuesday, March 12. The admission donation of $5 will include two raffle tickets for items donated by the Blue Rose Cafe, the Doubletree at Warren Place, and the Celebrity Club, to nmne a few. K-MOD Radio and Budweiser will join the Sunset Grill as hosts and Paine Webber and Roche Laboratories are patron sponsors. This event is the first of several plam~ed to raise funds for Tulsa area HIV/AIDS support agencies. Other events include an art show in June and a jazz festival in July, and the 4th Walkfor Life to be at Riverside Park on October 12. Proceeds from the 1995 Walk went to 12 Tulsa community HIV/AIDS related non-profit age~l~ies. �918.583. 1248 P(~. 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@aol.com Publisher/Editor Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents Of Tom Neat this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family Assistant Editor News and mav not be reproduced either in whole or in part withot{t James Christjohn written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or Writers/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barry Hensley noted¯ must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family Pat Morehead News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Eaci~ Staff Photographer reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution JD Jamett points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. Using Gays as the scapegoat for the demise of the by Phvl Boler-Schmidt family is; reprehensible nonsense.. Unfortunately,, ,:~ .A t~ureka. Spri_ngs man i.s dead. A 17-year-old in order, to get in good with.Pat Robertson’ s ChrisWho admitted to the "killing has not been charged. tian Coalition, Republican presidential candidates And, the whole event is shrouded in mystery. are all too willing.to go along with the lie that Gay This is what we -know. The "killing o~curr~d at a people are somehow, a.threat.to.thefamilv. ~popular local lake park where the young mau was Wqaoles~le divorce among heterosexuals doe; helping his; ~andmotlXe~- cSaretake th~ i-esort for the the real damage. With a 50% divorce rate. adultery, Winter. It happened at night. The dead man, in his abused women, financial conditions that require forties and -known by his friends to be a closeted gay both parents to leave children home alone, abanman. was shot at point blank range in the face with doned and abused children and so forth, it doesn"t a shotgtm. The young man did not have the gun at take much effort to see that heterosexuals have his immediate disposal, but had to go to another succeeded quite well in crippling the family withroom, locate the gun, find the shells, load the out any he!p:from Gays and Lesbians. weapon, then return to the place where he shot and -~- J.J. Stogsdill, Broken Arrow killed the victim. The young man has said that he awoke with a I recently had the distinct pleasure Of being one start to find the he was being sprayed with ejaculate of the stops along District 6 City Councilor. Art as the older man was masturbating all over him. He Justiss" campaign tour. I felt like I shouldn’t be the says he killed the man in self-defense. There aren’t ordy one who has the advantage of "knowing how many Queers in these parts who are buying that Mr. Justiss feels about Gay rights in Tulsa before I story. The police have been silent. The ~oroner’s cast nay vote in the up-coming elections for City report is not due out of Little Rock for a few weeks. Council. No arrest has been made, no charges filed. It is My partner and I asked Mr. Justiss about the minored that the dead man was found completely status of the Human Rights Depar.~nent (Commitnude though there is no official word on this. tee on Sexual Orientation Discrimination) ProI have decided not to publish any names here so posal to the City of Tulsa. Mr. Justiss said that he as not to interfere with what the police are calling an would never put such a thing on the City Council ongoing investigation. Since there have been no agenda and he felt :quite confident that no other public statements made regarding the case, I am councillor would either. When questioned about giving law enforcement authorities the benefit of why he was too afraid to even consider a proposal the doubt that they will continue to investigate this from one of the city’s own commissxons. Mr. case. and if the facts warrant it, an arrest will be Justiss admitted that he didn’t want to "’take the made. The benefit of the doubt. For now. heat.’" He told us that to put something like the I’ve spoken with a number of Gays mad Lesbians current proposal on the agenda would be political about tiffs issue. No one is taking it lightly. There is suicide. Of course, he added that he wouldn’t some fear that, if the case is swept under the carpet, discriminate on the basis of "’race, color or sexual and the young man is not charged, it will send a preference," but he felt protections for Gays against signal that it is okay to kill Queers because no one discrirmnation had no place in city government. will do anything at~out it. I remain hopeful though Mr. Justiss’ visit to our home was a reminder to skeptical. him that .there are Lesbians alive and living in The facts that we DO "know are alarming. Even if Tulsa, OK and a reminder to us that we can’t vote the young man’s story is true, how could it possibly for a representative who will only entertain ~ssues be grounds for murder’? Semen in these circumand concerns that are popular. - Kharma R. Amos stances is not a deadly weapon, certainly not enough justification for murder. Most assuredly not - if he was free enough to leave, mad chose to go to another room, find a shotgun, load it, and return to the scene. Justhow frightened for his life could the young man have been? see Murder, page 3 . Many of the threats were specific in saying that if he returned to work he would die. Pilant feels his privacy was deliberately compromised by co-workers who posted his unlisted number counter to his request. When Pilant first reported the phone messages and the graffiti on his door, Tulsa police did not even send out an officer. Calls to the Mayor’s Action hotline were also unhelpful. However, after intervention by community-activist Nancy McDonald, li~ing up to her appellation "Saint McDonald", Tulsa police were more responsive and took more thorough reports. Pilant also nbted that Claudette Peterson, director of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights’ (TOHR) HIV Testing Clinic was helpful in getting him assistance as was former TOHR president, Kelly Kirby, through whose contact, KJRH, Ch. 2 became aware of Pilant’ s dilemma and reported on it. Attomey Darlene Shadid said she was told by sources in OSBI and the Tulsa DA’s office that a decision had been made, apparently informally at a seminar in the past couple of years, not to consider persons living with AIDS to be disabled, despite federal law on the matter. Later, Shadid determined that OSBI appeared not to be keeping any statistics on hate crimes based on any disability of any kind. In response to TFN, Tim Hams of the Tulsa District Attorney’s office indicated that their office would enforce the Oklahoma hate crime statute as it applied to disability and noted that new DA LaFortune has participated in the Say No to Hate Coalition for some time. Director of the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigations (OSBI), Dwade Langley said that they would keep statistics on hate crimes based on disability but that they were entirely dependent on the local law enforcement agencies to report the incidents to them. Meanwhile, JR Pilant hopes that he can return to a quiet life with his children and family sal’e from hate and intimidation. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Barraccuda’s, 2405 E. Admiral *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 832-1269 582-4340 744-0896 585-5622 749-1563 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Derails C..Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Medical & Mental Health, 2325 S. 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Ben Cayetano home loans through the state housing ¯ has .suggested that the way for the state to agency itself. The new definition.of a extricate itself from the ongoing controhousehold adopted by the VHDA states versy of same-sex marriages is for the that a "single-family loan can be made to ¯ state to stop giving marriage licenses to more than one person only if all such anyone and just offer domestic partnerpersons ... are related by blood, marriage ships to gay and non-gay couples instead. or adoption or by legal custodial relation- ¯ ’The institution of marriage shouldbe left ship."Albert Eisenberg, one of the VHDA to the church," Cayetano is quoted as commissioners, disagreed loudly with the saying in a report in the Honolulu Adver¯ change. "It is bigoted nonsense elevated tiser. ’q’he government needs to explore to formal state policy," Eisenberg said of its role in marriages. The government the new policy, which he said may lead to : should not be in the role of sanctifying ~xpensive legal court challenges as well marriages. That’s when they nminto probas possible trouble with federal housing lems." agencies that underwrite most of the loans State Senate leaders quickly said they the Virgima agency makes. Most of the didn’t think the legislature was likely to state’s real estate organizations opposed go along with Cayetano’s idea to pull the the new definition, as did gay rights groups plug on marriage. While legal experts say and the ACLU, which said the change .th.ey have no idea if a state could even stop would "inspire lawyers to look for loop~ssuing marriage licenses, they do agree holes." In addition to Gov. Allen’s backthat the most important benefits of legal ing, the rule change was also supported by marriage are derived from the federal the Virginia Family Foundation and Congovernment in the form of income taxes, cemed Women for America, which arSocial Security benefits, and pensionregugued that only "traditional" families should lations - all of which depend on state legal be given economic benefits from the state definitions of a mamage. agency. Gay/Bisexual Indian Men Retreat However in Nebraska, an exception to the "stop-the-wedding" frenzy has come The Tulsa Native American AIDS PreNebraska where state Sen. Ernie Chamvention Project (TNAAPP) is sponsoring bers of Omaha has introduced a measure two free weekend camping retreats (Feb. that would amend Nebraska law to let 23-35 and June 7-9) to enhance cultural gays and lesbians legally marry in the awareness and HIV!AIDS awareness. The Cornhusker State. Chambers acknovCl-retreat will include workshops addressing edges that his proposal, LB1260, probHIV AIDS, self-esteem, safer sex negoably won’t win approval on its first pass tiation skills and cultural and traditional through the state legislature, but he says values - all presented in a safe envlroment. he’s determined and won’t give tip. ’q’his For a CONFIDEN~HAL application, is an issue related to civil rights mad civil call B-rima or Keetoo~v ala. at 918-582-7225. liberties that can’t be dodged by political bodies,"-he says. "It has an impact on so many people." And in San Francisco, its Board of Supervisors created a "civil ceremony to solemnize" same-sex domestic parmerships under the aegis of the county clerk’s office, the city official who also perfolans civil wedding ceremonies for heterosexual couples. The measure, which would extend no benefits beyond its symbolic ceremony, is believed to be the first time any 4045 No. Cincinnati. 425-7882 govenfing body has moved to create a civil rite to acknowledge same-sex umons. A board committee quic "kly approved the 4200 So. Atlanta Pl.. 742-7381 measure mad sent it on to the full board. Five of the board’s 11 members are cosponsors of the ceremony. The county 501 So. Cincinnati. 582-4128 clerk’s office has estimated that adding the ceremony would probably increase The Episcopal Church the number of registered partners by 2 or 3 times. And with a $30 fee for the cerWelcomes You emony itself, the clerk’s office also esti- Open Arms Open Minds Open Hearts Saint Aidan’s of their ability to serve in the armed forces, the 1,049 HIV-positiveU.S. service members and immediately cut off all health care benefits to their dependents. Half these service members are married and, on average, they have served in the military for a decade, according to the Pentagon. Nearly 20 percent of them are officers. Clinton legal counsel, Jack Quinn, told reporters in making the announcement that "the President has determined that this provision is .unconstitutional and he has therefore directed the Attorney General not to defend it in court." The Pentagon, Gay & Lesbian civil rights advocates, AIDS activists and a number of members of Congress oppose the provision. But President Clinton signed the appropriations measure because it is vital to the country’s defense needs, in spite of the Dornan provision. A measure has also been introduced by Sens. William Cohen (R-Maine) and Edward Kennedy (D-Mass.) to repeal the Dornan provision. A similar bill to overturn the measure was introduced in the House by Reps. Peter Torkildsen, R-Mass., Jane Harman, D-Calif., Connie Morella, R-Md., and Ron Dellums, D-Calif. Elizabeth Birch, head of the Human Rights Campaign, applauded the \Kqaite House announcement. "We asked him [Clinton] to put the full force of his administration behind overturning it and he has done just that," she said. "This is precisely the kind of leadership we expect from Bill Clinton." Winnie Stachelberg, HRC’s senior health policy advocate, said, "q’hat [the Dornan provision] ~ as one of the meanest. most vindictive measures to come out of the 104th Congress, and we will do everything in our power to ensure,, repeal of that discmninatorv measure, The repeal bill is expected to have broad bipartisan support in both honses, Stachelberg said, noting that Georgia Sen. Sam Numa, ranking Democrat on the Senate Armed Services Committee, has called the HIV expulsion measure "pmfitive." Dornan and other GOP extremis ts added the HIV provision to the House version of the defense authorization, but it was not in the Senate bill. When the two versions went to a House-Senate conference committee for reconciliation, House Republicans made sure this discriminatory measure became part of the final bill, Stachelberg said. Currently, service members with the virus that causes AIDS may serve their country as long as they can perform their duties, but they are not deployed overseas. The same policy is applied to service members who have other chronic medical conditions such as diabetes, asthma, heart disease or cancer. The Human Rights Campaign is the largest national lesbian and gay political organization, with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that lesbian and gay Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. that the daughter "should be given the opportunity and the option to live in a non-lesbian world." One new witness slated to testify in the appeal will be Michelle Mclr£nes, 25, the daughter of John Ward and the wife he "killed. During a television interview am~onncing that she ~vould testify, McInnes said her father also tried to molest her ~vhen she was 14 3ears old. This reporter does not claim to be a legal scholar, bnt from what I do kaaow, the evidence points toward premeditated mnrder, even if the provocation the young man talked about happened in exactly the way he said it did. I, for one, donbt the story, but I also doubt there is any way to disprove it. What will the offici~s cal[ it’? Murder? Justifiable homicide? A -killing in self-defense? A hate crone? Stay tuned. I’ll keep you posted. Saint John’s Trinity Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ° Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . 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That figure is the lowest reported since the survey started in 1987 when 53 % said they disapproved of gay and lesbian relationships. Fed. Court Topples Alabama Anti-Gay Law MONTGOMERY, Ala. - U.S. District Court Judge Myron Thompson has declared a 1992 state law prohibiting state agencies frown using public funds in direct or indirect support of gay and lesbian orgamzations as unconstitutional. The law was quickly passed by. the state legislature and signed into law after officials at Auburn University g~ve recognition to a gay student group on the campus. Lawmakers had argued that because sodtroy is illegal in Alabama, no state funds should be used to support-the "’gay lifestyle." Judge Thompson, however, ruled that the law was simply an attempt to restrict discussion at public schools, an illegal restriction of free speech. ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Hearing Begins SFATTLE - The attorueys representing Navy Lt. Richard Watson, called the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy on gays and lesbians in the armed forces"the height of hy pocri s y ," arguing in federal court that it was an unconstitutional invasion of privacy. Watson, a 34-yearold officer who was training to eventually captain one of the Navy’s nuclear-powered submafines, has said he told his commanding officer he is gay to avoid the possibility of being blackmailed as his naval career advanced. He continues to serve in the Navy wlfile his case, one of several like it, is in the federal courts. Canadian Censorhsip Case: Mixed Ruling VANCOUVER - The British Columbia Supreme Court has handed down a utixed ruling in the case of the Little Sister’s BookStore, a gay and lesbian shop that had charged Canadian Customs officials with unconstitutional censorship. The provincial high court declared that Customs officials had in fact used their power to seize published materials counng into the countU in ways that violated the nation’s Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Customs officials have seized, and sometimes destroyed, hundreds of gay m~d lesbian books and magazines ordered by Little Sister’s, maiulv from UTS. publishers, claiming the materials violated Canadian pornography laws. The court ruled that the Customs actions "’in large part.., are die arbitrary and improper consequence of a~ inadequate mad flawed admimstration of the legislation.’" It also ruled that the incidents involving Little Sister’s were isolated episodes, but constituted a"~ave systemic problem." The most d~sappointing part of the court ruling, said Janine Fuller of Little Sisters, was the justices’ failure to declare the statute that gives Customs officials the authority to seize materials as unconstitutional. Fuller called the failure of the court to overturn die Customs legislation "disappointing" and said the store would be appealing that part of the ruling, but that she was otherwise pleased with the rest of the high court’s ruling. "Ttfis decision is a complete vindication of thc gay aud lesbian conmmmty and the lives of its people mid for that we celebrate die decision," she said. "It has been a long, hard climb. We haven’t quite reached the smmnit but we’re dimm closc. We are colffident that we will succeed at the Court of Appeal." Cincinnati Bias Costs City $35 Million tional flap last year when he refused to allow a gay rights organization in the country to operate a booth at an interuational book fair in the nation’s capital, calling homosexuals"sodomists mid sexual perverts" who ,are "’worse than dogs and pigs." He followed up later by saying the gays and lesbians have "no rights" in Zimbabwe and threatened to imprison homosexuals. Although the Catholic Church considers homosextmlity a "disorder" that should be dealt with as sucll, the Bishops Coifference letter condemned what it "called "’any attempts toinstitute a witchhunt or hate campaign" against homosexuals. "It is therefore not right for anyone, induding govenunent, to harass, persecute or torture people simply because they are known to have this indination,’" the Bishops’ Co~fference letter said. CINCINNATI - The Cincinnati Enquirer reports that the cit\"s Convention & Visitors Bureau says it has lost some $35 million Anti-Bias Measure for in tourist and convention income CA Students Dies because of an anti-gay measure SACtL~kMENTO, Calif. - AB approved by voters in 1993 to 1001, a proposed measure in the repeal an earlier anti-bias measure that included gays mid les- ¯ Califonfia legislature to bar discrimination because of sexual bians. The visitors bureau report orientation in the state’s public had been requested by the city council and cited 10 ~arger naschools and universities, failed tional organizations, including by an 8-7 vote in the Assembly’s education colurnittee. The meadie A~nerican Library Associasure, introduced by Assemblytion. that specifically mentioued the repealed rights measure as woman Sheila Kuehl (DFa~cino), has languished in the their reason for not holding concommittee since April 1995 ventions in the city. when it failed to pass on a first Catholic Bishops Speak reading there. The vote against Upfor Gays in Zimbabwe sending the bill to the full AsHAt~kRE, Zimbabwe - Gays sembly was along party lines. and lesbians in Zimbabwe have Utah Wants to Stop gotten some limited support from School Gay Group an unexpected source when the SALT LAKE CITY - Accordcountry’s Catholic Bishops’ ing to a report in the Deseret Conference issued a pastoral letNews, the Utah State Board of ter denouncing attacks against Education has told state officials homosexuals. Zimbabwe Presito find "all available ~neans" to dent Robert Mugabe, who is a control the kinds ofnon-curricuCatholic, sparked an interna- lum dubs that are formed at public schools in the state.The move is aimed at preventing a gay and lesbian student club from being formed at East High School in the state’s capital city. C. Grant Hurst, who introduced the directive, told the newspaperit wasn’t specifically about the gay dub at the high school and said he was concerned the current legal situation could allow net-Nazi groups to be formed at public schools in Utah. Hurst admitted, however, that he had gotten"numerous" phone calls opposed to the gay club and none about possible net-Nazi dubs forming.. The board’s resolution speaks only about the"formation of any organizations, in schools, that may create a disruptive or unsafe atmosphere for children or that may attract or entice children to make decisions tllat could have a long-term negative impact on their lives." The Utah attorney general’s office told educators late last year in a letter that federal law and court rulings mandate that scllool clubs have to be treated equally no matter how potentially controversial. The board’s own attorney late in 1995 said the only way the state could keep the gay dub at East High from forming would be for all clubs to be prohinted, stop receiving federal education funds entirely,.or to ask Congress to repeal the Equal Access Act. Rally Against Blocking Gay School Clubs In Utah SALT LAKE CITY - Hundreds of gay rights activists, including the parents of gay mid lesbian teens, rallied outside the state Capitol to protest a move by conservative lawmakers who have said the state should not allow gay and lesbian student groups in public schools, even if BROOKSIDE JEWELRY South Peoria 743-$272 Dan Du Vall / Owner Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. P AII’ERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 Open Saturdays thru holidays! David A. Paddock, CPA, MT "Utmost Confidence Assured" logo here Computer Analysis Consultation Rich Fox P.O. Box 52708 4308 S. 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Bishop Alter Righter for ordainIn.stead, she said, "I started this ingan openly gay priest is slated group to end the misery and isoto start before a panel of 9 bishlation of being gay in high ops Feb. 27, only the second school." such heresy proceeding in the Utah legisli~tors held a secret history of the church although meeting earlier in the week with the bishops who brought the the state school superintendent, charges against Righter say it the commissioner of higher eduwon’t be the last. Righter, the cation and members of the Utah retired bishop of Iowa, ordainedAttorney General’s office, reBarry Stopfel as a deacon in portedly to discuss legal meth1990. At the rime Stopfel not ods to prevent gay clubs from only acknowledged that he is being formed at schools in the gay, but also that he had been state. But Senate President Lane living with his male partner Beattie dismissed the protest as throughout his seminary studa tempest in a teapot. "The inferies. The 10 bishops who brought marion given them was in error," the charges against Righter say he said. "It [the secret meeting] bishops in New Jersey, Philadelwasnot an anti-gay, anti-lesbian phia, Detroit and Washington meeting. The meeting was not may also be charged With heresy held to discuss issues they tlfink for similar ordinations if the we discussed.’~ Beatrie said that ecclesiastical court finds Righter lawmakers at the meeting were guilty. not anti-gay bnt were anti-imTX Radical Right Wants morality. "That includes heterosexual immorality as well as No Gays In Library homosexual iunnorality. We m’e SAN ANTONIO, Texas - Antinot going to allow immorality to gay flmdamentalists have tried be taught or encouraged in our so far without success - to keep public education system. Pethe Unity Foundation, an orgariod." But rights activists point nization that’s working on plans out that a measure that has not to open a lesbian and gay comyet been printed for public remunity center in this SouthTexas view - SB 246 - would"prohibit ¯ city, from holding m meetings in schools from supporting illegal the city’s pubhc library. Orgaconduct" and may well mimic nizers of the anri-gay group have an Alabmna state law barring protested outside the library and publicly supported schools from city hall, and say that homosexusupporting any orgmfizarion that als shouldn’t be permitted to use advocates illegal activities. That ~ public facilities because sodomy Alabmna measure was specifi- ¯ is illegal under state law. But so cally aimed at preventing state far the anti-gay protests have been small and failed to draw wide support, while a number of mainstream religious leaders have vocally backed the Unity Foundation’ s rights both to meet at the library and to work on the community center. San Francisco Police: A ’Commanding’ Lesbian SAN FRANCISCO- As part of sweeping changes from top to bottom being instituted by newly elected Mayor Willie Brown in San Francisco, Melinda Pengel has become perhaps the highest ranking openly gay police officer in any major U.S. police e force. Pengel, who was in the first class of women cadets to join the SFPD in 1975 and iu 1994 became one of the department’s highest ranking officers when she was awarded her captain’s bars, has now been made a commander on the force of some 2,000 officers. Colnmander Pengel, 41, was named to her new rank by Brown’s handpicked Police Chief Fred Lau. The rank of commander is below only the chief and deputy chief officials. Among her new duties, Pengel will oversee the department’s pohcing efforts on the city’s trouble-plagued public transportation system. Pengel said of the promotion, "It’s not just for me; it’s for .the other women in the department too. We’re moving into a nmv era, and I get to be a part of that." Virginia ’Diversity’ Billboard Covered Up CHRISTIANBURG, Va. - A billboard erected recently in the downtown area of this small community of some 11,000 people west of Roanoke, proclaiming simply that "Diversity Enriches,’" has been covered over by the owners of the billboard after callers threatened to damage the finn’ s property. The billboard was paid for by an informal group known as Gay & Straight Citizens of Southwest Virginia with the help of the local chapter of PFLAG (Parents & Friends of Lesbians And Gays), and went up January 18. Aside from the simple phrase, "’Diversity Enriches," the only other print on the rainbow billboard was the much smaller sponsorship tag for Gay & Straight Citizens of Southwest Virginia, which paid $450 for having its sign up for a month. But after au article with a photo of the billboard appeared in the local new spaper, Frank Amburn, manager of the lo’cal office of Outdoor East, the company that owns the billboard space, says his office was flooded with calls complaining about the sign, including several from people who threatened to destroy other billboards owned by the advertising finn. At that point, Amburn decided to cover up the billboard out of fear for his company’s property. The ad agency’ is refunding the money paid for the billboard space. Forbes’ Gay Views Become a Political Issue DES MOINES, iowa- Dmnonstrating once again - for better or f6r worse - that gay fights can no longer be separated from uational politics, Republicau pres. hopefuls have increasingly tried to derail the unexpectedly surging candidacy of multi-~nillionaire Steve Forbes by portraying him as "’pro-ga.v.’" In Iowa iu Jan., state cmnpaign officials who were supporting Sen. Phil Grannn’s bid, told reporters that Forbes supports allowing gays m~d lesbim~s to serve in the U.S. military under the current "’don’t ask, d’on’t tell’" compromise policy. Recently, Forbes was asked if he was in favor of allowing same-sex marriages. Although clearly uncomfortable with the question, Forbes responded,"Compassion is not approval. There should be special fights for none, equal rights for all." Brits Expected to Keep Anti-Gay Military Policy LONDON" - London ucwspapers have reported that British defense lmnistry officials remmn opposed to ending the ban on gays and lesbians in the nation’ s armed forces. Several newspapers reported that Michael Portillo, the defense ~mnister, will announce sometime in Feb. the findings of a ministry review of the policy excluding homosexuals in the military, but several ministry officials have atready said the review found no reason to change the policy. If the govenunent keeps the current policy there will almost certainly be a legal challenge before ihe European Court of fluman Rights, where 4 discharged gay and lesbian service members have already’ applied for a review of their case. The uational gay rights group Stonewall has also applied for pervm ssign to appeal the policy to the House of Lords, Britain’s highest court of appeal. Gay arit to Play Wilde LONDON - Openly’ gay British comic actor Stephen Fry, perhaps best known to American audiences for his portrayal of the erudite and condescending butler in the BBC,’PBS "Wooster and Jeeves,’" says his next role will be starnng in a film bio-pic of 19th century playwright, wit mad ben vivant , Oscar Wilde. Wilde was finprisoned in 1895 for a sodomy statute violation. KELLY KIRB Y Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. 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Gay Medical Journal Drug Combo Treats Eye Disease WASHINGTON - According to a report. in the Archives of Ophthalmology, a daily injecteddose of 2 drugs - foscarnet and ganciclovir - is a more effective way to combat the blinding AIDS-related eye disease cytomegalovirus (CMV) retinitis than either of the drugs used alone. Patients in the research who were given one or the other but not both drugs had recurring CMV retinilis infections in a month or two of starting the therapy. But patients in the study who were given both drugs were able to keep it under.control for 4. months or longer. Just Say No School Programs WASHINGTON" - Part of the massive welfare overhaul confessional Republicans have proposed in this year’s ongoing budget battle includes $75 millionin federal funds for state schools to each students the "gains to be realized by abstaining from sexual activity" outside marnage. The abstinence pro~am proposal would provide money for schools to teach youngsters that complete abstinence is the oulv certmn wav to avoid unwanted pregnancies and sex~ally transmitted diseases such as AIDS. Ignoring gays and lesbians ~vho cannot legally marry in this country, the language of"ihe G~)P proposal states: "A mutually faithful monogmnous relationship in the context of mamage is the expected standard of human sexual activity" mad that sex outside marnage "’is likely to have laarmful p~y- NEW YORK-The Gay & Lesbian Medical Assn. has announced plans to begin publishing what it says will be the first science journal devoted to medical issues faced by homosexuals. The journal, which as yet has not been given a name, will focus on publishing findings in research on AIDS and HIV, mental health issues, breast cancer and other medical issues. FDA OK Sought for AIDS Drug STOCKHOLM - The U.S.-Swedish drug manufacturer Pharmica & Upjohn has released preliminary data on ,still-incomplete clinical trials of its drug Delavirdine (also -known as Rescriptor) because early results hold so much promise, the firm sa vs. Hoping that the early results will help get faster approval from the U.S. Food & Drug Administration for the drug, Pharmica & Upjotm said Delavirdine appears to help some patients infected with HIV stave off developing full-blown AIDS. The firm said that preliminary data from its ongoing tests with the drug indicate that patients receiving Delavirdine had been able to lower the amount of HIV in their blood system by at least 68% for as long as 60 w~eks. Some 3,500 patients have been participating so far. Infants Shed HIV Completely LONDON - According to researchers reporUng in the medical journal Lancet, nine infants who were infected with HIV bv their mothers at birth have fended off tl~e virus. Only a few such reports of HIV relnisston have ever been reported, an~ those have beeu received with some skepticism. But the uew findings - which come from Italy, Belgium m~d Swedeu : may not be so easiix disufissed. Of some 264 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By & for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings: 7-8:30 pm for testing, 7-9 pm for results. Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. babies who were born HIV-positive, the research team found nine who subsequently became free of the virus. In seven cases, both HIV tests used went from positive to negative during the course of the study; in the other two, the virus was detected even though the antibody tests indicated that the baby was not infected. 2 Different AIDS Epidemics NEW DELHI - Max Essex of the Harvard AIDS Institute said at a conference on infectious diseases that increasingly there are 2 different AIDS epidemics globally one in the Western industrial nations, which is slowing, and another in Afr ica and Asia, which is continuing to Wow with no end in sight. Es sex told the conference that the 2 epidemics are spread by different strains of HIV- 1, and that the B and E strains of the virus behave differently. Unpublished research by Essex and his team at the Harvard institute, he said, indicates that subtype E is more efficient at infecting cells in the female reproductive tract, so is more readily transmitted during heterosexual sex. The E subtype is largel y found in Africa and the Indian subcontinent. But, Essex said, the viral subtype that is largely responsible for the AIDS epidemic in Europe and North America - subtype B - targets different body cells and seems more prone to being passed on during anal sex, perhaps explaining its predominance among gay men. Essex noted that in the West, about 2 million people are infected and that that number appears to have leveled off. But, he said, there are an estimated 15 to 20 million cases in Africa and the Indian subcontinent, and that number apparently is continuing to grow unchecked. "RELIEF FROM PAIN" THOMAS CHIROPRACTIC CLINIC DR. REX M. THOMAS DR. SHIRLEY A. THOMAS PROFESSIONAL SERVICE NO NEEDLES ACUPUNTURE NECK & BACK PAIN CHRONIC PAIN 4138 S. HARVARD. SUITE C-1 TULS& OK 74135 FREE CON~(.LTATION ASSURED PRIVACY NUTRITION COUNSELING HEADACHES CARPAL TUNNEL SYNDROME (918) 742-8868 Intimacy for Gay & Bisexual Men A 10 WEEK THERAPEUTIC GROUP EXPERIENCE The focus of the group will be the introduction of a cognitive behavioral group model for examining intimacy and .barriers to intimate relationships among gay and bisexual men. This approach is skill-based, and builds upon the strengths of group members while promoting growth at intrapersonal, interpersonal and community levels. Facilitated by Richard Reeder, M.S. TOHR When: Monday evenings, 7:00 - 9:00 P.M. Beginning March 4, 1996 Concluding May 6, 1996 Cost: $25.00 per session or $200.00 advance registration 742-2927 Where: Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 South Lewis Tulsa, OK 74104 Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. FOR INTAKE APPOINTMENT, PLEASE CALL 743-4117 THE GROUP WILL BE LIMITED TO 8 PARTICIPANTS. �A QUALITY LIF ALTERNATIVE WHAT IS VIATICATION? Viatication is the process d~rough which a person living with an terminal illness can receive a cash payment from flae face value of their insurance policy. WHO IS ELIGIBLE FOR A VIATICAL SETTLEMENT? Generally, to be eligible for a viatica1 settlement you must have a documentable terminal illness, and life insurance coverage in either an individual term, whole life, or a group policy. HOW MUCH IS MY POLICY WORTH? The value of your life insurance policy in a viatical settlement is determined by the specifics of your policy and your unique medical situation. Not every policy is suitable for viaticanon, but settlement offers typically range from 60% to 90% of a policy’s face value, depending on the specifics of your policy and medical history. HOW DOES A SETTLEMENT WORK? With your written penmssion, we gather medical and xnsurance records with which to determine your policy’s value. Then. a settlemnt offer is presented to you. You may always decline the offer with no obligation whatsoever. Should you accept the offer, payment is made directl y to you. You pay nothing else on your poli(y, and you owe us nothing. IS VIATICATING MY HOW IS SOUTHWEST VIATICAL DIFFERENT ? Today, many compames offer viatical settlements, doing business only by bulk advertising and 1-8,00 numbers. They transfer your insurance and medical records by mail. and do business from another state. At Southwest Viatical. we believe you should be assured of complete confidentiality and the best possible service by working with us in person, face-to-face. We are involved on a commumtv level, and are responsible directly to our local community. POLICY THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR ME? Man?,’ factors influence whether vxaticadng 3’our life insurance is the best financial alternative available for you. Southwest Viatical can discuss all of the factors with you and 3our family in person, in detail and can recommend an experienced Certified Financial Planner to asnst you in plmming the best outcome from 3our umque financial situation. By working with you in person, but at the same time having access to nationwide financial resources, we are able to deliver the best value on your policy available today. And because of our established resources, we can deliver a settlement in less than a third the time other companies take by mail, typically in fe~ver than 30 days. We’ll do what it takes to find the best solution for you. Southwest Home Office Dailas, Texas 800-559-4790 Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative POB 14011 Tulsa, OK 74159-1011 918-747-3320 �AT! E N !iON! ANNOUNCING A RETREAT FOR GAY/BISEXUAL/vkE N! t WHO: Sponsore~ by TNAAPP WHAT: Weekend Retreat for Gay/Bisexual Native American Men WHEN: February 23-25, 1996 WHERE: For More information Caii Today 582-7225, Extension 21~ r IT’S FREE! IT’S FUN! SIC;IV UP TOgA Y! YES! i AM INTERESTED IN COMING TO THE RETREAT NAME: ADDRESS: CITY: STATE: Zl P: TELEPHONE: I i I I dUT ON DOTTED LINE & ,MAIL TO: TNAAPP, 915 SOUTH CINCINNATI, TULSA, OK 74ff9-2000 I I I I I I I �"TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CA EN’I R SUNDAYS MONDAYS ¯ Agape’ Christian HIV Testing Fellowship TOHR Clinic Worship Service, 10:30 am : Free & anonymous testing Sheridan Center, Suite H using fingerstick method. 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Bl~ss the Lord At All Results hours: 7-9 pm Times Christian Center Info: 742-2927 Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am Lambda Bowling League 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 Sheridan Lanes 8:45 pm Community of Hope 3121 S. Sheridan (United Methodist) PFLAG Family AIDS Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Support Group 2nd Monday of month, Family of Faith 6:30 pm Metro. Comm. Church 4154 S. Harvard Adult Sunday School, 9:15 : Info: 749-4901 Worship Service, 11 am 5451-E South Mingo. OTHER GROUPS Info: 622-1441 : Tool Box Technicians, Metro. Comm; Church : Leather org., Info c/o The of Greater Tulsa Too1 Box: 584-1308 Worship Service, 10:45am T.U.L.S.A. Ti~sa Uniform 1623 N. Maplewood ¯ & Leather Seekers Assoc. Info: 838-1715 Info: 838-1222 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay ~ The Banned, OK Gay Band Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa Practice weekly in OKC 6:30 pm at Canterbury Info: 838-2121 5th & Evanston,’ 583-9780 TUESDAYS HIV+ Support Group HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Bless The Lord At All HIV/AIDS Support Group : Times Christian Center ¯ .& Prayer & Bible Study Friends & Family 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth HIV/AIDS Support Group Call 583-7815 for info. 7 pm, call for location: 749-7898 Family Of Faith MCC Community of Hope Grief Group, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Womens Grief Group sponsored by Community of Hope 6pm, Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Info: 585-1800 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 16 Community of Hope Movie Night & Discussion: A River Runs Through It 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 ." FRIDAY, MARCH 1 ¯ Community of Hope ¯ Movie Night & Discassion: Priest : 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, hffo: 585-1800 OF SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 17 Safe Haven, a free, non-political, nonFamily of Faith MCC Reclaim & religious, non-recovery-oriented social Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness gathering for LGBT voimg adults. 18-30 9-3 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 : Family of Faith MC~, 8 - rmdnight 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 18 Community of Hope SATURDAY, MARCH 2 Companioning Celebration Rosary at St. Jerome’s Catholic Charch 2 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 20 WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 21 St. Jerome’s. Catholic Church (ECC) Fat Tuesday Party Ash Wednesday Service Info: page Father Rick at 646-7116 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 22 Alternatives Social Groap - Dinner 7pm, Golden Corral, 71St & Mingo Info: 646-5503 SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 24 Shanti Mardi Gr~ Ball, 8-midnight Natl. Guard Armory, Fairgrounds " Info: 749-7898 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 29 Alternatives Leap Year Party 7pm, Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine Info: 646-5503 TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 27 Rainbow Business Guild 7 pm, Full Moon Care, Cherry Street Dinner Meeting with speaker. Info: 665-5174 WEDNESDAYS Authority Of The Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Info: page Father Rick at .636-7116 TUESDAY, MARCH 5 Tulsa Oklahomans for Haman Rights Community Meeting, 7 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 6 Marsha Stevens Concert presented by Agape Christian Fellowship 7 pm, All Soul’s Unitarian, 2952 S. Peoria Info: 599-7688 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 6 New LGBT Political Groap, I st Meeting 7 pm, Martin East Regional Library 2601 So. Garnett SATURDAY, MARCH 9 Dignityllntegrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Info: POB 701044, 74170 SATURDAY, MARCH 16 Gaylapalooza, 8 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. Second, Info: 596-7111 Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. Community of Hope (United Methodist) Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Bible Study, 7 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd 582-7225 or 584-4983 THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Co-Dependency Support Group . 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-144 1 HIV Testing TOHR Clinic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV’AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pm, Info: 749-4194 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at l 1 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sttulent Association TJC Southeast Can~pus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8-10 pm For info. or to vohlntecr: 743-GAYS �SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS ,Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 743-2351 Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library This entertaining anthology combines essays, personal narratives and poetry regarding the multitude of rites and phases of lesbian life. Coming from the position that the lives of lesbians are, in many ways, very unlike the lives of heterosexual women or gay men, Dyke Life ~ves an inside perspective of lesbian marriage, parenting, stereotypes and lesbians in corporate America, among 0{her topics. There are five parts to Dyke Life: 1) Relating to Others, 2) Relating to Each Other, 3) Sex and Gender Identity, 4)The Public World, and 5) The Lesbian Body. Each section includes several entries by both well-known and obscure lesbian writers. Some of the better-known authors include JoAnn Lonlan, Del Martin, Leslea Newman and Rutt~&im Robson, all of whom have other books available in the library. The entry rifled "outing and the Politics of the Closet," by Victoria Brownworth, is an entertaining examination of the social circumstances which make the outing of women a difficult and sensitive proposition. "Creating Lesbian Families," by Heather Conrad and Kate Colwell shows the challenges and controversies surrounding lesbian parenting. One of the more unusual entries is by Hon. Panla J. Hepner, who is a judge on the New York State Family Court. Her entry is titled, "Oy Veh, t’he Judge on the Bench is a Dyke!’" Another valuable entry is by Jeanne Adleman, member of Old Lesbians Organizing for Change (OLOC), who contributes, "We Never Promised You Role Models." One of the best things about this book is the extensive bibliographical information that many entries contain. Often, not only books and magazines are cited, but organizarions as well, complete with address, fax and phone numbers. For aninteresting and enlightening treat, check,out Dyke Life. This and other books on similar topics are available at Tulsa City-County Libraries. Please call your local branch library or the Central Library Readers Services Department at 596-7966, for more information. traveling from around the region to participate in a picnic mad other festivities. Particular thanks went the support FUSO received from METSAS, Metropolitan Tulsa Substance Abuse Services.. On Feb. 15-19 , FUSO members are joining with members of Brother to Brother, an Oklahoma City organization, to attend the 9th Annual National Black Lesbian & Gay Conference, taking place in Dallas, titled, Black Lesbians and Gqvs : Continuing the Struggle. FUSO meets the 1st Thursday of each month at 6:30 pm at Rudisill North Regional Library, 1520 No. Hartford, 5967280. The meetings and membership are open to those 18 and above. Tul~sa’s only Gay-owned Funera~ Home Butfer-Stumpff Funera¢ Home gg Crematory ~103 /3ast Tftird~ 587-7000 presents in concert March 6th, 7prn Complete Services Available. For Example, Only $2820 for Casket with Complete Service. Includes: Quality Steel Sealer Casket in one of four colors, Standard Single Lawn Crypt, Service at your church or in our chapel, Hearse, Family Limousine, Pallbearers Limousine, Thank You Cards, Register Book, Memorial Folders, Visitation, Embalming, Hairdressing, Cosmetic Services, All Professional Services. If you have a prearrangement elsewhere, and paid too much, transfer your policy and you may be eligible for a cash refund. Wasfiin~Iton Memorial~ Gardens 4300 East 91st Street South Special Offer! Burial Space for Just $200, pre-construction. In Her All Souls Unitarian Church Auditorium 2952 South Peoria For more information, call Agape" Christian Fellowship at 599-7688 �by Phyl Boler-Schmidt An excitement has erupted in Eureka Springs, and you’ll find j.’ust about everyone talking about it - gay, straight, businessman, minister, lodging owner, photographer, realtor, even computer geek. Okay, especially computer geek! So, what’s :the fuss? ~ureka now has a whole lot of information available on the Internet and WorldWide Web. Most of it has just popped up, seemingly out of nowhere, in the last month. And, where is it coming from? Who would spend a lot of time promoting Eureka Springs? Positive Idea Marketing Plans (PIMP, for short) is the source of all the hubbub, and not surprisingly, PIMP is a family-owned and operated company. Jan and Kim Ridenour own PIMP, and they. have put their company in literal overdrive on this new project since the year began. You probably remember Jan and Kim. They are the soon-tobe-former owners of The EmeraldRainbow, and Kim frequently writes the astrology column for Tulsa Family News, PIMP (among other things) owns its own Web domain, and the Ridenours have been processing and publishing pages on that domain (PIMPS.corn). Everything imaginable is available with the click of a mouse, mad new pages are being added daily. Just what is available for Eureka on the Web? As of this writing (you never know what else will be there by the time we are published and distributed)~ you can access pages about the town of Eureka, complete with gorgeous photographs, and there is also a page about the Ozark region. When you first see the pictures, some may seem familiar. That’s because many of the pictures are from the collection of Susan Storch, master photographer. Susan is responsible for many of the photos that appear on .postcards for Eureka and the reg~oni And Susan’s shop, The Imagery also has a page on the Web, complete with more samples of her work. There is a page for Weddings and Holy Unions and how to set up the honeymoon of your dreams right here in the Ozarks. A standard wedding page also exists (you know, standard - one boy, ,one girl), complete with more photos. Pond Mountain, a favorite bed and breakfast inn, has a page complete with details on lodging, wedding setups, honeymoons, and breathtaking photos. Two local realtor~ are represented in the Enreka pages: Century 21 Woodland Real Estate, a partly family-owned operation, and McClung Realty, a regular advertiser in these pages. For those of you that were fortunate to stop in and visit The Emerald Rainbow in the past year, you may have met Alice P(ig) Bailey. Alice now has her own page on the information superhighway, and even has an advice column. Stay tuned for pig astrology. There are a number offamilyspecific sites as well. In addition to the weddings and holy unions page, there is a site for g/l/b/t retreats, Our Worm Magazine is published on line, and Guru to Go, Kim’s astrology.page, is there too. So, I guess you could call tiffs Queer Eureka OnLine too. Local weather forecasts are easy to access, and there is a feature site of the week as well. Yahoo, one of the premiere Internet search engines can be acces sed, and you can download the latest in browser software. I know of several more pages that are in the making, and there are listings of pages that are due to be available soon. The Eureka pages continue to grow in number every time I look at the WorldWi’de Web. But, it doesn’t stop with Eureka Springs. The Internet and the Web are national and international communications systems. I+inks tO related sites can be found ~dl over the PIMP pages, and other companies that aren’t specific to Eureka Springs have an opportunity to get on the PIMP bandwagon too. If you have never had the opportunity to browse around the Web, it is a thrill you will not easily forget. Once a person realizes how easy ~t is to access an entire world of information with the click of a mouse, the task of looking things up in a phone book, a dictionary, or an encyclopedia becomes downright mundane. For those of you who are already on line: if you haven’t used that Web browser that came with your signup package, give it a try. You’ll never look at a compute.r screen in quite the same way again. And, if you want a first place to look, use this address: http://www.pimps.com/ For you experienced Web browsers out there, go to the address above, then put it on a bookmark. New pages are being added all the time. Follow all the links on that front page, and you could easily spend a couple of hours just looking at what is available in and near Eureka Springs, and especially what is available that is family-specific If you don’t have a computer, or hive one and have not vet made the leap to cyberspace, n~w is the time. An entire world of information, resources, new friends, business contacts, and just plain fun is to be had. Since I’m your basic computer geek, this has been an especi,’dly exciting time for me. I have watched as numerous people have accessed the Web for the first time, and I gotta tell you, it’s an amazing thing to see thc excitement in the eyes of someone who has just discovered the answer to his or her dreams. If you don’t have access to the Interuet, find a friend who does. Buy the beer and bribe your friend into showing you how to access cyberspace. If you do have access, point your browser to the address given above. You can also reach PIMP by e-mail at emerald@intellinet.com. If you aren’t on line, or if you just want to talk to a real live human, call 501-253-2401. Be brave. Step out. You’ll be glad you did! Georgia Ragsdale, who has filmed a movie, "’Never Met Picasso, soon to be released, with co-star Margot Kidder. Their shows have been sellouts wherever they’ve played. Tickets for this "Doh’t-miss"onc of a -kind show are available at the PAC and Carson Attractions, for S15.50 to $18.50. The show has one performance at 8 pm Saturday, March 16th Mark your calendars now, because this is one show yon won’t want to miss out on, and it’s the first of its kind in Tulsa. That’s progress ! O000000000000000000 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ A Friendly Place to Stay ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY ¯ INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson, owner MCC of the Living Spring ...a community of friends... Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 6 PM ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 17"Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253 -9337 ¯ EUREKA SPRINGS ¯ "T ¯ p ~ . 501-253-9682 (days) OR 501-253-8969 (evenings) Offerings include: Bed & Breakfast Inns, Victorian Homes, Hotels/Motels, Commercial Properties/Businesses, Quiet Country Estates, & much more. McClung Realty, Inc. has catered to the diverse G/L/B/TG community in Eureka .Springs for over 20 years. Call or write for a listing brochure. Or better yet, stop in, and we’ll show you around. We specialize in creative financing. "Jim & Brent have opened the ultimate intimate local eatery. A special, eclectic dining experience..." Stop by our house for a taste of local flavor. Dine outside on the patio & porch or ill our three beautiful dining rooms. Fine food at an affordable price. Green & Yellow Night FAMILY NIGHT Private Dinner Party, lstThurs, of Each Month 6pm - Midnight, Dine, Drink & Relax Among Friends Featuring Jim & Gwendolyn’s Select Dinner Entrees & Brent’s Superb Desserts "With Family In Mind" Gay-owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud 20% of all proceeds will go to the support of family causes �Family Finances OUT- OF-THIS-WORLD PERFORMANCE AT A D OWN-TO-EARTH PRICE ’96 3"000GT ~.MITSUBISHI The New Thinking in Automoo~les ",$27,497 Timothy W. Daniel Attorne3’ at Law by Leanne Gross Happy New Year Everyone!! The only problem with the new year - is now we have to pay the taxes for last year. Here’s some thoughts on how to help you decrease some of your taxable income and help get the new year off to a great start. * For the individual Your 401K plan at work is the best way to.stash retirment dollars and this will lower your taxable income. You can also open an Individual Retirment Account (I.R.A.); however, if you have a retirment plan at work, there will not be much room, if any, to deduct your I.R.A. If you do not hav e a retirment plan at your place of employment, try opening an I.R.A. at your bank or with a financial consultant. * If you are self-employed or a small company employer of 25 or less employees, you may ~ualify for the Simplified Employee Pension plan (SEP) A SEP provides an employer with a simplified way to make contributions to an employee’s Individual Retirement Account or Individual Retirement Annuity. 1. Employer contributions are made directly to SEP-IRAs set up for each employee with a bank, insurance company or other qualified financial institution. 2. Employer contributions are tax deductible. 3. Contributions are not taxed currently to the employee. 4. Earnings accumulate income tax-deferred. ADDITIONAL CONSIDERATIONS 1. ANNUAL CONTRIBUTION. No annual contribution is required. If a contribution is made, the allocation must be the same percentage for each eligible employee. 2. INDIVIDUAL LIMITS. The allocation of employer contributions to a participant’ s account may not exceed the lesser of 15% of compensation or $22,500. For the selfemployed, these values are reduced to 13.0435% and $19,565. 3. TIME OF CONTRIBUTION. Contributions can be made until the due date (plus extensions) of the employer’s return. 4. VESTING. Vesting must always be 100%. 5. ADDITIONAL IRAs. Additional IRAs are permitted if the combination meets overall ItLa~ limits. 6. WHO MAY PARTICIPATE? Any employee who is at least 21 and has performed "service" in at lehst 3 of the last 5 calendar years must be permitted to participate under the SEP, unless her total compensation is less than $400 for the ye.ar. 7. INVESTMENT OF PLAN ASSETS. Plan assets can be invested in most eqmty products or debt instruments, but may not be invested in life insurance, "hard" assets, or collectibles (except for U.S. gold and silver coins). Participants direct the funds coutributed on their behalf. 8. WITH~DRAWALS. Participants may withdraw or cash-out at anytilne. However, Join 30,000 friends and family on Saturday, June lst! All day at the Magic Kingdom - all night at Pleasure Island Wide variety of packages a~,ailable, & Southwest now flies to Orlando! Fares as low as $408 for two - limited number of seats. Call early to lock in these prices! Call 341.6866 International Tours for more information. Need a gift idea? Gift certificates are available for air travel, cruises & many other travel needs. IGTA member. Know Your Rights! Estale Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury, Criminal Law, Bankruptcy & Workers Compensation 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 South Lewis Are you lookingfor a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiality and comfort that enhances teh therapeutic process. For further information, call 743-4117 Leah Hunt, MSW Della Blackburn, CADC Judy Seymour-Taylor, CADC Richard Fleeder, MS Serving a Diverse Community �withdrawals are subject to immediate taxation. Prior to age 59 1/2, there is an additional 10% excise tax, unless such distributions are made over the life expectancy of the IRA owner or joint life expectancy of the owner and a designated beneficiary or because of death or disability. Once the annuity format is chosen, it cannot be modified until the later of 5 years or age 59 1/2 is reached, without a penalty. I. ADVANTAGES TO EMPLOYER 1. Contributions are tax deductible. 2. Contributions and costs are totally flexible. 3. Reporting is very minimal -- no IRS or Dept. of Labor forms. 4. The plan is easy to understand by the employees. 5. The plan is easy to set up by merely completing IRS Form 5305-SEP*. 6. There is little or no administrative expense. II. ADVANTAGES TO EMPLOYEES 1. Annual contributions are not taxed to the participant. 2. Earnings on the account are not currently taxed. 3. Participants have the right to direct investments. 4. Participants can also have a regular deductible IRA, if the combined accounts meet overall IRA requirements. 5. Funds can be withdrawn at any time; e.g., in the event of an emergency, although there will be penalties if the participant is not yet 59 1/2, unless the participant is deceased or disabled, or a special annui.ty pay out (of substantially equal payments) is chosen. III. DISADVANTAGES TO EMPLOYER 1. Contributions must be made for part-time and seasonal employees. 2. Employees can withdraw the funds as fast as they are put into the account. 3. Employees are always 100% vested -- there are no forfeitures to reduce employer contributions. 4. Employees control investments. 5. Allocation methods which reduce employer costs may not be used. IV. DISADVANTAGES TO EMPLOYEES 1. There is no guarantee as to future benefits 2. Investment risks rest on the participant. 3. There is no assurance as to the frequency and amount of employer contributions. 4. Special lump-sum tax treatment of distributions is not available. 5. No tax-free disability pay out is available. 6. There are no forfeitures to be reallocated 7. Life insurance funding is not’available. 8. Cannot contribute over the 15% limit (compared to a 25% limit permitted tinder Qualified Defined Contribution Plans). 9. Bankruptcy protection from creditors is uot afforded. Pres. Clinton said during his "’S tate of the l’nion’" address, your retirement program is going to be up to us. Talk to your employer. T,*~ke a look at your own plan. Today! ! "" My interest is in the future because I am going to spend the rest of my life there." Charles F. Kettering Making Sense If you missed it the first time, don’t miss it this time. Making Sense: Innovative and challenging: A program that only TOHR could bring you. Making Sense Program begins February 20. Call T©HR for more information and to enroll. Ask for Jason. 743.4297 mmmmmmmmmmmmmnmmmmmm 2405 E. Adrnira ¯ ¯ in Historic "_ Whittier Square "_ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Photos, JD Jamett, 621-5597 582-4340,! People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan. Leanne Gross Retirement planning, Life, health & income insurance, & investment placing. 744-0102 Mention this ad to receive free initial consultation. �by Jean-Pierre It’s 2 a.m., the bars have closed, and you’re hungry. Where in Tulsa can you go’? The restaurants revxewed here are open all night and have table service. Clearly, the unquestionable winner in the all-night category has to be the Village Inn chain. While service quality varies a bit from store to store, it is generally reasonably prompt, and, as long as you. d.on’t have any special requests or instructions, reasonably efficient. Breakfast is.Village Inn’s forte. They " are Particularly known for their extremely fluffy omelettes, made so by a quick whirl in the blender before cooking. Other popular breakfasts are the several varieties of "skillets", which feature diced potatoes, a meat, and onions and other vegetables, all sauteed together, and then topped with eggs to order and a sauce or gravy of some sort. Of course, you can also get sandwiches and regular diner food. We particularly like the Cobb salad, of mosdy iceberg lettuce, but topped with aplethora of other tasty items like bleu cheese, fresh bacon, grilled chicken breast, an~ diced avocados. Be sure and ask if the avocados are ripe, since we were served hard and tasteless avocados on several occassions. Those of you not counting fat grams will no doubt be quite favorably impressed by the double cheeseburger, f~aturing two j’ulcv hamburger patties, grilled onions, ba0o~ ~trips, cheese, & thousand island dressing. Our biggest complaint with the Village Im] chain is that the3 close at midnight on Sunday and Monday nights. On those unfortunate nights, the default choice has to be Kettle. We are sorry to report that the corporate Kettle entity was recently purchased by Denny’s. None of the employees in any of the local stores are able to tell us whether ornot there will be any change in the restaurant’s Policies , orif the Kettle stores will become Dermy’s. Kettle’s food is pretty standard and generic fare. They also do a better job on dinner entrees than most of their competitors, but even so, none meet the excruciatingly high Jean-Pierre standards. Denny’s is the traditional American allnight restaurant, andis the standard against which other competitors are measured. Fortunately for those competitors, the local Denny’s don’t meet the old Denny’s standard. Over the last three months, we made two visits each to three of the local Deuny’s stores. In each case, the service was unacceptably slow. Twice we heard patrons at other tables get almost violently loud with their server over delays, wrong orders, and poor food. The most frequent problem we encountered was cold .food. Runner up was overcooked food. To make all of. this worse, Denny’s famous budgetsaver "Grand Slam"brealffast is not served during the midnight to 6 a.m period. Frequent road-trippers will no doubt be familiar with the Waffle House chain. Small and unpretentious, Waffle House can serve a decent and cheap breakfast. Unfortunately we found that food quality vanes greatly from store to store. All Waffle Houses have wmtresses that call their customers "Hon." It’s a tradition. But, what realh scares us at Waffle House is the fa~t tl~at your short-order cook works in full view.’Some thin2s are probably better left unsaid. Waffle House has an All You Can Eat special for $4.59, slightly higher during the 10 p.m. to 6 a.m. period, that is worth your money and probably the best way for by James Christjohn you to eat. The signature food is the pecan ¯ If you missed the last two concerts in waffle, which appears hot off the iron the Celtic Music series at the PAC, you golden brown, fragrant, and filled with pieces of pecan throughout the batter. : missed some great entertainment! Celtic music is the great-grandperson of blueWe’ve never yet had a bad pecan waffle at grass and country, yet has a quality all its a Waffle House. Other items are not so ¯ own. Haunting and celebratory, often at lucky. The grits we were served were a the same time, it is great music to discongealed mass of got bathed in some , cover, or if you already have, to explore. type of yellow oi!y substance we took to ¯ Coming up is the third and final (sadly) be melted margarine. ; concert of the Celtic Music Series, the Three ’local" restaurants exist UnforCassidys, 5 musical Irish brothers (hate to tunately, with no nadonal standards to ¯ be in the middle of one of their family ¯ meet, all three have definite short-comings, spats!),atthePAC nMarch 13. They ve and we tend to avoid them. They are ¯ played for two Presidents, and filled RaMama Lou’s, Perry’s, and Kelly’s. dio City Music & Carnegie Halls. This So, as you can see, goodreaders,Tulsa’a ¯ will be their Tulsa debut. For info and ¯ late night dining scene Is not paricularly tickets, call the PAC ticket office at 596condusive to the gourmet experience. We : 7111. And do it soon, because these show s do, however, have to ~ve honorable men- ¯ usually pack the house! tlons to the Whataburger and Tact Ca- ¯ For an amusing evening, don’t miss bana chains. The food at Tact Cabana is ¯ Broken Arrow Community Playhouse’s pretty good, although not as good as what ¯ production of"the Lion in Winter. This is we’ve had at their San Antonio stores. ¯ the last weekend to catch it; Friday & Also, a favorite spot we had to mention is ¯ Saturday at 8pm and Sunday at 2pm. the Country Ketde/Texaco truck stop way ¯ Catch the kiss in the second act - it’s quite out east of town on 1-44. Technically, it’s a show stopper! (Not to mention the nuin Catoosa city limits, but just across the merous pacemakers planted throughout ¯ highway is sti]l within Tulsa city limits. the audience!) For info, call 258-0077. Our recommendation? Hone vou~ gourWell, I haven’t seen any ghosts lately, met skills at home for your friends. Eat ¯ but I’ve been haunted by a Phantom. Yes, ¯ before ten o’clock. Move to New York. he looms large on the horizon... Oh, never Otherwise, head to a Village Inn, maybe ¯ mind, that’s not him, just my shadow! I eat at Tact Cabana, or try your luck with ¯ really must stick to that diet more stricdy. a gamble at one of the other restaurants. ¯ Where was I? Oh, yeah, Phantom. THE ¯ Phantom, of Opera fame, is arriving the ¯ 22nd, and will haunt the PAC until March 23 - they’ve added a week. According to my info. 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He’s also featured on the soon to be released international symphonic recording of Miss Saigon as well. No skimping on this show. After all, they have rebuilt part of the theatre just for the chandelier. So use lots o’ hair spray, build up the chandelierproof bouffant, and call the PAC at 5967111 for tickets (going fast, I hear). If you want to have a gay old time and scare people enmasse, groups of 20 or more can call 254-1069 for group tickets. Tickets run from $16.50 to $61.50. Interesti0g juxtaposition of numbers, eh? Heaven hdp you if you’re dyslexic & think THAT PHONE! HERE’S HOW IT WORKS: 2) To record your FREE Tulsa Family Personal ad Call: 1-800-546-MENN (We’ll print it here) 3) To pick-up messages from your existing ad Call: the 900 number & Press the star key (,) Due to our large volume of calls if you can’t get thru, simp y try your call later. 900 blocked? Try 1-800-863-9200. VISAiMC.. Questions Call: 1-415-281-3183 ALOT MORE THAN CURIOUS. 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Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart February 15 - March 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue 3 National News Clinton Slams HIV+ Military Discharges WASHINGTON - The Clinton administration has announced that it believes the HIV discharge provision in the $265 billion Defense Department’s 1996 authorization defense authorzafion bill is unconstitutional and has ordered the Justice Department not to defend the provision. That provision, written by arch-conservalave Rep. Bob Dornan, R-Calif., would discharge within sxx months, regardless see Clinton, page 3 Anti-Marriage Bills ExplodeAround US PIERRE, S.D.- Sparked by the likelihood that state courts in Hawaii will soon declare same-sex mamage legal there, a rapidly growing number of state legislatures throughout the country have started arush to outlaw gay and lesbian marriages from being recognized locally, even if they should be legal elsewhere in the U.S. Legislatures in at least 18 states: AL, AK, CA, CO, GA, HI, ID, IL, IA, MO, N19I; RI, SC, SD, TN, VA, WA, WI - had various versions of"gay miscegenation" proposals before thein at press tame. In Virginia, where same-sex marriages are already forbidden by state law, under pressure from Radical Right Gov. George F. Allen, the Virginia Housing DevelopmentAuthority has reversed a 1994 policy and now effectively prohibits mmaamed or gay and lesbian couples from getting see Marriage, page 3 Gay Morn Appeals Custody DecisiOn PENSACOLA, Fla. - Mary Ward has appealed an August ruling that ordered her 11-year-old daughter be given over to the custody of the child’s father, who was convicted of killing his first wife.The decision last year by state Circuit Court Judge JosephTarbuck stunnedmany when he ruled in favor of John Ward, the girl’s father, who served 9 years in prison for killing his first wife during an argument over custody of their daughter. In deciding against Mary Ward, Tarbuck ruled see Morn, page 3 Tennessee Sodomy Law Thrown Out KNOXVILLE, Tenn. ~ The Tennessee Court of Appeals has ruled unanimously that the state’s anti-gay sodomy statute is unconstitutional. In overturning the state law the court ruled that the right to privacy includes "the fight of the plaintiffs to engage in consensual, private, non-commercial sexual conduct" that were none of the state’s business because they involve "intimate questions of personal and family concern." State officials gave no immediate indication of whether they would appeal the ruling to the state supreme court or not, but most rights advocates expect an appeal. FUSO: Friends in Unity Social Organization Tulsa’s organization forAfrican-American Gay men ~s expanding its efforts to meet both social and health needs of their immediate community, and the larger one. Over the past year they’ve established a RAIN team, which has its first client, and which may be the only all African-Amencan team in Oklahoma. Its leadership also is working on the non-profit’s tax-exempt status with the Internal Revenue Service so that they can actively seek grant funding to provide HIV education and care. Ultimately they would like to provide case management, peer education, information and referra! services, HIV testing and counseling, health and nutrition, and substance abuse counseling and a food bank in North Tulsa. Over this last year, FUSO has donated canned goods to Our House, made a gift to the victims of theOKCbombing They v e helped to represent Tulsa African-A~eri ¯ cans by sending representatives to Hoist ing the Bamwr. the state HIV AIDS con. ference in OKC addressing issnes of people of color and also participated in the statewide HIV/AIDS conference held last summer at the Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place. Its members marched in the "95 Tulsa AIDS Walk and the World AIDS Day March held at University of Tulsa. Derrick Davis, who is one of FUSO’s officers, has been nominated to be cochair of the Multi-Cultttral AIDS Coalition. FUSO also is participating in the planning of the Women and AIDS conference that will be tleld in April. Last Labor Day, FUSO held a successful Labor Day Weekend event with guests see FUSO, page 10 Vicious Pink, In the Red? OKC-owned Store Closes Vicious Pink, a Gay-oriented gift store owned by Anthony Klatt of Oklahoma City has closed after barely 6 months. The store located in Concessions at 3340 So. Peoria opened with ambitious plans and claims of being the largest such establishment in the state. Kirk Glines, one of the owners of Concessions, indicated that he and his partner Terry Kerns will reopen the shop themselves, possibly by March 1st. Klatt also opened a shop, Dusty Roads, in the Silver Star Saloon. Star owner, John Rothrock could not say whether Dusty Roads was still in business, noting that it was closed without explanation for a week recently and had not been dependably open. Tulsa Man Seeks Relief From Threats A 31-year 01d Tulsa man’s been driven from one home, has had to send his children away for their safety, has had other members of his family threatened and may have to flee his new apartment, all because he’s living with AIDS. Roscoe Pilant, who goes by the nickname, JR,just wants to be left alone to hve, and to work when he can. However, despite having swastikas and death threats marked on his door and threats to murder him left on his answering machine, Tulsa Police initially were hardly cooperative. And as a result of his complaint, investigation by legalaid attorneys have discovered that the Oklahoma S tate Bureau of Investigations might have been violating the OK hate crimes statute by not keeping statistics on hate crimes directed toward any disabled persons, including those living with AIDS. Pilant says his troubles began when he had to take a HIV related medical absence from work. After he returned, he feels that his employer, a national finn, fired him becauseof his HIV status. After the finn was contacted by Oklahoma Legal Aid attorney Darlene Shadid andwas informed that discrimination based on HIV’AIDS status is illegal under federal law, the Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA), he returned to work. And then the harassment began. see Threats, page 2 Lesbian & Gay Domestic Violence Two police officers from Tulsa area police departments spoke to the members and guests of Tulsa Oklahomans for Hnman Rights (TOHR) about do~nestic violence issues, both within and out the LesbianGay con~nunities. Both officers who are 10 year plus veterans work pmnanly on domestic violence (hereafter abbreviated as DV). Each gave profoundly sobering statistics on the extent of DV. For example, they noted that 50% of US women ~vi!l be DV violence victims, that wom_en are at a 9 times higher risk of injury in their homes than they are on the street, and that every 15 seconds a women is beaten in her own home. The officers outlined some of the social psycholoNcal dynamics of DV noting the stages of the syndrome and gave details of legal opti’ons and other resources to help victims and to identify abusers. The officers who had dealt with Lesbian/ Gay DV issues bemoaned the lack of research in this area but noted that the causes are similar to those of DV for heterosexuals. They suggested that 30% of Lesbian/Gay relationships have some DV problems but they suspected that these cases tended to be underreported because the criminal justice system rmnains homophobic. They also stated that Lesbian relationships appear to be more physically violent than those of Gay or Bi men. Also, Gay men may not report DV when it happens because the general perception is that DV ouly happens to women and often the agencies that deal with DV are not well equipped to help men. Saks 5th Avenue to Show AIDS Quilt DKNY Fashion Fundraiser-2/29 Tulsa’s Saks Fifth Avenue will display 10 sections of The NAMES PROJECT AIDS Memorial Quilt on February 21 to March 1st. Saks Fifth Avenue is the first corporation to spensor a multi-site display with 45 Saks Fifth Avenue stores and 60ff5th’s outlet centers showing memorial panels that are geographically specific to the store’s site. Later this year, the panels displayed in Tulsa will join the nearly 32,000 panels now in the Quilt. The Columbus Day weekend (Oct. 12-13) display on the Capitol Mall in Washington, DC will be the first time in four years that the Quilt has b~en seen in its entirety as it has grown so large. All fifty US states are represented as well as 39 other countries. Panels made by Saks Fifth Avenue associates from across the US will be exhibited in New YorkCity in August before going to Washington. On February 29~ Saks Fifth Avenue, Tulsa will present a DKNY Fashion extravaganza, Give My Regards to Donna, to benefit the Hope Candlelight Tonr. A silent auction and fashion show, featuring local celebrities, will unveil DKNY’s spring collection and be Tulsa’ s exclusive launch of DKNYfor Men. A few models are Debbie Campbell, I.J. Gannam, Aleksandr Lunev, Beth Reng,’d, Kevin Steincross, Mike Jones and Sonya Colberg Nanc3 Renberg, Charles & Francie Faudree. Hope Candlelight Tour benefits St. Joseph Residence and RAIN, the Regional .-kIDS Interfaith Network INSIDE-] EDITORIAL P. 2 DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P. 6 CALENDAR P. 9 EUREKA PAGE P. 11 Music for Life John McCarthy and Beverly Stanley, chairing the Walk for Ltfe committee, have zumounced that a "Blues" Festival will kick off tiff s 3’ear’ s series of events for the fourth annual Walk for Life Campaign. Mark Snider, renowned Tulsa musician, has organized an outstanding evening of the "Blues" featuring local musicians. The event will be held at the Sunset Grill, 3410 South Peoria on Tuesday, March 12. The admission donation of $5 will include two raffle tickets for items donated by the Blue Rose Cafe, the Doubletree at Warren Place, and the Celebrity Club, to nmne a few. K-MOD Radio and Budweiser will join the Sunset Grill as hosts and Paine Webber and Roche Laboratories are patron sponsors. This event is the first of several plam~ed to raise funds for Tulsa area HIV/AIDS support agencies. Other events include an art show in June and ajazz festival in July, and the 4th Walkfor Life to be at Riverside Park on October 12. Proceeds from the 1995 Walk went to 12 Tulsa community HIV/AIDS related non-profit age~l~ies. 918.583. 1248 P(~. 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@aol.com Publisher/Editor Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents Of Tom Neat this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family Assistant Editor News and mav not be reproduced either in whole or in part withot{t James Christjohn written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or Writers/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barry Hensley noted¯ must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family Pat Morehead News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Eaci~ Staff Photographer reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution JD Jamett points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. Using Gays as the scapegoat for the demise of the family is; reprehensible nonsense.. Unfortunately,, in order, to get in good with.Pat Robertson’ s Christian Coalition, Republican presidential candidates are all too willing.to go along with the lie that Gay people are somehow, a.threat.to.thefamilv. Wqaoles~le divorce among heterosexuals doe; the real damage. With a 50% divorce rate. adultery, abused women, financial conditions that require both parents to leave children home alone, abandoned and abused children and so forth, it doesn"t take much effort to see that heterosexuals have succeeded quite well in crippling the family without any he!p:from Gays and Lesbians. -~- J.J. Stogsdill, Broken Arrow I recently had the distinct pleasure Of being one of the stops along District 6 City Councilor. Art Justiss" campaign tour. I felt like I shouldn’t be the ordy one who has the advantage of "knowing how Mr. Justiss feels about Gay rights in Tulsa before I cast nay vote in the up-coming elections for City Council. My partner and I asked Mr. Justiss about the status of the Human Rights Depar.~nent (Committee on Sexual Orientation Discrimination) Proposal to the City of Tulsa. Mr. Justiss said that he would never put such a thing on the City Council agenda and he felt :quite confident that no other councillor would either. When questioned about why he was too afraid to even consider a proposal from one of the city’s own commissxons. Mr. Justiss admitted that he didn’t want to "’take the heat.’" He told us that to put something like the current proposal on the agenda would be political suicide. Of course, he added that he wouldn’t discriminate on the basis of "’race, color or sexual preference," but he felt protections for Gays against discrirmnation had no place in city government. Mr. Justiss’ visit to our home was a reminder to him that .there are Lesbians alive and living in Tulsa, OK and a reminder to us that we can’t vote for a representative who will only entertain ~ssues and concerns that are popular. - Kharma R. Amos . Many of the threats were specific in saying that if he returned to work he would die. Pilant feels his privacy was deliberately compromised by co-workers who posted his unlisted number counter to his request. When Pilant first reported the phone messages and the graffiti on his door, Tulsa police did not even send out an officer. Calls to the Mayor’s Action hotline were also unhelpful. However, after intervention by community-activist Nancy McDonald, li~ing up to her appellation "Saint McDonald", Tulsa police were more responsive and took more thorough reports. Pilant also nbted that Claudette Peterson, director of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights’ (TOHR) HIV Testing Clinic was helpful in getting him assistance as was former TOHR president, Kelly Kirby, through whose contact, KJRH, Ch. 2 became aware of Pilant’ s dilemma and reported on by Phvl Boler-Schmidt ,:~ .A t~ureka. Spri_ngs man i.s dead. A 17-year-old Who admitted to the "killing has not been charged. And, the whole event is shrouded in mystery. This is what we -know. The "killing o~curr~d at a ~popular local lake park where the young mau was helping his; ~andmotlXe~- cSaretake th~ i-esort for the Winter. It happened at night. The dead man, in his forties and -knownby his friends to be a closeted gay man. was shot at point blank range in the face with a shotgtm. The young man did not have the gun at his immediate disposal, but had to go to another room, locate the gun, find the shells, load the weapon, then return to the place where he shot and killed the victim. The young man has said that he awoke with a start to find the he was being sprayed with ejaculate as the older man was masturbating all over him. He says he killed the man in self-defense. There aren’t many Queers in these parts who are buying that story. The police have been silent. The ~oroner’s report is not due out of Little Rock for a few weeks. No arrest has been made, no charges filed. It is minored that the dead man was found completely nude though there is no official word on this. I have decided not to publish any names here so as not to interfere with what the police are calling an ongoing investigation. Since there have been no public statements made regarding the case, I am giving law enforcement authorities the benefit of the doubt that they will continue to investigate this case. and if the facts warrant it, an arrest will be made. The benefit of the doubt. For now. I’ve spoken with a number of Gays mad Lesbians about tiffs issue. No one is taking it lightly. There is some fear that, if the case is swept under the carpet, and the young man is not charged, it will send a signal that it is okay to kill Queers because no one will do anything at~out it. I remain hopeful though skeptical. The facts that we DO "know are alarming. Even if the young man’s story is true, how could it possibly be grounds for murder’? Semen in these circumstances is not a deadly weapon, certainly not enough justification for murder. Most assuredly not - if he was free enough to leave, mad chose to go to another room, find a shotgun, load it, and return to the scene. Justhow frightened for his life could the young man have been? see Murder, page 3 it. Attomey Darlene Shadid said she was told by sources in OSBI and the Tulsa DA’s office that a decision had been made, apparently informally at a seminar in the past couple of years, not to consider persons living with AIDS to be disabled, despite federal law on the matter. Later, Shadid determined that OSBI appeared not to be keeping any statistics on hate crimes based on any disability of any kind. In response toTFN, Tim Hams ofthe Tulsa District Attorney’s office indicated that their office would enforce the Oklahoma hate crime statute as it applied to disability and noted thatnew DALaFortune has participated in the Say No to Hate Coalition for some time. Director of the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigations (OSBI), Dwade Langley said that they would keep statistics on hate crimes based on disability but that they were entirely dependent on the local law enforcement agencies to report the incidents to them. Meanwhile, JR Pilant hopes that he can return to a quiet life with his children and family sal’e from hate and intimidation. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 832-1269 *Barraccuda’s, 2405 E. Admiral 582-4340 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th 585-5622 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Derails C..Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Medical & Mental Health, 2325 S. 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The new definition.of a household adopted by the VHDA states that a "single-family loan can be made to more than one person only if all such persons ... are related by blood, marriage or adoption or by legal custodial relationship." Albert Eisenberg, one of theVHDA commissioners, disagreed loudly with the change. "It is bigoted nonsense elevated to formal state policy," Eisenberg said of the new policy, which he said may lead to ~xpensive legal court challenges as well as possible trouble with federal housing agencies that underwrite most of the loans the Virgima agency makes. Most of the state’s real estate organizations opposed thenew definition, as did gay rights groups and the ACLU, which said the change would "inspire lawyers to look for loopholes." In addition to Gov. Allen’s backing, the rule change was also supported by the Virginia Family Foundation and Concemed Women for America, which argued thatonly "traditional" families should be given economic benefits from the state agency. However in Nebraska, an exception to the "stop-the-wedding" frenzy has come Nebraska where state Sen. Ernie Chambers of Omaha has introduced a measure that would amend Nebraska law to let gays and lesbians legally marry in the Cornhusker State. Chambers acknovCl-- edges that his proposal, LB1260, probably won’t win approval on its first pass through the state legislature, but he says he’s determined and won’t give tip. ’q’his is an issue related to civil rights mad civil liberties that can’t be dodged by political bodies,"-he says. "It has an impact on so many people." And in San Francisco, its Board of Supervisors created a "civil ceremony to solemnize" same-sex domestic parmerships under the aegis of the county clerk’s office, the city official who also perfolans civil wedding ceremonies for heterosexual couples. The measure, which would extend no benefits beyond its symbolic ceremony, is believed to be the first time any govenfing body has moved to create a civil rite to acknowledge same-sex umons. A board committee quic"kly approved the measure mad sent it on to the full board. Five of the board’s 11 members are cosponsors of the ceremony. The county clerk’s office has estimated that adding the ceremony would probably increase the number of registered partners by 2 or 3 times. And with a $30 fee for the ceremony itself, the clerk’s office also esti- : mated the proposed rite could add close to ¯¯ $50,000 to the city’s coffers. Back in Hawaii, Gov. Ben Cayetano ¯ has .suggested that the way for the state to extricate itself from the ongoing controversy of same-sex marriages is for the ¯ state to stop giving marriage licenses to anyone and just offer domestic partnerships to gay and non-gay couples instead. ¯ ’The institution ofmarriage shouldbe left to the church," Cayetano is quoted as saying in a report in the Honolulu Adver- ¯ tiser. ’q’he government needs to explore its role in marriages. The government : should not be in the role of sanctifying marriages. That’s when they nminto problems." State Senate leaders quickly said they didn’t think the legislature was likely to go along with Cayetano’s idea to pull the plug on marriage. While legal experts say .th.ey haveno idea if a state could even stop ~ssuing marriage licenses, they do agree that the most important benefits of legal marriage are derived from the federal government in the form of income taxes, Social Security benefits, and pensionregulations - all ofwhich depend on state legal definitions of a mamage. Gay/Bisexual Indian Men Retreat The Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project (TNAAPP) is sponsoring two free weekend camping retreats (Feb. 23-35 and June 7-9) to enhance cultural awareness and HIV!AIDS awareness. The retreat will include workshops addressing HIV AIDS, self-esteem, safer sex negotiation skills and cultural and traditional values - all presented in a safe envlroment. For a CONFIDEN~HAL application, call B-rima or Keetoo~vala. at 918-582-7225. Open Arms Open Minds Open Hearts Saint Aidan’s 4045 No. Cincinnati. 425-7882 Saint John’s 4200 So. Atlanta Pl.. 742-7381 Trinity 501 So. 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But President Clinton signed the appropriations measure because it is vital to the country’s defense needs, in spite of the Dornan provision. A measure has also been introduced by Sens. William Cohen (R-Maine) and Edward Kennedy (D-Mass.) to repeal the Dornan provision. A similar bill to overturn the measure was introduced in the Houseby Reps. PeterTorkildsen, R-Mass., Jane Harman, D-Calif., Connie Morella, R-Md., and Ron Dellums, D-Calif. Elizabeth Birch, head of the Human Rights Campaign, applauded the \Kqaite House announcement. "We asked him [Clinton] to put the full force of his administration behind overturning it and he has done just that," she said. "This is precisely the kind ofleadership we expect from Bill Clinton." Winnie Stachelberg, HRC’s senior health policy advocate, said, "q’hat [the Dornan provision] ~ as one of the meanest. most vindictive measures to come out of the 104th Congress, and we will do everything in our power to ensure,, repeal of that discmninatorv measure, The repeal bill is expected to have broad bipartisan support in both honses, Stachelberg said, noting that Georgia Sen. Sam Numa, ranking Democrat on the Senate Armed Services Committee, has called the HIV expulsion measure "pmfitive." Dornan and otherGOPextremists added the HIV provision to the House version of the defense authorization, but it was not in the Senate bill. When the two versions went to a House-Senate conference committee for reconciliation, House Republicans made sure this discriminatory measure became part of the final bill, Stachelberg said. Currently, service members with the virus that causes AIDS may serve their country as long as they can perform their duties, but they are not deployed overseas. The same policy is applied to service members who have other chronic medical conditions such as diabetes, asthma, heart disease or cancer. The Human Rights Campaign is the largest national lesbian and gay political organization, with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that lesbian and gay Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. that the daughter "should be given the opportunity and the option to live in a non-lesbian world." One new witness slated to testify in the appeal will be Michelle Mclr£nes, 25, the daughter of John Ward and the wife he "killed. During a television interview am~onncing that she ~vould testify, McInnes said her father also tried to molest her ~vhen she was 14 3ears old. This reporter does not claim to be a legal scholar, bnt from what I do kaaow, the evidence points toward premeditated mnrder, even if the provocation the young man talked about happened in exactly the way he said it did. I, for one, donbt the story, but I also doubt there is any way to disprove it. What will the offici~s cal[ it’? Murder? Justifiable homicide? A -killing in self-defense? A hate crone? Stay tuned. I’ll keep you posted. Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ° Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 Worship Service, 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan 599-7688 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Survey: Less Opposition to Homosexuality WAbH., D.C. - According to the annual survey of college freshmen around the country by the University of California, the nation’s students continue to have less objection to same-sex relationships. The survey, conducted under the aegis of the American Council on Education and given to more than 300,000 freshmen entering some 641 colleges and universities in the U.S, fouud that o~fly about 31% of the students this year believed that homosexuality ~s wrong and should be forbidden. That figure is the lowest reported since the survey started in 1987 when53% said they disapproved of gay and lesbian relationships. Fed. Court Topples Alabama Anti-Gay Law MONTGOMERY, Ala. - U.S. District Court Judge Myron Thompson has declared a 1992 state law prohibiting state agencies frown using public funds in direct or indirect support of gay and lesbian orgamzations as unconstitutional. The law was quickly passed by. the state legislature and signed into law after officials at Auburn University g~ve recognition to a gay student group on the campus. Lawmakers had argued that because sodtroy is illegal in Alabama, no state funds should be used to support-the "’gay lifestyle." Judge Thompson, however, ruled that the law was simply an attempt to restrict discussion at public schools, an illegal restriction of free speech. ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Hearing Begins SFATTLE - The attorueys representing Navy Lt. Richard Watson, called the military’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy on gays and lesbians in the armed forces"the height ofhypocrisy," arguing in federal court that it was an unconstitutional invasion of privacy. Watson, a 34-yearold officer who was training to eventually captain one of the Navy’s nuclear-powered submafines, has said he told his commandingofficer he is gay to avoid the possibility of being blackmailed as his naval career advanced. He continues to serve in the Navy wlfile his case, one of several like it, is in the federal courts. Canadian Censorhsip Case: Mixed Ruling VANCOUVER - The British Columbia Supreme Court has handed down a utixed ruling in the case of the Little Sister’s BookStore, a gay and lesbian shop that had charged Canadian Customs officials with unconstitutional censorship. The provincial high court declared that Customs officials had in fact used their power to seize published materials counng into the countU in ways that violated the nation’s Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Customs officials have seized, and sometimes destroyed, hundreds of gay m~d lesbian books and magazines ordered by Little Sister’s, maiulv from UTS. publishers, claiming the materials violated Canadian pornography laws. The court ruled that the Customs actions "’in large part.., are die arbitrary and improper consequence of a~ inadequate mad flawed admimstration of the legislation.’" It also ruled that the incidents involving Little Sister’s were isolated episodes, but constituted a"~ave systemic problem." The most d~sappointing part of the court ruling, said Janine Fuller of Little Sisters, was the justices’ failure to declare the statute that gives Customs officials the authority to seize materials as unconstitutional. Fuller called the failure of the court to overturn die Customs legislation "disappointing" and said the store would be appealing that part of the ruling, but that she was otherwise pleased with the rest of the high court’s ruling. "Ttfis decision is a complete vindication of thc gay aud lesbian conmmmty and the lives of its people mid for that we celebrate die decision," she said. "It has been a long, hard climb. We haven’t quite reached the smmnit but we’re dimm closc. We are colffident that we will succeed at the Court of Appeal." Cincinnati Bias Costs City $35 Million CINCINNATI - The Cincinnati Enquirer reports that the cit\"s Convention & Visitors Bureau says it has lost some $35 million in tourist and convention income because of an anti-gay measure approved by voters in 1993 to repeal an earlier anti-bias measure that included gays mid lesbians. The visitors bureau report had been requested by the city council and cited 10 ~arger national organizations, including die A~nerican Library Association. that specifically mentioued the repealed rights measure as their reason for not holding conventions in the city. Catholic Bishops Speak Upfor Gays in Zimbabwe HAt~kRE, Zimbabwe - Gays and lesbians in Zimbabwe have gotten some limited support from an unexpected source when the country’s Catholic Bishops’ Conference issued a pastoral letter denouncing attacks against homosexuals. Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe, who is a Catholic, sparked an international flap last year when he refused to allow a gay rights organization in the country to operate a booth at an interuational book fair in the nation’s capital, calling homosexuals"sodomists mid sexual perverts" who ,are "’worse than dogs and pigs." He followed up later by saying the gays and lesbians have "no rights" in Zimbabwe and threatened to imprison homosexuals. Although the Catholic Church considers homosextmlity a "disorder" that should be dealt with as sucll, the Bishops Coifference letter condemned what it "called "’any attempts toinstitute a witchhunt or hate campaign" against homosexuals. "It is therefore not right for anyone, induding govenunent, to harass, persecute or torture people simply because they are known to have this indination,’" the Bishops’ Co~fference letter said. Anti-Bias Measure for CA Students Dies SACtL~kMENTO, Calif. - AB 1001, a proposed measure in the ¯ Califonfia legislature to bar discrimination because of sexual orientation in the state’s public schools and universities, failed by an 8-7 vote in the Assembly’s education colurnittee. The measure, introduced by Assemblywoman Sheila Kuehl (DFa~ cino), has languished in the committee since April 1995 when it failed to pass on a first reading there. The vote against sending the bill to the full Assembly was along party lines. Utah Wants to Stop School Gay Group SALT LAKE CITY - According to a report in the Deseret News, the Utah State Board of Education has told state officials to find "all available ~neans" to control the kinds ofnon-curriculum dubs that are formed at public schools in the state.The move is aimed at preventing a gay and lesbian student club from being formed at East High School in the state’s capital city. C. Grant Hurst, who introduced the directive, told the newspaperit wasn’t specifically about the gay dub at the high school and said he was concerned the current legal situation could allow net-Nazi groups to be formed at public schools in Utah. Hurst admitted, however, that he had gotten"numerous" phone calls opposed to the gay club and none about possible net-Nazi dubs forming.. The board’s resolution speaks only about the"formation of any organizations, in schools, that may create a disruptive or unsafe atmosphere for children or that may attract or entice children tomake decisions tllat could have a long-term negative impact on their lives." The Utah attorney general’s office told educators late last year in a letter that federal law and court rulings mandate that scllool clubs have to be treated equally no matter how potentially controversial. The board’s own attorney late in 1995 said the only way the state could keep the gay dub at East High from forming would be for all clubs to be prohinted, stop receiving federal education funds entirely,.or to ask Congress to repeal the Equal Access Act. Rally Against Blocking Gay School Clubs In Utah SALT LAKE CITY - Hundreds of gay rights activists, including the parents of gay mid lesbian teens, rallied outside the state Capitol to protest a move by conservative lawmakers who have said the state should not allow gay and lesbian student groups in public schools, even if Dan Du Vall / Owner BROOKSIDE JEWELRY South Peoria 743-$272 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. Open Saturdays thru holidays! P AII’ERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite !70 ¯ Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ° Fax: 918-747-1795 David A. Paddock, CPA, MT "Utmost Confidence Assured" 4308 S. Peoria, Suite 633 Tulsa, OK 74105 logo here Call for an appc (918) 747-7672 Computer Analysis Consultation Rich Fox P.O. Box 52708 Tulsa, OK 74152-0708 Pager: (918)690-2974 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News the state has to refuse a $100 million education grant from the federal government or even bar all student groups. Kelli Peterson, the East High School student who asked to organize the gay and lesbian campus club, told the cheering crowd she didn’t try to start the group to advocate homosexuality or to recruit heterosexual classmates into a "homosexual lifestyle." In.stead, she said, "I started this group to end the misery and isolation of being gay in high school." Utah legisli~tors held a secret meeting earlier in the week with the state school superintendent, the commissioner of higher education and members of the Utah Attorney General’s office, reportedly to discuss legal methods to prevent gay clubs from being formed at schools in the state. But Senate President Lane Beattie dismissed the protest as a tempest in a teapot. "The infermarion given them was in error," he said. "It [the secret meeting] wasnot an anti-gay, anti-lesbian meeting. The meeting was not held to discuss issues they tlfink we discussed.’~ Beatrie said that lawmakers at the meeting were not anti-gay bnt were anti-immorality. "That includes heterosexual immorality as well as homosexual iunnorality. We m’e not going to allow immorality to be taught or encouraged in our public education system. Period." But rights activists point out that a measure that has not yet been printed for public review - SB 246 - would"prohibit schools from supporting illegal conduct" and may well mimic an Alabmna state law barring publicly supported schools from supporting any orgmfizarion that advocates illegal activities. That Alabmna measure was specifically aimed at preventing state colleges from allowing gay and lesbian student groups on campus because sodomy is illegal in Alabama, as it is in Utah. The Alabamameasure, however, was recently declared unconstitutional by a federal court. Episcopal Bishop Faces Heresy Trial WILMINGTON, Del. -Theheresy trial of retired Episcopal Bishop Alter Righter for ordainingan openly gay priest is slated to start before a panel of 9 bishops Feb. 27, only the second such heresy proceeding in the history of the church although the bishops who brought the charges against Righter say it won’t be the last. Righter, the retired bishop of Iowa, ordained- Barry Stopfel as a deacon in 1990. At the rime Stopfel not only acknowledged that he is gay, but also that he had been living with his male partner throughout his seminary studies. The 10 bishops who brought the charges against Righter say bishops in New Jersey, Philadelphia, Detroit and Washington may also be charged With heresy for similar ordinations if the ecclesiastical court finds Righter guilty. TX Radical Right Wants No Gays In Library SAN ANTONIO, Texas - Antigay flmdamentalists have tried - so far without success - to keep the Unity Foundation, an organization that’s working on plans to open a lesbian and gay community center in this SouthTexas ¯ city, fromholding mmeetings in the city’s pubhc library. Organizers of the anri-gay group have protested outside the library and city hall, and say that homosexuals shouldn’t be permitted to use ~ public facilities because sodomy ¯ is illegal under state law. But so far the anti-gay protests have been small and failed to draw wide support, while a number of mainstream religious leaders have vocally backed the Unity Foundation’ s rights both to meet at the library and to work on the community center. San Francisco Police: A ’Commanding’ Lesbian SAN FRANCISCO- As part of sweeping changes from top to bottom being instituted by newly elected Mayor Willie Brown in San Francisco, Melinda Pengel has become perhaps the highest ranking openly gay police officer in any major U.S. police e force. Pengel, who was in the first class of women cadets to join the SFPD in 1975 and iu 1994 became one of the department’s highest ranking officers when she was awarded her captain’s bars, has now been made a commander on the force of some 2,000 officers. Colnmander Pengel, 41, was named to hernew rank by Brown’s handpicked Police Chief Fred Lau. The rank of commander is below only the chief and deputy chief officials. Among her new duties, Pengel will oversee the department’s pohcing efforts on the city’s trouble-plagued public transportation system. Pengel said of the promotion, "It’s not just for me; it’s for .the other women in the department too. We’re moving into a nmv era, and I get to be a part of that." Virginia ’Diversity’ Billboard Covered Up CHRISTIANBURG, Va. - A billboard erected recently in the downtown area of this small community of some 11,000 people west of Roanoke, proclaiming simply that "Diversity Enriches,’" has been covered over by the owners of the billboard after callers threatened to damage the finn’ s property. The billboard was paid for by an informal group known as Gay & Straight Citizens of Southwest Virginia with the help of the local chapter of PFLAG (Parents & Friends of Lesbians And Gays), and went up January 18. Aside from the simple phrase, "’Diversity Enriches," the only other print on the rainbow billboard was the much smaller sponsorship tag for Gay & Straight Citizens of Southwest Virginia, which paid $450 for having its sign up for a month. But after au article with a photo of the billboard appeared in the local newspaper, Frank Amburn, manager of the lo’cal office of Outdoor East, the company that owns the billboard space, says his office was flooded with calls complaining about the sign, including several from people who threatened to destroy other billboards owned by the advertising finn. At that point, Amburn decided to cover up the billboard out of fear for his company’s property. The ad agency’ is refunding the money paid for the billboard space. Forbes’ Gay Views Become a Political Issue DES MOINES, iowa- Dmnonstrating once again - for better or f6r worse - that gay fights can no longer be separated from uational politics, Republicau pres. hopefuls have increasingly tried to derail the unexpectedly surging candidacy of multi-~nillionaire Steve Forbes by portraying him as "’pro-ga.v.’" In Iowa iu Jan., state cmnpaign officials who were supporting Sen. Phil Grannn’s bid, told reporters that Forbes supports allowing gays m~d lesbim~s to serve in the U.S. military under the current "’don’t ask, d’on’t tell’" compromise policy. Recently, Forbes was asked ifhe was in favor of allowing same-sex marriages. Although clearly uncomfortable with the question, Forbes responded," Compassion is not approval. There should be special fights for none, equal rights for all." Brits Expected to Keep Anti-Gay Military Policy LONDON" - London ucwspapers have reported that British defense lmnistry officials remmn opposed to ending the ban on gays and lesbians in the nation’ s armed forces. Several newspapers reported that Michael Portillo, the defense ~mnister, will announce sometime in Feb. the findings of a ministry review of the policy excluding homosexuals in the military, but several ministry officials have atready said the review found no reason to change the policy. If the govenunent keeps the current policy there will almost certainly be a legal challenge before ihe European Court of fluman Rights, where 4 discharged gay and lesbian service members have already’ applied for a review of their case. The uational gay rights group Stonewall has also applied for pervm ssign to appeal the policy to the House of Lords, Britain’s highest court of appeal. Gay arit to Play Wilde LONDON - Openly’ gay British comic actor Stephen Fry, perhaps best known to American audiences for his portrayal of the erudite and condescending butler in the BBC,’PBS "Wooster and Jeeves,’" says his next role will be starnng in a film bio-pic of 19th century playwright, wit mad ben vivant , Oscar Wilde. Wilde was finprisoned in 1895 for a sodomy statute violation. KELLY KIRB Y Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. 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Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 Drug Combo Treats Eye Disease WASHINGTON - According to a report. in the Archives ofOphthalmology, a daily injecteddose of 2 drugs - foscarnet and ganciclovir - is a more effective way to combat the blinding AIDS-related eye disease cytomegalovirus (CMV) retinitis than either of the drugs used alone. Patients in the research who were given one or the other but not both drugs had recurring CMV retinilis infections in a month or two of starting the therapy. But patients in the study who were given both drugs were able to keep it under.control for 4. months or longer. Just Say No School Programs WASHINGTON" - Part of the massive welfare overhaul confessional Republicans have proposed in this year’s ongoing budget battle includes $75 millionin federal funds for state schools to each students the "gains to be realized by abstaining from sexual activity" outside marnage. The abstinence pro~am proposal would provide money for schools to teach youngsters that complete abstinence is the oulv certmn wav to avoid unwanted pregnancies and sex~ally transmitted diseases such as AIDS. Ignoring gays and lesbians ~vho cannot legally marry in this country, the language of"ihe G~)P proposal states: "A mutually faithful monogmnous relationship in the context of mamage is the expected standard of human sexual activity" mad that sex outside marnage "’is likely to have laarmful p~ychological and physical effects." Gay Medical Journal NEWYORK-The Gay &Lesbian Medical Assn. has announced plans to begin publishing what it says will be the first science journal devoted to medical issues faced byhomosexuals. Thejournal, which as yet has not been given a name, will focus on publishing findings in research on AIDS and HIV, mental health issues, breast cancer and other medical issues. FDA OK Sought for AIDS Drug STOCKHOLM - The U.S.-Swedish drug manufacturer Pharmica & Upjohn has released preliminary data on ,still-incomplete clinical trials of its drug Delavirdine (also -known as Rescriptor) because early results hold so much promise, the firm sa vs. Hoping that the early results will help get faster approval from the U.S. Food & Drug Administration for the drug, Pharmica & Upjotm said Delavirdine appears to help some patients infected with HIV stave off developing full-blown AIDS. The firm said that preliminary data from its ongoing tests with the drug indicate that patients receiving Delavirdine had been able to lower the amount ofHIV in their blood system by at least 68% for as long as 60 w~eks. Some 3,500 patients have been participating so far. Infants Shed HIV Completely LONDON - According to researchers reporUng in the medical journal Lancet, nine infants who were infected with HIV bv their mothers at birth have fended off tl~e virus. Only a few such reports of HIV relnisston have ever been reported, an~ those have beeu received with some skepticism. But the uew findings - which come from Italy, Belgium m~d Swedeu : may not be so easiix disufissed. Of some 264 babies who were born HIV-positive, the research team found nine who subsequently became free of the virus. In seven cases, both HIV tests used went from positive to negative during the course of the study; in the other two, the virus was detected even though the antibody tests indicated that the baby was not infected. 2 Different AIDS Epidemics NEW DELHI - Max Essex of the Harvard AIDS Institute said at a conference on infectious diseases that increasingly there are 2 different AIDS epidemics globally - one in the Western industrial nations, which is slowing, and another in Afr ica and Asia, which is continuing to Wow with noend in sight. Essex told the conference that the 2 epidemics are spread by different strains of HIV- 1, and that the B and E strains of the virus behave differently. Unpublished research by Essex and his team at the Harvard institute, he said, indicates that subtype E is more efficient at infecting cells in the female reproductive tract, so is more readily transmitted during heterosexual sex. The E subtype is largel y found in Africa and the Indian subcontinent. But, Essex said, the viral subtype that is largely responsible for the AIDS epidemic in Europe and North America - subtype B - targets different body cells and seems more prone to being passed on during anal sex, perhaps explaining its predominance among gay men. Essex noted that in the West, about 2 million people are infected and that that number appears to have leveled off. But, he said, there are an estimated 15 to 20 million cases in Africa and the Indian subcontinent, and that number apparently is continuing to grow unchecked. "RELIEF FROM PAIN" THOMAS CHIROPRACTIC CLINIC DR. REX M. THOMAS DR. SHIRLEY A. THOMAS FREE CON~(.LTATION PROFESSIONAL SERVICE NO NEEDLES ACUPUNTURE NECK & BACK PAIN CHRONIC PAIN ASSURED PRIVACY NUTRITION COUNSELING HEADACHES CARPAL TUNNEL SYNDROME 4138 S. HARVARD. SUITE C-1 TULS& OK 74135 (918) 742-8868 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By & for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings: 7-8:30 pm for testing, 7-9 pm for results. Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. Intimacy for Gay & Bisexual Men A 10 WEEK THERAPEUTIC GROUP EXPERIENCE The focus of the group will be the introduction of a cognitive behavioral group model for examining intimacy and .barriers to intimate relationships among gay and bisexual men. This approach is skill-based, and builds upon the strengths of group members while promoting growth at intrapersonal, interpersonal and community levels. Facilitated by Richard Reeder, M.S. When: Monday evenings, 7:00 - 9:00 P.M. 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Southwest Home Office Dailas, Texas 800-559-4790 Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative POB 14011 Tulsa, OK 74159-1011 918-747-3320 AT! EN !iON! r I i I I ANNOUNCING A RETREAT GAY/BISEXUAL/vkE N! WHO: Sponsore~ by TNAAPP WHAT: Weekend Retreat for Gay/Bisexual Native American Men WHEN: February 23-25, 1996 WHERE: For More information Caii Today 582-7225, Extension 21~ IT’S FREE! IT’S FUN! SIC;IV UP TOgAY! 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Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Results hours: 7-9 pm Info: 742-2927 Lambda Bowling League Sheridan Lanes 8:45 pm 3121 S. Sheridan PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Monday of month, 6:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 OTHER GROUPS : Tool Box Technicians, : Leather org., Info c/o The Too1 Box: 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A. Ti~sa Uniform ¯ & Leather Seekers Assoc. Info: 838-1222 ~ The Banned, OK Gay Band Practice weekly in OKC Info: 838-2121 TUESDAYS HIV+ Support Group HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 WEDNESDAYS Authority OfThe Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Bless The Lord At All HIV/AIDS Support Group : Times Christian Center .& Friends & Family HIV/AIDS Support Group 7 pm, call for location: 749-7898 Community of Hope Grief Group, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Womens Grief Group sponsored by Community of Hope 6pm, Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Info: 585-1800 ¯ Prayer & Bible Study 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth Call 583-7815 for info. Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. Community of Hope (United Methodist) Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Bible Study, 7 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd 582-7225 or 584-4983 THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Co-Dependency Support Group . 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-144 1 HIV TestingTOHRClinic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV’AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pm, Info: 749-4194 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 16 Community ofHope Movie Night & Discussion: A River Runs Through It 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 17 Family ofFaith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness 9-3 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 18 Community ofHope Companioning Celebration 2 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 20 WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 21 St. Jerome’s. Catholic Church (ECC) Fat Tuesday Party Ash Wednesday Service Info: page Father Rick at 646-7116 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 22 Alternatives Social Groap - Dinner 7pm, Golden Corral, 71St & Mingo Info: 646-5503 SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 24 Shanti Mardi Gr~ Ball, 8-midnight Natl. Guard Armory, Fairgrounds " Info: 749-7898 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 29 Alternatives Leap Year Party 7pm, Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine Info: 646-5503 TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 27 Rainbow Business Guild 7 pm, Full Moon Care, Cherry Street Dinner Meeting with speaker. Info: 665-5174 ." FRIDAY, MARCH 1 ¯ Community ofHope ¯ Movie Night & Discassion: Priest : 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, hffo: 585-1800 OF Safe Haven, a free, non-political, nonreligious, non-recovery-oriented social gathering for LGBT voimg adults. 18-30 : Family of Faith MC~, 8 - rmdnight 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SATURDAY, MARCH 2 Rosary at St. Jerome’s Catholic Charch The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria Info: page Father Rick at .636-7116 TUESDAY, MARCH 5 Tulsa Oklahomansfor Haman Rights Community Meeting, 7 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 6 Marsha Stevens Concert presented by Agape Christian Fellowship 7 pm, All Soul’s Unitarian, 2952 S. Peoria Info: 599-7688 WEDNESDAY, MARCH 6 NewLGBTPolitical Groap, I st Meeting 7 pm, Martin East Regional Library 2601 So. Garnett SATURDAY, MARCH 9 Dignityllntegrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Info: POB 701044, 74170 SATURDAY, MARCH 16 Gaylapalooza, 8 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. Second, Info: 596-7111 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at l 1 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sttulent Association - TJC Southeast Can~pus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8-10 pm For info. or to vohlntecr: 743-GAYS SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS ,Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 743-2351 Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library This entertaining anthology combines essays, personal narratives and poetry regarding the multitude of rites and phases of lesbian life. Coming from the position that the lives of lesbians are, in many ways, very unlike the lives of heterosexual women or gay men, Dyke Life ~ves an inside perspective of lesbian marriage, parenting, stereotypes and lesbians in corporate America, among 0{her topics. There are five parts to Dyke Life: 1) Relating to Others, 2) Relating to Each Other, 3) Sex and Gender Identity, 4)The Public World, and 5) The Lesbian Body. Each section includes several entries by both well-known and obscure lesbian writers. Some of the better-known authors include JoAnn Lonlan, Del Martin, Leslea Newman and Rutt~&im Robson, all of whom have other books available in the library. The entry rifled "outing and the Politics of the Closet," by Victoria Brownworth, is an entertaining examination of the social circumstances which make the outing of women a difficult and sensitive proposition. "Creating Lesbian Families," by Heather Conrad and Kate Colwell shows the challenges and controversies surrounding lesbian parenting. One of the more unusual entries is by Hon. PanlaJ. Hepner, who is a judge on the New York State Family Court. Her entry is titled, "Oy Veh, t’he Judge on the Bench is a Dyke!’" Another valuable entry is by Jeanne Adleman, member of Old Lesbians Organizing for Change (OLOC), who contributes, "We Never Promised You Role Models." One of the best things about this book is the extensive bibliographical information that many entries contain. Often, not only books and magazines are cited, but organizarions as well, complete with address, fax and phone numbers. For aninteresting and enlightening treat, check,out Dyke Life. This and other books on similar topics are available at Tulsa City-County Libraries. Please call your local branch library or the Central Library Readers Services Department at 596-7966, for more information. traveling from around the region to participate in a picnic mad other festivities. Particular thanks went the support FUSO received from METSAS, Metropolitan Tulsa Substance Abuse Services.. On Feb. 15-19 , FUSO members are joining with members of Brother to Brother, an Oklahoma City organization, to attend the 9th Annual National Black Lesbian & Gay Conference, taking place in Dallas, titled, Black Lesbians and Gqvs: Continuing the Struggle. FUSO meets the 1st Thursday of each month at 6:30 pm at Rudisill North Regional Library, 1520 No. Hartford, 596- 7280. The meetings and membership are open to those 18 and above. presents in concert March 6th, 7prn In Her All Souls Unitarian Church Auditorium 2952 South Peoria For more information, call Agape" Christian Fellowship at 599-7688 Tul~sa’s only Gay-owned Funera~ Home Butfer-Stumpff Funera¢ Home gg Crematory ~103 /3ast Tftird~ 587-7000 Complete Services Available. For Example, Only $2820 for Casket with Complete Service. Includes: Quality Steel Sealer Casket in one of four colors, Standard Single Lawn Crypt, Service at your church or in our chapel, Hearse, Family Limousine, Pallbearers Limousine, Thank You Cards, Register Book, Memorial Folders, Visitation, Embalming, Hairdressing, Cosmetic Services, All Professional Services. If you have a prearrangement elsewhere, and paid too much, transfer your policy and you may be eligible for a cash refund. Wasfiin~Iton Memorial~ Gardens 4300 East 91st Street South Special Offer! Burial Space for Just $200, pre-construction. by Phyl Boler-Schmidt An excitement has erupted in Eureka Springs, and you’ll find j.’ust about everyone talking about it - gay, straight, businessman, minister, lodging owner, photographer, realtor, even computer geek. Okay, especially computer geek! So, what’s :the fuss? ~ureka now has a whole lot of information available on the Internet and WorldWide Web. Most of it has just popped up, seemingly out of nowhere, in the last month. And, where is it coming from? Who would spend a lot of time promoting Eureka Springs? Positive Idea Marketing Plans (PIMP, for short) is the source of all the hubbub, and not surprisingly, PIMP is a family-owned and operated company. Jan and Kim Ridenour own PIMP, and they. have put their company in literal overdrive on this new project since the year began. You probably remember Jan and Kim. They are the soon-tobe- former owners of The EmeraldRainbow, andKim frequently writes the astrology column for Tulsa Family News, PIMP (among other things) owns its own Web domain, and the Ridenours have been processing and publishing pages on that domain (PIMPS.corn). Everything imaginable is available with the click of a mouse, mad new pages are being added daily. Just what is available for Eureka on the Web? As of this writing (you never know what else will be there by the time we are published and distributed)~ you can access pages about the town of Eureka, complete with gorgeous photographs, and there is also a page about the Ozark region. When you first see the pictures, some may seem familiar. That’s because many of the pictures are from the collection of Susan Storch, master photographer. Susan is responsible for many of the photos that appear on .postcards for Eureka and the reg~oni And Susan’s shop, The Imagery also has a page on the Web, complete with more samples of her work. There is a page for Weddings and Holy Unions and how to set up the honeymoon of your dreams right here in the Ozarks. A standard wedding page also exists (you know, standard - one boy, ,one girl), complete with more photos. Pond Mountain, a favorite bed and breakfast inn, has a page complete with details on lodging, wedding setups, honeymoons, and breathtaking photos. Two local realtor~ are represented in the Enreka pages: Century 21 Woodland Real Estate, a partly family-owned operation, and McClung Realty, a regular advertiser in these pages. For those of you that were fortunate to stop in and visit The Emerald Rainbow in the past year, you may have met Alice P(ig) Bailey. Alice now has her own page on the information superhighway, and even has an advice column. Stay tuned for pig astrology. There are a number offamilyspecific sites as well. In addition to the weddings and holy unions page, there is a site for g/l/b/t retreats, Our Worm Magazine is published on line, and Guru to Go, Kim’s astrology.page, is there too. So, I guess you could call tiffs Queer Eureka OnLine too. Local weather forecasts are easy to access, and there is a feature site of the week as well. Yahoo, one of the premiere Internet search engines can be acces sed, and you can download the latest in browser software. I know of several more pages that are in the making, and there are listings of pages that are due to be available soon. The Eureka pages continue to grow in number every time I look at the WorldWi’de Web. But, it doesn’t stop with Eureka Springs. The Internet and the Web are national and international communications systems. I+inks tO related sites can be found ~dl over the PIMP pages, and other companies that aren’t specific to Eureka Springs have an opportunity to get on the PIMP bandwagon too. If you have never had the opportunity to browse around the Web, it is a thrill you will not easily forget. Once a person realizes how easy ~t is to access an entire world of information with the click of a mouse, the task of looking things up in a phone book, a dictionary, or an encyclopedia becomes downright mundane. For those of you who are already on line: if you haven’t used thatWebbrowser that came with your signup package, give it a try. You’ll never look at a compute.r screenin quite the same way again. And, if you want a first place to look, use this address: http://www.pimps.com/ For you experienced Web browsers out there, go to the address above, then put it on a bookmark. New pages are being added all the time. Follow all the links on that front page, and you could easily spend a couple of hours just looking at what is available in and near Eureka Springs, and especially what is available that isfamily-specific If you don’t have a computer, or hive one and have not vet made the leap to cyberspace, n~w is the time. An entire world of information, resources, new friends, business contacts, and just plain fun is to be had. Since I’m your basic computer geek, this has been an especi,’dly exciting time for me. I have watched as numerous people have accessed the Web for the first time, and I gotta tell you, it’s an amazing thing to see thc excitement in the eyes of someone who has just discovered the answer to his or her dreams. If you don’t have access to the Interuet, find a friend who does. Buy the beer and bribe your friend into showing you how to access cyberspace. If you do have access, point your browser to the address given above. You can also reach PIMP by e-mail at emerald@intellinet.com. If you aren’t on line, or if youjust want to talk to a real live human, call 501-253-2401. Be brave. Step out. You’ll be glad you did! Georgia Ragsdale, who has filmed a movie, "’Never Met Picasso, soon to be released, with co-star Margot Kidder. Their shows have been sellouts wherever they’ve played. Tickets for this "Doh’t-miss"onc of a -kind show are available at the PAC and Carson Attractions, for S15.50 to $18.50. The show has one performance at 8 pm Saturday, March 16th Mark your calendars now, because this is one show yon won’t want to miss out on, and it’s the first of its kind in Tulsa. That’s progress ! O000000000000000000 ¯¯ A Friendly Place to Stay ¯ ¯¯ KING’S HI-WAY ¯¯ INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. 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Clearly, the unquestionable winner in the all-night category has to be the Village Inn chain. While service quality varies a bit from store to store, it is generally reasonably prompt, and, as long as you. d.on’t have any special requests or instructions, reasonably efficient. Breakfast is.Village Inn’s forte. They " are Particularly known for theirextremely fluffy omelettes, made so by a quick whirl in the blender before cooking. Otherpopular breakfasts are the several varieties of "skillets", which feature diced potatoes, a meat, and onions and other vegetables, all sauteed together, and then topped with eggs to order and a sauce or gravy ofsome sort. Of course, you can also get sandwiches and regular diner food. We particularly like the Cobb salad, of mosdy iceberg lettuce, but topped with aplethora ofother tasty items like bleu cheese, fresh bacon, grilled chicken breast, an~ diced avocados. Be sure and ask if the avocados are ripe, since we were served hard and tasteless avocados on several occassions. Those of you not counting fat grams will no doubt be quite favorably impressed by the double cheeseburger, f~aturing two j’ulcv hamburger patties, grilled onions, ba0o~ ~trips, cheese, & thousand island dressing. Our biggest complaint with the Village Im] chain is that the3 close at midnight on Sunday and Monday nights. On those unfortunate nights, the default choice has to be Kettle. We are sorry to report that the corporate Kettle entity was recently purchased by Denny’s. None of the employees in any of the local stores are able to tell us whether ornot there will be any change in the restaurant’s Policies , orif the Kettle stores will become Dermy’s. Kettle’s food is pretty standard and generic fare. They also do a better job on dinner entrees than most of their competitors, but even so, none meet the excruciatingly high Jean-Pierre standards. Denny’s is the traditional American allnightrestaurant, andis the standard against which other competitors are measured. Fortunately for those competitors, the local Denny’s don’t meet the old Denny’s standard. Over the last three months, we made twovisits each to three ofthe local Deuny’s stores. In each case, the service was unacceptably slow. Twice we heard patrons at other tables get almost violently loud with their server over delays, wrong orders, and poor food. The most frequent problem we encountered was cold .food. Runner up was overcooked food. To make all of. this worse, Denny’s famous budgetsaver "Grand Slam"brealffast is not served during the midnight to 6 a.m period. Frequent road-trippers will no doubt be familiar with the Waffle House chain. Small and unpretentious, Waffle House can serve a decent and cheap breakfast. Unfortunately we found that food quality vanes greatly from store to store. All Waffle Houses have wmtresses that call their customers "Hon." It’s a tradition. But, what realh scares us at Waffle House is the fa~t tl~at your short-order cook works in full view.’Some thin2s are probably better left unsaid. Waffle House has an All You Can Eat special for $4.59, slightly higher during the 10 p.m. to 6 a.m. period, that is worth yourmoney and probably the best way for you to eat. The signature food is the pecan waffle, which appears hot off the iron golden brown, fragrant, and filled with pieces of pecan throughout the batter. We’ve never yet had a bad pecan waffle at a Waffle House. Other items are not so lucky. The grits we were served were a congealed mass of got bathed in some type of yellow oi!y substance we took to be melted margarine. Three ’local" restaurants exist Unfortunately, with no nadonal standards to meet, all three have definite short-comings, and we tend to avoid them. They are Mama Lou’s, Perry’s, and Kelly’s. So, as you can see, goodreaders,Tulsa’a late night dining scene Is not paricularly condusive to the gourmet experience. We do, however, have to ~ve honorable mentlons to the Whataburger and Tact Cabana chains. The food at Tact Cabana is pretty good, although not as good as what we’ve had at their San Antonio stores. Also, a favorite spot we had to mention is the Country Ketde/Texaco truck stop way out east of town on 1-44. Technically, it’s in Catoosa city limits, but just across the highway is sti]l within Tulsa city limits. Ourrecommendation?Hone vou~ gourmet skills at home for your friends. Eat before ten o’clock. Move to New York. Otherwise, head to a Village Inn, maybe eat at Tact Cabana, or try your luck with a gamble at one of the other restaurants. by James Christjohn ¯ If you missed the last two concerts in the Celtic Music series at the PAC, you : missed some great entertainment! Celtic music is the great-grandperson of bluegrass and country, yet has a quality all its ¯ own. Haunting and celebratory, often at the same time, it is great music to dis- , cover, or if you already have, to explore. ¯ Coming up is the third and final (sadly) ; concert of the Celtic Music Series, the ¯ Cassidys, 5musical Irish brothers (hate to be in the middle of one of their family ¯ spats!),atthePAC nMarch 13. They ve ¯ played for two Presidents, and filled Ra¯ dio City Music & Carnegie Halls. This will be their Tulsa debut. For info and ¯ tickets, call the PAC ticket office at 596- : 7111. And doit soon, because these shows ¯ usually pack the house! ¯ For an amusing evening, don’t miss ¯ Broken Arrow Community Playhouse’s ¯ production of"the Lion in Winter. This is ¯ the last weekend to catch it; Friday & ¯ Saturday at 8pm and Sunday at 2pm. ¯ Catch the kiss in the second act - it’s quite a show stopper! (Not to mention the numerous pacemakers planted throughout ¯ the audience!) 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, February 15-March 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 3 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 15-March 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmit Barry Hensley Pat Morehead JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/507 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, January 15-February 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 2 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 African Americans AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV discrimination AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV research arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars Bill Clinton businesses censorship churches custody Darly Jay Dave Fleischer domestic violence Don't Ask Don't Tell estate planning Eureka Springs FUSO gay panic harassment Health Briefs heresy homophobia James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leanne Gross marriage Murder Native Americans performing arts Phyl Boler-Schmidt RAIN restaurants schools sex education Shanti sodomy laws Stephen Fry That's Entertainment! threats Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Tulsa Oklahoomans for Human Rights viatication https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/085174f694415133ca5245e38990a22d.jpg 14e42930597b0ddf900bc1e9d4739570 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0a5ab397c9d541ff8fd184f864e7b867.pdf 08f34afed890305cef70433d3dbedd5e PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart ¯ Run for Your Lives: ¯ HIV Bias Lawsuit ¯ OK House is In Session Names Cafe Owner National News Oregon Murder January 15 - February 14, 1996, Vohlme 3, Issue 2 ¯ ¯ Legislators S.eekTo "Endorse Bias In i Adopti,on, Foster Gare & Education ¯ STOCKTON, Calif. -Tipped off by an i ......anonymous Suspect.Arrested caller, authorities in Stockton, about 70 miles east of San Francisco, ~ ,have arrested-Robert. James- Acremant in.’-connection.with the killingiearlier in De- : .cember of two prominent lestiiaii activists " ¯ ~,In what is becoming a regular legisla~n Medford, Oregon. Authorities have : :, ti~e kick in the pants for Oklahoma Lesbiconfirmed that the man al so confessed to .-~, t.:v. ~ ^r n _ : ...... ~.__._ ¯. This drawing representing a gun target¯ - ¯.. ans, Gay men and Bisexuals the Okla the earll,,.4 aadlng u,t a m,~, ,. LalllUllfl,H _ . , , ,~-o--_~.t. .... :t.:,:,. ,,__, ~_ ............ was left 3ee story below for details ¯ -homa House of Representatives is ised :~ .to address at least two resolutions which . ’ see Ore on a e:12 .... - ’ ~ /. . ~’~ ..... " ¯ - ’. .... HouseResolutions 1045& 1046 intro-. " "~ ~ ~’~ Younn Men Admit,. ..u .r-Hara sm,nt ............ ,._. .,Local communiDileade.rs, ,k,’,ellb,-, "v ~ ¯ Murder-of Gay Man ! Hanson " HOUSTON - Authorities say Daniel C. Bean, 19, and Rodney H. Gauthier, 21, two half-brothers who say they’re members of a net-Nazi organization, have admitted viciously attacking two gay men, one of whom died of multiple stab w ounds. Frank Mangione, ’46, Was pronounced dead on amval at a local hospital, and Kenneth Stern, a friend who had been with see Murder, page 3 Ge,o. rgia: Fed.eralRultng on Marr,age ATL’-XNTA - The U.S. Court of Appeals in Adanta has ordered Georgia Attoruey General Michael Bowers to explain in court why his withdrawal of a 1991 job offer to Robin Shahar after she had a religious marriage ceremony with her lover does not violate Shahar ’ s free speech rights under the U.S. Constitution. The ruling could force the .state’s, attorney general into a difficult court fight since it would require him to establish a"compelling governmental interest’: in changing his mind about the job offer. Bowers" office had argued that hiring Shahar after the commitment cerelnonv would complicate enforcement of the state’s antisodolny laws and could be construed as an endorsement of same-sex marriages. The attorney general’s office said it was "’disappointed" in die 3-judge panel’s ruling and would ask for a review, either by ftfll appeals court or the US Supreme Court. -": " aa son ~ OUCgO resp~uvely o\’ Ul~ Kepresema- " :"z..-. l,on:°su° ,dBeo,eau, °n°f" rede"ckand are "mean, ,o’nesex-of : awoke to find "hate -.~.messages at theii~: ." press the position of the House of Repre: home. Recently, theyf0und an.anti-Gay :- sentadves "regarding certain lifestyles" message marked on a. car window. Two : and regarding "celebration of a LeSbian days later, tbeyfoundacrudedrawingon° .~ and Gay history month in the public their porch. On one side therewas a target ._: schools". Both are simple resolutions and ¯ (concentriccircles) with themessage,"tar: therefore would not have the force ot’lass" ¯ get practice-fags’: and on the reverse, House resolution 1045 declares that ¯ vulgar drawings and comments. ¯"- "’homosexuality, lesbianism or bisexnal¯ Kirby, fonner TOHR president, stated : ity’" should not be taught as "’natural ¯ that this harassment is especially trou¯ : lifestyles" in public schools, and that Lesbling since their address is not pul~lished. ¯ bians, Gay men or Bisexuals should not ¯ He added that the hate crimes unit of the ] adopt or’be foster parents and would Tuls.a police depart, did send officers to ~. specify that the stone classes of citizens ¯ investigate, even though under ] should not have "any special status under Oklahoma’s hate crimes law, attacks on ¯ the basis of sextml orientation are not ¯ the law". : ~ Resolution 1046 states the position of cov.ered. Kirby noted that these nughtjust : the House condemmng the National EduSee Target, page 10 ~ cation Association’s (NEA) "call for "’the ¯ acceptance and tolerance of homosexual behavior" and for "’celebrations of a Lesbian and Gay History Month to ac"knmvledge the contributions of lesbians, gays The American Civil Liberties Union ¯ and bi sexuals, all of which is inconsistent with traditional values of this state...’" : (ACLU) of Oklahoma recently received a ¯ setback to its challenge of Oklahoma’s Traditionall.v le~slation of this sort have been filed by one or another of the OK ¯ "’sodom)"’ law.. Oklahoma City attoruey, House’s Radical-Right members, typi¯ Mark Hendricksen, with Marquette l_’ni¯ versitvprofeSsoroflaw Shirley \Vie_,aand "cally, Bill Graves of OKC. \\’hat concerns ¯ with assistance from ~he Gay & Lesbian many longtime politi "cal observers is that these have been filed by Democrats. Laurie Rights Project of the national’office of the Phillips, co-chair of the Tulsa County ACLU are preparing a petition to the Democrat Party stated that tlfis "’flies in U~fited States S. up.reme Court for a review the face of the principles of the Democrat of the late 1995decision of the Oklal~olna Party, not only the local, state & national Court of Criminal Appeals. platforms but violates the constitution and The circumstances ~f the -case follow! a bylaws of the state Democrat part3". citizeu was approached by a undercover tale observer suggested that the intro- ¯ OKC police officer. After extended flirtaduction of these resolution might be a way : tion by the police officer who emphasized for the Democratic leadership to kee~ ¯ see ACLU. page 10 these issues under their control. The idea ¯ is that a milder, non-binding resolution ¯ would let legislators take an anti-Gay ¯ ,Parents, Fanfilies and Friends~of LesbilX?. sition for their ultra-conservative con- ; aus and Gays, (PFL,~G), both the national sutuents at home but would allow those ¯ and local orgamzations ,are contilming Representatives to avoid a vote on an ¯ their Project Open Miud cmnpaign to reactnal anti-Gay bill. However,.attoruev ¯¯ duce hate langtmge and violence directed Bill Hiulde rio’ted that even as a resolu’¯ toward Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals mad tion. Lesbians, Gay men mid Bisexnals those perceived to be. PFI.=~G National could be affected if agency heads chose to ¯ ,’umomiced that the law finn of Hogan & reflect the views of the House in their tlartson LI.P will assist PFLAG at no policies. Dept. of Hunwaa Senices (DHS) .charge (pro bond) in First Amendment officials said at this time, the agency does tssues raised by the threat of lawsuits not discriminate on the basis of sexual against PFL&G i’r0mthe Christian Broadorientation mid DHS staff knew of some casting Network (CBN). adoptions by Lesbian or Gay citizens. ," DHS stall" stated their duly cdnceru was ¯ Project Open Mind began with television connnercials that featured anti-Gay with the quality of the hol~e for the chil¯ see PFLAG. page see R.1045. page 10 ¯ ACLU Continues to Challenge Sex Law Calif. GOP Tries-To" Ban Gay Marriages Thursday, Jannary 4, Califorlfia Assemblymelnber Pete Knight unveiled amendments to his bill, AB 1982, to prevent Califonfia from recogmzing samesex marriages.!egally pedbnned in other states. Knight’s bill isiu reaction to the expected legalization of stone-sex marriages in Hawaii in the next two )’ears. Knight’s bill has the backing of the Assembly Republican caucus, and ,’dread)" has 29 Republican co-sponsors. Kafight’s stated reasoning follows: traditional marriages are for procreation. S,’une-gender couples can’ t "produce offspriug together, [so] they must view marriage as just a reservoir of economic perks." galight did see CA-GOP. page 10 - The Tulsa Federal Court will soou hear ¯ .an HIViAIDS discriminatiou lawsuit ¯ which could be the first in the nallon under the A~nericans with Disabi lilies Act " (ADA). Local"society" "cafe owner, Tcrr3 _’~ ~T~urner; who mvns Capistrano inq "ticw " ¯ ’ Square andThe French Hen in sonth’l;ulsfi, ;.’ iS ~li¢ged to have ~’iolated the federal nou¯ discrimination law in what former cur ¯ ployee, Paul Saladin, claims was a wrong ..... ¯ ful firing, Saladin had beeu emplo.vcd at ." The French Hen for over 8 years. : Background ¯ Saladin’s spouse, FxtGandin, tested i positive for HIV :’anti.bodies in=1987. In-/ ¯ late 1992, Gaudin becanle ill and was ¯ ..diagnosed with AIDSin early 1 ~93. I)ur¯ mg this time, Saladin supported the finn¯ ilv and was Gaudin’s prilnary carcgivcr. ¯ A’lso during this time, Saladin becmnc a voluuteer with an HI\" AIDS hospice and ¯ became a certified HI\" AII)S educator. ¯ Both Gaudin’s !llV status, illness and ¯ Saladin’s vohmteer work wcrc known to most French Ileu employees and Saladin’..~ manager, Jemlifer \Vallacc. On occasion. ¯ French Hell CtlSlOlners who kllcw of Saladin’s circumstances, would ask hiul ¯ about his spouse. \\.hilt he appears to have been discreet about the subject. Saladin did not hide his vohmtcer work or his relationship with Gaudin. History of this Case In respouse to ,’m inqtury from l)r. & ; .Mrs. Spohr of Tulsa (according to pnblic doculnents on file with the court), Saladin ¯ did uot mention either HIV or AII)S but ¯ did refer to Gandm’s T-cell count. On ¯ Sept. 17, 1993, the manager at that time, ¯ Je~mifer Wallace instructed Saladin not ¯ to discuss Gaudin’s HIV AIDS condition ¯ while waiting on tables, and further mIbnned him that she hoped owner Terry ¯ Turuer did uot find out. According t~ ¯ documents sublnitted to the court, Saladin ¯ agreed but objected and sought guidance see ADA. page 3 Tulsa Prime Timers ¯ Raises $1000 For Community Center Project-Open Mind Tulsa Area Prilne Tilners (’I’AVI’) hosted a holiday party and silent auction in December. With food prepared with TAPT’s gourmet group and items donated by TAPT’s members, the event raised S 1000 for creation of a Tulsa Couununitv Ceuter which lnembers of the group prt;seuted to TOHR president, Dcbi Statues. Prime Tizners, which is ,’dread\" one of the fastest growing social orgam’zations, has expanded its membership to include Gay mid Bisexual men over the age of 21. Formerly, membershipwas 40 and alx)vc. EDITORIAL DIRECTORY NEWS BRIEFS HEALTH BRIEFS CALENDAR EUREKA PAGE P. 2 Po 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 11 �918.583. 1248 P()B 414(/ Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-o 14o TulsaNews~ aol.com Publish er/Editor Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of Tom Neal this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa F:amilv Assistant Editor News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part withot[t James Christjohn written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or Writors/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phvl Boler- Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barry Hensley noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence shouid be sent to the address above. Each Pat Morehead Staff Photosrapher reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution JD Jamett points. ,~dditional copies are available by calling 583-1248. It’s that time again When we have to deal with politics whether or not we want to do so. On [:cbruary 6th, there.~e city council.primary races which aren" t particularlyinteresting AND tl~ere are ol v charter changes which may not be that interestiug either but which ARE important. The one that I would urge each of us to vote ~n lavor of is a ch,’mgc to the charter which would allow an employee of a business which holds a franchise with thc city to hold public office. The prohibition dates from early days of statehood and no longer has a usc. I tow~\er~ the impact of it remmning could be to force City Councillor Joe \Villiams off the city council. Joc" s district is mostly north Tulsa mad vo{~ all might ask why. if you don’t live in that district. .you should care’? Fi~rst. Joe V,’illian~s has been a good rcprcsentative for his district and seems to this observer to be one of the few of our councillors who has both brains and integrity. Furthermore, -Joc is sensitive to issues of m,.ti-Gay discrimination and is thc oulv member of city govermnent to say he would support a non-discrimination ordinanc~ "that included sexual orientation. Right now, oulv one friend o~r city council can’t do much but it’~ better than no fri~nds.Let’s help Joe stay in:office. Also. Rob Hill is ntiufing for School Board Dist. ;6. Rob brings intelligence, compassion mad experi~cnce to this race m~d deserves our support. If you’re ~in hi( district, please:vote for him on Feb." 13. If !youre. not in Iris district mad c,’m spare some cash :for cmnpm_ou expenses, please help. If yOU can’t ¯sparc the c~ish, c0nsidcr giving some ti,fie.: If yon :wm,t to help.please contact.tiffs paper for-inf’. I ~ch 0f ns cam makc a difference, just by voting. :.Plcasc do. - Tom Neal, publisher Taking Heart b\" Pat .\ lorehead To begin thisyear,my companion and I started in the hot mb with a,botfle .of champagne we’ve .carted around since the mid eighties awaiting a "’special" occasion, Due to his career he is usually unavailable at the holidays, so this was the first time in several years that we’ve actually shared the New Year together. \Ve started with a very good dimmer at the Bistro of Brookside, though it was a little noisy and a little too dear from my v~ewpoint. \Ve dined late and then returned home and settled into the hot tub. \Ve enjoyed the relaxing comfort mad then adjourned inside for some more relaxing activ,ties. All in all it was a nice start to a new year. I got to sit in on a rehearsal for "The Lion in \\’inter" being presented by Broken Arrow Community Playhouse; call 258-0077 for details. I want bY ShblT{, ~ob~rtb .................... ( Warn#}g : Not [or thehumor-imp)aired!) It h~ long been my contention that ~ough we may shoe orgmfi~ti~ns, a couple of b~s, and the stone colors of the rNnbow, the rdNity is that, wNle gay men ~d lesbi~s ~e of the stone "ilk", they ~e NOT of the stone planet. For ex~ples: Lesbians usuNly m~y slightly"before" the first date. Gay men marry only after e.rtensive interviewing ~nd denial. " Lesbians have sex inunediately ~ter meeting the other woman’s mumNs, cNl&en, relatives, reviewing ~1 her b~ks, and inte~ogatlng her current and ~1 her exes. G~v men have sex immediately a~er just about attythhtg. Sometimes before. though not as much as they used I.esbians use love to get io sex. With g<v men, the vtce is versa. ~en lesbians buy a house, they rehab. And refi~rbish Gay men. ~n the other han~. redecorate. ~sbi~s ~ easily fix ~ ~ling refrigerator. Gay men can e~ih’ fill it~om the cheese atzd importe~ mushroont sebtton of the dell Lesbians ~e more likely to be vegetal. Gay men will eat almost anything. It took lesbi~s to rediscover Hush ~ppies. It took gay men w redesign tltem in Easter egg colors. Lesbians process. Endlessly. Gay men rationally debate ram~caaons and consbqueitces. For slightly longer. Lesbi~ ~e politi~ly co~ect to everyone. Gay men are politically correct to everyone [hey knout. I_esbians don’t eat tNngs that used to ha~:e faces. Gay men categorically reject tofit ~ pointless wa~@aper p~te with calories. ~sbians envv M~tha Stew~t’s Co~ecticut house. GaY men’channel her. ~sbi~ fix si~ le~s ~emselves, Gay men call plumbers. Cute ones. ~sbi~s pay intemN pen~ for haph~d eye contact, btlhe rightpar& circumstances, ga~ men’s heads have been known to r~’olve a fidl 3~0" Polifi~ly co~ect or not, lesbi~s look at Play~y Mag~ine. Gay men just read the articles. To a lesbi~, cNntz is your p~tner buying yo~ bir~day present at a y~d s~e. To a g~v man, its a fabulous ~rnishing opportuni&, Two lesbi~s ~ght refer to ~ch o~er ~ "my wife." Two gay men wouldn ’t. ~sbi~s ~ve off-road veNcles ~d ~y maps that refold~emselves. Gay Men eventually stop at service station and ~k for directions. But only if th~ real~7 have to go. ~sbi~s bring ~e chars, ~e newsletter, NI the Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E 15th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time’n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Wild Nights, 2405 E. Adnfiral Wild Fork, Utica Square, 21st & Utica *Interurban, 717 S. Houston 744-0896 585-5622 749-1563 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 664-8299 584-1308 582 -4340 742 -0712 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Demtis C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Associates in Medi "cal & Mental Health, 1560 E. 21 743-1000 KeiitBalch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 250-5034 Brookside Jewelry. 4649 So. Peoria 743-5272 Creative Collectirn, 1521 E. 15 592-1521 Cherry St. Psychotherapy Assoc. 15 ! 5 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 Tim Dmnel. Attorney 352-9504. 800-742-9468 D’Antiques. 1508 E. t~Sth 592-5356 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 749-3620 *Dusty Roads at the Silver Star, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 838-8503 Express Pool s & Spas, 6310 S. Peoria 743-9994 Fidelity Home Health Care, Inc. Coweta 486-1174 Le,’tma~ M Gross, Financial Plmnfing 744-0102 *Sandra J. Hill, *IS, Psychotherap3, 2865 E Skellv 745-1111 *hnaginations, Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria 584-4606 *International Tours; 341-6866 Kerfs Flowers, 1635~ E 15 599-8070 Kelly Kirby, CPA, I:’OB 14011, 74159 747-5466 Loup-Garou, 2747 E.: 15 742-1992 Lean Aim Macomberl, Realtor Associate 671-2010 Massoud’s Jewle~’,:The Farm, 51st & Sheridan 663-4884 *MediaPlay, 9121 E.!71st 250-5158 *Midtown Theater, 3i19 E. 3 584-3112 Mingo \;alley Flowers, 972i3c E. 31 st 663-5934 *Mohawk Music, 6~57 E 51 P1 664-2951 Puppy Pause II, l lt.hl & Mingo 838-7626 Royal Travel, 6927 S~. Canton 496-2410 *Ross Edward Salon~ 1438 S. Boston 584-0337 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 749-6301 Southwest Viatical, ~1-1-6 S. Harvard, Ste. F-5 747.-3322 *Tomfoolery Gifts d5 Cards, at F,’unily of Faith MCC 583.1248 Fred Welch, LCSW, .Counseling 743-1733 Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities *Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Ctr. 2627B E. I l 628-0594 B, LG Alliance, Uni~!ersity of Tulsa 583-9780 *Canterbury Minist~’ Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa *Conunmtity of Hope (United Methodist), i703 E. 2nd 585-1800 Dignity;Integrity (LegbianiGay Catholics & Episcopalians) 298’-4648 *Fannlv of Faith ..X.~CC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 *Free Spirit Lesbian Center call for location & info: 587-4669 Friend For A Friend,.POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Friends in Unity (African-Amer. men), POB 8542, 74101 425-4905 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation 584-4983 Interfaith AIDS Mini.stiles 438-2437, 800-284-2437 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S: Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 NAMES PROJECT, 21.154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-I 748-3111 P-FLAG, POB 52800 74152 749-4901 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 74104 R.A.I.N., Re~onal AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 665-5174 Rainbow Village, POB 50403, 74150-0403 599-8423 *Shanti Hofline 749-7898 TulSaOldahomansforHmnaiaRigh-ts,(TOtlR) POB52729 74152 TOHR Gay HelpLine (Info.) 743-4297 Tool Box Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Unifgrm/Leathe_r Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 ~ Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor :to recormnend llii~~ ibroduCtion. I was ¢ery ira: .’ "flyers, theminut~s~ and’the- Coffee pot. Gay men pressed even though I saw it at an early point in the : bring chkckbo~ks.~ rehearsal schedule. But I was particularly taken ¯ Lesbians have potlucks with dishes made from with.the.the Richard.and Phillip scene. The.Direst .." l.en~ils .or chocolate. Or both. Gay. men have intitorhastakentherelati0nshipbetweenthesecharac- ." mat~ litti~ ~ti~tn~rs)~o~, i~vb fv~th :lio~emade pate. To ters and..:,~d~; i!t:!.~!~.~~ .that it.is ahomosexual~ : start~ ’ . " relations~ij’i~)i! i ~i i:::il" ~..i.~i,.... ..... ’.... - z . "~ LesbianS love camp. ~o.do gay men. Beaver Dam Store, 112 mi. N. of Dam on Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 . Now, I h~g~;trrlid~ihat:the inclinations of the : Lesbians cook out by tliepond. Gay men cook in, *Jim &.Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 feilo~’ii~i~" N~iiard and,:Phillip are, but : then sit out bythe pooL " " " DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center S t. ¯ two 50 1-253-6807 bet~een them the "~Y~ mana i ge a ~erv.~ conv~nono ’ " ’" Lesbian Couple s hyphenate their last names. " " ~ ." *Emerald Rainbow, 45&1/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 see Play, page 3 ". Gay men arm wrestle each other to the ground and King’s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W 800-231-1442 ¯. use the winner’s name. *MCC.of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 Lesbians go to the gym to get fit. Gay men go to McClung Realtors 501-253-9682 the gym to get their jeans to fit. : , Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 Lesbians think of New Year’s Eve as an oppor¯ ] Southern Rose Bed & Breakfast, 9 Benton 501-253-2204 ¯ tunity to get reacquainted with steps 10, 11, and 12. ¯ Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 see Vegan, page 3 ¯ The Woods, 50 Wall St. 501-253-8281 �on how to handle inquiries about the issue. Saladin worked several more days until Wallace informed Turner about the situation. Saladin was then suspended for 30 days, although he claims he had complied with Wallace’s directive and The French Hen does not dispute this. During the time of the suspension, he retrieved his liquor license from The French Hen so that he could continue to work at temporary jobs. Also, during this time, Saladin attempted to speak with Turner to address ¯ any misunderstanding. On Oct. 15th, Saladin called to arrange to return to work by the 22rid and was told that Turner had directed her to replace Saladin. Up to this time and afterwards, Turner refused to take his calls. According to Saladin’s documents, when once he succeeded in getting Turner on the phone, Turner stated he had nothing to say and hung up. During this time, several other employees left or were terminated and positions became available, but Saladin was not offered his position back. He filed with the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission (OESC), with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), and sought legal representation. In late Nov, Saladin was informed that he’d been denied uuemployment compensation because Turner claimed that Saladin had quit. To the OESC, Wallace on behalf of Turner claimed that there trad been repeated customer complaints about Saladin’s conduct ,and that Saladin had been suspended for nffsconduct and insubordination and that Saladin had volun: taril y quit and Saladin had threatened to sue. Wallace and Turner repeated these allegations at a telephone hearing on Dec. 16th with the OESC. On Dec. 17th, Turner called Ed Gaudin at his and Saladin’s home asking questions about Gaudin’ s health and physician and allegedly calling Saladin a liar. Gaudin, who was already seriously ill, appears to have been so upset by the conversation that when Saladin came home, he found Gaudin emotionally devastated and vomiting. In Jan. of 1994, after Saladin had obtained legal representation and the EEOC found sufficient reason to direct Turner to respond to Saladin’s complaint, Turner through his attorneys offered Saladin his job back without conditions. Saladin’s attorneys accuse Turner of making the offer in bad faith in order to limit Turner’s liability for back wages while obviously Turner et al claim good faith. However, Saladin expressed a willingness and desire to return to work from Oct. 15 at least until Turner’s call to Gandin in Dec. Turner did not communicate an offer to restore Saladin’s job until January after Turner had retained legal counsel. Since January of 1994, this case has seen a flurry of legalese documents as attorneys from each side cite cases to bolster their side. A trial date has been set several times but delayed. It is expected to go to trial February. Other Information Late in 1987. after Gaudin tested positive for ttIV antibodies, a fact which Saladin shared with several co-workers at The French Hen, Turner directed that Saladin be suspended without pay until Saladin produced a medical repor~ proving that Saladin was HIV negative. After being tested. Saladiu subnffl ted a report to see ADA. page 8 Photos, JD Jamett, 621-5597 Worship Servide 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan 599-7688 LY.KIRBYCertified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many, special tax situations whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Mangione when they met the 2 young men at a local bar, had been beaten. S tern’s condition was not serious however. Police said Bean and Gauthier told them they had attacked Mangione and Stern after one of the men had touched one of the young men while the 4 were taking a drive earlier in the evening. The young men also told officers they belonged to a group called the German Peace Corps, which human rights activists say is a California-based neo-Nazi orgamzation affiliated with the KKK. Several witnesses told authorities that the 2 young men had bragged earlier that they were "going’to get a fag" that night, and later boasted that they had "cut up this fag real bad." Gay men see it as a chance to blow their horns off.. Lesbians truly believe that communes work. Gay men really think they can be RepublicZms. Lesbians turn everyone within hugging range into "family.’" Gay men have a tendency to run around i~i PACs. It is, ~onsidering everything, amazing that we still talk to each other. Fortnnately, we are all smart enongh to have figure out that what is truly unnaturai on tiffs looney-tune plauet is marrying outside your own species. ~ 1996 Shelly Roberts. All rights reserved. Shelly Roberts is a uationally syndicated colun~fist, spe,~er, and author of Roberts’ Rules of Lesbi,’m Living (5 96) Spinsters htk seduction scene xvith a very sensual kiss. The actors deserve credit, and the theater deserves credit for not diluting the homosexual content~ Here is a chance as a co~u~ty forus to snpport a mmustrcana effort w~ch represents us without apology or emb~assment. I was saddened at the passiug of Mike Syn~, former Congressm~ lrom l)i strict Two. I have contributed to and worked on Mike’s beh~f in ~e pasl. tie was a good guy, honest ~d decent, a truc public scrv~t in ~e very best sense. There is no comping ~e ~u~ities Mike represented with the likes of a Cobum, or I ~gcnt or I~ofe. And I ~z not refemng to political ideolo~es. So for me ’96 is off to an uneven start. But I intend to t~e heart from the bad as well ~ the good. I will t~e heart in tl~ ex~ple of Mike Syn~ ~d not be afrmd to go out ~d fight the good fight. I will t~e he~t in these two unkuown local actors and their associates who ~cn’t ~r~d to tac~e a Bible belt tahoo. Aud I’m going to t~e he~t in the eighteenth ye~ of a loving and sh~ug relationship with my lover compmfion. ~ch gives me a re~ly silly idea. l’d like to he~ from you, the readers, about what gives you he~t, and helps you make your way through the world. Maybe you have so~e key that someone m our commusty ueeds io hear or would m~c them feel less isolated. Send you responses to the editor or E-mail tbcm ~o TulsaNews ~2 aol.com, and hc can l’or~vard them on to me. XXtacn I get a good one 1"11 use it in fl~e cohmm. If yon want thcln to be anonymous, that’s I’iqac. �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News .Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Recruiting Cops for ’City of Brotherly Love’ PIIILA DELPHIA - The Philadelphia Police Department has begun rccniitmg gay ,and lesbian police officers through public cmpioynieut notices in the city’s t~vo gay newspapers The uew effort is the rcsult of a meeting Police Commissioner Richard Ncal held earlier in December with leaders of the city’s lesbian and gay community. Police Sgt. l:rcd Cottou said the dcpartuaenl made a similar effort m 1989-90 bnt !he department had uo i id’ormarion on how success fill thai recruitment program had been. "l’vc never Imd,’mvonc come up to me and tell m~ their sexual pcrsuas~ou." Cotton said. The dcpm’tmcut doesn’t kccp any data ou the sexual orientation of offleers, hc added Study: The Kids (of Lesbian Moms) Are OK CIlICAGO- A prolonged study of the kids of lesbian morns th,~t tracked the children’s developmcut for some two decades found that they had no more problems with sexual orientation or other dcvclopmcut~d issues than the kids oflmtcroscxtud parcuts. The study, which was reported in tl~ American ,lournal of Orthopsychiatrv, found one noticeable diffcr0mc between the clfildrcn of Icsbiau morns mad hcteroscxmd parcuts:"th~ offspnng in the lcsbimi f,’unihcs were more uncouflk~rtablc udkiug with other pcoplc about their parents than the kids from the str~fight fanfilic~. A nether signilic~mt di ffcrence bctwccu the two groups was tha! none of the kids from hctcroscxnal fanfilics reported having had any homosexual experience by their mid-20s, wlfilc some 25% of those from lesbian lhmi- lies said they had had at least one homosexual relationslfip. Washington State AntiGay Measure May Fail SEATTLE - To the relief of rights activists iu the state, Washmgton anti-gay activists concede they probably will not be able to get cuough siguaturcs to put two ballot measures before voters in 1996. Initiative 167 would bar gays and lesbians from adoptiug clfildrcm mid hlitiative 166 would prohibit antibias laws based ou sexual orientation anywhere iu the state. The head of the Citizens ..\.ltimme of \Vaslfiugton conceded shortl\ before Chi’istnms that the group wasn’t going to bc able to get the uceded signatures because the orgmfizatiou had attracted oulv a few huudred members an~J raised only about $5.000 for its siguaturc-gathcring cmnpaign. Cathy Y, lickcls, the head of the state dmpter of the Eagle Forum. ,also told Seattle reporters she didn’t think it was very likely the organization would be abl~ to get thd rcqnircd signatures. Proposed Bill to Aid Partners Measures SAC~\MENTO, C:dif. - C~diforuia Assemblyman \Vallv Kuox (D-West Hc{llywo~xt) wil’l introduce a measure m the stale legislatnre carl\ m 1996 that would attthorizt~ the giant CadifonfiaPublic Emtfloyccs & Rctiremeut System (CAL-PERS) to open its hc~dth iusurancc coverage plans to thc dolncstic partners of muuicipal mid other govcnuncnt agcucy employees the state. Some 80 or so C~dil’orma cities and rcgiomd bomds and commissions carry their employce health ius~rancc thi’ough CAL-PERS. But CAI,PERS regulations govcmiug the state-operated health mid medi- Miracleglass Neil Ray Owner cal insurance plata specifically marriages that may be legal elseexclude "conunon law spouses" where illegal in Soulh Dakota. It and "’life partners" as eli~ble would, for example, have the employee dependents, preventeffect of nullifyiug s,’unc-sex ing the cities, counties and spenmrriages if Ha,&aii courts v~d icial districts in the CAL-PERS date them as many cxpcci to prograna from offering partner happeu this year. benefits to their gay or straight Political Attacks Against workers even if they want to. Gays Increasing Lobbying for Educational SAN FRANCISCO A report Anti-Bias Protections isstled here by People for the SAN FRANCISCO -The LavAmerican Way. says attacks ender Youth Recreation & Inalined agaiust the political formation Center (LYRIC} progress of gays mid lcsbimas in started off the New Year with a this country increased at ~dl levpolitical bang on Jan. 3 with a els. The report, the 3rd of its kiud caravan of gay, lesbian and bithe organization,has issued, sexual ,voting people tothc state ¯ .counted at least. 180 anti-gay Capitol in Sacrmnento to lobby actions m 1995, an increase of for proposed anti-discriminatio[~ 46 such attacks over 1994. The protections. Tim California Edusurvey counted anti-gay politicatiou Code bans discrinfination cal iuitiatives, legislative measures, executive actions by state in the state’s schools mid educational services based ona numgovernors as well as open atber of categories, bu! does not . tacks by police mid mid public include sexual orientation. The . ~!d. mc..dia figures against gay lesbigay youth groupspent the rights. first &a.v of the legislature’s new High. School Gay Group 3ear, Jan. 3, lobbying in support Stirs Controversy of a measnre introduced by AsSALT LAKE CITY - Utah semblywoman Sheila Kuehl (Dschool mid legal anthoritics, afSanta Moifica) that would add ter 2 moaths, have agrced thcre sexual orientation to the state is litflc or nothing that can be education code. -done to preveut a gay- and lcsSo. Dakota Anti¯ biau club being fonncd by a Marriage Battle Again group of studeuts at Salt Lake PIERRE, S.D. - South Dakota City’s East High School. A small state Rep. Roger Hunt, whose group of students at the school 1995 le~slation to prohibit sameasked for pennissiou to start the sex marriages in the state failed, club in October, and their rehas announced plans to introquest was passed from the duce the bill again during die school’s priuciphl to the city’s current le~slative session. Hunt’s school superintendent, then up 1995 bill passed overwhehningly to the state cducatiou office, and finally on to the Utah attorney in the state’s lower house by a ,’54-13 vote, but became stalled gcueral’s office. m a cotmnittee in the state SenShortly before Cl~stmas, the ate where it died. The proposed attorney geueral’s office notilegislation would make any fied district officials that both same-sex marriage’:null and void state and federal law prolfibit from the beginning" in the state, barring non-curriculum school and is aimed at making any such clubs because of content. But California’s Hate Crimes: 1/5 Are Anti-Gay SACRAMENTO, Calif. - In the firs! of .its kind in California, state Attorney Geueral l)an LI.mgrcl!"s office reix)rts tl!at hate crones m the Golden Stale arc gcucnd i y couccu tratcd i n ci tics :and nearly one-fifth of them were aimed agaiust gays and lesbians. During the filaal six mouths of 1994, the survey of local law enforcculent agencies found there were 672 bias-based crimes reported in the state. Of these, 487 (72 percent) were based on the race or ethnic origins of the victims, Mille 119 (18 perccut) wcre bccause the victims were lcsbkms or gay men - or were believed to bc by the attackers. Some 6-1- iucidents (or just m~dcr 10 pcrccut) WCl’C based on the victims" religion. The largest number of reported Irate crimes, 243 of them, were logged in the [x)s Augclcs metropolitan area. The San Frmmisco Bay Area checked in with next l argcst couceutratiou, 129 bias-based crimes iu the four-county ,area. Transsexual Identity Bill Proposed in Britain LON1)ON - Among the backbcuch bills being offered in Bri rain’s Ilousc of Connnoiis as private members" legislation is a mcasure that would make it easier for traussexuals in the UK to establish a legal idemity in keeping with their new gender after a sex-change operation. 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Individuals who espouse Northwest Leicestershire since homosexuality do not constitute 1983 in the ruling conservative proper role models as teachers ~ party, now faces the prospect of for students in this district." ~ : having to pay all legal costs that Crane had told his students he are estimated at about $800,000. was gay after he and his comAshby; 55, had sued the Times ¯ panion had gotten married dur- : overanarticlein the paperwhich ¯ ing a commitment ceremouy and said he had shared a bed with a .exchanged wedding bands, caus- ¯ man during a holiday in Gee in ing some of his students to ask ." 1993, that he had misled his wife ¯ and constituents abouthis sexual Gay Credit Card Can’t about the wedding ring. ¯ School Board Condemns orientation, and that he had lied Use ’Rainbow’ Name :..about. h.awn, g a relat~oaship with TRENTON, N.J:- A federal .... Homosexuality a32-year-old Irish physician, Dr. court in New Jersey has enjoined ¯ NEW HAVEN, Ind.- HomoCiar~i Kilduff. The ~iewspaper promoters of a gay-oriented - sexual activity is inconsistent admitted during the libel trial credit card from using the nanm with community values and that its report had contained at "Rainbow." U.S District Judge ¯ should be discouragedin the East ¯ least one factual error, but mainMary Little Parell barred the Allen County (Iudiana) schools, rained the accuracy of its article, Rainbow Card Fom~datiou from according to a resolution adopted wlfich it maintained was justiusing that trade name on the ¯ by the local school board. Acfied to lfiglflight what it cousidcredit card it was pro~noting in ¯ cording to school, district offiers Ashby’s hypocrisy in advothe New York-New Jersey area cials, the resolution only reflects cating heterosexual f~nilv valin a suit filed by the Rainbow the board’s opinion and isn’~ a ues while leading what the’papcr Foundation Inc., a Middletown, ¯ policy statement. But the called a "double life." Both N.J., charity that offers medical ¯ resolution’s laaaguag.e, some eduAshby’s wife and his sister testiassistance and other services to ¯ caters say, certainly sounds like fied against the Tory MP duriug children in the state. The Rain- ¯ an official school policy. The the 4-week trial. It is likely that bow Card had contracted with ¯ resolution, wlfich was introduced Ashby may face bm"akruptc’y and Martina Navratilova to act as ¯ in response to a statement earlier the loss of his seat in the House spokeswoman for the Visacredit [ tiffs year by the National Educaof Conunons as a result. .card that would have used part of tion Association endorsing ~ts card charges to benefit gay, ¯ teacher training aronnd gay and Gay Marine to ¯ AIDS & breast cancer agencies. l~’sbian student issues and recFight Discharge Gay Teacher Allowed to ¯ ognizing a national gay mad lesDAVENPORT. Iowa - CorpoStay in Michigan School ¯ bian lfistory mouth, says in part: ral Kevin Blaesing says he will "’Homosexuality is contrary to fight efforts by the .MarZiue Corps BYRON CENTER, Mich. the laws of nat;are, it’s xno~:ally to discharge him because hc is Gerry Crane, a 3 l-year-old high gay. Blaesing, who has bccn school music teacher who told ¯ unacceptable to our conununit y umned "’Marine of the Month" students he was gay alter they ¯ mad we should leach our chilmad"M,-mne of the Qtuarter.’" was asked about a new wedding band ¯ dren as such." UK Member of Parliment denied pernfission to reeniist iu he was wearing, will be ,allowed 1993 because of remarks he lind to keep tfis teaching post. The ¯ Loses ’Gay’ Libel Case ¯ made about homosexuality to a school board in the town, about LONDON’ - Tory MP David USMC psychologist. Bu! earl\ 16 miles from Grand Rapids, ¯ Ashby wept as he f~aced the prosin 1995 he joined a Marine Corp’s said however that it wonld keep " pect offinanci,-d ruinaftcr losing Reserve umt in South Carolina Crane under scrutiny because of ¯ a prolongcd libel actiou ag,’uust without auy difficulties m~d later his sexual orientauon. In a forLondou’s Sunday Times wlfich spoke at a gay pride even! there. real statement, the trustees said. ." had reported that he is homoNow thc Mariucs have bcgun "The school board firmly be- ¯ scxnal. Thc jury deliberated 5 discharge proceedings against lieves that homosexuality vio- ¯ hours belbrc rc[unfing its verlmn mad Blaeslug says he will lates the doufinant moral stan- ¯ dict in favor of the Tlmes in the fight the discharge "~1 the way totheSupremeCourt"ifhemust, sexcouplcstocnroll. Roscnl~aum Two Lutheran Churches Expelled. said he believed the partncrs" registranon should be .just for gays and lesbians. SAN FRANCISCO-St. Francis Lutheran Church and the First United Lutheran Church here officially became ex-members of the 5.3 -million member Evangelical Lutheran Church of America at the end of 1995 for ordaining 2 lesbians and a gay man as ministers in defiance of the national church’s prohibi’tiofis. The 2 churches were suspended by the ELCA in 1990 and given until the end of 1995 to rescind the ordinations of the Revs. Ruth Frost, Phyllis Zillhart and Jeff Johnson, or be officially expelled from the national church group. A spokesperson for S t. Francis Lutheran Church said not one member of the congregation had left since the controversy started more than 5 .,,’ears ago. But ironically ¯ one St. Francis Lutheran member who attended his last service at the church (at least officially) on Sunday, Dec. 31, was Bishop Robert Mattheis, the presiding bishop of EIX2A’s Sierra Pacific Synod of some 220 con~egations in Northern Califontia and Nevada. A long-time member of St. Francis, Bishop Mattheis now must officially leave the church’s con~egatio~: Calififornia City OKs Partners Registry PALO ALTO, Calif. - OutNow, the San Jose, Calif., gay newspaper, reports that Pale Alto’s city council has approved by a 6-] vote a domestic partners registration. The re~stranon carries no direct benefits and requires a fee to the city clerk’s office. The only vote agmnst the proposM crone from Dick Rosenbamn. who objected that the partuers" registry ,also allowed opposite- Marriage Commission Issues Final Report IIONOI.UIJ.~- A llawali statc comnfissiou has approved its finN report of rccoum~cudations on a 5-2 vote. calling on the legislature to a~cpt the rcalil v of Sallle-SeX lnarriag courts. Few acnvists believe the legislature will t;~c the advice of the commissiou,appointcd b~ Gov. Bcnjmnin Cayctano, b~t the report’s rccounncndations add flu ther fuel to the legM bat ~ound the case. The legislature l~t ye~ adopted a law prohibitlng stone-sex m~agc, although =t rcm~us unclc~ whether thai law itself ~m bc considered coustitut~omd. Chairman Thomas (;ill, former mcmbcr of Cougrcss and out-tune lieut, govcruor, said the state had f~lcd to prove ~c in courl and had relied the legislature to block tauntsex m~agcs. "q’hc opposluOU ~ft.come up with a compelling state lntcFcsI other th~ul I ~x’i~cus 18," he said, rcfcmug to an Old Tcsumacnt vcrsc that says. ""l’hou shalt not lic with mankind as with womankind "" Sparks Fly in O.S. 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"Vitrasert’" implant would deliver the medicine ganciclovir in time-released doses directly in the eye after being \mplanted, making it much more effective. the FD A advisory panel said. The full FDA must now decide whether to accept the panel’s recommendation or not. USC to House AIDS Archives LOS ANGELES - The University of Southern California will become one of the first sites in the country with an archive documenting the earl) years of the battle against AIDS. Los Angeles city officials are granting the university a total of $50,000 for the project alor~g with thousands of original works com~ected with the earliest veers of the epidemic. The AIDS archi~:e will be housed in~,the university library’s special collections and will include "city documents, materials from local actiViSt groups, and papers from Drs. Michael Gottlieb and Joel Weismal who published the first cases of what later came to be known as AIDS. 30% of India’s Blood Infected NEW DELHI - According to a stud)’ by India’s National AIDS Control Organization, nearly 30% of the blood provided by the country’s blood banks is tainted with infectious diseases, including HIV, malaria, hepatitis and others. The government agency responsible for the national effort to fight the epidemic in India said tinrdiable screening procedures risk exposing patients receiving blood and blood products to one or the other illnesses. The Indian Red Cross Society said that part of the problem stems from chronic shortages of blood in the country with the result that commercial blood banks often rely on poorer professional donors 9iho sui~pl~ement their incomes by giving blood. Such paid donors, the society says, are often in higher-risk groups for various infectious diseases. The National AIDS Control Organization now estimates that in less than 5 years some 5 million Indians will be infected with HI\" with 1 million fullblown cases of AIDS in the country. KS Linked Virus Found in Semen of HIV+ Gay Men LONDON" - According to a report in the British medical journal Lancet, researchers with the U.S. Centers for Disease Control have found a virus strongly associated with Kaposi’s sarcoma in the semen of large numbers of gay men ~vith HI\’, but not in many HIV-positive heterosexual men. The scientists said that 64% of the infected gay men also had the Kaposi’s Sarcoma Associated Herpesvirus (KSHV) in semen samples: of the non-gay men examined, less than 24% were infected with KSHV. The research" ers said their findings explain why a disproportionate number of gay men may Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By & for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. 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The researchers speculated that the weaker HIV-2 may interfere with the more virulent HIV-I straila at-the molecular le~el, blocking the virus’ ability to reproducel While the finding could l]old promise in fighting off HIV-1 in infected individuals, scientists warned that there is still little’known about the detailed interaction between the 2 strains. High HIV Levels Infect Newborns WASHINGTON’, D.C. - According to a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy ofSciences, New York State health department researchers report that fairly high levels of HIV in the blood of women who are pregnant is requi red before the virus can be passed along to their newborns. The scientists found that women with levels of HIV in their bloodstreams at about 50,000 viruses per milliliter of blood had a 75% or ~eater likelihood of passing the vii’us onto their infants. At lower leVds, the chances of the women transmitting the virus to their newborns was significantly lower, the researchers said. The scientists said the finding helps explain why some HIV-positive women ~ve birth to infected infants, while other infected mothers do not. AIDS Drug 3TC Also Appears Effective Against Hepatitis B BOSTON - Two preliminary tests of a newly approved AIDS drug, 3TC (also kamwn as lamivudine or Epivir), published in the New England Journal of Medicine indicate the medicine also seems, to suppress HBV, the hepatitis B virus, in chronic eases. One study, led by Dr. Jules Dienstag of Massachusetts General Hospital, found that after a 12-week course of 3TC, about 20% of chronically infected hepatitis B patients showed no traces of the HBV. Interferon is the only currently approved medication to combat chronic h.epatitis B and has been shown to effective in about a third of those given the drug. But interferon must be taken for a fairly long period ot time and has a nmnber of very unpleasan t side effects, which is not apparently the ease with 3TC. Further studies will now be undertaken to determine long-term effects of the drug in combating hepatitis B, possibly in combination with other drugs. Status of AIDS Patient Given Baboon Marrow Transplant SAN FRANCISCO- Jeff Getty, the AIDS patient who was given baboon bone marrow in December in an effort to rebuildhis failing immune system, experienced some side effects as a result of the chemotherapy and radiation treatanent he underwent in conjunction with the marrow transplant. But Getty’s physician, Dr. Steven Deeks, said the reactions where fairly minor and not a result of the bone marrow injections. 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Accidental Needle Jabs ¯ :. \V with Brit"t’~o r~ C.-based ph~ ¯ .,,, Comrmttee ....... ....."s~o~,s . ¯¢SHINGTON-Cooperating - ,,... tsh and French othoals the l_ S " " for Responsible Med]cifie,’lio~ .ever, has " , - - Centers ~ for Disease Control and Prevention re~. filed a formal complaint with the federal ports that atimited study of 31 health care g0venunent over the experimental bone workers accidentally jabbed with hypomarrow procedure. The public interest dermic needles at work had much lower group charged that such cross-species risk of HIV infection if given AZT. The marrow injections endanger the public CDC reports indicated the health care health by risking the spread of dangerous workers" risk of refection was nearly 80% baboon infections. Susan Getty of lower from taking the drag shortly after \Vatcrford, Conn., the mother 61"the ailing the needle-stick accident than workers man who was with him at the hospital who were not given AZT. during the procednre, said people with U.S. Blood Supply Even Safer advanced AIDS have little to lose ~n unBOSTON" - According to a govenunent dergoing such medi "cal gambles. %\e mttst take greater risks." she said. "It is time to stud) published in the New England Jourstop tiffs horrible, horrible disease." hal of)ledicme, only an infinitesimally small mnount of blo~d do~mted tbr transAIDS Awareness in France fusions in the U.S. is infected with HIP. I~OSTON-- According to the U.S. journal The L.S. Centers for Disease Control & Nature, a snrvcv of what they think about Prevention study estimated that no more l llVand ..\ID~ suggests th~ Frei~:h ,are th,’m 27 pints out of the total 12 nffllion continuing to adjtrst their sexual behavpints donated each year are tainted. Beiors because of the ~pidemic. The report cause blood usedin transfusions is pooled says that condoms arc increasiugly used, from several donors, bowever, health ofparticuhtrlv anion,, those who are single ficials said the chances of receiving conmid under ihe age ~f’30: more people are Uumnated blood are between 1 in 83.000 having fewer casual sexual parmers: ,’rod m~d 1 in 122.000. To reduce these odds the nnmbcr of peat)It who regularly get even further, the Food & Drng Adnmlistested for I IIV fiffccfion continues to ~ow. tration had ordered blood banks in this country to begin additional HIV testing that it ~stimates will reduce the number of tainted donations to no more than 17 per year. Some public health care workers ~luestion whether the added $65 nffllion in )early testing expenses is justified by eliminating just 10 units of infected blood per )ear. AIDS Mortality Among Prisoners CHICAGO - Writing in the American Journal of Public Health, Adansi Amankwaa with the Florida prisons department says that a review of mortality data from 1987-92 in the state’s prisons indicates that AIDS was the main cause of imnate deaths during the~ 5’ year period~ accounting for more thau 50% of all prison deaths in 1992. It indicated that deaths from the disease were increasing compared with other causes in prisons. Turner ,and was permitted to return to work. In a statement given to the EEOC in Aug. 1995, Ttmier testified that he was unsure if he would serve a customer whom he kiiew to have AIDS. According to court docmnents,"he [Turner] is unaware about the trausnfission possibilities of the HIV virtts through casual contact in a food establishment and states that for all he kiiows it c,’m be mmsnfftted though perspiration falling into food. He testifies that he is very "concerned" about this possibility mid’that he would try to favorably resPond: to customer prejudice regarding AIDS. tte states thai the subject of AIDS mid HIV is disgusting mid objectionable mid indicative of bad hygiene. see ADA. page I1 Kellie J. Watts Attorney at law Protect You & Your Partner Wills, Livin.g Wills, Estate Planning, Powers of attorney 493-1959. Tulsa office. Please (’all for appointlnent. Reasonable Rates ¯ The Tulsa Philharmonic : presents ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : COREY CEROVSEK ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ The 23-year old violinist ¯ : will amaze you with his : technique and musicality. ¯" Featuring FI_~ELITY.Hq/V~E HE-aLTH C~-RE; INC. Tulsa Office 486-1174 800-999-3442 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Faganini: Violin Concerto No. 1 in D Major ¯ Hindemit~:"Symphonic Metamorphoses ¯ on Themes by Carl Maria Von Weber" ¯ /3rafims: Symphony No, 4 in E Minor ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Sa~. Jan. 27 ¯ 8 p.m. Tulsa PAC-. " :-~ ~ ~ ¯ ¯.’ C^LL 747- PHIL, FOg’ TICKETS ¯ T U t S A PHILHARMONIC ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ We provide comprehensive home health services 24 hourslday, seven days/week. The range of services include: Skilled nursing services (RN’s, LPN"s) Home health .aides, Physical Therapy Speech Therapy, Occupational Therapy Medical Social Services, In-home psychiatric care Noli~eme(gency transportation, Private duty nursing Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1 51 5 ~outh Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level of confidentiafity and comfort that enhances the therapeutic process. ~ ~’~:::’~nd Companion sitter services. For further information call 743-4117 This list is not all inclusive. Please contact our offices with specific treatment issues. Leah Hunt, MSW Della Blackburn, CADC Judy Seymour-Taylor, CADC Richard Reeder, MS Serving a Diverse Community �B ACK WHITE INC. COMMUNITY CALENDAR SUNDAYS MONDAYS TUESDAYS WEDNESDAYS Agape’ Christian H]V Testing HIV+ Support Group Authority Of The Believer Fellowship TOHR Clinic Bible Study, 7 pm HIV Resource Consortium Worship Service, 10:30 am ¯ Free & anonymous testing 1:30 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa Sheridan Center, Suite H using fingerstick method. 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-I 1623 N. Maplewood 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 ¯ No appointment required. Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 lnfo: 838-1715 : Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Bless the Lord At All Results hours: 7-9 pm Bless The Lord At All Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Info: 742-2927 Times Christian Center Times Christian Center HIV/AIDS Support Group Sunday Schoo!, 9:45 am ......... & ..... Prayer&Bible Study Worship Service, 11 am i_Jambda Bo~vling League .....,Friends &.Family :: 7~:.30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 Shdridan LaSne s ,"HIViAI’DS Support Group Call 583-7815 for info. 8:45 pm : 7 pm, call for location: Community of Hope 3121 S. Sheridan Family Of Faith MCC 749:7898 Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm (United Methodist) : PFLAG Family AIDS ¯ Worship Service, 6 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm Community of Hope 5451-E South Mingo. Support Group Grief Group, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 : 2nd Monday of month, : Call 622-1441 for info. 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 6:30 pin Family of Faith ¯ :.: ~,, ~ ~ . ~o. .... ¯ ¯ ~, Womens Grmef-~roup ’Community of Hope Metro. Comm. Church 4154 S. Harvard ¯ Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Info: 749-4901 siaonsored by (United Methodist) ¯ Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Worship Service, 11 am Community of Hope ¯ 5451-E South Mingo. Bible Stud,,,’, 7 pm 6pm, Butler/Stumpff OTHER GROUPS Info: 622-1441 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Funeral Home Tool Box Technicians, 2103 E. 3rd St. Metro. Comm. Church TNAAPP Info: 585-1800 Leather org., hffo cio The of Greater Tulsa Tulsa Native American Tool Box: 584-1308 ¯ AIDS Prevention Project Worship Service, 10:45ran ¯ T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform: Support group 1623 N. Maplewood ¯ & Leather Seekers Assoc. " for Gay & Bi Native Info: 838-1715 Info: 838-1222 " American Men, 6 pm ¯ at Conununitv of Hope Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay The Banned, OK Gay Band ¯ Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 1703 E. 2nd Practice weekly in OKC ¯ ¯ 582-7225 or 584-4983 6:30 pm at CanterbmT Info: 838-2121 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Co-Dependency Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451rES. Mingo, 622-1441 " " ~ HIV Testing TOHR Clinic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Prayer Time MCC - Greater Tulsa, 7 pm 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838= 1715 Tulsa Family Chorale Wee "kly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 41 54 S. Harvard, 749-’4901 Alternatives Weekly socials, 7 pm See below for schedule. Info: 646-5503 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church ,Mass, 6 pm Garden (Thapcl 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at 11 pm Confidential ~upport for recovering addicts. Co~unmnity of I lope 1703 E. 2nd. lnfo: 585- I NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat of each month hffo: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sttulent Association TJC Southeast Canq)us, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8= 10 pm For info. ~r to vohmtcer: 743-GAYS Out & About With JD! SUNDAY, JANUARY 18 Community of Hope Orientation 2 pro, 1703 E. 2nd Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 21 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 THURSDAY, JANUARY 25, Community of Hope Orientation 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 28 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Grm~ Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing ~oup) Info: 585-1-800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 28 ,Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA, 9 pm Concess|ons, 33rd& Peoria Pageant .. Info: 744-0896 or 838-3701 TUESDAY, JANUARY ,30. Rainbow Business Gui/d, 7 pm Uno Pizzeria,.61st & Memorial Dinner Meeting Info: 665-5174 WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 31 Tulsa Women’s Supper Club, 6:30 pin Full Moon Care, 1525 East 15th Info: 584-2978 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 1 Alternatives. Informational meeting for reactivated social orgamzauon for men and women, also, video of comedian Suzmme Westenhoefer, 7pm Holiday Inn Express, 51st & Harvard, Info: 646-5503 More sequins, but that’s not all that this month’s featured establishinent has to offer. Lola’s is "’truly a fanfilv bar" says Bill (Lola) McCall of this wonderful pla~e TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 6 TMsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Local Police Officers Speak Out, 7 pm Alan Chapman Activity Center University of Tulsa , 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY-8 Alternatives, Bowling at Riverlanes, 7pm 8711S. Lewis . ~ Info: 646-5503 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 11 Community of Hope Orientation 2 p!n, 1703 E. 2nd hffo::585~ 1800 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 15 .Alt~r.natives, Movie Night; 7pm Fox 4 Cinema, 51st & Harvard Info: 646-5503 SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16 Fandly of Faith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness, 9 am - 3 pm 5451-E S. Mingo, hffo: 622-1441 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY22 Alternatives, Dinner, 7pro Golden Corral, 71st & Mingo hlfo: 646-5503 Brian & tJttt of Lola’s thht ~ves a lot to the community. One example they’ve supported Mr. Oklahoma Leather~ Mr. Tulsa Leather and 1st alternate to Mr, Oil Capital. Also, Lola’s pro: rides ahome for TULSA FAMILY CHOIL~LE, which is open to any Gay, Lesbian ¯ or Gay-.friendly persons and m~ets Thurs. at 9:30:~ Bill & Brian are the owners of this cozy establishinent that represents a little bit of Valentine’s Day. Bill & Brian have been to,,tethet for 15 (!) vear~ which they plan to celebrate with a ~umiversarv showand party .on FebruaD’ 16th. Tffey ,opened Lola’s 2years ago. "’At Lola’s you can find whatever liking may be: entertain: ment, games (pool & darts), good friends or jnst a good time." Oh by the way, the following are happenin~s at Lola’s for the coming month: Feb. 16th, Bill & Brians’s Anniversary show & party; Feb. 20th, Birthday celebration for Desdny Ray, Miss Upper Cherry Street, and Feb. 24th, 1st Annual see JD, page 11 0 748-5374 L Spring Art Classes Start February 17 Family Workshops Preschool Youngerart ~ ~ Adult Studios Action Studios Spring Break Studios March 25-29 �not, however, mandate procreative possibility as a requirement for heterosexual marriage certificates, a move that would seem consistant with his stated rationale. Knight goes on to forecast economic doom and collapse if California "’were forced" to recognize the relationships of same-gender couples,including taking on the same responsibilities for each other that hetero-couples expect. However, economic forecasts for Hawaii project that same-sex marriages could add $4 billion. to Hawaii’ s revenues over the next 5 years. Some observers think that Knight" s bill, if enacted, will likely cost California taxpayers millions in legal fees as gay and lesbian citizens challenge the. law. Current law recognizes all mamages performed throughout the United States. The bill would prohibit recogmtion of legal marriages of same-sex couples, regardless of where they are performed. sexual activities, the citizen suggested that he mad the officer go to a private location for consensual sex. After the citizen made the offer, he was arrested for solicitation under ma OKC ordinance. The ACLU defense of the citizen rests on two concerns. First is the 1 st Amendment (free speech) issue. The OKC ordinance appears to make it illegal to make any offer of consenstml sex in OKC. ACLU spokesperson, Michael Canffield noted that this would make offers betweeu heterosexuals, say in a drinking establishmeut, illegal al~o but he/also noted that the OKC police do not appear to be assigning undercover cops to heterosexual bars. The other basis for challenging the arrest is a 1986 decision by the Criminal Court that ruled that the Oklahoma "sodomy" law which makes oral or anal sex a felony crime was unconstitutional. The decision held that a constitutional right to privacy prevented the state or cities from forbidding private, consensual sex acts between adults. The law makes no distinction between heterosexual or homosexual oral or anal sex. However, the ’86 case involved heterosexuals and the court specified that it was not addressing whether homosexual citizens enjoyed the same right to privacy as heterosexual ones. If homosexual citizens have the same right to privacy and the solicited activities are not themselves illegal, then the OKC ordinance can hardly be constitutional. This is, if it" s not illegal to have sex, then it can hardly be illegal to talk about it. In a 3-1 decision, the Court of Criminal Appeals chose not to address whether the state can constitutio~mlly prohibit same gender sex but said this case was only about public solicitations mad rtfled that OKC could prohibit such solicitations. The appeal, according to Hendricksen, who is ACLU-OK president, will ask the US Supreme Court to compel the OK Court of Criminal Appeals to decide if the right to privacy that ~t established for heterosexual citizens ~s also available for homosextml citizens. "’The court [appeals] ducked this issue and we are going to see if we can force them to m~swer tiffs question.’" To help the ACI.U-OK fight tiffs case. donations may be made to 600 NW 23rd St. OKC 731(36. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law be the actions of a neighborhood adolescent but that the theft of their family’s peace of mind is no little thing. The Harrison Kirbys are considering their options to protect themselves and their children from futher harm. Kirby did add that they have been comforted by expression of support from friends around the US with whom they correspond via e-mail. statements by Radical Right leaders, such as CBN’s Pat Robertson and Sen. Jesse Helms. Since the threat of lawsuits by CBN, no television station in any of the target cities of Washington, Tulsa, Houston or Atlanta will air the commercials. Mitzi Henderson, president of PFLa, G’s board of directors, stated that PFLAG is conunitted to "’get our message on the air and compel CBN to stop its harassment and censorship attempts". Locally, the Tulsa chapter of PFLAG is presenting a free film series at All Soul’s U~titarian Church at 7pm, Jan. 23 & 30, mad Feb. 6 & 13. The films, Straight From The Heart. On Being Gay, Queer Son, and Always .\.lb~ Kid, feature Lesbians and Gay men and parents of Lesbians and Gay men dealing with issues from fanfilies to religion to AIDS. PFLAG Tulsa also is continuing a campaign for a siguature advertisement to run in The Tulsa World. The ad "calls for Tulsans to stand against tred, hate speech mad violence" against individtmls based on their sexual orientation mad "’to recoguize the strong link between hate speech, teen suicide and violent physical attacks..." Tulsa Family News reported correctly last month that The Tulsa Worm is on record as having a policy banning the use of the words, Gay or Lesbian in advertising. However, contrary to our report, The World has not changed its policy to allow an exception. According to Bill Hinkle, PFLAG Tulsa co-chair, PFLAG cannot even spell out its name but may be forced to use a circumlocution like, "Parents and Friends of Persons of Differing Sexual Orientation.’" The ad will likely, run later in January. dren they were trying to place. Rep. Benson stated to TFN that he was motivated by the NEA’s resolution to reaffirm what he views as Oklahoma’s "traditional. family values". He said the reason for a resolution instead of a bill was that since a resolution lacks the power of law, the legislators could express their feelings without infringing any constitutional rights which such a law would probably do. Benson claims that he does not want to condeum Lesbians and Gay men for their "choice of lifestyle" & that he expected to get wide support OKC’s Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus has begun a postcard campaign directed at Rep. Benson. In Tulsa, according to one source, PFLAG’s Nancy McDonald is putting together a group of parents mad Tulsa area legislators to meet with Benson. Other activists have begun to ph’m a Family Day at the Capitol, a state-wide lobb3:ing day by Lesbian, Gay and Bi activists, clergy mad business people. For i~ffo, call Green Country Pride at 838-2121 or 583-1248. Speakers & performers include comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer, Col. Grethe Cammermeyer & her partner, Diane Divelbass, & Candace Gingrich April 7 - 14, Olivia’s Womens’ Cruises Call 341.6866 International Tours for more information. Need a gift idea? Gift certificates are available for air travel, cruises & many other travel needs. IGTA member. Know Your Rights! Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury, Criminal :Law, Bankruptcy & Workers Compensation 1-800-742-9468 or.918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan. Leanne Gross Retirement planning Life, health & income insurance, & investment placing. 744-0102 Mention this ad to receive free initial consultation. �Eureka Springs is a wedding by Phil Boler-Schmidt haven. And, it is also a wonderWinter is a special time in ful spot for holy unions. EveryEureka Springs. With the falling thing imaginable is possible, of the Autumn leaves comes a from an extravaganza to a small respite from the thundering ceremony just for the two of hoardes, and locals get a chance you. And what better time than to renew old acquamtmlces, catch this Winter? Resources are availup on family time, and spend able for holy unions at 253-2401. time with cherished friends. Events upcoming in Eureka Each December, we have the Women’s Party. 1995 saw the this Winter include Jacob Adler, Assistant Professor of Philoso25th annual event, and it was phy at the University of Arkanquite a sight to behold. My own sas giving a talk at MCC of the estimate was about 500 women Living Spring oft january, 21 st at in attendance. Each brings some 4 PM The trpi~ will be Jewish type of finger food and a drink to Influence on Jesus’ Teachings. share. There is music and dancJoya Pope will be in town on ing, talk and Sharing. A grand February 3rd, also speaking at time is had by all. This year was MCC of the Living Spring at 7 no exception. And, as usual, a PM. Joya Pope is author of The few of the guys showed up, reWorM According to Michael and spectfully of course, and sang Upcoming Changes: Prophecy Christmas carols to the asand Pragmatism for the Late sembled masses at the ballroom Nineties. Admission is S 12.50 at high atop the Basin Park Hotel. the door, and she also has private Now that Christmas ~s over, channeling sessions available. the really big events are potluck dinners. It is the Ozark way of Winter is the time we sit back and take stock, read all the good getting to "know people, fo~: the books we didn’t have time to get first time, or to renew old friendto during the rush of tourists, ships. Us queer folk do the begin a new study program, and potlucks in style. This is mv2nd Winter in Eureka, and I’m look- ¯ get read~ for theseason wlfich is ing for~vard with anticipation to -~’" only a c~uple of months away. For those of you who are Euthe Season of the Potlucks. This reka locals, you know exactly is the time to get to lmow those ~vhat I ,’un talking about. Those people you have always ~vanted of you who ,are from out of to~vn to know but were too bits5 workwill just riced to visit in order to ing to spend any time with. see why wc call this place ParaAs man5 of you already kimw. case though the court has not seen fit to render judgment to Saladin yet either. Now it will be up to judge &jury to find justice. dise. For more information about Eureka Springs available on the World Wide Web, point your browsers to: http: www.pimps.com~ eureka.html. See you in Eureka! ADA JD cont’dfromp. 8 He compares AIDS and HIV to leprosy....He states that hi s attitude regarding HIV and AIDS has remained unchanged s~nce 1987 when he suspended the plaintiff [Saladin] because he suspected he was HIV positive. In the same manner that he directed plaintiff not to discuss-the AIDS and HIV status of ¯ plaintiff’s partner in casual conversation with customers he states that he would consider asking a white waitress to not discuss or disclosed (sic) that fact that her spouse was black in casual conversation." Steve Norick, one of Paul Saladin’s attorneys, claims the Americans with 13isabilities Act was violated in at least two major ways. The ADA provide relief from discrimination based on acttmlly being handicapped but also to those who may not be handicapped but who are perceived as being handicapped. And it also provides protection to those ~vho are associated with those wh6 are handicapped. Thus far the court has seen sufficient merit in Saladiu et al’s case not to accept the efforts of Tumer’s attornevs to dismiss the cont’dfromp. 9 Miss Rivercity America Pageant. If you missed Concessions celebration of their first anmversary, you should just hang your headin shame! Kirk &Terry and their staff and patrons had a great time and look forward to a grca~ year two. Also the) say, don’t miss Miss Gay Oklalloma t "Sofa co/fling on Jan. 28th and even more to come in March - mark your calendars. I hope that tiffs month and ucxt you find, or cherish more. that someone who brings you joy! BEAVER DAM STORE Fishing Headquarters for N.W. Arkansas Fly Tying * Fly Fishing * Equipment & Classes Open Year ~Round TROUTS - ~R - US Located 1/2 mile N. of Beaver Dam on Hwy 187 Eureka Springs, AR * 501-253-6154 Grocerles * Gas * Ice * Beer * Licenses * Lodging Your lnnReepe~. COTTAGE Lamont Richie and Steve Roberson A Bed dt Breal~asl Inn Individual Cottages - Jacuzzi for Two Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 501/253-8659 O000000000000000000.O. ¯ ¯ ¯ A Friendly Place to Stay-. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ O o ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson. owner ,..a community of friends... ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC of the Living Spring Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 6 PSI ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 17 Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253-9337 ¯ ¯ ¯ < MCCltmg Itealty, Inc. O] "The Land SpedaEsts" 501’253-9682 (days) OR 501-253-8969 (evenings) Offerings include: Bed & Breakfast in~; Victorian Homes, Hotels/Motels, Coi~mercial Properties/Businesses, Quiet Country Estates,-& much more. McClung Realty, Inr; has catered to the diverse G/L/B/TG community in Eureka Springs for over 20 years. Call or write EUREKA SPRINGS "Jim & Brent have opened the ultimate intimate local eatery. A special, eclectic dining experience..." Stop by our house for a taste of local flavor. Dine outside on the patio & porch or in our three beautiful dining rooms. Fine food at an affordable price. Green & Yellow Night FAMILY NIGHT Private Dinner Party, lstThurs, of EachJVIonth @m - Midnight, Dine, Drink ~ Relax Among Friends Featuring Jim & Gwendolyn’s Select Dinner Entrees & Brent’s Superb Desserts "With Family’ In Mind" for a listing brochure. Or better yet, stop in, and we’ll show you around. Gay-owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud We specialize in creative fin,ancing. 20% of all proceeds will go to the support of family causes �by Barry Hensley, Tulsa City-County Library For information regarding HIV/AIDS topics, our Library is an excellent resource. There are books, videos, audio cassettes, government documents and periodical articles full of updated information. Many branch libraries have books and other materials, although the Central Library, at 4th and Denver in downtown Tulsa, has more detailed information. Here are some of the items available through Central Library departments: BUSINESS AND TECHNOLOGY, 4th floor, phone: 596-7988 (Dewey area 616.9792) AIDS and HIV in Perspective (by Barry Schoub) Immune Power: The Comprehensive Healing Pro~am for HIV (b.v Jolm Kaiser) Dictionary of AIDS Related Terminology (by Jeffrey Huber) Rethinking AIDS (by Robert Root-Bernstein) Everything You Need to Know When a Parent Has AIDS (by Barbara Drainlin) AIDS and the Law of Workplace Discrimination (by Jeffrey Mello) (34417301) READERS SERVICES, 2nd floor, phone: 596-7966 (Dewey area 362.1969) People, Sex, HIV and AIDS (by Pierre Andre) Everything You Need to Know About Being HIV Positive (by Amy Shire) I’ll Not Go Quietly (by Mary Fisher) We Are All Living With AIDS (by Earl Pike) Women’s HIV Sourcebook (by Patricia Klosser) Search for an AIDS Vaccine (by Christine Grady) (174.2 G) Recovering From the Loss of a Loved One to AIDS (by K. Dounelly) (155.937) Diary of a Lost Boy (by Harry Kondoleon) (fiction) Labour of Love (by Doug Wilson) (fiction) Such Times (by Christopher Coe) (fiction) Promise of Rest (by Reynolds Price) (fiction) CHILDREN’S, 2nd floor, phone: 596-7971 Magic Johnson (by Martin Schwabacher) AIDS: How it \Vorks in the.~odv (by Lorna Greenberg) Daddy and Me (by Jeanne M6ut~)uss’amy-Ashe) David ttas AIDS (by Doris Sanford) Know About AIDS (by Margaret Hyde) MEDIA CENTER, 1 st floor, phone: 596-7933 Living Proof: HIV and the Pursuit of Happiness (video) Heart of the Matter (video, HIV+ women) HI\" Test: Who Should Take It? What Does it Show? (video) AIDS: \Xqay We Won’t Look (audio cassette) Let’s Talk: C. Everett Koop (audio cassette) AIDS Quilt Songbook (compact disc) There are also various Government Documents available in both the Reference Department and the Business and Technology Department. Please call the Central Library at 596-7977 or any branch library for more information. trial here before being returned to Oregon. Acremant, 27, was taken to flae San Joaquin County Jail for extradition to Oregon ou murder charges in die brntal slayings of Rox,’ume Ellis and Michelle Abdill. Stockton police say they were tipped off by an anonymou~ -caller early on the monli]~g of Dec. 13, who gave them the license number of a rented van Acremant was driving. Alter several hours of patrolling area motels, police say they located the van at a Motel 6 and discovered that Acremant had registered the night before tmder his own name. According to a Stockton police spokesperson, Acremant was not armed when he was arrested, and he surrendered to authorities without incident. Ellis mid Abdill, who operated a property management business together and were domestic partners, were-last seen on Dec. 4. Their bodies, bound, gagged and blindfolded, were discovered three days later in the back of their parked pickup truck. According to Medford authorities, die two women had each been shot twice in the head in what some have described as an "executton-style slaying." Police are continuing to refuse to talk abom the details of the case but did say they had no evidence that Acremant knew that the two women were lesbians. Although Acremant’ s father said his son had told him he had killed the two women in a robbery, police say that money, wallets, jewelry and other valuables belonging to them had not been taken. See related story., this page. STOCKTON, Calif. - The Natioual Gay & Lesbian Task Force has asked the U.S. Justice Department to examine the killing of Roxmme Ellis and Michelle Abdill, lesbian activists in Medford, Ore., because of statements made by Robert Acremant, who is facing charges in the case. The Task Force formally asked Attorney General Janet Reno in a letter to investigate whether the killings were hate crimes because of a variety of statements Acremant has made to television, radio and newspaper reporters during jail interviews. In one interview, Acremant said he had asked the women if they were lesbians and said they had told him they were. "It kind of made me sick to my stomach that she was someone’s grandma," Acremant was quoted as saying in an interview published in the Oregonian shortly after his arrest. He also said in that interview that the fact that they were lesbians "made it easier" to kill them. In a letter to Reno, NGLTF Executive Directory Melinda Paras said, gays and lesbians around the country were "’very much upset and disturb0xl by these murders" and that statements by Acremant "have heightened the alarm and concern" that the killings were, in fact, hate crimes. PICK YOUR CAR... ... PICK YOUR. PAYMENT! "NO MONEY DOWN!" 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Cincinnali. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You �by Jean-Pierre St. Valentine’s Day is soon to be upon us, and everyone is once again faced with the dilemma of selecting that special place for a romantic dinner. Here are the three best restaurants in Tulsa, as well as the three most overrated. Each of the establishments reviewed this month considers itself to offer "fine dining," or what you might call a"white tablecloth" restaurant. Elegant. Dressy. Be forewarned, though, that all of these places fall into the category of "very expensive." Heading up the list is Montrachet, in the Consortium at 3509 South Peoria. This restaurant was formerly on our list of places to avoid, unless you liked schizophrenic Santa Fe French cuisine courtesy of the previous chef/owner. But, last summer, it was taken over by new ownership, management, and chefs from the resorts in Scottsdale, Arizona, and has successfully regained its place on Jean-Pierre’s social list. With the demise lastyear of both Karmichael’ s and the Fifteenth S treet Grill (-gotta pay those taxes!), Montrachet is currently Tnlsa’s best restaurant. The Montrachet style is still basically French In concept, but displays a,.fresh American note to the Continental style: Beef tenderloin, rack of lamb, poussin, fresh salmon, and other gourmet specialties are mainstays of the Montrachetmenu, which changes seasonally. But the highlight of the meal with be the lovely montage of flavors from experiencing all of If you like New England style clam the courses, not just the entree. The onion soup at this place is abso- ¯ chowder, you willlove the soupat Bodean, lutely the best one can get in Oklahoma. A : probably the best Marc-Pierre has had rich beefy and winey stock bathes tender, : outside of the East Coast. Rich and thick, it contains big pieces of fresh dams. Limit caramelized onions, and is a delicious and warming treat. Frizzled onions top the ¯ yourself to a cup though; the bowl is big soup as a garnish, which you may want to ~ enough for a meal by itself. Check the chalkboards to see what came request be left in the kitchen. in on the plane that day. Mussels, cockles, For a special appetizer, try the seared foie gras. It’s presented medium rare, : and oysters from Newfoundland and New stacked between layers of puff pastry, and : Zealand are regularly on the appeuzer grilled apples. The salad of mixed greens ¯ lists, and fishes from across the world will with Stilton cheese, walnuts, & poached : become scrumptious entrees. The fish entrees are alpears is excellent. ways creatively prepared St. Valentine’s Day is Desserts change reguand presented, though larly, and all are exquissoon to be upon sometimes the creativity ite. None are the typical us...Here are th~ three can be a bit excessive. ice cream and hea~y., _. b~st restaurants in ~re recently experienced sticky sauce on abrownie; Tulsa, as well as the a mahi mahi presented ....all. drowned in icanned with mango chumey and ¯ whipped topping, that one three most overrated. a blackened monkfish ¯ usually finds in Tulsa. ¯ Many are truly works of art, and the tastes served with crawfish jambalaya. Never mind, though, since any fish can be pre¯ can be heavenly. Montrachet also has a pared to order, and Jean-Pierre often or¯ full bar and an excellent wine list. They ¯ also offer a number of interesting cordials ders the wonderfully fresh seafood sim¯ and liqueurs. - , ply grilled with alittle lemon butter on the side. Expect your fish to be cooked to an ; Expect.seryice~ to .be.very well trained ¯ expert level of doneness, not undercooked and efficient. All of the waiters are very ¯ knowledgeable about the evening’s menu and not dried out, but just right. ¯ and the preparations of the foods, and will Vvqaile most of the waiters provide the professional service you would expect ¯ be happy to recommend,.the evening’s from a quality restaurant, not all of the ¯ best dishes. staff is properly trained. You may want to Bodean Seafood Restaurant has been request a special waiter, once you find one ¯ the place to go for fresh-off-the-planeyou like. " daily, seafood in Tulsa for years. Located Our third choice amongst the three best ¯ in a nondescript strip shopping center at Tulsa restaurants is actually a private club ¯ 3323 East 51st, just east of Harvard, in downtownTulsa. The Summit, atop the ¯ Bodean is filling the shoes of the late Bank IV Center, serves both luncheon ." Louisianne,Tulsa’slegendary downtown ¯ r.estaurant. You can also buy lovely fresh and dinner to Tulsa’s business and social¯ seafood to prepare at home at Bodean’s ite community. It might be worth your ¯ while to get out those gold-digging shoes adjacent seafood market. and wrangle an invitation to share dinner with aclub member. A qnick review of the club roster reveals several ’Tanfily’" members, so this is not an impossible task. Honorable mention has to go to the food at the Southern Hills Golf & Country Club, but finagling an invitation here is much more challenging. The Summit features expertly traineo staff with charming & sexy European accents. And, this being "The Club" of Tulsa’s elite, the staff will do everything possible to cater to the diners" every whim and pleasure. Of course, such service and top quality food does not come without its cost, but the saving grace is that the Summit doesn’t make you pay at the endof the meal your host just signs h check! This is Tulsa, so beef is heavily featured on the menu. Steaks are excellent, always prime beef, and will be prepared exactly to vour specifications. They also do a lovely Dover sole. Wild game is frequently available. But one of the most memorable entrees here is the fork tender, melt-inyour-mouth, lamb tenderloin. The only thing to avoid is the lasagna, which is bland & insipid, a big disappointment ~ven the management’s Italian origins. Desserts are ~ bit more mundane, but fresh fruit with real whipped crean~ is always available, and the signature dessert of the club is a chocolate crunch cakc. a very rich mousse m a pastry shell. If you are watching your pennies, be careful with your choices of wines ,and liquors. The "Summit stocks all of the ultra-premium liquors and has wines costing 100’s (note the plural) of dollars per botde. And now for the list of Tulsa’s three most overrated "’fine" restaurants, at which see Dining, page 14 1996 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Sunday, January 28, 9 pm, with special guests Maya Douglas Miss Gay USofA 1995 Chelsea Pearl Miss Gay USofA At-Large 1996 Cherry Monroe Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA �Jean-Pierre refuses to eat when he is picking up the tab, and which Jean-Pierre will discourage friends from visiting as well. All of these restaurants suffer from overinflated prices, inconsistent food quality, and mediocre servtce (judged by a standard of what one might expect given the expense). Number Three: Bravo Ristorante. Suffeting through the attempts of the wait stuff to sing arias and show tunes does not make up for their inept service or the mediocrity of the food. R.I.P. Montague" s, the fine dining room when the Adam’s Mark used to be the Westin. Number Two: Atlantic Sea Grill. In probably the most expensive restaurant in Tulsa, the expectation that the food will be cooked to a quality level consistent with the prices is unrequited. Perhaps one would be better off to walk a few doors down to the cheaper and infinitely less stuffy T.G.I. Friday’s. Number One: Warren Duck Club. Aside from being in the tone)- Doubletree Warren Place, how this establishment manages to be touted as one of the finer establishments in Tulsa is totally bevond this reviewer. On several oceasirns, ~eanPierre has been served tough and overcooked duck with dreadfully sweet fruit sauce to mask the (lack of) "flavor of the bird. But most disappointing is thee dessert bar reminiscent of Harvest Buffet. Save your money. Well, dear readers, this is the list of Tulsa’s besl and worst. Now, you can decide where you want to take your special friend on’Febrtmry 14. Any hidden messages there’? Just be sure to call ahead for reservations, Bon appetit! by James Christjohn Hello again! Time for another rousing round of reviews! I have received complaints from some members of the community for using the "snap" system of rating stuff. They claim to have patented it. Go figure; some people are legends in their own minds. At any rate, if anyone out there in readerland feels they have a more amusing rating system, please submit it to Tulsa Family News Rating System contest, POB 4140,Tulsa OK, 74159. I’m not sure what the prizewill be yet, but I’ll come up with something. I am also asking for the women in our readership to Submit ideas of what they’d like to see reviewed. I don’t want anyone left out. On with the reviews, comments, and whatever other stuff I feel might be amusing. If you remember your first crush on another member of the same sex, or have forgotten, I can highly recommend "’Tom & Huck". It is an excellent adaptation of "Tom Sawyer", with excellent performances by the entire cast. And the homoerotic subtext clearly evident in Tom and Huck’s relationship ~s almost underlined in one of several scenes where Tom and Huck are struggling to communicate their feelings towards one another and you just want to yell "Go ahead! Say it! Tell him’I love you!’"Actually,it’s pretty much true to it’s time - I can see Huck living in town, mad Tom marries Beckx’ as a cover, and continues his relationship with Tom. This is definitely a good Valentine" s day flick, very romantic in its way, and the action keeps you on the edge of the seat. Fortunately, I restrained myself from the yelling bit, for which mv mece was grateful (I must credit her f~r this issue’s reviews, during the holiday trip to see fmrtily, she dragged me to all these movies I wouldn’t have ever seen otherwise, and was pleasantly surprised at how good they were. I dedicate this month’s column to her. Otherwise, I’d just be babbling on about anything I could think of and making up reviews of fictional films and stuff.) Another winner is "Jumanji", and it takes you on a doozy of a rollercoaster ride. It’s a fun film, and Robin Williams is always a delight, especially in this flick about ama~cal board game set in a deadly jungle that sucks you in until someone else plays the game to it’s finish and sets you free. The scenes of the jungle and its animals taking over an entire town is amazing. The plot was a bit uneven, but I found it amusing enough overall to make up for that. Inmusical terms, Boy George’s"Cheapness and Beaut)"" deserves more of a listen than it’s been getting. I am not partial to BG or Culture Club, but I was curious enough to give this disc a spin, and found it surprisingly effective. It covers every style from country to heavy Don’t forget our Jan. 28th 2nd Annual Super Bowl Party Free Draw Beer from kickoff to finish, Chili dogs, baked beans & potato salad, $5 cover Big Screen TV How To Do It SALOON Friday, January 19 th Blacklight Party Every Wednesday Night Drag Rodeo Roundup hosted by Courtney Farrell and featuring Keliah LaMonte Coming Sunday, March 17 USofA Preliminary to Miss USofA 834-4234, 1565 S. Sheridan W-Sun. 7-2am metal (mad I HATE heavy metal, but I rather liked it here. Skip the first track, but listen to the rest. He holds no punches, mad does not shy away from telling it like i~ is - no bet love songs here! There is one song on there about AIDS that nearly had me in tears. The lyrics are well-written if not well-spelled and the music is fairly well done. (For me, the first test of a songs is the lyrics. Are they intelligent? Do they have meaning? If they don’t, forget it.) Another "new" discovery, October Project, has a new CD, "Falling Farther In", and it is beautiful. The lyrics are amazingly intelligent, and the music fuses a bit of rock, pop,jazz and Celtic soul. Try it, you’ll like it. The lead singer has a lovely deep alto voice that is like chocolate to listen to. If you don’t like chocolate, insert the dream food of your choice. (Like I said, I don’t want to leave anyone out.) This is a CD to add to your collection, no matter what. And, if we’re all lucky, I’ll be able to review "’Phantom of the Opera" for the next issue. I know a lot of folks out there are dusting off their opera capes and lnasks for this one! Send your ad & payment to POB First 30 words are S10. Each 4140, Tulsa, OK additional word is 25 cents. 74159 with your You may bring additional attention to your ad with: name, complete address, day & Bold Headline - S 1 eve. numbers Ad in capital letters -S1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 (for our records only). 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Frank Mangione, ’46, Was pronounced dead on amval at a local hospital, and Kenneth Stern, a friend who had been with see Murder, page 3 Ge,o. rgia: Fed.eral- Rultng on Marr,age ATL’-XNTA - The U.S. Court of Appeals in Adanta has ordered Georgia Attoruey General Michael Bowers to explain in court why his withdrawal of a 1991 job offer to Robin Shahar after she had a religious marriage ceremony with her lover does not violate Shahar’ s free speech rights under the U.S. Constitution. The ruling could force the .state’s, attorney general into a difficult court fight since it would require him to establish a"compelling governmental interest’: in changing his mind about the job offer. Bowers" office had argued that hiring Shahar after the commitment cerelnonv would complicate enforcement of the state’s antisodolny laws and could be construed as an endorsement of same-sex marriages. The attorney general’s office said it was "’disappointed" in die 3-judge panel’s ruling and would ask for a review, either by ftfll appeals court or the US Supreme Court. Calif. GOP Tries-To" Ban Gay Marriages Thursday, Jannary 4, Califorlfia Assemblymelnber Pete Knight unveiled amendments to his bill, AB 1982, to prevent Califonfia from recogmzing samesex marriages.!egally pedbnned in other states. Knight’s bill isiu reaction to the expected legalization of stone-sex marriages in Hawaii in the next two )’ears. Knight’s bill has the backing of the Assembly Republican caucus, and ,’dread)" has 29 Republican co-sponsors. Kafight’s stated reasoning follows: traditional marriages are for procreation. S,’une-gender couples can’ t "produce offspriug together, [so] they must view marriage as just a reservoir of economic perks." galight did see CA-GOP. page 10 ¯ (concentriccircles) with themessage,"tar- ¯ get practice-fags’: and on the reverse, ¯ vulgar drawings and comments. ¯ Kirby, fonner TOHR president, stated ¯ that this harassment is especially trou- ¯ bling since their address is not pul~lished. ¯ He added that the hate crimes unit of the Tuls.a police depart, did send officers to ¯ investigate, even though under ¯ Oklahoma’s hate crimes law, attacks on the basis of sextml orientation are not cov.ered. Kirby noted that these nughtjust See Target, page 10 message marked on a. car window. Two : and regarding "celebration of a LeSbian days later, tbeyfoundacrudedrawingon° .~ and Gay history month in the public their porch. On one side therewas a target ._: schools". Both are simple resolutions and : therefore would not have the force ot’lass" ¯ ACLU Continues to Challenge Sex Law The American Civil Liberties Union : (ACLU) ofOklahoma recently received a ¯ setback to its challenge of Oklahoma’s ¯ "’sodom)"’ law.. Oklahoma City attoruey, ¯ Mark Hendricksen, with Marquette l_’ni- ¯ versitvprofeSsoroflaw Shirley \Vie_,aand ¯ with assistance from ~he Gay & Lesbian Rights Project of the national’office of the ACLU are preparing a petition to the U~fited States S.up.reme Court for a review of the late 1995decision of the Oklal~olna Court of Criminal Appeals. The circumstances ~f the -case follow! a citizeu was approached by a undercover OKCpolice officer. After extended flirtation by the police officer who emphasized see ACLU. page 10 Project-Open Mind ,Parents, Fanfilies and Friends~of Lesbiaus and Gays, (PFL,~G), both the national and local orgamzations ,are contilming their Project Open Miud cmnpaign to reduce hate langtmge and violence directed toward Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals mad those perceived to be. PFI.=~G National ,’umomiced that the law finn of Hogan & tlartson LI.P will assist PFLAG at no .charge (pro bond) in First Amendment tssues raised by the threat of lawsuits against PFL&G i’r0mthe Christian Broadcasting Network (CBN). Project Open Mind began with television connnercials that featured anti-Gay see PFLAG. page House resolution 1045 declares that ¯"- "’homosexuality, lesbianism or bisexnal- : ity’" should not be taught as "’natural : lifestyles" in public schools, and that Les- ¯ bians, Gay men or Bisexuals should not ] adopt or’be foster parents and would ~. specify that the stone classes of citizens ] should not have "any special status under ¯ the law". : ~ Resolution 1046 states the position of : the House condemmng the National Edu- ~ cation Association’s (NEA) "call for "’the ¯ acceptance and tolerance of homosexual behavior" and for "’celebrations of a Lesbian and Gay History Month to ac"knmvledge the contributions of lesbians, gays ¯ and bi sexuals, all ofwhich is inconsistent with traditional values of this state...’" Traditionall.v le~slation of this sort have been filed by one or another of the OK House’s Radical-Right members, typi- "cally, Bill Graves ofOKC. \\’hat concerns many longtime politi"cal observers is that these have been filed by Democrats. Laurie Phillips, co-chair of the Tulsa County Democrat Party stated that tlfis "’flies in the face of the principles of the Democrat Party, not only the local, state & national platforms but violates the constitution and bylaws of the state Democrat part3". tale observer suggested that the introduction ofthese resolution might be a way for the Democratic leadership to kee~ these issues under their control. The idea is that a milder, non-binding resolution would let legislators take an anti-Gay lX?.sition for their ultra-conservative consutuents at home but would allow those Representatives to avoid a vote on an actnal anti-Gay bill. However,.attoruev Bill Hiulde rio’ted that even as a resolu’- tion. Lesbians, Gay men mid Bisexnals could be affected if agency heads chose to reflect the views of the House in their policies. Dept. of Hunwaa Senices (DHS) officials said at this time, the agency does not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation mid DHS staff knew of some adoptions by Lesbian or Gay citizens. DHS stall" stated their duly cdnceru was with the quality of the hol~e for the chilsee R.1045. page 10 ¯ HIV Bias Lawsuit Names Cafe Owner ¯ The Tulsa Federal Court will soou hear .an HIViAIDS discriminatiou lawsuit ¯ which could be the first in the nallon under the A~nericans with Disabi lilies Act " (ADA). Local"society" "cafe owner, Tcrr3 _’~ ~T~urner; who mvns Capistrano inq "ticw " ¯ ’ Square andThe French Hen in sonth’l;ulsfi, ;.’ iS ~li¢ged to have ~’iolated the federal nou- ¯ discrimination law in what former cur ¯ ployee, Paul Saladin, claims was a wrong..... ¯ ful firing, Saladin had beeu emplo.vcd at ." The French Hen for over 8 years. : Background ¯ Saladin’s spouse, FxtGandin, tested i positive for HIV :’anti.bodies in=1987. In-/ ¯ late 1992, Gaudin becanle ill and was ¯ ..diagnosed with AIDSin early 1 ~93. I)ur- ¯ mg this time, Saladin supported the finn- ¯ ilv and was Gaudin’s prilnary carcgivcr. ¯ A’lso during this time, Saladin becmnc a ¯ voluuteer with an HI\" AIDS hospice and became a certified HI\" AII)S educator. ¯ Both Gaudin’s !llV status, illness and ¯ Saladin’s vohmteer work wcrc known to most French Ileu employees and Saladin’..~ manager, Jemlifer \Vallacc. On occasion. ¯ French Hell CtlSlOlners who kllcw of Saladin’s circumstances, would ask hiul ¯ about his spouse. \\.hilt he appears to have been discreet about the subject. Saladin did not hide his vohmtcer work or his relationship with Gaudin. History of this Case In respouse to ,’m inqtury from l)r. & ; .Mrs. Spohr of Tulsa (according to pnblic doculnents on file with the court), Saladin ¯ did uot mention either HIV or AII)S but ¯ did refer to Gandm’s T-cell count. On ¯ Sept. 17, 1993, the manager at that time, ¯ Je~mifer Wallace instructed Saladin not ¯ to discuss Gaudin’s HIV AIDS condition ¯ while waiting on tables, and further m- Ibnned him that she hoped owner Terry ¯ Turuer did uot find out. According t~ ¯ documents sublnitted to the court, Saladin ¯ agreed but objected and sought guidance see ADA. page 3 Tulsa Prime Timers ¯ Raises $1000 For Community Center ¯ Tulsa Area Prilne Tilners (’I’AVI’) : hosted a holiday party and silent auction ¯ in December. With food prepared with ¯ TAPT’s gourmet group and items donated ¯ by TAPT’s members, the event raised ¯ S 1000 for creation of a Tulsa Couununitv ; Ceuter which lnembers of the group prt;- ¯ seuted to TOHR president, Dcbi Statues. ¯ Prime Tizners, which is ,’dread\" one of ¯ the fastest growing social orgam’zations, ¯ has expanded its membership to include Gay mid Bisexual men over the age of 21. ¯ Formerly, membershipwas 40 and alx)vc. EDITORIAL P. 2 DIRECTORY Po 2 ," NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 ¯ HEALTH BRIEFS P. 6 CALENDAR P. 9 ¯ EUREKA PAGE P. 11 918.583. 1248 P()B 414(/ Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-o 14o TulsaNews~ aol.com Publish er/Editor Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of Tom Neal this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa F:amilv Assistant Editor News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part withot[t James Christjohn written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or Writors/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Phvl Boler- Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise Barry Hensley noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family Pat Morehead News. All correspondence shouid be sent to the address above. Each Staff Photosrapher reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution JD Jamett points. ,~dditional copies are available by calling 583-1248. It’s that time again When we have to deal with politics whether or not we want to do so. On [:cbruary 6th, there.~e city council.primary races which aren" t particularlyinteresting AND tl~ere are ol v charter changes which may not be that interestiug either but which ARE important. The one that I would urge each of us to vote ~n lavor of is a ch,’mgc to the charter which would allow an employee of a business which holds a franchise with thc city to hold public office. The prohibition dates from early days of statehood and no longer has a usc. I tow~\er~ the impact of it remmning could be to force City Councillor Joe \Villiams off the city council. Joc" s district is mostly north Tulsa mad vo{~ all might ask why. if you don’t live in that district. .you should care’? Fi~rst. Joe V,’illian~s has been a good rcprcsentative for his district and seems to this observer to be one of the few of our councillors who has both brains and integrity. Furthermore, -Joc is sensitive to issues of m,.ti-Gay discrimination and is thc oulv member of city govermnent to say he would support a non-discrimination ordinanc~ "that included sexual orientation. Right now, oulv one friend o~r city council can’t do much but it’~ better than no fri~nds.Let’s help Joe stay in:office. Also. Rob Hill is ntiufing for School Board Dist. ;6. Rob brings intelligence, compassion mad experi- ~cnce to this race m~d deserves our support. If you’re ~in hi( district, please:vote for him on Feb." 13. If !youre. not in Iris district mad c,’m spare some cash :for cmnpm_ou expenses, please help. If yOU can’t ¯sparc the c~ish, c0nsidcr giving some ti,fie.: If yon :wm,t to help.please contact.tiffs paper for-inf’. I ~ch 0f ns cam makc a difference, just by voting. :.Plcasc do. - Tom Neal, publisher Taking Heart b\" Pat .\ lorehead To begin thisyear,my companion and I started in the hot mb with a,botfle .of champagne we’ve .carted around since the mid eighties awaiting a "’special" occasion, Due to his career he is usually unavailable at the holidays, so this was the first time in several years that we’ve actually shared the New Year together. \Ve started with a very good dimmer at the Bistro of Brookside, though it was a little noisy and a little too dear from my v~ewpoint. \Ve dined late and then returned home and settled into the hot tub. \Ve enjoyed the relaxing comfort mad then adjourned inside for some more relaxing activ,ties. All in all it was a nice start to a new year. I got to sit in on a rehearsal for "The Lion in \\’inter" being presented by Broken Arrow Community Playhouse; call 258-0077 for details. I want bYShblT{, ~ob~rtb .................... ( Warn#}g : Not [or thehumor-imp)aired!) It h~ long been my contention that ~ough we may shoe orgmfi~ti~ns, a couple of b~s, and the stone colors of the rNnbow, the rdNity is that, wNle gay men ~dlesbi~s ~e of the stone "ilk", they ~e NOT of the stone planet. For ex~ples: Lesbians usuNly m~y slightly"before" the first date. Gay men marry only after e.rtensive interviewing ~nd denial. " Lesbians have sex inunediately ~ter meeting the other woman’s mumNs, cNl&en, relatives, reviewing ~1 her b~ks, and inte~ogatlng her current and ~1 her exes. G~v men have sex immediately a~er just about attythhtg. Sometimes before. though not as much as they used I.esbians use love to get io sex. With g<v men, the vtce is versa. ~en lesbians buy a house, they rehab. And refi~rbish Gay men. ~n the other han~. redecorate. ~sbi~s~easily fix~~ling refrigerator. Gay men can e~ih’ fill it~om the cheese atzd importe~ mushroont sebtton of the dell Lesbians ~e more likely to be vegetal. Gay men will eat almost anything. It took lesbi~s to rediscover Hush ~ppies. It took gay men w redesign tltem in Easter egg colors. Lesbians process. Endlessly. Gay men rationally debateram~caaons andconsbqueitces. Forslightly longer. Lesbi~ ~e politi~ly co~ect to everyone. Gay men are politically correct to everyone [hey knout. I_esbians don’t eat tNngs that used to ha~:e faces. Gay men categorically reject tofit ~ pointless wa~@aper p~te with calories. ~sbians envv M~tha Stew~t’s Co~ecticut house. GaY men’channel her. ~sbi~ fix si~ le~s ~emselves, Gay men call plumbers. Cute ones. ~sbi~s pay intemN pen~ for haph~d eye contact, btlhe rightpar& circumstances, ga~ men’s heads have been known to r~’olve a fidl 3~0" Polifi~ly co~ect or not, lesbi~s look at Play- ~y Mag~ine. Gay men just read the articles. To a lesbi~, cNntz is your p~tner buying yo~ bir~day present at a y~d s~e. To a g~v man, its a fabulous ~rnishing opportuni&, Two lesbi~s ~ght refer to ~ch o~er ~ "my wife." Two gay men wouldn ’t. ~sbi~s ~ve off-road veNcles ~d~ymaps that refold~emselves. Gay Men eventually stop at service station and ~kfor directions. But only if th~ real~7 have to go. ~sbi~s bring ~e chars, ~e newsletter, NI the :to recormnend llii~~ ibroduCtion. I was ¢ery ira: .’ "flyers, theminut~s~ and’the- Coffee pot. Gay men pressed even though I saw it at an early point in the : bring chkckbo~ks.~ rehearsal schedule. But I was particularly taken ¯ Lesbians have potlucks with dishes made from with.the.the Richard.and Phillip scene. The.Direst .." l.en~ils .or chocolate. Or both. Gay. men have intitorhastakentherelati0nshipbetweenthesecharac- ." mat~ litti~ ~ti~tn~rs)~o~, i~vb fv~th:lio~emadepate. To ters and..:,~d~; i!t:!.~!~.~~ .that it.is ahomosexual~ : start~ ’ . " relations~ij’i~)i! i ~i i:::il" ~..i.~i,.... ..... ’.... - z . "~ LesbianS love camp. ~o.do gay men. . Now, I h~g~;trrlid~ihat:the inclinations of the : Lesbians cook out by tliepond. Gay men cook in, two feilo~’ii~i~" N~iiard and,:Phillip are, but : then sit out bythe pooL " " " bet~een them the mana e a ~erv conv~nono Lesbian Cou le ¯ ’" "~Y~ i g .~ " " ~ ." ’ " p s hyphenate their last names. see Play, page 3 ". Gay men arm wrestle each other to the ground and ¯. use the winner’s name. Lesbians go to the gym to get fit. Gay men go to the gym to get theirjeans to fit. ¯ Lesbians think of New Year’s Eve as an oppor- ¯ tunity to get reacquainted with steps 10, 11, and 12. see Vegan, page 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E 15th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time’n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Wild Nights, 2405 E. Adnfiral Wild Fork, Utica Square, 21st & Utica *Interurban, 717 S. 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Saladin worked several more days until Wallace informed Turner about the situation. Saladin was then suspended for 30 days, although he claims he had complied with Wallace’s directive and The French Hen does not dispute this. During the time of the suspension, he retrieved his liquor license from The French Hen so that he could continue to work at temporary jobs. Also, during this time, Saladin attempted to speak with Turner to address ¯ any misunderstanding. On Oct. 15th, Saladin called to arrange to return to work by the 22rid and was told that Turner had directed her to replace Saladin. Up to this time and afterwards, Turner refused to take his calls. According to Saladin’s documents, when once he succeeded in getting Turner on the phone, Turner stated he had nothing to say and hung up. During this time, several other employees left or were terminated and positions became available, but Saladin was not offered his position back. He filed with the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission (OESC), with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), and sought legal representation. In late Nov, Saladin was informed that he’d been denied uuemployment compensation because Turner claimed that Saladin had quit. To the OESC, Wallace on behalf ofTurner claimed that there trad been repeated customer complaints about Saladin’s conduct ,and that Saladin had been suspended for nffsconduct and insubordination and that Saladin had volun: taril y quit and Saladin had threatened to sue. Wallace and Turner repeated these allegations at a telephone hearing on Dec. 16th with the OESC. On Dec. 17th, Turner called Ed Gaudin at his and Saladin’s home asking questions about Gaudin’ s health and physician and allegedly calling Saladin a liar. Gaudin, who was already seriously ill, appears to have been so upset by the conversation that when Saladin came home, he found Gaudin emotionally devastated and vomiting. In Jan. of 1994, after Saladin had obtained legal representation and the EEOC found sufficient reason to direct Turner to respond to Saladin’s complaint, Turner through his attorneys offered Saladin his job back without conditions. Saladin’s attorneys accuse Turner of making the offer in bad faith in order to limit Turner’s liability for back wages while obviously Turner et al claim good faith. However, Saladin expressed a willingness and desire to return to work from Oct. 15 at least until Turner’s call to Gandin in Dec. Turner did not communicate an offer to restore Saladin’s job until January after Turner had retained legal counsel. Since January of 1994, this case has seen a flurry of legalese documents as attorneys from each side cite cases to bolster their side. A trial date has been set several times but delayed. It is expected to go to trial February. Other Information Late in 1987. after Gaudin tested positive for ttIV antibodies, a fact which Saladin shared with several co-workers at The French Hen, Turner directed that Saladin be suspended without pay until Saladin produced a medical repor~ proving that Saladin was HIV negative. After being tested. Saladiu subnffl ted a report to see ADA. page 8 Photos, JD Jamett, 621-5597 Worship Servide 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan 599-7688 LY.KIRBYCertified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many, special tax situations whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Mangione when they met the 2 young men at a local bar, had been beaten. S tern’s condition was not serious however. Police said Bean and Gauthier told them they had attacked Mangione and Stern after one of the men had touched one of the young men while the 4 were taking a drive earlier in the evening. The young men also told officers they belonged to a group called the German Peace Corps, which human rights activists say is a California- based neo-Nazi orgamzation affiliated with the KKK. Several witnesses told authorities that the 2 young men had bragged earlier that they were "going’to get a fag" that night, and later boasted that they had "cut up this fag real bad." Gay men see it as a chance to blow their horns off.. Lesbians truly believe that communes work. Gay men really think they can be RepublicZms. Lesbians turn everyone within hugging range into "family.’" Gay men have a tendency to run around i~i PACs. It is, ~onsidering everything, amazing that we still talk to each other. Fortnnately, we are all smart enongh to have figure out that what is truly unnaturai on tiffs looney-tune plauet is marrying outside your own species. ~ 1996 Shelly Roberts. All rights reserved. Shelly Roberts is a uationally syndicated colun~fist, spe,~er, and author of Roberts’ Rules of Lesbi,’m Living (5 96) Spinsters htk seduction scene xvith a very sensual kiss. The actors deserve credit, and the theater deserves credit for not diluting the homosexual content~ Here is a chance as a co~u~ty forus to snpport a mmustrcana effort w~ch represents us without apology or emb~assment. I was saddened at the passiug of Mike Syn~, former Congressm~ lrom l)i strict Two. I have contributed to and worked on Mike’s beh~f in ~e pasl. tie was a good guy, honest ~d decent, a truc public scrv~ t in ~e very best sense. There is no comping ~e ~u~ities Mike represented with the likes of a Cobum, or I ~gcnt or I~ofe. And I ~z not refemng to political ideolo~es. So for me ’96 is off to an uneven start. But I intend to t~e heart from the bad as well ~ the good. I will t~e heart in tl~ ex~ple of Mike Syn~ ~d not be afrmd to go out ~d fight the good fight. I will t~e he~t in these two unkuown local actors and their associates who ~cn’t ~r~d to tac~e a Bible belt tahoo. Aud I’m going to t~e he~t in the eighteenth ye~ of a loving and sh~ug relationship with my lover compmfion. ~ch gives me a re~ly silly idea. l’d like to he~ from you, the readers, about what gives you he~t, and helps you make your way through the world. Maybe you have so~e key that someone m our commusty ueeds io hear or would m~c them feel less isolated. Send you responses to the editor or E-mail tbcm ~o TulsaNews ~2 aol.com, and hc can l’or~vard them on to me. XXtacn I get a good one 1"11 use it in fl~e cohmm. If yon want thcln to be anonymous, that’s I’iqac. News Briefs News Briefs Recruiting Cops for ’City of Brotherly Love’ PIIILA DELPHIA - The Philadelphia Police Department has begun rccniitmg gay ,and lesbian police officers through public cmpioynieut notices in the city’s t~vo gay newspapers The uew effort is the rcsult of a meeting Police Commissioner Richard Ncal held earlier in December with leaders of the city’s lesbian and gay community. Police Sgt. l:rcd Cottou said the dcpartuaenl made a similar effort m 1989-90 bnt !he department had uo i id’ormarion on how successfill thai recruitment program had been. "l’vc never Imd,’mvonc come up to me and tell m~ their sexual pcrsuas~ou." Cotton said. The dcpm’tmcut doesn’t kccp any data ou the sexual orientation of offleers, hc added Study: The Kids (of Lesbian Moms) Are OK CIlICAGO- A prolonged study of the kids of lesbian morns th,~t tracked the children’s developmcut forsome two decades found that they had no more problems with sexual orientation or other dcvclopmcut~d issues than the kids oflmtcroscxtud parcuts. The study, which was reported in tl~ American ,lournal of Orthopsychiatrv, found one noticeable diffcr0mc between the clfildrcn of Icsbiau morns mad hcteroscxmd parcuts:"th~ offspnng in the lcsbimi f,’unihcs were more uncouflk~rtablc udkiug with other pcoplc about their parents than the kids from the str~fight fanfilic~. Anether signilic~mt di ffcrence bctwccu the two groups was tha! none of the kids from hctcroscxnal fanfilics reported having had any homosexual experience by their mid-20s, wlfilc some 25% of those from lesbian lhmi- News Briefs News .Briefs lies said they had had at least one homosexual relationslfip. Washington State Anti- Gay Measure May Fail SEATTLE - To the relief of rights activists iu the state, Washmgton anti-gay activists concede they probably will not be able to get cuough siguaturcs to put two ballot measures before voters in 1996. Initiative 167 would bar gays and lesbians from adoptiug clfildrcm mid hlitiative 166 would prohibit antibias laws based ou sexual orientation anywhere iu the state. The head of the Citizens ..\.ltimme of \Vaslfiugton conceded shortl\ before Chi’istnms that the group wasn’t going to bc able to get the uceded signatures because the orgmfizatiou had attracted oulv a few huudred members an~J raised only about $5.000 for its siguaturc-gathcring cmnpaign. Cathy Y, lickcls, the head of the state dmpter of the Eagle Forum. ,also told Seattle reporters she didn’t think it was very likely the organization would be abl~ to get thd rcqnircd signatures. Proposed Bill to Aid Partners Measures SAC~\MENTO, C:dif. - C~diforuia Assemblyman \Vallv Kuox (D-West Hc{llywo~xt) wil’l introduce a measure m the stale legislatnre carl\ m 1996 that would attthorizt~ the giant CadifonfiaPublic Emtfloyccs & Rctiremeut System (CAL-PERS) to open its hc~dth iusurancc coverage plans to thc dolncstic partners of muuicipal mid other govcnuncnt agcucy employees the state. Some 80 or so C~dil’orma cities and rcgiomd bomds and commissions carry their employce health ius~rancc thi’ough CAL-PERS. But CAI,- PERS regulations govcmiug the state-operated health mid medi- News Briefs News Briefs News cal insurance plata specifically exclude "conunon law spouses" and "’life partners" as eli~ble employee dependents, preventing the cities, counties and special districts in the CAL-PERS prograna from offering partner benefits to their gay or straight workers even if they want to. Lobbying for Educational Anti-Bias Protections SAN FRANCISCO -The Lavender Youth Recreation & Information Center (LYRIC} started off the New Year with a political bang on Jan. 3 with a caravan of gay, lesbian and bisexual ,voting people tothc state Capitol in Sacrmnento to lobby for proposed anti-discriminatio[~ protections. Tim California Educatiou Code bans discrinfination in the state’s schools mid educational services based ona number of categories, bu! does not include sexual orientation. The lesbigay youth groupspent the first &a.v of the legislature’s new 3ear, Jan. 3, lobbying in support of a measnre introduced by Assemblywoman Sheila Kuehl (DSanta Moifica) that would add sexual orientation to the state education code. So. Dakota Anti- Marriage Battle Again PIERRE, S.D. - South Dakota state Rep. Roger Hunt, whose 1995 le~slation to prohibit samesex marriages in the state failed, has announced plans to introduce the bill again during die current le~slative session. Hunt’s 1995 bill passed overwhehningly in the state’s lower house by a ,’54-13 vote, but became stalled m a cotmnittee in the state Senate where it died. The proposed legislation would make any same-sex marriage’:null and void from the beginning" in the state, and is aimed at making any such marriages that may be legal elsewhere illegal in Soulh Dakota. It would, for example, have the effect of nullifyiug s,’unc-sex nmrriages if Ha,&aii courts v~d idate them as many cxpcci to happeu this year. Political Attacks Against Gays Increasing SAN FRANCISCO A report isstled here by People for the American Way. says attacks alined agaiust the political progress of gays mid lcsbimas in this country increased at ~dl levels. The report, the 3rd of its kiud the organization,has issued, ¯ .counted at least. 180 anti-gay actions m 1995, an increase of 46 such attacks over 1994. The survey counted anti-gay political iuitiatives, legislative measures, executive actions by state governors as well as open at- . tacks by police mid mid public . ~!d. mc..dia figures against gay rights. High. School Gay Group Stirs Controversy SALT LAKE CITY - Utah school mid legal anthoritics, after 2 moaths, have agrced thcre is litflc or nothing that can be -done to preveut a gay- and lcs- ¯biau club being fonncd by a group of studeuts at Salt Lake City’s East High School. A small group of students at the school asked for pennissiou to start the club in October, and their request was passed from the school’s priuciphl to the city’s school superintendent, then up to the state cducatiou office, and finally on to the Utah attorney gcueral’s office. Shortly before Cl~stmas, the attorney geueral’s office notified district officials that both state and federal law prolfibit barring non-curriculum school clubs because of content. But activists with the Gay & 1,csbian Utali 1)cmocrats say the head of the state mali-gay Eagle Forum, GayJe Ruzicka, has already indicated she would immediately begin lobbying the state legislatnrc to keep the club from lbrming. California’s Hate Crimes: 1/5 Are Anti-Gay SACRAMENTO, Calif. - In the firs! of .its kind in California, state Attorney Geueral l)an LI.mgrcl!"s office reix)rts tl!at hate crones m the Golden Stale arc gcucndi y couccutratcd in ci tics - :andnearly one-fifth of them were aimed agaiust gays and lesbians. During the filaal six mouths of 1994, the survey of local law enforcculent agencies found there were 672 bias-based crimes reported in the state. Of these, 487 (72 percent) were based on the race or ethnic origins of the victims, Mille 119 (18 perccut) wcre bccause the victims were lcsbkms or gay men - or were believed to bc by the attackers. Some 6-1- iucidents (orjust m~dcr 10 pcrccut) WCl’C based on the victims" religion. The largest number of reported Irate crimes, 243 of them, were logged in the [x)s Augclcs metropolitan area. The San Frmmisco Bay Area checked in with next largcst couceutratiou, 129 bias-based crimes iu the four-county ,area. Transsexual Identity Bill Proposed in Britain LON1)ON - Among the backbcuch bills being offered in Bri rain’s Ilousc of Connnoiis as private members" legislation is a mcasure that wouldmake it easier for traussexuals in the UK to establish a legal idemity in keeping with their new gender after a sex-change operation. MP Alex Carlilc has proposed a Gcudcr Identity Bill which would allow Miracleglass Neil Ray Owner EXPRESS POOLS & SPAS your pool Ma,, Dr Life (9’18) 743-9994 6310 S. Peoria ~ Tulsa, OK 74136 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Men. - Fri. Open Saturdays thru holidays! 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Gay Credit Card Can’t Use ’Rainbow’ Name TRENTON, N.J:- A federal court in NewJersey has enjoined promoters of a gay-oriented credit card from using the nanm "Rainbow." U.S District Judge Mary Little Parell barred the Rainbow Card Fom~datiou from using that trade name on the credit card it was pro~noting in the New York-New Jersey area in a suit filed by the Rainbow Foundation Inc., a Middletown, N.J., charity that offers medical assistance and other services to children in the state. The Rainbow Card had contracted with Martina Navratilova to act as spokeswomanfor the Visacredit .card that wouldhave used part of ~ts card charges to benefit gay, AIDS & breast cancer agencies. Gay Teacher Allowed to Stay in Michigan School BYRON CENTER, Mich. - Gerry Crane, a 3 l-year-old high school music teacher who told students he was gay alter they asked about anew wedding band he was wearing, will be ,allowed to keep tfis teaching post. The school board in the town, about 16 miles from Grand Rapids, said however that it wonld keep Crane under scrutiny because of his sexual orientauon. In a forreal statement, the trustees said. "The school board firmly believes that homosexuality violates the doufinant moral stan- ¯ nity. Individuals who espouse ¯ homosexuality do not constitute ¯ proper role models as teachers ¯ for students in this district." ¯ Crane had told his students he ¯ was gay after he and his companion had gotten married dur- ¯ ing acommitmentceremouy and .exchanged wedding bands, causing some of his students to ask about the wedding ring. School Board Condemns .... Homosexuality ¯ NEW HAVEN, Ind.- Homo- - sexual activity is inconsistent ¯ with community values and should be discouragedin the East ¯ Allen County (Iudiana) schools, ¯ according to a resolution adopted by the local school board. Ac- ¯ cording to school, district officials, the resolution only reflects the board’s opinion and isn’~ a ¯ policy statement. But the ¯ resolution’s laaaguag.e, someedu- ¯ caters say, certainly sounds like ¯ an official school policy. The ¯ resolution, wlfich was introduced ¯ in response to a statement earlier [ tiffs year by the National Educa¯ tion Association endorsing teacher training aronnd gay and ¯ l~’sbian student issues and rec- ¯ ognizing a national gay mad les¯ bian lfistory mouth, says in part: "’Homosexuality is contrary to the laws of nat;are, it’s xno~:ally ¯ unacceptable to our conununity mad we should leach our chil- ¯ dren as such." ¯ UK Member of Parliment ¯ Loses ’Gay’ Libel Case ¯ LONDON’ - Tory MP David ¯ Ashby wept as he f~aced the pros- " pect offinanci,-d ruinaftcr losing ¯ a prolongcd libel actiou ag,’uust Londou’s Sunday Times wlfich ." had reported that he is homo- ¯ scxnal. Thc jury deliberated 5 ¯ hours belbrc rc[unfing its ver- ¯ dict in favor of the Tlmes in the Northwest Leicestershire since 1983 in the ruling conservative ~ party, now faces the prospect of ~ : having to pay all legal costs that are estimated at about $800,000. Ashby; 55, had sued the Times : overanarticlein the paperwhich said he had shared a bed with a ¯ man during a holiday in Gee in ." 1993, that he had misled his wife ¯ and constituents abouthis sexual ¯ orientation, and that he had lied :..about. h.awn,g a relat~oaship with a32-year-old Irish physician, Dr. Ciar~i Kilduff. The ~iewspaper admitted during the libel trial that its report had contained at least one factual error, but mainrained the accuracy of its article, wlfich it maintained was justified to lfiglflight what it cousiders Ashby’s hypocrisy in advocating heterosexual f~nilv values while leading what the’papcr called a "double life." Both Ashby’s wife and his sister testified against the Tory MP duriug the 4-week trial. It is likely that Ashby may face bm"akruptc’y and the loss of his seat in the House of Conunons as a result. Gay Marine to Fight Discharge DAVENPORT. Iowa - Corporal Kevin Blaesing says he will fight efforts by the .MarZiue Corps to discharge him because hc is gay. Blaesing, who has bccn umned "’Marine of the Month" mad"M,-mne of the Qtuarter.’" was denied pernfission to reeniist iu 1993 because of remarks he lind made about homosexuality to a USMC psychologist. Bu! earl\ in 1995 hejoined a Marine Corp’s Reserve umt in South Carolina without auy difficulties m~d later spoke at a gay pride even! there. Now thc Mariucs have bcgun discharge proceedings against lmn mad Blaeslug says he will fight the discharge "~1 the way Two Lutheran Churches Expelled. SAN FRANCISCO-St. Francis Lutheran Church and the First United Lutheran Church here officially became ex-members of the 5.3-million member Evangelical Lutheran Church of America at the end of 1995 for ordaining 2 lesbians and a gay man as ministers in defiance of the national church’s prohibi- ’tiofis. The 2 churches were suspended by the ELCA in 1990 and given until the end of 1995 to rescind the ordinations of the Revs. Ruth Frost, Phyllis Zillhart and JeffJohnson, or be officially expelled from the national church group. A spokesperson forSt. Francis Lutheran Church said not one member of the congregation had left since the controversy started more than 5 .,,’ears ago. But ironi- c¯ally one St. Francis Lutheran member who attended his last service at the church (at least officially) on Sunday, Dec. 31, was Bishop Robert Mattheis, the presiding bishop of EIX2A’s Sierra Pacific Synod of some 220 con~egations in Northern Califontia and Nevada. A long-time member of St. Francis, Bishop Mattheis now must officially leave the church’s con~egatio~: Calififornia City OKs Partners Registry PALO ALTO, Calif. - OutNow, the San Jose, Calif., gay newspaper, reports that Pale Alto’s city council has approved by a 6-] vote a domestic partners registration. The re~stranon carries no direct benefits and requires a fee to the city clerk’s office. The only vote agmnst the proposM crone from Dick Rosenbamn. who objected that the partuers" registry ,also allowed oppositesaid he believed the partncrs" registranon should be .just for gays and lesbians. Marriage Commission Issues Final Report IIONOI.UIJ.~- A llawali statc comnfissiou has approved its finN report of rccoum~cudations on a 5-2 vote. calling on the legislature to a~cpt the rcalil v of Sallle-SeX lnarriag courts. Few acnvists believe the legislature will t;~c the advice of the commissiou,appointcd b~ Gov. Bcnjmnin Cayctano, b~t the report’s rccounncndations add flu ther fuel to the legM bat ~ound the case. The legislature l~t ye~ adopted a law prohibitlng stone-sex m~agc, although =t rcm~us unclc~ whether thai law itself~m bc considered coustitut~ omd. Chairman Thomas (;ill, former mcmbcr of Cougrcss and out-tune lieut, govcruor, said the state had f~lcd to prove ~c in courl and had relied the legislature to block tauntsex m~agcs. "q’hc opposluOU ~ft.come up with a compelling state lntcFcsI other th~ul I ~x’i~cus 18," he said, rcfcmug to an Old Tcsumacnt vcrsc that says. ""l’hou shalt not lic with mankind as with womankind "" Sparks Fly in O.S. 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Cytomegalovims (CMV) retinitis hits up to 40% of all people with AIDS and the Chiron Corp. "Vitrasert’" implant would deliver the medicine ganciclovir in time-released doses directly in the eye after being \mplanted, making it much more effective. the FD A advisory panel said. The full FDA must now decide whether to accept the panel’s recommendation or not. USC to House AIDS Archives LOS ANGELES - The University of Southern California will become one of the first sites in the country with an archive documenting the earl) years of the battle against AIDS. Los Angeles city officials are granting the university a total of $50,000 for the project alor~g with thousands of original works com~ected with the earliest veers of the epidemic. The AIDS archi~:e will be housed in~,the university library’s special collections and will include "city documents, materials from local actiViSt groups, and papers from Drs. Michael Gottlieb and Joel Weismal who published the first cases of what later came to be known as AIDS. 30% of India’s Blood Infected NEW DELHI - According to a stud)’ by India’s National AIDS Control Organization, nearly 30% of the blood provided by the country’s blood banks is tainted with infectious diseases, including HIV, malaria, hepatitis and others. The government agency responsible for the national effort to fight the epidemic in India said tinrdiable screening procedures risk exposing patients receiving blood and blood products to one or the other illnesses. The Indian Red Cross Society said that part of the problem stems from chronic shortages of blood in the country with the result that commercial blood banks often rely on poorer professional donors 9iho sui~pl~ement their incomes by giving blood. Such paid donors, the society says, are often in higher-risk groups for various infectious diseases. The National AIDS Control Organization now estimates that in less than 5 years some 5 million Indians will be infected with HI\" with 1 million fullblown cases of AIDS in the country. KS Linked Virus Found in Semen of HIV+ Gay Men LONDON" - According to a report in the British medical journal Lancet, researchers with the U.S. Centers for Disease Control have found a virus strongly associated with Kaposi’s sarcoma in the semen of large numbers of gay men ~vith HI\’, but not in many HIV-positive heterosexual men. The scientists said that 64% of the infected gay men also had the Kaposi’s Sarcoma Associated Herpesvirus (KSHV) in semen samples: of the non-gay men examined, less than 24% were infected with KSHV. The research- " ers said their findings explain why a disproportionate number of gay men may contract the cancer ,and suggests that KSHV may be sexually transmitted~ The CDC scientists say further research is called for to try to detemfine if KSHV is latent and then triggered by an HIV infection. Milder Strain of Virus Inhibits HIV NEWYORK-According to a report in the Journal of Molecular Medicine; researchers at the Mount Sinai Medical Centerhave identified aless vinflent strain of HIV that appears to slow down reproduction of the more connnon and damaging s train of the virus. The researchers speculated that the weaker HIV-2 may interfere with the more virulent HIV-I straila at-the molecular le~el, blocking the virus’ ability to reproducel While the finding could l]old promise in fighting off HIV-1 in infected individuals, scientists warned that there is still little’known about the detailed interaction between the 2 strains. High HIV Levels Infect Newborns WASHINGTON’, D.C. - According to a study published in the Proceedings ofthe NationalAcademy ofSciences,New York State health department researchers report that fairly high levels of HIV in the blood ofwomen who are pregnant is requi red before the virus can be passed along to their newborns. The scientists found that women with levels of HIV in their bloodstreams at about 50,000 viruses per milliliter of blood had a 75% or ~eater likelihood of passing the vii’us onto their infants. At lower leVds, the chances of the womentransmitting the virus to their newborns was significantly lower, the researchers said. The scientists said the finding helps explain why some HIV-positive women~ve birth to infected infants, while other infected mothers do not. AIDS Drug 3TC Also Appears Effective Against Hepatitis B BOSTON - Two preliminary tests of a newly approved AIDS drug, 3TC (also kamwn as lamivudine or Epivir), published in the New England Journal of Medicine indicate the medicine also seems, to suppress HBV, the hepatitis B virus, in chronic eases. One study, led by Dr. Jules Dienstag of Massachusetts General Hospital, found that after a 12-week course of 3TC, about 20% of chronically infected hepatitis B patients showed no traces of the HBV. Interferon is the only currently approved medication to combat chronic h.epatitis B and has been shown to effective in about a third of those given the drug. But interferon must be taken for a fairly long period ot time and has a nmnber of very unpleasan t side effects, which is not apparently the ease with 3TC. Further studies will now be undertaken to determine long-term effects of the drug in combating hepatitis B, possibly in combination with other drugs. Status of AIDS Patient Given Baboon Marrow Transplant SAN FRANCISCO-JeffGetty, the AIDS patient who was given baboon bone marrow in December in an effort to rebuildhis failing immune system, experienced some side effects as a result of the chemotherapy and radiation treatanent he underwent in conjunction with the marrow transplant. But Getty’s physician, Dr. Steven Deeks, said the reactions where fairly minor and not a result of the bone marrow injections. Getty’s physicians had said the bone marrow transplant might either bolster the man’s rapidly failing immune see Health Briefs, page 8 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By & for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings: 7-8:30 pm for testing, 7-9 pm for results¯ Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for-Human Rights 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. 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Accidental Needle Jabs "t’~o r~ ph~ ¯ .,,, - ¯ .......C.-based ....."s~o~,s Comrmttee :. \.V¯¢SHIN- GTO-N,-,C...ooperatingwith Britfor Responsible Med]cifie,’lio~ .ever, has tsh and Frenc"h othoa" ls , the l_ -S - C~enters" filed a formal complaint with the federal for Disease Control and Prevention re~. g0venunent over the experimental bone marrow procedure. The public interest group charged that such cross-species marrow injections endanger the public health by risking the spread of dangerous baboon infections. Susan Getty of \Vatcrford, Conn., the mother 61"the ailing man who was with him at the hospital during the procednre, said people with advanced AIDS have little to lose ~n undergoing such medi"cal gambles. %\emttst take greater risks." she said. "It is time to stop tiffs horrible, horrible disease." AIDS Awareness in France I~OSTON-- According to the U.S. journal Nature, a snrvcv of what they think about l llVand ..\ID~ suggests th~ Frei~:h ,are continuing to adjtrst their sexual behaviors because of the ~pidemic. The report says that condoms arc increasiugly used, particuhtrlv anion,, those who are single mid under ihe age ~f’30: more people are having fewer casual sexual parmers: ,’rod the nnmbcr of peat)It who regularly get tested for I IIV fiffccfion continues to ~ow. ports that atimited study of 31 health care workers accidentally jabbed with hypodermic needles at work had much lower risk of HIV infection if given AZT. The CDC reports indicated the health care workers" risk of refection was nearly 80% lower from taking the drag shortly after the needle-stick accident than workers who were not given AZT. U.S. Blood Supply Even Safer BOSTON" - According to a govenunent stud) published in the New EnglandJourhal of)ledicme, only an infinitesimally small mnount of blo~d do~mted tbr transfusions in the U.S. is infected with HIP. The L.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention study estimated that no more th,’m 27 pints out of the total 12 nffllion pints donated each year are tainted. Because blood usedin transfusions is pooled from several donors, bowever, health officials said the chances of receiving con- Uumnated blood are between 1 in 83.000 m~d 1 in 122.000. To reduce these odds even further, the Food & Drng Adnmlis- FI_~ELITY.Hq/V~E HE-aLTH C~-RE; INC. Tulsa Office 486-1174 800-999-3442 We provide comprehensive home health services 24 hourslday, seven days/week. 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He testifies that he is very "concerned" about this possibility mid’that he would try to favorably resPond: to customer prejudice regarding AIDS. tte states thai the subject of AIDS mid HIV is disgusting mid objectionable mid indicative of bad hygiene. see ADA. page I1 Kellie J. Watts Attorney at law Protect You & Your Partner Wills, Livin.g Wills, Estate Planning, Powers of attorney 493-1959. Tulsa office. Please (’all for appointlnent. Reasonable Rates ¯ The Tulsa Philharmonic : presents ¯: COREY CEROVSEK ¯¯ The 23-year old violinist : will amaze you with his : technique and musicality. ¯" Featuring ¯ Faganini: Violin Concerto No. 1 in D Major ¯ Hindemit~:"Symphonic Metamorphoses ¯ on Themes by Carl Maria Von Weber" ¯ /3rafims: Symphony No, 4 in E Minor ¯ ¯ Sa~. Jan. 27 ¯¯ 8 p.m. Tulsa PAC-. 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Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45ran 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at CanterbmT 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 MONDAYS H]V Testing TOHR Clinic ¯ Free & anonymous testing using fingerstick method. ¯ No appointment required. : Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm Results hours: 7-9 pm Info: 742-2927 TUESDAYS HIV+ Support Group HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-I Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HIV/AIDS Support Group WEDNESDAYS Authority OfThe Believer Bible Study, 7 pm MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maplewood lnfo: 838-1715 Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Co-Dependency Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC i_Jambda Bo~vling League Shdridan LaSnes 8:45 pm 3121 S. Sheridan PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Monday of month, 6:30 pin 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 OTHER GROUPS Tool Box Technicians, Leather org., hffo cio The Tool Box: 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform: & Leather Seekers Assoc. " Info: 838-1222 " The Banned, OK Gay Band Practice weekly in OKC ¯ Info: 838-2121 ,"HIViAI’DS Support Group : 7 pm, call for location: : 749:7898 ¯ Community of Hope : Grief Group, 6 pm : 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 ¯ :.: ~,, ~ ~ . ~o. .... ¯ ~, Womens Grmef-~roup siaonsored by Community of Hope 6pm, Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Info: 585-1800 .........& ..... Prayer&Bible Study 5451rES. Mingo, 622-1441 .....,Friends &.Family :: 7~:.30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth " " ~ Call 583-7815 for info. HIV Testing Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. ¯ ¯ ’Community of Hope (United Methodist) ¯ Service for Peace, 6:30 pm ¯ Bible Stud,,,’, 7 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 TNAAPP ¯ Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project ¯ Support group ¯ for Gay & Bi Native ¯ American Men, 6 pm at Conununitv of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd ¯ 582-7225 or 584-4983 TOHR Clinic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Prayer Time MCC - Greater Tulsa, 7 pm 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838= 1715 Tulsa Family Chorale Wee"kly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 41 54 S. Harvard, 749-’4901 Alternatives Weekly socials, 7 pm See below for schedule. Info: 646-5503 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church ,Mass, 6 pm Garden (Thapcl 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at 11 pm Confidential ~upport for recovering addicts. Co~unmnity of I lope 1703 E. 2nd. lnfo: 585- I NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat of each month hffo: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Sttulent Association TJC Southeast Canq)us, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8= 10 pm For info. ~r to vohmtcer: 743-GAYS SUNDAY, JANUARY 18 Community ofHope Orientation 2 pro, 1703 E. 2nd Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 21 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Group Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing group) Info: 585-1800 THURSDAY, JANUARY 25, Community ofHope Orientation 6:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 28 Faith & Struggle Dialogue Grm~ Community of Hope United Methodist 4:30 pm, 1703 E. 2nd (ongoing ~oup) Info: 585-1-800 SUNDAY, JANUARY 28 ,Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA, 9 pm Concess|ons, 33rd& Peoria Pageant .. Info: 744-0896 or 838-3701 TUESDAY, JANUARY ,30. Rainbow Business Gui/d, 7 pm Uno Pizzeria,.61st & Memorial Dinner Meeting Info: 665-5174 WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 31 Tulsa Women’s Supper Club, 6:30 pin Full Moon Care, 1525 East 15th Info: 584-2978 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 1 Alternatives. Informational meeting for reactivated social orgamzauon for men and women, also, video of comedian Suzmme Westenhoefer, 7pm Holiday Inn Express, 51st & Harvard, Info: 646-5503 TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 6 TMsa Oklahomansfor Human Rights Local Police Officers Speak Out, 7 pm Alan Chapman Activity Center University of Tulsa , 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY-8 Alternatives, Bowling at Riverlanes, 7pm 8711S. Lewis .. ~ Info: 646-5503 SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 11 Community ofHope Orientation 2 p!n, 1703 E. 2nd hffo::585~ 1800 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 15 .Alt~r.natives, Movie Night; 7pm Fox 4 Cinema, 51st & Harvard Info: 646-5503 SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16 Fandly ofFaith MCC Reclaim & Recovery Workshop: Forgiveness, 9 am - 3 pm 5451-E S. Mingo, hffo: 622-1441 THURSDAY, FEBRUARY22 Alternatives, Dinner, 7pro Golden Corral, 71st & Mingo hlfo: 646-5503 Out & About With JD! More sequins, but that’s not all that this month’s featured establishinent has to offer. Lola’s is "’truly a fanfilv bar" says Bill (Lola) McCall of this wonderful pla~e Brian & tJttt ofLola’s thht ~ves a lot to the community. One example they’ve supported Mr. Oklahoma Leather~ Mr. Tulsa Leather and 1st alternate to Mr, Oil Capital. Also, Lola’s pro: rides ahome forTULSA FAMILY CHOIL~ LE, which is opento any Gay, Lesbian ¯ or Gay-.friendly persons and m~ets Thurs. at 9:30:~ Bill & Brian are the owners of this cozy establishinent that represents a little bit of Valentine’s Day. Bill & Brian have been to,,tethet for 15 (!) vear~ which they plan to celebrate with a ~umiversarv showand party .on FebruaD’ 16th. Tffey ,opened Lola’s 2years ago. "’At Lola’s you can find whatever liking may be: entertain: ment, games (pool & darts), good friends or jnst a good time." Oh by the way, the following are happenin~ s at Lola’s for the coming month: Feb. 16th, Bill & Brians’s Anniversary show & party; Feb. 20th, Birthday celebration for Desdny Ray, Miss Upper Cherry Street, and Feb. 24th, 1st Annual see JD, page 11 0 748-5374 L Spring Art Classes Start February 17 Family Workshops YPoreusncgheoroalrt ~ ~Adult Studios Action Studios Spring Break Studios March 25-29 not, however, mandate procreative possibility as a requirement for heterosexual marriage certificates, a move that would seem consistant with his stated rationale. Knight goes on to forecast economic doom and collapse if California "’were forced" to recognize the relationships of same-gender couples,including taking on the same responsibilities for each other thathetero-couples expect. However, economic forecasts for Hawaii project that same-sex marriages could add $4 billion. to Hawaii’ s revenues over the next 5 years. Some observers think that Knight" s bill, if enacted, will likely cost California taxpayers millions in legal fees as gay and lesbian citizens challenge the. law. Current law recognizes all mamages performed throughout the United States. The bill would prohibit recogmtion of legal marriages of same-sex couples, regardless of where they are performed. sexual activities, the citizen suggested that he mad the officer go to a private location for consensual sex. After the citizen made the offer, he was arrested for solicitation under ma OKC ordinance. The ACLU defense of the citizen rests on two concerns. First is the 1 st Amendment (free speech) issue. The OKC ordinance appears to make it illegal to make any offer of consenstml sex in OKC. ACLU spokesperson, Michael Canffield noted that this would make offers betweeu heterosexuals, say in a drinking establishmeut, illegal al~o but he/also noted that the OKC police do not appear to be assigning undercover cops to heterosexual bars. The other basis for challenging the arrest is a 1986 decision by the Criminal Court that ruled that the Oklahoma "sodomy" law which makes oral or anal sex a felony crime was unconstitutional. The decision held that a constitutional right to privacy prevented the state or cities from forbidding private, consensual sex acts between adults. The law makes no distinction between heterosexual or homosexual oral or anal sex. However, the ’86 case involved heterosexuals and the court specified that it was not addressing whether homosexual citizens enjoyed the same right to privacy as heterosexual ones. If homosexual citizens have the same right to privacy and the solicited activities are not themselves illegal, then the OKC ordinance can hardly be constitutional. This is, if it" s not illegal to have sex, then it can hardly be illegal to talk about it. In a 3-1 decision, the Court of Criminal Appeals chose not to address whether the state can constitutio~mlly prohibit same gender sex but said this case was only about public solicitations mad rtfled that OKC could prohibit such solicitations. The appeal, according to Hendricksen, who is ACLU-OK president, will ask the US Supreme Court to compel the OK Court of Criminal Appeals to decide if the right to privacy that ~t established for heterosexual citizens ~s also available for homosextml citizens. "’The court [appeals] ducked this issue and we are going to see if we can force them to m~swer tiffs question.’" To help the ACI.U-OK fight tiffs case. donations may be made to 600 NW 23rd St. OKC 731(36. be the actions of a neighborhood adolescent but that the theft of their family’s peace of mind is no little thing. The Harrison Kirbys are considering their options to protect themselves and their children from futher harm. Kirby did add that they have been comforted by expression of support from friends around the US with whom they correspond via e-mail. statements by Radical Right leaders, such as CBN’s Pat Robertson and Sen. Jesse Helms. Since the threat of lawsuits by CBN, no television station in any of the target cities of Washington, Tulsa, Houston or Atlanta will air the commercials. Mitzi Henderson, president of PFLa,G’s board of directors, stated that PFLAG is conunitted to "’get our message on the air and compel CBN to stop its harassment and censorship attempts". Locally, the Tulsa chapter of PFLAG is presenting a free film series at All Soul’s U~titarian Church at 7pm, Jan. 23 & 30, mad Feb. 6 & 13. The films, Straight From The Heart. On Being Gay, Queer Son, and Always .\.lb~ Kid, feature Lesbians and Gay men and parents of Lesbians and Gay men dealing with issues from fanfilies to religion to AIDS. PFLAG Tulsa also is continuing a campaign for a siguature advertisement to run in The Tulsa World. The ad "calls for Tulsans to stand against tred, hate speech mad violence" against individtmls based on their sexual orientation mad "’to recoguize the strong link between hate speech, teen suicide and violent physical attacks..." Tulsa Family News reported correctly last month that The Tulsa Worm is on record as having a policy banning the use of the words, Gay or Lesbian in advertising. However, contrary to our report, The World has not changed its policy to allow an exception. According to Bill Hinkle, PFLAG Tulsa co-chair, PFLAG cannot even spell out its name but may be forced to use a circumlocution like, "Parents and Friends of Persons of Differing Sexual Orientation.’" The ad will likely, run later in January. dren they were trying to place. Rep. Benson stated to TFN that he was motivated by the NEA’s resolution to reaffirm what he views as Oklahoma’s "traditional. family values". He said the reason for a resolution instead of a bill was that since a resolution lacks the power of law, the legislators could express their feelings without infringing any constitutional rights which such a law would probably do. Benson claims that he does not want to condeum Lesbians and Gay men for their "choice of lifestyle" & that he expected to get wide support OKC’s Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus has begun a postcard campaign directed at Rep. Benson. In Tulsa, according to one source, PFLAG’s Nancy McDonald is putting together a group of parents mad Tulsa area legislators to meet with Benson. Other activists have begun to ph’m a Family Day at the Capitol, a state-wide lobb3:ing day by Lesbian, Gay and Bi activists, clergy mad business people. For i~ffo, call Green Country Pride at 838-2121 or 583-1248. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law Know Your Rights! Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury, Criminal :Law, Bankruptcy & Workers Compensation 1-800-742-9468 or.918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. Speakers &performers include comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer, Col. Grethe Cammermeyer & her partner, Diane Divelbass, & Candace Gingrich April 7 - 14, Olivia’s Womens’ Cruises Call 341.6866 International Tours for more information. Need a gift idea? Gift certificates are availablefor air travel, cruises & many other travel needs. IGTA member. People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan. Leanne Gross Retirement planning Life, health & income insurance, & investment placing. 744-0102 Mention this ad to receive free initial consultation. by Phil Boler-Schmidt Winter is a special time in Eureka Springs. With the falling of the Autumn leaves comes a respite from the thundering hoardes, and locals get a chance to renew old acquamtmlces, catch up on family time, and spend time with cherished friends. Each December, we have the Women’s Party. 1995 saw the 25th annual event, and it was quite a sight to behold. My own estimate was about 500 women in attendance. Each brings some type of finger food and a drink to share. There is music and dancing, talk and Sharing. A grand time is had by all. This year was no exception. And, as usual, a few of the guys showed up, respectfully of course, and sang Christmas carols to the assembled masses at the ballroom high atop the Basin Park Hotel. Now that Christmas ~s over, the really big events are potluck dinners. It is the Ozark way of getting to "know people, fo~: the first time, or to renew old friendships. Us queer folk do the potlucks in style. This is mv2nd Winter in Eureka, and I’m looking for~vard with anticipation to the Season of the Potlucks. This is the time to get to lmow those people you have always ~vanted to know but were too bits5 working to spend any time with. As man5 of you already kimw. Eureka Springs is a wedding haven. And, it is also a wonderful spot for holy unions. Everything imaginable is possible, from an extravaganza to a small ceremony just for the two of you. And what better time than this Winter? Resources are available for holy unions at 253-2401. Events upcoming in Eureka this Winter include Jacob Adler, Assistant Professor of Philosophy at the University of Arkansas giving a talk at MCC of the Living Spring oftjanuary, 21 st at 4 PM The trpi~ will be Jewish Influence on Jesus’ Teachings. Joya Pope will be in town on February 3rd, also speaking at MCC of the Living Spring at 7 PM. Joya Pope is author of The WorMAccording to Michael and Upcoming Changes: Prophecy and Pragmatism for the Late Nineties. Admission is S 12.50 at the door, and she also has private channeling sessions available. Winter is the time we sit back and take stock, read all the good books we didn’t have time to get to during the rush of tourists, begin a new study program, and ¯ get read~ for theseason wlfich is -~’" only a c~uple of months away. For those of you who are Eureka locals, you know exactly ~vhat I ,’un talking about. Those of you who ,are from out of to~vn will just riced to visit in order to see why wc call this place Paradise. For more information about Eureka Springs available on the World Wide Web, point your browsers to: http: www.pimps.com~ eureka.html. See you in Eureka! ADA cont’dfromp. 8 He compares AIDS and HIV to leprosy....He states that hi s attitude regarding HIV and AIDS has remained unchanged s~nce 1987 when he suspended the plaintiff [Saladin] because he suspected he was HIV positive. In the same manner that he directed plaintiff not to discuss-the AIDS and HIV status of ¯ plaintiff’s partner in casual conversation with customers he states that he would consider asking a white waitress to not discuss or disclosed (sic) that fact that her spouse was black in casual conversation." Steve Norick, one of Paul Saladin’s attorneys, claims the Americans with 13isabilities Act was violated in at least two major ways. The ADA provide relief from discrimination based on acttmlly being handicapped but also to those who may not be handicapped but who are perceived as being handicapped. And it also provides protection to those ~vho are associated with those wh6 are handicapped. Thus far the court has seen sufficient merit in Saladiu et al’s case not to accept the efforts of Tumer’s attornevs to dismiss the case though the court has not seen fit to render judgment to Saladin yet either. Now it will be up tojudge &jury to findjustice. JD cont’dfromp. 9 Miss Rivercity America Pageant. If you missed Concessions celebration of their first anmversary, you should just hang your headin shame! Kirk &Terry and their staffand patrons had a great time and look forward to a grca~ year two. Also the) say, don’t miss Miss Gay Oklalloma t "Sofa co/fling on Jan. 28th and even more to come in March - mark your calendars. I hope that tiffs month and ucxt you find, or cherish more. that someone who brings you joy! BEAVER DAM STORE Fishing Headquarters for N.W. Arkansas Fly Tying * Fly Fishing * Equipment & Classes Open Year ~Round TROUTS - ~R - US Located 1/2 mile N. of Beaver Dam on Hwy 187 Eureka Springs, AR * 501-253-6154 Grocerles * Gas * Ice * Beer * Licenses * Lodging COTTAGE Your lnnReepe~. Lamont Richie and Steve Roberson A Bed dt Breal~asl Inn Individual Cottages - Jacuzzi for Two Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 501/253-8659 O000000000000000000.O. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ o ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ A Friendly Place to Stay-. KING’S HI-WAY INN 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson. owner ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ O ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC of the Living Spring ,..a community of friends... Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 6 PSI 17 Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253-9337 <MCCltmg Itealty, Inc. O] "The Land SpedaEsts" 501’253-9682 (days) OR 501-253-8969 (evenings) Offerings include: Bed & Breakfast in~; Victorian Homes, Hotels/Motels, Coi~mercial Properties/Businesses, Quiet Country Estates,-& much more. McClung Realty, Inr; has catered to the diverse G/L/B/TG community in Eureka Springsfor over 20 years. Call or write for a listing brochure. Or better yet, stop in, and we’ll show you around. We specialize in creative fin,ancing. EUREKA SPRINGS "Jim & Brent have opened the ultimate intimate local eatery. A special, eclectic dining experience..." Stop by our house for a taste of local flavor. Dine outside on the patio & porch or in our three beautiful dining rooms. Fine food at an affordable price. Green & Yellow Night FAMILY NIGHT Private Dinner Party, lstThurs, of EachJVIonth @m - Midnight, Dine, Drink ~ Relax Among Friends Featuring Jim & Gwendolyn’s Select Dinner Entrees & Brent’s Superb Desserts "With Family’ In Mind" Gay-owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud 20% of all proceeds will go to the support of family causes by Barry Hensley, Tulsa City-County Library For information regarding HIV/AIDS topics, our Library is an excellent resource. There are books, videos, audio cassettes, government documents and periodical articles full of updated information. Many branch libraries have books and other materials, although the Central Library, at 4th and Denver in downtown Tulsa, has more detailed information. Here are some of the items available through Central Library departments: BUSINESS ANDTECHNOLOGY, 4th floor, phone: 596-7988 (Dewey area 616.9792) AIDS and HIV in Perspective (by Barry Schoub) Immune Power: The Comprehensive Healing Pro~am for HIV (b.v Jolm Kaiser) Dictionary of AIDS Related Terminology (by Jeffrey Huber) Rethinking AIDS (by Robert Root-Bernstein) Everything You Need to Know When a Parent Has AIDS (by Barbara Drainlin) AIDS and the Law of Workplace Discrimination (by Jeffrey Mello) (34417301) READERS SERVICES, 2nd floor, phone: 596-7966 (Dewey area 362.1969) People, Sex, HIV and AIDS (by Pierre Andre) Everything You Need to Know About Being HIV Positive (by Amy Shire) I’ll Not Go Quietly (by Mary Fisher) We Are All Living With AIDS (by Earl Pike) Women’s HIV Sourcebook (by Patricia Klosser) Search for an AIDS Vaccine (by Christine Grady) (174.2 G) Recovering From the Loss of a Loved One to AIDS (by K. Dounelly) (155.937) Diary of a Lost Boy (by Harry Kondoleon) (fiction) Labour of Love (by Doug Wilson) (fiction) Such Times (by Christopher Coe) (fiction) Promise of Rest (by Reynolds Price) (fiction) CHILDREN’S, 2nd floor, phone: 596-7971 Magic Johnson (by Martin Schwabacher) AIDS: How it \Vorks in the.~odv (by Lorna Greenberg) Daddy and Me (by Jeanne M6ut~)uss’amy-Ashe) David ttas AIDS (by Doris Sanford) Know About AIDS (by Margaret Hyde) MEDIA CENTER, 1 st floor, phone: 596-7933 Living Proof: HIV and the Pursuit of Happiness (video) Heart of the Matter (video, HIV+ women) HI\" Test: Who Should Take It? What Does it Show? (video) AIDS: \Xqay We Won’t Look (audio cassette) Let’s Talk: C. Everett Koop (audio cassette) AIDS Quilt Songbook (compact disc) There are also various Government Documents available in both the Reference Department and the Business and Technology Department. Please call the Central Library at 596-7977 or any branch library for more information. Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ¯ Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group I To do justice, love mercy & to walk hurnbly with "our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 Open Arms Open Minds Open Hearts Saint Aidan’s 4045 No. Cincinnati. 425-7882 Saint John’s 4200 So. Atlanta PI.. 742-7381 Trinity 501 SO. Cincinnali. 582-4128 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You trial here before being returned to Oregon. Acremant, 27, was taken to flae San Joaquin County Jail for extradition to Oregon ou murder charges in die brntal slayings of Rox,’ume Ellis and Michelle Abdill. Stockton police say they were tipped off by an anonymou~ -caller early on the monli]~g ofDec. 13, who gave them the license number of a rented van Acremant was driving. Alter several hours of patrolling area motels, police say they located the van at a Motel 6 and discovered that Acremant had registered the night before tmder his own name. According to a Stockton police spokesperson, Acremant was not armed when he was arrested, and he surrendered to authorities without incident. Ellis mid Abdill, who operated a property management business together and were domestic partners, were-last seen on Dec. 4. Their bodies, bound, gagged and blindfolded, were discovered three days later in the back of their parked pickup truck. According to Medford authorities, die two women had each been shot twice in the head in what some have described as an "executton-style slaying." Police are continuing to refuse to talk abom the details of the case but did say they had no evidence that Acremant knew that the two women were lesbians. Although Acremant’ s father said his son had told him he had killed the two women in a robbery, police say that money, wallets, jewelry and other valuables belonging to them had not been taken. See related story., this page. STOCKTON, Calif. - The Natioual Gay & Lesbian Task Force has asked the U.S. Justice Department to examine the killing of Roxmme Ellis and Michelle Abdill, lesbian activists in Medford, Ore., because of statements made by Robert Acremant, who is facing charges in the case. The Task Force formally asked Attorney General Janet Reno in a letter to investigate whether the killings were hate crimes because of a variety of statements Acremant has made to television, radio and newspaper reporters duringjail interviews. In one interview, Acremant said he had asked the women if they were lesbians and said they had told him they were. "It kind of made me sick to my stomach that she was someone’s grandma," Acremant was quoted as saying in an interview published in the Oregonian shortly after his arrest. He also said in that interview that the fact that they were lesbians "made it easier" to kill them. In a letter to Reno, NGLTF Executive Directory Melinda Paras said, gays and lesbians around the country were "’very much upset and disturb0xl by these murders" and that statements by Acremant "have heightened the alarm and concern" that the killings were, in fact, hate crimes. PICK YOUR CAR... ... PICK YOUR. PAYMENT! "NO MONEY DOWN!" Mitsubishi Eclipse RS s272 -MONTHLY * or .... $15 698 < "CASH. PRICE ¯ All factory eouioment Including Air. ¯ MSRP $16.976 0-down. 41 p~iyment~ of $272 99 Lint pavment $~4~, WAC This is not ~ lease 15 ¢xnts li mile penalty after 12,000 miles i yr~ Mitsubishi- Galant s237 Monthly* Includes: Air conditioning, power door locks and windows, cruise control, Am/Fro cassette, automatic and much more. "MSRP $18.069. Sale Pdce 117.191.41 payments at $237 a month, 12,000 miles a yr. Iree, 15’ a mile penalty thereafter or walk away. Last payment $8588. 1.75%APR. W.A.C. by Jean-Pierre St. Valentine’s Day is soon to be upon us, and everyone is once again faced with the dilemmaof selecting that special place for a romantic dinner. Here are the three best restaurants in Tulsa, as well as the three most overrated. Each of the establishments reviewed this month considers itself to offer "fine dining," or what you might call a"white tablecloth" restaurant. Elegant. Dressy. Be forewarned, though, that all of these places fall into the category of "very expensive." Heading up the list is Montrachet, in the Consortium at 3509 South Peoria. This restaurant was formerly on our list of places to avoid, unless you liked schizophrenic Santa Fe French cuisine courtesy of the previous chef/owner. But, last summer, it was taken over by new ownership, management, and chefs from the resorts in Scottsdale, Arizona, and has successfully regained its place on Jean-Pierre’s social list. With the demise lastyear of both Karmichael’ s and the Fifteenth Street Grill (-gotta pay those taxes!), Montrachet is currently Tnlsa’s best restaurant. The Montrachet style is still basically French In concept, but displays a,.fresh American note to the Continental style: Beef tenderloin, rack of lamb, poussin, fresh salmon, and other gourmet specialties are mainstays ofthe Montrachetmenu, which changes seasonally. But the highlight of the meal with be the lovely montage of flavors from experiencing all of the courses, not just the entree. The onion soup at this place is absolutely the best one can get in Oklahoma. A rich beefy and winey stock bathes tender, caramelized onions, and is a delicious and warming treat. Frizzled onions top the soup as a garnish, which you may want to request be left in the kitchen. For a special appetizer, try the seared foie gras. It’s presented medium rare, stacked between layers of puff pastry, and grilled apples. The salad of mixed greens with Stilton cheese, walnuts, & poached pears is excellent. Desserts change regularly, and all are exquisite. None are the typical ice cream and hea~y., sticky sauce on abrownie; ....all. drowned in icanned ¯ whipped topping, that one ¯ usually finds in Tulsa. ¯ Many are truly works of art, and the tastes ¯ can be heavenly. Montrachet also has a ¯ full bar and an excellent wine list. They ¯ also offer a number of interesting cordials ¯ and liqueurs. - , ; Expect.seryice~ to .be.very well trained ¯ and efficient. All of the waiters are very ¯ knowledgeable about the evening’s menu ¯ and the preparations of the foods, and will ¯ be happy to recommend,.the evening’s ¯ best dishes. Bodean Seafood Restaurant has been ¯ the place to go for fresh-off-the-plane- " daily, seafood in Tulsa for years. Located ¯ in a nondescript strip shopping center at ¯ 3323 East 51st, just east of Harvard, ¯ Bodean is filling the shoes of the late ." Louisianne,Tulsa’slegendary downtown ¯ r.estaurant. You can also buy lovely fresh ¯¯ seafood to prepare at home at Bodean’s adjacent seafood market. If you like New England style clam ¯ chowder, you willlove the soupat Bodean, : probably the best Marc-Pierre has had : outside of the East Coast. Rich and thick, it contains big pieces of fresh dams. Limit ¯ yourself to a cup though; the bowl is big ~ enough for a meal by itself. Check the chalkboards to see whatcame in on the plane that day. Mussels, cockles, : and oysters from Newfoundland and New : Zealand are regularly on the appeuzer ¯ lists, and fishes from across the world will : become scrumptious entrees. The fish entrees are al- St. Valentine’s Day is soon to be upon us...Here are th~ three _. b~st restaurants in Tulsa, as well as the three most overrated. ways creatively prepared and presented, though sometimes the creativity can be a bit excessive. ~re recently experienced a mahi mahi presented with mango chumey and a blackened monkfish served with crawfish jambalaya. Never mind, though, since any fish can be prepared to order, and Jean-Pierre often orders the wonderfully fresh seafood simply grilled with alittle lemon butter on the side. Expect your fish to be cooked to an expert level of doneness, not undercooked and not dried out, but just right. Vvqaile most of the waiters provide the professional service you would expect from a quality restaurant, not all of the staff is properly trained. You may want to request a special waiter, once you find one you like. Our third choice amongst the three best Tulsa restaurants is actually a private club in downtownTulsa. The Summit, atop the Bank IV Center, serves both luncheon and dinner to Tulsa’s business and socialite community. It might be worth your while to get out those gold-digging shoes and wrangle an invitation to share dinner with aclub member. A qnick review of the club roster reveals several ’Tanfily’" members, so this is not an impossible task. Honorable mention has to go to the food at the Southern Hills Golf & Country Club, but finagling an invitation here is much more challenging. The Summit features expertly traineo staff with charming & sexy European accents. And, this being "The Club" of Tulsa’s elite, the staff will do everything possible to cater to the diners" every whim and pleasure. Of course, such service and top quality food does not come without its cost, but the saving grace is that the Summit doesn’t make you pay at the endof the meal your host just signs h check! This is Tulsa, so beef is heavily featured on the menu. Steaks are excellent, always prime beef, and will be prepared exactly to vour specifications. They also do a lovely Dover sole. Wildgame is frequently available. But one of the most memorable entrees here is the fork tender, melt-inyour- mouth, lamb tenderloin. The only thing to avoid is the lasagna, which is bland & insipid, a big disappointment ~ven the management’s Italian origins. Desserts are ~ bit more mundane, but fresh fruit with real whipped crean~ is always available, and the signature dessert of the club is a chocolate crunch cakc. a very rich mousse m a pastry shell. If you are watching your pennies, be careful with your choices of wines ,and liquors. The "Summit stocks all of the ultra-premium liquors and has wines costing 100’s (note the plural) of dollars per botde. And now for the list of Tulsa’s three most overrated "’fine" restaurants, at which see Dining, page 14 1996 Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Pageant Sunday, January 28, 9 pm, with special guests Maya Douglas Miss Gay USofA 1995 Chelsea Pearl Miss Gay USofA At-Large 1996 Cherry Monroe Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA Jean-Pierre refuses to eat when he is picking up the tab, and which Jean-Pierre will discourage friends from visiting as well. All of these restaurants suffer from overinflated prices, inconsistent food quality, and mediocre servtce (judged by a standard of what one might expect given the expense). Number Three: Bravo Ristorante. Suffeting through the attempts of the wait stuff to sing arias and show tunes does not make up for their inept service or the mediocrity of the food. R.I.P. Montague" s, the fine dining room when the Adam’s Mark used to be the Westin. Number Two: Atlantic Sea Grill. In probably the most expensive restaurant in Tulsa, the expectation that the food will be cooked to a quality level consistent with the prices is unrequited. Perhaps one would be better off to walk a few doors down to the cheaper and infinitely less stuffy T.G.I. Friday’s. NumberOne: Warren DuckClub. Aside from being in the tone)- Doubletree Warren Place, how this establishment manages to be touted as one of the finer establishments in Tulsa is totally bevond this reviewer. On several oceasirns, ~ean- Pierre has been served tough and overcooked duck with dreadfully sweet fruit sauce to mask the (lack of) "flavor of the bird. But most disappointing is thee dessert bar reminiscent of Harvest Buffet. Save your money. Well, dear readers, this is the list of Tulsa’s besl and worst. Now, you can decide where you want to take your special friend on’Febrtmry 14. Any hidden messages there’? Just be sure to call ahead for reservations, Bon appetit! by James Christjohn Hello again! Time for another rousing round of reviews! I have received complaints from some members of the community for using the "snap" system of rating stuff. They claim to have patented it. Go figure; some people are legends in their own minds. At any rate, if anyone out there in readerland feels they have a more amusing rating system, please submit it to Tulsa Family News Rating System contest,POB 4140,TulsaOK, 74159. I’m not sure what the prizewill be yet, but I’ll come up with something. I am also asking for the women in our readership to Submit ideas of what they’d like to see reviewed. I don’t want anyone left out. On with the reviews, comments, and whatever other stuff I feel might be amusing. If you remember your first crush on another member of the same sex, or have forgotten, I can highly recommend "’Tom & Huck". It is an excellent adaptation of "Tom Sawyer", with excellent performances by the entire cast. And the homoerotic subtext clearly evident inTom and Huck’s relationship ~s almost underlined in one of several scenes where Tom and Huck are struggling to communicate their feelings towards one another and you just want to yell "Go ahead! Say it! Tell him’I love you!’"Actually,it’s pretty much true to it’s time - I can see Huck living in town, madTom marries Beckx’ as a cover, and continues his relationship with Tom. This is definitely a good Valentine" s day flick, very romantic in its way, and the action keeps you on the edge of the seat. Fortunately, I restrained myself from the yelling bit, for which mv mece was grateful (I must credit her f~r SALOON Friday, January 19 th Blacklight Party Every Wednesday Night Drag Rodeo Roundup hosted by Courtney Farrell and featuring Keliah LaMonte Coming Sunday, March 17 USofA Preliminary to Miss USofA 834-4234, 1565 S. Sheridan W-Sun. 7-2am this issue’s reviews, during the holiday trip to see fmrtily, she dragged me to all these movies I wouldn’t have ever seen otherwise, and was pleasantly surprised at how good they were. I dedicate this month’s column to her. Otherwise, I’d just be babbling on about anything I could think of and making up reviews of fictional films and stuff.) Another winner is "Jumanji", and it takes you on a doozy of a rollercoaster ride. It’s a fun film, and Robin Williams is always a delight, especially in this flick about ama~cal board game set in a deadly jungle that sucks you in until someone else plays the game to it’s finish and sets you free. The scenes of the jungle and its animals taking over an entire town is amazing. The plot was a bit uneven, but I found it amusing enough overall to make up for that. Inmusical terms, Boy George’s"Cheapness and Beaut)"" deserves more of a listen than it’s been getting. I am not partial to BG or Culture Club, but I was curious enough to give this disc a spin, and found it surprisingly effective. It covers every style from country to heavy metal (mad I HATE heavy metal, but I rather liked it here. Skip the first track, but listen to the rest. He holds no punches, mad does not shy away from telling it like i~ is - no bet love songs here! There is one song on there about AIDS that nearly hadme in tears. The lyrics are well-written if not well-spelled and the music is fairly well done. (For me, the first test of a songs is the lyrics. Are they intelligent? Do they have meaning? If they don’t, forget it.) Another "new" discovery, October Project, has a new CD, "Falling Farther In", and it is beautiful. The lyrics are amazingly intelligent, and the music fuses a bit of rock, pop,jazz and Celtic soul. Try it, you’ll like it. The lead singer has a lovely deep alto voice that is like chocolate to listen to. If you don’t like chocolate, insert the dream food of your choice. (Like I said, I don’t want to leave anyone out.) This is a CD to add to your collection, no matter what. And, if we’re all lucky, I’ll be able to review "’Phantom of the Opera" for the next issue. I know a lot of folks out there are dusting off their opera capes and lnasks for this one! Don’t forget our Jan. 28th 2nd Annual Super Bowl Party Free Draw Beer from kickoff to finish, Chili dogs, baked beans & potato salad, $5 cover Big Screen TV How To Do It First 30 words are S10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - S 1 Ad in capital letters -S1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - S2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the number of words. (A word for our purposes is a group ofletters or numbers separated by a space.) 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American Airlines, Tulsa’s largest employer, is donating two air travd tickets which picnic attendees can be eligible to win. Other major sponsors include Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller Brewmg Co. and Pepsi-Cola. Picnic orgamzers emphasized their thanks for the support of dub owners and entertainers who hosted and performed in benefit shows, in chronological order: Bill and Brian and their friends at Lola’s, Sensuous and John at the Tool Box, John & Steve at the Silver Star and Kirk & Terry at Concessions with apologies to anyone whose name’s been left out¯ This event just see Picnic. page 8 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families of the Heart CoUrt Kills Amendment 2 Tulsa Leaders Respond PFLAG activists, Bill & Cathy Hinlde, and Nancy & Joe McDonald flank Dallas Gay & Lesbian AllianCe Pres. Cece Cox, her spouse, Lisa Means, & Tom Neal at ajoint meetingof PFLAG, TOHR & Rainbow Business Guild. WASHINGTON - In a ruling that brought a collective sigh of relief from U.S. rights activists, the Supreme Court has ruled that Colorado’s anti-gay Amendment 2 is unconstitutional. Justice Anthony Kennedy said in the court’s 6-3 majority ruling that theColorado ballot measure was "inexplicable by anything except ill will toward homosexuals." The ruling found that Amendment 2 identifies people by the singletrait of their sexual orientation and denies them protection across the board "in a law unprecedented in American jurisprudence." The Court’s ruling invalidates the 1992 Colorado referendum that was narrowlyapproved by 53 percent of the voters and would have blocked anti-bia~dneasures in Denver, Boulder, Aspen and anywhere else in the state that adopted suchmeasures. The high court’s majority opinion found that Amendment 2 violates the Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection under the law, ruling that it illegally bars homosexuals from see CO, page 10 : Tulsa PFLAG Mom Testifies ’Against Anti-Marriage Bill ¯ Nancy McDonald, founder of Tulsa Parents, Familes ¯ and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) with husband ¯ Joe, and first vice president of the national board of .. PFLAG, testified against the so-called "Defense of Mar¯ nage Act" before the Constitution Subcommittee of the ¯ Judicial Committee of the US House of Representatives ¯ on May 15. TFN is honored to summarize or to reprint ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : " : Tulsa Library Nixes Gay Exhibits for Two Years While the Tulsa City County Library commission and Library administrators deny that complaints about an April Lesbian and Gay themed exhibit by Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays motivated them ,the commissioners changed the Library’s exhibit rides at a May 21st meeting so that a similar topic cannot be displayed for two years. Formerly library rules prevented the same organization from exhibiting more than once in 18 months. Under the new regulations, the same topic cannot be addressed more than once in 2-krnonths. Because of this change, Tulsa OklahomanS for Human Rights (TOHR)is now being denied penmssion to mounl an exhibit that-was scheduled for August. Library administrators say that the TOHR exhibit plans were never definite but were tentative. However, TOHR representatives claim that:they understood the date to be firufly settled with any question of ch_anging the date not arising until after controversy about the PFLAG exhibit started. TOHR’s spokesperson expressed sympathy for the harassment the Library had experienced and understood the LibraD¯’s desire to change its rules but regretted that Library administrators had not chosen to honor their prior commitment to TOHR. TOHR is currently seeking an alternate site for the exhibit, Love Makes A Family, a photo-documentary of Lesbian and Gay families with accompanying interviews of the couples and their children. portions of that testimony. McDonald identified herself as a mother and longtime educator and volunteer speaking in defense of marriage. In particular, McDonald identified the benefits of civil marriage and noted how those benefits are denied to same sex couples. McDonald said she wished she were testifying in favor of a bill that would grant equal marriage rights "see Congress, page 8 Federal Anti-Marriage Bill ¯ HIV Bias Lawsuit Won Paul Saladin has won his wrongful termination lawsuit Moves Thru Congress ¯ against his former employeer, Terry Turner, owner of The ¯ WASHINGTON - The far-right’s proposed congressional measure,known as the "Defense of Marriage Act" (DOMA), easily won approval of a House sub, committee by a largely party-line 8-4 vote, and is expected to reach thefloor of the House of Representafives for a vote by early July. The Senate companion measure should be reaching the floor of the upper chamber at about the same time, Senate leaders said. qqae measure, which would define marriage as the union of a man and a woman, effectively excluding same-sex marriages at the federal levd, has left rights activists at loose ends since it was introduced in Congress earlier in May, quickly, winning endorsements from the Republican leadership and the promise of President Clinton’s signature if it passed Congress. Clinton supporter David Mixner fumed on CBSsee Federal, page 10 French Hen. Saladin had filed his case under the federal ~ Americans with Disabilities Act which prohibit discrimi: nation on the basis of HIV!AIDS as well as other disabili¯ ties. ¯ The case is noteworthy because it is one of the first to : address discriminationbased on an association with some: one who is disabled. Saladin was fired from his job as a : waiter when one customer allegedly complained to man. agement after he heard another customer ask Saladin : about his late partner who was seriously ill with AIDS ¯ related infections. Saladin received modest damages of partial back pay see Case, page 8 More States Pass AntiMarriage Laws ¯ "Christian" syndicated television talk show host, Bob ¯ Enyart, appears to have been disinvited from the Promise . ¯ Keepers "Christian men’s" rally planned for June 15th at ¯ ¯ TU’s Skelly Stadium. Lesbian/Gay activists, pro-choice ¯ ¯ activists and moderate ~d progressive religious leaders -.: had objected to Enyart s participation because of his : ¯ documented remarks calling for the execution of "homo: ¯ and "abortlonlo,o’ ~,~ .......... ,~ weu as me dosing and/the ¯ ¯ sexuals" ¯ ¯¯ , phys~cal~ destruction of homosexual churches, clubs and : other establishments, as well as abortion diuics. Enyart " ¯ has acknowledged those remarks as accurately reflecting ." : his values in an interview with the Denver Post. ¯ The Rev. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congrega¯ tional Church said that the Task Force for Rdigious " ¯ Freedom and Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry were involved ¯ in persuading key Promise Keeper supporters to call for " ¯ Enyart’s removal. Allegedly, Rev. Pearson called the ~ national office of Promise Keepers to ask them to: ; organizers to remove Enyart. According to The ¯ World, local organizers would not comment on the pro- ¯ ¯ gram change, see Enyart; page 10 SPRINGFJELD, Ill. -~ Illinois .Gov.:Jim Edgar signed a measure barring the state from recognizing same, sex marriages, whether legally performed in other states or not, making the state that first repealed its sodomy statu_tes: over. 3 ~ decades ago ~- the 1.0th, U.S, state to prohibit recognition of same- sex marriages. Meanwhile, in Michigan and Pennsylvania, similar anti-marriage measures won approval in their respective legislatures. The bills in each of the 2 states need only to have differences in the language of their upper and lower chambers worked out before being sent to their governors for approval. North Carolina’s lawmakers, intheir effort to prohibit recognition of same-sex marriages that might be legally performed in other states, have been trying to quickly work around legal limits on the types of measures they can consider in a shortened special see States; page 10 "Promise Keepers" Boot ¯ Radical Extremist Enyart COMING SOON -ffiahoma Parade ; ¯ Follies Review’96 + MCC’s ?That’s Entertainment?. + State.HIV/AIDS Confere. nce + IAM Ice Cream Soc,al + Shanti’s Water.Garden Tour see page 9 P. 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 9 P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 �Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and ~aay not be Assistant Editor, James Christjohn reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Writers/contributors, Publicationndence of a name or phototodoes indicate that person’s sexual orientation. ~s assumed be fornot publication unless otherwise noted, must be Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspo " . " ........ =o~il,, News ¯ All correspondence ¯ Barry Hensley & becomes tlae sole property o~ ~u,~a -,~,- : s!gne~ d........ Jean-Pierre ~o oddress above ¯ Each reader is entitled to one fre.e co,p,,y~of~ia~coh a s nOUl(1 De Sent to ut~ Leanne Gross & Pat Morehead --- *’~’~;tional conies *- - ..... r" are available by calhng edition at distnouuon polnt~. ~uu, TulsaNews@ aol.com Staff Phot(x3rapher, JD Jamett 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 I~9 Tgdd Adams bY Phyl Bole’r-Sdhmidt " " i. ¯ i i.° "The religious right would like you to believe that despite their "Th~Godit~s ovhr! The~Amendment TwO battlemC°l°riad° hatemongering and anti-gay propaganda, they truly have com.has been a long gaul of Often drudgery for those of us involved in passion and geiiuine Christian concern for the homosexual. It ~s that fight. And, though it began in one state, the effects rippled not a personal bias, they claim, but only because of divine Biblical proclamation that they are compelled to preach this soacross our great nation. . . For me, the battle began one May evemng m 1991. I was living called threat to family values. on the western slope of Colorado, minding my own business, Consider then, the disproportionate lack of attention given to enjoyin my life and my vcork. Tha.t .evening: ,,the voters of ¯ the far more pervasive trend toward unmarried heterosexual Denvergre’ected an ordinance proposexl by a soc)auy-co,n,se,rva- ~ couples cohabitating. Isn’t this what the Bibli~ calls fornication, and isn’t this a sexual sin of equal magnitude as homosexuality? tive erou~ called Citizens for Sensible Rights that wou!a nave " remgved sexual orientation from the wording of the city s equal ¯ Just by the sheer numbers of people engaged in fornication protectionlaw. After their defeat, CSRandits statewidesupport- ¯ compared to those of homosexuality, one would think the former ers vowed to take the issue to the state level where, they thought, ¯ to be a far greater threat to those sacred fata!!y, value.s.A,ft,er ~1, their Dresumably heterosexual children woum seenungiy De ~ar ¯ more’susceptible to being recruited into this lifestyle rather than into homosexuality. Yet we don’t see nearly the kind of passion exerted on this proportionately mammoth threat to,fancily v,alue.s as we see directed towards gay and lesbian peopte. ~o why ~s ¯ there such a wide disparity of attention? The answer is twofold, ¯ and both are very basic to human nature: greed and ignorance. babydom in the gay rights movement before the Amendment The first reason is greed. The fact is homosexuality is very and thus stirs emotions. Marketing 101 will tell you Two vote. I’i,’e gone from an often timid addressee of lesbigay ¯ controversial the easiest way to pry money out of a pocket is to exploit concerns someone who be counted onstand to know thetoe issues inside andtooutTwho is not incan the least afraid to toe to with see Values, page 3 I never can remember those old sayings very well but there is this one that goes like this: may you live in interesting times - and I never could remember if that was supposed tO be a blessing or a curse. Wall, here we are at Pride 1996. We certainly are living in interesting times. Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Triinsgendered issues are being discussed more than they l~ave been at’any other time in the last two thousand or so years. And though our losses (to AIDS, to breast cancer, to the institutionalized violence and self hatred our society fosters) have been beyond imagination, and it is easy to feel that we are under attack each ~ime we turn, we are winning some. Colorado 2- do I need to say more?The highest court in the nation, and the source of both despair and hope for American minorities, finally has recognized us as citizens. Even here in Tulsa, we are making some progress. Although we are still marginalized by many of Tul.sa leaders, a few are recognizing our existence, our contributions to this city and our emerg- see Weary, page 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Concessions, 3340 ~. Peoria *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades:Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box. 1338 E. 3rd *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. 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Watts, attorney 743-1733 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities 599-7688 *Agape’ Christian Fellowship, 21st& Sheridan *Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Ctr. 628-0594 2627B E. 11 583-9780 *B/UG Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa *CommumtyofHope UnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 Dignity/Integrity ¯ (Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians) 298-4648 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 ,Free Spirit Womens Center, call f°r l°cad°n & inf°: 587-4669 Friend A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 FriendsFor in Unity Social Organization (African-Amer. 747-6827 men) ing political impact. And though we are poisoned by too many of the pathologies that growing up minrrity in America engenders, and although we are often unneces sarily cruel to each other, Tulsa is rich in remarkable individuals who dedicate hours of their time to building community ~md resources. These folks are too many to name them all. The3’ vary from those whom you recognize quickly, the McDonalds and Kirbys, to those who work a little more behind the scenes, the Newmans, S tames, Petersons and Gilleans to those who are rarely recognized but whose contributions are also critical. These people, their work and our progress, although slow, all are things for which we can be thankful. So take aminute to celebrate, to honor those who’ve gone before, to recognize how things are better. I have and will. Tulsa’ s sure a better place for us thanit was 20 or even 10 years ago. - Tom Neal POB 8542, 74101 425-4905 584-4983 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation 438-2437, 800-284-2437 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 838-1715 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood *HIV Resource Consortium 749-4194 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 748-3111 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4901 PFLAG , POB 52800 74152 74104 Prime-Timers, P:O. 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Mingo ¯ Tulsa, OK ¯ 7414~ (918) 622-1441 �JUNE 15 Noon - 5:00 pm Opening Ceremony, lpm ¯ Blessing by the Rev. Leslie Penrose ¯ Welcome by TOHR president Debbie Starnes ¯ Performances by local entertainers, including Miss Gay Tulsa & Miss Tulsa USofA, Tulsa Family Chorale & The Banned from OKC! the most ardent anti-gay zealots. Wars will do that for you. Survival skills are something we either gain in a hurry, or we die at the hands of the enemy, sometimes literally, often figuratively. Of course, there are always battle scars too, and I watch myself, as well as others who have fought this one in the trenches, acting most times like we suffer from the more modem adaptation of World War II’s shell shock. Post-traumatic stress disorder runs rampant among civil rights activists of any persuasion. On May 20th, nearly five years exactly to the day after the Denver vote, I was catching up on some paperwork at my computer when the news came in via the Interact about the U.S. Supreme Court’s 6-3 decision declaring Amendment Two unconstitutional. There was no jubilant fist thrust into the air. There was no inyour-face queer political nose-rubbing of the opposition. I just sat th6re, staring at the two-hne news alert for over 30 minutes, occasional quiet tears of mostly relief surfacing. I believe it is important to remember that although the Supreme Court decision reflects a changed attitude on the part of the federal judiciary as it regards the humamty of lesbigay people, nothing has really changed legally. No tights have been gained. It remains okay to discriminate against us as a people in most of the country, & the fight for equality remains one we will need to address one person at a time. \Vhat has happened is imperceptible to people on the outside of our movement. We are a more confident people, more sure than ever before of our beliefs and our worth. We are more aware politically; we -know how to build coalitions, to raise funds, to seek out and solidify our bases of support, and we -know how to get the job done. We also have learned the tree value found in each other because we had to learn with whom we could be safe and on whom we could count when or if we needed someone. A~nendment Two was a right of passage for lesbigay people in Colorado. mad the tipple effects have forged growth in the movemeut throughout the land. Let us not waste that ~owth and the opportunity it presents to truly change our ~vorld. Our time has come, and our movement is coming of age, but let us not forget that we gain nothing in the wav of respect if we are not respectful of others. If we are going to ever have that kinder, gentler nation George Bush at least talked about. I believe it must start with us. emotions: lust,:enwy.., fear, hate! Therefore,dt is pr0fi~ble for the religious right to keep homosexuality controversial. Itis their greatest fund-raising tool. Even the most cursory glance at their fund-raising literature wil! reveal classic propaganda techniques; dehumanize the subject to remove any compassion people might feel, and present only the most extreme behavior as examples of that"lifestyle", behavior which, incidentally, many homosexuals themselves would find distasteful. These techniques are nothing new. They are the same methods used by the Nazis to persecute the Jews. The second reason is pure and simple ignorance. They fall to understand that we have exactly the same range of human emotions and feel exactly the same feelings they do; love, lust, guilt, jealousy, anger, compassion; just in a slightly different context, homosexuality is a normal, natural and healthy way of life for a certain percentage of the population. But because those feelings are foreign to them, the religious right assumes our lives to be wicked, perverted and disgusting. They fall to see that falling in love is truly a universal emotion with many varieties. So don’t be misled. The attention giveu to homosexuality has nothing to do with family values, if it did, more preachers would be concerned about the results of their hate speech: abandoned and abused children, gay teen suicide, substmace abuse. All of these are far more serious fmnily issues which deserve far lnore attention. Throughout the afternoon, ¯ DJ will provide music throughout the day ¯ Booths with vendors, community organization info., crafts, etc. ¯ Food for modest cost ¯ Free beverages provided by Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller & Pepsi ¯ Volleyball & tennis court available ¯ Kids’ playground ¯ Security provided all day by Tulsa Park officers ¯ Closing ceremony, with benediction by RF Renfro & Freedom Balloon Extravaganza! 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The bill now only requires the assent of the governor general, representing Queen Elizabeth II as Canada’s titular head of state, to become part of theCanadian Human Rights Act. Michigan School Harassment DETROIT- In a d~iay that angered:many, the Allen Park School Board decided not to decide yet on whether gay and lesbian students - or even students who are just believed to be homosexual - should be protected under the district’s anti-harassment policies. The mother of a 14-yearold student at Allen Park High School asked the trustees in May to include antiharassment policies that prohibit gay and lesbian students from being attacked or harassed on school grounds by other students. But the school board decided it wanted to take "more time to study the issue" before making a decision. Raymond Salliotte, an attorney representing the student and his family, told the board members they should be ashamed of themgelves for even having to take this long to decide on such a basic issue. School Gay CI.ui Compromise GLENDALE, Calif. - The Glendale school board averted the potentially explosive issue of gay and lesbian dubs at schools by rejecting a plan that would have required permission of parents for their high-school age,students to join any such campus clubs. Instead, the board opted for a compromise proposal that would inform parents of all the dubs authorized to meet at schools in the district so they could be aware of what groups there are at various schools. But parents would not have to give permission for their children in school to join any of the groups. Clinton ’Advocate’ Interview LOS ANGELES - In an interview in the Los Angeles gay news magazine The Advocate, President Clinton reiterated his view that marriage is an institution between a man and a woman, as a far-right bill in Congress declares, and says he is proud of his record of working to end discrimination agmnst homosexuals in theU.S, and of the large number of gay men and lesbians hehas named to posts in his administration.But in the interview, Clinton says of the controv ers y that erupted early in his term over ending the military ban, "There are some things I think I should have done differently." He says he now believes he should have first worked with congressional and Pentagon leaders to build a broader consensus on the issue, saying that possibly moving in "incremental steps" might have been a better way to approach ending the ban. The President, however, sidesteps questions in the interview about whether he would, if re-elected, renew any efforts to end the current restrictions against homosexuals in the armed forces. : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ : ¯ Oregon Initiative Called Off PORTLAND, Ore. - Lon Mabon, head of the anti-gay OregonCitizens Alliance, announced at a press conference that the organization will discontinue gathering signatures to put a new ballot measure before state voters this year in an effort to block civil rights protections for homosexuals. Oregon rights activists said the OCA move wasn’t surprising in the wake of the U.S. Supreme Court ruling in May declaring that Colorado’s Amendment 2, which the OCA had used as-a model, was unconstitutional. School Board Victory in N.H. MERRIMACK, NH - Two years of contentious tumult over an anti-gay policy may have come to at least a temporary end with the stunning 2-1 victory of Rosemarie Rung for a seat on the school board. The race registered the largest voter turnout in the town’s history and Rung’s election now means, that religious-right candidates who had forced the anti-gay policy through the board no longer hold a majority. Rung vowed dunng the race to work to repeal the anti-gay Policy 6540, which prohibits school employees from "’encouraging or supporung homosexuality as a positive lifestyle alternative." Ginny Cadarette, who also ran for the vacant seat won by Rung, had said she supported the anti-gay school policy. "This election proves that the citizens of Merrimack have the moral courage to reject the politics of fear and divisiveness," Rung said after the election win. "What the Radical Religious Right failed to realize when it moved into Merrimack advocating its agenda, from creationism to Pol,icy 6540, is that we truly believe in freedom of speech, and equal protection of the laws." S. Africa Gay Rights Protections CAPE TOWN, South Africa - With the new, first-ever constitutional protections barfing bias based on sexual orientation, the South African Parliament wasted no ti~ne putting theory into practice. On May 14 the lawmakers approved military policies prohibiting discrimination against women, gays and lesbians in the nation’s armed forces. The next day a memo from the leaders of both houses of Parliament outlined the travd~related benefits the partners of Members of Parliament are entitled to.identical to those of the spouses of married MPs. Anti-Gay, Anti-HIV Defense Bill Again WASHINGTON - The House has approved a $267-billion Defense Department spending measure that President Clinton has already said he would veto if it’s not changed by the Senate because of the many social issues that conservative Republicans have tacked on to it. The measure includes amendments that would discard the current "don’t ask,don’t tell" maned forces provision and institute an outright ban on homosexuals in the military. It also iududes the on-again, offagain amendment forcing the Pentagon to discharge any military personnel who test positive for HIV. The Senate version of the defense measure calls for the same spending level,but doesn’t contain the coutroversial amendments House Republicans added to the bill. The measure also iucludes a ban on the sale of sextmlly explici! magazines,such as Playboy and Penthouse, at military bases as well as a prohibition against U.S. military hospitals outside the country performing abortions,except in eases of rape, incest or if the mother’s life is at risk. Carolina Anti-Gay Measure Repealed SPARTANBURG, S.C. - Faced with the prospect of having the Olympic torch relay re-routed around the county and finding the men’s U.S.A.Gymnastic team pulling their training site, the Spartanburg county council has decided not to keep an mati-gay resolution it approved on Monday, Mav 13. The resolution, similar to ones passed by two Georgia county comnussions inn, has no actual legal effect but states that homosexuality is "incompatible with community standards." The comnussioners decided earlier in May to pass the resolution as a show of their support [’or Cobb County, Ga., which has been excluded as a site for Olympic Game events because of the resolution. But when the Spartanburg council was confronted by the American men’s gymnasts team ~;ith moving their training site elsewhere over the anti-gay measure and statements by the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games that it might re-route the torch run around Spartanburg County, the county council voted 4-1 to repeal the resolution. "QUALITY WORK UNBELIEVABLE PRICE" Ect,n x FOR APPOINTMENT ¯ QUICK SERVE 743-7141 ¯ PATIO BAR Traci Huntsman Owner 3225 S. Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 While Spartanburg was busy repealing its anti-gay resolution, the Greenville County council approved by a 9-3 vote an identical measure. The Olympic torch is slated to pass through Greenville on June 26, but a spokesperson for the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games said the group is unsure what - if anything - it may do about the approved resolution, which calls homosexuality contrary to "community standards" in the county. At least one ACOG member, however, was quoted in news reports as saying that the organizing committee "couldn’t function as a civil rights watchdog for the nation." Commitment Fair Called Off DETROIT, Mich. - A planned Gay Commitment Fair that had been slated for May 19 in the Detroit suburb of Holly where gay couples could peruse exhibits by riofists, photographers, jewelers and other marriage-rdated goods and services was cancded after the organizer of the event received hundreds of offensive and threatening telephones calls, the Detroit Free Press reports. According to the paper, Jeffrey Maxwell, the pastor at the C.alvary United Methodist Church in Holly read a news article about the planned private event to his parishioners, including the phone number to contact the promoter of the fair. The organizer of the event, who asked the paper not to identify him, called off the event at the last minute after being .swamped with menacing calls threatenmg to disrupt and picket the fair as well as at least 2 death threats. Maxwell said he didn’t believe anyone from his church made any of the calls. Proposal to Extend Partner Benefits SAN FRANCISCO-Gay SupervisorTom Ammiano has proposed legislation that would require most contractors working on city financed projects to extend the same domes tic partner benefits to its workers that it offers to the spouses of its married employees. Many of the city’s large corporations already offer partners benefits, but mo~t smaller firms do not, and the city controller’s office estimates that there are between 8,000 and 10,000 companies doing business with the city that could be affected by the proposed measure. The proposed ordinance would exempt firms located where domes tic partner programs aren’t in place, unless the company has a division office in the city as well. In those cases, only workers in the San Francisco offices would be covered. Business leaders here have not so far expressed any strong objections to the Ammiano measure, although the city’s Chamber of Commerce says it wasn’t consulted about.it beforehand. The mea-sure would be the first of its kind inthe US. BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. �Hewlett-Packard to Extend Benefits i Survey: World’s Full of Surprises PALO ALTO, Calif. - The HewlettPackard Company, a leading manufacturer of computers and computer peripheral equipment, has announced it will be adding health care benefits for the domestic partners of its unmarried ~...~ the U.S., probably by next y~~ Platt, chairman and CEO of the firm, said in making the announcement,"The extension of health-benefits coverage to domestic parmers continues HP’s ongoing efforts to create an inclusive environ~nent. We’re also enhancing our competitiveness as a great place to work so we can attract and retain top talent." Details of the program were not released, but the company said the benefits would apply to both same- and opposite-sex unmarried employees, and would extend to the couples’ children as well. The firm employs some 108,300 workers. LONDON - It was "good news-bad news" for the citizens of the new Russia as London International Group, one of the world’s largest condom manufacturers, released the results of its 3rd annual international survey of sexual behavior. According to the LIG survey, Russians are the 2nd most sexually active people in the world, led only by Americans. "Our survey will explode a lot of myths about sex," said Pauli Jakobsson of LIG. The study reports that based on surveys of 10,000 people in 15 nations,Americans have sex 135 times a year, trailed dosdy by the homy ex-comrades who succumb to Western bourgeois thrills 133 times annually. The former Soviets also trailed the Americans in their self-centered view of sex, with 61.% of U.S. citizens interviewed saying their own satisfaction was most important in sex. Some 42% of Russians said their own gratification was paramount, placing them next behind Americans. Thailand came in at the bottom of the list in terms of frequency of sex,averaging just 64 times per year. Of a list of notable personalities those interviewed thought were sexiest,Australian actor Mel Gibson topped the lisL while U.S. President Bill Clinton fell about midway and Russian Prime Minister Boris Yeltsin came in next to last, the unsexy honor of which fell to Poland’s Lech Walesa. Poles (presumably none of them eying Mr. Walesa) turned up as the most safe-sex conscious in the survey, with a full 13% of Polish respondents claiming they routinely carry condoms in their underwear, leading the Italians in their claims of having condoms on hand. Canadians, somewhat surprisingly, came in as the most hostile to the idea of safer sex, while the Russians did little better, ranking 12 out of the 15 countries. Canadians, however, also ranked 1st as the world’s most sensitive bed partners, with 51% saying satisfying their sexual partner was their top priority in bed. Another surprise the survey reports is that women respondents turned out to be more sexually selfish than men, with 31% .saying their own sati fraction was most ~mportant in the sack, while 25% of men said their own gratification was primo in bed. Challenge to UK Age of Consent Law LONDON - Euan Sutherland, a 19-yearold gay student, has been given the goahead by the European Commission on Human Rights to challenge the British age of consent laws before the Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg if Parliament doesn’t change the law.4n 1994, Parliament lowered the age of.consent for homosexual sex from 21 to 18, but the age of consent for heterosexual sex in Britain 1S only 16. And Suthedand petitioned government courts without luck to equalize the ages for all sexual activity, arguing that it was discriminatory. "It’s normal for a 19-year-old bloke to be going out with a 17-year-old girl," Sutherland said. "’If I was doing that [with another male] it would be illegal. Both of us would be breaking the law. There are jail penalties." Sutherland’s legal challenge is expected to be joined by another gay youth, Chi’is Morris, 16, shortly. Lipstick Lesbians NEW YORK - The women? s beauty and fashion magazine, Allure,includes excerpts from the soon-to-be-published book by Lindsy Van Gelder and Pamda Robin Brandt, The Girls Next Door: Into the Heart of Lesbian America.. The excerpt, entitled in the magazine "Some Lesbians Are Glamour Babes; Others Aren’t," lot-ks at similarities and differences between lesbians and straight women in makeup, body consciousness and similar beauty issues in alighthearted manner. Only problem is, although excerpts from forthcoming books are generally a sdling point for ~nainstreamraagakiii~’s,’Allui-d s~in~ ~6’ have neglected mentioning the excerpt on its cover. Ah, well. Probably just a"typo.’" Hawaii Dems Make Pro-Gay Moves HONOLULU- While many of the state’s la~vmakers grappled muchof the past year with the issue of same-sex marriage resuiting from what isexpected to be a state court victory for gays and lesbians, the stale Democratic.party made its position dear during its May 24-26 convention. The party’s central committee adopted a resolution opposing any future interfer- have to agree or accept the political corence by the state legislature or efforts to rectness of our day. There will ",always be change Hawaii’s liberalstate Constitution questions that have to be left hanging in the court battle. The Dems then went on while we wait for fuller answers. What we to oust Linda Rosehill from the key post must not do is walk away from one anas its national committeewoman in favor to Amy Agbayani. Rosehill has been very , other." Aside from the heresy trial in active in efforts to block the possible ¯ Delaware earlier this year, Carey has come legalization of same-sex marriages in ¯¯ ¯ under pressure from conservative Anglican clergy in Britain who have insisted thestate; Agbayani represented the ACLU that he condemn the previous Archbishop m testimony opposing legislative efforts. to block same-sex marriag~in the sta~e. .of Canterbury, Lord Robert Runcie, who xt was recently revealed had ordained Martin Rice, an openly gay Democratic ¯ priests he knew were gay. Party activist, was also elected to a position as one of the committee’s 3 vicechairs as an executive board member. Texas Log Cabin Episcopal Church: Gay Clergy OK WILMINGTON, Del. - A court of the Episcopal Church has ruled that it is not against church doctrine for a bishop to ordain sexually active homosexuals to the priesthood, thereby ending the possibility of a heresy trial against Bishop Walter Righter, 72, the retired Bishop of Iowa, for ordaining Barry Stopfel, who is gay, as a church deacon in 1990. The 9 presiding bishops had been considering the issue of whether Bishop Righter should face heresy charges for the ordination for 10 weeks. Their decision was announced from the steps of the net-gothic Cathedral of St. John by Delaware Bishop Cabell Tennis and included little in the way of comment or clarification except that there ~vas "no such written constraint" in church law agaanst such ordinations.The formal armouncement noted that the ruling was not "’an opinion on the morality of samegender relationships." And while Bishop Righter’s trial may be over, the issue itself may be far from settled, some church observers say. The Rt. Rev Andrew Fairfield, the l~ishop of North Dakota mad the onl y dissenting member of the court, said the nmnerous biblical condemnations of homosexuality, as well as Christian tradition and church teachings, hold that"the bottom line is. homosexuality of any kind is prohibited." Some conservatives predicted there would be a schism if the church’s general convention, which will meet in Philadelphia next year, doesn’t prohibit the ordination of sexually active homosexuals. Dr. George Carey, the Archbishop of Canterbury, urged Episcopalians not to over-react or act impatiently as the church struggles with its position on ordaining gay priests ~n a sermon commemoraung the 100th anniversary of the Los Angeles Episcopal Diocese. Carey warned Episcopalians against "walking away from one another" over the issue and said we ¯ must learn to get along with each other despite differences. "We need to learn a uew langnage .- alangu.age of.ac.ceptance and love of one another," Carey said in his sermon at the Cathedral Center of St. Paul in Los Angeles. "’I don’t mean by this we A PERMANENT SOLUTION Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla. St. Med. Bd. 488-0786 Near71st & Lewis Call for info, or an appt. with free consultation, Sue State GOP AUSTIN, Texas - The Log Cabin Club of Texas, a predominately gay and lesbian political organization, sued and won against the state Republican Party after the Texas GOP reneged on a contract for a booth at its state convention and on ad space in the convention prggram. The LOg Cabin lawsuit,filed in Travis County state court, charges the Texas Republicans with violating the organization’s First Amendment rights, bias based on sexual orientation, and breach of contract. Les ter van Pelt III, a spokesperson for the state Republican Party, toldreporters that Barbara Jackson, the state GOP’s executive director, had ma~.ethe decision to exclude the Log Cabin Republicans because of the party platform’s positions against homosexuality. "Sodomy is still a crime in Texas," van Pelt’~aid. Nonsense, say the gay Republicans noting that the booth and ad space hadhothing to do with sodomy. "...Obviously, no one is going to commit an illegal act in the booth." Your P,artners Program or Mine? WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. - In what is believed to be the first of its kind in the U.S., the West Hollywood city council has unanimousl y approved a measure that would extend full recognition of domestic partners registered in other cities with such programs while in the city. Domestic partnership registration offers few actual benefits anywhere in the U. S., but it could be important in cases for example where a visiting couple was involved in an acci, dent. One registered partner would have hospital visitation and treatment decision rights in such a situation if they were registered in another ci ty. On a more basic level, public businesses or events offering "’spousal"discounts in West Hollywood already technically are required to extend similar discounts to registered partners. And the new recognition measure should have the same benefit for visiting couples, the council hopes. Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa P AlrERSON REALIORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 �AIDS Epidemic: 15 Years of Death WASHINGTON - This year marks the 15th anmversary since thefirst cases of AIDS were diagnosed in the United S tates, although at the time,of course, no one knew what this strange new disease initially called "gay cancer" - held in store for the nation and the world. Globally, the World Health Organization reports there have been 4.5 millioncases of HIV infection, while in the U.S., there were 476,000 ~tses and 295,000 deaths. -FDA OKs Home- authorize $738 million for AIDS-related services in cities and towns around the cotmtry during the 1996 fiscal year, an increase over the 1995 level of $632 million. The measure also includes some $52 million in funding for states to provide new HIV/AIDS drugs for residents who can’t afford them, and $10 million for anew program aimed at getting pregnant women to voluntarily seek testing and counseling for HIV. In signing the measure, Clinton said he hoped no furore president would have to s~gn a similar spending measure. "By then, let us pray that we will have found acure for ,AIDS and a vaccine to protect every American," the President said. Testing Kit for HIV WASHINGTON -The U.S. Food & Drug Administration has approved the first home-testing kit for detecting HIV, the virus generally believed to cause AIDS.. The kit - known as the Confide HIV Testing Service - will be marketed initially at pharmacies in Texas. It will also be available through a toll-free telephone number based in Florida. The FDA said it approved the home-testing kit for people who would prefer the anonymity of home testing instead of using clinics or medical facilities. There’s no word yet on exactly how much the kit will cost, but it is expected to be priced at about $40. The ~e~." testing system will comprise 3 integrdted components: a home blood collection kit HIV antibody testing ata certified laboratory, and a center that, provides test results, counseling and referrals as needed. The FDA noted that the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention esumates that 60% of Americans at risk for HIV have never been tested for the virus. The test xs manufactured b.v Direct Access Diagnostics of Bridgewater, N.J., a subsidiarv of Jolmson & Jotmson. Critics of home’testing, however, say the "kit is [oo expensive and that counseling services via phone in such a situation seemed hit- HIV Particle Counts Aid Treatment PrvI’SBURGH, Pa. - According to anew study, doctors now have a more accurate way of predicting how long people inected with HIV will survive,thereby giving physicians better guidance in how aggressivdy to treat their patients. Dr. John Mellors and a team of researchers at the University" of Pittsburgh Medical Cen:er have confirmed the relative accuracy of an extremely sensitive new blood test that counts the number of HIV viral partides instead of the current method which relies on counting the immune system’s CD4 T-cells. "We found very stri -kingly that the amount of virus in the bloodstream predicted how individuals did," Mdlors said. "The more virus, the worse the individuals did, by which I mean the shorter time to developing full-blown AIDS and dying." The researchers analyzed blood samples from 180 gay men enrolled in a U.S.government study between 1983 mad 1991. They found that 49% of the men with more than 36,000 HIV particles per milliliter of blood died within 5 years. But only 5% with just oneninth tha{ amount of virus die.d that quickly. "The likelihood of progression ~ncreases directly with the level of AIDS virus in the or-miss. blood-,:’ Mellors said. "So we have a pretty good idea based on our study what the expected survival of an individual would be at a certain level of virus." Dr. Anthony Fauci, director of the National Institutes WASHINGTON-Researchers report that of Allergy &Infectious Disease says the a vaginal gel containing a drug known as researchers’ findings will let doctors make PMPA has been shown to protect female better decisions about when to begin treatmonkeys from the simian version of HIV ments and when "to change to possibly and may offer humans the same kind of more aggressive therapies. "If some indiprotection from the virus. Dr. Roberta viduals have very high set points [HIV Black of the National Institute of Allergy particle counts], even though their CD4 & Infectious Diseases,which sponsored cells are reasonably OK, you might want the study, said, "For women to have to more aggressively treat those people woman-controlled method is very imporbecause you know that you can predict tant so they canprotect themselves." Black they are going to do more poorly," Fauci said much more research is needed - insaid. "Whereas someone who has a low eluding studies involving humans- to de[HIV particle count], even though their termine whether the PMPA anti-viral gel. CD4 count might not be all that high, you could prove safe and effective protection might want to hold off on aggressive for women. therapy. So really, it’s a step towards using the steady state level of the virus much more as a tool both in prediction and in therapeutic decisions." 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Reporting AIDS patients who take the oral form o[ ganciclovirreduce the risks of being’ " ’in the journal Science,researchers at the NatiOnal Institute of Allergy and Infecstricken by the blinding eye disease, cytions Diseases saythey have found a protomegalovirus (CMV) that often attacks tein, which they call "fusin," that must be PWAs in the advanced stages of the illpresent for HIV to infect white blood ness. Researchers at the University of cells, the primary target of the virus. EdCalifornia at San Diego studied 725 men ward A. Berger, who headed the team that during a 12-month program testing the made the discovery, said the discovery Hoffman-LaRoche version of gancidovir, gives scientists a "new handle on underknown as Cytovene and found that a daily standing" how HIV invades cells. "Obvidose of the drug reduced the risk of conouslythis is a potential target for developtracting CMV by nearly half. AIDS Drugs for HIVExposed Workers (918) 743-1000 Jeffrey A. 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The Harvard University researcher found that 6 of the 7 rhesus monkeys thevswabbed with SIV in the back of the thr~at became infected with the virus ,according to the report. The researchers also found, surprisingly, that far less of the virus - 6,000 times less - was needed to trigger an infection than is required to infect the monkeys rectally with the virus. The study’s startling results are so unlike other research and data about oral transmission risks that many AIDS and health workers immediately questioned the findings. Among other things, federal studies have only documented 15 cases of -known oral transmission and infection of HIV-since the epidemic began. Also, AIDS experts point out, unprote!~ted oral sex has continued to be popular among gaymen in the U.S. while the infection rate among homosexuals has steadily declined since the routes of trans= missio~a were discovered. Drug Combo Effective Serving a Diverse Community WASHINGTON - A 73-week study by drug manufacturer Hoffman-LaRoche of some 978 AIDS patients has shown that Invirase, the brand name for the firm’s version of the protease inhibitor saqui.navir, in combination with the drug ddC, reduced the rate of deaths by more than two-thirds compared to patients taking ddC alone. Saquinavir has been considered the least impressive of the new ing new drugs to treat HIV infection," Berger said. "Potentially by coming up with a drug that blocks the receptor, you might block the ability of HIV to replicate." The researchers cautioned, however~ that there were sdll many mysteries about the virus that need to be answered. Among other things, they noted that HIV attaches itself to some types of immune cells in the early stages of the infection without using fusin. This means HIV comes in variations that connect to CELl. cells and some other molecular cofactor or cofactors on these cells. Berger said that potential drugs that block the fusin receptor on cells could only do part of the job in combating HIV. Heat Treatment OK for Expanded Trials LOS ANGELES - The Indiana-based HemoCleanse Inc. has been given approval by the Food & Drug Administration to expand testing of itsblood-heating treatment of people infected with HIV. The 2nd phase of the trials will include 2hour treatments at St. Elizabeth Hospital in Lafayette, Ind., and the Harbor-UCLA Research & Education Institute in Los Angeles. HemoCleanse’ s treatment, similar to kidney dialysis, involves slowly drawing all a patient’s blood from his body in small quantities and heating it to 108 degrees Fahrenheit before infusing it back into his body. The ideabehind the treatment is that HIV is sensitive to even small increases in temperature and would be destroyed in massive quantities by the treatment. Sixty patients will be divided into 2 groups during the trials. One group will receive 2 treatments each - the first for I hour, and the 2nd for 2 hours.The other group will serve as a control group and will not receive the heat treatment, but will remain on standard HIV drug therapy. Global AIDS Briefs GENEVA - The World Bank has warued in a new report that up to 2 million of Malawi’s 11 million population will be infected with HIV by the year 2000 and the average life span in that so. African nation will drop from 57 to just 33 years. It adds that unless culturally conservative and devoutly Christian people in 22 So. Pacific island nations and territories alter their views about sex education and condom use, the AIDS epidemic yvill devastate that region as well. �Package includes: two nights’ Club Level accommodations at the Sheraton New York or Manhattan with daily continental breakfast and afternoon hors d’oeuvres, a first row center orchestra ticket to Victor. 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TOHR was asked by the former organizers, an informal association of ¯ to Lesbian and Gay cltazens instead of business owners (mosdy dub owners), to ¯¯ testifying about a bill that would deny equal rights. "I find instead of defending resume organizing the event. The Picnic continues their traditions with minor ¯ marriage, I need to defend the people changes. After complaints from many in- ¯ gay & lesbian people - who are being denied the right to marry. I do not believe dividuals about conflicts with Father’s :¯ we would be here today if our society did Day, the orgamzers responded by moving ¯ not have a deep bias against gay &lesbian the event to Saturday. Also due to ongoing problems with the Mohawk Park site, ¯¯ people. I say that not to lay blame, but to recognize the fact that we are’really in a the organizers unanimously approved civil rights discussion about gay & lesOwen Park as this year’s site. The Picnic is an informal affair with : bian persons.’" McDongld further gave examples of free beverages. Attendees are welcome to bring their own food or to purchase food " discrimination experienced by Gay perat a modest cost. Any funds raised by the " sons or persons perceived tobe Gay using Picnic (after expenses) will "aenefit the ¯¯ the story of one of her sons who was Gax & Lesbian Community Center Project ¯ beaten because he was perceived as Gay even though he happens not to be. and the City of Tulsa Park & Recreation ¯ McDonald adds that she perceives the Dept. A number of community organizations will have tables with information ¯ country to bein a"cultural meltdown" not because Gay people may marry but beabout their programs. Brief opening and cause "we have yet to overcome our intolclosing ceremonies will feature local en¯ erance and bigotry. We have yet to recogtertainers, including Tulsa Family Chorale, and Oklahoma City’s The Banned, a ¯¯ nize the richness in the diversity of all of marching band (who’ll be sitting down). ¯ our citizens:" McDonald closed by questioning the The Rev. Leslie Penrose of Community ¯ need for this legislation since the Hawaii of Hope and RF Renfro of Bless The Lord At All Times will give opening and dos- ¯¯ case that has prompted this response is tmlikely to be resolved for several years, ing blessings. Info: 743-2497. ¯ and maybe not favorably to Gay citizens. ¯ She called on Representatives not to tar" get Lesbians and,,G, ay men for discrimina." don butrather to ’foCus on the challenges and $2,500 for pain and suffering as well of the economy, of education, and health as attomey,’s fees. Saladin said to TFN ¯ care that face all of us." that his goal in pursuing legal action was not financial but rather trying to do what was right. He’was represented by Steve Novick, Greg Bledsoe, and Katrina Bodenhamer on behalf of the AIDS Legal Resource Project. The Project is a joint effort of the �TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNI CALEND SUNDAYS MONDAYS TUESDAYS Agape’ Christian WEDNESDAYS HIV Testing THURSDAYS ¯ SATURDAYS ; H]V+ Support Group ¯ 16.Step Empowerment : St. Jerome’s Agape’ Christian Fellowship : ¯ Ecumenical TOHR Clinic ¯ HIV Resource Consortium Service, 10:30 am & 7 pm : Free & anonymous testing " Fellowship : Group For Women Catholic Church 1:30 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ using fingerstick method. ¯ Service, 7 pm ¯ : Community of Hope Mass, 6 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 Sheridan Center, Suite H ..... 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 No appointment required.." Info: Wanda @ 749-419, Garden Chapel 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 : ..... ~" ~~ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm" 3841 S. 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EIwood for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd Substance Abuse : SW~4N-Single Woments Support Group Activity Network : ¯ for persons with HIV/AIDS ¯ Call 832-2121 ¯ ¯ h~tions make you who you are and what 3’our life is all about. It took working for : Tulsa Family News and Tom to get my by J.D. Jamett ¯ foot out the door and have me doing all Yes, the rumors are true. I’ll be leaving ¯ JUN E 28-30 stuff that ldonow. I don’t know if any of Tulsa to go live in our nation’s capital 7th Annual Oklahoma HIV/AIDS you realized this, but I’ve always tried to : SUNDAY, JUNE 16 !boy, talk about out of the frying pan and promote uni ty in this column as best I can. Conference "Sharing Our Strength" Family ofFaith MCC Father’s Day Serinto the fire). I would Oklahoma Center for I have seen this comvice with Father Rick Hollingsworth like to take this chance Continuing Education, 1704Asp, Norman Yes, the rumors munity from drag 11 am, 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 to thank a few people Info: Andy Southam, 800-942-1914 queens, cowboys, for the great opportuniare true. be leather folk, .Lesbians taes and genuine care WEDNESDAY, JUNE 19 SATURDAY, JUNE 29 and all the rest not havthey have given me. TCAP Advisory Council Meeting That’s Entertainment? Bad Drag Show ing not a thing to do Tom Neal, for being Noon, 1430 S. Boulder with the others; nut I Family of Faith MCC that OLDER fos ter- big 8 pm, 5451-E S !~ingo, 622-1441 have also had the brother (or sister) that nat~on s capital... FRIDAY, JUNE 21 chance to see this has always looked out Tulsa Regional HIV Prevention change. Please folks, to SUNDAY, JUNE 30 for me, and who has Community Planning Group Meeting don’t stop working toCommunity of Hope 3rd Anniversary been pu.shy,er.., push2:30 pm, 1430 S Boulder gether to make our ing me ~n the right diMeeting &Worship Service community better! 5 &6 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 rection. 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JULY 20-21 ~,~ty and do something, any:- Bobbi Sue Summers Editor’s note: JD will be Memorial Park, NW 35th & Classen ," thing to make it better, I 4th Annual Shanti-Tulsa Water greatly missed. While hls ¯ Blvd. Oklahoma City Garden Tour ¯ would’vetolAtyou,"YOU’RECRAZY! ~ unique skills cannot be imitated. Info: 743-4297 or 405-791-0202 No one cares about what I think." It just ¯ 10-5 pm, Info: 749-7898 Out+About will continue with a new club ," took therealization that youropinions and " OUT + ABOUT- H1 uve m our ...I would take this chance to thank a few people Senulne care they have Siren me. reporter in our July issue. �session. Complicated legislative ntles have slowed down movement on the bill, but there remains very little active opposition to the measure in the legislature itself. While gay rights activists around the country were celebrating the May 20 ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court overturning Colorado’s Amendment 2, SouthCarolina Gov. David Beasley signed in.to law. a measure barring same-sex mamages in the state. To find any good news in the same-sex marriage arena, activists had to look to Holland where the Dutch justice ministry announced it will be putting together a panel of experts to evaluate the possible impact of legalizing gay and lesbian marriages in the country. The Dutch Parliament has already voted in principle to support full equality in marriage rights for same-sex couples, but the government has continued to resist full marriage status for gays and lesbians, arguing that the international consequences for the tiny European nation could be enormous. The committee the justice ministry appoints will examine nfitional and international law s and treaties that might be affected by such a move. It will have a year to prepare its report, including recommendations for legislation. Washington, D.C.-based civil rights groups have been unable to find many political allies willing to publicly fight against the proposed legislation as it continues its rapid movement through both Incidentally, $1 million might seem houses of Congress. The Human Rights like a lot of money to you today, but in Campaign said that a Clinton endorseorder to generate an income of $70,000 a ment of the bill would be "’an unconscioyear for just 22 years of retirement, that’s nable capitulation-to religious political how much you’ll need to sock away (asextremists" and "demanded" that the Presisuming a hypothetical annual return of dent oppose the measure. 7.5% and inflation rate of 3.14%). Elizabeth Birch, head of HRC said, If you’ve been putting off investing, as "The statement by White House press yourself if it is going to be any easier secretary Mike McCurry earlier this week putting away almost three times as much that same-sex marriage wouldweaken the at age 35, than at age 25? Or, eight times family was silly and completely, inconsisas much at age 45? Your financial prioritent with the president’s prewous posities will change over the years and your tions regarding equal rights for gay men income .will increase. and lesbians." Openly gay Congressman However, whether you’re saving for a Barney Frank (D-Mass.) called the antihouse at age 25 or trying to juggle ¯ marriage bill"a tranSparent political issue Waiting To Invest Could nances to pay for your children’s educain ttie presidential campaign." Stephen tion age 45, chances are it will be just as Moakarsh, a Los Angeles board member Jeopardize Your Dreams! difficult. In addition, can you afford not to of Lawyers for Human Rights,said, "I benefit from the power of compounding? These are just some of the multitude of think he (Clinton) has been the first presiHow Can I Start Investing Now? reasons people use to explain why they dent to really include gays and lesbians at haven’t started an investment plan. InFirst, accept the fact that there is never the table. For that, I admire him greatly. vesting for the future is frequently seen as a convenient time to invest. The answer to But I think in terms of the marriage issue, a luxury, rather than a necessity. Somethis dilemma lies in paying yourself first. it’s unfortunate that he feds compelled to thing you do after you’ve taken care of Before you can do this you need to do a join with the GOP. My feeling is that cash-flow analysis to find essential livingexpenses. Clinton is trying to avoid a political fire Unfortunately, there is out where your money is storm that the gays in the military issue rarely any money left over -going. Warning! This caused him in 1993." alter doing that, so it’s might be a frightening easy to procrastinate. process. Once the numBut do you know how bers are laid out in front of much waiting, even a few you, you’re probably goyears, can cost you? The wai_tln , even ing to see several ways to seeking legal protections against discrimichart below shows the reducing your expenses. nation in housing, employment, health a l’ew years, monthly investment reEstablishing a spending and welfare services, education, and real quired at different ages to often helpful. estate sales. Justice Kennedy called "imcan cost you? planAsispart accumulate $1 million by of this process, plausible" Colorado’s central argument review your accumulation age 65, assuming hypothatAmendment 2 simply made gay and thetical 10 percent compounded rate of goals and determine a minimum percentlesbian citizens equal with other state return. age of your income that you’ll need to reside,n,ts by denying them any "special What this chart shows is the dynamic invest to meet these goals. By breaking rights.’ The majority decision was joined power of compound returns. Compoundthe task downinto manageable parts, you’ll by Justices Kennedy, John Paul Stevens, ing is the process where each year you not introduce discipline into your investment Sandra Day O’Connor, David Sourer, Ruth only earn money on you invested principrogram and increase your chances of Bader Ginsburg and Stephen Breyer. Dispal, you also earn additional money on the success ! senting were Justices Scalia, William money you earned. The amount you earn It’ll take a while, but the long-term Rehnquist and Clarence Thomas. grows or "compounds" at an increasing payoff for your discipline may be sweet. Representatives from serveral Tulsa orrate as the years go by. And remember, your financial consultganizations held a press conference at By starting an investment program at an ant will be happy to assist you with any of Community of Hope United Methodist to earlier age, you spread the accumulation the steps along the way including informrecognize the importance of the Court’s task over a longer period of time and lng you about investment vehicles that decision. Bill Hinlde representing the enable your money to benefit from the can help you meet your accumulation ACLU of OK, Kelly Kirby, the Gay & ~owerful force of compounding. goals. - Leanne Gross Lesbian Affirming Disciples of the Church of Christ, Nancy MacDonald, PFLAG, Investments Required To.Become A Millionaire and .Tom Neal, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights spoke about the positive 55 45 impact this decision would have on the 35 25 Age When efforts of Oklahomans to seek fair and Investments Begin equal treatment from the State of Oklahoma and the City of Tulsa. $442 $1,316 $4,882 $158 Monthly muela TV’s "Face the Nation" that the President’s quick announcement that he would sign the measure was "’an unconscionable position for him to take." Mixner said Clinton’s decision was doubtless political in his efforts to keep his popularity lead over anticipated Republican challenger Sen. Bob Dole of Kansas in the November election. "But this goes to the heart of everybody’s civil liberties," Mixner said. "It deals with property rights, insurance rights, xmmigration rights,bereavement rights, and to deny us equal opportur~,~ty really makes us second class citizens. In Seattle, councilwoman Tina Podlodowski, who is a lesbian, resigned as co-chair of Clinton’s Washington state re-election campaign, but said she still supports Clinton in the upcoming election, an echo of the dilemma many gays and lesbians feel over an issue that most paid little attention to until it exploded on the national political landscape this year. Podlodowski told the Seattle Times, "I’m still very supportive of the President but I believe it’s important to show leadership on this. This issue speaks to a broader issue of civil rights." In an interview with the New York Times, openly gay White House advisor BobHattoy said the President had been out-maneuvered by conser= vatives on the issue and said Clinton and his campaign advisers were more "’homostupid" than homopho.bic, ~ayin.g that supporting same-sex mamage now Is "’aloser" politically. "I just wish the straight white boys at the White House would educate themselves a little more," he said. "It’ s not that they’ re homophobic - they’ re homostupid, and they don’t know that the buzzwords they’re using are the buzzwords the right wing uses as terrorist dividing tactics and that the gay & lesbian community has a visceral reaction to." Both the Human Rights Campaign and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force have issued a number of press releases in the past few weeks attacking DOMA and criticizing President Clinton’s statements that he would sign the measure, but the "People don’t plah ffMl , th yfail to’plan. 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City Auditorium, Victoria Inn, and the Basin" Park and Crescent Hotels hosted some of the best blues talent on the planet this vear. but the most-anucipated event took"place Friday evening. Bo Diddlv performed two concerts along with local favorite The Cate Brothers Band ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Other name performers included Kenny Neal, Raful Neal, Tab Benoit, Chubby Carrier, Jimmy Thackery, Canned Heat, Keb Mo’, Robert Lucas, mad Kelly Jo Phelps. If you find yourself wishing you had been there, you still have time to get tickets for the 12th Annual Eureka Springs If.you_have not been fortunate enough to partlelpate in a Blue-sFest ¯ ¯ weekend in A Friendly Place to Stay MCC of the Living Spring ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson, owner ...a community of friends... Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! 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The writing is sim-~ihe theme Boy, by Jim Grimsley, of sexual attraction is is rural North Carolina very carefully and tactwhere, yet again, two fully written. The two ...Except for a couple high school age guys main characters are well of extremely violent slowly fall in love. written, but we don’t Nathan and Roy live fully understand the next door to each other secondary characters, on the outskirts of a young adult novel, particularly Randy and small town. Roy, a Burke. Nathan’s father although adults little older and wiser, is a pathetic stereotype should enjoy it also is a popular kid and of a disillusioned, surly hangs around with a and cruel man, and the ...Dream Boy is a couple of guys, Randy mother’s character is and Burke, who follow pleasant, fun read, but paper thin, spending her his every move, not retime timidly between it takes a back seat alizing that they.actuher abusive husband ally idolizehim. 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Now I have to prepare ¯¯ But the famous crab cakes illustrate dinner for someone who doesn’t know the quite well what is wrong with the cuisine ¯ difference between fingers, a dinner fork, at this restaurant. First of all, Chef Michee a salad fork, or a wild fork. But, what is ¯ tnes to be too creative and too innovative. worse in being wrong, ~s that the poor ¯¯ She takes top quality food, prepares it citizens of Tulsa will continue to be dewell, and then ruins it with a bizarre or luded about what constitutes truly fine ¯ weird sauce or accompaniment. She had cuisine and what is merely flash and a ¯ the same problem when she was at waste of money. Kannichael’s and at the Fifteenth Street ¯ One year ago, we went to a highly Grill, two of Tulsa’s be~ter restaurants touted, brand-new restaurant in Utica ¯ which are now both out of business. SecSquare. Everyone had great expectations, ¯ ondly, the restaurant touts itself as featursince one of Tulsa’s best known chefs, ing "new American cuisine," but you’d Kim Michee, and her think the chef had partner, Julie been on another Woolman, were the planet the last couple The W;ld Forl driving forces behind of decades when it the venture. As we 1820 Utlea Square comes to presenting lingered over posthealthy, lower fat HOliI’~: dessert coffee, I foods and lots more quipped that unless vegetables and sal7 a.m. to 10 p.m. Helmerich and Payne ads. Monday - Saturday, (owner-operator of The soups Utic~ Square) was continue the saga. looking at the Wild While most of Fork as a tax writetoday’s celebrated .off, the restaurant Amerlean contemporary modern American would be closed chefs in Dallas, Dressg within the year. And, Santa Fe, Scottsdale, thus, I was goaded or Los Angeles have Casual (but remember gone kb healthier into making the illthis is Utica fated bet. They’re thicke~ng methods still open. for crealn soups such Prices: The Wild Fork is as vegetable purees, situated in ~e middle Very expensive beurre mani~, white rice puree, or a of UticaSquare at the site of the former simple roux, with landmark instituuon only a splash of Full bar & wine llst and tea room, The cream or dairy prodNon-smo]dn~ seeHon: Garden. Our first visit uct, Miss Michee to the Wild Fork was continues to insist on a rainy Saturday upon making cream Rat;n~: night, and we were soups the old fashobliged to wait for ioned way, based on B li~t our table. But, a traditional b~chamel crowded, bustling and velout~ sauces. ¯ restaurant is usually a good sign. We had These can be very tasty, but they are far ¯ a bit of an uneasy feeling in dealing with too rich to eat more than a few gravy-like the rather abrupt and disinterested host- ¯ spoonfuls. esses, magnified by our limited dealings Same old story with the entr~es. With ¯ with our waiter, so we wrote it off to the the one major exception of the pork tenstrains of being a new restaurant on a busy " derloin roulade, which is dry and tastenight. However, on our several subse¯ less, the meats and .fish are good quality quent visits to the Wild Fork, including foods expertly prepared--until they are the most recent when our party was one of ¯ sauced. Do we really need Moroccan lemonly three tables in the entire restaurant, it= ¯ ons (aren’t American lemons good is apparent that the Wild Fork is trying for ¯ enough?) on the free range chicken’? Hot ¯ some kind of unique merger between the mango salsas on the meats’? A "creative ¯ rude waiters in New York & the snooty reinvenfion" of the chicken-fried steak? waiters in Paris. ¯ Excellent, huge sea scallops ruined by The Wild Fork is open all day, and there flavoring them with Pernod (a nasty lico¯ are different menus for breakfast, lunch, rice flavored liqueur)? Strongly flavored and dinner. Regardless of the mealtime ¯ olive and vinegar sauces on delicate sweetyou’ve chosen, one look at the menu and ¯ breads? you instantly know that this is a culinary It is possible to get a decent meal in this ¯ experience that will not come cheap. place, but you must be pro-active to do it. It seems as though every review about ¯ Find out what is on the menu and ask for the Wild Fork written in a Tulsa paper ¯ substitutions or deletions. Anything that over the last year has raved about the crab ¯ sounds unusual or strange should be igcakes. Far be it for us to break with tradi- ¯ nored. If Chef Michee is inthe kitchen, tion. The crab cakes are a combination of ¯ rely uponher excellent training and expecrab meat, corn, and the usual fillers to ¯¯ rience to cook a meal to your exact specihold it all together, that is deep-fried and fieafions; just don’t let her play around then presented atop a homemade mayon- ¯ and get creative. The problem with this naise aioh sauce and buried under a mound ¯ technique is that Miss Michee is not alof terrifyingly hot jalapefio cole slaw. ways in the kitchen, and many a lesser ¯ Scrape off the cole slaw and enjoy the cook will panic when the set recipe is wonderful calories and high fat and cho- ¯ changed. Also, there seems to be a comlesterol content of the crab cakes. After . munications breakdown between diner, all, what’s a little grease and mayo (mayo ¯ waiter, and kitchen, because many times, ¯ is just egg yolks and olive oil whisked special requests end up being ignored. do ed Sunday Cu;s;ne: Square) Alcohol: �How To Do It Vegetables are bland, boring, overlooked side dishes here, almost relegated to the status of a garnish. Salads aren’t emphasized, either. This is the one major area of improvement needed at this restaurant. As is the case in many fine restaurants, the baking is delegated to a baker and not handled by the chef herself. This i~ unfortunate, because we have had breads held too long in the warmer and disappointing desserts on almost every visit. On one visit, our cr~me brfil~e tasted almost curdledand thdpr0pan~ torch used in lieu of the broiler to caramelizethe ~t’op’was unevenly applied. Another time, we had to ask for our coffee before the end of the dessert course just to wash down the dry cake. No excitement or originality here. There is a surprising little wine list with tolerable but limited choices in the moderate and lessexpensive categories, defi-~ nitely preferring U,S. domestic vintages. Despite its shortcomings, the Wild Fork continues tobe a popular restaurant First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the number of words. 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Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-747-3320 Home Office Dallas, Texas 800-559-4790 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families ofthe Heart Marriage Wins & Losses¯ REYKJAVIK, Iceland - Iceland’s Parliament has ap- " proved abill that would give same-gender.couples there . the right tolegally marry, following a pattern of extend- ¯ ing a slightly limited form of matrimony and state ¯ recognition established in the Scandinavian’ countries of Denmark, Norway and Sweden. Thenew legislationpermits same-sex couples to have a civil marriage ceremony and the same tax, insurance and inheritance status as married opposite-sex couples. " Like the Scandinavian version of same-sex marriage, " the new law does not, however allow gay and lesbian ¯ couples to adopt or to have children by artificial insemination- although it does allow for joint custody if one " of the 2 spouses already has a child:- " The new law does not require churches in the nation, ¯ which have generally opposed such unions, to perform religious ceremonies for same-sex couples if they do " not wish to. . In the United States, various state legislatures con- ~Fe their, efforts to restrict civil marriage to hetero- : ............~d.~tiM~?D~Ia-w~e-Go~i~tSf~oixaas..~a~-has~signed_~o ~.~ a measure that prevents same-sex marriages, even if " legally performed elsewhere, from being recogniz.ed, in . the state. The new law restricts the state to recogmzang ¯ only marriages between "one man and one woman." In a related development, Michigan Gov. John Engler also signed a similar bill passed by the state legislattire earlier this year prohibiting the state from recognizing same-sex mamages, even if performed legally in other states. The North Carolina__ House voted 98-10 to approve a similar measure, already approved by the state senate, that would bar recognition of any such marriages even if legally performed elsewhere. State law already prevents same-sex marriages in North Carolina. The measure does not require the approval of the state’s governor and automatically becomes law now. Meanwhile, California’s just-released Field Poll indicates that the majority of those in the state - 57% - oppose legally recognizing same-sex marriages. Overall, only 35% ofCalifornians who were surveyed say the state should extend to same-sex couples the same legal status as heterosexual unions. Some 8% had no opinion or didn’t answer the question. Baptists to Boycott Disney NEWORLEANS -The 15.6-millionmember Southern Baptist Convention has formally called for its congregations to boycott Walt Disney Company’s products, services and entertainment industries because of what the religious denomination considers anti-Christian, anti-family values - including allowing Gays and Lesbians to organize events at Disney’s theme parks. The resolutioncalling for theboycott charges thatthe "Disney Co. has given the appearance that the promotion of homosexuality is more important than its historic commitment to traditionalfamily values." Disney officials have declined to comment on the boycott, but Baptists may have a little trouble following the boycott since Disney, one of the largestAmerican corporations, owns not only its wall-known theme parks in California and Florida, but also ABC-TV, Touchstone and Miramax films, and is a major parmer in McDonald’s. CONGRESS ATTACKS GAY MARRIAGE ¯ WASHINGTON - Rolling through Congress with little ¯ opposition, the House overwhelmingly approved the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) by a 342-67 vote and 2 : abstentions while the Senate judiciary committee hear- ." ings turned testy as Sen. Edward Kennedy (D-Mass.) accused Republicans of"a mean-spirited form of legisla- ." tive gay-bashing" as part of its November election strat- : egy aimed at unseating President Clinton. The measure would define mamage as a legal contract ¯¯ between "one man and one woman" and would also exclude any same-sex couples who may be able to legally ¯ marry anywhere in the country from Social Security, veterans’ and other federal benefits. Anti-gay conservatives say DOMA is needed to circumvent an expected Hawaii court ruling that may, for the first time anywhere in the U.S., permit same-sex couples to legally marry there. "It is a frontal assault on the institution of mamage and if successful will demolish the institution," said Rep. Steve Largent, an OklahomaRepublican. Largent charged that if same-sex marriages were allowed, society might next condone bigamy, marriages between children and adults and marriage between humans and animals. Georgia Republican Bob Ban" said the growing influence ofhomosexuals posed a threat to America. "Wehave a basic institution.., under direct assault from homosexual extremists across this country," Barr said. "This is an issue that transcends partisan lines, it goes to the heart of a fundamental institution." Oklahoma’s 2ndDistrictUS RepresentativeTomCoburn ofMuskogee characterized the issue as being one ofmoral disapproval of homosexuality which he claimed was the view ofhis constituents. Cobumcharacterizedhomosexuality as based in lust and perversity - remarks which greatly offended openly Gay Massachusetts Rep. Barney see Attack, page 8 ¯ Tulsa Pride ’96 The Rev. Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope opens Tulsa ’s Pride Picnic at Owen Park. Morephotos, page 3. ; Organizers of Tnlsa’s Pride Picnic have released a post ¯ event statement characterizing the event as a success. A ¯ joint effort of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, ¯ Friends in Unity Social Organization and a number of ¯ volunteers, the Picnic made a slight profit after all ex- ¯ penses. The Picnic commi ttee particularly praised local ." club owners, entertainers and community groups for their ¯ financial contributions frombenefitperformances.Agroup ¯ spokesperson noted that the City of Tulsa imposed some ¯ obstacles which resultedin higher costs than in past years. : Also, there had been opposiuon from an Owen Park ¯ community group that feared that homosexuals would ¯ "destroy" the payk. Picnic organizers stated that Owen ¯ Park’was dirty when they found it and that they cleaned it ¯ prior to the picnic and afterwards left much cleaner than it ¯ was originally. The committee also noted that they had attracted greater corportate sponsorship than before, list- " ing American Airlines, Coors, Budweiser, Miller and ¯ Pepsi as sponsors, see Pride, page 2 ¯ New Gay Friendly Church ¯ Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay community is being welcomed ¯ at anew congregation, Community Unitarian Universalist ¯ Congregation (CUUC). In contrast to Tulsa’s image as ~ being dominated by fundamentalist, anti-Gay churches, ¯ Tulsa is home to four Unitarian-Universalist (UU) con- ." gregations. The denomination is noted for its traditional ¯ support for "progressive" issues andforwelcoming Gay & ¯ Lesbian worshipers. ° However, Community Unitarian Universalist Congre- : gation is the only UU congregation in Tulsa to join the ¯ Unitarian-UhiversalistWelcomingCongregationprogram ¯ directed at Lesbians and Gay men. CUUC also partici- ¯ pated in this year’s Interfaith Pride Service. CUUC re- " ceived its charter in November of last year and has about : 55-60 members. The group currently meets at Community ¯ ofHope UnitedMethodist on Sundays at 10:30 for coffee ¯ with the service at 11 am. see CUUC, page 3 Gay Man Runs i for Congress ¯ Paul Barby, a 61 year oldWoodward, Oklahoma oilman ¯ and rancher and a Gay man, has announced his Demo- ¯ cratic candidacy for Oklahoma’s 6th District seat in the US ¯ House of Representatives. The seat is currently held by ¯ first-term Republican Frank Lucas. Barby told TFN that he had not pictured himself as ¯ politician but that in working to defeat State referendum question #669 and in his work as an unpaid, citizen lobbyist at the State Capitol, he came to realize that ¯ a difference. ’He ¯ added that people had ¯ urged him to run for Congress. Barby isn’t running ¯ on "Gay" issues but ¯ as a candidate who ¯ happens to be Gay. ¯ He talks about work- - ing to moderate Con- . gress which he char- ¯ acterizes as "tooruth- ¯ less, toouncaring, too ¯ restrictive". He calls ¯ himself a fiscal con- " servative who never- ¯ theless is. concerned ¯ that cutbacks in farm Paul Barby ¯ supports will devas- ; tate Oklahoma’s small family farms. He says he supports ¯ family values but that these values cannot survive without ¯ education, job opportunities and health care. ¯ However, he did choose to reveal his homosexuality in ¯ aletter to potential supporters because he felt he needed to ¯ be honest with voters. Also, since his Gayness was no ¯ see Barby, page 3 Coming Soon! Shanti’s ¯ Water Garden Tour, see p. 8 ¯ New Volleyball Group, 9 l~/!~ I EUREKA SPRINGS BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT RESTAURANT REVIEW CLASSIFIEDS 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@~ol.com Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal Assistant Editor, James Christjohn Writers/contributors, Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leanne Gross Pat Morehead issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy.of each edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. by John A.Reynolds Long-lasting relationships in the Gay & Lesbian community seem to be very rare and the straightworld doesn’t appear to be in much better shape when it comes to this subject. Some experts attribute this to the brief that many relationships, Gay and straight, are based one lust instead of love. Of course, those who are"in lust" will disagree and swear it is love- for the two or three months they are together. Personally, I believe the problem is that most people don’t become friends before they become lovers. We must know someone before we can love them. Harold Baird, my partier of seventeen years was also my best friend and we would still be together today if cancer hadn’t taken him from me. We became friends first, and out of that friendship grew the love that we enjoyed for those years. Too many relationships are based on sex and physical attraction. These are the ones that seem to fail early on. Sex is only a small part of any long-lasting relationship. Conversation, enjoyment of each others presence and many other things, combined with sex, are needed to make a relationship work. If lust is the basis of a relationship, don’t expect it to last very long. I cherish the time Harold and I had together, but the things I remember most about that time’-are the walks in the woods, holding hands, talking and quietly sitting together knowing the see Friend, page 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 832-1269 744-0896 749- 1563 745-9998 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Med.& Mental Health, 2325 S. 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I believe from my conversations with him that Largent knows better but like the swollen (but pretty) headed, professional politician he’s becoming, he was willing to lie to make his point. Tom Cobum’s attack on his Lesbian and Gay constituents was even worse albeit morehonest than those ofhis Republicanpeers. His remarks went to the heart of the bias motivating DOMA. It’s not about "protecting marriage" but about condemning Gay & Lesbian citizens because primarily of religious briefs. Unfortunately for Mr. Coburn, our Constitution (you wonder if he’s bothered to read it) frowns on people like him using the power of government to impose his religious views on minorities. Both of these representatives have shamed Oklahoma with these unashamed bigotry. While there’s little hope of unseating them soon, the candidacy of people like Paul Barby encourage me to hold out hope for Oklahoma yet. - Tom Neal ¯ Thomas Chiropractic Clinic ¯ 4138 S. Harvard~ Ste. C-1 742-8868 Kellie J. 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H- 1 748-3!11 ¯ PFLAG , POB 52800 74152 749-4901 ¯ Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 74104 ¯ R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 ¯ Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 665-5174 ¯ St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 646-7116 ¯ *Shanti Hothne 749-7898 ¯ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) ¯ POB 52729 74152 ¯ TOHR Gay HelpLine (Info.) 743-4297 ¯ Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 ¯ T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *University Center at Tulsa ¯ Beaver Dam Store, 1/2 mi. N. of Dam Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 ¯ *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 ¯ *Emerald Rainbow, 45&1/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 ¯ King’sHi-Way,96KingsHighway,Hwy.62W 800-231-1442 *MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 Pride Picnic July 10, 1996 Kudos to all responsible for a GREAT PRIDE PICNIC on June 15th. Owen Park was an excellent location and the whole layout flowed really well. The booth and display area was terrific, vendors and organizations alike. The music was great, along with food and beverage availability. My kids enjoyed themselves as wall making it a perfect "family" outing. And mounted police in uniform was a nice added touch. ;-) Hats off to the committee who organized a wall planned and thought out day to show Tulsa our Pride! - Kelly Harrison Kirby, via the Internet Disney vs. So. Baptists In view of the Southern Baptists’ resolutions to boycott the Walt Disney Company for being "anti-family" and to convert Jews, perhaps Disney could create a new theme park attraction just for the Baptists. They could call it"It’s A Small, Small Mind." - Alan L. Light, Iowa City, Iowa June - July 1996, Issue #7 ¯ In our last issue, we inadvertantly made at leas ttwo mistakes. Firstwelisted Ginny ¯ Butler as one of the professionals associated with Dr. JeffBeal andTed Campbell’s practice, Associates in Medical and Men- " tal Health. We were not aware that Ms. ¯ Butler is not part of that practice now and ¯ we apologize to all parties involved for ; .that misleading impression., .... ¯ Secondly, we greatly regret that when ¯ we reported on community dubs that ¯ helped the Pride Picnic by doing benefit ¯ shows, we did not know to credit all those : who were involved. The benefit at the : Silver Star was organized by the Green ¯ Country Cloggers who certainly deserve ¯ credit for this show, and for all the other ¯ hard work they do. Wehonor them, and of course, John & Steve of-the Star, their gracaous hosts. If we inadvertantly failed to mention anyone else who helped with those shows, please accept our apology andlet us know so thatwecan give proper credit to all. - Tom Neal, editor/publisher The group’s spokesperson added that while they’d heard afew complaints about ¯ the changeof thepicnic site fromMohawk ¯ Park to Owen Park before the event, after- " wards, they heard a great deal of satisfac- ~ "tion from attendees. The greater amount ¯ of shade and generally better facilities ¯ were mentioued. ." Other Pride events like the Interfaith : Pride Worship Service, and the PFLAG/ ¯ TOHR/RBG dinner for the president of ¯ the Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance were : deemed a success by their organizers. The ¯" only event that was not well supported ¯ was TOHR’s Pride Dance .which drew few attendees. State SenatorBernest Cain readsproclamation honoring Pride Rally & Parade in OKC’s Memorial Park. PFLAG, Tulsa Chapter was Tulsa’s largest group & received a very enthusiastic response. Tulsa’s new volleyball organization began at the Pride Picnic, For more information, see the Calendar, p. 9 Oklahoma Gay Rodeo folks lead the Oklahoma City Parade from Memorial Park to NW 39th St. Men ofNative American descentfrom TNAAPP, Indian Health Care, were visible and proud of their heritage. The Banned opened this year’s Pride with the Star- Spangled Banner, Oklahoma & several other selections. Donna Redwing, Advocate Magazine’s 1992 Woman of the Year & GLAAD spokesperson at the OKC Parade. Family of Faith MCC helped to represent Tulsa as did others who walked with statewide groups. others thoughts. The simple things in a relationship are just as important as the sextml side. When asked by friends, "what is your secret?" - we would reply by saying, "be your partner’ s best friend and say, ’I love you’ every day." There wasn’t a time in those 17 years wo- didn’t say "I love you" to each other several times a day. I’m not saying live is a bed of rose and ~ev. Nancy J. Horvath M. Div., Pastor Sunday 9:15 am Christian Education 11:00 am Worship Service Wednesday 6:30 pm Midweek Service 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thursday 7:30 pm C0dependency Support Group ;451-E S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa, OK ¯ 74146 (918) 622-1441 ¯ youwon’t ha~e problems. There will be ¯ times when disagreements and problems ¯¯ arise, but you can work through them. True love and friendship can conquer the ¯ trials of any relationship. When problems ¯ arise, and they will, if your love an friend- " ship are strong you can weather the storm ¯ and get through it together. When one ¯ p~er dies, as in my case, you can go on ¯ alone. It’s not easy butit canbe done. ¯ When Harold was diagnosed with can- : cer of the right lung andliver, we decided ¯ he would not be placed in a hospital or : nursing home. He wanted to die at home, : withdignity, surroundedby those heloved. ¯ for fifty short day, I provided his care, not ¯ out of a sense of duty or obligation but : because of the love and friendship we ¯ shared. Because of that love I was by his ¯ bed as he took his last breath- he did not ¯ die alone or among strangers. ¯ On June 6, 1995 at 9:15 pro, I lost my ¯ best friend, my parmer, my lover butI ." have seventeen years ofwonderfulmemo- ¯ ties of our friendship and our time to- " gether. ¯ Harold & I had a good relationship ¯ because love grew from our friendship. If : a relationship is going to last you must ¯. first start as friends. Basing a relationship ¯ on sexual desires is a recipe for disaster. ¯ Although I miss Harold and think of ¯ him daily, the memories of what we had ¯ will remain with me always. ¯ John A. Reynolds is afreelance writer currently residing in Tulsa. secret fiom his family and friends, he did not want to be subject to a "whispering" campaign from Lucas supporters. Henoted his membership in the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) and declared his support for civil rights. Specifically he ¯ mentioned his opposition to laws banning ¯ same-gender marriage, saying courts and ¯ churches should be free to make their ] decisions based on the Constitution or ¯ their theology. ¯ .Barby is contributing $25,000 person- " ally as seed money to the estimated ¯¯ $350~000 required to run a campaign in the large rural and urban district (41% of ¯ the district is urban taking in the north- " west corner of OKC). He is working with ¯" longtime OKC political activist, Keith ¯ Smith on thecampaign. Barby also said ¯ he’d talked with the Human Rights Cam- - paign (which funds national offices) and the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund (which ¯ only funds local and state races). He also ¯ was meeting with the Cimarron Mliance, ¯ OKC’s Lesbian & Gay political acdon : committee. Dead in Nat’l Park LURAY, Va. -’ Two women - Julianne Williams of St. Cloud, Minn., and L0llie Winans of Unity, Maine - who were considered experienced outdoor guides and believed to have been lovers, were found dead in the Shenandoah National Park in Virginia earlier in June, authorities said. Williams, 24, and Winans, 26, were apparently murdered. Both the National Park Service and the FBI are investigating the deaths, although neither agency would give details of the apparent slayings. Both women worked as outdoor intern guides in 1995 for the Minneapolis-based women’s vacation group, Woodswomen, andwere consideredexperiencedand skillful at camping in the wilderness. Park officials said the women were found after the father of one of them reported that she had not shown up at home as scheduled. Authorities declined to say how the 2 women were killed, but said they may have been dead for a few days before their bodies were discovered. Tennessee Sodomy Statute Overturned NASHVILLE- The Tennessee state Supreme Court has let stand a lower court ruling overturning the state’s anti-sodomy statute. Earlier this year a state appeals court ruled that Tennessee’s Homosexual Practices Act violates state .cgnstitutional privacy guarantees. Several Tennessee residents originally challenged the state law, arguing that prosecution under the anti-sodomy statute could cost them their jobs, homes and families and that private sexual behavior was not the state’s business. Presbyterians & Homosexuality ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. - In a vote by delegates from the denomination’s 171 presbyteries, 57% voted for an amendment against ordaining active homosexuals. Activists said they were disappointed but that the vote represented an improvement over the last assembly in 1991. Delegates attending the general conclave of the Presbyterian Church (USA) have had a full plate of issues on their agenda during the confab, but overriding many items is the question of ordaining homosexuals in the ministry. Not only was the question of ordaining gays a direct issue with competing proposals to effectively bar ordaining gays or leaving the issue in the hands of local churches, but larger issues such as joining associations with other denominations also focused the delegates’ attention on the role of gay clergy. In considering whether or not to join with the United Church of Christ, the African Methodist Episcopal Church, the ¯ AfricanMethodistEpiscopal ZionChurch, the Christian Church (Disciples ofChrist), the Christian Methodist Episcopal Church, ¯ the Episcopal Church, the International Council of Community Churches and the ¯¯ UnitedMethodist Church in the unifying Church of Christ Uniting organization, ¯ one overriding concern for many conser- ¯ vative Presbyterians has been whether ¯ gay clergy in the other churches that or- " dain homosexuals could minister to Pres- ¯ byterian congregations. ¯ The organization’s human sexuality & ¯ ordination committee recommended that ¯ ordination should be limited to individu- : als who observe "fidelity within the cov- ¯ chant of marriage between one man and ¯ one woman - or chastity in singleness." ¯ Although the Presbyterian Church has ¯ officially welcomed gays and lesbians to ¯ its congregations for decades, it has also ¯ long barred"self-affirming, practicing homosexuals" as ministers. Aug. Conference: Get Out the.Vote "- WASHINGTON - The Human Rights -." Campaign is sponsoring a conference of ." gay andlesbian rights activists in Chicago ¯ a week before the Democratic National : Convention begins there in late August : and early September. Political heavy- ¯. weights thatHRC expects to appear at the ¯ Aug. 16-28 confab include Sen. Carol -" Moseley-Braun (D-Ill.), openly gay Rep. "_ Steve Gunderson (R-Wise.), and Housing ¯ Secretary Henry Cisneros. The con- . ference’s chief agenda will be getting out : the gay and lesbian vote this November, ." an issue that’s increasingly concerning ¯ aftivists who fear many gay voters have become wary of President Clinton and ¯ would be unlikely to support retired U.S. Sen. Bob Dole’s presidential bid. ¯ TV Gold: Louganis’ Story to be Biopic HOLLYWOOD - The entertainment in- " dustry newspaper Variety reports that the ¯ USA Network is producing a made-for- " television movie based on Olympic gold ¯ medalist Greg Louganis’ autobiography, ¯ Breaking the Surface. The TV bio is ex- ¯ pected to air sometimenext year, although : the cable network says none of the roles ¯ have yet been cast. ¯ Largest.Ever Pride Parade in Utah ¯ SALT LAKE CITY - Recent anti-gay : actions by Utah lawmakers, including a : ban on gay iliad lesbian clubs at public ¯ schools,mayhavehelpedmakethis year’s -" annual Gay Pride Day event the largest in the state’s history, organizers said. Thousands of people - both gays and straights - turned out for this year’s parade and festival. One parade organizer said the state legislature had done "more for us than we could ever do for ourselves" in drawing such a large crowd. Keynote speaker at the event was Chastity Bono, daughter of actress Cher and U.S. Rep. Sonny Bono (R-Calif.), who told the audience that Utah activists fighting anti-gay legislative efforts in the state had "advanced the entire community’s fight for human rights." Canadian Gov’t to Extend Benefits OTTAWA -TheCanadianHumanRights Commission has ordered the government to offer health care benefits to the gay and lesbian partners of national workers the same as it does to the spouses of married employees. The ruling was prompted by complaints by two gay federal government workers and applies only to the country’s civil service employees. The commission ruled that it was "discriminatory to deny benefits to those in a samesex relationship while extending the same benefits to heterosexual couples." Fire documenting anti-gay policies and actions in the U.S. armed forces, has been granted one of 21 prestigious "Genius Awards’r by the MacArthur Foundation. Berube’s award carries a no-strings $300,000 cash grant that recipients are free to spend in any way they wish. The California-based foundation has. granted more than $150 million since it began making the "Genius Awards" in 1981. Bernbe said the money will make it possible forhim to finish work on his current project, which is a study of the role of gay shipboard workers inthe 1930s and 1940s whohelp form one of the nation’ s earliest multiracial labor unions. Utility to Help Gay Youth Programs Ohio Anti-Gay Vote To Be Reviewed WASHINGTON - In an action that won cautious praise from rights activists, the U.S. Supreme Court has ordered a federal appeals court m Ohio to reconsider an earlier decision that an anti-gay measure, known as Issue 3, approved by Cincinnati voters in 1993 is constitutional. A federal court had initially struck down the Cinciunati measure, but the appeals courthad reversed that ruling, declaring the antigay measure was constitutional. Issue 3 ,would have repealed anti-bias measures based on sexual orientation and would have also barred any future legislation of the kind, The Supreme Court, however, by a 6-3 vote, ordered the appeals court to reconsider its ruling in light of the high court’s overturning in May of a similar anti-gay ballot measure approved by Colorado voters. In apress statement, Melinda Paras of the National Gay&LesbianTask Force said "While we will not know the full implications of the Supreme Court decision until the lower court’ s revised ruling, clearly the high court’s decision on Amendment 2 has taken the wind out of Issue 3’s sails. We are making progress toward ending intolerance and educating Americans about who we are.’" Gay Author Wins ’Genius Award’ SAN FRANCISCO - Allan Berube, the author of the book Comin~ Out Under ." SAN FRANCISCO-California’s Pacific : Gas & Electric, the utility’ s Lesbian, Gay &Bisexual Employees Assn., and the San "- Francisco-based Horizons Foundation : have joined in an effort to offer greater _" support for younger gays and lesbians in ¯ theregion throughapublicity andfunding ." effort. PG&E is setting up a matching ." grant fund up to $20,000 to help under- -¯ write education and social programs operated for gay youth through Horizons. The giant utility will also help publicize _" Horizons’ youth programs throughpublic ¯ service annonncements andbus-stop shel- ¯ ter advertising. Denise Wells, president ¯ ofHorizous’boardofdirectorssaidPG&E ¯ was demonstrating "a valuable leadership ¯ that canmotivateus all to contribute to the -" community."PG&Eofficials saidtheutilityhadmadethemovebecause it is "espe- ¯ cially committed to a safe and healthy environment for youth." Mayor Extends Partner Benefits PHILADELPHIA - Philadelphia Mayor Ed Rendell has announced that the city will now offer health-care and familyleave benefits to the same-sex partners of non-civil service workers. The package will extend the same benefits to domestic partners that the married spouses of city employees currently receive. But only about 500 municipal workers would be covered by the mayor’s executive order. Activists in the city have been working for more than 5 years trying to get a city council ordinance that would extend a similarbenefits package to Philadelphia’s full 25,000 municipal employees. CardinalAnthony Bevilicqua, theArchbishop of Philadelphia, urged Catholics in thecity’s 121 RomanCatholicchurches to swamp Mayor Ed Rendell with Fathers’ Day cards protesting his recent executive order extending benefits to the same-sex domesticpartners ofjust a small portion of the city’s Workforce under the PI AlrERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street * Suite 170 *Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 * Res: 918-582-7672 * Fax: 918-747-1795 Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 Mayor’ s administration. Bevilicquacalled the order "a tragic mistake" and "a direct attack on the natural arrangement of family life."A spokesperson for Rendell told reporters at apress conference that Rendell has "no intention of rescinding the order" despite Bevilicqua’s opposition. Harvey Milk School SAN FRANCISCO - The San Francisco school board trustees have voted, after several years of controversy and one earlier failed attempt, torenamethe Douglass Elementary School in honor of assassinated gay supervisor Harvey Milk. The school will now officially beknown as the Harvey Milk Civil Rights Academy and will emphasize classwork in civil rights areas. Milk was shot along with Mayor George Moscone in 1978 by Dan White, who hadjust resigned from his seat on the board of supervisors and who was an outspoken opponent of gay rights. Several parents at the school¯ board meeting raised objections both tonaming the school after Milk and to the vote itself, which they said came without adequate time for public discussion. Official Threatened ’Support of Gays’ SAN FRANCISCO - Amos Brown, a Baptist minister recently appointed to fill a seat on the city’s board of supervisors over the misgivings of many gay rights activists, has been given special.,police protection after a man outside his church handed him a letter condemning him for supporting "sodomites of the city" and promising "swift and terrible" retribution against Brown. Similar threatening notes were found on cars in a nearby church parking lot. Brown’s appointment to the vacant seat on the board had been criti- : in a scene implying a homosexual relationshipbetween the twomeninsults Willy ¯ Wyler and, I have to say, irritates the hell ¯ out of me." Vidal has said ininterviews that Heston ¯ wasn’t Wyler’s first choice for the lead ¯ role, but that "Paul Newman and Rock ." Hudson were not available." Vidal says a ¯ scene in which Ben-Hur and the villain- ." ous Roman Marsallaembrace was written ¯ in to the film to establish a sexual relation- ¯ ship between the men because such a failed relationship was the only way to ¯ justify theintense hatred between the two ¯" men that develops later. "Then, when re¯ united at the picture’s start, the Roman wants to pick up where they left off mad ¯ the Jew [Ben-Hur] spurns him," Vidal ¯ wrote in the Times. ¯ Sheriff Sued Over : ’Anti-Gay Assault’ REDWOOD CITY, Calif. - A 63-yearoldmarriedgrandfather andretired teacher ." has filed alawsuit against the San Mateo : (Calif.) County sheriff’s department, charging that an officer brutalized him after he had stopped at a vista point along an interstate highway to see if there was an easier route to his destination at Half ¯" Moon Bay. The suit claims the officer : believed the suspect was gay and seeking ¯ sex at the spot. E. Lon Chancy Jr. charges ¯ in the suit that Deputy Timothy Reid : tripped and assaulted him as he was re- : turning to his car after asking another ¯ parked driver for directions. The suit charges that Chaney was so severely bat- : tered that he suffered a stroke during the ¯ incident and that an ambulance had to be ¯ called to take him to ahospital. Chaney’s : suit - which names Reid, the sheriff’s ¯ department and San Mateo County as ¯ defendants - claims the deputy shouted ¯ into his police radio, "I’ve got one" after but apparently decided they didn’t really want to actually endorse banning discrimination in marriage rights. S.F. Moves to End Colorado Boycott ¯ SAN FRANCISCO - Openly gay Super- : visor Tom Ammiano has introduced a : measure that would repeal a 1992 ordi- ¯ nance that effectively barred San Francisco from doing business with firms in Colorado after voters there narrowly approved an anti-gay ballot measure, Amendment 2. Ammiano said the U.S. Supreme Court’s recent ruling declaring Amendment2 unconstitutional eliminates the reason for the original boycott, which barred San Francisco from purchasing goods or services made or offered in the state of Colorado and prohibited use of government funds for the state on official business, including conventions and conferences. sex with other men and exposed him to HIV as a result. Attorneys for Cliburn, 61, said he has not been tested for HIV and that Zaremba’s suit was little more than a form of extortion. i No Nudity in Parade ¯ BOSTON - Proper - and not so proper - : Bostonians clashed following this year’s : annual Gay Pride Parade, where reports ¯ say a nude man walked on stilts and 2 ¯ bare-breasted women fondled each other. : Mayor Thomas Menino was joined by : parade organizers in condemning what ¯ they termed "inappropriate and unlaw- : ful" behavior during the parade. Organiz- -" ers of the parade said the nude man and : topless women were not registered to par- : ticipate in the parade itself and joined the ¯ event, attended by an estimated 100,000 : people, along the route. Officials offered ¯ to help police locate the people for pos- ¯ sible prosecution. The city council has : vowed to hold hearings on why police ¯ didn’t arrest the people during the parade. Texas Court Lets GOP Exclude Gays " AUSTIN, Texas - The Texas state Su- -" preme Court blocked a temporary order ¯ handed down by a lower court just days ~ before and ruled unanimously that the ~ state Republican Party does not have to grant the gay Log Cabin Republicans a booth and ad space during its annual state convention. A lower state court had ordered the state GOP to give the Log Cabin group the booth, for which ithad cashed a $400 check from the gay Republicmas, British PM Critical of Grants to Gays LONDON - Prime Minister John Major told Parliament that grants from proceeds of the country’s popular National Lottery ~ to London and Leicester gay and lesbian ¯ organizations - one a community center, ¯ the other a gay andlesbian police officers’ group - were "ill-founded and ill-judged." ¯ The two grants, totaling slightly more than $140,000, do not "reflect the way ¯" Parliament’and the public expected lotmad to sell the organization space in the " tery money to be spent," Major said durconvention brochure, for which it had ¯ ing a speech in the House of Commons. o received another check for $750. ¯ : The state party made an emergency : Dontt These - .appeal tothe TeXa~ higll courtfollOwing - ~ ~ .... ..... ......... ] the lower court ruling on Friday, June l4, ¯ Have Work To cized by several rights activists who view his opposition to domestic partners and other gay rights issues in the past as homophobic. Because of the suspected arson attacks against several black churches recently, police said they would "take precautions" not only to assure the safety of the newly appointed supervisor but also for the minister’s predominately black church. Heston vs. Vidal: Clash Over Ben-Hur HOLLYWOOD-Actor Charlton Heston and playwright Gore Vidal have been trading barbs in the pages of the Los Angeles Times recendy over work Vidal did on the film"Ben-Hur"nearly 40 years ago that he says implied a homosexual relationship between 2 lea.ding characters in the film, including Heston’s lead character. Heston called Vidal "a tart, embittered man" whose "claim that he slipped ¯ the arrest, and that when paramedics ar- ¯ rived he told them to use rubber gloves ¯ because "This one’s probably got HIV." Chaney’s attorney says the incident re- " fleets a pattern of arrest and abuse by ; police in the area of anyone they believe ¯ may be gay and that his client just had the ¯ badfortune to be in the wrong place at the : wrong time. ¯ Minnesota Dems: ¯ No Discrimination - i Except in Marriage : MINNEAPOLIS-MinnesotaDemocrats ~ adopted a full 100 resolutions at their ¯ annual state convention, rejecting just 1 ¯ proposed platform statement - a resolu- : fion supporting same-sex marriage rights. : The Democratic Farm Labor Party (as the ¯ Democrats areknowninMinnesota),over- : Whelmingly adopted a resolution con- : demning "all forms of discrimination," -" and the justices took only a few hours to ¯ issue the order blocking the lower court decision. StateGOPofficials said the con- : ventionis apfivateeventandnota"public : forum," and that the party wanted to ex- ¯ dude the LOg Cabin booth and adverfis- ¯ ing because the party platform officially ¯ opposes gay fights. Palimony Lawsuit Dismissed ~f. WORTH,Texas-ATexas state court ¯ judge has thrown out a palimony lawsuit filed by Thomas Zaremba of Michigan : against internationally famed classical pimfist Van Clibum, saying there was no : written agreement about financial sup- - port between the two menduring their 17- ¯ yearrelationship,andthat the statedoesn’t ." recognize such same-sex relationships. ¯ Zaremba, 48, had filed the suit claiming, : among other things, that during his relai tionship with Cliburn, the pianist had had ¯ ANCHORAGE, Alaska - Alaska state ¯ officials say they have no plans to file ¯ criminal charges against Bethel Police ¯..Sgt. Scott Gagne, who had been under ¯ investigation for possible sexual harass- . ment, including masturbating with 2 other police officers at the station, ¯ Investigators say that Gagne and other ¯ officers had talked bluntly about their ¯ sexual relationships with women, and that ¯ they had masturbated together at the sta- ¯ tion. 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Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 World HIV Projections BALTIMORE-Writing in Internal Medicine News, William Blattuer of the Uni- .versity of Maryland’ s Institute of Human Virology has projected that some 20 million people around the world are now infected with HIV and that some 100 million people will be infected by the year 2000. Blattner also says the spread of HIV has changed rapidly in recent years and that by the turn of the century more than 90% of all those infected will be residents of developing cotmtries, with a higher incidence in Asia, followed by African nations. In related news, Zimbabwe’s National AIDS Coordination Program reports that the epidemic continues to spiral there, with at least 40,000 new AIDS cases reported in the country last year, while the actual number of new cases may be as high as 150,000. The agency says that more than a million of Zimbabwe’s 10.5 million people are infected with HIV, and that an estimated 300 die 0fAIDS-related illnesses weekly. AIDS Shapes World Demographics NEW YORK - The annual UN Human Development Report, slated tobe released later in July, says the impact of the AIDS epidemic has become so vast that it has affected thelivability levels ofsomecountries for the first time since the international agency began issuing its "~mnual assessment of global development. The report’s index of livability indicates that some developing nations have fallen as much as a decade behind in their expected progress because of the epidemic. In a related develrpment,, the independent PopulationReference Bureauhas reported that although the global population con~ tinues to grow d~amati€~lly, the AIDS epidemic is causing measurable shifts in world population patterns. The bureau reports thatalthough sub-Saharan Africa’ s total population by 2025 will be 1.25 billion people, that number will be 100 million lower than projections madejust a decade ago - almost entirely because of the epidemic. Countries such as Botswana, Kenya, Malawi, Uganda,ZambiaandZimbabwe will be the hardest-hit, the bureau says. HIV in Kenya NAIROBI, Kenya- A fourth of all the Kenyan women visiting pediatric and infant- care clinics in the capital city of Nairobi are H-IV-p0sitive according to a survey completed by the U.S. Agency for International Development. Just one year ago, a similar study found that 3.5% of all Kenyans were infected with the virus Gray Newton of the USAID office in Nairobi told the Xinhua News Agency. By the beginning of this year, Newton says, that figure had more than doubled to 7.5% Of the nation’ s population. Eliminating HIV in Some Is Possible AMSTERDAMnAtaconference ofAIDS researchers held by the University of Amsterdam and the dinical journal Antiviral Therapy, scientists reviewed unpublished data suggesting that"eradicating" HIV in some infected patients may be possible. The datais being collected from ongoing trials underway in Australia : Europe, Canada and the U.S. involving ¯ the use of a variety of HIV drug combina- ¯ tions. According to the information col- " lected so far, some patients involved in ¯ the clinical trials have had the level of ¯¯ HIV in their blood stream lowered to undetectable levels for up to 2 years. The ¯ scientists involved in the trials cautioned, ¯ however, that none of the patients have ¯ been taking the combinations of medi- ¯ cines long enough yet to determine long- " term effectiveness. ¯ ¯ Blood Transfusion Risk is 2 in a Million : BOSTON - According to a report in the ¯ New England Journal of Medicine, the ¯ chances of receiving HIV-tainted blood from the nation’s blood bank system is : just 2 in every million transfusions. Re- . searchers at the Rockville, Md.-based : Westat Inc. calculated the odds of receiv- ¯ ing a contaminated transfusion after ex- ¯ amining the records of more than a half- . millionrepeat donors. The estimates were ¯ based on calculating how many recently ¯ infected donors might give blood during ° the 22-day period when the virus cannot ¯ be detected. Some 586,507 regular donor ¯ records were examined. ~ Herbal HIV-Fighting Substance SINGAPORE- Singapore scientists re- ." porting in two research journals say a ¯ chemical compound derived from some ¯ 75 traditional herbs may usefulin fighting HIV. Dr. Sim Keng Yeow of the National : Uni-versity of Singapore said that the researchers had found that the chemical : they isolated from the herbs could inhibit ¯ HIV- 1 protease, an enzyme essential for ¯ HIV to develop. Yeow cautioned, however, that the discovery was not a bure for AIDS and only a preliminary finding. In a related development, researchers at the : China Academy of Preventive Medicine ¯ in Beijing announced that an experimental herbal medicine, known as Saidefu, .., may have helped eliminate HIV in 1 pa- ¯ tient and helped others become well " enough that they could stop hospital care ¯ and go home. The researchers said, how- . ever, that Saidefu had only been tested on ¯ 5 patients so far and that the tests hadbeen ¯ limited to only a 3-month period. They ¯ said that much more testing would be ¯ required because herbal remedies that of- " ten appear effective initially may have ." only a temporary or transient effect. ¯ International AIDS ¯ Conference VANCOUVER, Canada- Organizers of the 1 lth International AIDS Conference : say the event’ s scope and size underscore ¯ the growing global commitment to fight- . ing the epidemic. Between 9,000 and : 10,000 delegates are expected, along with : another 1,500 registered commercial ex- ¯ hibitors. Some 1,500 mediapersonnel are : expected to cover the conference as well. ¯" Peter Hamara, spokesperson for the ¯ event, said the Vancouver conference has ¯ received a record 5,,6_26 research studies to be presented, the.~asis and core of the ¯ clinical program of the conference. The ¯ studies, Hamaranoted, werereceivedfrom ¯ 125 separate countries around the world. ¯ The World Health Organization esti- ¯ mates that globally there are at least 17 ¯ million adults infected with HIV, and that : more than 11 million- or65% - are in sub- Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell,LCSW Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 HIV Positive? 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The next worst-hit region is South and Southeast Asia, where at least 3 million people - or 18% of the global total - are infected with the virus. "Many ofour participants this year will be from HIV support organizations, from communitygroups,fromnon-governmental organizations," Hamara said at a news conference before the event officiallybegan. "So while the conference at its core is still a medical-scientific conference, the participants and the diversity of research studies have broadened as the epidemic itself has broadened." Organizers say that there is some encouraging newsboth onthe educationand the medical fronts that is leading many of those fighting AIDS to begin expressing a subdued - but real - optimism. The conference, carrying a theme of "One World, One Hope," will be the first since the new class of highly promising drugs knownas protease inhibitors gained approval in the U.S. Some AIDS experts now believe these new drugs, while far from a "cure" for the disease, may actually for thefirst time in 15 years make it a manageable one. But others remain cautious, pointing out that thenew treatments are not effective for everyone, they have undesirable side effects, and no one yet knows if they will be effective medicines in the long term or if they will lose their ability to fight offHIV as other drugs have in the past. Equally disturbing, there have been unconfirmed reports that the new protease inhibitors may be extremely dangerous in combination with antihistamines, even the type sold over the counter. AIDS activists in the U.S. say there have been 2 deaths resulting from heart attacks because of patients using the protease inhibitors in ¯ plans for their 3rd annual "Until-There’ s ¯ A Cure" day. AIDS activist and artist " Mary Fisher and U.S. figure skating cham- ¯ pion Rudy Galindo will appear at this ¯¯ season’ s benefit game on July 28 against the Atlanta Braves. The Giants. will do- " hate $1 from each ticket sold to the Until ¯ There’s A Cure Foundation, which will ¯ distribute the money to AIDS-related ¯ ¯ projects and organizations. Other funds will be raised through merchandise sold ¯ during the game. The Giants have raised more than $250,000 for AIDS education : and treatment since starting the event in : 1993. Navy Announces : New AIDS Therapy : BETHESDA, Md.- Researchers with the ¯ U.S. Navy say they may have discovered ¯ a new therapy to help prevent or limit the ¯ spread ofHIV ininfected patients. Scientists at the Naval Medical Research Insti- ¯ tute say the treatment involves dramati- ¯ cally increasing the number of uninfected ¯ CD4T-cells-or whiteblood cells thatare ¯" the target ofthe virus- in patients infected ¯" with the disease. The Navy researchers cultured the T-cells of 10 intermediate- ¯ stage AIDS patients, whose immune sys- ¯ terns were still fairly intact. Even more ¯" significant, when the researchers stimu- . lated uuinfectedT-cells and exposed them ¯ in test tubes to HIV, the cells were highly ¯" resistant to the virus. The scientists say ¯ that if the technique works in humans, it ¯ might prevent the deterioration of the ¯ body’s immune system and counteract ¯ some symptoms of HIV infection. The Navy will begin a small-scale clinical trial ¯ to test the safety of the new treatment this conjunction with~antihistamines.;ff~.e°n~--: :~ dents whose blood cells: vier¢::us firmed, the reports could prove a serious . making the cultures. stumbling block to thenew drugs because antihistamines are so widely used in the : U.S. There is also optimism about education " efforts, especially in developing nations : like Thailand and Uganda, where programs to fight the spread ofHIV appear to have been especially effective. An aggressive government-backed AIDS education program in Thailand, for example, has led to HIV infection rates dropping in nearly all the groups that the government monitors - military recruits, commercial sex workers, and IV drug users. Rare Form of HIV! Virus Now in U,S, LOS ANGELES -Officials with the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention say anunnamedLos Angeles womanhas been confirmed as the first person in this country to be diagnosed with Group O HIV, a strain of the virus that is largely restricted to West Africa. According to-the CDC report, thewomanapparently was infected inherWestAfricanhomelandbefo.re coming to the U.S.U.S. health officials said standard HIV tests should be modified to detect the Group O strain to prevent accidental contamination ofthenation’ s blood supply. Current HIV tests usually do not detect the Group O strain of the virus. SF Giants AIDS Day Fundraiser SAN FRANCISCO - The San Francisco Giants, the first professional sports team to host a fundraising benefit for AIDS ou $100K NEA Grant for Quilt Project SAN FRANCISCO - The National Endowment for the Arts has given the NAMES Project a $100,000 grant to help photograph and create digital images of the nearly 34,000 panels that currently make up the huge AIDS Quilt The photo project includes plans to create CD-ROM versions of theimage~ thatwouldbe viewable via a home computer and via computer services storing the digital images. Actress Jane Alexander, chair ofthe NEA, said works of art like theAIDS Memorial Quilt "embody compassion and the creative spirit" that have been spurred on in the face of the "crisis that has devastated the lives of so many Americans." Suit Filed Over HIV ’Rumors’ SAN ANGELO, Texas - Attomeys for Gilbert De La Paz have filed a federal lawsuit against Henry Hogeda, the owner of Henry’s Diner, charging their client was fired as a waiter solely because of rumors De La Paz has AIDS. The lawsuit claims that Hogeda before firing the 27- year-old De La Paz, Hogeda said that he had heard the man had AIDS and that the rumors would "destroy" the restaurant’s business. The suit also says De La Paz, who says he is notinfected, offered to take anHIV test to provehe was uninfectedbut he was fired anyway. News sources have reported that Hogeda’ s lawyers claim De ; to customFrank. Frank stopped short of asking that Cobum’s remarks be stricken from the Congressional record. Rep. Frank demanded, that supporters of DOMA tall him how his longstanding rdationship with his partner Herb Moses threatened their marriages. "How does the fact that I love another man and live in acommitted relationship withhim threaten your marriage?" he asked. "Are your relations with your spouses of such fragility that the fact that I have a committed, loving relationship with anothermanjeopardizes them? My God, what do you do when the lights go out?" Tulsa 1st District Rep. Steve .Largent replied, "Mr. Frank’s relationship with another man does not threaten my marriage whatsoever." "Whosemarriage does it threaten?" Frank demanded. "It threatens the institution of marriage," Largent said. "That argument ought to be made by someone in and institution because it has no logical basis whatsoever," Frank said. In the Senate, an identical bill has been introduced in the Senate by Oklahoma Sen. Don Nickies. However, Sen. Edward Kennedy, D-Mass. is trying to attach the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) barringbias inemploymentbased on sexual orientation to DOMA as a strategy to force anti-gay lawmakers to vote against the anti-marriagemeasurebecause of the pro-gay provision. Sen. Nickles said he opposes ENDA, saying he didn’t want to force an employer like the-Boy Scouts ofAmerica to hire homosexuals or to require a landlord to rent apartments to Gays. It remains uncertain if the Kennedy amendment will even get enough support to attach it to DOMA. "There are some values that deserve protection," said Sen. On-in Hatch, RUtah, chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, ofDOMA. "It isn’t a political issu.e....It’,,s a very important family values Issue. Critics of DOMA called it thinly disguised bigotry during a public hearing before the Senate Judiciary Committee. "I regret that the committee is spending time on this offensive, unnecessary and divi- " sive legislation," Sen. Kennedy said. ’‘The bill before us is called the Defense of Marriage Act, but a more accurate title would be the Defense of Intolerance Act - or evenmore accurately, the Defense of Endangered Republican Candidates Act." Gary Bauer, president of the conservative Family Research Council, denied being bigoted. ’~It is not hatred to support normalcy," he said. At the White House, Mike McCurry, Clinton’s press spokesperson, agreed with Kennedy’s assessment of the measure~ McCurry stated, "I think~ in fact, it [DOMA] is. gay baiti,ng pure and simple. They’re rinsing an issue that, in fact, doesn’t arise anywhere. The Hawaii stat= ute-- the Hawaii issue is alegal issue that .. had been remanded back to a lower court, ° so this is not a pending matter. And it’s a ¯ classic use of wedge politics that are de- : signed to provoke anxieties and fears.." That being thecase, though, the President , has very strong views, personal views, ¯ [against same-gender marriage] and he ." has to act consistent with those views." ," McCurry then repeated the President’s stated promise to sign the bill when Congress passes. -" Several national organizations released [ statements onthe Housevote. "The House .......t0..day turned its back on a fundamental human right for political expediency," said Laura W. Murphy, Director of the ACLU’s National Washington Office. ’qNis goes beyond legislators saying they are not ready to accept same-sex marriages," she said. "This is an unnecessary and mean-spirited attempt by some m Congress to select out lesbians and gay men for discriminatory treatment." She added that the vote on the same-sex marriage legislation will be included in the ACLU’s biennial civil liberties ratings for members of Congress. National Gay & Lesbian Task Force Executive Director, Melinda Paras released this statement. "DOMA is bogus legislation. It nether strengthens Americanfamilies nor marriages between men and women. Instead, it draws a circle around gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered individuals and proclaims that our families do not deserve recognition...Unfortunatdy the majority of the House of Representatives was not willing to stand up for the principles for which this country stands: tolerance, compassion and fairness. Instead, they fell into the trap set by the political extremists and their supporters in Congress...We will not stand by silently and be used.as scape-. goats in this dection year." Tulsa Oklahomans for Haman Rights (TOHR), northeastern Oklahoma’s oldest secular Gay & Lesbian community organization, issued a statement calling for the resignation ofUS Representatives, Tom Coburn of Muskogee and Steve Largent of Tulsa"for disgracing the state of Oklahoma by their vicious attacks on their own citizens while promoting HB 3396, the so-called ’Defense of Marriage Act’ "’. "Cobumand Largentact as though there were no Lesbian and Gay citizens in Muskogee, Tahlequah, Claremore, BrokenArrow, Okmulgee, Tulsa, or any place in their districts. With this vote, they’ve proven that they don’t represent - don’t even care about representing -any of their constituents except the ones who share their extremist ideology. They appear to believe that their Constitutional obligations only extend to those who think just like them," noted a TOHR representative. Roll call vote on DOMA: 342-67 Voting yes were 224 Republicans and 118 Democrats. Voting no were 1 Republican, 65 Democrats and 1 independent. Voting "’present" 2 Democrats. An~X denotes members who did not vote. There is 1 vacancy in the 435-member House. OKLAHOMA Rep. - Cobum, Y; Istook, Y; Largent, Y; Lucas, Y; Watts, Y. Dem. - Brewster, X. ARKANSAS Rep. - Dickey/X; Hutchinson, Y. Dem.- Lambert-Lincoln,X; Thornton, X. CUUC member, Jonathan Stanley, and CUUC president, Betty Anne Davidson noted that this UU congregation incorporates values from all the major religious traditions as wall as humanist and earthbased traditions (Native American and pagan). While Christian values are part of that mix, they are not a "Christian" oriented group. Currently the group is seeking apart,time pastor and the services are lead by lay people. Info: 749-0595 ]QUILT, A Musical A new musical c~ The NAMES PROJECT sprinkled with witty individual stories of life partne~ who have lost loved August 15-18 (S John H. Williams Theatre Tickets: $10 Benefits The Ca]]: 596-7111 Presented by Friends oJ junction with SummerStage Fest in part bya grantfrom the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust. 4TH ANNUAL SHANTI-TULSA, INC. WATER GARDEN TOUR Saturday, July 20, 10 am- 5 pm Sunday, July 21, noon- 5 pm New Selection of Gardens with a Variety of Settings Tickets $7 Call 749-7898 Proceeds will benefit Shanti-Tulsa, Inc., a United Way Agency for persons affected by HIV/AIDS TULSA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALEND R SUNDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Service, 10:30 am & 7 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11" am 2627b East llth 583-7815 Community of Hope (United Methodis0 Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family of F~iith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 : Worship Service, 11 am ¯ 5451-E South Mingo. Info: 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 MONDAYS ¯ HIV Testing ¯ TOHR Clinic ¯ Free & anonymous testing ¯¯ using fingerstick method. No appointment required. ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm ¯ Results hours: 7-9 pm ¯ Info: 742-2927 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 : Mixed Volleyball for ¯ Fun & Competition ¯ Helmerich Park, 6:30 pm ¯ 71st & Riverside ¯ Info: 587-6557 ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS : Support Group ¯ 2nd Mon. of month 6:30 pro, 4154 S. Harvard Info: 749-4901 OTHER GROUPS TOHR Helpline ¯ Daily 8-10 pm ¯ For info. or to volunteer: ¯ 743-GAYS ¯ The Technicians, Leather ¯ org., Info c/o 621-5597 . T.U.L,S~4. Tulsa Uniform ¯ & Leather-Seekers Assoc. ¯ Info: 838-1222 TUESDAYS : HIV+ Support Group ¯¯ HIV Resource Consortium 1:30 pm ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 ¯ Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. ¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group ¯ & Friends & Family ¯¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group 7 pm, call for location: ¯ 749-7898 Alternative Skating 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 $4, Sand Springs Skate Grief Group Butler/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 WEDNESDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Service, 7 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 ¯ Bless The Lord At All ¯ Times Christian Center THURSDAYS ¯ 16-Step Empowerment ¯ ¯ Group For Women : Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Co-Dependency . Support Group ¯ : 7:30, Family of Faith MCC " : Prayer & Bible Study ." 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth ¯ Call 583-7815 for info. Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. : Community of Hope ¯ (United Methodist) : Service for Peace, 6:30 pm ¯ Bible Study, 7 pm ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 ¯ TNAAPP ¯ Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project ¯ Support group ¯ for Gay &Bi Native ¯ American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd ¯ 582-7225 or 584-4983 ¯ HIVTestingTOHRClinic ¯ Walkin testing: 7 - 8:30 pm ¯ Results hours: 7 - 9 pm ¯ Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale ¯ Weekly practice, 9:30 pm ¯ LoWs 2630 E. 15th ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group ¯ 1 st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 ¯ Alternatives Weekly social events for ¯ LGBT men & women, 7 pm ¯ Info: 646-5503 ¯ Substance Abuse ¯ Support Group : for persons with HIV/A1DS ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G ¯ 3-4:30 pm, Info: 749-4194 SATURDAYS st. Jerome’s Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: bather Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous ¯ Meets weekly at 11 pm : Confidential support for ¯ recovering addicts. ¯ Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E.2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Student ¯ Association ¯ TJC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 JULY 19 - 21 AIDS’Mastery Workshop in oKc Info: Betsy Jo Murphy, 584-2325 In Sept., an AIDS Mastery in Tulsa. SATURDAY, JULY 20, 10-5 SUNDAY, JULY 21, NOON-5 4th Annual Shanti-.Tulsa Water Garden Tour The garden at Our House, Quaker near 13th St., is on the tour. You can begin there and get the addresses for other sites. Info: 749-7898 SUNDAY, JULY 21 What the Bible Does (and Doesn’t) Say About Homosexuality FamilyofFaith MCC 9 week class at 9:15 am, 5451-E S. Mingo Call to verify date: 622-1441 Christmas in July Family! ofFaith MCC 1-3:30 pro, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 SUNDAY, JULY 21 Community ofHope Service & Dialogue on Capital Punishment 6 pm, Community of Hope 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 JULY-26-27 LocalMotion Foundation, 6th Annual Contemporary Dance Festival ~ John H;Williams Theater Tulsa Performing Arts Center $10, Info: 596-7111 TUESDAY, JULY 30 Rainbow Business Guild Dinnner Meeting 7 pm, Pizzeria Uno Eaton Square, 61st & Memorial Dinner!~10,Info: 665-5174 " " ,.. FRIDAY, AUGUST 2 ¯ Safe Haven Young Adults Meeting Contact Family of Faith MCC : 5451-ES. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, AUGUST 4 Family ofFaith MCCPotluck Dinner Service, 11 am 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 AUGUST 5, 6 & 8 Regional AIDS Interfaith Network Volunteer Training 5:30-9pm, Trinity Episcopal Church 501 So. Cincinnati, Info: 749-4195 SATURDAY, AUGUST 10 TOHR Pool Party Call for details. Info: 743-4297 MONDAY, AUGUST 12 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group, 6:30 pm Social andRefreshments, 7 pm General Meeii~g; 7:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard~ Info: 749-4901 THROUGH AUGUST 18 Durer toMarius’:Muster Drawings fronvthe Nelsod:Atkins Museum ofArt Philbrook Museum of Art 2727 So. Rockford Road, Info: 749-7941 ¯ AUGUST 15-17, 8 pm : AUGUST 18, 2 pm : QUILT, A Musical Celebration to benefit THE NAMES PROJECT ¯ John H. Williams:Theater ¯ Tulsa Performing Arts Center ¯ $10, Info: 596-7111 : SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 14 : Feast with Friends Benefit ¯ Start planning noW! Info: 748-3111 THE NAMES PROJECT AIDS Memorial Quilt : Since its last showing in Washington, : DC, THE NAMES PROJECT AIDS Me- : morial Quilt will have doubled in size, ¯ and the need for volunteers has grown ¯ accordingly. Petrie Dolph of Houston, is ." seeking 1500 volunteers from the Central ¯ Region (which includes Oklahoma) to ¯ help as Quilt monitors, site guides, merchandise/ sales, set-up, first aid, education ¯ and more. ." The Quilt willbe on display on Oct. 11- .. 13 on the National Mall before the Capi- ¯ tol. It’s estimated that more than 750,000 : visitors,including50,000schoolchildren, ¯ will march on over 26 miles of walkway : fabric to see 45,000 memorial panels and : to hear70,000names read-more than are ¯ carved into the nearby Vietnam Memo- . rial. ¯" Contact Pen’ieDolph, Central Region : Volunteer Chairperson at 713-729-9662, : or write to4309 Sfillbrooke Dr., Houston, ¯ "IX 77035. ¯ Regional AIDS ." Interfaith Network : Regional AIDS Interfaith Network : (RAIN) is seeking applicants for its vol- ¯ unteer co-ordinator position. This job in- ’ eludes staff support to 250+ volunteers. ¯ The ideal candidate will have demon- . strated ability and experience in working ¯ with volunteer care andprogram develop- : ment in the context fo a compassionate, ~ non-judgemental, faith-based response to ¯ HIV/AIDS. Hours include some daytime ¯ for staff meetings and coordination, but : primarily evening.and weekends. For in- . formation or to submit aletter of interest and resume, contact Kathy Bird, RAIN, 4154 So. Harvard, Suite H- 1, Tulsa 74135, voice: 749-4195, fax: 749-4213. Interfaith AIDS Ministries Interfaith AIDS Miuistries is forming a "Spirituality&HIV/AIDS" supportgroup. This will be a place whereparticipants can explore and share their personal spirituality as well as the relationship between their spirituality and living with HIV/ AIDS. The focus will be on individual spirituality, not any parti.cular organized religion. No attempts to influence, convert, or proselytize participants will be allowed. IAM is also seeking volunteers to help with the 2nd Street Carnival Benefit to be held on Sept. 21st at Southminster Presbyterian Church. For information, cal! Richard Reeder at 663-5372 or Diane Zike at 438-2437. Living Well! - An Exploration of Healthy Living Options The HIV Resource Consortium has started a new group called "Living Well! - An Exploration of Healthy Living Options". This educational group to promote wellness and healthy living is for persons affected by HIV/AIDS,including anyone living with HIV or AIDS, partners/ caregivers/friends/family of those living with HIV/AIDS and HIV/AIDS providers, The group meets on Wednesdays from 6:30 - 8:30 pm at The Gathering Place, 4154 So. Harvard, Suite G. Topics will rangefrom "Eating for Health", "Anxiety Reduction" to "Strategies for Staying Calm & Healthy". There is no cost. For more information, call 749-4194. COCONUT BEER BATTERED SHRIMP RACK OF LAMB FRESH CLAMS PRIME RIB COQUILE ST. JACQUES VEGIE STIR FRY CHOCOLATE SOUFFLE 5 Summit Eureka Springs AR 72632 Bed & Breakfast Area l~eservation &Information Service "Like going to Grandma’s" ¯ Gay-owned in the Historic District. We offer traditional B&B a Romantic Jacuzzi Suite & a private cottage on the grounds. ¯ Booking for Eureka’s Finest Gay, friendly establishments ¯ Walk or ride trolley to town. Reservations - Brochures -Information 800-- 253 - 1468, x882 Local: 501 - 253 - 7468 Your Host: Fred A. Janney Geek to Go! The PC Specialist, 501.253.2776 Phyl Boler-Schmidt Systems & S~oftware Specialist POB 429, Eureka Springs 72632 Books, Incense, Candles and Rainbows] Plus lots more! (501) 253,5445 45&1/2 Spring Street Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com AUTHENTIC ITALIAN RAINBOW CUSINE TROUT ofEureka Springs Recommended by The New York Times (501) 253-6807, Closed Wednesday 5 Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 Gay-owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud by Phyl Boler-Schmidt Eureka Springs has been a happening place this Summer, and there appears to be no abatement in sight! The end ofMay saw the annual Blues Festival, and though this is not specifically a we turned out in droves. Music continues, as it the Ozarks, through July 20th with Opera in the Ozarks at the Inspiration Point Fine Arts Colony. Commonly referred to as Opera Boot Camp, the annual opera season is a gruelling one for the performers. All practices and performances are staged outdoors, and it’s a sight (and sound) to behold for - folks of all orientations. This year’s season features La Bohome by Puccini, Don Giovanni by Mozart, and Die Fledermaus by Straus. All are fullystaged orchestra productions and. wall worth a trip to Eureka Springs - for an evening of opera, and a few days to enjoy the rest of what Eureka has to offer. For reservations and information about Opera in the Ozarks, call the Inspiration Point Fine Arts Colony at 501-253-8595. If Jazz is more to your liking, you will be happy to hear the 12th Annual Eureka Springs Jazz Festival is approaching with due speed. This year’s Jazz Festival will be held from September 19-22, and there will be music all over town. Featured performers will be Stanley Turrentineand Abroad Aladeen & the Deans of Swing with.concerts heldon Friday and Saturday evemngs at the Historic Eureka Springs City Auditorium. This year’s JazzFest will also feature nightly parties sponsored by the Eureka Springs Jazz Society in the Basin Park Ballroom. JezzFest performers will also entertain at the Jazz parties. The Jazz Festival hotline is 501-253- 6258. Call early to reserve tickets for the concerts as they are one of the hottest tickets of the season, & they sell out q ck y. Queer Eureka has had several shots in the arm this Summer, and the community has been very active in event organizing. On June 23rd, there was a Tea Dance and AGLTF (Arkansas Gay & Lesbian Task Force) membership drive held at Center Street South. It was a celebration of pride lesbigay event, always does in Music continues tl,e O~ar~s...commonly ret~erred to as Ope.a Boot Camp, the .annual o~.era season IS a ~ruell~n~ one ¯ and a chance to take a break from a hectic ¯¯ Summer, an opportunity to kick back and relax with friends. ¯ Coming up at the end of July - the : weekend of the 26th - there will be a ¯ camping weekend held at Lake Leather- " .wood Park sponsored by AGLTF. All are ¯ invited to attend. Comeprepared to spend a weekend in the fun and sun of the Ozarks with friends. You’ll be glad you did. Also coming up is the annual Eureka Springs .Gay Family Reunion, held m September at Beaver Dam Site Park. This event offers an opportunity to share in the community spiritofEureka’s lesbigay population. Food, fun, games, and a chance to ¯ meet new friends are a hallmark of this event. Stay tuned for date ¯ and time. : And, anytime is a good time to visit and ¯ enjoy the beauty Eureka Springs has to offer. There aremany t’melesbigay-owned ¯ shops and lodging facilities to visit, and ¯ lots of area attractions worthy of note. ¯ One absolute must-do when in our little ¯ utopia is a visit to the Emerald Rainbow. ¯ Linda and MC always have some kind of ¯ reader scheduled on the weekends, and : there is a weekend of aura photography planned for the same weekend as the ¯ AGLTF camping extravaganza. For in- " formation on the schedule of events at the : Emerald Rainbow, call 501-253-5445 or ¯ email: emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com. ¯ Jim and Brent’s Bistro holds Famil~ ¯ Night the first Thursday of every month. ¯ The restaurant is closed to the public, and ¯ it’ s amuch-anticipatedmonthlyeventwith ¯ good food and good friends. A portion of " : the proceeds from each Bistro Family : Night goes toward some worthy lesbigay ¯ cause, usually a different one each month. ¯ When you plan your trip to Eureka ¯ Springs, be sure to check out all the finest ¯" lodgingavailable. You canview thefinest in Eureka Springs lodging, and all kinds ¯ ofrelatedbusinesses andevents on-lineat ¯ http://www.eureka-usa.com/ ¯ And, Positive Idea Marketing Plans al- ¯ ways has the inside line on where to stay, ¯ what to do, who to see. Send E-mail to ¯ emerald@intellinet.com or Call PIMP at ¯ ¯ 501-253-2401. Join us in Eureka Springs. You may never want to leave! A World of Thanks! r(Mcl lun0 alty, Inc. to Joe McClung & R.J. Jenkins on the sale of our lakefront home and the purchase_of our dream home¯ We appreciate you! Billie Hadley & Connie Swadick READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library Of all the topics surrounding the gay fights movement, one of the most contentious is the role of religion, not only in public law, but in the lives of individuals. Most people are exposed to some sort of religion,howeverminimal, during their upbringing. Balancing those early teachings with the realities that arisein adolescence and adulthood is the focus of Wrestling with the Angel. Twenty-one well known gay men from various religious backgrounds have contributed very blunt and entertaining short essays about how religion has impacted their lives. Contributors include National Public Radio reporter Frank Browning, authors Andrew H~lleran and Brad Gooch and former bishop Antonio Feliz, They span the religious spectrum from Baptist, Lutheran, Catholic, Mormon and Jewish to Hindu mad Muslim. Poet Kevin Killian presents an interesting history of growing up in ahigh school staffed,by Franciscans. He, and some of ¯ the staff, realized his orientation only af-. : tez it became clear that, while other boys ¯ were listening to and comparing scandal- : ous rock songs, Kevin found musical poetry in the original cast album of My Fair Lady~ resource ~or ~ay men want:~n~ to come to terms wlth tladr past, present, religious identi ieatlon. by James Christjohn ". When,] first heard that.Disney was,, adapting q’heHunchbackofNotreDame " and saw the previews shown last year, I : thought they were nuts. How,I wondered, ¯ could they adapt this particularly tragic : story into a cartoon, and a musical one to " boot? Big mistake, I thought. Well, I was : able to see it the other night, and it was wonderful. It had an especially relevant " message: that it is a mistake to judge " others on the basis of looks or on the basis ¯ of stereotypes. Itmadeaninteresting statement about power and religion, religious ’ fanatics, and those who, instead of deal- " ing with their own issues, project those ¯ issues onto others and persecute them. ¯ Theplotrevolves aroundFrollo. a"min- " ister of (in)justice", who is out to rid Paris of all sin and evildoers. Chief among those who are the cause of evil are the gypsies. In the process of persecuting these unfortunate folk, he accidentally kills a gypsy woman and is about to kill her misshapen child. Akindly priest stops him, and Frollo raises the child in hopes Quasimodo (hterally, half-formed) will be "of use" to him. One condition: Quasi is to be kept hidden - in the ball tower of Notre Dame. On a festival day, the"Feast of Fools", he sneaks out to see what it’s like to be free. He is crowned the king of fools, and when the crowd realizes he’s not wearing a mask, is ridiculed. The gypsy, Esmerelda helps him, despite Frollo s insistence that the ridicule go on, to "teach a lesson" to Quasi. Esmerelda defies and makes a fool of Frollo, who then decides to bum down Paris until he finds her. Also thrown into all this is his In Lev Raphael’ s entry, To be a Jew, he remembers reading a "notorious homobashing essay" in the Jewishmagazine Commentary, whichhadthe opposite effect onhim. Instead of steering him away from the Fire Island lifestyle, it drew him in and he found it captivating. Wrestling with the Angel is a beneficial resource for gay men wanting to come to terms with their past, and present, religious identification. Reading these experiences makes it clear that, : whatever your religious dilemma, you are ¯ following in the footsteps of others whose ~ stories may be able to bring comfort and : consolation. Check for this rifle, and others on simi- : lar topics, at your local branch library, or : call the Readers Services department of ~ the Central Library at 596-7966. desire that Esmerelda be his - or die. He justifies his actions by blaming her for his desires and sin. Sound familiar? Well, needless to say, it is a film with a timely message. There are many characters (Falwell, Robertson, Swaggart, Dobson, Roberts, Jan and Paul Crouch) in real life that are interchangeable with Frollo and his attitudes. And how timely a film, seeing as the Baptists are boycotting Disney because of the fact that Disney provides benefits to same sex partners. Who do these folks think wrote and made Beauty & the Beast, Aladdin, Little Mermaid, to name a few? And probably every Disney endeavor that needed creativity and art to be realized? Anyway, I digress. Write letters of support to Disney, for their gayfriendly policies, and for this film. Everyone should see it. As a gaymanwho was persecuted from 2rid to 10th grade for being different, I could easily rdate to Quasimodo. I was called ahomobefore I everknew what the word meant, and I was a rather fat, un- ¯¯ sightly child during adolescence. Every day at school was like Quasimodo’s day ¯ on the square for me. I think some, if not ¯ most gay folk can relate to that feeling. ¯ While the relationships portrayed in the ¯ film are heterosexual, I think enough ¯ "asides" get through to be relevant to our Thecastperforms excellently, wxthTom : HulcemakingQuasimodoapoignant char- ¯ acter,handledwithmuch sensitivity- Judge Frollo is easily the most evil Disney vii- " lain ever to grace the screen. 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Name: Age: Address: City, St. &Zip: Telephone: by Jean-Pierre, TFN Food Critic Longtime residents will recall times enjoyed in one of Tulsa’s old movie palaces, The Brook, at 34th and Peoria, right next door to the old Lewis Meyer Bookstore, and across the street from the infamous Concessions. This location sat empty and unused for years until recently, when the late Mr. Meyer was unceremoniously evicted, and a complete rehab of the premises.took place. From the remains emerged a bank owned by the Wal-Martpeople and anew bar and restaurant which took the name of the old movie house. From the day itfirst opened this establishment has packed in the crowds, and on a busy night, expect a long wait for a table. The main door on 34th Streetis situated in such a way that the diner gets the impression he is being ushered in through back door of the bar and past the service area by the kitcher~, be- ,fore enteringthe din- ~ng areas. Along the w.ay, one passes a big p~ece of machinery that seems to be either clutter or just in theway, butoncloser Atmosphere: Casual inspection, it turns out to the old film projector from the Prices: Inexpensive theatre. The restanrant space has been completely redone, l’~ on-smol~lng section and now the decor is averycleanandmod- All major credit cards ern nod to art deco themes, with the walls lined with Reeommendatlon: cheap reproductions of oldmovie posters. Diners are seated C llst in large booths, and find small menus on the tables. First time diners almost always ¯ make the same error. Mistaking the table ¯ menus for a bar menu or selection of late " night offerings, they ask for "the" menu. ¯ Well, folks, there is only one. ¯ The menu centers around sandwiches, " mostly burgers. There are also several ¯ entree salads ($4.50-6.95),nachos ($6.75), quesadillas ($5.95), fried mushrooms ." ($3.75), &a couple of simple pastaprepa- ¯ rations ($4.95-6.95). A Mexican shrimp cocktail (peel and eat served with pico di " gallo, $6.25) and a shrimp en brochette " (six skewered and broiled shrimp, $6.95) ¯ round out the menu. That’s it. ¯ Of course, the main attraction of the " Brookis the bar, which takes up abouthalf " of the total space. Drink prices are moder- ¯ ate, and size and pour are average. Many people take advantage of the large side- " The Brook 3401 South Peoria ... Well, the food wasn’t ~reat, but at least if was cl~eap. eompIMnt was the service (or relatlre On every Gsit to the Broob, th;s has been a s m;lar re/rain... Hours: llam to 2 am Mon. through Sat. & until 11 p.m. Sundays Category: Bar with restaurant ¯ walk cafe, When more than a few people ¯ are in the bar, it gets very loud and noisy. ¯ On a recent visit to the Brook, we tried ." the parmesan chicken salad ($6.25), a ¯ seattering ofdeep fried, parmesan cheeseencrusted chicken chunks on a nondescript bed of lettuce, which was surprisingly tasteless. Our companion tried a basicburger andfries ($4.35). Even though ordered medium well, the burger was quite dry and lacking in flavor. The fries, made with ..... the skins on, were slightly undercooked, and we later amused ourselves by watching the grease drip and pool on the plate. Well, the food wasn’t great, but at least 1I was cheap. Our biggest complaint was the service (or relative lack thereof). On every visit to the Brook, this has been a similar refrain. The waitresses are less than attentive, and can often be seen congregated in the service area chatting with one another. -...= Management seems to have adopted a policy of the nearest available waitress handling any of the diners’ needs, whether that be seating, ordering, bringing food to the table, or refilling water glasses, but it has taken the unfortunate turn of none of the staff feeling responsibility for any ofthe tables. On our last visit, we heard the short order cook ring the bell and shout, "Order up!" when a couple of plates were put in the service window. A few rmnutes later, we heard him repeathis announcement with a stronger sense of urgency. Still, the waitresses chatted in the bar. Finally, a few minutes later, he stuck his head out and shouted, "Hel-lo! There’s hot food in the window!" Finally, a waitress reluctantly ambled over to deliver the meal. It is difficult to understand why this restaurant continues to pack in the people, night after night. It isn’t the food, and it certainly isn’t the service. Perhaps its the late night hours and the fact the kitchen ~. stays open. But, when you are bored with the dancers at Concessions, this is the place to go for that midnight refueling stop. Just don’t expect much, and you won’t be disappointed. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. 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Heidi Mollenhauer provides Esmerelda’s singing voice, and turns "God Help The Outcasts" into a showstopper. Her contribution is outstanding and I predict we’ll hear much more from this Broadway star. Seinfeld’s Jason Alexander is pleasantly obnoxious as the Gargoyle Hugo, Mary Wickes, a familiar voice and face to TV and Films lends a more common sense touch to Laveme, the more pragmatic ofthe three gargoyles who have befriended Quasi in his prison. This fill marks her last performance, as she died shortly hefore its release. Rounding out the trio, Murphy Brown’s staid Charles Kimbrough lends his voice and physique to Victor, the gargoyle least likely to take any chances. Look out for a tribute to the Wizard Of Oz, and tell me, just try to tell me, that a gay man was not involved in that sequence. The music is well written, and if you buy the soundtrack, you get a song called "God Hdp The Outcasts" sung by Bette Midler. 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Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, July 15-August 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 8 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Jamett James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Jim Grimsley legislation Log Cabin Republicans marriage Out and About Partner Benefits performing arts PFLAG Phyl Boler-Schmidt Pride Promise Keepers representation restaurants Ryan White care Act Saladin v. Turner schools Tom Neal Tulsa Family News viatication Wild Fork https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f08b8e922872665bdb7a83f72c65e3c6.jpg ee46606de85f0044484d4e3c8c58c79c https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4781a1987cd73c6d4d4f571c9161e9cd.pdf d92190beb5bdea81018b06edb7ac0fce PDF Text Text American Airlines, Pepsi, Busch, Coors, & ¯i Anheuser Miller Sponsor Pride Picnic Organizers of this year’s Pride Picnic have annoUnced the confirmation of American Airlines as lead sponsor of Tulsa: United in Pride, the 1996 Pride Picnic which is at Owen Park, 560 No. Maybelle at Edison Road on Saturday, June 15 .from noon. to 5pm. American Airlines, Tulsa’s largest employer, is donating two air travd tickets which picnic attendees can be eligible to win. Other major sponsors include Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller Brewmg Co. and Pepsi-Cola. Picnic orgamzers emphasized their thanks for the support of dub owners and entertainers who hosted and performed in benefit shows, in chronological order: Bill and Brian and their friends at Lola’s, Sensuous and John at the Tool Box, John & Steve at the Silver Star and Kirk & Terry at Concessions with apologies to anyone whose name’s been left out¯ This event just see Picnic. page 8 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families of the Heart CoUrt Kills Amendment 2 Tulsa Leaders Respond PFLAG activists, Bill & Cathy Hinlde, and Nancy & Joe McDonald flank Dallas Gay & Lesbian AllianCe Pres. Cece Cox, her spouse, Lisa Means, & Tom Neal at ajoint meetingof PFLAG, TOHR & Rainbow Business Guild. WASHINGTON - In a ruling that brought a collective sigh of relief from U.S. rights activists, the Supreme Court has ruled that Colorado’s anti-gay Amendment 2 is unconstitutional. Justice Anthony Kennedy said in the court’s 6-3 majority ruling that theColorado ballot measure was "inexplicable by anything except ill will toward homosexuals." The ruling found that Amendment 2 identifies people by the singletrait of their sexual orientation and denies them protection across the board "in a law unprecedented in American jurisprudence." The Court’s ruling invalidates the 1992 Colorado referendum that was narrowlyapproved by 53 percent of the voters and would have blocked anti-bia~dneasures in Denver, Boulder, Aspen and anywhere else in the state that adopted suchmeasures. The high court’s majority opinion found that Amendment 2 violates the Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection under the law, ruling that it illegally bars homosexuals from see CO, page 10 : Tulsa PFLAG Mom Testifies ’Against Anti-Marriage Bill ¯ Nancy McDonald, founder of Tulsa Parents, Familes ¯ and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) with husband ¯ Joe, and first vice president of the national board of .. PFLAG, testified against the so-called "Defense of Mar¯ nage Act" before the Constitution Subcommittee of the ¯ Judicial Committee of the US House of Representatives ¯ on May 15. TFN is honored to summarize or to reprint ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : " : Tulsa Library Nixes Gay Exhibits for Two Years While the Tulsa City County Library commission and Library administrators deny that complaints about an April Lesbian and Gay themed exhibit by Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays motivated them ,the commissioners changed the Library’s exhibit rides at a May 21st meeting so that a similar topic cannot be displayed for two years. Formerly library rules prevented the same organization from exhibiting more than once in 18 months. Under the new regulations, the same topic cannot be addressed more than once in 2-krnonths. Because of this change, Tulsa OklahomanS for Human Rights (TOHR)is now being denied penmssion to mounl an exhibit that-was scheduled for August. Library administrators say that the TOHR exhibit plans were never definite but were tentative. However, TOHR representatives claim that:they understood the date to be firufly settled with any question of ch_anging the date not arising until after controversy about the PFLAG exhibit started. TOHR’s spokesperson expressed sympathy for the harassment the Library had experienced and understood the LibraD¯’s desire to change its rules but regretted that Library administrators had not chosen to honor their prior commitment to TOHR. TOHR is currently seeking an alternate site for the exhibit, Love Makes A Family, a photo-documentary of Lesbian and Gay families with accompanying interviews of the couples and their children. portions of that testimony. McDonald identified herself as a mother and longtime educator and volunteer speaking in defense of marriage. In particular, McDonald identified the benefits of civil marriage and noted how those benefits are denied to same sex couples. McDonald said she wished she were testifying in favor of a bill that would grant equal marriage rights "see Congress, page 8 Federal Anti-Marriage Bill ¯ HIV Bias Lawsuit Won Paul Saladin has won his wrongful termination lawsuit Moves Thru Congress ¯ against his former employeer, Terry Turner, owner of The ¯ WASHINGTON - The far-right’s proposed congressional measure,known as the "Defense of Marriage Act" (DOMA), easily won approval of a House sub, committee by a largely party-line 8-4 vote, and is expected to reach thefloor of the House of Representafives for a vote by early July. The Senate companion measure should be reaching the floor of the upper chamber at about the same time, Senate leaders said. qqae measure, which would define marriage as the union of a man and a woman, effectively excluding same-sex marriages at the federal levd, has left rights activists at loose ends since it was introduced in Congress earlier in May, quickly, winning endorsements from the Republican leadership and the promise of President Clinton’s signature if it passed Congress. Clinton supporter David Mixner fumed on CBSsee Federal, page 10 French Hen. Saladin had filed his case under the federal ~ Americans with Disabilities Act which prohibit discrimi: nation on the basis of HIV!AIDS as well as other disabili¯ ties. ¯ The case is noteworthy because it is one of the first to : address discriminationbased on an association with some: one who is disabled. Saladin was fired from his job as a : waiter when one customer allegedly complained to man. agement after he heard another customer ask Saladin : about his late partner who was seriously ill with AIDS ¯ related infections. Saladin received modest damages of partial back pay see Case, page 8 More States Pass AntiMarriage Laws ¯ "Christian" syndicated television talk show host, Bob ¯ Enyart, appears to have been disinvited from the Promise . ¯ Keepers "Christian men’s" rally planned for June 15th at ¯ ¯ TU’s Skelly Stadium. Lesbian/Gay activists, pro-choice ¯ ¯ activists and moderate ~d progressive religious leaders -.: had objected to Enyart s participation because of his : ¯ documented remarks calling for the execution of "homo: ¯ and "abortlonlo,o’ ~,~ .......... ,~ weu as me dosing and/the ¯ ¯ sexuals" ¯ ¯¯ , phys~cal~ destruction of homosexual churches, clubs and : other establishments, as well as abortion diuics. Enyart " ¯ has acknowledged those remarks as accurately reflecting ." : his values in an interview with the Denver Post. ¯ The Rev. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congrega¯ tional Church said that the Task Force for Rdigious " ¯ Freedom and Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry were involved ¯ in persuading key Promise Keeper supporters to call for " ¯ Enyart’s removal. Allegedly, Rev. Pearson called the ~ national office of Promise Keepers to ask them to: ; organizers to remove Enyart. According to The ¯ World, local organizers would not comment on the pro- ¯ ¯ gram change, see Enyart; page 10 SPRINGFJELD, Ill. -~ Illinois .Gov.:Jim Edgar signed a measure barring the state from recognizing same, sex marriages, whether legally performed in other states or not, making the state that first repealed its sodomy statu_tes: over. 3 ~ decades ago ~- the 1.0th, U.S, state to prohibit recognition of same- sex marriages. Meanwhile, in Michigan and Pennsylvania, similar anti-marriage measures won approval in their respective legislatures. The bills in each of the 2 states need only to have differences in the language of their upper and lower chambers worked out before being sent to their governors for approval. North Carolina’s lawmakers, intheir effort to prohibit recognition of same-sex marriages that might be legally performed in other states, have been trying to quickly work around legal limits on the types of measures they can consider in a shortened special see States; page 10 "Promise Keepers" Boot ¯ Radical Extremist Enyart COMING SOON -ffiahoma Parade ; ¯ Follies Review’96 + MCC’s ?That’s Entertainment?. + State.HIV/AIDS Confere. nce + IAM Ice Cream Soc,al + Shanti’s Water.Garden Tour see page 9 P. 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 9 P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 �Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and ~aay not be Assistant Editor, James Christjohn reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Writers/contributors, Publicationndence of a name or phototodoes indicate that person’s sexual orientation. ~s assumed be fornot publication unless otherwise noted, must be Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspo " . " ........ =o~il,, News ¯ All correspondence ¯ Barry Hensley & becomes tlae sole property o~ ~u,~a -,~,- : s!gne~ d........ Jean-Pierre ~o oddress above ¯ Each reader is entitled to one fre.e co,p,,y~of~ia~coh a s nOUl(1 De Sent to ut~ Leanne Gross & Pat Morehead --- *’~’~;tional conies *- - ..... r" are available by calhng edition at distnouuon polnt~. ~uu, TulsaNews@ aol.com Staff Phot(x3rapher, JD Jamett 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 I~9 Tgdd Adams bY Phyl Bole’r-Sdhmidt " " i. ¯ i i.° "The religious right would like you to believe that despite their "Th~Godit~s ovhr! The~Amendment TwO battlemC°l°riad° hatemongering and anti-gay propaganda, they truly have com.has been a long gaul of Often drudgery for those of us involved in passion and geiiuine Christian concern for the homosexual. It ~s that fight. And, though it began in one state, the effects rippled not a personal bias, they claim, but only because of divine Biblical proclamation that they are compelled to preach this soacross our great nation. . . For me, the battle began one May evemng m 1991. I was living called threat to family values. on the western slope of Colorado, minding my own business, Consider then, the disproportionate lack of attention given to enjoyin my life and my vcork. Tha.t .evening: ,,the voters of ¯ the far more pervasive trend toward unmarried heterosexual Denvergre’ected an ordinance proposexl by a soc)auy-co,n,se,rva- ~ couples cohabitating. Isn’t this what the Bibli~ calls fornication, and isn’t this a sexual sin of equal magnitude as homosexuality? tive erou~ called Citizens for Sensible Rights that wou!a nave " remgved sexual orientation from the wording of the city s equal ¯ Just by the sheer numbers of people engaged in fornication protectionlaw. After their defeat, CSRandits statewidesupport- ¯ compared to those of homosexuality, one would think the former ers vowed to take the issue to the state level where, they thought, ¯ to be a far greater threat to those sacred fata!!y, value.s.A,ft,er ~1, their Dresumably heterosexual children woum seenungiy De ~ar ¯ more’susceptible to being recruited into this lifestyle rather than into homosexuality. Yet we don’t see nearly the kind of passion exerted on this proportionately mammoth threat to,fancily v,alue.s as we see directed towards gay and lesbian peopte. ~o why ~s ¯ there such a wide disparity of attention? The answer is twofold, ¯ and both are very basic to human nature: greed and ignorance. babydom in the gay rights movement before the Amendment The first reason is greed. The fact is homosexuality is very and thus stirs emotions. Marketing 101 will tell you Two vote. I’i,’e gone from an often timid addressee of lesbigay ¯ controversial the easiest way to pry money out of a pocket is to exploit concerns someone who be counted onstand to know thetoe issues inside andtooutTwho is not incan the least afraid to toe to with see Values, page 3 I never can remember those old sayings very well but there is this one that goes like this: may you live in interesting times - and I never could remember if that was supposed tO be a blessing or a curse. Wall, here we are at Pride 1996. We certainly are living in interesting times. Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Triinsgendered issues are being discussed more than they l~ave been at’any other time in the last two thousand or so years. And though our losses (to AIDS, to breast cancer, to the institutionalized violence and self hatred our society fosters) have been beyond imagination, and it is easy to feel that we are under attack each ~ime we turn, we are winning some. Colorado 2- do I need to say more?The highest court in the nation, and the source of both despair and hope for American minorities, finally has recognized us as citizens. Even here in Tulsa, we are making some progress. Although we are still marginalized by many of Tul.sa leaders, a few are recognizing our existence, our contributions to this city and our emerg- see Weary, page 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Concessions, 3340 ~. Peoria *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades:Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box. 1338 E. 3rd *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 832-1269 744-0896 749-1563 745-9998 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Meal.& Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 250-5034 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 743-5272 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria . 592-1521 Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 592-5356 D’Antiques, 1508 E. 15th 749-3620 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 665-6595 Don Carlton M~tsubishi,.4423 S. Memorial 838-8503 *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 743-9994 Express Pools & Spas, 6310 S. Peoria 690-2974 Foxlinx, Computer Consultation 744-0102 Leanne M. Gross, Financial Planning *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. 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Watts, attorney 743-1733 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities 599-7688 *Agape’ Christian Fellowship, 21st& Sheridan *Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Ctr. 628-0594 2627B E. 11 583-9780 *B/UG Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa *CommumtyofHope UnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 Dignity/Integrity ¯ (Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians) 298-4648 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 ,Free Spirit Womens Center, call f°r l°cad°n & inf°: 587-4669 Friend A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 FriendsFor in Unity Social Organization (African-Amer. 747-6827 men) ing political impact. And though we are poisoned by too many of the pathologies that growing up minrrity in America engenders, and although we are often unneces sarily cruel to each other, Tulsa is rich in remarkable individuals who dedicate hours of their time to building community ~md resources. These folks are too many to name them all. The3’ vary from those whom you recognize quickly, the McDonalds and Kirbys, to those who work a little more behind the scenes, the Newmans, S tames, Petersons and Gilleans to those who are rarely recognized but whose contributions are also critical. These people, their work and our progress, although slow, all are things for which we can be thankful. So take aminute to celebrate, to honor those who’ve gone before, to recognize how things are better. I have and will. Tulsa’ s sure a better place for us thanit was 20 or even 10 years ago. - Tom Neal POB 8542, 74101 425-4905 584-4983 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation 438-2437, 800-284-2437 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 838-1715 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood *HIV Resource Consortium 749-4194 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 748-3111 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4901 PFLAG , POB 52800 74152 74104 Prime-Timers, P:O. Box 52118 749-4195 R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 665-5174 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 646-7116 St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 749-7898 *Shanti Hotline Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (rOHR) POB 52729 74152 7434297 TOHR Gay HdpLine (info.) 584-1308 Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 838-1222 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *University Center at Tulsa ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Beaver Dam Store, 1/2 mi. N. of Dam Hwy. 187 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. *Emerald Rainbow, 45&112 Spring St. King’ s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W *MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-7457 501-253-6807 501-253-5445 800- 231 - 1 442 501-253 -9337 Rev. Nancy J. Horvath M. Div., Pastor Sunday 9:15 am Christian Education ll:00am Worship Service .... Wednesday 6:30 pm Midweek Service 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thursday 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group 5451-E S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa, OK ¯ 7414~ (918) 622-1441 �JUNE 15 Noon - 5:00 pm Opening Ceremony, lpm ¯ Blessing by the Rev. Leslie Penrose ¯ Welcome by TOHR president Debbie Starnes ¯ Performances by local entertainers, including Miss Gay Tulsa & Miss Tulsa USofA, Tulsa Family Chorale & The Banned from OKC! the most ardent anti-gay zealots. Wars will do that for you. Survival skills are something we either gain in a hurry, or we die at the hands of the enemy, sometimes literally, often figuratively. Of course, there are always battle scars too, and I watch myself, as well as others who have fought this one in the trenches, acting most times like we suffer from the more modem adaptation of World War II’s shell shock. Post-traumatic stress disorder runs rampant among civil rights activists of any persuasion. On May 20th, nearly five years exactly to the day after the Denver vote, I was catching up on some paperwork at my computer when the news came in via the Interact about the U.S. Supreme Court’s 6-3 decision declaring Amendment Two unconstitutional. There was no jubilant fist thrust into the air. There was no inyour-face queer political nose-rubbing of the opposition. I just sat th6re, staring at the two-hne news alert for over 30 minutes, occasional quiet tears of mostly relief surfacing. I believe it is important to remember that although the Supreme Court decision reflects a changed attitude on the part of the federal judiciary as it regards the humamty of lesbigay people, nothing has really changed legally. No tights have been gained. It remains okay to discriminate against us as a people in most of the country, & the fight for equality remains one we will need to address one person at a time. \Vhat has happened is imperceptible to people on the outside of our movement. We are a more confident people, more sure than ever before of our beliefs and our worth. We are more aware politically; we -know how to build coalitions, to raise funds, to seek out and solidify our bases of support, and we -know how to get the job done. We also have learned the tree value found in each other because we had to learn with whom we could be safe and on whom we could count when or if we needed someone. A~nendment Two was a right of passage for lesbigay people in Colorado. mad the tipple effects have forged growth in the movemeut throughout the land. Let us not waste that ~owth and the opportunity it presents to truly change our ~vorld. Our time has come, and our movement is coming of age, but let us not forget that we gain nothing in the wav of respect if we are not respectful of others. If we are going to ever have that kinder, gentler nation George Bush at least talked about. I believe it must start with us. emotions: lust,:enwy.., fear, hate! Therefore,dt is pr0fi~ble for the religious right to keep homosexuality controversial. Itis their greatest fund-raising tool. Even the most cursory glance at their fund-raising literature wil! reveal classic propaganda techniques; dehumanize the subject to remove any compassion people might feel, and present only the most extreme behavior as examples of that"lifestyle", behavior which, incidentally, many homosexuals themselves would find distasteful. These techniques are nothing new. They are the same methods used by the Nazis to persecute the Jews. The second reason is pure and simple ignorance. They fall to understand that we have exactly the same range of human emotions and feel exactly the same feelings they do; love, lust, guilt, jealousy, anger, compassion; just in a slightly different context, homosexuality is a normal, natural and healthy way of life for a certain percentage of the population. But because those feelings are foreign to them, the religious right assumes our lives to be wicked, perverted and disgusting. They fall to see that falling in love is truly a universal emotion with many varieties. So don’t be misled. The attention giveu to homosexuality has nothing to do with family values, if it did, more preachers would be concerned about the results of their hate speech: abandoned and abused children, gay teen suicide, substmace abuse. All of these are far more serious fmnily issues which deserve far lnore attention. Throughout the afternoon, ¯ DJ will provide music throughout the day ¯ Booths with vendors, community organization info., crafts, etc. ¯ Food for modest cost ¯ Free beverages provided by Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller & Pepsi ¯ Volleyball & tennis court available ¯ Kids’ playground ¯ Security provided all day by Tulsa Park officers ¯ Closing ceremony, with benediction by RF Renfro & Freedom Balloon Extravaganza! 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The bill now only requires the assent of the governor general, representing Queen Elizabeth II as Canada’s titular head of state, to become part of theCanadian Human Rights Act. Michigan School Harassment DETROIT- In a d~iay that angered:many, the Allen Park School Board decided not to decide yet on whether gay and lesbian students - or even students who are just believed to be homosexual - should be protected under the district’s anti-harassment policies. The mother of a 14-yearold student at Allen Park High School asked the trustees in May to include antiharassment policies that prohibit gay and lesbian students from being attacked or harassed on school grounds by other students. But the school board decided it wanted to take "more time to study the issue" before making a decision. Raymond Salliotte, an attorney representing the student and his family, told the board members they should be ashamed of themgelves for even having to take this long to decide on such a basic issue. School Gay CI.ui Compromise GLENDALE, Calif. - The Glendale school board averted the potentially explosive issue of gay and lesbian dubs at schools by rejecting a plan that would have required permission of parents for their high-school age,students to join any such campus clubs. Instead, the board opted for a compromise proposal that would inform parents of all the dubs authorized to meet at schools in the district so they could be aware of what groups there are at various schools. But parents would not have to give permission for their children in school to join any of the groups. Clinton ’Advocate’ Interview LOS ANGELES - In an interview in the Los Angeles gay news magazine The Advocate, President Clinton reiterated his view that marriage is an institution between a man and a woman, as a far-right bill in Congress declares, and says he is proud of his record of working to end discrimination agmnst homosexuals in theU.S, and of the large number of gay men and lesbians hehas named to posts in his administration.But in the interview, Clinton says of the controv ers y that erupted early in his term over ending the military ban, "There are some things I think I should have done differently." He says he now believes he should have first worked with congressional and Pentagon leaders to build a broader consensus on the issue, saying that possibly moving in "incremental steps" might have been a better way to approach ending the ban. The President, however, sidesteps questions in the interview about whether he would, if re-elected, renew any efforts to end the current restrictions against homosexuals in the armed forces. : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ : ¯ Oregon Initiative Called Off PORTLAND, Ore. - Lon Mabon, head of the anti-gay OregonCitizens Alliance, announced at a press conference that the organization will discontinue gathering signatures to put a new ballot measure before state voters this year in an effort to block civil rights protections for homosexuals. Oregon rights activists said the OCA move wasn’t surprising in the wake of the U.S. Supreme Court ruling in May declaring that Colorado’s Amendment 2, which the OCA had used as-a model, was unconstitutional. School Board Victory in N.H. MERRIMACK, NH - Two years of contentious tumult over an anti-gay policy may have come to at least a temporary end with the stunning 2-1 victory of Rosemarie Rung for a seat on the school board. The race registered the largest voter turnout in the town’s history and Rung’s election now means, that religious-right candidates who had forced the anti-gay policy through the board no longer hold a majority. Rung vowed dunng the race to work to repeal the anti-gay Policy 6540, which prohibits school employees from "’encouraging or supporung homosexuality as a positive lifestyle alternative." Ginny Cadarette, who also ran for the vacant seat won by Rung, had said she supported the anti-gay school policy. "This election proves that the citizens of Merrimack have the moral courage to reject the politics of fear and divisiveness," Rung said after the election win. "What the Radical Religious Right failed to realize when it moved into Merrimack advocating its agenda, from creationism to Pol,icy 6540, is that we truly believe in freedom of speech, and equal protection of the laws." S. Africa Gay Rights Protections CAPE TOWN, South Africa - With the new, first-ever constitutional protections barfing bias based on sexual orientation, the South African Parliament wasted no ti~ne putting theory into practice. On May 14 the lawmakers approved military policies prohibiting discrimination against women, gays and lesbians in the nation’s armed forces. The next day a memo from the leaders of both houses of Parliament outlined the travd~related benefits the partners of Members of Parliament are entitled to.identical to those of the spouses of married MPs. Anti-Gay, Anti-HIV Defense Bill Again WASHINGTON - The House has approved a $267-billion Defense Department spending measure that President Clinton has already said he would veto if it’s not changed by the Senate because of the many social issues that conservative Republicans have tacked on to it. The measure includes amendments that would discard the current "don’t ask,don’t tell" maned forces provision and institute an outright ban on homosexuals in the military. It also iududes the on-again, offagain amendment forcing the Pentagon to discharge any military personnel who test positive for HIV. The Senate version of the defense measure calls for the same spending level,but doesn’t contain the coutroversial amendments House Republicans added to the bill. The measure also iucludes a ban on the sale of sextmlly explici! magazines,such as Playboy and Penthouse, at military bases as well as a prohibition against U.S. military hospitals outside the country performing abortions,except in eases of rape, incest or if the mother’s life is at risk. Carolina Anti-Gay Measure Repealed SPARTANBURG, S.C. - Faced with the prospect of having the Olympic torch relay re-routed around the county and finding the men’s U.S.A.Gymnastic team pulling their training site, the Spartanburg county council has decided not to keep an mati-gay resolution it approved on Monday, Mav 13. The resolution, similar to ones passed by two Georgia county comnussions inn, has no actual legal effect but states that homosexuality is "incompatible with community standards." The comnussioners decided earlier in May to pass the resolution as a show of their support [’or Cobb County, Ga., which has been excluded as a site for Olympic Game events because of the resolution. But when the Spartanburg council was confronted by the American men’s gymnasts team ~;ith moving their training site elsewhere over the anti-gay measure and statements by the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games that it might re-route the torch run around Spartanburg County, the county council voted 4-1 to repeal the resolution. "QUALITY WORK UNBELIEVABLE PRICE" Ect,n x FOR APPOINTMENT ¯ QUICK SERVE 743-7141 ¯ PATIO BAR Traci Huntsman Owner 3225 S. Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 While Spartanburg was busy repealing its anti-gay resolution, the Greenville County council approved by a 9-3 vote an identical measure. The Olympic torch is slated to pass through Greenville on June 26, but a spokesperson for the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games said the group is unsure what - if anything - it may do about the approved resolution, which calls homosexuality contrary to "community standards" in the county. At least one ACOG member, however, was quoted in news reports as saying that the organizing committee "couldn’t function as a civil rights watchdog for the nation." Commitment Fair Called Off DETROIT, Mich. - A planned Gay Commitment Fair that had been slated for May 19 in the Detroit suburb of Holly where gay couples could peruse exhibits by riofists, photographers, jewelers and other marriage-rdated goods and services was cancded after the organizer of the event received hundreds of offensive and threatening telephones calls, the Detroit Free Press reports. According to the paper, Jeffrey Maxwell, the pastor at the C.alvary United Methodist Church in Holly read a news article about the planned private event to his parishioners, including the phone number to contact the promoter of the fair. The organizer of the event, who asked the paper not to identify him, called off the event at the last minute after being .swamped with menacing calls threatenmg to disrupt and picket the fair as well as at least 2 death threats. Maxwell said he didn’t believe anyone from his church made any of the calls. Proposal to Extend Partner Benefits SAN FRANCISCO-Gay SupervisorTom Ammiano has proposed legislation that would require most contractors working on city financed projects to extend the same domes tic partner benefits to its workers that it offers to the spouses of its married employees. Many of the city’s large corporations already offer partners benefits, but mo~t smaller firms do not, and the city controller’s office estimates that there are between 8,000 and 10,000 companies doing business with the city that could be affected by the proposed measure. The proposed ordinance would exempt firms located where domes tic partner programs aren’t in place, unless the company has a division office in the city as well. In those cases, only workers in the San Francisco offices would be covered. Business leaders here have not so far expressed any strong objections to the Ammiano measure, although the city’s Chamber of Commerce says it wasn’t consulted about.it beforehand. The mea-sure would be the first of its kind inthe US. BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. �Hewlett-Packard to Extend Benefits i Survey: World’s Full of Surprises PALO ALTO, Calif. - The HewlettPackard Company, a leading manufacturer of computers and computer peripheral equipment, has announced it will be adding health care benefits for the domestic partners of its unmarried ~...~ the U.S., probably by next y~~ Platt, chairman and CEO of the firm, said in making the announcement,"The extension of health-benefits coverage to domestic parmers continues HP’s ongoing efforts to create an inclusive environ~nent. We’re also enhancing our competitiveness as a great place to work so we can attract and retain top talent." Details of the program were not released, but the company said the benefits would apply to both same- and opposite-sex unmarried employees, and would extend to the couples’ children as well. The firm employs some 108,300 workers. LONDON - It was "good news-bad news" for the citizens of the new Russia as London International Group, one of the world’s largest condom manufacturers, released the results of its 3rd annual international survey of sexual behavior. According to the LIG survey, Russians are the 2nd most sexually active people in the world, led only by Americans. "Our survey will explode a lot of myths about sex," said Pauli Jakobsson of LIG. The study reports that based on surveys of 10,000 people in 15 nations,Americans have sex 135 times a year, trailed dosdy by the homy ex-comrades who succumb to Western bourgeois thrills 133 times annually. The former Soviets also trailed the Americans in their self-centered view of sex, with 61.% of U.S. citizens interviewed saying their own satisfaction was most important in sex. Some 42% of Russians said their own gratification was paramount, placing them next behind Americans. Thailand came in at the bottom of the list in terms of frequency of sex,averaging just 64 times per year. Of a list of notable personalities those interviewed thought were sexiest,Australian actor Mel Gibson topped the lisL while U.S. President Bill Clinton fell about midway and Russian Prime Minister Boris Yeltsin came in next to last, the unsexy honor of which fell to Poland’s Lech Walesa. Poles (presumably none of them eying Mr. Walesa) turned up as the most safe-sex conscious in the survey, with a full 13% of Polish respondents claiming they routinely carry condoms in their underwear, leading the Italians in their claims of having condoms on hand. Canadians, somewhat surprisingly, came in as the most hostile to the idea of safer sex, while the Russians did little better, ranking 12 out of the 15 countries. Canadians, however, also ranked 1st as the world’s most sensitive bed partners, with 51% saying satisfying their sexual partner was their top priority in bed. Another surprise the survey reports is that women respondents turned out to be more sexually selfish than men, with 31% .saying their own sati fraction was most ~mportant in the sack, while 25% of men said their own gratification was primo in bed. Challenge to UK Age of Consent Law LONDON - Euan Sutherland, a 19-yearold gay student, has been given the goahead by the European Commission on Human Rights to challenge the British age of consent laws before the Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg if Parliament doesn’t change the law.4n 1994, Parliament lowered the age of.consent for homosexual sex from 21 to 18, but the age of consent for heterosexual sex in Britain 1S only 16. And Suthedand petitioned government courts without luck to equalize the ages for all sexual activity, arguing that it was discriminatory. "It’s normal for a 19-year-old bloke to be going out with a 17-year-old girl," Sutherland said. "’If I was doing that [with another male] it would be illegal. Both of us would be breaking the law. There are jail penalties." Sutherland’s legal challenge is expected to be joined by another gay youth, Chi’is Morris, 16, shortly. Lipstick Lesbians NEW YORK - The women? s beauty and fashion magazine, Allure,includes excerpts from the soon-to-be-published book by Lindsy Van Gelder and Pamda Robin Brandt, The Girls Next Door: Into the Heart of Lesbian America.. The excerpt, entitled in the magazine "Some Lesbians Are Glamour Babes; Others Aren’t," lot-ks at similarities and differences between lesbians and straight women in makeup, body consciousness and similar beauty issues in alighthearted manner. Only problem is, although excerpts from forthcoming books are generally a sdling point for ~nainstreamraagakiii~’s,’Allui-d s~in~ ~6’ have neglected mentioning the excerpt on its cover. Ah, well. Probably just a"typo.’" Hawaii Dems Make Pro-Gay Moves HONOLULU- While many of the state’s la~vmakers grappled muchof the past year with the issue of same-sex marriage resuiting from what isexpected to be a state court victory for gays and lesbians, the stale Democratic.party made its position dear during its May 24-26 convention. The party’s central committee adopted a resolution opposing any future interfer- have to agree or accept the political corence by the state legislature or efforts to rectness of our day. There will ",always be change Hawaii’s liberalstate Constitution questions that have to be left hanging in the court battle. The Dems then went on while we wait for fuller answers. What we to oust Linda Rosehill from the key post must not do is walk away from one anas its national committeewoman in favor to Amy Agbayani. Rosehill has been very , other." Aside from the heresy trial in active in efforts to block the possible ¯ Delaware earlier this year, Carey has come legalization of same-sex marriages in ¯¯ ¯ under pressure from conservative Anglican clergy in Britain who have insisted thestate; Agbayani represented the ACLU that he condemn the previous Archbishop m testimony opposing legislative efforts. to block same-sex marriag~in the sta~e. .of Canterbury, Lord Robert Runcie, who xt was recently revealed had ordained Martin Rice, an openly gay Democratic ¯ priests he knew were gay. Party activist, was also elected to a position as one of the committee’s 3 vicechairs as an executive board member. Texas Log Cabin Episcopal Church: Gay Clergy OK WILMINGTON, Del. - A court of the Episcopal Church has ruled that it is not against church doctrine for a bishop to ordain sexually active homosexuals to the priesthood, thereby ending the possibility of a heresy trial against Bishop Walter Righter, 72, the retired Bishop of Iowa, for ordaining Barry Stopfel, who is gay, as a church deacon in 1990. The 9 presiding bishops had been considering the issue of whether Bishop Righter should face heresy charges for the ordination for 10 weeks. Their decision was announced from the steps of the net-gothic Cathedral of St. John by Delaware Bishop Cabell Tennis and included little in the way of comment or clarification except that there ~vas "no such written constraint" in church law agaanst such ordinations.The formal armouncement noted that the ruling was not "’an opinion on the morality of samegender relationships." And while Bishop Righter’s trial may be over, the issue itself may be far from settled, some church observers say. The Rt. Rev Andrew Fairfield, the l~ishop of North Dakota mad the onl y dissenting member of the court, said the nmnerous biblical condemnations of homosexuality, as well as Christian tradition and church teachings, hold that"the bottom line is. homosexuality of any kind is prohibited." Some conservatives predicted there would be a schism if the church’s general convention, which will meet in Philadelphia next year, doesn’t prohibit the ordination of sexually active homosexuals. Dr. George Carey, the Archbishop of Canterbury, urged Episcopalians not to over-react or act impatiently as the church struggles with its position on ordaining gay priests ~n a sermon commemoraung the 100th anniversary of the Los Angeles Episcopal Diocese. Carey warned Episcopalians against "walking away from one another" over the issue and said we ¯ must learn to get along with each other despite differences. "We need to learn a uew langnage .- alangu.age of.ac.ceptance and love of one another," Carey said in his sermon at the Cathedral Center of St. Paul in Los Angeles. "’I don’t mean by this we A PERMANENT SOLUTION Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla. St. Med. Bd. 488-0786 Near71st & Lewis Call for info, or an appt. with free consultation, Sue State GOP AUSTIN, Texas - The Log Cabin Club of Texas, a predominately gay and lesbian political organization, sued and won against the state Republican Party after the Texas GOP reneged on a contract for a booth at its state convention and on ad space in the convention prggram. The LOg Cabin lawsuit,filed in Travis County state court, charges the Texas Republicans with violating the organization’s First Amendment rights, bias based on sexual orientation, and breach of contract. Les ter van Pelt III, a spokesperson for the state Republican Party, toldreporters that Barbara Jackson, the state GOP’s executive director, had ma~.ethe decision to exclude the Log Cabin Republicans because of the party platform’s positions against homosexuality. "Sodomy is still a crime in Texas," van Pelt’~aid. Nonsense, say the gay Republicans noting that the booth and ad space hadhothing to do with sodomy. "...Obviously, no one is going to commit an illegal act in the booth." Your P,artners Program or Mine? WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. - In what is believed to be the first of its kind in the U.S., the West Hollywood city council has unanimousl y approved a measure that would extend full recognition of domestic partners registered in other cities with such programs while in the city. Domestic partnership registration offers few actual benefits anywhere in the U. S., but it could be important in cases for example where a visiting couple was involved in an acci, dent. One registered partner would have hospital visitation and treatment decision rights in such a situation if they were registered in another ci ty. On a more basic level, public businesses or events offering "’spousal"discounts in West Hollywood already technically are required to extend similar discounts to registered partners. And the new recognition measure should have the same benefit for visiting couples, the council hopes. Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa P AlrERSON REALIORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 �AIDS Epidemic: 15 Years of Death WASHINGTON - This year marks the 15th anmversary since thefirst cases of AIDS were diagnosed in the United S tates, although at the time,of course, no one knew what this strange new disease initially called "gay cancer" - held in store for the nation and the world. Globally, the World Health Organization reports there have been 4.5 millioncases of HIV infection, while in the U.S., there were 476,000 ~tses and 295,000 deaths. -FDA OKs Home- authorize $738 million for AIDS-related services in cities and towns around the cotmtry during the 1996 fiscal year, an increase over the 1995 level of $632 million. The measure also includes some $52 million in funding for states to provide new HIV/AIDS drugs for residents who can’t afford them, and $10 million for anew program aimed at getting pregnant women to voluntarily seek testing and counseling for HIV. In signing the measure, Clinton said he hoped no furore president would have to s~gn a similar spending measure. "By then, let us pray that we will have found acure for ,AIDS and a vaccine to protect every American," the President said. Testing Kit for HIV WASHINGTON -The U.S. Food & Drug Administration has approved the first home-testing kit for detecting HIV, the virus generally believed to cause AIDS.. The kit - known as the Confide HIV Testing Service - will be marketed initially at pharmacies in Texas. It will also be available through a toll-free telephone number based in Florida. The FDA said it approved the home-testing kit for people who would prefer the anonymity of home testing instead of using clinics or medical facilities. There’s no word yet on exactly how much the kit will cost, but it is expected to be priced at about $40. The ~e~." testing system will comprise 3 integrdted components: a home blood collection kit HIV antibody testing ata certified laboratory, and a center that, provides test results, counseling and referrals as needed. The FDA noted that the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention esumates that 60% of Americans at risk for HIV have never been tested for the virus. The test xs manufactured b.v Direct Access Diagnostics of Bridgewater, N.J., a subsidiarv of Jolmson & Jotmson. Critics of home’testing, however, say the "kit is [oo expensive and that counseling services via phone in such a situation seemed hit- HIV Particle Counts Aid Treatment PrvI’SBURGH, Pa. - According to anew study, doctors now have a more accurate way of predicting how long people inected with HIV will survive,thereby giving physicians better guidance in how aggressivdy to treat their patients. Dr. John Mellors and a team of researchers at the University" of Pittsburgh Medical Cen:er have confirmed the relative accuracy of an extremely sensitive new blood test that counts the number of HIV viral partides instead of the current method which relies on counting the immune system’s CD4 T-cells. "We found very stri -kingly that the amount of virus in the bloodstream predicted how individuals did," Mdlors said. "The more virus, the worse the individuals did, by which I mean the shorter time to developing full-blown AIDS and dying." The researchers analyzed blood samples from 180 gay men enrolled in a U.S.government study between 1983 mad 1991. They found that 49% of the men with more than 36,000 HIV particles per milliliter of blood died within 5 years. But only 5% with just oneninth tha{ amount of virus die.d that quickly. "The likelihood of progression ~ncreases directly with the level of AIDS virus in the or-miss. blood-,:’ Mellors said. "So we have a pretty good idea based on our study what the expected survival of an individual would be at a certain level of virus." Dr. Anthony Fauci, director of the National Institutes WASHINGTON-Researchers report that of Allergy &Infectious Disease says the a vaginal gel containing a drug known as researchers’ findings will let doctors make PMPA has been shown to protect female better decisions about when to begin treatmonkeys from the simian version of HIV ments and when "to change to possibly and may offer humans the same kind of more aggressive therapies. "If some indiprotection from the virus. Dr. Roberta viduals have very high set points [HIV Black of the National Institute of Allergy particle counts], even though their CD4 & Infectious Diseases,which sponsored cells are reasonably OK, you might want the study, said, "For women to have to more aggressively treat those people woman-controlled method is very imporbecause you know that you can predict tant so they canprotect themselves." Black they are going to do more poorly," Fauci said much more research is needed - insaid. "Whereas someone who has a low eluding studies involving humans- to de[HIV particle count], even though their termine whether the PMPA anti-viral gel. CD4 count might not be all that high, you could prove safe and effective protection might want to hold off on aggressive for women. therapy. So really, it’s a step towards using the steady state level of the virus much more as a tool both in prediction and in therapeutic decisions." 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The Orasure test appears to be as accurate as current standard blood tests,research indicates, but has the advantage of using saliva instead of blood,thereby potentially reducing the number of accidental needle-stick injuries to heal th care workers. The FDA also gave. approval to Hoffmann-l.aRoche’s Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Ginny Butler, RN MS Specialized in H1V Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - if you belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 �HIV Positive? New state-of-the-art investigational drug therapies are now available in the Southwest for HIV/AIDS and opportunistic infections. 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Reporting AIDS patients who take the oral form o[ ganciclovirreduce the risks of being’ " ’in the journal Science,researchers at the NatiOnal Institute of Allergy and Infecstricken by the blinding eye disease, cytions Diseases saythey have found a protomegalovirus (CMV) that often attacks tein, which they call "fusin," that must be PWAs in the advanced stages of the illpresent for HIV to infect white blood ness. Researchers at the University of cells, the primary target of the virus. EdCalifornia at San Diego studied 725 men ward A. Berger, who headed the team that during a 12-month program testing the made the discovery, said the discovery Hoffman-LaRoche version of gancidovir, gives scientists a "new handle on underknown as Cytovene and found that a daily standing" how HIV invades cells. "Obvidose of the drug reduced the risk of conouslythis is a potential target for developtracting CMV by nearly half. AIDS Drugs for HIVExposed Workers (918) 743-1000 Jeffrey A. 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The Harvard University researcher found that 6 of the 7 rhesus monkeys thevswabbed with SIV in the back of the thr~at became infected with the virus ,according to the report. The researchers also found, surprisingly, that far less of the virus - 6,000 times less - was needed to trigger an infection than is required to infect the monkeys rectally with the virus. The study’s startling results are so unlike other research and data about oral transmission risks that many AIDS and health workers immediately questioned the findings. Among other things, federal studies have only documented 15 cases of -known oral transmission and infection of HIV-since the epidemic began. Also, AIDS experts point out, unprote!~ted oral sex has continued to be popular among gaymen in the U.S. while the infection rate among homosexuals has steadily declined since the routes of trans= missio~a were discovered. Drug Combo Effective Serving a Diverse Community WASHINGTON - A 73-week study by drug manufacturer Hoffman-LaRoche of some 978 AIDS patients has shown that Invirase, the brand name for the firm’s version of the protease inhibitor saqui.navir, in combination with the drug ddC, reduced the rate of deaths by more than two-thirds compared to patients taking ddC alone. Saquinavir has been considered the least impressive of the new ing new drugs to treat HIV infection," Berger said. "Potentially by coming up with a drug that blocks the receptor, you might block the ability of HIV to replicate." The researchers cautioned, however~ that there were sdll many mysteries about the virus that need to be answered. Among other things, they noted that HIV attaches itself to some types of immune cells in the early stages of the infection without using fusin. This means HIV comes in variations that connect to CELl. cells and some other molecular cofactor or cofactors on these cells. Berger said that potential drugs that block the fusin receptor on cells could only do part of the job in combating HIV. Heat Treatment OK for Expanded Trials LOS ANGELES - The Indiana-based HemoCleanse Inc. has been given approval by the Food & Drug Administration to expand testing of itsblood-heating treatment of people infected with HIV. The 2nd phase of the trials will include 2hour treatments at St. Elizabeth Hospital in Lafayette, Ind., and the Harbor-UCLA Research & Education Institute in Los Angeles. HemoCleanse’ s treatment, similar to kidney dialysis, involves slowly drawing all a patient’s blood from his body in small quantities and heating it to 108 degrees Fahrenheit before infusing it back into his body. The ideabehind the treatment is that HIV is sensitive to even small increases in temperature and would be destroyed in massive quantities by the treatment. Sixty patients will be divided into 2 groups during the trials. One group will receive 2 treatments each - the first for I hour, and the 2nd for 2 hours.The other group will serve as a control group and will not receive the heat treatment, but will remain on standard HIV drug therapy. Global AIDS Briefs GENEVA - The World Bank has warued in a new report that up to 2 million of Malawi’s 11 million population will be infected with HIV by the year 2000 and the average life span in that so. African nation will drop from 57 to just 33 years. It adds that unless culturally conservative and devoutly Christian people in 22 So. Pacific island nations and territories alter their views about sex education and condom use, the AIDS epidemic yvill devastate that region as well. �Package includes: two nights’ Club Level accommodations at the Sheraton New York or Manhattan with daily continental breakfast and afternoon hors d’oeuvres, a first row center orchestra ticket to Victor. 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TOHR was asked by the former organizers, an informal association of ¯ to Lesbian and Gay cltazens instead of business owners (mosdy dub owners), to ¯¯ testifying about a bill that would deny equal rights. "I find instead of defending resume organizing the event. The Picnic continues their traditions with minor ¯ marriage, I need to defend the people changes. After complaints from many in- ¯ gay & lesbian people - who are being denied the right to marry. I do not believe dividuals about conflicts with Father’s :¯ we would be here today if our society did Day, the orgamzers responded by moving ¯ not have a deep bias against gay &lesbian the event to Saturday. Also due to ongoing problems with the Mohawk Park site, ¯¯ people. I say that not to lay blame, but to recognize the fact that we are’really in a the organizers unanimously approved civil rights discussion about gay & lesOwen Park as this year’s site. The Picnic is an informal affair with : bian persons.’" McDongld further gave examples of free beverages. Attendees are welcome to bring their own food or to purchase food " discrimination experienced by Gay perat a modest cost. Any funds raised by the " sons or persons perceived tobe Gay using Picnic (after expenses) will "aenefit the ¯¯ the story of one of her sons who was Gax & Lesbian Community Center Project ¯ beaten because he was perceived as Gay even though he happens not to be. and the City of Tulsa Park & Recreation ¯ McDonald adds that she perceives the Dept. A number of community organizations will have tables with information ¯ country to bein a"cultural meltdown" not because Gay people may marry but beabout their programs. Brief opening and cause "we have yet to overcome our intolclosing ceremonies will feature local en¯ erance and bigotry. We have yet to recogtertainers, including Tulsa Family Chorale, and Oklahoma City’s The Banned, a ¯¯ nize the richness in the diversity of all of marching band (who’ll be sitting down). ¯ our citizens:" McDonald closed by questioning the The Rev. Leslie Penrose of Community ¯ need for this legislation since the Hawaii of Hope and RF Renfro of Bless The Lord At All Times will give opening and dos- ¯¯ case that has prompted this response is tmlikely to be resolved for several years, ing blessings. Info: 743-2497. ¯ and maybe not favorably to Gay citizens. ¯ She called on Representatives not to tar" get Lesbians and,,G, ay men for discrimina." don butrather to ’foCus on the challenges and $2,500 for pain and suffering as well of the economy, of education, and health as attomey,’s fees. Saladin said to TFN ¯ care that face all of us." that his goal in pursuing legal action was not financial but rather trying to do what was right. 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OTHER GROUPS . 1st & 3rd Thursdays : " : $4, Sand Springs Skate ¯ 1"703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 : 4154S. Harvard,749-4901 TOHR Helpline OTHER GROUPS Metro. Comm. Church -" Daily 8-10 pm .. TNAAPP of Greater Tulsa ¯ For info. or to volunteer: Gay~i& Lesbian Student Alternatives Worship Service, 10:45am " Tulsa Native American : Weekly social events for : 743-GAYS " _~:. Association " 1623 N. Maplewood AIDS Prevention Project : LGBT men & women, 7 pm " TJ~-outheast Campus, The Technicians, Leather Info: 838-1715 ¯ ¯ Support group ¯ Info: 646-5503 L!nfo: 631-7632 try., Info c/o 621-5597 " Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay : T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform " Alliance. Univ. of Tulsa : & Leather Seekers Assoc. " 6:30 pm at Canterbury ¯ Info: 838-1222 : 5th & Evanston, 583~9780 SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 5pm. Owen Park 560 No. Maybelle at Edison Info: 583-1248 TUESDAY, JUNE 25 AIDS Walk ’96 Planning Committee 6 pm, 1608 S. EIwood for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd Substance Abuse : SW~4N-Single Woments Support Group Activity Network : ¯ for persons with HIV/AIDS ¯ Call 832-2121 ¯ ¯ h~tions make you who you are and what 3’our life is all about. It took working for : Tulsa Family News and Tom to get my by J.D. Jamett ¯ foot out the door and have me doing all Yes, the rumors are true. I’ll be leaving ¯ JUN E 28-30 stuff that ldonow. I don’t know if any of Tulsa to go live in our nation’s capital 7th Annual Oklahoma HIV/AIDS you realized this, but I’ve always tried to : SUNDAY, JUNE 16 !boy, talk about out of the frying pan and promote uni ty in this column as best I can. Conference "Sharing Our Strength" Family ofFaith MCC Father’s Day Serinto the fire). I would Oklahoma Center for I have seen this comvice with Father Rick Hollingsworth like to take this chance Continuing Education, 1704Asp, Norman Yes, the rumors munity from drag 11 am, 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 to thank a few people Info: Andy Southam, 800-942-1914 queens, cowboys, for the great opportuniare true. be leather folk, .Lesbians taes and genuine care WEDNESDAY, JUNE 19 SATURDAY, JUNE 29 and all the rest not havthey have given me. TCAP Advisory Council Meeting That’s Entertainment? Bad Drag Show ing not a thing to do Tom Neal, for being Noon, 1430 S. Boulder with the others; nut I Family of Faith MCC that OLDER fos ter- big 8 pm, 5451-E S !~ingo, 622-1441 have also had the brother (or sister) that nat~on s capital... FRIDAY, JUNE 21 chance to see this has always looked out Tulsa Regional HIV Prevention change. Please folks, to SUNDAY, JUNE 30 for me, and who has Community Planning Group Meeting don’t stop working toCommunity of Hope 3rd Anniversary been pu.shy,er.., push2:30 pm, 1430 S Boulder gether to make our ing me ~n the right diMeeting &Worship Service community better! 5 &6 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 rection. Geoff & Earl, JUNE 21 & 22 Well I’m getting a and the rest of that crazy Follies Revue, Inc. little choked up, so let for the .$r.eat op: group that I call my TUESDAY, JULY 2 Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies! me say my goodbye, chosen family - I will portumt es an l Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 6 pm, Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place and remember: next be ever indebted to you Meeting, 7 pm; Chouteau Rm, $125 & $40, Info: 437-0201 time you’re out and you mentally and physiChapman Ctr, TU, Info: 743-4297 see thatperson orgroup cally. of people you think you SATURDAY, JUNE22 Steve & John, please " i SUNDAY, JULY7 can’t stand, stop, smile Herland Sister Resources send the Burger Sisters ¯ Native American Worship Service and say something Concert: Freefall for a visit. Bill & Brain, Lola ¯ 6 pro, Community of Hope nice. It will make Tulsa a bet7 pm, 2312 NW 39th, OKC 73112 needs a star on the walk of ¯ 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 ter place for all of us. fame. Dennis, Larry, & tops, I almost forgot to Veronica - thanks for the ear SUNDAY, JUNE 23 name my last Queen of the : FRIDAY, JULY 12 Statewide Pride Rally & Parade bending and all the craziness. Month! This person has Larry and Leroy, thanks for : Interfaith AIDSMinitries Ecumenical Worship Service, The picked herself up, brushed all the support, and many othBanned, Metro Men’s Chorus, Sen. : Ice Cream SocialBenefit herself off, and continues to Bernest Cain, Keynote Speaker: : 7-10 pro, St. !vlatthew’s Episcopal ers from doctors and medical try to make herself a better staff to all my great friends. ¯ 601 No. Lake Drive Donna Red Wing- ’92 Advocate person. That’s right, guys, ¯" Sand Springs,/afro: 438-2437 If you had asked me years Woman of the Year Bobbie Sue Summers. 1 pm, program begins. 3 pm, speaker ago to go out into the commuRed Wing, 4 pm, parade begins. JULY 20-21 ~,~ty and do something, any:- Bobbi Sue Summers Editor’s note: JD will be Memorial Park, NW 35th & Classen ," thing to make it better, I 4th Annual Shanti-Tulsa Water greatly missed. While hls ¯ Blvd. Oklahoma City Garden Tour ¯ would’vetolAtyou,"YOU’RECRAZY! ~ unique skills cannot be imitated. Info: 743-4297 or 405-791-0202 No one cares about what I think." It just ¯ 10-5 pm, Info: 749-7898 Out+About will continue with a new club ," took therealization that youropinions and " OUT + ABOUT- H1 uve m our ...I would take this chance to thank a few people Senulne care they have Siren me. reporter in our July issue. �session. Complicated legislative ntles have slowed down movement on the bill, but there remains very little active opposition to the measure in the legislature itself. While gay rights activists around the country were celebrating the May 20 ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court overturning Colorado’s Amendment 2, SouthCarolina Gov. David Beasley signed in.to law. a measure barring same-sex mamages in the state. To find any good news in the same-sex marriage arena, activists had to look to Holland where the Dutch justice ministry announced it will be putting together a panel of experts to evaluate the possible impact of legalizing gay and lesbian marriages in the country. The Dutch Parliament has already voted in principle to support full equality in marriage rights for same-sex couples, but the government has continued to resist full marriage status for gays and lesbians, arguing that the international consequences for the tiny European nation could be enormous. The committee the justice ministry appoints will examine nfitional and international law s and treaties that might be affected by such a move. It will have a year to prepare its report, including recommendations for legislation. Washington, D.C.-based civil rights groups have been unable to find many political allies willing to publicly fight against the proposed legislation as it continues its rapid movement through both Incidentally, $1 million might seem houses of Congress. The Human Rights like a lot of money to you today, but in Campaign said that a Clinton endorseorder to generate an income of $70,000 a ment of the bill would be "’an unconscioyear for just 22 years of retirement, that’s nable capitulation-to religious political how much you’ll need to sock away (asextremists" and "demanded" that the Presisuming a hypothetical annual return of dent oppose the measure. 7.5% and inflation rate of 3.14%). Elizabeth Birch, head of HRC said, If you’ve been putting off investing, as "The statement by White House press yourself if it is going to be any easier secretary Mike McCurry earlier this week putting away almost three times as much that same-sex marriage wouldweaken the at age 35, than at age 25? Or, eight times family was silly and completely, inconsisas much at age 45? Your financial prioritent with the president’s prewous posities will change over the years and your tions regarding equal rights for gay men income .will increase. and lesbians." Openly gay Congressman However, whether you’re saving for a Barney Frank (D-Mass.) called the antihouse at age 25 or trying to juggle ¯ marriage bill"a tranSparent political issue Waiting To Invest Could nances to pay for your children’s educain ttie presidential campaign." Stephen tion age 45, chances are it will be just as Moakarsh, a Los Angeles board member Jeopardize Your Dreams! difficult. In addition, can you afford not to of Lawyers for Human Rights,said, "I benefit from the power of compounding? These are just some of the multitude of think he (Clinton) has been the first presiHow Can I Start Investing Now? reasons people use to explain why they dent to really include gays and lesbians at haven’t started an investment plan. InFirst, accept the fact that there is never the table. For that, I admire him greatly. vesting for the future is frequently seen as a convenient time to invest. The answer to But I think in terms of the marriage issue, a luxury, rather than a necessity. Somethis dilemma lies in paying yourself first. it’s unfortunate that he feds compelled to thing you do after you’ve taken care of Before you can do this you need to do a join with the GOP. My feeling is that cash-flow analysis to find essential livingexpenses. Clinton is trying to avoid a political fire Unfortunately, there is out where your money is storm that the gays in the military issue rarely any money left over -going. Warning! This caused him in 1993." alter doing that, so it’s might be a frightening easy to procrastinate. process. Once the numBut do you know how bers are laid out in front of much waiting, even a few you, you’re probably goyears, can cost you? The wai_tln , even ing to see several ways to seeking legal protections against discrimichart below shows the reducing your expenses. nation in housing, employment, health a l’ew years, monthly investment reEstablishing a spending and welfare services, education, and real quired at different ages to often helpful. estate sales. Justice Kennedy called "imcan cost you? planAsispart accumulate $1 million by of this process, plausible" Colorado’s central argument review your accumulation age 65, assuming hypothatAmendment 2 simply made gay and thetical 10 percent compounded rate of goals and determine a minimum percentlesbian citizens equal with other state return. age of your income that you’ll need to reside,n,ts by denying them any "special What this chart shows is the dynamic invest to meet these goals. By breaking rights.’ The majority decision was joined power of compound returns. Compoundthe task downinto manageable parts, you’ll by Justices Kennedy, John Paul Stevens, ing is the process where each year you not introduce discipline into your investment Sandra Day O’Connor, David Sourer, Ruth only earn money on you invested principrogram and increase your chances of Bader Ginsburg and Stephen Breyer. Dispal, you also earn additional money on the success ! senting were Justices Scalia, William money you earned. The amount you earn It’ll take a while, but the long-term Rehnquist and Clarence Thomas. grows or "compounds" at an increasing payoff for your discipline may be sweet. Representatives from serveral Tulsa orrate as the years go by. And remember, your financial consultganizations held a press conference at By starting an investment program at an ant will be happy to assist you with any of Community of Hope United Methodist to earlier age, you spread the accumulation the steps along the way including informrecognize the importance of the Court’s task over a longer period of time and lng you about investment vehicles that decision. Bill Hinlde representing the enable your money to benefit from the can help you meet your accumulation ACLU of OK, Kelly Kirby, the Gay & ~owerful force of compounding. goals. - Leanne Gross Lesbian Affirming Disciples of the Church of Christ, Nancy MacDonald, PFLAG, Investments Required To.Become A Millionaire and .Tom Neal, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights spoke about the positive 55 45 impact this decision would have on the 35 25 Age When efforts of Oklahomans to seek fair and Investments Begin equal treatment from the State of Oklahoma and the City of Tulsa. $442 $1,316 $4,882 $158 Monthly muela TV’s "Face the Nation" that the President’s quick announcement that he would sign the measure was "’an unconscionable position for him to take." Mixner said Clinton’s decision was doubtless political in his efforts to keep his popularity lead over anticipated Republican challenger Sen. Bob Dole of Kansas in the November election. "But this goes to the heart of everybody’s civil liberties," Mixner said. "It deals with property rights, insurance rights, xmmigration rights,bereavement rights, and to deny us equal opportur~,~ty really makes us second class citizens. In Seattle, councilwoman Tina Podlodowski, who is a lesbian, resigned as co-chair of Clinton’s Washington state re-election campaign, but said she still supports Clinton in the upcoming election, an echo of the dilemma many gays and lesbians feel over an issue that most paid little attention to until it exploded on the national political landscape this year. Podlodowski told the Seattle Times, "I’m still very supportive of the President but I believe it’s important to show leadership on this. This issue speaks to a broader issue of civil rights." In an interview with the New York Times, openly gay White House advisor BobHattoy said the President had been out-maneuvered by conser= vatives on the issue and said Clinton and his campaign advisers were more "’homostupid" than homopho.bic, ~ayin.g that supporting same-sex mamage now Is "’aloser" politically. "I just wish the straight white boys at the White House would educate themselves a little more," he said. "It’ s not that they’ re homophobic - they’ re homostupid, and they don’t know that the buzzwords they’re using are the buzzwords the right wing uses as terrorist dividing tactics and that the gay & lesbian community has a visceral reaction to." Both the Human Rights Campaign and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force have issued a number of press releases in the past few weeks attacking DOMA and criticizing President Clinton’s statements that he would sign the measure, but the "People don’t plah ffMl , th yfail to’plan. 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What a weekend we had in Blues Festival. The annual event is one of the most popular in the Ozarks, and the 1996 variety was no exception. Thursday through Sunday (May 30- June 2) brought blues lovers of all kinds to Eureka Springs, and the talent displayed was nothing short of magnificient. A preview show took place at Victoria Inn on Thursday to kick off the weekend. Featured performers were Deborah Coleman, Baby Jason & The Spankers, and Martin Simpson. ff you have not been fortunate enough to participate in a BluesFest weekend in Eureka Springs, youhave no idea what you are missing. From Thursday evening through Sunday afternoon, every club in town hosts both big name and local talent. And, the larger venues host nearly non-stop big name performers. You can pay one price to get into any of the clubs, and most folks spend the weekend going back and forth from the various small clubs, occasionally taking time out to attend a big concert. City Auditorium, Victoria Inn, and the Basin" Park and Crescent Hotels hosted some of the best blues talent on the planet this vear. but the most-anucipated event took"place Friday evening. Bo Diddlv performed two concerts along with local favorite The Cate Brothers Band ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Other name performers included Kenny Neal, Raful Neal, Tab Benoit, Chubby Carrier, Jimmy Thackery, Canned Heat, Keb Mo’, Robert Lucas, mad Kelly Jo Phelps. If you find yourself wishing you had been there, you still have time to get tickets for the 12th Annual Eureka Springs If.you_have not been fortunate enough to partlelpate in a Blue-sFest ¯ ¯ weekend in A Friendly Place to Stay MCC of the Living Spring ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY INN ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson, owner ...a community of friends... Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! 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The writing is sim-~ihe theme Boy, by Jim Grimsley, of sexual attraction is is rural North Carolina very carefully and tactwhere, yet again, two fully written. The two ...Except for a couple high school age guys main characters are well of extremely violent slowly fall in love. written, but we don’t Nathan and Roy live fully understand the next door to each other secondary characters, on the outskirts of a young adult novel, particularly Randy and small town. Roy, a Burke. Nathan’s father although adults little older and wiser, is a pathetic stereotype should enjoy it also is a popular kid and of a disillusioned, surly hangs around with a and cruel man, and the ...Dream Boy is a couple of guys, Randy mother’s character is and Burke, who follow pleasant, fun read, but paper thin, spending her his every move, not retime timidly between it takes a back seat alizing that they.actuher abusive husband ally idolizehim. Randy when compared to and introverted son. and Burke, strictly hetDream Bov is a pleassome other gay erosexual, become a bit ant, fun read, but it takes jealous when Roy starts eomlng of age novels... a back seat when cominviting the shy, withpared to some other gay drawn Nathan to pal coming of age novels, around with-them: Nathan’s hom~ life is particularly Common Sons, by Ronald an uncomfdriable mix of a mentally ill, Donaghe, reviewed in this column last abusive fff~her and a meek, helpless year. mother, so fi~ is anxious to spend as much The Tulsa City-Count" Library also time as poss~i’ble away from home, preferowns the first novel by Dream Boy author ably with Roy, the only person who pays Jim Grimsley, Winter birds. Please check attention t0~m. Through several rocky with your local branch library or the Readadventures ,Roy and Nathan begin to come ers Services department, Central Library, to terms with their muttml attraction. 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Now I have to prepare ¯¯ But the famous crab cakes illustrate dinner for someone who doesn’t know the quite well what is wrong with the cuisine ¯ difference between fingers, a dinner fork, at this restaurant. First of all, Chef Michee a salad fork, or a wild fork. But, what is ¯ tnes to be too creative and too innovative. worse in being wrong, ~s that the poor ¯¯ She takes top quality food, prepares it citizens of Tulsa will continue to be dewell, and then ruins it with a bizarre or luded about what constitutes truly fine ¯ weird sauce or accompaniment. She had cuisine and what is merely flash and a ¯ the same problem when she was at waste of money. Kannichael’s and at the Fifteenth Street ¯ One year ago, we went to a highly Grill, two of Tulsa’s be~ter restaurants touted, brand-new restaurant in Utica ¯ which are now both out of business. SecSquare. Everyone had great expectations, ¯ ondly, the restaurant touts itself as featursince one of Tulsa’s best known chefs, ing "new American cuisine," but you’d Kim Michee, and her think the chef had partner, Julie been on another Woolman, were the planet the last couple The W;ld Forl driving forces behind of decades when it the venture. As we 1820 Utlea Square comes to presenting lingered over posthealthy, lower fat HOliI’~: dessert coffee, I foods and lots more quipped that unless vegetables and sal7 a.m. to 10 p.m. Helmerich and Payne ads. Monday - Saturday, (owner-operator of The soups Utic~ Square) was continue the saga. looking at the Wild While most of Fork as a tax writetoday’s celebrated .off, the restaurant Amerlean contemporary modern American would be closed chefs in Dallas, Dressg within the year. And, Santa Fe, Scottsdale, thus, I was goaded or Los Angeles have Casual (but remember gone kb healthier into making the illthis is Utica fated bet. They’re thicke~ng methods still open. for crealn soups such Prices: The Wild Fork is as vegetable purees, situated in ~e middle Very expensive beurre mani~, white rice puree, or a of UticaSquare at the site of the former simple roux, with landmark instituuon only a splash of Full bar & wine llst and tea room, The cream or dairy prodNon-smo]dn~ seeHon: Garden. Our first visit uct, Miss Michee to the Wild Fork was continues to insist on a rainy Saturday upon making cream Rat;n~: night, and we were soups the old fashobliged to wait for ioned way, based on B li~t our table. But, a traditional b~chamel crowded, bustling and velout~ sauces. ¯ restaurant is usually a good sign. We had These can be very tasty, but they are far ¯ a bit of an uneasy feeling in dealing with too rich to eat more than a few gravy-like the rather abrupt and disinterested host- ¯ spoonfuls. esses, magnified by our limited dealings Same old story with the entr~es. With ¯ with our waiter, so we wrote it off to the the one major exception of the pork tenstrains of being a new restaurant on a busy " derloin roulade, which is dry and tastenight. However, on our several subse¯ less, the meats and .fish are good quality quent visits to the Wild Fork, including foods expertly prepared--until they are the most recent when our party was one of ¯ sauced. Do we really need Moroccan lemonly three tables in the entire restaurant, it= ¯ ons (aren’t American lemons good is apparent that the Wild Fork is trying for ¯ enough?) on the free range chicken’? Hot ¯ some kind of unique merger between the mango salsas on the meats’? A "creative ¯ rude waiters in New York & the snooty reinvenfion" of the chicken-fried steak? waiters in Paris. ¯ Excellent, huge sea scallops ruined by The Wild Fork is open all day, and there flavoring them with Pernod (a nasty lico¯ are different menus for breakfast, lunch, rice flavored liqueur)? Strongly flavored and dinner. Regardless of the mealtime ¯ olive and vinegar sauces on delicate sweetyou’ve chosen, one look at the menu and ¯ breads? you instantly know that this is a culinary It is possible to get a decent meal in this ¯ experience that will not come cheap. place, but you must be pro-active to do it. It seems as though every review about ¯ Find out what is on the menu and ask for the Wild Fork written in a Tulsa paper ¯ substitutions or deletions. Anything that over the last year has raved about the crab ¯ sounds unusual or strange should be igcakes. Far be it for us to break with tradi- ¯ nored. If Chef Michee is inthe kitchen, tion. The crab cakes are a combination of ¯ rely uponher excellent training and expecrab meat, corn, and the usual fillers to ¯¯ rience to cook a meal to your exact specihold it all together, that is deep-fried and fieafions; just don’t let her play around then presented atop a homemade mayon- ¯ and get creative. The problem with this naise aioh sauce and buried under a mound ¯ technique is that Miss Michee is not alof terrifyingly hot jalapefio cole slaw. ways in the kitchen, and many a lesser ¯ Scrape off the cole slaw and enjoy the cook will panic when the set recipe is wonderful calories and high fat and cho- ¯ changed. Also, there seems to be a comlesterol content of the crab cakes. After . munications breakdown between diner, all, what’s a little grease and mayo (mayo ¯ waiter, and kitchen, because many times, ¯ is just egg yolks and olive oil whisked special requests end up being ignored. do ed Sunday Cu;s;ne: Square) Alcohol: �How To Do It Vegetables are bland, boring, overlooked side dishes here, almost relegated to the status of a garnish. Salads aren’t emphasized, either. This is the one major area of improvement needed at this restaurant. As is the case in many fine restaurants, the baking is delegated to a baker and not handled by the chef herself. This i~ unfortunate, because we have had breads held too long in the warmer and disappointing desserts on almost every visit. On one visit, our cr~me brfil~e tasted almost curdledand thdpr0pan~ torch used in lieu of the broiler to caramelizethe ~t’op’was unevenly applied. Another time, we had to ask for our coffee before the end of the dessert course just to wash down the dry cake. No excitement or originality here. There is a surprising little wine list with tolerable but limited choices in the moderate and lessexpensive categories, defi-~ nitely preferring U,S. domestic vintages. Despite its shortcomings, the Wild Fork continues tobe a popular restaurant First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the number of words. 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Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74135 918-747-3320 Home Office Dallas, Texas 800-559-4790 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families of the Heart CoUrt Kills Amendment 2 Tulsa Leaders Respond WASHINGTON - In a ruling that brought a collective sigh of relief from U.S. rights activists, the Supreme Court has ruled that Colorado’s anti-gay Amendment 2 is unconstitutional. Justice Anthony Kennedy said in the court’s 6-3 majority ruling that theColorado ballot measure was "inexplicable by anything except ill will toward homosexuals." The ruling found that Amendment 2 identifies people by the singletrait of their sexual orientation and denies them protection across the board "in a law unprecedented in American jurisprudence." The Court’s ruling invalidates the 1992 Colorado referendum that was narrowlyapproved by 53 percent of the voters and would have blocked anti-bia~dneasures in Denver, Boulder, Aspen and anywhere else in the state that adopted suchmeasures. The high court’s majority opinion found that Amendment 2 violates the Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection under the law, ruling that it illegally bars homosexuals from see CO, page 10 Federal Anti-Marriage Bill Moves Thru Congress WASHINGTON - The far-right’s proposed congressional measure,known as the "Defense of Marriage Act" (DOMA), easily won approval of a House sub, committee by a largely party-line 8-4 vote, and is expected to reach thefloor of the House of Representafives for a vote by early July. The Senate companion measure should be reaching the floor of the upper chamber at about the same time, Senate leaders said. qqae measure, which would define marriage as the union of a man and a woman, effectively excluding same-sex marriages at the federal levd, has left rights activists at loose ends since it was introduced in Congress earlier in May, quickly, winning endorsements from the Republican leadership and the promise of President Clinton’s signature if it passed Congress. Clinton supporter David Mixner fumed on CBSsee Federal, page 10 More States Pass Anti- Marriage Laws SPRINGFJELD, Ill. -~ Illinois .Gov.:Jim Edgar signed a measure barring the state from recognizing same,sex marriages, whether legally performed in other states or not, making the state that first repealed its sodomy statu_tes: over. 3 ~ decades ago ~- the 1.0th, U.S, state to prohibitrecognition ofsame-sex marriages. Meanwhile, in Michigan and Pennsylvania, similar anti-marriage measures won approval in their respective legislatures. The bills in each of the 2 states need only to have differences in the language of their upper and lower chambers worked out before being sent to their governors for approval. North Carolina’s lawmakers, intheir effort to prohibit recognition of same-sex marriages that might be legally performed in other states, have been trying to quickly work around legal limits on the types of measures they can consider in a shortened special see States; page 10 PFLAG activists, Bill & Cathy Hinlde, and Nancy & Joe McDonald flank Dallas Gay & Lesbian AllianCe Pres. Cece Cox, her spouse, Lisa Means, & Tom Neal at ajoint meetingof PFLAG, TOHR & Rainbow Business Guild. : Tulsa PFLAG Mom Testifies ’Against Anti-Marriage Bill ¯ Nancy McDonald, founder of Tulsa Parents, Familes ¯ and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) with husband ¯ Joe, and first vice president of the national board of .. PFLAG, testified against the so-called "Defense of Mar- ¯ nage Act" before the Constitution Subcommittee of the ¯ Judicial Committee of the US House of Representatives ¯ on May 15. TFN is honored to summarize or to reprint ~ portions of that testimony. ¯ McDonald identified herself as a mother and longtime ¯ educator and volunteer speaking in defense of marriage. ¯ In particular, McDonald identified the benefits of civil ¯ marriage and noted how those benefits are denied to same : sex couples. McDonald said she wished she were testify- " ing in favor of a bill that would grant equal marriage rights : "see Congress, page 8 ¯ HIV Bias Lawsuit Won Paul Saladin has won his wrongful termination lawsuit ¯¯ against his former employeer, Terry Turner, owner ofThe French Hen. Saladin had filed his case under the federal ~ Americans with Disabilities Act which prohibit discrimi- : nation on the basis of HIV!AIDS as well as other disabili- ¯ ties. ¯ The case is noteworthy because it is one of the first to : address discriminationbased on an association with some- : one who is disabled. Saladin was fired from his job as a : waiter when one customer allegedly complained to man- . agement after he heard another customer ask Saladin : about his late partner who was seriously ill with AIDS ¯ related infections. Saladin received modest damages of partial back pay see Case, page 8 "Promise Keepers" Boot ¯ Radical Extremist Enyart ¯ "Christian" syndicated television talk show host, Bob ¯ Enyart, appears to have been disinvited from the Promise . ¯ Keepers "Christian men’s" rally planned for June 15th at ¯ ¯ TU’s Skelly Stadium. Lesbian/Gay activists, pro-choice ¯ ¯ activists and moderate ~d progressive religious leaders -.: had objected to Enyart s participation because of his : ¯ documented remarks calling for the execution of "homo: ¯ ¯ sexua¯ ls" and "abortlonlo~,,o~’.,~.we.u as.m.e do.sin.g.and./the.¯ ¯¯ , phys~cal~ destruction of homosexual churches, clubs and : other establishments, as well as abortion diuics. Enyart " ¯ has acknowledged those remarks as accurately reflecting ." : his values in an interview with the Denver Post. ¯ The Rev. Russell Bennett of Fellowship Congrega- ¯ tional Church said that the Task Force for Rdigious " ¯ Freedom and Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry were involved ¯ in persuading key Promise Keeper supporters to call for " ¯ Enyart’s removal. Allegedly, Rev. Pearson called the ~ national office of Promise Keepers to ask them to: ; organizers to remove Enyart. According to The ¯ World, local organizers would not comment on the pro- ¯ ¯ gram change, see Enyart; page 10 American Airlines, Pepsi, ¯i AMnilhleeruSspeornBsuosrcPhr,idCeoPoircsn, i&c Organizers of this year’s Pride Picnic have annoUnced the confirmation of American Airlines as lead sponsor of Tulsa: United in Pride, the 1996 Pride Picnic which is at Owen Park, 560 No. Maybelle at Edison Road on Saturday, June 15 .from noon. to 5pm. American Airlines, Tulsa’s largest employer, is donating two air travd tickets which picnic attendees can be eligible to win. Other major sponsors include Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller Brewmg Co. and Pepsi-Cola. Picnic orgamzers emphasized their thanks for the support of dub owners and entertainers who hosted and performed in benefit shows, in chronological order: Bill and Brian and their friends at Lola’s, Sensuous and John at the Tool Box, John & Steve at the Silver Star and Kirk & Terry at Concessions with apologies to anyone whose name’s been left out¯ This event just see Picnic. page 8 Tulsa Library Nixes Gay Exhibits for Two Years While the Tulsa City County Library commission and Library administrators deny that complaints about an April Lesbian and Gay themed exhibit by Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays motivated them ,the commissioners changed the Library’s exhibit rides at a May 21st meeting so that a similar topic cannot be displayed for two years. Formerly library rules prevented the same organization from exhibiting more than once in 18 months. Under the new regulations, the same topic cannot be addressed more than once in 2-krnonths. Because of this change, Tulsa OklahomanS for Human Rights (TOHR)is now being denied penmssion to mounl an exhibit that-was scheduled for August. Library administrators say that the TOHR exhibit plans were never definite but were tentative. However, TOHR representatives claim that:they understood the date to be firufly settled with any question of ch_anging the date not arising until after controversy about the PFLAG exhibit started. TOHR’s spokesperson expressed sympathy for the harassment the Library had experienced and understood the LibraD¯’s desire to change its rules but regretted that Library administrators had not chosen to honor their prior commitment to TOHR. TOHR is currently seeking an alternate site for the exhibit, Love Makes A Family, a photo-documentary of Lesbian and Gay families with accompanying interviews of the couples and their children. COMING SOON -ffiahoma Parade ; ¯ Follies Review’96 + MCC’s ?That’s Entertainment?. + State.HIV/AIDS Confere.nce + IAM Ice Cream Soc,al + Shanti’s Water.Garden Tour see page 9 P. 2 P. 4 P. 6 P. 9 P. 9 P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@ aol.com Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal Assistant Editor, James Christjohn Writers/contributors, Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Leanne Gross & Pat Morehead Staff Phot(x3rapher, JD Jamett Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and ~aay not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publicationnodfenacnea~ms easosurmpheodtotodboeesfonroptuibnldicicaatitoenthuantlepsesrostohne’srwsiesxeunaol toerdi,enmtautsitobne. Correspo " - . " ........ =o~il,, News All correspondence ¯ d & becomes tlae sole property o~ ~u,~a -,~,- : ¯ s!gne~........~o oddress above Each reader is entitled to one fre.e co,p,,y~of~ia~coh snOUl(1 De Sent to ut~ a ¯ edition at d*-is-tn.ou.u.on.p.oln-t-~-. *~’u~u’~,;tional conr"ies are available by calhng bY Phyl Bole’r-Sdhmidt " " i. ¯ i i.° "Th~Godit~s ovhr! The~AmendmentTwO battlemC°l°riad° that fight. And, though it began in one state, the effects rippled acrFoosrsmoeu,rtghreebaattntlaetiboeng.an oneMay evem.ngm. 1991. Iwas living on the western slope of Colorado, minding my own business, enjoyin my life and my vcork. Tha.t .evening: ,,the voters of Denvergre’ected an ordinance proposexl by a soc)auy-co,n,se,rvative erou~ called Citizens for Sensible Rights that wou!a nave " remgved sexual orientation from the wording of the city s equal protectionlaw. After their defeat, CSRandits statewidesupporters vowed to take the issue to the state level where, they thought, babydom in the gay rights movement before the Amendment Two vote. I’i,’e gone from an often timid addressee of lesbigay cinosnicdeernansdtooustoTmwehoonisenwoht oinctahne lbeeasctoaufnrateidd toonsttoankdntoowe ttohteoiesswuieths see Weary, page 3 has been a long gaul of Often drudgery for those of us involved in I~9 Tgdd Adams "The religious right would like you to believe that despite their hatemongering and anti-gay propaganda, they truly have com.- passion and geiiuine Christian concern for the homosexual. It ~s not a personal bias, they claim, but only because of divine Biblical proclamation that they are compelled to preach this socalled threat to family values. Consider then, the disproportionate lack of attention given to ¯ the far more pervasive trend toward unmarried heterosexual ~ couples cohabitating. Isn’t this what the Bibli~ calls fornication, and isn’t this a sexual sin of equal magnitude as homosexuality? ¯ Just by the sheer numbers of people engaged in fornication ¯ compared to those of homosexuality, one would think the former ¯ to be a far greater threat to those sacred fata!!y, value.s.A,ft,er ~1, their Dresumably heterosexual children woum seenungiy De ~ar ¯ more’susceptible to being recruited into this lifestyle rather than into homosexuality. Yet we don’t see nearly the kind of passion exerted on this proportionately mammoth threat to,fancily v,alue.s as we see directed towards gay and lesbian peopte. ~o why ~s ¯ there such a wide disparity of attention? The answer is twofold, ¯ and both are very basic to human nature: greed and ignorance. The first reason is greed. The fact is homosexuality is very ¯ controversial and thus stirs emotions. 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Main ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. ¯ *Emerald Rainbow, 45&112 Spring St. ¯ King’ s Hi-Way,96Kings Highway,Hwy. 62W *MCC of the Living Spring 748-3111 749-4901 74104 749-4195 665-5174 646-7116 749-7898 7434297 584-1308 838-1222 501-253-7457 501-253-6807 501-253-5445 800-231 - 1442 501-253-9337 I never canremember those old sayings very well but there is this one that goes like this: may youlive in interesting times - and I never could remember if that was supposed tO be a blessing or a curse. Wall, here we are at Pride 1996. We certainly are living in interesting times. Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Triinsgendered issues are being discussed more than they l~ave been at’any other time in the last two thousand or so years. And though our losses (to AIDS, to breast cancer, to the institutionalized violence and self hatred our society fosters) have been beyond imagination, and it is easy to feel that we are under attack each ~ime we turn, we are winning some. Colorado 2- do I need to say more?The highest court in the nation, and the source of both despair and hope for American minorities, finally has recognized us as citizens. Even here in Tulsa, we are making some progress. Although we are still marginalized by many of Tul.sa leaders, a few are recognizing our existence, our contributions to this city and our emerging political impact. And though we are poisoned by too many of the pathologies that growing up minrrity in America engenders, and although we are often unneces sarily cruel to each other, Tulsa is rich in remarkable individuals who dedicate hours of their time to building community ~mdresources. These folks are too many to name them all. The3’ vary from those whom you recognize quickly, the McDonalds and Kirbys, to those who work a little more behind the scenes, the Newmans, S tames, Petersons and Gilleans to those who are rarely recognized but whose contributions are also critical. These people, their work and our progress, although slow, all are things for whichwe can be thankful. So take aminute to celebrate, to honor those who’ve gone before, to recognizehow things are better. I have and will. Tulsa’ s sure a better place for us thanit was 20 or even 10 years ago. - Tom Neal Rev. Nancy J. Horvath M. Div., Pastor Sunday 9:15 am Christian Education ll:00am Worship Service ....Wednesday 6:30 pm Midweek Service 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thursday 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group 5451-E S. Mingo ¯ Tulsa, OK ¯ 7414~ (918) 622-1441 JUNE 15 Noon - 5:00 pm Opening Ceremony, lpm ¯ Blessing by the Rev. Leslie Penrose ¯ Welcome by TOHR president Debbie Starnes ¯ Performances by local entertainers, including Miss Gay Tulsa & Miss Tulsa USofA, Tulsa Family Chorale & The Banned from OKC! Throughout the afternoon, ¯ DJ will provide music throughout the day ¯ Booths with vendors, community organization info., crafts, etc. ¯ Food for modest cost ¯ Free beverages provided by Anheuser-Busch, Coors, Miller & Pepsi ¯ Volleyball & tennis court available ¯ Kids’ playground ¯ Security provided all day by Tulsa Park officers ¯ Closing ceremony, with benediction by RF Renfro & Freedom Balloon Extravaganza! Be a, part of the Pride~Picnic! - To volunteer, just show up Saturday Edison St. -’ ,~ "~ To Sand Springs, 1-412 Directions: From Tulsa, take Keystone Expressway West towards Sand Springs. Exit Gilcrease Rd. turn right (North) on Gilcrease Road to Edison St, and turn right (East} on Edison, go about 1/2 mile. Owen Park Is on the right. Parking is on the Southeast corner of the park. near Roosevelt School. 1-244 the most ardent anti-gay zealots. Wars will do that for you. Survival skills are something we either gain in a hurry, or we die at the hands of the enemy, sometimes literally, often figuratively. Of course, there are always battle scars too, and I watch myself, as well as others who have fought this one in the trenches, acting most times like we suffer from the more modem adaptation of World War II’s shell shock. Post-traumatic stress disorder runs rampant among civil rights activists of any persuasion. On May 20th, nearly five years exactly to the day after the Denver vote, I was catching up on some paperwork at my computer when the news came in via the Interact about the U.S. Supreme Court’s 6-3 decision declaring Amendment Two unconstitutional. There was no jubilant fist thrust into the air. There was no inyour- face queer political nose-rubbing of the opposition. I just sat th6re, staring at the two-hne news alert for over 30 minutes, occasional quiet tears of mostly relief surfacing. I believe it is important to remember that although the Supreme Court decision reflects a changed attitude on the part of the federal judiciary as it regards the humamty of lesbigay people, nothing has really changed legally. No tights have been gained. It remains okay to discriminate against us as a people in most of the country, & the fight for equality remains one we will need to address one person at a time. \Vhat has happened is imperceptible to people on the outside of our movement. We are a more confident people, more sure than ever before of our beliefs and our worth. We are more aware politically; we -know how to build coalitions, to raise funds, to seek out and solidify our bases of support, and we -know how to get the job done. We also have learned the tree value found in each other because we had to learn with whom we could be safe and on whom we could count when or if we needed someone. A~nendment Two was a right of passage for lesbigay people in Colorado. mad the tipple effects have forged growth in the movemeut throughout the land. Let us not waste that ~owth and the opportunity it presents to truly change our ~vorld. Our time has come, and our movement is coming of age, but let us not forget that we gain nothing in the wav of respect if we are not respectful of others. If we are going to ever have that kinder, gentler nation George Bush at least talked about. I believe it must start with us. emotions: lust,:enwy.., fear, hate! Therefore, dt is pr0fi~ble for the religious right to keep homosexuality controversial. Itis their greatest fund-raising tool. Even the most cursory glance at their fund-raising literature wil! reveal classic propaganda techniques; dehumanize the subject to remove any compassion people might feel, and present only the most extreme behavior as examples of that"lifestyle", behavior which, incidentally, many homosexuals themselves would find distasteful. These techniques are nothing new. They are the same methods used by the Nazis to persecute the Jews. The second reason is pure and simple ignorance. They fall to understand that we have exactly the same range of human emotions and feel exactly the same feelings they do; love, lust, guilt, jealousy, anger, compassion; just in a slightly different context, homosexuality is a normal, natural and healthy way of life for a certain percentage of the population. But because those feelings are foreign to them, the religious right assumes our lives to be wicked, perverted and disgusting. They fall to see that falling in love is truly a universal emotion with many varieties. So don’t be misled. The attention giveu to homosexuality has nothing to do with family values, if it did, more preachers would be concerned about the results of their hate speech: abandoned and abused children, gay teen suicide, substmace abuse. All of these are far more serious fmnily issues which deserve far lnore attention. bo,eft.th,g Tul.~a Area AIDSAgenctes Warren Place Doubletree Hotel Dh~ner, Cash Bar and Performance Remaining seats are limited. Call today! TICKETS ON SALE AT ALL CARSON ATTRACTIONS OUTLETS OR BY PHONE: ~84-2000 Canada Rights Bill OTI’AWA - Largdy considered a formality, Canada’s Senate has followed the May 9 lead of Parliament’s House of Commons and approved federal legislation outlawing bias based on sexual orientation. The bill now only requires the assent of the governor general, representing Queen Elizabeth II as Canada’s titular head of state, to become part of theCanadian Human Rights Act. Michigan School Harassment DETROIT-In a d~iay that angered:many, the Allen Park School Board decided not to decide yet on whether gay and lesbian students - or even students who are just believed to be homosexual - should be protected under the district’s anti-harassment policies. The mother of a 14-yearold student at Allen Park High School asked the trustees in May to include antiharassment policies that prohibit gay and lesbian students from being attacked or harassed on school grounds by other students. But the school board decided it wanted to take "more time to study the issue" beforemaking a decision. Raymond Salliotte, an attorney representing the student and his family, told the board members they should be ashamed of themgelves for even having to take this long to decide on such a basic issue. School Gay CI.ui Compromise GLENDALE, Calif. - The Glendale school board averted the potentially explosive issue of gay and lesbian dubs at schools by rejecting a plan that would have required permission of parents for their high-school age,students to join any such campus clubs. Instead, the board opted for a compromise proposal that would inform parents of all the dubs authorized to meet at schools in the district so they could be aware of what groups there are at various schools. But parents would not have to give permission for their children in school to join any of the groups. Clinton ’Advocate’ Interview LOS ANGELES - In an interview in the Los Angeles gay news magazine The Advocate, President Clinton reiterated his view that marriage is an institution between a man and a woman, as a far-right bill in Congress declares, and says he is proud of his record of working to end discrimination agmnst homosexuals in theU.S, and of the large number of gay men and lesbians hehas named to posts in his administration.But in the interview, Clinton says ofthe controversy that erupted early in his term over ending the military ban, "There are some things I think I should have done differently." He says he now believes he should have first worked with congressional and Pentagon leaders to build a broader consensus on the issue, saying that possibly moving in "incremental steps" might have been a better way to approach ending the ban. The President, however, sidesteps questions in the interview about whether he would, if re-elected, renew any efforts to end the current restrictions against homosexuals in the armed forces. Oregon Initiative Called Off PORTLAND, Ore. - Lon Mabon, head of the anti-gay OregonCitizens Alliance, announced at a press conference that the organization will discontinue gathering signatures to put a new ballot measure before state voters this year in an effort to block civil rights protections for homosexuals. Oregon rights activists said the OCA move wasn’t surprising in the wake of the U.S. Supreme Court ruling in May declaring that Colorado’s Amendment 2, which the OCA had used as-a model, was unconstitutional. School Board Victory in N.H. MERRIMACK, NH - Two years of contentious tumult over an anti-gay policy may have come to at least a temporary end with the stunning 2-1 victory ofRosemarie Rung for a seat on the school board. The race registered the largest voter turnout in the town’s history and Rung’s election now means, that religious-right candidates whohad forced the anti-gay policy through the board no longer hold a majority. Rung vowed dunng the race to work to repeal the anti-gay Policy 6540, which prohibits school employees from "’encouraging or supporung homosexuality as a positive lifestyle alternative." Ginny Cadarette, who also ran for the vacant seat won by Rung, had said she supported the anti-gay school policy. "This election proves that the citizens of Merrimack have the moral courage to reject the politics of fear and divisiveness," Rung said after the election win. "What the Radical Religious Right failed to realize when it moved into Merrimack advocating its agenda, from creationism to Pol,icy 6540, is that we truly believe in freedom of speech, and equal protection of the laws." S. Africa Gay Rights Protections CAPE TOWN, South Africa - With the new, first-ever constitutional protections barfing bias based on sexual orientation, : the South African Parliament wasted no ¯ ti~ne putting theory into practice. On May 14 the lawmakers approved military poli- ¯ cies prohibiting discrimination against ¯ women, gays and lesbians in the nation’s ¯ armed forces. The next day a memo from : the leaders of both houses of Parliament ¯ outlined the travd~related benefits the ¯ partners of Members of Parliament are : entitled to.identical to those of the spouses ¯ of married MPs. Anti-Gay, Anti-HIV Defense Bill Again WASHINGTON - The House has approved a $267-billion Defense Department spending measure that President Clinton has already said he would veto if it’s not changed by the Senate because of the many social issues that conservative Republicans have tacked on to it. The measure includes amendments that would discard the current "don’t ask,don’t tell" maned forces provision and institute an outright ban on homosexuals in the military. It also iududes the on-again, offagain amendment forcing the Pentagon to discharge any military personnel who test positive for HIV. The Senate version of the defense measure calls for the same spending level,but doesn’t contain the coutroversial amendments House Republicans added to the bill. The measure also iucludes a ban on the sale of sextmlly explici! magazines,such as Playboy and Penthouse, at military bases as well as a prohibition against U.S. military hospitals outside the country performing abortions,except in eases ofrape, incest or if the mother’s life is at risk. Carolina Anti-Gay Measure Repealed SPARTANBURG, S.C. - Faced with the prospect of having the Olympic torch relay re-routed around the county and finding the men’s U.S.A.Gymnastic team pulling their training site, the Spartanburg county council has decided not to keep an mati-gay resolution it approved on Monday, Mav 13. The resolution, similar to ones passed by two Georgia county comnussions inn, has no actual legal effect but states that homosexuality is "incompatible withcommunity standards."The comnussioners decided earlier in May to pass the resolution as a show of their support [’or Cobb County, Ga., which has been excluded as a site for Olympic Game events because of the resolution. Butwhen the Spartanburg council was confronted by the American men’s gymnasts team ~;ith moving their training site elsewhere over the anti-gay measure and statements by the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games that it might re-route the torch run around Spartanburg County, the county council voted 4-1 to repeal the resolution. While Spartanburg was busy repealing its anti-gay resolution, the Greenville County council approved by a 9-3 vote an identical measure. The Olympic torch is slated to pass through Greenville on June 26, but a spokesperson for the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games said the group is unsure what - if anything - it may do about the approved resolution, which calls homosexuality contrary to "community standards" in the county. At least one ACOG member, however, was quoted in news reports as saying that the organizing committee "couldn’t function as a civil rights watchdog for the nation." Commitment Fair Called Off DETROIT, Mich. -A planned Gay Commitment Fair that had been slated forMay 19 in the Detroit suburb of Holly where gay couples could peruse exhibits by riofists, photographers, jewelers and other marriage-rdated goods and services was cancded after the organizer of the event received hundreds ofoffensive and threatening telephones calls, the Detroit Free Press reports. According to the paper, Jeffrey Maxwell, the pastor at the C.alvary United Methodist Church in Holly read a news article about the planned private event to his parishioners, including the phone number to contact the promoter of the fair. The organizer of the event, who asked the paper not to identify him, called off the event at the last minute after being .swamped with menacing calls threatenmg to disrupt and picket the fair as well as at least 2 death threats. Maxwell said he didn’t believe anyone from his church made any of the calls. Proposal to Extend Partner Benefits SANFRANCISCO-Gay SupervisorTom Ammiano has proposed legislation that would require most contractors working on city financed projects to extend the samedomestic partnerbenefits to its workers that it offers to the spouses of its married employees. Many of the city’s large corporations already offer partners benefits, but mo~t smaller firms do not, and the city controller’s office estimates that there are between 8,000 and 10,000 companies doing business with the city that could be affected by the proposed measure. The proposed ordinance would exemptfirms located wheredomestic partner programs aren’t in place, unless the company has a division office in the city as well. In those cases, only workers in the San Francisco offices would be covered. Business leaders here have not so far expressed any strong objections to the Ammiano measure, although the city’s Chamber of Commerce says it wasn’t consulted about.it beforehand. 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Details ofthe program were not released, but the company said the benefits would apply to both same- and opposite-sex unmarried employees, and would extend to the couples’ children as well. The firm employs some 108,300 workers. Challenge to UK Age of Consent Law LONDON - Euan Sutherland, a 19-yearold gay student, has been given the goahead by the European Commission on Human Rights to challenge the British age of consent laws before the Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg if Parliament doesn’t change the law.4n 1994, Parliament lowered the age of.consent for homosexual sex from 21 to 18, but the age of consent for heterosexual sex in Britain 1S only 16. And Suthedand petitioned government courts without luck to equalize the ages for all sexual activity, arguing that it was discriminatory. "It’s normal for a 19-year-old bloke to be going out with a 17-year-old girl," Sutherland said. "’If I was doing that [with another male] it would be illegal. Both of us would be breaking the law. There are jail penalties." Sutherland’s legal challenge is expected to bejoined by another gay youth, Chi’is Morris, 16, shortly. Lipstick Lesbians NEW YORK - The women? s beauty and fashion magazine, Allure,includes excerpts from the soon-to-be-publishedbook by Lindsy Van Gelder and Pamda Robin Brandt, The Girls Next Door: Into the Heart of Lesbian America.. The excerpt, entitled in the magazine "Some Lesbians Are Glamour Babes; Others Aren’t," lot-ks at similarities and differences between lesbians and straight women in makeup, body consciousness and similar beauty issues in alighthearted manner. Only problem is, although excerpts from forthcoming books are generally a sdling point for ~nainstreamraagakiii~’s,’Allui-d s~in~ ~6’ have neglected mentioning the excerpt on its cover. Ah, well. Probablyjust a"typo.’" A PERMANENT SOLUTION Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla. St. Med. Bd. 488-0786 Near71st & Lewis Call for info, or an appt. with free consultation, Survey: World’s Full of Surprises LONDON-Itwas "goodnews-badnews" for the citizens of the new Russia as LondonInternational Group, one ofthe world’s largest condom manufacturers, released the results of its 3rd annual international survey of sexual behavior. According to the LIG survey, Russians are the 2nd most sexually active people in the world, led only by Americans. "Our survey will explode a lot of myths about sex," said Pauli Jakobsson of LIG. The study reports that based on surveys of 10,000 people in 15 nations,Americans have sex 135 times a year, trailed dosdy by the homy ex-comrades who succumb to Western bourgeois thrills 133 times annually. The former Soviets also trailed the Americans in their self-centered view of sex, with 61.% of U.S. citizens interviewed saying theirown satisfaction was most important in sex. Some 42% of Russians said their own gratification was paramount, placing them next behind Americans. Thailand came in at the bottom of the list in terms of frequency of sex,averagingjust 64 times per year. Of a list of notable personalities those interviewed thought were sexiest,Australian actor Mel Gibson topped the lisL while U.S. President Bill Clinton fell about midway and Russian Prime Minister Boris Yeltsin camein next to last, the unsexy honor of which fell to Poland’s Lech Walesa. Poles (presumably none of them eying Mr. Walesa) turned up as the most safe-sex conscious in the survey, with a full 13% of Polish respondents claiming they routinely carry condoms in their underwear, leading the Italians in their claims of having condoms on hand. Canadians, somewhat surprisingly, came in as the most hostile to the idea of safer sex, while the Russians did little better, ranking 12 out of the 15 countries. Canadians, however, also ranked 1st as the world’s most sensitive bed partners, with 51% saying satisfying their sexual partner was their top priority in bed. Another surprise the survey reports is that women respondents turned out to be more sexually selfish than men, with 31% .saying their own sati fraction was most ~mportant in the sack, while 25% of men said their own gratification was primo in bed. Hawaii Dems Make Pro-Gay Moves HONOLULU-While many of the state’s la~vmakers grappled muchof the past year with the issue of same-sex marriage resuiting from what isexpected to be a state court victory for gays and lesbians, the stale Democratic.party made its position dear during its May 24-26 convention. The party’s central committee adopted a resolution opposing any future interfer- P AlrERSON REALIORS" ence by the state legislature or efforts to change Hawaii’s liberalstate Constitution in the court battle. The Dems then went on to oust Linda Rosehill from the key post as its national committeewoman in favor to Amy Agbayani. Rosehill has been very active in efforts to block the possible legalization of same-sex marriages in thestate; Agbayani represented theACLU m testimony opposing legislative efforts. to block same-sex marriag~in the sta~e. Martin Rice, an openly gay Democratic Party activist, was also elected to a position as one of the committee’s 3 vicechairs as an executive board member. Episcopal Church: Gay Clergy OK WILMINGTON, Del. - A court of the Episcopal Church has ruled that it is not against church doctrine for a bishop to ordain sexually active homosexuals to the priesthood, thereby ending the possibility of a heresy trial against Bishop Walter Righter, 72, the retired Bishop of Iowa, for ordaining Barry Stopfel, who is gay, as a church deacon in 1990. The 9 presiding bishops had been considering the issue of whether Bishop Righter should face heresy charges for the ordination for 10 weeks. Their decision was announced from the steps of the net-gothic Cathedral of St. John by Delaware Bishop Cabell Tennis and included little in the way of comment or clarification except that there ~vas "no such written constraint" in church law agaanst such ordinations.The formal armouncement noted that the ruling was not "’an opinion on the morality of samegender relationships." And while Bishop Righter’s trial may be over, the issue itself may be far from settled, some church observers say. The Rt. Rev Andrew Fairfield, the l~ishop of North Dakota mad the onl y dissenting member of the court, said the nmnerous biblical condemnations of homosexuality, as well as Christian tradition and church teachings, hold that"the bottom line is. homosexuality of any kind is prohibited." Some conservatives predicted there would be a schism if the church’s general convention, which will meet in Philadelphia next year, doesn’t prohibit the ordination of sexually active homosexuals. Dr. George Carey, the Archbishop of Canterbury, urged Episcopalians not to over-react or act impatiently as the church struggles with its position on ordaining gay priests ~n a sermon commemoraung the 100th anniversary of the Los Angeles Episcopal Diocese. Carey warned Episcopalians against "walking away from one another" over the issue and said we ¯ must learn to get along with each other despite differences. "We need to learn a uew langnage .- alangu.age of.ac.ceptance and love of one another," Carey said in his sermon at the Cathedral Center of St. Paul in Los Angeles. "’I don’t mean by this we LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 have to agree or accept the political correctness of our day. There will ",always be questions that have to be left hanging while we wait for fuller answers. What we must not do is walk away from one an- , other." Aside from the heresy trial in ¯ Delaware earlier this year, Carey has come ¯¯ ¯ under pressure from conservative Anglican clergy in Britain who have insisted that he condemn the previous Archbishop .of Canterbury, Lord Robert Runcie, who xt was recently revealed had ordained ¯ priests he knew were gay. Texas Log Cabin Sue State GOP AUSTIN, Texas - The Log Cabin Club of Texas, a predominately gay and lesbian political organization, sued and won against the state Republican Party after the Texas GOP reneged on a contract for a booth at its state convention and on ad space in the convention prggram. The LOg Cabin lawsuit,filed in Travis County state court, charges the Texas Republicans with violating the organization’s First Amendment rights, bias based on sexual orientation, and breach of contract. Lester van Pelt III, a spokesperson for the state Republican Party, toldreporters that Barbara Jackson, the state GOP’s executive director, had ma~.ethe decision to exclude the Log Cabin Republicans because of the party platform’s positions against homosexuality. "Sodomy is still a crime in Texas," van Pelt’~aid. Nonsense, say the gay Republicans€ noting that the booth and ad space hadhothing to do with sodomy. "...Obviously, no one is going to commit an illegal act in the booth." Your P,artners Program or Mine? WEST HOLLYWOOD, Calif. - In what is believed to be the first of its kind in the U.S., the West Hollywood city council has unanimousl y approved a measure that would extend full recognition ofdomestic partners registered in other cities with such programs while in the city. Domestic partnership registration offers few actual benefits anywhere in the U. S., but it could be important in cases for example where a visiting couple was involved in an acci, dent. One registered partner would have hospital visitation and treatment decision rights in such a situation if they were registered in another ci ty. On a more basic level, public businesses or events offering "’spousal"discounts in West Hollywood already technically are required to extend similar discounts to registered partners. And the new recognition measure should have the same benefit for visiting couples, the council hopes. Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-1715 AIDS Epidemic: 15 Years of Death WASHINGTON - This year marks the 15th anmversary since thefirst cases of AIDS were diagnosed in the United States, although at the time,of course, no one knew what this strange new disease - initially called "gay cancer" - held in store for the nation and the world. Globally, the World Health Organization reports there have been 4.5 millioncases of HIV infection, while in the U.S., there were 476,000 ~tses and 295,000 deaths. -FDA OKs Home- Testing Kit for HIV WASHINGTON-The U.S. Food&Drug Administration has approved the first home-testing kit for detecting HIV, the virus generally believed to cause AIDS.. The kit - known as the Confide HIV Testing Service - will be marketed initially at pharmacies in Texas. It will also be available through a toll-free telephone number based in Florida. The FDA said it approved the home-testing kit for people who would prefer the anonymity of home testing instead of using clinics or medical facilities. There’s no word yet on exactly how much the kit will cost, but it is expected to be priced at about $40. The ~e~." testing system will comprise 3 integrdted components: a home blood collection kit HIV antibody testing ata certified laboratory, and a center that, provides test results, counseling and referrals as needed. The FDA noted that the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention esumates that 60% of Americans at risk for HIV have never been tested for the virus. The test xs manufactured b.v Direct Access Diagnostics of Bridgewater, N.J., a subsidiarv of Jolmson & Jotmson. Critics of home’testing, however, say the "kit is [oo expensive and that counseling services via phone in such a situation seemed hitor- miss. Gel May Help Block HIV in Women WASHINGTON-Researchers report that a vaginal gel containing a drug known as PMPA has been shown to protect female monkeys from the simian version of HIV and may offer humans the same kind of protection from the virus. Dr. Roberta Black of the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Diseases,which sponsored the study, said, "For women to have woman-controlled method is very important so they canprotect themselves." Black said much more research is needed - ineluding studies involving humans- to determine whether the PMPA anti-viral gel. could prove safe and effective protection for women. Clinton Signs Ryan White CARE Act WASHINGTON - Saying he hoped to be the last president to have to sign a 5-year extension of the funding program, President Clinton signed federal legislation reauthorizing the Ryan White CARE Act for 5 more years of federal spending. The measure was first passed by Congress 6 years ago and allocates federal funds to local communities hardest hit by AIDS forhome care, transportation.hospice car,e and other support services for people with AIDS/HIV. The spending measure will authorize $738 million for AIDS-related services in cities and towns around the cotmtry during the 1996 fiscal year, an increase over the 1995 level of $632 million. The measure also includes some $52 million in funding for states to provide new HIV/AIDS drugs for residents who can’t afford them, and $10 million for anew program aimed at getting pregnant women to voluntarily seek testing and counseling for HIV. In signing the measure, Clinton said he hoped no furore president would have to s~gn a similar spending measure. "By then, let us pray that we will have found acure for ,AIDS and a vaccine to protect every American," the President said. HIV Particle Counts Aid Treatment PrvI’SBURGH, Pa. - According to anew study, doctors now have a more accurate way of predicting how long people inected with HIV will survive,thereby giving physicians better guidance in how aggressivdy to treat their patients. Dr. John Mellors and a team of researchers at the University" of Pittsburgh Medical Cen- :er have confirmed the relative accuracy of an extremely sensitive new blood test that counts the number of HIV viral partides instead of the current method which relies on counting the immune system’s CD4 T-cells. "We found very stri-kingly that the amount of virus in the bloodstream predicted how individuals did," Mdlors said. "The more virus, the worse the individuals did, by which I mean the shorter time to developing full-blown AIDS and dying." The researchers analyzed blood samples from 180 gay men enrolled in a U.S.government study between 1983 mad 1991. They found that 49% of the men with more than 36,000 HIV particles per milliliter of blood died within 5 years. But only 5% withjust oneninth tha{amount of virus die.d that quickly. "The likelihood of progression ~ncreases directly with the level ofAIDS virus in the blood-,:’ Mellors said. "So we have a pretty good idea based on our study what the expected survival of an individual would be at a certain level of virus." Dr. Anthony Fauci, director of the National Institutes of Allergy &Infectious Disease says the researchers’ findings will let doctors make better decisions aboutwhen to begin treatments and when "to change to possibly more aggressive therapies. "If some individuals have very high set points [HIV particle counts], even though their CD4 cells are reasonably OK, you might want to more aggressively treat those people because you know that you can predict they are going to do more poorly," Fauci said. "Whereas someone who has a low [HIV particle count], even though their CD4 count might not be all that high, you might want to hold off on aggressive therapy. So really, it’s a step towards using the steady state level of the virus much more as a tool both in prediction and in therapeutic decisions." FDA OK’s HIV Tests wASHINGTON-The U.S Food&Drug Administration has given theOKto 2 new HIV tests in this country. The Orasure test appears to be as accurate as current standard blood tests,research indicates, but has the advantage of using saliva instead of blood,thereby potentially reducing the number of accidental needle-stick injuries to heal th care workers. The FDA also gave. approval to Hoffmann-l.aRoche’s SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s " Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct .insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: ~- Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. 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HIV Cell Infection Agent Isolated WASHINGTON-Government scientists report they have discovered a chemical clue to.why HIV is infectious. Reporting ganciclovirreduce the stricken by the blinding eye disease, cytomegalovirus (CMV) that often attacks PWAs in the advanced stages of the illness. Researchers at the University of California at San Diego studied 725 men during a 12-month program testing the Hoffman-LaRocheversion ofgancidovir, known as Cytovene and found that a daily dose of the drug reduced the risk of contracting CMV by nearly half. risks of being’ " ’in the journal Science,researchers at the NatiOnal Institute of Allergy and Infec- AIDS Drugs for HIVExposed Workers ATLANTA - The U.S..Centers for Disease Control &Prevention has for the first time recommended that health care workers who are exposed to HIVthrough accidental needle-sticks or other medical procedures should be givenantiviral drugs, including AZT and 3TC, immediately following such accidents. The agency says studies now show without doubt the effectiveness of theantiviral drugs in counteracting the virus. HIV Infection Risk From Oral Sex? CHICAGO - A research study published in the journal Sciencereports that the risk of transmission of the simian version of HIV (known as SIV, and closely related to HtV) through the mouth may be higher than had been believed. The Harvard University researcher found that 6 of the 7 rhesus monkeys thevswabbed with SIV in the back of the thr~at became infected with the virus,according to the report. The researchers also found, surprisingly, that far less of the virus - 6,000 times less - was needed to trigger an infection than is required to infect the monkeys rectally with the virus. The study’s startling results are so unlike other research and data about oral transmission risks that many AIDS and health workers immediately questioned the findings. Among other things, federal studies have only documented 15 cases of -known oral transmission and infection of HIV-since the epidemic began. Also, AIDS experts point out, unprote!~ ted oral sex has continued to be popular among gaymen in the U.S. while the infection rate among homosexuals has steadily declined since the routes of trans= missio~a were discovered. Drug Combo Effective WASHINGTON - A 73-week study by drug manufacturer Hoffman-LaRoche of some 978 AIDS patients has shown that Invirase, the brand name for the firm’s version of the protease inhibitor saqui.navir, in combination with the drug ddC, reduced the rate of deaths by more than two-thirds compared to patients taking ddC alone. Saquinavir has been considered the least impressive of the new tions Diseases saythey have found a protein, which they call "fusin," that must be present for HIV to infect white blood cells, the primary target of the virus. Edward A. Berger, who headed the team that made the discovery, said the discovery gives scientists a "new handle on understanding" how HIV invades cells. "Obviouslythis is a potential target for developing new drugs to treat HIV infection," Berger said. "Potentially by coming up with a drug that blocks the receptor, you might block the ability of HIV to replicate." The researchers cautioned, however~ that there were sdll many mysteries about the virus that need to be answered. Among other things, they noted that HIV attaches itself to some types of immune cells in the early stages of the infection without using fusin. This means HIV comes in variations that connect to CELl. cells and some other molecular cofactor or cofactors on these cells. Berger said that potential drugs that block the fusin receptor on cells could only do part of the job in combating HIV. Heat Treatment OK for Expanded Trials LOS ANGELES - The Indiana-based HemoCleanse Inc. has been given approval by the Food & Drug Administration to expand testing of itsblood-heating treatment of people infected with HIV. The 2nd phase of the trials will include 2- hour treatments at St. Elizabeth Hospital in Lafayette, Ind., and the Harbor-UCLA Research & Education Institute in Los Angeles. HemoCleanse’ s treatment, similar to kidney dialysis, involves slowly drawing all a patient’s blood from his body in small quantities and heating it to 108 degrees Fahrenheit before infusing it back into his body. The ideabehind the treatment is that HIV is sensitive to even small increases in temperature and would be destroyed in massive quantities by the treatment. Sixty patients will be divided into 2 groups during the trials. One group will receive 2 treatments each - the first for I hour, and the 2nd for 2 hours.The other group will serve as a control group and will not receive the heat treatment, but will remain on standard HIV drug therapy. Global AIDS Briefs GENEVA - The World Bank has warued in a new report that up to 2 million of Malawi’s 11 million population will be infected with HIV by the year 2000 and the average life span in that so. African nation will drop from 57 to just 33 years. It adds that unless culturally conservative and devoutly Christian people in 22 So. Pacific island nations and territories alter their views about sex education and condom use, the AIDS epidemic yvill devastate that region as well. Sohoma Lane & Diana Nicolejoin Brian & Bill. with Victoria Towers &Veronica DeVorefor a successful Pride Picnic Benefit at Lola’s. Photos: JD Jamett Kathryn Conover at Gayfest, Renegades Brian & Bill ofLola’s Package includes: two nights’ Club Level accommodations at the Sheraton New York or Manhattan with daily continental breakfast and afternoon hors d’oeuvres, a first row center orchestra ticket to Victor. Victoria, cast recording on compact disc or cassette, souvenir brochure, ticket delivery to the hotel, cancellation insurance on the theatre tickets, New York Visitors’ Information Kit and all taxes. $424.00 per person, double occupancy only Extra night available at $132.00 per person ~lt. Offer Validfrom June I to August 31, 1996. Call 341.6866 International Tours for more information. IGTA member. couldn’t happen without the support and hard work of these folks. The Picnic is organized this year by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). TOHR was asked by the former organizers, an informal association of business owners (mosdy dub owners), to resume organizing the event. The Picnic continues their traditions with minor changes. After complaints from many individuals about conflicts with Father’s Day, the orgamzers responded by moving the event to Saturday. Also due to ongoing problems with the Mohawk Park site, the organizers unanimously approved Owen Park as this year’s site. The Picnic is an informal affair with free beverages. Attendees are welcome to bring their own food or to purchase food at a modest cost. Any funds raised by the Picnic (after expenses) will "aenefit the Gax &LesbianCommunity Center Project and the City of Tulsa Park & Recreation Dept. A number of community organizations will have tables with information about their programs. Brief opening and closing ceremonies will feature local entertainers, including Tulsa Family Chorale, and Oklahoma City’s The Banned, a marching band (who’ll be sitting down). The Rev. Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope and RF Renfro of Bless The Lord At All Times will give opening and dosing blessings. Info: 743-2497. and $2,500 for pain and suffering as well as attomey,’s fees. Saladin said to TFN that his goal in pursuing legal action was not financial but rather trying to do what was right. He’was represented by Steve Novick, Greg Bledsoe, and Katrina Bodenhamer on behalf of the AIDS Legal Resource Project. The Project is ajoint effort of the Singer Abigail at Concessions Oklahoma Bar Association Young Lawyers Division, Legal AidofWestern Oklahomaand Legal Services of Eastern Oklahoma. ¯ to Lesbian and Gay cltazens instead of ¯ testifying about a bill that would deny ¯ equal rights. "I find instead of defending ¯ marriage, I need to defend the people - ¯ gay & lesbian people - who are being :- denied the right to marry. I do not believe ¯ we would be here today if our society did ¯ not have a deep bias against gay &lesbian ¯ people. I say that not to lay blame, but to ¯ recognize the fact that we are’really in a civil rights discussion about gay & les- : bian persons.’" McDongld further gave examples of " discrimination experienced by Gay per- " sons or persons perceived tobe Gay using ¯ the story of one of her sons who was ¯ ¯ beaten because he was perceived as Gay even though he happens not to be. ¯ McDonald adds that she perceives the ¯ country to bein a"cultural meltdown" not because Gay people may marry but because "we have yet to overcome our intol- ¯ erance and bigotry. Wehave yet to recog- ¯ nize the richness in the diversity of all of ¯ our citizens:" ¯ McDonald closed by questioning the ¯ need for this legislation since the Hawaii ¯ case that has prompted this response is ¯ tmlikely to be resolved for several years, ¯ and maybe not favorably to Gay citizens. ¯ She called on Representatives not to tar- " get Lesbians and,,G,aymenfor discrimina- ." don butrather to ’foCus on the challenges of the economy, of education, and health ¯ care that face all of us." LI L.’T! 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Results hours: 7--. 9-pm- ,’. - Community of Hope Info~ 742-292-7 1703 E. 2rid, _I0fo: 5~_5_- 1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. :bf each month Info~ 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay~i& Lesbian Student _~:. Association " TJ~-outheast Campus, L!nfo: 631-7632 SW~4N-Single Woments Activity Network Call 832-2121 SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 5pm. Owen Park 560 No. Maybelle at Edison Info: 583-1248 PFLAG Family AIDS " : Support Group ¯ 2nd Monday of month, : ¯" 6:30 pm ¯ 4154 S. Harvard " ; Info: 749-4901 : ¯ OTHER GROUPS . TOHR Helpline " : Daily 8-10 pm .. For info. or to volunteer: 743-GAYS " The Technicians, Leather try., Info c/o 621-5597 " : T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform " : & Leather Seekers Assoc. " ¯ Info: 838-1222 : SUNDAY, JUNE 16 Family ofFaithMCC Father’s Day Service with Father Rick Hollingsworth 11 am, 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 WEDNESDAY, JUNE 19 TCAP Advisory Council Meeting Noon, 1430 S. Boulder FRIDAY, JUNE 21 Tulsa Regional HIV Prevention Community Planning Group Meeting 2:30 pm, 1430 S Boulder JUNE 21 & 22 Follies Revue, Inc. Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies! 6 pm, Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place $125 & $40, Info: 437-0201 SATURDAY, JUNE22 Herland Sister Resources Concert: Freefall 7 pm, 2312 NW39th, OKC 73112 TUESDAY, JUNE 25 AIDS Walk ’96 Planning Committee 6 pm, 1608 S. EIwood JUN E 28-30 7th Annual Oklahoma HIV/AIDS Conference "Sharing Our Strength" Oklahoma Center for Continuing Education, 1704Asp, Norman Info: Andy Southam, 800-942-1914 SATURDAY, JUNE 29 That’s Entertainment? BadDrag Show Family ofFaith MCC 8 pm, 5451-E S !~ingo, 622-1441 SUNDAY, JUNE 30 Community ofHope 3rdAnniversary Meeting &Worship Service 5 &6 pm, 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 TUESDAY, JULY 2 Tulsa Oklahomansfor Human Rights Meeting, 7 pm; Chouteau Rm, Chapman Ctr, TU, Info: 743-4297 " i SUNDAY, JULY7 ¯ Native American Worship Service ¯ 6 pro, Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 : FRIDAY, JULY 12 : Interfaith AIDSMinitries : Ice Cream SocialBenefit : 7-10 pro, St. !vlatthew’s Episcopal ¯ 601 No. Lake Drive ¯" Sand Springs,/afro: 438-2437 JULY 20-21 4th Annual Shanti-Tulsa Water Garden Tour 10-5 pm, Info: 749-7898 TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project ¯Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd OUT + ABOUTYes, the rumors are true. H1 be uve m our nat~on s capital... ...I would to take this chance to thank a few people for the .$r.eat op: portumt es an l Senulne care they have Siren me. ¯ h~tions make you who you are and what 3’our life is all about. It took working for : Tulsa Family News and Tom to get my ¯ foot out the door and have me doing all ¯ stuff that ldonow. I don’t know if any of : you realized this, but I’ve always tried to promote uni ty in this column as best I can. I have seen this community from drag queens, cowboys, leather folk, .Lesbians and all the rest not having not a thing to do with the others; nut I have also had the chance to see this change. Please folks, don’t stop working together to make our community better! Well I’m getting a little choked up, so let me say my goodbye, and remember: next time you’re out and you see thatperson orgroup ofpeople you think you can’t stand, stop, smile and say something nice. It will make Tulsa a better place for all of us. tops, I almost forgot to name my last Queen of the Month! This person has picked herself up, brushed herself off, and continues to try to make herself a better person. That’s right, guys, Bobbie Sue Summers. SUNDAY, JUNE 23 Statewide Pride Rally & Parade Ecumenical Worship Service, The Banned, Metro Men’s Chorus, Sen. Bernest Cain, Keynote Speaker: Donna Red Wing- ’92 Advocate Woman ofthe Year 1 pm, program begins. 3 pm, speaker Red Wing, 4 pm, parade begins. Memorial Park, NW35th & Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City Info: 743-4297 or 405-791-0202 by J.D. Jamett Yes, the rumors are true. I’ll be leaving Tulsa to go live in our nation’s capital !boy, talk about out of the frying pan and into the fire). I would like to take this chance to thank a few people for the great opportunitaes and genuine care they have given me. Tom Neal, for being that OLDERfoster- big brother (or sister) that has always looked out for me, and who has been pu.shy,er.., pushing me ~n the right direction. Geoff & Earl, and the rest ofthatcrazy group that I call my chosen family - I will be ever indebted to you mentally and physically. Steve & John, please send the Burger Sisters for a visit. Bill & Brain, Lola needs a star on the walk of fame. Dennis, Larry, & Veronica - thanks for the ear bending and all the craziness. Larry and Leroy, thanks for all the support, and many others from doctors and medical staff to all my great friends. If you had asked me years ago to go out into the commu- ~,~ty and do something, any:- Bobbi Sue Summers ," thing to make it better, I ¯ would’vetolAtyou,"YOU’RECRAZY! ~ ¯ No one cares about what I think." It just ¯ ," took therealization that youropinions and " Editor’s note: JD will be greatly missed. While hls unique skills cannot be imitated. Out+About will continue with a new club reporter in our July issue. session. Complicated legislative ntles have slowed down movement on the bill, but there remains very little active opposition to the measure in the legislature itself. While gay rights activists around the country were celebrating the May 20 ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court overturning Colorado’s Amendment2, SouthCarolinaGov. David Beasley signed in.to law. a measure barring same-sex mamages in the state. To find any good news in the same-sex marriage arena, activists had to look to Holland where the Dutchjustice ministry announced it will be putting together a panel of experts to evaluate the possible impact of legalizing gay and lesbian marriages in the country. The Dutch Parliament has already voted in principle to support full equality in marriage rights for same-sex couples, but the government has continued to resist full marriage status for gays and lesbians, arguing that the international consequences for the tiny European nation could be enormous. The committee the justice ministry appoints will examine nfitional and international laws and treaties that might be affectedby such a move. It will have a year to prepare its report, including recommendations for legislation. TV’s "Face the Nation" that the President’s quick announcement that he would sign the measure was "’an unconscionable position for him to take." Mixner said Clinton’s decision was doubtless political in his efforts to keep his popularity lead over anticipated Republican challenger Sen. Bob Doleof Kansas in the November election. "But this goes to the heart of everybody’s civil liberties," Mixner said. "It deals with property rights, insurance rights, xmmigration rights,bereavement rights, and to deny us equal opportur~,~ty really makes us second class citizens. In Seattle, councilwoman Tina Podlodowski, who is a lesbian, resigned as co-chair of Clinton’s Washington state re-election campaign, but said she still supports Clinton in the upcoming election, an echo of the dilemma many gays and lesbians feel over an issue that most paid little attention to until it exploded on the national political landscape this year. Podlodowski told the Seattle Times, "I’m still very supportive of the President but I believe it’s important to show leadership on this. This issue speaks to a broader issue of civil rights." In an interview with the New York Times, openly gay White House advisor BobHattoy said the President had been out-maneuvered by conser= vatives on the issue and said Clinton and his campaign advisers were more "’homostupid" than homopho.bic, ~ayin.g that supporting same-sex mamage now Is "’aloser" politically. "Ijust wish the straight white boys at the White House would educate themselves a little more," he said. "It’ s not that they’rehomophobic - they’re homostupid, and they don’t know that the buzzwords they’re using are the buzzwords the right wing uses as terrorist dividing tactics and that the gay &lesbian community has a visceral reaction to." Both the Human Rights Campaign and the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force have issued a number of press releases in the past few weeks attacking DOMA and criticizing President Clinton’s statements that he would sign the measure, but the Washington, D.C.-based civil rights groups have been unable to find many political allies willing to publicly fight against the proposed legislation as it continues its rapid movement through both houses of Congress. The Human Rights Campaign said that a Clinton endorsement of the bill would be "’an unconscionable capitulation-to religious political extremists" and"demanded" thatthe President oppose the measure. Elizabeth Birch, head of HRC said, "The statement by White House press secretary Mike McCurry earlier this week that same-sex marriagewouldweaken the family was silly and completely, inconsistent with the president’s prewous positions regarding equal rights for gay men and lesbians." Openly gay Congressman Barney Frank (D-Mass.) called the antimarriage bill"a tranSparent political issue in ttie presidential campaign." Stephen Moakarsh, a Los Angeles board member of Lawyers for Human Rights,said, "I think he (Clinton) has been the first president to really include gays and lesbians at the table. For that, I admire him greatly. But I think in terms of the marriage issue, it’s unfortunate that he feds compelled to join with the GOP. My feeling is that Clinton is trying to avoid a political fire storm that the gays in the military issue caused him in 1993." seeking legal protections against discrimination in housing, employment, health and welfare services, education, and real estate sales. Justice Kennedy called "implausible" Colorado’s central argument thatAmendment 2 simply made gay and lesbian citizens equal with other state reside,n,ts by denying them any "special rights.’ The majority decision wasjoined by Justices Kennedy, John Paul Stevens, SandraDay O’Connor, David Sourer, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Stephen Breyer. Dissenting were Justices Scalia, William Rehnquist and Clarence Thomas. Representatives from serveral Tulsa organizations held a press conference at Community of Hope United Methodist to recognize the importance of the Court’s decision. Bill Hinlde representing the ACLU of OK, Kelly Kirby, the Gay & Lesbian Affirming Disciples ofthe Church of Christ, Nancy MacDonald, PFLAG, and .Tom Neal, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights spoke about the positive impact this decision would have on the efforts of Oklahomans to seek fair and equal treatment from the State of Oklahoma and the City of Tulsa. Enyart, whose program regularly feain the program along with First Methodist tures anti-Gay tirades, was to participate and First Baptist pastors, Dr. Buskirk and Dr. Shaw, as well as evangelicals like Carlton Pearson of Higher Dimensions andTV personalities, Jerry Webber,Travis Meyer and Paul Serrell. Promise Keepers claims to be a Christian men’s organization that seeks to help them live more responsible lives, to help men strengthen theirfriendships with other men and to bridge societal, particularly racial, divisions. Critics charge thatPromise Keepers has close ties to radical religious extremists, noting that one founder former Univ. of Colorado football coach, Bill McCartney was a key supporter of the anti-Gay Colorado Amendment 2. ¯ Waiting To Invest Could JeopardizeYour Dreams! These are just some of the multitude of reasons people use to explain why they haven’t started an investment plan. Investing for the future is frequently seen as a luxury, rather than a necessity. Something you do after you’ve taken care of essential livingexpenses. Unfortunately, there is rarely anymoneyleftover alter doing that, so it’s easy to procrastinate. But do you know how much waiting, even a few years, can cost you? The chart below shows the monthly investment required at different ages to accumulate $1 million by age 65, assuming hypothetical 10 percent compounded rate of return. What this chart shows is the dynamic power of compound returns. Compounding is the process where each year you not only earn money on you invested principal, you also earn additional money on the money you earned. The amount you earn grows or "compounds" at an increasing rate as the years go by. By starting an investmentprogramat an earlier age, you spread the accumulation task over a longer period of time and enable your money to benefit from the ~owerful force of compounding. Incidentally, $1 million might seem like a lot of money to you today, but in order to generate an income of $70,000 a year forjust 22 years of retirement, that’s how much you’ll need to sock away (assuming a hypothetical annual return of 7.5% and inflation rate of 3.14%). If you’ve been putting off investing, as yourself if it is going to be any easier putting away almost three times as much at age 35, than at age 25? Or, eight times as much at age 45? Your financial priorities will change over the years and your income .will increase. However, whether you’re saving for a house at age 25 or trying to juggle nances to pay for your children’s education age 45, chances are it will be just as difficult. In addition, can you afford not to benefit from the power of compounding? How Can I Start Investing Now? First, accept the fact that there is never aconvenient time to invest. The answer to this dilemma lies in paying yourself first. Before you can do this you need to do a cash-flow analysis to find muela wai_tln , even a l’ew years, can cost you? out where your money is -going. Warning! This might be a frightening process. Once the numbers are laid out in front of you, you’re probably going to see several ways to reducing your expenses. Establishing a spending plan is often helpful. As part of this process, review your accumulation goals and determine a minimum percentage of your income that you’ll need to invest to meet these goals. By breaking the taskdownintomanageable parts, you’ll introduce discipline into your investment program and increase your chances of success ! It’ll take a while, but the long-term payoff for your discipline may be sweet. 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Featured performers were Deborah Coleman, Baby Jason & The Spankers, and Martin Simpson. ff you have not been fortunate enough to participate in a BluesFest weekend in Eureka Springs, youhave no idea what you are missing. From Thursday evening through Sunday afternoon, every club in town hosts both big name and local talent. And, the larger venues host nearly non-stop big name performers. You can pay one price to get into any of the clubs, and most folks spend the weekend going back and forth from the various small clubs, occasionally taking time out to attend a big concert. City Auditorium, Victoria Inn, and the Basin" Park and Crescent Hotels hosted some of the best blues talent on the planet this vear. but the most-anucipated event took"place Friday evening. Bo Diddlv performed two concerts along with local favorite The Cate Brothers Band ¯¯ Othernameperformers includedKenny Neal, Raful Neal, Tab Benoit, Chubby ¯ Carrier, Jimmy Thackery, Canned Heat, ¯ Keb Mo’, Robert Lucas, mad Kelly Jo ¯ Phelps. If you find yourself wishing you had ¯ been there, you still have time to get tickets for the 12th Annual Eureka Springs If.you_have not been fortunate enough to partlelpate in a Blue-sFest weekend in E r ka you have no idea what you are missing. From. Thursday evemng through Sunday afternoon, every dub in town hosts both big name and local talent. Jazz Festival connng up in September (19th- 22nd). Events surrounding JazzFest take on the samefeel as for BluesFest. The music is just different. To reserve tickets for the Jazz Festival, call the JazzFest Hotline at 501- 253 -6258. And, there’s always next year for BluesFest. Both of these festivals are major attractions in Eureka Springs so the earlier you reserve tickets, and make your lodging reservations, the more likely you are to getexacfly what you want. Next year’s BluesFest dates are May 29th - June 1, and the BluesFest BrX Office can be reached ~ar-round at 501-253-53ff6. For those ~3fyou whose taste runs mdie toward the fine arts er~d:of the spectrum, the ~nspiration Point Fine Arts Colony will be hosting Operain the Ozarks from June 21st - July 20. Fully-staged orchestra performances will be held at 8 PM at the Fine Arts Colony for the entire month. Reservations and information are available by calling 501-253-8595. Come enjoy the music and the ambience of Victorian Eureka Springs! 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Roy, a little older and wiser, is a popular kid and hangs around with a couple of guys, Randy and Burke, who follow his every move, not realizing that they.actually idolizehim. Randy and Burke, strictly heterosexual, become abit jealous whenRoy starts inviting the shy, withdrawn Nathan to pal around with-them: Nathan’s hom~ life is an uncomfdriable mix of a mentally ill, abusive fff~her and a meek, helpless mother, so fi~ is anxious to spend as much time as poss~i’ble away from home, preferably with Roy, the only person who pays attention t0~m. Through several rocky adventures,Roy and Nathan begin to come to terms with their muttml attraction. Violence interrupts their budding romance, but they are unable to be kept apart. ~ Except for a couple of extremely vio- ¯ lent scenes, this could be a young adult ¯ novel, although adults should enjoy it also. The writing is sim-~ihe theme ...Except for a couple of extremely violent scenes, tl~s could be a young adult novel, although adults should enjoy it also ...Dream Boy is a pleasant, fun read, but it takes a back seat when compared to some other gay eomlng of age novels... of sexual attraction is very carefully and tactfully written. The two maincharacters are well written, but we don’t fully understand the secondary characters, particularly Randy and Burke. Nathan’s father is a pathetic stereotype of a disillusioned, surly and cruel man, and the mother’s character is paper thin, spending her time timidly between her abusive husband and introverted son. Dream Bov is a pleasant, funread, but it takes a back seat when compared to some other gay coming of age novels, particularly Common Sons, by Ronald Donaghe, reviewed in this column last year. The Tulsa City-Count" Library also owns the first novel by Dream Boy author Jim Grimsley, Winter birds. Please check with your local branch library or the Readers Services department, Central Library, at 596-7966, for Dream Boy and other books of interest. by James Christjohn Have I got CDs for you to listen to all summer long! First off,I’ve found some incredible gay-themed CDs. "Stage 1: How I LoveYou"is a true find. A goldmine of love songs from Broadway’s greatest shows, sung as originally written - by men, to men. Like an intimate cabaret show, the songs are set to a s~mple piano accompaniment, and are sung beautifully by some really talented singers. It is a treat to hear some of these songs sung the way we in the gay male community have always dreamed of i.hem - with same-gender pronouns. Tracks include selections from Gershwin to Webber, classic standards to lesser.known~ gems. Highly recommended. Available at selected records stores, or by mail at 800-707- 8683. Wonderful for setting a romantic mood, or daydreaming of Mr. Right. Up next is a great MCC Cathedral of Hope has produced a musleal.... r.egardlng Gayissues f~orn a Christlanstandpolnt.... it was pretty good.... the son~_s are rather beautiful.... [they] range from hilarious " (An Old Fashioned Lesbian Christmas) to moving to romantle. original cast album of "Get Used To It!" byTomWilson Weinberg, who also wrote the "Ten Percent Revue". This album wittily captures all aspects of life as a gay man, from religion to falling in love, gaybashing to what to call your spouse.. partner.., lover. The songs are sung by a top notch cast of very beautiful voices. (My, but we’re a highly talented bunch... and creative, too! What would the straight folk do without us?) The songs range from hilarious ("Breaking the Penal Code With You", about... well, use your imagination. It’s alove song, for those needing further hints. On second thoughts, those needing further hints probably aren’t reading this.) to heart-wrenching ("How We Get The News", about the way some of us find out about our loved one’s death from HIV). This would be show I’d love to see done (or do) here, were the interest to match the actual probability of having an audience.- Available from Aboveground Records, POB 2233, Philadelphia PA, 19103. A little closer to home, theMCCCathedral of Hope, Dallas, has produced a musi- : cal dealing with education and outreach ¯¯ regarding gay issues from a Christian standpoint. "Coming Out, Coming Home: A Lesbian/Gay-Positive Musical ofLove, : Truth, & God’s Grace" (Christians are see Notes, page 14 Bring your pet I/¥ our""~Oot~ 3311 S. 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Name: ~" Age: Address: City, Sty. &Zip: Telephone: parallel-parked somewhere between luxury and necessit3: By combining hLv,nfious s~’ling and dq~ndability, the ,-k~.x:ord EX ~dan fits as nicely into ~mur litKstyle as it doc~ intn a parking space.; For your sensible, pmctit~l side. this car otters a hb’st of impressi~:¢ ~tbty and pertbm~ance t~utures-including doal airba~; and-lock brakes, side-impact protection, double wishbone suspension and a responsive. 145-horsepower x,-FEC en~ne. And tbr your indulgent side. the Accord EX .Sedan is loaded with creature cnmtb~, like power windows, l:X~wer door locks, a spacious. ergonomic mtedor, a power moonroo£ air c~mdidoning, catise control and a high-|~wered stereo. ~ stop by toda’~" tbr a test-drive ~plen~" offree parking avaitablek The .-kc~.a)rd EX Sedan, ~ll[~lt~l~’tl~-~. by Jean-Pierre, TFN Food Critic I lost the bet. Now I have to prepare dinner for someone who doesn’t know the difference between fingers, a dinner fork, a salad fork, or a wild fork. But, what is worse in being wrong, ~s that the poor citizens of Tulsa will continue to be deluded about what constitutes truly fine cuisine and what is merely flash and a waste of money. One year ago, we went to a highly touted, brand-new restaurant in Utica Square. Everyone had great expectations, since one of Tulsa’s best known chefs, Kim Michee, and her partner, Julie Woolman, were the drivingforces behind the venture. As we lingered over postdessert coffee, I quipped that unless Helmerich and Payne (owner-operator of Utic~ Square) was looking at the Wild Fork as a tax write- .off, the restaurant would be closed within the year. And, thus, I was goaded into making the illfated bet. They’re still open. The Wild Fork is situatedin~emiddle ofUticaSquare at the site of the former landmark instituuon and tea room, The Garden. Ourfirst visit to the Wild Fork was on a rainy Saturday night, and we were obliged to wait for our table. But, a crowded, bustling restaurant is usually a good sign. We had a bit of an uneasy feeling in dealing with the rather abrupt and disinterested hostesses, magnified by our limited dealings with our waiter, so we wrote it off to the strains of being a new restaurant on a busy night. However, on our several subsequent visits to the Wild Fork, including the most recent when our party was one of only three tables in the entire restaurant, it= is apparent that the Wild Fork is trying for some kind of unique merger between the rude waiters in New York & the snooty waiters in Paris. The Wild Fork is open all day, and there are different menus for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Regardless of the mealtime you’ve chosen, one look at the menu and you instantly know that this is a culinary experience that will not come cheap. It seems as though every review about the Wild Fork written in a Tulsa paper over the last year has raved about the crab cakes. Far be it for us to break with tradition. The crab cakes are a combination of crab meat, corn, and the usual fillers to hold it all together, that is deep-fried and then presented atop a homemade mayonnaise aioh sauce and buried underamound of terrifyingly hot jalapefio cole slaw. Scrape off the cole slaw and enjoy the wonderful calories and high fat and cholesterol content of the crab cakes. After all, what’s a little grease and mayo (mayo is just egg yolks and olive oil whisked The W;ld Forl 1820 Utlea Square HOliI’~: 7 a.m. to 10 p.m. Monday - Saturday, do ed Sunday Cu;s;ne: Amerlean contemporary Dressg Casual (but remember this is Utica Square) Prices: Very expensive Alcohol: Full bar & wine llst Non-smo]dn~ seeHon: Rat;n~: B li~t ¯ together with a dab of spice)? ¯¯ But the famous crab cakes illustrate quite well what is wrong with the cuisine ¯ at this restaurant. First of all, Chef Michee ¯ tnes to be too creative and too innovative. ¯ She takes top quality food, prepares it ¯ well, and then ruins it with a bizarre or ¯ weird sauce or accompaniment. She had ¯ the same problem when she was at ¯ Kannichael’s and at the Fifteenth Street Grill, two of Tulsa’s be~ter restaurants ¯ which are now both out of business. Sec- ¯ ondly, the restaurant touts itself as featuring "new American cuisine," but you’d think the chef had been on another planet the last couple of decades when it comes to presenting healthy, lower fat foods and lots more vegetables and salads. The soups continue the saga. While most of today’s celebrated modern American chefs in Dallas, Santa Fe, Scottsdale, or Los Angeles have gone kb healthier thicke~ng methods for crealn soups such as vegetable purees, beurre mani~, white rice puree, or a simple roux, with only a splash of cream or dairy product, Miss Michee continues to insist upon making cream soups the old fashioned way, based on traditional b~chamel ¯ and velout~ sauces. These can be very tasty, but they are far ¯ too rich to eat more than a few gravy-like ¯ spoonfuls. Same old story with the entr~es. With ¯ the one major exception of the pork ten- " derloin roulade, which is dry and taste¯ less, the meats and .fish are good quality foods expertly prepared--until they are ¯ sauced. Do we really need Moroccan lem- ¯ ons (aren’t American lemons good ¯ enough?) on the free range chicken’? Hot ¯ mango salsas on the meats’? A "creative ¯ reinvenfion" of the chicken-fried steak? ¯ Excellent, huge sea scallops ruined by flavoring them with Pernod (a nasty lico- ¯ rice flavored liqueur)? Strongly flavored ¯ olive and vinegar sauces ondelicate sweet- ¯ breads? It is possible to get a decent meal in this ¯ place, but you must be pro-active to do it. ¯ Find out what is on the menu and ask for ¯ substitutions or deletions. Anything that ¯ sounds unusual or strange should be ig- ¯ nored. If Chef Michee is inthe kitchen, ¯ rely uponher excellent training and expe- ¯ rience to cook ameal to your exact speci- ¯ fieafions; just don’t let her play around ¯ and get creative. The problem with this ¯ technique is that Miss Michee is not al¯ ways in the kitchen, and many a lesser cook will panic when the set recipe is ¯ changed. Also, there seems to be a com- . munications breakdown between diner, ¯ waiter, and kitchen, because many times, ¯ special requests end up being ignored. Vegetables are bland, boring, overlooked side dishes here, almost relegated to the status of a garnish. Salads aren’t emphasized, either. This is the one major area of improvement needed at this restaurant. As is the case in many fine restaurants, the baking is delegated to a baker and not handled by the chef herself. This i~ unfortunate, because we have had breads held too long in the warmer and disappointing desserts on almost every visit. On one visit, our cr~me brfil~e tasted almost curdledand thdpr0pan~ torch used in lieu of the broiler to caramelizethe ~t’op’was unevenly applied. Another time, we had to ask for our coffee before the end of the dessert course just to wash down the dry cake. No excitement or originality here. There is a surprising little wine list with tolerable but limited choices in the moderate and lessexpensive categories, defi-~ nitely preferring U,S. domestic vintages. Despite its shortcomings, theWild Fork continues tobe a popular restaurant . amongst the wealthier masses of Tulsa. Either Miss Michee has a loyal following from her previous kitchen experiments or Tulsans arejust too parochial to know the difference between fine, wonderful food and overly-flashy, overly-expensive messes. Go to the Wild Fork if you like (and you can afford it), but don’t be sur~ prised if you find it to be just another rehash of a couple of dead Tulsa restau-i, rants. wordy folk, aren’t they?) Being of Pagan/’ Wiccan religious orientation myself, I ¯ don’t normally go for Christian music (or " anything else). But I found that I knew and " had performed in shows with a writer/ ¯ performer listed on the album, so I bought ¯ it. I didn’t really think I’d like it, but " thought Tom might. Upon listening to it, " I discovered that it was pretty good. It is ¯ professionally, recorded, and the songs are rather beautiful. Not all have to do " with Christianity, although there are some " .songs of that ilk - and I even liked those. ¯ And I hate gospel music. Go figur!! And, unlike the others listed in this issue’s column, this one includes Lesbians, which is good. I hate doing unbalanced columns. As with"Get Used to It!’"~ the songs range from hilarious (,Me Old Fashioned Lesbian Christmas) to moving to romantic. Maybe one of our MCC’s could produce it? Just an idea... This disc can be ordered by calling 800-501-HOPE.. Dallas cabaret performer Perry Wood has a new disc out. "Let Me Sing" is a lovely album to get romantic with someone while it plays. Mr. Wood’s bedroom ..... voi.ceCould singme to sleep anydme. And his looks match his voice! Best of all worlds. He sings standards such as "Bewitched", "Embraceable You", "Night " ~:~.~.~A~dDay!;:as:~e!l as~sserkno nsongs :of io~i "It~i~t~t~p rioteh album for those,~." who love smooth vocals, a jazz back- " ground, and a beautiful voice. This is his " 3rd album, and they’re all well worth getting hold of. They can be ordered at " 214-522-3764. " For those of a more instrumental na~ . ture, the soundtrack to "It’s My Party" is .. a beautiful collection of piano composi- . tions that really communicates the film~ " well. Available at Mediaplay. ¯ Liza’s new album, "Gendy" is a lovely . collection of standards, including a vet- . How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the number of words. (A word for our purposes is a group ofletters or aumbers separated by a space.) Send your ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 with your name, complete address, day & eve. numbers (for our records only). Ads will nmin the next issue after they are received. TFN reserves the right to edit or refuse any ad. No refunds. Coffee & conversation? Attractive 30’s GM seeking similar (or extra co01 bi-guy) for coffee & conversation. Friendship can stimulate mind, body & soul. Appreciate healthy attitudes about life, work, etc. Interested? Tell me about yourself. Write to: #20 c/o TFN, POB 4140, Tulsa, OK’74159 sion of "Embraceable You+" which was recorded by her mother long ago. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, June 15-July 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 7 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 15-July 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean Pierre Leanne Gross Pat Moehead JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, May 15-June 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 6 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/511 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV discrimination AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV testing Amendment 2 arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars Bill Clinton businesses churches Dave Fleischer Defense of Marriage Act Don't Ask Don't Tell Entertainment Notes estate planning Eureka Springs Family Finances funera homes gay clergy harassment HIV/AIDS research homophobia J.D. Jamett James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Jim Grimsley legislation Log Cabin Republicans marriage Out and About Partner Benefits performing arts PFLAG Phyl Boler-Schmidt Pride Promise Keepers representation restaurants Ryan White care Act Saladin v. Turner schools Tom Neal Tulsa Family News viatication Wild Fork https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a29ac177c154144aaf80b3439d532d36.jpg 2abd74e3b5d1dcabaf2c21c0c102efb3 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b8126de44b90b8579e0412996278bf8c.pdf 2a83b379bbc6c933cac7b719a72a5abe PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart March 15 - April 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue .1 Anti-Marriage ¯ Run for gourLives, Part2 ¯: Trustees TU HiresFire Pres. WithGay Anti-Gay Record Tenured ProfessorAmid Efforts Explode : Legislative Update ¯ OKC Gay Man Helps On AntiAround States Gay Measure, More on Way Charges of Blackmail Against Univ. I| Several OKC sources have accused an by Tom Neal " terhead stationary, of the Paris-Jackson GOP Presidential Primary and : In February, trustees of the University . event as "’one of the. greatest disappoint: OKC Gay man of misrepresenting himAnti-Gay Marriage Pledge of Tulsa hired new president , .self as a spokesperson of the entire state’s ments ~n my role as PresiDES MOINES - A number of anti-gay ¯ Gay communities in a behind-the-scenes Robert Lawless, currently dent at Texas Tech.’" He organizations - Colorado for Family Val- ¯ deal with OK House Majority Leader president of Texas Techniadded "the deviant lifestyles ues, the Christian Coalition, the Eagle :i Loyd Benson. Benson, a Democrat who’d cal University (Tech), to re~ portrayed by these individuForum, the Traditional Values Coalition, place Robert Donaldson. introduced an anti-Gay resolution, # 1045, als is something I can never and others - drew several thousand funda- ¯ condemning teaching homosexuality as After the public announcecondone, and hold in great mentalists together under an umbrella ¯ "natural" lifestyle, and adoption or foster ment of Lawless’ hiring on contempt." group known as the National Campaign to ¯ care by Lesbians, Gays or Bisexuals subFeb. 19th, major daily newsStudents from Tech’s Protect the Sanctity of Marriage, asking " stituted a bill allegedly at the urging of papers across the Southwest Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual all the Republican presidential primary : Keith Smith who’s recently returned to (Dallas Morning News, Students group (GLBS) athopefuls to sign their pledge against same- ¯ Oklahoma after a several year absence Houston Chronicle, Daily tempted to meet with Lawsex marriages. Not surprisingly, three of "- andwho’s newly hired" as an ad. represenOklahoman) and The Assoless in Oct. of ’94, after thc the most outspokenly anti-gay candidates ¯ tative for OKC’s The Perspective. ciated Press carried reports letter was mailed anony¯ talk show host Alan Keyes, Patrick of anti-Gay comments made The "new" language remains anti-Gay, mously to the GLBS. Acby Lawless in a 1993 letter. Buchanan, and Texas Sen. Phil Gramm - ¯ condemning more specifically the Nat’l cording to the UD, the stu¯ were on hand to sign the anti-gay pledge Lubbock news reports inEducation Assoc. for its Gay-positive dent requestipg.the ~eeting that declares that "the State should not ~ stands & stating that "those who engage dicate that Lawless rewas told by ~’iess" assislegitimize homosexual relationships by ¯ in same-sex marriages should not be persponded on Feb. 9 to a comtant that Lawless would not legalizing same-sex ’marriage’ but should , mitted to adopt or provide foster care." plaint by a local resident, meet with the student, his Several legislators, specifically Norman continue to reserve the special sanction of ~ Wayson Gerwig, about the opinions had~ noL changed, civil marriage for one man and one w oman ¯ rep., Laura Boyd, who had promised to appearance on Tech’s campus by Rod & " and that he would not comment further. as husband and wife." The other leading ¯" vote against #1045, stated that they only Bob Paris-Jackson. Bob Paris-Jackson That same October,The Lubbock AvaGOP hopefuls - Senate majority lea’fl~r ¯ voted for this revised language because won notoriety as a top competition body " lanche-Journalreported that when GLBS builder. With his partner, fitness instruc’- : officer Roy Mendoza took a complaint Bob Dole of Kansas, former Tennessee : they thought these changes were authoGov. Lamar Alexander and multi-mil- : rized by "your representative". Both in tor Rod Paris-Jackson, the pair toured the about Lawless" remarks to the Texas Tech lionaire publisher Steve Forbes - all said ," OKC and particularly, in Tulsa, commuUS (includingan appearance atTU) speak- " Board of Regents, neither the board or ing on Gay & Lesbian marriages. : Lawless responded to GLBS concerns but they would sign the anti-mama,g.e pledge ¯ nity leaders have raised concerns that as well, even though they didn t actually ¯ individuals lobbying the Legislature .According to The Universttv Daily ¯ after the meeting, Tech released a written ¯ should be clear that they represent only show up at the event. (UD), Lawless wrote, on Texas "~ech let- " see Lawless. page 2 themselves unless they h~ve actually spo’Hawaii Anti-Marriage Efforts HONOLULU- In their ongoing efforts to : ken with community~oups first. No oftry to extricatethemselves from the politi- , ricer of Tiiis~iOklahomans for Human cally and. socially charged issue of sanle- ¯ -Rights, Rainbow Business Guild or sex mamages, the Hawaii state Senate’s ¯ PFLAG appears to have been contacted. EDITORIAL P..2 House resolution #1045 passed 97-1. ¯ Bruce Begley, a Tulsa man living with judiciary committee has rejected 2 bills ¯¯ DIRECTORY P., 2 ¯ AIDS, with several others, has begnn creand accepted one. The committee nixed ¯ Tulsarep. Don Ross cast the only no vote. NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 ¯ ¯ Members of several Tulsa groups orgaating a new sen’ice organization for perby a 1-6 vote a proposal that would have HEALTH BRIEF~ P. 6 simply legalized same-sex marriages in ¯ nized a calling campaign to thank Ross. ,¯ sons living with HIV AIDS, The HI\" p. ~ CALENDAR Education & Recreation Center. Begley’s the state. By a 3-4 vote, the senators also : East Tulsa rep. Betty Boyd (Demo.) said rejeetedaprol~s, al that wonldhavebanned : that the only call she received opposing : vision is for a place where persons living # 1045 was TFN’s and strongly suggested ¯, withAIDs(PLWA’s)couldgoforfitness, same-sex marriage in Hawaii. The lawmakers finally agreed by a 5-2 vote to ¯" that Lesbians & Gays need to speak up. ¯ recreation and for services that suppleWorse yet, religious political extrem- " ment the existing HIV.AIDS agencies. accept a proposed measure that would ¯ Many in the Tulsa community have : institute a statewide domestic partner- ," ists, Rep. Tim Pope and Bill Graves at- ; While Lesbian and Gay activists ship, a compromise proposal that a state ; tachedanti-Gayamendments tootherbills. ¯ responded to his vision by joining the ¯ struggle for the fight to have our relationsee Marriage, page 3 ¯ One (to HB 2554 concermng divorce law -" board of the newly incorporated non-profit " ships recognized in life, two Tulsa men, changes) would ban the recognition of : and by donating goods, services and ~ Russell Langley-Stumpff and David : same-gender marriage by Oklahom~ if ¯ money toward the HIV-ERC’s fund to ¯" Stumpff, are providing a place where Les¯ theHawaii courts allow theminthefuture ¯ apply for IRS ta~x -exempt status. Newly ¯ bians and Gay men can have their rela¯ ¯~ and other (attached to the"Ryan bill,the HB 2053) bans adoption or Luke’" foster ¯ retted board members include local thera- : tionships and identifies recognized in perpist, Sandra Hill, vice president, Steve : petuity. The men, who are partners in life WASHINGTON- A just-issued reported ¯ care by a"known homosexual, lesbian or ," Wilson, treasurer and local businessman, ¯ as well as business, have created Unity says the compromise policy reached by : see Sold Out. page 3 : Scott Perry among others. Begley has ¯ Gardens, which may be the first project of the Clinton Administration with Congress ¯ spoken to local organizations such as : its t~lae in the US. Unity Gardens is a II that was aimed at lessening bias against DignityiIn.tegrity and the Rain- ~ special part of Washington Memorial i gays and lesbiansin the U.S. armed forces bow Business Guild (RBG) about his vi, ¯ Cemetarv where Lesbian and Gay couples, is being widely violated by the military. sion. The membership of RBG voted in : family, find friends can either have burial ¯ Pentagon officialS, however, insist that February to donate the balance needed to : plots; niches in the crematorium, or be .the so-called"don’task, don’t tell" policy, ¯ The Tulsa Native American Men AIDS ¯ pay the IRS application fee. : remembered on a memorial wall that m effect now for two years, is working Project (TNAAPP) will hold a weekend ,although Begley stresses that the HIV- ¯ stands beside a scattering ground. properly. The report by the Washington, : retreat on May 24-26. The event is open to ¯ ERC is intended to supplement existing ¯ Unity Gardens will fly a rainbow Pride D.C.-based group, Service Members Le- ¯" all Gay or Bisexual Indian menregardless ¯ HIV services, he confesses he’s been ¯ gal Defense Network, charges there is a of tribe, blood quantum or HIV status. ¯ shocked by some of the hostility that he’s ¯ flag at its center 24hours a day,and on the day of services, each of the 10 flag poles continuing pattern of abuse by the armed ~ Non-Indian parmers of attendees are wel- ¯ experienced from other HIV services pro¯ that mark the road to Unity Gardens will service that has rendered the ¯ come. ¯ " viders. He says he repeatedly heard conalso fly a Pride flag under the regular Administration’s policy toward gays and ¯ Those wlio attended a retreat in Feb. " cerns about"duplicating services". Begley ¯ American flags. And while Unity Garlesbians in the military as bad, if not pral~&I the event’s traditional dancer and says others have been more supportive, dens are non-sectarian, religious o’r other worse, than its predecessor. The organistory-tellers and participants continue to such as Janice Nicklas of the Community organizations can reserve a section for ¯ zation says that despite the seemingly meet weekly onWednesdays from 6-8pm. ¯ Service Council and Hilary Kitz (of Mayor their members which could have a relimore lenient approach, the nation’s mili- ," Future plans include a pow wow for Gay ¯ Susan Savage’s office) who’s active in ¯ gious symbol marking their area. At least tary has recently been expelling more & Lesbian Native Americans. Call 582- ¯ HIV/AIDS volunteer work. one local congregation is said to be consee Don’t ask, page 3 ¯ 7225, ext. 218. see H1V-ERC, page 3 sidering this. ¯ :HIV. Education & Recreation Center :INSIDE : Unity Gardens i First in Country ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Doesn’t Work !Native American i Gay Men Gathering �Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of Publisher/Editor 918.583.1248 this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family Tom Neal POB 4140 News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without Assistant Editor Tulsa, Oklahoma written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or James Christjohn Writers/contributors photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. 74159-0140 Phyl Boler-Schmidt Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family Barry Hensley News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each Pat Morehead Staff Photographer reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. TulsaNews@aol.com JD Jamett Dr. James Reid vs. TU The University of Tulsa has long sought to be compared to the best private universities in the US: Rice, Stanford, Yale, etc. However, somehow its trustees and administrators haven’t figured out that there is a connection between their actions and TU’s continued failure to rank with these schools. By hiring a documented, and at least publicly unrepentant anti -Gay bigot, Robert Lawless, for its new president, TU’s trustees again prove that they just don’t understand that TU cannot embrace prejudice and be a"world-dass"institution. Former Texas Tech president Lawless certainly has aconstitutional right to his bias,just as does a Klansman or a white-supremacist, but usually those opinions disqtmlify a candidate as a leader of university, There is little doubt that if Lawless had been speak)ng about Jews or Catholics, instead of Gays and Lesbians,:when he said in 1993, "the deviant lifestyles portrayed by these individuals is something that I can never condone, and hold in great contemPt,~’ :that Lawless’ hiring would not have occurredl It certainly would not have without some apology or repudiation, which he has refused to make publicly forover three years. Lawles~S; only regrets appear to have been made only just a few weeks ago to the TU Search Committee. This seems awfully late and mighty, convenient. Some members of the Search Committee claim thaLLawless while at Texas Tech didn’t permit his .prejudice to affect his treatment of openly Gay professors. However, other Tech sources indicate that Lawless, in fact, attempted to censor the speaking engagement of Rod & Bob Paris-Jackson, about which his remarks were made. It also is amply clear, from both the Tech newspaper and the LubbockAvalanche-Journal. that Lawless" alleged "’fairness" to professors did not extend to Gay Tech students with whom he refused to meet. Even worse than Lawless’ "’regretted" remarks. however, is the decision ofTU’ s Board of Trustees’ Search Committee to recommend hiring Lawless with full "knowledge of his remarks. This endorsement Of 14i?~prejudice combines with the refusal several Years ago of TU’s Board of Trustees to add sexual ~nentation protections to TU’s non-discrimination policy*, and with its recent firing of openl~G~i3’ professor Jim Reid (see related editoria!),~ to?di~monstrate the comnutment of the Univcrs~ty of Tulsa to "World-Class Bigotry" rather than "World-Class Excellence." - Tom Neal *prof. of law M. Chapman notes TU’s policy may. or may not. provide bias protection stnce it mc:ludes legally vague language rather than the standard term. sexual orientation. bisexual". Each bill was passed, as amended by the House, 98-2. Longume political observers hope that HB 2554 will not get.out of the Senate Judiciary committee, headed by Sen. Bernice Shedrick (D-Stillwater) and that the amendment language attached to the popular "Ryan Luke" bill can be removed in committee or in conference with the House. These observers strongly recommend polite calls to Sen. Shedrick’s office asking her to.help eliminate the tmconstitutional anti-Gay provisions. A Senator on the Judiciary committtee declined to comment but added that he felt it likely that HB 2554 would not make it if enough calls were made. (Senate switchboard: 405-524-0126) Some will find Dr. James Reid’s choices in activities & friends to be worse than the actions of the University of Tulsa. His judgement was clearly poor in getting involved in a friendship of some intimacy (though no sex) with someone who was initially his student. Videotaping their horseplay (which is likely milder than some of TU’s former fraternity hazing) also was foolish. But the actions of the University’s officials, legal counsel, & professors with their wanton disregard for their own rules is more shameful than Reid’s video-taped flogging. The surrender to the worst bias, disregard for academic standards, the destruction of career of a highly regarded scholar, and abandonment of fair p!-.,,y suggest that the TU officials responsible are the ones who deserve to be shamed publicly - if not flogged themselves. - Tom Neal TU : Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 832-1269 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 582-4340 *Barraccuda’s, 2405 E. Admiral 744-0896 *Concessions, 3340 S. 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Gross. Financial Planning *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 584-4606 *Imaginations, Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria 341-6866 * Interuational Tours 621-5597 JD Images, Photography 599-8070 Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 747-5466 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 742-1992 Loup-Garou, 2747 E. 15 671-2010 Lean Aun Macomber, Realtor Associate 663-4884 Massoud’s Jewlery, The Farm, 51st & Sheridan 584-3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 663 -5934 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 st 664-2951 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI 747-7672 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 838-7626 Puppy Pause II, 1 lth & Mingo 584-0337 *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 749 - 6301 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 743 -2351 Scott Robison’s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations 747-3322 Southwest Viatical, 4146 S. Harvard, Ste. F-5 Thomas Chiropractic Clinic, 4138 S. Harvard, Ste. C-1 742 -8868 493-1959 Kellie J. Watts, attorney 743-1733 Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities 599-7688 *Agape" Christian Fellowslup, 2 l st& Sheridan 628-0594 *Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Ca’. 2627B E. 11 583-9780 *B!IJG Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. osed to continued from page 1, "homosexual lifestyles less is morally opp does not mean that he is a bigot". Roselle Graskey, a member of Tech’s GLBS, notes that Lawless" statements were a direct violation of Tech:s "’student dignity handbook" which calls on the university to help "’students learn to recognize, understand and celebrate human differences.... [including] lifestyle". Graskey also charges that Lawless did not merely speak out against Lesbians and Gay men, but actually attempted to block the event by pressuring the independent student board that made the decision to invite the Paris-Jacksons. This claim is supported by Lawless’ letter in which he says, "there is a group ~)f individuals on this campus that serve as an Advisory Board to the students who plan the progranunihg in the UC [University Center]. These advisers could have, and should have, acted responsibly in their roles to identify this program as being u/tfit for a university campus and vetoed it *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa from the slate of program offerings that were pro585-1800 *Conununitv of Hope (United Methodist), 1703 E. 2nd posed." (editor’s note: emphasis added) Dignity/Integrity (Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians) 2984648 Members ofTU’s Search Committee were aware *F~unily of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 of Lawless’ remarks prior to recommending his *Free Spirit Lesbian Center call for location & info: 587-4669 luting according to Business prof. PC Smith. MemFriend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 bers.of the Search Committee spoke with individuFriends in Umty (African-Amer. men), POB 8542, 74101 .425-4905 als. on the Tech campus, who claim that Lawless 584-4983 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation did not discriminate against openly Gay professors 438-2437, 800-284-2437 Interfaith AIDS Ministries arid even experienced some harassment from anti838-1715 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood Gay forces when he did not block an openly Gay 749-4194 ~HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 prof. from an endowed chair. Several TU sources 748-3111 NAMES PROJECT, d-154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 claim that these remarks no longer represent his 749-4901 PFLAG , POB 52800 74152 views, teasingly implying that Lawless had some 74104 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 personal reasons for either his hostility or for his 749-4195 alleged change of heaxt. However, all the members "- R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 665-5174 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 of the Search Committee who are TU trustees and 749-7898 *Shanti Hotline who we were able to contacted refused to discuss Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 the matter m any substantive way. One referred all 743-4297 TOHR Gay HelpLine (Info.) "calls to trustee Fulton Collins who refused to return 584-1308 Tool Box Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd phone calls, although Collins spoke readily to The 838-1222 T U L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc.Tulsa Worm (The Worm owners, Robert and Roxana *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor Lorton are both TU trustees). Lawless also refused *University Center at Tulsa to return repeated calls. TU press representative, Michele Cruncleton, specifically stated "I’m not Beaver Dam Store, 1/2 mi. N. of Dam on Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 going to let you speak with him [Lawless]." 501-253 -7457 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main Also in February, the TU board of trustees voted 501-253-6807 DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. unanimously to fire Jim Reid, a tenured Gay profes501-253-5445 *Emerald Rainbow, 45&112 Spring St. sor of physics. Dr. Reid was accused of sexual 800-231-1442 harassment by a 26 year old, one-time student, King’s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W 501-253-9337 *MCC of the Living Spring Marlin Pohlman. Copies of TU documents indicate 501-253-%82 that trustees fired Reid despite the findings of the McClung Realtors 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 majority of a University Appeals Board that Dr. Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-6001 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East Rcid’s procedural rights were violated and that TU 501-253-8281 see TU, page 10 The Woods, 50 Wall St. �service members for homosexuality, which thegroup charges violates the policy by harassing servicemen & women believed to be gay. The group estimated that ~t cost the federal government $21.3 million to train replacements for the gay men and lesbians discharged by the military. During a press conference, Defense Secretary William Perry said the charge of witch-hunts against gays in the military is a serious allegation & will be examined qarefully. Policy Appealed in Federal Court SEATTLE- The Defense Dept. policy .prohibiting gays and lesbians from serving openly in the U.S. armed forces is again being challenged. The case, brought on behalf of former Navy Petty Office Mark Philips, is being argued before the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals. Attorneys from the ACLU, representing Philips, contend the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy adopted by Congress and the Clinton Administration violated the equal protection & free speech provisions of the Constitution. Philips was serving on the aircraft carrier USS Nimitz in 1992 when an officer asked him about his sexual orientation. Philips answered honestly & was discharged. Now 25 years old, Philips served nearly 6 years before being kicked out of the Navy and received a number of commendations for his performance, inc. duding a Bronze Star for service in Desert Storm. U.S. District Court in Seattle last year rejected Philips’ lawsuit, agreeing with government attorneys that his none of his constitutional rights had been violated by the policy. Red Rock Mental Health of Oklahoma City has opened a Tulsa office providing individual and group therapy, HIV education & prevention. Therapy is available to PLWA’s, their loved ones and individuals at risk of HIV infection. Betsy Murphy, MSW, CTRS is co-ordinator. Contact: 584-2325, fax, 5822384, 302 S. Cheyenne, #108, 74103. Begley’s sense of what is needed is based in part in his own experiences with local HIV/AIDS service organizations both as a client and as an advocate for other clients who are more ill. His vision ultimately would include weight and fitness equipment, swimming, tennis, in essence, a health club for the community. He’d als0 like to have on site counselors tO. help with, mental, ~health issues, and drug and alcohol problems. One service he’d like to see offered wouldbe prescription medicine assistance that would"kickin" after PLWA’s have reache.d the limits of assistance that other agencies provide. Musing over the personal attacks that he’s experienced thus far, Begley notes that in Tulsa some other social service agencies that provide assistance for lower income persons, Project Get Together, Neighbor for Neighbor and Catholic Charities, all duplicate some of the same services but all seem to co-exist. He just shakes his head in wonder that trying to help folks in need brings out a fist instead of a welcoming hand. For more information about or to dohate to the HIV-ERC, write Bruce Begley, president, 1210 S. Cheyenne, Ste. 208, Tulsa 74119 or call 587-1059. " commission impaneled to study the question had put forward after the state supreme court made it clear that there was a good chance Hawaii may be legally required to recognized gay andlesbian marriages. A just-released Honolulu Advertiser-Channel 2 News poll indicates that, despite the state’s strong liberal reputation. 71% of the voters polled said they oppose same-sex marriage, while only 18% said they favored extending marriagerights to same-gender couples. Some 9% of those polled indicated they were undecided or didn’t know. As anindicator of how worried some state lawmakers are "_ ¯ . " ." ¯ ¯ : ." and AIDS First Regional A comprehensive one-day conference to raise awareness and protnote discussion about the special issues affecting women in the second deco~de of AIDS. Keynote speaker: Mary Fisher, Family AIDS Network Tuesday, April 2, 8am-5pm University of Tulsa, Chapman Activity Center 440 So. Gary Ave. Registration: $35, includes lunch, breaks and materials. " " " " ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ " " ¯ ¯ . ¯ ¯ : ." ¯ ." : . o ¯ ¯ . becoming, 8 state representatives, backed by Pat Robertson’s American Center for Law and Justice, have filed a court motion to be allowed to intervene in the suit that initially raised the same-sex marriage issue in the state. The brief in the case is strongly critical of the Hawaii attorney general’s office for not adequately defending the state against the lawsuit. Anti-Marriage Legislative Update State legislatures around the country are continuing in their efforts to ban samesex mamages, although with very little actual effect it seems. In New Mexico, Senate majority leader Tom Rutherford sent an anti-marriage resolution on the issue back to the rules.committee because no hearings had been hdd.The proposed measure would ask voters there to amend the state constitution. The resolution is thus dead for this session. Washington state Republican legislators have all but conceded that a proposed ban on same-sex marriage in the state will probably never make ~t out of a state senate committee controlled by the Democrats. Washington state Senate leader Sid Snyder said the anti-gay measure was not slated for committee hearings and will be allowed to die there. The Washington House of Representatives had approved the measure on a 60-36 vote to prohibit same-sex marriages in the state. Gov. Bill-Janklow has signed a bill approved recently by the South Dakota legislature that would refuse recognition in the state to same-sex couples that might be legally married elsewhere and that restricts marriage to opposite-sex couples only. The measure, which died last year in the legislature and looked as if it would suffer the same fate again this year when a committee voted not to report the measure to the legislature for a vote, is the 2nd to become law. One immediate - and surprising - side-effect of the bill being signed into law is that Jacques Soukup and Kirk Thomas. notable balloonists who are also longtime partners, have withdrawn their support for the Governor’s Cup hot-air ballooning event in the state. The 2 men, founders of the Soukup & Thomas International Balloon and Airship Museum in !vfitchell, S.D., told the Governor’s Cup committee that they Share the Joy Through Flowers Sunday, April 7, 1996 AFS "Spring Basket" Bouquet T. MINGO VALLEY AFS 96-EAB1 9720-C E. 31st St. 663 -5934 Daphane Cooper Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ¯ Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Todo justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with OlD" God... Micah 6:8 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. couldn’t be "associated with a government that has just passed a mean-spirited and hateful piece of legislation that hurts US.’" In Illinois, a bill preventing thc state from recognizing same-gender mamagc passed a state senate committee ou Wednesday, March 6, with little opposition. Same-sex marriages "’would destroy ¯ thedefinitionofmarriageas wcknow it," : said state Sen. Peter Fitzgerald (R: Inverness), the measure’s sponsor. The ¯ bill. which passed 8-2, now goes to the ¯ Senate floor. It puts same-sex Weddings ~ on a listofmarriages barred in Illinois. "’If : we let homosexuals marry, what’s next’?" ¯. said David Curtin, executive director of the Illinois Christian Coalition. And according to a report in the gay paper, Wisconsin Light, state Rep. Dean Kaufert has announced plans to intr~xiucc a measure barring same-sex mamagcs in the state as well. The paper reports the measure has not yet been drafted. Lawmakers have voted 86-11 in the Iowa House of Representatives for a bill that would prohibit the state from recognizing same-sex marriages. Some political observers in the state have suggested the legislation, which was introduced by state Rep. Steve Grnbbs (R-Davenport), was mainly a partisan issue because Grubbs is running for the Republican nomination to unseat U.S. Sen. Tom Harkin, a Democrat. In Alabama, State Sen. Bill Armistead, who recently led a battleto keep a gay and lesbian conference from being held on the campus at the University of Alabama, is proposing a"marriage protection act" that he says would strengthen traditional heterosexual marriages by barring the statc from recognizing same-sex marriages, even if legally recognized elsewhere. Michigan state Rep. Deborah Whyman has drawn fire for introducing a bill in the legislature that would forbid reco~fizing same-sex marriages in the state, even if see Slates, page 11 ¯ ¯ : �News Briefs News Briefs News News Briefs" policy News Briefs News Briefs News ¯ lowed to join the nation’s mili- Briefs sexuals andpeople withdisabiliis reviewed by the Euro" Columbia; and Winnipeg police Tutu & Anglican Leaders ." tary force. The meeting is exCall for Change LONDON- Hundreds of prominent Episcopal clerics from around the world signed an ad- ~ vertisement commending the ] Lesbian and Gay Christian ¯ Movement on the ~roup’s 20th : anniversary of working to change the Anglican Church’s views on ¯ homosexuals. Bestki~ownofthe -" signatories of the ads, which ] appeared in Anglican, Methodist and Catholic religious publications in Britain, was Desmond Tutu, Archbishop of Cape Town, South Africa. Tutu was joined in signing the ads by three other Anglican primates from around the world, as well as several bishops from the Church of England, as thedenomination was about to begin its annual synod. The three other church primates included: Archbishops Richard ltolloway of Scotland, Michael Peers of .,Canada, and Bishop Fxtmrnd Browmng of the United States. Although not attending the cfiurch synod, Tutu spoke on the BBC ~’Radio Sunday" show via telephone. "’If we say that relationships where there is fidelity between one couple a~e acceptable, whv.,should we not extend, the san~e, conditions to stone-sex relationships?" Tutu told the BBC, say~ing it was simply a "matter of justice, compassion and consistency’" for the church to accept that there are homc/sexual Clergy, who technically are barred from being ordai~edin the Anglican Church. So. Africa A nti-Bias Laws CAPE TO\V..~.. South Africa Politicians,nfilitary leaders and defense indnstry representatives have begun discussions on the role mid nature of South Africa" s maned’forces, includingwhether gays and lesbians should be al- pected to produce a report later this year that would be used by the defense mimstry to guide it in formulating specific policies concerning the armed forces. Defense ministry, officials noted that the national armed services in the country have never actu. ally had any policy excluding individuals based on their sexual orientation, but African National Congress officials have pushed for including the topic of sexual orientation in the defense review discussions South Africa’s interim Constitution includes prohibitions against discrimination based on sexual orientation, but the complex process of getting from the interim document to a final Constitution faces a number of difficulties and ANC leaders are making a determined effort to try to keep it headed in the most progressive direction. Also according to Mpho Makwana, director of the equal opportumties office in South Africa’s Labor Dept., the government ~s wor’king on a comprehensive program for affirmative action that would "’include mainly blacks, but also women, homosexuals and handicapped people." Makwana made the statement during a roundtable discussion earlier this year broadcast on South Africa’s TV1. He did not give d.etails of the affirmative acnon plans, but Makwana said it would"not be a stand-alone lmv, with a quota for compames to implement affirmative action and punishing the company which does not comply." Instead. he said the plan as being developed would aim at getting firms to include personnel training and human resources development programs to encourage blacks, women, homo- ties already wor’king in a com- ~_ pean Court of Human Rights, ¯ arrested Robert E. Welsh, 24. The fourth suspect in the killing, pany to move into middle- mad ¯ the govennnent is "’likely to lose" thecase, which may not come to " Gary A. Kuffner, 27, also of upper-management in that finn. ¯ afinaldecisionbytheEUcourts " Winnipeg, is currently being CompuServe Reinstates ¯ sought. Last year in a high-probefore the year 2000. The paper ¯ said the 450-page nmfistry re" " file investigation of Canadian Internet Groups COLUMBUS, Ohio - Compu- ¯ port, which it had obtained, is ¯ armed forces, McKay acknowl¯ expected to be released soon and " edged - and publicly renounced Serve Inc., the computer on-line g~ant owned by H&R Block, say s ¯ concludes that while changing ~ - his ties to several nee-Nazi & it has given its 4.3 million sub- : attitudes about lesbians and gay ~ white supremacist groups. ¯ cribers access again to somc mcn may justify further reviews ¯ Anti-Gay Crimes in SF 200 Intemet newsgroups that it ¯ of the and-gay ban in the future, ~ SAN FRANCISCO -The S.F. had banned in Deceniber alter a ¯ "it may equally be that the per- ¯ ~olice department’s hate crimes unit says that bias-based crimes German state prosecutor ques- :~ manent features of the military tioned whether the groups in- ¯¯ enviroument are such that it will rose 23% to 350 incidents in cluded illegal sexually .related ¯ never be possible to integrate 1995 over the previous year, the homosexuals" in the nadon’s anti-gay and -lesbian incidents materials. The compnter sen’ice constituting both the largest said at the time that it could not : maned forces. selectively restrict Interact ma3 Charged in Killing Of single category and the largest terials bv comatry mad had thereincrease. The hate crimes unit ¯ Canadian Man fore blocked access to the groups reported that 144- or41% - of all : WIN NIPEG, Calmda - Canadian to all its subscribers. Included such crimes reported in .1995 : authorities have arrested 3 men among some of the balmed ¯ were based on sexual orientaand are seeking a 4th - who are groups were several that contain tion and that anti-gay incidents ¯ believed linked to white suexplicidy adult material. But a increased nearly a third last year :. premacist and nee-Nazi organiover 1994. Police said it was not number of the banned newsgroups were gay and les- : z,ations - in comaection the brutal dear whether the number of re1991 mad-gay murder of Gordon bian discussion and support ported incidents reflected an acKuhtev. Kuhtey was killed on tual surge in anti-gay attacks or groups, including one for ’ the mo’nfing ofWinnipeg’s 1991 younger gays that specifically was a result of greater willingness on the part of gays and barred pornographic ulaterials. ~¯ gay pride celebration, June 30, as he walked along a riverbank lesbians to report such incidents CompuServe says it will now ¯ footpath. AccordingtoWimfipeg give its subscribers software that ¯ because of increased publicity police, Kuhtey was suddenly will let them pick which - if any of attacks. confronted by at least four young - material they don’t want to be Anti-Gay Attacks men who savagely beat him in able to access. The finn believes Ignored in Kentucky , the head, then tossed him into parents will use the bloc’king MOREHEAD, Ky. - Morehead the nearby river and proceeded utilities to keep children from to hurl stones at his floating body. State Ulfiversity officials disseeing or reading nmtefial they He died of massive head injuagreed with an instructor’s claim don’t deem appropriate. ries. Althongh Wilmipeg authorithat.an attack on a female stu: UK to Keep Military Ban ties had little luck in tracking dent was part of a patteru of : LONDON - The Daily Teledown Kuhtey’s killers, the pocampuswide gay-bashing at the : graph reports that based on a school. Three masked men lice homicide and hate crimes vet-to-be-released report by the refit kept the case open and dogjumped out of hiding on Feb. 5 ~ ]3ritish MinistryofDefense, gays " gedly continued their investigaand verbally and physically asand lesbians constitute an "aftion. In late February their persaulted a 20-year-old female stufront to service people" and will dent on a campus walkway, sistence paid off and the 29th ] not be allowed to serve in the Calgary police arrested Matthew punching her in the face and ] British military. But the defense A. McKay, 25, in that city; stomacK Roger Holbrook, coor~ ¯ ministry report also predicts that Penticton Royal Canadian dinator of investigations for ¯ when a legal challenge to the Mounted Police also arrested MSU police, said the student United Kingdom’s anti-gay Jmnes R. Lisik, 22, in British KELLY KIRBY Dan Du Vall / Owner Certified Public Accountant TO Worship Service 10:30 am Sheridan Center, Suite H, 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 DISCO Speciolizecl shop, ~ctively buying; selling & con- signing Deco, 50s mocterne fumi,ture, kitchen kifsch, psychedelic collectobles, 50 s Iomps, costume jewelry, occessories. 82~3 e. lffrh, 749-3020 Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466 POB 14011 Tulsa 74159 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News believed the attack was related " another high school that trigto "the friends or acquaintances ¯ gered a national furor. Students she keeps." But MSU English Cara Varallo and Brin Bon say they met with Cottonwood Prininstructor Patti Swartz said sh_ej is outraged at the university ¯ cipal Michael Bennett to discuss administration’ s lack of response ¯ creatinga gay-straight club next following theincident, which she ¯ fall at the school. On Feb. 20, the Salt I~ake City School Board labeled a gay bashing. Swartz has written letters expressing her voted4-3 to end all nonacademic concern to MSU President " clubs rather than allow ~the gay Ronald Eaglin and the vice presi- ¯ school club. The Cottonwood dents of student affairs and aca- ¯ students, say .they ,already have ¯ demic affairs saying the attack 10 students to join the club. _was just the latest in a series Of ¯ anti-gay and -les~bian attacks. Utah: No tO Eq ual Access Gay Studies at Berkeley BERKELEY, Calif. - The Uni" versity of California at Berkeley ¯ this semester has begun its Les" bian, .Gay, Bisexual and " Transgender (LGBT) Studies ¯ minor, the first gay studies mi¯ nor in the University of Califor-" nia system. The new minor, part " of the College of Letters and ¯ Science’s Undergraduate Inter¯ disciplinary Studies (UGIS) de" partment, offers four basic core ¯ courses and a list of electives ¯ dealing with homosexuality, past " and present. Initial plans for the " minor got started when students ¯ at the school in- 1990 protested ¯ about the lack of a gay studies " program at the university. Some ¯ 2.0, active UC staff, faculty and ¯ students have been involved in " formulating the curriculum. " CA Court Rules Against SALT LAKE CITY - The Utah Boardof Education is writing to the state’s congressional delegation asking them to back federal legislation that would make it legal for local school districts to decide what nonacademic clubs can be allowed on their campuses. The Salt Lake City school board has also writing a similar letter condemning the federal government for forcing theboard to ban all non-academic clubs just so schools there wouldn’t have to recognize a gay and lesbian club that students had asked to form. The Salt Lake City letter says the school board was forced into the ban "’under duress" because of a federal law guaranteeing equal access to school actavitles for all groups . and clubs. Although the letters both blame federal laws for the dilemma they’rein, both of them ." carefully sidestep mentiomng . that the law - the Equal Access Act - was sponsored by Sen. ¯ Orrin Hatch (R-Utah) so that " Bible clubs and religious ori- ¯ ented groups could meet in public schools. Meanwhile, a group of stu-¯" dents at Cottonwood High . School have am~ounced plans to launch a gay-straight student alliance similar to one proposed at ¯ " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ . ¯ " . " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ " " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ; ¯ " ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ . " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Undercover Stings SAN FRANCISCO - The California supreme court has unanimously ruled in favor of 2 Santa Clara (Calif.) County men- Dennis Baluyut and Job Lopez - saying a pattern of anti-gay discrimination in police arrests was sufficient to demonstrate they were being singled out by authorities in a pohce sting operation by Mountain View police. ¯ Attorneys for the city’s police ¯ had argued that the 2 men had to legally prove the officers who arrested them at an adult book- store for soliciting sex with an undercover officer had intended to single out gays for arrests. Baluyut and Lopez filed a lawsuit, arguing that arrest records alone showed a pattern of discnmination by police in arrestlng gays in such sting operat.ions, mid the state’s high court Sided with the 2 men on appeal. Kentucky Privacy Bill FRANKFORT, Ky. - It had more to do with the kinds of enormous computer data files maintained On pe0pid by bank~, credit agdncies, and other public and privale organizations, but the stunningly simple idea of adding an explicit right to privacy to the Kentucky constitution has lawmakers and politicians throughout the state worried about a "hidden agenda" covering everything from abortion rights to sodomy. But the proposed amendment to the state’s "Bill of Rights" was introduced by one of the legislature’s most respected lawmakers, state Rep. Joe Clarke, a member of the House since 1970 and its onetime speaker. What’s more, Clarke, a Danville, Ky., Democrat, says he’s not overly concerned that his proposed constitutional amendment might legalize sodomy or make anti-abortion restrictions void. Among other things, Clarke noted that the state supreme court has already ruled that there is an implied right toprivacy in the Kentucky constitution and that it means laws against sodom) are themselves unconstitutional. So Clarke says he’s not especially concerned that enshrining the right to privacy in the constitution would have much impact one way or the other on social legislation. Even so, Clarke says fellow lawmakers remain suspi- cious of his motives, which makes him pessimistic about its chances. "I think it’s an important issue....I don’t think it has much of a chance this tilne.’" New Hampshire Policies CONCORD. N.H. - A group of , parents aud other concerned citizens have filed suit against the Merrimack school board in U.S. District Court, char~ng that the ¯ ¯ board’s recently adopted policy of prohibiting any materials that have "the effect of encouraging or supporting homosexuality as a positive lifestyle alternative" violatedFirst Amendment rights of free speech. The suit claims that the policy has led to books being removed from schools, classroom discussions being cut off, and curriculum topics being restricted. At a press conference, Debra Herget, one of the plaintiffs in the suit and the mother of 3 children attending schools in the district, said, "’This policy ¯ .hurts and distorts the education ¯ of students every day. Now is ¯ the right time to put au end to it ¯ - and return to the sound policies which have always guided our children’s education in the past.’" Recently, the New Hampshire’s legislature voted 293-35 to send a proposed measure adding sexual orientation to the state’s civil rights statutes for "’extended stud)’.’" The move effectively puts the proposal on hold for this year while a legislative committee studies the measure and reports back to the full legislature next fall. Alabama Gay Conf. TUSCALOOSA, Ala. - The Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual College Conference of the Southeastern United States went ahead at the University of .Alabama, more or less without incident, despite attempts by state officials to block the confab taking place at a state-funded facility. Just days before the conference was slated to start, a federal distrier court judge rejected the statc attorney general’s argument that the confereuce was illeg~d and ruled that the conference would go ahead as plmmed. As the conference itself got started, the manager ofWMCF-TV, a Christian Broadcasting Co. television affiliate~ charged the statiou’s First Amendment rights had been violated w hen organizers refused to let his TV crew videotape the conference’,s, w~rkshops. Organizers of the meeting; however, said videotaping the event wotfld have been disruptive and would have violated the privacy rights of those attending. Mont. Sodomy Law Out HELENA, Mont. - Moutana District Court Judge Jeffrey Sherlock has ruled that the state" s sodomy law is ,an unconstitutional infringement of privacy protections guaranteed under state law. State officials are expected to appeal the ruliug to the state supreme court, although the attorney general’s office gave no indication of its intentions about the ruliug, which orders the state not to enforce the law. The 1973 felony statute "called for up to 10 year~ in prison and a fine of up to $50,000. No one had ever been prosecuted under the law. Judge Denies Custody RICHMOND, Va. - A Virginia judge has again rejected an appeal by lesbian mom Sharon Bottoms in her 3-year efforts to gain custody of l~er son Tyler. Ironically Judge \Villimn B’oice questioned Bottoms" financial ability to care for her son, while he criticized herfor si~nng a $75,000 contract to allow ABCTV to make a television movie about her struggle for custody. Da dd A. 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At a press conference, Patricia Fleming, the AIDS policy office director, described the report on AIDS and American youth "a call for action" to intensify AIDS prevenuon efforts in the country’s schools and communities with a greater role for young Americans in the fight against the epidemic. Health officials say the teenage infection proportion is about the same as it was in the mid-1980s, despite dramaficall.,, increased awareness of the disease. That means many adolescents either are not getting the message about AIDS prevention, or they do not have the skills or desire to protect themselves from being exposed to the virus even if they "know how it is spread.The only declinein infection rates among racial" or ethnic groups was among young white males. KS Virus Identified SAN FRANCISCO - Researchers at the University of California at San Francisco report in the journal Nature Medicine that they have finallyidentified thc,_organism that causes Kaposi "s sarcoma, a once-rare skin cancer that now strikes thousands of people with AIDS. Kaposi’s Sarcoma was, in fact, the first indication noted by doctors in 1981 that some unusual h~alth problem was affecting gay meu. The re- searchers, headed by Dr. Don Ganem at UC-SF, isolated the microbe, -known as KS-associated herpes virus or human herpes virus 8 (HHVS). It ~s one of a growing number of retro-viruses that scientists ha~,’e only just begun discovering and identifying in the past few decades. HIV Strain Raises Fears of Heterosexual Epidemic+,~BOSTON" - Writing in the journal Science. Dr. Max Ess%x of the Harvard AIDS Institute warns that new-Asian and Afrb can strains of HJ3,; spwad much more easily among heterosexuals than prev~z_ouslv identified HIV-1 strains of the rus. :’If it takes hold h~ (~h ~ewest) we could face a much mote sig~tificant epii demic among he.teri~sext~ls(~" Essex warns. Researchers have found that a strain of the virus found in Thailand thrives in the reproductive tracts of women, making it far more likelvoio betrangmitted during heterosexual rutercourse than the HIV-1 strains common in the West. FDA Considers Growth Hormone WASHINGTON - .Ma advisory panel of the Food & Drug Administration has begun reviewing an application for fullscale marketing of a growth hormone by Serene Laboratories Inc. of Norwell, YAass., as a way to fight AIDS-related weight loss, one bf the most serious medical complications faced by people stricken with the disease. In later stages of the illness, between 15% and 40% of those with AIDS suffer from this wasting syndrome, making them far more susceptible to infections. AIDS experts estimated that 9 out of 10 AIDS deaths in the U.S. are related to excessive weight-loss problems. Genentech Inc., the South San Francisto biomedical finn, at one time had considered marketing the growth hormone as an AIDS medication, but gave up on the plan. Now Serene has applied to the FDA for permismon to begin full-scale marketmg of its growth hormone, known as Serosfim, for people with AIDS who are experiencing severe weight loss problems¯ Implant to Fight Eye Infection \VASHINGTON~’~ Chiron Corp., based in Emervville, C~if., has won federal approval’to be~n marketing of an implant used to treat an AIDS-related infection, known as CM,¥;Tetinitis, that causes blindness. The Food & Drug Administration gave the firm the green light to begin marketing Vivrasert, which is surgically implanted in the eve of the patient where it releases a confint~ous dose of ganciclovir, an anfiviral medicine that combats the infection for up to 6 months. Between 15 percent and 40 percent ofAIDS patients in the U.S. Suffer from CMV infections. Public-Private Vaccine Venture WASHINGTON - Government AIDS officials have unveiled plans for a cooperative private-public venture aimed a developing an AIDS vaccine by the year 2002, largely by removing government and bureaucratic obstacles that have made some companies shy away from work on vaccines. Dr. Anthony Fauci of the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Diseases said it will be years before any vaccine ~s likely available, but the joint project may help smooth out and speed up the process. The cooperative project involves basic medical research being done by federal agencies that private pharmaceutical and biomedical firms involved in the project could use in developing possible vaccines. The project also would establish specific clinical criteria for safety, testing and evaluation of effectiveness trials of such vaccine candidates. CDC: AIDS Continues Spiral ATLANTA The Centers for Disease Control has released its latest AIDS data, covenng the period from 1993 to 1994, that shows the disease continued for the 2rid year in a row to be the leading cause of death among Americans between the ages of 25 and 44. The detailed statistics also indicated that the epidemic continues to grow fastest among African Americans. In that age category, nearly a third of all deaths among black men are now attributed to AIDS; some 22% of the deaths among black women; 20% of deaths among white men; and 6% among white women. Asia & Africa AIDS Prevention BALTIMORE - Amid much of the grim news about the global spread of HIV that researchers heard at the annual meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science,just concluded here, was actually some good news from regions in Africa and Asia. Dr. Thomas Quinn of Johns Hopkins University reported that efforts launched in the early 1990s when the government of Thailand began realizing the nation was quickly heading for an HIV crisis have made a dent in the rate ate virus is spreading in parts of the country. Widespread distribution of condoms, tough police regulation of brothels, and a nationwide treatment program for sexually transmitted disease, Quinn says, have made dramatic reductions in the spread of HIV. "When you put all this together,what was then witnessed in Cheng Mai and in Bangkok and several other places was a steady decline in the growth rate of HIV infection," Quinn said. 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Lambda Bowling.League Friends & Family 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth ¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group 2627b East 11th 583-7815 ¯ Sheridan Lanes HIV Testing TOHR Clinic Call 583-7815 for info. ¯" 8:45 pm 7 pm, call for location: Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Community of Hope . 3121 S. Sheridan 749-7898 Family Of Faith MCC Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm (United Methodist) Info: 742-2927 ; Worship Service, 6 pm ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS Community of Hope Choir Practice 7:30 pm Support Group 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 -" Tulsa Family Chorale Grief Group, 6 pm 545 I-E South Mingo. 2rid Monday of month, Weekly practice~ 9:30 pm Call 622-1441 for info, 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family of Faith 6:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th Metro. Comm. Church ~4154 S. Harvard Womens Grief Group Community of Hope PFLAG Family AIDS Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Info: 749-4901 6pro, ButleriStumpff (United Methodist) Support Group Worship Service, 11 am Funeral Home Service for Peace, 6:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. 1st & 3rd Thursdays 2103 E. 3rd St. Bible Study, 7 pm OTHER GROUPS Info: 622-1441 lnfo: 585-1800 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 o The Technicians, Leather Metro. Comm. Church Alternatives TNAAPP org., Info c/o 621-5597 Weekly social events for of Greater Tulsa Tulsa Native American T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform Worship Service, 10:45am LGBT men & women, 7 pm AIDS Prevention Project & Leather,. Seekers Assoc. 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 646-5503 Support group Info: 838-1222 for Gay & Bi Native Info: 838-1715 The Banned, OK Gay Band Substance Abuse American Men, 6 pm BisexuaL/Lesbian/Gay Support Group at Community of Hope Practice weekly in OKC for persons with HIV AIDS Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 1703 E. 2rid Info: 838-2121 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 6:30 pm at Canterburv 582-7225 or 584-4983 3-4:30 pro, Info: 749-4194 5th & Evanston, 583-9~80 .SUNDAYS MONDAYS Agape’ Christian HIV Testing Fellowship . TOHR Clinic Worship Service, 10:30 am _" Free & anonymous testing Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ using fingerstick method. 21 st & Sheridan, 599-7688 ," No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm ¯ Bless the Lord At All Results hours: 7-9 pm Times Christian Center Info: 742-2927 SATURDAY, MARCH 16 Gaylapalooza, 8 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. Second, Info: 596-7111 SUNDAY, MARCH 17 Miss Gay South USofA Silver Star Saloon 9 pm, 1565 S. Sheridan, Info: 834-4234 FRIDAY, MARCH 22 Lola’ s 2nd Anniversary Party WEDNESDAY, APRIL 3 Family of Faith MCC Spy Wednesday 6:30 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 THURSDAY, APRIL 4 Maundy Thursday at Family of Faith MCC 7 pro, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441, and St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pro, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria and The First Day of Passover TUESDAY, MARCH 26 Rainbow Business Guild: City Councilor Gary Watts 7 pro, Chinese Buffet, 6219 E. 61 Dinner Meeting, Info: 665-5174 FRIDAY, APRIL 5 Good Friday at Family of Faith MCC 7 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 and St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pm, The Garden Chapel~3841 S. Peoria FRIDAY, MARCH 29 Community of Hope Movie Night & Discussion: Priest 7:30pro, 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 SATURDAY, APRIL 6 The Great Vigil ofEaster St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pm, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria SUNDAY, MARCH 31 St. Jerome’s Catholic Church The Passion of Our Lord 6 pro, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria Info: page Father Rick at 646-7116 and Family of Faith MCC Palm Sunday 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 SUNDAY, APRIL 7 Easter at St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 8:30 am, The Garden Chape, and Family of Faith MCC 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441, and Agape Christian Fellowship 21st & Sheridan, Info: 599-7688, and MCC of Greater Tulsa 1623 N. Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 11 pro, 2630 E. 15th, Info:-749-1563 TUESDAY, APRIL 2 Women &AIDS Conference. 8am- 5 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 and Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Community Meeting, 7 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa WEDNESDAY, APRIL 10 The Technicians ( [2ather org.) 7:30 pm, Rum Runner’s Hideaway, formerlv Jesse’s 822 ~o. Sheridan, 835-6535 FRIDAY, APRIL 12 Safe, Haven, a free, non-political, nonreligious, non-recovery-oriented social gathering for LGBT young adults. 18-30 Family of Faith MCC. 8 - midnight 5451-E S. Mingo, Info:-622:1441 SATURDAY, APRIL 13 Dignityllntegrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Cathohcs & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Into: POB 701044, 74170 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at I 1 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585= 1800 .NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748=37t 1 ~... ~q.t " OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian St~utent Association TJC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8-10 pm For info. ~r to vohmteer: 743-GAYS Out & About by JD Jamett " I was truly out & about this past several weeks. Did vou that Kansas City has river boat casino~? Well this poor l~oy fo_..und out andlost a few dollars whileroymo!her became the Queer/of the SLots. Then it was out of K.C.and down to New Orleans for the Pantheon Leather Awards. This was truly an experience unto itself. Just ask Larry Everett (International Mr. Leather) how good he looks in a feathered mask and .boa, and how he and 2 other international title holders ~practically brought down the house. Also ~e former Oklahomam (oops - Oklaho-woman?) received one of the Reader’s Choice of the Year awards from the Leather Journal (Pantheon Leather Awards is the Leather Journal’s and the leather community’s Academy Awards). see JD, page 13 ¯ mm mm mmmmm mmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ¯ The-University of Tulsa ¯ ¯ presents ¯ : A Weekend of One Act Plays ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ TUESDAY, APRIL 9 AIDS Coalition of Tulsa Mental Health Needs of HIVIAIDS Providers. Noon - 1:30 pm, Mental Health As’soc. 1870 S. Boulder SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 ¯ ¯ ¯ April 12, 13, & 14, Fri. &.Sat. at~7pm, Sun. at 2pm & 7:30prn Theatre 2, Kendall Hall, Free to the public. including On Tidy Endings by Harvey Fierstein HlVariations: Cater Waiter, Andre’s Mother, and Mr Rosen’s Son (both on Sunday at 2pm) Also, Diaries An original one-act musical of politics, religion and Gay life. by Jennifer Hoyer, Gabriel Washam,& James Gregory Mon, April 29 at 7pm in Chapman Hall ¯ For more info, call 631-2566 ¯ mmnmmm mmmmmmm mm mm mmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ¯ ¯ �Saint Jerome Ecumenicaf Cathdic Church SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges-or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 743-2351 Tile Key. Father Ricf~ Hoffirujswortfi, P~stor Pmje Father Ric~ at 62~6-7116 for more information. It is )tot the judqraents ~m.en which open 5r shut Gates of Heaven. - St. Jerome Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 FUNERALS JUST NEVER SEEMED RIGHT FOR MY FAMILY... THE CREMATION SOCIETY WAS CREATED FOR PEOPLE LIKE ME. ¯ TU’s clear regulations. During that meet- ing, Dr. Reid claims, he was pressured and ¯ intimidated by TU s counsel, Fred Corengaged in selective enforcement of its " nish. Reid, who holds dual citizenship sexual harassmentpolicy,specifically befrom Canada and the United Kingdom, cause the complaint involved same-gen- . adds that as a resident alien, he did not derparticipants,andsadomasochisticcon- " know exacdy what his rights were and ¯ that he was fearfd of being deported, duct.. This board concluded that TU did : not prove as required that Dr. Reid had " even though he’d committed no crime. ¯ engaged in sexual harassment. . d ~ ~ Furthermore, the Appeals Board f.oun_d ~~fthesevenmembersoftheUABoar ,.. ~i that~iri the:heating Reid f’mally received, four found the sanction of firinglo be too,.:, the i:eview ,e,ommittee improperly resevere and of those, three stai~dthat the:~ ¯ stridted)Reid s attoraey from adequate sanct|on was disproporfouate to the mis-: " access to Pohlman f0r cross-exzmiuation conduct proven and recommended a’sanc- ~." and that TU counsel improperly asserted tionotherthandisnussal,addingth~it . ~ . attorney-client;privilege on the part of procedural violations so colored the~ ~ Provost Lewis.-Dune,an, Vice-Provost decision,..that the sanction is fundamen-~ ~ Allen Soltow,. Physics chair Kenneth rally unfair". > : : - , . :~ KuenlaoldandTU Gen. Counsel,Barbara .~ccordingft0 .Reid,. he and Marlin : Geffem ’. :. ~ " ~:, : .’ . i: Pohlman beb,ame invol.ved in a consen-:. Despite, the numerous finding of sen: ous improprieties on ihe part of the Uni: sual, non4exual, Social friendship that ¯ versity of Tulsa and its agents, and the began when Pohlman was a student in recommendation by the majority of the Reid’s class. Reid notes that Pohlmanmmntained the friendship long after the : University Appeals Board that a milder class ended, accepting invitations to visit : sanction is appropriate, Pres. Robert Reid in Iris home and complaint, no longer ¯ Donaldson sent a letter to ihe TU trustees even was aTU student but never-the-less, : claiming theAppeals Boardrecommended TU officials provided him with housing : termination. All the trustees of the Uni,’rod,also legal counsel, Fred Cornish. Cor- ¯ versity of Tulsa present voted unanimously : on Feb. 7 to fire Dr. James Reid, thus ~fish also happened to be representing the umversitv at the same time. This allega- : destroying his career. Keith Bailey, chairnon is jdst one of the many procedural : man of the board of trustees of the University of Tulsa only would say that it would v~olauons of TU’s own regulauons. : no[ be appropriate to discuss Dr. Reid’s Other procedural violations found against TU by its own Appeals Board ¯ case. Reid, who’s since moved to the Northinclude no notice of the meeting at which : west, has been reduced to menial labor Reid was charged, though he was not .~iven written notice of the charges as is : and the kindness of old friends. While he ~equired,immediately suspended, was es - : admits to poor judgement in his friendcorted by armed guard from campus, and : ship with Pohlman, he says that TU’s rife with rumors of heterosexual misconduct not being given adequate time to retmn see TU. page 13 counsel - all of which were violations of RIBBON ’ eniqv being ourselves. A funeral seems ostentatious and can cost a lot of money. simple., dignified cremation iust seems to fit our lifestyle. Cremat o Society MAY 25 7:50P."vl TULSA ICE ARENA 6910 S. 1015T E. A’v~E 7IST AND Mg’,IGO BEHDCD THE F2 PRICE ST( YRE of Oklahoma 2103 East Thii~d, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104.1842 918-599-7337 or toll-free, 800-994-7337 _ Telephone:._.__= .AA.,L T.,ICKET PROCEEDS TO BENEFtT �Benefit Show for IAM READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library J oining the growing list of titles .about coming of age in the.1990s is this eye-0pening example by Linnea Due. With seven lengthy essays, Due takes us on a tour across the United States, highlighted by interviews with Gay and Lesbian youth. From Portland, Oregon to New Orleans to Hai’vey MilkHJgli SdhoolinNew York City, we meet many witty, defiant and frustrated youth who arecoming to terms with their sexual orientation and surroundings. An interesting entry centers around a young man, John, who grew up in Colorado Springs, during the Amendment 2 battle, and is now attending a Santa Fe high school He tries very hard to not believe the terrible things he has heard about homosexuals, but he doesn’t get the support or information from farnily, friends or soc, ety to make informed decisions. He is constantly told that being gay is a choice, and the depths of his despair are revealed as he sarcastically responds, "Sure, I choose to have a horrible life. How about you?" Other youth we meet include a young, black woman dealing with the twin pressures of racism and homophobia, kids at the Harvey Milk "’Queer High School" in New York and a group of French Q~ter teens banding together for supporL:.There ~is. an overwhelming sense of frustration and lack of confidence in these kids countrywide. As a group, they are discouraged at the lack of guidance and support from older Gays and Lesbians, while at the same time acknowledging the difficulties, from a legal and social perspective, that the older generation has being mentors. The bottom line, if this book’s entries are representative of QSueer youth in general, is that despite the advances that have been made for Gay equality through the years, growing up Gayis still a very traumatic and confusing time. This book is a wake up call to those who are concerned about the suicide rates of Gay teens and the mental health of growing minds. ¯ , " Forotherlibrarybooksofsimi¯ ’Jar interest, including Passage of ] Pride: Lesbian and Gay Youth : Come of Age, by Kurt Chandler, ¯ please call your local branch library or the Readers Services ] Departmeni at the Central Li: brarv at 596-7966. they were legally performed elsewhere, and for calling for a boycott of Hawaii if courts there legalize gay and lesbian weddings. She said the state should boycott any non-essential travel to Hawaii if the courts there declare same-sex marriages are le= gal under that state’s constitution "to punish this kind of madness." The marriages has swept rapidly throughout s~ate legislatures through the c0untry~ but so far; the Michigan ~roposai is the,firs~ to call for a boycott of Hawaii if the courts rule’in favor 9f same~ sex unions. Sen. Jim Holcomb (R-Sullivan. 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But he notes with bitterness that these folks don’t seem to receive sanctions, or if they do, they’re nothing like what he’s experienced. Reid feels that only antiGay and anti-s/m bias can explain why other professors who clearly appear to have had sex with their students remain at TU while he had a friendship that involved no more intimacy or actions than between two men boxing is gone. "Rugby players engage in more vi,olence and contact than we did but rugby s socially sanctioned and s/m is not," he adds. When told of how Lesbian and Gay faculty on campus whom he once thought were friendly now malign him, citing his poor grooming or too casual dress, Reid just comments on how sad it is that they’re so scared now. He says they know if it happened to him, it could happen to them too. He thinks that TU trustees, counsel, administrators, all know that their actions are indefensible, but they thought they could just cover it all up, or that he couldn’t get any help, .oi: that he’d be too intimidated. For the future, Reid’s working with national legal aid orgamzations to pursue a lawsuit. Meanwhile, one faculty member with a penchant for gossip says what really got TU scared was Pohlmar] threatening to take his video to TV’s Hard Copy. Reid says maybe he’ll do it instead. cont’dfromp. 9 Well, this month’s feature is as downhome and friendly as a bar can be. That’s right put on any of your favorite drag from leather to lace to good old denim for this establishment and get ready for a good old time at the Silver Star Saloon. This club has been home to such events as Mr.Tulsa Leather, Mr. Oklahoma Leather, Miss Central State, and on March 17th, the first Miss South USofA pageant. The owners, John & Steve, are some of the nicest guys .I know. 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As plenty of opportunity to eat Mexican food. ¯ youmay know frommaking guacamole at Remember the day~ ,~lien~ff~-were butch : home, once cut, the avocado very quickly little junior high hellions and competed to ~ turns brown on exposure to air, so lemon see who could eat the most platefuls of the ¯ or lime juice is squeezed on to the cut surfaces to retard discoloration. The all-you-can-eat special at Casa Bonita? Well, we’ve grown up and discovered ~ guacamole at SantaFe was freshly made, that Mexican food can be more than a : chunky, and bright green, with no trace of hedonistic glut-fest or a midnight trip ¯ browning and no taste of citrus juice-through the Taco Mayo drive-up window. : this is amazing and most enjoyable. This place has some of the best tamales Quite by accident, we came across the ." Santa Fe. Mexican Restaurant-at 1515 : we’ve ever eaten in Tulsa, made b.y hand South Sheridan inTulsa;.just north Of the :¯ and Steamed the traditional way m corn Silver Star Saloon. It’ s been there for four ¯ husks. These tamales taste like what you might be served by a friend’s mother at years, owned and operated by the Contreras family, some real Mexico Mexi- ¯ the family dinner table, not like what cans, with traditional family recipes and a ¯¯ we’ve come to expect from restaurants. Vvqaile all of the traditional Mexican talent for good food in a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere. And, as a smaller, _" entrees are on the menu, you may espefamily restaurant, the waiters and wait- ¯ cially want to try the chicken enchiladas, resses don’t run frenetically from table to ¯¯ which are juicy and mouth-watering. table and none of the faux-Mexican deco- ¯ Watch out, though, because we did find a bone chip in the chicken on a recent visit. ration or.m~sic rears its ugly head as we The enchiladas and other entrees are see so:-oft~nfi~iithe chain establishments. The b~i~appears unpretentious and ¯ available with several sauces,and we comthe inside decor is quite modest. Butprices " mend to you the mole sauce. Mole (proare extremely reasonable for a large plate " nounced, "MOH-Iay") is a traditional of excellent-,[~. On weekdays, there is a ¯ Mexican sauce made from unsweetened chocolate and hot peppers. The Spanish luncheon biiffei’for $5:50 per person, and most of the a la carte entrees are $4.50. ~ conqmstadors were introduced to chocoThere are smo-kigg and non=smOking sec- ¯ late by the Aztecs and took the cocoa : beans back to Europe, where the sugar tions anda:ifull~!~i[~,~,ensed bar. Several ~=tast~:~!:~ups are available as ¯¯ started to be added. This Mexican sauce is not sxveet, tastes like nothing .you can starters. The ~o~.~e is a spicy pork and hominy mix .~*:i~:lots of coriander and ~ imagine, and is delicious. The dessert list inclUdes a tasty littlepeppers: Th~rfi ig"~m unusual chicken and ¯ ve~aicelfi sbup;;;vhich we expected to " tan, an individual egg custard baked with THE OFFICIAL 25TH MISS GAY PERFORMING ARTS CENTER APRIL 96, 7:30 pM UPLES caramelized sugar that forms a brown bittersweet sauce. Our only complaint is the complementary salsa served is a bit too thin and w atery, but it i s tasty and does appear to be freshly made onions and cilantro have a distinctive taste when fresh and not canned or bottled. In the mood for good, home-style Mexican food in a casual setting? We heartily recommend Santa Fe for great food at a surprisingly cheap price. And, don’t forget to mention you read about them in Tulsa Family News. Santa Fe Mexican Restaurant, 15i5 S. Sheridan. Prices: inexpensive. Service: casual. Hours: 11 am - 9 pm; till 10 p.m. on Fri-Sat; closed Sun. Payment: Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Diner’s Club, Carte Blanche; no checks. Non-smoking area: Yes. Alcohol: Full bar. Opinion: A List. THE PERFECT WAY TO SHOW APPRECIATIOH MINGOVALLEY 7Z ts,. 663-5934 " Daphane Cooper ~ ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ by James Christjohn Well, it’s not often that a critic gets to put his money where his Mac is, but now is the time. I’m pleased to announce that I amdirecting"HIVariations" - three short plays - during the weekend of one-acts at TU on April 14 in Theatre 2 in Kendall Hall, 2pm. Ya’ll get to see if I really do know what I’m talking about. "HIVariations" are three plays centered aroundthereactions of family and spouses to the loss of a loved one due to HIV "Cater Waiter", now in production as a fflmstarfingDavidDrake, Andre’s Mother by T,,errence McNally; and "Mr. Rosen’s Son . While the subject itself is rather ¯ - dark, there is humor in these shows. The ¯ cast includes Brad Luna, Karin Sandmel, ¯ VivicaWalkenbach, and John Weller. On ¯ the samebill, Harvey Fierstein’s"OnTidy ¯ Endings" is being produced, and some ¯ early Tennessee Williams works are included in the weekend’s festivities. The ¯ plays on Friday and Saturday start at 7pm, ~ Sunday’s plays are at 2 and 7:30pm. The weekend of one-acts ~s free to the public. ¯ By the way, I’m still casting the part of ¯ Mr. Rosen - 50-60 year old NYJewish ¯ man. If you or someone you know fits the ¯ bill, please call me at 583-1248. In addi¯ tion, the performance of an original one: act musical dealing with politics, religion ¯ and gay life, "Diaries" by Jennifer Hoyer, with lyrics and music by Gabriel Washam ¯ and James Gregory, all TU theatre stu¯ dents, will be held Mon, April 29 at 7pro ¯ in Chapman Hall. ¯ Phantom was Phabulous! 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Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart March 15 - April 14, 1996, Volume 3, Issue .1 Anti-Marriage ¯ Run for gourLives, Part2 Efforts Explode Around States I| GOP Presidential Primary and Anti-Gay Marriage Pledge DES MOINES - A number of anti-gay organizations - Colorado for Family Values, the Christian Coalition, the Eagle Forum, the Traditional Values Coalition, and others - drew several thousand fundamentalists together under an umbrella groupknownas the National Campaign to Protect the Sanctity of Marriage, asking all the Republican presidential primary hopefuls to sign their pledge against samesex marriages. Not surprisingly, three of the most outspokenly anti-gay candidates talk show host Alan Keyes, Patrick Buchanan, and Texas Sen. Phil Gramm - were on hand to sign the anti-gay pledge that declares that "the State should not legitimize homosexual relationships by legalizing same-sex ’marriage’ but should continue to reserve the special sanction of civil marriagefor onemanand onewoman as husband and wife." The other leading GOP hopefuls - Senate majority lea’fl~r Bob Dole of Kansas, former Tennessee Gov. Lamar Alexander and multi-millionaire publisher Steve Forbes - all said they would sign the anti-mama,g.e pledge as well, even though they didn t actually show up at the event. Hawaii Anti-Marriage Efforts HONOLULU-In their ongoing efforts to try to extricatethemselves from the politically and. socially charged issue of sanlesex mamages, the Hawaii state Senate’s judiciary committee has rejected 2 bills and accepted one. The committee nixed by a 1-6 vote a proposal that would have simply legalized same-sex marriages in the state. By a 3-4 vote, the senators also rejeetedaprol~s,al thatwonldhavebanned same-sex marriage in Hawaii. The lawmakers finally agreed by a 5-2 vote to accept a proposed measure that would institute a statewide domestic partnership, a compromise proposal that a state see Marriage, page 3 ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Doesn’t Work WASHINGTON-Ajust-issued reported says the compromise policy reached by the Clinton Administration with Congress that was aimed at lessening bias against gays and lesbiansin the U.S. armed forces is being widely violated by the military. Pentagon officialS, however, insist that .the so-called"don’task, don’t tell" policy, m effect now for two years, is working properly. The report by the Washington, D.C.-based group, Service Members Legal Defense Network, charges there is a continuing pattern of abuse by the armed service that has rendered the Administration’s policy toward gays and lesbians in the military as bad, if not worse, than its predecessor. The organization says that despite the seemingly more lenient approach, the nation’s military has recently been expelling more see Don’t ask, page 3 : Legislative Update ¯ OKC Gay Man Helps On Anti- Gay Measure, More on Way : Several OKC sources have accused an : OKC Gay man of misrepresenting him- , .self as a spokesperson of the entire state’s ¯ Gay communities in a behind-the-scenes ¯ deal with OK House Majority Leader :i Loyd Benson. Benson, aDemocrat who’d introduced an anti-Gay resolution, #1045, ¯ condemning teaching homosexuality as ¯ "natural" lifestyle, and adoption or foster ¯ care by Lesbians, Gays or Bisexuals sub- " stituted a bill allegedly at the urging of : Keith Smith who’s recently returned to ¯ Oklahoma after a several year absence "- andwho’s newly hired" as an ad. represen- ¯ tative for OKC’s The Perspective. ¯ The "new" language remains anti-Gay, ¯ condemning more specifically the Nat’l ¯ Education Assoc. for its Gay-positive ~ stands & stating that "those who engage ¯ in same-sex marriages should not be per- , mitted to adopt or provide foster care." ~ Several legislators, specifically Norman ¯ rep., Laura Boyd, who had promised to ¯" vote against #1045, stated that they only ¯ voted for this revised language because : they thought these changes were autho- : rized by "your representative". Both in ," OKC and particularly, in Tulsa, commu- ¯ nity leaders have raised concerns that ¯ individuals lobbying the Legislature ¯ should be clear that they represent only themselves unless they h~ve actually spo’- : ken with community~oups first. No of- , ricer of Tiiis~iOklahomans for Human ¯ -Rights, Rainbow Business Guild or ¯ PFLAG appears to have been contacted. ¯ House resolution #1045 passed 97-1. ¯ Tulsarep. Don Ross cast the only no vote. ¯ Members of several Tulsa groups orga- ¯ nized a calling campaign to thank Ross. : East Tulsa rep. Betty Boyd (Demo.) said : that the only call she received opposing #1045 was TFN’s and strongly suggested ¯" that Lesbians & Gays need to speak up. ¯ Worse yet, religious political extrem- ," ists, Rep. Tim Pope and Bill Graves at- ; tachedanti-Gayamendments tootherbills. ¯ One (to HB 2554 concermng divorce law changes) would ban the recognition of : same-gender marriage by Oklahom~ if ¯ theHawaii courts allow theminthefuture ~¯ abnildl,thHeBoth2e0r5(3a)ttabcahnesdatodothpeti"oRnyaonr Lfoukstee’"r ¯ care by a"known homosexual, lesbian or : see Sold Out. page 3 ¯ II !Native American i Gay Men Gathering ¯ TheTulsaNativeAmericanMenAIDS Project (TNAAPP) will hold a weekend : retreat on May 24-26. The event is open to ¯" all Gay or Bisexual Indian menregardless of tribe, blood quantum or HIV status. ~ Non-Indian parmers of attendees are wel- ¯ come. ¯ Those wlio attended a retreat in Feb. pral~&I the event’s traditional dancer and story-tellers and participants continue to ¯ meet weekly onWednesdays from 6-8pm. ," Future plans include a pow wow for Gay & Lesbian Native Americans. Call 582- ¯ 7225, ext. 218. :¯ TTrUusHteireessFiPrereTse.nWureitdhGAanytPi-rGofaeyssRoerAcomridd Charges of Blackmail Against Univ. by Tom Neal " terhead stationary, of the Paris-Jackson In February, trustees of the University . of Tulsa hired new president Robert Lawless, currently president of Texas Technical University (Tech), to re~ place Robert Donaldson. After the public announcement of Lawless’ hiring on Feb. 19th, major daily newspapers across the Southwest (Dallas Morning News, Houston Chronicle, Daily Oklahoman) and The Associated Press carried reports of anti-Gay comments made by Lawless in a 1993 letter. Lubbock news reports indicate that Lawless responded on Feb. 9 to a complaint by a local resident, Wayson Gerwig, about the appearance on Tech’s campus by Rod & " Bob Paris-Jackson. Bob Paris-Jackson won notoriety as a top competition body " builder. With his partner, fitness instruc’- : tor Rod Paris-Jackson, the pair toured the US (includingan appearance atTU) speak- " ing on Gay & Lesbian marriages. : .According to The Universttv Daily ¯ (UD), Lawless wrote, on Texas "~ech let- " event as "’one of the. greatest disappointments ~n my role as President at Texas Tech.’" He added "the deviant lifestyles portrayed by these individuals is something I can never condone, and hold in great contempt." Students from Tech’s Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual Students group (GLBS) attempted to meet with Lawless in Oct. of ’94, after thc letter was mailed anonymously to the GLBS. According to the UD, the student requestipg.the ~eeting was told by ~’iess" assistant that Lawless would not meet with the student, his opinions had~ noL changed, and that he would not comment further. That same October,The Lubbock Avalanche- Journalreported that whenGLBS officer Roy Mendoza took a complaint about Lawless" remarks to the Texas Tech Board of Regents, neither the board or Lawless responded toGLBS concerns but after the meeting, Tech released a written see Lawless. page 2 :HIV. Education & Recreation Center ¯ Bruce Begley, a Tulsa man living with ¯ AIDS, with several others, has begnn cre- ¯ ating a new sen’ice organization for per- ¯, sons living with HIV AIDS, The HI\" Education&Recreation Center. Begley’s : vision is for a place where persons living ¯, withAIDs(PLWA’s)couldgoforfitness, ¯ recreation and for services that supple- " ment the existing HIV.AIDS agencies. ; Many in the Tulsa community have ¯ responded to his vision by joining the -" board ofthenewly incorporated non-profit : and by donating goods, services and ¯ money toward the HIV-ERC’s fund to ¯ apply for IRS ta~x -exempt status. Newly ¯ rettedboardmembers include local thera- ¯ pist, Sandra Hill, vice president, Steve ," Wilson, treasurer and local businessman, : Scott Perry among others. Begley has spoken to local organizations such as i DignityiIn.tegrity and the Rainbow Business Guild (RBG) about his vi, ¯ sion. The membership of RBG voted in February to donate the balance needed to ¯ pay the IRS application fee. ¯ ,although Begley stresses that the HIV¯ ERC is intended to supplement existing HIV services, he confesses he’s been ¯ shocked by some of the hostility that he’s ¯ experienced from other HIV services pro- " viders. He says he repeatedly heard con- " cerns about"duplicating services". Begley says others have been more supportive, ¯ such as Janice Nicklas of the Community Service Council and Hilary Kitz (ofMayor ¯ Susan Savage’s office) who’s active in ¯ HIV/AIDS volunteer work. ¯ see H1V-ERC, page 3 :INSIDE EDITORIAL P..2 DIRECTORY P., 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 ¯ HEALTH BRIEF~ P. 6 CALENDAR p. ~ : Unity Gardens i First in Country : While Lesbian and Gay activists ¯ struggle for the fight to have our relation- " ships recognized in life, two Tulsa men, ~ Russell Langley-Stumpff and David ¯" Stumpff, are providing a place where Les- ¯ bians and Gay men can have their rela- : tionships and identifies recognized in per- : petuity. The men, who are partners in life ¯ as well as business, have created Unity ¯ Gardens, which may be the first project of : its t~lae in the US. Unity Gardens is a ~ special part of Washington Memorial ¯ Cemetarvwhere LesbianandGay couples, : family, find friends can either have burial : plots; niches in the crematorium, or be : remembered on a memorial wall that ¯ stands beside a scattering ground. ¯ ¯ Unity Gardens will fly a rainbow Pride flag at its center 24hours a day,and on the ¯ day of services, each of the 10 flag poles ¯ that mark the road to Unity Gardens will ¯ also fly a Pride flag under the regular ¯ American flags. And while Unity Gardens are non-sectarian, religious o’r other organizations can reserve a section for their members which could have a reli- ¯ gious symbol marking their area. 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The University of Tulsa has long sought to be compared to the best private universities in the US: Rice, Stanford, Yale, etc. However, somehow its trustees and administrators haven’t figured out that there is a connection between their actions and TU’s continued failure to rank with these schools. By hiring a documented, and at least publicly unrepentant anti-Gay bigot, Robert Lawless, for its new president, TU’s trustees again prove that they just don’t understand that TU cannot embrace prejudice and be a"world-dass"institution. Former Texas Tech president Lawless certainly has aconstitutional right to his bias,just as does a Klansman or a white-supremacist, but usually those opinions disqtmlify a candidate as a leader of university, There is little doubt that if Lawless had been speak)ng about Jews or Catholics, instead of Gays and Lesbians,:when he said in 1993, "the deviant lifestyles portrayed by these individuals is something that I can never condone, and hold in great contemPt,~’ :that Lawless’ hiring would not have occurredl It certainly would not have without some apology or repudiation, which he has refused to make publicly forover three years. Lawles~S; only regrets appear to have been made only just a few weeks ago to the TU Search Committee. This seems awfully late and mighty, convenient. Some members of the Search Committee claim thaLLawless while at Texas Tech didn’t permit his .prejudice to affect his treatment of openly Gay professors. However, other Tech sources indicate that Lawless, in fact, attempted to censor the speaking engagement of Rod & Bob Paris-Jackson, about which his remarks were made. It also is amply clear, from both the Tech newspaper and the LubbockAvalanche-Journal. that Lawless" alleged "’fairness" to professors did not extend to Gay Tech students with whom he refused to meet. Even worse than Lawless’ "’regretted" remarks. however, is the decision ofTU’ s Board ofTrustees’ Search Committee to recommend hiring Lawless with full "knowledge of his remarks. This endorsement Of 14i?~prejudice combines with the refusal several Years ago of TU’s Board of Trustees to add sexual ~nentation protections to TU’s non-discrimination policy*, and with its recent firing of openl~G~i3’ professor Jim Reid (see related editoria!),~ to?di~monstrate the comnutment of the Univcrs~ ty of Tulsa to "World-Class Bigotry" rather than "World-Class Excellence." - Tom Neal *prof. of law M. Chapman notes TU’s policy may. or may not. provide bias protection stnce it mc:ludes legally vague language rather than the standard term. sexual orientation. bisexual". Each bill was passed, as amended by the House, 98-2. Longume political observers hope that HB 2554 will not get.out of the Senate Judiciary committee, headed by Sen. Bernice Shedrick (D-Stillwater) and that the amendment language attached to the popular "Ryan Luke" bill can be removed in committee or in conference with the House. These observers strongly recommend polite calls to Sen. Shedrick’s office asking her to.help eliminate the tmconstitutional anti-Gay provisions. A Senator on the Judiciary committtee declined to comment but added that he felt it likely that HB 2554 would not make it if enough calls were made. (Senate switchboard: 405-524-0126) Dr. James Reid vs. TU Some will find Dr. James Reid’s choices in activities & friends to be worse than the actions of the University of Tulsa. His judgement was clearly poor in getting involved in a friendship of some intimacy (though no sex) with someone who was initially his student. Videotaping their horseplay (which is likely milder than some of TU’s former fraternity hazing) also was foolish. But the actions of the University’s officials, legal counsel, & professors with their wanton disregard for their own rules is more shameful than Reid’s video-taped flogging. The surrender to the worst bias, disregard for academic standards, the destruction of career of a highly regarded scholar, and abandonment of fair p!-.,,y suggest that the TU officials responsible are the ones who deserve to be shamed publicly - if not flogged themselves. - Tom Neal TU : osed to continuedfrom page 1, less is morally opp "homosexual lifestyles does not mean that he is a bigot". Roselle Graskey, a member of Tech’s GLBS, notes that Lawless" statements were a direct violation of Tech:s "’student dignity handbook" which calls on the university to help "’students learn to recognize, understand and celebrate human differences.... [including] lifestyle". Graskey also charges that Lawless did not merely speak out against Lesbians and Gay men, but actually attempted to block the event by pressuring the independent student board that made the decision to invite the Paris-Jacksons. This claim is supported by Lawless’ letter in which he says, "there is a group ~)f individuals on this campus that serve as an Advisory Board to the students who plan the progranunihg in the UC [University Center]. These advisers could have, and should have, acted responsibly in their roles to identify this program as being u/tfit for a university campus and vetoed it from the slate of program offerings that were proposed." (editor’s note: emphasis added) Members ofTU’s Search Committee were aware of Lawless’ remarks prior to recommending his luting according to Business prof. PC Smith. Members. of the Search Committee spoke with individuals. on the Tech campus, who claim that Lawless did not discriminate against openly Gay professors arid even experienced some harassment from anti- Gay forces when he did not block an openly Gay prof. from an endowed chair. Several TU sources claim that these remarks no longer represent his views, teasingly implying that Lawless had some personal reasons for either his hostility or for his alleged change of heaxt. However, all the members of the Search Committee who are TU trustees and who we were able to contacted refused to discuss the matterm any substantive way. One referred all "calls to trustee Fulton Collins who refused to return phone calls, although Collins spoke readily to The Tulsa Worm(The Wormowners, RobertandRoxana Lorton are both TU trustees). Lawless also refused to return repeated calls. TU press representative, Michele Cruncleton, specifically stated "I’m not going to let you speak with him [Lawless]." Also in February, the TU board of trustees voted unanimously to fire Jim Reid, a tenured Gay professor of physics. Dr. Reid was accused of sexual harassment by a 26 year old, one-time student, Marlin Pohlman. Copies ofTU documents indicate that trustees fired Reid despite the findings of the majority of a University Appeals Board that Dr. Rcid’s procedural rights were violated and that TU see TU, page 10 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Barraccuda’s, 2405 E. Admiral *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Ground Zero, 311 E. 7th *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 832-1269 582-4340 744-0896 585-5622 749-1563 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Dermis C. 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The case, brought on behalf of former Navy Petty Office Mark Philips, is being argued before the U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals. Attorneys from theACLU,representing Philips, contend the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy adopted by Congress and the Clinton Administration violated the equal protection & free speech provisions of the Constitution. Philips was serving on the aircraft carrier USS Nimitz in 1992 when an officer asked him about his sexual orientation. Philips answered honestly & was discharged. Now 25 years old, Philips served nearly 6 years before being kicked out of the Navy and received a number of commendations for his performance, inc. dudinga Bronze Starfor service in Desert Storm. U.S. District Court in Seattle last year rejected Philips’ lawsuit, agreeing with government attorneys that his none of his constitutional rights had been violated by the policy. Red Rock Mental Health of Oklahoma City has opened a Tulsa office providing individual and group therapy, HIV education & prevention. Therapy is available to PLWA’s, their loved ones and individuals at risk of HIV infection. Betsy Murphy, MSW, CTRS is co-ordinator. Contact: 584-2325, fax, 582- 2384, 302 S. Cheyenne, #108, 74103. and AIDS First Regional Begley’s sense of what is needed is " based in part in his own experiences with local HIV/AIDS service organizations - both as a client and as an advocate for " other clients who are more ill. His vision " ultimately would include weight and fitness equipment, swimming, tennis, in essence, a health club for the community. " He’d als0 like to have on site counselors " tO. help with, mental, ~health issues, and ¯ drug and alcohol problems. One service ¯ he’d like to see offered wouldbe prescrip- " tion medicine assistance that would"kick- ¯ in" after PLWA’s have reache.d the limits ¯ of assistance that other agencies provide. " Musing over the personal attacks that he’s experienced thus far, Begley notes that in Tulsa some other social service agencies that provide assistance for lower " income persons, Project Get Together, ¯ Neighbor for Neighbor and Catholic Charities, all duplicate some of the same ¯ services but all seem to co-exist. He just . shakes his head in wonder that trying to ¯ help folks in need brings out a fist instead ¯ of a welcoming hand. : For more information about or to do- ." hate to the HIV-ERC, write Bruce Begley, ¯ president, 1210 S. Cheyenne, Ste. 208, Tulsa 74119 or call 587-1059. ." commission impaneled to study the ques- "_ tion had put forward after the state su- ¯ preme court made it clear that there was a . good chance Hawaii may be legally re- " quired to recognized gay andlesbian mar- ." riages. A just-released Honolulu Adver- ¯ tiser-Channel 2 News poll indicates that, ¯ despite the state’s strong liberal reputa- : tion. 71% of the voters polled said they ." oppose same-sex marriage, while only : 18% said they favored extending mar- . riagerights to same-gender couples. Some o 9% of those polled indicated they were ¯ undecided or didn’tknow. As anindicator ¯ of how worried some state lawmakers are . A comprehensive one-day conference to raise awareness and protnote discussion about the special issues affecting women in the second deco~de ofAIDS. Keynote speaker: Mary Fisher, Family AIDS Network Tuesday, April 2, 8am-5pm University of Tulsa, Chapman Activity Center 440 So. Gary Ave. Registration: $35, includes lunch, breaks and materials. Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ¯ Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group Todo justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with OlD" God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 becoming, 8 state representatives, backed by Pat Robertson’s American Center for Law and Justice, have filed a court motion to be allowed to intervene in the suit that initially raised the same-sex marriage issue in the state. The brief in the case is strongly critical of the Hawaii attorney general’s office for not adequately defending the state against the lawsuit. Anti-Marriage Legislative Update State legislatures around the country are continuing in their efforts to ban samesex mamages, although with very little actual effect it seems. In New Mexico, Senate majority leader Tom Rutherford sent an anti-marriage resolution on the issue back to the rules.committee because no hearings had been hdd.The proposed measure would ask voters there to amend the state constitution. The resolution is thus dead for this session. Washington state Republican legislators have all but conceded that a proposed ban on same-sex marriage in the state will probably never make ~t out of a state senate committee controlled by the Democrats. Washington state Senate leader Sid Snyder said the anti-gay measure was not slated for committee hearings and will be allowed to die there. The Washington House of Representatives had approved the measure on a 60-36 vote to prohibit same-sex marriages in the state. Gov. Bill-Janklow has signed a bill approved recently by the South Dakota legislature that would refuse recognition in the state to same-sex couples that might be legally married elsewhere and that restricts marriage to opposite-sex couples only. The measure, which died last year in the legislature and looked as if it would suffer the same fate again this year when a committee voted not to report the measure to the legislature for a vote, is the 2nd to become law. One immediate - and surprising - side-effect of the bill being signed into law is that Jacques Soukup and KirkThomas. notable balloonists who are also longtime partners, have withdrawn their support for the Governor’s Cup hot-air ballooning event in the state. The 2 men, founders of the Soukup & Thomas International Balloon and Airship Museum in !vfitchell, S.D., told the Governor’s Cup committee that they Share the Joy Through Flowers Sunday, April 7, 1996 AFS "Spring Basket" Bouquet T. MINGO VALLEY 9720-C E. 31st St. 663-5934 Daphane Cooper AFS 96-EAB1 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Corner of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. couldn’t be "associated with a government that has just passed a mean-spirited and hateful piece of legislation that hurts US.’" In Illinois, a bill preventing thc state ¯ from recognizing same-gender mamagc ¯ passed a state senate committee ou : Wednesday, March 6, with little opposition. Same-sex marriages "’would destroy ¯ thedefinitionofmarriageas wcknow it," : said state Sen. Peter Fitzgerald (R- : Inverness), the measure’s sponsor. The ¯ bill. which passed 8-2, now goes to the ¯ Senate floor. It puts same-sex Weddings ~ on a listofmarriages barred in Illinois. "’If : we let homosexuals marry, what’s next’?" ¯. said David Curtin, executive director of the Illinois Christian Coalition. And according to a report in the gay paper, Wisconsin Light, state Rep. Dean Kaufert has announced plans to intr~xiucc a measure barring same-sex mamagcs in the state as well. The paper reports the measure has not yet been drafted. Lawmakers have voted 86-11 in the Iowa House of Representatives for a bill that would prohibit the state from recognizing same-sex marriages. Some political observers in the state have suggested the legislation, which was introduced by state Rep. Steve Grnbbs (R-Davenport), was mainly a partisan issue because Grubbs is running for the Republican nomination to unseat U.S. Sen. Tom Harkin, a Democrat. In Alabama, State Sen. Bill Armistead, who recently led a battleto keep a gay and lesbian conference from being held on the campus at the University of Alabama, is proposing a"marriage protection act" that he says would strengthen traditional heterosexual marriages by barring the statc from recognizing same-sex marriages, even if legally recognized elsewhere. Michigan state Rep. Deborah Whyman has drawn fire for introducing a bill in the legislature that would forbid reco~fizing same-sex marriages in the state, even if see Slates, page 11 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News ¯ lowed to join the nation’s mili- sexuals andpeople withdisabili- " policy is reviewed by the Euro- " Columbia; and Winnipeg police Tutu & Anglican Leaders ." Call for Change LONDON-Hundreds ofprominent Episcopal clerics from around the world signed an ad- ~ vertisement commending the ] Lesbian and Gay Christian ¯ Movement on the ~roup’s 20th : anniversary ofworking to change the Anglican Church’s views on ¯ homosexuals. Bestki~ownofthe -" signatories of the ads, which ] appeared in Anglican, Methodist and Catholic religious publications in Britain, was Desmond Tutu, Archbishop ofCapeTown, South Africa. Tutu was joined in signing the ads by three other Anglican primates from around the world, as well as several bishops from theChurch of England, as thedenomination was about to begin its annual synod. The three other church primates included: Archbishops Richard ltolloway of Scotland, Michael Peers of .,Canada, and Bishop Fxtmrnd Browmng of the United States. Although not attending the cfiurch synod, Tutu spoke on the BBC ~’Radio Sunday" show via telephone. "’If we say that relationships where there is fidelity between one couple a~e acceptable, whv.,should we not extend, the san~e, conditions to stone-sex relationships?" Tutu told the BBC, say~ing it was simply a "matter ofjustice, compassion and consistency’" for the church to accept that there are homc/sexual Clergy, who technically are barred from being ordai~ edin the Anglican Church. So. Africa A nti-Bias Laws CAPE TO\V..~.. South Africa - Politicians,nfilitary leaders and defense indnstry representatives have begun discussions on the role mid nature of South Africa" s maned’forces, includingwhether gays and lesbians should be altary force. The meeting is expected to produce a report later this year that would be used by the defense mimstry to guide it in formulating specific policies concerning the armed forces. Defense ministry, officials noted that the national armed services in the country have never actu. ally had any policy excluding individuals based on their sexual orientation, but African National Congress officials have pushed for including the topic of sexual orientation in the defense review discussions South Africa’s interim Constitution includes prohibitions against discrimination based on sexual orientation, but the complex process of getting from the interim document to a final Constitution faces a number of difficulties andANC leaders are making a determined effort to try to keep it headed in the most progressive direction. Also according to Mpho Makwana, director of the equal opportumties office in South Africa’s Labor Dept., the government ~s wor’king on a comprehensive program for affirmative action that would "’include mainly blacks, but also women, homosexuals and handicapped people." Makwana made the statement during a roundtable discussion earlier this year broadcast on South Africa’s TV1. He did not give d.etails of the affirmative acnon plans, but Makwana said it would"not be a stand-alone lmv, with a quota for compames to implement affirmative action and punishing the company which does not comply." Instead. he said the plan as being developed would aim at getting firms to include personnel training andhuman resources development programs to encourage blacks, women, homoties already wor’king in a company to move into middle- mad upper-management in that finn. CompuServe Reinstates Internet Groups COLUMBUS, Ohio - Compu- Serve Inc., the computer on-line g~ant ownedby H&RBlock, says it has given its 4.3 million subcribers access again to somc 200 Intemet newsgroups that it had banned in Deceniber alter a German state prosecutor questioned whether the groups included illegal sexually .related materials. The compnter sen’ice said at the time that it could not selectively restrict Interact materials bv comatry mad had therefore blocked access to the groups to all its subscribers. Included among some of the balmed groups were several that contain explicidy adult material. But a number of the banned newsgroups were gay and lesbian discussion and support groups, including one for younger gays that specifically barred pornographic ulaterials. CompuServe says it will now give its subscribers software that will let them pick which - if any - material they don’t want to be able to access. The finn believes parents will use the bloc’king utilities to keep children from seeing or reading nmtefial they don’t deem appropriate. : UK to Keep Military Ban : LONDON - The Daily Tele- : graph reports that based on a vet-to-be-released report by the ~ ]3ritish MinistryofDefense, gays and lesbians constitute an "affront to service people" and will ] not be allowed to serve in the ] British military. But the defense ¯ ministry report also predicts that ¯ when a legal challenge to the United Kingdom’s anti-gay ~_ pean Court of Human Rights, ¯ arrested Robert E. Welsh, 24. the govennnent is "’likely to lose" The fourth suspect in the killing, ¯ thecase, which may not come to " Gary A. Kuffner, 27, also of ¯ afinaldecisionbytheEUcourts " Winnipeg, is currently being ¯ before the year 2000. The paper sought. Last year in a high-pro- ¯ said the 450-page nmfistry re" " file investigation of Canadian ¯ port, which it had obtained, is ¯ armed forces, McKay acknowl- ¯ expected to be released soon and " edged - and publicly renounced ¯ concludes that while changing ~ - his ties to several nee-Nazi & : attitudes about lesbians and gay ~ ¯ mcn may justify further reviews ¯ ¯ of the and-gay ban in the future, ~ ¯ "it may equally be that the per- ¯ :~ manent features of the military ¯¯ enviroument are such that it will ¯ never be possible to integrate homosexuals" in the nadon’s : maned forces. 3 Charged in Killing Of ¯ Canadian Man : WINNIPEG, Calmda-Canadian : authorities have arrested 3 men ¯ and are seeking a 4th - who are ¯ believed linked to white su- :. premacist and nee-Nazi organi- : z,ations - in comaection the brutal 1991 mad-gay murder ofGordon Kuhtev. Kuhtey was killed on ’ the mo’nfing ofWinnipeg’s 1991 ~ gay pride celebration, June 30, ¯ as he walked along a riverbank ¯ footpath. AccordingtoWimfipeg ¯ police, Kuhtey was suddenly confronted by at least four young men who savagely beat him in the head, then tossed him into the nearby river and proceeded to hurl stones at his floating body. He died of massive head injuries. Althongh Wilmipeg authorities had little luck in tracking down Kuhtey’s killers, the police homicide and hate crimes refit kept the case open and dog- " gedly continued their investigation. In late February their persistence paid off and the 29th Calgary police arrested Matthew A. McKay, 25, in that city; Penticton Royal Canadian Mounted Police also arrested Jmnes R. Lisik, 22, in British white supremacist groups. Anti-Gay Crimes in SF SAN FRANCISCO -The S.F. ~olice department’s hate crimes unit says that bias-based crimes rose 23% to 350 incidents in 1995 over the previous year, the anti-gay and -lesbian incidents constituting both the largest single category and the largest increase. The hate crimes unit reported that 144- or41% - of all such crimes reported in .1995 were based on sexual orientation and that anti-gay incidents increased nearly a third last year over 1994. Police said it was not dear whether the number of reported incidents reflected an actual surge in anti-gay attacks or was a result of greater willingness on the part of gays and lesbians to report such incidents because of increased publicity of attacks. Anti-Gay Attacks Ignored in Kentucky , MOREHEAD, Ky. - Morehead State Ulfiversity officials disagreed with an instructor’s claim that.an attack on a female student was part of a patteru of campuswide gay-bashing at the school. 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We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466 POB 14011 Tulsa 74159 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News believed the attack was related " another high school that trig- " arrested them at an adult book- cious of his motives, which place at a state-funded facility. to "the friends or acquaintances ¯ she keeps." But MSU English instructor Patti Swartz said sh_ej is outraged at the university ¯ administration’ s lack ofresponse ¯ following theincident, which she ¯ labeled a gay bashing. Swartz has written letters expressing her concern to MSU President " Ronald Eaglin and the vice presi- ¯ dents of student affairs and aca- ¯ demic affairs saying the attack ¯ _was just the latest in a series Of ¯ anti-gay and -les~bian attacks. Utah: NotO Eq ual Access " SALT LAKE CITY - The Utah ¯ Boardof Education is writing to " the state’s congressional delega- " tion asking them to back federal ¯ legislation that would make it ¯ legal for local school districts to -" decide what nonacademic clubs " can be allowed on their cam- ¯ puses. The Salt Lake City school ¯ board has also writing a similar " letter condemning the federal ¯ governmentforforcing theboard ¯ to ban all non-academic clubs " just so schools there wouldn’t " have to recognize a gay and les- ¯ bian club that students had asked ¯ to form. The Salt Lake City let- " ter says the school board was ¯ forced into the ban "’under du- ¯ ress" because of a federal law " guaranteeing equal access to " school actavitles for all groups . and clubs. Although the letters both blame federal laws for the dilemma they’rein, both of them ." carefully sidestep mentiomng . that the law - the Equal Access Act - was sponsored by Sen. ¯ Orrin Hatch (R-Utah) so that " Bible clubs and religious ori- ¯ ented groups could meet in public schools. Meanwhile, a group of stu-¯" dents at Cottonwood High . School have am~ounced plans to launch a gay-straight student alliance similar to one proposed at ¯ gered a national furor. Students Cara Varallo and Brin Bon say they met with Cottonwood Principal Michael Bennett to discuss creatinga gay-straight club next fall at the school. On Feb. 20, the Salt I~ake City School Board voted4-3 to end all nonacademic clubs rather than allow ~the gay school club. The Cottonwood students, say .they ,already have 10 students to join the club. Gay Studies at Berkeley BERKELEY, Calif. - The University of California at Berkeley this semester has begun its Lesbian, .Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Studies minor, the first gay studies minor in the University of California system. The new minor, part of the College of Letters and Science’s Undergraduate Interdisciplinary Studies (UGIS) department, offers four basic core courses and a list of electives dealing with homosexuality, past and present. Initial plans for the minor got started when students at the school in- 1990 protested about the lack of a gay studies program at the university. Some 2.0, active UC staff, faculty and students have been involved in formulating the curriculum. CA Court Rules Against Undercover Stings SAN FRANCISCO - The California supreme court has unanimously ruled in favor of 2 Santa Clara (Calif.) County men- Dennis Baluyut and Job Lopez - saying a pattern of anti-gay discrimination in police arrests was sufficient to demonstrate they were being singled out by authorities in a pohce sting operation by Mountain View police. Attorneys for the city’s police had argued that the 2 men had to legally prove the officers who ¯ store for soliciting sex with an ¯ undercover officer had intended ¯ to single out gays for arrests. ¯ Baluyut and Lopez filed a law- . suit, arguing that arrest records ¯ alone showed a pattern of dis- " cnmination by police in arrest- . lng gays in such sting opera- " t.ions, mid the state’s high court ¯ Sided with the 2 men on appeal. Kentucky Privacy Bill ¯¯ FRANKFORT, Ky. - Ithadmore to do with the kinds ofenormous ¯ computer data files maintained ¯ On pe0pid by bank~, credit agdn- ¯ cies, and other public and pri- ¯ vale organizations, but the stun- " ningly simple idea of adding an ¯ explicit right to privacy to the Kentucky constitution has law- " makers and politicians through- " out the state worried about a ¯ "hidden agenda" covering ev- ¯ erything from abortion rights to ¯ sodomy. But the proposed ¯ amendment to the state’s "Bill ; of Rights" was introduced by ¯ one of the legislature’s most re- " spected lawmakers, state Rep. ¯ Joe Clarke, a member of the ¯ House since 1970 and its one- " time speaker. What’s more, ¯ Clarke, a Danville, Ky., Demo- ¯ crat, says he’s not overly con- . cerned that his proposed consti- " tutional amendment might le- ¯ galize sodomyormake anti-abor- ¯ tion restrictions void. Among ¯ other things, Clarke noted that ¯ the state supreme court has al- ¯ ready ruled that there is an im- ¯ plied right toprivacy in the Ken- " tucky constitution and that it ¯ means laws against sodom) are ¯ themselves unconstitutional. So ¯ Clarke says he’s not especially ¯ concerned that enshrining the ¯ right to privacy in the constitu- ¯ tion would have much impact one way or the other on social legislation. Even so, Clarke says fellow lawmakers remain suspimakes him pessimistic about its chances. "I think it’s an important issue....I don’t think it has much of a chance this tilne.’" New Hampshire Policies CONCORD. N.H. - A group of , parents aud other concerned citizens have filed suit against the Merrimack school board in U.S. District Court, char~ng that the ¯ ¯ board’s recently adopted policy of prohibiting any materials that have "the effect of encouraging or supporting homosexuality as a positive lifestyle alternative" violatedFirst Amendment rights of free speech. The suit claims that the policy has led to books being removed from schools, classroom discussions being cut off, and curriculum topics being restricted. At a press conference, Debra Herget, one of the plaintiffs in the suit and the mother of 3 children attending schools in the district, said, "’This policy ¯ .hurts and distorts the education ¯ of students every day. Now is ¯ the right time to put au end to it ¯- and return to the sound policies which have always guided our children’s education in the past.’" Recently, the New Hampshire’s legislature voted 293-35 to send a proposed measure adding sexual orientation to the state’s civil rights statutes for "’extended stud)’.’" The move effectively puts the proposal on hold for this year while a legislative committee studies the measure and reports back to the full legislature next fall. Alabama Gay Conf. TUSCALOOSA, Ala. - The Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual College Conference of the Southeastern United States went ahead at the University of .Alabama, more or less without incident, despite attempts by state officials to block the confab taking Just days before the conference was slated to start, a federal distrier courtjudge rejected the statc attorney general’s argument that the confereuce was illeg~d and ruled that the conference would go ahead as plmmed. As the conference itself got started, the managerofWMCF-TV, a Christian Broadcasting Co. television affiliate~ charged the statiou’s First Amendmentrights had been violatedwhen organizers refused to let his TV crew videotape the conference’,s, w~rkshops. Organizers of the meeting; however, said videotaping the event wotfld have been disruptive and would have violated the privacy rights of those attending. Mont. Sodomy Law Out HELENA, Mont. - Moutana District Court Judge Jeffrey Sherlock has ruled that the state" s sodomy law is ,an unconstitutional infringement of privacy protections guaranteed under state law. State officials are expected to appeal the ruliug to the state supreme court, although the attorney general’s office gave no indication of its intentions about the ruliug, which orders the state not to enforce the law. The 1973 felony statute "called for up to 10 year~ in prison and a fine of up to $50,000. No one had ever been prosecuted under the law. Judge Denies Custody RICHMOND, Va. - A Virginia judge has again rejected an appeal by lesbian mom Sharon Bottoms in her 3-year efforts to gain custody of l~er son Tyler. Ironically Judge \Villimn B’oice questioned Bottoms" financial ability to care for her son, while he criticized herfor si~nng a $75,000 contract to allow ABCTV to make a television movie about her struggle for custody. 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KS Virus Identified SAN FRANCISCO - Researchers at the University of California at San Francisco report in the journal Nature Medicine that they have finallyidentified thc,_organism that causes Kaposi "s sarcoma, a once-rare skin cancer that now strikes thousands of people with AIDS. Kaposi’s Sarcoma was, in fact, the first indication noted by doctors in 1981 that some unusual h~alth problem was affecting gay meu. The researchers, headed by Dr. Don Ganem at UC-SF, isolated the microbe, -known as KS-associated herpes virus or human herpes virus 8 (HHVS). It ~s one of a growing number of retro-viruses that scientists ha~,’e only just begun discovering and identifying in the past few decades. HIV Strain Raises Fears of Heterosexual Epidemic+,~- BOSTON" - Writing in the journal Science. 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Public-Private Vaccine Venture WASHINGTON - Government AIDS officials have unveiled plans for a cooperative private-public venture aimed a developing an AIDS vaccine by the year 2002, largely by removing government and bureaucratic obstacles that havemade some companies shy away from work on vaccines. Dr. Anthony Fauci of the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Diseases said it will be years before any vaccine ~s likely available, but the joint project may help smooth out and speed up the process. The cooperative project involves basic medical research being done by federal agencies that private pharmaceutical and biomedical firms involved in the project could use in developing possible vaccines. The project also would establish specific clinical criteria for safety, testing and evaluation of effectiveness trials of such vaccine candidates. 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Call 622-1441 for info, Community of Hope (United Methodist) Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Bible Study, 7 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2rid 582-7225 or 584-4983 THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women : Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 ¯ Co-Dependency Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 HIVTestingTOHRClinic Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice~ 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pro, Info: 749-4194 SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at I 1 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585= 1800 .NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748=37t 1 ~... ~q.t " OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian St~utent Association TJC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TOHR Helpline Daily 8-10 pm For info. ~r to vohmteer: 743-GAYS SATURDAY, MARCH 16 Gaylapalooza, 8 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E. Second, Info: 596-7111 SUNDAY, MARCH 17 Miss Gay South USofA Silver Star Saloon 9 pm, 1565 S. Sheridan, Info: 834-4234 FRIDAY, MARCH 22 Lola’s 2nd Anniversary Party 11 pro, 2630 E. 15th, Info:-749-1563 TUESDAY, MARCH 26 Rainbow Business Guild: City Councilor Gary Watts 7 pro, Chinese Buffet, 6219 E. 61 Dinner Meeting, Info: 665-5174 FRIDAY, MARCH 29 Community ofHope Movie Night & Discussion: Priest 7:30pro, 1703 E. 2rid, Info: 585-1800 SUNDAY, MARCH 31 St. Jerome’s Catholic Church The Passion ofOur Lord 6 pro, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria Info: page Father Rick at 646-7116 and Family ofFaith MCC Palm Sunday 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 TUESDAY, APRIL 2 Women &AIDS Conference. 8am- 5 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa 5th St. west of Harvard, Info: 743-4297 and Tulsa Oklahomansfor Human Rights Community Meeting, 7 pm Chapman Activity Ctr., Univ. of Tulsa WEDNESDAY, APRIL 3 FamilyofFaith MCC Spy Wednesday 6:30 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 THURSDAY, APRIL 4 Maundy Thursday at Family ofFaith MCC 7 pro, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441, and St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pro, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria and The First Day ofPassover FRIDAY, APRIL 5 Good Friday at Family ofFaith MCC 7 pm, 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 and St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pm, The Garden Chapel~3841 S. Peoria SATURDAY, APRIL 6 The Great Vigil ofEaster St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 6 pm, The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria SUNDAY, APRIL 7 Easter at St. Jerome’s Catholic Church 8:30 am, The Garden Chape, and Family ofFaith MCC 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441, and Agape Christian Fellowship 21st & Sheridan, Info: 599-7688, and MCC ofGreater Tulsa 1623 N. Maplewood, Info: 838-1715 TUESDAY, APRIL 9 AIDS Coalition ofTulsa Mental Health Needs of HIVIAIDS Providers. Noon - 1:30 pm, Mental Health As’soc. 1870 S. Boulder WEDNESDAY, APRIL 10 The Technicians ( [2ather org.) 7:30 pm, Rum Runner’s Hideaway, formerlv Jesse’s 822 ~o. Sheridan, 835-6535 FRIDAY, APRIL 12 Safe, Haven, a free, non-political, nonreligious, non-recovery-oriented social gathering for LGBT young adults. 18-30 Family of Faith MCC. 8 - midnight 5451-E S. Mingo, Info:-622:1441 SATURDAY, APRIL 13 Dignityllntegrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Cathohcs & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Into: POB 701044, 74170 Out & About by JD Jamett " I was truly out & about this past several weeks. Did vou that Kansas City has river boat casino~? Well this poor l~oy fo_..und out andlost afew dollars whileroymo!her became the Queer/of the SLots. Then it was out of K.C.and down to New Orleans for the Pantheon Leather Awards. This was truly an experience unto itself. Just ask Larry Everett (International Mr. Leather) how goodhe looks in a feathered mask and .boa, and how he and 2 other international title holders ~practically brought down the house. Also ~e former Oklahomam (oops - Oklaho-woman?) received one of the Reader’s Choice of the Year awards from the Leather Journal (Pantheon Leather Awards is the Leather Journal’s and the leather community’s Academy Awards). see JD, page 13 mm mm mmmmm mmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm The-University of Tulsa presents ¯¯¯ ¯ ¯: A Weekend of One Act Plays ¯¯ April 12, 13, & 14, Fri. &.Sat. at~7pm, Sun. at 2pm & 7:30prn ¯ Theatre 2, Kendall Hall, Free to the public. ¯¯ including ¯¯ On Tidy Endings by Harvey Fierstein ¯ HlVariations: Cater Waiter, ¯¯ Andre’s Mother, and Mr Rosen’s Son ¯ ¯ (both on Sunday at 2pm) ¯ Also, Diaries ¯ An original one-act musical of politics, religion and Gay life. ¯¯ by Jennifer Hoyer, Gabriel Washam,& James Gregory ¯ Mon, April 29 at 7pm in Chapman Hall ¯¯ For more info, call 631-2566 mmnmmm mmmmmmm mm mm mmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Saint Jerome Ecumenicaf Cathdic Church Tile Key. 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During that meet- - ing, Dr. Reid claims, he was pressured and ¯ intimidated by TU s counsel, Fred Corengaged in selective enforcement of its " nish. Reid, who holds dual citizenship sexual harassmentpolicy,specifically be- from Canada and the United Kingdom, cause the complaint involved same-gen- . adds that as a resident alien, he did not derparticipants,andsadomasochisticcon- " know exacdy what his rights were and duct.. This board concluded that TU did ¯ that he was fearfd of being deported, : not prove as required that Dr. Reid had " even though he’d committed no crime. ¯ engaged in sexual harassment. . d ~ ~ Furthermore, the Appeals Board f.oun_d ~- ~fthesevenmembersoftheUABoar ,.. ~i that~iri the:heating Reid f’mally received, four found the sanction of firinglo be too,.:, the i:eview ,e,ommittee improperly resevere and of those, three stai~dthat the:~ ¯ stridted)Reid s attoraey from adequate sanct|on was disproporfouate to the mis-: " access to Pohlman f0r cross-exzmiuation conduct provenandrecommendeda’sanc- ~." and that TUcounsel improperly asserted tionotherthandisnussal,addingth~it . ~ . attorney-client;privilege on the part of procedural violations so colored the~ ~ Provost Lewis.-Dune,an, Vice-Provost decision,..that the sanction is fundamen-~ ~ Allen Soltow,. Physics chair Kenneth rally unfair". > : : - , . :~ KuenlaoldandTU Gen. Counsel,Barbara .~ccordingft0 .Reid,. he and Marlin : Geffem ’. :. ~ " ~:, : ..’ . i: Pohlman beb,ame invol.ved in a consen-:. Despite,the numerous finding of sensual, non4exual, Social friendship that began when Pohlman was a student in Reid’s class. Reid notes that Pohlmanmmntained the friendship long after the class ended, accepting invitations to visit Reid in Iris home and complaint, nolonger even was aTU student but never-the-less, TU officials provided him with housing ,’rod,also legal counsel, Fred Cornish. Cor- ~fish also happened to be representing the umversitv at the same time. This alleganon is jdst one of the many procedural v~olauons of TU’s own regulauons. Other procedural violations found against TU by its own Appeals Board include no notice of the meeting at which Reid was charged, though he was not .~iven written notice of the charges as is ~equired,immediately suspended, was escorted by armed guard from campus, and not being given adequate time to retmn counsel - all of which were violations of : ous improprieties on ihe part of the Uni: ¯ versity of Tulsa and its agents, and the recommendation by the majority of the : University Appeals Board that a milder : sanction is appropriate, Pres. Robert ¯ Donaldson sent a letter to iheTU trustees : claiming theAppeals Boardrecommended : termination. All the trustees of the Uni- ¯ versity ofTulsapresent votedunanimously : on Feb. 7 to fire Dr. James Reid, thus : destroying his career. Keith Bailey, chair- : man of the board of trustees of the University of Tulsa only would say that it would : no[ be appropriate to discuss Dr. Reid’s ¯ case. : Reid, who’s since moved to the Northwest, has been reduced to menial labor : and the kindness of old friends. While he : admits to poor judgement in his friend- : ship with Pohlman, he says that TU’s rife with rumors of heterosexual misconduct see TU. page 13 RIBBON ’ MAY 25 7:50P."vl TULSA ICE ARENA 6910 S. 1015T E. A’v~E 7IST AND Mg’,IGO BEHDCD THE F2 PRICE ST( YRE .AA.,L T.,ICKET PROCEEDS TO BENEFtT READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library Joining the growing list oftitles .about coming ofage in the.1990s is this eye-0pening example by Linnea Due. With seven lengthy essays, Due takes us on a tour across the United States, highlighted by interviews with Gay and Lesbian youth. From Portland, Oregon to New Orleans to Hai’vey MilkHJgliSdhoolinNew York City, we meet many witty, defiant and frustrated youth who arecoming to terms with their sexual orientation and surroundings. An interesting entry centers around a young man, John, who grew up in Colorado Springs, during the Amendment 2 battle, and is now attending a Santa Fe high school He tries very hard to not believe the terrible things he has heard about homosexuals, but he doesn’t get the support or information from farnily, friends or soc,ety to make informed decisions. He is constantly told that being gay is a choice, and the depths of his despair are revealed as he sarcastically responds, "Sure, I choose to have a horrible life. How about you?" Other youth we meet include a young, black woman dealing with the twin pressures of racism and homophobia, kids at the Harvey Milk "’Queer High School" inNew Yorkand a group of French Q~ter teens banding together for supporL:.There ~is. an overwhelming sense of frustration and lack of confidence in these kids countrywide. As a group, they are discouraged at the lack of guidance and support from older Gays and Lesbians, while at the same time acknowledging the difficulties, from a legal and social perspective, that the older generation has being mentors. The bottom line, if this book’s entries are representative of QSueer youth in general, is that despite the advances that have been made for Gay equality through the years, growing up Gayis still a very traumatic and confusing time. 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Reid feels that only anti- Gay and anti-s/m bias can explain why other professors who clearly appear to have had sex with their students remain at TU while he had a friendship that involved no more intimacy or actions than between twomen boxing is gone. "Rugby players engage in more vi,olence and contact than we did but rugby s socially sanctioned and s/m is not," he adds. When told of how Lesbian and Gay faculty on campus whom he once thought were friendly now malign him, citing his poor grooming or too casual dress, Reid justcomments onhow sad it is that they’re so scared now. He says they know if it happened to him, it could happen to them too. He thinks that TU trustees, counsel, administrators, all know that their actions are indefensible, but they thought they couldjustcover it all up, or thathe couldn’t get any help, .oi: that he’d be too intimidated. For the future, Reid’s working with national legal aid orgamzations to pursue a lawsuit. Meanwhile, one faculty member with a penchant for gossip says what really got TU scared was Pohlmar] threatening to take his video to TV’s Hard Copy. Reid says maybe he’ll do it instead. JD cont’dfromp. 9 Well, this month’s feature is as downhome and friendly as a bar can be. That’s rightput on any ofyour favorite drag from leather to lace to good old denim for this establishment and get ready for a good old time at the Silver Star Saloon. This club has been home to such events as Mr.Tulsa Leather, Mr. Oklahoma Leather, Miss Central State, and on March 17th, the first Miss South USofA pageant. The owners, John & Steve, are some of the nicest guys .I know. They have been active in supportzng HIV/AIDS fundraisers and community events like the Pride Picnic over the past 4 years: they will celebrate the Silver Star’ anniversary on April 15th. 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Well, we’ve grown up and discovered that Mexican food can be more than a hedonistic glut-fest or a midnight trip through theTaco Mayo drive-up window. Quite by accident, we came across the Santa Fe. Mexican Restaurant-at 1515 South Sheridan inTulsa;.just north Of the Silver Star Saloon. It’ s been there for four years, owned and operated by the Contreras family, some real Mexico Mexicans, with traditional family recipes and a talent for good food in a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere. And, as a smaller, family restaurant, the waiters and waitresses don’t run frenetically from table to table and none of the faux-Mexican decoration or.m~sic rears its ugly head as we see so:-oft~nfi~iithe chain establishments. Theb~i~appears unpretentious and the inside decor is quite modest. Butprices are extremely reasonable for a large plate of excellent-,[~. On weekdays, there is a luncheon biiffei’for $5:50 per person, and most of the a la carte entrees are $4.50. There are smo-kigg and non=smOking sections anda:ifull~!~i[~,~,ensed bar. Several ~=tast~:~!:~ups are available as starters. The ~o~.~e is a spicy pork and hominy mix .~*:i~:lots of coriander and peppers: Th~rfi ig"~m unusual chicken and ve~aicelfi sbup;;;vhich we expected to resemble something along the line of : Campbell’s chicken noodle, but which : was a full flavored red stock, full of bro- ¯ ken pieces of angel hair pasta noodles. A chicken tortilla soup is also available. : Guacamole salad is one of the tdling : signs of freshness with Mexican food. As ¯ youmay know frommaking guacamole at : home, once cut, the avocado very quickly ~ turns brown on exposure to air, so lemon ¯ or lime juice is squeezed on to the cut surfaces to retard discoloration. The ~ guacamole at SantaFe was freshly made, : chunky, and bright green, with no trace of ¯ browning and no taste of citrus juice-- : this is amazing and most enjoyable. ." This place has some of the best tamales : we’ve ever eaten in Tulsa, made b.y hand :¯ and Steamed the traditional way m corn husks. These tamales taste like what you ¯ might be served by a friend’s mother at ¯ the family dinner table, not like what ¯ we’ve come to expect from restaurants. ¯ Vvqaile all of the traditional Mexican _" entrees are on the menu, you may espe- ¯ cially want to try the chicken enchiladas, ¯ which are juicy and mouth-watering. ¯ Watch out, though, because we did find a ¯ bone chip in the chicken on a recent visit. The enchiladas and other entrees are ¯ available with several sauces,and we com- " mend to you the mole sauce. Mole (pro- " nounced, "MOH-Iay") is a traditional ¯ Mexican sauce made from unsweetened chocolate and hot peppers. The Spanish ~ conqmstadors were introduced to choco- ¯ late by the Aztecs and took the cocoa : beans back to Europe, where the sugar ¯ started to be added. This Mexican sauce is ¯ not sxveet, tastes like nothing .you can ~ imagine, and is delicious. ¯ The dessert list inclUdes a tasty little- " tan, an individual egg custard baked with caramelized sugar that forms a brown bittersweet sauce. Our only complaint is the complementary salsa served is a bit too thin and watery, but it i s tasty and does appear to be freshly made onions and cilantro have a distinctive tastewhenfresh andnot canned or bottled. In themoodfor good, home-style Mexican food in a casual setting? We heartily recommend Santa Fe for great food at a surprisingly cheap price. And, don’t forget to mention you read about them in Tulsa Family News. Santa Fe Mexican Restaurant, 15i5 S. Sheridan. Prices: inexpensive. Service: casual. Hours: 11 am - 9 pm; till 10 p.m. on Fri-Sat; closed Sun. Payment: Visa, Mastercard, AmericanExpress, Diner’s Club, Carte Blanche; no checks. Non-smoking area: Yes. Alcohol: Full bar. Opinion: A List. THE PERFECT WAY TO SHOW APPRECIATIOH MINGOVALLEY ~ ~ 7Z ts,. 663-5934 " Daphane Cooper by James Christjohn Well, it’s not often that a critic gets to ¯ put his money where his Mac is, but now ¯ is the time. I’m pleased to announce that ¯ I amdirecting"HIVariations" - three short ¯ plays - during the weekend of one-acts at ~ TU on April 14 in Theatre 2 in Kendall ¯ Hall, 2pm. Ya’ll get to see if I really do ¯ know what I’m talking about. ¯ "HIVariations" are three plays centered ¯ aroundthereactions of family and spouses ¯ to the loss of a loved one due to HIV - ¯ "Cater Waiter", now in production as a ¯ fflmstarfingDavidDrake, Andre’s Mother ¯ by T,,errence McNally; and "Mr. Rosen’s Son . While the subject itself is rather ¯ - dark, there is humor in these shows. The ¯ cast includes Brad Luna, Karin Sandmel, ¯ ¯ VivicaWalkenbach, and JohnWeller. On the samebill, Harvey Fierstein’s"OnTidy ¯ Endings" is being produced, and some ¯ early Tennessee Williams works are included in the weekend’s festivities. The ¯ plays on Friday and Saturday start at 7pm, ~ Sunday’s plays are at 2 and 7:30pm. The ¯ weekend of one-acts ~s free to the public. By the way, I’m still casting the part of ¯ Mr. Rosen - 50-60 year old NYJewish ¯ man. If you or someone you know fits the ¯ bill, please call me at 583-1248. In addi- ¯ tion, the performance of an original one- : act musical dealing with politics, religion ¯ and gay life, "Diaries" by Jennifer Hoyer, with lyrics and music by Gabriel Washam ¯ and James Gregory, all TU theatre stu- ¯ dents, will be held Mon, April 29 at 7pro ¯ in Chapman Hall. ¯ Phantom was Phabulous! 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For.more information, please call Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-587-7000. ***Owned and operated by Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home*** Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, March 15-April 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 4 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource March 15-April 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Pat Morehead JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/508 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, February 15-March 14, 1996 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 AIDIS/HIV AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV education AIDS/HIV research American Theatre Company arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars businesses churches custody Dave Fleischer Don't Ask Don't Tell estate planning gay bashing Health Briefs homophobia James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche legislation Linnea Due marriage Murder Native Americans performing arts PFLAG Read All About It Red Ribbon Revue restaurants schools That's Entertainment! Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Unity Gardens University of Tulsa https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d80e483c4925605f4897f269a15c22ff.jpg 2b6fb332dedb45533c2ff60324660fc1 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6ad675a9f0393efa2a1016cc4aa1dd50.pdf 30fc410761ef056a048b7d203c8465ec PDF Text Text MARRIAGE The attack begins at the national level led by Oklahoma Rep. Steve Largent & Sen. Don Nickles. Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families of the Heart UPCOMING EVENTS HIV-ERC + Red Ribb,.o.n Revue + Pride- Bene.flts Pride Worship Service Dallas Leader Cece Cox Hope Candlelight Tour Pride Prom + Pride Picnic O.KC Parade +. ,.Follies TULSA - The next several weeks offer an unprecedented number of community events which either benefit HIV/AIDS charities or celebrate Lesbian/Gay Pride Month. On May 23rd, the Red Ribbon Ice Revue promises a great show at the Tulsa Ice Arena to support Our House, a day drop-in center for persons living with HIV/AIDS. Later that evening, the Silver Star will host a benefit & raffle for the HIV Education and Recreation Center, a new organization headed by Bruce Begley, Sandy Hill, Steve Wilson and others. On Saturday and Sunday,June 8-9th,the Hope Candlelight Tour will feature the homes of Tina & Steven David, Judy & Bill Fisher, P.S. Gordon & Duane Men Ne, Mary McMahon, and Ouida & Robert Merrifield to benefit St. Joseph’s Residence/Catholic Charities and RAIN, the Regional Interfaith AIDS Network. Tickets are $10 and are available at Charles Faudree, 1345 E. 15th, and at MA Doran Gallery, 3509 S. Peoria. The very distinguished organizing committee also has planned a number of patron events - for more information, call 747-9706. Near the end of. the month, June 21 & 22, Follies Revue, Inc. will present Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies at the Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place. It’s a dinner and a show you won’t want to miss. The beneficiaries are TOHR, HIV Resource Consortium, Interfaith AIDS Ministries, Shanti, Visiting Nurses Assoc. RAIN and St. Joseph’s Residence/Catholic Charities. For tickets, call the PAC box office, Carson Attractions, and Tickets by Phone. For June, the traditional Lesbian/Gay Pride month worldwide, Tulsa volunteers have planned a number of events. The month will begin by the first ecumenical Pride Worship Service. Hosted by St. Jerome at the Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria at 6 pm on Saturday, June 1, the service will include Family of’Faith MCC, Agape Christian Fdlowship and other congregations: On Tuesday, June 4, PFLAG, TOHR and the Rainbow Business Guild (with assistance from the Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay Trans Alliance, BLGTA) will present Cece Cox, president of the Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance (DGLA), one of the most dynamic activists in the Southwest and a native of Bartlesville. She will be talking about the Marriage Project of the DGLA as well as her work as co-chair of GLAAD/Dallas. The dinner will be held in the Chouteau Room of the Chapman Student Center of the University of Tulsa at 6:30. The dinner is $10 but the speech is free at about 7:45. June 8th, TOHR and TU’s BLGTA will host a Pride see Pride, page 3 WASHINGTON - Confronted with a flagging presidential campaign and convinced they’ve found a one-sided wedge issue that could embarrass President Clinton’s campaign efforts, Republican lawmakers have introduced. ameasure, titled the"Defense of Mamage Act" (DOMA), that would define marriage as"only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife." The proposed law Was introduced by Republican Reps. Bob Barr of Georgia and by Steve Largent & by Sen. Don Nickles of Oklahoma. Senate Majority Leader Bob Dole of Kansas, who all but has the GOP’s presidential nomination sewn up, became the first Senate co-sponsor of the measure. During the Iowa primary caucuses, when Republican hopefuls were asked to sign a pledge to fight any effort in Congress to legalize same-sex marriages, Dole said the pledge doesn’t go far enough" and added; "Government at all levels must work to support and promote the institution of marriage that unites husband and wife." Just days before the proposed legislation was introduced in Congress, Dole campaign officials told reporters that the Republican presidential hopeful would be taking action to make same-sex marriages a campaign wedge issue, using Clinton’s outreach to gay and lesbian Americans in an effort to make voters wary of the President’s re-election bid. Clinton campaign officials have acknowledged that the issue is potentially a political landmine during the campaign and said the President "didn’t want to touch it." Even so, when anti-gay activists asked Clinton to sign the anti-marriage pledge, he refused and called it "outrageous." The dicey political question is complicated even further by reports in the current issue of the Advocate, the Los Angeles-based magazine, that claims the Justice Department is considering changing both the IRS tax code and federal immigration regulations to give gay and lesbian couples~the same benefits in these two areas as legally married couples. However, \~qaite House spokeswoman Mary Ellen Glynn told reporters that Clinton doesn’t personally support equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians and that the Administration had no plans to implement the changes reported in the Advocate. Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign, called the proposed congressional bill the work of "religiotts political extremists...using this issue as an election year baseball bat to bash gay Americans and score political points." Rep. Pat Schroeder (D-Colo.) was one of the few lawmakers to criticize the measure, saying it was meaningless political maneuvering because it would take an amendment limiting the "full faith and credit clause" of the U.S. Constitution to actually bar same-sex marriages at the federal level. "This is nothing but just to stir the political ¯" waters and see how much hate you can unleash," she added. 3"teve Largent Don Nickles Gov. Keating Signs AntiMarriage Amendment/Bill OKLAHOMA CITY - In a move that surprised Okla. Capitol watchers and a number of state Senators, Senate bill #73, the "Oklahoma Child Visitation Registry Act," passed with an amendment banning the recognition of valid same-gender marriages performed in other states. Only Senators Bernest Cain (D-OKC) and Penny Williams (D-Tulsa) voted against the final bill (42-2). According to Sen. Williams, Sen. Cain spbke with such eloquence against the anti-Gay amendment, that she was moved to vote no as well. Tulsa Sen. Maxine Horuer told TFN that she was not in the Senate at the time of the vote and that the amendment did not represent her position. Earlier, Senator Keith Leftwich, and staffers in Cain’s and Sen. Bernice Shedrick’s offices had stated that they did not think the anti-marriage amendment would remain after the bill returned from conference committee. Senate bill #73 had a correspondingbill that had passed the OK House of Representatives. Gov. Frank Keating promptly signed the bill. When asked about what efforts he or his staff had made to contact Oklahoma’s Lesbian and Gay. community about this bill, the Governor’s press spokesperson, Dan Mahoney stated that no effort was necessary since "it would not have made any difference [to the Governor]." Mnhoney released the following statement: "~,Vhat people do in their private lives ~s none of my business, that is a personal decision. But I don’t feel the state of Oklahoma should bein the business of sanction- ing same sex marriages. I supported SB 73, as did every member of the t!ouse of Representatives and all but two members of the State Senate." TFN asked about remarks attributed to the Governor that he had said the State Republican Party platform (see below) represented "mainstream Oklahoma." see Gov., page 3 Interfaith / -iDS Ministrie ¯ Seeks Missing Benefit $ Excerpts from the OK Republican state Platform ~ Last October, a local bar, Barraccuda’s, contacted Inter,¯ faith AIDS Ministries (L~M) with an offer to do a benefit honoring World AIDS Day in December and benefiting ¯ IAM. Months later, IAM has not seen a dime of the dollars ¯_ raised at the event, despite efforts by director, Diane Zike. ¯ Several board members attended the fundraiser noting ¯ that the bar charged a $3 cover & had tip jars for donations. At the end of the evemn~,, IAM s treasurer was told they’d ¯ raised $250. Director Zike says that she’d called repeatedly for bar ¯ owner, Sue, "known as Barraccuda. No calls had been ¯ returned by March 26 when IAM drafted a letter requesting ¯ a response. To date, IAM still has not received a response ¯ .from the bar. When TFN called, bar staffer, Sheila, referred ¯ all questions back to Sue. ¯ Zike adds, "IAM acted in good faith, advertising the event ¯ and participating [in it]. How can we follow through with : our commitments if those who offer to assist us...do not ¯ follow through themselves...it is not just Interfaith AIDS ¯ Ministries that is being hurt, but more importantly those ¯ living with HIV/AIDS that IAM serves." Page 3, ADOPTION Plank 4: We demand that children not be adopted by homosexuals. Page 6, HIV/AIDS Plank 1: Since HIV is a virus that results in AIDS and certain death, we call upon local, state, and federal governments to deal with thedeadly disease of AIDS in the same manner as other dangerous communicable diseases, i.e. (a) expand universal testing and truth in reporting, which includes full disclosure about the orisee Platform, page 7 EDITORIAL/LETTERS/DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P. 6 CALENDAR P. 9 OUT + ABOUT WITH JD P. 9 EUREKA SPRINGS + P. 11 BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT P. 12 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 13 �Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Tulsa, Oklahoma sure feels like ground zero in the war over equal marriage rights forsamegendercouples. Ourelected r presentatives" Steve Largent, Don Nickles and Jim Inhofe again shame our s~te with their attacks on their own constttuents, specifically with the so-called Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). The motives for ¯ these men surely range from genuineideo¯ logical positions to the basest political .... maneuvering...There is little- doubt that ¯ each holds "Christian" beliefs which they ¯ feel justify discrimination. ~ We can only respond that it is .a betrayal by Patricia Nell Warren ¯ A few days one argument Diane Parker to the Journal lot of people, the wishful Some us ¯ of the most fundamental American conAmerican with ago, her own that wrote homosexuality ig not ~ fool evenamanage to fool inducting our.own mothers~ Forthinkers. a tiine, we evenoffool . stitutional values to abuse their position to now ourselves. But it is still conformity. It is not change. ’" genetic. She believes that the "reformed homosexuals" Acting straight when you know you’re gay is ¯ enforce private prejudices. That is, it is visible in certain videos, programs and organizanot change. It is not a moral act. It is not reform. ¯ wrong to use the power of the government strM~ht to promote or allow to continde systemtions is compelling proof that homosexuals can It is not healing. It is a living death. In the Sixties, really change. I am always amazed at the power when you know a whole generation of youth rose up against all " atic bias against minority citizens, no ¯ matter if the majority despises that minorof wishful thinking m people like Parker. Their kinds of forced conformity in American society, ¯ you re gay whole position is based on a fierce belief in this ¯ ity mad no matter if the group is minority and their protest embraced this deadly confor¯ alleged capacity of homosexuals to "change." mity demanded of gay people. Yet today the ¯ by birth (race or ethnicity) or by choice, ¯ as not chang . The videos, nroorams, etc. represent a 2000wishful thinkers among us are trying to engineer ¯ (religion or political view) or by a combia rnor~al act. nation (as seems to be the case with sexual vear effort by Chrislaamty to wish away the the re-imposition of their wishes. They demand ¯ orientation). Many Americans havebeen, ~xistential fact of homosexuality, whatever its It {s not re[orm. it in the name of "saving marriage." What they ¯ and are, racist and anti-Semitic, and yet root cause. The fact is: in repressive umes, want, in many marriages, adds up to shape- ¯ It {s not heal{n . politicians realize it is no longer accepthomosexuals do not change. They conform. stfifting Of the spookiest kind. It adds up to It ~s a ll~n~ death. " able to pander overtl.y to these views. Gay people disagree about many things, but acting performances that will never get an OsHowever, election-year politics are : car. Those who settle for our conformity get it at an appalling cost ¯ this is one area where we agree -- because so strongly implicated in this effort. DC inmany of. us have lived face-to-face with our own "is-ness’" to themselves. The wishful thinkers lose their power to see what siders suggest that DOMA is a much a through long decades of pretense. I, for one, did a terrific job of is real. They canlook into the eyes of a homosexual who is living : vehicle to divide and inflame the Americonforming to the heterosexual canon, as a wife for 16 years. I in deep cover, and utterly fail to See that person’s true spirit. Even can electorate, to weaken Bill Clinton and even tried both Protestantism and.,,_Catholicism in a desperate ~¯ in the eyes of their own children, parents, closest friends, the to insure that Dole can nominate the next effort to transmogrify my conformity into change. But it didn’t " wishful thinkers see only what they choose to see. Heaven help 20 years of Supreme Court judges. work. The conformity goes so deep that it can masquerade ¯ the American marriage if it is"saved" by people who can’ t tell the So what are our alternatives inTulsa brilliantly as change. Unlike leopards, homosexu~is can make ¯ difference between conformity and change. ,, when our elected "representatives" don’t their spots look like tiger stripes. The penalties for being fingered Patricia Nell Warren is the author of"The Front Runner and even bother to go through the motions of as gay -- loss of family and job, assault and battery, long prison ¯ other bestsellers about gay life. ¯ consulting the communities that are sentences, incarceration in mental hospitals, to n~u,ne a few ¯ harmed by their actions? ¯ The answer’s not glamorous or easy. ¯ Despite all odds, we must continue to Thomas Chiropractic Clinic 742-8868 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 4138 S. Harvard, Ste. C-1 °. organize ourselves politically. 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While Hawaii lawmakers couldn’t muster enough votes to pass an ¯ anti-gay mamage ban there before the ¯ legislature recessed for the current ses¯ sion, an Alabama state Senate committee : approved by an 8-1 vote a bill that would ¯ bar recognizing same-sex marriages in ¯ the state, dropping a $1,000 fine for clergy ¯. performing such unions that had been included in the original measure. ¯ The Alaska legislature took a double : swing at same-sex relationships, passing Prom (alcohol-free) also at the Chapman ¯ one measure that would limit domestic Ctr. at 8 pm. The Picnic, themed Tulsa ¯"¯ partnership benefits in the state educational system and sending it to Gov. Tony United in Pride, will be held in Owen Park ¯ Knowles. At the same time thelawmakers on Sat. June 15, from 12 - 5 pm. A number of community organizations, businesses ¯ began debate on a ban on same-sex marand individuals are working on this event. .¯ riages in the state, a proposal that is expected to easily pass. Kansas lawmakers, As usual, refreshments are free and a range of food will be available for a mod- ¯ meanwhile, approved an anti-mamage bill and sent it to the governor for his signaest donation. Owen Park has tennis courts and a sand volleyball court, as well as ¯¯ ture. In Maine, the anti-gay group Concerned better parking and more shade than the Maine Families has filed papers with the old Mohawk site. On Sunday, June 23, Oklahomans from ¯"¯ secretary of state’s office to get approval all over the state will gather at Memorial ¯ to collect signatures for a ballot measure that would restrict marriages in the state Park, NW 35th & Classen in Oklahoma City about 1:30 for the statewide Pride ¯ to those between male-female couples Rally. The Rally will feature Advocate ¯¯ only. If the signature~gathering is ap1992 Woman of the Year, Donna Red ¯ proved, the group would have to collect some 51,000 valid signatures to put the Wing. The statewide Pride Parade kicks off from the park and ends up at the NW ¯ measure before ~oters- either in 1997 or ¯ 1998. 39th St. community business district. ¯ Georgia Gov. Zell Miller has si~ned a ¯ bill that bars same-sex mamages ~n the ¯¯ state, joining South Dakota, Utah and Idaho as the 4th state to prohibit gay and ¯ lesbian marriages in anticipation that such put into fighting the scourge of AIDS into fighting political prejudice. Locally, ¯ weddings will become legal soon in HaTOHR is doing a voter inform and regis- . waii. The South Carolinalegislature gave tration project, call 743-4297 and leave a ~ its final.OK to a measure outlawing samemessage for Tony. Oklahoma City folks ." sex marriages in the state and sent the have created a political action commi ttee, ¯ legislation to Gov. David Beaseley, who has already indicated he supports the proCimarron Alliance which has funneled significant funds into OKC city council : hibition. The measure would prevent the races and to Democratic state senators. ¯ state from recognizing any marriage beSome in Tulsa are discussing similar ef- . tween people of the same sex that was performed in another state. In Arizona, forts, here. Also, just call Nickles (581Gov. Fife Symington signed the state 7651, the local office can transfer you to legislature’s 3rd attempt to enact aban on DC, fax 202-9~24-6008), Inhofe (748-5111, same-sex marriages, making it the 6th 202-224-4721, fax 202-228-0380) and state so far to legally refuse recognition I_argent (749-0014, 202-225-2211, fax for such unions, even if performed legally 202-225-9187). Even if you don’t want to elsewhere. At the same time, however, by get married anytime soon, tell them you a 34-23 vote, the state House of Represensupport equal marriage rights, that you tatives passed legislation authorizing oppose DOMA, and that you don’t appretougher sentences for criminals who vicmate the scapegoating of Oklahoma’s timize people based on race, religion, Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual citizens. gender or sexual orientation. A similar proposal last year died when Republican legislative leaders objected to including sexual orientation. Meanwhile, a case strikingly similar to the Hawaii lawsuit has gotten under way in New Zealand, with 3 lesbian couples suing for the right to get marriage licenses Dan Du Vall / Owner that were denied them, according to a report in the Queer News Aotearoa. The women’s attorney is arguing that the country’s civil rights laws protects all citizens from being denied equal treatment. The attorney general’s office, however, has argued that marriage is mainly for procreation and that therefore samesex couples are not eligible to marry. In particular, TFN asked if the Governor really felt calling, for a quarantine of people living with AIDS, or preventing Lesbian and Gay men from being teachers represented the values of most Oklahomans. Mahoney responded that he could not speak for the Governor in the particulars but that the Governor supported the platform in general. When asked ifTFN could ask the Governor aboUt specific platform items, Mahoney said Keating would not be available for any questions. 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Even President Nelson Mandela noted that there are still concems among many of the country’s minorities about the guarantees enshrined in the Constitution’s Bill of Rights. "The fact that we have adopted this Constitution does not mean that we are not going to address those concerns," Mandela said. "’We will continue searching for solutions because we want everybody to feel that he or she is part and parcel of our efforts to resolve the problems of South Africa." After a long history of white minority rule and rigidly enforced apartheid, the new Constitutions will bring majority rule to the nation when the next g~neral election in 1999 marks anend to the present transitional government. The Bill of Rights outlaws all discrimination in the country, whether based on sexual orientation, race, religion, gender,-political views, disability and other categories. In a cable to President Mandela about the newly adopted Constitution, the Washington, D.C.,based National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, stated, "The South African people have paved a new road of equality and fairness by outlawing all forms of discmnination in the constitution, including for the first time anywhere in the world, the discrimination against people based on their sexual orientation.’" Fewer than a dozen countries worldwide have national laws outlawing bias based on sexual orientation, and South Africa is the first nation to enshrine such protections in its Constitution. Dutch Get Serious About Marriage TIlE HAGUE, Holland -The Dutch Parliament has approved a measure by 81-60 that calls on the government to appoint a commission to evaluate the legal implications, both nationally and internationally, of extending full mamage rights to gay and lesbian couples in the country. The move is several steps from a radical change, of course, but Dutch gays and ’iIII ’ lesbians, along with progressive politicians in the country, are increasingly insisting on full, equal rights in What is probably Europe’s most liberal nation. What is perhaps most significant about the measure is that the commission is to consider issues such as adoption, parenting, inheritance, taxes, and spousal citizenship of foreigners - an array of questions that other European nations with same-sex .couples registrations have so far ducked or specifically added restrictions to. But as a measure at least of how serious Dutch politicians are about samesex marriages now, public discussions have even reached the level of Members of Parliament debating .whether Queen Beatrix will give her assent to full marital rights for gays and lesbians in Holland. Canada OKs Anti-Bias Law OTTAWA - Canada’s House of Commons has approved by a 153-76 vote a govenm~ent-backed measure that would add sexual orientation to the country’s Charter of Human Rights and legally outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation in Canada’s regulated public sector workforce, which makes up 10% to 15% of the nation’s labor force. All of the nation’s provinces except Newfoundland, Prince Edward Island and Alberta already have similar anti-bias laws, and the Canadian government has been promising to introduce federal legislation for 2 decades, so passage of the measure wasn’t much in doubt.. Even so, the bill created enormous political turmoil in the country. When 2 MPs in the conservative Reform Party spoke out against the measure by saying it was acceptable for businesses to discriminate against homosexuals and other minorities, the party’s Parliament leader, Preston Manning, expelled them from the party caucus, saying "It is not all right for employers to fire any employee simply because an intolerant customer complaints about their color or lifestyle." Even the ruling Liberal Party showed signs of the tension the measure had brought to Canadian politics. And outside the Parlimnent building, Justice Minister Allan Rock, who formally introduced the legislation in behalf of the government, was greeted by p,rotesters who called him "Alice Rock" and mocked Prime Minister Jearl Chritien as "’Jeanne :. Chritien." The legislation now goes to the ~ upper house of Parliament, the Senate, ¯ where it is also expected to pass by a : comfortable margin. The measure also requires the royal assent of Canada’ s governor-general, which is litde more than a political, formality. Only 6 nations- Norway, Sweden, Holland, Slovenia, Israel and South Africa -have enacted federal legislation prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation. umenic ;Cathofic Church at 37ie Gard-en (:~ape{~ Bosnian War Crimes Nightmare TIlE HAGUE 2 Almost ignored by mainstream news media, the War Crimes Tribunal at The Hague has received detailed evidence of atrocities conunitted during the 4-year-long Bosnian civil war cente.ring on reports of male rape as a war tactic and as a method of intilnidating and controlling prisoners. According to doc~unents supplied to the Tribunal by Dr. Mladen Loncar of the Medical Center for Human Rights in Zagreb, at least 4,000 Croatian men were victims of these rapes and sexual assaults - and Loncar says his figures are conservative estimates of Croats alone. At the height of the complex fighting in : the Balkans, there were an estimated ¯¯ 80,000 men in intenmmnt camps - Serbs, ¯ Croats, Mnslims. Loncar’s medical facility currently sees more than 200 such men ¯ who coutinue to live in the general region. Most, Loncar says, have fled to nearby COUlltries as political’refugees - if they survived the attacks at all. Of the patieuts seen at Loncar~ s ~nedical center for severe post-trannmtic distress disorders, most (70 percent) suffered repeated injuries to their genitals. Many of the inert (25 percent) were tortured I~y having objects forced up their rectums. Man)’ prisoners (22 percent) reported they had been forced, under threats of death, to perform fellatio mad other sexual acts with other male prisoners, and about 11 percent had suffered at least partial castration. policies, and that thejudicial branch should defer to .them. "It was appropriate for Congress to bdieve that a military force should be as free as possible of sexual attachments and pressures as it is prepared to do battle," wrote Judge J. Harvie Wilkonson III in the 9-to-4 majority opinion. The court’s ruling is now applicable throughout the 4th circuit, which includes Vir_,2inia, Maryland West ¥irginia, North CarOlina and South~arolina. Tllomasson and his attorney are now deciding whether to appeal the ruling to the U.S. Supreme Court. MO St. GOP’s Anti- i Marriage Campaign Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Upheld by Court WASHINGTON - In the continuing war over the constitutionality of the U.S. nfilitary’s "’don’t ask, don’t tell" policy, Lt. Paul Thomasson, a former naval ofricer discharged for revealing that he is gay, has lost an important battle in a federal appeals court decision. The U.S. 4th Circuit Court of Appeals in Virginia upheld the policy bamting openly homosexual women and men from serving in ¯ the nation’s maned forces. The case has national significance because it is the first ¯¯ ruling involving the"don’ t ask, don’ t tell" ¯ policy to reach the federal appeals level. ¯ Alan Moore, Thomasson’s attorney, argued that the military policy of excluding ¯ gays and lesbians from the armed services ; was both unconstitutiolml and unreason- ¯ able, considering the young officer’s out- : standing record. Moore also took the un- ¯ usual step of adding First Amendment " free-speech claims on top of Fifth and " ¯ Fourteenth Amendment "due process" and ¯ "equal protection" arguments that have ¯ been more widely used in batding the ¯ Pentagon ban in the past. ¯ But the appeals court would have none of it and ruled that the president and " Congress retain the right to set military " ~ ST. LOUIS - In a highly controversial election cmnpalgn tactic that Republican leaders around the country are watching closely; the head of the Missouri Republican Party, John Cozad, has launched attacks against Democrats running for state office, accusing them of having financial backing from supporters of samesex marriages. But Republica!~s rumling for office in the state, inclnding many who are seeking election to the state legislature, are grumbling because the attack campaigns are being operated in their races whether they want them or not. And so far in two special election races, the Republicans have lost both campaigns. Not all Republicans running for office in Missouri, however, agree with Cozad on the campaign. Republican Bill Patrick, who lost in the just-finished special decdon in the state’s 6th legisIative district, publicly apologized to his Democratic opponent for thesame-sex marriage campaign launched by the Republicans on his behalf. He called the attack "pretty negative, pretty bad." State GOP strategists in Ohio,, Wisconsin, Oregon and elsewhere, however, say they’re interested in seeing how the same-sex marriage link works as a campaign strategy in Missouri. Helms Ads Attack ¯ Opponents & Gays RALEIGH, N.C. - Apparently impatient to get on with the election, Sen. Jesse Helms (R-NC) has launched a series of TV ads attacking both the Delnocratic primary candidates, Harvey Gantt and Charlie Sanders in a bit of gay-baiting, saying both support domesticpartner benefits. "Liberal Charlie Sanders supports racial preferences in hiring, like Harvey Gantt does, the Hdms ads say. Extending health insurance to homosexual partners? Liberal Sanders and Gantt say yes." With a $2 million campaign war fund from 1995, the Helms campaign apparently decided not to wait for the May 7 prim.ary to find out which Democrat he will face in the November race, but decided to get a jump-start and begin swinging at both men. 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The faculty-approved program would also reimburse students in ROTC if they shouldlose their military scholarships because of their sexual orientation. ¯ Station Drops Show : That Attacked Gays AUSTIN, Texas - The Texas Triangle British Transsexual ¯¯ has reported that officials at KIXL-AM, a ¯ Christian-oriented radio station in Austin, Wins Court Case have decided to pull the plug on Wyatt LUXEMBOURG - A Comwall College ¯ Roberts’ weekly talk show. Roberts, who tutor, identified only as "P" in court is affiliated with the American Family records, who was sacked after a sex-change Assn., had called for listeners to boycott ¯ operation, has won a European Court of any business that advertised in the gay Justice battle over the discharge. The court : newspaper, charging that the Triangle’s ruled that the European Equal Treatment ¯ editorial cartoonist promoted pedophilia, agreement of 1976 prohibits any discrimi- -" incest and bestiality. KIXL officials would nation based on sex and is not limited just to bias based on an individual being of one gender or the other. The court ruled that the anti-bias provision, which concerns all members of the European Union, should apply "to discrimination arising, as in this case, from the gender reassignment of the person concerned." The ground-breaking decision incensed Euroskeptic Tory MPs in Great Britain and Tory MP Ann Winterton accused the European Court of "meddling" in British legal issues. Anothd~ Tory MP, Elizabeth Peacock, also attacked the court decision. "Our rules are made by Parliament and are sovereign," she said. "They should not be overturned by a European court. Tli~ey should mind their own business." British government officials, said it was unclear if UK law would have to be changed to conform to the court ruling. Some political leaders say the rnling is so sweeping that it in fact may force the government to drop its ban against homosexuals in the nation’s armed forces. MIT Moves on ROTC Bias CAMBRIDGE, Mass. - Faculty members at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology voted ovenvhdmingly by a voice vote for the school to negotiate with ROTC officials for a "modified program" that would allow students to enroll in the campus military program regardless of their sexual orientation. The move is an effort to keep the ROTC program, which also serves students from Harvard, Tufts and Wellesley, at MIT - along with some $56 million in Pentagon funds - without violating the school’s own anti-bias policies that bar discrimination against gays and lesbians. The proposal endorsed by the faculty concedes that openly gay or lesbian students in ROTC would not be eligible for commissions as long as the Pentagon maintains the ban on homosexuals in the armed forces, but would allow gay and lesbian students to participate in the ." only say that Roberts’ program was being ¯ cancded because of "scheduling conflicts," but Kay Longcope, the Triangle’s ¯ publisher said she believes the ; fundamentalist’s boycott campaign : backfired on him and brought pressure on ¯ the station to yank the program. "I think it -" [the decision to cancel the program] speaks "_ very well for the people of Austin who really do not believe that Christianity is "- based on hate," Longcope said ¯ Dole Campaign Ad ¯ in DC Gay Paper ¯ WASHINGTON - Senate Majority Leader Bob Dole’s capital campaign or: ganization has put an ad in the May 3 issue of the WashingtonBladeurgingreaders to : ¯ vote for a slate of committed Dole del¯ egates. An uncommitted slate, including : seven openly gay Republicans is chal¯ lenging the Dole slate, and has already ¯ been endorsed by the District’s local Log ¯ Cabin Club. Many political observers ¯ believe the challenge from the uncommit." tedslate prompted theKansas Republican ¯ andpresurned presidentialnominee’s cam" paagn to put the ad in the paper. The Dole ¯ campaign ad came just days after news ," that Abner Mason, a gay Boston Republi." can activist and Log Cabin Club officer, ¯ would be one of Massachusetts’ GOP ¯" delegates to the Republican National Con." vention in San Diego later this year. Ma¯ son Is a committed Dole delegate. Dole ¯ has had an on-off record with gays during ¯ his currentpresidential campaign. Earlier ¯ this year a $1,000 campaign contribution ¯ from Log Cabin was returned to the groups ¯ PAC organization. Dbleinitially defended ; the returned check, saying he didn’t want ." voters to think he was "buying into some : special rights for any group." But later he ¯ said returning the check had been"a mis; take" and blamed his campaign staff for ; the blunder. Even so, Dole agreed during the caucus campaign in Iowa to sign a ¯ Chi’istian.Coalition pledge opposing samesex mamages. Is Drag Constitutional? FERNDALE, Mich. - The good folks of Ferndale, just outside. Detroit, have become embroiled in a debate over whether some guys putting on dresses to perform in a variety show is constitutionally protected freedom of speech and expression, or if it violates community standards and can therefore be prohibited. The flap has erupted almost a year after the fact, but that liasn’t lowered the heat of the debate over the Lavender Moon Cafe’s drag show after Gay Pride celebrations there last year. City Councilman Robert Paczkow ski has been leading the opposition, and he said recently that "’a lot of people don’t want that kind of a display right in the middle of our central business district." Paczkowski says Lavender Moon’s entertainment license includes restrictions barfing topless dancing, lingerie shows, and any entertainment that"violates community standards," which he says includes guys dressing up as gals. Town OKs Partner Registration BOULDER, Colo. - About the only positive news recently in the growing battle over same-sex relationships came in the purely symbolic form of a domestic partnership re~stration program approved by the Boulder city council. The registry cames no legal benefits, but allows samesex & opposite-sex couples to legally register their relationship with the city clerk’s office. Proponents said the program could make it easier for registered couples to provide proof of their relationships in seeking work-related benefits. Olympic Games: Utah & Cobb Cty. ATLANTA - The 1996 Summer Olympic Games preliminaries are getting underway with the Saturday, April 27, televised start of the torch that starts in Los Angeles and will be relayed across the counto’ to Atlanta where it will light the official Olympic flame for the games there on July 19 - although not quite the way US Olympic officials expected. To begin with, officials at the Los Angeles Coliseum, where the torch relay begins, have been complai~ting that they’re had trouble find fig [eaves big enough to cover up the genitals on 2 statues of nude athletes outside the stadium. The cover-up order came from the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Ganges, which said they were concerned that some viewers of the nationally televised ceremony might be offended by the nudi ty. B ut ACOG also has announced that the torch relay would not go through Cobb County outside Atlanta because APERMANENT SOLUTION county commissioners have refused to repeal a 1993 measure that condemns"the homosexual lifestyle." That resolution was also responsible for ACOG’s decision, under pressure from acuvists and rights advocates, to pull scheduled Olympic preliminaries from facilities in the county. Olympic officials, however, said the passage of a measure ~n Utah barring gay dubs at public schools would not make them reroute the torch around the state. Utah Lawmakers Ban Gay Clubs SALT LAKE CITY - Called into special session, the Utah state legislature spent a nasty day enacting a measure that would bar gay and lesbian student groups from public schools in the state, a measure that Gov. Mike Leavitt has already indicated ’he would sign into law and for which he called the special session. The state’s ACLU has already vowed that if the measure is signed into law, as it’s sure to be, it will sue to overturn it. "Not only does it violate the rights of lesbian, gay and straight students," said Carol Gnade of the American Civil Liberties Union in Utah, "but also everyone associated with a Utah high school, including teachers, administrators and volunteers." Under the law just approved by the legislature, school boards will have the authority to restrict or bar any campus club, but in addition, the measure also forces public school officials to ban any that are centered around bigotry, criminal activity or human sexuality. Gov. Mike Leavitt and the measure’s sponsor, Sen. Craig Taylor, insisted that the new law takes back control of campus clubs by allowing school boards to prohibit specific dubs. The Utah attorney general has already indicated that barfing campus clubs that are "controversial" is illegal under the 1984 federal Equal Access Act. Forget Nature-vsNurture; It’s Bingo! MILWAUKEE - A judge has tossed out a civil lawsuit filed by 73-year-old Mary Verdev against a local church, claiming she began having spontaneous orgasms and became sexually attracted to other women after an electronic bingo board fell on her 6 years ago. Verdev’s suit was dismissed "’with prejudice" (meaning she can’t refile the claim) because she refused to be examine by psychologists. Verdev said in her suit that she suffered nearly $90,000 in injuries when the 300-pound bingo board fell from a stage at the church during a bingo night she was attending in 1990. Her suit claimed the accident led to her unusual sexual responses. Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla, St, Med, Bd. P IAlrERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: ~71-2010 488-0786 Near 71st & Lewis, Call for info. or an-appt, with free consultation. 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa, Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ° Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 Where God Uplifts All People Sunday Service, 10:45 am Wednesday Service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sun. 1623 No. Maplewood, 838-.1715 �Congress Passes Ryan White CARE $ WASHINGTON - The Senate has approved and sent to the White House a measure that increases federal Ryan White CARE Act funds for local care and treatment of people with HIViAIDS to $738 million. The measure passed unanimously by a voice vote in the Senate after being approved on a 402-4 vote in the House the day before. The measure includes a controversial provision, however, that calls for mandatory HIV testing of all newborn infants by the year 2000 if state voluntary testing efforts do not reduce the motherinfant infection rate by then. The issue of mandatory testing of infants has been problematic for many because it necessarily amounts to a virtual inandatory testing of the mother as well. Critics of the provision say ~t may discourage pregnant women from seeking prenatal care altogether. President Clinton has indicated he supports the bill and will sign it into law quickly. Early-Stage Hiding PlaceOf HIV ? NEW YORK - Reporting in tli’e’medical journal Science, researchers say they be~ lieve the mucous’membranes in the throat may be the locatirn where HIV replicates in hiding after individuals are infected with the virus but still show no out,yard signs of the infection. The researchers, led by Ralph Steirmaan of Rockefeller University, said they made the discovery after examining enlarged adenoids removed from 13 patients and found large mnounts of the virus replicating in the glands’ dendritic cells, the inm~une cells found in the membranes. Eleven of the 13 i;ffected people were una~vare at the time tb.at they were l=IIV-positive. ¯ organs ofmostmen. Researchers with the ¯ Institute of Microbiology at the Univer¯ sity of Ferrara in Italy report they found ¯ the KS-related virus, known as KSHV, in 30 of 33 semen samples of health Italian ¯" men - a 91% infection rate. The scientists ¯ also say they found the virusin the urinary ¯ tracts, in the prostates, and other areas of ¯ the genital organs of other health men as ¯ well. The scientists say they believe indi¯ viduals with healthy immune systems can ." live with the virus present in their bodies ¯ without any.apparent problems, but that ¯ when the immune system is weakened, as ¯ it is when infected with HIV, the KS virus ¯ appears to become active. Drug Combo Looks Effective \VASHINGTON - A 73-week study by drug manufacturer Hoffman-La Roche of some 978 AIDS patients has shown that Invirase, the brand name for the firm’s version of the protease inhibitor saquinavir, in combination with the drug ddC, reduced the rate of deaths by more than two-thirds compared to patients taking ddC alone. Saqtunavir has been considered the least impressive of the new protease inhibitors, but the new findings, which have not yet been published, have prompted the drug manufacturer to ask the Food & Drug Administration to allow the new information to be added to the drug’s label. "HIV Cell Infection i AgentIsolated WASHINGTON- Government scientists report they ha~[.e discovered a chemical ¯ clue to why HIV is infectious. Reporting ¯ in the journal Science, researchers at the Nadonal Institute of Allergy and Infections Diseases say they have found a pro. tein, which they call "fusin," that must be ¯ present for HIV to infect white blood cells,.the primary target of the virus. Edward A. Berger, who headed the team that made the discovery, said the discovery gives scientists a "new handle on under; standing" how HIV invades cells. "Obvi] onsly this is a potential target for develop. mg new drugs to treat HIV infection," Berger said. "Potentially by coming up ¯ with a drug that blocks the receptor, you CHICAGO - Stanford University researchers report in the Annals oflnternal : might block the .ability of HIV to repliMedicine that the new polymerase chain ¯ cate." The researchers cautioned, howreaction (PCR) AIDS test, which is based " ever, that there were still~ many mysteries ¯ about the virfis that need to be answered. on the presence of elements of DNA from HIV in the body, is less reliable than older ¯¯ Among other things, they noted that HIV tests that rely on the presence of antibod- ¯ attaches itself to some types Of immune cells in the early stages of the infection ies to the virus. The researchers found that even with the daborate precautions re- ~ without using fusin. This means HIV quiredin PCR testing, the results return 5 ¯ comes in variations that connect to CD4 cells and some other molecular cofactor umes as many false results as the more ¯ or cofactors on these cells. Berger said widely used antibody testing methods. PCR testing is also significantly more ¯ that potential, drugs that block, the fusin receptor on cells could only do part of the expensive and costs between $150 and job in combating HIV. $200, compared to standard antibody tests, which range in price from $5 to $50. The advantage of the PCR test is that it can be administered earlier: to newborns because other tests rely on the formation of antibodies to the"virus, which often don’t ¯ BOSTON - Researchers with the Nashow up for 6 months following infection. ¯ tional Institute of Allergy & Infectious ¯ Diseases have reported in the New En~ gland Journal of Medicine that tetanus ¯ shots can cause a dramadc ~ncrease in the reproduction of HIV in the body. After BOSTON - A report in the New England ¯ g~ving tetanus shots to people infected Journal of Medicine says the virus that is ; with HIV, the researchers found they had a 2- to 36-fold increase in HIV believed responsible for Kaposi’s sarlevels. The scientists also found that coma, a rare cancer that strikes many AIDS patients, is found in the sexual ~ blood samples from uninfected individu- New PCR Test for HIV Is Less Reliable Increase in HIV After Tetanus Shots KS Virus May Be Common in All Men SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locationsto serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 743-2351 Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 B u er- S tttrrt Furteral Home Cemetery - Funeral Home - Crematory At Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home, you and your family will be treated with dignity, compassion, and pride. Whether it is your given or chosen fami’ly who needs our services, you can be who and what youare and you will not be discriminated against, We offer our exclusiveS2820 complete funeral plan, no added costs. If you have a policy somewhere else, you can transfer your policy to us, and may be due a cash refund if you paid more for what yod have now. Ouijourney through life should be done with pride; shouldn’t our journey through death be done with pride as well? For more information, please all Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-5877000 for all of your pre-need arrangements. (insurance policies are available with no health questions asked) 2103 East Third Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 918-587-7000 Supporting Tulsa’s Gay & Lesbian Community �als who had been given the same tetanus shots more readily became infected with HIV after the injections. Researchers said the dramatic increase in HIV production appears to only last about 6 weeks, so the benefits of tetanus shots generally outweighs the temporary surge in HIV levels for most patients. Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 1515 South Lewis Are you looking for a relaxed, amicable, private atmosphere for therapy? Our office provides a level o! confidentiality and comfort that enhances teh therapeutic process. Blood Heat Treatment Gets OK ~For further Information, c~ll ~43:4i 17 Leah Hunt, MSW Della Blackburn, CADC LOS ANGELES - The Indiana-based HemoCleanse Inc. has been given approval by the Food & Drug Administration to expand testing of its blood-heating treatment of people infected with HIV. The 2nd phase of the trials will include 2hour treatments at St. Elizabeth Hospital in Lafayette, Ind., and the Harbor-UCLA Research & Education Institute in Los Angeles. HemoCleanse’s treatment, similar to kidney dialysis, involves slowly drawing all a patient’s blood from his body in small quantifies and heating it to 108 degrees Fahrenheit before infusing it back into his body. The idea behind the treatment is that HIV is sensitive to even small increases in temperature and would be destroyed in massive quantities by the treatment. Sixty patients will be divided into 2 groups during the trials. One group will receive 2 treatments each - the first for 1 hour, and the 2nd fo~ 2 hours. The other group will serve as a control group and will not receive the heat treatment, but will remain on standard HIV drug therapy. Judy ¯Seymour,Taylor, CADC RichardReeder, MS Serving a Diverse Community KELLY KIRBY Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities with sensitive & timely information. 747-5466 POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities.. Monday & Thursday evenings: 7-8:30 pm for testing, .7-9 pm for results. Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite-E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights¯ HIV & Gene Therapy " Research BOSTON" - Researchers report in the journal Science that use of a genetically benign version of HIV may be the key to an important breakthrough in gene therapy treatment, serving as the carrier system or "vector" to deliver therapeutic genes to target cells in the human body. Researchers with the Salk Institute in San Diego and the Whitehead Institute in Cambridge, Mass., have reported that they successfully used the HIV vector to inject therapeutic genes in the cells of live rats in laboratory experiments, ff the use of the HIV vector proves as successful inhuman gene therapy, the researchers say it could be a potentially important treatment for such genetic disorders as cystic fibrosis, muscular dystrophy and Alzheimer’s dis- Genetically Altered AIDS Vaccine Fails BE!’HESDA, Md. - Government officials say a 5-year study of the genetically engineered AIDS vaccine, gpl60, has shown the prevention effort is not effective in halting the progress of the disease in people. The study, one of the first of its kind, used the Microgenesys experimental vaccine and was a joint venture between the Walter Reed Army Institute of Research and the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Disease in conjunction with private medical facilities. With some 600 military and civilian volunteers, the study showed no improvement in their ability to fend off the infection. gin, transmission and statistics of infection for each community, and (b) quarantine those known to be infected and practicing high-risk behavior. Page 7-8, SEXUAL PERVERSION Plank 1-3~ Homosexuality is not an alternate lifestyle, a genetic abnormality or a civil rights matter, but is instead a consciou~ individual choice of an abominal sin practice. Such behavior has been a major factor in the demise of societies from Sodom and Gomorra to the Empires of Ottoman, Greece and Rome. Homosexlaal behavior is the principle cause of the spread of AIDS in America. We, therefore, condemn not the person but the practice of homosexual behavior, and oppose the ominous political powers being given homosexuals in the United States. We believe that the practice of homosexuality is an abomination before God and a perversion of the natural law and is indicative of severe diseases. We believe that legislation condoning homosexuality would confer public acceptability of this activity and would lead inexorably to the destruction of our nation. Plank 4-6: We believe that homosexuals, sodomites, and other sexually perverse people shonl~i not be entitled to special or extraordinarY rights. We affirm that homosexual behavior is not a constitutionally protected right and that homosexuals area behavi~al group not deserving of special protection under the law. Because homosexuals are not deserving of minority status, we oppose all "’Gay Rights" legislation. We urge that federal and state funding we withheld from all states and or municipalities that enact homosexual "fights" legislation. Plank 8+9: We support the retention and enforcement of sodomy laws in Oklahoma. We urge vigorous arrest and pros.ecufion of all those violating laws regardxng the promotion of homosexual behavior. Plank 17+18: Toprotect family values, we urge that those promotiug an alternative lifestyle by restricted from positions of influence of minor children. \Ve do not recognize homosexuality as a normal lifestyle, therefore we oppose any mandated education curriculum or special rights based on affirmative action for ho~ mosexuals. Plank 20+21: We strongly oppose permitring homosexuals to teach in the public school systems. We oppose the hiring of homosexual teachers, administrators, or counselors. Hank 22-24: We oppose the establishment of homosexual dubs in schools. We hold that portraying the homosexual lifestyle in any positive manner in our schools is heresy. We oppose the National Education Association’s efforts to promote the homosexual agenda in our nation’s schools. Plank 27-29: We submit that legally recognized marriages to be limited to a traditional monogamous heterosexual relationship, with only these mamages allowed current tax and legal benefits. We oppose same-sex marriages. We support federal and state legislation prohibiting legal recognition of same sex "marriages" in the event such unions are made legal by another state. Hank- 30: We believe that the federal government should alter appointments and employment practices that would place homosexuals in sensitive and responsible positions. �benefiting Tulsa Area AIDSAgencies June 21&221996 Warren Place Doubletree Hotel Dinner, Cash Bar and Performance ’96 Pride Picnic TICKETS ON SALE AT ALL CARSON ATTRACTIONS OUTLETS OR BY PHONE: 584-2000 JUNE 15 Noon - 5:00 prn Opening Ceremony, lpm ¯¯ Blessing by the Rev. Leslie Penrose ¯ Welcome by TOHR president Debbie Starnes ¯ Performances by local entertainers, including Miss Gay Tulsa & Miss Tulsa USofA, and Tulsa Family Chorale! 550 N. Memorial Kacie Gordon pager: 672-8905 Joni Ledbetter pager 670-5664 Any Sale - 2% over invoice with ad. Throughout the afternoon, ¯ DJ will provide music throughout the day ¯ Booths with vendors, community organization info., crafts, etc. ¯ Food for modest cost ¯ Free beverage.s ¯ Volleyball & tennis court available ¯ Kids’ playground ¯ Security provided all day ¯ Closing ceremony, with benediction by RF Renfro & Freedom Balloon Extravaganza! If you want to have a "booth," call Tom at 583-1248 before June 1st. Be a part of the Pride Picnic! - To volunteer, call 743-4297. Edison St. ~ Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ¯ Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group I To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly zoith our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 To Sand Springs, 1-412 Directions: From Tulsa, take Keystone Expressway West towards Sand Springs. Exit Gilcrease Rd. turn right (North) on Gilcrease Road to Edison St. and turn right (East) on Edison, go about 1/2 mile. Owen Park is on the right. Parking is on the Southeast corner of the park, near Roosevelt School. 1-244 Tulsa (Downtown) �7 LSA FAMI.LY NEWS COMMUNITY CALE R SUNDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Service, 10:30 am & 7 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 Bless the Lord At All .Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am 262To East 1 lth 583-7815 Community of Hope (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Worship Service, 11 am 545 I-E South Mingo. Info: 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ¯ MONDAYS TUESDAYS THURSDAYS ¯ SATURDAYS ¯ HIV Testing HIV+ Support Group WEDNESDAYS 16-Step Empowerment ¯ St. Jerome’s Ecumenical ¯ TOHR Clinic ¯ HIV Resource Consortium ¯ Agape’ Christian Group For Women Catholic Church Free & anonymous testing " 1:30 pm Fellowship : Community of Hope : Mass, 6 pm " ¯ using fingerstick method. ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 ¯ Service, 7 pm ¯ 1703 E.2nd, Info: 585-1800 Garden Chapel ¯ No appointment required. " Info~ Wanda @ 749-4194 Sheridan Center, Suite H 3841 S. Peoria ¯ ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm : ¯ 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 " Co-Dependency Info: Father Rick ¯ Results hours: 7-9 pm ¯ ¯ Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Support Group at 742-7122 : 7;30; Family of Faith MCC Info: 742-2927 HIV/AIDS:Support Group Bless The Lord At All ¯ & Times Christian Center : 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 Narcotics Anonymous Lambda Bowling League ¯ Friends & Family Prayer & Bible Study Meets weekly at 11 pm Sheridan Lanes ¯¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth HIV Testing TOHR Clinic i Confidential support for 8:45 pm 7 pro, call for location: Call 583-7815 for info. Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm. recovering addicts. 3121 S. Sheridan 749-7898 Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Community of Hope Family Of Faith MCC Info: 742-2927 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 PFLAG Family AIDS Grief Group Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Support Group Butler/Stumpff Choir Practice 7:30 pm Tulsa Family Chorale NAMES Project 2nd Monday of month, ¯ Funeral Home 5451-E South Mingo. Weekly practice, 9:30 pm AIDS Memorial Quilt 6:30 pm 2103 E. 3rd St. Call 622-1441 for info. Lola’s 2630 E. 15th Sewing Bees 4154 S, Harvard Call for time: 587-7000 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 749-4901 Community of Hope PFLAG Family AIDS Info: 748-3111 Alternative Skating Support Group (United Methodist) 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Ist & 3rd Thursdays OTHER GROUPS OTHER GROUPS $4, Sand Springs Skate Bible Study, 7 pm 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 TOHR Helpline 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Gay & Lesbian Student Daily 8-10 pm Alternatives For info. or to volunteer: Association TNAAPP Weekly social events for TJC Southeast Campus, 743:GAYS Tulsa Native American LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info:-631-7632 Info: 646-5503 The Technicians, Leather AIDS Prevention ProJect Support group org., Info c/o 621-5597 SWAN-Sip~gle Women’s for Gay & Bi Native ¯ Substance Abuse T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform Activ@ Network Ameri&m Men, 6 pm Support Group & Leather Seekers Assoc. Call 832-2121 at Community of Hope for persons with HIViAIDS Info: 838-1222 1703 E. 2nd 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 582-7225 or 584-4983 3-4:30 pm, hffo: 749-4194 MAY 17-19 Herland Sister Resources Retreat Roman Nose State Park Registration deadline: 5/15 Info: 2312 NW 39th, OKC 73112 HIVIAIDS & SpiritualitylWholeness Retreat for Women, Info: 488-9215 SATURDAY, MAY 18 Pride Picnic Benefit, Lola’s 2630 E. 15th, 749-1563 SUNDAY, MAY 19 Interfaith AIDS Minitries 13th International AIDS Candlelight Memorial & Mobilization 3 pro, St. Peter’s Episcopal, 9100 E. 21St Info: 438-2437 SATURDAY, JUNE 8 TOHR Citywide Pride Prom All ages, alcohol-free dance 8 pm, Alan Chapman Activity Cti. TU, Dignity/Integrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Info: POB 701044, 74170 SUNDAY, JUNE 9 Pride Picnic Benefit, Concession~ 3340 S. Peoria, 744-0896 MONDAY, JUNE 10 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group, 6:30 pm Social and Refreshments. 7 pm General Meeting, 7:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Info: 749-4901 SATURDAY, JUNE 1 Ecumenical Pride Worship Service 6 pm, St. Jerome’s hosting at The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick, page 646-7116 SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 5pm. Owen Park 560 No. Maybelle, Info: 583-1248 SUNDAY, JUNE 2 Pride Picnic Benefit - The Tool Box 1338 E. 3rd, 584-1308 SUNDAY, JUNE 16 Family ofFaith MCC Father’s Day Service With Father Rick Hollingsworth 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 TUESDAY, JUNE 4 TOHR, PFLAG & Rainbow Business Guild present Cece Cox, pres. of the Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance 7 pm, Chouteau Ran, Chapman Ctr, TU, Dinner: $10, Speech: free,Info: 743-4297 JUNE 21 a 22 Follies Revue, Inc. Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies! 6 pm, Doubletree Hotel, Warren PlaCe $125 & $40, Info: 437-0201 FRIDAY, JUNE 7 Safe Haven Lake Cookout. Social gathering for young adults, 18-30 8 pm, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 Pride Picnic Benefit - The Silver Star 1565 S. Sheridan, 834-4234 SUNDAY, JUNE 23 Statewide Pride Rally & Parade Speaker: Donna Red Wing ’92 Advocate Woman of the Year 1:30 pro, Memorial Park, NW 35th & Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City Info: 743-4297 or 405-791-0202 ever by seeing any or all of the following benefit shows: Lola’s on May 18th, the Toolbox hosted by Sensuous on May 26th by J.D. Jamett and the Silver Star on June 7th. What can I say, this last month truly did This month I’m proud to feature, not an have its showers and flowers. The turnestablishment, but a community within about show at the Silver Star was a rose. our .community, Community of Hope. It’s that never smelled more sweeter, & the not just a church, but a place where you staff truly did surprise themselves when feel like a person, not just a number.Leslie they let their less masculine sides show. Penrose is the pastor.She’is one of these On the other hand, the Miss Gay Tulsa rare people you are truly proud to call a America at the Perfriend. This church has forming Arts Center a lot tO offer, for ex, got rained on- no fault ample, chances to of the orgamzers or work in the commuperformers. The tech.nity through programs nical staff at the P.A.C. like their RAIN team constantly missed training, feeding the lighting and sound homeless, meals on cues - what happened? .wheels, small sympoOur sympathies to the siums on a variety of entertainers and orga- Kelly Green, Miss Gay Tulsa America different subjects, and runners-up, JJ Gentry & Sugarbaker nizers. social events such as This next month small dinner groups holds alot of fun things and movie nights. I’ll todo starting with Rensay it a again- it’s not egades" annual just achurch but a comGayFest (May 17- 19) munity! Services are which features Dark very convenient on Shadows (drag in Sunday evening at broad daylight!) and 6pm at 1703 East 2nd other fun things tO do Street. Giveit achance, all outside. That same Monique Foster, the new Miss Silver Star you may just like it. weekend, you may & Bobbi Sue Summers OK, OK, boy, did I venture back inside on open up a big make-up ¯ May 17 for a live performance by Abigail ¯ case with the Queen of the Month (see ¯ at Concessions that should very entertainletter to the editor). Sorry Katherine, but ing then : licking may face does constitute begging. May 23, the Red Ribbon Ice Revue call ¯ Well, this month’s Queen of the Month is ¯ 254-7272 for more details. In June, don’t constandyhelpingpeople- doingbenefits forget Miss Northeastern Oklahoma ¯ &helping as aresearchnurse on HIV drug USofA at The Silver Star (June 23). : studies.That’s right, Danny (TeraTaneal), ¯ youareMay’sQueenoftheMonth.Thanks Pride Picnic Update Show your pride in the community and : for all your hard work! Till then, see ya out + about. help make this year’s Pride Picnic the best OUT + ABOUT �Fina y....Unity Gardens A final resting place in peace, unity and pride... located in Washington Memorial Gardens Cemetery 4300 E. 91st Street South On 91st Street between Yale & Harvard. Unity Gardens has been designed for the Gay and Lesbian Community, and those who support our unity. Did you know that there is no cemetery in Tulsa that will allow companions to be buried together recognizing them as a couple, or~’recognizing your sexual orientation as an individual? Actually there is no place in the United-States who will, UNTIL NOW~ We are the first celnetery in the United States to offer a special section of our cemetery just for Gays & Lesbians, and their family and friends. We offer burial spaces, columbarium for cremated remains, and scattering gardens with a memorial wall, in this new-ly expanded and renovated-section of Washington Memorial Gardens Cemetery. The Pride flag will proudly fly in the center of Unity Gardens to always remind us of our struggle in life for unity and pride. If you have purchased a plot elsewhere, you may be able to transfer or trade your burial plots. For more information, please call Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-587-7000. ***Owned and operated by Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home*** �¯ A Friendly Place to Stay ¯ ¯ ¯ KING’S HI-WAY INN ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC of the Living Spring .... a community of friends... ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ "96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson, owner We welcome you to attend! 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May 30th through June 2nd ¯ live attitude, which clearly appeals to the By Allan Beard, Baltimore GayPaper Like most other gay resort areas, ¯ many thOUsands of lesbians and gay men Provincetown shares the three traits all ¯ that flock there every, summer. The village has two main streets, Comheld in common - sun, sand and surf. And like its southern sister city Key West, it is " mercial Street and Bradford Street, which a remote village located on a narrow strip ¯ run parallel for nearly three miles. They of land jutting out into the Adantic Ocean, ¯ are intersected by numerous smaller streets beginning at the harbor and continuing accessible only to those who seek it out. ¯ back to the dunes. It is a town filled with One does not pass through Key West or guest houses, restaurants, galleries, bouProvincetown; one goes there to be there. And while Provincetown’ s waters are sig- : tiques and shops. It also has its share of ¯ typical beach community tourist businificandy cooler than those of Florida’s southern most city, it is not the water that ¯ .nesses, but in Provincetown they don’t attracts tens of thousands of lesbians and ¯ seem to intrude on the town’s quiet chargay men to this Massachusetts Cape Cod ¯ acter. The Provincetown Business Guild repvillage each year - it’s the lesbians and ¯ resents more than 200 businesses that gay men that is the attraction. Just who first walked the sandy beaches ¯ welcome lesbian and gay tourists. Founded in 1978 the guild is dedicated to enhancthat surround Provincetown is in little ¯ ing the vacation experience of gay people doubt. And while Native Americans can lay claim to the cape, it was the white ¯ , visiting the cape. Lesbian and gay life is readily visible to anyone visiting the town. European immigrants who built the fishCouples stroll the shop lined streets ann mg village that was to become ~n arm with barely notice given them. On Provincetown. Pilgrims from the May the beach thousands of hard bodied men flower first walked ashore in 1620; a and buffed lesbians swim, play and sun monument commemorating that event themselves in the confidence of a shared stands’ atop High Pole Hill overlooking appreciation of their diversity. At night a the town an harbor. not-so subtle sexual energy takes over the For the most part, Provincetown grew town’s main streets as hundreds head to up over three centuries as a fishing vilnightclubs and restaurants to party with lage. Filled with the homes and shops of a old acquaintances and new -found friends. 18thcentury fishing village, Provincetown It is an atmosphere suited perfectly to the is rich in period architecture with an imfriendly, open lifestyle of this .country’s pressive harbor and quaint atmosphere many lesbian and gay communities. one comes to expect from a New England To increase gay visibility and promote port town. It is surrounded by beaches, gay pride, the ProvincetOwn Business dunes and the Atlantic. Isolated at the end Guild plans special events year-round. of Cape Cod, Provincetown has long atFor information on these events and to tracted artists,individualists and free spirmake travel arrangement~,call Vanes sa at its. Very much like Key West, the 3,700 International Tours at - 341-6866. year-round residents have a live-and-let- OK, so maybe you don’t have the time or money to go as far as Provincetown but you still need a get-away and it’s got to be a Gay-friendly place, and affordable! For all that, you can’t beat Eureka Springs. This Victorian jewel has got to have one of the highest per capita Lesbian/Gay/Bi populatious in the country. And therefore, you can count on finding a friendly family welcome. In fact, it’s possible to spend most of your resting and dining time in Gay or very Gay friendly establishments. This writer can personally recommend the food at DeVito’s and dined with Jim & Brent at the restaurant the guys had before they opened the well-regarded Bistro. While we haven"t tried Autumn Breeze, we hear it’s excellent also. Lod~ng can vary from the very convenient Kings Hi-Way Inn overlooking a ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ , ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ lovely valley to the unique bed & breakfast experience of the Woods or Rock Cottage Gardens or the views of Pond MountainLodge. For very reasonable and historic rooms, check out the Park Basin Hotel. In between earing and sleeping, there are many shops to checkout. They range from tourist tacky to worksof art. One of the most interesting selections is at Crazy Bone. And be sure to stop in ’to see MC and Linda, the new ownersofthe Emerald Rainbow, providing locals, and visitors with Pride stuff and mo~e..: NoW if you need more.detailed informarion about all your Options in Eureka Springs, track down Jan & Kim with P.I.M.P.S. who kiaow what’s available. And if like many others, you decide to check out local properties, stop by McClung Realty - they can help. Adult Accommodations Eureka Springs.Blues Festival Stop by our house for a taste of local flavor. Dine outside on the patio & porch or in our three beautiful dining rooms. Fine food at an affordable price. Gay.owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud In Eureka Springs, Arl~nsas Craftsman-style cottages with beautiful views of the woods and wildlife -.Tucked on top of the Ozark Mountains. just a few rmnutes walk to the Historic Village of Eureka Springs. 501/253-8281 Frank Gr~.en Jr., Host - 50 Wall Street - Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 �play. AIDS, of course, is a topic of a few of Reviewed by Barry Hensley these plays. Victor .Bumbalo’s "What Tulsa City-County Library Are Tuesdays LaKe. takes place in a OK, all of you budding Laurence hospital waiting room. "The Baltimore Oliviers, take notice! ff acting is your Waltz," by Paula Vogel and "Lonely profession 9r just a fun hobby, and you’re Planet," by Steven Dietz deal with AIDS having trouble finding quality plays that in more intangible ways. speak to gays and lesbians, here is the Another interesting entry, "It’s Our book for you. "The Actor’s Book of Gay Town, Too," by Susan Miller, is just what and Lesbian Plays" pulls together sevenyou might think: a bare stage, queer verteen plays, chosen by sion . of Thornton editors (and playWilder’s "Our Town." wrights), Eric Lane and ...One d the-most "Cater,Waiter," by Eric Nina Shengold. is a funny, ironic, interesting aspects of Lane, The criteria for a ten-minute piece about play’s inclusion in this these plays is that not "eighty-seven gay men anthologyis thatitmust and three lesbians servall of them premiered ing dinner tO a buncha have gay or lesbian characters, queer Reagan cronies" at a. in New York or Los themes or be of interest Republican fundraiser. to the gayand lesbian A~ngeles. One hasd.lts With the current community,regardless boom of successful first performance m of the playwright’s queer-themed films, own sexual orientation. like "Jeffrey" and "The Shepherdstown, The plays vary widely, Bird~ge," it shouldn’t, West Virginia... from one-acts to full be long until more gay length, comic and draand lesbian friendly matic, some interesting while others less " plays start showing.up onstage in midso, and a range o_f styles and cast sizes. : America. When they do, "The Actor’s One of the most interesting aspects of ¯ Book of Gay and Lesbian Plays" will be these plays is that not all of them pre- ; an excellent resource. mieredin New York or Los Angeles. One ¯ Check for this book, and others on had its .first performance in ¯ similar subjects, at your local branch liShepherdstown, West Virginia~ and an- ¯ brary or call the Readers Services departother was first heard over the air as a radio ’ ment at the CentrallLibrary, 596-7966. READ ALL ABOUT IT by James Christjohn, Entertainment Notes ¯ To all of you who expressed interest, & While it might seem so at times, this ¯ didn’t put your body where your mouth is column is not just about me being pee- ¯ in terms of your presence in the theatre vish. It is about a much wider concern of " seat, you’ve helped to kill gay theatre. ¯ mine. If there is no gay theatre in Tulsa, it’s To those in the gay & lesbian communot that the shows aren’t produced or ¯ nity whom I have heard complaining that people aren’t interested in doing them; ¯ thereisn’t enough gay theatre, that there is it’s because you weren’t there when the an audience for these shows, that no the- ¯ shows were produced. Even when, as in atre in town is brave enou,,h to do these .. this case, the productions are free to the kinds of shows; I have only one thing to ¯ public! You have no one to blame but say. Where were you? yourselves. So don’t let Several shows durme hear anyone in the To those... ing the TU weekend of community bemoaning One-acts touched on "the lack of gay plays P" ’ ~ gay issues, mine and here, because it’s your t" here lsn t enough Gabriel Washam’s own fault they aren’t "’Diaries" blatandy so. being done. Gay theatre, I had incredible support BACP produced an that there is from Professor Cook ( excellent production of Thank you!), who feels Harvey Fierstein’s"On an audlenee ~or these plays are imporTidy Endings" some tant to have done, an months back_. The night these shows... incredible cast, & itwas Tom & I attended, only free, for heaven’ s sake ! 1/4 of the house was You missed a great set filled. And I know thln¢ to say. of shows. there’s enough queens Where were you? You had the chance in this town to have to say, with your presfilled the theatre. ence, that there is an audience for these " Sad thing is, many students & faculty. shows, that these shows will draw folks ¯¯ were talking about doing a production of in, that there is a reason to see these shows "Falsettoland" at TU. The higher ups were produced. ." concerned that people wouldn’t come. As Gerald Miller said, "Ain’t gonna ¯ One ofmy goals with HIVariations, I’d happen". He and I spoke of Gay theatre in ¯ hoped, was to prove that there was an ¯ Tulsa when he was managing Theatre audience. With the lack of community ¯ Tulsa. His take was that there wasn’t an support of HIVariations, indeed all the audience. Tom and I argued the point, and ¯¯ shows that weekend, it seems unlikely I now feel his comments were, sadly, that this Falsetto, or other shows like it, ¯ justified. will be produced. 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There is quite a know that lots of decent restaurants exist ¯ variety of interesting and worthwhile WITH THIS COUPON AND A BATH PURCHASE in our Capital Cowtown at which they can ¯ places in this area. Anchoring the comer cozy up to the chuckwagon. ¯ spot on i-44 is Portobello (expensive), Coupon Expires Pet Food Just like Tulsa, most of the national ¯ featuring Tuscan style Italian food and June 29, 1996 franchises and chain restaurants have : Italian language tapes in the restrooms. Toys & Supplies stores in Oklahoma City which are con- ¯ Another long time Italian spot is Flip’s 3311 S. Peoria centrated in the Quail Springs Mall area ¯ -Wine Bar and Trattoria (moderately Grooming & Boarding I ¯ on Memorial between May and Pennsyl~ ¯ expensi.ve), at Grand Boulevard, with a Tulsa Pickup & Delivery I vania; near Baptist Hospital at Northwest ¯ great selection of by-the-glass wines and (918) 744-5556 Service Available Expressway and Lake Hefner Parkway; ¯ decent food--be sure to check out the .I in"oiltown" at Interdaily specials. At state 40 and Merid64th Street, you will After all, ian; and down on the . find the excellent south side along InMetro Wine Bar half of the fun terstate 240 between Bistro (expentraveling_is discovering and Western and May sive, reservations 3213 E. 15th St. Avenues. But why advised), serving rethe local euMne. 20TH CENTURY FURNISHINGS eat at some place you ,trial French cuiWed-Sat 10-5 Sun 12-4 can visit at home? And, surprisingly, sine, nightly meat 749-3620 After all, half of the and fish specials, and Oklahoma City tim of traveling to creamy, chilled exotic locations is vichyssoise to die probably has a lot discovering the local for. Across the street more decent non-chain cuisine.And, surprisin: Nichols Hills ingly, Oklahoma restaurants than Tulsa. Plhza is the single City probably has a best restaurant in the lot more decent nonst~ite of Oklahoma, ¯ the.Coach House (veryexpensive, reserchain restaurants than Tulsa. ¯ First, a few words of warning: Many vataons required, dres~ code), featuring ¯ H~rry Bel-toi~, Knoll 1952 rodeoers will be staying at the Northwest Worship Service,~.~.3.~) am e}quisitely prepared Atnerican haute cuiHilton or at the ever popular Habana Inn ¯ sine and impeccable ~ervice. Everyone Sheridan Center, ~’~ite H, both of which have in house dining facili- ¯ should experience the artistry of Chef 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 ties. Let’s just say that you’ll want to eat ~ Kurt Fleishfresser and the elegance of the off the premises. And don’t even think : Coach House at least once in their lifeabout room service. . time. Crawling back to Western, at 67th’is \¥qaen you are in downtown OKC, be ¯ the Iguana Lounge (moderate) which is advised that. there is no place wonderful, ¯ billed as Acapulco cuisine but we have to and the Myriad Convention Center food is ¯ call it avant garde Mexican, and their new deadly. Nearby though are La Roea Mexi- .: patio should be open by rodeo time. An can Restaurant a couple.of blocks west ¯ excellent sushi bar is Tokyo Japanese of the Myriad on Rent and there are ¯ Restaurant (expensive), just south of always the various trendy (translate: long ¯ Wilshire, which serves Sapporo beer and ¯ lines, small servings, big prices) estabsushi as good as any Japanese restaurant ¯ lishments and the onmipresent Spaghetti we’ve visited in the United States. Way ’96 ECLIPSE SPYDER Warehouse in Bricktown several blocks : up north at 80th is Let’s Barbecue (inexeast o.f the Myriad. The Bricktown Brew- ¯¯ pensive), with basic down home smoked CONVERTIBLE GS ery is, in our opinion, the Oklahoma meats and occasionally fried catfish (if $22,835 microbrewery serving up the best beer ¯ you remember Let’s at 66th Street, that made in Oklahoma (but don’t get your ¯ location, now closed, went to Let’s exhopes up about the food)¯ We just wish the ¯ wife in the divorce, and Leo moved north). Oklahoma legislature didn’t make the ¯ A couple of other spots popular with the ¯ microbreweries water the beer to 3.2. capital city gay crowd include the Painted Several formerly popular northwest : Desert (inexpensive) at 36th and Shartel, spots are now closed, such as Doc’s at ¯ whichis your basic burger bar, Pepperoni 63rd and Western, Rita’s del Rio on May ¯ G~ill (moderately expensive) in Penn across from the Northwest Hilton, Pump’s ¯ Square Mall by Dillard’s with eclectic at Grand and \Vestem, Interurban in ¯" Italian food, and Bellini’s (expensive) at Fifty Penn Place, and Magnolia Cafe at 63rd and Pennsylvania, which serves up 66th and Western: We’re also sad to re- ¯ northern Italian themed food and dellport that due to the new conservative : cious bellini’s (a peach and champagne Christian ownership of United Founder’s ¯ cocktail) with a view of the swan pond Tower, the Eagle’s Nest, with its 360 ¯ and outdoor seating-- enter from the parkdegree revolVing view of Lake Hefner " ing garage_ under the Waterford office and northwest Oklahoma City, has closed ¯ building. its doors. Never fear, though, there are ¯ Those looking for Oriental foods will still lots of fun places to dine and frolic. ¯ be excited to spend time in Oklahoma While on Oklahoma City’s infamous ¯ City s Little S aigon area centered at North 39th Street Strip, many readers may re- ," west 23rd and Classen. We particularly member the gastronomically challenging recommend Lido (moderate) at 24th and Family Diner, a classic greasy spoon. : Military (just off Classen near the milk But better days have come to that loca- ¯ bottlebuilding), which has excellent Viettion, and completely new proprietors have : namese food in an elegant setting, and is established the gay owned and operated ¯ popular with many of the state’s powerPifion Care (moderate cost), which fea- " ful--we’ve run into Governor Waiters tures lots of Southwestern style entrees, ¯ and several Supreme Court justices here. heavy on the pasta and chicken, and, while ¯ Check out the dim sum at Grand House notan all-night establishment, does stay : (moderate),just across the street from the open until 2 a.m., and 3 a.m. on weekends. see Food, page 14 &TICK of �milk bottle. One of our favorite Chinese restaurants is Dumpling House (moderate) on 23rd just east of Classen, which is patronized by many Chinese and Vietnamese youth (be sure to ask for the English menu). Another excellent Vietnamese and Chinese place is Mirawa (moderate), a bit farther east on 23rd. For Korean food, try Sharon Gardens (inexpensive) on 23rd west of Classen, and for Thai, go to Sala Thai (inexpensive) just a couple of blocks farther west. If seeing all those cowboys wrangle beef on the hoof has you hankering for a big juicy steak, you can’t go wrong with Cattleman’s Care (moderately expensive) in Stockyards City, Exchange Street south of 1-40 (ask for directions). In the Remington Park area at Northeast 50th and Kelly is one of our favorites, Sleepy Hollow (expensive), which has no menus, but serves up big delicious bowls of mashed potatoes, ~avy, and peas family style and huge, wonderful steaks to its horseman and jockey clientele. You can get decent barbecued ribs and an all you can eat special at Oklahoma County Line (moderately expensive) on Northeast 63rd between Kelly and Eastern. And, when the budget gets a little thin, you can find an excellent chicken fried steak sandwich at Chuck House (inexpensive) at Northwest Tenth and Meridian. This should be a big enough list of the better places in Oklahoma City to keep rodeo-goers well fed for one weekend. Just remember, we have McDonald’s in Tulsa. Bon appetit, cowboy. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad with: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the number of words. (A word for our purposes is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space.) 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Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Our Families of the Heart UPCOMING EVENTS HIV-ERC + Red Ribb,.o.n Revue + Pride- Bene.flts Pride Worship Service Dallas Leader Cece Cox Hope Candlelight Tour Pride Prom + Pride Picnic O.KC Parade +. ,.Follies TULSA - The next several weeks offer an unprecedented number of community events which either benefit HIV/AIDS charities or celebrate Lesbian/Gay Pride Month. On May 23rd, the Red Ribbon Ice Revue promises a great show at the Tulsa Ice Arena to support Our House, a day drop-in center for persons living with HIV/AIDS. Later that evening, the Silver Star will host a benefit &raffle for the HIV Education and Recreation Center, a new organization headed by Bruce Begley, Sandy Hill, Steve Wilson and others. OnSaturday and Sunday,June 8-9th,the Hope Candlelight Tour will feature the homes of Tina & Steven David, Judy & Bill Fisher, P.S. Gordon & Duane Men Ne, Mary McMahon, and Ouida & Robert Merrifield to benefit St. Joseph’s Residence/Catholic Charities and RAIN, the Regional Interfaith AIDS Network. Tickets are $10 and are available at Charles Faudree, 1345 E. 15th, and at MA Doran Gallery, 3509 S. Peoria. The very distinguished organizing committee also has planned a number of patron events - for more information, call 747-9706. Near the end of. the month, June 21 & 22, Follies Revue, Inc. will present Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies at the Doubletree Hotel, Warren Place. It’s a dinner and a show you won’t want to miss. The beneficiaries are TOHR, HIV Resource Consortium, Interfaith AIDS Ministries, Shanti, Visiting Nurses Assoc. RAIN and St. Joseph’s Residence/Catholic Charities. For tickets, call the PAC box office, Carson Attractions, and Tickets by Phone. For June, the traditional Lesbian/Gay Pride month worldwide, Tulsa volunteers have planned a number of events. The month will begin by the first ecumenical Pride Worship Service. Hosted by St. Jerome at the Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria at 6 pm on Saturday, June 1, the service will include Family of’Faith MCC, Agape Christian Fdlowship and other congregations: On Tuesday, June 4, PFLAG, TOHR and the Rainbow Business Guild (with assistance from the Bisexual, Lesbian, Gay Trans Alliance, BLGTA) will present Cece Cox, president of the Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance (DGLA), one of the most dynamic activists in the Southwest and a native of Bartlesville. She will be talking about the Marriage Project of the DGLA as well as her work as co-chair of GLAAD/Dallas. The dinner will be held in the Chouteau Room of the Chapman Student Center of the University of Tulsa at 6:30. The dinner is $10 but the speech is free at about 7:45. June 8th, TOHR and TU’s BLGTA will host a Pride see Pride, page 3 MARRIAGE The attack begins at the national level led by Oklahoma Rep. Steve Largent & Sen. Don Nickles. WASHINGTON - Confronted with a flagging presidential campaign and convinced they’ve found a one-sided wedge issue that could embarrass President Clinton’s campaign efforts, Republican lawmakers have introduced. ameasure, titled the"Defense ofMamageAct" (DOMA), that would define marriage as"only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife." The proposed law Was introduced by Republican Reps. Bob Barr of Georgia and by Steve Largent & by Sen. Don Nickles of Oklahoma. Senate Majority Leader Bob Dole of Kansas, who all but has the GOP’s presidential nomination sewn up, became the first Senate co-sponsor of the measure. During the Iowa primary caucuses, when Republican hopefuls were asked to sign a pledge to fight any effort in Congress to legalize same-sex marriages, Dole said the pledge doesn’t go far enough" and added; "Government at all levels must work to support and promote the institution of marriage that unites husband and wife." Just days before the proposed legislation was introduced in Congress, Dole campaign officials told reporters that the Republican presidential hopeful would be taking action to make same-sex marriages a campaign wedge issue, using Clinton’s outreach to gay and lesbian Americans in an effort to make voters wary of the President’s re-election bid. Clinton campaign officials have acknowledged that the issue is potentially a political landmine during the campaign and said the President "didn’t want to touch it." Even so, when anti-gay activists asked Clinton to sign the anti-marriage pledge, he refused and called it "outrageous." The dicey political question is complicated even further by reports in the current issue of the Advocate, the Los Angeles- based magazine, that claims the Justice Department is considering changing both the IRS tax code and federal immigration regulations to give gay and lesbian couples~the same benefits in these two areas as legally married couples. However, \~qaite House spokeswoman Mary Ellen Glynn told reporters that Clinton doesn’t personally support equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians and that the Administration had no plans to implement the changes reported in the Advocate. Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign, called the proposed congressional bill the work of "religiotts political extremists...using this issue as an election year baseball bat to bash gay Americans and score 3"teve Largent Don Nickles Gov. Keating Signs Anti- Marriage Amendment/Bill OKLAHOMA CITY - In a move that surprised Okla. Capitol watchers and a number of state Senators, Senate bill #73, the "Oklahoma Child Visitation Registry Act," passed with an amendment banning the recognition of valid same-gender marriages performed in other states. Only Senators Bernest Cain (D-OKC) and Penny Williams (D-Tulsa) voted against the final bill (42-2). According to Sen. Williams, Sen. Cain spbke with such eloquence against the anti-Gay amendment, that she was moved to vote no as well. Tulsa Sen. Maxine Horuer told TFN that she was not in the Senate at the time of the vote and that the amendment did not represent her position. Earlier, Senator Keith Leftwich, and staffers in Cain’s and Sen. Bernice Shedrick’s offices had stated that they did not think the anti-marriage amendment would remain after the bill returned from conference committee. Senate bill #73 had a correspondingbill that had passed the OK House of Representatives. Gov. Frank Keating promptly signed the bill. When asked about what efforts he or his staff had made to contact Oklahoma’s Lesbian and Gay. community about this bill, the Governor’s press spokesperson, Dan Mahoney stated that no effort was necessary since "it would not have made any difference [to the Governor]." Mnhoney released the following statement: "~,Vhat people do in their private lives ~s none of my business, that is a personal decision. But I don’t feel the state of Oklahoma should bein the business of sanctionpolitical points." Rep. Pat Schroeder (D-Colo.) was one of the few lawmakers to criticize the measure, saying it was meaningless political maneuvering because it would take an amendment limiting the "full faith and credit clause" of the U.S. Constitution to actually bar same-sex marriages at the federal level. "This is nothing but just to stir the political ¯" waters and see how much hate you can unleash," she added. Interfaith / -iDS Ministrie ¯ Seeks Missing Benefit $ ~ Last October, a local bar, Barraccuda’s, contacted Inter- ,¯ faith AIDS Ministries (L~M) with an offer to do a benefit honoring World AIDS Day in December and benefiting ¯ IAM. Months later, IAM has not seen a dime of the dollars ¯ raised at the event, despite efforts by director, Diane Zike. ¯ Several board members attended the fundraiser noting ¯ that the bar charged a $3 cover & had tip jars for donations. At the end of the evemn~,, IAM s treasurer was told they’d ¯ raised $250. Director Zike says that she’d called repeatedly for bar ing same sex marriages. I supported SB 73, as did every member of the t!ouse of Representatives and all but two members of the State Senate." TFN asked about remarks attributed to the Governor that he had said the State Republican Party platform (see below) represented "mainstream Oklahoma." see Gov., page 3 Excerpts from the OK Republican state Platform Page 3, ADOPTION Plank 4: We demand that children not be adopted by homosexuals. Page 6, HIV/AIDS Plank 1: Since HIV is a virus that results in AIDS and certain death, we call upon local, state, and federal governments to deal with thedeadly disease of AIDS in the same manner as other dangerous communicable diseases, i.e. (a) expand universal testing and truth in reporting, which includes full disclosure about the ori- ¯ owner, Sue, "known as Barraccuda. No calls had been ¯ returned by March 26 when IAM drafted a letter requesting ¯ a response. To date, IAM still has not received a response ¯¯ .from the bar. WhenTFN called, bar staffer, Sheila, referred all questions back to Sue. ¯ Zike adds, "IAM actedingoodfaith, advertising the event ¯ and participating [in it]. How can we follow through with : our commitments if those who offer to assist us...do not ¯ follow through themselves...it is not just Interfaith AIDS ¯ Ministries that is being hurt, but more importantly those ¯ living with HIV/AIDS that IAM serves." see Platform, page 7 EDITORIAL/LETTERS/DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P. 6 CALENDAR P. 9 OUT + ABOUT WITH JD P. 9 EUREKA SPRINGS + P. 11 BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT P. 12 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 13 918.583.1248 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TulsaNews@ aol.com Publisher/Editor, Tom Neal Assistant Editor, James Christjohn Writers/contributors, Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Leanne Gross & Pat Morehead Staff Photographer, JD Jamett Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. by Patricia Nell Warren ¯ A few days American with ahgeor, oownne aDrgiaunmeePntartkheart whoromteosetoxutahleityJoiug rnnaolt ~ feovoelnamloant aogfepteoopfoleo,l ionudru.ocwtinngmtohtehewrsi~shfFuolrtahitniikneer,s.wSeoemveenoffouosl now ourselves. But it is still conformity. It is not change. genetic. She believes that the "reformed homosexuals" visible in certain videos, programs and organizations is compelling proof that homosexuals can really change. I am always amazed at the power of wishful thinking m people like Parker. Their whole position is based on a fierce belief in this alleged capacity of homosexuals to "change." The videos, nroorams, etc. represent a 2000- vear effort by Chrislaamty to wish away the ~xistential fact of homosexuality, whatever its root cause. The fact is: in repressive umes, homosexuals do not change. They conform. Gay people disagree about many things, but this is one area where we agree -- because so Aetlng strM~ht when you know you re gay ¯ ¯ as not chang . It as not a rnor~al act. It {s not re[orm. It {s not heal{n . It ~s a ll~n~ death. many of. us have lived face-to-face with our own "is-ness’" through long decades of pretense. I, for one, did a terrific job of conforming to the heterosexual canon, as a wife for 16 years. I even tried both Protestantism and.,,_Catholicism in a desperate effort to transmogrify my conformity into change. But it didn’t work. The conformity goes so deep that it can masquerade brilliantly as change. Unlike leopards, homosexu~is can make their spots look like tiger stripes. The penalties for being fingered as gay -- loss of family and job, assault and battery, long prison sentences, incarceration in mental hospitals, to n~u,ne a few - Acting straight when you know you’re gay is not change. It is not a moral act. It is not reform. It is not healing. It is a living death. In the Sixties, a whole generation of youth rose up against all kinds of forced conformity in American society, and their protest embraced this deadly conformity demanded of gay people. Yet today the wishful thinkers among us are trying to engineer the re-imposition of their wishes. They demand it in the name of "saving marriage." What they want, in many marriages, adds up to shapestfifting Of the spookiest kind. It adds up to acting performances that will never get an Os- : car. Those who settle for our conformity get it at an appalling cost to themselves. The wishful thinkers lose their power to see what : is real. They canlook into the eyes of a homosexual who is living ~ in deep cover, and utterly fail to See that person’s true spirit. Even ¯ in the eyes of their own children, parents, closest friends, the " wishful thinkers see only what they choose to see. Heaven help ¯ the American marriage if it is"saved" by people who can’ t tell the ¯ difference between conformity and change. ,, Patricia Nell Warren is the author of"The Front Runner and ¯ other bestsellers about gay life. Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine ,Concessions,.33"40 s. Peoria *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan .Renegades, Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 832-1269 744-0896 749-1563 745-9998 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 584-1308 585-3134 Tulsa Businesses, Services, &. Professionals Dennis C. 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Ourelected r p- ¯ resentatives" Steve Largent, Don Nickles ¯ and Jim Inhofe again shame our s~te with ¯ their attacks on their own constttuents, specifically with the so-called Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). The motives for ¯ thesemen surely rangefrom genuineideo- ¯ logical positions to the basest political .... maneuvering...There is little- doubt that ¯ each holds "Christian" beliefs which they ¯ feel justify discrimination. ~ We can only respond that it is .a betrayal ¯ of the most fundamental American con- . stitutional values to abuse their position to ’" enforce private prejudices. That is, it is ¯ wrong to use the power of the government ¯ to promote or allow to continde system- " atic bias against minority citizens, no ¯ matter if the majority despises that minor- ¯ ity mad no matter if the group is minority ¯ by birth (race or ethnicity) or by choice, ¯ (religion or political view) or by a combi- ¯ nation (as seems to be the case with sexual ¯ orientation). Many Americans havebeen, ¯ and are, racist and anti-Semitic, and yet ¯ politicians realize it is no longer accept- " able to pander overtl.y to these views. ¯ However, election-year politics are strongly implicated in this effort. DC insiders suggest that DOMA is a much a vehicle to divide and inflame the American electorate, to weaken Bill Clinton and to insure that Dole can nominate the next 20 years of Supreme Court judges. So what are our alternatives inTulsa when our elected "representatives" don’t even bother to go through the motions of ¯ consulting the communities that are ¯ harmed by their actions? ¯ The answer’s not glamorous or easy. ¯ Despite all odds, we must continue to °. organize ourselves politically. We must ¯ put the same sorts of energies that we’ve see Attack, page 3 Tulsa, Oklahoma sure feels like ground What a great honor itis to be chosen as the first Queen of the Month in the Out & About column of your newspaper. What a wonderful way to spotlight Tulsa’s diverse and talented group of entertainers. As a general rule, our society has a poor ] opinion of Drag Queens and it is my hope that your column will help dispense these thoughts. For your readers that are not aware, each of the entertainers that I regularly do shows with are also involved in the many benefits that occur around town. The beneficiaries include such great causes as Our ~ House, A .Friend for a Friend, Shanti ¯ Coftdom Fund and public service posters that are placed through out our community. ¯ In addition to being tons of fun (no pun ¯ intended to my size), Tulsa has a diverse : group of entertainers that not only make "- you smile, but further love and kindness ¯ within Our community. Thank you again. ¯ Much love, Kathryn Conover PS, in my entire life, I can’t once remember that I begged for anything. Could JD have been thinking of someone else and intended the very first Queen of the Month to go to another Entertainer? Oh dear, I certainly hope not. In particular, TFN asked if the Governor RIBBON ALL TICKET PR.O,CEED5 TO BES£,FIT TICKETS: HOUSE" $8.0,0B"~EA..[.H..E.R~<, $12.50 ON ICE SEATISL:3 TIC’KET8 A% AL.IABLE TULSA ICE ARENA RE1Nq GADE8 { 17rf’H really felt calling,fora quarantine ofpeople living with AIDS, or preventing Lesbian and Gay men from being teachers represented the values of most Oklahomans. Mahoney responded that he could not speak for the Governor in the particulars but that the Governor supported the platformin general. WhenaskedifTFN could ask the Governor aboUt specific platform items, Mahoney said Keating would not be available for any questions. Prom (alcohol-free) also at the Chapman Ctr. at 8 pm. The Picnic, themed Tulsa United in Pride, will be held in Owen Park on Sat. June 15, from 12 - 5 pm. Anumber of community organizations, businesses and individuals are working on this event. As usual, refreshments are free and a range of food will be available for a modest donation. Owen Park has tennis courts and a sand volleyball court, as well as better parking and more shade than the old Mohawk site. On Sunday, June 23, Oklahomans from all over the state will gather at Memorial Park, NW 35th & Classen in Oklahoma City about 1:30 for the statewide Pride Rally. The Rally will feature Advocate 1992 Woman of the Year, Donna Red Wing. The statewide Pride Parade kicks off from the park and ends up at the NW 39th St. community business district. put into fighting the scourge ofAIDS into fighting political prejudice. Locally, TOHR is doing a voter inform and registration project, call 743-4297 and leave a message for Tony. Oklahoma City folks have created a political action committee, Cimarron Alliance which has funneled significant funds into OKC city council races and to Democratic state senators. Some in Tulsa are discussing similar efforts, here. Also, just call Nickles (581- 7651, the local office can transfer you to DC, fax 202-9~24-6008), Inhofe (748-5111, 202-224-4721, fax 202-228-0380) and I_argent (749-0014, 202-225-2211, fax 202-225-9187). Even if you don’t want to get married anytime soon, tell them you support equal marriage rights, that you oppose DOMA, and that you don’t appremate the scapegoating of Oklahoma’s Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual citizens. Dan DuVall / Owner Anti-Marriage ¯ Efforts Around US ¯ AUGUSTA, Maine - With state legisla- ¯ tures around the country heading into ¯ recesses for the summer, the anti-mar- : riage bandwagon did little more than ¯ bumble along. While Hawaii lawmakers couldn’t muster enough votes to pass an ¯ anti-gay mamage ban there before the ¯ legislature recessed for the current ses- ¯ sion, an Alabama state Senate committee : approved by an 8-1 vote a bill that would ¯ bar recognizing same-sex marriages in ¯ the state, dropping a $1,000 fine for clergy ¯. performing such unions that had been ¯ included in the original measure. The Alaska legislature took a double : swing at same-sex relationships, passing ¯ one measure that would limit domestic ¯" partnership benefits in the state educa- ¯ tional system and sending it to Gov. Tony ¯ Knowles. At the same time thelawmakers ¯ began debate on a ban on same-sex mar- . riages in the state, a proposal that is ex- ¯ pected to easily pass. Kansas lawmakers, ¯ meanwhile, approved an anti-mamage bill and sent it to the governor for his signa- ¯ ture. ¯ In Maine, the anti-gay group Concerned Maine Families has filed papers with the "¯ secretary of state’s office to get approval ¯ to collect signatures for a ballot measure - ¯ that would restrict marriages in the state ¯ to those between male-female couples ¯ only. If the signature~gathering is ap- ¯ proved, the group would have to collect ¯ some 51,000 valid signatures to put the ¯ measure before ~oters- either in 1997 or ¯ 1998. ¯ Georgia Gov. Zell Miller has si~ned a ¯ bill that bars same-sex mamages ~n the ¯¯ state, joining South Dakota, Utah and Idaho as the 4th state to prohibit gay and ¯ lesbian marriages in anticipation that such ¯ weddings will become legal soon in Ha- . waii. The South Carolinalegislature gave ~ its final.OK to a measure outlawing same- ." sex marriages in the state and sent the ¯ legislation to Gov. David Beaseley, who has already indicated he supports the pro- : hibition. The measure would prevent the ¯ state from recognizing any marriage be- . tween people of the same sex that was performed in another state. In Arizona, Gov. Fife Symington signed the state legislature’s 3rd attempt to enact aban on same-sex marriages, making it the 6th state so far to legally refuse recognition for such unions, even if performed legally elsewhere. At the same time, however, by a 34-23 vote, the state House of Representatives passed legislation authorizing tougher sentences for criminals who victimize people based on race, religion, gender or sexual orientation. A similar proposal last year died when Republican legislative leaders objected to including sexual orientation. Meanwhile, a case strikingly similar to the Hawaii lawsuit has gotten under way in New Zealand, with 3 lesbian couples suing for the right to get marriage licenses that were denied them, according to a report in the Queer News Aotearoa. The women’s attorney is arguing that the country’s civil rights laws protects all citizens from being denied equal treatment. The attorney general’s office, however, has argued that marriage is mainly for procreation and that therefore samesex couples are not eligible to marry. South Africa Protects Gays CAPE TOWN, South Africa -South Africa’s Parliament has overwhdmingly approved by a 421-2 vote the country’s new 150-page Constitution after nearly 2- years of complex negotiations and sometimes acrimonious debate. The nation’s new governing document includes, for the first ti~ne in the world, equal rights protections that include sexual orientation. "United in diversity," begins the preamble to the country’s newly approved Constitution, although at least 2 of the country’s right wing political parties said they would challenge some of the provisions of that diversity in court. In fact, .nearly every major party in South Africa expressed reservations about parts of the new document. Even President Nelson Mandela noted that there are still concems among many ofthe country’s minorities about the guarantees enshrined in the Constitution’s Bill of Rights. "The fact that we have adopted this Constitution does not mean that we are not going to address those concerns," Mandela said. "’We will continue searching for solutions because we want everybody to feel that he or she is part and parcel of our efforts to resolve the problems of South Africa." After a long history of white minority rule and rigidly enforced apartheid, the new Constitutions will bring majority rule to the nation when the next g~neral election in 1999 marks anend to the present transitional government. The Bill of Rights outlaws all discrimination in the country, whether based on sexual orientation, race, religion, gender,-political views, disability and other categories. In a cable to President Mandela about the newly adopted Constitution, the Washington, D.C.,based National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, stated, "The South African people have paved a new road of equality and fairness by outlawing all forms of discmnination in the constitution, including for the first time anywhere in the world, the discrimination against people based on their sexual orientation.’" Fewer than a dozen countries worldwide have national laws outlawing bias based on sexual orientation, and South Africa is the first nation to enshrine such protections in its Constitution. Dutch Get Serious About Marriage TIlE HAGUE, Holland -The Dutch Parliament has approved a measure by 81-60 that calls on the government to appoint a commission to evaluate the legal implications, both nationally and internationally, of extending full mamage rights to gay and lesbian couples in the country. The move is several steps from a radical change, of course, but Dutch gays and lesbians, along with progressive politicians in the country, are increasingly insisting on full, equal rights in What is probably Europe’s most liberal nation. What is perhaps most significant about the measure is that the commission is to consider issues such as adoption, parenting, inheritance, taxes, and spousal citizenship of foreigners - an array of questions that other European nations with same-sex .couples registrations have so far ducked or specifically added restrictions to. But as a measure at least of how serious Dutch politicians are about samesex marriages now, public discussions have even reached the level of Members of Parliament debating .whether Queen Beatrix will give her assent to full marital rights for gays and lesbians in Holland. Canada OKs Anti-Bias Law OTTAWA - Canada’s House of Commons has approved by a 153-76 vote a govenm~ent-backed measure that would add sexual orientation to the country’s Charter of Human Rights and legally outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation in Canada’s regulated public sector workforce, which makes up 10% to 15% of the nation’s labor force. All of the nation’s provinces except Newfoundland, Prince Edward Island and Alberta already have similar anti-bias laws, and the Canadian government has been promising to introduce federal legislation for 2 decades, so passage of the measure wasn’t much in doubt.. Even so, the bill created enormous political turmoil in the country. When 2 MPs in the conservative Reform Party spoke out against the measure by saying it was acceptable for businesses to discriminate against homosexuals and other minorities, the party’s Parliament leader, Preston Manning, expelled them from the party caucus, saying "It is not all right for employers to fire any employee simply because an intolerant customer complaints about their color or lifestyle." Even the ruling Liberal Party showed signs of the tension the measure had brought to Canadian politics. And outside the Parlimnent building, Justice Minister Allan Rock, who formally introduced the legislation in behalf of the government, was greeted by p,rotesters who called him "Alice Rock" and mocked Prime Minister Jearl Chritien as "’Jeanne :. Chritien." The legislation now goes to the ~ upper house of Parliament, the Senate, ¯ where it is also expected to pass by a : comfortable margin. The measure also requires the royal assent of Canada’ s governor- general, which is litde more than a political, formality. Only 6 nations- Norway, Sweden, Holland, Slovenia, Israel and South Africa -have enacted federal legislation prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation. Bosnian War Crimes Nightmare TIlEHAGUE2 Almost ignored by mainstream news media, the War Crimes Tribunal at The Hague has received detailed evidence of atrocities conunitted during the 4-year-long Bosnian civil war cente.ring on reports of male rape as a war tactic and as a method of intilnidating and controlling prisoners. According to doc~unents supplied to the Tribunal by Dr. Mladen Loncar of the Medical Center for Human Rights in Zagreb, at least 4,000 Croatian men were victims of these rapes and sexual assaults - and Loncar says his figures are conservative estimates of Croats alone. At the height of the complex fighting in the Balkans, there were an estimated 80,000 men in intenmmnt camps - Serbs, Croats, Mnslims. Loncar’s medical facility currently sees more than 200 such men who coutinue to live in the general region. Most, Loncar says, have fled to nearby COUlltries as political’refugees - if they survived the attacks at all. Of the patieuts seen at Loncar~ s ~nedical center for severe post-trannmtic distress disorders, most (70 percent) suffered repeated injuries to their genitals. Many of the inert (25 percent) were tortured I~y having objects forced up their rectums. Man)’ prisoners (22 percent) reported they had been forced, under threats of death, to perform fellatio mad other sexual acts with other male prisoners, and about 11 percent had suffered at least partial castration. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Upheld by Court WASHINGTON - In the continuing war over the constitutionality of the U.S. nfilitary’s "’don’t ask, don’t tell" policy, Lt. Paul Thomasson, a former naval ofricer discharged for revealing that he is gay, has lost an important battle in a federal appeals court decision. The U.S. 4th Circuit Court of Appeals in Virginia upheld the policy bamting openly homosexual women and men from serving in the nation’s maned forces. The case has national significance because it is the first ruling involving the"don’ t ask, don’ t tell" policy to reach the federal appeals level. Alan Moore, Thomasson’s attorney, argued that the military policy of excluding gays and lesbians from the armed services was both unconstitutiolml and unreasonable, considering the young officer’s outstanding record. Moore also took the unusual step of adding First Amendment free-speech claims on top of Fifth and FourteenthAmendment"due process" and "equal protection" arguments that have been more widely used in batding the Pentagon ban in the past. But the appeals court would have none of it and ruled that the president and Congress retain the right to set military policies, and that thejudicial branch should defer to .them. "It was appropriate for Congress to bdieve that a military force should be as free as possible of sexual attachments and pressures as it is prepared to do battle," wrote Judge J. Harvie Wilkonson III in the 9-to-4 majority opinion. The court’s ruling is now applicable throughout the 4th circuit, which includes Vir_,2inia, Maryland West ¥irginia, North CarOlina and South~arolina. Tllomasson and his attorney are now deciding whether to appeal the ruling to the U.S. Supreme Court. MO St. GOP’s Antii Marriage Campaign : ST. LOUIS - In a highly controversial ¯¯ election cmnpalgn tactic that Republican leaders around the country are watching ¯ closely; the head of the Missouri Repub- ¯ lican Party, John Cozad, has launched attacks against Democrats running for state office, accusing them of having financial backing from supporters of samesex marriages. But Republica!~s rumling for office in the state, inclnding many who are seeking election to the state legislature, are grumbling because the attack campaigns are being operated in their races whether they want them or not. And so far in two special election races, the Republicans have lost both campaigns. Not all Republicans running for office in Missouri, however, agree with Cozad on the campaign. Republican Bill Patrick, who lost in the just-finished special decdon in the state’s 6th legisIative district, publicly apologized to his Democratic opponent for thesame-sex marriage campaign launched by the Republicans on his behalf. He called the attack "pretty negative, pretty bad." State GOP strategists in Ohio,, Wisconsin, Oregon and elsewhere, however, say they’re interested in seeing how the same-sex marriage link works as a campaign strategy in Missouri. Helms Ads Attack ¯ Opponents & Gays ¯ RALEIGH, N.C. - Apparently impatient ¯ to get on with the election, Sen. Jesse ¯ Helms (R-NC) has launched a series of ¯ TV ads attacking both the Delnocratic ¯ primary candidates, Harvey Gantt and ¯ Charlie Sanders in a bit of gay-baiting, ; saying both supportdomesticpartner ben- ¯ efits. "Liberal Charlie Sanders supports : racial preferences in hiring, like Harvey ¯ Gantt does, the Hdms ads say. Extend- " ing health insurance to homosexual part- " ners? 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In a press statement, Gantt blasted the Helms TV campaign as "lies and distortions" and said he has never even addressed the issue of health care benefits for the partners of gays and lesbians. British Transsexual Wins Court Case LUXEMBOURG - A Comwall College tutor, identified only as "P" in court records, whowas sackedafterasex-change operation, has won a European Court of Justice battle over the discharge. Thecourt campus ROTC program. The faculty-ap- ¯ proved program would also reimburse ¯ students in ROTC if they shouldlose their ." military scholarships because of their ¯ sexual orientation. ¯ Station Drops Show : That Attacked Gays ¯ AUSTIN, Texas - The Texas Triangle ¯ has reported that officials at KIXL-AM, a ¯ Christian-oriented radio station in Austin, have decided to pull the plug on Wyatt ¯ Roberts’ weekly talk show. Roberts, who is affiliated with the American Family Assn., had called for listeners to boycott ¯ any business that advertised in the gay : newspaper, charging that the Triangle’s ruled that the European Equal Treatment ¯ editorial cartoonist promoted pedophilia, agreement of 1976 prohibits any discrimi- -" incest and bestiality. KIXLofficials would nation based on sex and is not limitedjust to bias based onan individual being ofone gender or the other. The court ruled that the anti-bias provision, which concerns all members of the European Union, should apply "to discrimination arising, as in this case, from the gender reassignment of the person concerned." The ground-breaking decision incensed Euroskeptic Tory MPs in Great Britain and Tory MP Ann Winterton accused the European Court of "meddling" in British legal issues. Anothd~ Tory MP, Elizabeth Peacock, also attacked the court decision. "Ourrules aremadeby Parliament and are sovereign," she said. "They should not be overturned by a European court. Tli~ey should mind their own business." British government officials, said it was unclear if UK law would have to be changed to conform to the court ruling. Some political leaders say the rnling is so sweeping that it in fact may force the government to drop its ban against homosexuals in the nation’s armed forces. MIT Moves on ROTC Bias CAMBRIDGE, Mass. - Faculty members at the Massachusetts Institute ofTechnology voted ovenvhdmingly by a voice vote for the school to negotiate withROTC officials for a "modified program" that would allow students to enroll in the campus military program regardless of their sexual orientation. The move is an effort to keep the ROTC program, which also serves students from Harvard, Tufts and Wellesley, at MIT - along with some $56 million in Pentagon funds - without violating the school’s own anti-bias policies that bar discrimination against gays and lesbians. The proposal endorsed by the faculty concedes that openly gay or lesbian students in ROTC would not be eligible for commissions as long as the Pentagon maintains the ban on homosexuals in the armed forces, but would allow gay and lesbian students to participate in the ." only say that Roberts’ program was being ¯ cancded because of "scheduling conflicts," but Kay Longcope, the Triangle’s ¯ publisher said she believes the ; fundamentalist’s boycott campaign : backfired on him and brought pressure on ¯ the station to yank the program. "I think it -" [the decision to cancel the program] speaks "_ very well for the people of Austin who really do not believe that Christianity is "- based on hate," Longcope said ¯¯ Dole Campaign Ad in DC Gay Paper ¯ WASHINGTON - Senate Majority Leader Bob Dole’s capital campaign or- : ganization has put an ad in the May3 issue : of the WashingtonBladeurgingreaders to ¯ vote for a slate of committed Dole del- ¯ egates. An uncommitted slate, including : seven openly gay Republicans is chal- ¯ lenging the Dole slate, and has already ¯ been endorsed by the District’s local Log ¯ Cabin Club. Many political observers ¯ believe the challenge from the uncommit- ." tedslate prompted theKansas Republican ¯ andpresurned presidentialnominee’s cam- " paagn to put the ad in the paper. The Dole ¯ campaign ad came just days after news ," that Abner Mason, a gay Boston Republi- ." can activist and Log Cabin Club officer, ¯ would be one of Massachusetts’ GOP ¯" delegates to the Republican National Con- ." vention in San Diego later this year. Ma- ¯ son Is a committed Dole delegate. Dole ¯ has had an on-off record with gays during ¯ ¯ his currentpresidential campaign. Earlier this year a $1,000 campaign contribution ¯ from Log Cabin was returned to the groups ¯ PAC organization. Dbleinitially defended ; the returned check, saying he didn’t want ." voters to think he was "buying into some : special rights for any group." But later he ¯ said returning the check had been"a mis- ; take" and blamed his campaign staff for ; the blunder. Even so, Dole agreed during the caucus campaign in Iowa to sign a ¯ Chi’istian.Coalitionpledge opposing samesex mamages. Is Drag Constitutional? FERNDALE, Mich. - The good folks of Ferndale, just outside. Detroit, have become embroiled in a debate over whether some guys putting on dresses to perform in a variety show is constitutionally protected freedom of speech and expression, or if it violates community standards and can therefore be prohibited. The flap has erupted almost a year after the fact, but that liasn’t lowered the heat of the debate over the LavenderMoonCafe’s drag show after Gay Pride celebrations there last year. City Councilman RobertPaczkowski has been leading the opposition, and he said recently that "’a lot of people don’t want that kind of a display right in the middle of our central business district." Paczkowski says Lavender Moon’s entertainment license includes restrictions barfing topless dancing, lingerie shows, and any entertainment that"violates community standards," which he says includes guys dressing up as gals. Town OKs Partner Registration BOULDER, Colo. - About the only positive news recently in the growing battle over same-sex relationships came in the purely symbolic form of a domestic partnership re~stration program approved by the Boulder city council. The registry cames no legal benefits, but allows samesex & opposite-sex couples to legally register their relationship with the city clerk’s office. Proponents said the program could make it easier for registered couples to provide proofof their relationships in seeking work-related benefits. Olympic Games: Utah & Cobb Cty. ATLANTA - The 1996 Summer Olympic Games preliminaries are getting underway with the Saturday, April 27, televised start of the torch that starts in Los Angeles and will be relayed across the counto’ to Atlanta where it will light the official Olympicflame for the games there on July 19 - although not quite the way US Olympic officials expected. Tobegin with, officials at the Los Angeles Coliseum, where the torch relay begins, have been complai~ting that they’re had trouble find fig [eaves big enough to cover up the genitals on 2 statues of nude athletes outside the stadium. The cover-up order came from the Atlanta Committeefor the Olympic Ganges, which said they were concerned that some viewers of the nationally televised ceremony might be offended by the nudity. ButACOGalso has announced that the torch relay would not go through Cobb County outside Atlanta because county commissioners have refused to repeal a 1993 measure that condemns"the homosexual lifestyle." That resolution was also responsible for ACOG’s decision, under pressure from acuvists and rights advocates, to pull scheduled Olympicpreliminaries from facilities in the county. Olympic officials, however, said the passage of a measure ~n Utah barring gay dubs at public schools would not make them reroute the torch around the state. Utah Lawmakers Ban Gay Clubs SALT LAKE CITY - Called into special session, the Utah state legislature spent a nasty day enacting a measure that would bar gay and lesbian student groups from public schools in the state, a measure that Gov. Mike Leavitt has already indicated ’he would sign into law and for which he called the special session. The state’s ACLU has already vowed that if the measure is signed into law, as it’s sure to be, it will sue to overturn it. "Not only does it violate the rights of lesbian, gay and straight students," said Carol Gnade of the American Civil Liberties Union in Utah, "but also everyone associated with a Utah high school, including teachers, administrators and volunteers." Under the lawjust approved by the legislature, school boards will have the authority to restrict or bar any campus club, but in addition, the measure also forces public school officials to ban any that are centered around bigotry, criminal activity or human sexuality. Gov. Mike Leavitt and the measure’s sponsor, Sen. Craig Taylor, insisted that the new law takes back control of campus clubs by allowing school boards to prohibit specific dubs. The Utah attorney general has already indicated that barfing campus clubs that are "controversial" is illegal under the 1984 federal Equal Access Act. Forget Nature-vs- Nurture; It’s Bingo! MILWAUKEE - A judge has tossed out a civil lawsuit filed by 73-year-old Mary Verdev against a local church, claiming she began having spontaneous orgasms and became sexually attracted to other women after an electronic bingo board fell on her 6 years ago. Verdev’s suit was dismissed "’with prejudice" (meaning she can’t refile the claim) because she refused to be examine by psychologists. Verdev said in her suit that she suffered nearly $90,000 in injuries when the 300-pound bingo board fell from a stage at the church during a bingo night she was attending in 1990. Her suit claimed the accident led to her unusual sexual responses. APERMANENT SOLUTION Permanent Hair Removal Carol Anwar, RE, CPE Lic. By Okla, St, Med, Bd. 488-0786 Near 71st & Lewis, Call for info. or an-appt, with free consultation. P IAlrERSON REALTORS" LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: ~71-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . 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The issue of mandatory testing of infants has been problematic for many because it necessarily amounts to a virtual inandatory testing of the mother as well. Critics of the provision say ~t may discourage pregnant women from seeking prenatal care altogether. President Clinton has indicated he supports the bill and will sign it into law quickly. Early-Stage Hiding PlaceOf HIV ? NEW YORK - Reporting in tli’e’medical journal Science, researchers say they be~ lieve the mucous’membranes in the throat may be the locatirn where HIV replicates in hiding after individuals are infected with the virus but still show no out,yard signs of the infection. The researchers, led by Ralph Steirmaan of Rockefeller University, said they made the discovery after examining enlarged adenoids removed from 13 patients and found large mnounts of the virus replicating in the glands’ dendritic cells, the inm~une cells found in the membranes. Eleven of the 13 i;ffected people were una~vare at the time tb.at they were l=IIV-positive. New PCR Test for HIV Is Less Reliable CHICAGO - Stanford University researchers report in the Annals oflnternal Medicine that the new polymerase chain reaction (PCR) AIDS test, which is based on the presence of elements ofDNA from HIV in the body, is less reliable than older tests that rely on the presence of antibodies to the virus. The researchers found that even with the daborate precautions requiredin PCR testing, the results return 5 umes as many false results as the more widely used antibody testing methods. PCR testing is also significantly more expensive and costs between $150 and $200, compared to standard antibody tests, which range in price from $5 to $50. The advantage of the PCR test is that it can be administered earlier: to newborns because other tests rely on the formation of antibodies to the"virus, which often don’t show up for 6 months following infection. KS Virus May Be Common in All Men BOSTON - A report in the New England Journal ofMedicine says the virus that is believed responsible for Kaposi’s sarcoma, a rare cancer that strikes many AIDS patients, is found in the sexual ¯ organs ofmostmen. Researchers with the ¯¯ Institute of Microbiology at the University of Ferrara in Italy report they found ¯ the KS-related virus, known as KSHV, in 30 of 33 semen samples of health Italian ¯" men - a 91% infection rate. The scientists ¯ also say they found the virusin the urinary ¯ tracts, in the prostates, and other areas of ¯ the genital organs of other health men as ¯ well. The scientists say they believe indi- ¯ viduals with healthy immune systems can ." live with the virus present in their bodies ¯ without any.apparent problems, but that ¯ when the immune system is weakened, as ¯ it is when infected with HIV, the KS virus ¯ appears to become active. Drug Combo Looks Effective \VASHINGTON - A 73-week study by drug manufacturer Hoffman-La Roche of some 978 AIDS patients has shown that Invirase, the brand name for the firm’s version of the protease inhibitor saquinavir, in combination with the drug ddC, reduced the rate of deaths by more than two-thirds compared to patients taking ddC alone. Saqtunavir has been considered the least impressive of the new protease inhibitors, but the new findings, which have not yet been published, have prompted the drug manufacturer to ask the Food & Drug Administration to allow the new information to be added to the drug’s label. "HIV Cell Infection i Agent- Isolated WASHINGTON-Governmentscientists report they ha~[.e discovered a chemical ¯ clue to why HIV is infectious. Reporting ¯ in the journal Science, researchers at the Nadonal Institute of Allergy and Infections Diseases say they have found a pro- . tein, which they call "fusin," that must be ¯ present for HIV to infect white blood cells,.the primary target of the virus. Edward A. Berger, who headed the team that made the discovery, said the discovery gives scientists a "new handle on under- ; standing" how HIV invades cells. "Obvi- ] onsly this is a potential target for develop- . mg new drugs to treat HIV infection," Berger said. "Potentially by coming up ¯ with a drug that blocks the receptor, you : might block the .ability of HIV to repli- ¯ cate." The researchers cautioned, how- " ever, that there were still~ many mysteries ¯ about the virfis that need to be answered. ¯ Among other things, they noted that HIV ¯ attaches itself to some types Of immune ¯ cells in the early stages of the infection ~ without using fusin. This means HIV ¯ comes in variations that connect to CD4 cells and some other molecular cofactor ¯ or cofactors on these cells. Berger said ¯ that potential, drugs that block, the fusin receptor on cells could only do part of the job in combating HIV. Increase in HIV After Tetanus Shots ¯ BOSTON - Researchers with the Na- ¯ tional Institute of Allergy & Infectious ¯ Diseases have reported in the New En- ~ gland Journal of Medicine that tetanus ¯ shots can cause a dramadc ~ncrease in the reproduction of HIV in the body. After ¯ g~ving tetanus shots to people infected ; with HIV, the researchers found they had a 2- to 36-fold increase in HIV levels. The scientists also found that ~ blood samples from uninfected individu- SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locationsto serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. 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HemoCleanse’s treatment, similar to kidney dialysis, involves slowly drawing all a patient’s blood from his body in small quantifies and heating it to 108 degrees Fahrenheit before infusing it back into his body. The idea behind the treatment is that HIV is sensitive to even small increases in temperature and would be destroyed in massive quantities by the treatment. Sixty patients will be divided into 2 groups during the trials. One group will receive 2 treatments each - the first for 1 hour, and the 2nd fo~ 2 hours. The other group will serve as a control group and will not receive the heat treatment, but will remain on standard HIV drug therapy. HIV & Gene Therapy " Research BOSTON" - Researchers report in the journal Science that use of a genetically benign version of HIV may be the key to an importantbreakthrough in gene therapy treatment, serving as the carrier system or "vector" to deliver therapeutic genes to target cells in the human body. Researchers with the Salk Institute in San Diego and the Whitehead Institute in Cambridge, Mass., have reported that they successfully used the HIV vector to inject therapeutic genes in the cells of live rats in laboratory experiments, ff the use of the HIV vector proves as successful inhuman gene therapy, the researchers say it could be a potentially important treatment for such genetic disorders as cystic fibrosis, muscular dystrophy and Alzheimer’s dis- Genetically Altered AIDS Vaccine Fails BE!’HESDA, Md. - Government officials say a 5-year study of the genetically engineered AIDS vaccine, gpl60, has shown the prevention effort is not effective in halting the progress of the disease in people. The study, one of the first of its kind, used the Microgenesys experimental vaccine and was a joint venture between the Walter Reed Army Institute of Research and the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Disease in conjunction with private medical facilities. With some 600 military and civilian volunteers, the study showed no improvement in their ability to fend off the infection. gin, transmission and statistics of infection for each community, and (b) quarantine those known to be infected and practicing high-risk behavior. Page 7-8, SEXUAL PERVERSION Plank 1-3~ Homosexuality is not an alternate lifestyle, a genetic abnormality or a civil rights matter, but is instead a consciou~ individual choice of an abominal sin practice. Such behavior has been a major factor in the demise of societies from Sodom and Gomorra to the Empires of Ottoman, Greece and Rome. Homosexlaal behavior is the principle cause of the spread of AIDS in America. We, therefore, condemn not the person but the practice of homosexual behavior, and oppose the ominous political powers being given homosexuals in the United States. We believe that the practice of homosexuality is an abomination before God and a perversion of the natural law and is indicative of severe diseases. We believe that legislation condoning homosexuality would confer public acceptability of this activity and would lead inexorably to the destruction of our nation. Plank 4-6: We believe that homosexuals, sodomites, and other sexually perverse people shonl~i not be entitled to special or extraordinarY rights. We affirm that homosexual behavior is not a constitutionally protected right and that homosexuals area behavi~al group not deserving of special protection under the law. Because homosexuals are not deserving of minority status, we oppose all "’Gay Rights" legislation. We urge that federal and state funding we withheld from all states and or municipalities that enact homosexual "fights" legislation. Plank 8+9: We support the retention and enforcement ofsodomy laws in Oklahoma. We urge vigorous arrest and pros- .ecufion of all those violating laws regardxng the promotion of homosexual behavior. Plank 17+18: Toprotect family values, we urge that those promotiug an alternative lifestyle by restricted from positions of influence of minor children. \Ve do not recognize homosexuality as a normal lifestyle, therefore we oppose any mandated education curriculum or special rights based on affirmative action for ho~ mosexuals. Plank 20+21: We strongly oppose permitring homosexuals to teach in the public school systems. We oppose the hiring of homosexual teachers, administrators, or counselors. Hank 22-24: We oppose the establishment of homosexual dubs in schools. We hold that portraying the homosexual lifestyle in any positive manner in our schools is heresy. Weoppose the National Education Association’s efforts to promote the homosexual agenda in our nation’s schools. Plank 27-29: We submit that legally recognized marriages to be limited to a traditional monogamous heterosexual relationship, with only these mamages allowed current tax and legal benefits. We oppose same-sex marriages. We support federal and state legislation prohibiting legal recognition ofsame sex "marriages" in the event such unions are made legal by another state. Hank- 30: We believe that the federal government should alterappointments and employment practices that would place homosexuals in sensitive and responsible positions. benefiting Tulsa Area AIDSAgencies June 21&221996 Warren Place Doubletree Hotel Dinner, Cash Bar and Performance TICKETS ON SALE AT ALL CARSON ATTRACTIONS OUTLETS OR BY PHONE: 584-2000 550 N. Memorial Kacie Gordon pager: 672-8905 Joni Ledbetter pager 670-5664 Any Sale - 2% over invoice with ad. Sunday Services 11:00 am ¯ Wednesday Services 6:30 pm, 7:30 pm Choir Practice ¯ Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group I To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly zoith our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Mingo Tulsa, OK 74146 . (918) 622-1441 ’96 Pride Picnic JUNE 15 Noon - 5:00 prn Opening Ceremony, lpm ¯¯ Blessing by the Rev. Leslie Penrose ¯ Welcome by TOHR president Debbie Starnes ¯ Performances by local entertainers, including Miss Gay Tulsa & Miss Tulsa USofA, and Tulsa Family Chorale! Throughout the afternoon, ¯ DJ will provide music throughout the day ¯ Booths with vendors, community organization info., crafts, etc. ¯ Food for modest cost ¯ Free beverage.s ¯ Volleyball & tennis court available ¯ Kids’ playground ¯ Security provided all day ¯ Closing ceremony, with benediction by RF Renfro & Freedom Balloon Extravaganza! If you want to have a "booth," call Tom at 583-1248 before June 1st. Be a part of the Pride Picnic! - To volunteer, call 743-4297. Edison St. ~ To Sand Springs, 1-412 Directions: From Tulsa, take Keystone Expressway West towards Sand Springs. Exit Gilcrease Rd. turn right (North) on Gilcrease Road to Edison St. and turn right (East) on Edison, go about 1/2 mile. Owen Park is on the right. Parking is on the Southeast corner of the park, near Roosevelt School. 1-244 (DowTunlstoawn) 7 LSA FAMI.LY NEWS COMMUNITY CALE R SUNDAYS Agape’ Christian Fellowship Service, 10:30 am & 7 pm Sheridan Center, Suite H 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 Bless the Lord At All .Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am 262To East 1 lth 583-7815 Community of Hope (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Worship Service, 11 am 545 I-E South Mingo. Info: 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 MONDAYS TUESDAYS HIV Testing HIV+ Support Group TOHR Clinic ¯ HIV Resource Consortium Free & anonymous testing " 1:30 pm using fingerstick method. ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 No appointment required. " Info~ Wanda @ 749-4194 Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm : Results hours: 7-9 pm ¯ Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. Info: 742-2927 Lambda Bowling League Sheridan Lanes 8:45 pm 3121 S. Sheridan PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Monday of month, 6:30 pm 4154 S, Harvard Info: 749-4901 OTHER GROUPS TOHR Helpline Daily 8-10 pm For info. or to volunteer: 743:GAYS The Technicians, Leather org., Info c/o 621-5597 T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Assoc. Info: 838-1222 ¯ HIV/AIDS:Support Group & ¯ Friends & Family ¯¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group 7 pro, call for location: 749-7898 Grief Group Butler/Stumpff ¯ Funeral Home 2103 E. 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 Alternative Skating 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 $4, Sand Springs Skate ¯ WEDNESDAYS ¯ Agape’ Christian : Fellowship ¯ Service, 7 pm ¯ Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth Call 583-7815 for info. Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. Community of Hope (United Methodist) Service for Peace, 6:30 pm Bible Study, 7 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention ProJect Support group for Gay & Bi Native Ameri&m Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd 582-7225 or 584-4983 ¯ THURSDAYS 16-Step Empowerment Group For Women : Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E.2nd, Info: 585-1800 " Co-Dependency ¯ Support Group : 7;30; Family of Faith MCC : 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 HIVTestingTOHRClinic i Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm. Results hours: 7 - 9 pm Info: 742-2927 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group Ist & 3rd Thursdays 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 ¯ Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIViAIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pm, hffo: 749-4194 ¯ SATURDAYS ¯¯ St. Jerome’s Ecumenical Catholic Church ¯" Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel ¯ 3841 S. Peoria ¯ Info: Father Rick ¯ at 742-7122 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at 11 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt Sewing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 OTHER GROUPS Gay & Lesbian Student Association TJC Southeast Campus, Info:-631-7632 SWAN-Sip~gle Women’s Activ@ Network Call 832-2121 MAY 17-19 Herland Sister Resources Retreat Roman Nose State Park Registration deadline: 5/15 Info: 2312 NW 39th, OKC 73112 HIVIAIDS & SpiritualitylWholeness Retreatfor Women, Info: 488-9215 SATURDAY, MAY 18 Pride Picnic Benefit, Lola’s 2630 E. 15th, 749-1563 SUNDAY, MAY 19 Interfaith AIDS Minitries 13th InternationalAIDS Candlelight Memorial & Mobilization 3 pro, St. Peter’s Episcopal, 9100 E. 21St Info: 438-2437 SATURDAY, JUNE 1 Ecumenical Pride Worship Service 6 pm, St. Jerome’s hosting at The Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria Info: Father Rick, page 646-7116 SUNDAY, JUNE 2 Pride Picnic Benefit - The Tool Box 1338 E. 3rd, 584-1308 TUESDAY, JUNE 4 TOHR, PFLAG & Rainbow Business Guild present Cece Cox, pres. ofthe Dallas Gay & Lesbian Alliance 7 pm, Chouteau Ran, Chapman Ctr, TU, Dinner: $10, Speech: free,Info: 743-4297 FRIDAY, JUNE 7 Safe Haven Lake Cookout. Social gatheringfor young adults, 18-30 8 pm, Family of Faith MCC 5451-E S. Mingo, Info: 622-1441 Pride Picnic Benefit - The Silver Star 1565 S. Sheridan, 834-4234 SATURDAY, JUNE 8 TOHR Citywide Pride Prom All ages, alcohol-free dance 8 pm, Alan Chapman Activity Cti. TU, Dignity/Integrity Meeting Lesbian/Gay Catholics & Episcopalians 5 pm, St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church 5635 E. 71st, Info: POB 701044, 74170 SUNDAY, JUNE 9 Pride Picnic Benefit, Concession~ 3340 S. Peoria, 744-0896 MONDAY, JUNE 10 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group, 6:30 pm Social and Refreshments. 7 pm General Meeting, 7:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Info: 749-4901 SATURDAY, JUNE 15 Tulsa Pride Picnic Noon - 5pm. Owen Park 560 No. Maybelle, Info: 583-1248 SUNDAY, JUNE 16 Family ofFaithMCCFather’s Day Service With Father Rick Hollingsworth 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 JUNE 21 a 22 Follies Revue, Inc. Follies ’96 Salutes the Movies! 6 pm, Doubletree Hotel, Warren PlaCe $125 & $40, Info: 437-0201 SUNDAY, JUNE 23 Statewide Pride Rally & Parade Speaker: Donna Red Wing ’92 Advocate Woman ofthe Year 1:30 pro, Memorial Park, NW 35th & Classen Blvd. Oklahoma City Info: 743-4297 or 405-791-0202 OUT + ABOUT by J.D. Jamett What can I say, this last month truly did have its showers and flowers. The turnabout show at the Silver Star was a rose. that never smelled more sweeter, & the staff truly did surprise themselves when they let their less masculine sides show. On the other hand, the Miss Gay Tulsa America at the Performing Arts Center got rained on- no fault of the orgamzers or performers. The technical staff at the P.A.C. constantly missed lighting and sound cues - whathappened? Our sympathies to the entertainers and organizers. This next month holds alot offun things todo starting with Renegades" annual GayFest (May 17- 19) which features Dark Shadows (drag in broad daylight!) and other fun things tO do all outside. That same weekend, you may venture back inside on May 17 for a live performance by Abigail at Concessions that should very entertaining then May 23, the Red Ribbon Ice Revue call 254-7272 for more details. In June, don’t forget Miss Northeastern Oklahoma USofA at The Silver Star (June 23). Pride Picnic Update Show your pride in the community and help make this year’s Pride Picnic the best Kelly Green, Miss Gay Tulsa America runners-up, JJ Gentry & Sugarbaker ever by seeing any or all of the following benefit shows: Lola’s on May 18th, the Toolbox hosted by Sensuous on May26th and the Silver Star on June 7th. This month I’m proud to feature, not an establishment, but a community within our .community, Community of Hope. It’s not just a church, but a place where you feel like a person, notjust a number.Leslie Penrose is the pastor.She’is one of these rare people you are truly proud to call a friend. This church has a lot tO offer, for ex, ample, chances to work in the commu- .nity through programs like their RAIN team training, feeding the homeless, meals on .wheels, small symposiums on a variety of different subjects, and social events such as small dinner groups and movie nights. I’ll say it a again- it’s not justachurch butacommunity! Services are very convenient on Sunday evening at 6pm at 1703 East 2nd Street. Giveit achance, Monique Foster, the new Miss Silver Star you may just like it. & Bobbi Sue Summers OK, OK, boy, did I ¯ open up a big make-up ¯ case with the Queen of the Month (see ¯ letter to the editor). Sorry Katherine, but : licking may face does constitute begging. ¯ Well, this month’s Queen of the Month is ¯ constandyhelpingpeople- doingbenefits ¯ &helping as aresearchnurse on HIV drug : studies.That’s right, Danny (TeraTaneal), ¯ youareMay’sQueenoftheMonth.Thanks : for all your hard work! Till then, see ya out + about. Fina y....Unity Gardens A final resting place in peace, unity and pride... located in Washington Memorial Gardens Cemetery 4300 E. 91st Street South On 91st Street between Yale & Harvard. Unity Gardens has been designed for the Gay and Lesbian Community, and those who support our unity. Did you know that there is no cemetery in Tulsa that will allow companions to be buried together recognizing them as a couple, or~’recognizing your sexual orientation as an individual? Actually there is no place in the United-States who will, UNTIL NOW~ We are the first celnetery in the United States to offer a special section of our cemetery just for Gays & Lesbians, and their family and friends. We offer burial spaces, columbarium for cremated remains, and scattering gardens with a memorial wall, in this new-ly expanded and renovated-section of Washington Memorial Gardens Cemetery. The Pride flag will proudly fly in the center of Unity Gardens to always remind us of our struggle in life for unity and pride. If you have purchased a plot elsewhere, you may be able to transfer or trade your burial plots. For more information, please call Russell Langley-Stumpff at 918-587-7000. ***Owned and operated by Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home*** A Friendly Place to Stay KING’S HI-WAY INN "96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62 W Eureka Springs, AR 72632 (501) 253-7311 1-800-231-1442 Jerry A. Wilson, owner ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 0 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC of the Living Spring ....a community of friends... Rev. Kermie Wohlenhaus Pastor We welcome you to attend! Services held Sunday evenings at 7 o’clock 17 Elk Street (at the Unitarian Church) Eureka Springs, AR 72632 501-253-9337 Raven/Redhawk Enterprises Phyl Boler-Schmidt Systems & Software Specialist POB 429, Eureka Springs 72632 501,253.2776 Books, Incense, Candles and Rainbows/ Plus lots morel (501) 25315445 45&1/2 Spring Street Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com AUTHENTIC FRESH ITALIAN RAINBOW CUSINE TROUT ofEureka Springs Recommended by - The New York Times (501) 253-6807, Closed Wednesday 5Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 Jim & .Brent’s Bistro Calendar ofEvents Friday, May 24 &-Thursday, May 25 -- Richard Johnson, acoustic guitar Thurs. May 30th & Fri. May 31st Music on the deck, Lunch, 11:30-2:30, Dinner 5-11 pm. Bistro Beat Etc. May 30th through June 2nd Eureka Springs.Blues Festival Stop by our house for a taste of local flavor. Dine outside on the patio & porch or in our three beautiful dining rooms. Fine food at an affordable price. Gay.owned, Operated & Rainbow Proud By Allan Beard, Baltimore GayPaper Like most other gay resort areas, Provincetown shares the three traits all held in common - sun, sand and surf. And like its southern sister city Key West, it is a remote village located on a narrow strip of landjutting out into the Adantic Ocean, accessible only to those who seek it out. One does not pass through Key West or Provincetown; one goes there to be there. Andwhile Provincetown’ s waters are significandy cooler than those of Florida’s southern most city, it is not the water that attracts tens of thousands of lesbians and gay men to this Massachusetts Cape Cod village each year - it’s the lesbians and gay men that is the attraction. Just who first walked the sandy beaches that surround Provincetown is in little doubt. And while Native Americans can lay claim to the cape, it was the white European immigrants who built the fishmg village that was to become Provincetown. Pilgrims from the May flower first walked ashore in 1620; a monument commemorating that event stands’ atop High Pole Hill overlooking the town an harbor. For the most part, Provincetown grew up over three centuries as a fishing village. Filled with the homes and shops of a 18thcentury fishing village, Provincetown is rich in period architecture with an impressive harbor and quaint atmosphere one comes to expect from a New England port town. It is surrounded by beaches, dunes and the Atlantic. Isolated at the end of Cape Cod, Provincetown has long attracted artists,individualists and free spirits. Very much like Key West, the 3,700 year-round residents have a live-and-let- ¯ live attitude, which clearly appeals to the ¯ many thOUsands of lesbians and gay men that flock there every, summer. ¯ The village has two main streets, Com- " mercial Street and Bradford Street, which ¯ run parallel for nearly three miles. They are intersected bynumerous smaller streets ¯ beginning at the harbor and continuing ¯ back to the dunes. It is a town filled with guest houses, restaurants, galleries, bou- : tiques and shops. It also has its share of ¯ typical beach community tourist busi- ¯ .nesses, but in Provincetown they don’t ¯ seem to intrude on the town’s quiet character. ¯ The Provincetown Business Guild rep- ¯ resents more than 200 businesses that welcomelesbian and gay tourists. Founded ¯ in 1978 the guild is dedicated to enhanc- ¯ ing the vacation experience of gay people ¯ , visiting the cape. Lesbian and gay life is readily visible to anyone visiting the town. Couples stroll the shop lined streets ann ~n arm with barely notice given them. On the beach thousands of hard bodied men and buffed lesbians swim, play and sun themselves in the confidence of a shared appreciation of their diversity. At night a not-so subtle sexual energy takes over the town’s main streets as hundreds head to nightclubs and restaurants to party with old acquaintances and new-found friends. It is an atmosphere suited perfectly to the friendly, open lifestyle of this .country’s many lesbian and gay communities. To increase gay visibility and promote gay pride, the ProvincetOwn Business Guild plans special events year-round. For information on these events and to make travel arrangement~,call Vanessa at International Tours at - 341-6866. OK, so maybe you don’t have the time or money to go as far as Provincetown but you still need a get-away and it’s got to be a Gay-friendly place, and affordable! For all that, you can’t beat Eureka Springs. This Victorian jewel has got to have one of the highest per capita Lesbian/ Gay/Bi populatious in the country. And therefore, you can count on finding a friendlyfamily welcome. In fact, it’s possible to spend most of your resting and dining time in Gay or very Gay friendly establishments. This writer canpersonallyrecommendthe food at DeVito’s and dined withJim &Brent at the restaurant the guys had before they opened the well-regarded Bistro. While we haven"t tried Autumn Breeze, we hear it’s excellent also. Lod~ng can vary from the very convenient Kings Hi-Way Inn overlooking a ¯ lovely valley to the unique bed & break- ¯ fast experience of the Woods or Rock ¯ Cottage Gardens or the views of Pond MountainLodge. For very reasonable and ¯ historic rooms, check out the Park Basin Hotel. , In between earing and sleeping, there ¯ are many shops to checkout. They range from tourist tacky to worksof art. One of the most interesting selections is at Crazy ¯ Bone. And be sure to stop in ’to see MC ¯ andLinda, the new ownersoftheEmerald ¯ Rainbow, providing locals, and visitors with Pride stuff and mo~e..: ¯ NoW if you need more.detailed infor- ¯ marion about all your Options in Eureka ¯ Springs, track down Jan & Kim with ¯ P.I.M.P.S. who kiaow what’s available. ¯ And if like many others, you decide to ¯ check out local properties, stop by McClung Realty - they can help. Adult Accommodations In Eureka Springs, Arl~nsas Craftsman-style cottages with beautiful views of the woods and wildlife -.Tucked on top of the Ozark Mountains. just a few rmnutes walk to the Historic Village of Eureka Springs. 501/253-8281 Frank Gr~.en Jr., Host - 50 Wall Street - Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library OK, all of you budding Laurence Oliviers, take notice! ff acting is your profession 9rjust a fun hobby, and you’re having trouble finding quality plays that speak to gays and lesbians, here is the book for you. "The Actor’s Book of Gay and Lesbian Plays" pulls together seventeen plays, chosen by editors (and playwrights), EricLane and Nina Shengold. The criteria for a play’s inclusion in this anthologyis thatitmust have gay or lesbian characters, queer themes or be ofinterest to the gayand lesbian community,regardless of the playwright’s ownsexual orientation. The plays vary widely, from one-acts to full length, comic and dramatic, some interesting while others less so, and a range o_f styles and cast sizes. One of the most interesting aspects of these plays is that not all of them premieredin New York or Los Angeles. One had its .first performance in Shepherdstown, West Virginia~ and another was first heard over the air as a radio play. AIDS, of course, is a topic of a few of these plays. Victor .Bumbalo’s "What Are Tuesdays LaKe. takes place in a hospital waiting room. "The Baltimore Waltz," by Paula Vogel and "Lonely Planet," by Steven Dietz deal with AIDS in more intangible ways. Another interesting entry, "It’s Our Town, Too," by Susan Miller, is just what you might think: a bare stage, queer ver- ...One d the-most interesting aspects of these plays is that not all of them premiered in New York or Los A~ngeles. One hasd.lts first performance m Shepherdstown, West Virginia... sion . of Thornton Wilder’s "Our Town." "Cater,Waiter,"by Eric Lane, is a funny, ironic, ten-minute piece about "eighty-seven gay men and three lesbians serving dinner tO a buncha Reagan cronies" at a. Republican fundraiser. With the current boom of successful queer-themed films, like "Jeffrey" and "The Bird~ge," it shouldn’t, be long until more gay and lesbian friendly " plays start showing.up onstage in mid- : America. When they do, "The Actor’s ¯ Book of Gay and Lesbian Plays" will be ; an excellent resource. ¯ Check for this book, and others on ¯ similar subjects, at your local branch li- ¯ brary or call the Readers Services depart- ’ ment at the CentrallLibrary, 596-7966. byJames Christjohn, EntertainmentNotes While it might seem so at times, this column is not just about me being peevish. It is about a much wider concern of mine. To those in the gay & lesbian community whom I have heard complaining that thereisn’t enough gay theatre, that there is an audience for these shows, that no theatre in town is brave enou,,h to do these kinds of shows; I have only one thing to say. Where were you? Several shows during the TU weekend of One-acts touched on gay issues, mine and Gabriel Washam’s "’Diaries" blatandy so. I had incredible support from Professor Cook ( Thank you!), who feels these plays are important to have done, an incredible cast, & itwas free, for heaven’ s sake! You missed a great set of shows. You had the chance to say, with your pres- To those... corn lainln that t" P" ’ ~ here lsn t enough Gay theatre, that there is an audlenee ~or these shows... I have only one thln¢ to say. Where were you? ence, that there is an audience for these shows, that these shows will draw folks in, that there is a reason to see these shows produced. As Gerald Miller said, "Ain’t gonna happen". He and I spoke of Gay theatre in Tulsa when he was managing Theatre Tulsa. His take was that there wasn’t an audience. Tom and I argued the point, and I now feel his comments were, sadly, justified. ¯ To all of you who expressed interest, & ¯ didn’t put your body where your mouth is ¯ in terms of your presence in the theatre " seat, you’ve helped to kill gay theatre. ¯ If there is no gay theatre in Tulsa, it’s ¯ not that the shows aren’t produced or ¯ people aren’t interested in doing them; it’s because you weren’t there when the ¯ shows were produced. Even when, as in .. this case, the productions are free to the ¯ public! You have no one to blame but yourselves. So don’tlet me hear anyone in the community bemoaning "the lack of gay plays here, because it’s your own fault they aren’t being done. BACP produced an excellent production of Harvey Fierstein’s"On Tidy Endings" some months back_. Thenight Tom &I attended, only 1/4 of the house was filled. And I know there’s enough queens in this town to have filled the theatre. " Sad thing is, many students & faculty. ¯ were talking about doing a production of ¯ "Falsettoland" at TU. Thehigher ups were ." concerned that people wouldn’t come. ¯ One ofmy goals with HIVariations, I’d ¯ hoped, was to prove that there was an ¯ audience. With the lack of community ¯ support of HIVariations, indeed all the ¯ shows that weekend, it seems unlikely ¯ ¯ that this Falsetto, or other shows like it, will be produced. How sad. 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Peoria Tulsa (918) 744-5556 Pet Food Toys & Supplies Grooming & Boarding I Pickup & Delivery I Service Available .I 3213 E. 15th St. 20TH CENTURY FURNISHINGS Wed-Sat 10-5 Sun 12-4 749-3620 H~rry Bel-toi~, Knoll 1952 Worship Service,~.~.3.~) am Sheridan Center, ~’~ite H, 21st & Sheridan, 599-7688 ’96 ECLIPSE SPYDER CONVERTIBLE GS $22,835 by Jean-Pierre, TFNfood critic TFNreaders attending the Great Plains Regional Gay Rodeo in Oklahoma City Memorial Day weekend will be pleased to know that lots of decent restaurants exist in our Capital Cowtown at which they can cozy up to the chuckwagon. Just like Tulsa, most of the national franchises and chain restaurants have stores in Oklahoma City which are concentrated in the Quail Springs Mall area ¯ on Memorial between May and Pennsyl~ vania; near Baptist Hospital at Northwest Expressway and Lake Hefner Parkway; in"oiltown" at Interstate 40 and Meridian; and down on the south side along Interstate 240 between Western and May Avenues. But why eat at some place you can visit at home? After all, half of the tim of traveling to exotic locations is discovering the local cuisine.And, surprisingly, Oklahoma City probably has a lot more decent nonchain restaurants than Tulsa. First, a few words of warning: Many rodeoers will be staying at the Northwest Hilton or at the ever popular Habana Inn both of which have in house dining facilities. Let’s just say that you’ll want to eat off the premises. And don’t even think about room service. \¥qaen you are in downtown OKC, be advised that. there is no place wonderful, and the Myriad Convention Center food is deadly. Nearby though are LaRoea Mexican Restaurant a couple.of blocks west of the Myriad on Rent and there are always the various trendy (translate: long lines, small servings, big prices) establishments and the onmipresent Spaghetti Warehouse in Bricktown several blocks east o.f the Myriad. The Bricktown Brewery is, in our opinion, the Oklahoma microbrewery serving up the best beer made in Oklahoma (but don’t get your hopes up about the food)¯ Wejust wish the Oklahoma legislature didn’t make the microbreweries water the beer to 3.2. Several formerly popular northwest spots are now closed, such as Doc’s at 63rd and Western, Rita’s del Rio on May across from the Northwest Hilton,Pump’s at Grand and \Vestem, Interurban in Fifty Penn Place, and Magnolia Cafe at 66th and Western: We’re also sad to report that due to the new conservative Christian ownership of United Founder’s Tower, the Eagle’s Nest, with its 360 degree revolVing view of Lake Hefner and northwest Oklahoma City, has closed its doors. Never fear, though, there are still lots of fun places to dine and frolic. While on Oklahoma City’s infamous 39th Street Strip, many readers may remember the gastronomically challenging Family Diner, a classic greasy spoon. But better days have come to that location, and completely new proprietors have established the gay owned and operated Pifion Care (moderate cost), which features lots of Southwestern style entrees, heavy on thepasta and chicken, and, while notan all-night establishment, does stay open until 2 a.m., and 3 a.m. on weekends. : The beautiful people and yuppies of ¯¯ OklahomaCity spendmost of their dining ¯ dollars on the strip alongWestern Avenue north of Interstate 44. There is quite a ¯ variety of interesting and worthwhile ¯ places in this area. Anchoring the comer ¯ spot on i-44 is Portobello (expensive), ¯ featuring Tuscan style Italian food and : Italian language tapes in the restrooms. ¯ Another long time Italian spot is Flip’s ¯ -Wine Bar and Trattoria (moderately ¯ expensi.ve), at Grand Boulevard, with a ¯ great selection of by-the-glass wines and ¯ decent food--be sure to check out the After all, half of the fun of traveling_is discovering the local euMne. And, surprisingly, Oklahoma City probably has a lot more decent non-chain restaurants than Tulsa. daily specials. At 64th Street, you will . find the excellent Metro Wine Bar and Bistro (expensive, reservations advised), serving re- ,trial French cuisine, nightly meat and fish specials, and creamy, chilled vichyssoise to die for. Across the street in: Nichols Hills Plhza is the single best restaurant in the st~ite of Oklahoma, ¯ the.Coach House (veryexpensive, reser- ¯ vataons required, dres~ code), featuring ¯ e}quisitely prepared Atnerican haute cui- ¯ sine and impeccable ~ervice. Everyone ¯ should experience the artistry of Chef ~ Kurt Fleishfresser and the elegance of the : Coach House at least once in their life- ¯. time. Crawling back toWestern, at 67th’is the Iguana Lounge (moderate) which is ¯ billed as Acapulco cuisine but we have to ¯ call it avant garde Mexican, and their new .: patio should be open by rodeo time. An ¯ excellent sushi bar is Tokyo Japanese ¯ Restaurant (expensive), just south of ¯ Wilshire, which serves Sapporo beer and ¯ ¯ sushi as good as any Japanese restaurant we’ve visited in the United States. Way : up north at 80th is Let’s Barbecue (inex- ¯ pensive), with basic down home smoked ¯ meats and occasionally fried catfish (if ¯ you remember Let’s at 66th Street, that ¯ location, now closed, went to Let’s ex- ¯ wife in the divorce, andLeomoved north). ¯ Acouple ofother spots popular with the ¯ capital city gay crowdinclude the Painted : Desert (inexpensive) at 36th and Shartel, ¯ whichis your basicburger bar, Pepperoni ¯ G~ill (moderately expensive) in Penn ¯ Square Mall by Dillard’s with eclectic ¯" Italian food, and Bellini’s (expensive) at 63rd and Pennsylvania, which serves up ¯ northern Italian themed food and dell- : cious bellini’s (a peach and champagne ¯ cocktail) with a view of the swan pond ¯ and outdoor seating-- enterfrom the park- " ing garage_ under the Waterford office ¯ building. ¯ Those looking for Oriental foods will ¯ ¯ be excited to spend time in Oklahoma City s Little Saigonareacentered at North- ," west 23rd and Classen. We particularly recommend Lido (moderate) at 24th and : Military (just off Classen near the milk ¯ bottlebuilding), whichhas excellent Viet- : namese food in an elegant setting, and is ¯ popular with many of the state’s power- " ful--we’ve run into Governor Waiters ¯ and several Supreme Court justices here. ¯ Check out the dim sum at Grand House : (moderate),just across the street from the see Food, page 14 n Communicolions does not milk bottle. One of our favorite Chinese restaurants is Dumpling House (moderate) on 23rd just east of Classen, which is patronized by many Chinese and Vietnamese youth (be sure to ask for the English menu). Another excellent Vietnamese and Chinese place is Mirawa (moderate), a bit farther east on 23rd. For Korean food, try Sharon Gardens (inexpensive) on 23rd west of Classen, and for Thai, go to Sala Thai (inexpensive) just a couple of blocks farther west. If seeing all those cowboys wrangle beef on the hoof has you hankering for a big juicy steak, you can’t go wrong with Cattleman’s Care (moderately expensive) in Stockyards City, Exchange Street south of 1-40 (ask for directions). In the Remington Park area at Northeast 50th and Kelly is one of our favorites, Sleepy Hollow (expensive), whichhas nomenus, but serves up big delicious bowls of mashed potatoes, ~avy, and peas family style and huge, wonderful steaks to its horseman and jockey clientele. You can get decent barbecued ribs and an all you can eat special at Oklahoma County Line (moderately expensive) on Northeast 63rd between Kelly and Eastern. And, when the budget gets a little thin, you can find an excellent chicken fried steak sandwich at Chuck House (inexpensive) at Northwest Tenth and Meridian. This should be a big enough list of the better places in Oklahoma City to keep rodeo-goers well fed for one weekend. Just remember, we have McDonald’s in Tulsa. Bon appetit, cowboy. 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(North Central) =18212 JOCK SUPPORTER GWM, 27, 130, 5’7", black hair, brown eyes, seeks lock types, 18-35 , for pleasure and more. Give me a call. (Oklahoma City) =20529 HELP ME WITH MY FIRST TIME Tommy 23 6’1 180 blonde/blu bi curious Iookingfor experienced bi or gayWM 21-35 looking for someone to be my coach, like outdoor activities and sports, romantic evenings at home- (Oklahoma City) =34032 CLEAN CUT GUYS single WM 21, bin/hazel, 6’1 170 clean cut and athletic, looking for SWM 19-25 leave a message and I will get back to you- (Oklahoma City) ~33185 18 YR OLD GUY Brad, interested in Gay men, between 18-35, I am 18, like to meet you, anyone out there who’s interested. (Oklahoma City) =33455 A FINE ROMANCE Aaron, interested in a man that is romantic and likes to have a real good time..leave a message- (Oklahoma City) ATHLETIC MEN Michael 5’10, 145, sandy blond/blue, like to rollerblade movies and swim looking for athletic body builder lyre man, masculine and versatile and have a goal time give me a call (Oklahoma City) =34176 YOUR PLACE OR MINE? GWM, 5’6", brown hair, blue eyes, seeks others, 18-30, for fun and more. This is definitely a no strings attached situation. Call me. (Oklahoma City) =11041 NO FAT’S OR FEM’S GWM, 23, HIV-, 6’5", 190, brown hair and eyes~ good looking, LPN, career oriented, varied interests, seeks others, 20-28 and dominant only, for fun friendship and ho~fully more. You must me drug an~l disease flee as well as local! (Oklahoma City) .=33062 DRUG AND DISEASE FREE ONLY GWM, 42, 5’11, 180; seeks local aggressive men, 20- 42, for fun and pleasure. Give me a call. (Oklahoma City) e32160 THERE,S MOREl GBM, 21,5’3", 160, ’stache, glasses, muscular, seeks others, 19-30, for fun and adventure. Call me for mare information. (Oklahofi~a City) =24106 FIRST TIME JrlTERS Bi Curious WM, 26, 5’8", i60, seeks masculine GHM’s only to teeeh me the pleasures of man to man fun~ Give me a call. (Oklahoma City) =26234 WHERE’S MY DADDY? GWM, new to area and this ti~eslyJe, 5’11", 140, dark hair, seeks others, 24-34 and dominant. Give me a call (Oklahoma City) =21422 READ ME GBM, 5’11", 175, very masculine,. seeks others for fun and more. Once yo~ meet me you’ll never let me go. Give me a call. (Oklahoma City) =21904 DUS11N HOFFMAN LOOK-AUKE Bi WM, 39, married, excellent shape and well end’wd, no~ into cruising, games, CD’s, TS’s or "[~/’s, seeks mature executives 25-35, straight acting and masculine. I~ you’ve had mor~ partners than you have fingers, do not respohd to this! (Oklahoma City) =21266 message. (Oklahoma City) = 19017 TIRED OF BEING SINGLE GWM, 28, blonde hair, green eyes, restaurant mana~ter seeks others into mo~ies, romance and ire~ fulfillment. If you’re ready to pursue a long term relationship, give me a call. (Oklahoma City) =19508 FUN AND MORE FUN GWM, 150, 5’7", good build, brown hair, preen eyes, seeks same for you know what. Give me a cal!. (Oklahoma City) =17161 YOUNG LOVE GWM, 19, 6’, brown hair, blue eyes, variety of interests, seek same, for fun, fr~’’endship and more. You bust be straight acting. (Oklahoma City) ~! 9160 NO CLUBS FOR ME GWM, 28, 6’4", 260, new to Ibis, seeks others to show me mare about bein.q submissive and more. Give me a call. (Oklahoma City) =6584 ARE YOU THE ONE’/GWM, 24, 5’10", blonde hair, brown eyes, into fishingand outdoor adivities, seeks other guys for fun and possibly more. Call me. (Oklahoma City) =151SS LET’S GET DOWN TO BUSINESS GM, 22, varied interests, seeks others for fun and more. Leave me a message. (Oklahoma City) ~r18151 CAN WE LEARN TOGETI~IER? Bi WM, 32, 6’, 160, inexperienced, seeks others, masculine and attractive, to teach me more and possibly learn these things together. Give me a call. (Oklahoma ~ity) ~r7550 GROUP ACTIVITIES GWM 25, 190 6’ .qead build, brown hair, ~qreen eyes, clean shaven, professional, see[cs others for fun, friendship and more. Let’s get tc~gether soon. (Oklahoma City) =7657 NAME IS LARRY GM, 6’, dark features, medium build, into music and romance, seeks top men only. Call me. (Oklahoma City) =49966 BOY NEXT DOOR TYPE I’m new to the area. I’m a 24 year old submissive, boy next door tyl~". I’m 5’11,160!bs, smooth skin, nice bei:h/, HIV negative. I m looking for a butch boy 25 to 35 for fun and friendship. (Tulsa) ~34747 ITALIAN AMERICAN I’m a 25 year old Italian American. I’m 5’9, 1651bs, and very good looking. I’m looking to meet guys in my area. (Tulsa) =41112 MY NAME IS STEVE GWM, 6’1", 160, 32, sh~rt brown hair, light blue eyes; seeks masculine and straight acting GWM s, 18- 35, for fun and friendship. Leave me a detailed message. (Tulsa) =20475 HI, I’M LEONARD GWM, 195, 6’3", brown hair and eyes, new to area, seeks others, 21-30, submissive and hairy preferred, for hot fun and more. Call me soon. (Tulsa) =18265 HELLO~ I’M A FUN GUY GWM, 24, 6’, 180, good build, blonde hair, hazel eyes, clean cut and shaven, Rrofessional, seeks others 20-30 for fun, friendship and more. P ease eove a message. (Tulsa) = 17715 NO NONSENSE FUN GWM, 20, 5’5", blonde hair, green eyes, 110, into afot of things, seeks bthers, 18-30 for non game playing fun. Life is too short to waste time. Callme soon. (:tulsa) =7823 DISCREET DIVERSITY GWM, 6’, early 50’s, varied interests, seeks discreet fun and more. Call me. (Tulsa) =7728 I HAVE A CUTE SMILE GWM, attractive 36, 6’, 145, dark hair, green .eyes, versatile, seeks same, !8-36, for fi’iendship and possibly mare. Smooth body and all natural end’wdis a big plus! (Tulsa) ~6779 LOOKING FOR YOU GBM, seeks others in the local area for fun and mare. Please give me a call. (Tulsa) e2771 ~ ..~....~ TWO’S FUN, THREE’S BETTER! GWM couple seeks singles or couples for advbnture and excitement. Give us a ca. (Eureka Springs) =23.$23 TEACH ME THE WAYS GWM, 28, 6’, 130 very straight acting real new to this lifestyle, seeks older men for fun and pleasure. (Ft. Smith) =334411 COUNTRY BOY Jim, 5’t0 dk hair, green eyes, real hairy, country boy, used to work on the riverlx~ts, now live up here, like to spend some qual time with someone like camping swimming riding, like to have 1 on 1 devotion with someone, I’m 29, like to setlle down- (Utile Rock) ~34920 UALR STUDENT GWM, 28, college student, seeks others for intimate fun and more. (Li~e Rock) =26930 MY NAME IS JIM GWM, 39, - professional, alot of interests, seeks others for fun, fr endship and more. Leave me a message. (Russe vi e) ~27949 WOMAN TO WOMAN GWF, 35, 5’6", black hair, brown eyes, new to area, very romantic, seeks others for fun, romance and possibly more. If this interest~ you, please giv~ me a call. (Broken Arrow) ~45158 BI AND BI Bi Female, 5’4", 115, brown hair, hazel eyes, seeks same. No exceptions! (Oklahoma City) ~22358 - ~ TOUCHING AND HOLDING GBF, seeks+BE or Gay females for fun and friendship~ Please get in touch with me. (Oklahoma City) e3610 LET’S LEARN TOGETHER Bi Curious BF, seeks same for learning .~xperiences. Give me a call. Oklahoma City) ~49584 FRIEND SEEKER GWF, 5’5", 120, brown eyes and hair, variety of interests, seeks other women for fun and friendship. Please give me a call. (Oklahoma City) ~45876 HEY GIRLSl GWF, into all sports and more, seeks others to hang out with. Give me a call (Tulsal ~48144 ++~+~.~ ’+ ~++ :~+ ’+"":~I~ +WOMAN TO WOMAN Bi WF, 29, 5’3", 150, auburn hair, green eyes, seeks others who are honest and sincere, local preferred, for a long lasting friendship and relationship. Please leave a message (Jonesboro) ~34470 A QUALITY OF LIFE ALTERNATIVE WHAT IS VIATICATION? Viaticatlon is the process through which a person liviug with an terminal illness can receive a cash pa.wnent from the face value of their insurance policy. WHO IS ELIGIBLE FOR A VIATICAL SETTLEMENT? Generally, to be eligible for a viatical settlement you must have a documentable terminal illness, and life insurance coverage in either ai~"individual tenn, whole life, or a group policy. HOW MUCH IS MY POLICY WORTH? The value of 3our life insurance policy in a viatical settlement is detemfined by the specifics of your policy ,’rod your tmique medical situanon. 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Southwest Home Office Dallas, Texas 800-559-4790 Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative POB 14011 Tulsa, OK 74159-1011 918-747-3320 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, May 15-June 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 6 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 15-June 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean Pierre Leanne Gross Pat Morehead LD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/510 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, April 15-May 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 5 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV research AIDS/HIV testing AIDS/HIV treatment arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars businesses churches Dave Fleischer Don Nickles Don't Ask Don't Tell Eric Lane estate planning Follies Revue funerals homophobia Interfaith AIDS Ministries J.D. Jamett James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche marriage Nina Shengold Out and About Patricia Nell Warren performing arts picnic Pride Read All About It Red Ribbon Revue Republican Party restaurants rodeo Ryan White care Act Steve Largent Tom Neal travel Tulsa Family News Unity Gardens Eureka Springs viatication war crimes https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b535a5c5edcd85ee322b09f48bbc69a1.jpg 32f1f64367ea8a60971e9df5e85a955d https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d51bf0096b8e14ebbf08c6585c214b26.pdf 7f0c1a21ac568dda43d9c581e41ad85f PDF Text Text i"’SayNoto Hate’ !iYes to Jobs Protections The members of Tulsa’ s Say No .,~ I-Fate Coalition have approved ¯ a statement on workplace discrimination ,that explicitly endorses ¯ fairness for all, including Gay & Lesbian citizens. The statement : reads: "... Say.No to Hate Coalition condemns workplace discrimi:" nationin allits forms. Fundamental fairness dictates that all individu, als,irrespectiveofrace, color, nationalorigin, religion, gender, sexual i orientation, [emphasis added] age or disability, be afforded equal : opportunity in allof ,An~_,e,dca’s workpl,a~es. : Itisnotaboutso-called specialrights forcertaingroups.Itisabout evaluating each individual on his/her merit rather than making, group ¯ judgements based on ignorance and fear. -" " Disedminationin the workplace diminishes us all. It should never : happen, but it does. Laws are necessary to protectall of us from such ¯ hateful and hurtful behavior, and to provide recourse in the event Nov. 15 - Dec. 14, 1996, vol. 3, no. 12 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, i¯ discrimination does infact occur." The Coalition is made up of the following organizations: the Bisexual & Trans Communities : American Red Cross, Tulsa Area chapter, the Coalition of Hispanic Murderer of Gay Man Gets Second Degree Sentence PONTIAC, Michigan (AP)- A TV talks show guest. avoided a mandatory life prison.term for murdering a gay admirer by convincing jurors that ’.’ambush televi. -. sion" was partly to blame. ~ C’ENTE R !EVENTS Dana Tiger Benef,t for ¯ HOPE, RBG Meeting, ¯ Colm mu .n.ity-wide !Potluck, V deo. Night, i BLGTA Formal Dance, : Primetimers & Morel Award winning artist, Dana Tiger, will hold an exhibit of her work at the Pride Center on Sunday, Dec. 8 from 1-7 pm. Tiger who. hails from a family of artists will donate a percentage from sales to benefit HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education whose offices are in the Pride Center. Tiger is a member of the Muscogee Nation and is of Creek]Seminole and Cherokee descent. Her best known work honors the strength and determination Of Native Americanw,~men. InTulsa, Brookside Jewelry shows Dana S Work and helped to bring this noted artist to the Center. Tiger was to have been joined by her sister, Lisa Tiger, who is known for her work as-an HIV educator. Lisa Tiger will not be able to attend but will have a video as well as a book of essays to which she’.s contributed available. RainbowBusiness Guild (RBG) will have a pizza party at theCenter for its Nov. meeting. It will be a week earlier than usual due to Thanksgiving - on-Nov. I9th at 7pro. All are welcome. Dinner dues will be $S/person. Dec. 7th, TOHR/The Pride Center will host with HOPE, RBG, TU’s BLTGA and other see Center, page 10 Organizations (COHO), the Human Rights Dept. of the City of Tulsa, Intercultural Service Center, Islamic Society, Jewish Federation, Metropolitan Urban League, NAACP, The National Conference, Tulsa Region, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry, Tulsa Oklahornans for Human Rights (TOHR), Tulsa Police Dept. and Tulsa PublieSchoolS, The Coalition was established in 1988 and works to protect theright, safety and fundamental freedoms see Hate, page 10 : HIVRCThreatens Lawsuit Jonathan Schmitz of second-degree murderin the 1995 ~ Attorney Kenneth Crnmp, representing the HIV Resource Consorshotgun slaying of Scott Amedure, whoh,a~ revealed a ¯ tium, has informed TFN that the HIVRC is ’q~esitant to communicate crush on Schmitz during a taping of _the Jenny Jones -" directly" with TFN despite earlier demands byboard pres. Nancy Show?’ Defense lawyers argued that Schrnitz, who had -" McDonald for a meeting. Crump forwarded a letter from McDonald, ahistory of emotional problems, was ambush,e,~, on the : show and pushed over the edge., JurOrs agreed. Weall -. asking that the letter be print,e~!,.,. adding, "ifthis is done, no further felt he hada def’mite mental problem ... and the show ¯ i [legal] action will be taken ~..’ TFN publisher Tom Neal noted that TFN repeatedly agreed to McDonald’ s meedng demand (and agreed exacerbated that," juror Dale Carlington Said..r . to a date which McDonald later canceled) and that TFN was happy Schmi tz admitted shooting Am&ttire three days after : to publish the letter (p.2). ¯ the two attended a taping of the show in Chicago on ¯ In a separate letter, Crump noted that a TFN reporter was questionMarch 6, 1995. Defense attorneys say Schmitz, ahet,, ." ing the United Way (which helps fund the HIVRC) about possible erosexual; was humiliated to. learn ids secret admirer ramifications of client complaints and possible open records violawas a man.The humiliation, combine~[ wfthSchmitz’. tions. Crump demanded that TFN cease such activity. Neal responded history of menta! illness, alcoholism .and a thyroid that "it iS~an.unfortunate-attempt to intimidate TFN from making condition rend~r~ tilln incapable of forming the intent legitimate press inquiries?’ Dr. Jerry Nida, Commissioner of-the to kill, they contended. Oklahoma State Dept. of Health stated the HIVRC should comply Dr. Michael Abramsky testified that Schmitz prob- : with the open records statutes- withholding only strictly ,,c,o,nfidential ably did not intend to hurt anyone but himself on the day ¯" information. Andpres.,MeDonaldacknowledged to TFN s attorney he shot Amedure. Abramsky, who had examined Schmitz .’- that the HIVRC Was obliged to provide the re~ords. To date, however, about a month after the shooting, said Schmitz’s mind was "bombarded" by thoughts that included killing ~ no records_have been provided. himself and feelings of anger seeMurder, page11 : Election News ¯ ACLU-OK To Present Dr. Joycelyn ¯ World AIDS Day March : Red Ribbon Treefest + Analysis ~ Elders & Honor Nancy & Joe McDonald Political analysis & commentary by Tom Neal, editor : Based on Associated Press reports and TFN coverage. : Therecent elections appear to maintain thestatus quo : for Lesbian and Gay citizens. In Tulsa, State Sen. Penny : Williams (D) won over openly anti-Gay candidate . Brian Lehman (R) despite overfly anti-Gay campaign : ploys. Williams’ campaign also enjoyed support from a ¯ number of Lesbian and Gay activists because of her ¯ history of fairness. Her campaign did, however, tell The . Tulsa Worm that she had never supported same-gender marriage despite a vote against an anti-marriage bill last : legislative session. Pat Woodrum, former director of Tulsa City/County ¯ Library System and another candidate with ahistory of " fairness to Gay citizens, lost her race for State Senate. ¯ Her opponent, James Williamson, also attempted to stir ! up anti-G,ay sentiment but some observers think :. Woodrum s loss more likely a reflection of running as : a Democrat in a traditionally Republican district. ¯ In the OK House, incumbent Republican Flint " Breckemidge who represented a midtown district with " a significant number of Lesbian and Gay voters was ." defeated by Mary Easley, Democrat. This might bode ¯ well for Gay citizens since Breckenddge ran a Gaybaiting campaign against former Rep. Bruce Niemi~ " However, Breckemidge told TFN of dose family ties to ¯ members of the Gay commtmity. Easley, when ques- : doned about her positions on- fairness for Lesbian and Gay citizens, claimed she just hadn’t thought about ° these things: However, her campaign literature touted ¯ her as upholding/the "conservative, family-centered, : see Politics, page 14 " The American Civil Liberties Union of Oklahoma has chosen Nancy and Dr. Joe McDonald as their Human Rights Project award winners alongwith longtime OKC Gay civil rights activist Bill Rogers. This award will be presented in the Gold Crown Room of the Clarion Hotel, 4345 No. Lincoln, at 7pm. The ACLU will also honor Pare Fleisehaker of OKC~s Oklahoma Gazette for her work writing in defense of First Amendment rights, choice issues and Gay & Lesbian Citizens, as well as Michael Salem and Joel Carter, the attorneys who lead the effort to get the City of Edmond to drop seeACLU, page 10 ¯ MCC-GT Passes Financial Review ¯" Walk + DayWithoutArt ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ MCC-Gxeater Tulsa has provided TFN with a copy of a letter from South Central District treasurer of the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC). Thomas Merrill has given MCC-Greater Tulsa a positive review of its finanCial situation with only light admonishments about betteL.r..~eco~d~ing. Financial discrepancies that had -concerned membe~’~hd:~kediwithTFN (v2, #12, 11-12/95) have been resolved and ~6 church has beendeared of any serious charges. Merrill noted thati:there was no evidence of any misappropi’iation of funds, and bailk deposits were in order as were disbursements. He ¯ suggested that the appearance of missing funds resulted froma failure to balance the bookkeeping records with the financial reports. He praised e.mrent treasurer, Norman Henley. for discovering that a loan paymen~ of $1,500 and tithe payments of $2,500 simply had not been reported in finanCial statements. This accounted for most of the "missing" fnn,ds. Merrill particularly remarked on deposit records for ¯ as little as $1 which had been dropped from an offering, saying this, was "a testament to the honesty and integrity of your leadership... ¯" ¯ Merrill added that the church has done an excellent job of heeding the recommendations of aworkshop that the district provided to the ¯ church last March. MCC-GT continues its pastoral search to replace the Rev. Alice Jones who ledthechurch successfully for many years. This year’s World AIDS Day Memorial March and Service will be on Sunday, Dec. 1st. The marchers, organized by Interfaith AIDS Ministries,will gatheratBartlettSquare in downtown Tulsa (Sth & Main) at 5pro. The March will begin at 5:30 and will end at Trinity Episcopal, 501 So. Cincinnati for Evensong service at 6pro. Marchers are urged to bring bells to ring during the March and will be provided candles and matches..Organizations are invited to bring their banners. A reception will follow after the service. For info: 4382437 or 800-284-2437. see World, page 11 ¯ COMING SOON! :Our House Auction see page 5 INSIDE EDITORIAL/LETTERS/DIRECTORY NEWS HEALTH HIV/AIDS & THE LAW CALENDAR BOOK REVIEW RESTAURANT REVIEW CLASSIFIEDS P. 2-3 P. 4 P. 7 P. 7 P. 9 P, 12 P. 1:3 P. 14 �: I have been reading your paper since it : first started. You have done a very good fax: 583.4615 : job presenting the news and expanding POB 4140 ¯ coverage. ITm glad to see your progress. Tulsa, Oklahoma : After reading your last editorial per: taining to the HIV Resource Consortium 74159-0140 : (HIVRC), I wanted to letyonknow that tulnews@ionetnet ¯ you are doing a big service for PWA’s : who have no where else to turn. ¯ Since I have had a little experience with : both PWA’s and a Consortiumin’Kan.~as :-City, MO, I feel’ this is important. For Just a note of encouragement bn your articleon the HIVRC. ¯ October 28 1996 : .theHIVRC to functionit needs two things: In respouse to the article appearmg in the Tulsa Family News, :: clients andmoney. If they .don’t’have The concerns that have been brought up form the PLWA’s are ¯¯ true and correct. Please use my name as a former landlord that Oct. 15, v. 3, no. 11, tiffed "PLWA’s Indict HIVRC, Care ¯ enough of either; they are out of business. received funds from the HOPWA grant, as validation of these : Organization May Bein Violation of OK Statutes", the Board of : Maybe the HIVRC needs to be dissolved clients’ concerns. ¯" Directors of the I-I!V Resource C0nsorfittm are deeply concerned : and another organization set up that will Many people know that I used my properties to house several ¯ and.distressed at the accusation. ¯ not be "afraid" to let the public read the We are a Not for Profit Organization chartered by the-Olda- : minutes. Also, maybe too much money is clients from the RC, so I do hold a lot of Credibility there. The : allegations of mismanagement, poor perf0rmance and claims of : homa Corporation Commi ssion. We adhere to the articulation of being spent l~mning the HIVRC. If the bias retaliation against clients are facts, These reasons played a ¯ the mission of our organization. We receive funding from the ConSortium has nothing to hide they very large role in the decision David and I made to sell our ¯ United :Way, the Federal Government which dispenses funds should be glad there is someone like you properties. The RC burned a very important bridge in that arena. : through the Oklahoma State Department of Health, the State who is interested enough to help the We had 12 properties, 6 of which at the time Of the sdl were : Housing Authorityand private donations. Because we are. a PWA’ s. housed by PLWA’s on the HOPWA program, and we would ¯ recipient of federal monies through the competitive grant proKeep up the good work. This organizaprobably most definitely still be in that arena had the RC been : cess, we are bound by the guidelines as articulated by each grant. tion should be held accountable. more cooperative to us and more compassionate towards the ¯ We must report to the granting sources on a regular basis. We are - Cheryl Lenhart, Tulsa ." subject to scheduled and non-scheduled on site inspection and clients they represent .... Thanks for Printing the Truth You are to be commended for your article, and I support you ¯¯ audit of our records to determine our adherence to all federal and Thank you for printing the truth as you see McDonald, page 8 state guidelines, 100%!!!! - Russell Langley-Stumpff, Tulsa heard it or observed it. I am speaking about the HIVRC an the various complaints leveled against them. I. am also ¯ Kellie J. Watts, attorney 493-1959 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants sorry to say that I will not reveal my name ¯ Fred Welch, Lcsw, Counsding 743-1733 and it is not because I am irresponsible in 832-1269 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 744-0896 ¯ what I say, but I recognize very clearly Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 749-1563 ¯¯ AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 1071, 74101-1071 who is in control of the AIDS Service an 579-9593 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-4511 thus, funding in Tulsa. I am concerned¯ 583-7314 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 ¯ 749-5678 about repercussions. *Ground Floor Cafe, 51st & Harvard *Bless The Lord... Christian Center, 2627b E. 11 628-0594 I would encourage you not to stop your *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 ¯ *B/L/G Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. 583-9780 834-4234 ¯ *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI. & Florence investigation. I think that the clients that *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 585-2221 "- *CommunityofHopeUnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2rid 585-1800 have the more need are often the ones at *Samson & Ddilah, 10 E. Fifth 585,3405 : Commmlity Unitarian-Universalist Congregation the Resource Center that no one wants to *Renegades/Rainbow Room¯ 1649 S. Main 749-0595 660=0856 : Dignity/Integrity-LesbianlGayCatholics/Episcopal. 298-4648 handle. As you know, clients are not al*TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 584-1308 ¯ *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo ways physically attractive with good hy622-1441 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd giene and wonderful personalities, some 585-3134 : *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard 747-7777 *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston are drug abusers, some are dirty, some do ." *Free Spirit Womens Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals not have any social skills, and some live : Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 on the street and some have serious men*Assoc. in Med.& Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 ¯ Friends in Unity Social Org. (African-American mens group) tal health problems. However, they are POB 8542, 74101, call c/o TOHR @ 742-2927 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & life Insurance 747-9506 ¯"¯ still deserving of help. If the mental health 584-4983 Indian Health Care, Save the Nati6n 250-5034 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 centers stopped seeing the mentally ill 438-2437, 800-284-2437 : Interfaith AIDS Ministries 743-5272 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria because hey did not make sense then what 838-1715 592-1521 ¯ *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N..Maplewood *Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 would be the purpose of heir existence? 749-4194 ~ *H!V Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates Therefore, the Resource Center needs to 748-3111 ¯ NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 ¯ *Our House, 1114 S. Quaker be sensitive toe people who are really 584-7960 622-0700 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker down and out and not always easy to help. 749-4901 352-9504, 800-742-9468 ¯ PFLAG ,POB 52800, 74152 Tim Daniel, Attorney The must stop intimidating their clients. 58%7674 : *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 749-3620 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 13th ¯ Prime=Timers, P.O_. Box 52118, 74152 I was extremely bothered by the secre583=1410 744-5556 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria ¯ *R.A I N, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network tive nature Of their finances. Anyone 749-4195 .: 665-6595 Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial 665-5174 : knows who works in non-profit agencies -622-3636 ¯ Raihbow ~3usiness’Guiid, POB 4106;74159 Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial ’that all Of those records should be readily 646-7116 *lqite Books & Videos, 821 S: Sheridan . 838-8503 " St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 38~1 S. Peoria, " available to people.-There should be no 743-9994 : , Shhnti H0tlin~ & HIV/AIDS Siei’vices Express Pools & Spas; 6310 S. Peoria -reason to hide that information - unless, = . _ 690-297J¢ " " TulsaOkl~ for Hmnan Rights., POB.2687, 74101 Foxlinx, Computer Consultation they are hiding it because their_ costs are ¯ EearmeM. Gross; Financial Pl,nningi, : ,~i ,::, ,-,,~44~0)02 i ~.T.,-~--h~i,’~i.~s’.,l}3~ ~:-~,., extremely high and the hours of service, Mark T. Hamby, Attom~y>. :;..-~,.:...,:--, ... :: ,.,744-.7.~44~,. ~ ,T,~;E.~,£.A,).:~,s,~.~...~,,t~a.~:t~,~e,r,~ee~Kers a, ss~oc. ~-t, units of ~ervice, or numbers Of clients are *SandraJ Hill MS."Ps~,dhotherafv "2865 E Skellv 745-1111 . *’l:UlS~~:ty nan,-tmletcna vesuome, G-roun(lrloor so low that most people would question 58~ ,t606 -. Tulsa. Commumty College, Metro & HE Campuses Imaginations lincoln Plaza- 15th & Peoria. . Why.they have-arOund halfa million dol¯ ’ .’ - -341-6866 .... Univ’er~:ty Ceiater at Tulsa *International To.urs- " " . lar budget- and still are saying they d0n’t " :621-5597:: ::’:-:.-. :-.: EUREKA SPRINGS JDImages;Photography. : " :. have .enough money. They ha*e much 599-8070 : Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy 23 SOuth Ken’s.Flowers, 1635 E: 15 501-253-7734 747-5466 ? Beaver Dam Store, l/2mi. N. of DamHwy. 187 501:253-6154 : more than most other AIDS service orgaKelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 : nizations and they control, pretty much, 742-1992 ~ " *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173-S. Main Lonp-Garou, 2747 E. 15 . 501-253,7457 671-2010 oftheUnitedWayfunds,TCAPfunds, ~ Ann Macomber, Realtor Associate 501-253:6807 ¯¯ all ¯ DeVito’~Restaurant, 5Center St. and state funds. Perhaps Saint McDonald 584-3112 ¯ Emerald Rainbow, 45 &1/2 Spring St. *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 - - 501-253-5445 : lias something to do with that since she 663 -5934 ¯ G~k to G0!,.PC Specialist, POB 429 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c.E~ 31St 501-253-2776 664-2951 : King’ s Hi:Way; 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W 800-231-1442 ¯ " als0 serves on the board of the Commu*Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51-P1 : nity Service Council, which is an arm of 747,6711 *Novel Idea Bookstore~ 51st & Harvard 501~253-9337 MCC of the living Spring the United Way. see HIVRC, page 13 David:A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633- 747-7672 -" MeClung Realtors 501-253-9682 584-7554 Pet Pride, Dog & Cat-Grooming : Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-253-2401 838-7626 Puppy Pause II, llth & Mingo Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659, 800,624,6646 584-0337 : Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 501-253-6001 749-6301 ¯ The Woods, 50 Wall St. *Scribner’ s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 501-253-8281 Scott Robison’s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations 743-2351 : OKLAHOMA CITY Southwest Viatical 747-3322, 800-305-6384 ¯ Face Beautiful Day Spa, 7108-D2 N.Western 405-840-3223 Thomas Chiropractic, 4138 S. Harvard, Ste. C-1 742-8868 918.583.1248 Publisher +,Editor: Tom Neal Issued on or before the 15th of each month,~the entire contents of this publication Entertainment Writer + Mac Guru: are protected by US copyright 1~ by T~!lsa Family News and may not be James Chri~tjohn reproduced either in whole or in p~rt,i~]’fhout ~,ritten permission from the publisher. Writers + contributors: Publication of a name or photo does not indicatethat person’s sexual orientation. Phyl Boler-Schmidt, Barry Hensley Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche signed & becomesthe so!e property_of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence Steven Scott, Gerald Miller, should be sent to the address above, ldaeh reader is entitled to one free copy of each’ Lance Brittain, Kerry Lewis edition at distribution points. Additionalcopies are available by calling 583-1248." 5 �TFN talked witti attomey(andi~ehi~iSlSens, board mem- : McDonald-of an important request. It also seems less : - bet) Charle~ Seege,r and requested copies Of the mi.’nutes. ¯ likely that attorney a~d board member Seeger would fail Seeger saidhe di .dn.t think that there was anything to hide " to do so. And another board member said hedid raise the " in the minutes but thatsince they were a private non- " issue at a board meeting that took place prior to the ¯ profit~ he di-d not feel that they wer9 compelled toprovid~ ¯ publication of our last issue. Regardless; the point is that now the agency has the ¯ them and thereforg, the ,HIVRC would not ,make the ¯ ¯ minutes available.- : opportunitytoprovethatitdoesindeedhaveonlythebest TFN informed Seeg~.that we_understood fr,om our : interests .of its .clients at. hea~.,It .el.aims ~at it.has had attorney that the ag¢ne-y ~as subject fo Oklah0mii s o~en~ " g0od andltS and~eviews. That being thecase~the HWRC torand also noted that the Board of " " ::¯ recordsstatutesandevengavehim’the~s~.~tute~citati~ns,: .:. shouldha~;e.’nd pr0bidm:~ng’t~0g~’andits flnancial agency appeared to bein viola-. ~ o. Seeger failed to return at least two sub~equen! callsTr0m :" statements a.vailablefor public_ review along with all don of a~ Oklahoma state law. l.)~reetors " . .: : TFN and failed to respond to aletter from TFN sattomey. ; other records that do not involve Strict client or employee The latter is the requirement President: -: " Board president Nancy McDonald claims that.she Was ¯ confidentiality issues. Itcanprovethatitisreallythemodelvogramitdaims that an agency supportedsub- Nane ¯ completely unaware of these ~eq~u..e,sts. She also is at- ¯ temptingt0 excuse the agency Lg failure to comply with " to be by actively responding to the complaints of those stantially with public monies abide by open meetingsand .~.teL)onam,~ ¯. the law by contending that 0nly a request made to her " clients bra~e enough to confront the agency..It Can begin ~ directly is valid, This is pa~t of.the attempt Of the agency ¯ to address its internal communications Issues which open records statutes. Accord- Viee-presl"dents: ¯ .include allegations of breaches of client confidentiality. to shift blame for its failures to this newspaper. ing to TFN, attorney and also ~ " ~ I " . . t_~re~ ~aunaers " However, Seegernever saidtoTFNthatarequestmfst " ~ For example, I am aware of one suCh]ncidentbecause ¯ mylayman sreadingofthelaw, o. r~ ¯ . I br6tight it to Thoele’ sattention’ directly. I could have theagencyshouldprovidemin- 0~, L,,an " be made tOboard president McDonald. TFN also called ¯ board member Tommy Chesbro and asked if he could written abom it but I chose to let them try to fix the utes of its meetings when re- Phnhet, MD : help get the’ minutes: Chesbro was sympathetic, but "- problem instead. Hopefully, it is fixed, but the employee quested. To date, the HIVRC SecretarT: ¯ " who was accused still works for the agency. Others referred questions back to executive dir.ector Tlioele. has been asked for meeting .Tommy Chesbro Our contention is that a request made to the executive " involvedin HIV care in Tulsa say that there are ongoing minutes repeatedly since the ; director, the primary day-to-day legal representative for problems of this sort. latter part of July and has yet to ¯ Other issues include allegations by other HIV service the HIVRC is more than adequate notice to.the agency. provide them now more than Rib Helmerleb ¯ This newspaper went above and beyond duty to speak : providers that instead of working as a model of organizathree months later. Caroline Abbott also with board members Seeger and board secretary " donal cooperation, the HIVRC has become the bully in We have reproduced several ¯ Chesbro. the service provider arena- better at sucking up HIV care letters from the president of the Geo r e Bdlke dollars and better at adding staff than at actually provid~ Again, it is not the responsibility of this newspaper to organization, her close friends Michael Esliek : fix the internal communications failures of the HIVRC- " ing care. Other agencies tell tales that imply that personand associates, and the Jeffry Johnson alities and political connections play more of a role in " ifindeedthatistheproblem.Itwouldseemthatexecutive HIVRC’ s attorney. Readers can ¯ director, Sharon Thode, who’ s paid slightly more than how agencies interact and how dollars are awarded than see for themselves several strat- Erie Ramlrez egies for both excusing the Gene Reid " $30,000 annually, should be capable of getting a message " do the real needs of the clients. ¯ toherboardandpresidentaboutafaidyimportantmatter. And isn’t that who we all should really care about? agency~ s failure to comply with Steve Reynolds . Interestingly, several former HIVRC board members " Why is it that so little of the discussion seems to be the law and for attempting to ¯ told TFN since the HIVRC story was published that ¯ concerned with the clients? That’s where Tulsa Family shift "blame from the agency, Charles Se~.er ¯ during their tenure, the HIVRC had the following proce- " News began more than eight months ago- by listening to its staff and its boardof direc- Suzy Stard~eld ¯ dures’. earlier boards had been told by.an attorney that " those to who claim the HIVRC mistreated them. Most of tors, to this newspaper. MaybelleWallaee ¯ they werenot subject to the Oklahoma Open meedngs and " them say they tried to work with the agency and were not Most of it is just pure silli: records acts, but nevertheless those boards had set a : only rebuffed, but some were treated’in ways that added ness and irresponsibility. The Jack Welsh ¯ policy of operating as though they were. For example, the " to their stress and may have worsened their health. law appears to compel the Ned Zink ¯ organization posts its meeting times publicly in advance One sources related what I hope is just a rumor with no HIVRC to provide its minutes merit. After TFN’ s interview with Thoele, she’ s alleged when requested. The law does not specify that the entity ¯ in accordance with the law. The question then becomes to have expressed anger that I did not reveal who my requesting the minutes must speak to any specific person ¯ this: if the HIVRC’s standard, operating p01icy was to ¯ sources were. Let’ s hope that her intent was good and that honor the law (even if they contend they weren’t subject in the agency’ s hierarchy: Internal communications are ¯ to it), why did they not honor the open records act when that information would have been used to fix the probusually the responsibility of the agency. lems. However, the fear by some clients of retaliation The following is what this newspaper did in requesting ¯ .TFN asked for minutes? surely doesn’ t stem iust from paranoia. What we have argued is that if the agency has nothing minutes: Sharon Thoele is the primary legal representa- ¯" The point of all this is not to besmirch the reputations tive of the agency in conducting it~ day to day business. ¯ to hide, then sharing the minutes shOuld never have been of the staff or the board of the HIVRC. I hope all involved Thoele signs checks, and TFN understands, hires and ~ a problem. For comparison, TFN talked with several have only the best intentions and have done the best they fires staff, etc. For the purposes of state open records ¯ executive directors Of other non-profits, some HIV recan with limited resources. And there is no doubt that requests, Thoele is clearly an appropriate legal represen- : lated and others not. Each of these Said that if .they were ¯ asked for minutes, they would provide.them promptly. there are not adequate funds for the need..However, point tative for the organization. of public oversight is that the best possible management Thoele received several requests from TFN for copies ¯¯ One person in another city, who formerly ran an agency and ~tre should be prox;ided within the res.trictions of that is dosdy comparable to the HIVRC in mission and of the minutes. These requests were made first directly to those limited resources. The questions are: is manageSharon’s administrative assistance, Susie Stanford, be- : structure, said he would simply have photocopied the ment up to the task; is it possible that the agency has ginning in late July/early August. The first request was ¯ minutes and turned them over. .grown beyond the skills of those leading it; is it maximi zSome observers of this situation have suggested that ignored for several weeks. The second request was an- ¯¯ mg the benefit to its clients; is the board willing to follow they find it tmlikely that McDonald was unaware of the swered with a message (given by Stanford) that Thoele both the spirit and~the letter of the law? request but likely directed Tiioele and Seeger to "stonesaid that TFN could not have the minutes, and that we. The answer to all these may well be yes. But those of wall" the request. This newspaper has no proof of such should talk with Charles Seeger who was described as us whose tax dollars or United Way contributions subcontentious. However, given the seemingly dose worktheir attorney. During that conversation, TFN requested stantially fund this agency have the right to. expect the ing relationship betweenMeDonald and ~noele, whom a list of the board of directors from Stanford which was HIVRC’ s full cooperation and disclostire. taxed to TFN. This is so far the only document delivered McDonald recently helped to honor with a SWAN award~ It hash’ t happened Yetbut hopefully it will soon. as requested. it seems rather surprising that Thoele would fail to inform by Tom Neal, publisher/editor A handful of people arerather upset :right now. Last month this newspaper published an-article relating the complaints of some people living with AIDS (PLWA? s) against the I-IIV Resource Consortium (I-IIVRC) and added complaints of this newspaper about the agency’ s lack of cooperation, The article highlighted the concerns of some HIVRC clients,, the response the HIVRC’d]rec- H I V i: R: C . : ¯ Editors note: this letter was.sent to the H1VRC With copies specifically designated to Sharon Thoele & TFN. This is the first of many letters that we hope will let you know how we the clients are feeling; In hopes that things get better at the Consortium for all involved... There are a number of us that see but do not say, and yet there are those of us who do and get SH1T. We don’tneed the stress of haviffg to run all over town to try and find the help you are responsible for giving...You put yourself in the position of wanting to help, so stop the fighting and start the helping... I was brought up that "if you do it right the first time you don’ t hay e to do it over... Once in a while we can understand but each and every month...If you don’t want to help the[n] don’t hinder us!!! , Youallneedto gettheacttogether see PWA, page !2 How can I convey my. disappointment in your article questioning the HIV Resource Center [sic]? Professional journalism covers both sides ofcontroversialissues. Why were HIVRC client & staff responses not reported? Why did not you not share with your readers any results of your 3.5 hour interview with director Sharon Thoele? [editor’s note: the PLWA’s who spoke with us are HIVRC clients, and last we checked, Sharon Thoele was still on the HIVRC staff. TFN reported that part of Thoele’s comments that were relevant to the original complaints by PLWA’s.] Was your article questioning one program, three programs or the agency overall? The issues and considerations behind all AIDS and non-AIDS social services are see Phillips, page 8 " ind.,e~l complex.. , . Concerning your lead story tiffed"PLWA’s Indict HIV RC... once again I find an outright assault in print against an organization that has served as a model nationwide in the administration of HIV/AIDS care and resources. While it is easy to understand that every agency cannot please each client 100% of the time.I am concerned that each client is treated with dignity and respect. In my professional dealings with the HIV Resource Consortium I have found a group of compassionate and caring individuals, staff and volunteers dedicated to delivering service efficiently and effectivdy for very little or no pay. [editor’s note: director Thoele is paid over $30k which is more than many ordinary people make.] While you stated in your artidethat you conducted a 3 see Gillean,page 11 1/2 hour interview �custody of two young boys to their homoSt. Rights Group Forms- :. turned sexual father on Tuesday, ruling there was no eviBURLEY, Idaho (AP) - If gay rights come under fire ¯" deuce he exposed them to "improper influences" by in the 1997 Idaho Legislature, Schuyler Enochs will ." living with a male lover. The NC Cohrt of Appeals be there to stop it. Enochs, of!Caldwell, was jolted ’ overturned a lower court _,..~.’~gthat had transferred into working for gay and lesbian rights after watching : the boys from Frederick S’~th to his former wife. his gay son Karl die of AIDS in 1994. Now he is co- ¯ Smith won custody of the boys, ages 8 and 11, after chairman of Idaho for Basic Rights, which is forming : heandhis wife divorced in Califomia in 1991. Under to block possible anti-gay rights legislatiofi from the ¯ the lower court decision, however, they.have been " living with their mother, Carol Ptiiliam, in Kansas._ Heyburn-based Idaho Citizens Alliance. The Idaho Citizens Alliance plans to file two bills : Pulliam’s attorney, Phillip Jackson~ said .the ruling by the end of. November~ executive director Kelly : would be appealed to the state Supr.eme Court. He did Johatmsen said. One would prohibit public schOols : noLknow if.the.children would, be retiimed from ¯ ~sas i~nme~liatelyl Smi~ alidhis sbns lived with from promoting the ers couldnot counsd gay students, offer Some kinds : his grandmother in H~nderson Cty. from i991-94. of diversity training or take classes on dealing with. ¯ But in 1994, the grandmother moved Out and his sexual Orientation. The other measure would prohibff ¯ Iover, Ti~Tipton, moved, i,n. Pulliam said the change the use of tax dollars to promote the homosexual- : in Smith s living, arrangements justified giving her lifestyle.-That means .students at¯ publicly funded : exclusi,~e ,custody bflthe children,~ A’ Henderson Cty, ~ .c6,Ui-t agT-eed,, finding ihat’,the. colleges ~ould not prod.uce plays favorable to gays : and lesbians, and libraries could not p~urehase mat.e.-- :_ chil~en,were ~Xposed to ~’~t and imprbper ififlurials about gays and lesbians ¯ ences~’ that could’.xlamAge: them dmotionally and"In our school we don’ t promote dr~gsJwe don~;.t :. social!y~ ,.~a,t finding-was.’b~.d~0n nothi!zg more. promote alcohoLase-..~?~It~s detrime~a.t~l~ .~o-th~ir ¯ ~ titan 0~ifii’0ii,.A~s ~c~ Jfi~gd. Edward Greend health;"qohann sen said?!Statistieally~ iT:they engage ~ :" wrote for a~’-ji~dke~p~i’i~i in the homosexual lifestyl~ they~ 11 die lOto. 15 years : this c~s~e, thee is no evidehee that-the’c.onduct huh or : likdy WlUha~;e a ddeteri0us effec(0fi ~echild~n," younger than they would if they.were a smoker." Enochs scoffed at the ideathat schools can promote. ¯ i Greene ~vrote2 Smith~.who coachedhis sons’ tee-ball sexuality. "You can’. t teach it: You’ re born that way ~’!. "~ and baseball teams,,said h,~ had hopedhis ease Would he said.:"What’ s wrong with counseling people.that i not get mUch attehtion.- Mo~t.p~op.!e’drn’ ~ r~lize are homosexual?. Their suicide rote is very high. They I’ m gay," hd sai~l.. "E m worried.. ~61 die,,reperdussiohs need help. They need counseling. They need to unfor ~e kids.at school and me a.t work.. derstand it isn’t.unnatural. It’~s natural, for them.’r Enochs said ignorance is his group’ s biggest obstacle. "People just don’t understand that a certain percentage of your population is gay or lesbian and they have no choice, no choice at all," he~ said. Johannsen said : her group already has lawmakers ready to support the : COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. (AP) - Nearly three: 1997 legislation. . : dozen gay rightsadvocates spoke out at a school boardmeeting Wednesday night in support of a high : school newspaper story about teen-age homosexual: ity: The:~article~ tided "Finding True Love," was written by Mary Margaret NusSbaum, editor-in-’chief of Palmer High Sel~ool’ S monthly newspaper The PUYALLUP, Wash, (AP) =,A legislative candidate Le~;er. The O~t. 24 article describes the problems who outraged many PuyallupHigh School students. : teens face in coming to terms with their homosexualwith his inflammatory remarks about gays and inte- ¯ ity. An accompanying commentary by another stugration may end up being a good lesson in the basics : dent supported same=sex marriages. of democracy and free speech. The articles brought a protest from ¯Will Perkins, ¯ chairman of ColrradO’frr Family Values, the ~roup Mark.Downey, a, PgpuliSt. Party candidate for.the 25th District ofstate House, Position 1:-, was invitedto ¯ thatatith0redCol0rhflo’s~anti-gayfightsAmeiidmcnt speak at the school-sponsored, forum but startled ~ 2/Which was struck d0wnin May bythe’U.S. ,Sustudents with his intolerant message. He used quotes preme Court. Perkins did not attend the meeting. The from the Bible to say homosexuals Should be killed, ¯ controversy over.the a~ti~les led.District 11 school and he called multi-cul.tural integration a cancer. board t6 add a discussion of its student publication policy tO its tegular meeting Wednesday. "He Said something to the effect that Communists, About 35 people ~p0ke about the articles, with all homosexualsand nonwhites should not be allowed to : hold public office," said Matthew Oren,,18. "It was a ~ but one praising thenewspaper. Gerda Fletcher, .the shoeking thing." Downey contends he ~as contribut- ¯ mother of a gay son; snide"Freedom of speech must never, ever "be suppressed." Sixteen-year-old Brad ing to. the marketplace of ideas, Ben.Allison, 17; sM, d that- as a blackp+rson he was offended by Downey s : Balof saidhe hopes the articles ~vill make otlierS.more remarks, but he wash’, t sure that Downey should ha~e ¯ accepting .of gay-teens. "I’might n6t’have as hard been banned fromthe forum, "I think he hada right to ~ time growmg up as I thoughtI wotlld," he said. come because if he hadn’.t come, no one would know ¯¯ Superintendent Kenneth Buruley i said the- district his views;" Allison said./’I was close to hitting him, needs a deare~r,.publicafions policy that does not though." : violate:the state S smdelit-.free-.pressd’aW~ one_of the ¯ Downey’.s fellow¯ candidates~ Democrat Luanne "~ most liberal the nadon. He~,~ure’ saidany theat,district is cons’ulfing anin. att_0me~y. :tb:mak~ tqmptg to Green and Republican JoyceMcDon~d, also were surprised.by hi~ comments. Gre~n’sai;d ~he"thofight" ;. defixie,:,~ ~611ey d~n’i g0.t06, ~:st~iel,aW S_a.YS ~it MeDonald might,grab,the microphone~away, from . a student-Wtitteii firtidemugt-nb~t beobs~ie:~ libelous, likely to caus~ a dis .t.drbatice]ff the s6hool dayoi Downey."’I said; ’Let it go. The-kids needto under~ stand that these people are out there,’ " Green said. : lack educationalmerit. Vice Principal Barbara Pope agreed. "I really believe ¯ Newspaper adviser Vince Puzick saidNussbaum’ ,S, that he should have been~there," Pope said. "To me, : article met those Criteria."’I encouraged her to do it,’ the issue is what are we exposingour kids to. I think : he said of Nussbaum. ’T d do the same article again?’ we expose and then we talk before and afterwards Nussbaum also defended the article before the board. with them." ¯ She SaidThe Lever tries to avoid filling a stereotypi: Oren, who was a student panelist for the debate, : cal niche" by publishing stories on controversial described a sttmned silence in the auditorium for the ¯ topics such as gtmcontrol. School officials didnot set first 10 seconds of Downey’ s closing statement. That : a date for deciding the student publications policy silence quickly turned to screaming and booing that : issue. nearly drowned out the-candidate’s remarks. Students and teachers talked about the free speech issues in classes following the forum. ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - The State Baris urging ¯ Califomialaw firms to offer health benefits to same: sex couples and take other steps against discriminaRAT.F.TGH, N.C. (AP) - A state appeals court re- ¯ tionbasedonsexualorientation. ’Thisisthefirststate St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical CSurc5 Kelly Kirby CPA,PC Certified Public ACcountant . a pro~eas~onal corporation . ..... Talk _tO us now about your year end tax planning needs. " ’!747-5466 4021 South Harvard, Suite 2!0, Tulsa 74135 i CO school DebatesGay ¯ NewspapersStories JE,WELRY 4649 So. Peoria L,. i " i.date euls,a.lv....-.n.. 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In October, Gov. bar association that’s taken a step like this," Los Angeles attorney Wayne Braveman, chairman of the ¯¯ Tom Ridge signed legislation banning gay marriages. The Rev. Ruth L. Kirk, who co-submitted the bar’ s Committee on Sexual Orientation Discrimina: resolution, said Christian moral codes cannot be tion, said Wednesday. A state law that took 9~f,~..in 1993 prohibited ¯ devdoped purdy on the moral codes of the first century. "As I said at the convention: Can God do a employment discriminatioi] agaiJ~st homosexuals. The bar adopted a rule in March 1994 that subjected : new thing? And can God use the church to do a new ¯ thing? For centtLdes we have condemned gays and lawyers and firms to potential disciplinary action for discriminating on the base of mce,-sex, sexual orien- ¯ lesbians. It is time to support committed, loving tation or several other categories in hiring employees : relationships." or selecting clients. On another front, the state Judicial Council has begun a study of treatment of gays and lesbians in the court system, as lawyers, diehts, witnesses, employ- i DENVER (AP) - City officials say only 48 city ees and jurors. Previous studies have focused on : workers signed up their gay partners for health ben. efits by this week’s deadline, far fewer than oppowomen and racial minorities. But the bar’ s Board of Governors decided in Au- ¯ nents of the new program predicted. The City Council gust that further step,s were needed after getting a : voted overwhelmingly in September to offer the report from Bmveman s committee on the climate for ¯ benefits to partners of gay employees. Open enrollhomosexuals in the legal l community. The report : ment for the program ended at 5 p.m. Thursday.. ’T m relied heavily on a 1994 study by the LosAngeles : a little surprised,"said Fred :rjmmerman, director of "I.thought it County Bar Association that found’inStanceS of dis-- : the city’s Career Service Authority. ¯ ¯ erimination in hiring, workplace ea~ironment, as: ¯ wonld be higher." " -, ¯ Opponents of the benefits’extension had predicted siguments, evaluation, pay and prom6ti0n. ¯ The Los Angeles study said 58percent of gay male i the move wouldlead toa huge increase in health care lawyers and 68 percent of lesbians "surveyed reported ¯ costs’. With 48 signing up, the city"s insurance premithat they had experienced or seen dis~-rimination ¯ ums for eligible workers, which total about $12 million ayear, willincrease by $80,000. Timmerman against homosexual attorneys: Despite the 1993 ban on’ emplo~mentdis~imination, one unnamed legal :¯ said the actual number of .enrollees shows those predictions were overestimated. "We never had any employer was quoted in the LoS Angeles survey as saying, "We are not interested in lawyers with this ¯¯ fear about it,"he said. Timmerman said he expected I percent of the 8,500 eligible employees to type of disability." About 15 percent of all lawyers : at.least signup for the program..The 48 who did represent less questioned in the random survey said their employers discriminated in hiring, 15 percent said their clients ¯ than 0.6 percent. did not want to work with gay lawyers, and 66 percent reported anti-gay comments or jokes .at work, the report said. In 1991, before passage of the state law and attorney disciplinary rule, a State .Bar study of 14.300 : GREENVILLE, S.C. (AP) -The top elected official randomly chosen California lawyers found economic ¯ of the Presbyterian.Church (USA) says church leaddisparities between homosexuals and heterosexuals. ! ers shonld declare a cease-fire in disputes over homoFor example, gays and lesbians with 10 years of law : sexuality that he says threaten to divide the denomipractice were only two-thirds as likely to be partners ¯ nation. "We do not agree at all about what the Bible in their In’ms, or to make over $100,000 a year, as ¯ means onthisissue," saidJolmBuchananofChicago, heterosexuals. ¯ elected moderator of the 3 million-member denomiThe resolution passed this August by the bar’s : nation this year. "The question becomes for me: ’Can governing board calls on law firms to adopt, imple- ¯ we find some way to live with that diversity or must ment and publicize anti-discrimination policies in ¯ we resolve the issue in a way.., that divides us?’ "he recruitment, hiring, assignments, pay and promo- ¯ said. Buchanan spoke Tuesday to members of the tious. Firms should also maintain a supportive atmo- ¯ Foothills Presbytery, which represents 21,000 meresphere rather than onein which gays felt compelled to ¯ bers in 65 Upstate churches. remain in the closet, the board said. ¯" In the coming months, presbyteries nationwide In addition, the board called on law firms to adopt will vote on whether to amend the church’ s constitu"benefit packages with the same sets of benefits for ¯ tion to require that ministers be faithful in a marriage ¯ all employees." Those would include insurance for between a man and a woman or live in chastity if same-sex partners on the same basis as married single: The church already has a policy statement that couples, in addition to parenting leave, sick leave bars practicing gays from ordination, but its Book of caretaking and bereavement leave and relocation : Order does not include such a restriction. Buchanan benefits. Firms were encouraged to invite same-sex : said Presbyterians tradifonally interpret passages in partners to social events when spouses were als0 ¯ context with the whole Bible and through debate invited. Earlier this year, the bar included domesticwithin the church. "Everybody knows that ff you are partner benefits in its health package available to : - willing to simply pick-things out of the text you can California attorneys. ." pretty much f’md justification for whatever position ¯ you want to take on any given issue," he said. 743-7141 3225 S. Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 Sun. 9:15 am Christian Education ¯ Sun. Service 11:00 am Wed. Service 6:30 pm ~ Wed. 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with our God... Micah 6:8 545t-E South Min~o * Tulsa, OK, 74146 . (918) 622-1441 Gay Unions to be Blessed : PHILADELPHIA (AP) = A month after Pennsylv.ania passed a law banning same sex mhrriages ,’ ~ state’ s Episcopal Diocese has voted to create ablessing for gay and lesbian relationships. At the diocesan convention Saturday, clergy delegates voted 101-43 and lay delegates voted 75-53 to develop "a rite or rites for the blessing of committed relationships between persons of the same sex." The Pennsylvania Diocese plans to urge the national churcl~ to do the same. The combined 176-96 vote "was a surprise to me," said Bishop Allen Bartlett, who had expected a closer margin. The 65,000-member diocese, which has 163 parishes and missions in Philadelphia and four surrounding Counties, will submit the approved resolution to the national governing convention in Philadelphia next year. If the General~ Convention approves, the church’s Standing Liturgical Commission will be asked to devise an appropriaterite. Such a blessing would have no legal standing unless a state legislature chose to recognize it. That ¯ RI .Police Welcome Gays : : ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ PROVIDENCEi R.L (AP).- The Rhode Island State Police have been trumpeting a recruitment drive that seeks to diversify the 193-member force, which ineludes 14 women, 12 blacks and one Hispanic. For the first time, arecruitment ad appearedin this month’ s edition of Options, a newsletter for gays andlesbians published in Providence. It’ s bdieved to be a novel step for a state police force. ’‘This is a first that I know of," said Boston Police Sgt. Norman Hill, president of the New England chapter of the. Gay Officers Action League. ’‘They deserve a pat on the back. They should definitely be acknowledged for their progressiveness." "Really?" replied San Francisco Police Officer Phil Fleck when told of the ad. 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OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) - Scientists at -" modation" and it reinstated discriminathe Ol~lfil~tma MedicalResearch Foundalion judgments against two dentists made tion have developed a patented new use ¯ ’ by the state Division of Human Rights. The three dissenting judges said their for a drug that should eliminate the threat : of AIDS in blood transfusions and might -" four colleagues were making new law and be effective in treating HIV-infected pa- ¯ that the decision would saddle the Divitients. The foundation received a U.S. ¯ sion of Human Rights with claims the patent Tuesday for a process to introduce : Legislature did not intend it to have. The court ruling came in two similar Methylene Blue into bags used to collect : ¯ cases stemmiug from what patients said and store blood donations, Dr. William G. Thurman, president of the private, non- ¯¯ was denial of treatment by Dr. Dennis Cahill of Bay Shore and Dr. LloydLasser profit foundation, said Wednesday. "It is our hope that the drug will be as " of Newburgh. In ruling in the patients’ favor, the Human Rights Division had useful in clinical disease as it is in preventing the disease by putting it in the : said private dentist offices are "places of bags used to collect blood," Thurman : publicaccommodation" within themeansaid. The Daily Oklahoman reported " ing ofthelaw whichprohibits dlscriminaThursday in a copyright story that the : lion on the basis of gender, race, religion, medical condition or o.ther factors. insti~te deyeloped the use that can render die AIDS virus i]iaet~ve in human blood, making it safe for use in transfusions. Biochemist Dr. Robert A. Fioyd said he also believes low doses of Methylene Blue might be effectiVe in destroying HIV ¯ WASHINGTON (AP) - Thalidomide, or reducing the amount of virus in people ¯ whichbecametheworld’smost infamous with AIDS or who are HIV~positive. Floyd ¯" drug after causing thousands of horrific said OMRF hopes to conduct clinical tri= ¯ birth defects more than30 years ago, may als with Methylene Blue in the near fu¯ soon be sold in the United States - perture. ~ haps as early as next year. The medication-Methylene Blue also ¯ While the drug shows promise in fighthas been used to treat bipolar:disorder, or ¯" ing some AIDS-related disorders, leprosy manic depression, and as an antidote to ¯ and other devastating diseases, the Food carbon monoxide poisoning. Floyd said : and Drug Administralion already is takvarious dosages of Methylene Blue have ing steps to protect women who could been studied extensively in humans with bear children with no limbs or tiny flipno side eff~ts or toxicity levels have been " per-like arms and legs after taking just found. Thurman said putting Methylene Btueinblood trausfusions andbloodprod- ¯ one pill in early pregnancy. .Thalidomide, once sold in 48 countries ucts should not significantly add to their : ¯ as a sleeping pill and morning sickness cost. ¯ cure, was banned worldwidein 1962 after ¯ some 12,000 babies were born with miss. ing or malformed limbs, serious facial ¯ deformities and defective o~gaus. ¯ It was never sold in the United States, ALBANY, N.Y. (AP) - Doctors-in pri- ¯¯ because FDA scientist Frances Kelsey uncovered signs of toxicity that its manuvate practice ca~ be charged under state humanrights laws withdiscfiminationfor : facturer had denied. 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When the settlor dies, the property is . cause it is unnecessary to publicly file the distributed according to the terms of the : trust document in court, the trust arrangetrust, and any property in the trust will " mentremaius private. The property distriavoid probate when the settlor dies. Be : bution may be more protected from chalaware, however, a revocable trust will not ¯ lenge than if by Will. save aay taxes since th~.trus~t l~’,qL~e..~..~ will �issue, our story on Nancy_. McDonald’s selection as PFLAG national boardpresident: Howevbr, we dsahave;an obligait ~hen :we local restaurant owner, but he doesn’t seem to recoguizable board members ? Itis hardto like it when we run a story he deems find good board members for any organi"embarrassing’" to his other friends. zation and assaults like this make this task Finally, we are amused at Mr. Phillips even harder. suggestion that this newspaper work with Devalued the work of employees, volan editorial board. Thisdesirefor a board unteers and supporters of the Resource of censors appears to originate several Center. The HIV Resource Center is a years ago with McDonald and Tim Gillean national model because of broad based when Gillean was TOHR president. It community support. Your incomplete arappears that they don ’t welcome an inde= ticle may havejeopardized volunteer suppendentpress which cannot becompletely port, f’mancial support and the level of controlled by those who feel that theirs is client services. (I hope this will not be the "right vision and methods" for the true.) well-being ofTulsa’s LGBTcommunities. Is an example of behaviors you have As we’ve written before, consensus, and ’written and spoken about working ag~nst the resulting unity, is built through open -- infighting in the commuility and using. the press to present one ’side of.an zssue_-, and honest dialogue , not imposed. Kelly Kirby rightly pointed out to the and to capriciously defame Others. would be censors that they had no plac~ Showed divisiveness within the gay telling TFN whatto write. If this newspacommunity at a most inopportune time -per needs to have a board ~elling us what the opening of the pride center [sic], the not to write, then certainly there are those elections, the fall funding cycle during a in this city who see the need to closely time of social service cutbacks; and the supervise Mr. Phillips, Mr. Gillean and appointment of Tulsan Nancy McDonald Mrs. McDonald as well. as national president of PFLAG. I have spent time, money and energy building community within the gay community and building bridges within our larger community. I am joined in this by We have had favorable inspections and many people locally and nationwide. Your audits as to the compliance with each behavior of printing this incomplete, vitugrant reviewed. We also have a yearly perative article undermined the work we audit that is contracted to and conducted do. with an outside audit firm: this firm is You owe an apology to your readers accountable to the Board of Directors. and to the straight and gay community in Our meeting notices are posted and which you live. I suggest that TFN has a advertised in the AIDS Coalition new sletresponsibility to cover issues objectively, ter which is distributed by the Commtmity thoroughly and to work with an editorial Service Council; this newsletter reaches board [editor’s note: emphasis added] the communities most affected by the before going to press. With your visibility services of the HIV Resource Consorcomjes [sic] a high levd of accountabiltium. Notices are also posted at.the Reity. TFN has the ability to become a comsource Center [sic]. The meetings of the munity-building tool. Without an apolBoard of Directors have been open and ogy and a logic~dly written contusion to will continue to be open to any persons this article how will anyone in good conwanting to attend. The only occasions we science trust TFN as this city’s gay paper have closed the Board meetings have been of record? - Rick Phillips to act on personnel matters; this would include annual evaluation of the Exec. Editor’s response: First, a thank you to Director’s performance, and any grievMr. Phillipsfor editing his letter to a more ance by staff or by clients which require conciseform. Secondly, Mr. Phillips seems Board investigation and action. [emphato confuse ourwriting aboutallegedprobsis added] lems with the HIV Resource Consortium In reviewing, the meeting attendance for being responsible for creating them. records which ~nclude the M~mbers of the He should know that the HIVRC’S staff, Board as well as visitors, Ida not find and ultimately, its board members are your name listed:as having ever attended responsiblefor any actions thatmay dam-. age the agency. ¯ ameeting of the Board of Directors. Thirdly, since some board members : Aslunderstandit, yourequestedcopies may feel that they were unfairly singled i of the minutes of the Board of Directors out, "weare hap~y to clarify ofu!.~lO~ :: and weretoid!torequest them _fr,om the,~ gize. Those who were listdd doho~ hav~ ’ .:~ .Presiden~ of the Board. [editor.s note:l. hny greater responsibility for any prob- : exec. director Thoele and administrative lems that may exist at tl~e ’HIVR~. Ulti- . assistant Stanford directed TFN to speak mately, responsibility falls on al..1 these ". withboardmember andattorney, Charles people equally. We have published the ¯ Seger, which we did.] At no time have I complete board list on page 3, so that " received arequest from you.for copies of readers can know who’s responsible. . : the minutes either verbally or in written Regarding community building, etc. no ¯ correspondence. [editor’s note: this is not doubt, Mr. Phillips has done many good : true. Beside multiple requests via Thoele, works as he proclaims, but he ishardly ". Seger, etc., on Sunday, Oct. 20 (well bedone in these efforts This newsfiaper, ~ : fore this letter of 10/28) at a Tulsans for and many others, have done equal cam- . Equality event tn ~.ont of-two others, munity building work - much’of it not . . McDonald directecl an acrimonious tipubliclyproclaimed. .~. i radetowardthiseditorinwhichshemade Mr.Phillips recently has been reported to savthatifherananbwstgal~er, hdwould orin~ " oni~ositive" arti’cl~s: ~would ~ke for ~mat propaganda, but hardly performs the role of news reporang, We . ¯ ". ". : it qu{t_e clear that she was well aware of TFN s request .for minutes. TFN made it clear that we still expected the HIVRC to make available the minutes. Also. this request has been ,m_ade to the H.IVI~.C’s inour community~for example; in:or~rlast., ¯ not been r~ceivedd.see MeDonala~p, li DEAL HITSUBISH! , ~OTORS N0- GOODBUY Money, 1996’s ’ t Lltle 001~15 lfalle r~ile HELLO OR CHECK OUT A BRAND NEW ] to , ~hl0 Air ~0ninl ’ AmSn 81m0 l/~ ~111~ 0~0lWlm&R.rSpaW ’97 ECLIPSE GS No 19-9 Money Down! -Timothy W. 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Those eligible for-the lottery do not rosy and certain AIDS ailments. Thalido- ¯ midealso stops bloodvessel growth-o.ne : receive Medicaid assistance, do not have reason for the birth defects ~ making ~t a 1 privateimuranceoreamlessthan$14319 possible future treatment for cancer and ¯ ayear. Sdectious willbemade from each the incurable macular-deg~eneration ..that’ : part of Missouri reader a formula.that " takesinto account themorbidity rate from blinds the elderly. Early next year, Andrulis Inc. of : AIDS in each area of the state. The drngswhenUsed separately arenot Beltsville, Maryland, will seek approval ¯ for thalidomide to treat the excruciating " effective because the virus quickly builds ulcers that afflict AIDS patients. Then, : up a resistance. Mixing the drugs may Cdgene also will seek I~rmission to sdl " change AIDS from a fatal illness to a thalidomideto the 150,000 AIDS patients ¯ chronic illness like diabetes, some doesuffering from wasting, orsevere Weight " tors say. 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Wethers, who rerather than swallow over the raw tissue. ¯ Studies indicate thalidomide healed the " cently spoke at an AIDS co_nf~en~,’.m sores in just 10 days, said James Learned : "Columbia, said the lottery is a puouc of the PWA Health Group in New York, " health insult" because it puts "patients in whichlast year provided thalidomide un- ¯ competition for medi,,cines that they all derground until the FDA allowed more : rightfully qualify for. "As much as we patients to use it in research programs: :¯ wouldlike to provide access t,o, al~l~of~_.em, ,..,: we just realistically can t do that, Rural AIDS Care :¯ .ubbssaid. GREENVILLE, N:C. (AP) ~- Doctorssay i people affected with HIV in eastern North ¯ Carolina0ften haVe little choice bm to" ’~ live from medical emergency to emer- " gency. That’s because thereare few doetors and dentists in rural areas who are willing to care for patients, who often " (;rematmn" " tety® ~. 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"ButyouthrowHIVontopofit, andthe " Some Tulsa board members of the remoteness of ... where people live in : ACLU include Barbara Santee, and Bill , rural eastern North Carolina, it does not ¯ Hinkle, lend for seeldng treatment or main~tai.n!n.g i Dr. Joycelyn Elders~ former Surgeon treatment because of the obstacles that . General of the United States under Presiyo,’ll encounter," the patient says in ona ¯ dent Clinton, will give the evening’s advideotape. The Centers for Disease C dress. The event is $50/person. For more trol and Prevention has identifi.ed the ~ info. leave a message at 405-524-8511. southeastern United States as an tmpor- . tant epicenter for the spread,of~0i0nf.0% ¯ tion, with about 126 peopte in xuu, infected, includingthosewithactiveAIDS- : In 1995, the national rate of HIV infec- : tion, including active AIDS, was 27.2 in. of all our citi.zeus. Kelly Kirby serves as 100,000. 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Once : to anyone requesting copies through .the agam we (your readers) were subjected to : appropriate channels. If copies are rethe TFN editor’s personal vendetta . quested-the individual must pay for the As you continued your attack, you said c o.p.ies as we attempt to be good stewards that you had requested and been refuse~ ot the monies available tous. the minutes from theboard meetings. Any : We .are deeply distressed by the article person who works with nonprofit agen: .aP.peanng in the Tulsa Family News and cies is aware that to receive minutes fron mvzte you to attend our next Board meetan organization their request must be for- i ing, scheduled for Thurs. Nov. 21 atnoon warded to the president. I personally con- ¯ at the HIV Resource Center [sic]. If you tacted the president of the HIVRC board : wish to request information from the Board only to learn that.the editor of TFN nev~ : of Directors regarding minutes or other requested the minutes._ Why continue to : appropriate public information, I forward attack someone on unfounded reasons’ _- to receiving your request. Thank you , [~ditor ¯ s note: as aperson with experi- ¯ We are asking you as Editor of Tulsa ence with non-profit boards, as a chair- : Family News to print this letter in its person, a member and-an employee, this : -entirety next edition of your newspaper. notion that a request is only valid ifmade . .,~ Nancy McDonald, President to McDonald has no basis in law or common practice. Gillean ought to be condemning Thoele, Stanford, orSeeger for failing to forward the request, if indeed they didfail to do so.] As a grand finale to your tabloid piece toward Amedure. you suggested that perhaps board memHowever, if Jonathan Schmitz was able bers could be freed and even jailed. Mento-form the intent to commit suicide, he . tioning only five of the total board memalso would have been able to form the bers sound like.some sort of personal intent to commit murder, a psychologist attack on your chosen five. What about testified Tuesday. Dr. Carol Holden was the other members of the board? What called as a rebuttal witness by the proskind ofjournalismis this? I cannot underecution. Oakland County assistant prosstand what benefit it is to our community ecutor Roman Kalytiak pointed out that to attack the very people who are giving Schmltz never referred to suieide during their precious time an [sic] energy as hiss911, call or during police questioning. volunteers to create a better community x ne jury fotmd that Schmitz, 26, acted for all of us. Why should a nongay person ". without premeditation and did notcombe willing to give their time and money to mit firs t-degree murder. He could get anyour community when they are attacked i where from eight years to life in prison personally and threatened by your publi- ¯ with the possibility of parole when he is cation? Why indeed should a gayperson ¯ sentenced Dec. 4. First-degree murder volunteer and be subjected to this kind of " carries no hope of parole. attack? ¯ The segment of the "Jenny Jones Show" [Editor’s note: board members shouM i was never aired but was played for the understand When they acCeptpublicposi- ¯ In it, Am~_ur_e,,outlined fantasies of tions that they will have to be accountable ". jury. Sehraitz involving whipped cream and for the agency which they supervise, i ~champagne~" S chmitz reacted with an emGillean might also read the OK statutes.] . barrassed smile but no apparent anger. He I would like to say to the people who turned away when Amedure put an arm were attacked by this article that I appre- i around him and tried to kiss him. "I’m eiate all you do. Please don’t stop now. To " definitely aheterosexual, I guess you could the individuals who feel they have been : say," Schmitz said. mistreated by the organization, there are ¯ much better ways than through the tab- " loids. ¯ [Editor’s note: several oJ those who ¯ spoke to TFN did so only after repeated " The 1996 Red Ribbon Holiday: Treefest efforts to work with the HIVRC.] ". and Gallery Walk will showcase holiday The editor at TFN must issue an apol- : trees and other holiday items. These will ogy to the five board members attacked and to the readers for not completing i be sold at auction to raise funds for Interfaith AIDS Ministries which provides proper research before publishing your : spiritual~ emotional, andpractical support article. -Timothy E. Gillean ¯ for those whose lives are touched by HIV Editor’s note: just after receiving this ". and AIDS. This year’s format will include letter byfax on Oct. 28th, I called Gillean to give him the opportunity to clarify in his i an "official opening," in the Brady Arts Gallery District, Thursday, Nov. 21 from own words, his close ties to HIVRC board 6-9 pro. More viewing hours will be on president McDonald. I left a message Nov. 22-23, and pick-up of trees will take with his assistant, Brian, asking Gillean place on Nov. 24th. to call TFN. To date, he has not done so. Philbrook Museum will shroudits Rodin Readem may want to consider the fol- : sculpture of Adam on Dec. 1 in honor of lowing~ Several years ago, Gillean proartists,have muposed a board of censor-s for TFN. Later i Day s..em3a" Without.Art. professzonals"Countless and art supporters when TFN ran an editorial he and ¯ died.., from AIDS. We can.only guess at McDonald did not like, "Gillean used his ¯ how many works of art will be denied to position as TOHR president to retaliate ". us by this disease that respects neither against TFN, to the detriment of TOHR. " people nor creativity," noted Richard After his bid for a 2nd term as TOHR ". Townsend, Hardman Curator of Europresidentfaildd, hejoined the PFLAG & : pean and American Art. Community Service Council boards, or- ¯ ganizations with which McDonald is " closely associated and allegedly at : McDonald’s behest. dial a geek 501.253.2776 POB 429, Eureka Springs Arkansas 72632 shimaka@intellinet.com http’J/www, pimps.condgeeld geekl.html 3 �READ ALL ABOUT IT ing Doesn’t Work," "Sleeping with the Reviewed by Barry Hensley : Enemy" and ’!Here Comes the Groom: A (Conservative) Case for Gay Marriage." The id~ that the gay rights movement is forever joined to "leftist" politics gets a : In,"A Gay Right Agenda," author John Berresford’ s conservative response to his thorough trashing in Brace Ba,w, er’s n.e.w ¯ liberals friends’ stance is %..I am as much compilation, "Beyond Queer.’ At this in favor or basic civil rights for gays as point in history, some centrist, and fight of center, authors are proposing a new ¯ they are. Where we differ is in the need approach to winning the battle for gay ¯ for group-based remedies and in perceivrights. Their perception is that, histori- " ing ourselves as victims whose main recourse should be coercion by the governcally, the movement has tried to claim ment." Berresford’s answer is to "come "victim" status, and that this will not be a out whenever it is reasonably safe. The successful strategy for winning full equalbest way to explode the myths about us is ity for gay and lesbian Americans. for. each of us to become known as .just Editor Bawer is well known, having another human being with ~esameneeds, written eight books, including the progoals and drives as other human beings vocative"A Place at th~ Table." Here: he has compiled forty essays by a variety of : except is a single respect that poses no authors, including former New Republic : threat to anyone else." He also believes editor Andrew Sullivan, San Francisco ¯ that ’-’we should lobby for the right to Chronicle correspondent Carolyn :¯ marry. Domestic-partnershipslegislation makes us an officially sanctioned class of Lochhcad and heterosexual Chicago Tri¯ oddities and freaks." bune columnist Stephen Chapman. DeThe threat of _be,,,ing seen simply as "oddiscribing the authors, Bawer states "though : many of us have been tagged in the gay ¯ des and freaks is the thought behind press as ’gay conservatives,’ few of us : Bawer’ s rifle. Insteadofbeing"acclaimed woul d be considered conservati v e by any- ¯ by a minority of gay ,,p~.~ple as ,a,,suppos,~ edlyaffirmativelabel, theworo queer, one-who objectively examined our poli". to Bawer, is "not so much to be homotics; we variously call ourselves liberals, moderates, libertarians and : sexual as it is to be a socially marginal communitarians- or we eschew such la- ¯ rebel, defined primarily by his or her bels Stogether as increasingly irrelevant : sexuality, who is perpetually andintdnsi: cally at odds with the political and culiff a post-ideological era." Bawer’ s intent is to present an alterna- : rural establishment." Can these ideas bring the gay right hnd tive to what he sees as a radical, in-your- ¯ face activism. Bawer initially cites "an : left together toward acommon goal? Can episode of ’The Charlie Rose Show’ de- : Bawer’s "we’re just like you" approach actually win the hearts of straight voted to the twenty-fifth anniversary of ¯: alone Americans? What about the wide variety the Stonewall riots, (when) the radical lesbian activist Donna Minkowitz told : ofpeoplein the gay/lesbian/transgendered me: ’We don’t want a place at the table- : community who may not meet the squeaky we want to turn the table over.’ That line ¯ clean image Bawer promotes, but who : still s_eek equality under the law? COuld pretty well sums up the attitude of many leftist gay activists toward both ’the sys- : the answer, perhaps, lie somewhere betem’ and gays who seek to work within : tween Bruce Bawer and Queer Nation? ¯ Check with your local branch library it." In essay after essay, the authors explain : for "Beyond Queer," or call the Readers their positions with rifles like "Why Out- :- Services, Central Library at 596-7966. The small conference room was named the Stariott Conference Room in honor of Midge Elliott and Deb Statues. The mesupport group will be at the Center earlier : dium size room was named the Renfro ¯ Room in honor of the late RF Renfro, a that afternoon. Last but not least is video night at the : leader of FUSO, the Friends in Unity Center. The inaugural video will be : Social Organization and an HIV educator Wigstock to be shown on Sat. Dec. 14th at ¯ who worked with TOHR/HOPE. : The largest room was to be named in 9pro in the Renfro Room. Popcorn and ¯ honor of two individuals who provided pop will be available. It’s free (though donations are accepted for the Center) and :- signifi .cant "sweat equity’, in tearing out three of Tulsa’ s most fabulous drag divas : tffo plaster & lath walls .to make the room may appear: Christina, Dolly Love and ¯ and in honor of one of those two who’s grand diva, Sensuous. January’s video ¯ donated much of the furniture that s in the night should be the 2rid Sat. also. Call to : Center. Thelatter man preferred not to be ¯ recognized but asked that the room be RSVP with Debbie at 712-1600: ¯ On Nov. 2rid, the Pride Center held a ¯ named in honor of Pat Padgett, a PFLAG activist. Therefore, that room is now the grand opening with about 70 people attending. TOHR/Pride Center president ¯ Neal-Padgett Hall in recognition of gifts Deb Statues held a brief presentation of ¯ that made the Pride Center possible. certificates to recognize those who helped with the Center. More than 50 individuals were honored, in particular, Kelly Kirby and Tim Gillean, former TOHR presidents, and now-closed Agape Christian ¯ or let someone else run the show...You Fellowship for its donation of chairs and : can care with out being cold, get things tables. Statues also announced the deci- : done right and.get on with it please!!! ¯ It seems to us that everyone is just out sion to name the rooms in the Center. The lounge/library was named the : for themselves, but after seeing and hearPfimetimers Lounge inrecognilion of their " ing first hand we know why...It is the only generous support of the Pride Center. The ," way we have of getting your attention... Thank you for Your Time largest single gift came from this group. ¯ - PWA Tulsa/N. E. Oklahoma Jeffrey A. 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On ourlast visit, themechanical the menu, like ’q’asty Fried Shark Bites" " towel was broken and filthy, and the toilet for$1.50,CajunDogfor$3.95,jambalaya : was running constantly. The finger bowls " for.S2.75, red beans and rice for $2.75, ¯ aren’tquiteenoughforthefastidiousdiner blaCken~dchi~k’strlp,’a for $6.50, a black- " to cle~ tip~ so the trip tothe tinyrestrooms ened fib-ey~ :s~ak ~0r $9.95, arid even " alligator for $8.95 But, nobody ever gets ¯ For those so inclined, the Boiling Pot those things. : features their house band on Saturday People come to the Boiling Pot for the " nights, whichplays aloudmix of country, Combo. The combo ($1~95) is a big pot ¯ bluegrass, andcountry rock, and packsin of shrimp, crawfish, crab, sausage, new ¯ the crowds. potatoes, quartered onions, and half ears : ~ The Cajun Boiling Potis where a group of corn on the cob which is boiled in a " of:frie~ids caugo for a casual good time. spicy crab boil and served~ Well, sort of served. It’ s dumped on the table.CM top of ing roffd~. No, this isn t aft elegant place~’ a big sheet of butcher paper. As soon as: btit it’s n~t supposed to be. And, while it’ the ~ood co0!s~enough :to handle, one " doesn’tappearas cleanas we’dprefer, in di~es in to shell the shl~mp, pinch the tails ¯ the dozens Of times we’ve eaten there,. offthecrawfish, su~kthejuices Out of the : we’ve never gotten food poisoning cerheads, d_nd squirt i~etchffp containers of " tain~noted Tulsa four diamond hotel rescocktail sauce all 0~er ~e place: When " taurants): The important thing is that if one’s hands get suffibienfly messy; a!arge ’r611 of ii~pdr.’~tbw~l~:.6~ th~ thblesefV~ ~S nhp.ki~ ~O;~ffe ~n&ifibn .thai ~e’y: don’i: use silverware. Until one has had the Boiling Pot experience, it is difficult to imagine how fun and how good the peel and eat can be. one likes boiled shrimp, the foodis great. : And; Wli~it’ ~ore can on~ ask from a dt~vilh:bm~~urant than t6 liitve great : food atinexpe~nsive i~rices?. ¯ Go suck some head and pinch some tail. ." The proprietors bring regular shipments of seafood up from the Gulf of Mexico, so i the shrimp and crawfish are fresh and ." firm. The crab, though, seems to have " been shipped on ice or frozen, since the ." shells lack the crispness of never-frozen ¯ crab. The crawfish, of. course, is 0nly ; available in season, which is December _" through June, but those little underwater carrioneatershaveneverbeenhighonour ." list of gourmet delicacies. We prefer the : shrimp, which is some of the best and : most economical shrimpin Tulsa, at only., $8.95 a pound. ¯ On a typical Boiling Pot excursion, we : It is also interesting that they let Nancy McDonald get by with falsifying her resume when she worked for the Tulsa Public Schools because she did so many nice things and worked so hard. I guess it meansitisallri.’ghttobedishonestaslong as your cause is good. Is it really? People get hurt when they get in her way. That seems very unfair. Can the media [mainstream media] help you with these efforts? Thank you for being there for these clients! - name withheld by request �Politics ~om~,age 1 values" of her district as well as a testimonial from her church, a well~known con-. servative Baptist congregation. TFN wonders how Easley could not hav e considered Gay issues when the Gaybaiting of Penny Williams and Pat Woodrum was front page news in The Tulsa World and Gay issues have figured prominently in the national news for most of this year? Easley may be one reminder that Oklahoma Democrats are sometimes not ,any more respectful ofthe rights Of Oklah6maGay CitiZens than Republicans.. In state races in Hawaii, same-sex marriage became a major issue leaving lawmakers who favored gay marriage skirmishing for support. Voters removed a good number of those legislators from office. This might mean that a constitutional amendment which would overturn a positive court decision for same-gender marriage may get through the legislature, In So. California, anti-Gay US Rep. Bob Doman appeared to have lost to his Democrat Loretta Sanchez. Doman attacked Sanchez as "another Catholic for abortion and sodomy rights." 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Murderer of Gay Man Gets Second Degree Sentence PONTIAC, Michigan (AP)- A TV talks show guest. avoided a mandatory life prison.term for murdering a gay admirer by convincing jurors that ’.’ambush televii"’ SayNoto Hate’ !iYes to Jobs Protections The members of Tulsa’ s Say No .,~ I-Fate Coalition have approved ¯ a statement on workplace discrimination ,that explicitly endorses ¯ fairness for all, including Gay & Lesbian citizens. The statement : reads: "... Say.No to Hate Coalition condemns workplace discrimi- :" nationin allits forms. Fundamental fairness dictates that all individu, i als,irrespectiveofrace, color,nationalorigin, religion, gender, sexual orientation, [emphasis added] age or disability, be afforded equal : opportunity in allof ,An~_,e,dca’s workpl,a~es. : Itisnotaboutso-called specialrights forcertaingroups.Itisabout evaluating each individual on his/her merit rather than making, group ¯ judgements based on ignorance and fear. -" " Disedminationin the workplace diminishes us all. It should never : happen, but it does. Laws are necessary to protectall ofus from such ¯ hateful and hurtful behavior, and to provide recourse in the event i discrimination does infact occur." ¯ The Coalition is made up of the following organizations: the : American Red Cross, Tulsa Area chapter, the Coalition of Hispanic Organizations (COHO), theHumanRights Dept. ofthe City ofTulsa, Intercultural Service Center, Islamic Society, Jewish Federation, Metropolitan Urban League, NAACP, The National Conference, Tulsa Region, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry, Tulsa Oklahornans for HumanRights (TOHR),Tulsa Police Dept. andTulsa PublieSchoolS, The Coalition was established in 1988 and works to protect theright, safety and fundamental freedoms see Hate, page 10 sion" was partly to blame. . -. - ~: HIVRCThreatens Lawsuit Jonathan Schmitz of second-degree murderin the 1995 ~ Attorney Kenneth Crnmp, representing the HIV Resource Consorshotgun slaying of Scott Amedure, whoh,a~ revealed a ¯ crush on Schmitz during a taping of _the Jenny Jones -" Show?’ Defense lawyers argued that Schrnitz, who had -" ahistory of emotional problems, was ambush,e,~, on the : show and pushed over the edge., JurOrs agreed. Weall -. felt he hada def’mite mental problem ... and the show ¯ i exacerbated that," juror Dale Carlington Said..r . Schmitz admitted shooting Am&ttire three days after : the two attended a taping of the show in Chicago on ¯ March 6, 1995. Defense attorneys say Schmitz,ahet,, ." erosexual; was humiliated to. learn ids secret admirer was a man.The humiliation, combine~[ wfthSchmitz’. history of menta! illness, alcoholism .and a thyroid condition rend~r~tilln incapable offorming the intent to kill, they contended. Dr. Michael Abramsky testified that Schmitz probably did not intend to hurt anyonebuthimselfon the day he shotAmedure. Abramsky, whohad examinedSchmitz about a month after the shooting, said Schmitz’s mind was "bombarded" by thoughts that included killing himself and feelings of anger seeMurder, page11 : Election News Analysis Political analysis & commentary by Tom Neal, editor : Based on Associated Press reports and TFN coverage. : Therecent elections appear to maintain thestatus quo : for Lesbian and Gay citizens. In Tulsa, State Sen. Penny : Williams (D) won over openly anti-Gay candidate . Brian Lehman (R) despite overfly anti-Gay campaign : ploys. Williams’ campaign also enjoyed supportfrom a ¯ number of Lesbian and Gay activists because of her ¯ history offairness. Hercampaign did, however, tell The . Tulsa Worm that she had never supported same-gender marriage despite avote against an anti-marriage bill last legislative session. Pat Woodrum, former director of Tulsa City/County Library System and another candidate with ahistory of " fairness to Gay citizens, lost her race for State Senate. ¯ Her opponent, James Williamson, also attempted to stir ! up anti-G,ay sentiment but some observers think :. Woodrum s loss more likely a reflection of running as : a Democrat in a traditionally Republican district. ¯ In the OK House, incumbent Republican Flint " Breckemidge who represented a midtown district with " a significant number of Lesbian and Gay voters was ." defeated by Mary Easley, Democrat. This might bode ¯ well for Gay citizens since Breckenddge ran a Gaybaiting campaign against former Rep. Bruce Niemi~ " However, Breckemidge toldTFN ofdosefamily ties to ¯ members of the Gay commtmity. Easley, when ques- : doned about her positions on- fairness for Lesbian and Gay citizens, claimed she just hadn’t thought about ° these things: However, her campaign literature touted ¯ her as upholding/the "conservative, family-centered, : see Politics, page 14 " tium, has informedTFN that the HIVRC is ’q~esitant to communicate directly" with TFN despite earlier demands byboard pres. Nancy McDonald for a meeting. Crump forwarded a letter from McDonald, asking that the letter be print,e~!,.,. adding, "ifthis is done, no further [legal] action will be taken ~..’ TFN publisher Tom Neal noted that TFN repeatedly agreed to McDonald’ s meedng demand (and agreed to a date which McDonald later canceled) and that TFN was happy to publish the letter (p.2). ¯ In a separate letter, Crump noted that aTFNreporter was questioning the United Way (which helps fund the HIVRC) about possible ramifications of client complaints and possible open records violations. Crump demanded thatTFNcease suchactivity. Neal responded that "it iS~an.unfortunate-attempt to intimidate TFN from making legitimate press inquiries?’ Dr. Jerry Nida, Commissioner of-the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health stated the HIVRC should comply : with the open records statutes- withholding only strictly ,,c,o,nfidential ¯" information. Andpres.,MeDonaldacknowledged to TFN s attorney .’- that theHIVRCWas obliged to provide the re~ords. To date, however, ~ no records_have been provided. ¯ ACLU-OK To Present Dr. Joycelyn ~ Elders & Honor Nancy & Joe McDonald The American Civil Liberties Union of Oklahoma has chosen Nancy and Dr. Joe McDonald as their Human Rights Project award winners alongwith longtime OKC Gay civil rights activist Bill Rogers. This awardwill bepresentedin theGoldCrownRoomofthe Clarion Hotel, 4345No. Lincoln, at 7pm. TheACLUwill also honorPare Fleisehaker of OKC~s Oklahoma Gazette for her work writing in defense of First Amendment rights, choice issues and Gay &Lesbian Citizens, as well as Michael Salem andJoel Carter, the attorneys who lead the effort to get the City of Edmond to drop seeACLU, page 10 ¯ MCC-GT Passes Financial Review : MCC-Gxeater Tulsa has provided TFN with a copy of a letter from ¯ South Central District treasurer of the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC). Thomas Merrill has given MCC-Greater Tulsa a positive review of its finanCial situation with only light admonishments about betteL.r..~eco~d~ing. Financial discrepancies that had -concerned membe~’~hd:~kediwithTFN (v2, #12, 11-12/95) have been resolved and ~6church has beendeared of any serious charges. Merrill noted thati:there was no evidence ofany misappropi’iation of funds, and bailk deposits were in order as were disbursements. He suggested that the appearance ofmissing funds resultedfromafailure to balance the bookkeeping records with the financial reports. He praised e.mrent treasurer, Norman Henley. for discovering that a loan paymen~ of $1,500 and tithe payments of $2,500 simply had not been reported in finanCial statements. This accounted for most of the "missing" fnn,ds. Merrill particularly remarked on deposit records for as little as $1 which had been dropped from an offering, saying this, was "a testament to the honesty and integrity of your leadership... Merrill added that the church has done an excellentjob of heeding the recommendations of aworkshop that the district provided to the church last March. MCC-GT continues its pastoral search to replace the Rev. Alice Jones who ledthechurch successfully for many years. C’ENTER !EVENTS Dana Tiger Benef,t for ¯ HOPE, RBG Meeting, ¯ Colm mu .n.ity-wide !Potluck, V deo. Night, i BLGTA Formal Dance, : Primetimers & Morel Award winning artist, Dana Tiger, will hold an exhibit of her work at the Pride Center on Sunday, Dec. 8 from 1-7 pm. Tiger who. hails from a family of artists will donate a percentage from sales to benefit HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education whose offices are in the Pride Center. Tiger is a member of the Muscogee Nation and is of Creek]Seminole and Cherokee descent. Her best known work honors the strength and determination Of Native Americanw,~ men. InTulsa, BrooksideJewelryshows Dana S Work and helped to bring this noted artist to the Center. Tiger was to have been joined by her sister, Lisa Tiger, who is known for her work as-an HIV educator. Lisa Tiger will not be able to attend but will have a video as well as a book of essays to which she’.s contributed available. RainbowBusiness Guild (RBG) will have a pizza party at theCenter for its Nov. meeting. It will be a week earlier than usual due to Thanksgiving - on-Nov. I9th at 7pro. All are welcome. Dinner dues will be $S/person. Dec. 7th, TOHR/The Pride Center will host with HOPE, RBG, TU’s BLTGA and other see Center, page 10 ¯ World AIDS Day March : Red Ribbon Treefest + ¯" Walk + DayWithoutArt ¯ This year’s World AIDS Day Memorial : March and Service will be on Sunday, Dec. ¯ 1st. The marchers, organized by Interfaith ¯ AIDS Ministries,will gatheratBartlettSquare ¯ in downtown Tulsa (Sth & Main) at 5pro. The ¯ March will begin at 5:30 andwill end atTrinity ¯ Episcopal, 501 So. Cincinnati for Evensong ¯ service at 6pro. Marchers are urged to bring ¯" bells to ring during the March and will be ¯ provided candles and matches..Organizations ¯¯ are invited to bring their banners. A reception will follow after the service. For info: 438- ¯ 2437 or 800-284-2437. ¯ see World, page 11 ¯ COMING SOON! :Our House Auction ¯ seepage 5 INSIDE EDITORIAL/LETTERS/DIRECTORY P. 2-3 ¯ NEWS P. 4 HEALTH P. 7 ¯" HIV/AIDS & THE LAW P. 7 ¯ CALENDAR P. 9 BOOK REVIEW P, 12 ¯ RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 1:3 CLASSIFIEDS P. 14 918.583.1248 fax: 583.4615 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 tulnews@ionetnet Publisher +,Editor: Tom Neal Entertainment Writer + Mac Guru: James Chri~tjohn Writers + contributors: Phyl Boler-Schmidt, Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Steven Scott, Gerald Miller, Lance Brittain, Kerry Lewis Issued on or before the 15th of each month,~the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1~ by T~!lsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or inp~rt,i~]’fhout ~,ritten permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicatethat person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomesthe so!e property_of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above, ldaeh reader is entitled to one free copy of each’ edition at distribution points. Additionalcopies are available by calling 583-1248." Just a note of encouragementbn your articleon the HIVRC. The concerns that have been brought up form the PLWA’s are true and correct. Please use my name as a former landlord that received funds from the HOPWA grant, as validation of these clients’ concerns. Many people know that I used my properties to house several clients from the RC, so I do hold a lot of Credibility there. The allegations ofmismanagement, poor perf0rmance and claims of bias retaliation against clients are facts, These reasons played a very large role in the decision David and I made to sell our properties. TheRC burned a very important bridge in that arena. We had 12 properties, 6 of which at the time Of the sdl were housed by PLWA’s on the HOPWA program, and we would probably most definitely still be in that arena had the RC been more cooperative to us and more compassionate towards the clients they represent.... You are to be commended for your article, and I support you 100%!!!! - Russell Langley-Stumpff, Tulsa ¯ October 28 1996 ¯¯ In respouse to the article appearmg in theTulsa Family News, Oct. 15, v. 3, no. 11, tiffed "PLWA’s Indict HIVRC, Care : Organization May Bein Violation ofOK Statutes", the Board of ¯" Directors ofthe I-I!V Resource C0nsorfittm are deeplyconcerned ¯ and.distressed at the accusation. : We are a Not for Profit Organization chartered by the-Olda- : homaCorporationCommission. Weadhere to the articulation of ¯ the mission of our organization. We receive funding from the ¯ United :Way, the Federal Government which dispenses funds : through the Oklahoma State Department of Health, the State : Housing Authorityand private donations. Because we are. a ¯ recipient of federal monies through the competitive grant pro- : cess, weare bound by the guidelines as articulated by each grant. ¯ Wemustreport to the granting sources on a regular basis. Weare ." subject to scheduled and non-scheduled on site inspection and ¯ audit ofour records to determine our adherence to all federal and ¯ state guidelines, see McDonald, page 8 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 832-1269 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria 749-4511 *Ground Floor Cafe, 51st & Harvard 749-5678 *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 *Samson & Ddilah, 10 E. Fifth 585-2221 *Renegades/Rainbow Room¯ 1649 S. 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Also, maybe too much money is being spent l~mning the HIVRC. If the ConSortium has nothing to hide they should be glad there is someone like you who is interested enough to help the PWA’s. Keep up the good work. This organization should be held accountable. - Cheryl Lenhart, Tulsa 749-4195 .: 665-5174 : *lqite Books & Videos, 821 S: Sheridan . 838-8503 " St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 38~1 S. Peoria, 646-7116 , Express Pools & Spas; 6310 S. Peoria - 743-9994 : Shhnti H0tlin~ & HIV/AIDS Siei’vices " Foxlinx, Computer Consultation = - . _ 690-297J¢ " " TulsaOkl~ for Hmnan Rights., POB.2687, 74101 ¯ EearmeM. Gross; Financial Pl,nningi, : ,~i ,::, ,-,,~44~0)02 i ~.T.,-~--h~i,’~i.~s’.,l}3~ ~:-~,., Mark T. 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C-1 742-8868 Thanks for Printing the Truth Thank you for printing the truth as you heard it or observed it. I am speaking about the HIVRC an the various complaints leveled against them. I. am also sorry to say that I will not reveal my name and it is not because I am irresponsible in what I say, but I recognize very clearly who is in control of the AIDS Service an thus, funding in Tulsa. I am concerned¯ about repercussions. I would encourage you not to stop your investigation. I think that the clients that have the more need are often the ones at the Resource Center that no one wants to handle. As you know, clients are not always physically attractive with good hygiene and wonderful personalities, some are drug abusers, some are dirty, some do not have any social skills, and some live on the street and some have serious mental health problems. However, they are still deserving ofhelp. Ifthe mental health centers stopped seeing the mentally ill because hey did notmake sense then what would be the purpose of heir existence? Therefore, the Resource Center needs to be sensitive toe people who are really downandoutandnot always easy to help. The must stop intimidating their clients. I was extremely bothered by the secretive nature Of their finances. Anyone knows who works in non-profit agencies ’that all Of those records should be readily available to people.-There should be no -reason to hide that information - unless, they are hiding it because their_ costs are extremely high and the hours of service, units of ~ervice, or numbers Of clients are solow that most people would question Why.they have-arOund halfa million dollar budget- and still are saying they d0n’t :. have .enough money. They ha*e much : more than most otherAIDS service orga- : nizations and they control, pretty much, ¯ all oftheUnitedWayfunds,TCAPfunds, ¯ and state funds. Perhaps Saint McDonald : lias something to do with that since she ¯ " als0 serves on the board of the Commu- : nity Service Council, which is an arm of the United Way. see HIVRC, page 13 5 by Tom Neal, publisher/editor : A handful of people arerather upset :right now. Last - month this newspaper published an-article relating the complaints of some people living with AIDS (PLWA? s) " against the I-IIV Resource Consortium (I-IIVRC) and ¯ added complaints of this newspaper about the agency’ s ¯ lack of cooperation, The article highlighted the concerns ¯ of some HIVRC clients,, the response the HIVRC’d]rec- H I V i: R: C . : torand also noted that the Board of " " :: agency appeared to bein viola-. ~o. ¯ don of a~ Oklahoma state law. l.)~reetors " . .: : The latter is the requirement President: that an agency supportedsub- Nane stantially with public monies abide by open meetingsand .~.teL)onam,~ open records statutes. Accord- Viee-presl"dents: ing to TFN, attor.ney and. also t~_~"re-~ ~~aunaIer"s " mylayman sreadingofthelaw, o. r~ ¯ . theagencyshouldprovidemin- 0~, L,,an - utes of its meetings when re- Phnhet, MD quested. To date, the HIVRC has been asked for meeting minutes repeatedly since the latter part of July and has yet to provide them now more than three months later. Wehave reproduced several letters from the president ofthe organization, her close friends and associates, and the HIVRC’ s attorney. Readers can seefor themselves several strategies for both excusing the agency~ s failure to comply with the law and for attempting to shift "blame from the agency, its staff and its boardof directors, to this newspaper. Most of it is just pure silliness and irresponsibility. The law appears to compel the HIVRC to provide its minutes SecretarT: .Tommy Chesbro Rib Helmerleb Caroline Abbott Geo r e Bdlke Michael Esliek Jeffry Johnson Erie Ramlrez Gene Reid Steve Reynolds Charles Se~.er Suzy Stard~eld MaybelleWallaee Jack Welsh Ned Zink when requested. The law does not specify that the entity requesting the minutes must speak to any specific person in the agency’ s hierarchy: Internal communications are usually the responsibility of the agency. The following is what this newspaper did in requesting minutes: Sharon Thoele is the primary legal representative of the agency in conducting it~ day to day business. Thoele signs checks, and TFN understands, hires and fires staff, etc. For the purposes of state open records requests, Thoele is clearly an appropriate legal representative for the organization. Thoele received several requests from TFN for copies of the minutes. These requests weremade first directly to Sharon’s administrative assistance, Susie Stanford, beginning in late July/early August. The first request was ignored for several weeks. The second request was answered with a message (given by Stanford) that Thoele said that TFN could not have the minutes, and that we. should talk with Charles Seeger who was described as their attorney. During that conversation, TFN requested a list of the board of directors from Stanford which was taxed to TFN. This is so far the only document delivered as requested. ¯ Editors note: this letter was.sent to the H1VRC With copies specifically designated to Sharon Thoele & TFN. This is the first ofmany letters thatwehope will let you know how we the clients are feeling; In hopes that things get better at the Consortium for all involved... There are anumberofus that see but donot say, and yet there are those of us who do and get SH1T. We don’tneed the stress ofhaviffg to run all over town to try and find the help you are responsible for giving...You put yourself in the position of wanting to help, so stop the fighting and start the helping... I was broughtup that "ifyou do it right thefirsttimeyoudon’ thaye to doit over... Oncein a while we can understand but each and every month...If you don’t want to help the[n] don’t hinder us!!! , Youallneedto gettheacttogether see PWA, page !2 TFN talked witti attomey(andi~ehi~iSlSens, board mem- : McDonald-of an important request. It also seems less bet) Charle~ Seege,r and requested copies Of the mi.’nutes. ¯ likely that attorney a~d board member Seeger would fail Seeger saidhe di.dn.t think that there was anything to hide " to do so. And another board member said hedid raise the in the minutes but thatsince they were a private non- " issue at a board meeting that took place prior to the profit~ he di-d not feel that they wer9 compelled toprovid~ ¯ publication of our last issue. them and thereforg, the ,HIVRC would not ,make the ¯ Regardless; the point is that now the agency has the minutes available.- - : opportunitytoprovethatitdoesindeedhaveonlythebest TFN informed Seeg~.that we_understood fr,om our : interests .of its .clients at. hea~.,It .el.aims ~at it.has had attorney that the ag¢ne-y ~as subject fo Oklah0mii s o~en~ " g0odandltS and~eviews. That being thecase~theHWRC recordsstatutesandevengavehim’the~s~.~tute~citati~ns,: .:. shouldha~;e.’nd pr0bidm:~ng’t~0g~’andits flnancial Seeger failed to return at least two sub~equen! callsTr0m :" statements a.vailablefor public_ review along with all TFN andfailed to respond to aletterfromTFN sattomey. ; other records that donotinvolve Strict client or employee -: " Board president Nancy McDonald claims that.she Was ¯ confidentiality issues. ¯ completely unaware of these ~eq~u..e,sts. She also is at- ¯ Itcanprovethatitisreallythemodelvogramitdaims temptingt0 excuse the agency Lg failure to comply with " to be by actively responding to the complaints of those ¯. the law by contending that 0nly a request made to her " clients bra~e enough to confront the agency..It Can begin ~ directly is valid, This is pa~t of.the attempt Of the agency ¯ to address its internal communications Issues which to shift blame for its failures to this newspaper. ¯ .include allegations of breaches of client confidentiality. ¯ However, Seegernever saidtoTFNthatarequestmfst " ~ For example, I am aware ofone suCh]ncidentbecause " be made tOboard president McDonald. TFN also called I br6tight it to Thoele’ sattention’ directly. I could have ¯ board member Tommy Chesbro and asked if he could written abom it but I chose to let them try to fix the : help get the’ minutes: Chesbro was sympathetic, but "- problem instead. Hopefully, it is fixed, but the employee ¯ referred questions back to executive dir.ector Tlioele. " who was accused still works for the agency. Others Our contention is that a request made to the executive " involvedin HIV care in Tulsa say that there are ongoing ; director, the primary day-to-day legal representative for problems of this sort. ¯ the HIVRC is more than adequate notice to.the agency. Other issues include allegations by other HIV service ¯ This newspaper went above and beyond duty to speak : providers that instead of working as a model of organizaalso with board members Seeger and board secretary " donal cooperation, the HIVRC has become the bully in ¯ Chesbro. the service provider arena- better at sucking up HIV care ~ Again, it is not the responsibility of this newspaper to dollars and better at adding staff than at actually provid- : fix the internal communications failures of the HIVRC- " ing care. Other agencies tell tales that imply that person- " ifindeedthatistheproblem.Itwouldseemthatexecutive alities and political connections play more of a role in ¯ director, Sharon Thode, who’ s paid slightly more than how agencies interact and how dollars are awarded than " $30,000 annually, should be capable of getting amessage " do the real needs of the clients. ¯ toherboardandpresidentaboutafaidyimportantmatter. And isn’t that who we all should really care about? . Interestingly, several former HIVRC board members " Why is it that so little of the discussion seems to be ¯ told TFN since the HIVRC story was published that ¯ concerned with the clients? That’s where Tulsa Family ¯ during their tenure, the HIVRC had the following proce- " News beganmore than eightmonths ago- by listening to ¯ dures’. earlier boards had been told by.an attorney that " those to who claim the HIVRC mistreated them. Most of ¯ they werenot subject to the Oklahoma Open meedngs and " them say they tried to work with the agency and were not : records acts, but nevertheless those boards had set a : only rebuffed, but some were treated’in ways that added ¯ policy of operating as though they were. For example, the " to their stress and may have worsened their health. ¯ organization posts its meeting times publicly in advance ¯ in accordance with the law. The question then becomes ¯ this: if the HIVRC’s standard, operating p01icy was to ¯ honor the law (even if they contend they weren’t subject ¯ to it), why did they not honor the open records act when ¯ .TFN asked for minutes? ¯" What we have argued is that if the agency has nothing ¯ to hide, then sharing the minutes shOuld never have been ~ a problem. For comparison, TFN talked with several ¯ executive directors Of other non-profits, some HIV re- : lated and others not. Each of these Said that if .they were ¯ asked for minutes, they would provide.them promptly. ¯ One person in another city, who formerly ran an agency ¯ that is dosdy comparable to the HIVRC in mission and : structure, said he would simply have photocopied the ¯ minutes and turned them over. ¯ Some observers of this situation have suggested that ¯ they find it tmlikely that McDonald was unaware of the request but likely directed Tiioele and Seeger to "stonewall" the request. This newspaper has no proof of such contentious. However, given the seemingly dose working relationship betweenMeDonald and ~noele, whom McDonaldrecently helped to honorwith aSWANaward~ it seems rather surprising thatThoele wouldfail to inform How can I convey my. disappointment in your article questioning the HIV Resource Center [sic]? Professional journalism covers both sides ofcontroversialissues. Why were HIVRC client & staff responses not reported?Why did not younot share with your readers any results ofyour 3.5 hour interview with director Sharon Thoele? [editor’s note: the PLWA’s who spoke with us are HIVRC clients, and last we checked, Sharon Thoele was still on the HIVRC staff. TFN reported that part of Thoele’s comments that were relevant to the original complaints by PLWA’s.] Was your article questioning one program, three programs or the agency overall? The issues and considerations behind all AIDS and non-AIDS social services are ind.,e~l complex.. , . One sources related what I hope isjust a rumor with no merit. After TFN’ s interview with Thoele, she’ s alleged to have expressed anger that I did not reveal who my sources were. Let’ s hope that herintentwas good and that that information would have been used to fix the problems. However, the fear by some clients of retaliation surely doesn’ t stem iust from paranoia. The point of all this is not to besmirch the reputations of the staff or the board of the HIVRC. I hope all involved have only the best intentions and have done the best they can with limited resources. And there is no doubt that there are not adequate funds for the need..However, point of public oversight is that the best possible management and ~tre should be prox;ided within the res.trictions of those limited resources. The questions are: is management up to the task; is it possible that the agency has .grown beyond the skills of those leading it; is itmaximizmg the benefit to its clients; is the board willing to follow both the spirit and~the letter of the law? The answer to all these may well be yes. But those of us whose tax dollars or United Way contributions substantially fund this agency have the right to. expect the HIVRC’ s full cooperation and disclostire. It hash’ t happened Yetbut hopefully it will soon. Concerning your lead story tiffed"PLWA’s Indict HIV RC... once again I find an outright assault in print against an organization that has served as a model nationwide in the administration of HIV/AIDS care and resources. While it is easy to understand that every agency cannot please each client 100% of the time.I am concerned that each client is treated with dignity and respect. In my professional dealings with theHIV Resource Consortium I have found a group of compassionate and caring individuals, staff and volunteers dedicated to delivering service efficiently and effectivdy for very little or no pay. [editor’s note: director Thoele ispaidover $30k which is more than many ordinary people make.] While you stated in your artidethat you conducted a 3 see Phillips, page 8 " 1/2 hour interview see Gillean,page 11 St. Rights Group Forms- BURLEY, Idaho (AP) - If gay rights come under fire in the 1997 Idaho Legislature, Schuyler Enochs will be there to stop it. Enochs, of!Caldwell, was jolted into working for gay and lesbian rights after watching his gay son Karl die of AIDS in 1994. Now he is cochairman of Idaho for Basic Rights, which is forming to block possible anti-gay rights legislatiofi from the Heyburn-based Idaho Citizens Alliance. The Idaho Citizens Alliance plans to file two bills by the end of. November~ executive director Kelly Johatmsen said. One would prohibit public schOols from promoting the ers couldnot counsd gay students, offer Some kinds of diversity training or take classes on dealing with. sexual Orientation. The other measure would prohibff the use of tax dollars to promote the homosexuallifestyle.- That means .students at¯ publicly funded colleges ~ould not prod.uce plays favorable to gays and lesbians, and libraries could not p~urehase mat.e.-- rials about gays and lesbians "In our school we don’ t promote dr~gsJwe don~;.t promote alcohoLase-..~?~It~s detrime~a.t~l~ .~o-th~ir health;"qohannsen said?!Statistieally~ iT:theyengage ~ in the homosexual lifestyl~ they~ 11 die lOto. 15 years younger than they would if they.were a smoker." Enochs scoffed at the ideathat schools canpromote. sexuality. "You can’. t teach it: You’re born thatway~’!. he said.:"What’ s wrong with counseling people.that are homosexual?. Their suicide rote is very high. They need help. They need counseling. They need to understand it isn’t.unnatural. It’~s natural, for them.’r Enochs saidignorance is his group’ s biggest obstacle. - "People just don’t understand that a certain percentage ofyour population is gay or lesbian and they have : turned custody of two young boys to their homo- . sexual father on Tuesday, ruling there was no evi- ¯" deuce he exposed them to "improper influences" by ." living with a male lover. The NC Cohrt of Appeals ’ overturned a lower court _,..~.’~gthat had transferred : the boys from Frederick S’~th to his former wife. ¯ Smith woncustody of the boys, ages 8 and 11, after : heandhis wife divorced in Califomia in 1991. Under ¯ the lower court decision, however, they.have been " living with their mother, Carol Ptiiliam, in Kansas._ : Pulliam’s attorney, Phillip Jackson~ said .the ruling : wouldbe appealed to the state Supr.eme Court. Hedid : noLknow if.the.children would, be retiimed from ¯ ~sas i~nme~liatelyl Smi~ alidhis sbns lived with : his grandmother in H~nderson Cty. from i991-94. ¯ But in 1994, the grandmother moved Out and his ¯ Iover, Ti~Tipton, moved, i,n. Pulliam said the change : in Smith s living, arrangements justified giving her : exclusi,~e ,custody bflthe children,~ : A’ Henderson Cty, ~ .c6,Ui-t agT-eed,, finding ihat’,the. :_ chil~en,were ~Xposed to ~’~t and imprbper ififlu- ¯ ences~’ that could’.xlamAge: them dmotionally and- :. social!y~ ,.~a,t finding-was.’b~.d~0n nothi!zg more. ¯ ~ titan 0~ifii’0ii,.A~s~c~ Jfi~gd. Edward Greend :" wrote for a~’-ji~dke~p~i’i~i : this c~s~e, thee is no evidehee that-the’c.onduct huh or : likdy WlUha~;e a ddeteri0us effec(0fi ~echild~n," ¯ i Greene ~vrote2 Smith~.who coachedhis sons’ tee-ball "~ andbaseball teams,,said h,~ hadhopedhis ease Would i not get mUch attehtion.- Mo~t.p~op.!e’drn’ ~ r~lize I’mgay,"hd sai~l.. "Emworried.. ~61 die,,reperdussiohs for ~e kids.at school and me a.t work.. - i CO school DebatesGay ¯ NewspapersStories no choice, no choice at all," he~ said. Johannsen said : her group already has lawmakers ready to support the : COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. (AP) - Nearly three: 1997 legislation. . : dozen gay rightsadvocates spoke out at a school boardmeeting Wednesday night in support of a high L,. i € " i.date : school newspaper story about teen-age homosexual- euls,a.lv....-.n.. : ity: The:~article~ tided "Finding True Love," was Calls for-Killing Gays: writtenby Mary Margaret NusSbaum, editor-in-’chief of Palmer High Sel~ool’ S monthly newspaper The PUYALLUP, Wash, (AP) =,A legislative candidate Le~;er. The O~t. 24 article describes the problems who outraged many PuyallupHigh School students. with his inflammatory remarks about gays and integration may end up being a good lesson in the basics of democracy and free speech. Mark.Downey, a, PgpuliSt. Party candidate for.the 25th District ofstate House, Position 1:-, was invitedto speak at the school-sponsored, forum but startled students with his intolerant message. He used quotes from the Bible to say homosexuals Shouldbe killed, and he called multi-cul.tural integration a cancer. "He Said something to the effect that Communists, homosexualsand nonwhites should not be allowed to hold public office," said Matthew Oren,,18. "It was a shoeking thing." Downey contends he ~as contributing to. the marketplace of ideas, Ben.Allison, 17; sM,d that- as a blackp+rson he was offended by Downey s remarks, but he wash’, t sure that Downey should ha~e been banned fromthe forum, "I think he hadaright to come because if he hadn’.t come, no one wouldknow his views;" Allison said./’I was close to hitting him, though." Downey’.s fellow¯ candidates~ Democrat Luanne Green and Republican JoyceMcDon~d, also were surprised.by hi~ comments. Gre~n’sai;d ~he"thofight" MeDonald might,grab,the microphone~away, from Downey."’I said; ’Let it go. The-kids needto under~ stand that these people are out there,’ " Green said. Vice Principal Barbara Pope agreed. "I really believe that he should have been~there," Pope said. "To me, the issue is what are we exposingour kids to. I think we expose and then we talk before and afterwards with them." Oren, who was a student panelist for the debate, described a sttmned silence in the auditorium for the first 10 seconds ofDowney’ s closing statement. That silence quickly turned to screaming and booing that nearly drowned out the-candidate’s remarks. Students and teachers talked about the free speech issues in classes following the forum. Gay Dad Can Keep Kids RAT.F.TGH, N.C. (AP) - A state appeals court re- : teens face in coming to terms with their homosexual- ¯ ity. An accompanying commentary by another stu- : dent supported same=sex marriages. ¯ The articles brought a protest from ¯Will Perkins, chairman of ColrradO’frr Family Values, the ~roup ¯ thatatith0redCol0rhflo’s~anti-gayfightsAmeiidmcnt ~ 2/Which was struck d0wnin May bythe’U.S. ,Supreme Court. Perkins did not attend the meeting. The ¯ controversy over.the a~ti~les led.District 11 school board t6 add a discussion of its student publication policy tO its tegular meeting Wednesday. : About 35 people ~p0ke about the articles, with all ~ but one praising thenewspaper. Gerda Fletcher, .the ¯ mother of a gay son; snide"Freedom of speech must never, ever "be suppressed." Sixteen-year-old Brad : Balof saidhehopes the articles ~vill make otlierS.more ¯ accepting .of gay-teens. "I’might n6t’have as hard ~ time growmg up as I thoughtI wotlld," he said. ¯ Superintendent Kenneth Buruley i said the- district ¯ needs a deare~r,.publicafions policy that does not : violate:the state S smdelit-.free-.pressd’aW~ one_of the ¯ most liberal in. the nadon. He said the district is "~ cons’ulfing an att_0me~y. :tb:mak~ ~,~ure’ any at,tqmptg to ;. defixie,:,~ ~611ey d~n’i g0.t06, ~:st~iel,aW S_a.YS ~it . a student-Wtitteii firtidemugt-nb~t beobs~ie:~ libelous, likely to caus~ a dis.t.drbatice]ffthe s6hool dayoi : lack educationalmerit. ¯ Newspaperadviser Vince Puzick saidNussbaum’ ,S, : article met those Criteria."’I encouraged her to do it,’ : he said ofNussbaum. ’T d do the same article again?’ Nussbaum also defended the article before the board. ¯ She SaidThe Lever tries to avoid filling a stereotypi: : cal niche" by publishing stories on controversial ¯ topics such as gtmcontrol. School officials didnot set : a date for deciding the student publications policy : issue. i CA Bar Urges Benefits ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - The State Baris urging ¯ Califomialaw firms to offer health benefits to same- : sex couples and take other steps against discrimina- ¯ tionbasedonsexualorientation. ’Thisisthefirststate St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical CSurc5 Kelly Kirby CPA,PC Certified Public ACcountant . a pro~eas~onal corporation . .....Talk _tO us now about your year end tax planning needs. " ’!747-5466 4021 South Harvard, Suite 2!0, Tulsa 74135 JE,WELRY 4649 So. Peoria 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5 pm Monday- Friday & , Open Saturdays Now till Christmas ";- MCC Greater Tulsa "Where God Uplifts All People" 1623 N. Maplewood ¯.Tulsa, .Oklahoma 8384715 Auction. 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A state law that took 9~f,~..in 1993 prohibited employmentdiscriminatioi] agaiJ~sthomosexuals. The bar adopted a rule in March 1994 that subjected lawyers and firms to potential disciplinary action for discriminating on the base of mce,-sex, sexual orientation or several other categories in hiring employees or selecting clients. On another front, the state Judicial Council has begun a study of treatment of gays and lesbians in the court system, as lawyers, diehts, witnesses, employees and jurors. Previous studies have focused on women and racial minorities. But the bar’ s Board of Governors decided in August that further step,s were needed after getting a reportfromBmveman s committee on the climate for homosexuals in the legal l community. The report relied heavily on a 1994 study by the LosAngeles County Bar Association that found’inStanceS of dis-- erimination in hiring, workplace ea~ironment, as: siguments, evaluation, pay and prom6ti0n. ¯ The Los Angeles study said 58percent ofgay male lawyers and 68 percent oflesbians "surveyed reported that they had experienced or seen dis~-rimination against homosexual attorneys: Despite the 1993 ban on’ emplo~mentdis~imination, one unnamed legal employer was quoted in the LoS Angeles survey as saying, "We are not interested in lawyers with this type of disability." About 15 percent of all lawyers questioned in therandom survey said their employers discriminated in hiring, 15 percent said their clients did notwantto workwith gay lawyers, and 66 percent reported anti-gay comments or jokes .at work, the report said. In 1991, before passage of the state law and attorney disciplinary rule, a State .Bar study of 14.300 randomly chosen Californialawyers found economic disparities between homosexuals and heterosexuals. For example, gays and lesbians with 10 years of law practice were only two-thirds as likely to be partners in their In’ms, or to make over $100,000 a year, as heterosexuals. The resolution passed this August by the bar’s governing board calls on law firms to adopt, implement and publicize anti-discrimination policies in recruitment, hiring, assignments, pay and promotious. Firms should also maintain a supportive atmosphere rather than onein which gays felt compelled to remain in the closet, the board said. In addition, the board called on law firms to adopt "benefit packages with the same sets of benefits for all employees." Those would include insurance for same-sex partners on the same basis as married couples, in addition to parenting leave, sick leave caretaking and bereavement leave and relocation benefits. Firms were encouraged to invite same-sex partners to social events when spouses were als0 invited. Earlier this year, the bar included domesticpartner benefits in its health package available to California attorneys. Gay Unionsto be Blessed PHILADELPHIA (AP) = A month after Pennsylv.ania passed a law banning same sex mhrriages ,’ ~ state’ s Episcopal Diocese has voted to create ablessing for gay and lesbian relationships. At the diocesan convention Saturday, clergy delegates voted 101-43 and lay delegates voted 75-53 to develop "a rite or rites for the blessing of committed relationships between persons of the same sex." The PennsylvaniaDioceseplans tourge thenational churcl~ to do the same. The combined 176-96 vote "was a surprise to me," said Bishop Allen Bartlett, who had expected a closer margin. The 65,000-member diocese, which has 163 parishes and missions in Philadelphia and four surrounding Counties, will submit the approved resolution to the national governing convention in Philadelphia next year. If the General~ Convention approves, the church’s Standing Liturgical Commission will be asked to devise an appropriaterite. Such a blessing would have no legal standing unless a state legislature chose to recognize it. That ¯ appears unlikely in Pennsylvania. In October, Gov. ¯¯ TomRidge signedlegislationbanning gaymarriages. The Rev. Ruth L. Kirk, who co-submitted the : resolution, said Christian moral codes cannot be ¯ devdoped purdy on the moral codes of the first century. "As I said at the convention: Can God do a : new thing? And can God use the church to do a new ¯ thing? For centtLdes we have condemned gays and ¯ lesbians. It is time to support committed, loving : relationships." ¯ DenverWorkers.Benefits i DENVER (AP) - City officials say only 48 city : workers signed up their gay partners for health ben- . efits by this week’s deadline, far fewer than oppo- ¯ nents ofthenew programpredicted. The City Council : voted overwhelmingly in September to offer the ¯ benefits to partners of gay employees. Open enroll- : ment for the program ended at 5 p.m. Thursday.. ’Tm : a little surprised,"said Fred :rjmmerman, director of : the city’s Career Service Authority. "I.thought it ¯ wonld be higher." " -, ¯ ¯ ¯ Opponents of the benefits’extension had predicted i themove wouldlead toa huge increase in health care ¯ costs’. With48 signing up, the city"s insurance premiums for eligible workers, which total about $12 ¯ million ayear, willincrease by $80,000. Timmerman : said the actual number of .enrollees shows those ¯ predictions were overestimated. "We never had any ¯ fear about it,"he said. Timmerman said he expected ¯ at.least I percent of the 8,500 eligible employees to : signupfor theprogram..The48 whodidrepresentless ¯ than 0.6 percent. i Presbyterian Church : Leader Urges Cease-Fire : GREENVILLE, S.C. (AP) -The top elected official ¯ of the Presbyterian.Church (USA) says church lead- ! ers shonld declare a cease-fire in disputes overhomo- : sexuality that he says threaten to divide the denomi- ¯ nation. "We do not agree at all about what the Bible ¯ means onthisissue," saidJolmBuchananofChicago, ¯ elected moderator of the 3 million-member denomi- : nation this year. "The question becomes for me: ’Can ¯ we find some way to live with that diversity or must ¯ we resolve the issue in a way.., that divides us?’ "he ¯ said. Buchanan spoke Tuesday to members of the ¯ ¯ Foothills Presbytery, which represents 21,000 merebers in 65 Upstate churches. ¯" In the coming months, presbyteries nationwide ¯ will vote on whether to amend the church’ s constitu¯ tion to require thatministers be faithful in amarriage between a man and a woman or live in chastity if single: The church already has a policy statement that bars practicing gays from ordination, but its Book of : Order does not include such a restriction. Buchanan : said Presbyterians tradifonally interpret passages in ¯ context with the whole Bible and through debate within the church. "Everybody knows that ff you are : - willing to simply pick-things out of the text you can ." pretty much f’md justification for whatever position ¯ you want to take on any given issue," he said. : ¯ RI .Police Welcome Gays : PROVIDENCEi R.L (AP).- The Rhode Island State : Police have been trumpeting a recruitment drive that ¯ seeks to diversify the 193-member force, which in- : eludes 14 women, 12 blacks and one Hispanic. For ¯ thefirsttime, arecruitmentad appearedin this month’ s ¯ edition of Options, a newsletter for gays andlesbians ¯ published in Providence. It’ s bdieved to be a novel ¯ step for a state police force. ~ ’‘This is a first that I know of," said Boston Police ¯ Sgt. Norman Hill, president of the New England ¯ chapter of the. Gay Officers Action League. ’‘They ¯ deserve a pat on the back. They should definitely be : acknowledged for their progressiveness." "Really?" ¯ replied San Francisco Police Officer Phil Fleck when ¯ told of the ad. 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Utica 582-7144 Utica Square Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299,1790 New Blood Safety Product Developed OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) - Scientists at the Ol~lfil~tma MedicalResearch Foundation have developed a patented new use for a drug that should eliminate the threat of AIDS in blood transfusions and might be effective in treating HIV-infected patients. The foundation received a U.S. patent Tuesday for a process to introduce Methylene Blue into bags used to collect and store blood donations, Dr. William G. Thurman, president of the private, nonprofit foundation, said Wednesday. "It is our hope that the drug will be as useful in clinical disease as it is in preventing the disease by putting it in the bags used to collect blood," Thurman said. The Daily Oklahoman reported Thursday in a copyright story that the insti~te deyeloped the use that canrender die AIDS virus i]iaet~ve in human blood, making it safe for use in transfusions. Biochemist Dr. Robert A. Fioyd saidhe also believes low doses of Methylene Bluemightbe effectiVein destroyingHIV or reducing the amount of virus in people withAIDS orwhoareHIV~positive. Floyd said OMRFhopes to conduct clinical tri= als with Methylene Blue in the near future. The medication-Methylene Blue also has been used to treat bipolar:disorder, or manic depression, and as an antidote to carbon monoxide poisoning. Floyd said various dosages of Methylene Blue have been studied extensively in humans with no side eff~ts or toxicity levels have been found. Thurman said putting Methylene Btueinbloodtrausfusions andbloodproducts should not significantly add to their cost. NY Doctors Can’t Discriminate ALBANY, N.Y. (AP) - Doctors-in private practice ca~ be charged under state humanrights laws withdiscfiminationfor allegedly denying medical coverage to people they suspect ofhavingAIDS, New Estate Planning: Revocable Trusts Everyone, regardless of their HIV stares, should take the time to plan their estates to ensure that their wishes are fulfilledregarding thedispositionofproperty, financial management, and health care decisions. Because of the possible physical and mental incapacity, persons with HIV are encouraged to take steps as soon as possible to maintain as much control as possible over their futures. One of the options is a Revocable Trust. ARevocableTrustis an estate planning document created by a person (usually called the "settlor") to transfer property into a trust. The trustmay make the settlor the sole beneficiary of the trust during until the settlor dies. Atrustee is named to manage the property while the setflor is alive and who distributes the property when the settlor dies. The setflor may amend the trust at any time. When the settlor dies, the property is distributed according to the terms of the trust, and any property in the trust will avoid probate when the settlor dies. Be aware, however, arevocable trust will not save aay taxes since th~.trus~t l~’,qL~e..~..~ will York’s highest court ruled today. The ¯ Court of Appeals decided 4-3 that denlists’ offices are"places ofpublic accom- -" modation" and it reinstated discriminalionjudgments against two dentists made ¯’ by the state Division of Human Rights. : The three dissenting judges said their -" four colleagues weremakingnew law and ¯ that the decision would saddle the Divi- ¯ sion of Human Rights with claims the : Legislature did not intend it to have. : The court ruling came in two similar ¯ cases stemmiug from what patients said ¯¯ was denial of treatment by Dr. Dennis Cahill ofBay Shore and Dr. LloydLasser " of Newburgh. In ruling in the patients’ favor, the Human Rights Division had : said private dentist offices are "places of : publicaccommodation" within themean- " ing ofthelaw whichprohibits dlscrimina- : lion on the basis of gender, race, religion, medical condition or o.ther factors. ThalidOmide for AIDS Care ¯ WASHINGTON (AP) - Thalidomide, ¯ whichbecametheworld’smost infamous ¯" drug after causing thousands of horrific ¯ birth defects more than30 years ago,may ¯ soon be sold in the United States - per- ~ haps as early as next year. ¯ While the drug shows promise in fight- ¯" ing someAIDS-related disorders, leprosy ¯ and other devastating diseases, the Food : and Drug Administralion already is taking steps to protect women who could bear children with no limbs or tiny flip- " per-like arms and legs after taking just ¯ one pill in early pregnancy. : .Thalidomide, once sold in 48 countries ¯ as a sleeping pill and morning sickness ¯ cure, was banned worldwidein 1962 after ¯ some 12,000 babies were born with miss- ¯. ing or malformed limbs, serious facial deformities and defective o~gaus. ¯ It was never sold in the United States, ¯ because FDA scientist Frances Kelsey ¯ uncovered signs of toxicity that its manu- : facturerhaddenied. Butlast week, Kelsey, : now in her 80s and still at the FDA, heard ¯ see.Health, page 10 : beincludedinthe setflor’ s estatefor estate ¯ tax purposes. ¯ Arevocable trust is anespecially useful ¯ ¯ document for a person who is presently capable ofmanaging his.or her affairs but ¯ who anticipates becoming incapacitated : in the future. A revocable trust can aid in ¯ planningforincapacitybyhelping toavoid ." the expense, embarrassment and diffi- ¯ culty in seeking a court appointment of a ¯ guardian or conservator in the event of ." incapacity. If all of the setflor’s assets are ¯ placed in the revocable trust, then upon ¯" the setflor’s incapacity, the trustee can ¯ take over management of the trust assets ¯ for the settlor’ s benefit. ¯ There are both advantages and disad- : vantages to the revocable trust. A revocable trust is more expensive and difficult ¯ to ere,ate and administer than a Last Will : and Testament. However, its advantages ". include flexibility, avoidance of probate, ¯ continuity of management of assets. Be- . cause it is unnecessary to publicly file the : trust document in court, the trust arrange- " mentremaius private. The property distri- : bution may be more protected from chal- ¯ lenge than if by Will. recoguizableboardmembers? Itis hardto find good board members for any organization and assaults like this make this task even harder. Devalued the work of employees, volunteers and supporters of the Resource Center. The HIV Resource Center is a national model because of broad based community support. Your incomplete articlemay havejeopardized volunteer support, f’mancial support and the level of client services. (I hope this will not be true.) Is an example of behaviors you have ’written and spoken about working ag~nst -- infighting in the commuility and using. the press to present one ’side of.an zssue_-, and to capriciously defame Others. Showed divisiveness within the gay community at a most inopportune time -- the opening of the pride center [sic], the elections, the fall funding cycle during a time of social service cutbacks; and the appointment of Tulsan Nancy McDonald as national president of PFLAG. I have spent time, money and energy building community within the gay community and building bridges within our larger community. I am joined in this by manypeoplelocally andnationwide. Your behavior ofprinting this incomplete, vituperative article undermined the work we do. You owe an apology to your readers and to the straight and gay community in which you live. I suggest that TFN has a responsibility to cover issues objectively, thoroughly and to work with an editorial board [editor’s note: emphasis added] before going to press. Withyour visibility comjes [sic] a high levd of accountability. TFN has the ability to become a community- building tool. Without an apology and a logic~dly written contusion to this article how will anyone in good conscience trustTFN as this city’s gay paper of record? - Rick Phillips Editor’s response: First, a thank you to Mr. Phillipsfor editing his letter to amore conciseform. Secondly, Mr.Phillipsseems to confuse ourwriting aboutallegedproblems with the HIVResource Consortium for being responsible for creating them. He should know that the HIVRC’S staff, and ultimately, its board members are responsiblefor any actions thatmay dam-. issue, our story on Nancy_. McDonald’s selection asPFLAGnational boardpresident: Howevbr, we dsahave;an obligait ~hen :we local restaurant owner, but he doesn’t seem to like it when we run a story he deems "embarrassing’" to his other friends. Finally, we are amused at Mr. Phillips suggestion that this newspaper work with an editorial board. Thisdesirefor a board of censors appears to originate several yearsago withMcDonaldandTim Gillean when Gillean was TOHR president. It appears that they don ’t welcome an inde= pendentpress which cannotbecompletely controlled by those whofeel that theirs is the "right vision and methods" for the well-being ofTulsa’sLGBTcommunities. As we’ve written before, consensus, and the resulting unity, is built through open and honest dialogue , not imposed. Kelly Kirby rightly pointed out to the would be censors that they had no plac~ telling TFNwhatto write. Ifthis newspaper needs to have a board ~elling us what not to write, then certainly there are those in this city who see the need to closely supervise Mr. Phillips, Mr. Gillean and Mrs. McDonald as well. We have had favorable inspections and audits as to the compliance with each grant reviewed. We also have a yearly audit that is contracted to and conducted with an outside audit firm: this firm is accountable to the Board of Directors. Our meeting notices are posted and advertisedin theAIDS Coalitionnewsletterwhichis distributedby theCommtmity Service Council; this newsletter reaches the communities most affected by the services of the HIV Resource Consortium. Notices are also posted at.the Resource Center [sic]. The meetings of the Board of Directors have been open and will continue to be open to any persons wanting to attend. The only occasions we have closed theBoardmeetings havebeen to act on personnel matters; this would include annual evaluation of the Exec. Director’s performance, and any grievance by staff or by clients which require Board investigation and action. [emphasis added] In reviewing, the meeting attendance records which~nclude the M~mbers of the Board as well as visitors, Ida not find your name listed:as having ever attended age the agency. ¯ ameeting of the Board of Directors. Thirdly, since some board members : Aslunderstandit, yourequestedcopies mayfeel that they were unfairly singled i of the minutes of the Board of Directors out, "weare hap~y to clarify ofu!.~lO~ :: and weretoid!torequest them _fr,om the,~ gize. Those who were listdd doho~ hav~ ’ .:~ .Presiden~ of the Board. [editor.s note:l. hny greater responsibility for any prob- : exec. director Thoele and administrative lems that may exist at tl~e ’HIVR~. Ulti- . assistant Stanford directed TFN to speak mately, responsibility falls on al..1 these ". withboardmember andattorney, Charles people equally. We have published the ¯ Seger, which we did.] At no time have I complete board list on page 3, so that " received arequest from you.for copies of readers can know who’s responsible. . : the minutes either verbally or in written Regarding community building, etc. no ¯ correspondence. [editor’s note: this is not doubt, Mr. Phillips has done many good : true. Beside multiple requests via Thoele, works as he proclaims, but he ishardly ". Seger, etc., on Sunday, Oct. 20 (well bedone in these efforts This newsfiaper, ~ : fore this letter of 10/28) at a Tulsansfor and many others, have done equal cam- . Equality event tn ~.ont of-two others, munity building work - much’of it not ... McDonald directecl an acrimonious tipubliclyproclaimed. .~. i radetowardthiseditorinwhichshemade Mr.Phillips recently has been reported . it qu{t_e clear that she was well aware of to savthatifherananbwstgal~er, hdwould ¯ TFN s request .for minutes. TFN made it orin~ "oni~ositive" arti’cl~s: ~would ". clear that we still expected the HIVRC to ~ke for ~mat propaganda, but hardly ". make available the minutes. Also. this reperforms the role ofnews reporang, We : quest has been ,m_ade to the H.IVI~.C’s inour community~for example; in:or~rlast., ¯ not been r~ceivedd.see MeDonala~p, li HITSUBISH! , ~OTORS GOODBUY 1996’s HELLO to 19-9 DEAL N0- Money, ’ t Lltle 001~15 lfalle r~ile ’AmSn 81m0 l/~ ~111~ , ~hl0Air~0ninl 0~0lWlm&R.rSpaW OR CHECK OUT A BRAND NEW ] ’97 ECLIPSE GS No Money Down! -Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & Equality for Gays &Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School, 9:45 am Worship Service, 11 am 2627b East 1 lth 583-7815 Community ofHope (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Worship Service, 11 am 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa 6:30 pm at Canterbury 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ¯ MONDAYS ¯ ¯ HIV Testing Clinic - ¯ Fre~ & anonymous testing " ¯ using fingerstick method. " ¯ No appointment required. - ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm : Results hours: 7-9 pm . Info: 742-2927 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Mon. of month 6:30 pm, 4154 S. Harvard Info: 7494901 OTHER GROUPS The Technicians, Leather org., Info c/o 621-5597 ¯ T.U.L.S,4. Tulsa Uniform ¯ & Leather Seekers Assoc. Info: 838-1222 Gay & Lesbian Sttutent Association TCC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network Call 832-2121 TUESDAYS " WEDNESDAYS HIV+ Support Group ¯ Bless The Lord At All HIV Resource Consortium " Times Christian Center 1:30 pm " Prayer & Bible Study 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 : 7:30 pm 2627-B East llth Info: Wanda @ 7494194 Shanti-2~ulsa, Inc. . HIV/AIDS Support Group & also, Friends & Family ¯¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group 7 pro, call for location: ¯ 749-7898 Alternative Skating 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 $4, Sand Springs Skate Grief Group : Butler/Stumpff Funeral : Home ¯ 2103 E. 3rd St. " Call for time: 587-7~ Call 583-7815 for info, Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd 582-7225 or 584 4983 : THURSDAYS Co-Dependency Support Group : 7:30, Family of Faith MCC : 5451-ES. Mingo, 622-1441 : HOPE : HIV Outreach, ¯ Prevention, Education : Anonymous HIV Testing ¯ Walkin testing: 7 ~ 8:30 pm : Results hours: 7 - 9 pm ¯ Info: 742-2927 ¯ Tulsa Family Chorale ¯ Weekly practi~e, 9~30 pm ¯ Lola’s 2630E. 15~ : PFLAG Family AIDS ¯ Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pm Info: 7494194 ¯ FRIDAYS Safe Haven ¯ Young Adults Social Group ¯ 8pm, 1st Fri. of each mo. ¯ Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th : SATURDAYS ." Mixed Yolleyball for : Fun & Competition ¯ Helmerich Park, 2 pm ¯ 71st & Riverside : Info: 587-6557 St. Jerome’s Church : Mass, 6 pm, Garden Chapel ¯ 3841 S. Peoria : Info: Father Rick, 742-6227 : Narcotics Anonymous ¯ Meets weeny at 11 pm ¯ Confidential support for recovering addicts. ." Community of Hope : 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 ¯ NAMES Project : AIDS Memorial Quilt ¯ Sewing Bees, 3rd Sat. of ¯ each month: 748-3111 ¯ low:income people who have the virus that causes AiDS that it,will sdect 75 of ¯ them to receive drngs to fight the disease. doctors explainthalidomide’ suniqueabil2 i The health department will pick the 75 in .FUNERALS JUST ity to inl~bit a substance that can spur . alottery onNov.27,andawardcachupto NEVER SEEMED jmrmme-related diseases like lupus, lep- " $10,000 for the costly medications. RIGHT FOR MY FAMILY=. rosy and certain AIDS ailments. Thalido- ¯ Those eligible for-the lottery do not midealso stops bloodvessel growth-o.ne : receive Medicaid assistance, do not have THE CREMATION reason for the birth defects ~ making ~t a 1 privateimuranceoreamlessthan$14319 SOCIETY WAS CREATED possible future treatment for cancer and ¯ ayear. Sdectious willbemade from each FOR PEOPLE LIKE ME. the incurable macular-deg~eneration ..that’ : part of Missouri reader a formula.that blinds the elderly. " takesinto account themorbidity ratefrom Early next year, Andrulis Inc. of : AIDS in each area of the state. ~ ~ Beltsville, Maryland, will seek approval ¯ The drngswhenUsed separately arenot for thalidomide to treat the excruciating " effective because the virus quickly builds ulcers that afflict AIDS patients. Then, : up a resistance. Mixing the drugs may We enjoy being ourselves. A funeral seems .ostentatious Cdgene also will seek I~rmission to sdl " change AIDS from a fatal illness to a and Can cost a lot of money. A simple, dignified . " thalidomideto the 150,000 AIDS patients ¯ chronic illness like diabetes, some doesuffering from wasting, orsevere Weight " tors say. But the medicine is expensive - cremation just seems to fit our lifestyle. .. (;rematm"n" tety® B~rthdefects aren t the 0iil~’nsk..Tha- " js there are individuals ~ that. do not now. ~ lidomide a~so ,can severely’damage pa- ¯ ha4e,aecessto.thesemedications andthese ~. tients’ nerve cells, causing a p~ul, in~ i medications need to be accessible,, sat Of Oklahoma . curable condition called p~ripheral . John Hubbs, chief Of- the health neuropathy. - ~ ¯ department’sHIV/AIDScare.ButHubbs .... 2103 East Third, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104-1842 Still, AIDS patients are clamoring.f~r : said the state cannot afford tobuy the 918-599-7337 or toll-free, 800-994-7337 thalidomide. Take the AIDS-related ul- : medicine for everybody who needs it~ or visit us on the Internet at eers, so painful that some patients starve : DarrenWethers,aphysicianinSt, Louis, rather than swallow over the raw tissue. ¯ said the plan is unfair. Wethers, who rehttp:// www.eremation.org/oklahoma/oklahoma-html_______ Studies indicate thalidomide healed the " cently spoke at an AIDS co_nf~en~,’.m For Free Literature, Without Cost or Obligation, sores injust 10 days, said James Learned : "Columbia, said the lottery is a puouc " ~ of the PWA Health Group in New York, " health insult" because it puts "patients in Mail this coupon today[ whichlast year provided thalidomide un- ¯ competition for medi,,cines that they all derground until the FDA allowed more : rightfully qualify for. "As much as we Please contact me. I would like to learn more about patients to use it in research programs: : wouldlike to provide access t,o, al~l~of~_.em, your special final expense program. ¯ ,..,: we just realistically can t do that, Name: - Age: Rural AIDS Care : .ubbssaid. ¯ Address: GREENVILLE, N:C. (AP) ~- Doctorssay i people affected withHIV in easternNorth ¯ City; St. &Zip:. Carolina0ften haVe little choice bm to" ’~ Telephone: live from medical emergency to emer- " community organizations, a comm.unit.~- gency. That’s because thereare few doe- wide holiday potluck. Chose your hol~- tors and dentists in rural areas who are day,beitChrisilnas,Hanukkah,KwaanTa _~......~ ....... willing to care for patients, who often " or Yule, but bring a side dish to this __ mwursetcderiviveeclaoren.g- distances tio urban arleas "" pboeltlpurcokvibduefdfe.ttP" lSea°sftedRrioSnVksPatnodDmeebabtie at Butler-Storm East Carolina, the University 6f North ~ 712-.!600.. Later that evening, BI~.TA Carolina and Duke medical schools an- " will have its end of year Formal (actually n°uncedM°ndaythattheywillw0rkt°::m°sdysemi~f°rmalbutfeelfreet°g°all gethertostre~mlinecareforHIV-infected out if you want to) from 9-2am. $2/per- Funera Home Medicaid patients who live in rural east- : son. All wdcome. Alcohol &smoke-free. ern North Carolina- The three schools " Prime Timers will start meeting at the received a five-year, $2 million federal ¯ CenterbeginninginDecember.Thismeetgrant to track patients in53 eastern coun- : ing will be Sunday, Dec. 8th from 4-6pro Cemetery - Funeral Home - Crematory ties. The goal is provide one organization " (in Jan. the group will go back to firstSun. that will follow all Medicaid-eligible, " of the mo.)~ Also Tulsa’s young adult ¯ HIV-infected adult patients to make sure ¯ see Center, page 12 At Butler-Stumpff Funeral Home, you and your family their needs are met. The researchers will " will be treated withdignity, compassion, andpride- Whether begin enrolling about 600 Medicaid pa- ; tients next fall. Eventually, researchers " it is your given or chosen family who needs our services, expect to enroll about 1500 people in 53 . eastern counties. " s.ectarian symbols from its city seal. you can be who and what you are, and you will not be "ButyouthrowHIVontopofit, andthe " Some Tulsa board members of the remoteness of ... where people live in : ACLU include Barbara Santee, and Bill discriminated against. rural eastern North Carolina, it does not ¯ Hinkle, , - We offer our exclusive $2820, complete funeral plan, no lend for seeldng treatment or main~tai.n!n.g i Dr. Joycelyn Elders~ former Surgeon treatment because of the obstacles that . General of the United States under Presiadded costs. If you have a policy some-where else, you can yo,’ll encounter," the patient says inona ¯ dent Clinton, will give the evening’s ad- transfer your policy to us, andmay be due a cash refund if videotape. The Centers for Disease C - dress. The event is $50/person. For more trol and Prevention has identifi.ed the ~ info. leave a message at 405-524-8511. you paid more for what you have now. southeastern United States as an tmpor- . tant epicenter for the spread,of~0i0nf.0% ¯ Our journey through life should be done with pride; tion, with about 126 peopte in xuu, infected,includingthosewithactiveAIDS- : shouldn’t our journey through death be.done with pride as In 1995, the national rate of HIV infec- : well? For more information, please call 918-587-7000 for tion, including active AIDS, was 27.2 in. of all our citi.zeus. Kelly Kirby serves as 100,000. In other areas of the country, TOHRrepresentadvetotheCoalifonand HIV is concentrated in urban areas. But :¯ sweorvrkessbayscocou-scehuasiurs. wSiitnhceeacthherepCroeasleintitoan- _ all of your pre-need arrangements. many of these new I-IIV-infected people . tive taking proposals back to his or her (insurance policies are available with no health questions as~.d) areliving in Southern rural communities, ¯ where there are no coordinated care pro- ; organization for approval, this decision grams, the researchers said. ¯ representsnow the positionof each orga- 2103 East Third ; nization. Kirby noted that this statement ¯ which is inclusive of sexual oriention, Tulsa Oklahoma 74104 AIDS Drugs Lottery : represents ongoing "behind-the-scenes" 918-587-7000 COLUMBIA, Me. (AP)- Thee Missouri : coalitionbuilding~nsdsapplauded~C°a- D.~p~.et.X.t,~[,Health.has,gqtified 2,6397/,,i litionfo,r,taldng.thi~ s. tep, , .".’.’ ....... , , ,, . " ~ ..........~ ~’-.... ,’,"~ ,’,’/’"’ A DiNiNq PIFAsURE COCONUT BEER BATTERED SHRIMP PRIME RIB FRESH CLAMS VEGIE STIR FRY COQUILE ST. 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I personally contacted the president of the HIVRC board only to learn that.the editor ofTFN nev~ requested the minutes._Why continue to attack someone on unfounded reasons’ ~ ¯ , [ ditor s note: as aperson with experience with non-profit boards, as a chairperson, a member and-an employee, this notion that a request is only valid ifmade . to McDonaldhas no basis in law or common practice. Gillean ought to be condemning Thoele, Stanford, orSeegerfor failing to forward the request, ifindeed they didfail to do so.] As a grand finale to your tabloid piece you suggested that perhaps board members could be freed and evenjailed. Men- . tioning only five of the total board members sound like.some sort of personal attack on your chosen five. What about the other members of the board? What kind ofjournalismis this? I cannot understand what benefit it is to our community to attack the very people who are giving their precious time an [sic] energy as volunteers to create a better community for all ofus. Why should anongay person ". be willing to give their time and money to our community when they are attacked i personally and threatened by your publi- ¯ cation? Why indeed should a gayperson ¯ volunteer and be subjected to this kind of " attack? ¯ [Editor’s note: board members shouM i understand When they acCeptpublicposi- ¯ tions that they will have to be accountable ". for the agency which they supervise, i Gillean might also read the OKstatutes.] . I would like to say to the people who were attacked by this article that I appre- i eiate all you do. Please don’t stop now. To " the individuals who feel they have been : mistreated by the organization, there are ¯ much better ways than through the tab- " loids. ¯ [Editor’s note: several oJ those who ¯ spoke to TFN did so only after repeated " efforts to work with the HIVRC.] ". The editor at TFN must issue an apol- : ogy to the five board members attacked and to the readers for not completing i proper research before publishing your : article. -Timothy E. Gillean ¯ Editor’s note: just after receiving this ". letter byfax on Oct. 28th, IcalledGillean to givehim theopportunity to clarify in his i own words, his close ties to HIVRCboard president McDonald. I left a message with his assistant, Brian, asking Gillean to call TFN. To date, he has not done so. Readem may want to consider thefol- : lowing~ Several years ago, Gillean proposed a board ofcensor-sfor TFN. Later i when TFN ran an editorial he and ¯ McDonald did not like, "Gillean used his ¯ position as TOHR president to retaliate ". against TFN, to the detriment of TOHR. " After his bid for a 2nd term as TOHR ". presidentfaildd, hejoined thePFLAG & : Community Service Council boards, or- ¯ ganizations with which McDonald is " closely associated and allegedly at : McDonald’s behest. The minutes are available for review to ¯ anyone, attending-theBoard Meeting;and : to anyone requesting copies through .the : appropriate channels. If copies are re- . quested-the individual must pay for the i co.p.ies as we attempt to be good stewards ot the monies available tous. : We .are deeply distressed by the article : .aP.peanng in the Tulsa Family News and mvzte you to attend our next Board meeti ing, scheduled for Thurs. Nov. 21 atnoon ¯ at the HIV Resource Center [sic]. If you : wishtorequestinformationfromtheBoard : of Directors regarding minutes or other : appropriate public information, I forward _- to receiving your request. Thank you ¯ We are asking you as Editor of Tulsa : Family News to print this letter in its : -entirety next edition of your newspaper. .,~ Nancy McDonald, President toward Amedure. However, ifJonathan Schmitz was able to-form the intent to commit suicide, he also would have been able to form the intent to commit murder, a psychologist testified Tuesday. Dr. Carol Holden was called as a rebuttal witness by the prosecution. Oakland County assistant prosecutor Roman Kalytiak pointed out that Schmltz never referred to suieide during hiss911, call or during police questioning. x ne jury fotmd that Schmitz, 26, acted without premeditation and did notcommitfirst- degreemurder. Hecouldgetanywhere from eight years to life in prison with the possibility of parole when he is sentenced Dec. 4. First-degree murder carries no hope of parole. The segmentofthe "JennyJones Show" was never aired but was played for the jury. In it, Am~_ur_e,,outlined fantasies of Sehraitz involving whipped cream and ~champagne~" Schmitz reacted withanembarrassed smile butno apparent anger. He turned away when Amedure put an arm around him and tried to kiss him. "I’m definitelyaheterosexual, Iguess youcould say," Schmitz said. The 1996 RedRibbonHoliday: Treefest and Gallery Walk will showcase holiday trees and other holiday items. These will be sold at auction to raise funds for Interfaith AIDS Ministries which provides spiritual~ emotional, andpractical support for those whose lives are touched by HIV andAIDS.This year’s format will include an "official opening," in the Brady Arts Gallery District, Thursday, Nov. 21 from 6-9 pro. More viewing hours will be on Nov. 22-23, and pick-up of trees will take place on Nov. 24th. PhilbrookMuseumwill shroudits Rodin sculpture ofAdam on Dec. 1 in honor of Ds..ema3ya" Wpriothfeosustz.Aonrat.ls"aCnoduanrttlseuspspaorrtitsetrss,hmavuedied.., from AIDS. Wecan.only guess at how many works of art will be denied to us by this disease that respects neither people nor creativity," noted Richard Townsend, Hardman Curator of European and American Art. 3 READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley : The id~ that the gay rights movement is foreverjoined to "leftist" politics gets a : thorough trashing in Brace Ba,w,er’s n.e.w ¯ compilation, "Beyond Queer.’ At this point in history, some centrist, and fight of center, authors are proposing a new ¯ approach to winning the battle for gay ¯ rights. Their perception is that, histori- " cally, the movement has tried to claim "victim" status, and that this will not be a successful strategyfor winningfull equality for gay and lesbian Americans. Editor Bawer is well known, having written eight books, including the provocative" A Place at th~ Table." Here: he has compiled forty essays by a variety of authors, including former New Republic editor Andrew Sullivan, San Francisco Chronicle correspondent Carolyn Lochhcad and heterosexual Chicago Tribune columnist Stephen Chapman. Describing the authors,Bawer states "though many of us have been tagged in the gay press as ’gay conservatives,’ few of us wouldbe consideredconservativeby anyone- who objectively examined our politics; we variously call ourselves liberals, moderates, libertarians and communitarians- or we eschew such labels Stogether as increasingly irrelevant iff a post-ideological era." Bawer’ s intent is to present an alternative to what he sees as a radical, in-yourface activism. Bawer initially cites "an episode of ’The Charlie Rose Show’ devoted to the twenty-fifth anniversary of the Stonewall riots, (when) the radical lesbian activist Donna Minkowitz told me: ’We don’t want a place at the tablewe want to turn the table over.’ That line pretty well sums up the attitude of many leftist gay activists toward both ’the system’ and gays who seek to work within it." In essay after essay, the authors explain their positions with rifles like "Why Outsupport group will be at the Center earlier that afternoon. Last but not least is video night at the Center. The inaugural video will be Wigstockto be shown on Sat. Dec. 14th at 9pro in the Renfro Room. Popcorn and pop will be available. It’s free (though donations are acceptedforthe Center) and three of Tulsa’ s most fabulous drag divas may appear: Christina, Dolly Love and grand diva, Sensuous. January’s video night should be the 2rid Sat. also. Call to RSVP with Debbie at 712-1600: On Nov. 2rid, the Pride Center held a grand opening with about 70 people attending. TOHR/Pride Center president Deb Statues held a brief presentation of certificates to recognize thosewhohelped with the Center. More than 50 individuals were honored, in particular, Kelly Kirby and Tim Gillean, former TOHR presidents, and now-closed Agape Christian Fellowship for its donation of chairs and tables. Statues also announced the decision to name the rooms in the Center. The lounge/library was named the Pfimetimers Loungeinrecognilionoftheir generous support of the Pride Center. The largest single gift came from this group. ing Doesn’t Work," "Sleeping with the Enemy" and ’!Here Comes the Groom: A (Conservative) Case for Gay Marriage." In,"A Gay Right Agenda," author John Berresford’ s conservative response to his liberals friends’ stance is %..I amas much in favor or basic civil rights for gays as they are. Where we differ is in the need for group-based remedies and in perceiving ourselves as victims whose main recourse shouldbe coercion by the government." Berresford’s answer is to "come out whenever it is reasonably safe. The best way to explode the myths about us is for.each of us to become known as .just anotherhumanbeing with~esameneeds, goals and drives as other human beings - : except is a single respect that poses no : threat to anyone else." He also believes ¯ that ’-’we should lobby for the right to : marry. Domestic-partnershipslegislation ¯ makes us an officially sanctioned class of ¯ oddities and freaks." : Thethreatof_be,,,ing seen simply as "oddi- ¯ des and freaks is the thought behind : Bawer’ s rifle. Insteadofbeing"acclaimed ¯ by a minority of gay ,,p~.~ple as ,a,,suppos,~ edlyaffirmativelabel, theworo queer, ". to Bawer, is "not so much to be homo- : sexual as it is to be a socially marginal ¯ rebel, defined primarily by his or her : sexuality, who is perpetually andintdnsi- : cally at odds with the political and cul- : rural establishment." ¯ Can these ideas bring the gay right hnd : left together toward acommon goal? Can : Bawer’s "we’re just like you" approach ¯ alone actually win the hearts of straight : Americans? What about the wide variety : ofpeoplein the gay/lesbian/transgendered : community whomaynotmeetthe squeaky ¯ clean image Bawer promotes, but who : still s_eek equality under the law? COuld : the answer, perhaps, lie somewhere be- : tween Bruce Bawer and Queer Nation? ¯ Check with your local branch library : for "Beyond Queer," or call the Readers :- Services, Central Library at 596-7966. The small conference room was named the Stariott Conference Roomin honor of Midge Elliott and Deb Statues. The me- : dium size room was named the Renfro ¯ Room in honor of the late RF Renfro, a : leader of FUSO, the Friends in Unity : Social Organizationand anHIV educator ¯ who worked with TOHR/HOPE. : The largest room was to be named in ¯ honor of two individuals who provided :- signifi.cant "sweat equity’, in tearing out : tffo plaster&lath walls .to make the room ¯ and in honor of one of those two who’s ¯ donatedmuch of the furniture that s in the : Center. Thelatter manpreferred not to be ¯¯ recognized but asked that the room be named in honor of Pat Padgett, a PFLAG ¯ activist. Therefore, that room is now the ¯ Neal-Padgett Hall in recognition of gifts ¯ that made the Pride Center possible. ¯ or let someone else run the show...You : can care with out being cold, get things : done right and.get on with it please!!! ¯ It seems to us that everyone is just out : for themselves, but after seeing and hear- " ing firsthandweknow why...It is the only ," way we have of getting your attention... ¯ Thank you for Your Time - PWA Tulsa/N. E. Oklahoma Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 Are-You Bored? Are You Gay or Bisexual? Are You Native American? ] TNAAPP is Here to Help! f Evening Meetings. Are Held Every Wednesday in Tulsa Call 582-7225 Ext. 208 For information on meeting time & place Meet others and be part of a supportive social group! * Bakery Treats * Bed & Breakfast (boarding) * Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS, Nutro Dog Food THE DOG HOUSE BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria, 744-5556 Saint Aidan’s 4045 No. Cincinnati. 425-7882 The Episcopal Church Welcomes You Winter Gayla ’97 Ft. Lauderdale, Florida February 14 ~- 17 Beach Party with DJ Winter Pride Parade Festival Boat Party on the Jungle Queen and SWAirlines nowflies there! Aspen Gay Ski Week Fine Skiing & Festive Parties January 25 - February ! IGTA member Call 341. 6866 International Tours:ormoreinformation. by Jean-Pierre, TFNFo~d Critic : will order a full combo for each two We all have that "special" friend visit- ¯ people at our table, and then an extra ing from out-of-town -- you know, the : pound of shrimp. The combo itself can prissy queen who is the finicky Miss ¯ also be ordered in any ratio of crab to Manners sort-whoneeds anintroduction ¯ shrimp to crawfish. Sometimes wewill to thereal lifein Tulsa. And, we’vefound " also order sides of coleslaw or cornbread just the perfect place, to’ Boilln~ .P.o~ sticks. A word of warntake that friend. Caju~ ing. The combo is avail= Ther6 is a special res- 19-01 So. Me~orlal able either mild or hot. tanrantinTulsawhereone Hour.: The mild is quite warm. can suck head and pinch The hot is fiery. And the tail with abandon, where 11 - 10 Sun. -Thurs. crab boil permeates evone can eat with one’s tll 11, Frl. and Sat. erything, even the potafingers, and where one Cuisine: ’toes and comon the cob. can bejust as downhome So, keepplenty of iced and comfortableas pos= Cajun se~ood tea on hand, or maybea sible(~l wh~l,e f~iing .... .Dress:,"Very casual : - pitche~:ofbeer($4.75)~to isasmaliplacefitihecor- _ . l-’aym~e..nt: ;. This is not an elegant her ofi2th and Memorial. Major credit cards, white table cloth restauin a rather run-down and no e]aeel~s rant, and the staff makes ~derilict Strip mall. This is ~,SmoklI no pretense in that dire,ca very laid back, genuine ~.: tion. Sometimes one has white trash-cookin’ kind x’~on-smokin~ of place; full of atmo- seetlon, l~ut smoky a warm and friendly waiter or waitress, and sphere mid bayou boys Alcohol: II.9-Z i~eer Sometimes one has the and giftsfrom all walks of feeling that itis that waitlife. Decoratedwithtaste- & wine cooler" only tess’ time of the month: ful tape-patched, red vi: Ratln~: A llst But, the staff is usually nyl seating in each of the quite congenial and enformica: topped booths, and with black " tertaining. vei~et art alid posters adorning the classic ¯ The one main area needing improve- 1960’s panelling on the walls, the noise " ment here is the housekeeping. While the and aroma of the kitchen greet patrons as ¯ grungey feel ofthe diningroommaybe an they enter, and there is no doial~t in’one’s ¯ attempt to recreate the authentic dirt of a minduponenteringtheestablishmentthat " backwater Cajun swamp dive, theycould this is a seafood restaurant. ~ at least clean the restrooms and make sure Menus are presented printed on paper ¯ that supplies are stocked and fixtures placemats. Lots of fun things appear on . working. On ourlast visit, themechanical the menu, like ’q’asty Fried Shark Bites" " towel was broken and filthy, and the toilet for$1.50,CajunDogfor$3.95,jambalaya : was running constantly. The finger bowls " for.S2.75, red beans and rice for $2.75, ¯ aren’tquiteenoughforthefastidiousdiner blaCken~dchi~k’strlp,’a for $6.50, ablack- " to cle~tip~ so the trip tothe tinyrestrooms ened fib-ey~ :s~ak ~0r $9.95, arid even " alligator for $8.95 But, nobody ever gets ¯ For those so inclined, the Boiling Pot those things. : features their house band on Saturday People come to the Boiling Pot for the " nights, whichplays aloudmix of country, Combo. The combo ($1~95) is a big pot ¯ bluegrass, andcountry rock, and packsin of shrimp, crawfish, crab, sausage, new ¯ the crowds. potatoes, quartered onions, and half ears : ~ The Cajun Boiling Potis where a group of corn on the cob which is boiled in a " of:frie~ids caugo for a casual good time. spicy crab boil and served~ Well, sort of served. It’ sdumped onthe table.CMtop of ing roffd~. No, this isn t aft elegant place~’ a big sheet of butcher paper. As soon as: btit it’s n~t supposed to be. And, while it’ the ~ood co0!s~enough :to handle, one " doesn’tappearas cleanas we’dprefer, in di~es in to shell the shl~mp, pinch the tails ¯ the dozens Of times we’ve eaten there,. offthecrawfish, su~kthejuices Out of the : we’ve never gotten food poisoning cerheads, d_nd squirt i~etchffp containers of " tain~noted Tulsa four diamond hotel rescocktail sauce all 0~er ~e place: When " taurants): The important thing is that if one’s hands get suffibienfly messy; a!arge one likes boiled shrimp, the foodis great. ’r611 of ii~pdr.’~tbw~l~:.6~ th~ thblesefV~ ~S : And; Wli~it’ ~ore can on~ ask from a nhp.ki~ ~O;~ffe ~n&ifibn .thai ~e’y: don’i: dt~vilh:bm~~urant than t6 liitve great use silverware. Until one has had the : food atinexpe~nsive i~rices?. Boiling Pot experience, it is difficult to ¯ Go suck somehead and pinch some tail. imagine how fun and how good the peel ." and eat can be. Theproprietors bringregular shipments of seafoodup from the GulfofMexico, so i the shrimp and crawfish are fresh and ." firm. The crab, though, seems to have " McDonald get by with falsifying her rebeen shipped on ice or frozen, since the ." sume when she worked for the Tulsa shells lack the crispness of never-frozen ¯ Public Schools because she did so many crab. The crawfish, of. course, is 0nly ; nice things and worked so hard. I guess it available in season, which is December _" meansitisallri.’ghttobedishonestaslong through June, but those little underwater as your cause is good. Is it really? carrioneatershaveneverbeenhighonour ." People get hurt when they get in her list of gourmet delicacies. We prefer the : way. That seems very unfair. Can the shrimp, which is some of the best and : media [mainstream media] help you with most economical shrimpin Tulsa, at only., these efforts? Thank you for being there $8.95 a pound. ¯ for these clients! 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I~1 Yes! ! am interested in coming to the TIVAAPP retreat Address: City: State: Zip: Telephone: Cut on Dotted Line #z Hail to: TI~P, 915 South Cincinnati, Tulsa, OK 74119.2000 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, November 15-December 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 12 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 15-December 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Mac Guru James Chirstjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Steven Scott Gerald Miller Lance Brittain Kerry Lewis Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, October 15-November 1, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 11 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa(Oklahoma)---newspaper Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/529 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 AIDs Walk AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV discrimination AIDS/HIV drugs AIDS/HIV research AIDS/HIV treatment American Civil Liberties Union arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars Bruce Bawer businesses Cajun Boiling Pot censorship children churches civil rights civil unions custody Dana Tigere Dave Fleischer Day Without Art divorce estate planning gay bashing gay police gay politicians healthcare HIV Resource Consortium (HIVRC) HIV/AIDS and the Law homophobia HOPE Testing Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Joe McDonald lawsuits letters to the editor medical abuse Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa Murder Nancy McDonald Native Americans Partner Benefits performing arts Read All About It Red Ribbon Treefest representation restaurants Say No To Hate Coalition Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project viatication World AIDS day https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/be506f1709a5210e3fcc16f67b9c41cd.jpg 07d423eb89c5e746b2e1539a648ea78b https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1310100e8690eb62ec620032fa631eda.pdf 0dff90ff05bf49a31a142e9b557c4e49 PDF Text Text ¯ I PLWA’s Iindict HIVRC Care Org, May Be In Violation of OK Statutes by Tom Neal, TFN editor Organizers of Tulsa’s new Pride Center will : Several persons living with AIDS (PLWA’s) have come forward ¯ hold an open house on Sat. Nov. 2 at 7pro. with allegations of mismanagement, poor performance, and claims of ¯ While HOPE staff are moving into their ofbias or retaliation against clients at the HIV Resource Consortium " rices before the 2nd, minor repairs to the (HIVRC). The Consortium is a primary source for housing, medical : buildingmechauical systems have delayed the and other aid to PLWA’s and is also a United Way agency. formal opening. Info: 743-4297. The clients (most of whom requested anonymity for fear of future harassment from the agency and who contacted TFN individually over a.several month period) voice similar complaints. Many of these center on HOPWA, afederal program intended to assist PLWA’ s with their housing costs. Most of the complaints allege an inability by the HIVRC to write checks to landlords in a timely fashion. Typically, the clients’ rent is due on the 1st and these PLWA’s pay their share on time, only to find that the HIVRC has not paid its share until late in the month. As aresult, some PLWA’s have been charged late fees, or even served with eviction notices. One client, who did not fear to be identified, Bruce Begley, noted that the uncertainties about housing increase the stress that PLWA’s WASHINGTON (AP)- President Bill Clinton signed are already living with to the detriment of their health. Another client, the so-called Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) into JR Pilant, who is legally fully disabled by HIV/AIDS, tells of having New Pride.Center in Gay-friendly.Brookside law shortly after the Senate. He made his official Septo pawn many of his belongings just to keep himself from being tember 20 written statement on the matter public at a thrown out on the street this month. campaign stop in South Dakota and signed the bill upon Begley and other clients allege that that agency Staff threaten clients his return to the White House. Clinton said that DOMA with reduced or no services unless the client acts in a manner the staff : Although many of the Walkfor Life’s usual would allow each state to make its own decision regardwishes. Begley also states that he has requested a copy of his own ¯ supporters were in DC for the the Quilt, orgaing the legitimacy of same-gender marriages and also ¯ HIVRC file for months now, even hiring an attorney to get the uizers Beverly Stanley and Steve Eberle were establish a federal definition of marriage. agency’s cooperation but with no success up to the time he was ¯ pleased with the results of the 10/12 event Emphasizing that it would not impact existing or interviewed. : which raised $7,433 with a pledge still exfuture civil rights protections from discrimination based Another client characterizes the HIVRC as "most definitely not" ¯ pected from the Band-AID event from last on sexual orientation, Clinton wanted to be dear that ¯ client-centered. He gives an example of a therapy support group in May of $1,000 for a total of $8,433. DOMA should not be "an excuse for discrimination, which he claims the facilitator spends 2/3 or 3/4 of the time lecturing ¯ Several Walk teams and individuals were violence or intimidation against any person." He also the clients rather than letting the clients discuss their issues. This ¯ recognizedwithawards: PhiThetaKappamemcalled on the Co~igress to pass the Employment Non¯ client notes that although the group is all Gay men, the facilitator (who bets from several community colleges,includ_ DiscriminationAct (ENDA) inits nextsession. Through is not Gay) tries to squelch any discussion of issues of sexuality. ~ ing Tulsa Community College and West Atprocedural maneuvering, ENDA came to a vote in the Agency chief,~ Sharon Thoele, in a 3+1/2 hour interview, paints a : kansas Community College. Also recognized Senate alongside DOMA on September 10 only to be different picture. She characterizes the problems as coming from too ¯ weretheScottRobisonPharmacyDream Team defeated by a single vote. " much need for too few funds, and speaks of her staff as. greatly ¯ (the pharmacy were also corporate sponsors ov ~orked.; deeply cariii~-iii-di~i~lual~. DUe to Client confi de~tiali ty, " with radio station KRAV), Charles Faudree’s ’~~l~g L 1,1~~|’~ | | ..... obligations of the agency (and of TFN to our sources), very little Team of Happy Feet, Sam Majors-Hardy for discussion about specific eases was possible. Thoele spoke of the need his volunteer work, Jimmy Flowers who reWASHINGTON (AP) - When it was first displayed in to get the state of Oklahoma to begin to allocate adequate state funding " ceived the Foot with a Lot of Soul award and the nation"s capital in 1988, the AIDS quilt was about for HIV/AIDS. She noted that the state’s contribution to HIV/AIDS ¯ Herbert Lewis who was again this year’s top a city block long. With eight more years of deaths from is only $206,000, an amount see HIVRC, page 11 ¯ individual fundraiser. Oct. 15 - Nov. 14, 1996, vol. 3, no. 11 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Clinton Signs DOMA : Walk for Life Raises 8K Clinton the .epidemic, the colorful patchwork remembering the vlcums now stretches nearly a mile from the Washington Monument to the foot of the Capitol. Even so, the full quilt -- on display this weekend for the first time in four years -- commemorates only about 11 percent of .Americans who have died from AIDS. The quilt, bearing the names of more than 70,000 people on 38,000 panels, is the centerpiece of dozens of weekend events sponsored by several groups, designed to again focus attention on the epidemic. Hundred~ of thousands of people are expected to see the quilt over the long Columbus Day weekend. Friendly crowds greeted President Clinton and his wife I-Iillary Rodham Clinton when they strolled, sometimes hand in hand, through sections of the sun-dappled quilt in late afternoon. The Clintons, both with somber expressions, stopped for a minute or more to inspect several individual quilt panels. Returning briefly to campaign mode, Clinton waved to the crowd as he walked back to his car. Earlier Friday, with throngs see Quilt, page 11 COMING SOON! Leather + Healing-Workshops, Our House Craft Bazaar, OK Mr. Leather®, Red Ribbon Treefest, Pride of Joplin, IAM Spirituality Forum, Youth Leadership Tulsa, Sunday at the Center + more. see Community Notes, page 10 Health Org. Fears Rape HOPE Benefit Drug Now in Gay Clubs Halloween Nite HOPE, HIVOutreach, Prevention, Education staff and Tulsa Police are advising Gay and Lesbian citizens to exercise caution in public situations where their drinks, alcoholic or otherwise, could be tampered with rohypnal, the so-called date rape drug. HOPE staff have received several reports by individuals in Tulsa who claim they were drugged and then sexually assaulted. Tulsa police advise citizens not to let anyone buy them a drink and to watch bartenders acttmlly make the drink. The police add that if they have to leave see Drug, page 3 BOO BASH! RAIN, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network will hold its Boo Bash costume party fundraiser at the Silver Star on Oct. 26. see Boo, p. 3 Gay comedian Jason Stuart will be at the Tulsa Comedy Club Oct. 30- Nov. 3. TULSAN TO LEAD PFLAG Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays, known around the world as PFLAG, have just elected Tulsa Chapter co-founder Nancy McDonald to serve as president of the national organization’s board of directors. Ms. McDonald, known by some in the Tulsa Lesbian and Gay commuuity as Saint McDonald for her passionate and tireless commitment to Gay & Lesbian, and HIV/AIDS issues, replaces Mitzi Henderson of Menlo Park, California. PFLAG now has members and chapters through out the United States. ¯ ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ I-INSIDE EDITORIAL/LETTERS/DI RECTORY COMMUNITY PHOTOS NEWS BRIEFS HIV/AIDS & THE LAW ENTERTAINMENT CALENDAR COMMUNITY NOTES EUREKA HAPPENINGS BOOK REVIEW/MEANT TO BE FIT RESTAURANT REVIEW MINDSPACE CLASSIFIEDS P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 7 P. 8 P. 9 P. 10 P. 11 P. 12 P. 13 P. 14 P. 15 �918.583.1248 Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Entertainment Writer + Mac Guru: Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the~entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be fax: 583.4615 James Christj0hn reproduced either in whole or in part~th~i~iit written permis sion from the publisher. POB 4140 Writers + contributors: Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Tulsa, Oklahoma Phyl Boler-sehmidt, Barry Hensley Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence 74159-0140 Steven Scott. Gerald Miller, should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each TulsaNews@aol.com Lance Brittain. Kerry Lewis edition at distribution points. Additional e0pies are available by calling 583-1248. I am a heterosexual woman that recently picked up your publication. I was impressed with the informativeness of the paper and learned a great deal, hopefully, it "broadened my horizons." I would like to make a comment regarding the article on San Francisco Giants pitcher, Mark Dewey. I make this state" ment based only on what I read in your ." paper, as I had not heard of the incident ¯ prior. I realizeit must be frustrating when ¯ there are individuals who publicly oppose The Good, The Bad and The Ugly : time, flyers, information, and newspapers from just our eommu- : your views, however, I think we all need Editor’s note: this is the first opinion piece in an irregular ¯ nity have been banned by Java Dave’s, although any and all ¯ to understand we all should have that .series focusing on local issues for Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Trans ¯ information from almost anyone else in Tulsa is welcome. Java ¯ right. Just as you ask the American public people, our families and friends. Over several years ofpublish, : Dave’s staff claims that Gay people are still welcome. It appears : to understand your right to have an alter: ing, reports ofbias incidents, sadly, more negative than positive, ¯ to us that we’re welcome as long as we’re not too visible, or we : hate lifestyle (in their eyes) we must also have come to our attention. The goal is to let you know what’s ¯ don’t get uppity and actually want to be treated equally to other ¯ recognize the rights of people opposed to ¯ going on so that you can decide what action, if any, to take for customers. In our opinion, the coffee’s better at Gold Coast, 35th ¯ our views. Had Dewy been violent or yourselJ. You may agree with our assessment; you may not. You ¯ justoffPeoriawherewe’rereallywelcome.I’lltakemycupofjoe ¯ displayed unnecessary hostility concern-may want to contact the "’offending" entity; you may not. You ¯¯ without a helping of bias. Thankyou. : ing his beliefs, I would say he was wrong, may want to write to us, disagreeing or agreeing. We welcome Want to let Dave know what you think? Call Executive Coffee ¯¯ but all he did was refuse to participate in ¯ yourfeedback. The bottom linefor us is to get involved and care Service at 836-5557 or better, fax them at 835-4348. an event that was contrary to his beliefs. about our community. We do. : Brookside by Day has long had a Gay following, but most : He has that right just the same as you and Wake up and smell the coffe!! Local coffee chain Java ¯ probably don’t know that the restaurant’s owner, Kyle Phillips, : Ido. ¯ Dave’s used to be rather Gay friendly, especially at the 15th & was accused of serious harassment of his former next-door : Along this train of thought, the Gay Peoria and Brookside locations. But more than a year ago, : neighbors who were highly regarded professionals, and by the ¯ community members do not want to lose according to a Java Dave’s employee, owner Dave Neighbors : way, also Lesbian. ¯ their jobs or careers over their beliefs, received a call like this: "Dave, I’ll like to bring my. family down ¯ The dispute appears to have begun with typical neighbor sorts : therefore, why should Dewey lose his job see Watch; thispage ¯ for his beliefs? I hope I have made my to 15th & Peoria, when are the ’faggots’ not there?" Since that : of conflict. The situation escalated : point without angering anyone, because : that is. not my intention. I just feel that : Fred Welch, LCSW; Counseling 743=1733 : both viewpoints should be allowed to be Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants ¯ expressed without hate, violence, judg832-1269 : *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities 744-0896 ¯ AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 1071, 74101-1071 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 579,9593 : meat 0g 10ss of carex~-r Status. In addition 749-1563 *Lola’s, 2630 E. i5th Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 583-7314 ¯ . from what I read in your paper, that is 749-451’1 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria *Bless The Lord... Christian Center, 2627b E. 11 628-0594 : what theGay commuuity desires as well. *’St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 33221-L E. 31st 745-9998 *B/L/G Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr: 583-9780 ¯¯ Is that aeorrect impression? Again, I would like to express my ap834-4234 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan’ " ~Chapman StudentCtr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI. & Florence 585-2221 *Samson & Delilah, 10 E. Fifth. *Community of Hope United Methodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 ." preciation for several well written infor585-3405 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S.Main Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595. ¯ mative articles., Good job! - Lynelle Dawson 660-0856 . *TNT’s, 2114 S._Memorial Dignity/Integrity-Lesbian/Gay.Catholics/Episeopal. 298-4648 ¯ - ... 584-1308 *Family ofFaith MCC, .545.1-E So. Mingo . 622-i441 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard 747-7777 585-3134 *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston *Free Spirit Womens Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 Tulsa Businesses,, Services, & Professionals Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor :~ 746-4620 *Assoc. in Med.& MeAtal Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 ¯ Friends in Unity Social Org. (African-American mens group) POB 8542, 74101, Call c/o TOHR @ 742-2927 Kent Balch & Assoei~ates; Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 ¯ 58"! "!983 250-5034 : Indian Health Care, Save the Nation *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 438-2437, 800-284,2437 743-5272 : Interfaith AIDS MiniStries Brookside Jewelry, 46~9; So. Peoria 838-1715 592-1521 ¯¯ *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplew0od *Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 749-4194 *HIV Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 748-3111 ¯ with Phillips andhis wifeverbally harass: NAMES PROJECF, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 : ing the women using Specifically anti¯ 584-7960 *our House, 1114 S. Quaker 622-0700 Community Cleaning; Kerby Baker 749-4901 : Lesbian epitaphs. 352-9504, 800-742-9468 :¯ PFLAG , POB 52800,. 74152 Tim Daniel, Attorney 58%7674 ¯ At one point, Phillips allegedly engaged 749-3620 ¯ *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 583-1410 ¯ in physical violence, with the result that Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 744-5556 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria : court-ordered mediators instructed ¯ *R~A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 665-6595 Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial 665-5174 : Phillips and his wife to "cease and desist" 622-3636 .¯" Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial 646-7116 ¯ all of their harassing actions. The victims St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 838-8503 *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan ¯ *Shanti Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services 749-7898 : finally moved, notjust from their home of 743-9994 Express Pools & Spas, 6310 S. Peoria ¯ Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, POB 2687, 74101 743-4297 .: many years, but completely out of state. 690-2974 Foxlinx, Computer Consultation Our two cents? We like the food at 584-1308 : 744-0102 : Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd l_z~me M. Gross, Financial Planning ¯ Route 66 - where Gay & Lesbian people 838-1222 : T.U.L.S.A~ TulsaUniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 744-7440 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney : get just the same as everyone else: good *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 : *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor ¯ food that’s worth the wait for a table. 58a. a.606 ¯ *Tulsa Community College, Metro & NE Campuses Imaginations, Lincoln:Plaza, 15th & Peoria : School Bond Election: In our last is341-6866 ¯ *University Center at Tulsa *international Tours " : sue, you may have noticed a letter to the 621-5597 JD Images, Photography EUREKA SPRINGS ¯ editor urging folks to vote against the 599-8070 Kerfs Flowers, 1635 E. 15 Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy 23 South 501-253-7734 : school bond election. What’s significant 747-5466 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 Beaver Dam Store, i/2mi. N. of Dam Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 ¯ about that letter was that it was the only .742-1992 Loup-Garou, 2747 E. 15 501-253-7457 : communication from either side of the *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 671-2010 Lean Ann Macomber, Realtor Associate 501-253-6807 : issue to eommuuity media or organizaDeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 584-3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 501-253-5445 ¯ fions.AlthoughtheorganizersoftheVote *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &1/2 Spring St. 663-5934 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31st 501-253-2776 : Yes campaign include Mayor Savage, Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 664-2951 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 P1 King’ s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy. 62W 800-23 1-1442 : Barbara Gardner, pres. of the Tulsa 747-6711 *Novel Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard 501-253-9337 ¯ ChamberofCommerce, and others who MCC of the Living Spring 747-7672 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 501-253-9682 : actually know that there really are, gee, McClung Realtors 584-7554 Pet Pride, Dog & Cat Grooming 501-253-2401 : Gay people in Tulsa, the Yes organizers Positive Idea Marketing Hans 838-7626 Puppy Pause II, 1 lth & Mingo 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 ¯ managed to run a totally Gay-free camRock Cottage Gardens 584-0337 *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 501-253-6001 : paign. Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 749-6301 *Scribner’ s Bookstore, 1942 Utic,a Square 501-253-8281 ¯ The Woods, 50 Wall St. As far as we can determine, although Scott Robison’ s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations 743-2351 : mailings were done to eommtmity organiOKLAHOMA CITY Southwest Viatical 747-3322, 800-305-6384 Face Beautiful Euroclinical Day Spa, 7108 N. Western, Ste. D2 ." zatious offering Yes editorials and speak742-8868 Thomas Chiropractic, 4138 S. Harvard; Ste. C-1 ¯. see Watch, page 7 405:840-FACE (3223) : _ 493~1959 KellieJ. Watts~ attorney ¯ : ¯ : : ¯ �-~ast with Friends organizers relax after the .capacity crowd at the Doubletree Downtown made the benefitfor THE NAMES PROJECT a success. Kathy Bird, E. Okla. Coordinator for RAIN, Regiona-I AIDS Interfaith Ministries displays this year’s holiday tree ornament that RAIN will be using for fundraising. Members of Tulsa’s Native American Gay & Bi men’s group at the Doubletree NAMES PROJECT event. Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer, who wowed them at the PAC, is joined by representatives and friends of the event’s beneficiary, Black &White Charities.From left to right: Jeff Wheeler; Steve Wright, Suzanne, Neel Zink, Mark Lackey of Cnisine by Design, and Kristi Abeny. Other sponsors include Central Park Condominiums, Tim Williams Catering, and The Wild Fork. Central Park’s Andy~Osborn.provided a display and information on the condo, miniu.~ renovation proJec.~_ . . their drink alone for any~me, then just to get ano.th_er one. q’FN visited with seve~ Tulsa club owners who expressed their commitment to insure their patrons’ safety. Summer may be over but Tulsa’s Lesbian and Gay volley ball league is still meeting. You canfind them at Helmerich Park, 71st & Riverside on Saturdays at 2pm. Some of the Walk for Life participants join organize~ Beverly Stanley after the event in Boulder Park. Prizes will be awarded and a light buffet will be served also. RAIN provides HIV/AIDS education & volunteer care teams from faith communities for pLWA!s. 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Tulsa, Oklahoma Phyl Boler-Schmidt, Barry Hensley Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence 74159-0140 Steven Scott, Gerald Miller, should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each TulsaNews@aol.com Lance Bdttain, Kerry Lewis edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. fax: 583.4615 The Good, The Bad and The Ugly Editor’s note: this is the first opinion piece in an irregular series focusing on local issues for Lesbian, Gay, Bi and Trans people, our families andfriends. Over several years ofpublishing, reports ofbias incidents, sadly, more negative than positive, have come to our attention. The goal is to le! you know what’s going on so that you can decide what action, if any, to take for yourselJ. You may agree with our assessment; you may not. You may want to contact the "offending’" entity; you may not. You may want to write to us, disagreeing or agreeing. We welcome yourfeedback. The bottom linefor us is to get involved and care about our community. We do. Wake up and smell the coffe!! Local coffee chain Java Dave’s used to be rather Gay friendly, especially at the 15th & Peoria and Brookside locations. But more than a year ago, according to a Java Dave’s employee, owner Dave Neighbors received a call like this: "Dave, I’ll like to bring my. family down to 15th & Peoria, when arc the ’faggots’ not there?"- Since that : time, flyers, information, and newspapers from just our commu: nity have been banned by Java Dave’s, although any and. all ¯ information from almost anyone else in Tulsa is welcome. Java ¯ Dave’s staff claims that Gay people are still welcome. It appears : to us that we’re welcome as long as we’re not too visible, or we ¯ don’t get uppity and actually want to be treated equally to other : customers. In our opinion, the coffee’ s better at Gold Coast, 35th : justoffPeoriawherewe’rereallywelcome.l’lltakemycupofjoe ¯ without a helping of bias. Thank you. ¯ Want to let Dave know what you think? Call Executive Coffee : Service at 836-5557 or better, fax them at 835-4348. ¯ Brookside by Day has long had a Gay following, but most ¯ probably don’t know that the restaurant’s owner, Kyle Phillips, : was accused of serious harassment of his former next-door ¯ neighbors who were highly regarded professionals, and by the : way, also Lesbian. ¯ The dispute appears to have begun with typical neighbor sorts : of conflict. Thesituation escalated see Watch; this page Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 832-1269 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 *Lola’s, 2630 E. i5th 749-1563 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria 749-451’1 ~St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3322bL E. 31st 745-9998 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 *Samson & Delil ,ah, 10 E. Fifth 585-2221 *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Mai’n "585-3405 *TNT’s, 2114 S._Memorial 660=0856 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston ’ 585:3 i3J ¯ Tulsa Busin_esses,. Services, & Professionals Dennis C. Amold~ Realtor. ¯ 746-4620 i *Assoc. in Med.& Mehtal Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 ¯¯ Kent Balch & Associates; Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 ¯ *Barnes & Noble Booksdlers, 8620 E. 71 250-5034 Br.ookside Jewelry, 4649’ So. Peoria 743-5272 : *Creative Collection, 152i E. 15 592-1521 ¯¯ Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates : 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 622-0700 : Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 ¯¯ *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 749-3620 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria 744-5556 ~ Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial 665-6595 ¯¯ Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial 622-3636 *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 838-8503 : Express Pools & Spas, 6310 S. Peoria 743-9994 : Foxlinx, Computer Consultation 690-2974 ¯ Leatme M. Gross, Financial Planning 744-0102 :¯ Mark T. Hamby, Attorney 744-7440 *Sandra J. Hill, MS, ’Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 : Imaginations, Lincoln:Plaza, 15th & Peoria 584 4606 ¯ *International Tours 341-6866 : JD Images, Photography 621-5597 ¯ Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599-8070 : Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 ¯ Loup-Garou, 2747 E. 15 .742-1992 ~ Lean Ann Macomber, Realtor Associate 671-2010 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 584-3112 ¯¯ Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31st 663-5934 ¯ *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 P1 664-2951 ¯ *Novel Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard 747-6711 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 747-7672 ¯¯¯ Pet Pride, Dog & Cat Grooming 584-7554 ¯ Puppy Pause II, 1 lth & Mingo 838:7626 ¯: *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 584-0337 : *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 749-6301 ¯ Scott Robison’ s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations 743-2351 ¯ Southwest Viatical 747-3322, 800-305-6384 Thomas Chiropractic, 4138 S. Harvardi Ste. C-1 742-8868 ¯ Keltie.J. Watts~ attorney _ _ 493:1959 : Fred Welch, LCSW; Counseling 743-1733 Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, PUB 1071, 74101-1071 579~9593 Black & White, Inc. PUB 14001, Tulsa 74159 583-7314. *Bless The Lord... Christian Center, 2627b E. 11 628-0594 *B/L/G Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr: 583-9780 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI. & Florence *Community of Hope United Methbdist, 1703 E. 2rid 585-1800 Community Unitarian:Universalist Congregation 749-0595 Dignity/In tegrity-LesbiatffGay Catholics/Episcopal. 298-4648 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-i441 *Fello~Ship Congregl Church, 2900 S. Harvard 747-7777 *Free Spirit Womens Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 Friend For AFriend, PUB 52344, 74152 747-6827 Friends in Unity Social Org. (African-Ameriean mens group) " PUB 8542, 74101, Call c/o TOHR @ 742-2927 Indian Health Care, Save the Nation 584-4983 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplew0od 838-1715 *HIV Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 748-3111 *Our Home, 1114 S. Quaker 584-7960 PFLAG , PUB 52800,. 74152 749-4901 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 587-7674 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box52118, 74152 583-1410 *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 Rainbow Business Guild, PUB 4106, 74159 665-5174 St. Jerome’s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 646-7116 *Shanti Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services 749-7898 Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, PUB 2687, 74101 743-4297 Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 T.U.L.S.A~ Tulsa Uniform~Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *Tulsa Community College, Metro & NE Campuses *University Center at Tulsa EUREKA SPRINGS Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy 23 South 501-253-7734 BeaverDam Store, t/2mi. N. of Dam Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 DeVito’ s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, PUB 429 501-253-2776 King’ s Hi-Way, 96 Kings Highway, Hwy.62W 800-231-1442 MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 McClung Realtors 501-253-9682 Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-253-2401 Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 The Woods, 50 Wall St. 501-253-8281 OKLAHOMA CITY Face Beautiful Euroclinical Day Spa, 7108 N. Western, Ste. D2 405-840-FACE (3223) I am a heterosexual woman that recently picked up your publication. I was impressed with theinformativeness of the paper and learned a great deal, hopefully; it "broadened my horizons." I would like to make a comment regarding the article on San Francisco Giants pitcher, Mark Dewey. I make this statement based only on what I read in your paper, as I had not heard of the incident prior. I realize it must be frustrating when there are individuals who publicly oppose your views, however, I think we all need to understand we all should have that right. Just as you ask the American public to understand your right to have an alternate lifestyle (in their eyes) we must also reeoggi."ze the rights of people opposed to our wews. Had Dewy been violent or displayed unnecessary hostility concerning his beliefs, I would say he was wrong, but all he did was refuse to participate in an event that was contrary to his beliefs. He has that right just the same as you and Ido. Along this train of thought, the Gay community members do not want to lose their jobs or careers over their beliefs, therefore, why should Dewey lose his job for his beliefs? I hope I have made my point without angering anyone, because that is. not my intention. I just feel that both viewpoints should be allowed to be expressed without hate, violence judgment o~ loss of career status. In addition from what I read in ~our paper, that is what the Gay community desires as well. Is that a correct impression? Again, I would like to express my appreciation for several well written informative articles.. Good with Phillips and his wifeverbally harassing the women using Specifically antiLesbian epitaphs. At one point, Phillips allegedly engaged in physical violence, with the result that court-ordered mediators instructed Phillips and his wife to "cease and desist" all of their harassing actions. The victims finally moved, notjnst from their home of many years, but completely out of state. Our two cents? We like the food at Route 66 - where Gay & Lesbian people get just the same as everyone else: good food that’ s worth the wait for a table. School Bond Election: In our last issue, you may have noticed a letter to the editor urging folks to vote against the school bond election. What’s significant about that letter was that it was the only commtmieation from either side of the issue to community media or organizations. Although the organizers of the Vote Yes campaign include Mayor Savage, Barbara Gardner, pres. of the Tulsa Chamber of Commerce, and others who actually know that there really are, gee, Gay people in Tulsa, the Yes organizers managed to run a totally Gay-free campaign. As far as we can determine, although mailings were done to community organizations offering Yes editorials and speaksee Watch, page 7 �Attitudes Towards ¯"¯ lawsuit Thursday. It was the latest legal setback for Richenberg, who has been Gays Softened ¯ challenging the.military’s policy on hoCHICAGO (AP) - A new stud~ says ¯ more Americans are tolerant of gays, but more than six out of 10 still believe homo- ¯ sexual rel~itions are always wrong.The ¯ ¯ study, released Monday, was based on the General Social Survey conducted almost ¯ every year since 1972 at-the National ¯ ¯ Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago.Researchers asked 2,904 ¯ people across the country whether sexual : relations between two consenting adults ¯ ¯ of the same sex are always wrong, almost always wrong, sometimes wrong or not ¯ wrong at all. Sixty-one percent said ho- ¯ mosexual relations are always, wrong, while 28 percent said not wrong at all, with the rest split between the two milder choices. When the question was first asked in 1973, 73 percent said gay relations were always wrong and 11 percent said they : were never wrong.The margin of error ¯ w as plus or m i n us 2 percentage points .The : disapproval rate for gays was always 70 . percent or hi.gher until 1993, when it fell ¯ to 66 percent. And the percentage of people who said gay relations were not wrong at : all neverrose above 16percentunti11993, ¯ when it hit 22 percent. "More and more ¯ people are realizing thattheiruncle, cousin, ." neighbor or teacher is gay. When that . happens, lots of the negative attitudes the ¯ people had about gay folks go right out the ¯ window," said Rick Garcia, executive di- ¯ rector of the Illinois Federation for Hu- : ¯ man Rights. ." ¯ mosexuals (known informally as "don’t ask, don t tell, allows gays to rematn in the military as long as they don’t disclose’ their sexual preference) for about three years. Richenberg disclosed his homosexuality in a May 1993 letter to a cornmander. Kayser saidhis clienthas astrong legal case worthy of Supreme Court consideration.’q’he issue is whether we are going to have government-sanctioned bigotry," Kayser said. "Rich is an outstanding person. The evidenceis such that he is being discriminated against by the U.S. government." Lucas On Barby’s i Homosexuality Soldier to Appeal to Supreme Court OMAHA, Neb. (AP) - A former Offutt Air Force Base officer who is gay lost his appeal to be reinstated and said he plans to take the case before the U.S. Supreme Court.Rich Richenberg, 38, who was a captain when the Air Force discharged him in December; will appeal his lawsuit to the Supreme Court, said Tom Kayser, a Minneapolis attorney. The 8th U.S. CirCuit Court.of Appeals of St. Louis ruled 2-1 against Richenberg’s OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) - U.S. Rep. Frank Lucas mentioned his opponent’s admitted homosexuality in aletter to supporters asking for more money for his reelection campaign.Lucas; a Republican, had said he would not discuss the issue in the campaign. He said Tuesday that the letter was sent only to supporters and he won’t change his public stance of not discussing Democrat Paul Barby’s homosexuality. Barby had acknowledged to Democratic leaders in July that he was gay, saying he hoped that it would not become a campaign issueif he acknowledged it. In a letter dated Sept. 27, Lucas wrote, "Some people have even said that he doesn’t stand a chance of winning because he has admitted publicly that he ¯ is a homosexual." The two are running for the 6th Congressional District, which covers much of western Oklahoma. ¯ t.ion to stir up anti-gay sentiment. ¯ But others find cause for celebration that their anti-homosexual message, part ¯ ofthepolitical landscape for years,is now ¯ coming from the mouth of the Republican : nominee for governor, whose utterances ¯ are broadcast and printed statewide. ¯ "My gut response is that it is just aston¯ ishing that a candidate for governor cites ¯ as fact the fiction that gay people have a ¯" life expectancy that is 35 years less thanit sues. ¯ would be if. they weren’t g.ay. It’s scary The film opens with U.S. Sen. Bob : that she wouldbe willing to ~11 the public Smith giving a speech before the Senate ¯ something so untrue and something not supported by any scientifically credible about withholding federal funding from school districts that discuss homosexual- ¯ information," said Jan Bianchi, the exity in the classroom. A very angry Smith ¯ ecutive director of Hands Off Washingwaves his hands around and yells, "We . ton, a gay-rights organization. ¯ Whatever their reaction, voters folmust protect the taxpayers by keeping this trash out of our schools. And that’s what ¯ lowing Craswell’s uphill struggle to deit is. It’s trash." The filmmakers contrast : feat Democrat Gary Locke are getting a Smith’s comments with those by young ¯ newlook at a debate that until now has students, who react to homosexuality with ¯ been confined to legislative fights and comments like, "What’s the big whoop?" : ballot initiatives for or against gay rights. ¯ or, "They’re gay. Well so what." Locke is aloud champion of gay lights. ¯ The filmmakers stressed they are not He co-sponsored unsuccessful state legis¯ lation to win civil-rights protections for trying to teach children about sex, or encourage them to become gays or lesbians. ¯ gays and lesbians. And, unlike President Instead, their goal is to teach children to ¯ Clinton, he also supports same-sex marrespect people who are different from ." riage. As governor, he says, he wouldsign them, eliminate negative stereotypes of ¯ a measure legalizing such unions if one homosexuals and prevent future violence ¯ ever reached his desk. and suicides among gay people, espe- ¯ "We should be encouraging stable, ¯ cially teenagers. healthyrelafionships. We need to encourSeveral teachers who attended the pre- ¯ age that whether heterosexual or homomiere said they would like to have more -¯ sexual," -Locke said to loud cheers and freedom in their classroom to talk to kids applause at an appearance with Craswell ¯ about issues facing gays and lesbians. at Capital High School in Olympia. Many of them spoke on the condition of ¯ Craswell’s assertion that homosexuals sponsored the premiere of "It’s Elementary: Talking AboutGay Issues in School" on Sun,Lay at the Concord City Audito,,,ri~m. About 100 people, mostly educators, attended the film’s opening at the Concord City Auditorium. The documentary, expected to be nominated for an Oscar, takes viewers into six classrooms around the country where teachers and students,grades one through eight, openly discuss gay and lesbian is- ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ." ¯ ¯ anonymity for fear of losing their jobs or : shorten their lives by 35 years is a case in ¯ point, she said. Craswell’s information causing trouble in their school district. ¯ comes from a published article by Paul : Cameron, a man well-known for his anti¯ homosexual views, Bianchi notes. The ¯ 1994 article has since been knocked down ¯ by other researchers who say allCameron ¯ Wash. St. Politico F!lm Urg.es School Says Gays Die Early showed was that men who contract the OLYMPIA, WASHINGTON (AP) HIV virus stand to die young, something Some gasped and some laughed when CONCORD, N.H. (AP) - Children are ¯ Ellen Craswell tolda Seatfleaudience this ¯ nobody denies. "Cameron has been discredited by every scholarly association," never too young to learn how to respect week that homosexuality "cuts 35 years Bianchi, a Seattle lawyer, said. "For a people who are different from them, in~off your life." The Christian conservative ¯ candidate for governor to be citing this cluding homosexuals, according to a docucandidate’s unabashed views on homo- : manas asource, that’sjustplainunethical mentary shown over the weekend . sexuality have horrified and frightened to me." A New Hampshire gay educators group ¯ many, who say sheis using falseinforma- Discusston of Gays : ¯ : : ¯ . MCC of Greater ulsa "Where God, Uplifts All Pe[ople" 1104 South Victor .Tulsa, Oklahoma 74104 (918) 592-18Q0 Fax (918) 592-4323 Community Cleaning 1623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, Oklahoma 838-1715 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. �Gay St, Em ployees "It meets the challenge of honoring ¯ growing up today, approaching the turn of ¯ is a spirit of fundamentalismin the air, and parental rights and balancing that with ¯ the century, said Judi Shils, an indepen- ¯ fundamentalismhas atits heart theurge to Organize ¯ educating students about injustice and ¯ dent TV producer from Matin County : purge," author Mel White told a UniverHARTFORD, Conn. (AP) - Dozens iof : attitudes toward agroup of people. It’s not ." who came t~p with theidea for the project. ¯ sity of Nebraska-Lincoln audience. "The state workers plan to stand up and .be ¯ meant to promote, or condone or criticize ¯ . .’~,Lwas ~something from the heart," : rhetoric of the right is the rhetoric of counted today as productive members of a particular lifestyle," said Johanna "~a~d~’ce said: "After I tell everyone in my ~ intolerance, ignorance and fear." the gay community and urged their gay ¯ Kaufman, an assistant superintendent who ¯ school this way, I hopeit’s not going to be ¯ Members of Congress who might have ¯ heads the committee. colleagues to do the same. been reluctant to support the "defense of [ an issue anymore..Mom doesn’t want me Readings on gay and lesbian orienta- ¯ to fight her batdes, but now it is my ¯ marriage act," which denied legal recogA group of state workers held a pep rally of sorts Thursday to prepare for : tion are part of arequiredliterature course ¯ battle." "This is something Candice has ¯ nition for homosexual marriages, were today’s National Coming Out Day, which ¯ for sophomores atMiddletonHigh School. ¯ wanted to do for years," said Teri. "Now _" overwhelmed by fundamentalist influencourages homosexuals "’come out of ¯¯ Racism, sexism and anti-Semitism are : it is no longer a secret. Iam very proud of ¯ ences and instead helped enact the bill, ¯ also part of the curriculum. the closet" and tell people about their ¯ my daughter. I have always been proud of White said, An author and filmmaker, ¯ White served as ghostwriter for evangesexual orientation. The workers an~ " Parents can have their children with- ¯ her." ¯ lists Jerry Falwdl and Pat Robertson benounced the creation of "State Pride," a draw from activities or discussions consupport group and lobbying organization .¯ trary to their moral briefs, Kaufman said. ¯ fore revealing his gay orientation. "I cerfor gay, lesbian and bisexual workers. ’°Their kids don’t have to do this but we taiuly didn’t choose it, and I certainly ¯ ¯ "Our name, State Pride, symbolizes both have a responsibility to all of our parents didn’t want it," he said. ¯ our pride in serving the people of Con- ¯ and constituents. We’ve protected their ¯ White is dean of the Cathedral of Hope OAKLAND, Calif. (AP) Colleen Clay necticut and our pride in being lesbian, ¯¯ rights, and said that this is an appropriate Metropolitan Community Church in-Daland Karen Vernon plunked down $35, ¯ las, which contains the nation’s largest gay, bisexual and transgendered women topictoteachhighschoolkids,"Kaufman ¯ ¯ exchanged a kiss and posed for photosaid. and men," said Diane Goldsmith, director ¯ homosexual congregation. Some 14,000 Kaufman’s committee met with par- " graphs tobecome Oakland’s first regis- ." people are affiliated with the church. Inof Transition and Women’s Programs at ~ ¯ tolerance is leading not ouly to hate crimes Manchester Community-Technical Col- ¯ ents andasked teachers to explain how the ¯_ tered same-sex couple. They were among 10 couples who reg- ¯ lege and one of the group’s leaders. readings are used. But the meeting with ¯ against gay people, but to swastikas on The organization has more than 70 ¯ parents"was not a public forum to discuss ¯ istered as domestic partners Wednesday ~ synagogues andblack churches inflames, ¯ under the programunanimously approved ¯ he said. "We need to rediscover tolermembers at all levels of employment ¯ the homosexual lifestyle,’: she said. ¯ by City Council members in June. working in departments ranging from the ~ ance,’~ White said. ¯ Oakland is the eighth city in California state police to the state university system, ¯ tO have a domestic partners’ registry. In members said. Hundreds more potential ~ the San Francisco Bay area, Berkeley, members are among the state’s 63,000 .. Pale Alto, Marin County and San Franemployees, the group said. PALO ALTO, Calif. (AP) - For years, ¯ cisco also have registries. Santa Clara Members of the group said the state ¯ Candice Sullivan-Speare wanted to tell Cty. residents _will vote next month on ¯ BANGOR, Maine (AP) - After years of should become competitive in hiring em¯ her classmates and friends about her sewhether to establish a registry. ¯ negotiations, lesbian and gay faculty at ployees, and offer so-called domestic partcret. Finally, she has had a chance to get it Registration allows partners who also ¯¯ the University of Maine System can now ner benefits just like some large corpora¯ out in the open- &move on with her life. are city employees to receive full medical enroll their partners in their benefits packtions: They said they would press for the At a packed school assembly at ¯ benefits for their partners. "It’s a justice ¯ age. The board of trustees voted recently benefits to be included in their contracts Castilleja~ an all-girls school, 15-year-old ¯ issue as far as I see it," Councilman John ¯ to grant health insurance, bereavement during negotiations. Candice got right to the point: "When I Russo said. Clay and Vernon, together for leave, tuition waivers and access to cam"’If the system is supported by all tax¯ was little, I never thought much of the fact seven years, already had wedding two : pus facilities to gay and lesbian partners. payers, then all taxpayers should be treated ¯ years agoin San Francisco’s Golden Gate ¯ that my morn was gay." This makes the University of Maine alike, including domestic partners," said When she was finished telling her expe- ¯ Park. "We did (that ceremony) for our- ¯ System the first Maine public employer to James Hauley, a movie theater consultant offer domestic partnership benefits, to riences with intolerance, Candice was " selves, our families and our friends," and the domestic partner of a University ¯ fighting off tears, and several classmates Vernon sai& "But this was a chance to : qualified same-sex cohples. of Connecticut professor. University of Maine System spokeshad tears in their eyes as they gave her a ¯ have our relationship acknowledged in a ¯ standing ovation. In the front row, her ¯ somewhat wider society." ¯ man Kent Price said full-time gay and lesbian faculty can apply for the benefits. mother,Teri Sullivan, and partner Aimee ¯ The partners must meet certain criteria, Ames, fought off tears as wall. ¯ including proof that they have lived toCandice’s talk was part of the Diary : . gether for at least two years. ’q’here are Project, inspired by the diary of 15-yearMIDDLETON, Wis. (AP)- A parental ¯ increasing number of business andindusold Zlata Filipovic, who wrote about her complaint about classroom instruction on : LINCOLN, Neb. (AP)-A gay pastor said : tries that are now including this benefit... homosexuality was rejected because it is like in war-tom Sarajevo. The project is an invitation to young people around the : politicians who might support g.ay rights ¯ Interms of the financial exposureit’s not the school’ s duty to talk about such issues, ¯ are being frightened by the rising influthat significant," Price said. an administrator said Thursday. world to express their hopes, fears, -" ence of religious fundamentalism.’q?here ¯ Oakland’s First ¯ Domestic Partners Daughter Freed From Secret School Defends Teaching On Gays ¯ Maine Univ. 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Then, a settlenmt offer is presented to you. You may always decline the offer with no obligation whatsoever. Should you accept the offer, payment is made directly to you. You pay nothing else on your policy, and you owe us nothing. IS VIATICATING MY POLICY THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR ME? Many factors influence whether viaticating your life insurance is the best financial alternative available for you. Southwest Viatical can discuss all of the factors with you and your family in person, in detail and can recommend an experienced Certified Financial Planner to assist you xn planning the best outcome from your unique financial situation. Kelly Kirby Oklahoma Representative 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210 Tulsa, OK 74135 800-305-6384 918-747-3320 HOW IS SOUTHWEST VIATICAL DIFFERENT? Today, many companies offer viatical settlements, doing business only by bulk advertising and 1-800 numbers. They transfer your insurance and medical records by mail, and do business from another state. At Southwest Viatical, we believe you should be assured of complete confidentiality and the best possible service by working with us in person, face-to-face. We are involved on a community level,, and are responsible directly to our local commtmity. By working with you in person, but at the same time having access to nationwide financial resources, we are able to deliver the best value on your policy available today. And because of our established resources, we can deliver a settlement in less than a third-the time other. companies takeby mail, typically in fewer than 30 days. We’ll do what it takes to find the best solution for you. �<.Editor’s note: Each month this column will deal with a legal issue related to HIW AIDS to help Oklahomans know and understand their legal rights - Kerry Lewis Jeffrey A. 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First, in the past, if you had a preKeeping Your existing condition (such as HIVIAIDS), Insurance Coverage and you wanted to change your employer, Recent developments in the treatment you would often lose eligibility for insurof HIV/AIDS promi ses to extend the lives ance coverage at your new job. The new of thousands of persons. However, one legislation prohibits insurance companies nasty side effect of these new treatments from-denying coverage due to pre-existis the incredibly high cost of maintaining ing conditions. In cases where the new job the treatment--estimated to average more has a group insurance plan, this law will than $20,000 per year. eliminate the need to pay the premiums Now, more than ever before, the availyourself under COBRA. ability of resources to pay the medical Second, if you have group health insurcosts has a direct effect on thehealth of the ance but you cannot continue to work, the person with HIV/AIDS. The primary new legislation requires aninsurancecomsource of funding remains health insurpany to allow you to obtain individual ¯ ance. This colunm will deal with some of -health:insUranceonce you leave your job the ways to keep health insurance coverage. Extending Health InsuranceThrough ’ : regardless of your health status. Note, howbvcr, that the cost may be very steep. COBRA. If your employer pro- vides Preventing Your Policy from Being ¯ health insurance, and you wish or need to leave your employment, you can continue ¯ . Cancelled. An insurance company may the health insurance for up to 28 months . try to cancel yourinsurancepolicyonceit through the Consolidated-Omnibus Bud- : discovers your HIV status (usually after get Reconciliation Act of 1985, also com- : you make a related claim). Typically,~the -. insurance company will send a letter admonly known as COBRA: If you work for an employer with more i vising you that your policy is being canthan twenty employees, you can stay on ¯ celled because, of misleading information on your insurance application. The letter your employer’ S health insurance for eighteen months unless are fired for "gross ¯ will sometimes be accompanied by alumpsum cheek. mi sconduct.’Y You will be required to pay What should you do? First, donot cash the premiums yourself in addition to a : : the check. Cashing the check may be small administrative fee. You can extend your insurance cover- ¯ proof that you aceepted and agreed to age for an additional eleven months if the : cancel the insurance. Second, call the Social. Security Administration (SSA) : AIDS Legal Resource Project to fred an determines that you are "disabled" under ¯ at.tomey. An attorney can help you deterits requirements. T o qualify, the S S A must : mine whether the insurance company had ¯ the right to cancel the insurance. Except determine you are "disabled" as of or self-insured health plaus, the policy before the last day you work. You must ~ for cannot be cancelled if more than two then send a copy of the SSA Notice of Award letter to your former employer ¯ years have passed since you signed the within 60 days of receiving it. The cost of ¯¯ application. Evenifless than twoyear, the .attorney can help you determine if the continuing the coverage will be 150% of ¯ insurance company can prove that the the premium but will be much less expen," information on the application justifies sive than having no insurance. If eligible, Medicaid may pay the premiums for you. . cancellation of the policy. If you are HIV-positive or have AIDS Remember that perhaps the most im- ¯ and you have an insurance or other legal portant thing you can~do to keep your insurance at this point is to make every : problem you may qualify for free legal ¯ assistance from an attorney on the pro single premium payment on,time. ¯ bono panel of AIDS Legal Resource New Legislation~ On August 21,1996, ¯ Project. Call the Project collect at (405) President Clinton signed into law the ¯ 524-4611. Health Insurance Portability and Account- ers from their speakers bureau, not a one went to any of our churches or groups, let alone, media. This happened despite a budget of more than $150k and the serwices of a high-powered (and likely wellpaid) public relations company, Schnake Turnbo and Brookey. It’s kindofhard to understand how Steve Turnbo can tell The Tulsa World, "we’re targeting the entire community" as he did on Oct. 6th and somehow not contact any Gay people, groups or businesses in Tulsa. Their excuse is that none of us are on the list. But they s ay they don’ t know whose li si it i s or why we’re not there. Imagine. Can you say institutionalized bias? They’d have a better excuse if this were the first time that this has happened. However, after our community got ignored in the penny sales tax campaign this summer, Tulsa Family News called Schnake Turnbo to remind them of as and our b,ommunity’s existence. Apparently that : : ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ : ¯ ¯ ¯" ¯ ¯ : : : ¯ ". wasn’t enough for them to connect the dots.YoumightwanttochideourMayor and theChamber for their obliviousness, if not out-and-out bias. Mayor Savage can be reached at 596-7411 and leave a message for Chamber President Gardner at 585-1201. That’sthebadandtheugly.Whatabout the good? Well if you didn’t notice, The Tulsa Worm editorial page actually has endorsed both jobs protections and domestic partnership legislation for Lesbiaus andGaymen. Nowit was donein such alow key manner that you might have had to read it twice but it was there. You might send editorial/opinion page editor, Ken Neai (no kin to this walter) yourpraise.Afterall,hetakesalotofgrief for being so liberal when often The World’s hardly that, that we should recognize them when they really are, God bless them, just being fair. The WorM: 581-8300, fax: 581-8353 �by James Christjohn , JASON STUART brings his codaedy to the Tulsa Comedy Club Wed. Oct. 30 - Sun. Nov. 3. This is amust see for all of our readers, some of whom may remember seeing him at the "Family Outing" at the Texas State Fair in Dallas this summer. Hie can be seen on Comedy Central’s "Out There in Hollywood", profiling seven gay/lesbian standups, which debuted 10/ 11, andis co-starring as Mar, the fabulous producer, in "Gay TV: The Movie", a farce about a gay man and his straight sister starting the first gay cable channel, which should start making the rounds of theaters this fall. Now, if only we could get the channel... Hte’s appeared on Broadway with Joan Rivers and Sandra Bernhard. He is filming a new show for Fox TV,"Firefighter". I had the chance to speak with him briefly and found him to be delightfully charming. I even got amini preview of the show, which should have you guffawing - or shrieking, in some eases. He is looking forward to his appearance here, and is busier than ever. He was on his way to perform at a benefit for AIDS, which he does frequently. He’s been involved in acting since the 80’s, and got into standup in 1983, at the urging of his manager. Until then, he never really thought of standup as an outlet- he didn’ t feel he w as funny enough. Smart didn’t come out publicly until 1993. Stuart when he did, it was on the Geraldo show - and Geraldo even kissed him at the end of the show! That’s when you know you’re becomihg a cdebrity - ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ just ask Bette Midler! It has changed his life profoundly - for the better. He has been more successful than ever since coming out. He says "It is SO nice to be able to be yourself - to me, it’s a privilege". No more jokes about : non-existent girlfriends, he’s found that it ¯ pays, literally, to tell the truth. "My in: come has doubled - and so has my spend" ing." And he’ s busier than ever, with new ¯ projects coming up daily. ¯ So nice to hear a positive message like : thathereinTulsa. Heis finding that stand" ing up for what he believes in and being ¯ proud of who and what he is is the biggest payoff of all. During his run, through the kindness of : ¯ Stuart and the Tulsa Comedy Club, do- nations will be collected to benefit HOPE, ¯ HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education (for" merly the TOHR Testing and Education : programs) at all shows and don’t miss ¯ Halloween night when half the door will : go to HOPE as a special benefit. : For those of a masochistic bent, ¯ Harajuku, thosefolkswhotakeshowttmes ¯ and "disco-ize" them, have released an ¯ album of all the songs you spun your little : brains out to - "Phantom of the Opera", "Can You Feel the Love Tonight", among : others. (I have to pretend I’m above such ¯ things in order to maintain my artistic ¯ snootiness, but I enjoy hearing this every ¯ once in a while, l get such a laugh when i " hear Les Miz’s "On My Own" as a disco ¯ song.) It’s a hoot, and a great party disc. : GUYS AND DOLLS will bepresented ¯ by the TU 10/17 -27 at the Chapman ¯ Theatre., Info, call 631-2567. Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. ,Costume Party |he lulsa Cornedy] lUb Prizes for Best Costumes the whole *HIV Outreach Prevenhon Educahon Trumpeter’s Delight! November 16 - 8 p.m., Tulsa PAC Featuring Conductor Search Finalist, David Alan Miller Princi pal Trumpet, Tim McFadden Tchaikovsky...Overture to "Hamlet" Arutyunian...Trumpet Concerto Dvor’ak...Symphony No. 7 in d minor CALL 747-PHIL! T HOPE U L S A PHILHARMONIC TULSA O PERA Presents HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education La formerlylTOHR HIV Prevention Programs Traviata 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. Sung in Italian with English SUNfides projected above the stage #~.~ . ~i~ BANK OF ~=~ OK~HO/~ BUY YOUR TICKETS TODAY! Call Tulsa Opera (918) 587-4811 or Fax your order (918) 592-0380. Tulsa Opera is proud to present Olga Kondina of Russia’s Kirov Opera in her Tulsa debut. �TU&SA FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALEND R ¯ SUNDAYS ¯ MONDAYS TUESDAYS : WEDNESDAYS THURSDAYS : FRIDAYS ¯ HIV+ Support Group Bless the Lord At All ¯ HIV Testing Clinic ¯ Bless The Lord At All : Co-Dependency Safe Haven Times Christian Center ¯ Free & anonymous testing HIV Resource Consortium Times Christian Center ¯ ¯ Young Adults Social Group Support Group Sunday School, 9:45 am : using fingerstick method. : 1:30 pm Prayer & Bible Study : 7:30, Family of Faith MC( ¯ 8pm,lstFri. ofeachmo. Worship Service, 11 am ¯ No appointment required. ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 7:30 pm 2627-B East 1 lth : 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 ¯ Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th 2627b East llth 583-7815 ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30 pm ¯ Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 Call 583-7815 for info. ¯ Community of Hope (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 ¯ Results hours: 7-9 pm Info: 742-2927 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. ¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group Family Of Faith MCC Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm Choir Practice 7:30 pm 5451-E South Mingo. Call 622-1441 for info. PFLAG Family AIDS Friends & Family Support Group ¯¯ HIV/AIDS Support Group Family of Faith 2rid Mon. of month 7 pm, call for location: Metro. Comm. Church 6:30 pro, 4154 S. Harvard ¯ 749-7898 : TNAAPP ¯ Tulsa Native American Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Info: 749-4901 ¯ Worship Service, 11 am Alternative Skating AIDS Prevention Project 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 ¯ 8:30 - 11 pro, 241-2282 Support group for Gay & Bi Native : $4, Sand Springs Skate Metro. Comm. Church American Men, 6 pm ¯ of Greater Tulsa Grief Group at Community of Hope Worship Service, 10:45am : Butler/Stumpff 1703 E. 2nd 1623 N. Maplewood Funeral Home 582-7225 or 584-4983 ¯ OTHER GROUPS ¯ ¯ Info: 838-1715 2103 E. 3rd St. ¯ The Technicians, Leather ¯ org., Info c/o 621-5597 ¯ Call for time: 587-7000 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay ¯" T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform Alliance - Univ. of Tulsa & Leather Seekers Assoc. 6:30 pm at Canterbury : Info: 838-1222 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ¯ Gay & Lesbian Student ¯ Association ¯ ¯ TJC Southeast Campus, Info: 631-7632 ¯ SWAN-Single Women’s Activity Network ¯ Call 832-2121 You Can Make A Difference Life. HOPE : HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education ¯¯ Anonymous HIV Testing ¯ Walk in testing: 7 - 8:30 pm ¯ : Results hours: 7 - 9 pm ¯ ¯ Info: 742-2927 ¯ : ¯ ¯ SATURDAYS Mixed Volleyball for Fun & Competition Helmerich Park, 2 pm 71st & Riverside Info: 587-6557 ¯ St. Jerome’s Church Tulsa Family Chorale ¯ Mass, 6 pm, Garden Chapel : Weekly practice, 9:30 pm ¯ 3841 S. Peoria Lola’s 2630 E. 15th Info: Father Rick, 742-6227 ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS ¯ Support Group 1st & 3rd Thursdays ¯ 4154S. Harvard,749-4901 : Alternatives Weekly social events for LGBT men & women, 7 pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G 3-4:30 pm Info: 749-4194 Narcotics Anonymous Meets weekly at 11 pm Confidential support for recovering addicts. Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt wing Bees 3rd Sat. of each month Info: 748-3111 �Community Notes & Events : Eea~erseekersAssociation (T:U.L.S.A.) ¯ as the official Oklahoma preliminary to New Location for .Leather 101 : the International Mr. Leather (IML) con& Healing The Spirit : test held in Chicago in May. Oklahoma’s largest leather event, the The newly opened Pride Center, 1307J ¯ E. 38th in Brookside, will play ho~t on : 1997 contest will be emceed by Intema- ,~, October 19, 12-6pro, to ’%eather 101" : tionalMr.Leather 1995, Mr. Larry Everett. and ’~Iealing The Spirit" on October 20, ¯ Titleholders and dignitaries from around 1-5pro. The weekend is being sponsored :¯ the world will be on hand to judge and attend this year’ s event, which is expected by lance brittain, Mr. Alameda County ¯ to draw a capacity crowd to the Silver Leather 1994 (CA), HOPE, formerly ¯ Star, 1565 South Sheridan. TOHR, and the Silver Star Saloon. The weekend will begin with a shuttle ’~eather 101" will be facilitated by :¯ lance, Brian Jackson; and Duncan ¯ bus bar crawl on Fri. night, which will end up at the Silver Star where the judges and MacLaehlan, Mr. Leatherman Toronto 1996. Topics to be discussed include ¯ contestants will be introduced. The conleather/SM, coming out, control, power " test will be Sat. night and will include exchange, roles, and SM relationships ¯ great entertainment as well. Judging will use Olympic type scoring and will be and the law. Other topics of interest are SM etiquette, toys, safety, risk reduction. i based on Street wear with a Speech, This workshop is for womeuand men : Swimwear and Full Leather Image with a alike who are interested in or curious ¯ ~ RandomQuesrionandAuswer. Theweekabout leather/SM. "It’s an educational : .end will conclude with a Sunday brunch. Weekend packets which include a dog opportunity you will not want to miss ... ¯ the information will be valuable for un- :¯ tag, aT-shirt, special offers, program, and admission to all events are only $25 in derstanding the diversity of our commu¯ advance. After Nov. 6 the price will be nity", said Larry Everett, International : $30. Items in the packet may also be Mr. Leather 1995. DuncanMacLachlan will present’~Ieal- : purchased at the door while supplies last. There will also be a limited amount of ing The Spirit" using his personal experireserved seating available. ~For more iner~ee with Native Americ~m teachings and formation or to advertise at this year’s other spiritual resources. MacLachlan deevent, contact T.U.L.S.A. at (918) 838scribes his living with HIV since 1983, as 1222 ot by mail at PO Box 33076, Tulsa, a healing and a miracle. He does ask that Oklahoma 74153-1076. all participants wear loose, comfortable IAM Spirituality Forum clothing and to please bring a small object of personal significance. He adds, "This Interfaith AIDS Ministries is holding a workshop will be useful for people who potluck dinner and spirituality forum on Oct. 29th, at 6pro at the Reorganized are affected by HIV including caregive,r,s and health care professionals . Church of Christ of the Latter Day Saints MacLachlan will be offering the teachat 4811 So. Fulton. ings of the medicine wheel and the seven Our House (2raft Bazaar arrows, tools for application, the power of Area crafters are donating items that positive thinking, how to avoid the pitwill be sold to benefit Our House, a place falls (New Age and otherwise), and more. where persons challenged by HIV/AIDS The workshop will include meditation, can share companionship. This event will ritual, storytelling, group exercises, and be Sat. Oct. 26 from 9-5pm at 1114 So. opportunities for sharing. The suggested offering is $5.00 for Youth Loademhip Tulsa each workshop to cover workshop mateYouth Leadership Tulsa (YLT), a prorials, but no one will be turned away. gram of Leadership Tulsa, is beginning Participants should bring a cushion for and is seeking a diverse group of youth to comfortable searing. Juice, coffee, and participate in a program to strengthen water will be provided. Feel free to bring their personal skills and to introduce them a snack, pencil, or paper. For more inforto volunteerism and community service. marion please call 749-2927, 918-37132 sophomores and juniors from Tulsa 0496, or e-mail mrad94@aol.com. area public and private schools will be 1996 Red Ribbon Holiday: selected for the free program. For more Treefest and Gallery Walk information, call 582-1296. Interfaith AIDS Ministries announces Sunday at the (2enter that Red Ribbon Treefest is changing its Wondering how you can get involved name to: 1996 Red Ribbon Holiday: ¯¯ in political issues that affect Lesbians, ¯ Treefest and Gallery Walk. Gays, Bisexuals and Transgendered This annual event showcases decorated ¯ people? Tulsans for Equality are holding holiday trees and other holiday items to be : an event, Sunday at the Center from 2auctioned to raise funds for Interfaith AIDS ¯ 6pro to let you know how you can make a Ministries which provides spiritual, emo- ¯ difference. The Pride Center, 1307 E. tional, and practical support for those in " 38th, Second floor. For information, call our community whose lives are touched ¯ Rick at 744-1916. by HIV and AIDS. Previous years have : Pride o! Joplin raised about $2,500. ¯ The Southwest Institute at 701 S. Byers This year’s expanded format will in¯ is the meeting place for a new Gay & elude an "official opening," in the Brady Arts Gallery District, Thursday, Novem- : Lesbian community discussion group. The group which meets each Tuesday ber 21 from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Addi- ¯ tional viewing hours will be on Nov. 22- : at 8 pm is open to all and its goals include providing support and encouragement to 23, and pick-up or delivery of trees will ¯ each other, increasing awareness of the take place on Nov. 24th. ¯ needs of the eommtmity andlater starting To help decorate aholiday tree or assist ¯ aPrideCenter.ThefirstprojectisPrideof with this event, call Steven Fendt at 663: Joplin newsletter. Submissions are wel5372, or David Blust at 587-2611. ¯ come as is advertising. For moreinformaOklahoma Mr. Leather. Contest : lion, call Cheryl at 417-659-8808. TULSA-The Silver Star Saloon inTulsa, Oklahoma will again host the Oklahoma Mr. Leather, contest on Saturday, November 9. 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It’s a time to sit a pxenle ,..is always who had passed on. New spellorplayafew games, friends were introduced at the chat with old friends or around, deals were cut to A Dining Pleasure COCONUT BEER BATTERED SHRIMP PRIME RIB FRESH CLAMS VEGIE STIR FRY COQUILE ST. JAQUES MAHI-MAHI RACKOF LAMB CHOCOLATE SOUFFLE held makenewones,andatime ¯ , A Friendly Place to Stay ¯ KING’S HI-WAY ° INN A UTHENTIC FRESH ITALIAN RAINBOW C USINE TROUT " of Eureka Springs Recommended by The New York Times ~ ¯ ~-800-2~-]442 Je~ A. Wilson, owner (501) 253-680Z Closed Wednesday Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 72632 Geek to Go! to reunite with an evergrowin.g .family of cornmon spirit. The 1996 event was much like those in the past, butwithanew twist, Each year, Charlotte Downey and Ken Sculley join forces to put togcther a fun aftcmoon at Beaver Lake, and this year’s gala affair was no different, The "pink picnic," as one woman calledit, isalways held at the big pavilion at the Dam Site Park. Only problem anyone encotmteredwasamisplacement of the pavilion. It was moved from its former location on the island since last year so there was some initial excitement while everyone looked high and low for cars with rainbow plates bla pavilion attk~ get them housing or Dam Site Park. Only problem needed services,and they were brought up to speed on what they needed to know to make life work in this place we call paradise. In the course of an afternoon, I was introduced to 11 new folks, asked to take care of a newbie’s resume to help her get a job, learned of three new breakups, mourned the loss of four family members, talked of.two new businesses, met six locals I didn’t know, and celebrated a new car purchase. And, that was before we ate! In the course of a year, it seems we lose track of one another, our goals, our loves, and our lives. The Gay Family Reunion is a anyone eneoun- tered was a misplacement of the pavilion. It was moved from its former loeatlon on the island since last year so there was some initial exeltement while everyone looked risk and low for ears with rainbow plates or bumper stlekers. or bumper stickers, This reporter can not be accused of casual observance on most days, but at this year’s picnic, that"s the position I took, and I saw something incredible. " ¯ " " chance to renew our spir- its and join in a family of friends who care to be there for one another. We really should do this more often! Join us, in Eureka! The PC Specialist | Books, Incense, Candles & Rainbows! Plus lots more! system + software installation training + trouble-shooting access the Internet + World Wide Web Phyl Boler-Schmidt Systems & Software Specialist dia/ a geek 501.253.2776 (501) 253-5445 45& 1/2 Spring Street Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 emrain@rog.ar.ispnet.com POB 429, Eureka Springs Arkansas 72632 shimaka@intellinet.com httpff/www, pimps.com/geek] geekl.html already crowding the black fabric walks : that hasn’t increased since 1991, despite between quilt panels, Vice President AI " an increase of 4x in the number of clients. Gore and his wife, Tipper, joined poet ¯ The state only allocated that funding beMaya Angelou and others to read aloud ¯ cause a state contribution is required to someof thenames displayed on the quilts.." receive federal HIV/AIDS dollars. AIDS activists protested Friday that the : As part of a routine request for informacombinations of AIDS drugs they must ¯ tion,TFN requested copies of the minutes take cost tens of thousands of dollars. On ¯ of the HIVRC since the 1st of the year. Saturday, actress Elizabeth Taylor is ex- ¯ Thoele and staff have repeatedly refused pected to lead a candlelight march from ¯ to provide that information. Initially, the the Capitol to the Lincoln Memorial. ." agency simply seemed to "forget" about Usually, the quiltis divided and travels ; the request, but later referred the request the country, where organizers say it is ¯ to attomeyCharles Seeger, aboardmemseen by I million people each-year. Orga- : ber whois simultaneously serving as legal nizers said this may be the last time it is : counsel to the HIVRC. displayed in its entirety. Some 4,000 new " TFN has informed Seeger and Thode panels were presented to the project in the ¯ that the agency appears to be in violation last few days. ," of one or more Oklahoma state statutes According to statsfics from the Centers " that mandate full disclosure of the minforDiseaseControlandPrevention, AIDS ¯ utes of the agency. Seeger noted that he istheleading causeof deathamongAmeri- ¯ couldn’t imagine that there was anything can men aged 25 to 44 and the third- " to hide in the minutes but claimed that the leading killer among women the same ° HIVRC is not subject to the Oklahoma age. Between 40,000 and 80,000 Ameri- ¯ Open, Meeting Act as a "private noncansbecomeinfectedwiththdAIDSvirus prbfit.’. Howdver, the statute states that each year As of June, 343,000 Americans "all boards.., agencies, .. in the state of have died of AIDS. " Oklahoma supported in whole or in part . AtotherlocatiousinDC, singer-actress by public funds or entrusted with the Cher highlighted a rally organized by the i spending of public funds..." are subject to Human Rights Campaign on Friday, Oct. the. act. The law calls for fines of up to 11 for "National Coming Out Day ° $50Oand up to a year imprisonment for (NCOD)," encouraging gay men and les- : violating any provisions of the statute. It bians to be hone.st about their identities - ¯ is not Clear if only the executive director and to participate in the colmng election. ; ~or also members of the board could go to OpposingNCOD, a group called Parents " jail if the agency fails to obey the law. &Friends ofEx-Gays heldanews confer- ¯ Some members include Erie Ramirez, ence ,o announce its message that.homo~ " Tommie Chesbro, Ric Helmerich as wall scxuals Could become heterosexual. " as Seeger.and pres. Nancy McDonald.. �READ ALL ABOUT IT ", gayness, and what a change it has been! ~ For the past two decades, he has loudly Reviewed by Barry Hensley ¯ proclaimed that gays andlesbians deserve Tulsa City-County Library At the beginning of the Clinton era, ." the exact same rights and protections as there were many reports about the large ¯ other Americans. His message was not number of people who claimed to be FOB ~ lost on his old pal, Bill Clinton, and in the 1992 election Clinton (Friends of Bill). These became the first Presiincluded childhood dent to have actively friends, college buddies solicited the support of and various coworkers. the gay community, David Mixner is a clasusing Mixner as a liaisic FOB. Becoming son. Despite their marecollections are friends with Clinton in jor clifferences over the thelate 1960’s, their remilitary issue, Mixner lationship has had treis once again a loyal mendous highs and lows,bottomingoutin 1993 withMixner’s ¯ -Clinton supporter, pointing out that arrest at the White House for protesting ¯ Clinton has been the most pro-gay equalthe President’s "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" " ity president in history. Mixner has an easy, relaxed writing policy regarding gays in the military. ~ ¯ style, andhis recollections are fun to read. "Stranger Among Friends" is the story, of their roller coaster relationship and grow- ¯ His book is long on anecdotes which, ~ given the number of interesting and iraing up in the sixties. Mixner’s description of his formative ¯ portant people he has worked with and years brings back an era of civil rights ~ known, give his story a tmique perspecdemonstrations and Vietnam War pro- ¯ tive among current gay oriented books. Given that this is election season, check tests. However, his activity at the time is curiously devoid of any gay rights partici- ." out "Stranger Among Friends" and dispation, although the movement was just " cover yet another side to Bill Clinton. Check for this book and others on simibeginning at the time. Mixner was deeply ¯ closeted, convinced that of all the liberal ~¯ lar topics at your local branch library, or call the Readers Services department at canses he pursued, that was the one part of ¯ the Central Library at 596-7966. himself that he could not share with his Other new rifles of interest include: friends or family, fearing rejection. When ¯ * ’ffhe Arc of Love: An Anthology of his first lover, also closeted, was killed in ¯ Lesbian LovePoems" (Editor: ClareCass) an automobile accident, Mixner was convinced it was a sign from God, condemn- ¯¯ * "From A Burning House: The AIDS Project of Los Angeles Writers Working his homosexuality. Mixner finally came to terms with his " shop Collection" (EditedbyireneBorger) Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law Mixner has an easy, relaxed wrltln style, and his to red. ¯ ing inflammation, cysts, or even scarring Stress Related Acne ¯ in the twenties, thirties, and even forties. by Stephen W. Scott, [’ME ¯ The opposite can also be true when ache As Summer is winding down, we find our lives shifting gears, taking us into a ; dissipates into a minor but ongoing ache more regimented lifestyle, with school ¯ condition. Also the severity of thelesions starting, and for some, new jobs or new ~ usually varies over rime, either getting relationships. Fall has arrived, and with : worse or better. In aene, there is not prethe season, so comes stress. This can ¯ dictable pattern for how it will affect you. When a person is under stress, whether trigger unsightly bumps and blemishes ~¯ the stress is positive, i.e. due to a happy normally not there on your body and even ¯ event, such as amarriage, or whetherit’s more annoying when they appear on your face. This is the biggest problem I address :¯ negative stress, hormonal changes appear in the body. with my clients at this time of the year. ¯ In the"fight or flight" stage, your body’s Ache is only a condition, not a disease. ¯ hormonal response when you are under It cannot be healed, only controlled, moni~ stress, the sympathetic nervous system tored or improved. Stress is considered responsible for a wide array of physical ." starts responding byincreasingin theblood ¯ glucose levd, metabolic rate, ventilation disorders as well as psychological problems. Ache is but one of these disorders. ¯ (breathing) and heart rate. Also the blood Stress does not cause ache in everyone. : vessels in the intestine constricts (cansing Certain individuals suffer from genetic ~ poor digestion) and the blood vessels in ¯ the muscles dilate (resulting in increased predisposition to this disfiguring condition. Your DNA will determine if you are ¯¯ stamina). These responses are maintained by secretions of the adrenal medulla. The predisposed to have acne or not. Other factors such as stress will eventually "set : adrenal medulla (adrenal glands that are up the signal" for the acne to appear. Acne ¯ located above the kidneys) secrete haremay appear during a period of just a few ." pinephrine and epinephrine under stress. The adrenal cortex secretes male bardays, weeks, months or years and then a remission periOd may set n for anindeter- ." manes, which are steroids. The hormones minable time. In some people, the acne ¯ cause the sebaceous .glands to produce exists continually, but has ups and downs. ¯¯ more oil. The pattern is similar with preThe evolution of acne, as well as the kind ¯ menstrual ache. Understanding that ache is indeed geof lesions that appear can change in the netic and that stress can trigger an outsame individual over the years. While in the adolescence periOd, an ~¯ break will save you some disappointment and frustration. Now you will be able to ache condition might only be at a grade of ¯ focus, not on the miracle cure, but. on a 1. or 2 (the typical acne vulgaris so common in teenagers). 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Since ". are special ovens for cooking and smokthe last edition of the TFN, though, the : ing meats. It’s kind of like the Indian site has been remodeled and redecorated ¯ version of American barbecue. The meats in classic pink, and has are skewered and simply Taj Mahal opened as Tulsd s newest grilled, with only very Indian restaurant. We’re faint added flavors from 3629 So. Peorla. talking Sikh here, not marinades. They come Honr~: Lunch Cherokee or Creek. An out of the tandoor with off-shoot of the popular bu~et, 11 to 2:30 the characteristic lobster India Palace way out seven clays a week; ~.c~°e~l°,r~9P~,iManl~ thethe south at 70th and Lewis, Dinner 5 to 10 the Taj Mahal has been opened for the conveimn.t~rt~eti?fl ogr.~m.d lamb nience of midtown paOther entrees made of tll lo:3o Frl. & Sat. Irons by the brother of chicken, beef, lamb, and Cuisine: Punjabl IndiaPalace’ s owner, and .shrimp, beating fascinatthe two restaurants enjoy ing names such as shahi a dose relationship and a korma, vindaloo (vindaDress: Casual. similar menu. loo seems tobe anIndian Only open for not quite word meaning "’hotter P~ees: M~erate. three weeks as of this than heft’), saagwala, All maior erect writing, we’ve been there mattar, jalferzi, tikka once a week, and plan to masala, and bhuna, are return frequently. Rumor casserolemixtures served has it that itis fast becomsimilarly to entrees in a ing afavoriteofTFN pubChinese restaurant, most lisher, Tom Neal (who, costing about $10.95. As Ratin~: A l;st incidentally, is not__ Jeanone might expect in an Pierre -- Mr. Neal thinks Route 66is good _" Indian restaurant,a great number of vegenough for gourmet, and worse, now a ¯ etarian dishes, mostly priced at $7.95, are year after moving into his house, still : also available. One of our favorites is the doesn’t have a stove in his kitchen). ". saagpaneer, which is a creamed spinach Food from the Indian sub-continent is ¯ mix with chunks of freshly made cheese, an art form in and 0f itself, and is de- : andis the only way we willvoluntarily eat scended from a proud and ancient civili- : cooked spinach. zation. Having trained in Paris, we can ¯. All of the entrees come with classic generally eat food with European roots at any restaurant, and then go home and recreate it from memory. Not so with ¯ and is often scented with saffron, the Indian foods. European foods are simple : world’s most precious and expensive and tend to be flavored with just one herb ." spice, and mixed with fruits, nuts, and or spice, or maybe a standard combina- : vegetables. tion, such as bouquet gami. But Indian ¯ KheerBadami,$2.50,isastereotypical dishes are m~langes of many foodstuffs, : Indi.anri.cepuddingdessert.TheTaj Mahal flavored with carefully crafted mixtures : version ~s a bit on the soupy side, but still of literally dozens of Spices and herbs in ennumerable combinations. And, no, In- i ~eentsY~nt~d~kC.hpTismthc~ cardamomflav°r °f cx?’n-lce dianfood is-n0t just curry. Plus, curry ". c~eam, $2.75, andmangoice cream; $2.50, powder as we know it does not existin~ : ale also available. India = each cook makes~his or her own combination of spices to use in th0se’few dishes Which are curried: : to Tulsa. The service is still not quite as : p01ished as that at its Sister restaurant, but ¯ continues to improve. NeVertheless, it is : worth a’special-tfip to try out the Indian : foods, and enjoy the ethnic ambiance. The food must feel good in the m0uth~ and : And, fbr you less adventuresome readers, to the fingers, the flavors-must behot :and" ¯. alway~ remember that the kitchen can ¯ adjust .the temperature of the Spice from C°~h’et~nmrc~ ~t~f~ ,c~6s.~5a~ed~;ef~~ on, is a : very mildt0challengingly hot. good way to be introduced to the vast Welcome to Brookside, Taj Mahal! variety of Indian foods. When choosing : from the menu, the greatnumb~r of choices Sun. - Th.rs. (northw t O-DOWN -- NOT A LEASE O-DOWN -- NOT A LEASE s225_, , s239 HUGE REDUCTION Was $31,483 Disc0untNoW $3,495 "M~H~ $1B.~8, 47 payments of $225, last payment $9260.30 0r walk away, disposHIonlee $350, 48.000 miles free. 150 lheteafler. WAC "’MSRP $16,9~. 4T payments of $239.96. lasl payment of ~7458 or walk away. DIsposlliog fee $350. 48.000 robes free. 15z s mi~e therea~eL WAC. 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His is president and founder of ¯ Face Beautiful & FB for Men, a EuroBth~£oad~Ta~eOUSP2,.~yato with coconut. ". clinical day spaspeciali~ing in treatments Indian breads are also special. Naan, : for the skin, body, hair and nails, located paratha, kulcha, and puri are all corn= ¯. in OKC. He is also certified in fitness, pletely different and delicious experiences, ¯ nutrition and massage. 405-840-3223. ,,, �Leather/SM and the Law : person assaulted. Something to note is ¯ that "battery" includes assault, but "asby lance brittain Can you be arrested for practicing ¯ sault" doesn’t include battery. Numerous leathersex? Is it because this is Oklahoma ¯ instruments are used in leather/SM play that most people believe it is illegal to ¯ and to others they can be deemed as danparticipate in this type of activity .9 i would " gerous. The law states it is illegal for like to answer your questions and put any ¯ anyone, with the intention to cause bodily fears you may have to rest. With the help : harm without iustifiable or excusabl..e cause, to commit of Timothy any assault, batDaniel, Attorneytery, or as sault and At-Law, i hopebattery upon fully can ease your another’s body minds and stop with any sharp or thosenasty rumors dangerous that have made weapon. It also is their way around illegal to shoot, town throughout without such the years. ¯cause, at another While reading with any kind of this column, i ask Mr. Tulsa Leather ’96-’97 Chosen firearm or air gun that you have an Sept. 20th was the night to be at The Silver or other means, open mind and remember that Star Saloon as James Murray wasproclaimed with intent to inMr. Tulsa Leather ’96-’97 by Ron Green- jure any person leather/SM encompasses many wood, producer. 1st & 2nd runner-ups were without the intent Curtis Bass & David Shook. Murray goes on to kill. This is anforms and does not only involve pain to the Oklahoma Mr. Leather® 1997 contest other action that on Nov. 9th at The Silver Star. Judges were common sense and power exchange, but that David Bridgman, lance brittain, TJ Mc Kenzie, tells us not to do. Maiming is there aremany lev- Gary Stephenson, and Steve Fendt. Mr. Tulsa Leather ’95- ’96, Vie Reyespassed on his sash. premeditated deels on which the leather lifestyle evolves. The leather com- : signtoiniureanother, inflicting upon their munity is one of many within the gay ¯ body any injury which disfigures their personal appearance or disables any memcommunity just as the gay community is ¯ ber or organ of their body or seriously within the world as a whole. We all are dimini shes their physical vigor. "Premedidifferent and enjoy different aspects of tated design to injure another" does not life, so to discriminate du~to these differmean.that there must be a design to maim ences is no better than the heterosexual person injured in exact way o_r to extent groups which discriminate ag~nst the gay actually I3erpetrated. It is im~aterial by community, i have seen the need for a what means or instrument, or in what colunm discussing the law s and the leather manner the injury was inflicted to constilifestyle in recent months and have pertute maiming. To constitute maiming by sonally dealt with the controversy, fear of disfigurement, the injury must be able to the unknown, and discrimination just last attract observation after healing. If the week. injury can only be seen upon close inspecCommon sense will .help you undertion, then disfigurement is not the case. A stand indecent exposure and obscenity premeditated design to injure, disfigure, as it is illegal for any person to willfully or disable may be formed instantly before and lewdly expose one’s self or any priinflicting the wound as long as it is suffivate parts in any public place, or in any cient to be maiming. place where others are present that are Leathersex is lovemaking. Real offended or annoyed. What this means is leatherpeople do not want to cause harm that showing your genital areas in public to anyone and only participate inleathersex can get you arrested. One should have out of love. Please remember the leather respect for others as common courtesy. If creed when you are playing: "Safe, Sane, one procures, counsels, or assists anyone Consensual, and Fun!" to lewdly expose themselves, or to make any other exhibition of themselves to public view, or to the view of any number of people, which can be seen as offensive to decency, or is adopted to excite vicious or How To Do It lewd thoughts or acts is illegal too. FantaFirst 30 words am $10. Each additional sies, simulated (or no0 production numword is 25 cents. You may bring bers for entertainment, and workshops Ldditional attention to your ad: may take place which most likely have Bold Headline - $1 been publicized with details of the actual Ad in capital letters - $1 event. Once a patron has stepped into the Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 event they have consented to what is takTear sheet mailed - $2 ing place. If they arrive and hav e not heard Blind Post OffiCe Box - $5 about what is taking place, they can exPlease type or print your ad. Count the cuse themselves for that period of time. no. of words. (A word is a group of letters. Fantasies are not presented for inticing or numbers separated by a space.) Send someone togo out and act on while workyour ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa, shops are for educational purposes and to OK 74159 with your name, address, tel. ensure those participants play safe and numbers (for us only). Ads will run in the know what they are doing. next issue after received. TFNreserves the Assault is any willful and unlawful right to edit or refuse any ad. No refunds. attempt or offer with force or violence to Healthy - Discreet seriously harm someone. 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Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, October 15-November 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 11 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource October 15-September 14, 1996 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Mac Guru James Christjohn Phyl Boler-Schmidt Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Steven Scott Gerald Miller Lance Brittain Kerry Lewis Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa(Oklahoma)---newspaper Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/528 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, September 15-October, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 10 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1996 AIDS Quilt arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars bigotry Bill Clinton businesses churches Dave Fleischer David Mixner Defense of Marriage Act Don't Ask Don't Tell Entertainment Notes estate planning Eureka Happenings gay parents gay politicians HIV Resource Consortium (HIVRC) HIV/AIDS and the Law homophobia HOPE Testing insurance James Christjohn Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Kerry Lewis lance brittain Leather Meant to be Fit Mind Space NAMES Project Nancy McDonald Partner Benefits People Living With AIDS performing arts PFLAG Phyl Boler-Schmidt Pride Center RAIN Read All About It representation restaurants S&M schools sexual assault Stephen W. Scott tolerance Tom Neal Tulsa Family News Tulsa Police Department viatication Walk for Life https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fc6ce7fde110868192d3176b1cc77399.jpg 0073f98a3f824930f28fa00cbc9435d7 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/af5f35328c408e87c6986e74ecc57ecf.pdf 142bc4a71e09dc72b5ee60074b261368 PDF Text Text oR.] NDONEBROOKSIDE CENTER OCT. 4TH Sept, 15 - Oct. 14, 1996, vol. 3, no. 10 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities ¯ Officer ’ - ..... about to Bisexual Brookside Rights (TOHR) and foot center open in October. A spokesperson for the organization noted that The Pride Centeris theculminabeen the dream o~" lion of the work of several TOHR boards and longtime many community supporters. Tim Gillean, former president of the organization, was recognizedin particular for his leadership. ’‘This project has been the dream of many but without Tim Gillean, we would not be where we are today," noted pres. Debbie Starnes. The Pride Center will be open to all community orgaStarnes ni zations andindividtmls who share its goals which include ending discrimination and oppression based on sexual orientation. Officials stated that The Pride Center opens with a modest budget and will be supported by individual and organizational mem.berships, as well as by individual pledges. Membership is $20/year for individuals and $35/year for couples. Pledges range from $3-5/month up to $100/month with most at about $15 to $25 Statues added, ’"dais is a way for each and every member of the community to make a difference. We appreciate those individuals who can pledge hundreds but the support of those who can just help with a few dollars a month are equally important. This is a center for all." but without T;m G;llean, [former pres.], ENDA DOMA we would not be where we are today," - Deb Pride Ctr. Pres. WASHINGTON- The U.S. Senate voted on the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), two key pieces of legislation affecting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans. The Senate passed the anitGay DOMA bill, 85-14, as was expected. The Senate then voted 49 to 50 to defeat ENDA. Oklahoma’s senators, Don Nickles and Jim Inhofe, both noted for their hostility to their Lesbian & Gay constituents, voted against ENDA and for DOMA. Nickles was the Senate sponsor of DOMA and Inhofe an original co-sponsor. Tulsa Oklahomans for H~_~man Rights (TOHR) issued a statement strongly condemning their votes, particularly criticizing Inhofe for his refusal to meet with Lesbian and Gay constituents, community leaders or ¯ Gay press. Sen. Nieldes sent a letter to colleagues ¯ calling for a vote against ENDA because it would ¯ "promote sexual promiscuity". He also equated homo- ¯ sexuality and bisexuality with bestiality, pedophilia and adultery, and suggested that local school boards should ¯ be able to fire or not hire staff who express opinions ¯¯ advocating homosexual or bisexual relationships. ¯ The measures had became hopelessly entangled in a series of political moves, counter-moves, and counter- ¯¯ counter-moves. DOMA, which has already cleared a ¯ House vote, would define marriage as a legal commit¯ ment between one man and one woman. The effect would be to deny any federal benefits to married same- : ¯ sex couples. No state currently recognizes such marriages, but a _" Many community organizations have eni dorsed this project. Prime Timers has donated Business Guild, The Black & White Charities, Inc., PFLAG leaders, Bill & Kathy Hinkle and pastors of the churches that reach out to the community support The Pride Center. " Part of the 3,500 s. f. of The Pride Center "i will provide offices for HOPE, HIV Outreach, ¯ $1,000 for The Pride Center and Rainbow Prevention, Education which are the preven¯ tion programs of TOHR. HOPE’s director, ¯ Claudette Peterson, was estatic at finally hay¯ ing adequate space for her staff. The highly " successful programs now have seven staff ¯ members and additional volunteers who can : not fit.into the current spaces near the HIV ¯ Resource Consortium (HIVRC). Peterson ¯ notes, however, that HOPE will continue its : HIV antibody testing program at ’the HIVRC ¯ with which it works closely. ¯ A workroom and a conference room of The ". Pride Center will be available for community ¯ organizations that do not have their own of. rices. The site has adequate parking at the ¯ building which is unusual for Brookside with : even more overflow parking nearby. The Cen¯ ter will be accessible to those with mobility ¯ disabilities. ¯ Additionally, The Pride Center will be home ¯ to The Pride Store. The Pride Store will serve ¯ community needs ranging from greeting cards, ¯ rainbow stickers, flags and other Pride items, ¯ news magazines, t-shirts, etc. Gay business : owner Tom Neal is volunteering as a consult: ant and is donating merchandise from his store ¯ tomfoolery] see Pride Center, page 3 Fellowship Congregational ¯ Community Leader Lost i Welcomes Lesbians & Gays Another Tulsa "mainline" Protestant church has become an offi- case pending in Hawaii see ENDA/DOMA, p. 3 ComingSoon " : ¯ ¯ : : ¯ ." ¯ i ¯ ¯ Safe Haven, RBG Dinner Gay Comedy Jam, IAM Street Carnival, Lesbian Comedian, AIDS Mastery Workshop, Leatherstuff, ¯ Bible + Homosexu, a, lity Study Group, Two Splrlted Mens’ Group + TU/BLGTA ¯ National Coming Out Day ¯ see Community Notes, page 9 : cially welcoming congregation to Lesbians and Gay men. Fellowship Congregational Church joins a number of "open and affirming" churches that are part of the United Church of Christ (UCC) denomination. The leaders of this church of about 200 near 31st and Harvard characterized the year and 1/2 process of becoming a welcoming congregation as both stressful and as exciting. The issue first seemed to rise about 3 or 4 years ago. The church which as a tradition of being involvedin socialjusticeissues realized that they had a certain amount of ignorance about homosexuality. Over the year and 1/2, at a series of events, the congregation had the opporttmity to personalize the issues. A divinity student who had ties to the congregation came back : to preac.h and also came out as Gay. see Fellowship, page 3 Oklahoma’s ’96 Anti-Gay Murders OKLAHOMA CITY- Oklahoma’s Gay community is in shock from repo~tsofabrutalkillingofagaymaninthesmalltownofWoodward, near the Oklahoma Panl~mdle, by two men whom witnesses say later bragged they had ’~ust killed that queer." It is the second vicious antigay murder in the state this year. Police say Albert J. Bixler was apparently beaten to death with a car fire jack and his body dumped inatrashbinby Shannon Lee Jones, 23, and Mark Jones,30. Bothmen live in Woodward but are not related to each other. One witness at an apartment building where the two suspects were staying told police she overheard Shannon Lee Jones say, "The queer son of a bitch got what he deserved." Shannon Jones is being sought by police on murder charges. Mark Jones, 30, is being held on murdei charges. Authorities have also issued amaterial witness warrant for a third man whom they identified as Clifford Green, who sometimes goes by the name of Clifford Beard. Only a week earlier, two Guthrie, Okla., teenagers, identified by police as skinheads, appeared in court in Oklahoma City to face charges of murdering Charles Meers earlier this year. Alexis N. Perryman, 18, and Nicholas J. Karlin, 15, have been charged with brutally beating Meers, stabbing him, shooting him, and then dousing his body and home with gasoline and setting them on fire in an effort to cover up the killing. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " Robert Fitzgerald Renfro, known as RF or just as Renfro, one of Tnlsa’s most respected community leaders and HIV/AIDS educators died at St. Francis Hospital on August 23 after a brief, though severe, illness. A Celebration of Eternal Life was held at ¯ Shiloh Baptist Church with the Rev. Eddie ¯ Cook preaching and the Rev. Melvin Bailey, : host pastor, see Renfro, page 3 INSIDE EDITORIAIJLETrERS/DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P, 6 CALENDAR P. 9 EUREKA HAPPENINGS P. 11 BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT P. 12 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 13 CLASSIFIEDS P. 15 �Opposes School Tax Increase Tulsans who pay property taxes just fax: 583.4615 felt a significant bump this spring, and if POB 4140 the October 8 bond issue passes, we’ 11 get Tulsa, Oklahoma a jolt. Renters, you won’ t escape either74159-0140 .your landlord will have to pass on the cost increase to tenants. But isn’t the bond TuisaNews@aol.com issue for a worthy cause - Tulsa schools? The school district’ s demanding $94.5 million for a district with about half as -" many students as it had 20 years ago. Last ¯ year they said they needed $89 million : from us, but they have "upped the ante" ¯ because they claim buildings have deteby G. Miller, M,A. by Phyl Boler-Schmidt -" riorated that much since last year. Yet Last month I gave some simple advice on dealing with the A number of months ago, I reported on a rather suspicious they have sold two of their 18 unused outside forces in your life. The aim of that little treatise was to get ¯¯ death that occurred here in Eureka Springs. It was a death that properties in the meantime- where are you thinking positively about ways to improve you daily exist- ¯ struck terror in the hearts and minds of many lesbigay cidzens the millions from those? They also claim ence byhandling the external forces you confront This month I because the victim was known to be a Gay man, and he was killed that they need chairs and textbooks, but ¯ want to spend a little time on how to get your personal force into by a teenager who suggested tO police that he did the deed in self." many parents tell me the P.T.A.’s have the positive mode. defense againstacts the description of whichI Would probably ¯ provided those since last year in various This will sound way too simple but the truth usually is simple¯ incite major homophobic responses from the police. It.appeared school~. They made dire predictions, that You can either choose to see your life as positive or negative. You .. at that time that investigation of the.death was being permanently our property taxes would fall if we didn’ t . make that choice every morning of every day, When you head to swept under the rug. "support our schools"- but values are up. work, understand what it is you are doing. If you’ re lucky you go How ever, I am happy to report that the death of Chris Klein will And does each classroom really need teleto a job that challenges and fulfills you, or you are going to a job not go unpunished, or at least untried. Anthony Fleetwood was ¯ communications and a telephone as rewhich permits you to earn a living. The income from that job arrested in August .and charged with 2rid degree homicide, some , quested? I’ think not, We all want our provides the where with all.which allows you to do the things you seven months after the slaying. Bond was set at $30,000, and if schools to be fine ones. But each person want to get enjoyment out of life. So while the job itself may not ¯ the bond is raised, Fleetwood risks losing the services of the has to ask, "What benefit will I see from be the most enjoyable thing in the world, it is the springboard to ," yet another tax hike?" Vote NO Oct. 8. Public Defender appointed by the court. DNA and serum test enjoying the other areas of your life. If you can make that logic results were finally completed and failed to back up Fleetwood’ s - Leah Farish stream work in your favor then you can stop bitchin’ about your story, a story that said, in part, that after polishing off a 12 pack Editor’s note: TFN neither endorses nor see Justice, page .3 job and start making each day mean see Life, page 3 ¯ Opposes this vote. We encourage readers tb consider carefully and to vote. ¯ We applaud those represented by the ¯ letter above [or reaching out to Lesbian ¯ Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities Tulsa Clubs-& Restaurants ¯ and Gay voters. This community is usu579-9593 ¯ ally simply ignored though we are af832-1269 ¯¯ AIDS Walk Tulsa; POB 1071,74101-1071 *Bamboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 583-7314 ¯ fected- as parents, as teachers, as 744-0896 Black & White, InC.-POB 14001,Tulsa74159 *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria ¯ *Bless The Lord... Christian Center, 262To E. 11 628-0594 ¯ homeowners and tenants. In a tight race, 749-1563 *Lola’s, 2630 E.. 15th 583-9780 ¯ minority communities can make a differ*St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 ¯ *B/L/G Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th Pl.. & Florence 834-4234 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan ¯ *CommunityofHopeUnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2rid 585-1800 "~ ence. The writer sees that. The supporters 585-222.1-, *Samson & Delilah, 10 E. Fifth :. of the bond vote have made no effort to 749-0595 ¯ reach out to this community. 585-3405 ~..Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main ... 660-0856- : Dignity/IntegrityrLesbian!Gay Catholics/Episcopal. 298-4648 ¯ *TNT’ s, 2114 S. Memorial Carbon Copy - Full Text 622-1441 ¯ 584-1308. ¯ .*Fmnily of Faith MCC; 5451-E So. Mingo *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd Editors, The Tulsa World 585-3134 ¯¯ *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard 747-7777 ~ *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston Why are we afraid of same-sex mar*Free SpiritWomens Center, call forlocation &info: 587-4669 Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals ¯ Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 "¯ riage? Is it change? Without change, we Dennis C. Arnold, Realtor 7464620 can not grow. Why are we afraid of any*Assoc. in Med.& Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 . Friends in Unity Social Org. (African-American mens group) one or anything that is different from us or ¯ POB 8542, 74101, call c/o TOHR @ 742-2927 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & -Life Insurance 747-9506 : 584 4983 ¯ our views? What would the world be like 250:5034 ¯ Indian Health Care, Save the Nation *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E: 71 if we were all the same? 438:2437, 800-284-2437 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 743-5272 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria ~ Marriageis a commitment between two ¯ 838-1715 592-1521 ¯ ~MCCbfGreaterTulsa, 1623 N:Maplew0od *Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 - ¯ 7494194 ¯ people who love one another. Single-par*I-IiV Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates 748-3111 " ent homes, illegitimate children, abusive :. NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H’-I 1515 S. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 584-7960 : spouses, alcoholism, joblessness and : *Our House, 1114 S. Quaker 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Tim Daniel, Attorney ¯ PFLAG ,POB 52800, 74152 7494901 : multiple marriages are aspects that are .749-3620 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. lSth 587-7674 ¯ tearing the family and marriage apart. *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria ¯ 665-6595 Don Carlton Mitsubishi; 46th & Memorial Please tell me where same-sex marriage 74104 622-3636 ." Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 Don Carlton Honda, 4i41 S.’Memorial." will destroy the institutions of marriage 7494195 : *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 838-8503 *Elite Books. & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 665-5174 _. and family. And is it wrong for a married 743-9994 .~ Rainbow B, usiness Guild, POB 4106, 74159 " Express Pools & Spas, 6310 S..Peoria 646-7116 ¯ couple not to have children and go against "" St.Jerome s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 690-2974 Foxlinx, Computer-Consultationthe marriage is for.pro-creation theory? 749-7898 744-0102 ," .~Shand Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services Leanne M. Gross, Financial Planning : Heterosexual couples enjoy the right to ¯ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) ¯ tax breaks, spousal benefits, and hospital *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 7434297 ¯ POB 52729, 74152 .584-4606 Imaginations, Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria visitations. Same-sexcouples donot. Isn’ t 584-1308 ! Technicians, 1338 E. 3rd 341-6866 *International Tours ¯ T.U.L.S:A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 ." this discrimination? Have we forgotten 621-5597 JD Images, Photography ~ about the Constitution? Doesn’t it give ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor 599-8070 Kerfs Flowers, 1635 E. 15 ¯ every American the same basic rights? 747-5466 ¯ *Tulsa Community College, Metro & NE Campuses Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 ." When will the politicians realize they : *University Center at Tulsa 742-1992 Loup-Garou, 2747 E. 15 ." are not supporting every American? When 671-2010 : EUREKA SPRINGS Lean Ann Macomber, Realtor Associate ¯ will they realize they are teaching hate ¯ 584-311-2 501-253-7734 ~ and discrimination? Where is the love *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 Autumn Breeze Restaurant, Hwy 23 South 663-5934 ¯ Beaver Dam Store, 1/2 mi.N, of Dam Hwy. 187 501-253-6154 ¯ they supposedlyhavefor Americaandit’ s Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31st 664-2951 501-253-7457 ¯ people?Whyhas the government decided *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Pl : *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 747-6711 ¯ DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 ¯ it should dictate what our morals will be *Novel Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard ¯ 747-7672 501-253-5445 ¯ and how we will define marriage and *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 838-7626 ¯ Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 Puppy Pause II, 1 lth & Mingo 501-253-2776 ¯ family? 584-0337 : King’sHi-Way,96KingsHighway,Hwy.62W 800-231-1442 ." *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston We are all human beings. The hatred 749-6301 ¯ MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 ¯ and discriminationhas to stop. I urge each *Scribner’ s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square ¯ ¯ 501-253-9682 Scott Robison’ s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations 743-2351 McClung Realtors of you to please look deep into your soles 747-3322 ¯ Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-253-2401 ¯ and bring out the love God intended us to Southwest Viatical 742-8868 ¯ Rock Cottage Gardens 501-253-8659 800-624-6646 ¯ share with one another and bury the hate. Thomas Chiropractic, 4138 S. Harvard, Ste C-1 493-1959 Kellie J. Watts, attorney 501-253-6001 ¯ America will be a much better place. Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 743:1733 ¯ The Woods, 50 Wall St. 501-253-8281 " Fred Welch, LCSW; Counseling - Lance Brittain. Collinsville 918.583.1248 Publisher + Editor, Tom Neal Asst. Editor + Mac Guru, James Christjohn, Writers + contributors: Phyl Boler-Schmidt, Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leanne Gross Steven Scott Gerald Miller, Lance Brittain Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the punisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. �something in terms of what else it is you want to ¯ accomplish. " The same thing is true of your personal rdationship. If you spend all your time finding fault with ", your companion, then each day will be a trial. If on ¯ the other hand you recognize what good things come from the relationship, and understand how " important that contributionis,thenyour daily inter- " action will become more positive and enjoyable. : Don’t forget the reverse of that statement is also ¯ "_ true. If you are doing some trivial thing which ¯ : obviously makes your co.mpanion nuts, quit doing it! Making a concession m a triviality is nothing ¯ compared.to slowly poisoning a rdationship over ¯ sbmething which is probably of little meaning to " Organizers and featured speaker at the recent fundraisin~g you anyway. dinner are: Martin Newman, Mark Goldman, and [3ill Stoskopf Sit down in a quiet moment and start looking at of Black & White Charities, Nancy McDonald, of PFLAG, your reactions to the things you experience each speaker Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human day. If you are spending most of your time being Rights Campaign, Kristie Suttee, Steve Wright, and Mark angry or upset or unhappy, figure out why. Is it that Wright, also of Black & White Charities. someone is purposefully trying to make your life This year PFLAG beganits SWAN awards to recognize those miserable, or are you doing it to yourself? There in Tulsa who have stood up for fairness and for justice. The was a time when the slightest suggestion that I was recipients are the Rev. Russell Bennett, pastor of Fellowship not competent enough, or smarL or clever or handCongregational Church. His congregation has recently become some or whatever would send me into a black funk. an officially wdcoming one for Lesbians and Gay men. Eddie Finally I ~at down and took stock of what was rea~_ly Faye Gates, a wall respected educator &writer is honored for going on. her leadership on the Human Rights Commission. Dennis Neill, No I am not the smartest person in the world, but an attorney, also served on the Human Rights Commission and I’m smart enough: Yes there are some things at with the ACLU and was founding president of TOHR. Lisa which I am totally incompetent. No, I am not the Pottorf of Youth Services was recognized for her heroic work most handsome person, but then neither am I Franwith and for Lesbian and Gay young adults. Sharon Thoele, kenstein. What I lack in smarts, I make up for in director of the HIV Resource Consortium, is known for her common sense. What I am incompetent at, I make commitment to HIV/AIDS issues & THE NAMES PROJECT. up for by being very competent in other areas. While I may not be Porno Star material, I have an excellent dry wit! Make your own inveiitory of all the positive things about yourself and recognize that everyone is deficient in some area. is expected to lead to the legalization of gay marriages in that You don’t have to become a Saint, but if you will state in the next year or two. Civil libertarians have argued that start to be reasonable about who and what you really are and quit trying to be something else, then " DOMA is highly questionable because marriage has always life gets much less complicated and much more : been a state issue that Congress has never before touched. The fun. Better than that, you will begin to feel better ¯ Constitution’s "full faith and credit" clause makes it questionabout yourself and life in general. Then you can ¯¯ able whether federal legislation can impose such restrictions. Activists and several members of Congress were quick to start doing the things in your everyday world which ¯ criticize DOMA as election-year political maneuveringaimed actually make things better for yourself and others ¯ at embarrassing President Clinton, noting that one of the origiaround you. Now here is the biggest secret about how to make ¯ hal Senate co-sponsors of the measure was Bob Dole, the : Republican presidential candidate. Clinton drew fire from your life more fulfilling and enjoyable. Learn to say, ’I was wrong!, sorry. My mistake, sorry!" : rights activists when he quickly said he would sign DOMA - at When you screw up,just admit you screwed UP and ¯ least as it was introducedin the House earlier this year. But since get down to work correcting the screw up. Fixin.g a : then, the measure has gone through several changes in the form mistake is much less time and energy consmmng : of a bewildering set of amendments. The capper in all this, of than trying to cover up that you made a mistake. ¯ course, was ENDA, the anti-discrimination amendment that Admit that everyone screws up from time to time. ¯ was supposed to be tacked on to DOMA by Seas. Edward M. Quit trying to cover up your mistake, or bludgeon : Kennedy (D-Mass.), James Jeffords (R-Vt.), and Joseph someone rise for their mistake. If you fall into the : Lieberman (D-Conn.). Inan 1 lth-hour mm of events, Senate Majority Leader Trent trap of the one-upmanship game, you will regret it ¯ ¯ Lott of Mississippi announced that ENDA would be voted on in the end. There is nothing hard about finding the enjoy- : separately from DOMA. The eomplex political mish-mash the meat in Life. It is only when.we set unreasonable : Republicans and Democrats had made of DOMA and ENDA expectations of ourselves and others that we make ¯ had created so many objections from both sides of the aisle that life hard. I had some very wise people try to get this : Lott moved to extricate the two measures from each other. Richard Tafel, executive director of Log Cabin Republicans across to me years ago, but I couldn’t grasp the ¯ concept then~ Perhaps it is only with lime that we ¯ noted of the close vote on ENDA, "I’his sends the message that come to these realizations. Or maybe it’s because : the 105th Congress will be ready to pass some form of nonwe are so ego-centered that we can’t see the simple : discriminationlaw to protectgays andlesbians." said. ’q’he real truths in front of us. I don’t know, maybe I’m not ¯ surprise is we now have 8 Republicans who support ending smart enough to figure that one out. But I have : discnnnnalaonagamstgays m the workplace. We rebegium g figured out how to be more positive about myself, ¯ to see what happens when the gay community works with both about my place in the word and about how to get : parties. I’m sure we can bring on more Republicans in the next the most out of enjoying the word as it exists ¯ Congress, we had a couple on the fence on this vote. This vote ¯ proves working with Republicans instead of writing them off around me. I remember a short quote from a 19th Century ¯ benefits the entire gay and lesbian community." Melinda Paras, executive director, National Gay and Lesbian American poet, possibly Stephen Crane or Stephen ¯ ¯ Task Force commented, ’~foday is a historic moment for Foster, I could be wrong about the name. I may have the exact quote a little wrong, but don’t miss ¯ lesbian and gay people, despite the outcome of the Senate votes. the point. A man said to the Universe, "Sir I exist." : In spite of the intolerance of many Republican and Democrat and the Universe replied, "Sir, that fact does not _" lawmakers, we know wehave finally broken the legislative log; jam that has blocked Congress from even discussing our civil create m me a sense of Obllgatton . Your exlsten is up to you to make of it something. You can make ¯ rights in aserious manner. We know we will have tolose a few votes.before we win the battle. We lost ENDA by only two it negative, combative and endlessly hard, or you votes. We know that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender can make it something else. What you make it is up ¯ equal rights have taken center stage in American politics, and to you. Copyright © 1996 Gerald Miller ¯ we can never go back to the days of silence." i That business successfully served the community for two years from a space leased from The Silver Star. The Pride Store will-benefit The Pride Center and HOPE prevention programs~ Director Peterson anticipates that the Store will be staffed by volunteers but that The Pride Store possibly also may be able to provide appropriate work opportunties for persons living with HIV/AIDS. Other office space will be available for seminars, video showings and exhibits. While not all details have been resolved, it’s hoped that part of the space can be used for Lesbian and Gay young adults who have few other safe places to go. Pride Center organizers note that volunteers are needed for clean-up, painting, minor repairs to get the Center ready to open. Later, those with strong backs and a few vans and pick-up trucks will be asked to help move the prevention program offices. To volunteer or for more infolmation, call 743-GAYS (743-4297). Renfro was a founder and leader of FUSO, Friends in Unity Social Organization, Inc. a non-profit that seeks to educate African-American men of diverse sexual orientation about HIV/AIDS. He also served with many groups, including Tulsa AIDS Walk, AIDS Coalition, TOHR, the Community Planning Group, Tulsa Pride Picnic and more. He was an ordained minister, active in his congregation, Bless the Lord at All Times Christian Center. Friends and family expressed shock and sorrow at his sudden death. Most did not know RF had been living with HIV/AIDS for 10 years. Donations in honor of his memory may be made to FUSO, c/o TOHR, POB 2687, 74101. At other events, they had the chance to meet parents of Lesbians and Gays. The task force for this issue lauded the leadership of their pastor, Russell Bennett. They praised, in particular, his balancing the need to push the church forward but without getting too far ahead of it as wall. The group noted also that Pastor Bennett had performed, with their knowledge, a couple of holy unions, or blessings of same gender couples. The United Church of Christ is the only mainline Protestant denomination that ordains openly Lesbian and Gay persons as amatter of policy, and therefore should be expected to be friendly to Lesbians and Gay men. However, in the Congregationalist tradition, it is up to the individual congregations to implement these policies and to call individuals to ministry. Fellowship is the only UCC church in Tulsa though there are some others in the staie_. Some members of Fellowship Congregational asked why it was necessary to adopt an official policy of being open and affirming since they felt that that was what they’d practiced all along. Other noted that in these days when politics and religion are so mixed togeth,, r, that their congregation needed to stand up and be counted. That is since so many ugly thingswere being presented in the name of religion, they hope to counter that ugliness. They hope that their actions will inspire others to have the courage to do something similar. Services are at 10:30 am. Info: 747-7777 of beer with Klein and falling asleep on the couch, Fleetwood awoke to find Klein ejaculating on his face and tee shirt. This was his motivation, he said, for pointing a .410 shotgun at Klein’s face and pulling the trigger. Tests showed that sperm found on Fleetwood’s tee shirt, confiscated the night of Klein’s violent death, "...could not have been that of the victim but instead was consistent with the blood" of Fleetwood. Newly appointed Eureka Springs Police Chief Earl Hyatt was aninvestigator with the Carroll County Sheriff’ s Office at the time of the slaying and worked with Eureka Springs Investigator Morris Pate at the crime scene. If convicted, Fleetwood faces a five- to 20-year prison term for the Class B felony. �Lesbian Loses hav~ been discriminated against. Law- ¯ "Or will our gift to them be ever-narrowyers for the state and attorneys for the " ing horizons of thought and speech?" three lesbian couples who filed a lawsuit ] on the issue say they believe the ruling ~s ¯ TALLAHASSEE, Fla. (Aug. 30) - The MEDFORD, Ore, (Aug. 20)- Rol~rt J. the first of its kind in the nation. Florida Court of Appeals has upheld a ¯ Acrement, the California man who is State Rep. George Eighmey, who is " lower court ruling that ordered Cassey charged with the December 1995 execu: ¯ gay, praised the decision, saying "it’s a SANTA ANA,~ Calif. (Sept. 5) - At a tion-style killings of lesbian activists ¯ Ward, age 12, removed from the home of ¯ big step in the fight direction." But Lon " public hearing, the state department of Mary Ward,~her lesbian morn, and handed Roxanne Ellis and Michelle Ab’dill, told "¯ ¯ Mabon, the leader of the anti-gay-fights " social services listened to testimony on over to the custody of her father, John ¯ the San Francisco Chronicle in a prison : group the Oregon Citizens Alliance ira- ¯ Tire 22, a proposed regulation that would Ward. interview that he killed the two women ¯ mediately said the judge is "flat Out prorecommend adoptions in California only . The father called the court .ruling a because they were lesbians, not in a homosexual" and was trying to destroy for married coul~les. Despite the ob_vio.us "victory for my daughter and every other botched robbery attempt as he had first child in this nation ffho may be faced with ¯ the notion of family. The state has 30 days ¯ restrictions on gay and lesbian couples the claimed. to decide whether to appeal. proposed regulation would impose, state ~ being raised in a household in whichho¯ Acrement also sent aletter to the StockOfficials denied it was anti-gay. "We’re ¯ mosexual role modeling distorts.and perton (Calif.) Record telling the paper in the not talking about sexual orientation," said " verts, or is like to distort or pervert,.socicity where he was arrested that he had Janice Ploeger of the state health and ¯ etal norms that have been established and earlier in the year killed Scott George ¯ welfare departme.n,t. "This has to do with recognized from the beginning of eivilibecause the man had made a sexual pass at ¯ : -WASHINGTON.(Sept. 4).-According to marriage andwhat s in the best interest of zation." him. In his letter, Aerement, 27, said he ¯ had invented the robbery .motive in the ~ : Mr: Ward was convicted of killing his ¯ the 14tk annual report on school, censor- " the child." But rights advocates strongly disagreed. slayings Of Ellis arid Abdilli who were ¯ fir~twffein 1974;firing.12bullets,during ¯ ship; People for the American Way says Tara Rose,31, testified at the hearings on ,f,_0und shot througla tile head, b~.cau~e he : aright over their daughter. He-pleaded ¯ there were a record 475 attempts last year the regulations that she was raised by two ¯ was nervtus about inmate reacti0n~ to. : guiity to.sec0nd degree~urd~r an~] ~erved ¯ to restrict books, classes or educational " mothers’, but adoption was impossible proced_ures that opponents claimed were ¯ my reason fbrkilling~’ whiehhe said was - ¯ .eightlyears.in.prison. - ~ . .. ~ . while she wasgrowing up and she sees the a "hate crime." i ~ ,= ~ ~ " The~thr~e-judge appeals_ panel ins~stexl .. too sexually explicit, too violent,too raregulation as abig step backward in CallAcrem~nt wen’t ori in th~ letter to say, " that its =decigionwasn"t based on mother ciM,. anti-religious,, an,ti-family, ¯ Mary Ward’s- sexual, orientation, but on ¯ .unAmerican. ~ or all these things. - fornia. "ff we’re talking about-marriages however, that now he doesn tcare wha ¯ ¯ the"best interes~ts of thelchild ’: Activists . A~cording to.the report, the things~b- -. only.that’s one issue/’ said Rose. "But .anyone thinks - :inclbdingthe’ji~ that this is’ discriminating agaiast gay and les: -were quick ’.to point ,out,-howe~er, that Will decid,,e his-fate~ "They can kilt me for- ] Judge Joseph Tarbuck, whosetower court ¯ jected, to last year ranged from accep.ted ¯ bian parents." classics inliterature to Halloween partles. ¯ all !care,. the letter:s~y~i ":/i" :) The new rule could go into effect next ¯ ruli~gwas beittg revie~ved by the appeals " _In-.41% .of the,cases, .th6 rep0rt~ .says, :. cour~,.clearly istated in hivcustody deci- : -school officials bowed to Objections and -- October around the time partners Lisa sion.that he wanted the gift taken fromher ¯ rembved matelials or restricted activities. "" Pratt and Julie Thompson .will be adopt. " .morn and handed over to her i convicted- ¯ The" report, "Attacks on the Freedom to, "¯ ing a second child, six-month-old Katy. ¯ kiil~r dad to give bet a chance to live in."a They told the hearing that they’re con¯¯ _ Learn~" cites-conservative Christians mid HOUSTON (Aug: 29) = After deliberat- ¯ non-lesbian world.’" especially members of the Christian Coa- - cerned the child won’t get the same benJohn~ .Ward ctiallenged the mother’s ¯ lition as chief objectors in mostof the " efits as. their daughter Elizabeth. Even if ing fortess than 3 hours; a jury has found ¯ the regulation goes into effect, the final Daniel C. Bean, 19, guilty.of the January ¯ custody after.she applied for anii~crease ¯ . cases it reported on. 4 kilting of Frederick Mangi0n~ merry ¯ in child support. Attorneys representing California, which has the largest num- ¯ decision will be made by thejudgein each because he was gay.~Bean, who pblice MrS. Ward have Said slle Will pr~obably " ber of public school students of any state ¯ adoption case, state officials say. There ¯ said belongs to a neo-Nazi group known appeal the ruling to the state supreme ¯¯ in the country, also led in the number of ¯ were some6,000 adoptions in the state in 1995 according to state officials, and about as the German Peace Corps in Washing- ¯ court. ¯ attempts to restrict materials or classes, a fourtli of them were by single parents, ton state, was found guiltt of stabbing with 56 incidents reported by the group. ¯ ¯ straight and gay. Mangione 35 times with a large knife Carole Shields, president of People for outside a suburban bar where they met. ¯ . the American Way, noted that many of the Evidence given during the trial indicated ¯ school.materials objected to mirrored hathat Bean and his stepbrother, Ronald H. ¯. tional debates on issues, such as racism PORTLAND, Ore. (Aug. 9) - An Oregon Gauthier, 21, both bragged to patrons in poverty, homosexuality, crime, drug and the bar that they were going to assault ". state judge has given the gay rights movealcohol abuse, and AIDS. someone who was gay. Police also told ¯ ment a surprising victory in partnership : "We must analyze this report and de- : SAN FRANCISCO (Aug. 12) - The San the court that the two men later boasted of ¯ benefits. The judge has ruled that Oregon " cide as a nation: Will we bequeath to our ¯ Francisco board of supervisors voted must offer insurance benefits to gay do- ¯ children the tools and information they brutally stabbing Mangione. Bean faces a : unanimously to lay out $1.2 million in maximum life sentence for the killing. ¯ mestic partners of state employees. In ¯ need to address these complex issues as ~ city funds to buy property for a 5-story issuing the ruling, the judge said it was ¯ they growinto adulthood?" Shields asked. Gauthier is still awaiting trail. ¯ proposed Lesbian & Gay Center. The ~ "beyond debate" that gays and lesbians Lesbians’ Killer: It" Was ’Hate Crime’¯ Child to Killer Dad California to Ban Gay Adoptions? ¯ SchOol Censorship i=. EffortsContinue : Neo-Nazi" -Judged Guilty of Murder ¯ D.P.’ Benefits Come ¯ From Court Ruling :City OK’s $1.2 m for Gay Center P AlrERSON REALTORS~ LEA ANN MACOMBER MCC of Greater Tulsa Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 "Where God Uplifts All People" 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa. Oklahoma 74114 Off: 918-749-8374 ¯ Res: 918-582-7672 ¯ Fax: 918-747-1795 Community Cleaning A Residential and Commerical Cleaning Service Kerby B aker (918) 622- 0700 Call for Free Estimate 1623 N. Maplewood Tulsa, Oklahoma 838-1715 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY 4649 South Peoria 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5, Mon. - Fri. �board approved the funds to purchase a ¯ rambling Victorian house in the city that : center backers will renovate to house the ¯ community facility. Total costs for the . proposed center, which is planned to hav e ¯ a book store, gift shop, meeting rooms, :¯ and a 200-seat auditorium, are expected ¯ to run about $7.3 million. The religious group charged that Disney had abandoned its "commitment to strong moral values" and was promoting gaythemed books and films. Walt Disney Company officials declined to comment on the group’ s call for a boycott. Earlier this year, the Southern Baptist Convention called for a boycott of Disney be- ¯ cause the firm has recently extended do- City Distributing Inc. River City Distributing was targeted for the boycott, bar owners and activists said, because of Mrs. Shedd’s involvement in Kentucky’s Eagle Forum, the anti-gay group headed by Phyllis Schlafly. They also noted that Mrs. Shedd served on the state Republican Party’s executive committee the year before when it unanimously passed a resolution in favor of reeriminalizing homosexuality in the state. In addition to the popular bars and res¯ taurants involved in the protest, the boy: cott was also being supported by DENVER (Aug. 28) - Will Perkins, the Kentucky’s Fairness Campaign, the Proused-car dealer and head of Colorado for . Choice Coalition, the Metropolitan ComFamily Values which backed the state’s munity Church and the Louisville Chapter unconstitutional Amendment 2, told : of Parents-Friends of Lesbians and Gays. Denver’s city council that they shouldn’t ¯ Organizers said at the time that the extend health benefits to the partners of , boycott could cost the distribution comgay and lesbian city workers, calling the pany as much as $15,000 per week in lost move an "economic jihad." ¯ sales. Just months after the River City Perkins brought with him Paul Cameron, ¯ boycott was announced, Miller Brewing the discredited psychologist who was re- : severed its relationship with Shedd, who moved from the American Psychological ¯ has also sued Miller. The boycott itself Assn. for fudging statistical data. Even so, ¯ was ended earlier this year after the orgaCameron insisted studies he did using : nizers declared it had been a success. obituaries indicates gay~ and lesbians are : Now the Shedd family has filed a widehigh health and violence risks. ¯ ranging suit, charging the bars, restauA spokesperson for Equality Colorado, rants, and organizations with conspiracy, a gay rights organization, said Perkins’ interference with contractual relations, group is a "fringe anti-gay organization" criminal harassment, defamation of charand said Cameron offers nothing but ’*ooacter, and other aetious that the family is gus anti-gay statistics." The council will seeking unspecified damages for. take up the question in a vote in September. ’tion to its anti-bias protections, the council has now voted by 6-1 to undertake the issue once again. The council voted to create a committee of 3 council members and 10 city residents to discuss including sexual orientation in its anti-bias protections and to report back to the council. Anti-Gay CO Org. Opposes Partners’ i Health Benefits Calif. County OKs ". mestiClesbian workers.Partnerbenefits to its gay and Dom. Partnerships Intel Offers Benefits SAN JOSE, Calif. (Aug. 14) - Following a tense, prolonged and sharply divided : SANTA CLARA, Calif. (Aug. 16)- Intel late-night debate, the Santa Clara County ¯ Corporation, the computer chipmanufacboard of supervisors refused to bow to : turer whose Pentium processors run railorganized conservative religious opposi- ¯¯ lions of computers throughout the world, ’tion andunanimously approved setting up has announced that starting in 1997 the a county-wide domestic partners registry. : same-sex parmers of its workers in this Religious opponents lined up to speak : country will be eligible for the same mediout against the proposed registry during ¯ cal, dental and other employees benefits the nearly 6 hours of public testimony, : that the spouses of its workers have access charging that it would undermine the tra- : to through the giant computer firm. ditional family, and said immediately af- ¯¯ The company said it had jbined with ter the board vote that they would launch ¯ scores of other U.S. high-tech firms in a petition drive to put the issue before the extending thebenefits package to thepartvoters this November. Nearly 2,000 people : hers of its gay andlesbian workers to help attended the packed board chambers, an ¯ "attract top talent and retain key performadjoining auditorium, and spilled onto the " ers" in the very competitive industry. sidewalks outside the county government building. Santa Clara County, with some 1.4 million residents, is the home of many high- : DURHAM, N.C. (Aug. 24) - The Washteclmology firms that already extend ben- " ington, D.C.-based lobbying group Huefits to the same-sex partners of their ¯ man Rights Campaign has launched a employees. Approval of the measure : campaign in North Carolina to persuade makes Santa Clara County the largest ¯ undecided voters in the state’ s U.S. Sengovernment entity in the state to OK a ." ate race this November to dump Jesse parmership registry. "" : Helms. HRC says it will be operating phonebanks and direct mail campaigns to convince swing voters in the state to vote ¯ : ¯ ¯ " ¯ : ¯ ¯ i HRC Fights Helms Lawsuit. Follows " PBS/NPR Extend "Partner Benefits ¯ Sucessful Boycott : WASHINGTON(Aug.20)-Without.any : ¯ : : " lently anti-gay member of Congress. HRC ¯ xs expecting to spend some $220,000 on : though it’ s best known for its wholesome " the anti-Helms campaign in North Carofamily films like Aladdin, the Walt Disney ¯ lina. ¯ Company is facing another threatened : ¯ boycott by a conservative religious orga- . nization. : The Assemblies ofGodis urgingits 2.5 : million members to stop going to Disney ¯ films, buying Disney products and going " SAUGATUCK, Mich. (Aug. 26)-Months to the company’s popular theme parks. ¯ after the city council tabled a proposed ordinance that would add sexual orienta- 2nd Church Calls ! for Disnev BOVe_ott Town Reconsiders Rights Measure ....... Clinton laas ~,o~a,~athe ~.,,,¢;to to Administration the same-sex oart LOUISVILLE, Ky. ~Aug. ~u)-Aecord- :" fanfare, ing to a report in The Letter, a Kentucky ¯ ~_.~?,,~;.~’~ o,,.~,,,,,~ ...........~-,-~--~:----~..... :y~,~_,,_.,,n~ v,~v~.,.m~- ,~yu,,~,,, : casting Svstem(PBS) and National Pubthe state s most prominent conservauves . licRa~io~NPR),thefirstfedemllyfunded has filed a massive and complex lawsuit ¯ agencies to offer such benefits. againstnearly every gay andlesbianbusiDonald Wildmon, president of the far¯ hess and organization in the Louisville right anti-gay American Family Assn., area over a 1995 boycott launched against : immediately denounced the move by the a firm co-owned by the family with the : two public broadcasters as a "misuse of Miller Brewing Company of Milwaukee. ¯ tax money". "Bill Clintonis willing to use Nine local gay bars and restaurants ." tax dollars to support the radical homolaunched the boycott in August 1995 be- . sexual agenda and promote homosexual cause of what activists called the "right Wildmon said in a press statewing activities"of Donna Shedd, whose ¯. marriage," ment condemning the PBS-NPR move. husband David was president of River St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical Church "QUALITY WORK UNBELIEVABLE PRICE" meeting at 7fie Garden Chapel FOR APPOINTMENT 384J S. Teoria if" "flu[so., Oklaf/unna ~fass Saturday eveni~s at 6pro ¯ OUICK SERVE 743-7141 ¯ PATIO BAR 7he ~,v. :Talfier Rick Ho~ngsworth, Pastor Ehe :Xev. Deacon Debbie Starnes (918) 742-6227 Traci.Huntsman Owner 3225 S. Yale Tulsa, OK 74135 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation Sun. 9:15 am Christian Education ¯ Sun. Service 11:00 am Wed. Service 6:30 pm ¯ Wed. 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group Rev. Nancy J. Horvath M. Div., Pastor 4021 South Harvard, Suite 210, Tulsa 74135 To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly zoith our God... Micah 6:8 747-5466 5451-E South ~ 74146 " (918) 622-144~ �HIV May Be Eliminated CHICAGO (Aug. 10) - A report in the Journal of Infectious Diseases suggests that HIV could eventually be "flushed out" of its hiding places in the body’s lymph nodes] Researchers at the Chalucet Hospital in France reported that after intensive treatment with antiviral drugs, the amount of HIV identified in blood and lymph nodes of patients had decreased significantly. The French scientists said that ff HIV replication in the body can be halted entirely through medical therapies, they believe infected lymph .node and other body cells will eventually be replaced by new, uninfected cells. The finding, if substantiated by other research, could be important because one concern AIDS experts have expressed recently is that even with powerful new anti-HIV drugs that appear to dramatically reduce infection, continual drug treatment might be needed if the virus cannot be entirdy eliminated from the body.. HIV Infects More Blood Cells LONDON (Sept. 6) -According to a report in the medical journal Lancet, researchers at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland have confirmed that a second set of blood cells - CD8 cells - is also vulnerable to infection by HIV and may play a crucial role in how the virus develops. It has for some time been know that HIV progressivdy destroys CD4 T-lymphocytes, the cells that the body produces to fight off infections. But scientists had previously believed that CD8 cells were immune from HIV infection,,,possibly because of structural differences in the cell itself. The Scottish researchers re¯-,~r+ however, that 5 of 16 people with AIDS that they studied had CD8 cells infected with HIV at high levels. The researchers said the next step is to discover whether the virus destroys the body’ s CD8 cells or simply invades them until they become active later. British Rights Group Wants Aversion Therapy Ended in UK LONDON (Aug. 9) -The British say rights organization OutRage has formally asked the Royal College of Psychiatrists and the Home Ministry’s health secretary to issue guidelines barfing the use of aversion therapy, to set up a board of inquiry into how extensive the treatment has been and continues to be as an attempt to "cure" homosexuals, and to offer a public apology and compensation for individuals who have been harmed by such treatment, either physically or psychologically. The continuing use of aversion therapy, often involving electro-shock treatment and psychrtropic drugs, was the recent subject of a BBC-TV program and shocked many in the country who were unaware that such attempts to "cure" homosexuals were still being used, at least occasionally. In a letter to the health secretary, OutRage called the government sanctioned use of aversion therapy "scandalous" and "barbari c pseudo-medi cine" that had "caused untold suffering and harm to ual~own numbers of gay and bisexual people." Twins Studies Suggests Genetic Factors in Sexual Orientation TORONTO (Aug. 12) - Researchers reported at the annual convention of the American Psychological Assn. that a new, large-scale study of twins in Australia adds further suggestive indications that sexual orientation among gay men is in fact a hereditary factor, although it failed to find a similar pattern among lesbians. The findings were based on a study of some 4,500 sets of twins, fraternal and identical, in Australia. Lead researcher Dr. J. Michael Bailey of Northwestern University reported that about 20% of the twins studied identified their sexual orientation as other than "strictly heterosexual." Of the 312 sets of men who were identical twins, who are formed from a single egg, nearly half had the same sextml orientations. Among fraternal twins, who are from 2 separate fertilized eggs, having the same sexual orientation was significantly less likely, Bailey reported, saying that the f’mdings were "consistent with the idea that there is a male gene for sexual orientation." Although the study was one of the few that have included women, the researchers reported that they could not find enough identical twin lesbian sisters to indicate a statistical relationship between possible genetic factors and lesbianism. Oral Sex Riskier Than Previously Believed PHILADELPHIA (Aug. 14) - According to a study published in the Annals of Internal Medicine, University of Washington researcher Timothy Schacker reports that even people who are engaging in lower-risk sexual behavior are continuing to become infected with HIV. The 3year study of 46 people found that while nearly half had had sex with just 1 partner during the month prior to infection, oral sex, which has been generally considered lower risk for transmission, was the most common form of sexual contact among the patients in the research. Schacker and his ~olleagues in fact were abi~ ~6 ;~3,~’~[~.cally pinpoint 4 cases in which oral sex was the only possible route of transmission. The report is the 2nd recently to indicate that oral sex appears to be a higher-risk behavior than has been previous believed. NJ Offers 3 Protease Inhibitors Free TRENTON, N.J. (Sept. 4) - New Jersey state health officials have announced that the state will make3 important new AIDS drugs available without charge to patients who earn lessthan $30,000 a year and are either tmiusured or do not have policies that will cover the costs of the new drugs. The drugs include 3 of the new protease inhibitors: saquinavir (Invirase by Hoffmann-LaRoche),indinavir (Crixivan by Merck & "Co.), and 3TC (Epivir by Glaxo Wellcome). The drugs have been shown to be able to reduce detectable levels of HIV dramatically in many people infected with the virus. State health officials warned, however, that if demand for the new drugs outstrips the state’s ability to underwrite the giveaway program, some restrictions - such as co-payments or deductibles - may be added later. The free rug plan is being paid for from the state’ s 9 million AIDS Drug Distribution Program. About 1,700 state residents currently get AIDS drugs without cost through the program. ~ More Women Being Tested ATLANTA (Aug. 3 i)-The federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that the number of women in the U.S. who are being tested for HIV has been rising dramatically for the past few years. Between 1991 and 1993, the CDC reports, the percentage of women 18 to 44 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct .insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 582-7144 Utica Sq uare Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 �~,ears of age who had been tested for the virus increased some 60% overall. The agency reported that a 1993 survey of more than 6,000 women indicated that 31.8% said they had been tested. A similar surveyin 1991 of 13,000 women found .that just 18.8% said they had been tested at the time. Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehensiv e Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - if you belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, TulsaF/4114 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 Art Show & Sale 10 am- 7 pm, Sept¯ 28 & 29 0 UR HO USE 1114 South Quaker Everyone is welcome to come and enjoy beautiful works donated by local and nationally recognized artists to help friends living with HIV/AIDS. All proceeds from the sale go to helping our friends living with HIV/AIDS. For further information, call 665"-1339 / herry Street Psychotherapy Associates N 1515 S. Lewis (918)-743-4117 Serving a Diverse Community : ¯ ¯ ’Playboy’ Surveys College Students Attitudes on AIDS CHICAGO (Aug. 25)- A Haybo.y maga: zine survey reports that 9 out of 10 college ¯ students are sexually active, that sligh.tly : more than half say their sexual behavior : wouldn’t change if the AIDS epidemic : disappeared, and that just over a third say ¯ they’ve been tested for HIV. HIV Programs Widespread in : The survey, published in the October Schools, but Often Don’t : issue of the magazine, reports that 66% of ¯ women and 49% of men in the more than Teach About Condoms ATLANTA (Sept. 5) - According to a ¯. 1,000 students surveyed say they wouldn’t survey by the federal Centers for Disease : change their sex lives much if the epiControl and Prevention, some 85% of the : demic wasn’t a factor. The magazine also nation’s public middle and high schools ¯ reports that 39% of the males and 35% of teach required HIV prevention classes in : the females in the survey said they had 39 states plus the District of Columbia. ¯ been tested for HIV, and that 27% of the That’s the goodnews from the CDC study. : men and 19% of the women said they The less-than-good news was that only ¯ knew someone with the disease. Some about 61% of the school districts provided : 63% of the males and 79% of the females in-service training for teachers; about 54% : surveyed also said they believe their said they taught students the "basic facts ¯ chances of contracting HIV/AIDS was about HIV/AIDS"; only about a third of ". either unlikely or barely likely. The surall the teachers involved in school AIDS :¯ vey also reported that 57% of men and 71% of women said they had only one education programs said they had any training about HIV prevention during the ¯¯ sexual partner during the previous year. The magazine also found that condom 2-year period before the survey; and only ¯ 37.1% of the instructors said they taught ¯ use appears very highly corrdated with a steady relationship. While 41% of the their students the "correct use of ¯ males and 54% of the females reported condoms." In issuing the report, the CDC said one : being in a steady, monogamous rdationobvious and important area that needs ¯ ship,40% of these students also said they improving in the country’s HIV/AIDS : do not use condoms. Only 6% of the school education programs is increasing ¯¯ students surveyed who are not in a toonogamous relationship said they don’t the percentage of teachers who both teach preventionin health education classes and : use condoms. who regularly receive in-service training Psychologists Delve Further on the subject. : into Sex & Biology ¯" Younger Inner-City Women at TORONTO (Aug. 13)-Dr. James Dabbs, ¯ a psychology professor at Georgia State High Risk for HIV Infection CHICAGO (Aug. 15) - Two just-pub- ¯ ~Uuiversity, reported at the annual Amerilished studies in the American Journal of : can Psychological Assn. convention that Public Health report that younger urban ¯ in studying testosterone levels of 28. leswomen are at very high risk of HIV infec- ; bian couples,it was the sdf-definedbutch tion. A Medical College of Wisconsin ¯¯ partner in the relationship who consisstudy estimated that about a third of all ¯ tently had the higher levels of testosterone, the "male" hormone that all women younger inner-city women are at high risk of HIV infection, mainly because of risky ¯ also have in smaller amounts. Dabbs rebehavior like IV drug use by their sexual : ported, however, that despite the higher partners. The researchers also reported : levels when compared to their partners, that while most of the women had a fairly : none of the women in the study had siggood knowledge of HIV transmission ¯ uificandy higher testosterone levels than risks, they were poorly informed about : women in general. In another study presented at the APA the correct use of condoms and lubricants ¯ during sex. Another study of younger ; conventionby Ray Blanchardof the Clarke urban women in the same issue said that ¯ Institute of Psychiatry inToronto, aniden~ tifiable group of men are predominately high rates of syphilis among these women ¯ or exclusively attracted to genital males who are drug users is an indication of the ¯ who dress and act like women- transveshigh-risk sexual behavior they are also engaging in. Both groups of researchers :¯ rites or pre-operative transsexuals. A1said HIV prevention programs aimed at ¯ though Blanchard said that these "gynadromorphile" men he studied were these inner-city women are needed to help ." sexually attracted to cross-dressers, they reduce growing infection rates. ¯ were not attracted to post-operative trans¯ sexuals - men who have been surgically AIDS FederalHousing Grants. ] and hormonally changed into genital feWASHINGTON (Aug. 24) - The U.S. ¯ males - and considered themselves "betDept. of Housing & Urban Devdopment : erosexuals of some stripe." (HUD) has announced some $7.8 million in housing grants to non-profit agencies in Ex-Boxing Champ Says HIV communities in 9 states that offer housing Not ’That Big a Deal’ assistance for low-income people with AIDS. Community-based non-profits in : KANSAS C1TY, Mo. (Aug. 26) - In an Baltimore, West Hollywood, Calif., San ¯ interview with the Kansas City Star, Francisco, Savannah, Ga~, SantaFe,N.M., "¯ former heavyweight boxer Tommy Tucson, Ariz., New York, Philaddphia, ¯ Morrison said being infected with HIV Burlington, Vt., and Seattle are expected "doesn’ t seem like that big a deal" and to receive HUD grants of various sizes : that he is not taking drugs his doctor has The federal funding was established in ¯ prescribed to combat the virus. Morrison, 1992 as part of HUD’ s Housing Opportu- ¯ who has also appeared in a few films nities for Persons with AIDS (HOPWA) ; including "Rocky V" where he played a program to help agencies that provide ~ featured role as a boxer, announced that housing assistance and related support ; he is HIV-positive earlier this year. service to people with HIV/AIDS. �Clinton Wows ’Em The AIDS Legal Resource Project by Darlene Shadid Being HIV positive means facing new challenges and new issues. In addition to the personal, medical, and other quality of life issues, you may face extraordinary (or even mundane) legal demands for the first time. The AIDS Legal Resource Project may offer a solution. The AIDS Legal Resource Project was created more than three years ago to empower people with HIV/AIDS with the knowledge and assistance needed to maintain control over their lives. The Project offers free and effective legal assistance to those who qualify by connecting them to one of the more than 150 attorneys statewiad wh6 have agreed to serve on a Pro Bona Panel. Attorneys on the Project’s Panel offer help in several critical areas. Perhaps one of the most important (yet one of the easiest) is estate planning. For example, a Power of Attorney can be drawn up which allows you to choose exactly who can make decisions about almost any matter related to your care. Other documents include an Advance Directive For Health Care (Living Will), a Final Will and Testament, and Disposition of Bodily Remains. ff you have been de~ed Social’Security benefits, an attorney can l~elp collect the necessary documentation for the Administrative Hearing. In fact, havin an attar- hey present at the Hearing increases the chances of being awarded benefits by more than 50%. We also give advice regarding other state and federal entitle- In the past three ¯ : :¯ i ¯ years, the AIDS Legal Resource Project has provided legal assistance to more than 584 ellents with attorneys from around the state. i i : One of the recent successes is a preeedent-setting ldwsuit i in .which a FtIV n.ega- ¯ : ¯i txve man sued former employer after being fired because his partner was HIV+. ment programs. We also assist clients who have been unfairly denied health, life or disability insurance. Informationis available on how to keep and extend insurance coverage ¯ after work is no longer possible. ¯ If you are fired from a job, denied ." housing or equal access to health care ¯ because of your HIV status, an attorney ¯ can file a Complaint with the appropriate ," authorities. If necessary, the representa¯ don-will continue through the various ¯ stages of the process, including litigation ¯_ and settlement negotiations. Family law matters such as adoptions ¯ and child custody can be handled by an ¯ attorney in that area when HIV/AIDS is ¯ directly involved. Finally, we can help ¯ end harassment by creditors. ¯ In the past three years, the AIDS Legal : Resource Project has provided legal as¯ sistance to more than 584 clients with ¯ attorneys from around the state. One of ." the recent successes is a precedent-setting ." lawsnitin which a HIV negative man sued ¯ his former employer after being fired be" cause his partner was HIV positive. ." If you are HIV positive or have AIDS ~ and you have a legal problem you may ¯ qualify for free legal assistance from an ¯ attorney on the pro bona panel of the ¯ AIDS Legal Resource Project. Call the ¯ project collect at 405-524-4611 for more ¯ information. ", This is thefirst column in a series writ: ten to help Oklahomans with HIV/AIDS ¯ know and understand their legal rights. ¯ Starting next month, each column will ¯ deal with a legal issue related to HIW ¯ AIDS and will be written by a local attar¯ ney who is on the Pro Bona Panel of the " AIDS Legal Resource Project. CHICAGO - This year’s politicking got underway in Chicago with the Aug. 16-18 OutVote ’96. The Human Rights Campaign, sponsor of the gathering, called it the "first lesbian and gay national political convention." Just a week before the Democrats held their convention in Chicago, the President addressed the some 500 OutVote in a pre-taped video speech. "l’mproud of the accomplishments we’ve made," Clinton said. Tacidy acknowledging the sometimes strained relationship between Clinton and the gay and lesbian community, he said: "All Americans face a critical choice this Nov. I believe we must put aside our differences and focus on what unites us, on our common ground....in 1992, I told you about my vision for America - a vision you were and are very much a part of. I’m especially proud to be the first president ever to endorse a civil rights bill that specifically includes gay and lesbian Americans." Community Events BAPC Quilt Performance If you missed this highly acclaimed performance as part of the Summer Stage Festival, you can see it on Sunday, Sept. 29 at 2pm at the Tulsa Community College, Southeast Campus Performing Arts Center on 81st St. near Hi. 169. Tickets are $S/adults, $5/students. Info: 595-7182. Wro~tling Enthusiasts Sought A wrestling enthusiast seeks similar individuals interested in forming a wresfling club for recreational matches. He is also seeking an experienced coach. Call Keith at 918-438-8340. ALL blEW SHOW! IN CONCERT ONE NIGHT ONLY! SATURDAY OCT. S 8 PM 5how And ticket Information: (91 8) $96-71 1 1 Advance Ticket Purchase Is Strongly Recommended Tickets Available At: The Tulsa Performing Arts Center Box Office Location And Al! Direct From Her HBO Special ,On Tour Fro,u Her Sold-Out P-Town Su,u,reer Shows! 110 East second St. Carson Attractions Locations TULSA A Portion Of The Proceeds Benefit Black & White Charities, Inc. �TULS FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALENDAr, SUNDAYS Agape Christian Fellowship Services, 10:30 am 6540H East 21th pager: 594-9692 MONDAYS TUESDAYS WED NESDAYS HIV Testing Clinic THURSDAYS I-HV+ Support Group ¯ : SATURDAYS Agape’ Christian : Free & anonymous testing " HIV Resource Consortium " Co-Dependency ¯ St. Jerome’s Church : Fellowship using fingerstick method. ¯ Support Group 1:30 pm ¯ Mass, 6 pm Service, 7 pm . 7:30, Family of Faith MC( ’" WalkN°appointment required.in testing: 7-8:30 rm :: 41 54 S. Harvard, Ste. H_I Garden Chapel Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ 5451-ES. Mingo,622-1441 ¯ Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 " 3841 S. Peoria : Results hours: 7-9 pm ¯ ¯ Bless the Lord At All ¯ Info: Father Rick Info: 742-2927 ¯ HOPE Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. ¯ Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Center ." at 742-7122 ¯ : HIV Outreach, ¯ HtV/AIDS Support Group " Times Christian Center " Prevention, Education Sunday School, 9:45 am " ¯ Mixed Volleyball for ¯ ¯ & Worship Service, 11 am ¯ . Prayer & Bible Study " Anonymous HIV Testing ¯ Narcotics Anonymous Fun & Competition Friends &Family 262T0 East 1 lth 583-7815 " Helmerich Park, 6:30 pm ¯ Meets weekly at 11 pm " 7:30pm 2627-B East llth ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm ¯ Confidential support for Call 583-7815 for info. 71st & Riverside " " HITV/AIDSpm, callSupp°rtfor location:Gr°up ¯ Results hours: 7 - 9 pm ¯ recovering addicts. Community of Hope ." ¯ ¯ Info: 587-6557 Info: 742-2927 749-7898 (United Methodist) Community of Hope Family Of Faith MCC : .. ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Worship Service, 6 pm ¯ PFLAG Family AIDS Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm " Tulsa Family Chorale Alternative Skating 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 ." Choir Practice 7:30 pm : Support Group Weekly practice, 9:30 pm 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 NAMES Project 5451-E South Mingo. . ¯ 2nd Mon. of month Lola’s 2630 E. 15th $4, Sand Springs Skate AIDS Memorial Quilt Family of Faith Call 622-1441 forinfo. : : 6:30 pm, 4154 S. Harvard : Sewing Bees Metro. Comm. Church ¯ Info: 749-4901 PFLAG Family AIDS : 3rd Sat. of each month Grief Group Adult Sunday School, 9:15 TNAAPP Support Gl:oup : ¯ Buder/Stumpff Info: 748-3111 Worship Service, 11 am -" Tulsa Native American ¯ 1st & 3rd Thursdays OTHER GROUPS Funeral Home 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 AIDS Prevention Project ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 2103 E 3rd St. ¯ The Technicians, Leather Support group Call for time: 587-7000 Metro. Comm. Church ¯¯ org., Info c/o 621-5597 for Gay & Bi Native Alternatives ¯ T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform of Greater Tulsa American Men, 6 pm ¯ Weekly social events for ¯ Worship Service, 10:45am & Leather Seekers Assoc. at Community of Hope ¯ LGBT men & women, 7 pm ¯ Info: 838-1222 1623 N. Maplewood ¯ 1703 E. 2nd Info: 646-5503 Gay & Lesbian Student Info: 838-1715 582-7225 or 584-4983 Association Substance Abuse Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay . TJC Southeast Campus, Support Group Alliance. Univ. of Tulsa " : for persons wi th HIV/AIDS I~..o: 631-7632 SWAN2"Single Women , s 6:30 pm at Canterbury . 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G Activity Network 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ¯ 3-4:30 pm Call 832-2121 : Info: 749-4194 Community Events i I~v~i~.g-heal.~y lives. Tommy Chesbro, " ~aaCh" le~,,der, w_ith special guest Duncan " rows, tools for application, the power of ¯ ~xx~ coordmatoreforindianHealthCare ¯ Resources Center of Tulsa, notes that the , acLacman, Leatherman 1996. As GuyMr. Baldwin, author Toronto of Ties ¯ positive thinking, how to avoid the pit: group helps provide peer suport forliving falls (New Age and otherwise), and more. : a life in balance physically, mentally, " That Bin.d, states ’~f you try to find your The workshop will include meditation, way in the SM/leather scene by yourself, ." emotionally and spiritually. The group is ritual, storytelling, group exercises, and you are doing it the wrong way--there is ¯ open to men living with HIV/AIDS as opportunities for sharing. no need". ¯ well as those not infected. It is specific to ¯ The suggested offering is $5.00 for men but Indian Health Care would like to ¯ Thisw.workshop is for wtmen men ¯ rials, each workshop to cover workshop mate~ike ho are interested in orand curious information, and future workshops, , work with women also if there’s interest¯ but no one will be turned away for lack of Rural Men’s Group ¯ The Two Spirit Mens Group meets on " anout leather/SM. "It’s an educational oppormmty you will not want to miss. ¯ funds. It is suggested that the participants H.OPE, H1V Outreach, Preven’tion, Edu_ ~W~ednesdays at 6:30 pm at Commtmity of _bring a cushion for comfortable seating. cation, is sponsoring social/discnssion ¯ r~ope Church at 2rid & Utica¯ Info: " Whether it’s your cup of tea or not, the group for men who have sex with men and ¯ Tommy, 918-582-7225, or write, ¯ information will be valuable for under- ¯ Juice, coffee, and water will be provided. who live-outside Tulsa. The group will ¯ TNAAPP,915 S. Cincinnati,Tulsa74119. ¯ standingthediversityofourcommunity,,, . Please free to bring a snack, pencil, or heralds Larry Everett, International Mr 7pa~p,er.t~F_or more information please call meet the 2nd & 4th Saturdays each month, ¯ Bible & Homosexuality Study Leather 1995 ¯ "So co~ ....... 7-gpm at the Gathering Place, 4154 So. ¯ ~,u out and ex-" " ’+~-zv2/, 371-0496, Community of Hope will pilot a new plore with us", sa s lan or e-mail Harvard, Suite E-3. Upcoming dates are Y ce" " mrac194@aol.com. interdenominational Bible seminar, on . S unday, " .O,c,t. 20, Duncan Ma~c,,La,chlan 9/28, 10/12, 10/26, 11/9, 11/23, 12/14 & Wednesdays from 6:30 to 8:30 for4 weeks Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa 12/28. Call Brian or Jeremy at 918-742will present ’Healing The Spirit ,. It will beginning on Sept. 18. The study has been be held 1-5pro. Duncan states, ’Native D/I, agroupforLesbianandGayCatho_ 2927 or 1-800-282-8165.. developed by the United Methodists Rec- ¯ American teachings and other spiritual lies and Episcopalians will meet on Oct. Tulsa AIDS Mastery Project onciling Congregation Program with " 12, and then on Nov. 9th at 5 pm at St. ¯ This group will present Tulsa’s 1st .Welcoming & Affirming Baptists, DiglearnreS°urceStolivehaVebettermUChwitht° offerHiV. USspiritualaS we Dunstan’s Episcopal Church, 5633 E. 71 st Mastery workshop on Friday, Sept. 20 - " nity/Integrity (Catholic & Episcopali~t~), " traditions teach us that the source of all " TO National Coming Out Week Sunday, Sept. 22. This is anintense week- " GLAD (Disciples of Christ), Reconciled ¯ h.ealin.g.is spiritual." He also asks, "What ¯ Oct. 8: A Roundtable discussion of end experience designed to assist those ¯ in Christ (Lutheran), Supportive Congredoes t!us mean? How can this knowledge "Sexuality: Nature vs. Nuture" 7:00 pm in individiduals who have been affected’by " gation Network (Mennonite), and More ¯ be applied in practical ways?" ¯ the Chouteau Room of Allen Chapmafi ¯ HW/AIDS to come to terns with theimapct " Light (Presbytwerian). Duncan is a workshop leader, group ¯ Activity Center fafl~c!..flae virus has radon theirlives. Trained " Leather and Healing Workshops facilitator, counselor, and educatorliving ¯ ,Oct. _9: Panel discussion concerning ac~lltators welcome individuais living ¯ in Toronto. He describes his living with aoout Gay Marriage, 7:00 pm in the The weekend of October 19 and 20 will with ,HIV/AIDS, family, loved ones, ¯ be a busy one in Tulsa as lance brittain, ~IV. since 1983.,asahealingandamiracle. " President’s Lounge, Cha man friends, earegivers, and HIV/AIDS pro,-, P Mr. Alameda County Leather 1994; r~e is very enthusiastic about passing on uct. 10 (National Coming Out Day): fessionals. The weekend is free because ¯ H.O.P.E., formerly TOHR, and the Silver ¯ what he as learned and likes to make the Unity Party on Sharp Chapel Plaza, TU this event is sponsoredby a grant from the ¯ Star, .Sal~oon combine community spun- " ~work,s,hop a safe and nurturing experience " Campus. All campus groups are invited to Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership Ior ml participants with his warm and .a,tt.end and will receiv.e letters concerning (TCAP) but donations of food, beverages ,s°rsmp Ior two,,and very,,different, workshops,. inclusive style. He does ask that all par’~’Le.ather 101 Heahng The Spirit" are needed. Info: Melissa @ 584-2325. /~oth workshops will be held at 4f58 SI ~m~ event. 3:00 pm w~th speakers at 5:00 .ticipants wear loose, comfortable clothTwo Spirited Mens Group : .Harvard, suite E-3 in ’The Gath~,q,, mg and to please bring a small obj~t of " During Naffonal Coming Out Week, The Tulsa Native American AIDS Pre- " Place" at the H.O.P.E. and R-e~o~r’~C~’~a~_ " pers, o.hal significance. Duncan adds, ’This " BLGTA will be taking donations in supvention Project is sponsoring a group of " womshop will be useful for people who ¯ port of Breast ~2ancer Awareness Month, sortium building. Gay, Bisexual or Two Spirited men f-or a in October. 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Plan toattend. name and local talent will be performing , For those of you looking for complete all over town. hair styling and other saFeatured artists for Ion services, we have a JazzFest include Stanley new family cutterin town. Turrentine & Band, time in Tymythy Aieran is affiliAllmad Aladeen & The ated with the Holiday IsDeans of Swing, Emie land Hair Salon at 92 Durawa & Los Jazz year s dates are Woodsdale Drive and Vatos, and Grady Nichols performs the full range of & Moment’s Notice. All salon services - haircuts will be performing at the 9.2nd .... AnOther & styles, perms, color, Historic Eureka Springs manicures, pedicures, City Auditorium musical hot w.axin.g, facials, and ear Small clubs will host a ticket hits town piercing. To contact number of local and big Tymythy, call 501-253name performers as well, 9712. and nightly there will be a Another musical hot post-performance party at ticket hits town the weekthe top of the Basin Park end following JazzFest. Hotel in the ballroom. The 49th Annual Ozark These events are hosted Folk Festival comes to by the Eureka Springs Eureka Springs from SepJazz Society and will featember 26th - 29th. A full ture performers from the board of performers is JazzFest ticket. scheduled, including: PeThere is still time to get ter Rowan, Townes Van tickets for the scheduled Zandt, Joe Cart & Alan events though JazzFest is Munde, Crow Jolmson, always one of the hottest Still on the Hill, the Jones tickets to behad during the Eureka Springs season. For reservations and information, : Brothers, Charles C. Hammer, Doe Brothcall the Jazz Festival Hotline at 501-253- . ers, Jim & Kim Lansford, and Richard 6258.-The Jazz Festival can also be reached ¯ Johnson & Doug Reid. For more information on the 49th Anvia e-mail at jazz @nwark.com. Complete : nual Ozark Folk Festival, call the Eureka information about the 12th Annual Eu.--_~bo q.,qn.~ t.~’~’7 Festival is available ¯ Springs Chamber of Commerce at 501¯ 253-8737. online at: http://www.eureka-usa.com/ ]ae season IX wlaum~ u,,,,u, ..... events/creative/index.html biggest Ozark attraction of them all is yet Also coming up fast is the annual Eu- ¯¯ to come. Plan to visit our Victorian utopia reka Springs Gay Family Retmion, to be ¯ held this year on Sunday, October 6th ¯ in October to watch Mother Nature show off in all her spendor. There’ s nothing to starting at 2 pm at Beaver Dam Site Park. " compare with the autumn colors in the A canoeing event will be held that morn¯ Ozarks. ing beginning at 11. Rentals will be avail: See you in Eureka! It’s Jazz Festival Eureka t .... 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Recommended by The New York Times (501) 253-680Z Closed Wednesday Center Street, Eureka Springs, AR 7263Z. Exciting Reaching OUT to all People Gay Mecca. of the Ozarks Rev. Clay Cody 6540-H East 21st . Sunday Services, 10:30 am pager: 594-9692 �The fime nas come to marriage._D~.et . .: tivities of me rtawan Supreme¯ Court, samesex mam:a_ge may soon be legal m that state. The backlash against_ this, the Defense of ~ or ~onduct such cer- ]~e ~ree to take posl¯ "1.1 ¯ tlon$ on issues . . l~ke same-sex marrxa~e~ ~ " itspositiononotherre" " li"gi ons or on cmzens followingnoorganized religion." :,, trom"tally there is a and the state cannot portion of the Lesbian and Gay community require religions to MarriageAct, willsoon that also is against the become law and will approve of or idea of same-sex marprevent other states riage, though not for from having to recogthe above reasons. nize same-sex marThey feel that theimtieeremonles. riages from Hawaii. The tution of marriage is a can one flawed, patriarchal sysdebate, however, will not end there. tem that Gay and Lesreligion force its Author William bian couples should Eskridge, a Washingavoid. Eskridge gives pos~.tlo.n on other ton DC professor and a good overview of relldions or on lawyer, has addressed these positions, explorthe issue as aproponent ing not only the ,marof same-sex marriage. riage-is-rotten" arguHis book examines conment, but also the "alstitufional issues, court ternatives to marriage" decisions, the history of view (domesti e partnerships) and the antiassimilation perspective which suggests Lesbian and Oay commumty ~ .-.reranthat formal marriage would "dedaw the stream" objections to same-sex mamages. ~radieafism of the gay liberation moveEskridge discredits many of the standard arguments agains__t. same-s.ex fiages, including one ot- me most popmar viewpoints which concerns the ihability and has an appendix tiffed "Letters from of same-sex couples to conceive children. the Faithful on the Legal Recognition of It is hard,to, dispute the author’s logic in Same-Sex Marriage." It includes selected this area: A state could and, to be consistent, should prohibit mamages in which__..,"................. letter.~ £r.~.~.m..l,~.~ r~X-.V-~,~-d-o-~,~m~,u~, ~Or:bo~p~~r~~-t~rii~ qr-impo~ " inducting those representing Catholics, tent. If procreation is the essential goat ot Methodists, Presbyterians and the Jew.ish marriage, why should postmenopausal ; faith.Theselettersdefendsame-sexumons women be allowed to marry? Surely, dis- : by citing avariety of religious doc.u~ent.s. ¯ The battle over same-sex mamage ~ crimination against sterile, impotent or : sure to continue for years to come an aged couples would be lmaeceptable to : Eskridge’s book is an informative and citizens of many different perspectives." ¯ interesting addition to the debate. Check The often used religious argument i.s : for ’q’he Case for Same-Sex Marriage" at also addressed. Eskfidge’s reasomng is ~ the Readers Services dept. of the Central that "state espousal of one religion’s be: Library (596-7966) or at thelocallibrary. liefs risks state supression of another I " [ | | | / | "/ " eo~duet such Butnelther clt e following no organized ren~on. by James Christjohn " SUZANNE WESTENHOEFFER brings her umque brand of queer comedy to Tulsa 10/5 at 8pm in the Williams Theatre, PAC. An outspoken (no pun intended) Lesbian, her humor has a broad appeal (sorry, that one really w.as un~conscions). Her resume is ~mpress~ve, irqm her own ground breaking HBO show (nominated for an ACE award, the l~,mmies of cable), ’Out there on Comedy Central", ’mainstream’ shows such as "evening at ~,e Improv" & ’X~aroline’s Comedy hour , and more. She is hilarious, so this is the must-see for October! Info. call the PAC at 596-7111. CAROL CHANNING will be appearing in Hello Dolly! at the PAC 9/27-29, and trust me, this is a show that must not be n~,’_ssed! Forget all the disp..~g~ng things, you. ve ever heard about tins snow, ana completely disregard any other version. Ms. Channing is the real thing, and this show is magic! I was surprised at how effective it was when Ms. Channing took the stage. Only one lady has the charm and charism~a to pull it off, and this is a chance that shouldn’t be missed. Tickets: 596-7111. And Ms. Channing is as gracious & charming offstage as she is on! CAROL BURNEIff comes to town October 13 for a question and answer session at the PAC. I’m sure I’m not alone in claiming that her show was a bright spot in an otherwise dark childhood/adolescenee. It was the Carol Burnett Show that fueled in me a fire to perform, and to take people out of their troubles, even if only for an hour or two, and make them laugh and think. Thank you, Carol, for the inspiration, the dream, and the laughter. GUYS & DOLLS will be presented by the University of Tulsa’s theatre department October 17 -27 at the Chapman Theatre. For ticket info, call’. 631-2567. BACP presents ’ffhe Taffetas" a 50’s girl-group musical revue, 9/13 - 22. Info: 258-0077 And they have a web site: http/. / WWW.Geocities.com]Broadway/1646 TheatreTulsapresents ’q’heTorchBearers" starting 9/20. Info: 596~7111. (Got that number memorized by now? I do.) An Attorney who will fight for justice & Equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-.9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available. "96. . . .Model Close O.ut! ,96 3000GT, auto, aphrodiasiac to everyday drivi g. Nough said~ $25,930, over $6,200 discount. ’96 Eclipse RS, airconditioning, AM/FM cassette, alloy wheels, $0 down, $239 per month*, *MSRP $16,950, 47 payments of $239.98, last mayment of $7,456 or walk away. Disposition fee $350, 48,000 miles free, 15 cents thereafter, W.A.C, �ere pets are treated like people * Bakery Treats * Bed & Breakfast (boarding) * Salon * Pet Supplies: Science Diet, IAMS, Nutro Dog Food THE DOG HOUSE BROOKSIDE 3311 S. Peoria, 744-5556 TO -DISCO by Jean-Pierre, TFNFood Critic Nested ataprimecomer ofUticaSquare next door to the Polo Shop is a long time popular restaurant site, in this declension known as Capistrano. Previous on-site eateries have included Santa Fe, French, and Italian cuisines, and ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ pet peeves is a kitchen staff too lazy to remove the entire shell from the shrimp. How is one expected to gracefully eat a dish with a thick sauce and an incom- plet,ely shelled shellfish? Does one dip one s fingers into the hot sauce to grasp the shrimp by the tail and those ghosts continue to convey it dripping to the haunt the current menu. mouth? Or does-one use Capistrano It’s hard to categorize one’ s fork, risking mouth Capistrano, though, since lacerations from sharp Rotisserie it bills itself as a rotisserie bits of tail shell, and then .(a restaurant specializing later gracefully and elin roasted or .broiled egantly spit out the ofmeats), but only has one 171~8 Utlca Square fending bits ? rotisserie item on the This .wasn’t the first menu. It bears-a passing time we’d been to allegian.ce to F~en~h foods ¯ Hours: Capistrano, so we passed due to its close a~sociaLunel,, 11 to 2:30 up the signature Santa Fe tions with its Owner’s Blue Corn Plato ($9.95), other Tulsa restaurant, Dinner 5 to 9:30 the rotisserie chicken The.FTe.nch Hen, but the ($10.95), the pan grilled preparattons are certainly brooktrout ($12.95), and not, French (of course, .Cuisine: the loin of lamb daily spewe’ ve also made that obcial ($21.95). We wish servation about the we hadn’t. Instead, we French ’HEn, but that is Dress: tried the Guthrie pan fried the subject of another resteak ($15.95), which is view).. We can 6nly call the Capistrano answer to Capistrano eclectiC. Prices: traditional Oklahoma Ecldcfic might also dechicken fried steak. This Expensive scribe the service here, "dish" was a piece of too, though esoteric also Pa~ent: round steak served with fits. Certain customers new potatoes and sliced and tables seem to get a mushrooms, absolutely lot of attention, while othdrowned in the most ofers are left to flounder unfensive brown gravy attended. The al fresco we’ve ever tasted. Flatables are particularly a vored with Worcesterservice wilderness. Some shire sauce, the gravy was Section: of the staff is definitely overpowering with the friendlier than others, and anchovy-vinegar all of them seem to be Worcestershire flavor, lacking in training in the and the taste would not finer points of service. leave the mouth, even Our waitress was also toafter numerous washings tally ignorant as to the Ratln~: with the $6.50 a glass .preparation technique and wine. Our companion Ingredients of the menu tried the toumedos au items. Nevertheless, poivre ($17.95), ordered Capistrano remains a busy restaurant ¯ medium rare and received medium and filled with upseale Utica Square shop- ¯ almost cold. It was a small piece of dead pets. ¯ cow with pepper on it. closed S.nd~ys Eclectic ’C~uM A~ ~o~ No~-Smo~ Alcohol: Tulsa roundtrip to." - San Francisco, $16s - Los Angeles, $188 - New Orleans, $164 - Chicago, $18o - Phoenix/Scottsdale, $138 - San Antonio, $158 All prices subject to change. Call 341. 686,6 International Tours for more information. IGTA member. Enjoy POPS LIVE! with the Tulsa Philharmonic on October 4-5, beginning at 8 p.m. at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The concert features Maureen MeGovern. Hear this legendary singer with the five-octave range! Call 747-PI-IIL for tickets and information! Where to start? Try to think of every Our dessert was a bread pudding in a cuisine and every culinary fad item, and : Jack Daniels sauce, which our waitress then expect it to appear on the Capistrano menu. Soups include a limed chicken tor- .- announced was a Jack Daniels "bourbon" ¯ sauce, even though our table all knew that tilla, a clam chowder, and a soup du jour, ." only Bourbon County, Kentucky, prowhich on the evening of our visit was a . duces bourbon - Jack Daniels is Tennesspicy tomato, which we found rather thin ¯ see whiskey. But, good whiskey notwithand tart. Appetizers include baked brie ¯ standing, thebreadpuddingwas dry, bland, with sun-dried tomatoes, snails, and a and rubbery. We also tried the creme ¯ brick oven pizza. Salads include the Caebrulee. Creme brulee is a milky custard sar, a broiled mozzarella, nicoise, oriental ¯ with a sugar crust that is caramelized and duck, and alderwood smoked salmon, plus ¯ toasted under the broiler immediately bea vegetarian medley presented on a bed of - fore serving. Our sugar crust was burned greens. The nicoise, duck, and salmon ¯ black. But, the underlying custard was salads come in two sizes, small for $8.95, ¯ smooth and very tasty. and large for $14.95. ¯ Ah, the sacrifices we make for our Pastas are important menu items, in- ¯ readers! This simple little dinner for two ¯ cluding fettucine ticino, a pesto, and an ended up costing us $76. We were shocked angel hair with salmon. We chose to split and appalled. Shocked and appalled not the fettucine Riviera ($12.95) as an appetizer course, and were generally pleased ¯" only because of the price, but because of the quality of food we received on the with the result. The fettucine was cooked ¯ night of the review. We’ ve never been so to the proper degree of al dente doneness ¯ disappointed with their food before. and was sauced in a rich and delicious If one is shol~ping and hunga3, while on lobster cream, redolent with parmesan ¯¯ the west side o[ Utica Square, stop in at ¯ cheese, and sprinkled with bits of lobster Capistrano for a bite to eat. The outside meat, scallops, and three whole shrimps. ¯ eafe seating can be pleasant. Just hope The dish was marred only by the presence ¯ that those legendary birds drop by laden of the tail shell on the shrimps. One of our : with cash. �Do you live in a small town World War II seems to be when Black boots,jeans, black belt, tank top ." leathermen emerged. The men, coming and armband, i am ready to go and the,¯ back from war, were used to strict orders nerves are setting in. Will i be accepted? What will it be like walking into a leather " of rank and respect; the camaraderie, and ¯ ¯ bar?Will ~ be m over my head.9" These are ° the man-to-man bonding in the absence of a few of the thoughts that raced through ¯ women. Some were able to adjust while my head as i embarked onmy first venture ¯ others yearned for the unspeakable. The men began hanging out at the shipto a leather bar. i knew i had to fulfill this " ping yards, loading docks, and the bars of yearning that was growing deep in my " the larger port cities. Soon, groups of men soul. Little did i know that i was about to ", begin the journey of my life with no , began coming together and "hanging their colors" in their "home bar". Motorcycles turning back. Upon arriving at The SF Eagle, i saw a : came onto the scene largely due to the line of huge, beautifnl motorcycles, i never ; appreciation the American soldier~ devdoped while serving’in Europe. rBike knew a sight, such as this[could get my heart to racing so. i made iny way to the : clubs emerged and the followers came patio and all i could see was a sea of ] from far and wide. Uniforms had their leatherdad.men. The day was hot and the ¯ beginning when the men wore them out to air smdled of sweat, leather and cigars, i " display their rank for those who underwas in heaven. But then reality set in. : stood their insignia and would give them What was i supposed to do? Look? Ap- : the respect they called for. Between the 1960’ s and 1980’ s organiproach someone?i waslost. Thisis where ¯ zation, less secrecy, and the leather netmy training began, i had found my home. ~ My family. ¯ work helped increase the growing numbers of leatherpeople. From the 1980’ s to Basic training taught me that not every- : one inleather w as into SM and vice-versa. ¯ the present the Old Guard, which is well Leather relationships ran’the gamut from " defined, and the New Guard have been monogamous with leathersex only, to " combining the two philosophies resulting in a stronger leather community. Fetishes Daddy/boy or Mistress, Master/slav.e and : and the educating of others have grown that these relationships did not always involve pain..Leather involves scenes " and brought about a more diverse and which Race Bannon, author of1~earning " stronger tribe. SM stands for sadomasochism or the the Ropes, says, a scene is a comblnatton ¯ deriving of enjoyment from the infliction of mental, physical and/or environmental ~ components, with an exchange of power .¯ and/or receiving of pain. SM encompasses many forms. Pain is not the key clement as a key element, that mix in such a way as ¯ here, but the exchange of power is. This. to produce a satisfying experience for all ¯ exchange is totally voluntary. It defines participants. Scenes can happen anywhere ¯ the roles and the relationship. The bottom as the focus in SM is the mind. Sex may or may not be part of a Scene. SM has been : relies on trust then expresses his desires and finally gives up his power to the Top. defmed as theater, where you create your This exchange continues throughout the own fantasy and as music, where you ~ scene as the Top watches the reactions of ..... create your own score". ¯ the bottom. The bottom is controlling with i learned about networking, negotiat- ". his/her actions. ing and feedback. Networking is about ¯ Are you now asking yourself how I take finding out who is safe and who is not, : building a circle of friends and acquain- : action with my curiosity? Joseph Bean, tances to help you and attending parties, : author of Leathersex, describes it as: Taking action is like lowering yourself into a workshops and club events. Educating tub of hot water, one timid body part at a oneself is important and no question is ~ ridiculous. Negotiating a scene helps " time, only to discover it Wash’ t all that hot after all. S o just go for it. Leather lifestyles both parties get what they want, feel each celebrate and affirm sexuality. Be honest other out and not get in over their head. and listen until you understand the image! Feedback, such as safe words, helps evreality, fantasy/foreplay give-take flows. eryone involved to know how thin.gs are Also realize that you are play~ng a ro!e going. Safe words such as red, yellow, or and wearing a costume. Leatlaerpeopie green can be used for checking out the are playing their roles for themselves, for scene, halting the momentum for a while, something powerful within and are lookor stopping the scene all together. ing for aproper counterpart. Please do not "Safe, Sane and Consensual" is the wear cologne, loud colors, use a loud leather creed. Safety is of utmost imporvoice, or disturb a scene. It is not proper tance in leather and includes not exchangetiquette. ing body fluids, getting to know your Dressing for Action is not all that inpartner and not trying anything you are volved. A tight fitting t-shirt, jeans, black not ready for. Sane means trusting your belt, and black boots will suffice. Leather gut instinct and not involving alcohol or and accessories are expensive so play by ..... drugs as they can impair your.j.ud,gment, the motto "Perform now, reward yourself cause harm and increase your risk oI sexulater". Do not be afraid to ask questions ally transmitted disease. 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Text Any textual data included in the document Sept, 15 - Oct. 14, 1996, vol. 3, no. 10 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities ENDA DOMA WASHINGTON- The U.S. Senate voted on the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), two key pieces of legislation affecting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans. The Senate passed the anit- Gay DOMA bill, 85-14, as was expected. The Senate then voted 49 to 50 to defeat ENDA. Oklahoma’s senators, Don Nickles and Jim Inhofe, both noted for their hostility to their Lesbian & Gay constituents, voted against ENDA and for DOMA. Nickles was the Senate sponsor of DOMA and Inhofe an original co-sponsor. TulsaOklahomans for H~_~man Rights (TOHR) issued a statement strongly condemning their votes, particularly criticizing Inhofe for his refusal to meet with Lesbian and Gay constituents, community leaders or Gay press. Sen. Nieldes sent a letter to colleagues calling for a vote against ENDA because it would "promote sexual promiscuity". He also equated homosexuality and bisexuality with bestiality, pedophiliaand adultery, and suggested that local school boards should be able to fire or not hire staff who express opinions advocating homosexual or bisexual relationships. The measures had became hopelessly entangled in a series of political moves, counter-moves, and countercounter- moves. DOMA, which has already cleared a House vote, would define marriage as a legal commitment between one man and one woman. The effect would be to deny any federal benefits to married samesex couples. No state currently recognizes such marriages, but a lion of the work of several TOHR boards and longtime community supporters. Tim Gillean, former president of the organization, was recognizedinparticularforhis leadership. ’‘This project has been the dream of many but without Tim Gillean, we would not be where we are today," noted pres. Debbie Starnes. The Pride Center will be open to all community organi zations andindividtmls who share its goals which include ending discrimination and oppression based on sexual orimany but without oR.]DE CENTER N ON BROOKSIDE OCT. 4TH ¯ Officer ’ - ..... _" Many community organizations have enabout to i dorsed this project. Prime Timers has donated Bisexual i $1,000 for The Pride Center and Rainbow Brookside Business Guild, The Black &White Charities, Rights (TOHR) and Inc., PFLAGleaders, Bill &Kathy Hinkle and foot center open in October. pastors of the churches that reach out to the A spokesperson for the or- community support The Pride Center. ganization noted that The " Part of the 3,500 s. f. of The Pride Center Pride Centeris theculmina- been the dream o~" " will provide offices for HOPE, HIV Outreach, ¯ Prevention, Education which are the preven- ¯ tion programs of TOHR. HOPE’s director, T;m G;llean, [former pres.], we would not be where we are today," - Deb Starnes Pride Ctr. Pres. entation. Officials stated that The Pride Center opens with a modest budget and will be supported by individual and organizational mem- .berships, as well as byindividual pledges. Membership is $20/yearfor individuals and $35/year for couples. Pledges range from $3-5/month up to $100/month with most at about $15 to $25 Statues added, ’"dais is a way for each and every member of the community to make a difference. We appreciate those individuals who can pledge hundreds but the support of those who can just help with a few dollars a month are equally important. This is a center for all." Fellowship Congregational i Welcomes Lesbians & Gays ¯ Another Tulsa "mainline" Protestant church has become an offi- ¯ cially welcoming congregation to Lesbians and Gay men. Fellowship ¯ Congregational Church joins a number of "open and affirming" ¯ churches that are part of the United Church of Christ (UCC) denomi- ¯ nation. ¯ The leaders of this church of about 200 near 31st and Harvard ¯ characterized the year and 1/2 process of becoming a welcoming ¯ congregation as both stressful and as exciting. The issue first seemed ¯ to rise about 3 or 4 years ago. The church which as a tradition ofbeing ¯ involvedin socialjusticeissues realized that they had a certainamount ¯ of ignorance about homosexuality. Over the year and 1/2, at a series ¯ of events, the congregation had the opporttmity to personalize the : issues. A divinity student who had ties to the congregation came back ¯ to preac.h and also came out as Gay. see Fellowship, page 3 ¯ Claudette Peterson, was estatic at finally hay- ¯ ing adequate space for her staff. The highly " successful programs now have seven staff ¯ members and additional volunteers who can : not fit.into the current spaces near the HIV ¯ Resource Consortium (HIVRC). Peterson ¯ notes, however, that HOPE will continue its : HIV antibody testing program at ’the HIVRC ¯ with which it works closely. ¯ A workroom and a conference room of The ". Pride Center will be available for community ¯ organizations that do not have their own of- . rices. The site has adequate parking at the ¯ building which is unusual for Brookside with : even more overflow parking nearby. The Cen- ¯ ter will be accessible to those with mobility ¯ disabilities. ¯ Additionally, ThePride Center will behome ¯ to The Pride Store. The Pride Store will serve ¯ community needs rangingfromgreeting cards, ¯ rainbow stickers, flags and other Pride items, ¯ news magazines, t-shirts, etc. Gay business : owner Tom Neal is volunteering as a consult- : ant and is donating merchandise from his store ¯ tomfoolery] see Pride Center, page 3 ¯ Community Leader Lost : see Community Notes, page 9 National Coming Out Day Workshop, Leatherstuff, Bible + Homosexu,a,lity Study Group, Two Splrlted Mens’ Group + TU/BLGTA Safe Haven, RBG Dinner Gay Comedy Jam, IAM Street Carnival, Lesbian Comedian, AIDS Mastery ComingSoon : OKLAHOMA CITY- Oklahoma’s Gay community is in shock from ¯ repo~tsofabrutalkillingofagaymaninthesmalltownofWoodward, ¯ near the Oklahoma Panl~mdle, by two men whom witnesses say later : bragged they had ’~ust killed that queer." It is the second vicious anti- : gay murder in the state this year. Police say Albert J. Bixler was ¯ apparently beaten to death with a car fire jack and his body dumped ." inatrashbinby Shannon LeeJones, 23, and MarkJones,30. Bothmen ¯ live in Woodward but are not related to each other. One witness at an i apartment building where the two suspects were staying told police ¯ she overheard Shannon Lee Jones say, "The queer son of a bitch got ¯ what he deserved." Shannon Jones is being sought by police on murder charges. Mark Jones, 30, is being held on murdei charges. ¯ Authorities have also issued amaterial witness warrant for a thirdman whom they identified as Clifford Green, who sometimes goes by the name of Clifford Beard. Only a week earlier, two Guthrie, Okla., teenagers, identified by police as skinheads, appeared in court in Oklahoma City to face ¯ charges of murdering Charles Meers earlier this year. Alexis N. Perryman, 18, and Nicholas J. Karlin, 15, have been charged with ¯ brutally beating Meers, stabbing him, shooting him, and then dousing his body and home with gasoline and setting them on fire in an effort : to cover up the killing. case pending in Hawaii see ENDA/DOMA, p. 3 " Oklahoma’s ’96 Anti-Gay Murders INSIDE EDITORIAIJLETrERS/DIRECTORY P. 2 NEWS BRIEFS P. 4 HEALTH BRIEFS P, 6 CALENDAR P. 9 EUREKA HAPPENINGS P. 11 BOOK REVIEW/ENTERTAINMENT P. 12 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 13 CLASSIFIEDS P. 15 ¯ " Robert Fitzgerald Renfro, known as RF or ¯ just as Renfro, one of Tnlsa’s most respected ¯ community leaders and HIV/AIDS educators ¯ died at St. Francis Hospital on August 23 after ¯ a brief, though severe, illness. ¯ A Celebration of Eternal Life was held at Shiloh Baptist Church with the Rev. Eddie ¯ Cook preaching and the Rev. Melvin Bailey, : host pastor, see Renfro, page 3 918.583.1248 fax: 583.4615 POB 4140 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159-0140 TuisaNews@aol.com Publisher + Editor, Tom Neal Asst. Editor + Mac Guru, James Christjohn, Writers + contributors: Phyl Boler-Schmidt, Barry Hensley Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Leanne Gross Steven Scott Gerald Miller, Lance Brittain Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1996 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the punisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional copies are available by calling 583-1248. by Phyl Boler-Schmidt A number of months ago, I reported on a rather suspicious death that occurred here in Eureka Springs. It was a death that struck terror in the hearts and minds of many lesbigay cidzens because the victim was known to be aGay man, andhe was killed by a teenager who suggested tO police that he did the deed in selfdefense againstacts the description of whichI Would probably incite major homophobic responses from the police. It.appeared at that time that investigation of the.death was being permanently swept under the rug. However, Iamhappy to reportthat the death ofChris Klein will not go unpunished, or at least untried. Anthony Fleetwood was arrested in August .and charged with 2rid degree homicide, some seven months after the slaying. Bond was set at $30,000, and if the bond is raised, Fleetwood risks losing the services of the Public Defender appointed by the court. DNA and serum test results were finally completed and failed to back up Fleetwood’ s story, a story that said, in part, that after polishing off a 12 pack see Justice, page .3 by G. Miller, M,A. Last month I gave some simple advice on dealing with the outside forces in your life. The aim of that little treatise was to get you thinking positively about ways to improve you daily existence byhandling the external forces you confront This month I want to spend a little time on how to get your personal force into the positive mode. This will sound way too simple but the truth usually is simple¯ Youcan either choose to see your life as positive or negative. You . make that choice every morning of every day, When you head to work, understand what it is you are doing. If you’ re lucky you go to ajob that challenges and fulfills you, or you are going to ajob which permits you to earn a living. The income from that job provides the where with all.which allows you to do the things you want to get enjoyment out of life. So while thejob itselfmay not be the most enjoyable thing in the world, it is the springboard to enjoying the other areas of your life. 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Renters, you won’ t escape either- .your landlord will have to pass on the cost increase to tenants. But isn’t the bond issue for a worthy cause - Tulsa schools? The school district’ s demanding $94.5 million for a district with about half as -" many students as ithad 20 years ago. Last ¯ year they said they needed $89 million : from us, but they have "upped the ante" ¯ because they claim buildings have dete- -" riorated that much since last year. Yet ¯ they have sold two of their 18 unused ¯ properties in the meantime- where are ¯ the millions from those? They also claim ¯ that they need chairs and textbooks, but ." many parents tell me the P.T.A.’s have ¯ provided those since last year in various .. school~. They made dire predictions, that our property taxes would fall if we didn’ t "support our schools"- but values are up. And does each classroom really need tele- ¯ communications and a telephone as re- , quested? I’ think not, We all want our ¯ schools to be fine ones. But each person has to ask, "What benefit will I see from ," yet another tax hike?" Vote NO Oct. 8. - Leah Farish Editor’s note: TFN neither endorses nor ¯ Opposes this vote. We encourage readers tb consider carefully and to vote. ¯ We applaud those represented by the ¯ letter above [or reaching out to Lesbian ¯ and Gay voters. This community is usu- ¯ ally simply ignored though we are af- ¯ fected- as parents, as teachers, as ¯ homeowners and tenants. In a tight race, ¯ minority communities can make a differ- "~ ence. The writersees that. Thesupporters :. of the bond vote have made no effort to ¯ reach out to this community. ¯ Carbon Copy - Full Text ¯ Editors, The Tulsa World ~ Why are we afraid of same-sex mar- " riage? Is it change? Without change, we ¯ can not grow. Why are we afraid of any¯ one or anything that is different fromus or our views? What would the world be like ¯ if we were all the same? ~ Marriageis acommitmentbetweentwo ¯ people who love one another. Single-par- " ent homes, illegitimate children, abusive : spouses, alcoholism, joblessness and : multiple marriages are aspects that are ¯ tearing the family and marriage apart. Please tell me where same-sex marriage ." will destroy the institutions of marriage _. and family. And is it wrong for a married ¯ couple not to have children and go against the marriage is for.pro-creation theory? : Heterosexual couples enjoy the right to ¯ tax breaks, spousal benefits, and hospital ¯ visitations. Same-sexcouples donot. Isn’ t ." this discrimination? Have we forgotten ~ about the Constitution? Doesn’t it give ¯ every American the same basic rights? ." When will the politicians realize they ." arenotsupporting every American?When ¯ will they realize they are teaching hate ~ and discrimination? Where is the love ¯ they supposedlyhavefor Americaandit’ s ¯ people?Whyhas the government decided ¯ it should dictate what our morals will be ¯ and how we will define marriage and ¯ family? ." We are all human beings. The hatred ¯ and discriminationhas to stop. I urge each ¯ of you to please look deep into your soles ¯ and bring out the love God intended us to ¯ share with one another and bury the hate. ¯ America will be a much better place. " - Lance Brittain. Collinsville something in terms of what else it is you want to ¯ accomplish. " The same thing is true of your personal rdationship. If you spend all your time finding fault with ", your companion, then each day will be a trial. If on ¯ the other hand you recognize what good things come from the relationship, and understand how " important that contributionis,thenyour daily inter- " action will become more positive and enjoyable. Don’t forget the reverse of that statement is also ¯ true. If you are doing some trivial thing which ¯ obviously makes your co.mpanion nuts, quit doing it! Making a concession m a triviality is nothing ¯ compared.to slowly poisoning a rdationship over ¯ sbmething which is probably of little meaning to " you anyway. Sit down in a quiet moment and start looking at your reactions to the things you experience each day. If you are spending most of your time being angry or upset or unhappy, figure out why. Is it that someone is purposefully trying to make your life miserable, or are you doing it to yourself? There was a time when the slightest suggestion that I was not competent enough, or smarL or clever or handsome or whateverwould sendmeinto ablack funk. Finally I ~at down and took stock ofwhat was rea~_ly going on. No I am not the smartest person in the world, but I’m smart enough: Yes there are some things at which I am totally incompetent. No, I am not the most handsome person, but then neither am I Frankenstein. What I lack in smarts, I make up for in common sense. What I am incompetent at, I make up for by being very competent in other areas. While I may not be Porno Star material, I have an excellent dry wit! Make your own inveiitory of all the positive things about yourself and recognize that everyone is deficient in some area. You don’t have to become a Saint, but if you will start to be reasonable about who and what you really are and quit trying to be something else, then life gets much less complicated and much more fun. Better than that, you will begin to feel better about yourself and life in general. Then you can start doing the things in your everyday world which actually make things better for yourself and others around you. Now here is the biggest secret abouthow to make your life more fulfilling and enjoyable. Learn to say, ’I was wrong!, sorry. My mistake, sorry!" Whenyou screw up,just admityou screwedUP and get down to work correcting the screw up. Fixin.g a mistake is much less time and energy consmmng than trying to cover up that you made a mistake. Admit that everyone screws up from time to time. Quit trying to cover up your mistake, or bludgeon someone rise for their mistake. If you fall into the trap of the one-upmanship game, you will regret it in the end. There is nothing hard about finding the enjoymeat in Life. It is only when.we set unreasonable expectations of ourselves and others that we make life hard. I had some very wise people try to get this across to me years ago, but I couldn’t grasp the concept then~ Perhaps it is only with lime that we come to these realizations. Or maybe it’s because we are so ego-centered that we can’t see the simple truths in front of us. I don’t know, maybe I’m not smart enough to figure that one out. But I have figured out how to be more positive about myself, about my place in the word and about how to get the most out of enjoying the word as it exists around me. I remember a short quote from a 19th Century Americanpoet, possibly Stephen Crane or Stephen Foster, I could be wrong about the name. I may have the exact quote a little wrong, but don’t miss the point. A man said to the Universe, "Sir I exist." and the Universe replied, "Sir, that fact does not createmmea sense of Obllgatton . Your exlsten is up to you to make ofit something. Youcanmake it negative, combative and endlessly hard, or you can make it something else. What you make it is up to you. Copyright © 1996 Gerald Miller Organizers and featured speaker at the recent fundraisin~g dinner are: Martin Newman, MarkGoldman, and[3ill Stoskopf of Black & White Charities, Nancy McDonald, of PFLAG, speaker Elizabeth Birch, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign, Kristie Suttee, Steve Wright, and Mark Wright, also ofBlack & White Charities. This yearPFLAGbeganitsSWANawards to recognize those in Tulsa who have stood up for fairness and for justice. The recipients are the Rev. Russell Bennett, pastor of Fellowship Congregational Church. His congregation has recently become an officially wdcoming one for Lesbians and Gay men. Eddie Faye Gates, a wall respected educator &writer is honored for herleadership ontheHumanRights Commission. Dennis Neill, an attorney, also served on the Human Rights Commission and with the ACLU and was founding president of TOHR. Lisa Pottorf of Youth Services was recognized for her heroic work with and for Lesbian and Gay young adults. Sharon Thoele, director of the HIV Resource Consortium, is known for her commitment to HIV/AIDS issues &THE NAMES PROJECT. That business successfully served the community for two years from a space leased from The Silver Star. The Pride Store will-benefit The Pride Center and HOPE prevention programs~ Director Peterson anticipates that the Store will be staffed by volunteers but that The Pride Store possibly also may be able to provide appropriate work opportunties for persons living with HIV/AIDS. Other office space will be available for seminars, video showings and exhibits. While not all details have been : resolved, it’s hoped that part of the space can be used for "_ Lesbian and Gay young adults who have few other safe : places to go. Pride Center organizers note that volunteers are needed for clean-up, painting, minor repairs to get the Center ready to open. Later, those with strong backs and a few vans and pick-up trucks will be asked to help move the prevention program offices. To volunteer or for more infolmation, call 743-GAYS (743-4297). is expected to lead to the legalization of gay marriages in that state in the next year or two. Civil libertarians have argued that " DOMA is highly questionable because marriage has always : been a state issue that Congress has never before touched. The ¯ Constitution’s "full faith and credit" clause makes it question- ¯ able whether federal legislation can impose such restrictions. ¯ Activists and several members of Congress were quick to ¯ criticize DOMA as election-year political maneuveringaimed ¯ at embarrassing President Clinton, noting that one of the origi- ¯ hal Senate co-sponsors of the measure was Bob Dole, the : Republican presidential candidate. Clinton drew fire from : rights activists when he quickly said he would sign DOMA - at ¯ leastas itwas introducedin theHouseearlier this year. But since : then, the measure has gone through several changes in the form : of a bewildering set of amendments. The capper in all this, of ¯ course, was ENDA, the anti-discrimination amendment that ¯ was supposed to be tacked on to DOMA by Seas. Edward M. : Kennedy (D-Mass.), James Jeffords (R-Vt.), and Joseph : Lieberman (D-Conn.). ¯ Inan 1 lth-hourmmof events, Senate Majority Leader Trent ¯ Lott of Mississippi announced that ENDA would be voted on : separately from DOMA. The eomplex political mish-mash the : Republicans and Democrats had made of DOMA and ENDA ¯ had created so many objections from both sides of the aisle that : Lott moved to extricate the two measures from each other. ¯ Richard Tafel, executive director of Log Cabin Republicans ¯ noted of the close vote onENDA, "I’his sends the message that : the 105th Congress will be ready to pass some form of non- : discriminationlaw to protectgays andlesbians." said. ’q’he real ¯ surprise is we now have 8 Republicans who support ending : discnnnnalaonagamstgays mthe workplace. We rebegium g ¯ to see what happens when the gay community works with both : parties. I’m sure we can bring on more Republicans in the next ¯ Congress, we had a couple on the fence on this vote. This vote ¯ proves working with Republicans instead of writing them off ¯ benefits the entire gay and lesbian community." ¯ MelindaParas, executive director, National Gay and Lesbian ¯ Task Force commented, ’~foday is a historic moment for ¯ lesbian and gay people, despite the outcome of the Senate votes. : In spite of the intolerance of many Republican and Democrat _" lawmakers, weknow wehavefinally broken the legislative log- ; jam that has blocked Congress from even discussing our civil ¯ rights in aserious manner. Weknow we will have tolose a few i votes.before we win the battle. We lost ENDA by only two votes. We know that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender ¯ equal rights have taken center stage in American politics, and ¯ we can never go back to the days of silence." Renfro was a founder and leader of FUSO, Friends in Unity Social Organization, Inc. a non-profit that seeks to educate African-American men of diverse sexual orientation aboutHIV/AIDS. Healso served withmany groups, including TulsaAIDS Walk, AIDS Coalition,TOHR, the Community Planning Group, Tulsa Pride Picnic and more. He was an ordained minister, active in his congregation, Bless the Lord at All Times Christian Center. Friends and family expressed shock and sorrow at his sudden death. Most did not know RFhad been living with HIV/AIDS for 10 years. Donations inhonor ofhis memory may be made to FUSO, c/o TOHR, POB 2687, 74101. At other events, they had the chance to meet parents of Lesbians and Gays. The task force for this issue lauded the leadership of their pastor, Russell Bennett. They praised, in particular, his balancing the need to push the church forward but without getting too far ahead of it as wall. The group noted also that Pastor Bennett had performed, with their knowledge, a couple of holy unions, or blessings of same gender couples. The United Church of Christ is the only mainline Protestant denomination that ordains openly Lesbian and Gay persons as amatter ofpolicy, and therefore shouldbe expected to be friendly to Lesbians and Gay men. However, in the Congregationalist tradition, it is up to the individual congregations to implement these policies and to call individuals to ministry. Fellowship is the only UCC church in Tulsa though there are some others in the staie_. Some members of Fellowship Congregational asked why it was necessary to adopt an official policy of being open and affirming since they felt that that was what they’d practiced all along. Other noted that in these days when politics and religion are so mixed togeth,, r, that their congregation needed to stand up and be counted. That is since so many ugly thingswere being presented in the name of religion, they hope to counter that ugliness. They hope that their actions will inspire others to have the courage to do something similar. Services are at 10:30 am. Info: 747-7777 of beer with Klein and falling asleep on the couch, Fleetwood awoke to find Klein ejaculating on his face and tee shirt. This was his motivation, he said, for pointing a .410 shotgun at Klein’s face and pulling the trigger. Tests showed that sperm found on Fleetwood’s tee shirt, confiscated the night of Klein’s violent death, "...could not have been that of the victim but instead was consistent with the blood" of Fleetwood. Newly appointed Eureka Springs Police Chief Earl Hyattwas aninvestigator withthe Carroll County Sheriff’ s Office at the time of the slaying and worked with Eureka Springs Investigator Morris Pate at the crime scene. If convicted, Fleetwood faces a five- to 20-year prison term for the Class B felony. Lesbians’ Killer: It" Was ’Hate Crime’¯ MEDFORD, Ore, (Aug. 20)- Rol~rt J. Acrement, the California man who is charged with the December 1995 execu: tion-style killings of lesbian activists ¯ Roxanne Ellis and Michelle Ab’dill, told " the San Francisco Chronicle in a prison interview that he killed the two women because they were lesbians, not in a botched robbery attempt as he had first claimed. Acrement also sent aletter to the Stockton (Calif.) Record telling the paper in the city where he was arrested that he had earlier in the year killed Scott George because themanhadmadea sexual pass at him. In his letter, Aerement, 27, said he Lesbian Loses Child to Killer Dad TALLAHASSEE, Fla. (Aug. 30) - The Florida Court of Appeals has upheld a lower court ruling that ordered Cassey Ward, age 12, removed from the home of Mary Ward,~her lesbian morn, andhanded ¯¯ over to the custody of her father, John Ward. . The father called the court .ruling a "victory for my daughter and every other child in this nation ffho may be faced with ~ being raised in a household in whichho- ¯ mosexual role modeling distorts.and per- " verts, or is like to distort or pervert,.soci- ¯ etal norms thathave been established and ¯ recognized from the beginning of eivili- ¯ zation." had invented the robbery .motive in the ~ : Mr: Ward was convicted of killing his slayings Of Ellis arid Abdilli who were ¯ fir~twffein 1974;firing.12bullets,during ,f,_0und shot througla tile head, b~.cau~e he : aright over their daughter. He-pleaded ¯ was nervtus about inmate reacti0n~ to. : guiity to.sec0nd degree~urd~ran~] ~erved my reason fbrkilling~’ whiehhe said was - ¯ .eightlyears.in.prison. - ~ . .. ~ . a "hate crime." - i ~ , = ~ ~ " The~thr~e-judge appeals_ panel ins~stexl Acrem~nt wen’t ori in th~ letter to say, " that its =decigionwasn"t based on mother however, that now he doesn tcare wha .anyone thinks - :inclbdingthe’ji~ that Will decid,,e his-fate~ "They cankilt me forall !care,. the letter:s~y~i ":/i" :) Neo-Nazi" -Judged Guilty of Murder HOUSTON (Aug: 29) = After deliberating fortess than 3 hours; a jury has found Daniel C. Bean, 19, guilty.of the January 4 kilting of Frederick Mangi0n~ merry because he was gay.~Bean, who pblice said belongs to a neo-Nazi group known as the German Peace Corps in Washington state, was found guiltt of stabbing Mangione 35 times with a large knife outside a suburban bar where they met. Evidence given during the trial indicated that Bean and his stepbrother, Ronald H. Gauthier, 21, both bragged to patrons in the bar that they were going to assault someone who was gay. Police also told the court that the two menlater boasted of brutally stabbing Mangione. Beanfaces a maximum life sentence for the killing. Gauthier is still awaiting trail. ¯ Mary Ward’s- sexual, orientation, but on ¯ the"best interes~ts of thelchild ’: Activists : -were quick ’.to point ,out,-howe~er, that ] Judge Joseph Tarbuck, whosetowercourt ¯ ruli~gwas beittg revie~ved by the appeals :. cour~,.clearly istated in hivcustody decision. thathe wanted the gift takenfromher . " .morn and handed over to heri convicted- ¯ kiil~r dad to give bet a chance to live in."a ¯ non-lesbian world.’" John~ .Ward ctiallenged the mother’s ¯ custody after.she applied for anii~crease ¯ in child support. Attorneys representing MrS. Ward have Said slle Will pr~obably ¯ appeal the ruling to the state supreme ¯ court. ¯ D.P.’ Benefits Come ¯ From Court Ruling PORTLAND, Ore. (Aug. 9) - AnOregon ". statejudge has given the gay rights movement a surprising victory in partnership ¯ benefits. Thejudge has ruled that Oregon ¯ must offer insurance benefits to gay domestic partners of state employees. In ¯ issuing the ruling, the judge said it was ~ "beyond debate" that gays and lesbians hav~ been discriminated against. Law- ¯ yers for the state and attorneys for the " three lesbian couples who filed a lawsuit ] on the issue say they believe the ruling ~s ¯ the first of its kind in the nation. ¯ State Rep. George Eighmey, who is " ¯ gay, praised the decision, saying "it’s a ¯ big step in the fight direction." But Lon " ¯ Mabon, the leader of the anti-gay-fights " : group the Oregon Citizens Alliance ira- ¯ ¯ mediately said the judge is "flat Out prohomosexual" and was trying to destroy ¯ the notion of family. The statehas 30 days to decide whether to appeal. ¯ SchOol Censorship i=. EffortsContinue : : -WASHINGTON.(Sept. 4).-According to ¯ ¯ the 14tk annual report on school, censor- " ship; People for the American Way says ¯ there were a record 475 attempts last year ¯ ¯ to restrict books, classes or educational " proced_ures that opponents claimed were .. too sexually explicit, too violent,too raciM,. anti-religious,, an,ti-family, ¯¯ .unAmerican. ~ or all these things. . A~cording to.the report, the things~bjected, to last year ranged from accep.ted ¯ classics inliterature to Halloween partles. " _In-.41% .of the,cases, .th6 rep0rt~ .says, : -school officials bowed to Objections and ¯ rembved matelials or restricted activities. ¯ The" report, "Attacks on the Freedom to, ¯¯ _ Learn~" cites-conservative Christians mid especially members of the Christian Coa- ¯ lition as chief objectors in mostof the ¯ . cases it reported on. California, which has the largest num- " ber of public school students of any state ¯ in the country, also led in the number of ¯ ¯ attempts to restrict materials or classes, with 56 incidents reported by the group. ¯ Carole Shields, president of People for ¯ . theAmericanWay, noted thatmany ofthe ¯ school.materials objected to mirrored ha- ¯. tional debates on issues, such as racism poverty, homosexuality, crime, drug and alcohol abuse, and AIDS. : "We must analyze this report and de- " cide as a nation: Will we bequeath to our ¯ children the tools and information they ¯ need to address these complex issues as ¯ they growinto adulthood?" Shields asked. "Or will our gift to them be ever-narrowing horizons of thought and speech?" California to Ban Gay Adoptions? SANTA ANA,~ Calif. (Sept. 5) - At a public hearing, the state department of social services listened to testimony on Tire 22, aproposed regulationthat would recommend adoptions in California only for married coul~les. Despite the ob_vio.us ¯ restrictions ongay andlesbiancouples the ¯ proposed regulation would impose, state Officials denied it was anti-gay. "We’re not talking about sexual orientation," said Janice Ploeger of the state health and welfare departme.n,t. "This has to do with marriage andwhat s in the best interest of the child." Butrights advocates strongly disagreed. Tara Rose,31, testified at the hearings on the regulations that she was raised by two ¯ mothers’, but adoption was impossible while shewasgrowingupand she sees the regulation as abig step backward in Call- - fornia. "ff we’re talking about-marriages -. only.that’s one issue/’ said Rose. "But this is’ discriminating agaiast gay and les- ¯ bian parents." ¯ The new rule could go into effect next -- October around the time partners Lisa "" Pratt and Julie Thompson .will be adopt- " ing a second child, six-month-old Katy. ¯ They told the hearing that they’re con- - cerned the child won’t get the same ben- " efits as. their daughter Elizabeth. Even if ¯ the regulation goes into effect, the final ¯ decision will bemadeby thejudgein each ¯ adoption case, state officials say. There were some6,000 adoptions in the state in ¯ 1995 according to state officials,andabout a fourtli of them were by single parents, ¯ straight and gay. :City OK’s $1.2 m for Gay Center : SAN FRANCISCO (Aug. 12) - The San ¯ Francisco board of supervisors voted : unanimously to lay out $1.2 million in ~ city funds to buy property for a 5-story ¯ proposed Lesbian & Gay Center. The P AlrERSON REALTORS~ LEA ANN MACOMBER Realtor Associate Mobile: 671-2010 2642 E. 21st Street ¯ Suite 170 . Tulsa. 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Earlier ¯ this year, the Southern Baptist Conven- ¯ tion called for a boycott of Disney be- ¯ cause the firm has recently extended do- Calif. County OKs ". mestiClesbian workers.Partnerbenefits to its gay and Intel Offers Benefits : SANTA CLARA, Calif. (Aug. 16)- Intel ¯ Corporation, the computer chipmanufac- : turer whose Pentium processors run rail- ¯¯ lions of computers throughout the world, has announced that starting in 1997 the : same-sex parmers of its workers in this : country will be eligibleforthesamemedi- ¯ cal, dental and other employees benefits : thatthe spouses ofits workers have access : to through the giant computer firm. ¯ The company said it had jbined with ¯ ¯ scores of other U.S. high-tech firms in extending thebenefits package to thepart- : hers ofits gay andlesbian workers to help ¯ "attract top talent and retainkey perform- " ers" in the very competitive industry. i HRC Fights Helms : DURHAM, N.C. (Aug. 24) - The Wash- " ington, D.C.-based lobbying group Hu- ¯ man Rights Campaign has launched a : campaign in North Carolina to persuade ¯ undecided voters in the state’ s U.S. Senate race this November to dump Jesse Helms. HRC says it will be operating phonebanks and direct mail campaigns to convince swing voters in the state to vote lently anti-gay memberofCongress. HRC xs expecting to spend some $220,000 on the anti-Helms campaign in North Carolina. Town Reconsiders Rights Measure SAUGATUCK,Mich. (Aug. 26)-Months after the city council tabled a proposed ordinance that would add sexual orienta- Dom. Partnerships SAN JOSE, Calif. (Aug. 14) - Following a tense, prolonged and sharply divided late-night debate, the Santa Clara County board of supervisors refused to bow to organized conservative religious opposi- ’tion andunanimously approved settingup a county-wide domestic partners registry. Religious opponents lined up to speak out against the proposed registry during the nearly 6 hours of public testimony, charging that it would undermine the traditional family, and said immediately after the board vote that they would launch a petition drive to put the issue before the voters this November. Nearly 2,000 people attended the packed board chambers, an adjoining auditorium, and spilled onto the sidewalks outside the county government building. SantaClara County, with some 1.4 million residents, is the home of many highteclmology firms that already extendbenefits to the same-sex partners of their employees. Approval of the measure makes Santa Clara County the largest government entity in the state to OK a ." parmership registry. "" : 2nd Church Calls ! for Disnev BOVe_ott though it’ s best known for its wholesome " family films likeAladdin, theWaltDisney ¯ Company is facing another threatened : boycott by a conservative religious orga- . nization. : The Assemblies ofGodis urgingits 2.5 : million members to stop going to Disney ¯ films, buying Disney products and going " to the company’s popular theme parks. ¯ ’tion to its anti-bias protections, the council has now voted by 6-1 to undertake the issue once again. The council voted to create a committee of 3 council members and 10 city residents to discuss including sexual orientation in its anti-bias protections and to report back to the council. Anti-Gay CO Org. Opposes Partners’ Health Benefits DENVER (Aug. 28) - Will Perkins, the used-car dealer and head of Colorado for Family Values which backed the state’s unconstitutional Amendment 2, told Denver’s city council that they shouldn’t extend health benefits to the partners of gay and lesbian city workers, calling the move an "economic jihad." Perkins broughtwithhim Paul Cameron, the discredited psychologist who was removed from the American Psychological Assn. forfudging statistical data. Even so, Cameron insisted studies he did using obituaries indicates gay~ and lesbians are high health and violence risks. A spokesperson for Equality Colorado, a gay rights organization, said Perkins’ group is a "fringe anti-gay organization" and said Cameron offers nothing but ’*oogus anti-gay statistics." The council will take up the question in a vote in September. Lawsuit. Follows " PBS/NPR Extend "Partner Benefits ¯ City Distributing Inc. : River City Distributing was targeted ¯ for the boycott, bar owners and activists ¯ said, because of Mrs. Shedd’s involve- " ment in Kentucky’s Eagle Forum, the ¯ anti-gay groupheadedby Phyllis Schlafly. : They also noted that Mrs. Shedd served ¯ on the state Republican Party’s executive ¯ committee the year before when it unanii mously passed a resolution in favor of reeriminalizinghomosexuality inthe state. In addition to the popular bars and res- ¯ taurants involved in the protest, the boy- : cott was also being supported by Kentucky’s Fairness Campaign, the Pro- . Choice Coalition, the Metropolitan Community Church and the Louisville Chapter : of Parents-Friends of Lesbians and Gays. ¯ Organizers said at the time that the , boycott could cost the distribution company as much as $15,000 per week in lost ¯ sales. Just months after the River City ¯ boycott was announced, Miller Brewing : severed its relationship with Shedd, who ¯ has also sued Miller. The boycott itself ¯ was ended earlier this year after the orga- : nizers declared it had been a success. : Now the Shedd family has filed a wide- ¯ ranging suit, charging the bars, restaurants, and organizations with conspiracy, interference with contractual relations, criminal harassment, defamation of character, and other aetious that the family is seeking unspecified damages for. ¯ Sucessful Boycott : WASHINGTON(Aug.20)-Without.any : ....... ¯ LOUISVILLE, Ky. ~Aug. ~u)-Aecord- ": f~a,nof~aar,e~,ath~e.,,C,¢li;ntototnoAthdemsianmisetr-asteixonoalarats : ing to a report in The Letter, a Kentucky ¯ ~_.~?,,~;.~’~ o,,.~,,,,,~ ...........~-,-~--~:----~..... : :y~,~_,,_.,,n~ v,~v~.,.m~- ,~yu,,~,,, : casting Svstem(PBS) and National Pub- " the state s most prominent conservauves . licRa~io~NPR),thefirstfedemllyfunded ¯ has filed a massive and complex lawsuit : againstnearly every gay andlesbianbusihess and organization in the Louisville ¯ areaover a 1995 boycott launched against ¯ a firm co-owned by the family with the Miller Brewing Company of Milwaukee. Nine local gay bars and restaurants launched the boycott in August 1995 because of what activists called the "right wing activities"of Donna Shedd, whose husband David was president of River ¯ agencies to offer such benefits. ¯ Donald Wildmon, president of the farright anti-gay American Family Assn., : immediately denounced the move by the : two public broadcasters as a "misuse of ¯ tax money". "Bill Clintonis willing to use ." tax dollars to support the radical homo- . sexual agenda and promote homosexual ¯ marriage," Wildmon said in a press state- . ment condemning the PBS-NPR move. St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical Church meeting at 7fie Garden Chapel 384J S. Teoria if" "flu[so., Oklaf/unna ~fass Saturday eveni~s at 6pro 7he ~,v. :Talfier Rick Ho~ngsworth, Pastor Ehe :Xev. Deacon Debbie Starnes (918) 742-6227 ¯ OUICK SERVE ¯ PATIO BAR Traci.Huntsman Owner "QUALITY WORK UNBELIEVABLE PRICE" FOR APPOINTMENT 743-7141 3225 S. 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The French scientists said that ff HIV replication in the body can be halted entirely through medical therapies, they believe infected lymph .node and other body cells will eventually be replaced by new, uninfected cells. The finding, if substantiated by other research, could be important because one concern AIDS experts have expressed recently is that even with powerful new anti-HIV drugs that appear to dramatically reduce infection, continual drug treatment might be needed if the virus cannot be entirdy eliminated from the body.. HIV Infects More Blood Cells LONDON (Sept. 6) -According to a report in the medical journal Lancet, researchers at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland have confirmed that a second set of blood cells - CD8 cells - is also vulnerable to infection by HIV and may play a crucial role in how the virus develops. It has for some time been know that HIV progressivdy destroys CD4 T-lymphocytes, the cells that the body produces to fight off infections. But scientists had previously believed that CD8 cells were immune from HIV infection,,,possibly because of structural differences in the cell itself. The Scottish researchers re- ¯-,~r+ however, that 5 of 16 people with AIDS that they studied had CD8 cells infected with HIV at high levels. The researchers said the next step is to discover whether the virus destroys thebody’ s CD8 cells or simply invades them until they become active later. British Rights Group Wants Aversion Therapy Ended in UK LONDON (Aug. 9) -The British say rights organization OutRagehas formally asked the Royal College of Psychiatrists and theHome Ministry’s health secretary to issue guidelines barfing the use of aversion therapy, to set up a board of inquiry into how extensive the treatment has been and continues to be as an attempt to "cure" homosexuals, and to offer a public apologyandcompensationforindividuals who have been harmed by such treatment, either physically or psychologically. The continuing use ofaversion therapy, often involving electro-shock treatment and psychrtropic drugs, was the recent subjectofaBBC-TVprogram and shocked many in the country who were unaware that such attempts to "cure" homosexuals were still being used, at least occasionally. In a letter to the health secretary, OutRage called the government sanctioned use of aversion therapy "scandalous" and"barbaricpseudo-medicine" that had "caused untold suffering and harm to ual~own numbers of gay and bisexual people." Twins Studies Suggests Genetic Factors in Sexual Orientation TORONTO (Aug. 12) - Researchers reported at the annual convention of the AmericanPsychological Assn. thata new, large-scale study of twins in Australia adds further suggestive indications that sexual orientation among gay men is in fact a hereditary factor, although it failed to find a similar pattern among lesbians. The findings were based on a study of some 4,500 sets of twins, fraternal and identical, in Australia. Lead researcher Dr. J. Michael Bailey of Northwestern University reported that about 20% of the twins studied identified their sexual orientation as other than "strictly heterosexual." Of the 312 sets of men who were identical twins, who are formed from a single egg, nearly half had the same sextml orientations. Among fraternal twins, who are from 2 separate fertilized eggs, having the same sexual orientation was significantly less likely, Bailey reported, saying that the f’mdings were "consistent with the idea that there is a male gene for sexual orientation." Although the study was one of the few that have included women, the researchers reported that they could not find enough identical twin lesbian sisters to indicate a statistical relationship between possible genetic factors and lesbianism. Oral Sex Riskier Than Previously Believed PHILADELPHIA (Aug. 14) - According to a study published in the Annals of Internal Medicine, University of Washington researcher Timothy Schacker reports that even people who are engaging in lower-risk sexual behavior are continuing to become infected with HIV. The 3- year study of 46 people found that while nearly halfhad had sex withjust 1 partner during the month prior to infection, oral sex, which has been generally considered lower risk for transmission, was the most common form of sexual contact among the patients in the research. Schacker and his ~olleagues in fact were abi~ ~6 ;~3,~’~[~.- cally pinpoint 4 cases in which oral sex was the only possible route of transmission. The report is the 2nd recently to indicate that oral sex appears to be a higher-risk behavior than has been previous believed. NJ Offers 3 Protease Inhibitors Free TRENTON, N.J. (Sept. 4) - New Jersey state health officials have announced that the state will make3 importantnew AIDS drugs available withoutcharge to patients who earn lessthan $30,000 a year and are either tmiusured or do not have policies that will cover the costs of the new drugs. The drugs include 3 of the new protease inhibitors: saquinavir (Invirase by Hoffmann-LaRoche),indinavir (Crixivan by Merck & "Co.), and 3TC (Epivir by Glaxo Wellcome). The drugs have been shown to be able to reduce detectable levels ofHIV dramatically inmanypeople infected with the virus. State health officials warned, however, that ifdemand for the new drugs outstrips the state’s ability tounderwrite the giveawayprogram, some restrictions - such as co-payments or deductibles - may be added later. The free ~rug plan is being paid forfrom the state’ s 9 million AIDS Drug Distribution Program. About 1,700 state residents currently getAIDS drugs withoutcostthrough the program. More Women Being Tested ATLANTA (Aug. 3 i)-The federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that the number of women in the U.S. who are being tested for HIV has been rising dramatically for the past few years. Between 1991 and 1993, the CDC reports, the percentage ofwomen 18 to 44 Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs 742-2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 1947 Major credit cards In-store charges or Direct .insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. Utica 582-7144 Utica Sq uare Area 1560 East 21st, Ste. 104 743-2351 The Plaza 8146-D South Lewis 299-1790 Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, TulsaF/4114 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 Art Show & Sale 10 am- 7 pm, Sept¯ 28 & 29 0UR HOUSE 1114 South Quaker Everyone is welcome to come and enjoy beautiful works donated by local and nationally recognized artists to help friends living with HIV/AIDS. All proceeds from the sale go to helping our friends living with HIV/AIDS. Forfurther information, call 665"-1339 / herry Street Psychotherapy Associates N 1515 S. Lewis (918)-743-4117 ~,ears of age who had been tested for the virus increased some 60% overall. The agency reported that a 1993 survey of more than 6,000 women indicated that 31.8% said they had been tested. A similar surveyin 1991 of 13,000womenfound .that just 18.8% said they had been tested at the time. HIV Programs Widespread in Schools, but Often Don’t Teach About Condoms ATLANTA (Sept. 5) - According to a survey by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, some 85% of the nation’s public middle and high schools teach required HIV prevention classes in 39 states plus the District of Columbia. That’s the goodnews fromtheCDCstudy. The less-than-good news was that only about61%ofthe school districts provided in-service training for teachers; about54% said they taught students the "basic facts about HIV/AIDS"; only about a third of all the teachers involved in school AIDS education programs said they had any training about HIV prevention during the 2-year period before the survey; and only 37.1% of the instructors said they taught their students the "correct use of condoms." In issuing the report, the CDC said one obvious and important area that needs improving in the country’s HIV/AIDS school education programs is increasing the percentage of teachers who both teach preventioninhealth education classes and who regularly receive in-service training on the subject. Younger Inner-City Women at High Risk for HIV Infection CHICAGO (Aug. 15) - Two just-published studies in the American Journal of Public Health report that younger urban women are at very high risk ofHIV infection. A Medical College of Wisconsin study estimated that about a third of all younger inner-city womenare at high risk ofHIV infection, mainly because of risky behavior like IV drug use by their sexual partners. The researchers also reported that while most of the women had a fairly good knowledge of HIV transmission risks, they were poorly informed about the correct use of condoms and lubricants during sex. Another study of younger urban women in the same issue said that high rates of syphilis among thesewomen who are drug users is an indication of the high-risk sexual behavior they are also engaging in. Both groups of researchers said HIV prevention programs aimed at theseinner-city womenare needed tohelp reduce growing infection rates. : ’Playboy’ Surveys College ¯ Students Attitudes on AIDS ¯ CHICAGO (Aug. 25)-A Haybo.y maga- : zine survey reports that 9 out of 10 college ¯ students are sexually active, that sligh.tly : more than half say their sexual behavior : wouldn’t change if the AIDS epidemic : disappeared, and thatjust over a third say ¯ they’ve been tested for HIV. : The survey, published in the October : issue of the magazine, reports that 66% of ¯ women and 49% of men in the more than ¯. 1,000 students surveyed say they wouldn’t : change their sex lives much if the epi- : demic wasn’t a factor. The magazine also ¯ reports that 39% of the males and 35% of : the females in the survey said they had ¯ been tested for HIV, and that 27% of the : men and 19% of the women said they ¯ knew someone with the disease. Some : 63% of the males and 79% of the females : surveyed also said they believe their ¯ chances of contracting HIV/AIDS was ". either unlikely or barely likely. The sur- : vey also reported that 57% of men and ¯ 71% of women said they had only one ¯¯ sexual partner during the previous year. ¯ The magazine also found that condom use appears very highly corrdated with a ¯ steady relationship. While 41% of the ¯ males and 54% of the females reported : being in a steady, monogamous rdation- ¯ ship,40% of these students also said they : do not use condoms. Only 6% of the ¯ students surveyed who are not in a too- ¯ nogamous relationship said they don’t : use condoms. : Psychologists Delve Further ¯" into Sex & Biology TORONTO (Aug. 13)-Dr. James Dabbs, ¯ a psychology professor at Georgia State ¯ ~Uuiversity, reported at the annual Ameri- : can Psychological Assn. convention that ¯ in studying testosterone levels of 28. les- ; bian couples,it was the sdf-definedbutch ¯ partner in the relationship who consis- ¯ tently had the higher levels of testoster- ¯ one, the "male" hormone that all women ¯ also have in smaller amounts. Dabbs re- : ported, however, that despite the higher : levels when compared to their partners, : none of the women in the study had sig- ¯ uificandy higher testosterone levels than : women in general. ¯ In another study presented at the APA ; conventionby RayBlanchardofthe Clarke ¯ Institute ofPsychiatry inToronto, aniden- ~ tifiable group of men are predominately ¯ or exclusively attracted to genital males ¯ who dress and act like women- transves- : rites or pre-operative transsexuals. A1- ¯ though Blanchard said that these ¯ "gynadromorphile" men he studied were ." sexually attracted to cross-dressers, they ¯ were not attracted to post-operative trans- ¯ sexuals - men who have been surgically ] and hormonally changed into genital fe- ¯ males - and considered themselves "bet- : erosexuals of some stripe." Ex-Boxing Champ Says HIV Not ’That Big a Deal’ : KANSAS C1TY, Mo. (Aug. 26) - In an ¯ interview with the Kansas City Star, "¯ former heavyweight boxer Tommy ¯ Morrison said being infected with HIV "doesn’ t seem like that big a deal" and : that he is not taking drugs his doctor has ¯ prescribed to combat the virus. Morrison, ¯ who has also appeared in a few films ; including "Rocky V" where he played a ~ featured role as a boxer, announced that Serving a Diverse Community ; he is HIV-positive earlier this year. AIDS FederalHousing Grants. WASHINGTON (Aug. 24) - The U.S. Dept. of Housing & Urban Devdopment (HUD) has announced some $7.8 million inhousing grants to non-profitagencies in communities in9 states that offer housing assistance for low-income people with AIDS. Community-based non-profits in Baltimore, West Hollywood, Calif., San Francisco, Savannah, Ga~, SantaFe,N.M., Tucson, Ariz., New York, Philaddphia, Burlington, Vt., and Seattle are expected to receive HUD grants of various sizes The federal funding was established in 1992 as part ofHUD’ s Housing Opportunities for Persons with AIDS (HOPWA) program to help agencies that provide housing assistance and related support service to people with HIV/AIDS. The AIDS Legal Resource Project by Darlene Shadid Being HIV positive means facing new challenges and new issues. In addition to the personal, medical, and other quality of life issues, youmay face extraordinary (or evenmundane) legal demands for the first time. The AIDS Legal Resource Project may offer a solution. The AIDS Legal Resource Project was created more than three years ago to empower people with HIV/AIDS with the knowledgeand assistance needed to maintain control over their lives. The Project offers free and effective legal assistance to those who qualify by connecting them to one of the more than 150 attorneys statewiad wh6 have agreed to serve on a Pro Bona Panel. Attorneys on the Project’s Panel offer help in several critical areas. Perhaps one of the most important (yet one of the easiest) is estate planning. For example, a Power ofAttorney can be drawn up which allows you to choose exactly who can make decisions about almost any matter related to your care. Other documents include an Advance Directive For Health Care (Living Will), a Final Will and Testament, and Disposition of Bodily Remains. ffyou have been de~ed Social’Security benefits, an attorney can l~elp collect the necessary documentation for the Administrative Hearing. In fact, havin an attarhey present at the Hearing increases the chances of being awarded benefits by more than 50%. We also give advice regarding other state and federal entitle- In the past three years, the AIDS ¯ Legal Resource : Project has provided : legal assistance to ¯ more than 584 ellents i with attorneys from ¯ around the state. i One of the recent i successes is a preee- : dent-setting ldwsuit ¯i in .which a FtIV n.ega- txve man sued : former employer after i being fired because ¯ his partner was HIV+. ment programs. We also assist clients who have been unfairly denied health, life or disability insurance. Informationis available onhow to keep and extend insurance coverage ¯ after work is no longer possible. ¯ If you are fired from a job, denied ." housing or equal access to health care ¯ because of your HIV status, an attorney ¯ can file a Complaint with the appropriate ," authorities. If necessary, the representa- ¯ don-will continue through the various ¯ stages of the process, including litigation ¯ and settlement negotiations. ¯ Family law matters such as adoptions and child custody can be handled by an ¯ attorney in that area when HIV/AIDS is ¯ directly involved. Finally, we can help ¯ end harassment by creditors. ¯ In the past three years, the AIDS Legal : Resource Project has provided legal as- ¯ sistance to more than 584 clients with ¯ attorneys from around the state. One of ." the recent successes isaprecedent-setting ." lawsnitinwhich aHIVnegativeman sued ¯ his former employer after being fired be- " cause his partner was HIV positive. ." If you are HIV positive or have AIDS ~ and you have a legal problem you may ¯ qualify for free legal assistance from an ¯ attorney on the pro bona panel of the ¯ AIDS Legal Resource Project. Call the ¯ project collect at 405-524-4611 for more ¯ information. ", This is thefirst column in a series writ- : ten to help Oklahomans with HIV/AIDS ¯ know and understand their legal rights. ¯ Starting next month, each column will ¯ deal with a legal issue related to HIW ¯ AIDS and will be written by a local attar- ¯ ney who is on the Pro Bona Panel of the " AIDS Legal Resource Project. Clinton Wows ’Em CHICAGO - This year’s politicking got underway in Chicago with theAug. 16-18 OutVote ’96. The Human Rights Campaign, sponsor of the gathering, called it the "first lesbian and gay national political convention." Just a week before the Democrats held their convention in Chicago, the President addressed the some 500 OutVote in a pre-taped video speech. "l’mproud ofthe accomplishments we’ve made," Clinton said. Tacidy acknowledging the sometimes strained relationship between Clinton and the gay and lesbian community, he said: "All Americans face a critical choice this Nov. I believe we must put aside our differences and focus on what unites us, on our common ground....in 1992, I told you about my vision forAmerica - a vision you were and are verymuchapart of. I’m especially proud to be the first president ever to endorse a civil rights bill that specifically includes gay and lesbian Americans." Community Events BAPC Quilt Performance If you missed this highly acclaimed performance as part of the Summer Stage Festival, you can see it on Sunday, Sept. 29 at 2pm at the Tulsa Community College, Southeast Campus Performing Arts Center on 81st St. near Hi. 169. Tickets are $S/adults, $5/students. Info: 595-7182. Wro~tling Enthusiasts Sought A wrestling enthusiast seeks similar individuals interested in forming a wresfling club for recreational matches. He is also seeking an experienced coach. Call Keith at 918-438-8340. Direct From Her HBO Special ,On Tour Fro,u Her Sold-Out P-Town Su,u,reer Shows! ALL blEW SHOW! IN CONCERT ONE NIGHT ONLY! SATURDAY OCT. S 8 PM 110 East second St. TULSA 5howAnd ticket Information: (91 8) $96-71 1 1 Advance Ticket Purchase Is Strongly Recommended Tickets Available At: The Tulsa Performing Arts Center Box Office Location And Al! Carson Attractions Locations A Portion Of The Proceeds Benefit Black & White Charities, Inc. TULS FAMILY NEWS COMMUNITY CALENDAr, SUNDAYS Agape Christian Fellowship Services, 10:30 am 6540H East 21th pager: 594-9692 Bless the Lord At All ¯ Times Christian Center ." Sunday School, 9:45 am " Worship Service, 11 am ¯ 262T0 East 1 lth 583-7815 " Community of Hope ." (United Methodist) Worship Service, 6 pm .. ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 ." Family of Faith Metro. Comm. Church Adult Sunday School, 9:15 Worship Service, 11 am 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 Metro. Comm. Church of Greater Tulsa Worship Service, 10:45am 1623 N. Maplewood Info: 838-1715 HIVMTOeNstDinAgYCSlinic TUESDAYS WEDNESDAYS I-HV+ Support Group ¯ Agape’ Christian : Free & anonymous testing " HIV Resource Consortium " ¯ using fingerstick method. Fellowship 1:30 pm . Service, 7 pm ’" WalkNa°prpeoteiqnsttiumngei:nrt7e-8d:3.0inrm :: 41 54 S. Harvard, Ste. H_I Sheridan Center, Suite H ¯ Results hours: 7-9 pm Info: 742-2927 Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay . Alliance. Univ. of Tulsa " 6:30 pm at Canterbury . 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 Mixed Volleyball for Fun & Competition Helmerich Park, 6:30 pm 71st & Riverside Info: 587-6557 PFLAG Family AIDS Support Group 2nd Mon. of month : 6:30 pm, 4154 S. Harvard ¯ Info: 749-4901 -" OTHER GROUPS ¯ The Technicians, Leather ¯ org., Info c/o 621-5597 ¯ T.U.L.S~4. Tulsa Uniform ¯ & Leather Seekers Assoc. ¯ Info: 838-1222 ¯ Gay & Lesbian Student Association TJC Southeast Campus, SWANI~2.."oS:in6g3l1e-7W6o3m2 en,s Activity Network Call 832-2121 THURSDAYS Co-Dependency ¯ Support Group 7:30, Family of Faith MC( Info: Wanda @ 749-4194 ¯ ¯ 5451-ES.Mingo,622-1441 21st & Sheridan, 747-2482 " ¯ HOPE ¯ Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. ¯ Bless The Lord At All ¯ HtV/AIDS Support Group " Times Christian Center " PrevHeInVtioOnu, tErdeauccha,tion ¯ & .¯ Prayer & Bible Study " Anonymous HIV Testing ¯ Friends &Family " 7:30pm 2627-B East llth ¯ Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm " " HITV/AIDScpaml,lSupp°lrotfcoatrion:Gr°up Call 583-7815 for info. ¯ Results hours: 7 - 9 pm 749-7898 ¯ Info: 742-2927 Alternative Skating 8:30 - 11 pm, 241-2282 $4, Sand Springs Skate Grief Group Buder/Stumpff Funeral Home 2103 E 3rd St. Call for time: 587-7000 Family Of Faith MCC : Praise & Prayer 6:30 pm " Choir Practice 7:30 pm : 5451-E South Mingo. . Call 622-1441 forinfo. : TNAAPP Tulsa Native American AIDS Prevention Project Support group for Gay & Bi Native American Men, 6 pm at Community of Hope 1703 E. 2nd 582-7225 or 584-4983 Tulsa Family Chorale Weekly practice, 9:30 pm Lola’s 2630 E. 15th PFLAG Family AIDS : Support Gl:oup ¯ 1st & 3rd Thursdays ¯ 4154 S. Harvard, 749-4901 ¯ Alternatives ¯ Weekly social events for ¯ LGBT men & women, 7pm Info: 646-5503 Substance Abuse Support Group : for persons wi th HIV/AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G ¯ 3-4:30 pm : Info: 749-4194 : SATURDAYS : St. Jerome’s Church ¯ Mass, 6 pm Garden Chapel : 3841 S. Peoria ¯ Info: Father Rick : at 742-7122 ¯ Narcotics Anonymous ¯ Meets weekly at 11 pm ¯ Confidential support for ¯ recovering addicts. ¯ Community of Hope ¯ 1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 ¯ NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt : Sewing Bees : 3rd Sat. of each month ¯ Info: 748-3111 Community Events Interfaith AIDS Ministries Old Fashioned Street Carnival I_AM will hold the 2nd of these fun events on .Sat. Sept. 21 from 10 am to 6pro .at SouthminsterPresbyterian Churchparkmg lot (near Concessions) at 3500 So. Peoria. JoinIAMfor this day offun for all ages. Info: 438-2437. Rural Men’s Group H.OPE,H1V Outreach, Preven’tion, Edu_ cation, is sponsoring social/discnssion group formen whohave sex withmenand who live-outside Tulsa. The group will meet the2nd&4th Saturdays each month, 7-gpm at the Gathering Place, 4154 So. Harvard, Suite E-3. Upcoming dates are 9/28, 10/12, 10/26, 11/9, 11/23, 12/14 & 12/28. Call Brian or Jeremy at 918-742- 2927 or 1-800-282-8165.. Tulsa AIDS Mastery Project This group will present Tulsa’s 1st Mastery workshop on Friday, Sept. 20 - Sunday, Sept. 22. This is anintense week- " end experience designed to assist those ¯ individiduals who have been affected’by " HW/AIDS tocome to terns withtheimapct " faaflc~c~!.l.flltaaetvoirrsuswhaeslcroamdoenitnhdeiivrliidvueasi.sTrlaivininegd ¯" with ,HIV/AIDS, family, loved ones, ¯ friends, earegivers, and HIV/AIDS professionals. The weekend is free because ¯ this event is sponsoredby a grantfrom the ¯ Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) but donations offood, beverages are needed. Info: Melissa @ 584-2325. Two Spirited Mens Group : The Tulsa Native American AIDS Pre- " vention Project is sponsoring a group of Gay, Bisexual or Two Spirited men f-or a weekly group to explore their roles in traditional Native American culture and i I~v~i~.g-heal.~y lives. Tommy Chesbro, " ¯ ~xx~ coordmatoreforindianHealthCare ¯ Resources Center of Tulsa, notes that the , : group helps provide peer suport forliving : a life in balance physically, mentally, " ." emotionally and spiritually. The group is ¯ open to men living with HIV/AIDS as ¯ well as those not infected. It is specific to men but Indian Health Care would like to , work with women also if there’s interest¯ ¯ The Two Spirit Mens Group meets on " ¯ ~W~ednesdays at 6:30 pmat Commtmity of r~ope Church at 2rid & Utica¯ Info: " ¯ Tommy, 918-582-7225, or write, ¯ ¯ TNAAPP,915 S. Cincinnati,Tulsa74119. ¯ ¯ Bible & Homosexuality Study ¯ Community of Hope will pilot a new interdenominational Bible seminar, on . Wednesdays from 6:30 to 8:30for4weeks beginning on Sept. 18. The study has been developed by the United Methodists Rec- ¯ onciling Congregation Program with " .Welcoming & Affirming Baptists, Dig- " nity/Integrity (Catholic & Episcopali~t~), " GLAD (Disciples of Christ), Reconciled in Christ (Lutheran), Supportive Congregation Network (Mennonite), and More Light (Presbytwerian). Leather and Healing Workshops The weekend of October 19 and 20 will be a busy one in Tulsa as lance brittain, Mr. Alameda County Leather 1994; H.O.P.E., formerly TOHR, and the Silver ~aaCh" le~,,der, w_ith special guest Duncan " rows, tools for application, the power of 19a9c6L. aAcms aGnu, yMBr.aldLweainth,earmutahnorToofroTnietos ¯ positive thinking, how to avoid the pitThat Bin.d, states ’~f you try to find your falls (New Age and otherwise), andmore. way in the SM/leather scene by yourself, The workshop will include meditation, you are doing it the wrong way--there is ritual, storytelling, group exercises, and opportunities for sharing. no need". ¯ ¯ The suggested offering is $5.00 for ~ikTehisw.whoorkasrehoipntiesrefostrewd timneonrancudrmioeuns ¯ reiaaclsh, winoforkrmshaotpiotno, caonvdefruwtuorerkwshoorkpsmhoaptes-, anout leather/SM. "It’s an educational but no one will be turned away for lack of oppormmty you will not want to miss. ¯ funds. It is suggested that the participants Whether it’s your cup of tea or not, the _bring a cushion for comfortable seating. information will be valuable for under- ¯ Juice, coffee, and water will be provided. standingthediversityofourcommunity,,, . Please free to bring a snack, pencil, or heralds Larry Everett, International Mr 7pa~p,er.t~F_or more information please call Leather 1995¯ "So co.~.~.,u.o.ut.an.d ex-" " plore with us", sa s lan ’+~-zv2/, 371-0496, or e-mail S " Y ce" " mrac194@aol.com. unday, .O,c,t. 20, Duncan Ma~c,,La,chlan will present ’Healing The Spirit ,. It will Dignity/Integrity of Tulsa be held 1-5pro. Duncan states, ’Native D/I, agroupforLesbianandGayCatho_ American teachings and other spiritual lies and Episcopalians will meet on Oct. 12, and then on Nov. 9th at 5 pm at St. learnreS°urceStolivehaVebettermUChwitht° offerHiV. USspirituawlaeS ¯ Dunstan’s Episcopal Church, 5633 E. 71 st traditions teach us that the source of all " TO National Coming Out Week ¯ h.ealin.g.is spiritual." He also asks, "What ¯ Oct. 8: A Roundtable discussion of does t!us mean? How can this knowledge "Sexuality: Nature vs. Nuture" 7:00 pmin ¯ be applied in practical ways?" ¯ the Chouteau Room of Allen Chapmafi ¯ Duncan is a workshop leader, group ¯ Activity Center facilitator, counselor, and educatorliving ¯ ,Oct. _9: Panel discussion concerning in Toronto. He describes his living with aoout Gay Marriage, 7:00 pm in the ~IV. since 1983.,asahealingandamiracle. " President’s Loun e, Cha man ,-, g P r~e is very enthusiastic about passing on uct. 10 (National Coming Out Day): ¯ what he as learned and likes to make the Unity Party on Sharp Chapel Plaza, TU Star, .Sal~oon combine community spun- " ~work,s,hop a safe andnurturing experience " Campus. All campus groups are invited to ,s°rsmp Ior two,, very,,different, workshops,. Ior ml participants with his warm and .a,tt.end and will receiv.e letters concerning ’~’Le.ather 101 and Heahng The Spirit" inclusive style. He does ask that all par- /~oth workshops will be held at 4f58 SI .ticipants wear loose, comfortable cloth- ~m~ event. 3:00 pm w~th speakers at 5:00 .Harvard, suite E-3 in ’The Gath~,q,, " mg and to please bring a small obj~t of " During Naffonal Coming Out Week, Place" at the H.O.P.E. and R-e~o~r’~C~’~a~_ pers,o.hal significance. Duncanadds, ’This " BLGTA will be taking donations in supsortium building. " womshop will be useful for people who ¯ port of Breast ~2ancer Awareness Month, ~ ’Teather 101" will .be held Saturday, " are affected by HIV includi,n~ caregivers in October. 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Gay Mecca. ofthe Ozarks by Phyl Boler-Schmidt " able, or you can bring your own. The Gay It’s Jazz Festival timein Eureka Springs, ¯ Family Reunion is always a fun event, a and the excitement is building as the 12th great way to meet and greet new folks and annual event approaches. This year’ s dates ¯ to spend lime with family toward the end are September 19th - 22nd, and both big ¯ ofthehectictouristseason. Plan toattend. name and local talent will be performing , For those of you looking for complete all over town. hair styling and other sa- Featured artists for JazzFest include Stanley Turrentine & Band, Allmad Aladeen & The Deans of Swing, Emie Durawa & Los Jazz Vatos, andGrady Nichols & Moment’s Notice. All will be performing at the Historic Eureka Springs City Auditorium Small clubs will host a number of local and big name performers as well, and nightly there will be a post-performanceparty at the top of the Basin Park Hotel in the ballroom. These events are hosted by the Eureka Springs Jazz Society and will feature performers from the JazzFest ticket. There is still time to get tickets for the scheduled events though JazzFest is always one of the hottest tickets tobehadduring the Eureka Springs season. For reservations and information, call the Jazz Festival Hotline at 501-253- 6258.-TheJazz Festival canalso bereached via e-mail atjazz@nwark.com. Complete information about the 12th Annual Eu- .--_~bo q.,qn.~ t.~’~’7 Festival is available online at: http://www.eureka-usa.com/ events/creative/index.html Also coming up fast is the annual Eureka Springs Gay Family Retmion, to be held this year on Sunday, October 6th starting at 2 pm at Beaver Dam Site Park. A canoeing event will be held that morning beginning at 11. Rentals will be avail- It’s Jazz Festival time in Eureka t.... year s dates are September 19th - 9.2nd....AnOther musical hot ticket hits town the weekend followina JazzFe t. The ~gth Annual Ozark Folk Festival comes to Eureka SprlnCs from September 96th- 99th. Ion services, we have a new family cutterin town. Tymythy Aieran is affiliated with the Holiday Island Hair Salon at 92 Woodsdale Drive and performs the full range of salon services - haircuts & styles, perms, color, manicures, pedicures, w.axin.g, facials, and ear piercing. To contact Tymythy, call 501-253- 9712. Another musical hot ticket hits townthe weekend following JazzFest. The 49th Annual Ozark Folk Festival comes to EurekaSpringsfrom September 26th - 29th. A full board of performers is scheduled, including: Peter Rowan, Townes Van Zandt, Joe Cart & Alan Munde, Crow Jolmson, Still on the Hill, the Jones : Brothers, Charles C. Hammer, Doe Broth- . ers, Jim & Kim Lansford, and Richard ¯ Johnson & Doug Reid. For more information on the 49th An- : nual Ozark Folk Festival, call the Eureka ¯ Springs Chamber of Commerce at 501- ¯ 253-8737. ]ae season IX wlaum~ u,,,,u, ..... ¯ biggest Ozark attraction of them all is yet ¯¯ to come. Plan to visit ourVictorian utopia in October to watch Mother Nature show ¯ off in all her spendor. There’ s nothing to " compare with the autumn colors in the ¯ Ozarks. : See you in Eureka! Exciting Reaching OUT to all People Rev. Clay Cody Sunday Services, 10:30 am 6540-H East 21st . pager: 594-9692 The fime nas come to ~ or ~onduct such cer- I " [ marriage._D~.et . .: ]~e ~ree to take posl- itspositiononotherre- | | tivities of me rtawan ¯ ¯ "1.1 li ons or on cmzens Supreme Court, same- tlon$ on issues l~ke "gi " " | " ¯ soon . . - followingnoorganized | / sex mam:a_ge may same-sex marrxa e~ religion." / be legal m that state. " ~ ~ :,, "tally there is a " The backlash against_ and the state cannot trom this, the Defense of portion of the Lesbian MarriageAct, willsoon require religions to and Gay community approve of or eo~duet such become law and will prevent other states from having to recognize same-sex marriages fromHawaii.The debate, however, will not end there. Author William Eskridge, a Washington DC professor and lawyer, has addressed the issue as aproponent of same-sex marriage. Hisbookexamines constitufional issues, court eeremonles. Butnelther can one religion force its pos~.tlo.n on other relldions or on clt e following no organized ren~on. decisions, the history of Lesbian and Oay commumty~ .-.reranstream" objections to same-sexmamages. Eskridge discredits many of the standard arguments agains__t. same-s.ex fiages, including one ot- me most popmar viewpoints which concerns the ihability of same-sex couples to conceive children. It is hard,to, dispute the author’s logic in this area: A state could and, to be consisthat also is against the idea of same-sex marriage, though not for the above reasons. They feel thattheimtitution of marriage is a flawed,patriarchal system that Gay and Lesbian couples should avoid. Eskridge gives a good overview of thesepositions, exploring not only the ,marriage- is-rotten" argument, but also the "alternatives tomarriage" view (domestiepartnerships) andthe antiassimilation perspective which suggests that formal marriage would "dedaw the ~radieafism of the gay liberation moveand has an appendix tiffed "Letters from the Faithful on the Legal Recognition of Same-Sex Marriage." It includes selected tent, should prohibit mamages in which__..,"..le.t.te.r..~..£.r..~..~...m....l.,.~.~ r~X-.V-~,~-d-o-~,~m~,u~, ~Or:bo~p~~r~~-t~rii~ qr-impo~ " inducting those representing Catholics, tent. If procreation is the essential goat ot Methodists, Presbyterians and the Jew.ish marriage, why should postmenopausal ; faith.Theselettersdefendsame-sexumons women be allowed to marry? Surely, discrimination against sterile, impotent or aged couples would be lmaeceptable to citizens of many different perspectives." The often used religious argument i.s also addressed. Eskfidge’s reasomng is that "state espousal of one religion’s beliefs risks state supression of another : by citing avariety ofreligious doc.u~ent.s. ¯ The battle over same-sex mamage ~ : sure to continue for years to come an : Eskridge’s book is an informative and ¯ interesting addition to the debate. Check : for ’q’he Case for Same-Sex Marriage" at ~ the Readers Services dept. of the Central : Library (596-7966) or at thelocallibrary. by James Christjohn " SUZANNE WESTENHOEFFER brings her umque brand of queer comedy to Tulsa 10/5 at 8pm in the Williams Theatre, PAC. An outspoken (no pun intended) Lesbian, her humor has a broad appeal (sorry, that one really w.as un~conscions). Her resume is ~mpress~ve, irqm her own ground breaking HBO show (nominatedfor anACEaward, thel~,mmies of cable), ’Out there on Comedy Central", ’mainstream’ shows such as "evening at ~,e Improv" & ’X~aroline’s Comedy hour , and more. She is hilarious, so this is the must-see for October! Info. call the PAC at 596-7111. CAROL CHANNING will be appearing in Hello Dolly! at the PAC 9/27-29, and trust me, this is a show that must not ben~,’_ssed! Forgetall the disp..~g~ng things, you. ve ever heard about tins snow, ana completely disregard any other version. Ms. Channing is the real thing, and this show is magic! I was surprised at how effective it was when Ms. Channing took the stage. Only one lady has the charm and charism~a to pull it off, and this is a chance that shouldn’tbe missed. Tickets: 596-7111. And Ms. Channing is as gracious & charming offstage as she is on! CAROL BURNEIff comes to town October 13 for a question and answer session at thePAC. I’m sure I’mnot alone in claiming that her show was a bright spot in an otherwise dark childhood/adolescenee. It was the Carol Burnett Show that fueled in me a fire to perform, and to take people out of their troubles, even if only for an hour or two, and make them laugh and think. Thank you, Carol, for the inspiration, the dream, and the laughter. GUYS & DOLLS will be presented by the University of Tulsa’s theatre department October 17 -27 at the Chapman Theatre. For ticket info, call’. 631-2567. BACP presents ’ffhe Taffetas" a 50’s girl-group musical revue, 9/13 - 22. Info: 258-0077 Andthey have a web site: http/. / WWW.Geocities.com]Broadway/1646 TheatreTulsapresents ’q’heTorchBearers" starting 9/20. Info: 596~7111. (Got that number memorized by now? I do.) 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Call 341. 686,6 International Tours for more information. IGTA member. Enjoy POPS LIVE! with the Tulsa Philharmonic on October 4-5, beginning at 8 p.m. at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. The concert features Maureen MeGovern. Hear this legendary singer with the five-octave range! Call 747-PI-IIL for tickets and information! by Jean-Pierre, TFNFood Critic ¯ pet peeves is a kitchen staff too lazy to Nested ataprimecomer ofUticaSquare ¯ remove the entire shell from the shrimp. next door to the Polo Shop is a long time ¯ How is one expected to gracefully eat a popular restaurant site, in this declension " dish with a thick sauce and an incomknown as Capistrano. Previous on-site ¯ eateries have included Santa Fe, French, plet,ely shelled shellfish? Does one dip one s fingers into the hot sauce to grasp and Italian cuisines, and those ghosts continue to the shrimp by the tail and haunt the current menu. It’s hard to categorize Capistrano, though, since it bills itselfas arotisserie .(a restaurant specializing in roasted or .broiled meats), but only has one rotisserie item on the menu. It bears-a passing allegian.ce to F~en~hfoods due to its close a~sociations with its Owner’s other Tulsa restaurant, The.FTe.nch Hen, but the preparattons are certainly not, French (of course, we’ ve also made that observation about the French ’HEn, but that is the subject of another review).. We can 6nly call Capistrano eclectiC. Ecldcfic might also describe the service here, too, though esoteric also fits. Certain customers and tables seem to get a lot ofattention, while others are left to flounder unattended. The al fresco tables are particularly a service wilderness. Some of the staff is definitely friendlier than others,and all of them seem to be lacking in training in the finer points of service. Our waitress was also totally ignorant as to the .preparation technique and Ingredients of the menu items. Nevertheless, Capistrano remains a busy restaurant filled with upseale Utica Square shoppets. Where to start? Try to think of every cuisine and every culinary fad item, and then expect it to appear on the Capistrano menu. Soups include a limed chicken tortilla, a clam chowder, and a soup du jour, which on the evening of our visit was a spicy tomato, which we found rather thin and tart. Appetizers include baked brie with sun-dried tomatoes, snails, and a brick oven pizza. Salads include the Caesar, a broiledmozzarella, nicoise, oriental duck, andalderwoodsmokedsalmon, plus a vegetarian medley presented on a bed of greens. The nicoise, duck, and salmon salads come in two sizes, small for $8.95, and large for $14.95. Pastas are important menu items, including fettucine ticino, a pesto, and an angel hair with salmon. We chose to split the fettucine Riviera ($12.95) as an appetizer course, and were generally pleased with the result. The fettucine was cooked to the proper degree of al dente doneness and was sauced in a rich and delicious lobster cream, redolent with parmesan cheese, and sprinkled with bits of lobster meat, scallops, and three whole shrimps. The dish was marred only by the presence of the tail shell on the shrimps. One of our Capistrano Rotisserie 171~8Utlca Square ¯ Hours: Lunel,, 11 to 2:30 Dinner 5 to 9:30 closed S.nd~ys .Cuisine: Eclectic Dress: ’C~uM Prices: Expensive Pa~ent: A~ ~o~ No~-Smo~ Section: Alcohol: Ratln~: convey it dripping to the mouth? Or does-one use one’ s fork, riskingmouth lacerations from sharp bits of tail shell, and then later gracefully and elegantly spit out the offending bits? This .wasn’t the first time we’d been to Capistrano, so we passed up the signature Santa Fe Blue Corn Plato ($9.95), the rotisserie chicken ($10.95), the pan grilled brooktrout ($12.95), and theloin oflamb daily special ($21.95). We wish we hadn’t. Instead, we tried theGuthriepanfried steak ($15.95), which is the Capistrano answer to traditional Oklahoma chicken fried steak. This "dish" was a piece of round steak served with new potatoes and sliced mushrooms, absolutely drowned in the most offensive brown gravy we’ve ever tasted. Flavored with Worcestershire sauce, the gravywas overpowering with the anchovy-vinegar Worcestershire flavor, and the taste would not leave the mouth, even afternumerous washings with the $6.50 a glass wine. Our companion tried the toumedos au ¯ poivre ($17.95), ordered medium rare and received medium and ¯ almost cold. It was a small piece of dead ¯ cow with pepper on it. Our dessert was a bread pudding in a : Jack Daniels sauce, which our waitress .- announced was a Jack Daniels "bourbon" ¯ sauce, even though our table all knew that ." only Bourbon County, Kentucky, pro- . duces bourbon - Jack Daniels is Tennes- ¯ see whiskey. But, good whiskey notwith- ¯ standing, thebreadpuddingwas dry, bland, ¯ and rubbery. We also tried the creme ¯ brulee. Creme brulee is a milky custard with a sugar crust that is caramelized and ¯ toasted under the broiler immediately be- ¯- fore serving. Our sugar crust was burned ¯ black. But, the underlying custard was smooth and very tasty. ¯ Ah, the sacrifices we make for our ¯ readers! This simple little dinner for two ¯ endedupcosting us $76. Wewere shocked and appalled. Shocked and appalled not ¯" only because of the price, but because of ¯ the quality of food we received on the night of the review. We’ ve never been so ¯ disappointed with their food before. ¯ If one is shol~ping and hunga3, while on ¯ the west side o[ Utica Square, stop in at ¯ Capistrano for a bite to eat. The outside ¯ eafe seating can be pleasant. Just hope ¯ that those legendary birds drop by laden : with cash. Black boots,jeans, black belt, tank top ." and armband, i am ready to go and the,¯ nerves are setting in. Will i be accepted? What will it be like walking into a leather " ¯ ¯ bar?Will ~bemovermy head.9"These are ° a few of the thoughts that raced through ¯ myhead as i embarkedonmy first venture ¯ to a leather bar. i knew i had to fulfill this " yearning that was growing deep in my " soul. Little did i know that i was about to ", begin the journey of my life with no , turning back. Upon arriving at The SF Eagle, i saw a : line ofhuge,beautifnl motorcycles, i never ; knew a sight, such as this[could get my heart to racing so. i made iny way to the : patio and all i could see was a sea of ] leatherdad.men. The day was hot and the ¯ air smdled of sweat, leather and cigars, i " was in heaven. But then reality set in. : What was i supposed to do? Look? Ap- : proach someone?i waslost. Thisis where ¯ my training began, i had foundmy home. ~ My family. ¯ Basic training taughtmethat not every- : oneinleatherwas intoSMand vice-versa. ¯ Leather relationships ran’the gamut from " monogamous with leathersex only, to " Daddy/boy or Mistress, Master/slav.e and : that these relationships did not always involve pain..Leather involves scenes " which Race Bannon, author of1~earning " the Ropes, says, a scene is a comblnatton ¯ of mental, physical and/or environmental ~ components, with an exchange of power . as a key element, thatmix in such away as to produce a satisfying experience for all participants. Scenes canhappen anywhere as the focus inSMis the mind. Sexmay or may not be part of a Scene. SM has been : defmed as theater, where you create your own fantasy and as music, where you ~ ..... create your own score". ¯ i learned about networking, negotiat- ". ing and feedback. Networking is about ¯ finding out who is safe and who is not, : building a circle of friends and acquain- : tances to help you and attending parties, : workshops and club events. Educating oneself is important and no question is ~ ridiculous. Negotiating a scene helps " both parties get what they want, feel each other out and not get in over their head. Feedback, such as safe words, helps everyone involved to know how thin.gs are going. Safe words such as red, yellow, or green can be used for checking out the scene, halting the momentum for a while, or stopping the scene all together. "Safe, Sane and Consensual" is the leather creed. Safety is of utmost importance inleather and includes not exchanging body fluids, getting to know your partner and not trying anything you are not ready for. Sane means trusting your gut instinct and not involving alcohol or ..... drugs as they can impair your.j.ud,gment, causeharmandincrease yourriskoI sexually transmitted disease. Consensual stems from all parties involved should consent to everything that is transpiring. Communication is the key. But most of all, have fun. Through my experien~s, i came to realize leather is lovemaking. It is safe and non-demeaning as it is a carefully ....negotiated, safe, and caring exchange between partners. Leather is not about pain, but sensation. Leather has helped me become a stronger person and to understand the true meanings of trust, honor and love. Lastly, leather h,a,s taken me to a heigh,t,. see lance, Mina ~pace, no. one, page 1~ World War II seems to be when leathermen emerged. The men, coming back from war, were used to strict orders of rank and respect; the camaraderie, and theman-to-manbonding in the absence of women. Some were able to adjust while others yearned for the unspeakable. Themenbeganhanging out at the shipping yards, loading docks, and the bars of the larger port cities. Soon, groups of men begancoming together and "hanging their colors" in their "home bar". Motorcycles came onto the scene largely due to the appreciation the American soldier~ devdoped while serving’in Europe. rBike clubs emerged and the followers came from far and wide. Uniforms had their beginning when themenwore them out to display their rank for those who understood their insignia and would give them the respect they called for. Between the 1960’ s and 1980’ s organization, less secrecy, and the leather network helped increase the growing numbers of leatherpeople. From the 1980’ s to the present the Old Guard, which is well defined, and the New Guard have been combining the two philosophies resulting in a stronger leather community. Fetishes and the educating of others have grown and brought about a more diverse and stronger tribe. SM stands for sadomasochism or the deriving of enjoyment from the infliction and/orreceiving ofpain. SMencompasses ¯ many forms. Pain is not the key clement ¯ here, but the exchange of power is. This. ¯ exchange is totally voluntary. It defines ¯ the roles and the relationship. The bottom relies on trust then expresses his desires and finally gives up his power to the Top. This exchange continues throughout the scene as the Top watches the reactions of the bottom. The bottomis controlling with his/her actions. Areyounow asking yourselfhow I take action with my curiosity? Joseph Bean, author ofLeathersex, describes it as: Taking action is like lowering yourself into a tub of hot water, one timid body part at a time, only to discover it Wash’ t all that hot after all. Sojustgoforit. Leatherlifestyles celebrate and affirm sexuality. Be honest andlisten until youunderstand the image! reality, fantasy/foreplay give-take flows. Also realize that you are play~ng a ro!e and wearing a costume. Leatlaerpeopie are playing their roles for themselves, for something powerful within and are looking for aproper counterpart. Please donot wear cologne, loud colors, use a loud voice, or disturb a scene. It is not proper etiquette. Dressing for Action is not all that involved. A tight fitting t-shirt, jeans, black belt, and black boots will suffice. Leather and accessories are expensive so play by the motto "Performnow, reward yourself later". Do not be afraid to ask questions about what is appropriate for you and your role. Collars are worn to imply that you are owned or taken. If you are not ¯ owned, but would like to be, thread the ¯ collar under the right epaulet of your ¯ jacket. ¯ Communicating with clothing can be ¯ misinterpreted. Please take the time to ¯ learn thehankie colors and their meaning. ¯ Do not mistake interests for requirements " and don’ tassume that yourmessages have : notbeen misread. Take all these things as ¯ points to be considered and discussed see lance, Mind Space, no. two, page 15 Do you live in a small town or rural area? Are you attracted to other men? 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If notjust for our health, looking our best can make an incredible difference in our own selfesteem and how we view others around us...in short, Gay or not, it’ s a must. Maybe you have never wanted to be a competitive body builder, but you may still want to feel better about yourself. There are a variety of ways to do that but this month, I am discussing one I truly have passionfor- weight training. Maybe _y.ou already life weights but you can’t figure out why you don t looklike that hot guy (or girl) dancing next to you on a Sat. night. Many times the difference can be narrowed down to a few basic points. 1. Lackofintensity. Too often, many of us just go through the motions of exercise without fully understanding the importance of intensity. I’m sorry to break it to you but weight lifting hurts. You must work out hard and consistently, pushing .yourself to add more weight while keepmg a perfect a form as possible. Intensity is simply trying hard enough. 2. Too much intensity & not enough rest. The number that fall into this category is significantly smaller than the previous one. Unless you’rejuiced to the gills (steroids) or on supplements, you’re not going to be able to work out every day of the week. Normal guys and gals need to Mind Space, no. one ¯ recuperate. The trick is finding out the right amount that suits you. For some, ¯ working out 2-3 per week is best. For the : more advanced, 5 per week is optimum. ¯ 3. Inconsistency. You must commit ¯ ¯ YOurself toworkingout on aregularbasis. If you make working out a priority, put- ¯, ling it ahead of social engagements, you ¯ will make progress. And if you’re only working out three times a week (5 max.) ¯ that lives plenty of time for other things. ¯. 4. Too much time on "shaping" exercises. Unless you’re a professi-on~l body- " builder, there’s little need to concentrate ¯ on various parts of the body. Stick with ¯ the powermovements like bench presses, ¯ squats, leg presses, etc. These are exer- ¯ cises that build size andstrength overall. ¯ 5. Inadequate rest and/or nutrition. If ¯ you follow all these tips yet fail to get ¯ ¯ enough sleep or you eat poorly, what you’re doing is equivalent to swimming ¯ in a cement overcoat. You must sleep an ¯ amount that’s right for you. Eat lots of ¯ whole-grainfoods, vegetables, fruits, and ¯ low-fat protein sources. ¯ 6. Rottenform and time in between sets. ¯ There are various ways to make an exer- ¯ cise easier. Almost all of them constitute ¯ cheating and waiting too long in between ¯ sets. Swinging a barbell up, using your ¯ body weight, momentum and maybe a ¯ ¯ eatapnltmaymakecurling aweight easier, but it will do absolutely nothing to make ¯ your muscles grow. Wait more than 30 ¯ seconds (45 max.) in between sets and ¯ you lose your fatigue/tension and your : muscles can cool down to where you’re at : the starting point all over again. ¯ There are plenty-of other pitfalls to ¯ achieving your best physical shape, but ¯ ~we’vecoveredthemostimportantofthem..~. : Despite the image that weight-lifters ofened awareness of my inner self and has allowed me to stand tall and be proud of whoi am. i would like to here your comments, .any questions you may have, or any subjects you wouldlikeme to talk about. You can e-mail me at mrac194@aol.com or write tomein care of Tulsa Family News. Mark your calendars for September 20. RonGreenwoodproduces ’q"he Mr. Tnlsa l_xather Contest" at The Silver Star Saloon. Until next time...... Author’s note: in the leather community Tops are recognized in upper case and bottoms as lower case. Mind Space, no. two with a possible partner. Here is a tip to remember: A Top flags left and a bottom flags right. You do not have to be all dressed and ." have no place to go. There are the bars, ." dubs, events, dub runs and more. There ¯ are many national events that happen annually and local events you can find out about through the local papers, the community, leather magazines, and the intemet. Always ask. The information is there for your disposal. The world is for your ialdng. Don’ t be afraid. Take one step at a time until you feel comfortableandremember, theleather community is there for you with open arms. This .tribe will help you with your journey. After all, we are all on this journey together. i aminterestedin yourcomments, questions, or topics you would like to see discussed. Please e-mail me at mrac194@aol.com or write to me in care of Tulsa Family News. In October i will be discussing leather relationships. Until then...Play Safe, Play Sane, Play Consensually, but most of all Have Fun! tenhave, they’re involved in a science, and if you treat it as such, you’ re likely to get the results you want. Stephen W. Scott, PME is a native of Tulsa. He is president and founder of Face Beautiful and FBfor Men, a Euroclinicaldayspaspecializing in treatments ¯¯ for the skin, body, hair and nails, located in OKC. He is also certified in Fitness, ¯ Nutrition, and Massage. Info: 405-840- ¯ 3223. How To Do It First 30 words are $10. Each additional word is 25 cents. You may bdng additional attention to your ad: Bold Headline - $1 Ad in capital letters - $1 Ad in bold capital letters - $2 Ad in box - $2 Ad reversed - $3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please type or print your ad. Count the ao. of words. (A word is a group of letters or numbers separated by a space.) Send your ad & payment to POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 with your name, address, tel. numbers (for us only). Ads will run in the next issue after received. TFN reserves the right to edit or, refuse any ad. No refunds. Seeks Similar GWM, I am Christian, 39, like movies, family, friends, ’quiet evenings, warm, considerate, friendly,always happy. Seeking lifemate for monogamous relationship with similar interests. Let’ s meet to talk. Rt. 8 Box 796, Tulsa, OK 74126 , Lifestyl Fgo S24,900 S400 8400 Health & Fitness Center ¯ Jogging Track . Lush ~dscaping ¯ Valet ParNng M~ble ~bby The Hying Begins Now. 4-10 West 7th (7th and Denver) 584-8400 1-800-327-0555 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1996] Tulsa Family News, September 15-October 14, 1996; Volume 3, Issue 10 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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April 15 - May 14, 1997, v. 4, no. 5 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Lesbians’ Kids: Just Fine WASHINGTON (AP) - Lesbians who become parents through artificial insemination are rinsing emotionally healthy and well-adjusted children, according to three new studies presented at a recent meeting of social scientists. Researchers said standardpsychological tests found no significant differences between children of lesbian parents and those of heterosexual parents. "When you look at kids with standard psychological assessments, you can’t tell who has alesbian parent and who has a heterosexual parent," said Charlotte J. Patterson, a University of Virginia researcher. ’°That’s really the main finding from these studies." The studies were conducted in the United States, Britain and the Netherlands. They were presented at a meeting of the Society for Research on Child Development. "Most of the children in the lesbian families were conceived at fertility clinics. Some of the children of heterosexual parents also were conceived at fertility clinics, see Kids, page 3 WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the AIDS Action Council and other DC based organizations praised the selection of Sandra L. Thurman as the new White House "AIDS czar." "’Sandra Thurman is a solid choice to take the Office of National AIDS Policy to the next level said Elizabeth Birch, HRC’s executive director. "She brings the right mix of leadership, political skills and commitment to the fight against HIV and AIDS.’" The HRC legislative director, Winnie Stachelberg, added Thurman has the experience to design and execute the administration’s programs in the changing struggle to end the HIV/AIDS epidemic. "Thurman was intricately involved in the creation and enactment of the Ryan White CARE Act in 1990 and its reauthorizadonin 1995," said Stachelberg, who is a member of the executive committee of the tunbrella group National Organizations Responding to AIDS. "She knows AIDS policy and politics from the inside -a critical combination of skills for this job.’" Thurman becomes the third person to hold the position known informally as the national AIDS czar. Thurman, a native of Atlanta, is past executive director of AID Atlanta, the Southeast’s first and largest AIDS service provider. Under her stewardship, AID Atlanta tripled in size, becoming a multimillion-dollar direct service agency with 90 staffers’and more than 1,000 volunteers, serving thousands of individuals and families with HIV and AIDS. TULSA - Jimmy Flowers, a Gay civil rights and HIV activist, livesnear Riverside Park and frequently goes to feed the ducks and geese near the 21st Street Pavilion. On April 14th around 1 pm, he went as usual, and after feeding the birds, sat to enjoy the sun near the cage. Flowers says he noticed-a group of couples going up to individuals in the park but that he didn’t pay much attention until they came up to him. He says that this group of male/female couples asked him if he was Gay. Not being particularly shy, Flowers answered tothe effect of’:yes and do you have a problem with that?" He claims that theirresponse was that"this is afamily, Christian park," that Gays are "child molesters" and are not welcome, and that he should leave. Flowers notes that he, as a longume activist, was not the person to whom they should have said that. The couples told Flowers that they would’all the police if he did not leave. Flowers said he’d love for them to call the police, and that he was proud to be Gay and see Park. page 3 Ellen Coming Out! Pride Center to Hold Watch Party NEW YORK (AP) - Ellen DeGeneres is coming out in real life, too. After a season of controversy-stirring rumors, her character on "Ellen" will acknowledge her homosexuality on the ABC sitcom April 30. Now, DeGeneres says she’s a lesbian, too. "When I decided to have my character on the show come out, I knew I was going to have to come out too," DeGeneres says in the latest Time magazine. "But I didn’t want to talk about it until the show was done. I never wanted to be the lesbian actress. I never wanted to be the spokesperson for the gay community. Ever. I did it for my own truth." DeGeneres admits being confused sexually as a young woman. "I dated guys," she says. "I liked guys. But I knew that I liked girls too. I just didn’t know what to do with that." The 39-year-old comedian says she quit dating men at about age 20 and recently met a woman she hopes to forge see Ellen, page 3 Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Marriage Update 3rd TU Film Festiv lll=i Oregan Ban on Marriage? TULSA - The Bisexual/.Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance of the University of Tulsa (BLGTA) is presenting the 3rd Tulsa Gay & Lesbian Film Festival on April 18-20 in’ Lorton Hall The Festival was originally ojoint effort of the then BLGA and Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) and Tulsa Family News. The films and videos for the first Festival in 1994 were selected by a student and community committee lead by Jason ~S,_n~_’_th of the BLGA and by Tom Neal for TOHR. Tulsa Family N ews was and continues to be the media sponsorfor the Festival. The original festival included 15 works that ranged from 1975 to 1992, and varied from highly inaccessible and experimental to very conventional styles. Two works by the late and acclaimed filmmaker, Marion Riggs, were featured. Most of the w6rks were from the US but two were Canadian. A modest donation benefitted the BLGA and TOHR. The 2nd Film Festival at TU was produced in 1996 as part of TU’s 2nd Annual World Cinema Festival presented by the TU Student Association and the BLGA. This event was free and featured film and video organized around three themes. The first n~ght was Gay & Lesbian History, see Film, page 3 Oklahoma City will host the 12th Great Plains Regional Rodeo organized by the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association (OGRA) on Memorial Day weekend, May 23-25. It features 2 days of rodeo at the OKC State Fair~rounds and 3 nights of parties and exhibits at the Hilton Inn NW. A ticket package is available for $36 which includes the competitions, a barbecue dinner, Friday night party and Sunday’s award ceremony. OGRA began in 1984. The Great" Plains Regional Rodeo was formed through the efforts of Kansas, Missouri and Oklahoma and held its first rodeo in 1986. In 1993, Arkansas formed the Diamond S tare Rodeo Associati on andj oined the Great Plains organization. OGRA gave over $10,000 to HIViAIDS organizations in the state. Membership is not limited to rodeo competitors. Members of OGRA participate in events ranging from campouts, trailrides, shows and fun fundraisers. For more information, call 405-8420849. Hotel reservations can be made by calling 1800-848-4811. The next regional rodeo will be in Kansas City in August. SALEM, Ore. (AP) - A bill that would define marriage as a union between a man and a woman drew emotional testimony at a legislative hearing. Suzanne Cook testified Thursday that being raised by a gay father denied her a proper role model and led her to a life of pronns¯¯ cuity, drug abuse and depression. "I believe homo¯ ¯ sexual marriage is detrimental to our society," Cook said. But Donna Saffir told the committee, "I am here ¯" .today as a very upset and angry mother." The legislation Is mean-spirited and a veiled attack on her gay son and ¯" her family, she said. "About 60 people packed a hearing room to listen to the first debate on the bill, -known as the Defense of Marriage Act. Opponents argued that under current law, gay men and lesbians cannot marry in Oregon anyway. They accused supporters of pushing the bill tO promote intolerance of homosexuals. Supporters claim to have : Tahlequah’s Stonewall League may be small but is enough votes to pass it through the Republican:con: definitely ambitious. They aim to provide support, trolled House and Senate. Gov. John Kitzhaber, aDemo¯ advocacy, outreach and education to Lesbian, Bicrat, opposes the bill, but it is uncertain whether he : sexual, Gay, Transgendered and Intersexual permight veto it. Facing the HIV/AIDS Crisis, a Callfor Unity and Action will be . sons. For now, the fledgling group has concen"The institution of marriag,,e is not under attack by the held ~n April 18 at the Rogers University Tulsa Campus Confertrated.0n ~Upport;and.q0mmunity building but they. gay and lesbian community, Said R~p. ChuC,k C~n:’ :~ ence tseat~t at 700 No. Greenwood. The Conference 6~ganized by i also hope to provide a safe space for you~ iidul~ ...... ter, one of three openly gay House members. "To me, ¯ members of Tulsa’s African-American community to address the ¯¯ whoarejustdiscoveringtheiridentities.TheI_~ague this piece of legislation is a mean and vindictive ai~ck.." ¯ particular ways that HIV/AIDS is impacting people of color, ¯ meets at a friendly religious organization on the But Sen.~ob Kintigh, said his marriage of 53 years Was ," .w.Qmen ,and yOUth wi.ll feature anoon address by Dr. M. J0ycelyn ," 2nd & 4th Thursdays each month, andis open to all s~dcial. ’The relatiOnship we have.i~ad ic~tdd:not::l~ : Elders,:form~rUS~urgeonGeneral~. :~ , ; i .= " ’. ~ : wh0silPi~4 ~he.g~lslofthe .League For informaduplicated by two people of the samesex," Kintigh Said. : The conference i.~ divided int0 three tracks beginning after:the ¯ tion, leave a message at 918-456-7900. ¯ welcome at 9 am: youth, general and clergy issues. A particular : goal of the conference according to organizer Beverly Benton is Hawaii House & Senate to get North Tulsa churches more involved in HIV/AIDS issues. ¯ And the conference is sponsored by. several churches: Higher Wrangle Over Marri ige ¯ EDITORIAL/DIRECTORY P. 2 Dimensions Family Church, Revelations-Revealed Truth EvanHONOLULU (AP) - The state House won’t budge i Tahlequah’s Stonewall : League Aims to Serve. HIVIAl DS Conference .... INSIDE- from its position that a proposed constitutional amendment state clearly that marriage in Hawaii t0be limited to couples of the opposite sex,H0use Speaker Joseph Sould said. That position stands, even if it pushes the same- sex marriage dispute into next year, he said. Sould and House Judiciary ConLmittee see Vows, page 12 ¯ gelistic Center, United Methodist Oklahoma ConferenceAIDS ¯ Taskforc¢ and Co.mm~unity of Hope, TU’s Canterbury ~,entef, Al! Tribes ~o.ring_mfi_’t3; ~hurch, as well as rndtiy brg~z,~tion~ ¯ from PFLAG to the NAACP. ¯ " R~’gls’~afi6iiincludes lunch andis $25 ($10/students). At 6 pm, the Gospel Fest AIDS Memorial Service will be held at the Greenwood Cultural Center. This event is free. Info: 622-6059 US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS HEALTH & WELLNESS COLUMN COMMUNITY CALENDAR ENTERTAINMENT NOTES BOOK REVIEW .... RESTAURANT REVIEW CLASSIFIEDS P. 4 P. 6 P.7 P. 9 P. 10 P. 10 P. 11 P. 14 Y �publicationare Protectedby~Sc~pyrigkt1997byT~F ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " N~¢and may not be reproduced e~th~t tn whole or ~n part w~thout wn tten permission from the publisher..Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that 918,583.1248 p~,rson’s sexual orientation. Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal fax: 583.4615 Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, Entertainment Writer: James POB 4140 Tulsa, OK 74159 Christjohn, Writers ÷ contributors: must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All e-mail: Barry Hensley, Dr. Mike German correspondence should be sent to the address to the left. Each reader is TulsaNews@aol.com entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional Jean-Pierre Legrandboucfie website: http://users.aol.com/TulsaNews/ Member of The Associated Press copies are available by calling 583-1248. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ attn: Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche re: March ’97 restaurant review When writing, your articles, I should think that you should add that your critic’s are based on a personal opinion. By not doing so you have not only insulted your hostess, in more ways than one but about 50,000 people that hav e eat (sic) at Molly’ s Landing on an average each year for the : last 12 years. Before stating how overly expensive you feel that Molly’s is, have you ever tired some of the other restaurants in the by Tom Neal, editor &publisher Tulsa area, because.you not-ouly.pay a It’ s interesting to watch the machinations of the latest Oklahoma City_ export that’s come to Tulsa.with grand ambitions - and grand equal amount for the entree, but you pay pretensions, but also with he-hum journalism and questionable business practices. Once again, some OKC residents have decided that they know what’s best for the rest of the state. Pity that we were just too witless to realize that we needed them to save us. Oh well. extra for the baked potato and/or salads. What we’re talking about is the warma-be Dallas Voice weekly rag. Unfortunately while they’ve mostly got the weekly part down, No hints will be given, because we feel you need the experience. they haven’t gotten the quality local journalism part that The Dallas Voice has provided for years. Despite claims of local coverage, If you did some investigation, I think their content remains consistently almost all wire stories. The slight local content is inaccurate more often than not. And Tulsa observers you will find that your beloved are regularly amused by the consistently fictional aspects of parts of their Tulsa calendar. Montrachet’s is closed because people In contrast, The Gayly Oklahoman and Tulsa Family News have provided consistent, serious and nationally praised coverage of OKC didu’t like the food. I realize that not and Tulsa news, respectively. And while we cannot speak for The Gayly, Tulsa Family News has always been run on sound financial see Spit, page 3 everyone has the same pallet (sic), bnt principles. While we never, ever will get rich, TFN was in the black from its first issue, there are enough people to keep a restaurant open that has decent food. Tulsa Organizations, L;hurches, & Universities Most people feel it a compliment to Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants 579-9593 Molly’s that people from all walks of life 832-1269 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 1071,74101-1071 *Bmnboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine 587-7314 744-0896 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 and every dress preference, feel comfort*Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 583-7815 749-1563 *Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center. 2207 E. 6 able and enjoy the same food in the stone *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 583-9780 *B/L/G Alliance, Univ. of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. buildiug, at the stone time. 749-4511 *Gold Coast Coffee House, 3509 S. Peoria *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th PI & Florence 749-5678 Molly’s was approached not long ago *Ground Floor Cafe, 51st & Harvard *Community of Hope United Methodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 to adve’rtise in you paper, I wonder how *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E, 31st 745-9998 585-2221 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 the critic would have read (sic) had we *Samson & Delilah Restaurant, 10 E. Fifth 587-1314 834-4234 doue so. - Molly’s Landing, Linda Powell *Church of the Restoration, 1314 N.Greenwood *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan Dignity/Integrity-Lesbian/Gay Catholics/EpiscopaL 298-4648 585-3405 Editor’s note: *Renegades Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 622-1441 660-0856 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo Several of Ms. l~owell’ s claims deserve *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 747-7777 *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard 584-1308 correction. TFN’ s restaurant critic works "*Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Free Spirit Womens Center, call for location & info: 587-4669 independently. A professional who has *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 585-3134 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 traveled attddined widely, attd who has Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Friends in Unity Social Org. (African-American mens group) visited nearly all of Tulsa"s better restau747-1508 Advanced Wireless & PCS, Digital Cellular POB 8542, 74101, call c/o HOPE @ 712-1600 610-8510 rants, he is well qualified to comtnent on *Affimty News, 8120 E. 21 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education, 1307 E. 38, 2nd ft. 746-4620 the ones he chooses to review. FurtherDeuni s C. Arnold, Realtor 712-1600, HOPE Anonymous HIV Testing Site, 742-2927 more. neither I nor any other member of *Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 TFN staff have ever solicited Molly’s Kent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 250-5034 Ixznding for advertising: We suspect that 838-1715 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood "" Ms. Powell may have confused us with 712-1122 749-4194 Body Piercing by Nicole, 2722E. 15 *HIV Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 712-9955 748-3111 ¯ l)dsa Kids or Oklahoma Family. And as *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 743-5272 365-5658 ¯ publisher and editor, l neither assign nor Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068, 74159 ¯ prohibit the coverage of any establish592-1521 *Creative Collection, 1521 E. 15 OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165,74157 ’. ment by this independent. 1 limit my edit-581-0902, 743-4117 584-7960 Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515 S. Lewis *Our House, 1114 S. Queer 622-0700 749-4901 " ing to issues of length and the excision of Counnunity Cleaning, Kerby Baker PFLAG , POB 52800, 74152 352-9504, 800-742-9468 587 -7674 ¯~ the rare, over-the-top c.omment. ThereTim Daniel, Attorney *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 749-3620 743 -4297 .¯ jbre, the suggestion that somehow there *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th *The Pride Center, 1307 E. 38, 2nd floor could be a connection between your deci587-2611 *Devena’s Gallex3’, 13 Brady Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 ¯ sionsaboutadvertisingandTFN’sreview 744-5556 749-4195 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria *R.A.I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 665-6595 has less than no merit. 665-5174 Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 In fact. there has been only one restau622-3636 584-2325 Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial ¯ *Red Rock Mental Center, 302 S. Cheyenne #108 838-8503 425-7882 " rant that refused to advertise with TFN *Elite Books & Videos, 821 S. Sheridan St. Aidan’s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati 584-0337 742-6227. " which has also caught the attention of M. *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston ¯ St Jerome’s Catholic Church, 3841 S. Peoria, 744-0102 749-7898 ¯ Legrandbouche. We were amused when Leaune M. Gross, Financial Planning 744-7440 ¯¯ *Shanti Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services 582-4128 " he gave a scathing review to this family Mark T. Hamby, Attorney .. Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati 745-1111 743-4297 ° owned establishment where we have ex*Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotlaerapy, 2865 E. Skelly ¯ Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, POB 2687, 74101 341-6866 *International Tours T.U.LS.A. Tulsa Uniform]Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 i periencedso-sofood, slovenlyserviceand ¯ gratuitous rudeness from an owner. But 712-2750 Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th ¯ *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule ¯ had he written a review singing their 599-8070 ¯ *Tulsa Community College Campuses Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 ¯ praise, we also would have run it, 747-5466 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 : *Rogers University (formerly UCT) TFNfollows standardjournalistic con592-1800 l~mgley Agency, 1104 S. Victor ~ ventions regarding reviews. The~ aTtic!es BARTLESVILLE 671-2010 bean Ann Macomber, Realtor Associate are by-lined, i.e. the writer’s name or *Bartlesville Public Library, 600 S. J0hnst0n6 - .918-337-5353 592-1260 Susan McBay, MSW: Earth-Centered Counseling ¯ pseudonym is given. Ms. PoWell tnight 584;3112 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 ¯ NORMAN want to refer to The Tulsa World for 663-5934 *Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 ¯ Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720C E. 31 example. None of their reviews note that .664-2951 *Mohawk Music, 6157,E~ ,51, PI OKLAHOMA CiTY "". "’-" - ’ "’- "" ¯ these are the personal opinions of the 712-1123 : *Nothing Shocking Salon, 2722 E. 15 *Borders Books’&MiiSi~C, 3209NWExpressway 405-848-2667 ¯ writer -that is understood. However, 747-6711 *NOvd Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard ¯ TAHLEQUAH 918 456 7900 ~ [hankyou for taking the time to share yoO~r 747-7672 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 .....:, vie~s with:out redders. - Tom Neal 584-7554 ¯ *Stonewall League, ~all for information: Pet Pride, Dog & Cat Grooming The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2nd floor th~ppy Pause .II, 1 lth & Mingo 743~4297 "¯ 838-7626 EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS 501-253-7457 -: *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-6807 : DeVito’s Restaurant, 5 Center St. Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 834-0617 501-253-5445 : *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. Scott Robison’s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations, 743-2351 501:253.;9337- ¯ MCC of the Living Spring Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921,.747-4746 501-253-’2776 ~ 749-6301 "¯ Gcek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 800-231-1442 742-2007 Kings Hi-Way Inn, 62 Kings.Hi:~ay .................... *Tulsa Book Exchange, 3749 S. Peoria 481-0558 Positive Idea Marketing Plans .............. 501-253-2401 *Tulsa Comedy,Club, 6906 S. Lewis 743-1733 501-253-8659, 800-624-6646 Rock Cottage Gardens Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling 501-253-6001 592-0767 Sparky’ s, Hwy. 62 East *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis ¯ �lasting relationship with. Asked about the Rev. Jerry Falwell, who resorted to name-calling in blasting DeGeneres’ morals after news of the upcoming on-air announcement was released, the New Orleans native said she’d heard it all before. "’Really, he called me that? Ellen DeGenerate?" she said. "I’ve been getting that since the fourth grade." In a related event, Birmingham television station WB MA, known as "AB C 33/40," decided that the lesbian theme of the show was not suitable for prime-time family viewing and won’t show it. ABC hasn’t heard whether any other of its 223 affiliates has rejected the hour-long special planned for April 30, spokeswoman Arme Marie Riccatelli. said.Thursday ...... Jerry Heilman, president and general manager of ABC 33/40, said the station tried to get permission from ABC to air the episode at 11:30 p.m., rather than the scheduled 8 p.m., but the network would not approve the switch. "Our stance right now is that we will not be showing the first episode. There’s a possibility we won’t carry any of the episodes in May if it deals with the same thing. We’ll take it an episode at a time," said Heilman. In its place, the station plans a special on an Alabama football coach. Other ABC affiliates that serve the major Alabama markets - WAAY in Huntsville, WHOA in Montgolnery, and WEAR in Mobile - plan to carry Ellen’s outing episode. "As far as we’re concerned, there’s no real decision. It’s just another episode," said Joe Smith, operations manager for WEAR, which is based in Pensacola. Asked about the Rev. Jerry Falwell, who resorted to name-e.allin ...., [Eflen] said she’d heard aft before. "Reafly, he eafled me that? Ellen DeGenerate? ... I’ve been getting that slnee the grade." . .i’~controversialissue advertising," such as abortion, union ~ssues and Gay civil rights. HRC says ABC’s stance on the Olivia ad, which would have brought the broadcaster ~;000, iridicates a speContrast that with a vanity press, held iogether with cific bias against businesses trying to reach the gay and spit, volunteers, prayers, and some OKC sources claim, lesbian market. "This discriminates against gay compa- ¯ the subsidy of a wealthy businessman who was gunning rues trying to reach amarket," said David Smith, a Human for The Gayly. Should readers care whether a newspaper Rights Campaign spokesman. Smith said he asked ABC’ s has sound financial practices? Only if they expect it to Dzodin for clarification on the policy, but was refused. ¯ last. In contrast to the newly amved, The Gayly has Currently, HRC is planning to air the ad in the follow- ¯ operated for more than a decade and Tulsa Family News ing markets: Albany, Albuquerque, Anchorage, Alaska, ¯ is well into its fourth year of giving Tulsa serious, Atlanta; Austin, Bismarck, N.D., Boston, Cleveland, ¯ sometimes-controversial, but thorough news coverage Columbia, S.C.; Dallas, Denver, Erie, Pa., Fargo, N.D., ." for Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals and Transgendered Fort Smith, Grand Rapids, Mich., Honolulu, Jackson, ¯ folk and our families and friends. Miss., Los Angeles, Madison, Wis., Manchester, N.H., ¯ And while we are happy to distribute TFN to other parts Minneapolis, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, Phoenix, ¯ of the region (we’ve just added Oklahcma City, Norman, Portland, Maine, Portland, Ore., Raleigh, N.C:, St. Louis, ..... Tahtexluah andBartlesville sites); we recognize, a~ SeriSan Antonio, San Francisco, Seattle, Traverse City, Mich., ous newspapers have for years, that it is nearly impos sible and Washington. The spot was declined by the network’s to cover competently a city in which one does not live. affiliates in Chicago, Colorado Springs, Eugene, Ore., That’s why TFN has chosen to cover Tulsa well rather Grand Junction, Colo., Houston, Knoxville, Memphis, than cover a region poorly. Nashville, New York, Philadelphia, and Wichita. By the way, the dirty little secret of Lesbian/Gay Meanwhile, ABC is attempting to fill slots that could newspapers is that the reason for "’regional coverage" is have been filled by such skittish advertisers as Genera] so that there’S more towns_ from which to suck out Motors and Johnson & Johnson, which have- in addition advertising - not because covering more towns can be to regular advertisers Chrysler andJ.C. Penney - decided done well. Just look at the consistently marginal quality not to advertise on the April 30 episode. Johnson & of news coverage in our "regional" newspapers if you Johnson’s competitor, Home Access Health Corp., has need any further proof. announced it would advertise its HIV-testing kits during Anyway, our advice to the wanna-be’s is: don’t give up the show. Microsoft Corp. plans to buya spot. ygur day jobs yet or at least, make sure you keep the In Tulsa, The Pride Center will host an Ellen Watch spouses who are supporting you happy. Party in the Pfimetimers Lounge beginning at 6:30 for the 7-8 pm broadcast. Popcorn and soft drinks will be served. All are welcome. but the studies also compared these groups with children born from natural conception. Though the studies found no differences between the groups, Patterson noted that "the existing body of research is relatively sparse and open to criticism." ~he said many of the studies are based on small samples and the lesbian couples studied often have volunteered for the research, which can affect the results. The studies involved children up to age 9. Interest in the development of children bona to lesbian couples has increased in recent years because more and more lesbians are choosing to raise a family, said Patterson. "There is a lesbian baby boom," she said. "’It hasn’t been quantified, but there is a general community sense that more and more lesbian couples are having children." Part of the reason may be that more fertility clinics now are providing services to lesbian couples, she said. These clinics hdp lesbians become pregnant with the sperm of anonymous donors. Fiona Tasker of Birkbeck College in the Netherlands said her study found that non-biological lesbian parents were usually more involved with the children than are the fathersof heterosexual couples. "The woman who is the co-parent in alesbian family is more likely to take a major role in raising the children," said Tasker. In a study of 15 lesbian couples and 41 .parents of clfildren born through natural conception, Tasker said she found that 90 percent of the lesbian co-parents assumed the common child-raising tasks. Only about 37 percent of the fathers in heterosexual Couples, however,, took an active role, she said. In disciplining the children, Tasker found, 60 percent of the lesbian co-parents took an active role, while it was only 20 percent of the fathers in heterosexual families. Raymond W. Chan of the University of Virginia said his study of lesbian and heterosexual couples with children included reports from the children’s teachers. Chan next was American Gay & Lesbian Experience, and the final day was International Film with works from France, Spain, Canada and India. This year’s event will show 10 works of varying lengths and origin beginning at 7 pm on Friday, 2 pm & 6:30 on saturday, and 2 pm & 7 pm on Sunday. (see page 11 for ad with schedule). BLGTA spo,kesperson, Tedd Adams, noted that the organizers had hoped to screen "’Beautiful Thing," a highly acclaimed~xvork about two teennage boys first love, made for the l~K’s commercial Channel 4. Adams noted that if they were able to get the film (which showed in Tulsa at Movies8 for a week), it would be added to the Sunday night program. Organizers note that Lorton Hall can be difficult to find the first time. From 8th Street and Evanston, attendees may go north on Evanston between Shaw Alumni Center and Twin Soutl~ Hall. Where Evanston dead ends sits McClure Hall ~or TU alums - where you paid those bills). Lorton is just to the left, or west. There is a very small parking lot and the screening room (#207) is just to the left inside the door that opens onto the parking lot. For more info., call Tedd at 832-7838. The network has received criticism from both sides on the issue. Lana Metcalf, a policy analyst for the Alabama Family Alliance, commended ABC 33/40 for deciding uot to carry it. "I thimk it’s certainl y a harmful episode and not conducive to families," she said. But the pastor of a Woodlawn church that serves a largely homosexual congregation said the show could offer insight into what a gay person experiences in coming out. "We’re very sad that ABC 33/40 will not show this process to the world at large," said Covenant Metropolitan Cormnunity Church paslor Margc Ragona. Also ABC rejected a TV ad promoting the lesbian cruisc line, Oakland-based Olivia Cruises and Resorts. ABC broadcasl editor Bob Reynolds said in a fax to the public relations firm that represents Olivia that their proposed ad had been rejected for use during the "’Ellen" coming-out episode, even though the spot would have helped make up for ads pulled by Chrysler and J.C. that Gay people had as much right to be in the park as Pcaney. "It is our position that discussion about same-sex anv others. lifcstyles is more appropriate in programming,At this point a bystander came forward and identified Olivia’s presideut, Judy Dlugacz, called the April 30 lmnself as Bisexual and asked if they had a problem with "’Ellen" episode "lfistoric," since it will be the first time a that? At this point, Flowers claims that the couples show’s lead character has revealed that she or he is backed down and said that they didn’t mean to do anyhomosexual. But - knowing that a large number of thing wrong but were just doing what their minister told lcsbians will watch the show - Dlugacz also sees a prime them to do. A local HIV educator who does some park marketing moment slipping away. "Here was this incredprevention outreach adds that in the last few weeks, that ible opportuuity for me to reach a group that often doesn’t he may have seen similar things going on at 21st and want to be identified," said Dlugacz, who has run her Riverside. While he hasn’t overheard-any conversations, travel and ~nusic co~npany fbr more than 20 years-: ..... he has seen groups of couples approaching single men "FED Inc., the New York public relations finn that who then have left immediately. handles advertising for Olivia, is now pursuing air time A source with the City of Tulsa, speaking anonyon ABC affiliates in New York, !~os Angeles, Chicago, said the teacher reports, ~using standard osveholo~ical "" ’ ~nously, noted that intimidating Gay people out of ~the s-hn ’Fraiici~co, Houston, Eiallas, Mimni and Seattle. evaluations, found.’!no significant difference" in ah~t-. " ~park is reprehensible but is probably well within the area "’Needless to say, it will cost ~nuch more to air the ad in ment or behavior between the groups of children. All the ~ of protected First Amendment speech, noting that there these individual ~narkets than it would have cost to air ¯ children in Chan’s study were conceived at fertility : likely is no crime involved. However, an area Gay attoruationally," said Bob Fitzgerald of TED Inc. It is the second time in less than a month that sponsors ,. hey when asked if the situation were reversed and Gay ¯ clinics and some were being raised by single heterosexu,~l people were harassing straights out of the park, comofa gay-related ad have had to shop it to local ABC ¯ parents and some by single lesbian parents. The reaffiliates after rejection from the national network. The searcher said his tests found no differences between the ." mented that he had no doubt that the Tulsa police would find a way to arrest Gays. Washington-based Human Rights Campaign wanted to : groups. "The children of insemination are developing normally whether in lesbian or heterosexual families : Representatives of the Pride Center/TOHR have taken place.an ad about discrirmnation against lesbians and gay when compared to the available norm for the community ¯ complaints from Flowers and encourage others with men m the workplace. HRC’s ad is aimed at raising at large," Chan said. awareness that job discrimination based on sexual oftensimilar experiences to report thereto the Helpline at 743¯ 4297 to help in tracking these problems. The Pride Center ration is legal in 41 states.But Vice President Harvey ¯ representatives also note that those willing t,o do so may Dzodin said that script violated network’s policy against also file written complaints with the Mayor s office. 7 �Firing of Anti-Gay Civil Rights Official Upheld cannot ask job. applicants questions about their race, ¯ sex, marital status, political opinions or affiliations or ¯ religious beliefs. SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A pul~lic official who ¯ Kuehl’s bill would expand tlgose,..prohibitions to cover sexual orientation. An ~lmost identical bill, "preaches homophobia" as a member of San Francisco’ s anti-discrimination agency is not assured "¯ also by Kuehl, one of two openly gay members of the Legislature, died in the Education Committee last job security, says a federal appeals court. The 9thU.S. Circuit Court of Appeals upheld the city’ s firing of ¯ year, when the Assembly was controlled by Republithe Rev. Eugene Lumpkin, who said he thought ¯ cans. Supporters suggested the bill would lead to ¯ homosexuality was an abomination and appeared to ¯ changes in school policies and attitudes that would help curb the harassment of students that are, or are endorse anti-gay violence. Neither freedom of speech perceived to be, gay. nor freedom of religion gives an appointed public Stephanie Reed of Petaluma said her son Robin official the right to undermine the tolerance his office ¯ committed suicide after being taunted by other stuis supposed to promote, the court said Thursday. ¯ dents while a teacher looked on without intervening. Lumpkin had the right to speak as a private citizen, "but the First Amendment does not assure him job ¯ "Robin did not commit suicide because he was gay; security when he preaches homophobia" while serv- ¯ he-committed suicide because he was in pain;’: she ¯ said. Another bill supporter, Michael Malcolm, a ing on the city’ s anti-discrimination agency, the court said. Lumpkin’s lawyer, James Struck, said he would ~ high school vice principal from"Union City, said probably appeal further. "This opinion shows com- ¯ schools must provide a safe learning environment. plete intolerance for religious beliefs that are widely ¯ "Our district adopted a non-discrimination policy," ¯ held," said Struck, of the Rutherford Institute, a ¯ he said. "I believe our campus is a different place because of the change in policy." conservative religious-liberties organization. He said Opponents claimed the bill could be used to silence Lumpkin did not support anti-gay violence and held ¯ views no different from those of orthodox Catholics, ¯¯ criticism of homosexuality. "(The bill) is not about discrimination; it’s about letting one group of people Muslims and Jews. "Now the 9th Circuit has painted all those people as homophobes," Struck said. ~ bring their personal agenda into the classroom and Lumpkin, a pastor appointed to the commission by ¯ tell students that the homosexuallifestyle is all right," then-Mayor Frank Jordan, was fired by Jordan in ¯ said Herbert Hall of Garden Grove, who said he was a former homosexual. "This is a cunning political 1993 after a furor over his public comments about attack that uses children as pawns," added a witness. homosexuals. "The homosexual lifestyle is an abomination against God," Lumpkin said. "So I have to ¯ who identified himself only as Mark and who also said he used to be gay. Other opponents said the preach that homosexuality is a sin." He also said he believed "everything the Bible sayeth." Asked by a : measure could prevent private schools that discrimitelevision interviewer.about a statement in Leviticus ¯ nated against homosexuals from playing public schools in athletics, and Assemblyman George House that a man who-slept with a man should be put to ¯ contended the bill would lead to a "massive boycott death, Lumpkin said, "That’s what God sayeth." ¯ of public schools." Kuehl suggested the opponents’ Jordan, in announcing the firing, said Lumpkin had the right to his religious beliefs but had "crossed the ¯ fears were unfounded. "This bill does not do anything .line from belief-to behavior to advocacy" and "im- ¯ but bar discrimination by public educational institu¯ plied that he condoned physical harm." San Francisco ¯ tions against their own students on bases that do not relate to their merit," she said. supervisors backed the firing. Lumpkin’s lawsuit, claiming violatidns of his constitutional rights, was dismissed by U~S. District Judge Fern Smith. The appeals court upheld her decision in a 3-0 ruling. The court cited the Human Rights Commission’s official responsibilities, "to eliminate prejudice and ~ PLYMOUTH, N.H. (AP) - Several years ago, Plydiscrimination" based on race, religion, sex, sexual . mouth State College junior Judy Pich was attacked by orientation and other grounds, and to promote "equal ¯ a man who punched, kicked and spit on her while opportunity for and good will toward all people." ¯ calling her names like "queer" and "dyke." When she Lumpkin’s statements "are not simply hostile to the tried to talk about the incident with her peers, she"-felt commission’ s charge, they are at war with it," said the ¯¯ more like an offender than a victim," Pich said. opinion by Judge William Norris. ¯ "There are good people and there are bad people, but "Neither the First Amendment nor the Religious ¯ everyone is at fault because the good people don’t do Freedom Restoration Act (a 1993 federal law) re¯ anything about it. Peoplehave to breakthe silence and quires government at any level to put up with policy- ¯ ignorance." level officials who work at cross-purposes with the ¯ Pich told her story to the 2,000 students, faculty, policies they are responsible for carrying out." Deputy [ staff and alumni who turned out Wednesday for an City Attorney Burk Delventhal said the court en¯ emergency "Forum on Hate" organized by the school’ s dorsed the city’s argument that "when a person ac- ¯ Task Force on Homophobia. The forum was held in cepts public office, his ability to engage in what might ~eaction to an incident involving another fema!e otherwise be protected speech is limited to the extent ¯ student, who said she was attacked by two men in ¯ necessary to enable the person to discharge his public ¯ March.. The woman, whose identity has not been duties." revealed, told campus police the two men punched ¯ her and urinated on her face after calling hera lesbian ¯ and telling her she "had no right tobe allowed to be ¯ walking around the world." Plymouth police Chief Tony Raymond said even SACRAMENTO (AP) - Public schools and colleges ¯ though the girl has decided she does not want to couldn’t discriminate against students and employ- ¯ pursue the case, the investigation will continue; The ees because of;their, sexual orientation, under-a bill ¯ student government is offering $500 for.information ¯ that passed an Assembly test without a vote to spare. ¯ about the attackers. While some students who turned out at the forum said they were shocked that a hate The measure by Assemblywoman Shelia Kuehl, DSanta Monica, cleared the 21-member Education ¯ crime occurred on the campus, many said milder ¯ incidents of intolerance, suqh ~s .name-.calling and Committee On Wednes-di~y with a bare. maj ority of 1 ¯ votes after stalling for several hours, one vote short. ¯ telling derogatory jokes, happen all the time. Many said they were ready to tackle the problem and try to The bill now moves to the Appropriations Commit¯ solve it. "We need to look out for each other and not tee, the last stop before the Assembly floor. Current law bars public schools and colleges from ¯ stand idly by while these things happen around us," ¯ discriminating on the basis of race or gender in their ¯ junior Mike Heber said. "We need to take responsibility for the safety of each other." programs, admissions, hiring or financial aid. In Several people pointed out that alcohol is often a some instances, the anti-discrimination ban also cov- ¯ ers religion, disabilities, age, and national origin. ¯¯ factor of violent crime. College President Donald Schools can’t use instructional materials that reflect ¯ Wharton railed against bar owners he said encourage drunkenness and even sexual assault with such proadversely on people because of their race, creed, motions as ladies’ nights, where women drink for national origin,.ancestry, gender, disability or occupation. In.addition, school personnel commissions ¯ free, and tan-line contests. But many students said ¯ CA School Protections BillWins CommitteeVote NH Students Denounce University Violence St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical Church meeting at The Garden Chapel 3841 S.~Peoria ¯ Tu~a, Ok~unna Mass Saturday eves at:6pm Fath~" R~k Hoa~ng~wm~ Pastor B~,v. 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"I don’t drink a six-pack and say ’I hate that guy bee-~s’~6’tae’s ghy,"’ sophomore ¯ John McKittrick said. "A drunken man’s words are BOZEMAN (AP) - Despite protests from about 200 sober man’s thoughts. I think we need to go after the ¯ people, Bozeman city commissioners unanimously people who did this." ¯ approved apermit for a gay pride parade this summer, ¯ saying they had no choice. "If we didn’t, it’s discrimi¯ nation," Mayor Don Stueck said after the 5-0 vote. ~ Stueck said the city’s attorney, PaulLuwe, had warned AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) - Jbel Abromson and ¯ that if the commission banned this parade, it would Michael Quint come from different backgrounds and ¯ have to cancel all parades, including the Sweet Pea even represent opposite parties in the Legislature, but ¯ and Montana State University homecoming parades. they.say they share one thing in common: discriminaStacey Haugland, a Pride member who attended tion. Abromson, who recalls the prejudice he endured ¯ Monday’s meeting, said she was pleased by the vote. ¯ growing upJewishdnMaine,ds sponsoring a~bill..that ’- Pride’has-been a:’~r~al’respectfUl ~bn~m~n~ity gtot~p," could help Quint and others like him who say their ¯ Haugland.said. "I donrt think the people have anyhomosexuality makes them second-class citizens ~ thing to fear from the parade." The Pride Weekend is when it comes to housing and other rights; "Discrimiplanned June 6-8 at the Emerson Cultural Center to nation happens every single day," said Quint, a Demo- ¯¯ celebrate gays, lesbians and bisexuals living in Moncratic representative from Portland. "I know because ¯ tana. Three annual weekends have been held before in I have seen it, I have experienced it and still carry other Montana cities. around with me the expectation, even the fear of it Raven Kargel of Belgrade, who organized an antibecause I know it could happen anytime." . gay march in Bozeman two years ago, said the city About 500 people attended a public hearing on the ¯ really didn’t have a choice because it would have bill held by the Legislature’ s Judiciary Committee. A ¯ been sued by Pride if commissioners rejected the similar bill passed both the House and Senate four "sodomites"’ parade. People who oppose homosexuyears ago, but was vetoed by then-Gov. John ¯ ality, she said, may raise money to sue the city McKernan. But Gov. Angus King supports the legisthemselves. "I think it would be better to boycott the lation, which would extend to all citizens, no matter ¯ city," specifically downtown, Kargel said. "People their sexual orientation, the same civil rights guaranwho don’t want to see people bragging about bi:eakteed regardless of race, color, religion, sex, age, ¯ ing the law need to boycott." KGVW, a Christian ¯ national origin and physical or mental handicap. ¯ radio station based in Belgrade, had urged listeners to Discrimination in the areas of employment, housing, call Bozeman City Hall to protest the parade, and that public accommodations and credit would be prohib- ~ prompted about 200 phone calls from around the ¯ ited. ¯ Gallatin Valley. "It is like inviting leprosy into the Abromson, a Republican senator from Portland, ¯ community," one caller said. recalled his own personal experiences as a Jewish man growing up in Maine, and how he was called a "dirty Jew" and a "Christ killer." As a student at Bowdoin College in the late 1950s, the Portland Republican said he saw fraternities deny invitations ST. LOUIS (AP) - A father who lo~t custody of two to Jews and blacks. Later, during a tour of the infamous Auschwitz concentration camp in Poland, ¯ song after undergoing a sex change operation says she Abromson said he learned theNazis tried tb extermi- ¯ plans toask an appeals court to reconsider its ruling. nate not only Jews, but gays, Gypsies and Slavs, as ¯ "There are things only a parent can provide," the well. Abromson said his bill "ends forever any simi- ¯ father, now known as Sharon, told the St. Louis Postlarity between the Nuremberg laws (legitimizing " Dispatch. "That is unconditional love, guidance and anti-semitism) of 1930s Germany and state laws of ~ wisdom. There is no reason I can’t give that to my 1990s Maine. This bill is that important." kids." The bill’s most vocal foe is Concerned Maine ¯ Sharon, 38, is a graduate of the Air Force Academy Families, an anti-gay rights group which calls the ¯ and a former officer in the Air Force and Army. She has had no direct contact with the boys since late proposal a "jobs bill for gays." The organization’s leaders have warned the bill would give special job ¯ 1992. Sharon said that the children - now 7 and 10 advantages to anyone claiming to be gay or perceived ¯ needed both their parents. She plans to ask the Mis¯ souri Court of Appeals in St. Louis to reconsider its as gay. Many at the hearing held signs that said, "Stop the Special Jobs Bill for Gays" and "Equality for ME. ¯ March 11 decision giving the boys’ mother sole legal The way life should be." "The effects of this mandate ¯ custody. on small business will be burdensome, unjust, unen- ¯ Hundreds of battles similar to Sharon’s are waged forceable and will heighten the unfriendly business ~ nationwide each year, but nearly all are fought outclimate that we must already tolerate in the state of . side public view, a national advocate for transsexuals Maine," said Randall Clark of Cape Elizabeth, presi- ¯ said."Mostcasesdon.t&splaythecourageofSharon,’ " dent of Small BusinesS Benefits Inc. and leader of the ~ who was willing to go public;" said Riki Anne CMF!s 1,200-member Business Advisory Board. ¯ Wilchins, executive director of Gender Public Advo. Rod Smith of Buxton told the committee he was ¯ cacy Coalition, or Gender PAC, in New York. Such fired from his job as a nursing assistant in Lewiston ¯ custody battles are seldom conducted "on a level last January because he was gay. Another gay man, ¯ playing field," she said. "Usually, the mode of attack Guy Riddick of South Portland, said several land- ¯ ~s to portray the transgender parent as, bydefinition, lords in Gorham, Westb.rook and Scarborough told- ¯ deviant and anendangerment to their own kids, even him and his male partner last year they did not rent to ¯ in the absence bf any evidence to support the claim." homosexuals. A landlord in POrtland also refused, but ~ In Sharon’s ’case; -the appeals ’courtin St:Louis because that city has an ordinance protecting homo- ¯ ruled that a St. Charles County Circuit Court judge sexuals from housing discrimination, the couple was ¯ must decide whether visits with Sharon would be in ¯ the boys’ best interest. The appeals rulingo overturned able to sue, Riddick said. In 1995, Maine voters rejected a ballot question by ¯ ajoint-custody decision by anotherjudgein St. Charles Concerned Maine Families to restrict gay civil rights, ¯ County where the boys’ mother lives. 53 percent to 47 percent. Civil rights advocates are ¯ "If you asked them, I know they would want to talk cormng off a recent loss over same-sex marriages. ¯ with me," Sharon said. "I have never, ever presented The Legislature last month approved a ban on gay ~ myself to my children.as anything other than their ¯ marriages, making Maine the 18th state [o do so. King ¯ dad. I do not need m y children " " " of myself ’ s validation let the measure become law without his signature. ¯ as a.woman." Several legislators said they voted for the ban only to ~ Sharon acknowledged that both boys would need avoid sending the issue to a statewide referendum, ¯ counseling before they could resume a relationship where they feared a negative campaign could hurt the ¯ with their father. Sharon said her original plan for ¯ reconciliation with her sons called forphone calls and drive for gay rights. So far this year, about 17 bills favoring civil rights ~ counseling leading up to visits. "I know they would for Lesbians and Gay men have been introduced in at ¯ recognize me as their dad," she said. "I would never least 14 states, according to the National Gay and ¯ do anything that would harm them." Lesbian Task Force. Maine Civil Rights Bill : Transexual Parent Seeks ¯ Custody Rights Back MARK T, HAMBY ATTORNEY AT LAW 2021 SOUTH LEWZS, SUITE 470 TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74104 ADMITTED IN 744-7440 FAX 744-9358 OKLAHOMA & COLORADO 1307 E. 38th St. Tulsa, OK 74105 918-743-4297 Gifts ~" Cards ~" PRIDE Merchandise Sun. 9:15 am Christian Education ¯ Sun. Service 11:00 am Wed. Service 6:30 pm °,.Wed. 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Min~o ¯ Tulsa, OK ° 74146 . (918) 622-1441 Y �Teens Feel No Risk BLOOMINGTON, Ind. (AP) - Th,~re is a perception among rural Indiana teen-agers that AIDS won’t happen to them, according to a recent study by two Indiana University professors. "They think they know everyone, what they are doing and who they should avoid," said William L. Yarber, one of the researchers. "That is really significant relative to the fact that we are finding, in our center, that AIDS is growing faster in the rural areas." Yarber, senior director of the Rural Center for AIDS/Sexually Transmitted ,Disease Prevention, and Stephanie Sanders, associate director of the Kinsey Institute, condUcted the study of 38 adolescents, ages 11- to 17-years-old. Both males and females said they would not practice sexual abstinence just to avoid HIV, and females expressed a greater fear of pregnancy than of HIV infection. "There is a real perception in the rural communities that they don’t believe their own rural town has been touched by AIDS and that they are invulnerable," Yarber said. But state statistics show that both counties involved in the study have AIDS cases and several HIV diagnoses as well, Yarber said. "They may not know people as well as they think," he said. "But they don’t feel they have to worry about it." ¯ Sharon Nelson, a biology teacher at Waunakee High in Wisconsin and an ad¯ visory board member for the project, told ~ the group that when she used the demon-’-~’ ¯ stration in her class of 22 students, two ¯ cups remained clear - and one was held by ¯ a student she had asked to abstain from ¯ mingling fluids. ¯ "I was just- ’Wow ! The kids will really ¯ go for that! That is very emphatic,’ "said ~ WillaRamsay, a high-schoolteacher from ¯ San Diego. "I am going to my district ¯ science-math manager with it. I think it ¯ needs to be promoted throughout our en¯ tire district" she said. ¯ DiSpezio said he thinks that teaching ¯ H1V as science, rather than morality, will ¯ help thecurriculum avoid the fate of safe] sex education programs. A committee ¯ namedbytheNationalInstitutes of Health ¯ reported in February that moral and gov¯ ernment objections are blocking safe sex ¯¯ education programs. She asked if it could also be used in ¯ middle school, and the developers said ¯ yes. "By the time they get to us at ninth ¯ grade, they’re pretty well educated the ¯ wrong way," Ramsay said. "I think we ¯ need to get to the students in sixth grade." ¯ Condoms for Kids ~ SEATILE (AP) - Adults can buy con. doms at clubs, bars or gas stations, but ¯ access isn’t as easy for youths. A publicprivate partnership campaign aimed at ¯ lowering HIV infection hopes to change ¯ that. The campaign, dubbed Project ACNEW ORLEANS (AP) - A new tool to ¯ TION, is placing condom machines in slow down the~spread of HIV where it is ¯ Seattle businesses where young people increasing fastest - among teens - has ¯ gather. It’s an attempt to reduce the risk of been u0y~iled,~gcently. "The Science of ¯ sexually transmitted disease and pregHIV,?~.a. l;84-page teachers’ guide and 30- ¯ nancy rates among youths ages 14 to 20. minute Video, is:the first gcience program ¯ Kae Lee Dozier, 14, says about a third designed to ~each students about the hu- ¯ of her friends are.having sex. Many of man immunodeficiency virus, how it ¯ them think they are immune to sexually causes,AIDS, and how to avoid it. The ¯ transmitted diseases, HIV, or pregnancy. guide wasunveiled at a National Science ¯ "They think ’it can’t happen to ~me,’ but Teachers Association (NSTA) meeting. ¯ they’re wrong," Miss Dozier says. "The research community has made ¯ Miss Dozier, other youths and numerencouraging progress in treating AIDS, ¯ ous business, religious and political leadbut the only 100 percent effective treat- " ers on Thursday announced their support ment we have is prevention," said James ¯ for Project ACTION. Organizers deGallarda, with Abbott Laboratories. "By . scribed it as the first broad effort to make teaching the science of HIV and AIDS, ¯ low-cost (25 cents) condoms available to we hope to give students a better under- ¯ youths with no strings attached. The twostanding of how this disease is prevented " year, $450,000 campaign is modeled after and treated." ¯ a project started in Portland, Ore., which Gallarda, who helped put together the ¯ includes public education and peer counChicago Museum of Science and ¯ seling. Seattle and San Jose, Calif., are the Industry’s AIDS exhibit, said that work ~ next cities to go "online" with the project. prompted Abbott to ask the NSTA about ¯ Five condom machines have been indeveloping the program. - stalled in two Seattle businesses so far and A new report from the Centers for Dis- ~ the Project hopes to place dispensers in ease Prevention and Control found that ¯ 130 other businesses with significant youth new AIDS cases among 13- to 25-year- ¯ patronage. In King County, health surolds infected thrdugh sex and drug needles ¯ veys among youths show that 60 percent rose 20 percent between 1990 and 1995, ~ of high school students are sexually active he said. One quarter of all new HIV infec- ¯ by graduation, yet only half of them use tions are among people younger than’22. , condoms. Even science teachers in the audience Lisa Bond, president of the Seattle murmured in surprise Friday at the results ¯ Council of Parent Teacher Student Assoof one demonstration designed to show ~ ciation, said even though the PTA has how quickly a virus can spread. ¯ taken no official position on condom availAuthor Michael DiSpezio passed out " ability, she personally views the project clear plastic cups of clear liquid to the two ¯ .as a step forward. ’Td rather have them do dozen teachers and reporters who attended ¯ an end run and save my child’s life than the breakfast meeting. Four of the cups ¯ have a child die from ignorance," Ms. were "infected" with an alkali and would ¯ Bond said. "The more kids know about turn bright pink when the right chemical ¯ the dangers they’re facing, the better deciwas added. He had each person turn to a ¯ sions they can make." neighbor, mix the contents of their cups Gwen Williams, director of Holiness together, then divide the mixed liquid Missions, acknowledged that the availback between the two cups. Then each . ability of condoms is disturbing to many, person turned to a different neighbor and ¯ particularly churchgoers who emphasize did the same thing. DiSpezio went down ¯ abstinence. But, Ms. Williams, said, the aisles with a vial and eyedropper, ~ "We’re talking about saving lives. We adding the telltale chemical to each cup. ¯ find a bias in church ... that people don’t Every single one turned bright pink. 1st Nat’lCurriculum About; HIV/AIDS Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs 742 2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. Volunteers Sought for Experimental Genital Herpes Treatment Study Volunteers are needed to participate in a medical research study evaluation an experimental plant-derived antiviral drug that is a topical gel for the treatment of recurrent genital herpes. Interested individuals must be 18 year of age or older, have AIDS and have herpes outbreaks in the genital, area. 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What is happemng ¯ companies are showing record profits, it ¯ in the dynamic field of health insurance becomes extremely difficult to rationalproviders and third party payer organizaize how someone could be turned down tions? First, a simple (if possible) expla- ¯ for a life-saving procedure. nation on how the system seems to be Have your premiums gone down lately ? operating currently... Have your deductibles or co-payments For example.: an insurance company been reduced this year? Physicians’. pay presents a "plan" to a potential purchase has dropped by nearly 40% in the past few group (Le., an employer with, say, so ¯ years, so they are not benefiting..Ask many employees). The "Plan" will pro- ¯ yourself, "If premiums are up and benvide certain services for each insured at a efits are down, who is making out? It cost of $100.00 per person (employee) ¯ doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure per month. This plan has a $300.00 annual ¯ that the Managed Care groups and your deductible and pays 80% of your medical insurance company are laughing all the bills after that deductible is met. Sounds ¯ way to the bank. If you think (or don’t pretty easy so far. Here’s where it gets ¯ think) managed health care is bad now, complicated... A third party approaches ¯ here is a look into the crystal ball... your insurance company and tells them ~ Primary care physicians will be called they can cut their expenses by 40%. This ¯ uponto make decisions (final decisions in third party is the Managed Care group. It ¯ some cases) about health care procedures functions as an intermediary (negotiator) ¯ based on age and need. For example, say between you and your doctor, hospital, ~ I am your primary care physician, you are pharmacy, etc., and your original insur60 years of age, and you need kidney ance company. Its function is to make ¯ dialysis. But, I can have only five people .money (profits) for themselves and for the ¯¯ a year on dialysis treatment. Four slots are Insurance company. It is not in the busialready filled and, just before your apness to serve you.or-your doctor!s, ¯ pointment, a 25 year old patient of mine hospital’s, and pharmacist’s (etc.) best ¯ also needs dialysis. Who gets dialysis slot interests:~ Which is your health! Period. ¯ #5? In the future, the care will go to those The sooner.you understand the princi.-. ~ : who can pay out of pocket: In other words, pal motives of the Managed Care gr0up’s~- . just likeih~judici’ai system, the rich will interest (which is money-making), the- ¯ prevail in health care. better equipped you will be to deal with. ~ Obvi~usly this is avery simplistic overthe pr0blei~s you may encounterl Tile ,~’ vi~c.0f thetotal managed health Care decisions made in health care today .are ¯ picture. "What can I do?" you ask. Get bas~d0nfinancialnumbers.ForeXai:nplei" " inv6I~edi’Wfit~you~elected~fficialsand say you need a heart transplant. Your ~. the State Insurance Commissioners. And primary care physician must refer you out o take care of your health by becoming fit, to a specialist (cardiologist)~ and he/she ¯ ea.ting right, and supplementing with vitamust ask the Managed Care group if you ¯ mlns daily in order to avoid feeding the can be approved for the heart transplant. ~ (Mis)Managed Care Monster!! Mind you, there are funds allocated for Dr. Gorman’s practice is located at these procedures for each group or plan. ¯ 4775 S. Harvard, Suite C, 712-5514. His Well, guess what?! It’s toward the end of ¯ is a Board Certified Chiropractor & Acuthe fiscal year and the Heart Transplant ~ .puncturist, has a B:S. degree in Nutrition, Fund is depleted. An accountant from the ¯ is an active bodybuilder, anddoesfitness, Managed Care group tells your cardiolo- ¯ nutrition, & supplement counseling. want to deal with these issues- not AIDS, not sex before marriage," she said. "But we must face the reality or we’re going to lose our youth." Miss Dozier said condom availability reduces, rather than encourages, sexual activity among youths. "Knowing more about this gives you the power; you don’t think of having sex because you’re drunk or rebelling or because you feel pressured," Miss Dozier said. "After getting all this information about AIDS, I’m holding back from .sex. It made me want to wait, and I think more youths will wait and hold off more, the more they know about the risks." Gore Seeks More $ For AIDS Drugs WASHINGTON (AP) Hoping to improve access to AIDS-fighting drugs, the Clinton administration is exploring the possibility of expanding Medicaid coverage for people afflicted with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Vice President A1 ¯ Gore has asked the Health Care Financing ¯ Administration "to look into the possibil¯ ity" of making Medicaid available earlier ¯ to people with HIV to get them the cut. ting-edge drugs needed to help them. ¯ "If it works out, as I hope and expect it ¯ will, it can ease suffering, renew hope and ¯ help ensure that goodpeopte are notpriced ¯ out of lifesaving medicine," Gore said ¯ Wednesday. He said the move was neces¯ sary because people diagnosedwith HIV ¯ can develop full-blown AIDS before be. coming eligible for Medicaid, "and that ¯ makes some of these new drugs prohibitively expensive for people who need ¯ them." ¯ Gore made the announcement after re" ceiving the 1997 National Leadership Award for Public Service from AIDS ¯ Action, an AIDS advocacy group. He said ¯ he has asked the HCFA to report back to ¯ him in 30 days after exploring the possi~ bility. "Our view is that getting these ¯ drugs to people earlier will not cost more ¯ in the long run," he said. 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The story was familiar with the history of Gunderson and his long term of the Republican Party would partner, coauthor Rob Morris, understand that, like Barry is inspiring, but somewhat disGoldwater, I could legitiappointing. mately say, ’I didn’t leave the Told in alternating narraparty, the party left me.’ " tives by each author, House Morris, comments are and Home is a refreshingly mostly short contributions of candid view of a major, gay apersonal nature. Being a ConpubliC figure. Many modergressional spouse, he had to ates and progressives were maintain a careful balance deeply disappointed when between G/anderson’s public Gunderson declined to run for and private life. Morris dutia ninth term. He had risen to a fully details his perspective, position of seniority and inbut without much of the wit fluence when he decided that and humor that he apparently he could no longer trust his possesses. own party for support. He reGunderson lashes out at alized this one day in 1994, what he considers the liberal, while attending a Wisconsin left wing of the Gay civil rights Republican caucus: "it was movement. He has often, been composed mostly of rightaccused of "sleeping with the wing ’true believers’ who had .enemy,’/. : Gunderson~ s re"[~t=r~ ]]’~ll¢~,~ne come .to the caucus straight . xx~~oa~a sponse:."Gay activists have to from services at their funda.aren _ ~aecept ~that gays are not automentalist churches. Most were .matically DemOcrats, that Repeople I had never met before au~oxx.~u.~,c.ttt,y publicans aren’t automatically in politics. They were part of enemies, and that it is vital to the ’family values’ army, loyal have friends in the majority in every way to the Religious RighVs high ¯ party. More specifically, it is crucial to command. Not schooled or motivated in ~ have openly gay Republicans who are partisan politics, not educated about gov- ¯ willing to do the sometimes tough and ernment or history, and not informed in ¯ thankless work of sensitizing the party to any deep, objective way about many of ¯ gay issues, gay rights, and gay humanity." the major issues, they were there because ¯ Gunderson, of course, decided in less than they had been told that the only way to ¯ two years after his outing, that this was the save the lives of fetuses from abortion, to ¯ responsibility of someone else, someone save their children from the influence of who has yet to show up. The abdication of predatory homosexuals, and to save ¯ his essential role diminishes the impact of America from degradation was to show his otherwise impressive story. up at these caucuses and compel the Re- ¯ Checkfor House and Home, and books ¯ on other related topics, at your local publican Party to do their will." His 1994 outing on the floor of the ¯ branch library, or call the R~aders SerHouse of Representatives, by controver- ¯ vices department at the Central Library sial congressman Bob Dornan, forced at 596-7966. Gundel n whathe considersthe liberal, left- w_’mg of theGa-y ci rigrit movement... . t_iayacfivists taavetoaccept thatGays are not automatically OLIVER PEOPLES, GAULTIER, MIKLI, MATSUDA, ETC... ~ that VISIONS t 6.837 S. MEMORIAL ¯ 254:1611 enemies.... Email is a wondrous thing. At the moment, I am in Fort Worth, and having to write a colmnn for deadline. Fortunately, computers allow tiffs to happen. Or unfortunately,.depending on your perspective. You will notice this column is a bit differcnt from others. I have a story to tell. It may be meamngful, it may be entertmning. I hope it is both. Story one: In 1986, my Father was diagnosed with cancer. He was admitted into the hospital for a biopsy. I, as well as the rest of my fanfily, were strained mad in denial He had never shown his age frotu the time I was born up to that point in his lifc. 1! sccmcd he would always be there lor us. I was in a play at the time, a drcadflfl nmsical review. I had a solo part in a song (my lirst ever). I was in school full timc and working, so I didn’t have much time for hospital visits. According to fanfily that did spend time at the hospi- tal, his wish was that I continue in the rehearsals and not miss any on his account. Since we all thought he’d be home at any time, I suffered through the rehearsai, trying to conquer my fear of singing in front of people. His biopsy kept being delayed, and a two day visit stretched into three weeks. I did visit him a couple of times, and each time he seemed older, as though the years were catching up to him all at once. It scared me, but still I kept thinking he’d be home soon. I remember him looking out the window once, a sad, resigned look on his face. He said something - I cannot to this day remember what, but I know it had to do with what was coming. I continued struggling to smile while singing and remembering choreography and lyrics at the same time. Dad continued to go downhill, each time they’d think he was ready for biopsy, see Jim, page 13 Renew Your Subscription to Life. NITSUBISHI HOTORS Built For $ 2 1, 9 8 8 sale price Living,TM 7 �Kelly Kirby CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation ¯ ¯ ¯ Lesbians and Gay menfitce many special tax situations whether singlo or as couples. Thank you for giv.tng us our most successful tax season. Call us for help with your year round tax needs. 7 4 7:2 5~4 6,6 4021 S. HarVard, Suite 210 Tulsa 74135 Rainbow Buslne** Guild Plenle at Zink Park 31st at Trenton Saturday:, May 3, Z~pm~: : " I~o.IRSVP: 665~174 POB 4106, Tulsa 74159 by Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche TFN Food Critic If one ever has out of town guests who think no culinary excitement exists in Tulsa, one need go no farther than Cherry Street to wakeup their tastebuds. Tucci’s, located at the site of the former long-beloved Cherry Street Bakery, serves up food in the New Italian mold with strong California influences. While not exclusively a pizza parlor, it’ s pizza that has made Tucci’s a Cherry Street destination, even with such old standbys as The Hideaway just across the street. Nothing promotes a restaurant more than the Shock value and talk factor of previous customers telling their friends about their dining experience, and diners here will certainly have something to talk about. The kitchen at Tucci’s makes up a fine, handtossed pizza crust, and then covers ~t with some unbelievable toppings. Two of the most talked about combinations are the Stone Temple Pie, which features marinated cactus, smoked fajita chicken, and black beans, and the Thai Pie, an interesting mix of spicy peanutpesto, teriyaki chicken, bamboo shoots, and chow mein noodles. Intrigued? Shocked and appalled? Read on. The Upstream Dream, a fairly new addition to the menu, is topped with smoked salmon. The Aglio Arrosto (roasted garlic for the non-Italianophones out there) has roasted garlic, pinenuts, and Italian sausage. The California Pie is loaded down with artichoke hearts, sun dried tomatoes, olives, fresh basil, and feta cheese. And, the list goes on. The true artistry at Tu_cci’ s is that, while certainly bizzarre sounding, these unusual topping combinations work. Oftentimes, we see restaurants trying to be too creative, and they can’t quite pull it off, but that is not the case here. The pies inspire strong emotions from the diners--they either love it or they hate it. We’ve never heard anything in between. All of the pizzas are accompanied by a wonderful lemon Caesar salad, crispy romaine with a zesty and bright lemon juice dressing, instead of the more traditional egg yolk-based Caesar. And, when the pie amves, it immediately takes center stage, since it is presented on a metal footed cake plate. But, after the shock of the toppings, be prepared for another shock. The bill. A large pizza is $19.50. Pizzas are not the only menu item available, especially since the recent menu redo, which added additional entree choices, mostly in the sandwich department. An Italian "rich boy" is offerred for $5.75, as is a chicken parmesan. Grilled Italian sausages and peppers goes for $5.25, while smoked turkey breast and chicken salad tarragon sandwiches come in a $4.95. A very interesting Roasted Italian vegetables in pita bread sells for $4.95, and we’ve found this sandwich interesting, though a bit heavy on the lettuce and short on the vegetables .All of " the sandwiches are accompanied by a dill " pickle and Pringles potato chips, though ¯ the lemon Caesar salad will be substituted . upon request. The lunch time crowd has welcomed ¯ the addition of daily pasta specials to the Tucci’s 1344 East 15th 11 am- 10pm Mon - Thurs Fri/Sat til 11 closed Sun Teleflora’s Everlasting Cuisine: Nuovo Fresh flowers are presented in a Italiano Dress: Casual Payment: Cash, checks MC, Visa, and AmEx Alcohol: Domestic and imported beer Smoking: Smoking on outdoor deck, non-smoking inside (sort of) stunning vase crafted from fine French glassware, accented with sculpted, frosted roses around the entire vase. 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The basil cream sauce had pieces of fresh basil leaf in it and was light and pleasant. The only surprise was that the dish was served with a large soup spoon on the plate. Why? There wasn’t any soup on the menu? Surely, they didn’t expect us to. eat our fettuccine with a spoon ! (for those who haven’t memorized the writings of Miss Manners, Jean-Pierre insists that it is incorrect to eat spaghettior fettuccine using a spoon to~,~help twirl the pasta around th~ fork.) Several.~alads are also available, from a large lemon Caesar at $4~50, to the chicken salad an~t~he.Mediterraneo at $6.50. Could s~m.eone please tell us why the: Mediterranean salad proudly proclaims that it contains shrimp from the Gulf of Mexico? There is also antipasto for $6:50.~ Beverages are fun here. Certainly, the most popular is iced cappuccino. They also make Italian sodas, soda water with a shot or two of various flavoring syrups, and have an ¯ extensive selection of bottled waters, in~ cluding the Welch "Ty Nant," the pricey ¯ stuff in the pretty cobalt bottle. Biscotti and cheesecake are always avail" able for dessert, and, when the kitchen ~ makes it and there is some left, a nice ¯ spumoni ice cream ($3.00) can be had. ¯ Even better is the tiramisu, sponge cake ¯ soaked with espresso and layered with ¯ Italian cream for $3.75. The food at Tucci’s is good, and a ¯ relatively goodvalue for the money. The ¯ major area needing improvement is the service. Chronically understaffed, the ¯ friendly and earnest wait staff will get to ¯ one’s table as soon as they can, but still, ¯ the wait can be annoying. On ourlast visit, ~ the iced cappuccinos and Italian sodas ¯ arrived at the table with no spoons or ¯ straws. And, the music being broadcast ¯ over the speakers was so loud, we could ~ hardly hear one another talk, making us ¯ feel like we were at the Full Moon Cafe ¯ across the street. ¯ But, the future is looking bright. The ¯ ownership triumvirate of husband, wife, ¯ and mother has recently extensively re- modeled the kitchen, and the menu under" goes regularrevision and freshening. The ¯ outside deck remains a popular spot for ¯ watching the Cherry Street traffic. We ¯ like Tucci’s. ~ Not feeling up to cactus or pineapple or ¯ peanuts on your pizza? There’s a-Pizza ¯ Hut just down the street for the timid. Y �Chairman Terrance Tom called a nmvs conference mad insisted that without referring the opposite-sex couples in the amendment, it will continue to invite la~vstfits challenging the marriage law. House and Senate conferees were fac; ing an internal deadline of resolving their differences over the stone-sex marriage bills, although Sott~ acknowledged that deadline could be waived upon an agreement with Senate President Norman Mizuguchi. Both Souki and Tom expressed confidence that an amendment to ban same-sex manJages and a package of benefits for gay mad lesbian couples will be approved before the Legislatm’e adjourns April 29. Tom defended his decision at die latest House-Senate meeting Wednesday night not to take up the rights package for samesex couples. He said as far as he’s concerned, the Senate has failed to provide a comlter proposal to the House’s latest proposal. Senate conference co-chairnlan Avery Chumbley said the Senate will meet with the House when the Itouse agrees to take up both the anlendment mid tile Lesbian/Gay benefits package and not separate them. "They are both are part of the stone problem mad we’re not going to separate them," he said. Rhode s and Kills Anti-Marriage Bill PROVIDENCE, RA. (AP) _ A bill to ban gw marriages was voted down by a powerful House couun{ttee on Thursday. "Life in Rhode I~l,’md is not going to change tomorrow if we don’t pass tiffs bill," said Rep. Timoth3 Willianlson, DWest Warwick, a member of the House Judiciary Connnittee. A1 though Rhode I sl mad doesn’ t recogni ze gay marriages uow, the bill’s supporters worried the state would be forced to recognize them if legalized in another state. Debate over the issue led Congress to pass and President Cliuton to sign last year the Defense of Marriage Act. The law says the federal government will not recognize gay nlamages andit allows states to refuse to recognize them as well. No states allow homosexuals to marry, although the Hawaiian Supreme Court is considering the issue. Rep. Michael Pisaturo, D-Cranston, opposed the bill so much he introduced one of his own to legalize same-sex marriages, although he now plans to let his bill die. City Grants Partners Health Insurance SPRINGFIELD, Mass. (AP) - Saying he hopes to lay down a model for the rest of the state, Mayor Michael Albano on Thursday began offering health insurance to gay and lesbian partners of city workers. He acknowledged talat the move is bomld to breed some dissent, saying, "There are .those who do not yet understand that tails IS a new world we live in." But he added, "It is the right thing to do. My adininistration will not discrilninate based on ... alternative lifestyle. And no other city in Massachusetts or in America should elfiler." Springfield, file third largest city in tale state with 160,000 residents, became the second Bay State connnunity with such a nleasure in effect, according to Gay mid Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, a Boston-based group that monitors gay rights. Mary Bonauto, tlae group’s civil rights direc.tor, said Cambridgeis tale other commumty. "It’s a basic stand by the mayor and city of Springfield for fairness to all fmnilies and also for equal pay’ for eqtml work," she said. Albano signed the executive order in a brief late-afternoon ceremony before city and .state officials, gay-rights advocates, jottrnalists mad others. State Attorney General Scott Harshbarger, a supporter of the policy, was also there. Albano said he expects perhaps 20 or 30 of the city’s 6,500 employees to sign up for such coverage. But he predicted it won’t create the need for any larger appropriation. The progranl now costs about $32 ~nillion a year. The mayor ordered bereavement and sick time rights for gay mid lesbian partners of city workers in January 1996. The city is defining a gay or lesbian "domestic pm:tner" as someone sharing expenses and living with the city employee for at least a year "in a relationslfip of mutual support, caning and counnitment in wlfich they intend to remain for file indefinite In western Massachusetts, the town of Palmer briefly adopted such a policy, but oppouents m,’maged to dismantle it within months. In Northmnpton, city leaders approved apolicy of letting stone-sex couples register as such tbr certain rights, but not health insurance. Voters later blocked the move in a public referendum. In Springfield, not everyone was embracing the idea. "As a resic]ent, I find it reprehensible that file3’ can do something fl~at so many citizens are morMly opposed to," said Ronald Crochetiere, a resident who said he has been active on some political issues. Maine Gov. Lets Anti-Marriage Bill Pass AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) - Sayiug his decision was not an easy one, Gov. Angus King will let the gay marriage ball enacted by’ the Legislature last week become law without his signature rather than force a referendum by vetoing tale bill. King said he has "a deep respect for the institntion of marriage and its religious roots," but he does uot bdieve the bill remedies a problem because there’s no movement in Maine to make same-sex marriages legal. The governor also said he does not believe traditional marriage is under assault in Maine. "I believe that this bill has very little to do with marriage and nothhlg to do withlove," said King. Concerned Maine Families, which led the initiative that forced tam legislative vote, said the law protects traditional marriage from threats by inilitant gay activists. The governor had three options after the bill was enacted by overwhelming margins last week by the House and Senate: sign file bill, veto it, wlfich would force a referendum, or let it become law without his signature. King said a referendum would trigger a bitter and divisive statewide campaign that would not benefit the public. The governor also said he expects the law to be successfully challenged in court. He believes it violates both tile equal protection and full faith and credit clauses of the Constitution. "This bill will briefly become law in Maine, but it will not have my name onit," said King. Timo{hy W. Daniel Attorney at Law An Attorney who will fight for justice & Equality for Gays & Lesbians Domestic Partnership Planning, Personal Injury, Criminal Law & Bankruptcy 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointmenls are available. �BIooming Vase Bouquet A cheerful bouquet presented in a fine glass vase patterned after 18th century forcing jars used to grow beautiful bulb flowers. 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He finally did, and tried to speak - in vain, because they had a breattfing robe stuck down his throat, making it impossible to talk. But he. came to, tried to speak, and became extremely agitated when he couldn’t communicate. My brother and I were ushered out by the nurse, for fear our presence would disturb him further, causing him to damage the numerous tubes and devices connected to him. Keeping him alive. Sort of. That is the last time I saw my father alive. A couple of weeks later he lapsed into coma. Mom gave the orders to remove the life support. My father left this plane alone. No one who h~ew him was there. I vowed then that if anyone I was close to was in the hospital, my first priority was being there. No show, no job, no other event would be more important than being there - for fmnily, friend, or lover. The show went on. I remember the day Dad died. The director berated me venomoush’ in front of the cast for not smiling and"selling" the numbers I was in. I had left a message on the answering machine that morning, he didn’t get the message until after the rehearsal. I for a change, ~vas the first one out the door, so he ufi ssed me. I was ready, for the first time, to walk out on a show. I just about told him he could take the bloody solos and give them to someone else. gcrew "’professionalism". It had cost me too much Nready. There ,are times that "The show must go on" is absolute poppycock. There will be other shows. I held my tongue, but barely. I was in too much shock to say anything at that Moment. He did apologize later. Story two: I am in Fort Worth because nay Mother has breast cancer, and had both of her breasts removed on Monday the 7th. According to several doctors, she will need help for 2 -3 weeks, as she won’t be able to lift her purse, so I am here to help. Mom’s health is not so great. She’s 74, a heavy smoker, and is handicapped, and thus cm~’t get around solo under the best of Circumstmaces. I have too many scars and unanswered questions leftover from Dad (as do all the members of my f,’unil y) to ever let anyone I know go into a hospital without me being there. People can slip away too damn fast. And all the political ballyhoo and bickering in the world doesn’t change that. Yes, it’s important to fight for what’s right, and to use your time wisely. But don’t forget the other things that are import~mt, too - the smell of a flower, the voice of a loved one, and the time you spend with them. In the end, that.., is .... ALL... that.., matters. No matter how mnch they am~oy you. You will miss them when they’re gone. Jobs are replaceable, things are replaceable, people ~e not. And too many filings can go wrong. My father died of cancer, my morn is dealing with cancer, and we have tbund out that three male cousins on her side are dealing with/have died from cancer. Her sister had breast cancer. I can’t shake the feeling that I ana seeing how I will die, barring bus crashes, plane explosions, and bank robberies. It is ~t too likety, given [hmily history and genetics Not to mention that there is no more severe issue thm~ losino a pare~t I~sing one is bad enom, h’ it t~rces you to den with mortNity m a way that no other loss can do. When a parent Nes, you lose not oNy apart of your Nstory, and present, but Nso your clfildh~d. No one will be there to dean up yot~ nfist&es or save you frown yourself, if you were so fortunate to have had fmNly like that. Some axen’t. I’ve been lucky thus t’~. I ~ow Mom will not l~t forever. Quite fray, the f~ly has been expecting a Nagnosis of lung ~acer to pop up for ye~s, yet she has remNned in fNr heNth. She never expected to outhve Dad. And when he died, she stepped up the ~ount of algareties consumed in order to ~tch up with Nm. Didn’t woN. Bre~t ~cer was a sunrise to us ~1. I and my fanfily have certNNy had, and continue to have, our differen~s. But they have always been there for me, t~ough my back surgery, tl~ough nasty splits with exMovers, and whatever other crises I had. Now, it’s my turn to be there for them. I tN~ this is what should Ne meant by the term "fmnily values." And with that rather drmnatic ending, I do have a Mnd of review. Anyone catch toNght’ s "Dr. Qnim~, Medicine Woman"? It’s not a show I usual3 watch (I am not at ~I parti~ to westerns - sacrilege coming from an OM~oma resident and nativeborn Texan, but there you ~e,), but b3 complete accident (except I, like ObiWan Kenobi, don’t believe in accidents. So~y, had to get that St~ Wars reference in there, ya M~ow.), I happened upon it tolfight. I was about to change the chanuel, when the gist of the plot line lilt me. Dr. Quinn was brining Walt Wlfitm~ into her dusty little Colorado county town for a p~try reading. I though t~s a rather novel idea. I wondered if they were going to de~ With Iris being homosexual or just gloss it over. So, I stayed tuned. I was pleasantly suwfised. Dr. Quiim, noticed that Wdt W~ w~ depressed (Hmnun. Sounds fm~li~. Have I wfitmn about ~s before?) and asked lfim what wm up. He w~ saddened that Iris so.mate could not be wi~ ~m. She sfid, tot~ly t~owing of what gender ~s so.mate ~ght ~ (heterosexist assumptions, don’tcha ~ow), "Well, bring lfim on out from the ~st Co~tF’ Well, Walt w~ happier than a Gay m~ in a gym, and perked nfighfily. Me.time, Her young son, a writer for the school paper, interviewed Wilt for the school paper...flone with ~m...during a solit~y wflk in the woods. Back to subplot number two,in w~ch the mwns~ople, thrilled at the prospect of a man of W~t’s stature bestowing a bit of culture upon ~eir dusty town, become rather discfinfinatory upon being ~e gossip that W~t (GASP[) is a "Nmmy-boy", "one of them fellers who don’t like women ~e way most men normflly do". Dr. Qui~m is hogtied that her boy has been ~one with trim. She t~ks to Sully, plwedby the ever hm~y Joe ~do, who tells her that she’s ove~eacting, that in lfis Nbe, gay folk are ac~pted ~d have eqtu~ status. His is the voice of reason, and he’s given excellent diNoN~e in tlfis episode. Well, She questions the boy, and tells lfim not go into the woods None with X~qfitman. She does do some research, and finds ~at some German literature of the day ch~flks it up to a defective gene. She is upset, because she emwnined Whitman and didn’t "see" anytlfing like this wrong with lfim. see Jim, page 14 �~JJr~ continued from page 13 Stdly tells her she should just accept him for who he is, that he is still the same mm~ whose writing tlmlled her. W~t’s souhnate arrives, he cheers up. The townsfolk display their homophobia with maliciotks gossip zu~d ontright discrimination, denying the couple a hotel room. Dr. QuimL despite her misgivings, invites them to stay in her home, m~d gradmflly comes to ~low them as simply two folk in love. She asks if the townspeople’s reaction bofliers him. lie replies no, that life is too sliort to #re iu to oflmr people’s ucgativity ~md empower it. Dr. Quiun is ok widi M1 ~is, undl Walt t~es her boy fishing. Alone. In tim woods. Fe~ng dm worst, she m~es a mad dash for the fislfing hole, wifll Sully telling her not to jump to conclusions. She m~d Snlly sne~ np on W~dt m~d the boy, fislfing. ~m bo) spe~s to WMt, ~ng ~m what "’Nmmy-boy" memas. In a ~vonderfully written respo~me, he tells the boy, that it is a word somc folks ~une up ~vith to hurt others, tte wreaks the boy that words cm~ be ~vcapons, us~ to hurt. But they cml ~dso be used to lined, to reflect tim positive, wondrous ddngs in liiE, mid that he mid thc boy had a gift to use words in t~mt way. And thus, thc3 could countcract the hate4"ul, negative words. Aud of course, l)r. 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I’m a young looking, 34 year old, Hispanic male, 5’4, 1251bs, with Brown hair and eyes. I’m pretty new to town and want to make friends.Jlove to dance and can two step wilh the best of them. I’m a big fan of country music, movies, and love people. Let’s meet. (Tulsa) =29334 TULSA TIME I’ve got time on my hands. Would you like to spend it with me? This Gay male, enjoys reading sports, and music. Ad ust the vo ume, and let s taFk. (Tulsa) =25617 THE SECRET SHARER Can you help me find a dominant Bi or Straight guy who wants to have a discreet relationship? I’m an attractive, Bi, White male in my 30% 5’2, 1281bs. (Tulsa) =24820 I’M NO FATAL ATTRACTION It would be nice to make some friends but I’m hoping for a at more. I’m a financially and emotionally ~, White male, 33 years old, 5’11 TRUE IN TULSA I’m a masculine, muscular, 21 year old, B~ack male, 5’7, 1951bs, with Black hair, and Brown ~yes, looking far new friends to hang out with. I dOn’t do drugs or smoke, but . ¯ occasionally go Out far ~]rinks. I have lots of other interests such as working out. Let’s meet and see what happens. (Tulsa) =13047 TAKE IT SlOW I like soft music, romantic evenings, and spending time with my family and friends. This Gay, White male, 38, 5’9,14~lbs, is HIV positive, but healthy, and is seeking a non s.~ng friend to share with. I’m most interested in other ~l),, White males, betwean 21 and 45 who are willing to go slowly. (Tulsa) ’~23748 IF WE TRY This aflracti~, Gay, White mab, seeks companionship, and a relationship with a sincere, ..Gay, Block male, between 18 and 30. I’m 5’9~ 1651bs, with Brown hair, and Blue eyes. You should be hbeast, loving, caring, and drag frea, as I am. We con make it ffappen iT we fly. {Tulsa) ~27068 HUNTING NEW GAME I want to make some new plans and include you in them. rm a 28 year okl, Gay., White mab, 6’1 with Brown hair and eyes. I like te cook and enjoy all outdoor spa~, espec!ally hunting and fishing. Let me kna~v when I can plan ta seeyou. (Tulsa) =23916 GOODBYE, CITY UFE I wanna meet some of ~ivi’all. 28county. year old, Gay, male, ee oyslike ng This in Ihe I like all Black ouldoor activities, hunling, and fishing. Call me and get aw~ from it all. (Tulsa) =26S22 FLEX FRIEND You’ve .clot a friend riflht here. I’m a 42 yea~s 01d, G~ male, 5’8~’, 170E;~. I’m into sports: music, and am very flexibb. Let’s have same ton. (Tulsa) =26409 SHOW ME THE WAY I’m a masculine, isexual curious guy;’and I’m a:li~e ~rvous about is. I’m 21,5’7" 1951bs, with a worked out bedy~ Black hair, a~d Brown eyes. I need you to show me theway. (Tulsa) ’~26412 L e bars. I hope to meet another White male between 25 and 40 who’s in shape and still has most of his hair¯ [Tulsa) =24870 AT THE QUARRY I’ll bet there’s a big, stocky, Married man out there that would like to give it to me hard. I’m a cute guy in my 30’s, 5’2 and 1281bs. I hope you’re dominant and want to have a gay old time. (Tulsa) =24840 UNSUNG YOUNG Let’s keep this simple. I’m a young guy, 18, looking for other young guys, 18 to 28, fc;r fun and friendship. Call soon. (Tulsa) =19577 LONG HARD NIGHTS If you like sleapless nights, and sleepless days, give me a call i’m a 24 year old, Gay, White male, 6’3, 1601bs, in search of another Gay, White male, between 18 and 24. Let’s have a long, hard night, h:)llowed by a long, hard day. I’m versatile. (Tulsa) =24504 THE COWBOY WAY I’m a cowboy, plain and simple. I love to do things outdoors. Hunting and fishing are just two of the possibilities. If you’re between 18 and 25 and want to explore~ne cowboy way, leave me a message. (Tulsa) =1004 CONSERVATIVE OUTCOME I’m a 19 year old student, From Tulsa. I lave movies, sports, and going out. I’m seeking someone clean-cut, conservative, and discrete. I have yet to come out, so discretion is most important. Come share my values, and discover together what happens nexL (Tu sa) =23850 BLUE COWBOY This 55 year old Gay White ma e, cowboy, and Businessman, would like to meet a younger man betwean 35 and 55, to live with me in rural southeast Oklahoma. J’m 5’6, 1401bs, with short; thick Silver hairi strikin.Cl Blue eyes, and a mustache. You shbuld be well put together and des re th s type of lifeslyle. =9612 ~:; To record your FREE Pe onal ad: all: 1-800-546-MENN (We’ll print it here) �The Friends .i n Unity Social Org.anization, Inc. FUSO is a community based organization not for profit 501 (c)3 agency prowding services to African American males-and.females who are infected with HIV/AIDS in the Tulsa community. FUSO also .helps individuals find other agencies that provide other HIV/AIDS services. FUSO began in August 1991 out Of a need to bring African. American men of diverse sexual orientation together, to promote unity, education, cultural awareness and sensitivity to the needs of the African American community at large. The goal of FUSO is to. build bridges wher.e.gaps exist and to tear do.wn.the walls that have d~wded us w~th~n the community. FUSO ,has taken on the responsibility to.minister:to the needs of individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS,.to be.... a voice African American commun~ity, and especially~to be a voice for those.who have not been heard. FUSO is a ministry of compassion and. care. POB 8542, Tulsa, OK 74101 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Text Any textual data included in the document April 15 - May 14, 1997, v. 4, no. 5 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Trans Communities Lesbians’ Kids: Just Fine WASHINGTON (AP) - Lesbians who become parents through artificial insemination are rinsing emotionally healthy and well-adjusted children, according to three new studies presented at a recent meeting of social scientists. Researchers said standardpsychological tests found no significant differences between children of lesbian parents and those of heterosexual parents. "When you look at kids with standard psychological assessments, you can’t tell who has alesbian parent and who has a heterosexual parent," said Charlotte J. Patterson, a University of Virginia researcher. ’°That’s really the main finding from these studies." The studies were conducted in the United States, Britain and the Netherlands. They were presented at a meeting of the Society for Research on Child Development. "Most of the children in the lesbian families were conceived at fertility clinics. Some of the children of heterosexual parents also were conceived at fertility clinics, see Kids, page 3 Marriage Update Oregan Ban on Marriage? SALEM, Ore. (AP) - A bill that would define marriage as a union between a man and a woman drew emotional testimony at a legislative hearing. Suzanne Cook testified Thursday that being raised by a gay father denied her a proper role model and led her to a life of pronnscuity, drug abuse and depression. "I believe homosexual marriage is detrimental to our society," Cook said. But Donna Saffir told the committee, "I am here .today as a very upset and angry mother." The legislation Is mean-spirited and a veiled attack on her gay son and her family, she said. About 60 people packed a hearing room to listen to the first debate on the bill, -known as the Defense of Marriage Act. Opponents argued thatunder current law, gay men and lesbians cannot marry in Oregon anyway. They accused supporters of pushing the bill tO promote intolerance of homosexuals. Supporters claim to have enough votes to pass it through the Republican:controlled Houseand Senate. Gov. John Kitzhaber, aDemocrat, opposes the bill, but it is uncertain whether he might veto it. "The institution ofmarriag,,e is not under attack by the gay and lesbian community, Said R~p. ChuC,k C~n:’ ter, one of three openly gay House members. "To me, this piece oflegislation is amean and vindictive ai~ck.." But Sen.~ob Kintigh, said his marriage of 53 years Was .... s~dcial. ’The relatiOnship we have.i~ad ic~tdd:not::l~ duplicatedby twopeople ofthe samesex," Kintigh Said. Hawaii House & Senate Wrangle Over Marri ige HONOLULU (AP) - The state House won’t budge from its position that a proposed constitutional amendment state clearly that marriage in Hawaii t0be limited to couples of the opposite sex,H0use Speaker Joseph Sould said. That position stands, even if it pushes the same-sex marriage dispute into next year, he said. Sould and House Judiciary ConLmittee see Vows, page 12 "Christians’, Harassing Gays in Riverside Park? TULSA - Jimmy Flowers, a Gay civil rights and HIV activist, livesnear Riverside Park and frequently goes to feed the ducks and geese near the 21st Street Pavilion. On April 14th around 1 pm, he went as usual, and after feeding the birds, sat to enjoy the sun near the cage. Flowers says he noticed-a group of couples going up to individuals in the park but that he didn’t pay much attention until they came up to him. He says that this group of male/female couples asked him if he was Gay. Not being particularly shy, Flowers answered tothe effect of’:yes and do you have a problem with that?" Heclaims that theirresponse was that"this is afamily, Christian park," that Gays are "child molesters" and are not welcome, and that he should leave. Flowers notes that he, as a longume activist, was not the person to whom they should have said that. The couples told Flowers that they would’all the police if he did not leave. Flowers said he’d love for them to call the police, and that he was proud to be Gay and see Park. page 3 Ellen Coming Out! Pride Center to Hold Watch Party NEW YORK (AP) - Ellen DeGeneres is coming out in real life, too. After a season of controversy-stirring rumors, her character on "Ellen" will acknowledge her homosexuality on the ABC sitcom April 30. Now, DeGeneres says she’s a lesbian, too. "When I decided to have my character on the show come out, I knew I was going to have to come out too," DeGeneres says in the latest Time magazine. "But I didn’t want to talk about it until the show was done. I never wanted to be the lesbian actress. I never wanted to be the spokesperson for the gay community. Ever. I did it for my own truth." DeGeneres admits being confused sexually as a young woman. "I dated guys," she says. "I liked guys. But I knew that I liked girls too. I just didn’t know what to do with that." The 39-year-old comedian says she quit dating men at about age 20 and recently met a woman she hopes to forge see Ellen, page 3 3rd TU Film Festiv lll=i TULSA - The Bisexual/.Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance of the University of Tulsa (BLGTA) is presenting the 3rd Tulsa Gay & Lesbian Film Festival on April 18-20 in’ Lorton Hall The Festival was originally ojoint effort of the then BLGA and Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) and Tulsa Family News. The films and videos for the first Festival in 1994 were selected by a student and community committee lead by Jason ~S,_n~_’_th of the BLGA and by Tom Neal for TOHR. Tulsa Family News was and continues to be the media sponsorfor the Festival. The original festival included 15 works that ranged from 1975 to 1992, and varied from highly inaccessible and experimental to very conventional styles. Two works by the late and acclaimed filmmaker, Marion Riggs, were featured. Most of the w6rks were from theUS buttwo were Canadian.Amodest donation benefitted the BLGA and TOHR. The 2nd Film Festival at TU was produced in 1996 as part of TU’s 2nd Annual World Cinema Festival presented by the TU Student Association and the BLGA. This event was free and featured film and video organized around three themes. The first n~ght was Gay & Lesbian History, see Film, page 3 HIVIAlDS Conference Facing the HIV/AIDS Crisis, a Callfor Unity andAction will be held ~n April 18 at the Rogers University Tulsa Campus Confer- :~ ence tseat~t at700 No. Greenwood. The Conference 6~ganizedby ¯¯ members ofTulsa’sAfrican-Americancommunity to address the particular ways that HIV/AIDS is impacting people of color, ," .w.Qmen ,and yOUth wi.ll feature anoon address by Dr. M. J0ycelyn : Elders,:form~rUS~urgeonGeneral~. :~ , ; i .= " ’. ~ : The conference i.~ divided int0 three tracks beginning after:the ¯ welcome at 9 am: youth, general and clergy issues. A particular : goal of the conference according to organizer Beverly Benton is to get North Tulsa churches more involved in HIV/AIDS issues. ¯ And the conference is sponsored by. several churches: Higher ¯ ¯ Dimensions Family Church, Revelations-Revealed Truth Evan- gelistic Center, United Methodist Oklahoma ConferenceAIDS ¯ Taskforc¢ and Co.mm~unity of Hope, TU’s Canterbury ~,entef, ¯ Al! Tribes ~o.ring_mfi_’t3; ~hurch, as well as rndtiy brg~z,~tion~ from PFLAG to the NAACP. ¯ " R~’gls’~afi6iiincludes lunch andis $25 ($10/students). At 6 pm, the Gospel Fest AIDS Memorial Service will be held at the Greenwood Cultural Center. This event is free. Info: 622-6059 New AIDS Czar Praised WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the AIDS Action Council and other DC based organizations praised the selection of Sandra L. Thurman as the new White House "AIDS czar." "’Sandra Thurman is a solid choice to take the Office of National AIDS Policy to the next level said Elizabeth Birch, HRC’s executive director. "She brings the right mix of leadership, political skills and commitment to the fight against HIV and AIDS.’" The HRC legislative director, Winnie Stachelberg, added Thurman has the experience to design and execute the administration’s programs in the changing struggle to end the HIV/AIDS epidemic. "Thurman was intricately involved in the creation and enactment of the Ryan White CAREAct in 1990 and its reauthorizadonin 1995," said Stachelberg, who is a member of the executive committee of the tunbrella group National Organizations Responding to AIDS. "She knows AIDS policy and politics from the inside -a critical combination of skills for this job.’" Thurman becomes the third person to hold the position known informally as the national AIDS czar. Thurman, a native of Atlanta, is past executive director of AID Atlanta, the Southeast’s first and largest AIDS service provider. Under her stewardship, AID Atlanta tripled in size, becoming a multimillion-dollar direct service agency with 90 staffers’and more than 1,000 volunteers, serving thousands of individuals and families with HIV and AIDS. Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Oklahoma City will host the 12th Great Plains Regional Rodeo organized by the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association (OGRA) on Memorial Day weekend, May 23-25. It features 2 days of rodeo at the OKC State Fair~rounds and 3 nights of parties and exhibits at the Hilton Inn NW. A ticket package is available for $36 which includes the competitions, a barbecue dinner, Friday night party and Sunday’s award ceremony. OGRA began in 1984. The Great" Plains Regional Rodeo was formed through the efforts of Kansas, Missouri and Oklahoma and held its first rodeo in 1986. In 1993, Arkansas formed the Diamond Stare RodeoAssociation andjoined the Great Plains organization. OGRA gave over $10,000 to HIViAIDS organizations in the state. ¯ Membership is not limited to rodeo competitors. ¯ Members of OGRA participate in events ranging ¯ from campouts, trailrides, shows and fun ¯" fundraisers. For more information, call 405-842- 0849. Hotel reservations can be made by calling 1- ¯" 800-848-4811. The next regional rodeo will be in "- Kansas City in August. i Tahlequah’s Stonewall : League Aims to Serve. : Tahlequah’s Stonewall League may be small but is : definitely ambitious. They aim to provide support, ¯ advocacy, outreach and education to Lesbian, Bi- : sexual, Gay, Transgendered and Intersexual per- . sons. For now, the fledgling group has conceni trated.0n ~Upport;and.q0mmunity building but they. ¯ also hope to provide a safe space for you~ iidul~ ...... ¯ whoarejustdiscoveringtheiridentities.TheI_~ague ¯ meets at a friendly religious organization on the ," 2nd &4th Thursdays each month, andis open to all : wh0silPi~4 ~he.g~lslofthe .League For informa- ¯ tion, leave a message at 918-456-7900. INSIDE- EDITORIAL/DIRECTORY P. 2 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 HEALTH & WELLNESS COLUMN P.7 COMMUNITY CALENDAR P. 9 ENTERTAINMENT NOTES P. 10 BOOK REVIEW .... P. 10 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 11 CLASSIFIEDS P. 14 Y publicationare Protecte¯dby~Sc~pyrig¯ kt1997¯ byT~F " N~¯¢a¯nd may not be reproduced e~th~t tn whole or ~n part w~thoutwntten permission 918,583.1248 from the publisher..Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that fax: 583.4615 Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal p~,rson’s sexual orientation. POB 4140 Tulsa, OK 74159 Entertainment Writer: James Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted, e-mail: Christjohn, Writers ÷ contributors: must be signed & becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All TulsaNews@aol.com Barry Hensley, Dr. Mike German correspondence should be sent to the address to the left. Each reader is website: Jean-Pierre Legrandboucfie entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution points. Additional http://users.aol.com/TulsaNews/ Member of The Associated Press copies are available by calling 583-1248. by Tom Neal, editor &publisher It’ s interesting to watch the machinations of the latest Oklahoma City_ export that’s come to Tulsa.with grand ambitions - and grand pretensions, but also with he-humjournalism and questionable business practices. Once again, some OKC residents have decided that they know what’s best for the rest of the state. Pity that we were just too witless to realize that we needed them to save us. Oh well. What we’re talking about is the warma-be Dallas Voice weekly rag. Unfortunately while they’ve mostly got the weekly part down, they haven’t gotten the quality local journalism part that The Dallas Voice has provided for years. Despite claims of local coverage, their content remains consistently almost all wire stories. The slight local content is inaccuratemoreoften than not. AndTulsa observers are regularly amused by the consistently fictional aspects of parts of their Tulsa calendar. In contrast, The Gayly Oklahoman and Tulsa Family News have provided consistent, serious and nationally praised coverage ofOKC and Tulsa news, respectively. And while we cannot speak for The Gayly, Tulsa Family News has always been run on sound financial principles. While we never, ever will get rich, TFN was in the black from its first issue, see Spit, page 3 Tulsa Clubs & Restaurants *Bmnboo Lounge, 7204 E. Pine *Concessions, 3340 S. 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(African-American mens group) POB 8542, 74101, call c/o HOPE @ 712-1600 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education, 1307 E. 38, 2ndft. 712-1600, HOPE Anonymous HIV Testing Site, 742-2927 TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 838-1715 749-4194 748-3111 365-5658 584-7960 749-4901 587-7674 743-4297 749-4195 665-5174 584-2325 ¯ attn: Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche ¯ re: March ’97 restaurant review ¯ When writing, your articles, I should ¯ think thatyou should add that your critic’s ¯ are based on a personal opinion. By not ¯ doing so you have not only insulted your ¯ hostess, in more ways than one but about 50,000 people thathave eat (sic) atMolly’s Landing on an average each year for the : last 12 years. Before stating how overly expensive you feel that Molly’s is, have you ever tired some of the other restaurants in the Tulsa area, because.you not-ouly.pay a equal amount for the entree, but you pay extra for the baked potato and/or salads. No hints will be given, because we feel you need the experience. If you did some investigation, I think you will find that your beloved Montrachet’s is closed because people didu’t like the food. I realize that not everyone has the same pallet (sic), bnt there are enough people to keep a restaurant open that has decent food. Most people feel it a compliment to Molly’s that people from all walks of life and every dress preference, feel comfortable and enjoy the same food in the stone buildiug, at the stone time. Molly’s was approached not long ago to adve’rtise in you paper, I wonder how the critic would have read (sic) had we doue so. - Molly’s Landing, Linda Powell Editor’s note: Several ofMs. l~owell’s claims deserve correction. TFN’s restaurant critic works independently. A professional who has traveled attddined widely, attd who has visited nearly all ofTulsa"s better restaurants, he is well qualified to comtnent on the ones he chooses to review. Furthermore. neither I nor any other member of TFN staff have ever solicited Molly’s Ixznding for advertising: We suspect that "" Ms. Powell may have confused us with ¯ l)dsa Kids or Oklahoma Family. And as ¯ publisher and editor, l neither assign nor ¯ prohibit the coverage of any establish- ’. ment by this independent. 1 limit my edit- " ing to issues oflength and the excision of ¯~ the rare, over-the-top c.omment. There- . jbre, the suggestion that somehow there ¯ could be a connection between your deci- ¯ sionsaboutadvertisingandTFN’sreview has less than no merit. Infact. there has been only one restau- *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston Leaune M. Gross, Financial Planning Mark T. Hamby, Attorney .. *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotlaerapy, 2865 E. 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Jerry Falwell, who resorted to name-calling in blasting DeGeneres’ morals after news of the upcoming on-air announcement was released, the New Orleans native said she’d heard it all before. "’Really, he called me that? Ellen DeGenerate?" she said. "I’ve been getting that since the fourth grade." In a related event, Birmingham television station WBMA,known as "ABC33/40," decided that the lesbian theme of the show was not suitable for prime-time family viewing and won’t show it. ABC hasn’t heard whether any other of its 223 affiliates has rejected the hour-long special planned for April 30, spokeswoman Arme Marie Riccatelli. said.Thursday...... Jerry Heilman, president and general manager ofABC 33/40, said the station tried to get permission from ABC to air the episode at 11:30 p.m., rather than the scheduled 8 p.m., but the network would not approve the switch. "Our stance rightnow is that we will not be showing the first episode. There’s a possibility we won’t carry any of the episodes in May if it deals with the same thing. We’ll take it an episode at a time," said Heilman. In its place, the station plans a special on an Alabama football coach. Other ABC affiliates that serve the major Alabama markets - WAAY in Huntsville, WHOA in Montgolnery, and WEAR in Mobile - plan to carry Ellen’s outing episode. "As far as we’re concerned, there’s no real decision. It’s just another episode," said Joe Smith, operations managerforWEAR, which is based in Pensacola. Asked about the Rev. Jerry Falwell, who resorted to name-e.allin ...., [Eflen] said she’d heard aftbefore. "Reafly, he eafled me that? Ellen DeGenerate? ... I’ve been getting that slnee the grade." The network has received criticism from both sides on the issue. Lana Metcalf, a policy analyst for the Alabama Family Alliance, commended ABC 33/40 for deciding uot to carry it. "I thimk it’s certainl y a harmful episode and not conducive to families," she said. But the pastor of a Woodlawn church that serves a largely homosexual congregation said the show could offer insight into what a gay person experiences in coming out. "We’re very sad that ABC 33/40 will not show this process to the world at large," said Covenant Metropolitan Cormnunity Church paslor Margc Ragona. Also ABC rejected a TV ad promoting the lesbian cruisc line, Oakland-based Olivia Cruises and Resorts. ABC broadcasl editor Bob Reynolds said in a fax to the public relations firm that represents Olivia that their proposed ad had been rejected for use during the "’Ellen" coming-out episode, even though the spot would have helped make up for ads pulled by Chrysler and J.C. Pcaney. "It is our position that discussion about same-sex lifcstyles is more appropriate in programming,- Olivia’s presideut, Judy Dlugacz, called the April 30 "’Ellen" episode "lfistoric," since it will be the first time a show’s lead character has revealed that she or he is homosexual. But - knowing that a large number of lcsbians will watch the show - Dlugacz also sees a prime marketing moment slipping away. "Here was this incredible opportuuity forme to reach a group that often doesn’t want to be identified," said Dlugacz, who has run her travel and ~nusic co~npany fbr more than 20 years-: ..... "FED Inc., the New York public relations finn that handles advertising for Olivia, is now pursuing air time on ABC affiliates in New York, !~os Angeles, Chicago, s-hn ’Fraiici~co, Houston, Eiallas, Mimni and Seattle. "’Needless to say, it will cost ~nuch more to air the ad in these individual ~narkets than it would have cost to air uationally," said Bob Fitzgerald of TED Inc. It is the second time in less than a month that sponsors ofa gay-related ad have had to shop it to local ABC affiliates after rejection from the national network. The Washington-based Human Rights Campaign wanted to place.an ad about discrirmnation against lesbians and gay men m the workplace. HRC’s ad is aimed at raising awareness thatjob discrimination based on sexual oftenration is legal in 41 states.But Vice President Harvey Dzodin said that script violated network’s policy against . .i’~controversialissue advertising," such as abortion, union ~ssues and Gay civil rights. HRC says ABC’s stance on the Olivia ad, which would have brought the broadcaster ~;000, iridicates a specific bias against businesses trying to reach the gay and lesbian market. "This discriminates against gay comparues trying to reach amarket," said David Smith, a Human Rights Campaign spokesman. Smith said he askedABC’ s Dzodin for clarification on the policy, but was refused. Currently, HRC is planning to air the ad in the following markets: Albany, Albuquerque, Anchorage, Alaska, Atlanta; Austin, Bismarck, N.D., Boston, Cleveland, Columbia, S.C.; Dallas, Denver, Erie, Pa., Fargo, N.D., Fort Smith, Grand Rapids, Mich., Honolulu, Jackson, Miss., Los Angeles, Madison, Wis., Manchester, N.H., Minneapolis, New Orleans, Oklahoma City, Phoenix, Portland, Maine, Portland, Ore., Raleigh, N.C:, St. Louis, San Antonio, San Francisco, Seattle, Traverse City, Mich., and Washington. The spot was declined by the network’s affiliates in Chicago, Colorado Springs, Eugene, Ore., Grand Junction, Colo., Houston, Knoxville, Memphis, Nashville, New York, Philadelphia, and Wichita. Meanwhile, ABC is attempting to fill slots that could have been filled by such skittish advertisers as Genera] Motors and Johnson &Johnson, which have- in addition to regular advertisers Chrysler andJ.C. Penney - decided not to advertise on the April 30 episode. Johnson & Johnson’s competitor, Home Access Health Corp., has announced it would advertise its HIV-testing kits during the show. Microsoft Corp. plans to buya spot. In Tulsa, The Pride Center will host an Ellen Watch Party in the Pfimetimers Lounge beginning at 6:30 for the 7-8 pm broadcast. Popcorn and soft drinks will be served. All are welcome. but the studies also compared these groups with children born from natural conception. Though the studies found no differences between the groups, Patterson noted that "the existing body of research is relatively sparse and open to criticism." ~he said many of the studies are based on small samples and the lesbian couples studied often have volunteered for the research, which can affect the results. The studies involved children up to age 9. Interest in the development of children bona to lesbian couples has increased in recent years because more and morelesbians are choosing to raise afamily, said Patterson. "There is a lesbian baby boom," she said. "’It hasn’t been quantified, but there is a general community sense that more and more lesbian couples are having children." Part of the reason may be that more fertility clinics now are providing services to lesbian couples, she said. These clinics hdp lesbians become pregnant with the sperm of anonymous donors. Fiona Tasker of Birkbeck College in the Netherlands said her study found that non-biological lesbian parents were usually more involved with the children than are the fathersof heterosexual couples. "The woman who is the co-parent in alesbian family is more likely to take a major role in raising the children," said Tasker. In a study of 15 lesbian couples and 41 .parents of clfildren born throughnatural conception, Tasker said she found that 90 percent of the lesbian co-parents assumed the common child-raising tasks. Only about 37 percent of the fathers in heterosexual Couples, however,, took an active role, she said. In disciplining the children, Tasker found, 60 percent of the lesbian co-parents took an active role, while it was only 20 percent of the fathers in heterosexual families. Raymond W. Chan of the University ofVirginia said his study of lesbian and heterosexual couples with children included reports from the children’s teachers. Chan ¯ children in Chan’s study were conceived at fertility ¯ clinics andsome were being raised by single heterosexu,~l ¯ parents and some by single lesbian parents. The researcher said his tests found no differences between the : groups. "The children of insemination are developing normally whether in lesbian or heterosexual families when compared to the available norm for the community at large," Chan said. Contrast that with a vanity press, held iogether with spit, volunteers, prayers, and some OKC sources claim, ¯ the subsidy of a wealthy businessman who was gunning for The Gayly. Should readers care whether a newspaper has sound financial practices? Only if they expect it to ¯ last. In contrast to the newly amved, The Gayly has ¯ operated for more than a decade and Tulsa Family News ¯ is well into its fourth year of giving Tulsa serious, ¯ sometimes-controversial, but thorough news coverage ." for Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals and Transgendered ¯¯ folk and our families and friends. And while we are happy to distribute TFNto other parts ¯ of the region (we’vejust added Oklahcma City, Norman, ..... Tahtexluah andBartlesville sites); we recognize, a~ Serious newspapers have for years, that it is nearly impossible to cover competently a city in which one does not live. That’s why TFN has chosen to cover Tulsa well rather than cover a region poorly. By the way, the dirty little secret of Lesbian/Gay newspapers is that the reason for "’regional coverage" is so that there’S more towns_ from which to suck out advertising - not because covering more towns can be done well. Just look at the consistently marginal quality of news coverage in our "regional" newspapers if you need any further proof. Anyway, our advice to the wanna-be’s is: don’t give up ygur day jobs yet or at least, make sure you keep the spouses who are supporting you happy. next was American Gay & Lesbian Experience, and the final day was International Film with works from France, Spain, Canada and India. This year’s event will show 10 works of varying lengths and origin beginning at 7 pm on Friday, 2 pm & 6:30 on saturday, and 2 pm & 7 pm on Sunday. (see page 11 for ad with schedule). BLGTA spo,kesperson, Tedd Adams, noted that the organizers had hoped to screen "’Beautiful Thing," a highly acclaimed~xvork about two teennage boys first love, made for the l~K’s commercial Channel 4. Adams noted that if they were able to get the film (which showed in Tulsa at Movies8 for a week), it would be added to the Sunday night program. Organizers note that Lorton Hall can be difficult to find the first time. From 8th Street and Evanston, attendees may go north on Evanston between Shaw Alumni Center and Twin Soutl~ Hall. Where Evanston dead ends sits McClure Hall ~or TUalums - where youpaidthose bills). Lorton is just to the left, or west. There is a very small parking lot and the screening room (#207) is just to the left inside the door that opens onto the parking lot. For more info., call Tedd at 832-7838. that Gay people had as much right to be in the park as anv others. At this point a bystander came forward and identified lmnself as Bisexual and asked if they had a problem with that? At this point, Flowers claims that the couples backed down and said that they didn’t mean to do anything wrong but were just doing what their minister told them to do. A local HIV educator who does some park prevention outreach adds that in the last few weeks, that he may have seen similar things going on at 21st and Riverside. While he hasn’t overheard-any conversations, he has seen groups of couples approaching single men who then have left immediately. A source with the City of Tulsa, speaking anonysaid the teacher reports, ~using standard osveholo~ical "" ’ ~nously, noted that intimidating Gay people out of ~the evaluations, found.’!no significant difference" in ah~t-. " ~park is reprehensible but is probably well within the area ment or behavior between the groups of children. All the ~ of protected First Amendment speech, noting that there : likely is no crime involved. However, an area Gay attor- ,. hey when asked if the situation were reversed and Gay people were harassing straights out of the park, com- ." mented that he had no doubt that the Tulsa police would find a way to arrest Gays. : Representatives of the Pride Center/TOHR have taken ¯ complaints from Flowers and encourage others with ¯ similar experiences to report thereto the Helpline at 743- 4297 to help in tracking these problems. The Pride Center ¯ representatives also note that those willing t,o do so may also file written complaints with the Mayor s office. 7 Firing of Anti-Gay Civil Rights Official Upheld SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - A pul~lic official who "preaches homophobia" as a member of San Francisco’ s anti-discrimination agency is not assured job security, says a federal appeals court. The 9thU.S. Circuit Court of Appeals upheld the city’ s firing of the Rev. Eugene Lumpkin, who said he thought homosexuality was an abomination and appeared to endorse anti-gay violence. Neither freedom ofspeech nor freedom of religion gives an appointed public official the right to undermine the tolerance his office is supposed to promote, the court said Thursday. Lumpkin had the right to speak as a private citizen, "but the First Amendment does not assure him job security when he preaches homophobia" while serving on the city’ s anti-discrimination agency, the court said. Lumpkin’s lawyer, James Struck, said he would probably appeal further. "This opinion shows complete intolerance for religious beliefs that are widely held," said Struck, of the Rutherford Institute, a conservative religious-liberties organization. He said Lumpkin did not support anti-gay violence and held views no different from those of orthodox Catholics, Muslims and Jews. "Now the 9th Circuit has painted all those people as homophobes," Struck said. Lumpkin, a pastor appointed to the commission by then-Mayor Frank Jordan, was fired by Jordan in 1993 after a furor over his public comments about homosexuals. "The homosexual lifestyle is an abomination against God," Lumpkin said. "So I have to preach that homosexuality is a sin." He also said he believed "everything the Bible sayeth." Asked by a television interviewer.about a statement in Leviticus that a man who-slept with a man should be put to death, Lumpkin said, "That’s what God sayeth." Jordan, in announcing the firing, said Lumpkin had the right to his religious beliefs but had "crossed the .line from belief-to behavior to advocacy" and "implied that he condoned physical harm." San Francisco supervisors backed the firing. Lumpkin’s lawsuit, claiming violatidns of his constitutional rights, was dismissed by U~S. District Judge Fern Smith. The appeals court upheld her decision in a 3-0 ruling. The court cited the Human Rights Commission’s official responsibilities, "to eliminate prejudice and discrimination" based on race, religion, sex, sexual orientation and other grounds, and to promote "equal opportunity for and good will toward all people." Lumpkin’s statements "are not simply hostile to the commission’ s charge, they are at war with it," said the opinion by Judge William Norris. "Neither the First Amendment nor the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (a 1993 federal law) requires government at any level to put up with policylevel officials who work at cross-purposes with the policies they are responsible for carrying out." Deputy City Attorney Burk Delventhal said the court endorsed the city’s argument that "when a person accepts public office, his ability to engage in whatmight otherwise be protected speech is limited to the extent necessary to enable the person to discharge his public duties." CA School Protections BillWins CommitteeVote SACRAMENTO (AP) - Public schools and colleges couldn’t discriminate against students and employees because of;their, sexual orientation, under-a bill that passed an Assembly test without a vote to spare. The measure by Assemblywoman Shelia Kuehl, DSanta Monica, cleared the 21-member Education Committee On Wednes-di~y with a bare. maj ority of 1 votes after stalling for several hours, one vote short. The bill now moves to the Appropriations Committee, the last stop before the Assembly floor. Current law bars public schools and colleges from discriminating on the basis of race or gender in their programs, admissions, hiring or financial aid. In some instances, the anti-discrimination ban also covers religion, disabilities, age, and national origin. Schools can’t use instructional materials that reflect adversely on people because of their race, creed, national origin,.ancestry, gender, disability or occupation. In.addition, school personnel commissions ¯ NH Students Denounce University Violence ~ PLYMOUTH, N.H. (AP) - Several years ago, Ply- . mouth State Collegejunior Judy Pich was attacked by ¯ a man who punched, kicked and spit on her while ¯ calling her names like "queer" and "dyke." When she ¯ tried to talk about the incident with her peers, she"-felt ¯ more like an offender than a victim," Pich said. ¯ "There are good people and there are bad people, but ¯ everyone is at fault because the good people don’t do ¯ anything about it. Peoplehave to breakthe silence and ¯ ignorance." ¯ Pich told her story to the 2,000 students, faculty, [ staff and alumni who turned out Wednesday for an ¯ emergency "Forumon Hate" organizedbythe school’ s ¯ Task Force on Homophobia. The forum was held in ¯ ~eaction to an incident involving another fema!e ¯ student, who said she was attacked by two men in ¯ March.. The woman, whose identity has not been revealed, told campus police the two men punched ¯ her and urinated on her face after calling hera lesbian ¯ and telling her she "had no right tobe allowed to be ¯ walking around the world." Plymouth police Chief Tony Raymond said even ¯ though the girl has decided she does not want to ¯ pursue the case, the investigation will continue; The ¯ student government is offering $500 for.information ¯ about the attackers. While some students who turned ¯ out at the forum said they were shocked that a hate ¯ crime occurred on the campus, many said milder ¯ incidents of intolerance, suqh ~s .name-.calling and ¯ telling derogatory jokes, happen all the time. Many ¯ said they were ready to tackle the problem and try to ¯ solve it. "We need to look out for each other and not ¯ stand idly by while these things happen around us," ¯ juniorMikeHeber said. "We needto take responsibil- ¯ ity for the safety of each other." ¯ Several people pointed out that alcohol is often a ¯ factor of violent crime. College President Donald ¯ Wharton railed against bar owners he said encourage ¯ drunkenness and even sexual assault with such promotions as ladies’ nights, where women drink for ¯ free, and tan-line contests. But many students said cannot ask job. applicants questions about their race, ¯ sex, marital status, political opinions or affiliations or ¯ religious beliefs. ¯ Kuehl’s bill would expand tlgose,..prohibitions to cover sexual orientation. An ~lmost identical bill, "¯ also by Kuehl, one of two openly gay members of the Legislature, died in the Education Committee last ¯ year, when the Assembly was controlled by Republi- ¯ cans. Supporters suggested the bill would lead to ¯ changes in school policies and attitudes that would ¯ help curb the harassment of students that are, or are perceived to be, gay. Stephanie Reed of Petaluma said her son Robin ¯ committed suicide after being taunted by other stu- ¯ dents while a teacher looked on without intervening. ¯ "Robin did not commit suicide because he was gay; ¯ he-committed suicide because he was in pain;’: she ¯ said. Another bill supporter, Michael Malcolm, a ~ high school vice principal from"Union City, said ¯ schools must provide a safe learning environment. ¯ "Our district adopted a non-discrimination policy," ¯ he said. "I believe our campus is a different place ¯ because of the change in policy." ¯ Opponents claimed the bill could be used to silence ¯ criticism of homosexuality. "(The bill) is not about ¯ discrimination; it’s about letting one group of people ~ bring their personal agenda into the classroom and ¯ tell students that the homosexuallifestyle is all right," said Herbert Hall of Garden Grove, who said he was ¯ a former homosexual. "This is a cunning political attack that uses children as pawns," added a witness. ¯ who identified himself only as Mark and who also said he used to be gay. Other opponents said the : measure could prevent private schools that discrimi- ¯ nated against homosexuals from playing public schools in athletics, and Assemblyman George House ¯ contended the bill would lead to a "massive boycott ¯ of public schools." Kuehl suggested the opponents’ ¯ fears were unfounded. "This bill does not do anything ¯ but bar discrimination by public educational institu- ¯ tions against their own students on bases that do not ¯ relate to their merit," she said. St. Jerome An Affirming Liturgical Church meeting at The Garden Chapel 3841 S.~Peoria ¯ Tu~a, Ok~unna Mass Saturday eves at:6pm Fath~" R~k Hoa~ng~wm~ Pastor B~,v. Deacon Deb~e Starms (918) 742-6227 Ted Schutt Realtor 834-7921 Specializing in Family Homes REX, REALTORS, 747-4746 MCC of Greater Tulsa "Where God Uplifts All People" 1623 N. 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Service 6:30 pm °,.Wed. 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to walk humbly with our God... Micah 6:8 5451-E South Min~o ¯ Tulsa, OK ° 74146 . (918) 622-1441 while alcohol often accompanies violence, it isn’t the problem - people are. "I don’t drink a six-pack and say ’I hate that guy bee-~s’~6’tae’s ghy,"’ sophomore ¯John McKittrick said. "A drunken man’s words are sober man’s thoughts. I think we need to go after the people who did this." Maine Civil Rights Bill AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) - Jbel Abromson and Michael Quint come from different backgrounds and even represent opposite parties in the Legislature, but they.say they share one thing in common: discrimination. Abromson, who recalls the prejudice he endured growing upJewishdnMaine,ds sponsoring a~bill..that could help Quint and others like him who say their homosexuality makes them second-class citizens when it comes to housing and other rights; "Discrimination happens every single day," said Quint, a Democratic representative from Portland. "I know because I have seen it, I have experienced it and still carry around with me the expectation, even the fear of it because I know it could happen anytime." About 500 people attended a public hearing on the bill held by the Legislature’ s Judiciary Committee. A similar bill passed both the House and Senate four years ago, but was vetoed by then-Gov. John McKernan. But Gov. Angus King supports the legislation, which would extend to all citizens, no matter their sexual orientation, the same civil rights guaranteed regardless of race, color, religion, sex, age, national origin and physical or mental handicap. Discrimination in the areas of employment, housing, public accommodations and credit would be prohibited. Abromson, a Republican senator from Portland, recalled his own personal experiences as a Jewish man growing up in Maine, and how he was called a "dirty Jew" and a "Christ killer." As a student at Bowdoin College in the late 1950s, the Portland Republican said he saw fraternities deny invitations to Jews and blacks. Later, during a tour of the infamous Auschwitz concentration camp in Poland, Abromson said he learned theNazis tried tb exterminate not only Jews, but gays, Gypsies and Slavs, as well. Abromson said his bill "ends forever any similarity between the Nuremberg laws (legitimizing anti-semitism) of 1930s Germany and state laws of 1990s Maine. This bill is that important." The bill’s most vocal foe is Concerned Maine Families, an anti-gay rights group which calls the proposal a "jobs bill for gays." The organization’s leaders have warned the bill would give special job advantages to anyone claiming to be gay or perceived as gay. Many at the hearing held signs that said, "Stop the Special Jobs Bill for Gays" and "Equality for ME. The way life should be." "The effects of this mandate on small business will be burdensome, unjust, unenforceable and will heighten the unfriendly business climate that we must already tolerate in the state of Maine," said Randall Clark ofCape Elizabeth, president of Small BusinesS Benefits Inc. and leader of the CMF!s 1,200-member Business Advisory Board. Rod Smith of Buxton told the committee he was fired from his job as a nursing assistant in Lewiston last January because he was gay. Another gay man, Guy Riddick of South Portland, said several landlords in Gorham, Westb.rook and Scarborough toldhim and his male partner last year they did not rent to homosexuals. Alandlord in POrtland also refused, but because that city has an ordinance protecting homosexuals from housing discrimination, the couple was able to sue, Riddick said. In 1995, Maine voters rejected a ballot question by Concerned Maine Families to restrict gay civil rights, 53 percent to 47 percent. Civil rights advocates are cormng off a recent loss over same-sex marriages. The Legislature last month approved a ban on gay marriages, making Maine the 18th state [o do so. King let the measure become law without his signature. Several legislators said they voted for the ban only to avoid sending the issue to a statewide referendum, where they feared a negative campaign could hurt the drive for gay rights. So far this year, about 17 bills favoring civil rights for Lesbians and Gay men have been introduced in at least 14 states, according to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. ¯ First Montana Gay Pride Parade In Bozeman BOZEMAN (AP) - Despite protests from about 200 ¯ people, Bozeman city commissioners unanimously ¯ approved apermit for a gay pride parade this summer, ¯ saying they had no choice. "Ifwe didn’t, it’s discrimi- ¯ nation," Mayor Don Stueck said after the 5-0 vote. ~ Stueck said the city’s attorney, PaulLuwe, had warned ¯ that if the commission banned this parade, it would ¯ have to cancel all parades, including the Sweet Pea ¯ and Montana State University homecoming parades. ¯ Stacey Haugland, a Pride member who attended ¯ Monday’s meeting, said she was pleased by the vote. ’- Pride’has-been a:’~r~al’respectfUl ~bn~m~n~ity gtot~p," ¯ Haugland.said. "I donrt think the people have any- ~ thing to fear from the parade." The Pride Weekend is ¯ planned June 6-8 at the Emerson Cultural Center to ¯ celebrate gays, lesbians and bisexuals living in Mon- ¯ tana. Three annual weekends have been held before in other Montana cities. Raven Kargel of Belgrade, who organized an anti- . gay march in Bozeman two years ago, said the city ¯ really didn’t have a choice because it would have ¯ been sued by Pride if commissioners rejected the ¯ "sodomites"’ parade. People who oppose homosexuality, she said, may raise money to sue the city themselves. "I think it would be better to boycott the ¯ city," specifically downtown, Kargel said. "People ¯ who don’t want to see people bragging about bi:eak- ¯ ing the law need to boycott." KGVW, a Christian ¯ radio station based in Belgrade, had urged listeners to ~ call Bozeman City Hall to protest the parade, and that ¯ prompted about 200 phone calls from around the ¯ Gallatin Valley. "It is like inviting leprosy into the ¯ community," one caller said. : Transexual Parent Seeks ¯ Custody Rights Back ST. LOUIS (AP) - A father who lo~t custody of two ¯ song after undergoing a sex change operation says she ¯ plans toask an appeals court to reconsider its ruling. ¯ "There are things only a parent can provide," the ¯ father, now known as Sharon, told the St. Louis Post- " Dispatch. "That is unconditional love, guidance and ~ wisdom. There is no reason I can’t give that to my kids." ¯ Sharon, 38, is a graduate of the Air Force Academy ¯ and a former officer in the Air Force and Army. She has had no direct contact with the boys since late ¯ 1992. Sharon said that the children - now 7 and 10 - ¯ needed both their parents. She plans to ask the Mis- ¯ souri Court of Appeals in St. Louis to reconsider its ¯ March 11 decision giving the boys’ mother sole legal ¯ custody. ¯ Hundreds of battles similar to Sharon’s are waged ~ nationwide each year, but nearly all are fought out- . side public view, a national advocate for transsexuals ¯ said."Mostcasesdon.t&"splaythecourageofSharon,’ ~ who was willing to go public;" said Riki Anne ¯ Wilchins, executive director ofGender Public Advo. ¯ cacy Coalition, or Gender PAC, in New York. Such ¯ custody battles are seldom conducted "on a level ¯ playing field," she said. "Usually, the mode of attack ¯ ~s to portray the transgender parent as, bydefinition, ¯ deviant and anendangerment to their own kids, even ¯ in the absence bf any evidence to support the claim." ~ In Sharon’s ’case; -the appeals ’courtin St:Louis ¯ ruled that a St. Charles County Circuit Court judge ¯ must decide whether visits with Sharon would be in ¯ the boys’ best interest. The appeals rulingo overturned ¯ ajoint-custody decision by anotherjudgein St. Charles ¯ County where the boys’ mother lives. ¯ "Ifyou asked them, I know they would want to talk ¯ with me," Sharon said. "I have never, ever presented ~ myself to my children.as anything other than their ¯ dad. I do not need my chi" ldren’ s vali"dati"on ofm¯ yself ¯ as a.woman." ~ Sharon acknowledged that both boys would need ¯ counseling before they could resume a relationship ¯ with their father. Sharon said her original plan for ¯ reconciliation with her sons called forphone calls and ~ counseling leading up to visits. "I know they would ¯ recognize me as their dad," she said. "I would never ¯ do anything that would harm them." Y Teens Feel No Risk BLOOMINGTON, Ind. (AP) - Th,~re is a perception amongrural Indiana teen-agers that AIDS won’t happen to them, according to a recent study by two Indiana University professors. "They think they know everyone, what they are doing and who they should avoid," said William L. Yarber, one of the researchers. "That is really significant relative to the fact that we are finding, in our center, that AIDS is growing faster in the rural areas." Yarber, senior director of the Rural Center for AIDS/Sexually Transmitted ,Disease Prevention, and Stephanie Sanders, associate director of the Kinsey Institute, condUcted the study of 38 adolescents, ages 11- to 17-years-old. Both males and females said they would not practice sexual abstinence just to avoid HIV, and females expressed a greater fear of pregnancy than of HIV infection. "There is a real perception in the rural communities that they don’t believe their ownrural town has been touched by AIDS and that they are invulnerable," Yarber said. But state statistics show that both counties involved in the study have AIDS cases and several HIV diagnoses as well, Yarber said. "They may not know people as well as they think," he said. "But they don’t feel they have to worry about it." 1st Nat’lCurriculum About; HIV/AIDS NEW ORLEANS (AP) - A new tool to slow down the~spread of HIV where it is increasing fastest - among teens - has been u0y~iled,~gcently. "The Science of HIV,?~.a. l;84-page teachers’ guide and 30- minute Video, is:the first gcience program designed to ~each students about the human immunodeficiency virus, how it causes,AIDS, and how to avoid it. The guide wasunveiled at a National Science Teachers Association (NSTA) meeting. "The research community has made encouraging progress in treating AIDS, but the only 100 percent effective treatment we have is prevention," said James Gallarda, with Abbott Laboratories. "By teaching the science of HIV and AIDS, we hope to give students a better understanding of how this disease is prevented and treated." Gallarda, who helped put together the Chicago Museum of Science and Industry’s AIDS exhibit, said that work prompted Abbott to ask the NSTA about developing the program. A new report from the Centers for Disease Prevention and Control found that new AIDS cases among 13- to 25-yearolds infected thrdugh sex and drug needles rose 20 percent between 1990 and 1995, he said. One quarter of all new HIV infections are among people younger than’22. Even science teachers in the audience murmured in surprise Friday at the results of one demonstration designed to show how quickly a virus can spread. Author Michael DiSpezio passed out clear plastic cups of clear liquid to the two dozen teachers and reporters who attended the breakfast meeting. Four of the cups were "infected" with an alkali and would turn bright pink when the right chemical was added. He had each person turn to a neighbor, mix the contents of their cups together, then divide the mixed liquid back between the two cups. Then each person turned to a different neighbor and did the same thing. DiSpezio went down the aisles with a vial and eyedropper, adding the telltale chemical to each cup. Every single one turned bright pink. ¯ Sharon Nelson, a biology teacher at Waunakee High in Wisconsin and an ad- ¯ visory board member for the project, told ~ the group that when she used the demon-’-~’ ¯ stration in her class of 22 students, two ¯ cups remained clear- and one was held by ¯ a student she had asked to abstain from ¯ mingling fluids. ¯ "I wasjust- ’Wow! The kids will really ¯ go for that! That is very emphatic,’ "said ~ WillaRamsay, a high-schoolteacher from ¯ San Diego. "I am going to my district ¯ science-math manager with it. I think it ¯ needs to be promoted throughout our en- ¯ tire district" she said. ¯ DiSpezio said he thinks that teaching ¯ H1V as science, rather than morality, will ¯ help thecurriculum avoid the fate of safe- ] sex education programs. A committee ¯ namedbytheNationalInstitutes ofHealth ¯ reported in February that moral and gov- ¯ ernment objections are blocking safe sex ¯¯ education programs. She asked if it could also be used in ¯ middle school, and the developers said ¯ yes. "By the time they get to us at ninth ¯ grade, they’re pretty well educated the ¯ wrong way," Ramsay said. "I think we ¯ need to get to the students in sixth grade." ¯ Condoms for Kids ~ SEATILE (AP) - Adults can buy con- . doms at clubs, bars or gas stations, but ¯ access isn’t as easy for youths. A publicprivate partnership campaign aimed at ¯ lowering HIV infection hopes to change ¯ that. The campaign, dubbed Project AC- ¯ TION, is placing condom machines in ¯ Seattle businesses where young people ¯ gather. It’s an attempt to reduce the risk of ¯ sexually transmitted disease and preg- ¯ nancy rates among youths ages 14 to 20. ¯ Kae Lee Dozier, 14, says about a third ¯ of her friends are.having sex. Many of ¯ them think they are immune to sexually ¯ transmitted diseases, HIV, or pregnancy. ¯ "They think ’it can’t happen to ~me,’ but ¯ they’re wrong," Miss Dozier says. ¯ Miss Dozier, other youths and numer- ¯ ous business, religious and political lead- " ers on Thursday announced their support ¯ for Project ACTION. Organizers de- . scribed it as the first broad effort to make ¯ low-cost (25 cents) condoms available to ¯ youths with no strings attached. The two- " year, $450,000 campaign is modeled after ¯ a project started in Portland, Ore., which ¯ includes public education and peer coun- ¯ seling. Seattle and San Jose, Calif., are the ~ next cities to go "online" with the project. ¯ Five condom machines have been in- - stalled in two Seattle businesses so far and ~ the Project hopes to place dispensers in ¯ 130 otherbusinesses with significantyouth ¯ patronage. In King County, health sur- ¯ veys among youths show that 60 percent ~ ofhigh school students are sexually active ¯ by graduation, yet only half of them use , condoms. Lisa Bond, president of the Seattle ¯ Council of Parent Teacher Student Asso- ~ ciation, said even though the PTA has ¯ taken no official position on condom avail- " ability, she personally views the project ¯ .as a step forward. ’Td rather have them do ¯ an end run and save my child’s life than ¯ have a child die from ignorance," Ms. ¯ Bond said. "The more kids know about ¯ the dangers they’re facing, the better deci- ¯ sions they can make." Gwen Williams, director of Holiness Missions, acknowledged that the avail- . ability of condoms is disturbing to many, ¯ particularly churchgoers who emphasize ¯ abstinence. But, Ms. Williams, said, ~ "We’re talking about saving lives. We ¯ find a bias in church ... that people don’t Free & Anonymous Finger Stick Method By &for, but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual Communities. Monday & Thursday evenings, 7-9 pm Daytime testing, Mon-Thurs by appointment. HOPE HIV Outreach, Prevention & Education formerly TOHR HIV Prevention Programs 742 2927 4158 South Harvard, Suite E-2 2 doors east of the HIV Resource Consortium Look for our banner on testing nights. Volunteers Sought for Experimental Genital Herpes Treatment Study Volunteers are needed to participate in a medical research study evaluation an experimental plant-derived antiviral drug that is a topical gel for the treatment of recurrent genital herpes. Interested individuals must be 18 year of age or older, have AIDS and have herpes outbreaks in the genital, area. Involvement in this study will require visits to the clinic 3 days a week, a total of 8 visits. There is no cost to subjects accepted into the study. All study related examinations, laboratory test and study treatment drug will be free of charge. This study is being conducted by Dr. Stephen T. Peake and Dr, Jeffrey A. Beal at 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114-3300 Individuals interested in knowing more about this study are encouraged to call Dr. Peake or Dr. Beal at (918) 743’1000 for additional information. Jeffrey Beal, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 2325 South Harvard, Suite,600, Tulsa, 74114 Monday, Friday, 9:,30;4;30-pm, 743,1000 SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan’s Since 194 7 Major credit cards, In-store charges or Direct insurance billing for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. 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The "Plan" will provide certain services for each insured at a cost of $100.00 per person (employee) per month. This plan has a $300.00 annual deductible and pays 80% of your medical bills after that deductible is met. Sounds pretty easy so far. Here’s where it gets complicated... A third party approaches your insurance company and tells them they can cut their expenses by 40%. This third party is the Managed Care group. It functions as an intermediary (negotiator) between you and your doctor, hospital, pharmacy, etc., and your original insurance company. Its function is to make .money (profits) for themselves and for the Insurance company. It is not in the busi- ¯ gist, "Sorry, no money is left in the Heart ¯ Transplant Fund. Procedure demed. That’s it! After all, money talks. This is ¯ how our civilized, capitalistic society func- ¯ tions. Now, I wouldn’t have such a prob- ¯ lem with all this, if the Managed Care ~ groups were going broke orifthese groups ¯ functioned as not-for-profit institutions. ¯ But when insurance and Managed Care ¯ companies are showing record profits, it ¯ becomes extremely difficult to rationalize how someone could be turned down ¯ for a life-saving procedure. Have yourpremiums gonedown lately ? Have your deductibles or co-payments been reduced this year? Physicians’. pay has dropped by nearly 40% in the past few ¯ years, so they are not benefiting..Ask ¯ yourself, "If premiums are up and benefits are down, who is making out? It ¯ doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure ¯ that the Managed Care groups and your insurance company are laughing all the ¯ way to the bank. If you think (or don’t ¯ think) managed health care is bad now, ¯ here is a look into the crystal ball... ~ Primary care physicians will be called ¯ uponto make decisions (final decisions in ¯ some cases) about health care procedures ¯ based on age and need. For example, say ~ I am your primary care physician, you are 60 years of age, and you need kidney ¯ dialysis. But, I can have only five people ¯ a year on dialysis treatment. Four slots are ¯ already filled and, just before your apness to serve you.or-your doctor!s, ¯ pointment, a 25 year old patient of mine hospital’s, and pharmacist’s (etc.) best ¯ also needs dialysis. Who gets dialysis slot interests:~ Which is your health! Period. ¯ #5? In the future, the care will go to those The sooner.you understand the princi.-. ~ : who can pay out ofpocket: In other words, pal motives of the Managed Care gr0up’s~- . just likeih~judici’ai system, the rich will interest (which is money-making), the- ¯ prevail in health care. better equipped you will be to deal with. ~ Obvi~usly this is avery simplistic overthe pr0blei~s you may encounterl Tile ,~’ vi~c.0f thetotal managed health Care decisions made in health care today .are ¯ picture. "What can I do?" you ask. Get bas~d0nfinancialnumbers.ForeXai:nplei" " inv6I~edi’Wfit~you~elected~fficialsand say you need a heart transplant. Your ~. the State Insurance Commissioners. And primary care physician must refer you out o take care of your health by becoming fit, to a specialist (cardiologist)~ and he/she must ask the Managed Care group if you can be approved for the heart transplant. Mind you, there are funds allocated for these procedures for each group or plan. Well, guess what?! It’s toward the end of the fiscal year and the Heart Transplant Fund is depleted. An accountant from the Managed Care group tells your cardiolo- ¯ ea.ting right, and supplementing with vita- ¯ mlns daily in order to avoid feeding the ~ (Mis)Managed Care Monster!! Dr. Gorman’s practice is located at ¯ 4775 S. Harvard, Suite C, 712-5514. His ¯ is a Board Certified Chiropractor &Acu- ~ .puncturist, has a B:S. degree in Nutrition, ¯ is an active bodybuilder, anddoesfitness, ¯ nutrition, & supplement counseling. want to deal with these issues- not AIDS, not sex before marriage," she said. "But we must face the reality or we’re going to lose our youth." Miss Dozier said condom availability reduces, rather than encourages, sexual activity among youths. "Knowing more about this gives you the power; you don’t think of having sex because you’re drunk or rebelling or because you feel pressured," Miss Dozier said. "After getting all this information aboutAIDS, I’m holding back from .sex. It made me want to wait, and I think more youths will wait and hold off more, the more they know about the risks." Gore Seeks More $ For AIDS Drugs WASHINGTON (AP) Hoping to improve access to AIDS-fighting drugs, the Clinton administration is exploring the possibility of expanding Medicaid coverage for people afflicted with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Vice President A1 ¯ Gore has asked the Health Care Financing ¯ Administration "to look into the possibil- ¯ ity" of making Medicaid available earlier ¯ to people with HIV to get them the cut- . ting-edge drugs needed to help them. - ¯ "If it works out, as I hope and expect it ¯ will, it can ease suffering, renew hope and ¯ help ensure that goodpeopte are notpriced ¯ out of lifesaving medicine," Gore said ¯ Wednesday. He said the move was neces- ¯ sary because people diagnosedwith HIV ¯ can develop full-blown AIDS before be- . coming eligible for Medicaid, "and that ¯ makes some of these new drugs prohibitively expensive for people who need ¯ them." ¯ Gore made the announcement after re- " ceiving the 1997 National Leadership Award for Public Service from AIDS ¯ Action, an AIDS advocacy group. He said ¯ he has asked the HCFA to report back to ¯ him in 30 days after exploring the possi- ~ bility. "Our view is that getting these ¯ drugs to people earlier will not cost more ¯ in the long run," he said. "Itmay even save ¯ money, and it will certainly save lives." OGRA Presents~The 12th Annual Great Plains Regional Rodeo Sponsored by Miller Lite Oklahoma City ¯ OK State Fairgrounds Memorial Day Weekend May 23, 24, 25, 1997 Ticket Package $36.00 FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL THE RODEO HOTLINE 1-405-842-0849 HOST HOTEL - HILTON INN NORTHWEST 2945 N.W. 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All rides start at Ziegler Park Recreation Center, 3903 W. 4th St., Into: PUB 9165, 74157 .Y READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa City-County Library An apparent oxymoron, Steve Gunderson was a multi-term, gay Republican congressman from a rural Wisconsin district. Amoderate, traditional Lutheran, Gunderson had quietly represented his district since 1981 before deciding not to seek reelection in 1996. The story ofGunderson and his long term partner, coauthor Rob Morris, is inspiring, but somewhat disappointing. Told in alternating narratives by each author, House and Home is a refreshingly candid view of a major, gay publiC figure. Many moderates and progressives were deeply disappointed when Gunderson declined to run for a ninth term. He had risen to a position of seniority and influence when he decided that he could no longer trust his own party for support. He realized this one day in 1994, while attending a Wisconsin Republican caucus: "it was composed mostly of right- ¯ Gunderson to become more vocal about his life with Rob Morris. They had met in ¯ 1983 and Gunderson had occasionally ¯ mentioned Morris during political ¯ speeches. After being outed, Morris con- Gundel n lashes outat whathe considersthe liberal, left-w_’mgof theGa-y ci rigrit movement... . t_iayacfivists taavetoaccept thatGays are not automatically that vinced Gunderson to respond forcefully to critics by pointing out that the Republican Party had "an historic role in fighting prejudice." Gunderson insists that "anyone who was familiar with the history ofthe Republican Party would understand that, like Barry Goldwater, I could legitimately say, ’I didn’t leave the party, the party left me.’ " Morris, comments are mostly short contributions of apersonal nature. Being a Congressional spouse, he had to maintain a careful balance between G/anderson’s public and private life. Morris dutifully details his perspective, but without much of the wit and humor that he apparently possesses. Gunderson lashes out at what he considers the liberal, leftwingofthe Gay civil rights movement. He has often, been accused of "sleeping with the wing ’true believers’ who had "[~t=r~ ]]’~ll¢~,~ne come .to the caucus straight . xx~~oa~a from services at their funda- .aren t _ mentalist churches. Mostwere people I had never met before au~oxx.~u.~,c.ttt,y in politics. They were part of enemies.... the ’family values’ army, loyal in every way to the Religious RighVs high command. Not schooled or motivated in partisan politics, not educated about government or history, and not informed in any deep, objective way about many of the major issues, they were there because they had been told that the only way to save the lives of fetuses from abortion, to save their children from the influence of predatory homosexuals, and to save America from degradation was to show up at these caucuses and compel the Republican Party to do their will." His 1994 outing on the floor of the House of Representatives, by controversial congressman Bob Dornan, forced .enemy,’/. : Gunderson~ s response:." Gay activists have to ~aecept ~that gays are not auto- .matically DemOcrats, that Republicans aren’t automatically enemies, and that it is vital to have friends in the majority ¯ party. More specifically, it is crucial to ~ have openly gay Republicans who are ¯ willing to do the sometimes tough and ¯ thankless work of sensitizing the party to ¯¯ gay issues, gay rights, and gay humanity." Gunderson, ofcourse, decided in less than ¯ two years after his outing, that this was the ¯ responsibility of someone else, someone who has yet to show up. The abdication of ¯ his essential role diminishes the impact of his otherwise impressive story. ¯ Checkfor House and Home, and books ¯ on other related topics, at your local ¯ branch library, or call the R~aders Ser- ¯ vices department at the Central Library at 596-7966. Email is a wondrous thing. At the moment, I am in Fort Worth, and having to write a colmnn for deadline. Fortunately, computers allow tiffs to happen. Or unfortunately,. depending on your perspective. You will notice this column is a bit differcnt from others. I have a story to tell. It may be meamngful, it may be entertmning. I hope it is both. Story one: In 1986, my Father was diagnosed with cancer. He was admitted into the hospital for a biopsy. I, as well as the rest ofmy fanfily, were strained mad in denial He had never shown his age frotu the time I was born up to that point in his lifc. 1! sccmcd he would always be there lor us. I was in a play at the time, a drcadflfl nmsical review. I had a solo part in a song (my lirst ever). I was in school full timc and working, so I didn’t have much time for hospital visits. According to fanfily that did spend time at the hospital, his wish was that I continue in the rehearsals and not miss any on his account. Since we all thought he’d be home at any time, I suffered through the rehearsai, trying to conquermy fear of singing in front of people. His biopsy kept being delayed, and a two day visit stretched into three weeks. I did visit him a couple of times, and each time he seemed older, as though the years were catching up to him all at once. It scared me, but still I kept thinking he’d be home soon. I remember him looking out the window once, a sad, resigned look on his face. He said something - I cannot to this day remember what, but I know it had to do with what was coming. I continued struggling to smile while singing and remembering choreography and lyrics at the same time. Dad continued to go downhill, each time they’d think he was ready for biopsy, see Jim, page 13 COOL UNIQUE & EXCLUSIVE EYEWEAR Discover eyewear styles found nowhere else in Tulsa. OLIVER PEOPLES, GAULTIER, MIKLI, MATSUDA, ETC... ~ VISIONS 6.837 S. MEMORIAL ¯ 254:1611 Renew Your Subscription to Life. NITSUBISHI HOTORS Built For Living,TM $ 2 1, 9 8 8 sale price 7 Kelly Kirby CPA, PC Certified Public Accountant a professional corporation ¯ Lesbians and Gay menfitce many special tax situations whether singlo or as couples. ¯ Thank youfor giv.tng us our most successful tax season. ¯ Call us for help with your year round tax needs. 7 4 7:2 5~4 6,6 4021 S. 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The stunning photography of Lee Steenhuis. by Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche " the sandwiches are accompanied by a dill TFN Food Critic " pickle and Pringles potato chips, though If one ever has out of town guests who ¯ the lemon Caesar salad will be substituted think no culinary excitement exists in . upon request. Tulsa, one need go no farther than Cherry ¯ The lunch time crowd has welcomed Street to wakeup their tastebuds. Tucci’s, the addition of daily pasta specials to the located at the site ofthe former long-beloved Cherry Street Bakery, serves up food in the New Italian mold with strong California influences. While not exclusively a pizza parlor, it’ s pizza that has made Tucci’s a Cherry Street destination, even with such old standbys as The Hideawayjust across the street. Nothing promotes a restaurant more than the Shock value and talk factor of previous customers telling their friends about their dining experience, and diners here will certainly have something to talk about. The kitchen at Tucci’s makes up a fine, handtossed pizza crust, and then covers ~t with some unbelievable toppings. Two ofthe most talked about combinations are the Stone Temple Pie, which features marinated cactus, smoked fajita chicken, and black beans, and the Thai Pie, an interesting mix of spicy peanutpesto, teriyaki chicken, bamboo shoots, and chow mein noodles. Intrigued? Shocked and appalled? Read on. The Upstream Dream, a fairly new addition to the menu, is topped with smoked salmon. The Aglio Arrosto (roasted garlic for the non-Italianophones out there) has roasted garlic, pinenuts, and Italian sausage. The California Pie is loaded down with artichoke hearts, sun dried tomatoes, olives, fresh basil, and feta cheese. And, the list goes on. The true artistry at Tu_cci’ s is that, while certainly bizzarre sounding, these unusual topping combinations work. Oftentimes, we see restaurants trying to be too creative, and they can’t quite pull it off, but that is not the case here. The pies inspire strong emotions from the diners--they either love it or they hate it. We’ve never heard anything in between. All of the pizzas are accompanied by a wonderful lemon Caesar salad, crispy romaine with a zesty and bright lemon juice dressing, instead of the more traditional egg yolk-based Caesar. And, when the pie amves, it immediately takes center stage, since it is presented on a metal footed cake plate. But, after the shock of the toppings, be prepared for another shock. The bill. A large pizza is $19.50. Pizzas are not the only menu item available, especially since the recent menu redo, which added additional entree choices, mostly in the sandwich department. An Italian "rich boy" is offerred for $5.75, as is a chicken parmesan. Grilled Italian sausages and peppers goes for $5.25, while smoked turkey breast and chicken salad tarragon sandwiches come in a $4.95. A very interesting Roasted Italian vegetables in pita bread sells for $4.95, and we’ve found this sandwich interesting, though a bit heavy on the lettuce and short on the vegetables .All of Tucci’s 1344 East 15th 11 am- 10pm Mon - Thurs Fri/Sat til 11 closed Sun Cuisine: Nuovo Italiano Dress: Casual Payment: Cash, checks MC, Visa, and AmEx Alcohol: Domestic and imported beer Smoking: Smoking on outdoor deck, non-smoking inside (sort of) Cost: Moderate ~kat{.1nsgt: menu, selling for $5.50, which includes the lemon Caesar and Italian bread. On the day we reviewed Tucci’s, the special was a spinach fettuccine with basil cream. Assuming one likes spinach (which we don’t), the pasta was freshly made and had a distinct spinachy taste. The basil cream sauce had pieces of fresh basil leaf in it and was light and pleasant. The only surprise was that the dish was served with a large soup spoon on the plate. Why? There wasn’t any soup on the menu? Surely, they didn’t expect us to. eat our fettuccine with a spoon ! (for those who haven’t memorized the writings of Miss Manners, Jean-Pierre insists that it is incorrect to eat spaghettior fettuccine using a spoon to~,~help twirl the pasta around th~ fork.) Several.~alads are also available, from a large lemon Caesar at $4~50, to the chicken salad an~t~he.Mediterraneo at $6.50. Could s~m.eone please tell us why the: Mediterranean salad proudly proclaims that it contains shrimp from the Gulf ofMexico? There is also antipasto for $6:50.~ Beverages are fun here. Certainly, the mostpopular is iced cappuccino. They also make Italian sodas, soda water with a shot or two of various flavoring syrups, and have an ¯ extensive selection of bottled waters, in- ~ cluding the Welch "Ty Nant," the pricey ¯ stuff in the pretty cobalt bottle. Biscotti and cheesecake are always avail- " able for dessert, and, when the kitchen ~ makes it and there is some left, a nice ¯ spumoni ice cream ($3.00) can be had. ¯ Even better is the tiramisu, sponge cake ¯ soaked with espresso and layered with ¯ Italian cream for $3.75. The food at Tucci’s is good, and a ¯ relatively goodvalue for the money. The ¯ major area needing improvement is the service. Chronically understaffed, the ¯ friendly and earnest wait staff will get to ¯ one’s table as soon as they can, but still, ¯ the wait can be annoying. On ourlast visit, ~ the iced cappuccinos and Italian sodas ¯ arrived at the table with no spoons or ¯ straws. And, the music being broadcast ¯ over the speakers was so loud, we could ~ hardly hear one another talk, making us ¯ feel like we were at the Full Moon Cafe ¯ across the street. ¯ But, the future is looking bright. The ¯ ownership triumvirate of husband, wife, ¯ and mother has recently extensively re- - modeled the kitchen, and the menu under- " goes regularrevision and freshening. The ¯ outside deck remains a popular spot for ¯ watching the Cherry Street traffic. We ¯ like Tucci’s. ~ Not feeling up to cactus or pineapple or ¯ peanuts on your pizza? There’s a-Pizza ¯ Hut just down the street for the timid. Y Chairman Terrance Tom called a nmvs conference mad insisted that without referring the opposite-sex couples in the amendment, it will continue to invite la~vstfits challenging the marriage law. House and Senate conferees were fac; ing an internal deadline of resolving their differences over the stone-sex marriage bills, although Sott~ acknowledged that deadline could be waived upon an agreement with Senate President Norman Mizuguchi. Both Souki and Tom expressed confidence that an amendment to ban same-sex manJages and a package of benefits for gay mad lesbian couples will be approved before the Legislatm’e adjourns April 29. Tom defended his decision at die latest House-Senate meeting Wednesday night not to take up the rights package for samesex couples. He said as far as he’s concerned, the Senate has failed to provide a comlter proposal to the House’s latest proposal. Senate conference co-chairnlan Avery Chumbley said the Senate will meet with the House when the Itouse agrees to take up both the anlendment mid tile Lesbian/Gay benefits package and not separate them. "They are both are part of the stone problem mad we’re not going to separate them," he said. Rhode s and Kills Anti-Marriage Bill PROVIDENCE, RA. (AP) _ A bill to ban gw marriages was voted down by a powerful House couun{ttee on Thursday. "Life in Rhode I~l,’md is not going to change tomorrow if we don’t pass tiffs bill," said Rep. Timoth3 Willianlson, DWest Warwick, a member of the House Judiciary Connnittee. A1 though Rhode I slmad doesn’ t recognize gay marriages uow, the bill’s supporters worried the state would be forced to recognize them if legalized in another state. Debate over the issue led Congress to pass and President Cliuton to sign last year the Defense of Marriage Act. The law says the federal government will not recognize gay nlamages andit allows states to refuse to recognize them as well. No states allow homosexuals to marry, although the Hawaiian Supreme Court is considering the issue. Rep. Michael Pisaturo, D-Cranston, opposed the bill so much he introduced one of his own to legalize same-sex marriages, although henow plans to let his bill die. City Grants Partners Health Insurance SPRINGFIELD, Mass. (AP) - Saying he hopes to lay down a model for the rest of the state, MayorMichael Albano on Thursday began offering health insurance to gay and lesbian partners of city workers. He acknowledged talat the move is bomld to breed some dissent, saying, "There are .those who do not yet understand that tails IS a new world we live in." But he added, "It is the right thing to do. My adininistration will not discrilninate based on ... alternative lifestyle. And no other city in Massachusetts or in America should elfiler." Springfield, file third largest city in tale state with 160,000 residents, became the second Bay State connnunity with such a nleasure in effect, according to Gay mid Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, a Boston- based group that monitors gay rights. Mary Bonauto, tlae group’s civil rights direc.tor, said Cambridgeis tale other commumty. "It’s a basic stand by the mayor and city of Springfield for fairness to all fmnilies and also for equal pay’ for eqtml work," she said. Albano signed the executive order in a brief late-afternoon ceremony before city and .state officials, gay-rights advocates, jottrnalists mad others. State Attorney General Scott Harshbarger, a supporter of the policy, was also there. Albano said he expects perhaps 20 or 30 of the city’s 6,500 employees to sign up for such coverage. But he predicted it won’t create the need for any larger appropriation. The progranl now costs about $32 ~nillion a year. The mayor ordered bereavement and sick time rights for gay mid lesbian partners of city workers in January 1996. The city is defining a gay or lesbian "domestic pm:tner" as someone sharing expenses and living with the city employee for at least a year "in a relationslfip of mutual support, caning and counnitment in wlfich they intend to remain for file indefinite In western Massachusetts, the town of Palmer briefly adopted such a policy, but oppouents m,’maged to dismantle it within months. In Northmnpton, city leaders approved apolicy ofletting stone-sex couples register as such tbr certain rights, but not health insurance. Voters later blocked the move in a public referendum. In Springfield, not everyone was embracing the idea. "As a resic]ent, I find it reprehensible that file3’ can do something fl~at so many citizens are morMly opposed to," said Ronald Crochetiere, a resident who said he has been active on some political issues. Maine Gov. Lets Anti-Marriage Bill Pass AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) - Sayiug his decision was not an easy one, Gov. Angus King will let the gay marriage ball enacted by’ the Legislature last week become law without his signature rather than force a referendum by vetoing tale bill. King said he has "a deep respect for the institntion of marriage and its religious roots," but he does uot bdieve the bill remedies a problem because there’s no movement in Maine to make same-sex marriages legal. The governor also said he does not believe traditional marriage is under assault in Maine. "I believe that this bill has very little to do with marriage and nothhlg to do withlove," said King. Concerned Maine Families, which led the initiative that forced tam legislative vote, said the law protects traditional marriage from threats by inilitant gay activists. The governor had three options after the bill was enacted by overwhelming margins last week by the House and Senate: sign file bill, veto it, wlfich would force a referendum, or let it become law without his signature. King said a referendum would trigger a bitter and divisive statewide campaign that would not benefit the public. The governor also said he expects the law to be successfully challenged in court. He believes it violates both tile equal protection and full faith and credit clauses of the Constitution. "This bill will briefly become law in Maine, but it will nothavemynameonit," said King. Timo{hy W. 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My brother and I were ushered out by the nurse, for fear our presence would disturb him further, causing him to damage the numerous tubes and devices connected to him. Keeping him alive. Sort of. That is the last time I saw my father alive. A couple of weeks later he lapsed into coma. Momgave the orders to remove the life support. My father left this plane alone. No one who h~ew him was there. I vowed then that if anyone I was close to was in the hospital, my first priority was being there. No show, nojob, no other event would be more important than being there - for fmnily, friend, or lover. The show went on. I remember the day Dad died. The director berated me venomoush’ in front of the cast for not smiling and"selling" the numbers I was in. I had left a message on the answering machine that morning, he didn’t get the message until after the rehearsal. I for a change, ~vas the first one out the door, so he ufi ssed me. I was ready, for the first time, to walk out on a show. I just about told him he could take the bloody solos and give them to someone else. gcrew "’professionalism". It had cost me too much Nready. There ,are times that "The show must go on" is absolute poppycock. There will be other shows. I held my tongue, but barely. I was in too much shock to say anything at that Moment. He did apologize later. Story two: I am in Fort Worth because nay Mother has breast cancer, and had both of her breasts removed on Monday the 7th. According to several doctors, she will need help for 2 -3 weeks, as she won’t be able to lift her purse, so I am here to help. Mom’s health is not so great. She’s 74, a heavy smoker, and is handicapped, and thus cm~’t get around solo under the best of Circumstmaces. I have too many scars and unanswered questions leftover from Dad (as do all the members ofmy f,’unil y) to ever let anyone I know go into a hospital without me being there. People can slip away too damn fast. And all the political ballyhoo and bickering in the world doesn’t change that. Yes, it’s important to fight for what’s right, and to use your time wisely. But don’t forget the other things that are import~ mt, too - the smell of a flower, the voice of a loved one, and the time you spend with them. In the end, that.., is .... ALL... that.., matters. Nomatterhow mnch they am~oy you. You will miss them when they’re gone. Jobs are replaceable, things are replaceable, people ~e not. And too many filings can go wrong. My father died of cancer, my morn is dealing with cancer, and we have tbund out that three male cousins on her side are dealing with/have died from cancer. Her sister had breast cancer. I can’t shake the feeling that I ana seeing how I will die, barring bus crashes, plane explosions, and bank robberies. It is ~t too likety, given [hmily history and genetics Not to mention that there is no more severe issue thm~ losino a pare~t I~sing one is bad enom,h’ it t~rces you to den with mortNity m a way that no other loss can do. When a parent Nes, you lose not oNy apart of your Nstory, and present, but Nso your clfildh~d. No one will be there to dean up yot~ nfist&es or save you frown yourself, if you were so fortunate to have had fmNly like that. Some axen’t. I’ve been lucky thus t’~. I ~ow Mom will not l~t forever. Quite fray, the f~ly has been expecting a Nagnosis of lung ~acer to pop up for ye~s, yet she has remNned in fNr heNth. She never expected to outhve Dad. And when he died, she stepped up the ~ount of algareties consumed in order to ~tch up with Nm. Didn’t woN. Bre~t ~cer was a sunrise to us ~1. I and my fanfily have certNNy had, and continue to have, our differen~s. But they have always been there for me, t~ough my back surgery, tl~ough nasty splits with exMovers, and whatever other crises I had. Now, it’s my turn to be there for them. I tN~ this is what should Ne meant by the term "fmnily values." And with that rather drmnatic ending, I do have a Mnd of review. Anyone catch toNght’ s "Dr. Qnim~, Medicine Woman"? It’s not a show I usual3 watch (I am not at ~I parti~ to westerns - sacrilege coming from an OM~oma resident and nativeborn Texan, but there you ~e,), but b3 complete accident (except I, like Obi- Wan Kenobi, don’t believe in accidents. So~y, had to get that St~ Wars reference in there, ya M~ow.), I happened upon it tolfight. I was about to change the chanuel, when the gist of the plot line lilt me. Dr. Quinn was brining Walt Wlfitm~ into her dusty little Colorado county town for a p~try reading. I though t~s a rather novel idea. I wondered if they were going to de~ With Iris being homosexual or just gloss it over. So, I stayed tuned. I was pleasantly suwfised. Dr. Quiim, noticed that WdtW~ w~ depressed (Hmnun. Sounds fm~li~. Have I wfitmn about ~s before?) and asked lfim what wm up. He w~ saddened that Iris so.mate could not be wi~ ~m. She sfid, tot~ly t~owing of what gender ~s so.mate ~ght ~ (heterosexist assumptions, don’tcha ~ow), "Well, bring lfim on out from the ~st Co~tF’ Well, Waltw~ happier than a Gay m~in a gym, and perked nfighfily. Me.time, Her young son, a writer for the school paper, interviewed Wilt for the school paper...flone with ~m...during a solit~y wflk in the woods. Back to subplot number two,in w~ch the mwns~ople, thrilled at the prospect of a man of W~t’s stature bestowing a bit ofculture upon ~eir dusty town, become rather discfinfinatory upon being ~e gossip that W~t (GASP[) is a "Nmmy-boy", "one of them fellers who don’t like women ~e way most men normflly do". Dr. Qui~m is hogtied that her boy has been ~one with trim. She t~ks to Sully, plwedby the everhm~yJoe ~do, who tells her that she’s ove~eacting, that in lfis Nbe, gay folk are ac~pted~dhave eqtu~ status. His is the voice of reason, and he’s given excellent diNoN~e in tlfis episode. Well, She questions the boy, and tells lfim not go into the woods None with X~qfitman. She does do some research, and finds ~at some German literature of the day ch~flks it up to a defective gene. She is upset, because she emwnined Whitman and didn’t "see" anytlfing like this wrong with lfim. see Jim, page 14 ~JJr~ continued from page 13 Stdly tells her she should just accept him for who he is, that he is still the same mm~ whose writing tlmlled her. W~t’s souhnate arrives, he cheers up. The townsfolk display their homophobia with maliciotks gossip zu~d ontright discrimination, denying the couple a hotel room. Dr. QuimL despite her misgivings, invites them to stay in her home, m~d gradmflly comes to ~low them as simply two folk in love. She asks if the townspeople’s reaction bofliers him. lie replies no, that life is too sliort to #re iu to oflmr people’s ucgativity ~md empower it. Dr. Quiun is ok widi M1 ~is, undl Walt t~es her boy fishing. Alone. In tim woods. Fe~ng dm worst, she m~es a mad dash for the fislfing hole, wifll Sully telling her not to jump to conclusions. She m~d Snlly sne~ np on W~dt m~d the boy, fislfing. ~m bo) spe~s to WMt, ~ng ~m what "’Nmmy-boy" memas. In a ~vonderfully written respo~me, he tells the boy, that it is a word somc folks ~une up ~vith to hurt others, tte wreaks the boy that words cm~ be ~vcapons, us~ to hurt. But they cml ~dso be used to lined, to reflect tim positive, wondrous ddngs in liiE, mid that he mid thc boy had a gift to use words in t~mt way. And thus, thc3 could countcract the hate- 4"ul, negative words. Aud of course, l)r. Quinu, fears assuagcd, smiles beatifically, ~d she m~d Joe embrace, t~lll ofhope for the world. 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(Locust Grove) =19197 OKIE FROMMUSKOGEE This 21 year old, Gay, White male, 5’11,1751bs, with Blond hair, and Blue eyes, seeks hot, dominant top men for fun times. I often travel to Tulsa and other areas. (Muskogee) =12437 WHO’S THE KEY GRIP? Vm an advenlurous 27 year old, 6ft, 1501bs, with light Brown hair, andBrown eyes.-I want to meet men (Muskogea) =11834 LIFE IS SWEET I’m looking fur the man, or men, of my dreams. I’m a 19 year old, Single, Black male. Once I find you your clothes, and house, wil always be clean. Dinner will always be on time. Dessert will be in the bedroom. (Muskogea) =24043 IN TRANSITION I want to build a relationship With another good looking Gay, Ma e, Transvestite. I’m 26, 5’9. with Brown hair and Blue eyes. You Should be clean, nice, and fun. I hope we can have a long term relationship. (Tulsa) =30728 FRIEND INDEED This very attractive 21 year old, Black male, 5’11, 1801bs, With light Brown eyes, seaks other Black men to hang out with. I’m new to the scene and want to make some good friends. (Tulsa) =30941 A WOMAN’S TOUCH Do you need a woman’s touch? I’m a 40 year old, Transgender, hoping to someday become a complete woman.l love to play the feminine role and give pleasure }o men, over 40, in every way. Race is unimportant. (Tulsa) =10195 JUICY FRUIT I’m a hairy, tan, good Ioaking, Gay, White man, 1801bs, with Blond hair and Green eyes. Once w~ get acquainted, maybe we can meet. (T~lsa) =2416 TRANS TREAT IN TULSA I believe that a hard man is good to find. This sensual, sexy, submissive, Bi male, Transvestite, 42, 6ft, 1701bs, seeks dominant, Bi men, 35 to 70, of all races. Let’s play. (Tulsa) =29954 TULSA TWO STEPPER Show me around town and teach me the West Coast Swing. I’m a young looking, 34 year old, Hispanic male, 5’4, 1251bs, with Brown hair and eyes. I’m pretty new to town and want to make friends.Jlove to dance and can two step wilh the best of them. I’m a big fan of country music, movies, and love people. Let’s meet. (Tulsa) =29334 JUST BETWEEN YOU AND ME I want to get close to someone who is able to have a relationship without letting anyone else know about it. I’m a good looking, 27 year old, Married, Bi male. (Tulsa) =29225 TONSILLECTOMY IN TULSA I don’t live here but ~ come to Tulsa often. I’m a very athletic, attractive, White male, 5’6, 1401bs, with Brown hair, Hazel eyes, a washboard stomach and great legs. I love dominant men with good builds. Entertain me when I’m in town and I’ll make you glad you did. (Tulsa) =28623 CARESS AND CUDDLE COWBOY This 24 year old, recently Divorced, cowboy, seeks e guy who might be interestad in a relationship. I’m a good looking bull rider with ~ nice build, 5’11, with Brown hair and Hazel eyes. I’m new to this scene and like to kiss, caress, and cuddle. (Tulsa) =28662 MAD FOR MASCULINE MEN I’m looking to get to know, and have good times with, other masculine Gay, or Bi, White males, between 18 and 34, in the area. i’m a good looking, Gay, White male, 33, 6’1. 1651bs. with short Brown hair, Blue eyes, , We Can’t talk before you call so hurry. Ilulsa) =28669 CLEAN CUT CONSERVATISM I’m a White male in my late forties. I’m looking for a very discreet male to get together with. You should be clean cut, conservative, no older than me. I en oy collecting books and traveling. Let’s share our values and goals and see where that leads. Discretion is vital. (Tulsa) =28803 END MY WAIT This old fashioned, ~omanfic is looking for companionship and’lovefrom you. P)~se call soon~ (Tulsa) =14264 SERVICE IS MY BUSINESS This young looking, 42 year old, White male, s~eks masculine. I~have a good build from frequent workouts and daily jogs. (Tulsa) =28323 MY WIFE’S IN THE DARK I want to have some fun with another man. i’m 27 and good looking. Call if you’re fun and can be discreet. (Tulsa) =28503 SATISFACTION .ASSURED Let me do my number on you. I’m a cute 24 year old guy looking for other cute young guys that want to have f~n! (Tulsa) =24514 TRUE IN TULSA I’m a masculine, muscular, 21 year old, B~ack male, 5’7, 1951bs, with Black hair, and Brown ~yes, looking far new friends to hang out with. I dOn’t do drugs or smoke, but . ¯ occasionally go Out far ~]rinks. I have lots of other interests such as working out. Let’s meet and see what happens. (Tulsa) =13047 TAKE IT SlOW I like soft music, romantic evenings, and spending time with my family and friends. This Gay, White male, 38, 5’9,14~lbs, is HIV positive, but healthy, and is seeking a non s.~ng friend to share with. I’m most interested in other ~l),, White males, betwean 21 and 45 who are willing to go slowly. (Tulsa) ’~23748 IF WE TRY This aflracti~, Gay, White mab, seeks companionship, and a relationship with a sincere, ..Gay, Block male, between 18 and 30. I’m 5’9~ 1651bs, with Brown hair, and Blue eyes. You should be hbeast, loving, caring, and drag frea, as I am. We con make it ffappen iT we fly. {Tulsa) ~27068 HUNTING NEW GAME I want to make some new plans and include you in them. rm a 28 year okl, Gay., White mab, 6’1 with Brown hair and eyes. I like te cook and enjoy all outdoor spa~, espec!ally hunting and fishing. Let me kna~v when I can plan ta seeyou. (Tulsa) =23916 GOODBYE, CITY UFE I wanna meet some of ~ivi’anllg. TinhisIh2e8coyeuanrtyo.ldI ,liGkeaayl,l Bolualcdkomoraalec,tievietieosy,slike hunling, and fishing. Call me and get aw~ from it all. (Tulsa) =26S22 FLEX FRIEND You’ve .clot a friend riflht here. I’m a 42 yea~s 01d, G~ male, 5’8~’, 170E;~. I’m into sports: music, and am very flexibb. Let’s have same ton. (Tulsa) =26409 SHOW ME THE WAY I’m a masculine, Lisexual curious guy;’and I’m a:li~e ~rvous about is. I’m 21,5’7" 1951bs, with a worked out bedy~ Black hair, a~d Brown eyes. I need you to show me theway. (Tulsa) ’~26412 TULSA TIME I’ve got time on my hands. Would you like to spend it with me? This Gay male, enjoys reading sports, and music. Ad ust the vo ume, and let s taFk. (Tulsa) =25617 WANNA BE MY MENTOR? Maybe you can hell? nudge me out of the closet. I’m a 19 year old Gay male, 6ft, 1501bs, with Brown hair, and Blue eyes. I like tno’~ies, sports, and anything athletic. I’m not yet "out" to the world, but I want to try a relationship with a guy between 18 and 25. (Tulsa) =25579 JUST FRIENDS It’s a good time for some good times in Tulsa. I want to meat some new I’m 5’9, 1701bs. Give me a call and let’s out. (Tulsa) =25403 TRANSYLVANIA BEAUTY I’m a white, Transgender, Bi Male, 26, 5’9, with Brown hair, and Blue eyes. I’m very beautiful. I’d like to meat another Bi, or Gay, Transgender male, 26 to 30, who is good looking, clean, kind, and nice. (Tulsa) =25080 TAKE OFF MY SASH I’m Mr. Tulsa ¯ and I want to have some fun. I’m a leather man. I"ve been a runner up in Mr. Oklahoma Leather contest the last two years. Find out what’s so hot about me. Call now. (Tulsa) =25161 THE SECRET SHARER Can you help me find a dominant Bi or Straight guy who wants to have a discreet relationship? I’m an attractive, Bi, White male in my 30% 5’2, 1281bs. (Tulsa) =24820 I’M NO FATAL ATTRACTION It would be nice to make some friends but I’m hoping for a at more. I’m a financially and emotionally ~, White male, 33 years old, 5’11 e bars. I hope to meet another White male between 25 and 40 who’s in shape and still has most of his hair¯ [Tulsa) =24870 AT THE QUARRY I’ll bet there’s a big, stocky, Married man out there that would like to give it to me hard. I’m a cute guy in my 30’s, 5’2 and 1281bs. I hope you’re dominant and want to have a gay old time. (Tulsa) =24840 UNSUNG YOUNG Let’s keep this simple. I’m a young guy, 18, looking for other young guys, 18 to 28, fc;r fun and friendship. Call soon. (Tulsa) =19577 LONG HARD NIGHTS If you like sleapless nights, and sleepless days, give me a call i’m a 24 year old, Gay, White male, 6’3, 1601bs, in search of another Gay, White male, between 18 and 24. Let’s have a long, hard night, h:)llowed by a long, hard day. I’m versatile. (Tulsa) =24504 THE COWBOY WAY I’m a cowboy, plain and simple. I love to do things outdoors. Hunting and fishing are just two of the possibilities. If you’re between 18 and 25 and want to explore~ne cowboy way, leave me a message. (Tulsa) =1004 CONSERVATIVE OUTCOME I’m a 19 year old student, From Tulsa. I lave movies, sports, and going out. I’m seeking someone clean-cut, conservative, and discrete. I have yet to come out, so discretion is most important. Come share my values, and discover together what happens nexL (Tu sa) =23850 BLUE COWBOY This 55 year old Gay White ma e, cowboy, and Businessman, would like to meet a younger man betwean 35 and 55, to live with me in rural southeast Oklahoma. J’m 5’6, 1401bs, with short; thick Silver hairi strikin.Cl Blue eyes, and a mustache. You shbuld be well put together and des re th s type of lifeslyle. =9612 ~:; To record your FREE Pe onal ad: all: 1-800-546-MENN (We’ll print it here) The Friends .i n Unity Social Org.anization, Inc. FUSO is a community based organization not for profit 501 (c)3 agency prowding services to African American males-and.females who are infected with HIV/AIDS in the Tulsa community. FUSO also .helps individuals find other agencies that provide other HIV/AIDS services. FUSO began in August 1991 out Of a need to bring African. American men of diverse sexual orientation together, to promote unity, education, cultural awareness and sensitivity to the needs of the African American community at large. The goal of FUSO is to. build bridges wher.e.gaps exist and to tear do.wn.the walls that have d~wded us w~th~n the community. FUSO ,has taken on the responsibility to.minister:to the needs of individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS,.to be.... a voice African American commun~ity, and especially~to be a voice for those.who have not been heard. FUSO is a ministry of compassion and. care. POB 8542, Tulsa, OK 74101 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1997] Tulsa Family News, April 15-May 14, 1997; Volume 4, Issue 5 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September 0f 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 15-May 14, 1997 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Jams Christjohn Barry Hensley Dr. Mike Gorman Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche The Associated Press Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, March 15-April 14, 1997 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa(Oklahoma)---newspaper Tulsa---Oklahoma United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/533 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 1997 African Americans AIDS Action Council AIDS/HIV AIDS/HIV education AIDS/HIV research Al Gore arts and entertainment attorneys Barry Hensley Bars businesses children churches civil rights condoms custody Dave Fleischer Dr. Michael Gorman Ellen Degeneres FUSO gay parents harassment Health and Wellness healthcare homophobia HOPE Testing Human Rights Campaign Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche Jimmy Flowers marriage Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association parade Partner Benefits performing arts Pride Read All About It restaurants Rob Morris Steve Gunderson Stonewall League students Tom Neal Transgender Tucci's Tulsa Family News University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay/Transgendered Alliance https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ab79edd993b9f9dd24b0dc801d43c950.jpg 3bd0cd5e06ee456ead4d738d80c90c30 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/abcd4fe9b3c83908e206d8cfc5e9c519.pdf eae5a8849a396995b7a717a867c94881 PDF Text Text Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends ,Tul~s~a!~’~rge~t C~oulation Community Pa-perA vailable In More Than 60 City Local.ions PFLAG Pres,.Joins Gay i US Statewide Groups New Federation i Activists at White House ¯¯ OKCreate. Represented by Oldest StateGroup .Vermont Couples Bring Marriage Ban Challenge by Ross Sneyd COLCHESTER, Vt. (AP)- For 25 years, Lois Famham and Holly Puterbaugh have built a life together, commired in every way except one: legally. On Tuesday, they and two other couples sought to fix that. They sued the state and their hometown, of Milton, asking a Chittenden Superior Court judge to declare legal marriages between couples of the same gender. Start Baker and Peter HarriganofShelbumeand Nina Beck and Stacy Jolles of South Burlington joined the lawsuit, which thrusts Vermont into the center of a national debate over whether society should recognize unions between Gays and Lesbians. ’q?.wenty-five years ago when we met and fell in love mamage was not something any of us that were samegender couples thought about," see Vermont, page 13 Private Conduct or Sex Crimes? By Laurie Asseo -" WASHINGTON (AP) - President. Clinton met Tuesday with a : dozen Gay and lesbian activists at a meeting .organized by ¯ Richard Socarides,White House liaison to the Gay, Lesbian, : Bisexual and Transgender community. Nancy McDonald, na~ : tional president of the board of directors of Parents, Families and : Friends of Lesbians and Gays (P-FLAG) and cofounder of the ¯ Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG attended at meeting where the Presi: dent pledged support for two employment concerns: anti-Gay : bias in the workplace and high-ranking appointments in his : administration. Thepresident spentmore than anhour discussing : a range of issues from adoptions to homeless Gay youth and ¯ problems confronting Gays and Lesbians in rural areas, such as : access to AIDS medicine. : Clinton pledged his support for the Fmployment Non-Dis~ crimination Act, which bars firing or discriminating against an ¯ employee on the basis of sexual orientation. Andhe assured the ¯ group that he has put forth five nominations of opeuly Gay people : for administration jobs that require Senate confirmation. ¯ "Each one of them will take work," said Elizabeth Birch, " executive director of the Gay political advocacy group the ~ Human Rights Campaign. "We have a tough challenge ahead." ¯ Maria Echaveste, White Honse director of public liaison, said the ¯ president wants Gay appointees so that his administration can ~ provide an example of how to reduce anti-Gay attitudes in the : workplace. "Fhe more people work with them, the less preju¯ diced they are," Echaveste said. ’q’hat’ s why appointments are so : pivotal." : According to Kerry Lobel, executive director of the National ¯ Gay & Lesbian Task Force, "we found the President to be open ¯ and knowledgeable on issues affecting the LGBT community. : This is a President who at heart seems to have a deep commitment ¯ ; ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Knoxville, TN- An important chapter in the movemeat for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) equality was marked on July 11-13 b~ activists from statewide political groups from 32 states. At the mdeting, activists officially launched the Federation of Statewide Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Political Organizations. The Federation’ s purpose is to bolster the efforts of these statewide groups through a network that will foster strategizing across state lines, building stronger state organizations and developing good working relationships between state and national groups. The meeting was the result of an eight month collaboration between the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) and the Federation. Itwas thelargest gathering ever ofstatewide groups. ¯ States represented were: AR, CA, CO, CT, DE, ¯ GA, IL, IN, IA, KY, LA, ME, MD, MI, MS, MO, MT, NE, NH, NJ, NM, NY, NC, OK, PA, RI, TN, ¯ TX, UT, VA, WA,~WV. : The three day Federation meeting was held at the : renowned Highlander Center outside Knoxville, ¯ Tennessee. For over fifty years, the Highlander : Center has been a training center for labor, civil. : rights and other s~ocial justice movements. There, activists focused bn adopting the organizational ¯ ¯ structure for the Federation and debating strategies ’. on legislative issues. These issues included "sod" omy" law repeal, passage of civil rights bills and family recognition strafegies, as well-as building ¯ ¯ strategies see ,States, page 13 Coming Out .and ¯ O’RYAN’s New Home ¯"New Men’s Group Offered WASHINGTON (AP) - What lovers do in private still : ~ ~1 ¯ I/-’,~1,.~ ~ .,~& 1/I ..~ ...~ ~=~ .... -Jcanland ~em!njail.- butin asteadily s,,h~nking n,~;,:~:!~ act.y ; IV! O |11$. ~ U ~[,~.U TULSA - HOPE: of states ¯ Earher this month ’ Montana s ban on homo - ¯ TULSA - After two months of .... camping out in loaned office : HIV Outreach, Presexual sex was thrown out by the state Supreme Court ¯ space, Betsy MurphyJones and Melissa Champlin of the Tulsa ¯ vention & Education, as a violation of the state’z constitutional right to prioffice of Red Rock Mental Health Association finally have ¯ a special program of ¯ TOHR, TulsaOklahovacy. Sodomy laws in Kentucky and Tennessee also adequate room for their work. But they really gained much more were struck down by state courts in recent years. ¯ mans for Human thanjust decent offices Many other states have repealed laws that banned oral ¯ Rights, the oldest exfor themselves, the and anal. sex for Gay people and heterosexuals as well. program now has sev- ¯ isting civil rights and "We’ ve made incredible headway," says Ruth Harlow eral rooms in which : Gay health orgauizaof the civil-fights Lambda Legal Defense and Educa¯ tion is beginning sevO’ RYAN and tion Fund. O’RYAN, Jr. can ¯ eral new programs But about 20 states, operating under a green light from the Supreme Court, still have laws making sodomy a criminal offense. Consenting adults have no federal constitutional right to private homosexual conduct, the court said when it upheld Georgia’ s sodomy law in 1986. Arkansas, Kansas, Maryland, and Missouri ban homosexual sex acts. Sodomy is banned for Gays and heterosexuals alike in Alabama, Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Louisiana, Minnesota, Mississippi, North Carolina, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Utah and Virginia. Penalties vary widely, with maximum jail terms ranging from 30 days in Arizona to 20 years in Virginia and Rhode Island, or even life in Idaho. Laws banning sodomy also are on the books in Oklahoma, Texas, Massachusetts and Michigan, but they have been cast into doubt by court rulings. Oklahoma’ s sodomy law was ruled unconstitutional in 1986 but the particular case involved heterosexuals and legal experts disagree as to whether the law should be seen as in force just for homosexuals or whether it’ s been completely ov.ertumed. Sodomy laws in all other states have been repealed see Sodomy, page 3 INSIDE DIRECTORYA.ETTERS EDITORIALS US & WORLD NEWS HEALTH NEWS ENTERTAINMENT NOTES COMMUNITY CALENDAR BOOK REVIEW RESTAURANT REVIEW CLASSIFIEDS P. 2 P. 3 P. 4 P. 6 P. 8 P. 9 P. 10 P. 11 P. 14 meet. O’ RYAN stands for Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adults Network which serves Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgendered and O’RYAN’s George, Champlin & Marry questioning young adults from 18 to 24 years old. O’ RYAN, Jr. is a new program that will serve 14 to 17 year old young people. O’RYAN, Jr. will kick off in early September. Red Rock Mental Health Association is primarily an Oklahoma City based organization. Several years ago Betsy MurphyJones returned to Tulsa and began the program that later was named O’ RYAN. At the beginning, the program was housed in offices in the Youth Services of Tulsa building in downtown Tulsa. Youth Services already had a program, TYDD,Tulsa Youth Discovering Diversity which served Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgendered and questioning youth. However, over the year in which .the two organization were working together, tension developed between Red Rock and Youth Services over how public to be with these programs. Diplomatically, Champlinindicates that Youth Services’ Board of Directors was not willing to be public in suppori of these programs, for fear of losing funding. l’~ow O RYAN is funded independently through an Oklahoma State Department of Health (OSDH) grant which targets "MSM’s" - men who have sex with men under the age of 25 and a TCAP (Tulsa Community AIDS Parmership) grant targeting women for HIV/AIDS prevention and education. O’RYAN meets weekly as a support and social group. While earlier the group was predominately young men, it’ s now about half young women a~dhalfmen,.. Two men, Marty, who’ s 23 and G~orgeCcho’ s"2:l~joinedChamp!in~ ~. see O’RYAN, page 10 ¯ under the direction of ¯ new outreach educa¯ tor Johnnie Eilarts. TOHR/HOPE’ s Eilerts ¯ Eilarts, who came to Tulsa after working with the -" Triangle Foundation in Oklahoma City, has begun ." amen’s issues group called Men on Men that meets ¯ at Gold Coast Coffee House. And in response to ; calls’to the Pride Center, see Group, page 12 : Cunanan Finale : MIAMI .BEACH, Fla. (AP) - When Andrew ¯ Cunanan’ s 1 ong, murderous flight ended, it brought ¯" relief from anxiety-butnot from sorrow. Omanan’ s : suicidein a Miami Beach houseboat ended the fear ." that a killer was free. Five killings, including the ¯ shooting of designer Giannl Versace, were blamed ¯ on the 27-year-old man. "There’ s a sense of relief that they finally caught ; ¯¯ him and ’that people don’t have to be looking behind their backs," Eric Velasco said in front of : the South Beach gay bar Twist. In Minnesota, Cunanan was charged in the death ; of a former lover, David Madson, and was sus¯ pected of killing a friend, Jeffrey Trail. Trail’s ¯ father, Stanley Trail of DeKalb, Ill., watched the ." television reports as the situation unfolded. ’q~hat’ s ¯ one of the bad things about him dying like this: ¯ Nobody will be able to ask him," Trail said. "No: body will be able to tell me why this happened. : "I’m very glad that he’s been stopped and that ¯ nobody else got hurt when he got stopped,"he said. ¯ "But I take no joy in his death. That doesn’ t help me ¯ at all." see Killer, page 12 �Tulsa’Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7200 E. Pine I 832-1269 *Blue Room, 606 S. b-agin 592-2583 : 918.583.1248, f~:’583.4615, POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 ¯ ¯ *City Bites, 3348 S. Peoria 748-9600 ~-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink net website: http://users, aol.com/Tul saNews/ *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 ¯ *Gold Coast Coffee House,3509 S. Peoria 749-4511 ¯ Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal *JJ’s Country & Western Dance Club, 6328 S. Peoria 712-2119 Entertainment Writer: James Christjohn *Lola’S, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 Writers + contributors: Dr. Mike Gorman, Leanne Gross. Barry *The Palate Cafe & Catering, 3324G E. 31st Hensley & Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche " 745-9899 Membor of The Associated Press *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st 745-9998 Several years ago, Youth Services of *Samson & Delilah Restaurant, 10 E Fifth 585-2221 I~sued on or before the 1st of each month, the entire Contentsof’ ¯ Tulsa began a support group for Lesbian, *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 ~his, pub,licati,on a,rp protected by US copyright 1997 by ¯ Gay, Bi and questioning kids. The group *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 /d,m--~/’.~.’.. Nt,u¢ and may not be reproduced either in whole ¯ -was desperately needed and ,was led by or in part without written permission from the publisher. *TNT’s, 2114S. Memorial 660-0856 Publieation, of0a name ~r photo does not indicat¢ a nerson~s...... :~ ~-: ¯ the Saintly Lisa Pottoff whose good work *:Tool Box, 1338 13. ,3rd’ " , ": . ~ ..... ’. ~ " ~"’ "" " 584-I308’ sexual orientation.. Correspondenc~ i~ assuhied to b~ fo~: *Tucei’s Restaurant,. 134~ E 15 " ~ 582=3456publication unless otherwise noted; must be~igned & *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston 585-3134 : fionisbeginnifi~ a simi]aigroupt~ e~mplethe s01e property of TJ,¢~ ~:~ Ntau¢, Each reader ls entitled Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals to four free copies of each edition at distribution points. Addi¯ ment their young adults group. This too is Advanced Wireless & PCS, Digital Cellular 74%1508 tional copies are available by calling 583-1248. ¯ a good move - having more than one *Affinity News, 8120 E. 21 ¯ group will serve the population better. 610-8510 Dennis ~C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 ¯ But what’s interesting is that Red Rock *Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 has concluded that Youth Services’ leadKent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747=9506 : ership is still unwilling to acknowledge *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 250-5034 *Family of Faith MCC, 54511E So. Mingo 622~1zi41 : this program because of fears about fundBody Piercing by Nieole, 2722 E. 15 712-1122 *Fellowship Congreg. Church, 2900 S. Harvard 74%7777 , ing, and perhaps, becanse of homophobia. *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 *Free Spirit Women’s Center, call for location &info: 587-4669 : Youth Services’ "closeted" approach has 712-9955 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria 743-5272 Friend For A Friend, POB 52344, 74152 747-6827 : handicapped the outreach, for their pro*CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Pec~ria 746-0313 Friends in Unity Social Org., POB 8542, 74101 582-0038 , gram. Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial 622-3636 HOPE (TOHR), HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education : Red Rock’ s conclusion echoes the point Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial 665-6595 1307 E. 38, 2nd ft. 712-1600, HOPE/TOHR Anonymous : TFN made editorially several years ago. ¯ Unfortunately, whatever small gratificaCherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515.8. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 HIV Testing Site; Mon/Thurs. eve. 7-9pm, call 742-2927 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 622-0700 TNAAPP (Native American men), Indian Health Care 582-7225 ¯ tion thereis in being proven right is dampTim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-2437, 800-284-2437 " ened by the fear that during these inter*Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 749-3620 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 " vening years, some Gay kids who needed *Devena’s Gallery, 13 Brady 587-2611 *HIV Resource Ctr., 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 ¯¯ our help were lost just because Youth Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria 744-5556 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 748-3111 ¯ Services valued money more than lives. *Elite Books &’Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 838-8503 NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068,74159 365-5658 *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 584-0337 OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 "Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria 744-8040 *Our House, 1114 S. Quaker 584-7960 Lealme M. Gro~s, Southwest Financial Planning 459-9349 PFLAG , POB 52800, 74152 749-4901 Regarding ver,sace’s Murder Mark T. Hamby, Attorney 744-7440 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 587-7674 Reading between many, many lines in *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 *The Pride Center, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor, 74105 743-4297 ¯ the local and national press, we’ve de*International Tours 341-6866 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 " duced that murdered fashion designer Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 712-2750 *R.A~I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 ¯ Gianni Versace had a life partner named David Kanskey, Country Club Barbering 747-0236 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 665-5174 ¯ Antonio D’Amieo - that in fact, a horri~ *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599-8070 *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 584-2325 ¯ fled D’Amico rushed tothe spot wherehis Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747=5466 OrRYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults ~ partner lay dying, then chased the killer Langley Agency, 1104.S. Victor 592-1800 O’RYAN, Jr. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth down an alley, only to be turned back by ¯¯ Laredo Crossing, 1519 E. 15 585-1555 St. Aidan’ s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati 425-7882 the gun that had just murdered his longSusan McBay, MSW: Earth-Centered Counsdiug 592-1260 St. Jerome’s PariSh Church, 3841 S. Peoria 742-6227 " time companion. *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 584-3112 *Shanti Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services 749-7898 : Seeing one’s life partner gunned down Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati 663-5934 582.4128 ¯ by a maniac is surely among the worst *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 664-2951 Tulsa County Health Department, 46 16 E. 15 595-4105 : tragedies imaginable, which is why the *Novel Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard 747-6711 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only : sorrowfulimages of Jacqueline Kennedy, David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 747-7672 Tulsa Okla. for Human Rights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 : Betty Shabazz, Yoko Ouo, and Coretta ZiRita Parish, Indoor/Outdoor Co. Home Remodel "g 587-6717 T.U.L,S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 : Scott .King are seared intothe. American *Peace Of Mind Bookstore, 1401 E. 15 583-1090 *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule ¯ consctonsness. Pet Pride, Dog & Cat Grooming 584-7554 *Tulsa Comrntmity College Campuses ; ’ But we observed no such respect in the The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor 743-4297 *Rogers University (formerly UCT) ¯ mesa for D’Amieo. The facts outlined Puppy Pause II, llth & Mingo 838-7626 ¯ above were scattered over several news BARTLESVILLE ¯ Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 834-0617 *Barflesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 stories, often buried or omitted entirely. Scott Robison’s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations, 743-2351 : Photographs of the family in mourning NORMAN Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921,747-4746 often identified the sister of the deceased, *Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 Christopher Spradling, attorney, 616 S. Main, #308 582-7748 ¯ but failed tO identify the man with whom *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square OKLAHOMA CITY 749=6301 ¯ he’d ’shared his life for more than a de*Sedona Health Foods; 8220 S. Harvard *Borders Books & Music, 3209 NW Expressway 405-848-2667 " cade. Is it any wonder that gay andlesbian 481-0201 *Sophronia’sAntiques, 1515 E. 15 592-2887 TAHLEQUAH ¯" citizens are increasingly indignant when *Tickled Pink, 3340 S. Peoria 697-0017 *Stonewall League, call for information: 918-456-7900 ¯¯ our most precious relationships are rou*Trizza’s Pots, 1448 S. Delaware 743-7687 *Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church 918-456-7900 finely trivialized not only by the media, *Tulsa Book Exchange, 3749 S. Peoria 742-2007 *Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 918-458-0467 ." but also by a lack of legal recognition? *Tulsa Comedy Club., 6906 S. Lewis 481-0558 ¯ NSU School of Optometry, 1001 N. Grand - Martha Barnette & Debra Clem Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling 743-1733 HIVevery other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for date ¯ Louisville, Kentucky via e-mail *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 1071, 74101-1071 579-9593 DeVito’ s Restaurant, 5 Center S t. 501-253 -6807 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 58%7314 *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center. 2207 E. 6 583-7815 MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 *B/IAG Alliance, Univ of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. 583-9780 Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 ¯ *Chamber of Commerce, 616 S. Boston 585-1201 Kings Hi-Way Inn, 62 Kings Hi-way 800-231-1442 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-624-6646 *CommunityofHopeUnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 ’FAYETTEV!LLE, ARKANSAS 587-1314 *Church of the Restoration, 1314 N.Greenwood *Edna’s, 9 S. School Ave. 501-442-2845 *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 742-2457 ~ indicates a distribution point. Listed businesses are not all Gay-owned Dignity/Integrity-Lesbian/Gay Catholics/Episcopal. 298-4648 but welcome Lesbian/Gay/Bi &’ Trans communities. ~ ~. �R IA Yes, We HavO No Bananas : by Kevin Isom We should have seen it coming. Everything was going so well. First, there was Lesbian chic. Then there was At last count there were six or seven publications : "Ellen - The Episode." Then Mickey Mouse and Goofy serving the Lesbian/Gay/Bi and Trans communities of stood up to the caltoonish Southern Baptist boycott. Oklahoma. Of those actually based in state, the oldest is But then along came an alleged Gay spree killer- yes, The Gayly Oklahoman, now more than 12 years old. Next the authorities are calling him a spree killer - who swept is this newspaper at nearly 4 years. Then comes the baby : into South Beach and casnally murdered Gianui Versaee, of the group, OMahoma City Community News, an ambi: @ Black& White, Charities : the talented,rich, and influential Gay fashion designer. tious "vanity" publication. In our media watch, we have ¯ A gasp of horror went up from fashionable Gay and .been mos.t .amused for several montlm By the self-promo; r straight folk. all. around the, world,, and celebrities as tional, allX~lt somewhat despetat~ sliemani~ans 5f Okla: dlverse a~ Princes S Di, Naomi Campbell, Elton John, and homa City Community News. ~ : Sylvester Stallone were grief stricken. And with good Primary among these has. been running "filler" ads ¯ reason. Versaee was an openly gay role model of successwhich tout some aspect of their publication which they : ful and caring living, whose senseless death narrows the deem. superior to other newspapers. These ads have ¯ world a little for Gays and straights alike. mostly been just rather tasteless. But recently in response ¯ Besides, without Versaee, who would create trends to a format change by The Gayly Oklahoman, Community ¯ like those" ubiquitous white ieans9 Who would ~ive News ran an ad crowing about how The Gayly was now Ehzabeth Hurley clothes that would make her stand out imitating Community News! ." from the shadow of her actor/boyfriend/befriender of Tulsa Family News wonders, how Community News ¯ prostitutes., Hugh Grant? would feel if we ran a self-promotional ad saying how More importantly, where would we find homoerotic ." Community News was just imitating Tulsa Family News? Dancers to suit many tastes sweatedfor several hundred ¯ images of male beauty in straight magazines? Even for After all, most of whatdistinguishes their publication are guests, including some of TUlgar~ finest. No problems ¯ people who don’t buy into the whole d~signer cacheL things we’ve been doing successfully for almost 4 years were reported, the officers were jus’t enjoying the views. ¯ Versace made a difference - and an improvement - in In fact, shortly after Community ~lewsbegan, editor body-conscious style, not to mention the buffed-up types Bruce Devault called us for "how-to" advice. And for all :. of bodies he promoted. I, for one, am all for eye candy. their noise about being found in ,mainstream7 locations : Will we now be left with only Calvin Klein? because of their "dean content," that approach was done The mainstream news media was, of course, all over : first by Tulsa Family News to such ~uccess that when when all states had some type of ban on sodomy. Community News came over fromi~OKC to Tulsa, they : the case like Bruno Magli shoes on O.J. Simpson. Here was an alleged spree killer who, in his mother’s words, Sodomy, considered by some to be a crime against just used~0ur distribution list. ".. nature, was outlawed for centuries in England. States in : was a "high class’Gay prostitute." What copy this made More seriously though, we reall~ have .to -wonder if ¯ for the nightly news! this country followed Britain’s example, banning such ~ashing other Gay businesses in self,promotional adver¯ Forget Ellen, forget Disney. Lesbian chic? What was sex acts in 19th century criminal codes. There is some ¯ tasements really helps to build our communities? This is that? Here’s an alleged queer Heidi Fleiss with murder on support for anti-sodomy laws today.:The Rev. Lou Sheldon not to say that there isn’t a roll for debate anddiscussion of the Traditional Values Coalition said, "The sodomy : the mind! Hard Copy even came out of summer hiatus to about issues and [eadership. TFN~does precisely that jump right on the case. And if Hard Copy ~s on the beat, law tells us that heterosexuality is a preferred status in regularly. ¯ you know it’s gotta be big. society." Community News has alluded in iis ads to some issues For days, there were alerts on nighfl.y news in every poThese days, hardly anyone is prosecuted for private, ¯ that deserve serious public debate - such.as therole of dunk.town with even a smidgen of openly Gay culture. consensual acts of sodomy, saysWilliam Eskridge Jr., a sexually-oriented advertising in commumty publications. Georgetown University law professor who is writing a : (’:B.ucksnort, Tennessee: Is the Killer Here?") In oart, However, in reputable newspapers, this sort of debate ¯ because the F.B.I. neglected to get out information to’Gay book on how laws affect Gay people. Instead, prosecu- ¯ occurs in editorial pages, accompanied hy,reasoned argucomm6nifies across the country when they first knew of tions tend to be for public solicitation of sodomy or for ments, not by snipes in advertisements. the very real threat. " situations involving rape or coercion. But sodomy laws Indeed, we always have chosen not to run in-your-face are used indirectly in other cases involving Gay people, ¯ " But ire should have ~een it coming. After all, we’ll : sexually-oriented ads like those of The Gayly, butalsowe : never be truly equal to Straight folks until We re equal in i: havenever attacked The Gayly-for their deeibions-..Maybe such as custody or employment disputes. A Gay person might be judged abad candidatetohave custody ofachild :- every way. Andthat means bad aswell as good. Strange : because we remember how,things on~ewere in Okiabecause he or she is assumed to be breakin~ a state’s : as well as stylish. Straight folks have produced years and ¯ homa, we want to state our admiration for The Gayly’s Sodomy law. : y~s of serialkillers.-Remember Ted Bundy? ¯ pioneering work. For those who are tooyoung to remem: Cmiously; though, instead of just ’accepting a spree ¯ In. Georgia, then-Attorney General Michael Bowers ¯ ber, there was a time not too long ago that theouly sources killer for what he was - bananas- the mainstream media ¯ withdrew a job offer to a Lesbian in 1990 after learmng of advertising for Gay newspapers were either bars or : seemed obsessed with finding areason, an explanation, ¯ sexually oriented services. she planned to marry another woman in a religious for his killings. They suggested, without any evidence t~ ceremony. The woman sued, but a federal appeal,s ~,oui~ ~ ,, TFN has b~,roken new ground in this. state4n getting ruled this spring that Bowers - who successfully defended ¯ back up the assertion, that the alleged killer l~ad disc09,mamstre.am or non-Gay advertising, but we,recognize Georgia’s sodomy law before tli~’Supreme Court- was ". ered he had AIDS and just snapped. Sort ~0f like Mike mat once that was not possible, and that.The Gayly served ¯ entitled-to, think the public would I~’confused if he hired : Tyson, but without the ear goop. our commumtaes under much more difficult circumBut isn’t it seem the least bit Strange thiit thousands someone m a same-sex marriage. The Georgia Supreme ¯ stances in the past. upon thousands of Gay men have died of AIDS, and none Court upheld that state’s sodomy law last year, saying it ¯ We would also caution the apparently happily coupled was a valid exercise of the state’sauthority to promote : have gone on across country killing spree? Isn’t it worth ¯ staff of OKC’s C&nmunity News not to be sex-phobic, ¯ noting that most Gay men instead have thrown their moral well’are. ¯ and insensitive to the needs of those who are single. Courts that threw out sodomy laws in Montana, Ken- "- efforts into a brave, and largely successful, community ¯ While we agree that there are discussions of specific ¯ . tucky and Tennessee said they violated the right to ¯ response,to AIDS? sexual preferences and of particularities of anatomy that privacy under their state constitutions. The Kentucky Doesn tit also seem strange that the mainstream media ¯ are preferably not conducted in print, we hope that has tended to lump Versace and his alleged killer into the ruling also said the law violated a state ~uarantee of eqtial ¯ ¯ same "lifestyle" - you know, the Gay one? While both the ¯ Community News will recognize the legitimate n~eds for protection under the law. members of our community .to.date, and ev.en .to have ¯ victim and his alleged killer might both have been Gay~ ¯ casual sex (though, of course, individuals should be Gay civil=riglits advocates hope an equal protection argument may eventually be used to throw out sodomy : their lifestyles were hardlyidentical. But the media hasn’t : sexually resp.onsible). They might also note that many in seemed to think so. They must also think that Princess Di laws in the states that target only same-sex conduct. Last our commumty like the candor of The Gayly. ¯ year, the Supreme Court cited equal protection grounds ¯ and Queen Latifah, both being royals, must live the same Finally, e d ask the Community News to stop its silly. ¯ lifestyle, too. when it invalidated a Colorado constitutional amendment ¯ ¯ criticizing of 900 numbers. After all, even The Tulsa The saddest part of all this hoopla is that Versace’s ¯ that forbade laws protecting homosexuals from discrimi- ." WorldandUrbanTulsahave9OOnumberdatingservices, nataon. The Kansas law now is being challenged on equal ¯ !ongtime compamon, Antonio D’Amici, was rarely menCommunity News isn’t attacking them yet! protection grounds in a case being handled by the Ameri- . tioned, if at all. Instead, the focus was on"Poughkeepsie, :¯ butOur point is to respect those who’ve come before us, New York: Is the Killer Here?" ¯ can Civil Liberties Union’s Lesbian and Gay rights and the work they did that lielped us all to get where we project. On the twisted road to equality, we seem to have taken ¯ are now. The ads attacking The Gayly, andus too, are just an ui},expected step. A step which, with the alleged ,, "It’s a tremendous, priority of ours," Harlow said. ¯ nasty. Anyway, if your work is good enough, that should Sodomy laws cast a dark cloud over Gay people getting ¯ kill,er s apparent suicide, will soon be forgotten. ¯ speak for itself. equal rights. We will keep making them apri0rity Until all I m looking forward to getting back to Disney, those : -Tom Neal~ editor & publisher ¯ .of them are gone." ¯ zany Southern Baptists, and Lesbian chic. Kevinlsom is a syndicated travel writer and humor ditq~,~ note: Laurie Asseo covers the Supreme Court " columnist. His short story The Brothers Mangrum ap- ¯ PS, we welcome letters ’ ofsexually, oriented ¯ advertising or ’. Letters by *~ . u~N~,lal~o~v.asThe contriouted by TUlsa News . p.e..q~,s..!.n th~.~pr.ing ! 997 issue of~s Transcontihental. ~:~~_~=..r As.sociated Press.Family Information staff writers. �White. Ho...u.se Chan, ges Gays M,l,tary P0s,tion WASHINGTON (AP) - Trying to shaooth over a wrinkle in its relations with the gay commtmity, the White House on Monday clarified its statement on a federal judge’s ruling on the "don’t ask, don’t tell, don’t pursue" policy for Gays in the military. Presidential spokesman Mike McCurry said that, after hearing "legitimate concerns" raised by activists, his reaction to the ruling should have included that a review under way at the Pentagon analyzing how the " law is being implemented. "In retrospect,. I would " have pointed that out if I had looked into the issue ¯ more," McCurry told reporters. "I had a typically : McCurry off-the-cuff reaction.’? ...... r ~ " Earlier this month in New York, U.S! DiStrict " Judge Eugene Nickerson ruled that the policy violates ¯ free-speech fights of gay service members and sub- " jects them to separate, discriminatory regulations. " Activists told the White House that morehomosexual ¯ service members have been discharged since the ¯ policy was adopted by the Clinton ad~ainistration in 1993. Last year, 850 Gays were discharged from all " branches of the armed forces except the Coast Guard, ¯ according to Pentagon data compiled by the Service ¯ Members Legal Defense Network, an independent " legal advocacy group. In 1994, there were 597 dis- ¯ charges. The Justice Department is appealing Nickerson’s decision, and the issue is expected to ultimately be " decided by the Supreme Court. There are several . cases nationwide challengin~ the 1993 policy, adopted ¯ by the administration as a compromise. The policy bars commanders from asking service members what ¯ theirsexual orientations are. It allows Gay troops to." serve as long as they refrain from homosexual acts and don’t reveal their orientation. " When Nickerson _issued his ruling, McCurry said : "wg continue to believe the policy is a good one" and . was being implemented satisfactorily. McCurry said ¯ Monday he had neglected to mention that Defense : Secretary William Cohen "has expressed some con- ¯ cern about the implementation of the law" and had ordered a review group to study it. "The bottom line ¯ is, the law is still the law," McCurry said. "We must ." continue the work of effectively administering the law and making sure we do so with the kind of ¯ sensitivity that gecretary Cohen has said should ap- " ply." "The good news here is that Mike McCurry, in ¯ thinking alitflebit longer about his comments, recog- ¯ nized that ... there are some problems with enforce- ¯ ment Of this poficy," said Winnie Stachelberg, legis, " lative director of the Human Rights Campaign, the country’s largest Gay political organization. ¯ School Fails to Stop Anti-Gay Harassment PACIFICA, Calif. (AP) - A woman plans to sue her son’ s school district for not protecting her son from classmate’s gay slurs. The 12-year-old boy said fellow students have insulted him ever since he was in kindergarten, calling him"gay-gay," "girl" and "faggot" dozens of times a week. The boy, unidentified to protect his .privacy, lost 30 pounds after the taunting escalatedlast year. He developed migraines, his grades sank and he thought of suicide. The seventh-grader, who said he is not Gay but knows he is more feminine than other boys his age, asked the Laguna Salada Union School Board this ~ast springme’~ to,.P,,Uthe a stop unending epithets. "It’s atefulto Saidlto,the It-affectshow I feel about myself, my schoolwork, everytl~ing. I have been called those names in all my schools for as long as I can remember.., about my perceived sexual orientation, and ithas to stop. I Would like to go to school and not have to worry about h~ethings that somebody’s going to call me." Since then, the district amended its sexual harassment policy. It says no student shall be subject to any kind of sexual harassment, "including harassment because of sexual orientation." The most serious penalties include expulsion. But months of working with administrators at Ortega Middle School appar;ently have not stopped the slurs, so the boy’s mother said she intends to sue the Laguna Salada district for not protecting her son. She alsbpians t~ue a han’c[f01 of administrators and school c~unsel0rs. Oakland attorney Sandra Sprin~¢who represents the boy, said in the notice of intent to sue that the district violated both its own and state-mandated harassment policies. The boy’s mother said the little taught in class about sexual liarassment pertains to treatment of gifts, not boys. And no positive images of homosexuality are taught, she said. The school offered an in-class training session on sexual harassment, but the boy said his Classmates thought it was a joke. The students were given 20 minutes to read a booklet that contained one passing reference to boys who harass other Ix)vs. "We went through all the channels and hit bricl~ walls," the woman said. "For my son it’ s more hate harassment, sexual-harassment, homophobic.harassment. ~I came to Ortega-to say, ’Please help me, please help my son.’ The policy needs to be clarified." Increasingly, lawsuits have been filed to force schools to stop sexual harassment, especially of girls. But cases involving boys are rare. The boy has since left Ortega for an alternative school in Pacifica, where the principal and teachers keep close tabs on him. He has gained back all the weight he lost and his migraines and asthma have vanished. "It’s been the best year of my life- and it was only two months," he said. Chrysler Now More Gay-Friendly? DETROIT (AP) - Ellen DeGeneres lost the Chrysler Corp.’s approval when she announced she was a lesbian, but the company’s gay and lesbian workers are hoping for a better reception. The company drew protests from gay support groups when it pulled advertising from the episode of ABC-TV’s FJlen in which the lead character, played by Ms. DeGeneres, came out of the closet. But since then, Chrysler has formally acknowl= edged, for the first time, "People of Diversity," an employee group formed early this year "to p~ovide support fofqesbians, gays,, bisexuals and transgendered people through business and social activities." It’s part of a trend among the Big Three automakers by employees who are pushing for, and receiving, some recognition of gay and lesbian workers’ rights. Ford Motor Co. recognizes a Similar employee grgup, and in November expanded its anti-discrimination bylaws to include sexual orientation. General Motors Corp. does not formally recognize gay employee organizations but GM PLUS, a gay group, is pushing the automaker for acceptance. "The momentum is definitely picking up and moving in the right direction," Alan Gilmour, a former vice-chairman of Ford who retired in 1994 and last year disclosed he is gay, told The Detroit News. While they hail the moves, critics say the Big Three ¯ ¯ are responding too slow to shifts to protect gay and ¯ lesbian employees particularly blue-collarworkers¯ fromharassment."Anyforwardmovementisprogress, ¯ but the reality is that they aren’t showing a true ¯ commitment to what they say they are doing in ¯ creating a hospitable workplace," said Jeff Mont" gomery, president of the Triangle Foundation, a De" troit gay and lesbian civil rights group. Alice McKeage, an openly gay computer pro-. ¯ ¯ gramer at Ford and co-founder of the automaker’s ¯ gay emp!oyee.group - GLOBE - still receives calls ¯ from Ford employees, mostly in factories, who are ¯ harassed on the job and looking for help. ¯ "Our biggest challenge is to promote a safe work ¯ environment because the manufacturingbnv~6niii~nt ¯ is stillhostile to gays,’~ McKeage said. "We’ve made ¯ progress because Ford Chairffian Alex Trotman is ¯ committed todiVerSity, butit’s coming along slow ’" Chrysler has quiedy resumed ad,~ettising onEli~n, ¯ but the spotlight-.on gay and lesbian issues won’t g6 away. The company said it’* changing with a strihg of ¯ moves designed to foste£ ~i: Workplace marked by ¯ tolerance for gays and lefibians. Bef0~e recogn~!~g .- People for Diversity, ill January it revised forma!,. ¯ standards of conduct- that eautions employees against : harassing any person based on that’person’ s sex’, race, .’. religion, age or sexual orientation. 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"We’ve now ¯ opened a formal dialogue to discuss other issues and " goals,"Walters said. "Fheautoindustry hasno choice " but to change. We are genuine assets to the corpora- " ti°n and indus, .try and they recognize, flaat." " the law, the judge wrote. ’This court.., has failed to find objective reasons to usurp the discretion, power and authority of the legislative branch to enact this law." Episcopal Church Apologizes to Gays PHILADELPHIA (AP)-As they closed their 10-day national convention, leaders of the Episcopal Church apologized to Gays and Lesbians for years of rejection and mistreatment by the church. The House of Bishops and House of Deputies, composed of clergy and lay leaders, approved the measure Friday on behalf of the 2.5 millionb~lieveks. ’ ...... A feared Episcopal Church split never happened, ¯ but leaders remained divided on sexuality issues. In TUPELO, Miss. (AP) - The couple’s relationship ¯¯ efforts to reduce division, several leaders of the 2.5 was on shaky ground. So they sought counseling million-member church vowed to keep open the through an employee assistance program maintained debates over ordaining homosexuals and forming a by North Mississippi Medical Center. But counselor ¯ rite to bless same-sex unions. Conservative leaders Sandra M. Bmff refused to see the couple. The ¯ said they will spend the next few years fighting these reason? They are both yeomen; ¯ proposed changes. However, the 72rid General Con: Mrs~ Bmff was fired Oct. 23, 1996. She is now : vention, dosed without any significant changes to suing North Mississippi Health Services Inc., the ¯ current church policy, But the 1,100 church leaders parent company of North Mississippi Medical Cen- ¯ came close. A proposal to bless same-sex unions lost ¯ ter, for unspecified damages. Mrs. Bmff, of Marietta, in a nearly even vote, and resolutions rdated to the contends she was fired from her job as medical ¯ ordination of homosexuals also narrowly failed. services counselor because she cited her religious ¯ Gay and Lesbian advocates considered the votes beliefs "as the reason for refusing to see the homo- ¯ signs that the church one day. may fully endorse sexual couple. She is asking in the lawsuit to be " ordination and blessings _for same-sex unions. And ¯ reinstated with full benefits and seniority. they enjoyed Some victories as well The convention ¯ Her law yer, Grant Fox of Tupelo, said at is sue in the narrowlyapproved a resolution to allow dioceses to suit is whether she can be fired because of her reliextend health benefits to domestic partners of church ¯ gious views. Fox said Mrs. Bmff worked in the ¯ employees, though a similar resolution that would employee assistance program, in which outside em- : have qualified domestic partner~ for the church pen" sion fund failed. ~oloy.ers the me,~cal provide counseling ~ Church leaders also endorse0~:a plan to continue r theirpay workers. Mrs.center Bmffto had been counseling this woman, this patient for some time, when the ¯ study on the theological implications of same-sex asked for help in working out problems with her : umons. A report on the topic will be presented at the lesbian lover. When Mrs. Bruff said she could not, the :" next general convention in 2000in Denver. However, individual was not happy with that... "Fox said. Fox .. House of Deputies member Byron Rushing, a la~, said Mrs. Bmff told the patient that she could con- ¯ person from Boston, Mass., said he believes the tinue counsding her on other issues "not contrary to ¯ division ~vill be smaller by then and the church will ¯ Mrs~ Bmff’s Christian faith." ¯ become even more welcoming to gays and lesbians. Fox said Mrs. Bmff also explained her position to One mission of the church is helping Gays and the hospital in writing, adding that her beliefs also ¯ Lesbians become more included, Bishop Suffragan would prevent.her from counseling someone about ¯ Catherine Roskam said. Bishop Joe Doss from the adultery. He said the hospital responded that "that ¯ Diocese of New Jersey said he believes another part ¯ was not acceptable ... (she) shouldbe terminated." of the church’s mission will be teaching the kind of Len Grice, director of marketing services for NMHS, : acceptance it learned from the sexuality debates to the said hospital officials had not seen the lawsuit. "Of ¯ worldwide Anglican community. But before that course, we have no comment. This is a personnel happens, Doss said, the church needs to consider how ¯ matter," Grice said Tuesday. However, the hospital its theology applies to Gays and Lesbians. Old interhad been through at least two proceedings involving :-~ pretations of scripture encouraged exclusion, he said. Mrs. Bruff. Mrs. Bmff filed a complaint with the ." "We need to rethink how we’ve pushed baptized federal Equal F~nployment Opportunity Commispeople aside," Doss said of Gay Episcopalians. sion, which ruled in May that it could not find any ¯ Presiding Bishop Elect Frank T: Griswold III of violation of law, and the Mississippi Employment ¯ Chicago, chosen during the convention, saidhehopes Security Commission, where a hearing officer ruled ¯ the discussion on sexuality will continue. But he said she was eligible for unemployment benefits. ¯ he would like to see the factions also focus on. their common beliefs. 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Attard, by homosexuals. ~ ¯ one of 10 men convicted in the slaying of Paul Ms. Amer, who has a son by artificial insemination ¯" Broussard, because he failed’to perform community and wants to adopt another child; lives with a retired : service. prison gtmrd, Gail DeShon. Amer testified during the : On July 4, 1991, Attard and nine friends went to week-long trial in early May that the 6-year-old boy ¯ Houston looking for Gays to harass.. They .brought ; nail-spiked boards and rocks as weapons. The 10 calls the women Mommy June and Mommy Gail ."We’re very disappointed," said Ms. Ame’r’ satt~r- ; youths attacked Broussard and two of his friends as hey, Karen Coolman Amlong, of the American Civil .. the three were leaving a gay bar..Jon Christopher Liberties Union. The attorney said her client is .. Buice stabbed Broussard to death. Buiceis serving45 undecided about appealing. Ms. Amlong said during ¯ years. Four others were sentenced to prison terms. the trial that the law was unconstitutional because the ; Five, including Attard, were assessed probationary Legislature was trying to exclude an entire group of .- sentences and sent to boot camp. Broussard’s mother, Florida’s population from adoptions. : Nancy Rodriguez said she was glad Attardis going to "There is no evidence.., that the law was passed for ¯ prison. "I’m glad Judge Rains gave him the 10 years," the purpose of disadvantaging the group burdened by : she said. "I wish it could be more." ¯ Goes to Prison Finally Sun. 9:15 am Christian Education ¯ Sun. Service 11:00 am Wed. Service 6:30 pm * Wed. 7:30 pm Choir Practice Thurs. 7:30 pm Codependency Support Group To do justice, love mercy & to zoalk humbly with ourGod... Micah 6:8 5451-E.South Min~o ¯ Tulsa, OK ¯ 74146 ° (9181 622-1441 �AZT Just Doesn’t Work Right NEW YORK (AP) - Ten years after AZT hit the market, scientists say they’ve figured out why it doesn’t work better: Chemically, it’s a bad dance partner. The discovery might lead to better weapons against the AIDS virus, the researchers said. But the company that makes AZT, Glaxo Wellcome Inc., which has its U.S. headquarters in Research Triangle Park, N.C., was skeptical. AZT, the first drug approved for attacking HIV, sabotages the virus’s attempts to reproduce itself. But it doesn’t work perfecfly, and HIV eventually .spawns, mutant strains that resist the medication. Many more anti-HIV drugs have come along since AZT, but the drug is still widely used. The new research studied what happens to AZT once it gets into a person’ s body. An AZT molecule goes through an intricate dance in a user’s calls. It has to be modified three times to become effective against HIV, and to get that done, it has to dance with three different molecular partners. These partners are enzyme molecules that latch onto AZT one at a time, makea modification, and then let go. The dance goes fine with the first partner. The problem comes with the second. When this enzyme and the AZT molecule pair up, the enzyme is far less efficient at making the crucial modification than it should be. This creates a bottleneck in the process, reducing the amount of activated AZT that can.be built up to work on the AIDS virus. What;s the problem? The AZT molecuie is basically-stepping on the second partner’ s toes, German scientists report ~n the August issues of Nature Medicine and Nature StmctumlBiology. More precisely, the enzyme molecule has aloop-like structure that’s important in making the modification, and the AZT molecule has a protruding finger that bends this loop out of kilter. That makes it harder for the enzyme to act, the researchers concluded. So scientists might do well to design drugs that,avoi:d bending this loop, they said. or/hey .could provide AZT with a new dance ..., .partner that’s more coopera- " five. That would involve giving patients a gene tb"m~l~ their cells pump out an altered fortii of the enzyme, one that isn’t binderieS, byAZT’ s protruding fmger, they said. Ram~r~"’J~i~es, a spokeswoman for Glaxo W~i~03h~ inc., said the new work offers abetter explanation for the processing glitch than scientists had before. "We don’t think this one piece.of information is going to really change drug development that much," she said. "But certmnly ~y.,!nformation added to the mix is help~ - Surge, ry Debated for Positives . ¯ ¯ SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - As Joe Young ¯¯ saw it, he had two options:iisk majtr ¯" experimental surgery ~rdie of congestive ¯ heart failure, Nevermind that the surgery, ¯ which includes slicing a wedge from a -pail ent’ s enlarged, w eakened heart to make .. ¯ it smaller~and more efficient, is far from ’ routine- or that he is HIV-positive. "I was ¯ afraid my heart was going to give out ¯ before they find a cure for AIDS," Young says. ¯ Las t month, a cardiac surgeon perform." ing the procedure for the first time "re¯ modeled" Young’s heart. He repaired its valves and removed a section to make it more compact, to beat faster and pump more efficiently. Dr. Alex Zapolanski says he had nS" qualms about accepting Young as a surgery patient, but the case has stirred debate among colleagues. Some warn the procedure is far from ready for widespread use, especially on patients whose defenses are weakened by other illnesses. "Most of us in the field are .very skeptical," says Dr. Sharon Hunt, a transplant cardiologist at Stanford Medical Center. Stanford, a major heart facility that does 40 heart transplants and 1,000 other heart surgeries each year,, has yet to perform heart remodeling, even on patients without complications. Elsewhere, American doctors are only beginning to try the procedure, an alternative to transplantation. Since May 1996, fewer than 100 remodeling surgeries have been done in the United States, compared with an average 2,300 heart transplants a year. Doctors say the surgery fails in30 percent of cases, making immediate transplants necessary. To even the most experienced surgeons, the idea of cutting into the heart muscle is foreign. But for Dr. Randas Batista, the Brazilian heart surgeon who pioneered the procedure, it was a last-ditch effort to save dying patients in the Amazon jungle, where donor organs are all but nonexi stent. "Most of my patients would be dead in a short time anyway," Batista said in a telephone interview from Brazil "So I have survivors." Batista contends that the situation in the United States - with hundreds of thousands of congestive heart failure cases each .year and fewer than 2,500 donor hearts available - is.not so different. And those odds don’t include .thousands of patients like Young, for whom transplants are not an option because of serious systemic ailments such as HIV, cancer, advanced diabetes or active hepatitis. Young, 46, now recuperating at a San Francisco hospital, has known since he was diagnosed with both HIV and congestive heart failure in 1989 that his HIV status made him ineligible for a transplant. When his condition worsened early this year, he felt "remodeling" was. his only option. .When Zapolanski first saw Young this spnng, the former.cab drivcr, andhotel clerk was constantly,short of breath and bloated with fluid. Carryingaiaything substantiai from one end-of the. room, to..the other was outof the question.."He was going downhill. Anyone .could see. that," says Zapolanski, who.believes ¥oung’s heart disease may have been caused by his ~weakened immune system. However, Young’s health was otherwise reasonably sound and he showed no symptoms of AIDS, whichhe attributes to the new drug combinations that. are prolonging some lives. "When the patient is willing to take the chance, then it doesn’t take a doctor to see what is the right thing to do,," says Zapolanski,¯ who operated on Young, with -Batista assisting, at Seton Medical Center in Daly City,just south of San Francisco. That attitude alarms some but is good news for others, including a heart patient who’sbeentumeddowntwiceforremod_ eling because, like Young, he is HIV, positive. "I really felt that people weretelling me, "What you’ve got is not worth our time because HIV is going to kill you dead,"’ says John, a 35-year-old Oakland man. John hopes Zapolanski can operate SCOTT ROBISON’S PRESCRIPTIONS Serving Tulsan ’s Jeffrey A. Beal, MD Stephen Peake, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Since 1947 Specialized in HIV .Care Providing Comprehensive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We are currently enrolling participants in HIV/AIDS investigational drug trials. Call us and ask for Drug Study to see if you qualify. 2325 South Harvard, Suite 600, Tulsa 74114 Monday - Friday 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 Major credit cards accepted for your convenience! 3 locations to serve you: Hillcrest Physician’s Building 1145 So. 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Some critisort of radical heart surgery, I would look ¯ cized a CDC study that said health care under every stone," McCarthy says. "If ¯ workers in the United States. the United patients are HIV-positive and they go ¯ Kingdom and France who took the AIDS through surgery; they have a much harder drug AZT after being stuck with a needle time recovering... (and) arejust that much ¯ cut.their risk of contracting HIV by 79 more susceptible to catch an infection." ¯ percent. That study is the best evidence ¯ To date, he and his colleagues have the CDC has that the post-exposure treatperformed 56 remodelings, with a failure . ment works. rate of just 10 percent - substantially : Dr. Alastair McLeod, who has treated better than the national rate of 30 percent. ¯ AIDS patients in Vancouver, British CoMcCarthy credits careful screening of. " lumbia, since 1984, added: "I don’t besurgery candidates. He rules out heart " !ieve that 79 percent stuff either. The data remodeling even for patients with other ¯ is indeed a bit soft. This is potentially a heart problems, such as dogged arteries. ¯ quagmire for the agency." A month after surgery, Young suffered Another concern was that some people a stroke - a liability for some post-surgi- ¯ might comein for treatment a second time cal heart patients - that paralyzed part of ¯ after engaging again in risky behavior. his left side~ A spokeswoman at Davies ¯ "Do we give it to them the first time and Medical Center, the hospital where Young ¯ then withhold it the second as punishis recuperating, says he is improving daily. " ment?" asked Kahn. And he remains hopeful and ever ready to : Also, emergency rooms, which serve go home. "I still have faith," Young says ¯ about 100millionpatientsayear, couldbe between deep breaths. ’t..To me, this is : inundated because they are often the first like half of a miracle. The other half will " place people go for medical care, said ¯ Richard Rothman of Johns Hopkins Unibe a cure of AIDS." ¯ versity. : The CDC initially said it was consider" ing the morning-after treatment for one,¯ time use. But doctors at-the meeting said that should be reconsidered, since chilATLANTA (AP) - In a debate over who ¯ dren can be abused repeatedly andprisonmight benefit from a moruing-after treat: ers can be raped more than once. ment for HIV, Michigan AIDS director Saah called for more animal studies. Randy Pope said he’s more concerned ¯ Two unpublished studies presented Thurs about what to call it first. "Is it prevention : day showed that giving monkeys the blast or is it treatment?" Pope asked a group of of drugs within hours after they were experts who gathered in Atlanta to mull infected with HIV kept some of them the idea of a blast of AIDS drugs for ¯ virus-free after almost a year. Those studpatients who fear they may have con: ies are still in progress~ however. tracted HIV from a night of risky sex or a needle. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention is i~ing to figure out whether to endorse the controversial practice or not. But first, they must dispense with the : WASHINGTON (AP) - Scientists have name game. The government shuns the ¯ proved a long-expected trait of the AIDS "morning-after" title because it wrongly : virus:.It produces aprotein that stimulates implies one pill will do it. Then, there’s ¯ cells to enhance its deadly reproducd0n. "post-exposure prophylaxis." That didn"t ¯ The protein is called Tat, and researchers seem to work. Now, its wrestling over ¯ from the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute "post-exposure treatment." ¯ willreport Tuesday thatit essentially proIt may sound trivial, but it’s the root of : .vides a wake-upcall that renders slumberdisagreement among doctors over when it , mg immune cells susceptible to HIV inshould be used, who would receive it and " fection. whether it will take money away from -" HIV works best in active immune cells, prevention programs that already work. ¯ not quiescent ones. So for HIV to sustain The treatment, which would likely take : its killer viral levels, it must continually about a month, would give AIDS drugs to : replenish the active cells it kills, Danapeople as quickly as possible after a po- " Farber research Chiang Li writes in a tential exposure to HIV. The idea is to : recent Proceedings ofthe NationalAcadstart fighting right away the development ¯ emy of Sciences. Tat secreted-from inof AIDS, even before people are certain : fected cells enters resting neighbor cells they have HIV. _" and "activates" them, Li discovered in a An HIV-infected man has sex with his ¯ series of test-tube studies. wife and the condom breaks. A prisoner is : Li proved an HIV pathway that scientaped by a gang of men. A child is mo- ¯ tists were so confident existed that they lested. These are all cases experts debated : already had hunted drags to attack Tat, during a two-day conference in Atlanta ¯ said Dr. Anthony Fauci, an AIDS expert that ended Friday. There is little proof that " with the National Institutes of Health. So such a treatment works, although some : far, that research "didn’t work, to the preliminary studies suggest it might. But ¯ point that at least one company has aban¯ donedtheirendeavorsfora Tatinhibitor," some doctors are already doing it. Dr. James Kahn, an associate professor : Fauci said. But "that doesn’t mean that of medicine at the University of Califor- ¯: somebody won’t now, withthis more connia in San Francisco, said he would offer : firmatory evidence, try another approach the treatment to anyone who needs it. : to blocking Tat." "When you’re ... sitting across an exam table from somebody who has plain needs, Morning-After Treatment Debated ¯i Own Study: HIV Sp.u.rs Reproduct=on �by James Christjohn : rock festival, became a m~mmoth underOn the local front, RIVERDANCEissure : taking and received the attention of the tobeaneventnextsnmmer.Ifyouhaven’t : most prominent female artists, the tour seen the video, let me tell you it is a ¯ itself being billed as "a celebration of magical show blending tap, traditional ." women in music." and modem Celtic music With a rotating line~up, LIL1TH FAIR consists of and dance and gorgeous men With a rotadng Tracy Chapman, Sheryl and women dancing their Crow ,Jewel,Joan Osborne, feet off. The music is fabullne-up, FionaApple, Mary Chap~lous, and the show is quite LILITH FAIR Carpenter, F.mmylou Harbeautiful. While I am taking ~.ris,-Indigo .Girls, Shawn the term "Advance Notice" ........ ~slst~ 6f to an extreme, I would plan Colvin, Paula Cole, Meredith Brooks and more. Traey Chapman, to reserve seats as so~n as Having recently been .feathe tickets go on sale for the tured on the covers of both PAC August 18-23, 1998 pei~ogmances. Time and Entertainment Weekly and with SARAH Until then, the Broken featured in magazines na-, Arrow Community playtionwide, 1 .l1.1TH FAiRhas house will keep us tapping been selling out across the with their season-opening country. -I .H- ~.ITH°FAIR ocgala, "MUSIC TO REMary Chapincurs in Dallas August 4th. MEMBER", on August 23 Carpenter, SARAH?s new album, at the Main Place, 1800 S: ’~URFACING", is doing Main in BA. A reception Emmylou Harextremely well, having deand silent auction will be held at 6:30pro, and the ris, Indigo Girls, buted at number 2 on the Billboard charts and hitting show’ s curtain rises at 8pro. Shawn Colvln, #1in her native Canada. It Featuredentertainers are the is an excellent album, full Bits & Pieces Theatre ChoPanla Cole, of moody atmosphere and rus, and The. happy Hoofers. Please make reservaMeredith Brooks interesting rhythms. Ellen DeGeneres, who tions by August 15 at 258and more... made TV history by com0077. Special guests Teri out as a lesbian in her Bowers and Frank Mitchell LILITH FAIR ing series "Ellen," was nomifrom Channel8 will be emhas been selling nated for an F~nrny as best ceeing the event. actress in a comedy series. Shades Of the triple Godout across the Now that they’ve brought dess! My three favorite diher out of the closet, will vas are certainly getting a eountry~ [It] ABC let the star of its TV lot of attention these days. occurs in Dallas sitcom "Ellen" actually The most successful linehave a sex life this season? up ofFleetwoodMac’s long August 4th. Maybe not. ABC Entertainand winding career-featurmerit President JamieTames ing Lindsey Buckingham, STEVIE NICKS, Christine McVie, Mick ¯ has told TV writers the network plans to Fleetwood, and John McVie have reunited : moveslowlyindeveloping the Ellen charand have recorded alive album for release ¯ acter as an open lesbian. I guess we’ll see on Reprise September 23. The album in- ¯ just how slow a lesbian can move... With eludes four new songs-two from ¯¯ the heat the way it’s been, I don’t think Buckingham and one each from Nicks ¯ I’ve seen anyone moving too fast. Magician DAVID COPPERFIELD and McVie-plus live performances of many classics, such as "Dreams" & ¯ (Whom I had quite the crush on once) has "Rhiannon. "The album w as recorded over ¯ launched what could be his greatest trick - prying $30 million damages from Pari~ two nights in May. Those two concerts marked the first time this version of i Match magazine for alleging his romance Fleetwood Mac had performed an entire ¯ with model Claudia Schiffer is bogus. concert together in 15 years. Viewers will ~ (Oh, I dunno if HE would say that’s his be able to witness the event when MTV ¯ greatest trick Sorry, I had to. Even if it airs its Fleetwood Mac concert special on : was too easy.) Copperfield filed a defa¯ marion suit in Lo~ Angeles against the August 12. Well, loyal readers, FLEETWOOD ¯ French magazine’s pubfishers and a rival MAC concert dates are flying around the ¯ magician. According to the suit, Paris rumor mills. As of press time, rumor has ¯ MatchspreadafalsestorythatCopperfield it that they will be playing .the following ¯ and Schifferperpetuated afraud, pretendnearby cities: October 25th and 26th - " ing to be romantically involved, but that Oklahoma City, October 29th and 30th - ¯ Copperfield pays Schiffer to accompany Dallas. (Confirmation yet to come) If any ¯¯ him and pretend to be his fiancee. Hmm Shades of Liberace. (Who, for other MAC/NICKS fans out there would ¯ those too young or not interested in trivia like to get together for a road trip, I can be reached via the newspaper and would be : enough to know, popular pianist Liberace glad to help organize. I’d love the com- ¯¯ successfully sued a British tabloid in the ’50’ s for claiming he was Gay. And we all pany of any other MAC/STEVIE NICKS fan-arics. We could scream along with ¯ know the end of that story.) Now why Stevie on the way, and terrify thousands : would David want a"beard"? Can’t imag¯ ine. And if the job, goes up for grabs, of other travelers... LOREENA McKENN1TT’s new album ¯ what’s the salary? I could stand there and is due out end of September. Entitled ¯ look beautiful. Stop laughing; it used to ’~3OOK OF SECRETS", it isreported to ¯ happen.., occasionally. Probably the best have an Italian influence, although I hear : I could manage right now is vapid, but so that the Celtic influence she is known for ¯ often these days the two are interchangewill also be evident. Put ~ogether by SA- " able. Excuse me, I have to make a phone RAH McLACHLAN, her two managers, ¯ call. "Operator, can you get me David Copperfidd’s manager on me nne .... and her agent, LILITH FAIR, the women’ s Celebrate Tulsa Opera’s 50th Annivcrsarv Season on Tuesday..qcptcmbcr 9th at 8pro. [:ca~"ring MARILYN HORNE GREGG BAKER, PABLO ELVIRA, EUO~mE G.UNEWALO, Oto~ C’ARMEN BALTHRO~ and Sheryl Crow, Jewel, Joan O~l,orne, Fiona Apple, mort" a~ists singing great moments m (;rand Opcra~ R A’ I N Volunteer Training .~Aug. 8, 6-10pm Aug. 9, 9,Spm MARILYN HORNE Tulsa HIV/AIDS Community-wide Picnic for Service Providers & Clients Family of Faith MCC Aug, 8, 5:30-8pm Fellowship Congregational Church 5451 S. Mingo 2900 S. Harvard Info:749-4195 RSVP: 585-5551 Stor Michael’sl Alley Restaurant &. 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Meets at the Canterbury Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~ MONDAYS HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm Results: 7-gpm, Info: 742-2927 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mon/each too. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Gay & Lesbian Book Discussibn Group, Borders Bookstore 1st Mon/ea.mo., 7:30pm, 2740 E. 21st, 712-9955 Aug: Obejas’ Memory Mambo, September: Gary Reed’s Pryor Rendering Womeus Literature Discussion Group, Borders, 3rd Mon/ea: too., 7:30pro Mixed Volleyball, 6:30pm, Helmedch Park, 71st & Riverside, 587-65,57 Unity Lambda Al-anon, 7:30pro, 1307 E. 38th, 2rid ft. ~ TUESDAYS Lesbian.Mothers Support Group, 2nd+4th Tues/ea. mo. 7pm; 1307 E. 38th HIV+ Support Group, HIV ResourceConsortium 1:30 pm 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-l, Info: Wanda @ 749.4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HIV/AIDS Support Group, and Friends & ~amily HIV/AIDS Support Group - 7 pro, Locations, call: 749-7898 ~" WEDNESDAYS BlessThe Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Family Of Faith MCC PraisetPrayer-6:30pm, Choir-7:30,545 I-E S. Mingo. 622-1441 Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group For more information, call 582-7225, John at ext. 218, or Tommy at ext. 208 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for scheduled events. Info: 631-7632 or Jeremy at 712-1600 l~- THURSDAYS Co-Dependency Support Group - 7:30 Family ofFaith~ 5451E S. Mingo, 622-1441 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pro, Results: 7 - 9pro, Info: 742-2927 Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health at-~63~7272 Tulsa Family Chorale, Weekly practice - 9:30pm~ Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th From Our Hearts to Our House, 11pm, 3rd Thurs/each ran. 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A Central and South West Company SafeHaven~ Young Adults Social Group, 1st Fti/each mo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th Arts Coffeehouse, Poetry readings & art display, Pride Center Call Mary for more information: 743-6740 I~" SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Church, Mass - 6 pm Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Info: 742-6227 Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pro, Community of Hope,1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Fun Night at the Center, July 12th & 26th, 6-10pm, Pride Ctr. Info: 743-4297 SENSES, Society for Exploring New Sensations, Educating & Socializing. July 19, 6-apm, Info, call Kathy at 743-4297 I~P OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 838-1222 Womens Supper Club, Call for info: 584-2978 OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long and short rides. Info: PUB 9165, Tulsa 74157, 8/20, 6:30pm, short tide; 8/23, 7am, long fide; 8/30, 7am, long ride. Alt rides start at Ziegler Park Recreation Center, 3903 W. 4th St. If your event or organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 or fax 583-4615. 7 -r2 �-,,. READ ALL ABOUT IT ." thetownlibrarian, befriends them.Trouble Reviewed by Barry Hensley .. begins when dashing, young Andy, high Tulsa Ci&-County Library ¯ school jock and the object of Carla’s afThe public library has many wonderful, ¯ fection, prodded by his intolerant family older books of interest to the gay/lesbian/ ¯ and teammates, begins intimidating the ¯ bi/transgendered community. By searchgay couple. The unprovoked harassing ing on the library computer catalog under ¯ slowly escalates into violence and tourthe subject of homosexuality, hundreds of ¯ der, as the horrified Carla tries, unsucentries come up with subtopics (history, ¯ cessfully, to avert tragedy. There is a fiction, humor, etc). While searching the moderately successful surprise ending to older fiction titles, I recently satisfy S tephan’ s grief stricken came across a wonderful,little survivors. For a novel, The Drowning of Technically a young adult straight Stephan Jones. novel, it is rather simply writIn the ficticious town of ten for maximum effect, and forward but Parson Springs, (a thinly disdoes contain some violence guised Eureka Springs), an- disturblngloo.k and mild profanity, although tique dealer Frank Montgom- at homophoble no sex. While the story is ely and his longtimelover and strong, the characters are extremism, business partner Stephan sometimes simplistically writcheek out Jones have recently opened a ten and occasionally fall into shop and are enjoying the The DrownJnO stereotypes. simple, small town life. Away Sensitive, confused Carla from the crowded and oppresrealizes that her neff boysive big cities, Frank and friend, (her first), is blinded to Stephan can settle down and troth by his unquestioning faith It.ls,an e~t enjoy the finer things in life. in religious extremism, but is opemn$ reaa ~or too anxious to be "part of the Or so they think. When choosing Parson group" to recognize the danyoung .a.dults Springs as their new home, ger in his behavior until it is and a timely " the the guys thought they had ! ’ s mother is too late. Car.,a found an artistic oasis where reminder to black sheep of the commupeople really cared about each adults of what nity, fighting to keep chalother. They didn’t factor in lenged books on the library happens when shelves after attacks by the the overwhelming presence of simplistic and absolute relitown’s influential Baptist good people gious beliefs that often blanpreacher. ignore ket small communities. For a straightforward but intolerant and dis mrbing look at homophobic Stephan, a former seminary student, convinces Frank to extremism° check out The attend a service at the domi.Drowning ofStep. han Jones. It nant church in town. The seris an eye opemng read for vice turns out to be a "family young adults and a timely revalues" lecture where homosexuals are " minder to adults of what happens when .uniformly denounced as lower than por- ¯ good people ignore intolerant and danger¯ nographers or child molesters. Unfortuous behavior. ¯ nately, the guys don’t get the hint. Check for The Drowning of Stephan A local girl, Carla, has become ac- ¯ Jones at your local branch library or call quainted with the men and, being raised in ¯ the Readers Services Department at the a welcoming household by her mother, ¯ Central Library at 596-7966. d Step ,an Jo.es. to talk about &RYAN. Both who are regulars in local clubs said that they really ,v,’people alue thehave group: S~tunlike that in group, to:Marty be real inthe clubs where he characterizes relationships as more just acquaintances. In the group, they’ re friendships. Champlin, who’s been with the group about a year, brings counselingand psychology experience to the job. The 1994 TU graduate, along with MurphyJones also provide free individual counseling along with the group meetings. Sheestimates that of the 15 to 20 meeting regulars, about 10 also get individual counseling. Champlin, along with Marty and George, note that the group is not for all Lesbian, Gay, Bi,Tramgendered and questioning young adults. Some are just too closeted or find the groups too structured if they are in a more rebellious stage. But likely many in the city just don’t know that the group exists. Marty, George and.Melissa, however, are working on changing that. O’RYAN now has a web page, courtesy of Concessions and noted Concessions dj, David : Dees. Champlin also anticipates speaking :. more openly about the program and the ¯ need for the program tO high school coun¯ selors, teachers and principals as well as ." to mainstream media. : O’RYAN memb~s ara not just con. cemed with themselves. Martyis the leader ¯ of the group’s Condom Crusaders who ¯ are .trying to educate their peers about : HIVrisk. The group also wants to start its ." Own RAIN Care Team. Other goals indude possibly fostering Gay/Straight : Clubs in local high schools to provide : support andinformation. : And O’ RYAN is actively seeking support from the older Leshian and Gay corn: munity and friends,family and allies. The " group has a "wish list" of things that : they’_d like to have to make their meeting ¯ space more of a home-like drop-in space. ¯ Ultimately they’d like it to function al¯ most like a coffee house, like Java Dave’ s : even. However, they’re just not waiting ¯ around for the larger commtmity. They ¯ tentatively arranged to make 5,000 rain: bow bead keychains for PFLAG, Parents, ¯ Families and Friends of Lesbians and ¯ Gays to raise funds. ~. Champlinl Marty and George empha: size that the group is very careful to pro: tect the see O’RYAN, page 12 -,,, .. utumn :eeze A Dining Pleasure " MAHI-MAHI ~ACKOF LAMB CHOCOLA~ SOUFFLE HWY 23 SOUTH Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Services: Sun. at 11 am 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 The Reverend William Chester McCall III, pastor 501-253-7734 Saint Aidan’s Puppy Pause II Allanna Davenport Professional All Breed Grooming 1060-N South Mingo Tulsa 74128 838-7626 Turn heads as well as hair pins. $ 2 3, 5 9 8 sale price Don Carlton Mitsubishi . 46th & S. Memorial 665-6595 I 4045 No. Cincinnali, 425-78821 The Episcopal Church I Welcomes You I HITSUBISHI MOTORS Built For LivingY �1307 E~ 38th, 2nd ft. in the Pride Center 743 -4297 The Pride Store byJean-Pierre Legrandbouche " meats. A Utica salad features chopped Nestled on a plot of land on 21st Street " egg and bacon, the CaeSar comes with a between Columbia and the Broken Arrow ¯: chome " of¢ chicken; " salmon, or shrimp, and Expressway is the site of the popular old ¯ the Pacific Rim salad has cold sliced Charlie Mitchell’s Midtown, which fi- .. chicken breast, chow mein noodles, thin naily succumbed to bankruptcy last year. " strips of deep fried tortilla, and a "Thai" While the food was always less than stel- ." peanut dressing, though when we tasted lar, we enjoyed that place, if only to be it, we weren’t sure what made the dressable to drink Watney’s Ale on " ing ’q’hai." tap and play in the red British Open at 2-6, Wed.~Fri. Though only open a few~ -Milestone telephone booths. The entire Noon - 6, Sat. months, a new menu was inMidtown neighborhood has troduced in July. The kitchen been awaiting anxiously deis still experimenting, and try2705 East 91st velopments at the location. Gifts v Cards. Pride Merchandise ing to find itself, so we hope This past spring, the wait was llam-lOpm that they will soon be able to over and a new restaurant un-establish their niche. A few veiled. Nlon.-Thurs. slight problems exist, such as Local diners can eat and A UTHENTIC 11am-llpm, Frl. FRESH having both teriyaki ribeye and FFALIAN drink at the Milestone Grill, RAINBOW teriyaki salmon, and having 5pm-llpm, Sat. now under completely differC USINE both a filet mignon and a tuna TROUT ent ownership and manage5pm-10pm, Sun. steak wrapped in bacon and ment. And, those who freprepared like a filet mignon. ¯ Payment: quented Charlie Mitchell’s Nevertheless, the.entrees we will not recognize the place All major plastle. have tasted hagebeen flavorafter the major remodeling and ful and wall done. We particuredecorating. The dining ar- Ahohoh F II eas have been Opened up into with premium larlylike the rotisserie chicken ($12.95), which .is tender and one large, two level room, divided by a working fireplace. stock & wine llst. juicy, served ona ~edof garlic-laced "smaShed ’ potatoes; The bar now sits against the Smokln~ in and adorned like a party hat west wall, andis stylishly conwith a big ~prig.of rtsemary. ceived with broad panels of the bar area. of Eureka Springs The variou~past~of~the day tortoise shell covered lightA~mospkere: - dishes are .also tasty~ full o~ Voted Number One in Arkansas! ing. S eating in the bar i s multiadditional 2vegetables and Dressy casual. level, and includes a comfort(501) 253-680Z Closed Wednesday able sofa area. The decor is Prhes: Expensive. mush~.oomg; and--delicately sauced. All.bf the entrees are 5 Center Street, Eureka Sprin~s, AR 72632 starkly modern throughout the served with:~a choice of soup restaurant, and oil pastel art Ratln~: or salad. work is framed and hanging A llst Those not interested in on the painted grey wails. Cona full entree can also get a very temporary light fixtures are crafted from ¯ nice, good sized Milestone burger ($6.75) bare flame bulbs and metallic copper mesh . or a great dub sandwich ($6:95) with shades, contributing to a dean, fresh look. ¯ roasted turkey and Arkansas bacon. At. As one sits down to dinner, one quickly Visit Our New Pride Room ." lunch, a chicken salad sandwich ($6.25) discovers that this place Js no longer ." and a meat loaf sandwich ($7:75) areaiso down~OOks, Jewelry Charlie Mitchell’s. Where once one or¯ available. All of the sandwiches come the~L~.cense, Candles, dered a round of beers, now, one orders with matchstick fries. ultrapremium cocktails. Milestone fea- ¯ stairs-~L~nique Gifts Dessert, always one of our favorite tures.a menu devoted stric.tly to cocktails, at---] and Pride courses, is $4.50, and varies: daily. Reincluding nine different martinis. And they : .cenfly, they have included: a~tasty indi45& 112 Spring Street ¯ are all delicious, We’ve tried them all ~, vidual cobbler alamode made ononehalf Eureka Springs, AR ~’(th,ough not0n.the same visi t;mindyou! ), ." of blackberries and on the 0ther ?half of 501-253-5445 and you can s~p andsample the various ¯ raspberries~ which was ~gd~~as, gins and vodk~s, Anclud~ng Tangueray, ¯ Sapphire, Skvy, i~inl~india~ ~dvedere, and " had been microwaved to~*~~r ~o :- serving. The ubiquitous flOuriess’ehoco._ S toli~hnaya.°(~e Of ou} favorites was the United Methodist ~ late.gateaux is there, plus- the .stereotypi_ :.-TUl Sa Skyyline martini, with Skyy vodka, ¯ cal cheesecake- this one with~chocolate, Community Chambord (a raspberry Jiqueur),. and a ¯~ pecans, and caramel. All of these are quite ~.twist of lime. The bar als0 Ca~es an ¯: tasty. Yet, the presentation and combinaof ’Impressive s..election of singlemait Scotcl~ ." :tions,not onlyin the dessert courses but in .... Hope whiske,cs. ¯ the entire menu, still lack that subtle flair ’ ApiS~tizer selecfi’bns, are varied, and which is the hallmark of a great restaudisplay the almost schizophrenic menu ::.. an inclusive ~ rant. A good example is the roasted haplaJming 0f the kitchen. Tl~e best are the community that "- nana cream pie. We were offered the !potato crustedlobster ,c,3kcs ($9.95). Ther¢ dessert, and anticipated.,a large wedge of seeks, .Values and :is also a shrimp cockudl ($6.95), and from tasty pie. What arrived was a small indiwelcomes all there, the menu gets. odd. Spring rolls ¯ vidual tartlet shell filled, with roasted ha($5.7~), an Oriental standard, are juxtapeople... :posed against the traditi0nai Fr~nch.~rilled : nana pudding, topped with whipped cream, and garnished with a large wedge bf white to act a the bile cheese ($7’.95): Artich0ke dip.(~5:95) ~ and dark chocolate protruding from the living ¯body of ~emindS:us of.th~ spo~ts bar oi:igiils 6f the : tarflet like a shard ofbroken glass.:Next to. ’site. And~ like everyone else in town, they Christ by the tarflet was a bail of ice cream that had are doing wraps -.this time, chicken a strong and delicious espresso flavor and seeking justice, wrapped with a’ lettuce leaf ($4..95) in- ¯ included little chunks 61’ fudge brownie. stead of a tortilla. ; The whole large serving plate was decoThesoup selection varies daily, and is ¯ rated with a swoosh of creme Anglaise, $3.95 per bowl. On the night we visited, it ¯ drizzles of chocolate, and a few scattered was corn and red pepper, which we ex- ¯ fresh berries. Individually, each compopected to be a spicy cream soup, but which nent was delicious,but together, they were was a surprisingly thin vegetable soup ¯¯ too much and not a pleasant match. The with kernels of corn and strips of roaste~i ¯ espres so-chocolate ice cream comp!etely red bell pepper. Basic salads are also ¯ overpowered the delicate sweetness of $3.95, and jump $4 with the addition of the roasted banana, see Jean, page 12 Grill See the Eyewear "Stars Celebrities" WeQr Oliver Peoples, Gaultier, Mikli, Matsuda, etc. Cool, Unique & Exclusive Eyewear Found Nowhere Else in Eastern Oklahoma VISIONS 6837 S. MEMORIAL 254-1611 ~-~-RITY TRADE-IN $7S tfn Trade in your old glasses & we will donate them tothe needy, plus give you $75 .off the purchase of a new pair .~ (Must include 2 yr Warranty Anti 7Reflective High Index Vision L~ns & L_ Frame) . ¯ Restrictions apply. �ration techniques are all down, we look forward to the kitchen staff developing the culinary maturity in matching foods that will make this restaurant an outstanding dining experience. Similar problems arise in the service. When we’ ve been seated in the dining room, service has been attentive and adequate (though not outstanding) for arestaurant of this calibre. However, when we’ ve been seated in the smoking section in the bar area, the service has been woeful. In fact; on our last visit, the handsome pony~led bartender (worth a trip just to gaze upon him, by the way) took pity upon our table and volunteered to take over for our absent waitress. Nevertheless, we have great expectations that management will soon work out these minor flaws, espedally since themenus advise that a seventeen percent gratuity will be added to tickets for groups. On the whole, we enjoy going to the Milestone Grill. As they grow- and become more comfortable with their identity, we think the staff will make a fine team. And, we hope they’ll stir be in business come winter time, so we can lounge around that wonderful fireplace in the dining room. to moving every American forward. At those places where we disagree with the President, and there are many, we know for certain now that he acts, not out of ignorance, but out of his political analysis for advancing his agenda." Lobel added that the President spoke at length about how the cultural map of America must shift if LGBT people are to gain civil rights. "We look to the President to speak out loudly and often on issues affecting Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans. But we must be realistic. The President will not move unless activists at the local and state level move him and the administration forward." There also was discussion of Clinton’ s upcoming White House conference on hate crimes later-this year. The activists said they want the conference to address "widespread" violence against Gays and would like to include Gay youths who often are prone to violence on the streets because of family rejection and homelessness. "There is agreement that violence against any group is something that must be combated," Echaveste said. The group expressed concern about the implementation of the Clinton administration’ s "don’ t ask, don’ t tell, don’ t pursue" policy on Gays in the military. A study by the Service Members Legal Defense Network showed that Gays are being discharged from all branches of the armed forces in greater numbers since the policy was instituted in 1993. "We made it dear there are a number of instances in which the administration has come down on the wrong side of issues that are important to us, not the least of which is the Gays-in4he-military issue," said Lorri Jean, executive director of the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center. The policy bars commanders from asking service members to reveal their sexual orientations, and allows Gay troops to serve as long as they refrain from homosexual acts and don’ t reveal their orienta- Besides McDonald, LobeL Jean and Birch, other participants at the meeting were Kevin Jennings, executive directoe of the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Teachers Network; Tim Gill, founder of the Gill Foundation; Gloria Nieto, executive director of the People of Color AIDS foundation of New Mexico; Brian Bond, executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund; Martin Omelas-Qnintero, executive director of the National Lation/ a Lesbian and Gay Organization; Jeff Sorer, Co-Chair of the Empire State Pride Agenda; Dale McCormick, Treasurer of th~ State of Maine; Kevin Catheart, executive director of Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund; and Vema Eggleston, executive director of the Hetrick-Marfin Institute. Meet ys! confidentiality of those who attend, especially outside the safety of the meeting space. O’ RYAN has also scheduled several special events in August and Septem, ber. On August 16, the groups is holding its "Snmmer Fling" dance party. Later in the month, by popular demand, the group will have a slumber party-properly chaperoned and alcohol, smoke and drug free, of course. In early September, the group will go on afloat trip on the Illinois river. To donateor to volunteer for O’ RYAN, call 584-2325. Madson’s father, Howard Madson of Barron, Wis., watched the developments Wednesday night as well, but declined to discuss them. "There will come a time when we have something to say. I can’t tell you now when that will be," he said. Cunanan was suspected in the death of Chicago developer Lee Miglin and charged in thekilling of New Jersey graveyard caretaker William Reese. Reese’s widow, Rebecca, had no comment on Cunanan’s death when reached by telephone at her home in Upper Deerfield Township, N.J.. Sorrow was unabated for Cunanan’s family as well. In the Philippines, where his father lives, his aunt Barbara Carlos was resigned to her nephew’s death, but still baffled by his life. "He is a good boy. He can’ t do all those things. I think he is innocent ," Mrs. Carlos said, but added that his family "should accept the truth. They should accept what happened to them." She had not seen Cunanan since he was a child. ’‘we are saddened," she said. ~’Even if we have not been together for a long time, w e are saddened by what happened." Eilarts will begin an all ages coming out group in cooperation with Melissa Champlin of Red Rock Mental Health Association. This group will meet at the Pride Center and will be for all ages. 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Neal added that he hoped that Tulsa and ¯ Oklahoma City groups and individuals about but never ended-up having a corn- " they have been together, no matter how will set aside their historical friction to mi .tment~ceremony in honor of their 20th committed their relationship is, and no " work for the benefit of the whole state. anmversary. Then two years ago, they matter how much they need those legal, ." The Federation will consist of 13 Exattended a conference devoted to the noprotections," Bonauto said. ¯ tion of a civil marriage between couples . ecutive Committee members, selected Among the benefits she listed were "¯ of the same gender., "We walked out of ." from each region of the country, who will family leave; bereavement leave; retireset forth the mission of the Federation. that conference, looked at ourselves and ¯ ment and pension benefits; health insur¯ The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force said,’ That’ 8 what we.~ant,’’. Puterbaugh said. . ance; inheritance; and the right to ,make ¯ will ser~e as coordinator of.the Federation medical decisions on behalf ofasame-sex for the next three years: NGLTF will But the Milton town clerk, relying on a ¯ ¯ partner. coordinate and. support the Federation’s 22-year-old opinion from the attorney ¯ The issue of Gay and Lesbian marriage ¯ general’s office, refused to issue them a work through the dedication.of staff and : has been hotly contested around the coun- ¯ resources including the creation and dismarriage license when they applied on ¯ try, especially a groundbr_._e._a_,ki, i’ng case in : semination of information and materials, April 25. Baker and Harrigan applied in Hawaii in which that state s Supreme regular conference calls, cyber resources Shelburne on June 13 and Jolles and Beck ¯ Court rnled in 1993 thatitwas unconstituapplied in South Burlington six days after ¯ tional to deny marriage licenses to same- ¯ and more. that. All Were denied and lawyers decided "States are ground zero in the struggle " sex couples without a compelling public ¯ for equality and justice, and it is essential they had a case. ¯ interest. that these state groups become better "Finding a partner, finding a mate and " ¯ Before a lower court could rule on getting married is a basic human right," whether such an interest had been demon- ¯" resourced., and supported if we are to ensaid Middlebury lawyer Susan Murray. strated, the Hawaii Legislature passed a ¯ sureour ultimate success as amovement," said NGLTF executive director Kerry ’The state of Vermont should not be al- ¯ bill granting such benefits as the rights to ¯ Lobel. lowed to step in and tell two consenting ¯ share medical insurance, joint property ¯ ,’I am thrilled adults that they cannot marry one an- " that the state LGBT groups ownership and inheritances to couples " have united to. form this Federation. The other." : who could not legally marry. Lawmakers " Attorney General William Sorrell, who : also proposed a referendum on whether ¯ Federation will focus on strengthening state organizations so that we aJ’e better ~v9a~_asked but said declined to overturn the the Hawaii Constitution should be 3 opinion, the issue should-be equipped for the upcoming civil ,ri,’ghts ¯ amended to outlaw Gay marriage. That ! battles we are facing stat~l~y state, said decided in the Legislature, not the courts: .’ referendum is scheduled for next year. Dianne Hardy-Garcia of’~e Lesbian/Gay Lawmakers already have extended civil With the Hawaii case awaiting court Rights Lobby of Texas an~t co:chair:bfthe rights protections to Gays and Lesbians " ruling, Gay civil rights activists have been ¯ and included them among the classes proFederation. ’The formation of the Federalookiiag for another test case. Vermont tion would not have been possible without tected in a hate crimes statute, he said. If : already has an active organization on the the Legislature. had intended to .include ¯ ~ the assistance of NGLTF. NGLTF has issue, known as the Freedom to Marry ¯ provided the resources needed to pull marriage among those ,rights, it would ¯ have said so, he ~rguedi ’rhe Legislature ¯ .Task Force, andit has worked with Les- ¯ togetherthe Federation. The Task Force bian & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, has done nothing that. we can find’ that .continues to illustrate a real understand¯ a group that has been active on same-sex " mg mat our movement must be a local, affirmatively extends the ri,g,ht to samemamages. A lawyer with,GLAD was ¯ ,g,ender marriagein~Vermont; "S orrell said. scheduled to be at Tuesday s news con- ¯ state an,d, national movement if we are to ~’he Legislat-~re for 2:2~3;~s has had the ¯ su~eed, ’ added Hardy-Garcia." : ference. The Federation is p,lanning its next opportuni,,~ to change thatlaw. It has not The issue also is pending in the Vermeeting for November s NGLTF Creatdone that. ’ mont Legislature, where a bill that would ing Change conference in San Diego, Gov. Howard Dean said he believed the ¯ ban gay marriage remains alive in the California. In addition to the. meeting, Legislature should avoid theissue for the ¯ House Judiciary Committee. No action ¯ there will be a series or workshops geared time being. "I Would prefer this not be ¯ was taken on the bill when it was mtroaddressed in the Legislature until it’ s re- ¯ duced in January, but it remains alive for : towards activists doing statewide work, especially on legislation. These workshops solved in the courts," he said. "I think it’ s " the second year of the Legislature’ s sesa very personal matter. This is a very ¯ , ~ill be open to all. difficultissue and I think the courts are the ¯ place to.resolve it." : : Longtime Lesbian activist Tay Clare is Murray and the other lawyers said no change in the I aw was neces s ary. Denying " for effective multicultural and coalition ¯ the volunteer coordinator of the Frec Spirit Woman Center, based in a private midGays and Lesbians marriagelicenses rio- : organizing. The need for the Federation lares not only state marriage statutes but . town Tulsa.home. The Center provides grew out of meetings of statewide acti,vthe following ongoing weekly programalso Chapter 1, Articles 1 and 7, of the " ists during the past two years at NGLT s Vermont Constitution, the couples claim ¯ annual Creating Change Conference. The ¯ ming from 7-9 pm. On Tuesdays, the Center sponsors a in their lawsuit. The first article states ¯ Task Force coordinated the logistics of ¯ poetry writing workshop. Women with people are born equally free and indepen- ¯ the. Tennesseemeeting, providing schol- ¯ much or no experience are encouraged to dent; the seventh says the government arships and staffing and assisting in the participate or just to observe. exists for the common benefit, and not for ¯ planning. ¯ Wednesdays, Charlotte Kasl’s famous any particular set of people. . "We have known for many years that "We are challenging the notion that a 1~6 s tep,e,mpowerment program is the topic. ¯ the real battles facing our communities couple in love can’t marry each other " would be fought in the S tate Houses across ¯ according to Tay, Charlotte Kasl claims women should never say they have no ¯ .simply because they made the ~mi_’,stake of ¯ the country, " stud Paula Ettelbnck of the ¯ power; by doing the steps, they can find falling in love with someone of the wrong’ Empire. State Pride Agenda, who is a their own powerful wom~n within. , gender," said Mary Bonanto of Gay & fouhder and a co-chair ~f the Federation. Every Thursday, Clareleads a women s Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, .a:New "It is essential that we create an orgainz- ¯ England=wide Gay civil rights group. ¯ ing structure that helps us to Strategize as ¯ spirituality workshop. Ihdividuals are encouraged to bring their own materials as Vermont statut~,s describe m~a~e as ¯ a hational network of lesbians and gay part of their journey. ~ ..... aunion betweena ~bride and t,ro~m. "but men in order to support each other, sh~re ¯ A support and discussion group i~ held ~’- " ’ sa y notmng:any,:.;mOre .......°’ " explicit about ! i gender~: ~orrdl s’~id~,~e ~l~dictibnary: meaning of ~e phrase proved lawmaker~7 : intended marriages to be between men : and women. ~.: ~ .... " The lawsuit asks only for:~ legaliza: tion of civil marriages and does not ask ¯ churches opposed to same-sex unions to : recognize them or perform ceremonies. ¯ resources, and f,i,ght our common enemy of h0m0phobia. Oklahoma was represented by TOHR, Tulsa Oklah0mans for Human Rights which at 17 years old is the oldest nonreligious organization in the state. TOHR .presidentTomNealnoted,"TOHRclearly ~s not a state-wide organization. Oklahoma, unfortunately,qaas no organization that is genuinely statewide. However, SpiritWoman Contor i .on Fridays. The current topi~ iS a studyof ¯ the journals of radical Gay women..~ " ¯ The Free Spirit Woman Center oper: ates by consensus without domination by "anyone person. Facilitation is minimal ." and is used primarily to insure that all get ¯ a chance to speak. The Center has no ¯ funding but small donations are always : welcome to pay for coffee and other sup" plies. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Text Any textual data included in the document .Vermont Couples Bring Marriage Ban Challenge by Ross Sneyd COLCHESTER,Vt. (AP)-For25 years, Lois Famham and Holly Puterbaugh have built a life together, commired in every way except one: legally. On Tuesday, they and two other couples sought to fix that. They sued the state and their hometown, of Milton, asking a Chittenden Superior Courtjudge to declare legal marriages between couples of the same gender. Start Baker and PeterHarriganofShelbumeand Nina Beck and Stacy Jolles of South Burlington joined the lawsuit, which thrusts Vermont into the center of a national debate over whether society should recognize unions between Gays and Lesbians. ’q?.wenty-five years ago when wemet and fell in love mamage was not something any of us that were samegender couples thought about," see Vermont,page 13 Serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual + Transgendered Tulsans, Our Families + Friends ,Tul~s~a!~’~rge~tC~oulationCommunityPa-perA vailable In More Than 60 City Local.ions i PFLAG Pres,.Joins Gay Activists at White House -" WASHINGTON (AP) - President. Clinton met Tuesday with a : dozen Gay and lesbian activists at a meeting .organized by ¯ Richard Socarides,White House liaison to the Gay, Lesbian, : Bisexual and Transgender community. Nancy McDonald, na~ : tional president of the board of directors of Parents, Families and : Friends of Lesbians and Gays (P-FLAG) and cofounder of the ¯ Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG attended at meeting where the Presi- : dent pledged support for two employment concerns: anti-Gay : bias in the workplace and high-ranking appointments in his : administration. Thepresident spentmore than anhour discussing : a range of issues from adoptions to homeless Gay youth and ¯ problems confronting Gays and Lesbians in rural areas, such as : access to AIDS medicine. : Clinton pledged his support for the Fmployment Non-Dis- ~ crimination Act, which bars firing or discriminating against an ¯ employee on the basis of sexual orientation. Andhe assured the ¯ group thathe has putforthfivenominations ofopeulyGay people : for administration jobs that require Senate confirmation. ¯ "Each one of them will take work," said Elizabeth Birch, " executive director of the Gay political advocacy group the ~ Human Rights Campaign. "We have a tough challenge ahead." ¯ Maria Echaveste, White Honsedirector ofpublicliaison, said the ¯ president wants Gay appointees so that his administration can ~ provide an example of how to reduce anti-Gay attitudes in the : workplace. "Fhe more people work with them, the less preju- ¯ diced they are," Echaveste said. ’q’hat’ s why appointments are so : pivotal." : According to Kerry Lobel, executive director of the National ¯ Gay & Lesbian Task Force, "we found the President to be open ¯ and knowledgeable on issues affecting the LGBT community. : This is a President who at heart seems to have a deep commitment ¯ O’RYAN’s New Home Private Conduct or Sex Crimes? By Laurie Asseo WASHINGTON (AP) - What lovers do in private still : ~~1 ¯ I/-’,~1,.~ ~.,~& 1/I ..~ ...~ ~=~....-Jcanland ~em!njail.- butin asteadily s,,h~nking n,~;,:~:!~ act.y ; IV!O|11$.~U~[,~.U of states ¯ Earher this month’ Montana s ban on homo- ¯ TULSA - After two months of.cam.pin.g o.ut in loaned office sexual sex was thrown out by the state Supreme Court ¯ space, Betsy MurphyJones and Melissa Champlin of the Tulsa as a violation of the state’z constitutional right to privacy. Sodomy laws in Kentucky and Tennessee also were struck down by state courts in recent years. Many other states have repealed laws that banned oral and anal. sex for Gay people and heterosexuals as well. "We’ ve made incredible headway," says Ruth Harlow of the civil-fights Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund. But about 20 states, operating under a green light from the Supreme Court, still have laws making sodomy a criminal offense. Consenting adults have no federal constitutional right to private homosexual conduct, the court said when it upheld Georgia’ s sodomy law in 1986. Arkansas, Kansas, Maryland, and Missouri ban homosexual sex acts. Sodomy is banned for Gays and heterosexuals alikeinAlabama,Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Louisiana, Minnesota, Mississippi, North Carolina, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Utah and Virginia. Penalties vary widely, with maximumjail terms ranging from 30 days in Arizona to 20 years in Virginia and Rhode Island, or even life in Idaho. Laws banning sodomy also are on the books in Oklahoma, Texas, Massachusetts and Michigan, but they have been cast into doubt by court rulings. Oklahoma’ s sodomy law was ruled unconstitutional in 1986 but the particular case involved heterosexuals and legal experts disagree as to whether the law should be seen as in force just for homosexuals or whether it’ s been completely ov.ertumed. Sodomy laws in all other states have been repealed see Sodomy, page 3 i US Statewide Groups ¯ Create. New Federation ¯ OK Represented by Oldest StateGroup ¯ Knoxville,TN-Animportant chapter in the move- ; meatforlesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) ¯ equality was marked on July 11-13 b~ activists ¯ from statewide political groups from 32 states. At ¯ the mdeting, activists officially launched the Fed- " eration of Statewide Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and ¯¯ Transgender Political Organizations. The Federation’ s purpose is to bolster the efforts ¯ of these statewide groups through a network that ¯ will foster strategizing across state lines, building ¯ stronger state organizations and developing good ¯ working relationships between state and national ¯ groups. The meeting was the result of an eight ¯ month collaboration between the National Gay and ¯ Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) and the Federation. ¯ Itwas thelargestgathering ever ofstatewide groups. ¯ States represented were: AR, CA, CO, CT, DE, ¯ GA, IL, IN, IA, KY, LA, ME, MD, MI, MS, MO, MT, NE, NH, NJ, NM, NY, NC, OK, PA, RI, TN, ¯ TX, UT, VA, WA,~WV. : The three day Federationmeeting was held at the : renowned Highlander Center outside Knoxville, ¯ Tennessee. For over fifty years, the Highlander : Center has been a training center for labor, civil. : rights and other s~ocial justice movements. There, ¯ activists focused bn adopting the organizational ¯ structure for the Federation and debating strategies ’. on legislative issues. These issues included "sod- " omy" law repeal, passage of civil rights bills and ¯ family recognition strafegies, as well-as building ¯ strategies see ,States, page 13 "New Coming Out .and ¯ Men’s Group Offered TULSA - HOPE: : HIV Outreach, Pre- ¯ vention & Education, INSIDE DIRECTORYA.ETTERS P. 2 EDITORIALS P. 3 US & WORLD NEWS P. 4 HEALTH NEWS P. 6 ENTERTAINMENT NOTES P. 8 COMMUNITY CALENDAR P. 9 BOOK REVIEW P. 10 RESTAURANT REVIEW P. 11 CLASSIFIEDS P. 14 office of Red Rock Mental Health Association finally have adequate room for their work. But they really gained much more thanjustdecent offices for themselves, the program now has several rooms in which O’ RYAN and O’RYAN, Jr. can meet. O’ RYAN stands for Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adults Networkwhichserves Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgendered and O’RYAN’s George, Champlin & Marry questioning young adults from 18 to 24 years old. O’RYAN, Jr. is a new program that will serve 14 to 17 year old young people. O’RYAN, Jr. will kick off in early September. Red Rock Mental Health Association is primarily an Oklahoma City based organization. Several years ago Betsy MurphyJones returned to Tulsa and began the program that later was named O’RYAN. At the beginning, theprogram was housed in offices in the Youth Services of Tulsa building in downtown Tulsa. Youth Services already had a program, TYDD,Tulsa Youth Discovering Diversity which served Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgendered and questioning youth. However, over the year in which .the two organization were working together, tension developed between Red Rock and Youth Services over how public to be with these programs. Diplomatically, Champlinindicates that Youth Services’ Board of Directors was not willing to be public in suppori of these programs,for fear of losing funding. l’~ow O RYANis funded independently through an Oklahoma State DepartmentofHealth (OSDH)grantwhichtargets "MSM’s" - men who have sex with men under the age of 25 and a TCAP (TulsaCommunity AIDS Parmership) grant targeting womenfor HIV/AIDS prevention and education. O’RYAN meets weekly as a support and social group. While earlier the group was predominately young men, it’ s now about half young women a~dhalfmen,..Two men, Marty, who’ s 23 and G~orgeCcho’ s"2:l~joinedChamp!in~ ~. see O’RYAN, page 10 ¯ a special program of ¯ TOHR,TulsaOklaho- ¯ mans for Human ¯ Rights, the oldest ex- ¯ isting civil rights and : Gay health orgauiza- ¯ tion is beginning sev- ¯ eral new programs ¯ under the direction of ¯ new outreach educa- ¯ tor Johnnie Eilarts. ¯ Eilarts, who came to Tulsa after working with the -" Triangle Foundation in Oklahoma City, has begun ." amen’s issues group called Men on Men that meets ¯ at Gold Coast Coffee House. And in response to ; calls’to the Pride Center, see Group, page 12 : Cunanan Finale : MIAMI .BEACH, Fla. (AP) - When Andrew ¯ Cunanan’ s 1ong,murderous flightended, itbrought ¯" relieffromanxiety-butnotfrom sorrow. Omanan’ s : suicidein a Miami Beach houseboat ended the fear ." that a killer was free. Five killings, including the ¯¯ shooting ofdesignerGiannl Versace, were blamed on the 27-year-old man. ; "There’ s a sense of relief that they finally caught ¯ him and ’that people don’t have to be looking behind their backs," Eric Velasco said in front of : the South Beach gay bar Twist. In Minnesota, Cunanan was charged in the death ; of a former lover, David Madson, and was sus- ¯ pected of killing a friend, Jeffrey Trail. Trail’s ¯ father, Stanley Trail of DeKalb, Ill., watched the ." televisionreports as the situationunfolded. ’q~hat’ s ¯ one of the bad things about him dying like this: ¯ Nobody will be able to ask him," Trail said. "No- : body will be able to tell me why this happened. : "I’m very glad that he’s been stopped and that ¯ nobody else gothurtwhen hegot stopped,"he said. ¯ ¯ "But I take nojoy inhis death. That doesn’ t helpme at all." see Killer, page 12 TOHR/HOPE’ s Eilerts Tulsa’Clubs & Restaurants *Bamboo Lounge, 7200 E. Pine I *Blue Room, 606 S. b-agin ¯ *City Bites, 3348 S. Peoria *Concessions, 3340 S. Peoria *Gold Coast Coffee House,3509 S. Peoria *JJ’s Country &Western Dance Club, 6328 S. Peoria *Lola’S, 2630 E. 15th *The Palate Cafe & Catering, 3324G E. 31st *St. Michael’s Alley Restaurant, 3324-L E. 31st *Samson & Delilah Restaurant, 10 E Fifth *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegades/Rainbow Room, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114S. Memorial *:Tool Box, 1338 13. ,3rd’ " , ": . ~ ..... ’. ~ " ~"’ "" *Tucei’s Restaurant,. 134~ E 15 " ~ *Interurban Restaurant, 717 S. Houston Tulsa Businesses, Services, & Professionals Advanced Wireless & PCS, Digital Cellular 74%1508 *Affinity News, 8120 E. 21 610-8510 Dennis ~C. Arnold, Realtor 746-4620 *Assoc. in Med. & Mental Health, 2325 S. Harvard 743-1000 Kent Balch & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747=9506 *Barnes & Noble Booksellers, 8620 E. 71 250-5034 Body Piercing by Nieole, 2722 E. 15 712-1122 *Borders Books & Music, 2740 E. 21 712-9955 Brookside Jewelry, 4649 S. Peoria 743-5272 *CD Warehouse, 3807c S. Pec~ria 746-0313 Don Carlton Honda, 4141 S. Memorial 622-3636 Don Carlton Mitsubishi, 46th & Memorial 665-6595 Cherry St. Psychotherapy, 1515.8. Lewis 581-0902, 743-4117 Community Cleaning, Kerby Baker 622-0700 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 *Deco to Disco, 3212 E. 15th 749-3620 *Devena’s Gallery, 13 Brady 587-2611 Doghouse on Brookside, 3311 S. Peoria 744-5556 *Elite Books &’Videos, 821 S. Sheridan 838-8503 *Ross Edward Salon, 1438 S. Boston 584-0337 "Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria 744-8040 Lealme M. Gro~s, Southwest Financial Planning 459-9349 Mark T. Hamby, Attorney 744-7440 *Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 *International Tours 341-6866 Jacox Animal Clinic, 2732 E. 15th 712-2750 David Kanskey, Country Club Barbering 747-0236 *Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599-8070 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747=5466 Langley Agency, 1104.S. Victor 592-1800 Laredo Crossing, 1519 E. 15 585-1555 Susan McBay, MSW: Earth-Centered Counsdiug 592-1260 *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 584-3112 Mingo Valley Flowers, 9720c E. 31 663-5934 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Place 664-2951 *Novel Idea Bookstore, 51st & Harvard 747-6711 David A. Paddock, CPA, 4308 S. Peoria, Ste. 633 747-7672 ZiRita Parish, Indoor/Outdoor Co. HomeRemodel"g 587-6717 *Peace Of Mind Bookstore, 1401 E. 15 583-1090 Pet Pride, Dog & Cat Grooming 584-7554 The Pride Store, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor 743-4297 Puppy Pause II, llth & Mingo 838-7626 Richard’s Carpet Cleaning 834-0617 Scott Robison’s Prescriptions, see ad for 3 locations, 743-2351 Teri Schutt, Rex Realtors 834-7921,747-4746 Christopher Spradling, attorney, 616 S. Main, #308 582-7748 *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square 749=6301 *Sedona Health Foods; 8220 S. Harvard *Sophronia’sAntiques, 1515 E. 15 *Tickled Pink, 3340 S. Peoria *Trizza’s Pots, 1448 S. Delaware *Tulsa Book Exchange, 3749 S. Peoria *Tulsa Comedy Club., 6906 S. Lewis Fred Welch, LCSW, Counseling *Whittier News Stand, 1 N. Lewis 832-1269 592-2583 748-9600 744-0896 749-4511 712-2119 749-1563 745-9899 745-9998 585-2221 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 " 584-I308’ 582=3456- 585-3134 481-0201 592-2887 697-0017 743-7687 742-2007 481-0558 743-1733 592-0767 Tulsa Organizations, Churches, & Universities AIDS Walk Tulsa, POB 1071, 74101-1071 579-9593 Black & White, Inc. POB 14001, Tulsa 74159 58%7314 Bless The Lord at All Times Christian Center. 2207 E. 6 583-7815 *B/IAG Alliance, Univ of Tulsa Canterbury Ctr. 583-9780 ¯ *Chamber of Commerce, 616 S. Boston 585-1201 *Chapman Student Ctr., University of Tulsa, 5th P1. & Florence *CommunityofHopeUnitedMethodist, 1703 E. 2nd 585-1800 *Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation 749-0595 *Church of the Restoration, 1314 N.Greenwood 587-1314 *Democratic Headquarters, 3930 E. 31 742-2457 Dignity/Integrity-Lesbian/Gay Catholics/Episcopal. 298-4648 :¯ 918.583.1248, f~:’583.4615, POB 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 ~-mail: TulsaNews@ earthlink net ¯ website: http://users, aol.com/TulsaNews/ ¯ Publisher + Editor: Tom Neal Entertainment Writer: James Christjohn Writers + contributors: Dr. Mike Gorman, Leanne Gross. Barry Hensley & Jean-Pierre Legrandbouche " Membor of The Associated Press I~sued on or before the 1st of each month, the entire Contentsof’ ~his, pub,licati,on a,rp protected by US copyright 1997 by /d,m--~/’.~.’.. Nt,u¢ and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. 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H-1 749-4194 NAMES PROJECT, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H- 1 748-3111 NOW, Nat’l Org. for Women, POB 14068,74159 365-5658 OK Spokes Club (bicycling), POB 9165, 74157 *Our House, 1114 S. Quaker 584-7960 PFLAG , POB 52800, 74152 749-4901 *Planned Parenthood, 1007 S. Peoria 587-7674 *The Pride Center, 1307 E. 38, 2rid floor, 74105 743-4297 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118, 74152 *R.A~I.N., Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 749-4195 Rainbow Business Guild, POB 4106, 74159 665-5174 *Red Rock Mental Center, 1724 E. 8 584-2325 OrRYAN, support group for 18-24 LGBT young adults O’RYAN, Jr. support group for 14-17 LGBT youth St. Aidan’ s Episcopal Church, 4045 N. Cincinnati 425-7882 St. Jerome’s PariSh Church, 3841 S. Peoria 742-6227 *Shanti Hotline & HIV/AIDS Services 749-7898 Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati 582.4128 Tulsa County Health Department, 4616 E. 15 595-4105 Confidential HIV Testing - by appt. on Thursdays only Tulsa Okla. for HumanRights, c/o The Pride Center 743-4297 T.U.L,S.A. Tulsa Uniform/Leather Seekers Assoc. 838-1222 *Tulsa City Hall, Ground Floor Vestibule *Tulsa Comrntmity College Campuses *Rogers University (formerly UCT) BARTLESVILLE *Barflesville Public Library, 600 S. Johnstone 918-337-5353 NORMAN *Borders Books & Music, 300 Norman Center 405-573-4907 OKLAHOMA CITY *Borders Books&Music, 3209NWExpressway 405-848-2667 TAHLEQUAH *Stonewall League, call for information: 918-456-7900 *Tahlequah Unitarian-Universalist Church 918-456-7900 *Green Country AIDS Coalition, POB 1570 918-458-0467 NSU School of Optometry, 1001 N. Grand HIVevery other Tues. 5:30-8:30, call for date EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS *Jim & Brent’s Bistro, 173 S. Main 501-253-7457 DeVito’ s Restaurant, 5 Center St. 501-253-6807 *Emerald Rainbow, 45 &l/2 Spring St. 501-253-5445 MCC of the Living Spring 501-253-9337 Geek to Go!, PC Specialist, POB 429 501-253-2776 Kings Hi-Way Inn, 62 Kings Hi-way 800-231-1442 Positive Idea Marketing Plans 501-624-6646 Sparky’s, Hwy. 62 East 501-253-6001 ’FAYETTEV!LLE, ARKANSAS *Edna’s, 9 S. School Ave. 501-442-2845 ~ indicates a distribution point. Listed businesses are not all Gay-owned but welcome Lesbian/Gay/Bi &’ Trans communities. ~ ~. Several years ago, Youth Services of ¯ Tulsa began a support group for Lesbian, ¯ Gay, Bi and questioning kids. The group ¯ -was desperately needed and ,was led by ¯ the Saintly Lisa Pottoff whose good work : fionisbeginnifi~asimi]aigroupt~e~mple- ¯ ment their young adults group. This too is ¯ a good move - having more than one ¯ group will serve the population better. ¯ But what’s interesting is that Red Rock has concluded that Youth Services’ lead- : ership is still unwilling to acknowledge : this programbecause offears about fund- , ing, andperhaps, becanse ofhomophobia. : Youth Services’ "closeted" approach has : handicapped the outreach, for their pro- , gram. : RedRock’ s conclusion echoes thepoint : TFN made editorially several years ago. ¯ Unfortunately, whatever small gratifica- ¯ tion thereis in being proven right is damp- " ened by the fear that during these inter- " vening years, some Gay kids who needed ¯ our help were lost just because Youth ¯ Services valued money more than lives. ¯ the local and national press, we’ve de- " duced that murdered fashion designer ¯ Gianni Versace had a life partner named ¯ Antonio D’Amieo - that in fact, a horri~ ¯ fled D’Amico rushed tothe spot wherehis ~ partner lay dying, then chased the killer ¯ down an alley, only to be turned back by the gun that had just murdered his long- " time companion. : Seeing one’s life partner gunned down ¯ by a maniac is surely among the worst : tragedies imaginable, which is why the : sorrowfulimages ofJacqueline Kennedy, : Betty Shabazz, Yoko Ouo, and Coretta : Scott .King are seared intothe. American ¯ consctonsness. ; ’ But we observed no such respect in the ¯ mesa for D’Amieo. The facts outlined ¯ above were scattered over several news ¯ stories, often buried or omitted entirely. : Photographs of the family in mourning often identified the sister of the deceased, ¯ but failed tO identify the man with whom ¯ he’d ’shared his life for more than a de- " cade. Is it any wonder that gay andlesbian ¯" citizens are increasingly indignant when ¯ our most precious relationships are rou- ¯ finely trivialized not only by the media, ." but also by a lack of legal recognition? ¯ - Martha Barnette & Debra Clem ¯ Louisville, Kentucky via e-mail Regarding ver,sace’s Murder Reading between many, many lines in : @ Black& White, Charities Dancers to suitmany tastes sweatedfor several hundred guests, including some of TUlgar~ finest. No problems were reported, the officers werejus’t enjoying the views. when all states had some type of ban on sodomy. Sodomy, considered by some to be a crime against nature, was outlawed for centuries in England. States in this country followed Britain’s example, banning such sex acts in 19th century criminal codes. There is some supportforanti-sodomy laws today.:The Rev. Lou Sheldon of the Traditional Values Coalition said, "The sodomy law tells us that heterosexuality is a preferred status in society." These days, hardly anyone is prosecuted for private, consensual acts of sodomy, saysWilliam Eskridge Jr., a Georgetown University law professor who is writing a book on how laws affect Gay people. Instead, prosecutions tend to be for public solicitation of sodomy or for situations involving rape or coercion. But sodomy laws are used indirectly in other cases involving Gay people, such as custody or employment disputes. A Gay person might bejudgedabad candidatetohave custody ofachild because he or she is assumed to be breakin~ a state’s Sodomy law. In. Georgia, then-Attorney General Michael Bowers withdrew a job offer to a Lesbian in 1990 after learmng she planned to marry another woman in a religious ceremony. The woman sued, but a federal appeal,s ~,oui~ ruled this spring thatBowers - who successfully defended Georgia’s sodomy law before tli~’Supreme Court- was entitled-to, think the public would I~’confused if he hired someone m a same-sex marriage. The Georgia Supreme Court upheld that state’s sodomy law last year, saying it was a valid exercise of the state’sauthority to promote moral well’are. Courts that threw out sodomy laws in Montana, Kentucky and Tennessee said they violated the right to privacy under their state constitutions. The Kentucky ruling also said the law violated a state ~uarantee ofeqtial protection under the law. Gay civil=riglits advocates hope an equal protection argument may eventually be used to throw out sodomy laws in the states that target only same-sex conduct. Last year, the Supreme Court cited equal protection grounds whenit invalidated a Colorado constitutional amendment that forbade laws protecting homosexuals from discriminataon. The Kansas law now is being challenged on equal protection grounds in a case being handled by the American Civil Liberties Union’s Lesbian and Gay rights project. ,, "It’s a tremendous, priority of ours," Harlow said. Sodomy laws cast a dark cloud over Gay people getting equal rights. Wewill keep making them apri0rity Until all .of them are gone." ditq~,~ note: Laurie Asseo covers the Supreme Court ~:.~u~~N~_,la~l~=o~.v..rasTchoentAriso.suotceidatbeydTPUrelssas.FIanmfoilrymNateiwons staffwriters. R IA Yes, We HavO No Bananas : by Kevin Isom We should have seen it coming. Everything was going so well. First, there was Lesbian chic. Then there was : "Ellen - The Episode." Then Mickey Mouse and Goofy stood up to the caltoonish Southern Baptist boycott. But then along came an alleged Gay spree killer- yes, the authorities are calling him a spree killer - who swept : into South Beach and casnally murdered Gianui Versaee, : the talented,rich, and influential Gay fashion designer. ¯ A gasp of horror went up from fashionable Gay and ; r straight folk. all. around the, world,, and celebrities as : dlverse a~ PrincesS Di, Naomi Campbell, Elton John, and : Sylvester Stallone were grief stricken. And with good ¯ reason. Versaee wasan openly gay rolemodel of success- : ful and caring living, whose senseless death narrows the ¯ world a little for Gays and straights alike. ¯ Besides, without Versaee, who would create trends ¯ like those" ubiquitous white ieans9 Who would ~ive Ehzabeth Hurley clothes that would make her stand out ." from the shadow of her actor/boyfriend/befriender of ¯ prostitutes., Hugh Grant? ." More importantly, where would we find homoerotic ¯ images of male beauty in straight magazines? Even for ¯ people who don’t buy into the whole d~signer cacheL ¯ Versace made a difference - and an improvement - in body-conscious style, not to mention the buffed-up types :. of bodies he promoted. I, for one, am all for eye candy. : Will we now be left with only Calvin Klein? : The mainstream news media was, of course, all over : the case like Bruno Magli shoes on O.J. Simpson. Here was an alleged spree killer who, in his mother’s words, : was a "high class’Gay prostitute." What copy this made ¯ for the nightly news! ¯ Forget Ellen, forget Disney. Lesbian chic? What was ¯ that? Here’s an alleged queer Heidi Fleiss with murder on : the mind! Hard Copy even came out of summer hiatus to jump right on the case. And if Hard Copy ~s on the beat, ¯ you know it’s gotta be big. ¯ For days, there were alerts on nighfl.y news in every podunk. town with even a smidgen of openly Gay culture. : (’:B.ucksnort, Tennessee: Is the Killer Here?") In oart, ¯ because the F.B.I. neglected to get out information to’Gay ¯ comm6nifies across the country when they first knew of the very real threat. " - ¯ Cmiously; though, instead of just ’accepting a spree killer for what he was - bananas- the mainstream media : seemed obsessed with finding areason, an explanation, for his killings. They suggested, without any evidence t~ ¯ back up the assertion, that the alleged killer l~ad disc09- ". ered he had AIDS and just snapped. Sort ~0f like Mike : Tyson, but without the ear goop. ¯ ¯ But isn’t it seem the least bit Strange thiit thousands ¯ upon thousands of Gay men have died ofAIDS, and none : have gone on across country killing spree? Isn’t it worth ¯ noting that most Gay men instead have thrown their "- efforts into a brave, and largely successful, community ¯ response,to AIDS? . Doesn tit also seem strange that the mainstreammedia ¯ has tended to lump Versace and his alleged killer into the ¯ same "lifestyle" - youknow, the Gay one?While both the ¯ victim and his alleged killer might both have been Gay~ : their lifestyles were hardlyidentical. But themediahasn’t seemed to think so. They must also think that Princess Di ¯ and Queen Latifah, both being royals, must live the same ¯ lifestyle, too. ." The saddest part of all this hoopla is that Versace’s ¯ !ongtime compamon, Antonio D’Amici, was rarely men- . tioned, if at all. Instead, the focus was on"Poughkeepsie, New York: Is the Killer Here?" On the twisted road to equality, we seem to have taken an ui},expected step. A step which, with the alleged ¯ kill,er s apparent suicide, will soon be forgotten. I m looking forward to getting back to Disney, those ¯ zany Southern Baptists, and Lesbian chic. ¯ Kevinlsom is a syndicated travel writer and humor " columnist. His short story The Brothers Mangrum ap- . p.e..q~,s..!.n th~.~pr.ing!997 issue of~s Transcontihental. At last count there were six or seven publications serving the Lesbian/Gay/Bi and Trans communities of Oklahoma. Of those actually based in state, the oldest is The Gayly Oklahoman,now more than 12 years old. Next is this newspaper at nearly 4 years. Then comes the baby of the group, OMahoma City CommunityNews, an ambitious "vanity" publication. In our media watch, we have .been mos.t .amused for several montlm By the self-promotional, allX~lt somewhat despetat~ sliemani~ans 5f Oklahoma City Community News. ~ Primary among these has. been running "filler" ads which tout some aspect of their publication which they deem. superior to other newspapers. These ads have mostly beenjust rather tasteless. But recently in response to a format changeby The Gayly Oklahoman, Community News ran an ad crowing about how The Gayly was now imitating Community News! Tulsa Family News wonders, how Community News would feel if we ran a self-promotional ad saying how Community News wasjust imitating Tulsa FamilyNews? After all, most of whatdistinguishes their publication are things we’ve been doing successfully for almost 4 years In fact, shortly after Community ~lewsbegan, editor Bruce Devault called us for "how-to" advice. And for all their noise about being found in ,mainstream7 locations because of their "dean content," that approach was done first by Tulsa Family News to such ~uccess that when Community News came over fromi~OKC to Tulsa, they just used~0ur distribution list. ".. More seriously though, we reall~ have .to -wonder if ~ashing other Gay businesses in self,promotional advertasements really helps to build our communities? This is not to say that there isn’t a roll for debate anddiscussion about issues and [eadership. TFN~does precisely that regularly. Community News has alluded in iis ads to some issues that deserve serious public debate - such.as therole of sexually-oriented advertising incommumtypublications. However, in reputable newspapers, this sort of debate occurs in editorial pages, accompaniedhy,reasoned arguments, not by snipes in advertisements. ¯ " But ire should have ~een it coming. After all, we’ll : sexIundaelleyd-o, wrieenatlewdaaydsshliakveetchhooseseonfnTohtetGo rauynlyi,nb-uyotaulrs-ofawcee : never be truly equal to Straight folks until We re equal in i: havenever attacked The Gayly-for their deeibions-..Maybe :- every way. Andthat means bad aswell as good. Strange : because we remember how,things on~ewere in Okia- : as well as stylish. Straight folks have produced years and ¯ homa, we want to state our admiration for The Gayly’s : y~s of serialkillers.-Remember Ted Bundy? ¯ pioneering work. For those who are tooyoung to remem: ¯ ber, there was a time not too long ago that theouly sources ¯ of advertising for Gay newspapers were either bars or ¯ sexually oriented services. ~ ,, TFN has b~,roken new ground in this. state4n getting ,mamstre.am or non-Gay advertising, but we,recognize mat once that was not possible, and that.TheGayly served our commumtaes under much more difficult circumstances in the past. We would also caution the apparently happily coupled ¯ staff of OKC’s C&nmunity News not to be sex-phobic, ¯ and insensitive to the needs of those who are single. ¯ While we agree that there are discussions of specific ¯ sexual preferences and of particularities of anatomy that ¯ are preferably not conducted in print, we hope that Community News will recognize the legitimate n~eds for ¯ members of our community .to.date, and ev.en .to have ¯ casual sex (though, of course, individuals should be : sexually resp.onsible). They might also note that many in ¯ our commumty like the candor of The Gayly. ¯ Finally, e d ask the Community News to stop its silly. ¯ criticizing of 900 numbers. After all, even The Tulsa ¯ WorldandUrbanTulsahave9OOnumberdatingservices, : but Community News isn’t attacking them yet! ¯ Our point is to respect those who’ve come before us, ¯ and the work they did that lielped us all to get where we ¯ are now. The ads attackingTheGayly, andus too, arejust ¯ nasty. Anyway, if your work is good enough, that should ¯ speak for itself. : -Tom Neal~ editor & publisher ¯ PS, we welcome letters ’ ofsexually,oriented ¯ advertising or ’. Letters by *~ White. Ho...u.se Chan,ges Gays M,l,tary P0s,tion WASHINGTON (AP) - Trying to shaooth over a wrinkle in its relations with the gay commtmity, the White House on Monday clarified its statement on a federal judge’s ruling on the "don’t ask, don’t tell, don’t pursue" policy for Gays in the military. Presidential spokesman Mike McCurry said that, after hearing "legitimate concerns" raised by activists, his reaction to the ruling should have included that a review under way at the Pentagon analyzing how the " law is being implemented. "In retrospect,. I would " have pointed that out if I had looked into the issue ¯ more," McCurry told reporters. "I had a typically : McCurry off-the-cuff reaction.’? ...... r ~ " Earlier this month in New York, U.S! DiStrict " Judge Eugene Nickerson ruled that the policy violates ¯ free-speech fights of gay service members and sub- " jects them to separate, discriminatory regulations. " Activists told the White House thatmorehomosexual ¯ service members have been discharged since the ¯ policy was adopted by the Clinton ad~ainistration in 1993. Last year, 850 Gays were discharged from all " branches of the armed forces except the Coast Guard, ¯ according to Pentagon data compiled by the Service ¯ Members Legal Defense Network, an independent " legal advocacy group. In 1994, there were 597 dis- ¯ charges. The Justice Department is appealing Nickerson’s decision, and the issue is expected to ultimately be " decided by the Supreme Court. There are several . cases nationwide challengin~ the 1993 policy, adopted ¯ by the administration as a compromise. The policy bars commanders from asking service members what ¯ theirsexual orientations are. It allows Gay troops to." serve as long as they refrain from homosexual acts and don’t reveal their orientation. " When Nickerson _issued his ruling, McCurry said : "wg continue to believe the policy is a good one" and . was being implemented satisfactorily. McCurry said ¯ Monday he had neglected to mention that Defense : Secretary William Cohen "has expressed some con- ¯ cern about the implementation of the law" and had ordered a review group to study it. "The bottom line ¯ is, the law is still the law," McCurry said. "We must ." continue the work of effectively administering the law and making sure we do so with the kind of ¯ sensitivity that gecretary Cohen has said should ap- " ply." "The good news here is that Mike McCurry, in ¯ thinking alitflebit longer about his comments, recog- ¯ nized that ... there are some problems with enforce- ¯ ment Of this poficy," said Winnie Stachelberg, legis, " lative director of the Human Rights Campaign, the country’s largest Gay political organization. ¯ School Fails to Stop Anti-Gay Harassment PACIFICA, Calif. (AP) - A woman plans to sue her son’ s school district for not protecting her son from classmate’s gay slurs. The 12-year-old boy said fellow students have insulted him ever since he was in kindergarten, calling him"gay-gay," "girl" and "faggot" dozens of times a week. The boy, unidentified to protect his .privacy, lost 30 pounds after the taunting escalatedlastyear. Hedevelopedmigraines, his grades sank and he thought of suicide. The seventh-grader, who said he is not Gay but knows he is more feminine than other boys his age, asked the Laguna Salada Union School Board this ~aastet fsuprlitnogmtoe,’.~P,,Uht ea sStoaipdlto,tIht-eauffneecntdshinogwepIitfheeetls.ab"Iotu’st myself, my schoolwork, everytl~ing. I have been called those names in all my schools for as long as I can remember.., about my perceived sexual orientation, and ithas to stop. I Wouldlike to go to school and not have to worry about h~ethings that somebody’s going to call me." Since then, the district amended its sexual harassment policy. It says no student shall be subject to any kind of sexual harassment, "including harassment because of sexual orientation." The most serious penalties include expulsion. But months of working with administrators at Ortega Middle School appar- ;ently have not stopped the slurs, so the boy’s mother said she intends to sue the Laguna Salada district for not protecting her son. She alsbpians t~ue a han’c[f01 of administrators and school c~unsel0rs. Oakland attorney Sandra Sprin~¢who represents the boy, said in the notice of intent to sue that the district violated both its own and state-mandated harassment policies. The boy’s mother said the little taught in class about sexual liarassment pertains to treatment of gifts, not boys.And no positive images of homosexuality are taught, she said. The school offered an in-class training session on sexual harassment, but the boy said his Classmates thought it was ajoke. The students were given 20 minutes to read a booklet that contained one passing reference to boys who harass other Ix)vs. "We went through all the channels and hit bricl~ walls," the woman said. "For my son it’ s morehate harassment, sexual-harassment, homophobic.harassment. ~I came to Ortega-to say, ’Please help me, please help my son.’ The policy needs to be clarified." Increasingly, lawsuits have been filed to force schools to stop sexual harassment, especially of girls. But cases involving boys are rare. The boy has since left Ortegafor an alternative school in Pacifica, where the principal and teachers keep close tabs on him. He has gained back all the weight he lost and his migraines and asthma have vanished. "It’s been the best year ofmylife- and it was only two months," he said. Chrysler Now More Gay-Friendly? DETROIT (AP) - Ellen DeGeneres lost the Chrysler Corp.’s approval when she announced she was a lesbian, but the company’s gay and lesbian workers are hoping for a better reception. The company drew protests from gay support groups when it pulled advertising from the episode of ABC-TV’s FJlen in which the lead character, played by Ms. DeGeneres, came out of the closet. But since then, Chrysler has formally acknowl= edged, for the first time, "People of Diversity," an employee group formed early this year "to p~ovide support fofqesbians, gays,, bisexuals and transgendered people through business and social activities." It’s part of a trend among the Big Three automakers by employees who are pushing for, and receiving, some recognition ofgay and lesbian workers’ rights. Ford Motor Co. recognizes a Similar employee grgup, and in November expanded its anti-discrimination bylaws to include sexual orientation. General Motors Corp. does not formally recognize gay employee organizations but GM PLUS, a gay group, is pushing the automaker for acceptance. "The momentum is definitely picking up and moving in the right direction," Alan Gilmour, a former vice-chairman of Ford who retired in 1994 and last year disclosed he is gay, told The Detroit News. ¯ While they hail the moves, critics say the Big Three ¯ are responding too slow to shifts to protect gay and ¯ ¯ lesbian employees particularly blue-collarworkersfromharassment." Anyforwardmovementisprogress, ¯ but the reality is that they aren’t showing a true ¯ commitment to what they say they are doing in ¯ creating a hospitable workplace," said Jeff Mont- " gomery, president of the Triangle Foundation, a De- " troit gay and lesbian civil rights group. ¯ Alice McKeage, an openly gay computer pro-. ¯ gramer at Ford and co-founder of the automaker’s ¯ gay emp!oyee.group - GLOBE - still receives calls ¯ from Ford employees, mostly in factories, who are ¯ harassed on the job and looking for help. ¯ "Our biggest challenge is to promote a safe work ¯ environmentbecause themanufacturingbnv~6niii~nt ¯ is stillhostile to gays,’~McKeage said. "We’vemade ¯ progress because Ford Chairffian Alex Trotman is ¯ committed todiVerSity, butit’s coming along slow ’" Chrysler has quiedy resumed ad,~ettising onEli~n, ¯ but the spotlight-.on gay and lesbian issues won’t g6 ¯ away. 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"We recomaize that diversity in ¯ the workplace is a journey.’-Michelle Wahers, a : Chrysler worker and co-founder of People of Diver- -" sity, says the "positive spirit of change at Chrysler" : came about because of several recent developments . that put pressure on the automaker. "We’ve now ¯ opened a formal dialogue to discuss other issues and " goals,"Walters said. "Fheautoindustryhasno choice " but to change. We are genuine assets to the corpora- " ti°n and indus,.try and they recognize, flaat." " Bias Results in Job Loss : TUPELO, Miss. (AP) - The couple’s relationship was on shaky ground. So they sought counseling through an employee assistance program maintained by North Mississippi Medical Center. But counselor Sandra M. Bmff refused to see the couple. The reason? They are both yeomen; Mrs~ Bmff was fired Oct. 23, 1996. She is now suing North Mississippi Health Services Inc., the parent company of North Mississippi Medical Center, for unspecified damages. Mrs. Bmff, of Marietta, contends she was fired from her job as medical services counselor because she cited her religious beliefs "as the reason for refusing to see the homosexual couple. She is asking in the lawsuit to be reinstated with full benefits and seniority. Herlawyer, GrantFox ofTupelo, said at issue in the suit is whether she can be fired because of her religious views. Fox said Mrs. Bmff worked in the employee assistance program, in which outside em- ~olroyth.eersirpawyotrhkeerms.e,~Mcarsl.cBenmtefrfthoapdrobveiedne ccoouunnsseelliinngg this woman, this patient for some time, when the asked for help in working out problems with her lesbian lover. When Mrs. Bruff said she could not, the individual was not happy with that... "Fox said. Fox said Mrs. Bmff told the patient that she could continue counsding her on other issues "not contrary to Mrs~ Bmff’s Christian faith." Fox said Mrs. Bmff also explained her position to the hospital in writing, adding that her beliefs also would prevent.her from counseling someone about adultery. He said the hospital responded that "that was not acceptable ... (she) shouldbe terminated." LenGrice, director ofmarketing services forNMHS, said hospital officials had not seen the lawsuit. "Of course, we have no comment. This is a personnel matter," Grice said Tuesday. However, the hospital had been through at least two proceedings involving Mrs. Bruff. Mrs. Bmff filed a complaint with the federal Equal F~nployment Opportunity Commission, which ruled in May that it could not find any violation of law, and the Mississippi Employment Security Commission, where a hearing officer ruled she was eligible for unemployment benefits. the law, thejudge wrote. ’This court.., has failed to find objective reasons to usurp the discretion, power and authority of the legislative branch to enact this law." Adoption Battle Loses MIAMI (AP) - An effort by a lesbian Dade County jail guard to overturn a state law banning child adoptions by homosexuals was rejected Monday by a Broward County judge. June Amer, who sought to have the law declared uncon.stitutional, must wait for the state Legislature to change the law, Circuit Judge John A. Frusciante said in his ruling. Florida andNew Hampshire are the only two states that ban adoptions by homosexuals. ~ Ms. Amer, who has a son by artificial insemination and wants to adopt another child; lives with a retired prison gtmrd, Gail DeShon. Amer testified during the week-long trial in early May that the 6-year-old boy calls the women Mommy June and Mommy Gail ."We’re very disappointed," said Ms. Ame’r’ satt~rhey, Karen Coolman Amlong, of the American Civil Liberties Union. The attorney said her client is undecided about appealing. Ms. Amlong said during the trial that the law was unconstitutional because the Legislature was trying to exclude an entire group of Florida’s population from adoptions. "There is no evidence.., that the law was passed for the purpose of disadvantaging the group burdened by Episcopal Church Apologizes to Gays PHILADELPHIA (AP)-As they closed their 10-day national convention, leaders of the Episcopal Church apologized to Gays and Lesbians for years of rejection and mistreatment by the church. The House of Bishops and House of Deputies, composed of clergy and lay leaders, approved the measure Friday on behalf of the 2.5 millionb~lieveks. ’ ...... A feared Episcopal Church split never happened, ¯ but leaders remained divided on sexuality issues. In ¯ efforts to reduce division, several leaders of the 2.5 ¯ million-member church vowed to keep open the debates over ordaining homosexuals and forming a ¯ rite to bless same-sex unions. Conservative leaders ¯ said they will spend the next few years fighting these ¯ proposed changes. However, the 72rid General Con: : vention, dosed without any significant changes to ¯ current church policy, But the 1,100 church leaders ¯ came close. A proposal to bless same-sex unions lost ¯ in a nearly even vote, and resolutions rdated to the ¯ ordination of homosexuals also narrowly failed. ¯ Gay and Lesbian advocates considered the votes ¯ signs that the church one day. may fully endorse " ordination and blessings _for same-sex unions. And ¯ they enjoyed Some victories as well The convention ¯ narrowlyapproved a resolution to allow dioceses to ¯ extend health benefits to domestic partners of church ¯ employees, though a similar resolution that would : have qualified domestic partner~ for the church pen- " sion fund failed. ~ Church leaders also endorse0~:a plan to continue ¯ study on the theological implications of same-sex : umons. A report on the topic will be presented at the :" next general convention in 2000in Denver. However, .. House of Deputies member Byron Rushing, a la~, ¯ person from Boston, Mass., said he believes the ¯ division ~vill be smaller by then and the church will ¯ become even more welcoming to gays and lesbians. ¯ One mission of the church is helping Gays and ¯ Lesbians become more included, Bishop Suffragan ¯ Catherine Roskam said. Bishop Joe Doss from the ¯ Diocese of New Jersey said he believes another part ¯ of the church’s mission will be teaching the kind of : acceptance itlearnedfrom the sexuality debates to the ¯ worldwide Anglican community. But before that ¯ happens, Doss said, the church needs to consider how its theology applies to Gays and Lesbians. Old inter- :-~ pretations of scripture encouraged exclusion, he said. ." "We need to rethink how we’ve pushed baptized people aside," Doss said of Gay Episcopalians. ¯ Presiding Bishop Elect Frank T: Griswold III of ¯ Chicago, chosen during the convention, saidhehopes ¯ the discussion on sexuality will continue. But he said ¯ he would like to see the factions also focus on. their common beliefs. Murderer of Gay Man ¯ Goes to Prison Finally : HOUSTON(AP) -Aman convicted in the 1991 Gay : bashing murder of a Houston banker has had his 10- ¯ year probation sentence revoked and is going to prison for 10 years. State District Judge Brian Rains : onThursdayrevoked the probation ofDefi’ikJ. Attard, ¯ one of 10 men convicted in the slaying of Paul ¯" Broussard, because he failed’to perform community : service. : On July 4, 1991, Attard and nine friends went to ¯ Houston looking for Gays to harass.. They .brought ; nail-spiked boards and rocks as weapons. The 10 ; youths attacked Broussard and two of his friends as .. the three were leaving a gay bar..Jon Christopher .. Buice stabbed Broussard to death. Buiceis serving45 ¯ years. Four others were sentenced to prison terms. ; Five, including Attard, were assessed probationary .- sentences and sent to bootcamp. Broussard’s mother, : Nancy Rodriguez said she was glad Attardis going to ¯ prison. "I’m glad Judge Rains gavehim the 10 years," : she said. "I wish it could be more." AZT Just Doesn’t Work Right NEWYORK (AP) -Ten years afterAZT hit the market, scientists say they’ve figured out why it doesn’t work better: Chemically, it’s a bad dance partner. The discovery might lead to better weapons against the AIDS virus, the researchers said. But the company that makes AZT, Glaxo Wellcome Inc., which has its U.S. headquarters in Research Triangle Park, N.C., was skeptical. AZT, the first drug approved for attacking HIV, sabotages the virus’s attempts to reproduce itself. But it doesn’t work perfecfly, and HIV eventually .spawns, mutant strains thatresistthemedication. Many more anti-HIV drugs have come along since AZT, but the drug is still widely used. Thenew research studied whathappens to AZT once it gets into a person’ s body. An AZT molecule goes through an intricate dance in a user’s calls. It has to be modified three times to become effective against HIV, and to get that done, it has to dance with three different molecular partners. These partners are enzyme molecules that latch onto AZT one at a time, makea modification, and then let go. The dance goes fine with the first partner. The problem comes with the second. When this enzyme and the AZT molecule pair up, the enzyme is far less efficient at making the crucial modification than it should be. This creates a bottleneck in the process, reducing the amount of activated AZT that can.be built up to work on the AIDS virus. What;s the problem? The AZT molecuie is basically-stepping on the second partner’ s toes, German scientists report ~n the August issues of Nature Medicine and Nature StmctumlBiology. Moreprecisely, theenzymemolecule has aloop-like structure that’s important in making the modification, and the AZT molecule has a protruding finger that bends this loop out of kilter. That makes it harder for the enzyme to act, the researchers concluded. So scientists might do well to design drugs that,avoi:d bending this loop, they said. or/hey .could provide AZT with a new danc..e., .partner that’s more coopera- " five. That would involve giving patients a gene tb"m~l~ their cells pump out an altered fortii of the enzyme, one that isn’t binderieS,byAZT’ s protruding fmger, they said. Ram~r~"’J~i~es, a spokeswoman for Glaxo W~i~03h~ inc., said the new work offers abetter explanation for the processing glitch than scientists had before. "We don’t think this one piece.of information is going to really change drug development that much," she said. "But certmnly ~y.,!nformation added to the mix is help~ - Surge,ry Debated for Positives SAN FRANCISCO (AP) - As Joe Young saw it, he had two options:iisk majtr experimental surgery~rdie of congestive heart failure, Nevermind that the surgery, which includes slicing a wedge from a -pailent’ s enlarged,weakenedhearttomake it smaller~and more efficient, is far from routine- or that he is HIV-positive. "I was afraid my heart was going to give out before they find a cure for AIDS," Young says. Last month, a cardiac surgeon performing the procedure for the first time "remodeled" Young’s heart. He repaired its valves and removed a section to make it more compact, to beat faster and pump more efficiently. Dr. Alex Zapolanski says he had nS" qualms about accepting Young as a surgery patient, but the case has stirred debate among colleagues. Some warn the procedure is far from ready for widespread use, especially on patients whose defenses are weakened by other illnesses. "Most of us in the field are .very skeptical," says Dr. Sharon Hunt, a transplant cardiologist at Stanford Medical Center. Stanford, a major heart facility that does 40 heart transplants and 1,000 other heart surgeries each year,, has yet to perform heart remodeling, even on patients without complications. Elsewhere, American doctors are only beginning to try the procedure, an alternative to transplantation. Since May 1996, fewer than 100 remodeling surgeries have been done in the United States, compared with an average 2,300 heart transplants a year. Doctors say the surgery fails in30 percent ofcases, makingimmediate transplants necessary. To even themostexperienced surgeons, the idea of cutting into the heart muscle is foreign. But for Dr. Randas Batista, the Brazilian heart surgeon who pioneered the procedure, it was a last-ditch effort to save dying patients in the Amazonjungle, where donor organs are all but nonexi stent. "Most of my patients would be dead in a short time anyway," Batista said in a telephone interview from Brazil "So I have survivors." Batista contends that the situation in the United States - with hundreds of thousands of congestive heart failure cases each .year and fewer than 2,500 donor hearts available - is.not so different. And those odds don’t include .thousands of patients likeYoung, forwhom transplants are not an option because of serious systemic ailments such as HIV, cancer, advanced diabetes or active hepatitis. Young, 46, now recuperating at a San Francisco hospital, has known since he was diagnosed with both HIV and congestive heart failure in 1989 that his HIV status made him ineligible for a transplant. When his condition worsened early this year, he felt "remodeling" was. his only option. .When Zapolanski first saw Young this spnng, the former.cab drivcr, andhotel clerk was constantly,short of breath and bloated with fluid. Carryingaiaything substantiai from one end-of the. room, to..the other was outof the question.."He was going downhill. Anyone .could see. that," says Zapolanski, who.believes ¥oung’s heart disease may have been causedby his ~weakened immune system. However, Young’s health was otherwise reasonably sound and he showed no symptoms ofAIDS, whichhe attributes to the new drug combinations that. are pro- . longing some lives. "When the patient is ¯ willing to take the chance, then it doesn’t ¯¯ take a doctor to see what is the right thing ¯ to do,", says Zapolanski¯, who operated on ¯" Young, with -Batista assisting, at Seton ¯ Medical Center in Daly City,just south of ¯ San Francisco. .. 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McCarthy credits careful screening of. surgery candidates. He rules out heart remodeling even for patients with other heart problems, such as dogged arteries. A month after surgery, Young suffered a stroke - a liability for some post-surgical heart patients - that paralyzed part of his left side~ A spokeswoman at Davies Medical Center, thehospital whereYoung is recuperating, says heis improving daily. Andhe remains hopeful and ever ready to go home. "I still have faith," Young says r : serious concerns and high risks, a synipa- : thetic physician has to do what’s right," he said. "If you would take it, you have to : recommend it,,he added. ¯ But Saah was among those who in- ¯¯ sisted the timingisn’tright for the government to rule on an issue that has so little ¯ proof of success. "A lot of us just don’t ¯ believe this works," he said. Some criticized a CDC study that said health care ¯ workers in the United States. the United ¯ Kingdom and France who took the AIDS drug AZT after being stuck with a needle ¯ cut.their risk of contracting HIV by 79 ¯ percent. That study is the best evidence ¯ the CDC has that the post-exposure treat- . ment works. : Dr. Alastair McLeod, who has treated ¯ AIDS patients in Vancouver, British Co- " lumbia, since 1984, added: "I don’t be- " !ieve that 79 percent stuff either. The data ¯ is indeed a bit soft. This is potentially a ¯ quagmire for the agency." Another concern was that some people ¯ might comeinfor treatment a second time ¯ after engaging again in risky behavior. ¯ "Do we give it to them the first time and ¯ then withhold it the second as punish- " ment?" asked Kahn. : Also, emergency rooms, which serve ¯ about 100millionpatientsayear, couldbe between deep breaths. ’t..To me, this is : inundated because they are often the first like half of a miracle. The other half will " place people go for medical care, said be a cure of AIDS." Morning-After Treatment Debated ATLANTA (AP) - In a debate over who might benefit from a moruing-after treatment for HIV, Michigan AIDS director Randy Pope said he’s more concerned about what to call it first. "Is it prevention or is it treatment?" Pope asked a group of experts who gathered in Atlanta to mull the idea of a blast of AIDS drugs for patients who fear they may have contracted HIV from a night of risky sex or a needle. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention is i~ing to figure out whether to endorse the controversial practice or not. But first, they must dispense with the name game. The government shuns the "morning-after" title because it wrongly implies one pill will do it. Then, there’s "post-exposure prophylaxis." That didn"t seem to work. Now, its wrestling over "post-exposure treatment." It may sound trivial, but it’s the root of disagreement among doctors over whenit should be used, who would receive it and whether it will take money away from prevention programs that already work. The treatment, which would likely take about a month, would give AIDS drugs to people as quickly as possible after a potential exposure to HIV. The idea is to start fighting right away the development of AIDS, even before people are certain they have HIV. An HIV-infected man has sex with his wifeand the condombreaks. Aprisoner is taped by a gang of men. A child is molested. These are all cases experts debated during a two-day conference in Atlanta that ended Friday. There is little proof that such a treatment works, although some preliminary studies suggest it might. But some doctors are already doing it. Dr. James Kahn, an associate professor of medicine at the University of California in San Francisco, said he would offer the treatment to anyone who needs it. "When you’re ... sitting across an exam tablefromsomebody whohas plainneeds, ¯ Richard Rothman of Johns Hopkins Uni- ¯ versity. : The CDC initially said it was consider- " ing the morning-after treatment for one- ¯, time use. But doctors at-the meeting said ¯ that should be reconsidered, since chil- dren can be abused repeatedly andprison- : ers can be raped more than once. ¯ Saah called for more animal studies. Twounpublished studies presentedThurs- : day showed that giving monkeys the blast of drugs within hours after they were ¯ infected with HIV kept some of them virus-free after almost a year. Those stud- : ies are still in progress~ however. i¯ OSwtundRy:epHrIoVdSupc.tu=.orsn : WASHINGTON (AP) - Scientists have ¯ proved a long-expected trait of the AIDS : virus:.It produces aprotein that stimulates ¯ cells to enhance its deadly reproducd0n. ¯ The protein is called Tat, and researchers ¯ from the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute ¯ willreportTuesday thatit essentially pro- : .vides a wake-upcall that renders slumber- , mg immune cells susceptible to HIV in- " fection. -" HIV works best in active immune cells, ¯ not quiescent ones. So for HIV to sustain : its killer viral levels, it must continually : replenish the active cells it kills, Dana- " Farber research Chiang Li writes in a : recent Proceedings ofthe NationalAcad- ¯ emy of Sciences. Tat secreted-from in- : fected cells enters resting neighbor cells _" and "activates" them, Li discovered in a ¯ series of test-tube studies. : Li proved an HIV pathway that scien- ¯ tists were so confident existed that they : already had hunted drags to attack Tat, ¯ said Dr. Anthony Fauci, an AIDS expert " with the National Institutes of Health. So : far, that research "didn’t work, to the ¯ point that at least one company has aban- ¯ donedtheirendeavorsfora Tatinhibitor," : Fauci said. But "that doesn’t mean that ¯: somebody won’tnow, withthis more con- : firmatory evidence, try another approach : to blocking Tat." by James Christjohn : rock festival, became a m~mmoth under- Onthe local front, RIVERDANCEissure : taking and received the attention of the tobeaneventnextsnmmer.Ifyouhaven’t : most prominent female artists, the tour seen the video, let me tell you it is a ¯ itself being billed as "a celebration of magical show blending tap, traditional ." women in music." and modem Celtic music anddanceand gorgeous men and women dancing their feet off. The music is fabulous, and the show is quite beautiful. WhileIamtaking the term "Advance Notice" to an extreme, I would plan to reserve seats as so~n as the tickets go on sale for the PAC August 18-23, 1998 pei~ogmances. Until then, the Broken Arrow Community playhouse will keep us tapping with their season-opening gala, "MUSIC TO REMEMBER", on August 23 at the Main Place, 1800 S: Main in BA. A reception and silent auction will be held at 6:30pro, and the show’ s curtain rises at 8pro. Featuredentertainers are the Bits & Pieces Theatre Chorus, and The. happy Hoofers. Please make reservations by August 15 at 258- 0077. Special guests Teri Bowers and Frank Mitchell from Channel8 will be emceeing the event. Shades Of the triple Goddess! My three favorite divas are certainly getting a lot of attention these days. The most successful lineup ofFleetwoodMac’s long and winding career-featuring Lindsey Buckingham, With a rotadng llne-up, LILITH FAIR ........ ~slst~ 6f Traey Chapman, Sheryl Crow, Jewel, Joan O~l,orne, Fiona Apple, Mary Chapin- Carpenter, Emmylou Harris, Indigo Girls, Shawn Colvln, Panla Cole, Meredith Brooks and more... LILITH FAIR has been selling out across the eountry~ [It] occurs in Dallas August 4th. STEVIE NICKS, Christine McVie, Mick Fleetwood, andJohn McViehave reunited and have recorded alive albumfor release on Reprise September 23. The album ineludes four new songs-two from Buckingham and one each from Nicks and McVie-plus live performances of many classics, such as "Dreams" & "Rhiannon. "Thealbum was recorded over two nights in May. Those two concerts marked the first time this version of Fleetwood Mac had performed an entire concert together in 15 years. Viewers will be able to witness the event when MTV airs its Fleetwood Mac concert special on August 12. Well, loyal readers, FLEETWOOD MAC concert dates are flying around the rumor mills. As of press time, rumor has it that they will be playing .the following nearby cities: October 25th and 26th - Oklahoma City, October 29th and 30th - Dallas. (Confirmation yet to come) If any other MAC/NICKS fans out there would like to get together for a road trip, I can be reached via the newspaper and would be glad to help organize. I’d love the company of any other MAC/STEVIE NICKS fan-arics. We could scream along with Stevie on the way, and terrify thousands of other travelers... LOREENAMcKENN1TT’s new album is due out end of September. Entitled ’~3OOK OF SECRETS", it isreported to have an Italian influence, although I hear that the Celtic influence she is known for will also be evident. Put ~ogether by SARAH McLACHLAN, her two managers, andher agent, LILITH FAIR, thewomen’s With a rotating line~up, LIL1TH FAIR consists of Tracy Chapman, Sheryl Crow,Jewel,JoanOsborne, FionaApple,Mary Chap~- Carpenter, F.mmylou Har- ~.ris,-Indigo .Girls, Shawn Colvin, Paula Cole, Meredith Brooks andmore. Having recently been .featured on the covers of both Time and Entertainment Weekly and with SARAH featured in magazines na-, tionwide, 1 .l1.1THFAiRhas been selling out across the country. -I .H- ~.ITH°FAIR occurs in Dallas August 4th. SARAH?s new album, ’~URFACING", is doing extremely well, having debuted at number 2 on the Billboard charts andhitting #1in her native Canada. It is an excellent album, full of moody atmosphere and interesting rhythms. Ellen DeGeneres, who made TV history by coming out as a lesbian in her series "Ellen," was nominated for an F~nrny as best actress in a comedy series. Now that they’ve brought her out of the closet, will ABC let the star of its TV sitcom "Ellen" actually have a sex life this season? Maybenot.ABCEntertainmeritPresidentJamieTames ¯ has told TV writers the network plans to : moveslowlyindeveloping the Ellen char- ¯ acter as an open lesbian. I guess we’ll see ¯ just how slow a lesbian can move... With ¯¯ the heat the way it’s been, I don’t think I’ve seen anyone moving too fast. ¯ Magician DAVID COPPERFIELD ¯ (Whom I had quite the crush on once) has ¯ launched what could be his greatest trick i - prying $30 million damages from Pari~ Match magazine for alleging his romance ¯ with model Claudia Schiffer is bogus. ~ (Oh, I dunno if HE would say that’s his ¯ greatest trick Sorry, I had to. Even if it : was too easy.) Copperfield filed a defa- ¯ marion suit in Lo~ Angeles against the ¯ French magazine’s pubfishers and a rival ¯ magician. According to the suit, Paris ¯ MatchspreadafalsestorythatCopperfield ¯ and Schifferperpetuated afraud, pretend- " ing to be romantically involved, but that ¯ Copperfield pays Schiffer to accompany ¯ him and pretend to be his fiancee. ¯ Hmm Shades of Liberace. (Who, for ¯ those too young or not interested in trivia : enough to know, popular pianist Liberace ¯ successfully sued a British tabloid in the ¯ ’50’ s for claiming he was Gay. Andwe all ¯ know the end of that story.) Now why : wouldDavid wanta"beard"? Can’t imag- ¯ ine. And if the job, goes up for grabs, ¯ what’s the salary? I could stand there and ¯ look beautiful. Stop laughing; it used to ¯ happen.., occasionally. Probably the best : I could manage right now is vapid, but so ¯ often these days the two are interchange- " able. Excuse me, I have to make a phone ¯ call. 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Public Service Company of Oklahoma A Central and South West Company ,-~" "l~" SUNDAYS Bless the Lord At All Times Christian Center Sunday School - 9:45am, Service - 11 am, 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Community of Hope (United Methodist), Service - 6pm, 1703 E. 2nd, 585-1800 Community Unitarian Universahst Congregation Service- llam, 1703 E. 2nd, 749-0595 Family- of Faith Metropolitan Community Church Adult Sunday School,. 9:15 Service, 11 am, 5451-E S. Mingo, 622-1441 Metropolitan Community Church ofGranter Tulsa ..... Service,, ,10:45am, 1623 North M.ap.,le~.qod, Info: 838~ 17 PrimeTimers- : ,~ Social groupfor men~qst Sun/eachmo. ~-6pm, Pride Center, 1307 E. 38th University of Tulsa Bisexual/Lesbian/Gayfrransgendered Alliance Not active this summer. Meets at the Canterbury Ctr., 5th & Evanston, 583-9780 ~ MONDAYS HIV Testing Clinic, Free & anonymous testing. No appointment required. Walk in testing: 7-8:30pm Results: 7-gpm, Info: 742-2927 PFLAG, Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays 2nd Mon/each too. 6:30pm, Fellowship Congregational Church, 2900 S. Harvard Gay & Lesbian Book Discussibn Group, Borders Bookstore 1st Mon/ea.mo., 7:30pm, 2740 E. 21st, 712-9955 Aug: Obejas’ Memory Mambo, September: Gary Reed’s Pryor Rendering Womeus Literature Discussion Group, Borders, 3rd Mon/ea: too., 7:30pro Mixed Volleyball, 6:30pm, Helmedch Park, 71st & Riverside, 587-65,57 Unity Lambda Al-anon, 7:30pro, 1307 E. 38th, 2rid ft. ~TUESDAYS Lesbian.Mothers Support Group, 2nd+4th Tues/ea. mo. 7pm; 1307 E. 38th HIV+ Support Group, HIV ResourceConsortium 1:30 pm - 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-l, Info: Wanda @ 749.4194 Shanti-Tulsa, Inc. HIV/AIDS Support Group, and Friends & ~amily HIV/AIDS Support Group - 7 pro, Locations, call: 749-7898 ~" WEDNESDAYS BlessThe Lord At All Times Christian Center Prayer & Bible Study, 7:30 pm 2207 E. 6th, 583-7815 Family OfFaithMCC PraisetPrayer-6:30pm, Choir-7:30,545 I-E S. Mingo. 622-1441 Tulsa Native American Mens Support Group For more information, call 582-7225, John at ext. 218, or Tommy at ext. 208 TCC Gay & Lesbian Association of Students (GLAS), Call for scheduled events. Info: 631-7632 or Jeremy at 712-1600 l~- THURSDAYS Co-Dependency Support Group - 7:30 Family ofFaith~ 5451E S. Mingo, 622-1441 HOPE, HIV Outreach, Prevention, Education Anonymous HIV Testing, Testing: 7 - 8:30pro, Results: 7 - 9pro, Info: 742-2927 Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network (O’RYAN) Support/social group for 18-24’s, call Red Rock Mental Health at-~63~7272 Tulsa Family Chorale, Weekly practice - 9:30pm~ Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th From Our Hearts to Our House, 11pm, 3rd Thurs/each ran. Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th Substance Abuse Support Group for persons with HIV/AIDS 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. G, 3-4:30pm, Info: 749.4194 ~ FRIDAYS SafeHaven~ Young Adults Social Group, 1st Fti/eachmo. 8pm, Pride Ctr., 1307 E. 38th Arts Coffeehouse, Poetry readings & art display, Pride Center Call Mary for more information: 743-6740 I~" SATURDAYS St. Jerome’s Church, Mass - 6 pm Garden Chapel, 3841 S. Peoria, Info: 742-6227 Narcotics Anonymous, 11 pro, Community of Hope,1703 E. 2nd, Info: 585-1800 Fun Night at the Center, July 12th & 26th, 6-10pm, Pride Ctr. Info: 743-4297 SENSES, Society for Exploring New Sensations, Educating & Socializing. July 19, 6-apm, Info, call Kathy at 743-4297 I~P OTHER GROUPS T.U.L.S.A. Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association, info: 838-1222 Womens Supper Club, Call for info: 584-2978 OK Spoke Club, Gay & Lesbian Bike Organization. Long and short rides. Info: PUB 9165, Tulsa 74157, 8/20, 6:30pm, short tide; 8/23, 7am, long fide; 8/30, 7am, long ride. Alt rides start at Ziegler Park Recreation Center, 3903 W. 4th St. Ifyour event or organization is not listed, please let us know. Call 583-1248 orfax 583-4615. -r2 7 READ ALL ABOUT IT Reviewed by Barry Hensley Tulsa Ci&-County Library Thepublic library has many wonderful, older books of interest to the gay/lesbian/ bi/transgendered community. By searching on the library computer catalog under the subject ofhomosexuality, hundreds of entries come up with subtopics (history, fiction, humor, etc). While searching the older fiction titles, I recently came across a wonderful,little novel, The Drowning of Stephan Jones. In the ficticious town of Parson Springs, (a thinly disguised Eureka Springs), antique dealer FrankMontgomely andhis longtimelover and business partner Stephan Jones have recently opened a shop and are enjoying the simple, small townlife. Away from the crowded and oppressive big cities, Frank and Stephan can settle down and enjoy the finer things in life. Or so they think. When choosing Parson Springs as their new home, the guys thought they had found an artistic oasis where peoplereally cared abouteach other. They didn’t factor in the overwhelming presence of simplistic and absolute religious beliefs that often blanket small communities. Stephan, a former seminary student, convinces Frank to attend a service at the dominant church in town. The service turns out to be a "family ." thetownlibrarian, befriends them.Trouble .. begins when dashing, young Andy, high ¯ school jock and the object of Carla’s af- ¯ fection, prodded by his intolerant family ¯¯ and teammates, begins intimidating the gay couple. The unprovoked harassing ¯ slowly escalates into violence and tour- ¯ der, as the horrified Carla tries, unsuc¯ cessfully, to avert tragedy. There is a moderately successful surprise ending to satisfy Stephan’ s grief stricken survivors. Technically a young adult novel, it is rather simply written for maximum effect, and does contain some violence and mild profanity, although no sex. While the story is strong, the characters are sometimes simplistically written and occasionally fall into stereotypes. Sensitive, confused Carla realizes that her neff boyfriend, (her first), is blinded to trothbyhis unquestioning faith in religious extremism, but is too anxious to be "part of the group" to recognize the danger in his behavior until it is too late. Car.!,a’ s mother i"s the black sheep of the community, fighting to keep challenged books on the library shelves after attacks by the town’s influential Baptist preacher. For a straightforward but dismrbinglook athomophobic extremism° check out The .Drowning ofStep.hanJones. It is an eye opemng read for young adults and a timely re- " minder to adults of what happens when ¯ goodpeople ignore intolerant and danger- ¯ ous behavior. ¯ Check for The Drowning of Stephan ¯ Jones at your local branch library or call ¯ the Readers Services Department at the ¯ Central Library at 596-7966. : Dees. Champlin also anticipates speaking :. more openly about the program and the ¯ need for the program tO high school coun- ¯ selors, teachers and principals as well as ." to mainstream media. : O’RYAN memb~s ara not just con- . cemedwiththemselves. Martyis theleader ¯ of the group’s Condom Crusaders who ¯ are .trying to educate their peers about : HIVrisk. The group also wants to start its ." Own RAIN Care Team. Other goals indude possibly fostering Gay/Straight : Clubs in local high schools to provide : support andinformation. : And O’RYAN is actively seeking support from the older Leshian and Gay corn- : munity and friends,family and allies. The " group has a "wish list" of things that : they’_d like to have to make their meeting ¯ spacemore of a home-like drop-in space. ¯ Ultimately they’d like it to function al- ¯ most like a coffee house, like Java Dave’ s : even. However, they’re just not waiting ¯ around for the larger commtmity. They ¯ tentatively arranged to make 5,000 rain- : bow bead keychains for PFLAG, Parents, ¯ Families and Friends of Lesbians and ¯ Gays to raise funds. ~. Champlinl Marty and George empha- : size that the group is very careful to pro- : tect the see O’RYAN, page 12 For a straight forward but disturblngloo.k at homophoble extremism, cheek out The DrownJnO d Step ,an Jo.es. It.ls,an e~t opemn$ reaa ~or young .a.dults and a timely reminder to adults of what happens when good people ignore intolerant and values" lecture where homosexuals are .uniformly denounced as lower than pornographers or child molesters. Unfortunately, the guys don’t get the hint. A local girl, Carla, has become acquainted with themen and, being raised in a welcoming household by her mother, to talk about &RYAN. Both who are regulars in local clubs said that they really ,v’,paleuoeptlheehgarvoeupt:oM: baertryeSal~tuthnalitkien ginrotuhpe, clubs wherehe characterizes relationships as morejust acquaintances. In the group, they’ re friendships. Champlin, who’s been with the group about a year, brings counselingand psychology experience to the job. The 1994 TU graduate, along with MurphyJones also provide free individual counseling along with the group meetings. Sheestimates that of the 15 to 20 meeting regulars, about 10 also get individual counseling. Champlin, along with Marty and George, note that the group is not for all Lesbian, Gay, Bi,Tramgenderedand questioning young adults. Some are just too closeted or find the groups too structured if they are in a more rebellious stage. But likely many in the city just don’t know that the group exists. Marty, George and.Melissa, however, are working on changing that. O’RYAN now has a web page, courtesy of Concessions and noted Concessions dj, David -,,. -,,, .. utumn :eeze A Dining Pleasure " MAHI-MAHI ~ACKOF LAMB CHOCOLA~ SOUFFLE HWY 23 SOUTH 501-253-7734 Church of the Restoration Unitarian Universalist Services: Sun. at 11 am 1314 No. Greenwood, 587-1314 The Reverend William Chester McCall III, pastor Saint Aidan’s I 4045 No. Cincinnali, 425-78821 The Episcopal Church I Welcomes You I Puppy Pause II Allanna Davenport Professional All Breed Grooming 1060-N South Mingo Tulsa 74128 838-7626 Turn heads as well as hair pins. $ 2 3, 5 9 8 sale price Don Carlton Mitsubishi . 46th & S. Memorial 665-6595 HITSUBISHI MOTORS Built For LivingY See the Eyewear "Stars Celebrities" WeQr Oliver Peoples, Gaultier, Mikli, Matsuda, etc. Cool, Unique & Exclusive Eyewear Found Nowhere Else in Eastern Oklahoma VISIONS 6837 S. 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A Utica salad features chopped Nestled on a plot of land on 21st Street " egg and bacon, the CaeSar comes with a between Columbia and theBroken Arrow ¯: chom" e o¢f chi"cken; salmon, or shrimp, and Expressway is the site of the popular old ¯ the Pacific Rim salad has cold sliced Charlie Mitchell’s Midtown, which fi- .. chicken breast, chow mein noodles, thin naily succumbed to bankruptcy last year. " strips of deep fried tortilla, and a "Thai" While the food was always less than stel- ." peanut dressing, though when we tasted lar, we enjoyed that place, if only to be it, we weren’t sure what made the dressable to drink Watney’s Ale on " tap and play in the red British telephone booths. The entire Midtown neighborhood has been awaiting anxiously developments at the location. This past spring, the wait was over and a new restaurant un-- veiled. Local diners can eat and drink at the Milestone Grill, now under completely different ownership and management. And, those who frequented Charlie Mitchell’s will not recognize the place after themajor remodeling and redecorating. The dining areas have been Opened up into one large, two level room, divided by a working fireplace. The bar now sits against the west wall, andis stylishly conceived with broad panels of tortoise shell covered lighting. Seating in the bar i s multilevel, and includes a comfortable sofa area. The decor is starklymodern throughout the restaurant, and oil pastel art work is framed and hanging onthe painted grey wails. Contemporary light fixtures are crafted from bareflame bulbs andmetallic coppermesh shades, contributing to a dean, fresh look. As one sits down to dinner, one quickly discovers that this place Js no longer Charlie Mitchell’s. Where once one ordered a round of beers, now, one orders ultrapremium cocktails. Milestone features. a menu devoted stric.tly to cocktails, includingnine different martinis. And they ¯are all delicious, We’ve tried them all ~’(th,ough not0n.the same visi t;mindyou! ), and you can s~p andsample the various gins and vodk~s,Anclud~ng Tangueray, Sapphire, Skvy, i~inl~india~ ~dvedere, and Stoli~hnaya.°(~e Of ou} favorites was the :.-TUlSa Skyyline martini, with Skyy vodka, Chambord (a raspberry Jiqueur),. and a ~.twist of lime. The bar als0 Ca~es an ’Impressive s..election ofsinglemait Scotcl~ whiske,cs. ’ ApiS~tizer selecfi’bns, are varied, and display the almost schizophrenic menu plaJming 0f the kitchen. Tl~e best are the -Milestone Grill 2705 East 91st llam-lOpm Nlon.-Thurs. 11am-llpm, Frl. 5pm-llpm, Sat. 5pm-10pm, Sun. ¯ Payment: All major plastle. Ahohoh F II with premium stock & wine llst. Smokln~ in the bar area. A~mospkere: - Dressy casual. Prhes: Expensive. Ratln~: A llst ing ’q’hai." Though only open a few~ months, a new menu was introduced in July. The kitchen is still experimenting, and trying to find itself, so we hope that they will soon be able to establish their niche. A few slight problems exist, such as having both teriyaki ribeye and teriyaki salmon, and having both a filet mignon and a tuna steak wrapped in bacon and prepared like a filet mignon. Nevertheless, the.entrees we have tasted hagebeen flavorful and wall done. Weparticularlylike therotisserie chicken ($12.95), which .is tender and juicy, served ona ~edof garlic- laced "smaShed ’ potatoes; and adorned like a party hat with a big ~prig.of rtsemary. The variou~past~of~the day dishes are .also tasty~ full o~ additional 2vegetables and mush~.oomg; and--delicately sauced. All.bf the entrees are served with:~a choice of soup or salad. Those not interested in a full entree can also get a very ¯ nice, good sized Milestone burger ($6.75) . or a great dub sandwich ($6:95) with ¯ roasted turkey and Arkansas bacon. At. ." lunch, a chicken salad sandwich ($6.25) ." and a meat loaf sandwich ($7:75) areaiso ¯ available. All of the sandwiches come with matchstick fries. ¯ Dessert, always one of our favorite courses, is $4.50, and varies: daily. Re- : .cenfly, they have included: a~tasty indi- ~, vidual cobbleralamode made ononehalf ." of blackberries and on the 0ther ?half of ¯ raspberries~ which was ~gd~~as, ¯" had been microwaved to~*~~r ~o :- serving. The ubiquitous flOuriess’ehoco._ ~ late.gateaux is there, plus- the .stereotypi_ ¯ cal cheesecake- this one with~chocolate, ¯~ pecans, and caramel. All of these are quite ¯: tasty. Yet, the presentation and combina- ." :tions,not onlyin the dessert courses but in ¯ the entire menu, still lack that subtle flair which is the hallmark of a great restau- ~ rant. A good example is the roasted ha- "- nana cream pie. We were offered the !potato crustedlobster ,c,3kcs ($9.95). Ther¢ :is also a shrimp cockudl ($6.95), andfrom there, the menu gets. odd. Spring rolls ($5.7~), an Oriental standard, are juxta- :posed againstthe traditi0nai Fr~nch.~rilled bile cheese ($7’.95): Artich0ke dip.(~5:95) ~emindS:us of.th~ spo~ts bar oi:igiils 6f the ’site. And~ like everyone else in town, they are doing wraps -.this time, chicken wrapped with a’ lettuce leaf ($4..95) instead of a tortilla. Thesoup selection varies daily, and is $3.95 per bowl. On the night we visited, it was corn and red pepper, which we expected to be a spicy cream soup, but which was a surprisingly thin vegetable soup with kernels of corn and strips of roaste~i red bell pepper. Basic salads are also $3.95, and jump $4 with the addition of dessert, and anticipated.,a large wedge of tasty pie. What arrived was a small indi- ¯ vidual tartlet shell filled, with roasted ha- : nanapudding, topped withwhippedcream, and garnished withalargewedge bf white ~ and dark chocolate protruding from the : tarflet like a shard ofbroken glass.:Next to. the tarflet was a bail of ice cream that had a strong and delicious espressoflavor and ¯ included little chunks 61’ fudge brownie. ; The whole large serving plate was deco- ¯ rated with a swoosh of creme Anglaise, ¯ ¯ drizzles of chocolate, and a few scattered fresh berries. Individually, each compo- ¯ nentwas delicious,but together, they were ¯ too much and not a pleasant match. The ¯ espresso-chocolate ice cream comp!etely ¯ overpowered the delicate sweetness of the roasted banana, see Jean, page 12 ration techniques are all down, we look forward to the kitchen staff developing the culinary maturity in matching foods that will makethis restaurant an outstanding dining experience. Similar problems arise in the service. When we’ ve been seated in the dining room, service has been attentive and adequate (though not outstanding) for arestaurant of this calibre. However, when we’ ve been seated in the smoking section in the bar area, the service has been woeful. In fact; on our last visit, the handsome pony~led bartender (worth a trip just to gazeuponhim,by theway) tookpityupon our table and volunteered to take over for ourabsent waitress. Nevertheless, wehave great expectations that management will soon work out these minor flaws, espedally since themenus advise that a seventeen percent gratuity will be added to tickets for groups. On the whole, we enjoy going to the Milestone Grill. As they grow- and become more comfortable with their identity, we think the staff will make a fine team. And, we hope they’ll stir be in business come winter time, so we can lounge around that wonderful fireplace in the dining room. to moving every American forward. At those places where we disagree with the President, and there are many, we know for certain now that he acts, not out of ignorance, but out of his political analysis for advancing his agenda." Lobel added that the President spoke at length about how the cultural map of America must shift ifLGBT people are to gain civil rights. "We look to the President to speak out loudly and often on issues affecting Gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans. But we must be realistic. The President will not move unless activists at the local and state level move him and the administration forward." There also was discussion of Clinton’ s upcoming White House conference on hate crimes later-this year. The activists said they want the conference to address "widespread" violence against Gays and would like to include Gay youths who often are prone to violence on the streets because of family rejection and homelessness. "There is agreement that violence against any group is something that must be combated," Echaveste said. The group expressed concern about the implementation of the Clinton administration’ s "don’ t ask, don’ t tell, don’ t pursue" policy on Gays in the military. A study by the Service Members Legal DefenseNetwork showedthatGays are being discharged from all branches of the armed forces in greater numbers since the policy was instituted in 1993. "We made it dear there are a number of instances in which the administration has come down on the wrong side of issues that are important to us, not the least of which is the Gays-in4he-military issue," said Lorri Jean, executive director of the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center. The policy bars commanders from asking service members to reveal their sexual orientations, and allows Gay troops to serve as long as they refrain from homosexual acts and don’ t reveal their orienta- Besides McDonald, LobeL Jean and Birch, other participants at the meeting were Kevin Jennings, executive directoe of the Gay, Lesbian and StraightTeachers Network; Tim Gill, founder of the Gill Foundation; Gloria Nieto, executive director of the People of Color AIDS foundation of New Mexico; Brian Bond, executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund; Martin Omelas-Qnintero, executive director of the National Lation/ a Lesbian and Gay Organization; Jeff Sorer, Co-Chair of the Empire State Pride Agenda; Dale McCormick, Treasurer of th~ State of Maine; Kevin Catheart, executive director of Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund; and Vema Eggleston, executive director of the Hetrick-Marfin Institute. confidentiality of those who attend, especially outside the safety of the meeting space. O’RYAN has also scheduled several special events in August and Septem, ber. On August 16, the groups is holding its "Snmmer Fling" dance party. Later in the month, by popular demand, the group will have a slumber party-properly chaperoned and alcohol, smoke and drug free, of course. In early September, the group will go on afloat trip on the Illinois river. To donateor to volunteer for O’ RYAN, call 584-2325. Madson’s father, Howard Madson of Barron, Wis., watched the developments Wednesday night as well, but declined to discuss them. "There will come a time when we have something to say. I can’t tell you now when that will be," he said. Cunanan was suspected in the death of Chicago developer Lee Miglin and charged in thekilling ofNew Jersey graveyard caretaker William Reese. Reese’s widow, Rebecca, had no comment on Cunanan’s death when reached by telephone at her home in Upper Deerfield Township, N.J.. Sorrow was unabated for Cunanan’s family as well. In the Philippines, where his father lives, his aunt Barbara Carlos was resigned to her nephew’s death, but still baffled by his life. "He is a good boy. He can’ t do all those things. I thinkhe is innocent," Mrs. Carlos said, but added that his family "should accept the truth. They should accept what happened to them." She had not seen Cunanan since he was a child. ’‘we are saddened," she said. ~’Even if we have not been together for a long time,we are saddenedby whathappened." Eilarts will begin an all ages coming out group in cooperation with Melissa Champlin of Red Rock Mental Health Association. This group will meet at the Pride Center and will be for all ages. Eilarts, who has considerable experiencein counseling around substance abuse issues, will focus on communication and negotiating skills as,well as ,triggermechanisms" for high risk behavior to help men to develop betterrelationships and to help prevent HIV/AIDS. 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Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th 583-1500 Puterbaugh said. ’It just, was not in the conversation, it was not ~the thinking." She and Famham, who describe them- ¯ Selves as beingin their "early 50s,"thought ¯ about but never ended-up having a corn- " mi.tment~ceremony in honor of their 20th anmversary. Then two years ago, they attended a conference devoted to the notion of a civil marriage between couples . of the same gender., "We walked out of ." that conference, looked at ourselves and ¯ said,’ That’ 8 what we.~ant,’’. Puterbaugh said. . But the Milton town clerk, relying on a ¯ 22-year-old opinion from the attorney ¯ general’s office, refused to issue them a marriage license when they applied on April 25. Baker and Harrigan applied in Shelburne on June 13 and Jolles and Beck applied in South Burlington six days after that. All Were denied and lawyers decided they had a case. "Finding a partner, finding a mate and getting married is a basic human right," said Middlebury lawyer Susan Murray. ’The state of Vermont should not be al- ¯ lowed to step in and tell two consenting adults that they cannot marry one an- " other." Attorney General William Sorrell,who ~v9a3~_aospkiendiobnu,t sdaeidclitnheedistosuoevsehrtouurlnd-tbhee decided in the Legislature, not the courts: Lawmakers already have extended civil rights protections to Gays and Lesbians " and included them among the classes protected in a hate crimes statute, he said. If : the Legislature. had intended to .include ¯ marriage among those ,rights, it would have said so, he ~rguedi ’rhe Legislature has done nothing that. we can find’ that affirmatively extends the ri,g,ht to same- ,g,endermarriagein~Vermont; "S orrell said. ~’he Legislat-~re for 2:2~3;~s has had the opportuni,,~ to change thatlaw. It has not done that. ’ Gov. Howard Dean said he believed the Legislature should avoid theissue for the time being. "I Would prefer this not be addressed in the Legislature until it’ s resolved in the courts," he said. "I think it’ s " a very personal matter. This is a very ¯ difficultissue and I think the courts are the ¯ place to.resolve it." : Murray and the other lawyers said no change in theIaw was necessary. Denying " Gays and Lesbians marriagelicenses rio- : lares not only state marriage statutes but also Chapter 1, Articles 1 and 7, of the " Vermont Constitution, the couples claim ¯ in their lawsuit. The first article states ¯ people are born equally free and indepen- ¯ dent; the seventh says the government exists for the common benefit, and not for ¯ any particular set of people. . "We are challenging the notion that a couple in love can’t marry each other " .simply because they made the ~mi_’,stake of ¯ falling in love withsomeone ofthe wrong’ gender," said Mary Bonanto of Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, .a:New England=wide Gay civil rights group. Vermont statut~,s describe m~a~e as aunion betweena ~bride and t,ro~m. "but say not.m.n.g.:a.n.y.,:°.’;mO" re exp~l’-ic" it a’bout gender~: ~orrdl s’~id~,~e ~l~dictibnary: meaning of ~e phrase proved lawmaker~7 intended marriages to be between men and women. ~.: ~ .... The lawsuit asks only for:~ legalization of civil marriages and does not ask churches opposed to same-sex unions to recognize them or perform ceremonies. ¯" "It’s not g~ng to affect any religious : 9~anizationatall,"Murraysaid.Itwould, however, offer them a wide range of civil ¯ benefits. "Married couples receive over 150 supports and protections under Vermont law, which are not available to Gay and Lesbian couples, no matter how long they have been together, no matter how committed their relationship is, and no " matter how much they need those legal, ." protections," Bonauto said. ¯ Among the benefits she listed were " family leave; bereavement leave; retirement and pension benefits; health insurance; inheritance; and the right to ,make medical decisions onbehalfofasame-sex partner. The issue of Gay and Lesbian marriage : has been hotly contested around the coun- ¯ try, especially a groundbr_._e._a_,kii’,ng case in Hawaii in which that state s Supreme ¯ Court rnled in 1993 thatitwas unconstitu- ¯ tional to deny marriage licenses to same- " sex couples without a compelling public ¯ interest. ¯" Before a lower court could rule on whether such an interest had been demonstrated, the Hawaii Legislature passed a bill granting such benefits as the rights to share medical insurance, joint property ¯ ownership and inheritances to couples " : who could not legally marry. Lawmakers " : also proposed a referendum on whether ¯ the Hawaii Constitution should be ¯ amended to outlaw Gay marriage. That ! .’ referendum is scheduled for next year. With the Hawaii case awaiting court ruling,Gay civil rights activists have been ¯ lookiiag for another test case. Vermont already has an active organization on the ¯ issue, known as the Freedom to Marry ¯ .Task Force, andit has worked with Lesbian & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, ¯ a group that has been active on same-sex ¯ mamages. A lawyer with,GLAD was scheduled to be at Tuesday s news con- : ference. The issue also is pending in the Ver¯ mont Legislature, where a bill that would ¯ ban gay marriage remains alive in the House Judiciary Committee. No action ¯ was taken on the bill when it was mtro- ¯ duced in January, but it remains alive for the second year of the Legislature’ s sesfor effective multicultural and coalition organizing. The need for the Federation grew out of meetings of statewide acti,vists during the past two years at NGLT s annual Creating Change Conference. The Task Force coordinated the logistics of the. Tennesseemeeting, providing scholarships and staffing and assisting in the planning. "We have known for many years that the real battles facing our communities wouldbe foughtinthe State Houses across the country," stud Paula Ettelbn¯ck of the Empire. State Pride Agenda, who is a fouhder and a co-chair ~f the Federation. "It is essential that we create an orgainz- ¯ ing structure that helps us to Strategize as ¯ a hational network of lesbians and gay i men in order to support each other, sh~re resources, andf,i,ght our common enemy of h0m0phobia. Oklahoma wasrepresented by TOHR, : Tulsa Oklah0mans for Human Rights : which at 17 years old is the oldest non- " religious organization in the state. TOHR : .presidentTomNealnoted,"TOHRclearly ¯ ~s not a state-wide organization. Okla- : homa, unfortunately,qaas no organization ¯ that is genuinely statewide. However, ¯ TOHR has been for several years the only ¯ iOaarrkl,caohnotmacatowrgiathnizNaGtioLnTtFh.atT,shbeereenfoinrer,egwu_e went to the meeting in order to come back and to try to foster state level organizing." ¯. Neal added that he hoped that Tulsa and ¯ Oklahoma City groups and individuals will set aside their historical friction to work for the benefit of the whole state. The Federation will consist of 13 Executive Committee members, selected ¯ from each region of the country, who will set forth the mission of the Federation. ¯ The National Gay and LesbianTaskForce ¯ will ser~e as coordinatorof.theFederation for the next three years: NGLTF will ¯ coordinate and. support the Federation’s ¯ work through the dedication.of staff and ¯ resources including the creation and dis- : semination of information and materials, regular conference calls, cyber resources ¯ and more. ¯ "States are ground zero in the struggle for equality andjustice, and it is essential that these state groups become better ¯" resourced., and supported if we are to en¯ sureourultimate success as amovement," said NGLTF executive director Kerry ¯ Lobel. ,’I ¯ amthrilled that the stateLGBTgroups have united to. form this Federation. The Federation will focus on strengthening state organizations so that we aJ’e better equipped for the upcoming civil ,ri,’ghts battles we are facing stat~l~y state, said Dianne Hardy-Garcia of’~e Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby ofTexas an~t co:chair:bfthe Federation. ’Theformation ofthe Federation wouldnothave beenpossible without ~ the assistance of NGLTF. NGLTF has ¯ provided the resources needed to pull ¯ togetherthe Federation. The Task Force .continues to illustrate a real understand- " mg mat our movement must be a local, ¯ state an,d, national movement if we are to ¯ su~eed, ’ added Hardy-Garcia." The Federation is p,lanning its next meeting for November s NGLTF Creating Change conference in San Diego, ¯ California. In addition to the. meeting, there will be a series or workshops geared : towards activists doing statewide work, especially onlegislation. These workshops , ~ill be open to all. ! SpiritWoman Contor : Longtime Lesbian activist Tay Clare is ¯ the volunteer coordinator ofthe Frec Spirit Woman Center, based in a private mid- . town Tulsa.home. The Center provides the following ongoing weekly programming from 7-9 pm. ¯ On Tuesdays, the Center sponsors a ¯ poetry writing workshop. Women with ¯ much or no experience are encouraged to participate or just to observe. ¯ Wednesdays, Charlotte Kasl’s famous ¯ 1~6 step,e,mpowermentprogram is the topic. ¯ according to Tay, Charlotte Kasl claims women should never say they have no ¯ power; by doing the steps, they can find their own powerful wom~n within. , ¯ EveryThursday,Clareleads awomen s spirituality workshop. Ihdividuals are en- ¯ couraged to bring their own materials as part of their journey. ~ ..... ¯ A support and discussion group i~ held i .on Fridays. The current topi~ iS a studyof ¯ the journals of radical Gay women..~ " ¯ The Free Spirit Woman Center oper- : ates by consensus without domination by "anyone person. Facilitation is minimal ." and is used primarily to insure that all get ¯ a chance to speak. The Center has no ¯ funding but small donations are always : welcome to pay for coffee and other sup- " plies. Info: 587-4669. Out of State Newspapers Magazines for All Interests Mens & Womens Lingerie Games Movie Sales & Rentals Novelties & Gifts Now featuring 10% Cards Homeof the 21st Social Board Open 24 hours a day Gay owned & operated 8,120 East-21st (21 st+Memorial acrossfromAlbertsons) 610-8510 How To Do It: First 30Words are $10. Each additi0nabword is 25 cents. You may bring additional attention to your ad: Bold Headline - $1 Ad incapital letters - $1 Adiii bdid Capital letters - $2 Ad in box -:$2 Ad reversed::.$3 Tear sheet mailed - $2 Blind Post Office Box - $5 Please ty-p~’,lSf print your ad. 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The Pride Center has provided a meeting place for the Prime Timers, Friends in Unity Social Organization (FUSO) , Safe Haven, Rainbow Business Guild, the Parish Church of Saint Jerome, Mothers Support Group, Poetry/Arts Coffee House, SENSES, Lesbian and Gay-oriented substance abuse support groups, Community Unitarian-Universalist Congregation, TOHR, HOPE, Americorp, HIV training seminars and others. Your mem bership and/or pledge helps to keep the doors open. [] I want to join/rejoin. ~ Individual @ $20/year Household!org @ $35/year ~ Sustaining @ $100/year ~ Ltd. income/student @ $10/year [] I want to pledge. Please send me/us a pledge book for $.~per month. Suggested pledge: $5 - 20/month. Address: City, state, zipcode: Day phone: Eve. phone: E-mail: The Pride Center is open 6 days a week. HOPE offices are open Monday - Friday, 9 - 5pro. Volunteers staff The Pride Center on Tuesday - Friday nights from 6-10, and Sat. 12-10pm. Volunteers are always welcome. The Pride Store is open Wed. - Friday, 2 - 6pm and Sat. 12 - 6pro Please return this-form to: 1307 East 38th, 2rid ft. Tulsa 74105, 918-7434297 O’RYAN Oklahoma Rainbow Young Adult Network A support. & educational group for 14.24 year old Lesbian, Gay, Bi, .Questioning and Transgendered Tulsans Needs. Your Help; Donation Wish List- TV/VCR Plants Microwave Steroe Gay Video Library Bean Bags Wall Art Silverware Lamps Refrigerator Pop Machine Computer Throw Pillows Clocks Curtains Glassware 1724 East Eighth Street, 584.2325 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1997] Tulsa Family News, August 1997; Volume 4, Issue 9 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. 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