7 20 666 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/36e0d058f126d3f882723a7ed47bd950.pdf b987068dd4a8165029471f6f0dc329e8 PDF Text Text Q)ca( CZ rv.'t ^^ kJt'. :j C)^ OK Cookie Momster 1 A box of a dozen cookies monthly from OKCookieMomster! Now located at both 31st and Harvard and in the Mother Road Market, OkCookieMomster specializes in custom sugar cookies for any V' occasion! Other flavors are available as well. This lesbianowned business will also incorporate LGBT+ themed cookies throughout the year! Donated by OK Cookie Momster ncMKIE ^ Momster �m Celine Dion at the BOK Center^ Two concert tickets to Celine Dion at the BOK Center, hotel •• &• accommodations and dinner before the concert provided. Donated by BOK/SMG Center BOK CENTER �Living Kitchen The private party experience with the Living Kitchen offers a seven-course farm table livingIkitchen 1ARM"& DAIRY dinner for 15 prepared with locally grown products. Living Kitchen schedules private parties on Thursday nights during their season. Dates are subject to availability on the Living Kitchen calendar from May through November 2019. Donated by Living Kitchen �NYC Broadway Weekend Jet away to New York City with 50,000 American Airline miles, and enjoy a three-night stay at The Westin New York-Times Square plus two tickets to the musicals Oklahomal and The Cher Show. Must be booked 60 days prior and subject to availability. I»i ii/. i i: .K 11 :1 i Da. Donated byTanniger Philanthropies and American Airlines I \^M^(;l:l\ ENTERTAI N Ivl ENT American Airlines 0 neiu mu/iCQl J �Tulsa Drillers Party Suite You and 19 guests get to enjoy a Tulsa Drillers game in the comfort of a party suite. This package includes 20 tickets, 4 parking passes, and a $150 food and drink credit. Game day is Sunday, June 23rd. Donated by the Tulsa Drillers �V..«p« Pat Gordon celebrated artist invites you and 7 of your guests for a weekend brunch and pool party at his Maple Ridge home. One of Tulsa's r most celebrated artists and •i wonderful hosts Invites you to enjoy his personal studio and gallery and enjoy a relaxing brunch and swim party. Catering by Polo Grill and spirits donated by Ole' Village Wine & Spirits. Host requests brunch be scheduled by Sept. 1, 2019. Donated by Pat Gordon, Polo Grill, and Ole' Village Wine & Spirits. .r - V m- - �Chris Mantle Painting 9 2011 piece by artist Christopher M. Mantle, whose work is displayed throughout Tulsa, including 36 Degrees North. With an innovative design, these twelve individual paintings can be assembled to form one large painting. This piece also incorporates a rare deviation from Mr. Mantle's trademark signature that was only utilized for one show. The Christopher M. Mantle gallery is located on Cherry Street at 1307 East 15th Street. Donated by Sheena Grewal �II Pride Street" Commemorative ; Bar Cart Original AA Authentic Double Flight i *■" -.1 Attendant Cart. From the rainbow handles to the hidden trays and the solid Mahogany butcher block top, this double sided cart has 6 pull out shelves made from a combination of Mahogany & Wenge wood. Turn it around and you have a wine & champagne cabinet which can hold up to 2 bottles of wine/champagne, as well as 6 American Airlines branded stemless wine glasses & chilling container. Donated by American Airlines American Airlines �II Remembering Stonewall Commemorative Bar Cart Original AA Authentic Single Flight Attendant Cart. From the rainbow handle to the hidden trays, this unique bar cart can hold your favorite beverages along with a Crown Royal spot. 3 pull out shelves made from a combination of Mahogany & Wenge wood. Comes with American Airlines branded rocks glasses, an ice bucket and set of tongs. Donated by American Airlines AmericanAirlines �Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory The New Musical Two tickets to the opening night performance of Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory on Tuesday, Nov. 19, 2019 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. One night stay in the king suite room at the Hyatt Regency-Tulsa and dinner for two at the Daily Grill. Donated by Celebrity Attractions, Payton Family and Hyatt Regency-Tulsa. K. STEP INSIDE A WORLD OF PURE IMAGINAT ON �£ # Trial and Eric! Cooking class and music with Eric Himan for eight guests. Renowned national recording artist Eric Himan is a triple threat: Award-winning songwriter, nationally touring singer on guitar/piano, & host of the online cooking show Trial and Eric! Eric will come to your home and instruct you and your guests on preparing a featured dish. Then enjoy the meal while Eric serenades your guests for an intimate concert. This includes food and drink for eight guests and instruction, plus a 20minute concert. Date and time to be mutually agreed upon; must be used before Dec. 31, 2019. Donated by Eric Himan �Tulsa Opera Season Tickets TULSA(Opera An extravagant season of opera classics, with Bizet's Carmen and Puccini's Madama Butterfly, followed by a new production of Tobias Picker's 1996 opera Emmeline, to be performed in Oklahoma for the first time, and led by Mr. Picker in his opera-conducting debut. Donated by the Tulsa Opera �Beer tasting party for 20 guests with 3 course meal and their choice of 3 international beers at the White Lion Pub which has been a proud supporter of the LGBTQ+ community for more than 20 years. The White Lion Pub is a charming authentic English pub nestled in South Tulsa near 71st St. & S. Yale Ave. Enjoy traditional pub fare including Fish & Chips, Bangers & Mash, Steak & Mushroom Pie, Cottage Pie, Cornish Pastie, Welsh Rarebit, and more! Donated by Betty Southard �PalrnSprings Trip Five nights with two beautiful guc St rooms that sleep four available in Palm Springs. Access to the pool an incredible view of the mountains. Hosts Shane Albee and Dirk Hunter will provide a catered dinner party and serve as concierge. Hosts request winner contact them within 30 days of purchase and to use the stay by March 31, 2020. Includes 50,000 American Airlines miles. AmericanAirlines Donated by Shane Albee & Dirk Hunter and American Airlines � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document 2019 Gala Auction Items Entered into Omelca(?) 10/4/19 OK Cookie Momster A box of a dozen cookies monthly from OKCookieMomster! Now located at both 31st and Harvard and in the Mother Road Market, OkCookieMomster specializesin custom sugar cookies for any occasion! Other flavors are available as well. This lesbian-owned business will also incorporate LGBT+ themed cookies throughout the year! Donated by OK Cookie Momster Celine Dion at the BOK Center Two concert tickets to Celine Dion at the BOK Center, hotel accommodations and dinner before the concert provided. Donated by BOK/SMG Center BOK CENTER Living Kitchen The private party experience with the Living Kitchen offers a seven-course farm table dinner for 15 prepared with locally grown products. Living Kitchen schedules private parties on Thursday nights during their season. Dates are subject to availability on the Living Kitchen calendar from May through November 2019. Donated by Living Kitchen LIVING KITCHEN FARM & DAIRY NYC Broadway Weekend Jet away to New York City with 50,000 American Airline miles, and enjoy a three-night stay at The Westin New York-Times Square plus two tickets to the musicals Oklahoma! and The Cher Show. Must be booked 60 days prior and subject to availability. Donated byTanniger Philanthropies and American Airlines TANNINGER ENTERTAINMENT American Airlines RODGERS & HAMMERSTEIN'S OKLAHOMA! the cher show a new musical Tulsa Drillers Party Suite You and 19 guests get to enjoy a Tulsa Drillers game in the comfort of a party suite. This package includes 20 tickets, 4 parking passes, and a $150 food and drink credit. Game day is Sunday, June 23rd. Donated by the Tulsa Drillers T Drillers Brunch at Pat Gordon's Home Pat Gordon celebrated artist invites you and 7 of your guests for a weekend brunch and pool party at his Maple Ridge home. One of Tulsa's most celebrated artists and wonderful hosts invites you to enjoy his personal studio and gallery and enjoy a relaxing brunch and swim party. Catering by Polo Grill and spirits donated by Ole' Village Wine & Spirits. Host requests brunch be scheduled by Sept. 1, 2019. Donated by Pat Gordon, Polo Grill, and Ole' Village Wine & Spirits. Chris Mantle Painting 2011 piece by artist Christopher M. Mantle, whose work is displayed throughout Tulsa, including 36 Degrees North. With an innovative design, these twelve individual paintings can be assembled to form one large painting. This piece also incorporates a rare deviation from Mr. Mantle's trademark signature that was only utilized for one show. The Christopher M. Mantle gallery is located on Cherry Street at 1307 East 15th Street. Donated by Sheena Grewal "Pride Street" Commemorative Bar Cart Original AA Authentic Double Flight Attendant Cart. From the rainbow handles to the hidden trays and the solid Mahogany butcher block top, this double sided cart has 6 pull out shelves made from a combination of Mahogany & Wenge wood. Turn it around and you have a wine & champagne cabinet which can hold up to 2 bottles of wine/champagne, as well as 6 American Airlines branded stemless wine glasses & chilling container. Donated by American Airlines American Airlines "Remembering Stonewall" Commemorative Bar Cart Original AA Authentic Single Flight Attendant Cart. From the rainbow handle to the hidden trays, this unique bar cart can hold your favorite beverages along with a Crown Royal spot. 3 pull out shelves made from a combination of Mahogany & Wenge wood. Comes with American Airlines branded rocks glasses, an ice bucket and set of tongs. Donated by American Airlines American Airlines Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory The New Musical Two tickets to the opening night performance of Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory on Tuesday, Nov. 19, 2019 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center. One night stay in the king suite room at the Hyatt Regency-Tulsa and dinner for two at the Daily Grill. Donated by Celebrity Attractions, Payton Family and Hyatt Regency-Tulsa. STEP INSIDE A WORLD OF PURE IMAGINATiON ROALD DAHL'S CHARLIE AND THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY THE NEW MUSICAL Trial and Eric! Cooking class and music with Eric Himan for eight guests. Renowned national recording artist Eric Himan is a triple threat: Award-winning songwriter, nationally touring singer on guitar/piano, & host of the online cooking show Trial and Eric! Eric will come to your home and instruct you and your guests on preparing a featured dish. Then enjoy the meal while Eric serenades your guests for an intimate concert. This includes food and drink for eight guests and instruction, plus a 20-minute concert. Date and time to be mutually agreed upon; must be used before Dec. 31, 2019. Donated by Eric Himan Tulsa Opera Season Tickets TULSA OPERA An extravagant season of opera classics, with Bizet's Carmen and Puccini's Madama Butterfly, followed by a new production of Tobias Picker's 1996 opera Emmeline, to be performed in Oklahoma for the first time, and led by Mr. Picker in his opera-conducting debut. Donated by the Tulsa Opera The White Lion Beer tasting party for 20 guests with 3 course meal and their choice of 3 international beers at the White Lion Pub which has been a proud supporter of the LGBTQ+ community for more than 20 years. The White Lion Pub is a charming authentic English pub nestled in South Tulsa near 71st St. & S. Yale Ave. Enjoy traditional pub fare including Fish & Chips, Bangers & Mash, Steak & Mushroom Pie, Cottage Pie, Cornish Pastie, Welsh Rarebit, and more! Donated by Betty Southard Pulled (entry is crossed out) Palm Springs Trip Five nights with two beautiful guest rooms that sleep four available in Palm Springs. Access to the pool and incredible view of the mountains. Hosts Shane Albee and Dirk Hunter will provide a catered dinner party and serve as concierge. Hosts request winner contact them within 30 days of purchase and to use the stay by March 31, 2020. Includes 50,000 American Airlines miles. Donated by Shane Albee & Dirk Hunter and American Airlines American Airlines Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2019] Equality Gala Live Auction Items Subject The topic of the resource 2019 Equality Gala Live Auction Items Description An account of the resource A list of various prizes offered during the 2019 Equality Gala live auction, including tickets to different events and exclusive parties, 14 pages. Handwritten note on first page indicates "Entered into Omelca(?) October 4, 2019". The last item, the Palm Springs Trip, is marked as "Pulled". Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource October 4, 2019 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource OK Cookie Momster, BOK Center, SMG, Living Kitchen, Tanninger Philanthropies, American Airlines, Tulsa Drillers, Pat Gordon, Polo Grill, Ole' Village Wine and Spirits, Chris Mantle, Sheena Grewal, Celebrity Attractions, Payton Family, Hyatt Regency Tulsa, Eric Himan, Tulsa Opera, Betty Southard, Shane Albee, Dirk Hunter 2019 American Airlines auction Betty Southard BOK Center Broadway Celine Dion Charlie and the Chocolate Factory Cher Show Chris Mantle Dirk Hunter Drillers Drillers baseball Equality Gala Equality Gala 2019 Eric Himan gala live auction live auction items Living Kitchen New York City NYC Broadway OK Cookie Momster OkCookieMomster OkEq Oklahoma musical Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) palm springs Pat Gordon Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory Shane Albee Sheena Grewal SMG Tanninger Entertainment The Cher Show The Westin Tulsa Drillers Tulsa Opera Tulsa Performing Arts Center Westin New York City Westin NYC White Lion https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eea6980602d82a5ba99d5038907d2108.pdf 3a0ce5b078acf0261afa34150f3c802e PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen �Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year �Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) Auctioneer Pam McKissick of Williams, Williams & McKissick Companies will lead our Live Auction. Some of the items for the evening include: Aunt Pearl Dinner for 10 �Aunt Pearl (Joe Sears) from the famous play "Greater Tuna" will cook a dinner for 10 people from her recipes of BBQ Brisket, Potato Salad, Bake Beans and her famous Peach Cobbler at the home of Tom and Kathy Williams. Pool side cocktails and hors d'oeuvres will be served before the dinner. Joe Sears is co-author and co-star of the wildly successful Tuna plays, "Greater Tuna, A Tuna Christmas, Red White and Tuna, and Tuna Does Vegas". Joe as been one of the past playwrights for the Cherokee Nation's outdoor drama The Trail of Tears. He is currently the Artistic Director for Theatre Bartlesville. Donated by Kathy & Tom Williams and David Nelson Comedy & Errors Feast for 8 with Celebrity Guests: Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch Eight lucky guests will feast on a magnificent dinner prepared by James Shrader of Palace Café, sip on fabulous wines from the private collection of Dr. Greg Holt, and laugh to the hysterics, antics & humor of comedian celebrities Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch, all in the beautifully renovated modern home of Jay and Ryan. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Dr. Greg Holt, Jay Krottinger, Ryan Tanner, & Palace Café Historic Mansion Dinner Return to the elegance of Tulsa's past with a dinner for 10 in the historic McFarlin Mansion. Enjoy your dinner catered by Tim Williams of TW's ABFAB Catering while listening to the new grand piano. What a spectacular evening for a lucky few! Donated by Pete Harmon and Richard Sims �New York City Stay & Broadway Show Enjoy New York City like never before with a 2-night stay at the worlds first "Straight friendly" hotel, The OUT Hotel - NYC! While in New York, enjoy two tickets to the First Broadway revival of "Pippin" directed by Tony award winner, Diane Paulus. The original Broadway production of Pippin won five Tony Awards during its original five-year run ending in 1977. Trip includes round trip airfare for two on American Airlines. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Square 1 Theatrics, The OUT Hotel - NYC, Jay Krottinger & Ryan Tanner Lake Keystone Dinner for 8 An incredible evening of fine dining for 8 at the McCutchen Lake Keystone Residence, prepared by Chef Tuck Curren from Biga. Enjoy this beautiful home that overlooks Lake Keystone, take in the views of Keystone Dam while looking Eastward down the Arkansas River Valley towards Tulsa. After dinner enjoy the entertainment/game room with a full bar. (Home is handicap accessible) Donated by Chris McCutcheon �Martini Party w/ Catered Food for 12 The party will be hosted by the LaButti's at their residence with Ron showcasing hi fabulous bartending skills and catered food for 12. The party will be held on a Friday or Saturday night on a date mutually agreed upon. Donated by Ron & Robin LaButti White Lion International Beer Tasting & 4-Course Dinner A Beer Connoisseur will explain the pairing and origin, brewing method and short history of each brew throughout the dinner. Each course is paired with imported beers selected to please the palate. Donated by John Southard Pool Party for 20 Bring your swimsuits, towels & floaties for a fabulous pool party. Enjoy swimming, some lounging in the cabana and have a sauna. Catering is by Terri Fermo of Bohemia Catering, featuring the Food Truck Jezebel. Of course there will be ample supply of Perfect Margaritas, beer and soft drinks. Donated by John Southard & Dennis Neill �Four Seasons Jackson Hole Unit #856 The hotel is located about 12 miles from Jackson Town Square at the base of the ski runs that are used as hiking trails in the summer, but walking distance from Teton village & 20 miles from the airport. The unit has 2 bedrooms, 2 baths and the living area has a sofa bed. The unit can accommodate 7 - 8 adults. The property has a spa, gym, outdoor heated pool used all year round, whirlpool and on-property Concierge. 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson �Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George W. Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe McAfee & Taft Gwen & Steve Malcolm David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Rusty Clyma and George W. McCauslan Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Anonymous Laurie Cooper Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Dwight Kealiher George W. Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Carol Tandy Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 8th, 2013) �Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) Auctioneer Pam McKissick of Williams, Williams & McKissick Companies will lead our Live Auction. Some of the items for the evening include: Aunt Pearl Dinner for 10 Aunt Pearl (Joe Sears) from the famous play "Greater Tuna" will cook a dinner for 10 people from her recipes of BBQ Brisket, Potato Salad, Bake Beans and her famous Peach Cobbler at the home of Tom and Kathy Williams. Pool side cocktails and hors d'oeuvres will be served before the dinner. Joe Sears is co-author and co-star of the wildly successful Tuna plays, "Greater Tuna, A Tuna Christmas, Red White and Tuna, and Tuna Does Vegas". Joe as been one of the past playwrights for the Cherokee Nation's outdoor drama The Trail of Tears. He is currently the Artistic Director for Theatre Bartlesville. Donated by Kathy & Tom Williams and David Nelson Comedy & Errors Feast for 8 with Celebrity Guests: Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch Eight lucky guests will feast on a magnificent dinner prepared by James Shrader of Palace Café, sip on fabulous wines from the private collection of Dr. Greg Holt, and laugh to the hysterics, antics & humor of comedian celebrities Leslie Jordan and Bruce Vilanch, all in the beautifully renovated modern home of Jay and Ryan. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Dr. Greg Holt, Jay Krottinger, Ryan Tanner, & Palace Café Historic Mansion Dinner Return to the elegance of Tulsa's past with a dinner for 10 in the historic McFarlin Mansion. Enjoy your dinner catered by Tim Williams of TW's ABFAB Catering while listening to the new grand piano. What a spectacular evening for a lucky few! Donated by Pete Harmon and Richard Sims New York City Stay & Broadway Show Enjoy New York City like never before with a 2-night stay at the worlds first "Straight friendly" hotel, The OUT Hotel - NYC! While in New York, enjoy two tickets to the First Broadway revival of "Pippin" directed by Tony award winner, Diane Paulus. The original Broadway production of Pippin won five Tony Awards during its original five-year run ending in 1977. Trip includes round trip airfare for two on American Airlines. Mutually agreed upon dates. Donated By Square 1 Theatrics, The OUT Hotel - NYC, Jay Krottinger & Ryan Tanner Lake Keystone Dinner for 8 An incredible evening of fine dining for 8 at the McCutchen Lake Keystone Residence, prepared by Chef Tuck Curren from Biga. Enjoy this beautiful home that overlooks Lake Keystone, take in the views of Keystone Dam while looking Eastward down the Arkansas River Valley towards Tulsa. After dinner enjoy the entertainment/game room with a full bar. (Home is handicap accessible) Donated by Chris McCutcheon Martini Party w/ Catered Food for 12 The party will be hosted by the LaButti's at their residence with Ron showcasing hi fabulous bartending skills and catered food for 12. The party will be held on a Friday or Saturday night on a date mutually agreed upon. Donated by Ron & Robin LaButti White Lion International Beer Tasting & 4-Course Dinner A Beer Connoisseur will explain the pairing and origin, brewing method and short history of each brew throughout the dinner. Each course is paired with imported beers selected to please the palate. Donated by John Southard Pool Party for 20 Bring your swimsuits, towels & floaties for a fabulous pool party. Enjoy swimming, some lounging in the cabana and have a sauna. Catering is by Terri Fermo of Bohemia Catering, featuring the Food Truck Jezebel. Of course there will be ample supply of Perfect Margaritas, beer and soft drinks. Donated by John Southard & Dennis Neill Four Seasons Jackson Hole Unit #856 The hotel is located about 12 miles from Jackson Town Square at the base of the ski runs that are used as hiking trails in the summer, but walking distance from Teton village & 20 miles from the airport. The unit has 2 bedrooms, 2 baths and the living area has a sofa bed. The unit can accommodate 7 - 8 adults. The property has a spa, gym, outdoor heated pool used all year round, whirlpool and on-property Concierge. 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George W. Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe McAfee & Taft Gwen & Steve Malcolm David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Rusty Clyma and George W. McCauslan Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Anonymous Laurie Cooper Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Dwight Kealiher George W. Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Carol Tandy Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 8th, 2013) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ Weekly eNews, 8 April 2013 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 8, 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Weekly eNews, 8 April 2013 Description An account of the resource An email newsletter from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) focusing on the 2013 Equality Gala on May 4, 2013, 9 pages. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) 2013 Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Eric Himan gala Jerry Custer Judy MacIntyre Eason Kirk Holt Kris Kohl Legislative Ally Award Lifetime Achievement Award Media Advocate Award Miranda Kaiser Nancy Eggen OkEq OkEq Equality Center OkEq Volunteer of the Year Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Paul Allen Phillip Kaiser Randy Vineyard Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason Tempest Cartwright Tulsa People Tulsa People Magazine TulsaPeople Magazine https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c6afc532315be3277e068179d6381670.pdf fb7d1a5b3b03d120fa6a4664ee97d01f PDF Text Text ï»¿ Announcing the 40th Anniversary Equality Gala �40th Anniversary Equality Gala Saturday, April 18, 2020 6:00 p.m. at the Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 �The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Foundation The George Kaiser Family Foundation Anonymous Dennis Neill and John Southard Cresap Family Foundation Pedistat Dr Richard & Debra Gordon Family American Airlines Dr. Al Carlozzi and Renee Marshall-Carlozzi Osage Casino ONEOK Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Dr. Tim Cole and Chance Phillips Anne & Henry Zarrow Family Foundation �Larry Ward Boomtown Tees & Keystone Chevrolet Jason McVicker and Justin Clary No one admitted under 18 unless accompanied by an adult over 21. Click Your Heels Together and Come Home A decade comes to a close, and the past ten years have witnessed progress and key advances for LGBTQ+ individuals. Oklahomans for Equality will be celebrating our 40th anniversary, and we have chosen ruby red slippers from the movie "The Wizard of Oz" as our 2020 Equality Gala emblem. There has been significant push back against our advances for full equality, and we have seen a rise in vandalism an violence directed as a result. We actively resisted those who would try and strip us of our victories. Creating safe spaces, and speaking out against all forms of oppression consumes our resources and challenges us to remain unifi �You will recall Glinda the good witch told Dorothy that the ruby slippers' magic "must be very powerful or the wicked witch of the west wouldn't want them so badly." Toward the end of the movie, after several failed attempts to go hom Dorothy thought she would never be safe until Glinda revealed to her that she had the power all along. Dorothy had i her power the ability to go home and live her life openly and freely all along. For forty years, Oklahomans for Equality has been telling LGBTQ+ individuals and their families you had the power within you all along. We help our constituents learn to stand up for themselves and others who are marginalized. Please consider being a sponsor of the 2020 Equality Gala so we can continue to help individuals and families find th magic within them to live authentic empowered lives. Toby Jenkins CEO and Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. 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Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers ï»¿ Announcing the 40th Anniversary Equality Gala 40th Anniversary Equality Gala Saturday, April 18, 2020 6:00 p.m. at the Cox Business Center 100 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74103 The Charles and Lynn Schusterman Foundation The George Kaiser Family Foundation Anonymous Dennis Neill and John Southard Cresap Family Foundation Pedistat Dr Richard & Debra Gordon Family American Airlines Dr. Al Carlozzi and Renee Marshall-Carlozzi Osage Casino ONEOK Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC Dr. Tim Cole and Chance Phillips Anne & Henry Zarrow Family Foundation Larry Ward Boomtown Tees & Keystone Chevrolet Jason McVicker and Justin Clary No one admitted under 18 unless accompanied by an adult over 21. Click Your Heels Together and Come Home A decade comes to a close, and the past ten years have witnessed progress and key advances for LGBTQ+ individuals. Oklahomans for Equality will be celebrating our 40th anniversary, and we have chosen ruby red slippers from the movie "The Wizard of Oz" as our 2020 Equality Gala emblem. There has been significant push back against our advances for full equality, and we have seen a rise in vandalism an violence directed as a result. We actively resisted those who would try and strip us of our victories. Creating safe spaces, and speaking out against all forms of oppression consumes our resources and challenges us to remain unifi You will recall Glinda the good witch told Dorothy that the ruby slippers' magic "must be very powerful or the wicked witch of the west wouldn't want them so badly." Toward the end of the movie, after several failed attempts to go hom Dorothy thought she would never be safe until Glinda revealed to her that she had the power all along. Dorothy had i her power the ability to go home and live her life openly and freely all along. For forty years, Oklahomans for Equality has been telling LGBTQ+ individuals and their families you had the power within you all along. We help our constituents learn to stand up for themselves and others who are marginalized. Please consider being a sponsor of the 2020 Equality Gala so we can continue to help individuals and families find th magic within them to live authentic empowered lives. Toby Jenkins CEO and Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality | 918-743-4297 | 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 | www.okeq.org Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Unsubscribe okeqvolunteer@gmail.com Update Profile | About Constant Contact Sent by enews@okeq.org in collaboration with Try email marketing for free today! Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2020] OKEQ Weekly eNews, 30 January 2020 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 30, 2020 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Weekly eNews, 30 January 2020 Description An account of the resource An email newsletter from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) sent on January 30, 2020, 5 pages. Primarily focuses on the upcoming 40th Anniversary Equality Gala planned for April 18, 2020. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Toby Jenkins 2020 40th Anniversary Equality Gala American Airlines Anne and Henry Zarrow Family Foundation Boomtown Tees Chance Phillips Charles and Lynn Schusterman Foundation Cresap Family Foundation Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill Equality Center donations Dr. Al Carlozzi and Renee Marshall-Carlozzi Dr. Richard and Debera Gordon Family Dr. Tim Cole email eNews Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2020 fundraisers fundraising George Kaiser Family Foundation Jason McVicker John Southard Justin Clary Kelly Kirby Keystone Chevrolet Larry Ward OkEq OkEq Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality fundraising ONEOK Osage Casino Pedistat Tim Cole Toby Jenkins https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/411a54f4a8f786630b79d2c7707a3dc1.pdf 58c73d3d72ccb19750985f59dc143a12 PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq staff are working on putting together a Marriage Equality Week and we are extending an invitation to EBA Members to show off your business services during an OkEq Wedding Fair. During the week of March 25th through March 30th, 2013, OkEq staff are setting up events in the evening to showcase Marriage Equality. Here is what we have on the calendar so far: Monday, March 25th TU Law School's SODA Group will present "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality". Local Faith Leaders from inclusive congregations who support Marriage Equality. Tuesday, March 26th OkEq Advocacy Chair, Mike Redman, will discuss the day's proceedings in the U.S. Supreme Court hearings about two cases - Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) & Prop 8. Wednesday, March 27th Panel discussion with local couples who have been legally married in other jurisdictions and plantiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Defense Lawsuit discussing why marriage matters. Thursday, March 28th �EBA member led presentation "Home Buyers Education" Attorney, Conor Cleary, will recap the discussions from the DOMA and Prop 8 hearings. He will also go more in depth on DOMA. Friday, March 29th Screening of Marriage Equality Documentary with Wedding Cake. Saturday, March 30th OkEq with Family and Children's Services will present Within Our Reach a couples relationship enhancement workshop. What does this mean for our EBA members? We would like to have information tables set up in the Sue Welch Great Hall with your business information. We imagine it as a Gay Wedding Fair to be available for the people joining us for the events. You don't have to man a table but we would like to provide information booths to showcase our EBA Businesses. Free of charge. Sounds awesome right? We thought so too. So if you would like to participate in our Marriage Equality Week, please email our Program Coordinator, Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org. Or just feel free to drop by the Center and speak with Mary or Lucas Green, our Office Manager. We are really excited to bring this to our community and hope our EBA members will help us make this a fabulous week! �The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) www.okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OkEq staff are working on putting together a Marriage Equality Week and we are extending an invitation to EBA Members to show off your business services during an OkEq Wedding Fair. During the week of March 25th through March 30th, 2013, OkEq staff are setting up events in the evening to showcase Marriage Equality. Here is what we have on the calendar so far: Monday, March 25th TU Law School's SODA Group will present "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality". Local Faith Leaders from inclusive congregations who support Marriage Equality. Tuesday, March 26th OkEq Advocacy Chair, Mike Redman, will discuss the day's proceedings in the U.S. Supreme Court hearings about two cases - Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) & Prop 8. Wednesday, March 27th Panel discussion with local couples who have been legally married in other jurisdictions and plantiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Defense Lawsuit discussing why marriage matters. Thursday, March 28th EBA member led presentation "Home Buyers Education" Attorney, Conor Cleary, will recap the discussions from the DOMA and Prop 8 hearings. He will also go more in depth on DOMA. Friday, March 29th Screening of Marriage Equality Documentary with Wedding Cake. Saturday, March 30th OkEq with Family and Children's Services will present Within Our Reach - a couples relationship enhancement workshop. What does this mean for our EBA members? We would like to have information tables set up in the Sue Welch Great Hall with your business information. We imagine it as a Gay Wedding Fair to be available for the people joining us for the events. You don't have to man a table but we would like to provide information booths to showcase our EBA Businesses. Free of charge. Sounds awesome right? We thought so too. So if you would like to participate in our Marriage Equality Week, please email our Program Coordinator, Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org. Or just feel free to drop by the Center and speak with Mary or Lucas Green, our Office Manager. We are really excited to bring this to our community and hope our EBA members will help us make this a fabulous week! The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) www.okeq.org Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] EBA Members Invitation to OKEQ Marriage Fair Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource March 26 - 30, 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Equality Business Alliance Members Invitation to Oklahomans for Equality 2013 Marriage Fair Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Description An account of the resource An announcement from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) inviting members of the Equality Business Alliance (EBA) to set up information tables and booths during their week-long OKEQ Wedding Fair between March 26 to March 30, 2013, three pages. 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Center Gay marriage marriage equality Marriage Equality Week Mary Jones OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Marriage Equality Week Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d9f6084760894fc3308c40db10e460a9.pdf dd62e96311ed8067fd026d2faa3e1242 PDF Text Text eNews April 4th, 2013 In This Issue First Thursday Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Tickets are now on sale and more information can be found at www.okeq.org/gala eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor Green Country Bears Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Book Study Swing Dance Class 8 Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Tulsa NOW Baby Boomers and Medicare Miss Jolt 2013 Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit No Walls Entertainment Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CODE Pride Store MOREcolor Artist Submissions Rainbow Library Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Volunteer Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and Find Us on Facebook �installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa Metro Softball League Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Come out and help Tulsa Metro Softball League celebrate the start of their 5th Spring Season on Saturday April 7th, 2013. All events are open to the public and TMSL has invited everyone to attend! Below is a list of the events TMSL has planned for Opening Weekend 2013. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Uniform Night 2013 Date: Friday, April 5th, 2013 Time: 7:30 pm - ??? Location: Tulsa Eagle - 1338 E. 3rd Street in Tulsa What: Come out to meet the teams and players at TMSL's first social event of the season. Opening Day 2013 Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 "First Pitch" : 12:45 pm on Field 1 Games: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Location: Carl Smith Sports Complex - 17120 E. 21st Street - Tulsa Fields: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Opening Day Extra Innings Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 Time: 4:30 pm - ?? Location: 209 The Arts Bar - 209 N. Boulder Ave in Tulsa What: A fun social event held after the games to drink and mingle To learn more and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 The next event will be Singles Bingo. Not your Grandma's bingo night. You will be glad you stopped by. Please call 918.743.4297 or email mary.jones@okeq.org to reserve a seat. Seating will be limited. The eNews for the week of April 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Green Country Bears - Spring Fling Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Come 'Fool Around' with the Green Country Bears for Spring Fling, April 13th, 2013 7:00 pm, at the Tulsa Eagle. Lots of Food, Fun, and Entertainment! Hamburgers and Hot Dogs off the grill. Come party with the Bears! For more information about the Green Country Bears, please visit greencountrybears.net SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 �The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Tulsa National Organization for Women Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Meicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your Parents' MONEY. Do your Parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. Miss JOLT 2013 Friday, April 12th, 2013; 8:15 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring it's annual Miss JOLT pageant Saturday, April 12th, 2013 at 8:15 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in October this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of this weekend tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures for Reign VI "The Old Lady who lives in a Shoe - A night of Nursery Rhyme Fantasy) Saturday, April 13th, 2013 Meet/Greet & Ceremony 5:00 - 7:00 pm @ The Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, Donations will be accepted) Show 8:30 pm - ? @ The Bamboo Lounge (No Cover) Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Host: Empress VI - Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Suggested Dress is Formal or Theme Attire CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Proceeds benefit the I.C.A.O. Reign VI Charity Fund Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm more or message us on OnFor April 6th,information 2013 the email Tulsa impcourtok@gmail.com Uniform and Facebook Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Time of the Kingfishers' by David Watmough You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A rich, elegiac novel about family, friendship, and loyalty featuring Watmough's protagonist Davey Bryant. As the compassionate and witty narrator, Davey leads the reader through various upheavals in the life he shares with Ken, his companion, and their friends. At the heart of their journeys is Davey's own plaintive recollections of a past we all hope to recapture. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Tickets are now on sale and more information can be found at www.okeq.org/gala eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa Metro Softball League Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Come out and help Tulsa Metro Softball League celebrate the start of their 5th Spring Season on Saturday April 7th, 2013. All events are open to the public and TMSL has invited everyone to attend! Below is a list of the events TMSL has planned for Opening Weekend 2013. Uniform Night 2013 Date: Friday, April 5th, 2013 Time: 7:30 pm - ??? Location: Tulsa Eagle - 1338 E. 3rd Street in Tulsa What: Come out to meet the teams and players at TMSL's first social event of the season. Opening Day 2013 Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 "First Pitch" : 12:45 pm on Field 1 Games: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Location: Carl Smith Sports Complex - 17120 E. 21st Street - Tulsa Fields: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Opening Day Extra Innings Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 Time: 4:30 pm - ?? Location: 209 The Arts Bar - 209 N. Boulder Ave in Tulsa What: A fun social event held after the games to drink and mingle Tolearnmoreandtogetsigneduptoplayvisit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 The next event will be Singles Bingo. Not your Grandma's bingo night. You will be glad you stopped by. Please call 918.743.4297 or email mary.jones@okeq.org to reserve a seat. Seating will be limited. The eNews for the week of April 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Green Country Bears - Spring Fling Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Come 'Fool Around' with the Green Country Bears for Spring Fling, April 13th, 2013 7:00 pm, at the Tulsa Eagle. Lots of Food, Fun, and Entertainment! Hamburgers and Hot Dogs off the grill. Come party with the Bears! For more information about the Green Country Bears, please visit greencountrybears.net Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a one- weekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa National Organization for Women Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Meicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your Parents' MONEY. Do your Parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. Miss JOLT 2013 Friday, April 12th, 2013; 8:15 pm Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring it's annual Miss JOLT pageant Saturday, April 12th, 2013 at 8:15 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in October this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of this weekend tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next H.O.P .E. support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures for Reign VI "The Old Lady who lives in a Shoe - A night of Nursery Rhyme Fantasy) Saturday, April 13th, 2013 Meet/Greet & Ceremony 5:00 - 7:00 pm @ The Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, Donations will be accepted) Show 8:30 pm - ? @ The Bamboo Lounge (No Cover) Host: Empress VI - Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Suggested Dress is Formal or Theme Attire CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Proceeds benefit the I.C.A.O. Reign VI Charity Fund Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm For more information email impcourtok@gmail.com or message us on On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. Facebook MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Time of the Kingfishers' by David Watmough You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A rich, elegiac novel about family, friendship, and loyalty featuring Watmough's protagonist Davey Bryant. As the compassionate and witty narrator, Davey leads the reader through various upheavals in the life he shares with Ken, his companion, and their friends. At the heart of their journeys is Davey's own plaintive recollections of a past we all hope to recapture. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm| Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Neill Equality Center Dining Out for Life Diversity and Dignity Group EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 First Thursday First Thursday Art Reception GAMILY Gamily Picnic Day Gender Outreach Green Country Bears H.O.P.E. HOPE ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Lambda Bowling League LGBT Softball Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Medicare Medicare Supplements Miss JOLT Miss JOLT 2013 MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition MOREcolor Fine Arts MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition Mr. Leather Mr. Leather 2013 Mr. Leather Contest Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native Americans No Walls Entertainment Group OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahoma Mr. Leather Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013 Oklahoma Swing Syndicate Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board OML OML 2013 Pride at TU Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers Renegade Rev. Bob Lawrence Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Reverend Bob Lawrence SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) TMSL TOSS TU TU High School GSA Visit TU High School GSA Visit Day Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa Lambda Bowling Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa National Organization for Women Tulsa NOW Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Prime Timers Tulsa Theatre Tulsa Theatres Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA) Tulsa Uniform Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Zoo University of Tulsa Volunteer Tulsa Workforce Oklahoma Access Point zoo https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/125eae971cca8b12ef928d9fad6c19c7.pdf 23734532493642047774b303fced6f17 PDF Text Text eNews February 20th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Know Your Rights Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013. Thank You for your support, Havah! Equality Business Alliance Swing Dance Class Community Hero Awards SAGE hosts TCC Camp Fire Candy Sale OUTlaw Legal Workshop Gamily Tulsa Pride 2013 TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Guys Dine Too First Thursday Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Spirit Imperial Court LGBT Equality Day Night of 1001 Divinations Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 6:00 - 10:00 pm The Rusty Crane 109 N Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Oklahomans for Equality wants you and your family and friends to eat dinner with us at The Rusty Crane on Tuesday, February 26th from 6 - 10 Find Us on Facebook �pm. OkEq will receive 10% of the proceeds for the night. www.therustycranetulsa.com TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, February 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 21st, 7 pm On Monday, February 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. The presentation will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook February's EBA Monthly Mixer will be will be hosted by Courtyard Atlas Life Downtown on Wednesday February 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. Plan on giving us a 2 minute commercial about your Business. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to take orders and get your phone ringing. EBA mixers are open to members and non-members alike. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group work "Girlfriends" Courtyard by Marriott - ATLAS LIFE BUILDING TULSA 415 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Tai Chi Class Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OkEq now taking nominations for Community Hero Awards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on May 4th, 2013, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. Deadline for submissions is Thursday, February, 28th . The following awards are presented: Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime of dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBT community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognize those individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local area youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group and community. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 1st Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. You can download a form here. Please return completed form to lucas.green@okeq.org SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, February 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). James Prather OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Boot Camp Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Events will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm A new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus Sunday, February 24th, 2013 - 7:00 pm - Oscar Night Watch Party - Meet and Greet at Liberty Tower Club Room, 1502 S. Boulder Ave. To attend please RSVP to Mark Weathers at mark_w@netscape.com or Rusty Kidd at russell.kidd@att.net. Food and drink will be provided. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Open Circle presents 'Night of 1001 Divinations' MISSION: Saturday, February 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equlity Center 621 E. 4th, Tulsa, OK Just in time to banish the mid-winter blahs! A relaxed evening that will be filled with music, dancing, story-telling, henna artists, readers and more fun stuff to be announced. Food will be pot-luck style, so this is a good time to show off your favorite Middle-Eastern specialty if you want, or that fabulous dessert your Great Aunt Ida swore she'd never give anyone the recipe to! Please, NO PORK. We would like to honor the local cultural traditions. Middle eastern/Arabian themed dress is encouraged, but not required. All we need is you! BYOB as usual; mixers will be available for purchase from Open Circle. There will also be a raffle...and we're hearing about lots of good items just waiting to go home with you. Ages 16 and older. As usual, you must be 21 to drink alcohol. Tickets are available at Earth and Soul...and will be available at other venues soon. Tickets are $15.00 per person, and if you want to reserve a Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �table for you and 7 of your very best buds, just contact us. Visit us on Facebook! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl ' by Paul Colapinto You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine-and a total failure. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's-amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013. Thank You for your support, Havah! Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 6:00 - 10:00 pm The Rusty Crane 109 N Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Oklahomans for Equality wants you and your family and friends to eat dinner with us at The Rusty Crane on Tuesday, February 26th from 6 - 10 eNews February 20th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Know Your Rights Equality Business Alliance Swing Dance Class Community Hero Awards SAGE hosts TCC Camp Fire Candy Sale OUTlaw Legal Workshop Gamily Tulsa Pride 2013 TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Guys Dine Too First Thursday Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Spirit Imperial Court LGBT Equality Day Night of 1001 Divinations Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality pm. OkEq will receive 10% of the proceeds for the night. www.therustycranetulsa.com TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, February 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, February 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. The presentation will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook February's EBA Monthly Mixer will be will be hosted by Courtyard Atlas Life Downtown on Wednesday February 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. Plan on giving us a 2 minute commercial about your Business. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to take orders and get your phone ringing. EBA mixers are open to members and non-members alike. Courtyard by Marriott - ATLAS LIFE BUILDING TULSA 415 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OkEq now taking nominations for Community Hero Awards OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 21st, 7 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group work "Girlfriends" Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on May 4th, 2013, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. Deadline for submissions is Thursday, February, 28th. The following awards are presented: Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime of dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBT community in Oklahoma. Community Hero Award - Recognize those individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local area youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group and community. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 1st - Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. You can download a form here. Please return completed form to lucas.green@okeq.org SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, February 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. James Prather SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Events will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm A new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus Sunday, February 24th, 2013 - 7:00 pm - Oscar Night Watch Party - Meet and Greet at Liberty Tower Club Room, 1502 S. Boulder Ave. To attend please RSVP to Mark Weathers at mark_w@netscape.com or Rusty Kidd at russell.kidd@att.net. Food and drink will be provided. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma website or Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Open Circle presents 'Night of 1001 Divinations' Saturday, February 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equlity Center 621 E. 4th, Tulsa, OK Just in time to banish the mid-winter blahs! A relaxed evening that will be filled with music, dancing, story-telling, henna artists, readers and more fun stuff to be announced. Food will be pot-luck style, so this is a good time to show off your favorite Middle-Eastern specialty if you want, or that fabulous dessert your Great Aunt Ida swore she'd never give anyone the recipe to! Please, NO PORK. We would like to honor the local cultural traditions. Middle eastern/Arabian themed dress is encouraged, but not required. All we need is you! BYOB as usual; mixers will be available for purchase from Open Circle. There will also be a raffle...and we're hearing about lots of good items just waiting to go home with you. Ages 16 and older. As usual, you must be 21 to drink alcohol. Tickets are available at Earth and Soul...and will be available at other venues soon. Tickets are $15.00 per person, and if you want to reserve a strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. table for you and 7 of your very best buds, just contact us. Visit us on Facebook! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl ' by Paul Colapinto You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine-and a total failure. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's-amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm| Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ Weekly eNews, 20 February 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Weekly eNews, 20 February 2013 Description An account of the resource An email newsletter from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the week of February 20, 2013, 10 pages. Primarily details upcoming events and programs. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 20, 2013 2013 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Be Our Voice Give a Day Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Community Hero Award Council Oak Men's Chorale Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Diversity and Dignity Group Eating Out for Equality EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Center First Thursday First Thursday Art Reception GAMILY Gender Outreach Girl Scouts Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Guys Dine Too H.E.A.R.T. H.O.P.E. HEART HEART Native American Coalition of Green Country HOPE HOPE Testing HOPE Testing Clinic ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) Know Your Rights Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon LGBT Equality Day LGBT Softball Lifetime Achievement Award Mr. Leather Mr. Leather 2013 Mr. Leather Contest Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native American Coalition of Green County Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Native Americans OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahoma Swing Syndicate Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Open Circle OUTlaw OUTlaw Legal Workshop pride Parade Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion Rev. Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance (SODA) Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance Spectrum Knits TAPT TCC TCC Center TEN The Equality Network The Equality Network (TEN) The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) TMSL TOSS TU TU Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance TU SODA Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Gay Pride Parade Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Mr. Leather Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Volunteer Tulsa Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1db3afe28cf3494047b1141c2d549250.pdf 991df1e44807a652dfda85540eab99c0 PDF Text Text eNews February 28th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Red State Brief Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the 1st anniversary of their wedding in Washington D.C., Laura Belmonte and Susan Arrington have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday March 3rd, 2013. Congratulations Laura and Susan and Thank You for the support! Guys Dine Too Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale First Thursday Gamily Swing Dance Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE hosts TCC TMSL LGBT Equality Day Native HIV/AIDS Days Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Suzanne Westenhoefer Expatriate Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Two Spirit Imperial Court Pride Store Be Our Voice, Give a Day "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook �hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 - 7:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate �lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm Topic for February 28th : Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, February 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday February 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8 PM, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm �constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org �Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Expatriate Friday, March 1st and Saturday March 2nd, 2013; 8:00 pm Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St "EXPATRIATE" a two-act play with all vocal music. Poet, playwright, and performer Lenelle Moise has written, composed and stars in a compelling Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. �two woman production. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Friday, March 1st & Saturday, March 2nd at the Nightingale Theater at 8:00 pm. Achingly platonic soulmates Claudie and Alphine are unsung musicians and longtime best-friends. Both wrestle with the addiction, abandonment and sexual trauma that run in their respective family histories. Diligent, dutiful, Julliard-trained composer Claudie may or may not be celibate while sparkly, indulgent Alphine has more natural star-potential and sex appeal than she knows what to do with. Supported by playwright/ composer Lenelle Moise's funk-infused all-vocal score. For more info visit Living Arts Tulsa lenellemoise.com Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org �The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Landing' by Emma Donoghue You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A delightful, old-fashioned love story with a uniquely twenty-first-century twist, Landing is a romantic comedy that explores the pleasures and sorrows of long-distance relationshipsthe kind millions of us now maintain mostly by plane, phone, and Internet. Síle is a stylish citizen of the new Dublin, a veteran flight attendant who's traveled the world. Jude is a twenty-five-year-old archivist, stubbornly attached to the tiny town of Ireland, Ontario, in which she was born and raised. On her first plane trip, Jude's and Síle's worlds touch and snag at Heathrow Airport. In the course of the next year, their lives, and those of their friends and families, will be drawn into a new, shaky orbit. This sparkling, lively story explores �age-old questions: Does where you live matter more than who you live with? What would you give up for love, and would you be a fool to do so? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the 1st anniversary of their wedding in Washington D.C., Laura Belmonte and Susan Arrington have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday March 3rd, 2013. Congratulations Laura and Susan and Thank You for the support! Be Our Voice, Give a Day "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense ofMarriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel eNews February 28th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Red State Brief Equality Business Alliance Guys Dine Too Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale First Thursday Gamily Swing Dance Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE hosts TCC TMSL LGBT Equality Day Native HIV/AIDS Days Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Suzanne Westenhoefer Expatriate Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Two Spirit Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 - 7:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm Topic for February 28th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, February 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday February 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8 PM, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Expatriate Friday, March 1st and Saturday March 2nd, 2013; 8:00 pm Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St "EXPATRIATE" a two-act play with all vocal music. Poet, playwright, and performer Lenelle Moise has written, composed and stars in a compelling Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. two woman production. Friday, March 1st & Saturday, March 2nd at the Nightingale Theater at 8:00 pm. Achingly platonic soulmates Claudie and Alphine are unsung musicians and longtime best-friends. Both wrestle with the addiction, abandonment and sexual trauma that run in their respective family histories. Diligent, dutiful, Julliard-trained composer Claudie may or may not be celibate while sparkly, indulgent Alphine has more natural star-potential and sex appeal than she knows what to do with. Supported by playwright/ composer Lenelle Moise's funk-infused all-vocal score. For more info visit Living Arts Tulsa lenellemoise.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma website or Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Landing' by Emma Donoghue You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A delightful, old-fashioned love story with a uniquely twenty-first-century twist, Landing is a romantic comedy that explores the pleasures and sorrows of long-distance relationships- the kind millions of us now maintain mostly by plane, phone, and Internet. Síle is a stylish citizen of the new Dublin, a veteran flight attendant who's traveled the world. Jude is a twenty-five-year-old archivist, stubbornly attached to the tiny town of Ireland, Ontario, in which she was born and raised. On her first plane trip, Jude's and Síle's worlds touch and snag at Heathrow Airport. In the course of the next year, their lives, and those of their friends and families, will be drawn into a new, shaky orbit. This sparkling, lively story explores age-old questions: Does where you live matter more than who you live with? What would you give up for love, and would you be a fool to do so? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm| Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ Weekly eNews, 28 February 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Weekly eNews, 28 February 2013 Description An account of the resource An email newsletter from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the week of February 28, 2013, 11 pages. Primarily details upcoming events and programs. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 28, 2013 2013 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day 6th Annual Turn About Show Be Our Voice Give a Day Camp Fire Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire USA COLORAMA Coming Out Workshop Council Oak Men's Chorale Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Diversity and Dignity Group EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Center Equality Day Expatriate First Thursday First Thursday Art Reception GAMILY Gender Outreach Girl Scouts Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Guys Dine Too H.E.A.R.T. H.O.P.E. HEART HEART Native American Coalition of Green Country HOPE HOPE Testing HOPE Testing Clinic ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Lambda Bowling League LGBT Equality Day LGBT Softball Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Living Arts of Tulsa Living Arts Tulsa marriage equality Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native American Coalition of Green County Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Native Americans OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahoma Swing Syndicate Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) OUTlaw OUTlaw Legal Workshop Pride Idol Pride Store Prime Timers SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT TCC TCC Center TEN The Equality Network The Equality Network (TEN) The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) TMSL TOSS Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Lambda Bowling Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Mr. Leather Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Turn About Show Volunteer Tulsa Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/77d1f14cf698e0066aec528fdc2b96e2.pdf 8cdfcef029c77ac73f9dee8bb391f0e9 PDF Text Text eNews March 5th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic Equality Business Alliance LGBT Equality Day Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala SAGE hosts TCC DREAM Act Oklahoma TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Homebuyer Class Tulsa Mister Leather EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Council Oak Mens Chorale MOREcolor Art Show Red State Brief Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library �Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Diversity & Dignity Group Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Self Defense Class Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and �contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the �public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. �Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center �Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! </div> </div> </div> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> eNews March 5th, 2013 </div> </div> </div> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries atwww.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Dennis R Neill Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr ( Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. </div> <div class="column"> website or </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense ofMarriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Upcoming Events </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. 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Neill Equality Center Diversity and Dignity Group DOAK DREAM ACT DREAM ACT Oklahoma DREAM ACT Oklahoma (DAOK) EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Center Equality Day Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Family and Children's Services First Thursday First Thursday Art Exhibit GAMILY Gender Outreach Girl Scouts Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma H.E.A.R.T. H.O.P.E. HEART HEART Native American Coalition of Green Country Homebuyer Education Class HOPE HOPE Testing HOPE Testing Clinic I.C.A.O. ICAO Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT) JOLT Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Lambda Bowling League Legal Aid Services Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic LGBT Equality Day LGBT Softball marriage equality Marriage Equality Week Medicare Medicare Supplements MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition MOREcolor Fine Arts MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition Mr. Leather Mr. Leather 2013 Mr. Leather Contest Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native American Coalition of Green County Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Native Americans OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Pride Idol Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders services & Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT TCC TCC Center TMSL Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa Lambda Bowling Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Mr. Leather Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Turn About Show Volunteer Tulsa Within Our Reach Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3acdd815135726b7008898c5d558021b.pdf b7ed2171239b7accdbe3d478328bd326 PDF Text Text eNews March 13th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE hosts TCC Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will be hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Business Alliance OUTlaw Legal Workshop Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 DREAM Act Oklahoma Equality Gala Native HIV/AIDS Days TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 14th anniversary, Kelly Kirby and Charles Johnston made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center on the day of Sunday, March 10th, 2013. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, Kelly and Charles! Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Dining Out for Life Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Topic for March 14th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for �Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator, Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Swing Dance Class �Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm Youth Program New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �21 to Drink! DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The History of Lesbian Hair' by Mary Dugger You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The History of Lesbian Hair, Mary Dugger delivers an unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. The redoubtable Ms. D. offers an uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams, and short takes, subdivided into Life ("The Downside to Lesbian Chic", how to "Build Your Own Lesbian", "So You Want to Be a Straight Girl", and the ultimate definition of children "pets with thumbs"), Liberty ("Far Right Trading Cards", the ethics of outing, and an irrefutable argument proving that if homosexuals really do make up only 1.5 percent of the population, then every gay person in Chicago spends an average of $13.11 on liquor every single day), and The Pursuit of Happiness (the birth of the indomitable alter ego Marie DuGuerre, and her ongoing search for love, romance, and a decent vacation). Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will be hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 14th anniversary, Kelly Kirby and Charles Johnston made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center on the day of Sunday, March 10th, 2013. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, Kelly and Charles! </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Topic for March 14th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr ( Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator, Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to drink! <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Dennis R Neill Equality Center </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The History of Lesbian Hair' by Mary Dugger You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The History of Lesbian Hair, Mary Dugger delivers an unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. The redoubtable Ms. D. offers an uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams, and short takes, subdivided into Life ("The Downside to Lesbian Chic", how to "Build Your Own Lesbian", "So You Want to Be a Straight Girl", and the ultimate definition of children - "pets with thumbs"), Liberty ("Far Right Trading Cards", the ethics of outing, and an irrefutable argument proving that if homosexuals really do make up only 1.5 percent of the population, then every gay person in Chicago spends an average of $13.11 on liquor every single day), and The Pursuit of Happiness (the birth of the indomitable alter ego Marie DuGuerre, and her ongoing search for love, romance, and a decent vacation). 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Primarily details upcoming events and programs. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource March 13, 2013 2013 6th Annual Turn About Show AIDS AIDS/HIV Be Our Voice Give a Day Coming Out Workshop Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project DAOK Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dining Out for Life Diversity and Dignity Group DREAM ACT DREAM ACT Oklahoma DREAM ACT Oklahoma (DAOK) EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Family and Children's Services H.E.A.R.T. H.O.P.E. HEART Native American Coalition of Green Country HIV HIV/AIDs Homebuyer Education Class HOPE HOPE Testing HOPE Testing Clinic Know Your Rights Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Marriage Equality Week MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition MOREcolor Fine Arts MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Native American Coalition of Green County Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Native Americans OkEq OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) OUTlaw OUTlaw Legal Workshop Pride Idol Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers SAGE Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance (SODA) Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance SODA Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT TCC Center TU Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance TU SODA Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Turn About Show Volunteer Tulsa Within Our Reach Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4808d90f963034cf0fe9e88a98dd1563.pdf 5eb7183314a0022c17e0e57da0a5f4be PDF Text Text eNews March 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer LifeLine First Thursday Dining Out for Life Be Our Voice, Give a Day Tim Dickmann made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign in memory of his mother, Barbara Dickmann's birthday and sponsored OkEq and the Equality Center on Sunday, March 17th, 2013. Tulsa Two Spirit CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Insurance Crew, 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Insurance Crew 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. �We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Grieving Well Tulsa Pride 2013 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Swing Dance Class Mondays �Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Youth Program And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Boot Camp For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �(T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal' by Barry Werth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �During his thirty-seven years at Smith College, Newton Arvin published groundbreaking studies of Hawthorne, Whitman, Melville, and Longfellow that stand today as models of scholarship and psychological acuity. He cultivated friendships with the likes of Edmund Wilson and Lillian Hellman and became mentor to Truman Capote. A social radical and closeted homosexual, the circumspect Arvin nevertheless survived McCarthyism. But in September 1960 his apartment was raided, and his cache of beefcake erotica was confiscated, plunging him into confusion and despair and provoking his panicked betrayal of several friends. An utterly absorbing chronicle, The Scarlet Professor deftly captures the essence of a conflicted man and offers a provocative and unsettling look at American moral fanaticism.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Be Our Voice, Give a Day Tim Dickmann made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign in memory of his mother, Barbara Dickmann's birthday and sponsored OkEq and the Equality Center on Sunday, March 17th, 2013. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Insurance Crew, 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Insurance Crew 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non- members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr ( Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Dennis R. Neill Equality Center </div> </div> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P .E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal' by Barry Werth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center <div class="page"> <div class="section"> <div class="layoutArea"> <div class="column"> During his thirty-seven years at Smith College, Newton Arvin published groundbreaking studies of Hawthorne, Whitman, Melville, and Longfellow that stand today as models of scholarship and psychological acuity. He cultivated friendships with the likes of Edmund Wilson and Lillian Hellman and became mentor to Truman Capote. 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Neill Equality Center Dining Out for Life Diversity and Dignity Group EBA EBA Directory email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Family and Children's Services First Thursday Art Reception fundraisers fundraising Gender Outreach Homebuyer Education Class HOPE Know Your Rights Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon LGBT Softball LifeLine Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Marriage Equality Week MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition MOREcolor Fine Arts MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ EBA OKEQ Equality Business Alliance OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Weekly eNews OKEQ weekly news Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) OML OML 2013 Open Arms Open Arms Youth Project Open Arms Youth Project (OYP) OpenArms OpenArms Project Openarms Youth Project Openarms Youth Project (OYP) OYP Pride Idol Pride Store Prime Timers Rainbow Writers SAGE SAGE-aging issues Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance (SODA) Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance SODA Spectrum Knits Suzanne Westenhoefer TAPT The Trevor Project TMSL Trevor Project TU Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance TU SODA Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa LGBT Softball Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA) Turn About Show Volunteer Tulsa Within Our Reach Workforce Oklahoma Access Point https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9d124cd35dfb8d90802d18ce28875633.pdf 68d0d3b63fe7c1d096fcaf5ab2b7ff8f PDF Text Text eNews March 28th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Birth Announcement Welcome to the eNews. It's Marriage Equality Week at OkEq. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Week Homebuyer Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Within Our Reach The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: First Thursday Equality Business Alliance Guys Dine Too MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of 15 years together and their marriage in NYC on 3-19-12, Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center for the day of Tuesday, March 19th, 2013. Kenneth and Mark are pictured below in Times Square with Mark's daughter Audrey. LifeLine Book Study 8 Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Tulsa NOW Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit No Walls Entertainment CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer �Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm Birth Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child last month. Jordan Everett McRad was born a bouncing 8lbs 6oz on February 20th, 2013 at 11:00 am. Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the OUTlaw Workshop will recap the hearings on the Defense of Marriage Act and Prop 8. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clittle@fcsok.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Tuesday, April 2nd around 6:30 pm. Sonoma Bistro is located at 3523 S Peoria Ave www.sonomatulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Tulsa Pride 2013 Youth Program �Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Tulsa National Organization for Women Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. �Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Prairie Storm' by Lynn E Lisarelli You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the spring of 1890, Ann Johnson, injured and on the run from a group of men who claim that she murdered a child in the town of Sutter's Ford, finds shelter and healing at the cabin of Devorah Lee, a widow living alone on the Kansas Prairie with her child, Melissa. Ann begins to develop strong feelings for Devorah, and although Devorah returns those feelings, she is hesitant and unsure about this new awakening in her heart. Ann faces two obstacles in her journey toward wholeness: competing with the local doctor for Devorah's affection, and struggling with the repressed memory of the real killer's identity. Will Ann Remember in time to save Devorah's child from being the next victim? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library �Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � Email A resource containing textual messages and binary attachments sent electronically from one person to another or one person to many people. Email Body The main body of the email, including all replied and forwarded text and headers Welcome to the eNews. It's Marriage Equality Week at OkEq. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of 15 years together and their marriage in NYC on 3-19-12, Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center for the day of Tuesday, March 19th, 2013. Kenneth and Mark are pictured below in Times Square with Mark's daughter Audrey. Birth Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child last month. Jordan Everett McRad was born a bouncing 8lbs 6oz on February 20th, 2013 at 11:00 am. Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr ( Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the OUTlaw Workshop will recap the hearings on the Defense of Marriage Act and Prop 8. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clittle@fcsok.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non- members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Tuesday, April 2nd around 6:30 pm. Sonoma Bistro is located at 3523 S Peoria Ave www.sonomatulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a one- weekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Tulsa National Organization for Women Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P .E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Prairie Storm' by Lynn E Lisarelli You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the spring of 1890, Ann Johnson, injured and on the run from a group of men who claim that she murdered a child in the town of Sutter's Ford, finds shelter and healing at the cabin of Devorah Lee, a widow living alone on the Kansas Prairie with her child, Melissa. Ann begins to develop strong feelings for Devorah, and although Devorah returns those feelings, she is hesitant and unsure about this new awakening in her heart. Ann faces two obstacles in her journey toward wholeness: competing with the local doctor for Devorah's affection, and struggling with the repressed memory of the real killer's identity. Will Ann Remember in time to save Devorah's child from being the next victim? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm| Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ Weekly eNews, 28 March 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Weekly eNews, 28 March 2013 Description An account of the resource An email newsletter from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the week of March 28, 2013, 12 pages. Primarily details upcoming events and programs. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) 2013 An Adult Fairytale Annie Norman Annual OkEq Equality Gala Anthony Carr art award ballroom Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company Be Our Voice Give a Day Circle Cinema Club Majestic Conor Cleary Dining Out for Life Dustin Lance Black EBA email eNews Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Business Alliance Directory Equality Gala fine arts First Thursday Art Reception Flying Solo gala Gamily Picnic Day Green Country Bears growl GSA Guys Dine Too H.O.P.E. 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Bob Lawrence Book Study Reverend Bob Lawrence Reverend Lawrence Service Dogs Shane Allbee softball Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Steven Michael's Photography Suzanne Westenhoefer Theatre Pops Theatre Tulsa Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company Therapetics Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma TU Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa National Organization for Women Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Zoo University of Tulsa zoo https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0c0a7e29277941d6ab5562358ba1ad57.pdf dcafbf655486de3824fb6d62ef9df2ef PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen �Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year �Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire. Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation �Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe Gwen & Steve Malcolm McAfee and Taft David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Debra and Richard Gordon & Family George Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 2nd, 2013) �The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2013 Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2012 at the Tulsa Convention Center Tulsa Ballroom 100 Civic Center Cocktails and the Silent Auction begin at 6:30 pm Dinner and Program at 8:00 pm Concert at 10:00 pm Eric Himan Band performing the music of Queen Our Gala Chair Kirk Holt and Honorary Chairs Miranda & Philip Kaiser invite you to join over 600 Oklahomans for dinner, a live concert and a program honoring this year's award recipients: Paul Allen for the Lifetime Achievement Award TulsaPeople Magazine for the Media Advocate Award Rev. Nancy Eggen for the Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason for the Legislative Ally Award Tempest Cartwright for the Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Jerry Custer for the OkEq Volunteer of the Year Randy Vineyard AKA Kris Kohl for the Community Hero Award This is the premiere fundraiser for Oklahomans for Equality and the important work of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sponsorships are still available Individual tickets are $150 and may be purchased online Dress is formal or rock-star attire. Interpretive services for the Deaf & Hearing Impaired will be available. Please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to arrange for interpretive service. Please purchase your tickets by Monday April 29th, 2013 Complimentary valet parking will be available at the Northwest entrance to the Tulsa Convention Center (Off South Houston Ave) 2013 Equality Gala Sponsors Live Performance Sponsor George Kaiser Family Foundation High Fidelity Sound Sponsors 209 - The Arts Bar Irene and Stan Burnstein Coretz Family Foundation Debra and Richard Gordon & Family Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Theatre Sound Sponsors Gay and Lesbian Fund for Tulsa Joe Hukills Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Anne and Henry Zarrow Foundation Surround Sound Sponsors Bank of Oklahoma Cisar-Holt, Inc. Charles Faudree and Bill Carpenter The Garden Trug Rachel Hutchinson Andy Kinslow and Russ Kirkpatrick George Krumme Robin and Ron LaButti Debbie Lowe Gwen & Steve Malcolm McAfee and Taft David Nelson & ConocoPhillips Mike Redman and Daryn Drake Sara and Philip Snow Vocal Pride Foundation / COMC Williams, Williams & McKissick Kris Wilmes & Dusty Gross WPX Energy Stereo Sound Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Thomas A. Adelson Anonymous Sheryl and John Boone Jack Brown Tery Deshong & Barbara Abercrombie Rosemary Harris & Tracy Spears Miranda & Philip Kaiser Julie & Sanjay Meshri Julie & John Nickel Clint Robison Van N. Wilde & Williams Youth Table Sponsors James and Susannah Adelson Family Foundation Fund Debra and Richard Gordon & Family George Krumme Stacy & Joe Lytle Julie & Sanjay Meshri Ruth Kaiser Nelson Family Foundation Kathy Taylor - Lobeck Taylor Family Foundation Jon Worthington Jack and Maxine Zarrow Family Foundation (As of April 2nd, 2013) The Dennis R Neill Equality Center is the 6th largest LGBT community center in the world. It serves as the headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. Over 47,000 individuals utilized the Equality Center in 2012 and over 50 weekly programs are offered. The Equality Center is open 7 days a week. (Monday-Saturday Noon-9pm & Sunday Noon-6pm) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Sun 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ Equality Gala Announcement Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 4, 2013 Subject The topic of the resource Announcement for Oklahomans for Equality's 2013 Equality Gala Description An account of the resource Announcement for the annual Equality Gala on May 4, 2013, hosted by Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) at the Tulsa Convention Center, 5 pages. Language A language of the resource English Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) 2013 Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Community Hero Award Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Eric Himan gala Jerry Custer Judy MacIntyre Eason Kirk Holt Kris Kohl Legislative Ally Award Lifetime Achievement Award Media Advocate Award Nancy Eggen OkEq OkEq Equality Center OkEq Volunteer of the Year Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Paul Allen Randy Vineyard Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Senator Judy MacIntyre Eason Tempest Cartwright Tulsa People Tulsa People Magazine TulsaPeople Magazine https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/79efd754d3a9f66380c208913c0c379a.pdf 8cf867972839b90b01af77fcab35973a PDF Text Text � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/26299108ca0d0f6981f031aa3384550a.pdf 2d5236a51fa497b62d28b387a3692215 PDF Text Text �� Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2012] Falalala Ball Advertisements Subject The topic of the resource 2012 5th Annual Falalala Ball Advertisements Description An account of the resource 2 advertisements for OkEq's 5th Annual Falalala Ball taking place at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on December 22, 2012. A donation of either pet food, personal toiletries, or non-perishable foods is required for entry. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) 2012 2012 Falalala Ball 5th Annual Falalala Ball advertisement advertisements advertising Christmas Dennis R. Neill Equality Center donations Equality Center Falalala Ball Falalala Ball 2012 food bank food pantry fundraisers holidays OkEq OKEQ donations OkEq Equality Center OKEQ fundraising Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) St. Jerome Church St. Jerome Church food bank St. Jerome Church food pantry https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/c1a5802ac6dca9bd08b7fca09a56aae5.pdf 17d3e065fa4820d7052488f601dc33a8 PDF Text Text � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Out Thanksgiving meal today has been provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome [this item is crossed out in pen] Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Whole Foods Tulsa We give thanks for their participation and for your attendance! Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [ND] Thanksgiving Meal Poster Description An account of the resource An OkEq poster listing the sponsors/providers for a Thanksgiving meal, contains some handwritten notes. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource ND Subject The topic of the resource Thanksgiving Meal Providing Organizations Poster Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Bethany Christian Church Diversity Christian Fellowship International Fellowship Lutheran Church OkEq OKEQ donations OKEQ donors Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Parish Church of Saint Jerome St. Paul's United Methodist Thanksgiving Thanksgiving meal Unity Church of Christianity https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/713207e3ff16cb54aa200219ddf334b5.pdf 9623c1d636ca509ab605e6a0a09b4b70 PDF Text Text �� Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Welcome Home Poster Subject The topic of the resource 2004 Advertisement and mail order form for the Welcome Home open house at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Description An account of the resource A poster advertising the Welcome Home open house at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The poster advertises an art exhibit, an opening night reception, a demonstration, gay bingo, Test Fest, Brunch and Blessings, and Wild Hearts Ball 7. The attached mail order form allows for ordering tickets to three events: Gay Bingo, Wild Hearts Ball 7, and Brunch and Blessings. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 2004 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) 2004 AIDS testing AIDS/HIV testing Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Equality Center Opening Equality Center Opening Night Reception Free HIV Testing HIV testing HIV/AIDs testing OkEq OKEQ Capital Campaign OKEQ donors OkEq Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Opening Night Reception TOHR TOHR capital campaign Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights HIV Testing Wild Hearts Ball Wild Hearts Ball 7 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/bd984b4bd1ceb3a8aeadb45903b8a96b.pdf 4578c3bc796e0704e128ba48b46abd41 PDF Text Text Press Release Oklahomans for Equality fundraiser reaches $70,000 OKEq board members provide additional information on the state of the organization and announce leadership transition For Immediate Release Tulsa, OK (February 13, 2024) - Following a recent fundraising effort focused on sustaining operations, the Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors is providing an update on the organization's financial status. "As of Monday, February 12, OkEq has received just over $70,000 in donations," Board President Eric Wilson said. "We are encouraged by and optimistic about the outpouring of support we've seen over the last few days. We are looking forward to working together as a board and with our donors and volunteers to build a plan that will secure OkEq's future for generations to come." Representatives from OkEq say that the organization's financial challenges are rooted in a few related issues occurring prior to 2022: fiscal mismanagement by a former volunteer, a lack of adequate financial controls to ensure appropriate oversight and accurate accounting, and operating beyond available revenue. Vice President Bob Hanson said, “In February 2022, the former volunteer Treasurer presented a falsified audit report to the Board, and the Board discovered this within 24 hours of receiving it. The individual was immediately dismissed, and the Board began reviewing the financial structure of the organization and identified numerous gaps that needed to be addressed.This process was cumbersome and took a great deal of time and volunteer hours.” A police report was filed with the Tulsa Police Department in September 2022. Once the forensic audit was completed in August 2023, it was provided to the Tulsa Police Department. At this time, the OkEq Board awaits further information and updates from the Tulsa Police Department about the status of the ongoing investigation. The Board immediately set out to create appropriate financial oversight and develop a full financial picture. Through this process, the Board of Directors also uncovered that in years prior to 2022, restricted funds were reallocated to cover monthly expenses. Steps were immediately taken to prevent this kind of reallocation from occurring. “So while expenses were covered at any given time, OkEq was spending more non-restricted cash than it had,” explained President Eric Wilson. “It has taken over a year to create a clear financial picture. We have much work to do to better engage with local �philanthropy, historical donors, and our business community. We now have strong fiscal foundations in place to confidently do so.” In the last several months, representatives from the OkEq’s Executive Committee also shared that the organization experienced a decrease in end-of-year giving. Charitable donations in the fall and early winter have historically supported the organization until major spring fundraisers occur. In the last 18 months, OKEq’s executive director and board members have worked urgently to implement rigorous financial controls, including: ● ● ● ● In October 2022, engaged with an accounting firm, with expertise in non-profit accounting to handle all of the finances for the organization. In November 2022, Workman Forensics was contracted to conduct a forensic audit which was completed in August 2023. The new Treasurer, who has an extensive background in finance, implemented necessary controls and processes to ensure accuracy and transparency. Some of the new controls and processes include multiple layers of approval for all invoices, specific approval from the executive committee for the use of restricted funds to ensure that funds are used for intended purposes, elimination of all credit cards, monthly meetings between the external accounting firm and the Finance Committee. An external Certified Public Accounting Firm was hired to complete a financial audit. This was completed and reviewed by the Board in January 2024. The results of the audit demonstrated that the organization now has all of the needed and recommended financial controls in place. This audit can be reviewed here. The Board of Directors and Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard have also worked with staff and community members to identify and prioritize OkEq's most essential services. Maintaining the health clinic, mental health services, and youth and elder programming are at the top of the list. Even with improved controls and prioritized services, OKEq’s Board and staff will urgently pursue continued fundraising efforts with intentional outreach to Tulsa’s philanthropic and business communities, long-standing donors of the Center, and local and national grant opportunities. Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard has made incredible strides in steering OkEq’s restructuring and stabilization through the strategic plan developed under her leadership. She recently stepped back to ensure that work could continue as she focuses on meeting serious health challenges. “My time at OkEq has been an honor and a privilege that now must sadly end. The Board had been working with me to ensure a smooth transition as I face these critical health challenges but the remaining deficit in our funding required I take that step sooner to ensure staff and programming could be preserved” said Ballard. “I’m proud of all we have accomplished and will remain an active advocate of OkEq, its mission, and our community.” �Vice President Hanson shared, “We thank Des for her work, passion, and love for the Tulsa 2SLGBTQIA+ community.” Over the next few months, the OkEq Board will take urgent steps to chart a sustainable path forward for the Center. Some key next steps are to Identify an interim executive director, to work with staff to determine how to best support essential programming at the Center as existing revenue is maximized, and to continue to engage local foundations and long-term donors and supporters in fundraising efforts. Community members interested in supporting OkEq can visit https://OkEq.org/donate/ to make a tax-deductible donation. ### �The information below provides a high-level overview of the actions taken by OkEq’s Board of Directors as it navigated through a set of organizational and financial challenges from February 2022 through present. One timeline shares the steps taken to create effective financial oversight. The second timeline provides information about fundraising efforts. Creating Financial Oversight February 2022: The former volunteer Treasurer presented a falsified audit report to the Board, and the Board discovered this within 24 hours of receiving it. The individual was immediately dismissed, and the Board began reviewing the financial structure of the organization and identified numerous gaps that needed to be addressed. In addition, the Board added members with strong financial backgrounds to provide stronger oversight. September 2022: Initial report filed about potential embezzlement with Tulsa Police Department October 2022: The Board contracted with Oklahoma Nonprofit Partners, an outside accounting firm who specializes in non-profit accounting, to handle all of the finances for the organization. November 2022: Workman Forensics was contracted to conduct a forensic audit. Letter shared with OkEq members and community to explain the potential embezzlement and steps taken. April 2023: The Board voted unanimously to amend the bylaws to require the Treasurer be a member of the Board of Directors and subject the position to term limits in line with all of the other executive committee officers. August 2023: The forensic audit was completed. A copy of the audit report was provided to the Tulsa Police Department. October 2023: Certified Public Accounting firm hired to complete a standard annual financial audit. January 2024: Annual financial audit completed for the first time since 2015. This audit also allows OkEq to seek more funding opportunities. �Fundraising April 2022: The 2022 Equality Gala generated enough revenue to sustain the organization for several months. Summer and Fall of 2022: Several Tulsa area foundations supported the organization with enough funding to maintain operations through 2022. January/February 2023: Additional funding was given by individuals and area foundations that ensured the continued operation of the organization. May 2023: The 2023 Equality Gala raised enough donations to sustain the organization for several months. June–September 2023: OkEq hired a grant coordinator to focus on identifying and writing for new grants. A number of grant applications for grants which were attainable without a financial audit were submitted. OkEq also received funding from several area foundations that were able to assist to get us through 2023. January 2024: It becomes clear to the Board that OkEq received much less in end-of-year giving than typical. This lack of revenue significantly impacted revenue and cash flow. February 2024: OkEq launches the “100K to Valentine’s Day” fundraiser. ED Dorothy ‘Des’ Ballard elects to step away as a cost saving measure. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document <div style="text-align:center;">Press Release</div> <div style="text-align:center;">Oklahomans for Equality fundraiser reaches $70,000</div> <div style="text-align:center;">OKEq board members provide additional information on the state of the organization and announce leadership transition For Immediate Release </div> Tulsa, OK (February 13, 2024) - Following a recent fundraising effort focused on sustaining operations, the Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Board of Directors is providing an update on the organization's financial status. "As of Monday, February 12, OkEq has received just over $70,000 in donations," Board President Eric Wilson said. "We are encouraged by and optimistic about the outpouring of support we've seen over the last few days. We are looking forward to working together as a board and with our donors and volunteers to build a plan that will secure OkEq's future for generations to come." Representatives from OkEq say that the organization's financial challenges are rooted in a few related issues occurring prior to 2022: fiscal mismanagement by a former volunteer, a lack of adequate financial controls to ensure appropriate oversight and accurate accounting, and operating beyond available revenue. Vice President Bob Hanson said, “In February 2022, the former volunteer Treasurer presented a falsified audit report to the Board, and the Board discovered this within 24 hours of receiving it. The individual was immediately dismissed, and the Board began reviewing the financial structure of the organization and identified numerous gaps that needed to be addressed.This process was cumbersome and took a great deal of time and volunteer hours.” A police report was filed with the Tulsa Police Department in September 2022. Once the forensic audit was completed in August 2023, it was provided to the Tulsa Police Department. At this time, the OkEq Board awaits further information and updates from the Tulsa Police Department about the status of the ongoing investigation. The Board immediately set out to create appropriate financial oversight and develop a full financial picture. Through this process, the Board of Directors also uncovered that in years prior to 2022, restricted funds were reallocated to cover monthly expenses. Steps were immediately taken to prevent this kind of reallocation from occurring. “So while expenses were covered at any given time, OkEq was spending more non-restricted cash than it had,” explained President Eric Wilson. “It has taken over a year to create a clear financial picture. We have much work to do to better engage with local philanthropy, historical donors, and our business community. We now have strong fiscal foundations in place to confidently do so.” In the last several months, representatives from the OkEq’s Executive Committee also shared that the organization experienced a decrease in end-of-year giving. Charitable donations in the fall and early winter have historically supported the organization until major spring fundraisers occur. In the last 18 months, OKEq’s executive director and board members have worked urgently to implement rigorous financial controls, including: ● In October 2022, engaged with an accounting firm, with expertise in non-profit accounting to handle all of the finances for the organization. ● In November 2022, Workman Forensics was contracted to conduct a forensic audit which was completed in August 2023. ● The new Treasurer, who has an extensive background in finance, implemented necessary controls and processes to ensure accuracy and transparency. Some of the new controls and processes include multiple layers of approval for all invoices, specific approval from the executive committee for the use of restricted funds to ensure that funds are used for intended purposes, elimination of all credit cards, monthly meetings between the external accounting firm and the Finance Committee. ● An external Certified Public Accounting Firm was hired to complete a financial audit. This was completed and reviewed by the Board in January 2024. The results of the audit demonstrated that the organization now has all of the needed and recommended financial controls in place. This audit can be reviewed here. The Board of Directors and Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard have also worked with staff and community members to identify and prioritize OkEq's most essential services. Maintaining the health clinic, mental health services, and youth and elder programming are at the top of the list. Even with improved controls and prioritized services, OKEq’s Board and staff will urgently pursue continued fundraising efforts with intentional outreach to Tulsa’s philanthropic and business communities, long-standing donors of the Center, and local and national grant opportunities. Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard has made incredible strides in steering OkEq’s restructuring and stabilization through the strategic plan developed under her leadership. She recently stepped back to ensure that work could continue as she focuses on meeting serious health challenges. “My time at OkEq has been an honor and a privilege that now must sadly end. The Board had been working with me to ensure a smooth transition as I face these critical health challenges but the remaining deficit in our funding required I take that step sooner to ensure staff and programming could be preserved” said Ballard. “I’m proud of all we have accomplished and will remain an active advocate of OkEq, its mission, and our community.” Vice President Hanson shared, “We thank Des for her work, passion, and love for the Tulsa 2SLGBTQIA+ community.” Over the next few months, the OkEq Board will take urgent steps to chart a sustainable path forward for the Center. Some key next steps are to Identify an interim executive director, to work with staff to determine how to best support essential programming at the Center as existing revenue is maximized, and to continue to engage local foundations and long-term donors and supporters in fundraising efforts. Community members interested in supporting OkEq can visit https://OkEq.org/donate/ to make a tax-deductible donation. <div style="text-align:center;"> ###</div> The information below provides a high-level overview of the actions taken by OkEq’s Board of Directors as it navigated through a set of organizational and financial challenges from February 2022 through present. One timeline shares the steps taken to create effective financial oversight. The second timeline provides information about fundraising efforts. <div style="text-align:center;">Creating Financial Oversight</div> February 2022: The former volunteer Treasurer presented a falsified audit report to the Board, and the Board discovered this within 24 hours of receiving it. The individual was immediately dismissed, and the Board began reviewing the financial structure of the organization and identified numerous gaps that needed to be addressed. In addition, the Board added members with strong financial backgrounds to provide stronger oversight. September 2022: Initial report filed about potential embezzlement with Tulsa Police Department October 2022: The Board contracted with Oklahoma Nonprofit Partners, an outside accounting firm who specializes in non-profit accounting, to handle all of the finances for the organization. November 2022: Workman Forensics was contracted to conduct a forensic audit. Letter shared with OkEq members and community to explain the potential embezzlement and steps taken. April 2023: The Board voted unanimously to amend the bylaws to require the Treasurer be a member of the Board of Directors and subject the position to term limits in line with all of the other executive committee officers. August 2023: The forensic audit was completed. A copy of the audit report was provided to the Tulsa Police Department. October 2023: Certified Public Accounting firm hired to complete a standard annual financial audit. January 2024: Annual financial audit completed for the first time since 2015. This audit also allows OkEq to seek more funding opportunities. <div style="text-align:center;">Fundraising</div> April 2022: The 2022 Equality Gala generated enough revenue to sustain the organization for several months. Summer and Fall of 2022: Several Tulsa area foundations supported the organization with enough funding to maintain operations through 2022. January/February 2023: Additional funding was given by individuals and area foundations that ensured the continued operation of the organization. May 2023: The 2023 Equality Gala raised enough donations to sustain the organization for several months. June–September 2023: OkEq hired a grant coordinator to focus on identifying and writing for new grants. A number of grant applications for grants which were attainable without a financial audit were submitted. OkEq also received funding from several area foundations that were able to assist to get us through 2023. January 2024: It becomes clear to the Board that OkEq received much less in end-of-year giving than typical. This lack of revenue significantly impacted revenue and cash flow. February 2024: OkEq launches the “100K to Valentine’s Day” fundraiser. ED Dorothy ‘Des’ Ballard elects to step away as a cost saving measure. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] Press Release: "Oklahomans for Equality fundraiser reaches $70,000" Subject The topic of the resource 2024 Press Release: "Oklahomans for Equality fundraiser reaches $70,000: OKEq board members provide additional information on the state of the organization and announce leadership transition" Description An account of the resource A 5 page document from Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) outlining the money donated to the organization during a fundraising event and the transfer of leadership from Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard. Includes two charts tracking the timelines of OkEq's financial oversights and fundraising. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 13, 2024 100k to Valentine's Day 2024 Board President Eric Wilson Bob Hanson Des Ballard donations donors Dorothy (Des) Ballard Dorothy Ballard Eric Wilson executive director Executive Director Des Ballard Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard fundraisers fundraising OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Board President OKEQ Board President Eric Wilson OKEQ Board Vice President OKEQ donations OKEQ donors OKEQ Executive Committee OKEQ Executive Director OKEQ Executive Director Des Ballard OKEQ Executive Director Dorothy (Des) Ballard OKEQ fundraising OKEQ Vice President Bob Hanson Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality fundraising press release Vice President Bob Hanson https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a959e78bf14d0548997a4890b7f52d28.pdf 9fff8b7e77709bd5a2b852a1d522e838 PDF Text Text OKEq FAQs - February 2024 1. How is OkEq going to be more transparent? The OkEq Board is committed to transparency. All of our monthly Board meetings are open to the public and take place on the third Thursday of every month from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All agendas, meeting minutes, and monthly financial reports, as well as our financial audit and bylaws can be found on our website. 2. What does it cost to operate OKEq? How many staff does the organization have? During fiscal year 2023 (October 2022 through September 2023), OKEq’s operating expenses were approximately $1.2 million. Oklahomans for Equality currently employs eight full-time staff. Six staff positions are salaried and two staff positions are hourly. A number of services (custodial, security, IT, and accounting) are provided through contracted services. 3. Why isn’t OkEq leveraging the foundations in Tulsa? OkEq has received immense support from the local foundations in Tulsa to maintain operations as we’ve rebuilt following the embezzlement. However, it was necessary to turn to the broader community for support to help bridge the funding gap between what we’ve been given by the foundations until we can reach our annual fundraising event, the Equality Gala, which is May 4, 2024. OkEq will expand efforts to better engage many historical donors who have been very generous in previous times. 4. Why are you putting the strain of fundraising on an already marginalized community? We understand times are tough financially for many in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We would never ask someone to give financially if that meant they wouldn’t be able to provide for their own needs. Oklahomans for Equality has poured into the lives of thousands though, and if people are in a fortunate enough position to give back, that means we as an organization can use that and pass it forward to the next person in need. This campaign has also received broad community support from those outside of the community who are allies. Furthermore, there are other ways people can support the mission of OkEq aside from financial giving. If you have time or talents and would like to get more involved, please consider volunteering at the Center, in our library, or on our Board. 5. Is OkEq closing if it doesn’t raise $100K by Valentine’s Day? Due to the generous support of the community, we have raised enough revenue to stay open for approximately the next two months at the current expense level. The Board and �staff now have additional time to secure new funding streams, take a hard look at the existing expenses, and make additional decisions about ways to reduce spending. While we understand the language used in the campaign sounded alarmist, we were at imminent risk of not being able to make payroll the week of Valentine’s Day. The Board selected the goal of $100K knowing that that would sustain the Center until our major fundraising event, The Equality Gala could get under way. The Board will expand efforts to better engage many historical donors who have been very generous in previous times. 6. Why didn’t you alert the community about the embezzlement sooner? We have tried to be as transparent as possible throughout this process. In November of 2022, the President of the Board of Directors first shared information about the situation to the public. We hosted the first community town hall in October of 2023. We will continue to hold quarterly town halls to encourage community dialogue. Please make sure you are subscribed to OkEq’s e-newsletter and are following us on social media to be notified of programs, services, and upcoming events. 7. Why didn’t the past OkEq Board and Executive Director realize at the time something was wrong when the embezzlement was actively happening? Past OkEq Board members just like the current Board are volunteers. This does not excuse past Boards from fault, but many do not come from a financial background. Even if the Board members had had financial acumen, we know that financial documents given to the Board were falsified to cover up wrongdoings. The former Executive Director who was at the helm during the period of embezzlement stepped down in June of 2022 and is no longer with the organization. We have three remaining Directors on our Board who overlapped with the previous Treasurer. One of the three is who first identified the malfeasance and informed the Board. The other two are trusted Board members who had no knowledge of the embezzlement occurring and have been supportive of all of the measures we’ve taken to insert financial controls. The Board Governance Committee has established OkEq’s first formal onboarding process to better educate and prepare new Board of Director members and Advisors. We also hosted a Board retreat with a session specifically focused on nonprofit finances. Additionally, we’ve instituted an audit committee and a finance committee to ensure accountability for the organization’s finances. The Board is committed to continued growth as well as learning and implementing best nonprofit Board practices. 8. What about all of the harm that OkEq has caused in the past? The current Board and leaders of OkEq recognize that even though we are responsible for a lot of good, that doesn’t negate the fact that we are responsible for a lot of very real harm. If we are going to be Oklahomans for Equality who run the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we need to live up to the ideals of equality for all. This means looking at the �intersectional identities of all 2SLGBTQIA+ people and realizing there is no singular queer experience. We understand that some are frustrated that we have asked for funds without fully rectifying practices that cause harm. OkEq has tried to do this simultaneously, but rebuilding relationships and repairing relationships takes time. We were running out of time to be able to continue these conversations because of our financial position. We are working on a new membership model that puts more power and agency back in the hands of our members. Our staff does phenomenal work. The reality is that we are operating with only around 50% of the staff we should have for a Center our size. The changes to membership that we are currently working through will also allow an avenue for people to engage with OkEq leadership and ensure their voices are heard. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document <div style="text-align:center;">OKEq FAQs - February 2024 </div> 1. How is OkEq going to be more transparent? The OkEq Board is committed to transparency. All of our monthly Board meetings are open to the public and take place on the third Thursday of every month from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the Equality Center. All agendas, meeting minutes, and monthly financial reports, as well as our financial audit and bylaws can be found on our website. 2. What does it cost to operate OKEq? How many staff does the organization have? During fiscal year 2023 (October 2022 through September 2023), OKEq’s operatingexpenses were approximately $1.2 million. Oklahomans for Equality currently employs eight full-time staff. Six staff positions are salaried and two staff positions are hourly. A number of services (custodial, security, IT, and accounting) are provided through contracted services. 3. Why isn’t OkEq leveraging the foundations in Tulsa? OkEq has received immense support from the local foundations in Tulsa to maintain operations as we’ve rebuilt following the embezzlement. However, it was necessary to turn to the broader community for support to help bridge the funding gap between what we’ve been given by the foundations until we can reach our annual fundraising event, the Equality Gala, which is May 4, 2024. OkEq will expand efforts to better engage many historical donors who have been very generous in previous times. 4. Why are you putting the strain of fundraising on an already marginalized community? We understand times are tough financially for many in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We would never ask someone to give financially if that meant they wouldn’t be able to provide for their own needs. Oklahomans for Equality has poured into the lives of thousands though, and if people are in a fortunate enough position to give back, that means we as an organization can use that and pass it forward to the next person in need. This campaign has also received broad community support from those outside of the community who are allies. Furthermore, there are other ways people can support the mission of OkEq aside from financial giving. If you have time or talents and would like to get more involved, please consider volunteering at the Center, in our library, or on our Board. 5. Is OkEq closing if it doesn’t raise $100K by Valentine’s Day? Due to the generous support of the community, we have raised enough revenue to stay open for approximately the next two months at the current expense level. The Board and staff now have additional time to secure new funding streams, take a hard look at the existing expenses, and make additional decisions about ways to reduce spending. While we understand the language used in the campaign sounded alarmist, we were at imminent risk of not being able to make payroll the week of Valentine’s Day. The Board selected the goal of $100K knowing that that would sustain the Center until our major fundraising event, The Equality Gala could get under way. The Board will expand efforts to better engage many historical donors who have been very generous in previous times. 6. Why didn’t you alert the community about the embezzlement sooner? We have tried to be as transparent as possible throughout this process. In November of 2022, the President of the Board of Directors first shared information about the situation to the public. We hosted the first community town hall in October of 2023. We will continue to hold quarterly town halls to encourage community dialogue. Please make sure you are subscribed to OkEq’s e-newsletter and are following us on social media to be notified of programs, services, and upcoming events. 7. Why didn’t the past OkEq Board and Executive Director realize at the time something was wrong when the embezzlement was actively happening? Past OkEq Board members just like the current Board are volunteers. This does not excuse past Boards from fault, but many do not come from a financial background. Even if the Board members had had financial acumen, we know that financial documents given to the Board were falsified to cover up wrongdoings. The former Executive Director who was at the helm during the period of embezzlement stepped down in June of 2022 and is no longer with the organization. We have three remaining Directors on our Board who overlapped with the previous Treasurer. One of the three is who first identified the malfeasance and informed the Board. The other two are trusted Board members who had no knowledge of the embezzlement occurring and have been supportive of all of the measures we’ve taken to insert financial controls. The Board Governance Committee has established OkEq’s first formal onboarding process to better educate and prepare new Board of Director members and Advisors. We also hosted a Board retreat with a session specifically focused on nonprofit finances. Additionally, we’ve instituted an audit committee and a finance committee to ensure accountability for the organization’s finances. The Board is committed to continued growth as well as learning and implementing best nonprofit Board practices. 8. What about all of the harm that OkEq has caused in the past? The current Board and leaders of OkEq recognize that even though we are responsible for a lot of good, that doesn’t negate the fact that we are responsible for a lot of very real harm. If we are going to be Oklahomans for Equality who run the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, we need to live up to the ideals of equality for all. This means looking at the intersectional identities of all 2SLGBTQIA+ people and realizing there is no singular queer experience. We understand that some are frustrated that we have asked for funds without fully rectifying practices that cause harm. OkEq has tried to do this simultaneously, but rebuilding relationships and repairing relationships takes time. We were running out of time to be able to continue these conversations because of our financial position. We are working on a new membership model that puts more power and agency back in the hands of our members. Our staff does phenomenal work. The reality is that we are operating with only around 50% of the staff we should have for a Center our size. The changes to membership that we are currently working through will also allow an avenue for people to engage with OkEq leadership and ensure their voices are heard. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ FAQs - February 2024 Subject The topic of the resource 2024 Frequently Asked Questions and Answers from OKEq, February 2024 Description An account of the resource 3 pages of a publicly available document posted to the main page of the Oklahomans for Equality website containing 8 frequently asked questions and answers from OKEq regarding the February fundraising event and organizational changes. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Oklahomans for Equality https://okeq.org/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 2024 100k to Valentine's Day 2024 FAQ frequently asked questions fundraisers fundraising OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ fundraising Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Oklahomans for Equality fundraising https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/683a4d754ac5db8340bc50dee27bd311.pdf bd8ca451c2a682e4fe218e391f367844 PDF Text Text 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality FAQ The following document answers some questions that we’ve received at the Equality Center over the past weeks and months. As staff, board members, advisors, and trustees we wanted to provide you with this resource as we continue to be as transparent as possible with our members and our community about what’s next for Oklahomans for Equality and the hard work everyone is doing to keep these critical programs and partnerships accessible for our community. We thank you for your patience as we work to stabilize our organization, rebuild trust, and move this organization forward in a way that serves our 2SLGBTQIA+ community for years to come. Our organization is committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and supportive environment for all our community members. It is important to acknowledge that our community is diverse, with members from various religious, cultural, and political backgrounds. We respect and value this diversity, as it enriches our understanding of the world and strengthens our ability to empathize with others. We encourage our members to engage in respectful dialogue and to seek understanding, even when faced with differing opinions or perspectives. It is through open and honest communication that we can foster a sense of unity and support within our community while still acknowledging the complexity of the world around us. If you have additional questions or concerns to share, we ask you to submit them on our Feedback form where they will be distributed to the proper individuals for awareness and response. Who is currently in charge of the Equality Center? Andi Gunter, who has been involved with the Center since 2019 and has been on staff since 2021, is serving as the Deputy Director of Oklahomans for Equality. Previously, she https://okeq.org/faq/ 1/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality served as the Health Clinic Operations Manager and has stepped up to lead the organization during this transition. Andi began her work at the Center as a volunteer as she sought resources and better understanding to support her trans daughter. Why did you hire Wendy Thomas as a consultant? Why not hire a new Executive Director right away? The OKEQ Board of Directors selected Wendy Thomas to facilitate this transition through a contract of 12 months because of her experience successfully leading a Tulsa nonprofit for more than 20 years and her specific expertise in nonprofit management, leadership transitions, and nonprofit best practices. The Board of Directors wishes to engage in deep, robust community participation in the process of strategic planning and selecting a new permanent executive director. Since this process will take time, the Board of Directors decided Wendy’s expertise would be invaluable for our staff and board while we work toward being ready to hire a new permanent executive director. At Leadership Tulsa, Wendy guided thousands of Tulsans through education, nonprofit, and civic engagement, and she developed programs that successfully educated and engaged underrepresented Tulsans in local nonprofit leadership positions including the Hispanic Leadership Institute, New Voices, Tulsa Changemakers, and a partnership with Oklahomans for Equality called Lead Together. Although not a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, she is an ally who is dedicated to supporting us and committed to engaging with everyone in our community through this transition process. What is the role of the consultant? Now through September, our consultant will be leading our Transition Team, assisting with organization stabilization, and conducting interviews with organization stakeholders to guide decision-making. In the fall, our consultant will help us with comprehensive strategic planning. Then, likely in the new year, she will help us launch a new Executive Director search effort. Until a permanent Executive Director is hired, all work will be overseen and reviewed by Andi Gunter, Deputy Director, as well as the OKEQ Board of Directors. https://okeq.org/faq/ 2/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality Why a Transition Team? To allow our staff to focus on the day-to-day needs of running the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, partnerships, and programs, the Executive Committee decided to assemble a Transition Team made up of volunteers, board members, and staff who can help with the extra efforts needed during this time. The Transition Team can focus on this transition period by supporting, supplementing, and guiding the work of our staff, committees, and various stakeholder groups. The Transition Team is made up of 2SLGBTQIA+ people who have served or are currently serving on the Board of Directors or Advisory Board or have volunteered for or partnered with OKEQ. They were asked to assist with the transition due to specific skill sets that can support this work including nonprofit management, communications, health care, fundraising, human relations, and DEI. It is important to note that the Board remains fully in charge of governance, policy setting, fiduciary oversight, and decisions about strategic direction including a new strategic plan, fundraising, and the search for the next Executive Director. How is the organization financially, right now? We are making progress in financially stabilizing the organization due in great part to support we’ve received from the community and new and long-time funders. The board has diligently streamlined the budget with additional short-term modifications in place as a new budget is developed to align with financial projections. We will be doing quarterly reforecasting and are committed to doing a financial audit every year for the next ten years even though our bylaws only require an audit every other year. We want to be transparent with our financials and cultivate confidence in our stakeholders. The I Am Equality Gala was a successful sold out event, and we are building our fundraising and grant-application pipeline to ensure we can continue to provide services, advocacy, community, and programs for and with our community. Financial updates are being provided monthly to our board, and these meetings are open to the public. Additionally, we post all finance reports on our website. Is the organization up to date with all federal filings including 990 forms? https://okeq.org/faq/ 3/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality We are up to date on all federal filings including the 990 forms that go to the Internal Revenue Service. Presently, we have worked with an independent external tax firm, and have timely filed the Form 990 for the 2022/2023 fiscal year, which was due in February 2024, and which covers our fiscal year starting on October 1, 2022, and ending on September 30, 2023. This form will be uploaded shortly to our public repository on our website. There are also copies of our Forms 990 going back to 2014. The IRS requires tax-exempt organizations to, at minimum, make the last 3 years’ worth of Forms 990 available for public inspection. We have chosen to provide additional years of forms on our website. Did OKEQ lose its accreditation? No. We are not aware of any accreditation required for 2SLGBTQIA+ community centers. We are compliant with all state and federal regulations for nonprofits. If you have specific concerns regarding this matter, please contact the Board President at president@okeq.org. Why did the Tulsa Pride including the festival, parade, and Rainbow Run move to October? Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride festivities to October in 2024 and subsequent years. While we still celebrate the month of Pride in June and are engaged and supporting celebratory efforts, the Pride festival, parade, and Rainbow Run are tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This is still tentative until we definitively secure permitting from the City of Tulsa, which we have been working on diligently. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate Tulsa Pride events will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. Although historically we have hosted the Equality Gala in late spring and Tulsa Pride in June, this year having both in June created concerns about cash flow for the organization since our two largest events were back-to-back. Another consideration was our staff who tirelessly work to make these large scale events happen. Postponing OKEQ Pride events until the fall gives us a longer runway to raise the funding necessary for a great event, engage more volunteers, and incorporate community feedback. https://okeq.org/faq/ 4/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality What is the status of the investigation into the allegations of embezzlement? We continue to work with authorities to pursue avenues available to us to conclude the investigation and resolve the matter. We spoke to many of these issues in our previous report to the community. Starting in October 2022, OKEQ leadership implemented rigorous financial controls including engaging a nonprofit accounting firm to handle all finances, conducting a forensic audit, and implementing an annual CPA financial audit. Some of the new day-to-day controls include: multiple layers of approval for all invoices, specific approval from the board for the use of restricted funds to ensure that funds are used for intended purposes, elimination of all credit cards, and monthly meetings between the external accounting firm and the Finance Committee. Our audits demonstrate that OKEQ now has all of the needed and recommended financial controls in place. Our latest audit can be viewed here. 08/20/2024 Update: We have been informed that Paul Allen, the former Treasurer of Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ), has been charged with felony embezzlement. It is important to note that these charges are allegations, and Mr. Allen has not been convicted of any crime at this time. We are grateful to the Tulsa Police Department and Tulsa County’s District Attorney’s Office for their thorough investigation and ongoing efforts in this matter. We trust that the legal process will continue to unfold with fairness and due diligence. Our commitment to transparency and accountability remains unwavering, and we will continue to cooperate fully with the authorities as this case progresses. We appreciate the community's support and patience as we navigate this challenging situation. What is OKEQs relationship with the former Executive Director? Dorothy (Des) Ballard served as Interim and then Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality starting in November 2022. In February, 2024, she left OKEQ. She was not terminated nor was she asked to tender her resignation. OKEQ wishes her the best. What is OKEQ’s stance on Indigenous and Two Spirit issues? The 2SLGBTQIA+ community is made up of a diverse group of individuals. OKEQ https://okeq.org/faq/ 5/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality recognizes that intersectionality (the ways in which queer identities intersect with race, ethnicity, gender identity, gender expression, socioeconomic status, class, age, disability, country of origin, religion, languages spoken, and other identities) greatly impacts how certain people are able to move through the world and are perceived. In 2023, we changed our mission statement to include “2SLGBTQIA+” in an effort to center Two Spirit identities in recognition of the fact we are in Oklahoma and own a building on Muscogee Nation land. We have heard and understand that some Two Spirit and indigiqueer individuals have been hurt by our organization. We are committed to working in partnership on how to better serve 2SLGBTQIA+ indigenous people. Our staff and board will be undergoing training on diversity, equity, and inclusion, which will include how to be more anti-racist. Did OKEQ really ask the production of HBO’s We’re Here not to film? No. The HBO series We're Here was filmed in Oklahoma and aired this spring. In one of the episodes, an email was sent to the production of the show expressing concern about filming in Bartlesville due to political tensions since the Bartlesville City Council banned public drag performances. This email was not sent by Oklahomans for Equality located in Tulsa, but rather by Bartlesville Equality, a separate entity. While we did not issue this statement to We're Here, we understand the difficult nuances of being 2SLGBTQIA+ in a conservative, rural state where our community is always under threat of harm and violence. We look forward to the day when 2SLGBTQIA+ people and artists in Oklahoma don't feel like they have to choose between visibility and safety. What is OKEQ doing to rebuild trust with the community and answer criticisms about their engagement with parts of our diverse and intersectional community? We take feedback and criticisms about the diversity of our board and our relationships with our community seriously. For the past two years, the Board Governance Committee has utilized a board diversity matrix to help identify identity and skill-based gaps on the board. https://okeq.org/faq/ 6/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality We have also formed a new Community Relations Committee which will soon be launching a series of three community conversation sessions facilitated by our consultant to allow us to hear directly from community members in ways that will affect our decision-making and strategic plan going forward. If you would like to register for this event, please do so here. These are scheduled on the following dates: • Sunday, July 21 | 1 to 3 PM • Tuesday, August 6 | 6 to 8 PM • Monday, August 19 | 6 to 8 PM For those who don’t wish to attend a community conversation session, we are also launching a new feedback form on our website at https://okeq.org/feedback/. Furthermore, we will be putting out a community survey to hear from all members of our community. We commit to reinstituting quarterly town halls. We are reviewing our governance policies including future opportunities for public comment at board meetings. We are also reviewing our purpose and process for selecting advisory board members, engaging in community partnerships, and fundraising. We understand that some members of our community have not experienced the Equality Center as a safe or welcoming place, and we take those concerns seriously. We will be developing norms for all members and building users related to our interactions with others, methods for elevating concerns and filing incident reports, due process, opportunities for restoration, and fair and equally enforced consequences when restoration is not an option. In addition to training around board best practices, we are in the process of sourcing proposals for diversity, equity, inclusion, and anti-racist training for our board and staff. We recognize that where there is no trust, there is no partnership, and we depend on our community partnerships to allow us to effectively serve the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We are working hard to balance the need to go fast and be responsive to our community’s concerns and going slow and taking the time to be thoughtful and inclusive of multiple perspectives. We are focused on the deep work of self-examination, process https://okeq.org/faq/ 7/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality improvement, consensus building, and strategic planning. This is not a one-and-done process. It will be work that must be engaged with over time and with great attention. If you see ways in which we are coming up short, we welcome the opportunity to do better. Our board members, advisors, trustees and staff are ready, willing, and able to accept your feedback. Should you not feel heard, please reach out to our Board President, Whitney Cipolla, at president@okeq.org or the Community Relations Chair, Yonah Sienna Jasper, at secretary@okeq.org. How can I support OKEQ during this time of transition? If you would like to volunteer at the front desk, please contact hannah.tamplin@okeq.org. If you would like to volunteer for the Pride planning committee, please fill out this interest form. If you are interested in Board committees open to the public, please fill out this form. How will the revenue from Gala be used? Expenditures and revenue numbers from the I Am Equality Gala are being finalized. We will share a report with the Board and public this summer. The budget saving measures were enacted for this year’s gala to maximize profitability and honor our commitment to financial responsibility. This included downsizing to a smaller venue while still honoring the contract with Cox Convention and Business Center, and eliminating an open bar in favor of a cash bar for patrons. The revenue generated from the gala directly impacts our operating budget and will be used for payroll, costs of maintaining the building, and community programming and services. The Board will continue to take stewardship of our resources very seriously. The Board will ensure that a budget for FY2025 maximizes the use of this revenue to continue to stabilize and move the Center forward. If you have comments or ideas our Board should consider during the budgeting process, please submit your thoughts via our feedback form. FEEDBACK https://okeq.org/faq/ 8/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality CONTACT 918-743-4297 Phone 918-938-6537 Health Clinic 918-295-6885 Fax LOCATION Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 HOURS Sunday – Monday Closed Tuesday – Thursday 9 am to 9 pm Friday 9 am to 6 pm Saturday 12 noon to 6pm OKEQ eNEWS SIGNUP Email * https://okeq.org/faq/ 9/10 �8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality First Name * Last Name * I'm not a robot reCAPTCHA Privacy - Terms Submit Copyright © 2019 Oklahomans for Equality Powered by UniComm Solutions https://okeq.org/faq/ 10/10 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ –Oklahomans for Equality OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY FAQ The following document answers some questions that we’ve received at the Equality Center over the past weeks and months. As staff, board members, advisors, and trustees we wanted to provide you with this resource as we continue to be as transparent as possible with our members and our community about what’s next for Oklahomans for Equality and the hard work everyone is doing to keep these critical programs and partnerships accessible for our community. We thank you for your patience as we work to stabilize our organization, rebuild trust, and move this organization forward in a way that serves our 2SLGBTQIA+ community for years to come. Our organization is committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and supportive environment for all our community members. It is important to acknowledge that our community is diverse, with members from various religious, cultural, and political backgrounds. We respect and value this diversity, as it enriches our understanding of the world and strengthens our ability to empathize with others. We encourage our members to engage in respectful dialogue and to seek understanding, even when faced with differing opinions or perspectives. It is through open and honest communication that we can foster a sense of unity and support within our community while still acknowledging the complexity of the world around us. If you have additional questions or concerns to share, we ask you to submit them on our Feedback form where they will be distributed to the proper individuals for awareness and response. Who is currently in charge of the Equality Center? Andi Gunter, who has been involved with the Center since 2019 and has been on staff since 2021, is serving as the Deputy Director of Oklahomans for Equality. Previously, she served as the Health Clinic Operations Manager and has stepped up to lead the organization during this transition. Andi began her work at the Center as a volunteer as she sought resources and better understanding to support her trans daughter. https://okeq.org/faq/ 1/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality Why did you hire Wendy Thomas as a consultant? Why not hire a new Executive Director right away? The OKEQ Board of Directors selected Wendy Thomas to facilitate this transition through a contract of 12 months because of her experience successfully leading a Tulsa nonprofit for more than 20 years and her specific expertise in nonprofit management, leadership transitions, and nonprofit best practices. The Board of Directors wishes to engage in deep, robust community participation in the process of strategic planning and selecting a new permanent executive director. Since this process will take time, the Board of Directors decided Wendy’s expertise would be invaluable for our staff and board while we work toward being ready to hire a new permanent executive director. At Leadership Tulsa, Wendy guided thousands of Tulsans through education, nonprofit, and civic engagement, and she developed programs that successfully educated and engaged underrepresented Tulsans in local nonprot leadership positions including the Hispanic Leadership Institute, New Voices, Tulsa Changemakers, and a partnership with Oklahomans for Equality called Lead Together. Although not a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, she is an ally who is dedicated to supporting us and committed to engaging with everyone in our community through this transition process. What is the role of the consultant? Now through September, our consultant will be leading our Transition Team, assisting with organization stabilization, and conducting interviews with organization stakeholders to guide decision-making. In the fall, our consultant will help us with comprehensive strategic planning. Then, likely in the new year, she will help us launch a new Executive Director search effort. Until a permanent Executive Director is hired, all work will be overseen and reviewed by Andi Gunter, Deputy Director, as well as the OKEQ Board of Directors. https://okeq.org/faq/ 2/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality Why a Transition Team? To allow our staff to focus on the day-to-day needs of running the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, partnerships, and programs, the Executive Committee decided to assemble a Transition Team made up of volunteers, board members, and staff who can help with the extra eorts needed during this time. The Transition Team can focus on this transition period by supporting, supplementing, and guiding the work of our staff, committees, and various stakeholder groups. The Transition Team is made up of 2SLGBTQIA+ people who have served or are currently serving on the Board of Directors or Advisory Board or have volunteered for or partnered with OKEQ. They were asked to assist with the transition due to specific skill sets that can support this work including nonprofit management, communications, health care, fundraising, human relations, and DEI. It is important to note that the Board remains fully in charge of governance, policy setting, fiduciary oversight, and decisions about strategic direction including a new strategic plan, fundraising, and the search for the next Executive Director. How is the organization nancially, right now? We are making progress in nancially stabilizing the organization due in great part to support we’ve received from the community and new and long-time funders. The board has diligently streamlined the budget with additional short-term modications in place as a new budget is developed to align with financial projections. We will be doing quarterly reforecasting and are committed to doing a financial audit every year for the next ten years even though our bylaws only require an audit every other year. We want to be transparent with our financials and cultivate condence in our stakeholders. The I Am Equality Gala was a successful sold out event, and we are building our fundraising and grant-application pipeline to ensure we can continue to provide services, advocacy, community, and programs for and with our community. Financial updates are being provided monthly to our board, and these meetings are open to the public. Additionally, we post all nance reports on our website. Is the organization up to date with all federal lings including 990 forms? https://okeq.org/faq/ 3/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality We are up to date on all federal lings including the 990 forms that go to the Internal Revenue Service. Presently, we have worked with an independent external tax firm, and have timely filed the Form 990 for the 2022/2023 scal year, which was due in February 2024, and which covers our fiscal year starting on October 1, 2022, and ending on September 30, 2023. This form will be uploaded shortly to our public repository on our website. There are also copies of our Forms 990 going back to 2014. The IRS requires tax-exempt organizations to, at minimum, make the last 3 years’ worth of Forms 990 available for public inspection. We have chosen to provide additional years of forms on our website. Did OKEQ lose its accreditation? No. We are not aware of any accreditation required for 2SLGBTQIA+ community centers. We are compliant with all state and federal regulations for nonprots. If you have specific concerns regarding this matter, please contact the Board President at president@okeq.org. Why did the Tulsa Pride including the festival, parade, and Rainbow Run move to October? Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride festivities to October in 2024 and subsequent years. While we still celebrate the month of Pride in June and are engaged and supporting celebratory efforts, the Pride festival, parade, and Rainbow Run are tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This is still tentative until we denitively secure permitting from the City of Tulsa, which we have been working on diligently. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose signicant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate Tulsa Pride events will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. Although historically we have hosted the Equality Gala in late spring and Tulsa Pride in June, this year having both in June created concerns about cash ow for the organization since our two largest events were back-to-back. Another consideration was our staff who tirelessly work to make these large scale events happen. Postponing OKEQ Pride events until the fall gives us a longer runway to raise the funding necessary for a great event, engage more volunteers, and incorporate community feedback. https://okeq.org/faq/ 4/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality What is the status of the investigation into the allegations of embezzlement? We continue to work with authorities to pursue avenues available to us to conclude the investigation and resolve the matter. We spoke to many of these issues in our previous report to the community. Starting in October 2022, OKEQ leadership implemented rigorous nancial controls including engaging a nonprot accounting rm to handle all nances, conducting a forensic audit, and implementing an annual CPA financial audit. Some of the new day-to-day controls include: multiple layers of approval for all invoices, specific approval from the board for the use of restricted funds to ensure that funds are used for intended purposes, elimination of all credit cards, and monthly meetings between the external accounting firm and the Finance Committee. Our audits demonstrate that OKEQ now has all of the needed and recommended financial controls in place. Our latest audit can be viewed here. 08/20/2024 Update: We have been informed that Paul Allen, the former Treasurer of Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ), has been charged with felony embezzlement. It is important to note that these charges are allegations, and Mr. Allen has not been convicted of any crime at this time. We are grateful to the Tulsa Police Department and Tulsa County’s District Attorney’s Office for their thorough investigation and ongoing efforts in this matter. We trust that the legal process will continue to unfold with fairness and due diligence. Our commitment to transparency and accountability remains unwavering, and we will continue to cooperate fully with the authorities as this case progresses. We appreciate the community's support and patience as we navigate this challenging situation. What is OKEQs relationship with the former Executive Director? Dorothy (Des) Ballard served as Interim and then Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality starting in November 2022. In February, 2024, she left OKEQ. She was not terminated nor was she asked to tender her resignation. OKEQ wishes her the best. What is OKEQ’s stance on Indigenous and Two Spirit issues? The 2SLGBTQIA+ community is made up of a diverse group of individuals. OKEQ recognizes that intersectionality (the ways in which queer identities intersect with race, ethnicity, gender identity, gender expression, socioeconomic status, class, age, disability, country of origin, religion, languages spoken, and other identities) greatly impacts how certain people are able to move through the world and are perceived. https://okeq.org/faq/ 5/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality In 2023, we changed our mission statement to include “2SLGBTQIA+” in an effort to center Two Spirit identities in recognition of the fact we are in Oklahoma and own a building on Muscogee Nation land. We have heard and understand that some Two Spirit and indigiqueer individuals have been hurt by our organization. We are committed to working in partnership on how to better serve 2SLGBTQIA+ indigenous people. Our staff and board will be undergoing training on diversity, equity, and inclusion, which will include how to be more anti-racist. Did OKEQ really ask the production of HBO’s We’re Here not to film? No. The HBO series We're Here was filmed in Oklahoma and aired this spring. In one of the episodes, an email was sent to the production of the show expressing concern about filming in Bartlesville due to political tensions since the Bartlesville City Council banned public drag performances. This email was not sent by Oklahomans for Equality located in Tulsa, but rather by Bartlesville Equality, a separate entity. While we did not issue this statement to We're Here, we understand the difficult nuances of being 2SLGBTQIA+ in a conservative, rural state where our community is always under threat of harm and violence. We look forward to the day when 2SLGBTQIA+ people and artists in Oklahoma don't feel like they have to choose between visibility and safety. What is OKEQ doing to rebuild trust with the community and answer criticisms about their engagement with parts of our diverse and intersectional community? We take feedback and criticisms about the diversity of our board and our relationships with our community seriously. For the past two years, the Board Governance Committee has utilized a board diversity matrix to help identify identity and skill-based gaps on the board. https://okeq.org/faq/ 6/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality We have also formed a new Community Relations Committee which will soon be launching a series of three community conversation sessions facilitated by our consultant to allow us to hear directly from community members in ways that will affect our decision-making and strategic plan going forward. If you would like to register for this event, please do so here. These are scheduled on the following dates: • Sunday, July 21 | 1 to 3 PM • Tuesday, August 6 | 6 to 8 PM • Monday, August 19 | 6 to 8 PM For those who don’t wish to attend a community conversation session, we are also launching a new feedback form on our website at https://okeq.org/feedback/. Furthermore, we will be putting out a community survey to hear from all members of our community. We commit to reinstituting quarterly town halls. We are reviewing our governance policies including future opportunities for public comment at board meetings. We are also reviewing our purpose and process for selecting advisory board members, engaging in community partnerships, and fundraising. We understand that some members of our community have not experienced the Equality Center as a safe or welcoming place, and we take those concerns seriously. We will be developing norms for all members and building users related to our interactions with others, methods for elevating concerns and filing incident reports, due process, opportunities for restoration, and fair and equally enforced consequences when restoration is not an option. In addition to training around board best practices, we are in the process of sourcing proposals for diversity, equity, inclusion, and anti-racist training for our board and staff. We recognize that where there is no trust, there is no partnership, and we depend on our community partnerships to allow us to effectively serve the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We are working hard to balance the need to go fast and be responsive to our community’s concerns and going slow and taking the time to be thoughtful and inclusive of multiple perspectives. We are focused on the deep work of self-examination, process improvement, consensus building, and strategic planning. This is not a one-and-done process. It will be work that must be engaged with over time and with great attention. https://okeq.org/faq/ 7/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality If you see ways in which we are coming up short, we welcome the opportunity to do better. Our board members, advisors, trustees and staff are ready, willing, and able to accept your feedback. Should you not feel heard, please reach out to our Board President, Whitney Cipolla, at president@okeq.org or the Community Relations Chair, Yonah Sienna Jasper, at secretary@okeq.org. How can I support OKEQ during this time of transition? If you would like to volunteer at the front desk, please contact hannah.tamplin@okeq.org. If you would like to volunteer for the Pride planning committee, please ll out this interest form. If you are interested in Board committees open to the public, please fill out this form. How will the revenue from Gala be used? Expenditures and revenue numbers from the I Am Equality Gala are being finalized. We will share a report with the Board and public this summer. The budget saving measures were enacted for this year’s gala to maximize protability and honor our commitment to financial responsibility. This included downsizing to a smaller venue while still honoring the contract with Cox Convention and Business Center, and eliminating an open bar in favor of a cash bar for patrons. The revenue generated from the gala directly impacts our operating budget and will be used for payroll, costs of maintaining the building, and community programming and services. The Board will continue to take stewardship of our resources very seriously. The Board will ensure that a budget for FY2025 maximizes the use of this revenue to continue to stabilize and move the Center forward. If you have comments or ideas our Board should consider during the budgeting process, please submit your thoughts via our feedback form. FEEDBACK https://okeq.org/faq/ 8/10 8/7/25, 3:55 PM FAQ – Oklahomans for Equality CONTACT 918-743-4297 Phone 918-938-6537 Health Clinic 918-295-6885 Fax LOCATION Dennis R. 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Oklahomans for Equality https://okeq.org/faq/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Accessed August 7, 2025; last updated August 20, 2024 2024 Des Ballard Dorothy (Des) Ballard Dorothy Ballard embezzlement Equality Gala Equality Gala 2024 FAQ HBO We're Here I Am Equality Gala leadership transition OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ fundraising Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Oklahomans for Equality Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality fundraising pride festival pride Parade Pride Parade and festival Rainbow Run transition team Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2024 two spirit We're Here Wendy Thomas https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/de069673b469757b8899914e7888df0e.pdf da2f2de28253cf29ef28c6d518c513d7 PDF Text Text OKEQ Strategic Plan Final Draft 2025 – 2030 For 45 years, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community have faced many obstacles in securing equal rights and a sense of safety and well-being. Over the years, important progress has been made. But recent internal and external issues, including a growing hostile political environment on many levels, are creating unprecedented challenges for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and those organizations providing services and support. In response, OKEQ must adapt to changing circumstances as it continues to support individuals, defend hard-fought rights, and stand against discriminatory policies. We believe the following goals, strategies, and actions will help us create a more resilient and capable organization to meet the moment as we work with others to show strength and a unified voice. Our Mission Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our Goals GOAL ONE: Complete the reconciliation and restorative justice process started by the Community Relations Committee and Transition Team. GOAL TWO: Implement internal and external changes to increase organizational effectiveness and improve governmental operations. GOAL THREE: Employ highly qualified staff who are mission aligned and have lived experience in proximity to the community being served. GOAL FOUR: Expand programs and partnerships to improve services and outreach. GOAL FIVE: Improve the financial, fundraising, and operational structures to stabilize operations and provide a foundation to respond to future needs and challenges. GOAL SIX: Refresh and reimagine our Center to better serve today’s community. �OKEQ Detailed Strategies Action items should be considered a starting place; additional actions may be warranted by the staff, volunteers or committees tasked with the goals and strategies. GOAL ONE Complete the reconciliation and restorative justice process started by the Community Relations Committee and Transition Team. Strategy One: Take actions which demonstrate our durable commitment to the reconciliation work. Action Items: • • • • Engage Restorative Justice Institute of Oklahoma (RJIOK) for a second phase of culture work with the board, staff and larger community. With RJIOK help, host a mission / vision / values retreat with the board and community. Budget for an annual RJIOK board workshop as well as opportunities to share the training with the larger community. Examine and update our policies and practices, especially related to governance, membership, financial management, fundraising, and partnerships. Strategy Two: Ensure transparency and communicate frequently. Action Items: • • • • • Continue quarterly town halls and monthly president’s letter. Educate community members on our new code of conduct and the feedback mechanisms for handling incidents and grievances. Reaffirm recent statements regarding organizational challenges and harms; explain the processes completed or in development to address them. Communicate these updates with the community as they are implemented within the framework of a strategic communications plan. Utilize targeted communication strategies and innovative methods to engage members and stakeholders in the work. �GOAL TWO Implement internal and external changes to increase organizational effectiveness and improve governance operations. Strategy One: Create governance structures that support community involvement at every level. Action Items: • • • • • • • Finalize roles and responsibilities of trustees, board, advisors, including a structure for the financial expectations that ensures buy-in but also creates accessibility. Launch a revised membership strategy that clarifies benefits and responsibilities of membership and creates mechanisms to pay membership dues either through dollars or volunteer service. Grow our talent pipelines by engaging more individuals of varying backgrounds and skillsets in committee service. Review and update policies and processes for selecting and onboarding new board members. Ensure annual training for board members in the areas of nonprofit basics, board responsibilities, OkEq history, social media organization representation, and DEI awareness and action. Build new ways for business and funding partners to demonstrate allyship. Actively engage with CenterLink and other national resources so we can learn from best practices nation-wide. Strategy Two: Review community perceptions of OkEq and make appropriate changes to marketing and branding to address concerns and build on positives. Action Items: • • • • • Engage professional assistance to review branding and build layered communication strategies (i.e. website, e-news, apps, social media, print materials, etc.) Recognize our history and accomplishments as we make appropriate adjustments to respond to current and future challenges and opportunities. Promote Pride as something that lives year-round and is a visible aspect of our engagement in community. Use the power of storytelling to uplift the voices and diverse perspectives of the community as we expand our outreach and services. Ensure our images are representative of the diverse community we serve. �Strategy Three: Use data to tell our story of impact, report our outcomes, and make decisions regarding the implementation of our goals and strategies. Action Items: • • • • Develop an annual stakeholder survey to track progress on needs, goals, and engagement. Use this data to determine program priorities. Develop an annual staff survey to track progress on needs, goals, and engagement. Use this data to make staff related recommendations and in evaluation of the Executive Director performance. Utilize technology tools to track participation in programs and services. Develop surveys to determine client satisfaction as well as relevant impact. Engage in annual planning and review processes. o Executive Director creates annual operational plans to establish specific goals and metrics involved in meeting the goals of the plan. o Executive Committee reviews the plan quarterly and updates board on strategic plan implementation status. o The board annually reviews the plan at a summer planning retreat and adopts changes to the plan as needed at the Annual meeting. GOAL THREE Employ highly qualified staff who are mission aligned and have lived experience in proximity to the community being served. Strategy One: Ensure capable executive leadership. Action Items: • • Launch an Executive Director search committee to build out position description, identify the qualities and qualifications needed, and lead an effective recruitment and interview process. Hire and onboard an Executive Director with a track record of inclusive leadership and demonstrable skills to address the needs of the organization and those we serve. Strategy Two: Invest in a staff structure that provides the capacity to implement strategic initiatives and prioritizes ongoing training and development. Action Items: • Review organization needs and create a long-term staffing plan to address fundamental responsibilities including advocacy, programs, outreach, marketing, fundraising and building partnerships. �• • • • • Ensure up to date job descriptions and clear organization chart with every iteration of staff development. Develop staff recruitment and selection processes that balance community experience, diversity, mission alignment and technical skillsets. Examine compensation structures and benefits to assure workplace retention. Invest in training and accountability to support continued development for team members. Hire and train paid front desk workers as needed to augment volunteer contributions. Ensure all front desk workers have the training and updates needed to ensure consistent guest experiences, accurate referrals, and exceptional customer service. GOAL FOUR Expand programs and partnerships to improve services and outreach. Strategy One: Engage with community through collaboration and partnerships. Action Items: • • • • • • • Complete community asset mapping to identify potential partners as well as programmatic gaps that may still exist that could be filled by OkEq. Create structures through which it is absolutely clear and transparent what OkEq’s relationship is with those operating in our space or promoted on our social media (i.e. which are our programs, which are vetted services that are operating under formal agreements, which are given support but operate independently etc.) Maintain space for hosting third party providers delivering case management, counseling and other important social services on a consistent and widely promoted schedule. Clarify and strengthen our relationships with existing partners and develop new connections to better serve the community. Update our partnership agreements. Partner with affirming social safety net organizations to meet the needs of those most vulnerable in our community through services such as housing and rent assistance, food security, trans-friendly clothing and other important needs. Evaluate our clinic operations to determine which services are best done in-house and which can be provided through partnerships. Invite other clinic providers offering different types of affirming services to use our space during hours our inhouse provider is not in residence. Partner with credible social justice organizations to lend our name and resources to ongoing efforts to defend and expand civic liberties. Expand our engagement with others in the state around advocacy and public affairs. �Strategy Two: Be a hub for connecting people to the affirming resources and training they seek. Action Items: • • • • • • Expand training and resources for our volunteers to ensure consistent and informed information and referrals. Actively engage at tabling events and Pride celebrations across the state to both promote our own resources and stay aware of the resources being offered by others. Update our resource guides for affirming faith communities, supportive health resources, legal resources, equality business members, and other allied businesses and social services. Publish the resource guide on our website. Actively participate with interfaith and community networks that are seeking to improve equity and quality of life for the people of Tulsa, making sure the needs of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals are represented at the table. Expand outreach with local attorneys to provide various legal resources and periodic legal clinics to provide information and guidance to members on relevant topics. Partner with educational organizations to provide GED classes, language classes, and a variety of professional learning opportunities in our space, targeted to our members’ identified needs. Strategy Three: Offer opportunities to our community members to build leadership, give service, and advocate for positive change. Action Items: • • • • • • Train a cadre of board and staff representatives to speak to 2SLGBTQIA+ issues with the media and at community events. Partner with city government, emergency responders, and large institutions to ensure they are considering the needs of Oklahoma’s 2SLGBTQIA+ population when making policy. Expand the Equality Business Alliance Membership Program. Offer periodic service-day activities at OkEq and with other service agencies for members. Work with Leadership Tulsa to relaunch the Lead Together Program. Provide education, connection, and encouragement to our members and allies, especially those that have the social or financial capital to do so safely, to be advocates within institutions to foster safer spaces overall and push back on efforts to dismantle protections such as GSA’s, BRG’s, DEI offices, and other initiatives that have provided safe harbor. �Strategy Four: Always be a safe space where people find community, belonging, and support. Action Items: • • • • • • Review current safety protocols and security needs and make adjustment as needed to address concerns and potential threats. Continue and expand our successful line-up of support groups meeting at the center. Start a program to fill the gap in young adult programming (18-23) that was identified during community listening sessions. Invest in quarterly community feasts and holiday gatherings to make space for friendship and comradery. Host, cohost and/or amplify awareness of important community milestones and markers such as Trans Day of Remembrance, World Aids Day and more as appropriate. Honor those we have lost in our community by hosting an annual memorial service. Strategy Five: Embrace the power of the arts, affirming spiritual traditions, and wellness practices to build community across lines of difference, engage hearts, tell stories, and make powerful social change. Action Items: • • • • • Build on the potential of the art gallery with compelling shows and monthly or bimonthly art openings. At least once a year provide a show that highlights some aspect of our shared history. Support the efforts of the staff and the LRT Advisory Council to maximize the utilization of the black box theater for the benefit of OkEq and the community at large. Partner with others to offer author talks, lecture series, affirming religious or spiritual programs, holistic wellness workshops and retreats, film festivals, and other types of intergenerational, cultural, and educational programming. Maintain and expand access to the rich, diverse, and affirming collection provided by the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. Continue the work of the History Project to preserve OkEq documents, artifacts, and community donated items which tell the story of OkEq and of the local 2SLGBTQIA+ community. �GOAL FIVE Improve the financial, fundraising, and operational structures to stabilize operations and provide a foundation to respond to future needs and challenges. Strategy One: Complete the substantial investments in technology that have been started by the IT Special Committee Action Items: • • • • • • Finalize the customer relationship management software conversion process. Implement Asana project management software organization wide. Launch the “Let’s all do Good” app. As funding permits, upgrade technology in the meeting rooms to accommodate today’s virtual meeting landscape. Develop a secure and comprehensive document storing and sharing protocol so resources are available despite staff and volunteer transitions. Provide ongoing training to staff and committee chairs on best practices, organizational standard operating procedures, and use of available technology tools. Strategy Two: Create and implement a comprehensive financial plan that diversifies revenue streams, ensures financial stability, expands endowments and operating reserve, and supports sound fiscal decision making. Action Items: • • • • • • • • Continue quarterly reforecasting and mid-year rebudgeting protocols. Annually implement a successful end-of-year giving campaign that engages individuals and small businesses in the mission. Continuously innovate and improve on the annual gala strategy in ways that maximize proceeds and the participant experience. Prioritize ways that people can be included at a variety of giving levels. Expand our major gifts and foundation support by improved communication and direct contact with current and lapsed donors while cultivating and developing new funders and growing our base of support. Identify mission-related special-project giving opportunities in addition to seeking general operating support. Approve a facility rental strategy that balances earned income with in-kind hosting 2SLGBTQIA+ focused events. Market special rental packages that increase facility rental income. Improve earned revenue opportunities through a calendar of engaging and entertaining fee-based events. Create effective campaigns that solicit, cultivate and track paid memberships. �• • With board and trustee leadership, implement a planned giving program and other funding initiatives designed to add to the corpus of the existing endowments with the Tulsa Community Foundation. Review and update as appropriate the investment and distribution terms of the endowments. Publish a digital annual report that transparently shares sources and uses of funding while highlighting accomplishments and impact. Strategy Three: Expand the value and positive impact that Pride programming provides to the 2SLGBTQIA+ community while managing financial and liability issues. Action Items: • • • • Explore options and determine if OkEq remains the best organization to host and coordinate the Pride festival and programming for the future. Continue the community listening process related to priorities and most important aspects of the annual Pride Festival to the queer community members. To address the growing expense and significant staff and volunteer commitment, adjust the primary festival events to a one or two-day event. With the Pride committee, discuss the opportunities to include more educational and cultural programming with a Pride theme year-round. GOAL SIX Refresh and reimagine our Center to better serve today’s community. Strategy One: Continue organizing and refreshment of the Center. • • • • • • Engage staff, board and volunteers along with professional organizers to help with organizing and decluttering activities. Support the ongoing work of the archivist and volunteers in sorting and preserving meaningful materials that should be kept for historical purposes. With trustees, develop a budget and funding stream to provide for the maintenance and replacements of physical assets and allow for ongoing improvements to address changing needs. With trustees, complete an examination of current space usage and implement facility upgrades that improve the quality of the space, enhance user experience, and maximize facility use. Innovate new uses for old spaces that prioritize flexibility. With staff and stakeholders evaluate needs for spaces such as staff offices, counseling rooms, clothes closet/food pantry, meetings spaces. Consider co-working or coffee house type spaces that members can use during open hours. Refresh paint, floor coverings, furnishings, and lighting; add new plants, artwork and office furniture as needed. �Strategy Two: Plan and execute a capital campaign. • • • • • Engage with staff, architects, fundraising professionals, volunteers, trustees, and contractors to plan a renovation of the Equality Center. Create a budget for capital improvements and add to the endowment if possible. Conduct a capital campaign starting with major gift solicitation in 2026 and a public fundraising effort that launches with the 20th anniversary of the Center in 2027. Implement renovation plans with effective construction management in coordination with the needs of the Center. Plan a grand reopening celebration for the Center. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document OKEQ Strategic Plan Final Draft 2025 – 2030 For 45 years, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community have faced many obstacles in securing equal rights and a sense of safety and well-being. Over the years, important progress has been made. But recent internal and external issues, including a growing hostile political environment on many levels, are creating unprecedented challenges for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and those organizations providing services and support. In response, OKEQ must adapt to changing circumstances as it continues to support individuals, defend hard-fought rights, and stand against discriminatory policies. We believe the following goals, strategies, and actions will help us create a more resilient and capable organization to meet the moment as we work with others to show strength and a unified voice. Our Mission Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Our Goals GOAL ONE: Complete the reconciliation and restorative justice process started by the Community Relations Committee and Transition Team. GOAL TWO: Implement internal and external changes to increase organizational effectiveness and improve governmental operations. GOAL THREE: Employ highly qualified staff who are mission aligned and have lived experience in proximity to the community being served. GOAL FOUR: Expand programs and partnerships to improve services and outreach. GOAL FIVE: Improve the financial, fundraising, and operational structures to stabilize operations and provide a foundation to respond to future needs and challenges. GOAL SIX: Refresh and reimagine our Center to better serve today’s community. OKEQ Detailed Strategies Action items should be considered a starting place; additional actions may be warranted by the staff, volunteers or committees tasked with the goals and strategies. GOAL ONE Complete the reconciliation and restorative justice process started by the Community Relations Committee and Transition Team. Strategy One: Take actions which demonstrate our durable commitment to the reconciliation work. Action Items: • Engage Restorative Justice Institute of Oklahoma (RJIOK) for a second phase of culture work with the board, staff and larger community. • With RJIOK help, host a mission / vision / values retreat with the board and community. • Budget for an annual RJIOK board workshop as well as opportunities to share the training with the larger community. • Examine and update our policies and practices, especially related to governance, membership, financial management, fundraising, and partnerships. Strategy Two: Ensure transparency and communicate frequently. Action Items: • Continue quarterly town halls and monthly president’s letter. • Educate community members on our new code of conduct and the feedback mechanisms for handling incidents and grievances. • Reaffirm recent statements regarding organizational challenges and harms; explain the processes completed or in development to address them. • Communicate these updates with the community as they are implemented within the framework of a strategic communications plan. • Utilize targeted communication strategies and innovative methods to engage members and stakeholders in the work. GOAL TWO Implement internal and external changes to increase organizational effectiveness and improve governance operations. Strategy One: Create governance structures that support community involvement at every level. Action Items: • Finalize roles and responsibilities of trustees, board, advisors, including a structure for the financial expectations that ensures buy-in but also creates accessibility. • Launch a revised membership strategy that clarifies benefits and responsibilities of membership and creates mechanisms to pay membership dues either through dollars or volunteer service. • Grow our talent pipelines by engaging more individuals of varying backgrounds and skillsets in committee service. • Review and update policies and processes for selecting and onboarding new board members. • Ensure annual training for board members in the areas of nonprofit basics, board responsibilities, OkEq history, social media organization representation, and DEI awareness and action. • Build new ways for business and funding partners to demonstrate allyship. • Actively engage with CenterLink and other national resources so we can learn from best practices nation-wide. Strategy Two: Review community perceptions of OkEq and make appropriate changes to marketing and branding to address concerns and build on positives. Action Items: • Engage professional assistance to review branding and build layered communication strategies (i.e. website, e-news, apps, social media, print materials, etc.) • Recognize our history and accomplishments as we make appropriate adjustments to respond to current and future challenges and opportunities. • Promote Pride as something that lives year-round and is a visible aspect of our engagement in community. • Use the power of storytelling to uplift the voices and diverse perspectives of the community as we expand our outreach and services. • Ensure our images are representative of the diverse community we serve. Strategy Three: Use data to tell our story of impact, report our outcomes, and make decisions regarding the implementation of our goals and strategies. Action Items: • Develop an annual stakeholder survey to track progress on needs, goals, and engagement. Use this data to determine program priorities. • Develop an annual staff survey to track progress on needs, goals, and engagement. Use this data to make staff related recommendations and in evaluation of the Executive Director performance. • Utilize technology tools to track participation in programs and services. Develop surveys to determine client satisfaction as well as relevant impact. • Engage in annual planning and review processes. o Executive Director creates annual operational plans to establish specific goals and metrics involved in meeting the goals of the plan. o Executive Committee reviews the plan quarterly and updates board on strategic plan implementation status. o The board annually reviews the plan at a summer planning retreat and adopts changes to the plan as needed at the Annual meeting. GOAL THREE Employ highly qualified staff who are mission aligned and have lived experience in proximity to the community being served. Strategy One: Ensure capable executive leadership. Action Items: • Launch an Executive Director search committee to build out position description, identify the qualities and qualifications needed, and lead an effective recruitment and interview process. • Hire and onboard an Executive Director with a track record of inclusive leadership and demonstrable skills to address the needs of the organization and those we serve. Strategy Two: Invest in a staff structure that provides the capacity to implement strategic initiatives and prioritizes ongoing training and development. Action Items: • Review organization needs and create a long-term staffing plan to address fundamental responsibilities including advocacy, programs, outreach, marketing, fundraising and building partnerships. • Ensure up to date job descriptions and clear organization chart with every iteration of staff development. • Develop staff recruitment and selection processes that balance community experience, diversity, mission alignment and technical skillsets. • Examine compensation structures and benefits to assure workplace retention. • Invest in training and accountability to support continued development for team members. • Hire and train paid front desk workers as needed to augment volunteer contributions. Ensure all front desk workers have the training and updates needed to ensure consistent guest experiences, accurate referrals, and exceptional customer service. GOAL FOUR Expand programs and partnerships to improve services and outreach. Strategy One: Engage with community through collaboration and partnerships. Action Items: • Complete community asset mapping to identify potential partners as well as programmatic gaps that may still exist that could be filled by OkEq. • Create structures through which it is absolutely clear and transparent what OkEq’s relationship is with those operating in our space or promoted on our social media (i.e. which are our programs, which are vetted services that are operating under formal agreements, which are given support but operate independently etc.) • Maintain space for hosting third party providers delivering case management, counseling and other important social services on a consistent and widely promoted schedule. • Clarify and strengthen our relationships with existing partners and develop new connections to better serve the community. Update our partnership agreements. • Partner with affirming social safety net organizations to meet the needs of those most vulnerable in our community through services such as housing and rent assistance, food security, trans-friendly clothing and other important needs. • Evaluate our clinic operations to determine which services are best done in-house and which can be provided through partnerships. Invite other clinic providers offering different types of affirming services to use our space during hours our inhouse provider is not in residence. • Partner with credible social justice organizations to lend our name and resources to ongoing efforts to defend and expand civic liberties. Expand our engagement with others in the state around advocacy and public affairs. Strategy Two: Be a hub for connecting people to the affirming resources and training they seek. Action Items: • Expand training and resources for our volunteers to ensure consistent and informed information and referrals. • Actively engage at tabling events and Pride celebrations across the state to both promote our own resources and stay aware of the resources being offered by others. • Update our resource guides for affirming faith communities, supportive health resources, legal resources, equality business members, and other allied businesses and social services. Publish the resource guide on our website. • Actively participate with interfaith and community networks that are seeking to improve equity and quality of life for the people of Tulsa, making sure the needs of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals are represented at the table. • Expand outreach with local attorneys to provide various legal resources and periodic legal clinics to provide information and guidance to members on relevant topics. • Partner with educational organizations to provide GED classes, language classes, and a variety of professional learning opportunities in our space, targeted to our members’ identified needs. Strategy Three: Offer opportunities to our community members to build leadership, give service, and advocate for positive change. Action Items: • Train a cadre of board and staff representatives to speak to 2SLGBTQIA+ issues with the media and at community events. • Partner with city government, emergency responders, and large institutions to ensure they are considering the needs of Oklahoma’s 2SLGBTQIA+ population when making policy. • Expand the Equality Business Alliance Membership Program. • Offer periodic service-day activities at OkEq and with other service agencies for members. • Work with Leadership Tulsa to relaunch the Lead Together Program. • Provide education, connection, and encouragement to our members and allies, especially those that have the social or financial capital to do so safely, to be advocates within institutions to foster safer spaces overall and push back on efforts to dismantle protections such as GSA’s, BRG’s, DEI offices, and other initiatives that have provided safe harbor. Strategy Four: Always be a safe space where people find community, belonging, and support. Action Items: • Review current safety protocols and security needs and make adjustment as needed to address concerns and potential threats. • Continue and expand our successful line-up of support groups meeting at the center. • Start a program to fill the gap in young adult programming (18-23) that was identified during community listening sessions. • Invest in quarterly community feasts and holiday gatherings to make space for friendship and comradery. • Host, cohost and/or amplify awareness of important community milestones and markers such as Trans Day of Remembrance, World Aids Day and more as appropriate. • Honor those we have lost in our community by hosting an annual memorial service. Strategy Five: Embrace the power of the arts, affirming spiritual traditions, and wellness practices to build community across lines of difference, engage hearts, tell stories, and make powerful social change. Action Items: • Build on the potential of the art gallery with compelling shows and monthly or bimonthly art openings. At least once a year provide a show that highlights some aspect of our shared history. • Support the efforts of the staff and the LRT Advisory Council to maximize the utilization of the black box theater for the benefit of OkEq and the community at large. • Partner with others to offer author talks, lecture series, affirming religious or spiritual programs, holistic wellness workshops and retreats, film festivals, and other types of intergenerational, cultural, and educational programming. • Maintain and expand access to the rich, diverse, and affirming collection provided by the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library. • Continue the work of the History Project to preserve OkEq documents, artifacts, and community donated items which tell the story of OkEq and of the local 2SLGBTQIA+ community. GOAL FIVE Improve the financial, fundraising, and operational structures to stabilize operations and provide a foundation to respond to future needs and challenges. Strategy One: Complete the substantial investments in technology that have been started by the IT Special Committee Action Items: • Finalize the customer relationship management software conversion process. • Implement Asana project management software organization wide. • Launch the “Let’s all do Good” app. • As funding permits, upgrade technology in the meeting rooms to accommodate today’s virtual meeting landscape. • Develop a secure and comprehensive document storing and sharing protocol so resources are available despite staff and volunteer transitions. • Provide ongoing training to staff and committee chairs on best practices, organizational standard operating procedures, and use of available technology tools. Strategy Two: Create and implement a comprehensive financial plan that diversifies revenue streams, ensures financial stability, expands endowments and operating reserve, and supports sound fiscal decision making. Action Items: • Continue quarterly reforecasting and mid-year rebudgeting protocols. • Annually implement a successful end-of-year giving campaign that engages individuals and small businesses in the mission. • Continuously innovate and improve on the annual gala strategy in ways that maximize proceeds and the participant experience. Prioritize ways that people can be included at a variety of giving levels. • Expand our major gifts and foundation support by improved communication and direct contact with current and lapsed donors while cultivating and developing new funders and growing our base of support. • Identify mission-related special-project giving opportunities in addition to seeking general operating support. • Approve a facility rental strategy that balances earned income with in-kind hosting 2SLGBTQIA+ focused events. Market special rental packages that increase facility rental income. • Improve earned revenue opportunities through a calendar of engaging and entertaining fee-based events. • Create effective campaigns that solicit, cultivate and track paid memberships. • With board and trustee leadership, implement a planned giving program and other funding initiatives designed to add to the corpus of the existing endowments with the Tulsa Community Foundation. Review and update as appropriate the investment and distribution terms of the endowments. • Publish a digital annual report that transparently shares sources and uses of funding while highlighting accomplishments and impact. Strategy Three: Expand the value and positive impact that Pride programming provides to the 2SLGBTQIA+ community while managing financial and liability issues. Action Items: • Explore options and determine if OkEq remains the best organization to host and coordinate the Pride festival and programming for the future. • Continue the community listening process related to priorities and most important aspects of the annual Pride Festival to the queer community members. • To address the growing expense and significant staff and volunteer commitment, adjust the primary festival events to a one or two-day event. • With the Pride committee, discuss the opportunities to include more educational and cultural programming with a Pride theme year-round. GOAL SIX Refresh and reimagine our Center to better serve today’s community. Strategy One: Continue organizing and refreshment of the Center. • Engage staff, board and volunteers along with professional organizers to help with organizing and decluttering activities. • Support the ongoing work of the archivist and volunteers in sorting and preserving meaningful materials that should be kept for historical purposes. • With trustees, develop a budget and funding stream to provide for the maintenance and replacements of physical assets and allow for ongoing improvements to address changing needs. • With trustees, complete an examination of current space usage and implement facility upgrades that improve the quality of the space, enhance user experience, and maximize facility use. • Innovate new uses for old spaces that prioritize flexibility. With staff and stakeholders evaluate needs for spaces such as staff offices, counseling rooms, clothes closet/food pantry, meetings spaces. Consider co-working or coffee house type spaces that members can use during open hours. • Refresh paint, floor coverings, furnishings, and lighting; add new plants, artwork and office furniture as needed. Strategy Two: Plan and execute a capital campaign. • Engage with staff, architects, fundraising professionals, volunteers, trustees, and contractors to plan a renovation of the Equality Center. • Create a budget for capital improvements and add to the endowment if possible. • Conduct a capital campaign starting with major gift solicitation in 2026 and a public fundraising effort that launches with the 20th anniversary of the Center in 2027. • Implement renovation plans with effective construction management in coordination with the needs of the Center. • Plan a grand reopening celebration for the Center. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2025] OKEQ Strategic Plan Final Draft 2025 - 2030 Subject The topic of the resource Final Draft of Oklahomans for Equality Strategic Plan for 2025 - 2030 Description An account of the resource 10 pages of a final draft for Oklahomans for Equality's (OKEQ) strategic plan for the years 2025 to 2030. It contains the organization's mission and goals, and detailed strategic goals with their action items. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource Accessed August 7, 2025 2025 Art Gallery Asana board training budget budgeting CenterLink community community engagement community feast community networks community outreach donations EBA Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) executive director executive director search executive director search committee fundraisers fundraising gala health clinic history project IT Special Committee Lead Together Leadership Tulsa legal resources Let's All Do Good LRT Advisory Council memorial memorial service mission statement Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board and Trustees OKEQ mission OKEQ staff OKEQ strategic plan OKEQ volunteers Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Pride celebration pride festival Rainbow Library Restorative Justice Institute of Oklahoma Restorative Justice Institute of Oklahoma (RJIOK) RJIOK safety safety protocols security staff recruitment strategic plan support groups TCF Trans Day of Remembrance Tulsa Community Foundation Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF) volunteers World AIDS day young adult programming https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/10c9f60a829fb0ca48e26f13a3414595.pdf b0dd3ba97b94a4534efeebb22d19b9a5 PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality By-laws Effective October 19, 2023 �By-Laws of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (OkEq) ARTICLE I: NAME, PURPOSE, AND LOCATION Section 1: Name of Organization The name of this organization shall be Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., hereinafter referred to as “OkEq,” a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma. Section2: Purposes The purposes for which OkEq is formed are: a. To promote educational, health, cultural, and social services directed at furthering the well-being, equal treatment and development of the two-spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, ace plus ("2SLGBTQIA+") community and supportive allies. b. To promote, through advocacy and education, a better understanding of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and the necessity or the equal treatment thereof, including bringing an end to discrimination and oppression against all persons based upon sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. Such activities shall be carried out to the extent permitted by federal regulations attributable to a 50l(c)(3) organization and other applicable regulations. c. To operate a 2SLGBTQIA+ equality center for the benefit of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and its allies. Section 3: Mission OkEq seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. I �Section 4: Principal Office The principal office of OkEq shall be located in Tulsa, Oklahoma at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120, known as the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ("Equality Center"). OkEq may have such other offices as the Board of Directors determines or as OkEq affairs may require. Section 5: Fiscal Year Books The tax and fiscal year for OkEq shall begin on October 1st and end on September 30th of each year thereafter. An independent audit of the books and records of OkEq shall be conducted at least biannually. The Audit Committee shall ensure that documents for any audit are to be provided to the auditors by December 31st following the period to be audited and shall ensure the audit is completed as timely as possible. The audit report shall be presented to the Board of Directors within thirty (30) days of its completion and within sixty (60) days of completion shall be made available to the public for review. ARTICLE II: MEMBERSHIP QUALIFICATIONS, VOTING AND RIGHTS Section 1: Membership Membership shall be open to all persons who support the purpose and mission of OkEq. A person becomes a Member by submitting an application, making a financial contribution to OkEq, or making an in-kind contribution to OkEq at a level determined by the Board of Directors, which shall be no less than fifty dollars ($50.00) annually. Members: a. Shall be eligible to be the beneficiaries of all programs of OkEq and to participate in services provided at the Equality Center, subject to any participant fee established by the Board of Directors for any particular program, event, or service. b. Are eligible to be elected to the Board of Directors pursuant to Article III, Section 3, provided the Voting Member has been a person with such membership for at least thirty (30) days immediately preceding any vote. c Shall have the right to vote on any by-law revision which affects membership rights, provided the Voting Member has been a person with such membership for at least thirty (30) days immediately preceding any vote. d. Shall have the right to petition the Board of Directors of any grievance, �concern or suggestion. Any such petition shall be in writing, signed by no less than 15 Voting Members and presented to the Secretary for certification. A certified petition shall be presented to the Board at its next scheduled Board meeting, whereby petitioners shall have the right to make public comment. Petitions are not binding upon the Board and petitioners do not have the right to force a vote upon the petition. Section 2: Other Categories and Membership The Board of Directors may establish various other categories of membership and set forth benefits and requirements of such membership categories, including dues. Section 3: Changes to Membership Policy Any changes to this membership policy must be proposed at least thirty (30) days prior to an Annual Meeting or a Special Membership Meeting and must be made available for review by all Members prior to being voted upon. Such membership policy changes shall require two-thirds (2/3) approval of the full Board and a simple majority approval by the Members in attendance. Section 4: Membership Records The Board of Directors or its designee shall be required to keep accurate and up to date records pertaining to Membership. Such records shall be confidential and may not be disclosed to any other group or organization, except as may be required in applications for grants or third party funding. Additional exceptions to this policy may be approved by the Board of Directors. ARTICLE III: BOARD OF DIRECTORS Directors are members of the Board of Directors (hereafter "the Board" or "the Board of Directors," not to include the Trustees or Advisors) either elected pursuant Article III, Section 6 or appointed to the Board pursuant to Article III, Section 14. Directors must be Members. Section 1: General Powers Subject to the limitations provided by law, the Oklahoma General Corporation Act of the state of Oklahoma, and the Certificate of Incorporation for OkEq, all corporate powers and purposes shall be exercised by or under the authority of the Board of Directors, and the business and affairs of OkEq shall be managed and conducted exclusively by the Board of Directors. Without prejudice to the general powers established by law, but subject to the limitations set forth herein, the Board of Directors shall have the power and authority to: �a. Conduct, manage, and control the business and affairs of OkEq as the Board deems necessary and just. b. Pass resolutions not inconsistent with these by-laws, which shall remain effective until repealed as set forth in Article III, Section 17. c. Elect and remove at pleasure all the Officers, agents, and the Executive Director of OkEq not inconsistent with these by-laws, and to prescribe for them their duties, fix the terms of their service, and any compensation, if any, and to require from them any such forms of security for faithful service as the Board deems fit. d. Approve any incoming new or returning Directors. e. Remove any of its Directors pursuant to Section 13 of this Article or a Member for cause upon a two-thirds (2/3) vote of the full Board. f. Establish and terminate committees as needed. Section 2: Limitations The Board of Directors of OkEq shall not have the power or authority to: a. Negotiate, develop, execute, or implement any lease agreement exceeding thirty (30) days for all or any part of the real estate held by OkEq; b. Encumber in any way the real property of OkEq; c. Obligate OkEq to any single capital debt exceeding $50,000 unless approved by a majority vote of the full Board of Directors and unanimous vote of all of the Trustees; d. Make any substantive changes to the physical and/or structural appearance of the principal office of OkEq except with approval of the Trustees; or e. Pledge as collateral, encumber in any way, spend, levy or have any access whatsoever to the principal or accrued interest or dividends of the Capital Endowment funds held in trust by the Tulsa Community Foundation on behalf of �OkEq except with the unanimous written approval of the full Board of Directors and the unanimous written approval of the Trustees. This provision does not apply to any funds specifically pledged or earmarked for operations whether held at the Tulsa Community Foundation or any other financial or trust institution. Section 3: Qualifications of Members of the Board of Directors Directors must have their principal place of residence in the state of Oklahoma. They must have been members of OkEq for at least thirty (30) days immediately prior to their election. No employee of OkEq may serve as a Director. The Board may not implement any additional qualification requirements for Directors except when such qualification changes have been approved by a majority of the Board of Directors. However, any qualification changes may not be implemented within ninety (90) days of any election. Prior to nomination, every Director shall agree to the terms of the "Oklahomans for Equality, Board Member Contract" as approved by the majority of the Board of Directors. Section 4: Number and Quorum The OkEq Board of Directors may have up to fifteen (15) and no fewer than nine (9) members. However, to the extent possible, the Board of Directors shall be comprised of an odd number of Directors. A quorum at any meeting of the Board of Directors shall consist of a simple majority of the current number of sitting Directors. Except as otherwise provided in these by-laws, a majority of all votes cast at a meeting of which a quorum is present is sufficient to approve any matter that properly comes before the meeting. Less than a quorum does not allow any voting on a matter, but the meeting may continue to conclusion or a new meeting may be called. Contemporaneous teleconferencing will count towards quorum and voting with prior notice to the Secretary. Written proxies may be used in voting but will not be counted in determining if a quorum is present. All "votes" prescribed within these bylaws shall require a majority of the quorum, unless the bylaws expressly state that the vote must be by a majority of the full Board of Directors. The requirements of quorum shall also apply to any digital voting in that a simple majority of the current total number of sitting Directors must participate in any �vote. If fewer than a simple majority of the current sitting Directors respond to a digital vote, then the result of that vote, regardless of outcome, will be invalid. Votes will be tabulated via emails in which Directors use the "reply all" function. The President will send out a follow up message detailing whether a quorum was met, and if it was, the result of the overall vote.The President or Secretary will retain copies of all digital votes. Section 5: Tenure and Term Limits Each Director shall hold office for two (2) years beginning October 1st following the date of election. Terms shall be staggered so that approximately onehalf (1/2) of the Board is elected each year. No Director may serve more than three consecutive two-year terms. After six consecutive years of service, a Director must roll off the Board for a minimum of one (1) year. Section 6: a. Nomination and Election Nominations Board of Director nominations shall be made by the Board Development and Governance Committee not less than thirty (30) days before the Annual Meeting, under Article III, Section 12. In making nominations, the Governance Committee shall strive to reflect the demographics and interests of the community it serves. Recruitment efforts shall include persons with diverse minority, racial, and cultural backgrounds, as well as persons with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions. b. Elections The makeup of the Board of Directors shall be elected at the Annual Meeting by a majority of the remaining Directors. Section 7: Regular Meeting Regular meetings of the Board of Directors shall be held at a time and place to be decided by the President. A minimum of nine (9) Board of Directors' meetings shall be held within the fiscal year. Section 8: Meeting of Members of the Board of Directors and Members-elect of the Board of Directors A meeting of the members of the Board of Directors whose term continues through the next fiscal year and members-elect of the Board of Directors shall be held no �less than thirty (30) days after the Annual Meeting. The purpose of this meeting is to elect Officers for the fiscal year beginning October 1st. Section 9: Meeting Notice, Open Meetings Meeting notices are orchestrated by the Secretary and are given to Directors at least sixty (60) hours before the meeting. Regular meeting notices are to be posted in the OkEq newsletter and website. Any such notice shall contain the time, purposes, and place of the meeting. All Board meetings shall be open meetings except for executive sessions. Section 10: Special Meetings Special meetings of the Board of Directors may be called by or at the request of the President or three (3) or more Directors. Section 11: Special Membership Meetings a. The purpose of a Special Membership Meeting shall be to afford Members the right to have specific grievances, concerns, or suggestions discussed and voted upon by the Board of Directors and all Members in attendance. b. Special Membership Meetings may be called by the Board of Directors or by means of a written petition to the Board of Directors signed by not less than fifteen (15) Members as certified by the Secretary of the Board of Directors. Upon certification, the Secretary shall present said petition for a Special Membership Meeting to the Board, which shall then arrange to hold such a Special Membership Meeting within a reasonable period of time after having received the petition, not to exceed forty-five (45) days. Special Membership Meetings may run concurrently with regular Board meetings. c. The Board shall notify the membership of the meeting at least fifteen (15) days prior to its occurrence. Sufficient notice consists of posting the date, time and place of the meeting in a conspicuous place in the Equality Center and giving notice in an OkEq newsletter, website, social media pages, or other such medium. d. Quorum for a Special Membership Meeting shall require the presence of at least fifteen (15) Members as certified by the Board Secretary unless �the Special Membership Meeting was called by the Board on its own motion. Quorum at a Special Membership Meeting called pursuant to a petition also requires a quorum of the Board of Directors. e. Only the specific issue(s) addressed in the original written petition submitted to the Board Secretary and noticed to the membership shall be up for discussion in the Special Membership Meeting. No other issues or matters not expressly identified in the petition shall be considered. f. Members shall have the right to make a motion for the Board to take specific action(s) as it expressly relates to the petition at hand. The Board shall be compelled to vote upon any such motion that meets the following criteria: (1) The motion must be presented in writing to the Board Secretary during the meeting. (2) The motion must be seconded by a Member. (3) The motion must be approved by a majority vote of the Members in attendance. (4) Any and all motions satisfying these criteria shall be voted upon by the Board of Directors after discussion of the issue. g. A simple majority vote of the Board of Directors shall be required to enact any motion approved by the Members unless restricted by Article III. In the absence of an approval by a majority vote of the Board the motion fails. If the Board is restricted by Article III from voting on the motion the matter fails. Section 12: Annual Meeting The Annual Meeting of the membership and the Board of Directors shall be held in September subject to inclement weather or on such other date as the Board of Directors may decide. Section 13: Removal from Board of Directors Unexcused absences from two (2) consecutive Board meetings within a Board year or three (3) total unexcused absences from Board meetings within a Board year, is equivalent to resignation from the Board of Directors. Sufficient "excuse" will be at the sole discretion and judgment of the Executive Committee in closed session. The Secretary shall confirm absences and shall provide notice of resignation to the �President in writing. Any Director may be removed for cause, including but not limited to violation of the "Board Member Contract," by a twothirds (2/3) vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 14: Vacancies/Resignation In the event of a vacancy on the Board of Directors, the Board Development and Governance Committee shall take suggestions from Directors and Members. The Board Development and Governance Committee shall then recommend a candidate for appointment by the Board of Directors. Appointed Directors shall only fill the unexpired term of the former incumbent up to the time of the next Annual Meeting at which time the Appointed Director may be eligible pursuant to Article III, Section 6 for election by the Board of Directors. The duration of appointment shall not count toward that Director's term limit of three consecutive two-year terms. The Secretary shall keep a record of term expiration dates for individual Directors. Section 15: Compensation Directors, as such, shall not receive any compensation for their services to OkEq. Section 16: Record Keeping Correct and complete records of the proceedings of the Board of Directors, the Executive Committee, designated committees and all financial accounts shall be kept and maintained at OkEq's principal office or electronically. The last twelve (12) months of Board minutes, the last Annual Membership Meeting minutes, the most recent audited financials, the current financials, and the budget shall be electronically maintained and readily available to Members on the Equality Center’s website. Section 17: Resolutions a. Resolutions of the Board of Directors shall be considered passed when approved by two-thirds (2/3) of the Directors present in quorum at a Board meeting. b. Resolutions shall be consecutively numbered with the year the resolution was passed appearing in the resolution number and then the consecutive number of the particular resolution starting with 2009-1. Example: Resolutions passed in 2010 shall be numbered beginning with 2010-1. �c. Resolutions shall have the force of law for OkEq and shall be effective until repealed by a two-thirds (2/3) majority of the full Board of Directors, notwithstanding a quorum. d. The Secretary of the Board of Directors shall certify the passage or denial of a particular resolution and note the “yeas” and “nays” on the document which shall be electronically available on OkEq’s website. e. A copy of these bylaws and all resolutions shall be made available for viewing by all Members on OkEq’s website. f. Resolutions may be amended by a two-thirds (2/3) majority of the full Board of Directors, notwithstanding a quorum. Such amendments shall be attached to the particular resolution being amended and maintained pursuant to Article III, Section 16. Section 18: Confidentiality OkEq Directors, Trustees, Advisors and committee members shall recognize their fiduciary obligation to the membership by ensuring proper protection of confidential information and exercising good judgment in discussing the organization and its activities. At the end of a Director, Trustee, or Advisor's term, or at the end of service by a volunteer or committee member, they shall return all documents, papers, and other materials, regardless of medium, which were provided to them, or created by such person on behalf of the organization, except for those documents or materials which are clearly in the public domain (such as copies of minutes, financials, etc.). Section 19: Director' s Oath of Office Directors shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE IV: OFFICERS Section 1: The Enumerated Officers of the Board of Directors The Officers of OkEq shall be the President, Vice President, Secretary, and Treasurer. All Officers shall be members of the Board of Directors. �Section 2: Election and Terms of Office Officers shall be elected by the returning members and members-elect of the Board of Directors by majority vote at the Board meeting held pursuant to Article III, Section 8. All Officers shall serve a one-year term. No Officer may serve more than two consecutive one-year terms in the same position. Section 3: Removal from Office Any Officer may be removed by a three-fourths (3/4) vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Notice of proposed removal shall be served in writing to the Officer by the President, or the Vice President if the President is the subject of removal, at least ten (10) days prior to a Board meeting deciding the matter. The notice of proposed removal shall clearly state the reasons. The Officer shall have the right to respond to the proposed removal both orally at a Board meeting deciding the matter and/or in writing. A vote by the Board of Directors sustaining the removal shall be effective immediately, and the Officer shall be notified by the President or Vice President as soon as possible. Removal of an Officer does not supplant that person's elected or appointed right to continue to serve their term as a Board Director unless also removed as a Director pursuant to Article III, Section 13. Section 4: Vacancies of Office A vacancy of any Officer position may be filled by appointment and approval by the Board of Directors for the duration of the unexpired term of the former incumbent Officer. The Board Development and Governance Committee shall recommend a successor for Board approval; however, a vacancy of the President's position shall be filled pursuant to Section 5 of this Article. Any appointed Officer shall serve for the duration of the Officer's term. The duration of appointment shall not count towards the Officer's term limit of two consecutive one-year terms. Section 5: President The President shall serve as President of the Board of Directors and as Chair of the Executive Committee. They shall preside at meetings of the Board of Directors and the Executive Committee. The President shall have such powers and/or perform such duties as are vested in them by the by-laws and such other duties as prescribed by the Board of Directors. If for some reason the President position shall become vacant, the Vice �President shall assume all of the duties of the President and shall serve as President of the Board of Directors for the duration of the remainder of the term. The President shall also have the power to call a meeting of the Trustees for the election of new Trustees and/or present for a vote all matters within the Trustees' authority. The President shall be a non-voting member of the Trustee Board. Section 6: Vice President The Vice President performs all duties as may be assigned by the Board of Directors and will perform the duties of the President in their absence or incapacity. A Vice President vacancy shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. Section 7: Secretary The Secretary shall be the keeper of corporate records and resolutions. The Secretary shall keep a record of attendance and the minutes of all Board of Directors and Executive Committee meetings; oversee the timely and accurate notice of all meetings and actions set forth within these bylaws; establish and keep all files and documents necessary to support the operations of the Board and its committees; keep a record of Director contact information; certify the passage of all resolutions of the Board of Directors; certify current membership signatures on petitions; certify the membership; and shall perform all other duties as may be assigned to them by the Board of Directors. A Secretary vacancy shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. Section 8: Treasurer The Treasurer shall ensure that accurate and complete corporate financial records are maintained; that financial reports are made at each Board of Directors and Executive Committee meeting; that an audited financial report is timely prepared biannually; and that appropriate financial controls exist throughout the organization. The Treasurer shall also serve as a non-voting member of the Trustees and shall perform all other duties as may be assigned to them by the Board of Directors. A Director elected to encumber the position of Treasurer shall first be subject to a reasonable background investigation, undertaken by OkEq. The Treasurer shall be bonded by a reputable surety insurance company selected by the Board of Directors at the expense of OkEq, provided OkEq has sufficient funds to pay for such bonding. A vacancy in the Treasurer's position shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. �ARTICLE V: EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Section 1: Number and Qualifications The Executive Committee shall consist of the President, Vice President, Secretary, Treasurer, and one at-large member of the Board of Directors. The at-large Board member selected to the Executive Committee shall be elected by members-elect and returning members of the Board at the Board meeting in September pursuant to the guidelines for Officer election in Article IV, Section 2. The Board member at-large may be removed pursuant to Article IV, Section 3. A vacancy of the at-large Board member shall be filled pursuant to Article IV, Section 4. Section 2: Authority The Executive Committee may act for the Board of Directors between meetings of the Board, within policies established by the Board of Directors, and with such additional authority as may be delegated by the Board of Directors or bylaws. All decisions made by the Executive Committee must be timely communicated to the entire Board of Directors. Any act by the Executive Committee may be vetoed by a majority vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 3: Meetings The Executive Committee shall meet as needed at a time and place to be determined by the President. Section 4: Quorum and Procedure Three (3) members of the Executive Committee serving at the time of any meeting shall constitute a quorum. The act of a majority of the Officers present at any meeting at which a quorum is present shall be the act of the Executive Committee. The Executive Committee shall keep regular minutes of its proceedings electronically. A report of all actions of the Executive Committee shall be made to the Board of Directors at its next regularly scheduled meeting, and the minutes of all Executive Committee meetings shall be available to the Board of Directors and Members upon request by notifying the Secretary. �ARTICLE VI: STANDING COMMITTEES Section 1: Standing Committee Membership The President shall recommend all Standing Committee chairs and obtain approval from the Board. Each committee shall consist of at least one (1) Director as chair and additional persons as needed to carry out the work of the committee. Section 2: Standing Committees The Board of Directors shall utilize Standing Committees to assist in running OkEq’s affairs. The Standing Committees shall be: a. Finance Committee The Finance Committee shall prepare and oversee an annual budget, and develop and implement financial operating procedures for approval by the Board of Directors. The Finance Committee shall be chaired by the Treasurer. b. Board Development and Governance Committee The Board Development and Governance Committee shall be responsible for establishing and maintaining board recruitment procedures, recruitment and nomination of Director/Officer positions, and vacancies. The committee shall, to the extent possible, in board recruitment and nomination, ensure gender balance and the diverse representation of race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, and gender identity. The committee shall serve the ongoing duty of Board orientation, development, and evaluation. The committee shall ensure that all OkEq by-laws and policies and procedures are adhered to and kept current. c. Audit Committee The Audit Committee shall be responsible for ensuring that the biannual audit of OkEq is conducted in a timely fashion by a qualified licensed professional. Neither the Executive Director nor the Treasurer may serve as a member of the Audit Committee. d. Pride Committee The Pride Committee shall be responsible for assisting OkEq staff and/or contracted designees in planning and executing Pride. �The Pride Committee coordinates the annual Pride event and is responsible for providing progress reports and issues encountered during the organization and coordination of the event to the Board. The committee chair will present a report of financial requirements for the event and will submit a budget for approval to the Board of Directors. The committee chair will also present a report of expenses incurred after the closing of the event. The chair can at their own discretion recruit volunteers to help with the coordination and execution of the event. Coordination between the Pride committee chair and employees should be scheduled ahead of time or the employees can be invited to attend the Pride committee meetings to assist the chair with the coordination of the event. Any complaints from volunteers, staff, vendors, or attendees regarding Pride leadership are to be submitted to the Executive Committee or anonymously via an electronic form for the Executive Committee to review and decide if the complaint warrants action by the Pride committee or the Board. No member of the Executive Committee should serve as the Pride Committee Chair. e. Gala Committee The Gala Committee shall be responsible for selecting a theme, venue, and date for OkEq’s annual fundraising event. The committee shall create programming for the evening, secure donations for the silent auction, and work to promote the event in the Tulsa community. f. Advocacy and Policy Committee The Advocacy and Policy Committee shall monitor policy as it pertains to the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the local, state, and federal level. The committee shall proactively determine policy issues of focus for each state legislative session, create advocacy alert language to engage community advocates, and draft position statements or responses to 2SLGBTQIA+ policy. The policy issues of focus for each state legislative session should be approved by the Board of Directors. g. Communications Committee The Communications Committee shall assist the Executive Director of OkEq in matters of branding, messaging, communications, and public relations. �Section 3: Special Committees The Board of Directors, by motion or resolution, may designate and appoint additional Special Committees. Section 4: Reporting �Committee chairs shall report to the Board of Directors at each regularly scheduled meeting or as deemed necessary by the President of the Board. Minutes shall be taken at all committee meetings and copies thereof in a legible fashion should be provided to the Secretary in a timely manner. Section 5: Quorum Unless otherwise provided in a motion or resolution of the Board, two (2) committee members shall constitute a quorum. ARTICLE VII: Section 1: ADVISORY BOARD Advisory Board Constitution The Board of Directors may establish an Advisory Board. Membership may consist of past Officers, Directors, Members, volunteers of OkEq, current members of allied organizations, or others with expertise deemed valuable to the organization. Advisory Board members shall not have the authority to vote during Board meetings. The President and Executive Director may independently or jointly nominate members of the Advisory Board. Section 2: Approval Advisory Board members shall be voted upon and approved by the Board of Directors. Section 3: Conflict of Interest The Advisory Board members shall not be subject to Article XIII, conflict of interest, unless otherwise required by a motion or resolution of the Board. Section 4: Oath of Office Advisors shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE VIII: EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Section 1: Executive Director �At the Board's discretion and subject to budgetary considerations, the Board may approve the hiring and oversee the recruiting of an Executive Director. The Executive Director has day-to-day responsibility for the Equality Center, including carrying out the goals and policies established by the Board of Directors. The Executive Director shall attend all Board of Directors and Trustees meetings, regularly report on the progress of OkEq, answer questions of Board members, and carry out the duties described in the position description as approved by the Board. The Board can designate other duties as necessary. The Executive Director's compensation, inclusive of any awards from time to time, shall be set and approved by the Board of Directors. Section 2: Background Investigation Subject to a favorable background investigation an Executive Director may be hired by a majority vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 3: Duties of the Executive Director The Executive Director's duties shall be set out in a position description developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee and approved by the full Board. The Executive Director shall have the following powers and duties: a. To manage the day-to-day responsibilities in operating the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and in carrying out OkEq's goals and mission. b. To attend all Board of Directors meetings and Trustee meetings and report on the progress of OkEq in meeting established goals set by the Board. c. To account on a monthly basis at a regularly scheduled Board meeting for all funds received and expended for the month prior to the Board meeting. d. The Executive Director shall not enter into any contract binding OkEq nor execute or deliver any instrument on behalf of OkEq unless authorized in writing by the Board of Directors. To �do otherwise will be considered an act outside the scope of the Executive Director's employment by OkEq. e. Unless approved by a motion of the Board of Directors, the Executive Director shall not open or establish any credit card or debit card in the name of or by any account payable by OkEq. The Executive Director shall have the authority to hire, supervise, direct, and dismiss all employees. f. g. The Executive Director shall serve as an ex-officio member on all committees, except the Audit Committee. h. The Executive Director shall have other duties as specifically prescribed in writing by the Board of Directors and/or the Executive Committee. ARTICLE IX: PROGRAMS The Executive Director may authorize such programs as may be found expedient for the provision of services to the community. Each program shall be administered in accordance with the structure, policies, and procedures approved by the Board of Directors. Any fees for participation shall be at the discretion of the Executive Director or designee. The Executive Director shall report to the Board of Directors on the implementation and progress of new and established programs at the Board meetings. ARTICLE X: Section 1: TRUSTEES Composition and Terms of Office The Trustees shall be comprised of not more than five (5) and not fewer than three (3) Trustees consisting of persons who have donated or raised $5,000.00 or more of funds annually by fiscal year, at least $1,000.00 of that having been a capital gift, and who are not currently serving as a Director on the Board of Directors. Any new Trustees must be Members of OkEq and must be appointed and approved by a majority of the Board of Directors. A new Trustee shall also be approved by a majority vote of the then sitting Trustees. The current members of the Trustees shall be notified of the nominee and his or her qualifications at least fifteen (15) days prior to any vote. The Treasurer of the Board of Directors shall serve as a non-voting member. �The Executive Director may serve as a non-voting member. The Trustees shall elect a Chair. The President of the Board of Directors shall serve as a non-voting member. The Trustees shall be elected to three-year staggered terms to the extent possible. In the event of a vacancy, the Board of Directors, following consultation with the remaining Trustees, shall appoint a qualified Member by majority vote as successor to complete the remainder of an unexpired term. Such new Trustee appointed shall also be approved by a majority vote of the remaining Trustees. No Trustee may serve more than two (2) consecutive terms (six consecutive years). After one year of being off the Trustees, they may be reappointed for another three (3) year term. Section 2: Duties The Trustee's duties and responsibilities shall be comprised of the following and no more: a. Safeguard the principal endowment held in trust by the Tulsa Community Foundation. No monies from the corpus of the restricted permanent capital endowment may be spent unless approved by unanimous consent of all of the Trustees and the unanimous consent of the full Board of Directors. b. Negotiate, develop, execute, and implement any lease agreement exceeding 30 days for all or any part of the real estate held by OkEq, which shall be enacted upon concurrent approval by a majority of the Board of Directors and the Trustees. c. Approval of any substantive changes to the physical and/or structural appearance of the principal office of OkEq or any real property owned by OkEq. No such proposed improvement shall be enacted without the consent of the Trustees and approval by the full Board of Directors. d. Approval of any encumbrances on the real property owned by OkEq. No such proposed encumbrances shall be enacted without the unanimous consent of all of the Trustees and a three-quarters (3/4) approval by the Board of Directors. e. The Trustees are encouraged to annually enter into a Memorandum of Understanding ("MOU") with the Board of Directors which shall not be inconsistent with these bylaws and the limitations imposed on the Board of Directors and the Trustees. Section 3: Removal, Resignation and Appointment �A vacancy shall be created by the expiration of the term in office, or by the death, resignation, or failure of a Trustee to attend, without excuse, two consecutive meetings of the Trustees. A Trustee may be removed by a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the Trustees and a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the Board of Directors. Section 4: Meetings, Quorum and Voting The Trustees may set such meetings as are reasonably necessary with 72 hours notice as the Chair or a quorum of Trustees determines is appropriate under the circumstances. Notice and purpose of the meeting must be given to all Trustees, the Treasurer of the Board of Directors, the President of the Board of Directors, and any Executive Director. Votes may be recorded by any means that can be authenticated. A quorum shall exist where a majority of the Trustees are capable of casting authenticated votes as determined by the Chair. (By way of example, votes may be cast by telephone email). Any vote of the Trustees shall be by all sitting Trustees. Section 5: Confidentiality and Conflict of Interest The Trustees shall be subject to the confidentiality and conflict of interest policies that govern the Board of Directors. Section 6: Amendment of this Article X This Article may only be amended by a majority vote of all sitting Trustees and a majority vote of the Board of Directors. Section 7: Oath of Office Trustees shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE XI: JOINT RESOLUTIONS BETWEEN BOARD OF DIRECTORS AND TRUSTEES Any mortgage, encumbrance, conveyance, or sale of the real property of OkEq must be approved by a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the full Board of Directors and a unanimous vote of the Trustees. No monies from the corpus of the restricted permanent capital endowment �may be spent unless approved by a unanimous vote of the Board of Directors and a unanimous vote of the Trustees. Interest generated by the corpus may be expended by the Trustees for mortgage payments, maintenance, improvements, utilities, and renovation of the infrastructure. ARTICLE XII: CONTRACTS, CHECKS, DEPOSITS AND FUNDS Section 1: Contracts The Executive Director or Board President may enter into any contract on behalf of OkEq or execute and deliver any instrument on behalf of OkEq under $10,000.00. Such authority is specifically limited to prior approval by the Board of Directors or the Executive Committee and such authority may be general or confined to specific instances. Any contracts, executables or delivery of instruments calling for payment of $10,000.00 or more shall require prior-approval from the Board of Directors. Section 2: Checks and Drafts All checks, drafts, or orders for the payment of money or other evidence of indebtedness in the name of OkEq shall be approved and signed by the OkEq Treasurer or such other Director as approved by the Board of Directors. In the absence of such approval by the Board, such instruments shall be signed by the President and countersigned by the Treasurer following approval by the Executive Committee. Under no circumstances shall an approval by the Executive Committee trump any prior disapproval by the Board of Directors. Section 3: Deposits All funds of OkEq shall be deposited in a timely manner to the credit of OkEq in such banks, trust companies or other depositories as the Board of Directors may select. Deposits on behalf of OkEq or any of its programs may be made by the Treasurer, President, Executive Director or any other Director or Officer so authorized by the Board of Directors to make such deposits. Section 4: Solicitation of Funds Solicitation of funds may be reviewed and restricted by the Board of Directors. All formal grant applications or other written instruments in support of the grant application, whether for operations or capital, must have the approval of �the Board of Directors or the Executive Director. ARTICLE XIII: CONFLICT OF INTEREST Section 1: Defined Directors and Trustees must avoid conflicts of interest or the appearance of a conflict of interest. When there is any question about whether any activity, representation, or conduct is a conflict of interest or gives the appearance of a conflict of interest, the Director or Trustee shall make full disclosure to the Board of Directors which shall determine if a conflict exists. A decision by the Board of Directors on any issue of conflict of interest is final. By way of example, conflicts of interest include situations: Where an individual Director or Trustee's private affairs, financial or material interests are in conflict with their duties and responsibilities or result in an appearance that a conflict of interest exists; Where a Director or Trustee's actions compromise or undermine the trust which the public and Members place in OkEq; and which could impair or appear to impair the Director's or Trustee's abilities to act impartially on behalf of OkEq. Section 2: Expected Behavior Directors and Trustees must act in the best interest of the Members of OkEq. Directors and Trustees shall not participate in decisions from which they could benefit financially, materially, or personally, including, but not limited to benefits accruing to immediate family, partners, or closely allied friends as if the Directors or Trustees in question were to receive the benefit. Directors and Trustees shall not use their position or information obtained therefrom to provide an unfair advantage to them, their family, partners, or closely allied friends, including cases involving funding, approvals, and appointments. The term "closely allied friend(s)" shall be interpreted by the Board of Directors. ARTICLE XIV: INDEMNIFICATION OkEq may, by resolution of the Board of Directors, provide for indemnification by OkEq of any and all of its Directors,Officers, volunteers, �employees, or former Directors and Officers against expenses actually and necessarily incurred by them in connection with the defense of any action, claim, suit or proceeding in which they or any of them are made parties or a party by reason of them acting within the scope of their duties and/or authority having been a Director or Officer of OkEq, except in matters as to which such Director or Officer or former Director or Officer shall be adjudged in such action, claim, suit, or proceeding to be liable for negligence or misconduct in the performance of his or her duty and/or to have been acting outside the scope of their duties and/or authority and to such matters as shall be settled by agreement predicated on the existence of such liability for negligence or misconduct. This clause or any indemnification hereunder shall not be effective if it would increase the liability of OkEq or any Director pursuant to Oklahoma law beyond policy limits and/or coverage of any such insurance. Insurance may be procured at the discretion of the Board of Directors. ARTICLE XV: AMENDMENT TO BYLAWS These bylaws may be amended pursuant to the procedures for a Special Membership Meeting provided for in Article III, Section 11, at the Annual Meeting, or in the event of an exigency the Board may amend these bylaws on its own motion, provided that the amendment is passed by unanimous consent of all the Directors on the Board, not just those present at the meeting. However, any amendment(s) to membership policy shall only comport with Article II, Section 3 and any amendment(s) to Article X shall comport with Article X, Section 6. ARTICLE XVI: BYLAW INTERPRETATION Should the need arise for an interpretation of any provision, language, clause, statement, or conflict between Articles or Sections of these bylaws, the matter shall first be discussed and decided upon by the Board of Directors. Should an impasse arise in an interpretation by the Board, the matter shall be submitted to an independent panel of five (5) Members, not to include any Director, Trustee, or employee of OkEq, to render a written decision on the interpretation which shall be binding, final, and conclusive. �Amendment History Approved December 11, 1987 Approved as amended, August 1, 1989 Approved as amended, July 22, 1997 Approved as amended, July 14, 1998 Approved as amended, September 12, 2000 Approved as amended, December 11, 2001 Approved as amended, February 12, 2002 Approved as amended, August 18, 2002 Approved as amended, September 9, 2003 Approved as amended, October 24, 2005 Approved as amended, July 27, 2006 Approved as amended, July 22, 2007 Approved as amended, November 29, 2007 Approved by the Board and Contributing Membership September 24, 2009 Approved by the Membership, Board and Trustees September 25, 2014 Approved by the Membership, Board and Trustees, September 6, 2018 Approve by the Membership and Board, May 13, 2021 Approved as amended by unanimous vote of the Board on April 20th, 2023 Approved as amended by unanimous vote of the Board on October 19th, 2023 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality By-laws Effective October 19, 2023 By-Laws of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (OkEq) ARTICLE I: NAME, PURPOSE, AND LOCATION Section 1: Name of Organization The name of this organization shall be Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., hereinafter referred to as “OkEq,” a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma. Section2 [sic]: Purposes The purposes for which OkEq is formed are: a. To promote educational, health, cultural, and social services directed at furthering the well-being, equal treatment and development of the two-spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, ace plus ("2SLGBTQIA+") community and supportive allies. b. To promote, through advocacy and education, a better understanding of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and the necessity or the equal treatment thereof, including bringing an end to discrimination and oppression against all persons based upon sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. Such activities shall be carried out to the extent permitted by federal regulations attributable to a 50l(c)(3) organization and other applicable regulations. c. To operate a 2SLGBTQIA+ equality center for the benefit of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and its allies. Section 3: Mission OkEq seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Section 4: Principal Office The principal office of OkEq shall be located in Tulsa, Oklahoma at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120, known as the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ("Equality Center"). OkEq may have such other offices as the Board of Directors determines or as OkEq affairs may require. Section 5: Fiscal Year Books The tax and fiscal year for OkEq shall begin on October 1st and end on September 30th of each year thereafter. An independent audit of the books and records of OkEq shall be conducted at least biannually. The Audit Committee shall ensure that documents for any audit are to be provided to the auditors by December 31st following the period to be audited and shall ensure the audit is completed as timely as possible. The audit report shall be presented to the Board of Directors within thirty (30) days of its completion and within sixty (60) days of completion shall be made available to the public for review. ARTICLE II: MEMBERSHIP QUALIFICATIONS, VOTING AND RIGHTS Section 1: Membership Membership shall be open to all persons who support the purpose and mission of OkEq. A person becomes a Member by submitting an application, making a financial contribution to OkEq, or making an in-kind contribution to OkEq at a level determined by the Board of Directors, which shall be no less than fifty dollars ($50.00) annually. Members: a. Shall be eligible to be the beneficiaries of all programs of OkEq and to participate in services provided at the Equality Center, subject to any participant fee established by the Board of Directors for any particular program, event, or service. b. Are eligible to be elected to the Board of Directors pursuant to Article III, Section 3, provided the Voting Member has been a person with such membership for at least thirty (30) days immediately preceding any vote. c [sic] Shall have the right to vote on any by-law revision which affects membership rights, provided the Voting Member has been a person with such membership for at least thirty (30) days immediately preceding any vote. d. Shall have the right to petition the Board of Directors of any grievance, concern or suggestion. Any such petition shall be in writing, signed by no less than 15 Voting Members and presented to the Secretary for certification. A certified petition shall be presented to the Board at its next scheduled Board meeting, whereby petitioners shall have the right to make public comment. Petitions are not binding upon the Board and petitioners do not have the right to force a vote upon the petition. Section 2: Other Categories and Membership The Board of Directors may establish various other categories of membership and set forth benefits and requirements of such membership categories, including dues. Section 3: Changes to Membership Policy Any changes to this membership policy must be proposed at least thirty (30) days prior to an Annual Meeting or a Special Membership Meeting and must be made available for review by all Members prior to being voted upon. Such membership policy changes shall require two-thirds (2/3) approval of the full Board and a simple majority approval by the Members in attendance. Section 4: Membership Records The Board of Directors or its designee shall be required to keep accurate and up to date records pertaining to Membership. Such records shall be confidential and may not be disclosed to any other group or organization, except as may be required in applications for grants or third party funding. Additional exceptions to this policy may be approved by the Board of Directors. ARTICLE III: BOARD OF DIRECTORS Directors are members of the Board of Directors (hereafter "the Board" or "the Board of Directors," not to include the Trustees or Advisors) either elected pursuant Article III, Section 6 or appointed to the Board pursuant to Article III, Section 14. Directors must be Members. Section 1: General Powers Subject to the limitations provided by law, the Oklahoma General Corporation Act of the state of Oklahoma, and the Certificate of Incorporation for OkEq, all corporate powers and purposes shall be exercised by or under the authority of the Board of Directors, and the business and affairs of OkEq shall be managed and conducted exclusively by the Board of Directors. Without prejudice to the general powers established by law, but subject to the limitations set forth herein, the Board of Directors shall have the power and authority to: a. Conduct, manage, and control the business and affairs of OkEq as the Board deems necessary and just. b. Pass resolutions not inconsistent with these by-laws, which shall remain effective until repealed as set forth in Article III, Section 17. c. Elect and remove at pleasure all the Officers, agents, and the Executive Director of OkEq not inconsistent with these by-laws, and to prescribe for them their duties, fix the terms of their service, and any compensation, if any, and to require from them any such forms of security for faithful service as the Board deems fit. d. Approve any incoming new or returning Directors. e. Remove any of its Directors pursuant to Section 13 of this Article or a Member for cause upon a two-thirds (2/3) vote of the full Board. f. Establish and terminate committees as needed. Section 2: Limitations The Board of Directors of OkEq shall not have the power or authority to: a. Negotiate, develop, execute, or implement any lease agreement exceeding thirty (30) days for all or any part of the real estate held by OkEq; b. Encumber in any way the real property of OkEq; c. Obligate OkEq to any single capital debt exceeding $50,000 unless approved by a majority vote of the full Board of Directors and unanimous vote of all of the Trustees; d. Make any substantive changes to the physical and/or structural appearance of the principal office of OkEq except with approval of the Trustees; or e. Pledge as collateral, encumber in any way, spend, levy or have any access whatsoever to the principal or accrued interest or dividends of the Capital Endowment funds held in trust by the Tulsa Community Foundation on behalf of OkEq except with the unanimous written approval of the full Board of Directors and the unanimous written approval of the Trustees. This provision does not apply to any funds specifically pledged or earmarked for operations whether held at the Tulsa Community Foundation or any other financial or trust institution. Section 3: Qualifications of Members of the Board of Directors Directors must have their principal place of residence in the state of Oklahoma. They must have been members of OkEq for at least thirty (30) days immediately prior to their election. No employee of OkEq may serve as a Director. The Board may not implement any additional qualification requirements for Directors except when such qualification changes have been approved by a majority of the Board of Directors. However, any qualification changes may not be implemented within ninety (90) days of any election. Prior to nomination, every Director shall agree to the terms of the "Oklahomans for Equality, Board Member Contract" as approved by the majority of the Board of Directors. Section 4: Number and Quorum The OkEq Board of Directors may have up to fifteen (15) and no fewer than nine (9) members. However, to the extent possible, the Board of Directors shall be comprised of an odd number of Directors. A quorum at any meeting of the Board of Directors shall consist of a simple majority of the current number of sitting Directors. Except as otherwise provided in these by-laws, a majority of all votes cast at a meeting of which a quorum is present is sufficient to approve any matter that properly comes before the meeting. Less than a quorum does not allow any voting on a matter, but the meeting may continue to conclusion or a new meeting may be called. Contemporaneous teleconferencing will count towards quorum and voting with prior notice to the Secretary. Written proxies may be used in voting but will not be counted in determining if a quorum is present. All "votes" prescribed within these bylaws shall require a majority of the quorum, unless the bylaws expressly state that the vote must be by a majority of the full Board of Directors. The requirements of quorum shall also apply to any digital voting in that a simple majority of the current total number of sitting Directors must participate in any vote. If fewer than a simple majority of the current sitting Directors respond to a digital vote, then the result of that vote, regardless of outcome, will be invalid. Votes will be tabulated via emails in which Directors use the "reply all" function. The President will send out a follow up message detailing whether a quorum was met, and if it was, the result of the overall vote.The President or Secretary will retain copies of all digital votes. Section 5: Tenure and Term Limits Each Director shall hold office for two (2) years beginning October 1st following the date of election. Terms shall be staggered so that approximately one half (1/2) of the Board is elected each year. No Director may serve more than three consecutive two-year terms. After six consecutive years of service, a Director must roll off the Board for a minimum of one (1) year. Section 6: Nomination and Election a. Nominations Board of Director nominations shall be made by the Board Development and Governance Committee not less than thirty (30) days before the Annual Meeting, under Article III, Section 12. In making nominations, the Governance Committee shall strive to reflect the demographics and interests of the community it serves. Recruitment efforts shall include persons with diverse minority, racial, and cultural backgrounds, as well as persons with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and gender expressions. b. Elections The makeup of the Board of Directors shall be elected at the Annual Meeting by a majority of the remaining Directors. Section 7: Regular Meeting Regular meetings of the Board of Directors shall be held at a time and place to be decided by the President. A minimum of nine (9) Board of Directors' meetings shall be held within the fiscal year. Section 8: Meeting of Members of the Board of Directors and Members-elect of the Board of Directors A meeting of the members of the Board of Directors whose term continues through the next fiscal year and members-elect of the Board of Directors shall be held no less than thirty (30) days after the Annual Meeting. The purpose of this meeting is to elect Officers for the fiscal year beginning October 1st. Section 9: Meeting Notice, Open Meetings Meeting notices are orchestrated by the Secretary and are given to Directors at least sixty (60) hours before the meeting. Regular meeting notices are to be posted in the OkEq newsletter and website. Any such notice shall contain the time, purposes, and place of the meeting. All Board meetings shall be open meetings except for executive sessions. Section 10: Special Meetings Special meetings of the Board of Directors may be called by or at the request of the President or three (3) or more Directors. Section 11: Special Membership Meetings a. The purpose of a Special Membership Meeting shall be to afford Members the right to have specific grievances, concerns, or suggestions discussed and voted upon by the Board of Directors and all Members in attendance. b. Special Membership Meetings may be called by the Board of Directors or by means of a written petition to the Board of Directors signed by not less than fifteen (15) Members as certified by the Secretary of the Board of Directors. Upon certification, the Secretary shall present said petition for a Special Membership Meeting to the Board, which shall then arrange to hold such a Special Membership Meeting within a reasonable period of time after having received the petition, not to exceed forty-five (45) days. Special Membership Meetings may run concurrently with regular Board meetings. c. The Board shall notify the membership of the meeting at least fifteen (15) days prior to its occurrence. Sufficient notice consists of posting the date, time and place of the meeting in a conspicuous place in the Equality Center and giving notice in an OkEq newsletter, website, social media pages, or other such medium. d. Quorum for a Special Membership Meeting shall require the presence of at least fifteen (15) Members as certified by the Board Secretary unless the Special Membership Meeting was called by the Board on its own motion. Quorum at a Special Membership Meeting called pursuant to a petition also requires a quorum of the Board of Directors. e. Only the specific issue(s) addressed in the original written petition submitted to the Board Secretary and noticed to the membership shall be up for discussion in the Special Membership Meeting. No other issues or matters not expressly identified in the petition shall be considered. f. Members shall have the right to make a motion for the Board to take specific action(s) as it expressly relates to the petition at hand. The Board shall be compelled to vote upon any such motion that meets the following criteria: (1) The motion must be presented in writing to the Board Secretary during the meeting. (2) The motion must be seconded by a Member. (3) The motion must be approved by a majority vote of the Members in attendance. (4) Any and all motions satisfying these criteria shall be voted upon by the Board of Directors after discussion of the issue. g. A simple majority vote of the Board of Directors shall be required to enact any motion approved by the Members unless restricted by Article III. In the absence of an approval by a majority vote of the Board the motion fails. If the Board is restricted by Article III from voting on the motion the matter fails. Section 12: Annual Meeting The Annual Meeting of the membership and the Board of Directors shall be held in September subject to inclement weather or on such other date as the Board of Directors may decide. Section 13: Removal from Board of Directors Unexcused absences from two (2) consecutive Board meetings within a Board year or three (3) total unexcused absences from Board meetings within a Board year, is equivalent to resignation from the Board of Directors. Sufficient "excuse" will be at the sole discretion and judgment of the Executive Committee in closed session. The Secretary shall confirm absences and shall provide notice of resignation to the President in writing. Any Director may be removed for cause, including but not limited to violation of the "Board Member Contract," by a twothirds [sic] (2/3) vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 14: Vacancies/Resignation In the event of a vacancy on the Board of Directors, the Board Development and Governance Committee shall take suggestions from Directors and Members. The Board Development and Governance Committee shall then recommend a candidate for appointment by the Board of Directors. Appointed Directors shall only fill the unexpired term of the former incumbent up to the time of the next Annual Meeting at which time the Appointed Director may be eligible pursuant to Article III, Section 6 for election by the Board of Directors. The duration of appointment shall not count toward that Director's term limit of three consecutive two-year terms. The Secretary shall keep a record of term expiration dates for individual Directors. Section 15: Compensation Directors, as such, shall not receive any compensation for their services to OkEq. Section 16: Record Keeping Correct and complete records of the proceedings of the Board of Directors, the Executive Committee, designated committees and all financial accounts shall be kept and maintained at OkEq's principal office or electronically. The last twelve (12) months of Board minutes, the last Annual Membership Meeting minutes, the most recent audited financials, the current financials, and the budget shall be electronically maintained and readily available to Members on the Equality Center’s website. Section 17: Resolutions a. Resolutions of the Board of Directors shall be considered passed when approved by two-thirds (2/3) of the Directors present in quorum at a Board meeting. b. Resolutions shall be consecutively numbered with the year the resolution was passed appearing in the resolution number and then the consecutive number of the particular resolution starting with 2009-1. Example: Resolutions passed in 2010 shall be numbered beginning with 2010-1. c. Resolutions shall have the force of law for OkEq and shall be effective until repealed by a two-thirds (2/3) majority of the full Board of Directors, notwithstanding a quorum. d. The Secretary of the Board of Directors shall certify the passage or denial of a particular resolution and note the “yeas” and “nays” on the document which shall be electronically available on OkEq’s website. e. A copy of these bylaws and all resolutions shall be made available for viewing by all Members on OkEq’s website. f. Resolutions may be amended by a two-thirds (2/3) majority of the full Board of Directors, notwithstanding a quorum. Such amendments shall be attached to the particular resolution being amended and maintained pursuant to Article III, Section 16. Section 18: Confidentiality OkEq Directors, Trustees, Advisors and committee members shall recognize their fiduciary obligation to the membership by ensuring proper protection of confidential information and exercising good judgment in discussing the organization and its activities. At the end of a Director, Trustee, or Advisor's term, or at the end of service by a volunteer or committee member, they shall return all documents, papers, and other materials, regardless of medium, which were provided to them, or created by such person on behalf of the organization, except for those documents or materials which are clearly in the public domain (such as copies of minutes, financials, etc.). Section 19: Director' s Oath of Office Directors shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE IV: OFFICERS Section 1: The Enumerated Officers of the Board of Directors The Officers of OkEq shall be the President, Vice President, Secretary, and Treasurer. All Officers shall be members of the Board of Directors. Section 2: Election and Terms of Office Officers shall be elected by the returning members and members-elect of the Board of Directors by majority vote at the Board meeting held pursuant to Article III, Section 8. All Officers shall serve a one-year term. No Officer may serve more than two consecutive one-year terms in the same position. Section 3: Removal from Office Any Officer may be removed by a three-fourths (3/4) vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Notice of proposed removal shall be served in writing to the Officer by the President, or the Vice President if the President is the subject of removal, at least ten (10) days prior to a Board meeting deciding the matter. The notice of proposed removal shall clearly state the reasons. The Officer shall have the right to respond to the proposed removal both orally at a Board meeting deciding the matter and/or in writing. A vote by the Board of Directors sustaining the removal shall be effective immediately, and the Officer shall be notified by the President or Vice President as soon as possible. Removal of an Officer does not supplant that person's elected or appointed right to continue to serve their term as a Board Director unless also removed as a Director pursuant to Article III, Section 13. Section 4: Vacancies of Office A vacancy of any Officer position may be filled by appointment and approval by the Board of Directors for the duration of the unexpired term of the former incumbent Officer. The Board Development and Governance Committee shall recommend a successor for Board approval; however, a vacancy of the President's position shall be filled pursuant to Section 5 of this Article. Any appointed Officer shall serve for the duration of the Officer's term. The duration of appointment shall not count towards the Officer's term limit of two consecutive one-year terms. Section 5: President The President shall serve as President of the Board of Directors and as Chair of the Executive Committee. They shall preside at meetings of the Board of Directors and the Executive Committee. The President shall have such powers and/or perform such duties as are vested in them by the by-laws and such other duties as prescribed by the Board of Directors. If for some reason the President position shall become vacant, the Vice President shall assume all of the duties of the President and shall serve as President of the Board of Directors for the duration of the remainder of the term. The President shall also have the power to call a meeting of the Trustees for the election of new Trustees and/or present for a vote all matters within the Trustees' authority. The President shall be a non-voting member of the Trustee Board. Section 6: Vice President The Vice President performs all duties as may be assigned by the Board of Directors and will perform the duties of the President in their absence or incapacity. A Vice President vacancy shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. Section 7: Secretary The Secretary shall be the keeper of corporate records and resolutions. The Secretary shall keep a record of attendance and the minutes of all Board of Directors and Executive Committee meetings; oversee the timely and accurate notice of all meetings and actions set forth within these bylaws; establish and keep all files and documents necessary to support the operations of the Board and its committees; keep a record of Director contact information; certify the passage of all resolutions of the Board of Directors; certify current membership signatures on petitions; certify the membership; and shall perform all other duties as may be assigned to them by the Board of Directors. A Secretary vacancy shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. Section 8: Treasurer The Treasurer shall ensure that accurate and complete corporate financial records are maintained; that financial reports are made at each Board of Directors and Executive Committee meeting; that an audited financial report is timely prepared biannually; and that appropriate financial controls exist throughout the organization. The Treasurer shall also serve as a non-voting member of the Trustees and shall perform all other duties as may be assigned to them by the Board of Directors. A Director elected to encumber the position of Treasurer shall first be subject to a reasonable background investigation, undertaken by OkEq. The Treasurer shall be bonded by a reputable surety insurance company selected by the Board of Directors at the expense of OkEq, provided OkEq has sufficient funds to pay for such bonding. A vacancy in the Treasurer's position shall be filled pursuant to Section 4 of this Article. ARTICLE V: EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Section 1: Number and Qualifications The Executive Committee shall consist of the President, Vice President, Secretary, Treasurer, and one at-large member of the Board of Directors. The at-large Board member selected to the Executive Committee shall be elected by members-elect and returning members of the Board at the Board meeting in September pursuant to the guidelines for Officer election in Article IV, Section 2. The Board member at-large may be removed pursuant to Article IV, Section 3. A vacancy of the at-large Board member shall be filled pursuant to Article IV, Section 4. Section 2: Authority The Executive Committee may act for the Board of Directors between meetings of the Board, within policies established by the Board of Directors, and with such additional authority as may be delegated by the Board of Directors or bylaws. All decisions made by the Executive Committee must be timely communicated to the entire Board of Directors. Any act by the Executive Committee may be vetoed by a majority vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 3: Meetings The Executive Committee shall meet as needed at a time and place to be determined by the President. Section 4: Quorum and Procedure Three (3) members of the Executive Committee serving at the time of any meeting shall constitute a quorum. The act of a majority of the Officers present at any meeting at which a quorum is present shall be the act of the Executive Committee. The Executive Committee shall keep regular minutes of its proceedings electronically. A report of all actions of the Executive Committee shall be made to the Board of Directors at its next regularly scheduled meeting, and the minutes of all Executive Committee meetings shall be available to the Board of Directors and Members upon request by notifying the Secretary. ARTICLE VI: STANDING COMMITTEES Section 1: Standing Committee Membership The President shall recommend all Standing Committee chairs and obtain approval from the Board. Each committee shall consist of at least one (1) Director as chair and additional persons as needed to carry out the work of the committee. Section 2: Standing Committees The Board of Directors shall utilize Standing Committees to assist in running OkEq’s affairs. The Standing Committees shall be: a. Finance Committee The Finance Committee shall prepare and oversee an annual budget, and develop and implement financial operating procedures for approval by the Board of Directors. The Finance Committee shall be chaired by the Treasurer. b. Board Development and Governance Committee The Board Development and Governance Committee shall be responsible for establishing and maintaining board recruitment procedures, recruitment and nomination of Director/Officer positions, and vacancies. The committee shall, to the extent possible, in board recruitment and nomination, ensure gender balance and the diverse representation of race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, and gender identity. The committee shall serve the ongoing duty of Board orientation, development, and evaluation. The committee shall ensure that all OkEq by-laws and policies and procedures are adhered to and kept current. c. Audit Committee The Audit Committee shall be responsible for ensuring that the biannual audit of OkEq is conducted in a timely fashion by a qualified licensed professional. Neither the Executive Director nor the Treasurer may serve as a member of the Audit Committee. d. Pride Committee The Pride Committee shall be responsible for assisting OkEq staff and/or contracted designees in planning and executing Pride. The Pride Committee coordinates the annual Pride event and is responsible for providing progress reports and issues encountered during the organization and coordination of the event to the Board. The committee chair will present a report of financial requirements for the event and will submit a budget for approval to the Board of Directors. The committee chair will also present a report of expenses incurred after the closing of the event. The chair can at their own discretion recruit volunteers to help with the coordination and execution of the event. Coordination between the Pride committee chair and employees should be scheduled ahead of time or the employees can be invited to attend the Pride committee meetings to assist the chair with the coordination of the event. Any complaints from volunteers, staff, vendors, or attendees regarding Pride leadership are to be submitted to the Executive Committee or anonymously via an electronic form for the Executive Committee to review and decide if the complaint warrants action by the Pride committee or the Board. No member of the Executive Committee should serve as the Pride Committee Chair. e. Gala Committee The Gala Committee shall be responsible for selecting a theme, venue, and date for OkEq’s annual fundraising event. The committee shall create programming for the evening, secure donations for the silent auction, and work to promote the event in the Tulsa community. f. Advocacy and Policy Committee The Advocacy and Policy Committee shall monitor policy as it pertains to the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the local, state, and federal level. The committee shall proactively determine policy issues of focus for each state legislative session, create advocacy alert language to engage community advocates, and draft position statements or responses to 2SLGBTQIA+ policy. The policy issues of focus for each state legislative session should be approved by the Board of Directors. g. Communications Committee The Communications Committee shall assist the Executive Director of OkEq in matters of branding, messaging, communications, and public relations. Section 3: Special Committees The Board of Directors, by motion or resolution, may designate and appoint additional Special Committees. Section 4: Reporting Committee chairs shall report to the Board of Directors at each regularly scheduled meeting or as deemed necessary by the President of the Board. Minutes shall be taken at all committee meetings and copies thereof in a legible fashion should be provided to the Secretary in a timely manner. Section 5: Quorum Unless otherwise provided in a motion or resolution of the Board, two (2) committee members shall constitute a quorum. ARTICLE VII: ADVISORY BOARD Section 1: Advisory Board Constitution The Board of Directors may establish an Advisory Board. Membership may consist of past Officers, Directors, Members, volunteers of OkEq, current members of allied organizations, or others with expertise deemed valuable to the organization. Advisory Board members shall not have the authority to vote during Board meetings. The President and Executive Director may independently or jointly nominate members of the Advisory Board. Section 2: Approval Advisory Board members shall be voted upon and approved by the Board of Directors. Section 3: Conflict of Interest The Advisory Board members shall not be subject to Article XIII, conflict of interest, unless otherwise required by a motion or resolution of the Board. Section 4: Oath of Office Advisors shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE VIII: EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Section 1: Executive Director At the Board's discretion and subject to budgetary considerations, the Board may approve the hiring and oversee the recruiting of an Executive Director. The Executive Director has day-to-day responsibility for the Equality Center, including carrying out the goals and policies established by the Board of Directors. The Executive Director shall attend all Board of Directors and Trustees meetings, regularly report on the progress of OkEq, answer questions of Board members, and carry out the duties described in the position description as approved by the Board. The Board can designate other duties as necessary. The Executive Director's compensation, inclusive of any awards from time to time, shall be set and approved by the Board of Directors. Section 2: Background Investigation Subject to a favorable background investigation an Executive Director may be hired by a majority vote of a quorum of the Board of Directors. Section 3: Duties of the Executive Director The Executive Director's duties shall be set out in a position description developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee and approved by the full Board. The Executive Director shall have the following powers and duties: a. To manage the day-to-day responsibilities in operating the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and in carrying out OkEq's goals and mission. b. To attend all Board of Directors meetings and Trustee meetings and report on the progress of OkEq in meeting established goals set by the Board. c. To account on a monthly basis at a regularly scheduled Board meeting for all funds received and expended for the month prior to the Board meeting. d. The Executive Director shall not enter into any contract binding OkEq nor execute or deliver any instrument on behalf of OkEq unless authorized in writing by the Board of Directors. To do otherwise will be considered an act outside the scope of the Executive Director's employment by OkEq. e. Unless approved by a motion of the Board of Directors, the Executive Director shall not open or establish any credit card or debit card in the name of or by any account payable by OkEq. f. The Executive Director shall have the authority to hire, supervise, direct, and dismiss all employees. g. The Executive Director shall serve as an ex-officio member on all committees, except the Audit Committee. h. The Executive Director shall have other duties as specifically prescribed in writing by the Board of Directors and/or the Executive Committee. ARTICLE IX: PROGRAMS The Executive Director may authorize such programs as may be found expedient for the provision of services to the community. Each program shall be administered in accordance with the structure, policies, and procedures approved by the Board of Directors. Any fees for participation shall be at the discretion of the Executive Director or designee. The Executive Director shall report to the Board of Directors on the implementation and progress of new and established programs at the Board meetings. ARTICLE X: TRUSTEES Section 1: Composition and Terms of Office The Trustees shall be comprised of not more than five (5) and not fewer than three (3) Trustees consisting of persons who have donated or raised $5,000.00 or more of funds annually by fiscal year, at least $1,000.00 of that having been a capital gift, and who are not currently serving as a Director on the Board of Directors. Any new Trustees must be Members of OkEq and must be appointed and approved by a majority of the Board of Directors. A new Trustee shall also be approved by a majority vote of the then sitting Trustees. The current members of the Trustees shall be notified of the nominee and his or her qualifications at least fifteen (15) days prior to any vote. The Treasurer of the Board of Directors shall serve as a non-voting member. The Executive Director may serve as a non-voting member. The Trustees shall elect a Chair. The President of the Board of Directors shall serve as a non-voting member. The Trustees shall be elected to three-year staggered terms to the extent possible. In the event of a vacancy, the Board of Directors, following consultation with the remaining Trustees, shall appoint a qualified Member by majority vote as successor to complete the remainder of an unexpired term. Such new Trustee appointed shall also be approved by a majority vote of the remaining Trustees. No Trustee may serve more than two (2) consecutive terms (six consecutive years). After one year of being off the Trustees, they may be reappointed for another three (3) year term. Section 2: Duties The Trustee's duties and responsibilities shall be comprised of the following and no more: a. Safeguard the principal endowment held in trust by the Tulsa Community Foundation. No monies from the corpus of the restricted permanent capital endowment may be spent unless approved by unanimous consent of all of the Trustees and the unanimous consent of the full Board of Directors. b. Negotiate, develop, execute, and implement any lease agreement exceeding 30 days for all or any part of the real estate held by OkEq, which shall be enacted upon concurrent approval by a majority of the Board of Directors and the Trustees. c. Approval of any substantive changes to the physical and/or structural appearance of the principal office of OkEq or any real property owned by OkEq. No such proposed improvement shall be enacted without the consent of the Trustees and approval by the full Board of Directors. d. Approval of any encumbrances on the real property owned by OkEq. No such proposed encumbrances shall be enacted without the unanimous consent of all of the Trustees and a three-quarters (3/4) approval by the Board of Directors. e. The Trustees are encouraged to annually enter into a Memorandum of Understanding ("MOU") with the Board of Directors which shall not be inconsistent with these bylaws and the limitations imposed on the Board of Directors and the Trustees. Section 3: Removal, Resignation and Appointment A vacancy shall be created by the expiration of the term in office, or by the death, resignation, or failure of a Trustee to attend, without excuse, two consecutive meetings of the Trustees. A Trustee may be removed by a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the Trustees and a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the Board of Directors. Section 4: Meetings, Quorum and Voting The Trustees may set such meetings as are reasonably necessary with 72 hours notice as the Chair or a quorum of Trustees determines is appropriate under the circumstances. Notice and purpose of the meeting must be given to all Trustees, the Treasurer of the Board of Directors, the President of the Board of Directors, and any Executive Director. Votes may be recorded by any means that can be authenticated. A quorum shall exist where a majority of the Trustees are capable of casting authenticated votes as determined by the Chair. (By way of example, votes may be cast by telephone email). Any vote of the Trustees shall be by all sitting Trustees. Section 5: Confidentiality and Conflict of Interest The Trustees shall be subject to the confidentiality and conflict of interest policies that govern the Board of Directors. Section 6: Amendment of this Article X This Article may only be amended by a majority vote of all sitting Trustees and a majority vote of the Board of Directors. Section 7: Oath of Office Trustees shall take an oath of office administered by the President of OkEq or their designee. The oath shall be developed by the Board Development and Governance Committee. ARTICLE XI: JOINT RESOLUTIONS BETWEEN BOARD OF DIRECTORS AND TRUSTEES Any mortgage, encumbrance, conveyance, or sale of the real property of OkEq must be approved by a three-quarters (3/4) vote of the full Board of Directors and a unanimous vote of the Trustees. No monies from the corpus of the restricted permanent capital endowment may be spent unless approved by a unanimous vote of the Board of Directors and a unanimous vote of the Trustees. Interest generated by the corpus may be expended by the Trustees for mortgage payments, maintenance, improvements, utilities, and renovation of the infrastructure. ARTICLE XII: CONTRACTS, CHECKS, DEPOSITS AND FUNDS Section 1: Contracts The Executive Director or Board President may enter into any contract on behalf of OkEq or execute and deliver any instrument on behalf of OkEq under $10,000.00. Such authority is specifically limited to prior approval by the Board of Directors or the Executive Committee and such authority may be general or confined to specific instances. Any contracts, executables or delivery of instruments calling for payment of $10,000.00 or more shall require prior-approval from the Board of Directors. Section 2: Checks and Drafts All checks, drafts, or orders for the payment of money or other evidence of indebtedness in the name of OkEq shall be approved and signed by the OkEq Treasurer or such other Director as approved by the Board of Directors. In the absence of such approval by the Board, such instruments shall be signed by the President and countersigned by the Treasurer following approval by the Executive Committee. Under no circumstances shall an approval by the Executive Committee trump any prior disapproval by the Board of Directors. Section 3: Deposits All funds of OkEq shall be deposited in a timely manner to the credit of OkEq in such banks, trust companies or other depositories as the Board of Directors may select. Deposits on behalf of OkEq or any of its programs may be made by the Treasurer, President, Executive Director or any other Director or Officer so authorized by the Board of Directors to make such deposits. Section 4: Solicitation of Funds Solicitation of funds may be reviewed and restricted by the Board of Directors. All formal grant applications or other written instruments in support of the grant application, whether for operations or capital, must have the approval of the Board of Directors or the Executive Director. ARTICLE XIII: CONFLICT OF INTEREST Section 1: Defined Directors and Trustees must avoid conflicts of interest or the appearance of a conflict of interest. When there is any question about whether any activity, representation, or conduct is a conflict of interest or gives the appearance of a conflict of interest, the Director or Trustee shall make full disclosure to the Board of Directors which shall determine if a conflict exists. A decision by the Board of Directors on any issue of conflict of interest is final. By way of example, conflicts of interest include situations: Where an individual Director or Trustee's private affairs, financial or material interests are in conflict with their duties and responsibilities or result in an appearance that a conflict of interest exists; Where a Director or Trustee's actions compromise or undermine the trust which the public and Members place in OkEq; and which could impair or appear to impair the Director's or Trustee's abilities to act impartially on behalf of OkEq. Section 2: Expected Behavior Directors and Trustees must act in the best interest of the Members of OkEq. Directors and Trustees shall not participate in decisions from which they could benefit financially, materially, or personally, including, but not limited to benefits accruing to immediate family, partners, or closely allied friends as if the Directors or Trustees in question were to receive the benefit. Directors and Trustees shall not use their position or information obtained therefrom to provide an unfair advantage to them, their family, partners, or closely allied friends, including cases involving funding, approvals, and appointments. The term "closely allied friend(s)" shall be interpreted by the Board of Directors. ARTICLE XIV: INDEMNIFICATION OkEq may, by resolution of the Board of Directors, provide for indemnification by OkEq of any and all of its Directors,Officers [sic], volunteers, employees, or former Directors and Officers against expenses actually and necessarily incurred by them in connection with the defense of any action, claim, suit or proceeding in which they or any of them are made parties or a party by reason of them acting within the scope of their duties and/or authority having been a Director or Officer of OkEq, except in matters as to which such Director or Officer or former Director or Officer shall be adjudged in such action, claim, suit, or proceeding to be liable for negligence or misconduct in the performance of his or her duty and/or to have been acting outside the scope of their duties and/or authority and to such matters as shall be settled by agreement predicated on the existence of such liability for negligence or misconduct. This clause or any indemnification hereunder shall not be effective if it would increase the liability of OkEq or any Director pursuant to Oklahoma law beyond policy limits and/or coverage of any such insurance. Insurance may be procured at the discretion of the Board of Directors. ARTICLE XV: AMENDMENT TO BYLAWS These bylaws may be amended pursuant to the procedures for a Special Membership Meeting provided for in Article III, Section 11, at the Annual Meeting, or in the event of an exigency the Board may amend these bylaws on its own motion, provided that the amendment is passed by unanimous consent of all the Directors on the Board, not just those present at the meeting. However, any amendment(s) to membership policy shall only comport with Article II, Section 3 and any amendment(s) to Article X shall comport with Article X, Section 6. ARTICLE XVI: BYLAW INTERPRETATION Should the need arise for an interpretation of any provision, language, clause, statement, or conflict between Articles or Sections of these bylaws, the matter shall first be discussed and decided upon by the Board of Directors. Should an impasse arise in an interpretation by the Board, the matter shall be submitted to an independent panel of five (5) Members, not to include any Director, Trustee, or employee of OkEq, to render a written decision on the interpretation which shall be binding, final, and conclusive. Amendment History Approved December 11, 1987 Approved as amended, August 1, 1989 Approved as amended, July 22, 1997 Approved as amended, July 14, 1998 Approved as amended, September 12, 2000 Approved as amended, December 11, 2001 Approved as amended, February 12, 2002 Approved as amended, August 18, 2002 Approved as amended, September 9, 2003 Approved as amended, October 24, 2005 Approved as amended, July 27, 2006 Approved as amended, July 22, 2007 Approved as amended, November 29, 2007 Approved by the Board and Contributing Membership September 24, 2009 Approved by the Membership, Board and Trustees September 25, 2014 Approved by the Membership, Board and Trustees, September 6, 2018 Approve [sic] by the Membership and Board, May 13, 2021 Approved as amended by unanimous vote of the Board on April 20th, 2023 Approved as amended by unanimous vote of the Board on October 19th, 2023 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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