8 20 666 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/733d98a328ae3b423369c8c3e911e246.pdf 75cd536c6ac433fa28264c1141a38f7d PDF Text Text FINANCIAL STATEMENTS AND ACCOMPANYING INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. TABLE OF CONTENTS PAGE Board of Directors .............................................................................................................................. 3 Independent Auditor’s Report ......................................................................................................... 4-5 Financial Statements Statement of Financial Position ............................................................................................ 6 Statement of Activities ......................................................................................................... 7 Statement of Functional Expenses ........................................................................................ 8 Statement of Cash Flows....................................................................................................... 9 Notes to the Financial Statements ................................................................................. 10-15 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. BOARD OF DIRECTORS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Eric Wilson Bob Hanson Julie Chase Whitney Cipolla Liz Ortiz Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Kylie Vanderslice Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Monique Washington Zoe Brett Kristy Vann President Vice-President Treasurer Secretary Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member at large 3 �124 S. Main Street, Miami, Oklahoma 74354 22 South Adair, Pryor, Oklahoma 74361 918-542-4401 INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT Senior Management and Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Tulsa, Oklahoma OPINION We have audited the accompanying financial statements of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (a nonprofit organization), which comprise the statement of financial position as of September 30, 2023, and the related statements of activities, statement of functional expenses, and cash flows for the year then ended, and the related notes to the financial statements. In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the financial position of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. as of September 30, 2023, and the changes in its net assets and its cash flows for the year then ended in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America. BASIS FOR OPINION We conducted our audit in accordance with auditing standards generally accepted in the United States of America (GAAS). Our responsibilities under those standards are further described in the Auditor's Responsibilities for the Audit of the Financial Statements section of our report. We are required to be independent of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. and to meet our other ethical responsibilities, in accordance with the relevant ethical requirements relating to our audit. We believe that the audit evidence we have obtained is sufficient and appropriate to provide a basis for our audit opinions. RESPONSIBILITIES OF MANAGEMENT FOR THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Management is responsible for the preparation and fair presentation of the financial statements in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, and for the design, implementation, and maintenance of internal control relevant to the preparation and fair presentation of financial statements that are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error. In preparing the financial statements, management is required to evaluate whether there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.'s ability to continue as a going concern within one year after the date that the financial statements are available to be issued. AUDITOR’S RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THE AUDIT OF THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Our objectives are to obtain reasonable assurance about whether the financial statements as a whole are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error, and to issue an auditor’s report that includes our opinion. Reasonable assurance is a high level of assurance but is not absolute assurance and therefore is not a guarantee that an audit conducted in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards will always detect a material misstatement when it exists. The risk of not detecting a material misstatement resulting from fraud is higher than for one resulting from error, as fraud may involve collusion, forgery, intentional omissions, misrepresentations, or the override of internal control. Misstatements are considered material if there is a substantial likelihood that, 4 �To the Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Page 2 individually or in the aggregate, they would influence the judgment made by a reasonable user based on the financial statements. In performing an audit in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards, we:  Exercise professional judgment and maintain professional skepticism throughout the audit.  Identify and assess the risks of material misstatement of the financial statements, whether due to fraud or error, and design and perform audit procedures responsive to those risks. Such procedures include examining, on a test basis, evidence regarding the amounts and disclosures in the financial statements.  Obtain an understanding of internal control relevant to the audit in order to design audit procedures that are appropriate in the circumstances, but not for the purpose of expressing an opinion on the effectiveness of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s internal control. Accordingly, no such opinion is expressed.  Evaluate the appropriateness of accounting policies used and the reasonableness of significant accounting estimates made by management, as well as evaluate the overall presentation of the financial statements.  Conclude whether, in our judgment, there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s ability to continue as a going concern for a reasonable period of time. We are required to communicate with those charged with governance regarding, among other matters, the planned scope and timing of the audit, significant audit findings, and certain internal control related matters that we identified during the audit. OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC Miami, Oklahoma December 22, 2023 5 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF FINANCIAL POSITION AS OF SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Assets Current Assets: Cash and cash equivalents Cash and cash equivalents - restricted Investments held by others Promises to give Inventory Prepaid insurance Total Current Assets $ Noncurrent Assets: Furniture and Fixtures Buildings and Improvements Computers and Software Less: Accumulated Depreciation Total Noncurrent Assets Total Assets $ Liabilities Current Liabilities: Accounts payable Accrued expenses Deferred revenue Payroll tax payable Total Liabilities $ Net Assets Net assets without donor restrictions Net assets with donor restrictions Total Net Assets 80,446.42 97,766.15 43,994.38 22,690.07 13,004.85 19,590.23 277,492.10 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 (944,137.42) 1,218,417.88 1,495,909.98 27,000.36 32,186.42 1,723.75 856.31 61,766.84 1,336,376.99 97,766.15 1,434,143.14 Total Liabilities and Net Assets $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 6 1,495,909.98 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF ACTIVITIES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Without Donor With Donor Restriction Restriction Total Revenues, gains, and other support Support: Grants - federal and state $ 20,275.00 $ - $ 20,275.00 Grants 284,422.57 25,500.00 309,922.57 Contributions 213,182.27 163,300.41 376,482.68 Membership income 18,891.05 - 18,891.05 Sponsorship 184,589.10 - 184,589.10 Other Income 293,140.47 - 293,140.47 Total Support 1,014,500.46 188,800.41 Net assets released from restrictions 191,619.00 (191,619.00) Total support 1,206,119.46 (2,818.59) 1,203,300.87 1,203,300.87 Revenues and gains/(losses): Unrealized gain/(loss) on investment 2,462.20 - 2,462.20 Total revenue and gains/(losses) 2,462.20 - 2,462.20 Total revenues, gains/(losses), and other support 1,208,581.66 (2,818.59) 1,205,763.07 792,989.54 - 792,989.54 Support Services: Fundraising 48,454.12 - 48,454.12 Support Services: General and Administrative 345,035.04 - 345,035.04 Total expenses 1,186,478.70 - 1,186,478.70 Increase (decrease) in net assets 22,102.96 (2,818.59) 19,284.37 Net assets, beginning of year 1,314,274.03 100,584.74 1,414,858.77 97,766.15 $ 1,434,143.14 EXPENSES: Program Services Net assets, end of year $ 1,336,376.99 $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 7 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF FUNCTIONAL EXPENSES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Program Advertising $ Fundraising 893.20 $ 2,676.00 General & Admin $ 731.00 $ 4,300.20 Bank Fees 12,184.15 Chapter and Affiliate Expense 59,601.61 Computer and Software 7,728.71 Contracted Services 33,892.50 3,813.75 Cost of Goods Sold 34,681.62 - - 34,681.62 Dues, Fees and Registrations 5,057.37 - 3,906.63 8,964.00 Employee benefits 7,563.47 1,747.68 1,537.53 10,848.68 Event expense 101,344.65 2,668.97 - 104,013.62 Insurance 16,561.48 - 24,184.68 40,746.16 - 70.99 70.99 Interest Expense 5,373.62 Total - 2,333.28 19,891.05 - - 59,601.61 5,546.20 710.02 13,984.93 11,419.25 49,125.50 Lab Services 12,056.75 - - 12,056.75 Meals 1,995.94 - 2,254.65 4,250.59 Miscellaneous 877.31 - 2,565.07 3,442.38 Office/Postage Expense 1,691.66 - 796.93 2,488.59 Payroll tax expense 15,858.58 1,381.76 9,226.83 26,467.17 Performance Expense 46,093.70 - - 46,093.70 Printing/Copying Expense 4,210.95 897.89 1,332.13 6,440.97 Professional Services 25,769.75 370.00 81,788.65 107,928.40 Rental Expense 2,800.91 - Repairs and Maintenance 15,261.29 - Salaries and Wages 209,012.54 Security 61,080.00 Staff and Board Development - 18,204.98 - 2,800.91 12,123.08 27,384.37 121,565.61 348,783.13 - 2,185.85 63,265.85 495.00 - 495.00 Supplies 18,979.31 5,278.27 10,023.26 34,280.84 Travel Expense 1,930.50 - 2,291.71 4,222.21 Utilities Expense 31,681.33 - 12,207.52 43,888.85 Total Expenses Before Depreciation 728,809.28 303,254.67 1,080,518.07 Depreciation 64,180.26 41,780.37 105,960.63 Total Expenses $ 792,989.54 48,454.12 $ 48,454.12 $ 345,035.04 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 8 $ 1,186,478.70 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF CASH FLOWS FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Cash flows from operating activities Change in net assets Adjustments to reconcile change in net assets to net cash used in operating activities: Depreciation expense Unrealized gain on investments (Increase)/decrease in operating assets: Promises to give Inventory Prepaid expenses Increase/(decrease) in operating liabilities: Accounts payable and accrued expenses Unearned revenue Net cash provided/(used) by operating activities $ 19,284.37 105,960.63 (2,444.51) (22,690.07) 2,696.63 (19,590.23) 19,053.41 1,723.75 103,993.98 Cash flows from investing activities Purchase of property and equipment Net cash provided/(used) by investing activities Net increase/(decrease) in cash Cash and cash equivalents, beginning of year Cash and cash equivalents, end of year (24,021.91) (24,021.91) $ 79,972.07 98,240.50 178,212.57 Reconciliation to statement of financial position: Cash and cash equivalents Restricted cash $ $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 9 80,446.42 97,766.15 178,212.57 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 1 – Nature of the Organization The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (the “Organization”), is an Oklahoma nonprofit corporation, incorporated on November 20th, 2006. Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), have served the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) community since the organization was founded in 1980. The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. seeks equal rights for LGBT individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies Basis of Accounting – The financial statements are prepared using the accrual basis of accounting. Accordingly, revenue is recorded when earned, and expenses are recorded when incurred. The financial statements are presented in accordance with authoritative accounting standards for not-for-profit organizations. As such, the standards require contributions to be recognized as revenue when they are received, or unconditionally pledged, and net assets to be classified as net assets with donor restrictions or net assets without donor restrictions, depending on the limitations placed on the contributions when received. Income Taxes – The Organization is exempt from federal income taxes under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. As such, no provision has been made for federal or state income taxes. In addition, the Organization has been determined by the Internal Revenue Service not to be a private foundation, within the meaning of Section 509(a) of the Internal Revenue Code. The Organization’s Forms 990, Organization Exempt from Income Tax, for the years ending 2020, 2021, and 2022 are subject to examination by the IRS, generally for three years after they were filed. Estimates – The preparation of financial statements, in conformity with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, requires management to make estimates, and assumptions, that affect certain reported amounts and disclosures. Accordingly, actual results could differ from those estimates. Cash and Cash Equivalents – Cash and cash equivalents include all monies in banks, and highly liquid investments, with maturity dates of less than twelve months. The carrying value of cash, and cash equivalents, approximates fair value because of the short maturities of those financial instruments. Concentrations of Credit and Market Risk – Financial instruments that potentially expose the Organization to concentrations of credit, and market risk consist primarily of cash equivalents and investments. Cash equivalents are maintained at high-quality financial institutions, and credit risk exposure is limited at any one institution. The Organization has not experienced any losses on its cash equivalents. Property and Equipment – Property and equipment are recorded at acquisition cost. The Organization capitalizes assets with a cost greater than $2,500. Betterments and renewals are capitalized. Maintenance and repairs are charged to operations when incurred. Depreciation is computed using the straight-line method, over the following estimated useful lives: Building and improvements Equipment Vehicles 40 years 3-10 years 3 years 10 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies: (continued) Classification of Net Assets - Net assets of the Organization shall be classified based upon the existence, or absence, of donor-imposed restrictions, as follows: Net Assets without Donor Restrictions - Net assets that are not subject to donor-imposed stipulations. Net Assets with Donor Restrictions - Net assets subject to donor-imposed stipulations that may, or will be, satisfied through the actions of the Organization, and/or the passage of time. Net assets accumulated by the Organization that are not subject to donor-imposed restrictions, but which the Board of Directors of the Organization has earmarked for specific uses, shall be segregated in the accounting records as "board-designated" funds, within the category of net assets without donor restrictions. Note 3 – Concentrations of Credit Risk Custodial credit risk is the risk that, in the event of a bank failure, the Organization’s deposits may not be returned to it. The Organization’s cash deposits, including interest-bearing certificates of deposit, are maintained in financial institutions. The Organization does not currently have a deposit policy for custodial credit risk. Demand deposits Total $ $ A 178,212.57 178,212.57 Category B $ $ - C $ $ - Carrying Amount $ 178,212.57 $ 178,212.57 Bank Balance $ 176,816.18 $ 176,816.18 Category 1 – Cash and cash equivalents that are insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) or collateralized with securities held by the Organization, or its agent, in the Organization’s name. Category 2 – Collateralized with securities held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, in the Organization’s name. Category 3 – Uninsured or unregistered investments for which securities are held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, but not in the Organization’s name. The Organization maintains investment accounts with the Tulsa Community Foundation. The balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. The Organization as not exceeded these insurance amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. As of September 30, 2023, none of the Organization’s deposits were exposed to credit risk. Note 4 – Promises to Give Promises to give are majorly comprised of contributions made to third parties on behalf of the Organization prior to yearend. These funds were received by the Organization after September 30, 2023. 11 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 5 – Restricted Cash As of September 30, 2023, the Organization had restricted cash in the amount of $97,766.15. Restricted as follows: Restricted Purpose Chapter and Affiliates Center link technology Counseling Services Senior Support Services 2024 Gala Various >$2K Total $ $ Amount 66,326.83 9,500.00 5,000.00 1,240.00 11,500.00 4,199.32 97,766.15 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others Investments held by others, as of September 30, 2023, consist of two investment funds held by Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF): The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund and the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund. These funds are invested in pooled funds, cash, and equivalents. The investments are carried on the Organization’s books at fair market value. These funds are component funds of Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF). As defined by the United States Treasury Regulations, TCF has the right to modify the terms of the fund agreement. This is sometimes referred to as “variance power”. As a result of the variance power all component funds are considered to be part of a single public charity, TCF. TCF is the legal owner of all assets contributed to any of its component funds. Financial Accounting Standards Board requires that if TCF accepts contributions from the Organization and agrees to transfer those assets and the return on investment of those assets back to the Organization, then these contributions are to be reported on the financial statements of the Organization. The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund -This fund was established as Oklahomans for Equality Fund, a TCF Agency Fund, in April 2001. It transitioned to the OkEq Operating Endowment Fund on 12/30/2010. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization, and reported as investments held by others, is $14,139.04. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $13,162.36. The OkEq Capital Campaign Fund - This fund was originally established by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human, Rights, Inc. as the Pyramid Project Capital Campaign Reserve Fund, a TCF agency reserve fund, in April 2002. It was renamed to the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund in TCF records. It is an agency reserve fund, and the funds are available to purchase , furnish, maintain, or make improvements to a building to house the Tulsa gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Community Center owned by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization and reported as investments held by others $29,855.34. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $106,157.22. 13 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others (continued) As of September 30, 2023, the balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. At times, the Organization’s deposits may exceed insured amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund, and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. Investment Interest Rate Risk Interest rate risk is the risk that changes in market interest rates will adversely affect the fair value of an investment. Generally, the longer the maturity of an investment, the greater the sensitivity of its fair value to changes in market interest rates. Note 7 – Fair Value Measurements The Organization reports fair value measurements of its assets and liabilities using a three-level hierarchy that prioritizes the inputs used to measure fair value. This hierarchy, established by GAAP, requires that entities maximize the use of observable inputs, and minimize the use of unobservable inputs, when measuring fair value. The assets or liability’s measurement within the fair value hierarchy is based on the lowest level of input that is significant to the measurement. The three levels of input used to measure fair value are as follows: Level 1. Quoted prices are for identical assets or liabilities in active markets to which the Organization has access at the measurement date. Level 2. Inputs other than quoted prices included in level 1 that are observable for the assets or liability, either directly or indirectly. Level 2 inputs include:     Quoted prices for similar assets or liabilities in active markets; Quoted prices for identical or similar assets in markets that are not active; Observable inputs other than quoted prices for the asset or liability (for example, interest rates and yield curves); and Inputs derived principally from, or corroborated by, observable market data by correlation, or by other means. Level 3. Unobservable inputs for the assets or liabilities. Unobservable inputs should be used to measure the fair value if observable inputs are not available. When available, the Organization measures fair value using Level 1 inputs because they generally provide the most reliable evidence of fair value. However, Level 1 inputs are not available for many of the assets and liabilities that the Organization is required to measure at fair value (for example, unconditional promise to give and in-kind contributions). The primary uses of fair value measurements in the Organization’s financial statements are the initial measurement of noncash gifts, gifts of investment assets, if any, including unconditional promises to give, and recurring measurement of short-term and long-term investments. 13 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 8 – Property and Equipment The following is an analysis of property and equipment, at cost, and related depreciation at September 30, 2023: Beginning of Year Furniture and Fixtures Building and Improvements Computers and Software Total Capital Assets Less: Accumulated Depreciation Net Book Value $ 132,750.97 2,019,249.99 66,342.85 2,218,343.81 (917,987.21) 1,300,356.60 $ Additions Deletions 24,021.91 24,021.91 (105,960.63) (81,938.72) (22,674.42) (5,873.45) (51,262.55) (79,810.42) 79,810.42 $ - End of Year $ 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 2,162,555.30 (944,137.42) 1,218,417.88 Note 9 – Deferred Revenue Deferred revenue represents payments received for events occurring subsequent to year end. Note 10 – Note Payable The Organization had no notes payable as of September 30, 2023. Note 11 – Donated Services The Organization receives a significant amount of donated services from unpaid volunteers, who assist in fundraising and special projects. No amounts have been recognized in the statement of activities because the criteria for the recognition, under authoritative accounting standards, have not been satisfied. Note 12 – Functional Allocation of Expenses The costs of providing the various programs, and supporting services, have been summarized on a functional basis, in the statement of functional expenses. Costs that are not directly associated with providing specific services have been allocated based on the relative time spent by the employees providing these services. Note 13 – Commitments and Contingencies As of the date of this report, the Organization had not commitments or contingencies other than those reported on the statement of financial position. 14 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 14 – Liquidity and Availability Financial assets available for general expenditure, that is, without donor or other restrictions limiting their use, within one year of September 30, 2023, are: Cash and cash equivalents Investments Promises to give Total financial assets, at year end Less those unavailable for general expenditures within on year, due to: Contractual or donor-imposed restrictions Restricted by donor with time or purpose restrictions Financial assets available to meet cash needs for general expenditures within one year $ 178,212.57 43,994.38 22,690.07 244,897.02 97,766.15 $ 147,130.87 Note 15 – Net Assets with Donor Restrictions The Organization has $97,766.15 net assets with donor restrictions at September 30, 2023. Restricted Purpose Chapter and Affiliates Center link technology Counseling Services Senior Support Services 2024 Gala Various >$2K Total $ $ Amount 66,326.83 9,500.00 5,000.00 1,240.00 11,500.00 4,199.32 97,766.15 Note 16 – Evaluation of Subsequent Events The Organization has evaluated subsequent events through December 22, 2023, the date which the financial statements were available to be issued, and no additional disclosures are required. 15 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. FINANCIAL STATEMENTS AND ACCOMPANYING INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. TABLE OF CONTENTS PAGE Board of Directors .............................................................................................................................. 3 Independent Auditor’s Report ......................................................................................................... 4-5 Financial Statements Statement of Financial Position ............................................................................................ 6 Statement of Activities ......................................................................................................... 7 Statement of Functional Expenses ........................................................................................ 8 Statement of Cash Flows....................................................................................................... 9 Notes to the Financial Statements ................................................................................. 10-15 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. BOARD OF DIRECTORS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Eric Wilson President Bob Hanson Vice-President Julie Chase Treasurer Whitney Cipolla Secretary Liz Ortiz Member Eddie Carreno Member Claire Combs Member Kaylyn Compton Member Julia Fletcher Member Kylie Vanderslice Member Crista Patrick Member Paula Shannon Member Monique Washington Member Zoe Brett Member Kristy Vann Member at large 3 OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC 124 S. Main Street, Miami, Oklahoma 74354 22 South Adair, Pryor, Oklahoma 74361 918-542-4401 INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT Senior Management and Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Tulsa, Oklahoma OPINION We have audited the accompanying financial statements of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (a nonprofit organization), which comprise the statement of financial position as of September 30, 2023, and the related statements of activities, statement of functional expenses, and cash flows for the year then ended, and the related notes to the financial statements. In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the financial position of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. as of September 30, 2023, and the changes in its net assets and its cash flows for the year then ended in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America. BASIS FOR OPINION We conducted our audit in accordance with auditing standards generally accepted in the United States of America (GAAS). Our responsibilities under those standards are further described in the Auditor's Responsibilities for the Audit of the Financial Statements section of our report. We are required to be independent of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. and to meet our other ethical responsibilities, in accordance with the relevant ethical requirements relating to our audit. We believe that the audit evidence we have obtained is sufficient and appropriate to provide a basis for our audit opinions. RESPONSIBILITIES OF MANAGEMENT FOR THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Management is responsible for the preparation and fair presentation of the financial statements in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, and for the design, implementation, and maintenance of internal control relevant to the preparation and fair presentation of financial statements that are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error. In preparing the financial statements, management is required to evaluate whether there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.'s ability to continue as a going concern within one year after the date that the financial statements are available to be issued. AUDITOR’S RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THE AUDIT OF THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Our objectives are to obtain reasonable assurance about whether the financial statements as a whole are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error, and to issue an auditor’s report that includes our opinion. Reasonable assurance is a high level of assurance but is not absolute assurance and therefore is not a guarantee that an audit conducted in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards will always detect a material misstatement when it exists. The risk of not detecting a material misstatement resulting from fraud is higher than for one resulting from error, as fraud may involve collusion, forgery, intentional omissions, misrepresentations, or the override of internal control. Misstatements are considered material if there is a substantial likelihood that, individually or in the aggregate, they would influence the judgment made by a reasonable user based on the financial statements. 4 To the Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Page 2 In performing an audit in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards, we:  Exercise professional judgment and maintain professional skepticism throughout the audit.  Identify and assess the risks of material misstatement of the financial statements, whether due to fraud or error, and design and perform audit procedures responsive to those risks. Such procedures include examining, on a test basis, evidence regarding the amounts and disclosures in the financial statements.  Obtain an understanding of internal control relevant to the audit in order to design audit procedures that are appropriate in the circumstances, but not for the purpose of expressing an opinion on the effectiveness of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s internal control. Accordingly, no such opinion is expressed.  Evaluate the appropriateness of accounting policies used and the reasonableness of significant accounting estimates made by management, as well as evaluate the overall presentation of the financial statements.  Conclude whether, in our judgment, there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s ability to continue as a going concern for a reasonable period of time. We are required to communicate with those charged with governance regarding, among other matters, the planned scope and timing of the audit, significant audit findings, and certain internal control related matters that we identified during the audit. [Ober & Littlefield's signature] OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC Miami, Oklahoma December 22, 2023 5 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF FINANCIAL POSITION AS OF SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Assets Current Assets: Cash and cash equivalents $ 80,446.42 Cash and cash equivalents - restricted 97,766.15 Investments held by others 43,994.38 Promises to give 22,690.07 Inventory 13,004.85 Prepaid insurance 19,590.23 Total Current Assets 277,492.10 Noncurrent Assets: Furniture and Fixtures 134,098.46 Buildings and Improvements 2,013,376.54 Computers and Software 15,080.30 Less: Accumulated Depreciation (944,137.42) Total Noncurrent Assets 1,218,417.88 Total Assets $ 1,495,909.98 Liabilities Current Liabilities: Accounts payable $ 27,000.36 Accrued expenses 32,186.42 Deferred revenue 1,723.75 Payroll tax payable 856.31 Total Liabilities 61,766.84 Net Assets Net assets without donor restrictions 1,336,376.99 Net assets with donor restrictions 97,766.15 Total Net Assets 1,434,143.14 Total Liabilities and Net Assets $ 1,495,909.98 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 6 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF ACTIVITIES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Without Donor Restriction With Donor Restriction Total Revenues, gains, and other support Support: Grants - federal and state $ 20,275.00 $ - $ 20,275.00 Grants 284,422.57 25,500.00 309,922.57 Contributions 213,182.27 163,300.41 376,482.68 Membership income 18,891.05 - 18,891.05 Sponsorship 184,589.10 - 184,589.10 Other Income 293,140.47 - 293,140.47 Total Support 1,014,500.46 188,800.41 1,203,300.87 Net assets released from restrictions 191,619.00 (191,619.00) - Total support 1,206,119.46 (2,818.59) 1,203,300.87 Revenues and gains/(losses): Unrealized gain/(loss) on investment 2,462.20 - 2,462.20 Total revenue and gains/(losses) 2,462.20 - 2,462.20 Total revenues, gains/(losses), and other support 1,208,581.66 (2,818.59) 1,205,763.07 EXPENSES: Program Services 792,989.54 - 792,989.54 Support Services: Fundraising 48,454.12 - 48,454.12 Support Services: General and Administrative 345,035.04 - 345,035.04 Total expenses 1,186,478.70 - 1,186,478.70 Increase (decrease) in net assets 22,102.96 (2,818.59) 19,284.37 Net assets, beginning of year 1,314,274.03 100,584.74 1,414,858.77 Net assets, end of year 1,336,376.99 $ 97,766.15 $ 1,434,143.14 $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 7 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF FUNCTIONAL EXPENSES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Program Fundraising General & Admin Total Advertising $ 893.20 $ 2,676.00 $ 731.00 $ 4,300.20 Bank Fees 12,184.15 5,373.62 2,333.28 19,891.05 Chapter and Affiliate Expense 59,601.61 - - 59,601.61 Computer and Software 7,728.71 5,546.20 710.02 13,984.93 Contracted Services 33,892.50 3,813.75 11,419.25 49,125.50 Cost of Goods Sold 34,681.62 - - 34,681.62 Dues, Fees and Registrations 5,057.37 - 3,906.63 8,964.00 Employee benefits 7,563.47 1,747.68 1,537.53 10,848.68 Event expense 101,344.65 2,668.97 - 104,013.62 Insurance 16,561.48 - 24,184.68 40,746.16 Interest Expense - - 70.99 70.99 Lab Services 12,056.75 - - 12,056.75 Meals 1,995.94 - 2,254.65 4,250.59 Miscellaneous 877.31 - 2,565.07 3,442.38 Office/Postage Expense 1,691.66 - 796.93 2,488.59 Payroll tax expense 15,858.58 1,381.76 9,226.83 26,467.17 Performance Expense 46,093.70 - - 46,093.70 Printing/Copying Expense 4,210.95 897.89 1,332.13 6,440.97 Professional Services 25,769.75 370.00 81,788.65 107,928.40 Rental Expense 2,800.91 - - 2,800.91 Repairs and Maintenance 15,261.29 - 12,123.08 27,384.37 Salaries and Wages 209,012.54 18,204.98 121,565.61 348,783.13 Security 61,080.00 - 2,185.85 63,265.85 Staff and Board Development - 495.00 - 495.00 Supplies 18,979.31 5,278.27 10,023.26 34,280.84 Travel Expense 1,930.50 - 2,291.71 4,222.21 Utilities Expense 31,681.33 - 12,207.52 43,888.85 Total Expenses Before Depreciation 728,809.28 48,454.12 303,254.67 1,080,518.07 Depreciation 64,180.26 - 41,780.37 105,960.63 Total Expenses $ 792,989.54 $ 48,454.12 $ 345,035.04 $ 1,186,478.70 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 8 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENT OF CASH FLOWS FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Cash flows from operating activities Change in net assets $ 19,284.37 Adjustments to reconcile change in net assets to net cash used in operating activities: Depreciation expense 105,960.63 Unrealized gain on investments (2,444.51) (Increase)/decrease in operating assets: Promises to give (22,690.07) Inventory 2,696.63 Prepaid expenses (19,590.23) Increase/(decrease) in operating liabilities: Accounts payable and accrued expenses 19,053.41 Unearned revenue 1,723.75 Net cash provided/(used) by operating activities 103,993.98 Cash flows from investing activities Purchase of property and equipment (24,021.91) Net cash provided/(used) by investing activities (24,021.91) Net increase/(decrease) in cash 79,972.07 Cash and cash equivalents, beginning of year 98,240.50 Cash and cash equivalents, end of year 178,212.57 $ Reconciliation to statement of financial position: Cash and cash equivalents $ 80,446.42 Restricted cash 97,766.15 $ 178,212.57 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 9 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 1 – Nature of the Organization The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (the “Organization”), is an Oklahoma nonprofit corporation, incorporated on November 20th, 2006. Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), have served the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) community since the organization was founded in 1980. The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. seeks equal rights for LGBT individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies Basis of Accounting – The financial statements are prepared using the accrual basis of accounting. Accordingly, revenue is recorded when earned, and expenses are recorded when incurred. The financial statements are presented in accordance with authoritative accounting standards for not-for-profit organizations. As such, the standards require contributions to be recognized as revenue when they are received, or unconditionally pledged, and net assets to be classified as net assets with donor restrictions or net assets without donor restrictions, depending on the limitations placed on the contributions when received. Income Taxes – The Organization is exempt from federal income taxes under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. As such, no provision has been made for federal or state income taxes. In addition, the Organization has been determined by the Internal Revenue Service not to be a private foundation, within the meaning of Section 509(a) of the Internal Revenue Code. The Organization’s Forms 990, Organization Exempt from Income Tax, for the years ending 2020, 2021, and 2022 are subject to examination by the IRS, generally for three years after they were filed. Estimates – The preparation of financial statements, in conformity with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, requires management to make estimates, and assumptions, that affect certain reported amounts and disclosures. Accordingly, actual results could differ from those estimates. Cash and Cash Equivalents – Cash and cash equivalents include all monies in banks, and highly liquid investments, with maturity dates of less than twelve months. The carrying value of cash, and cash equivalents, approximates fair value because of the short maturities of those financial instruments. Concentrations of Credit and Market Risk – Financial instruments that potentially expose the Organization to concentrations of credit, and market risk consist primarily of cash equivalents and investments. Cash equivalents are maintained at high-quality financial institutions, and credit risk exposure is limited at any one institution. The Organization has not experienced any losses on its cash equivalents. Property and Equipment – Property and equipment are recorded at acquisition cost. The Organization capitalizes assets with a cost greater than $2,500. Betterments and renewals are capitalized. Maintenance and repairs are charged to operations when incurred. Depreciation is computed using the straight-line method, over the following estimated useful lives: Building and improvements 40 years Equipment 3-10 years Vehicles 3 years 10 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies: (continued) Classification of Net Assets - Net assets of the Organization shall be classified based upon the existence, or absence, of donor-imposed restrictions, as follows: Net Assets without Donor Restrictions - Net assets that are not subject to donor-imposed stipulations. Net Assets with Donor Restrictions - Net assets subject to donor-imposed stipulations that may, or will be, satisfied through the actions of the Organization, and/or the passage of time. Net assets accumulated by the Organization that are not subject to donor-imposed restrictions, but which the Board of Directors of the Organization has earmarked for specific uses, shall be segregated in the accounting records as "board-designated" funds, within the category of net assets without donor restrictions. Note 3 – Concentrations of Credit Risk Custodial credit risk is the risk that, in the event of a bank failure, the Organization’s deposits may not be returned to it. The Organization’s cash deposits, including interest-bearing certificates of deposit, are maintained in financial institutions. The Organization does not currently have a deposit policy for custodial credit risk. Category Carrying Bank A B C Amount Balance Demand deposits $ 178,212.57 $ - $ - $ 178,212.57 $ 176,816.18 Total $ 178,212.57 $ - $ - $ 178,212.57 $ 176,816.18 Category 1 – Cash and cash equivalents that are insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) or collateralized with securities held by the Organization, or its agent, in the Organization’s name. Category 2 – Collateralized with securities held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, in the Organization’s name. Category 3 – Uninsured or unregistered investments for which securities are held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, but not in the Organization’s name. The Organization maintains investment accounts with the Tulsa Community Foundation. The balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. The Organization as not exceeded these insurance amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. As of September 30, 2023, none of the Organization’s deposits were exposed to credit risk. Note 4 – Promises to Give Promises to give are majorly comprised of contributions made to third parties on behalf of the Organization prior to yearend. These funds were received by the Organization after September 30, 2023. 11 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 5 – Restricted Cash As of September 30, 2023, the Organization had restricted cash in the amount of $97,766.15. Restricted as follows: Restricted Purpose Amount Chapter and Affiliates $ 66,326.83 Center link technology 9,500.00 Counseling Services 5,000.00 Senior Support Services 1,240.00 2024 Gala 11,500.00 Various >$2K 4,199.32 Total $ 97,766.15 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others Investments held by others, as of September 30, 2023, consist of two investment funds held by Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF): The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund and the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund. These funds are invested in pooled funds, cash, and equivalents. The investments are carried on the Organization’s books at fair market value. These funds are component funds of Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF). As defined by the United States Treasury Regulations, TCF has the right to modify the terms of the fund agreement. This is sometimes referred to as “variance power”. As a result of the variance power all component funds are considered to be part of a single public charity, TCF. TCF is the legal owner of all assets contributed to any of its component funds. Financial Accounting Standards Board requires that if TCF accepts contributions from the Organization and agrees to transfer those assets and the return on investment of those assets back to the Organization, then these contributions are to be reported on the financial statements of the Organization. The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund -This fund was established as Oklahomans for Equality Fund, a TCF Agency Fund, in April 2001. It transitioned to the OkEq Operating Endowment Fund on 12/30/2010. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization, and reported as investments held by others, is $14,139.04. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $13,162.36. The OkEq Capital Campaign Fund - This fund was originally established by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human, Rights, Inc. as the Pyramid Project Capital Campaign Reserve Fund, a TCF agency reserve fund, in April 2002. It was renamed to the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund in TCF records. It is an agency reserve fund, and the funds are available to purchase , furnish, maintain, or make improvements to a building to house the Tulsa gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Community Center owned by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization and reported as investments held by others $29,855.34. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $106,157.22. 13 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others (continued) As of September 30, 2023, the balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. At times, the Organization’s deposits may exceed insured amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund, and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. Investment Interest Rate Risk Interest rate risk is the risk that changes in market interest rates will adversely affect the fair value of an investment. Generally, the longer the maturity of an investment, the greater the sensitivity of its fair value to changes in market interest rates. Note 7 – Fair Value Measurements The Organization reports fair value measurements of its assets and liabilities using a three-level hierarchy that prioritizes the inputs used to measure fair value. This hierarchy, established by GAAP, requires that entities maximize the use of observable inputs, and minimize the use of unobservable inputs, when measuring fair value. The assets or liability’s measurement within the fair value hierarchy is based on the lowest level of input that is significant to the measurement. The three levels of input used to measure fair value are as follows: Level 1. Quoted prices are for identical assets or liabilities in active markets to which the Organization has access at the measurement date. Level 2. Inputs other than quoted prices included in level 1 that are observable for the assets or liability, either directly or indirectly. Level 2 inputs include:  Quoted prices for similar assets or liabilities in active markets;  Quoted prices for identical or similar assets in markets that are not active;  Observable inputs other than quoted prices for the asset or liability (for example, interest rates and yield curves); and  Inputs derived principally from, or corroborated by, observable market data by correlation, or by other means. Level 3. Unobservable inputs for the assets or liabilities. Unobservable inputs should be used to measure the fair value if observable inputs are not available. When available, the Organization measures fair value using Level 1 inputs because they generally provide the most reliable evidence of fair value. However, Level 1 inputs are not available for many of the assets and liabilities that the Organization is required to measure at fair value (for example, unconditional promise to give and in-kind contributions). The primary uses of fair value measurements in the Organization’s financial statements are the initial measurement of noncash gifts, gifts of investment assets, if any, including unconditional promises to give, and recurring measurement of short-term and long-term investments. 13 [sic] OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 8 – Property and Equipment The following is an analysis of property and equipment, at cost, and related depreciation at September 30, 2023: Beginning of Year Additions Deletions End of Year Furniture and Fixtures 132,750.97 24,021.91 (22,674.42) 134,098.46 Building and Improvements 2,019,249.99 - (5,873.45) 2,013,376.54 Computers and Software 66,342.85 - (51,262.55) 15,080.30 Total Capital Assets 2,218,343.81 24,021.91 (79,810.42) 2,162,555.30 Less: Accumulated Depreciation (917,987.21) (105,960.63) 79,810.42 (944,137.42) Net Book Value $ 1,300,356.60 $ (81,938.72) $ - $ 1,218,417.88 Note 9 – Deferred Revenue Deferred revenue represents payments received for events occurring subsequent to year end. Note 10 – Note Payable The Organization had no notes payable as of September 30, 2023. Note 11 – Donated Services The Organization receives a significant amount of donated services from unpaid volunteers, who assist in fundraising and special projects. No amounts have been recognized in the statement of activities because the criteria for the recognition, under authoritative accounting standards, have not been satisfied. Note 12 – Functional Allocation of Expenses The costs of providing the various programs, and supporting services, have been summarized on a functional basis, in the statement of functional expenses. Costs that are not directly associated with providing specific services have been allocated based on the relative time spent by the employees providing these services. Note 13 – Commitments and Contingencies As of the date of this report, the Organization had not commitments or contingencies other than those reported on the statement of financial position. 14 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 14 – Liquidity and Availability Financial assets available for general expenditure, that is, without donor or other restrictions limiting their use, within one year of September 30, 2023, are: Cash and cash equivalents $ 178,212.57 Investments 43,994.38 Promises to give 22,690.07 Total financial assets, at year end 244,897.02 Less those unavailable for general expenditures within on year, due to: Contractual or donor-imposed restrictions Restricted by donor with time or purpose restrictions 97,766.15 Financial assets available to meet cash needs for general expenditures within one year 147,130.87 $ Note 15 – Net Assets with Donor Restrictions The Organization has $97,766.15 net assets with donor restrictions at September 30, 2023. Restricted Purpose Amount Chapter and Affiliates $ 66,326.83 Center link technology 9,500.00 Counseling Services 5,000.00 Senior Support Services 1,240.00 2024 Gala 11,500.00 Various >$2K 4,199.32 Total $ 97,766.15 Note 16 – Evaluation of Subsequent Events The Organization has evaluated subsequent events through December 22, 2023, the date which the financial statements were available to be issued, and no additional disclosures are required. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2023] OKEQ Financial Statements from September 30, 2023 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Financial Statements and Accompanying Independent Auditor's Report for the Year Ended September 30, 2023 Description An account of the resource 15 pages of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (OKEQ) financial statements with auditor's report for the year ended September 30, 2023. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 22, 2023 2023 audit auditor's report Board President Board President Eric Wilson Board Secretary Board Secretary Whitney Cipolla Board Treasurer Board Treasurer Julie Chase Board Vice President Board Vice President Bob Hanson Financial financial statements independent auditor's report Ober & Littlefield Ober and Littlefield OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Taxes https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/69ffbd3173a19891e4e35ec57b1a1985.pdf ba216b5df64947e913e202bd9852526f PDF Text Text OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Finance Report June 2024 unaudited �Oklahoman's for Equality Cash Position As of June 2024 Current Cash Balance Accounts Receivable (Less: Restricted Grants/Funds) (Less: Affiliate/Chapters) Available Unrestricted Funds $ $ 513,427 (5,780) (5,958) 501,689 Restricted Grants/Funds As of June 2024 Balance Grant/Activity Name SAGE USA History Project Coordinator Rainbow Library Van Insurance SAGE-Support Group Total Restricted Grants 612.73 2,880.01 294.47 1,953.00 40.00 5,780 Affiliate Balances As of June 2024 Group Name Balance Green Country Bears SEQ McAlester Chapter Tulsa2Spirit Society Total Affiliates/Chapters 640.21 1,793.83 3,523.89 5,957.93 �Oklahoman's for Equality Budget vs Actual October 1, 2023 - June 30, 2024 Budget Actual Revenue Grant Revenue Contributions Clinic Services Pride Store (Net) Bar/Concession (Net) Art Gallery Event/Shows Ticket Sales Event/Kitchen Rental EBA/OKEQ Memberships Equality Gala Pride Festival & Bingo Misc Income Investment Income Total Revenue 266,000 277,600 70,000 10,000 20,000 500 25,000 25,000 10,000 350,000 15,000 1,069,100 249,700 269,628 52,934 7,448 11,915 95 7,565 23,220 6,014 417,105 12,246 10 1,057,879 Expenditures Salaries & Wages Payroll Taxes and Benefits IT Software/Equipment Accounting & Legal Fees Audt & 990 Fees HR Consultant Other Contract Services Storage Insurance-Liability & Cyber Insurance-D&O Insurance-Workers Comp Insurance-Property Insurance-Clinic Insurance-Van Utilities/Phone Office expenses Cleaning & supplies Repairs & Maintenance 350,000 50,000 30,000 26,400 6,600 9,000 28,750 5,000 8,000 2,200 2,500 12,000 1,500 3,000 43,000 20,000 26,000 30,000 281,783 56,099 18,785 18,350 5,800 6,750 15,149 3,313 5,291 1,738 2,655 8,036 811 2,034 22,413 25,701 15,828 26,777 �Oklahoman's for Equality Budget vs Actual October 1, 2023 - June 30, 2024 Budget Actual Expenditures Cont. Business Licenses & Permits Memberships and Subscriptions Marketing and Advertising Security (excluding Pride) Clinic Supplies & Lab Other Program Expenses Library Materials Event Expenses (excl Pride and G Non-Cap Equipment Vehicle Expenses Meals & Entertainment Travel Transaction Fees (excl Pride and G Bank Fees & Charges Gala Expenses Pride Festival & Bingo Total Expenditures 13,500 1,000 2,500 20,000 15,875 5,000 1,200 25,000 3,000 1,500 5,000 3,000 16,000 1,625 125,000 893,150 6,723 1,198 85 15,718 8,997 1,247 1,361 8,009 3,180 124 3,158 2,879 11,052 1,209 66,755 2,538 651,543 Release of Restriction to Gala Net Revenue over Expenses 175,950 (25,000) 381,336 �Oklahoman's for Equality Gala 2024 As of 06/30/24 Revenue Sponsorships Contributions Tickets Raffle Auction Live Ask Total Revenue Actual 364,750 29,055 23,300 417,105 Expenditures Cox Business IT Costs Printing Advertising/Marketing Entertainers Other Event Costs Transaction Fees Total Expenditures 48,001 1,200 6,350 7,321 3,883 66,755 Revenue over Expenses 350,350 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. 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Text Any textual data included in the document OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Finance Report June 2024 unaudited Oklahoman's [sic] for Equality Cash Position As of June 2024 Current Cash Balance $ 513,427 Accounts Receivable - (Less: Restricted Grants/Funds) (5,780) (Less: Affiliate/Chapters) (5,958) Available Unrestricted Funds $ 501,689 Restricted Grants/Funds As of June 2024 Balance Grant/Activity Name SAGE USA 612.73 History Project Coordinator 2,880.01 Rainbow Library 294.47 Van Insurance 1,953.00 SAGE-Support Group 40.00 Total Restricted Grants 5,780 Affiliate Balances As of June 2024 Group Name Balance Green Country Bears 640.21 SEQ McAlester Chapter 1,793.83 Tulsa2Spirit Society 3,523.89 Total Affiliates/Chapters 5,957.93 Oklahoman's for Equality Budget vs Actual October 1, 2023 - June 30, 2024 Budget Actual Revenue Grant Revenue 266,000 249,700 Contributions 277,600 269,628 Clinic Services 70,000 52,934 Pride Store (Net) 10,000 7,448 Bar/Concession (Net) 20,000 11,915 Art Gallery 500 95 Event/Shows Ticket Sales 25,000 7,565 Event/Kitchen Rental 25,000 23,220 EBA/OKEQ Memberships 10,000 6,014 Equality Gala 350,000 417,105 Pride Festival & Bingo 15,000 12,246 Misc Income - 10 Investment Income - - Total Revenue 1,069,100 1,057,879 Expenditures Salaries & Wages 350,000 281,783 Payroll Taxes and Benefits 50,000 56,099 IT Software/Equipment 30,000 18,785 Accounting & Legal Fees 26,400 18,350 Audt & 990 Fees 6,600 5,800 HR Consultant 9,000 6,750 Other Contract Services 28,750 15,149 Storage 5,000 3,313 Insurance-Liability & Cyber 8,000 5,291 Insurance-D&O 2,200 1,738 Insurance-Workers Comp 2,500 2,655 Insurance-Property 12,000 8,036 Insurance-Clinic 1,500 811 Insurance-Van 3,000 2,034 Utilities/Phone 43,000 22,413 Office expenses 20,000 25,701 Cleaning & supplies 26,000 15,828 Repairs & Maintenance 30,000 26,777 Oklahoman's for Equality Budget vs Actual October 1, 2023 - June 30, 2024 Budget Actual Expenditures Cont. Business Licenses & Permits 13,500 6,723 Memberships and Subscriptions 1,000 1,198 Marketing and Advertising 2,500 85 Security (excluding Pride) 20,000 15,718 Clinic Supplies & Lab 15,875 8,997 Other Program Expenses 5,000 1,247 Library Materials 1,200 1,361 Event Expenses (excl Pride and G 25,000 8,009 Non-Cap Equipment 3,000 3,180 Vehicle Expenses 1,500 124 Meals & Entertainment 5,000 3,158 Travel 3,000 2,879 Transaction Fees (excl Pride and G 16,000 11,052 Bank Fees & Charges 1,625 1,209 Gala Expenses 125,000 66,755 Pride Festival & Bingo - 2,538 Total Expenditures 893,150 651,543 Release of Restriction to Gala (25,000) Net Revenue over Expenses 175,950 381,336 Oklahoman's for Equality Gala 2024 As of 06/30/24 Actual Revenue Sponsorships 364,750 Contributions 29,055 Tickets 23,300 Raffle - Auction - Live Ask - Total Revenue 417,105 Expenditures Cox Business 48,001 IT Costs 1,200 Printing 6,350 Advertising/Marketing - Entertainers - Other Event Costs 7,321 Transaction Fees 3,883 Total Expenditures 66,755 Revenue over Expenses 350,350 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ June 2024 Unaudited Finance Report Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Finance Report for June 2024, Unaudited Description An account of the resource 5 pages of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) finance report for the month of June 2024. Includes the organization's cash position, restricted grants/funds, affiliate balances, budget vs. actual, and Equality Gala revenue over expenses. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 30, 2024 2024 budget budgeting Equality Gala Equality Gala 2024 Financial financial reports gala grants OkEq OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ac99159389ad070ebb7eaf1910efb37.pdf 56d06a1d8c479c60f7921ea91bf0633a PDF Text Text Finance Policy Manual Adopted (date) �Contents Section 1 – Introduction .............................................................................................. 4 Section 2 – General Provisions .................................................................................... 4 2.1 Segregation of Duties .................................................................................. 4 2.2 Accounting Period ....................................................................................... 4 2.3 Accounting Method ..................................................................................... 4 2.4 Accounting System ...................................................................................... 4 2.5 Consistent Treatment .................................................................................. 4 2.6 Finance Committee...................................................................................... 4 2.7 Non-Compliance .......................................................................................... 5 Section 3 – Cash, Banking and Investments ................................................................. 5 3.1 Bank Authority ........................................................................................... 5 3.2 Banking Relationships ................................................................................. 5 3.3 Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation Coverage (FDIC) .............................. 5 3.4 Bank Reconciliations.................................................................................... 5 3.5 Deposits ...................................................................................................... 5 3.6 Voided Checks ............................................................................................. 5 3.7 Petty Cash ................................................................................................... 6 3.8 Credit/Prepaid Debit Cards .......................................................................... 6 3.9 Investments................................................................................................. 7 Section 4 – Accounts Receivable and Revenue Recognition ......................................... 7 4.1 Invoicing ...................................................................................................... 7 4.2 Revenue Recognition ................................................................................... 7 4.3 Contribution Acknowledgement .................................................................. 7 Section 5 – Other Assets.............................................................................................. 7 5.1 Fixed Assets ................................................................................................. 7 5.2 Fixed Asset Depreciation ............................................................................. 7 5.3 Fixed Asset Disposition ................................................................................ 8 5.4 Prepaid Assets ............................................................................................. 8 Section 6 – Purchasing and Payables ........................................................................... 8 6.1 Open Competition ....................................................................................... 8 6.2 Approval Limits ........................................................................................... 8 6.3 Contracts and Agreements .......................................................................... 8 6.4 Accounts Payable ........................................................................................ 9 6.5 Tax Reporting and Compliance .................................................................... 9 Section 7 – Payroll and Related Liabilities.................................................................... 9 7.1 Payroll Processing ........................................................................................ 9 7.2 Payroll Liabilities ......................................................................................... 9 7.3 Payroll Reporting ......................................................................................... 9 7.4 Payroll Changes ........................................................................................... 9 Page 2 of 14 �Section 8 – Other Liabilities ....................................................................................... 10 8.1 Accruals ..................................................................................................... 10 8.2 Loans ......................................................................................................... 10 8.3 Assumption of Debt ................................................................................... 10 8.4 Long-Term Debt ......................................................................................... 10 8.5 Deferred Revenue ..................................................................................... 10 Section 9 – Travel and Expense Reimbursement ....................................................... 10 9.1 Travel Expenses ......................................................................................... 10 9.2 Employee Expense Reimbursement ........................................................... 10 9.3 Unallowable Expenses ............................................................................... 11 Section 10 – Financial Reporting................................................................................ 12 10.1 Review..................................................................................................... 12 10.2 Reporting Frequency ............................................................................... 12 10.3 Journal Entries ......................................................................................... 12 10.4 Balance Sheet Reconciliations.................................................................. 12 10.5 Financial Audit ......................................................................................... 12 Section 11 – Budgeting .............................................................................................. 12 11.1 Organization Budget ................................................................................ 12 11.2 Programmatic/Grant Budgets .................................................................. 13 11.3 Event Budgets.......................................................................................... 13 Section 12 – Document Retention and Destruction ................................................... 13 Page 3 of 14 �Section 1 – Introduction Oklahomans for Equality, hereinafter referred to as “OKEQ” is a tax-exempt organization pursuant to Internal Revenue Code §501(c)(3). The mission of OkEq is to seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, Ace, and plus (2SLGBTQIA+) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This manual contains the internal controls and financial management standards used by OKEQ to safeguard all assets and ensure that they are used solely for authorized purposes. All Board of Directors, employees and/or contractors have a responsibility to utilize the organization’s assets in the most efficient manner possible and to guard against loss of the organization’s assets whether due to error or fraud. It is important that these internal controls are observed to maintain the highest level of fiscal integrity and accountability. Management, including but not limited to the Board of Directors (the Board), will have the responsibility for interpretation of these policies. All questions regarding financial policy should be directed to the Finance Committee. Section 2 – General Provisions 2.1 Segregation of Duties Proper segregation of duties shall be maintained at all times in order to safeguard the assets of the organization. No single individual shall have the authority to both request and approve the disbursement or obligation of funds. The Board and the Finance Committee are charged with general oversight of the finance function and will be provided periodic financial reports to facilitate this duty. 2.2 Accounting Period The accounting period of OKEQ is October 1 thru September 30. 2.3 Accounting Method OKEQ will utilize the accrual method of accounting, in accordance with Generally Accepted Accounting Principles (GAAP). 2.4 Accounting System OKEQ will use an ERP accounting system that includes the capability to segregate activity by funding source. Within this accounting system, a chart of accounts will be established that ensures proper classification of activity by account type and in alignment with line items included in approved budgets. 2.5 Consistent Treatment All financial policies and procedures shall be applied consistently across all funding sources and across all funding periods. 2.6 Finance Committee Page 4 of 14 �An integral part of the internal controls outlined in this document is the existence of a Finance Committee that reports to the Board. The Finance Committee will be chaired by the Treasurer. Other members of the Board and/or community members may be appointed to the committee by the Treasurer. 2.7 Non-Compliance Compliance with this policy is mandatory. No employee has the authority to act contrary to the provisions of this policy or to authorize, direct, or condone violations of it by any other employee or by any representative of OkEq. Any employee who has knowledge of facts or incidents which is to be believed in violation of this policy has an obligation, promptly after learning of such fact or incident, to review the matter with Executive Director or someone from the Executive Committee. Section 3 – Cash, Banking and Investments 3.1 Bank Authority Bank Signers should be voted by the board and be limited to three elected members of the Executive Committee. Upon approval of the Board, changes to the authorized signers will be communicated to the banking institution by a member of the Finance Committee. . 3.2 Banking Relationships Banking relationships will be reviewed every two years by the Finance Committee to ensure competitive interest rates are being received, determine if alternate banking products have become more suitable, and make sure fees and charges are reasonable. The results of any review of banking relationships will be provided to the Finance Committee along with a recommended course of action. The Finance Committee will review the recommendation and forward their recommendation to the full Board for approval. The Board Treasurer will execute any Board decisions regarding banking relationships. 3.3 Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation Coverage (FDIC) The Accountant will monitor bank balances on a continual basis to ensure FDIC coverage is maintained. If new bank accounts are needed to maintain FDIC coverage, the Finance Committee will research potential institutions and provide recommendations to the Board. The Board Treasurer will take the necessary steps to open new bank accounts and to move funding as directed by the Board. 3.4 Bank Reconciliations Bank reconciliations will be performed by the Accountant each month. Bank statements will be printed from online banking applications, if available, for reconciliation purposes. Completed bank reconciliations will be provided to the Board Treasurer for review. 3.5 Deposits Any checks or cash received will be deposited as soon as practical, but at least weekly, and recorded in the accounting system when deposited. Proof of deposit, check copies and any documentation accompanying the checks/cash will be maintained in the Finance files. 3.6 Voided Checks Every check that has been voided, regardless of reason, shall be recorded in the accounting Page 5 of 14 �system. If voided checks are physically available, they will be marked “VOID”, signature line removed and kept in the Finance files. 3.7 Petty Cash A petty cash fund may be needed for the store, events, and fundraising activities. Petty cash is used only when it is necessary to pay for small purchases and to provide an adequate amount of change where cash is accepted. A receipt or verifiable documentation must be acquired upon payment. Total petty cash funds do not exceed $500.00, except where more funds are needed for change at events. The petty cash fund must have a designated custodian responsible for that fund who is independent of the accounting department and the cash disbursement process. When necessary, the bank signers have authority to replenish the account. The custodian and the person approving replenishment of the petty cash fund cannot be the same person. Alternatively, petty cash may be replenished by depositing some cash into the petty cash account that would otherwise be deposited into the bank account. Full documentation for this deposit should be retained. The petty cash is counted and verified by two individuals using the Petty Cash Reconciliation form. The reconciliation is sent to the Accountant at the end of each month. Petty cash cannot be used for the following: • Purchases from or expenses incurred with a vendor that cannot provide an invoice or receipt. • Vendors that have an active account in the accounting system. • Employee expense reports. • Employee advances (salary, travel, or otherwise). • Any payroll-related costs or adjustments. • Inventory materials. • Anything related to taxes. • Anything related to government fees • Fixed Assets. 3.8 Credit/Prepaid Debit Cards Credit or Prepaid Debit Cards associated with OKEQ may be issued to staff and board members to be used for business-related expenditures. The Finance Committee shall determine who is authorized to have an OKEQ credit/prepaid debit card. All cards shall be under the name and federal identification number of OKEQ. It is strictly prohibited for staff to use their personal social security number to obtain a credit card in OKEQ’s name. Credit/prepaid cards shall not be used for personal charges at any time. If personal charges are made accidentally, the card holder will inform the Executive Director and immediately reimburse OKEQ. Written documentation will be kept in employee file stored within the locked storage in the office of the Executive Director. Card holders are required to submit itemized receipts each month to the Accountant for all charges monthly through the Finance Request Form. The Executive Director or Treasurer will review and approve transactions. The Accountant will enter transactions into the accounting system based on the supporting documentation provided. All policies related to purchasing also apply to transactions made by credit/prepaid debit cards, and full compliance is expected. The Page 6 of 14 �card holder can be held responsible for any transactions for which a receipt is not submitted. The card holder may be required to reimburse OKEQ for these unsubstantiated transactions. Repeated non-compliance with these requirements by a card holder will result in the loss of card privileges. Unauthorized charges or lost/stolen cards shall be immediately reported to the Executive Director so appropriate action may be taken. 3.9 Investments No funds of OKEQ shall be deposited in any name other than OKEQ, and no funds of OKEQ shall be invested without approval of the Board. The Board may approve an investment policy separate from this document. In addition, OKEQ may utilize an investment advisor. Section 4 – Accounts Receivable and Revenue Recognition 4.1 Invoicing Invoicing for grants and contracts will be prepared at the frequency and per the terms of the grant or contract. Invoices will be entered and tracked through the accounting system. Supporting documentation for any expenditures charged to a grant or contract will be maintained in the finance files along with a copy of the invoice. The Accountant will record payments on invoices when they are received. 4.2 Revenue Recognition Revenue will be recognized based on the terms of each grant or restricted funds and the appropriate GAAP revenue recognition principle. 4.3 Contribution Acknowledgement For all cash or in-kind donations of $250 or more, the contributor will receive an acknowledgement letter. All quid pro quo contributions of $75 or more will be documented as required and an acknowledgement sent to the contributor. Section 5 – Other Assets 5.1 Fixed Assets Fixed assets are defined as any piece of furniture or equipment valued at two thousand five hundred ($2,500.00) or more and having an expected useful life of greater than one year. All purchases that are classified as fixed assets will be recorded in a fixed asset records. An inventory of fixed assets will be performed at the end of each fiscal year using the fixed asset record as a guide. Assets are the property of OKEQ. Assets will be classified in the following categories with the useful life indicated below. • Furniture and Fixtures – 10 years • Computer & Electronic Equipment – 5 years • Software – 3 years 5.2 Fixed Asset Depreciation Page 7 of 14 �Depreciation will be calculated on an annual basis using the straight-line depreciation method and will be classified as an administrative expense. 5.3 Fixed Asset Disposition Fixed assets may be sold or traded-in on new equipment. Any asset that is missing or has been stolen will be reported in writing to the Board as soon as possible. The description and other pertinent information about the lost item shall be included in the report. The Board President will determine the proper course of action and will direct the notification of OKEQ’s insurance carrier and any outside authorities, if deemed necessary. If the asset is not recovered, it will be removed from the fixed asset records. Fixed assets that are deemed as unusable will be reported to the Board, disposed of properly and removed from the fixed asset records. 5.4 Prepaid Assets Any items over $1,000, such as insurance premiums, that are paid in advance and cover a future period will be classified as Prepaid Assets and amortized over the appropriate period. Section 6 – Purchasing and Payables 6.1 Open Competition All purchases must follow the approval requirements and processes outlined in this section. Goods or services costing more than five-thousand ($5,000.00) each require three bids. The supporting documents demonstrating that three bids have been obtained will be maintained in the finance files. A sole source purchase may be authorized when it is impossible or extremely impractical to obtain three bids and subject matter experts. The reason that the purchase was made as a sole source must be thoroughly documented, and the documentation must be kept in the finance files. 6.2 Approval Limits The following approval limits apply to all purchases. The limits apply to the total cost of a purchase. Purchases shall not be split in order to circumvent these limits. Whenever possible, purchases should be combined to reduce administrative burden, reduce shipping costs and/or obtain volume purchasing discounts. • • • Up to $5,000 – Executive Director $5,001 to $15,000 – Executive Committee Over $15,000 – Board approval 6.3 Contracts and Agreements Signature authority for contracts and agreements are limited to the Board Chair, Board Treasurer, and Executive Director following appropriate approval limits listed above in section 6.2. Contracts and legal documents should go through review prior to any action on them. A contract must be fully executed before payments can be made to vendors. A copy of the fully executed contract will be maintained in the finance files. Page 8 of 14 �6.4 Accounts Payable Request for invoice payment will be processed through the Finance Request Form with appropriate coding, invoice (not statements), and other supporting documents for the associated purchase. Upon submission, the Finance Request Form is routed to the Executive Director or Treasurer for approval. Once approved, the completed packet will be submitted to the Accountant to be entered into the accounting system and to be included on the weekly check run. The check run report is reviewed by the President and Treasurer. After review, the payments are disbursed by the Accountant either via paper check or electronic payment. No individual may request, approve and initiate payment. No vendor invoices will be paid from Petty Cash. All supporting documentation is maintained in the finance files. 6.5 Tax Reporting and Compliance All vendors will be required to provide Form W-9 Request for Taxpayer Identification Number and Certification prior to payments being issued to the vendor. Backup withholding requirements, as specified by the Internal Revenue Service, will be applied, if necessary. The completed Form W9 will be maintained in the finance files. Form 1099 will be prepared and provided to vendors annually based on the Internal Revenue Service requirements in effect at the time. Section 7 – Payroll and Related Liabilities 7.1 Payroll Processing Payroll is processed on a bi-weekly basis, with payment dates on Friday. Payroll is paid via direct deposit only. Employees are responsible for tracking their time and recording actual hours worked in the designated timekeeping system. Hours entered in the timekeeping system should be approved by Supervisors. The Accountant is responsible for entering and processing payroll payments through the payroll system. Withholdings will be made from employee paychecks based on employee authorizations, Form W-4, and applicable law. 7.2 Payroll Liabilities All payroll liabilities, including federal and state taxes, will be paid as soon as practical following the end of each pay period. The Accountant is responsible for ensuring timely payment of payroll liabilities. 7.3 Payroll Reporting The Accountant is responsible for ensuring all required payroll tax returns are prepared and timely filed. W-2 Wage and Tax Statements and W-3 Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements will be prepared and distributed on an annual basis within applicable timelines established by the Internal Revenue Service. Deadlines and filing requirements will be monitored by the Accountant, and filing frequency and content will be modified, as needed. 7.4 Payroll Changes If changes need to be made in the payroll system, an Employee Change Form will be completed and signed by the employee and Executive Director. Changes in the payroll system will not be applied until all approvals are complete. The Employee Change Form will be filed in the finance Page 9 of 14 �files. Section 8 – Other Liabilities 8.1 Accruals Accruals are necessary from time to time to record costs or revenue to the appropriate accounting period. At a minimum, accruals will be prepared at fiscal year-end to ensure the accuracy of annual financial statements and/or in preparation for the annual financial audit. 8.2 Loans OKEQ prohibits loans to staff, Directors, Officers, or committee members. 8.3 Assumption of Debt The Board of Directors of OkEq shall not have the power or authority to obligate OkEq to any single capital debt exceeding $50,000 unless approved by a majority vote of the full Board of Directors and unanimous vote of all of the Trustees. The Finance Committee must review all debt agreements prior to the presentation of such agreements to the Board. The Board’s authorization to incur debt shall be documented in the minutes of the Board meetings. 8.4 Long-Term Debt Current portions of long-term debt will be included with current liabilities on the financial statements. Only the noncurrent portion of the long-term debt will be included in the long-term debt section of the financial statements. The current portion of debt is considered to be the amount of principal due to be paid over the ensuing twelve (12) month period, or any debt expected to be refinanced within the same twelve (12) month period. 8.5 Deferred Revenue Cash receipts in excess of costs incurred on conditional grants are to be reflected as Deferred Revenue and temporarily restricted net assets until they are expended for the purpose of the grant, at which time they will be considered earned and recognized as unrestricted support. Section 9 – Travel and Expense Reimbursement 9.1 Travel Expenses From time to time, staff or Board members may be approved for travel related to the business of OKEQ. All travel-related expenses must be appropriately documented and submitted through the Finance Request Form. All requests for reimbursement require approval from the Executive Director and Treasurer. 9.2 Employee Expense Reimbursement Reimbursement for other pre-approved expenses such as cell phone, business meals, supplies, and services (not an inclusive list) may be made for business purposes only. To request reimbursement a Finance Request Form is submitted along with relevant invoices, receipts, and other verifiable documentation. Page 10 of 14 �9.3 Unallowable Expenses Reimbursement will not be made for items of a personal nature or for entertainment unrelated to business purposes. The cost of entertainment may be reimbursed if such entertainment is for business purposes, with prior approval of the Executive Director or Treasurer. Page 11 of 14 �Section 10 – Financial Reporting 10.1 Review The internal control procedures built into the accounting system are designed to help safeguard the assets of the organization from loss due to error or fraud during daily operations. Finance Committee review of financial reports is an important part of these internal controls. Finance Committee review serves to test the accuracy of the recorded data and to ensure compliance with internal control procedures, as well as other established policies and procedures. 10.2 Reporting Frequency Monthly Budget versus Actual reports will be prepared monthly and provided to the Finance Committee. The reports will be based on the approved budgets in effect at the time. The Finance Committee will review the reports before they are submitted to the Board as a whole. Annual IRS Form 990 Return of Organization Exempt from Income Tax will be prepared annually based on finalized information for the reporting period. The completed form will be provided to Management for review prior to filing. Periodic Additional financial reporting as required by funding sources will be prepared and submitted in a timely manner to ensure compliance with the funder conditions. 10.3 Journal Entries Journal entries will be prepared on an as needed basis to ensure the accuracy of financial records. Journal entries will be prepared by Finance and appropriate supporting documentation will be maintained. 10.4 Balance Sheet Reconciliations At a minimum, all items on the balance sheet will be reconciled on a monthly basis. 10.5 Financial Audit When required, the organization will contract with an appropriate independent accounting firm to perform a financial audit. The audit will be scheduled as soon as possible after the fiscal year ends. The independent accounting firm will be re-evaluated after being contracted for three consecutive audits. Section 11 – Budgeting 11.1 Organization Budget An annual budget will be drafted by the Executive Director with assistance from the Accountant and Finance Committee. The budget will be presented to Board for review and approval prior to the beginning of the fiscal year. The Executive Director is authorized to reallocate funds among budget line items to the extent that the total budget approved by the Board is not exceeded. The Executive Director shall report any such reallocations to the Board. Page 12 of 14 �11.2 Programmatic/Grant Budgets Programmatic and grant budgets will be prepared for each funded program. Expenditures for programmatic activities will be restricted to the budget approved by the funding sponsor. Expenses charged to programmatic budgets will be made in accordance with the applicable guidance provided by the funding sponsor. 11.3 Event Budgets Fundraising and Event budgets will be prepared by the Event Chairperson with assistance from the Executive Director and Accountant. Fundraising and Event budgets will be presented to the Finance Committee for approval before spending may occur. Section 12 – Document Retention and Destruction The following document retention standards have been adopted from the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants. The schedule reflects retention periods for specific types of documents. Notwithstanding the following, Oklahomans for Equality will adhere to any legal requirements that would supersede the retention periods outlines below. Additionally, all grant documents and related supporting documentation will be maintained for the audit look back period specified in each grant. Area Accounting Records Bank Records Corporate Records Document Type Accounts Payable Accounts Receivable Audit Reports Chart of Accounts Depreciation Schedules Expense Records Financial Statements (Annual) Fixed Asset purchases General Ledger Inventory Records Loan Payment Schedules Purchase Orders (1 copy) Sales Records Tax Return Bank reconciliations Bank statements Canceled checks Electronic payment records Board Minutes Bylaws Business Licenses Retention Period 7 years 7 years Permanent Permanent Permanent 7 years Permanent Permanent Permanent 7 years 7 years 7 years 7 years Permanent 2 years 7 years 7 years 7 years Permanent Permanent Permanent Page 13 of 14 �Contracts-major Contracts-minor Insurance policies Leases/mortgages Employee Records Benefit Plans Employee files (exemployees) Employment applications Employment taxes Payroll records Pension/profit sharing plans Real Property Records Construction records Leasehold improvements Lease payment records Real estate purchases Life +4 years Life +3 years Permanent Permanent Permanent 7 years 1 years 7 years 7 years Permanent Permanent Permanent Life +4 years Permanent Documents will be destroyed by a secured destruction methodology once the specified retention period has expired. Page 14 of 14 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahomans for Equality Finance Policy Manual Adopted (date) Contents Section 1 – Introduction .............................................................................................. 4 Section 2 – General Provisions .................................................................................... 4 2.1 Segregation of Duties .................................................................................. 4 2.2 Accounting Period ....................................................................................... 4 2.3 Accounting Method ..................................................................................... 4 2.4 Accounting System ...................................................................................... 4 2.5 Consistent Treatment .................................................................................. 4 2.6 Finance Committee ...................................................................................... 4 2.7 Non-Compliance .......................................................................................... 5 Section 3 – Cash, Banking and Investments ................................................................. 5 3.1 Bank Authority ........................................................................................... 5 3.2 Banking Relationships ................................................................................. 5 3.3 Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation Coverage (FDIC) .............................. 5 3.4 Bank Reconciliations .................................................................................... 5 3.5 Deposits ...................................................................................................... 5 3.6 Voided Checks ............................................................................................. 5 3.7 Petty Cash ................................................................................................... 6 3.8 Credit/Prepaid Debit Cards .......................................................................... 6 3.9 Investments ................................................................................................. 7 Section 4 – Accounts Receivable and Revenue Recognition ......................................... 7 4.1 Invoicing ...................................................................................................... 7 4.2 Revenue Recognition ................................................................................... 7 4.3 Contribution Acknowledgement .................................................................. 7 Section 5 – Other Assets .............................................................................................. 7 5.1 Fixed Assets ................................................................................................. 7 5.2 Fixed Asset Depreciation ............................................................................. 7 5.3 Fixed Asset Disposition ................................................................................ 8 5.4 Prepaid Assets ............................................................................................. 8 Section 6 – Purchasing and Payables ........................................................................... 8 6.1 Open Competition ....................................................................................... 8 6.2 Approval Limits ........................................................................................... 8 6.3 Contracts and Agreements .......................................................................... 8 6.4 Accounts Payable ........................................................................................ 9 6.5 Tax Reporting and Compliance .................................................................... 9 Section 7 – Payroll and Related Liabilities .................................................................... 9 7.1 Payroll Processing ........................................................................................ 9 7.2 Payroll Liabilities ......................................................................................... 9 7.3 Payroll Reporting ......................................................................................... 9 7.4 Payroll Changes ........................................................................................... 9 Page 2 of 14 Section 8 – Other Liabilities ....................................................................................... 10 8.1 Accruals ..................................................................................................... 10 8.2 Loans ......................................................................................................... 10 8.3 Assumption of Debt ................................................................................... 10 8.4 Long-Term Debt ......................................................................................... 10 8.5 Deferred Revenue ..................................................................................... 10 Section 9 – Travel and Expense Reimbursement ....................................................... 10 9.1 Travel Expenses ......................................................................................... 10 9.2 Employee Expense Reimbursement ........................................................... 10 9.3 Unallowable Expenses ............................................................................... 11 Section 10 – Financial Reporting ................................................................................ 12 10.1 Review ..................................................................................................... 12 10.2 Reporting Frequency ............................................................................... 12 10.3 Journal Entries ......................................................................................... 12 10.4 Balance Sheet Reconciliations .................................................................. 12 10.5 Financial Audit ......................................................................................... 12 Section 11 – Budgeting .............................................................................................. 12 11.1 Organization Budget ................................................................................ 12 11.2 Programmatic/Grant Budgets .................................................................. 13 11.3 Event Budgets .......................................................................................... 13 Section 12 – Document Retention and Destruction ................................................... 13 Page 3 of 14 Section 1 – Introduction Oklahomans for Equality, hereinafter referred to as “OKEQ” is a tax-exempt organization pursuant to Internal Revenue Code §501(c)(3). The mission of OkEq is to seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, Ace, and plus (2SLGBTQIA+) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This manual contains the internal controls and financial management standards used by OKEQ to safeguard all assets and ensure that they are used solely for authorized purposes. All Board of Directors, employees and/or contractors have a responsibility to utilize the organization’s assets in the most efficient manner possible and to guard against loss of the organization’s assets whether due to error or fraud. It is important that these internal controls are observed to maintain the highest level of fiscal integrity and accountability. Management, including but not limited to the Board of Directors (the Board), will have the responsibility for interpretation of these policies. All questions regarding financial policy should be directed to the Finance Committee. Section 2 – General Provisions 2.1 Segregation of Duties Proper segregation of duties shall be maintained at all times in order to safeguard the assets of the organization. No single individual shall have the authority to both request and approve the disbursement or obligation of funds. The Board and the Finance Committee are charged with general oversight of the finance function and will be provided periodic financial reports to facilitate this duty. 2.2 Accounting Period The accounting period of OKEQ is October 1 thru September 30. 2.3 Accounting Method OKEQ will utilize the accrual method of accounting, in accordance with Generally Accepted Accounting Principles (GAAP). 2.4 Accounting System OKEQ will use an ERP accounting system that includes the capability to segregate activity by funding source. Within this accounting system, a chart of accounts will be established that ensures proper classification of activity by account type and in alignment with line items included in approved budgets. 2.5 Consistent Treatment All financial policies and procedures shall be applied consistently across all funding sources and across all funding periods. 2.6 Finance Committee Page 4 of 14 An integral part of the internal controls outlined in this document is the existence of a Finance Committee that reports to the Board. The Finance Committee will be chaired by the Treasurer. Other members of the Board and/or community members may be appointed to the committee by the Treasurer. 2.7 Non-Compliance Compliance with this policy is mandatory. No employee has the authority to act contrary to the provisions of this policy or to authorize, direct, or condone violations of it by any other employee or by any representative of OkEq. Any employee who has knowledge of facts or incidents which is to be believed in violation of this policy has an obligation, promptly after learning of such fact or incident, to review the matter with Executive Director or someone from the Executive Committee. Section 3 – Cash, Banking and Investments 3.1 Bank Authority Bank Signers should be voted by the board and be limited to three elected members of the Executive Committee. Upon approval of the Board, changes to the authorized signers will be communicated to the banking institution by a member of the Finance Committee. . [sic] 3.2 Banking Relationships Banking relationships will be reviewed every two years by the Finance Committee to ensure competitive interest rates are being received, determine if alternate banking products have become more suitable, and make sure fees and charges are reasonable. The results of any review of banking relationships will be provided to the Finance Committee along with a recommended course of action. The Finance Committee will review the recommendation and forward their recommendation to the full Board for approval. The Board Treasurer will execute any Board decisions regarding banking relationships. 3.3 Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation Coverage (FDIC) The Accountant will monitor bank balances on a continual basis to ensure FDIC coverage is maintained. If new bank accounts are needed to maintain FDIC coverage, the Finance Committee will research potential institutions and provide recommendations to the Board. The Board Treasurer will take the necessary steps to open new bank accounts and to move funding as directed by the Board. 3.4 Bank Reconciliations Bank reconciliations will be performed by the Accountant each month. Bank statements will be printed from online banking applications, if available, for reconciliation purposes. Completed bank reconciliations will be provided to the Board Treasurer for review. 3.5 Deposits Any checks or cash received will be deposited as soon as practical, but at least weekly, and recorded in the accounting system when deposited. Proof of deposit, check copies and any documentation accompanying the checks/cash will be maintained in the Finance files. 3.6 Voided Checks Every check that has been voided, regardless of reason, shall be recorded in the accounting system. If voided checks are physically available, they will be marked “VOID”, signature line removed and kept in the Finance files. Page 5 of 14 3.7 Petty Cash A petty cash fund may be needed for the store, events, and fundraising activities. Petty cash is used only when it is necessary to pay for small purchases and to provide an adequate amount of change where cash is accepted. A receipt or verifiable documentation must be acquired upon payment. Total petty cash funds do not exceed $500.00, except where more funds are needed for change at events. The petty cash fund must have a designated custodian responsible for that fund who is independent of the accounting department and the cash disbursement process. When necessary, the bank signers have authority to replenish the account. The custodian and the person approving replenishment of the petty cash fund cannot be the same person. Alternatively, petty cash may be replenished by depositing some cash into the petty cash account that would otherwise be deposited into the bank account. Full documentation for this deposit should be retained. The petty cash is counted and verified by two individuals using the Petty Cash Reconciliation form. The reconciliation is sent to the Accountant at the end of each month. Petty cash cannot be used for the following: • Purchases from or expenses incurred with a vendor that cannot provide an invoice or receipt. • Vendors that have an active account in the accounting system. • Employee expense reports. • Employee advances (salary, travel, or otherwise). • Any payroll-related costs or adjustments. • Inventory materials. • Anything related to taxes. • Anything related to government fees • Fixed Assets. 3.8 Credit/Prepaid Debit Cards Credit or Prepaid Debit Cards associated with OKEQ may be issued to staff and board members to be used for business-related expenditures. The Finance Committee shall determine who is authorized to have an OKEQ credit/prepaid debit card. All cards shall be under the name and federal identification number of OKEQ. It is strictly prohibited for staff to use their personal social security number to obtain a credit card in OKEQ’s name. Credit/prepaid cards shall not be used for personal charges at any time. If personal charges are made accidentally, the card holder will inform the Executive Director and immediately reimburse OKEQ. Written documentation will be kept in employee file stored within the locked storage in the office of the Executive Director. Card holders are required to submit itemized receipts each month to the Accountant for all charges monthly through the Finance Request Form. The Executive Director or Treasurer will review and approve transactions. The Accountant will enter transactions into the accounting system based on the supporting documentation provided. All policies related to purchasing also apply to transactions made by credit/prepaid debit cards, and full compliance is expected. The card holder can be held responsible for any transactions for which a receipt is not submitted. The card holder may be required to reimburse OKEQ for these unsubstantiated transactions. Page 6 of 14 Repeated non-compliance with these requirements by a card holder will result in the loss of card privileges. Unauthorized charges or lost/stolen cards shall be immediately reported to the Executive Director so appropriate action may be taken. 3.9 Investments No funds of OKEQ shall be deposited in any name other than OKEQ, and no funds of OKEQ shall be invested without approval of the Board. The Board may approve an investment policy separate from this document. In addition, OKEQ may utilize an investment advisor. Section 4 – Accounts Receivable and Revenue Recognition 4.1 Invoicing Invoicing for grants and contracts will be prepared at the frequency and per the terms of the grant or contract. Invoices will be entered and tracked through the accounting system. Supporting documentation for any expenditures charged to a grant or contract will be maintained in the finance files along with a copy of the invoice. The Accountant will record payments on invoices when they are received. 4.2 Revenue Recognition Revenue will be recognized based on the terms of each grant or restricted funds and the appropriate GAAP revenue recognition principle. 4.3 Contribution Acknowledgement For all cash or in-kind donations of $250 or more, the contributor will receive an acknowledgement letter. All quid pro quo contributions of $75 or more will be documented as required and an acknowledgement sent to the contributor. Section 5 – Other Assets 5.1 Fixed Assets Fixed assets are defined as any piece of furniture or equipment valued at two thousand five hundred ($2,500.00) or more and having an expected useful life of greater than one year. All purchases that are classified as fixed assets will be recorded in a fixed asset records. An inventory of fixed assets will be performed at the end of each fiscal year using the fixed asset record as a guide. Assets are the property of OKEQ. Assets will be classified in the following categories with the useful life indicated below. • Furniture and Fixtures – 10 years • Computer & Electronic Equipment – 5 years • Software – 3 years 5.2 Fixed Asset Depreciation Page 7 of 14 Depreciation will be calculated on an annual basis using the straight-line depreciation method and will be classified as an administrative expense. 5.3 Fixed Asset Disposition Fixed assets may be sold or traded-in on new equipment. Any asset that is missing or has been stolen will be reported in writing to the Board as soon as possible. The description and other pertinent information about the lost item shall be included in the report. The Board President will determine the proper course of action and will direct the notification of OKEQ’s insurance carrier and any outside authorities, if deemed necessary. If the asset is not recovered, it will be removed from the fixed asset records. Fixed assets that are deemed as unusable will be reported to the Board, disposed of properly and removed from the fixed asset records. 5.4 Prepaid Assets Any items over $1,000, such as insurance premiums, that are paid in advance and cover a future period will be classified as Prepaid Assets and amortized over the appropriate period. Section 6 – Purchasing and Payables 6.1 Open Competition All purchases must follow the approval requirements and processes outlined in this section. Goods or services costing more than five-thousand ($5,000.00) each require three bids. The supporting documents demonstrating that three bids have been obtained will be maintained in the finance files. A sole source purchase may be authorized when it is impossible or extremely impractical to obtain three bids and subject matter experts. The reason that the purchase was made as a sole source must be thoroughly documented, and the documentation must be kept in the finance files. 6.2 Approval Limits The following approval limits apply to all purchases. The limits apply to the total cost of a purchase. Purchases shall not be split in order to circumvent these limits. Whenever possible, purchases should be combined to reduce administrative burden, reduce shipping costs and/or obtain volume purchasing discounts. • Up to $5,000 – Executive Director • $5,001 to $15,000 – Executive Committee • Over $15,000 – Board approval 6.3 Contracts and Agreements Signature authority for contracts and agreements are limited to the Board Chair, Board Treasurer, and Executive Director following appropriate approval limits listed above in section 6.2. Contracts and legal documents should go through review prior to any action on them. A contract must be fully executed before payments can be made to vendors. A copy of the fully executed contract will be maintained in the finance files. Page 8 of 14 6.4 Accounts Payable Request for invoice payment will be processed through the Finance Request Form with appropriate coding, invoice (not statements), and other supporting documents for the associated purchase. Upon submission, the Finance Request Form is routed to the Executive Director or Treasurer for approval. Once approved, the completed packet will be submitted to the Accountant to be entered into the accounting system and to be included on the weekly check run. The check run report is reviewed by the President and Treasurer. After review, the payments are disbursed by the Accountant either via paper check or electronic payment. No individual may request, approve and initiate payment. No vendor invoices will be paid from Petty Cash. All supporting documentation is maintained in the finance files. 6.5 Tax Reporting and Compliance All vendors will be required to provide Form W-9 Request for Taxpayer Identification Number and Certification prior to payments being issued to the vendor. Backup withholding requirements, as specified by the Internal Revenue Service, will be applied, if necessary. The completed Form W9 will be maintained in the finance files. Form 1099 will be prepared and provided to vendors annually based on the Internal Revenue Service requirements in effect at the time. Section 7 – Payroll and Related Liabilities 7.1 Payroll Processing Payroll is processed on a bi-weekly basis, with payment dates on Friday. Payroll is paid via direct deposit only. Employees are responsible for tracking their time and recording actual hours worked in the designated timekeeping system. Hours entered in the timekeeping system should be approved by Supervisors. The Accountant is responsible for entering and processing payroll payments through the payroll system. Withholdings will be made from employee paychecks based on employee authorizations, Form W-4, and applicable law. 7.2 Payroll Liabilities All payroll liabilities, including federal and state taxes, will be paid as soon as practical following the end of each pay period. The Accountant is responsible for ensuring timely payment of payroll liabilities. 7.3 Payroll Reporting The Accountant is responsible for ensuring all required payroll tax returns are prepared and timely filed. W-2 Wage and Tax Statements and W-3 Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements will be prepared and distributed on an annual basis within applicable timelines established by the Internal Revenue Service. Deadlines and filing requirements will be monitored by the Accountant, and filing frequency and content will be modified, as needed. 7.4 Payroll Changes If changes need to be made in the payroll system, an Employee Change Form will be completed and signed by the employee and Executive Director. Changes in the payroll system will not be applied until all approvals are complete. The Employee Change Form will be filed in the finance files. Page 9 of 14 Section 8 – Other Liabilities 8.1 Accruals Accruals are necessary from time to time to record costs or revenue to the appropriate accounting period. At a minimum, accruals will be prepared at fiscal year-end to ensure the accuracy of annual financial statements and/or in preparation for the annual financial audit. 8.2 Loans OKEQ prohibits loans to staff, Directors, Officers, or committee members. 8.3 Assumption of Debt The Board of Directors of OkEq shall not have the power or authority to obligate OkEq to any single capital debt exceeding $50,000 unless approved by a majority vote of the full Board of Directors and unanimous vote of all of the Trustees. The Finance Committee must review all debt agreements prior to the presentation of such agreements to the Board. The Board’s authorization to incur debt shall be documented in the minutes of the Board meetings. 8.4 Long-Term Debt Current portions of long-term debt will be included with current liabilities on the financial statements. Only the noncurrent portion of the long-term debt will be included in the long-term debt section of the financial statements. The current portion of debt is considered to be the amount of principal due to be paid over the ensuing twelve (12) month period, or any debt expected to be refinanced within the same twelve (12) month period. 8.5 Deferred Revenue Cash receipts in excess of costs incurred on conditional grants are to be reflected as Deferred Revenue and temporarily restricted net assets until they are expended for the purpose of the grant, at which time they will be considered earned and recognized as unrestricted support. Section 9 – Travel and Expense Reimbursement 9.1 Travel Expenses From time to time, staff or Board members may be approved for travel related to the business of OKEQ. All travel-related expenses must be appropriately documented and submitted through the Finance Request Form. All requests for reimbursement require approval from the Executive Director and Treasurer. 9.2 Employee Expense Reimbursement Reimbursement for other pre-approved expenses such as cell phone, business meals, supplies, and services (not an inclusive list) may be made for business purposes only. To request reimbursement a Finance Request Form is submitted along with relevant invoices, receipts, and other verifiable documentation. Page 10 of 14 9.3 Unallowable Expenses Reimbursement will not be made for items of a personal nature or for entertainment unrelated to business purposes. The cost of entertainment may be reimbursed if such entertainment is for business purposes, with prior approval of the Executive Director or Treasurer. Page 11 of 14 Section 10 – Financial Reporting 10.1 Review The internal control procedures built into the accounting system are designed to help safeguard the assets of the organization from loss due to error or fraud during daily operations. Finance Committee review of financial reports is an important part of these internal controls. Finance Committee review serves to test the accuracy of the recorded data and to ensure compliance with internal control procedures, as well as other established policies and procedures. 10.2 Reporting Frequency Monthly Budget versus Actual reports will be prepared monthly and provided to the Finance Committee. The reports will be based on the approved budgets in effect at the time. The Finance Committee will review the reports before they are submitted to the Board as a whole. Annual IRS Form 990 Return of Organization Exempt from Income Tax will be prepared annually based on finalized information for the reporting period. The completed form will be provided to Management for review prior to filing. Periodic Additional financial reporting as required by funding sources will be prepared and submitted in a timely manner to ensure compliance with the funder conditions. 10.3 Journal Entries Journal entries will be prepared on an as needed basis to ensure the accuracy of financial records. Journal entries will be prepared by Finance and appropriate supporting documentation will be maintained. 10.4 Balance Sheet Reconciliations At a minimum, all items on the balance sheet will be reconciled on a monthly basis. 10.5 Financial Audit When required, the organization will contract with an appropriate independent accounting firm to perform a financial audit. The audit will be scheduled as soon as possible after the fiscal year ends. The independent accounting firm will be re-evaluated after being contracted for three consecutive audits. Section 11 – Budgeting 11.1 Organization Budget An annual budget will be drafted by the Executive Director with assistance from the Accountant and Finance Committee. The budget will be presented to Board for review and approval prior to the beginning of the fiscal year. The Executive Director is authorized to reallocate funds among budget line items to the extent that the total budget approved by the Board is not exceeded. The Executive Director shall report any such reallocations to the Board. Page 12 of 14 11.2 Programmatic/Grant Budgets Programmatic and grant budgets will be prepared for each funded program. Expenditures for programmatic activities will be restricted to the budget approved by the funding sponsor. Expenses charged to programmatic budgets will be made in accordance with the applicable guidance provided by the funding sponsor. 11.3 Event Budgets Fundraising and Event budgets will be prepared by the Event Chairperson with assistance from the Executive Director and Accountant. Fundraising and Event budgets will be presented to the Finance Committee for approval before spending may occur. Section 12 – Document Retention and Destruction The following document retention standards have been adopted from the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants. The schedule reflects retention periods for specific types of documents. Notwithstanding the following, Oklahomans for Equality will adhere to any legal requirements that would supersede the retention periods outlines below. Additionally, all grant documents and related supporting documentation will be maintained for the audit look back period specified in each grant. Area Document Type Retention Period Accounting Records Accounts Payable 7 years Accounts Receivable 7 years Audit Reports Permanent Chart of Accounts Permanent Depreciation Schedules Permanent Expense Records 7 years Financial Statements (Annual) Permanent Fixed Asset purchases Permanent General Ledger Permanent Inventory Records 7 years Loan Payment Schedules 7 years Purchase Orders (1 copy) 7 years Sales Records 7 years Tax Return Permanent Bank Records Bank reconciliations 2 years Bank statements 7 years Canceled checks 7 years Electronic payment records 7 years Corporate Records Board Minutes Permanent Bylaws Permanent Business Licenses Permanent Page 13 of 14 Contracts-major Life +4 years Contracts-minor Life +3 years Insurance policies Permanent Leases/mortgages Permanent Employee Records Benefit Plans Permanent Employee files (exemployees) 7 years Employment applications 1 years Employment taxes 7 years Payroll records 7 years Pension/profit sharing plans Permanent Real Property Records Construction records Permanent Leasehold improvements Permanent Lease payment records Life +4 years Real estate purchases Permanent Documents will be destroyed by a secured destruction methodology once the specified retention period has expired. Page 14 of 14 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [ND] OKEQ Finance Policy Manual Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Finance Policy Manual Description An account of the resource 14 pages of an undated copy of an Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) finance policy manual. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/31bfda5165b0746280882931c907e116.pdf c62a0d8cd65108708fdb1542b110edce PDF Text Text OKEQ-FY2025 Budget-Revision Draft REVENUE Grant Revenue Contributions I Am Equality Clinic Services Store/Vending Sales (net) Bar/Concession Sales (net) Art Gallery (net) Event/Ticket Sales Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental Equality Business Alliance OKEQ Membership In-Kind Donations Gala (net proceeds) Pride Festival & Bingo Investment Income TOTAL REVENUE FY2025 200,000 125,000 125,000 75,000 10,000 15,000 1,000 30,000 35,000 10,000 5,000 225,000 248,924 2,000 1,106,924 Revision Notes 275,000 Aids Coalition, DN, Ascension 110,000 Already at $85k Remove 85,000 7,500 15,000 1,000 5,000 Delay in hiring 20,000 Delay in hiring 10,000 1,000 Not ready to relaunch 5,000 Catering from TW-AB 300,000 134,547 3,000 972,047 EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages Payroll Taxes and Benefits Workers Com Contract Services IT Services Accounting Services and Audit HR Consultant Executive Consultant Archivist/History Coordinator Marketing Services Data Services Legal Services Other Contract Services Storage Vehicle Expenses Insurance-Liability & Cyber Insurance-D&O Insurance-Property Insurance-Clinic Insurance-Van Utilities/Phone Office expenses Office Supplies & Services Software/TechPlatforms/Digital Apps Shipping & Postage Copy Lease & Printing Cleaning & supplies Repairs & Maintenance Business Licenses & Permits Memberships and Subscriptions Non-Cap Equipment Meals & Entertainment Marketing and Advertising Security (excluding Pride) Clinic Supplies & Lab Other Program Expenses Library Materials Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) Community Outreach Travel & Training Pride Festival Expenses Transaction Fees Bank Fees & Charges TOTAL EXPENDITURES Use of Reserves Net Revenue over Expenditures FY2025 409,333 71,078 3,800 101,950 4,560 3,000 8,000 2,200 12,000 1,500 3,000 34,380 27,000 12,000 20,000 2,000 1,500 7,500 5,000 1,200 20,000 15,000 7,500 8,500 15,000 24,000 10,000 233,946 10,000 500 1,075,447 31,477 Revision Notes 339,165 Adjust. based on current positions and 3 mos. ED 63,000 7,800 Increased due to 2023 wc audit and staff. Replaced with detailed line items 25,200 38,000 9,000 56,250 8,000 Grant funded 9,500 21,000 Data Capacity Group 5,000 25,000 Restorative Justice and Charity Engine 4,560 2,500 8,000 2,200 14,000 1,500 3,000 30,000 Replaced with detailed line items 4,000 27,500 Data Capacity Grant, Charity Engine 1,000 4,300 12,000 $595/month services, plus Cintas 12,000 2,000 1,500 7,500 5,000 Staff, donor relations, board 1,200 10,000 15,000 20,000 Gender Marker Grant, Food Insecurity Grant 8,500 Grant funded support for remote libraries 5,000 16,000 Support to other organizations 5,000 Conferences, staff development 186,372 5,000 500 1,022,047 50,000 0 �Beginning Year Cash Net Income/Loss Reserve Use Estimated Year End Cash FY2025 580,360 31,477 611,837 Revision 580,360 (50,000) 50,000 530,360 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document OKEQ-FY2025 Budget-Revision Draft REVENUE FY2025 Revision Notes Grant Revenue 200,000 275,000 Aids Coalition, DN, Ascension Contributions 125,000 110,000 Already at $85k I Am Equality 125,000 - Remove Clinic Services 75,000 85,000 Store/Vending Sales (net) 10,000 7,500 Bar/Concession Sales (net) 15,000 15,000 Art Gallery (net) 1,000 1,000 Event/Ticket Sales 30,000 5,000 Delay in hiring Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental 35,000 20,000 Delay in hiring Equality Business Alliance 10,000 10,000 OKEQ Membership 5,000 1,000 Not ready to relaunch In-Kind Donations - 5,000 Catering from TW-AB Gala (net proceeds) 225,000 300,000 Pride Festival & Bingo 248,924 134,547 Investment Income 2,000 3,000 TOTAL REVENUE 1,106,924 972,047 EXPENDITURES FY2025 Revision Notes Salaries & Wages 409,333 339,165 Adjust. based on current positions and 3 mos. ED Payroll Taxes and Benefits 71,078 63,000 Workers Com 3,800 7,800 Increased due to 2023 wc audit and staff. Contract Services 101,950 - Replaced with detailed line items IT Services - 25,200 Accounting Services and Audit - 38,000 HR Consultant - 9,000 Executive Consultant - 56,250 Archivist/History Coordinator - 8,000 Grant funded Marketing Services - 9,500 Data Services - 21,000 Data Capacity Group Legal Services - 5,000 Other Contract Services - 25,000 Restorative Justice and Charity Engine Storage 4,560 4,560 Vehicle Expenses 3,000 2,500 Insurance-Liability & Cyber 8,000 8,000 Insurance-D&O 2,200 2,200 Insurance-Property 12,000 14,000 Insurance-Clinic 1,500 1,500 Insurance-Van 3,000 3,000 Utilities/Phone 34,380 30,000 Office expenses 27,000 - Replaced with detailed line items Office Supplies & Services - 4,000 Software/TechPlatforms/Digital Apps - 27,500 Data Capacity Grant, Charity Engine Shipping & Postage - 1,000 Copy Lease & Printing - 4,300 Cleaning & supplies 12,000 12,000 $595/month services, plus Cintas Repairs & Maintenance 20,000 12,000 Business Licenses & Permits 2,000 2,000 Memberships and Subscriptions 1,500 1,500 Non-Cap Equipment 7,500 7,500 Meals & Entertainment 5,000 5,000 Staff, donor relations, board Marketing and Advertising 1,200 1,200 Security (excluding Pride) 20,000 10,000 Clinic Supplies & Lab 15,000 15,000 Other Program Expenses 7,500 20,000 Gender Marker Grant, Food Insecurity Grant Library Materials 8,500 8,500 Grant funded support for remote libraries Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) 15,000 5,000 Community Outreach 24,000 16,000 Support to other organizations Travel & Training 10,000 5,000 Conferences, staff development Pride Festival Expenses 233,946 186,372 Transaction Fees 10,000 5,000 Bank Fees & Charges 500 500 TOTAL EXPENDITURES 1,075,447 1,022,047 Use of Reserves - 50,000 Net Revenue over Expenditures 31,477 0 FY2025 Revision Beginning Year Cash 580,360 580,360 Net Income/Loss 31,477 (50,000) Reserve Use - 50,000 Estimated Year End Cash 611,837 530,360 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2025] OKEQ FY2025 Budget Revision Draft Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Fiscal Year 2025 Budget Revision Draft Description An account of the resource 2 pages of a draft revision of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) budget for the fiscal year of 2025. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 2025 2025 budget budgeting Financial OkEq OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82e1ad4b35fd36fc03c731e87fd62957.pdf 0e8361bba9cc13e68f49514328c5c38f PDF Text Text OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY FY2024 Financial Statements Preliminary-unaudited �Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Statement of Financial Position As of September 30, 2024 ASSETS Cash and cash equivalents 577,378 Accounts Receivable/POS System 5,007 Endowment-TFC-Capital 27,724 Endowment-TFC-Op 14,139 Prepaid Expenses 62,428 Inventory 8,946 Fixed Assets (Less: Accum. Dep) 1,117,415 TOTAL ASSETS $ 1,813,037 LIABILITIES AND NET ASSETS Liabilities Accounts Payable 18,199 Deferred Revenue 79,886 Accrued Expenses Payable 1,666 Payroll Payable 7,753 PTO Accrual Payable 19,763 Artists Payable 103 Sales tax to Pay 942 Total Liabilities $ 128,311 Net Assets With Donor Restriction 31,316 Without Donor Restriction 1,653,410 Total Net Assets $ 1,684,726 TOTAL LIABILITIES AND EQUITY $ 1,813,037 �Oklahoman's for Equality Statement of Activity October 1, 2023 - September 2024 Revenue Grant Revenue Contributions Clinic Services Sales Event/Kitchen Rental EBA/OKEQ Memberships Equality Gala Pride Festival & Bingo Misc Income Investment Income Total Revenue 255,794 324,548 76,030 26,296 26,670 7,881 571,891 11,277 276 231 1,300,893 Expenditures Personnel Contract Services Storage Insurance Office & Utilitie Expenses Business Licenses & Permits Marketing and Advertising Security Clinic Supplies & Lab Program Expenses Non-Cap Equipment Travel Bank Fees & CC Fees Gala Expenses Pride Festival & Bingo Total Expenditures 441,078 98,965 4,482 28,278 130,854 11,417 800 16,503 12,935 70,249 3,180 2,859 13,454 106,912 5,407 947,371 Depreciation-Fixed Assets Amortization-Building & Land Net Revenue over Expenses 7,619 93,384 252,520 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY FY2024 Financial Statements Preliminary-unaudited Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Statement of Financial Position As of September 30, 2024 ASSETS Cash and cash equivalents 577,378 Accounts Receivable/POS System 5,007 Endowment-TFC-Capital 27,724 Endowment-TFC-Op 14,139 Prepaid Expenses 62,428 Inventory 8,946 Fixed Assets (Less: Accum. Dep) 1,117,415 TOTAL ASSETS $ 1,813,037 LIABILITIES AND NET ASSETS Liabilities Accounts Payable 18,199 Deferred Revenue 79,886 Accrued Expenses Payable 1,666 Payroll Payable 7,753 PTO Accrual Payable 19,763 Artists Payable 103 Sales tax to Pay 942 Total Liabilities $ 128,311 Net Assets With Donor Restriction 31,316 Without Donor Restriction 1,653,410 Total Net Assets $ 1,684,726 TOTAL LIABILITIES AND EQUITY $ 1,813,037 Oklahoman's for Equality Statement of Activity October 1, 2023 - September 2024 Revenue Grant Revenue 255,794 Contributions 324,548 Clinic Services 76,030 Sales 26,296 Event/Kitchen Rental 26,670 EBA/OKEQ Memberships 7,881 Equality Gala 571,891 Pride Festival & Bingo 11,277 Misc Income 276 Investment Income 231 Total Revenue 1,300,893 Expenditures Personnel 441,078 Contract Services 98,965 Storage 4,482 Insurance 28,278 Office & Utilitie Expenses 130,854 Business Licenses & Permits 11,417 Marketing and Advertising 800 Security 16,503 Clinic Supplies & Lab 12,935 Program Expenses 70,249 Non-Cap Equipment 3,180 Travel 2,859 Bank Fees & CC Fees 13,454 Gala Expenses 106,912 Pride Festival & Bingo 5,407 Total Expenditures 947,371 Depreciation-Fixed Assets 7,619 Amortization-Building & Land 93,384 Net Revenue over Expenses 252,520 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ FY2024 Financial Statements Unaudited Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Preliminary Unaudited Financial Statements Description An account of the resource 3 pages of financial statements for Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the fall period of 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 30, 2024 2023 2024 Financial financial statements OkEq OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) statement of activity https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/07f31b1526363bd70f1324014054f91c.pdf 78fdba7bf6ea9f3bdd9b4d9fc2c96023 PDF Text Text REVENUE Grant Revenue Contributions I Am Equality Giving Corps Clinic Services Store/Vending Sales (net) Bar/Concession Sales (net) Rentals (Theater/Kitchen/Event Center) Event/Ticket Sales Equality Business Alliance OKEQ Membership Gala (net proceeds) Pride Festival & Bingo Art Gallery/Misc Investment Income TOTAL REVENUE BUDGET FY2024 266,000 277,600 70,000 10,000 20,000 25,000 25,000 5,000 5,000 350,000 500 1,054,100 EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages Payroll Taxes and Benefits Contract Services Storage Insurance-Liability & Cyber Insurance-D&O Insurance-Workers Comp Insurance-Property Insurance-Clinic Insurance-Van Utilities/Phone (see tab) Office expenses (see tab) Cleaning & supplies Repairs & Maintenance Business Licenses & Permits Memberships and Subscriptions Marketing and Advertising Security (excluding Pride) Clinic Supplies & Lab Other Program Expenses Community Outreach Library Materials Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) Non-Cap Equipment Vehicle Expenses Meals & Entertainment Travel & Training Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) Bank Fees & Charges Gala Expenses Pride Festival Expenses TOTAL EXPENDITURES* Net Revenue over Expenditures Actual OctAugust 247,294 318,589 67,878 7,190 13,353 26,070 7,565 7,526 571,891 11,398 368 2 1,279,124 BUDGET FY2025 200,000 125,000 125,000 75,000 10,000 15,000 35,000 30,000 10,000 5,000 (net) 225,000 248,924 1,000 2,000 1,106,924 350,000 50,000 100,750 5,000 8,000 2,200 2,500 12,000 1,500 3,000 43,000 20,000 26,000 30,000 13,500 1,000 2,500 20,000 15,875 5,000 1,200 25,000 3,000 1,500 5,000 3,000 16,000 1,625 125,000 893,150 331,127 62,773 87,125 4,084 6,414 2,007 3,323 10,433 991 2,557 33,376 30,100 14,283 35,413 7,213 1,198 85 16,298 10,794 1,122 1,361 10,758 3,180 155 3,298 2,879 11,778 1,209 106,912 3,806 806,052 409,333 71,078 101,850 4,560 8,000 2,200 3,800 12,000 1,500 3,000 34,380 27,000 12,000 20,000 2,000 1,500 1,200 20,000 15,000 7,500 24,000 8,500 15,000 7,500 3,000 5,000 10,000 10,000 500 233,946 1,075,347 160,950 473,072 31,577 (included above) � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. 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Text Any textual data included in the document REVENUE BUDGET FY2024 Actual Oct-August BUDGET FY2025 Grant Revenue 266,000 247,294 200,000 Contributions 277,600 318,589 125,000 I Am Equality Giving Corps - - 125,000 Clinic Services 70,000 67,878 75,000 Store/Vending Sales (net) 10,000 7,190 10,000 Bar/Concession Sales (net) 20,000 13,353 15,000 Rentals (Theater/Kitchen/Event Center) 25,000 26,070 35,000 Event/Ticket Sales 25,000 7,565 30,000 Equality Business Alliance 5,000 7,526 10,000 OKEQ Membership 5,000 (included above) 5,000 Gala (net proceeds) 350,000 571,891 (net) 225,000 Pride Festival & Bingo - 11,398 248,924 Art Gallery/Misc 500 368 1,000 Investment Income - 2 2,000 TOTAL REVENUE 1,054,100 1,279,124 1,106,924 EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages 350,000 331,127 409,333 Payroll Taxes and Benefits 50,000 62,773 71,078 Contract Services 100,750 87,125 101,850 Storage 5,000 4,084 4,560 Insurance-Liability & Cyber 8,000 6,414 8,000 Insurance-D&O 2,200 2,007 2,200 Insurance-Workers Comp 2,500 3,323 3,800 Insurance-Property 12,000 10,433 12,000 Insurance-Clinic 1,500 991 1,500 Insurance-Van 3,000 2,557 3,000 Utilities/Phone (see tab) 43,000 33,376 34,380 Office expenses (see tab) 20,000 30,100 27,000 Cleaning & supplies 26,000 14,283 12,000 Repairs & Maintenance 30,000 35,413 20,000 Business Licenses & Permits 13,500 7,213 2,000 Memberships and Subscriptions 1,000 1,198 1,500 Marketing and Advertising 2,500 85 1,200 Security (excluding Pride) 20,000 16,298 20,000 Clinic Supplies & Lab 15,875 10,794 15,000 Other Program Expenses 5,000 1,122 7,500 Community Outreach - - 24,000 Library Materials 1,200 1,361 8,500 Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) 25,000 10,758 15,000 Non-Cap Equipment 3,000 3,180 7,500 Vehicle Expenses 1,500 155 3,000 Meals & Entertainment 5,000 3,298 5,000 Travel & Training 3,000 2,879 10,000 Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) 16,000 11,778 10,000 Bank Fees & Charges 1,625 1,209 500 Gala Expenses 125,000 106,912 - Pride Festival Expenses - 3,806 233,946 TOTAL EXPENDITURES* 893,150 806,052 1,075,347 Net Revenue over Expenditures 160,950 473,072 31,577 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ FY2025 Budget Approved September 2024 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Fiscal Year 2025 Budget Approved September 2024 Description An account of the resource 1 page of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) budget for the fiscal year of 2025, approved in September 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 2024 2024 2025 budget budgeting Financial OkEq OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2966bf6258db63547f9cc48e393b7b87.pdf 277b4191954a83a22a14519257bad1d4 PDF Text Text REVENUE Grant Revenue Contributions Clinic Services Store/Vending Sales (net) Bar/Concession Sales (net) Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental Event/Ticket Sales EBA/OkEq Membership Gala PrideFestival & Bingo Art Gallery (net) Investment Income TOTAL REVENUE* OKEQ Internal Actual FYE 9/30/2023 $268,455 ( $217,730 ( $60,804 ( $8,874 ( $20,699 ( $5,063 ( $40,706 ( $18,891 ( $262,174 ( $249,672 ( $1,873 ( $0 ( 1,154,941 ( EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages Benefits Contract Services IT Software/Equipment Accounting & Legal Fees Insurance Utilities/Phone Office expenses Cleaning & supplies Repairs & Maintenance Business Licenses & Permits Memberships Marketing and Advertising Security (excluding Pride) Clinic Supplies & Lab Other Program Expenses Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) Non-Cap Equipment Vehicle Expenses Meals & Entertainment Travel Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) Bank Fees & Charges Gala Expenses Pride Festival Expenses $352,490 ( $36,981 ( $49,626 ( $42,707 ( $81,340 ( $24,815 ( $45,582 ( $26,850 ( $21,552 ( $27,699 ( $4,964 ( $2,416 ( $1,474 ( $14,683 ( $15,435 ( $8,617 ( $16,725 ( $4,519 ( $178 ( $4,030 ( $2,228 ( $5,499 ( $2,404 ( $125,070 ( $218,495 ( TOTAL EXPENDITURES* 1,136,379 ( Proposed Budget Notes 350,000) 225,000) 95,000) Increase in services in FY2024 8,000) Net out Cost of goods sold 25,000) Net out Cost of goods sold 15,000) $600/month plus events 25,000) 15,000) 250,000) 225,000) Includes Pride Bingo 2,000) Net out artists costs 2,000) 1,237,000) 460,000) At current staff capacity. 91,000) Payroll taxes, phone, and benefits 12,000) HR $750/month plus flexibility 30,000) Avg $2500/month 30,000) OKNPP $2200/mo, audit and 990 28,000) Includes 10% increase 48,000) based on current 30,000) Supplies, software, printing, postage 31,000) $2500/mo plus supplies 30,000) 7,500) City permits, ABLE 2,500) 2,500) 25,000) 25,000) 5,000) 25,000) 3,000) 7,500) Van Storage$375/mo plus maintenance 5,000) 6,000) 6,000) 2,000) 125,000) 200,000) 1,237,000) �Net Revenue over Expenditures ( 18,562) ( - ) � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document REVENUE OKEQ Internal Actual FYE 9/30/2023 Proposed Budget Notes Grant Revenue $268,455 ( 350,000) Contributions $217,730 ( 225,000) Clinic Services $60,804 ( 95,000) Increase in services in FY2024 Store/Vending Sales (net) $8,874 ( 8,000) Net out Cost of goods sold Bar/Concession Sales (net) $20,699 ( 25,000) Net out Cost of goods sold Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental $5,063 ( 15,000) $600/month plus events Event/Ticket Sales $40,706 ( 25,000) EBA/OkEq Membership $18,891 ( 15,000) Gala $262,174 ( 250,000) PrideFestival & Bingo $249,672 ( 225,000) Includes Pride Bingo Art Gallery (net) $1,873 ( 2,000) Net out artists costs Investment Income $0 ( 2,000) TOTAL REVENUE* 1,154,941 ( 1,237,000) EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages $352,490 ( 460,000) At current staff capacity. Benefits $36,981 ( 91,000) Payroll taxes, phone, and benefits Contract Services $49,626 ( 12,000) HR $750/month plus flexibility IT Software/Equipment $42,707 ( 30,000) Avg $2500/month Accounting & Legal Fees $81,340 ( 30,000) OKNPP $2200/mo, audit and 990 Insurance $24,815 ( 28,000) Includes 10% increase Utilities/Phone $45,582 ( 48,000) based on current Office expenses $26,850 ( 30,000) Supplies, software, printing, postage Cleaning & supplies $21,552 ( 31,000) $2500/mo plus supplies Repairs & Maintenance $27,699 ( 30,000) Business Licenses & Permits $4,964 ( 7,500) City permits, ABLE Memberships $2,416 ( 2,500) Marketing and Advertising $1,474 ( 2,500) Security (excluding Pride) $14,683 ( 25,000) Clinic Supplies & Lab $15,435 ( 25,000) Other Program Expenses $8,617 ( 5,000) Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) $16,725 ( 25,000) Non-Cap Equipment $4,519 ( 3,000) Vehicle Expenses $178 ( 7,500) Van Storage$375/mo plus maintenance Meals & Entertainment $4,030 ( 5,000) Travel $2,228 ( 6,000) Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) $5,499 ( 6,000) Bank Fees & Charges $2,404 ( 2,000) Gala Expenses $125,070 ( 125,000) Pride Festival Expenses $218,495 ( 200,000) TOTAL EXPENDITURES* 1,136,379 ( 1,237,000) Net Revenue over Expenditures ( 18,562) ( - ) Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ FY2024 Draft Budget Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Fiscal Year 2024 Budget Draft from February 12, 2024 Description An account of the resource 2 pages of a draft of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) budget for the fiscal year of 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 12, 2024 2023 2024 budget budgeting Financial OkEq OKEQ financials Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8999dc1279a85928871cb336a9c27f2e.pdf 278e5bfd12d192e24c198af1051068ca PDF Text Text REVENUE Grant Revenue Contributions Clinic Services Store/Vending Sales (net) Bar/Concession Sales (net) Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental Event/Ticket Sales EBA/OkEq Membership Gala PrideFestival & Bingo Art Gallery (net) Investment Income TOTAL REVENUE Unrestricted 250,000 250,000 70,000 10,000 20,000 25,000 25,000 10,000 350,000 15,000 500 1,025,500 Donor Restricted 16,000 27,600 - 43,600 EXPENDITURES Salaries & Wages Payroll Taxes and Benefits Contract Services IT Software/Equipment Accounting & Legal Fees Audt & 990 Fees HR Consultant Storage Insurance-Liability & Cyber Insurance-D&O Insurance-Workers Comp Insurance-Property Insurance-Clinic Insurance-Van Utilities/Phone Office expenses Cleaning & supplies Repairs & Maintenance Business Licenses & Permits Memberships and Subscriptions Marketing and Advertising Security (excluding Pride) Clinic Supplies & Lab Other Program Expenses Library Materials Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) Non-Cap Equipment Vehicle Expenses Meals & Entertainment Travel Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) Bank Fees & Charges 350,000 50,000 18,750 30,000 26,400 6,600 9,000 5,000 8,000 2,200 2,500 12,000 1,500 43,000 20,000 26,000 6,500 7,500 1,000 2,500 20,000 15,875 5,000 100 25,000 3,000 1,500 5,000 3,000 16,000 1,625 Gala Expenses Pride Festival Expenses TOTAL EXPENDITURES* 125,000 849,550 43,600 Net Revenue over Expenditures 175,950 - 10,000 3,000 23,500 6,000 1,100 Total Budget 266,000 277,600 70,000 10,000 20,000 25,000 25,000 10,000 350,000 Notes Clinic services are lower than projected, Initial budget was too much Based on current and projections, already received $19,180 This has been lower this year, only $5500 so far Even more than this is expected Pride moved to October-any sponsorship funds that come in will not be recognized 15,000 until next FY. Only Bingo is listed in budget. 500 1,069,100 350,000 staff reduction and not hiring ED until new FY 50,000 staff reduction 28,750 Regis McDaniel, Wendy Thomas 30,000 26,400 6,600 9,000 5,000 8,000 2,200 2,500 12,000 1,500 3,000 43,000 Actual costs have been less than projected 20,000 Reductions: software, office supplies 26,000 Monthly service has been temporarily eliminated, carpet cleaning is included. 30,000 Lynn Riggs and Kitchen, HVAC maintenance 13,500 This includes ABLE license application 1,000 2,500 20,000 15,875 Clinic activities are less than projected 5,000 1,200 25,000 3,000 1,500 Fuel, tag, maintenance 5,000 Support groups, youth activities 3,000 No additional out-of-state travel planned 16,000 Increased due to Valentines fundraiser 1,625 Reduced costs Althought Sue & Marcy's budget is a bit lower, I am putting a buffer due to increase of 125,000 patrons. Pride moved to FY2024 893,150 175,950 *Suggested that funds from Gala are restricted to FY2025 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document REVENUE Unrestricted Donor Restricted Total Budget Notes Grant Revenue 250,000 16,000 266,000 Contributions 250,000 27,600 277,600 Clinic Services 70,000 - 70,000 Clinic services are lower than projected, Initial budget was too much Store/Vending Sales (net) 10,000 - 10,000 Bar/Concession Sales (net) 20,000 - 20,000 Lynn Riggs/KitchenRental 25,000 - 25,000 Based on current and projections, already received $19,180 Event/Ticket Sales 25,000 - 25,000 EBA/OkEq Membership 10,000 - 10,000 This has been lower this year, only $5500 so far Gala 350,000 - 350,000 Even more than this is expected PrideFestival & Bingo 15,000 - 15,000 Pride moved to October-any sponsorship funds that come in will not be recognized until next FY. Only Bingo is listed in budget. Art Gallery (net) 500 500 Investment Income - - TOTAL REVENUE 1,025,500 43,600 1,069,100 - EXPENDITURES - Salaries & Wages 350,000 350,000 staff reduction and not hiring ED until new FY Payroll Taxes and Benefits 50,000 50,000 staff reduction Contract Services 18,750 10,000 28,750 Regis McDaniel, Wendy Thomas IT Software/Equipment 30,000 30,000 Accounting & Legal Fees 26,400 26,400 Audt & 990 Fees 6,600 6,600 HR Consultant 9,000 9,000 Storage 5,000 5,000 Insurance-Liability & Cyber 8,000 - 8,000 Insurance-D&O 2,200 - 2,200 Insurance-Workers Comp 2,500 - 2,500 Insurance-Property 12,000 - 12,000 Insurance-Clinic 1,500 - 1,500 Insurance-Van - 3,000 3,000 Utilities/Phone 43,000 43,000 Actual costs have been less than projected Office expenses 20,000 20,000 Reductions: software, office supplies Cleaning & supplies 26,000 26,000 Monthly service has been temporarily eliminated, carpet cleaning is included. Repairs & Maintenance 6,500 23,500 30,000 Lynn Riggs and Kitchen, HVAC maintenance Business Licenses & Permits 7,500 6,000 13,500 This includes ABLE license application Memberships and Subscriptions 1,000 1,000 Marketing and Advertising 2,500 2,500 Security (excluding Pride) 20,000 20,000 Clinic Supplies & Lab 15,875 15,875 Clinic activities are less than projected Other Program Expenses 5,000 5,000 Library Materials 100 1,100 1,200 Event Expenses (excl Pride and Gala) 25,000 25,000 Non-Cap Equipment 3,000 3,000 Vehicle Expenses 1,500 1,500 Fuel, tag, maintenance Meals & Entertainment 5,000 5,000 Support groups, youth activities Travel 3,000 3,000 No additional out-of-state travel planned Transaction Fees (excl Pride and Gala) 16,000 16,000 Increased due to Valentines fundraiser Bank Fees & Charges 1,625 1,625 Reduced costs Gala Expenses 125,000 125,000 Althought Sue & Marcy's budget is a bit lower, I am putting a buffer due to increase of patrons. Pride Festival Expenses - - Pride moved to FY2024 TOTAL EXPENDITURES* 849,550 43,600 893,150 - Net Revenue over Expenditures 175,950 - 175,950 *Suggested that funds from Gala are restricted to FY2025 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ FY2024 Budget Revision Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Fiscal Year 2024 Budget Revision from June 6, 2024 Description An account of the resource 1 page of the revised Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) budget for the fiscal year of 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 6, 2024 2024 budget budgeting Financial OkEq Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d5b1521e58237069547f1d28a137397b.pdf fb1c579e8f855c98cf18f017bc85cfa5 PDF Text Text Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-1 OKEQ RESOLUTION ON COMMUNITY INPUT TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS WHEREAS the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) is committed to fostering trust, accountability, transparency and participation amongst our members and community stakeholders, ACKNOWLEDGING that OkEq does not have a formal policy for public and membership input directed at the Board of Directors, independent of the members’ grievance process outlined in the bylaws, RECOGNIZING that the input of diverse voices from the 2SLGBTQIA+ communities is beneficial to our organization and necessary for success in our mission, OBSERVING that members of the community have requested more ways to provide meaningful input regarding the direction of the organization, AFFIRMING that our boards, committees, members, and stakeholders are best served by having diverse ways to provide input, as well as diverse avenues for receiving reflection, response, and action, NOTING that our organization is currently in a time of deep transition and transformation with many developments on the horizon, KNOWING that what is needed during our journey can and should change as we continue to advance through this transitional and transformational time, BE IT RESOLVED, by the Board of Directors, that Oklahomans for Equality takes the following actions forthwith: 1. RECOMMIT to hosting Town Hall events no less than once per quarter for fiscal year 2025 (October 1st, 2024 through September 30th, 2025). �Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 2. HOST no fewer than three (3) Community Café events BEFORE the end of fiscal year 2024 (September 30th, 2024) with the purpose of gathering input from members and community stakeholders as we develop OkEq’s medium and long-term strategic plans. 3. DISSEMINATE a Community Survey to be open until the end of fiscal year 2024 for the purpose of collecting additional qualitative and quantitative data to ensure our future decisions are based in a sound understanding of the needs and desires of the diverse communities that we represent and serve. 4. DIRECT the Governance Committee to continue its investigation into potential benefits, rights, and structures for membership, including development of policies around participation in boards, committees, subcommittees, and meetings. 5. ALLOW for ongoing community input to the board of directors by prominently featuring an open-ended feedback form on the OkEq website. All feedback entered in this form shall be delivered to the Board President, Board Secretary, and Executive Director. If any of these positions are vacant, the feedback will be directed to whomever the board designates as the appropriate person to fill their duties. 6. MANDATE that the Community Relations Committee deliver a report at every regularly scheduled board meeting that must include a high level summary of feedback received through this form since the last report, and an overview of actions taken in response. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 11 directors were present and with a final vote of 11 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. __________________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: ________________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 oklahomans for equality RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-1 OKEQ RESOLUTION ON COMMUNITY INPUT TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS WHEREAS the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) is committed to fostering trust, accountability, transparency and participation amongst our members and community stakeholders, ACKNOWLEDGING that OkEq does not have a formal policy for public and membership input directed at the Board of Directors, independent of the members’ grievance process outlined in the bylaws, RECOGNIZING that the input of diverse voices from the 2SLGBTQIA+ communities is beneficial to our organization and necessary for success in our mission, OBSERVING that members of the community have requested more ways to provide meaningful input regarding the direction of the organization, AFFIRMING that our boards, committees, members, and stakeholders are best served by having diverse ways to provide input, as well as diverse avenues for receiving reflection, response, and action, NOTING that our organization is currently in a time of deep transition and transformation with many developments on the horizon, KNOWING that what is needed during our journey can and should change as we continue to advance through this transitional and transformational time, BE IT RESOLVED, by the Board of Directors, that Oklahomans for Equality takes the following actions forthwith: 1. RECOMMIT to hosting Town Hall events no less than once per quarter for fiscal year 2025 (October 1st, 2024 through September 30th, 2025). Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 2. HOST no fewer than three (3) Community Café events BEFORE the end of fiscal year 2024 (September 30th, 2024) with the purpose of gathering input from members and community stakeholders as we develop OkEq’s medium and long-term strategic plans. 3. DISSEMINATE a Community Survey to be open until the end of fiscal year 2024 for the purpose of collecting additional qualitative and quantitative data to ensure our future decisions are based in a sound understanding of the needs and desires of the diverse communities that we represent and serve. 4. DIRECT the Governance Committee to continue its investigation into potential benefits, rights, and structures for membership, including development of policies around participation in boards, committees, subcommittees, and meetings. 5. ALLOW for ongoing community input to the board of directors by prominently featuring an open-ended feedback form on the OkEq website. All feedback entered in this form shall be delivered to the Board President, Board Secretary, and Executive Director. If any of these positions are vacant, the feedback will be directed to whomever the board designates as the appropriate person to fill their duties. 6. MANDATE that the Community Relations Committee deliver a report at every regularly scheduled board meeting that must include a high level summary of feedback received through this form since the last report, and an overview of actions taken in response. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 11 directors were present and with a final vote of 11 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. [Whitney Cipolla's signature] __________________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: [Yonah Jasper's signature] ________________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ Resolution FY 24-1 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Resolution No. FY 24-1: OKEQ Resolution on Community Input to the Board of Directors Description An account of the resource 2 pages of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Resolution No. FY 24-1: OKEQ Resolution on Community Input to the Board of Directors. It was adopted by the board on July 18, 2024, and signed and sealed on August 4, 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 4, 2024 2024 Board President Board President Whitney Cipolla Board Secretary Board Secretary Yonah Jasper Community Cafe Community Relations Committee community survey Diversity executive director Governance Committee OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Executive Director OKEQ Resolution OKEQ Resolution No. FY-1 Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board resolution resolution adoption Resolution FY 24-1 town hall Whitney Cipolla Yonah Jasper https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/57718ed845d9fc098e2c7c172e75307e.pdf 6f37ea44ed07c65d894381e1a0af4e2a PDF Text Text Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-2 BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. RESOLUTION WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. is a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma and is governed by a Board of Directors that has the authority pursuant to the corporation’s bylaws to adopt resolutions and to authorize the establishment of banking relationships for the corporation. WHEREAS: To effectively manage the funds of the corporation, the Finance Committee of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. recommends that the Board of Directors approve an extension of the banking relationship the corporation currently holds with Grand Bank by authorizing the opening of a Money Market/Cash Management account to allow unused funds to earn interest while remaining easily accessible for the corporation’s operational needs. THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. authorizes the opening of a Money Market/Cash Management account with Grand Bank. BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. delegates the signing authority on the account to the following officers of the corporation: (1) Whitney Cipolla in her official capacity as President, (2) Paula Shannon in her official capacity as Vice President, and (3) Eddie Carreno in his official capacity as Treasurer. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4 th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 11 directors were present and with a final vote of 11 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. ______________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: ______________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-2 BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. RESOLUTION WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. is a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma and is governed by a Board of Directors that has the authority pursuant to the corporation’s bylaws to adopt resolutions and to authorize the establishment of banking relationships for the corporation. WHEREAS: To effectively manage the funds of the corporation, the Finance Committee of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. recommends that the Board of Directors approve an extension of the banking relationship the corporation currently holds with Grand Bank by authorizing the opening of a Money Market/Cash Management account to allow unused funds to earn interest while remaining easily accessible for the corporation’s operational needs. THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. authorizes the opening of a Money Market/Cash Management account with Grand Bank. BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. delegates the signing authority on the account to the following officers of the corporation: (1) Whitney Cipolla in her official capacity as President, (2) Paula Shannon in her official capacity as Vice President, and (3) Eddie Carreno in his official capacity as Treasurer. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 11 directors were present and with a final vote of 11 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. [Whitney Cipolla's signature] ______________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: [Yonah Jasper's signature] ______________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ Resolution FY 24-2 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Resolution No. FY 24-2 by the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Description An account of the resource 1 page of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Resolution No. FY 24-2 by the Board of Directors of OKEQ, Inc. regarding the opening of a Money Market/Cash Management account with Grand Bank. It was adopted by the board on July 18, 2024, and signed and sealed on August 4, 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 4, 2024 2024 Board President Board President Whitney Cipolla Board Secretary Board Secretary Yonah Jasper Board Treasurer Board Treasurer Eddie Carreno Board Vice President Board Vice President Paula Shannon Eddie Carreno Finance Committee Financial Grand Bank OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Board President OKEQ Board Secretary OKEQ financials OKEQ Resolution OKEQ Resolution No. FY 24-2 Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Paula Shannon resolution resolution adoption Resolution FY 24-2 Treasurer Eddie Carreno Vice President Paula Shannon Whitney Cipolla Yonah Jasper https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/df3afeae778e443958da1aa1edeba2dc.pdf de434f64cde48b6f85350054ced8f1c7 PDF Text Text Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-3 BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. RESOLUTION WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. is a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma and is governed by a Board of Directors that has the authority pursuant to the corporation’s bylaws to adopt resolutions and to authorize officers and/or employees of the corporation to execute contracts and/or disburse payments in the name of the corporation. WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. plans to organize and hold the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities starting on Friday, October 11, 2024, and ending Sunday, October 13, 2024, and as a result will need to begin paying security deposits and executing contracts to ensure the smooth operation of such festivities. WHEREAS: To effectively and responsibly manage the disbursement of funds by the corporation in support of the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, the Pride and Finance Committees of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. recommend that the Board of Directors grant prior approval for the below listed items that are expected to exceed the $10,000.00 threshold requiring board approval, set forth by the corporation’s bylaws. This prior approval shall grant contracting authority, at the below prescribed limits and for the below defined purposes, so that the relevant officers and/or employees of the corporation may execute any relevant contracts and/or disburse any payments related to any such items. The items referenced above are as follows: (1) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $35,000.00 for the purposes of event liability insurance; (2) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $36,000.00 for the purposes of renting event stage(s) and any associated lighting needs; (3) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $40,000.00 for the purposes of renting booths, supplies, and other amenities as needed; (4) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $16,000.00 for the purposes of engaging private event security. WHEREAS: To effectively plan and execute the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, the Pride and Finance Committees of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. also recommend that the Board of Directors waive the open competition requirements for the above referenced expenditures, as set forth in Section 6.1 of the Finance Policy Manual. Due to the nature of such expenditures, it may be counterproductive and/or extremely difficult to obtain the required minimum number of bids, and therefore waiving such requirements would reduce administrative burden. This waiver shall only apply to these specific above referenced expenditures for the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities. THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. grants prior approval for contracting authority and disbursement of payments, and waives open competition 1 �Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 requirements, for the purposes of the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, for the following items: (1) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $35,000.00 for event liability insurance, (2) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $36,000.00 for the purposes of renting event stage(s) and any associated lighting needs, (3) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $40,000.00 for the purposes of renting booths, supplies, and other amenities as needed, and (4) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $16,000.00 for the purposes of engaging private event security. BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. delegates the contract authority on the above referenced expenditure items to the following officers and/or employees of the corporation: (1) Whitney Cipolla in her official capacity as President, (2) Paula Shannon in her official capacity as Vice President, (3) Eddie Carreno in his official capacity as Treasurer, and (4) Andi Gunter in her official capacity as Deputy Director. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted in executive session at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 12 directors were present and with a final vote of 12 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. ______________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: ______________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary 2 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY RESOLUTION NO. FY 24-3 BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. RESOLUTION WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. is a not-for-profit corporation organized and existing under the laws of the State of Oklahoma and is governed by a Board of Directors that has the authority pursuant to the corporation’s bylaws to adopt resolutions and to authorize officers and/or employees of the corporation to execute contracts and/or disburse payments in the name of the corporation. WHEREAS: Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. plans to organize and hold the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities starting on Friday, October 11, 2024, and ending Sunday, October 13, 2024, and as a result will need to begin paying security deposits and executing contracts to ensure the smooth operation of such festivities. WHEREAS: To effectively and responsibly manage the disbursement of funds by the corporation in support of the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, the Pride and Finance Committees of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. recommend that the Board of Directors grant prior approval for the below listed items that are expected to exceed the $10,000.00 threshold requiring board approval, set forth by the corporation’s bylaws. This prior approval shall grant contracting authority, at the below prescribed limits and for the below defined purposes, so that the relevant officers and/or employees of the corporation may execute any relevant contracts and/or disburse any payments related to any such items. The items referenced above are as follows: (1) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $35,000.00 for the purposes of event liability insurance; (2) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $36,000.00 for the purposes of renting event stage(s) and any associated lighting needs; (3) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $40,000.00 for the purposes of renting booths, supplies, and other amenities as needed; (4) Expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $16,000.00 for the purposes of engaging private event security. WHEREAS: To effectively plan and execute the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, the Pride and Finance Committees of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. also recommend that the Board of Directors waive the open competition requirements for the above referenced expenditures, as set forth in Section 6.1 of the Finance Policy Manual. Due to the nature of such expenditures, it may be counterproductive and/or extremely difficult to obtain the required minimum number of bids, and therefore waiving such requirements would reduce administrative burden. This waiver shall only apply to these specific above referenced expenditures for the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities. THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. grants prior approval for contracting authority and disbursement of payments, and waives open competition requirements, for the purposes of the 2024 Tulsa Pride festivities, for the following items: (1) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $35,000.00 for event liability insurance, (2) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $36,000.00 for the purposes of renting event stage(s) and any associated lighting needs, (3) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $40,000.00 for the purposes of renting booths, supplies, and other amenities as needed, and (4) expenditures not to exceed a cumulative total of $16,000.00 for the purposes of engaging private event security. 1 Docusign Envelope ID: 581A289A-2131-45B2-81F5-0FCF3C9A3429 BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED: That the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. delegates the contract authority on the above referenced expenditure items to the following officers and/or employees of the corporation: (1) Whitney Cipolla in her official capacity as President, (2) Paula Shannon in her official capacity as Vice President, (3) Eddie Carreno in his official capacity as Treasurer, and (4) Andi Gunter in her official capacity as Deputy Director. ADOPTION This resolution was adopted in executive session at the regular meeting of the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. held in person and online at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 on July 18, 2024, where 12 directors were present and with a final vote of 12 in favor, none against, and none abstaining. Signed and sealed this 4th day of August, 2024 by: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. [Whitney Cipolla's signature] ______________________________ Whitney Cipolla, President ATTEST: [Yonah Jasper's signature] ______________________________ Yonah Jasper, Secretary 2 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ Resolution FY 24-3 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality Resolution No. FY 24-3 by the Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Description An account of the resource 2 pages of the Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Resolution No. FY 24-3 by the Board of Directors of OKEQ, Inc. regarding the approved spending amounts for certain items for 2024 Tulsa Pride activities. It was adopted by the board on July 18, 2024, and signed and sealed on August 4, 2024. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 4, 2024 2024 Andi Gunter Board Deputy Director Andi Gunter Board President Board President Whitney Cipolla Board Secretary Board Secretary Yonah Jasper Board Treasurer Board Treasurer Eddie Carreno Board Vice President Paula Shannon Eddie Carreno Finance Committee Financial OkEq OKEQ Board OKEQ Board Deputy Director OKEQ Board Deputy Director Andi Gunter OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Board President OKEQ Board President Whitney Cipolla OKEQ Board Secretary OKEQ Board Secretary Yonah Jasper OKEQ Board Treasurer OKEQ Board Treasurer Eddie Carreno OKEQ Board Vice President OKEQ Board Vice President Paula Shannon OKEQ financials OKEQ Resolution No. FY 24-3 Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board Paula Shannon Pride 2024 Pride Committee pride festival pride Parade Pride Parade and festival resolution resolution adoption Resolution FY 24-3 Tulsa Pride Tulsa Pride 2024 Whitney Cipolla Yonah Jasper https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/66fc35b404b61682ae133f181178a1fd.pdf 4ec43730f9635dfd1d6f91a3495b4b5f PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/69fcc05087040f4bec383f9eb90d1e61.pdf b4496951fab1b4148f7565deef59fa20 PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/31227bab2e3f67e37b593a5738dfe3c7.pdf 56f1a9863d72ed7f9f7889a947e3a9e9 PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/731abe33d904a6d66283dc7bbbf58e26.pdf 44312a8ba8a35d04f3cad91a0a09e308 PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f4709928045816d843f51c7dda2e6c01.pdf 08d1ac1a65618d89f6b87e6c9430cf9d PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/997f4d12142096ba9d7d5dab33a88238.pdf 45bad35b79f8f1ba27486bcdee108c0f PDF Text Text Form D Employer identification number 731300864 Initial return Doing business as Final return/terminated E Telephone number Amended return Application pending Number and street (or P.O. box if mail is not delivered to street address) Room/suite P O BOX 2687 City or town, state or province, country, and ZIP or foreign postal code TULSA, OK 74101 G Gross receipts $ 882,512 F Name and address of principal officer: TOBY Q JENKINS Taxexempt status: Website: Open to Public Inspection , and ending 09302020 C Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Name change J 2019 Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. For the 2019 calendar year, or tax year beginning 10012019 B Check if applicable: Address change I 0047 Under section 501(c), 527, or 4947(a)(1) of the Internal Revenue Code (except private foundations) Do not enter social security numbers on this form as it may be made public. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service A OMB No. 1545 Return of Organization Exempt From Income Tax 990 501(c)(3) 501(c) ( ) H(a) Is this a group return for subordinates? H(b) Are all subordinates included? (insert no.) 4947(a)(1) or Corporation No No If "No," attach a list. (see instructions) 527 H(c) Group exemption number WWW.OKEQ.ORG K Form of organization: Yes Yes Trust Association L Year of formation: 1980 Other M State of legal domicile: OK Summary Part I 1 Briefly describe the organization’s mission or most significant activities: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR LGBTQ+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. if the organization discontinued its operations or disposed of more than 25% of its net assets. 2 Check this box 3 Number of voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1a) . . . . . . . . 3 12 4 Number of independent voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1b) 12 . . . . . 4 5 Total number of individuals employed in calendar year 2019 (Part V, line 2a) . . . . . . 5 11 6 Total number of volunteers (estimate if necessary) . . . . . . 6 275 7a 0 7a . . . . . . Total unrelated business revenue from Part VIII, column (C), line 12 b Net unrelated business taxable income from Form 990T, line 39 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7b Prior Year 8 Contributions and grants (Part VIII, line 1h) . . . . . . . . . 9 Program service revenue (Part VIII, line 2g) . . . . . . . . . 10 Investment income (Part VIII, column (A), lines 3, 4, and 7d ) . . . . 11 Other revenue (Part VIII, column (A), lines 5, 6d, 8c, 9c, 10c, and 11e) 12 Total revenue—add lines 8 through 11 (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) 13 Grants and similar amounts paid (Part IX, column (A), lines 1–3 ) . 14 Benefits paid to or for members (Part IX, column (A), line 4) . 15 Salaries, other compensation, employee benefits (Part IX, column (A), lines 5–10) 16a Professional fundraising fees (Part IX, column (A), line 11e) b Total fundraising expenses (Part IX, column (D), line 25) . . . . . 936,077 842,043 8,968 11,249 0 15,049 9,762 960,094 863,054 . 0 . . . . 0 232,530 309,156 . 0 36,089 17 Other expenses (Part IX, column (A), lines 11a–11d, 11f–24e) . 18 Total expenses. Add lines 13–17 (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) 19 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 18 from line 12 . . . . . . . . . 692,467 548,663 924,997 857,819 . 35,097 5,235 Beginning of Current Year 20 Total assets (Part X, line 16) . 21 Total liabilities (Part X, line 26) . 22 Net assets or fund balances. Subtract line 21 from line 20 . Part II . . . . . . . . . 0 Current Year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . End of Year 1,756,829 . . 1,864,117 22,615 124,668 1,734,214 1,739,449 Signature Block Under penalties of perjury, I declare that I have examined this return, including accompanying schedules and statements, and to the best of my knowledge and belief, it is true, correct, and complete. Declaration of preparer (other than officer) is based on all information of which preparer has any knowledge. 20210813 Date Signature of officer Sign Here PAUL ALLEN TREASURER Type or print name and title Print/Type preparer's name Paid Preparer Use Only Preparer's signature Firm's name Kelly Kirby CPA PC Firm's address 4815 S Harvard Ave Ste 525 Date PTIN if 20210814 Check P00319981 selfemployed Firm's EIN 731440529 Phone no. (918) 7475466 TULSA, OK 741353069 May the IRS discuss this return with the preparer shown above? (see instructions) For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the separate instructions. . . . . . . . Cat. No. 11282Y . . . Yes No Form 990 (2019) �Page 2 Form 990 (2019) Part III Statement of Program Service Accomplishments Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part III . 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . Briefly describe the organization’s mission: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR LGBTQ+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2 Did the organization undertake any significant program services during the year which were not listed on the prior Form 990 or 990EZ? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No . . Yes No If "Yes," describe these new services on Schedule O. 3 Did the organization cease conducting, or make significant changes in how it conducts, any program services? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," describe these changes on Schedule O. 4 4a Describe the organization’s program service accomplishments for each of its three largest program services, as measured by expenses. Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations are required to report the amount of grants and allocations to others, the total expenses, and revenue, if any, for each program service reported. (Code: ) (Expenses $ 695,233 including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING:COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES.TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS. PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM. PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. 4b (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4c (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4d Other program services (Describe in Schedule O.) (Expenses $ 4e Total program service expenses including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 695,233 Form 990 (2019) �Page 3 Form 990 (2019) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules Yes 1 Is the organization described in section 501(c)(3) or 4947(a)(1) (other than a private foundation)? If "Yes," complete Schedule A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No Yes 1 2 Is the organization required to complete Schedule B, Schedule of Contributors (see instructions)? . 2 3 Did the organization engage in direct or indirect political campaign activities on behalf of or in opposition to candidates for public office? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization engage in lobbying activities, or have a section 501(h) election in effect during the tax year? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part II . . . . . . . . . 4 5 Is the organization a section 501(c)(4), 501(c)(5), or 501(c)(6) organization that receives membership dues, assessments, or similar amounts as defined in Revenue Procedure 9819? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part III . . 5 Did the organization maintain any donor advised funds or any similar funds or accounts for which donors have the right to provide advice on the distribution or investment of amounts in such funds or accounts? If "Yes," complete Schedule D,Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Did the organization receive or hold a conservation easement, including easements to preserve open space, the environment, historic land areas, or historic structures? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part II . . . . 7 No 8 No 9 No 6 7 . . 8 Did the organization maintain collections of works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Did the organization report an amount in Part X, line 21 for escrow or custodial account liability; serve as a custodian for amounts not listed in Part X; or provide credit counseling, debt management, credit repair, or debt negotiation services? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Did the organization, directly or through a related organization, hold assets in temporarily restricted endowments, permanent endowments, or quasi endowments? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part V . . . . . . 11 If the organization’s answer to any of the following questions is "Yes," then complete Schedule D, Parts VI, VII, VIII, IX, or X as applicable. Yes No Yes No No 10 Yes 11a Yes a Did the organization report an amount for land, buildings, and equipment in Part X, line 10? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VI. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization report an amount for investments—other securities in Part X, line 12 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VII . . . . . . . 11b No Did the organization report an amount for investments—program related in Part X, line 13 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VIII . . . . . . . 11c No 11d No 11e No c d Did the organization report an amount for other assets in Part X, line 15 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IX . . . . . . . . . . . . e Did the organization report an amount for other liabilities in Part X, line 25? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part X f Did the organization’s separate or consolidated financial statements for the tax year include a footnote that addresses the organization’s liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740)? 11f "Yes," complete Schedule Part X independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," complete 12a If Did the organization obtainD, separate, 12a Schedule D, Parts XI and XII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Was the organization included in consolidated, independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," and if the organization answered "No" to line 12a, then completing Schedule D, Parts XI and XII is optional 13 Is the organization a school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii)? If "Yes," complete Schedule E 14a Did the organization maintain an office, employees, or agents outside of the United States? . . . . . b Did the organization have aggregate revenues or expenses of more than $10,000 from grantmaking, fundraising, business, investment, and program service activities outside the United States, or aggregate foreign investments valued at $100,000 or more? If "Yes," complete Schedule F, Parts I and IV . the . organization . . . . report . .on Part . 15 Did IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for any foreign organization? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts II and IV . 16 . . . . Did the organization report on Part IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of aggregate grants or other assistance to or for foreign individuals? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts III and IV . . . No No 12b No 13 No 14a No 14b No 15 No 16 No No 17 Did the organization report a total of more than $15,000 of expenses for professional fundraising services on Part IX, column (A), lines 6 and 11e? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part I(see instructions) . . . . 17 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 total of fundraising event gross income and contributions on Part VIII, lines 1c and 8a? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 of gross income from gaming activities on Part VIII, line 9a? I f "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 No 20a No 19 20a Did the organization operate one or more hospital facilities? If "Yes," complete Schedule H . . . . b If "Yes" to line 20a, did the organization attach a copy of its audited financial statements to this return? 21 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to any domestic organization or domestic government on Part IX, column (A), line 1? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and II . . . . . Yes 20b 21 No Form 990 (2019) �Page 4 Form 990 (2019) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules (continued) Yes No 22 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for domestic individuals on Part IX, column (A), line 2? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and III . . . . . . . . 22 No 23 Did the organization answer "Yes" to Part VII, Section A, line 3, 4, or 5 about compensation of the organization’s current and former officers, directors, trustees, key employees, and highest compensated employees? If "Yes," complete Schedule J . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 No 24a Did the organization have a taxexempt bond issue with an outstanding principal amount of more than $100,000 as of the last day of the year, that was issued after December 31, 2002? If “Yes,” answer lines 24b through 24d and complete Schedule K. If “No,” go to line 25a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization invest any proceeds of taxexempt bonds beyond a temporary period exception? . c . . 24b Did the organization maintain an escrow account other than a refunding escrow at any time during the year to defease any taxexempt bonds? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24c d Did the organization act as an "on behalf of" issuer for bonds outstanding at any time during the year? . . . 25a Section 501(c)(3), 501(c)(4), and 501(c)(29) organizations. Did the organization engage in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person during the year? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . . . . 24d 25a No 25b No former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, aPart II or . other . . assistance . . . to .any. current . . or .former officer, director, trustee, key Did the organization provide grant 26 No employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or employee thereof, a grant selection committee member, or to a 35% controlled entity (including an employee thereof) or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," completeSchedule L,Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 No 28a No b Is the organization aware that it engaged in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person in a prior year, and that the transaction has not been reported on any of the organization’s prior Forms 990 or 990EZ? I f "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . the . organization . . . . report . .any. amount . . on. Part . X,. line . 5 .or 22 . for . receivables . . . . . or payables to any current or 26 Did from 27 28 No 24a Was the organization a party to a business transaction with one of the following parties (see Schedule L, Part IV instructions for applicable filing thresholds, conditions, and exceptions): a A current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, or substantial contributor? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b A family member of any individual described in line 28a? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . 28b No A 35% controlled entity of one or more individuals and/or organizations described in lines 28a or 28b? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28c No 29 Did the organization receive more than $25,000 in noncash contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M . . 29 No 30 Did the organization receive contributions of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets, or qualified conservation contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M .terminate, . . . or dissolve . . . and . cease . . operations? . . . If."Yes," . complete . . Did the organization liquidate, Schedule N, Part I 30 No 31 No 32 No 33 No 34 No 35a No c 31 32 33 34 Did the organization sell, exchange, dispose of, or transfer more than 25% of its net assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule N, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization own 100% of an entity disregarded as separate from the organization under Regulations sections 301.77012 and 301.77013? If "Yes," Schedule R, Part I .taxexempt . . . or. taxable . . entity? . . If ."Yes," . complete . Was the complete organization related to any Schedule R, Part II, III, or IV, and Part V, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35a Did the organization have a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? b If ‘Yes’ to line 35a, did the organization receive any payment from or engage in any transaction with a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . 36 37 38 35b Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization make any transfers to an exempt noncharitable related organization? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 No Did the organization conduct more than 5% of its activities through an entity that is not a related organization and that is treated as a partnership for federal income tax purposes? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part VI 37 No Did the organization complete Schedule O and provide explanations in Schedule O for Part VI, lines 11b and 19? Note. All Form 990 filers are required to complete Schedule O. . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part V . . . . . . . . Yes . . Yes 1a Enter the number reported in Box 3 of Form 1096. Enter 0 if not applicable . . b Enter the number of Forms W2G included in line 1a. Enter 0 if not applicable c . 1a 19 1b 0 Did the organization comply with backup withholding rules for reportable payments to vendors and reportable gaming (gambling) winnings to prize winners? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c . No Yes Form 990 (2019) �Page 5 Form 990 (2019) Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance (continued) 2a Enter the number of employees reported on Form W3, Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements, filed for the calendar year ending with or within the year covered by this return . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a 11 2b b If at least one is reported on line 2a, did the organization file all required federal employment tax returns? Note. If the sum of lines 1a and 2a is greater than 250, you may be required to efile (see instructions) 3a Did the organization have unrelated business gross income of $1,000 or more during the year? . . . b If “Yes,” has it filed a Form 990T for this year? If “No” to line 3b, provide an explanation in Schedule O . . Yes 3a No . 3b 4a At any time during the calendar year, did the organization have an interest in, or a signature or other authority over, a financial account in a foreign country (such as a bank account, securities account, or other financial account)? . the . name of the foreign country: b If "Yes," enter See instructions for filing requirements for FinCEN Form 114, Report of Foreign Bank and Financial Accounts 5a (FBAR). Was the organization a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction at any time during the tax year? . . 4a No 5a No b Did any taxable party notify the organization that it was or is a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction? 5b No c 5c If "Yes," to line 5a or 5b, did the organization file Form 8886T? . . . . . . . . . . . . 6a Does the organization have annual gross receipts that are normally greater than $100,000, and did the organization solicit any contributions that were not tax deductible as charitable contributions? . . . 6a b If "Yes," did the organization include with every solicitation an express statement that such contributions or gifts were not tax deductible? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 No 6b Organizations that may receive deductible contributions under section 170(c). a Did the organization receive a payment in excess of $75 made partly as a contribution and partly for goods and services provided to the payor? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7a Yes b If "Yes," did the organization notify the donor of the value of the goods or services provided? 7b Yes c d If "Yes," indicate the number of Forms 8282 filed during the year e . . . . . Did the organization sell, exchange, or otherwise dispose of tangible personal property for which it was required to file Form 8282? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, during the year, pay premiums, directly or indirectly, on a personal benefit contract? . . g If the organization received a contribution of qualified intellectual property, did the organization file Form 8899 as required? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . h If the organization received a contribution of cars, boats, airplanes, or other vehicles, did the organization file a Form 1098C? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Sponsoring organizations maintaining donor advised funds. Did a donor advised fund maintained by the sponsoring organization have excess business holdings at any time during the year? . . . organizations . . . . maintaining . Sponsoring donor advised funds. a Did the sponsoring organization make any taxable distributions under section 4966? . . . . . . . . b Did the sponsoring organization make a distribution to a donor, donor advisor, or related person? . 10 7e No 7f No 7g No 7h 8 9a . . 9b Section 501(c)(7) organizations. Enter: a Initiation fees and capital contributions included on Part VIII, line 12 . . . 10a b Gross receipts, included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, for public use of club facilities 11 Section 501(c)(12) organizations. Enter: a Gross income from members or shareholders . . . . . . . . 10b . 11a b Gross income from other sources (Do not net amounts due or paid to other sources against amounts due or received from them.) . . . . . . . . . . 11b 12a Section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trusts. Is the organization filing Form 990 in lieu of Form 1041? b If "Yes," enter the amount of taxexempt interest received or accrued during the year. 13 No Did the organization receive any funds, directly or indirectly, to pay premiums on a personal benefit contract? f 8 7c 7d 12a 12b Section 501(c)(29) qualified nonprofit health insurance issuers. a Is the organization licensed to issue qualified health plans in more than one state? . . . . . . . . . Note. See the instructions for additional information the organization must report on Schedule O. b Enter the amount of reserves the organization is required to maintain by the states in which the organization is licensed to issue qualified health plans . . . . 13b c 13c Enter the amount of reserves on hand . . . . . . . . . . . . 14a Did the organization receive any payments for indoor tanning services during the tax year? . . . 14a b If "Yes," has it filed a Form 720 to report these payments?If "No," provide an explanation in Schedule O . . 14b 15 16 . 13a . Is the organization subject to the section 4960 tax on payment(s) of more than $1,000,000 in remuneration or excess parachute payment(s) during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," Is the organization see instructions an educational and file Form institution 4720, subject Schedule to N. the section 4968 excise tax on net investment income? . . If "Yes," complete Form 4720, Schedule O. No 15 No 16 No Form 990 (2019) �Page 6 Form 990 (2019) Part VI Governance, Management, and Disclosure For each "Yes" response to lines 2 through 7b below, and for a "No" response to lines 8a, 8b, or 10b below, describe the circumstances, processes, or changes in Schedule O. See instructions. Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Governing Body and Management Yes 1a Enter the number of voting members of the governing body at the end of the tax year If there are material differences in voting rights among members of the governing 1a 12 1b 12 No body, or if the governing body delegated broad authority to an executive committee or similar committee, explain in Schedule O. b Enter the number of voting members included in line 1a, above, who are independent 2 Did any officer, director, trustee, or key employee have a family relationship or a business relationship with any other officer, director, trustee, or key employee? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Did the organization delegate control over management duties customarily performed by or under the direct supervision of officers, directors or trustees, or key employees to a management company or other person? 4 . 5 Did the organization make any significant changes to its governing documents since the prior Form 990 was filed? Did the. organization become aware during the year of a significant diversion of the organization’s assets? . 6 Did the organization have members or stockholders? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 3 No 4 No 5 . 7a Did the organization have members, stockholders, or other persons who had the power to elect or appoint one or more members of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Are any governance decisions of the organization reserved to (or subject to approval by) members, stockholders, or persons other than the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 2 No 6 Yes 7a Yes 7b No Did the organization contemporaneously document the meetings held or written actions undertaken during the year by the following: a The governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Each committee with authority to act on behalf of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . Is there any officer, director, trustee, or key employee listed in Part VII, Section A, who cannot be reached at the organization’s mailing address? If "Yes," provide the names and addresses in Schedule O . . . . . . . 8a Yes 8b Yes 9 9 No Section B. Policies (This Section B requests information about policies not required by the Internal Revenue Code.) Yes 10a Did the organization have local chapters, branches, or affiliates? . . . . . . . . . . . . 10a b If "Yes," did the organization have written policies and procedures governing the activities of such chapters, affiliates, and branches to ensure their operations are consistent with the organization's exempt purposes? 10b 11a Has the organization provided a complete copy of this Form 990 to all members of its governing body before filing 11a the form? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Describe in Schedule O the process, if any, used by the organization to review this Form 990. 12a Did the organization have a written conflict of interest policy? If "No," go to line 13 . . . . . . . . . . Yes . . b Were officers, directors, or trustees, and key employees required to disclose annually interests that could give rise to conflicts? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12a Yes 12b Yes Did the organization regularly and consistently monitor and enforce compliance with the policy? If "Yes," describe in Schedule O how this was done . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12c Yes 13 Did the organization have a written whistleblower policy? . . . . . . . . . . 13 Yes 14 Did the organization have a written document retention and destruction policy? . . . . . . . . . 14 Yes 15 Did the process for determining compensation of the following persons include a review and approval by independent persons, comparability data, and contemporaneous substantiation of the deliberation and decision? 15a Yes c . . . . . a The organization’s CEO, Executive Director, or top management official b Other officers or key employees of the organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No No . . 15b No 16a Did the organization invest in, contribute assets to, or participate in a joint venture or similar arrangement with a taxable entity during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16a No b If "Yes," did the organization follow a written policy or procedure requiring the organization to evaluate its participation in joint venture arrangements under applicable federal tax law, and take steps to safeguard the organization’s exempt status with respect to such arrangements? . . . . . . . . . . . . 16b If "Yes" to line 15a or 15b, describe the process in Schedule O (see instructions). Section C. Disclosure 17 List the states with which a copy of this Form 990 is required to be filed 18 Section 6104 requires an organization to make its Form 1023 (or 1024A if applicable), 990, and 990T (501(c)(3)s only) available for public inspection. Indicate how you made these available. Check all that apply. 19 Describe in Schedule O whether (and if so, how) the organization made its governing documents, conflict of interest policy, and financial statements available to the public during the tax year. 20 State the name, address, and telephone number of the person who possesses the organization's books and records: PAUL ALLEN P O BOX 2687 T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 0 1 ( 9 1 8 ) 7 4 3 4 2 9 7 OK Own website Another's website Upon request Other (explain in Schedule O) Form 990 (2019) �Page 7 Form 990 (2019) Part VII Compensation of Officers, Directors,Trustees, Key Employees, Highest Compensated Employees, and Independent Contractors Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees 1a Complete this table for all persons required to be listed. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. List all of the organization’s current officers, directors, trustees (whether individuals or organizations), regardless of amount of compensation. Enter 0 in columns (D), (E), and (F) if no compensation was paid. List all of the organization’s current key employees, if any. See instructions for definition of "key employee." List the organization’s five current highest compensated employees (other than an officer, director, trustee or key employee) who received reportable compensation (Box 5 of Form W2 and/or Box 7 of Form 1099MISC) of more than $100,000 from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former officers, key employees, or highest compensated employees who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former directors or trustees that received, in the capacity as a former director or trustee of the organization, more than $10,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. See instructions for the order in which to list the persons above. Check this box if neither the organization nor any related organization compensated any current officer, director, or trustee. (A) Name and title (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) (1) PAUL ALLEN ...................................................................... TREASURER 15.00 ................. (2) KIRK HOLT ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (3) DAN BURNSTEIN ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (4) AL TRIGGS ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (5) SHAWNA BAKER ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (6) KRIS WILMES ...................................................................... TRUSTEE 5.00 ................. (7) CHRISTOPHER BRECHTSMITH ...................................................................... PRESIDENT 15.00 ................. (8) DARCY HAZELWOOD ...................................................................... AT LARGE 10.00 ................. (9) ROBIN VANMETER ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (10) LAURA ARROWSMITH ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (11) WILL VAUGHN ...................................................................... SECRETARY 10.00 ................. (12) ALLISON IKLEYFREEMAN ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (13) STACY TURNER ...................................................................... VICE PRESIDENT 10.00 ................. (14) ANGELYN DALE ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (15) BOB HANSON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (16) COREY THOMPSON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. (17) TOBY Q JENKINS ...................................................................... CEOEXECUTIVE DIRECTOR 69.00 ................. (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) X X (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W2/1099 MISC) (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X X 0 0 0 X X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 X 0 0 0 63,500 0 13,606 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X X 0.00 X 0.00 X X 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 X 0.00 Form 990 (2019) �Page 8 Form 990 (2019) Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees (continued) Part VII (A) Name and title 1b SubTotal . . . . (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) . . . . . . . (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) . . . . . . . d Total (add lines 1b and 1c) . . . . . . . . . . (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations . c Total from continuation sheets to Part VII, Section A . . (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W 2/1099MISC) 63,500 0 13,606 2 Total number of individuals (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization 0 3 Did the organization list any former officer, director or trustee, key employee, or highest compensated employee on line 1a? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 No 4 For any individual listed on line 1a, is the sum of reportable compensation and other compensation from the organization and related organizations greater than $150,000? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual 4 No 5 No Yes . 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did any person listed on line 1a receive or accrue compensation from any unrelated organization or individual for services rendered to the organization?If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such person . . . . . . . . No Section B. Independent Contractors 1 Complete this table for your five highest compensated independent contractors that received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. (A) Name and business address (B) Description of services (C) Compensation 2 Total number of independent contractors (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization Form 990 (2019) �Page 9 Form 990 (2019) Statement of Revenue Part VIII Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VIII . (A) Total revenue 1a Federated campaigns . b Membership dues . . . . . . . . (C) Unrelated business revenue . . . . . (D) Revenue excluded from tax under sections 512 514 1a . c Fundraising events . . (B) Related or exempt function revenue 1b . 230,400 1c d Related organizations 1d e Government grants (contributions) 1e f All other contributions, gifts, grants, and similar amounts not included above g Noncash contributions included in lines 1a 1f:$ h Total. Add lines 1a1f . 611,643 1f 1g . . . . . . 842,043 Business Code 2a b c d e f All other program service revenue. g Total. Add lines 2a–2f. . . . . 3 Investment income (including dividends, interest, and other . . . taxexempt . . . 4 similar Incomeamounts) from investment of bond proceeds 5 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . (i) Real 6a Gross rents 6a Less: rental expenses 6b b c Rental 6c income or d (loss) Net rental income or (loss) . from sales of assets other than inventory 11,249 3,693 3,693 . (ii) Personal . . . . (i) Securities 7a Gross amount 11,249 . . (ii) Other 7a b Less: cost or other basis and sales expenses 7b c Gain or (loss) 7c d Net gain or (loss) . . . . . . . . . 8a Gross income from fundraising events (not including $ 230,400 of contributions reported on line 1c). See Part IV, line 18 . . . . 16,367 8a 12,674 b Less: direct expenses 8b . income . . or (loss) from fundraising events . c Net . 9a Gross income from gaming activities. 9a See Part IV, line 19 . . . b Less: direct expenses 9b . income . . or (loss) from gaming activities . c Net 10a Gross sales of inventory, less returns and allowances . . . 12,853 10a 6,784 b Less: cost of goods sold 10b . . c Net income or (loss) from sales of inventory . Miscellaneous Revenue . 6,069 6,069 863,054 6,069 Business Code 11a b c d All other revenue . . e Total. Add lines 11a–11d . . . . 12 Total revenue. See instructions . . . . . . . . . 0 14,942 Form 990 (2019) �Page 10 Form 990 (2019) Part IX Statement of Functional Expenses Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations must complete all columns. All other organizations must complete column (A). Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . Do not include amounts reported on lines 6b, 7b, 8b, 9b, and 10b of Part VIII. (A) Total expenses . . . (B) Program service expenses . . . . . . (C) Management and general expenses . . . . (D) Fundraising expenses 1 Grants and other assistance to domestic organizations and domestic governments. See Part IV, line 21 . . . . 2 Grants and other assistance to domestic individuals. See Part IV, line 22 . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Grants and other assistance to foreign organizations, foreign governments, and foreign individuals. See Part IV, lines 15 and 16. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Benefits paid to or for members . . . . . . . 63,500 47,625 12,700 3,175 191,410 143,558 38,282 9,570 8 Pension plan accruals and contributions (include section 401(k) and 403(b) employer contributions) . . . . 7,000 5,250 1,400 350 9 Other employee benefits 26,423 19,817 5,285 1,321 20,823 15,617 4,165 1,041 19,000 14,419 3,620 961 28,299 28,299 . 46,787 35,090 9,358 2,339 . 3,064 2,451 613 71,961 53,971 14,392 3,598 47,937 47,937 4,509 4,509 101,235 75,926 20,247 5,062 24,448 18,336 4,890 1,222 152,776 152,776 b ADVOCACY 2,603 2,603 c IN KIND EXPENSE 16,709 5,288 5,421 6,000 5 Compensation of current officers, directors, trustees, and key employees . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Compensation not included above, to disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)) and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . . . . . . . 7 Other salaries and wages . 10 Payroll taxes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Fees for services (nonemployees): a Management . . . . . . b Legal . . . . . . . . c Accounting d Lobbying . . . . . . . . . . 225 . . . . . . . . . . . . 225 . e Professional fundraising services. See Part IV, line 17 f Investment management fees . . . . . . g Other (If line 11g amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 11g expenses on Schedule O) 12 Advertising and promotion 13 Office expenses . . . 14 Information technology 15 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Occupancy 17 Travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Payments of travel or entertainment expenses for any federal, state, or local public officials . 19 Conferences, conventions, and meetings 20 Interest . . . . 21 Payments to affiliates . . . . . . . . . . 22 Depreciation, depletion, and amortization 23 Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Other expenses. Itemize expenses not covered above (List miscellaneous expenses in line 24e. If line 24e amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 24e expenses on Schedule O.) a CENTER PROGRAMS d e All other expenses 25 Total functional expenses. Add lines 1 through 24e 29,110 21,761 5,899 1,450 857,819 695,233 126,497 36,089 26 Joint costs. Complete this line only if the organization reported in column (B) joint costs from a combined educational campaign and fundraising solicitation. Check here if following SOP 982 (ASC 958720). Form 990 (2019) �Page 11 Form 990 (2019) Part X Balance Sheet Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . . . . . . . . . (A) Beginning of year 1 2 Cash–noninterestbearing . . . . . . . 2,000 . 3 Savings and temporary cash investments . . . . . . . . . Pledges and grants receivable, net . . 4 Accounts receivable, net 5 7 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons Loans . . and . other . .receivables . . from other disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)), and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . Notes and loans receivable, net . . . . . . . . . . . 8 Inventories for sale or use 9 Prepaid expenses and deferred charges 6 10a b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2,213,344 Less: accumulated depreciation 10b 709,943 12 Investments—other securities. See Part IV, line 11 13 Investments—programrelated. See Part IV, line 11 14 Intangible assets 15 2,000 2 10,500 3 7,000 4 5 6 7 8 1,561,596 . 10c . . . . . 16 Other assets. See Part IV, line 11 . .assets. . . Add . lines . .1 through . . . (must . Total 15 equal line 34) . . . 17 Accounts payable and accrued expenses 18 Grants payable 19 Deferred revenue 20 Taxexempt bond liabilities 21 Escrow or custodial account liability. Complete Part IV of Schedule D 21 22 22 23 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons . . . . . . . . . Secured mortgages and notes payable to unrelated third parties . . 24 Unsecured notes and loans payable to unrelated third parties 24 25 Other liabilities (including federal income tax, payables to related third parties, and other liabilities not included on lines 17 24). Complete Part X of Schedule D 26 Total liabilities. Add lines 17 through 25 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50,752 . . . . . . . 28 61,989 14 1,756,829 16 1,864,117 22,615 17 568 18 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 . . . . 20 . . 124,100 25 22,615 26 124,668 1,701,660 27 1,706,895 32,554 28 32,554 and complete lines 27, 28, 32, and 33. Net assets without donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . Net assets with donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . . Organizations that do not follow FASB ASC 958, check here and complete lines 29 through 33. Capital stock or trust principal, or current funds 30 Paidin or capital surplus, or land, building or equipment fund 31 Retained earnings, endowment, accumulated income, or other funds 32 Total net assets or fund balances . . . . . . . . . . . Total liabilities and net assets/fund balances . . . . . . . . . 23 . 29 33 12 15 . Organizations that follow FASB ASC 958, check here 27 1,503,401 13 . . . 13,016 11 . . . 9 10a Investments—publicly traded securities . (B) End of year 276,711 . Land, buildings, and equipment: cost or other basis. Complete Part VI of Schedule D 11 . 1 7,528 . . 124,453 . . . . . . . . 29 . . 30 31 1,734,214 32 1,756,829 33 1,739,449 1,864,117 Form 990 (2019) �Page 12 Form 990 (2019) Part XI Reconcilliation of Net Assets Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Total revenue (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 863,054 2 Total expenses (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 857,819 3 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 2 from line 1 4 Net assets or fund balances at beginning of year (must equal Part X, line 33, column (A)) . . 5 Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . 6 Donated services and use of facilities 7 Investment expenses 8 Prior period adjustments 9 Other changes in net assets or fund balances (explain in Schedule O) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 7 . 8 . Net assets or fund balances at end of year. Combine lines 3 through 9 (must equal Part X, line 33, column Part(B)) XII Financial Statements and Reporting . . . 1,734,214 . 10 Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XII . 5,235 4 5 . . 3 . . . . . . . . 9 0 10 1,739,449 . . . . . Yes 1 Accounting method used to prepare the Form 990: Cash Accrual . No Other If the organization changed its method of accounting from a prior year or checked "Other," explain in Schedule O. 2a Were the organization’s financial statements compiled or reviewed by an independent accountant? 2a No 2b No If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were compiled or reviewed on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis b Were the organization’s financial statements audited by an independent accountant? If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were audited on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis c Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis If "Yes," to line 2a or 2b, does the organization have a committee that assumes responsibility for oversight of the audit, review, or compilation of its financial statements and selection of an independent accountant? 2c If the organization changed either its oversight process or selection process during the tax year, explain in Schedule O. 3a As a result of a federal award, was the organization required to undergo an audit or audits as set forth in the Single Audit Act and OMB Circular A133? 3a b If "Yes," did the organization undergo the required audit or audits? If the organization did not undergo the required audit or audits, explain why in Schedule O and describe any steps taken to undergo such audits. 3b No Form 990 (2019) �Form 990 (2019) Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: Form 990, Special Condition Description: Special Condition Description �SCHEDULE A (Form 990 or 990EZ) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization Public Charity Status and Public Support OMB No. 15450047 Complete if the organization is a section 501(c)(3) organization or a section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Reason for Public Charity Status (All organizations must complete this part.) See instructions. The organization is not a private foundation because it is: (For lines 1 through 12, check only one box.) 1 A church, convention of churches, or association of churches described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(i). 2 A school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii). (Attach Schedule E (Form 990 or 990EZ).) 3 A hospital or a cooperative hospital service organization described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). 4 A medical research organization operated in conjunction with a hospital described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). Enter the hospital's name, city, and state: 5 An organization operated for the benefit of a college or university owned or operated by a governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iv). (Complete Part II.) 6 A federal, state, or local government or governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(v). 7 An organization that normally receives a substantial part of its support from a governmental unit or from the general public described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 8 A community trust described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 9 An agricultural research organization described in 170(b)(1)(A)(ix) operated in conjunction with a landgrant college or university or a nonland grant college of agriculture. See instructions. Enter the name, city, and state of the college or university: 10 An organization that normally receives: (1) more than 331/3% of its support from contributions, membership fees, and gross receipts from activities related to its exempt functions—subject to certain exceptions, and (2) no more than 331/3% of its support from gross investment income and unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 tax) from businesses acquired by the organization after June 30, 1975. See section 509(a)(2). (Complete Part III.) 11 An organization organized and operated exclusively to test for public safety. See section 509(a)(4). 12 An organization organized and operated exclusively for the benefit of, to perform the functions of, or to carry out the purposes of one or more publicly supported organizations described in section 509(a)(1) or section 509(a)(2). See section 509(a)(3). C h e c k the box in lines 12a through 12d that describes the type of supporting organization and complete lines 12e, 12f, and 12g. a Type I. A supporting organization operated, supervised, or controlled by its supported organization(s), typically by giving the supported organization(s) the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the directors or trustees of the supporting organization. You must complete Part IV, Sections A and B. b Type II. A supporting organization supervised or controlled in connection with its supported organization(s), by having control or management of the supporting organization vested in the same persons that control or manage the supported organization(s). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and C. c Type III functionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with, and functionally integrated with, its supported organization(s) (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A, D, and E. d Type III nonfunctionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with its supported organization(s) that is not functionally integrated. The organization generally must satisfy a distribution requirement and an attentiveness requirement (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and D, and Part V. e Check this box if the organization received a written determination from the IRS that it is a Type I, Type II, Type III functionally integrated, or Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organization. f g Enter the number of supported organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Provide the following information about the supported organization(s). (i) Name of supported organization (ii) E I N (iii) Type of organization (described on lines 1 10 above (see instructions)) (iv) Is the organization listed in your governing document? Yes (v) Amount of monetary support (see instructions) (vi) Amount of other support (see instructions) No Total For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 11285F Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 2 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Sections 170(b)(1)(A)(iv) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 5, 7, or 8 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part III. If the organization failed to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part III.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part II Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grant.") . . 2 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . . 3 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge.. 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 4 Total. Add lines 1 through 3 5 The portion of total contributions by each person (other than a governmental unit or publicly 1,288,805 supported organization) included on line 1 that exceeds 2% of the amount shown on line 11, column (f). . 6 Public support. Subtract line 5 from 3,338,139 line 4. Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 675,776 1,338,258 834,790 936,077 842,043 4,626,944 7 Amounts from line 4. . 8 Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on 9,288 15,623 6,510 8,968 11,249 51,638 securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . . 9 Net income from unrelated business activities, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. . 10 Other income. Do not include gain 4,192 9,507 728 15,049 9,762 29,398 or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.). . 11 Total support. Add lines 7 through 4,707,980 10 12 Gross receipts from related activities, etc. (see instructions) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 13 First five years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, check this box and stop here . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 14 Public support percentage for 2019 (line 6, column (f) divided by line 11, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 Public support percentage for 2018 Schedule A, Part II, line 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 70.900 % 15 73.870 % 16a 33 1/3% support test—2019. If the organization did not check the box on line 13, and line 14 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support test—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 13 or 16a, and line 15 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17a 10%factsandcircumstances test—2019. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, or 16b, and line 14 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 10%factsandcircumstances test—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, or 17a, and line 15 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, 17a, or 17b, check this box and see instructions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 3 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Section 509(a)(2) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 10 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part II. If the organization fails to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part II.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part III Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grants.") . 2 Gross receipts from admissions, merchandise sold or services performed, or facilities furnished in any activity that is related to the organization's taxexempt purpose 3 Gross receipts from activities that are not an unrelated trade or business under section 513 . . . . . 4 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . 5 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge 6 Total. Add lines 1 through 5 7a Amounts included on lines 1, 2, and 3 received from disqualified persons b Amounts included on lines 2 and 3 received from other than disqualified persons that exceed the greater of $5,000 or 1% of the amount on line 13 for the year. c Add lines 7a and 7b. . 8 Public support. (Subtract line 7c from line 6.) (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 5 (b) 2 0 1 6 (c) 2 0 1 7 (d) 2 0 1 8 (e) 2 0 1 9 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 9 Amounts from line 6. . . 10a Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . b Unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 taxes) from businesses acquired after June 30, 1 9 7 5. c Add lines 10a and 10b. 11 Net income from unrelated business activities not included in line 10b, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. 12 Other income. Do not include gain or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.) . . 13 Total support. (Add lines 9, 10c, 11, and 12.). . First five years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, 14 check this box and stop here. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 15 Public support percentage for 2019 (line 8, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 16 Public support percentage from 2018 Schedule A, Part III, line 15 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Section D. Computation of Investment Income Percentage 17 Investment income percentage for 2019 (line 10c, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . 17 18 Investment income percentage from 2018 Schedule A, Part III, line 17 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 19a 331/3% support tests—2019. If the organization did not check the box on line 14, and line 15 is more than 33 1/3%, and line 17 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support tests—2018. If the organization did not check a box on line 14 or line 19a, and line 16 is more than 33 1/3% and line 18 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . 20 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 14, 19a, or 19b, check this box and see instructions . . . . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 4 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IV Supporting Organizations (Complete only if you checked a box on line 12 of Part I. If you checked 12a of Part I, complete Sections A and B. If you checked 12b of Part I, complete Sections A and C. If you checked 12c of Part I, complete Sections A, D, and E. If you checked 12d of Part I, complete Sections A and D, and complete Part V.) Section A. All Supporting Organizations Yes 1 Are all of the organization’s supported organizations listed by name in the organization’s governing documents? If "No," describe in Part VI how the supported organizations are designated. If designated by class or purpose, describe the designation. If historic and continuing relationship, explain. 1 2 Did the organization have any supported organization that does not have an IRS determination of status under section 509(a)(1) or (2)? If "Yes," explain in Part VI how the organization determined that the supported organization was described in section 509(a)(1) or (2). 2 3a Did the organization have a supported organization described in section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6)? If "Yes," answer (b) and (c) below. b Did the organization confirm that each supported organization qualified under section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) and satisfied the public support tests under section 509(a)(2)? If "Yes," describe in Part VI when and how the organization made the determination. c Did the organization ensure that all support to such organizations was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes? If "Yes," explain in Part VI what controls the organization put in place to ensure such use. 4a Was any supported organization not organized in the United States ("foreign supported organization")? If “Yes” and if you checked 12a or 12b in Part I, answer (b) and (c) below. b Did the organization have ultimate control and discretion in deciding whether to make grants to the foreign supported organization? If “Yes,” describe in Part VI how the organization had such control and discretion despite being controlled or supervised by or in connection with its supported organizations. c 5a b c Did the organization support any foreign supported organization that does not have an IRS determination under sections 501(c)(3) and 509(a)(1) or (2)? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI what controls the organization used to ensure that all support to the foreign supported organization was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes. Did the organization add, substitute, or remove any supported organizations during the tax year? If “Yes,” answer (b) and (c) below (if applicable). Also, provide detail in Part VI, including (i) the names and EIN numbers of the supported organizations added, substituted, or removed; (ii) the reasons for each such action; (iii) the authority under the organization's organizing document authorizing such action; and (iv) how the action was accomplished (such as by amendment to the organizing document). Type I or Type II only. Was any added or substituted supported organization part of a class already designated in the organization's organizing document? 3a 3b 3c 4a 4b 4c 5a 5b Substitutions only. Was the substitution the result of an event beyond the organization's control? 5c 6 Did the organization provide support (whether in the form of grants or the provision of services or facilities) to anyone other than (i) its supported organizations, (ii) individuals that are part of the charitable class benefited by one or more of its supported organizations, or (iii) other supporting organizations that also support or benefit one or more of the filing organization’s supported organizations? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 6 7 Did the organization provide a grant, loan, compensation, or other similar payment to a substantial contributor (defined in section 4958(c)(3)(C)), a family member of a substantial contributor, or a 35% controlled entity with regard to a substantial contributor? If “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990 or 990EZ) . 7 8 Did the organization make a loan to a disqualified person (as defined in section 4958) not described in line 7? I f “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990 or 990EZ). 9a Was the organization controlled directly or indirectly at any time during the tax year by one or more disqualified persons as defined in section 4946 (other than foundation managers and organizations described in section 509(a) (1) or (2))? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. b Did one or more disqualified persons (as defined in line 9a) hold a controlling interest in any entity in which the supporting organization had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. c Did a disqualified person (as defined in line 9a) have an ownership interest in, or derive any personal benefit from, assets in which the supporting organization also had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 10a Was the organization subject to the excess business holdings rules of section 4943 because of section 4943(f) (regarding certain Type II supporting organizations, and all Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations)? If “Yes,” answer line 10b below. b Did the organization have any excess business holdings in the tax year? (Use Schedule C, Form 4720, to determine whether the organization had excess business holdings). No 8 9a 9b 9c 10a 10b Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 5 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IV 11 Supporting Organizations (continued) Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes No Has the organization accepted a gift or contribution from any of the following persons? a A person who directly or indirectly controls, either alone or together with persons described in (b) and (c) below, the governing body of a supported organization? 11a b A family member of a person described in (a) above? 11b c A 35% controlled entity of a person described in (a) or (b) above? If “Yes” to a, b, or c, provide detail in Part VI. 11c Section B. Type I Supporting Organizations 1 Did the directors, trustees, or membership of one or more supported organizations have the power to regularly appoint or elect at least a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees at all times during the tax year? If “No,” describe in Part VI how the supported organization(s) effectively operated, supervised, or controlled the organization’s activities. If the organization had more than one supported organization, describe how the powers to appoint and/or remove directors or trustees were allocated among the supported organizations and what conditions or restrictions, if any, applied to such powers during the tax year. 2 Did the organization operate for the benefit of any supported organization other than the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised, or controlled the supporting organization? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI how providing such benefit carried out the purposes of the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised or controlled the supporting organization. 1 2 Section C. Type II Supporting Organizations 1 Were a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees during the tax year also a majority of the directors or trustees of each of the organization’s supported organization(s)? If “No,” describe in Part VI how control or management of the supporting organization was vested in the same persons that controlled or managed the supported organization(s). 1 Section D. All Type III Supporting Organizations 1 Did the organization provide to each of its supported organizations, by the last day of the fifth month of the organization’s tax year, (i) a written notice describing the type and amount of support provided during the prior tax year, (ii) a copy of the Form 990 that was most recently filed as of the date of notification, and (iii) copies of the organization’s governing documents in effect on the date of notification, to the extent not previously provided? 2 Were any of the organization’s officers, directors, or trustees either (i) appointed or elected by the supported organization(s) or (ii) serving on the governing body of a supported organization? If "No," explain in Part VI how the organization maintained a close and continuous working relationship with the supported organization(s). 3 By reason of the relationship described in (2), did the organization’s supported organizations have a significant voice in the organization’s investment policies and in directing the use of the organization’s income or assets at all times during the tax year? If "Yes," describe in Part VI the role the organization’s supported organizations played in this regard. 1 2 3 Section E. Type III FunctionallyIntegrated Supporting Organizations 1 2 Check the box next to the method that the organization used to satisfy the Integral Part Test during the year (see instructions): a The organization satisfied the Activities Test. Complete line 2 below. b The organization is the parent of each of its supported organizations. Complete line 3 below. c The organization supported a governmental entity. Describe in Part VI how you supported a government entity (see instructions) Activities Test. Answer (a) and (b) below. Yes a Did substantially all of the organization’s activities during the tax year directly further the exempt purposes of the supported organization(s) to which the organization was responsive? If "Yes," then in Part VI identify those supported organizations and explain how these activities directly furthered their exempt purposes, how the organization was responsive to those supported organizations, and how the organization determined that these activities constituted substantially all of its activities. b Did the activities described in (a) constitute activities that, but for the organization’s involvement, one or more of the organization’s supported organization(s) would have been engaged in? If "Yes," explain in Part VI the reasons for the organization’s position that its supported organization(s) would have engaged in these activities but for the organization’s involvement. 3 No 2a 2b Parent of Supported Organizations. Answer (a) and (b) below. a Did the organization have the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the officers, directors, or trustees of each of the supported organizations? Provide details in Part VI. b Did the organization exercise a substantial degree of direction over the policies, programs and activities of each of its supported organizations? If "Yes," describe in Part VI. the role played by the organization in this regard. 3a 3b Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 6 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Organizations 1 Check here if the organization satisfied the Integral Part Test as a qualifying trust on Nov. 20, 1970 (explain in Part VI). See instructions. All other Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations must complete Sections A through E. Section A Adjusted Net Income 1 Net shortterm capital gain 1 2 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 2 3 Other gross income (see instructions) 3 4 Add lines 1 through 3 4 5 Depreciation and depletion 5 6 Portion of operating expenses paid or incurred for production or collection of gross income or for management, conservation, or maintenance of property held for production of income (see instructions) 6 7 Other expenses (see instructions) 7 8 Adjusted Net Income (subtract lines 5, 6 and 7 from line 4) 8 Section B Minimum Asset Amount 1 Aggregate fair market value of all nonexemptuse assets (see instructions for short tax year or assets held for part of year): (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) 1 a Average monthly value of securities 1a b Average monthly cash balances 1b c Fair market value of other nonexemptuse assets 1c d Total (add lines 1a, 1b, and 1c) 1d e Discount claimed for blockage or other factors (explain in detail in Part VI): 2 Acquisition indebtedness applicable to nonexempt use assets 2 3 Subtract line 2 from line 1d 3 4 Cash deemed held for exempt use. Enter 11/2% of line 3 (for greater amount, see instructions). 4 5 Net value of nonexemptuse assets (subtract line 4 from line 3) 5 6 Multiply line 5 by .035 6 7 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 7 8 Minimum Asset Amount (add line 7 to line 6) 8 Current Year Section C Distributable Amount 1 Adjusted net income for prior year (from Section A, line 8, Column A) 1 2 Enter 85% of line 1 2 3 Minimum asset amount for prior year (from Section B, line 8, Column A) 3 4 Enter greater of line 2 or line 3 4 5 Income tax imposed in prior year 5 6 Distributable Amount. Subtract line 5 from line 4, unless subject to emergency temporary reduction (see instructions) 6 7 Check here if the current year is the organization's first as a nonfunctionallyintegrated Type III supporting organization (see instructions) Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 7 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Section DOrganizations Distributions (continued) Current Year 1 Amounts paid to supported organizations to accomplish exempt purposes 2 Amounts paid to perform activity that directly furthers exempt purposes of supported organizations, in excess of income from activity 3 Administrative expenses paid to accomplish exempt purposes of supported organizations 4 Amounts paid to acquire exemptuse assets 5 Qualified setaside amounts (prior IRS approval required) 6 Other distributions (describe in Part VI). See instructions 7 Total annual distributions. Add lines 1 through 6. 8 Distributions to attentive supported organizations to which the organization is responsive (provide details in Part VI). See instructions 9 Distributable amount for 2019 from Section C, line 6 10 Line 8 amount divided by Line 9 amount Section E Distribution Allocations (see instructions) (i) Excess Distributions (ii) Underdistributions Pre2019 (iii) Distributable Amount for 2019 1 Distributable amount for 2019 from Section C, line 6 2 Underdistributions, if any, for years prior to 2019 (reasonable cause required explain in Part VI ). See instructions. 3 Excess distributions carryover, if any, to 2019: a From 2014. . . . . . b From 2015. . . . . . . c From 2016. . . . . . . d From 2017. . . . . . . e . . . . . . From 2018. . f Total of lines 3a through e g Applied to underdistributions of prior years h Applied to 2019 distributable amount i Carryover from 2014 not applied (see instructions) j Remainder. Subtract lines 3g, 3h, and 3i from 3f. 4 Distributions for 2019 from Section D, line 7: $ a Applied to underdistributions of prior years b Applied to 2019 distributable amount c Remainder. Subtract lines 4a and 4b from 4. 5 Remaining underdistributions for years prior to 2019, if any. Subtract lines 3g and 4a from line 2. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI . See instructions. 6 Remaining underdistributions for 2019. Subtract lines 3h and 4b from line 1. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI. See instructions. 7 Excess distributions carryover to 2020. Add lines 3j and 4c. 8 Breakdown of line 7: a Excess from 2015. . . . b Excess from 2016. . . . . c Excess from 2017. . . . . d Excess from 2018. . . . . e . . . . Excess from 2019. . Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) (2019) �Page 8 Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part VI Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part II, line 10; Part II, line 17a or 17b; Part III, line 12; Part IV, Section A, lines 1, 2, 3b, 3c, 4b, 4c, 5a, 6, 9a, 9b, 9c, 11a, 11b, and 11c; Part IV, Section B, lines 1 and 2; Part IV, Section C, line 1; Part IV, Section D, lines 2 and 3; Part IV, Section E, lines 1c, 2a, 2b, 3a and 3b; Part V, line 1; Part V, Section B, line 1e; Part V Section D, lines 5, 6, and 8; and Part V, Section E, lines 2, 5, and 6. Also complete this part for any additional information. (See instructions). Facts And Circumstances Test Return Reference Explanation Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �Schedule B OMB No. 15450047 Schedule of Contributors (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) 2019 Attach to Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Organization type (check one): Filers of: Form 990 or 990EZ Section: 501(c)( ) (enter number) organization 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust not treated as a private foundation 527 political organization Form 990PF 501(c)(3) exempt private foundation 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust treated as a private foundation 501(c)(3) taxable private foundation Check if your organization is covered by the General Rule or a Special Rule. Note: Only a section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) organization can check boxes for both the General Rule and a Special Rule. See instructions. General Rule For an organization filing Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF that received, during the year, contributions totaling $5,000 or more (in money or other property) from any one contributor. Complete Parts I and II. See instructions for determining a contributor's total contributions. Special Rules For an organization described in section 501(c)(3) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that met the 331/ 3% support test of the regulations under sections 509(a)(1) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi), that checked Schedule A (Form 990 or 990EZ), Part II, line 13, 16a, or 16b, and that received from any one contributor, during the year, total contributions of the greater of (1) $5,000 or (2) 2% of the amount on (i) Form 990, Part VIII, line 1h, or (ii) Form 990EZ, line 1. Complete Parts I and II. For an organization described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that received from any one contributor, during the year, total contributions of more than $1,000 exclusively for religious, charitable, scientific, literary, or educational purposes, or for the prevention of cruelty to children or animals. Complete Parts I, II, and III. For an organization described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) filing Form 990 or 990EZ that received from any one contributor, during the year, contributions exclusively for religious, charitable, etc., purposes, but no such contributions totaled more than $1,000. If this box is checked, enter here the total contributions that were received during the year for an exclusively religious, charitable, etc., purpose. Don't complete any of the parts unless the General Rule applies to this organization because it received nonexclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions totaling $5,000 or more during the year . . . . . . . . . $ Caution: An organization that isn't covered by the General Rule and/or the Special Rules doesn't file Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF), but it must answer “No” on Part IV, line 2, of its Form 990; or check the box on line H of its Form 990EZ or on its Form 990PF, Part I, line 2, to certify that it doesn't meet the filing requirements of Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF). For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF. Cat. No. 30613X Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Page 2 Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Part I Employer identification number 731300864 Contributors (see instructions). Use duplicate copies of Part I if additional space is needed. Contributors (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person RESTRICTED Payroll $ RESTRICTED , (a) No. Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) (a) No. (b) Name, address, and ZIP + 4 (c) Total contributions (d) Type of contribution Person Payroll $ Noncash (Complete Part II for noncash contributions.) Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Page 3 Employer identification number 731300864 Part II (a) No. from Part I Noncash Property (see instructions). Use duplicate copies of Part II if additional space is needed. (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ (a) No. from Part I (b) Description of noncash property given (c) FMV (or estimate) (d) Date received (See instructions) $ Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) Page 4 Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Part III (a) No. from Part I Exclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions to organizations described in section 501(c)(7), (8), or (10) that total more than $1,000 for the year from any one contributor. Complete columns (a) through (e) and the following line entry. For organizations completing Part III, enter the total of exclusively religious, charitable, etc., contributions of $1,000 or less for the year. (Enter this information once. See instructions.) $ Use duplicate copies of Part III if additional space is needed. (b) Purpose of gift (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 (a) No. from Part I (b) Purpose of gift Relationship of transferor to transferee (c) Use of gift (d) Description of how gift is held (e) Transfer of gift Transferee's name, address, and ZIP 4 Relationship of transferor to transferee Schedule B (Form 990, 990EZ, or 990PF) (2019) �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE C Political Campaign and Lobbying Activities (Form 990 or 990 EZ) For Organizations Exempt From Income Tax Under section 501(c) and section 527 2019 Complete if the organization is described below. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Open to Public Inspection Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 3, or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 46 (Political Campaign Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations: Complete Parts IA and B. Do not complete Part IC. Section 501(c) (other than section 501(c)(3)) organizations: Complete Parts IA and C below. Do not complete Part IB. Section 527 organizations: Complete Part IA only. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 4, or Form 990EZ, Part VI, line 47 (Lobbying Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIA. Do not complete Part IIB. Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIB. Do not complete Part IIA. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 5 (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions) or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 35c (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions), then Section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) organizations: Complete Part III. Name of the organization Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part IA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c) or is a section 527 organization. 1 Provide a description of the organization’s direct and indirect political campaign activities in Part IV (see instructions for definition of “political campaign activities") 2 Political campaign activity expenditures (see instructions) .................................................................... 3 Volunteer hours for political campaign activities (see instructions) .................................................................. Part IB $ Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by the organization under section 4955 ................................ $ 2 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by organization managers under section 4955 ....................... $ 3 If the organization incurred a section 4955 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ......................................... Yes No 4a Was a correction made? ...................................................................................................................... Yes No b If "Yes," describe in Part IV. Part IC Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c), except section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount directly expended by the filing organization for section 527 exempt function activities ..... $ 2 Enter the amount of the filing organization's funds contributed to other organizations for section 527 exempt function activities ............................................................................................................................ $ 3 Total exempt function expenditures. Add lines 1 and 2. Enter here and on Form 1120POL, line 17b........... $ 4 Did the filing organization file Form 1120POL for this year? ................................................................... 5 Enter the names, addresses and employer identification number (EIN) of all section 527 political organizations to which the filing organization made payments. For each organization listed, enter the amount paid from the filing organization’s funds. Also enter the amount of political contributions received that were promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization, such as a separate segregated fund or a political action committee (PAC). If additional space is needed, provide information in Part IV. (a) N a m e (b) A d d r e s s (c) E I N Yes No (d) Amount paid from (e) Amount of filing organization's political contributions funds. If none, enter received and 0. promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization. If none, enter 0. 1 2 3 4 5 6 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50084S Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 2 Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IIA A Check Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). if the filing organization belongs to an affiliated group (and list in Part IV each affiliated group member's name, address, EIN, expenses, and share of excess lobbying expenditures). B Check if the filing organization checked box A and "limited control" provisions apply. Limits on Lobbying Expenditures (The term "expenditures" means amounts paid or incurred.) 1a Total lobbying expenditures to influence public opinion (grass roots lobbying) ...................... b Total lobbying expenditures to influence a legislative body (direct lobbying) ........................ c Total lobbying expenditures (add lines 1a and 1b) ............................................................ d Other exempt purpose expenditures ............................................................................... e Total exempt purpose expenditures (add lines 1c and 1d) .................................................. f Lobbying nontaxable amount. Enter the amount from the following table in both columns. If the amount on line 1e, column (a) or (b) is: The lobbying nontaxable amount is: Not over $500,000 20% of the amount on line 1e. Over $500,000 but not over $1,000,000 $100,000 plus 15% of the excess over $500,000. Over $1,000,000 but not over $1,500,000 $175,000 plus 10% of the excess over $1,000,000. Over $1,500,000 but not over $17,000,000 $225,000 plus 5% of the excess over $1,500,000. Over $17,000,000 $1,000,000. (a) Filing organization's totals g Grassroots nontaxable amount (enter 25% of line 1f) ................................................. h Subtract line 1g from line 1a. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ i Subtract line 1f from line 1c. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ j If there is an amount other than zero on either line 1h or line 1i, did the organization file Form 4720 reporting section 4911 tax for this year? ................................................................................................................... (b) Affiliated group totals Yes No 4Year Averaging Period Under Section 501(h) (Some organizations that made a section 501(h) election do not have to complete all of the five columns below. See the separate instructions for lines 2a through 2f.) Lobbying Expenditures During 4Year Averaging Period Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 2a Lobbying nontaxable amount b Lobbying ceiling amount (150% of line 2a, column(e)) c Total lobbying expenditures d Grassroots nontaxable amount e Grassroots ceiling amount (150% of line 2d, column (e)) f Grassroots lobbying expenditures (a) 2 0 1 6 (b) 2 0 1 7 (c) 2 0 1 8 (d) 2 0 1 9 (e) Total Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Page 3 Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part IIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and has NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). For each "Yes" response on lines 1a through 1i below, provide in Part IV a detailed description of the lobbying activity. (a) (b) Yes | No Amount During the year, did the filing organization attempt to influence foreign, national, state or local legislation, including any attempt to influence public opinion on a legislative matter or referendum, through the use of: 1 a Volunteers? ........................................................................................................... Yes b Paid staff or management (include compensation in expenses reported on lines 1c through 1i)? ........ Yes c Media advertisements? ................................................................................................... No d Mailings to members, legislators, or the public? ............................................................................. No e Publications, or published or broadcast statements? ........................................................... No f Grants to other organizations for lobbying purposes? .......................................................... g Direct contact with legislators, their staffs, government officials, or a legislative body? ....................... Yes h Rallies, demonstrations, seminars, conventions, speeches, lectures, or any similar means? .................. Yes i Other activities? ................................................................................................................... j Total. Add lines 1c through 1i .................................................................................................... 2a No No Did the activities in line 1 cause the organization to be not described in section 501(c)(3)? ..... No b If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred under section 4912 ........................................... c If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred by organization managers under section 4912 ................... d If the filing organization incurred a section 4912 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ........................ Part IIIA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6). Yes 1 Were substantially all (90% or more) dues received nondeductible by members? ............................................... 1 2 Did the organization make only inhouse lobbying expenditures of $2,000 or less? ............................................ 2 3 Did the organization agree to carry over lobbying and political expenditures from the prior year? ................................. 3 Part IIIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6) and if either (a) BOTH Part IIIA, lines 1 and 2, are answered "No" OR (b) Part IIIA, line 3, is answered “Yes." 1 Dues, assessments and similar amounts from members ...................................................................... 2 Section 162(e) nondeductible lobbying and political expenditures (do not include amounts of political expenses for which the section 527(f) tax was paid). a b Current year ............................................................................................................................. Carryover from last year ............................................................................................................ 2a c Total ........................................................................................................................................... 2c 3 Aggregate amount reported in section 6033(e)(1)(A) notices of nondeductible section 162(e) dues . 3 4 If notices were sent and the amount on line 2c exceeds the amount on line 3, what portion of the excess does the organization agree to carryover to the reasonable estimate of nondeductible lobbying and political expenditure next year? ...................................................................................................................... 4 5 Taxable amount of lobbying and political expenditures (see instructions) ......................................... 5 Part IV No 1 2b Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part lA, line 1; Part lB, line 4; Part lC, line 5; Part IIA (affiliated group list); Part IIA, lines 1 and 2 (see instructions), and Part llB, line 1. Also, complete this part for any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule C (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE D Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Financial Statements (Form 990) 2019 Complete if the organization answered "Yes," on Form 990, Part IV, line 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11a, 11b, 11c, 11d, 11e, 11f, 12a, or 12b. Attach to Form 990. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Organizations Maintaining Donor Advised Funds or Other Similar Funds or Accounts. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 6. (a) Donor advised funds (b) Funds and other accounts 1 Total number at end of year . . . . . . . . . 2 Aggregate value of contributions to (during year) 3 Aggregate value of grants from (during year) 4 Aggregate value at end of year . . . . . . . . 5 Did the organization inform all donors and donor advisors in writing that the assets held in donor advised funds are the organization’s property, subject to the organization’s exclusive legal control? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Did the organization inform all grantees, donors, and donor advisors in writing that grant funds can be used only for charitable purposes and not for the benefit of the donor or donor advisor, or for any other purpose conferring impermissible private benefit? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Part II 1 Conservation Easements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 7. Purpose(s) of conservation easements held by the organization (check all that apply). Preservation of land for public use (e.g., recreation or education) Preservation of an historically important land area Protection of natural habitat Preservation of a certified historic structure Preservation of open space 2 Complete lines 2a through 2d if the organization held a qualified conservation contribution in the form of a conservation easement on the last day of the tax year. Held at the End of the Year a Total number of conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a b Total acreage restricted by conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2b c Number of conservation easements on a certified historic structure included in (a) . . . . . 2c d Number of conservation easements included in (c) acquired after 7/25/06, and not on a historic structure listed in the National Register . . . 2d 3 Number of conservation easements modified, transferred, released, extinguished, or terminated by the organization during the tax year 4 Number of states where property subject to conservation easement is located 5 Does the organization have a written policy regarding the periodic monitoring, inspection, handling of violations, and enforcement of the conservation easements it holds? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Staff and volunteer hours devoted to monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 7 Amount of expenses incurred in monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 8 Does each conservation easement reported on line 2(d) above satisfy the requirements of section 170(h)(4) (B)(i) and section 170(h)(4)(B)(ii)? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 In Part XIII, describe how the organization reports conservation easements in its revenue and expense statement, and balance sheet, and include, if applicable, the text of the footnote to the organization’s financial statements that describes the organization’s accounting for conservation easements. $ Part III Yes No Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 8. 1a If the organization elected, as permitted under SFAS 116 (ASC 958), not to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide, in Part XIII, the text of the footnote to its financial statements that describes these items. b If the organization elected, as permitted under SFAS 116 (ASC 958), to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide the following amounts relating to these items: (i) Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ (ii) Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ If the organization received or held works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets for financial gain, provide the following amounts required to be reported under SFAS 116 (ASC 958) relating to these items: 2 a Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ b Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 52283D Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 2 Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets (continued) Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part III 3 a Using the organization’s acquisition, accession, and other records, check any of the following that are a significant use of its collection items (check all that apply): d Public exhibition Loan or exchange programs b e Scholarly research c Other Preservation for future generations 4 Provide a description of the organization’s collections and explain how they further the organization’s exempt purpose in Part XIII. 5 During the year, did the organization solicit or receive donations of art, historical treasures or other similar assets to be sold to raise funds rather than to be maintained as part of the organization’s collection?. . . Part IV 1a Is the organization an agent, trustee, custodian or other intermediary for contributions or other assets not included on Form 990, Part X? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII and complete the following table: c Beginning balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c d Additions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1d e Distributions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1e f Ending balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1f b No Yes Did the organization include an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21, for escrow or custodial account liability? . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII. Check here if the explanation has been provided in Part XIII Part V No Amount b 2a Yes Escrow and Custodial Arrangements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 9, or reported an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21. Yes No . . . . Endowment Funds. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 10. (a) Current year 1a Beginning of year balance b Contributions . . . . . . (b) Prior year (c) Two years back (d) Three years back (e) Four years back 50,752 94,420 67,200 51,577 42,293 11,249 8,968 6,509 15,623 9,284 62,001 103,388 73,709 67,200 51,577 . c Net investment earnings, gains, and losses d Grants or scholarships . . . e Other expenditures for facilities and programs . . . f Administrative expenses g End of year balance 2 . . . . . . . . . . Provide the estimated percentage of the current year end balance (line 1g, column (a)) held as: a Board designated or quasiendowment b Permanent endowment c Temporarily restricted endowment The percentages on lines 2a, 2b, and 2c should equal 100%. 3a Are there endowment funds not in the possession of the organization that are held and administered for the organization by: (i) unrelated organizations b 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (ii) related organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes" on 3a(ii), are the related organizations listed as required on Schedule R? . . . . . . . . . . Yes . 3a(i) No Yes 3a(ii) . No 3b Describe in Part XIII the intended uses of the organization's endowment funds. Part VI Land, Buildings, and Equipment. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11a. See Form 990, Part X, line 10. (a) Cost or other basis (investment) Description of property 1a Land . . b Buildings . . . . (b) Cost or other basis (other) (c) Accumulated depreciation (d) Book value 2,015,807 537,217 1,478,590 197,537 172,726 24,811 . . . c Leasehold improvements d Equipment e Other . . . . . . . . . Total. Add lines 1a through 1e. (Column (d) must equal Form 990, Part X, column (B), line 10(c).) . . 1,503,401 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 3 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part VII Investments—Other Securities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11b.See Form 990, Part X, line 12. (a) Description of security or category (including name of security) (1) Financial derivatives . (2) Closelyheld equity interests (b) Book value . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (3) Other (A) B E N E F I C I A L I N T E R E S T I N T U L S A C O M M F (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value 61,989 F (C) (D) (E) (F) (G) (H) (I) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col. (B) line 12.) Part VIII 61,989 Investments—Program Related. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11c. See Form 990, Part X, line 13. (a) Description of investment (b) Book value (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 13.) Part IX Other Assets. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11d. See Form 990, Part X, line 15. (a) Description (b) Book value (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 15.) Part X . . . . . . . . . . . Other Liabilities. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11e or 11f. See Form 990, Part X, line 25. 1. (a) Description of liability (b) Book value (1) Federal income taxes (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 25.) 2. Liability for uncertain tax positions. In Part XIII, provide the text of the footnote to the organization's financial statements that reports the organization's liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740). Check here if the text of the footnote has been provided in Part XIII Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Page 4 Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 Part XI Reconciliation of Revenue per Audited Financial Statements With Revenue per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total revenue, gains, and other support per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12: . . a Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . . . b Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . . 2b c Recoveries of prior year grants . . . . . . . . . 2c d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e Add lines 2a through 2d . . . . . . . 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . . . c Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . . 2e 3 4b . . . . . . . . . 4c . . . 5 Reconciliation of Expenses per Audited Financial Statements With Expenses per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total expenses and losses per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part IX, line 25: . . a Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . b Prior year adjustments . . . . . . . . c Other losses d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e . 4a Total revenue. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 12.) Part XII 1 2a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2a 2b . . 2c 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2e 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part IX, line 25, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . . 4a b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . 4b c 5 Add lines 2a through 2d . . . Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Total expenses. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 18.) . . . . . . . . 4c . . 5 Part XIII Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part II, lines 3, 5, and 9; Part III, lines 1a and 4; Part lV, lines 1b and 2b; Part V, line 4; Part X, line 2; Part XI, lines 2d and 4b; and Part XII, lines 2d and 4b. Also complete this part to provide any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule D (Form 990) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Information Regarding Fundraising or Gaming Activities SCHEDULE G (Form 990 or 990EZ) Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, lines 17, 18, or 19, or if the organization entered more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number 731300864 Part I 1 Fundraising Activities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 17. Form 990EZ filers are not required to complete this part. Indicate whether the organization raised funds through any of the following activities. Check all that apply. a Mail solicitations b c d Inperson solicitations 2a b e Solicitation of nongovernment grants Internet and email solicitations f Solicitation of government grants Phone solicitations g Special fundraising events Did the organization have a written or oral agreement with any individual (including officers, directors, trustees or key employees listed in Form 990, Part VII) or entity in connection with professional fundraising Yes No services? If "Yes," list the 10 highest paid individuals or entities (fundraisers) pursuant to agreements under which the fundraiser is to be compensated at least $5,000 by the organization. (i) Name and address of individual or entity (fundraiser) (ii) Activity (iii) Did fundraiser have custody or control of contributions? Yes No (iv) Gross receipts from activity (v) Amount paid to (or retained by) fundraiser listed in col. (i) (vi) Amount paid to (or retained by) organization 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Total . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 List all states in which the organization is registered or licensed to solicit contributions or has been notified it is exempt from registration or licensing. For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50083H Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Part II Page 2 Fundraising Events. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 18, or reported more than $15,000 of fundraising event contributions and gross income on Form 990EZ, lines 1 and 6b. List events with gross receipts greater than $5,000. 1 Gross receipts . (c)Other events EQ GALA (event type) (event type) (total number) 246,767 246,767 2 Less: Contributions . . . 3 Gross income (line 1 minus line 2) . . . . . . 230,400 230,400 16,367 16,367 . . . . . 5 Noncash prizes . . . . 6 Rent/facility costs . . . . . . . 7 Food and beverages 8 Entertainment . . 9 Other direct expenses . . . . . 12,674 12,674 10 Direct expense summary. Add lines 4 through 9 in column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 12,674 11 Net income summary. Subtract line 10 from line 3, column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 3,693 Part III Gaming. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 19, or reported more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. (b) Pull tabs/Instant bingo/progressive bingo (a) Bingo 1 Gross revenue . . . . . 2 Cash prizes . . . . 3 Noncash prizes . . . . 4 Rent/facility costs . . . . 5 Other direct expenses . . . . Yes 6 Volunteer labor . . . . % Yes No 7 Direct expense summary. Add lines 2 through 5 in column (d) 9 (d) Total events (add col. (a) through col. (c)) . . . (b) Event #2 . 4 Cash prizes . (a)Event #1 % Yes No . (d) Total gaming (add col.(a) through col.(c)) (c) Other gaming % No . . . . . . . . . 8 Net gaming income summary. Subtract line 7 from line 1, column (d) . . . . . . . . . Enter the state(s) in which the organization conducts gaming activities: a b 10a b . . . Yes No Were any of the organization's gaming licenses revoked, suspended or terminated during the tax year? . If "Yes," explain: . . Yes No Is the organization licensed to conduct gaming activities in each of these states? . If "No," explain: Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 . . . . �Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 11 Page 3 12 Does the organization conduct gaming activities with nonmembers? . . . . . . . . . . Is the organization a grantor, beneficiary or trustee of a trust or a member of a partnership or other entity formed to administer charitable gaming? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Indicate the percentage of gaming activity conducted in: a The organization's facility . . . . b An outside facility . . . . 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Yes No . . 13a % . . 13b % Enter the name and address of the person who prepares the organization's gaming/special events books and records: Name Address 15a b Does the organization have a contract with a third party from whom the organization receives gaming revenue? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," enter the amount of gaming revenue received by the organization amount of gaming revenue retained by the third party c $ $ . . Yes No Yes No and the . If "Yes," enter name and address of the third party: Name Address 16 Gaming manager information: Name Gaming manager compensation $ Description of services provided Director/officer 17 a Independent contractor Mandatory distributions: Is the organization required under state law to make charitable distributions from the gaming proceeds to retain the state gaming license? b Employee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Enter the amount of distributions required under state law distributed to other exempt organizations or spent in the organization's own exempt activities during the tax year Part IV $ Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part I, line 2b, columns (iii) and (v); and Part III, lines 9, 9b, 10b, 15b, 15c, 16, and 17b, as applicable. Also provide any additional information. See instructions. Return Reference General Explanation Attachment Explanation EQUALITY GALA, AN ANNUAL IN PERSON EVENT HELD FOR MANY YEARS, WAS NOT HELD IN APRIL 2020 AS PLANNED DUE TO COVID19 PANDEMIC. Schedule G (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE O Supplemental Information to Form 990 or 990EZ (Form 990 or 990 EZ) Complete to provide information for responses to specific questions on Form 990 or 990EZ or to provide any additional information. Attach to Form 990 or 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Name of the organization OMB No. 15450047 2019 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Return Reference Explanation Members or stockholder classes and rights Part VI line 6 PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. Member election for additional members Part VI line 7a PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. Form 990 governing body review Part VI line 11 CIRCULATED FOR REVIEW BY MEMBERS OF THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Conflict of interest policy compliance Part VI line 12c DIRECTORS ARE REQUIRED TO MAKE FULL DISCLOSURE OF POTENTIAL AND ACTUAL CONFLICTS OF INTEREST AND RECUSE FROM ISSUES AS NECESSARY CEO executive director top management comp Part VI line 15a USE OF OKLAHOMA CENTER FOR NON PROFITS PROVIDED DATA Governing GUIDESTAR.COM AND IN OFFICE AVAILABLE FOR MEMBERS TO READ AND TO COPY AS WELL AS ELECTRONICALLY documents etc available to public Part VI line 19 Significant program services not listed on prior year return Part III line 2 MEDICAL CLINIC Explanation ROUNDING $1 of other changes in net assets or fund balances Part XI line 9 List of other expenses Part IX line 24e BANK CHARGES AND FEES $8,590MEMBERSHIP DUES $3,505THEFT LOSS $96EMPLOYEE EXPENSE $16,919TOTAL $29,110 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 51056K Schedule O (Form 990 or 990EZ) 2019 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a250269c888cd5b75e5cbf15c09a252.pdf ce4d51aaf6ba3a457bef40612b64de88 PDF Text Text �� https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b958e43fe00167900c971cd5b677870d.pdf 13545af37c463a2107dc65459416f79f PDF Text Text Form OMB No. 1545 Return of Organization Exempt From Income Tax 990 0047 2021 Under section 501(c), 527, or 4947(a)(1) of the Internal Revenue Code (except private foundations) Do not enter social security numbers on this form as it may be made public. Open to Public Inspection Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service A For the 2021 calendar year, or tax year beginning 10012021 , and ending 09302022 C Name of organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC B Check if applicable: Address change D Employer identification number 731300864 Name change Initial return Doing business as Final return/terminated E Telephone number Amended return Application pending Number and street (or P.O. box if mail is not delivered to street address) Room/suite PO BOX 2687 (918) 7434297 City or town, state or province, country, and ZIP or foreign postal code TULSA, OK 74101 G Gross receipts $ 1,272,013 F Name and address of principal officer: I J Taxexempt status: Website: 501(c)(3) 501(c) ( ) H(a) Is this a group return for subordinates? H(b) Are all subordinates included? (insert no.) 4947(a)(1) or Corporation No No If "No," attach a list. See instructions. 527 H(c) Group exemption number WWW.OKEQ.ORG K Form of organization: Yes Yes Trust Association L Year of formation: 1980 Other M State of legal domicile: OK Summary Part I 1 Briefly describe the organization’s mission or most significant activities: OKEQ SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR 2SLGBTQIA+ INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. if the organization discontinued its operations or disposed of more than 25% of its net assets. 2 Check this box . . . . . . . 3 Number of voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1a) . 3 15 4 Number of independent voting members of the governing body (Part VI, line 1b) 15 5 Total number of individuals employed in calendar year 2021 (Part V, line 2a) . 6 Total number of volunteers (estimate if necessary) 7a . . . . . Total unrelated business revenue from Part VIII, column (C), line 12 . . . . . . . . 4 . . . . . . 5 12 . . . . . . 6 312 7a 0 . . . . b Net unrelated business taxable income from Form 990T, Part I, line 11 . . 8 Contributions and grants (Part VIII, line 1h) . . . . . . . . . 9 Program service revenue (Part VIII, line 2g) . . . . . . . . . 10 Investment income (Part VIII, column (A), lines 3, 4, and 7d ) . . . . 11 Other revenue (Part VIII, column (A), lines 5, 6d, 8c, 9c, 10c, and 11e) 12 Total revenue—add lines 8 through 11 (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) 13 Grants and similar amounts paid (Part IX, column (A), lines 1–3 ) . 14 Benefits paid to or for members (Part IX, column (A), line 4) . 15 Salaries, other compensation, employee benefits (Part IX, column (A), lines 5–10) . . . . . . . . . 7b Prior Year 16a Professional fundraising fees (Part IX, column (A), line 11e) b Total fundraising expenses (Part IX, column (D), line 25) . . . . . Current Year 1,064,421 920,197 116,436 16,385 14 20,353 137,788 1,101,159 898,859 . 0 . . . . 0 341,489 389,831 35,900 27,979 840,772 539,199 1,218,161 957,009 . 61,148 17 Other expenses (Part IX, column (A), lines 11a–11d, 11f–24e) . 18 Total expenses. Add lines 13–17 (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) 19 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 18 from line 12 . . . . . . . . . . 117,002 58,150 Beginning of Current Year 20 Total assets (Part X, line 16) . 21 Total liabilities (Part X, line 26) . 22 Net assets or fund balances. Subtract line 21 from line 20 . Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . End of Year 1,625,819 . . 1,574,711 3,373 10,415 1,622,446 1,564,296 Signature Block Under penalties of perjury, I declare that I have examined this return, including accompanying schedules and statements, and to the best of my knowledge and belief, it is true, correct, and complete. Declaration of preparer (other than officer) is based on all information of which preparer has any knowledge. 20230803 Date Signature of officer Sign Here DOROTHY BALLARD EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR Type or print name and title Print/Type preparer's name Paid Preparer Use Only Preparer's signature Firm's name OBER & LITTLEFIELD CPAS Firm's address 124 S MAIN ST Date PTIN if 20230810 Check P01780781 selfemployed 474648903 Firm's EIN Phone no. (918) 5424401 MIAMI, OK 74354 May the IRS discuss this return with the preparer shown above? (see instructions) For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the separate instructions. . . . . . . . Cat. No. 11282Y . . . Yes No Form 990 (2021) �Page 2 Form 990 (2021) Part III Statement of Program Service Accomplishments Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part III . 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . Briefly describe the organization’s mission: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY (OKEQ) SEEKS EQUAL RIGHTS FOR 2SLGBTQIA+ INDIVUALS AND FAMILIES THROUGH INTERSECTIONAL ADVOCACY, EDUCATION, PROGRAMS, ALLIANCES, AND THE OPERATION OF THE DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER. 2 Did the organization undertake any significant program services during the year which were not listed on the prior Form 990 or 990EZ? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No . . Yes No If "Yes," describe these new services on Schedule O. 3 Did the organization cease conducting, or make significant changes in how it conducts, any program services? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," describe these changes on Schedule O. 4 4a Describe the organization’s program service accomplishments for each of its three largest program services, as measured by expenses. Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations are required to report the amount of grants and allocations to others, the total expenses, and revenue, if any, for each program service reported. (Code: ) (Expenses $ 761,904 including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ 116,436 ) MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING: COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES. TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFTY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. 4b (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4c (Code: ) (Expenses $ including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 4d Other program services (Describe in Schedule O.) (Expenses $ 4e Total program service expenses including grants of $ ) (Revenue $ ) 761,904 Form 990 (2021) �Page 3 Form 990 (2021) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules Yes 1 Is the organization described in section 501(c)(3) or 4947(a)(1) (other than a private foundation)? If "Yes," complete Schedule A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2 Is the organization required to complete Schedule B, Schedule of Contributors? See instructions. 2 3 Did the organization engage in direct or indirect political campaign activities on behalf of or in opposition to candidates for public office? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization engage in lobbying activities, or have a section 501(h) election in effect during the tax year? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part II . . . . . . . . . 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 . . . Is the organization a section 501(c)(4), 501(c)(5), or 501(c)(6) organization that receives membership dues, assessments, or similar amounts as defined in Rev. Proc. 9819? If "Yes," complete Schedule C, Part III . . Did the organization maintain any donor advised funds or any similar funds or accounts for which donors have the right to provide advice on the distribution or investment of amounts in such funds or accounts? If "Yes," complete Schedule D,Part I . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization receive or hold a conservation easement, including easements to preserve open space, the environment, historic land areas, or historic structures? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part II . . . . Did the organization maintain collections of works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes Yes No 3 4 Yes No 5 No 6 7 No 8 No 9 No Did the organization report an amount in Part X, line 21 for escrow or custodial account liability; serve as a custodian for amounts not listed in Part X; or provide credit counseling, debt management, credit repair, or debt negotiation services? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, directly or through a related organization, hold assets in temporarily restricted endowments, permanent endowments, or quasi endowments? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part V . . . . . . 10 Yes 11a Yes If the organization’s answer to any of the following questions is "Yes," then complete Schedule D, Parts VI, VII, VIII, IX, or X, as applicable. a Did the organization report an amount for land, buildings, and equipment in Part X, line 10? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VI. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization report an amount for investments—other securities in Part X, line 12 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VII c . . . . . . . 11b No 11c No 11d No 11e No Did the organization report an amount for investments—program related in Part X, line 13 that is 5% or more of its total assets reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part VIII . . . . . . . d Did the organization report an amount for other assets in Part X, line 15 that is 5% or more of its total assets e No reported in Part X, line 16? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part IX . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization report an amount for other liabilities in Part X, line 25? If "Yes," complete Schedule D, Part X f Did the organization’s separate or consolidated financial statements for the tax year include a footnote that addresses the organization’s liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740)? 11f "Yes," complete Schedule Part X independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," complete 12a If Did the organization obtainD, separate, 12a Schedule D, Parts XI and XII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Was the organization included in consolidated, independent audited financial statements for the tax year? If "Yes," and if the organization answered "No" to line 12a, then completing Schedule D, Parts XI and XII is optional 13 Is the organization a school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii)? If "Yes," complete Schedule E 14a Did the organization maintain an office, employees, or agents outside of the United States? . . . . . b Did the organization have aggregate revenues or expenses of more than $10,000 from grantmaking, fundraising, business, investment, and program service activities outside the United States, or aggregate foreign investments valued at $100,000 or more? If "Yes," complete Schedule F, Parts I and IV . the . organization . . . . report . .on Part . 15 Did IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for any foreign organization? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts II and IV . 16 . . . . Did the organization report on Part IX, column (A), line 3, more than $5,000 of aggregate grants or other assistance to or for foreign individuals? If “Yes,” complete Schedule F, Parts III and IV . . . No No 12b No 13 No 14a No 14b No 15 No 16 No 17 Did the organization report a total of more than $15,000 of expenses for professional fundraising services on Part IX, column (A), lines 6 and 11e? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part I. See instructions. . . . . 17 Yes 18 Did the organization report more than $15,000 total of fundraising event gross income and contributions on Part VIII, lines 1c and 8a? If "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Yes 19 Did the organization report more than $15,000 of gross income from gaming activities on Part VIII, line 9a? I f "Yes," complete Schedule G, Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20a Did the organization operate one or more hospital facilities? If "Yes," complete Schedule H . . . . b If "Yes" to line 20a, did the organization attach a copy of its audited financial statements to this return? 21 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to any domestic organization or domestic government on Part IX, column (A), line 1? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and II . . . . . 19 No 20a No 20b 21 No Form 990 (2021) �Page 4 Form 990 (2021) Part IV Checklist of Required Schedules (continued) Yes No 22 Did the organization report more than $5,000 of grants or other assistance to or for domestic individuals on Part IX, column (A), line 2? If “Yes,” complete Schedule I, Parts I and III . . . . . . . . 22 No 23 Did the organization answer "Yes" to Part VII, Section A, line 3, 4, or 5, about compensation of the organization’s current and former officers, directors, trustees, key employees, and highest compensated employees? If "Yes," complete Schedule J . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 No 24a Did the organization have a taxexempt bond issue with an outstanding principal amount of more than $100,000 as of the last day of the year, that was issued after December 31, 2002? If “Yes,” answer lines 24b through 24d and complete Schedule K. If “No,” go to line 25a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Did the organization invest any proceeds of taxexempt bonds beyond a temporary period exception? . c . . 24b Did the organization maintain an escrow account other than a refunding escrow at any time during the year to defease any taxexempt bonds? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24c d Did the organization act as an "on behalf of" issuer for bonds outstanding at any time during the year? . . . 25a Section 501(c)(3), 501(c)(4), and 501(c)(29) organizations. Did the organization engage in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person during the year? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . . . . 24d 25a No 25b No former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, aPart II or . other . . assistance . . . to .any. current . . or .former officer, director, trustee, key Did the organization provide grant 26 No employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or employee thereof, a grant selection committee member, or to a 35% controlled entity (including an employee thereof) or family member of any of these persons? If "Yes," completeSchedule L,Part III . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 No 28a No b Is the organization aware that it engaged in an excess benefit transaction with a disqualified person in a prior year, and that the transaction has not been reported on any of the organization’s prior Forms 990 or 990EZ? I f "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part I . the . organization . . . . report . .any. amount . . on. Part . X,. line . 5 .or 22 . for . receivables . . . . . or payables to any current or 26 Did from 27 28 No 24a Was the organization a party to a business transaction with one of the following parties (see the Schedule L, Part IV instructions for applicable filing thresholds, conditions, and exceptions): a A current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, or substantial contributor? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b A family member of any individual described in line 28a? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . 28b No A 35% controlled entity of one or more individuals and/or organizations described in line 28a or 28b? If "Yes," complete Schedule L, Part IV . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28c No 29 Did the organization receive more than $25,000 in noncash contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M . . 29 No 30 Did the organization receive contributions of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets, or qualified conservation contributions? If "Yes," complete Schedule M .terminate, . . . or dissolve . . . and . cease . . operations? . . . If."Yes," . complete . . Did the organization liquidate, Schedule N, Part I 30 No 31 No 32 No 33 No 34 No 35a No c 31 32 33 34 Did the organization sell, exchange, dispose of, or transfer more than 25% of its net assets? If "Yes," complete Schedule N, Part II . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization own 100% of an entity disregarded as separate from the organization under Regulations sections 301.77012 and 301.77013? If "Yes," Schedule R, Part I .taxexempt . . . or. taxable . . entity? . . If ."Yes," . complete . Was the complete organization related to any Schedule R, Part II, III, or IV, and Part V, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35a Did the organization have a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? b If ‘Yes’ to line 35a, did the organization receive any payment from or engage in any transaction with a controlled entity within the meaning of section 512(b)(13)? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . 36 37 38 35b Section 501(c)(3) organizations. Did the organization make any transfers to an exempt noncharitable related organization? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part V, line 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 No Did the organization conduct more than 5% of its activities through an entity that is not a related organization and that is treated as a partnership for federal income tax purposes? If "Yes," complete Schedule R, Part VI 37 No Did the organization complete Schedule O and provide explanations on Schedule O for Part VI, lines 11b and 19? Note. All Form 990 filers are required to complete Schedule O. . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part V . . . . . . . . Yes . . Yes 1a Enter the number reported in box 3 of Form 1096. Enter 0 if not applicable . . b Enter the number of Forms W2G included on line 1a. Enter 0 if not applicable c . 1a 13 1b 0 Did the organization comply with backup withholding rules for reportable payments to vendors and reportable gaming (gambling) winnings to prize winners? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c . No Yes Form 990 (2021) �Page 5 Form 990 (2021) Part V Statements Regarding Other IRS Filings and Tax Compliance (continued) 2a Enter the number of employees reported on Form W3, Transmittal of Wage and Tax Statements, filed for the calendar year ending with or within the year covered by this return . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a 12 2b b If at least one is reported on line 2a, did the organization file all required federal employment tax returns? Note. If the sum of lines 1a and 2a is greater than 250, you may be required to efile. See instructions. 3a Did the organization have unrelated business gross income of $1,000 or more during the year? . . . b If “Yes,” has it filed a Form 990T for this year? If “No” to line 3b, provide an explanation in Schedule O . . Yes 3a No . 3b 4a At any time during the calendar year, did the organization have an interest in, or a signature or other authority over, a financial account in a foreign country (such as a bank account, securities account, or other financial account)? . the . name of the foreign country: b If "Yes," enter See instructions for filing requirements for FinCEN Form 114, Report of Foreign Bank and Financial Accounts 5a (FBAR). Was the organization a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction at any time during the tax year? . . 4a No 5a No b Did any taxable party notify the organization that it was or is a party to a prohibited tax shelter transaction? 5b No c 5c If "Yes," to line 5a or 5b, did the organization file Form 8886T? . . . . . . . . . . . . 6a Does the organization have annual gross receipts that are normally greater than $100,000, and did the organization solicit any contributions that were not tax deductible as charitable contributions? . . . 6a b If "Yes," did the organization include with every solicitation an express statement that such contributions or gifts were not tax deductible? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 No 6b Organizations that may receive deductible contributions under section 170(c). a Did the organization receive a payment in excess of $75 made partly as a contribution and partly for goods and services provided to the payor? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7a Yes b If "Yes," did the organization notify the donor of the value of the goods or services provided? 7b Yes c d If "Yes," indicate the number of Forms 8282 filed during the year e . . . . . Did the organization sell, exchange, or otherwise dispose of tangible personal property for which it was required to file Form 8282? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did the organization, during the year, pay premiums, directly or indirectly, on a personal benefit contract? . . g If the organization received a contribution of qualified intellectual property, did the organization file Form 8899 as required? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . h If the organization received a contribution of cars, boats, airplanes, or other vehicles, did the organization file a Form 1098C? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Sponsoring organizations maintaining donor advised funds. Did a donor advised fund maintained by the sponsoring organization have excess business holdings at any time during the year? . . . organizations . . . . maintaining . Sponsoring donor advised funds. a Did the sponsoring organization make any taxable distributions under section 4966? . . . . . . . . b Did the sponsoring organization make a distribution to a donor, donor advisor, or related person? . 10 7e No 7f No 7g No 7h No 8 9a . . 9b Section 501(c)(7) organizations. Enter: a Initiation fees and capital contributions included on Part VIII, line 12 . . . 10a b Gross receipts, included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, for public use of club facilities 11 Section 501(c)(12) organizations. Enter: a Gross income from members or shareholders . . . . . . . . 10b . 11a b Gross income from other sources. (Do not net amounts due or paid to other 11b sources against amounts due or received from them.) . . . . . . . . . . 12a Section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trusts. Is the organization filing Form 990 in lieu of Form 1041? b If "Yes," enter the amount of taxexempt interest received or accrued during the year. 13 No Did the organization receive any funds, directly or indirectly, to pay premiums on a personal benefit contract? f 8 7c 7d 12a 12b Section 501(c)(29) qualified nonprofit health insurance issuers. a Is the organization licensed to issue qualified health plans in more than one state? . . . . . . . . . Note. See the instructions for additional information the organization must report on Schedule O. b Enter the amount of reserves the organization is required to maintain by the states in which the organization is licensed to issue qualified health plans . . . . 13b c 13c Enter the amount of reserves on hand . . . . . . . . . . . . 14a Did the organization receive any payments for indoor tanning services during the tax year? . . . 14a b If "Yes," has it filed a Form 720 to report these payments?If "No," provide an explanation in Schedule O . . 14b 15 16 17 . 13a . Is the organization subject to the section 4960 tax on payment(s) of more than $1,000,000 in remuneration or excess parachute payment(s) during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," Is the organization see the instructions an educational and file institution Form 4720, subject Schedule to theN. section 4968 excise tax on net investment income? . . If "Yes," complete Form 4720, Schedule O. Section 501(c)(21) organizations. Did the trust, any disqualified person, or mine operator engage in any activities that would result in the imposition of an excise tax under section 4951, 4952, or 4953? . . If "Yes," complete Form 6069. No 15 No 16 No 17 Form 990 (2021) �Page 6 Form 990 (2021) Part VI Governance, Management, and Disclosure. For each "Yes" response to lines 2 through 7b below, and for a "No" response to lines 8a, 8b, or 10b below, describe the circumstances, processes, or changes in Schedule O. See instructions. Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Governing Body and Management Yes 1a Enter the number of voting members of the governing body at the end of the tax year If there are material differences in voting rights among members of the governing 1a 15 1b 15 No body, or if the governing body delegated broad authority to an executive committee or similar committee, explain in Schedule O. b Enter the number of voting members included in line 1a, above, who are independent 2 Did any officer, director, trustee, or key employee have a family relationship or a business relationship with any other officer, director, trustee, or key employee? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Did the organization delegate control over management duties customarily performed by or under the direct supervision of officers, directors or trustees, or key employees to a management company or other person? 4 . 5 Did the organization make any significant changes to its governing documents since the prior Form 990 was filed? Did the. organization become aware during the year of a significant diversion of the organization’s assets? . 6 Did the organization have members or stockholders? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 3 No 4 . 7a Did the organization have members, stockholders, or other persons who had the power to elect or appoint one or more members of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Are any governance decisions of the organization reserved to (or subject to approval by) members, stockholders, or persons other than the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 2 No 5 Yes 6 Yes 7a Yes 7b No Did the organization contemporaneously document the meetings held or written actions undertaken during the year by the following: a The governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Each committee with authority to act on behalf of the governing body? . . . . . . . . . . . . Is there any officer, director, trustee, or key employee listed in Part VII, Section A, who cannot be reached at the organization’s mailing address? If "Yes," provide the names and addresses in Schedule O . . . . . . . 8a Yes 8b Yes 9 9 No Section B. Policies (This Section B requests information about policies not required by the Internal Revenue Code.) Yes 10a Did the organization have local chapters, branches, or affiliates? . . . . . . . . . . . . 10a b If "Yes," did the organization have written policies and procedures governing the activities of such chapters, affiliates, and branches to ensure their operations are consistent with the organization's exempt purposes? 10b 11a Has the organization provided a complete copy of this Form 990 to all members of its governing body before filing 11a the form? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b Describe on Schedule O the process, if any, used by the organization to review this Form 990. . . . . . 12a Did the organization have a written conflict of interest policy? If "No," go to line 13 . . . . . . . b Were officers, directors, or trustees, and key employees required to disclose annually interests that could give rise to conflicts? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No 12a Yes 12b Yes Did the organization regularly and consistently monitor and enforce compliance with the policy? If "Yes," describe on Schedule O how this was done . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12c Yes 13 Did the organization have a written whistleblower policy? . . . . . . . . . . 13 Yes 14 Did the organization have a written document retention and destruction policy? . . . . . . . . . 14 Yes 15 Did the process for determining compensation of the following persons include a review and approval by independent persons, comparability data, and contemporaneous substantiation of the deliberation and decision? 15a Yes c . . . . . a The organization’s CEO, Executive Director, or top management official b Other officers or key employees of the organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . No No 15b No 16a Did the organization invest in, contribute assets to, or participate in a joint venture or similar arrangement with a taxable entity during the year? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16a No b If "Yes," did the organization follow a written policy or procedure requiring the organization to evaluate its participation in joint venture arrangements under applicable federal tax law, and take steps to safeguard the organization’s exempt status with respect to such arrangements? . . . . . . . . . . . . 16b If "Yes" to line 15a or 15b, describe the process on Schedule O. See instructions. Section C. Disclosure 17 List the states with which a copy of this Form 990 is required to be filed 18 Section 6104 requires an organization to make its Form 1023 (1024 or 1024A, if applicable), 990, and 990T (section 501(c)(3)s only) available for public inspection. Indicate how you made these available. Check all that apply. 19 Describe in Schedule O whether (and if so, how) the organization made its governing documents, conflict of interest policy, and financial statements available to the public during the tax year. 20 State the name, address, and telephone number of the person who possesses the organization's books and records: T E R Y D E S H O N G P O B O X 2 6 8 7 P O B O X 2 6 8 7 T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 0 1 ( 9 1 8 ) 7 4 3 4 2 9 7 OK Own website Another's website Upon request Other (explain in Schedule O) Form 990 (2021) �Page 7 Form 990 (2021) Part VII Compensation of Officers, Directors,Trustees, Key Employees, Highest Compensated Employees, and Independent Contractors Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VII . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees 1a Complete this table for all persons required to be listed. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. List all of the organization’s current officers, directors, trustees (whether individuals or organizations), regardless of amount of compensation. Enter 0 in columns (D), (E), and (F) if no compensation was paid. List all of the organization’s current key employees, if any. See the instructions for definition of "key employee." List the organization’s five current highest compensated employees (other than an officer, director, trustee or key employee) who received reportable compensation (box 5 of Form W2, Form 1099MISC, and/or box 1 of Form 1099NEC) of more than $100,000 from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former officers, key employees, or highest compensated employees who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. List all of the organization’s former directors or trustees that received, in the capacity as a former director or trustee of the organization, more than $10,000 of reportable compensation from the organization and any related organizations. See the instructions for the order in which to list the persons above. Check this box if neither the organization nor any related organization compensated any current officer, director, or trustee. (A) Name and title (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations (1) STACY TURNER ...................................................................... PRESIDENT 15.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (2) BOB HANSON ...................................................................... VICE PRESIDE 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (3) TERY DESHONG ...................................................................... TREASURER 15.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (4) CHRIS BRECHTSMITH ...................................................................... SECRETARY 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (5) DANI BIRD ...................................................................... MEMBER AT LA 10.00 ................. X X 0 0 0 (6) STEPHEN RUNDELL ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (7) SHANNON FAIR ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (8) LAURA ARROWSMITH ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (9) ANGELYN DALE ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (10) DARCI HAZELWOOD ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (11) WILL VAUGHN ...................................................................... DRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (12) LIZ ORTIZ ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (13) MONIQUE WASHINGTON ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (14) JOE GUETLEIN ...................................................................... DIERCTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (15) JUSTIN ROSS ...................................................................... DIRECTOR 5.00 ................. X 0 0 0 (16) DOROTHY BALLARD ...................................................................... EXECUTIVE DI 15.00 ................. X 0 0 0 X 0.00 Form 990 (2021) �Page 8 Form 990 (2021) Section A. Officers, Directors, Trustees, Key Employees, and Highest Compensated Employees (continued) Part VII (A) Name and title 1b SubTotal . . . . (B) Average hours per week (list any hours for related organizations below dotted line) . . . . . . . (C) Position (do not check more than one box, unless person is both an officer and a director/trustee) . . . . . . . d Total (add lines 1b and 1c) . . . . . . . . . . (E) Reportable compensation from related organizations (W2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) (F) Estimated amount of other compensation from the organization and related organizations . c Total from continuation sheets to Part VII, Section A . . (D) Reportable compensation from the organization (W 2/1099 MISC/1099 NEC) 2 Total number of individuals (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of reportable compensation from the organization 3 Did the organization list any former officer, director or trustee, key employee, or highest compensated employee on line 1a? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 No 4 For any individual listed on line 1a, is the sum of reportable compensation and other compensation from the organization and related organizations greater than $150,000? If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such individual 4 No 5 No Yes . 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Did any person listed on line 1a receive or accrue compensation from any unrelated organization or individual for services rendered to the organization?If "Yes," complete Schedule J for such person . . . . . . . . No Section B. Independent Contractors 1 Complete this table for your five highest compensated independent contractors that received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization. Report compensation for the calendar year ending with or within the organization’s tax year. (A) Name and business address (B) Description of services (C) Compensation 2 Total number of independent contractors (including but not limited to those listed above) who received more than $100,000 of compensation from the organization Form 990 (2021) �Page 9 Form 990 (2021) Statement of Revenue Part VIII Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part VIII . (A) Total revenue . . . . . (B) Related or exempt function revenue Contributions, Gifts, Grants, and OtherAmt Similar Amounts 1a Federated campaigns . b Membership dues . . . . . . . . (D) Revenue excluded from tax under sections 512 514 1a . c Fundraising events . . (C) Unrelated business revenue 1b . 352,600 1c d Related organizations 1d e Government grants (contributions) 1e 412,369 1f 155,228 f All other contributions, gifts, grants, and similar amounts not included above g Noncash contributions included in lines 1a 1f:$ 1g h Total. Add lines 1a1f . . . . 5,114 . . . 920,197 Business Code 116,436 2a INDIVIDUAL AND FAMILY SERVICE 116,436 624100 b c d e f All other program service revenue. g Total. Add lines 2a–2f. . . . 116,436 . 3 Investment income (including dividends, interest, and other . . . taxexempt . . . 4 similar Incomeamounts) from investment of bond proceeds 5 Royalties . . . . . . . . . . (i) Real 6a Gross rents 6a Less: rental expenses 6b b c Rental 6c income or (loss) d Net rental income or (loss) . from sales of assets other than inventory b c 14 . (ii) Personal . . . . (i) Securities 7a Gross amount 14 . . (ii) Other 7a Less: cost or other basis and sales expenses 7b Gain or (loss) 7c d Net gain or (loss) . . . . . . . . . 8a Gross income from fundraising events (not including $ 352,600 of contributions reported on line 1c). See Part IV, line 18 . . . . 188,625 8a 347,424 b Less: direct expenses 8b . income . . or (loss) from fundraising events . c Net 9a Gross income from gaming activities. 9a See Part IV, line 19 . . . b Less: direct expenses 9b . income . . or (loss) from gaming activities . c Net 10a Gross sales of inventory, less returns and allowances . . 158,799 . . 46,741 10a 25,730 b Less: cost of goods sold 10b . . c Net income or (loss) from sales of inventory . Miscellaneous Revenue . 21,011 21,011 898,859 137,447 Business Code 11a b c d All other revenue . . e Total. Add lines 11a–11d . . . . 12 Total revenue. See instructions . . . . . . . . . 14 Form 990 (2021) �Page 10 Form 990 (2021) Part IX Statement of Functional Expenses Section 501(c)(3) and 501(c)(4) organizations must complete all columns. All other organizations must complete column (A). Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . Do not include amounts reported on lines 6b, 7b, 8b, 9b, and 10b of Part VIII. . . . (B) Program service expenses (A) Total expenses . . . . . . (C) Management and general expenses . . . . (D) Fundraising expenses 1 Grants and other assistance to domestic organizations and domestic governments. See Part IV, line 21 . . . . 2 Grants and other assistance to domestic individuals. See Part IV, line 22 . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Grants and other assistance to foreign organizations, foreign governments, and foreign individuals. See Part IV, lines 15 and 16. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Benefits paid to or for members . . . . . . . 5 Compensation of current officers, directors, trustees, and key employees . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Compensation not included above, to disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)) and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . . . . . . . 7 Other salaries and wages . . . . . . . . 339,464 254,598 67,893 16,973 22,234 16,675 4,447 1,112 28,133 21,100 5,627 1,406 19,308 14,481 3,862 965 9,684 7,263 1,937 484 8 Pension plan accruals and contributions (include section 401(k) and 403(b) employer contributions) . . . . 9 Other employee benefits 10 Payroll taxes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Fees for services (nonemployees): a Management . . . . . . b Legal . . . . . . . . c Accounting d Lobbying . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . e Professional fundraising services. See Part IV, line 17 f Investment management fees . . . . . 27,979 27,979 . g Other (If line 11g amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 11g expenses on Schedule O) 22,666 22,666 59,440 44,581 11,887 2,972 60,540 45,405 12,108 3,027 3,411 2,558 682 171 85 85 21,443 16,082 4,289 1,072 a CENTER PROGRAMS 223,019 223,019 b BUILDING MAINTENANCE 50,335 37,751 10,067 2,517 c EMPLOYEE EXPENSES 29,709 22,282 5,942 1,485 d BANK CHARGES AND FEES 14,832 11,124 2,966 742 12 Advertising and promotion 13 Office expenses . . . . . . . . . . 14 Information technology . . . . . 15 Royalties . . . . 16 Occupancy 17 Travel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Payments of travel or entertainment expenses for any federal, state, or local public officials . 19 Conferences, conventions, and meetings 20 Interest . . . . 21 Payments to affiliates . . . . . . . . . . 22 Depreciation, depletion, and amortization 23 Insurance . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Other expenses. Itemize expenses not covered above (List miscellaneous expenses in line 24e. If line 24e amount exceeds 10% of line 25, column (A) amount, list line 24e expenses on Schedule O.) e All other expenses 25 Total functional expenses. Add lines 1 through 24e 24,727 22,234 2,250 243 957,009 761,904 133,957 61,148 26 Joint costs. Complete this line only if the organization reported in column (B) joint costs from a combined educational campaign and fundraising solicitation. Check here if following SOP 982 (ASC 958720). Form 990 (2021) �Page 11 Form 990 (2021) Part X Balance Sheet Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part IX . . . . . . . . . (A) Beginning of year 1 2 Cash–noninterestbearing . . . . . . . 2,000 . 3 Savings and temporary cash investments . . . . . . . . . Pledges and grants receivable, net . . 4 Accounts receivable, net 5 7 Loans and other receivables from any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons Loans . . and . other . .receivables . . from other disqualified persons (as defined under section 4958(f)(1)), and persons described in section 4958(c)(3)(B) . . . Notes and loans receivable, net . . . . . . . . . . . 8 Inventories for sale or use 9 Prepaid expenses and deferred charges 6 10a b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2,213,344 Less: accumulated depreciation 10b 813,108 12 Investments—other securities. See Part IV, line 11 . 13 Investments—programrelated. See Part IV, line 11 14 Intangible assets 15 2,410 2 7,000 3 4 5 6 7 10c 1,400,236 78,333 11 57,857 . . . . . 16 Other assets. See Part IV, line 11 . .assets. . . Add . lines . .1 through . . . (must . Total 15 equal line 33) . . . 17 Accounts payable and accrued expenses 18 Grants payable 19 Deferred revenue 20 Taxexempt bond liabilities 21 Escrow or custodial account liability. Complete Part IV of Schedule D 21 22 22 23 Loans and other payables to any current or former officer, director, trustee, key employee, creator or founder, substantial contributor, or 35% controlled entity or family member of any of these persons . . . . . . . . . Secured mortgages and notes payable to unrelated third parties . . 24 Unsecured notes and loans payable to unrelated third parties 24 25 Other liabilities (including federal income tax, payables to related third parties, and other liabilities not included on lines 17 24). Complete Part X of Schedule D 26 Total liabilities. Add lines 17 through 25 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 13 14 15 1,625,819 16 1,574,711 3,373 17 10,415 . . 18 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 . . . . 20 . . 25 3,373 26 10,415 1,589,892 27 1,531,742 32,554 28 32,554 and complete lines 27, 28, 32, and 33. Net assets without donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . Net assets with donor restrictions . . . . . . . . . . . Organizations that do not follow FASB ASC 958, check here and complete lines 29 through 33. Capital stock or trust principal, or current funds 30 Paidin or capital surplus, or land, building or equipment fund 31 Retained earnings, endowment, accumulated income, or other funds 32 Total net assets or fund balances . . . . . . . . . . . Total liabilities and net assets/fund balances . . . . . . . . . 23 . 29 33 . . Organizations that follow FASB ASC 958, check here 27 12 . . 13,016 1,400,236 . . . 8 . . . . 9 10a Investments—publicly traded securities . (B) End of year 101,192 . Land, buildings, and equipment: cost or other basis. Complete Part VI of Schedule D 11 . 1 13,016 . . 125,234 . . . . . . . . 29 . . 30 31 1,622,446 32 1,625,819 33 1,564,296 1,574,711 Form 990 (2021) �Page 12 Form 990 (2021) Part XI Reconcilliation of Net Assets Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XI . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 Total revenue (must equal Part VIII, column (A), line 12) . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 898,859 2 Total expenses (must equal Part IX, column (A), line 25) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 957,009 3 Revenue less expenses. Subtract line 2 from line 1 4 Net assets or fund balances at beginning of year (must equal Part X, line 32, column (A)) . . 5 Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . 6 Donated services and use of facilities 7 Investment expenses 8 Prior period adjustments 9 Other changes in net assets or fund balances (explain in Schedule O) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 7 . 8 . 9 Net assets or fund balances at end of year. Combine lines 3 through 9 (must equal Part X, line 32, column Part(B)) XII Financial Statements and Reporting . . . 1,622,446 . 10 Check if Schedule O contains a response or note to any line in this Part XII . 58,150 4 5 . . 3 . . . . . . . 10 . . 1,564,296 . . . . Yes 1 Accounting method used to prepare the Form 990: Cash Accrual . No Other If the organization changed its method of accounting from a prior year or checked "Other," explain on Schedule O. 2a Were the organization’s financial statements compiled or reviewed by an independent accountant? 2a No 2b No If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were compiled or reviewed on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis b Were the organization’s financial statements audited by an independent accountant? If ‘Yes,’ check a box below to indicate whether the financial statements for the year were audited on a separate basis, consolidated basis, or both: Separate basis c Consolidated basis Both consolidated and separate basis If "Yes," to line 2a or 2b, does the organization have a committee that assumes responsibility for oversight of the audit, review, or compilation of its financial statements and selection of an independent accountant? 2c If the organization changed either its oversight process or selection process during the tax year, explain in Schedule O. 3a As a result of a federal award, was the organization required to undergo an audit or audits as set forth in the Single Audit Act and OMB Circular A133? 3a b If "Yes," did the organization undergo the required audit or audits? If the organization did not undergo the required audit or audits, explain why in Schedule O and describe any steps taken to undergo such audits. 3b Form 990 (2021) �Form 990 (2021) Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: Form 990, Special Condition Description: Special Condition Description �SCHEDULE A (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Public Charity Status and Public Support 2021 Complete if the organization is a section 501(c)(3) organization or a section 4947(a)(1) nonexempt charitable trust. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Reason for Public Charity Status (All organizations must complete this part.) See instructions. The organization is not a private foundation because it is: (For lines 1 through 12, check only one box.) 1 A church, convention of churches, or association of churches described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(i). 2 A school described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(ii). (Attach Schedule E (Form 990).) 3 A hospital or a cooperative hospital service organization described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). 4 A medical research organization operated in conjunction with a hospital described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iii). Enter the hospital's name, city, and state: 5 An organization operated for the benefit of a college or university owned or operated by a governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(iv). (Complete Part II.) 6 A federal, state, or local government or governmental unit described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(v). 7 An organization that normally receives a substantial part of its support from a governmental unit or from the general public described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 8 A community trust described in section 170(b)(1)(A)(vi). (Complete Part II.) 9 An agricultural research organization described in 170(b)(1)(A)(ix) operated in conjunction with a landgrant college or university or a nonland grant college of agriculture. See instructions. Enter the name, city, and state of the college or university: 10 An organization that normally receives: (1) more than 331/3% of its support from contributions, membership fees, and gross receipts from activities related to its exempt functions—subject to certain exceptions, and (2) no more than 33 1/3% of its support from gross investment income and unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 tax) from businesses acquired by the organization after June 30, 1975. See section 509(a)(2). (Complete Part III.) 11 An organization organized and operated exclusively to test for public safety. See section 509(a)(4). 12 An organization organized and operated exclusively for the benefit of, to perform the functions of, or to carry out the purposes of one or more publicly supported organizations described in section 509(a)(1) or section 509(a)(2). See section 509(a)(3). C h e c k the box on lines 12a through 12d that describes the type of supporting organization and complete lines 12e, 12f, and 12g. a Type I. A supporting organization operated, supervised, or controlled by its supported organization(s), typically by giving the supported organization(s) the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the directors or trustees of the supporting organization. You must complete Part IV, Sections A and B. b Type II. A supporting organization supervised or controlled in connection with its supported organization(s), by having control or management of the supporting organization vested in the same persons that control or manage the supported organization(s). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and C. c Type III functionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with, and functionally integrated with, its supported organization(s) (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A, D, and E. d Type III nonfunctionally integrated. A supporting organization operated in connection with its supported organization(s) that is not functionally integrated. The organization generally must satisfy a distribution requirement and an attentiveness requirement (see instructions). You must complete Part IV, Sections A and D, and Part V. e Check this box if the organization received a written determination from the IRS that it is a Type I, Type II, Type III functionally integrated, or Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organization. f g Enter the number of supported organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Provide the following information about the supported organization(s). (i) Name of supported organization (ii) E I N (iii) Type of organization (described on lines 1 10 above (see instructions)) (iv) Is the organization listed in your governing document? Yes (v) Amount of monetary support (see instructions) (vi) Amount of other support (see instructions) No Total For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 11285F Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Sections 170(b)(1)(A)(iv) and 170(b)(1)(A)(vi) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 5, 7, or 8 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part III. If the organization failed to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part III.) Section A. Public Support Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part II Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grant.") . . 2 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . . 3 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge.. 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 4 Total. Add lines 1 through 3 5 The portion of total contributions by each person (other than a governmental unit or publicly 115,999 supported organization) included on line 1 that exceeds 2% of the amount shown on line 11, column (f) . . 6 Public support. Subtract line 5 from 4,481,529 line 4. Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 834,790 936,077 842,043 1,064,421 920,197 4,597,528 7 Amounts from line 4. . 8 Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on 14 14 securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . . 9 Net income from unrelated business activities, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. . 10 Other income. Do not include gain 728 15,049 9,762 20,353 137,788 93,352 or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.). . 11 Total support. Add lines 7 through 4,504,190 10 12 Gross receipts from related activities, etc. (see instructions) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 351,802 13 First 5 years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, check this box and stop here . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 14 Public support percentage for 2021 (line 6, column (f) divided by line 11, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 Public support percentage for 2020 Schedule A, Part II, line 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 99.500 % 15 71.400 % 16a 33 1/3% support test—2021. If the organization did not check the box on line 13, and line 14 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support test—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 13 or 16a, and line 15 is 33 1/3% or more, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17a 10%factsandcircumstances test—2021. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, or 16b, and line 14 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 10%factsandcircumstances test—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, or 17a, and line 15 is 10% or more, and if the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test, check this box and stop here. Explain in Part VI how the organization meets the "factsandcircumstances" test. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 13, 16a, 16b, 17a, or 17b, check this box and see instructions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part III Support Schedule for Organizations Described in Section 509(a)(2) (Complete only if you checked the box on line 10 of Part I or if the organization failed to qualify under Part II. If the organization fails to qualify under the tests listed below, please complete Part II.) Section A. Public Support Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 1 Gifts, grants, contributions, and membership fees received. (Do not include any "unusual grants.") . 2 Gross receipts from admissions, merchandise sold or services performed, or facilities furnished in any activity that is related to the organization's taxexempt purpose 3 Gross receipts from activities that are not an unrelated trade or business under section 513 . . . . . 4 Tax revenues levied for the organization's benefit and either paid to or expended on its behalf . . . 5 The value of services or facilities furnished by a governmental unit to the organization without charge 6 Total. Add lines 1 through 5 7a Amounts included on lines 1, 2, and 3 received from disqualified persons b Amounts included on lines 2 and 3 received from other than disqualified persons that exceed the greater of $5,000 or 1% of the amount on line 13 for the year. c Add lines 7a and 7b. . 8 Public support. (Subtract line 7c from line 6.) (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total Section B. Total Support Calendar year (a) 2 0 1 7 (b) 2 0 1 8 (c) 2 0 1 9 (d) 2 0 2 0 (e) 2 0 2 1 (f) Total (or fiscal year beginning in) 9 Amounts from line 6. . . 10a Gross income from interest, dividends, payments received on securities loans, rents, royalties and income from similar sources . . b Unrelated business taxable income (less section 511 taxes) from businesses acquired after June 30, 1 9 7 5. c Add lines 10a and 10b. 11 Net income from unrelated business activities not included on line 10b, whether or not the business is regularly carried on. 12 Other income. Do not include gain or loss from the sale of capital assets (Explain in Part VI.) . . 13 Total support. (Add lines 9, 10c, 11, and 12.). . First 5 years. If the Form 990 is for the organization's first, second, third, fourth, or fifth tax year as a section 501(c)(3) organization, 14 check this box and stop here. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Section C. Computation of Public Support Percentage 15 Public support percentage for 2021 (line 8, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . . . . 15 16 Public support percentage from 2020 Schedule A, Part III, line 15 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Section D. Computation of Investment Income Percentage 17 Investment income percentage for 2021 (line 10c, column (f) divided by line 13, column (f)) . . . . . . 17 18 Investment income percentage from 2020 Schedule A, Part III, line 17 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 19a 331/3% support tests—2021. If the organization did not check the box on line 14, and line 15 is more than 33 1/3%, and line 17 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . . . . b 33 1/3% support tests—2020. If the organization did not check a box on line 14 or line 19a, and line 16 is more than 33 1/3% and line 18 is not more than 33 1/3%, check this box and stop here. The organization qualifies as a publicly supported organization . . . . 20 Private foundation. If the organization did not check a box on line 14, 19a, or 19b, check this box and see instructions . . . . Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 4 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part IV Supporting Organizations checked checked box (Complete only if you checked a box on line 12 of Part I. If you checked box 12a, of Part I, complete Sections A and B. If you box 12b, of Part I, complete Sections A and C. If you checked box 12c, of Part I, complete Sections A, D, and E. If you 12d, of Part I, complete Sections A and D, and complete Part V.) Section A. All Supporting Organizations Yes 1 Are all of the organization’s supported organizations listed by name in the organization’s governing documents? If "No," describe in Part VI how the supported organizations are designated. If designated by class or purpose, describe the designation. If historic and continuing relationship, explain. 1 2 Did the organization have any supported organization that does not have an IRS determination of status under section 509(a)(1) or (2)? If "Yes," explain in Part VI how the organization determined that the supported organization was described in section 509(a)(1) or (2). 2 3a Did the organization have a supported organization described in section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6)? If "Yes," answer lines 3b and 3c below. b Did the organization confirm that each supported organization qualified under section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) and satisfied the public support tests under section 509(a)(2)? If "Yes," describe in Part VI when and how the organization made the determination. c Did the organization ensure that all support to such organizations was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes? If "Yes," explain in Part VI what controls the organization put in place to ensure such use. 4a Was any supported organization not organized in the United States ("foreign supported organization")? If “Yes” and if you checked box 12a or 12b in Part I, answer lines 4b and 4c below. b Did the organization have ultimate control and discretion in deciding whether to make grants to the foreign supported organization? If “Yes,” describe in Part VI how the organization had such control and discretion despite being controlled or supervised by or in connection with its supported organizations. c 5a b c Did the organization support any foreign supported organization that does not have an IRS determination under sections 501(c)(3) and 509(a)(1) or (2)? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI what controls the organization used to ensure that all support to the foreign supported organization was used exclusively for section 170(c)(2)(B) purposes. Did the organization add, substitute, or remove any supported organizations during the tax year? If “Yes,” answer lines 5b and 5c below (if applicable). Also, provide detail in Part VI, including (i) the names and EIN numbers of the supported organizations added, substituted, or removed; (ii) the reasons for each such action; (iii) the authority under the organization's organizing document authorizing such action; and (iv) how the action was accomplished (such as by amendment to the organizing document). Type I or Type II only. Was any added or substituted supported organization part of a class already designated in the organization's organizing document? 3a 3b 3c 4a 4b 4c 5a 5b Substitutions only. Was the substitution the result of an event beyond the organization's control? 5c 6 Did the organization provide support (whether in the form of grants or the provision of services or facilities) to anyone other than (i) its supported organizations, (ii) individuals that are part of the charitable class benefited by one or more of its supported organizations, or (iii) other supporting organizations that also support or benefit one or more of the filing organization’s supported organizations? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 6 7 Did the organization provide a grant, loan, compensation, or other similar payment to a substantial contributor (defined in section 4958(c)(3)(C)), a family member of a substantial contributor, or a 35% controlled entity with regard to a substantial contributor? If “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990) . 7 8 Did the organization make a loan to a disqualified person (as defined in section 4958) not described on line 7? I f “Yes,” complete Part I of Schedule L (Form 990). 9a Was the organization controlled directly or indirectly at any time during the tax year by one or more disqualified persons, as defined in section 4946 (other than foundation managers and organizations described in section 509(a) (1) or (2))? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. b Did one or more disqualified persons (as defined on line 9a) hold a controlling interest in any entity in which the supporting organization had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. c Did a disqualified person (as defined on line 9a) have an ownership interest in, or derive any personal benefit from, assets in which the supporting organization also had an interest? If “Yes,” provide detail in Part VI. 10a Was the organization subject to the excess business holdings rules of section 4943 because of section 4943(f) (regarding certain Type II supporting organizations, and all Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations)? If “Yes,” answer line 10b below. b Did the organization have any excess business holdings in the tax year? (Use Schedule C, Form 4720, to determine whether the organization had excess business holdings). No 8 9a 9b 9c 10a 10b Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 5 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part IV 11 Supporting Organizations (continued) Yes No Yes No Yes No Yes No Has the organization accepted a gift or contribution from any of the following persons? a A person who directly or indirectly controls, either alone or together with persons described on lines 11b and 11c below, the governing body of a supported organization? 11a b A family member of a person described on 11a above? 11b c A 35% controlled entity of a person described on line 11a or 11b above? If “Yes” to 11a, 11b, or 11c, provide detail in Part VI. 11c Section B. Type I Supporting Organizations 1 Did the officers, directors, trustees, or membership of one or more supported organizations have the power to regularly appoint or elect at least a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees at all times during the tax year? If “No,” describe in Part VI how the supported organization(s) effectively operated, supervised, or controlled the organization’s activities. If the organization had more than one supported organization, describe how the powers to appoint and/or remove directors or trustees were allocated among the supported organizations and what conditions or restrictions, if any, applied to such powers during the tax year. 2 Did the organization operate for the benefit of any supported organization other than the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised, or controlled the supporting organization? If “Yes,” explain in Part VI how providing such benefit carried out the purposes of the supported organization(s) that operated, supervised or controlled the supporting organization. 1 2 Section C. Type II Supporting Organizations 1 Were a majority of the organization’s directors or trustees during the tax year also a majority of the directors or trustees of each of the organization’s supported organization(s)? If “No,” describe in Part VI how control or management of the supporting organization was vested in the same persons that controlled or managed the supported organization(s). 1 Section D. All Type III Supporting Organizations 1 Did the organization provide to each of its supported organizations, by the last day of the fifth month of the organization’s tax year, (i) a written notice describing the type and amount of support provided during the prior tax year, (ii) a copy of the Form 990 that was most recently filed as of the date of notification, and (iii) copies of the organization’s governing documents in effect on the date of notification, to the extent not previously provided? 2 Were any of the organization’s officers, directors, or trustees either (i) appointed or elected by the supported organization(s) or (ii) serving on the governing body of a supported organization? If "No," explain in Part VI how the organization maintained a close and continuous working relationship with the supported organization(s). 3 By reason of the relationship described in line 2 above, did the organization’s supported organizations have a significant voice in the organization’s investment policies and in directing the use of the organization’s income or assets at all times during the tax year? If "Yes," describe in Part VI the role the organization’s supported organizations played in this regard. 1 2 3 Section E. Type III FunctionallyIntegrated Supporting Organizations 1 2 Check the box next to the method that the organization used to satisfy the Integral Part Test during the year (see instructions): a The organization satisfied the Activities Test. Complete line 2 below. b The organization is the parent of each of its supported organizations. Complete line 3 below. c The organization supported a governmental entity. Describe in Part VI how you supported a government entity (see instructions) Activities Test. Answer lines 2a and 2b below. Yes a Did substantially all of the organization’s activities during the tax year directly further the exempt purposes of the supported organization(s) to which the organization was responsive? If "Yes," then in Part VI identify those supported organizations and explain how these activities directly furthered their exempt purposes, how the organization was responsive to those supported organizations, and how the organization determined that these activities constituted substantially all of its activities. b Did the activities described on line 2a, above constitute activities that, but for the organization’s involvement, one or more of the organization’s supported organization(s) would have been engaged in? If "Yes," explain in Part VI the reasons for the organization’s position that its supported organization(s) would have engaged in these activities but for the organization’s involvement. 3 No 2a 2b Parent of Supported Organizations. Answer lines 3a and 3b below. a Did the organization have the power to regularly appoint or elect a majority of the officers, directors, or trustees of each of the supported organizations?If "Yes" or "No", provide details in Part VI. b Did the organization exercise a substantial degree of direction over the policies, programs and activities of each of its supported organizations? If "Yes," describe in Part VI. the role played by the organization in this regard. 3a 3b Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 6 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Organizations 1 Check here if the organization satisfied the Integral Part Test as a qualifying trust on Nov. 20, 1970 (explain in Part VI). See instructions. All other Type III nonfunctionally integrated supporting organizations must complete Sections A through E. Section A Adjusted Net Income 1 Net shortterm capital gain 1 2 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 2 3 Other gross income (see instructions) 3 4 Add lines 1 through 3 4 5 Depreciation and depletion 5 6 Portion of operating expenses paid or incurred for production or collection of gross income or for management, conservation, or maintenance of property held for production of income (see instructions) 6 7 Other expenses (see instructions) 7 8 Adjusted Net Income (subtract lines 5, 6 and 7 from line 4) 8 Section B Minimum Asset Amount 1 Aggregate fair market value of all nonexemptuse assets (see instructions for short tax year or assets held for part of year): (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) (A) Prior Year (B) Current Year (optional) 1 a Average monthly value of securities 1a b Average monthly cash balances 1b c Fair market value of other nonexemptuse assets 1c d Total (add lines 1a, 1b, and 1c) 1d e Discount claimed for blockage or other factors (explain in detail in Part VI): 2 Acquisition indebtedness applicable to nonexempt use assets 2 3 Subtract line 2 from line 1d 3 4 Cash deemed held for exempt use. Enter 0.015 of line 3 (for greater amount, see instructions). 4 5 Net value of nonexemptuse assets (subtract line 4 from line 3) 5 6 Multiply line 5 by 0.035 6 7 Recoveries of prioryear distributions 7 8 Minimum Asset Amount (add line 7 to line 6) 8 Current Year Section C Distributable Amount 1 Adjusted net income for prior year (from Section A, line 8, Column A) 1 2 Enter 85% of line 1 2 3 Minimum asset amount for prior year (from Section B, line 8, Column A) 3 4 Enter greater of line 2 or line 3 4 5 Income tax imposed in prior year 5 6 Distributable Amount. Subtract line 5 from line 4, unless subject to emergency temporary reduction (see instructions) 6 7 Check here if the current year is the organization's first as a nonfunctionallyintegrated Type III supporting organization (see instructions) Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Page 7 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part V Type III NonFunctionally Integrated 509(a)(3) Supporting Section DOrganizations Distributions 1 (continued) Current Year Amounts paid to supported organizations to accomplish exempt purposes 1 2 Amounts paid to perform activity that directly furthers exempt purposes of supported organizations, in excess of income from activity 2 3 Administrative expenses paid to accomplish exempt purposes of supported organizations 3 4 Amounts paid to acquire exemptuse assets 4 5 Qualified setaside amounts (prior IRS approval required provide details in Part VI) 5 6 Other distributions (describe in Part VI). See instructions 6 7 Total annual distributions. Add lines 1 through 6. 7 8 Distributions to attentive supported organizations to which the organization is responsive (provide details in Part VI). See instructions 8 9 9 Distributable amount for 2021 from Section C, line 6 10 Line 8 amount divided by Line 9 amount Section E Distribution Allocations (see instructions) 10 (i) Excess Distributions (ii) Underdistributions Pre2021 (iii) Distributable Amount for 2021 1 Distributable amount for 2021 from Section C, line 6 2 Underdistributions, if any, for years prior to 2021 (reasonable cause required explain in Part VI ). See instructions. 3 Excess distributions carryover, if any, to 2021: a From 2016. . . . . . b From 2017. . . . . . . c From 2018. . . . . . . d From 2019. . . . . . . e . . . . . . From 2020. . f Total of lines 3a through e g Applied to underdistributions of prior years h Applied to 2021 distributable amount i Carryover from 2016 not applied (see instructions) j Remainder. Subtract lines 3g, 3h, and 3i from line 3f. 4 Distributions for 2021 from Section D, line 7: $ a Applied to underdistributions of prior years b Applied to 2021 distributable amount c Remainder. Subtract lines 4a and 4b from line 4. 5 Remaining underdistributions for years prior to 2021, if any. Subtract lines 3g and 4a from line 2. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI . See instructions. 6 Remaining underdistributions for 2021. Subtract lines 3h and 4b from line 1. If the amount is greater than zero, explain in Part VI. See instructions. 7 Excess distributions carryover to 2022. Add lines 3j and 4c. 8 Breakdown of line 7: a Excess from 2017. . . . b Excess from 2018. . . . . c Excess from 2019. . . . . d Excess from 2020. . . . . e . . . . Excess from 2021. . Schedule A (Form 990) (2021) �Page 8 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 Part VI Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part II, line 10; Part II, line 17a or 17b; Part III, line 12; Part IV, Section A, lines 1, 2, 3b, 3c, 4b, 4c, 5a, 6, 9a, 9b, 9c, 11a, 11b, and 11c; Part IV, Section B, lines 1 and 2; Part IV, Section C, line 1; Part IV, Section D, lines 2 and 3; Part IV, Section E, lines 1c, 2a, 2b, 3a and 3b; Part V, line 1; Part V, Section B, line 1e; Part V Section D, lines 5, 6, and 8; and Part V, Section E, lines 2, 5, and 6. Also complete this part for any additional information. (See instructions). Facts And Circumstances Test Return Reference PART II, LINE 10 Explanation 93,352 Schedule A (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �Political Campaign and Lobbying Activities OMB No. 15450047 For Organizations Exempt From Income Tax Under section 501(c) and section 527 2021 Complete if the organization is described below. Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Open to Public Inspection SCHEDULE C (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 3, or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 46 (Political Campaign Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations: Complete Parts IA and B. Do not complete Part IC. Section 501(c) (other than section 501(c)(3)) organizations: Complete Parts IA and C below. Do not complete Part IB. Section 527 organizations: Complete Part IA only. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 4, or Form 990EZ, Part VI, line 47 (Lobbying Activities), then Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIA. Do not complete Part IIB. Section 501(c)(3) organizations that have NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)): Complete Part IIB. Do not complete Part IIA. If the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, Line 5 (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions) or Form 990EZ, Part V, line 35c (Proxy Tax) (see separate instructions), then Section 501(c)(4), (5), or (6) organizations: Complete Part III. Name of the organization Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part IA Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c) or is a section 527 organization. 1 Provide a description of the organization’s direct and indirect political campaign activities in Part IV. See instructions for definition of “political campaign activities." 2 Political campaign activity expenditures. See instructions .................................................................... 3 Volunteer hours for political campaign activities. See instructions .................................................................. Part IB $ Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by the organization under section 4955 ................................ $ 2 Enter the amount of any excise tax incurred by organization managers under section 4955 ....................... $ 3 If the organization incurred a section 4955 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ......................................... Yes No 4a Was a correction made? ...................................................................................................................... Yes No b If "Yes," describe in Part IV. Part IC Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c), except section 501(c)(3). 1 Enter the amount directly expended by the filing organization for section 527 exempt function activities ..... $ 2 Enter the amount of the filing organization's funds contributed to other organizations for section 527 exempt function activities ............................................................................................................................ $ 3 Total exempt function expenditures. Add lines 1 and 2. Enter here and on Form 1120POL, line 17b........... $ 4 Did the filing organization file Form 1120POL for this year? ................................................................... 5 Enter the names, addresses and employer identification number (EIN) of all section 527 political organizations to which the filing organization made payments. For each organization listed, enter the amount paid from the filing organization’s funds. Also enter the amount of political contributions received that were promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization, such as a separate segregated fund or a political action committee (PAC). If additional space is needed, provide information in Part IV. (a) N a m e (b) A d d r e s s (c) E I N Yes No (d) Amount paid from (e) Amount of filing organization's political contributions funds. If none, enter received and 0. promptly and directly delivered to a separate political organization. If none, enter 0. 1 2 3 4 5 6 For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 50084S Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 Part IIA A Check Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). if the filing organization belongs to an affiliated group (and list in Part IV each affiliated group member's name, address, EIN, expenses, and share of excess lobbying expenditures). B Check if the filing organization checked box A and "limited control" provisions apply. Limits on Lobbying Expenditures (The term "expenditures" means amounts paid or incurred.) 1a Total lobbying expenditures to influence public opinion (grass roots lobbying) ...................... b Total lobbying expenditures to influence a legislative body (direct lobbying) ........................ c Total lobbying expenditures (add lines 1a and 1b) ............................................................ d Other exempt purpose expenditures ............................................................................... e Total exempt purpose expenditures (add lines 1c and 1d) .................................................. f Lobbying nontaxable amount. Enter the amount from the following table in both columns. If the amount on line 1e, column (a) or (b) is: The lobbying nontaxable amount is: Not over $500,000 20% of the amount on line 1e. Over $500,000 but not over $1,000,000 $100,000 plus 15% of the excess over $500,000. Over $1,000,000 but not over $1,500,000 $175,000 plus 10% of the excess over $1,000,000. Over $1,500,000 but not over $17,000,000 $225,000 plus 5% of the excess over $1,500,000. Over $17,000,000 $1,000,000. (a) Filing organization's totals g Grassroots nontaxable amount (enter 25% of line 1f) ................................................. h Subtract line 1g from line 1a. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ i Subtract line 1f from line 1c. If zero or less, enter 0. ................................................ j If there is an amount other than zero on either line 1h or line 1i, did the organization file Form 4720 reporting section 4911 tax for this year? ................................................................................................................... (b) Affiliated group totals Yes No 4Year Averaging Period Under Section 501(h) (Some organizations that made a section 501(h) election do not have to complete all of the five columns below. See the separate instructions for lines 2a through 2f.) Lobbying Expenditures During 4Year Averaging Period Calendar year (or fiscal year beginning in) 2a Lobbying nontaxable amount b Lobbying ceiling amount (150% of line 2a, column(e)) c Total lobbying expenditures d Grassroots nontaxable amount e Grassroots ceiling amount (150% of line 2d, column (e)) f Grassroots lobbying expenditures (a) 2 0 1 8 (b) 2 0 1 9 (c) 2 0 2 0 (d) 2 0 2 1 (e) Total Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 Part IIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(3) and has NOT filed Form 5768 (election under section 501(h)). For each "Yes" response on lines 1a through 1i below, provide in Part IV a detailed description of the lobbying activity. (a) (b) Yes | No Amount During the year, did the filing organization attempt to influence foreign, national, state or local legislation, including any attempt to influence public opinion on a legislative matter or referendum, through the use of: 1 a Volunteers? ........................................................................................................... Yes b Paid staff or management (include compensation in expenses reported on lines 1c through 1i)? ........ Yes c Media advertisements? ................................................................................................... No d Mailings to members, legislators, or the public? ............................................................................. No e Publications, or published or broadcast statements? ........................................................... No f Grants to other organizations for lobbying purposes? .......................................................... No g Direct contact with legislators, their staffs, government officials, or a legislative body? ....................... No h Rallies, demonstrations, seminars, conventions, speeches, lectures, or any similar means? .................. No i Other activities? ................................................................................................................... No j Total. Add lines 1c through 1i .................................................................................................... 2a Did the activities in line 1 cause the organization to be not described in section 501(c)(3)? ..... b If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred under section 4912 ........................................... c If "Yes," enter the amount of any tax incurred by organization managers under section 4912 ................... d If the filing organization incurred a section 4912 tax, did it file Form 4720 for this year? ........................ Part IIIA No Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6). Yes 1 Were substantially all (90% or more) dues received nondeductible by members? ............................................... 1 2 Did the organization make only inhouse lobbying expenditures of $2,000 or less? ............................................ 2 3 Did the organization agree to carry over lobbying and political expenditures from the prior year? ................................. 3 Part IIIB Complete if the organization is exempt under section 501(c)(4), section 501(c)(5), or section 501(c)(6) and if either (a) BOTH Part IIIA, lines 1 and 2, are answered "No" OR (b) Part IIIA, line 3, is answered “Yes." 1 Dues, assessments and similar amounts from members ...................................................................... 2 Section 162(e) nondeductible lobbying and political expenditures (do not include amounts of political expenses for which the section 527(f) tax was paid). a b Current year ............................................................................................................................. Carryover from last year ............................................................................................................ 2a c Total ........................................................................................................................................... 2c 3 Aggregate amount reported in section 6033(e)(1)(A) notices of nondeductible section 162(e) dues . 3 4 If notices were sent and the amount on line 2c exceeds the amount on line 3, what portion of the excess does the organization agree to carryover to the reasonable estimate of nondeductible lobbying and political expenditure next year? ...................................................................................................................... 4 5 Taxable amount of lobbying and political expenditures. See Instructions ......................................... 5 Part IV No 1 2b Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part lA, line 1; Part lB, line 4; Part lC, line 5; Part IIA (affiliated group list); Part IIA, lines 1 and 2 (see instructions), and Part llB, line 1. Also, complete this part for any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule C (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE D Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Financial Statements (Form 990) 2021 Complete if the organization answered "Yes," on Form 990, Part IV, line 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11a, 11b, 11c, 11d, 11e, 11f, 12a, or 12b. Attach to Form 990. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Part I Organizations Maintaining Donor Advised Funds or Other Similar Funds or Accounts. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 6. (a) Donor advised funds (b) Funds and other accounts 1 Total number at end of year . . . . . . . . . 2 Aggregate value of contributions to (during year) 3 Aggregate value of grants from (during year) 4 Aggregate value at end of year . . . . . . . . 5 Did the organization inform all donors and donor advisors in writing that the assets held in donor advised funds are the organization’s property, subject to the organization’s exclusive legal control? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Did the organization inform all grantees, donors, and donor advisors in writing that grant funds can be used only for charitable purposes and not for the benefit of the donor or donor advisor, or for any other purpose conferring impermissible private benefit? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Part II 1 Conservation Easements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 7. Purpose(s) of conservation easements held by the organization (check all that apply). Preservation of land for public use (e.g., recreation or education) Preservation of an historically important land area Protection of natural habitat Preservation of a certified historic structure Preservation of open space 2 Complete lines 2a through 2d if the organization held a qualified conservation contribution in the form of a conservation easement on the last day of the tax year. Held at the End of the Year a Total number of conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2a b Total acreage restricted by conservation easements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2b c Number of conservation easements on a certified historic structure included in (a) . . . . . 2c d Number of conservation easements included in (c) acquired after 7/25/06, and not on a historic structure listed in the National Register . . . 2d 3 Number of conservation easements modified, transferred, released, extinguished, or terminated by the organization during the tax year 4 Number of states where property subject to conservation easement is located 5 Does the organization have a written policy regarding the periodic monitoring, inspection, handling of violations, and enforcement of the conservation easements it holds? . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No 6 Staff and volunteer hours devoted to monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year 7 Amount of expenses incurred in monitoring, inspecting, handling of violations, and enforcing conservation easements during the year $ 8 Does each conservation easement reported on line 2(d) above satisfy the requirements of section 170(h)(4) (B)(i) and section 170(h)(4)(B)(ii)? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Yes No In Part XIII, describe how the organization reports conservation easements in its revenue and expense statement, and balance sheet, and include, if applicable, the text of the footnote to the organization’s financial statements that describes the organization’s accounting for conservation easements. Part III Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 8. 1a If the organization elected, as permitted under FASB ASC 958, not to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide, in Part XIII, the text of the footnote to its financial statements that describes these items. b If the organization elected, as permitted under FASB ASC 958, to report in its revenue statement and balance sheet works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets held for public exhibition, education, or research in furtherance of public service, provide the following amounts relating to these items: (i) Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ (ii) Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ If the organization received or held works of art, historical treasures, or other similar assets for financial gain, provide the following amounts required to be reported under FASB ASC 958 relating to these items: 2 a Revenue included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ b Assets included in Form 990, Part X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . $ For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990. Cat. No. 52283D Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 2 Organizations Maintaining Collections of Art, Historical Treasures, or Other Similar Assets (continued) Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part III 3 a Using the organization’s acquisition, accession, and other records, check any of the following that are a significant use of its collection items (check all that apply): d Public exhibition Loan or exchange programs b e Scholarly research c Other Preservation for future generations 4 Provide a description of the organization’s collections and explain how they further the organization’s exempt purpose in Part XIII. 5 During the year, did the organization solicit or receive donations of art, historical treasures or other similar assets to be sold to raise funds rather than to be maintained as part of the organization’s collection?. . . Part IV 1a Is the organization an agent, trustee, custodian or other intermediary for contributions or other assets not included on Form 990, Part X? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII and complete the following table: c Beginning balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1c d Additions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1d e Distributions during the year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1e f Ending balance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1f b No Yes Did the organization include an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21, for escrow or custodial account liability? . . . If "Yes," explain the arrangement in Part XIII. Check here if the explanation has been provided in Part XIII Part V No Amount b 2a Yes Escrow and Custodial Arrangements. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 9, or reported an amount on Form 990, Part X, line 21. Yes No . . . . Endowment Funds. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 10. (a) Current year 1a Beginning of year balance b Contributions . . . . . (b) Prior year (c) Two years back (d) Three years back (e) Four years back 75,601 61,989 50,752 94,420 67,200 55,124 13,612 11,249 8,968 6,509 20,477 75,601 62,001 103,388 73,709 . . c Net investment earnings, gains, and losses d Grants or scholarships . . . e Other expenditures for facilities and programs . . . f Administrative expenses g End of year balance 2 . . . . . . . . . . Provide the estimated percentage of the current year end balance (line 1g, column (a)) held as: a Board designated or quasiendowment b Permanent endowment c Term endowment 100.000 % The percentages on lines 2a, 2b, and 2c should equal 100%. 3a Are there endowment funds not in the possession of the organization that are held and administered for the organization by: (i) Unrelated organizations b 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (ii) Related organizations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes" on 3a(ii), are the related organizations listed as required on Schedule R? . . . . . . . . . . Yes . 3a(i) No Yes 3a(ii) . No 3b Describe in Part XIII the intended uses of the organization's endowment funds. Part VI Land, Buildings, and Equipment. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11a. See Form 990, Part X, line 10. (a) Cost or other basis (investment) Description of property 1a Land . . b Buildings . . . . (b) Cost or other basis (other) (c) Accumulated depreciation (d) Book value 2,015,807 630,855 1,384,952 197,537 182,253 15,284 . . . c Leasehold improvements d Equipment e Other . . . . . . . . . Total. Add lines 1a through 1e. (Column (d) must equal Form 990, Part X, column (B), line 10(c).) . . 1,400,236 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 3 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part VII Investments Other Securities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 11b.See Form 990, Part X, line 12. (a) Description of security or category (including name of security) (1) Financial derivatives . (2) Closelyheld equity interests (b) Book value . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (3)Other (A) (B) (C) (D) (E) (F) (G) (H) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col. (B) line 12.) Part VIII Investments Program Related. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11c. See Form 990, Part X, line 13. (a) Description of investment (b) Book value (c) Method of valuation: Cost or endofyear market value (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 13.) Part IX Other Assets. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11d. See Form 990, Part X, line 15. (a) Description (b) Book value (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 15.) Part X . . . . . . . . . . . Other Liabilities. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 11e or 11f. See Form 990, Part X, line 25. 1. (a) Description of liability (b) Book value (1) Federal income taxes (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) Total. (Column (b) must equal Form 990, Part X, col.(B) line 25.) 2. Liability for uncertain tax positions. In Part XIII, provide the text of the footnote to the organization's financial statements that reports the organization's liability for uncertain tax positions under FIN 48 (ASC 740). Check here if the text of the footnote has been provided in Part XIII Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Page 4 Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 Part XI Reconciliation of Revenue per Audited Financial Statements With Revenue per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total revenue, gains, and other support per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12: . . a Net unrealized gains (losses) on investments . . . . b Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . . 2b c Recoveries of prior year grants . . . . . . . . . 2c d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e Add lines 2a through 2d . . . . . . . 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 12, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . . . c Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . . 2e 3 4b . . . . . . . . . 4c . . . 5 Reconciliation of Expenses per Audited Financial Statements With Expenses per Return. Complete if the organization answered 'Yes' on Form 990, Part IV, line 12a. 1 Total expenses and losses per audited financial statements 2 Amounts included on line 1 but not on Form 990, Part IX, line 25: . . a Donated services and use of facilities . . . . . . . . b Prior year adjustments . . . . . . . . c Other losses d Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . e . 4a Total revenue. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 12.) Part XII 1 2a . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 2a 2b . . 2c 2d . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2e 3 Subtract line 2e from line 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 4 Amounts included on Form 990, Part IX, line 25, but not on line 1: a Investment expenses not included on Form 990, Part VIII, line 7b . . 4a b Other (Describe in Part XIII.) . . . . . . . . . 4b c 5 Add lines 2a through 2d . . . Add lines 4a and 4b . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Total expenses. Add lines 3 and 4c. (This must equal Form 990, Part I, line 18.) . . . . . . . . 4c . . 5 Part XIII Supplemental Information Provide the descriptions required for Part II, lines 3, 5, and 9; Part III, lines 1a and 4; Part lV, lines 1b and 2b; Part V, line 4; Part X, line 2; Part XI, lines 2d and 4b; and Part XII, lines 2d and 4b. Also complete this part to provide any additional information. Return Reference Explanation Schedule D (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �OMB No. 15450047 Supplemental Information Regarding Fundraising or Gaming Activities SCHEDULE G (Form 990) 2021 Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, lines 17, 18, or 19, or if the organization entered more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Open to Public Inspection Attach to Form 990 or Form 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for instructions and the latest information. Name of the organization OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC Employer identification number 731300864 Part I 1 Fundraising Activities. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 17. Form 990EZ filers are not required to complete this part. Indicate whether the organization raised funds through any of the following activities. Check all that apply. a Mail solicitations b c d Inperson solicitations 2a e Solicitation of nongovernment grants Internet and email solicitations f Solicitation of government grants Phone solicitations g Special fundraising events b Did the organization have a written or oral agreement with any individual (including officers, directors, trustees or key employees listed in Form 990, Part VII) or entity in connection with professional fundraising Yes No services? If "Yes," list the 10 highest paid individuals or entities (fundraisers) pursuant to agreements under which the fundraiser is to be compensated at least $5,000 by the organization. (i) Name and address of individual or entity (fundraiser) (ii) Activity 1 (iii) Did fundraiser have custody or control of contributions? Yes No (iv) Gross receipts from activity (v) Amount paid to (or retained by) fundraiser listed in col. (i) (vi) Amount paid to (or retained by) organization GRANT WRIT DONNA MATTHEWS DONNA MATTHEWS 3718 S TOLEDO AVE 3718 S TOLEDO AVE T U L S A, O K 7 4 1 3 5 No 27,979 27,979 27,979 27,979 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Total . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 List all states in which the organization is registered or licensed to solicit contributions or has been notified it is exempt from registration or licensing. OK For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 50083H Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 �Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 Part II Page 2 Fundraising Events. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 18, or reported more than $15,000 of fundraising event contributions and gross income on Form 990EZ, lines 1 and 6b. List events with gross receipts greater than $5,000. 1 Gross receipts . (c)Other events EQUALITY GALA (event type) PRIDE FESTIVAL (event type) 1 (total number) . 353,950 177,027 2 Less: Contributions . . . 3 Gross income (line 1 minus line 2) . . . . . . 274,350 78,250 79,600 98,777 . . (b) Event #2 . 4 Cash prizes . (a)Event #1 . . . . . 5 Noncash prizes . . . . 6 Rent/facility costs . . . . . . . 7 Food and beverages 8 Entertainment . . 9 Other direct expenses . . 539,023 352,600 8,046 186,423 1,075 120,930 . 5,619 62,737 62,737 18,149 139,079 79,193 79,193 51,230 6,521 63,370 10 Direct expense summary. Add lines 4 through 9 in column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 345,454 11 Net income summary. Subtract line 10 from line 3, column (d) . . . . . . . . . . 159,031 Part III Gaming. Complete if the organization answered "Yes" on Form 990, Part IV, line 19, or reported more than $15,000 on Form 990EZ, line 6a. (b) Pull tabs/Instant bingo/progressive bingo (a) Bingo 1 Gross revenue . . . . . 2 Cash prizes . . . . 3 Noncash prizes . . . . 4 Rent/facility costs . . . . 5 Other direct expenses . . . . Yes 6 Volunteer labor . . . . % Yes No 7 Direct expense summary. Add lines 2 through 5 in column (d) 9 8,046 1,075 . . (d) Total events (add col. (a) through col. (c)) % Yes No . (d) Total gaming (add col.(a) through col.(c)) (c) Other gaming % No . . . . . . . . . 8 Net gaming income summary. Subtract line 7 from line 1, column (d) . . . . . . . . . Enter the state(s) in which the organization conducts gaming activities: a b 10a b . . . Yes No Were any of the organization's gaming licenses revoked, suspended or terminated during the tax year? . If "Yes," explain: . . Yes No Is the organization licensed to conduct gaming activities in each of these states? . If "No," explain: . . . . Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 �Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 11 Page 3 12 Does the organization conduct gaming activities with nonmembers? . . . . . . . . . . Is the organization a grantor, beneficiary or trustee of a trust or a member of a partnership or other entity formed to administer charitable gaming? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Indicate the percentage of gaming activity conducted in: a The organization's facility . . . . b An outside facility . . . . 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Yes No Yes No . . 13a % . . 13b % Enter the name and address of the person who prepares the organization's gaming/special events books and records: Name Address 15a b Does the organization have a contract with a third party from whom the organization receives gaming revenue? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . If "Yes," enter the amount of gaming revenue received by the organization amount of gaming revenue retained by the third party c $ $ . . Yes No Yes No and the . If "Yes," enter name and address of the third party: Name Address 16 Gaming manager information: Name Gaming manager compensation $ Description of services provided Director/officer 17 a Independent contractor Mandatory distributions: Is the organization required under state law to make charitable distributions from the gaming proceeds to retain the state gaming license? b Employee . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Enter the amount of distributions required under state law distributed to other exempt organizations or spent in the organization's own exempt activities during the tax year Part IV $ Supplemental Information. Provide the explanations required by Part I, line 2b, columns (iii) and (v); and Part III, lines 9, 9b, 10b, 15b, 15c, 16, and 17b, as applicable. Also provide any additional information. See instructions. Return Reference Explanation Schedule G (Form 990) 2021 Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: �SCHEDULE O (Form 990) Department of the Treasury Internal Revenue Service Supplemental Information to Form 990 or 990EZ Complete to provide information for responses to specific questions on Form 990 or 990EZ or to provide any additional information. Attach to Form 990 or 990EZ. Go to www.irs.gov/Form990 for the latest information. Name of the organization OMB No. 15450047 2021 Open to Public Inspection Employer identification number OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY INC 731300864 Return Reference Explanation FORM 990, PAGE 2, PART III, LINE 4A MINORITY COMMUNITY CENTER OPERATION, CULTURAL AND EDUCATION PROGRAMS AND EVENT FACILITATION INCLUDING: COUNSELING AND WELLNESS PROGRAMS. PROVIDING FREE LICENSED MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING SERVICES. MORE THAN 30 PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS DEALING WITH POST TRAUMATIC STRESS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE, DEPRESSION, EATING DISORDERS, GRIEF RECOVERY, TRANSGENDER ISSUES, DIVORCE AND RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, AND HEALTH CHALLENGES. TRANSGENDER SERVICES AND PROGRAMS: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS AND LIMITED MEDICAL SERVICES, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES AND 5 DIFFERENT PEER LED SUPPORT GROUPS FOR INDIVIDUALS AND THEIR FAMILIES WHO IDENTIFTY AS TRANSGENDER. LGBT OLDER ADULT PROGRAM: PROVIDING MEDICAL REFERRALS, MENTAL HEALTH REFERRALS, LEGAL SERVICES, WEEKLY CHECK INS, ADVOCATING FOR THOSE LIVING IN ASSISTED LIVING CENTERS, AND SOCIAL PROGRAMMING FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENDER SENIOR ADULTS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 5 AN APPARENT EMBEZZLEMENT HAS BEEN DISCOVERED AFTER YEAR END OF 9/30/21. THE AMOUNT IS BELIEVED TO BE 14,758. AN IVESTIGATION IS IN PROGRESS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 6 PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 7A PERSONS WHO MAKE MINIMUM LEVEL OF CONTRIBUTION ARE ELIGIBLE TO VOTE ON MATTERS THAT COME BEFORE THE ANNUAL MEETING INCLUDING ELECTING MEMBERS TO THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 11B FORM 990 IS CIRCULATED FOR REVIEW BY MEMBERS OF THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 12C DIRECTORS ARE REQUIRED TO MAKE FULL DISCLOSURE OF POTENTIAL AND ACTUAL CONFLICTS OF INTEREST AND RECUSE FROM ISSUES AS NECESSARY. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 15A OKLAHOMA CENTER FOR NONPROFITS PROVIDED COMPENSATION DATA. FORM 990, PAGE 6, PART VI, LINE 19 GUIDESTAR.COM AND IN OFFICE AVAILABLE FOR MEMBERS TO READ AND TO COPY AS WELL AS ELECTRONICALLY. For Paperwork Reduction Act Notice, see the Instructions for Form 990 or 990EZ. Cat. No. 51056K Schedule O (Form 990) 2021 �Additional Data Return to Form Software ID: Software Version: � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2014-2021] OKEQ 990 Tax Return Forms Subject The topic of the resource Form 990 Return of Organization Exempt From Income Tax From 2014-2021 for Oklahomans for Equality Description An account of the resource 8 documents of 990 tax forms filed by Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the years 2014 to 2021. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://okeq.org/bylaws/ Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 2014 - 2021 2014 2015 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 2021 990 Tax Forms Financial OkEq Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) tax forms Taxes https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/931ca8ee760f61e0ca774790cf7a08b6.pdf 04313a6cf8c4c3141058993dc2a9d086 PDF Text Text FINANCIAL STATEMENTS AND ACCOMPANYING INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS FOR 2023 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. TABLE OF CONTENTS PAGE Board of Directors .............................................................................................................................. 3 Independent Auditor’s Report ......................................................................................................... 4-5 Financial Statements Statements of Financial Position .......................................................................................... 6 Statements of Activities ........................................................................................................ 7 Statements of Functional Expenses....................................................................................... 8 Statements of Cash Flows .....................................................................................................9 Notes to the Financial Statements ................................................................................. 10-15 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. BOARD OF DIRECTORS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 Whitney Cipolla Paula Shannon Kaylyn Compton Liz Ortiz Eddie Carreno William Mark Bonney Yonah Jasper Julia Fletcher Grace Fallon Stephen Haney Kasey Rhone Zoe Brett Lollie Moore President Vice-President/Treasurer Secretary Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member Member at large 3 �124 S. Main Street, Miami, Oklahoma 74354 6 South Adair, Pryor, Oklahoma 74361 918-542-4401 INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT Senior Management and Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Tulsa, Oklahoma OPINION We have audited the accompanying financial statements of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (a nonprofit organization), which comprise the statements of financial position as of September 30, 2024, and the related statements of activities, statements of functional expenses, and cash flows for the year then ended, and the related notes to the financial statements. In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the financial position of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. as of September 30, 2024, and the changes in its net assets and its cash flows for the year then ended in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America. BASIS FOR OPINION We conducted our audit in accordance with auditing standards generally accepted in the United States of America (GAAS). Our responsibilities under those standards are further described in the Auditor's Responsibilities for the Audit of the Financial Statements section of our report. We are required to be independent of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. and to meet our other ethical responsibilities, in accordance with the relevant ethical requirements relating to our audit. We believe that the audit evidence we have obtained is sufficient and appropriate to provide a basis for our audit opinions. RESPONSIBILITIES OF MANAGEMENT FOR THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Management is responsible for the preparation and fair presentation of the financial statements in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, and for the design, implementation, and maintenance of internal control relevant to the preparation and fair presentation of financial statements that are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error. In preparing the financial statements, management is required to evaluate whether there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.'s ability to continue as a going concern within one year after the date that the financial statements are available to be issued. AUDITOR’S RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THE AUDIT OF THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Our objectives are to obtain reasonable assurance about whether the financial statements as a whole are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error, and to issue an auditor’s report that includes our opinion. Reasonable assurance is a high level of assurance but is not absolute assurance and therefore is not a guarantee that an audit conducted in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards will always detect a material misstatement when it exists. The risk of not detecting a material misstatement resulting from fraud is higher than for one resulting from error, as fraud may involve collusion, forgery, intentional omissions, misrepresentations, or the override of internal control. Misstatements are considered material if there is a substantial likelihood that, 4 �To the Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Page 2 individually or in the aggregate, they would influence the judgment made by a reasonable user based on the financial statements. In performing an audit in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards, we:  Exercise professional judgment and maintain professional skepticism throughout the audit.  Identify and assess the risks of material misstatement of the financial statements, whether due to fraud or error, and design and perform audit procedures responsive to those risks. Such procedures include examining, on a test basis, evidence regarding the amounts and disclosures in the financial statements.  Obtain an understanding of internal control relevant to the audit in order to design audit procedures that are appropriate in the circumstances, but not for the purpose of expressing an opinion on the effectiveness of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s internal control. Accordingly, no such opinion is expressed.  Evaluate the appropriateness of accounting policies used and the reasonableness of significant accounting estimates made by management, as well as evaluate the overall presentation of the financial statements.  Conclude whether, in our judgment, there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s ability to continue as a going concern for a reasonable period of time. We are required to communicate with those charged with governance regarding, among other matters, the planned scope and timing of the audit, significant audit findings, and certain internal control related matters that we identified during the audit. REPORT ON SUMMARIZED COMPARATIVE INFORMATION We have previously audited Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s 2023 financial statements, and we expressed an unmodified audit opinion on those audited financial statements, in our report dated December 22, 2023. In our opinion, the summarized comparative information presented herein, as of and for the year ended September 30, 2023, is consistent, in all material respects, with the audited financial statements from which it has been derived. OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC Miami, Oklahoma May 7, 2025 5 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF FINANCIAL POSITION AS OF SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 Assets Current Assets: Cash and cash equivalents Cash and cash equivalents - restricted Investments held by others Inventory Prepaid insurance Other assets Total Current Assets $ Noncurrent Assets: Furniture and Fixtures Buildings and Improvements Computers and Software Less: Accumulated Depreciation Total Noncurrent Assets Total Assets $ Liabilities Current Liabilities: Accounts payable Accrued expenses Deferred revenue Payroll liabilities Sales tax payable Total Liabilities $ Net Assets Net assets without donor restrictions Net assets with donor restrictions Total Net Assets 549,201.46 31,159.19 50,934.96 8,946.43 62,428.14 2,024.30 704,694.48 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 (1,045,140.26) 1,117,415.04 1,822,109.52 18,301.75 1,665.79 79,886.00 25,596.87 941.77 126,392.18 2023 $ $ $ 1,664,558.15 31,159.19 1,695,717.34 Total Liabilities and Net Assets $ 1,822,109.52 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 6 80,446.42 97,766.15 43,994.38 13,004.85 19,590.23 22,690.07 277,492.10 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 (944,137.42) 1,218,417.88 1,495,909.98 26,862.12 32,186.42 1,723.75 856.31 138.24 61,766.84 1,336,376.99 97,766.15 1,434,143.14 $ 1,495,909.98 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF ACTIVITIES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 Without Donor With Donor Restriction Restriction Total Total Revenues, gains, and other support Support: Grants 244,549.50 36,244.00 280,793.50 309,922.57 Contributions 287,931.49 50,515.71 338,447.20 376,482.68 Membership income Sponsorship 7,881.45 - 7,881.45 18,891.05 455,731.44 - 455,731.44 184,589.10 Other Income 149,658.96 Total Support 1,145,752.84 86,759.71 - Net assets released from restrictions 153,366.67 (153,366.67) Total support 1,299,119.51 (66,606.96) 149,658.96 293,140.47 1,232,512.55 1,203,300.87 1,232,512.55 1,203,300.87 Revenues and gains/(losses): Unrealized gain/(loss) on investment 7,172.06 - 7,172.06 2,462.20 Total revenue and gains/(losses) 7,172.06 - 7,172.06 2,462.20 1,239,684.61 1,205,763.07 Total revenues, gains/(losses), and other support 1,306,291.57 (66,606.96) EXPENSES: Program Services 568,246.63 - 568,246.63 792,989.54 Support Services: Fundraising 63,545.67 - 63,545.67 48,454.12 Support Services: General and Administrative 346,318.11 - 346,318.11 345,035.04 Total expenses 978,110.41 - 978,110.41 1,186,478.70 Increase (decrease) in net assets 328,181.16 (66,606.96) 261,574.20 19,284.37 Net assets, beginning of year 1,336,376.99 97,766.15 1,434,143.14 1,414,858.77 31,159.19 $ 1,695,717.34 $ 1,434,143.14 Net assets, end of year $ 1,664,558.15 $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 7 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF FUNCTIONAL EXPENSES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 Program Advertising $ Fundraising 567.07 $ - 2023 General & Admin $ 233.00 $ 800.07 $ 4,300.20 1,609.92 Chapter and Affiliate Expense 64,621.75 - Computer and Software 3,830.15 5,321.26 Contracted Services 10,670.00 - 19,149.00 Cost of Goods Sold 13,028.83 - - - 1,198.00 1,198.00 8,964.00 4,210.00 12,503.21 32,528.37 10,848.68 - 8,416.63 104,013.62 - 16,003.10 - Employee benefits 15,815.16 Event expense 8,416.63 Fundraising Costs 12,305.65 Total Bank Fees Dues, Fees and Registrations - Total - - 16,003.10 13,915.57 19,891.05 - 64,621.75 59,601.61 8,979.93 18,131.34 13,984.93 29,819.00 49,125.50 13,028.83 34,681.62 - Insurance 6,068.23 - 22,209.99 28,278.22 40,746.16 Meals 2,764.93 - 566.56 3,331.49 4,250.59 Miscellaneous 957.50 - 6,704.20 7,661.70 3,442.38 Office/Postage Expense 2,645.76 - 12,802.68 15,448.44 2,488.59 Payroll tax expense 19,937.83 3,136.10 9,494.27 32,568.20 26,467.17 Program Expenses 20,790.68 - - 20,790.68 46,093.70 Printing/Copying Expense 3,654.60 - 2,111.96 5,766.56 6,440.97 Professional Services 17,911.90 - 51,535.54 69,447.44 107,928.40 Repairs and Maintenance 28,926.24 Salaries and Wages 231,660.80 Security 12,825.00 34,875.21 12,229.54 41,155.78 27,384.37 107,615.09 374,151.10 348,783.13 63,265.85 - 3,677.50 16,502.50 - - 96.00 96.00 495.00 3,952.76 - 17,638.23 21,590.99 34,280.84 Travel Expense 354.96 - 2,679.55 3,034.51 4,222.21 Utilities Expense 33,912.51 - 4,908.79 38,821.30 43,888.85 Total Expenses Before Depreciation 504,923.21 308,638.69 877,107.57 1,080,518.07 Depreciation 63,323.42 37,679.42 101,002.84 105,960.63 978,110.41 $ 1,186,478.70 Staff and Board Development Supplies Total Expenses $ 568,246.63 63,545.67 $ 63,545.67 $ 346,318.11 $ The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 8 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF CASH FLOWS FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 $ 261,574.20 $ 19,284.37 101,002.84 (6,940.58) 105,960.63 (2,444.51) 20,665.77 4,058.42 (42,837.91) (22,690.07) 2,696.63 (19,590.23) (39,081.00) 24,740.56 803.53 78,162.25 402,148.08 23,950.68 (5,848.74) 951.47 1,723.75 103,993.98 Cash flows from operating activities Change in net assets Adjustments to reconcile change in net assets to net cash used in operating activities: Depreciation expense Unrealized gain on investments (Increase)/decrease in operating assets: Promises to give Inventory Prepaid expenses Increase/(decrease) in operating liabilities: Accounts payable and accrued expenses Payroll liabilities Sales tax payable Unearned revenue Net cash provided/(used) by operating activities Cash flows from investing activities Purchase of property and equipment Net cash provided/(used) by investing activities Net increase/(decrease) in cash Cash and cash equivalents, beginning of year Cash and cash equivalents, end of year - (24,021.91) (24,021.91) 402,148.08 178,212.57 $ 580,360.65 79,972.07 98,240.50 $ 178,212.57 $ 549,201.46 31,159.19 $ 580,360.65 $ 80,446.42 97,766.15 $ 178,212.57 Reconciliation to statement of financial position: Cash and cash equivalents Restricted cash The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 9 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 1 – Nature of the Organization The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (the “Organization”), is an Oklahoma nonprofit corporation, incorporated on November 20th, 2006. Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), have served the Two Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, and Asexual (2SLGBTQIA+) community since the organization was founded in 1980. The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies Basis of Accounting – The financial statements are prepared using the accrual basis of accounting. Accordingly, revenue is recorded when earned, and expenses are recorded when incurred. The financial statements are presented in accordance with authoritative accounting standards for not-for-profit organizations. As such, the standards require contributions to be recognized as revenue when they are received, or unconditionally pledged, and net assets to be classified as net assets with donor restrictions or net assets without donor restrictions, depending on the limitations placed on the contributions when received. Income Taxes – The Organization is exempt from federal income taxes under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. As such, no provision has been made for federal or state income taxes. In addition, the Organization has been determined by the Internal Revenue Service not to be a private foundation, within the meaning of Section 509(a) of the Internal Revenue Code. The Organization’s Forms 990, Organization Exempt from Income Tax, for the years ending 2021, 2022, and 2023 are subject to examination by the IRS, generally for three years after they were filed. Estimates – The preparation of financial statements, in conformity with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, requires management to make estimates, and assumptions, that affect certain reported amounts and disclosures. Accordingly, actual results could differ from those estimates. Cash and Cash Equivalents – Cash and cash equivalents include all monies in banks, and highly liquid investments, with maturity dates of less than twelve months. The carrying value of cash, and cash equivalents, approximates fair value because of the short maturities of those financial instruments. Concentrations of Credit and Market Risk – Financial instruments that potentially expose the Organization to concentrations of credit, and market risk consist primarily of cash equivalents and investments. Cash equivalents are maintained at high-quality financial institutions, and credit risk exposure is limited at any one institution. The Organization has not experienced any losses on its cash equivalents. Property and Equipment – Property and equipment are recorded at acquisition cost. The Organization capitalizes assets with a cost greater than $2,500. Betterments and renewals are capitalized. Maintenance and repairs are charged to operations when incurred. Depreciation is computed using the straight-line method, over the following estimated useful lives: Building and improvements Equipment Vehicles 40 years 3-10 years 3 years 10 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies: (continued) Classification of Net Assets - Net assets of the Organization shall be classified based upon the existence, or absence, of donor-imposed restrictions, as follows: Net Assets without Donor Restrictions - Net assets that are not subject to donor-imposed stipulations. Net Assets with Donor Restrictions - Net assets subject to donor-imposed stipulations that may, or will be, satisfied through the actions of the Organization, and/or the passage of time. Net assets accumulated by the Organization that are not subject to donor-imposed restrictions, but which the Board of Directors of the Organization has earmarked for specific uses, shall be segregated in the accounting records as "board-designated" funds, within the category of net assets without donor restrictions. Note 3 – Concentrations of Credit Risk Custodial credit risk is the risk that, in the event of a bank failure, the Organization’s deposits may not be returned to it. The Organization’s cash deposits, including interest-bearing certificates of deposit, are maintained in financial institutions. The Organization has a deposit policy for custodial credit risk to move funds to another institution if the balance exceeds FDIC coverage. Demand deposits Total $ $ A 500,000.00 500,000.00 Category B $ $ - C $ 80,360.65 $ 80,360.65 Carrying Amount $ 580,360.65 $ 580,360.65 Bank Balance $ 576,802.34 $ 576,802.34 Category A – Cash and cash equivalents that are insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) or collateralized with securities held by the Organization, or its agent, in the Organization’s name. Category B – Collateralized with securities held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, in the Organization’s name. Category C – Uninsured or unregistered investments for which securities are held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, but not in the Organization’s name. Note 4 – Promises to Give Promises to give are majorly comprised of contributions awarded by third parties but not received prior to yearend. There were $0 promises to give as of September 30, 2024. 11 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 5 – Restricted Cash As of September 30, 2024, the Organization had restricted cash in the amount of $31,159.19. Restricted as follows: Restricted Purpose Chapter and Affiliates Food Insecurity Grant History Project Lynn Riggs/Kitchen Van Insurance Rainbow Room Various >$2K Total $ $ Amount 5,957.93 10,594.00 8,360.01 1,789.37 1,167.75 2,500.00 790.13 31,159.19 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others Investments held by others, as of September 30, 2024, consist of two investment funds held by Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF): The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund and the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund. These funds are invested in pooled funds, cash, and equivalents. The investments are carried on the Organization’s books at fair market value. These funds are component funds of Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF). As defined by the United States Treasury Regulations, TCF has the right to modify the terms of the fund agreement. This is sometimes referred to as “variance power”. As a result of the variance power all component funds are considered to be part of a single public charity, TCF. TCF is the legal owner of all assets contributed to any of its component funds. Financial Accounting Standards Board requires that if TCF accepts contributions from the Organization and agrees to transfer those assets and the return on investment of those assets back to the Organization, then these contributions are to be reported on the financial statements of the Organization. The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund -This fund was established as Oklahomans for Equality Fund, a TCF Agency Fund, in April 2001. It transitioned to the OkEq Operating Endowment Fund on 12/30/2010. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization, and reported as investments held by others, is $16,369.53. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $15,238.78. The OkEq Capital Campaign Fund - This fund was originally established by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human, Rights, Inc. as the Pyramid Project Capital Campaign Reserve Fund, a TCF agency reserve fund, in April 2002. It was renamed to the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund in TCF records. It is an agency reserve fund, and the funds are available to purchase , furnish, maintain, or make improvements to a building to house the Tulsa gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Community Center owned by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization and reported as investments held by others $34,565.43. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organization’s books is $122,904.98. 13 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others (continued) As of September 30, 2024, the balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. At times, the Organization’s deposits may exceed insured amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund, and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. Investment Interest Rate Risk Interest rate risk is the risk that changes in market interest rates will adversely affect the fair value of an investment. Generally, the longer the maturity of an investment, the greater the sensitivity of its fair value to changes in market interest rates. Note 7 – Fair Value Measurements The Organization reports fair value measurements of its assets and liabilities using a three-level hierarchy that prioritizes the inputs used to measure fair value. This hierarchy, established by GAAP, requires that entities maximize the use of observable inputs, and minimize the use of unobservable inputs, when measuring fair value. The assets or liability’s measurement within the fair value hierarchy is based on the lowest level of input that is significant to the measurement. The three levels of input used to measure fair value are as follows: Level 1. Quoted prices are for identical assets or liabilities in active markets to which the Organization has access at the measurement date. Level 2. Inputs other than quoted prices included in level 1 that are observable for the assets or liability, either directly or indirectly. Level 2 inputs include:     Quoted prices for similar assets or liabilities in active markets; Quoted prices for identical or similar assets in markets that are not active; Observable inputs other than quoted prices for the asset or liability (for example, interest rates and yield curves); and Inputs derived principally from, or corroborated by, observable market data by correlation, or by other means. Level 3. Unobservable inputs for the assets or liabilities. Unobservable inputs should be used to measure the fair value if observable inputs are not available. When available, the Organization measures fair value using Level 1 inputs because they generally provide the most reliable evidence of fair value. However, Level 1 inputs are not available for many of the assets and liabilities that the Organization is required to measure at fair value (for example, unconditional promise to give and in-kind contributions). The primary uses of fair value measurements in the Organization’s financial statements are the initial measurement of noncash gifts, gifts of investment assets, if any, including unconditional promises to give, and recurring measurement of short-term and long-term investments. 13 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 8 – Property and Equipment The following is an analysis of property and equipment, at cost, and related depreciation at September 30, 2024: Beginning of Year Furniture and Fixtures Building and Improvements Computers and Software Total Capital Assets Less: Accumulated Depreciation Net Book Value $ 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 2,162,555.30 (944,137.42) 1,218,417.88 Additions $ (101,002.84) (101,002.84) Deletions $ - End of Year 134,098.46 2,013,376.54 15,080.30 2,162,555.30 (1,045,140.26) $ 1,117,415.04 Note 9 – Deferred Revenue Deferred revenue represents payments received for events occurring subsequent to year end. Note 10 – Note Payable The Organization had no notes payable as of September 30, 2024. Note 11 – Donated Services The Organization receives a significant amount of donated services from unpaid volunteers, who assist in fundraising and special projects. No amounts have been recognized in the statement of activities because the criteria for the recognition, under authoritative accounting standards, have not been satisfied. Note 12 – Functional Allocation of Expenses The costs of providing the various programs, and supporting services, have been summarized on a functional basis, in the statement of functional expenses. Costs that are not directly associated with providing specific services have been allocated based on the relative time spent by the employees providing these services. Note 13 – Commitments and Contingencies As of the date of this report, the Organization had no commitments or contingencies other than those reported on the statement of financial position. 14 �OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 14 – Liquidity and Availability Financial assets available for general expenditure, that is, without donor or other restrictions limiting their use, within one year of September 30, 2024, are: Cash and cash equivalents Investments Other assets Total financial assets, at year end Less those unavailable for general expenditures within on year, due to: Contractual or donor-imposed restrictions Restricted by donor with time or purpose restrictions Financial assets available to meet cash needs for general expenditures within one year $ 580,360.65 50,934.96 2,024.30 633,319.91 31,159.19 $ 602,160.72 Note 15 – Net Assets with Donor Restrictions The Organization has $31,159.19 net assets with donor restrictions at September 30, 2024. Restricted Purpose Chapter and Affiliates Food Insecurity Grant History Project Lynn Riggs/Kitchen Van Insurance Rainbow Room Various >$2K Total $ $ Amount 5,957.93 10,594.00 8,360.01 1,789.37 1,167.75 2,500.00 790.13 31,159.19 Note 16 – Evaluation of Subsequent Events The Organization has evaluated subsequent events through May 7, 2025, the date which the financial statements were available to be issued, and no additional disclosures are required. 15 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. FINANCIAL STATEMENTS AND ACCOMPANYING INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS FOR 2023 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. TABLE OF CONTENTS PAGE Board of Directors .............................................................................................................................. 3 Independent Auditor’s Report ......................................................................................................... 4-5 Financial Statements Statements of Financial Position .......................................................................................... 6 Statements of Activities ........................................................................................................ 7 Statements of Functional Expenses ....................................................................................... 8 Statements of Cash Flows ..................................................................................................... 9 Notes to the Financial Statements ................................................................................. 10-15 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. BOARD OF DIRECTORS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 Whitney Cipolla President Paula Shannon Vice-President/Treasurer Kaylyn Compton Secretary Liz Ortiz Member Eddie Carreno Member William Mark Bonney Member Yonah Jasper Member Julia Fletcher Member Grace Fallon Member Stephen Haney Member Kasey Rhone Member Zoe Brett Member Lollie Moore Member at large 3 OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC 124 S. Main Street, Miami, Oklahoma 74354 6 South Adair, Pryor, Oklahoma 74361 918-542-4401 INDEPENDENT AUDITOR’S REPORT Senior Management and Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Tulsa, Oklahoma OPINION We have audited the accompanying financial statements of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (a nonprofit organization), which comprise the statements of financial position as of September 30, 2024, and the related statements of activities, statements of functional expenses, and cash flows for the year then ended, and the related notes to the financial statements. In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the financial position of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. as of September 30, 2024, and the changes in its net assets and its cash flows for the year then ended in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America. BASIS FOR OPINION We conducted our audit in accordance with auditing standards generally accepted in the United States of America (GAAS). Our responsibilities under those standards are further described in the Auditor's Responsibilities for the Audit of the Financial Statements section of our report. We are required to be independent of the Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. and to meet our other ethical responsibilities, in accordance with the relevant ethical requirements relating to our audit. We believe that the audit evidence we have obtained is sufficient and appropriate to provide a basis for our audit opinions. RESPONSIBILITIES OF MANAGEMENT FOR THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Management is responsible for the preparation and fair presentation of the financial statements in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, and for the design, implementation, and maintenance of internal control relevant to the preparation and fair presentation of financial statements that are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error. In preparing the financial statements, management is required to evaluate whether there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.'s ability to continue as a going concern within one year after the date that the financial statements are available to be issued. AUDITOR’S RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THE AUDIT OF THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS Our objectives are to obtain reasonable assurance about whether the financial statements as a whole are free from material misstatement, whether due to fraud or error, and to issue an auditor’s report that includes our opinion. Reasonable assurance is a high level of assurance but is not absolute assurance and therefore is not a guarantee that an audit conducted in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards will always detect a material misstatement when it exists. The risk of not detecting a material misstatement resulting from fraud is higher than for one resulting from error, as fraud may involve collusion, forgery, intentional omissions, misrepresentations, or the override of internal control. Misstatements are considered material if there is a substantial likelihood that, individually or in the aggregate, they would influence the judgment made by a reasonable user based on the financial statements. 4 To the Board of Directors Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. Page 2 In performing an audit in accordance with generally accepted auditing standards, we:  Exercise professional judgment and maintain professional skepticism throughout the audit.  Identify and assess the risks of material misstatement of the financial statements, whether due to fraud or error, and design and perform audit procedures responsive to those risks. Such procedures include examining, on a test basis, evidence regarding the amounts and disclosures in the financial statements.  Obtain an understanding of internal control relevant to the audit in order to design audit procedures that are appropriate in the circumstances, but not for the purpose of expressing an opinion on the effectiveness of Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s internal control. Accordingly, no such opinion is expressed.  Evaluate the appropriateness of accounting policies used and the reasonableness of significant accounting estimates made by management, as well as evaluate the overall presentation of the financial statements.  Conclude whether, in our judgment, there are conditions or events, considered in the aggregate, that raise substantial doubt about Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s ability to continue as a going concern for a reasonable period of time. We are required to communicate with those charged with governance regarding, among other matters, the planned scope and timing of the audit, significant audit findings, and certain internal control related matters that we identified during the audit. REPORT ON SUMMARIZED COMPARATIVE INFORMATION We have previously audited Oklahomans for Equality, Inc.’s 2023 financial statements, and we expressed an unmodified audit opinion on those audited financial statements, in our report dated December 22, 2023. In our opinion, the summarized comparative information presented herein, as of and for the year ended September 30, 2023, is consistent, in all material respects, with the audited financial statements from which it has been derived. [Signature: Ober & Littlefied, PLLC] OBER & LITTLEFIELD Certified Public Accountants, PLLC Miami, Oklahoma May 7, 2025 5 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF FINANCIAL POSITION AS OF SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 Assets Current Assets: Cash and cash equivalents $549,201.46 $80,446.42 Cash and cash equivalents - restricted 31,159.19 97,766.15 Investments held by others 50,934.96 43,994.38 Inventory 13,004.85 8,946.43 Prepaid insurance 62,428.14 19,590.23 Other assets 22,690.07 2,024.30 Total Current Assets 704,694.48 277,492.10 Noncurrent Assets: Furniture and Fixtures 134,098.46 134,098.46 Buildings and Improvements 2,013,376.54 2,013,376.54 Computers and Software 15,080.30 15,080.30 Less: Accumulated Depreciation (1,045,140.26) (944,137.42) Total Noncurrent Assets 1,117,415.04 1,218,417.88 Total Assets $1,822,109.52 $1,495,909.98 Liabilities Current Liabilities: Accounts payable $18,301.75 $26,862.12 Accrued expenses 1,665.79 32,186.42 Deferred revenue 79,886.00 1,723.75 Payroll liabilities 25,596.87 856.31 Sales tax payable 941.77 138.24 Total Liabilities 126,392.18 61,766.84 Net Assets Net assets without donor restrictions 1,664,558.15 1,336,376.99 Net assets with donor restrictions 31,159.19 97,766.15 Total Net Assets 1,695,717.34 1,434,143.14 Total Liabilities and Net Assets $1,822,109.52 $1,495,909.98 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 6 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF ACTIVITIES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 Without Donor Restriction With Donor Restriction Total Total Revenues, gains, and other support Support: Grants 244,549.50 36,244.00 280,793.50 309,922.57 Contributions 287,931.49 50,515.71 338,447.20 376,482.68 Membership income 7,881.45 - 7,881.45 18,891.05 Sponsorship 455,731.44 - 455,731.44 184,589.10 Other Income 149,658.96 - 149,658.96 293,140.47 Total Support 1,145,752.84 86,759.71 1,232,512.55 1,203,300.87 Net assets released from restrictions 153,366.67 (153,366.67) - - Total support 1,299,119.51 (66,606.96) 1,232,512.55 1,203,300.87 Revenues and gains/(losses): Unrealized gain/(loss) on investment 7,172.06 - 7,172.06 2,462.20 Total revenue and gains/(losses) 7,172.06 - 7,172.06 2,462.20 Total revenues, gains/(losses), and other support 1,306,291.57 (66,606.96) 1,239,684.61 1,205,763.07 EXPENSES: Program Services 568,246.63 - 568,246.63 792,989.54 Support Services: Fundraising 63,545.67 - 63,545.67 48,454.12 Support Services: General and Administrative 346,318.11 - 346,318.11 345,035.04 Total expenses 978,110.41 - 978,110.41 1,186,478.70 Increase (decrease) in net assets 328,181.16 (66,606.96) 261,574.20 19,284.37 Net assets, beginning of year 1,336,376.99 97,766.15 1,434,143.14 1,414,858.77 Net assets, end of year $1,664,558.15 $31,159.19 $1,695,717.34 $1,434,143.14 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 7 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF FUNCTIONAL EXPENSES FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 Program Fundraising General & Admin Total Total Advertising $567.07 - $233.00 $800.07 $4,300.20 Bank Fees 1,609.92 - 12,305.65 13,915.57 19,891.05 Chapter and Affiliate Expense 64,621.75 - - 64,621.75 59,601.61 Computer and Software 3,830.15 5,321.26 8,979.93 18,131.34 13,984.93 Contracted Services 10,670.00 - 19,149.00 29,819.00 49,125.50 Cost of Goods Sold 13,028.83 - - 13,028.83 34,681.62 Dues, Fees and Registrations - - 1,198.00 1,198.00 8,964.00 Employee benefits 15,815.16 4,210.00 12,503.21 32,528.37 10,848.68 Event expense 8,416.63 - - 8,416.63 104,013.62 Fundraising Costs - 16,003.10 - 16,003.10 - Insurance 6,068.23 - 22,209.99 28,278.22 40,746.16 Meals 2,764.93 - 566.56 3,331.49 4,250.59 Miscellaneous 957.50 - 6,704.20 7,661.70 3,442.38 Office/Postage Expense 2,645.76 - 12,802.68 15,448.44 2,488.59 Payroll tax expense 19,937.83 3,136.10 9,494.27 32,568.20 26,467.17 Program Expenses 20,790.68 - - 20,790.68 46,093.70 Printing/Copying Expense 3,654.60 - 2,111.96 5,766.56 6,440.97 Professional Services 17,911.90 - 51,535.54 69,447.44 107,928.40 Repairs and Maintenance 28,926.24 - 12,229.54 41,155.78 27,384.37 Salaries and Wages 231,660.80 34,875.21 107,615.09 374,151.10 348,783.13 Security 12,825.00 - 3,677.50 16,502.50 63,265.85 Staff and Board Development - - 96.00 96.00 495.00 Supplies 3,952.76 - 17,638.23 21,590.99 34,280.84 Travel Expense 354.96 - 2,679.55 3,034.51 4,222.21 Utilities Expense 33,912.51 - 4,908.79 38,821.30 43,888.85 Total Expenses Before Depreciation 504,923.21 63,545.67 308,638.69 877,107.57 1,080,518.07 Depreciation 63,323.42 - 37,679.42 101,002.84 105,960.63 Total Expenses $568,246.63 $63,545.67 $346,318.11 $978,110.41 $1,186,478.70 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 8 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. STATEMENTS OF CASH FLOWS FOR THE YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 2024 2023 Cash flows from operating activities Change in net assets $261,574.20 $19,284.37 Adjustments to reconcile change in net assets to net cash used in operating activities: Depreciation expense 101,002.84 105,960.63 Unrealized gain on investments (6,940.58) (2,444.51) (Increase)/decrease in operating assets: Promises to give 20,665.77 (22,690.07) Inventory 4,058.42 2,696.63 Prepaid expenses (42,837.91) (19,590.23) Increase/(decrease) in operating liabilities: Accounts payable and accrued expenses (39,081.00) 23,950.68 Payroll liabilities 24,740.56 (5,848.74) Sales tax payable 803.53 951.47 Unearned revenue 78,162.25 1,723.75 Net cash provided/(used) by operating activities 402,148.08 103,993.98 Cash flows from investing activities Purchase of property and equipment - (24,021.91) Net cash provided/(used) by investing activities - (24,021.91) Net increase/(decrease) in cash 402,148.08 79,972.07 Cash and cash equivalents, beginning of year 178,212.57 98,240.50 Cash and cash equivalents, end of year $580,360.65 $178,212.57 Reconciliation to statement of financial position: Cash and cash equivalents $549,201.46 $80,446.42 Restricted cash 31,159.19 97,766.15 $178,212.57 $580,360.65 The accompanying notes are an integral part of these financial statements. 9 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 1 – Nature of the Organization The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. (the “Organization”), is an Oklahoma nonprofit corporation, incorporated on November 20th, 2006. Oklahomans for Equality, Inc., formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), have served the Two Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, Intersex, and Asexual (2SLGBTQIA+) community since the organization was founded in 1980. The Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies Basis of Accounting – The financial statements are prepared using the accrual basis of accounting. Accordingly, revenue is recorded when earned, and expenses are recorded when incurred. The financial statements are presented in accordance with authoritative accounting standards for not-for-profit organizations. As such, the standards require contributions to be recognized as revenue when they are received, or unconditionally pledged, and net assets to be classified as net assets with donor restrictions or net assets without donor restrictions, depending on the limitations placed on the contributions when received. Income Taxes – The Organization is exempt from federal income taxes under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. As such, no provision has been made for federal or state income taxes. In addition, the Organization has been determined by the Internal Revenue Service not to be a private foundation, within the meaning of Section 509(a) of the Internal Revenue Code. The Organization’s Forms 990, Organization Exempt from Income Tax, for the years ending 2021, 2022, and 2023 are subject to examination by the IRS, generally for three years after they were filed. Estimates – The preparation of financial statements, in conformity with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America, requires management to make estimates, and assumptions, that affect certain reported amounts and disclosures. Accordingly, actual results could differ from those estimates. Cash and Cash Equivalents – Cash and cash equivalents include all monies in banks, and highly liquid investments, with maturity dates of less than twelve months. The carrying value of cash, and cash equivalents, approximates fair value because of the short maturities of those financial instruments. Concentrations of Credit and Market Risk – Financial instruments that potentially expose the Organization to concentrations of credit, and market risk consist primarily of cash equivalents and investments. Cash equivalents are maintained at high-quality financial institutions, and credit risk exposure is limited at any one institution. The Organization has not experienced any losses on its cash equivalents. Property and Equipment – Property and equipment are recorded at acquisition cost. The Organization capitalizes assets with a cost greater than $2,500. Betterments and renewals are capitalized. Maintenance and repairs are charged to operations when incurred. Depreciation is computed using the straight-line method, over the following estimated useful lives: Building and improvements 40 years Equipment 3-10 years Vehicles 3 years 10 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 2 – Summary of Significant Accounting Policies: (continued) Classification of Net Assets - Net assets of the Organization shall be classified based upon the existence, or absence, of donor-imposed restrictions, as follows: Net Assets without Donor Restrictions - Net assets that are not subject to donor-imposed stipulations. Net Assets with Donor Restrictions - Net assets subject to donor-imposed stipulations that may, or will be, satisfied through the actions of the Organization, and/or the passage of time. Net assets accumulated by the Organization that are not subject to donor-imposed restrictions, but which the Board of Directors of the Organization has earmarked for specific uses, shall be segregated in the accounting records as "board-designated" funds, within the category of net assets without donor restrictions. Note 3 – Concentrations of Credit Risk Custodial credit risk is the risk that, in the event of a bank failure, the Organization’s deposits may not be returned to it. The Organization’s cash deposits, including interest-bearing certificates of deposit, are maintained in financial institutions. The Organization has a deposit policy for custodial credit risk to move funds to another institution if the balance exceeds FDIC coverage. Category Carrying Bank A B C Amount Balance Demand deposits $500,000.00 $ - $80,360.65 $580,360.65 $576,802.34 Total $500,000.00 - $80,360.65 $580,360.65 $576,802.34 Category A – Cash and cash equivalents that are insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) or collateralized with securities held by the Organization, or its agent, in the Organization’s name. Category B – Collateralized with securities held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, in the Organization’s name. Category C – Uninsured or unregistered investments for which securities are held by the pledging financial institution’s trust department, or agent, but not in the Organization’s name. Note 4 – Promises to Give Promises to give are majorly comprised of contributions awarded by third parties but not received prior to year-end. There were $0 promises to give as of September 30, 2024. 11 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 5 – Restricted Cash As of September 30, 2024, the Organization had restricted cash in the amount of $31,159.19. Restricted as follows: Restricted Purpose Amount Chapter and Affiliates $5,957.93 Food Insecurity Grant 10,594.00 History Project 8,360.01 Lynn Riggs/Kitchen 1,789.37 Van Insurance 1,167.75 Rainbow Room 2,500.00 Various >$2K 790.13 Total $31,159.19 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others Investments held by others, as of September 30, 2024, consist of two investment funds held by Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF): The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund and the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund. These funds are invested in pooled funds, cash, and equivalents. The investments are carried on the Organization’s books at fair market value. These funds are component funds of Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF). As defined by the United States Treasury Regulations, TCF has the right to modify the terms of the fund agreement. This is sometimes referred to as “variance power”. As a result of the variance power all component funds are considered to be part of a single public charity, TCF. TCF is the legal owner of all assets contributed to any of its component funds. Financial Accounting Standards Board requires that if TCF accepts contributions from the Organization and agrees to transfer those assets and the return on investment of those assets back to the Organization, then these contributions are to be reported on the financial statements of the Organization. The OkEq Operating Endowment Fund -This fund was established as Oklahomans for Equality Fund, a TCF Agency Fund, in April 2001. It transitioned to the OkEq Operating Endowment Fund on 12/30/2010. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization, and reported as investments held by others, is $16,369.53. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organizations books is $15,238.78. The OkEq Capital Campaign Fund - This fund was originally established by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human, Rights, Inc. as the Pyramid Project Capital Campaign Reserve Fund, a TCF agency reserve fund, in April 2002. It was renamed to the OkEq Capital Campaign Fund in TCF records. It is an agency reserve fund, and the funds are available to purchase , furnish, maintain, or make improvements to a building to house the Tulsa gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Community Center owned by Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Current fund advisors are Board President, Vice President, and Treasurer. With 2/3 of the Advisors, TCF can accept annual distribution requests and make changes to the fund including the investment strategy. The portion allocated to the Organization and reported as investments held by others $34,565.43. The portion of funds contributed to TCF by unrelated third-party donors and not reported as investments held by others on the Organization’s books is $122,904.98. 13 [sic.] OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 6 – Investments Held by Others (continued) As of September 30, 2024, the balances are insured by the Securities Investor Protection Corporation (SIPC), up to $500,000. Cash coverage is limited at $250,000. At times, the Organization’s deposits may exceed insured amounts. Management believes the funds are not exposed to any significant risk due to the diversity of high-grade financial instruments held by the fund, and management’s routine assessment of the portfolio. Investment Interest Rate Risk Interest rate risk is the risk that changes in market interest rates will adversely affect the fair value of an investment. Generally, the longer the maturity of an investment, the greater the sensitivity of its fair value to changes in market interest rates. Note 7 – Fair Value Measurements The Organization reports fair value measurements of its assets and liabilities using a three-level hierarchy that prioritizes the inputs used to measure fair value. This hierarchy, established by GAAP, requires that entities maximize the use of observable inputs, and minimize the use of unobservable inputs, when measuring fair value. The assets or liability’s measurement within the fair value hierarchy is based on the lowest level of input that is significant to the measurement. The three levels of input used to measure fair value are as follows: Level 1. Quoted prices are for identical assets or liabilities in active markets to which the Organization has access at the measurement date. Level 2. Inputs other than quoted prices included in level 1 that are observable for the assets or liability, either directly or indirectly. Level 2 inputs include:  Quoted prices for similar assets or liabilities in active markets;  Quoted prices for identical or similar assets in markets that are not active;  Observable inputs other than quoted prices for the asset or liability (for example, interest rates and yield curves); and  Inputs derived principally from, or corroborated by, observable market data by correlation, or by other means. Level 3. Unobservable inputs for the assets or liabilities. Unobservable inputs should be used to measure the fair value if observable inputs are not available. When available, the Organization measures fair value using Level 1 inputs because they generally provide the most reliable evidence of fair value. However, Level 1 inputs are not available for many of the assets and liabilities that the Organization is required to measure at fair value (for example, unconditional promise to give and in-kind contributions). The primary uses of fair value measurements in the Organization’s financial statements are the initial measurement of noncash gifts, gifts of investment assets, if any, including unconditional promises to give, and recurring measurement of short-term and long-term investments. 13 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 8 – Property and Equipment The following is an analysis of property and equipment, at cost, and related depreciation at September 30, 2024: Beginning of Year Additions Deletions End of Year Furniture and Fixtures 134,098.46 - - 134,098.46 Building and Improvements 2,013,376.54 - - 2,013,376.54 Computers and Software 15,080.30 - - 15,080.30 Total Capital Assets 2,162,555.30 - - 2,162,555.30 Less: Accumulated Depreciation (944,137.42) (101,002.84) - (1,045,140.26) Net Book Value $1,218,417.88 $(101,002.84) $ - $1,117,415.04 Note 9 – Deferred Revenue Deferred revenue represents payments received for events occurring subsequent to year end. Note 10 – Note Payable The Organization had no notes payable as of September 30, 2024. Note 11 – Donated Services The Organization receives a significant amount of donated services from unpaid volunteers, who assist in fundraising and special projects. No amounts have been recognized in the statement of activities because the criteria for the recognition, under authoritative accounting standards, have not been satisfied. Note 12 – Functional Allocation of Expenses The costs of providing the various programs, and supporting services, have been summarized on a functional basis, in the statement of functional expenses. Costs that are not directly associated with providing specific services have been allocated based on the relative time spent by the employees providing these services. Note 13 – Commitments and Contingencies As of the date of this report, the Organization had no commitments or contingencies other than those reported on the statement of financial position. 14 OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY, INC. NOTES TO THE FINANCIAL STATEMENTS SEPTEMBER 30, 2024 WITH COMPARATIVE TOTALS YEAR ENDED SEPTEMBER 30, 2023 Note 14 – Liquidity and Availability Financial assets available for general expenditure, that is, without donor or other restrictions limiting their use, within one year of September 30, 2024, are: Cash and cash equivalents $580,360.65 Investments 50,934.96 Other assets 2,024.30 Total financial assets, at year end 633,319.91 Less those unavailable for general expenditures within on year, due to: Contractual or donor-imposed restrictions Restricted by donor with time or purpose restrictions 31,159.19 Financial assets available to meet cash needs for general expenditures within one year $602,160.72 Note 15 – Net Assets with Donor Restrictions The Organization has $31,159.19 net assets with donor restrictions at September 30, 2024. Restricted Purpose Amount Chapter and Affiliates $5,957.93 Food Insecurity Grant 10,594.00 History Project 8,360.01 Lynn Riggs/Kitchen 1,789.37 Van Insurance 1,167.75 Rainbow Room 2,500.00 Various >$2K 790.13 Total $31,159.19 Note 16 – Evaluation of Subsequent Events The Organization has evaluated subsequent events through May 7, 2025, the date which the financial statements were available to be issued, and no additional disclosures are required. 15 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2025] OKEQ Financial Statements and Auditor's Report from September 2024 Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality, Inc. 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Syphilis Testing Spirit Day is Thursday, October 17th, 2013. Pledge to wear purple on that day in support of LGBT youth and take a stand against bullying. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Bullying Conference SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka OkEq Programming Note • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for Thursday, October 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges The eNews for the week of October 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Pride 2014 OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Sue Ellen Welch Transgender Day of Remembrance (918) 810-8156 Within Our Reach OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@McGrawOK.com Tony Kushner Herland Retreat LGBT Literature OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 ttspiritday 10.17.2013 Ji ,,•• , ~ glood org/spiritdoy Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/ spiritday. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett Syphilis Testing by H.O.P.E. Testing Wednesday, October 16th, 2013; 11:00 am - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Men who get tested on Wednesday, October 16th will get a $10 QuikTrip card! OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast health outreach prevention education, inc. Syphilis is on the rise for Gay and Bisexual Men in Tulsa. Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) will have walk in Syphilis testing on TWednesday, October 16th from 11:00 am til 8:00 pm. So come by and get tested at the Equality Center. For more information on Health, Outreach, Prevention, Education (H.O.P.E.) and their regular testing schedule, please visit www.hopetesting.org Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYIN& PRE ENTION CONFERENCE Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... _,,11211 .. jjiiltoill • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tai Chi Class Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 SOS Group Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your onthe-party bus. - -seat --- --- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics .4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. Join TMM for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Pride 2014 Planning Meeting Thursday, October 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Join Tulsa Pride on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm for the first public planning meeting for Tulsa Pride 2014. The meetings are open to the public and anybody who's interested in helping out is encouraged to attend. Future planning meetings will continue on the 4th Thursdays of the month. For more information on Tulsa Pride 2014, please visit tulsapride.org OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local Game Night 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, ----- --2013. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. - - --- HISIOR\ • .\IO. ~lH October 16th - Elio Di Rupo October 17th - Martin Duberman October 18th - Tom of Finland October 19th - Brenda Howard October 20th - Nathan Lane October 21st - Queen Latifah* October 22nd - Simon Nkoli October 23rd - Bruce Nugent Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com *The LGBT History Month list was finalized when the Equality Forum had sources who said Queen Latifah would come out on her talk show. She has since said that she would not speak about her private life on her show. Hiking in the Ozarks 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/ hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Both winners receive a fun crown, nice prize (valued at $25) along with a Crowning Number (where you get to keep the your tips). Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program Host / MC's - Marquises to Reign VI George McCauslan & Rusty Clyma For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. A March of the Military Flags / Candle Lighting for lost Military and a Tribute to Empress Jose I - the Widow Norton (founder of the International Court System and a Veteran) at Midnight There is no show this is a Ball. So please come out and show your support for our Veterans. 50/50 Raffle Silent Auction with items from the following The Gayly Tulsa Leather (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Jolt A Li'l Bit Retro Aunt B's Sweets and Treats Embassy Suites Tulsa Garden Trug Aloft Tulsa Downtown Club Majestic Tulsa and others The International Court System Military Quilt will be at this event to help raise even more money as it is taken around to patrons. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 4/23/26, 11:22 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-15th--2013... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Woman Like That: Lesbian and Bisexual Writers Tell Their Coming Out Stories ' Edited By Joan Larkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The act of "coming out" has the power to transform every aspect of a woman's life: family, friendships, career, sexuality, spirituality. An essential element of self-realization, it is the unabashed acceptance of one's "outlaw" standing in a predominantly heterosexual world. These accounts -- sometimes heart-wrenching, often exhilarating -- encompass a wide breadth of backgrounds and experiences. From a teenager institutionalized for her passion for women to the mother who must come out to her young sons at the risk of losing them -- from the cautious academic to the raucous liberated femme -- each woman represented here tells of forging a unique path toward the difficult but emancipating recognition of herself. Extending from the 1940s to the present day, these intensely personal stories in turn reflect a unique history of the changing social mores that affected each woman's ability to determine the shape of her own life. Together they form an ornate tapestry of lesbian and bisexual experience in the United States over the past half-century. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:22 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/51152cf275e8185bdd97a47441c032c9.pdf e20f6c8f6b20eaa9f9a3e2eae3a74390 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 8th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day EBA Matching Grant Welcome to the eNews. OkEq would like to thank everyone who participated in the Gamily Back to School Carnival. It was an amazing success. Speical thanks to Gamily Intern Samantha Checotah! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party The Clobber Verses Back to School Carnival Fall Ball 2013 Intro to LGBTQ Lit The eNews for the week of August 8th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Board of Directors Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 25 years together, Angela Sivadon and Mary Robinson made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, August 1st, 2013. Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... OkEq Art Exhibit Thank You and Congratulations, Angela and Mary! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Voice, a Day campaign -Be -Our -- -Give ---- - The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findoutmore with for Equality - about - -membership ----Oklahomans ---- - -and learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & TramgcndC'r Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the workshop will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The workshop will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th at 7:00 pm. Both sessions will begin with a 30 - 45 minute presentation by a Biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013 OkEq's Gamily Program would like to thank all the participants, volunteers and school supply donors at the 1st Annual back to School Carnival. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Over 100 kids and families were given supplies for the new school year and were able to meet and mingle with other gay parents or parents with LGBT children. The families enjoyed carnival games, story time, face painting and pony rides. Photos by Steven Michaels Photography SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 7 of 14 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Counseling Services Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Lambda Al-Anon Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rainbow Writers 1m1mrn �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Business Alliance EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ---918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will continue on Mondays, from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly councJI oal< moos chorale Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • rrax:c Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUTSl"fAKt:IIAT ANNUAL RUSHU ■ ENNOT AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION ::.r~,.~~r3 BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITAfllAN CMUltCM 2952 S, PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security '11trcat : The Destruction ofthe Wall Separating Church and Sla te in the U.S. Armed forces ~ 1 • -,-._lUMCE The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! ULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 8th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-8th--2013.h... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5f5c5e1193d4b846f22f57218d1e4153.pdf 405463d27da029ba210309b9a7cfc011 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor EBA Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is planning a group trip to Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend on November 1st - 3rd, 2013. Space will be limited. Look for the details next week! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Fall Ball 2013 The eNews for the week of August 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Pride Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Rainbow Library Volunteer Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Find Us on Facebook The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 George Kaiser Family Foundation 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Findout more about with Oklahomans forEquality and --membership -----learn how to make your donation today. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos - - - --- sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, le5b1an, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Counseling Services OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka to celebrate Diversity Weekend. Premium packages will include a two night stay at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and transportation on the party bus to and from Eureka. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Package prices and details on how to book your spot will be announced soon. Space will be limited so make your plans now to celebrate Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs with OkEq. If interested, please get your name on the list by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Colleboralion of Tulsa present: SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. $UJU/JJg, Alig,. 25, 2013 • 3-6 pm • {)u1Jll'ie (}rem Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbia n, Bisexual E< Tramgender Elders Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org NERDception End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... please visit www.floralhaven.com FLORAL HAVEN Funerul li omc c1n<.1 Ccmetcr~- Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �~ For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday August 14th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:08 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson FEATURING: Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm f' o ~~ :A~ Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 7 of 10 rn ~ �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUDl IP,EAK.ut AT ANNUAL RUSU:LL IENNffl AWARD PRESENTATION :~~~.~!~ BEGlttS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARlAN CHURCM 2952 $ . PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n a l Security TI1rcat: The Destruction oflhe Wall Separating Church and Static in lhe U.S. Armed Forres Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals 1NTUfAITH ALUANCf The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Out of Sync' by Lance Bass You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center At sixteen, Lance Bass received a phone call from Justin Timberlake that would change his life forever. Soon after, he left his small-town home in Clinton, Mississippi, to join an emerging musical group called *NSYNC. Two years later *NSYNC was inspiring Beatles-esque mania around the world, becoming the face of the new MTV generation, and earning the all-time record for most album sales in a single day (more Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm 4/23/26, 11:08 AM �OkEq eNews August 14th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-14th--2013.... than one million) and in a single week for No Strings Attached. He's remained in the spotlight ever since, and here he talks in depth for the first time about his childhood, his astonishing experiences as a young man and Christian growing up in one of the biggest bands in the world, his shock and frustration at the band's eventual dissolution, and his subsequent career, including his four months in Russia, training to become a cosmonaut. He also frankly discusses life as a gay man -- his first same-sex relationship at twenty-one, his struggle to keep his sexuality hidden from *NSYNC's fans in case it jeopardized the band's success, and the true circumstances that led to his decision to publicly come out at the age of twenty-seven. Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Full of fascinating behind-the-scenes lore and revealing insights from a pop star who, until now, has been notoriously private. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:08 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d59761cb2c8224eedbc28a4507bddbc3.pdf d39c0a49ac8376eaa52a6718f40f2479 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 22nd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Give a Day Matching Grant Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. There are two greats events for the community this weekend! H.O.P.E DIVAS and Drag Queen Bingo! Be sure to purchase your tickets and show your support. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Unites Against Bullying SAGE Pool Party OUT in Eureka The Clobber Verses Gamily Family The eNews for the week of August 22nd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Starts October 25 AllegiantAir.com allegiant" Tulsa Travel Is our deal: International Airport Fall Ball 2013 Counseling Services End of Life Presentation Choregus Productions DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Tulsa Threat Coach Russell Bennett Award Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their engagement, Summer and Hannah Knox made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring OkEq programming for the day of Sunday, August 25th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Thank You and Congratulations, Summer and Hannah! Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- --- - George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. OkEq Art Exhibit GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and --------------------- -learn how to make your donation today. The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. "Tulsa Unites Against Bullying" Rally Sunday, August 25th, 2013; 3:00 - 6:00 pm Guthrie Green 111 E Brady St OCCJ and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa present: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Back-to-school celebration of community members dedicated lo ending bullying. jlllldag,, Alig,. 25, 2013 • J-6 pm, • guuu,ie green The Oklahoma Center for Community and Justice and the Anti-Bullying Collaboration of Tulsa will present Tulsa Unites Against Bullying on Sunday, August 25th, 2013 from 3:00 - 6:00 pm. Please contact OCCJ at 918.583.1361 for more information on the rally or having an information booth at the event. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesb ian, Bisexual & TramgC'ndC'r EldC'rs Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Mondays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Grieving Well OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka? We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus and that is only $75 per passenger. For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. The bus will leave at 12:00 pm and drop off passengers at their hotel. Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage - Se1V1ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! BASIN PARK A MA,B NUSONI ·GRAND ll •O TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{imm'lb For the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Monday, August 26th and Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawrence is organizing two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social, pastoral and theological background on the Bible passages that are used to justify homophobia. The first session will be on Monday, August 26th, 2013 at 7:00 pm when the forum will look at the passages in the Old Testament. The forum will look at New Testament passages during the second session, which will be the following night, Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. We will begin each session with a 30-45 minute presentation by a biblical scholar from Phillips Theological Seminary. On Monday, August 26, we will hear from Lisa Davison, PhD, Johnnie Eargle Cadieux Professor of Hebrew Bible, and Tuesday we will hear from Dennis T Smith, ThD, LaDonna Kramer Meinders Professor of New Testament. NERDception Every other Tuesday Resumes Sept 3rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Each presentation will by followed by a brief Q&A, and then small group discussions of personal experiences with the texts. After the small group discussions, a panel of local pastors will answer additional questions. niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com If you've ever been clobbered by someone using the Bible as a weapon, you won't want to miss this unique opportunity to learn what the Bible actually says, what current scholarship says about how we might understand those verses in the 21st century, and ways you can be confident that you have a special place in Creation. These forums are open to all, regardless of belief system. For more information, please contact Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for the week of August 22nd This week's featured Gamily Family is Heather Threadgill and Angel Adams and their 2 year-old daughter Hadley Adams-Threadgill. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive works of Tulsa Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:09 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 2014 Art Gallery Submissions artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 7 of 14 111mm11 �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com New Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Eric Jett is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Tuesdays and Thursdays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric by phone at 918.850.0987 or email him at E.Jett@OkEq.org End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am and Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. The September 3rd presentation will be for the SAGE Tulsa group and will include a pancake breakfast. On September 5th there will be an evening presentation for the community. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com It; '\ FLORAL HAVEN tii'j;· ~ •.- Funernl I-tome and Ccmetcr~_/ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org --- Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, full-contact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST ll'UKut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~.~ ! i i IEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n 1reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separati ng Church and Stat:c ___ ---- in the U.S. Armed f"orces ~ _., t • INTU~AfTH AlllAHCf .,_ The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918 582 3088 Equality Center Pride Store 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Since My Last Confession' by Scott Pomfret You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center hl'artbrcaking cry or p~in and a ddicrolls howl or laughter ... a complcrc delight.- \IKhad 8ronsk1. au1hor or P11lp ,..1<1_, MA Scott Pomfret serves as a lector at St. Anthony Shrine in Boston. He also writes gay porn. His boyfriend is a flaming atheist, and his boyfriend's Protestant grandmother considers Catholicism a sin worse than sodomy. From Pentecost to Pride, from the books of the Bible to the articles of the Advocate, Pomfret's wry, hysterically funny memoir maps with matchless humor the full spectrum of the gay Catholic experience. a gay catholic memoir t,cott ·)Pomfret 4/23/26, 11:09 AM �OkEq eNews August 22nd, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-22nd--2013... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:09 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/0731b0b81ad3fd464c2291b36c6403fd.pdf e412394e7932b6f2dbe7d966696bc1e5 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews August 29th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Historic Rulings Board of Directors Welcome to the eNews. Today, the US Department of Treasurary and the IRS and the US Department of Health and Human Services Departments have made historic rulings in favor of LGBT inclusion. See below for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality End of Life Presentation First Thursday Art OUT in Eureka Guys Dine Too Equality Business Alliance The eNews for the week of August 29th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa International Airport OUTlaw Legal Series Gallery Submissions Tulsa to Orlando Non-Stop Fall Ball 2013 Lambda Bowling -League Choregus Productions Starts October 25 Russell Bennett Award AllegiantAir.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Tulsa International Airport allegiant· Travel Is our deal: St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant OUT OK Festival Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Rainbow Library Pride Store Volunteer GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find Us on Facebook Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -----------learn how to make your donation today. Two Historic Rulings for LGBT Inclusion 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the wonderful news from the U.S. Department of Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services regarding the federal recognition of same sex married couples for federal tax purposes, and Medicare coverage now applies equally to legally married same sex couples, regardless of where they reside. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The U.S. Department of the Treasury and the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) today ruled that same-sex couples, legally married in jurisdictions that recognize their marriages, will be treated as married for federal tax purposes. The ruling applies regardless of whether the couple lives in a jurisdiction that recognizes same-sex marriage or a jurisdiction that does not recognize same-sex marriage. Click here for more information about the ruling. The Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) issued a memo clarifying that all beneficiaries in private Medicare plans have access to equal coverage when it comes to care in a nursing home where their spouse lives. This is the first guidance issued by HHS in response to the recent Supreme Court ruling, which held section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. Click here for more information about the ruling. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos End of Life Arrangements Presentation Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 10:30 am Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have two End of Life Arrangement presentations sage· Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders On Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am, there will be a presentation for the SAGE Tulsa group. The morning presentation will include a pancake breakfast. Please RSVP to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org if you would like to attend. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... On Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, there will be an evening presentation for the community. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN C.i!'I ._..-, Funerul I-Jome und Ccmctcr~- Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Spectrum Knits Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON * ·GRAND ll •OTEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ l{ilml'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat Party - on - -the -OkEq -- - -Bus! - Guys Dine Too Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The September meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at The Royal Dragon on Tuesday, September 3rd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... The Royal Dragon is located at 7837 E. 51st St. in the Fontana Shopping Center www.royaldragonbuffet.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUQT lf"lAKUt AT ANNUAL RUUIU BENNE'TI AWARD The 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation will occur on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CMURCH 2952 5 , PEORIA TULSA, OK A Dire National Security 'l11reat : The Destruction of the Wall Separating Ch u.r ch and S ta te in the U.S. Armed forces , --____ _ ----.~--~·--~ f Tl AIU AlUANCt: _.., The Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is presented annually to an individual or group who embodies Rev Russell Bennett's commitment to the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance. Rev Bennett was one of the principal founders of the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance, and he was one of those happy warriors who was always willing to stand in the breach or to lead the charge on a long list of issues. The Board is still taking nominations for the recipient of this year's award, and the recipient will be announced soon. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." Counseling Services To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Saturdays By appointment Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org • And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items j Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'When You Were Me' by Robert Rodi You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All work and no play have made Jack Ackerly a dull boy. It's also made him very rich. Now, at age 53, he regrets devoting his youth to capitalism over hedonism. Alas he can't turn back time; but according to a self-styled "fusion witch" named Francesca, he can trade places with a willing participant. He just has to 4/23/26, 11:12 AM �OkEq eNews August 29th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-August-29th--2013.... find a hot young stud ready to make the switch. Enter Corey Szaslo, 26, a jaded party boy whose life of sex, drugs, and barhopping has left him with no education, no career, no assets, and no prospects. ROBERT RODI Jumping into the skin of a retired millionaire seems a fair way out of this predicament, even if it means doubling his age and adding five inches to his waistline. Faster than you can say, "Be careful what you wish for", Jack and Corey are living each other's lives to the fullest. But their successfully swapped lives soon begin to come apart at the seams. And when Jack's former lover comes back, begging "Jack" for another chance, all bets are off, driving both Jack and Corey into unsuspecting competition-and resulting in a climax that takes each of them farther beyond their essential selves than they ever dreamed they'd go. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:12 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/737e6b7a2493a9cde0d7e50d25cef1ec.pdf b8d10d813d3167008b159ee289be4bee PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 4th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Matching Grant Board of Directors End of Life Presentation Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center beginning on September 11th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality First Thursday Art OUTlaw Legal Series Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtors Fall Ball 2013 Gay Softball World Series Lambda League -Bowling -- Sue Ellen Welch Choregus Productions {918) 810-8156 Russell Bennett Award Dinner for Friends OUT in Eureka SWelch@ cGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 St Jerome Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store George Kaiser Family Foundation Matching Grant Rainbow Library Volunteer Become a new donor to OkEq or a new member of Oklahomans for Equality today. All new member donations to Oklahomans for Equality will be matched by the George Kaiser Family Foundation. Find Us on Facebook GEORGE KAISER FAMILY FOUNDATION Find out more about membership with Oklahomans for Equality and -------------learn how to make your donation today. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Click here to view nominated candidates. End of Life Arrangements Presentation Thursday, September 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Taking the time to design your service is a loving act, and not a difficult one. Floral Haven invites you to explore the seemingly infinite number of ways to celebrate and honor a life. Equality Business Alliance member, Floral Haven Funeral Home, will have an End of Life Arrangement presentation on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. For more information on Floral Haven and their services, please visit www.floralhaven.com OkEq Art Exhibit ' ltJ FLORAL HAVEN ·~ C ·~ Funcrul 1-lomc and Ccmctcrr ,I The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote "First Thursday" Art Show Reception September 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The September OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the extensive work of Tulsa artist Artie Smoote in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group (Begins September 9th, 2013) 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class (Begins September 10th, 2013) 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z (Begins September 6th, 2013 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! On Sunday, September 8th, 2013 at 5:00 pm, TMSL will host the Fall Ball Draft party at New Age Renegade. Teams will be selected at random from a "hat". All players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. New for this year, you can have up to three friends on the same draft ticket and you are guaranteed to be on the same team! Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Gay Softball World Series Results Congrats to TMSL's Tulsa Twisters for taking 9th place in the D division of the Gay Softball World Series. The Oklahoma Rampage represented TMSL well finishing in the top half of C division. Congrats to everyone who represented the Tulsa Metro Softball League in the Gay World Series! Also, congrats to Dirk Hunter for playing in the over 50s New England Cranky Yankees and taking 1st Place in the Masters Division. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Fall League Starts September 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Andy B's 8711 South Lewis Tulsa Lambda Bowling League announces their fall teams are forming. Bowling teams will be selected Monday September 9th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. You may join an existing team or arrive with a team of 4. For more information, see the Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Facebook page. Lambda League meets at Andy B's Bowling Center. Handicapped league, all levels of bowling welcome, be prepared to have fun! Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org A Friend for a Friend Presents: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Choregus Productions "EQUALITY" Discount 5 Shows for $100 Boot Camp Choregus Productions is offering new subscribers the opportunity to purchase season tickets for FIVE contemporary dance performances for the low price of $100 - that is half off the single ticket price of $40 for each performance. To receive the discount, call 918.688.6112 and give the code word "EQUALITY." Check www.choregus.org for more information on the performances included in the 2013 - 2014 season. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUEST s.-EA.Kut AT ANNUAL RUIIEU BENNE'TI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on PRESENTATION ::.r~2~.~!I! BEG.I NS 2 :00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 2952 S, PEORIA 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... TU Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All ~ A Dire Nat" LSA, OK 11le O:~~iSccurity 'M1rea • Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in SeparaHng Ch on of the Wall I, in the us ;:;:.h and Slate Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be 12,, ·;t • edForces Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). NT s AITH AlllANC ..... , - · - f Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday September 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. ------- Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSON GRAND IU)TEI. For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ lbm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat OkEq Party -on -the --- -Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. September is a special month for St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) September 19 marks the 10th Anniversary of the Formation of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) Although St. Jerome was founded in 1995, the parish has been a part of the ECC for four years. St. Jerome is celebrating the formation of the ECC with events throughout the month, giving people opportunity to discover the ECC. The first of these events is: An Evening at the Movies! On Tues. Sept.10th, 2013 at 7:00 pm we will show the documentary film, Saint of 9/11 which presents the turbulent, restless, spiritual and remarkable journey of Father Mychal Judge, OFM. Compassionate champion of the needy and forgotten, a beloved Fire Department Chaplain (he lost his life at the Twin Towers ministering to his men of the NYFD on 9/11), recovering alcoholic, and gay man who loved his priestly work. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Fr. Mychal's full humanity. St. Jerome would like to invite all first responders to come, receive a token of our appreciation for their Civil Service Popcorn and soft drinks will be served! Please see this space for other exciting events happening throughout the month of September. St. Jerome Parish, Event Center Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... 205 West King Street Tulsa 918.582.3088 Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays, Beginning September 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will begin on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Tuesday. Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Equality Center Pride Store The Pride Store at the Equality Center has been undergoing some reorganizing and restocking. Be sure to come by and check out the new items and the newly discounted items. And be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'While England Sleeps' by David Leavitt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the rise of fascism in 1930s Europe, While England Sleeps tells the story of a love affair between Brian Botsford, an upperclass young writer, and Edward Phelan, an idealistic, self-educated employee of the London Underground and a Communist Party member. Though by far the better educated of the two, Brian is also more callow, convinced that his homosexuality is something he will outgrow. Edward, on the other hand, possesses "an unproblematic capacity to accept" both Brian and the unorthodox nature of their love for each other - until one day, at the urging of his wealthy aunt 4/23/26, 11:13 AM �OkEq eNews September 4th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-4th--201... Constance, Brian agrees to be set 11 DAVID LEAVITT up with a "suitable" young woman named Philippa Archibald... and soon enough Edward is pushed to the point of crisis. Fleeing, he volunteers to fight Franco in Spain, where he ends up in prison. And Brian, responsible for Edward's plight, must pursue him across Europe, and into the violent chaos of war. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • •••~ .. Volunt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:13 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/65b47d489169fbacc1ee6b1cf83ca139.pdf db2acec0fa07a1bf4fa5d92aa1bfbf07 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Board of Directors OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Dinner for Friends Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions The eNews for the week of September 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ron LaButti Tulsa Women's Rugby Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK GAMILY Event Russell Bennett Award Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of LGBT Community Center Awareness Day Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Sisters in Song OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... SEPTEMBER 15 LGBTCOMMUNITYCENTERAWARENESSOAY Because Great LGBTCommunities Begin With Great LGBT Community Centers Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign -------- OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. September's topic: Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Gay Divorce in Oklahoma The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Dinner for Friends Thursday, September 12th, 2013; 5:00 - 9:00 pm A Friend for a Friend Presents: 5th Annual Dinner for Friends Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Panera Bread 5601 E 41st St (41st & Hudson) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Thursday, September 12th, 2013 5:00 - 9:00 pm When you order, mention "A Friend for a Friend" and 10% of your total purchase will be donated to the organizatioon, courtesy of Panera Bread There will be special entertainment, free Panera Bread pastry samples and more! "A Friend for a Friend" is a 501(C)3 Organization that is dedicated to helping those with HIV/AIDS with their pet's care and wellness, and is completely funded by private donations. For more information, call 918-747-6827 or 918-361-8839. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Spectrum Knits SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Grieving Well Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage · Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Opening Home Game, Saturday, September 14th, 2013; 12:00 pm Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has a jam-packed weekend, Home Opener against Little Rock is Saturday September 14th with kickoff at 12:00 pm. For the first time, these matches will be played in conjunction with SCOTFEST, Oklahoma's premiere Scottish Festival at River West Festival Park. Be sure to wear your TWRFC gear - -to-get - your - -admission - - - - -discount - - - -of-$5! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Club, Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Counseling Services Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... September GAMILY event Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 5:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at Guthrie Green ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT lf"EAKUt AT ANNUAL RUSSEU BENNETI AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2,.~!I! BEGJNS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH 2952 S. PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio n al Security ·n1reat: The Ocstn1ction of the Wall Separating Church and S ta t.e in the U.S. Armed Forces ~ _.., ____ _ It • IN- .RfAITH AlUAHCf -------- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mom !IOU urnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa , OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event - ~ ro1.,MCAR,sQ. !:.,.~N,!.!I,t} - ·- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Call 918-834-4194 for more info Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Weekend. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals B:A.SIN -PARK - N USONI ·GR AND 11,0 TEL A MA·G For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liRm'lb For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seatontheOkEq Party --Bus! - Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Sisters in Song Choir Rehearsals Tuesdays; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Sisters In Song Hope Peace & Joy 2013 will continue on Tuesdays from 7:00 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Like us on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 JIii https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20.. sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... ----- OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org -- ---- Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Spinnin' on DVD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Set against the whimsical backdrop of Madrid in 1995 reimagined here as a city where cynicism doesn't exist. The film presents a tapestry of stories with a diverse array of characters. At the heart of it all is G�rate and Omar, a gay couple looking for a woman to mother their child. The obstacles they face are 4/23/26, 11:17 AM �OkEq eNews September 12th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-12th--20... often achingly realistic, yet their story also presents a utopian vision of a world in which all couples no matter what their sexual orientation can reside happily within the full spectrum of modern families. Starting with the ploy of capturing 101 different kinds of kisses, the film sets off on a cinematic flight of fancy that proceeds with a childlike sense of joy. Featuring a handsome cast of characters, a loving portrayal of the Spanish capital, and a playful soundtrack, 'Spinnin' will undoubtedly win viewers over one way or another. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:17 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64035426fcb57ecd6a87203212b68b01.pdf 6fb134538a5cbf1e287297b7d58b46d2 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Equality Business Alliance Fall Programming Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. ---eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Computer Boot Camp First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions GAMILY Event Tulsa Women's Rugby The eNews for the week of September 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Russell Bennett Award Sue Ellen Welch {918) 8 0-8156 Enid Pride 2013 Tulsa CARES OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 SWelch@ cGrawOK.com Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Pride Store Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, September 19th, 7:00 pm The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote Tai Chi Class OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The September Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Saks Fifth Avenue. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Saks Fifth Avenue 1780 Utica Square Tulsa, OK 74114 Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Two Step and Country Line Dance (Begins September 19th, 2013) 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage Serv1Ces and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" ----- September GAMILY event Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am - 3:30 pm Gamily will be attending the Turn Tulsa Pink! Event at Guthrie Green on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 and everyone is invited to stop by for a good time and for a good cause. Stop by anytime between 11:00 am and 5:30 pm and visit with your Gamily friends. For more information on the event visit Turn Tulsa Pink! at ---Guthrie Green Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 - Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Counseling Services Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Next Home Game, Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 11:00 am Tulsa Rugby Pitch E 37th St Tulsa Women's Rugby Football Club has started their new season. The team practices every Monday and Wednesday, 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm at E 37th St and Riverside Dr in Tulsa. Visit a practice or contact them today about becoming part of the team - all ages and experience levels are welcome! For more information on visit tulsawomensrugby.com the Tulsa Women's Rugby Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Club, ----- Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning September 15th, 2013 through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: September 21st, 2013 October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation Saturday, September 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave MIKEY WEINSTEIN GUUT IPU.llut AT ANNUAL RUSSEU IENNffl AWARD The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance invites you to attend the 2013 Russell Bennett Award Presentation on Saturday, September 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. Our guest speaker for this event will be Mikey Weinstein, Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF). PRESENTATION :~~2~,D foil BEGINS 2:00pm ALL SOULS UfillffARlAN CHURCH 2952 $ , PEORIA TULSA,OK A Dire Natio nal Security 'M1reat: 11le Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and Slate in the U.S. Armed Forces t • lt-.TUsAITH AlllANCf ' ._. , ---- The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance is happy to announce the recipient of this year's Russell Bennett Faith and Courage Award is Don A. Pittman, PhD, Director of the Interreligious Understanding Program at Phillips Theological Seminary. The Board selected Dr. Pittman because of his efforts in bringing high quality scholarship into the experience of religious pluralism that was so important to the late Rev Dr. Russell Bennett. Michael L. "Mikey" Weinstein, the Founder and President of the Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF), will be the guest speaker for this event. His presentation is entitled "A Dire National Security Threat: The Destruction of the Wall Separating Church and State in the U.S. Armed Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Forces." To RSVP and be kept up-to-date on this event, please sign up on the Facebook Event page. Enid Pride 2013 Saturday, September 21st, 2013; Noon - 6:00 pm Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. a::ra=c:: - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays September 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU Hnow YOU mnnrm ... Friday, October 11 th 7 pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song This is a 21 and over event For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 _ : Tobo ilfCARESQ . l ~.~!I.9 --- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song} Free Appetizers Sl Jell-0 Shots S3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat party -on - the -- -bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno BASIN PARK A MA,G NUSONI GRAND IHITEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet mmmru For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ----- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK The Retreats are Herland's only Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 1-loJAlrrnrl 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... "womyn only" event held throughout sister resources the year. It is a place for women to feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. ' ·~· ,u, ,u Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Donor Insemination Guide: Written by and for Lesbian Women' By Marie Mohler, MA & Lacy Frazer, PsyD You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Proven Techniques For Lesbians Who Want To Encourage A Safe And Loving Conception; Conceiving a child together is an act of love. But when doctors, medical staff, sperm banks, donors and a deep-freeze get in on the act, it can become somewhat stressful. Now, written especially for lesbians, A Donor Insemination Guide explores the way by sharing the experiences of other lesbian women who have successfully conceived using donor insemination, Revealing what many n doctors don't tell you about the practical details and emotional aspects of this intimate process, A Donor Insemination Guide offers readers the information they need to make wise choices, including: The pros and cons of known and unknown donors. Essential legal considerations. Choosing donor methods. The possible emotional effects on the relationship. Tips for dealing with the medical establishment. And more! DONO I E I TIO GUIDE Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:18 AM �OkEq eNews September 17th, 2013 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-17th--20... •••~ . Vol int r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r----------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L----------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:18 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/cc1046ba4975ff11a5dc962ff9f4426f.pdf b22dcc63ac16414d1595a3f88cb0d6f1 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 1 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews September 25th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day Board of Directors First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Absentee voting for the 2013 - 2014 Board of Directors election will begin on September 19th, 2013. You may cast your vote in person at the Equality Center or request a ballot by emailing Lucas.Green@OkEq.org. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Fall Programming Computer Boot Camp Tulsa CARES Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of September 25th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald Labutti Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Fall Ball 2013 Tulsa Threat Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK SAGE Tulsa Halloween OUT in Eureka OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat $erious $tanley Imperial Court A Time To Kill Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of OkEq's Annual Membership Meeting, Dennis Neill and John Southard have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 2 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm and are sponsoring the Equality Center and OkEq programming for the day of Thursday, September 26th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq Art Exhibit The September exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Artie Smoote The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Click here to view nominated candidates. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 3 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Counseling Services OkEq Board 2012 - 2013 "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits Fall Programming 2013 New Programs in September SOS Group 7:00 pm Every Monday This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org T.O.S.S. Swing Dance Class 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Every Tuesday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Each class features a 30 minute lesson followed by extended practice time with TOSS members. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Two Step and Country Line Dance 7:30 pm Every Thursday Free for Members $5 for Non Members 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • • '·'f:g . Grieving Well 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 4 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Are you the wall flower in the room because you don't know the latest dance steps? Well, kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Yoga A-Z 5:30 pm Every Friday Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Yoga class for beginners to the expert all levels, all ages. Does your Lotus droop? Is your Downward Dog not standing up? Does your inner child need a time out? Then this is the class for you. Facilitated by Margot Be sure to keep up with all the new and existing programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by visiting the Programming page of the OkEq website. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Tuesday of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones SAGE Tulsa Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area Thlslsa21 &Up Event YOU Hnom YOU urnnrm ... sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 5 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... b.l I t . 4"' ~tree t , 1u1sa, UI\. United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ :..: 1wotifCAR,s k.lV.!..YJil~'? Q. - - ·- $20 per person or $3S per couple (includes2drinksand 1 song) Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more Info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tu lsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Retirement Ain't for Sissies Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Baby Boomers, have you thought about your retirement plans lately? Planning for retirement is not just for the financially secure future, it's about staying active mentally, physically and spiritually. Find out what you can do with your skills, your passions and your bucket list. Start planning now while you have the time. It's time to think about the long term. We are living longer more active lives than ever before. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 6 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Game Dates & Times: Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm through October 27th, 2013. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street. For more information,please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 7 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend CZ.: .... - Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 8 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Book your hotel rooms before September 27th! Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 9 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 10 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. $erious $tanley at RAW Artist Showcase Friday, September 27th, 2013; 8:00 pm $erious $tanley, Tulsa's very own LGBTQ Rapper, Singer-Songwriter, will be taking place in ANOTHER RAW Artist Showcase! $erious $tanley has performed for Tulsa Pride and is the DJ for many OkEq events. The last RAW Artist showcase in July went over so well! RAW Artists presents: TRANSLATIONS will take place at The Vanguard in Tulsa on Friday, September 27th, 2013. You can purchase tickets at http://www.rawartists.org/tulsa/translations Tickets are $10 a piece if you purchase them through the RAW Artist website and $15 the at the door. Make sure either way you purchase that you are selecting $erious $tanley as the artist you are coming to support! You can view the $erious $tanley RAW Artist profile at http:// www.rawartists.org/seriousstanley Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 11 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Friends and Family pricing for "A Time To Kill" Previews start September 28th on Broadway 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 12 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... SAVE UP TO 40% $45 $60 sso Rear Mezz. G-H Rear Mezz. A-F Select Orch . & Mezz. Reg. $69.50 Reg. $87 Reg. $132 CLICK HERE AND USE CODE TKFNSFMY2 VISIT BroadwayOffers.com OR CALL 212-947-8844 Purchase by Oct. 25 for performances through Nov. 24 Box office now open. ® Golden Theatre, 252 W. 45th St. 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 13 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 1st - Zackie Achmat October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 14 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Heather Has Two Mommies' By Leslea Newman You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Originally self-published in 1989, Heather Has Two Mommies became the first title in Alyson's newly formed Alyson Wonderland imprint in 1990. The simple and straightforward story of a little girl named Heather and her two lesbian mothers was created by Newman and illustrator Diana Souza because children's books that reflected a nontraditional family did not exist, but a firestorm of controversy soon ensued. Attacked by the religious right, lambasted by Jesse Helms from the floor of the U.S Senate, and stolen from library \\R t ,H\ Jl ll'~ I K-\J l f) tn shelves, it was an uphill battle for LESLEA ~EWMAt\ DIA \ A SOLZ \ Heather. Thanks to the overwhelming support of booksellers, librarians, parents, and children, however, Heather Has Two Mommies has sold over 35,000 copies, launched a minor industry in providing books for the children of gay and lesbian parents and, as attested to by a recent New Yorker cartoon, become part of the cultural lexicon. HEATHER HAS TWO MOMMIES 4/23/26, 11:19 AM �OkEq eNews September 25th, 2013 15 of 15 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-September-25th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library •••~ .. Volunt er ru SA A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:19 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/80c7676ed224cde50680415d2933718d.pdf 3d447a62ef57ae82767a8965b2c52991 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 1st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUT OK Film Screening First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will host a special screening for the OUT OK Film Festival on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. And join us on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013 for our October Art Reception featuring the work of P.C. Cast at 6:00 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of October 1st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Computer Boot Camp Retirement Ain't For Sissies OUTlaw Legal Series Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance Gallery Submissions Tulsa Threat SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Building Bridges OUT in Eureka Bullying Conference Family Center -Safety -- SWelch@McGrawOK.com OK Mr. Leather 2014 Herland Retreat Imperial Court OYP Re-Sale Shop OUT OK Festival Spirit Day Be Our Voice, Give a Day During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign St. Francis Sunday LGBT History Month Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www.mynefpa Ofg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Voice, Give a Day -Be -Our ---- campaign --- - OUT OK Film Festival Screening Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013; 7:00 pm In anticipation of OUT OK, you are cordially invited to a pre-film festival screening of Ferzan Ozpetek's ghostly comedy, MAGNIFICENT PRESENCE. Pietro moves into a too-good-to-be-true retro apartment. Before you can say, homo sweet home, the haunting begins. For more details, go to www.out-ok.com or 918.682.4654. Date: Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 Time: 7:00 pm Venue: Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Cost: Free (with the purchase of an OUT OK VIP PASS) Popcorn will be provided Save the dates: November 15th, 16th & 17th, 2013 Movie Tickets: $10 VIP PASS: $80 (Admission to all 2013 films, Priority Seating, OUT OK Survival Kit) Stay Tuned...Film Schedule to be released soon. www.out-ok.com Net proceeds benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "First Thursday" Art Show Reception October 3rd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The October OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... the multi-media works of Tulsa's bestselling author, P.C. Cast, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, October 3rd from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Retirement Ain't for Sissies Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Tuesday, October 8th, 2013; 7:00 pm Jane Mudgett (Financial Advisor) and Dr. Chandini Sharma MD (Gerontologist) will present a Workshop on planning your retirement before you retire. Retirement Ain't for Sissies. Through a participative approach, they will provide suggestions to help you • Stay upright and keep moving • Importance of body and brain health • Health screening and managing disease risk factors • Manage expenses and keep saving • Focus on bigger dollar issues rather than smaller cents • Learn how American marketing lures you to buy more now I • •' - Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Dr. Chandini Sharma, with 20 years of experiences, has a private practice in Tulsa and specializes in Internal and Geriatric Medicine. Jane Mudgett is a Financial Planning Specialist and Financial Advisor with Morgan Stanley. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11: pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU mnnrra ... Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street , Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way _ : Two. CARES 1=..~~!tt! Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Q. ··--- $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 song) Free Appetizers $1 Jell-O Shots S3 Beer and Wine S1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading "OkEq gallery proposal" Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following days: October 5th, 2013 November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LCP 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course, Starting this week Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. • Wednesday, Oct. 2nd, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursday, Oct. 3rd, at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Friday, Oct. 4th, at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturday, Oct. 5th, 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org .... Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 2nd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. --------- It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GRAND IH>TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ limm'DI For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllflNI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. Family Safety Center Open House and Dedication Wednesday, October 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm Family Safety Center 600 Civic Center Police/Municipal Courts Building, Main Level Please join Family Safety Center's partners and Casey Gwinn, President of the National Family Justice Center Alliance, for a "Home Warming," as they dedicate the brand new 11,000 square foot facility in downtown Tulsa. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org FSC exists because of the hard work of these collaborative partners: 14th District Court, DVIS/Call Rape, Office of the District Attorney RSVP of Tulsa, Tulsa County Sheriff's Office, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry (TMM), Tulsa Police Department, Family Violence and Forensic Nursing Units, YWCA Tour the FSC's new home and let them thank you for providing protection, hope and healing to those affected by domestic and intimate partner violence in Tulsa County. Traditional "Home Warming" gifts are encouraged to help us provide the best services in our new home. Click here to find our wish list. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... And since we offer comfort to those who need it, we'll be serving comfort food for appetizers. Come hungry! Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Imperial Crown Prince - Philip & Imperial Crown Princess - Misty present WANTED A Night in Maverick Country Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... Saturday, October 5th, 2013 8:00 pm to Midnight Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center All Ages Welcome $25 a person / $45 a couple (include open bar, 21+ Only) This is a State Event - Dress is Formal or Theme (Western Wear) Proceeds to benfit - The Clogger Bill Youth Scholarship Fund For more information please contact ICP's Philip or Misty impcourtok@gmail.com or visit www.impcourtok.webs.com Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! www.out-ok.com Stay tuned! Movie titles and schedule to follow. Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had ttspiritday taken their own lives. Observed annually, 10.17.2013 individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, ,...,,.. media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked ,,••, ~ glaad org/spiritday to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. St. Francis Sunday - Blessing of the Animals Sunday, October 6th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King Tulsa, OK 74106 St Jerome will be celebrating the Feast of St. Francis, which will include a "Blessing of the Animals." Everyone is invited to bring their pets to church to be blessed. Come, bring your furry and feathered, or scaly friends. We ask that they be properly kenneled, leashed, caged or held. And if you are not able to bring your pet, bring a picture which you can carry up front as a symbol of their presence to be 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... blessed. Celebration will start with an 11:00 am Mass (no sermon that day). Depending on the weather, blessings will take place either outdoors or in the Events Center. For more information, please call 918.582.3088 October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. October 2nd - Edward Albee October 3rd - Gwen Araujo October 4th - Reinaldo Arenas October 5th - Axel Axgil October 6th - Djuna Barnes October 7th - Joseph Beam October 8th - Gad Beck October 9th - Joan Biren To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Equality Center Pride Store Love is sweeping the Pride Store, with our new selection of wedding cake toppers, $39, $59 and $99. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage and My Family' By Dan Savage 4/23/26, 11:20 AM �OkEq eNews October 1st, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-1st--2013.... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Dan Savage's mother wants him to get married. His boyfriend, Terry, says "no thanks" because he doesn't want to act like a straight person. Their sixyear-old son DJ says his two dads aren't "allowed" to get married, but that he'd like to come to the reception and eat cake. Throw into the mix Dan's straight siblings, whose varied choices form a microcosm of how Americans are approaching marriage these days, and you get a rollicking family memoir that will have everyone-gay or straight, right or left, single or married-howling with laughter and rethinking their notions of marriage and all it entails. lo,,.. rnffrriQgt" i;;cM and. Ill) ra,nily - DAN SAVAGE ........ ,.........., -.. ··-••... _.,~ ..... , ,~-- ,... ,... ~ Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library • :JI : • Vol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:20 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/2855b02ce046cb73bf797248912135fe.pdf 743f8e576b2f75ed4d1a6be624737bfd PDF Text Text OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews October 10th, 2013 In This Issue • Programming Note EBA Sponsor Donate a Day OUTlaw Legal Series Welcome to the eNews. Tulsa CARES Equality Business Alliance SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween Bullying Conference National Coming Out Day is Friday, October 11th, 2013. OkEq offers a FREE Coming Out Workshop every Monday evening and provides counseling services onsite from licensed mental health professionals. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUT in Eureka Tulsa Threat Computer Boot Camp Building Bridges Spirit Day OkEq Programming Note Guys Dine Too • Yoga A - Z will be canceled on Friday, October 11th, 2013 and will resume on Friday, October 18th, 2013 at 5:30 pm. First Thursday Art Gallery Submissions • Country Two Step Class will be canceled for the next two weeks, Thursday, October 10th and 17th, 2013 and will resume on Thursday, October 24th, 2013 at 7:30 pm. Transgender Day of Remembrance • Tulsa Metro Softball League games will not be played this Sunday, October 13th, 2013. These games will be made up on Sunday, October 27th, 2013. OK Mr. Leather 2014 Within Our Reach Herland Retreat OYP Re-Sale Shop The eNews for the week of October 10th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be Our Voice, Give a Day Find Us on Facebook During Fire Prevention Week and in honor of our LGBT firefighters and EMS, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, October 17th, 7:00 pm www,mynefpa Q.rg and the Equality Center and OkEq programming will be sponsored for the week of October 6th - 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ ---- - OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, October 10th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. October Topic: Mumbo Jumbo: What is up with Gay Marriage in New Mexico, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania. OkEq Art Exhibit The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Friday, October 11th, 2013; 7:00 - 11:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa CARES is hosting a Karaoke Party on Friday, October 11th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. 100% of the proceeds will go to the Tulsa CARES fundraising campaign for the Tulsa Area United Way. $20 per person or $35 per couple (includes 2 drinks and 1 This Is a 21 & Up Event YOU ,mum YOU urnnrm . . . Friday, October 11 th 7pm - 11 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4t h Street, Tulsa, OK 100% proceeds go to the Tulsa CARES Fundralslng Campaign for the Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... 1- - --d llASOffll.AKI:!) song) !,,."'.I.Y,'il!L'? $20 per person or $35 per couple Free appetizers, $1 Jell-O Shots, $3 Beer and Wine, $1 per song Free Appetizers S1 Jell-O Shots $3 Beer and Wine $1 to Sing This is a 21 and over event Call 918-834-4194 for more info or check us out on Facebook: Karaoke by Tulsa CARES (includes2drinksand 1 song) LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org For more information call 918.834.4194 or visit Karaoke by Tulsa CARES on Facebook Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The October Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, October 16th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by A Lil' Bit Retro. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. A Lil' Bit Retro 5586 S Garnett SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. Annual Bullying Prevention Conference Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 9:00 am Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Rudisill Regional Library 1520 N Hartford Ave Tulsa, OK 74106 Saturday, October 26th, 2013 from 9:00 am to 1:30 pm Students, parents and educators will learn about: BlllYINI PRE 1ENTION CONFERENCE • School climate issues • Bullying and suicide • Local prevention programs • School based initiviative • Prevention and intervention • Cyberbullying Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Lunch provided by QuikTrip Kitchens. For questions or to register, please visit PreventBullyingTulsa.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. SAGE Tulsa We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. It's time to make your hotel reservations for our upcoming trip! For your hotel reservations, we have a block set up at the Basin Park Hotel in Downtown Eureka Springs and the Best Western Inn Eureka Springs. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... BASIN PARK A MA,GNUSONI ·GlilAND IH)TEL For the Basin Park Hotel, please click on the link below and it will take you to our group's reservation landing page. Follow the directions to book your lodging. Guest room rates includes breakfast. $184.00 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Basin Park, click here. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Click below to make your reservation with the group http://www.basinparkreservations.com/zoklahomans-for-equality/ liDtm1kl For the Best Western Euerka Inn, please call 479.253.9551 and ask for a room in the "Oklahomans for Equality" block. Guest room rate includes breakfast. $105.25 per night (Excludes Tax). For more information on the Best Western Eureka Inn, click here. You are more than welcome to make your own plans for lodging in Eureka Springs for Diversity Weekend, but be sure to get your seat on the OkEq Party Bus! ---------- Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (October 12th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm. The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org BUILDING BRIDGES Gay and Straight 6-Week Course Sponsored by Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry to build awareness, education and bridges of respectful relationship within a context of faith. At work, home, school and in our faith communities, we have neighbors who are gay or straight. For some it is a "no brainer" and for others it is a challenge. Join us for a 6-week course with video and discussion using the Marin Foundation curriculum, "Love is an Orientation" (MarinFoundation.org). Pick your choice of date and location. There is no fee to attend. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... • Wednesdays, at 7:00 pm, Kendall-Whittier Library 21 S. Lewis Ave. • Thursdays at 2:00 pm; Herman Kaiser Library 5202 S. Hudson St. • Fridays at 10:30 am; Brookside Library 1207 E. 45th Pl. • Saturdays at 1:00 pm Schusterman Library 3333 E. 32nd St. Each location will have six meetings at the same time each week. Come to the first meeting and learn positive ways to address this sensitive subject, while maintaining your faith and being respectful to your neighbors. You will not need a book for the class. But if you are interested and cannot attend, Steve's Bookstore has "Love is an Orientation". For information contact: Ray Hickman, (918.261.2500) Executive Director, Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry. For more information and/or to register (not necessary to attend): Go to the TMM website www.tumm.org Spirit Day | Taking a stand against bullying Thursday, October 17th, 2013 Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays October 16th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Millions of Americans wear purple on Spirit Day as a sign of support for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth and to speak out against bullying. Spirit Day was started in 2010 as a response to the young people who had taken their own lives. Observed annually, individuals, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals and celebrities wear purple, which symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag. Getting involved is easy -- participants are asked to simply "go purple" on October 17th, 2013 as work continues to create a world in which LGBT teens are celebrated and accepted for who they are. Learn more & go purple at www.glaad.org/spiritday. ----- · Guys Dine Too Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays (Resumes Oct. 24th) 6:30 - 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Yoga A - Z Fridays (Resumes Oct. 18th) 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 2014 Art Gallery Submissions Submission deadline is October 15th, 2013 Game Night 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... The art gallery at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is now accepting proposals for the 2014 Exhibition Calendar. The gallery encourages emerging artists and fresh challenging work in all media, including installation works. Proposals should include a paragraph or two about your vision for an exhibit, as well as 5 JPEG images which characterize your current work. Proposals incorporating the work of 2 artists or a small group are also acceptable. OkEq hosts an opening night reception for the artist(s), which beginning in January will be held on the first Friday of the month, and close on the last Wednesday. There will be a 30% commission on work sold. Artists will be asked to provide a "door prize" which will be awarded by a drawing at close of opening night. Deadline for submissions is October 15th, 2013. Notifications will be sent out by November 1st, 2013. The OkEq Art Gallery Committee has a "no repeat" policy, so will only consider proposals from those who have not previously exhibited in the gallery, (excepting MOREcolor participation). Please submit by e-mail to alliejensen@cox.net, with the subject heading ----"OkEq gallery proposal" 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - - --Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 October 18th - 20th, 2013 October in Oklahoma - when a chill starts to fill the air... it's a perfect time to throw on a little bit of Leather! The Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association is proud to be producing the 25th Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest. From our infamous Bar Crawl Friday night, to educational classes on Saturday afternoon, and the contest itself on Saturday night, this weekend is set to be one for the record books! Early bird registration is only $60, which gets you in to all of the festivities, as well as the Hospitality Suite at the host hotel, commemorative OML XXV tshirt, pin, and dog tag, and maybe a few surprises! Our host hotel for this year is the Hyatt Downtown Tulsa, and rooms are only $79/night! As well as sashing a new Oklahoma Mr. Leather who will be representing our state at the International Mr. Leather contest in Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend, the OML weekend helps raise money for charity. T.U.L.S.A. is a non-profit organization, and we also make a donation to other charitable organizations that help members of the Leather & kink communities. This year's charities are the Leather Archives & Museum, Mr. Friendly OKC, and the Sharon St. Cyr Fund. We have advertising and sponsorship opporunities available if you'd like to help us raise a little (or a LOT) of cash. For more information, check out the T.U.L.S.A. Event Website. Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Openarms Youth Project Re-Sale Shop Now accepting donations Openarms Youth Project is delighted to announce that the Re-Sale shop is ready to accept donations of your gently used items. Wood furniture, nice clothing, art, knick knacks, lamps etc. are all needed to fill space for the first sale coming up very soon. Please call OYP at 918.838.7104 if you have items to drop off and someone will meet you there. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. OYP cannot accept mattresses, large appliances or fully upholstered furniture at this time. Your donation will be tax-deductible. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- The Show Must Go On.... OUT OK is back! The Oklahoma LGBT International Film Festival returns for another installment of celluloid dreams and movie magic. Mark the dates on your calendar November 15th - 17th, 2013. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. ---IIISIORY .\IO. ~lH October 10th - Patrick Califia October 11th - Mandy Carter October 12th - Willa Cather October 13th - Tracy Chapman October 14th - Tim Cook October 15th - Anderson Cooper October 16th - Elio Di Rupo 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 19th and 26th, 2013 Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. will do this hike Saturday October 19th, 2013 and again on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. It is easily one of the most photographed and recognizable features in Arkansas. The hike to it is an easy 3.0 mile round trip, and offers scenic vistas, huge boulders, beautiful waterfalls, (if there is water) and we hope to be graced with the bright oranges and reds of turning maple leaves this fall. The hike to the Crag is rated easy, but we must keep in mind this trail runs along a bluffline for half the distance. Because of this, extreme caution is necessary when hiking this area. It is also not a hike for small children or unleashed pets. The drive to Ponca, Arkansas is roughly 3 hours. We will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 8:00 am and leave for Ponca at exactly 8:30 am. We will carpool and ask all passengers to pitch in to help pay for gas. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. Please RSVP with Mary Jones by calling 918.743.4297 or RVSP on the Facebook Event page. Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of Your House?' By Linda Handel You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Opening the door to a consistent, mature lifestyle is challenging for anyone, but it is especially stressful for gay men and lesbians living in a heterosexual world. In Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House?, Linda Handel speaks from her own personal experiences as a former spouse in a heterosexual marriage, a mother of two, an out lesbian and a licensed therapist to explore the full spectrum of life concerns-from lingering childhood issues, dating and sex to intolerance, abuse and self-hatred-in a voice that is always direct, open and refreshingly honest. Now That You 're What Abou t the Rest of the House? A witty, creative guidebook filled with solid advice, Now That You're Out of the Closet, What About the Rest of the House? offers encouraging direction to those who have discovered that coming out is only the first step in the journey toward a fulfilling life. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:21 AM �OkEq eNews October 10th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-10th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:21 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/8dab9e08e0b9756c76ff2fb82d5c6603.pdf 2aa198c4a8a78adc7d67fc891f5f9f59 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 31st, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Gamily Family Fever Dream Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: First Thursday Art EBA Counseling Services Guys Dine Too SAGE Pool Party Fall Ball 2013 The Clobber Verses Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Council Oak Mens Chorale Cooling Station Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Threat Coach Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@OkEq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages. Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper If you would like to volunteer for the back to School Carnival, please email Mary.Jones@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm Gamily featured family for the week of July 31st This week's featured Gamily Family is Liz and Stephanie Ingersoll and their daughter Bella. OkEq Art Exhibit The August exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos Liz and Stephanie have been together for almost 10 years, married for 9. Their daughter Bella is 5 going on 30. Liz is a local photographer who owns Mia Bella Art and has work displayed at the Tulsa International Airport and Liz is a stay at home mother and homeschools Bella. The family loves to camp and go on small road trips when Liz has photoshoots. Bella loves ballet and will appear in Sleeping Beauty and The Nutcracker for the 2nd time this year. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center, Emily Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever Dream, features Wilson and Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... !!AHIIUUICRUC iliLOOKSf n mf RIGHT l\~:i Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character th TELLK al Ill DIE •q~~, : • known only as "The Author". In this ltYI UIS c....t..- modernist take on life and death, Wilson meets a variety of 621 • •,h characters from the hyperactive i.WANT•c;; TU aup~t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic 7pm Webster (the living 1 HAPPENS 5 S7 at door Merriam embodiment of a dictionary), led $5 wlt b throughout it all by her IHI UII GUY •tu... "l ID magnanimous guide Ad .. Kinnier. Certain characters use I!,rnMAKESM EANLIGHT .....,_cu. . adult language and a parental mn onty advisory is suggested. Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. EVE em H -INNIlRrr i~D ATOR EA M GOIN&Y/1~.. • M SON"=" ~MERRIAMDKAY J(MSYMRJOMSeEET First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather The August Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Enhance Skin & Body Medical Spa 6616 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133 New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady www.mexicalibordercafe.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Tuesday, August 27th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have an encore pool party on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the pool party. Lunch at the pool party will be Potluck, so bring your favorite summer dish. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - to RSVP. interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, B1iexual & Transgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com The Clobber Verses - Religion Workshop Mondays, August 19th and 26th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Rev. Bob Lawerence will be leading two sessions of a religion workshop called "The Clobber Verses". These sessions will entail various faith leaders in Tulsa providing historical, social and theological background on one of the Bible verses that is used to justify homophobia (each person taking a different passage). The two sessions are planned on Mondays, August 19th and 26th at 7:00 pm: One session will look at the Old Testament and the other at the New Testament. Scholars from Phillips Theological Seminary will lead the primary lecture about context and interpretation, followed by smaller group conversations about the verses, followed by a panel of local ministers to answer any final questions. Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy ,.._ ===- -= For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak moos chorole Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Lambda Al-Anon Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Game Night The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org - - Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Women's Tackle Football Coaching Position Available Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is looking for a qualified head coach for the 2014 season. The Threat is a non-profit, semi-pro, fullcontact women's tackle football team based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. A member of the Women's Football Alliance since 2011, the Threat is a combination of beginner and intermediate adult athletes with a love for competitive football. The Threat off-season training begins in December, with games starting in April. The regular season consists of 8 games. All games are on Saturday nights, 4 home, and 4 away to surrounding states. Additional postseason games are to be determined on team performance. This is a paid position and all traveling accommodations will be covered by the team. For more information send an email to tulsaWTF@yahoo.com or visit www.tulsathreat.com Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Voting members must be current in their $50 OkEq membership fee by September 11th, 2013. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $10.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Transgender Rights' edited by Paisely Currah, Richard M. Juang and Shannon Price Minter You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Over the past three decades, the transgender movement has gained visibility and achieved significant victories. Discrimination has been prohibited in several states, dozens of municipalities, and more than two hundred private companies, while hate crime laws in eight states have been amended to include gender identity. Yet prejudice and violence against transgender people remain all too common. ~ LU 0 z (!:> ~ RIGHTS With analysis from legal and policy experts, activists and advocates, Transgender Rights assesses the movement's achievements, challenges, ~ and opportunities for future action. ~ Examining crucial topics like family law, employment policies, public health, economics, and grassroots organizing, this groundbreaking book is an indispensable resource in the fight for the freedom and equality of those who cross gender boundaries. Moving beyond media representations to grapple with the real lives and issues of transgender people, Transgender Rights will launch a new moment for human rights activism in America. <t: Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 31st, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-31st--2013.htm... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:06 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3fde59b09f0fce1af90d2b873012207e.pdf 7c79b0bc1318ac7cbae33d56bd6b2118 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... eNews October 24th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor SAGE Tulsa Halloween Gamily Halloween OUT in Eureka Welcome to the eNews. Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp Mindful Meditation The eNews for the week of October 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series First Thursday Art Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Transgender Day of Remembrance Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach Birds of Prey Mosaic Margaritas & Burgers SAGE Tulsa Halloween Party Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will have a Halloween party on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013 at 10:00 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center and carpool to the party. The group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. Lunch will be provided. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org to RSVP. Tony Kushner Wedding Announcement Herland Retreat Tulsa Metro Basketball LGBT Literature OUT OK Festival LGBT History Month Hiking in the Ozarks Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 The October exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of P.C. Cast Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq OUT in Eureka Springs for Fall Diversity Weekend Friday, November 1st - Sunday, November 3rd, 2013 Counseling Services Fall Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas will be Nov 1st - 3rd, 2013. What better way to spend it than with your OkEq friends in Eureka Springs. We are gassing up a party bus and will transport the group over to Eureka Springs. Click here for more information on Fall Diversity Weekend. Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... TherapyJohn@OkEq.org We've got a seat for you on the Party Bus. This Party Bus Pass will get you access to transportation on November 1st from Tulsa to Eureka Springs and back on November 3rd. The bus will leave on Friday, November 1st at 12:00 pm from the Equality Center and drop off passengers at their hotel in Eureka Springs. The Party Bus Pass will only cost $75 per passenger. This will save you on gas and mileage and give you a chance to party with the other travelers on the way to Eureka Springs Diversity Weekend! Click here to reserve your seat on the party bus. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: November 9th, 2013 Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:30 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:30 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Homebuyer Education Workshop SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... OkEq honored by Mosaic in Top 20 Inclusive Workplace Cultures Mosaic, Tulsa Business Chamber's Diversity and Inclusion Council, honored Oklahomans for Equality for leadership in creating a diverse and inclusive workplace culture in the Tulsa area. In attendance to receive the award were Toby Jenkins, OkEq Executive Director and Mike Redman, OkEq Board of Director. Boot Camp Margaritas & Cheeseburgers in Paradise Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 11:00 am - 1:00 pm Red Sky Liquor & Wine 4711 E 51st Street BOB FM will be at Equality Business Alliance member Red Sky Liquor & Wine this Saturday October 26th, 2013 with a live remote from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm. You can sign up for a chance to win a 5 day trip to Hawaii and 2 tickets to the Jimmy Buffet concert. BOB FM will also have a money machine and people will have a chance to grab as much money as they want every 30 minutes. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == All sales from Red Sky Liquor & Wine from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm will be 10% off marked price. Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Two Step & Country Line Dance Wedding Announcement Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Jennifer Davenport and Dorothy Davenport were married at First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Des Moines, Iowa on Thursday October 17th, 2013. Associate Pastor Suzanne Stout officiated and several members of the congregation were in attendance. 'Tfii..f '»•y Jennifer and Dorothy's three youngest children attended, witnessed, gave their blessing and were also a part of the ceremony. l'W,ff'Morry 'J,fy :f,frnl, '/Tu. On~ I £o1191t'H 11tli l.itJ~ :for, 'Dr~am 'JV1tli, !,ov, Herland Retreat November 1st, 2nd & 3rd, 2013 Yoga A - Z Pickens Lake Eufeaula, OK Her/and The Retreats are Herland's only "womyn only" event held throughout the year. It is a place for women to sister resources feel safe and comfortable being in a womyn's space. Plan on having a fun and relaxing time at the Herland Retreat. You will meet lots of wonderful womyn and are sure to make a new friend or two while you are here. Call 405.550.2312 for more information or visit herlandsisters.org to register. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Tuesday, October 29th, 2013; 3:00 pm Room MC 617 TCC Metro Campus 909 S Boston Ave A Selective, Opinionated, and Not Especially Academic Survey of Gay and Lesbian Literature Since the 1800s." Presented by Dr. Allen Culpepper, Assistant Professor of English,Tulsa Community College. Tuesday, October 29, 3:00 pm, Metro Campus Board Room, (Room MC 617). In connection with GLBT History Month. No cost. (Room capacity is limited, though.) RSVP to --------allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu by Oct. 27th, 2013. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 4 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Catch FREE FALL on Saturday, Nov. 16th at 4:00 pm. Sex, lies, and deception: the life of a testosterone-fuelled police cadet. Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org October is LGBT History Month A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day of the month 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... A new LGBT Icon will be featured every day LGBT History Month celebrates the achievements of 31 lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender Icons. Beginning October 1st, 2012, a new LGBT Icon will be featured every day. }IISIORY .\Kl ~lH October 24th - Ma Rainey October 25th - Sally Ride October 26th - Marlon Riggs October 27th - Vito Russo October 28th - Jos� Sarria October 29th - George Takei October 30th - Jason Wu October 31st - John Lawrence & Tyron Garner To view videos and bios of the featured Icons, visit lgbthistorymonth.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Hiking in the Ozarks Saturday, October 26th, 2013; 8:00 am Fall color hike in Arkansas lead by Doyle Wilson and Sherlene Bunnell. The group will hike on Saturday October 26th, 2013. Come join as we head to Ponca, Arkansas in search of Fall. We will be hiking The Whitaker Point Trail to The Hawksbill Crag. The Hawksbill Crag, also known as Whitaker Point, is located along the northern edge of the Upper Buffalo Wilderness in the Ozark National Forest, just south of the Buffalo National River. Please dress weather/hiking appropriate. Bring water and snacks/ lunch for hike, and don't forget your camera. For more information or to RSVP, please call Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or visit the Facebook Event page. Next trip will be an Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Brand new in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013.. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians' By Louise Rafkin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming out to mom is a lesbian rite of passage. In Different Daughters, thirty mothers of lesbians come together to trace their journeys towards acceptance of their daughters. Facing their fears and confusion, prejudice and misunderstandings, they speak honesty and bravely about the difficulties and joys of life with their "different daughters." Writing about families, community, religion, grandchildren, bisexuality, transgender issues, and coming out, the authors of Different Daughters raise questions shared by all mothers: How can we accept our children for who they are? How can we love our children even when they are different from us? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 12 of 13 4/23/26, 11:24 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-24th--2013... •••~ .. Volunt er A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:24 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/14e2f7efc53776423a7c05b413a9139a.pdf fad9281fe91e4c8b98d2e4864aa261ac PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... eNews October 31st, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Gamily Halloween Early Voting Medicare & ACA Welcome to the eNews. Happy Halloween! Make plans to Trick or Treat at the Equality Center with Gamily's Halloween celebration. Come by on tonight, October 31st from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm for candy, games and prizes! eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Threat Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Computer Boot Camp The eNews for the week of October 31st, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Sue Welch, McGraw Realtor Mindful Meditation Tulsa Metro Basketball OUTlaw Legal Series Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 Transgender Day of Remembrance Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach SWelch@McGrawOK.com OUT OK Festival Bird of Paradise Tony Kushner Living Arts Imperial Court Gamily Halloween Spooktacular Thursday, October 31st, 2013; 6:00 pm Pumpkins, goodies and creepy crawlies. Come join Gamily on Thursday, October 31st from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm for a spooktacular Halloween celebration. There will be arts & crafts, candy galore and a costume contest. Feel free to invite your friends and family. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org or OkEq's Gamily Facebook page. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Keith and Andrew with family Trick or Treat at OkEq Halloween 2012 Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org. November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Counseling Services Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OKEQ Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook Guys Dine Too Tuesday, November 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The November meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Maxxwell's Restaurant Tuesday, November 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Maxxwell's Restaurant is located inside the Campbell Hotel at 2636 E 11th Street, on the west end of the hotel. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending so that the restaurant may have an accurate head count. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Tai Chi Class The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm I The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones • • ' . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Cay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... JUST GENDER pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 For any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of thing you will need to bring you can email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC . --- Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:25 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Homebuyer Education Workshop Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm ,.. Boot Camp ~I �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Don't miss REACHING FOR THE MOON. 2 iconic women, 1 unforgettable story. Go to www.outok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class.. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM ~ -±........ CHAMPAGNE ANO CHOCOLATE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Mr & Miss Harvest 2013 Pageant" Friday, November 1st, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER) Open to anyone 21+ Mr. (Male Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a male) and Miss (Female Impersonation - Any male or female willing to perform as a female). Any Legal Talent - Singers, Dancers, Musicians, Drag, Comedians. Partial proceeds for this pageant benefit - OkEq's SAGE Program For more information contact George or Rusty or email impcourtok@gmail.com Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) NO Cover 21+ only Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating, Sex and Romance' By Mo Brownsey You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the ten telltale signs that date #2 will take place in hell? Is it better to bounce than to break? How do you navigate the squiggly line between exlover and now friends? Is it a date or just coffee? For women struggling to understand the nongirlfriend-girlfriend's refusal to bear any semblance to sanity, logic, or good manners, this nuts-and-bolts guide is the answer. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- // JUST COFFEE? Understanding that love involves equal parts romance, lust, and neuroses, Mo Brownsey will guide you through the mysteries of amour, whether by helping you figure out what is wrong with the people you have been dating, helping you find people you should be dating, showing you how to craft a personal ad designed to entice babes but repel psyche-sucking wackos, or describing ten surefire ways to avoid Lesbian Bed Death. Equally wise and witty, Is It a Date or Just Coffee? will have you navigating the minefield of romance (including the horrors of Internet dating) as if you were soldier of passion. Whether you are single, dating, married, or not sure which, this is the book for you! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ----- Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:25 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-October-31st--2013... • ~ . Vo1unt r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:25 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/87dbbdaad65e96cdadf61714789c02ba.pdf a40b97081038c202f6a351251680d634 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... eNews November 5th, 2013 In This Issue • OkEq Programming -- - - - Note EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Early Voting Welcome to the eNews. Do you have questions about Medicare or the Affordable Care Act? Come by on Wednesday, November 6th at 6:30 pm for an informative presentation. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Medicare & ACA First Thursday Art Immigration and DOMA Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Metro Basketball OkEq Programming Note Tulsa Threat Self Defense Class on Tuesday, November 5th and Tai Chi Class on Sunday, November 10th, have been canceled. The eNews for the week of November 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO OUTlaw Legal Series Transgender Day of Remembrance Come Home for Thanksgiving Say No to Hate Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com OUT OK Festival Mindful Meditation Hiking in the Ozarks Homebuyer Workshop Within Our Reach 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Computer Boot Camp Bird of Paradise Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Tony Kushner The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Living Arts Imperial Court Trans Microaggressions Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Find Us on Facebook Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ------------ --- - 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... November 12th Special Election Early Voting Thursday, November 7th & Friday, November 8th; 8:00 am - 6:00 pm Yes! You can vote early at the County Election Board office in Tulsa county if you are registered to vote. Early Voting at the Tulsa County Election Board 555 N Denver Ave ~ November 12th Special Elections Important dates: • Last time to request absentee ballot - November 6th, 5:00 pm • Early voting - Thursday, November 7th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm & Friday, November 8th, 8:00 am - 6:00 pm OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Medicare Supplements Made Easy & the Affordable Care Act Wednesday, November 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board member will be presenting information on Medicare Supplements and valuable information on where you can get the most value for your MONEY. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Are you on a fixed income? You cannot afford to miss this event. Also on hand will be Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, November 7th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Counseling Services The November Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper, in a show Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... beginning with a reception on Thursday, November 7th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Immigration and DOMA: Where do we go from here? Monday, November 11th, 2013 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Chris Bell, YWCA Immigration Attorney, speaks on the implications of the Supreme Court's repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act for immigrants, especially those who have a same-sex partner who is a U.S. citizen. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tryouts 2014 Season The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team is holding tryouts for the 2014 season on the following day: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org November 9th, 2013 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... All tryouts will be from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm at Thoreau Demonstration Academy - 7370 E 71st St Tulsa, OK 74133. Players must be 18 or older to try out and no experience is necessary to play. Bring $10.00, a photo ID, and wear athletic clothing (cleats not required). For more information, email us at: tulsawtf@yahoo.com or 'Like' us on Facebook OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The JUST GENDER screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org < ' Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - - - or visit our Facebook Event Page I • . Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Say No to Hate Coalition 25th Anniversary Wednesday, November 13th, 2013; 11:30 pm Tulsa Press Club 415 S Boston Ave Atlas Life Building Join in for the 25th Anniversary Celebration of the SAY NO TO HATE COALITION. Help continue to protect Tulsa from bigotry, racism and oppression by joining in for this celebration of unity and courage. Join in for a Dutch treat lunch for $12.00 and help affirm the value of SAY NO TO HATE to the community. Seating is limited. For more information or to RSVP, visit here. Lunch will be at the Tulsa Press Club, 415 S Boston Ave, from 11:30 am to 1:15 pm. A Press Conference will follow at 1:30 pm. OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis The OUT OK Film Festival opens in less than 3 weeks. Tune into www.out-ok.com for movie and ticket information and get your film-freak on! Your OUT OK VIP PASS will send you over the moon on November 15, 16, 17. OUT OK, The Oklahoma GLBT Film Festival returns with a collection of first-run, award-winning films. Invite your GBFs, BFFs, BFs, GFs, FBs. You don't want to miss any of the award-winning films like GBF because "Being out has never been so in". Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. Mindful Meditation Every Wednesday at 6:00 pm Science has proven the efficacy of Mindfulness Meditation in reducing blood pressure, improving the quality of sleep, improving memory and reducing other effects of aging, as well as helping us deal with the level of stress in our lives. In this class we will learn various techniques that lead to mindfulness. The class will start with short sessions and gradually increase them. Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful techniques and practice them with us. Please bring your own cushion (zafu). You may also find it helpful to bring something to pad your ankles as well. Self Defense Class Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River November 8th - 10th, 2013 Lead by Sherlenne Bunnell and Doyle Wilson, join an overnight backpacking adventure along the Buffalo River in Arkansas. for any questions about the Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River or for a list of things you will need to bring, please email Sherlenne Bunnell at sherandkids@cox.net. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 6th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:27 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: ( t(•t.~':._.iJI' rn • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org New Programming: Computer Boot Camp Starting in October; First Tuesday and 2nd Saturday of the month David Bohnett Cyber Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First Tuesday (November 5th) of every month from 3:00 - 5:00 pm and the 2nd Saturday (November 9th) of every month from 12:00 - 2:00 pm The world is changing and you refuse to be left behind. Do you want to be able to email your friends and family members or even show your grandkids a couple of tricks that you've learned on the computer? Computer Boot Camp, if you want to be able to use the Internet to search on topics that are important to you - the latest health information, what's happening in the world, or what the headlines are in the city... We break it down: . --- ,.. ~I �Firefox 1. Computer Basics 2. The Internet 3. E-mail Basics 4. Social Networking 5. Smarter than me phones Class size will be limited to 9. For more information or to reserve your spot, please contact Mary Jones at 918.743.4297 or Mary.Jones@OkEq.org https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201.. Two Step & Country Line Dance Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm ~ Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. PJ.Ifl JO :J~IPPJPd Yoga A - Z UOSJ:IJ.Dd ·rr, Presidential Lecture Series - Tony Kushner Tuesday, November 12th, 2013; 7:30 pm Donald W. Reynolds Center 3208 E. 8th St University of Tulsa Campus The University of Tulsa Presidential Lecture Series presents Pultizer-Prize winning playwright Tony Kushner. His critically acclaimed plays tackle some of today's most sensitive social issues such as HIV/AIDS, racism and capitalism. His most well known works include Angels in America, A Bright Room Called Day and Caroline, or Change. Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm An Emmy Award winner and two-time Tony Award winner, Kushner is the recipient of a Pulitzer Prize for Drama. He has received an Oscar nomination and in 2008, became the first recipient of the Steinberg Distinguished Playwright Award, the largest theater award in the United States. Presentations will begin at 7:30 p.m. Lectures are free and open to the public; no tickets or registrations are required. The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 8 of 12 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM -Y - "'}.v CHAMPAGNE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet AND CH OCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events "Military Ball" Saturday, November 9, 2013 Club Majestic Tulsa 9 pm - Close Doors open at 9 pm (21+ Only, NO Cover before 10:30 pm) Proceeds to Benefit - Disabled American Veteran Come dressed in your Military Uniforms or something to support your favorite branch of the Military. Bring plenty of money to purchase items from the silent auction or a 50/50 raffle ticket. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org For more information or to donate In-Kind Items for the Silent Auction contact King Father Scotty on the Court Facebook Page or email ICAO @ impcourtok@gmail.com 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Dissertation Research on Transgender Microaggressions This study is being done with an online survey that takes about 10-20 minutes. This research has been approved by the University of the Rockies Internal Review Board, approval number 13-020-C. The study intends to be trans-affirmative, and will refrain from asking personal questions regarding your health. In respect of your privacy, no questions will be asked about your health history regarding your surgical, hormonal or other gender realignment procedures you may have had. http://fluidsurveys.com/s/Therapy-experiences-trans/ Equality Center Pride Store New in the Pride Store, "Oklahomo" Long Sleeve Shirts. From sizes Small to 5 XL, Only $18 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Endangered Species By Louis Baynard You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Broome family is facing an uncertain future; however no one but youngest son Nick seems to notice. Driven by an inexplicable but driving certainty that they are on the brink of extinction, Nick vows to bring a child into the world by whatever means necessary. The problem? Nick is gay. The brave new world of parenting is explored as never before in Louis Bayard's new novel, which is full of the dry wit, snaking plot turns, and vivid, well-rounded characters that earned raves and fans for his first novel, Fool's Errand. Nick's quest for a surrogate mother will draw him to schizophrenics, Hispanic immigrants, body-pierced teenagers, female escorts, a God-fearing phlebotomist, an itinerant matchmaker, and an unbalanced but irrepressible young woman named Nattie, who ultimately may provide what he is seeking in the way he least expected. Alternately moving and very, very funny, Nick Broome's quest to leave a mark on the world drives straight to the heart of the evolving nature of love and family. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:27 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-5th--201... ...... •• ••• • ... •••~ .. Volunt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:27 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/5dfbee23fb185e3b970c699d2aa5f40b.pdf b5999e99cf6bf009187a4ab455bc50d8 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... eNews November 14th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice OUTlaw Legal Series Homebuyer Workshop Welcome to the eNews. The OUT OK Film Festival returns this weekend for 3 days full of acclaimed films at Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis. For the full schedule of films and to purchase your weekend pass, visit www.out-ok.com. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 14th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Within Our Reach OUT OK Festival Transgender Day of Remembrance Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree RENT Bird of Paradise SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song PFLAG Holiday DInner Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Be Our Voice, Give a Day For Veteran's Day on Monday, November 11th, in honor of LGBT service members and veterans, a donation has been made to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Featured Article Find Us on Facebook and the Equality Center LGBT Hotline will be sponsored for the week of November 10th - 16th, 2013 Click here to commemorate a special day with 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. November's Topic: The effect of the Supreme Court's DOMA decision on employers and employee benefits. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm Homebuyer Education Workshop Thursday, November 14th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (EverBank Home Lending). OkEq Art Exhibit The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Within Our Reach - Relationship Workshop Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 1:00 pm Counseling Services Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Family & Children's Services will provide a FREE relationship workshop on Saturday, November 16th, 2013 at 1:00 pm. Build on existing relationship strengths and learn skills to create safe and stable partner relationships. In addition, you'll learn how to: • Communicate effectively • Work as a team to solve problems • Manage conflicts without damaging closeness • Preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship For more information or to pre-register, contact Mary at 918.743.4297 or mary.jones@okeq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... OUT OK Film Festival November 15th - 17th, 2013 Counseling Services Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave OUT OK opens this Friday, November 15th at 7:00 pm at the Circle Cinema with GETTING GO. A not so classic classic love story of boy meets go-go boy. See some great movies and meet some old and new friends. Net proceeds benefit OkEq and The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Go to www.out-ok.com for movie times and ticket info or philip_au@att.net Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Prepare for a weekend of laughter and tears. 3 days and nights of cinematic camaraderie. November 15th - 17th, 2013. Get ready for your close-up! Visit www.out-ok.com for movie titles and schedule. 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Contact mary.jones@okeq.org for more information. Everyone is invited to come and participate. 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree will be set up on Friday November 15th for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Bird of Paradise Book Signing w/ author G.J. Paterson Tuesday, November 19th, 2013; 7:00 pm Author G.J. Paterson will be at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a book signing of the newly published novel, "Bird of Paradise". The signing will be on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Available on October 31st, "Birds of Prey" may be purchased from www.gjpaterson.com or Amazon.com for $23.95. Copies of the book will be available for sale on the night of the signing for 10% off. G.J. Paterson is a pen name for Gloria Galasso and her partner Patricia Paterson. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 GAMILY Christmas Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center What are the best gifts around any Christmas tree? The presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other. Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Christmas Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, BLOW YOUR HORN! ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall council oak Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, councll oak mens chorols entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Sisters in Song begin preparation for their Gala Concert in February 2014. Music and practice CD's will be provided. All rehearsals are at Fellowship Congregational Church at 27th and Harvard, on the west side, and all rehearsals begin at 6:30 PM. Call Linda Paul at 918.629.7259 to reserve your seat and music for your first rehearsal! 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Join the first rehearsals on the following dates: Soprano Section - November 12th Full choir - November 19th Hiatus until January 7th - then every Tuesday night through the February 22nd Performance PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Boot Camp Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG TULSACHA: Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Gender Outreach to: The Bible, Homosexuality and Catholicism Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 10:00 am - 2:00 pm St Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion 205 West King St. Tulsa, OK 74106 Experience real stories from people who have wrestled with family, faith, ministry and relationships complicated by issues of sexual orientation - stories of doubt, pain, healing and acceptance told in a forum that is respectful and open to all. Roman Catholic teaching will be reviewed, with a compassionate alternative perspective presented. The documentary film "For the Bible Tells Me So" will also be shown. Does much of the Church's homophobia come from a misreading of scripture, a denial of science and an embrace of quack psychology? The film calls for love, acceptance, and inclusion... All are welcome. Doors will open at 9:15 am. Admission is Free. Lunch will be provided. Call 918-582-3088 to RSVP or for more information. Champagne and Chocolate Gala presented by Living Arts Saturday, November 16th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays November 20th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Living Art Space 307 East Brady LIVING~ARTS Two Step & Country Line Dance Living Arts of Tulsa presents the "19th Annual Champagne and Chocolate Fundraising Gala" at the Living Art Space, 307 East Brady, in downtown Tulsa, featuring the works of 100 of the best artists from Oklahoma and beyond. $35 advance or $40 at the door. Saturday, November 16th, 2013 7:00 - 10:00 PM - ..,. "} .v CHAMPAGNE AND CHOCOLATE For more information call 918.585.1234 or visit livingarts.org Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Things My Mother Should Have Told Me Before I Had My Manhood Removed' by Rachel Love You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Experiences and perspectives on equality from a first hand account. This book answers the question "Are women really treated that much different than men at work, home and in the bedroom"? This account of my life as a transsexual will take the sheets of this question. RACHEL LOVE Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet M Journe1' from Richard to Rachel Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:28 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-14th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:28 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4575afb737d6230281207782dc7162f0.pdf fe3a898c01bfbf36531a6673ba2b135b PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... eNews November 20th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Transgender Day of Remembrance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will serve a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Equality Business Alliance Come Home for Thanksgiving First Thursday Art Show SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Fairy Tree ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK EBA Sponsor RENT SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Gamily Christmas Flapjack Fundraiser Council Oak Mens Chorale Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their one year anniversary, Rose Padgett and Michael Potts have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign FALALALA Ball Sisters in Song Sexuality Spectrum PFLAG Holiday DInner Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Find Us on Facebook and are sponsoring the Equality Center on the day of Saturday, November 23rd, 2013 Thank you and congrats, Rose and Michael! Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign 'Just Gender' Tulsa Premiere Screening 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 2 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Wednesday, November 20th, 2013; 7:00 pm Circle Cinema 10 South Lewis Ave JUST GENDER OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, November 21st, 7:00 pm On Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 7:00 pm, Circle Cinema will host the Tulsa premiere of the documentary film 'Just Gender". The screening will cost $6.00 and the film showcases the work of OkEq's Gender Outreach program and features several local transgender activists. Click here for online ticket purchase. In honor of Transgender Day of Remembrance, a candlelight vigil will be held before the premiere at 7:00 pm. For more information on 'Just Gender', please visit justgenderthefilm.com. OkEq Art Exhibit Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The November Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Drillers at ONEOK Field, 201 N Elgin Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. ONEOK Field 201 N Elgin Ave Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 3 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Whole Foods Tulsa Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lcsb1tln, Bisexual &. Tramgcndrr Eldrrs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave., Tulsa, OK 74114 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 4 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Affordable Health Care Act Assistance Tai Chi Class Resumes November 17th Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Grieving Well The eNews for the week of November 20th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 5 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather BTW presents: RENT School Edition! November 22nd - 24th, 2013; 7:00 pm 1514 E Zion Street Tulsa, OK 74106 The Booker T. Washington Foundation for Excellence and BTW Hornet Musical Theatre is proud to present a first for high school musical theatre in Oklahoma, RENT School Edition! The Pulitzer prize winning musical will open in the Ellis Walker Woods Auditorium the week before Thanksgiving. Preview: Tuesday 11-19-13 @ 6:30pm Wednesday 11-20-13 @ 7:00 pm Thursday 11-21-13 @ 7:00 pm Friday 11-22-13 @ 7:00 pm SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. Peole who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage , Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tran,gender Elder, SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 6 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Facilitated by John Madigan sagew 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. Applebee's Flapjack Fundraiser for Council Oak Mens Chorale Saturday, November 23rd, 2013; 7:30 am Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Applebee's Neighborhood Grill When: Saturday, November 23, 7:30 am - 10:00 am Where: 9409 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Cost: $7.00 per person, also serving $3.00 Mimosas All proceeds benefit Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f PlfSf~IS Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~H[Rl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 7 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. 6th Annual Falalala Ball Resumes November 12th Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY bar and light hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and business casual. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, Featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 8 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG Gender Outreach TULSA CHA Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com to: Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Saturday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 9 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Two Step & Country Line Dance Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Yoga A - Z Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Note to Adam; One Mother's Struggle to Cope with Suicide and Her Personal Journey to Find the Light' by Becky Kruse You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "To be sure, I appear at times merry and in good heart; talk, too, before others quite reasonably, and it looks as if I felt, too, God knows how well within my skin. Yet the soul maintains its deathly sleep and the heart bleeds from a thousand wounds." Hugo Wolf I could not improve upon these sentiments from Mr. Wolf. Please help us spread the word about suicide awareness, intervention and prevention. Please, if you know someone who is thinking of suicide, talk with them, seek help with them. If you know someone who has been affected by suicide, perhaps Adam's story will gently guide them from despair to hope, from grief to grace. Take the time to learn the warning signals. Every 15 minutes in the U.S someone dies by suicide. Over 36,000 Americans takes their own lives each year. The number is growing; let's reverse these statistics. Help us break the silence about suicide, and end the stigma associated with it; we must stop the bleeding, and mend some hearts. - Most sincere thanks, Adam's Mom Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm mmia,ll!ll!IM Saturday November 23rd is International Survivors of Suicide Day National Suicide Prevention Lifeline Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 10 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TU A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 11 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 12 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:29 AM �Firefox 13 of 13 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-20th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:29 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4f5a333177694b54ea911894fafa8978.pdf 74fac9296a39ae4c38ad41d6c697bc06 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... eNews November 27th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice Come Home for Thanksgiving World AIDS Day Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Show Counseling Services Fairy Tree The eNews for the week of November 27th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Guys Dine Too ACA Assistance OUTlaw Legal Series Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day "In memory of Floyd and all our partners and friends who have left us too soon" 11 Find Us on Facebook Sol Smith has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... December 19th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit Floyd and Sol and is sponsoring OkEq Programming and the Equality Center on Thanksgiving day, Thursday, November 28th, 2013 The November exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Micheal Jones & Ethan Hopper Click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Come Home for Thanksgiving Thursday, November 28th, 2013; 12:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) invites you to join us on Thanksgiving day for a FREE community meal at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Special music and entertainment will accompany the meal. Please confirm your attendance by contacting: Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or visit our Facebook Event Page Local Affirming and Inclusive congregations and OkEq provide a wonderful meal every year. The meal will be served at 12:00 pm. Lunch provided by: Unity Church of Christianity Parish Church of Saint Jerome Bethany Christian Church College Hill Presbyterian Church Fellowship Lutheran Church All Souls Unitarian Church St. Paul's United Methodist Diversity Christian Fellowship International Eastside Christian Church Open Table, UCC University United Methodist Church & Whole Foods Tulsa Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... World AIDS Day Commemoration Sunday, December 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK 74114 Facebook Event Page Please join in for Tulsa's World AIDS Day commemoration. Please note that this is an interfaith service of prayers, reflections, songs, and ritual. The service will have a brief time to remember those who have died as a result of HIV/AIDS infection, as well as reflections from those living with HIV/AIDS and/or helping to prevent further infection. There will be a reception following the service. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Party Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 10:00 am sage SC'rvices and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. TramgcndC'r Eldc>rs SAGE Tulsa will host a Holiday party at on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013 at 10:00 am. Brunch will be served. Please email Lucas.Green@OkEq.org is you would like to attend. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013; 6:30 pm The December meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mondo's Italian Restaurant on Tuesday, December 3rd around 6:30 pm. Mondo's Italian Restaurant is located at 3410 S Peoria Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org www.mondositalian.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm; Starts December 4th, 2013 Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Dec 3rd) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. SAGE Tulsa Tr nursery, florist & g1 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members CHEBIATIIG flFTHI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Tuesday, December 3rd and Friday, December 6th, 2013 Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Mindful Meditation Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. PFLAG TULSA CH ... The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org -----to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members to: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Yoga A - Z 6th Annual "Hearing Voices" Show Wednesday, November 27th, 2013 Tulsa Eagle 10:00 pm (21+ No Cover) Come hear some of the best local vocalist and help start off the Thanksgiving/Chanukah Holiday Season. Partial Proceeds benefit - H.O.P.E. Testing Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Game Night Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Bird of Paradise' by G.J. Paterson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Our lives are lived between madness and secrets." The year is 1978. Arena rock is at its peak, and British rock band Leviathon is at the top of the charts. Carys Sterling, the daughter of Leviathon's lead singer, Allyn Sterling, is kidnapped. LAPD Missing Persons' partners for seven years, Sergeant Paul Taglia and Lieutenant Jeff Kincaid must struggle with an unexpected change in their own relationship while searching for clues to the whereabouts of the missing girl. They soon discover Sterling and his guitarist are men with secrets. Was the girl kidnapped for the ransom she can command, or is Allyn's past coming back to haunt him? Together in the quest for Carys Sterling, the four men must confront ten years of sex, drugs and lies in order to discover the reality of love, trust and mortality. "Our secrets make us who we are." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:30 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-November-27th--20... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:30 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/71c9f4499daa7df446f8a0776d357ad5.pdf b5751d33219558b486b1ea9d72d10b0e PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... eNews December 4th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Fairy Tree First Thursday Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Please join us for a Thanksgiving meal on Thursday, November 28th, 2013 at Noon. RSVP today to Lucas.Green@OkEq.org or sign up on the Facebook Event Page. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Metro Basketball Inclement Weather Policy ACA Assistance Counseling Services OUTlaw Legal Series The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Equality Business Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Sisters in Song Clean and Sober Party PFLAG Holiday DInner Sexuality Spectrum 6th Annual Falalala Ball Gift Wrappers Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Pride 2014 Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library 11 Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon Fairy Tree The Fairy Tree is back and ready for you to stop by the Equality Center to select a needy recipient. We adopt the clients of Tulsa CARES that are in need of clothing and other items. The suggested gift items are listed for your shopping convenience. Tulsa CARES provides social services to individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. Help us support those in our community that are struggling to survive. Gifts should be wrapped and returned by Dec. 15th. First Thursday Art Reception Counseling Services Thursday, December 5th, 2013; 6:00 pm Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 5th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. OUTlaw Legal Series Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Series on the 2nd Thursday of every month. Facilitators Conor Cleary, Esq and Jason McVicker, Esq will lead the topical discussions on today's top legal issues in the LGBT community and help to answer your legal questions. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgendcr Elders Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 The eNews for the week of December 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Friday, December 6th, 2013; 8:00 pm CUN ll OAK MN S ~l:RA f Pl[Sf IS SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) CHEBIATIH flFHEI HAR~ ~f ~~HlRl~ 15th Annual Winter Season GABRIEL, COME BLOW YOUR HORN! Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... John Madigan sage~ Friday, December 6th, 2013 - 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center - Gussman Concert Hall Council Oak Mens Chorale's 15th winter season, entitled Gabriel, Blow Your Horn! presented by the men of Council Oak Men's Chorale, with guest artist Kyle Maxwell, trombone. The concert features holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria (Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. Returning as guests to conduct this concert will be former artistic directors Rick Fortner, Andre Martin and Elizabeth Curtis. Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave ~ Tulsa Area Prime Timers r "-' / I ~Yrc Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. ..• . r: ,· ··• .. 1 . f • I ' ' & Tramgender Elders Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Tickets are $20.00 available online or at the door. Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information. I Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual ._ • . .. "? ., ... ,. I . • '. \ ~ ~ '. .'~ ~ I I I ' I - . ,,, .t. .... • :) i ' 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 t Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Open AA Group Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG TUUACHA Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Boot Camp to: Tulsa Pride 2014 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! Do You Want To Petform @Tulsa Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~ p~ ations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 4th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Empress VI Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Wiley and the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma cordially invites you to join Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201.. for the finals of the 2013 Holigay pageants with the "Mr & Miss Holigay 2013 Pageant" old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Friday, December 6, 2013 -10:00 pm @ TNT's (NO COVER 21+ only) For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Resumes Nov. 22nd Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm y Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Different Rainbows' edited by Peter Drucker You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno A pioneering collection of essays which give a sample of some of the most interesting work being done on the lesbian and gay movements in various third world countries including Brazil, Mexico, Kenya, India and China. The eleven essays are edited by Peter Drucker, a well-respected academic in the field of gay and lesbian studies. Contributors include Dennis Altman, Margaret Randall and Mark Gevisser. 9 of 12 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ol nt ru r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-4th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/39a83550d8e023c7996980bcaf6de0e7.pdf 4ce7063dab3cd6a66fde747e3c48aea6 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... eNews • Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Friday, December 13th, 2013 at 6:30 pm for the PFLAG Holiday Potluck dinner. PFLAG Holiday Potluck on Facebook eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time December 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Show PFLAG Holiday DInner Gamily Christmas SAGE Tulsa Holiday Tour Sisters in Song FALALALA Ball Tulsa Metro Basketball ACA Assistance Counseling Services Wedding Announcement Equality Business Alliance Clean and Sober Party Sexuality Spectrum Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Tulsa Pride 2014 Imperial Court Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Rainbow Library First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, December 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm The December Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb and Ann Shannon, in a show titled "Wild by Nature" beginning with a reception on Thursday, December 12th, 2013 from 6:00 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Dinner Friday, December 13th, 2013; 6:30 pm 11 Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Please join us for the annual PFLAG Tulsa Holiday Potluck Dinner. PFLAG will provide the meat and drinks and we encourage you to bring vegetable side dishes and desserts. Friday, December 13th at 6:30 pm. ~ PFLAG TUUA CHAiTEJI GAMILY Holiday Party Sunday, December 15th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gamily invites you to come eat, play and be merry at Gamily's Holiday Party at the Equality Center on Sunday, December 15th, 2013 from 2:00 - 6:00 pm. The main dish will be provided by Oklahomans for Equality and Gamily is asking each family to bring a side dish or salad. RSVP on OkEq's Gamily Facebook or at Gamily@OkEq.org. OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon SAGE Tulsa Holiday Light Tour Tuesday, December 17th, 2013; 5:30 pm Please join the SAGE Tulsa group for the 1st Annual trolley Holiday Light tour of Tulsa. SAGE Tulsa will head out on the town to tour the sights and the lights of the Holiday season. A 2 hour tour of sightseeing from The Old Urban Trolley with hot chocolate and Christmas carols in abundance. The group will meet at The Garden Trug at 3009 E. 101st Street between 4:30 and 5:30 pm for a Holiday party before the trolley tour at 6:00 pm. People who wish to carpool to the Garden Trug may meet at the Equality Center by 4:00 pm. A small charge of $10 person for the tour. Don your "GAY" apparel and sing a carol or two with friends and "FAMILY". RSVP to Mary.Jones@OkEq.org. sage Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Tr nursery, orist & g1fl Counseling Services Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org 3009 E. 101st Street Tulsa, OK 74137 Sisters in Song 'Hope Peace Joy' Saturday, December 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Counseling Services Please join Sisters In Song for Hope Peace Joy 2013, featuring Artistic Team: Director and Harpist Linda Barton Paul and Accompanist Kathryn Cox, with special guest Pianist Teresa Petray. 7:00 pm Saturday December 14th, 2013 at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Admission is $10, Children under 12 are free. Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Find Sisters in Song on Facebook www.facebook.com/SistersInSongTulsa or email info@daao.us Counseling Services 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org - 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tai Chi Class Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Wedding Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Breck Muller and Kristina Giustozzi were married on October 1st, 2013 in Waterbury, Vermont on the beautiful grounds of Moose Meadow Lodge. Justice of the Peace, Greg Trulson officiated the ceremony. Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The December Monthly Mixer Meeting will be a Holiday party on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Harwelden Mansion, 2210 S Main St. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Harwelden Mansion 2210 S Main St Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm John Madigan sage~ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Swing Dance Class Tuesdays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS). No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker & TOSS members. Free for Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Area Prime Timers 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2013; 1:00 - 4:00 pm to: Self Defense Class 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. East Village District Meeting Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tuesday, January 14th, 2013; 5:30 pm Vill:asJ g thesunnv.sideof downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2013; 11:00 am ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Mindful Meditation Wednesdays 6:00 pm Feel free to join the class at any point because it doesn't take long to catch up. Come and learn these helpful meditation techniques and practice them with us. Facilitated by Gloria Galasso Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... CAWNGDRAG KINGS AND QUEENS! DoYouWantTo Petform @Tulsa Pride 2014? Sign up at www.tuIsapride.org to be considered! ~ Accepting~R ·cations 12/1/13 to 1/1/14 Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Upcoming Events Rainbow Writers Join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma for the Fire and Ice Ball 9:30 pm December 13th, 2013 @ Club Majestic 18 to Enter / 21+ to Drink Cover Charge Spot Light Performances, 50/50 Raffle For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com www.impcourtok.webs.com Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 1st and 3rd Wednesdays December 18th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. -- --- old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items 11 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Immaculate Connection' by Michelle Sawyer You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Readers asked for it, and now Macy Delongchamp, our favorite Manhattan lipstick lesbian, returns for another wild, wicked adventure, only to discover that commitment to your one true love isn't a walk off into the sunset. Mayhem ensues as highstrung Macy is faced with parenthood, sobriety, and life as a California girl! IMMACULAT CONNECTIO Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library a Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 11:34 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-11th--201... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- . ~ r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org - I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:34 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/7e79bed6fc2f2d71daaa44ea86bd2b0f.pdf 9852577ead1bfe23f6d3d56601c16fca PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... eNews December 19th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor FALALALA Ball Holiday Hours Sexuality Spectrum Welcome to the eNews. Join us this Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:0 pm for the Annual Falalala Ball. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Dr. Ronald LaButti, DO, FAOAO Tulsa Metro Basketball Clean and Sober Party Article Headline ACA Assistance Counseling Services EBA Sponsor Year End Request Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Gift Wrappers Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade 2013 Holiday Schedule 6th Annual Falalala Ball Saturday, December 21st, 2013; 7:00 pm Don your gay apparel and join us for the 6th annual Falalala Ball on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at 7:00 PLEASE pm. The nicely naughty evening will include live DEFINE entertainment, a fetish and tattoo fashion show, cash NAUGHTY. bar and lite hor d'oeuvres. Cause sometimes naughty is nice. Please pull out your holiday dress and gay apparel. Live Entertainment by Austyn King, Chasing Nadean, Parker Simon, Serious Stanley and Mindy Bartlett. Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Featured Article Find Us on Facebook Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, or non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, December 19th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... OkEq Art Exhibit The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Counseling Services Equality Center Holiday Hours For the days of December 25th, 2013 - January 1st, 2014, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open from 3 - 9 pm, including Christmas and New Year's Day. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus that week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. The Sexuality Spectrum Opening Reception Thursday, December 19th, 2013; 5:00 - 7:00 pm The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts 2021 East 71st St Tulsa, OK 74136 Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org The Sexuality Spectrum offers a groundbreaking exploration of sexual orientation through the creativity of over fifty international contemporary artists. Artists including Judy Chicago, Joan Snyder, Arthur Tress, Archie Rand, Albert Winn, Trix Rosen, Joan Roth and Mark Podwal explore a broad range of subjects: the evolving social and religious attitudes toward sexuality; issues of alienation, marginalization, and inclusion; the impact on the family, child-rearing, and life stages; violence and persecution; AIDS/HIV; and the influence of the LGBTQI community on the Jewish and larger world. jewishmuseum.net Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball for the next two weeks due to Christmas and New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. Clean and Sober NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org -- Free Admission but cash donations accepted Join us at the Equality Center for a clean and sober journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members SOS Group Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 5:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's needs. Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org • • •. I New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. The eNews for the week of December 18th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Computer Boot Camp 2013 Year End Request From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm (Dec 14th) Second Saturday 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --to attend. SAGE Tulsa (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign - - - - - - - --- - 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Gift Wrappers for PFLAG Needed Book wrapping for billboards! Every year between Thanksgiving and Christmas, volunteers participate in wrapping books for tips in Barnes & Noble at Southroads Shopping Center in Tulsa, OK. Proceeds go toward renting billboard space throughout metro Tulsa during LGBT Pride month in June. To volunteer, send your name and phone number pflagtulsa@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers to: Maybe Baby? Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions Self Defense Class The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 1st, 2014! Click here to submit! Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!!!J~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, january 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. --=-- ... Rainbow Writers 2013 Holiday Schedule for our Affirming, Inclusive and Welcoming Faith Communities Congregation B'nai Emunah 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, OK 74120 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Temple Israel 2004 East 22nd Place Tulsa, OK 74114 Christmas Services All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 4:30 pm 6 pm & 7:30 pm Candlelight service ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... Bethany Christian Church 6730 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 7 pm Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boston Avenue United Methodist Church 1301 S Boston Ave. Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 2 pm Children's Service of the Bells 4 pm & 6 pm Candlelight Worship Services 11 pm Candlelight Communion Service Christ Church Episcopal 10901 South Yale Ave Tulsa, OK 74137 Dec 24, 5:30 pm & 10:30 pm Candlelight Service Dec 25, 10 am Holy Communion College Hill Presbyterian Church Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members 712 South Columbia Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7:30 pm Family and Candlelight Service Diversity Christian Fellowship International 627 South 131st East Avenue Tulsa, OK 74108 Dec 22, 11 am Children's Christmas Program Dec 24, 3 pm at Dennis R Neill Equality Center; Service and Meal to the homeless. Gifts of gloves and clothes will be distributed. The Episcopal Church of The Redeemer 213 North Seminole Ave. Okmulgee, OK 74447 Dec 24, 7 pm Christ Mass with reception to follow Fellowship Congregational Church UCC 2900 South Harvard Tulsa, OK 74114 Dec 24, 7 pm Christmas Eve Service Yoga A - Z Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA 6727 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 4 pm, 6 pm & 8 pm Hope Unitarian Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 8432 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK 74133 Dec 24, 6 pm Candlelight Service John Calvin Presbyterian Church 8181 East 31st Street Tulsa, OK 74145 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Open Table UCC 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 6540 N 131st E Ave Owasso, OK 74055 Dec 24, 5:30 pm Candlelight Communion Parish Church of St Jerome 205 West King Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, Celebration of Midnight Mass 10 pm Reception 11 pm Holy Eucharist Prince of Peace Lutheran 2330 North Quaker Avenue Tulsa, OK 74106 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Chorale service with Holy Communion St Dunstan's Episcopal Church 5635 East 71st Street Tulsa, OK 74136 Dec 24, 7 pm Choral Holy Eucharist 10:30 pm Carols for the Christ Child 11 pm Festival Choral Holy Eucharist Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno St Paul's United Methodist Church 1442 South Quaker Avenue (one block east of Peoria on 15th Street) Tulsa, OK 74120 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Worship & Communion Trinity Episcopal Church 501 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Dec 24, 5 pm Christmas Pageant and Eucharist Rite II 8:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 9 pm Eucharist Rite II, lighting of candles 10:30 pm Anthems and Carols sung by the Trinity Choir 11:00 pm Traditional Midnight Mass Dec 25, 10 am Eucharist Rite II Trinity United Methodist Church 3737 South Peoria Avenue Tulsa, OK 74105 Dec 24, 4 pm Carols & Communion Unity Center of Tulsa Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 1830 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK 74119 Dec 24, 6 pm Candle lighting service Unity Church of Christianity 3355 S. Jamestown Ave. Tulsa, OK 74135 Dec 24, 6:30 pm Candlelight Service Andre Martin, Guest Soloist University United Methodist Church Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... 500 S College Tulsa, OK 74104 Dec 24, 7 pm Candlelight Communion Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Equality Center Pride Store Don We Now Our "GAY" Apparel The Pride Store is fully stocked with fabulous items for your holiday decorations. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World' edited by Robyn Ochs & Sarah Rowley You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World is the broadest single collection of bisexual literature available today. Getting Bi collects 220 essays from around the world that explore bisexual identity. Topics include coming out, relationships, politics, community, and more. The book also addresses the intersection of bisexuality with race, class, ethnicity, Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... gender identity, disability and national identity. Authors from 42 countries discuss bisexuality from personal perspectives and their own cultural contexts, providing insight into societal views on bisexuality from countries ranging from Colombia to China. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library .• •••~ Vol nt TU r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:35 AM �Firefox 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-19th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:35 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b865f14f69896921aba8d6dfeb167b1d.pdf 5f36765aa186e81943f691f8e7a1c5f4 PDF Text Text Firefox 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... eNews December 30th, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Holiday Hours Year End Request Clean and Sober Party Welcome to the eNews. Join us on New Year's Eve Tuesday, December 31st, 2013 at 8:00 pm for our Alcohol Free Party. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of December 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Massage Time Tulsa Metro Basketball First Thursday Art Reception ACA Assistance Counseling Services Guys Dine Too Maybe Baby Tulsa Pride 2014 EBA East Village Meet MLK Jr Parade Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Inclement Weather Policy Pride Store Year in Review Featured Article Find Us on Facebook ~Oklahomans For Equality Happy Holidays Equality Center Holiday Hours The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open on New Year's Day, January 1st, 2014. Many OkEq programs will be on hiatus this week. Be sure to check the calendar on the OkEq website or call 918.743.4297 to check on programming times. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, January 16th, 7:00 pm Open to all OkEq members. Meeting minutes are available upon request 10 days 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 2013 Year End Request after meeting date. From OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins OkEq Art Exhibit I want to thank you for your help in 2013. And as we close out the year, would you please consider making one more gift to Oklahomans for Equality. You may donate online here or mail your check to: The December exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Karen Lamb & Ann Shannon OkEq P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101 Please, will you help us again? Counseling Services You may also click here to commemorate a special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign Alcohol Free NEW YEAR'S EVE Party Tuesday, December 31st, 2013; 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center This is an Alcohol & Drug Free Event 18 and over Free Admission but cash donations accepted Mondays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John Serrot, LCSW 918.724.3388 TherapyJohn@OkEq.org Join us at the Equality Center for an alcohol free journey into a high energy dance party with DJ, live entertainment and warm conversations. Light hors d'ouveres will be served along with non-alcohol punch. Ring in the New Year and join us to watch the Blue Dome District fireworks and New Year's Countdown. Tulsa Metro Basketball League Winter Season Wednesday nights at 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Winter Season is December through February There will be no basketball this week due to New Years. Tulsa Metro Basketball is still looking to get more teams, so if anyone would still like to play, please sign up as soon as you can. The league plays 3 on 3 games on a half court each Wednesday night December through February at 7:00 pm. Tulsa Metro Basketball League is an offical program of OkEq and a member organization of the Equality Sports Alliance of Tulsa. $50 sign up fee. Games are played at the Charles Schusterman Jewish Community Center at 2021 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK. Daryn Drake will be the head coach for the new Basketball season. For more information about the league, please contact Basketball@OkEq.org. - - --- First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, January 2nd, 2014; 6:00 pm The January Oklahomans for Equality showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Christiana Prado in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, January 2nd, 2014 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Counseling Services Tuesdays and Thursdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Eric Jett, LPC 918.850.0987 E.Jett@OkEq.org Counseling Services Affordable Care Act Assistance Every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm Jimmy Jordan, Navigator for the new Affordable Care Act, will be on hand at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday from 1:00 - 4:00 pm. Mr. Jordan will be available to assist consumers in understanding the new programs, taking advantage of consumer protections, and navigating the health insurance system to find the most affordable coverage that meets the consumer's Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate, LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org needs. New Counseling Services Sundays by appointment from 12:00 - 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Michal Maybello will be available by appointment on Sundays from 12:00 - 6:00 pm for individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling on a sliding fee scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Michal Maybello, LPC at 918.346.1918 or Maybello@OkEq.org. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, January 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The January meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Marley's Pizzeria. The restaurant is located at 6104 E. 71st, just west of Sheridan, on the upper level at around 6:30 pm. Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Maybe Baby? Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Saturday, January 11th, 2014; 1:00 - 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Is your biological clock ticking? Spring will soon be here. Are you thinking, maybe baby? What changes will this bring other than diapers? That romantic dinner for two is now a play date for three in the park. Trade in your night cap for a bottle of warm milk and a burp rag. Need a babysitter? Good luck. Family and Children Services will be giving you the 411 on things to think about before having a baby. This is a free workshop, but we do ask that you RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org. Tulsa Pride 2014 Main Stage Entertainer Submissions SOS Group Mondays 7:00 pm This open Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS) Recovery and Sobriety Group meets every Monday at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, visit www.SOSTulsa.org Deadline Extended! The Tulsa Pride committee is now accepting applications for Live Musical Acts and Drag Kings and Queens Entertainers for the Main Stage at Tulsa Pride 2014. Get your applications in by January 6th, 2014! Click here to submit! Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Yolanda Arnold 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tuesdays Starting in January 2014! 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The January Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, January 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, at Embassy Suites, Embassy Suites, 3332 S. 79th E. Ave. Please RSVP to EBA@OkEq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Embassy Suites 3332 S. 79th E. Ave Tulsa, Oklahoma Computer Boot Camp First Tuesday (Jan 7th) 3:00 - 5:00 pm Second Saturday (Jan 11th) 12:00 - 2:00 pm Class size is limited. Contact Mary.Jones@OkEq.org to attend. East Village District Meeting Tuesday, January 14th, 2014; 5:30 pm east '!tU~ge downtown Keep up with the development of the "Sunny Side of Downtown". The East Village District of Tulsa will have a meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Tuesday, January 14th at 5:30 pm. SAGE Tulsa 2014 Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Celebration & Parade Monday, January 20th, 2014; 11:00 am John Hope Franklin & Cincinnati (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 6 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... 51 years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. stated, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character". Well, a new dream is that some day our children will not be judged for who they love or the make up of their family. This is a day to recognize equality and unity. GAMILY will be walking as a family in the parade and carrying posters. The plan is to meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center by 10:00 am and then carpool to the parade. After the parade, we will be eating as a family; enjoying a meal back at the Equality Center. Please RSVP at Gamily@OkEq.org to be a part of this wonderful gathering. Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events The Empresses of The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma invite you to the 6th Annual Black & White Ball "The Redneck Cinderella Ball" Friday, January 10th, 2014 7:00 pm - Light Buffet 8:00 pm - Show at the Bamboo Lounge in Tulsa For more information, contact impcourt@gmail.com Donations can also be made on the ICAO website www.impcourtok.webs.com 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been canceled due to poor road conditions or 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org or OkEq on Facebook. Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Boot Camp Equality Center Pride Store Flamingo Frames now $8.00 in the Pride Store. Perfect for your New Year's party! Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Be sure to "Like" the new OkEq Pride Store Facebook page to keep up with the new items and new sale items Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: ... 'Amy and Isabelle' by Elizabeth Strout You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Amy and Isabelle, Elizabeth Strout evokes a teenager's alienation from her distant mother-and a parent's rage at the discovery of her daughter's sexual secrets. In most ways, Isabelle and Amy are like any mother and her 16-year-old daughter, a fierce mix of love and loathing exchanged in their every glance. And eating, sleeping, and working side by side in the gossip-ridden mill town of Shirley Falls doesn't help matters. But when Amy is discovered behind the steamed-up windows of a car with her math teacher, the vast and icy distance between mother and daughter becomes unbridgeable. Rainbow Writers AMY ISABELLE 1st and 3rd Wednesdays 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend As news of the scandal reaches every ear, it is Isabelle who suffers from the harsh judgment of Shirley Falls, intensifying her shame about her own 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... secret past. And as Amy seeks comfort elsewhere, she discovers the fragility of human happiness through other dramas, from the horror of a missing child to the trials of Fat Bev, the community peacemaker. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality 2013 Year in Review The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was the place to celebrate on June 26th, 2013 when the US Supreme Court handed down the decision on DOMA. Open AA Group Thursdays starting in January 2014 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Two Step & Country Line Dance Thursdays 7:30 pm Kick your heels up here at OkEq. Learn the newest steps and the refresh the old ones to make you the Bell of the Ball. Facilitated by Brittany Free for Members $5 for Non Members Yoga A - Z History tells us that "society is judged by how well it treats those who are the most vulnerable". Because of your financial support and volunteer services to Oklahomans for Equality we have expanded our programs to serve the most vulnerable in our LGBT community . Fridays 5:30 pm No matter where you are on the Yoga spectrum, you will find a position in our new Yoga class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Margot. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... We strengthened our services for Gay Families (Gay+Family = Gamily). The Back To School Carnival provided OkEq backpacks stuffed with school supplies to many of our families. 7:00 pm Game Night Through Gamily activities, families with gay and transgender children found support with families just like their own. Parenting classes and couples counseling make sure gay, lesbian and transgender parents have the resources to develop strong families and relationships. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno We are reaching out to more Oklahoma high schools and middle schools and assisting GSAs (Student led Gay Straight Alliance Clubs). Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Booker T Washington and Union GSAs The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Broken Arrow GSA Movie nights and service projects connect LGBTQ youth with other students. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Tahlequah GSA Youth Lock-Ins at the Equality Center take students through 12 hours of training, addressing peer aggression, bullying, discrimination, advocacy, dating violence and assault. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. OK Rep. Lee Denney, author of the AntiBullying Bill Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday Gov. Fallin signs the Anti Bullying bill into law. OkEq Executive Director, Toby Jenkins was in attendance Oklahomans for Equality was a vital collaborative partner in getting the most comprehensive anti-bullying bill passed in both houses and signed by the Governor in August. Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: More than 200 students from 19 high schools attended the Equality Gala because of your generous sponsorships. Our SAGE Tulsa program (Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders) was recognized by the National Resource Center on LGBT aging and SAGE National because of our Vintage Series where we document on video the stories of LGBT older adults. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- SAGE Tulsa hosted LGBT activists from Japan and participants from both countries were able to compare our two cultures' views on aging. Our transgender program was recently featured in the full length documentary JUST GENDER which premiered at 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... Circle Cinema to a packed house. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- Youth and parents from our transgender youth and family support group continue to receive international attention. Taylor Burns, our family therapist, and physician Laura Arrowsmith have presented at more than a dozen conferences, universities and medical societies nationwide. Both Taylor and Laura have worked with several Oklahoma school districts to provide services for families with transgender children. usiness Alliance Our Equality Business Alliance now has over 160 businesses serving the LGBT community. You can spend your money with confidence knowing these businesses are on our side. In October, Oklahomans for Equality was recognized by the Tulsa Regional Chamber for our advocacy for workplace diversity and inclusion. Your support is 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... making Tulsa a welcoming place for employers who value diversity and inclusion. The 2013 Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade saw record crowds, more vendors and more corporate parade entries than any other time in our 32 year pride festival history. 4/23/26, 11:39 AM �Firefox 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-December-30th--20... r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:39 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6c20c882ce33bcdead825cda5f265c45.pdf a4803b7f0a6a9377de23691677cb6cfa PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 15th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Programming Note Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service OUTlaw Legal Workshop Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT NAGAAA Cup MOREcolor Art Show EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Council Oak Mens Chorale Love Free or Die JOURNEY )~ -~ I Tulsa Lambda Bowling Cheril Vendetti NOW Tulsa No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Tuesday May 14th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Morgan Elizabeth Allen Bixby High School Class of 2013 Morgan is the Salutatorian of her Senior Class, 6 year All State Choir Member, Choir President and Outstanding Vocal Music Student. Morgan will be working with LOOK (Light Opera Oklahoma) Musical Theatre this summer and attending William Jewell College in the fall. OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Morgan first attended the Equality Gala in 2011, the event inspired her to help reorganize the GSA at Bixby. Since then, she has worked with the counselors on many GSA issues. Click here to Give a Day OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events Live Free! Coming Out • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. if/; ~ For example, who would win: Superman or the • Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, ' Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. J Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Youth Program Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for TULSA, OK Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color · Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. The eNews for the week of May 15th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ... Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oo/c ll1IJllS choro/9 Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! National Organization for Women Tulsa Chapter Fundraising Event, Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 9:00 pm The NOW - Tulsa Chapter would love for each and everyone of you to come out to their fundraising event at Joe Mama's pizza, Thursday May 16th, 2013 at 9:00 pm. Joe Mama's has welcomed NOW by inviting them to be the nonprofit organization to highlight on Thursday for trivia night. The NOW l'OAWOMKN Tulsa Chapter will receive 5% of ALL SALES. The money will help pay for the NOW Tulsa Pride booth and supplies. For more information you can visit the Facebook page at: www.facebook.com/now918 or email at: tulsanow918@gmail.com. We Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... look forward to seeing you there and don't forget to invite a friend, have some fun, and work for a more equal Oklahoma! No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'My Life as a Boy: A Woman's Story' by Kim Chernin You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In this elliptical memoir, feminist author Chernin describes the breakup of her long-term marriage and her infatuation with another woman. In order to cast off her old life, she finds that she needs to call on parts of herself never before tested, such as "the capacity to act, the freedom to take, the license to choose desire," in short, "the life of a boy." Dubbing this process the "transformational imperative," she proceeds to remake herself by cutting off her hair, becoming lithe and muscular, and falling passionately in love with a cultured, sophisticated woman named Hadamar. In describing their rocky courtship, she also conveys the fact that she is well aware of what she is risking: "my home, security, a devoted man's passionate love," all for a woman "who might throw me over and break my heart." Possessed of a deep awareness of the mystery at the heart of all relationships, Chernin has written a delicate and thoughtful meditation on finding the courage to transform your life despite the risks such a process entails.. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:55 AM �OkEq eNews May 15th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-15th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:55 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fe979aa2a59ecebb6ef4733035e83771.pdf c25a81dc6ff0554fd3cd68c3593168fb PDF Text Text eNews February 28th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Red State Brief Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the 1st anniversary of their wedding in Washington D.C., Laura Belmonte and Susan Arrington have made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and are sponsoring Oklahomans for Equality on Sunday March 3rd, 2013. Congratulations Laura and Susan and Thank You for the support! Guys Dine Too Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale First Thursday Gamily Swing Dance Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE hosts TCC TMSL LGBT Equality Day Native HIV/AIDS Days Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Suzanne Westenhoefer Expatriate Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Two Spirit Imperial Court Pride Store Be Our Voice, Give a Day "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Find Us on Facebook �hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Equality Business Alliance OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Tai Chi Class Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 - 7:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, Light the fire within youth and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. ~~ Al\ Camp Fire Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). t'J, • 1scou s g1r Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate �lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm Topic for February 28th : Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Service, and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, February 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday February 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8 PM, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm �constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,_._._ I-....,_.,._....,..,.__,_ _._..._._r._-,.a..,.~~ .....,.,__.,. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ~ 'N' ~..., --,C..,IMJ"llil . . . . . . ........,.............- ... :11 .. --=• ... ,..... __ -- • .--.--- - ,.. W.IDptMo'III. ~ ra,.._11t;.,.• www lln:,wtcomla...,.a,l)•D•~ ,, . TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Counseling Services ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 c1ver CHIISI starts 11PM Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org �Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Expatriate Friday, March 1st and Saturday March 2nd, 2013; 8:00 pm Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St "EXPATRIATE" a two-act play with all vocal music. Poet, playwright, and performer Lenelle Moise has written, composed and stars in a compelling Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. �two woman production. ~ ~· ~ ,r. '· -! ~ ; ,~v ~- , ,' e. , - -·~ Workforce Oklahoma Access Point \ ...___ - Friday, March 1st & Saturday, March 2nd at the Nightingale Theater at 8:00 pm. Achingly platonic soulmates Claudie and Alphine are unsung musicians and longtime best-friends. Both wrestle with the addiction, abandonment and sexual trauma that run in their respective family histories. Diligent, dutiful, Julliard-trained composer Claudie may or may not be celibate while sparkly, indulgent Alphine has more natural star-potential and sex appeal than she knows what to do with. Supported by playwright/ composer Lenelle Moise's funk-infused all-vocal score. For more info visit Living Arts Tulsa lenellemoise.com Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: councn oak OOiJllCi.l OOff ~ MOMle Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org �The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events ~RIA. OK\. I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Landing' by Emma Donoghue You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A delightful, old-fashioned love story with a uniquely twenty-first-century twist, Landing is a romantic comedy that explores the pleasures and sorrows of long-distance relationshipsthe kind millions of us now maintain mostly by plane, phone, and Internet. Síle is a stylish citizen of the new Dublin, a veteran flight attendant who's traveled the world. Jude is a twenty-five-year-old archivist, stubbornly attached to the tiny town of Ireland, Ontario, in which she was born and raised. On her first plane trip, Jude's and Síle's worlds touch and snag at Heathrow Airport. In the course of the next year, their lives, and those of their friends and families, will be drawn into a new, shaky orbit. This sparkling, lively story explores EM . D0 DGHU 1 �age-old questions: Does where you live matter more than who you live with? What would you give up for love, and would you be a fool to do so? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo lunteer Tulsa, you r local action center! 1 VolUI e1 TU SA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/144e900c6be587d44544213bcb48da8c.pdf 1920e066930b3c5d9bcf07400c1d92d2 PDF Text Text eNews March 5th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 Camp Fire Green Country Camp Fire Candy Sale Gamily Medicare Supplements Legal Clinic Equality Business Alliance LGBT Equality Day Tulsa Pride 2013 GardenTru . nursery, florist & gifts Equality Gala SAGE hosts TCC DREAM Act Oklahoma TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Native HIV/AIDS Days Homebuyer Class Tulsa Mister Leather EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Denise Polonchak donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the LGBT Helpline for yesterday Monday, March 4th, 2013 to celebrate her son's 31st Birthday. Happy Birthday Dusty and Thank You Denise for your support! Singles Night OUT COLORAMA Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Within Our Reach Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Council Oak Mens Chorale MOREcolor Art Show Red State Brief Imperial Court Pride Store Rainbow Library �Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Be Our Voice, Give a Day First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tai Chi Class Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale Wednesday, March 6th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality will host a Camp Fire Green Country Candy Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Camp Fire will be selling their world famous Chocolate Bars for $1 each. Camp Fire is an inclusive organization welcoming children, youth Light the fire within and adults regardless of race, religion, socioeconomic status, disability, sexual orientation or other aspect of diversity. Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). . 'JI girl scouts GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. SAGE hosts Medicare Supplements Made Easy Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 10:00 am SAGE Tulsa will host Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) for an informational presentation on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most value for your money. Do you find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you fee you are paying too much money? Are your medications too expensive? Lunch will be provided. Please RVSP to mary.jones@okeq.org. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, March 12th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t ti. OF OKLAHOMA, INC . = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, March 12th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This free to the public legal clinic will address Oklahoma's Juvenile Code & Juvenile Law Issues. The clinic's guest speaker will be Ivan Orndorff, Esq. and Craig Reffner, Esq. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it sent to eba@okeq.org by Monday March 11th. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm : • ' -fllJ J,11' 'f o ,.-• , _ ,( nn, ............. . . ._ , ~c •.... . . '9',, · · • fl. .... 1• , ,,,, t l I I L I, r--,-- ...,...,..._,..... .... _,_ a., .... ..:...il. . . . , . . . . _ -IF~~ 'Hf' J.ur.w111.oHr-.. ....__ .... ..__,....... , ··~ ,- N.IH.ptK.W•---.....- rofWllt11rw1 Iii The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders ti•~ TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Diversity & Dignity Group Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! Self Defense Class Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers J JD r~J-\ F~ ( C HA~J _ MIRANDA & PHILIP KAISE r• I JrJ\'i. J r,;_ rJ ._,r KIRK HOLT Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �m Tulsa Community College required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Event will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing UlSAEAGlE 133813ll■ ST Dtffl 1pe1 @11PM S5 c,ver l:Htesl starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com The eNews for the week of March 5th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 8th, 2013 COLORAMA presented by Tulsa Lambda Bowling Friday, March 8th, 2013; 8:00 pm Sheridan Lanes 3121 South Sheridan Road Tulsa, OK The Tulsa Lambda League bowlers present COLORAMA at Sheridan lanes. Friday, March 8th, 2013 at 8:00 pm. Everyone is invited to come out and join in for a fun night of bowling, and to win some cash. COLORAMA is a fundraiser for the Jackpot Oklahoma Lambda Tournament (JOLT), Tulsa's only annual Gay bowling tournament which brings in Gay & Lesbian bowlers throughout the nation to Tulsa. You don't need to be a league bowler to participate, so any skill level is welcomed. The cost for COLORAMA is $20. Be prepared to have a ball. Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN'S Children's Services will be offering "Within Our Reach" a SERVICES free, fun, educational couples Life Chang ing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and �contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals continue on Mondays; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce that Council Oak Mens Chorale rehearsals for the summer 2013 season have begun. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. councU oak oouncJJ 00/i" tn'!r?$ Mt:Jm/8 Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals continue on Mondays Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus www.counciloak.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color .. 1 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the �public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com "Red State Brief" Filed in Marriage Cases at US Supreme Court Oklahomans for Equality today joined the Utah Pride Center, Campaign for Southern Equality and twenty-five other organizations in filing an amicus brief with the United States Supreme Court. The brief urges the justices to strike down a wide range of anti-gay laws. The brief calls on the Court to uphold appellate court rulings in both the Defense of Marriage and Proposition 8 cases currently pending. Oklahomans for Equality joined Utah Pride in this "Red State Brief" to detail the long history of anti-gay legislation in many states around the nation that denigrates the LGBT community. "This brief is about arguing on behalf of the millions of Americans who feel hopeless that legislation on a state level will ever advance their cause," said Utah Pride Attorney and former Bush Administration United States Attorney Brett Tolman. The brief contends that many local state laws are designed to routinely deny gay citizens basic civil rights, and many state codes are woven in a tangle that can only be unraveled by the courts. Read the brief here Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. �Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth' by Wayne Besen You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center �Nationally known activist Wayne Besen spent four years examining the phenomenon of "ex-gay" ministries and reparative therapies-interviewing leaders, attending conferences, and visiting ministries undercover as he accumulated hundreds of hours of research. The result is Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth, a groundbreaking exposé of the controversial movement that's revered by independent religious groups and reviled by gay and lesbian organizations. The book presents a historical perspective on the dispute, examining "ex-gay" groups such as Love In Action, Exodus International, Homosexuals Anonymous, and profiling a cast of characters that includes Pat Robertson, the Rev. Jerry Falwell, "ex-gay" poster boy John Paulk, National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality activist Richard Cohen, and psychiatrist Dr. Robert Spitzer. An in-depth, well-researched, and historically significant account, Anything but Straight is full of startling facts and alarming surprises. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Org anization of vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9383ac7d32d04e36a9d4ddb595dd22ae.pdf 6ecd30719219a7e8951c28d168e6315a PDF Text Text eNews March 13th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE hosts TCC Welcome to the eNews. OkEq will be hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Equality Business Alliance OUTlaw Legal Workshop Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Pride 2013 DREAM Act Oklahoma For quality photography : web, weddings, lbusi ness, events, portraits (couples, f ami ly, senior,. kids... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photography 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Equality Gala Native HIV/AIDS Days TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of their 14th anniversary, Kelly Kirby and Charles Johnston made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center on the day of Sunday, March 10th, 2013. Thank You and Happy Anniversary, Kelly and Charles! Suzanne Westenhoefer Tulsa Two Spirit Dining Out for Life Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, March 26th, 2013; 10:30 am OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone ~ Tulsa Community College Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Street Law Firm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Street Law Firm 400 S. Boston Ave. Suite 1100W, Tulsa, OK 74103 OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Topic for March 14th: Where There's a Will, There's a Way - Have you drafted a will? How will you protect your property and belongings? Make sure your property goes to the right person. Free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for �beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator, Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color . .. 1 ·I : • Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Swing Dance Class �Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocilcy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders Youth Program New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride's Drag Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook . 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �21 to Drink! DREAM ACT Oklahoma Saturday and Sunday, March 16th and 17th, 2013 Oklahomans for Equality will host a training session for DREAM Act Oklahoma at the Equality Center on Saturday March 16th from 6:00 - 10:00 pm and Sunday March 17th from 9:00 am - 6:00 pm. DAOK is excited to bring together potential leaders from all around Oklahoma to decide the next phase of the immigration youth movement. The retreat will set the direction and focus on what Oklahoma needs. DAOK wants to outline a strategic process and listen to you. DREAM Act Oklahoma is a youth-lead organization with an emphasis on civil rights for the undocumented community, trying to eradicate fear, help educate and advocate for a better life and a brighter future. For more information on DREAM Act OK or to sign up for the training, contact Ivan Godinez at Ivan@dreamactok.org or visit dreamactok.org Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members CHJ-\ Jf:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Gender Outreach March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T. Native American Coalition of Green country Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm The eNews for the week of March 13th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. Within Our Reach Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Changing . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The History of Lesbian Hair' by Mary Dugger You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The History of Lesbian Hair, Mary Dugger delivers an unrelentingly hilarious view of the modern world. The redoubtable Ms. D. offers an uproarious array of illustrated essays, diagrams, and short takes, subdivided into Life ("The Downside to Lesbian Chic", how to "Build Your Own Lesbian", "So You Want to Be a Straight Girl", and the ultimate definition of children "pets with thumbs"), Liberty ("Far Right Trading Cards", the ethics of outing, and an irrefutable argument proving that if homosexuals really do make up only 1.5 percent of the population, then every gay person in Chicago spends an average of $13.11 on liquor every single day), and The Pursuit of Happiness (the birth of the indomitable alter ego Marie DuGuerre, and her ongoing search for love, romance, and a decent vacation). Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/4ab99c4a9b3ab1002fa47be308ba0ba6.pdf 605284cfc9a9851f90029ebf82b1a68e PDF Text Text eNews March 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Equality Business Alliance Welcome to the eNews. OkEq is hosting Marriage Equality Week on March 25th - 30th. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Homebuyer Class MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 TMSL EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT GardenTru nursery, florist & gifts Tulsa Growl Marriage Equality Week Know Your Rights Within Our Reach Spring Into Color Mon-Sat9am-6pm I Sun I la Suzanne Westenhoefer LifeLine First Thursday Dining Out for Life Be Our Voice, Give a Day Tim Dickmann made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign in memory of his mother, Barbara Dickmann's birthday and sponsored OkEq and the Equality Center on Sunday, March 17th, 2013. Tulsa Two Spirit CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day �OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, March 21st, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The March Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Insurance Crew, 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205, Tulsa, OK 74103. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Insurance Crew 420 S. Main Street, Suite 205 Tulsa, OK 74103 OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1-1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. �We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Grieving Well Tulsa Pride 2013 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Swing Dance Class Mondays �Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, 21 to Drink! 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013 The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook like us o:n Facebook ] SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Se,vices and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program CH J-\ lF:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �The eNews for the week of March 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, March 22nd, 2013 Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 Boot Camp For all the week's events, click here TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, March 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �,, . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center r :::::· Gender Outreach Know Your Rights r On Monday, March 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA '~ (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the presentation will be entitled "Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality" and will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. • I - Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & CHILDREN,S Children's Services will be SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clitttle@fcsok.org Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment 17Ill CIRCLECINEMA. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �(T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal' by Barry Werth You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �During his thirty-seven years at Smith College, Newton Arvin published groundbreaking studies of Hawthorne, Whitman, Melville, and Longfellow that stand today as models of scholarship and psychological acuity. He cultivated friendships with the likes of Edmund Wilson and Lillian Hellman and became mentor to Truman Capote. A social radical and closeted homosexual, the circumspect Arvin nevertheless survived McCarthyism. But in September 1960 his apartment was raided, and his cache of beefcake erotica was confiscated, plunging him into confusion and despair and provoking his panicked betrayal of several friends. BAR.RY \\ 'FRTll An utterly absorbing chronicle, The Scarlet Professor deftly captures the essence of a conflicted man and offers a provocative and unsettling look at American moral fanaticism.. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa,, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/09cdf7c0ce544ec0b4ba456206a5dde7.pdf 90e13a3ae296cda47ed048dee36923db PDF Text Text eNews March 28th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day Birth Announcement Welcome to the eNews. It's Marriage Equality Week at OkEq. Be sure to check out all the events we have on schedule for the week. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Marriage Equality Week Homebuyer Class OUTlaw Legal Workshop Within Our Reach The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: TheGardenTrug.com I 918.528.3828 First Thursday Equality Business Alliance Guys Dine Too GardenTru MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Spring Into Color Mon -Sat9a m-6pm I Sun I l a EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Be Our Voice, Give a Day In honor of 15 years together and their marriage in NYC on 3-19-12, Kenneth Joslin and Mark Linholm have donated to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and sponsored the Equality Center for the day of Tuesday, March 19th, 2013. Kenneth and Mark are pictured below in Times Square with Mark's daughter Audrey. LifeLine Book Study 8 Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Tulsa NOW Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit No Walls Entertainment CODE Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer �Find Us on Facebook Be Our Voice, Give a Day OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm Birth Announcement Congratulations from Oklahomans for Equality OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child last month. Jordan Everett McRad was born a bouncing 8lbs 6oz on February 20th, 2013 at 11:00 am. Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Marriage Equality Week March 25th - 30th, 2013 For all the week's events, click here Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 6:30 pm Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, March 28th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. As part of Marriage Equality Week, the OUTlaw Workshop will recap the hearings on the Defense of Marriage Act and Prop 8. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Within Our Reach Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 1:00 - 5:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality in FAMILY~ collaboration with Family & Children's Services will be CHILDREN,S SERVICES offering "Within Our Reach" a free, fun, educational couples Life Chang i ng . relationship enhancement workshop. It is intended to help couples build on existing strengths and teaches important skills to create safe and stable relationships. In addition, couples will learn how to communicate effectively, work as a team to solve problems, manage conflicts without damaging closeness, and preserve and enhance love, commitment and friendship. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, please call Carrie at 918.560.1243 or email clittle@fcsok.org First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The April meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Sonoma Bistro and Wine Bar Tuesday, April 2nd around 6:30 pm. Sonoma Bistro is located at 3523 S Peoria Ave www.sonomatulsa.com Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org MOREcolor Artist Submissions Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 MORE color - .. 1- 1 :·· Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program �Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, March 28th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Pride Idol Saturday, March 30th, 2013; 9:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St Calling all entertainers! Here's your shot. The winner of Tulsa Pride Idol will win a spot on the Tulsa Pride Main Stage during the Tulsa Pride Street Festival. Drag, live vocals, spoken word, whatever! One night of competition, Saturday March 30th at New Age Renegade, Hosted by Tabitha Taylor. For rules and regulations and for additional information visit Tulsa Pride on Facebook. 6th Annual Turn About Show Monday, April 1st, 2013; 8:00 pm Club Majestic 124 N Boston Ave Come out and see your favorite LGBT bar owners and staff like you've never seen them before. Monday April 1st, Doors open at 8:00 pm, No Cover Charge! Raffles and Door Prizes. Proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 18 to Enter, Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �21 to Drink! Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach PJ-\ P f C,}A & PHILIP CH J-\ l F:~ KIRK HOLT And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: .... Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more than 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com The eNews for the week of March 28th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Game Night The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. LifeLine Screening at Circle Cinema Thursday, March 28th, 2013; 7:30 pm Circle CInema 10 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK 74104 ~, ' /l:J. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet CIRCLECINEMA. Circle Cinema and the OpenArms Youth Project want to invite you to a screening of LifeLine, a 25 minute documentary about The Trevor Project and LGBTQ youth suicide prevention. The film will screen at Circle Cinema on Thursday, March 28th, 2013. Doors open at 7:30 and the screening will begin shortly after. The concession stand will be open and a $5 suggested donation will be asked for at the door with all proceeds going to Tulsa's Openarms Youth Project. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Prid~ w otyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Tulsa National Organization for Women Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. NATICINI P,.', ~l:Z:::A'f'lQiN f!:ORWOMliliN On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to Di'ne, Qnl!, FigJi ti Al!}S, H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm On April 6th, 2013 the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. �Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Prairie Storm' by Lynn E Lisarelli You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the spring of 1890, Ann Johnson, injured and on the run from a group of men who claim that she murdered a child in the town of Sutter's Ford, finds shelter and healing at the cabin of Devorah Lee, a widow living alone on the Kansas Prairie with her child, Melissa. Ann begins to develop strong feelings for Devorah, and although Devorah returns those feelings, she is hesitant and unsure about this new awakening in her heart. Ann faces two obstacles in her journey toward wholeness: competing with the local doctor for Devorah's affection, and struggling with the repressed memory of the real killer's identity. Will Ann Remember in time to save Devorah's child from being the next victim? Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library �• VolUI er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/b4f516e849db50a0b291bd653b184a07.pdf 5f97444e3c739c5e742a448464f929d4 PDF Text Text eNews April 4th, 2013 In This Issue First Thursday Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Tickets are now on sale and more information can be found at www.okeq.org/gala eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Gala TMSL Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor First Thursday Art Reception Green Country Bears Thursday, April 4th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The April OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the work of three different artists: Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, April 4th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Tulsa Growl Suzanne Westenhoefer Book Study Swing Dance Class 8 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Pride at TU Gamily Picnic at the Zoo Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook Tulsa NOW The April Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Monday, April 8th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Steven Michael's Photography and held at Living Arts of Tulsa. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Baby Boomers and Medicare Miss Jolt 2013 Dining Out for Life Tulsa Two Spirit Living Arts of Tulsa 307 E. Brady, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 No Walls Entertainment The April Monthly EBA Meeting will be on Tuesday, April 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and nonmembers, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday April 8th. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma CODE Pride Store MOREcolor Artist Submissions Rainbow Library Call for entries; Opening Night June 13th, 2013 Volunteer MORE color I I :rt Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and Find Us on Facebook �installation creations. The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R Neil Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, April 11th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Save the Date! OkEq Equality Gala Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Uke us on Facebook ] Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. OPJ.\ F? ( Cr IRANDA & PHILIP CHJ..\ JF~ Grieving Well KIRK HOLT 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala Tulsa Metro Softball League Opening Day on Sunday April 7th, 2013 Come out and help Tulsa Metro Softball League celebrate the start of their 5th Spring Season on Saturday April 7th, 2013. All events are open to the public and TMSL has invited everyone to attend! Below is a list of the events TMSL has planned for Opening Weekend 2013. Uniform Night 2013 Date: Friday, April 5th, 2013 Time: 7:30 pm - ??? Location: Tulsa Eagle - 1338 E. 3rd Street in Tulsa What: Come out to meet the teams and players at TMSL's first social event of the season. Opening Day 2013 Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 "First Pitch" : 12:45 pm on Field 1 Games: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Location: Carl Smith Sports Complex - 17120 E. 21st Street - Tulsa Fields: 1:00 - 4:00 pm Opening Day Extra Innings Date: Sunday, April 7th, 2013 Time: 4:30 pm - ?? Location: 209 The Arts Bar - 209 N. Boulder Ave in Tulsa What: A fun social event held after the games to drink and mingle To learn more and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather �Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 12th, 2013 The next event will be Singles Bingo. Not your Grandma's bingo night. You will be glad you stopped by. Please call 918.743.4297 or email mary.jones@okeq.org to reserve a seat. Seating will be limited. The eNews for the week of April 4th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Green Country Bears - Spring Fling Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Eagle 1338 E 3rd St Come 'Fool Around' with the Green Country Bears for Spring Fling, April 13th, 2013 7:00 pm, at the Tulsa Eagle. Lots of Food, Fun, and Entertainment! Hamburgers and Hot Dogs off the grill. Come party with the Bears! For more information about the Green Country Bears, please visit greencountrybears.net SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage w Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 �The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Suzanne Westenhoefer Saturday, April 13th, 2013; 8:00 pm IDL Ballroom 230 E 1st St Tulsa, OK 74103 Come on out to the IDL Ballroom in Downtown Tulsa and enjoy a night with the Funniest. Lesbian. Ever. Suzanne Westenhoefer. She's bad... and she knows it. She's also rip-roaring hilarity wrapped up with a silver bow and a gift tag that says, "Just Try Me". Doors open at 7:00 pm Show starts at 8:00 pm Seating is limited For more info and to purchase tickets, call 918.798.3647 or visit here Proceeds benefit Therapetics Service Dogs of Oklahoma. Therapetics works to enhance the lives of individuals living with physical disabilities by providing them with highly trained service dogs. For information on Therapetics visit www.therapetics.org. Rev. Bob Lawrence Book Study Every Thursday starting April 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com TU High School GSA Visit Day Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 am Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Prid~ w atyu\Y/ Pride at TU is presenting a day for queer students, allies and their parents to come see the University of Tulsa campus through queer eyes. Saturday, April 6th, 2013 10:00 am - 11:00 am: An official Campus tour led by student University Ambassadors that will highlight the Little Blue House, the Office of Multicultural Student Affairs and other LGBTQ relevant spaces. 11:00 am - 12:00 pm: Being Queer on Campus Panel - TU students, faculty and staff present an honest discussion of the campus climate and what it's like to be out on campus. Please RSVP and/or direct questions to Zachary Harvat, president of Pride at TU, at zachary-harvat@utulsa.edu Gamily Picnic Day at the Tulsa Zoo Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Saturday, April 21st, 2013; 2:00 pm Gamily is planning a picnic day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 at 2:00 pm. It will be a BYOL: Bring Your Our Lunch event. The Mohawk Park picnic area is free to the public and Gamily will have area to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and will not be sold on the day of the event. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm �Counseling Services Tulsa National Organization for Women Saturdays By appointment Sunday, April 7th, 2013; 2:00 pm Tulsa's National Organization for Women is a new local chapter of the National Organization for Women. NOW has six priority issues that include: reproductive justice, LGBT rights, racial rights, constitutional equality and violence against women. Tulsa NOW is recruiting new members and officers to perform outreach and education in the eastern Oklahoma area. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays N,Q,Tl, QN1At, ~IA"l'lON !EU WOM- NI On April 2nd, Tulsa NOW will be joining Planned Parenthood of the Heartland Tulsa office at the Oklahoma Capitol for a statewide lobby day. If you are interested please visit Facebook. For registration, please visit here. You can also e-mail Annie Norman for more information at: annie.norman@ppheartland.org. on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa NOW will meet at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 7th, 2013 at 2:00 pm. Feel free to bring a friend and a snack. Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Meicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your Parents' MONEY. Do your Parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. Miss JOLT 2013 Friday, April 12th, 2013; 8:15 pm Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Club Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is sponsoring it's annual Miss JOLT pageant Saturday, April 12th, 2013 at 8:15 pm at Club Renegade. The pageant is a fundraiser to help host the annual JOLT bowling tournament to be held in October this year. Bowlers from across the U.S. come to Tulsa to be a part of this weekend tournament and all it's associated fun and activities. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next �support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the evening to H.O.P.E. Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st-2nd, 7th-9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. �MISSION: Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Investitures for Reign VI "The Old Lady who lives in a Shoe - A night of Nursery Rhyme Fantasy) Saturday, April 13th, 2013 Meet/Greet & Ceremony 5:00 - 7:00 pm @ The Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, Donations will be accepted) Show 8:30 pm - ? @ The Bamboo Lounge (No Cover) Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Host: Empress VI - Cougar Anne Savon-Ewing Suggested Dress is Formal or Theme Attire CODE: An OML 2013 Fundraiser Proceeds benefit the I.C.A.O. Reign VI Charity Fund Saturday, April 6th, 2013; 10:00 pm more or message us on OnFor April 6th,information 2013 the email Tulsa impcourtok@gmail.com Uniform and Facebook Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) will sponsor a fundraiser at the Tulsa Eagle for the current Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013, Nate Benner. Nate will be the representative from Oklahoma at the International Mr. Leather 2013 competition to be held in Chicago over the Memorial Day weekend. All proceeds from this evening will go directly to his travel fund. T.U.L.S.A. would love everyone to come and help support Nate, OML 2013, on his journey to Chicago for IML. Adherence to dress code is not mandatory, but HIGHLY encouraged. The event starts at 10:00 pm. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Time of the Kingfishers' by David Watmough You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center TH A rich, elegiac novel about family, friendship, and loyalty featuring Watmough's protagonist Davey Bryant. As the compassionate and witty narrator, Davey leads the reader through various upheavals in the life he shares with Ken, his companion, and their friends. Ii\\E -'f ofthe ~ KINGFI HER At the heart of their journeys is Davey's own plaintive recollections of a past we all hope to recapture. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun er A proud Partner Organization of Vo:lunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/ecdaf41082824909690133c519d33ae9.pdf 39113b24984cdb5bea37e5b9006dbff9 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Gala Gamily Picnic at the Zoo 8 Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Sunday, April 27th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - OUTlaw Legal Workshop Zumba Fitness Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Singles Night OUT EBA Sponsor For quality photography: web, weddings, business, events, portraits (couples, family, senior, kids ... ) STEVEN MICHAELS photograpliy 918 494 8886 www.StevenMichaels.net Tulsa Growl First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class TOSS Baby Boomers and Medicare Homebuyer Class Legal Clinic Dining Out for Life Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ------- - -- Day at the Tulsa Zoo Sunday, April 21st, 2013; 9:00 am - 5:00 pm; Gamily picnic at 2:00 pm Tulsa Pride and OkEq's Gamily (Gay Family Program) are teaming up to have a day at the Tulsa Zoo be held on Sunday, April 21st, 2013 from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm. Gamily will host a BYOL: Bring Your Own Lunch picnic at 2:00 pm. Gamily will have area (look for the rainbow umbrellas!) to eat lunch and play before enjoying the Zoo. Discount tickets for Zoo entry are available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for $4.00 and there is a $2.00 charge at the Mohawk Park entrance. So pick up your tickets today. For more information email Gamily@okeq.org Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Pride 2013 Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Boot Camp 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. Change is never easy, so to sweeten the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===CZ.. ""' - Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend SINGER , SONGWRITER , swntG LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ JOt1NNY BOYD Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... then singer, songwriter and swing lover MUIIC ""1■,o • JOB■■l'IOl'D.COM Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! C Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. TOSS members will get a special --- -- ------benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Baby Boomers and Medicare Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... LEGAL AID SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . il= Making Equal Justict for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the Dine Out. t'igJ!_t AI05J evening to H.O.P.E. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... or just show up at rehearsal. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Why Marriage Matters: America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry' by Evan Wolfson You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Why Marriage Matters offers a compelling, intelligently reasoned discussion of a question at the forefront of our national consciousness. It is the work of one of the most influential attorneys in America, who has dedicated his life to the protection of individuals' rights and our Constitution's commitment to equal justice under the law. Above all, it is a clear, straightforward book that brings into sharp focus the very human significance of the right to marry in America -- not just for some couples, but for all. AMERICA , EQUALITY , AND Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org GAY PEOPLE ' S RIGHT TO MARRY Why is the word marriage so important? Will marriage for same-sex couples hurt the "sanctity" of the institution? How can people of different faiths reconcile their beliefs with the idea of marriage for same-sex couples? How will allowing gay couples to marry affect children? Thlslsonouselulbook A,medvv,thWolfsonsMguments you coulds.,llanyonow,thanlOovo,rnomtomporntu•oontho ....,sdom and humomty of mn,rlogo equahly -Tho Omgoman In this quietly powerful volume, the most authoritative and fairly articulated book on the subject, Wolfson demonstrates why the right to marry is important -- indeed necessary -- for all couples and for America's promise of equality. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:51 AM �OkEq eNews April 19th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-19th--2013.ht... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:51 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/d19a34d423787c1be910f4e4d1b414dc.pdf ab61ed32ebbc4b5d38527a58aa328ab4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews April 24th, 2013 In This Issue Equality Gala 8 Dining Out for Life Homebuyer Class Welcome to the eNews. Make your plans to attend our Equality Gala on Saturday May 4th, 2013. Purchase a seat now and find more information at www.okeq.org/gala. Deadline for purchase is Friday, April 26th. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality ---- - - TOSS Tulsa Pride 2013 Equality Business Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Singles Night OUT OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook EBA Sponsor Zumba Fitness Tulsa Growl Guys Dine Too First Thursday Art Book Study Swing Dance Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Legal Clinic NERDception Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook And be sure to join us on Saturday, May 4th, 2013! www.okeq.org/gala ----- - - 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Tulsa Theatres present "8" Thursday, Friday and Saturday, April 25th - 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Theatre Tulsa's New Stage, with license from the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) and Broadway Impact, is proud to announce a oneweekend-only reading of "8," a play chronicling the historic trial in the federal constitutional challenge to California's Proposition 8. The script was written by Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, who penned the Academy Award-winning feature film "Milk" and the film "J. Edgar". Black's "8" is based on the actual words of the trial transcripts, first-hand observations of the courtroom drama and interviews with the plaintiffs and their families. OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm The production and casts will combine the talents of three local theatres, Theatre Tulsa's New Stage company, Odeum Theatre Company and Theatre Pops. The production will run one weekend, April 25th - 27th, 2013 at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center's Liddy Doenges Theatre. All performances are at 7:30 pm. To purchase tickets, visit myticketoffice.com Dining Out for Life Thursday, April 25th, 2013; Lunch and Dinner H.O.P.E. is preparing for their Annual DINING OUT FOR LIFE in Tulsa. This year the community will come together on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 to support HIV prevention, testing, and education. Each participating restaurant will give at least 25% of the proceeds from the • 0 u t . t'ight Done ~ AIDS, evening to H.O.P.E. OkEq Art Exhibit The April exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the works of Corazon Watkins, Carolyn Faseler and Don Holladay in a combined show Get a group of friends together, go out to eat, and support HIV prevention. The more you eat and the more people you invite out to eat, the more money is donated to H.O.P.E. For a list of participating restaurants, please visit www.hopetesting.org or the Dining Out for Life Facebook Event Homebuyer Education Class Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will be hosting a free Homebuyer Education Class on Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 6:30 pm. Join us to learn about the home buying process. The class will be conducted by Equality Business Alliance members Shane Allbee (Theinsurancecrew), Anthony Carr (Keller Williams Realty) and Jason Dieckman (Bank of the Wichitas Mortgage Company). Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... There is no admission fee for this informational class. Learn the basic steps to homeownership: Lender/Realtor/Insurance and the basics to knowing "Your Credit". The class will include a Q&A session. Participants will be provided with a packet to get started. Seating will be limited so send an RSVP to OkEq Program Coordinator Mary Jones mary.jones@okeq.org. Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Saturday April 27th, 2013; Classes start at 6:30 pm, Show at 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center SINGER , SONGWRITER , SWING LOVER! LIVE ON STAGE/ Coming up on April 27th, 2013, for one very special night only, The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will be meeting at another location. So pack up your dancin' shoes and meet us at Equality Center at, in beautiful downtown Tulsa. . . IIJallllfc:.&a Change is never easy, so to sweeten •n.ASJaUU a Jt'MlarlOff,I• .. the pot TOSS is bringing not one but TWO BANDS! The award-winning Little Joe Blues band will open the show, and then singer, songwriter and swing lover Johnny Boyd and his band will perform LIVE your favorite Indigo Swing songs and dance tunes from Johnny's brand new album, Never Been Blue. As always, the intermediate lesson will start at 6:30, and beginner lesson will start at 7:00. The festivities will begin at 7:30 and we'll dance until 11:00! JOt1NNY BOYD MDAIOffDaa. Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Tickets are $10 in advance, or $12 at the door. Advance tickets may be purchased at johnnyboyd.com/tour. - - - - - - - - TOSS members will get a special benefit - including the possibility of winning one of two upcoming Lindy Hop workshop passes. For more information, visit www.theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org or find TOSS on Facebook Tulsa Pride 2013 Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org Pride Planning Meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013; 7:30 pm Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride will have a planning meeting Thursday, April 25th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Equality Business Alliance Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 MOREcolor Artist Submissions Submission deadline is April 30th, 2013 MORE color , · Calling all interested artists ages 18 and over, we are now open for submissions for the annual MOREcolor Fine Arts Exhibition 2013, a highly anticipated feature of the Tulsa Pride celebration. We strive to be very artist friendly, while providing a venue for cutting edge artistic vision, expressed through all media, including performance and installation creations. and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual E< Transgender Elders Youth Program The Festive and always surprising Opening Night reception will be held June 13th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is free and open to the public. For the 1st time this year, there will be a Juror's award as well as a People's Choice award. For submission details go to MOREcolorart.com Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, April 26th, 2013. The eNews for the week of April 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Tulsa Growl 2013 May 3rd - 5th, 2013 Boot Camp The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ===The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Buchanan in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Every Thursday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org , : :. T um,·11 t cmm --. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class .. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Swing Class Baby Boomers and Medicare Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Tuesday, April 30th, 2013; 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center On Tuesday, April 30th, 2013 at 6:30 pm, Al Triggs (Creative Marketing Director for Legacy Insurance Advisors) and former OkEq Board Member will present Baby Boomers and Medicare. Al will present information on Medicare Supplements and information on where you can get the most for your parents' MONEY. Do your parents find the descriptions about supplement programs confusing? Do you feel they are paying too much money? Are their medications too expensive? Are you or your partner or even your parents on a fixed income? You and your parents cannot afford to miss this event. For more information, contact mary.jones@okeq. Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t b. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equa/JustictforAII 11 Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'What the L?' by Kate Clinton Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center As in "Liberal" "Left" and "Lesbian." A columnist for the Progressive and the Advocate, Clinton offers deft takes on politics and culture, believing in laughter's ability to "subvert authority and promote democracy." If not laugh-out-loud funny, Clinton lands lots of one-liners. Our attorney general was "J. Edgar Ashcroft"; our author is no "America Frister." Noting that only Dick Cheney had acknowledged that his daughter, Mary, is gay, Clinton observes, "His lovely wife, Lon Cheney, demurs on the dyke thing." She's savage toward those would retool gays into straights, and passionate about the gay Catholics in the group Dignity willing to take on the church. The book mixes new material with previously published columns, and a few pieces are explicitly personal, such as one on Clinton's 11 years of coming out, and one in which she stands amazed that a movie like Boys Don't Cry got made. Her calling is clear from the mail-order minister's license she got to perform gay weddings: "Call me the Irreverend Kate Clinton." Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:50 AM �OkEq eNews April 24th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-April-24th--2013.ht... Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:50 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3c39a22867ff506d5b92722a80b8ab3b.pdf 10d77d2a13a2a65c3fa7618961f7caae PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 1st, 2013 In This Issue • Equality Gala First Thursday Art Zumba Fitness Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. Final preparations are being made and we are looking forward to seeing everyone at the Equality Gala this Saturday, May 4th at 6:30 pm. www.okeq.org/gala ----- eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Book Study Open AA Group OUTlaw Legal Workshop NERDception Tulsa Interfaith Alliance OkEq Equality Gala 2013 Saturday, May 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The Annual OkEq Equality Gala has a new home on Facebook [ ~ Like us on Facebook ] Equality Business Alliance Tulsa Growl Swing Dance Class Guys Dine Too Singles Night OUT MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Threat Tulsa Lambda Bowling Mother's Day Service No Walls Entertainment Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tai Chi Class www.okeq.org/gala ---- - - First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, May 2nd, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The May OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center will feature the photographic works of Lanette Clark in a show, beginning with a reception on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Zumba Fitness Zumba Fitness Sundays starting May 5th, 2013; 2:30 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Vi SA Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hip-hop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm LEGAL AID SERVICES t tz. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justiu for All a Reality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. This event is free and open to the public. Spectrum Knits Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 2nd and 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org I, ,:::, ' " "" "'"'' ,.;.I"' T r I 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm Grieving Well ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 9th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Floral Haven Memorial Gardens OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 9th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday May 6th. The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Tulsa Growl 2013 Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan May 3rd - 5th, 2013 The Green Country Bears are proud to sponsor Tulsa Growl II on May 3rd - 5th, 2013. Tulsa's Best Bear Run will be an event filled weekend so be sure to visit www.tulsagrowl.com and check out the entire schedule and to register. Swing Dance Class - Learn the Shim Sham Every Monday at 7:00 pm Swing Class SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Have you been curious about swing dancing but think you can't do it? Don't know who Tacky Annie or Shortie George are? Now's the perfect time to get into the swing of things! If tap dancing and swing music had a love child, the Shim Sham would be it! This jazz line dance is a lot of fun and the instructors from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate will lead you through it, one step at a time. No partner or experience needed! No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to theoklahomaswingsyndicate.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Guys Dine Too Tuesday, May 7th, 2013; 6:30 pm The May meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Bangkok Restaurant & Buffet on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Bangkok Rstaurant & Buffet is located at 3313 E 32nd Pl Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... if you plan on attending. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm .,.-----=--- Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color , · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Tulsa Pride 2013 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at EL: - www.tulsapride.org Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 30th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Okahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the Little Rock Wildcats 28 - 8. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next games, this Saturday May 4th and Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Man About Town' by Mark Merlis You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Joel Lingeman has been set adrift. Until recently, life was 'relative contentedness'; working for Congress, frequenting the Hill club a little too frequently, cooking dinner for two every night and routine sex on Sundays. Now Sam, his lover of fifteen years, has left him for a stunning twenty-three year old and he cannot score a trick in the sleaziest pick-up joint in town. Joel's revulsion for the politics around him has dissipated into mild amusement at the 'social Darwinists' ready to snatch the last cents from the hands of the old and ailing. And he is increasingly obsessed by the different Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. A Ji O V l l Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... lives he could have led. When a teenage fantasy reasserts itself, the blond haired demi-god his eye once fell upon modelling swimsuits in the back of an old magazine, Joel is overcome by a pervasive sense of loss and embarks on a quest to hunt down 'the Santa Fe boy'. Astutely observed and resonant with dark, sardonic undertones, Man About Town is an unforgettable novel about losing your way, your self-esteem and your security. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:53 AM �OkEq eNews May 1st, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-1st--2013.html... Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 10:53 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/64007db7a6589ed117ce14fb88e611b9.pdf 8bc5284d6350f69d40338389fae8f123 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 9th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Tulsa Pride 2013 Zumba Fitness Welcome to the eNews. Get ready for Tulsa Pride! It will be here before you know it. Get the info on all the Pride events www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Legal Clinic OUTlaw Legal Workshop Book Study Open AA Group NERDception Singles Night OUT Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Tulsa Interfaith Alliance MOREcolor Art Show Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Threat Love Free or Die Tulsa Lambda Bowling NAGAAA Cup Mother's Day Service JO UR N E Y ~ TRAVB.1:-.C. OkEq Programming Note Monday, May 27th, 2013 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day on Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. No Walls Entertainment LGBT -Smoking - - -Survey -Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride 2013 Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tulsa Pride 2013 will have a planning meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at 7:30 pm at the Equality Center. Meetings are open to the public and anybody interested in helping is encouraged to attend. Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 10th, 2013 - Leather and Lace Fetish Fashion Show @ Tulsa Eagle 9:00 p - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 11th, 2013 - Pants off for Pride @ Mojo's 9:00 pm 2:00 am • Friday, May 17th, 2013 - Pride Night @ TNT's 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Saturday, May 18th, 2013 Pride Night @ Bamboo Lounge 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Sunday, May 30th, 2013 - Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service @ Phillips Theological Seminary, 901 N Mingo Rd, 7:00 PM Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. Zumba Fitness Every Sunday; 2:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Special for Mother's Day, Sunday May 12th, bring your mom to Zumba Class for FREE! Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Carlos A. Bejarano is a Tulsa native & Zumba Fitness� Instructor since October 2012, Carlos creates a party atmosphere by combining Latin, hiphop and international rhythms with a huge smile for a unique workout class experience. Free for OkEq Members, $5 for Non Members Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Tuesday, May 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Zumba Fitness Sundays 2:30 pm Zumba Fitness� is a high energy dance class designed to burn calories and tone the entire body! Join the Party-- the Fitness-Fiesta-- and dance away your worries. Class is one hour. Facilitated by Carlos Bejarano Free for Members $5 for Non Members LEGAL AID SERVICES t .n. OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Making Equal Justict for All a R,ality Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic will address unemployment benefits, including the process for obtaining those benefits from the Oklahoma Employment Security Commission. This event is free and open to the public. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursdays, May 16th & 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursdays May 16th and May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Book Study "Faith, Doubt & Other Lines I've Crossed" Thursday, May 9th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Tulsa Interfaith Alliance will be hosting Jay Bakker (son of Jim and Tammy Faye) on May 16th, 2013. Rev. Bob Lawrence will be leading a study of his most recent book "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I Grieving Well 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Have Crossed: Searching for the Unknown God". A copy of the book will be available for purchase at the book study. Space is limited. Please sign up with Rev. Bob at uccrevbob@gmail.com or Mary Jones at mary.jones@okeq.org Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday starting May 14th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, May 10th, 2013. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The May Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... May 15th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the Tulsa Shock. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Shock BOK Center 200 S Denver Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org The eNews for the week of May 9th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority schedu ling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com SAGE l] W' Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Annual Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 2013; dinner at 5:30 pm Join the Tulsa Interfaith Alliance on Thursday, May 16, 2013 for their Annual Meeting Dinner and Speaker Event, featuring Jay Bakker. Jay will speak about his latest book, "Faith, Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed: Walking With the Unknown God." The dinner begins at 5:30 pm and costs $25/person. Sponsorships are available. The annual business meeting will occur at the end of the dinner, and is free. Jay's keynote address will begin at 7:00 pm and is free and open to the public. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program All events will happen at All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria Ave in Tulsa. To register for this event, please click here. tulsainterfaithalliance.org MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. - MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak council oak mens choro/11 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org Tulsa Threat Saturday, May 11th, 2013; 7:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Bixby Spartan Stadium 601 S Riverview Bixby, OK The Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football team won their last game against the New Orleans Mojo 37 - 0. With that win, the Tulsa Threat remains undefeated in their division. The Threat invites you to join them at their next game, this Saturday May 11th, 2013. Gates open at 5:30 pm and kick off is at 7:00 pm. Adult admission is $8 and kids are $5. Military and Student admission is $5. Games are played at Bixby Spartan Stadium, 601 S. Riverview. For more information on the Tulsa Threat, visit www.tulsathreat.com 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Andy B's Bowling Center Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is organizing teams Summer League. It is $20 to join plus $14 per week every Monday evening at 6:45 pm. They bowl at Andy B's, 8711 South Lewis, You can contact lamdaleague@cox.net for further questions or just show up at the bowling alley. The Tulsa Lambda Bowling League is an officially sanctioned league with the IGBO (International Gay Bowling Organization). Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Mother's Day Service Sunday, May 12th, 2013; 11:00 am Parish Church of St. Jerome 205 W King St The Parish Church of St. Jerome extends a warm invitation to all mothers for service on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 12th, 2013 at 11:00 am. We invite all mothers, single or partnered, Lesbian or straight. If you are not a Mom, bring yours, especially if she has been a supportive force in your life as an LGBTQ person. We want to show our gratitude and love to those who have nurtured and supported us with a special gift. St. Jerome is located at 205 W. King St. (Denver & King), Tulsa. No Walls Entertainment Group Rehearsals Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. No Walls Entertainment Group would like to invite you to join the rehearsals at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Sundays between now and the time of performances. The group meets from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm. No experience is necessary, the mission is to give people the opportunity to experiment with being on stage with a supporting acting group. If you are interested in being part of our project please contact Ty Tyson 918.850.9438 for details or just show up at rehearsal. where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Game Night 'Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in the Military' edited by Craig Rimmerman 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center "Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Preface by Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in Margarethe Cammermeyer the Military" is edited by Craig Author of Serving in Silence Rimmerman and features a preface by Margarethe Cammermeyer. This is a collection of articles that explore various facets of the issue of gay people serving in the armed forces. Ten original essays place the debate over homosexual military service in its historical, theoretical, political, and policy context: "Race-ing and Gendering the Military Closet," by Francine D'Amico; "Echoes of Prejudice: The Debates Over Race and Sexuality in the Armed Forces," by David Ari Bianco; "Military Women: Casualties of the Armed Forces' War on Lesbians and Gay Men," by Michelle M. Benecke and Kirstin S. Dodge; "Promise Unfulfilled: Clinton's Failure to Overturn the Military Ban on Lesbians and Gays," by Craig A. Rimmerman; "President Clinton, Public Opinion, and Gays in the Military," by Clyde Wilcox and Robin M. Wolpert; "The Perils of Congressional Politics," by David M. Rayside; "Seeking Another Forum: The Courts and Lesbian and Gay Rights," by Richard Pacelle; "The Spectacle of Life and Death: Feminist and Lesbian/Gay Politics in the Military," by Mary Fainsod Katzenstein; "Conduct Unbecoming Continues: The First Year Under 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Pursue,'" by C. Dixon Osburn and Michelle M. Benecke; and finally "Constructing the 'Other' Soldier: Gay Identity's Military Threat," by Gary L. Lehring. Gay Rig Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/23/26, 10:54 AM �OkEq eNews May 9th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-9th--2013.html... Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:54 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1a2e04373709a184ab70af3fdb51e07a.pdf fb5ff92dd7adb2d5c11ab3eaa5ed6d4c PDF Text Text eNews February 20th, 2013 In This Issue Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Know Your Rights Welcome to the eNews. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is entirely supported by donations from the community. Be Our Voice, Give a Day allows us to spotlight our generous donors. Be Our Voice, Give a Day eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Be Our Voice, Give a Day To honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013. Thank You for your support, Havah! Equality Business Alliance Swing Dance Class Community Hero Awards SAGE hosts TCC Camp Fire Candy Sale OUTlaw Legal Workshop Gamily Tulsa Pride 2013 TMSL Native HIV/AIDS Days Guys Dine Too First Thursday Tulsa Mister Leather Singles Night OUT Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Spirit Imperial Court LGBT Equality Day Night of 1001 Divinations Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Inclement Weather Policy Be Our Voice, Give a Day Eating Out for Equality Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 6:00 - 10:00 pm The Rusty Crane 109 N Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74103 Oklahomans for Equality wants you and your family and friends to eat dinner with us at The Rusty Crane on Tuesday, February 26th from 6 - 10 Find Us on Facebook �pm. OkEq will receive 10% of the proceeds for the night. www.therustycranetulsa.com TU Law School's SODA Presents LGBT Law Monday, February 25th, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Know Your Rights On Monday, February 25th, 2013 TU Law School's SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance) will continue their monthly presentations on the state of LGBT Law in Oklahoma and the nation. The presentation will be at 7:00 pm at the Equality Center. ,, .. I' #" OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, February 21st, 7 pm ...r Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook February's EBA Monthly Mixer will be will be hosted by Courtyard Atlas Life Downtown on Wednesday February 20th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. Please RSVP and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. Plan on giving us a 2 minute commercial about your Business. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to take orders and get your phone ringing. EBA mixers are open to members and non-members alike. OkEq Art Exhibit The February exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the group work "Girlfriends" Courtyard by Marriott - ATLAS LIFE BUILDING TULSA 415 S. Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74103 Swing Dance Class Every Monday; 7:00 pm Tai Chi Class Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. TOSS is teaching an 8-week series of classes running until February 25th, 2013 at the Equality Center. Don't know your left foot from your right? That's okay! Start with the basic step and work through beginner and intermediate lessons in Swing Dance-era dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary! For more info on TOSS, go to www.tosstulsa.org. Free for OkEq members and $5 for non members. OkEq now taking nominations for Community Hero Awards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members �Oklahomans for Equality is now taking nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on May 4th, 2013, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. Deadline for submissions is Thursday, February, 28th . The following awards are presented: • Lifetime Achievement Award - Recognizes a lifetime of dedication to the cause of equality for the LGBT community in Oklahoma. • Community Hero Award - Recognize those individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. • The Rev. Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. • Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award - Presented to a local area youth who demonstrates extraordinary character and makes a positive difference in their school, youth group and community. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. • Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 1st Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. You can download a form here. Please return completed form to lucas.green@okeq.org SAGE hosts TCC Center Tour Tuesday, February 26th, 2013; 10:30 am Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens SAGE Tulsa will host a Tulsa Community College class tour of the Equality Center on Tuesday, February 26th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Food will be provided and the TCC students will join the SAGE members for intergenerational discussions. Email lucas.green@okeq.org if you would like to attend. m Tulsa Community College Girl Scouts Cookie Sale Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 5:30 - 7:30 pm . 'JI g1rl scouts In support of Girl Scouts being an inclusion organization, Oklahomans for Equality will host the Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Cookie Sale at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 starting at 5:30 pm. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & �The cookies will cost $4.00 per box and will include: Thin Mints, Tagalongs (peanut butter & chocolate patties), Samoas (chocolate, caramel, coconut cookie), Do-si-dos (peanut butter sandwich cookie), Trefoils (a shortbread cookie) and Savannah Smiles (a zesty lemon cookie). James Prather OUTlaw Legal Workshop 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month; 7:00 pm OkEq will host the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month. Facilitator Conor Cleary, an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, P.C., leads the topic discussions which will change each meeting. Upcoming topics include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, power of attorney (durable) and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. GAMILY Meeting Saturday, March 9th, 2013; 3:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ OkEq welcomes our new intern, Samantha Checotah, who will be working with our GAMILY program which advocates and serves LGBT parents and their children. Gamily will have a Meet n Greet get together on Saturday, March 9th, 2013 at 3:00 pm at the Equality Center. Services and Advocilcy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride is now accepting registrations for Volunteers and Exhibitors, Food Vendors and Parade Entries at www.tulsapride.org for Tulsa Pride 2013. Tulsa LGBT Softball Keeps Growing Tulsa Metro Softball League is kicking off their 5th Spring Season on April 7th, 2013. To date, the league has 14 registered teams and expects to have more 160 players. They're inviting everyone to get in on the action! TMSL's annual Spring Recruitment Clinic will be held on Saturday, March 9 from 10:00 am - 2:00 pm at Lantz Park. If you have ever wanted to play, this is the way to find a team. All players, new and returning, that are looking for a spring team should attend. At the clinics, players will go through some drills, learn about the league and meet coaches to be placed on a team. Lantz Park is located at 821 N. Yale Ave in Tulsa. TMSL also has several sponsorship opportunities available for their upcoming spring season and their two big tournaments this summer. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 918.382.4429 for more information �To learn more about sponsorship and to get signed up to play visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Wednesday, March 20th, 2013; 10:00 am - 3:00 pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) March 20th is Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the Creek nation HIV/AIDS Project will be having HIV testing at the Equality Center from 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. The day will also include speakers, light food and beverages, information booths with give-a-ways. H.O.P.E. Testing will provide tests from 4:00 - 8:00 pm. Sponsored by Creek Nation HIV/AIDS Project H.O.P.E Testing Clinic H.E.A.R.T Native American Coalition of Green country Guys Dine Too Tuesday, March 5th, 2013; 6:30 pm The March meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Brothers Houligan on Tuesday, March 5th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Brothers Houligan is located at 9701 E 61st www.broshouligan.com Guys Dine Too is a social program by OkEq for Gay Men, and their male Allies/friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending First Thursday Art Reception Thursday, March 7th, 2013; 6:00 pm 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members The March OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Equality Center, will feature the Photographic Art of Steve Barrett and Cheryl Quetone, beginning with a reception on Thursday, March 7th, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Boot Camp Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. �Friday and Saturday, March 8th & 9th, 2013 Tulsa's Premier Gay Leather Event - the Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest and Events will take place March 8th & 9th, 2013 at the Tulsa Eagle, 1338 E. 3rd St, just east of Downtown Tulsa. The Event begins on Friday, March 8th at 10:00 pm with a Meet n Greet Mixer at the Tulsa Eagle and follows up with the Contest at 10:00 pm on Saturday the 9th of March. Gender Outreach ULSAEAGLE 133813ll■ ST lllffl 1pe1 @8PM $5 CMr CHIISI starts 11PM The event is open and welcoming to all interested fans and friends. Part of the $5 cover charge will start the charity fund that will be raised throughout the year. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. ~ .. For more information email: tmlproducers@gmail.com Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm A new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by PENNY SLOTS AND JIMMIE NEUTRON, the Superheroes of Love. Event will be ages 21 and over. Council Oak Mens Chorale Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013; 7:00 pm The Vocal Pride Foundation is excited to announce Council Oak Mens Chorale will soon begin rehearsal for the summer 2013 season. Our performance ensemble had great success last season with the Divo/Diva summer concert, a stellar performance in Denver, Colorado at the GALA 2012 Festival, and our fall Zinga! performances with clarinetist Stacy C. Smith. Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm councU oak OOUIJcJj 00/i" mM$ mota/e Council Oak Men's Chorale Summer Season 2013 "DONNA SUMMER/WHITNEY HOUSTON - A TRIBUTE" with celebrated soloist Phena Hackett, Soprano Rehearsals begin Monday, March 4th, 2013 Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave Fellowship Hall 7:00 to 9:00 pm. Performances are Tuesday, June 4th and Friday June 7th, 2013 at Lorton Performance Center - TU Campus Sunday, February 24th, 2013 - 7:00 pm - Oscar Night Watch Party - Meet and Greet at Liberty Tower Club Room, 1502 S. Boulder Ave. To attend please RSVP to Mark Weathers at mark_w@netscape.com or Rusty Kidd at russell.kidd@att.net. Food and drink will be provided. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are �www.counciloak.org Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering April 19th - 22nd, 2013 required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Osage Hills State Park 2131 Osage Hills State Park Road Pawhuska, OK 74056 The gathering's program will include workshops on traditional and contemporary Native American culture, Pow Wows, stompdancing, celebrations, Native faith, and other related activities. No alcohol, drugs or guns will be allowed. The Tulsa Two Spirits Society is "a non-profit Native American LGBT Collective. We seek to affirm and embody positive traditional and modern Two Spirit identities, and in so doing, be valued members of our communities". For more information or to register for the gathering, please visit t h e Tulsa Two Spirits Gathering section on the OkEq website or download the registration form here. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals I.C.A.O. - Coronation VI March 7th - 10th, 2013 Regent Emperor V Philip "Papa Scrappy" Saint Johns & Regent Empress V Kris Kohl & The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Invite you to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Coronation VI "A Night at the USO with Designing Women and a Cast of Stars" Thursday, March 7th Meet and Greet at Tulsa Eagle @ 10 PM, No Cover Friday, March 8th Hospitality Noon to 3 at Host Hotel Out of Town Show - Host Hotel - Doors at 6, Show at 7 $15 - includes bus tour EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also �Bus leaves hotel at 9 - drag welcome but not required Hospitality Midnight to 3 Must have wrist band for bus tour and hospitality Friday night. strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Saturday, March 9th Hospitality - 8 am to 3 pm Woman's Conference 1 pm - Host Hotel (Open to the Public, Free) Coronation VI - Host Hotel - $45 (Dress is Theme or Formal) Doors / Meet and Greet at 5 pm, Dinner at 6 pm and Ceremony at 7 pm Hospitality - 1 hour after Coronation to 3 am Sunday, March 10th Victory Brunch - Host Hotel - $25 Doors at 10:30, Brunch at 11 Shot Party - 3 pm - 5 pm Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Victory Show - 7 pm - ? Bamboo Lounge - No Cover Hotel, Tickets and Program Advertising Information are available on theImperial Court of All Oklahoma website I.C.A.O. is a 501(c)3 Non Profit Organization for more information contact ICAO on Facebook or impcourtok@gmail.com 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day Wednesday March 6th, 2013; 9:00 am - 2:00 pm Mi!Qiil LGBTEqual aims Dav -.--.--,-, MM•'1r'i'M~ ra,... ....,..,., wwwlln The Equality Network (TEN) invites all LGBT and allied people from across the state for the 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day at the Capitol. Nothing shapes legislators' attitudes more than face-to-face contact with their constituents. Wednesday, March 6th will begin with a brief lobbying training session at 9:00 am in Room 25. TEN will provide information on how to effectively interact with your representatives as well as talking points for target legislation. ,.......... Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing TEN encourages you to set up an appointment with your state representative and state senator in advance to ensure that you will be able to meet with them on Equality Day. To find your representatives, click here. Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Open Circle presents 'Night of 1001 Divinations' MISSION: Saturday, February 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equlity Center 621 E. 4th, Tulsa, OK Just in time to banish the mid-winter blahs! A relaxed evening that will be filled with music, dancing, story-telling, henna artists, readers and more fun stuff to be announced. Food will be pot-luck style, so this is a good time to show off your favorite Middle-Eastern specialty if you want, or that fabulous dessert your Great Aunt Ida swore she'd never give anyone the recipe to! Please, NO PORK. We would like to honor the local cultural traditions. Middle eastern/Arabian themed dress is encouraged, but not required. All we need is you! BYOB as usual; mixers will be available for purchase from Open Circle. There will also be a raffle...and we're hearing about lots of good items just waiting to go home with you. Ages 16 and older. As usual, you must be 21 to drink alcohol. Tickets are available at Earth and Soul...and will be available at other venues soon. Tickets are $15.00 per person, and if you want to reserve a Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. �table for you and 7 of your very best buds, just contact us. Visit us on Facebook! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2012 T-Shirts are only $5! Get them now before they are gone forever! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl ' by Paul Colapinto You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine-and a total failure. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and THE BOY WHO WAS WSED AS A CIRL foremost a human drama of one man's-and one family's-amazing survival in the face of terrible odds. AS NATURE MADE HIM Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org �~ Volw er A proud Partner Organization of vo:lunteer Tulsa., your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Inclement Weather Policy Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In the event of inclement weather you may need to confirm that special events and regularly scheduled programming at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center have not been cancelled due to poor road conditions or winter weather advisories. Please contact the Equality Center by calling 918-743-4297 or check the OkEq website: www.okeq.org Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, will contact the local media so we can be included in the posted weather-related closings. Info will also be posted on Facebook. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/a695a830f3a3054d08b2b8dba53e57a5.pdf f11f88b435fbda97959268d690d324af PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 23rd, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Programming Note Be Our Voice, Give a Day NAGAAA Cup Welcome to the eNews. This weekend, Tulsa welcomes LGBT softball players from around the US for the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance 2013 Cup! And Tulsa Pride 2013 will be here before you know it. Visit www.tulsapride.org for all the events leading up to the festival on June 1st and Picnic in the Park on June 2nd. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa Pride 2013 OUTlaw Legal Workshop Council Oak Mens Chorale Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service The Best Gamily Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception EBA Sponsor HB 1661 Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com IJ W MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti OkEq Programming Note No Walls Entertainment Monday, May 27th, 2013 LGBT Smoking Survey ------ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will be open for Memorial Day weekend and Monday, May 27th, 2013 but all evening programming has been canceled. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Saturday May 18th, 2013 at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center was sponsored in honor of Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Terry Copley on his birthday Rachel Hutchinson donated the day in honor of her best friend and straight ally on his birthday. Click here to Give a Day Kick off Pride Week with a Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Friday, May 24th, 2013; 7:30 pm Guthrie Green N Boston Ave Tulsa, OK Join Tulsa Metro Softball League, Tulsa Sports Commission, and Oklahomans for Equality Friday, May 24th, 2013 to welcome LGBT softball players from around the US to Tulsa for the 2013 NAGAAA Cup! TMSL is hosting a big gay 2013 NAGAAA Cup Opening Party from 7:30 - 9:30 pm at the Guthrie Green in the Brady Arts District and they want to invite you to join them! Drinks will be flowing, food trucks will be serving, local officials will be welcoming, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning! Friday, May 24th, 2013 7:30 - 9:30 pm - Be at the Guthrie Green! Visit TulsaMetroSoftball.com for more information and to sign up as a volunteer! Friday - NAGAAA Cup Opening Party at the Guthrie Green Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Join us from 7:30-9:30pm to welcome players from Seattle to Atlanta to Tulsa at the Guthrie Green! Drinks will be flowing, locals welcoming, food trucks will be serving, and DJ $erious $tanley will be spinning all in the 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Brady District! Saturday - Games Come out to Carl Smith and watch the A and B teams compete for the Championship! Games are being played on Fields 5 - 9 starting 8:00 am 5:00 pm. Saturday Night NAGAAA Cup Parties at our Sponsor Bars! Check out the Tulsa Eagle, New Age Renegade, Club Majestic and Club 209! Sunday - Games Games will again play on Fields 5-8 starting at 9AM and wrapping up with the Championship Game at 4:30P on Field 5. Sunday - NAGAAA Cup Closing Party Join us at Club Majestic to say thank you to all the teams coming to Tulsa for the weekend. Doors will open around 8:00 pm. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 Grieving Well T U L S A Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM Tulsa Pride Events • Sunday, May 26th, 2013 - Oklahomo! a Sing-Along @ 209 the Arts Bar 9:00 pm - 2:00 am • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. OUTlaw Legal Workshop Thursday, May 23rd, 2013; 7:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center OkEq hosts the OUTlaw Legal Workshop on Thursday May 23rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm. Facilitator Jason McVicker, an associate with Atkinson, Haskins, Nellis, Brittingham, Gladd & Fiasco, will lead the topic discussions which will change each meeting. The discussion will be followed by an open Q&A session. Gl Swing Class Swing Dance Class Council Oak Mens Chorale Pride Performance Tuesday, May 28th, 2013; 7:00 pm Central Library Downtown Tulsa 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 council oak COUIICJI oak nms choro/9 Council Oak Mens Chorale will present their annual Pride performance at the downtown Tulsa library on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the Central Library in downtown Tulsa. This FREE event will be held in the Aaronson Auditorium. www.counciloak.org 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Mondays 7:00 pm Learn to swing dance from The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate. Features dances like East Coast swing, Charleston, and Lindy Hop. No partner required, no experience necessary. Facilitated by Kelley Parker Free for Members $5 for Non Members www.tosstulsa.org Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... The Best Gamily Contest Entries due by Sunday, May 26th, 2013 Do you have the best gamily? Well, if you think so or you know so, tell us why in 500 words or more and attach a family picture. Send entries to: Gamily@okeq.org by Sunday, May 26, 2013. Entries that are selected will win free tickets to the June 4th production of Disney's The Lion King. Winners will be notified by phone/email. Tickets can be picked up from Gamily Intern, Samantha Checotah at Tulsa Pride 2013 on June 1st. All entered entries will then be used in recognizing our wonderful families on Gamily's Facebook page's "Family of the Week." Good luck and have fun. throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Service, and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is May 28th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. The eNews for the week of May 23rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS HB 1661 School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act signed by Governor Fallin HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was signed by Governor Fallin yesterday afternoon. HB 1661 requires new procedures and policies for reporting bullying and harassment and incidents. It's time to thank the Governor and legislators passing HB 1661. Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Support Letter by FAX: OKC (405) 521-3353 Tulsa (918) 581-2835 The Honorable Mary Fallin Governor of the State of Oklahoma Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N. Lincoln Blvd., Room 212 Oklahoma City, OK 73105 Dear Governor Fallin Thank you for signing HB 1661 Oklahoma's School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act. Your message: Respectfully Yours, Your name, address, and email address Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Email Thank You: Go to Governor Fallin's website: https://www.ok.gov/governor/ Click tab "Contact the Governor Select "E-mail Governor Fallin" Complete the form Click tab "Submit" MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color :. · MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org - - - to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexua l & Tramgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'In the Name of Hate: Understanding Hate Crimes' by Barbara Perry 4/23/26, 10:56 AM �OkEq eNews May 23rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-23rd--2013.ht... You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 'In The Name of Hate' offers a comprehensive theory of hate crimes, arguing for an expansion of the legal definitions that most states in the U.S. hold. Barbara Perry provides an historical understanding of hate crimes and provocatively argues that hate crimes are not an aberration of current society, but rather a by-product of a society still grappling with inequality, difference, fear, and hate. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Vol n r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! UL A Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:56 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3e364d645e619c8c21097da3bcb3df06.pdf ab3268ce4736e8cd98647cb584567380 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews May 30th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service SAGE Viewing Room Welcome to the eNews. It is Pride Week in Tulsa! Be sure to join us on June 1st and 2nd! Keep informed about all of the events lined up and help us celebrate Tulsa Pride. www.tulsapride.org eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality PFLAG Billboards Guys Dine Too OUTlaw Legal Workshop Equality Business Alliance Open AA Group The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Council Oak Concert Gamily Family EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Tulsa SAGE Pride in the Ballpark Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti St. Jerome Fun Night No Walls Entertainment Tulsa Pride 2013 Saturday, June 1st and Sunday, June 2nd, 2013 LGBT Smoking --- - - -Survey --- Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... T U L S A OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm Everything you need to know about Tulsa Pride is here and on www.tulsapride.org Check for Tulsa Pride on Facebook for any last minute updates! Friday, MAY 31st - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party Saturday, JUNE 1st - Street Festival and Parade Sunday, JUNE 2nd - Pride in the Park presented by Tulsa Shock VOLUNTEER! Be part of Tulsa Pride 2013 by volunteering a couple of hours and receive a free Pride Staff T-shirt, make some great friends, free lunch and get a behind the scenes look at Tulsa Pride. Many areas are available such as beverage attendant, entrance attendant and setup and tear down assistant, parking attendant and much more. Sign Up online: VOLUNTEER FORM OkEq Art Exhibit The May exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the photographic work of Lanette Clark Tulsa Pride Events • Friday, May 31st, 2013 - At the Beach Tulsa Pride Pool Party @ Holiday Inn Tulsa City Center, 17 W 7th St, 3:00 - 9:00 pm Details about these events are available on the Tulsa Pride smartphone app or www.tulsapride.org or Tulsa Pride's Facebook. 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Thursday, May 30th, 2013; 7:00 pm Phillips Theological Seminary 901 N Mingo Rd The 2013 Interfaith Service will be hosted by Phillips Theological Seminary on Thursday May 30th, 2013 at 7:00 pm. PTS is located at 901 N Mingo Rd. Clergy and Spiritual leaders from Tulsa's affirming and inclusive Faith communities and several choirs and ensembles participate in this annual event. Rev Bob Lawrence is the organizer for this year's Interfaith Service. The highlight of the Interfaith Service is the blessing of Pride Flag. Please join the LGBT community as we celebrate the spiritual diversity of Tulsa. Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Tulsa SAGE Viewing Room Tulsa Pride Parade Tulsa Pride is also offering an air-conditioned Tulsa Pride Parade viewing area inside the Dennis R Neill Equality Center's Charles Faudree Board Room for LGBT older adults, veterans and those with disabilities. This room overlooks the front of the Center from the second floor. There is easy access to this room utilizing the Elevator. Refreshments will be provided. PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town starting in June. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well Guys Dine Too Tuesday, June 4th, 2013; 6:30 pm The June meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Leon's Restaurant on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Leon's Restaurant is located at 3301 S Peoria Ave 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 14th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's next Legal Clinic at the Equality LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. Making Equal Justict fo r All a Reality = Live Free! Coming Out 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Center is on Tuesday, June 14th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Workshop Will resume June 3rd Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by the garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm SAGE ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Tuesday, June 4th and Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Diversity & Dignity Group 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Gamily featured family for June This month's featured Gamily Family is Regina and Stacey Leblanc. Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Regina & Stacey LeBlanc together for 14 years have 4 children. Sean, Krista, Amber and Olivia Paige. The oldest child, Sean will be 24 next month and is a United States Marine. Krista is 21. Amber will be a senior at Jenks next year, she and little sister Olivia age 10, both dance for Jenks Dance Academy. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of May 30th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK MOREcolor Art Show Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. == ... Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color : . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans Rainbow Writers 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services ond Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual &. Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Double Header 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Game Night Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and at ONEOK Field Will Call on the day of the event. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 7th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St Workforce Oklahoma Access Point The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here St. Jerome Fun Night Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday, June 7th, 2013; 7:00 pm St. Jerome Events Center 205 W. King Street Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm St. Jerome Fun Night Featuring Fun, Friendship, Dancing And Yes, Karaoke! Friday, June 7th, 2013 7:00 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing All are welcome! Please spread the word and bring all of your friends. As always bring your favorite munchies to share if you would like. Soda and water will be provided. All are welcome to bring anything else you wish to drink. Please call 918-582-3008 for more information. An Adult Fairytale Performances May 31st, June 1st - 2nd, 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: May 31st & June 1st - 7:00 pm June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 2nd and 9th are matinee shows at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! Get them now before Pride for $20.00! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Mayor of Castro Street' by Randy Shilts You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Known as "The Mayor of Castro Street" even before he was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, Harvey Milk's personal life, public career, and final assassination reflect the dramatic emergence of the gay community as a political power in America. It is a story full of personal tragedies and political intrigues, 4/23/26, 10:57 AM �OkEq eNews May 30th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-May-30th--2013.ht... assassinations at City Hall, massive riots in the streets, the miscarriage of justice, and the consolidation of gay power and gay hope. The definitive story of the man whose personal life, public career, and tragic assassination mirrored the dramatic and unprecedented emergence of the gay community in America during the 70s. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library -- Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 10:57 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/82901373f59907fe68e65610107200dc.pdf 5f51d61913424c7fc6cf2c30922ff853 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 6th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Thank you to everyone who helped us celebrate Tulsa Pride weekend. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality OUTlaw Legal Workshop Tulsa SAGE Equality Business Alliance Moving On Support Group Open AA Group The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: NERDception Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com Council Oak Concert Singles Night OUT Love Free or Die Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference No Walls Entertainment LGBT Smoking Survey ----- MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, June 20th, 7:00 pm OkEq Art Exhibit The June exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature a Pride Celebration Exhibit Tai Chi Class Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Chairty Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets will be available for Pick Up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and at the OkEq table outside ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V Grieving Well PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Legal Services of Oklahoma Legal Clinic Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center LEGAL AID SERVICES t h OF OKLAHOMA, INC. = Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma's Making Equal Justict for All a Reality next Legal Clinic at the Equality Center is on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013, at 6:00 pm. The clinic guest speaker will be Charlie Plumb. He will be speaking on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) and ADA (American with Disabilities Act) accommodations in the work place. Tulsa SAGE Group Outing Tuesday, June 11th, 2013; Meet at 10:30 am sage~ The Tulsa SAGE group will meet for an outing on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 at 10:30 am. After meeting up, the group will head out to Sol Smith's Native American Retreat which is North of Sand Springs on Services and Advocacy Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group will for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexua l & Transgender Elders have lunch and a tour of his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. His home has a breathtaking view of the Arkansas River Valley. To RSVP for the outing, please email lucas.green@okeq.org Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 NERDception Every other Tuesday; 7:00 pm. Next date is June 11th, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you could, in what - ' ' . ·. ... ~ .......... ;. . , .~ - •. i ,.« :t Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... universe would you live? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. For example, who would win: Superman or the Hulk? Who is the best wizard of all: Gandalf, Dumbledore or Willow? Do you think Buffy should just get rid of Edward Cullen already? Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com. Gamily featured family for June 6th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Congratulations Crystal and Julie Loveland-Davis on the birth of their daughter Kyler Janine Loveland-Davis born at 5:35 am Saturday June 1st, 2013. She weighs 5 lbs & 12 ounces and is 19 inches long. And as you can see she is beautiful. HAPPY PRIDE Kyler, we threw you a big party at 4th and Kenosha. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org The eNews for the week of June 6th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. EL: == Rainbow Writers Donna Summer / Whitney Houston Tribute Council Oak Mens Chorale Performances Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Every other Wednesday 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Friday, June 7th, 2013; 8:00 pm Lorton Performance Center at The University of Tulsa 550 S. Gary Place, Tulsa, OK 74104 Join Council Oak Men's Chorale (COMC) for a Tribute Concert featuring the Queens of Pop we lost too soon... with all the hits that will take you back and get you moving! Disco era clothing is welcomed and encouraged! Performances will include featured soloists from within the Chorale and special guest soprano Phena Hackett. Selections include some of the greatest hits of Donna Summer and Whitney Houston MacArthur Park, Last Dance, Greatest Love of All, I Will Always Love You and more. The Chorale began in 1997 as a group of twelve men formed for a World AIDS Day memorial service. Comprising dedicated volunteer singers, COMC has achieved an outstanding reputation for vocal excellence across the nation. The Chorale performs annual holiday and summer concerts, outreach recitals and special events. COMC has performed at OKMozart, Philbrook's Festival of Trees, and GALA Festivals in San Jose, CA, Miami, FL and Denver, CO. Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Order tickets in advance at counciloak.org or at the door the night of performances. Tickets are $15. The Vocal Pride Foundation, Inc., of which Council Oak Men's Chorale is a registered trade name, is a fully qualified 501(c)3 not-for-profit corporation under IRS code. Game Night Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here PFLAG Regional Conference Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information ----call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. -- - - - - MISSION: An Adult Fairytale Performances June 7th - 9th; 2013 Nightingale Theater 1416 E 4th St Tulsa, OK 74120 Show Dates: June 7th & 8th - 7:00 pm June 9th is a matinee show at 2:00 pm. Tickets are $15.00 Each character in No Walls Entertainment Group's production of "An Adult Fairytale" is faced with overcoming fear and failure, the draw of death and the difficulties of daily living. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband' by Helen Boyd You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a crossdresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman - socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of crossdressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 6th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-6th--2013.html... Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Volun r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! TULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/fa9f22a0d2a8c62eec359c8fac9ce011.pdf 44895eb6f8f635d2af9b9fa42aaf03b4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 12th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor MOREcolor Art Show Pride in the Ballpark PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to join us for the MOREcolor Art Show reception on Thursday, June 13th, 2013 from 6 - 9 pm. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Moving On Support Group Equality Business Alliance Square1 Theatrics Ice Cream Social Gamily Family Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com EBA Sponsor Singles Night OUT Open AA Group First Thursday Cheril Vendetti 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK PFLAG Conference Article Headline MOREcolor Art Show Show opening on Thursday, June 13th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ----Pride Store MORE color . MOREcolor is the current incarnation of the art show that began back in the 1980's as the TOHR Art Show. An opportunity that give artists 70% of their sales and keeping only a 30% commission, MOREcolor had its start long before Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) had the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, when the organization was still called Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The show has been held in several locations, but its home is now the Equality Center's spacious Event Center. Each year brings new performance surprises to the opening night event, from chamber music to jazz, from contemporary dance to belly, from performance art to an opera flash mob, from a body art runway to installation art. This year's opening event on Thursday evening, June 13th, 2013 will feature works by as many as sixty visual and performing artists, and some surprises we can't confirm yet, as well as cash awards. The event is free and open to the public. MOREcolorart.com Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Team. Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 Congratulations to OkEq Tony Award Winners! Oklahomans for Equality congratulates OkEq members Jay Krottinger and Ryan Jude Tanner of Square 1 Theatrics on their Tony Award. Square 1 Theatrics, an Equality Business Alliance member, are producers of Pippin! which won 4 Tony Awards including Best Musical Revival. www.square1theatrics.com 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013 Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 12th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Trevor Wood and Aaron Petty. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Trevor and Aaron welcomed their twin boys, Caden Neal Wood and Carter Nicholas Wood on October 2nd, 2012. The boys are now 8 months old and they both love swimming a lot, and giving facial expressions to each other. Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. The eNews for the week of June 12th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 7 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... individuals. -- ~ ~ --.. a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Flying Solo will take off Friday, May 24th for Memorial Day Weekend. Next meet is Friday, June 14th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ------to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... The Cheril Vendetti Experience Friday, June 14th, 2013; 8:00 pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center 110 E 2nd St The Cheril Vendetti Experience is a fastpaced explosion of irreverent entertainment that will leave you either heading for the door or to the nearest bail bondsman! Direct from television's HBO, OWN and SPIKE networks and the famous Los Angeles Comedy Store, comes the outrageous Cheril Vendetti! The Boston-Italian comedienne, TV personality and comical cookbook author, and her band, The Pasta Fazools, generate more laughs than Tony Soprano could put a hit on. So grab your funny bone, leave your political correctness at the door, and join the fun! Purchase tickets here Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 16th, 2013 - 6:00 pm Fathers day cookout at Tulsa Eagle - $5 a plate hamburgers hot dogs $1 jello shots Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'Three' by Annemarie Monahan You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center One yellow April morning, a 17 year old girl asks herself, "Do I dare to eat a peach?" Three different answers will HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... send her down three very different paths. That morning is long past. Now she is 41. Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. Kitty Trevelyan has been happily married 23 years. Happily enough. Until her professor asks her for coffee and kisses her. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dr. Katherine North's memory of two lovers chafes her like a hair shirt. After reading one has died, she contacts the other-only to discover that she has been renounced for God. MISSION: �ntonia searches the sea-horizon every evening. In the last light, she can glimpse it: a feminist Utopia built on an abandoned oil rig, led by her charismatic and bipolar lover. Her lost Eden made by Eves. Who are we? Who haven't we been? Have we dared? Three of one woman's possible lives are about to collide. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:00 AM �OkEq eNews June 12th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-12th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:00 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/3a4a44bf70c78ee6831f66ffdb52a032.pdf 59619cce20782628fd0149ba23f4a067 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 19th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Pride in the Ballpark Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Be sure to buy your tickets for the Pride in the Ballpark Charity Softball game for Sunday, June 23rd, 2013 at Drillers Stadium. Find the details below. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality Pride Month Display Love Free or Die Tulsa Pride Feedback Moving On Support Group Ice Cream Social The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Family EBA Sponsor Tulsa SAGE Hips-Knees-Shoulders Foot/Ankle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Singles Night OUT Open AA Group Rainbow Writers HB 1661 First Thursday Guys Dine Too Double Header 'Pride in the Ballpark' Charity Softball Game PFLAG Conference Sunday, June 23rd, 2013; Game 1 - 2:05 pm; Game 2 - 5:35 pm LGBT Smoking Survey ------ Article Headline Game 1 - Tulsa Drillers vs NWA Naturals Board of Directors Game 2 - OkEq Hit Crew vs Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team Rainbow Library Come attend the First Annual Charity Softball Challenge 'Pride in the Ballpark' Double Header at ONEOK Field on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013. First game starts at 2:05 pm. Pride Store Volunteer Find Us on Facebook See the Tulsa Drillers play against the NWA Naturals and stay after for the OkEq Tulsa Hit Crew play against the Tulsa Firefighters Calendar Team. 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Seating is available in the Orange Sections (116 - 119) for $15 per ticket and the Terrace Seating for $25 per ticket. Tickets are available at the the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E 4th St, Tulsa) and tickets sold online will be available for Pick Up at the Equality Center and at the OkEq table at ONEOK Field on the day of the event. Tickets will not be mailed. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit the Equality Sports Alliance. Purchase your tickets on the OkEq Website Store Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor The June Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by The Garden Trug. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Tai Chi Class The Garden Trug 3009 E 101st Tulsa, Oklahoma 74137 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens 'Love Free or Die' Screening Tuesday, June 25th, 2013; 6:30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave LOVE FREE OR DIE is about a man whose two defining passions are in direct conflict: his love for God and for his partner Mark. Gene Robinson is the first openly gay person to become a bishop in the historic traditions of Christendom. His consecration in 2003, to which he wore a bullet-proof vest, caused an international stir. The film follows Robinson from small-town churches in the New Hampshire North Country to Washington's Lincoln Memorial to London's Lambeth Palace, as he calls for all to stand for equality - inspiring bishops, priests and ordinary folk to come out from the shadows and change history. For more information, please visit Circle Cinema Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Gamily featured family for June 19th, 2013 This week's featured Gamily Family is Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald. Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rebeka Radcliff & Kim McDonald welcomed their first child, Jordan Everett McRad on February 20th, 2013. Now 4 months old, Jordan's mommies stay busy admiring him and working in social services in the Tulsa area. The couple were married in September 2010 in Montreal, Canada and held their reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. NERDception Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@okeq.org Every other Tuesday JUNE 25th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of June 19th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Tulsa SAGE Outing June 6th, 2013 Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp The Tulsa SAGE met for an outing last Tuesday, June 11th, 2013 The group visited a Native American Retreat, north of Sand Springs on Big Heart Mountain in Osage County. The group had lunch and toured his beautiful home complete with hand carved totem pole and his 2 acre Chinese garden. Tulsa SAGE meets every Tuesday at 10:00 am at the Equality Center. Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... individuals. -- -~ = ~ a, = Rainbow Writers Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. Every other Wednesday JUNE 19th 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Open A.A. Group Every Wednedsay, 12:00 pm ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will host an open A.A. group every Wednesday at 12:00 pm. For more information, please call 918.743.2754 Counseling Services Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JUNE 19th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Governor signs School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org HB 1661 "School Safety & Bullying Prevention Act" was recently signed by Governor Fallin. HB 1661 requires annual training for administrators and staff as developed by the State Department of Educator for preventing, identifying, responding to and reporting incidents of bullying. OkEq would like to send Thanks to Nancy McDonald and PFLAG chapters all over the state, the Children's Consortium, the Tulsa Stop Bullying Coalition, The Equality Network and Cimarron Alliance. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org ---- - HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: June 20th, 2013 - Elote Cafe Donating 10% of meal check from 4:00 pm - Close 50/50 raffles at area bars: June 21st, 2013 - Yellow Brick Road Pub, 2630 E 15th St June 22th, 2013 - Bamboo Lounge, 77204 E Pine June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 10 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application ---and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Equality Center Pride Store Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything From Heartthrob to Heartbreak' by Marny Hall, Ph.D. You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In The Lesbian Love Companion, Marny Hall, Ph.D., a psychotherapist with twenty years' experience counseling lesbian couples, explores and celebrates lesbian relationships in all their complexity - and humor. Based on the idea that the key to healthy relationships lies in our ability to keep refining the story of our relationships, it presents the perfect blend of advice and inspiration for every lesbian looking for love. Interspersing real-life examples from Hall's practice, sound advice, and laugh-out-loud observations, The Lesbian Love Companion takes a completely fresh and honest approach to the unique relationship issues near and dear to every lesbian's heart. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:01 AM �OkEq eNews June 19th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-19th--2013.ht... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:01 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/eb7e8cafd4ec27a8869b0a933765030b.pdf 9f116e06eee8da215a8217ec353765d4 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews June 26th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Decision Day Equality Business Alliance PFLAG Billboards Welcome to the eNews. Join us for a Supreme Court Decision Day Rally tonight at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Pride Month Display Tulsa Pride Feedback Guys Dine Too First Thursday Moving OnSupport - Group Ice Cream Social Singles Night OUT Sue Ellen Welch (918) 810-8156 EBA Sponsor Rainbow Writers PFLAG Conference HIV Wellness Retreat SWelch@)McGrawOk.com LGBT Smoking Survey - www.SueWelch.com Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Decision Day Rally Wednesday, June 26th, 2013; 6:00 pm Find Us on Facebook Join us for the Decision Day Rally as we gather as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. We will gather at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 6:00 pm and hear from our legal experts and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Marriage Equality Lawsuit to find out how the ruling will impact Oklahoma. We have plenty of champagne chilled for a big gay toast and a fabulous wedding cake OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 PFLAG of Tulsa Billboards V OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members PFLAG of Tulsa billboards will be up all over town this month. Look for them at the following locations: 4140 S Peoria 5200 S Mingo 3612 S Sheridan 399 S 129th E Ave 8515 E I-44 (.5 Miles E of Memorial) 2510 E BA Expressway (West Side) 2002 E I-244 (South Side 100 ft East of Xanthus) Spectrum Knits Pride Month Display All month long at Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown 400 Civic Center Tulsa, OK 74103 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Coordinated by Nancy McDonald of the Tulsa Chapter of PFLAG, a LGBT Pride Month Display will be available for viewing during the month of June on the 2nd Floor of the Tulsa City-County Central Library Downtown. to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well Tulsa Pride Community Feedback Public Feedback Meeting Thursday, June 27th, 2013; 7:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center THANK YOU TULSA! The OkEq Tulsa Pride Committee would like to thank all who attended Tulsa Pride 2013 Celebrations. Please complete this short survey by clicking on the link below and help us plan for Tulsa Pride 2014. Please remember that the Community Feedback meeting is at the Equality Center on Thursday, June 27th at 7:30 pm. All are welcome to attend and share innovative ideas for Tulsa Pride 2014. 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Tulsa Pride 2013 Survey Guys Dine Too Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013; 6:30 pm The July meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Johnny Carino's on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013 around 6:30 pm. Johnny Carino's is located at 6364 E 41st St (On 41st and Sheirdan) Johnny Carino's Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Holiday. Moving On... I Did It All for Love 8 week program begins Sunday, July 7th, 2013, 2:00 pm Dr. Kurt T. Choate will be leading a support group for persons newly-separated or divorced confronting the emotional aspects of the ending of a relationship. This 8 week program is designed to help those who have recently separated from a spouse come to terms with their loss. By attending this relationship recovery support group individuals can start to take charge of their lives again. Instead of identifying as part of a couple, participants will develop skills to help them think of themselves as being a single person again. Dr Kurt is licensed professional counselor and assistant professor of counseling and psychology at Northeastern State University and a native of Oklahoma with his PhD from OSU. Beginning July 7th through August 25th, on Sundays from 2:00 pm to 3:30 pm meeting at the Equality Center. Program fee is $50 for the 8 weeks. Interested participants will need to contact Dr Kurt for a pre-screening interview. Contact: DrKurt@okeq.org 918.449.6574 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Serv,ces and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org for more information. Flying Solo - Singles Night OUT 2nd and 4th Fridays; 7:00 - 8:30 pm Dennis R Neill Equality Center OkEq is hosting a new singles group for the LGBT community looking to meet new people and try new experiences. Meets on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of every month. Hosted by JIMMIE NEUTRON. Event will be ages 21 and over. Next meet is Friday, June 28th, 2013. The eNews for the week of June 26th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information PFLAG Regional Conference Saturday, June 29th, 2013; 8:30 am - 4:30 pm Anne & Henry Zarrow School of Social Work, University of Oklahoma 700 Elm Ave Norman, OK 73069 PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), Norman is hosting a day of learning and training for anyone who wants to know more about lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) issues. On Saturday, June 29th, 2013, an all-day regional conference will feature a keynote address by Brittany Novotny, an attorney who ran for the Oklahoma State House in 2010 and was the first known transgender candidate in an Oklahoma election. Ms. Novotny's keynote address will be followed by breakout sessions on a wide range of topics, an address by Toby Jenkins, Executive Director for Oklahomans for Equality during the lunch break, and an author's panel at the end of the day of learning. The conference will be held on the University of Oklahoma Campus in Norman at the Anne and Henry Zarrow School of Social Work. Sign in is at 8:30 am and the conference concludes at 4:30 pm. Conference fee is $25 per person or $15 for students. This includes a light breakfast, lunch and materials. Pre-register at www.plfagnorman.org. For more information NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... call 405.360.4497 or email help@pflagnorman.org - ---- HIV Wellness Retreat July 19th - 21st, 2013 Upcoming fundraisers for the HIV Wellness Retreat: through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members June 27th, 2013 - Club Majestic, 124 N Boston LGBT Smoking Research Survey Take part in a first-time opportunity for LGBT people in Oklahoma. Angela Sivadon, a PhD nursing student at the University of Missouri - Kansas City and a member of the Oklahoma LGBT community is conducting an online research study. The purpose of this research study is to better understand how our social environment contributes to smoking among lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. The information gathered will be used to create healthier social gathering places, design LGBT quit smoking programs and improve the overall health of the community. If you are between the ages of 18-30 and identify as LGBT, please help us learn more about the needs of our LGBT community by completing this survey. After completing the survey you can register for a drawing to win a $100 Amazon gift card. Take part in the survey here ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �Rainbow Writers Lambda Al-Anon 4/23/26, 11:02 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... individuals. Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $20.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend 'Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution' by Shiri Eisner Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Depicted as duplicitous, traitorous, and promiscuous, bisexuality has long been suspected, marginalized, and rejected by both straight and gay communities alike. Bi takes a long overdue, comprehensive look at bisexual politics-from the issues surrounding biphobia/monosexism, feminism, and transgenderism to the practice of labeling those who identify as bi as either "too bisexual" (promiscuous and incapable of fidelity) or "not bisexual enough" (not actively engaging romantically or sexually with people of at least two different genders). In this forward-thinking and eye-opening book, feminist bisexual and genderqueer activist Shiri Eisner takes readers on a journey through the many aspects of the meanings and politics of bisexuality, specifically highlighting how bisexuality can open up new and exciting ways of challenging social convention. Informed by feminist, transgender, and queer theory, as well as politics and activism, Bi is a radical manifesto for a group that has been too frequently silenced, erased, and denied-and a starting point from which to Counseling Services You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Pink Style Also Available Equality Center Pride Store made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 7 of 11 11!1!!!11t1 �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... launch a bisexual revolution. Saturdays By appointment Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library ~ olu r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ---- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org ---- 4/23/26, 11:02 AM �OkEq eNews June 26th, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-June-26th--2013.ht... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:02 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/58abebd7e6a56d706bfe40b15abd1699.pdf 207f998c5f88bb4e4dd601694c19e0b6 PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 1 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 3rd, 2013 In This Issue • EBA Sponsor Programming Note First Thursday July Legal Clinic Welcome to the eNews. The regular First Thursday Art Show will be on Friday, July 5th at 6 pm. The Tulsa Metro Softball League is holding the 2nd Annual Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament on July 5th - 7th at the Carl Smith Softball Complex. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Gamily Rainbow Writers Cooling Station EBA Sponsor Decision Day Rally Board of Directors Tulsa Crude Classic Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or on line at www.hipandkneedoc.com Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Find Us on Facebook Programming Note All regular programs at the Equality Center will not be held on Thursday, July 4th, 2013. The Center will be open at 12 pm. Happy Fourth of July! OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 2 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor -- ------.. ~ "First Thursday" Art Show Reception Friday, July 5th, 2013; 6:00 - 9:00 pm The July OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature the works of Thomas Tabor in a show, beginning with a reception on FRIDAY, July 5th from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. The usual "First Thursday" Opening Show is being postponed to Friday because of the Independence Day Holiday. July Legal Clinic Tuesday, July 9th, 2013; 6:00 pm ABA Young Lawyers Division Project Salute: Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Young Lawyers Serving Veterans Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Oklahomans for Equality will present a legal clinic at the Equality Center on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm. The topic will be Veteran's benefits. Angela Mauch, Esq., will be the guest speaker for the clinic. Fighting for increased federal benefits? Applying for federal benefits? Entitled to federal benefits? Free legal presentation and consultations about your benefits will be held Please bring your DD Form 214, recent VA ratings decisions, and other documents that will help us understand and evaluate your federal veteran benefit matter. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 3 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly EBA Business Meeting will be on Tuesday, July 9th, 2013 at 6:00 pm at the Equality Center. This meeting is open to members and non-members, however you must be a paid member to speak or vote on agenda items. This is your chance to steer the organization so all members are encouraged to attend. If you have an item you want on the agenda, please have it send to eba@okeq.org by Monday July 7th. The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Greendog Spa & Resort. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and non-members alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Greendog Spa & Resort 3801 South Harvard Avenue, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74135 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 3rd This week's featured Gamily Family is Sam Harris & Danny Jacobsen and their son, Cooper Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 4 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan Sam and Danny have been together for 18 years. They married in California in 2008, which was the same year they adopted their son, Cooper Atticus Harris-Jacobsen. Sam will be releasing a new book called "HAM: Slices of a Life" in January of 2014 from publisher Gallery/Simon & Schuster. He will be playing Tulsa at the beginning of February in a show of the same title, which will feature stories from the book and songs from his life and career. More information can be found at samhambook.com sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders Youth Program Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 3rd, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 5 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. The eNews for the week of July 3rd, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception OkEq celebrates Supreme Court Rulings on DOMA and Prop 8 Wednesday, June 26th, 2013 On Wednesday, June 26th, 2013, over 400 celebrants gathered at a Decision Day Rally as a community to celebrate the Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Proposition 8 making same sex marriage legal in California once again. The group heard from attorney and OkEq Board Member Mike Redman and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma Marriage Equality Lawsuit. There was a champagne toast and a fabulous wedding cake from Merritt's Bakery. Every other Tuesday JULY 9th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 6 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �individuals. Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services 4/23/26, 11:03 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 7 of 11 1111!!!!1t1 �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 8 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament July 5th - 7th, 2013 Carl Smith Softball Complex 17120 E. 21st Street Tulsa, OK 74134 Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno July 5-7, 2013 - Tulsa, Oklahoma Visit TulsaCrudeClassic.com for more information and a full schedule of the weekend's events! Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 9 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Front Runner' by Patricia Nell Warren You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center First published in 1974, The Front Runner raced to international acclaim the first novel about gay love to become popular with mainstream. In 1975, coach Harlan Brown is hiding from his past at an obscure New York college, after he was fired from Penn State University on suspicion of being gay. A tough, lonely ex-Marine of 39, Harlan has never allowed himself to love another man. EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. PATRICIA ELL the F r o - ' i a l l'611 Runner A NOVEL Then Billy Sive, a brilliant young runner, shows up on his doorstep. He and his two comrades, Vince Matti and Jacques GAY LOVE LaFont, were just thrown off a major team for admitting they are gay. Harlan knows that, with proper training, Billy could go to the '76 Olympics in Montreal. He agrees to coach the three boys under strict conditions that thwart Billy's growing attraction for his mature but compelling mentor. The lean, graceful frontrunner with gold-rim glasses sees directly into Harlan's heart. Billy's gentle and open acceptance of his sexuality makes Harlan afraid to confront either the pain of his past, or the challenges which lay in wait if their intimacy is exposed. But when Coach Brown finds himself falling in love with his most gifted athlete, he must combat his true feelings for Billy or risk the outrage of the entire sports world - and their only chance at Olympic gold. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 10 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org 4/23/26, 11:03 AM �OkEq eNews July 3rd, 2013 11 of 11 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-3rd--2013.html... r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:03 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/6efa9a1051e4418450b1217353c879db.pdf bd1b79e4a3d2ad790febd2610e75d29b PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 1 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 11th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Be Our Voice, Give a Day SAGE Tulsa Ice Cream Social Welcome to the eNews. SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. Read on for all the details. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Gamily Back to School Carnival Equality Business Alliance EBA Sponsor Board of Directors Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Imperial Court of All OK Pride Store Rainbow Library Be Our Voice, Give a Day As part of OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign, Friday July 12th, 2013, Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are sponsored by Volunteer Find Us on Facebook OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 2 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor George McCauslan and Rusty Clyma George and Rusty will celebrate their 16th wedding anniversary on Friday, July 12th, 2013 Click here to commemorate your special day with OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign ----- SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Tuesday, July 16th, 2013; 10:30 am SAGE Tulsa will have a pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013 at 10:30 am. Members can meet up at the Equality Center at 10:00 am and carpool to the pool party. Hamburgers, hot dogs and salads will be provided. The pool has a shallow end and also has railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email Lucas.Green@okeq.org to RSVP. -- sage · Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Services and Advocacy for Gay, lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders ~ poo/party The mission of SAGE Tulsa is to address issues related to lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender aging. In partnership with its constituents and Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 3 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... allies, SAGE Tulsa works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. Gamily featured family for the week of July 11th This week's featured Gamily Family is Brooke Calhoun, Dacie Reutlinger and their daughter Mylee Calhoun Brooke and Dacie have been together since March 13, 2010. Dacie works at Cintas, while Brooke works at Custom Dental. They will have their wedding on July 13th, 2013 and will then honeymoon in Cabo. The couple are residents of Broken Arrow with their daughter, Mylee. Mylee just turned 4 on July 9th and will start pre K this year. Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 4 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 5 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 The eNews for the week of July 11th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 6 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more information Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu -----918.595.7647 Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 7 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= Rainbow Writers The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Counseling Services The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 8 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 9 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... 'Be Who You Are' by Jennifer Carr You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Nick is a young child assigned a male gender at birth who sees himself as a girl. His parents tell him they love him anyway he feels. At school he wants to play with the girls, and creates a self-portrait that shows him as a girl. When he tells his parents that the teacher didn't understand, his parents made a point to go to his school and explain. They also work with a gender counselor to help their whole family deal with Nick's need to be a girl. Be Who You Are exemplifies how a family and a school should work with a transgender - or potentially transgender - child. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. 4/23/26, 11:04 AM �OkEq eNews July 11th, 2013 10 of 10 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-11th--2013.htm... MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org ----- Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org - - --- Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org - - - --- r---------------------------------------------------, I I I I I I Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org -- I I I I I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:04 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/1e26f48b81665d238d6563022fdda25a.pdf 3afee06018604d2e033aa8b60ee168cf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 1 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 17th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Equality Business Alliance Ice Cream Social Back to School Carnival Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have an Ice Cream Social on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 4:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Counseling Services Board of Directors First Thursday Art SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too EBA Sponsor Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Fever Dream Rainbow Writers Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic Equality Business Alliance Upcoming Events DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Imperial Court of All OK Join the Equality Business Alliance EBA Business Directory EBA on Facebook The July Monthly Mixer Meeting will be on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013 at 6:00 pm, hosted by Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney. Please RSVP to eba@okeq.org and send an invite to everyone on your friends list. Walk ins are welcome. This event is open to members and nonmembers alike. Bring plenty of business cards and be prepared to give a 2 minute commercial about your business. Pride Store Rainbow Library Volunteer Find Us on Facebook Morgan Stanley - Smith-Barney 2200 S Utica Place Suite 300, Tulsa OK 74114 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social Sunday, July 21st, 2013; 4:00 pm 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 2 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Kids scream, parents scream, we all scream for ice cream! Come out meet other LGBT families, have fun, and eat ICE CREAM! This is also an opportunity to give your ideas for future activities, events, meetings, etc. Join us on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 at 4:00 pm. For more information or to RSVP, Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, July 18th, 7:00 pm Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 3 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Spectrum Knits 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Nominations to the Board of Directors are made in one of two ways: 1. Recommended by the Board Development and Governance Committee (Applications due to OkEq by July 21st) OR 2. By petition of at least 15 current OkEq members (Due to the OkEq Secretary by September 11th) At this time the Board Development and Governance Committee (BDG) is accepting applications for possible BDG nominations of those members interested in serving the OkEq community as a Director. Seven directors will be elected. Please contact Lucas.Green@okeq.org for an application and to interview with the Board of Development and Governance Committee if you desire to be nominated by the Board of Development and Governance Committee. Requirements and Expectations of a Director: 1. Be a current OkEq Member 2. Attend Board Meetings on the third Thursday of each month 3. Contribute talent, time, energy toward supporting the mission of OkEq 4. Work additional assignments as required (Assignments are usually made pursuant to the particular knowledge, skills and abilities of a Director) 5. Serve a two year term Grieving Well 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden and Andre Chenault in a show beginning with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 4 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... SAGE Tulsa Pool Party SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sage~ Services and Advocacy OkEq members Roger and Edward hosted a SAGE Tulsa pool party on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013. The SAGE Tulsa members enjoyed hamburgers, hot dogs and salad for lunch. Then relaxed in the saltwater pool which featured a shallow end and also railing with steps ensuring everyone could enjoy the pool. OkEq volunteer, Bryan Delgadillo offered his lifeguard skills to keep everyone safe during the party. SAGE Tulsa meets every Tuesday morning at 10:30 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information about SAGE Tulsa, email SAGE@OkEq.org. for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Youth Program Diversity & Dignity Group Ages 12 to 17 LGBTQ youth. Educational and Activity peer group Facilitator Aidan Steiner Email asteiner@yst.org or call 405.568.9306 for more information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 5 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) "Twisters Theater" Sunday, June 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 918.592.0088 NERDception Every other Tuesday JULY 23rd 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com The eNews for the week of July 17th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 6 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Open AA Group Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the anewpl•J Equality Center, Emily NEED HANDS Hedgecock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever by E.A. TINE STD~ Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this TELLK at the modernist take on life and death, llt eq~~I~ LIYI 1111 c:ent...Wilson meets a variety of characters from the hyperactive 6:21 l:4th f:'.WANf•'m Tlf auvu•t 2 ..3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living •~ : 7 pm GOIN&llt HAPPENS ..... § n at door embodiment of a dictionary), led throughout it all by her $5 with guide -.. SHIUII GUY t,tud•l'llt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT a udl_conty : . advisory is suggested. mn Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. .~ - - - - ~- - TAlKIN&PLAY frrrWEBSTERTHINK lM""'AUTHOR-~'"'"" JE~siiAU DIEN OE ~1Lo.0Ksf RIGHT EVE nllw!mf Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. H INNIr1··~· em • RE AM 1~1 ATD SON"" IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rntAKHM Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday; 7:00 pm Next meeting is on Wednesday JULY 17th, 2013 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org for more ----information 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 7 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. -= - Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu --------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers Every other Wednesday JULY 3rd 7:00 pm A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 8 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry council oak mms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. ■ Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that povvered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrrEcC Game Night Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 9 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... rental sheet Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm.. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show ~l-Jwl~l~HJ Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A11}1 NI .. oo f .)~[)01--1 ~mo.. ~o j JJJ.}t,J_)g I-.) (\IU I-Ul1\\ 1)..,1,\1.J .~111,IJA llJJol LJ ,JUU oJ. ' ., ~- ► :'" __ · ' - ~ > \._:_:_~ - -,_:-' u ~~-J., ,. ·1• ,,,_ .' C-"i! ~ _.....;;., HllV 1nr ~ ·Avmm1_vs - ,J Qf..)t.~ _i:r ~:,,~ IfkJ~UU J \~Yl '- l 11 l!J~I 1"-.IJ • .__,1I I llll! I, l II,· ,\\,ill"- I) The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle 10 of 12 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 11 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'A Scarecrow's Bible' by Martin Hyatt You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In a house trailer in rural Mississippi, 4/23/26, 11:05 AM �OkEq eNews July 17th, 2013 12 of 12 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-17th--2013.htm... Gary, a married Vietnam veteran, addicted to drugs, haunted by memories of the past, is on the brink of collapse. Just when he thinks the dream of another life is over, the unspeakable happens. He falls in love with a frail, ghostly younger man who reminds him of youth, beauty, and the possibility of a life beyond the prison he has created for himself. A Scarecrow's Bible is about what happens when love occurs at the most unexpected moment. It is the story of how working-class men and women in a small town adapt to changes that somehow seem impossible. It is a novel of hope and transformation that challenges our ideas about diversity and social change, breaking your heart all the way. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa , your local action center! Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I ~---------------------------------------------------~ 4/23/26, 11:05 AM � https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f02ed64efabefce2c37bf58088fc086f.pdf 734341eb2457f5433fecada4c157ebdf PDF Text Text OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 1 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... SHARE: Join Our Email List eNews July 24th, 2013 In This Issue EBA Sponsor Back to School Carnival Counseling Services First Thursday Art Welcome to the eNews. Gamily will have a Back to School Carnival on Sunday, August 4th, 2013 2:00 pm. Email Gamily@OkEq.org to RSVP or for more information. eNews Staff Oklahomans for Equality The eNews for the week of July 24th, 2013 is brought to you by EBA Member Business: Twisters Theater Guys Dine Too Arin and Katie Fever Dream Gamily Family Ice Cream Social Fall Ball 2013 Hips-Knees-Shoulders FooUAnkle-Sports Medicine Team doctor for Tulsa Threat and Tulsa Crew. Mention this ad for priority scheduling by calling 918-514-3009 or online at www.hipandkneedoc.com 6585 S. Yale, Suite 200, Tulsa OK Intro to LGBTQ Lit Cooling Station Council Oak Mens Chorale Mosaic DIVAS Drag Queen Bingo Gamily Back to School Carnival Sunday, August 4th, 2013; 2:00 - 6:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Imperial Court of All OK Board of Directors Pride Store Rainbow Library Hurry, hurry, hurry! Step right up and join the fun. There will be food, games, characters, activities and prizes. Bring the family and have some fun before school starts. For more info email Gamily@okeq.org. Please RSVP with parents' names and students' names, ages & grades by Sunday July 28th, Volunteer Find Us on Facebook 2013. Gamily is taking donations for the back to school carnival. Here is a list of the basic school supplies needed by students: • Folders • Pens • Pencils • Spiral notebooks • Box of crayons 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 2 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... • Washable markers • Erasers • Kleenex tissues • 3 ring binders (1/2 in, 1 in, or 2 in) • Wide ruled notebook paper OkEq Board and Advisors Meeting Thursday, August 15th, 7:00 pm New Counseling Services Monday evenings by appointment John Serrot, LCSW is joining OkEq's counseling services and will see people on Mondays by appointment. Fees are on a sliding scale based on income. Appointments are required. Contact John by phone at 918.724.3388 or email him at therapyjohn@OkEq.org John is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 40 years of varied social service experience in settings including medical, psychiatric, advocacy, aging, family planning and disabilities. John appreciates the diversity in the human condition and works with his clients to help maximize inherent skills and strengths in order to overcome barriers and accomplish the goals his clients have set for themselves. John specializes in working with adults in the areas of self esteem, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, communication/relationships, gender identification, aging and disabilities. OkEq Art Exhibit The July exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will feature the work of Thomas Tabor First Thursday Art Gallery Reception Thursday, August 1st, 2013; 6:00 pm The August OkEq showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, will feature "POSING" Vintage Beefcake and Homoerotic Photos from the private collection of Kevin Roden. Co-curated by Kevin and Andre Chenault, the show begins with a reception on Thursday, August 1st, 2013 from 6:00 - 9:00 pm and continuing throughout the month. A commemorative poster for the art show will be available for $20 Tai Chi Class Sundays 4:00 pm Tai Chi is an ancient Chinese martial art that promotes strong mind, body and spirit through the cultivation of the proper movement of your qi throughout your body. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Spectrum Knits 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 3 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... 1st and 3rd Mondays 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm Bringing knitters from across the spectrum together. Beginners to advanced come together to knit and get to know each other. Instructions for beginners. Facilitated by Sara Fitzgerald. Grieving Well "Twisters Theater" Sunday, July 28th, 2013; 5:00 & 7:00 pm New Age Renegade 1649 S Main St The Tulsa Twisters softball team will be performing a "Twisters Theater" version of A League of Their Own on Sunday July 28th, 2013. Performances will be at New Age Renegade and showtimes will be at 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm. At the end of the last show, there will be a raffle with a wine basket prize. Raffle tickets will be sold at the show. The Twisters are raising money for their trip to Washington D.C. in August 2013 to play in NAGAAA World Series. For more information on the Tulsa Twisters or the Tulsa Metro Softball League, please visit www.tulsametrosoftball.com. Guys Dine Too Tuesday, August 6th, 2013; 6:30 pm The August meeting of Guys Dine Too will be at Mexicali Border Cafe on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013 at around 6:30 pm. Mexicali Border Cafe is located at 14 West Brady 2nd and 4th Mondays 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm Bereavement Support Program for LGBT individuals who have lost a partner or loved one to death. Facilitated by Steve Moeller with Floral Haven Memorial Gardens Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Mondays 7:00 - 8:00 pm. ComingOut@OkEq.org Facilitated by Ashley Bedford & James Prather Guys Dine Too is a social program for Gay Men, and their male Allies/ friends, and meets at a different restaurant every month. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 4 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Please RSVP to Richard Haley at gaydine2@yahoo.com if you plan on attending. National and International publications feature local Oklahoma transgender youth Arin Andrews and Katie Hill Oklahomans for Equality would like to applaud the courage of Arin Andrews and Katie Hill, who have shared their stories in the press and have raised the visibility of transgender youth. Their story has been featured in both national and international stories. To read more, see their story on the Huffington Post and in London's Sun Magazine. Fever Dream Performances on Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 SAGE (Service & Advocacy For Gay Elders) Every Tuesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm "drop in throughout the day" SAGE@OkEq.org Facilitated by John Madigan sagew Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Tramgender Elders Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) 1st Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21 and over. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Visit the website for more information. stevendubois@cox.net 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 5 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Friday and Saturday, August 2nd and 3rd, 2013 at 7:00 pm at the an•wpl•J Equality Center, Emily N EED HANDS H•dgacock Hedgecock's full-length play, Fever lM TIME STD~ by E.A.. Dream, features Wilson and Kinnier in a thoughtful, emotional, and surprisingly funny philosophical journey through an iliLOOKSf absurdist work by a character known only as "The Author". In this th JELLK ERL al • modernist take on life and death, 11, DIEi" eq~~I~ lll'I 1111 c:ent..Wilson meets a variety of 1 11 4th characters from the hyperactive 82 f:'.WANf•';; Tlf aup•t 2-3 Hat Guy to drab and pedantic Merriam Webster (the living embodiment of a dictionary), led HAPPENSII throughout it all by her H w ith guide -... SHIUIS GUY , tud• nt ID magnanimous Kinnier. Certain characters use Ad .. adult language and a parental EANLIGHT audlenc: . advisory is suggested. nm o n~ Performances are open to the public and tickets are $7, $5 with student ID. Proceeds will go to NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness. ,,;;-- -- 918.592.0088 ~-- TALKIN&PLIY tWEBSTERTHINK ""'AUTHOR""'"~'"""' ii~JAUDIENOE mf RIGHT EVE nl\q fi I N N I eiii • H RE AM it1 ATD 1.!~·sON§" n.::. GOIN&,., I: IMERRIAMDKAY JTMSYMRJOMSeEET I!,rnl!AKESM Gamily featured family for the week of July 24th This week's featured Gamily Family is Sean Conner and his son Jacob and Sean's partner Jared Alexander. NERDception Every other Tuesday AUGUST 6th 7:00 pm Do you prefer Marvel or DC comics? Are you a Trekkie or a Star Wars fan? If you love all things nerd, come down to the Equality Center where we will have bi-weekly discussions about different topics. Whatever your niche, you are welcome to come and discuss it. For more information email: jonniemwright@gmail.com Self Defense Class Tuesdays 8:00 pm The class is designed to teach self defense, strengthen the body, and cultivate good character through the study of "wu de" of martial ethics. Facilitated by Wade Blevins Free for Members $5 for Non Members Jacob is 8 years old and will be 9 next month. Jared has been in Sean and Jacob's lives since Jacob was 3. The family likes to camp, swim, go to the lake and just be with their friends. They love baseball games and going to local festivals. Every other Saturday they spend time with their longtime ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS Open AA Group 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �Wednesdays 12:00 pm This open AA group meets at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center every Wednesday at Noon. Contact 918.743.2754 for more info. Boot Camp Wednesdays & Thursdays 6:30 - 7:30 pm Join for an intense workout and get in shape. This is not your average aerobics class. Free for Members $5 for Non Members Instructor Brad Sullivan. Gender Outreach 4/23/26, 11:06 AM https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... friends who also have 2 boys and they all cook and play games. It's something the family looks forward. Jacob plays football for Jenks and is a phenomenal soccer player. Jacob has another brother that is 2 that he shares his time with when at his mom's. Sean says, "Each day with him, I learn a little more what the meaning of life is really about". Gamily (Gay-Family) is an official program of Oklahomans for Equality and is a support network for LGBT parents and families in Oklahoma. For more information about Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Gamily Ice Cream Social The Gamily group met on Sunday, July 21st, 2013 for the 1st Annual Ice Cream Social. The parents and kids had a scream with ice cream and games. New families came by and were able to meet other families in the LGBT community. For more information on Gamily contact Coordinator Samantha Checotah at Gamily@OkEq.org Wednesdays 7:30 pm (First time interview required before attending) Email Gender Outreach The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Every other Wednesday JULY 31st 7:00 pm Rainbow Writers rn OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 6 of 14 la -- �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 7 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... A creative writers group where authors of all genres and styles are welcome to attend and receive politely honest, enthusiastic and constructive feedback. Please email rainbowwriters@OkEq.org ---to attend Lambda Al-Anon Group Every Friday; 7:00 pm Counseling Services Saturdays By appointment Individual, youth, adolescent and couples counseling is available on Saturdays on a sliding scale fee based on income. Appointments are required. Contact Dr. Kurt Choate LPC at 918.449.6574 DrKurt@OkEq.org Tulsa Metro Softball League Fall Ball Registration 2013 Fall Ball 2013 Registration Now Open! Game Night 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 8 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Teams will be selected at random from a "hat" at the Fall Draft Event; all players must register and pay dues online to be eligible to play. No cash or checks will be accepted at any time. Click here to get more information on the Fall Ball 2013 Draft Party and to sign up. Fall Ball Player Dues are $40 per player. Game Dates & Times: TBD, but will be Sunday afternoons from 1:00 - 4:00 pm beginning in mid-September and ending late October. Games will play at Carl Smith Softball Complex located at 17120 E. 21st Street in Tulsa. www.tulsametrosoftball.com Saturdays 7:00 - 9:00 pm Join old friends and make new friends as you play some great board and card games at the Center! All are welcome! Facilitated by Saturday Volunteers Richard Haley and Teresa Reno Intro to LGBTQ Literature Tulsa Community College Fall 2013 Schedule Are your literary tastes a little more colorful than some? Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Room Rentals Maybe you need a taste of LGBTQ Literature! Introduction to LGBTQ Literature Coming to TCC for Fall 2013 ENGL 2993, Section 390, CRN 17124 The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center has many spaces for your next meeting or event. To check dates, reserve your next event or to receive pricing information, contact EventCenter@OkEq.org Stop by for a quick view of the Event Center and pick up a space rental sheet Online, 16 week course taught by Dr. Allen Culpeper Tentative reading list: Maurice by E. M. Forster, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jenette Winterson, Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin, Eighty-Sixed by David Feinberg, Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchhill, The Laramie Project by Moises Kaufman, Pages for You by Sylvia Brownrigg, Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems edited by J.D. McClatchy For more information contact: allen.culpepper@tulsacc.edu ------918.595.7647 Cooling Station The Equality Center will act as a cooling station for Tulsa citizens EBA Directory The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. When the National Weather Service issues Extreme Heat Warnings, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center will act as an official cooling 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 9 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... station for the City of Tulsa. If you know someone who does not have adequate airconditioning, please encourage them to utilize the Equality Center. Pets crated or on leashes are also welcome. If you would like to assist the Equality Center as we serve the citizens of Tulsa you may make donations of bottled water or financial gifts to cover expenses associated with hosting our neighbors in need. The Cooling Station hours are 12 pm to 9 pm Monday through Saturday and 12 pm to 6 pm on Sunday. Council Oak Mens Chorale Rehearsals Mondays, Beginning August 5th, 2013; 7:00 pm Rehearsals for Council Oak Mens Chorale Winter Season 2013 Performance will begin on Monday, August 5th, 2013 from 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Hall - 2900 S. Harvard Ave. New singers are welcome! Rehearsals will continue on every Monday. The concert will feature holiday seasonal music both traditional and popular, including All Through the Night, Ave Maria(Biebl), God Rest Ye Merry oouncll oak nms chorale Gentlemen, Little Drummer Boy, Holly Jolly Christmas, Jingle Bells and more. council oak Visit www.counciloak.org for additional information Mosaic Diversity Business Awards Survey Mission: Mosaic will educate, lead, and influence businesses on creating diverse and inclusive workforce cultures to enhance their competitive advantage. • Mosaic is launching a survey to identify businesses that powered by the tulsa regional chamber have a commitment to creating inclusive cultures in our region. Their goal is to establish a baseline of area employers, for profit and nonprofit (government, education & foundations), working towards developing diverse and inclusive cultures through multiple approaches. The survey questions are tied to metrics most frequently utilized in diversity and inclusion awards regionally and nationally. We hope to identify ten for profits and ten nonprofits for our region's Top 20 Inclusive Cultures. rrOxC � Link to Mosaic's D&I Survey Workforce Oklahoma Access Point Open Everyday 12 - 9 pm Workforce Oklahoma maintains a resource area at the Equality Center that includes computers, a printer and fax machine, as well as step-by-step instructions on how to register with Oklahoma JobLink. HIV Testing Schedule Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday 4 - 8 pm Wednesday 4 - 8 pm Saturday 4 - 7 pm Testing provided by H.O.P.E. Testing Muscogee-Creek Nation provides testing on Thursdays from 6 - 8 pm Check www.okeq.org for testing dates. MISSION: Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The survey will close at end of business August 9th, 2013. The results of the survey will be shared at Mosaic's inaugural Economic Inclusion Forum October 21st, 2013. 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 10 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... H.O.P.E.'s 15th Anniversary Celebration "DIVAS" Event Friday, August 23rd, 2013; 6:30 pm Doubletree Warren Place 6110 South Yale Ave, Tulsa, OK 75136 H.O.P.E.'s 15th ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION "DIVAS" EVENT Reception 6:30 pm Concert 7:45 pm Toby Jenkins Executive Director Toby.Jenkins@OkEq.org Mary Jones Program Coordinator Mary.Jones@OkEq.org FEATURING: Cindy Cain Pam - Van Dyke Christy Hanewinkel - Tavis Minner Heather Richetto-Rumley - John Sawyer Jeff Cherblanc - Phena Hackett - Mark Gibson Celebrating H.O.P.E.'s 15 years of providing HIV and Hepatitis prevention, education, testing, and linkage to medical care and social services in the Tulsa Community and 25 surrounding counties. Lucas Green Office Manager Lucas.Green@OkEq.org For more information, visit hopetesting.org or click here for ticket purchases and sponsorships. Drag Queen Bingo benefiting Our House Too Saturday, August 24th, 2013; Doors open at 7:00 pm Hyatt Regency Hotel 100 E 2nd St Tulsa, OK 74103 Drag Queen Bingo 2013 August 24th, 2013 Hyatt Regency Hotel 7:30 - 10:00 pm $30 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 11 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Bingo like your mother never played... This annual event and fundraiser for Our House Too will be held August 24th, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. Female impersonators will bring dazzling entertainment and fabulous bingo prizes for this, the eighth year, beginning at 7:30 and ending at 10:00 pm with doors opening at 7:00 pm. A silent auction and a 50/50 raffle will be held and, of course, several rousing games of bingo will be played! Some of your favorite artists will perform glittering numbers to wow the crowd. Tickets for Drag Queen Bingo 2013 are $30 per person and advanced tickets are available online through PayPal. Purchase an indivdual ticket Reserve a Table Reserve a Premium Table Reserve a Runway Table For more information on table packages please contact Our House Too at 918.688.2144 or DQB@ourhousetoo.com Our House Too is a nonprofit organization serving to eliminate the social isolation of people living with HIV/ AIDS in the Tulsa area. In addition to providing monthly activities and holiday celebrations, Our House Too offers food baskets, a toiletry and household pantry and weekly lunches. ourhousetoo.com Imperial Court of All Oklahoma Upcoming Events Annual "Christmas in July" Cookout and Show The Imperial Court of All Oklahoma would like to invite everyone to another community wide event - the Annual "Christmas In July" Cookout and Show. Saturday, July 27th, 2013 @ Tulsa Eagle (No Cover, 21+ Only) Cookout starts @ 7:00 pm (Donations will be accepted) Show starts @ 10:00 pm (Tipping is encouraged) A Benefit for "Our House Too" to help a local family living with HIV/AIDS. Cookout - sponsored by the Green Country Bears Silent Auction - sponsored by T.U.L.S.A. Raffle - sponsored by the Tulsa Sisters 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 12 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Jello Shots / Entertainment - sponsored by the I.C.A.O. For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com or see Joshua at the Tulsa Eagle Please join the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and Prince & Princess Royale Keith and Joanna for the next round of the Holigay pageants with the 'Mr & Miss Hot and Humid 2013 Pageant' Friday, August 2nd, 2013 @ 10:00 pm - TNT's (NO COVER 21+ Only) Partial proceeds will benefit - OkEq's Gamily We will also be holding a 50/50 raffle and collecting schools supplies for OkEq's Gamily 1st Annual Back to School Carnival For more information please contact the I.C.A.O. at impcourtok@gmail.com Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) Annual Meeting & Board of Directors Elections The annual meeting of Oklahomans for Equality shall be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on September 26th, 2013 beginning at 7:00 pm. Presently, seven Board of Director spaces are up for election. Equality Center Pride Store Tulsa Pride 2013 T-Shirts are in stock! $15.00! Get the size you want now before they are gone! 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 13 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Pink Style Also Available Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 'The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood' by Jesse Green You may check out this addition to our comprehensive resource library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Being a parent was not a high priority-or even much of a likelihood--for acclaimed journalist and novelist Jesse Green. Yet when Green, at the age of thirty-seven, fell in love with a man who had recently adopted a baby boy, fatherhood suddenly fell into his lap. Now in this warm, humorous, deeply personal book, Green recounts the unexpected journey he and his partner traveled together on the road to parenthood. 1I11 ·Vl 1vrn1 N·F~\THtR In becoming the father--or rather one of the fathers--of Erez, Green faced challenges familiar to all parents, from J E E GREEN the first bath to the first tooth, along with Author ol O B••uttful a host of dilemmas unique to his situation. As Green discovered, even in blas� New York City, reactions to his unconventional family ranged from the funny to the frightening, the unaccepting to the all-embracing. The Velveteen Father is a moving record of the transformative effects parenthood can have on people who least expect to become parents-- and of how we are repeatedly made anew by the love of children who need us. Check for this selection and more by visiting our library database online Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/23/26, 11:06 AM �OkEq eNews July 24th, 2013 14 of 14 https://myemail.constantcontact.com/OkEq-eNews-July-24th--2013.htm... Volu1 r A proud Partner Organization of Volunteer Tulsa, your local action center! fULSA Click above to volunteer your time with Oklahomans for Equality r---------------------------------------------------, I I okeq Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Hours: Mon - Sat 12:00 pm to 9:00 pm | Sun 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Oklahomans for Equality | 621 E. 4th Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 | 918.743.4297 www.okeq.org I I L---------------------------------------------------J 4/23/26, 11:06 AM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Sub-Series] OKEQ > Publications > OKEQ eNews Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2013] OKEQ eNews Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 20 -December 30, 2013 Description An account of the resource 44 weekly newsletters from Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) for the year of 2013. Subject The topic of the resource Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Newsletters from 2013 $erious $tanley 1st Annual Charity Softball Challenge 1st Annual Gamily Ice Cream Social 2013 2013 Gala 2013 Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service 2014 Pride 2014 Tulsa Pride 2nd Annual Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament 4th Annual LGBT Equality Day 6th Annual Black and White Ball 6th Annual Turn About Show A Donor Insemination Guide A Donor Insemination Guide: Written by and for Lesbian Women A Night in Maverick Country A Scarecrow's Bible A Selective A Time to Kill A Woman Like That AA Aaron Petty AFER Affordable Care Act Al Triggs Alcoholics Anonymous Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) ALL SOULS UNITARIAN CHURCH Allen Culpepper American Foundation for Equal Rights American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) Amy and Isabelle Anderson Cooper Ann Shannon Anne and Harry Zarrow School of Social Work Annemarie Monahan Annual Christmas in July Cookout and Show Anything but Straight Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth Arin Andrews Art Gallery Art Gallery Submissions Artie Smoote As Nature Made Him As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl Ashley Beford Axe Axgil Back to School Carnival Bamboo Lounge Barbara Dickmann Barbara Perry Barry Werth Be Our Voice Give a Day Be Who You Are Becky Kruse Bereavement Support Best Gamily Contest Bethany Christian Church Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution Big Gay Softball Party Big Gay Softball Party at the Guthrie Green Bird of Paradise Black and White Ball Bob Lawrence Booker T. Washington High School Boston Avenue United Methodist Church Brad Sullivan Breck Muller Brittany Novotny Broadway Impact Brooke Calhoun Brothers Houligan Building Bridges Bullying Prevention Conference Caden Neal Wood Camp Fire Camp Fire Green Country Campaign for Southern Equality Carl Smith Softball Complex Carlos A. Bejarano Carlos Bejarano Carolyn Faseler Carolyn Wagner Youth Leadership Award Carter Nicholas Wood Caryl Churchhill Catholic Church Central Library Central Library Pride Month Display Champagne and Chocolate Gala Chandini Sharma Charity Softball Challenge Charity Softball Challenge Pride in the Ballpark Charles Faudree Board Room Charles Johnson Cheril Vendetti Experience Cheryl Quetone Children's Consortium Choregus Productions Chris Bell Christ Church Episcopal Christiana Prado Christmas in July Christmas services Circle Cinema Clean and Sober New Years Eve Party Cloud 9 Club Majestic Club Majestic Tulsa Club Renegade College Hill Presbyterian Church COLORAMA Coming Out Workshop Community Hero Award Computer Boot Camp Congregation B'nai Emunah Cooper Atticus Harris-Jacobsen Corazon Watkins Council Oak Men's Chorale Council Oak Men's Chorale Pride Performance counseling counseling services Craig Rimmerman Crystal Loveland-Davis Cyber Center CyberCenter Dacie Reutlinger Dan Savage Danny Jacobsen DAOK David Bohnett Cyber Center David Bohnett CyberCenter David Feinberg David Leavitt David Watmough Decision Day Rally Defense of Marriage Act Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) Denise Polonchak Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians Different Rainbows Dining Out for Life Dinner for Friends Divas 4 HOPE Diversity and Dignity Group Diversity Christian Fellowship International Djuna Barnes DOMA don holladay Donna Summer Whitney Houston Tribute Dorothy Davenport Double Header Pride in the Ballpark Doyle Wilson Dr. Kurt Choate Dr. Kurt T. Choate Drag Queen Bingo DREAM ACT DREAM ACT Oklahoma DREAM ACT Oklahoma (DAOK) Dustin Lance Black E. M. Forster East Village East Village District East Village District Meeting Eastside Christian Church Eating Out for Equality EBA EBA Monthly Meeting Edward Albee Eighty-Sixed Elio Di Rupo Elizabeth Strout Emily Hedgecock Emma Donoghue End of Life Arrangements Presentation Endangered Species eNews Enid Pride Enid Pride 2013 Episcopal Church Episcopal Church of The Redeemer Equality Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Equality Center Equality Center Event Center Equality Center LGBT Hotline Equality Center Pride Store Equality Center room rentals Equality Gala Equality Gala 2013 Eric Himan Eric Jett Ethan Hopper Eureka Springs Evan Wolfson Event Center Expatriate Fairy Tree Faith Doubt and Other Lines I've Crossed Falalala Ball Falalala Ball 2013 Fall Diversity Weekend Family and Children's Services Family Safety Center Feast of St. Francis Fellowship Congregational Church Fellowship Congregational Church UCC Fellowship Congregational UCC Fellowship Congregatitonal Church Fellowship Lutheran Church Fellowship Lutheran Church ELCA Fever Dream First Thursday First Thursday Art Exhibit First Thursday Art Reception Floral Haven Flying Solo Flying Solo Singles Night OUT For the Bible Tells Me So G.J. Paterson Gad Beck game night GAMILY Gamily Back to School Carnival Gamily Featured Family Gamily Ice Cream Social GardenTrug Gay marriage Gay Rights Military Wrongs Gay Rights Military Wrongs: Political Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in the Military Gay Softball Gay Softball World Series Gay Straight Alliance Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) Gender Outreach Gender Outreach Support Group George Kaiser Family Foundation George McCauslan George Takei Giovanni's Room Girl Scouts Girl Scouts of Eastern Oklahoma Girlfriends Going Back to School Carnival Governor Fallin Governor Mary Fallin Grand Marshal Green Country Bears Green Country Bears Spring Fling Grieving Well GSA Guthrie Green Guys Dine Too Gwen Araujo Havah Gordon HB 1661 Health Outreach Prevention and Education (H.O.P.E.) Heather Has Two Mommies Helen Boyd Herland Herland Retreat Hiking in the Ozarks HIV testing HIV Wellness Retreat Homebuyer Education Class Homebuyer Education Workshop HOPE HOPE 15 year anniversary Hope Peace Joy HOPE Testing Hope Unitarian Church hotline ICAO ICAO Coronation ICAO Coronation VI Imperial Court of all Oklahoma Imperial Court of All Oklahoma (ICAO) In the Name of Hate inclement weather policy Intro to LGBTQ Literature Is It a Date or Just Coffee?: The Gay Girl's Guide to Dating Sex and Romance J.D. McClatchy Jacob Conner James Baldwin James Prather Jane Mudgett Jared Alexander Jason Wu Jay Bakker Jay Krottinger Jenette Winterson Jennifer Carr Jennifer Davenport Jesse Green Jimmy Jordan Joan Biren John Calvin Presbyterian Church John Lawrence John Madigan John Serrot Johnny Boyd Johnny Boyd and Indigo Swing Jordan Everett McRad Jose Sarria Joseph Beam Journey House Travel Julie Loveland-Davis Just Gender Kaiser Family Foundation Kaiser Foundation Karaoke by Tulsa CARES Karen Lamb Kate Clinton Katie Hill Kelley Parker Kelly Kirby Kenneth Joslin Kick Off Pride Week Kim Chernin Kim McDonald Kristina Giustozzi Kurt Choate Kurt T. Choate Kyler Janine Loveland-Davis Lacy Frazer Lambda Al Anon Lambda Al-Anon Lance Bass Landing Lanette Buchanan Lanette Clark Laura A. Belmonte Laura Arrowsmith Laura Belmonte Legal Aid Services Legal Aid Services Legal Clinic Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Lenelle Moise Leslea Newman LGBT Community Center Awareness Day LGBT Equality Day LGBT History Month LGBT hotline LGBT Smoking Research Survey Library Display LifeLine Lifetime Achievement Award Linda Handel Little Blue House Live Free Live Free! Live Free! Coming Out Workshop Living Art Space Living Arts Living Arts of Tulsa Louis Baynard Louise Rafkin Love Free or Die Love is an Orientation Love Speaks Its Name Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems Lucas Green Lynn E. Lisarelli Ma Rainey Man About Town Mandy Carter Margarethe Cammermeyer Marie Mohler Marin Foundation Mark Linholm Mark Merlis Marlon Riggs Marny Hall Marny Hall Ph.D Marriage and My Family marriage equality Marriage Equality Week Martin Hyatt Martin Luther King Jr. Martin Luther King Jr. Parade Mary Dugger Mary Fallin Mary Jones Massage Time Maurice Maybe Baby? McGraw Realtors Medicare Medicare Supplements Michael Potts Michal Maybello Micheal Jones Michelle Sawyer Military Ball Military Religious Freedom Foundation Military Religious Freedom Foundation (MRFF) Mindful Meditation Miss JOLT Miss JOLT 2013 Mo Brownsey Moises Kaufman MOREcolor MOREcolor exhibition Mosiac Diversity Business Award Mother's Day Mother's Day Service Mr. and Miss Harvest Pageant Mr. and Miss Harvest Pageant 2013 Mr. and Miss Hot and Humid Pageant Mr. and Miss Hot and Humid Pageant 2013 MRFF My Life as a Boy My Life as a Boy A Woman's Story Mylee Calhoun NAGAAA Cup Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Nancy McDonald Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library National Coming Out Day National Organization of Women National Organization of Women (NOW) National Organization of Women Tulsa Chapter Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day NERDception New Age Renegade New Stage company Newsletter Night of 1001 Divinations No Walls Entertainment Group North American Gay Amateur Alliance North American Gay Amateur Alliance 2013 Cup Note to Adam; One Mother's Struggle to Cope with Suicide and Her Personal Journey to Find the Light NOW Now That You're Out of the Closet OCCJ OkEq OKEQ art gallery OKEQ Board OKEQ Board Annual Meeting OKEQ Board Election OKEQ Board of Advisors OKEQ Board of Directors OKEQ Board of Directors election OKEQ eNews OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Equality Center room rentals OKEQ Event Center OKEQ Gender Outreach OKEQ OUT OKEQ Tulsa Hit Crew Oklahoma Mr. Leather Oklahoma Mr. Leather (OML) Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2013 Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2014 Oklahoma Swing Syndicate Oklahomans for Equality Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) Oklahomans for Equality Board OML OML 2013 ONEOK Field Open Arms Open Arms Project Open Arms Youth Project Open Arms Youth Project (OYP) Open Circle Open Table Open Table UCC OpenArms OpenArms Project Openarms Youth Project Openarms Youth Project (OYP) Opinionated Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit OU Our House Too Out of Sync Out OK Film Festival OUTlaw OUTlaw Legal Workshop Overnight Backpacking Adventure Overnight Backpacking Adventure on the Buffalo River OYP P.C. Cast Pages for You Paisley Currah Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) Parish Church of Saint Jerome Parish Church of St. Jerome Patricia Nell Warren Patrick Califia Paul Colapinto Peter Drucker PFLAG PFLAG Regional Conference PFLAG Tulsa Chapter Ponca Arkansas POSING Prairie Storm Presidental Lecture Series Pride 2013 Pride 2014 Pride at TU Pride Grand Marshal Pride Idol Pride in the Ballpark Pride in the Ballpark Charity Softball Game Pride Month Display pride Parade Pride Parade and festival Pride Parade Grand Marshal Pride Store Prime Timers Primetimers Prince of Peace Lutheran Project Salute Project Salute: Young Lawyers Serving Veterans Proposition 8 Rachel Hutchinson Rachel Love Rainbow Library Rainbow Writers Randy Shilts RAW Artist Showcase Rebeka Radcliff Red Sky Red Sky Liquor and Wine Red State Brief Redneck Cinderella Ball Reinaldo Arenas relationship workshop research Retirement Ain't for Sissies Richard Haley Richard M. Juang Robert Rodi Ronald LaButti room rentals Rose Padgett Rudisill Regional Library Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Rusty Cl Rusty Crane Ryan Jude Tanner SAGE SAGE Pool Party SAGE Tulsa SAGE Tulsa Pool Party Saint of 9/11 Sally Ride Sam Harris Samantha Checotah Sara Fitzgerald Say No to Hate Say No To Hate Coalition Say No to Hate Coalition 25th Anniversary School Safety and Bullying Prevention Act Scott Pomfret Sean Conner Secular Organizations for Sobriety Recovery Secular Organizations for Sobriety Recovery (SOS) Self Defense Class Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders Services and Advocacy for Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Elders sex Sexual Orientation and Diversity Alliance (SODA) Sexual Orientation Diversity Alliance Sexuality Spectrum Shannon Price Minter She's Not the Man I Married She's Not the Man I Married: My Life with a Transgender Husband Sherwin Miller Museum Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Arts Shiri Eisner Since My Last Confession Singles Night OUT Sisters in Song Sobriety Group SODA SOS SOS Group SOS Tulsa Spectrum Knits Spinnin' Spirit Day Square 1 Square 1 Theatrics St. Dunstan's Episcopal Church St. Francis Sunday St. Jerome Church St. Jerome Fun Night St. Jerome Parish St. Jerome Parish of the ECC St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion St. Jerome Parish of the Ecumenical Catholic Communion (ECC) St. Paul's United Methodist St. Paul's United Methodist Church Steve Barrett Steve Moeller Steven Michael Steven Michael Photography Steven Michael's Photography Stop Bullying Coalition Sue Ellen Welch Sue Welch support groups Supreme Court Supreme Court Decision Day Rally Susan Arrington Suzanne Westenhoefer Sylvia Brownrigg Tai Chi TAPT Taylor Burns TCC Center Tour TCC Equality Center Tour Temple Israel Teresa Reno Terry Copley The Clobber Verses The Commitment The Commitment: Love The Front Runner The History of Lesbian Hair The Immaculate Connection The Laramie Project The Lesbian Love Companion The Lesbian Love Companion: How to Survive Everything From Heartthrob to Heartbreak The Mayor of Castro Street The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) The Scarlet Professor The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin The Scarlet Professor: Newton Arvin: A Literary Life Shattered by Scandal The Time of the Kingfishers The Velveteen Father The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood Theatre Tulsa New Stage Things My Mother Should Have Told Me Before I Had My Manhood Removed Thomas Tabor Three Three by Annemarie Monahan Tim Cook Tim Dickmann TMM TMSL Toby Jenkins Tony Kushner TOSS TOSS Swing Dance Class Tracy Chapman Transgender transgender microaggressions transgender research Transgender Rights Trevor Project Trevor Wood Trinity Episcopal Church TU TU High School GSA Visit TU High School GSA Visit Day TU Law School TU SODA Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa Area Prime Timers (TAPT) Tulsa Area Primetimers Tulsa Business Chamber Diversity and Inclusion Council Tulsa CARES Tulsa City County Library Tulsa City-County Library Tulsa Community College Tulsa Community College (TCC) Tulsa Crude Classic Softball Tournament Tulsa Drillers Tulsa East Village Tulsa Gay Pride Parade Tulsa Growl Tulsa Growl 2013 Tulsa Interational Airport Tulsa Interfaith Alliance Tulsa Lambda Bowling Tulsa Lambda Bowling League Tulsa Metro Basketball League Tulsa Metro Softball League Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) Tulsa Metropolitan Ministries Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry Tulsa Metropolitan Ministry (TMM) Tulsa Mr. Leather Tulsa Mr. Leather 2013 Tulsa Mr. Leather Contest Tulsa Pride 2013 Tulsa Pride 2014 Tulsa Pride Interfaith Service Tulsa Pride Parade SAGE Viewing Room Tulsa Shock Tulsa Stop Bullying Coalition Tulsa Threat Women's Tackle Football Tulsa Two Spirits Society Tulsa Two Spirits Society Gathering Tulsa Two-Spirit Society Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (TULSA) Tulsa Uniform Leather Seekers Association Tulsa Unites Against Bullying Tulsa Women's Rugby Club Turn About Show Turn-about drag show Twisters Theater Two Step and Country Line Dance Tyron Garner Unity Center Unity Center of Tulsa Unity Church of Christianity University of Oklahoma University of Oklahoma (OU) University of Tulsa University of Tulsa Law University United Methodist Church Utah Pride Center veterans Veterans Day veterans welfare Vintage Series Vito Russo Volunteer Tulsa voting Wade Blevins WANTED: A Night in Maverick Country Wayne Besen wedding weddings What About the Rest of Your House? What the L? When You Were Me While England Sleeps Whole Foods Why Marriage Matters Why Marriage Matters: America Equality and Gay People's Right to Marry Wild By Nature Willa Cather Within Our Reach Within Our Reach relationship workshop Workforce Oklahoma Access Point World AIDS day Yoga A - Z Yolanda Arnold Youth Lock-In YWCA Zachary Harvat Zackie Achmat Zumba Fitness https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/f9b1e8d9473f37a0ef1163eecab2efe1.pdf ba168f62a92aab503fddbb4e5a32c5f9 PDF Text Text OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY BOARD REPORT - NOVEMBER, DECEMBER, & JANUARY Executive Summary FY26 Grant :Funding Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) advocates for equal rights for Two Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Questioning, lntersex, and Asexual (2SLGBTQIA+) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, community partnerships, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • Secured Funding 0 Anne & Henry Zarrow Foundation o GKFF o Sanford & Irene Burnstein Family Foundation o Schusterman Family Programs & Services Philanthropies o Coretz Family Foundation (new • Affirming Health Care • Affinity & Social Groups funding) • Legal Advocacy & Support • Basic Needs & Referral o Flint Family Foundation (new • Visual & Performing Arts Support revenue) • On Site Mental Health & • 2SLGBTQIA+ Resource & o HarvardAvenue Christian Church Lending Library Counseling Services • Awaiting Response • Youth & Young Adult • Rural Pride Outreach & o Lawrence Foundation (new Programming Support revenue) • Tulsa Fringe Festival • Peer & Identity Based o Vision Arts Grant (new funding) Support Groups • Tulsa Pride • In Progress o William K Warren Foundation (new funding) Volunteer Engagement • Prospects o Hardesty Family Foundation ° Cresap Family Foundation November Community Meal+ Rainbow Harvest: Sixteen volunteers participated, including support from community partners such as Blue Cross Blue Shield, the Tulsa Zoo, and Laureate Brain Institute. Volunteer Orientation: Six new volunteers completed orientation. Im hailey.briggs@okeq.org \. 918-442-8665 ~ okeq.org �December Fairy Tree: In collaboration w ith Tulsa Cares, we fulfilled holiday wish lists for 22 families in need. Clothing Swap & Winter Clothing Drive: Four volunteers supported the event, benefiting approximately 50 community members. An estimated 200 pounds of clothing, shoes, and outerwear were collected and redistributed. Maker's Market: Four volunteers supported the event, which f eatured 17 vendors and local artists and welcomed approximately 50 community m embers. Rainbow H arvest: Six volunteers participated. Volunteer Orientation: Four new volunteers completed orientation. Giving Tuesday & End of Year Giving Our 2025 Giving Tuesday and end-of-year giving campaign reinforced the importance of consistent, accessible communication with our community and the impact of clearly telling OKEQ's story. The campaigns utilized a combination of email outreach, social media, mailed letters, and a live ask at our Annual Community Dinner ensuring we reached supporters across multiple platforms and preferences. Giving Tuesday was a series of social media posts highlighting different aspects of the Center and OKEQ's programs over t he course of 2.5 weeks followed by a live ask at the Annual Community Meal. In total we generated $3,283.50. Our end of year letter cost the site approximately $75 for paper and postage, and has generated roughly $35,121.00 to date, demonstrating a strong return on investment and the effectiveness of low-cost, relationship- centered fundraising strategies. Beyond revenue, this campaign highlighted how regu lar communication builds trust, keeps our community connected to our mission, and makes giving to OKEQ accessible to t he general public. By clearly sharing our impact and offering multiple, straightforward ways to give, we reduced barriers to participation and invited broader engagement in sustaining our work. This approach underscores that storytelling, consistency, and accessibility are essential to long-term fundraising success and community support. �Equality Business Alliance Overview The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) Steering Committee is comprised of 10 d iverse members of the local business community, representing a range of industries and varying levels of experience w ith the EBA. This group has come together w it h a shared commitment to relaunch the Equality Business Alliance in a way that is values- driven and d irectly informed by the needs of the queer and affirming business community. The committee will m eet twice monthly to guide this work. Key Outcomes During a recent meeting, the Steering Committee engaged in a SOAR framework (Strengths, Opportunities, Aspirations, Results) to assess the current state of the EBA and identify priorities for relaunch. Strengths: Members affirmed the strong credibility of Oklahomans for Equalit y, deep community trust, and a shared commitment to affirming and inclusive business practices. Opportunities: The group identified t he need for c learer membership benefits, increased visibility for affirming businesses, and more intentional pathways for engagement, accountability, and growth within the alliance. Aspirations: The committee articu lated a s hared vis ion for a revitalized Equality Business Alliance that supports business owners, aligns with OKEQ values, and meaningfully benefits LGBTQ+ community members. Results: There was strong alignment around developing a c lear, trusted EBA framework w ith defined member benefits, t ransparent vetting standards, and programming that members find genuinely valuable. Next Steps • Cont inue twice-monthly Steering Committee meetings to maintain momentum. • Draft a revised EBA framework out lining membership benefits, expectations, and accountability standards. • Refine the vett ing process to ensure t ransparency, consistency, and alignment w ith OKEQ values. • Develop programming and engagement opportunities that respond directly to the expressed needs of queer and affirming businesses. Strategic Impact This work represents a s ignificant step toward relaunching the Equality Business Alliance as a sustainable, community-informed program. By centering the lived experience and expertise of local business owners, the EBA is being rebuilt in a way that strengthens affirming businesses while advancing OKEQ's broader mission of equit y, inclusion, and community care EBA Steering Committee Members Aubrey Naiman - Tulsa Library-Economic & Community Development Camille Diaz - Serenity Financial Courtney Ivy - Next Level Senior Advisors Kathy Clarke - Energy Environments Sally Mercedes - Magic City Books Tiyanah Garrett - Chamber of Commerce Eric Eastland-Jones - Advocacy Resources Kevin Eastland- Jones - Advocacy Resources The Steering Committee will continue this work at its next meeting on Friday, ;January 23, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. �Dear friends, As we reach the close of 2025, I've been reflecting on the foundations of Oklahomans for Equality, where we came from, who we have become, and what still calls us forward. Our story began decades ago, in the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis, with a group of volunteers who saw the dire unmet needs of 2SLGBTQIA+ people in Tulsa and refused to look away. They pooled their time, resources, determination, and belief in community care to create something that did not yet exist. These qualities are still built into the bones of this organization today. That commitment drives us to provide vital, affirming, and affordable medical care to hundreds of people each year. This year alone, 422 individuals received care through our medical clinic, many experiencing respectful and identity-affirming healthcare for the first time. It is the same approach that fuels our partnerships with embedded mental health and legal providers, who support hundreds of community members each year seeking counseling, advocacy, and guidance in moments when they need it most. It is what inspires volunteers to show up week after week, leading support groups, facilitating programs, sorting food, hosting events, and creating spaces of belonging. This year, 178 volunteers lent their time, energy, and heart to OKEQ, proving that community care is not just a value here, it is a practice and a shared responsibility. It is also the energy behind programs like Rainbow Harvest, a low-barrier farmers market that has provided fresh and shelf-stable groceries to 447 people in its first six months, supporting community members facing food insecurity. �It is what carried us across the state to 10 rural Pride events this year, ensuring support, visibility, and connection even in the smallest corners of Oklahoma. And it empowers us to host citywide events like Tulsa Pride, creating vital opportunities for joy, celebration, solidarity, and visibility for tens of thousands of people each year. This is what it means to stay proximate to our community's needs. This is the work we do because of you. FOREQU TULS FliH FEST IV September 19 &20 821 [ 4~St. lulsa. OK As we look toward 2026, t he need for affirming, life-changing care and safe spaces in Oklahoma remains urgent, especially in a political climate that continues to target 2S LGBTQIA+ rights and access to essential services. We cannot meet these needs without your support. If you are in a position to make a year end gift, your donation, no matter the size, directly sustains the programs people rely on for safety, support, and dignity. If you are able to volunteer, your time becomes part of the legacy t hat has carried us from our earliest days. And if this is not the season where either is possible, your continued connection - reading our newsletters, attending events, stopping by the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is deeply valued. Staying proximate to th is work is its own form of generosity. As we prepare for the year ahead, I am profoundly grateful for your trust, for your care, and for your continued commitment to the belief that every 2S LGBTQIA+ person in Oklahoma deserves access to reso urces, support and dignity. 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Gay people in such diverse Angeles, Aib~querque, Montgomery, Little innati haveorganized to help themselves ¯ This month, gay people in every major memorate Stonewall with Gay Pride Week celebrations. a lot to celebrate--and to be proud We now have an active gay organization, ons, a gay helpline, meetings, sports, any other functions that are a direct spirit of Stonewa11. he activities now available in Tulsa are to OHR and its dedicated members who ry on, often in the face of apathy and ticism. r Is Renewal Month eck your OHR mailing label. In approxieeks, most OHR memberships will expire. OHR membership runs from July to July. ailing lab~l reads "07-01-84" it’s time ew. Since August 1980 an OHR membership t the low, reasonable amount of $12.00. ncreased. .00 mainly goes to pay for the expenses nd mailing the monthly newsletter to you on’t you please take the time to renew? vet joined OHR but you continue to refits of the monthly newsletter, isn’t it our part financially? , the form in this newsletter and send it ,oft will be greatly appreciated. The.general public is becomlng’increasingly aware that gays are their own friends, neighbors, and children. More and. more society is realizing that gay civil rights is an issue that must be faced. It is !mperative that gays work to maintain their hard-won personal dignity. During this Gay Pride Week, we must set new goals. There is still a great need for us to join closer together. We must continue to work for each other--and if some are unwilling1y to work actively, they must support the efforts of others financially. We must be more responsible for our fellow gays --for elderly gays, gays in poor health, and gays who still llve in loneliness and fear. OHR needs your involvement, your ideas, and your money. As you celebrate this 3rd annual Tulsa Gay Pride Week, remember this little slogan: Pride and More in ’84. Rodgers to Speak at Meeting Bill Rodgers, a board member of the National Gay Task Force, will speak at the monthly OHR meeting on Monday evening, June 18. Rodgers has served on the NGTF national board for several years and he has a wide range of knowledge concerning gay issues in this country. Rodgers will speak to OHR members and friends about the current status of the NGTF and the direction it has taken under the directorship of Virginia Apuzzo, He will also talk about current political issues and problems everyone should be aware of. A question and answer period will follow. Rodgers, an Oklahoma city attorney, was a founder of Oklahomans for Human Rights in Oklahoma City. Don’t -miss this chance to hear an Oklahoma gay leader. Please make plans to attend the June meeting on Monday eveniDgt June 18, at 7:00 in the First National Bank auditorium (lower level), 4th and Main. The meetings are free and open to everyone. �JUNE 1984 Vol. 4, No. 6 ’Gay Pride Week’ Set for June 16-24 It has been fifteen years since a small group of harrassed gays rioted in front of Stonewall Bar on Christopher Street in Greenwich Village. A great deal has happened for American gays since that fateful June evening in 1969. The waves of gayawareness and pride have washed across the United States. Gay people in such diverse places as Los Angeles, Alb~querque, Montgomery, Little Rock and Cincinnati haveorganized to help themselves and each other. This mOnth, gay people in every major city will commemorate Stonewall with Gay Pride Week activities and celebrations. Tulsa has a lot to celebrate--and to be proud of--this June. We now have an active gay organization, gay publications, a gay helpline, meetings, sports, clinics, and many other functions that are a direct result of the spirit of Stonewall. Many of the activities now available in Tulsa are attributable to OHR and its dedicated members who faithfully carry on, often in the face of apathy and occasional criticism. The.general public is becoming increasingly aware that gays are their own friends, neighbors, and children. More and. more society is realizing that gay civil rights is an issue that must be faced. It is imperative that gays work to maintain their hard-won personal dignity. During ser together. other--and time you did your part financially? Your support will be greatly appreciated. must set new We must if some continue to work for each are unwillingly to work actively, our fellow gays elderly gays, gays in poor health, and gays who still live in loneliness and fear. OHR needs your involvement, your ideas, and your money. As you celebrate Week, this 3rd annual Tulsa Gay Pride remember this little slogan: Pride and More in ’84. Rodgers to Speak at Meeting Bill Rodgers, a board member of the National Gay Task Force, will speak at the monthly OHR meeting on Monday evening, June 18. Rodgers has served on the NGTF national board for several years concerning speak to and he gay OHR status of has a wide range of knowledge issues in this country. members and Rodgers will friends about the current the NGTF and the direction it has taken un- der the directorship of Virginia Apuzzo, He will also talk and about current political everyone should be aware of. issues problems A question and answer period will follow. Rodgers, an Oklahoma city attorney, was a founder of Oklahomans for Human Rights in Oklahoma City. Don’t leader. on GAY .::-R£$S ASSOCIATION we We must be more responsible for --for Just clip the form in this newsletter and send it in. Gay Pride Week, they must support the efforts of others financially. July Is Renewal Month Please check your OHR mailing label. In approximately three weeks, most OHR memberships will expire. Currently, an OHR membership runs from July to July. If your mailing labbl reads "07-01-84" it’s time for you to renew. Since August 1980 an OHR membership has remained at the low, reasonable amount of $12.00. It has never increased. This $12.00 mainly goes to pay for the expenses of printing and mailing the monthly newsletter to you and others. Won’t you please take the time to renew? If you have never joined OHR but you continue to receive the benefits of the monthly newsletter, isn’t it this goals. There is still a great need for us to join clo- miss this chance Please make to hear an Oklahoma gay plans to attend the June meeting Monday eveni~g~ June 18, tional Bank auditorium (lower at 7:00 in the First Nalevel), #th The meetings are free and open to everyone. and Main. �’Gay Pride’ Activities to be Held During Week ot June 16-24 the June 18 OHR meeting, from an officer, by writing the post office box, or at Jared’s Carriage Trade, 1602 East 15th. NOTE: There are also activitles planned at many Tulsa bars. Check the bars.to find out their Pride Week functions. DIRECTORY The Bamboo Lounge 16 17 GAY PRIDE WEEK PICNIC at Chandler Park on West 21st St.; 12 noon till S:O0 p.m.; hamburgers, hot dogs, beer, so{t arinks for The Club Seeker’s Choice Tim’s Playroom sale; booths and games, etc. The Tool Box Tulsa Mining Co. SERVICES at Retropolitan Community Church; 1623 N. Maplewood; 11:00 a.m. 18 OHR presents BILL RODGERS, board member of the National Gay Task Force; 7:00 p.m.; First National Bank auditorium, lower level, 4th Zippers Dignity/Integrity MCC OHR .7204 E. Pine 1219 S. Remorial 6710 E. Admiral Place 2252 E. 11th Street 1649 S. Rain Street 1902 E. 11th Street 4812 E. 33rd Street 1229 S. St. Louis Ave 1623 N. Raplewood Ave/74115 P.O. Box 52729/74152 918-SB7-GAYS OHR Gay Helpline Zippers’ Gay Information Line 749-9797 and Main. 19 20 21 22 MOVIES at’Center Plaza Apartments, in Plaza room, Ist floor of South Tower;.7:OO--"Who Happens to be Gay" is "a documentary about a cross section of people discussing their lives, coming out, etc. 8:00~-"La Cage aux Folles." If you haven’t seen it, don~t miss it. OKLAHOMA at Discoveryland; the price for OHR members and friends will be $5.95; showtime is at 7:30 p.m. and those who want may bring apicnic at 6:30; deadline for reservations is Monday, June 11; call Brian at 744-0174 or the Helpline at 592-5086. MOVIES it~Cent~r Piaza Apartments;(see June 19 !isting); 7:00--"On Being Homosexual" is the recent documentary shown on HBO. 8:00--’A Woman’s Place is in the House." House of Representatlves, that is. This documentary is about Rep. E1alne Noble, a lesbian congresswoman from Boston (and at the time the lover of. famed gay author Rita Mae Brown). An interesting film about her political career. Happy Hour COCKTAILS at the Grapevine, Stonehorse Shopping Center, 35th and Peoria; 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Come unwind after your week’s work. GAY INFORMATION LINE 587-GAYS Official Publication of Oklahomans for Human Rights -- Tulsa Chapter P.O. Box 52729 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74152 Membership in the Tulsa Chapter of Oklahomans for Human Rights is only $12.00 per year. The membership year suns from July to July. A person may join today for only $12.00 and then renew in July 1985. Please do your part to help keep OHR a viable part of Tulsa. Send in your check or write for a brochure today! RERBERSHIP APPLICATION Name Address City ZIP 23 OPEN State Phone 24 OHR~S MR. TULSA CONTEST; at Zlggy’s, 71st and Yale; door opens at 6:30 p.m. and show begins at 7:30 p.m.; advance tickets are $5.00 and advance reserved seats are $6.50; tickets at the door are $8.00. You may buy tickets at ( ) I am 18 years old or older. ( ) Membership fee of $ ( ) Tax deductible contributlon of $ ( ) Is this a renewal? �SUNDA Y MONDAY 4 Spaghetti Dinner and Bingo Party 6:30 p.m. I0 ii CAMPOUT TUESDA Y 5 6 Growth Group Meeting .6:30 p.m. OHR Bowling 12 14 Growth Group Meeting 6:30 p.m. 17 FRIDA Y ~ SATURDAY i 2 3HR CAMPOUT Sequoyah Btate Park OHR CAMPOUI 15 OHR Bowling 19 MOVIES at Center PI, 7:00p.m. MCC Services WEDNESDAY THURSDA Y Dignity;Tpm 1229 S.StLol 2O OKLAHOMA ! at Discoveryland 7:30 p.m. MOVIES at Center PI. 7:00 p.m. 22 Cocktails at the Grapevine 6:00 p.m. GAY PRIDE WEEK PICNIC Chandler Pk Noon--5 pm 23OPEN Summer 25 OHRv s MR. TULSA CONTEST Ziggy’s 7:30 p.m. JUNE 29 Growth Group Meeting 6:30 p.m. OHR Bowling Razzle Dazzle Dallas CELEBRATE GAY PRIDE WEEK JUl~ 16 2~ �Discussion Group Meets Each Tuesday A "Growth Group" has organized and meets each Tuesday evening at 6:30 at the Family Mental Health Services building, 1538 S. Sheridan (behlnd the Curtis Mathes store). The discussion group is free and is open to all interested men and women who want to joimother group members to discuss a variety of concerns--primarily issues related to growth in relationships with family, friends~ and lovers. The group, led by Helpline referral counselor Brent WOlfe, provides a comfortable way to communicate experiences and share concerns. Join the group next Tuesday evening. For more information you may call Brent at 832-ig46 or Brian at 744-0174. CLASSIFIED ADS (Classified Ad rates $3.00, for the first .20 words. To place an ad, call Gary at 742-0401 or write the post office box.) Confidential interview with children 13 and over who have gay fathers are needed for research by Dr. Bozett, OU professor. Call work (405) 271-2305 or home (405) 722-1048. OHR member will help flood victims who wish to file amended lg83 income tax returns. For information call the Helpllne at 592-5086. TO REPORT: ANTI-GAY VIOLENCE TO OBTAIN: A.I.D.$. REFERRALS Call loll-free [800] 22~-7044 In N.Y. State (212] 807-6016 New Beer To Be Marketed for Gays T~ gay entrepreneurs have begun marketlng a new ’eer just for gays called "Wilde’s" beer. The new pr--.llum lager is named after Oscar Wilde, the Irish "riter and wit who is one of the most famous gay authors of ali tlme. The beer’s creators plan to pour 35% of the beer’s profits back into gay communlty organizatlons. Wilde’s beer is available in blue-and-silver labels with a geometric design. It is currently being test marketed in ali of San Diego’s 50 gay and lesbian bars. Promotional slogans are "Our Own Beer!" and "Just Between Us, It’s Wilde!" The owners contracted with Pearl Brewing Company in San Antonio to brew the special formula, which they arrived at after much taste-testlng by gays in many bars. If Wilde’s proves to be a success in San Diego, the beer wili be introduced in gay bars in other clties. Helpllne Needs You May and June have been filled with events and activities for the gay community. The OHR Gay Helpline tape provides up-to-date information on events to over four thousand callers per month. Taped information is available to callers 24-hours a day. Additional information is provided by Helpllne volunteers who work two two-hour evenlng shifts per month. Volunteers are on duty each weekday evening and for extended shlfts on weekends. Approximately 30 OHR member/volunteers handle over 350 calls per month personally. Helpllne volunteers are still needed. If you have been thinking of finding a way to serveOHR and the community, there is no better, more rewarding choice than worklng as a Helpllne volunteer. If you’re interested, please call Jack at 744-0174 or speak to any OHR board member. "Until the health crisis is over, I think we’d better just hug like bunnies. "" �Memorable t uotes Rathe Dazzle Dallas’ on June 30th Weekend "Thank you, America. You’ve got good taste, style, and you kno~ a good drag queen ~hen you see one." --Boy George at the Grammy’s Rarch i, 1984. "I vish he vouldn’t run. The annual "Razzle Dazzle Dallas" will be held at the Dallas Convention Center on Saturday evening, June 30, from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. The Convention Center is on South Griffin Street in downtown Dallas. Razzle Dazzle Dallas was first held at the fairgrounds in June 1979 as a party to celebrate Gay Pride geek. Last year the 5th annual event drew over 4000 celebrants. But it has evolved from a social party to a ma~or fundraiser to support community service organizatlons. This year the organizers expect close to 6000’gay people to attend in everything from blue ~eans "The gay movement uould get farther faster in the realm of equal treatment by abandoning the specious pose of ’sexual preference’ and candldly acknowledging that it is as bound to its own orbit as the Earth is to its etlipse. After a11, nothing that exists in nature can rightly be called ’unnatural.’" --#ewspaper columnlst Sydney Harris to ter, made an appearance Narren, and visit the Boulevard and Bazaar area. ville, Free bus transportation is Springs and Throckmorton he’d go live on Narch 19, 1984. black tie. Free beer and soft drinks are available plus a cash liquor bar. You may dance to the music of d.~. Shaun Buchanan from the Saintin NYC, play games in the Casino area, enjoy Las Vegas performer Rusty Cedar I vish the ranch." --Reagan’s daughter, Patti Davis, in TIRE, Chip Carter, son of former President Jimmy Car- at several gay bars in Louis- KY in support of Walter Rondale’s campaign for the Democratic nomination for president. available from the area and from the Carter talked to bar patrons about Mondale’s support Crew’s.Inn. Hotel and travel packages ,are available through the Reservation Desk at 1-800-527-5818. Tickets after June 1 are $15.00 and after June 2~ they are of gay issues. He also passed out bu:tons and urged patrons to attend the caucuses being held that weekend in Kentucky. $20.00. Please call or ~rite Razzte Dazzle Dallas, PO Box 50031, Dallas, TX 75250. OHR INFORMATION LINE HAS LESBIANS AND GA Y MEN AVAILABLE TO TALK WITH YOU. A committee of the U,S. Conference of Mayors has passed a resolution endorsing legal protections for gay people. After testimony by V~rg!nia gpuzzo of the NGTF, the Committee o~ Human Development approVed, a resolution reading: "Recognizing t.he right of all citizens, .regardless of sexual .orientation, to full participation in American society, the committee recommends ¯ that all levels of government adopt legal protections for the rights of gay and lesbian Americans." TO SUBSCRIBE OR RENEW: (800) 227-3040 Nationwide (800) 652-1880 California C~ling toll-free is the fastest and n~st convenient way to conduct your subscdptk)n business with The ADVOCATE. Our friendly operators are ready to help you 24 hours, 7 days a week. And when you call, you may charge your order to your VISA or Master Card, or ask to be billed later. �Couples’ Rights Case Set Tulsa Office 619 South Detroit (918) 582-0061 Broken Arrow Office 816 North Elm Place, Suite 3 (918) 2583526 Apuzzo to Speak at Rally Ginny Apuzzo,. Executive Director of the National Gay Task Force, has agreed to.speak at the National March for Lesbian/Gay Rights on Sunday, July 15, in San Francisco. The march will be held during the Democratlc National convention and will focus the nationls attention on the cause For. gay civil rights. "Ms. Apuzzo is both a dynamic speaker and an extraordinary activist for gay rights. We are very pleased that she will be able to address our rally," commented Paul Boneberg, National March co-~hairperson. ~..Among the organizations endorsing the march are the NGTF, Black and White Men Together, and various local chapters of NOW, ACLU, etc. March organizers are seeking 1000 indivldual sponsors to donate $25 each. Donations may be sent to National march for Lesbian/Gay Rights, 2301 Market St., Suite A, San Francisco, CA 94114. For information you may call (415) B63-5005. Cowboys Plan Rodeo and Fair The annual National Reno Gay Rodeo and Country Fair will be held this year From July 19 to July 22 at the Nevada State Fairgrounds, Reno, Nevada. The Natlonal Gay Rodeo has become a major event on the west coast. A lot of "wild" rodeo action takes place each year along with the annual Horse Show, Western Dance Festival, Country Fair Arts and Crafts Booths, Western Entertainment, Dances, Boot Throwing Contest, and Talent Contest. This is a major event and begins with a Grand Entry Parade with drill teams, horsemen, floats, and vintage cars., For full details about entering, booth space, contests, accommod~-~{ons, and reserved seats, please call (702) 677-0742 or write Gay Rodeo, PO Box 2372, Reno, Nevada 89505. Don’t miss the OHR MR. TULSA CONTEST! Advance tickets are only $5.00 for general admission or $6.50 for reserved seating. .~ickets are $g.0Q at the dQor. In Columbia, Maryland, Steve Jacobs and John LeBedda want to join the AAA Motor Club and take advantage of the subsantlal discount for spouses. But they can’t. Spousal discounts are only for married, straight couples. The National Gay Rights Advocates (NGRA’) is taking AAA to court. Howard County in Maryland has a law against discrimination based on sexual orientation and marital status. It’s an ideal spot for the NGRA~s opening round in its Couples~ Rights Legal Agenda. On the opposite coast in San Diego, NGRA is challenging AAA~s auto insurance policy. Leo Laurence and Robert Zelmer, Jr., have applied For a 20% spousal discount on AAA auto insurance. They have llved together six years (longer than many married couples who can get the discount). NGRA hopes to win these cases and pave the way for gay and lesbian couples to claim their rights to family discounts. NGRA hopes to tackle other couplesI rights cases and win rights to such things as pension benefits, tuition discounts, hospital visitation rights, health insurance~ income tax joint filing, etc. If you would llke to support NGRA in its efforts, please send your pledges to NGRA, 540 Castro. St., San Francisco, CA 94114 or call (415) 863-3624. Join NGTF today. � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document JUNE 1984 Vol. 4, No. 6 ’Gay Pride Week’ Set for June 16-24 en fifteen years since a small group of rioted in front of Stonewall Bar on reef in Greenwich V~Iiage¯ A great deal or American gays since that fateful June 9. s of gay awareness and pride have washed ted States. Gay people in such diverse Angeles, Aib~querque, Montgomery, Little innati haveorganized to help themselves ¯ This month, gay people in every major memorate Stonewall with Gay Pride Week celebrations. a lot to celebrate--and to be proud We now have an active gay organization, ons, a gay helpline, meetings, sports, any other functions that are a direct spirit of Stonewa11. he activities now available in Tulsa are to OHR and its dedicated members who ry on, often in the face of apathy and ticism. r Is Renewal Month eck your OHR mailing label. In approxieeks, most OHR memberships will expire. OHR membership runs from July to July. ailing lab~l reads "07-01-84" it’s time ew. Since August 1980 an OHR membership t the low, reasonable amount of $12.00. ncreased. .00 mainly goes to pay for the expenses nd mailing the monthly newsletter to you on’t you please take the time to renew? vet joined OHR but you continue to refits of the monthly newsletter, isn’t it our part financially? , the form in this newsletter and send it ,oft will be greatly appreciated. The.general public is becomlng’increasingly aware that gays are their own friends, neighbors, and children. More and. more society is realizing that gay civil rights is an issue that must be faced. It is !mperative that gays work to maintain their hard-won personal dignity. During this Gay Pride Week, we must set new goals. There is still a great need for us to join closer together. We must continue to work for each other--and if some are unwilling1y to work actively, they must support the efforts of others financially. We must be more responsible for our fellow gays --for elderly gays, gays in poor health, and gays who still llve in loneliness and fear. OHR needs your involvement, your ideas, and your money. As you celebrate this 3rd annual Tulsa Gay Pride Week, remember this little slogan: Pride and More in ’84. Rodgers to Speak at Meeting Bill Rodgers, a board member of the National Gay Task Force, will speak at the monthly OHR meeting on Monday evening, June 18. Rodgers has served on the NGTF national board for several years and he has a wide range of knowledge concerning gay issues in this country. Rodgers will speak to OHR members and friends about the current status of the NGTF and the direction it has taken under the directorship of Virginia Apuzzo, He will also talk about current political issues and problems everyone should be aware of. A question and answer period will follow. Rodgers, an Oklahoma city attorney, was a founder of Oklahomans for Human Rights in Oklahoma City. Don’t -miss this chance to hear an Oklahoma gay leader. Please make plans to attend the June meeting on Monday eveniDgt June 18, at 7:00 in the First National Bank auditorium (lower level), 4th and Main. The meetings are free and open to everyone. JUNE 1984 Vol. 4, No. 6 ’Gay Pride Week’ Set for June 16-24 It has been fifteen years since a small group of harrassed gays rioted in front of Stonewall Bar on Christopher Street in Greenwich Village. A great deal has happened for American gays since that fateful June evening in 1969. The waves of gayawareness and pride have washed across the United States. Gay people in such diverse places as Los Angeles, Alb~querque, Montgomery, Little Rock and Cincinnati haveorganized to help themselves and each other. This mOnth, gay people in every major city will commemorate Stonewall with Gay Pride Week activities and celebrations. Tulsa has a lot to celebrate--and to be proud of--this June. We now have an active gay organization, gay publications, a gay helpline, meetings, sports, clinics, and many other functions that are a direct result of the spirit of Stonewall. Many of the activities now available in Tulsa are attributable to OHR and its dedicated members who faithfully carry on, often in the face of apathy and occasional criticism. July Is Renewal Month Please check your OHR mailing label. In approximately three weeks, most OHR memberships will expire. Currently, an OHR membership runs from July to July. If your mailing labbl reads "07-01-84" it’s time for you to renew. Since August 1980 an OHR membership has remained at the low, reasonable amount of $12.00. It has never increased. This $12.00 mainly goes to pay for the expenses of printing and mailing the monthly newsletter to you and others. Won’t you please take the time to renew? If you have never joined OHR but you continue to receive the benefits of the monthly newsletter, isn’t it time you did your part financially? Just clip the form in this newsletter and send it in. Your support will be greatly appreciated. GAY .::-R£$S ASSOCIATION The.general public is becoming increasingly aware that gays are their own friends, neighbors, and children. More and. more society is realizing that gay civil rights is an issue that must be faced. It is imperative that gays work to maintain their hard-won personal dignity. During this Gay Pride Week, we must set new goals. There is still a great need for us to join closer together. We must continue to work for each other--and if some are unwillingly to work actively, they must support the efforts of others financially. We must be more responsible for our fellow gays --for elderly gays, gays in poor health, and gays who still live in loneliness and fear. OHR needs your involvement, your ideas, and your money. As you celebrate this 3rd annual Tulsa Gay Pride Week, remember this little slogan: Pride and More in ’84. Rodgers to Speak at Meeting Bill Rodgers, a board member of the National Gay Task Force, will speak at the monthly OHR meeting on Monday evening, June 18. Rodgers has served on the NGTF national board for several years and he has a wide range of knowledge concerning gay issues in this country. Rodgers will speak to OHR members and friends about the current status of the NGTF and the direction it has taken under the directorship of Virginia Apuzzo, He will also talk about current political issues and problems everyone should be aware of. A question and answer period will follow. Rodgers, an Oklahoma city attorney, was a founder of Oklahomans for Human Rights in Oklahoma City. Don’t miss this chance to hear an Oklahoma gay leader. Please make plans to attend the June meeting on Monday eveni~g~ June 18, at 7:00 in the First National Bank auditorium (lower level), #th and Main. The meetings are free and open to everyone. 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 ’Gay Pride’ Activities to be Held During Week ot June 16-24 GAY PRIDE WEEK PICNIC at Chandler Park on West 21st St.; 12 noon till S:O0 p.m.; hamburgers, hot dogs, beer, so{t arinks for sale; booths and games, etc. SERVICES at Retropolitan Community Church; 1623 N. Maplewood; 11:00 a.m. OHR presents BILL RODGERS, board member of the National Gay Task Force; 7:00 p.m.; First National Bank auditorium, lower level, 4th and Main. MOVIES at’Center Plaza Apartments, in Plaza room, Ist floor of South Tower;.7:OO--"Who Happens to be Gay" is "a documentary about a cross section of people discussing their lives, coming out, etc. 8:00~-"La Cage aux Folles." If you haven’t seen it, don~t miss it. OKLAHOMA at Discoveryland; the price for OHR members and friends will be $5.95; showtime is at 7:30 p.m. and those who want may bring apicnic at 6:30; deadline for reservations is Monday, June 11; call Brian at 744-0174 or the Helpline at 592-5086. MOVIES it~Cent~r Piaza Apartments;(see June 19 !isting); 7:00--"On Being Homosexual" is the recent documentary shown on HBO. 8:00--’A Woman’s Place is in the House." House of Representatlves, that is. This documentary is about Rep. E1alne Noble, a lesbian congresswoman from Boston (and at the time the lover of. famed gay author Rita Mae Brown). An interesting film about her political career. Happy Hour COCKTAILS at the Grapevine, Stonehorse Shopping Center, 35th and Peoria; 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Come unwind after your week’s work. OPEN OHR~S MR. TULSA CONTEST; at Zlggy’s, 71st and Yale; door opens at 6:30 p.m. and show begins at 7:30 p.m.; advance tickets are $5.00 and advance reserved seats are $6.50; tickets at the door are $8.00. You may buy tickets at the June 18 OHR meeting, from an officer, by writing the post office box, or at Jared’s Carriage Trade, 1602 East 15th. NOTE: There are also activitles planned at many Tulsa bars. Check the bars.to find out their Pride Week functions. DIRECTORY The Bamboo Lounge The Club Seeker’s Choice Tim’s Playroom The Tool Box Tulsa Mining Co. Zippers Dignity/Integrity MCC OHR OHR Gay Helpline Zippers’ Gay Information Line .7204 E. Pine 1219 S. Remorial 6710 E. Admiral Place 2252 E. 11th Street 1649 S. Rain Street 1902 E. 11th Street 4812 E. 33rd Street 1229 S. St. Louis Ave 1623 N. Raplewood Ave/74115 P.O. Box 52729/74152 918-SB7-GAYS 749-9797 GAY INFORMATION LINE 587-GAYS Official Publication of Oklahomans for Human Rights -- Tulsa Chapter P.O. Box 52729 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74152 Membership in the Tulsa Chapter of Oklahomans for Human Rights is only $12.00 per year. The membership year suns from July to July. A person may join today for only $12.00 and then renew in July 1985. Please do your part to help keep OHR a viable part of Tulsa. Send in your check or write for a brochure today! Name Address City State Phone RERBERSHIP APPLICATION ZIP ( ) I am 18 years old or older. ( ) Membership fee of $ ( ) Tax deductible contributlon of $ ( ) Is this a renewal? SUNDA Y MONDAY TUESDA Y WEDNESDAY THURSDA Y FRIDA Y ~ SATURDAY Spaghetti Dinner and Bingo Party 6:30 p.m. I0 CAMPOUT 17 MCC Services Dignity;Tpm 1229 S.StLol OHRv s MR. TULSA CONTEST Ziggy’s 7:30 p.m. 4 i 5 Growth Group Meeting .6:30 p.m. 6 OHR Bowling 3HR CAMPOUT Sequoyah Btate Park ii 25 12 Growth Group Meeting 6:30 p.m. 19 MOVIES at Center PI, 7:00p.m. Growth Group Meeting 6:30 p.m. OHR Bowling 2O OKLAHOMA ! at Discoveryland 7:30 p.m. 14 MOVIES at Center PI. 7:00 p.m. Summer 15 22 Cocktails at the Grapevine 6:00 p.m. OHR Bowling 29 2 OHR CAMPOUI GAY PRIDE WEEK PICNIC Chandler Pk Noon--5 pm 23- OPEN Razzle Dazzle Dallas JUNE CELEBRATE GAY PRIDE WEEK JUl~ 16 2~ Discussion Group Meets Each Tuesday A "Growth Group" has organized and meets each Tuesday evening at 6:30 at the Family Mental Health Services building, 1538 S. Sheridan (behlnd the Curtis Mathes store). The discussion group is free and is open to all interested men and women who want to joimother group members to discuss a variety of concerns--primarily issues related to growth in relationships with family, friends~ and lovers. The group, led by Helpline referral counselor Brent WOlfe, provides a comfortable way to communicate experiences and share concerns. Join the group next Tuesday evening. For more information you may call Brent at 832-ig46 or Brian at 744-0174. CLASSIFIED ADS (Classified Ad rates $3.00, for the first .20 words. To place an ad, call Gary at 742-0401 or write the post office box.) Confidential interview with children 13 and over who have gay fathers are needed for research by Dr. Bozett, OU professor. Call work (405) 271-2305 or home (405) 722-1048. OHR member will help flood victims who wish to file amended lg83 income tax returns. For information call the Helpllne at 592-5086. TO REPORT: ANTI-GAY VIOLENCE TO OBTAIN: A.I.D.$. REFERRALS Call loll-free [800] 22~-7044 In N.Y. State (212] 807-6016 New Beer To Be Marketed for Gays T~ gay entrepreneurs have begun marketlng a new ’eer just for gays called "Wilde’s" beer. The new pr--.llum lager is named after Oscar Wilde, the Irish "riter and wit who is one of the most famous gay authors of ali tlme. The beer’s creators plan to pour 35% of the beer’s profits back into gay communlty organizatlons. Wilde’s beer is available in blue-and-silver labels with a geometric design. It is currently being test marketed in ali of San Diego’s 50 gay and lesbian bars. Promotional slogans are "Our Own Beer!" and "Just Between Us, It’s Wilde!" The owners contracted with Pearl Brewing Company in San Antonio to brew the special formula, which they arrived at after much taste-testlng by gays in many bars. If Wilde’s proves to be a success in San Diego, the beer wili be introduced in gay bars in other clties. Helpllne Needs You "Until the health crisis is over, I think we’d better just hug like bunnies. "" May and June have been filled with events and activities for the gay community. The OHR Gay Helpline tape provides up-to-date information on events to over four thousand callers per month. Taped information is available to callers 24-hours a day. Additional information is provided by Helpllne volunteers who work two two-hour evenlng shifts per month. Volunteers are on duty each weekday evening and for extended shlfts on weekends. Approximately 30 OHR member/volunteers handle over 350 calls per month personally. Helpllne volunteers are still needed. If you have been thinking of finding a way to serveOHR and the community, there is no better, more rewarding choice than worklng as a Helpllne volunteer. If you’re interested, please call Jack at 744-0174 or speak to any OHR board member. Rathe Dazzle Dallas’ on June 30th Weekend The annual "Razzle Dazzle Dallas" will be held at the Dallas Convention Center on Saturday evening, June 30, from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m. The Convention Center is on South Griffin Street in downtown Dallas. Razzle Dazzle Dallas was first held at the fairgrounds in June 1979 as a party to celebrate Gay Pride geek. Last year the 5th annual event drew over 4000 celebrants. But it has evolved from a social party to a ma~or fundraiser to support community service organizatlons. This year the organizers expect close to 6000’gay people to attend in everything from blue ~eans to black tie. Free beer and soft drinks are available plus a cash liquor bar. You may dance to the music of d.~. Shaun Buchanan from the Saintin NYC, play games in the Casino area, enjoy Las Vegas performer Rusty Narren, and visit the Boulevard and Bazaar area. Free bus transportation is available from the Cedar Springs and Throckmorton area and from the Crew’s.Inn. Hotel and travel packages ,are available through the Reservation Desk at 1-800-527-5818. Tickets after June 1 are $15.00 and after June 2~ they are $20.00. Please call or ~rite Razzte Dazzle Dallas, PO Box 50031, Dallas, TX 75250. OHR INFORMATION LINE HAS LESBIANS AND GA Y MEN AVAILABLE TO TALK WITH YOU. Memorable t uotes "Thank you, America. You’ve got good taste, style, and you kno~ a good drag queen ~hen you see one." --Boy George at the Grammy’s Rarch i, 1984. "I vish he vouldn’t run. I vish he’d go live on the ranch." --Reagan’s daughter, Patti Davis, in TIRE, Narch 19, 1984. "The gay movement uould get farther faster in the realm of equal treatment by abandoning the specious pose of ’sexual preference’ and candldly acknowledging that it is as bound to its own orbit as the Earth is to its etlipse. After a11, nothing that exists in nature can rightly be called ’unnatural.’" --#ewspaper columnlst Sydney Harris Chip Carter, son of former President Jimmy Carter, made an appearance at several gay bars in Louisville, KY in support of Walter Rondale’s campaign for the Democratic nomination for president. Carter talked to bar patrons about Mondale’s support of gay issues. He also passed out bu:tons and urged patrons to attend the caucuses being held that weekend in Kentucky. A committee of the U,S. Conference of Mayors has passed a resolution endorsing legal protections for gay people. After testimony by V~rg!nia gpuzzo of the NGTF, the Committee o~ Human Development approVed, a resolution reading: "Recognizing t.he right of all citizens, .regardless of sexual .orientation, to full participation in American society, the committee recommends ¯ that all levels of government adopt legal protections for the rights of gay and lesbian Americans." TO SUBSCRIBE OR RENEW: (800) 227-3040 Nationwide (800) 652-1880 California C~ling toll-free is the fastest and n~st convenient way to conduct your subscdptk)n business with The ADVOCATE. Our friendly operators are ready to help you 24 hours, 7 days a week. And when you call, you may charge your order to your VISA or Master Card, or ask to be billed later. Tulsa Office Broken Arrow Office 619 South Detroit 816 North Elm Place, Suite 3 (918) 582-0061 (918) 2583526 Apuzzo to Speak at Rally Ginny Apuzzo,. Executive Director of the National Gay Task Force, has agreed to.speak at the National March for Lesbian/Gay Rights on Sunday, July 15, in San Francisco. The march will be held during the Democratlc National convention and will focus the nationls attention on the cause For. gay civil rights. "Ms. Apuzzo is both a dynamic speaker and an extraordinary activist for gay rights. We are very pleased that she will be able to address our rally," commented Paul Boneberg, National March co-~hairperson. ~..Among the organizations endorsing the march are the NGTF, Black and White Men Together, and various local chapters of NOW, ACLU, etc. March organizers are seeking 1000 indivldual sponsors to donate $25 each. Donations may be sent to National march for Lesbian/Gay Rights, 2301 Market St., Suite A, San Francisco, CA 94114. For information you may call (415) B63-5005. Cowboys Plan Rodeo and Fair The annual National Reno Gay Rodeo and Country Fair will be held this year From July 19 to July 22 at the Nevada State Fairgrounds, Reno, Nevada. The Natlonal Gay Rodeo has become a major event on the west coast. A lot of "wild" rodeo action takes place each year along with the annual Horse Show, Western Dance Festival, Country Fair Arts and Crafts Booths, Western Entertainment, Dances, Boot Throwing Contest, and Talent Contest. This is a major event and begins with a Grand Entry Parade with drill teams, horsemen, floats, and vintage cars., For full details about entering, booth space, contests, accommod~-~{ons, and reserved seats, please call (702) 677-0742 or write Gay Rodeo, PO Box 2372, Reno, Nevada 89505. Couples’ Rights Case Set In Columbia, Maryland, Steve Jacobs and John Le- Bedda want to join the AAA Motor Club and take advantage of the subsantlal discount for spouses. But they can’t. Spousal discounts are only for married, straight couples. The National Gay Rights Advocates (NGRA’) is taking AAA to court. Howard County in Maryland has a law against discrimination based on sexual orientation and marital status. It’s an ideal spot for the NGRA~s opening round in its Couples~ Rights Legal Agenda. On the opposite coast in San Diego, NGRA is challenging AAA~s auto insurance policy. Leo Laurence and Robert Zelmer, Jr., have applied For a 20% spousal discount on AAA auto insurance. They have llved together six years (longer than many married couples who can get the discount). NGRA hopes to win these cases and pave the way for gay and lesbian couples to claim their rights to family discounts. NGRA hopes to tackle other couplesI rights cases and win rights to such things as pension benefits, tuition discounts, hospital visitation rights, health insurance~ income tax joint filing, etc. If you would llke to support NGRA in its efforts, please send your pledges to NGRA, 540 Castro. St., San Francisco, CA 94114 or call (415) 863-3624. Join NGTF today. Don’t miss the OHR MR. TULSA CONTEST! Advance tickets are only $5.00 for general admission or $6.50 for reserved seating. .~ickets are $g.0Q at the dQor. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1984] OHR Reporter, June 1984; Volume 4, Issue 6 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Oklahomans for Human Rights Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Oklahomans for Human Rights Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 1984-06 June 1984 OHR Reporter https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/9482b40483cbf07bbd674d1e04a1e476.jpg 6384cfcf0ef414d907208dbcb945c851 https://www.history.okeq.org/files/original/e2cc59afcf8724417b5d4ac41f39d172.pdf abd40fd514b348becb11afa6c2706b4c PDF Text Text TULSA OKLAHOMAN S FOR HUMAN RIGHTS P.O. BOX 52729 TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74152 JANUARY MEETING 1/9 JANUARY 1984 Vol. 4, No. 1 The monthly business meeting and program for OHR will be held on Monday evening, November 14, at 7:00 p.m. in the First National Bank Auditorium, lower level, 4th and Main. This month’s program will be the program originally scheduled for December and the one described in the December newsletter. Because of a conflict, another program--an AIDS update by Dr. Jeff Beal--was substituted. Dr. Marion Sugurdson, Ph.D. in Psychology, and Dr. Raphella Sohier, Ph.D. in Health Sciences, will present a program dealing with Sexual Identity. This promises to be a program you’.ll want to hear. A question and answer session will follow the presenation. Also, the January meeting will give you a chance to meet the new officers. They will be installed and officially begin their duties. Don’t forget: OHR meetings are free and open to everyone. come join us and bring a friend on Monday, January 9, at 7:00 p.m. STD CLINIC And what did you get for Christmas? 1/20 The bi-monthly Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) clinic will be held on Friday, January 20, from 9:00 to 11:00 p.m. at the Tulsa Mining Company, llth and Wheeling. The clinic is free and the results are strictly confidential. Don’t give the gift that keeps on giving! Get checked on January 20. AEROBICS CLASS I/i0 An aerobics class is being offered again--and it begins this month. If you have gobbled up too many calories during this holiday season, make a resolution in 1984 to enroll in the OHR aerobics class. Last October, approximately 20 fellows enrolled in t~e OHR aerobics class and they "worked hard for the moneJro" (Actually it only costs $20 bucks.) But now it’s your chance to join them as a new session is about to begin. The class will meet at Thoreau. Junior High School, 71st and Memorial, The sessions will last six weeks and be on Tuesday and Thursday eveninqs from 8:30 to 9:30 startinq on January lOth. �The class is open to both men and women. You can sign up at the January lOth meeting or call Brian at 744-0174. Hurry as space is limited’. WATERCOLOR CLASS In 1983, OHR offered a chance for you to develop a new hobby-watercolor painting. Several people enjoyed the class taught by OHR member Ken Johnston. Ken, who has written three books on the subject and teaches the course all over the country, will be offering the class to anyone who wants to learn. If you have been intrigued by watercoloring, now is the time to pursue this interest and acquire a new skill. Ken emphasizes that no previous watercolor or free-hand drawing experience is required! Find out more about this beginner’s course at the January lOth meeting. Space is limited so be there to sign up! NEWSPAPER REPORTERS At the December meeting, some discussion was held dealing with inviting some World/Tribunewritersto an OHR meeting so that they may be "sensitized"about gay issues. It comes as no surprise that stereotypes and negative perspectives continue to be presented in Tulsa newspapers. The Executive Board has decided not to have any reporters attend the OHR meeting until February. Guidelines that will be followed--if they do attend-- include no full names, places of employment, or other personal data; no photographs; and no information will be given concerning OHR financial data. If you have other suggestions, please let an officer know. CHRISTMAS COMMUNITY SERVICE PROJECT The OHR service project was a great success! Donations of food and toys totalling nearly $I000 were delivered to needy families. Turkeys, hams, canned food, and toys made Christmas brighter for many. Rev. Alice Jones of MCC, the OHR Info Line, the YWCA Displaced Homemakers Program, and Neighbor for Neighbor helped with need family referrals. These included many single-parent families from our own community. The committee prepared and mailed media information sheets to newspapers, radio, and television stations, and to gay-related publications describing the project. Thanks go to the committee members, to MCC, and to Zippers and the Bamboo, and to OHR members for their generous contributions. TWO REMINDERS INFO LINE: The OHR Information Line receives over 4000 calls per month. Volunteers are available seven nights a week to staff the line. If you are interested in helping, call Jack at~495-1963. OHR MEMBERSHIP: OHR membership costs only $1 per month and~uns from July to July. Join now! � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document TULSA OKLAHOMAN S FOR HUMAN RIGHTS P.O. BOX 52729 TULSA, OKLAHOMA 74152 JANUARY 1984 Vol. 4, No. 1 JANUARY MEETING 1/9 The monthly business meeting and program for OHR will be held on Monday evening, November 14, at 7:00 p.m. in the First National Bank Auditorium, lower level, 4th and Main. This month’s program will be the program originally scheduled for December and the one described in the December newsletter. Because of a conflict, another program--an AIDS update by Dr. Jeff Beal--was substituted. Dr. Marion Sugurdson, Ph.D. in Psychology, and Dr. Raphella Sohier, Ph.D. in Health Sciences, will present a program dealing with Sexual Identity. This promises to be a program you’.ll want to hear. A question and answer session will follow the presenation. Also, the January meeting will give you a chance to meet the new officers. They will be installed and officially begin their duties. Don’t forget: OHR meetings are free and open to everyone. come join us and bring a friend on Monday, January 9, at 7:00 p.m. STD CLINIC 1/20 And what did you get for Christmas? The bi-monthly Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) clinic will be held on Friday, January 20, from 9:00 to 11:00 p.m. at the Tulsa Mining Company, llth and Wheeling. The clinic is free and the results are strictly confidential. Don’t give the gift that keeps on giving! Get checked on January 20. AEROBICS CLASS I/i0 An aerobics class is being offered again--and it begins this month. If you have gobbled up too many calories during this holiday season, make a resolution in 1984 to enroll in the OHR aerobics class. Last October, approximately 20 fellows enrolled in t~e OHR aerobics class and they "worked hard for the moneJro" (Actually it only costs $20 bucks.) But now it’s your chance to join them as a new session is about to begin. The class will meet at Thoreau. Junior High School, 71st and Memorial, The sessions will last six weeks and be on Tuesday and Thursday eveninqs from 8:30 to 9:30 startinq on January lOth. The class is open to both men and women. You can sign up at the January lOth meeting or call Brian at 744-0174. Hurry as space is limited’. WATERCOLOR CLASS In 1983, OHR offered a chance for you to develop a new hobby-- watercolor painting. Several people enjoyed the class taught by OHR member Ken Johnston. Ken, who has written three books on the subject and teaches the course all over the country, will be offering the class to anyone who wants to learn. If you have been intrigued by watercoloring, now is the time to pursue this interest and acquire a new skill. Ken emphasizes that no previous watercolor or free-hand drawing experience is required! Find out more about this beginner’s course at the January lOth meeting. Space is limited so be there to sign up! NEWSPAPER REPORTERS At the December meeting, some discussion was held dealing with inviting some World/Tribunewritersto an OHR meeting so that they may be "sensitized"about gay issues. It comes as no surprise that stereotypes and negative perspectives continue to be presented in Tulsa newspapers. The Executive Board has decided not to have any reporters attend the OHR meeting until February. Guidelines that will be followed--if they do attend-- include no full names, places of employment, or other personal data; no photographs; and no information will be given concerning OHR financial data. If you have other suggestions, please let an officer know. CHRISTMAS COMMUNITY SERVICE PROJECT The OHR service project was a great success! Donations of food and toys totalling nearly $I000 were delivered to needy families. Turkeys, hams, canned food, and toys made Christmas brighter for many. Rev. Alice Jones of MCC, the OHR Info Line, the YWCA Displaced Homemakers Program, and Neighbor for Neighbor helped with need family referrals. These included many single-parent families from our own community. The committee prepared and mailed media information sheets to newspapers, radio, and television stations, and to gay-related publications describing the project. Thanks go to the committee members, to MCC, and to Zippers and the Bamboo, and to OHR members for their generous contributions. TWO REMINDERS INFO LINE: The OHR Information Line receives over 4000 calls per month. Volunteers are available seven nights a week to staff the line. If you are interested in helping, call Jack at~495-1963. OHR MEMBERSHIP: OHR membership costs only $1 per month and~uns from July to July. Join now! Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Text Any textual data included in the document FEBRUARY 1984 Volume4 Number 2 Goodstein is familiar to most people through his popular and controversial hi-weekly ADVOCATE column called ~Opening Space.~ He is also the founder and one of the facilitators of the Experience Weekend (previously called The Advocate Experience), a two-day learning and self-discovery workshop with over 7500 graduates. His accomplishments as a leader in the gay movement have reflected his firm belief in the U S. system of government. Goodst&in was responsible for creating the Gay Rights National Lobby in 1976. Super-Living: You Can Have the Life You Want (Prentice Hall) is Goodstein’s new book which tells how to create abundance in ;relationships, money, health, and happiness. According te OHR president Brian Mumey, Goodstein will arrive in Tulsa on February 13, speak to OHR that evening, and hold a press conference the next day before returning to Los Angeles. "This is a meeting that Tulsa gays shouldn’t miss. The board hopes to have a very good turnout for Goodstein. We’re encouraging everyone to attend and bring some friends with them," said Mumey. David Goodstein, publisher of the After he acquired the news- The February meeting will be Mon- ADVOCATE, will speak at the monthly magazine, he successfully changed day evening, February 13, in the i ............ i OHR meeting on Monday, February 13. its direction from a Los First National Bank auditorium, 4th Goodstein is president of Libera- Angeles-based newspaper to a nation- and Main. The business meeting tion Publications, Inc., which pub- al news and feature magazine. The begins at 7:00 and the program at lishes the ADVOCATE, the nation’s circulation more than doubled during 8:00 p.m. leading gay newsmagazine, the process. OKLAHO/V NS . or HUN N RIGHT . " GAY. HELP. LINE (918) 587-GAYS Info Line Receives Over 4000 Calls Monthly "l’m worried about getting AIDS. Do you have any information on it?" "What do I do about my lover who may be an alcoholic?" "I may be transferred to Tulsa. What’s gay life llke there?" These are just a few of the questions OHR Information Line volunteers handled during one week in January. The Info Line records an average of 4500 calls monthly, with trained volunteers handllng over" 250 of these calls personally. The question most often asked relates to location and atmosphere of local bars. However, many callers ask for details about OHR, while others need counsellng or counseling referrals. Of course, there are the usual number of harrassment calls. "I feel good after I’ve answered a question, listened to someone with a problem, or made someone feel less lonely," said one volunteer. If you want more information about the Info Line or you would like to consider joining the thirty other volunteers, call Jack at 495-1963 or Brian at 744-0174. Info Line Statistics Oct./Nov./Dec./1983 Callers 374 Male 151 Female New Executive Board Sets 1984 Goals "OHR has made a real difference in my llfe. I hate to think what life in Tulsa would be like for gay people without OHR." In a way, this statement by one relatively new Tulsan and OHR member says it all. OHR makes a real difference in Tulsa. For many lesblans and gay men, the OHR newsletter is their only informational link to the gay community. For others, the OHR Helpllne makes the difference between loneliness/despair and contact with someone who car.es, The 1984 OHR Executive Board has dedicated itself to making this a terrific year for OHR, for the entire Tulsa gay community. Symbolic of this effort is our first major speaker of the year, David Goodstein, publisher Of the ADVOCATE, the nation’s leadlng gay newsmagazine. We hope this will see standard for the programs and projects we undertake this year. Look for continuing improvements in the newsletter, the new outreach efforts both to the gay and the straight communities, for increased membership, for programs both educational and fun, ranging from our Women’s Task Force to a terrific special guest at the Mr. Tulsa contest. This Executive ~oard will strive to be creative, enthusiastic, and energetic, yet realistic, goal-oriented, and organized. Our success will depend largely on you--your ideas, your support, your participation, your constructive criticism, and when deserved, your praise. Where do we start? JOIN ...if you are not an OHR member, send in your check now. If you are a member, share OHR with a friend. THINK ...what you can do to help OHR reach more people and to improve the programs. Let us know your thoughts. WORK ... in the many events we have this year. Help with the garage sale, volunteer for the Helpllne, start a support group. CARE ... ~bout yourself and also about the needs, feelings, frustrations, and ambitions of others. Help OHR meet those needs. You can help OHR make a difference. It’s going to be a great year. Be a part of it! Sincerely, Brian, J L , Shelley, Norman Chris, Richard, and Jack -- Collectibles -- 1513 East on tSth Street Tulsa 74120 P.S. Hou~ -- Friday and Saturday I I:~ a.m. -- 4:001).-*. Sunday 583.9020 I.~ I~.~ -- 4:~ p.~ Calls 150 Bar referral info 81 Counseling 69 OHR info 148 Harrassment Total Calls for 3 months--13,693 THE TULSA CHAPTER OF OKLAHOMANS FOR HUMAN RIGHTS CARRIAGE TRADE Furniture, Consignments, Antiques Estate Sales, & Light Hauling ~Jared Bruce 1602 E. 15th St. Bus: 582-3018 Tulsa, Oklahoma OHR Charters Bus to Hear Gloria Steinem Gloria Steinem, one of America’s most famous spokespersons of the feminist movement, will be speaking at Oklahoma State University on Wednesday evening, March 14. National Organization for Women will be sponsoring a bus to the event. The round trip from Tulsa to Stillwater will cost $7.00. The ticket to hear Ms. Steinem will be $5.00 The bus will hold only kO people so anyone wanting to go should make reservations as quickly as possible. Ms. Steinem travels extensively as a lecturer and often appears on television interview shows. She helped found Ms. Magazine and has a brand new book out called Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebelllons (Holt, Rinehart ~ Winston). Make your reservation by calling Brian at 74~-017k or sign up at the OHR meeting on February 13. "’Swetheart Ball’" to Benefit Sooner Softball League THE SWEEqHEART BALL, a fundralser for the Sooner Softball. League, wil! be held on Saturday evening, February 18, at B:O0 p.m. The benefit will be at the Tulsa Home Builders’ Association building at ~3rd and Garnett. The gala benefit will feature pop- ,Ular dance music, a DJ, plus some live entertainment during the evening. A "Sweetheart" will also be selected at the ball. Advance tickets are $5.00 single and $8.00 per couple. However, the night of the Sweetheart Ball the tickets will be $7.00 single and $10.00 per couple at the door. Tickets may be purchased at Tim’s Playroom, the. Tulsa Mining Company, and at the February 13th OHR meeting. David Millison 7474 East Admiral Place Tulsa, Oklahoma 74115 © 918-838-7795 MARSHON’S ofW/alnut Creek l~rk A. Trottier REDKIN (918) 481-1010 8156 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, Oklahoma 74136 TO SUBSCRIBE OR RENEW: (800) 227-3040 Nationwide (800) 652-1880. California Grilling toll-free is tne fastest and most convenient way to conduct your subscription business with The ADVOCATE. Our friendly operators are.ready to help you 24 hours, 7 days a week. And when you call, you may charge your order to your VISA or Master Card, or ask to be billed later. Uttlclal Fubl].caI:lon OT uK~anoman’s for human ~zLJnL~ - ~u~ v.eF~cl P.O. Box 52729 Tulsa, Oklahoma,7t,152, 3303 So. Peoria Tulsa, OK 74105 743-7786 JOHN REICH NUDES We support O.H.R.& our community Custom Framing Lay-A-Way , ORIGINAL Tues - Thur til 6 Fri - Sat til 7:30 moulo you liKe go make a 6U[ILI’IUU-- tion to scientific knowledge? Now you Have your chance. If you are a gay person and have a natural.brother qr~ sister who is also gay or a brother or sister to whom you have "come out,~I you are/~ needed for part of a serious study on Gender Identity. If you are willing to take p~rt in this research, please call Dr. Raphella Sohier, University of Oklahoma College of Nursing, Tulsa Medical College, 834-3464, ext. 295. Just tell the secretary you would like Dr. Sohler to call you. The study requires,that you talk about your childhood for 30 minutes and answer a few questions in response to two short narratives. Total time will be about one hour. Your identity will be known only to Dr. Sohier, and the results of the study will be made available to you if you wish. Membership in the Tulsa Chapter of Oklahomans for Human Rights is only $12.00 per year. The membership runs from July to July. A person may join now for only $5.00 and renew in July for a full year. Or $17.00 will make you a member untii July Ig84. Please do your part to help keep OHR a viable part of Tulsa. Send in your check or write for a brochure today. MEMBERSHIP APPLICATION ADDRESS CITY " STATE .................... ZIP ( ) I am 18 years oldg~-~l~e~] ’.(": ~) $12.00 r~embership fee ( a contribution of $ TO: Oklahoman~for Ht~man Ri~h’tS P.O. Box 52729 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74152 Gay Newsmagazine Available in Tulsa .A new statewide gay newsmagazine, the Gayly Oklahoman, is currently available to Tulsans. Published in Oklahoma City, the current issue is 3~ pages and contains ’articles on local and national news, book reviews, interviews, an events calendar, and advertising. The Gayly Oklahoman is free and may be obtained at Tulsa gay bars, the MCC, and the next OHR meeting. Upcoming Events to Watch For * The annual OHR FOLLIES. Tentative plans call for the show to be held on March 18; * At the OHR meeting a special announcement will be made about the 1984 MR. TULSA contest. * Don’t forget: OHR will hold a Garage Sale in early spring. Be thinking about articles you can donate. "~’.lo!cal:.’~kap~r 6f Oignity/Integrity is being ~d’rmeTd’%~d~heeds your support. Dignit~, For gay Catho~~’~’~T’ and I~f~"gr~ty7" an ~anization for .gay Episcopalians, haVe’c~apters nationwide. ~ -The; two organizations are being °~6~bined into).one chapter in Tulsa. "~Or’t~en~ly the,~roup meets..the se.cgnd the foGrth Thq.~sdays. However, some discussion h~s been held regard~.g’ changing one,of the meeting nights to Sunday. Anyone i~t@r~.~t&O, in learning more a’bout DiG ’ }h tegrity or who ’~~d- lik:e me~ting may call Daphne at 583-7063. TO RE.PORT: ANTI-GAY VIOLENCE TO OBTAIN: A.I.D.S. REFERRALS Call toll-fr.ee In N.Y. 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